,transcrib]'s ,notes3 ,text enclos$ by und]scores is 9 italics 7italics71 & text enclos$ by equal signs is 9 bold 7bold74 ,additional ,transcrib]'s ,notes are at ! end4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,h[ ,,to ,,get ,,m>ri$ ,,al?\gh ,a ,,woman2 ,,or1 ,,! ,,art ,,( ,,pleas+ ,,m54 ,by 8,a ,,"y ,,wid[40 7,,copyright #ahib ,,by ,j4 ,s4 ,,ogilvie ,,publi%+ ,,co47 ,,ohio ,,c>d ,,co41 ,,columbus ,,ohio 99 99 99 99 99 ,mur9e ,eye ,rem$ies ,illu/ration ,mur9e is a ,reliable ,dome/ic ,eye ,rem$y1 ,p]fectly ,h>mless1 & %\ld be 9 ! ,m$ic9e ,closet ( e ,family1 z a 8,fir/ ,aid0 = ,injuries or ,diseas$ ,conditions ( t delicate organ1 ! ,eye4 ,x does n ,sm>t or ,irritate ! ,eye1 b is ,soo?+ 9 its action4 ,tonic1 ,a/r+5t & an ,antiseptic ,lotion1 & :ile x is us$ by ,physicians x is 9 e s5se a ,dome/ic ,rem$y & c be us$ by e "o ) ,p]fect ,safety = ! ,prev5tion ( ,eye ,tr\bles & = ,affections & ,diseases ( ! ext]nal surface ( ! ,eye & ,lids4 ,recomm5d$ = ,weak ,eyes1 ,/ra9$ ,eyes1 ,it*+ ,eyes1 ,r$ ,eyes & ,eyelids1 = ,well ,eyes t are ,tir$1 = ,r$ ,eyes f ,weep+1 = ,r$ness & ,swell+ ( ! ,eyelids1 & = ,eyes affect$ by ! excessive use ( ,tobacco & ,/imulants4 ,y\r ,druggi/ sells ,mur9e ,eye ,rem$ies4 ,our ,books mail$ ,free1 tell y all ab\t !m & h[ to use !m4 ,may be s5t by mail at foll[+ prices4 ,mur9e ,eye ,rem$y #cj;c41 #fj;c41 #a4jj ,de,luxe ,toilet ,edition--,= ! ,dress+ ,table #a4be ,t\ri/--,autoi/--9 ,lea!r ,case #a4be ,mur9e ,eye ,salve 9 ,aseptic ,tubes #be;c41 #a4jj ,granul9e--,= ,*ronic ,sore ,eyes & ,tra*oma #a4ej ,,mur9e ,,eye ,,rem$y ,,co4 ,no4 ,n9e ,ea/ ,ohio ,/reet1 ,,*icago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,cont5ts4 ,,*apt]4 ,,page4 ,i4 ,girls & ,matrimony #e ,,ii4 ,! ,girl :om ,m5 ,l #bj ,,iii4 ,! ,girl :o ,w9s #da ,,iv4 ,! ,girl :o ,fails #ee ,v4 ,"s ,unfail+ ,me?ods #hd ,,vi4 ,a ,^w ( ,w>n+ #ia ,,vii4 ,! ,secret ( ! ,wid['s ,p[] #ajg ,,viii4 8,lady ,beauty0 #aai ,,ix4 ,! ,lov$ ,wife #abh ,*oice ,selections 9 ,poetry & ,prose #ade 99 99 99 99 99 ,,h[ ,,to ,,get ,,m>ri$1 ,,al?\gh ,a ,,woman4 ,,*apt] ,i4 ,,girls ,,& ,,matrimony4 ,x is natural = girls to wi% to m>ry4 ,! desire to d s is n to be condemn$1 b r applaud$1 = x is ,heav5-born4 ,! ,creator implant$ x 9 ! human he>t1 man & woman alike4 ,god made man = woman & woman = man4 ,he did n int5d t !y %\ld live ap>t f ea* o!r4 ,:5 ,he said1 8,x is n good = man to be alone10 ,he includ$ woman 9 ! man4 ,x is n good = woman to live alone4 ,he put a long+ 9 ! he>t ( man & woman alike :i* is only satisfi$ by ! love ( ! o!r4 ,he made a void 9 ! he>t :i* c only be fill$ by ! companion%ip & love ( "o ( ! opposite sex4 ,man & woman are alike 9 ?is4 ,x is z natural to h] z to him3 %e c no m help x ?an he c4 ,! unnatural "p is t a woman mu/ keep /ill ab\t x1 & if no "o comes to woo1 try to /ifle ! long+4 ,!re are pl5ty :o hold up _! h&s 9 holy horror :5 x is said t a c]ta9 girl wi%es to m>ry4 ,x is no?+ at all out ( ! way :5 ,mr4 ,jones says he has det]m9$ to m>ry4 ,if 8 si/] ,mollie gave voice to su* a s5tim5t1 x w\ld be %ock+1 h[ev]4 ,x w\ld be %ock+ = h] to give expression to ! long+ ! all-wise ,fa!r has implant$ 9 h] he>t4 ,x is a he>t1 too1 t w nev] be satisfi$ ) ye>n+ only1 ) fame1 ) any vocation1 ) dumb animals1 ) o!r p's *ildr52 & x is a wise ?+ x w n4 ,x is n a wise ?+1 h[ev]1 t ,mollie w be condemn$ because %e _c be satisfi$ )\t hav+ a fireside & home ( h] own1 because %e wants a big lov+ fell[ to c>e = h] & to protect h]1 & :om %e c love & make happy1 because %e wants h] own home1 no matt] h[ small x is1 to adorn & make pretty1 h] own h\sekeep+ to look aft]1 h] own & 8 *ildr5 to c>e =2 because %e wants h] own wifehood1 j z h] bro!r wants a wife & home ( 8 own & w n be satisfi$ to be a ba*elor4 ,let him make up 8 m9d to m>ry4 ,! _w w approve ( 8 decision4 ,let ,mollie d ! same ?+4 ,i want to see girls m>ry4 ,i am always glad :5 ,i he> t "o is engag$ to d s4 ,to help "s to d s1 ,i write ^! few *apt]s4 ,!re are too _m old maids4 ,!re are m ?an !re ne$ to be4 ,i feel p>ticul>ly sorry = ! girl :o has pass$ ! l9e ( y\? & :o has no admir]s4 ,h] bro!rs are all m>ri$1 & mo/ ( h] girlhood fri5ds are absorb$ 9 a husb& & a baby4 ,%e has none1 :5 d\btless %e has x )9 h] to make a good wife & "m4 ,%e is (t5 re/less1 unsatisfi$1 disappo9t$4 ,if %e is at all weak-m9d$1 %e becomes s\r z %e gr[s old]4 ,%e gr[s envi\s ( all happily m>ri$ wom51 & has a secret grudge t[>d m5 because %e feels t %e has be5 slight$ by ! sex g5]ally4 ,_m a girl :o w\ld make a good wife is s\r$ by h] failure to become "o1 & turns out an unpleasant memb] ( society4 ,all old maids are n by any means l ?is1 h[ev]4 ,!re are _m unm>ri$ wom5 9 ! _w t w take up *e]fully any fate1 turn+ _! disappo9tm5t into a bless+ = o!rs4 ,b ,i fe> t1 aft] all1 !y g ?r\gh life ) a he>t unsatisfi$4 ,alone1 :5 !y look into ! secret *amb]s ( t uncompla9+ he>t1 !y see !re ! old long+s = love4 ,!re are unm>ri$ wom5 :o d a great deal ( good 9 ! _w4 ,!y accept _! solit>y lot z ! w ( ! ,heav5ly ,fa!r4 ,b is x ,8 w8 ,does ,he give ! he>t long+s :i* ,he w n satisfy8 ,no4 ,a ?\s& times1 ,no4 ,t w\ld be tantaliz+ u4 ,too (t5 we make mi/akes 9 life1 & !n decl>e ! consequ5ces to be ,8 w4 ,x is s 9 fail+ to m>ry4 ,girls make mi/akes 9 _! conduct & rema9 sp9/]s4 ,! fault is _! own4 ,!y d n "k h[ to attract1 & s are pass$ by4 ,pl5ty ( girls d s well und]/& ! art ( attract+ m51 t !y h numb]less (f]s ( m>riage4 ,i "k wom5 :o c\ld n c\nt up on _! t5 f+]s ! m5 :o h be5 9 love ) !m3 among !m m5 :o = _! sakes h rema9$ unm>ri$ ?r\gh life4 ,i h _h p]sonal acqua9tance ) wom5 :o h be5 m>ri$ ?ree times1 & c\ld1 "s ( !m1 be m>ri$ aga94 ,i "k o!r wom5 :o h nev] _h "o admir]4 ,i "k girls :o c attract m5 to !m1 & almo/ z soon z !y are attract$1 repel !m4 ,t sort ( a girl nev] m>ries4 ,%e wants to d s1 & acts ?r\gh ignorance4 ,i h sometimes felt l giv+ a girl a good %ak+ :5 ,i h se5 h] spoil h] own *ances4 ,i h be5 dy+ to :isp] a ^w ( advice at times1 b 0 too wise to d s1 kn[+ x w\ld n be well receiv$4 ,girls "k s fe>fully mu*6 ,! exp]i5ces ( a mature woman c\nt = no?