,,letters ,,on ,,the ,,equality ,,of ,,the ,,sexes1 ,,and ,,the ,,condition ,,of ,,woman4 ,,addressed ,,to ,,mary ,s4 ,,parker1 ,,president ,,of ,,the ,boston ,female ,anti-,slavery ,society4 ,,boston3 ,,published ,,by ,,isaac ,,knapp1 #be1 ,,cornhill4 #ahch4 ,,letters4 ,,letter ,i4 ,,the ,,original ,,equality ,,of ,,woman4 ,amesbury1 #gth ,mo4 #aath1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,friend1--,in attempting to comply with thy request to give my views on the ,province of ,woman1 ,i feel that ,i am venturing on nearly untrodden ground1 and that ,i shall advance arguments in opposition to a corrupt public opinion1 and to the perverted interpretation of ,holy ,writ1 which has so universally obtained4 ,but ,i am in search of truth2 and no obstacle shall prevent my prosecuting that search1 because ,i believe the welfare of the world will be materially advanced by every new discovery we make of the designs of ,jehovah in the creation of woman4 ,it is impossible that we can answer the purpose of our being1 unless we understand that purpose4 ,it is impossible that we should fulfil our duties1 unless we comprehend them2 or live up to our privileges1 unless we know what they are4 ,in examining this important subject1 ,i shall depend solely on the ,bible to designate the sphere of woman1 because ,i believe almost every thing that has been written on this subject1 has been the result of a misconception of the simple truths revealed in the ,scriptures1 in consequence of the false translation of many passages of ,holy ,writ4 ,my mind is entirely delivered from the superstitious reverence which is attached to the ,english version of the ,bible4 ,king ,james's translators certainly were not inspired4 ,i therefore claim the original as my standard1 believing that to have been inspired1 and ,i also claim to judge for myself what is the meaning of the inspired writers1 because ,i believe it to be the solemn duty of every individual to search the ,scriptures for themselves1 with the aid of the ,holy ,spirit1 and not be governed by the views of any man1 or set of men4 ,we must first view woman at the period of her creation4 #8,and ,god said1 ,let us make man in our own image1 after our likeness2 and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea1 and over the fowl of the air1 and over the cattle1 and over all the earth1 and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth4 ,so ,god created man in his own image1 in the image of ,god created he him1 male and female created he them4' ,in all this sublime description of the creation of man1 7which is a generic term including man and woman17 there is not one particle of difference intimated as existing between them4 ,they were both made in the image of ,god2 dominion was given to both over every other creature1 but not over each other4 ,created in perfect equality1 they were expected to exercise the vicegerence intrusted to them by their ,maker1 in harmony and love4 ,let us pass on now to the recapitulation of the creation of man3--#8,the ,lord ,god formed man of the dust of the ground1 and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life2 and man became a living soul4 ,and the ,lord ,god said1 it is not good that man should be alone1 ,i will make him an help meet for him4' ,all creation swarmed with animated beings capable of natural affection1 as we know they still are2 it was not1 therefore1 merely to give man a creature susceptible of loving1 obeying1 and looking up to him1 for all that the animals could do and did do4 ,it was to give him a companion1 in all respects his equal2 one who was like himself a free agent1 gifted with intellect and endowed with immortality2 not a partaker merely of his animal gratifications1 but able to enter into all his feelings as a moral and responsible being4 ,if this had not been the case1 how could she have been an help meet for him8 ,i understand this as applying not only to the parties entering into the marriage contract1 but to all men and women1 because ,i believe ,god designed woman to be an help meet for man in every good and perfect work4 ,she was a part of himself1 as if ,jehovah designed to make the oneness and identity of man and woman perfect and complete2 and when the glorious work of their creation was finished1 #8the morning stars sang together1 and all the sons of ,god shouted for joy4' ,this blissful condition was not long enjoyed by our first parents4 ,eve1 it would seem from the history1 was wandering alone amid the bowers of ,paradise1 when the serpent met with her4 ,from her reply to ,satan1 it is evident that the command not to eat #8of the tree that is in the midst of the garden1' was given to both1 although the term man was used when the prohibition was issued by ,god4 #8,and the woman said unto the serpent1 ,,we may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden1 but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden1 ,god hath said1 ,,ye shall not eat of it1 neither shall ,,ye touch it1 lest ,,ye die4' ,here the woman was exposed to temptation from a being with whom she was unacquainted4 ,she had been accustomed to associate with her beloved partner1 and to hold communion with ,god and with angels2 but of satanic intelligence1 she was in all probability entirely ignorant4 ,through the subtlety of the serpent1 she was beguiled4 ,and #8when she saw that the tree was good for food1 and that it was pleasant to the eyes1 and a tree to be desired to make one wise1 she took of the fruit thereof and did eat4' ,we next find ,adam involved in the same sin1 not through the instrumentality of a supernatural agent1 but through that of his equal1 a being whom he must have known was liable to transgress the divine command1 because he must have felt that he was himself a free agent1 and that he was restrained from disobedience only by the exercise of faith and love towards his ,creator4 ,had ,adam tenderly reproved his wife1 and endeavored to lead her to repentance instead of sharing in her guilt1 ,i should be much more ready to accord to man that superiority which he claims2 but as the facts stand disclosed by the sacred historian1 it appears to me that to say the least1 there was as much weakness exhibited by ,adam as by ,eve4 ,they both fell from innocence1 and consequently from happiness1 but not from equality4 ,let us next examine the conduct of this fallen pair1 when ,jehovah interrogated them respecting their fault4 ,they both frankly confessed their guilt4 #8,the man said1 the woman whom thou gavest to be with me1 she gave me of the tree and ,i did eat4 ,and the woman said1 the serpent beguiled me and ,i did eat4' ,and the ,lord ,god said unto the woman1 #8,thou wilt be subject unto thy husband1 and he will rule over thee4' ,that this did not allude to the subjection of woman to man is manifest1 because the same mode of expression is used in speaking to ,cain of ,abel4 ,the truth is that the curse1 as it is termed1 which was pronounced by ,jehovah upon woman1 is a simple prophecy4 ,the ,hebrew1 like the ,french language1 uses the same word to express shall and will4 ,our translators having been accustomed to exercise lordship over their wives1 and seeing only through the medium of a perverted judgment1 very naturally1 though ,i think not very learnedly or very kindly1 translated it shall instead of will1 and thus converted a prediction to ,eve into a command to ,adam2 for observe1 it is addressed to the woman and not to the man4 ,the consequence of the fall was an immediate struggle for dominion1 and ,jehovah foretold which would gain the ascendency2 but as he created them in his image1 as that image manifestly was not lost by the fall1 because it is urged in ,gen4 #i3f1 as an argument why the life of man should not be taken by his fellow man1 there is no reason to suppose that sin produced any distinction between them as moral1 intellectual and responsible beings4 ,man might just as well have endeavored by hard labor to fulfil the prophecy1 thorns and thistles will the earth bring forth to thee1 as to pretend to accomplish the other1 #8he will rule over thee1' by asserting dominion over his wife4 #8,authority usurped from ,god1 not given4 ,he gave him only over beast1 flesh1 fowl1 ,dominion absolute3 that right he holds ,by ,god's donation3 but man o'er woman ,he made not ,lord1 such title to himself ,reserving1 human left from human free4' ,here then ,i plant myself4 ,god created us equal2--he created us free agents2--he is our ,lawgiver1 our ,king and our ,judge1 and to him alone is woman bound to be in subjection1 and to him alone is she accountable for the use of those talents with which her ,heavenly ,father has entrusted her4 ,one is her ,master even ,christ4 ,thine for the oppressed in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,ii4 ,,woman ,,subject ,,only ,,to ,,god4 ,newburyport1 #gth mo4 #ag1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,in my last1 ,i traced the creation and the fall of man and woman from that state of purity and happiness which their beneficent ,creator designed them to enjoy4 ,as they were one in transgression1 their chastisement was the same4 #8,so ,god drove out the man1 and he placed at the ,east of the garden of ,eden a cherubim and a flaming sword1 which turned every way to keep the way of the tree of life4' ,we now behold them expelled from ,paradise1 fallen from their original loveliness1 but still bearing on their foreheads the image and superscription of ,jehovah2 still invested with high moral responsibilities1 intellectual powers1 and immortal souls4 ,they had incurred the penalty of sin1 they were shorn of their innocence1 but they stood on the same platform side by side1 acknowledging no superior but their ,god4 ,notwithstanding what has been urged1 woman ,i am aware stands charged to the present day with having brought sin into the world4 ,i shall not repel the charge by any counter assertions1 although1 as was before hinted1 ,adam's ready acquiescence with his wife's proposal1 does not savor much of that superiority in strength of mind1 which is arrogated by man4 ,even admitting that ,eve was the greater sinner1 it seems to me man might be satisfied with the dominion he has claimed and exercised for nearly six thousand years1 and that more true nobility would be manifested by endeavoring to raise the fallen and invigorate the weak1 than by keeping woman in subjection4 ,but ,i ask no favors for my sex4 ,i surrender not our claim to equality4 ,all ,i ask of our brethren is1 that they will take their feet from off our necks1 and permit us to stand upright on that ground which ,god designed us to occupy4 ,if he has not given us the rights which have1 as ,i conceive1 been wrested from us1 we shall soon give evidence of our inferiority1 and shrink back into that obscurity1 which the high souled magnanimity of man has assigned us as our appropriate sphere4 ,as ,i am unable to learn from sacred writ when woman was deprived by ,god of her equality with man1 ,i shall touch upon a few points in the ,scriptures1 which demonstrate that no supremacy was granted to man4 ,when ,god had destroyed the world1 except ,noah and his family1 by the deluge1 he renewed the grant formerly made to man1 and again gave him dominion over every beast of the earth1 every fowl of the air1 over all that moveth upon the earth1 and over all the fishes of the sea2 into his hands they were delivered4 ,but was woman1 bearing the image of her ,god1 placed under the dominion of her fellow man8 ,never6 ,jehovah could not surrender his authority to govern his own immortal creatures into the hands of a being1 whom he knew1 and whom his whole history proved1 to be unworthy of a trust so sacred and important4 ,god could not do it1 because it is a direct contravention of his law1 #8,thou shalt worship the ,lord thy ,god1 and him only shalt thou serve4' ,if ,jehovah had appointed man as the guardian1 or teacher of woman1 he would certainly have given some intimation of this surrender of his own prerogative4 ,but so far from it1 we find the commands of ,god invariably the same to man and woman2 and not the slightest intimation is given in a single passage of the ,bible1 that ,god designed to point woman to man as her instructor4 ,the tenor of his language always is1 #8,look unto ,,me1 and be ye saved1 all the ends of the earth1 for ,i am ,god1 and there is none else4' ,the lust of dominion was probably the first effect of the fall2 and as there was no other intelligent being over whom to exercise it1 woman was the first victim of this unhallowed passion4 ,we afterwards see it exhibited by ,cain in the murder of his brother1 by ,nimrod in his becoming a mighty hunter of men1 and setting up a kingdom over which to reign4 ,here we see the origin of that ,upas of slavery1 which sprang up immediately after the fall1 and has spread its pestilential branches over the whole face of the known world4 ,all history attests that man has subjected woman to his will1 used her as a means to promote his selfish gratification1 to minister to his sensual pleasures1 to be instrumental in promoting his comfort2 but never has he desired to elevate her to that rank she was created to fill4 ,he has done all he could to debase and enslave her mind2 and now he looks triumphantly on the ruin he has wrought1 and says1 the being he has thus deeply injured is his inferior4 ,woman has been placed by ,john ,quincy ,adams1 side by side with the slave1 whilst he was contending for the right side of petition4 ,i thank him for ranking us with the oppressed2 for ,i shall not find it difficult to show1 that in all ages and countries1 not even excepting enlightened republican ,america1 woman has more or less been made a means to promote the welfare of man1 without due regard to her own happiness1 and the glory of ,god as the end of her creation4 ,during the patriarchal ages1 we find men and women engaged in the same employments4 ,abraham and ,sarah both assisted in preparing the food which was to be set before the three men1 who visited them in the plains of ,mamre2 but although their occupations were similar1 ,sarah was not permitted to enjoy the society of the holy visitant2 and as we learn from ,peter1 that she #8obeyed ,abraham1 calling him ,lord1' we may presume he exercised dominion over her4 ,we shall pass on now to ,rebecca4 ,in her history1 we find another striking illustration of the low estimation in which woman was held4 ,eleazur is sent to seek a wife for ,isaac4 ,he finds ,rebecca going down to the well to fill her pitcher4 ,he accosts her2 and she replies with all humility1 #8,drink1 my lord4' ,how does he endeavor to gain her favor and confidence8 ,does he approach her as a dignified creature1 whom he was about to invite to fill an important station in his master's family1 as the wife of his only son8 ,no4 ,he offered incense to her vanity1 and #8he took a golden ear-ring of half a shekel weight1 and two bracelets for her hands of ten shekels weight of gold1' and gave them to ,rebecca4 ,the cupidity of man soon led him to regard woman as property1 and hence we find them sold to those1 who wished to marry them1 as far as appears1 without any regard to those sacred rights which belong to woman1 as well as to man in the choice of a companion4 ,that women were a profitable kind of property1 we may gather from the description of a virtuous woman in the last chapter of ,proverbs4 ,to work willingly with her hands1 to open her hands to the poor1 to clothe herself with silk and purple1 to look well to her household1 to make fine linen and sell it1 to deliver girdles to the merchant1 and not to eat the bread of idleness1 seems to have constituted in the view of ,solomon1 the perfection of a woman's character and achievements4 #8,the spirit of that age was not favorable to intellectual improvement2 but as there were wise men who formed exceptions to the general ignorance1 and were destined to guide the world into more advanced states1 so there was a corresponding proportion of wise women2 and among the ,jews1 as well as other nations1 we find a strong tendency to believe that women were in more immediate connection with heaven than men4'--,l4 ,m4 ,child's ,con4 of ,woman4 ,if there be any truth in this tradition1 ,i am at a loss to imagine in what the superiority of man consists4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,iii4 ,,the ,,pastoral ,,letter ,,of ,,the ,,general ,,association ,,of ,,congregational ,,ministers ,,of ,,massachusetts4 ,haverhill1 #gth ,mo4 #ahcg4 ,,dear ,,friend1--,when ,i last addressed thee1 ,i had not seen the ,pastoral ,letter of the ,general ,association4 ,it has since fallen into my hands1 and ,i must digress from my intention of exhibiting the condition of women in different parts of the world1 in order to make some remarks on this extraordinary document4 ,i am persuaded that when the minds of men and women become emancipated from the thraldom of superstition and #8traditions of men1' the sentiments contained in the ,pastoral ,letter will be recurred to with as much astonishment as the opinions of ,cotton ,mather and other distinguished men of his day1 on the subject of witchcraft2 nor will it be deemed less wonderful1 that a body of divines should gravely assemble and endeavor to prove that woman has no right to #8open her mouth for the dumb1' than it now is that judges should have sat on the trials of witches1 and solemnly condemned nineteen persons and one dog to death for witchcraft4 ,but to the letter4 ,it says1 #8,we invite your attention to the dangers which at present seem to threaten the ,,female ,,character with wide-spread and permanent injury4' ,i rejoice that they have called the attention of my sex to this subject1 because ,i believe if woman investigates it1 she will soon discover that danger is impending1 though from a totally different source from that which the ,association apprehends1--danger from those who1 having long held the reins of usurped authority1 are unwilling to permit us to fill that sphere which ,god created us to move in1 and who have entered into league to crush the immortal mind of woman4 ,i rejoice1 because ,i am persuaded that the rights of woman1 like the rights of slaves1 need only be examined to be understood and asserted1 even by some of those1 who are now endeavoring to smother the irrepressible desire for mental and spiritual freedom which glows in the breast of many1 who hardly dare to speak their sentiments4 #8,the appropriate duties and influence of women are clearly stated in the ,new ,testament4 ,those duties are unobtrusive and private1 but the sources of mighty power4 ,when the mild1 dependent1 softening influence of woman upon the sternness of man's opinions is fully exercised1 society feels the effects of it in a thousand ways4' ,no one can desire more earnestly than ,i do1 that woman may move exactly in the sphere which her ,creator has assigned her2 and ,i believe her having been displaced from that sphere has introduced confusion into the world4 ,it is1 therefore1 of vast importance to herself and to all the rational creation1 that she should ascertain what are her duties and her privileges as a responsible and immortal being4 ,the ,new ,testament has been referred to1 and ,i am willing to abide by its decisions1 but must enter my protest against the false translation of some passages by the ,,men who did that work1 and against the perverted interpretation by the ,,men who undertook to write commentaries thereon4 ,i am inclined to think1 when we are admitted to the honor of studying ,greek and ,hebrew1 we shall produce some various readings of the ,bible a little different from those we now have4 ,the ,lord ,jesus defines the duties of his followers in his ,sermon on the ,mount4 ,he lays down grand principles by which they should be governed1 without any reference to sex or condition3--#8,ye are the light of the world4 ,a city that is set on a hill cannot be hid4 ,neither do men light a candle and put it under a bushel1 but on a candlestick1 and it giveth light unto all that are in the house4 ,let your light so shine before men1 that they may see your good works1 and glorify your ,father which is in ,heaven4' ,i follow him through all his precepts1 and find him giving the same directions to women as to men1 never even referring to the distinction now so strenuously insisted upon between masculine and feminine virtues3 this is one of the anti-christian #8traditions of men' which are taught instead of the #8commandments of ,god4' ,men and women were ,,created ,,equal2 they are both moral and accountable beings1 and whatever is right for man to do1 is right for woman4 ,but the influence of woman1 says the ,association1 is to be private and unobtrusive2 her light is not to shine before man like that of her brethren2 but she is passively to let the lords of the creation1 as they call themselves1 put the bushel over it1 lest peradventure it might appear that the world has been benefitted by the rays of her candle4 ,so that her quenched light1 according to their judgment1 will be of more use than if it were set on the candlestick4 #8,her influence is the source of mighty power4' ,this has ever been the flattering language of man since he laid aside the whip as a means to keep woman in subjection4 ,he spares her body2 but the war he has waged against her mind1 her heart1 and her soul1 has been no less destructive to her as a moral being4 ,how monstrous1 how anti-christian1 is the doctrine that woman is to be dependent on man6 ,where1 in all the sacred ,scriptures1 is this taught8 ,alas6 she has too well learned the lesson which ,,man has labored to teach her4 ,she has surrendered her dearest ,,rights1 and been satisfied with the privileges which man has assumed to grant her2 she has been amused with the show of power1 whilst man has absorbed all the reality into himself4 ,he has adorned the creature whom ,god gave him as a companion1 with baubles and gewgaws1 turned her attention to personal attractions1 offered incense to her vanity1 and made her the instrument of his selfish gratification1 a play-thing to please his eye and amuse his hours of leisure4 #8,rule by obedience and by submission sway1' or in other words1 study to be a hypocrite1 pretend to submit1 but gain your point1 has been the code of household morality which woman has been taught4 ,the poet has sung1 in sickly strains1 the loveliness of woman's dependence upon man1 and now we find it re-echoed by those who profess to teach the religion of the ,bible4 ,god says1 #8,cease ye from man whose breath is in his nostrils1 for wherein is he to be accounted of8' ,man says1 depend upon me4 ,god says1 #8,,he will teach us of his ways4' ,man says1 believe it not1 ,i am to be your teacher4 ,this doctrine of dependence upon man is utterly at variance with the doctrine of the ,bible4 ,in that book ,i find nothing like the softness of woman1 nor the sternness of man3 both are equally commanded to bring forth the fruits of the ,spirit1 love1 meekness1 gentleness1 c4 ,but we are told1 #8the power of woman is in her dependence1 flowing from a consciousness of that weakness which ,god has given her for her protection4' ,if physical weakness is alluded to1 ,i cheerfully concede the superiority2 if brute force is what my brethren are claiming1 ,i am willing to let them have all the honor they desire2 but if they mean to intimate1 that mental or moral weakness belongs to woman1 more than to man1 ,i utterly disclaim the charge4 ,our powers of mind have been crushed1 as far as man could do it1 our sense of morality has been impaired by his interpretation of our duties2 but no where does ,god say that he made any distinction between us1 as moral and intelligent beings4 #8,we appreciate1' say the ,association1 #8the unostentatious prayers and efforts of woman in advancing the cause of religion at home and abroad1 in leading religious inquirers ,,to ,,the ,,pastor for instruction4' ,several points here demand attention4 ,if public prayers and public efforts are necessarily ostentatious1 then #8,anna the prophetess1 7or preacher17 who departed not from the temple1 but served ,god with fastings and prayers night and day1' #8and spake of ,christ to all them that looked for redemption in ,israel1' was ostentatious in her efforts4 ,then1 the apostle ,paul encourages women to be ostentatious in their efforts to spread the gospel1 when he gives them directions how they should appear1 when engaged in praying1 or preaching in the public assemblies4 ,then1 the whole association of ,congregational ministers are ostentatious1 in the efforts they are making in preaching and praying to convert souls4 ,but woman may be permitted to lead religious inquirers to the ,,pastors for instruction4 ,now this is assuming that all pastors are better qualified to give instruction than woman4 ,this ,i utterly deny4 ,i have suffered too keenly from the teaching of man1 to lead any one to him for instruction4 ,the ,lord ,jesus says1--#8,come unto me and learn of me4' ,he points his followers to no man2 and when woman is made the favored instrument of rousing a sinner to his lost and helpless condition1 she has no right to substitute any teacher for ,christ2 all she has to do is1 to turn the contrite inquirer to the #8,lamb of ,god which taketh away the sins of the world4' ,more souls have probably been lost by going down to ,egypt for help1 and by trusting in man in the early stages of religious experience1 than by any other error4 ,instead of the petition being offered to ,god1--#8,lead me in thy truth1 and ,,teach me1 for thou art the ,god of my salvation1'--instead of relying on the precious promises--#8,what man is he that feareth the ,lord8 him shall ,,he ,,teach in the way that he shall choose'--#8,i will instruct thee and ,,teach thee in the way which thou shalt go--,i will guide thee with mine eye'--the young convert is directed to go to man1 as if he were in the place of ,god1 and his instructions essential to an advancement in the path of righteousness4 ,that woman can have but a poor conception of the privilege of being taught of ,god1 what he alone can teach1 who would turn the #8religious inquirer aside' from the fountain of living waters1 where he might slake his thirst for spiritual instruction1 to those broken cisterns which can hold no water1 and therefore cannot satisfy the panting spirit4 ,the business of men and women1 who are ,,ordained ,,of ,,god to preach the unsearchable riches of ,christ to a lost and perishing world1 is to lead souls to ,christ1 and not to ,pastors for instruction4 ,the ,general ,association say1 that #8when woman assumes the place and tone of man as a public reformer1 our care and protection of her seem unnecessary2 we put ourselves in self-defence against her1 and her character becomes unnatural4' ,here again the unscriptural notion is held up1 that there is a distinction between the duties of men and women as moral beings2 that what is virtue in man1 is vice in woman2 and women who dare to obey the command of ,jehovah1 #8,cry aloud1 spare not1 lift up thy voice like a trumpet1 and show my people their transgression1' are threatened with having the protection of the brethren withdrawn4 ,if this is all they do1 we shall not even know the time when our chastisement is inflicted2 our trust is in the ,lord ,jehovah1 and in him is ever-lasting strength4 ,the motto of woman1 when she is engaged in the great work of public reformation should be1--#8,the ,lord is my light and my salvation2 whom shall ,i fear8 ,the ,lord is the strength of my life2 of whom shall ,i be afraid8' ,she must feel1 if she feels rightly1 that she is fulfilling one of the important duties laid upon her as an accountable being1 and that her character1 instead of being #8unnatural1' is in exact accordance with the will of ,him to whom1 and to no other1 she is responsible for the talents and the gifts confided to her4 ,as to the pretty simile1 introduced into the #8,pastoral ,letter1' #8,if the vine whose strength and beauty is to lean upon the trellis work1 and half conceal its clusters1 thinks to assume the independence and the overshadowing nature of the elm1' c4 ,i shall only remark that it might well suit the poet's fancy1 who sings of sparkling eyes and coral lips1 and knights in armor clad2 but it seems to me utterly inconsistent with the dignity of a ,christian body1 to endeavor to draw such an anti-scriptural distinction between men and women4 ,ah6 how many of my sex feel in the dominion1 thus unrighteously exercised over them1 under the gentle appellation of protection1 that what they have leaned upon has proved a broken reed at best1 and oft a spear4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,iv4 ,,social ,,intercourse ,,of ,,the ,,sexes4 ,andover1 #gth ,mo4 #bgth1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,friend1--,before ,i proceed with the account of that oppression which woman has suffered in every age and country from her protector1 man1 permit me to offer for your consideration1 some views relative to the social intercourse of the sexes4 ,nearly the whole of this intercourse is1 in my apprehension1 derogatory to man and woman1 as moral and intellectual beings4 ,we approach each other1 and mingle with each other1 under the constant pressure of a feeling that we are of different sexes2 and1 instead of regarding each other only in the light of immortal creatures1 the mind is fettered by the idea which is early and industriously infused into it1 that we must never forget the distinction between male and female4 ,hence our intercourse1 instead of being elevated and refined1 is generally calculated to excite and keep alive the lowest propensities of our nature4 ,nothing1 ,i believe1 has tended more to destroy the true dignity of woman1 than the fact that she is approached by man in the character of a female4 ,the idea that she is sought as an intelligent and heaven-born creature1 whose society will cheer1 refine and elevate her companion1 and that she will receive the same blessings she confers1 is rarely held up to her view4 ,on the contrary1 man almost always addresses himself to the weakness of woman4 ,by flattery1 by an appeal to her passions1 he seeks access to her heart2 and when he has gained her affections1 he uses her as the instrument of his pleasure--the minister of his temporal comfort4 ,he furnishes himself with a housekeeper1 whose chief business is in the kitchen1 or the nursery4 ,and whilst he goes abroad and enjoys the means of improvement afforded by collision of intellect with cultivated minds1 his wife is condemned to draw nearly all her instruction from books1 if she has time to peruse them2 and if not1 from her meditations1 whilst engaged in those domestic duties1 which are necessary for the comfort of her lord and master4 ,surely no one who contemplates1 with the eye of a ,christian philosopher1 the design of ,god in the creation of woman1 can believe that she is now fulfilling that design4 ,the literal translation of the word #8help-meet' is a helper like unto himself2 it is so rendered in the ,septuagint1 and manifestly signifies a companion4 ,now ,i believe it will be impossible for woman to fill the station assigned her by ,god1 until her brethren mingle with her as an equal1 as a moral being2 and lose1 in the dignity of her immortal nature1 and in the fact of her bearing like himself the image and superscription of her ,god1 the idea of her being a female4 ,the apostle beautifully remarks1 #8,as many of you as have been baptized into ,christ1 have put on ,christ4 ,there is neither ,jew nor ,greek1 there is neither bond nor free1 there is neither male nor female2 for ye are all one in ,christ ,jesus4' ,until our intercourse is purified by the forgetfulness of sex1--until we rise above the present low and sordid views which entwine themselves around our social and domestic interchange of sentiment and feelings1 we never can derive that benefit from each other's society which it is the design of our ,creator that we should4 ,man has inflicted an unspeakable injury upon woman1 by holding up to her view her animal nature1 and placing in the back ground her moral and intellectual being4 ,woman has inflicted an injury upon herself by submitting to be thus regarded2 and she is now called upon to rise from the station where man1 not ,god1 has placed her1 and claim those sacred and inalienable rights1 as a moral and responsible being1 with which her ,creator has invested her4 ,what but these views1 so derogatory to the character of woman1 could have called forth the remark contained in the ,pastoral ,letter8 #8,we especially deplore the intimate acquaintance and promiscuous conversation of females with regard to things 8which ought not to be named10 by which that modesty and delicacy1 which is the charm of domestic life1 and which constitutes the true influence of woman1 is consumed4' ,how wonderful that the conceptions of man relative to woman are so low1 that he cannot perceive that she may converse on any subject connected with the improvement of her species1 without swerving in the least from that modesty which is one of her greatest virtues6 ,is it designed to insinuate that woman should possess a greater degree of modesty than man8 ,this idea ,i utterly reprobate4 ,or is it supposed that woman cannot go into scenes of misery1 the necessary result of those very things1 which the ,pastoral ,letter says ought not to be named1 for the purpose of moral reform1 without becoming contaminated by those with whom she thus mingles8 ,this is a false position2 and ,i presume has grown out of the never-forgotten distinction of male and female4 ,the woman who goes forth1 clad in the panoply of ,god1 to stem the tide of iniquity and misery1 which she beholds rolling through our land1 goes not forth to her labor of love as a female4 ,she goes as the dignified messenger of ,jehovah1 and all she does and says must be done and said irrespective of sex4 ,she is in duty bound to communicate with all1 who are able and willing to aid her in saving her fellow creatures1 both men and women1 from that destruction which awaits them4 ,so far from woman losing any thing of the purity of her mind1 by visiting the wretched victims of vice in their miserable abodes1 by talking with them1 or of them1 she becomes more and more elevated and refined in her feelings and views4 ,while laboring to cleanse the minds of others from the malaria of moral pollution1 her own heart becomes purified1 and her soul rises to nearer communion with her ,god4 ,such a woman is infinitely better qualified to fulfil the duties of a wife and a mother1 than the woman whose false delicacy leads her to shun her fallen sister and brother1 and shrink from naming those sins which she knows exist1 but which she is too fastidious to labor by deed and by word to exterminate4 ,such a woman feels when she enters upon the marriage relation1 that ,god designed that relation not to debase her to a level with the animal creation1 but to increase the happiness and dignity of his creatures4 ,such a woman comes to the important task of training her children in the nurture and admonition of the ,lord1 with a soul filled with the greatness of the beings committed to her charge4 ,she sees in her children1 creatures bearing the image of ,god2 and she approaches them with reverence1 and treats them at all times as moral and accountable beings4 ,her own mind being purified and elevated1 she instils into her children that genuine religion which induces them to keep the commandments of ,god4 ,instead of ministering with ceaseless care to their sensual appetites1 she teaches them to be temperate in all things4 ,she can converse with her children on any subject relating to their duty to ,god1 can point their attention to those vices which degrade and brutify human nature1 without in the least defiling her own mind or theirs4 ,she views herself1 and teaches her children to regard themselves as moral beings2 and in all their intercourse with their fellow men1 to lose the animal nature of man and woman1 in the recognition of that immortal mind wherewith ,jehovah has blessed and enriched them4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,v4 ,,condition ,,in ,,asia ,,and ,,africa4 ,groton1 #hth ,mo4 #dth1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,i design to devote this letter to a brief examination of the condition of women in ,asia and ,africa4 ,i believe it will be found that men1 in the exercise of their usurped dominion over woman1 have almost invariably done one of two things4 ,they have either made slaves of the creatures whom ,god designed to be their companions and their coadjutors in every moral and intellectual improvement1 or they have dressed them like dolls1 and used them as toys to amuse their hours of recreation4 ,i shall commence by stating the degrading practice of ,,selling ,,women1 which we find prevalent in almost all the ,eastern nations4 ,among the ,jews1-- #8,whoever wished for a wife must pay the parents for her1 or perform a stipulated period of service2 sometimes the parties were solemnly betrothed in childhood1 and the price of the bride stipulated4' ,in ,babylon1 they had a yearly custom of a peculiar kind4 #8,in every district1 three men1 respectable for their virtue1 were chosen to conduct all the marriageable girls to the public assembly4 ,here they were put up at auction by the public crier1 while the magistrate presided over the sales4 ,the most beautiful were sold first1 and the rich contended eagerly for a choice4 ,the most ugly1 or deformed girl was sold next in succession to the handsomest1 and assigned to any person who would take her with the least sum of money4 ,the price given for the beautiful was divided into dowries for the homely4' ,two things may here be noticed2 first1 the value set upon personal charms1 just as a handsome horse commands a high price2 and second1 the utter disregard which is manifested towards the feelings of woman4 #8,in no part of the world does the condition of women appear more dreary than in ,hindostan4 ,the arbitrary power of a father disposes of them in childhood4 ,when they are married1 their husbands have despotic control over them2 if unable to support them1 they can lend or sell them to a neighbor1 and in the ,hindoo rage for gambling1 wives and children are frequently staked and lost4 ,if they survive their husbands1 they must pay implicit obedience to the oldest son2 if they have no sons1 the nearest male relation holds them in subjection2 and if there happen to be no kinsmen1 they must be dependent on the chief of the tribe4' ,even the ,english1 who are numerous in ,hindostan1 have traded in women4 #8,india has been a great marriage market1 on account of the emigration of young enterprising ,englishmen1 without a corresponding number of women4 ,some persons actually imported women to the ,british settlements1 in order to sell them to rich ,europeans1 or nabobs1 who would give a good price for them4 ,how the importers acquired a right thus to dispose of them is not mentioned2 it is probable that the women themselves1 from extreme poverty1 or some other cause1 consented to become articles of speculation1 upon consideration of receiving a certain remuneration4 ,in ,september1 #ahah1 the following advertisement appeared in the ,calcutta ,advertiser3 ,,females ,,raffled ,,for4 ,be it known1 that six fair pretty young ladies1 with two sweet engaging children1 lately imported from ,europe1 having the roses of health blooming on their cheeks1 and joy sparkling in their eyes1 possessing amiable tempers and highly accomplished1 whom the most indifferent cannot behold without rapture1 are to be raffled for next door to the ,british gallery4' ,the enemy of all good could not have devised a better means of debasing an immortal creature1 than by turning her into a saleable commodity2 and hence we find that wherever this custom prevails1 woman is regarded as a mere machine to answer the purposes of domestic combat or sensual indulgence1 or to gratify the taste of her oppressor by a display of personal attractions4 #8,weighed in the balance with a tyrant's gold1 ,though nature cast her in a heavenly mould4' ,i shall now take a brief survey of the ,,employments of women in ,asia and ,africa4 ,in doing this1 ,i have two objects in view2 first to show1 that women are capable of acquiring as great physical power as men1 and secondly to show1 that they have been more or less the victims of oppression and contempt4 #8,the occupations of the ancient ,jewish women were laborious4 ,they spent their time in spinning and weaving cloth for garments1 and for the covering of the tents1 in cooking the food1 tending the flocks1 grinding the corn1 and drawing water from the wells4' ,of ,trojan women we know little1 but we find that-- #8,andromache1 though a princess and well beloved by her husband1 fed and took care of the horses of ,hector4' ,so in ,persia1 women of the middling class see that proper care is taken of the horses4 ,they likewise do all the laborious part of the house work4 #8,the ,hindoo women are engaged in every variety of occupation1 according to the caste of their husbands4 ,they cultivate the land1 make baskets and mats1 bring water in jars1 carry manure and various other articles to market in baskets on their heads1 cook food1 tend children1 weave cloth1 reel thread and wind cocoons4' #8,the ,thibetian women of the laboring classes are inured to a great deal of toil4 ,they plant1 weed1 reap1 and thresh grain1 and are exposed to the roughest weather1 while their indolent husbands are perhaps living at their ease4' #8,females of the lower classes among the ,chinese endure as much labor and fatigue as the men4 ,a wife sometimes drags the plough in rice fields with an infant tied upon her back1 while her husband performs the less arduous task of holding the plough4' #8,the ,tartar women in general perform a greater share of labor than the men2 for it is a prevalent opinion that they were sent into the world for no other purpose1 but to be useful and convenient ,,slaves to the stronger sex4' #8,among some of the ,tartar tribes of the present day1 females manage a horse1 hurl a javelin1 hunt wild animals1 and fight an enemy as well as the men4' #8,in the island of ,sumatra1 the women do all the work1 while their husbands lounge in idleness1 playing on the flute1 with wreaths of globe amaranth on their heads1 or racing with each other1 without saddle or stirrup1 or hunting deer1 or gambling away their wives1 their children1 or themselves4 ,the ,battas consider their wives and children as slaves1 and sell them whenever they choose4' #8,the ,moors are indolent to excess4 ,they lie whole days upon their mats1 sleeping and smoking1 while the women and slaves perform all the labor4 ,owing to their uncleanly habits1 they are much infested with vermin2 and as they consider it beneath their dignity to remove this annoyance1 the task is imposed on the women4 ,they are very impatient and tyrannical1 and for the slightest offence beat their wives most cruelly4' ,in looking over the condition of woman as delineated in this letter1 how amply do we find the prophecy of ,jehovah to ,eve fulfilled1 #8,thy husband will rule over thee4' ,and yet we perceive that where the physical strength of woman is called into exercise1 there is no inferiority even in this respect2 she performs the labor1 while man enjoys what are termed the pleasures of life4 ,i have thought it necessary to adduce various proofs of my assertion1 that men have always in some way regarded women as mere instruments of selfish gratification2 and hope this sorrowful detail of the wrongs of woman will not be tedious to thee4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,vi4 ,,women ,,in ,,asia ,,and ,,africa4 ,groton1 #hth ,mo4 #aeth1 #ahcg4 ,,dear ,,friend1--,in pursuing the history of woman in different ages and countries1 it will be necessary to exhibit her in all the various situations in which she has been placed4 ,we find her sometimes filling the throne1 and exercising the functions of royalty4 ,the name of ,semiramis is familiar to every reader of ancient history4 ,she succeeded ,ninus in the government of the ,assyrian empire2 and to render her name immortal1 built the city of ,babylon4 ,two millions of men were constantly employed upon it4 ,certain dykes built by order of this queen1 to defend the city from inundations1 are spoken of as admirable4 ,nicotris1 wife of ,nabonadius1 the ,evil-,merodach of ,scripture1 was a woman of great endowments4 ,while her husband indulged in a life of ease and pleasure1 she managed the affairs of state with wisdom and prudence4 #8,zenobia queen of ,palmyra and the ,east1 is the most remarkable among ,asiatic women4 ,her genius struggled with and overcame all the obstacles presented by oriental laws and customs4 ,she knew the ,latin1 ,greek1 ,syriac1 and ,egyptian languages2 and had drawn up for her own use an abridgement of oriental history4 ,she was the companion and friend of her husband1 and accompanied him on his hunting excursions with eagerness and courage equal to his own4 ,she despised the effeminacy of a covered carriage1 and often appeared on horseback in military costume4 ,sometimes she marched several miles on foot1 at the head of the troops4 ,having revenged the murder of her husband1 she ascended the throne1 and for five years governed ,palmyra1 ,syria1 and the ,east1 with wonderful steadiness and wisdom4' #8,previous to the introduction of ,mohammedism into ,java1 women often held the highest offices of government2 and when the chief of a district dies1 it is even now not uncommon for the widow to retain the authority that belonged to her deceased husband4' ,other instances might be adduced to prove that there is no natural inferiority in woman4 ,not that ,i approve of woman's holding the reins of government over man4 ,i maintain that they are equal1 and that ,god never invested fallen man with unlimited power over his fellow man2 and ,i rejoice that circumstances have prevented woman from being more deeply involved in the guilt which appears to be inseparable from political affairs4 ,the few instances which ,i have mentioned prove that intellect is not sexed2 and doubtless if woman had not almost universally been depressed and degraded1 the page of history would have exhibited as many eminent statesmen and politicians among women as men4 ,we are much in the situation of the slave4 ,man has asserted and assumed authority over us4 ,he has1 by virtue of his power1 deprived us of the advantages of improvement which he has lavishly bestowed upon himself1 and then1 after having done all he can to take from us the means of proving our equality1 and our capability of mental cultivation1 he throws upon us the burden of proof that ,god created man and woman equal1 and endowed them1 without any reference to sex1 with intelligence and responsibilities1 as rational and accountable beings4 ,hence in ,hindostan1 even women of the higher classes are forbidden to read or write2 because the ,hindoos think it would inevitably spoil them for domestic life1 and assuredly bring some great misfortune upon them4 ,may we not trace to the same feeling1 the disadvantages under which women labor even in this country1 for want of an education1 which would call into exercise the powers of her mind1 and fortify her soul with those great moral principles by which she would be qualified to fill every department in social1 domestic and religious life with dignity8 ,in ,hindostan1 the evidence of women is not received in a court of justice4 ,in ,burmah1 their testimony is not deemed equal to that of a man1 and they are not allowed to ascend the steps of a court of justice1 but are obliged to give their testimony outside of the building4 ,in ,siberia1 women are not allowed to step across the foot-prints of men1 or reindeer2 they are not allowed to eat with men1 or to partake of particular dainties4 ,among many tribes1 they seem to be regarded as impure1 unholy beings4 #8,the ,mohammedan law forbids pigs1 dogs1 women and other impure animals to enter a mosque2 and the hour of prayers must not be proclaimed by a female1 a madman1 a drunkard1 or a decrepit person4' ,here ,i am reminded of the resemblance between the situation of women in heathen and ,mohammedan countries1 and our brethren and sisters of color in this ,christian land1 where they are despised and cast out as though they were unclean4 ,and on precisely the same ground1 because they are said to be inferior4 ,the treatment of women as wives is almost uniformly the same in all heathen countries4 ,the ancient ,lydians are the only exception that ,i have met with1 and the origin of their peculiar customs is so much obscured by fable1 that it is difficult to ascertain the truth4 ,probably they arose from some great benefit conferred on the state by women4 ,among the ,druses who reside in the mountains of the ,anti ,libanus1 a wife is often divorced on the slightest pretext4 ,if she ask her husband's permission to go out1 and he says1--#8,go1' without adding #8but come back again1' she is divorced4 ,in ,siberia1 it is considered a wife's duty to obey the most capricious and unreasonable demands of her husband1 without one word of expostulation or inquiry4 ,if her master be dissatisfied with the most trifling particular in her conduct1 he tears the cap or veil from her head1 and this constitutes a divorce4 ,a ,persian woman1 under the dominion of the kindest master1 is treated much in the same manner as a favorite animal4 ,to vary her personal graces for his pleasure1 is the sole end and aim of her existence4 ,as moral or intellectual beings1 it would be better for them to be among the dead than the living4 ,the mother instructs her daughter in all the voluptuous coquetry1 by which she herself acquired precarious ascendency over her absolute