,illu/ration3 ,woman ) two *ildr5 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,little ,,folks4 ,,susie ,,sunbeam',s ,,s]ies4 ,,bo/on3 ,g4 ,w4 ,,cottrell1 ,,publi%]4 #cf ,cornhill4 ,ent]$ accord+ to ,act ( ,congress1 9 ! ye> #ahef1 ,,by ,j4 ,q4 ,,preble1 ,9 ! ,cl]k's ,(fice ( ! ,di/rict ,c\rt ( ! ,unit$ ,/ates = ! ,s\!rn ,di/rict ( ,new-,york4 ,/]eotyp$ by ,,nesmi? ,,teall1 #bi ,beekman ,/reet4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,little ,,folks4 ,,rules ,,= ,,good ,,behavior ,,at ,,home4 ,nev] ent] ! h\se ) y\r hat on1 & always b[ to any /rang]s y may meet at home4 ,if y pass by y\r p>5ts at any place1 :]e y see !m1 ei!r by !mselves or ) company1 always b[ to !m4 ,if y wi% to speak to y\r p>5ts1 & see !m engag$ 9 disc\rse ) company1 draw back1 & leave y\r bus9ess till aft]w>ds2 b if x is really necess>y to speak to !m1 be sure to :isp]4 ,nev] speak to y\r p>5ts )\t "s title ( respect1 z ,sir1 ,madam1 c4 ,dispute n1 nor delay to obey y\r p>5ts' comm&s4 ,g n out ( doors )\t y\r p>5ts' leave1 & be sure to return by ! limit$ "t4 ,nev] grumble1 or %[ discont5t at any ?+ y\r p>5ts appo9t1 speak or d4 ,if any comm& or err& is giv5 y to p]=m1 d x ) alacrity4 ,be> ) meekness & pati5ce1 & )\t murmur+ or sull5ness1 y\r p>5ts' repro(s or corrections1 ev5 if x %\ld sometimes happ5 t !y are undes]v$4 ,nev] make faces or contortions1 nor grimaces1 :ile any "o is giv+ y comm&s4 ,nev] take ano!r's *air1 if x be vacat$ = a %ort "t2 x is impolite4 ,nev] qu>rel ) y\r bro!rs & si/]s1 b live 9 peace & amity4 ,use respectful & c\rte\s language t[>ds all ! dome/ics4 ,nev] be dom9e]+ nor insult+1 = x is ! m>k ( an ignorant & purse-pr\d *ild4 ,,at ,,table4 ,come n to table )\t hav+ y\r h&s & face wa%$1 & y\r hair comb$4 ,sit n d[n until y\r eld]s are seat$4 ,x is unbecom+ to take y\r place fir/4 ,(f] n to c>ve = y\rself1 or to take any?+1 ev5 ?\gh x be some?+ y mu* desire4 ,ask n = any?+1 b t>ry till x be (f]$ to y4 ,f9d no fault ) any?+ t is giv5 y4 ,:5 y are help$1 be n ! fir/ to eat4 ,speak n at table4 ,if o!rs are disc\rs+1 m$dle n ) ! matt]2 b be sil5t1 except :5 spok5 to4 ,if y wi% any?+ f ! s]vants1 call !m s(tly4 ,eat n too fa/1 nor ) gre$y behavior4 ,eat n too mu*1 b mod]ately4 ,eat n s sl[ly z to make o!rs wait = y4 ,make n a noise ) y\r tongue1 m\?1 lips1 or brea?1 9 eat+ or dr9k+4 ,be sure nev] to speak ) food 9 y\r m\?4 ,endeavor s to eat1 t none may see y\r food :ile *ew+4 ,/>e n 9 ! face ( any "o1 especially y\r eld]s1 at ! table4 ,lean n y\r elb[ on ! table1 nor on ! *air back4 ,spit n1 c\gh n1 nor bl[ y\r nose at ! table1 if x c be avoid$2 b if x be necess>y1 d x aside1 & )\t noise4 ,/uff n y\r m\? s mu* z to fill y\r *eeks4 ,be cont5t ) small m\?fuls4 ,bl[ n y\r food :5 too hot1 b wait ) pati5ce till x becomes cool4 ,smell n ( y\r food2 turn n ! o!r side ( x upw>d to view x on y\r plate4 ,spit n =? any?