,,y\?ful ,,folly ,,detect$4 ,,writt5 ,,= ,,! ,,b5efit ,,( ,,y\?1 ,,p>ticul>ly ,,! ,,female ,,sex4 ,! maid t walks 9 folly's pa?1 ,?\ghtless & he$less z %e goes2 ,w l& 9 mis]y at la/1 ,beset ar\nd ) _m foes3 ,b %e :o m9ds in/ruction "y1 ,att5tive to h] bus'ness /ays2 ,9 sweete/ notes h] "n is sung1 ,on h>ps ( gold1 :]e virtue plays4 ,,walpole1 ,n4 ,h4 ,,pr9t$ ,,at ,,! ,,obs]vatory ,,press1 ,,by ,,david ,,ne:all4 #ahjd4 ,,adv]tisem5t4 ,! foll[+ h9ts 7 orig9ally design$ = ! b5efit ( a few individuals1 = :om ! au?or _h a p>ticul> reg>d1 & also felt himself "u obligations to give !m all t in/ruction :i* might be deem$ necess>y to guide !m 9 ! pa?s ( virtue & morality1 & to %un ^? vices :i* (t5 ru9 ! female sex1 & are too pr$om9ant 9 ! _w4 ,b z all "y p are 9 "o pr$icam5t1 & in/ructions t are suitable = "o1 may be equally appli$ to ! :ole2 !re=e1 = ! b5efit ( ! pres5t1 & future ris+ g5]ations1 ^! few l9es are made public4 ,& al?\gh ! ,au?or w\ld n blu% to own ?is piece ( "w1 yet1 = c]ta9 reasons1 8 "n is conceal$4 ,illu/ration ,,to ,,"y ,,females1 c4 ,! mo/ critical "t ( y\?1 especially ( ! female sex1 is :ile !y are 9 _! juv5ile ye>s4 ,at ?is age1 :5 !y are ent]+ z x 7 ^u ! bord]s ( life1 to act 9 "s degree = !mselves1 ! greate/ c>e & att5tion ought to be paid to !m4 ,& f ! age ( pub]ty1 until !y arrive to maturity1 & are settl$ 9 ! _w1 !y ev] ought to be consid]$ z "u ! c>e & protect+ eye ( _! p>5ts1 gu>dians1 or ma/]s4 ,h[ c p>5ts1 gu>dians1 or ma/]s1 feel z ?\gh !y _h dis*>g$ _! duty t[>ds _! *ildr51 & ^? "u _! c>e1 9 ?is respect1 :5 !y see !m1 ent]+ on ! :eels ( "t1 expos$ to all ! temptations ( an allur+ _w1 & sc>cely or nev] give !m "o *eck or caution6 ,& z x is to be fe>$ t "s p>5ts1 c4 are guilty ( too mu* neglect on ?is h&1 s o!rs gov]n ) too mu* re/ra9t on ! o!r4 ,if y mean t y\r *ildr5 %\ld le>n to gov]n !mselves1 y mu/ le>n x to !m by exp]i5ce2 t is1 by giv+ !m a little l5ity1 toge!r ) y\r good c\nsel & advice1 & accord+ to _! improvem5t1 give !m m & m1 until !y le>n ! art ( self-gov]nm5t4 ,b if y endeavor to keep !m :olly "u re/ra9t1 & nev] let !m le>n f exp]i5ce ! diff]5t mann]s & cu/oms ( p abroad2 if !y %\ld happ5 to break out ( y\r rea* 7z mo/ likely !y w1 at c]ta9 times7 !y w 7accord+ to ! vulg> expression7 behave m l hogs let out ( ! /y2 ?an l ladies2 & n kn[+ ! art ( self gov]nm5t1 !y w be likely to break ov] all rules ( dec5cy & decorum4 ,b al?\gh p>5ts1 c4 may pay ! /ricte/ att5tion to _! *ildr51 c4 unless !re is ! greate/ degree ( caution & circumspection att5d$ to1 on ! "p ( ! *ildr51 x w avail b v little4 ,"y p are apt to be ins5sible to ! dang] !y are 91 until _! "n is /a9$ ) a blot t is v h>d to wipe away4 ,! wise man has ju/ly obs]v$1 t 8,a good "n is r to be *os5 ?an great ri*es1 & lov+ favor r ?an silv] & gold40 ,! reputation ( y\?1 a "y maid5 m especially1 may be comp>$ to *9a w>e1 or transp>5t glass1 :i* is v easily brok51 b impossible to m5d1 s b :at x w leave a blemi% beh9d4 ,h[ (t5 does ! ?