,,reflections2 ,,or ,,sentences ,,and ,,moral ,,maxims ,by ,francois ,duc ,de ,la ,rochefoucauld1 ,prince de ,marsillac ,translated from the ,editions of #afgh and #ahbg with introduction1 notes1 and some account of the author and his times4 ,by ,j4 ,w4 ,willis ,bund1 ,m4,a4 ,,ll4,b and ,j4 ,hain ,friswell ,simpson ,low1 ,son1 and ,marston1 #ahh1 ,fleet ,street4 #ahga4 ,,transcribers ,,notes3 spelling variants are preserved 7e4g4 labour instead of labor1 criticise instead of criticize1 etc472 the translators' comments are in square brackets 444 as they are in the text2 footnotes are indicated by 99 and appear immediately following the passage containing the note 7in the text they appear at the bottom of the page72 and1 finally1 corrections and addenda are in curly brackets 4444 ,,rochefoucauld ,as ,rochefoucauld his maxims drew ,from ,nature--,i believe them true4 ,they argue no corrupted mind ,in him2 the fault is in mankind4--,swift4 ,les ,maximes de la ,rochefoucauld sont des proverbs des gens d'esprit4--,montesquieu4 ,maxims are the condensed good sense of nations4--,sir ,j4 ,mackintosh4 ,translators should not work alone2 for good ,et ,propria ,verba do not always occur to one mind4--,luther's ,table ,talk1 iii4 ,,contents ,preface 7translator's7 ,introduction 7translator's7 ,reflections and ,moral ,maxims ,first ,supplement ,second ,supplement ,third ,supplement ,reflections on ,various ,subjects ,index ,preface4 ,translators' ,some apology must be made for an attempt to translate the untranslatable4 ,notwithstanding there are no less than eight ,english translations of ,la ,rochefoucauld1 hardly any are readable1 none are free from faults1 and all fail more or less to convey the author's meaning4 ,though so often translated1 there is not a complete ,english edition of the ,maxims and ,reflections4 ,all the translations are confined exclusively to the ,maxims1 none include the ,reflections4 ,this may be accounted for1 from the fact that most of the translations are taken from the old editions of the ,maxims1 in which the ,reflections do not appear4 ,until ,m4 ,suard devoted his attention to the text of ,rochefoucauld1 the various editions were but reprints of the preceding ones1 without any regard to the alterations made by the author in the later editions published during his life-time4 ,so much was this the case1 that ,maxims which had been rejected by ,rochefoucauld in his last edition1 were still retained in the body of the work4 ,to give but one example1 the celebrated ,maxim as to the misfortunes of our friends1 was omitted in the last edition of the book1 published in ,rochefoucauld's life-time1 yet in every ,english edition this ,maxim appears in the body of the work4 ,m4 ,aime ,martin in #ahbg published an edition of the ,maxims and ,reflections which has ever since been the standard text of ,rochefoucauld in ,france4 ,the ,maxims are printed from the edition of #afgh1 the last published during the author's life1 and the last which received his corrections4 ,to this edition were added two ,supplements2 the first containing the ,maxims which had appeared in the editions of #affe1 #afff1 and #afge1 and which were afterwards omitted2 the second1 some additional ,maxims found among various of the author's manuscripts in the ,royal ,library at ,paris4 ,and a ,series of ,reflections which had been previously published in a work called ,receuil de pieces d'histoire et de litterature4 ,paris1 #agca4 ,they were first published with the ,maxims in an edition by ,gabriel ,brotier4 ,in an edition of ,rochefoucauld entitled ,reflexions1 ou ,sentences et ,maximes ,morales1 augmentees de plus deux cent nouvelles ,maximes et ,maximes et ,pensees diverses suivant les copies ,imprimees a ,paris1 chez ,claude ,barbin1 et ,matre ,cramoisy #afib199 some fifty ,maxims were added1 ascribed by the editor to ,rochefoucauld1 and as his family allowed them to be published under his name1 it seems probable they were genuine4 ,these fifty form the third supplement to this book4 99,in all the ,french editions this book is spoken of as published in #afic4 ,the only copy ,i have seen is in the ,cambridge ,university ,library1 #dg1 #af1 #ha1 and is called ,reflexions ,morales4 ,the apology for the present edition of ,rochefoucauld must therefore be twofold3 firstly1 that it is an attempt to give the public a complete ,english edition of ,rochefoucauld's works as a moralist4 ,the body of the work comprises the ,maxims as the author finally left them1 the first supplement1 those published in former editions1 and rejected by the author in the later2 the second1 the unpublished ,maxims taken from the author's correspondence and manuscripts1 and the third1 the ,maxims first published in #afib4 ,while the ,reflections1 in which the thoughts in the ,maxims are extended and elaborated1 now appear in ,english for the first time4 ,and secondly1 that it is an attempt 7to quote the preface of the edition of #agdi7 to do the ,duc de la ,rochefoucauld the justice to make him speak ,english4 ,introduction ,translators' ,the description of the ancien regime in ,france1 a despotism tempered by epigrams1 like most epigrammatic sentences1 contains some truth1 with much fiction4 ,the society of the last half of the seventeenth1 and the whole of the eighteenth centuries1 was doubtless greatly influenced by the precise and terse mode in which the popular writers of that date expressed their thoughts4 ,to a people naturally inclined to think that every possible view1 every conceivable argument1 upon a question is included in a short aphorism1 a shrug1 and the word voila1 truths expressed in condensed sentences must always have a peculiar charm4 ,it is1 perhaps1 from this love of epigram1 that we find so many eminent ,french writers of maxims4 ,pascal1 ,de ,retz1 ,la ,rochefoucauld1 ,la ,bruyere1 ,montesquieu1 and ,vauvenargues1 each contributed to the rich stock of ,french epigrams4 ,no other country can show such a list of brilliant writers--in ,england certainly we cannot4 ,our most celebrated1 ,lord ,bacon1 has1 by his other works1 so surpassed his maxims1 that their fame is1 to a great measure1 obscured4 ,the only ,englishman who could have rivalled ,la ,rochefoucauld or ,la ,bruyere was the ,earl of ,chesterfield1 and he only could have done so from his very intimate connexion with ,france2 but unfortunately his brilliant genius was spent in the impossible task of trying to refine a boorish young ,briton1 in cutting blocks with a razor4 ,of all the ,french epigrammatic writers ,la ,rochefoucauld is at once the most widely known1 and the most distinguished4 ,voltaire1 whose opinion on the century of ,louis ,,xiv4 is entitled to the greatest weight1 says1 ,one of the works that most largely contributed to form the taste of the nation1 and to diffuse a spirit of justice and precision1 is the collection of maxims1 by ,francois ,duc de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,this ,francois1 the second ,duc de la ,rochefoucauld1 ,prince de ,marsillac1 the author of the maxims1 was one of the most illustrious members of the most illustrious families among the ,french noblesse4 ,descended from the ancient ,dukes of ,guienne1 the founder of the ,family ,fulk or ,foucauld1 a younger branch of the ,house of ,lusignan1 was at the commencement of the eleventh century the ,seigneur of a small town1 ,la ,roche1 in the ,angounois4 ,our chief knowledge of this feudal lord is drawn from the monkish chronicles4 ,as the benefactor of the various abbeys and monasteries in his province1 he is naturally spoken of by them in terms of eulogy1 and in the charter of one of the abbeys of ,angouleme he is called1 vir nobilissimus ,fulcaldus4 ,his territorial power enabled him to adopt what was then1 as is still in ,scotland1 a common custom1 to prefix the name of his estate to his surname1 and thus to create and transmit to his descendants the illustrious surname of ,la ,rochefoucauld4 ,from that time until that great crisis in the history of the ,french aristocracy1 the ,revolution of #aghi1 the family of ,la ,rochefoucauld have been1 if not first1 in the very first line of that most illustrious body4 ,one ,seigneur served under ,philip ,augustus against ,richard ,coeur de ,lion1 and was made prisoner at the battle of ,gisors4 ,the eighth ,seigneur ,guy performed a great tilt at ,bordeaux1 attended 7according to ,froissart7 to the ,lists by some two hundred of his kindred and relations4 ,the sixteenth ,seigneur ,francais was chamberlain to ,charles ,,viii4 and ,louis ,,xii41 and stood at the font as sponsor1 giving his name to that last light of ,french chivalry1 ,francis ,i4 ,in #aeae he was created a baron1 and was afterwards advanced to a count1 on account of his great service to ,francis and his predecessors4 ,the second count pushed the family fortune still further by obtaining a patent as the ,prince de ,marsillac4 ,his widow1 ,anne de ,polignac1 entertained ,charles ,v4 at the family chateau at ,verteuil1 in so princely a manner that on leaving ,charles observed1 ,he had never entered a house so redolent of high virtue1 uprightness1 and lordliness as that mansion4 ,the third count1 after serving with distinction under the ,duke of ,guise against the ,spaniards1 was made prisoner at ,st4 ,quintin1 and only regained his liberty to fall a victim to the bloody infamy of ,st4 ,bartholomew4 ,his son1 the fourth count1 saved with difficulty from that massacre1 after serving with distinction in the religious wars1 was taken prisoner in a skirmish at ,st4 ,yriex la ,perche1 and murdered by the ,leaguers in cold blood4 ,the fifth count1 one of the ministers of ,louis ,,xiii41 after fighting against the ,english and ,buckingham at the ,ile de ,re1 was created a duke4 ,his son ,francis1 the second duke1 by his writings has made the family name a household word4 ,the third duke fought in many of the earlier campaigns of ,louis ,,xiv4 at ,torcy1 ,lille1 ,cambray1 and was dangerously wounded at the passage of the ,rhine4 ,from his bravery he rose to high favour at ,court1 and was appointed ,master of the ,horse 7,grand ,veneur7 and ,lord ,chamberlain4 ,his son1 the fourth duke1 commanded the regiment of ,navarre1 and took part in storming the village of ,neerwinden on the day when ,william ,,iii4 was defeated at ,landen4 ,he was afterwards created ,duc de la ,rochequyon and ,marquis de ,liancourt4 ,the fifth duke1 banished from ,court by ,louis ,,xv41 became the friend of the philosopher ,voltaire4 ,the sixth duke1 the friend of ,condorcet1 was the last of the long line of noble lords who bore that distinguished name4 ,in those terrible days of ,september1 #agib1 when the ,french people were proclaiming universal humanity1 the duke was seized as an aristocrat by the mob at ,gisors and put to death behind his own carriage1 in which sat his mother and his wife1 at the very place where1 some six centuries previously1 his ancestor had been taken prisoner in a fair fight4 ,a modern writer has spoken of this murder as an admirable reprisal upon the grandson for the writings and conduct of the grandfather4 ,but ,m4 ,sainte ,beuve observes as to this1 he can see nothing admirable in the death of the duke1 and if it proves anything1 it is only that the grandfather was not so wrong in his judgment of men as is usually supposed4 ,francis1 the author1 was born on the #aeth ,december #afae4 ,m4 ,sainte ,beuve divides his life into four periods1 first1 from his birth till he was thirty-five1 when he became mixed up in the war of the ,fronde2 the second period1 during the progress of that war2 the third1 the twelve years that followed1 while he recovered from his wounds1 and wrote his maxims during his retirement from society2 and the last from that time till his death4 ,in the same way that ,herodotus calls each book of his history by the name of one of the muses1 so each of these four periods of ,la ,rochefoucauld's life may be associated with the name of a woman who was for the time his ruling passion4 ,these four ladies are the ,duchesse de ,chevreuse1 the ,duchesse de ,longueville1 ,madame de ,sable1 and ,madame de ,la ,fayette4 ,la ,rochefoucauld's early education was neglected2 his father1 occupied in the affairs of state1 either had not1 or did not devote any time to his education4 ,his natural talents and his habits of observation soon1 however1 supplied all deficiencies4 ,by birth and station placed in the best society of the ,french ,court1 he soon became a most finished courtier4 ,knowing how precarious ,court favour then was1 his father1 when young ,rochefoucauld was only nine years old1 sent him into the army4 ,he was subsequently attached to the regiment of ,auvergne4 ,though but sixteen he was present1 and took part in the military operations at the siege of ,cassel4 ,the ,court of ,louis ,,xiii4 was then ruled imperiously by ,richelieu4 ,the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld was strongly opposed to the ,cardinal's party4 ,by joining in the plots of ,gaston of ,orleans1 he gave ,richelieu an opportunity of ridding ,paris of his opposition4 ,when those plots were discovered1 the ,duke was sent into a sort of banishment to ,blois4 ,his son1 who was then at ,court with him1 was1 upon the pretext of a liaison with ,mdlle4 d',hautefort1 one of the ladies in waiting on the ,queen 7,anne of ,austria71 but in reality to prevent the ,duke learning what was passing at ,paris1 sent with his father4 ,the result of the exile was ,rochefoucauld's marriage4 ,with the exception that his wife's name was ,mdlle4 ,vivonne1 and that she was the mother of five sons and three daughters1 nothing is known of her4 ,while ,rochefoucauld and his father were at ,blois1 the ,duchesse de ,chevreuse1 one of the beauties of the ,court1 and the mistress of ,louis1 was banished to ,tours4 ,she and ,rochefoucauld met1 and soon became intimate1 and for a time she was destined to be the one motive of his actions4 ,the ,duchesse was engaged in a correspondence with the ,court of ,spain and the ,queen4 ,into this plot ,rochefoucauld threw himself with all his energy2 his connexion with the ,queen brought him back to his old love ,mdlle4 d',hautefort1 and led him to her party1 which he afterwards followed4 ,the course he took shut him off from all chance of ,court favour4 ,the ,king regarded him with coldness1 the ,cardinal with irritation4 ,although the ,bastile and the scaffold1 the fate of ,chalais and ,montmorency1 were before his eyes1 they failed to deter him from plotting4 ,he was about twenty-three2 returning to ,paris1 he warmly sided with the ,queen4 ,he says in his ,memoirs that the only persons she could then trust were himself and ,mdlle4 d',hautefort1 and it was proposed he should take both of them from ,paris to ,brussels4 ,into this plan he entered with all his youthful indiscretion1 it being for several reasons the very one he would wish to adopt1 as it would strengthen his influence with ,anne of ,austria1 place ,richelieu and his master in an uncomfortable position1 and save ,mdlle4 d',hautefort from the attentions the ,king was showing her4 ,but ,richelieu of course discovered this plot1 and ,rochefoucauld was1 of course1 sent to the ,bastile4 ,he was liberated after a week's imprisonment1 but banished to his chateau at ,verteuil4 ,the reason for this clemency was that the ,cardinal desired to win ,rochefoucauld from the ,queen's party4 ,a command in the army was offered to him1 but by the ,queen's orders refused4 ,for some three years ,rochefoucauld remained at ,verteuil1 waiting the time for his reckoning with ,richelieu2 speculating on the ,king's death1 and the favours he would then receive from the ,queen4 ,during this period he was more or less engaged in plotting against his enemy the ,cardinal1 and hatching treason with ,cinq ,mars and ,de ,thou4 ,m4 ,sainte ,beuve says1 that unless we study this first part of ,rochefoucauld's life1 we shall never understand his maxims4 ,the bitter disappointment of the passionate love1 the high hopes then formed1 the deceit and treachery then witnessed1 furnished the real key to their meaning4 ,the cutting cynicism of the morality was built on the ruins of that chivalrous ambition and romantic affection4 ,he saw his friend ,cinq ,mars sent to the scaffold1 himself betrayed by men whom he had trusted1 and the only reason he could assign for these actions was intense selfishness4 ,meanwhile1 ,richelieu died4 ,rochefoucauld returned to ,court1 and found ,anne of ,austria regent1 and ,mazarin minister4 ,the ,queen's former friends flocked there in numbers1 expecting that now their time of prosperity had come4 ,they were bitterly disappointed4 ,mazarin relied on hope instead of gratitude1 to keep the ,queen's adherents on his side4 ,the most that any received were promises that were never performed4 ,in after years1 doubtless1 ,rochefoucauld's recollection of his disappointment led him to write the maxim3 ,we promise according to our hopes1 we perform according to our fears4 ,but he was not even to receive promises2 he asked for the ,governorship of ,havre1 which was then vacant4 ,he was flatly refused4 ,disappointment gave rise to anger1 and uniting with his old flame1 the ,duchesse de ,chevreuse1 who had received the same treatment1 and with the ,duke of ,beaufort1 they formed a conspiracy against the government4 ,the plot was1 of course1 discovered and crushed4 ,beaufort was arrested1 the ,duchesse banished4 ,irritated and disgusted1 ,rochefoucauld went with the ,duc d',enghein1 who was then joining the army1 on a campaign1 and here he found the one love of his life1 the ,duke's sister1 ,mdme4 de ,longueville4 ,this lady1 young1 beautiful1 and accomplished1 obtained a great ascendancy over ,rochefoucauld1 and was the cause of his taking the side of ,conde in the subsequent civil war4 ,rochefoucauld did not stay long with the army4 ,he was badly wounded at the siege of ,mardik1 and returned from thence to ,paris4 ,on recovering from his wounds1 the war of the ,fronde broke out4 ,this war is said to have been most ridiculous1 as being carried on without a definite object1 a plan1 or a leader4 ,but this description is hardly correct2 it was the struggle of the ,french nobility against the rule of the ,court2 an attempt1 the final attempt1 to recover their lost influence over the state1 and to save themselves from sinking under the rule of cardinals and priests4 ,with the general history of that war we have nothing to do2 it is far too complicated and too confused to be stated here4 ,the memoirs of ,rochefoucauld and ,de ,retz will give the details to those who desire to trace the contests of the factions--the course of the intrigues4 ,we may confine ourselves to its progress so far as it relates to the ,duc de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,on the ,cardinal causing the ,princes de ,conde and ,conti1 and the ,duc de ,longueville1 to be arrested1 ,rochefoucauld and the ,duchess fled into ,normandy4 ,leaving her at ,dieppe1 he went into ,poitou1 of which province he had some years previously bought the post of governor4 ,he was there joined by the ,duc de ,bouillon1 and he and the ,duke marched to1 and occupied ,bordeaux4 ,cardinal ,mazarin and ,marechal de la ,meilleraie advanced in force on ,bordeaux1 and attacked the town4 ,a bloody battle followed4 ,rochefoucauld defended the town with the greatest bravery1 and repulsed the ,cardinal4 ,notwithstanding the repulse1 the burghers of ,bordeaux were anxious to make peace1 and save the city from destruction4 ,the ,parliament of ,bordeaux compelled ,rochefoucauld to surrender4 ,he did so1 and returned nominally to ,poitou1 but in reality in secret to ,paris4 ,there he found the ,queen engaged in trying to maintain her position by playing off the rival parties of the ,prince ,conde and the ,cardinal ,de ,retz against each other4 ,rochefoucauld eagerly espoused his old party--that of ,conde4 ,in ,august1 #afea1 the contending parties met in the ,hall of the ,parliament of ,paris1 and it was with great difficulty they were prevented from coming to blows even there4 ,it is even said that ,rochefoucauld had ordered his followers to murder ,de ,retz4 ,rochefoucauld was soon to undergo a bitter disappointment4 ,while occupied with party strife and faction in ,paris1 ,madame de ,chevreuse left him1 and formed an alliance with the ,duc de ,nemours4 ,rochefoucauld still loved her4 ,it was1 probably1 thinking of this that he afterwards wrote1 ,jealousy is born with love1 but does not die with it4 ,he endeavoured to get ,madame de ,chatillon1 the old mistress of the ,duc de ,nemours1 reinstated in favour1 but in this he did not succeed4 ,the ,duc de ,nemours was soon after killed in a duel4 ,the war went on1 and after several indecisive skirmishes1 the decisive battle was fought at ,paris1 in the ,faubourg ,st4 ,antoine1 where the ,parisians first learnt the use or the abuse of their favourite defence1 the barricade4 ,in this battle1 ,rochefoucauld behaved with great bravery4 ,he was wounded in the head1 a wound which for a time deprived him of his sight4 ,before he recovered1 the war was over1 ,louis ,,xiv4 had attained his majority1 the gold of ,mazarin1 the arms of ,turenne1 had been successful1 the ,french nobility were vanquished1 the court supremacy established4 ,this completed ,rochefoucauld's active life4 ,when he recovered his health1 he devoted himself to society4 ,madame de ,sable assumed a hold over him4 ,he lived a quiet life1 and occupied himself in composing an account of his early life1 called his ,memoirs1 and his immortal ,maxims4 ,from the time he ceased to take part in public life1 ,rochefoucauld's real glory began4 ,having acted the various parts of soldier1 politician1 and lover with but small success1 he now commenced the part of moralist1 by which he is known to the world4 ,living in the most brilliant society that ,france possessed1 famous from his writings1 distinguished from the part he had taken in public affairs1 he formed the centre of one of those remarkable ,french literary societies1 a society which numbered among its members ,la ,fontaine1 ,racine1 ,boileau4 ,among his most attached friends was ,madame de ,la ,fayette 7the authoress of the ,princess of ,cleeves71 and this friendship continued until his death4 ,he was not1 however1 destined to pass away in that gay society without some troubles4 ,at the passage of the ,rhine in #afgb two of his sons were engaged2 the one was killed1 the other severely wounded4 ,rochefoucauld was much affected by this1 but perhaps still more by the death of the young ,duc de ,longueville1 who perished on the same occasion4 ,sainte ,beuve says that the cynical book and that young life were the only fruits of the war of the ,fronde4 ,madame de ,sevigne1 who was with him when he heard the news of the death of so much that was dear to him1 says1 ,i saw his heart laid bare on that cruel occasion1 and his courage1 his merit1 his tenderness1 and good sense surpassed all ,i ever met with4 ,i hold his wit and accomplishments as nothing in comparison4 ,the combined effect of his wounds and the gout caused the last years of ,rochefoucauld's life to be spent in great pain4 ,madame de ,sevigne1 who was with him continually during his last illness1 speaks of the fortitude with which he bore his sufferings as something to be admired4 ,writing to her daughter1 she says1 ,believe me1 it is not for nothing he has moralised all his life2 he has thought so often on his last moments that they are nothing new or unfamiliar to him4 ,in his last illness1 the great moralist was attended by the great divine1 ,bossuet4 ,whether that matchless eloquence or his own philosophic calm had1 in spite of his writings1 brought him into the state ,madame de ,sevigne describes1 we know not2 but one1 or both1 contributed to his passing away in a manner that did not disgrace a ,french noble or a ,french philosopher4 ,on the #aath ,march1 #afhj1 he ended his stormy life in peace after so much strife1 a loyal subject after so much treason4 ,one of his friends1 ,madame ,deshoulieres1 shortly before he died sent him an ode on death1 which aptly describes his state-- ,oui1 soyez alors plus ferme1 ,que ces vulgaires humains ,qui1 pres de leur dernier terme1 ,de vaines terreurs sont pleins4 ,en sage que rien n'offense1 ,livrez-vous sans resistance ,a d'inevitables traits2 ,et1 d'une demarche egale1 ,passez cette onde fatal ,qu'on ne repasse jamais4 ,rochefoucauld left behind him only two works1 the one1 ,memoirs of his own time1 the other the ,maxims4 ,the first described the scenes in which his youth had been spent1 and though written in a lively style1 and giving faithful pictures of the intrigues and the scandals of the court during ,louis ,,xiv4's minority1 yet1 except to the historian1 has ceased at the present day to be of much interest4 ,it forms1 perhaps1 the true key to understand the special as opposed to general application of the maxims4 ,notwithstanding the assertion of ,bayle1 that there are few people so bigoted to antiquity as not to prefer the ,memoirs of ,la ,rochefoucauld to the ,commentaries of ,caesar1 or the statement of ,voltaire1 that the ,memoirs are universally read and the ,maxims are learnt by heart1 few persons at the present day ever