,,quotes ,,& ,,images ,,f ,,*e/]field',s
    ,,lett]s ,,to ,,8 ,,son1 #agff-agga 
by ,! ,e>l ( ,*e/]field                 
,,quotations    ,a little le>n+ is a    
dang]\s ?+  ,a jok] is ne> ak9 to a     
buffoon  ,a favor may make an enemy1 &  
an injury may make a fri5d  ,able/ man w
 sometimes d weak ?+s  ,above all ?+s1  
avoid speak+ ( y\rself  ,above !        
frivol\s z bel[ ! important & ! secret  
,above trifles1 he is nev] vehem5t &    
eag] ab\t !m  ,absolute comm& ( y\r     
temp]  ,ab/a9 f le>n$ o/5tation  ,absurd
 t]m ( g5teel & fa%ionable vices        
,absurd romances ( ! two la/ c5turies   
,accord+ z _! int]e/ prompts !m to wi%  
,acqua9t$ ) books1 & an absolute /rang] 
to m5  ,advice is seldom welcome        
,advise ^? :o d n speak elegantly1 n to 
speak  ,advocate1 ! fri5d1 b n ! bully (
 virtue  ,affectation ( s+ul>ity or     
sup]iority  ,affectation 9 dress        
,affectation ( bus9ess  ,all h s5ses to 
be gratifi$  ,always made ! be/ ( ! be/1
 & nev] made bad worse  ,always does m  

?an he says  ,always "s favorite ^w = ! 
"t be+  ,always look p 9 ! face :5 y    
speak to !m  ,am /ill unwell2 ,i _c help
 x6  ,am]ican ,colonies  ,anci5ts &     
,mod]ns  ,anxiety = my heal? & life     
,applaud$ (t51 )\t approv+  ,apt to make
 !m ?9k !mselves m necess>y ?an !y are  
,argum5tative1 polemical conv]sations   
,arrogant p$ant  ,art ( pleas+ is ! mo/ 
necess>y  ,z will+ & z apt to be pleas$ 
z anybody  ,ascrib+ ! greate/ actions to
 ! mo/ trifl+ causes  ,ass5t+1 b )\t be+
 s]vile & abject  ,ass]tion in/ead (    
argum5t  ,assign ! deepe/ motives = !   
mo/ trifl+ actions  ,assurance &        
intrepidity  ,at ! fir/ impulse (       
passion1 be sil5t till y c be s(t       
,attack$ by ridicule1 &1 puni%$ )       
contempt  ,att5d to ! objects ( y\r     
exp5ses1 b n to ! sums  ,att5tion to !  
inside ( books  ,att5tion & civility    
please all  ,att5tion  ,au?or is obscure
 & difficult 9 8 own language  ,au?ority
  ,avoid cacophony1 &1 :at is v ne> z   
bad1 monotony  ,avoid s+ul>ity  ,awkw>d 

address1 ungraceful attitudes & actions 
,be nei!r transport$ nor depress$ by !  
accid5ts ( life  ,be sil5t till y c be  
s(t  ,be+ 9 ! p[] ( e man to hurt him   
,be+ intelligible is n[ no long] !      
fa%ion  ,bett] n to seem to und]/&1 ?an 
to reply  ,bett] refuse a favor         
gracefully1 ?an to grant x clumsily     
,bl9dness ( ! und]/&+ is z mu* to be    
piti$  ,bold1 b ) great seem+ mode/y    
,bor\gh-jobb]  ,bus9ess mu/ be well1 n  
affect$ly dress$  ,bus9ess n[ is to %9e1
 n to weigh  ,bus9ess by no means =bids 
pleasures  ,,b ,,( ,,?is ,,e ,,man ,,w  
,,believe ,,z ,,he ,,?9ks ,,prop]  ,c   
h>dly be said to see :at !y see  ,_c    
und]/& !m1 or w n desire to und]/& !m   
,c>d9al ,maz>9  ,c>d9al ,ri*elieu       
,c>d9al de ,retz  ,c>d9al ,virtues1 by  
fir/ degrad+ !m into weaknesses         
,cauti\s h[ we draw inf]5ces  ,cease to 
love :5 y cease to be agreeable         
,*ameleon1 be able to take e diff]5t hue
  ,*>act]s1 t nev] exi/$1 are insipidly 
display$  ,*e]ful 9 ! c\nt5ance1 b )\t  