master2 but all that is truly estimable in female character is utterly neglected4 ,hence we find women extravagantly fond of adorning their persons4 ,regarded as instruments of pleasure1 they have been degraded into mere animals1 and have found their own gratification principally in the indulgence of personal vanity1 because their external charms procured for them1 at least a temporary ascendency over those1 who held in their hands the reins of government4 ,a few instances must suffice1 or ,i shall exceed the limits ,i have prescribed to myself in this letter4 ,during the magnificent prosperity of ,israel1 marriages were conducted with great pomp2 and with the progress of luxury and refinement1 women became expensive1 rather than profitable in a pecuniary point of view4 ,hence probably arose the custom of wealthy parents giving a handsome dowry with their daughters4 ,on the day of the nuptials1 the bride was conducted by her female relations to the bath1 where she was anointed with the choicest perfumes1 her hair perfumed and braided1 her eyebrows deepened with black powder1 and the tips of her fingers tinged with rose color4 ,she was then arrayed in a marriage robe of brilliant color2 the girdle and bracelets were more or less costly4 ,notwithstanding the ,chinese women have no opportunity to rival each other in the conquest of hearts1 they are nevertheless very fond of ornaments4 ,bunches of silver or gilt flowers are always interspersed among their ringlets1 and sometimes they wear the ,chinese phnix made of silver gilt4 ,it moves with the slightest motion of the wearer1 and the spreading tail forms a glittering aigrette on the middle of the head1 and the wings wave over the front4 ,yet a ,chinese ballad says1--,the pearls and precious stones1 the silk and gold with which a coquette so studiously bedecks herself1 are a transparent varnish which makes all her defects the more apparent4 ,the ,moorish women have generally a great passion for ornament4 ,they decorate their persons with heavy gold ear-rings1 necklaces of amber1 coral and gold2 gold bracelets2 gold chains and silver bells for the ankles2 rings on the fingers1 c4 c4 ,the poorer class wear glass beads around the head1 and curl the hair in large ringlets4 ,men are proud of having their wives handsomely dressed4 ,the ,moors are not peculiar in this fancy4 ,christian men still admire women who adorn their persons to gratify the lust of the eye and the pride of life4 ,women1 says a ,brahminical expositor1 are characterized by an inordinate love of jewels1 fine clothes1 c4 c4 ,i cannot deny this charge1 but it is only one among many instances1 wherein men have reproached us with those very faults and vices which their own treatment has engendered4 ,is it any matter of surprise that women1 when unnaturally deprived of the means of cultivating their minds1 of objects which would elevate and refine their passions and affections1 should seek gratification in the toys and the trifles which now too generally engage their attention8 ,i cannot close this1 without acknowledging the assistance and information ,i have derived1 and shall continue to derive on this part of my subject1 from a valuable work entitled #8,condition of ,women1 by ,lydia ,m4 ,child4' ,it is worth the perusal of every one who is interested in the subject4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,vii4 ,,condition ,,in ,,some ,,parts ,,of ,,europe ,,and ,,america4 ,brookline1 #hth ,mo41 #bb;d1 #ahcg4 ,,dear ,,sister1--,i now come to the consideration of the condition of woman in ,europe4--,in this portion of the world1 she does not appear to have been as uniformly or as deeply debased1 as in ,eastern countries2 yet we shall find little in her history which can yield us satisfaction1 when we regard the high station she was designed to occupy as a moral and intellectual being4 ,in ,greece1 if we may judge from what ,eustathius says1 #8women should keep within doors1 and there talk1'--we may conclude1 that in general their occupations were chiefly domestic4 ,thucydides also declares1 that #8she was the best woman1 of whom the least was said1 either of good or of harm4' ,the heathen philosophers doubtless wished to keep woman in her #8appropriate sphere2' and we find our clerical brethren of the present day re-echoing these pagan sentiments1 and endeavoring to drive woman from the field of moral labor and intellectual culture1 to occupy her talents in the pursuit of those employments which will enable her to regale the palate of her lord with the delicacies of the table1 and in every possible way minister to his animal comfort and gratification4 ,in my humble opinion1 woman has long enough subserved the interests of man2 and in the spirit of self-sacrifice1 submitted almost without remonstrance to his oppression2 and now that her attention is solicited to the subject of her rights1 her privileges and her duties1 ,i would entreat her to double her diligence in the performance of all her obligations as a wife1 a mother1 a sister1 and a daughter4 ,let us remember that our claim to stand on perfect equality with our brethren1 can only be substantiated by a scrupulous attention to our domestic duties1 as well as by aiding in the great work of moral reformation--a work which is now calling for the energies and consecrated powers of every man and woman who desires to see the ,redeemer's kingdom established on earth4 ,that man must indeed be narrow minded1 and can have but a poor conception of the power of moral truth on the female heart1 who supposes that a correct view of her own rights can make woman less solicitous to fill up every department of duty4 ,if it should have this effect1 it must be because she has not taken a comprehensive view of the whole subject4 ,in the history of ,rome1 we find a little spot of sunshine in the valley where woman has been destined to live1 unable from her lowly situation to take an expansive view of that field of moral and mental improvement1 which she should have been busy in cultivating4 #8,in the earliest and best days of ,rome1 the first magistrates and generals of armies ploughed their own fields1 and threshed their own grain4 ,integrity1 industry and simplicity1 were the prevailing virtues of the times2 and the character of woman was1 as it always must be1 graduated in a degree by that of man4 ,columella says1 ,roman husbands1 having completed the labors of the day1 entered their houses free from all care1 and there enjoyed perfect repose4 ,there reigned union and concord and industry1 supported by mutual affections4 ,the most beautiful woman depended for distinction on her economy and endeavors to assist in crowning her husband's diligence with prosperity4 ,all was in common between them2 nothing was thought to belong more to one than another4 ,the wife by her assiduity and activity within doors1 equalled and seconded the industry and labor of her husband4' ,in the then state of the world1 we may conclude from this description1 that woman enjoyed as much happiness as was consistent with that comparatively unimproved condition of our species2 but now a new and vast sphere of usefulness is opened to her1 and she is pressed by surrounding circumstances to come up to the help of the ,lord against the giant sins which desolate our beloved country4 ,shall woman shrink from duty in this exigency1 and retiring within her own domestic circle1 delight herself in the abundance of her own selfish enjoyments8 ,shall she rejoice in her home1 her husband1 her children1 and forget her brethren and sisters in bondage1 who know not what it is to call a spot of earth their own1 whose husbands and wives are torn from them by relentless tyrants1 and whose children are snatched from their arms by their unfeeling task-masters1 whenever interest1 or convenience1 tempts them to this sacrilegious act8 ,shall woman disregard the situation of thousands of her fellow creatures1 who are the victims of intemperance and licentiousness1 and retreating to the privacy of her own comfortable home1 be satisfied that her whole duty is performed1 when she can exhibit #8her children well clad and smiling1 and her table neatly spread with wholesome provisions8' ,shall she1 because #8her house is her home1' refuse her aid and her sympathy to the down trodden slave1 to the poor unhappy outcasts who are deprived of those blessings which she so highly prizes8 ,did ,god give her those blessings to steel her heart to the sufferings of her fellow creatures8 ,did he grant her the possession of husband and children1 to dry up the fountains of feeling for those who know not the consolations of tenderness and reciprocal affection8 ,ah no6 for every such blessing1 ,god demands a grateful heart2 and woman must be recreant to her duty1 if she can quietly sit down in the enjoyments of her own domestic circle1 and not exert herself to procure the same happiness for others4 ,but it is said woman has a mighty weapon in secret prayer4 ,she has1 ,i acknowledge1 in common with man2 but the woman who prays in sincerity for the regeneration of this guilty world1 will accompany her prayers by her labors4 ,a friend of mine remarked--#8,i was sitting in my chamber1 weeping over the miseries of the slave1 and putting up my petitions for his deliverance from bondage2 when in the midst of my meditations1 it occurred to me that my tears1 unaided by effort1 could never melt the chain of the slave4 ,i must be up and doing4' ,she is now an active abolitionist--her prayers and her works go hand in hand4 ,i am here reminded of what a slave once said to his master1 a ,methodist minister4 ,the slaveholder inquired1 #8,how did you like my sermon to-day8' #8,very good1 master1 but it did not preach me free4' ,oh1 my sisters1 suffer me to entreat you to assert your privileges1 and to perform your duties as moral beings4 ,be not dismayed at the ridicule of man2 it is a weapon worthy only of little minds1 and is employed by those who feel that they cannot convince our judgment4 ,be not alarmed at contumely1 or scorn2 we must expect this4 ,i pray that we may meet it with forbearance and love2 and that nothing may drive us from the performance of our high and holy duties4 ,let us #8cease from man1 whose breath is in his nostrils1 for wherein is he to be accounted of8' and press forward in all the great moral enterprises of the age1 leaning only on the arm of our ,beloved4 ,but ,i must return to the subject ,i commenced with1 viz4 the condition of woman in ,europe4 #8,the northern nations bore a general resemblance to each other4 ,war and hunting were considered the only honorable occupations for men1 and all other employments were left to women and slaves4 ,even the ,visigoths1 on the coasts of ,spain1 left their fields and flocks to the care of women4 ,the people who inhabit the vast extent of country between the ,black sea and the ,north sea1 are divided into various distinct races4 ,the women are generally very industrious2 even in their walks1 they carry a portable distaff1 and spin every step of the way4 ,both ,croatian and ,walachian women perform all the agricultural operations in addition to their own domestic concerns4' ,speaking of the ,morlachian women1 ,m4 ,fortis says1 #8,being treated like beasts of burden1 and expected to endure submissively every species of hardship1 they naturally become very dirty and careless in their habits4' ,the ,cossack women afford a contrast to this disgusting picture4 ,they are very cleanly and industrious1 and in the absence of their husbands1 supply their places by taking charge of all their usual occupations1 in addition to their own4 ,it is rare for a ,cossack woman not to know some trade1 such as dyeing cloth1 tanning leather1 c4 ,the condition of ,polish and ,russian serfs in modern times is about the same4 ,the ,polish women have scarcely clothing enough for decency1 and they are subjected to great hardships and privations4 #8,in ,russia1 women have been seen paving the streets1 and performing other similar drudgery4 ,in ,finland1 they work like beasts of burden1 and may be seen for hours in snow water1 up to the middle1 tugging at boats and sledges4' ,in ,flanders and in ,france1 women are engaged in performing laborious tasks2 and even in ,england1 it is not unusual to see them scraping up manure from the streets with their hands1 and gathering it into baskets4 ,in ,greece1 even now the women plough and carry heavy burdens1 while the lordly master of the family may be seen walking before them without any incumbrance4#a ,generally speaking1 however1 there is much more comparative equality of labor between the sexes in ,europe than among the ,orientals4 ,i shall close this letter with a brief survey of the condition of women among the ,aborigines of ,america4 #8,before ,america was settled by ,europeans1 it was inhabited by ,indian tribes1 which greatly resembled each other in the treatment of their women4 ,every thing1 except war and hunting1 was considered beneath the dignity of man4--,during long and wearisome marches1 women were obliged to carry children1 provisions and hammocks on their shoulders2 they had the sole care of the horses and dogs1 cut wood1 pitched the tents1 raised the corn1 and made the clothing4 ,when the husband killed game1 he left it by a tree in the forest1 returned home1 and sent his wife several miles in search of it4 ,in most of the tribes1 women were not allowed to eat and drink with men1 but stood and served them1 and then ate what they left4' ,the following affecting anecdote may give some idea of the sufferings of these women3 #8,father ,joseph reproved a female savage for destroying her infant daughter4 ,she replied1 8,i wish my mother had thus prevented the manifold sufferings ,i have endured4 ,consider1 father1 our deplorable situation4 ,our husbands go out to hunt2 we are dragged along with one infant at our breast1 and another in a basket4 ,though tired with long walking1 we are not allowed to sleep when we return1 but must labor all night in grinding maize and making chica for them4--,they get drunk and beat us1 draw us by the hair of the head1 and tread us under foot4 ,would to ,god my mother had put me under ground the moment ,i was born40' ,in ,greenland1 the situation of woman is equally deplorable4 ,the men hunt bears and catch seals2 but when they have towed their booty to land1 they would consider it a disgrace to help the women drag it home1 or skin and dress it4 ,they often stand and look idly on1 while their wives are staggering beneath the load that almost bends them to the earth4 ,the women are cooks1 butchers1 masons1 curriers1 shoemakers and tailors4 ,they will manage a boat in the roughest seas1 and will often push off from the shore in the midst of a storm1 that would make the hardiest ,european sailor tremble4 ,the page of history teems with woman's wrongs1 and it is wet with woman's tears4--,for the sake of my degraded sex every where1 and for the sake of my brethren1 who suffer just in proportion as they place woman lower in the scale of creation than man1 lower than her ,creator placed her1 ,i entreat my sisters to arise in all the majesty of moral power1 in all the dignity of immortal beings1 and plant themselves1 side by side1 on the platform of human rights1 with man1 to whom they were designed to be companions1 equals and helpers in every good word and work4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,footnotes3 #a ,since the preceding letters were in type1 ,i have met with the following account in a ,french work entitled #8,de l'education des meres de famille ou de la civilization du ,genre ,humain par les femmes1' printed at ,brussels in #ahcg4 #8,the periodicals have lately published the following circumstance from the journal of an ,english physician1 who travelled in the ,east4 ,he visited a slave market1 where he saw about twenty ,greek women half naked1 lying on the ground waiting for a purchaser4 ,one of them attracted the attention of an old ,turk4 ,the barbarian examined her shoulders1 her legs1 her ears1 her mouth1 her neck1 with the minutest care1 just as a horse is examined1 and during the inspection1 the merchant praised the beauty of her eyes1 the elegance of her shape1 and other perfections2 he protested that the poor girl was but thirteen years of age1 c4 ,after a severe scrutiny and some dispute about the price1 she was sold body and soul for #acge francs4 ,the soul1 it is true1 was accounted of little value in the bargain4 ,the unfortunate creature1 half fainting in the arms of her mother1 implored help in the most touching accents1 but it availed nothing4--,this infernal scene passed in ,europe in #ahbi1 only #fjj leagues from ,paris and ,london1 the two capitals of the human species1 and at the time in which ,i write1 it is the living history of two thirds of the inhabitants of the earth4' ,,letter ,,viii4 ,,on ,,the ,,condition ,,of ,,women ,,in ,,the ,,united ,,states4 ,brookline1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,i have now taken a brief survey of the condition of woman in various parts of the world4 ,i regret that my time has been so much occupied by other things1 that ,i have been unable to bestow that attention upon the subject which it merits1 and that my constant change of place has prevented me from having access to books1 which might probably have assisted me in this part of my work4 ,i hope that the principles ,i have asserted will claim the attention of some of my sex1 who may be able to bring into view1 more thoroughly than ,i have done1 the situation and degradation of woman4 ,i shall now proceed to make a few remarks on the condition of women in my own country4 ,during the early part of my life1 my lot was cast among the butterflies of the fashionable world2 and of this class of women1 ,i am constrained to say1 both from experience and observation1 that their education is miserably deficient2 that they are taught to regard marriage as the one thing needful1 the only avenue to distinction2 hence to attract the notice and win the attentions of men1 by their external charms1 is the chief business of fashionable girls4 ,they seldom think that men will be allured by intellectual acquirements1 because they find1 that where any mental superiority exists1 a woman is generally shunned and regarded as stepping out of her #8appropriate sphere1' which1 in their view1 is to dress1 to dance1 to set out to the best possible advantage her person1 to read the novels which inundate the press1 and which do more to destroy her character as a rational creature1 than any thing else4 ,fashionable women regard themselves1 and are regarded by men1 as pretty toys or as mere instruments of pleasure2 and the vacuity of mind1 the heartlessness1 the frivolity which is the necessary result of this false and debasing estimate of women1 can only be fully understood by those who have mingled in the folly and wickedness of fashionable life2 and who have been called from such pursuits by the voice of the ,lord ,jesus1 inviting their weary and heavy laden souls to come unto ,him and learn of ,him1 that they may find something worthy of their immortal spirit1 and their intellectual powers2 that they may learn the high and holy purposes of their creation1 and consecrate themselves unto the service of ,god2 and not1 as is now the case1 to the pleasure of man4 ,there is another and much more numerous class in this country1 who are withdrawn by education or circumstances from the circle of fashionable amusements1 but who are brought up with the dangerous and absurd idea1 that marriage is a kind of preferment2 and that to be able to keep their husband's house1 and render his situation comfortable1 is the end of her being4 ,much that she does and says and thinks is done in reference to this situation2 and to be married is too often held up to the view of girls as the sine qua non of human happiness and human existence4 ,for this purpose more than for any other1 ,i verily believe the majority of girls are trained4 ,this is demonstrated by the imperfect education which is bestowed upon them1 and the little pains taken to cultivate their minds1 after they leave school1 by the little time allowed them for reading1 and by the idea being constantly inculcated1 that although all household concerns should be attended to with scrupulous punctuality at particular seasons1 the improvement of their intellectual capacities is only a secondary consideration1 and may serve as an occupation to fill up the odds and ends of time4 ,in most families1 it is considered a matter of far more consequence to call a girl off from making a pie1 or a pudding1 than to interrupt her whilst engaged in her studies4 ,this mode of training necessarily exalts1 in their view1 the animal above the intellectual and spiritual nature1 and teaches women to regard themselves as a kind of machinery1 necessary to keep the domestic engine in order1 but of little value as the intelligent companions of men4 ,let no one think1 from these remarks1 that ,i regard a knowledge of housewifery as beneath the acquisition of women4 ,far from it3 ,i believe that a complete knowledge of household affairs is an indispensable requisite in a woman's education1--that by the mistress of a family1 whether married or single1 doing her duty thoroughly and understandingly1 the happiness of the family is increased to an incalculable degree1 as well as a vast amount of time and money saved4 ,all ,i complain of is1 that our education consists so almost exclusively in culinary and other manual operations4 ,i do long to see the time1 when it will no longer be necessary for women to expend so many precious hours in furnishing #8a well spread table1' but that their husbands will forego some of their accustomed indulgences in this way1 and encourage their wives to devote some portion of their time to mental cultivation1 even at the expense of having to dine sometimes on baked potatoes1 or bread and butter4 ,i believe the sentiment expressed by the author of #8,live and let ,live1' is true3 #8,other things being equal1 a woman of the highest mental endowments will always be the best housekeeper1 for domestic economy1 is a science that brings into action the qualities of the mind1 as well as the graces of the heart4 ,a quick perception1 judgment1 discrimination1 decision and order are high attributes of mind1 and are all in daily exercise in the well ordering of a family4 ,if a sensible woman1 an intellectual woman1 a woman of genius1 is not a good housewife1 it is not because she is either1 or all of those1 but because there is some deficiency in her character1 or some omission of duty which should make her very humble1 instead of her indulging in any secret self-complacency on account of a certain superiority1 which only aggravates her fault4' ,the influence of women over the minds and character of children of both sexes1 is allowed to be far greater than that of men4 ,this being the case by the very ordering of nature1 women should be prepared by education for the performance of their sacred duties as mothers and as sisters4 ,a late ,american writer1#b speaking on this subject1 says in reference to an article in the ,westminster ,review3 #8,i agree entirely with the writer in the high estimate which he places on female education1 and have long since been satisfied1 that the subject not only merits1 but imperiously demands a thorough reconsideration4 ,the whole scheme must1 in my opinion1 be reconstructed4 ,the great elements of usefulness and duty are too little attended to4 ,women ought1 in my view of the subject1 to approach to the best education now given to men1 7,i except mathematics and the classics17 far more ,i believe than has ever yet been attempted4 ,give me a host of educated1 pious mothers and sisters1 and ,i will do more to revolutionize a country1 in moral and religious taste1 in manners and in social virtues and intellectual cultivation1 than ,i can possibly do in double or treble the time1 with a similar host of educated men4 ,i cannot but think that the miserable condition of the great body of the people in all ancient communities1 is to be ascribed in a very great degree to the degradation of women4' ,there is another way in which the general opinion1 that women are inferior to men1 is manifested1 that bears with tremendous effect on the laboring class1 and indeed on almost all who are obliged to earn a subsistence1 whether it be by mental or physical exertion--,i allude to the disproportionate value set on the time and labor of men and of women4 ,a man who is engaged in teaching1 can always1 ,i believe1 command a higher price for tuition than a woman--even when he teaches the same branches1 and is not in any respect superior to the woman4 ,this ,i know is the case in boarding and other schools with which ,i have been acquainted1 and it is so in every occupation in which the sexes engage indiscriminately4 ,as for example1 in tailoring1 a man has twice1 or three times as