,the ,majesty of ,calmness ,individual ,problems and ,possibilities444 by ,william ,george ,jordan ,author of ,the ,kingship of ,self-,control ,,contents ,i4 ,,the ,,majesty ,,of ,,calmness ,,ii4 ,,hurry1 ,,the ,,scourge ,,of ,,america ,,iii4 ,,the ,,power ,,of ,,personal ,,influence ,,iv4 ,,the ,,dignity ,,of ,,self-,,reliance ,v4 ,,failure ,,as ,a ,,success ,,vi4 ,,doing ,,our ,,best ,,at ,,all ,,times ,,vii4 ,,the ,,royal ,,road ,,to ,,happiness ,i ,the ,majesty of ,calmness ,calmness is the rarest quality in human life4 ,it is the poise of a great nature1 in harmony with itself and its ideals4 ,it is the moral atmosphere of a life self-centred1 self-reliant1 and self-controlled4 ,calmness is singleness of purpose1 absolute confidence1 and conscious power1--ready to be focused in an instant to meet any crisis4 ,the ,sphinx is not a true type of calmness1--petrifaction is not calmness2 it is death1 the silencing of all the energies2 while no one lives his life more fully1 more intensely and more consciously than the man who is calm4 ,the ,fatalist is not calm4 ,he is the coward slave of his environment1 hopelessly surrendering to his present condition1 recklessly indifferent to his future4 ,he accepts his life as a rudderless ship1 drifting on the ocean of time4 ,he has no compass1 no chart1 no known port to which he is sailing4 ,his self-confessed inferiority to all nature is shown in his existence of constant surrender4 ,it is not1--calmness4 ,the man who is calm has his course in life clearly marked on his chart4 ,his hand is ever on the helm4 ,storm1 fog1 night1 tempest1 danger1 hidden reefs1--he is ever prepared and ready for them4 ,he is made calm and serene by the realization that in these crises of his voyage he needs a clear mind and a cool head2 that he has naught to do but to do each day the best he can by the light he has2 that he will never flinch nor falter for a moment2 that1 though he may have to tack and leave his course for a time1 he will never drift1 he will get back into the true channel1 he will keep ever headed toward his harbor4 ,when he will reach it1 how he will reach it1 matters not to him4 ,he rests in calmness1 knowing he has done his best4 ,if his best seem to be overthrown or overruled1 then he must still bow his head1--in calmness4 ,to no man is permitted to know the future of his life1 the finality4 ,god commits to man ever only new beginnings1 new wisdom1 and new days to use the best of his knowledge4 ,calmness comes ever from within4 ,it is the peace and restfulness of the depths of our nature4 ,the fury of storm and of wind agitate only the surface of the sea2 they can penetrate only two or three hundred feet1--below that is the calm1 unruffled deep4 ,to be ready for the great crises of life we must learn serenity in our daily living4 ,calmness is the crown of self-control4 ,when the worries and cares of the day fret you1 and begin to wear upon you1 and you chafe under the friction1--be calm4 ,stop1 rest for a moment1 and let calmness and peace assert themselves4 ,if you let these irritating outside influences get the better of you1 you are confessing your inferiority to them1 by permitting them to dominate you4 ,study the disturbing elements1 each by itself1 bring all the will power of your nature to bear upon them1 and you will find that they will1 one by one1 melt into nothingness1 like vapors fading before the sun4 ,the glow of calmness that will then pervade your mind1 the tingling sensation of an inflow of new strength1 may be to you the beginning of the revelation of the supreme calmness that is possible for you4 ,then1 in some great hour of your life1 when you stand face to face with some awful trial1 when the structure of your ambition and life-work crumbles in a moment1 you will be brave4 ,you can then fold your arms calmly1 look out undismayed and undaunted upon the ashes of your hope1 upon the wreck of what you have faithfully built1 and with brave heart and unfaltering voice you may say3 ,so let it be1--,i will build again4 ,when the tongue of malice and slander1 the persecution of inferiority1 tempts you for just a moment to retaliate1 when for an instant you forget yourself so far as to hunger for revenge1--be calm4 ,when the grey heron is pursued by its enemy1 the eagle1 it does not run to escape2 it remains calm1 takes a dignified stand1 and waits quietly1 facing the enemy unmoved4 ,with the terrific force with which the eagle makes its attack1 the boasted king of birds is often impaled and run through on the quiet1 lance-like bill of the heron4 ,the means that man takes to kill another's character becomes suicide of his own4 ,no man in the world ever attempted to wrong another without being injured in return1--someway1 somehow1 sometime4 ,the only weapon of offence that ,nature seems to recognize is the boomerang4 ,nature keeps her books admirably2 she puts down every item1 she closes all accounts finally1 but she does not always balance them at the end of the month4 ,to the man who is calm1 revenge is so far beneath him that he cannot reach it1--even by stooping4 ,when injured1 he does not retaliate2 he wraps around him the royal robes of ,calmness1 and he goes quietly on his way4 ,when the hand of ,death touches the one we hold dearest1 paralyzes our energy1 and eclipses the sun of our life1 the calmness that has been accumulating in long years becomes in a moment our refuge1 our reserve strength4 ,the most subtle of all temptations is the seeming success of the wicked4 ,it requires moral courage to see1 without flinching1 material prosperity coming to men who are dishonest2 to see politicians rise into prominence1 power and wealth by trickery and corruption2 to see virtue in rags and vice in velvets2 to see ignorance at a premium1 and knowledge at a discount4 ,to the man who is really calm these puzzles of life do not appeal4 ,he is living his life as best he can2 he is not worrying about the problems of justice1 whose solution must be left to ,omniscience to solve4 ,when man has developed the spirit of ,calmness until it becomes so absolutely part of him that his very presence radiates it1 he has made great progress in life4 ,calmness cannot be acquired of itself and by itself2 it must come as the culmination of a series of virtues4 ,what the world needs and what individuals need is a higher standard of living1 a great realizing sense of the privilege and dignity of life1 a higher and nobler conception of individuality4 ,with this great sense of calmness permeating an individual1 man becomes able to retire more into himself1 away from the noise1 the confusion and strife of the world1 which come to his ears only as faint1 far-off rumblings1 or as the tumult of the life of a city heard only as a buzzing hum by the man in a balloon4 ,the man who is calm does not selfishly isolate himself from the world1 for he is intensely interested in all that concerns the welfare of humanity4 ,his calmness is but a ,holy of ,holies into which he can retire from the world to get strength to live in the world4 ,he realizes that the full glory of individuality1 the crowning of his self-control is1--the majesty of calmness4 ,,ii ,hurry1 the ,scourge of ,america ,the first sermon in the world was preached at the ,creation4 ,it was a ,divine protest against ,hurry4 ,it was a ,divine object lesson of perfect law1 perfect plan1 perfect order1 perfect method4 ,six days of work carefully planned1 scheduled and completed were followed by1--rest4 ,whether we accept the story as literal or as figurative1 as the account of successive days or of ages comprising millions of years1 matters little if we but learn the lesson4 ,nature is very un-,american4 ,nature never hurries4 ,every phase of her working shows plan1 calmness1 reliability1 and the absence of hurry4 ,hurry always implies lack of definite method1 confusion1 impatience of slow growth4 ,the ,tower of ,babel1 the world's first skyscraper1 was a failure because of hurry4 ,the workers mistook their arrogant ambition for inspiration4 ,they had too many builders1--and no architect4 ,they thought to make up the lack of a head by a superfluity of hands4 ,this is a characteristic of ,hurry4 ,it