heard of the ,memoirs1 and the knowledge of most as to the ,maxims is confined to that most celebrated of all1 though omitted from his last edition1 ,there is something in the misfortunes of our best friends which does not wholly displease us4 ,yet it is difficult to assign a cause for this2 no book is perhaps oftener unwittingly quoted1 none certainly oftener unblushingly pillaged2 upon none have so many contradictory opinions been given4 ,few books1 says ,mr4 ,hallam1 have been more highly extolled1 or more severely blamed1 than the maxims of the ,duke of ,rochefoucauld1 and that not only here1 but also in ,france4 ,rousseau speaks of it as1 a sad and melancholy book1 though he goes on to say it is usually so in youth when we do not like seeing man as he is4 ,voltaire says of it1 in the words above quoted1 ,one of the works which most contributed to form the taste of the 7,french7 nation1 and to give it a spirit of justness and precision1 was the collection of the maxims of ,francois ,duc de la ,rochefoucauld1 though there is scarcely more than one truth running through the book--that 'self-love is the motive of everything'--yet this thought is presented under so many varied aspects that it is nearly always striking4 ,it is not so much a book as it is materials for ornamenting a book4 ,this little collection was read with avidity1 it taught people to think1 and to comprise their thoughts in a lively1 precise1 and delicate turn of expression4 ,this was a merit which1 before him1 no one in ,europe had attained since the revival of letters4 ,dr4 ,johnson speaks of it as the only book written by a man of fashion1 of which professed authors need be jealous4 ,lord ,chesterfield1 in his letters to his son1 says1 ,till you come to know mankind by your experience1 ,i know no thing nor no man that can in the meantime bring you so well acquainted with them as ,le ,duc de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,his little book of maxims1 which ,i would advise you to look into for some moments at least every day of your life1 is1 ,i fear1 too like and too exact a picture of human nature4 ,i own it seems to degrade it1 but yet my experience does not convince me that it degrades it unjustly4 ,bishop ,butler1 on the other hand1 blames the book in no measured terms4 ,there is a strange affectation1 says the bishop1 in some people of explaining away all particular affection1 and representing the whole life as nothing but one continued exercise of self-love4 ,hence arise that surprising confusion and perplexity in the ,epicureans of old1 ,hobbes1 the author of ',reflexions ,morales1' and the whole set of writers1 of calling actions interested which are done of the most manifest known interest1 merely for the gratification of a present passion4 ,the judgment the reader will be most inclined to adopt will perhaps be either that of ,mr4 ,hallam1 ,concise and energetic in expression1 reduced to those short aphorisms which leave much to the reader's acuteness and yet save his labour1 not often obscure1 and never wearisome1 an evident generalisation of long experience1 without pedantry1 without method1 without deductive reasonings1 yet wearing an appearance at least of profundity2 they delight the intelligent though indolent man of the world1 and must be read with some admiration by the philosopher 4 4 4 4 yet they bear witness to the contracted observation and the precipitate inferences which an intercourse with a single class of society scarcely fails to generate4 ,or that of ,addison1 who speaks of ,rochefoucauld as the great philosopher for administering consolation to the idle1 the curious1 and the worthless part of mankind4 ,we are fortunately in possession of materials such as rarely exist to enable us to form a judgment of ,rochefoucauld's character4 ,we have1 with a vanity that could only exist in a ,frenchman1 a description or portrait of himself1 of his own painting1 and one of those inimitable living sketches in which his great enemy1 ,cardinal ,de ,retz1 makes all the chief actors in the court of the regency of ,anne of ,austria pass across the stage before us4 ,we will first look on the portrait ,rochefoucauld has left us of himself3 ,i am1 says he1 of a medium height1 active1 and well-proportioned4 ,my complexion dark1 but uniform1 a high forehead2 and of moderate height1 black eyes1 small1 deep set1 eyebrows black and thick but well placed4 ,i am rather embarrassed in talking of my nose1 for it is neither flat nor aquiline1 nor large2 nor pointed3 but ,i believe1 as far as ,i can say1 it is too large than too small1 and comes down just a trifle too low4 ,i have a large mouth1 lips generally red enough1 neither shaped well nor badly4 ,i have white teeth1 and fairly even4 ,i have been told ,i have a little too much chin4 ,i have just looked at myself in the glass to ascertain the fact1 and ,i do not know how to decide4 ,as to the shape of my face1 it is either square or oval1 but which ,i should find it very difficult to say4 ,i have black hair1 which curls by nature1 and thick and long enough to entitle me to lay claim to a fine head4 ,i have in my countenance somewhat of grief and pride1 which gives many people an idea ,i despise them1 although ,i am not at all given to do so4 ,my gestures are very free1 rather inclined to be too much so1 for in speaking they make me use too much action4 ,such1 candidly1 ,i believe ,i am in outward appearance1 and ,i believe it will be found that what ,i have said above of myself is not far from the real case4 ,i shall use the same truthfulness in the remainder of my picture1 for ,i have studied myself sufficiently to know myself well2 and ,i will lack neither boldness to speak as freely as ,i can of my good qualities1 nor sincerity to freely avow that ,i have faults4 ,in the first place1 to speak of my temper4 ,i am melancholy1 and ,i have hardly been seen for the last three or four years to laugh above three or four times4 ,it seems to me that my melancholy would be even endurable and pleasant if ,i had none but what belonged to me constitutionally2 but it arises from so many other causes1 fills my imagination in such a way1 and possesses my mind so strongly that for the greater part of my time ,i remain without speaking a word1 or give no meaning to what ,i say4 ,i am extremely reserved to those ,i do not know1 and ,i am not very open with the greater part of those ,i do4 ,it is a fault ,i know well1 and ,i should neglect no means to correct myself of it2 but as a certain gloomy air ,i have tends to make me seem more reserved than ,i am in fact1 and as it is not in our power to rid ourselves of a bad expression that arises from a natural conformation of features1 ,i think that even when ,i have cured myself internally1 externally some bad expression will always remain4 ,i have ability4 ,i have no hesitation in saying it1 as for what purpose should ,i pretend otherwise4 ,so great circumvention1 and so great depreciation1 in speaking of the gifts one has1 seems to me to hide a little vanity under an apparent modesty1 and craftily to try to make others believe in greater virtues than are imputed to us4 ,on my part ,i am content not to be considered better-looking than ,i am1 nor of a better temper than ,i describe1 nor more witty and clever than ,i am4 ,once more1 ,i have ability1 but a mind spoilt by melancholy1 for though ,i know my own language tolerably well1 and have a good memory1 a mode of thought not particularly confused1 ,i yet have so great a mixture of discontent that ,i often say what ,i have to say very badly4 ,the conversation of gentlemen is one of the pleasures that most amuses me4 ,i like it to be serious and morality to form the substance of it4 ,yet ,i also know how to enjoy it when trifling2 and if ,i do not make many witty speeches1 it is not because ,i do not appreciate the value of trifles well said1 and that ,i do not find great amusement in that manner of raillery in which certain prompt and ready-witted persons excel so well4 ,i write well in prose2 ,i do well in verse2 and if ,i was envious of the glory that springs from that quarter1 ,i think with a little labour ,i could acquire some reputation4 ,i like reading1 in general2 but that in which one finds something to polish the wit and strengthen the soul is what ,i like best4 ,but1 above all1 ,i have the greatest pleasure in reading with an intelligent person1 for then we reflect constantly upon what we read1 and the observations we make form the most pleasant and useful form of conversation there is4 ,i am a fair critic of the works in verse and prose that are shown me2 but perhaps ,i speak my opinion with almost too great freedom4 ,another fault in me is that ,i have sometimes a spirit of delicacy far too scrupulous1 and a spirit of criticism far too severe4 ,i do not dislike an argument1 and ,i often of my own free will engage in one2 but ,i generally back my opinion with too much warmth1 and sometimes1 when the wrong side is advocated against me1 from the strength of my zeal for reason1 ,i become a little unreasonable myself4 ,i have virtuous sentiments1 good inclinations1 and so strong a desire to be a wholly good man that my friend cannot afford me a greater pleasure than candidly to show me my faults4 ,those who know me most intimately1 and those who have the goodness sometimes to give me the above advice1 know that ,i always receive it with all the joy that could be expected1 and with all reverence of mind that could be desired4 ,i have all the passions pretty mildly1 and pretty well under control4 ,i am hardly ever seen in a rage1 and ,i never hated any one4 ,i am not1 however1 incapable of avenging myself if ,i have been offended1 or if my honour demanded ,i should resent an insult put upon me2 on the contrary1 ,i feel clear that duty would so well discharge the office of hatred in me that ,i should follow my revenge with even greater keenness than other people4 ,ambition does not weary me4 ,i fear but few things1 and ,i do not fear death in the least4 ,i am but little given to pity1 and ,i could wish ,i was not so at all4 ,though there is nothing ,i would not do to comfort an afflicted person1 and ,i really believe that one should do all one can to show great sympathy to him for his misfortune1 for miserable people are so foolish that this does them the greatest good in the world2 yet ,i also hold that we should be content with expressing sympathy1 and carefully avoid having any4 ,it is a passion that is wholly worthless in a well-regulated mind1 which only serves to weaken the heart1 and which should be left to ordinary persons1 who1 as they never do anything from reason1 have need of passions to stimulate their actions4 ,i love my friends2 and ,i love them to such an extent that ,i would not for a moment weigh my interest against theirs4 ,i condescend to them1 ,i patiently endure their bad temper4 ,but1 also1 ,i do not make much of their caresses1 and ,i do not feel great uneasiness in their absence4 ,naturally1 ,i have but little curiosity about the majority of things that stir up curiosity in other men4 ,i am very secret1 and ,i have less difficulty than most men in holding my tongue as to what is told me in confidence4 ,i am most particular as to my word1 and ,i would never fail1 whatever might be the consequence1 to do what ,i had promised2 and ,i have made this an inflexible law during the whole of my life4 ,i keep the most punctilious civility to women4 ,i do not believe ,i have ever said anything before them which could cause them annoyance4 ,when their intellect is cultivated1 ,i prefer their society to that of men3 one there finds a mildness one does not meet with among ourselves1 and it seems to me beyond this that they express themselves with more neatness1 and give a more agreeable turn to the things they talk about4 ,as for flirtation1 ,i formerly indulged in a little1 now ,i shall do so no more1 though ,i am still young4 ,i have renounced all flirtation1 and ,i am simply astonished that there are still so many sensible people who can occupy their time with it4 ,i wholly approve of real loves2 they indicate greatness of soul1 and although1 in the uneasiness they give rise to1 there is a something contrary to strict wisdom1 they fit in so well with the most severe virtue1 that ,i believe they cannot be censured with justice4 ,to me who have known all that is fine and grand in the lofty aspirations of love1 if ,i ever fall in love1 it will assuredly be in love of that nature4 ,but in accordance with the present turn of my mind1 ,i do not believe that the knowledge ,i have of it will ever change from my mind to my heart4 ,such is his own description of himself4 ,let us now turn to the other picture1 delineated by the man who was his bitterest enemy1 and whom 7we say it with regret7 ,rochefoucauld tried to murder4 ,cardinal ,de ,retz thus paints him3-- ,in ,m4 de la ,rochefoucauld there was ever an indescribable something4 ,from his infancy he always wanted to be mixed up with plots1 at a time when he could not understand even the smallest interests 7which has indeed never been his weak point17 or comprehend greater ones1 which in another sense has never been his strong point4 ,he was never fitted for any matter1 and ,i really cannot tell the reason4 ,his glance was not sufficiently wide1 and he could not take in at once all that lay in his sight1 but his good sense1 perfect in theories1 combined with his gentleness1 his winning ways1 his pleasing manners1 which are perfect1 should more than compensate for his lack of penetration4 ,he always had a natural irresoluteness1 but ,i cannot say to what this irresolution is to be attributed4 ,it could not arise in him from the wealth of his imagination1 for that was anything but lively4 ,i cannot put it down to the barrenness of his judgment1 for1 although he was not prompt in action1 he had a good store of reason4 ,we see the effects of this irresolution1 although we cannot assign a cause for it4 ,he was never a general1 though a great soldier2 never1 naturally1 a good courtier1 although he had always a good idea of being so4 ,he was never a good partizan1 although all his life engaged in intrigues4 ,that air of pride and timidity which your see in his private life1 is turned in business into an apologetic manner4 ,he always believed he had need of it2 and this1 combined with his ',maxims1' which show little faith in virtue1 and his habitual custom1 to give up matters with the same haste he undertook them1 leads me to the conclusion that he would have done far better to have known his own mind1 and have passed himself off1 as he could have done1 for the most polished courtier1 the most agreeable man in private life that had appeared in his century4 ,it is but justice to the ,cardinal to say1 that the ,duc is not painted in such dark colours as we should have expected1 judging from what we know of the character of ,de ,retz4 ,with his marvellous power of depicting character1 a power unrivalled1 except by ,st4 ,simon and perhaps by ,lord ,clarendon1 we should have expected the malignity of the priest would have stamped the features of his great enemy with the impress of infamy1 and not have simply made him appear a courtier1 weak1 insincere1 and nothing more4 ,though rather beyond our subject1 the character of ,cardinal de ,retz1 as delineated by ,mdme4 ,sevigne1 in one of her letters1 will help us to form a true conclusion on the different characters of the ,duc and the ,cardinal4 ,she says3-- ,paul de ,gondi ,cardinal de ,retz possesses great elevation of character1 a certain extent of intellect1 and more of the ostentation than of the true greatness of courage4 ,he has an extraordinary memory1 more energy than polish in his words1 an easy humour1 docility of character1 and weakness in submitting to the complaints and reproaches of his friends1 a little piety1 some appearances of religion4 ,he appears ambitious without being really so4 ,vanity and those who have guided him1 have made him undertake great things1 almost all opposed to his profession4 ,he excited the greatest troubles in the ,state without any design of turning them to account1 and far from declaring himself the enemy of ,cardinal ,mazarin with any view of occupying his place1 he thought of nothing but making himself an object of dread to him1 and flattering himself with the false vanity of being his rival4 ,he was clever enough1 however1 to take advantage of the public calamities to get himself made ,cardinal4 ,he endured his imprisonment with firmness1 and owed his liberty solely to his own daring4 ,in the obscurity of a life of wandering and concealment1 his indolence for many years supported him with reputation4 ,he preserved the ,archbishopric of ,paris against the power of ,cardinal ,mazarin1 but after the death of that minister1 he resigned it without knowing what he was doing1 and without making use of the opportunity to promote the interests of himself and his friends4 ,he has taken part in several conclaves1 and his conduct has always increased his reputation4 ,his natural bent is to indolence1 nevertheless he labours with activity in pressing business1 and reposes with indifference when it is concluded4 ,he has great presence of mind1 and knows so well how to turn it to his own advantage on all occasions presented him by fortune1 that it would seem as if he had foreseen and desired them4 ,he loves to narrate1 and seeks to dazzle all his listeners indifferently by his extraordinary adventures1 and his imagination often supplies him with more than his memory4 ,the generality of his qualities are false1 and what has most contributed to his reputation is his power of throwing a good light on his faults4 ,he is insensible alike to hatred and to friendship1 whatever pains he may be at to appear taken up with the one or the other4 ,he is incapable of envy or avarice1 whether from virtue or from carelessness4 ,he has borrowed more from his friends than a private person could ever hope to be able to repay2 he has felt the vanity of acquiring so much on credit1 and of undertaking to discharge it4 ,he has neither taste nor refinement2 he is amused by everything and pleased by nothing4 ,he avoids difficult matters with considerable address1 not allowing people to penetrate the slight acquaintance he has with everything4 ,the retreat he has just made from the world is the most brilliant and the most unreal action of his life2 it is a sacrifice he has made to his pride under the pretence of devotion2 he quits the court to which he cannot attach himself1 and retires from a world which is retiring from him4 ,the ,maxims were first published in #affe1 with a preface by ,segrais4 ,this preface was omitted in the subsequent editions4 ,the first edition contained #caf maxims1 counting the last upon death1 which was not numbered4 ,the second in #afff contained only #ajb2 the third in #afga1 and the fourth in #afge1 #dac4 ,in this last edition we first meet with the introductory maxim1 ,our virtues are generally but disguised vices4 ,the edition of #afgh1 the fifth1 increased the number to #ejd4 ,this was the last edition revised by the author1 and published in his lifetime4 ,the text of that edition has been used for the present translation4 ,the next edition1 the sixth1 was published in #afic1 about thirteen years after the author's death4 ,this edition included fifty new maxims1 attributed by the editor to ,rochefoucauld4 ,most likely they were his writing1 as the fact was never denied by his family1 through whose permission they were published4 ,they form the third supplement to the translation4 ,this sixth edition was published by ,claude ,barbin1 and the ,french editions since that time have been too numerous to be enumerated4 ,the great popularity of the ,maxims is perhaps best shown from the numerous translations that have been made of them4 ,no less than eight ,english translations1 or so-called translations1 have appeared2 one ,american1 a ,swedish1 and a ,spanish translation1 an ,italian imitation1 with parallel passages1 and an ,english imitation by ,hazlitt4 ,the titles of the ,english editions are as follows3-- i4 ,seneca ,unmasked4 ,by ,mrs4 ,aphara ,behn4 ,london1 #afhi4 ,she calls the author the ,duke of ,rushfucave4 ii4 ,moral ,maxims and ,reflections1 in four parts4 ,by the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,now made ,english4 ,london1 #afid4 #ab mo4 iii4 ,moral ,maxims and ,reflections of the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,newly made ,english4 ,london1 #agjf4 #ab mo4 iv4 ,moral ,maxims of the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,translated from the ,french4 ,with notes4 ,london1 #agdi4 #ab mo4 v4 ,maxims and ,moral ,reflections of the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,revised and improved4 ,london1 #agge4 #h vo4 vi4 ,maxims and ,moral ,reflections of the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld4 ,a new edition1 revised and improved1 by ,l4 ,d4 ,london1 #agha4 #h vo4 vii4 ,the ,gentleman's ,library4 ,la ,rochefoucauld's ,maxims and ,moral ,reflections4 ,london1 #ahac4 #ab mo4 viii4 ,moral ,reflections1 ,sentences1 and ,maxims of the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld1 newly translated from the ,french2 with an introduction and notes4 ,london1 #ahej4 #af mo4 ix4 ,maxims and ,moral ,reflections of the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld3 with a ,memoir by the ,chevalier de ,chatelain4 ,london1 #ahfh4 #ab mo4 ,the perusal of the ,maxims will suggest to every reader to a greater or less degree1 in accordance with the extent of his reading1 parallel passages1 and similar ideas4 ,of ancient writers ,rochefoucauld most strongly reminds us of ,tacitus2 of modern writers1 ,junius most strongly reminds us of ,rochefoucauld4 ,some examples from both are given in the notes to this translation4 ,it is curious to see how the expressions of the bitterest writer of ,english political satire to a great extent express the same ideas as the great ,french satirist of private life4 ,had space permitted the parallel could have been drawn very closely1 and much of the invective of ,junius traced to its source in ,rochefoucauld4 ,one of the persons whom ,rochefoucauld patronised and protected1 was the great ,french fabulist1 ,la ,fontaine4 ,this patronage was repaid by ,la ,fontaine giving1 in one of his fables1 ,l',homme et son ,image1 an elaborate defence of his patron4 ,after there depicting a man who fancied himself one of the most lovely in the world1 and who complained he always found all mirrors untrustworthy1 at last discovered his real image reflected in the water4 ,he thus applies his fable3-- ,je parle a tous3 et cette erreur extreme1 ,est un mal que chacun se plait d'entretenir1 ,notre ame1 c'est cet homme amoureux de lui meme1 ,tant de miroirs1 ce sont les sottises d'autrui4 ,miroirs1 de nos defauts les peintres legitimes1 ,et quant au canal1 c'est celui ,qui chacun sait1 le livre des ,,maximes4 ,it is just this3 the book is a mirror in which we all see ourselves4 ,this has made it so unpopular4 ,it is too true4 ,we dislike to be told of our faults1 while we only like to be told of our neighbour's4 ,notwithstanding ,rousseau's assertion1 it is young men1 who1 before they know their own faults and only know their neighbours'1 that read and thoroughly appreciate ,rochefoucauld4 ,after so many varied opinions he then pleases us more and seems far truer than he is in reality1 it is impossible to give any general conclusion of such distinguished writers on the subject4 ,each reader will form his own opinion of the merits of the author and his book4 ,to some1 both will seem deserving of the highest praise2 to others both will seem deserving of the highest censure4 ,the truest judgment as to the author will be found in the remarks of a countryman of his own1 as to the book in the remarks of a countryman of ours4 ,as to the author1 ,m4 ,sainte ,beuve says3--,c'etait un misanthrope poli1 insinuant1 souriant1 qui precedait de bien peu et preparait avec charme l'autre ,,misanthrope4 ,as to the book1 ,mr4 ,hallam says3--,among the books in ancient and modern times which record the conclusions of observing men on the moral qualities of their fellows1 a high place should be reserved for the ,maxims of ,rochefoucauld4 ,,reflections2 ,,or1 ,,sentences ,,and ,,moral ,,maxims ,our virtues are most frequently but vices disguised4 ,this epigraph which is the key to the system of ,la ,rochefoucauld1 is found in another form as ,no4 #agi of the maxims of the first edition1 #affe1 it is omitted from the #bnd and #crd1 and reappears for the first time in the #dth edition1 in #afge1 as at present1 at the head of the ,reflections4--,aime ,martin4 ,its best answer is arrived at by reversing the predicate and the subject1 and you at once form a contradictory maxim equally true1 our vices are most frequently but virtues disguised4 #a4--,what we term virtue is often but a mass of various actions and divers interests1 which fortune1 or our own industry1 manage to arrange2 and it is not always from valour or from chastity that men are brave1 and women chaste4 ,who combats bravely is not therefore brave1 ,he dreads a death-bed like the meanest slave2 ,who reasons wisely is not therefore