much for making a waistcoat or pantaloons as a woman1 although the work done by each may be equally good4 ,in those employments which are peculiar to women1 their time is estimated at only half the value of that of men4 ,a woman who goes out to wash1 works as hard in proportion as a wood sawyer1 or a coal heaver1 but she is not generally able to make more than half as much by a day's work4 ,the low remuneration which women receive for their work1 has claimed the attention of a few philanthropists1 and ,i hope it will continue to do so until some remedy is applied for this enormous evil4 ,i have known a widow1 left with four or five children1 to provide for1 unable to leave home because her helpless babes demand her attention1 compelled to earn a scanty subsistence1 by making coarse shirts at #ab cents a piece1 or by taking in washing1 for which she was paid by some wealthy persons #ab cents per dozen4 ,all these things evince the low estimation in which woman is held4 ,there is yet another and more disastrous consequence arising from this unscriptural notion--women being educated1 from earliest childhood1 to regard themselves as inferior creatures1 have not that self-respect which conscious equality would engender1 and hence when their virtue is assailed1 they yield to temptation with facility1 under the idea that it rather exalts than debases them1 to be connected with a superior being4 ,there is another class of women in this country1 to whom ,i cannot refer1 without feelings of the deepest shame and sorrow4 ,i allude to our female slaves4 ,our southern cities are whelmed beneath a tide of pollution2 the virtue of female slaves is wholly at the mercy of irresponsible tyrants1 and women are bought and sold in our slave markets1 to gratify the brutal lust of those who bear the name of ,christians4 ,in our slave ,states1 if amid all her degradation and ignorance1 a woman desires to preserve her virtue unsullied1 she is either bribed or whipped into compliance1 or if she dares resist her seducer1 her life by the laws of some of the slave ,states may be1 and has actually been sacrificed to the fury of disappointed passion4 ,where such laws do not exist1 the power which is necessarily vested in the master over his property1 leaves the defenceless slave entirely at his mercy1 and the sufferings of some females on this account1 both physical and mental1 are intense4 ,mr4 ,gholson1 in the ,house of ,delegates of ,virginia1 in #ahcb1 said1 #8,he really had been under the impression that he owned his slaves4 ,he had lately purchased four women and ten children1 in whom he thought he had obtained a great bargain2 for he supposed they were his own property1 as were his brood mares4' ,but even if any laws existed in the ,united ,states1 as in ,athens formerly1 for the protection of female slaves1 they would be null and void1 because the evidence of a colored person is not admitted against a white1 in any of our ,courts of ,justice in the slave ,states4 #8,in ,athens1 if a female slave had cause to complain of any want of respect to the laws of modesty1 she could seek the protection of the temple1 and demand a change of owners2 and such appeals were never discountenanced1 or neglected by the magistrate4' ,in ,christian ,america1 the slave has no refuge from unbridled cruelty and lust4 ,s4 ,a4 ,forrall1 speaking of the state of morals at the ,south1 says1 #8,negresses when young and likely1 are often employed by the planter1 or his friends1 to administer to their sensual desires4 ,this frequently is a matter of speculation1 for if the offspring1 a mulatto1 be a handsome female1 #hjj or #ajjj dollars may be obtained for her in the ,new ,orleans market4 ,it is an occurrence of no uncommon nature to see a ,christian father sell his own daughter1 and the brother his own sister4' ,the following is copied by the ,n4 ,y4 ,evening ,star from the ,picayune1 a paper published in ,new ,orleans4 #8,a very beautiful girl1 belonging to the estate of ,john ,french1 a deceased gambler at ,new ,orleans1 was sold a few days since for the round sum of #g1jjj4 ,an ugly-looking bachelor named ,gouch1 a member of the ,council of one of the ,principalities1 was the purchaser4 ,the girl is a brunette2 remarkable for her beauty and intelligence1 and there was considerable contention1 who should be the purchaser4 ,she was1 however1 persuaded to accept ,gouch1 he having made her princely promises4' ,i will add but one more from the numerous testimonies respecting the degradation of female slaves1 and the licentiousness of the ,south4 ,it is from the ,circular of the ,kentucky ,union1 for the moral and religious improvement of the colored race4 #8,to the female character among our black population1 we cannot allude but with feelings of the bitterest shame4 ,a similar condition of moral pollution and utter disregard of a pure and virtuous reputation1 is to be found only without the pale of ,christendom4 ,that such a state of society should exist in a ,christian nation1 claiming to be the most enlightened upon earth1 without calling forth any particular attention to its existence1 though ever before our eyes and in our families1 is a moral phenomenon at once unaccountable and disgraceful4' ,nor does the colored woman suffer alone3 the moral purity of the white woman is deeply contaminated4 ,in the daily habit of seeing the virtue of her enslaved sister sacrificed without hesitancy or remorse1 she looks upon the crimes of seduction and illicit intercourse without horror1 and although not personally involved in the guilt1 she loses that value for innocence in her own1 as well as the other sex1 which is one of the strongest safeguards to virtue4 ,she lives in habitual intercourse with men1 whom she knows to be polluted by licentiousness1 and often is she compelled to witness in her own domestic circle1 those disgusting and heart-sickening jealousies and strifes which disgraced and distracted the family of ,abraham4 ,in addition to all this1 the female slaves suffer every species of degradation and cruelty1 which the most wanton barbarity can inflict2 they are indecently divested of their clothing1 sometimes tied up and severely whipped1 sometimes prostrated on the earth1 while their naked bodies are torn by the scorpion lash4 #8,the whip on ,,woman',s shrinking flesh6 ,our soil yet reddening with the stains ,caught from her scourging warm and fresh4' ,can any ,american woman look at these scenes of shocking licentiousness and cruelty1 and fold her hands in apathy1 and say1 #8,i have nothing to do with slavery'8 ,she cannot and be guiltless4 ,i cannot close this letter1 without saying a few words on the benefits to be derived by men1 as well as women1 from the opinions ,i advocate relative to the equality of the sexes4 ,many women are now supported1 in idleness and extravagance1 by the industry of their husbands1 fathers1 or brothers1 who are compelled to toil out their existence1 at the counting house1 or in the printing office1 or some other laborious occupation1 while the wife and daughters and sisters take no part in the support of the family1 and appear to think that their sole business is to spend the hard bought earnings of their male friends4 ,i deeply regret such a state of things1 because ,i believe that if women felt their responsibility1 for the support of themselves1 or their families it would add strength and dignity to their characters1 and teach them more true sympathy for their husbands1 than is now generally manifested1--a sympathy which would be exhibited by actions as well as words4 ,our brethren may reject my doctrine1 because it runs counter to common opinions1 and because it wounds their pride2 but ,i believe they would be #8partakers of the benefit' resulting from the ,equality of the ,sexes1 and would find that woman1 as their equal1 was unspeakably more valuable than woman as their inferior1 both as a moral and an intellectual being4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,footnotes3 #b ,thomas ,s4 ,grimke4 ,,letter ,,ix4 ,,heroism ,,of ,,women--,,women ,,in ,,authority4 ,brookline1 #hth ,mo4 #beth1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,it seems necessary to glance at the conduct of women under circumstances which place them in juxtaposition with men1 although ,i regard it as entirely unimportant in proving the moral equality of the sexes2 because ,i condemn1 in both1 the exercise of that brute force which is as contrary to the law of ,god in men as in women2 still1 as a part of our history1 ,i shall notice some instances of courage exhibited by females4 #8,philippa1 wife of ,edward ,,iii41 was the principal cause of the victory gained over the ,scots at ,neville ,cross4 ,in the absence of her husband1 she rode among the troops1 and exhorted them to 8be of good courage40' ,jane1 ,countess of ,mountfort1 and a contemporary of ,philippa1 likewise possessed a great share of physical courage4 ,the history of ,joan of ,arc is too familiar to need repetition4 ,during the reign of ,james ,,ii4 a singular instance of female intrepidity occurred in ,scotland4 ,sir ,john ,cochrane being condemned to be hung1 his daughter twice disguised herself1 and robbed the mail that brought his death warrant4 ,in the mean time1 his pardon was obtained from the ,king4 ,instances might be multiplied1 but it is unnecessary4 ,i shall therefore close these proofs of female courage with one more fact4 #8,during the revolutionary war1 the women shared in the patriotism and bravery of the men4 ,several individuals carried their enthusiasm so far as to enter the army1 where they faced all the perils and fatigues of the camp1 until the close of the war4' ,when ,i view my countrywomen in the character of soldiers1 or even behold them loading fire arms and moulding bullets for their brethren to destroy men's lives1 ,i cannot refrain a sigh4 ,i cannot but contrast their conduct at that solemn crisis with the conduct of those women who followed their ,lord and ,master with unresisting submission1 to ,calvary's ,mount4 ,with the precepts and example of a crucified ,redeemer1 who1 in that sublime precept1 #8,resist not evil1' has interdicted to his disciples all war and all violence1 and taught us that the spirit of retaliation for injuries1 whether in the camp1 or at the fire-side1 is wholly at variance with the peaceful religion he came to promulgate4 ,how little do we comprehend that simple truth1 #8,by this shall all men know that ye are my disciples1 if ye have love one to another4' ,women have sometimes distinguished themselves in a way more consistent with their duties as moral beings4 ,during the war between the ,romans and the ,sabines1 the ,sabine women who had been carried off by the ,romans1 repaired to the ,sabine camp1 dressed in deep mourning1 with their little ones in their arms1 to soften1 if possible1 the feelings of their parents4 ,they knelt at the feet of their relatives2 and when ,hersilia1 the wife of ,romulus1 described the kindness of their husbands1 and their unwillingness to be separated from them1 their fathers yielded to their entreaties1 and an alliance was soon agreed upon4 ,in consequence of this important service1 peculiar privileges were conferred on women by the ,romans4 ,brutus said of his wife1 #8,i must not answer ,portia in the words of ,hector1 8,mind your wheel1 and to your maids give law10 for in courage1 activity and concern for her country's freedom1 she is inferior to none of us4' ,after the fatal battle of ,cann1 the ,roman women consecrated all their ornaments to the service of the state4 ,but when the triumvirs attempted to tax them for the expenses of carrying on a civil war1 they resisted the innovation4 ,they chose ,hortensia for their speaker1 and went in a body to the market-place to expostulate with the magistrates4 ,the triumvirs wished to drive them away1 but they were compelled to yield to the wishes of the people1 and give the women a hearing4 ,hortensia pleaded so well the cause of her sisters1 who resolved that they would not voluntarily aid in a civil war1 that the number of women taxed was reduced from #adjj to #djj4 ,in the wars of the ,guelphs and the ,ghibbelines1 the emperor ,conrad refused all terms of capitulation to the garrison of ,winnisberg1 but he granted the request of the women to pass out in safety with such of their effects as they could carry themselves4 ,accordingly1 they issued from the besieged city1 each bearing on her shoulders a husband1 son1 father1 or brother4 ,they passed unmolested through the enemy's camp1 which rung with acclamations of applause4 ,during our struggle for independence1 the women were as exemplary as the men in various instances of self-denial3 they refused every article of decoration for their persons2 foreign elegances were laid aside1 and they cheerfully abstained from luxuries for their tables4 ,english history presents many instances of women exercising prerogatives now denied them4 ,in an action at law1 it has been determined that an unmarried woman1 having a freehold1 might vote for members of ,parliament2 and it is recorded that lady ,packington returned two4 ,lady ,broughton was keeper of the gatehouse prison4 ,and in a much later period1 a woman was appointed governor of the house of correction at ,chelmsford1 by order of the court4 ,in the reign of ,george ,,ii4 the minister of ,clerkenwell was chosen by a majority of women4 ,the office of grand chamberlain in #ahbb was filled by two women2 and that of clerk of the crown1 in the court of king's bench1 has been granted to a female4 ,the celebrated ,anne1 countess of ,pembroke1 held the hereditary office of sheriff of ,westmoreland1 and exercised it in person1 sitting on the bench with the judges4 ,i need hardly advert to the names of ,elizabeth of ,england1 ,maria ,theresa of ,germany1 ,catharine of ,russia1 and ,isabella of ,spain1 to prove that women are capable of swaying the sceptre of royalty4 ,the page of history proves incontestibly1 not only that they are as well qualified to do so as men1 but that there has been a comparatively greater proportion of good queens1 than of good kings2 women who have purchased their celebrity by individual strength of character4 ,i mention these women only to prove that intellect is not sexed2 that strength of mind is not sexed2 and that our views about the duties of men and the duties of women1 the sphere of man and the sphere of woman1 are mere arbitrary opinions1 differing in different ages and countries1 and dependant solely on the will and judgment of erring mortals4 ,as moral and responsible beings1 men and women have the same sphere of action1 and the same duties devolve upon both2 but no one can doubt that the duties of each vary according to circumstances2 that a father and a mother1 a husband and a wife1 have sacred obligations resting on them1 which cannot possibly belong to those who do not sustain these relations4 ,but these duties and responsibilities do not attach to them as men and as women1 but as parents1 husbands1 and wives4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,x4 ,,intellect ,,of ,,woman4 ,brookline1 #hth ,mo4 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,it will scarcely be denied1 ,i presume1 that1 as a general rule1 men do not desire the improvement of women4 ,there are few instances of men who are magnanimous enough to be entirely willing that women should know more than themselves1 on any subjects except dress and cookery2 and1 indeed1 this necessarily flows from their assumption of superiority4 ,as they have determined that ,jehovah has placed woman on a lower platform than man1 they of course wish to keep her there2 and hence the noble faculties of our minds are crushed1 and our reasoning powers are almost wholly uncultivated4 ,a writer in the time of ,charles ,i4 says--#8,she that knoweth how to compound a pudding1 is more desirable than she who skilfully compounded a poem4 ,a female poet ,i mislike at all times4' ,within the last century1 it has been gravely asserted that1 #8chemistry enough to keep the pot boiling1 and geography enough to know the location of the different rooms in her house1 is learning sufficient for a woman4' ,byron1 who was too sensual to conceive of a pure and perfect companionship between the sexes1 would limit a woman's library to a ,bible and cookery book4 ,i have myself heard men1 who knew for themselves the value of intellectual culture1 say they cared very little for a wife who could not make a pudding1 and smile with contempt at the ardent thirst for knowledge exhibited by some women4 ,but all this is miserable wit and worse philosophy4 ,it exhibits that passion for the gratification of a pampered appetite1 which is beneath those who claim to be so far above us1 and may justly be placed on a par with the policy of the slaveholder1 who says that men will be better slaves1 if they are not permitted to learn to read4 ,in spite1 however1 of the obstacles which impede the progress of women towards that state of high mental cultivation for which her ,creator prepared her1 the tendency towards the universal dissemination of knowledge has had its influence on their destinies2 and in all ages1 a few have surmounted every hindrance1 and proved1 beyond dispute1 that they have talents equal to their brethren4 ,cornelia1 the daughter of ,scipio ,africanus1 was distinguished for virtue1 learning and good sense4 ,she wrote and spoke with uncommon elegance and purity4 ,cicero and ,quinctilian bestow high praise upon her letters1 and the eloquence of her children was attributed to her careful superintendence4 ,this reminds me of a remark made by my brother1 ,thomas ,s4 ,grimke1 when speaking of the importance of women being well educated1 that #8educated men would never make educated women1 but educated women would make educated men4' ,i believe the sentiment is correct1 because if the wealth of latent intellect among women was fully evolved and improved1 they would rejoice to communicate to their sons all their own knowledge1 and inspire them with desires to drink from the fountain of literature4 ,i pass over many interesting proofs of the intellectual powers of women2 but ,i must not omit glancing at the age of chivalry1 which has been compared to a golden thread running through the dark ages4 ,during this remarkable era1 women who1 before this period1 had been subject to every species of oppression and neglect1 were suddenly elevated into deities1 and worshipped with a mad fanaticism4 ,it is not improbable1 however1 that even the absurdities of chivalry were beneficial to women1 as it raised them from that extreme degradation to which they had been condemned1 and prepared the way for them to be permitted to enjoy some scattered rays from the sun of science and literature4 ,as the age of knight-errantry declined1 men began to take pride in learning1 and women shared the advantages which this change produced4 #8,women preached in public1 supported controversies1 published and defended theses1 filled the chairs of philosophy and law1 harangued the popes in ,latin1 wrote ,greek and read ,hebrew4 ,nuns wrote poetry1 women of rank became divines1 and young girls publicly exhorted ,christian princes to take up arms for the recovery of the holy sepulchre4 ,hypatia1 daughter of ,theon of ,alexandria1 succeeded her father in the government of the ,platonic school1 and filled with reputation a seat1 where many celebrated philosophers had taught4 ,the people regarded her as an oracle1 and magistrates consulted her in all important cases4 ,no reproach was ever uttered against the perfect purity of her manners4 ,she was unembarrassed in large assemblies of men1 because their admiration was tempered with the most scrupulous respect4 ,in the #acth century1 a young lady of ,bologna pronounced a ,latin oration at the age of twenty-three4 ,at twenty-six1 she took the degree of doctor of laws1 and began publicly to expound ,justinian4 ,at thirty1 she was elevated to a professor's chair1 and taught the law to a crowd of scholars from all nations4 ,italy produced many learned and gifted women1 among whom1 perhaps none was more celebrated than ,victoria ,colonna1 ,marchioness of ,pescara4 ,in ,spain1 ,isabella of ,rosera converted ,jews by her eloquent preaching2' and in ,england the names of many women1 from ,lady ,jane ,gray down to ,harriet ,martineau1 are familiar to every reader of history4 ,of the last mentioned authoress1 ,lord ,brougham said that her writings on political economy were doing more good than those of any man in ,england4 ,there is a contemporary of ,harriet ,martineau1 who has recently rendered valuable services to her country4 ,she presented a memorial to ,parliament1 stating the dangerous parts of the coast1 where light-houses were needed1 and at her suggestion1 several were erected4 ,she keeps a life-boat and sailors in her pay1 and has been the means of saving many lives4 ,although she has been deprived of the use of her limbs since early childhood1 yet even when the storm is unusually severe1 she goes herself on the beach in her carriage1 that she may be sure her men perform their duty4 ,she understands several languages1 and is now engaged in writing a work on the ,northern languages of ,europe4 #8,in ,germany1 the influence of women on literature is considerable1 though less obvious than in some other countries4 ,literary families frequently meet at each others' houses1 and learned and intelligent women are often the brightest ornaments of these social circles4' ,france has produced many distinguished women1 whose names are familiar to every lover of literature4 ,and ,i believe it is conceded universally1 that ,madame de ,stael was intellectually the greatest woman that ever lived4 ,the ,united ,states have produced several female writers1 some of whom have talents of the highest order4 ,but women1 even in this free republic1 do not enjoy all the intellectual advantages of men1 although there is a perceptible improvement within the last ten or twenty years2 and ,i trust there is a desire awakened in my sisters for solid acquirements1 which will elevate them to their #8appropriate sphere1' and enable them to #8adorn the doctrine of ,god our ,saviour in all things4' ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,xi4 ,,dress ,,of ,,women4 ,brookline1 #ith ,mo41 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,when ,i view woman as an immortal being1 travelling through this world to that city whose builder and maker is ,god1--when ,i contemplate her in all the sublimity of her spiritual existence1 bearing the image and superscription of ,jehovah1 emanating from ,him and partaking of his nature1 and destined1 if she fulfils her duty1 to dwell with him through the endless ages of eternity1--,i mourn that she has lived so far below her privileges and her obligations1 as a rational and accountable creature2 and ,i ardently long to behold her occupying that sphere in which ,i believe her ,creator designed her to move4 ,woman1 in all ages and countries1 has been the scoff and the jest of her lordly master4 ,if she attempted1 like him1 to improve her mind1 she was ridiculed as pedantic1 and driven from the temple of science and literature by coarse attacks and vulgar sarcasms4 ,if she yielded to the pressure of circumstances1 and sought relief from the monotony of existence by resorting to the theatre and the ball-room1 by ornamenting her person with flowers and with jewels1 while her mind was empty and her heart desolate2 she was still the mark at which wit and satire and cruelty levelled their arrows4 #8,woman1' says ,adam ,clarke1 #8has been invidiously defined1 an animal of dress4 ,how long will they permit themselves to be thus degraded8' ,i have been an attentive observer of my sex1 and ,i am constrained to believe that the passion for dress1 which so generally characterizes them1 is one cause why there so is little of that solid improvement and weight of character which might be acquired under almost any circumstances1 if the mind were not occupied by the love of admiration1 and the desire to gratify personal vanity4 ,i have already adduced some instances to prove the inordinate love of dress1 which is exhibited by women in a state of heathenism2 ,i shall1 therefore1 confine myself now to what are called ,christian countries2 only remarking that previous to the introduction of ,christianity into the ,roman empire1 the extravagance of apparel had arisen to an unprecedented height4 #8,jewels1 expensive embroidery1 and delicious perfumes1 were used in great profusion by those who could afford them4' ,the holy religion of ,jesus ,christ came in at this period1 and stript luxury and wealth of all their false attractions4 #8,women of the noblest and wealthiest families1 surrounded by the seductive allurements of worldly pleasure1 renounced them all4 ,undismayed by severe edicts against the new religion1 they appeared before the magistrates1 and by pronouncing the simple words1 