+ t is n conv5i5t to be swall[$1 su* z ! /ones ( plums1 *]ries1 or ! l2 b ) y\r left h&1 neatly move !m to ! side ( y\r plate4 ,fix n y\r eye ^u ! plate ( ano!r1 nor ^u ! food on ! table4 ,lift n up y\r eyes1 nor roll !m ab\t :ile y are dr9k+4 ,b5d y\r body a little d[nw>d to y\r plate1 :5 y move any?+ t is c>ri$ to y\r m\?4 ,look n e>ne/ly on any "o t is eat+4 ,gnaw n bones at ! table1 b cle> !m ) y\r knife1 7unless v small7 & hold !m n ) ! :ole h&1 b ) two f+]s4 ,dr9k n ) any?+ 9 y\r m\?4 ,be=e & aft] y dr9k1 wipe y\r m\? ) y\r napk94 ,nev] pick y\r tee? at table4 ,nev] dr9k till y h q empti$ y\r m\?1 & d n dr9k (t54 ,ent] n 9 company )\t a b[4 ,be c>eful n to turn y\r back to any1 b place y\rself s t none w be beh9d y4 ,lean n on ! *air ( a sup]ior1 /&+ beh9d him4 ,t\* n1 nor look ^u ! books or writ+ ( ano!r1 unless ! own] invite or desire x4 ,come n ne> :5 ano!r reads a lett]1 or o!r pap]4 ,let y\r c\nt5ance be mod]ately *e]ful1 nei!r laugh+ nor fr[n+4 ,to look ^u "o 9 company1 & imm$iately aft] :isp] to ano!r1 is unmann]ly4 ,:isp] n 9 company4 ,be n fr[>d & fretful among y\r equals1 b g5tle & affable4 ,if y _c avoid gap+1 %ut y\r m\?1 ) y\r h& or h&k]*ief be=e x1 turn+ ! face aside4 ,,among ,,o!r ,,*ildr54 ,z ne> z may be1 conv]se n ) any b ^? t are good1 sob]1 & virtu\s3 8,evil communications corrupt good mann]s40 ,reprove y\r companions z (t5 z !re %all be occasion1 = wick$ actions or indec5t expressions4 ,be will+ to take ^? words or actions z je/+1 :i* y h reason to believe 7 design$ z su*4 ,if y\r companion be a little too s>ca/ic 9 speak+1 /rive n to take notice ( x1 or be mov$ at all by x4 ,abuse him n1 ei!r by ^w or de$4 ,deal ju/ly among ^? :o are y\r equals1 z solicit\sly z if y 7 a man ) m51 & ab\t bus9ess ( high] importance4 ,be n selfi% altoge!r1 b k9d1 free1 & g5]\s to o!rs4 ,avoid s9ful & unlawful recreations1 & all su* z prejudice ! welf>e ( body or m9d4 ,scorn n1 nor laugh at any because ( _! infirmities2 nor affix to any "o a vex+ title ( contempt & reproa*2 b pity su* z are s visit$1 & be glad t y are o!rwise di/+ui%$ & favor$4 ,,9 ,,s*ool4 ,b[ at ent]+1 especially if ! tea*] be pres5t4 ,walk quietly to y\r own seat1 & move n f "o place to ano!r till s*ool "t be ov]4 ,if y\r tea*] be conv]s+ ) a /rang]1 />e n at !m1 nor li/5 to _! talk4 ,int]rupt n y\r tea*] :ile a /rang] or visitor is ) him1 b def] any "q or reque/ till he be at leisure4 ,if y\r tea*] speak to y1 rise up & b[1 mak+ y\r answ] /&+4 ,if a /rang] speak to y 9 s*ool1 /& up & answ]1 ) ! same respect & c]emony1 bo? ( ^w & ge/ure1 z if y 7 speak+ to y\r tea*]4 ,make n ha/e out ( s*ool1 b sob]ly retire :5 y\r turn comes1 )\t hurry or noise4 ,g n rudely home ?r\gh ! /reets4 ,/& n talk+ ) boys :o delay y2 b g quietly home1 & ) all conv5i5t spe$4 ,,at ,,*ur*4 ,walk quietly & sob]ly to ! pew2 run n1 nor g play+4 ,sit :]e y are direct$ by y\r p>5ts4 ,*ange n seats1 b cont9ue 9 ! place :]e y are desir$4 ,talk n 9 *ur*4 ,fix y\r eye ^u ! m9i/]2 let x n wildly w&] to gaze on any p]son or ?