,,female ,,affection4 ,,by ,,basil ,,montagu4 ,,london3 ,j4 ,,bohn1 ,,king ,,william ,,street1 ,,strand4 ,,mdcccxlv4 ,,london3 ,,william ,,stevens1 ,,printer1 ,,bell ,,yard1 ,,temple ,,bar4 ,,to ,,his ,,dear ,,edith1 ,,from ,,her ,,affectionate ,,grandfather4--,b4 ,m4 ,,preface4 ,there are certain properties of the female mind upon which doubt has existed1 and may1 possibly1 long exist4 #a4 ,women are said to be fond of ornament--an evil against which they were thus warned by ,st4 ,paul--8,i will that women adorn themselves in modest apparel1 with shamefacedness and sobriety1 not with embroidered hair1 or gold1 or pearls1 or costly array1 but which becometh women professing godliness1 with good works40 #b4 ,women are said to be fond of gaiety3 8,some men to business1 some to pleasure take10-- but the ruling passion of woman is not the love of business4 #c4 ,it is said that women act more from impulse than from foresight3 8,men have many faults1 women have only two1--0 of which the want of foresight is one4 #d4 ,women1 it is said1 are variable3 ----8,varium et mutabile semper ,fmina40 ,women are fond of intellect1 of courage1 of virtue2 and are capable of the most heroic acts4 ,such are properties of the female mind1 upon which doubt may be entertained2 but there is one property upon which doubt cannot exist--it is the nature of woman to be affectionate4 ,b4 ,m4 ,,female ,,affection4 ,,the ,,pleasures ,,of ,,affection4 ,the pleasures of the affections are ,love1 ,friendship1 ,gratitude1 and general ,benevolence4 8,for the pleasures of the affections10 says ,lord ,bacon1 8we must resort to the poets1 for there affection is on her throne1 there we may find her painted forth to the life40 ,instead of referring us to the poets1 he might1 according to his own admonitions1 have referred us to the certain mode of discovering truth1 by observing facts around us1 and particularly by observing the nature sought1 where it is most conspicuous4 ,in searching1 for any nature1 observe it1 he says1 where it is most conspicuous2 as1 in inquiring into the nature of flame1 observe the sudden ignition and expansion of gas--these are what he calls 8glaring instances40 ,the glaring instance of affection is ,female ,affection2 there indeed she is on her throne1 there we may find her painted forth to the life4 ,it is the nature of woman to be affectionate4 ,i4 ,,female ,,affection ,,in ,,general4 ,,mungo ,,park4 ,when stating the miseries to which he was exposed in ,africa1 ,mungo ,park says1 8,i never1 when in distress and misery1 applied for relief to a female1 without finding pity1--and if she had the power1 assistance40 ,and he thus mentions one instance1--8,i waited10 he says1 8more than two hours for an opportunity to cross that river1 but one of the chief men informed me that ,i must not presume to cross without the ,king's permission2 he therefore advised me to lodge at a distant village1 to which he pointed1 for the night4 ,i found to my great mortification that no person would admit me into his house2--,i was regarded with astonishment and fear1 and was obliged to sit all day without victuals in the shade of a tree2 and the night threatened to be very uncomfortable1 for the wind rose1 and there was great appearance of a heavy rain2 and the wild beasts are so very numerous that ,i should have been under the necessity of climbing up the tree and resting among the branches4 ,about sunset as ,i was preparing to pass the night in this manner1 and had turned my horse loose that he might graze at liberty1 a woman1 returning from the labours of the field1 stopped to observe me1 and perceiving that ,i was weary and dejected1 inquired into my situation1 which ,i briefly explained to her2 whereupon1 with looks of great compassion1 she took up my saddle and bridle1 and told me to follow her4 ,having conducted me into her hut1 she lighted a lamp1 spread a mat on the floor1 and told me ,i might remain there for the night4 ,finding that ,i was hungry1 she gave me a very fine fish for my supper2 and pointing to the mat1 and telling me ,i might sleep there without apprehension1 she called to the female part of her family1 who had stood gazing on me all the while in fixed astonishment1 to resume their task of spinning cotton1 in which they continued to employ themselves great part of the night4 ,they lightened their labour by songs2 one of which was composed ex-tempore--for ,i was1 myself1 the subject of it3 it was sung by one of the young women1 the rest joining in a sort of chorus4 ,the air was sweet and plaintive2 and the words1 literally translated1 were these3-- 8,the winds roared1 and the rains fell1--the poor white man1 faint and weary1 came and sat under our tree1--he has no mother to bring him milk1--no wife to grind his corn4--,chorus--,let us pity the white man1--no mother has he60 c4 ,,griffith4 8,on the northern side of the plain we had just entered1 was a large encampment of these people4 ,being in absolute want of milk1 ,i determined to solicit the assistance of these ,turcomans4 ,approaching their tents1 with gradual step1 and apparent indifference1 ,i passed several1 without observing any probability of succeeding3 children1 only1 were to be seen near the spot where ,i was1 and men with their flocks1 at a certain distance2 advancing still farther1 ,i saw a woman1 at the entrance of a small tent1 occupied in domestic employment4 ,convinced that an appeal to the feelings of the female sex1 offered with decency1 by a man distressed with hunger1 would not be rejected1 ,i held out my wooden bowl1 and reversing it1 made a salutation according to the forms of the country4 ,the kind ,turcomannee covered her face precipitately1 and retired within the tent4 ,i did not advance a step2 she saw me unassuming1--my inverted bowl still explained my wants4 ,the timidity of her sex1 the usages of her country1 and1 even the fear of danger1 gave way to the benevolence of her heart3 she went to the tent again2 returned speedily with a bowl of milk1 and1 advancing towards me with a glance more than half averted1 filled my bowl to the brim1 and vanished40 ,,ledyard4 8,i never addressed myself in the language of decency and friendship to a woman1 whether civilized or savage1 without receiving a decent and friendly answer4 ,with man it has often been otherwise1--in wandering over the barren plains of inhospitable ,denmark1 through honest ,sweden1 frozen ,lapland1 rude and churlish ,finland1 unprincipled ,russia1 and the wide-spread regions of the wandering ,tartar1 if hungry1 dry1 cold1 wet1 or sick1 woman has ever been friendly to me1--and uniformly so2 and to add to this virtue1 so worthy the appellation of benevolence1 these actions have been performed in so kind a manner1 that if ,i was dry1 ,i drank the sweet draught1--and if hungry1 ate the coarse morsel with a double relish40 ,,pharaoh',s ,,daughter4 8,and there went a man of the house of ,levi1 and took to wife a daughter of ,levi4 ,and the woman conceived1 and bare a son3 and when she saw him that he was a goodly child1 she hid him three months4 ,and when she could not longer hide him1 she took for him an ark of bulrushes1 and daubed it with slime and with pitch1 and put the child therein2 and she laid it in the flags by the river's brink4 ,and his sister stood afar off1 to wit what would be