seeks ever to make energy a substitute for a clearly defined plan1--the result is ever as hopeless as trying to transform a hobby-horse into a real steed by brisk riding4 ,hurry is a counterfeit of haste4 ,haste has an ideal1 a distinct aim to be realized by the quickest1 direct methods4 ,haste has a single compass upon which it relies for direction and in harmony with which its course is determined4 ,hurry says3 ,i must move faster4 ,i will get three compasses2 ,i will have them different2 ,i will be guided by all of them4 ,one of them will probably be right4 ,hurry never realizes that slow1 careful foundation work is the quickest in the end4 ,hurry has ruined more ,americans than has any other word in the vocabulary of life4 ,it is the scourge of ,america2 and is both a cause and a result of our high-pressure civilization4 ,hurry adroitly assumes so many masquerades of disguise that its identity is not always recognized4 ,hurry always pays the highest price for everything1 and1 usually the goods are not delivered4 ,in the race for wealth men often sacrifice time1 energy1 health1 home1 happiness and honor1--everything that money cannot buy1 the very things that money can never bring back4 ,hurry is a phantom of paradoxes4 ,business men1 in their desire to provide for the future happiness of their family1 often sacrifice the present happiness of wife and children on the altar of ,hurry4 ,they forget that their place in the home should be something greater than being merely the man that pays the bills2 they expect consideration and thoughtfulness that they are not giving4 ,we hear too much of a wife's duties to a husband and too little of the other side of the question4 ,the wife1 they tell us1 should meet her husband with a smile and a kiss1 should tactfully watch his moods and be ever sweetness and sunshine4 ,why this continual swinging of the censer of devotion to the man of business8 ,why should a woman have to look up with timid glance at the face of her husband1 to size up his mood8 ,has not her day1 too1 been one of care1 and responsibility1 and watchfulness8 ,has not mother-love been working over perplexing problems and worries of home and of the training of the children that wifely love may make her seek to solve in secret8 ,is man1 then1 the weaker sex that he must be pampered and treated as tenderly as a boil trying to keep from contact with the world8 ,in their hurry to attain some ambition1 to gratify the dream of a life1 men often throw honor1 truth1 and generosity to the winds4 ,politicians dare to stand by and see a city poisoned with foul water until they see where they come in on a water-works appropriation4 ,if it be necessary to poison an army1--that1 too1 is but an incident in the hurry for wealth4 ,this is the ,age of the ,hothouse4 ,the element of natural growth is pushed to one side and the hothouse and the force-pump are substituted4 ,nature looks on tolerantly as she says3 ,so far you may go1 but no farther1 my foolish children4 ,the educational system of to-day is a monumental institution dedicated to ,hurry4 ,the children are forced to go through a series of studies that sweep the circle of all human wisdom4 ,they are given everything that the ambitious ignorance of the age can force into their minds2 they are taught everything but the essentials1--how to use their senses and how to think4 ,their minds become congested by a great mass of undigested facts1 and still the cruel1 barbarous forcing goes on4 ,you watch it until it seems you cannot stand it a moment longer1 and you instinctively put out your hand and say3 ,stop6 ,this modern slaughter of the ,innocents must not go on6 ,education smiles suavely1 waves her hand complacently toward her thousands of knowledge-prisons over the country1 and says3 ,who are you that dares speak a word against our sacred1 school system8 ,education is in a hurry4 ,because she fails in fifteen years to do what half the time should accomplish by better methods1 she should not be too boastful4 ,incompetence is not always a reason for pride4 ,and they hurry the children into a hundred textbooks1 then into ill-health1 then into the colleges1 then into a diploma1 then into life1--with a dazed mind1 untrained and unfitted for the real duties of living4 ,hurry is the deathblow to calmness1 to dignity1 to poise4 ,the old-time courtesy went out when the new-time hurry came in4 ,hurry is the father of dyspepsia4 ,in the rush of our national life1 the bolting of food has become a national vice4 ,the words ,quick ,lunches might properly be placed on thousands of headstones in our cemeteries4 ,man forgets that he is the only animal that dines2 the others merely feed4 ,why does he abrogate his right to dine and go to the end of the line with the mere feeders8 ,his self-respecting stomach rebels1 and expresses its indignation by indigestion4 ,then man has to go through life with a little bottle of pepsin tablets in his vest-pocket4 ,he is but another victim to this craze for speed4 ,hurry means the breakdown of the nerves4 ,it is the royal road to nervous prostration4 ,everything that is great in life is the product of slow growth2 the newer1 and greater1 and higher1 and nobler the work1 the slower is its growth1 the surer is its lasting success4 ,mushrooms attain their full power in a night2 oaks require decades4 ,a fad lives its life in a few weeks2 a philosophy lives through generations and centuries4 ,if you are sure you are right1 do not let the voice of the world1 or of friends1 or of family swerve you for a moment from your purpose4 ,accept slow growth if it must be slow1 and know the results must come1 as you would accept the long1 lonely hours of the night1--with absolute assurance that the heavy-leaded moments must bring the morning4 ,let us as individuals banish the word ,hurry from our lives4 ,let us care for nothing so much that we would pay honor and self-respect as the price of hurrying it4 ,let us cultivate calmness1 restfulness1 poise1 sweetness1--doing our best1 bearing all things as bravely as we can2 living our life undisturbed by the prosperity of the wicked or the malice of the envious4 ,let us not be impatient1 chafing at delay1 fretting over failure1 wearying over results1 and weakening under opposition4 ,let us ever turn our face toward the future with confidence and trust1 with the calmness of a life in harmony with itself1 true to its ideals1 and slowly and constantly progressing toward their realization4 ,let us see that cowardly word ,hurry in all its most degenerating phases1 let us see that it ever kills truth1 loyalty1 thoroughness2 and let us determine that1 day by day1 we will seek more and more to substitute for it the calmness and repose of a true life1 nobly lived4 ,,iii ,the ,power of ,personal ,influence ,the only responsibility that a man cannot evade in this life is the one he thinks of least1--his personal influence4 ,man's conscious influence1 when he is on dress-parade1 when he is posing to impress those around him1--is woefully small4 ,but his unconscious influence1 the silent1 subtle radiation of his personality1 the effect of his words and acts1 the trifles he never considers1--is tremendous4 ,every moment of life he is changing to a degree the life of the whole world4 ,every man has an atmosphere which is affecting every other4 ,so silent and unconsciously is this influence working1 that man may forget that it exists4 ,all the forces of ,nature1--heat1 light1 electricity and gravitation1--are silent and invisible4 ,we never see them2 we only know that they exist by seeing the effects they produce4 ,in all ,nature the wonders of the seen are dwarfed into insignificance when compared with the majesty and glory of the unseen4 ,the great sun itself does not supply enough heat and light to sustain animal and vegetable life on the earth4 ,we are dependent for nearly half of our light and heat upon the stars1 and the greater part of this supply of life-giving energy comes from invisible stars1 millions of miles from the earth4 ,in a thousand ways ,nature constantly seeks to lead men to a keener and deeper realization of the power and the wonder of the invisible4 ,into the hands of every