+4 ,att5d dilig5tly to ! words ( ! m9i/]4 ,pray ) him :5 he prays1 at lea/ 9 y\r he>t2 & :ile he is prea*+1 li/5 att5tively1 t y may rememb]4 ,be n ha/y to run out ( ! *ur* aft] ! wor%ip is end$1 z if y 7 we>y ( be+ !re4 ,walk dec5tly & sob]ly home1 )\t ha/e or playfulness1 ?9k+ ^u :at y h be5 he>+4 ,always rememb] to be punctual at *ur*4 ,nev]1 if x c possibly be avoid$1 di/urb ! s]vices by com+ 9 aft] !y h comm5c$4 ,,9 ,,! ,,/reet4 ,walk quietly & unobtrusively 9 ! /reet1 nei!r s++1 :i/l+1 or %\t+4 ,affront none1 especially y\r eld]s1 by ^w or de$4 ,je] n at any p]son1 :atev]4 ,always give ! "r h& to y\r sup]iors1 7by sup]iors1 ,i d n mean s mu* 9 reg>d to bir?1 z age1 m]it1 & ! light 9 :i* !y are reg>d$ by ! _w17 :5 y ei!r meet or walk ) !m2 & m9d also to give !m ! wall1 9 meet+ or walk+ ) !m2 = t is ! upp] h&1 ?\gh 9 walk+ y\r sup]ior %\ld !n be at y\r left h&4 ,b :5 ?ree p]sons walk toge!r1 ! middle place is ! mo/ honorable2 & a son may walk at 8 fa!r's "r h&1 :ile 8 y\ng] bro!r walks at 8 left4 ,give y\r sup]iors place to pass be=e y1 9 any n>r[ place :]e two p]sons _c pass at once4 ,if y g ) y\r p>5ts1 tea*]1 or any sup]ior1 g n playfully ?r\gh ! /reets4 ,pay y\r respects to all y meet1 ( y\r acqua9tance or fri5ds4 ,x is impolite to />e at e unusual p]son or ?+ :i* y may see 9 ! /reet1 or to use any improp] po/ures1 ei!r ( head1 h&s1 feet1 or body4 ,,to ,,y\r ,,p>5ts4 ,*ildr51 ^! are ! mo/ ess5tial ( ^? rules ( behavior1 ! obs]vance ( :i* w deliv] y f ! disgraceful titles ( sordid & cl[ni%1 & entail ^u y ! honor ( be+ call$ well-br$ *ildr52 = !re is sc>cely a sadd] sight1 ?an a cl[ni% & unmann]ly *ild4 ,avoid1 !re=e1 ) ! greate/ dilig5ce1 s vile an ignom9y4 ,be humble1 submissive1 & ob$i5t to ^? :o h a j claim to y\r subjection1 by nature & provid5ce3 su* are p>5ts1 ma/]s1 or tutors1 ^: comm&s & laws h no o!r t5d5cy ?an y\r true/ good4 ,be always obsequi\s & respectful1 nev] bold1 insol5t1 or saucy1 ei!r 9 words or ge/ures4 ,let y\r body be on e occasion1 pliable1 & ready to manife/1 9 due & becom+ c]emonies1 ! inw>d rev]5ce y be> t[>ds ^? above y4 ,by ^! means1 by timely & e>ly accu/om+ y\rselves to a sweet & spontane\s ob$i5ce 9 y\r y\?ful /ations & relations1 y\r m9ds be+ habituat$ to t :i* is s indisp5sably y\r duty1 ! task ( ob$i5ce 9 f>!r relations w be p]=m$ ) great] ease & pleasure2 & :5 y arrive at manhood1 !re w rema9 9 y\r well-manag$ m9ds no presumptu\s folly1 t may tempt y to be o!r ?an fai?ful & good citiz5s4 ,,to ,,sup]iors4 ,among sup]iors1 speak n till y are spok5 to1 or are ask$ to speak4 ,hold n y\r h&1 nor any?+ else be=e y\r m\? :5 y speak4 ,come n v ne> ! "o y speak to4 ,if y\r sup]ior speak to y :ile y sit1 /& up be=e y give an answ]4 ,speak n v l\d1 nor too l[4 ,answ] n "o :o is speak+ to y1 till he is done4 ,/rive n ) y\r sup]iors1 9 argum5t or disc\rse2 b easily submit y\r op9ion to _! ass]tions4 ,if y\r sup]ior speak any?