8,i am a ,christian10 calmly resigned themselves to imprisonment1 ignominy and death4' ,could such women have had their minds occupied by the foolish vanity of ornamental apparel8 ,no6 ,christianity struck at the root of all sin1 and consequently we find the early ,christians could not fight1 or swear1 or wear costly clothing4 ,cave1 in his work entitled #8,primitive ,christianity1' has some interesting remarks on this subject1 showing that simplicity of dress was not then esteemed an unimportant part of ,christianity4 ,very soon1 however1 when the fire of persecution was no longer blazing1 pagan customs became interwoven with ,christianity4 ,the professors of the religion of a self-denying ,lord1 whose kingdom was not of this world1 began to use the sword1 to return railing for railing1 to take oaths1 to mingle heathen forms and ceremonies with ,christian worship1 to engraft on the beautiful simplicity of piety1 the feasts and observances which were usual at heathen festivals in honor of the gods1 and to adorn their persons with rich and ornamental apparel4 ,and now if we look at ,christendom1 there is scarcely a vestige of that religion1 which the ,redeemer of men came to promulgate4 ,the ,christian world is much in the situation of the ,jewish nation1 when the babe of ,bethlehem was born1 full of outside observances1 which they substitute for mercy and love1 for self-denial and good works1 rigid in the performance of religious duties1 but ready1 if the ,lord ,jesus came amongst them and judged them by their fruits1 as he did the ,pharisees formerly1 to crucify him as a slanderer4 ,indeed1 ,i believe the remark of a late author is perfectly correct3 #8,strange as it may seem1 yet ,i do not hesitate to declare my belief that it is easier to make ,pagan nations ,christians1 than to reform ,christian communities and fashion them anew1 after the pure and simple standard of the gospel4 ,cast your eye over ,christian countries1 and see what a multitude of causes combine to resist and impair the influence of ,christian institutions4 ,behold the conformity of ,christians to the world1 in its prodigal pleasures and frivolous amusements1 in its corrupt opinions and sentiments1 of false honor4 ,behold the wide spread ignorance and degrading superstition2 the power of prejudice and the authority of custom2 the unchristian character of our systems of education2 and the dread of the frowns and ridicule of the world1 and we discover at once a host of more formidable enemies to the progress of true religion in ,christian1 than in heathen lands4' ,but ,i must proceed to examine what is the state of professing ,christendom1 as regards the subject of this letter4 ,a few words will suffice4 ,the habits and employments of fashionable circles are nearly the same throughout ,christian communities4 ,the fashion of dress1 which varies more rapidly than the changing seasons1 is still1 as it has been from time immemorial1 an all-absorbing object of interest4 ,the simple cobbler of ,agawam1 who wrote in ,massachusetts as early as #afdg1 speaking of women1 says1 8,it is no marvel they wear drailes on the hinder part of their heads1 having nothing1 as it seems1 in the fore part1 but a few squirrels' brains to help them frisk from one fashion to another4' ,it must1 however1 be conceded1 that although there are too many women who merit this severe reprehension1 there is a numerous class whose improvement of mind and devotion to the cause of humanity justly entitle them to our respect and admiration4 ,one of the most striking characteristics of modern times1 is the tendency toward a universal dissemination of knowledge in all ,protestant communities4 ,but the character of woman has been elevated more by participating in the great moral enterprises of the day1 than by anything else4 ,it would astonish us if we could see at a glance all the labor1 the patience1 the industry1 the fortitude which woman has exhibited1 in carrying on the causes of ,moral ,reform1 ,anti-,slavery1 c4 ,still1 even these noble and ennobling pursuits have not destroyed personal vanity4 ,many of those who are engaged in these great and glorious reformations1 watch with eager interest1 the ever varying freaks of the goddess of fashion1 and are not exceeded by the butterflies of the ball-room in their love of curls1 artificial flowers1 embroidery and gay apparel4 ,many a woman will ply her needle with ceaseless industry1 to obtain money to forward a favorite benevolent scheme1 while at the same time she will expend on useless articles of dress1 more than treble the sum which she procures by the employment of her needle1 and which she might throw into the ,lord's treasury1 and leave herself leisure to cultivate her mind1 and to mingle among the poor and the afflicted more than she can possibly do now4 ,i feel exceedingly solicitous to draw the attention of my sisters to this subject4 ,i know that it is called trifling1 and much is said about dressing fashionably1 and elegantly1 and becomingly1 without thinking about it4 ,this ,i do not believe can be done4 ,if we indulge our fancy in the chameleon caprices of fashion1 or in wearing ornamental and extravagant apparel1 the mind must be in no small degree engaged in the gratification of personal vanity4 ,lest any one may suppose from my being a ,quaker1 that ,i should like to see a uniform dress adopted1 ,i will say1 that ,i have no partiality for their peculiar costume1 except so far as ,i find it simple and convenient2 and ,i have not the remotest desire to see it worn1 where one more commodious can be substituted4 ,but ,i do believe one of the chief obstacles in the way of woman's elevation to the same platform of human rights1 and moral dignity1 and intellectual improvement1 with her brother1 on which ,god placed her1 and where he designed her to act her part as an immortal creature1 is her love of dress4 #8,it has been observed1' says ,scott1 #8that foppery and extravagance as to dress in men are most emphatically condemned by the apostle's silence on the subject1 for this intimated that surely they could be under no temptation to such a childish vanity4' ,but even those men who are superior to such a childish vanity in themselves1 are1 nevertheless1 ever ready to encourage it in women4 ,they know that so long as we submit to be dressed like dolls1 we never can rise to the stations of duty and usefulness from which they desire to exclude us2 and they are willing to grant us paltry indulgences1 which forward their own design of keeping us out of our appropriate sphere1 while they deprive us of essential rights4 ,to me it appears beneath the dignity of woman to bedeck herself in gewgaws and trinkets1 in ribbons and laces1 to gratify the eye of man4 ,i believe1 furthermore1 that we owe a solemn duty to the poor4 ,many a woman1 in what is called humble life1 spends nearly all her earnings in dress1 because she wants to be as well attired as her employer4 ,it is often argued that1 as the birds and the flowers are gaily adorned by nature's hand1 there can be no sin in woman's ornamenting her person4 ,my reply is1 ,god created me neither a bird nor a flower2 and ,i aspire to something more than a resemblance to them4 ,besides1 the gaudy colors in which birds and flowers are arrayed1 create in them no feelings of vanity2 but as human beings1 we are susceptible of these passions1 which are nurtured and strengthened by such adornments4 #8,well1' ,i am often asked1 #8where is the limitation8' ,this it is not my business to decide4 ,every woman1 as ,judson remarks1 can best settle this on her knees before ,god4 ,he has commanded her not to be conformed to this world1 but to be transformed by the renewing of her mind1 that she may know what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of ,god4 ,he made the dress of the ,jewish women the subject of special denunciation by his prophet--,is4 #c3 #af-bf2 yet the chains and the bracelets1 the rings and the ear-rings1 and the changeable suits of apparel1 are still worn by ,christian women4 ,he has commanded them1 through his apostles1 not to adorn themselves with broidered hair1 or gold1 or pearls1 or costly array4 ,not to let their adorning be the #8outward adorning of plaiting the hair1 or of wearing of gold1 or of putting on of apparel1 but let it be the hidden man of the heart1 in that which is not corruptible1 even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit1 which is in the sight of ,god of great price2' yet we disregard these solemn admonitions4 ,may we not form some correct estimate of dress1 by asking ourselves how we should feel1 if we saw ministers of the gospel rise to address an audience with ear-rings dangling from their ears1 glittering rings on their fingers1 and a wreath of artificial flowers on their brow1 and the rest of their apparel in keeping8 ,if it would be wrong for a minister1 it is wrong for every professing ,christian4 ,god makes no distinction between the moral and religious duties of ministers and people4 ,we are bound to be #8a chosen generation1 a royal priesthood1 a peculiar people1 a holy nation2 that we should show forth the praises of him who hath called us out of darkness into his marvellous light4' ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,xii4 ,,legal ,,disabilities ,,of ,,women4 ,concord1 #ith ,mo41 #fth1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,there are few things which present greater obstacles to the improvement and elevation of woman to her appropriate sphere of usefulness and duty1 than the laws which have been enacted to destroy her independence1 and crush her individuality2 laws which1 although they are framed for her government1 she has had no voice in establishing1 and which rob her of some of her essential rights4 ,woman has no political existence4 ,with the single exception of presenting a petition to the legislative body1 she is a cipher in the nation2 or1 if not actually so in representative governments1 she is only counted1 like the slaves of the ,south1 to swell the number of law-makers who form decrees for her government1 with little reference to her benefit1 except so far as her good may promote their own4 ,i am not sufficiently acquainted with the laws respecting women on the continent of ,europe1 to say anything about them4 ,but ,prof4 ,follen1 in his essay on #8,the ,cause of ,freedom in our ,country1' says1 #8,woman1 though fully possessed of that rational and moral nature which is the foundation of all rights1 enjoys amongst us fewer legal rights than under the civil law of continental ,europe4' ,i shall confine myself to the laws of our country4 ,these laws bear with peculiar rigor on married women4 ,blackstone1 in the chapter entitled #8,of husband and wife1' says3-- #8,by marriage1 the husband and wife are one person in law2 that is1 the very being1 or legal existence of the woman is suspended during the marriage1 or at least is incorporated and consolidated into that of the husband under whose wing1 protection and cover she performs everything4' #8,for this reason1 a man cannot grant anything to his wife1 or enter into covenant with her2 for the grant would be to suppose her separate existence1 and to covenant with her would be to covenant with himself2 and therefore it is also generally true1 that all compacts made between husband and wife when single1 are voided by the intermarriage4 ,a woman indeed may be attorney for her husband2 but that implies no separation from1 but is rather a representation of1 her love4' ,here now1 the very being of a woman1 like that of a slave1 is absorbed in her master4 ,all contracts made with her1 like those made with slaves by their owners1 are a mere nullity4 ,our kind defenders have legislated away almost all our legal rights1 and in the true spirit of such injustice and oppression1 have kept us in ignorance of those very laws by which we are governed4 ,they have persuaded us1 that we have no right to investigate the laws1 and that1 if we did1 we could not comprehend them2 they alone are capable of understanding the mysteries of ,blackstone1 c4 ,but they are not backward to make us feel the practical operation of their power over our actions4 #8,the husband is bound to provide his wife with necessaries by law1 as much as himself2 and if she contracts debts for them1 he is obliged to pay for them2 but for anything besides necessaries1 he is not chargeable4' ,yet a man may spend the property he has acquired by marriage at the ale-house1 the gambling table1 or in any other way that he pleases4 ,many instances of this kind have come to my knowledge2 and women1 who have brought their husbands handsome fortunes1 have been left1 in consequence of the wasteful and dissolute habits of their husbands1 in straitened circumstances1 and compelled to toil for the support of their families4 #8,if the wife be indebted before marriage1 the husband is bound afterwards to pay the debt2 for he has adopted her and her circumstances together4' ,the wife's property is1 ,i believe1 equally liable for her husband's debts contracted before marriage4 #8,if the wife be injured in her person or property1 she can bring no action for redress without her husband's concurrence1 and his name as well as her own3 neither can she be sued1 without making her husband a defendant4' ,this law that #8a wife can bring no action1' c41 is similar to the law respecting slaves1 #8,a slave cannot bring a suit against his master1 or any other person1 for an injury--his master1 must bring it4' ,so if any damages are recovered for an injury committed on a wife1 the husband pockets it2 in the case of the slave1 the master does the same4 #8,in criminal prosecutions1 the wife may be indicted and punished separately1 unless there be evidence of coercion from the fact that the offence was committed in the presence1 or by the command of her husband4 ,a wife is excused from punishment for theft committed in the presence1 or by the command of her husband4' ,it would be difficult to frame a law better calculated to destroy the responsibility of woman as a moral being1 or a free agent4 ,her husband is supposed to possess unlimited control over her2 and if she can offer the flimsy excuse that he bade her steal1 she may break the eighth commandment with impunity1 as far as human laws are concerned4 #8,our law1 in general1 considers man and wife as one person2 yet there are some instances in which she is separately considered1 as inferior to him and acting by his compulsion4 ,therefore1 all deeds executed1 and acts done by her during her coverture 7i4 e4 marriage17 are void1 except it be a fine1 or like matter of record1 in which case she must be solely and secretly examined1 to learn if her act be voluntary4' ,such a law speaks volumes of the abuse of that power which men have vested in their own hands4 ,still the private examination of a wife1 to know whether she accedes to the disposition of property made by her husband is1 in most cases1 a mere form2 a wife dares not do what will be disagreeable to one who is1 in his own estimation1 her superior1 and who makes her feel1 in the privacy of domestic life1 that she has thwarted him4 ,with respect to the nullity of deeds or acts done by a wife1 ,i will mention one circumstance4 ,a respectable woman borrowed of a female friend a sum of money to relieve her son from some distressing pecuniary embarrassment4 ,her husband was from home1 and she assured the lender1 that as soon as he returned1 he would gratefully discharge the debt4 ,she gave her note1 and the lender1 entirely ignorant of the law that a man is not obliged to discharge such a debt1 actually borrowed the money1 and lent it to the distressed and weeping mother4 ,the father returned home1 refused to pay the debt1 and the person who had loaned the money was obliged to pay both principal and interest to the friend who lent it to her4 ,women should certainly know the laws by which they are governed1 and from which they frequently suffer2 yet they are kept in ignorance1 nearly as profound1 of their legal rights1 and of the legislative enactments which are to regulate their actions1 as slaves4 #8,the husband1 by the old law1 might give his wife moderate correction1 as he is to answer for her misbehavior4 ,the law thought it reasonable to entrust him with this power of restraining her by domestic chastisement4 ,the courts of law will still permit a husband to restrain a wife of her liberty1 in case of any gross misbehavior4' ,what a mortifying proof this law affords1 of the estimation in which woman is held6 ,she is placed completely in the hands of a being subject like herself to the outbursts of passion1 and therefore unworthy to be trusted with power4 ,perhaps ,i may be told respecting this law1 that it is a dead letter1 as ,i am sometimes told about the slave laws2 but this is not true in either case4 ,the slaveholder does kill his slave by moderate correction1 as the law allows2 and many a husband1 among the poor1 exercises the right given him by the law1 of degrading woman by personal chastisement4 ,and among the higher ranks1 if actual imprisonment is not resorted to1 women are not unfrequently restrained of the liberty of going to places of worship by irreligious husbands1 and of doing many other things about which1 as moral and responsible beings1 they should be the sole judges4 ,such laws remind me of the reply of some little girls at a children's meeting held recently at ,ipswich4 ,the lecturer told them that ,god had created four orders of beings with which he had made us acquainted through the ,bible4 ,the first was angels1 the second was man1 the third beasts2 and now1 children1 what is the fourth8 ,after a pause1 several girls replied1 #8,,women4' #8,a woman's personal property by marriage becomes absolutely her husband's1 which1 at his death1 he may leave entirely away from her4' ,and farther1 all the avails of her labor are absolutely in the power of her husband4 ,all that she acquires by her industry is his2 so that she cannot1 with her own honest earnings1 become the legal purchaser of any property4 ,if she expends her money for articles of furniture1 to contribute to the comfort of her family1 they are liable to be seized for her husband's debts3 and ,i know an instance of a woman1 who by labor and economy had scraped together a little maintenance for herself and a do-little husband1 who was left1 at his death1 by virtue of his last will and testament1 to be supported by charity4 ,i knew another woman1 who by great industry had acquired a little money which she deposited in a bank for safe keeping4 ,she had saved this pittance whilst able to work1 in hopes that when age or sickness disqualified her for exertion1 she might have something to render life comfortable1 without being a burden to her friends4 ,her husband1 a worthless1 idle man1 discovered this hid treasure1 drew her little stock from the bank1 and expended it all in extravagance and vicious indulgence4 ,i know of another woman1 who married without the least idea that she was surrendering her rights to all her personal property4 ,accordingly1 she went to the bank as usual to draw her dividends1 and the person who paid her the money1 and to whom she was personally known as an owner of shares in that bank1 remarking the change in her signature1 withdrew the money1 informing her that if she were married1 she had no longer a right to draw her dividends without an order from her husband4 ,it appeared that she intended having a little fund for private use1 and had not even told her husband that she owned this stock1 and she was not a little chagrined1 when she found that it was not at her disposal4 ,i think she was wrong to conceal the circumstance4 ,the relation of husband and wife is too near and sacred to admit of secrecy about money matters1 unless positive necessity demands it2 and ,i can see no excuse for any woman entering into a marriage engagement with a design to keep her husband ignorant that she was possessed of property4 ,if she was unwilling to give up her property to his disposal1 she had infinitely better have remained single4 ,the laws above cited are not very unlike the slave laws of ,louisiana4 #8,all that a slave possesses belongs to his master2 he possesses nothing of his own1 except what his master chooses he should possess4' #8,by the marriage1 the husband is absolutely master of the profits of the wife's lands during the coverture1 and if he has had a living child1 and survives the wife1 he retains the whole of those lands1 if they are estates of inheritance1 during his life2 but the wife is entitled only to one third if she survives1 out of the husband's estates of inheritance4 ,but this she has1 whether she has had a child or not4' #8,with regard to the property of women1 there is taxation without representation2 for they pay taxes without having the liberty of voting for representatives4' ,and this taxation1 without representation1 be it remembered1 was the cause of our ,revolutionary war1 a grievance so heavy1 that it was thought necessary to purchase exemption from it at an immense expense of blood and treasure1 yet the daughters of ,new ,england1 as well as of all the other ,states of this free ,republic1 are suffering a similar injustice--but for one1 ,i had rather we should suffer any injustice or oppression1 than that my sex should have any voice in the political affairs of the nation4 ,the laws ,i have quoted1 are1 ,i believe1 the laws of ,massachusetts1 and1 with few exceptions1 of all the ,states in this ,union4 #8,in ,louisiana and ,missouri1 and possibly1 in some other southern ,states1 a woman not only has half her husband's property by right at his death1 but may always be considered as possessed of half his gains during his life2 having at all times power to bequeath that amount4' ,that the laws which have generally been adopted in the ,united ,states1 for the government of women1 have been framed almost entirely for the exclusive benefit of men1 and with a design to oppress women1 by depriving them of all control over their property1 is too manifest to be denied4 ,some liberal and enlightened men1 ,i know1 regret the existence of these laws2 and ,i quote with pleasure an extract from ,harriet ,martineau's ,society in ,america1 as a proof of the assertion4 #8,a liberal minded lawyer of ,boston1 told me that his advice to testators always is to leave the largest possible amount to the widow1 subject to the condition of her leaving it to the children2 but that it is with shame that he reflects that any woman should owe that to his professional advice1 which the law should have secured to her as a right4' ,i have known a few instances where men have left their whole property to their wives1 when they have died1 leaving only minor children2 but ,i have known more instances of #8the friend and helper of many years1 being portioned off like a salaried domestic1' instead of having a comfortable independence secured to her1 while the children were amply provided for4 ,as these abuses do exist1 and women suffer intensely from them1 our brethren are called upon in this enlightened age1 by every sentiment of honor1 religion and justice1 to repeal these unjust and unequal laws1 and restore to woman those rights which they have wrested from her4 ,such laws approximate too nearly to the laws enacted by slaveholders for the government of their slaves1 and must tend to debase and depress the mind of that being1 whom ,god created as a help meet for man1 or #8helper like unto himself1' and designed to be his equal and his companion4 ,until such laws are annulled1 woman never can occupy that exalted station for which she was intended by her ,maker4 ,and just in proportion as they are practically disregarded1 which is the case to some extent1 just so far is woman assuming that independence and nobility of character which she ought to exhibit4 ,the various laws which ,i have transcribed1 leave women very little more liberty1 or power1 in some respects1 than the slave4 #8,a slave1' says the civil code of ,louisiana1 #8is one who is in the power of a master1 to whom he belongs4 ,he can possess nothing1 nor acquire anything1 but what must belong to his master4' ,i do not wish by any means to intimate that the condition of free women can be compared to that of slaves in suffering1 or in degradation2 still1 ,i believe the laws which deprive married women of their rights and privileges1 have a tendency to lessen them in their own estimation as moral and responsible beings1 and that their being made by civil law inferior to their husbands1 has a debasing and mischievous effect upon them1 teaching them practically the fatal lesson to look unto man for protection and indulgence4 ,ecclesiastical bodies1 ,i believe1 without exception1 follow the example of legislative assemblies1 in excluding woman from any participation in forming the discipline by which she is governed4 ,the men frame the laws1 and1 with few exceptions1 claim to execute