done to him4 ,and the daughter of ,pharaoh came down to the river2 and her maidens walked along by the river's side2 and when she saw the ark among the flags1 she sent her maid to fetch it4 ,and when she had opened it1 she saw the child3 and1 behold1 the babe wept4 ,and she had compassion on him1 and said1--,this is one of the ,hebrews' children4 ,then said his sister to ,pharaoh's daughter1 #8,shall ,i go and call to thee a nurse of the ,hebrew women1 that she may nurse the child for thee8' ,and ,pharaoh's daughter said to her1 #8,go4' ,and the maid went and called the child's mother4 ,and ,pharaoh's daughter said unto her1 #8,take this child away1 and nurse it for me1 and ,i will give thee thy wages4' ,and the woman took the child1 and nursed it40 ,,ii4 ,,different ,,forms ,,of ,,female ,,affection4 ,the nature of female affection may be seen in a variety of forms1--in ,infancy1 in the sweet love of ,youth1 of a ,wife1 of a ,mother1 of a ,daughter1 of a ,widow4 ,,infancy4 ,the following is an account which ,i somewhere read of ,nell ,gwynn1 when a child3--8,my first love1 you must know1 was a link-boy10--8,a what80--8',tis true10 said she1 8for all the frightfulness of your what6--and a very good soul he was1 too1 poor ,dick6 and had the heart of a gentleman2 ,god knows what has become of him1 but when ,i last saw him he said he would humbly love me to his dying day4 ,he used to say that ,i must have been a lord's daughter for my beauty1 and that ,i ought to ride in my coach2 and he behaved to me as if ,i did4 ,he1 poor boy1 would light me and my mother home1 when we had sold our oranges1 to our lodgings in ,lewknor's ,lane1 as if we had been ladies of the land4 ,he said he never felt easy for the evening 'till he had asked me how ,i did1 then he went gaily about his work2 and if he saw us housed at night1 he slept like a prince4 ,i shall never forget when he came flushing and stammering1 and drew out of his pocket a pair of worsted stockings1 which he brought for my naked feet4 ,it was bitter cold weather2 and ,i had chilblains1 which made me hobble about 'till ,i cried1--and what does poor ,richard do but work hard like a horse1 and buy me these worsted stockings8 ,my mother bade him put them on2 and so he did1 and his warm tears fell on my chilblains1 and he said he should be the happiest lad on earth if the stockings did me any good40 ,when the ,commissioners visited the ,penitentiary at ,lambeth1 where the prisoners are punished by solitary confinement1 they found in one cell a little girl1 between eleven and twelve years of age4 ,this child must have spent many hours every day in the dark2 was poorly clad1 and scantily fed1 and her young limbs were deprived of all the joyous modes of playful exercise1 so necessary and so pleasant to that age3 she asked neither for food1 nor clothes1 nor light1 nor liberty1--all she wished for was 8a little doll1 that she might dress and nurse it40 ,her innocent and child-like request put an end to this cruel punishment for children4 8,i yesterday took my dear grand-daughter to see ,westminster ,abbey4 ,she is between seven and eight years of age1 and is one of the sweetest angels that ever existed on earth4 ,it was a bitter cold morning3 on the tomb of ,mrs4 ,warren1 who was a mother to poor children1 there is a beautiful statue of a poor half-clothed ,irish girl1 with her little naked baby in her arms2--my dear little child looked up at me1 and1 through her tears1 earnestly said1 #8,how ,i should like to nurse that little baby6'0 ,,youth4 ,of the influence of love upon youth and inexperience1 it can scarcely be necessary to adduce any instances4 ,i must1 however1 mention one fact which occurred during the rebellion in '#de4 8,when ,i was a young boy1 ,i had delicate health1 and was somewhat of a pensive and contemplative turn of mind3 it was my delight in the long summer evenings1 to slip away from my companions1 that ,i might walk in the shade of a venerable wood1 my favourite haunt1 and listen to the cawing of the old rooks1 who seemed as fond of this retreat as ,i was4 8,one evening ,i sat later than usual1 though the distant sound of the cathedral clock had more than once warned me to my home4 ,there was a stillness in all nature that ,i was unwilling to disturb by the least motion4 ,from this reverie ,i was suddenly startled by the sight of a tall slender female who was standing by me1 looking sorrowfully and steadily in my face4 ,she was dressed in white1 from head to foot1 in a fashion ,i had never seen before2 her garments were unusually long and flowing1 and rustled as she glided through the low shrubs near me as if they were made of the richest silk4 ,my heart beat as if ,i was dying1 and ,i knew not that ,i could have stirred from the spot2 but she seemed so very mild and beautiful1 ,i did not attempt it4 ,her pale brown hair was braided round her head1 but there were some locks that strayed upon her neck2 altogether she looked like a lovely picture1 but not like a living woman4 ,i closed my eyes forcibly with my hands1 and when ,i looked again she had vanished4 8,i cannot exactly say why ,i did not on my return speak of this beautiful appearance1 nor why1 with a strange mixture of hope and fear1 ,i went again and again to the same spot that ,i might see her4 ,she always came1 and often in the storm and plashing rain1 that never seemed to touch or to annoy her1 looked sweetly at me1 and silently passed on2 and though she was so near to me1 that once the wind lifted those light straying locks1 and ,i felt them against my cheek1 yet ,i never could move or speak to her4 ,i fell ill2 and when ,i recovered1 my mother closely questioned me of the tall lady1 of whom1 in the height of my fever1 ,i had so often spoken4 8,i cannot tell you what a weight was taken off my spirits when ,i learnt that this was no apparition1 but a most lovely woman2 not young1 though she had kept her young looks1--for the grief which had broken her heart seemed to have spared her beauty4 8,when the rebel troops were retreating after their total defeat1 a young officer1 in that very wood ,i was so fond of1 unable any longer to endure the anguish of his wounds1 sunk from his horse1 and laid himself down to die4 ,he was found there by the daughter of ,sir ,henry ,robinson1 and conveyed by a trusty domestic to her father's mansion4 ,sir ,henry was a loyalist2 but the officer's desperate condition excited his compassion1 and his many wounds spoke a language a brave man could not misunderstand4 ,sir ,henry's daughter with many tears pleaded for him1 and promised that he should be carefully and secretly attended4 ,and well she kept that promise1--for she waited upon him 7her mother being long dead7 for many weeks1 and anxiously watched for the first opening of eyes1 that1 languid as he was1 looked brightly and gratefully upon his young nurse4 ,you may fancy1 better than ,i can tell you1 as he slowly recovered1 all the moments that were spent in reading1 and low-voiced singing1 and gentle playing on the lute2 and how many fresh flowers were brought to one whose wounded limbs would not bear him to gather them for himself2 and how calmly the days glided on in the blessedness of returning health1 and in that sweet silence so carefully enjoined him4 ,i will pass by this1 to speak of one day1 which1 