\ghtless y\?1 9 "s ungu>d$ h\r1 fall into "s trifl+ folly or o!r :i* /amps a blur ^u _! *>act]s1 & fills _! m9ds ) %ame & remorse4 ,& x is too frequ5tly ! case1 t 9 ord] to prev5t ! evils ( "o piece ( bad conduct1 !y run into ano!r1 :i* only s9ks !m deep] & deep]4 ,!y !n beg9 to give up all hopes ( recov]y1 _! m9ds become dissipat$1 & !y give !mselves ov] to all ! va9 delusions & allurem5ts ( "t & s5se4 ,& z !y travel on 9 ! pa?s ( folly1 !y become lo/ to all s5se ( virtue & morality1 consequ5tly happ9ess is fl$1 & !y g5]ally become slaves to mis]y & discont5tm5t4 ,su* a life z ?is w\ld be ?\ght sc>cely wor? possess+6 yet h[ (t5 d we behold ^? :o appe>$ to be v promis+ :5 !y fir/ />t$ 9 life1 & pres5t$ to u ! mo/ pleas+ prospects1 l& on ^! %ores at la/1 & drag out a mis]able life1 ) %ame & ignom9y3 :ile on ! o!r h&1 x (t5 happ5s1 t ^? :o make a small appe>ance1 & are ?\ght b a v little (1 :5 !y fir/ set out 9 life2 yet by att5d+ to good in/ruction1 & ! /ricte/ caution & prud5ce1 !y h aris5 to honor & dignity 9 ! _w1 & are lov$ & e/eem$ by all virtu\s p4 ,if ^! are facts1 !y %[ ! importance ( e>ly att5d+ to in/ruction4 ,& t y1 my "y fri5d1 bloom+ ) virg9 beauty1 unsulli$ ) vice1 & unimpair$ ) age2 t y may %un ^? p]nici\s practices t w lead y 9 %ame & disgrace1 & pursue ^? pa?s t w lead y to honor & dignity 9 ! _w1 & ga9 y a "n t is m valuable ?an silv] or gold1 ,i leave y ! foll[+ ,,rules4 #a4 ,keep a due reg>d ov] all y\r ?\ghts1 & see t !y are int5t ^u ! bus9ess 9 :i* y are employ$1 t y may pay a prop] att5tion to ! same4 ,no?+ is m dang]\s ?an an abs5t m9d4 ,x is rude to indulge ! ?\ghts to rove ^u indiff]5t objects1 ev5 :5 y are 9 company2 b m especially :5 att5d+ to y\r dome/ic conc]ns4 ,if y\r ?\ghts are n mo/ly engag$ 9 ! bus9ess be=e y1 "t w /eal away fa/] ?an y are aw>e (2 night w come on be=e y are ready = x1 _m ?+s mu/ g undone t y ought to h att5d$ to1 & t :i* y h done w be apt to be slight$1 or done to ! halves2 & y w !reby get to y\rself rebukes & reproa*es1 :i* y might h easily prev5t$1 & y w n[ beg9 to rep5t :5 x is too late to m5d a bad day's "w4 ,by indulg+ an abs5t m9d1 "y p are apt to be deaf to all t is said to !m1 or at lea/1 x does n make an abid+ impression on _! m9ds2 by :i* means !y are apt to d _! "w wrong1 h x to undo1 & d ov] aga91 & sometimes spoil x 9 ! end2 :i* w make !m feel v mu* *agr9$1 & also x w fret1 p]plex1 & we>y ! pati5ce ( ^? :o employ !m4 ,all ?is might h be5 easily avoid$ by c>e & att5tion2 & n only s1 b y w\ld improve 9 y\r bus9ess1 & !reby make x become habitual & easy4 ,y _c expect to become ma/] ( any k9d ( bus9ess1 )\t mu* c>e & att5tion2 & ?is ought