them on both sexes4 ,in ecclesiastical1 as well as civil courts1 woman is tried and condemned1 not by a jury of her peers1 but by beings1 who regard themselves as her superiors in the scale of creation4 ,although looked upon as an inferior1 when considered as an intellectual being1 woman is punished with the same severity as man1 when she is guilty of moral offences4 ,her condition resembles1 in some measure1 that of the slave1 who1 while he is denied the advantages of his more enlightened master1 is treated with even greater rigor of the law4 ,hoping that in the various reformations of the day1 women may be relieved from some of their legal disabilities1 ,i remain1 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,xiii4 ,,relation ,,of ,,husband ,,and ,,wife4 ,brookline1 #ith ,mo41 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,perhaps some persons may wonder that ,i should attempt to throw out my views on the important subject of marriage1 and may conclude that ,i am altogether disqualified for the task1 because ,i lack experience4 ,however1 ,i shall not undertake to settle the specific duties of husbands and wives1 but only to exhibit opinions based on the word of ,god1 and formed from a little knowledge of human nature1 and close observation of the working of generally received notions respecting the dominion of man over woman4 ,when ,jehovah ushered into existence man1 created in his own image1 he instituted marriage as a part of paradisaical happiness3 it was a divine ordination1 not a civil contract4 ,god established it1 and man1 except by special permission1 has no right to annul it4 ,there can be no doubt that the creation of ,eve perfected the happiness of ,adam2 hence1 our all-wise and merciful ,father made her as he made ,adam1 in his own image after his likeness1 crowned her with glory and honor1 and placed in her hand1 as well as in his1 the sceptre of dominion over the whole lower creation4 ,where there was perfect equality1 and the same ability to receive and comprehend divine truth1 and to obey divine injunctions1 there could be no superiority4 ,if ,god had placed ,eve under the guardianship of ,adam1 after having endowed her1 as richly as him1 with moral perceptions1 intellectual faculties1 and spiritual apprehensions1 he would at once have interposed a fallible being between her and her ,maker4 ,he could not1 in simple consistency with himself1 have done this2 for the ,bible teems with instructions not to put any confidence in man4 ,the passage on which the generally received opinion1 that husbands are invested by divine command with authority over their wives1 as ,i have remarked in a previous letter1 is a prediction2 and ,i am confirmed in this belief1 because the same language is used to ,cain respecting ,abel4 ,the text is obscure2 but on a comparison of it with subsequent events1 it appears to me that it was a prophecy of the dominion which ,cain would usurp over his brother1 and which issued in the murder of ,abel4 ,it could not allude to any thing but physical dominion1 because ,cain had already exhibited those evil passions which subsequently led him to become an assassin4 ,i have already shown1 that man has exercised the most unlimited and brutal power over woman1 in the peculiar character of husband1--a word in most countries synonymous with tyrant4 ,i shall not1 therefore1 adduce any further proofs of the fulfilment of that prophecy1 #8,he will rule over thee1' from the history of heathen nations1 but just glance at the condition of woman in the relation of wife in ,christian countries4 #8,previous to the introduction of the religion of ,jesus ,christ1 the state of society was wretchedly diseased4 ,the relation of the sexes to each other had become so gross in its manifested forms1 that it was difficult to perceive the pure conservative principle in its inward essence4' ,christianity came in1 at this juncture1 with its hallowed influence1 and has without doubt tended to lighten the yoke of bondage1 to purify the manners1 and give the spiritual in some degree an empire over the animal nature4 ,still1 that state which was designed by ,god to increase the happiness of woman as well as man1 often proves the means of lessening her comfort1 and degrading her into the mere machine of another's convenience and pleasure4 ,woman1 instead of being elevated by her union with man1 which might be expected from an alliance with a superior being1 is in reality lowered4 ,she generally loses her individuality1 her independent character1 her moral being4 ,she becomes absorbed into him1 and henceforth is looked at1 and acts through the medium of her husband4 ,in the wealthy classes of society1 and those who are in comfortable circumstances1 women are exempt from great corporeal exertion1 and are protected by public opinion1 and by the genial influence of ,christianity1 from much physical ill treatment4 ,still1 there is a vast amount of secret suffering endured1 from the forced submission of women to the opinions and whims of their husbands4 ,hence they are frequently driven to use deception1 to compass their ends4 ,they are early taught that to appear to yield1 is the only way to govern4 ,miserable sophism6 ,i deprecate such sentiments1 as being peculiarly hostile to the dignity of woman4 ,if she submits1 let her do it openly1 honorably1 not to gain her point1 but as a matter of ,christian duty4 ,but let her beware how she permits her husband to be her conscience-keeper4 ,on all moral and religious subjects1 she is bound to think and to act for herself4 ,where confidence and love exist1 a wife will naturally converse with her husband as with her dearest friend1 on all that interests her heart1 and there will be a perfectly free interchange of sentiment2 but she is no more bound to be governed by his judgment1 than he is by hers4 ,they are standing on the same platform of human rights1 are equally under the government of ,god1 and accountable to him1 and him alone4 ,i have sometimes been astonished and grieved at the servitude of women1 and at the little idea many of them seem to have of their own moral existence and responsibilities4 ,a woman who is asked to sign a petition for the abolition of slavery in the ,district of ,columbia1 or to join a society for the purpose of carrying forward the annihilation of ,american slavery1 or any other great reformation1 not unfrequently replies1 #8,my husband does not approve of it4' ,she merges her rights and her duties in her husband1 and thus virtually chooses him for a savior and a king1 and rejects ,christ as her ,ruler and ,redeemer4 ,i know some women are very glad of so convenient a pretext to shield themselves from the performance of duty2 but there are others1 who1 under a mistaken view of their obligations as wives1 submit conscientiously to this species of oppression1 and go mourning on their way1 for want of that holy fortitude1 which would enable them to fulfil their duties as moral and responsible beings1 without reference to poor fallen man4 ,o that woman may arise in her dignity as an immortal creature1 and speak1 think and act as unto ,god1 and not unto man6 ,there is1 perhaps1 less bondage of mind among the poorer classes1 because their sphere of duty is more contracted1 and they are deprived of the means of intellectual culture1 and of the opportunity of exercising their judgment1 on many moral subjects of deep interest and of vital importance4 ,authority is called into exercise by resistance1 and hence there will be mental bondage only in proportion as the faculties of mind are evolved1 and woman feels herself as a rational and intelligent being1 on a footing with man4 ,but women1 among the lowest classes of society1 so far as my observation has extended1 suffer intensely from the brutality of their husbands4 ,duty as well as inclination has led me1 for many years1 into the abodes of poverty and sorrow1 and ,i have been amazed at the treatment which women receive at the hands of those1 who arrogate to themselves the epithet of protectors4 ,brute force1 the law of violence1 rules to a great extent in the poor man's domicil2 and woman is little more than his drudge4 ,they are less under the supervision of public opinion1 less under the restraints of education1 and unaided or unbiased by the refinements of polished society4 ,religion1 wherever it exists1 supplies the place of all these2 but the real cause of woman's degradation and suffering in married life is to be found in the erroneous notion of her inferiority to man2 and never will she be rightly regarded by herself1 or others1 until this opinion1 so derogatory to the wisdom and mercy of ,god1 is exploded1 and woman arises in all the majesty of her womanhood1 to claim those rights which are inseparable from her existence as an immortal1 intelligent and responsible being4 ,independent of the fact1 that ,jehovah could not1 consistently with his character as the ,king1 the ,lawgiver1 and the ,judge of his people1 give the reins of government over woman into the hands of man1 ,i find that all his commands1 all his moral laws1 are addressed to women as well as to men4 ,when he assembled ,israel at the foot of ,mount ,sinai1 to issue his commandments1 we may reasonably suppose he gave all the precepts1 which he considered necessary for the government of moral beings4 ,hence we find that ,god says1--#8,honor thy father and thy mother1' and he enforces this command1 by severe penalties upon those who transgress it3 #8,he that smiteth his father1 or his mother1 shall surely be put to death'--#8,he that curseth his father1 or his mother1 shall surely be put to death'--,ex4 #ba3 #ae1 #ag4 ,but in the decalogue1 there is no direction given to women to obey their husbands3 both are commanded to have no other ,god but ,jehovah1 and not to bow down1 or serve any other4 ,when the ,lord ,jesus delivered his sermon on the ,mount1 full of the practical precepts of religion1 he did not issue any command to wives to obey their husbands4 ,when he is speaking on the subject of divorce1 ,mark #af3 #aa1 #ab1 he places men and women on the same ground4 ,and the ,apostle1 #ast ,cor4 #g3 #ab1 #ac1 speaking of the duties of the ,corinthian wives and husbands1 who had embraced ,christianity1 to their unconverted partners1 points out the same path to both1 although our translators have made a distinction4 #8,let him not put her away1' #ab--#8,let her not leave him1' #ac--;is precisely the same in the original4 ,if man is constituted the governor of woman1 he must be her ,god2 and the sentiment expressed to me lately1 by a married man1 is perfectly correct3 #8,in my opinion1' said he1 #8the greatest excellence to which a married woman can attain1 is to worship her husband4' ,he was a professor of religion--his wife a lovely and intelligent woman4 ,he only spoke out what thousands think and act4 ,women are indebted to ,milton for giving to this false notion1 #8confirmation strong as proof of holy writ4' ,his ,eve is embellished with every personal grace1 to gratify the eye of her admiring husband2 but he seems to have furnished the mother of mankind with just intelligence enough to comprehend her supposed inferiority to ,adam1 and to yield unresisting submission to her lord and master4 ,milton puts into ,eve's mouth the following address to ,adam3 #8,my author and disposer1 what thou bidst1 ,unargued ,i obey2 so ,god ordains-- ,god is thy law1 thou mine3 to know no more1 ,is woman's happiest knowledge and her praise4' ,this much admired sentimental nonsense is fraught with absurdity and wickedness4 ,if it were true1 the commandment of ,jehovah should have run thus3 ,man shall have no other gods before ,,me1 and woman shall have no other gods before ,,man4 ,the principal support of the dogma of woman's inferiority1 and consequent submission to her husband1 is found in some passages of ,paul's epistles4 ,i shall proceed to examine those passages1 premising #ast1 that the antiquity of the opinions based on the false construction of those passages1 has no weight with me3 they are the opinions of interested judges1 and ,i have no particular reverence for them1 merely because they have been regarded with veneration from generation to generation4 ,so far from this being the case1 ,i examine any opinions of centuries standing1 with as much freedom1 and investigate them with as much care1 as if they were of yesterday4 ,i was educated to think for myself1 and it is a privilege ,i shall always claim to exercise4 #b;d4 ,notwithstanding my full belief that the apostle ,paul's testimony1 respecting himself1 is true1 #8,i was not a whit behind the chiefest of the apostles1' yet ,i believe his mind was under the influence of ,jewish prejudices respecting women1 just as ,peter's and the apostles were about the uncleanness of the ,gentiles4 #8,the ,jews1' says ,clarke1 #8would not suffer a woman to read in the synagogue1 although a servant1 or even a child1 had this permission4' ,when ,i see ,paul shaving his head for a vow1 and offering sacrifices1 and circumcising ,timothy1 to accommodate himself to the prepossessions of his countrymen1 ,i do not conceive that ,i derogate in the least from his character as an inspired apostle1 to suppose that he may have been imbued with the prevalent prejudices against women4 ,in #ast ,cor4 #aa3 #c1 after praising the ,corinthian converts1 because they kept the #8ordinances1' or #8traditions1' as the margin reads1 the apostle says1 #8,i would have you know1 that the head of every man is ,christ1 and the head of the woman is the man2 and the head of ,christ is ,god4' ,eph4 #e3 #bc1 is a parallel passage4 #8,for the husband is the head of the wife1 even as ,christ is the head of the ,church4' ,the apostle closes his remarks on this subject1 by observing1 #8,this is a great mystery1 but ,i speak concerning ,christ and the ,church4' ,i shall pass over this with simply remarking1 that ,god and ,christ are one4 #8,i and my ,father are one1' and there can be no inferiority where there is no divisibility4 ,the commentaries on this and similar texts1 afford a striking illustration of the ideas which men entertain of their own superiority1 ,i shall subjoin ,henry's remarks on #ast ,cor4 #aa3 #e1 as a specimen3 #8,to understand this text1 it must be observed1 that it was a signification either of shame1 or subjection1 for persons to be veiled1 or covered in ,eastern countries2 contrary to the custom of ours1 where the being bare-headed betokens subjection1 and being covered superiority and dominion2 and this will help us the better to understand the reason on which he grounds his reprehension1 #8,every man praying1 c4 dishonoreth his head1' i4 e4 ,christ1 the head of every man1 by appearing in a habit unsuitable to the rank in which ,god had placed him4 ,the woman1 on the other hand1 that prays1 c4 dishonoreth her head1 i4 e4 the man4 ,she appears in the dress of her superior1 and throws off the token of her subjection2 she might with equal decency cut her hair short1 or cut it off1 the common dress of the man in that age4 ,another reason against this conduct was1 that the man is the image and glory of ,god1 the representative of that glorious dominion and headship which ,god has over the world4 ,it is the man who is set at the head of this lower creation1 and therein bears the resemblance of ,god4 ,the woman1 on the other hand1 is the glory of the man3 she is his representative4 ,not but she has dominion over the inferior creatures1 and she is a partaker of human nature1 and so far is ,god's representative too1 but it is at second hand4 ,she is the image of ,god1 inasmuch as she is the image of the man4 ,the man was first made1 and made head of the creation here below1 and therein the image of the divine dominion2 and the woman was made out of the man1 and shone with a reflection of his glory1 being made superior to the other creatures here below1 but in subjection to her husband1 and deriving that honor from him1 out of whom she was made4 ,the woman was made for the man to be his help meet1 and not the man for the woman4 ,she was1 naturally1 therefore1 made subject to him1 because made for him1 for ,,his ,,use ,,and ,,help ,,and ,,comfort4' ,we see in the above quotation1 what degrading views even good men entertain of women4 ,pity the ,psalmist had not thrown a little light on this subject1 when he was paraphrasing the account of man's creation4 #8,thou hast made him a little lower than the angels1 and hast crowned him with glory and honor4 ,thou madest him to have dominion over the works of thy hands2 thou hast put all things under his feet4' ,surely if woman had been placed below man1 and was to shine only by a lustre borrowed from him1 we should have some clear evidence of it in the sacred volume4 ,henry puts her exactly on a level with the beasts2 they were made for the use1 help and comfort of man2 and according to this commentator1 this was the whole end and design of the creation of woman4 ,the idea that man1 as man is superior to woman1 involves an absurdity so gross1 that ,i really wonder how any man of reflection can receive it as of divine origin2 and ,i can only account for it1 by that passion for supremacy1 which characterizes man as a corrupt and fallen creature4 ,if it be true that he is more excellent than she1 as man1 independent of his moral and intellectual powers1 then every man is superior by virtue of his manship1 to every woman4 ,the man who sinks his moral capacities and spiritual powers in his sensual appetites1 is still1 as a man1 simply by the conformation of his body1 a more dignified being1 than the woman whose intellectual powers are highly cultivated1 and whose approximation to the character of ,jesus ,christ is exhibited in a blameless life and conversation4 ,but it is strenuously urged by those1 who are anxious to maintain their usurped authority1 that wives are1 in various passages of the ,new ,testament1 commanded to obey their husbands4 ,let us examine these texts4 ,eph4 #e3 #bb4 #8,wives1 submit yourselves unto your own husbands as unto the ,lord4' #8,as the church is subject unto ,christ1 so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing4' ,col4 #c3 #ah4 ,wives1 submit yourselves unto your own husbands1 as it is fit in the ,lord4' #ast ,pet4 #c3 #b4 #8,likewise ye wives1 be in subjection to your own husbands2 that if any obey not the word1 they may also without the word be won by the conversation of the wives4' ,accompanying all these directions to wives1 are commands to husbands4 ,eph4 #e3 #be4 #8,husbands1 love your wives even as ,christ loved the ,church1 and gave himself for it4' #8,so ought men to love their wives as their own bodies4 ,he that loveth his wife1 loveth himself4' ,col4 #c3 #ai4 #8,husbands1 love your wives1 and be not bitter against them4' #ast ,pet4 #c3 #g4 #8,likewise ye husbands1 dwell with them according to knowledge1 giving honor unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel1 and as being heirs together of the grace of life4' ,i may just remark1 in relation to the expression #8weaker vessel1' that the word in the original has no reference to intellect3 it refers to physical weakness merely4 ,the apostles were writing to ,christian converts1 and laying down rules for their conduct towards their unconverted consorts4 ,it no doubt frequently happened1 that a husband or a wife would embrace ,christianity1 while their companions clung to heathenism1 and husbands might be tempted to dislike and despise those1 who pertinaciously adhered to their pagan superstitions4 ,and wives who1 when they were pagans1 submitted as a matter of course to their heathen husbands1 might be tempted knowing that they were superior as moral and religious characters1 to assert that superiority1 by paying less deference to them than heretofore4 ,let us examine the context of these passages1 and see what are the grounds of the directions here given to husbands and wives4 ,the whole epistle to the ,ephesians breathes a spirit of love4 ,the apostle beseeches the converts to walk worthy of the vocation wherewith they are called1 with all lowliness and meekness1 with long suffering1 forbearing one another in love4 ,the verse preceding #e1 #bb1 is #8,,submitting ,,yourselves ,,one ,,to ,,another ,,in ,,the ,,fear ,,of ,,god4' ,colossians #c1 from #aa to #ag1 contains similar injunctions4 ,the #agth verse says1 #8,whatsoever ye do in word1 or in deed1 do all in the name of the ,lord ,jesus4' ,peter1 after drawing a most touching picture of ,christ's sufferings for us1 and reminding the ,christians1 that he had left us an example that we should follow his steps1 #8who did no sin1 neither was guile found in his mouth1' exhorts wives to be in subjection1 c4 ,from an attentive consideration of these passages1 and of those in which the same words #8submit1' #8subjection1' are used1 ,i cannot but believe that the apostles designed to recommend to wives1 as they did to subjects and to servants1 to carry out the holy principle laid down by ,jesus ,christ1 #8,resist not evil4' ,and this without in the least acknowledging the right of the governors1 masters1 or husbands1 to exercise the authority they claimed4 ,the recognition of the existence of evils does not involve approbation of them4 ,god tells the ,israelites1 he gave them a king in his wrath1 but nevertheless as they chose to have a king1 he laid down directions for the conduct of that king1 and had him anointed to reign over them4 ,according to the generally received meaning of the passages ,i have quoted1 they directly contravene the laws of ,god1 as given in various parts of the ,bible4 ,now ,i must understand the sacred ,scriptures as harmonizing with themselves1 or ,i cannot receive them as the word of ,god4 ,the commentators on these passages exalt man to the station of a ,deity in relation to woman4 ,clarke says1 #8,as the ,lord ,christ is the head1 or governor of the church1 and the head of the man1 so is the man the head1 or governor of the woman4 ,this is ,god's ordinance1 and should not be transgressed4 #8,as unto the ,lord4' ,the word church seems necessarily to be understood here3 that is1 act under the authority of your husbands1 as the church acts under the authority of ,christ4 ,as the church submits to the ,lord1 so let wives submit to their husbands4' ,henry goes even further--#8,for the husband is the head of the wife4 ,the metaphor is taken from the head in the natural body1 which being the seat of reason1 of wisdom and of knowledge1 and the fountain of sense and motion1 is more excellent than the rest of the body4' ,now if ,god ordained man the governor of woman1 he must be able to save her1 and to answer in her stead for all those sins which she commits by his direction4 ,awful responsibility4 ,do husbands feel able and willing to bear it8 ,and what becomes of the solemn affirmation of ,jehovah8 #8,hear this1 all ye people1 give ear all ye inhabitants of the world1 both low and high1 rich and poor4' #8,none can by any means redeem his brother1 or give to ,god a ransom for him1 for the redemption of the soul is precious1 and man cannot accomplish it4'--,french ,bible4 ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,letter ,,xiv4 ,,ministry ,,of ,,women4 ,brookline1 #ith ,mo4 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,according to the principle which ,i have laid down1 that man and woman were created equal1 and endowed by their beneficent ,creator with the same intellectual powers and the same moral responsibilities1 and that consequently whatever is morally right for a man to do1 is morally right for a woman to do1 it follows as a necessary corollary1 that if it is the duty of man to preach the unsearchable riches of ,christ1 it is the duty also of woman4 ,i am aware1 that ,i have the prejudices of education and custom to combat1 both in my own and the other sex1 as well as #8the traditions of men1' which are taught for the commandments of ,god4 ,i feel that ,i have no sectarian views to advance2 for although among the ,quakers1 ,methodists1 and ,christians1 women are permitted to preach the glad tidings of peace and salvation1 yet ,i know of no religious body1 who entertain the ,scripture doctrine of the perfect equality of man and woman1 which is the fundamental principle of my argument in favor of the ministry of women4 ,i wish simply to throw my views before thee4 ,if they are based on the immutable foundation of truth1 they cannot be overthrown by unkind insinuations1 bitter sarcasms1 unchristian imputations1 or contemptuous ridicule4 ,these are weapons which are unworthy of a good cause4 ,if ,i am mistaken1 as truth only can prevail1 my supposed errors will soon vanish before her beams2 but ,i am persuaded that woman is not filling the high and holy station which ,god allotted to her1 and that in consequence of her having been driven from her #8appropriate sphere1' both herself and her brethren have suffered an infinity of evils4 ,before ,i proceed to prove1 that woman is