laugh+  ,*it-*at1 useful to keep (f     
improp] & too s]i\s subjects  ,*oose y\r
 pleasures = y\rself  ,civility1 :i* is 
a disposition to accommodate & oblige   
o!rs  ,clamor]s triumph  ,close1 )\t be+
 co/ive  ,comm& ( our temp]1 & ( our    
c\nt5ance  ,comm&+ ) dignity1 y mu/ s]ve
 up to x ) dilig5ce  ,committ+ acts (   
ho/ility ^u ! ,graces  ,common s5se     
7:i*1 9 tru?1 v uncommon7  ,commonplace 
obs]vations  ,company is1 9 tru?1 a     
con/ant /ate ( negotiation              
,complaisance  ,complaisance to e or    
anybody's op9ion  ,complaisance due to !
 cu/om ( ! place  ,complaisant indulg5ce
 = p's weaknesses  ,conceal all y\r     
le>n+ c>efully  ,conceal$ :at le>n+ ,i  
_h  ,conjectures pass ^u u = tru?s      
,conjectures supply ! defect (          
unatta9able k  ,connections  ,connive at
 knaves1 & tol]ate fools  ,consci\sness 
( m]it makes a man ( s5se m mode/       
,consci\sness & an hone/ pride ( do+    
well  ,consid] ?+s 9 ! wor/ light1 to %[
 y\r skill  ,cont5t y\rself ) m$iocrity 

9 no?+  ,conv]sation-/ock be+ a jo9t &  
common prop]ty  ,conv]sation w help y   
almo/ z mu* z books  ,conv]se ) 8       
inf]iors )\t insol5ce  ,dance to ^? :o  
pipe  ,d>kness visible  ,decides        
p]emptorily ^u e subject  ,deep le>n+ is
 g5]ally ta9t$ ) p$antry  ,deepe/ le>n+1
 )\t good-bre$+1 is unwelcome  ,def5d$  
by arms1 adorn$ by mann]s1 & improv$ by 
laws  ,des]ve a little1 & y %all h b a  
little  ,desire to please1 & t is ! ma9 
po9t  ,desir\s ( praise f ! praisewor?y 
,desir\s to make y _! fri5d  ,desir\s ( 
pleas+  ,despairs ( ev] be+ able to pay 
,dext]ity en\gh to conceal a tru? )\t   
tell+ a lie  ,dictate to !m :ile y seem 
to be direct$ by !m  ,diff]5ce 9 ev]y?+ 
betwe5 sy/em & practice  ,difficulties  
seem to !m1 impossibilities  ,dignity to
 be kept up 9 pleasures1 z well z 9     
bus9ess  ,disagreeable to seem res]v$1 &
 v dang]\s n to be s  ,disagreeable ?+s 
may be done s agreeably z almo/ to      
oblige  ,disputes ) heat  ,dissimulation
 is only to hide our own c>ds           

,di/9ction betwe5 simulation &          
dissimulation  ,di/+ui% betwe5 ! useful 
& ! curi\s  ,d z y w\ld be done by  ,d n
 become a virtuoso ( small w>es  ,d :at 
y are ab\t  ,d :at y w b d some?+ all   
day long  ,d z y w\ld be done by  ,d n  
mi/ake ! t9sel ( ,tasso = ! gold (      
,virgil  ,does n give x y1 b he inflicts
 x ^u y  ,do+1 'de bonne grace'1 :at y  
c\ld n help do+  ,do+ :at may des]ve to 
be writt5  ,do+ no?+1 & might j z well  
be asleep  ,do+ any?+ t w des]ve to be  
writt5  ,done "u conc]n & emb>rassm5t1  
mu/ be ill done  ,dress l ! reasonable p
 ( y\r own age  ,dress well1 & n too    
well  ,dress$ z ! g5]ality ( p ( fa%ion 
are  ,e>s to he>1 b n s5se en\gh to     
judge  ,easy )\t neglig5ce  ,easy )\t   
too mu* famili>ity  ,economi/ ( y\r "t  
,ei!r d n ?9k1 or d n love to ?9k       
,elegance 9 "o language w reproduce     
itself 9 all  ,employ y\r :ole "t1 :i*  
few p d  ,endeavor to he>1 & "k all     
op9ions  ,endeavors to please & oblige  
our fell[-creatures  ,enemies z if !y   