+ :]e9 y "k he is mi/ak51 correct n1 nor contradict him1 nor laugh at ! he>+ ( x2 b pass ov] ! error1 )\t notice or int]ruption4 ,speak n1 )\t ,sir1 or "s o!r title ( respect1 :i* is due to him to :om y speak4 ,m5tion n frivol\s or little ?+s among grave p]sons or sup]iors4 ,if y\r sup]ior hesitate 9 8 words1 pret5d n to help him out4 ,come n v ne> to two t are :isp]+1 nei!r ask :at !y conv]se ^u4 ,:5 y\r p>5t or ma/] speaks to any p]son1 speak n1 nor he>k5 to !m4 ,if immode/ words be us$ 9 y\r he>+1 smile n1 b settle y\r c\nt5ance1 z if y did n he> x4 ,boa/ n 9 disc\rse ( y\r own wit or do+s4 ,if y\r sup]ior be relat+ a /ory1 say n1 8,i h he>d x be=e10 b att5d to x z if x 7 altoge!r new to y4 ,seem n to "q ! tru? ( x4 ,if he tell x n "r1 sugge/ n1 nor endeavor to help him out1 or add to 8 relation4 ,bew>e h[ y utt] any?+ h>d to be believ$4 ,int]rupt no "o 9 speak+1 ?\gh he be y\r intimate4 ,com+ into company :5 any topic is be+ discuss$1 ask n :at 0 ! prec$+ conv]sation1 b li/5 to ! rema9d]4 ,laugh n 91 or at1 y\r own /ory1 wit or je/4 ,speak+ ( any di/ant p]son1 x is rude & unmann]ly to po9t at him4 ,be n ov] e>ne/ 9 talk+1 to ju/ify y\r own words4 ,let y\r words be mode/1 ab\t ^? ?+s :i* conc]n only y\rself4 ,repeat n ! words ( a sup]ior1 :o asks y a "q1 or talks ) y4 ,illu/ration3 decorative l9e ,,to ,,equals4 ,be k9d1 pleasant1 & lov+1 n cross1 nor *urli%1 to y\r equals2 & 9 ?us behav+ y\rselves1 all p]sons w naturally desire y\r famili> acqua9tance2 e "o w be ready & will+1 ^u opportunity1 to assi/ y4 ,y\r fri5ds w be !n all ^? :o "k y1 & obs]ve ! excell5ce & sweetness ( y\r deportm5t4 ,?is practice1 also1 by induc+ a habit ( oblig+1 w fit y = conv]se & society1 & facilitate & assi/ y\r deal+ ) m5 9 rip] ye>s4 ,illu/ration3 decorative l9e ,,to ,,inf]iors4 ,be meek1 c\rte\s1 & affable to y\r inf]iors2 n pr\d nor scornful4 ,to be c\rte\s1 ev5 to ! l[e/1 is a true index ( a great & g5]\s m9d4 ,b ! insult+ & scornful "o1 :o has be5 himself orig9ally l[1 ignoble1 or begg>ly1 makes himself ridicul\s to 8 equals1 & by 8 inf]iors is repaid ) scorn & hatr$4 ,illu/ration3 decorative l9e ,,recognitions4 ,a g5tleman1 on meet+ a lady ( 8 acqua9tance 9 ! /reet1 or else:]e1 %\ld n presume to b[ to h]1 till %e has fir/ recognis$ him2 or %e may feel compell$ to notice him1 :5 %e w\ld n *oose to d s o!rwise4 ,a g5tleman %\ld nev] recognise a lady1 to :om he has nev] be5 pres5t$1 at a ball or ev5+ p>ty1 & %\ld pass h] z a /rang]1 unless %e *ooses to recognise him1 :5 he %\ld1 z 9 all o!r cases1 return ! salute4 ,a v "y p]son %\ld wait to be recognis$ by "o m advanc$ 9 age4 ,,introductions4 ,on giv+ introductions1 always pres5t a g5tleman to a lady1 save :5 a lady ent]s a room :]e sev]al p]sons are assembl$1 :5 ! lady