brighter and pleasanter than others1 did not seem more bright or more lovely than the looks of the young maiden1 as she gaily spoke of #8a little festival1 which 7though it must bear an unworthier name7 she meant really to give1 in honour of her guest's recovery2'--#8and it is time1 lady1' said he1 #8for that guest1 so tended and so honoured1 to tell you his whole story1 and speak to you of one who will help him to thank you--may ,i ask you1 fair lady1 to write a little note for me1 which1 even in these times of danger ,i may find some means to forward8' ,to his mother1 no doubt1 she thought1 as with light steps and a lighter heart she seated herself by his couch1 and smilingly bade him dictate3 but1 when he said #8,my ,dear ,wife1' and lifted up his eyes to be asked for more1 he saw before him a pale statue1 that gave him one look of utter despair1 and fell 7for he had no power to help her7 heavily at his feet4 ,those eyes never truly reflected the pure soul again1 or answered by answering looks the fond inquiries of her poor old father4 ,she lived to be as ,i saw her1--sweet1 and gentle1 and delicate always1 but reason returned no more4 ,she visited1 'till the day of her death1 the spot where she first saw that young soldier1 and dressed herself in the very clothes he said so well became her40 ,,the ,,woman ,,in ,,white4 8,in walking through a street in ,london1 ,i saw a crowd of men women and children hooting and laughing at a woman1 who1 looking neither to the right-hand nor to the left1 passed through the midst of them in perfect silence2 upon approaching her1 ,i saw that all this derision was caused by her dress1 which1 equally unsuited to the weather and her apparent rank in life1 was from head to foot entirely white1--her bonnet1 her shawl1 her very shoes were white2 and though all that she wore seemed of the coarsest materials1 her dress was perfectly clean4 ,as ,i walked past her1 ,i looked stedfastly in her face4 ,she was thin and pale1 of a pleasing countenance1 and totally unmoved by the clamour around her4 ,i have since learnt her story3--,the young man to whom she was betrothed died on the bridal-day1 when she and her companions were dressed to go to church3 she lost her senses1--and has ever since1 to use her own words1 been #8expecting her bridegroom4' ,neither insult or privation of any kind can induce her to change the colour of her dress2 she is alike insensible of her bereavement by death1 or of the lapse of time1--#8she is dressed for the bridal1 and the bridegroom is at hand4'0 ,such is the nature of ,woman's ,love--continuing in imagination1 when reality is no more3 8,as once ,i knew a crazy ,moorish maid1 ,who dressed her in her buried lover's clothes1 ,and o'er the smooth spring in the mountain's cleft ,hung with her lute1 and played the selfsame tune ,he used to play1 and listened to the shadow ,herself had made40--,,coleridge4 ,such is the tenderness1 such the intensity of the love of innocence4 ,it has for ever existed1 and will for ever exist1--from ,eve1 on the first day of her creation1 to the many whose hearts at this moment beat with affection and love3 8,all thoughts1 all passions1 all desires1 ,whatever stirs this mortal frame1 ,all are but ministers of ,love1 ,and feed his sacred flame40 ,,wife4 ,let us now consider affection where it appears in one of its sweetest forms1--in the love of a wife1--love1 in the strength of which1 hoping all things1 she does not hesitate to quit her father and her mother and all dear to her to share the joys and sorrows of her husband4 ,in prosperity she delights in his happiness1 in sickness she watches over him1 feeling more grief than she shows4 ,a young soldier1 thus speaks of the affection of his wife3-- 8,for five campaigns ,did my sweet ,lucy know ,each hardship and each toil ,we soldiers undergo4 ,nor ever did she murmur1 ,or at her fate repine1 ,she thought not of her sorrow1 ,but how to lessen mine3 ,in hunger1 or hard marching1 ,whate'er the ill might be1 ,in her ,i found a friend1 ,who ne'er deserted me3 ,and in my tent when wounded1 ,and when ,i sickening lay1 ,oft from my brow with trembling hand1 ,she wiped the damps away4 ,and when this heart1 my ,lucy1 ,shall cease to beat for thee1 ,oh6 cold1 clay cold1 ,full sure this heart must be40 ,,the ,,robber4 8,a friend of mine who had long struggled with a dangerous fever1 approached that crisis on which his life depended1 when sleep1 uninterrupted sleep might ensure his recovery2--his wife1 scarcely daring to breathe1 sat by him2 her servants1 worn out by watching1 had all left her2 it was past midnight1--the room door was open for air2 she heard in the silence of the night a window thrown open below stairs1 and soon after footsteps approaching2 in a short time1 a man came into the room--his face was covered with a black crape3 she instantly saw her husband's danger2 she pointed to him1 and1 pressing her finger upon her lip to implore silence1 held out to the robber her purse and her keys3 to her great surprise he took neither2 he drew back1 and left the room1--whether he was alarmed1 or struck by this courage of affection cannot now be known2 but1 without robbing a house sanctified by such strength of love--he departed40 ,,seneca4 ,how well did the artist to whom we are indebted for the celebrated picture of the ,death of ,seneca1 understand this deep feeling of female affection6 ,it may be said of ,seneca1 as he said of a friend1 8,i have applied myself to liberal studies1 though both the poverty of my condition1 and my own reason might rather have put me upon the making of my fortune4 ,i have given proof1 that all minds are capable of goodness2 and ,i have illustrated the obscurity of my family by the eminency of my virtue4 ,i have preserved my faith in all extremities1 and ,i have ventured my life for it4 ,i have never spoken one word contrary to my conscience1 and ,i have been more solicitous for my friend1 than for myself4 ,i never made any base submissions to any man2 and ,i have never done any thing unworthy of a resolute1 and of an honest man4 ,my mind is raised so much above all dangers1 that ,i have mastered all hazards2 and ,i bless myself in the providence which gave me that experiment of my virtue3 for it was not fit1 methought1 that so great a glory should come cheap4 ,nay1 ,i did not so much as deliberate1 whether good faith should suffer for me1 or ,i for it4 ,i stood my ground1 without laying violent hands upon myself1 to escape the rage of the powerful2 though under ,caligula ,i saw cruelties1 to such a degree1 that to be killed outright was accounted a mercy1 and yet ,i persisted in my honesty1 to show1 that ,i was ready to do more than die for it4 ,my mind was never corrupted with gifts2 and when the humour of avarice was at the height1 ,i never laid my hand upon any unlawful gain4 ,i have been temperate in my diet2 modest in my discourse2 courteous and affable to my inferiors2 and have ever paid a respect and reverence to my betters40 ,such was the man whom the tyrant murdered4 ,he is represented by the artist1 bleeding to death1 the punishment to which he was condemned1--his wife stands by and supports him to his last moment2 such is the affection of a wife4 ,,daughter4 ,to understand the depth of female affection1 as it is manifested in a daughter's love1 