individual is given a marvellous power for good or for evil1--the silent1 unconscious1 unseen influence of his life4 ,this is simply the constant radiation of what a man really is1 not what he pretends to be4 ,every man1 by his mere living1 is radiating sympathy1 or sorrow1 or morbidness1 or cynicism1 or happiness1 or hope1 or any of a hundred other qualities4 ,life is a state of constant radiation and absorption2 to exist is to radiate2 to exist is to be the recipient of radiations4 ,there are men and women whose presence seems to radiate sunshine1 cheer and optimism4 ,you feel calmed and rested and restored in a moment to a new and stronger faith in humanity4 ,there are others who focus in an instant all your latent distrust1 morbidness and rebellion against life4 ,without knowing why1 you chafe and fret in their presence4 ,you lose your bearings on life and its problems4 ,your moral compass is disturbed and unsatisfactory4 ,it is made untrue in an instant1 as the magnetic needle of a ship is deflected when it passes near great mountains of iron ore4 ,there are men who float down the stream of life like icebergs1--cold1 reserved1 unapproachable and self-contained4 ,in their presence you involuntarily draw your wraps closer around you1 as you wonder who left the door open4 ,these refrigerated human beings have a most depressing influence on all those who fall under the spell of their radiated chilliness4 ,but there are other natures1 warm1 helpful1 genial1 who are like the ,gulf ,stream1 following their own course1 flowing undaunted and undismayed in the ocean of colder waters4 ,their presence brings warmth and life and the glow of sunshine1 the joyous1 stimulating breath of spring4 ,there are men who are like malarious swamps1--poisonous1 depressing and weakening by their very presence4 ,they make heavy1 oppressive and gloomy the atmosphere of their own homes2 the sound of the children's play is stilled1 the ripples of laughter are frozen by their presence4 ,they go through life as if each day were a new big funeral1 and they were always chief mourners4 ,there are other men who seem like the ocean2 they are constantly bracing1 stimulating1 giving new draughts of tonic life and strength by their very presence4 ,there are men who are insincere in heart1 and that insincerity is radiated by their presence4 ,they have a wondrous interest in your welfare1--when they need you4 ,they put on a property smile so suddenly1 when it serves their purpose1 that it seems the smile must be connected with some electric button concealed in their clothes4 ,their voice has a simulated cordiality that long training may have made almost natural4 ,but they never play their part absolutely true1 the mask will slip down sometimes2 their cleverness cannot teach their eyes the look of sterling honesty2 they may deceive some people1 but they cannot deceive all4 ,there is a subtle power of revelation which makes us say3 ,well1 ,i cannot explain how it is1 but ,i know that man is not honest4 ,man cannot escape for one moment from this radiation of his character1 this constantly weakening or strengthening of others4 ,he cannot evade the responsibility by saying it is an unconscious influence4 ,he can select the qualities that he will permit to be radiated4 ,he can cultivate sweetness1 calmness1 trust1 generosity1 truth1 justice1 loyalty1 nobility1--make them vitally active in his character1--and by these qualities he will constantly affect the world4 ,discouragement often comes to honest souls trying to live the best they can1 in the thought that they are doing so little good in the world4 ,trifles unnoted by us may be links in the chain of some great purpose4 ,in #agig1 ,william ,godwin wrote ,the ,inquirer1 a collection of revolutionary essays on morals and politics4 ,this book influenced ,thomas ,malthus to write his ,essay on ,population1 published in #agih4 ,malthus' book suggested to ,charles ,darwin a point of view upon which he devoted many years of his life1 resulting1 in #ahei1 in the publication of ,the ,origin of ,species1--the most influential book of the nineteenth century1 a book that has revolutionized all science4 ,these were but three links of influence extending over sixty years4 ,it might be possible to trace this genealogy of influence back from ,godwin1 through generation and generation1 to the word or act of some shepherd in early ,britain1 watching his flock upon the hills1 living his quiet life1 and dying with the thought that he had done nothing to help the world4 ,men and women have duties to others1--and duties to themselves4 ,in justice to ourselves we should refuse to live in an atmosphere that keeps us from living our best4 ,if the fault be in us1 we should master it4 ,if it be the personal influence of others that1 like a noxious vapor1 kills our best impulses1 we should remove from that influence1--if we can possibly move without forsaking duties4 ,if it be wrong to move1 then we should take strong doses of moral quinine to counteract the malaria of influence4 ,it is not what those around us do for us that counts1--it is what they are to us4 ,we carry our house-plants from one window to another to give them the proper heat1 light1 air and moisture4 ,should we not be at least as careful of ourselves8 ,to make our influence felt we must live our faith1 we must practice what we believe4 ,a magnet does not attract iron1 as iron4 ,it must first convert the iron into another magnet before it can attract it4 ,it is useless for a parent to try to teach gentleness to her children when she herself is cross and irritable4 ,the child who is told to be truthful and who hears a parent lie cleverly to escape some little social unpleasantness is not going to cling very zealously to truth4 ,the parent's words say don't lie1 the influence of the parent's life says do lie4 ,no man can ever isolate himself to evade this constant power of influence1 as no single corpuscle can rebel and escape from the general course of the blood4 ,no individual is so insignificant as to be without influence4 ,the changes in our varying moods are all recorded in the delicate barometers of the lives of others4 ,we should ever let our influence filter through human love and sympathy4 ,we should not be merely an influence1--we should be an inspiration4 ,by our very presence we should be a tower of strength to the hungering human souls around us4 ,,iv ,the ,dignity of ,self-,reliance ,self-confidence1 without self-reliance1 is as useless as a cooking recipe1--without food4 ,self-confidence sees the possibilities of the individual2 self-reliance realizes them4 ,self-confidence sees the angel in the unhewn block of marble2 self-reliance carves it out for himself4 ,the man who is self-reliant says ever3 ,no one can realize my possibilities for me1 but me2 no one can make me good or evil but myself4 ,he works out his own salvation1--financially1 socially1 mentally1 physically1 and morally4 ,life is an individual problem that man must solve for himself4 ,nature accepts no vicarious sacrifice1 no vicarious service4 ,nature never recognizes a proxy vote4 ,she has nothing to do with middle-men1--she deals only with the individual4 ,nature is constantly seeking to show man that he is his own best friend1 or his own worst enemy4 ,nature gives man the option on which he will be to himself4 ,all the athletic exercises in the world are of no value to the individual unless he compel those bars and dumb-bells to yield to him1 in strength and muscle1 the power for which he1 himself1 pays in time and effort4 ,he can never develop his muscles by sending his valet to a gymnasium4 ,the medicine-chests of the world are powerless1 in all the united efforts1 to help the individual until he reach out and take for himself what is needed for his individual weakness4 ,all the religions of the world are but speculations in morals1 mere theories of salvation1 until the individual realize that he must save himself by relying on the law of truth1 as he sees it1 and living his life in harmony with it1 as fully as he can4 ,but religion is not a ,pullman car1 with soft-cushioned seats1 where he has but to pay for his ticket1--and some one else