is pres5t$4 ,v "y p]sons %\ld be pres5t$ to old] ones2 & we %\ld always pres5t individuals to ^? p]sons to :om we owe p>ticul> respect1 on acc\nt ( age1 /ation1 c4 ,x is 9 good ta/e to pres5t bo? p>ties1 m]ely inv]t+ ! ord] ( ! names4 ,,complim5t>y ,,c>ds ,,& ,,notes4 ,miss ,fo/] pres5ts h] complim5ts to ,miss ,edw>ds1 & reque/s ! honor ( h] company at a ,tea-p>ty1 on ,w$nesday aft]noon4 #af ,ar* /reet4 ,tuesday noon4 99 99 99 99 99 ,miss ,edw>ds pres5ts h] respects to ,miss ,fo/]1 & accepts h] k9d invitation ) pleasure4 #cj ,*e/nut /reet4 ,tuesday noon4 99 99 99 99 99 ,miss ,e4 pres5ts h] respects to ,miss ,f41 & regrets t a pre-engagem5t prev5ts h] acceptance ( h] polite invitation4 99 99 99 99 99 ,william ,h>ris pres5ts 8 respectful complim5ts to ,miss ,br[n1 & tru/s %e has exp]i5c$ no ill consequ5ces f h] la/ ev5+'s fatigue at ! assembly4 99 99 99 99 99 ,miss ,br[n f9ds h]self greatly oblig$ by ,mr4 ,h>ris' k9d inquiries1 & is happy to in=m him %e is p]fectly well4 99 99 99 99 99 ,miss ,br[n is greatly oblig$ by ,mr4 ,h>ris' k9d inquiry1 & is sorry to say t %e suff]s "u a sev]e cold1 9 consequ5ce ( la/ ev5+'s amusem5t4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mr4 ,w4 pres5ts 8 complim5ts to ,mr4 ,s41 & hopes1 if ,mr4 ,s4 is dis5gag$1 t he w d9e ) him on ,monday next1 at half-pa/ ?ree o'clock4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mr4 ,s4 pres5ts 8 respects to ,mr4 ,w41 & w avail himself ( 8 k9d invitation ) pleasure4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mr4 ,s4 regrets t indisposition w prev5t him ! honor ( d9+ ) ,mr4 ,w4 on ,monday next4 99 99 99 99 99 ,miss ,dudley's complim5ts to ,mrs4 ,w9dsor1 & w be oblig$ by h] company to d9n] on ,?ursday next1 at ?ree o'clock4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mrs4 ,johnson returns h] be/ respects to ,mr4 ,wilson1 & is greatly indebt$ to him = 8 oblig+ pres5t4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,bri/[ pres5t _! complim5ts to ,mrs4 ,truman1 & hope = ! pleasure ( h] company on ,?ursday ev5+ next1 to tea4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,truman are greatly oblig$ by ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,bri/['s k9d invitation1 & w d !mselves ! honor ( wait+ ^u !m4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,truman are exce$+ly sorry t a pre-engagem5t w prev5t !m f accept+ ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,bri/['s k9d invitation4 ,,d9n] ,,p>ties4 ,:5ev] d9n]s are giv5 to invit$ gue/s1 civility requires t an e>ly answ] %\ld be return$2 = ! prop] word+ ( su* answ]s1 ,i ref] y to ! ,notes ( ,invitation1 :]e full directions are giv54 ,an acceptance1 9 su* a case1 %\ld be z b9d+ z a promissory note2 & no light cause %\ld ev] be all[$ to prev5t y\r fulfill+ y\r engagem5t4 ,want ( punctuality at a d9n] p>ty1 is an affront to ! :ole company1 z well z to ! g5tleman & lady ( ! h\se4 ,a c]emoni\s d9n] requires t ! company be well & h&somely dress$1 ?