may "o day become "o's fri5ds  ,enjoy   
all ^? advantages  ,equally =bid insol5t
 contempt1 or l[ envy & jeal\sy  ,,ere  
,,titt]+ ,,y\? ,,%all ,,%ove ,,y ,,f ,,!
 ,,/age  ,e/abli%+ a "* ( integrity &   
good mann]s  ,ev5 :]e y are sure1 seem r
 d\btful  ,e num]\s assembly is ,,mob   
,e virtue1 has its k9dr$ vice or        
weakness  ,e man kn[s t he und]/&s      
religion & politics  ,e num]\s assembly 
is a mob  ,e man pret5ds to common s5se 
,,e ,,day ,,is ,,/ill ,,b ,,z ,,! ,,fir/
  ,ev]ybody is good = some?+  ,ev]y?+   
has a bett] & a worse side  ,exalt !    
g5tle 9 woman & man--above ! m]ely      
g5teel  ,expresses himself ) m fire ?an 
elegance  ,extremely we>y ( ?is silly _w
  ,eyes & ! e>s are ! only roads to !   
he>t  ,eyes & e>s op5 & m\? mo/ly %ut   
,fe$ him1 & fe$ ^u him at ! same "t     
,few ?+s :i* p 9 g5]al "k less1 ?an h[  
to love  ,few p "k h[ to love1 or h[ to 
hate  ,few d>e diss5t f an e/abli%$     
op9ion  ,fiddle-faddle /ories1 t c>ry no
 in=mation along ) !m  ,fit to live--or 

n live at all  ,flatt]+ p beh9d _! backs
  ,flatt]y ( wom5  ,flatt]y             
,flexibility ( mann]s is necess>y 9 !   
c\rse ( ! _w  ,fools1 :o c nev] be      
undeceiv$  ,fools nev] p]ceive :]e !y   
are ill-tim$  ,=ge accusations aga9/    
!mselves  ,=give1 b n approve1 ! bad4   
,=tune /oops to ! =w>d & ! bold  ,frank 
)\t indiscretion  ,frank1 b )\t         
indiscretion  ,frank1 op51 & +5u\s      
ext]ior1 ) a prud5t int]ior  ,frequ5tly 
make fri5ds ( enemies1 & enemies (      
fri5ds  ,fri5d%ip ^u v slight           
acqua9tance  ,frivol\s1 idle p1 ^: "t   
hangs ^u _! own h&s  ,frivol\s curiosity
 ab\t trifles  ,frivol\s & sup]ficial   
p]tness  ,full-bottom$ wigs 7 contriv$ =
 8 humpback  ,ga9 ! he>t1 or y ga9 no?+ 
,ga9 ! affections z well z ! e/eem      
,ga9] by y\r mis=tune  ,g5]al           
conclusions f c]ta9 p>ticul> pr9ciples  
,g5]osity (t5 runs into pr(usion        
,g5teel )\t affectation  ,g5tlem51 :o   
take su* a fancy to y at fir/ sight     
,g5tl5ess ( mann]s1 ) firmness ( m9d    

,geography & hi/ory are v imp]fect      
sep>ately  ,g]man1 :o has tak5 into 8   
head t he und]/&s ,fr5*  ,g to ! bottom 
( ?+s  ,good mann]s  ,good reasons      
alleg$ are seldom ! true ones  ,good    
mann]s are ! settl$ m$ium ( social life 
,good company  ,good-bre$+  ,graces3    
,)\t u1 all labor is va9  ,gratitude n  
be+ univ]sal1 nor ev5 common  ,grave )\t
 ! affectation ( wisdom  ,great le>n+2  
:i*1 if n accompani$ ) s\nd judgm5t     
,great numb]s ( p met toge!r1 animate   
ea* o!r  ,greate/ fools are ! greate/   
li>s  ,gr[ wis] :5 x is too late  ,gu>d 
aga9/ ^? :o make ! mo/ c\rt to y  ,habit
 & prejudice  ,habitual eloqu5ce  ,half 
done or half kn[n  ,h>d5$ to ! wants &  
di/resses ( mank9d  ,h>dly any body good
 = e ?+  ,ha/e & hurry are v diff]5t ?+s
  ,h no pleasures b y\r own  ,h a w & an
 op9ion ( y\r own1 & adh]e to x  ,h ,i  
employ$ my "t1 or h ,i squ&]$ x8  ,h b  
"o set ( jokes to live ^u  ,h y le>n$ to
 c>ve8  ,he t is g5til doe? g5til de$s  
,he w f9d x out ( himself )\t y\r       

endeavors  ,he>t has su* an influ5ce ov]
 ! und]/&+  ,helps only1 n z guides     
,h]d ( mank9d c h>dly be said to ?9k    
,hi/orians  ,holiday eloqu5ce  ,home1 be
 x ev] s homely  ,hone/ error is to be  
piti$1 n ridicul$  ,hone/e/ man loves   
himself be/  ,horace  ,h[ tr\blesome an 
old correspond5t mu/ be to a "y "o  ,h[ 
mu* y h to d2 & h[ little "t to d x 9   
,human nature is always ! same  ,hurt ^?
 !y love by a mi/ak5 indulg5ce  ,i hope1
 ,i wi%1 ,i d\bt1 & fe> alt]nately  ,i  
%all nev] "k1 ?\gh all ! c(feeh\ses "h  
d4  ,i %all always love y z y %all      
des]ve4  ,i "k myself 7no common piece (
 k1 let me tell y7  ,i ,,_c ,,d ,,su* ,a
 ,,?+  ,i1 :o am n apt to "k any?+ t ,i 
d n "k  ,idl5ess is only ! refuge ( weak
 m9ds  ,if free f ! guilt1 be free f !  
suspicion1 too  ,if y w\ld conv9ce o!rs1
 seem op5 to conviction y\rself  ,if ,i 
don't m9d 8 ord]s he won't m9d my       
draughts  ,if y w p]suade1 y mu/ fir/   
please  ,if once we qu>rel1 ,i w nev]   
=give  ,ignorant ( _! natural rights1   