does all the rest4 ,in religion1 as in all other great things1 he is ever thrown back on his self-reliance4 ,he should accept all helps1 but1--he must live his own life4 ,he should not feel that he is a mere passenger2 he is the engineer1 and the train is his life4 ,we must rely on ourselves1 live our own lives1 or we merely drift through existence1--losing all that is best1 all that is greatest1 all that is divine4 ,all that others can do for us is to give us opportunity4 ,we must ever be prepared for the opportunity when it comes1 and to go after it and find it when it does not come1 or that opportunity is to us1--nothing4 ,life is but a succession of opportunities4 ,they are for good or evil1--as we make them4 ,many of the alchemists of old felt that they lacked but one element2 if they could obtain that one1 they believed they could transmute the baser metals into pure gold4 ,it is so in character4 ,there are individuals with rare mental gifts1 and delicate spiritual discernment who fail utterly in life because they lack the one element1--self-reliance4 ,this would unite all their energies1 and focus them into strength and power4 ,the man who is not self-reliant is weak1 hesitating and doubting in all he does4 ,he fears to take a decisive step1 because he dreads failure1 because he is waiting for some one to advise him or because he dare not act in accordance with his own best judgment4 ,in his cowardice and his conceit he sees all his non-success due to others4 ,he is not appreciated1 not recognized1 he is kept down4 ,he feels that in some subtle way society is conspiring against him4 ,he grows almost vain as he thinks that no one has had such poverty1 such sorrow1 such affliction1 such failure as have come to him4 ,the man who is self-reliant seeks ever to discover and conquer the weakness within him that keeps him from the attainment of what he holds dearest2 he seeks within himself the power to battle against all outside influences4 ,he realizes that all the greatest men in history1 in every phase of human effort1 have been those who have had to fight against the odds of sickness1 suffering1 sorrow4 ,to him1 defeat is no more than passing through a tunnel is to a traveller1--he knows he must emerge again into the sunlight4 ,the nation that is strongest is the one that is most self-reliant1 the one that contains within its boundaries all that its people need4 ,if1 with its ports all blockaded it has not within itself the necessities of life and the elements of its continual progress then1--it is weak1 held by the enemy1 and it is but a question of time till it must surrender4 ,its independence is in proportion to its self-reliance1 to its power to sustain itself from within4 ,what is true of nations is true of individuals4 ,the history of nations is but the biography of individuals magnified1 intensified1 multiplied1 and projected on the screen of the past4 ,history is the biography of a nation2 biography is the history of an individual4 ,so it must be that the individual who is most strong in any trial1 sorrow or need is he who can live from his inherent strength1 who needs no scaffolding of commonplace sympathy to uphold him4 ,he must ever be self-reliant4 ,the wealth and prosperity of ancient ,rome1 relying on her slaves to do the real work of the nation1 proved the nation's downfall4 ,the constant dependence on the captives of war to do the thousand details of life for them1 killed self-reliance in the nation and in the individual4 ,then1 through weakened self-reliance and the increased opportunity for idle1 luxurious ease that came with it1 ,rome1 a nation of fighters1 became1--a nation of men more effeminate than women4 ,as we depend on others to do those things we should do for ourselves1 our self-reliance weakens and our powers and our control of them becomes continuously less4 ,man to be great must be self-reliant4 ,though he may not be so in all things1 he must be self-reliant in the one in which he would be great4 ,this self-reliance is not the self-sufficiency of conceit4 ,it is daring to stand alone4 ,be an oak1 not a vine4 ,be ready to give support1 but do not crave it2 do not be dependent on it4 ,to develop your true self-reliance1 you must see from the very beginning that life is a battle you must fight for yourself1--you must be your own soldier4 ,you cannot buy a substitute1 you cannot win a reprieve1 you can never be placed on the retired list4 ,the retired list of life is1--death4 ,the world is busy with its own cares1 sorrows and joys1 and pays little heed to you4 ,there is but one great password to success1--self-reliance4 ,if you would learn to converse1 put yourself into positions where you must speak4 ,if you would conquer your morbidness1 mingle with the bright people around you1 no matter how difficult it may be4 ,if you desire the power that some one else possesses1 do not envy his strength1 and dissipate your energy by weakly wishing his force were yours4 ,emulate the process by which it became his1 depend on your self-reliance1 pay the price for it1 and equal power may be yours4 ,the individual must look upon himself as an investment1 of untold possibilities if rightly developed1--a mine whose resources can never be known but by going down into it and bringing out what is hidden4 ,man can develop his self-reliance by seeking constantly to surpass himself4 ,we try too much to surpass others4 ,if we seek ever to surpass ourselves1 we are moving on a uniform line of progress1 that gives a harmonious unifying to our growth in all its parts4 ,daniel ,morrell1 at one time ,president of the ,cambria ,rail ,works1 that employed #g1jjj men and made a rail famed throughout the world1 was asked the secret of the great success of the works4 ,we have no secret1 he said1 but this1--we always try to beat our last batch of rails4 ,competition is good1 but it has its danger side4 ,there is a tendency to sacrifice real worth to mere appearance1 to have seeming rather than reality4 ,but the true competition is the competition of the individual with himself1--his present seeking to excel his past4 ,this means real growth from within4 ,self-reliance develops it1 and it develops self-reliance4 ,let the individual feel thus as to his own progress and possibilities1 and he can almost create his life as he will4 ,let him never fall down in despair at dangers and sorrows at a distance2 they may be harmless1 like ,bunyan's stone lions1 when he nears them4 ,the man who is self-reliant does not live in the shadow of some one else's greatness2 he thinks for himself1 depends on himself1 and acts for himself4 ,in throwing the individual thus back upon himself it is not shutting his eyes to the stimulus and light and new life that come with the warm pressure of the hand1 the kindly word and the sincere expressions of true friendship4 ,but true friendship is rare2 its great value is in a crisis1--like a lifeboat4 ,many a boasted friend has proved a leaking1 worthless lifeboat when the storm of adversity might make him useful4 ,in these great crises of life1 man is strong only as he is strong from within1 and the more he depends on himself the stronger will he become1 and the more able will he be to help others in the hour of their need4 ,his very life will be a constant help and a strength to others1 as he becomes to them a living lesson of the dignity of self-reliance4 ,v ,failure as a ,success ,it ofttimes requires heroic courage to face fruitless effort1 to take up the broken strands of a life-work1 to look bravely toward the future1 and proceed undaunted on our way4 ,but what1 to our eyes1 may seem hopeless failure is often but the dawning of a greater success4 ,it may contain in its debris the foundation material of a mighty purpose1 or the revelation of new and higher possibilities4 ,some years ago1 it was proposed to send logs from ,canada to ,new ,york1 by a new method4 ,the ingenious plan of ,mr4 ,joggins was to bind great logs together by cables and iron girders and to tow the cargo as a raft4 ,when the novel craft neared ,new ,york and success seemed assured1 a terrible storm arose4 ,in the fury of the tempest1 the iron bands snapped like icicles and the angry