\gh n 9 su* gay attire z is usually worn at a ball or ev5+ p>ty4 ,arriv$ at ! place1 & disrob$ ( y\r cloak1 let y\r gloves be on1 & ) erect =m & firm /ep1 ent] ! p>lor4 ,look t[>ds ! lady ( ! h\se1 & walk up at once to h]1 n turn+ to ! "r or ! left1 or notic+ any "o1 until y h made y\r b[ to h]1 & to ! ho/4 ,!n y may turn (f t[>ds ! "y p1 & take a seat among !m1 ) t agreeable expression ( sympa?y on y\r face1 :i* enc\rages conv]sation4 ,on ent]+ ! d9+-room1 y mu/ use y\r eyes to discov] :i* "p ( ! table is consid]$ ! mo/ honorable4 ,try to seat y\rself among ! lea/ important portion ( ! company1 unless desir$ by ! lady or g5tleman ( ! h\se to take a p>ticul> seat4 ,:5 fairly seat$ 9 ! "r place1 spread y\r napk9 9 y\r lap to protect y\r dress f accid5t2 take (f y\r gloves1 & put !m 9 y\r lap1 "u y\r napk94 ,:5 y s5d y\r plate = any?+1 :e!r by ! h& ( a s]vant or fri5d1 take (f ! knife & =k1 & lay !m d[n on ! clo?1 support+ ! ends on y\r bread1 or hold !m 9 y\r h& 9 a horizontal position4 ,aft] d9n]1 y are expect$ to take leave m g5]ally & sociably1 ?an aft] any o!r k9d ( p>ty1 except x be a small supp] p>ty4 ,,go+ ,,into ,,company4 ,a "y p]son ought to be able to g into a room1 & address ! company1 )\t ! lea/ emb>rassm5t4 ,ignorance & vice are ! only ?+s ( :i* we ne$ be a%am$4 ,avoid ^!1 & y may g into :at company y w4 ,a mode/ assurance 9 e "p ( life1 is ! mo/ advantage\s qualification we c possibly acquire4 ,illu/ration3 decorative l9e ,,good ,,bre$+4 ,to %[ ! polit5ess ( a true g5tleman1 y mu/ be quick to obs]ve f\r ?+s3 #a4 ,:at y\r place is4 #b4 ,:at is due to e p]son4 #c4 ,h[ to d :at is prop] 9 an agreeable mann]4 #d4 ,h[ to make y\rself acceptable to o!rs1 9 p]son1 mann]s1 & conv]sation4 ,y c be z polite to ! boot-black z to ! ,presid5t4 ,?is is done1 n by an air ( condesc5sion1 b by treat+ him z a man1 accord+ to 8 place4 ,r5d] him 8 due1 & he w be likely to r5d] y y\rs4 ,! same p]son :o is ov]be>+ to 8 inf]iors1 is likely to %[ a cr++ s]vility to 8 sup]iors4 ,bo? faults are m>ks ( a mean & grovel+ m9d4 ,ma9ta9 y\r self-respect1 if y w\ld enjoy ! respect ( o!rs4 ,*]i% t delicacy ( s5tim5t1 t quick sympa?y ) o!rs1 t nice s5se ( ju/ice :i* w make y z reg>dful ( _! feel+s z ( _! m sub/antial rights1 & y w n fail to be polite4 ,)\t ! s5tim5ts ( a g5tleman1 y may "k all ! rules ( polit5ess1 & be scrupul\sly obs]vant ( all ! ext]nal =ms ( good bre$+1 & yet nev] be a g5tleman4 ,9 %ort1 to be a true g5tleman1 y mu/ be g5]\s & noble1 z well z j & c\rte\s4 ,y mu/ be scrupul\sly c>eful to be--,pure 9 body1 pure 9 mann]s1 pure 9 morals1 & pure 9 he>t4 ,foll[ fa%ion mod]ately1 if y w\ld foll[ x gracefully4 ,nev] rely on dress to make y a g5tleman4 ,x is z flimsy a disguise z ! lion's sk9 0 to ! ass2 8 bray+ betray+ him1 & 8 unsuitable attire only made him