*]i%$ _! *a9s  ,imp]t95t insult ^u cu/om
 & fa%ion  ,improve y\rself ) ! old1    
div]t y\rself ) ! "y  ,inaction at y\r  
age is unp>donable  ,inatt5tion         
,inatt5tive1 abs5t2 & di/rait  ,incl9$  
to be fat1 b ,i hope y w decl9e x       
,incont95cy ( fri5d%ip among "y fell[s  
,indiscrim9ate famili>ity               
,indiscrim9ately load+ _! memories ) e  
"p alike  ,indol5ce  ,indol5tly say t !y
 _c d  ,infallibly to be ga9$ by e sort 
( flatt]y  ,in=mation is1 9 a c]ta9     
degree1 mortify+  ,in=mation implies our
 previ\s ignorance2 x mu/ be sweet5$    
,injury is mu* soon] =gott5 ?an an      
insult  ,inquisition  ,ins9uates himself
 only into ! e/eem ( fools  ,insipid 9 8
 pleasures1 z ineffici5t 9 ev]y?+ else  
,insi/ ^u y\r nei!r pip+ nor fiddl+     
y\rself  ,insol5t civility              
,,intol]ation 9 religi\s1 &             
inhospitality 9 civil matt]s  ,intr9sic1
 & n _! imag9>y value  ,x is a real     
inconv5i5ce to anybody to be fat  ,x is 
n suffici5t to des]ve well2 "o mu/      

please well too  ,jeal\s ( be+ slight$  
,jog on l man & wife2 t is1 seldom      
agree+  ,judge ( e man's tru? by 8      
degree ( und]/&+  ,judge !m all by _!   
m]its1 b n by _! ages  ,judges f !      
appe>ances ( ?+s1 & n f ! reality  ,keep
 y\r own temp] & artfully w>m o!r p's   
,keep good company1 & company above     
y\rself  ,kick him up/airs  ,k+'s       
popul>ity is a bett] gu>d ?an _! army   
,"k _! real value1 & h[ mu* !y are      
g5]ally ov]rat$  ,"k ! true value ( "t  
,"k1 y\rself & o!rs  ,kn[+ h[ mu* y h1 &
 h[ little y want  ,kn[+ any language   
imp]fectly  ,k is l p[] 9 ?is respect   
,k3 ei!r despise x1 or ?9k t !y h en\gh 
,k ( a s*ol> ) ! mann]s ( a c\rti]      
,kn[n p pret5d to vices !y _h n  ,kn[s  
:at ?+s are little1 & :at n  ,labor is !
 unavoidable fatigue ( a necess>y j\rney
  ,labor m to put !m 9 conceit )        
!mselves  ,la/ beautiful v>ni%1 :i*     
raises ! colors  ,laugh+1 ,i mu/        
p>ticul>ly w>n y aga9/ x  ,lay d[n a    
me?od = ev]y?+1 & /ick to x inviolably  

,lazy m9d1 & ! trifl+1 frivol\s m9d     
,le>n to keep y\r own secrets  ,le>n1 if
 y c1 ! ,,:y & ! ,,:]e=e  ,leave !      
company1 at lea/ z soon z he is wi%$ out
 ( x  ,l$1 mu* (t5] by little ?+s ?an by
 great ones  ,less "o has to d1 ! less  
"t "o f9ds to d x 9  ,let me see m ( y 9
 y\r lett]s  ,let !m quietly enjoy _!   
errors 9 ta/e  ,let nobody discov] t y d
 "k y\r own value  ,let no?+ pass till y
 und]/& x  ,let blockheads read :at     
blockheads wrote  ,life ( ignorance is n
 only a v contemptible1 b tiresome      
,li/lessness & indol5ce are always      
blameable  ,little m9ds mi/ake little   
objects = great ones  ,little fail+s &  
weaknesses  ,l\d laught] is ! mir? ( !  
mob  ,love ) him1 :o !y ?9k is ! mo/ 9  
love ) !m  ,lov$ )\t be+ despis$1 & fe>$
 )\t be+ hat$  ,l[ company1 mo/ falsely 
& impud5tly1 call pleasure  ,l[         
buffoon]y1 or silly accid5ts1 t always  
excite laught]  ,lu!r's disappo9t$      
av>ice  ,ma*iavel  ,made him believe t !
 _w 0 made = him  ,make a great diff]5ce