wise1 ,his pride in reasoning1 not in acting1 lies4 ,pope1 ,moral ,essays1 ,ep4 i4 line #aae4 #b4--,self-love is the greatest of flatterers4 #c4--,whatever discoveries have been made in the region of self-love1 there remain many unexplored territories there4 ,this is the first hint of the system the author tries to develope4 ,he wishes to find in vice a motive for all our actions1 but this does not suffice him2 he is obliged to call other passions to the help of his system and to confound pride1 vanity1 interest and egotism with self love4 ,this confusion destroys the unity of his principle4--,aime ,martin4 #d4--,self love is more cunning than the most cunning man in the world4 #e4--,the duration of our passions is no more dependant upon us than the duration of our life4 ,then what becomes of free will8--,aime2 ,martin #f4--,passion often renders the most clever man a fool1 and even sometimes renders the most foolish man clever4 #g4--;,great and striking actions which dazzle the eyes are represented by politicians as the effect of great designs1 instead of which they are commonly caused by the temper and the passions4 ,thus the war between ,augustus and ,anthony1 which is set down to the ambition they entertained of making themselves masters of the world1 was probably but an effect of jealousy4 #h4--,the passions are the only advocates which always persuade4 ,they are a natural art1 the rules of which are infallible2 and the simplest man with passion will be more persuasive than the most eloquent without4 ,see ,maxim #bdi which is an illustration of this4 #i4--,the passions possess a certain injustice and self interest which makes it dangerous to follow them1 and in reality we should distrust them even when they appear most trustworthy4 #aj4--;,in the human heart there is a perpetual generation of passions2 so that the ruin of one is almost always the foundation of another4 #aa4--,passions often produce their contraries3 avarice sometimes leads to prodigality1 and prodigality to avarice2 we are often obstinate through weakness and daring though timidity4 #ab4--,whatever care we take to conceal our passions under the appearances of piety and honour1 they are always to be seen through these veils4 ,the #ast edition1 #affe1 preserves the image perhaps better--however we may conceal our passions under the veil1 etc41 there is always some place where they peep out4 #ac4--,our self love endures more impatiently the condemnation of our tastes than of our opinions4 #ad4--,men are not only prone to forget benefits and injuries2 they even hate those who have obliged them1 and cease to hate those who have injured them4 ,the necessity of revenging an injury or of recompensing a benefit seems a slavery to which they are unwilling to submit4 #ae4--,the clemency of ,princes is often but policy to win the affections of the people4 ,so many are the advantages which monarchs gain by clemency1 so greatly does it raise their fame and endear them to their subjects1 that it is generally happy for them to have an opportunity of displaying it4--,montesquieu1 ,esprit ,des ,lois1 ,lib4 ,,vi41 ,c4 #ba4 #af4--,this clemency of which they make a merit1 arises oftentimes from vanity1 sometimes from idleness1 oftentimes from fear1 and almost always from all three combined4 ,la ,rochefoucauld is content to paint the age in which he lived4 ,here the clemency spoken of is nothing more than an expression of the policy of ,anne of ,austria4 ,rochefoucauld had sacrificed all to her2 even the favour of ,cardinal ,richelieu1 but when she became regent she bestowed her favours upon those she hated2 her friends were forgotten4--,aime ,martin4 ,the reader will hereby see that the age in which the writer lived best interprets his maxims4 #ag4--,the moderation of those who are happy arises from the calm which good fortune bestows upon their temper4 #ah4--,moderation is caused by the fear of exciting the envy and contempt which those merit who are intoxicated with their good fortune2 it is a vain display of our strength of mind1 and in short the moderation of men at their greatest height is only a desire to appear greater than their fortune4 #ai4--,we have all sufficient strength to support the misfortunes of others4 ,the strongest example of this is the passage in ,lucretius1 lib4 ii41 line ,i3-- ,suave mari magno turbantibus aequora ventis ,e terra magnum alterius spectare laborem4 #bj4--,the constancy of the wise is only the talent of concealing the agitation of their hearts4 ,thus wisdom is only hypocrisy1 says a commentator4 ,this definition of constancy is a result of maxim #ah4 #ba4--,those who are condemned to death affect sometimes a constancy and contempt for death which is only the fear of facing it2 so that one may say that this constancy and contempt are to their mind what the bandage is to their eyes4 ,see this thought elaborated in maxim #ejd4 #bb4--,philosophy triumphs easily over past evils and future evils2 but present evils triumph over it4 #bc4--;,few people know death1 we only endure it1 usually from determination1 and even from stupidity and custom2 and most men only die because they know not how to prevent dying4 #bd4--,when great men permit themselves to be cast down by the continuance of misfortune1 they show us that they were only sustained by ambition1 and not by their mind2 so that ,,plus a great vanity1 heroes are made like other men4 ,both these maxims have been rewritten and made conciser by the author2 the variations are not worth quoting4 #be4--,we need greater virtues to sustain good than evil fortune4 ,prosperity doth best discover vice1 but adversity doth best discover virtue4--,lord ,bacon1 ,essays1 7#afbe71 ,of ,adversity4 ,the quotation wrongly had does for doth4 #bf4--,neither the sun nor death can be looked at without winking4 #bg4--,people are often vain of their passions1 even of the worst1 but envy is a passion so timid and shame-faced that no one ever dare avow her4 #bh4--;,jealousy is in a manner just and reasonable1 as it tends to preserve a good which belongs1 or which we believe belongs to us1 on the other hand envy is a fury which cannot endure the happiness of others4 #bi4--,the evil that we do does not attract to us so much persecution and hatred as our good qualities4 #cj4--,we have more strength than will2 and it is often merely for an excuse we say things are impossible4 #ca4--;,if we had no faults we should not take so much pleasure in noting those of others4 #cb4--;,jealousy lives upon doubt2 and comes to an end or becomes a fury as soon as it passes from doubt to certainty4 #cc4--,pride indemnifies itself and loses nothing even when it casts away vanity4 ,see maxim #dej1 where the author states1 what we take from our other faults we add to our pride4 #cd4--;,if we had no pride we should not complain of that of others4 ,the proud are ever most provoked by pride4--,cowper1 ,conversation #afj4 #ce4--,pride is much the same in all men1 the only difference is the method and manner of showing it4 ,pride bestowed on all a common friend4--,pope1 ,essay ,on ,man1 ,ep4 ii41 line #bgc4 #cf4--;,it would seem that nature1 which has so wisely ordered the organs of our body for our happiness1 has also given us pride to spare us the mortification of knowing our imperfections4 #cg4--,pride has a larger part than goodness in our remonstrances with those who commit faults1 and we reprove them not so much to correct as to persuade them that we ourselves are free from faults4 #ch4--,we promise according to our hopes2 we perform according to our fears4 ,the reason why the ,cardinal 7,mazarin7 deferred so long to grant the favours he had promised1 was because he was persuaded that hope was much more capable of keeping men to their duty than gratitude4--,fragments ,historiques4 ,racine4 #ci4--;,interest speaks all sorts of tongues and plays all sorts of characters2 even that of disinterestedness4 #dj4--;,interest blinds some and makes some see4 #da4--,those who apply themselves too closely to little things often become incapable of great things4 #db4--,we have not enough strength to follow all our reason4 #dc4--;,a man often believes himself leader when he is led2 as his mind endeavours to reach one goal1 his heart insensibly drags him towards another4 #dd4--,strength and weakness of mind are mis-named2 they are really only the good or happy arrangement of our bodily organs4 #de4--,the caprice of our temper is even more whimsical than that of ,fortune4 #df4--,the attachment or indifference which philosophers have shown to life is only the style of their self love1 about which we can no more dispute than of that of the palate or of the choice of colours4 #dg4--,our temper sets a price upon every gift that we receive from fortune4 #dh4--;,happiness is in the taste1 and not in the things themselves2 we are happy from possessing what we like1 not from possessing what others like4 #di4--,we are never so happy or so unhappy as we suppose4 #ej4--,those who think they have merit persuade themselves that they are honoured by being unhappy1 in order to persuade others and themselves that they are worthy to be the butt of fortune4 ,ambition has been so strong as to make very miserable men take comfort that they were supreme in misery2 and certain it is1 that where we cannot distinguish ourselves by something excellent1 we begin to take a complacency in some singular infirmities1 follies1 or defects of one kind or other4 --,burke1 ,on ,the ,sublime ,and ,beautiful1 7#agef71 ,part ,i1 ,sect4 ,,xvii4 ,the translators' incorrectly cite ,speech ,on ,conciliation ,with ,america4 ,also1 ,burke does not actually write ,ambition has been4441 he writes ,it has been444 when speaking of ambition4 #ea4--,nothing should so much diminish the satisfaction which we feel with ourselves as seeing that we disapprove at one time of that which we approve of at another4 #eb4--,whatever difference there appears in our fortunes1 there is nevertheless a certain compensation of good and evil which renders them equal4 #ec4--,whatever great advantages nature may give1 it is not she alone1 but fortune also that makes the hero4 #ed4--,the contempt of riches in philosophers was only a hidden desire to avenge their merit upon the injustice of fortune1 by despising the very goods of which fortune had deprived them2 it was a secret to guard themselves against the degradation of poverty1 it was a back way by which to arrive at that distinction which they could not gain by riches4 ,it is always easy as well as agreeable for the inferior ranks of mankind to claim merit from the contempt of that pomp and pleasure which fortune has placed beyond their reach4 ,the virtue of the primitive ,christians1 like that of the first ,romans1 was very frequently guarded by poverty and ignorance4--,gibbon1 ,decline ,and ,fall1 ,chap4 #ae4 #ee4--,the hate of favourites is only a love of favour4 ,the envy of ,,not possessing it1 consoles and softens its regrets by the contempt it evinces for those who possess it1 and we refuse them our homage1 not being able to detract from them what attracts that of the rest of the world4 #ef4--,to establish ourselves in the world we do everything to appear as if we were established4 #eg4--;,although men flatter themselves with their great actions1 they are not so often the result of a great design as of chance4 #eh4--;,it would seem that our actions have lucky or unlucky stars to which they owe a great part of the blame or praise which is given them4 #ei4--,there are no accidents so unfortunate from which skilful men will not draw some advantage1 nor so fortunate that foolish men will not turn them to their hurt4 #fj4--;,fortune turns all things to the advantage of those on whom she smiles4 #fa4--,the happiness or unhappiness of men depends no less upon their dispositions than their fortunes4 ,still to ourselves in every place consigned ,our own felicity we make or find4 ,goldsmith1 ,traveller1 #dca4 #fb4--,sincerity is an openness of heart2 we find it in very few people2 what we usually see is only an artful dissimulation to win the confidence of others4 #fc4--,the aversion to lying is often a hidden ambition to render our words credible and weighty1 and to attach a religious aspect to our conversation4 #fd4--,truth does not do as much good in the world1 as its counterfeits do evil4 #fe4--,there is no praise we have not lavished upon ,prudence2 and yet she cannot assure to us the most trifling event4 ,the author corrected this maxim several times1 in #affe it is ,no4 #ge2 #afff1 ,no4 #ff2 #afga-e1 ,no4 #fe2 in the last edition it stands as at present4 ,in the first he quotes ,juvenal1 ,sat4 ,x41 line #cae4 ,nullum numen habes si sit ,prudentia1 nos te2 ,nos facimus1 ,fortuna1 deam1 coeloque locamus4 ,applying to ,prudence what ,juvenal does to ,fortune1 and with much greater force4 #ff4--;,a clever man ought to so regulate his interests that each will fall in due order4 ,our greediness so often troubles us1 making us run after so many things at the same time1 that while we too eagerly look after the least we miss the greatest4 #fg4--,what grace is to the body good sense is to the mind4 #fh4--;,it is difficult to define love2 all we can say is1 that in the soul it is a desire to rule1 in the mind it is a sympathy1 and in the body it is a hidden and delicate wish to possess what we love--,plus many mysteries4 ,love is the love of one singularly1 with desire to be singularly beloved4--,hobbes,leviathan1 7#afea71 ,part ,i1 ,chapter ,,vi4 ,two notes about this quotation3 7#a7 the translators' mistakenly have singularity for the first singularly and 7#b7 ,hobbes does not actually write ,love is the444--he writes ,love of one444 under the heading ,the passion of ,love4 #fi4--;,if there is a pure love1 exempt from the mixture of our other passions1 it is that which is concealed at the bottom of the heart and of which even ourselves are ignorant4 #gj4--,there is no disguise which can long hide love where it exists1 nor feign it where it does not4 #ga4--,there are few people who would not be ashamed of being beloved when they love no longer4 #gb4--;,if we judge of love by the majority of its results it rather resembles hatred than friendship4 #gc4--,we may find women who have never indulged in an intrigue1 but it is rare to find those who have intrigued but once4 ,yet there are some1 they say1 who have had ,none2 ,but those who have1 ne'er end with only one4 --,lord ,byron1 ,don ,juan1 ,canto iii41 stanza #d4 #gd4--,there is only one sort of love1 but there are a thousand different copies4 #ge4--,neither love nor fire can subsist without perpetual motion2 both cease to live so soon as they cease to hope1 or to fear4 ,so ,lord ,byron,stanzas1 7#ahai71 stanza #c says of ,love-- ,like chiefs of faction1 ,his life is action4 #gf4--,there is real love just as there are real ghosts2 every person speaks of it1 few persons have seen it4 ,oh ,love6 no habitant of earth thou art-- ,an unseen seraph1 we believe in thee-- ,a faith whose martyrs are the broken heart1-- ,but never yet hath seen1 nor e'er shall see ,the naked eye1 thy form as it should be4 --,lord ,byron1 ,childe ,harold1 ,canto iv41 stanza #aba4 #gg4--,love lends its name to an infinite number of engagements 7,commerces7 which are attributed to it1 but with which it has no more concern than the ,doge has with all that is done in ,venice4 #gh4--,the love of justice is simply in the majority of men the fear of suffering injustice4 #gi4--,silence is the best resolve for him who distrusts himself4 #hj4--,what renders us so changeable in our friendship is1 that it is difficult to know the qualities of the soul1 but easy to know those of the mind4 #ha4--,we can love nothing but what agrees with us1 and we can only follow our taste or our pleasure when we prefer our friends to ourselves2 nevertheless it is only by that preference that friendship can be true and perfect4 #hb4--,reconciliation with our enemies is but a desire to better our condition1 a weariness of war1 the fear of some unlucky accident4 ,thus terminated that famous war of the ,fronde4 ,the ,duke de la ,rochefoucauld desired peace because of his dangerous wounds and ruined castles1 which had made him dread even worse events4 ,on the other side the ,queen1 who had shown herself so ungrateful to her too ambitious friends1 did not cease to feel the bitterness of their resentment4 ',i wish1' said she1 'it were always night1 because daylight shows me so many who have betrayed me4'--,memoires ,de ,madame ,de ,motteville1 ,tom4 ,,iv41 p4 #fj4 ,another proof that although these maxims are in some cases of universal application1 they were based entirely on the experience of the age in which the author lived4 #hc4--,what men term friendship is merely a partnership with a collection of reciprocal interests1 and an exchange of favours--in fact it is but a trade in which self love always expects to gain something4 #hd4--;,it is more disgraceful to distrust than to be deceived by our friends4 #he4--,we often persuade ourselves to love people who are more powerful than we are1 yet interest alone produces our friendship2 we do not give our hearts away for the good we wish to do1 but for that we expect to receive4 #hf4--,our distrust of another justifies his deceit4 #hg4--,men would not live long in society were they not the dupes of each other4 ,a maxim1 adds ,aime ,martin1 ,which may enter into the code of a vulgar rogue1 but one is astonished to find it in a moral treatise4 ,yet we have scriptural authority for it3 ,deceiving and being deceived4--#b ,,tim4 iii4 #ac4 #hh4--,self love increases or diminishes for us the good qualities of our friends1 in proportion to the satisfaction we feel with them1 and we judge of their merit by the manner in which they act towards us4 #hi4--;,everyone blames his memory1 no one blames his judgment4 #ij4--;,in the intercourse of life1 we please more by our faults than by our good qualities4 #ia4--,the largest ambition has the least appearance of ambition when it meets with an absolute impossibility in compassing its object4 #ib4--,to awaken a man who is deceived as to his own merit is to do him as bad a turn as that done to the ,athenian madman who was happy in believing that all the ships touching at the port belonged to him4 ,that is1 they cured him4 ,the madman was ,thrasyllus1 son of ,pythodorus4 ,his brother ,crito cured him1 when he infinitely regretted the time of his more pleasant madness4--,see ,aelian1 ,var4 ,hist4 iv4 #be4 ,so ,horace-- ------------,pol1 me occidistis1 amici1 ,non servastis1 ait1 cui sic extorta voluptas ,et demptus per vim mentis gratissimus error4 ,,hor4 ,,ep4 ii--#b1 #ach1 of the madman who was cured of a pleasant lunacy4 #ic4--,old men delight in giving good advice as a consolation for the fact that they can no longer set bad examples4 #id4--;,great names degrade instead of elevating those who know not how to sustain them4 #ie4--,the test of extraordinary merit is to see those who envy it the most yet obliged to praise it4 #if4--;,a man is perhaps ungrateful1 but often less chargeable with ingratitude than his benefactor is4 #ig4--,we are deceived if we think that mind and judgment are two different matters3 judgment is but the extent of the light of the mind4 ,this light penetrates to the bottom of matters2 it remarks all that can be remarked1 and perceives what appears imperceptible4 ,therefore we must agree that it is the extent of the light in the mind that produces all the effects which we attribute to judgment4 #ih4--;,everyone praises his heart1 none dare praise their understanding4 #ii4--,politeness of mind consists in thinking chaste and refined thoughts4 #ajj4--;,gallantry of mind is saying the most empty things in an agreeable manner4 #aja4--;,ideas often flash across our minds more complete than we could make them after much labour4 #ajb4--,the head is ever the dupe of the heart4 ,a feeble imitation of that great thought ,all folly comes from the heart4--,aime ,martin4 ,but ,bonhome1 in his ,l'art ,de ,penser1 says ,plusieurs diraient en periode quarre que quelques reflexions que fasse l'esprit et quelques resolutions qu'il prenne pour corriger ses travers le premier sentiment du coeur renverse tous ses projets4 ,mais il n'appartient qu'a ,m4 de la ,rochefoucauld de dire tout en un mot que l'esprit est toujours la dupe du coeur4 #ajc4--,those who know their minds do not necessarily know their hearts4 #ajd4--,men and things have each their proper perspective2 to judge rightly of some it is necessary to see them near1 of others we can never judge rightly but at a distance4 #aje4--;,a man for whom accident discovers sense1 is not a rational being4 ,a man only is so who understands1 who distinguishes1 who tests it4 #ajf4--,to understand matters rightly we should understand their details1 and as that knowledge is almost infinite1 our knowledge is always superficial and imperfect4 #ajg4--,one kind of flirtation is to boast we never flirt4 #ajh4--,the head cannot long play the part of the heart4 #aji4--,youth changes its tastes by the warmth of its blood1 age retains its tastes by habit4 #aaj4--,nothing is given so profusely as advice4 #aaa4--,the more we love a woman the more prone we are to hate her4 #aab4--,the blemishes of the mind1 like those of the face1 increase by age4 #aac4--,there may be good but there are no pleasant marriages4 #aad4--,we are inconsolable at being deceived by our enemies and betrayed by our friends1 yet still we are often content to be thus served by ourselves4 #aae4--;,it is as easy unwittingly to deceive oneself as to deceive others4 #aaf4--,nothing is less sincere than the way of asking and giving advice4 ,the person asking seems to pay deference to the opinion of his friend1 while thinking in reality of making his friend approve his opinion and be responsible for his conduct4 ,the person giving the advice returns the confidence placed in him by eager and disinterested zeal1 in doing which he is usually guided only by his own interest or reputation4 ,i have often thought how ill-natured a maxim it was which on many occasions ,i have heard from people of good understanding1 ',that as to what related to private conduct no one was ever the better for advice4' ,but upon further examination ,i have resolved with myself that the maxim might be admitted without any violent prejudice to mankind4 ,for in the manner advice was generally given there was no reason ,i thought to wonder it should be so ill received1 something there was which strangely inverted the case1 and made the giver to be the only gainer4 ,for by what ,i could observe in many occurrences of our lives1 that which we called giving advice was properly taking an occasion to show our own wisdom at another's expense4 ,on the other side to be instructed or to receive advice on the terms usually prescribed to us was little better than tamely to afford another the occasion of raising himself a character from our defects4--,lord ,shaftesbury1 ,characteristics1 i41 #aec4 #aag4--,the most subtle of our acts is to simulate blindness for snares that we know are set for us4 ,we are never so easily deceived as when trying to deceive4 #aah4--,the intention of never deceiving often exposes us to deception4 #aai4--,we become so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that at last we are disguised to ourselves4 ,those who quit their proper character1 to assume what does not belong to them1 are1 for the greater part1 ignorant both of the character they leave1 and of the character they assume4--,burke1 ,reflections ,on ,the ,revolution ,in ,france1 7#agij71 ,paragraph #ai4 ,the translators' incorrectly cite ,thoughts ,on ,the ,cause ,of ,the ,present ,discontents4 #abj4--,we often act treacherously more from weakness than from a fixed motive4 #aba4--,we frequently do good to enable us with impunity to do evil4 #abb4--;,if we conquer our passions it is more from their weakness than from our strength4 #abc4--;,if we never flattered ourselves we should have but scant pleasure4 #abd4--,the most deceitful persons spend their lives in blaming deceit1 so as to use it on some great occasion to promote some great interest4 #abe4--,the daily employment of cunning marks a little mind1 it generally happens that those who resort to it in one respect to protect themselves lay themselves open to attack in another4 ,with that low cunning which in fools supplies1 ,and amply1 too1 the place of being wise4 ,churchill1 ,rosciad1 #aag4 #abf4--;,cunning and treachery are the offspring of incapacity4 #abg4--,the true way to be deceived is to think oneself more knowing than others4 #abh4--,too great cleverness is but deceptive delicacy1 true delicacy is the most substantial cleverness4 #abi4--;,it is sometimes necessary to play the fool to avoid being deceived by cunning men4 #acj4--,weakness is the only fault which cannot be cured4 #aca4--,the smallest fault of women who give themselves up to love is to love4 ------,faciunt graviora coactae ,imperio sexus minimumque libidine peccant4 ,juvenal1 ,sat4 vi41 #acd4 #acb4--;,it is far easier to be wise for others than to be so for oneself4 ,hence the proverb1 ,a man who is his own lawyer has a fool for his client4 #acc4--,the only good examples are those1 that make us see the absurdity of bad