appe> ! m ridicul\s4 ,a good enunciation is a di/9ctive m>k ( good bre$+4 ,speak y\r words pla9ly & di/9ctly1 & 9 a mod]ate tone ( voice4 ,pron\nce words 9 ! mann] t is us$ by ! be/ br$ p]sons1 b n affect$ly1 or ) a /ra9$ precision4 ,avoid all vulg> or inaccurate v[el s\nds1 z ke[1 ile1 soit1 = c[1 oil1 sight4 ,d n slip or smo!r y\r consonants1 z g5'lm'n = g5tleman1 morn9' = morn+1 c4 ,,cleanl9ess4 ,no "o c please 9 company1 h[ev] graceful 8 air1 unless he be clean & neat 9 8 p]son4 ,he :o is n ?or\ghly clean 9 8 p]son1 w be (f5sive to all ) :om he conv]ses4 ,a p>ticul> reg>d to ! cleanl9ess ( y\r m\?1 tee?1 h&s1 & nails1 is b common dec5cy4 ,a f\l m\? & unclean h&s1 are c]ta9 m>ks ( vulg>ity2 ! fir/ is ! cause ( an (f5sive brea?1 :i* nobody c endure1 & ! la/ is decl>ative ( dirty "w1 & disgraceful neglig5ce to remove ! fil?4 ,"o may always "k a g5tleman by ! /ate ( 8 h&s & nails4 ,! fle% at ! roots %\ld be kept back1 s z to %[ ! semicircles at ! bottom ( ! nails2 ! edges ( ! nails %\ld nev] be cut d[n bel[ ! ends ( ! f+]s1 nor %\ld !y be suff]$ to gr[ long] ?an ! f+]s4 ,= black & dirty tee?1 :]e !y are s\nd1 !re c be no excuse4 ,!y are ! m>k ( a lazy1 vulg> fell[4 ,let me entreat y to =m ! habit ( bru%+ y\r tee?1 e night be=e y sleep4 ,n[1 clean g>m5ts & a clean p]son1 are z necess>y to heal?1 z to prev5t giv+ (f5ce to o!r p4 ,x is a maxim ) me1 :i* ,i h liv$ to see v]ifi$1 t he :o is neglig5t at tw5ty ye>s ( age1 w be a slov5 at =ty1 & intol]able at fifty4 ,illu/ration3 decorative l9e ,,gracefulness4 ,be graceful 9 y\r mann]s4 ,! diff]5t effects ( ! same ?+1 said or done1 :5 accompani$ or des]t$ by graceful mann]s1 is almo/ inconceivable4 ,!y prep>e ! way to ! he>t4 ,f y\r own obs]vations1 reflect :at a disagreeable impression1 an awkw>d address1 a slov5ly figure1 an ungraceful mann] ( speak+1 :e!r flutt]+1 or drawl+1 c41 make ^u y1 at fir/ sight1 9 a /rang]1 & h[ !y prejudice y aga9/ !m4 ,,mode/y4 ,mode/y is a polite accompli%m5t1 & g5]ally att5dant ^u m]it4 ,x is engag+1 9 ! highe/ degree1 & w9s ! he>ts ( all ) :om we are acqua9t$4 ,none are m disgu/+ 9 company1 ?an ! impud5t & presum+4 ,no?+ c atone = ! want ( mode/y2 )\t x1 beauty is ungraceful1 & wit dete/able4 ,be p>ticul>ly c>eful n to speak ( y\rself1 if y c help x4 ,an impud5t p]son intrudes himself abruptly ^u all occasions1 & is ev] ! h]o ( 8 own /ory4 ,! less y say ( y\rself1 ! m ! _w w give y cr$it =2 & ! m y say ( y\rself1 ! less !y w believe y4 ,:atev] p]fections y may h1 be assur$ p w f9d !m out2 b :e!r !y d or n1 nobody w take !m ^u y\r own ^w4 ,,civility4 ,! art ( pleas+ is a v necess>y "o to possess1 b a v difficult "o to acquire4 ,x c h>dly be r$uc$ to rules1 & y\r own good s5se & obs]vation w tea* y m ( x ?an ,i c4 ,d z y w\ld be done by1 is ! sure/ me?od ( pleas+4 ,obs]ve c>efully :at is pleas+ to y 9 o!rs2 & probably ! same ?