it is necessary rightly to understand a law of affection to which as much consideration seems not often to be given as its importance demands4 ,it is a law1 which has been a frequent subject of meditation by observers of the human mind--the law is1 that it is the nature of affection to descend1 seldom to ascend4 ,a few extracts from different authors will explain this law3-- ,du ,moulin1 in his excellent little volume upon ,peace and ,content1 says1 8,of children expect no good1 but the satisfaction to have done them good1 and to see them do well for themselves4 ,for in this relation1 the nature of beneficence is to descend1 seldom to remount40 ,so ,bishop ,taylor1 in his ,life of ,christ1 when speaking of mothers who do not nurse their own children1 says1 8,and if love descends more strongly than it ascends1 and commonly falls from the parents upon the children in cataracts1 and returns back again up to the parents but in small dews1--if the child's affection keeps the same proportions towards such unkind mothers1 it will be as little as atoms in the sun1 and never expresses itself but when the mother needs it not1--that is1 in the sunshine of a clear fortune40 ,so ,fuller says1 in his chapter on ,moderation1 the silken string that runs through the pearl chain of all the virtues1 8yea as love1 doth descend1 and men doat most on their grand-children40 ,the same sentiment1 with the reason in which the truth originates1 has been noticed by our poets4 ,the sweet poet1 ,barry ,cornwall1 says1-- 8,the love of parents1 hath a deep still source1 ,and falleth like a flood upon their child4 ,sometimes the child is grateful1 then his love ,comes like the spray returning40 ,in ,thomson's 8,spring10 the same sentiment1 containing the reason of this provision of nature1 is beautifully explained4 ,having described the bird's nest1 and the mother stealing from the barn a straw1 'till 8soft and warm the habitation grew10 and having described the little birds in their nest1-- 8,oh what passions then1 ,what melting sentiments of kindly care ,do the new parents' seize2 away they fly ,affectionate1 and undesiring bear ,the most delicious morsel to their young1 ,which equally distributed1 again ,the search begins40 ,and when the little birds are able to fly1 the poet thus proceeds1-- 8,but now the feather'd youth their former bounds ,ardent1 disdain1 and weighing oft their wings ,demand the free possession of the sky3 ,this one glad office more1 and then dissolves ,parental love at once1 now needless grown1-- ,unlavish wisdom never works in vain40 ,he has expressed the same sentiment in his description of the eagle1-- 8,high from the summit of a craggy cliff ,hung o'er the deep1 ,the royal eagle draws his vigorous young ,strong-pounced1 and ardent with paternal fire2 ,now fit to raise a kingdom of their own ,he drives them from his fort1 the tow'ring seat ,for ages1 of his empire3 which in peace ,unstained he holds1 while many a league to sea1 ,he wings his course and preys in distant isles40 ,such is the nature of affection in general2 but in a daughter it is so powerful1 that it never quits her4 ,according to the old adage-- 8,my son is my son1 'till he gets him a wife2 ,my daughter's my daughter1 the whole of her life40 ,the pious excellent ,sir ,thomas ,more1 ,chancellor of ,england1 convinced of the unlawfulness of the ,king's marriage1 resigned the ,great ,seal1 and resolved to pass the remainder of his life amidst the charities of home and the consolations of religion4--,erasmus1 speaking of his friend says1 8there is not any man living so affectionate to his children2 you would say there was in that place ,plato's academy1--,i should rather call his house a school or university of ,christian religion1 for their special care is piety and virtue40 ,upon his refusal to take the oath of supremacy1 he was tried for high treason and condemned to be hanged1 drawn1 and quartered1 and his head to be stuck on a pole on ,london bridge4 ,he was executed ,july #eth1 #aece4 ,his body was begged by his daughter ,margaret1 and deposited in the church of ,chelsea2 where a monument1 with an inscription written by himself had been erected some time before4 ,she found means also to procure his head1 after it had remained upon ,london bridge fourteen days3 this she carefully preserved in a leaden chest1 till she conveyed it to ,canterbury1 and placed it under a chapel adjoining to ,st4 ,dunstan's church in that city2 where1 after having survived her father sixteen years1 she according to her desire was buried in the same vault with her father's head in her arms4 ,,mother4 ,of the love of a mother it is scarcely possible to give any adequate description4 ,all that can be said of ,charity1 is most true if it be said of a mother's love1 which hopeth1 believeth1 endureth all things4 ,as the spirit of ,god brooded over the creation1 while it was yet in the womb of the morning1--with such heavenly love does the pure spirit of the mother1 cherish her infant yet unborn4 ,with silent and thankful tears1 she hears the first sound of its little voice1 and straightway forgets all her pain and travail6 ,when she looks upon it1 no matter how homely in the eyes of another1 she thinks that the world contains nothing fairer4 ,who can number her prayers for her infant1 or her fond anticipations of his future advancement8--she remembers that the greatest men have once been helpless children1 and trusts that her little helpless child will one day be a great man2 she treasures his first words in her heart1 and in all his little sayings discovers seeds of wisdom and goodness2 and if after all1 she is doomed to find him deformed in limb1 or weak in intellect1 she dwells upon the sweetness of his disposition1 and the strength of his affections1 and clings to him with a warmer love1 because others think him crippled and unsightly4 ,if her child grows up1 in the fear and nurture of ,god1 and is deserving of her love1 life has no joy like her joy2 and should all her care prove fruitless1 and the misguided youth make her heart sad1 and steep her bread in tears1 though all desert him she clings to him to the last3 in poverty1 in sickness1 in the punishment of his crimes--she1 is there3 the fond mother in the loathsome convict-ship1--in the cell of the condemned1--at the foot of the scaffold6 ,all1 all1 have deserted him1--save ,he who died for him1 and she who gave him birth4 ,such is the nature1 such the constancy of a mother's love4 ,it begins before birth1 and continues after death3 8,there are spun ,around the heart such tender ties1 ,that our own children1 to our eyes1 ,are dearer than the sun40 ,there are four forms in which this love is peculiarly conspicuous3 when1 #ast ,the child is criminal2 #bnd ,the child is sick2 #crd ,the child is dying2 #dth ,the child is dead4 ,this tenderness of a mother's love when the child is criminal1 is beautifully described by ,hogarth1 in his picture of 8,industry and ,idleness10 in that aged woman1 who is clinging with the fondness of hope not quite extinguished1 to her brutal vice-hardened son1 whom she is accompanying to the ship1 which is to bear him away from his native soil1 of which he has been adjudged unworthy1--in whose shocking face every trace of the human countenance seems obliterated1 and a brute beast to be left instead1 