originals4 #acd4--,we are never so ridiculous from the habits we have as from those that we affect to have4 #ace4--,we sometimes differ more widely from ourselves than we do from others4 #acf4--,there are some who never would have loved if they never had heard it spoken of4 #acg4--,when not prompted by vanity we say little4 #ach4--;,a man would rather say evil of himself than say nothing4 ,montaigne's vanity led him to talk perpetually of himself1 and as often happens to vain men1 he would rather talk of his own failings than of any foreign subject4-- ,hallam1 ,literature ,of ,europe4 #aci4--,one of the reasons that we find so few persons rational and agreeable in conversation is there is hardly a person who does not think more of what he wants to say than of his answer to what is said4 ,the most clever and polite are content with only seeming attentive while we perceive in their mind and eyes that at the very time they are wandering from what is said and desire to return to what they want to say4 ,instead of considering that the worst way to persuade or please others is to try thus strongly to please ourselves1 and that to listen well and to answer well are some of the greatest charms we can have in conversation4 ,an absent man can make but few observations1 he can pursue nothing steadily because his absences make him lose his way4 ,they are very disagreeable and hardly to be tolerated in old age1 but in youth they cannot be forgiven4 --,lord ,chesterfield1 ,letter #aie4 #adj4--;,if it was not for the company of fools1 a witty man would often be greatly at a loss4 #ada4--,we often boast that we are never bored1 but yet we are so conceited that we do not perceive how often we bore others4 #adb4--;,as it is the mark of great minds to say many things in a few words1 so it is that of little minds to use many words to say nothing4 ,so much they talked1 so very little said4 ,churchill1 ,rosciad1 #eej4 ,men who are unequal to the labour of discussing an argument or wish to avoid it1 are willing enough to suppose that much has been proved because much has been said4-- ,junius1 ,jan4 #agfi4 #adc4--;,it is oftener by the estimation of our own feelings that we exaggerate the good qualities of others than by their merit1 and when we praise them we wish to attract their praise4 #add4--,we do not like to praise1 and we never praise without a motive4 ,praise is flattery1 artful1 hidden1 delicate1 which gratifies differently him who praises and him who is praised4 ,the one takes it as the reward of merit1 the other bestows it to show his impartiality and knowledge4 #ade4--,we often select envenomed praise which1 by a reaction upon those we praise1 shows faults we could not have shown by other means4 #adf4--,usually we only praise to be praised4 #adg4--;,few are sufficiently wise to prefer censure which is useful to praise which is treacherous4 #adh4--,some reproaches praise2 some praises reproach4 ,damn with faint praise1 assent with civil leer1 ,and1 without sneering1 teach the rest to sneer4 ,pope ,essay ,on ,man1 7#agcc71 ,epistle ,to ,dr4 ,arbuthnot4 #adi4--,the refusal of praise is only the wish to be praised twice4 ,the modesty which pretends to refuse praise is but in truth a desire to be praised more highly4 ,edition #affe4 #aej4--,the desire which urges us to deserve praise strengthens our good qualities1 and praise given to wit1 valour1 and beauty1 tends to increase them4 #aea4--;,it is easier to govern others than to prevent being governed4 #aeb4--;,if we never flattered ourselves the flattery of others would not hurt us4 ,adulatione servilia fingebant securi de fragilitate credentis4 ,tacit4 ,ann4 xvi4 #aec4--,nature makes merit but fortune sets it to work4 #aed4--;,fortune cures us of many faults that reason could not4 #aee4--,there are some persons who only disgust with their abilities1 there are persons who please even with their faults4 #aef4--,there are persons whose only merit consists in saying and doing stupid things at the right time1 and who ruin all if they change their manners4 #aeg4--,the fame of great men ought always to be estimated by the means used to acquire it4 #aeh4--;,flattery is base coin to which only our vanity gives currency4 #aei4--;,it is not enough to have great qualities1 we should also have the management of them4 #afj4--;,however brilliant an action it should not be esteemed great unless the result of a great motive4 #afa4--;,a certain harmony should be kept between actions and ideas if we desire to estimate the effects that they produce4 #afb4--,the art of using moderate abilities to advantage wins praise1 and often acquires more reputation than real brilliancy4 #afc4--,numberless arts appear foolish whose secret motives are most wise and weighty4 #afd4--;,it is much easier to seem fitted for posts we do not fill than for those we do4 #afe4--;,ability wins us the esteem of the true men1 luck that of the people4 #aff4--,the world oftener rewards the appearance of merit than merit itself4 #afg4--;,avarice is more opposed to economy than to liberality4 #afh4--;,however deceitful hope may be1 yet she carries us on pleasantly to the end of life4 ,hope travels through1 nor quits us when we die4 ,pope3 ,essay ,on ,man1 ,ep4 ii4 #afi4--;,idleness and fear keeps us in the path of duty1 but our virtue often gets the praise4 ,quod segnitia erat sapientia vocaretur4 ,tacitus ,hist4 ,i4 #agj4--;,if one acts rightly and honestly1 it is difficult to decide whether it is the effect of integrity or skill4 #aga4--;,as rivers are lost in the sea so are virtues in self4 #agb4--;,if we thoroughly consider the varied effects of indifference we find we miscarry more in our duties than in our interests4 #agc4--,there are different kinds of curiosity3 one springs from interest1 which makes us desire to know everything that may be profitable to us2 another from pride1 which springs from a desire of knowing what others are ignorant of4 #agd4--;,it is far better to accustom our mind to bear the ills we have than to speculate on those which may befall us4 ,rather bear those ills we have ,than fly to others that we know not of4 --,shakespeare1 ,hamlet1 ,act ,,iii1 ,scene ,i1 ,hamlet4 #age4--;,constancy in love is a perpetual inconstancy which causes our heart to attach itself to all the qualities of the person we love in succession1 sometimes giving the preference to one1 sometimes to another4 ,this constancy is merely inconstancy fixed1 and limited to the same person4 #agf4--,there are two kinds of constancy in love1 one arising from incessantly finding in the loved one fresh objects to love1 the other from regarding it as a point of honour to be constant4 #agg4--,perseverance is not deserving of blame or praise1 as it is merely the continuance of tastes and feelings which we can neither create or destroy4 #agh4--,what makes us like new studies is not so much the weariness we have of the old or the wish for change as the desire to be admired by those who know more than ourselves1 and the hope of advantage over those who know less4 #agi4--,we sometimes complain of the levity of our friends to justify our own by anticipation4 #ahj4--,our repentance is not so much sorrow for the ill we have done as fear of the ill that may happen to us4 #aha4--,one sort of inconstancy springs from levity or weakness of mind1 and makes us accept everyone's opinion1 and another more excusable comes from a surfeit of matter4 #ahb4--,vices enter into the composition of virtues as poison into that of medicines4 ,prudence collects and blends the two and renders them useful against the ills of life4 #ahc4--;,for the credit of virtue we must admit that the greatest misfortunes of men are those into which they fall through their crimes4 #ahd4--,we admit our faults to repair by our sincerity the evil we have done in the opinion of others4 ,in the edition of #affe this maxim stands as ,no4 #bjj4 ,we never admit our faults except through vanity4 #ahe4--,there are both heroes of evil and heroes of good4 ,ut alios industria ita hunc ignavia protulerat ad famam1 habebaturque non ganeo et profligator sed erudito luxu4 --,tacit4 ,ann4 xvi4 #ahf4--,we do not despise all who have vices1 but we do despise all who have not virtues4 ,if individuals have no virtues their vices may be of use to us4--,junius1 #eth ,oct4 #agga4 #ahg4--,the name of virtue is as useful to our interest as that of vice4 #ahh4--,the health of the mind is not less uncertain than that of the body1 and when passions seem furthest removed we are no less in danger of infection than of falling ill when we are well4 #ahi4--;,it seems that nature has at man's birth fixed the bounds of his virtues and vices4 #aij4--;,great men should not have great faults4 #aia4--,we may say vices wait on us in the course of our life as the landlords with whom we successively lodge1 and if we travelled the road twice over ,i doubt if our experience would make us avoid them4 #aib4--,when our vices leave us we flatter ourselves with the idea we have left them4 #aic4--,there are relapses in the diseases of the mind as in those of the body2 what we call a cure is often no more than an intermission or change of disease4 #aid4--,the defects of the mind are like the wounds of the body4 ,whatever care we take to heal them the scars ever remain1 and there is always danger of their reopening4 #aie4--,the reason which often prevents us abandoning a single vice is having so many4 #aif4--,we easily forget those faults which are known only to ourselves4 ,seneca says ,innocentem quisque se dicit respiciens testem non conscientiam4 #aig4--,there are men of whom we can never believe evil without having seen it4 ,yet there are very few in whom we should be surprised to see it4 #aih4--,we exaggerate the glory of some men to detract from that of others1 and we should praise ,prince ,conde and ,marshal ,turenne much less if we did not want to blame them both4 ,the allusion to ,conde and ,turenne gives the date at which these maxims were published in #affe4 ,conde and ,turenne were after their campaign with the ,imperialists at the height of their fame4 ,it proves the truth of the remark of ,tacitus1 ,populus neminem sine aemulo sinit4-- ,tac4 ,ann4 xiv4 #aii4--,the desire to appear clever often prevents our being so4 #bjj4--,virtue would not go far did not vanity escort her4 #bja4--;,he who thinks he has the power to content the world greatly deceives himself1 but he who thinks that the world cannot be content with him deceives himself yet more4 #bjb4--;,falsely honest men are those who disguise their faults both to themselves and others2 truly honest men are those who know them perfectly and confess them4 #bjc4--;,he is really wise who is nettled at nothing4 #bjd4--,the coldness of women is a balance and burden they add to their beauty4 #bje4--,virtue in woman is often the love of reputation and repose4 #bjf4--;,he is a truly good man who desires always to bear the inspection of good men4 #bjg4--;,folly follows us at all stages of life4 ,if one appears wise 'tis but because his folly is proportioned to his age and fortune4 #bjh4--,there are foolish people who know and who skilfully use their folly4 #bji4--,who lives without folly is not so wise as he thinks4 #baj4--;,in growing old we become more foolish--and more wise4 #baa4--,there are people who are like farces1 which are praised but for a time 7however foolish and distasteful they may be74 ,the last clause is added from ,edition of #affe4 #bab4--,most people judge men only by success or by fortune4 #bac4--,love of glory1 fear of shame1 greed of fortune1 the desire to make life agreeable and comfortable1 and the wish to depreciate others are often causes of that bravery so vaunted among men4 ,junius said of the ,marquis of ,granby1 ,he was as brave as a total absence of all feeling and reflection could make him4--#bast ,jan4 #agfi4 #bad4--,valour in common soldiers is a perilous method of earning their living4 ,men venture necks to gain a fortune1 ,the soldier does it ev'ry day1 7,eight to the week7 for sixpence pay4 --,samuel ,butler1 ,hudibras1 ,part ,,ii41 canto i41 line #eab4 #bae4--,perfect bravery and sheer cowardice are two extremes rarely found4 ,the space between them is vast1 and embraces all other sorts of courage4 ,the difference between them is not less than between faces and tempers4 ,men will freely expose themselves at the beginning of an action1 and relax and be easily discouraged if it should last4 ,some are content to satisfy worldly honour1 and beyond that will do little else4 ,some are not always equally masters of their timidity4 ,others allow themselves to be overcome by panic2 others charge because they dare not remain at their posts4 ,some may be found whose courage is strengthened by small perils1 which prepare them to face greater dangers4 ,some will dare a sword cut and flinch from a bullet2 others dread bullets little and fear to fight with swords4 ,these varied kinds of courage agree in this1 that night1 by increasing fear and concealing gallant or cowardly actions1 allows men to spare themselves4 ,there is even a more general discretion to be observed1 for we meet with no man who does all he would have done if he were assured of getting off scot-free2 so that it is certain that the fear of death does somewhat subtract from valour4 ,see also ,table ,talk of ,napoleon1 who agrees with this1 so far as to say that few1 but himself1 had a two o'clock of the morning valour4 #baf4--,perfect valour is to do without witnesses what one would do before all the world4 ,it is said of untrue valours that some men's valours are in the eyes of them that look on4--,bacon1 ,advancement ,of ,learning1 7#afje71 ,book ,i1 ,section ,,ii1 paragraph #e4 #bag4--;,intrepidity is an extraordinary strength of soul which raises it above the troubles1 disorders1 and emotions which the sight of great perils can arouse in it3 by this strength heroes maintain a calm aspect and preserve their reason and liberty in the most surprising and terrible accidents4 #bah4--;,hypocrisy is the homage vice pays to virtue4 ,so ,massillon1 in one of his sermons1 ,vice pays homage to virtue in doing honour to her appearance4 ,so ,junius1 writing to the ,duke of ,grafton1 says1 ,you have done as much mischief to the community as ,machiavel1 if ,machiavel had not known that an appearance of morals and religion are useful in society4--#bh ,sept4 #agga4 #bai4--,most men expose themselves in battle enough to save their honor1 few wish to do so more than sufficiently1 or than is necessary to make the design for which they expose themselves succeed4 #bbj4--,vanity1 shame1 and above all disposition1 often make men brave and women chaste4 ,vanity bids all her sons be brave and all her daughters chaste and courteous4 ,but why do we need her instruction8--,sterne1 ,sermons4 #bba4--,we do not wish to lose life2 we do wish to gain glory1 and this makes brave men show more tact and address in avoiding death1 than rogues show in preserving their fortunes4 #bbb4--;,few persons on the first approach of age do not show wherein their body1 or their mind1 is beginning to fail4 #bbc4--;,gratitude is as the good faith of merchants3 it holds commerce together2 and we do not pay because it is just to pay debts1 but because we shall thereby more easily find people who will lend4 #bbd4--;,all those who pay the debts of gratitude cannot thereby flatter themselves that they are grateful4 #bbe4--,what makes false reckoning1 as regards gratitude1 is that the pride of the giver and the receiver cannot agree as to the value of the benefit4 ,the first foundation of friendship is not the power of conferring benefits1 but the equality with which they are received1 and may be returned4--,junius's ,letter ,to ,the ,king4 #bbf4--,too great a hurry to discharge of an obligation is a kind of ingratitude4 #bbg4--,lucky people are bad hands at correcting their faults2 they always believe that they are right when fortune backs up their vice or folly4 ,the power of fortune is confessed only by the miserable1 for the happy impute all their success to prudence and merit4--,swift1 ,thoughts ,on ,various ,subjects #bbh4--,pride will not owe1 self-love will not pay4 #bbi4--,the good we have received from a man should make us excuse the wrong he does us4 #bcj4--,nothing is so infectious as example1 and we never do great good or evil without producing the like4 ,we imitate good actions by emulation1 and bad ones by the evil of our nature1 which shame imprisons until example liberates4 #bca4--;,it is great folly to wish only to be wise4 #bcb4--,whatever pretext we give to our afflictions it is always interest or vanity that causes them4 #bcc4--;,in afflictions there are various kinds of hypocrisy4 ,in one1 under the pretext of weeping for one dear to us we bemoan ourselves2 we regret her good opinion of us1 we deplore the loss of our comfort1 our pleasure1 our consideration4 ,thus the dead have the credit of tears shed for the living4 ,i affirm 'tis a kind of hypocrisy which in these afflictions deceives itself4 ,there is another kind not so innocent because it imposes on all the world1 that is the grief of those who aspire to the glory of a noble and immortal sorrow4 ,after ,time1 which absorbs all1 has obliterated what sorrow they had1 they still obstinately obtrude their tears1 their sighs their groans1 they wear a solemn face1 and try to persuade others by all their acts1 that their grief will end only with their life4 ,this sad and distressing vanity is commonly found in ambitious women4 ,as their sex closes to them all paths to glory1 they strive to render themselves celebrated by showing an inconsolable affliction4 ,there is yet another kind of tears arising from but small sources1 which flow easily and cease as easily4 ,one weeps to achieve a reputation for tenderness1 weeps to be pitied1 weeps to be bewept1 in fact one weeps to avoid the disgrace of not weeping6 ,in grief the ,pleasure is still uppermost2 and the affliction we suffer has no resemblance to absolute pain which is always odious1 and which we endeavour to shake off as soon as possible4--,burke1 ,sublime ,and ,beautiful1 7#agef71 ,part ,i1 ,sect4 ,v4 #bcd4--;,it is more often from pride than from ignorance that we are so obstinately opposed to current opinions2 we find the first places taken1 and we do not want to be the last4 #bce4--,we are easily consoled at the misfortunes of our friends when they enable us to prove our tenderness for them4 #bcf4--;,it would seem that even self-love may be the dupe of goodness and forget itself when we work for others4 ,and yet it is but taking the shortest way to arrive at its aim1 taking usury under the pretext of giving1 in fact winning everybody in a subtle and delicate manner4 #bcg4--,no one should be praised for his goodness if he has not strength enough to be wicked4 ,all other goodness is but too often an idleness or powerlessness of will4 #bch4--;,it is not so dangerous to do wrong to most men1 as to do them too much good4 #bci4--,nothing flatters our pride so much as the confidence of the great1 because we regard it as the result of our worth1 without remembering that generally 'tis but vanity1 or the inability to keep a secret4 #bdj4--,we may say of conformity as distinguished from beauty1 that it is a symmetry which knows no rules1 and a secret harmony of features both one with each other and with the colour and appearance of the person4 #bda4--;,flirtation is at the bottom of woman's nature1 although all do not practise it1 some being restrained by fear1 others by sense4 ,by nature woman is a flirt1 but her flirting changes both in the mode and object according to her opinions4-- ,rousseau1 ,emile4 #bdb4--,we often bore others when we think we cannot possibly bore them4 #bdc4--;,few things are impossible in themselves2 application to make them succeed fails us more often than the means4 #bdd4--,sovereign ability consists in knowing the value of things4 #bde4--,there is great ability in knowing how to conceal one's ability4 ,you have accomplished a great stroke in diplomacy when you have made others think that you have only very average abilities4--,la ,bruyere4 #bdf4--,what seems generosity is often disguised ambition1 that despises small to run after greater interest4 #bdg4--,the fidelity of most men is merely an invention of self-love to win confidence2 a method to place us above others and to render us depositaries of the most important matters4 #bdh4--,magnanimity despises all1 to win all4 #bdi4--,there is no less eloquence in the voice1 in the eyes and in the air of a speaker than in his choice of words4 #bej4--,true eloquence consists in saying all that should be1 not all that could be said4 #bea4--,there are people whose faults become them1 others whose very virtues disgrace them4 ,there are faults which do him honour1 and virtues that disgrace him4--,junius1 ,letter ,of #bhth ,may1 #aggj4 #beb4--;,it is as common to change one's tastes1 as it is uncommon to change one's inclinations4 #bec4--;,interest sets at work all sorts of virtues and vices4 #bed4--;,humility is often a feigned submission which we employ to supplant others4 ,it is one of the devices of ,pride to lower us to raise us2 and truly pride transforms itself in a thousand ways1 and is never so well disguised and more able to deceive than when it hides itself under the form of humility4 ,grave and plausible enough to be thought fit for business4--,junius1 ,letter ,to ,the ,duke ,of ,grafton4 ,he saw a cottage with a double coach-house1 ,a cottage of gentility1 ,and the devil was pleased1 for his darling sin ,is the pride that apes humility4 ,southey1 ,devil's ,walk4 ,there are numerous corrections necessary for this quotation2 ,i will keep the original above so you can compare the correct passages3 ,he passed a cottage with a double coach-house1 ,a cottage of gentility1 ,and he owned with a grin1 ,that his favourite sin ,is pride that apes humility4 --,southey1 ,devil's ,walk1 ,stanza #h4 ,and the devil did grin1 for his darling sin ,is pride that apes humility4 --,samuel ,taylor ,coleridge1 ,the ,devil's ,thoughts #bee4--;,all feelings have their peculiar tone of voice1 gestures and looks1 and this harmony1 as it is good or bad1 pleasant or unpleasant1 makes people agreeable or disagreeable4 #bef4--;,in all professions we affect a part and an appearance to seem what we wish to be4 ,thus the world is merely composed of actors4 ,all the world's a stage1 and all the men and women merely players4--,shakespeare1 ,as ,you ,like ,it1 ,act ,,ii1 ,scene ,,vii1 ,jaques4 ,life is no more than a dramatic scene1 in which the hero should preserve his consistency to the last4--,junius4 #beg4--;,gravity is a mysterious carriage of the body invented to conceal the want of mind4 ,gravity is the very essence of imposture4--,shaftesbury1 ,characteristics1 p4 #aa1 vol4 ,i4 ,the very essence of gravity is design1 and consequently deceit2 a taught trick to gain credit with the world for more sense and knowledge than a man was worth1 and that with all its pretensions it was no better1 but often worse1 than what a ,french wit had long ago defined it--a mysterious carriage of the body to cover the defects of the mind4--,sterne1 ,tristram ,shandy1 vol4 ,i41 chap4 ii4 #beh4--;,good taste arises more from judgment than wit4 #bei4--,the pleasure of love is in loving1 we are happier in the passion we feel than in that we inspire4 #bfj4--;,civility is but a desire to receive civility1 and to be esteemed polite4 #bfa4--,the usual education of young people is to inspire them with a second self-love4 #bfb4--,there is no passion wherein self-love reigns so powerfully as in love1 and one is always more ready to sacrifice the peace of the loved one than his own4 #bfc4--,what we call liberality is often but the vanity of giving1 which we like more than that we give away4 #bfd4--,pity is often a reflection of our own evils in the ills of others4 ,it is a delicate foresight of the troubles into which we may fall4 ,we help others that on like occasions we may be helped ourselves1 and these services which we render1 are in reality benefits we confer on ourselves by anticipation4 ,grief for the calamity of another is pity1 and ariseth from the imagination that a like calamity may befal himself2 and therefore is called compassion4--,hobbes' ,leviathan1 7#afea71 ,part ,i1 ,chapter ,,vi4 #bfe4--;,a narrow mind begets obstinacy1 and we do not easily believe what we cannot see4 ,stiff in opinion1 always in the wrong4 ,dryden1 ,absalom ,and ,achitophel1 line #edg4 #bff4--,we deceive ourselves if we believe that there are violent passions like ambition and love that can triumph over others4 ,idleness1 languishing as she is1 does not often fail in being mistress2 she usurps authority over all the plans and actions of life2 imperceptibly consuming and destroying both passions and virtues4 #bfg4--;,a quickness in believing evil without having sufficiently examined it1 is the effect of pride and laziness4 ,we wish to find the guilty1 and we do not wish to trouble ourselves in examining the crime4 #bfh4--,we credit judges with the meanest motives1 and yet we desire our reputation and fame should depend upon the judgment of men1 who are all1 either from their jealousy or pre-occupation or want of intelligence1 opposed