+ beside ! wond]ful k "s girls 9 _! te5s h6 ,9 ! hope t "s ( ^! maid5s w be will+ to read :at !y w\ld n he>1 :5 x 0 too p]sonal1 ,i det]m9$ to write d[n :at ,i "k ab\t be+ attractive to ! o!r sex1 :at ,i "k ab\t girls' failures1 & :y !y fail4 ,n long ago !re appe>$ 9 8,! ,woman's ,dep>tm5t0 ( "o ( our daily pap]s a lett] f a "y girl1 9 :i* %e confess$ t %e lov$ a "y man :o did n return h] affection4 ,%e ask$ :at %e %\ld d to w9 him4 ,! editor c\ld n tell h]1 advis+ h] to give him up1 v mu* z if x 7 a pleasure excursion ! poor girl 0 writ+ ab\t4 ,!re are times :5 x is necess>y to give up all hope ( w9n+ a man4 ,?is1 h[ev]1 did n appe> to h be5 "o ( !m4 ,! girl %\ld h be5 told j h[ %e c\ld attract1 !n w9 him4 ,p]haps ! editor did n h]self "k4 ,if a girl is ?r[n mu* 9 ! society ( a "y man ^: affections are n previ\sly engag$1 & if %e kn[s h[ to d x1 %e is q sure to make him love h]4 ,if1 h[ev]1 he c>es = "s "o else1 :o c>es = him1 no true woman w 9 any way try to come betwe5 ! two3 %e w r avoid do+ s4 ,if ! girl has become int]e/$ be=e %e kn[s ( 8 engagem5t1 x is a case ( misplac$ affections4 ,!re ,i mu/ advise giv+ him up4 ,get int]e/$ 9 ano!r man1 & w9 t "o4 ,x might be well always = a girl to f9d out fir/ :e!r or n a man is int]e/$ 9 "s "o else4 ,t w\ld (t5 save a _w ( tr\ble4 ,a misplac$ affection1 :5 fooli%ly adh]$ to w /& 9 ! way ( a happy m>riage4 ,x is n always ! man y love4 ,n unfrequ5tly x is y\r ideal :i* y make a c]ta9 man fill4 ,(t51 if y are n bl9d$1 y w see t in/ead ( fill+ x1 he 8wobbles0 ar\nd 9 ! l>ge space y h giv5 him4 ,t ideal c easily be transf]r$ to ano!r man4 ,v few he>ts are s true t !y love b once4 ,!y may d s 9 /ories1 b 9 real life we *ange4 ,we r>ely m>ry our fir/ love1 & almo/ always =get all ab\t him4 ,aft] m>riage x is a diff]5t ?+4 ,!n x is no ideal3 x is real4 ,! man y love is real4 ,! love is real1 & cont9ues ev5 aft] 8dea? d y "p40 ,s1 let no misplac$ affection /& betwe5 y & m>riage4 ,return a love if x is (f]$ y & ! man is desirable1 or set y\rself to w9 "o4 ,d n g ab\t sigh+ = a man :o belongs to ano!r girl4 ,he nev] gives y a ?\ght--!y are h]s4 ,h too mu* self-respect1 & too high an op9ion ( y\r *>ms to ?9k ab\t him4 ,9 a few ye>s1 impossible z x may seem n[1 :5 y meet him middle-ag$ & a family man1 y w wond] :at y ev] saw 9 him to c>e ab\t4 ,?is s\nds he>tless1 b x is true4 ,x goes to prove t 9 e>ly life be=e m>riage x is ! ideal & n ! man a girl (t5 loves4 ,if ,i am mi/ak5 9 t1 ,i am n mi/ak5 9 say+ t a girl is happi] m>ri$ to a man = :om %e c>es less ?an %e did = ?is ideal1 ?an 9 rema9+ a sp9/] because "s o!r girl bore (f ! he>t %e crav$4 ,to my m9d a woman is happi] m>ri$ "u almo/ any circum/ances ?an s+le4 ,t ,i "k is aga9/ ! tea*+s ( to-day1 & does n savor ! lea/ ( woman's rights4 ,i believe h] 8rights0 is to be m>ri$4 ,sometimes a girl :o is attractive en\gh to w9 any man is kept f m>riage by ! selfi% att5tions ( "o man :o ei!r _c or w n say any?+ to h] ab\t m>ry+ him4 ,?is is n an unfrequ5t occurr5ce4 ,a man :o1 on acc\nt ( 8 circum/ances1 _c m>ry1 or :o1 because he pref]s 8 fre$om1 w n m>ry1 w pay att5tion to a girl = ye>s4 ,he w9s h] affections1 & keeps away o!rs :o w\ld be glad to m>ry h]4 ,meantime %e hopes t e day %e w he> ! words he has giv5 h] a "r to expect to he>4 ,9 ! end1 if %e all[s ?is ?+ to cont9ue1 %e w be an old maid4 ,no matt] h[ mu* y c>e = a man1 give him up if1 aft] a c]ta9 l5g? ( "t1 he says no?+ to y ab\t m>riage4 ,y w lose no?+ 9 ! end by do+ s1 & may ga9 him4 ,if he really c>es = y1 ! dang] ( los+ y w make him m anxi\s to possess y4 ,!n1 if ev]1 he w f9d means to ask y to m>ry him4 ,if he does n !n1 he nev] w\ld4 ,if giv+ him up hurts y1 heal ! w\nd by rememb]+ t 8 int5tions c\ld n h be5 s]i\s1 & t he has all[$ himself to lose y4 ,rememb]1 too1 t ! hurt w come "s "t1 anyway1 & mo/ likely :5 y are beyond ! age to attract any "o else4 ,s giv+ him up :ile y are yet "y means a m>riage ) "s o!r man4 ,cl++ weakly to him means1 )\t d\bt1 t he w1 :5 y are no long] "y & attractive1 ca/ y away = a fair] face4 ,nev] s f> =get y\r self-respect z to ask a dilatory lov] 8 int5tions4 ,nev] all[ y\r fa!r or bro!r s to demean y4 ,if a man has int5tions1 no matt] h[ ba%ful he is1 he w decl>e !m4 ,if he does n d s1 he has none1 & y _h bett] give up all hope 9 t direction4 ,!re are always pl5ty m m5 ab\t :o w c>e = y1 & :o w let y "k x too4 ,?ree su* cases h come to my k4 ,! girl act$ diff]5tly 9 ea* "o4 ,! fir/ clung to h] dilatory lov] till he f9ally left h] :5 %e 0 too old to attract any "o else4 ,n[1 alone 9 ! _w1 %e supports h]self by keep+ a bo>d+-h\se4 ,! second "o _h h] fa!r ask ! lov] 8 int5tions1 & 9 t way rop$ him 94 ,x 0 n a happy m>riage4 ,a ?ird gave up ! man :o w\ld n propose1 & %ortly aft]w>ds m>ri$ ano!r man = :om %e grew to c>e a great deal m4 ,"s attractive girls live 9 small t[ns :]e !y c meet no "o :om !y c\ld or w\ld m>ry4 ,consequ5tly !y h to rema9 s+le4 ,9 su* a case a man w\ld g out & seek a wife4 ,a girl _c exactly d t4 ,%e c1 h[ev]1 sometimes *ange h] place ( resid5ce = t purpose4 ,:5 x makes little diff]5ce1 z f> z bus9ess is conc]n$1 :]e a family live1 ,i believe a fa!r owes ?is duty to 8 unm>ri$ daught]s4 ,he c take h] :]e %e w be likely to meet an eligible man4 ,i once knew a fa!r ) two "y daught]s :o left 8 c\ntry home = _! sakes4 ,he took a nice h\se 9 ,philadelphia1 & rema9$ !re till !y 7 bo? m>ri$1 !n return$ home4 ,a wid[ ) ?ree daught]s left h] f>m & r5t$ a l>ge furni%$ h\se 9 ,new ,york ,city4 ,z a means ( support %e took fir/-class bo>d]s4 ,! elde/ 0 consid]ably ov] ?irty1 b !y 7 all ?ree attractive4 ,be+ s plac$ :]e !y met g5tlem51 none ( !m 7 long 9 m>ry+4 ,a maid5 lady ( =ty-"o1 v jolly1 bright1 & good-natur$1 int]e/+ b n pretty1 & s fle%y %e 0 a sight1 _h nev] 9 ! ea/ met a man :om %e c\ld m>ry4 ,%e w5t to ,cali=nia to visit a si/]1 & 9 less ?an a ye> 0 m>ri$ to a weal?y wid[]4 ,*ange ( resid5ce w (t5 *ange ! lonely sp9/]1 "y or advanc$1 into a happy wife4 ,,*apt] ,,ii4 ,,! ,,girl ,,:om ,,m5 ,,l4 ,leav+ matrimony out ( ! "q1 x is desirable = a girl to aim to be a favorite ) m5 g5]ally4 ,%e %\ld be a girl :om all m5 l1 :e!r or n t lik+ rip5s into a feel+ m t5d]4 ,!n %e always /&s ! *ance ( its s rip5+4 ,_m a man goes ?r\gh life till he has made a success ( 8 bus9ess )\t giv+ a ?\ght to m>riage4 ,:5 he is ready to m>ry1 he looks ab\t him )\t any s5tim5t (t5 to see :om ( 8 lady fri5ds he w\ld l = a wife4 ,t5 to "o he hits ^u a girl ^: "* has call$ =? 8 fri5dly admiration4 ,?is once settl$ he /raightway falls 9 love ) some?+ to build ^u4 ,wid[]s w frequ5tly m>ry a girl ( :om !y ?\ght well :5 ! wife 0 yet liv+4 ,m]e beauty c\nts = less 9 ! long run ?an is g5]ally suppos$4 ,x has less p[] 9 det]m9+ matrimonial *oice ?an y w\ld ?9k4 ,its fir/ effects are too /rong 9 proportion to its o!r effects4 ,x is se5 at once1 & in/ead ( gr[+ ^u ! behold]1 its p[] r less5s z x becomes famili>4 ,! two mo/ beautiful girls ,i ev] met are n[ old maids4 ,! mo/ w9n+ girl ,i ev] knew _h absolutely a pla9 face4 ,!re 0 a *>m ab\t h] :i* attract$ all m51 & :i* made !m swe>1 aft] !y knew h]1 t %e 0 a mo/ beautiful creature4 ,ev5 aft] %e _h refus$ a man1 he lov$ & admir$ h]4 ,y all want to look z pretty z y c1 b y mu/ n place any dep5d5ce ^u beauty to settle y 9 life4 ,_m m5 pref] /yli% girls to pretty ones4 ,look ab\t y at ! m>ri$ wom5 ( y\r acqua9tance4 ,h[ few ( !m are pretty n[1 or 7 9 _! y\?4 ,two ( ! wor/ wives ,i h ev] kn[n are pretty wom54 ,_! husb&s made ! mi/ake ( m>ry+ = beauty4 ,a va9 girl is g5]ally selfi%1 & m5 d l an unselfi% girl4 ,a man wants an unselfi% wife4 ,if y wi% m5 to admire y1 y mu/ fir/ be a true woman ) a noble "*4 ,look to y\r home-life4 ,m5 cat* glimpses ( t :5 y lea/ ?9k x4 ,!y "k well t an indu/ri\s1 sweet-temp]$1 unselfi% daught] makes an indu/ri\s1 sweet-temp]$1 unselfi% wife4 ,a girl ( :om h] bro!r is v fond1 & ^: special fri5d %e is1 goes into ! society ( m51 :]e x is kn[n1 ) a wond]ful recomm5dation4 ,z a g5]al ?+ y c tell h[ a girl w treat h] husb& by ! way %e treats h] bro!r4 ,i once knew a "y man :o ask$ a girl to m>ry him because he saw h] t5d]1 lov+ solicitude = h] bro!r4 ,m5 l bright girls4 ,ev5 ! mo/ sob] pref] a jolly1 laugh+ girl4 ,z ,i once he>d a man say ab\t a v m]ry "o1 8,?9k ( hav+ su* a creature always 9 y\r home6 ,y w\ldn't h mu* *ance = blues40 ,i knew a wond]fully homely girl :o 0 s jolly t m5 surr\nd$ h] :]ev] %e w5t4 ,m5 l a good "t1 & a lively girl w give x to !m4 ,if y _c all be jolly1 y c be bright1 talkative1 & int]e/$4 ,jolly girls are nev] s5tim5tal4 ,a man hates a s5tim5tal girl4 ,s5tim5tal looks1 long faces1 te>y expressions are only attractive 9 novels4 ,m51 out ( books1 d n l to wipe away te>s--!y pref] to walk away f !m4 ,nev] =get t a man is a selfi% be+4 ,keep t little fact 9 view cont9ually2 & if y want to please him1 p&] to x4 ,if any?+ w disgu/ a man ) a girl1 x is to see h] make a fuss4 ,ev5 if y h real he>t-sorr[1 ! m y control y\rself1 ! m y w be admir$4 ,rememb] y look y\r v wor/ :5 y cry4 ,! te>s d n 8well up10 & 8ov]fl[10 8*as+ ea* o!r d[n y\r alaba/] *eeks l s _m pe>ly drops10 z !y d 9 novels4 ,no3 y\r face squ9ts up1 :ile y\r eyes & nose get r$4 ,in/ead ( be+ attractive1 unless ! man = ^: b5efit y h gott5 up ?is sc5e loves y1 he w walk away4 ,x is manlike to walk (f at ! fir/ sign ( a /orm1 & to avoid ev]y?+ uncom=table4 ,be> t 9 m9d4 ,:5 y treat a man to a sc5e on any subject1 y lose y\r hold ^u him4 ,t5 to "o he w leave y to seek ! society ( "s lively girl :o is wise en\gh to hide h] te>s4 ,a man likes a s5sible girl4 ,he likes real good common s5se4 ,no?+ is m try+ ?an an unreasonable woman1 & a man w n h any?+ to d ) h] :5 he does n h to d s4 ,he may be politely pleasant to h]1 b he does n c>e to h h] = 8 wife4 ,to be sure pl5ty ( unreasonable1 try+ wom5 are wives4 7,i w\ld !y 7 n67 ,!y _h ! faculty ( hid+ _! real "* be=e ! b9d+ v[s 7 spok54 ,x is bett] to h no?+ to hide4 ,be y\r hone/ true self always4 ,if y are naturally end[$ ) common s5se1 try to cultivate x4 ,le>n to be reasonable1 & try n to be gov]n$ by y\r feel+s4 ,a man nev] c>es = a girl ^: feel+s & n duty are h] guide4 ,be> 9 m9d t ,i am n talk+ ab\t ! man :o is 9 love ) y1 b ! "o :o views y calmly b may sometime love y4 ,m5 l good-natur$ girls4 ,i "k two si/]s1 ! elde/ ( :om is quick-temp]$1 res5tful1 ill-spok51 & is ov] ?irty )\t a g5tleman fri5d4 ,%e nev] _h "o4 ,! y\ng]1 n yet n9ete51 is good-natur$ & lively4 ,all ! m5 :o "k h] l h]4 ,"o man1 9 fe> ( h] be+ c>ri$ (f by "s "o else1 has secur$ h] promise to m>ry him4 ,a man likes to feel t ! wife he takes to 8 home is go+ to bright5 t home4 ,he does n want a high temp] to cont5d )4 ,a girl nev] %[s (f to a worse advantage ?an :5 %e is angry4 ,m5 are attract$ by sweetness ( disposition4 ,no great] complim5t c\ld be paid to any woman ?an is paid to ! ,pr9cess ( ,wales :5 %e is call$ ,h] ,royal ,sweetness4 ,directly we he> t1 we are drawn to h]4 ,sweetness ( m9d & mann] is woman's greate/ *>m4 ,a sweet woman is belov$ by e "o4 ,x is woman's prov9ce to be sweet4 ,gail ,hamilton says1 8,x is ! fir/ duty ( woman to be a lady40 ,i say1 x is h] fir/ duty1 aft] be+ a ,*ri/ian 7:i* is c]ta9ly fir/ ( ev]y?