waters scattered the logs far and wide4 ,the chief of the ,hydrographic ,department at ,washington heard of the failure of the experiment1 and at once sent word to shipmasters the world over1 urging them to watch carefully for these logs which he described2 and to note the precise location of each in latitude and longitude and the time the observation was made4 ,hundreds of captains1 sailing over the waters of the earth1 noted the logs1 in the ,atlantic ,ocean1 in the ,mediterranean1 in the ,south ,seas--for into all waters did these venturesome ones travel4 ,hundreds of reports were made1 covering a period of weeks and months4 ,these observations were then carefully collated1 systematized and tabulated1 and discoveries were made as to the course of ocean currents that otherwise would have been impossible4 ,the loss of the ,joggins raft was not a real failure1 for it led to one of the great discoveries in modern marine geography and navigation4 ,in our superior knowledge we are disposed to speak in a patronizing tone of the follies of the alchemists of old4 ,but their failure to transmute the baser metals into gold resulted in the birth of chemistry4 ,they did not succeed in what they attempted1 but they brought into vogue the natural processes of sublimation1 filtration1 distillation1 and crystallization2 they invented the alembic1 the retort1 the sand-bath1 the water-bath and other valuable instruments4 ,to them is due the discovery of antimony1 sulphuric ether and phosphorus1 the cupellation of gold and silver1 the determining of the properties of saltpetre and its use in gunpowder1 and the discovery of the distillation of essential oils4 ,this was the success of failure1 a wondrous process of ,nature for the highest growth1--a mighty lesson of comfort1 strength1 and encouragement if man would only realize and accept it4 ,many of our failures sweep us to greater heights of success1 than we ever hoped for in our wildest dreams4 ,life is a successive unfolding of success from failure4 ,in discovering ,america ,columbus failed absolutely4 ,his ingenious reasoning and experiment led him to believe that by sailing westward he would reach ,india4 ,every redman in ,america carries in his name ,indian1 the perpetuation of the memory of the failure of ,columbus4 ,the ,genoese navigator did not reach ,india2 the cargo of souvenirs he took back to ,spain to show to ,ferdinand and ,isabella as proofs of his success1 really attested his failure4 ,but the discovery of ,america was a greater success than was any finding of a back-door to ,india4 ,when ,david ,livingstone had supplemented his theological education by a medical course1 he was ready to enter the missionary field4 ,for over three years he had studied tirelessly1 with all energies concentrated on one aim1--to spread the gospel in ,china4 ,the hour came when he was ready to start out with noble enthusiasm for his chosen work1 to consecrate himself and his life to his unselfish ambition4 ,then word came from ,china that the opium war would make it folly to attempt to enter the country4 ,disappointment and failure did not long daunt him2 he offered himself as missionary to ,africa1--and he was accepted4 ,his glorious failure to reach ,china opened a whole continent to light and truth4 ,his study proved an ideal preparation for his labors as physician1 explorer1 teacher and evangel in the wilds of ,africa4 ,business reverses and the failure of his partner threw upon the broad shoulders and the still broader honor and honesty of ,sir ,walter ,scott a burden of responsibility that forced him to write4 ,the failure spurred him to almost super-human effort4 ,the masterpieces of ,scotch historic fiction that have thrilled1 entertained and uplifted millions of his fellow-men are a glorious monument on the field of a seeming failure4 ,when ,millet1 the painter of the ,angelus worked on his almost divine canvas1 in which the very air seems pulsing with the regenerating essence of spiritual reverence1 he was painting against time1 he was antidoting sorrow1 he was racing against death4 ,his brush strokes1 put on in the early morning hours before going to his menial duties as a railway porter1 in the dusk like that perpetuated on his canvas1--meant strength1 food and medicine for the dying wife he adored4 ,the art failure that cast him into the depths of poverty unified with marvellous intensity all the finer elements of his nature4 ,this rare spiritual unity1 this purging of all the dross of triviality as he passed through the furnace of poverty1 trial1 and sorrow gave eloquence to his brush and enabled him to paint as never before1--as no prosperity would have made possible4 ,failure is often the turning-point1 the pivot of circumstance that swings us to higher levels4 ,it may not be financial success1 it may not be fame2 it may be new draughts of spiritual1 moral or mental inspiration that will change us for all the later years of our life4 ,life is not really what comes to us1 but what we get from it4 ,whether man has had wealth or poverty1 failure or success1 counts for little when it is past4 ,there is but one question for him to answer1 to face boldly and honestly as an individual alone with his conscience and his destiny3 ,how will ,i let that poverty or wealth affect me8 ,if that trial or deprivation has left me better1 truer1 nobler1 then1--poverty has been riches1 failure has been a success4 ,if wealth has come to me and has made me vain1 arrogant1 contemptuous1 uncharitable1 cynical1 closing from me all the tenderness of life1 all the channels of higher development1 of possible good to my fellow-man1 making me the mere custodian of a money-bag1 then1--wealth has lied to me1 it has been failure1 not success2 it has not been riches1 it has been dark1 treacherous poverty that stole from me even ,myself4 ,all things become for us then what we take from them4 ,failure is one of ,god's educators4 ,it is experience leading man to higher things2 it is the revelation of a way1 a path hitherto unknown to us4 ,the best men in the world1 those who have made the greatest real successes look back with serene happiness on their failures4 ,the turning of the face of ,time shows all things in a wondrously illuminated and satisfying perspective4 ,many a man is thankful to-day that some petty success for which he once struggled1 melted into thin air as his hand sought to clutch it4 ,failure is often the rock-bottom foundation of real success4 ,if man1 in a few instances of his life can say1 ,those failures were the best things in the world that could have happened to me1 should he not face new failures with undaunted courage and trust that the miraculous ministry of ,nature may transform these new stumbling-blocks into new stepping-stones8 ,our highest hopes1 are often destroyed to prepare us for better things4 ,the failure of the caterpillar is the birth of the butterfly2 the passing of the bud is the becoming of the rose2 the death or destruction of the seed is the prelude to its resurrection as wheat4 ,it is at night1 in the darkest hours1 those preceding dawn1 that plants grow best1 that they most increase in size4 ,may this not be one of ,nature's gentle showings to man of the times when he grows best1 of the darkness of failure that is evolving into the sunlight of success4 ,let us fear only the failure of not living the right as we see it1 leaving the results to the guardianship of the ,infinite4 ,if we think of any supreme moment of our lives1 any great success1 any one who is dear to us1 and then consider how we reached that moment1 that success1 that friend1 we will be surprised and strengthened by the revelation4 ,as we trace each one1 back1 step by step1 through the genealogy of circumstances1 we will see how logical has been the course of our joy and success1 from sorrow and failure1 and that what gives us most happiness to-day is inextricably connected with what once caused us sorrow4 ,many of the rivers of our greatest prosperity and growth have had their source and their trickling increase into volume among the dark1 gloomy recesses of our failure4 ,there is no honest and true work1 carried along with constant and sincere purpose