bound to preach the gospel1 ,i will examine the ministry under the ,old ,testament dispensation4 ,those who were called to this office were known under various names4 ,enoch1 who prophesied1 is designated as walking with ,god4 ,noah is called a preacher of righteousness4 ,they were denominated men of ,god1 seers1 prophets1 but they all had the same great work to perform1 viz4 to turn sinners from the error of their ways4 ,this ministry existed previous to the institution of the ,jewish priesthood1 and continued after its abolition4 ,it has nothing to do with the priesthood4 ,it was rarely1 as far as the ,bible informs us1 exercised by those of the tribe of ,levi1 and was common to all the people1 women as well as men4 ,it differed essentially from the priesthood1 because there was no compensation received for calling the people to repentance4 ,such a thing as paying a prophet for preaching the truth of ,god is not even mentioned4 ,they were called of ,jehovah to go forth in his name1 one from his plough1 another from gathering of sycamore fruit1 c4 c4 ,let us for a moment imagine ,jeremiah1 when ,god says to him1 #8,gird up thy loins1 and arise and speak unto the people all that ,i command thee1' replying to ,jehovah1 #8,i will preach repentance to the people1 if they will give me gold1 but if they will not pay me for the truth1 then let them perish in their sins4' ,now1 this is virtually the language of the ministers of the present day2 and ,i believe the secret of the exclusion of women from the ministerial office is1 that that office has been converted into one of emolument1 of honor1 and of power4 ,any attentive observer cannot fail to perceive1 that as far as possible1 all such offices are reserved by men for themselves4 ,the common error that ,christian ministers are the successors of the priests1 is founded in mistake4 ,in the particular directions given to ,moses to consecrate ,aaron and his sons to the office of the priesthood1 their duties are clearly defined3 see ,ex4 #bhth1 #bith and #cjth chap4 ,there is no commission to ,aaron to preach to the people2 his business was to offer sacrifice4 ,now why were sacrifices instituted8 ,they were types of that one great sacrifice1 which in the fulness of time was offered up through the eternal ,spirit without spot to ,god4 ,christ assumed the office of priest2 he #8offered himself1' and by so doing1 abolished forever the order of the priesthood1 as well as the sacrifices which the priests were ordained to offer4#c ,but it may be inquired1 whether the priests were not to teach the people4 ,as far as ,i can discover from the ,bible1 they were simply commanded to read the law to the people4 ,there was no other copy that we know of1 until the time of the kings1 who were to write out a copy for their own use4 ,as it was deposited in the ark1 the priests were required1 #8,when all ,israel is come to appear before the ,lord thy ,god in the place which he shall choose1 thou shalt read this law before all ,israel in their hearing4 ,gather the people together1 men1 women1 and children1 that they may hear1' ,deut4 #ca3 #i-cc4 ,see also ,lev4 #aj3 #aa1 ,deut4 #cc3 #aj1 #b;d ,chr4 #ag3 #g-i1 and numerous other passages4 ,when ,god is enumerating the means he has used to call his people to repentance1 he never1 as far as ,i can discover1 speaks of sending his priests to warn them2 but in various passages we find language similar to this3 #8,since the day that your fathers came forth out of the land of ,egypt unto this day1 ,i have even sent unto you all my servants1 the ,,prophets1 daily rising up early and sending them4 ,yet they hearkened not unto me1 nor inclined their ear1 but hardened their neck2 they did worse than their fathers4' ,jer4 #g3 #be1 #bf4 ,see also1 #be3 #d4 #b ,chr4 #cf3 #ae4 and parallel passages4 ,god says1 ,is4 #i3 #ae1 #af4 #8,the prophet that teacheth lies1 he is the tail2 for the leaders of this people cause them to err4' ,the distinction between priests and prophets is evident from their being mentioned as two classes4 #8,the prophets prophesy falsely1 and the priests bear rule by their means1' ,jer4 #e3 #ca4 ,see also1 ,ch4 #b3 #h4 #h3a-aj4 and many others4 ,that women were called to the prophetic office1 ,i believe is universally admitted4 ,miriam1 ,deborah and ,huldah were prophetesses4 ,the judgments of the ,lord are denounced by ,ezekiel on false prophetesses1 as well as false prophets4 ,and if ,christian ministers are1 as ,i apprehend1 successors of the prophets1 and not of the priests1 then of course1 women are now called to that office as well as men1 because ,god has no where withdrawn from them the privilege of doing what is the great business of preachers1 viz4 to point the penitent sinner to the ,redeemer4 #8,behold the ,lamb of ,god1 which taketh away the sins of the world4' ,it is often triumphantly inquired1 why1 if men and women are on an equality1 are not women as conspicuous in the ,bible as men8 ,i do not intend to assign a reason1 but ,i think one may readily be found in the fact1 that from the days of ,eve to the present time1 the aim of man has been to crush her4 ,he has accomplished this work in various ways2 sometimes by brute force1 sometimes by making her subservient to his worst passions1 sometimes by treating her as a doll1 and while he excluded from her mind the light of knowledge1 decked her person with gewgaws and frippery which he scorned for himself1 thus endeavoring to render her like unto a painted sepulchre4 ,it is truly marvellous that any woman can rise above the pressure of circumstances which combine to crush her4 ,nothing can strengthen her to do this in the character of a preacher of righteousness1 but a call from ,jehovah himself4 ,and when the voice of ,god penetrates the deep recesses of her heart1 and commands her to go and cry in the ears of the people1 she is ready to exclaim1 #8,ah1 ,lord ,god1 behold ,i cannot speak1 for ,i am a woman4' ,i have known women in different religious societies1 who have felt like the prophet4 #8,his word was in my heart as a burning fire shut up in my bones1 and ,i was weary with forbearing4' ,but they have not dared to open their lips1 and have endured all the intensity of suffering1 produced by disobedience to ,god1 rather than encounter heartless ridicule and injurious suspicions4 ,i rejoice that we have been the oppressed1 rather than the oppressors4 ,god thus prepared his people for deliverance from outward bondage2 and ,i hope our sorrows have prepared us to fulfil our high and holy duties1 whether public or private1 with humility and meekness2 and that suffering has imparted fortitude to endure trials1 which assuredly await us in the attempt to sunder those chains with which man has bound us1 galling to the spirit1 though unseen by the eye4 ,surely there is nothing either astonishing or novel in the gifts of the ,spirit being bestowed on woman3 nothing astonishing1 because there is no respect of persons with ,god2 the soul of the woman in his sight is as the soul of the man1 and both are alike capable of the influence of the ,holy ,spirit4 ,nothing novel1 because1 as has been already shown1 in the sacred records there are found examples of women1 as well as of men1 exercising the gift of prophecy4 ,we attach to the word prophecy1 the exclusive meaning of foretelling future events1 but this is certainly a mistake2 for the apostle ,paul defines it to be #8speaking to edification1 exhortation and comfort4' ,and there appears no possible reason1 why women should not do this as well as men4 ,at the time that the ,bible was translated into ,english1 the meaning of the word prophecy1 was delivering a message from ,god1 whether it was to predict future events1 or to warn the people of the consequences of sin4 ,governor ,winthrop1 of ,massachusetts1 mentions in a letter1 that the minister being absent1 he went to1 ---- to prophecy to the people4 ,before ,i proceed to prove that women1 under the ,christian dispensation1 were anointed of the ,holy ,ghost to preach1 or prophecy1 ,i will mention ,anna1 the 7last7 prophetess under the ,jewish dispensation4 #8,she departed not from the temple1 but served ,god with fasting and prayers night and day4' ,and coming into the temple1 while ,simeon was yet speaking to ,mary1 with the infant ,savior in his arms1 #8spake of ,christ to all them that looked for redemption in ,jerusalem4' ,blackwall1 a learned ,english critic1 in his work entitled1 #8,sacred ,classics1' says1 in reference to this passage1 ,luke #b3 #cg--#8;,according to the original reading1 the sense will be1 that the devout ,anna1 who attended in the temple1 both night and day1 spoke of the ,messiah to all the inhabitants of that city1 who constantly worshipped there1 and who prepared themselves for the worthy reception of that divine person1 whom they expected at this time4 ,and 'tis certain1 that other devout ,jews1 not inhabitants of ,jerusalem1 frequently repaired to the temple-worship1 and might1 at this remarkable time1 and several others1 hear this admirable woman discourse upon the blessed advent of the ,redeemer4 ,a various reading has ,israel instead of ,jerusalem1 which expresses that religious ,jews1 from distant places1 came thither to divine offices1 and would with high pleasure hear the discourses of this great prophetess1 so famed for her extraordinary piety and valuable talents1 upon the most important and desirable subject4' ,i shall now examine the testimony of the ,bible on this point1 after the ascension of our ,lord1 beginning with the glorious effusion of the ,holy ,spirit on the day of ,pentecost4 ,i presume it will not be denied1 that women1 as well as men1 were at that time filled with the ,holy ,ghost1 because it is expressly stated1 that women were among those who continued in prayer and supplication1 waiting for the fulfilment of the promise1 that they should be endued with power from on high4 #8,when the day of ,pentecost was fully come1 they were ,,all with one accord in one place4 ,and there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire1 and it sat upon each of them2 and they were all filled with the ,holy ,ghost1 and began to speak with other tongues as the ,spirit gave them utterance4' ,peter says1 in reference to this miracle1 #8,this is that which was spoken by the prophet ,joel4 ,and it shall come to pass in the last days1 said ,god1 ,i will pour out my ,spirit upon all flesh2 and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy--and on my servants and on my hand-maidens1 ,i will pour out in those days of my ,spirit1 and they shall prophesy4' ,there is not the least intimation that this was a spasmodic influence which was soon to cease4 ,the men and women are classed together2 and if the power to preach the gospel was a supernatural and short-lived impulse in women1 then it was equally so in men4 ,but we are told1 those were the days of miracles4 ,i grant it2 but the men1 equally with the women1 were the subjects of this marvellous fulfilment of prophecy1 and of course1 if women have lost the gift of prophesying1 so have men4 ,we are also gravely told1 that if a woman pretends to inspiration1 and thereupon grounds the right to plead the cause of a crucified ,redeemer in public1 she will be believed when she shows credentials from heaven1 i4 e4 when she works a miracle4 ,i reply1 if this be necessary to prove her right to preach the gospel1 then ,i demand of my brethren to show me their credentials2 else ,i cannot receive their ministry1 by their own showing4 ,john ,newton has justly said1 that no power but that which created a world1 can make a minister of the gospel2 and man may task his ingenuity to the utmost1 to prove that this power is not exercised on women as well as men4 ,he cannot do it until he has first disclaimed that simple1 but all comprehensive truth1 #8in ,christ ,jesus there is neither male nor female4' ,women then1 according to the ,bible1 were1 under the ,new ,testament dispensation1 as well as the ,old1 the recipients of the gift of prophecy4 ,that this is no sectarian view may be proved by the following extracts4 ,the first ,i shall offer is from ,stratton's #8,book of the ,priesthood4' #8,while they were assembled in the upper room to wait for the blessing1 in number about one hundred and twenty1 they received the miraculous gifts of the ,holy ,spirit's grace2 they became the channels through which its more ordinary1 but not less saving streams flowed to three thousand persons in one day4 ,the whole company of the assembled disciples1 male and female1 young and old1 were all filled with the ,holy ,ghost1 and began to speak with other tongues as the ,spirit gave them utterance4 ,they all contributed in producing that impression upon the assembled multitude1 which ,peter was instrumental in advancing to its decisive results4' ,scott1 in his commentary on this passage1 says-- #8,at the same time1 there appeared the form of tongues divided at the tip and resembling fire2 one of which rested on each of the whole company4' #8,they sat on every one present1 as the original determines4 ,at the time of these extraordinary appearances1 the whole company were abundantly replenished with the gifts and graces of the ,holy ,spirit1 so that they began to speak with other tongues4' ,henry in his notes confirms this3 #8,it seems evident to me that not the twelve apostles only1 but all the one hundred and twenty disciples were filled with the ,holy ,ghost alike at this time1--all the seventy disciples1 who were apostolical men and employed in the same work1 and all the rest too that were to preach the gospel1 for it is said expressly1 ,eph4 #d3 #h-ab3 #8,when ,christ ascended up on high1 7which refers to this7 he gave gifts unto men4' ,the all here must refer to the all that were together4' ,i need hardly remark that man is a generic term1 including both sexes4 ,let us now examine whether women actually exercised the office of minister1 under the gospel dispensation4 ,philip had four daughters1 who prophesied or preached4 ,paul calls ,priscilla1 as well as ,aquila1 his helpers2 or1 as in the ,greek1 his fellow laborers#d in ,christ ,jesus4 ,divers other passages might be adduced to prove that women continued to be preachers1 and that many of them filled this dignified station4 ,we learn also from ecclesiastical history1 that female ministers suffered martyrdom in the early ages of the ,christian church4 ,in ancient councils1 mention is made of deaconesses2 and in an edition of the ,new ,testament1 printed in #aegd1 a woman is spoken of as minister of a church4 ,the same word1 which1 in our common translation1 is now rendered a servant of the church1 in speaking of ,phebe1 ,rom4 #af3 #a1 is rendered minister1 ,eph4 #f3 #ba1 when applied to ,tychicus4 ,a minister1 with whom ,i had lately the pleasure of conversing1 remarked1 #8,my rule is to expound scripture by scripture1 and ,i cannot deny the ministry of women1 because the apostle says1 #8help those women who labored with me ,,in ,,the ,,gospel4' ,he certainly meant something more than pouring out tea for him4' ,in the #aath ,ch4 of #a ,cor41 ,paul gives directions to women and men how they should appear when they prophesy1 or pray in public assemblies4 ,it is evident that the design of the apostle1 in this and the three succeeding chapters1 is to rectify certain abuses which had crept into the ,christian church4 ,he therefore admonishes women to pray with their heads covered1 because1 according to the fashion of that day1 it was considered immodest and immoral to do otherwise4 ,he says1 #8that were all one as if she were shaven2' and shaving the head was a disgraceful punishment that was inflicted on women of bad character4 #8,these things1' says ,scott1 #8the apostle stated as decent and proper1 but if any of the ,corinthian teachers inclined to excite contention about them1 he would only add1 v4 #af1 that he and his brethren knew of no such custom as prevailed among them1 nor was there any such in the churches of ,god which had been planted by the other apostles4' ,john ,locke1 whilst engaged in writing his notes on the ,epistles of ,st4 ,paul1 was at a meeting where two women preached4 ,after hearing them1 he became convinced of their commission to publish the gospel1 and thereupon altered his notes on the #aath ,ch4 #a ,cor4 in favor of women's preaching4 ,he says1-- #8,this about women seeming as difficult a passage as most in ,st4 ,paul's ,epistles1 ,i crave leave to premise some few considerations4 ,it is plain that this covering the head in women is restrained to some peculiar actions which they performed in the assembly1 expressed by the words praying1 prophesying1 which1 whatever they signify1 must have the same meaning applied to women in the #eth verse1 that they have when applied to men in the #dth1 c4 ,the next thing to be considered is1 what is here to be understood by praying and prophesying4 ,and that seems to me the performing of some public action in the assembly1 by some one person which was for that time peculiar to that person1 and whilst it lasted1 the rest of the assembly silently assisted4 ,as to prophesying1 the apostle in express words tells us1 ,ch4 #ad3 #c1 #ab1 that it was speaking in the assembly4 ,the same is evident as to praying1 that the apostle means by it publicly with an audible voice1 ch4 #ad3 #ai4' ,in a letter to these two women1 ,rebecca ,collier and ,rachel ,bracken1 which accompanied a little testimony of his regard1 he says1 #8,i admire no converse like that of ,christian freedom2 and ,i fear no bondage like that of pride and prejudice4 ,i now see that acquaintance by sight cannot reach the height of enjoyment1 which acquaintance by knowledge arrives unto4 ,outward hearing may misguide us1 but internal knowledge cannot err4' #8,women1 indeed1 had the honor of first publishing the resurrection of the ,god of love--why not again the resurrection of the spirit of love8 ,and let all the disciples of ,christ rejoice therein1 as doth your partner1 ,john ,locke4' ,see #8,the ,friend1' a periodical published in ,philadelphia4 ,adam ,clarke's comment on #a ,cor4 #aa3 #e1 is similar to ,locke's3 #8,whatever be the meaning of praying and prophesying in respect to the man1 they have precisely the same meaning in respect to the woman4 ,so that some women at least1 as well as some men1 might speak to others to edification and exhortation and comfort4 ,and this kind of prophesying1 or teaching1 was predicted by ,joel #b3 #bh1 and referred to by ,peter2 and had there not been such gifts bestowed on women1 the prophesy could not have had its fulfilment4' ,in the autobiography of ,adam ,clarke1 there is an interesting account of his hearing ,mary ,sewall and another female minister preach1 and he acknowledges that such was the power accompanying their ministry1 that though he had been prejudiced against women's preaching1 he could not but confess that these women were anointed for the office4 ,but there are certain passages in the ,epistles of ,st4 ,paul1 which seem to be of doubtful interpretation2 at which we cannot much marvel1 seeing that his brother ,peter says1 there are some things in them hard to be understood4 ,most commentators1 having their minds preoccupied with the prejudices of education1 afford little aid2 they rather tend to darken the text by the multitude of words4 ,one of these passages occurs in #a ,cor4 #ad4 ,i have already remarked1 that this chapter1 with several of the preceding1 was evidently designed to correct abuses which had crept into the assemblies of ,christians in ,corinth4 ,hence we find that the men were commanded to be silent1 as well as the women1 when they were guilty of any thing which deserved reprehension4 ,the apostle says1 #8,if there be no interpreter1 let him keep silence in the church4' ,the men were doubtless in the practice of speaking in unknown tongues1 when there was no interpreter present2 and ,paul reproves them1 because this kind of preaching conveyed no instruction to the people4 ,again he says1 #8,if any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by1 let the first hold his peace4' ,we may infer from this1 that two men sometimes attempted to speak at the same time1 and the apostle rebukes them1 and adds1 #8,ye may ,,all prophesy one by one1 for ,god is not the author of confusion1 but of peace4' ,he then proceeds to notice the disorderly conduct of the women1 who were guilty of other improprieties4 ,they were probably in the habit of asking questions1 on any points of doctrine which they wished more thoroughly explained4 ,this custom was common among the men in the ,jewish synagogues1 after the pattern of which1 the meetings of the early ,christians were in all probability conducted4 ,and the ,christian women1 presuming on the liberty which they enjoyed under the new religion1 interrupted the assembly1 by asking questions4 ,the apostle disapproved of this1 because it disturbed the solemnity of the meeting3 he therefore admonishes the women to keep silence in the churches4 ,that the apostle did not allude to preaching is manifest1 because he tells them1 #8,if they will learn any thing1 let them ask their husbands at home4' ,now a person endowed with a gift in the ministry1 does not ask questions in the public exercise of that gift1 for the purpose of gaining information3 she is instructing others4 ,moreover1 the apostle1 in closing his remarks on this subject1 says1 #8,wherefore1 brethren1 7a generic term1 applying equally to men and women17 covet to prophesy1 and forbid not to speak with tongues4 ,let all things be done decently and in order4' ,clarke1 on the passage1 #8,let women keep silence in the churches1' says3 #8,this was a ,jewish ordinance4 ,women were not permitted to teach in the assemblies1 or even to ask questions4 ,the rabbins taught that a woman should know nothing but the use of her distaff2 and the saying of ,rabbi ,eliezer is worthy of remark and execration3 #8,let the words of the law be burned1 rather than that they should be delivered by women4' ,are there not many of our ,christian brethren1 whose hostility to the ministry of women is as bitter as was that of ,rabbi ,eliezer1 and who would rather let souls perish1 than that the truths of the gospel should be delivered by women8 #8,this1' says ,clarke1 #8was their condition till the time of the gospel1 when1 according to the prediction of ,joel1 the ,spirit of ,god was to be poured out on the women as well as the men1 that they might prophesy1 that is1 teach4 ,and that they did prophesy1 or teach1 is evident from what the apostle says1 ch4 #aa3 #e1 where he lays down rules to regulate this part of their conduct while ministering in the church4 ,but does not what the apostle says here1 let your women keep silence in the churches1 contradict that statement1 and show that the words in ch4 #aa1 should be understood in another sense8 for here it is expressly said1 that they should keep silence in the churches1 for it was not permitted to a woman to speak4 ,both places seem perfectly consistent4 ,it is evident from the context1 that the apostle refers here to asking questions1 and what we call dictating in the assemblies4' ,the other passage on which the opinion1 that women are not called to the ministry1 is founded1 is #a ,tim4 #b;d ch4 ,the apostle speaks of the duty of prayer and supplication1 mentions his own ordination as a preacher1 and then adds1 #8,i will1 therefore1 that men pray everywhere1 lifting up holy hands1 without wrath and doubting4 ,in like manner also1 that women adorn themselves in modest apparel1' c4 ,i shall here premise1 that as the punctuation and division into chapters and verses is no part of the original arrangement1 they cannot determine the sense of a passage4 ,indeed1 every attentive reader of the ,bible must observe1 that the injudicious separation of sentences often destroys their meaning and their beauty4 ,joseph ,john ,gurney1 whose skill as a biblical critic is well known in ,england1 commenting on this passage1 says1 #8,it is worded in a manner somewhat obscure2 but appears to be best construed according to the opinion of various commentators 7,see ,pool's ,synopsis7 as conveying an injunction1 that women as well as men should pray everywhere1 lifting up holy hands without wrath and doubting4 #a ,tim4 #b3 #h1 #i4 #8,i will therefore that men pray everywhere1 c42 likewise also the women in a modest dress4' 7,compare #a ,cor4 #aa3 #e47 #8,i would have them adorn themselves with shamefacedness and sobriety4'' ,i have no doubt this is the true meaning of the text1 and that the translators would never have thought of altering it had they not been under the influence of educational prejudice4 ,the apostle proceeds to exhort the women1 who thus publicly made intercession to ,god1 not to adorn themselves with braided hair1 or gold1 or pearls1 or costly array1 but 7which becometh women professing godliness7 with good works4' ,the word in this verse translated #8professing1' would be more properly