 betwe5 companions & fri5ds  ,make      
himself :atev] he pleases1 except a good
 poet  ,make y\rself necess>y  ,make e  
man ,i met ) l me1 & e woman love me    
,man is di%onor$ by n res5t+ an affront 
,man or woman _c resi/ an engag+ ext]ior
  ,man ( s5se may be 9 ha/e1 b c nev] be
 9 a hurry  ,man :o is only good on     
holydays is good = v little  ,mangles   
:at he means to c>ve  ,mann] is full z  
important z ! matt]  ,mann] ( do+ ?+s is
 (t5 m important  ,mann]s mu/ adorn k   
,_m ?+s :i* seem extremely probable are 
n true  ,_m are v will+1 & v few able   
,ma/]y ( "o's temp]  ,may y live z long 
z y are fit to live1 b no long]6  ,may y
 r die be=e y cease to be fit to live   
,may n =get ) ease :at y h ) difficulty 
le>n$  ,maz>9 & ,lewis ! ,f\rte5? rivet$
 ! %ackles  ,m$itation & reflection     
,m]e reason & good s5se is nev] to be   
talk$ to a mob  ,m]it & good-bre$+ w    
make _! way ev]y:]e  ,me?od  ,mi/imes or
 misplaces ev]y?+  ,mitigat+1 engag+    
words d by no means weak5 y\r argum5t   

,,mob3 ,und]/&+ !y h collectively none  
,mod]ation ) y\r enemies  ,mode/y is !  
only sure bait :5 y angle = praise      
,money1 ! cause ( mu* mis*ief  ,m p h   
e>s to be tickl$1 ?an und]/&+s to judge 
,m "o sees1 ! less "o ei!r wond]s or    
admires  ,m y "k1 ! mode/] y %\ld be  ,m
 "o works1 ! m will+ "o is to "w        
,mortify+ inf]iority 9 k1 rank1 =tune   
,mo/ p enjoy ! inf]iority ( _! be/      
fri5ds  ,mo/ long talk]s s+le out "s "o 
un=tunate man 9 company  ,mo/ ignorant  
are1 z usual1 ! bolde/ conjectur]s  ,mo/
 p h e>s1 b few h judgm5t2 tickle ^? e>s
  ,mu* soon] =give an inju/ice ?an an   
insult  ,my own heal? v>ies1 z usual1 b 
nev] deviates into good  ,my/ical       
nons5se  ,"n t we leave beh9d at "o     
place (t5 gets be=e u  ,national honor &
 int]e/ h be5 sacrific$ to private      
,necessity ( scrupul\sly pres]v+ !      
appe>ances  ,neglect !m 9 little ?+s1 !y
 w leave y 9 great  ,neglig5ce ( x      
implies an indiff]5ce ab\t pleas+       
,nei!r "k nor c>e1 7:5 ,i die7 = ,i am v

 we>y  ,nei!r abilities or words en\gh  
to call a coa*  ,nei!r retail nor       
receive sc&al will+ly  ,nev] w\ld "k    
any?+ t he _h n a m9d to "k  ,nev] read 
hi/ory )\t hav+ maps  ,nev] affect ! "* 
9 :i* y h a m9d to %9e  ,nev] implicitly
 adopt a "* ^u common fame  ,nev] seek =
 wit2 if x pres5ts itself1 well & good  
,nev] to speak ( y\rself at all  ,nev]  
slatt]n away "o m9ute 9 idl5ess  ,nev]  
quit a subject till y are ?or\ghly ma/] 
( x  ,nev] ma9ta9 an argum5t ) heat &   
clamor  ,nev] seem wis]1 nor m le>n$1   
?an ! p y are )  ,nev] saw a fr[>d *ild 
m5d$ by :ipp+  ,nev] to tru/ implicitly 
to ! in=mations ( o!rs  ,nipp$ 9 ! bud  
,no great reg>d = human te/imony  ,no   
man is di/rait ) ! man he fe>s1 or !    
woman he loves  ,no "o feels pleasure1  
:o does n at ! same "t give x  ,n       
tumble1 b slide g5tly to ! bottom ( !   
hill ( life  ,n to communicate1         
prematurely1 "o's hopes or "o's fe>s  ,n
 only pure1 b1 l ,caes>'s wife1         
unsuspect$  ,n make _! want /ill worse  