+s 9 y w please o!rs4 ,if y are pleas$ ) ! complaisance & att5tion ( o!rs to y1 dep5d ^u x1 ! same complaisance & att5tion1 on y\r "p1 w equally please !m4 ,x is n en\gh n to be rude2 y %\ld be civil & di/+ui%$ = y\r good bre$+4 ,! fir/ pr9ciple ( ?is good bre$+ is1 nev] to say any?+ t y ?9k c be disagreeable to anybody 9 company2 b1 on ! contr>y1 y %\ld endeavor to say :at w be agreeable to !m2 & t 9 an easy & natural mann]1 )\t seem+ to /udy = complim5ts4 ,!re is likewise su* a ?+ z a civil look & a rude look2 y %\ld look civil1 z well z be s2 = if1 :ile y are say+ a civil ?+1 y look gruff & surly1 nobody w be oblig$ to y = a civility t seem$ to come s unwill+ly4 ,if y h occasion to contradict any "o1 or to set him "r f a mi/ake1 x w\ld be v brutal to say1 8,t is n s2 ,i "k bett]20 or1 8,y are wrong20 b y %\ld say1 ) a civil look1 8,i beg y\r p>don1 ,i believe y mi/ake20 or1 8,if ,i may take ! lib]ty ( contradict+ y1 ,i believe x is s & s30 =1 ?\gh y may "k a ?+ bett] ?an o!r p1 yet is v disagreeable to tell !m s1 directly1 )\t some?+ to s(t5 x2 b rememb] p>ticul>ly1 t :atev] y may say or d1 ) ev] s civil an int5tion1 a great deal consi/s 9 ! mann] & ! look1 :i* mu/ be g5teel1 easy1 & natural4 ,civility is p>ticul>ly due to all wom52 & rememb] t no provocation :atev] c ju/ify any p]son 9 be+ uncivil to a woman2 & ! greate/ man 9 ! l& w\ld be reckon$ a brute1 if he 0 n civil to ! meane/ woman4 ,x is due to _! sex1 & is ! only protection !y h aga9/ ! sup]ior /r5g? ( ours4 ,,moral ,,"*4 ,!re is no?+ s delicate z y\r moral "*1 & no?+ t x is y\r int]e/ s mu* to pres]ve pure4 ,%\ld y be suspect$ ( inju/ice1 malignity1 p]fidy1 ly+1 c41 all ! p>ts & k 9 ! _w w nev] procure y e/eem1 fri5d%ip1 or respect4 ,a /range concurr5ce ( circum/ances has sometimes rais$ v bad m5 to high /ations2 b !y h be5 rais$1 l crim9als to a pillory1 :]e _! p]sons & _! crimes1 by be+ m conspicu\s1 are only ! m kn[n1 ! m pelt$ & insult$4 ,if 9 any case :atsoev]1 dissimulation 7 p>donable1 x w\ld be 9 ! case ( morality2 ?\gh1 ev5 !n1 a ,ph>asaical pomp ( virtue w\ld n be advisable4 ,b ,i w recomm5d to y a mo/ scrupul\s t5d]ness = y\r moral "*1 & ! utmo/ c>e n to d or say any?+ t may ev] s slightly ta9t x4 ,%[ y\rself1 ^u all occasions1 ! advocate1 ! fri5d1 b n ! bully1 ( virtue4 ,,good ,,bre$+4 ,obs]ve ! be/ & mo/ well-br$ ( ! ,fr5* p2 h[ agreeably !y ins9uate little civilities 9 _! conv]sation4 ,!y ?9k x s ess5tial t !y call an hone/ & a civil man by ! same "n1 ( 8honnete homme20 & ! ,romans call$ civility1 8humanitas10 z ?9k+ x insep>able f humanity3 & dep5d ^u x1 t y\r reputation & success w1 9 a great measure1 dep5d ^u ! degree ( good bre$+ ( :i* y are ma/]4 ,f :at has be5 said1 ,i conclude ) ! obs]vation1 t g5tl5ess ( mann]s1 ) firmness ( m9d1 is a %ort b full description ( human p]fection1 on ?is side ( religi\s & moral duties4 ,transcrib]'s ,notes ,a few m9or errors 9 punctuation & spell+ 7 correct$4