to make y m /udi\s 9 ! same1 = rememb]1 t !re is no bus9ess t y w be likely to be call$ to att5d to1 n[ :5 "y1 b :at 7if y %\ld ev] h a family ( y\r own7 y mu/ att5d to ! same = y\rself1 or at lea/1 h x att5d$ to2 & !re=e x is highly necess>y t y %\ld n[ become ma/] ( x4 ,?is is :at ought to excite y\r m9d n[ :5 "y1 t y may be well qualifi$ to be mi/ress ( y\r own family2 & ev5 if y %\ld nev] h any family1 ?is w d y no h>m4 #b4 ,nev] flatt] y\rself t y "k h[ ! bus9ess %\ld be done bett] ?an y\r tea*]s2 !re=e he> ) pati5ce _! in/ructions1 & always be submissive to _! directions4 ,nev] contradict !m 9 any s5se :atev]2 b if y ?9k t any o!r way1 diff]5t f :at !y direct1 w\ld d bett]1 y may in=m !m ( x1 b d x ) ! greate/ mode/y & circumspection2 & if !y comply ) :at y say1 x is well1 b if !y d n1 add no m1 b obey z y 7 fir/ direct$4 ,always make ! bus9ess ( ! day ! fir/ object1 & !n if y h any leisure h\rs1 y may improve !m to ! be/ advantage & = y\r own pr(it & satisfaction4 ,nev] all[ y\rself to be peevi% & fretful ab\t y\r "w1 food1 dress1 or any ?+ ( ! l nature1 ev5 if ! bus9ess does n g on to suit y2 = ?is w only make ! bus9ess m irksome & fatigu+1 )\t any k9d ( b5efit to y\rself4 #c4 ,d n expect ev5 f y\r be/ endeavors :olly to escape )\t c5sure4 ,= ! m9d ( y\? is s fickle1 x w\ld be v /range if y did n sometimes g a/ray1 & n d s well z y might2 & if y d1 y mu/ expect repro(1 & rebuke1 & y ought to take x k9dly1 & endeav\r to d bett] = ! future4 ,b ev5 if y %\ld always d y\r be/1 y mu/ expect t y w sometimes d wrong1 ev5 = want ( k2 & y _c expect t p w always ex]cise t pati5ce1 s b :at !y w _m times *ide y1 & f9d fault1 ev5 :5 y h done y\r be/4 ,all ?is y ought to be> ) pati5ce )\t a murmur+ ^w3 = if y are consci\s to y\rself t y h done z well z y c\ld1 ev5 a %>p rebuke ne$ n tr\ble y2 = y may ga9 "s k by x1 & !re=e x may t]m9ate = y\r own advantage4 ,besides1 if y be> x ) pati5ce1 & try to conv9ce !m by y\r future conduct t y us$ y\r be/ endeavors to h e ?+ done z x %\ld be1 ?is w h a t5d5cy to conv9ce !m ( _! error1 & cause !m to ex]cise m pati5ce = ! future4 ,always pay a prop] respect to y\r p>5ts1 gu>dians1 or ma/]s1 & ev] be submissive to _! comm&s4 ,nev] try to aggravate !m1 ev5 if !y %\ld f9d fault at trifles2 t is1 to treat ! matt] ) a k9d ( indiff]5cy1 ?\gh y did n c>e to displease !m2 = ?is w only make !m m fretful = ! future4 ,b if y are s5sible t y h done wrong1 y ought to confess x1 & endeav\r to re=m2 b if y ?9k y are n to blame let ! :ole matt] pass 9 sil5ce4 #d4 ,y mu/ n only pay ! greate/ att5tion to y\r dome/ic conc]ns1 b a prop] decorum 9 all y\r words & actions mu/ be att5d$ to4 ,y\r leisure h\rs %\ld be employ$ 9 read+ useful books1 :i* w be mo/ likely to furni% y\r m9d ) a /ore ( religi\s & moral improvem5ts4 ,read ! *>act]s ( ^? ladies :o h liv$ virtu\s & pi\s lives1 & endeav\r to imitate _! examples4 ,& if y %\ld ev] happ5 to read ! *>act]s ( any pr(ligate wom5 7n to call !m ladies7 endeav\r to make only ?is use ( _! *>act]s2 t is1 to %un _! vices1 avoid _! p]nici\s practices1 & !reby escape ! mis]ies t att5d !m4 #e4 ,endeav\r to treat all p]sons ) civility4 ,pay a prop] respect to y\r sup]iors1 complaisance to y\r equals & c\rte\sly treat ^? :om y %all deem to be y\r inf]iors4 ,e/abli% 9 y\r own m9d a c]ta9 rule ( dec5cy & mode/y1 to be att5d$ to 9 all companies1 & at all times1 :e!r at home or abroad4 ,9 all companies1 give ea* "o an opportunity = _! prop] %>e ( conv]sation4 ,rememb] t a talkative1 loquaci\s woman1 a "y woman m especially1 (t5 exposes h] weakness1 & sick5s ! e> ) h] babbl+s4 8,! torr5t ( h] words ov]:elme? conv]sation40 ,!re=e e species ( rud5ess ought to be avoid$ z unbecom+ y\r sex4 ,aga91 frequ5t & l\d laught] do? n become any p]son1 especially a woman1 & a "y woman m especially4 ,!re=e x ought to be avoid$ on all occasions z n belong+ to ! rules ( dec5cy1 & z unbecom+ ! fair sex4 #f4 ,! /ricte/ att5tion mu/ be paid to ! conv]sation :i* y may occasionally h ) ! o!r sex4 ,be n =w>d 9 beg9n+ a conv]sation ) !m2 b be always ready to return all complim5ts t may be giv5 to y ) an easy address1 & 9 a becom+ mann]1 )\t be+ daunt$ or ev5 put to ! blu%4 ,9 ord] to facilitate ?is bus9ess1 endeav\r to treasure up 9 y\r memory1 ^? addresses & complim5ts1 t by con/ant obs]vation1 y may he> drop f ^? :om y deem to be y\r sup]iors2 & endeavor to make !m famili> to y\rself1 s t y may be able to use !m on any occasion1 ) propriety1 )\t ! appe>ance ( affectation or dissimulation4 ,& z y w\ld avoid a prudi% disposition on ! "o h&1 s y mu/ equally avoid a volatile1 idle1 & wanton disposition on ! o!r4 ,to facilitate :i*1 give y\rself m to ?9k+ & less to talk+1 s t :5 y d speak1 y may always speak ) dec5cy1 mode/y1 & propriety4 ,always m9d to speak pla9 & di/9ctly1 & l\d en\gh to be und]/ood1 ) a mode/ smile on y\r face1 )\t a rude look 9 y\r c\nt5ance4 ,b let y\r spee*es be %ort & compreh5sive2 & nev] try to prolong a conv]sation1 unless x be ^u topics t are becom+ y\r sex4 ,b if ! conv]sation %\ld be disagreeable & unbecom+1 endeavor to turn ! att5tion to "s o!r object1 introduce "s o!r topic1 or else f9d an occasion ( abs5ce4 #g4 ,rememb] t ! bloom ( y\r y\?1 y\r heal?y & ruddy c\nt5ances1 ! rose on y\r *eeks1 & ! sp>kl+ vigor ( y\r eyes1 w ga9 y m admir]s ?an real lov]s4 ,"h pause = a few mom5ts & consid]6 = x is ! mo/ delicate po9t = y to /e] ?r\gh & y\r "n & reputation to rema9 unsulli$4 ,h[ (t5 do? ! bloom+ & mo/ promis+ y\?1 by "o fatal mis/ep1 /a9 _! *>act]s ) ignom9y1 & bla/ _! reputation =ev]4 ,x is mu* easi] to avoid temptation1 ?an to resi/ ! deceitful arts ( ! tempt]4 ,! deceitful he>t ( a fond admir]1 out ( a va9 pret5ce ( love & affection1 w "w ^u e passion t wit c inv5t or lu/ sugge/1 9 ord] to allure y\r affections1 intrude ^u y\r *a/ity1 & w9 y ov] to _! fond embraces1 & c>nal appetites4 ,o he$ n _! flatt]ies1 nei!r give way to _! allur+ & lic5ti\s p]suasions6 = :5 !y h ru9$ y1 _! flatt]ies w be turn$ into contempt1 & _! pret5d$ love into d[nright hatr$4 ,& 9 ! end1 !y w ev5 =sake y1 )\t reg>d or pity4 ,!re=e bew>e ( sycophants6 & be n deceiv$ by _! entic+ words6 ,ev5 if !y reproa* y to y\r face = y\r rigor\s treatm5t1 yet beh9d y\r back1 !y w applaud y\r con/ancy4 ,rememb] t ! ta/e may be satiat$ ) ! sweete/ fruit1 :]e !re is a full enjoym5t2 b let a p]son p>ticipate only by anticipation1 & ! ne>] to enjoym5t1 ! m valuable ! prize w be4 #h4 ,le>n to di/+ui% betwe5 true1 g5u9e love1 & m]e fancy4 ,he :o truly loves or respects y1 w n wi% to h y violate y\r honor or *a/ity1 nei!r w he viol5tly intrude ^u ! same1 al?\gh he may endeav\r to prove y\r con/ancy4 ,!re=e :5 y h reason to believe t any "o s9c]ely respects y1 & if y also wi% to cont9ue to be wor?y ( 8 e/eem2 rememb] t y _c d any ?+ m aga9/ y\rself ?an to give ov] y\r *a/ity1 or g beyond rules ( dec5cy4 ,b if y h reason to believe t any "o's pret5d$ love is no?+ m ?an m]e fancy1 :i* w g5]ally %ew itself by a vehem5t fondness2 v[s1 promises1 c4 le>n to treat x ) a sil5t neglect2 = 8 utmo/ wi%es w nev] promote y\r real happ9ess4 #i4 ,be n anxi\s to be admir$ by e "o1 b only be c>eful t ! virtu\s h no occasion to speak evil aga9/ y2 to avoid :i* y h only to live a virtu\s life4 ,keep a due reg>d ov] all y\r words & actions2 n only :5 y are ) ^? :om y e/eem to be virtu\s1 b ev5 if y %\ld happ5 to fall 9 company ) ^? ( ! bas] sort4 ,x ha? be5 an old maxim1 t :5 we are ) ! ,romans1 we mu/ d z ! ,romans d4 ,& ! maxim may be a good "o1 s f> z we c comply ) x1 & n break ov] ! rules ( dec5cy & propriety2 b no f>!r4 ,= x is no rule1 nei!r w x be any excuse = y1 to be loose1 va91 or lascivi\s1 ev5 if y %\ld happ5 to fall 9 company ) p]sons ( ?is description4 ,b ! wis] me?od is1 to avoid all su* company2 = ! *>act]s ( p]sons are (t5 judg$ by ! company !y keep4 ,!re=e1 if y w\ld wi% to avoid ! reproa*es ( e "o1 y mu/ n only ab/a9 f vice y\rself1 b y mu/ =sake ! company ( ! vici\s4 #aj4 ,d n reveal y\r secrets to any "o1 unless x w be z mu* = _! int]e/ to keep1 z x w be = y\rs to h !m kept2 & nev] reveal ! secrets ( o!rs1 :5 x w n injure y to keep !m4 ,nev] make any promise t y d n mean to p]=m2 & fulfil all y\r promises :5 y h once made !m2 unless y f9d t y 7 deceiv$ :5 y made !m1 & !re=e ought n to h promis$4 ,nev] speak ( ! fail+s ( ano!r to a ?ird p]son1 b ) ! greate/ reluctance1 especially ^? ( y\r own sex4 ,if y c say no good ( p]sons1 y _h bett] say no?