to us--and yet 'tis only to make these men decide in our favour that we peril in so many ways both our peace and our life4 #bfi4--,no man is clever enough to know all the evil he does4 #bgj4--,one honour won is a surety for more4 #bga4--,youth is a continual intoxication2 it is the fever of reason4 ,the best of life is but intoxication4--,lord ,byron1 ,don ,juan1 ,canto ,,ii1 stanza #agi4 ,in the #ast ,edition1 #affe1 the maxim finishes with--it is the fever of health1 the folly of reason4 #bgb4--,nothing should so humiliate men who have deserved great praise1 as the care they have taken to acquire it by the smallest means4 #bgc4--,there are persons of whom the world approves who have no merit beyond the vices they use in the affairs of life4 #bgd4--,the beauty of novelty is to love as the flower to the fruit2 it lends a lustre which is easily lost1 but which never returns4 #bge4--,natural goodness1 which boasts of being so apparent1 is often smothered by the least interest4 #bgf4--;,absence extinguishes small passions and increases great ones1 as the wind will blow out a candle1 and blow in a fire4 #bgg4--,women often think they love when they do not love4 ,the business of a love affair1 the emotion of mind that sentiment induces1 the natural bias towards the pleasure of being loved1 the difficulty of refusing1 persuades them that they have real passion when they have but flirtation4 ,and if in fact she takes a ,grande ,passion1 ,it is a very serious thing indeed3 ,nine times in ten 'tis but caprice or fashion1 ,coquetry1 or a wish to take the lead1 ,the pride of a mere child with a new sash on4 ,or wish to make a rival's bosom bleed3 ,but the ,tenth instance will be a tornado1 ,for there's no saying what they will or may do4 --,lord ,byron1 ,don ,juan1 canto xii4 stanza #gg4 #bgh4--,what makes us so often discontented with those who transact business for us is that they almost always abandon the interest of their friends for the interest of the business1 because they wish to have the honour of succeeding in that which they have undertaken4 #bgi4--,when we exaggerate the tenderness of our friends towards us1 it is often less from gratitude than from a desire to exhibit our own merit4 #bhj4--,the praise we give to new comers into the world arises from the envy we bear to those who are established4 #bha4--,pride1 which inspires1 often serves to moderate envy4 #bhb4--,some disguised lies so resemble truth1 that we should judge badly were we not deceived4 #bhc4--,sometimes there is not less ability in knowing how to use than in giving good advice4 #bhd4--,there are wicked people who would be much less dangerous if they were wholly without goodness4 #bhe4--,magnanimity is sufficiently defined by its name1 nevertheless one can say it is the good sense of pride1 the most noble way of receiving praise4 #bhf4--;,it is impossible to love a second time those whom we have really ceased to love4 #bhg4--;,fertility of mind does not furnish us with so many resources on the same matter1 as the lack of intelligence makes us hesitate at each thing our imagination presents1 and hinders us from at first discerning which is the best4 #bhh4--,there are matters and maladies which at certain times remedies only serve to make worse2 true skill consists in knowing when it is dangerous to use them4 #bhi4--;,affected simplicity is refined imposture4 ,domitianus simplicitatis ac modestiae imagine studium litterarum et amorem carminum simulabat quo velaret animum et fratris aemulationi subduceretur4--,tacitus1 ,ann4 iv4 #bij4--,there are as many errors of temper as of mind4 #bia4--,man's merit1 like the crops1 has its season4 #bib4--,one may say of temper as of many buildings2 it has divers aspects1 some agreeable1 others disagreeable4 #bic4--,moderation cannot claim the merit of opposing and overcoming ,ambition3 they are never found together4 ,moderation is the languor and sloth of the soul1 ,ambition its activity and heat4 #bid4--,we always like those who admire us1 we do not always like those whom we admire4 #bie4--;,it is well that we know not all our wishes4 #bif4--;,it is difficult to love those we do not esteem1 but it is no less so to love those whom we esteem much more than ourselves4 #big4--;,bodily temperaments have a common course and rule which imperceptibly affect our will4 ,they advance in combination1 and successively exercise a secret empire over us1 so that1 without our perceiving it1 they become a great part of all our actions4 #bih4--,the gratitude of most men is but a secret desire of receiving greater benefits4 ,hence the common proverb ,gratitude is merely a lively sense of favors to come4 #bii4--;,almost all the world takes pleasure in paying small debts2 many people show gratitude for trifling1 but there is hardly one who does not show ingratitude for great favours4 #cjj4--,there are follies as catching as infections4 #cja4--,many people despise1 but few know how to bestow wealth4 #cjb4--,only in things of small value we usually are bold enough not to trust to appearances4 #cjc4--,whatever good quality may be imputed to us1 we ourselves find nothing new in it4 #cjd4--,we may forgive those who bore us1 we cannot forgive those whom we bore4 #cje4--;,interest which is accused of all our misdeeds often should be praised for our good deeds4 #cjf4--,we find very few ungrateful people when we are able to confer favours4 #cjg4--;,it is as proper to be boastful alone as it is ridiculous to be so in company4 #cjh4--,moderation is made a virtue to limit the ambition of the great2 to console ordinary people for their small fortune and equally small ability4 #cji4--,there are persons fated to be fools1 who commit follies not only by choice1 but who are forced by fortune to do so4 #caj4--,sometimes there are accidents in our life the skilful extrication from which demands a little folly4 #caa4--;,if there be men whose folly has never appeared1 it is because it has never been closely looked for4 #cab4--,lovers are never tired of each other1--they always speak of themselves4 #cac4--;,how is it that our memory is good enough to retain the least triviality that happens to us1 and yet not good enough to recollect how often we have told it to the same person8 ,old men who yet retain the memory of things past1 and forget how often they have told them1 are most tedious companions4--,montaigne1 ,essays1 ,book ,i1 ,chapter ,,ix4 #cad4--,the extreme delight we take in talking of ourselves should warn us that it is not shared by those who listen4 #cae4--,what commonly hinders us from showing the recesses of our heart to our friends1 is not the distrust we have of them1 but that we have of ourselves4 #caf4--,weak persons cannot be sincere4 #cag4--',tis a small misfortune to oblige an ungrateful man2 but it is unbearable to be obliged by a scoundrel4 #cah4--,we may find means to cure a fool of his folly1 but there are none to set straight a cross-grained spirit4 #cai4--;,if we take the liberty to dwell on their faults we cannot long preserve the feelings we should hold towards our friends and benefactors4 #cbj4--,to praise princes for virtues they do not possess is but to reproach them with impunity4 ,praise undeserved is satire in disguise1 quoted by ,pope from a poem which has not survived1 ,the ,garland1 by ,mr4 ,broadhurst4 ,in some cases exaggerated or inappropriate praise becomes the most severe satire4-- ,scott1 ,woodstock4 #cba4--,we are nearer loving those who hate us1 than those who love us more than we desire4 #cbb4--,those only are despicable who fear to be despised4 #cbc4--,our wisdom is no less at the mercy of ,fortune than our goods4 #cbd4--,there is more self-love than love in jealousy4 #cbe4--,we often comfort ourselves by the weakness of evils1 for which reason has not the strength to console us4 #cbf4--,ridicule dishonours more than dishonour itself4 ,no1 says a commentator1 ,ridicule may do harm1 but it cannot dishonour2 it is vice which confers dishonour4 #cbg4--,we own to small faults to persuade others that we have not great ones4 #cbh4--;,envy is more irreconcilable than hatred4 #cbi4--,we believe1 sometimes1 that we hate flattery --we only dislike the method4 ,but when ,i tell him he hates flatterers1 ,he says he does1 being then most flattered4 ,shakespeare1 ,julius ,caesar 1,act ,,ii1 ,scene ,i1 ,decius4 #ccj4--,we pardon in the degree that we love4 #cca4--;,it is more difficult to be faithful to a mistress when one is happy1 than when we are ill-treated by her4 ,si qua volet regnare diu contemnat amantem4--,ovid1 ,amores1 ii4 #ai4 #ccb4--,women do not know all their powers of flirtation4 #ccc4--,women cannot be completely severe unless they hate4 #ccd4--,women can less easily resign flirtations than love4 #cce4--;,in love deceit almost always goes further than mistrust4 #ccf4--,there is a kind of love1 the excess of which forbids jealousy4 #ccg4--,there are certain good qualities as there are senses1 and those who want them can neither perceive nor understand them4 #cch4--,when our hatred is too bitter it places us below those whom we hate4 #cci4--,we only appreciate our good or evil in proportion to our self-love4 #cdj4--,the wit of most women rather strengthens their folly than their reason4 ,women have an entertaining tattle1 and sometimes wit1 but for solid reasoning and good sense ,i never knew one in my life that had it1 and who reasoned and acted consequentially for four and twenty hours together4--,lord ,chesterfield1 ,letter #abi4 #cda4--,the heat of youth is not more opposed to safety than the coldness of age4 #cdb4--,the accent of our native country dwells in the heart and mind as well as on the tongue4 #cdc4--,to be a great man one should know how to profit by every phase of fortune4 #cdd4--,most men1 like plants1 possess hidden qualities which chance discovers4 #cde4--,opportunity makes us known to others1 but more to ourselves4 #cdf4--;,if a woman's temper is beyond control there can be no control of the mind or heart4 #cdg4--,we hardly find any persons of good sense1 save those who agree with us4 ,that was excellently observed1 say ,i1 when ,i read an author when his opinion agrees with mine4--,swift1 ,thoughts ,on ,various ,subjects4 #cdh4--,when one loves one doubts even what one most believes4 #cdi4--,the greatest miracle of love is to eradicate flirtation4 #cej4--,why we hate with so much bitterness those who deceive us is because they think themselves more clever than we are4 ,i could pardon all his 7,louis ,,xi4's7 deceit1 but ,i cannot forgive his supposing me capable of the gross folly of being duped by his professions4--,sir ,walter ,scott1 ,quentin ,durward4 #cea4--,we have much trouble to break with one1 when we no longer are in love4 #ceb4--,we almost always are bored with persons with whom we should not be bored4 #cec4--;,a gentleman may love like a lunatic1 but not like a beast4 #ced4--,there are certain defects which well mounted glitter like virtue itself4 #cee4--,sometimes we lose friends for whose loss our regret is greater than our grief1 and others for whom our grief is greater than our regret4 #cef4--,usually we only praise heartily those who admire us4 #ceg4--,little minds are too much wounded by little things2 great minds see all and are not even hurt4 #ceh4--;,humility is the true proof of ,christian virtues2 without it we retain all our faults1 and they are only covered by pride to hide them from others1 and often from ourselves4 #cei4--;,infidelities should extinguish love1 and we ought not to be jealous when we have cause to be so4 ,no persons escape causing jealousy who are worthy of exciting it4 #cfj4--,we are more humiliated by the least infidelity towards us1 than by our greatest towards others4 #cfa4--;,jealousy is always born with love1 but does not always die with it4 #cfb4--,most women do not grieve so much for the death of their lovers for love's-sake1 as to show they were worthy of being beloved4 #cfc4--,the evils we do to others give us less pain than those we do to ourselves4 #cfd4--,we well know that it is bad taste to talk of our wives2 but we do not so well know that it is the same to speak of ourselves4 #cfe4--,there are virtues which degenerate into vices when they arise from ,nature1 and others which when acquired are never perfect4 ,for example1 reason must teach us to manage our estate and our confidence1 while ,nature should have given us goodness and valour4 #cff4--;,however we distrust the sincerity of those whom we talk with1 we always believe them more sincere with us than with others4 #cfg4--,there are few virtuous women who are not tired of their part4 ,every woman is at heart a rake4--,pope4 ,moral ,essays1 ii4 #cfh4--,the greater number of good women are like concealed treasures1 safe as no one has searched for them4 #cfi4--,the violences we put upon ourselves to escape love are often more cruel than the cruelty of those we love4 #cgj4--,there are not many cowards who know the whole of their fear4 #cga4--;,it is generally the fault of the loved one not to perceive when love ceases4 #cgb4--,most young people think they are natural when they are only boorish and rude4 #cgc4--,some tears after having deceived others deceive ourselves4 #cgd4--;,if we think we love a woman for love of herself we are greatly deceived4 #cge4--,ordinary men commonly condemn what is beyond them4 #cgf4--;,envy is destroyed by true friendship1 flirtation by true love4 #cgg4--,the greatest mistake of penetration is not to have fallen short1 but to have gone too far4 #cgh4--,we may bestow advice1 but we cannot inspire the conduct4 #cgi4--;,as our merit declines so also does our taste4 #chj4--;,fortune makes visible our virtues or our vices1 as light does objects4 #cha4--,the struggle we undergo to remain faithful to one we love is little better than infidelity4 #chb4--,our actions are like the rhymed ends of blank verses 7,bouts-,rimes7 where to each one puts what construction he pleases4 ,the ,bouts-,rimes was a literary game popular in the #agth and #ahth centuries--the rhymed words at the end of a line being given for others to fill up4 ,thus ,horace ,walpole being given1 brook1 why1 crook1 ,i1 returned the burlesque verse-- ,i sits with my toes in a ,brook1 ,and if any one axes me ,why8 ,i gies 'em a rap with my ,crook1 ',tis constancy makes me1 ses ,i4 #chc4--,the desire of talking about ourselves1 and of putting our faults in the light we wish them to be seen1 forms a great part of our sincerity4 #chd4--,we should only be astonished at still being able to be astonished4 #che4--;,it is equally as difficult to be contented when one has too much or too little love4 #chf4--,no people are more often wrong than those who will not allow themselves to be wrong4 #chg4--;,a fool has not stuff in him to be good4 #chh4--;,if vanity does not overthrow all virtues1 at least she makes them totter4 #chi4--,what makes the vanity of others unsupportable is that it wounds our own4 #cij4--,we give up more easily our interest than our taste4 #cia4--;,fortune appears so blind to none as to those to whom she has done no good4 #cib4--,we should manage fortune like our health1 enjoy it when it is good1 be patient when it is bad1 and never resort to strong remedies but in an extremity4 #cic4--;,awkwardness sometimes disappears in the camp1 never in the court4 #cid4--;,a man is often more clever than one other1 but not than all others4 ,singuli decipere ac decipi possunt1 nemo omnes1 omnes neminem fefellerunt4--,pliny the ,younger1 ,panegyricus1 ,,lxii4 #cie4--,we are often less unhappy at being deceived by one we loved1 than on being deceived4 #cif4--,we keep our first lover for a long time--if we do not get a second4 #cig4--,we have not the courage to say generally that we have no faults1 and that our enemies have no good qualities2 but in fact we are not far from believing so4 #cih4--,of all our faults that which we most readily admit is idleness3 we believe that it makes all virtues ineffectual1 and that without utterly destroying1 it at least suspends their operation4 #cii4--,there is a kind of greatness which does not depend upon fortune3 it is a certain manner what distinguishes us1 and which seems to destine us for great things2 it is the value we insensibly set upon ourselves2 it is by this quality that we gain the deference of other men1 and it is this which commonly raises us more above them1 than birth1 rank1 or even merit itself4 #djj4--,there may be talent without position1 but there is no position without some kind of talent4 #dja4--,rank is to merit what dress is to a pretty woman4 #djb4--,what we find the least of in flirtation is love4 #djc4--;,fortune sometimes uses our faults to exalt us1 and there are tiresome people whose deserts would be ill rewarded if we did not desire to purchase their absence4 #djd4--;,it appears that nature has hid at the bottom of our hearts talents and abilities unknown to us4 ,it is only the passions that have the power of bringing them to light1 and sometimes give us views more true and more perfect than art could possibly do4 #dje4--,we reach quite inexperienced the different stages of life1 and often1 in spite of the number of our years1 we lack experience4 ,to most men experience is like the stern lights of a ship which illumine only the track it has passed4-- ,coleridge4 #djf4--;,flirts make it a point of honour to be jealous of their lovers1 to conceal their envy of other women4 #djg4--;,it may well be that those who have trapped us by their tricks do not seem to us so foolish as we seem to ourselves when trapped by the tricks of others4 #djh4--,the most dangerous folly of old persons who have been loveable is to forget that they are no longer so4 ,every woman who is not absolutely ugly thinks herself handsome4 ,the suspicion of age no woman1 let her be ever so old1 forgives4--,lord ,chesterfield1 ,letter #abi4 #dji4--,we should often be ashamed of our very best actions if the world only saw the motives which caused them4 #daj4--,the greatest effort of friendship is not to show our faults to a friend1 but to show him his own4 #dll4--,we have few faults which are not far more excusable than the means we adopt to hide them4 #dab4--,whatever disgrace we may have deserved1 it is almost always in our power to re-establish our character4 ,this is hardly a period at which the most irregular character may not be redeemed4 ,the mistakes of one sin find a retreat in patriotism1 those of the other in devotion4 --,junius1 ,letter ,to ,the ,king4 #dac4--;,a man cannot please long who has only one kind of wit4 ,according to ,segrais this maxim was a hit at ,racine and ,boileau1 who1 despising ordinary conversation1 talked incessantly of literature2 but there is some doubt as to ,segrais' statement4--,aime ,martin4 #dad4--;,idiots and lunatics see only their own wit4 #dae4--,wit sometimes enables us to act rudely with impunity4 #daf4--,the vivacity which increases in old age is not far removed from folly4 ,how ill white hairs become a fool and jester4-- ,shakespeare1 ,king ,henry ,,iv1 ,part ,,ii1 ,act4 ,v1 ,scene ,v1 ,king4 ,can age itself forget that you are now in the last act of life8 ,can grey hairs make folly venerable1 and is there no period to be reserved for meditation or retirement4-- ,junius1 ,to ,the ,duke ,of ,bedford1 #aith ,sept4 #agfi4 #dag4--;,in love the quickest is always the best cure4 #dah4--,young women who do not want to appear flirts1 and old men who do not want to appear ridiculous1 should not talk of love as a matter wherein they can have any interest4 #dai4--,we may seem great in a post beneath our capacity1 but we oftener seem little in a post above it4 #dbj4--,we often believe we have constancy in misfortune when we have nothing but debasement1 and we suffer misfortunes without regarding them as cowards who let themselves be killed from fear of defending themselves4 #dba4--;,conceit causes more conversation than wit4 #dbb4--;,all passions make us commit some faults1 love alone makes us ridiculous4 ,in love we all are fools alike4--,gay1 ,the ,beggar's ,opera1 7#agbh71 ,act ,,iii1 ,scene ,i1 ,lucy4 #dbc4--;,few know how to be old4 #dbd4--,we often credit ourselves with vices the reverse of what we have1 thus when weak we boast of our obstinacy4 #dbe4--,penetration has a spice of divination in it which tickles our vanity more than any other quality of the mind4 #dbf4--,the charm of novelty and old custom1 however opposite to each other1 equally blind us to the faults of our friends4 ,two things the most opposite blind us equally1 custom and novelty4-,la ,bruyere1 ,des ,judgements4 #dbg4--,most friends sicken us of friendship1 most devotees of devotion4 #dbh4--,we easily forgive in our friends those faults we do not perceive4 #dbi4--,women who love1 pardon more readily great indiscretions than little infidelities4 #dcj4--;,in the old age of love as in life we still survive for the evils1 though no longer for the pleasures4 ,the youth of friendship is better than its old age4 --,hazlitt's ,characteristics1 #bbi4 #dca4--,nothing prevents our being unaffected so much as our desire to seem so4 #dcb4--,to praise good actions heartily is in some measure to take part in them4 #dcc4--,the most certain sign of being born with great qualities is to be born without envy4 ,nemo alienae virtuti invidet qui satis confidet suae4 --,cicero ,in ,marc ,ant4 #dcd4--,when our friends have deceived us we owe them but indifference to the tokens of their friendship1 yet for their misfortunes we always owe them pity4 #dce4--,luck and temper rule the world4 #dcf4--;,it is far easier to know men than to know man4 #dcg4--,we should not judge of a man's merit by his great abilities1 but by the use he makes of them4 #dch4--,there is a certain lively gratitude which not only releases us from benefits received1 but which also1 by making a return to our friends as payment1 renders them indebted to us4 ,and understood not that a grateful mind1 ,by owing owes not1 but is at once ,indebted and discharged4 ,milton4 ,paradise ,lost4 #dci4--,we should earnestly desire but few things if we clearly knew what we desired4 #ddj4--,the cause why the majority of women are so little given to friendship is1 that it is insipid after having felt love4 ,those who have experienced a great passion neglect friendship1 and those who have united themselves to friendship have nought to do with love4--,la ,bruyere4 ,du ,coeur4 #dda4--;,as in friendship so in love1 we are often happier from ignorance than from knowledge4 #ddb4--,we try to make a virtue of vices we are loth to correct4 #ddc4--,the most violent passions give some respite1 but vanity always disturbs us4 #ddd4--,old fools are more foolish than young fools4 ,malvolio4 ,infirmity1 that decays the wise1 doth ever make the better fool4 ,clown4 ,god send you1 sir1 a speedy infirmity1 for the better increasing of your folly4--,shakespeare4 ,twelfth ,night1 ,act ,i1 ,scene ,v4 #dde4--,weakness is more hostile to virtue than vice4 #ddf4--,what makes the grief of shame and jealousy so acute is that vanity cannot aid us in enduring them4 #ddg4--,propriety is the least of all laws1 but the most obeyed4 ,honour has its supreme laws1 to which education is bound to conform4444,those things which honour forbids are more rigorously forbidden when the laws do not concur in the prohibition1 and those it commands are more strongly insisted upon when they happen not to be commanded by law4--,montesquieu1 ,the ,spirit ,of ,laws1 b4 #d1 c4 ii4 #ddh4--;,a well-trained mind has less difficulty in submitting to than in guiding an ill-trained mind4 #ddi4--,when fortune surprises us by giving us some great office without having gradually led us to expect it1 or without having raised our hopes1 it is well nigh impossible to occupy it well1 and to appear worthy to fill it4 #dej4--,our pride is often increased by what we retrench from our other faults4 ,the loss of sensual pleasures was supplied and compensated by spiritual pride4--,gibbon4 ,decline ,and ,fall1 chap4 xv4 #dea4--,no fools so wearisome as those who have some wit4 #deb4--,no one believes that in every respect he is behind the man he considers the ablest in the world4 #dec4--;,in great matters we should not try so much to create opportunities as to utilise those that offer themselves4 ,yet ,lord ,bacon says ,a wise man will make more opportunities than he finds4--,essays1 7#afbe71 ,of ,ceremonies and ,respects #ded4--,there are few occasions when we should make a bad bargain by giving up the good on condition that no ill was said of us4 #dee4--;,however disposed the world may be to judge wrongly1 it far oftener favours false merit than does justice to true4 #def4--,sometimes we meet a fool with wit1 never one with discretion4 #deg4--,we should gain more by letting the world see what we are than by trying to seem what we are not4 #deh4--,our enemies come nearer the truth in the opinions they form of us than we do in our opinion of ourselves4 #dei4--,there are many remedies to cure love1 yet none are infallible4 #dfj4--;,it would be well for us if we knew all our passions make us do4 #dfa4--;,age is a tyrant who forbids at the penalty of life all the pleasures of youth4 #dfb4--,the same pride which makes us blame faults from which we believe ourselves free causes us to despise the good qualities we