+71 to be sweet4 ,%e says to be a lady is m ?an to be a pr9ce4 ,let me add t to be ,h] ,royal ,sweetness is m ?an to be ,h] ,royal ,highness4 ,we all are won by a sweet mann]4 ,a sweet smile w ev5 draw u to a /rang]4 ,x c be y\rs if y w cultivate x4 ,beg9 at home4 ,lay ! f\ndation !re4 ,be sweet at he>t4 ,d n put on graci\s smiles & w9n+ ways = ! outside _w only4 ,if !y are n natural1 y w be caught tripp+ sometimes4 ,circum/ances may arise :5 y w %[ ! man :om y are ! mo/ anxi\s to w9 :at y truly are4 ,al?\gh t w be a good ?+ = him1 x w be bad = y4 ,be g5u9e4 ,c\nt]feit is detect$ 9 ! long run4 ,i "k a woman :o outside is ! v ideal ( sweetness1 b :o is a p]fect demon at home4 ,%e won h] husb&1 :om %e n[ drives almo/ to madness1 by t assum$ sweetness4 ,9 spite ( smiles & graci\sness1 %e is ! mo/ fri5dless woman ,i "k4 ,! _w dem&s g5u9e co91 & w detect c\nt]feit4 ,s beg9 at home to be sweet1 & unconsci\sly x w become y\r natural mann]4 ,y w n h to assume x3 x w be y\r own4 ,a girl may be m ?an pla91 ev5 homely1 b if h] mann]s are g5tle1 h] voice sweet & l[1 h] be>+ womanly1 h] p[] is wond]ful4 ,a *>m+ smile unlocks _m a door :i* is b>r$ to a /iff1 ungraci\s mann]4 ,a *>m+ smile w>ms e "o x greets4 ,x is p>ticul>ly w9n+ to a man4 ,x has 9 x a welcome :i* fasc9ates him1 & br+s him to y aga94 ,a graci\s1 sweet mann] is ( m acc\nt 9 w9n+ y\r way ) ! /]n] sex ?an millions4 ,m girls are m>ri$ = _! sweetness ?an = _! money4 ,a *>m+1 bright greet+1 w sometimes engage a man's int]e/ or att5tion on ! spot4 8,be c\rte\s0 at all times4 8,be c\rte\s0 "u all circum/ances ev5 ! mo/ try+1 9 y\r family1 among fri5ds1 & ) /rang]s4 ,i rememb] x 0 said ( a sweet girl at s*ool1 8,%e w\ld be polite to ,satan himself if he came to h] room40 ,i almo/ believe x4 ,i once he>d a truly sweet girl say1 8,i 0 s provok$20 :5 ano!r girl broke 91 8,i don't believe t4 ,any "o kn[s t y _c get provok$40 ,s5sible m5 l an economical girl4 ,a man does n want to feel t aft] m>riage all 8 money1 especially if he does n h mu* ( x1 is go+ to be wa/$4 ,m5 l heal?y girls4 ,a man hates to he> a woman compla94 ,he is n sympa!tic4 ,m5 r>ely are2 b !n y mu/ take !m z y f9d !m1 n z y w\ld h !m4 ,j !re lies ! secret ( "s girls' failure to attract2 !y h no pati5ce ) a man's imp]fections1 & are unwise en\gh to all[ him to see t !y h discov]$ !m4 ,m5 l girls :o are he>ty & :o h a he>ty int]e/ 9 ?+s4 ,a real live girl is always a favorite4 ,a man avoids a s5tim5tal girl4 ,d n quote poetry4 ,d n look langui%+4 ,d n model y\r conduct aft] ! h]o9es ( novels4 ,/udy real life1 & be real4 ,d n expect any?+ to occur to y z x does to girls 9 novels3 x nev] w4 ,d n exact too mu* att5tion4 ,a man hates to give x :]e x is exact$1 ev5 :5 x is y\r "r4 ,x is _! way to pay x only :5 !y feel l do+ s4 ,a man nev] wants to be controll$4 ,be=e he is 9 love1 he is p>ticul>ly alive to any ef=t to d s4 ,:5 he is 9 love1 he is m bl9d to x2 b ev5 !n x is n well to press x4 ,to be ?or\ghly attractive y mu/ h a great deal ( tact4 ,tact has be5 call$ ! supreme/ weapon 9 a woman's h&s4 ,)\t x1 %e is helpless4 ,) x1 %e is p[]ful4 ,tact w enable y to see j :at to d1 h[ to d x1 :at to say1 & h[ to say x4 ,m5 are n all alike4 ,:at w please "o may n please ano!r4 ,!y are all built on ! same g5]al plan1 h[ev]1 & if y "k "o well1 y "k pretty mu* all !re is to be kn[n ab\t ! :ole sex4 ,yet diff]5t l9es ( conduct are to be pursu$ ) diff]5t m54 ,a girl ) tact grasps ?is 9 a mom5t4 ,inde$1 %e grasps ! situation e "t & pleases e "t4 ,y mu/ und]/& man-nature4 ,y c le>n a great deal ( x f y\r bro!r4 ,let me tell y too t if girls w\ld m frequ5tly advise ) _! bro!rs1 !y w\ld get along a hundr$-fold bett]4 ,a bro!r c give y an insight into o!r m51 & at ! same "t look aft] y\r int]e/s4 ,y w r>ely fail to g "r & to d "r1 if y w make him y\r confidant4 ,f9d out :at he likes1 & y w "k :at o!r m5 l4 ,if y w\ld be attractive1 y mu/ hide y\r feel+s4 ,i "k ( no "t at home or abroad :5 x is well to %[ y\r real feel+s if !y are disagreeable4 ,be> 9 m9d t ,i d n lay d[n a code ( laws to be practis$ only abroad reg>dless ( y\r home-life4 ,let ! fir/ man ^u :om y try y\r w9n+ arts be y\r fa!r4 ,make him sure t y are ! mo/ p]fect ( girls4 ,!n try y\r bro!rs4 ,z ! mo/ lovely ( daught]s & si/]s1 y w be real :5 y are attract+ o!r m5 by y\r w9n+ mann]s4 ,a man likes a girl :o is read up--at lea/ 9 ! news ( ! day4 ,he does n want to be in/ruct$1 & he nev] likes a girl :o kn[s bett] ?an he does ab\t ?+s4 ,if ev5 y are sure he is wrong1 d n correct him4 ,t w\ld be a w\nd to 8 vanity1 :i* is itself a fatal ?+ to d4 ,if y are bett] educat$ ?an he is1 d n let him "k x4 ,appe> to receive in/ruction1 & let y\r k be a sort ( cu%ion = 84 ,be int]e/$ 9 :at he talks ab\t1 & will+ to le>n4 ,give him y\r full att5tion :5 he talks to y4 ,x is a lack ( tact t makes a girl %[ a want ( int]e/4 ,x is a lack ( tact too t makes a girl let a man see :at a good op9ion %e has ( h]self1 :5 %e ought to be %[+ him :at a good op9ion %e has ( him4 ,x is v well to h x settl$ 9 y\r own m9d j :at y are1 & :at y\r attractions are1 b d n let any "k ( t op9ion4 ,x is well to h a good op9ion ( y\rself3 x w give y an ease 9 society & a confid5ce to g ahead & w94 ,be sure1 h[ev]1 t y are wor?y ( t op9ion4 ,be sure t y are n deceiv+ ev5 y\rself4 ,nev] all[ a man to sacrifice 8 com=t = y4 ,if he is rude en\gh ev5 to ask to smoke 9 y\r pres5ce1 ) y\r sweete/ smile give him p]mission to d s4 ,promote 8 com=t 9 e possible way4 ,!y notice ^! ?