+ ab\t !m4 ,= z y w\ld n wi% to h y\r own fail+s publi%$ to ! _w1 s y mu/ be exce$+ c>eful n to publi% ! fail+s ( o!rs4 ,b %\ld y discov] a fail+ 9 y\r fri5d1 y may1 & ought to rem9d him or h] ( x1 betwe5 y & !m alone1 b d x ) ! greate/ mode/y4 ,& if y\r fri5ds %\ld tell y ( a fault1 take x k9dly ( !m & endeavor to re=m4 ,nev] appe> to slight ! company ( any "o1 :ile 9 _! pres5ce1 ev5 if x %\ld be disagreeable2 b r endeavor to f9d "s j occasion ( abs5ce1 & avoid _! company = ! future4 ,treat e "o ) civility1 b use no flatt]y nor dissimulation to any "o2 b let ! words ( y\r m\? be ! s5tim5ts ( y\r he>t4 #aa4 ,d n try to outvie all o!rs 9 dress1 c4 b let y\r dress be mode/1 & suit$ to y\r circum/ances4 ,rememb] t a real "* do? n consi/ 9 ! outw>d adorn+s ( ! body1 b 9 ! inw>d adorn+s ( ! m9d & und]/&+4 ,al?\gh a fop1 or a coxcomb1 might be *>m$ at ! sight ( f9e ribbons1 & embroid]$ app>el2 yet ! man ( und]/&+ w look = ! m ref9$ beauties2 ! adornm5ts ( ! m9d4 #ab4 ,b h[ev] y may appe> 9 company1 & abroad1 y\r real "* = la/+ reputation & future happ9ess 9 ! _w1 mu/ be =m$ & e/abli%$ at home2 ev5 9 ! kit*51 & 9 att5d+ to y\r dome/ic conc]ns4 ,"h is :]e y are to =m y\r "*1 n only = happ9ess1 b also = usefulness 9 ! _w4 ,by att5d+ to indu/ry1 cook]y1 & all ! dome/ic employm5ts1 y w qualify y\rself to become ! mi/ress ( a family2 & n only s1 b "h y w prep>e y\rself to be a wor?y companion = a good & hone/ f>m]1 a labori\s me*anic1 a ri* m]*ant1 or ev5 a m9i/] ( ! gospel1 or any o!r "* :atev]4 ,i am will+ to own1 t 0 a flaunt+ beau or a coxcomb1 go+ to *oose a p>tn] = an aft]noon or an ev5+1 he w\ld be likely to make *oice ( "o t 0 set out 9 :at !y are pleas$ to call complete bon ton1 t w\ld please 8 fancy = j a mom5t to pass away an idle h\r4 ,b 0 a virtu\s "y man ab\t to make *oice ( a p>tn] ?r\gh life2 "o ) :om he expect$ to p>ticipate1 n only 9 ! pleasures1 b also 9 ! sorr[s & afflictions ( life2 "o to be 8 bosom companion & mi/ress ( 8 family1 & to travel ) him ?ro' all ! *equ]$ sc5es ( ! ?orny maze ( ?is wild]ness _w2 he w\ld be likely to *oose "o :o 0 /udi\s 9 bus9ess1 well acqua9t$ ) dome/ic conc]ns1 ( an unsulli$ "*1 ) a s(t & easy temp] ( m9d & "o to :om ! c>es ( h] family w\ld be h] *ief delight4 ,su* a companion z ?is w\ld ev] make home agreeable4 ,& :e!r x %\ld be _! =tune to be ri* or poor1 e ?+ w\ld g on h>moni\sly1 & ! dome/ic affairs w\ld be att5d$ to 9 season1 & all ?+s kept 9 prop] ord]4 ,& f9ally to conclude1 we may jo9 ) ! poet1 & say1 t 8,?is man :ile o!rs roam1 ,among ! sons ( /rife2 ,w\ld be always happ'e/ :5 at home1 ,9 conv]se ) 8 wife40 ,,f9is4 ,transcrib]'s ,notes3 ,text 9 italics is enclos$ by und]scores 7italics74 ,punctuation & spell+ inaccuracies 7 sil5tly correct$4 ,ar*aic & v>iable spell+ has be5 pres]v$4 ,v>iations 9 hyph5ation & comp\nd words h be5 pres]v$4