have not4 #dfc4--,there is often more pride than goodness in our grief for our enemies' miseries2 it is to show how superior we are to them1 that we bestow on them the sign of our compassion4 #dfd4--,there exists an excess of good and evil which surpasses our comprehension4 #dfe4--;,innocence is most fortunate if it finds the same protection as crime4 #dff4--,of all the violent passions the one that becomes a woman best is love4 #dfg4--,vanity makes us sin more against our taste than reason4 #dfh4--,some bad qualities form great talents4 #dfi4--,we never desire earnestly what we desire in reason4 #dgj4--;,all our qualities are uncertain and doubtful1 both the good as well as the bad1 and nearly all are creatures of opportunities4 #dga4--;,in their first passion women love their lovers1 in all the others they love love4 ,in her first passion woman loves her lover1 ,in all her others what she loves is love4 --,lord ,byron1 ,don ,juan1 ,canto iii41 stanza #c4 ,we truly love once1 the first time2 the subsequent passions are more or less involuntary4 ,la ,bruyere3 ,du ,coeur4 #dgb4--,pride as the other passions has its follies4 ,we are ashamed to own we are jealous1 and yet we plume ourselves in having been and being able to be so4 #dgc4--;,however rare true love is1 true friendship is rarer4 ,it is more common to see perfect love than real friendship4--,la ,bruyere4 ,du ,coeur4 #dgd4--,there are few women whose charm survives their beauty4 #dge4--,the desire to be pitied or to be admired often forms the greater part of our confidence4 #dgf4--,our envy always lasts longer than the happiness of those we envy4 #dgg4--,the same firmness that enables us to resist love enables us to make our resistance durable and lasting4 ,so weak persons who are always excited by passions are seldom really possessed of any4 #dgh4--;,fancy does not enable us to invent so many different contradictions as there are by nature in every heart4 #dgi4--;,it is only people who possess firmness who can possess true gentleness4 ,in those who appear gentle it is generally only weakness1 which is readily converted into harshness4 #dhj4--,timidity is a fault which is dangerous to blame in those we desire to cure of it4 #dha4--,nothing is rarer than true good nature1 those who think they have it are generally only pliant or weak4 #dhb4--,the mind attaches itself by idleness and habit to whatever is easy or pleasant4 ,this habit always places bounds to our knowledge1 and no one has ever yet taken the pains to enlarge and expand his mind to the full extent of its capacities4 #dhc4--,usually we are more satirical from vanity than malice4 #dhd4--,when the heart is still disturbed by the relics of a passion it is proner to take up a new one than when wholly cured4 #dhe4--,those who have had great passions often find all their lives made miserable in being cured of them4 #dhf4--,more persons exist without self-love than without envy4 ,i do not believe that there is a human creature in his senses arrived at maturity1 that at some time or other has not been carried away by this passion 7envy7 in good earnest1 and yet ,i never met with any who dared own he was guilty of it1 but in jest4--,mandeville3 ,fable ,of ,the ,bees2 ,remark ,n4 #dhg4--,we have more idleness in the mind than in the body4 #dhh4--,the calm or disturbance of our mind does not depend so much on what we regard as the more important things of life1 as in a judicious or injudicious arrangement of the little things of daily occurrence4 #dhi4--;,however wicked men may be1 they do not dare openly to appear the enemies of virtue1 and when they desire to persecute her they either pretend to believe her false or attribute crimes to her4 #dij4--,we often go from love to ambition1 but we never return from ambition to love4 ,men commence by love1 finish by ambition1 and do not find a quieter seat while they remain there4--,la ,bruyere3 ,du ,coeur4 #dia4--;,extreme avarice is nearly always mistaken1 there is no passion which is oftener further away from its mark1 nor upon which the present has so much power to the prejudice of the future4 #dib4--;,avarice often produces opposite results3 there are an infinite number of persons who sacrifice their property to doubtful and distant expectations1 others mistake great future advantages for small present interests4 ,aime ,martin says1 ,the author here confuses greediness1 the desire and avarice--passions which probably have a common origin1 but produce different results4 ,the greedy man is nearly always desirous to possess1 and often foregoes great future advantages for small present interests4 ,the avaricious man1 on the other hand1 mistakes present advantages for the great expectations of the future4 ,both desire to possess and enjoy4 ,but the miser possesses and enjoys nothing but the pleasure of possessing2 he risks nothing1 gives nothing1 hopes nothing1 his life is centred in his strong box1 beyond that he has no want4 #dic4--;,it appears that men do not find they have enough faults1 as they increase the number by certain peculiar qualities that they affect to assume1 and which they cultivate with so great assiduity that at length they become natural faults1 which they can no longer correct4 #did4--,what makes us see that men know their faults better than we imagine1 is that they are never wrong when they speak of their conduct2 the same self-love that usually blinds them enlightens them1 and gives them such true views as to make them suppress or disguise the smallest thing that might be censured4 #die4--,young men entering life should be either shy or bold2 a solemn and sedate manner usually degenerates into impertinence4 #dif4--,quarrels would not last long if the fault was only on one side4 #dig4--;,it is valueless to a woman to be young unless pretty1 or to be pretty unless young4 #dih4--,some persons are so frivolous and fickle that they are as far removed from real defects as from substantial qualities4 #dii4--,we do not usually reckon a woman's first flirtation until she has had a second4 #ejj4--,some people are so self-occupied that when in love they find a mode by which to be engrossed with the passion without being so with the person they love4 #eja4--,love1 though so very agreeable1 pleases more by its ways than by itself4 #ejb4--;,a little wit with good sense bores less in the long run than much wit with ill nature4 #ejc4--;,jealousy is the worst of all evils1 yet the one that is least pitied by those who cause it4 #ejd4--,thus having treated of the hollowness of so many apparent virtues1 it is but just to say something on the hollowness of the contempt for death4 ,i allude to that contempt of death which the heathen boasted they derived from their unaided understanding1 without the hope of a future state4 ,there is a difference between meeting death with courage and despising it4 ,the first is common enough1 the last ,i think always feigned4 ,yet everything that could be has been written to persuade us that death is no evil1 and the weakest of men1 equally with the bravest1 have given many noble examples on which to found such an opinion1 still ,i do not think that any man of good sense has ever yet believed in it4 ,and the pains we take to persuade others as well as ourselves amply show that the task is far from easy4 ,for many reasons we may be disgusted with life1 but for none may we despise it4 ,not even those who commit suicide regard it as a light matter1 and are as much alarmed and startled as the rest of the world if death meets them in a different way than the one they have selected4 ,the difference we observe in the courage of so great a number of brave men1 is from meeting death in a way different from what they imagined1 when it shows itself nearer at one time than at another4 ,thus it ultimately happens that having despised death when they were ignorant of it1 they dread it when they become acquainted with it4 ,if we could avoid seeing it with all its surroundings1 we might perhaps believe that it was not the greatest of evils4 ,the wisest and bravest are those who take the best means to avoid reflecting on it1 as every man who sees it in its real light regards it as dreadful4 ,the necessity of dying created all the constancy of philosophers4 ,they thought it but right to go with a good grace when they could not avoid going1 and being unable to prolong their lives indefinitely1 nothing remained but to build an immortal reputation1 and to save from the general wreck all that could be saved4 ,to put a good face upon it1 let it suffice1 not to say all that we think to ourselves1 but rely more on our nature than on our fallible reason1 which might make us think we could approach death with indifference4 ,the glory of dying with courage1 the hope of being regretted1 the desire to leave behind us a good reputation1 the assurance of being enfranchised from the miseries of life and being no longer dependent on the wiles of fortune1 are resources which should not be passed over4 ,but we must not regard them as infallible4 ,they should affect us in the same proportion as a single shelter affects those who in war storm a fortress4 ,at a distance they think it may afford cover1 but when near they find it only a feeble protection4 ,it is only deceiving ourselves to imagine that death1 when near1 will seem the same as at a distance1 or that our feelings1 which are merely weaknesses1 are naturally so strong that they will not suffer in an attack of the rudest of trials4 ,it is equally as absurd to try the effect of self-esteem and to think it will enable us to count as naught what will of necessity destroy it4 ,and the mind in which we trust to find so many resources will be far too weak in the struggle to persuade us in the way we wish4 ,for it is this which betrays us so frequently1 and which1 instead of filling us with contempt of death1 serves but to show us all that is frightful and fearful4 ,the most it can do for us is to persuade us to avert our gaze and fix it on other objects4 ,cato and ,brutus each selected noble ones4 ,a lackey sometime ago contented himself by dancing on the scaffold when he was about to be broken on the wheel4 ,so however diverse the motives they but realize the same result4 ,for the rest it is a fact that whatever difference there may be between the peer and the peasant1 we have constantly seen both the one and the other meet death with the same composure4 ,still there is always this difference1 that the contempt the peer shows for death is but the love of fame which hides death from his sight2 in the peasant it is but the result of his limited vision that hides from him the extent of the evil1 end leaves him free to reflect on other things4 ,,the ,,first ,,supplement ,the following reflections are extracted from the first two editions of ,la ,rochefoucauld1 having been suppressed by the author in succeeding issues4 ,i4--,self-love is the love of self1 and of all things for self4 ,it makes men self-worshippers1 and if fortune permits them1 causes them to tyrannize over others2 it is never quiet when out of itself1 and only rests upon other subjects as a bee upon flowers1 to extract from them its proper food4 ,nothing is so headstrong as its desires1 nothing so well concealed as its designs1 nothing so skilful as its management2 its suppleness is beyond description2 its changes surpass those of the metamorphoses1 its refinements those of chemistry4 ,we can neither plumb the depths nor pierce the shades of its recesses4 ,therein it is hidden from the most far-seeing eyes1 therein it takes a thousand imperceptible folds4 ,there it is often to itself invisible2 it there conceives1 there nourishes and rears1 without being aware of it1 numberless loves and hatreds1 some so monstrous that when they are brought to light it disowns them1 and cannot resolve to avow them4 ,in the night which covers it are born the ridiculous persuasions it has of itself1 thence come its errors1 its ignorance1 its silly mistakes2 thence it is led to believe that its passions which sleep are dead1 and to think that it has lost all appetite for that of which it is sated4 ,but this thick darkness which conceals it from itself does not hinder it from seeing that perfectly which is out of itself2 and in this it resembles our eyes which behold all1 and yet cannot set their own forms4 ,in fact1 in great concerns and important matters when the violence of its desires summons all its attention1 it sees1 feels1 hears1 imagines1 suspects1 penetrates1 divines all3 so that we might think that each of its passions had a magic power proper to it4 ,nothing is so close and strong as its attachments1 which1 in sight of the extreme misfortunes which threaten it1 it vainly attempts to break4 ,yet sometimes it effects that without trouble and quickly1 which it failed to do with its whole power and in the course of years1 whence we may fairly conclude that it is by itself that its desires are inflamed1 rather than by the beauty and merit of its objects1 that its own taste embellishes and heightens them2 that it is itself the game it pursues1 and that it follows eagerly when it runs after that upon which itself is eager4 ,it is made up of contraries4 ,it is imperious and obedient1 sincere and false1 piteous and cruel1 timid and bold4 ,it has different desires according to the diversity of temperaments1 which turn and fix it sometimes upon riches1 sometimes on pleasures4 ,it changes according to our age1 our fortunes1 and our hopes2 it is quite indifferent whether it has many or one1 because it can split itself into many portions1 and unite in one as it pleases4 ,it is inconstant1 and besides the changes which arise from strange causes it has an infinity born of itself1 and of its own substance4 ,it is inconstant through inconstancy1 of lightness1 love1 novelty1 lassitude and distaste4 ,it is capricious1 and one sees it sometimes work with intense eagerness and with incredible labour to obtain things of little use to it which are even hurtful1 but which it pursues because it wishes for them4 ,it is silly1 and often throws its whole application on the utmost frivolities4 ,it finds all its pleasure in the dullest matters1 and places its pride in the most contemptible4 ,it is seen in all states of life1 and in all conditions2 it lives everywhere and upon everything2 it subsists on nothing2 it accommodates itself either to things or to the want of them2 it goes over to those who are at war with it1 enters into their designs1 and1 this is wonderful1 it1 with them1 hates even itself2 it conspires for its own loss1 it works towards its own ruin--in fact1 caring only to exist1 and providing that it may be1 it will be its own enemy6 ,we must therefore not be surprised if it is sometimes united to the rudest austerity1 and if it enters so boldly into partnership to destroy her1 because when it is rooted out in one place it re-establishes itself in another4 ,when it fancies that it abandons its pleasure it merely changes or suspends its enjoyment4 ,when even it is conquered in its full flight1 we find that it triumphs in its own defeat4 ,here then is the picture of self-love whereof the whole of our life is but one long agitation4 ,the sea is its living image2 and in the flux and reflux of its continuous waves there is a faithful expression of the stormy succession of its thoughts and of its eternal motion4 7,edition of #affe1 ,no4 #a47 ,,ii4--,passions are only the different degrees of the heat or coldness of the blood4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ac47 ,,iii4--,moderation in good fortune is but apprehension of the shame which follows upon haughtiness1 or a fear of losing what we have4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ah47 ,,iv4--,moderation is like temperance in eating2 we could eat more but we fear to make ourselves ill4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ba47 ,v4--,everybody finds that to abuse in another which he finds worthy of abuse in himself4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cc47 ,,vi4--,pride1 as if tired of its artifices and its different metamorphoses1 after having solely filled the divers parts of the comedy of life1 exhibits itself with its natural face1 and is discovered by haughtiness2 so much so that we may truly say that haughtiness is but the flash and open declaration of pride4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cg47 ,,vii4--,one kind of happiness is to know exactly at what point to be miserable4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ec47 ,,viii4--,when we do not find peace of mind 7,,repos7 in ourselves it is useless to seek it elsewhere4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ec47 ,,ix4--,one should be able to answer for one's fortune1 so as to be able to answer for what we shall do4 7#affe1 ,no4 #gj47 ,x4--,love is to the soul of him who loves1 what the soul is to the body which it animates4 7#affe1 ,no4 #gg47 ,,xi4--,as one is never at liberty to love or to cease from loving1 the lover cannot with justice complain of the inconstancy of his mistress1 nor she of the fickleness of her lover4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ha47 ,,xii4--,justice in those judges who are moderate is but a love of their place4 7#affe1 ,no4 #hi47 ,,xiii4--,when we are tired of loving we are quite content if our mistress should become faithless1 to loose us from our fidelity4 7#affe1 ,no4 #he47 ,,xiv4--,the first impulse of joy which we feel at the happiness of our friends arises neither from our natural goodness nor from friendship2 it is the result of self-love1 which flatters us with being lucky in our own turn1 or in reaping something from the good fortune of our friends4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ig47 ,,xv4--,in the adversity of our best friends we always find something which is not wholly displeasing to us4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ii47 ,this gave occasion to ,swift's celebrated ,verses on his own ,death4 ,the four first are quoted opposite the title1 then follow these lines3-- ,this maxim more than all the rest1 ,is thought too base for human breast2 ,in all distresses of our friends1 ,we first consult our private ends2 ,while nature kindly bent to ease us1 ,points out some circumstance to please us4 ,see also ,chesterfield's defence of this in his #abith letter2 they who know the deception and wickedness of the human heart will not be either romantic or blind enough to deny what ,rochefoucauld and ,swift have affirmed as a general truth4 ,,xvi4--,how shall we hope that another person will keep our secret if we do not keep it ourselves4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ajj47 ,,xvii4--,as if it was not sufficient that self-love should have the power to change itself1 it has added that of changing other objects1 and this it does in a very astonishing manner2 for not only does it so well disguise them that it is itself deceived1 but it even changes the state and nature of things4 ,thus1 when a female is adverse to us1 and she turns her hate and persecution against us1 self-love pronounces on her actions with all the severity of justice2 it exaggerates the faults till they are enormous1 and looks at her good qualities in so disadvantageous a light that they become more displeasing than her faults4 ,if however the same female becomes favourable to us1 or certain of our interests reconcile her to us1 our sole self interest gives her back the lustre which our hatred deprived her of4 ,the bad qualities become effaced1 the good ones appear with a redoubled advantage2 we even summon all our indulgence to justify the war she has made upon us4 ,now although all passions prove this truth1 that of love exhibits it most clearly2 for we may see a lover moved with rage by the neglect or the infidelity of her whom he loves1 and meditating the utmost vengeance that his passion can inspire4 ,nevertheless as soon as the sight of his beloved has calmed the fury of his movements1 his passion holds that beauty innocent2 he only accuses himself1 he condemns his condemnations1 and by the miraculous power of selflove1 he whitens the blackest actions of his mistress1 and takes from her all crime to lay it on himself4 ,no date or number is given for this maxim ,,xviii4--,there are none who press so heavily on others as the lazy ones1 when they have satisfied their idleness1 and wish to appear industrious4 7#afff1 ,no4 #ia47 ,,xix4--,the blindness of men is the most dangerous effect of their pride2 it seems to nourish and augment it1 it deprives us of knowledge of remedies which can solace our miseries and can cure our faults4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ajb47 ,,xx4--,one has never less reason than when one despairs of finding it in others4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ajc47 ,,xxi4--,philosophers1 and ,seneca above all1 have not diminished crimes by their precepts2 they have only used them in the building up of pride4 7#affe1 ,no4 #aje47 ,,xxii4--,it is a proof of little friendship not to perceive the growing coolness of that of our friends4 7#afff1 ,no4 #ig47 ,,xxiii4--,the most wise may be so in indifferent and ordinary matters1 but they are seldom so in their most serious affairs4 7#affe1 ,no4 #acb47 ,,xxiv4--,the most subtle folly grows out of the most subtle wisdom4 7#affe1 ,no4 #acd47 ,,xxv4--,sobriety is the love of health1 or an incapacity to eat much4 7#affe1 ,no4 #ace47 ,,xxvi4--,we never forget things so well as when we are tired of talking of them4 7#affe1 ,no4 #add47 ,,xxvii4--,the praise bestowed upon us is at least useful in rooting us in the practice of virtue4 7#affe1 ,no4 #aee47 ,,xxviii4--,self-love takes care to prevent him whom we flatter from being him who most flatters us4 7#affe1 ,no4 #aeg47 ,,xxix4--,men only blame vice and praise virtue from interest4 7#affe1 ,no4 #aea47 ,,xxx4--,we make no difference in the kinds of anger1 although there is that which is light and almost innocent1 which arises from warmth of complexion1 temperament1 and another very criminal1 which is1 to speak properly1 the fury of pride4 7#affe1 ,no4 #aei47 ,,xxxi4--,great souls are not those who have fewer passions and more virtues than the common1 but those only who have greater designs4 7#affe1 ,no4 #afa47 ,,xxxii4--,kings do with men as with pieces of money2 they make them bear what value they will1 and one is forced to receive them according to their currency value1 and not at their true worth4 7#affe1 ,no4 #afe47 ,see ,burns1 ,for ,a' ,that ,an ,a' ,that-- ,the rank is but the guinea's stamp1 ,the man's the gowd for a' that4 ,also ,farquhar and other parallel passages pointed out in ,familiar ,words4 ,,xxxiii4--,natural ferocity makes fewer people cruel than self-love4 7#affe1 ,no4 #agd47 ,,xxxiv4--,one may say of all our virtues as an ,italian poet says of the propriety of women1 that it is often merely the art of appearing chaste4 7#affe1 ,no4 #agf47 ,,xxxv4--,there are crimes which become innocent and even glorious by their brilliancy199 their number1 or their excess2 thus it happens that public robbery is called financial skill1 and the unjust capture of provinces is called a conquest4 7#affe1 ,no4 #aib47 99,some crimes may be excused by their brilliancy1 such as those of ,jael1 of ,deborah1 of ,brutus1 and of ,charlotte ,corday--further than this the maxim is satire4 ,,xxxvi4--,one never finds in man good or evil in excess4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bja47 ,,xxxvii4--,those who are incapable of committing great crimes do not easily suspect others4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bjh47 ,the text incorrectly numbers this maxim as #ejh4 ,it is #bjh4 ,,xxxviii4--,the pomp of funerals concerns rather the vanity of the living1 than the honour of the dead4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bac47 ,,xxxix4--,whatever variety and change appears in the world1 we may remark a secret chain1 and a regulated order of all time by ,providence1 which makes everything follow in due rank and fall into its destined course4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bbe47 ,,xl4--,intrepidity should sustain the heart in conspiracies in place of valour which alone furnishes all the firmness which is necessary for the perils of war4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bca47 ,,xli4--,those who wish to define victory by her birth will be tempted to imitate the poets1 and to call her the ,daughter of ,heaven1 since they cannot find her origin on earth4 ,truly she is produced from an infinity of actions1 which instead of wishing to beget her1 only look to the particular interests of their masters1 since all those who compose an army1 in aiming at their own rise and glory1 produce a good so great and general4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bcb47 ,,xlii4--,that man who has never been in danger cannot answer for his courage4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bcf47 ,,xliii4--,we more often place bounds on our gratitude than on our desires and our hopes4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bda47 ,,xliv4--,imitation is always unhappy1 for all which is counterfeit displeases by the very things which charm us when they are original 7,naturelles74 