+s & l su* att5tions4 ,d n feel x y\r "r always to h ! be/ ( ev]y?+ & he ! wor/4 ,decl9e to accept ! sacrifices t he z a g5tleman w insi/ ^u mak+4 ,"s girls w he$lessly accept any?+ ) a sort ( bl9d gross selfi%ness4 ,! girl :o is unselfi% at home1 & :o looks out = ! com=t ( h] family be=e %e does h] own1 w unconsci\sly c>ry ! same w9n+ _s ) h] :]ev] %e goes4 ,! girl :o is selfi% at home1 & :o puts on h] sweetness ) company dress1 w (t5 =get all ab\t x1 especially "u any excitem5t4 ,d n all[ a man to sp5d mu* money ^u y4 ,he r>ely c>es to d s1 b does x because x is cu/om>y among a c]ta9 class1 & ?9ks t y expect x ( him4 ,give him a pleasant surprise :5 he invites y into a re/aurant or else:]e1 by decl9+4 ,y d n want to be indebt$ to him 9 a monet>y po9t ( view--x less5s y\r dignity4 ,x w\ld n be a pleasant ?+ to he> him c\nt up h[ mu* he has sp5t ^u y4 ,a man w d x1 & make rem>ks ab\t x to o!r m5 too4 ,!y h x all done to a f9e po9t1 & "k j :i* girl is exp5sive 9 h] ta/es1 & :i* "o x co/s ! mo/ to take out4 ,i h he>d !m talk :5 ,i h be5 beh9d ! sc5es4 ,"s girls1 ,i am sorry to say1 w ev5 g s f> z to h9t t !y w\ld l to be tak5 to a c]ta9 ent]ta9m5t or out = refre%m5ts4 ,!re is mu* bitt] tru? 9 ! jokes we read ab\t ! ice-cream girl4 ,! writ] ( !m1 ,i always ?9k1 has sm>t$ "u ! cu/om4 ,no matt] :at a man is himself1 he likes a mode/ girl4 ,true mode/y has a great *>m4 ,a girl )\t x is l a fad$ fl[]4 ,z a g5]al ?+1 h] end is sad4 ,beauty is fleet+1 b mode/y gives a *>m :i* outla/s y\?4 ,a retir+1 g5tle girl is some?+ to seek aft]2 & a man r seek4 ,a bold girl may receive m att5tions f a c]ta9 class ( m51 b less love 9 ! long run4 ,t 8c]ta9 class ( m50 y want to avoid in/ead ( seek+ to attract !m4 ,! real g5tleman1 ! k9d = ^: att5tions y c>e1 nev] wants any?+ to d ) a bold1 l\d girl4 ,! l\d girl is nev] a lady4 ,cultivate a l[1 sweet voice at all times4 ,abjure slang & *ew+ gum4 ,( ! two evils ,i d n "k :i* is ! wor/2 b ,i d "k t no true lady is addict$ to ei!r4 ,m5 l l>ge-m9d$1 l>ge-he>t$ girls4 ,!y l girls :o h no envy 9 _! nature1 :o c be fair & j ev5 to a rival1 :o w see good 9 e "o1 & speak ( t in/ead ( ! evil4 ,if y meet a girl :om y feel is y\r sup]ior1 emulate h]2 try to become all %e is4 ,at ! same "t1 be l>ge en\gh to ackn[l$ge h] excell5ce4 ,y\r v humility & sweet praise ( h] w be a w9n+ grace4 ,t5 to "o ! man w ?9k h[ sweet y are in/ead ( see+ ! excell5t traits y po9t out 9 h]4 ,bitt]1 n>r[-m9d$ girls h an idea !y c br+ a sup]ior girl d[n to _! level by ca/+ mud at h]4 ,x is a species ( mud t always flies back1 ) a sort ( a d\ble back-action arrangem5t1 & does all ! h>m to ! ?r[]4 ,9 ! fir/ place1 x is n ,*ri/-l to speak unk9dly ( any "o2 9 ! second1 m5 hate to he> x4 ,x is only a weak "o :o w jo9 9 ) y4 ,9 ! ?ird place1 x is s small1 & tells s pla9ly t y are n>r[1 envi\s1 inf]ior4 ,in/ead ( try+ to pull a girl d[n1 always try to climb up beyond h] heights4 ,be l>ge en\gh to disc]n & ackn[l$ge :atev] good y see 9 any "o4 ,be *>itable to ! wrong-do+s ( y\r fri5ds4 ,nev] m5tion ! pla9ly se5 faults ( ano!r girl4 ,9 ?is evil _w1 be z ?\gh y saw no evil4 ,be pure4 8,to ! pure all ?+s are pure40 ,let all ?+s & all p be pure 9 y\r sight4 ,make y\rself wor? hav+1 & m5 w want to h y4 ,/rive to cultivate a true womanl9ess & to become an effici5t p]son4 ,be a girl :o c help h]self1 :o is n ignorant ( "w or too lazy to d x4 ,d n be a m]e toy :om m5 w flirt ) & !n drop :5 !y want to m>ry a woman :o w be a helpmeet4 ,s5sible m5 d n want to m>ry a bundle ( no?+ = a wife4 ,:5 !y are *eat$ into do+ s1 !y rep5t x all _! lives4 ,y d n want to ?9k t ! man :om y w m>ry is go+ to rep5t ! act4 ,i "k ,i w\ld r die on my w$d+-day4 ,i ?9k t if a man to :om ,i 0 m>ri$ %\ld h9t by ^w or de$ ( su* a rep5tance1 ,i w\ld feel t my life 0 a complete failure1 & %\ld want to g out ( x !n & !re4 ,be accompli%$ & brilliant if possible1 b above all ?+s prep>e y\rself to be a helpmeet = a man4 ,m5 l tal5ts 9 a girl1 especially music2 b a man likes to h 8 wife "k h[ to keep h\se4 ,le>n t4 ,le>n to make all sorts ( g>m5ts & to cook1 ev5 if y are weal?y4 ,,*apt] ,,iii4 ,,! ,,girl ,,:o ,,w9s4 ,be+ an attractive girl :om all m5 l is n exactly ! same ?+ z sett+ ab\t delib]ately to w9 "s "o man's he>t4 ,x has be5 said t ! girl ?9ks ( matrimony be=e ! man does4 ,he goes on bl9dly & ?\ghtlessly until he is s deep 9 love t he _c retreat2 :ile f ! v />t %e ?9ks :e!r or n %e w\ld l to w$ him4 ,x may be t y "k "s "y man :om 9 a womanly way y w\ld l to w94 ,let u suppose t 9 ! secret recesses ( y\r he>t y h decid$ t y w\ld l to m>ry him4 ,9 ! fir/ place1 y mu/ n fall deeply 9 love ) him4 ,if y fail1 y d n want to be brok5-he>t$2 & too1 :5 a girl is really up & d[n 9 love1 %e loses control ( h]self4 ,%e is no long] sure ( h]self & ( h] conduct4 ,y mu/ keep cool & calculat+4 ,y mu/ admire ! man1 & feel t at t "t he is ! only "o y c\ld love4 ,lose j en\gh ( y\r he>t s t1 :5 he is won & asks = y\r love1 y c give x to him4 ,y mu/ be able to arrange y\r mode ( w>f>e1 & always h p]fect possession ( y\rself4 ,!re mu/ be no silly excitem5t :5 he is pres5t1 & d[nca/ face :5 he is away4 ,su* a c\rse w\ld surely provoke comm5t2 & y\r conduct mu/ n be comm5t$ ^u4 ,no "o mu/ be all[$ to suspect t y are int]e/$ 9 him4 ,x is n y\r prov9ce 9 any way to g a-woo+2 b y c "w wond]s 9 ! way ( w9n+ ! man y want4 ,i h read t a woman may m>ry :om %e w4 ,i almo/ believe %e c4 ,y _c1 h[ev]1 g ab\t 9 an op5 way z a man c4 ,) him ! battle is sometimes half won :5 he makes x kn[n t he wi%es m>riage4 ,) y x w\ld be all lo/4 ,y mu/ nev] run aft] a man4 ,make y\rself s attractive t he w seek y4 ,!n x is all 9 y\r own h&s4 ,y c keep him beside y4 ,y may h to wait "s "t = him to come4 ,be pati5t4 ,no?