by griev+ & regrett+ !m  ,n mak+ use (  
any "o capital lett]  ,n to admire any?+
 too mu*  ,n "o m9ute ( ! day 9 :i* y d 
no?+ at all  ,notes by :i* dances are n[
 prick$ d[n z well z tunes  ,no?+ 9     
c\rts is exactly z x appe>s to be  ,no?+
 mu* wor? ei!r desir+ or fe>+  ,no?+ s  
preci\s z "t1 & s irrecov]able :5 lo/   
,obs]ve1 )\t be+ ?\ght an obs]v]  ,(t5 m
 necess>y to conceal contempt ?an       
res5tm5t  ,(t5 necess>y1 n to manife/   
all "o feels  ,(t5 necess>y to seem     
ignorant ( :at "o kn[s  ,(t5] l$ by _!  
he>ts ?an by _! und]/&+s  ,old fell[    
ought to seem wise :e!r he really be s  
or n  ,"o mu/ (t5 yield1 9 ord] to      
prevail  ,only do+ "o ?+ at a "t  ,only 
because %e w n1 & n because %e _c  ,only
 solid & la/+ peace1 betwe5 a man & 8   
wife  ,our und]/&+s are g5]ally !       
,,dupes ( our he>ts  ,our frivol\s      
diss]tations ^u ! wea!r1 or ^u :i/  ,out
 ( liv]y2 :i* makes !m bo? imp]t95t &   
useless  ,outw>d air ( mode/y to all he 
does  ,ov]value :at we d n "k  ,oy/]s1  

are only 9 season 9 ! ,r mon?s  ,passes 
= a wit1 ?\gh he ha? c]ta9ly no uncommon
 %>e  ,pati5ce is ! only way n to make  
bad worse  ,pati5t tol]ation ( c]ta9    
airs ( sup]iority  ,pay y\r own reckon+1
 b d n treat ! :ole company  ,pay !m )  
complim5ts1 b n ) confid5ce  ,p nev]    
desire all till !y h gott5 a great deal 
,p lose a great deal ( "t by read+  ,p w
 repay1 & ) int]e/ too1 inatt5tion  ,p  
angl+ = praise  ,p hate ^? :o make !m   
feel _! own inf]iority  ,p]fection (    
ev]y?+ t is wor? do+ at all  ,p]sev]ance
 has surpris+ effects  ,p]son to y :om  
,i am v indiff]5t ab\t1 ,i mean myself  
,petti%1 p\t+ conduct is a great deal   
too "y  ,petty jury  ,pla9 notions ( "r 
& wrong  ,plant$ :ile "y1 t degree ( k  
n[ my refuge  ,please all :o are wor?   
pleas+2 (f5d none  ,pleas$ to "s degree 
by %[+ a desire to please  ,pleas$ )    
him1 by mak+ !m fir/ pleas$ ) !mselves  
,pleas+ 9 company is ! only way ( be+   
pleas$ 9 y\rself  ,pleasure & bus9ess ) 
equal inatt5tion  ,pleasure is          

necess>ily reciprocal  ,pleasure is !   
rock :i* mo/ "y p split ^u  ,pleasures d
 n commonly la/ s long z life  ,pocket  
all y\r k ) y\r wat*  ,polite1 b )\t !  
tr\blesome =ms & /iffness  ,,politicians
 ,,nei!r ,,love ,,nor ,,hate  ,pref]    
useful to frivol\s conv]sations         
,prejudices are our mi/resses  ,pride   
rememb]s x =ev]  ,pride ( be+ ! fir/ ( !
 company  ,prud5t res]ve  ,public speak+
  ,put out y\r "t1 b to good int]e/     
,qu>rel ) !m :5 !y are gr[n up1 = be+   
spoil$  ,quietly *]i%$ error1 in/ead (  
seek+ = tru?  ,read my eyes out e day1 t
 ,i may n hang myself  ,read ) caution &
 di/ru/  ,real m]it ( any k9d w be      
discov]$  ,real fri5d%ip is a sl[ gr[]  
,reason ought to direct ! :ole1 b seldom
 does  ,reason1 :i* always ought to     
direct mank9d1 seldom does  ,receive !m 
) great civility1 b ) great incr$ulity  
,reciprocally pr(ess wi%es :i* !y seldom
 =m  ,recomm5d 7pleasure7 to y1 l an    
,epicurean  ,recomm5ds self-conv]sation 
to all au?ors  ,refuge ( p :o h nei!r   