7#affe1 ,no4 #bde47 ,,xlv4--,we do not regret the loss of our friends according to their merits1 but according to ,,our wants1 and the opinion with which we believed we had impressed them of our worth4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bdh47 ,,xlvi4--,it is very hard to separate the general goodness spread all over the world from great cleverness4 7#affe1 ,no4 #beb47 ,,xlvii4--,for us to be always good1 others should believe that they cannot behave wickedly to us with impunity4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bed47 ,,xlviii4--,a confidence in being able to please is often an infallible means of being displeasing4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bef47 ,,xlix4--,the confidence we have in ourselves arises in a great measure from that that we have in others4 7#affe1 ,no4 #beh47 ,l4--,there is a general revolution which changes the tastes of the mind as well as the fortunes of the world4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bej47 ,,li4--,truth is foundation and the reason of the perfection of beauty1 for of whatever stature a thing may be1 it cannot be beautiful and perfect unless it be truly that she should be1 and possess truly all that she should have 7#affe1 ,no4 #bfj47 ,beauty is truth1 truth beauty4--,john ,keats1 ,ode on a a ,grecian ,urn1 7#ahbj71 ,stanza #e ,,lii4--,there are fine things which are more brilliant when unfinished than when finished too much4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bfb47 ,,liii4--,magnanimity is a noble effort of pride which makes a man master of himself1 to make him master of all things4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bga47 ,,liv4--,luxury and too refined a policy in states are a sure presage of their fall1 because all parties looking after their own interest turn away from the public good4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bhb47 ,,lv4--,of all passions that which is least known to us is idleness2 she is the most ardent and evil of all1 although her violence may be insensible1 and the evils she causes concealed2 if we consider her power attentively we shall find that in all encounters she makes herself mistress of our sentiments1 our interests1 and our pleasures2 like the 7fabled7 ,remora1 she can stop the greatest vessels1 she is a hidden rock1 more dangerous in the most important matters than sudden squalls and the most violent tempests4 ,the repose of idleness is a magic charm which suddenly suspends the most ardent pursuits and the most obstinate resolutions4 ,in fact to give a true notion of this passion we must add that idleness1 like a beatitude of the soul1 consoles us for all losses and fills the vacancy of all our wants4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bij47 ,,lvi4--,we are very fond of reading others' characters1 but we do not like to be read ourselves4 7#affe1 ,no4 #bif47 ,,lvii4--,what a tiresome malady is that which forces one to preserve your health by a severe regimen4 7,ibid1 ,no4 #bih47 ,,lviii4--,it is much easier to take love when one is free1 than to get rid of it after having taken it4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cjj47 ,,lix4--,women for the most part surrender themselves more from weakness than from passion4 ,whence it is that bold and pushing men succeed better than others1 although they are not so loveable4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cja47 ,,lx4--,not to love is in love1 an infallible means of being beloved4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cjb47 ,,lxi4--,the sincerity which lovers and mistresses ask that both should know when they cease to love each other1 arises much less from a wish to be warned of the cessation of love1 than from a desire to be assured that they are beloved although no one denies it4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cjc47 ,,lxii4--,the most just comparison of love is that of a fever1 and we have no power over either1 as to its violence or its duration4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cje47 ,,lxiii4--,the greatest skill of the least skilful is to know how to submit to the direction of another4 7#affe1 ,no4 #cji47 ,,lxiv4--,we always fear to see those whom we love when we have been flirting with others4 7#afgd1 ,no4 #cgb47 ,,lxv4--,we ought to console ourselves for our faults when we have strength enough to own them4 7#afgd1 ,no4 #cge47 ,the date of the previous two maxims is incorrectly cited as #affe in the text4 ,i found this date immediately suspect because the translators' introduction states that the #affe edition only had #caf maxims4 ,in fact1 the two maxims only appeared in the fourth of the first five editions 7#afgd74 ,,second ,,supplement4 ,,reflections1 ,,extracted ,,from ,,ms4 ,,letters ,,in ,,the ,,royal ,,library499 99,a ,la ,bibliotheque ,du ,roi1 it is difficult at present 7,june #ahga7 to assign a name to the magnificent collection of books in ,paris1 the property of the nation4 ,,lxvi4--,interest is the soul of self-love1 in as much as when the body deprived of its soul is without sight1 feeling or knowledge1 without thought or movement1 so self-love1 riven so to speak from its interest1 neither sees1 nor hears1 nor smells1 nor moves2 thus it is that the same man who will run over land and sea for his own interest becomes suddenly paralyzed when engaged for that of others2 from this arises that sudden dulness and1 as it were1 death1 with which we afflict those to whom we speak of our own matters2 from this also their sudden resurrection when in our narrative we relate something concerning them2 from this we find in our conversations and business that a man becomes dull or bright just as his own interest is near to him or distant from him4 7,letter ,to ,madame ,de ,sable1 ,ms41 ,fol4 #baa47 ,,lxvii4--,why we cry out so much against maxims which lay bare the heart of man1 is because we fear that our own heart shall be laid bare4 7,maxim #ajc1 ,,ms41 fol4 #caj4997 99,the reader will recognise in these extracts portions of the ,maxims previously given1 sometimes the author has carefully polished them2 at other times the words are identical4 ,our numbers will indicate where they are to be found in the foregoing collection4 ,,lxviii4--,hope and fear are inseparable4 7,to ,madame ,de ,sable1 ,ms41 ,fol4 #bbb1 ,,max4 #afh47 ,,lxix4--,it is a common thing to hazard life to escape dishonour2 but1 when this is done1 the actor takes very little pain to make the enterprise succeed in which he is engaged1 and certain it is that they who hazard their lives to take a city or to conquer a province are better officers1 have more merit1 and wider and more useful1 views than they who merely expose themselves to vindicate their honour2 it is very common to find people of the latter class1 very rare to find those of the former4 7,letter ,to ,m4 ,esprit1 ,ms41 ,fol4 #agc1 ,,max4 #bai47 ,,lxx4--,the taste changes1 but the will remains the same4 7,to ,madame ,de ,sable1 ,fol4 #bbc1 ,max4 #beb47 ,,lxxi4--,the power which women whom we love have over us is greater than that which we have over ourselves4 7,to ,the ,same1 ,ms41 ,fol4 #baa1 ,max4 #bei7 ,,lxxii4--,that which makes us believe so easily that others have defects is that we all so easily believe what we wish4 7,to ,the ,same1 ,ms41 ,fol4 #bbc1 ,max4 #cig47 ,,lxxiii4--,i am perfectly aware that good sense and fine wit are tedious to every age1 but tastes are not always the same1 and what is good at one time will not seem so at another4 ,this makes me think that few persons know how to be old4 7,to ,the ,same1 ,fol4 #bjb1 ,max4 #dbc47 ,,lxxiv4--,god has permitted1 to punish man for his original sin1 that he should be so fond of his self-love1 that he should be tormented by it in all the actions of his life4 7,ms41 ,fol4 #caj1 ,max4 #did47 ,,lxxv4--,and so far it seems to me the philosophy of a lacquey can go2 ,i believe that all gaity in that state of life is very doubtful indeed4 7,to ,madame ,de ,sable1 ,fol4 #afa1 ,max4 #ejd47 ,in the maxim cited the author relates how a footman about to be broken on the wheel danced on the scaffold4 ,he seems to think that in his day the life of such servants was so miserable that their merriment was very doubtful4 ,,third ,,supplement ,the fifty following ,maxims are taken from the ,sixth ,edition of the ,pensees ,de ,la ,rochefoucauld1 published by ,claude ,barbin1 in #afic1 more than twelve years after the death of the author 7#agth ,may1 #afhj74 ,the reader will find some repetitions1 but also some very valuable maxims4 ,,lxxvi4--,many persons wish to be devout2 but no one wishes to be humble4 ,,lxxvii4--,the labour of the body frees us from the pains of the mind1 and thus makes the poor happy4 ,,lxxviii4--,true penitential sorrows 7mortifications7 are those which are not known1 vanity renders the others easy enough4 ,,lxxix4--,humility is the altar upon which ,god wishes that we should offer him his sacrifices4 ,,lxxx4--,few things are needed to make a wise man happy2 nothing can make a fool content2 that is why most men are miserable4 ,,lxxxi4--,we trouble ourselves less to become happy1 than to make others believe we are so4 ,,lxxxii4--,it is more easy to extinguish the first desire than to satisfy those which follow4 ,,lxxxiii4--,wisdom is to the soul what health is to the body4 ,,lxxxiv4--,the great ones of the earth can neither command health of body nor repose of mind1 and they buy always at too dear a price the good they can acquire4 ,,lxxxv4--,before strongly desiring anything we should examine what happiness he has who possesses it4 ,,lxxxvi4--,a true friend is the greatest of all goods1 and that of which we think least of acquiring4 ,,lxxxvii4--,lovers do not wish to see the faults of their mistresses until their enchantment is at an end4 ,,lxxxviii4--,prudence and love are not made for each other2 in the ratio that love increases1 prudence diminishes4 ,,lxxxix4--,it is sometimes pleasing to a husband to have a jealous wife2 he hears her always speaking of the beloved object4 ,,xc4--,how much is a woman to be pitied who is at the same time possessed of virtue and love6 ,,xci4--,the wise man finds it better not to enter the encounter than to conquer4 ,somewhat similar to ,goldsmith's sage-- ,who quits a world where strong temptations try1 ,and since 'tis hard to combat1 learns to fly4 ,,xcii4--,it is more necessary to study men than books4 ,the proper study of mankind is man4--,pope ,essay ,on ,man1 7#agcc71 ,epistle ,,ii1 line #b4 ,,xciii4--,good and evil ordinarily come to those who have most of one or the other4 ,,xciv4--,the accent and character of one's native country dwells in the mind and heart as on the tongue4 7,repitition ,of ,maxim #cdb47 ,,xcv4--,the greater part of men have qualities which1 like those of plants1 are discovered by chance4 7,repitition ,of ,maxim #cdd47 ,,xcvi4--,a good woman is a hidden treasure2 he who discovers her will do well not to boast about it4 7,see ,maxim #cfh47 ,,xcvii4--,most women do not weep for the loss of a lover to show that they have been loved so much as to show that they are worth being loved4 7,see ,maxim #cfb47 ,,xcviii4--,there are many virtuous women who are weary of the part they have played4 7,see ,maxim #cfg47 ,,xcix4--,if we think we love for love's sake we are much mistaken4 7,see ,maxim #cgd47 ,c4--,the restraint we lay upon ourselves to be constant1 is not much better than an inconstancy4 7,see ,maxim #cfi1 #cha47 ,,ci4--,there are those who avoid our jealousy1 of whom we ought to be jealous4 7,see ,maxim #cei47 ,,cii4--,jealousy is always born with love1 but does not always die with it4 7,see ,maxim #cfa47 ,,ciii4--,when we love too much it is difficult to discover when we have ceased to be beloved4 ,,civ4--,we know very well that we should not talk about our wives1 but we do not remember that it is not so well to speak of ourselves4 7,see ,maxim #cfd47 ,,cv4--,chance makes us known to others and to ourselves4 7,see ,maxim #cde47 ,,cvi4--,we find very few people of good sense1 except those who are of our own opinion4 7,see ,maxim #cdg47 ,,cvii4--,we commonly praise the good hearts of those who admire us4 7,see ,maxim #cef47 ,,cviii4--,man only blames himself in order that he may be praised4 ,,cix4--,little minds are wounded by the smallest things4 7,see ,maxim #ceg47 ,,cx4--,there are certain faults which placed in a good light please more than perfection itself4 7,see ,maxim #ced47 ,,cxi4--,that which makes us so bitter against those who do us a shrewd turn1 is because they think themselves more clever than we are4 7,see ,maxim #cej47 ,,cxii4--,we are always bored by those whom we bore4 7,see ,maxim #ceb47 ,,cxiii4--,the harm that others do us is often less than that we do ourselves4 7,see ,maxim #cfc47 ,,cxiv4--,it is never more difficult to speak well than when we are ashamed of being silent4 ,,cxv4--,those faults are always pardonable that we have the courage to avow4 ,,cxvi4--,the greatest fault of penetration is not that it goes to the bottom of a matter--but beyond it4 7,see ,maxim #cgg47 ,,cxvii4--,we give advice1 but we cannot give the wisdom to profit by it4 7,see ,maxim #cgh47 ,,cxviii4--,when our merit declines1 our taste declines also4 7,see ,maxim #cgi47 ,,cxix4--,fortune discovers our vices and our virtues1 as the light makes objects plain to the sight4 7,see ,maxim #chj47 ,,cxx4--,our actions are like rhymed verse-ends 7,bouts-,rimes7 which everyone turns as he pleases4 7,see ,maxim #chb47 ,,cxxi4--,there is nothing more natural1 nor more deceptive1 than to believe that we are beloved4 ,,cxxii4--,we would rather see those to whom we have done a benefit1 than those who have done us one4 ,,cxxiii4--,it is more difficult to hide the opinions we have than to feign those which we have not4 ,,cxxiv4--,renewed friendships require more care than those that have never been broken4 ,,cxxv4--,a man to whom no one is pleasing is much more unhappy than one who pleases nobody4 ,,reflections ,,on ,,various ,,subjects1 ,,by ,,the ,,duke ,,de ,,la ,,rochefoucauld ,i4 ,on ,confidence4 ,though sincerity and confidence have many points of resemblance1 they have yet many points of difference4 ,sincerity is an openness of heart1 which shows us what we are1 a love of truth1 a dislike to deception1 a wish to compensate our faults and to lessen them by the merit of confessing them4 ,confidence leaves us less liberty1 its rules are stricter1 it requires more prudence and reticence1 and we are not always free to give it4 ,it relates not only to ourselves1 since our interests are often mixed up with those of others2 it requires great delicacy not to expose our friends in exposing ourselves1 not to draw upon their goodness to enhance the value of what we give4 ,confidence always pleases those who receive it4 ,it is a tribute we pay to their merit1 a deposit we commit to their trust1 a pledge which gives them a claim upon us1 a kind of dependence to which we voluntarily submit4 ,i do not wish from what ,i have said to depreciate confidence1 so necessary to man4 ,it is in society the link between acquaintance and friendship4 ,i only wish to state its limits to make it true and real4 ,i would that it was always sincere1 always discreet1 and that it had neither weakness nor interest4 ,i know it is hard to place proper limits on being taken into all our friends' confidence1 and taking them into all ours4 ,most frequently we make confidants from vanity1 a love of talking1 a wish to win the confidence of others1 and make an exchange of secrets4 ,some may have a motive for confiding in us1 towards whom we have no motive for confiding4 ,with them we discharge the obligation in keeping their secrets and trusting them with small confidences4 ,others whose fidelity we know trust nothing to us1 but we confide in them by choice and inclination4 ,we should hide from them nothing that concerns us1 we should always show them with equal truth1 our virtues and our vices1 without exaggerating the one or diminishing the other4 ,we should make it a rule never to have half confidences4 ,they always embarrass those who give them1 and dissatisfy those who receive them4 ,they shed an uncertain light on what we want hidden1 increase curiosity1 entitling the recipients to know more1 giving them leave to consider themselves free to talk of what they have guessed4 ,it is far safer and more honest to tell nothing than to be silent when we have begun to tell4 ,there are other rules to be observed in matters confided to us1 all are important1 to all prudence and trust are essential4 ,everyone agrees that a secret should be kept intact1 but everyone does not agree as to the nature and importance of secresy4 ,too often we consult ourselves as to what we should say1 what we should leave unsaid4 ,there are few permanent secrets1 and the scruple against revealing them will not last for ever4 ,with those friends whose truth we know we have the closest intimacy4 ,they have always spoken unreservedly to us1 we should always do the same to them4 ,they know our habits and connexions1 and see too clearly not to perceive the slightest change4 ,they may have elsewhere learnt what we have promised not to tell4 ,it is not in our power to tell them what has been entrusted to us1 though it might tend to their interest to know it4 ,we feel as confident of them as of ourselves1 and we are reduced to the hard fate of losing their friendship1 which is dear to us1 or of being faithless as regards a secret4 ,this is doubtless the hardest test of fidelity1 but it should not move an honest man2 it is then that he can sacrifice himself to others4 ,his first duty is to rigidly keep his trust in its entirety4 ,he should not only control and guard his and his voice1 but even his lighter talk1 so that nothing be seen in his conversation or manner that could direct the curiosity of others towards that which he wishes to conceal4 ,we have often need of strength and prudence wherewith to oppose the exigencies of most of our friends who make a claim on our confidence1 and seek to know all about us4 ,we should never allow them to acquire this unexceptionable right4 ,there are accidents and circumstances which do not fall in their cognizance2 if they complain1 we should endure their complaints and excuse ourselves with gentleness1 but if they are still unreasonable1 we should sacrifice their friendship to our duty1 and choose between two inevitable evils1 the one reparable1 the other irreparable4 ,,ii4 ,on ,difference of ,character4 ,although all the qualities of mind may be united in a great genius1 yet there are some which are special and peculiar to him2 his views are unlimited2 he always acts uniformly and with the same activity2 he sees distant objects as if present2 he comprehends and grasps the greatest1 sees and notices the smallest matters2 his thoughts are elevated1 broad1 just and intelligible4 ,nothing escapes his observation1 and he often finds truth in spite of the obscurity that hides her from others4 ,a lofty mind always thinks nobly1 it easily creates vivid1 agreeable1 and natural fancies1 places them in their best light1 clothes them with all appropriate adornments1 studies others' tastes1 and clears away from its own thoughts all that is useless and disagreeable4 ,a clever1 pliant1 winning mind knows how to avoid and overcome difficulties4 ,bending easily to what it wants1 it understands the inclination and temper it is dealing with1 and by managing their interests it advances and establishes its own4 ,a well regulated mind sees all things as they should be seen1 appraises them at their proper value1 turns them to its own advantage1 and adheres firmly to its own opinions as it knows all their force and weight4 ,a difference exists between a working mind and a business-like mind4 ,we can undertake business without turning it to our own interest4 ,some are clever only in what does not concern them1 and the reverse in all that does4 ,there are others again whose cleverness is limited to their own business1 and who know how to turn everything to their own advantage4 ,it is possible to have a serious turn of mind1 and yet to talk pleasantly and cheerfully4 ,this class of mind is suited to all persons in all times of life4 ,young persons have usually a cheerful and satirical turn1 untempered by seriousness1 thus often making themselves disagreeable4 ,no part is easier to play than that of being always pleasant2 and the applause we sometimes receive in censuring others is not worth being exposed to the chance of offending them when they are out of temper4 ,satire is at once the most agreeable and most dangerous of mental qualities4 ,it always pleases when it is refined1 but we always fear those who use it too much1 yet satire should be allowed when unmixed with spite1 and when the person satirised can join in the satire4 ,it is unfortunate to have a satirical turn without affecting to be pleased or without loving to jest4 ,it requires much adroitness to continue satirical without falling into one of these extremes4 ,raillery is a kind of mirth which takes possession of the imagination1 and shows every object in an absurd light2 wit combines more or less softness or harshness4 ,there is a kind of refined and flattering raillery that only hits the faults that persons admit1 which understands how to hide the praise it gives under the appearance of blame1 and shows the good while feigning a wish to hide it4 ,an acute mind and a cunning mind are very dissimilar4 ,the first always pleases2 it is unfettered1 it perceives the most delicate and sees the most imperceptible matters4 ,a cunning spirit never goes straight1 it endeavours to secure its object by byeways and short cuts4 ,this conduct is soon found out1 it always gives rise to distrust and never reaches greatness4 ,there is a difference between an ardent and a brilliant mind1 a fiery spirit travels further and faster1 while a brilliant mind is sparkling1 attractive1 accurate4 ,gentleness of mind is an easy and accommodating manner which always pleases when not insipid4 ,a mind full of details devotes itself to the management and regulation of the smallest particulars it meets with4 ,this distinction is usually limited to little matters1 yet it is not absolutely incompatible with greatness1 and when these two qualities are united in the same mind they raise it infinitely above others4 ,the expression ,bel ,esprit is much perverted1 for all that one can say of the different kinds of mind meet together in the ,bel ,esprit4 ,yet as the epithet is bestowed on an infinite number of bad poets and tedious authors1 it is more often used to ridicule than to praise4 ,there are yet many other epithets for the mind which mean the same thing1 the difference lies in the tone and manner of saying them1 but as tones and manner cannot appear in writing ,i shall not go into distinctions ,i cannot explain4 ,custom explains this in saying that a man has wit1 has much wit1 that he is a great wit2 there are tones and manners which make all the difference between phrases which seem all alike on paper1 and yet express a different order of mind4 ,so we say that a man has only one kind of wit1 that he has several1 that he has every variety of wit4 ,one can be a fool with much wit1 and one need not be a fool even with very little wit4 ,to have much mind is a doubtful expression4 ,it may mean every class of mind that can be mentioned1 it may mean none in particular4 ,it may mean that he talks sensibly while he acts foolishly4 ,we may have a mind1 but a narrow one4 ,a mind may be fitted for some things1 not for others4 ,we may have a large measure of mind fitted for nothing1 and one is often inconvenienced with much mind2 still of this kind of mind we may say that it is sometimes pleasing in society4 ,though the gifts of the mind are infinite1 they can1 it seems to me1 be thus classified4 ,there are some so beautiful that everyone can see and feel their beauty4 ,there are some lovely1 it is true1 but which are wearisome4 ,there are some which are lovely1 which all the world admire1 but without knowing why4 ,there are some so refined and delicate that few are capable even of remarking all their beauties4 ,there are others which1 though imperfect1 yet are produced with such skill1 and sustained and managed with such sense and grace1 that they even deserve to be admired4 ,,iii4 ,on ,taste4 ,some persons have more wit than taste1 others have more taste than wit4 ,there is greater vanity and caprice in taste than in wit4 ,the word taste has different meanings1 which it is easy to mistake4 ,there is a difference between the taste which in certain objects has an attraction for us1 and the taste that makes us understand and distinguish the qualities we judge by4 ,we may like a comedy without having a sufficiently fine and delicate taste to criticise it accurately4 ,some tastes lead us imperceptibly to objects1 from which others carry us away by their force or intensity4 ,some persons have bad taste in everything1 others have bad taste only in some things1 but a correct and good taste in matters within their capacity4 ,some have peculiar taste1 which they know to be bad1 but which they still follow4 ,some have a doubtful taste1 and let chance decide1 their indecision makes them change1 