+ is ev] accompli%$ )\t pati5ce4 ,an impati5t1 n]v\s anxiety on y\r "p w be likely to spoil ev]y?+4 ,nev] g :]e y "k he w be & :]e he does n expect y1 if y c avoid do+ s4 ,bett]1 by f>1 let him miss y :]e he anticipates see+ y ?an to see too mu* ( y4 ,8 disappo9tm5t w %[ him h[ mu* he is int]e/$ 9 y4 ,d n hesitate to let him see t y h a mode/1 maid5ly int]e/ 9 him4 ,m5 l t4 ,x mu/ be done 9 a retir+ way z if y did n int5d to h him see x1 b c\ld n help y\rself4 ,:ile a man w boa/ ( a girl runn+ aft] him1 ?is little secret ( y\rs1 :i* by 8 acut5ess767 he has discov]$1 he w keep sacr$ly to himself4 ,! v mode/y ) :i* y try to veil x w height5 its value 9 8 eyes4 ,d n hesitate to let him see by y\r greet+ t he is welcome4 ,i d n mean t y are to be effusive4 ,x is done by y\r smile1 y\r look1 m ?an by words4 ,girls make ! mi/ake ( greet+ a man coolly 9 fe> ( appe>+ =w>d or ( %[+ a reg>d4 ,nev] be cool to ! man y want to w94 ,w>d ,mc,allister says 9 8 8,society z ,i ,h ,f\nd ,x03 8,! value ( a pleasant mann] is impossible to e/imate4 ,x is l sun%9e2 x gladd5s4 ,y feel x1 & are at once attract$ to ! p]son )\t kn[+ :y40 ,"y girls are r>ely mi/ress ( ^! sweet1 little1 b tell+ arts4 ,! kn[+ j h[ comes lat] 9 life4 ,balzac has said t a woman ( ?irty is at h] mo/ fasc9at+ & dang]\s p]iod4 ,! wom5 :o h be5 ! mo/ fam\s = _! p[] ov] he>ts h all be5 ne>] =ty ?an tw5ty4 ,?is seems incr$ible to y yet 9 y\r te5s4 ,y n[ look ^u tw5ty-five z a species ( old age4 ,at ?irty1 y ?9k1 z f> z m5 are conc]n$1 a woman is 9 ! s]e & yell[ leaf2 :ile at =ty !y are little less ?an 9 _! dotage4 ,look out1 t :ile y are c\nt+ on y\r y\? to m>ry y1 "s ( ^! females 9 ! s]e & yell[ leaf1 or ev5 9 _! dotage1 w c>ry (f ! prize1 because %e kn[s h[ & y d n4 ,! fact is1 ! woman ( ?irty is /ill "y n[-a-days1 :atev] %e 0 9 our gr&mo!rs' "t4 ,%e c w9 m5's love too4 ,%e kn[s ! _w s well t %e takes m5 z %e f9ds !m1 :ile ! girl 9 h] te5s does n4 ,! girl aspires too (t5 to make !m fit 9 h] n>r[ m\ld4 ,girls are too (t5 n>r[ 9 _! ideas4 ,9 ! secret acceptance ( a man's faults1 or tak+ him z y f9d him1 lies a great deal ! secret ( p[] ov] !m4 ,y girls are too sure ( y\rselves1 too fix$ 9 y\r op9ions1 too c]ta9 t y are "r & t o!rs are wrong4 ,y are too anxi\s to set a man "r4 ,!y h a way ( _! own ( n want+ to be set "r4 ,!y nev] want to be correct$4 ,if !y are wrong1 _! ignorance is bliss to !m4 ,girls h little *>ity4 ,!y are g5]ally h>d 9 _! judgm5ts ( ev]y?+ & ( ev]ybody4 ,!y take delight 9 %[+ (f :at !y "k1 & mak+ a man feel l a fool4 ,a man nev] all[s ! same girl to make him feel l a fool twice4 ,once is en\gh = any man4 ,he seeks ! society ( ano!r /raightway4 ,girls are giv5 to display a sup]iority1 & make a man feel small4 ,aga9 he walks (f4 ,a man nev] falls 9 love ) a girl :o makes him feel small4 ,n[ ! *>m+ girl hides h] own op9ions--h] sup]iority1 & br+s out :at is be/ 9 ! man4 ,?is is :at y mu/ d e "t4 ,:5 y seek to w9 a man1 make him pleas$ ) himself4 ,! bett] he is pleas$ ) himself ! bett] he w l y4 ,?is is n done by bold1 outspok5 flatt]y 7al?\gh a man w swall[ l>g] doses ( t ?an y suppose71 b by adroitly %[+ him 8 own be/ side4 ,if y h to t\* 8 t5d] places1 d x ) a s(t h& t w soo! in/ead ( w\nd4 ,a man likes a sm>t girl4 ,y\r sm>tness or y\r brilliancy mu/1 h[ev]1 be kept 9 ! backgr\nd4 ,y mu/ n use x to dazzle him1 b to make him feel t he is brilliant4 ,if he is witty1 nev] try to be m s ?an he is4 ,if he is highly educat$ & y are m s1 /ill be will+ to be in/ruct$ by him4 ,nev] aspire to tea* him4 ,a man does n want to be set "r by a woman4 ,if he is a talk]1 s manage t he w d all ! talk+1 if he wi%es to1 :ile y are ! int]e/$ li/5]4 ,i d n mean t y are to be mum3 y are to be s int]e/$ t y _c help sometimes break+ 94 ,all y\r rem>ks %\ld be to ! po9t1 & s word$ t he w be l$ on until he is ev5 surpris$ at 8 own p[]s ( conv]sation & brilliancy4 ,!re is no sur] way ?an ?is to keep him at y\r side4 ,if he looks at 8 wat* x w be to see h[ mu* long] he c rema9 ) y1 n because he wi%es to hurry away4 ,:5 he f9ally mu/ leave y1 he w h s mu* bett] an op9ion ( himself t he w be q a new man4 ,8 ?\ghts ( y w be mo/ flatt]+4 ,he w n "k :y4 ,m5 r>ely analyze _! emotions4 ,if !y did1 x w\ld be worse = u & our little arts4 ,9 a c]ta9 way !y g ab\t bl9dly4 ,a man is self-c5tr$4 ,he loves to talk ab\t himself4 ,8 vanity is 8 weak po9t4 ,if he is no talk]1 & all o!r topics fail1 lead him to talk ab\t himself4 ,only "o man 9 a hundr$ w fail to respond to ?is bait4 ,he does n "k t he is engross+ ! conv]sation 9 ?is way3 he only kn[s t y are delightful4 ,! wond]ful *>m "s girls h = m5 lies 9 ! int]e/ %e %[s 9 him1 & ! tact ) :i* %e makes him ?9k well ( himself4 ,a man w n be snubb$4 ,9 novels1 especially ( ! ,du*ess k9d1 ! abject small creature :om %e calls ! h]o ?rives ^u x4 ,8 love fe$s ^u snubb+1 & gr[s m int5se4 ,he falls 9 love at fir/ sight1 & ! worse 8 *>m] treats him ! m he loves h]4 ,?is is n true to life4 ,^! books are full ( false ideas1 & d mu* h>m to ! girl :o reads !m4 ,x seems almo/ co>se to advise flatt]y4 ,flatt]y is co>se4 ,y c1 h[ev]1 discov] a man's good qualities1 tal5ts1 etc41 & praise !m )\t limit4 ,m5 w swall[ l>ge doses ( praise )\t s mu* z a w9k4 ,!y d n ev5 "k y are prais+ !m2 !y are only consci\s ( be+ pleas$4 ,y mu/ be discreet1 h[ev]1 9 giv+ y\r doses1 & above all ?+s avoid gett+ ! "n ( be+ a flatt]]4 ,y c sometimes give praise ) an unsp>+ h&1 b y mu/ be sure ( ! "r occasion4 ,a public man may be prais$ ad libitum4 ,9 fact1 a man :o s+s1 acts1 speaks 9 public ne$s x4 ,! private man wants x too4 ,he gets less ( x f ! _w 9 g5]al1 & y\r good op9ion1 delicately express$1 w be all ! m acceptable4 ,:5 y h a field all to y\rself1 be sure & improve ! occasion4 ,! girl :o is affectionate w9s4 ,i d n mean to imply t y are to embrace e man y meet or to all[ any?