wit nor inv5tion ( _! own  ,refuse m    
gracefully ?an o!r p c\ld grant         
,repeat+  ,repres5t1 b d n pron\nce     
,res]ve ) y\r fri5ds  ,respect )\t      
timidity  ,respectful )\t meanness1 easy
 )\t too mu* famili>ity  ,return y !    
ball 'a la volee'  ,ri* man nev] borr[s 
,ri*elieu came & %ackl$ ! nation        
,ro*ef\cault1 :o1 ,i am afraid1 pa9ts   
man v exactly  ,ro*ef\cault  ,r\gh      
corn]s :i* m]e nature has giv5 to !     
smoo!/  ,ru9$ _! own son by :at !y call$
 lov+ him  ,same coolness & unconc]n 9  
any & e company  ,sc&al3 receiv] is     
always ?\ght1 z bad z ! ?ief  ,sc>ce any
 flatt]y is too gross = !m to swall[    
,sc>cely any body :o is absolutely good 
= no?+  ,scrupl$ no means to obta9 8    
ends  ,secret1 )\t be+ d>k & my/]i\s    
,secrets  ,see :at y see1 & to he> :at y
 he>  ,seem to l & approve ( ev]y?+ at  
fir/  ,seem+ frankness ) a real res]ve  
,seem+ inatt5tion to ! p]son :o is      
speak+ to y  ,seem+ op5ness is prud5t   
,seems to h no op9ion ( 8 own  ,seldom a

 mis=tune to be *ildless  ,self-love    
draws a ?ick veil betwe5 u & our faults 
,s5tim5t-mong]s  ,s5tim5ts t 7 nev]     
felt1 pomp\sly describ$  ,s]i\s )\t be+ 
dull  ,settl$ "h = good1 z x is call$   
,%akespe>e  ,%e has all ! read+ t a     
woman %\ld h  ,%e :o conqu]s only cat*es
 a ,t>t>  ,%e has uncommon1 s5se & k = a
 woman  ,%eph]ds & m9i/]s are bo? m5    
,sil5ce 9 love betrays m woe  ,s+ul>ity 
is only p>donable 9 old age  ,six1 or at
 mo/ sev5 h\rs sleep  ,smile1 :]e y _c  
/rike  ,"s complaisance & att5tion to   
fools is prud5t  ,"s m5 pass _! :ole "t 
9 do+ no?+  ,some?+ or o!r is to be got 
out ( ev]ybody  ,some?+ mu/ be said1 b t
 some?+ mu/ be no?+  ,soon] =give an    
injury ?an an insult  ,s[ jeal\sies     
among "o's enemies  ,sp>e ! p]sons :ile 
y la% ! crimes  ,speak+ to himself 9 !  
glass  ,/amp-act has prov$ a mo/        
p]nici\s measure  ,/amp-duty1 :i* our   
,coloni/s absolutely refuse to pay      
,/ate y\r difficulties1 :5ev] y h any   
,/eady assurance1 ) seem+ mode/y  ,/udi$

 & elaborate dress ( ! uglie/ wom5 9 !  
_w  ,/yle is ! dress ( ?\ghts  ,success 
turns mu* m ^u mann] ?an matt]  ,sure   
guide is1 he :o has (t5 gone ! road :i* 
y want to  ,suspicion ( age1 no woman1  
let h] be ev] s old1 ev] =give  ,swe>+  
,tacitus  ,take ! hue ( ! company y are 
)  ,take *>act]s1 z !y d mo/ ?+s1 ^u    
tru/  ,take1 r ?an give1 ! tone ( !     
company y are 9  ,take no?+ = grant$1 ^u
 ! b>e au?ority ( ! au?or  ,tak+ up     
adv5titi\s1 proves _! want ( intr9sic   
m]it  ,tal5t ( hat+ ) good-bre$+ & lov+ 
) prud5ce  ,talk (t51 b nev] long  ,talk
 sillily ^u a subject ( o!r p's  ,talk (
 natural affection is talk+ nons5se     
,talk+ ( ei!r y\r own or o!r p's dome/ic
 affairs  ,tell me :om y live )1 & ,i w 
tell y :o y are  ,tell /ories v seldom  
,! longe/ life is too %ort = k  ,!      
pres5t mom5ts are ! only ones we are    
sure (  ,! be/ h some?+ bad1 & some?+   
little  ,! wor/ h some?+ good1 &        
sometimes some?+ great  ,!re are _m     
av5ues to e man  ,!y ?\ght ,i in=m$1    