and they are affected with pleasure or weariness on their friends' judgment4 ,others are always prejudiced1 they are the slaves of their tastes1 which they adhere to in everything4 ,some know what is good1 and are horrified at what is not2 their opinions are clear and true1 and they find the reason for their taste in their mind and understanding4 ,some have a species of instinct 7the source of which they are ignorant of71 and decide all questions that come before them by its aid1 and always decide rightly4 ,these follow their taste more than their intelligence1 because they do not permit their temper and self-love to prevail over their natural discernment4 ,all they do is in harmony1 all is in the same spirit4 ,this harmony makes them decide correctly on matters1 and form a correct estimate of their value4 ,but speaking generally there are few who have a taste fixed and independent of that of their friends1 they follow example and fashion which generally form the standard of taste4 ,in all the diversities of taste that we discern1 it is very rare and almost impossible to meet with that sort of good taste that knows how to set a price on the particular1 and yet understands the right value that should be placed on all4 ,our knowledge is too limited1 and that correct discernment of good qualities which goes to form a correct judgment is too seldom to be met with except in regard to matters that do not concern us4 ,as regards ourselves our taste has not this all-important discernment4 ,preoccupation1 trouble1 all that concern us1 present it to us in another aspect4 ,we do not see with the same eyes what does and what does not relate to us4 ,our taste is guided by the bent of our self-love and temper1 which supplies us with new views which we adapt to an infinite number of changes and uncertainties4 ,our taste is no longer our own1 we cease to control it1 without our consent it changes1 and the same objects appear to us in such divers aspects that ultimately we fail to perceive what we have seen and heard4 ,,iv4 ,on ,society4 ,in speaking of society my plan is not to speak of friendship1 for1 though they have some connection1 they are yet very different4 ,the former has more in it of greatness and humility1 and the greatest merit of the latter is to resemble the former4 ,for the present ,i shall speak of that particular kind of intercourse that gentlemen should have with each other4 ,it would be idle to show how far society is essential to men3 all seek for it1 and all find it1 but few adopt the method of making it pleasant and lasting4 ,everyone seeks to find his pleasure and his advantage at the expense of others4 ,we prefer ourselves always to those with whom we intend to live1 and they almost always perceive the preference4 ,it is this which disturbs and destroys society4 ,we should discover a means to hide this love of selection since it is too ingrained in us to be in our power to destroy4 ,we should make our pleasure that of other persons1 to humour1 never to wound their self-love4 ,the mind has a great part to do in so great a work1 but it is not merely sufficient for us to guide it in the different courses it should hold4 ,the agreement we meet between minds would not keep society together for long if she was not governed and sustained by good sense1 temper1 and by the consideration which ought to exist between persons who have to live together4 ,it sometimes happens that persons opposite in temper and mind become united4 ,they doubtless hold together for different reasons1 which cannot last for long4 ,society may subsist between those who are our inferiors by birth or by personal qualities1 but those who have these advantages should not abuse them4 ,they should seldom let it be perceived that they serve to instruct others4 ,they should let their conduct show that they1 too1 have need to be guided and led by reason1 and accommodate themselves as far as possible to the feeling and the interests of the others4 ,to make society pleasant1 it is essential that each should retain his freedom of action4 ,a man should not see himself1 or he should see himself without dependence1 and at the same time amuse himself4 ,he should have the power of separating himself without that separation bringing any change on the society4 ,he should have the power to pass by one and the other1 if he does not wish to expose himself to occasional embarrassments2 and he should remember that he is often bored when he believes he has not the power even to bore4 ,he should share in what he believes to be the amusement of persons with whom he wishes to live1 but he should not always be liable to the trouble of providing them4 ,complaisance is essential in society1 but it should have its limits1 it becomes a slavery when it is extreme4 ,we should so render a free consent1 that in following the opinion of our friends they should believe that they follow ours4 ,we should readily excuse our friends when their faults are born with them1 and they are less than their good qualities4 ,we should often avoid to show what they have said1 and what they have left unsaid4 ,we should try to make them perceive their faults1 so as to give them the merit of correcting them4 ,there is a kind of politeness which is necessary in the intercourse among gentlemen1 it makes them comprehend badinage1 and it keeps them from using and employing certain figures of speech1 too rude and unrefined1 which are often used thoughtlessly when we hold to our opinion with too much warmth4 ,the intercourse of gentlemen cannot subsist without a certain kind of confidence2 this should be equal on both sides4 ,each should have an appearance of sincerity and of discretion which never causes the fear of anything imprudent being said4 ,there should be some variety in wit4 ,those who have only one kind of wit cannot please for long unless they can take different roads1 and not both use the same talents1 thus adding to the pleasure of society1 and keeping the same harmony that different voices and different instruments should observe in music2 and as it is detrimental to the quiet of society1 that many persons should have the same interests1 it is yet as necessary for it that their interests should not be different4 ,we should anticipate what can please our friends1 find out how to be useful to them so as to exempt them from annoyance1 and when we cannot avert evils1 seem to participate in them1 insensibly obliterate without attempting to destroy them at a blow1 and place agreeable objects in their place1 or at least such as will interest them4 ,we should talk of subjects that concern them1 but only so far as they like1 and we should take great care where we draw the line4 ,there is a species of politeness1 and we may say a similar species of humanity1 which does not enter too quickly into the recesses of the heart4 ,it often takes pains to allow us to see all that our friends know1 while they have still the advantage of not knowing to the full when we have penetrated the depth of the heart4 ,thus the intercourse between gentlemen at once gives them familiarity and furnishes them with an infinite number of subjects on which to talk freely4 ,few persons have sufficient tact and good sense fairly to appreciate many matters that are essential to maintain society4 ,we desire to turn away at a certain point1 but we do not want to be mixed up in everything1 and we fear to know all kinds of truth4 ,as we should stand at a certain distance to view objects1 so we should also stand at a distance to observe society2 each has its proper point of view from which it should be regarded4 ,it is quite right that it should not be looked at too closely1 for there is hardly a man who in all matters allows himself to be seen as he really is4 ,v4 ,on ,conversation4 ,the reason why so few persons are agreeable in conversation is that each thinks more of what he desires to say1 than of what the others say1 and that we make bad listeners when we want to speak4 ,yet it is necessary to listen to those who talk1 we should give them the time they want1 and let them say even senseless things2 never contradict or interrupt them2 on the contrary1 we should enter into their mind and taste1 illustrate their meaning1 praise anything they say that deserves praise1 and let them see we praise more from our choice than from agreement with them4 ,to please others we should talk on subjects they like and that interest them1 avoid disputes upon indifferent matters1 seldom ask questions1 and never let them see that we pretend to be better informed than they are4 ,we should talk in a more or less serious manner1 and upon more or less abstruse subjects1 according to the temper and understanding of the persons we talk with1 and readily give them the advantage of deciding without obliging them to answer when they are not anxious to talk4 ,after having in this way fulfilled the duties of politeness1 we can speak our opinions to our listeners when we find an opportunity without a sign of presumption or opinionatedness4 ,above all things we should avoid often talking of ourselves and giving ourselves as an example2 nothing is more tiresome than a man who quotes himself for everything4 ,we cannot give too great study to find out the manner and the capacity of those with whom we talk1 so as to join in the conversation of those who have more than ourselves without hurting by this preference the wishes or interests of others4 ,then we should modestly use all the modes abovementioned to show our thoughts to them1 and make them1 if possible1 believe that we take our ideas from them4 ,we should never say anything with an air of authority1 nor show any superiority of mind4 ,we should avoid far-fetched expressions1 expressions hard or forced1 and never let the words be grander than the matter4 ,it is not wrong to retain our opinions if they are reasonable1 but we should yield to reason1 wherever she appears and from whatever side she comes1 she alone should govern our opinions1 we should follow her without opposing the opinions of others1 and without seeming to ignore what they say4 ,it is dangerous to seek to be always the leader of the conversation1 and to push a good argument too hard1 when we have found one4 ,civility often hides half its understanding1 and when it meets with an opinionated man who defends the bad side1 spares him the disgrace of giving way4 ,we are sure to displease when we speak too long and too often of one subject1 and when we try to turn the conversation upon subjects that we think more instructive than others1 we should enter indifferently upon every subject that is agreeable to others1 stopping where they wish1 and avoiding all they do not agree with4 ,every kind of conversation1 however witty it may be1 is not equally fitted for all clever persons2 we should select what is to their taste and suitable to their condition1 their sex1 their talents1 and also choose the time to say it4 ,we should observe the place1 the occasion1 the temper in which we find the person who listens to us1 for if there is much art in speaking to the purpose1 there is no less in knowing when to be silent4 ,there is an eloquent silence which serves to approve or to condemn1 there is a silence of discretion and of respect4 ,in a word1 there is a tone1 an air1 a manner1 which renders everything in conversation agreeable or disagreeable1 refined or vulgar4 ,but it is given to few persons to keep this secret well4 ,those who lay down rules too often break them1 and the safest we are able to give is to listen much1 to speak little1 and to say nothing that will ever give ground for regret4 ,,vi4 ,falsehood4 ,we are false in different ways4 ,there are some men who are false from wishing always to appear what they are not4 ,there are some who have better faith1 who are born false1 who deceive themselves1 and who never see themselves as they really are2 to some is given a true understanding and a false taste1 others have a false understanding and some correctness in taste2 there are some who have not any falsity either in taste or mind4 ,these last are very rare1 for to speak generally1 there is no one who has not some falseness in some corner of his mind or his taste4 ,what makes this falseness so universal1 is that as our qualities are uncertain and confused1 so too1 are our tastes2 we do not see things exactly as they are1 we value them more or less than they are worth1 and do not bring them into unison with ourselves in a manner which suits them or suits our condition or qualities4 ,this mistake gives rise to an infinite number of falsities in the taste and in the mind4 ,our self-love is flattered by all that presents itself to us under the guise of good4 ,but as there are many kinds of good which affect our vanity and our temper1 so they are often followed from custom or advantage4 ,we follow because the others follow1 without considering that the same feeling ought not to be equally embarrassing to all kinds of persons1 and that it should attach itself more or less firmly1 according as persons agree more or less with those who follow them4 ,we dread still more to show falseness in taste than in mind4 ,gentleness should approve without prejudice what deserves to be approved1 follow what deserves to be followed1 and take offence at nothing4 ,but there should be great distinction and great accuracy4 ,we should distinguish between what is good in the abstract and what is good for ourselves1 and always follow in reason the natural inclination which carries us towards matters that please us4 ,if men only wished to excel by the help of their own talents1 and in following their duty1 there would be nothing false in their taste or in their conduct4 ,they would show what they were1 they would judge matters by their lights1 and they would attract by their reason4 ,there would be a discernment in their views1 in their sentiments1 their taste would be true1 it would come to them direct1 and not from others1 they would follow from choice and not from habit or chance4 ,if we are false in admiring what should not be admired1 it is oftener from envy that we affix a value to qualities which are good in themselves1 but which do not become us4 ,a magistrate is false when he flatters himself he is brave1 and that he will be able to be bold in certain cases4 ,he should be as firm and stedfast in a plot which ought to be stifled without fear of being false1 as he would be false and absurd in fighting a duel about it4 ,a woman may like science1 but all sciences are not suitable for her1 and the doctrines of certain sciences never become her1 and when applied by her are always false4 ,we should allow reason and good sense to fix the value of things1 they should determine our taste and give things the merit they deserve1 and the importance it is fitting we should give them4 ,but nearly all men are deceived in the price and in the value1 and in these mistakes there is always a kind of falseness4 ,,vii4 ,on ,air and ,manner4 ,there is an air which belongs to the figure and talents of each individual2 we always lose it when we abandon it to assume another4 ,we should try to find out what air is natural to us and never abandon it1 but make it as perfect as we can4 ,this is the reason that the majority of children please4 ,it is because they are wrapt up in the air and manner nature has given them1 and are ignorant of any other4 ,they are changed and corrupted when they quit infancy1 they think they should imitate what they see1 and they are not altogether able to imitate it4 ,in this imitation there is always something of falsity and uncertainty4 ,they have nothing settled in their manner and opinions4 ,instead of being in reality what they want to appear1 they seek to appear what they are not4 ,all men want to be different1 and to be greater than they are2 they seek for an air other than their own1 and a mind different from what they possess2 they take their style and manner at chance4 ,they make experiments upon themselves without considering that what suits one person will not suit everyone1 that there is no universal rule for taste or manners1 and that there are no good copies4 ,few men1 nevertheless1 can have unison in many matters without being a copy of each other1 if each follow his natural turn of mind4 ,but in general a person will not wholly follow it4 ,he loves to imitate4 ,we often imitate the same person without perceiving it1 and we neglect our own good qualities for the good qualities of others1 which generally do not suit us4 ,i do not pretend1 from what ,i say1 that each should so wrap himself up in himself as not to be able to follow example1 or to add to his own1 useful and serviceable habits1 which nature has not given him4 ,arts and sciences may be proper for the greater part of those who are capable for them4 ,good manners and politeness are proper for all the world4 ,but1 yet acquired qualities should always have a certain agreement and a certain union with our own natural qualities1 which they imperceptibly extend and increase4 ,we are elevated to a rank and dignity above ourselves4 ,we are often engaged in a new profession for which nature has not adapted us4 ,all these conditions have each an air which belong to them1 but which does not always agree with our natural manner4 ,this change of our fortune often changes our air and our manners1 and augments the air of dignity1 which is always false when it is too marked1 and when it is not united and amalgamated with that which nature has given us4 ,we should unite and blend them together1 and thus render them such that they can never be separated4 ,we should not speak of all subjects in one tone and in the same manner4 ,we do not march at the head of a regiment as we walk on a promenade2 and we should use the same style in which we should naturally speak of different things in the same way1 with the same difference as we should walk1 but always naturally1 and as is suitable1 either at the head of a regiment or on a promenade4 ,there are some who are not content to abandon the air and manner natural to them to assume those of the rank and dignities to which they have arrived4 ,there are some who assume prematurely the air of the dignities and rank to which they aspire4 ,how many lieutenant-generals assume to be marshals of ,france1 how many barristers vainly repeat the style of the ,chancellor and how many female citizens give themselves the airs of duchesses4 ,but what we are most often vexed at is that no one knows how to conform his air and manners with his appearance1 nor his style and words with his thoughts and sentiments1 that every one forgets himself and how far he is insensibly removed from the truth4 ,nearly every one falls into this fault in some way4 ,no one has an ear sufficiently fine to mark perfectly this kind of cadence4 ,thousands of people with good qualities are displeasing2 thousands pleasing with far less abilities1 and why8 ,because the first wish to appear to be what they are not1 the second are what they appear4 ,some of the advantages or disadvantages that we have received from nature please in proportion as we know the air1 the style1 the manner1 the sentiments that coincide with our condition and our appearance1 and displease in the proportion they are removed from that point4 ,,index ,,the ,,letter ,r ,,preceding ,a ,,reference ,,refers ,,to ,,the ,,reflections1 ,,the ,,roman ,,numerals ,,refer ,,to ,,the ,,supplements4 ,ability1 #afb1 #afe1 #aii1 #bde1 #bhc1 #bhh4 ,,see ,cleverness ------1 ,sovereign1 #bdd4 ,absence1 #bgf4 ,accent1 country1 #cdb1 ,,xciv4 ,accidents1 #ei1 #caj4 ,acquaintances1 #dbf4 ,,see ,,friends4 ,acknowledgements1 #bbe4 ,actions1 #a1 #g1 #eg1 #eh1 #afj1 #afa1 #chb1 #dji1 ,,cxx4 ,actors1 #bef4 ,admiration1 #agh1 #bid1 #dgd4 ,adroitness of mind1 ,r4,,ii4 ,adversity1 #be4 -------- of ,friends1 ,,xv4 ,advice1 #aaj1 #aaf1 #bhc1 #cgh1 ,,cxvii4 ,affairs1 #dec1 ,r ,,ii4 ,affectation1 #acd1 #dic4 ,affections1 #bcb4 ,afflictions1 #bcc1 #cee1 #cfb1 #dic1 ,,xcvii1 ,,xv4 ,age1 #bbb1 #dje1 ,,lxxiii4 ,,see ,old ,age4 ,agreeableness1 #bee1 ,r4,v4 ,agreement1 #bdj4 ,air1 #cii1 #die1 ,r4#g4 -- ,of a ,citizen1 #cic4 ,ambition1 #bd1 #ia1 #bdf1 #bic1 #dij4 ,anger1 ,,xxx4 ,application1 #da1 #bdc4 ,appearances1 #fd1 #aff1 #aii1 #bef1 #cjb1 #dca1 #deg1 ,r4,,vii4 ----------1 ,conformity of ,manners with1 ,r4#g4 ,applause1 #bgb4 ,approbation1 #ea1 #bhj4 ,artifices1 #aag1 #abd1 #abe1 #abf1 ,r4,,ii4 ,astonishment1 #chd4 ,avarice1 #afg1 #dia1 #dib4 ,ballads1 #baa4 ,beauty1 #bdj1 #dgd1 #dig1 ,,li4 ------ of the ,mind1 ,r4,,ii4 ,bel esprit defined1 ,r4,,ii4 ,benefits1 #ad1 #bih1 #bii1 #cja1 ,,cxxii4 ,benefactors1 #if1 #cag1 ,,cxxii4 ,blame1 ,,cviii4 ,blindness1 ,,xix4 ,boasting1 #ada1 #cjg4 ,boredom1 #ada1 #cjd1 #ceb4 ,,see ,ennui4 ,bouts rimes1 #chb1 ,,cxx4 ,bravery1 #a1 #bac1 #bad1 #bae1 #baf1 #bag1 #bai1 #bbj1 #bba1 #cfe1 #ejd4 ,,see ,courage and ,valour4 ,brilliancy of ,mind1 ,r4,,ii4 ,brilliant things1 ,,lii4 ,capacity1 #cge4 ,caprice1 #de4 ,chance1 #eg1 #cdd1 ,,xcv4 ,,see ,fortune4 ,character1 ,,lvi1 ,r4,,ii4 ,chastity1 #a4 ,,see ,virtue of ,women4 ,cheating1 #aad1 #abg4 ,circumstances1 #ei1 #dgj4 ,civility1 #bfj4 ,clemency1 #ae1 #af4 ,cleverness1 #afb1 #bfi1 #bde1 #cii4 ,coarseness1 #cgb4 ,comedy1 #baa1 ,r4,,iii4 ,compassion1 #dfc4 ,,see ,pity4 ,complaisance1 #dha1 ,r4,,iv4 ,conduct1 #afc1 #bbg1 #cgh1 ,,cxvii4 ,confidants1 whom we make1 ,r4,i4 ,confidence1 #bci1 #cfe1 #dge1 ,,xlix1 ,r4#a1 ,r4,,iv4 ,confidence1 difference from ,sincerity ----------1 defined1 ,r4,i4 ,consolation1 #cbe4 ,constancy1 #ai1 #bj1 #ba1 #age1 #agf1 #dbj4 ,contempt1 #cbb4 -------- of ,death1 #ejd4 ,contentment1 ,,lxxx4 ,contradictions1 #dgh4 ,conversation1 #aci1 #adj1 #adb1 #cab1 #cac1 #cad1 #cfd1 #cia1 #dba1 ,,civ1 ,r4,v4 ,copies1 #acc4 ,coquetry1 #bda4 ,,see ,flirtation4 ,country ,manner1 #cic4 ------ ,accent1 #cdb4 ,courage1 #a1 #bad1 #bae1 #baf1 #bai1 #bba1 ,,xlii4 ,,see ,bravery4 ,covetousness1 opposed to ,reason1 #dfi ,cowardice1 #bae1 #dhj4 ,cowards1 #cgj4 ,crimes1 #ahc1 #dfe1 ,,xxxv1 ,,xxxvii4 ,cunning1 #abf1 #abi1 #cid1 #djg4 ,curiosity1 #agc4 ,danger1 ,,xlii4 ,death1 #ba1 #bc1 #bf4 ----1 ,contempt of1 #ejd4 ,deceit1 #hf1 #aag1 #aah1 #abd1 #abg1 #abi1 #cie1 #dcd4 ,,see ,,also ,self-,deceit4 ,deception1 ,,cxxi4 ,decency1 #ddg4 ,defects1 #ca1 #ij1 #dic1 ,,lxxii4 ,,see ,faults4 ,delicacy1 #abh1 ,r4,,ii4 ,dependency1 result of ,confidence1 ,r4,i4 ,designs1 #afj1 #afa4 ,desires1 #dci1 #dfi1 ,,lxxxii1 ,,lxxxv4 ,despicable ,persons1 #cbb4 ,detail1 ,mind given to1 ,r4,,ii4 ,details1 #da1 #ajf4 ,devotion1 #dbg4 ,devotees1 #dbg4 ,devout1 ,,lxxvi4 ,differences1 #ace4 ,dignities1 ,r4,,vii4 ,discretion1 ,r4,v4 ,disguise1 #aai1 #bdf1 #bhb4 ,disgrace1 #bce1 #dab4 ,dishonour1 #cbf1 ,,lxix4 ,distrust1 #hd1 #hf1 #cce4 ,divination1 #dbe4 ,doubt1 #cdh4 ,docility1 ,r4,,iv4 ,dupes1 #hg1 #ajb4 ,education1 #bfa4 ,elevation1 #cii1 #djj1 #djc4 ,eloquence1 #h1 #bdi1 #bej4 ,employments1 #afd1 #dai1 #ddi4 ,enemies1 #aad1 #cig1 #deh1 #dfc4 ,ennui1 #abb1 #ada1 #cjd1 #cab1 #ceb1 ,,cxii1 ,r4,,ii4 ,envy1 #bg1 #bh1 #bhj1 #bha1 #cbh1 #cgf1 #dcc1 #dgf1 #dhf4 ,epithets assigned to the ,mind1 ,r4,,ii4 ,esteem1 #bif4 ,establish1 #ef1 #bhj4 ,evils1 #aba1 #aig1 #bfi1 #ded1 #dfd1 ,,xciii4 ,example1 #bcj4 ,exchange of secrets1 ,r4,i4 ,experience1 #dje4 ,expedients1 #bhg4 ,expression1 refined1 ,r4,v4 ,faculties of the ,mind1 #agd4 ,failings1 #cig1 #djc4 ,falseness1 ,r4,,vi4 --------1 disguised1 #bhb4 --------1 kinds of1 ,r4,,vi4 ,familiarity1 ,r4,,iv4 ,fame1 #aeg4 ,farces1 men compared to1 #baa4 ,faults1 #cg1 #aab1 #aee1 #ahd1 #aij1 #aid1 #aif1 #bea1 #ced1 #cfe1 #cgb1 #cig1 #djc1 #daa1 #dbh1 #dic1 #did1 ,v1 ,,lxv1 ,,cx1 ,,cxv4 ,favourites1 #ee4 ,fear1 #cgj1 ,,lxviii4 ,feeling1 #bee4 ,ferocity1 ,,xxxiii4 ,fickleness1 #agi1 #aha1 #dih4 ,fidelity1 #bdg4 --------1 hardest test of1 ,r4,i4 -------- in love1 #cca1 #cha1 ,c4 ,figure and air1 ,r4,,vii4 ,firmness1 #ai1 #dgi4 ,flattery1 #abc1 #add1 #aeb1 #aih1 #cbj1 #cbi4 ,flirts1 #djf1 #dah4 ,flirtation1 #ajg1 #bda1 #bgg1 #ccb1 #ccd1 #cdi1 #cgf1 ,,lxiv4 ,follies1 #aef1 #cjj1 #djh1 #daf4 ,folly1 #bjg1 #bjh1 #bji1 #baj1 #bca1 #cjj1 #caj1 #caa1 #cah1 ,,xxiv4 ,fools1 #adj1 #baj1 #cji1 #cah1 #ceg1 #dad1 #dea1 #def1 ----1 old1 #ddd4 ----1 witty1 #dea1 #def4 ,force of ,mind1 #cj1 #db1 #bcg4 ,forgetfulness1 ,,xxvi4 ,forgiveness1 #ccj4 ,fortitude1 #ai4 ,,see ,bravery4 ,fortune1 #a1 #ag1 #de1 #eb1 #ec1 #eh1 #fj1 #fa1 #aed1 #bab1 #bbg1 #cbc1 #cdc1 #chj1 #cia1 #cib1 #cii1 #djc1 #dce1 #ddi1 ,,ix41 ,,cxix4 ,friends1 #hd1 #aad1 #agi1 #bce1 #bgi1 #cae1 #cai1 #dbh4 ------1 adversity of1 ,,xv4 ------1 disgrace of1 #bce4 ------1 faults of1 #dbh4 ------1 true ones1 ,,lxxxvi4 ,friendship1 #hj1 #ha1 #hc1 #cgf1 #daj1 #dbg1 #ddj1 #dda1 #dgc1 ,,xxii1 ,,cxxiv4 ----------1 defined1 #hc4 ----------1 women do not care for1 #ddj4 ----------1 rarer than love1 #dgc4 ,funerals1 ,,xxxviii4 ,gallantry1 #ajj4 ,,see ,flirtation4 -------- of mind1 #ajj4 ,generosity1 #bdf4 ,genius1 ,r4,,ii4 ,gentleness1 ,r4,,vi4 ,ghosts1 #gf4 ,gifts of the mind1 ,r4,,ii4 ,glory1 #aeg1 #aih1 #bba1 #bfh4 ,good1 #aba1 #ahe1 #bbi1 #bch1 #cjc1 ,,xciii4 ----1 how to be1 ,,xlvii4 ,goodness1 #bcg1 #bge1 #bhd1 ,,xlvi4 ,good grace1 #fg1 ,r4,,vii4 ,good man1 who is a1 #bjf4 ,god nature1 #dha4 ,good qualities1 #bi1 #ij1 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