+ ( ! k9d f !m4 ,y are to %[ a c]ta9 w>m? ( feel+4 ,no man likes a cold girl4 ,ice repels4 ,a fri5d ( m9e1 ^: great attraction 0 h] w>m? ( mann]1 m[$ d[n he>ts l t5-p9s ,h] greet+ always 0 m ?an cordial4 ,%e gave almo/ an affectionate grasp ( ! h&1 all[+ h] h& to lie !re a m]e %ad[ ( "t1 :ile h] beam+ smile %[$ h] delight at ! meet+4 ,!re 0 life & w>m blood 9 ! t\* ( h] sl5d] f+]s :i* made _m a man's he>t beat quickly = h]4 ,%e made a man feel t 9 w9n+ h] he w\ld be w9n+ a lov+ wife1 & t is :at a man always wants4 ,ano!r equally successful girl made ! man ) :om %e 0 talk+ feel t he 0 ! only man ( mu* importance 9 ! _w2 all h] int]e/ 0 9 him--j 9 him4 ,e look 0 flatt]y ( ! wor/ k9d4 ,we sometimes say t a girl has an indescribable *>m & a way ) h] t no man c )/&4 ,i ?9k h] p[] is simply t %e makes a man ?9k bett] ( himself4 ,%e gives him a confid5ce 9 himself4 ,%e makes him pleas$ ) himself4 ,%e %[s an int]e/ 9 8 greate/ int]e/1 himself4 ,in/ead ( w\nd+ 8 vanity1 :i* is almo/ great] ?an 8 he>t1 %e flatt]s x4 ,m5 r>ely ov]look an insult to ! =m]4 ,a girl :o has made a man ?9k less ( himself may give t man up on ! spot4 ,%e is cross$ (f ( 8 books =ev]4 ,!re are occasions :5 y mu/ ex]cise a good deal ( =be>ance ) a man if y wi% to w9 him4 ,a man is prone to w&]4 ,he may be pay+ att5tion to "s o!r girl :5 y mo/ want him4 ,al?\gh x is v annoy+1 !re mu/ be no?+ cold 9 y\r greet+ :5 he comes to y aga94 ,y mu/ n reproa* him4 ,y mu/ simply make y\rself a great deal m fasc9at+ ?an %e is4 ,y mu/ be m sweet & w9n+ if possible ?an y 7 be=e4 ,take pa9s nev] to speak ill ( ?is possible rival4 ,x is nei!r ,*ri/ian-l or lady-l to d s4 ,x is bad ta/e4 ,! man kn[s y are jeal\s4 ,he hates to he> bitt] words4 ,x looks v mu* z if y c\ld & w\ld make bitt] rem>ks to y\r husb&4 ,if y reproa* him n[ = w&]+1 he may judge truly t y\r husb& w h little lib]ty4 ,if y are jeal\s & incl9$ to make a fuss be=e !re is ev5 any engagem5t1 :at w y be l aft] m>riage8 ,if y w\ld w91 cultivate a sweet1 g5tle1 =be>+ _s4 ,be always graci\s4 ,cultivate a k9dly mann]4 8,be free f arrogance1 self-ass]tion1 self-consci\sness1 consid]ate ( ! feel+s ( o!rs40 ,be c\rte\s & k9d 9 mann]s to e "o4 ,,*apt] ,,iv4 ,,! ,,girl ,,:o ,,fails4 8,! "y man fights %y ( ! girl :o makes a dead set aft] him10 0 ! inelegant1 b o'er-true p>agraph ,i read 9 ! pap] n long s9ce4 ,! p>agraphi/ 0 evid5tly a man & knew 8 sex4 ,! girl :o runs aft] a man fails4 ,%e m likely disgu/s him ?an flatt]s him4 ,he does n want h] or h] att5tions :5 he c h !m )\t ! seek+4 ,x is man's prov9ce to woo1 & 8 :ole nature seems to revolt aga9/ a turn+ ( ! tables4 ,i call to m9d a s*oolmate :o on ?is acc\nt 0 a complete failure4 ,%e 0 pretty1 bright1 ev5 witty1 well educat$1 mov$ 9 good society1 & _h money1 b no man want$ h]4 ,h] boldness disgu/$ all ( !m4 ,:5 %e saw "o %e fanci$1 %e paid su* op5 c\rt to him t he avoid$ h]4 ,"s "t aft]w>ds1 :5 %e saw ! uselessness ( pursuit !re1 %e turn$ h] att5tions else:]e1 runn+ aft] ano!r man4 ,al?\gh naturally attractive1 ,i nev] knew a man :o want$ h]4 ,i h kn[n ( o!r girls :o h nev] m>ri$ = ?is same reason4 ,x seems to be a common fault4 ,x is a s]i\s "o4 ,if y are at all incl9$ to be =w>d ) m51 /op x4 ,y w n only fail to m>ry1 y w lose respect4 ,y ga9 no?+ & lose all4 ,y *eap5 y\rself & y\r *>ms :5 y 8?r[ y\rself at a man's head40 ,z x has be5 decre$ f ! beg9n+ ( ! _w t man is ! head ( ! woman1 s x is decre$ t z he %all protect h]1 he is ! "o to woo & %e ! "o to be won4 ,y w meet co>se m5 :o w respond to all y\r advances4 ,!y w pay y att5tion j = ! fun ( ! ?+4 ,!y w nev] m>ry y1 & x w\ld be a good lesson to y if y c\ld he> !m talk ( y among !mselves4 ,a man nev] sp>es a girl :o has no respect = h]self4 ,a man :om y run aft] may ev5 say _m t5d] ?+s to y4 ,he may lead y up to ! po9t :]e1 if y _h n begun x1 y w\ld h a "r to expect him to ask y to m>ry him4 ,he doesn't4 ,he /ops j !re4 ,a girl's great *>m is a sweet1 womanly mode/y1 :i* appe>s to hide a love %e _c help feel+4 ,x is a great mi/ake to let y\r male fri5ds see y ) any blemi%es ^u y4 ,if y h a break+-out on ! face1 a swoll5 *eek1 a r$ nose1 or any?+ :i* disfigures y1 hide y\rself till x is ov]4 ,m5 l to idealize a girl :om !y admire1 & !y _c idealize a swoll5 face or a r$ nose4 ,i knew a girl :o cont9ually _h /yes on h] eyes4 ,%e 0 n wise en\gh to hide h]self at ! "t1 b cont9u$ to g out :]e %e w\ld meet h] male fri5ds4 ,%e has nev] m>ri$1 & ,i h always ?\ght t ?is is ! reason4 ,ano!r girl _h h] front tee? drawn1 & w5t ab\t too?less = a :ile4 ,o!r girls d n hesitate to let m5 see !m ) _! bangs 9 curl-pap]s4 ,a man w nev] let y see him ) 8 hair n comb$ or ) 8 face la!r$ = %av+4 ,be tidy always4 ,h y\r hair comb$1 y\r dress neat1 ev5 if x is old4 ,pat*es are to be respect$1 :ile holes m>k ! slov54 ,always1 ev5 if y are scrubb+ ! floor1 be ready to see any "o :o comes4 ,! v "o 9 ^: eyes y mo/ desire to appe> well may come !n4 ,"s m5 h a way ( dropp+ 9 at su* unexpect$ times4 ,_m a man has be5 disillusioniz$ by a dirty dress or a fr[sy head4 ,m5 l a nice appe>ance4 ,!y nev] want to m>ry a slov5 if !y "k x4 ,a bright & int]e/+ writ] has nev] m>ri$ = ?is reason4 ,h] head is nev] comb$1 & !re is always a rip some:]e 9 h] dress4 ,h] h&s are g5]ally t\*$ (f ) ink4 ,! indep5d5t1 self-reliant girl is r>ely a favorite ) m54 ,a man loves to protect4 ,he does n l a ma/]ful1 bossy girl4 ,he does n want to foll[ z if he 7 a spaniel4 ,x is a poor specim5 ( a man :o does n want to lead4 ,?ree si/]s 7 left ) a v little money at ! dea? ( _! fa!r4 ,!y 7 self-reliant & ?or\gh bus9ess wom54 ,!y inve/$ _! money to su* good advantage 9 real e/ate t 9 a few ye>s !y became weal?y wom54 ,!y 7 nev] m>ri$4 ,x w\ld h be5 impossible = any man ) any self-respect to h lov$ ei!r ( !m3 !y 7 s manni%1 indep5d5t1 & self-reliant4 ,d n be ( ! s-call$ woman's rights ord]4 ,m5 hate /rong-m9d$ wom5 :o are =ev] h>p+ on ! wrongs ( wom5 & ( ! rights !y are go+ to h4 ,t k9d ( girl g5]ally does h a wrong--! wrong ( be+ neglect$ by ! /]n] sex4 ,a woman's "r is a husb&1 a home1 & *ildr54 ,x is h] "r to h some?