rendered preaching godliness1 or enjoining piety to the gods1 or conducting public worship4 ,after describing the duty of female ministers about their apparel1 the apostle proceeds to correct some improprieties which probably prevailed in the ,ephesian church1 similar to those which he had reproved among the ,corinthian converts4 ,he says1 #8,let the women ,,learn in silence with all subjection2 but ,i suffer not a woman to teach1 nor to usurp authority over the man1 but to be in silence1' or quietness4 ,here again it is evident that the women1 of whom he was speaking1 were admonished to learn in silence1 which could not refer to their public ministrations to others4 ,the verb to teach1 verse #ab1 is one of very general import1 and may in this place more properly be rendered dictate4 ,it is highly probable that women who had long been in bondage1 when set free by ,christianity from the restraints imposed upon them by ,jewish traditions and heathen customs1 run into an extreme in their public assemblies1 and interrupted the religious services by frequent interrogations1 which they could have had answered as satisfactorily at home4 ,on a candid examination and comparison of the passages which ,i have endeavored to explain1 viz41 #a ,cor4 chaps4 #aa and #ad1 and #a ,tim4 #b1 #h-ab4 ,i think we must be compelled to adopt one of two conclusions2 either that the apostle grossly contradicts himself on a subject of great practical importance1 and that the fulfilment of the prophecy of ,joel was a shameful infringement of decency and order2 or that the directions given to women1 not to speak1 or to teach in the congregations1 had reference to some local and peculiar customs1 which were then common in religious assemblies1 and which the apostle thought inconsistent with the purpose for which they were met together4 ,no one1 ,i suppose1 will hesitate which of these two conclusions to adopt4 ,the subject is one of vital importance4 ,that it may claim the calm and prayerful attention of ,christians1 is the desire of ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,,footnotes3 #c ,i cannot enter fully into this part of my subject4 ,it is1 however1 one of great importance1 and ,i recommend those who wish to examine it1 to read #8,the ,book of the ,priesthood1' by an ,english ,dissenter1 and ,beverly's #8,view of the ,present ,state of the ,visible ,church of ,christ4' ,they are both masterly productions4 #d ,rom4 #af3 #c1 compare ,gr4 text of v4 #ba1 #b4 ,cor4 #h3 #bc2 ,phil4 #b3 #be2 #a ,thes4 #c3 #b4 ,,letter ,,xv4 ,,man ,,equally ,,guilty ,,with ,,woman ,,in ,,the ,,fall4 ,uxbridge1 #ajth ,mo4 #bjth1 #ahcg4 ,,my ,,dear ,,sister1--,it is said that #8modern ,jewish women light a lamp every ,friday evening1 half an hour before sunset1 which is the beginning of their ,sabbath1 in remembrance of their original mother1 who first extinguished the lamp of righteousness1--to remind them of their obligation to rekindle it4' ,i am one of those who always admit1 to its fullest extent1 the popular charge1 that woman brought sin into the world4 ,i accept it as a powerful reason1 why woman is bound to labor with double diligence1 for the regeneration of that world she has been instrumental in ruining4 ,but1 although ,i do not repel the imputation1 ,i shall notice some passages in the sacred ,scriptures1 where this transaction is mentioned1 which prove1 ,i think1 the identity and equality of man and woman1 and that there is no difference in their guilt in the view of that ,god who searcheth the heart and trieth the reins of the children of men4 ,in ,is4 #dc3 #bg1 we find the following passage--#8,thy first father hath sinned1 and thy teachers have transgressed against me'--which is synonymous with ,rom4 #e3 #ab4 #8,wherefore1 as by ,,one ,,man sin entered into the world1 and death by sin1 c4' ,here man and woman are included under one term1 and no distinction is made in their criminality4 ,the circumstances of the fall are again referred to in #b ,cor4 #aa3 #c--#8;,but ,i fear lest1 by any means1 as the serpent beguiled ,eve through his subtility1 so your mind should be beguiled from the simplicity that is in ,christ4' ,again1 #ast ,tim4 #b3 #ad--#8;,adam was not deceived2 but the woman being deceived1 was in the transgression4' ,now1 whether the fact1 that ,eve was beguiled and deceived1 is a proof that her crime was of deeper dye than ,adam's1 who was not deceived1 but was fully aware of the consequences of sharing in her transgression1 ,i shall leave the candid reader to determine4 ,my present object is to show1 that1 as woman is charged with all the sin that exists in the world1 it is her solemn duty to labor for its extinction2 and that this she can never do effectually and extensively1 until her mind is disenthralled of those shackles which have been riveted upon her by a #8corrupt public opinion1 and a perverted interpretation of the holy ,scriptures4' ,woman must feel that she is the equal1 and is designed to be the fellow laborer of her brother1 or she will be studying to find out the imaginary line which separates the sexes1 and divides the duties of men and women into two distinct classes1 a separation not even hinted at in the ,bible1 where we are expressly told1 #8there is neither male nor female1 for ye are all one in ,christ ,jesus4' ,my views on this subject are so much better embodied in the language of a living author than ,i can express them1 that ,i quote the passage entire3 #8,woman's rights and man's rights are both contained in the same charter1 and held by the same tenure4 ,all rights spring out of the moral nature3 they are both the root and the offspring of responsibilities4 ,the physical constitution is the mere instrument of the moral nature2 sex is a mere incident of this constitution1 a provision necessary to this form of existence2 its only design1 not to give1 nor to take away1 nor in any respect to modify or even touch rights or responsibilities in any sense1 except so far as the peculiar offices of each sex may afford less or more opportunity and ability for the exercise of rights1 and the discharge of responsibilities2 but merely to continue and enlarge the human department of ,god's government4 ,consequently1 ,i know nothing of man's rights1 or woman's rights2 human rights are all that ,i recognise4 ,the doctrine1 that the sex of the body presides over and administers upon the rights and responsibilities of the moral1 immortal nature1 is to my mind a doctrine kindred to blasphemy1 when seen in its intrinsic nature4 ,it breaks up utterly the relations of the two natures1 and reverses their functions2 exalting the animal nature into a monarch1 and humbling the moral into a slave2 making the former a proprietor1 and the latter its property4' ,to perform our duties1 we must comprehend our rights and responsibilities2 and it is because we do not understand1 that we now fall so far short in the discharge of our obligations4 ,unaccustomed to think for ourselves1 and to search the sacred volume1 to see how far we are living up to the design of ,jehovah in our creation1 we have rested satisfied with the sphere marked out for us by man1 never detecting the fallacy of that reasoning which forbids woman to exercise some of her noblest faculties1 and stamps with the reproach of indelicacy those actions by which women were formerly dignified and exalted in the church4 ,i should not mention this subject again1 if it were not to point out to my sisters what seems to me an irresistible conclusion from the literal interpretation of ,st4 ,paul1 without reference to the context1 and the peculiar circumstances and abuses which drew forth the expressions1 #8,i suffer not a woman to teach'--#8,let your women keep silence in the church1' i4 e4 congregation4 ,it is manifest1 that if the apostle meant what his words imply1 when taken in the strictest sense1 then women have no right to teach ,sabbath or day schools1 or to open their lips to sing in the assemblies of the people2 yet young and delicate women are engaged in all these offices2 they are expressly trained to exhibit themselves1 and raise their voices to a high pitch in the choirs of our places of worship4 ,i do not intend to sit in judgment on my sisters for doing these things2 ,i only want them to see1 that they are as really infringing a supposed divine command1 by instructing their pupils in the ,sabbath or day schools1 and by singing in the congregation1 as if they were engaged in preaching the unsearchable riches of ,christ to a lost and perishing world4 ,why1 then1 are we permitted to break this injunction in some points1 and so sedulously warned not to overstep the bounds set for us by our brethren in another8 ,simply1 as ,i believe1 because in the one case we subserve their views and their interests1 and act in subordination to them2 whilst in the other1 we come in contact with their interests1 and claim to be on an equality with them in the highest and most important trust ever committed to man1 namely1 the ministry of the word4 ,it is manifest1 that if women were permitted to be ministers of the gospel1 as they unquestionably were in the primitive ages of the ,christian church1 it would interfere materially with the present organized system of spiritual power and ecclesiastical authority1 which is now vested solely in the hands of men4 ,it would either show that all the paraphernalia of theological seminaries1 c4 c4 to prepare men to become evangelists1 is wholly unnecessary1 or it would create a necessity for similar institutions in order to prepare women for the same office2 and this would be an encroachment on that learning1 which our hind brethren have so ungenerously monopolized4 ,i do not ask any one to believe my statements1 or adopt my conclusions1 because they are mine2 but ,i do earnestly entreat my sisters to lay aside their prejudices1 and examine these subjects for themselves1 regardless of the #8traditions of men1' because they are intimately connected with their duty and their usefulness in the present important crisis4 ,all who know any thing of the present system of benevolent and religious operations1 know that women are performing an important part in them1 in subserviency to men1 who guide our labors1 and are often the recipients of those benefits of education we toil to confer1 and which we rejoice they can enjoy1 although it is their mandate which deprives us of the same advantages4 ,now1 whether our brethren have defrauded us intentionally1 or unintentionally1 the wrong we suffer is equally the same4 ,for years1 they have been spurring us up to the performance of our duties4 ,the immense usefulness and the vast influence of woman have been eulogized and called into exercise1 and many a blessing has been lavished upon us1 and many a prayer put up for us1 because we have labored by day and by night to clothe and feed and educate young men1 whilst our own bodies sometimes suffer for want of comfortable garments1 and our minds are left in almost utter destitution of that improvement which we are toiling to bestow upon the brethren4 #8,full many a gem of purest ray serene1 ,the dark unfathomed caves of ocean bear2 ,full many a flower is born to blush unseen ,and waste its sweetness on the desert air4' ,if the sewing societies1 the avails of whose industry are now expended in supporting and educating young men for the ministry1 were to withdraw their contributions to these objects1 and give them where they are more needed1 to the advancement of their own sex in useful learning1 the next generation might furnish sufficient proof1 that in intelligence and ability to master the whole circle of sciences1 woman is not inferior to man2 and instead of a sensible woman being regarded as she now is1 is a lusus natur1 they would be quite as common as sensible men4 ,i confess1 considering the high claim men in this country make to great politeness and deference to women1 it does seem a little extraordinary that we should be urged to work for the brethren4 ,i should suppose it would be more in character with #8the generous promptings of chivalry1 and the poetry of romantic gallantry1' for which ,catherine ,e4 ,beecher gives them credit1 for them to form societies to educate their sisters1 seeing our inferior capacities require more cultivation to bring them into use1 and qualify us to be helps meet for them4 ,however1 though ,i think this would be but a just return for all our past kindnesses in this way1 ,i should be willing to balance our accounts1 and begin a new course4 ,henceforth1 let the benefit be reciprocated1 or else let each sex provide for the education of their own poor1 whose talents ought to be rescued from the oblivion of ignorance4 ,sure ,i am1 the young men who are now benefitted by the handy work of their sisters1 will not be less honorable if they occupy half their time in earning enough to pay for their own education1 instead of depending on the industry of women1 who not unfrequently deprive themselves of the means of purchasing valuable books which might enlarge their stock of useful knowledge1 and perhaps prove a blessing to the family by furnishing them with instructive reading4 ,if the minds of women were enlightened and improved1 the domestic circle would be more frequently refreshed by intelligent conversation1 a means of edification now deplorably neglected1 for want of that cultivation which these intellectual advantages would confer4 ,,duties ,,of ,,women4 ,one of the duties which devolve upon women in the present interesting crisis1 is to prepare themselves for more extensive usefulness1 by making use of those religious and literary privileges and advantages that are within their reach1 if they will only stretch out their hands and possess them4 ,by doing this1 they will become better acquainted with their rights as moral beings1 and with their responsibilities growing out of those rights3 they will regard themselves1 as they really are1 ,,free ,,agents1 immortal beings1 amenable to no tribunal but that of ,jehovah1 and bound not to submit to any restriction imposed for selfish purposes1 or to gratify that love of power which has reigned in the heart of man from ,adam down to the present time4 ,in contemplating the great moral reformations of the day1 and the part which they are bound to take in them1 instead of puzzling themselves with the harassing1 because unnecessary inquiry1 how far they may go without overstepping the bounds of propriety1 which separate male and female duties1 they will only inquire1 #8,lord1 what wilt thou have us to do8' ,they will be enabled to see the simple truth1 that ,god has made no distinction between men and women as moral beings2 that the distinction now so much insisted upon between male and female virtues is as absurd as it is unscriptural1 and has been the fruitful source of much mischief--granting to man a license for the exhibition of brute force and conflict on the battle field2 for sternness1 selfishness1 and the exercise of irresponsible power in the circle of home--and to woman a permit to rest on an arm of flesh1 and to regard modesty and delicacy1 and all the kindred virtues1 as peculiarly appropriate to her4 ,now to me it is perfectly clear1 that ,,whatsoever ,,it ,,is ,,morally ,,right ,,for ,a ,,man ,,to ,,do1 ,,it ,,is ,,morally ,,right ,,for ,a ,,woman ,,to ,,do2 and that confusion must exist in the moral world1 until women takes her stand on the same platform with man1 and feels that she is clothed by her ,maker with the same rights1 and1 of course1 that upon her devolve the same duties4 ,it is not my intention1 nor indeed do ,i think it is in my power1 to point out the precise duties of women4 ,to him who still teacheth by his ,holy ,spirit as never man taught1 ,i refer my beloved sisters4 ,there is a vast field of usefulness before them4 ,the signs of the times give portentous evidence1 that a day of deep trial is approaching2 and ,i urge them1 by every consideration of a ,savior's dying love1 by the millions of heathen in our midst1 by the sufferings of woman in almost every portion of the world1 by the fearful ravages which slavery1 intemperance1 licentiousness and other iniquities are making of the happiness of our fellow creatures1 to come to the rescue of a ruined world1 and to be found co-workers with ,jesus ,christ4 #8,ho6 to the rescue1 ho6 ,up every one that feels-- ',tis a sad and fearful cry of woe ,from a guilty world that steals4 ,hark6 hark6 how the horror rolls1 ,whence can this anguish be8 ',tis the groan of a trammel'd people's souls1 ,now bursting to be free4' ,and here1 with all due deference for the office of the ministry1 which ,i believe was established by ,jehovah himself1 and designed by ,him to be the means of spreading light and salvation through a crucified ,savior to the ends of the earth1 ,i would entreat my sisters not to compel the ministers of the present day to give their names to great moral reformations4 ,the practice of making ministers life members1 or officers of societies1 when their hearts have not been touched with a live coal from the altar1 and animated with love for the work we are engaged in1 is highly injurious to them1 as well as to the cause4 ,they often satisfy their consciences in this way1 without doing anything to promote the anti-slavery1 or temperance1 or other reformations2 and we please ourselves with the idea1 that we have done something to forward the cause of ,christ1 when1 in effect1 we have been sewing pillows like the false prophetesses of old under the arm-holes of our clerical brethren4 ,let us treat the ministers with all tenderness and respect1 but let us be careful how we cherish in their hearts the idea that they are of more importance to a cause than other men4 ,i rejoice when they take hold heartily4 ,i love and honor some ministers with whom ,i have been associated in the anti-slavery ranks1 but ,i do deeply deplore1 for the sake of the cause1 the prevalent notion1 that the clergy must be had1 either by persuasion or by bribery4 ,they will not need persuasion or bribery1 if their hearts are with us2 if they are not1 we are better without them4 ,it is idle to suppose that the kingdom of heaven cannot come on earth1 without their co-operation4 ,it is the ,lord's work1 and it must go forward with or without their aid4 ,as well might the converted ,jews have despaired of the spread of ,christianity1 without the co-operation of ,scribes and ,pharisees4 ,let us keep in mind1 that no abolitionism is of any value1 which is not accompanied with deep1 heartfelt repentance2 and that1 whenever a minister sincerely repents of having1 either by his apathy or his efforts1 countenanced the fearful sin of slavery1 he will need no inducement to come into our ranks2 so far from it1 he will abhor himself in dust and ashes1 for his past blindness and indifference to the cause of ,god's poor and oppressed3 and he will regard it as a privilege to be enabled to do something in the cause of human rights4 ,i know the ministry exercise vast power2 but ,i rejoice in the belief1 that the spell is broken which encircled them1 and rendered it all but blasphemy to expose their errors and their sins4 ,we are beginning to understand that they are but men1 and that their station should not shield them from merited reproof4 ,i have blushed for my sex when ,i have heard of their entreating ministers to attend their associations1 and open them with prayer4 ,the idea is inconceivable to me1 that ,christian women can be engaged in doing ,god's work1 and yet cannot ask his blessing on their efforts1 except through the lips of a man4 ,i have known a whole town scoured to obtain a minister to open a female meeting1 and their refusal to do so spoken of as quite a misfortune4 ,now1 ,i am not glad that the ministers do wrong2 but ,i am glad that my sisters have been sometimes compelled to act for themselves3 it is exactly what they need to strengthen them1 and prepare them to act independently4 ,and to say the truth1 there is something really ludicrous in seeing a minister enter the meeting1 open it with prayer1 and then take his departure4 ,however1 ,i only throw out these hints for the consideration of women4 ,i believe there are solemn responsibilities resting upon us1 and that in this day of light and knowledge1 we cannot plead ignorance of duty4 ,the great moral reformations now on the wheel are only practical ,christianity2 and if the ministry is not prepared to labor with us in these righteous causes1 let us press forward1 and they will follow on to know the ,lord4 ,,conclusion4 ,i have now1 my dear sister1 completed my series of letters4 ,i am aware1 they contain some new views2 but ,i believe they are based on the immutable truths of the ,bible4 ,all ,i ask for them is1 the candid and prayerful consideration of ,christians4 ,if they strike at some of our bosom sins1 our deep-rooted prejudices1 our long cherished opinions1 let us not condemn them on that account1 but investigate them fearlessly and prayerfully1 and not shrink from the examination2 because1 if they are true1 they place heavy responsibilities upon women4 ,in throwing them before the public1 ,i have been actuated solely by the belief1 that if they are acted upon1 they will exalt the character and enlarge the usefulness of my own sex1 and contribute greatly to the happiness and virtue of the other4 ,that there is a root of bitterness continually springing up in families and troubling the repose of both men and women1 must be manifest to even a superficial observer2 and ,i believe it is the mistaken notion of the inequality of the sexes4 ,as there is an assumption of superiority on the one part1 which is not sanctioned by ,jehovah1 there is an incessant struggle on the other to rise to that degree of dignity1 which ,god designed women to possess in common with men1 and to maintain those rights and exercise those privileges which every woman's common sense1 apart from the prejudices of education1 tells her are inalienable2 they are a part of her moral nature1 and can only cease when her immortal mind is extinguished4 ,one word more4 ,i feel that ,i am calling upon my sex to sacrifice what has been1 what is still dear to their hearts1 the adulation1 the flattery1 the attentions of trifling men4 ,i am asking them to repel these insidious enemies whenever they approach them2 to manifest by their conduct1 that1 although they value highly the society of pious and intelligent men1 they have no taste for idle conversation1 and for that silly preference which is manifested for their personal accommodation1 often at the expense of great inconvenience to their male companions4 ,as an illustration of what ,i mean1 ,i will state a fact4 ,i was traveling lately in a stage coach4 ,a gentleman1 who was also a passenger1 was made sick by riding with his back to the horses4 ,i offered to exchange seats1 assuring him it did not affect me at all unpleasantly2 but he was too polite to permit a lady to run the risk of being discommoded4 ,i am sure he meant to be very civil1 but ,i really thought it was a foolish piece of civility4 ,this kind of attention encourages selfishness in woman1 and is only accorded as a sort of quietus1 in exchange for those rights of which we are deprived4 ,men and women are equally bound to cultivate a spirit of accommodation2 but ,i exceedingly deprecate her being treated like a spoiled child1 and sacrifices made to her selfishness and vanity4 ,in lieu of these flattering but injurious attentions1 yielded to her as an inferior1 as a mark of benevolence and courtesy1 ,i want my sex to claim nothing from their brethren but what their brethren may justly claim from them1 in their intercourse as ,christians4 ,i am persuaded woman can do much in this way to elevate her own character4 ,and that we may become duly sensible of the dignity of our nature1 only a little lower than the angels1 and bring forth fruit to the glory and honor of ,emanuel's name1 is the fervent prayer of ,thine in the bonds of womanhood1 ,,sarah ,m4 ,,grimke4 ,transcriber's ,notes ,errors in punctuation have been fixed4 ,page #g3 8,thy both0 changed to 8,they both0 ,page #h3 8flesh1 flowl0 changed to 8flesh1 fowl0 ,page #i3 8moral responsibilites0 changed to 8moral responsibilities0 ,page #ba3 8,pastoral ,lerter0 changed to 8,pastoral ,letter0 ,page #be3 8messenger of ,jehevah0 changed to 8messenger of ,jehovah0 ,page #cf3 8and someties0 changed to 8and sometimes0 ,page #dc3 ,in the footnote1 8de famille on de0 changed to 8de famille ou de0 and 8,paris and ,loudon0 changed to 8,paris and ,london0 ,page #dh3 8os well as0 changed to 8as well as0 ,page #ej3 8making a waistcoast0 changed to 8making a waistcoat0 ,page #eg3 8he mean time0 changed to 8the mean time0 ,page #fa3 8,,intelllect ,,of ,,woman0 changed to 8,,intellect ,,of ,,woman0 ,page #fg3 8,christian countres0 changed to 8,christian countries0 ,page #gj3 8glorions reformations0 changed to 8glorious 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