because ,i pleas$ !m  ,?9 veil ( ,mode/y
 drawn be=e ,vanity  ,?9k to atone by   
zeal = _! want ( m]it & importance  ,?9k
 y\rself less well ?an y are1 9 ord] to 
be q s  ,?9ks himself mu* worse ?an he  
is  ,?or\ghly1 n sup]ficially  ,^? :o   
rem>kably affect any "o virtue  ,^? :om 
y c make l !mselves bett]  ,?ree        
passions t (t5 put hone/y to mo/ sev]e  
trials  ,timidity & diffid5ce  ,to be   
he>d ) success1 y mu/ be he>d ) pleasure
  ,to be pleas$ "o mu/ please  ,to gov]n
 mank9d1 "o mu/ n ov]rate !m  ,to seem  
to h =gott5 :at "o rememb]s  ,to "k p's 
real s5tim5ts1 ,i tru/ mu* m to my eyes 
,to great caution1 y c jo9 seem+        
frankness & op5ness  ,too l1 & too exact
 a picture ( human nature  ,trifle only 
) trifl]s2 & be s]i\s only ) ! s]i\s    
,trifles t conc]n y are n trifles to me 
,trifl+ p>ts1 ) _! little j>gon  ,trite 
jokes & l\d laught] r$uce him to a      
buffoon  ,tru?1 b n ! :ole tru?1 mu/ be 
! inv>iable pr9ciple  ,tru? leaves no   
room = complim5ts  ,unaffect$ sil5ce ^u 

t subject is ! only true m$ium  ,ungu>d$
 frankness  ,un9telligible to 8 read]s1 
& sometimes to himself  ,unop5$1 because
 "o title 9 tw5ty has be5 omitt$        
,unwill+ & =c$2 x w nev] please  ,use   
palliatives :5 y contradict  ,useful    
sometimes to see ! ?+s :i* "o ought to  
avoid  ,value ( mom5ts1 :5 ca/ up1 is   
imm5se  ,vanity1 int]e/1 & absurdity1   
always display  ,vanity1 t s\rce ( _m ( 
our follies  ,w>m & "y ?anks1 n old &   
cold ones  ,wat]-dr9k]s c write no?+    
good  ,we love to be pleas$ bett] ?an to
 be in=m$  ,we h _m ( ^? useful         
prejudices 9 ?is c\ntry  ,we %all be    
fe>$1 if we d n %[ t we fe>  ,well      
dress$1 n f9ely dress$  ,:at pleases y 9
 o!rs1 w 9 g5]al please !m 9 y  ,:at    
displeases or pleases y 9 o!rs  ,:at y  
feel pleases y 9 !m  ,:at h ,i done     
to-day8  ,:at is impossible1 & :at is   
only difficult  ,:atev] pleases y mo/ 9 
o!rs  ,:atev] is wor? do+ at all1 is    
wor? do+ well  ,:atev] "o mu/ d1 "o %\ld
 d 'de bonne grace'  ,:atev] real m]it y

 h1 o!r p w discov]  ,:5 well dress$ = !
 day ?9k no m ( x aft]w>d  ,:]e "o w\ld 
ga9 p1 rememb] t no?+ is little  ,:o    
takes w>n+ by ! fate ( o!rs8  ,wife1 v  
(t5 he>d inde$1 b seldom m9d$  ,w n s   
mu* z h9t at our follies  ,w pay v de> =
 ! qu>rels & ambition ( a few  ,wi% y1  
my de> fri5d1 z _m happy new ye>s z y   
des]ve  ,wit may creat$ any admir]s b   
makes few fri5ds  ,witty )\t satire or  
commonplace  ,woman l h]1 :o has always 
pleas$1 & (t5 be5 pleas$  ,wom5 are !   
only ref9]s ( ! m]it ( m5  ,wom5 *oose  
_! favorites m by ! e>  ,wom5 are all s 
f> ,ma*iavelians  ,words are ! dress (  
?\ghts  ,_w is tak5 by ! outside ( ?+s  
,w\ld n tell :at %e did n "k  ,wrapp$ up
 & absorb$ 9 _! ab/ruse speculations    
,writ+ any?+ t may des]ve to be read    
,writ+ :at may des]ve to be read        
,wrongs are (t5 =giv52 b contempt nev]  
is  ,yield$ commonly )\t conviction  ,y 
mu/ be respectable1 if y w be respect$  
,y _h mu* bett] hold y\r tongue ?an !m  
,"y p are v apt to ov]rate bo? m5 & ?+s 

,"y fell[ ought to be wis] ?an he %\ld  
seem to be  ,"y m5 are z apt to ?9k     
!mselves wise en\gh  ,y\r m]it & y\r    
mann]s c alone raise y  ,y\r "* !re1    
:atev] x is1 w get be=e y "h      ,if y 
wi% to read ! entire context ( any ( ^! 
quotations1  select a %ort segm5t & copy
 x into y\r clipbo>d memory--!n op5  !  
pla9 text e,book bel[ & pa/e ! phrase   
into y\r comput]'s  f9d or se>*         
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