shocking and repulsive to all but her who watched over it in its cradle before it was so sadly altered2 and feels it must belong to her while a pulse1 by the vindictive laws of his country1 shall be suffered to beat in it4 ,there is a melancholy instance in the love of a mother for her child1 in the ,old ,bailey ,sessions ,papers1 for the year #agcb1 in the trial of ,john ,waller4 ,it is scarcely possible to conceive a more abandoned miscreant than ,waller4 ,he was at last detected and sentenced to the pillory2 the mob seized him and beat him to death4 ,his dead body was put into a coach and carried to ,newgate4 ,the prisoners refused to receive it2 his mother who was in waiting1 regardless of the infuriated mob1 went into the coach1 and placing his head in her lap1 took away the dead body of her child4 ,at this very instant how many mothers are anxiously watching their sick children--unmindful of their own fatigue1 or food1 or rest6 ,in a storm in the ,yarmouth ,roads a vessel was wrecked1 a young woman was seen clinging to a mast1--she was seen raising her child above the highest wave1 in a wild and vain attempt to save it4 ,on the next morning she was drifting to the shore1 8,and like a common weed ,the sea-swell took her hair40 ,a fire destroyed a house1 in which several lives were lost1 among which a woman and her infant perished4 ,on digging out the ruins1 the mother was found burnt to death1 but on her knees1 holding her infant in a pail of water4 ,a few days since when walking to my chambers1 ,i saw a hearse moving slowly before me4 ,it stopped at the door of a respectable house2 all the windows were closed4 ,a coffin1 covered with blue cloth1 apparently of a child about fourteen was raised into the hearse4 ,i happened to look up2 ,i saw one of the shutters slightly opened1 and a female looking anxiously4 ,the hearse moved on4 ,as the procession turned the corner of the street1 ,i had the curiosity1 not an idle curiosity1 to look back2 ,i saw the same female2 she had partly opened the window4 8,the ,king took the two sons of ,rizpath1 and the five sons of ,michael whom she brought up1 and he delivered them into the hands of the ,gibeonites1 and they hanged them on the hill before the ,lord1 and they fell all seven together1 and were put to death in the days of harvest1 in the first days in the beginning of barley harvest4 8,and ,rizpath took sackcloth and spread it for herself upon the rock1 from the beginning of harvest until water dropped upon them out of heaven1--and suffered neither the birds of the air to rest on them by day1 nor the beasts of the field by night4 ,nor did she cease to watch them1 until ,david1 touched by this depth of affection1 gave them burial with the bones of their forefathers40 ,so too we see in every picture of the ,crucifixion1 the mother standing with patience and resignation at the foot of the cross3 8,she when ,apostles shrank could danger brave1 ,last at his ,cross1 and earliest at his ,grave40 ,,old ,,maids4 ,such is the influence of female affection upon youth3 but to youth it is not confined4 ,it exists at all times of life wherever woman exists4 ,it has been my good fortune to share the friendship of many of a very interesting class of persons1 ,i mean old maids4 ,they have their faults1 who has not8 ,but ,i know well1 that most of them abound with kindness2 which may be seen even by the animals by which they are surrounded1 and by their many misdirected enthusiasms4 8,the inclination to goodness10 says ,lord ,bacon1 8is imprinted deeply in our nature1 insomuch that if it issue not towards men1 it will take unto other living creatures40 ,harriet ,aspin was the youngest of four sisters1 who in their childhood had all a prospect of passing through life with every advantage that beauty and fortune can bestow4 ,but destiny ordained it otherwise4 ,the extravagance of their father abridged the portion of each1 and the little ,harriet had the additional affliction of personal calamities4 ,from a fall which her nurse occasioned1 and concealed1 she contracted a great degree of deformity2 and the injuries that her frame had received from accident1 were completed in what her countenance suffered from that cruel distemper1 by which beauty was so frequently destroyed1 before the happy introduction of innoculation4 ,her countenance and person were wretchedly disfigured2 but her mind still possessed the most valuable of mental powers1 and her heart was embellished by every generous affection4 ,her friends were many3 but she had passed her fortieth year without once hearing the addresses of a single lover2 yet the fancied whisper of this enchanting passion often vibrated in her ear2 for1 with a solid and brilliant understanding1 she was deeply tinctured with this credulous foible4 ,as she advanced towards fifty1 finding her income very narrow1 and her situation unpleasant1 she took shelter in the family of her favourite sister1 married to a good-natured man of easy fortune1 who1 though he had several children1 very readily allowed his wife to afford an asylum1 and administer all the comforts in her power to this unfortunate relation4 ,the good deeds of benevolence rarely pass unrewarded4 ,the obliging temper of ,harriet1 united to infinite wit and vivacity1 contributed to restore the declining health of her sister1 and enlivened the house1 into which she was so kindly admitted4 ,she endeared herself to every branch of it2 but her second nephew1 whose name is ,edward1 became her principal favourite1 and returned her partiality with more esteem and affection than nephews are used to feel for an old maiden aunt4 ,indeed1 there was a striking similarity in their characters1 for they both possessed a very uncommon portion of wit1 with extreme generosity and good-nature4 ,harriet had the most perfect penetration into the foibles of every character but her own1 and had the art of treating them with such tender and salutary mirth1 that she preserved her nephew from a thousand follies1 into which the giddiness of his passions would otherwise have betrayed him2 and1 when he was really fallen into some juvenile scrape1 she never failed to assist him1 both with secret advice1 and the private aid of such little sums of money as she always contrived to save from her slender income1 for the most generous of purposes4 ,it was almost impossible not to love a maiden aunt of so engaging a character2 and ,edward1 whose affections were naturally ardent1 loved her1 indeed1 most sincerely2 but his penetration discovered her foible1 and the vivacity of his spirit often tempted him to sport with it4 ,hitherto1 however1 he had done so in the most harmless manner2 but a circumstance arose1 which fully proved the danger of this ordinary diversion4 ,edward1 being a younger brother1 was designed for the profession of physic4 ,he had studied at ,edinburgh2 and1 returning from thence to ,london1 had brought with him a medical friend1 who was a native of ,savoy1 and was preparing to settle as a physician at ,turin4 ,in the gaiety of his heart1 ,edward informed his aunt ,harriet1 that he had provided her with a husband2 and he enlarged on the excellent qualities of his friend4 ,the ,savoyard was extremely polite1 and1 either attracted by the pleasantry of her conversation1 or touched with medical pity for the