that ever really fails4 ,if it sometime seem to be wasted effort1 it will prove to us a new lesson of how to walk2 the secret of our failures will prove to us the inspiration of possible successes4 ,man living with the highest aims1 ever as best he can1 in continuous harmony with them1 is a success1 no matter what statistics of failure a near-sighted and half-blind world of critics and commentators may lay at his door4 ,high ideals1 noble efforts will make seeming failures but trifles1 they need not dishearten us2 they should prove sources of new strength4 ,the rocky way may prove safer than the slippery path of smoothness4 ,birds cannot fly best with the wind but against it2 ships do not progress in calm1 when the sails flap idly against the unstrained masts4 ,the alchemy of ,nature1 superior to that of the ,paracelsians1 constantly transmutes the baser metals of failure into the later pure gold of higher success1 if the mind of the worker be kept true1 constant and untiring in the service1 and he have that sublime courage that defies fate to its worst while he does his best4 ,,vi ,doing ,our ,best at ,all ,times ,life is a wondrously complex problem for the individual1 until1 some day1 in a moment of illumination1 he awakens to the great realization that he can make it simple1--never quite simple1 but always simpler4 ,there are a thousand mysteries of right and wrong that have baffled the wise men of the ages4 ,there are depths in the great fundamental questions of the human race that no plummet of philosophy has ever sounded4 ,there are wild cries of honest hunger for truth that seek to pierce the silence beyond the grave1 but to them ever echo back1--only a repetition of their unanswered cries4 ,to us all1 comes1 at times1 the great note of questioning despair that darkens our horizon and paralyzes our effort3 ,if there really be a ,god1 if eternal justice really rule the world1 we say1 why should life be as it is8 ,why do some men starve while others feast2 why does virtue often languish in the shadow while vice triumphs in the sunshine2 why does failure so often dog the footsteps of honest effort1 while the success that comes from trickery and dishonor is greeted with the world's applause8 ,how is it that the loving father of one family is taken by death1 while the worthless incumbrance of another is spared8 ,why is there so much unnecessary pain1 sorrowing and suffering in the world--why1 indeed1 should there be any8 ,neither philosophy nor religion can give any final satisfactory answer that is capable of logical demonstration1 of absolute proof4 ,there is ever1 even after the best explanations1 a residuum of the unexplained4 ,we must then fall back in the eternal arms of faith1 and be wise enough to say1 ,i will not be disconcerted by these problems of life1 ,i will not permit them to plunge me into doubt1 and to cloud my life with vagueness and uncertainty4 ,man arrogates much to himself when he demands from the ,infinite the full solution of all ,his mysteries4 ,i will found my life on the impregnable rock of a simple fundamental truth3--',this glorious creation with its millions of wondrous phenomena pulsing ever in harmony with eternal law must have a ,creator1 that ,creator must be omniscient and omnipotent4 ,but that ,creator ,himself cannot1 in justice1 demand of any creature more than the best that that individual can give4' ,i will do each day1 in every moment1 the best ,i can by the light ,i have2 ,i will ever seek more light1 more perfect illumination of truth1 and ever live as best ,i can in harmony with the truth as ,i see it4 ,if failure come ,i will meet it bravely2 if my pathway then lie in the shadow of trial1 sorrow and suffering1 ,i shall have the restful peace and the calm strength of one who has done his best1 who can look back upon the past with no pang of regret1 and who has heroic courage in facing the results1 whatever they be1 knowing that he could not make them different4 ,upon this life-plan1 this foundation1 man may erect any superstructure of religion or philosophy that he conscientiously can erect2 he should add to his equipment for living every shred of strength and inspiration1 moral1 mental or spiritual that is in his power to secure4 ,this simple working faith is opposed to no creed1 is a substitute for none2 it is but a primary belief1 a citadel1 a refuge where the individual can retire for strength when the battle of life grows hard4 ,a mere theory of life1 that remains but a theory1 is about as useful to a man1 as a gilt-edged menu is to a starving sailor on a raft in mid-ocean4 ,it is irritating but not stimulating4 ,no rule for higher living will help a man in the slightest1 until he reach out and appropriate it for himself1 until he make it practical in his daily life1 until that seed of theory in his mind blossom into a thousand flowers of thought and word and act4 ,if a man honestly seeks to live his best at all times1 that determination is visible in every moment of his living1 no trifle in his life can be too insignificant to reflect his principle of living4 ,the sun illuminates and beautifies a fallen leaf by the roadside as impartially as a towering mountain peak in the ,alps4 ,every drop of water in the ocean is an epitome of the chemistry of the whole ocean2 every drop is subject to precisely the same laws as dominate the united infinity of billions of drops that make that miracle of ,nature1 men call the ,sea4 ,no matter how humble the calling of the individual1 how uninteresting and dull the round of his duties1 he should do his best4 ,he should dignify what he is doing by the mind he puts into it1 he should vitalize what little he has of power or energy or ability or opportunity1 in order to prepare himself to be equal to higher privileges when they come4 ,this will never lead man to that weak content that is satisfied with whatever falls to his lot4 ,it will rather fill his mind with that divine discontent that cheerfully accepts the best1--merely as a temporary substitute for something better4 ,the man who is seeking ever to do his best is the man who is keen1 active1 wide-awake1 and aggressive4 ,he is ever watchful of himself in trifles2 his standard is not ,what will the world say8 but ,is it worthy of me8 ,edwin ,booth1 one of the greatest actors on the ,american stage1 would never permit himself to assume an ungraceful attitude1 even in his hours of privacy4 ,in this simple thing1 he ever lived his best4 ,on the stage every move was one of unconscious grace4 ,those of his company who were conscious of their motions were the awkward ones1 who were seeking in public to undo or to conceal the carelessness of the gestures and motions of their private life4 ,the man who is slipshod and thoughtless in his daily speech1 whose vocabulary is a collection of anaemic commonplaces1 whose repetitions of phrases and extravagance of interjections act but as feeble disguises to his lack of ideas1 will never be brilliant on an occasion when he longs to outshine the stars4 ,living at one's best is constant preparation for instant use4 ,it can never make one over-precise1 self-conscious1 affected1 or priggish4 ,education1 in its highest sense1 is conscious training of mind or body to act unconsciously4 ,it is conscious formation of mental habits1 not mere acquisition of information4 ,one of the many ways in which the individual unwisely eclipses himself1 is in his worship of the fetich of luck4 ,he feels that all others are lucky1 and that whatever he attempts1 fails4 ,he does not realize the untiring energy1 the unremitting concentration1 the heroic courage1 the sublime patience that is the secret of some men's success4 ,their luck was that they had prepared themselves to be equal to their opportunity when it came and were awake to recognize it and receive it4 ,his own opportunity came and departed unnoted1 it would not waken him from his dreams of some untold wealth that would fall into his lap4 ,so he grows discouraged and envies those whom he should emulate1 and he bandages his arm and chloroforms his energies1 and performs his duties in a perfunctory way1 or he passes through life1 just ever sampling lines of activity4 ,the honest1 faithful struggler should always realize that failure is but an episode in a true man's life1--never the whole story4 ,it is never easy to meet1 and no philosophy can make it so1 but the steadfast courage to master conditions1 instead of complaining of them1 will help him on his way2 it will ever enable him to get the best out of what he has4 ,he never knows the long series of vanquished failures that give solidity to some one else's success2 he does not realize the price that some rich man1 the innocent football of political malcontents and demagogues1 has heroicly paid for wealth and position4 ,the man who has a pessimist's doubt of all things2 who demands a certified guarantee of his future2 who ever fears his work will not be recognized or appreciated2 or that after all1 it is really not worth while1 will never live his best4 ,he is dulling his capacity for real progress by his hypnotic course of excuses for inactivity1 instead of a strong tonic of reasons for action4 ,one of the most weakening elements in the individual make-up is the surrender to the oncoming of years4 ,man's self-confidence dims and dies in the fear of age4 ,this new thought1 he says of some suggestion tending to higher development1 is good2 it is what we need4 ,i am glad to have it for my children2 ,i would have been happy to have had some such help when ,i was at school1 but it is too late for me4 ,i am a man advanced in years4 ,this is but blind closing of life to wondrous possibilities4 ,the knell of lost opportunity is never tolled in this life4 ,it is never too late to recognize truth and to live by it4 ,it requires only greater effort1 closer attention1 deeper consecration2 but the impossible does not exist for the man who is self-confident and is willing to pay the price in time and struggle for his success or development4 ,later in life1 the assessments are heavier in progress1 as in life insurance1 but that matters not to that mighty self-confidence that will not grow old while knowledge can keep it young4 ,socrates1 when his hair whitened with the snow of age1 learned to play on instruments of music4 ,cato1 at fourscore1 began his study of ,greek1 and the same age saw ,plutarch beginning1 with the enthusiasm of a boy1 his first lessons in ,latin4 ,the ,character of ,man1 ,theophrastus' greatest work1 was begun on his ninetieth birthday4 ,chaucer's ,canterbury ,tales was the work of the poet's declining years4 ,ronsard1 the father of ,french poetry1 whose sonnets even translation cannot destroy1 did not develop his poetic faculty until nearly fifty4 ,benjamin ,franklin at this age had just taken his really first steps of importance in philosophic pursuits4 ,arnauld1 the theologian and sage1 translated ,josephus in his eightieth year4 ,winckelmann1 one of the most famous writers on classic antiquities1 was the son of a shoemaker1 and lived in obscurity and ignorance until the prime of life4 ,hobbes1 the ,english philosopher1 published his version of the ,odyssey in his eighty-seventh year1 and his ,iliad one year later4 ,chevreul1 the great ,french scientist1 whose untiring labors in the realm of color have so enriched the world1 was busy1 keen and active when ,death called him1 at the age of #ajc4 ,these men did not fear age2 these few names from the great muster-roll of the famous ones who defied the years1 should be voices of hope and heartening to every individual whose courage and confidence is weak4 ,the path of truth1 higher living1 truer development in every phase of life1 is never shut from the individual--until he closes it himself4 ,let man feel this1 believe it and make this faith a real and living factor in his life and there are no limits to his progress4 ,he has but to live his best at all times1 and rest calm and untroubled no matter what results come to his efforts4 ,the constant looking backward to what might have been1 instead of forward to what may be1 is a great weakener of self-confidence4 ,this worry for the old past1 this wasted energy1 for that which no power in the world can restore1 ever lessens the individual's faith in himself1 weakens his efforts to develop himself for the future to the perfection of his possibilities4 ,nature in her beautiful love and tenderness1 says to man1 weakened and worn and weary with the struggle1 ,do in the best way you can the trifle that is under your hand at this moment2 do it in the best spirit of preparation for the future your thought suggests2 bring all the light of knowledge from all the past to aid you4 ,do this and you have done your best4 ,the past is forever closed to you4 ,it is closed forever to you4 ,no worry1 no struggle1 no suffering1 no agony of despair can alter it4 ,it is as much beyond your power as if it were a million years of eternity behind you4 ,turn all that past1 with its sad hours1 weakness and sin1 its wasted opportunities as light2 in confidence and hope1 upon the future4 ,turn it all in fuller truth and light so as to make each trifle of this present a new past it will be joy to look back to2 each trifle a grander1 nobler1 and more perfect preparation for the future4 ,the present and the future you can make from it1 is yours2 the past has gone back1 with all its messages1 all its history1 all its records to the ,god who loaned you the golden moments to use in obedience to ,his law4 ,,vii ,the ,royal ,road to ,happiness ,during my whole life ,i have not had twenty-four hours of happiness4 ,so said ,prince ,bismarck1 one of the greatest statesmen of the nineteenth century4 ,eighty-three years of wealth1 fame1 honors1 power1 influence1 prosperity and triumph1--years when he held an empire in his fingers1--but not one day of happiness6 ,happiness is the greatest paradox in ,nature4 ,it can grow in any soil1 live under any conditions4 ,it defies environment4 ,it comes from within2 it is the revelation of the depths of the inner life as light and heat proclaim the sun from which they radiate4 ,happiness consists not of having1 but of being2 not of possessing1 but of enjoying4 ,it is the warm glow of a heart at peace with itself4 ,a martyr at the stake may have happiness that a king on his throne might envy4 ,man is the creator of his own happiness2 it is the aroma of a life lived in harmony with high ideals4 ,for what a man has1 he may be dependent on others2 what he is1 rests with him alone4 ,what he obtains in life is but acquisition2 what he attains1 is growth4 ,happiness is the soul's joy in the possession of the intangible4 ,absolute1 perfect1 continuous happiness in life1 is impossible for the human4 ,it would mean the consummation of attainments1 the individual consciousness of a perfectly fulfilled destiny4 ,happiness is paradoxic because it may coexist with trial1 sorrow and poverty4 ,it is the gladness of the heart1--rising superior to all conditions4 ,happiness has a number of under-studies1--gratification1 satisfaction1 content1 and pleasure1--clever imitators that simulate its appearance rather than emulate its method4 ,gratification is a harmony between our desires and our possessions4 ,it is ever incomplete1 it is the thankful acceptance of part4 ,it is a mental pleasure in the quality of what one receives1 an unsatisfiedness as to the quantity4 ,it may be an element in happiness1 but1 in itself1--it is not happiness4 ,satisfaction is perfect identity of our desires and our possessions4 ,it exists only so long as this perfect union and unity can be preserved4 ,but every realized ideal gives birth to new ideals1 every step in advance reveals large domains of the unattained2 every feeding stimulates new appetites1--then the desires and possessions are no longer identical1 no longer equal2 new cravings call forth new activities1 the equipoise is destroyed1 and dissatisfaction reenters4 ,man might possess everything tangible in the world and yet not be happy1 for happiness is the satisfying of the soul1 not of the mind or the body4 ,dissatisfaction1 in its highest sense1 is the keynote of all advance1 the evidence of new aspirations1 the guarantee of the progressive revelation of new possibilities4 ,content is a greatly overrated virtue4 ,it is a kind of diluted despair2 it is the feeling with which we continue to accept substitutes1 without striving for the realities4 ,content makes the trained individual swallow vinegar and try to smack his lips as if it were wine4 ,content enables one to warm his hands at the fire of a past joy that exists only in memory4 ,content is a mental and moral chloroform that deadens the activities of the individual to rise to higher planes of life and growth4 ,man should never be contented with anything less than the best efforts of his nature can possibly secure for him4 ,content makes the world more comfortable for the individual1 but it is the death-knell of progress4 ,man should be content with each step of progress merely as a station1 discontented with it as a destination2 contented with it as a step2 discontented with it as a finality4 ,there are times when a man should be content with what he has1 but never with what he is4 ,but content is not happiness2 neither is pleasure4 ,pleasure is temporary1 happiness is continuous2 pleasure is a note1 happiness is a symphony2 pleasure may exist when conscience utters protests2 happiness1--never4 ,pleasure may have its dregs and its lees2 but none can be found in the cup of happiness4 ,man is the only animal that can be really happy4 ,to the rest of the creation belong only weak imitations of the understudies4 ,happiness represents a peaceful attunement of a life with a standard of living4 ,it can never be made by the individual1 by himself1 for himself4 ,it is one of the incidental by-products of an unselfish life4 ,no man can make his own happiness the one object of his life and attain it1 any more than he can jump on the far end of his shadow4 ,if you would hit the bull's-eye of happiness on the target of life1 aim above it4 ,place other things higher than your own happiness and it will surely come to you4 ,you can buy pleasure1 you can acquire content1 you can become satisfied1--but ,nature never put real happiness on the bargain-counter4 ,it is the undetachable accompaniment of true living4 ,it is calm and peaceful2 it never lives in an atmosphere of worry or of hopeless struggle4 ,the basis of happiness is the love of something outside self4 ,search every instance of happiness in the world1 and you will find1 when all the incidental features are eliminated1 there is always the constant1 unchangeable element of love1--love of parent for child2 love of man and woman for each other2 love of humanity in some form1 or a great life work into which the individual throws all his energies4 ,happiness is the voice of optimism1 of faith1 of simple1 steadfast love4 ,no cynic or pessimist can be really happy4 ,a cynic is a man who is morally near-sighted1--and brags about it4 ,he sees the evil in his own heart1 and thinks he sees the world4 ,he lets a mote in his eye eclipse the sun4 ,an incurable cynic is an individual who should long for death1--for life cannot bring him happiness1 death might4 ,the keynote of ,bismarck's lack of happiness was his profound distrust of human nature4 ,there is a royal road to happiness2 it lies in ,consecration1 ,concentration1 ,conquest and ,conscience4 ,consecration is dedicating the individual life to the service of others1 to some noble mission1 to realizing some unselfish ideal4 ,life is not something to be lived through2 it is something to be lived up to4 ,it is a privilege1 not a penal servitude of so many decades on earth4 ,consecration places the object of life above the mere acquisition of money1 as a finality4 ,the man who is unselfish1 kind1 loving1 tender1 helpful1 ready to lighten the burden of those around him1 to hearten the struggling ones1 to forget himself sometimes in remembering others1--is on the right road to happiness4 ,consecration is ever active1 bold and aggressive1 fearing naught but possible disloyalty to high ideals4 ,concentration makes the individual life simpler and deeper4 ,it cuts away the shams and pretences of modern living and limits life to its truest essentials4 ,worry1 fear1 useless regret1--all the great wastes that sap mental1 moral or physical energy must be sacrificed1 or the individual needlessly destroys half the possibilities of living4 ,a great purpose in life1 something that unifies the strands and threads of each day's thinking1 something that takes the sting from the petty trials1 sorrows1 sufferings and blunders of life1 is a great aid to ,concentration4 ,soldiers in battle may forget their wounds1 or even be unconscious of them1 in the inspiration of battling for what they believe is right4 ,concentration dignifies an humble life2 it makes a great life1--sublime4 ,in morals it is a short-cut to simplicity4 ,it leads to right for right's sake1 without thought of policy or of reward4 ,it brings calm and rest to the individual1--a serenity that is but the sunlight of happiness4 ,conquest is the overcoming of an evil habit1 the rising superior to opposition and attack1 the spiritual exaltation that comes from resisting the invasion of the grovelling material side of life4 ,sometimes when you are worn and weak with the struggle2 when it seems that justice is a dream1 that honesty and loyalty and truth count for nothing1 that the devil is the only good paymaster2 when hope grows dim and flickers1 then is the time when you must tower in the great sublime faith that ,right must prevail1 then must you throttle these imps of doubt and despair1 you must master yourself to master the world around you4 ,this is ,conquest2 this is what counts4 ,even a log can float with the current1 it takes a man to fight sturdily against an opposing tide that would sweep his craft out of its course4 ,when the jealousies1 the petty intrigues and the meannesses and the misunderstandings in life assail you1--rise above them4 ,be like a lighthouse that illumines and beautifies the snarling1 swashing waves of the storm that threaten it1 that seek to undermine it and seek to wash over it4 ,this is ,conquest4 ,when the chance to win fame1 wealth1 success or the attainment of your heart's desire1 by sacrifice of honor or principle1 comes to you and it does not affect you long enough even to seem a temptation1 you have been the victor4 ,that too is ,conquest4 ,and ,conquest is part of the royal road to ,happiness4 ,conscience1 as the mentor1 the guide and compass of every act1 leads ever to ,happiness4 ,when the individual can stay alone with his conscience and get its approval1 without using force or specious logic1 then he begins to know what real ,happiness is4 ,but the individual must be careful that he is not appealing to a conscience perverted or deadened by the wrongdoing and subsequent deafness of its owner4 ,the man who is honestly seeking to live his life in ,consecration1 ,concentration and ,conquest1 living from day to day as best he can1 by the light he has1 may rely explicitly on his ,conscience4 ,he can shut his ears to what the world says and find in the approval of his own conscience the highest earthly tribune1--the voice of the ,infinite communing with the ,individual4 ,unhappiness is the hunger to get2 ,happiness is the hunger to give4 ,true happiness must ever have the tinge of sorrow outlived1 the sense of pain softened by the mellowing years1 the chastening of loss that in the wondrous mystery of time transmutes our suffering into love and sympathy with others4 ,if the individual should set out for a single day to give ,happiness1 to make life happier1 brighter and sweeter1 not for himself1 but for others1 he would find a wondrous revelation of what ,happiness really is4 ,the greatest of the world's heroes could not by any series of acts of heroism do as much real good as any individual living his whole life in seeking1 from day to day1 to make others happy4 ,each day there should be fresh resolution1 new strength1 and renewed enthusiasm4 ,just for ,today might be the daily motto of thousands of societies throughout the country1 composed of members bound together to make the world better through constant simple acts of kindness1 constant deeds of sweetness and love4 ,and ,happiness would come to them1 in its highest and best form1 not because they would seek to absorb it1 but1--because they seek to radiate it4