striking infelicity of her distorted frame1 he had paid particular attention to ,miss ,aspin2 for1 being yet under fifty1 she had not assumed the title of 8,mrs40 ,this particular attention was fully sufficient to convince the credulous ,harriet1 that her nephew was serious2 but she was unluckily confirmed in that illusion1 by his saying to her one evening1 8,well1 my dear aunt1 my friend is to leave ,england on ,monday2 consider1 on your pillow1 whether you will pass the ,alps1 to settle with him for life1 and let me know your decision before the week expires40 ,the sportive ,edward was very far from supposing1 that these idle words could be productive of any fatal event2 for the health of his aunt was such1 that he considered his proposal of crossing the ,alps full as extravagant as if he had proposed to her to settle in the moon3 but let youth and vigour remember1 that they seldom can form a just estimate of the wishes1 the thoughts1 and feelings of infirmity6--,poor ,harriet had no sooner retired to her chamber1 than she entered into a profound debate with a favourite maid1 who used to sleep in her room1 concerning the dangers of crossing the ,alps1 and the state of her health4 ,in this debate both her heart and her fancy played the part of very able advocates1 and defended a weak cause by an astonishing variety of arguments in its favour4 ,they utterly overpowered her judgment2 but they could not bias the sounder sentence of ,molly1 who was seated on the bench on this occasion4 ,this honest girl1 who happened to have a real lover in ,england1 had many motives to dissuade her mistress from an extravagant project of settling in a foreign country2 and she uttered as many reasons to poor ,harriet against the passage of the ,alps1 as were urged to the son of ,amilcar by his ,carthaginian friends1 when he first talked of traversing those tremendous mountains4 ,the debate was very warm on both sides1 and supported through the greatest part of the night4 ,the spirited ,harriet was horribly fatigued by the discourse1 but utterly unconvinced by the forcible arguments of her opponent4 ,she even believed that the journey would prove a remedy for her asthmatic complaints2 her desire of a matrimonial establishment was full as efficacious as the vinegar of ,hannibal1 and the ,alps melted before it4 ,at the dawn of day she had positively determined to follow the fortunes of the amiable ,savoyard4 ,the peace of mind1 which this decision produced1 afforded her a short slumber2 but on waking1 she was very far from being refreshed1 and found that her unhappy frame had suffered so much from the agitation of her spirit1 and the want of her usual sleep1 that she was unable to appear at breakfast4 ,this1 however1 was a circumstance too common to alarm the family2 for though her cheerfulness never forsook her1 yet her little portion of strength was frequently exhausted1 and her breath often seemed on the very point of departing from her diminutive body4 ,towards noon1 her sister entered her chamber1 to make a kind enquiry concerning her health4 ,it was a warm day in spring2 yet ,harriet1 who was extremely chilly1 had seated herself in a little low chair1 by the side of a large fire4 ,her feet were strangely twisted together2 and1 leaning forward to rest her elbow on her knee1 she supported her head on her right hand4 ,to the affectionate questions of her sister she made no reply2 but1 starting from her reverie1 walked with apparent difficulty across the chamber1 and1 saying1 with a feeble and broken voice1 8,i can never pass the ,alps10 sunk down on the side of her bed1--and with one deep sigh1 but without any convulsive struggle1 expired4 ,whether the much-injured and defective organs of her life were completely worn out by time1 or whether the conflict of different affections1 which had harassed her spirit through the night1 really shortened her existence1 the all-seeing author of it can alone determine4 ,it is certain1 however1 that her death1 and the peculiar circumstances attending it1 produced among her relations the most poignant affliction4 ,as she died without one convulsive motion1 her sister could hardly believe her to be dead2 and as this good lady had not attended to the levities of her son ,edward1 she could not comprehend the last words of ,harriet1 till her faithful servant gave a full and honest account of the nightly conversation which had passed between herself and her departed mistress4 ,as her nephew1 ,edward1 was my intimate friend1 and ,i well knew his regard for this singular little being1 ,i hastened to him the first moment that ,i heard she was no more4 ,i found him under the strongest impression of recent grief1 and in the midst of that self-accusation so natural to a generous spirit upon such an occasion4 ,i endeavoured to comfort him1 by observing1 that death1 which ought1 perhaps1 never to be considered as an evil1 might surely be esteemed a blessing to a person1 whose unfortunate infirmities of body must undoubtedly have been a source of incessant suffering4 8,alas6 my dear friend10 he replied1 8both my heart and my understanding refuse to subscribe to the ideas1 by which you so kindly try to console me4 ,i allow1 indeed1 that her frame was unhappy1 and her health most delicate2 but who had a keener relish of all the genuine pleasures which belong to a lively and a cultivated mind1 and still more1 of all those higher delights1 which are at once the test and the reward of a benevolent heart8 ,it is true1 she had her foibles2 but what right had ,i to sport with them8--to me they ought to have been particularly sacred2 for she never looked upon mine1 but with the most generous indulgence40 8,poor ,harriet60 he would frequently exclaim1--8,poor aunt ,harriet60 ,i have basely abridged thy very weak1 but not unjoyous existence1 by the most unthinking barbarity4 ,i will1 however1 be tender to thy memory2 and ,i wish that ,i could warn the world against the dangerous cruelty of jesting with the credulity of every being who may resemble thee4--,hayley4 ,,the ,,widow4 7,,from ,a ,,very ,,old ,,translation ,,of ,,boccaccio',s ,,falcon47 ,among the multiplicity of his queint discourses ,i remember he told us1 that sometime there lived in ,florence a young gentleman named ,frederigo1 sonne to ,signior ,phillippo ,alberigo1 who was held and reputed both for armes and all other actions beseeming a gentleman1 hardly to have his equal through all ,tuscany4 ,this ,frederigo 7as it is no rare matter in yong gentlemen7 became enamored of a gentlewoman1 named ,madam ,giana1 who was esteemed 7in her time7 to be the fairest and most gracious lady in all ,florence4 ,in which respect1 and to reach the height of his desire1 he made many sumptuous feasts and banquets1 joustes1 tilties1 tournaments1 and all other noble actions of armes1 beside sending her infinite rich and costly presents1 making spare of nothing1 but lashing all out in lauish expence4 ,notwithstanding1 she being no lesse honest then faire1 made no reckoning of whatsoeuer he did for her sake1 or the least respect of his owne person4 ,so that ,frederigo spending thus daily more then his meanes and ability could maintaine1 and no supplies anyway redounding to him1 or his faculties 7as very easily they might7 diminished in such sort1 that he became so poore1 as he had nothing left him1 but a small poore farme to liue vpon1 the silly reuenewes wherof were so meane as scarcely allowed him meat and drink1 yet he had a faire hawke or faulcon hardly anywhere to be fellowed1 so expeditious and sure she was of flight4 ,his low ebbe and poverty no way quailing his loue to the lady1 but rather setting a keener edge thereon3 he saw the city life could no longer containe him1 where he most coueted to abide1 and therefore betook himselfe to his poore countrey farme to let his faulcon get him his dinner and supper1 patiently supporting his penurious estate without suite or meanes making to one for helpe or relief in any such necessity4 ,while thus he continued in this extremity it came to passe1 that the husband of ,madam ,giana fell sicke1 and his debility of body being such1 as little or no hope of life remained1 he made his last will and testament1 ordaining thereby that his sonne 7already grown to indifferent stature7 should be heire to all his lands and riches wherein he abounded very greatly4 ,next vnto him1 if he chanced to die without a lawful heire1 he substituted his wife whom most dearely he affected2 and so departed out of this life4 ,madam ,giana being thus left a widow1 as commonly it is the custome of our city dames1 during the summer season1 she went to a house of her owne in the countrey which was somewhat neare to poore ,frederigo's farme1 and where he liued in such an honest kind of contented pouerty4 ,hereupon the young gentleman1 her sonne1 taking great delight in hounds and hawkes1 grew into familiarity with poor ,frederigo1 and hauing seene many faire flights of his faulcon1 they pleased him so extraordinarily1 that he earnestly desired to enjoy her as his owne3 yet durst not moue the motion for her1 because he saw how choycely ,frederigo esteemed her4 ,within a short while after1 the young gentleman became very sicke1 whereat his mother greued exceedingly 7as having no more but he1 and therefore loved him the more entirely7 neuer parting from him either night or day1 comforting him so kindly as she could1 and demanding if he had a desire to anything1 willing him to reueale it and assuring him withall that 7if it were within compasse of possibility7 he should haue it4 ,the youth hearing how many times she had made him these offers1 and with such vehement protestations of performance1 at last thus spake3-- 8,mother 7quoth he7 if you can do so much for me1 as that ,i may haue ,frederigo's faulcon1 ,i am perswaded1 that my sicknesse will soone cease40 ,the lady hearing this1 sate some short while musing to herselfe1 and began to consider what she might best doe to compasse her sonne's desire1 for well she knew how long a time ,frederigo had most louingly kept it1 not suffering it euer to be out of his sight4 ,moreouer1 shee remembered how earnest in affection he had bene to her1 neuer thinking himselfe happy but onely when he was in her company1 wherefore shee entred into this private consultation with her owne thoughts3 8,shall ,i send1 or goe myself in person1 to request the faulcon of him1 it being the best that euer flew8 ,it is his onely jewell of delight1 and that taken from him1 no longer can he wish to liue in this world4 ,how farre then voyde of vnderstanding shall ,i shew myselfe1 to rob a gentleman of his sole felicity hauing no other joy or comfort left him80 ,these and the like considerations wheeled about her troubled braine1 onely in tender care and loue for her sonne1 perswading herselfe assuredly that the faulcon were her owne1 if she would but request it1 yet1 not knowing whereon it were best to resolue1 shee returned no answer to her sonne1 but sat still in her silent meditations4 ,at the length1 loue to the youth1 so prevailed with her1 that she concluded on his contentation1 and 7come of it what could7 shee would not send for it2 but go herselfe in person to request it1 and then returne home againe with it3 whereupon thus she spake1--8,sonne1 comfort thyselfe1 and let languishing thoughts no longer offend thee1 for here ,i promise thee that the first thing ,i doe to-morrow morning1 shall bee my iourney for the faulcon1 and assure thyselfe that ,i will bring it with me40 ,whereat the youth was so joyed1 that he imagined his sicknesse began instantly a little to leaue him and promised himself speedy recouery4 ,somewhat early the next morning1 the lady1 in care of her sicke son's health1 was up and ready betimes1 and taking another gentlewoman with her1 onely as a morning recreation1 shee walked to ,frederigo's poore country farme1 knowing that it would not a little glad him to see her4 ,at the time of her arriuall there1 he was 7by chance7 in a silly garden1 on the backe of the house1 because 7as yet7 it was no convenient time for flight3 but when he heard ,madam ,giana was come thither and desired to haue some conference with him2 as one almost confounded with admiration1 in all haste he ran to her1 and saluted her with most humble reuerence4 ,she in all modest and gracious manner requited him with the like salutations1 thus speaking to him3 8,signior ,frederigo1 your own best wishes befriend you1 ,i am now come hither to recompence some part of your passed trauailes1 which heretofore you pretended to suffer for my sake1 when your love was more1 then did well become you to offer1 or myselfe to accept4 ,and such is the nature of my recompence1 that ,i make myselfe your guest1 and mean this day to dine with you1 as also this gentlewoman1 making no doubt of our welcome40 ,whereto with lowly reverence1 thus he replyed3 8,madam1 ,i doe not remembre that euer ,i sustained any losse or hindrance by you1 but rather much good1 as if ,i was worth any thing it proceeded from your great deseruings1 and by the service in which ,i did stand engaged to you4 ,but my present happinesse can no way be equalled1--deriued from your super-abounding gracious fauour1 and more than common course of kindnesse1 vouchsafing of your owne liberall nature1--to come and visit so poore a servant4 ,oh1 that ,i had as much to spend againe1 as heretofore riotously ,i have runne thorow3 what a welcome would your poore host bestow vpon you1 for gracing this homely house with your divine presence60 ,with these words he conducted her into his house1 and then into his simple garden1 where1 hauing no convenient company for her1 he said1--8,madam1 the poverty of this place is such1 that it affordeth none fit for your conversation2 this poore woman1 wife to an honest husbandman1 will attend on you1 while ,i 7with some speede7 shall make ready dinner40 ,poore ,frederigo1 although his necessity was extreame1 and his greefe great1--remembering his former inordinate expences1 a moity whereof would now hauve stood him in some stead2 yet he had a heart as free and forward as euer1 not a iotte dejected in his minde1 though vtterly overthrowne by fortune4 ,alas6 how was his good soule afflicted1 that he had nothing wherewith to honour his lady6 ,up and downe he runnes1 one while this way1 then againe another1 exclaiming on his disastrous fate1 like a man enraged or bereft of his senses2 for he had not one penny of mony1 neither pawne or pledge wherewith to procure any4 ,the time hasted on1 and he would gladly 7though in meane measure7 expresse his honourable respect of the lady4 ,to begge of any his nature denied it2 and to borrow he could not1 because his neighbours were all as needie as himselfe4 ,at last1 looking round about1 and seeing his faulcone on her perch1 which he felt to be very plumpe and fat2 ,being voyde of all other helpes in his neede1 and thinking her to be a fowle meete for so noble a lady to feede on1 without any further demurring or delay he pluckt off her neck1 and caused the poor woman presently to pull her feathers3 which being done1 he put her on the spit1 and in a short time she was daintily roasted4 ,himselfe couered the table1 set bread and salt on1--and laid the napkins1 whereof he had but a few left him4 ,going then with chearfull lookes into the garden1 telling the lady that dinner was ready1 and nothing was wanted but her presence2 shee1 and the gentlewoman went in1 and being seted at the table1 not knowing what they fed on1 the faulcon was all their foode3 and ,frederigo not a little ioyfull that his credit was so well saued4 ,when they were risen from the table and had spent some small time in familiar conference1 the lady thought it fit to acquaint him with the reason of her comming thither2 and therefore 7in very kinde manner7 thus began3 8,frederigo1 if you do yet remember your former carriage towards me 7as also my many modest and chaste denials7 which 7perhaps7 you thought to sauour of a harsh1 cruell1 and vn-womanly nature1 ,i make no doubt but you will wonder at my present presumption1 when you vnderstand the occasion which expressely mooued me to come hither4 ,but if you were possessed of children1 or euer had any1 whereby you might comprehend what love in nature is due vnto them3 then ,i durst assure my selfe that you would partly hold me excused4 8,now in regard1 that you neuer had any1 and myselfe 7for my part7 haue but onely one1 ,i stand not exempt from those lawes which are common to other mothers4 ,and being compelled to obey the power of those lawes1 contrary to mine owne will1 and those duties which reason ought to maintaine1 ,i am to request a gift of you1 which ,i am certaine that you doe make most precious account of1 as in manly equity you can doe no lesse4 ,for fortune hath bin so extreamly adverse to you1 that she hath robbed you of all other pleasures1 allowing you no comfort or delight1 but only that poore one1 which is your faire faulcone4 ,of which bird1 my sonne is become so strangely desirous1 as if ,i doe not bring it to him at my comming home1 ,i feare so much the extreamity of his sicknesse1 as nothing can ensue thereon but the losse of life4 ,wherefore1 ,i beseech you1 not in regard to the love you have borne me1 for therby you stande no way obliged1 but in your owne true gentle nature 7the which hath always declared itselfe ready in you1 to do more kinde offices generally than any other gentleman that ,i know71 you will be pleased to giue her me1 or at least1 let me buy her of you4 ,which if you doe1 ,i shall freely confesse that onely by your means my sonne's life is saued1 and we both shall for ever remaine engaged to you40 ,when ,frederigo had heard the ladies request1 which was now quite out of his power to graunt1 because it had bene her service at dinner1 he stood like a man dulled in his sences1 the teares trickling amain downe his cheekes1 and he not able to vtter one word4 ,which she perceiving began to conjecture immediately1 that these tears and passions proceeded rather from greefe of minde1 as being loather to part with his faulcone then any other kinde of manner1 which made her ready to say that she would not haue it4 ,neuerthelesss she did not speake but rather tarried to attend his answer2 which1 after some small respite and pause1 he returned in this manner3 8,madam1 since the houre when first my affection became soly deuoted to your seruice1 fortune hath bene crosse and contrary to me in many occasions1 as iustly1 and in good reason ,i may complaine of her3 yet all seemed light and easie to be indured in comparison of her present malicious contradiction1 to my vtter ouerthrow1 and perpetual mollestation4 ,considering that you are come hither to my poore house1 which 7while ,i was rich and able7 you would not so much as vouchsafe to looke on2 and now you haue requested a small matter of me wherein she hath also crookedly thwarted me1 because she hath disabled me in bestowing so mean a gift1 as your selfe will confesse when it shall be related to you in a few words4 8,so soone as ,i heard that it was your pleasure to dine with me1 hauing regard to your excellency1 and what 7by merit7 is justly due vnto you1 ,i thought it a part of my bounden duty to entertaine you with such exquisite viands as my poore power could any way compasse1 and farre beyond respect or welcome to other common and ordinary persons4 ,whereupon remembering my faulcone1 which now you aske for1 and her goodnesse excelling all other of her kinde1 ,i supposed that she would make a dainty dish for your dyet2 and1 hauing drest her so well as ,i could deuise to do1 you haue fed heartily on her1 and ,i am proud that ,i haue so well bestowne her4 ,but perceiuing now that you would haue her for your sicke sonne1 it is no mean affliction to me that ,i am disabled of yeelding you contentment which all my lifetime ,i haue desired to doe40 ,to approve his words1 the feathers1 feete and beake were brought in2 and when she saw this1 she greatly blamed him for killing so rare a faulcone1 to content the appetite of any woman whatsoeuer4 ,yet she commended his height of spirit which poverty had no power to abase4 ,lastly1 her hopes being frustrate1 for enjoying the faulcone1 and fearing besides the health of her sonne1 she thanked ,frederigo for his honorable kindnesse1 returning home againe sad and melancholly4 ,shortly after1 her sonne1 either greeuing that he could not hauve the faulcone1 or by extreamity of his disease1 chanced to die1 leauing his mother a most woeful lady4 ,after so much time was expired1 as conveniently might agree with sorrow and mourning1 her brethren made many motions to her to joyne herself in marriage againe1 because she was extraordinarily rich and as yet but yong in years4 ,now1 although she was well contented neuer to be married any more1 yet1 being continually importuned by them1 and remembring the honourable honesty of ,frederigo1--his last poore1 yet magnificent dinner1 in killing his faulcone for her sake1--she saide to her brethren3 8,this kinde of widdowed estate doth like me so well1 as willingly ,i would neuer leave it3 but seeing you are so earnest for my second marriage1 let me plainly tell you1 that ,i will neuer accept of any other husband but onely ,frederigo di ,alberino40 ,,conclusion4 ,such are facts1 from which the nature and strength and delicacy of affection may be seen4 ,dear1 dear ,woman6--,let me1--indebted as ,i am to your tenderness and love for every blessing of my life1--let me say1 in the words of the sweet ,northern poet3 8,long since1 this world's thorny ways ,had numbered out my weary days1 ,had it not been for you40 ,william ,stevens1 ,printer1 ,bell ,yard1 ,temple ,bar4 ,,transcriber',s ,,notes3 ,italicized text is surrounded by underscores3 italics4 ,obvious typographical errors have been corrected4 ,the cover image for this e,book was created by the transcriber and is entered into the public domain4