+ to love & to make happy4 ,:5 %e wants to usurp a man's place1 %e is go+ out ( h] sph]e & makes a failure ( h] life4 ,if y h a lean+ t[>ds 8woman's rights10 erect y\rself & lean ! o!r way4 ,if y d n1 y are doom$ to unattractive sp9/]hood1 dress re=m1 & ! lecture plat=m1 & to fe$ on husks4 ,t sweet little wife yond]1 :o h>dly kn[s :o is be+ vot$ =1 & ^: horizon is b\nd$ by h] husb&1 is fe$+ on corn4 ,%e believes t h] rights are wifehood & mo!rhood1 & %e has !m4 ,a self-ass]tive girl fails4 ,a self-ass]tive1 selfi%1 self-c5tr$ girl is no man's ideal4 ,x is unwomani% z well z unwomanly4 ,a girl :o c pu% ahead & take h] own "p is g5]ally all[$ to d s4 ,x is a mi/ake to be any?+ t is unfem99e4 ,m5 nev] admire girls :o h mascul9e *>act]i/ics4 ,only a fool w m>ry h]4 ,d n ape m5 9 dress or mann]4 ,/rive to be womani% & womanly at all times 9 e way4 ,! attractive woman is womanly sweetness p]sonifi$4 ,! girl :o insi/s ^u att5tions gets none4 ,! girl :o looks ^u h] escort z h] slave pro tem4 loses him4 ,y mu/ nev] treat a man z if he 7 y\r s]vant4 ,he w n /& x f y1 al?\gh y may be attractive 9 o!r ways4 ,8 manhood w ass]t itself1 & no matt] h[ mu* he has lov$ y1 t love w be kill$4 ,x is a poor outlook = m>ri$ happ9ess4 ,he does n c>e to w$ :]e he kn[s he w be h5peck$4 ,a poor girl w m>ry be=e a weal?y "o w4 ,! latt] has x writt5 ^u h] t x co/s a m9t to keep h]4 ,%e may be mu* admir$1 b %e is an exp5sive luxury4 ,unless a "y man has exceptional means1 he mu/ give h] up4 ,y w f9d numb]s ( unm>ri$ wom5 9 ! highe/ society ev]y:]e4 ,m5 are afraid to m>ry ! daught]s ( millionnaires1 unless a l>ge d[ry is go+ to be among ! w$d+ pres5ts4 ,extravagant habits1 !y "k1 h be5 h] rule4 ,%e has nev] be5 taught to economize 9 any?+4 ,%e mu/ h an e/abli%m5t z elegant z h] fa!r's4 ,%e c\ld n ?9k ( beg9n+ z humbly z h] p>5ts likely did4 ,s %e ei!r fails to m>ry at all1 or m>ries late 9 life1 :5 ! dea? ( h] p>5ts has giv5 h] an indep5d5t =tune4 ,a girl :o %[s h] anxiety to m>ry g5]ally fails to d s4 ,a man feels t x is m>riage & n himself t %e wants4 ,t w\nds 8 vanity4 ,%e is nev] self-possess$ 9 ! society ( m54 ,%e is s anxi\s to please t %e plans be=eh& :at %e w say4 ,:5 %e says x1 x comes out wrong & does n fit 94 ,%e is trembl+ & eag] ev5 if %e does n run aft] him4 ,l vault+ ambition1 %e o'erleaps h]self4 ,e "t y meet h]1 %e has new & fre% hopes4 ,%e is wait+ always anxi\sly = a proposal1 & w\ld accept any man :o (f]$ himself reg>dless ( cre$ 7almo/ color71 circum/ances1 "*1 & condition4 ,! %>p1 snubby girl nev] succe$s4 ,a man w n /ay :]e he is snubb$ or :]e 8 vanity is w\nd$4 ,"s girls1 especially v "y ones1 h an idea t !y are say+ sm>t ?+s :]e !y are only say+ %>p ?+s4 ,y h>dly realize :at a great mi/ake y are mak+ :5 y try to be witty at a man's exp5se4 ,y only make a great] "o :5 y are cutt+ 9 y\r rem>ks4 ,girls h an idea t x does a "y man good to h1 z !y express x1 8! conceit tak5 out ( him40 ,i d\bt if x does1 & ev5 s1 y are n ! "o to d x4 ,let him h a good op9ion ( himself 9 8 y\?4 ,help him to x1 r ?an to try to take x away f him4 ,! outside _w w give him knocks en\gh z he battles 8 way up 9 x1 to take any am\nt ( conceit out ( him4 ,maybe he comes to y sometimes j sm>t+ f "o4 ,let him f9d = 8 w\nds a balm4 ,le>n to soo! & sympa?ize in/ead ( hurt+4 ,y\r tongue is sometimes s unwitt+ly cruel4 ,y\r laugh is s he>tless t y make a man ) a rh9oc]os sk9 %r9k4 ,x all flies back ^u y\r own head1 h[ev]4 ,y w suff] = x aft]w>ds4 ,x w only drive him f y4 ,girls (t5 c attract :o _c keep a beau4 ,notice !m4 ,see if !y h n %>p tongues & d n love to take ! conceit out ( a man4 8,he has too good an op9ion ( himself1 b ,i let him "k :at ,i ?\ght ( him10 ,i h he>d girls say4 ,"o ?+ is c]ta9--if y h done t1 y w nev] he> f him t he ?9ks mu* ( y4 ,s r\nd (f y\r %>p corn]s4 ,rememb] t ! "y man ) a good op9ion ( himself is ! m easy to w91 because y c play ^u 8 vanity4 ,d n speak y\r m9d pla9ly4 ,c]ta9 p]sons pride !mselves on pla9 speak+1 z if !re 7 a virtue 9 hurt+ "s "o else's feel+s4 ,:5 y he> any "o say1 8,i always speak my m9d10 y may "k %e says disagreeable ?+s4 ,%e ?9ks :5 %e has said t t %e c g ahead1 cutt+ "r & left ) h] tongue4 ,!y are nev] p :o praise4 ,x appe>s t ^? :o say 8j :at !y ?9k0 g5]ally ?9k unk9d ?+s4 ,avoid do+ s1 especially to a man4 ,x is unk9d4 ,x makes m enemies ! _w ov] ?an any?+ else4 ,m5 w swall[ praise ad nauseum1 b !y w n take c5sure4 ,! ecc5tric girl _h bett] nev] h be5 born1 z f> z m5 are conc]n$4 ,!y w h no?+ to d ) h]4 ,if y are ecc5tric & h prid$ y\rself ^u x1 ! soon] y become l folks ! bett] = y4 ,a man w n pay att5tion to an oddity4 ,an outl&i% hat t causes comm5t w sometimes drive him away4 ,he may n "k :at is ! matt] ) x1 b he kn[s he w n ask y out :ile !re is any dang] ( y\r we>+ x4 ,x is a mi/ake to be odd 9 y\r conduct or language4 ,ecc5tricity gr[s ^u "o4 ,if y are giv5 to x 9 y\r y\?1 :at w y be 9 y\r old age8 ,a man w\ld "k t if he 7 ra% en\gh to m>ry y1 e day y w\ld make him a%am$4 ,! girl :o has too _m g5tlem5 fri5ds h>dly ev] m>ries4 ,!re is some?+ 9 e man's he>t :i* subscribes to 8,! rose t all are prais+1 ,is n ! rose = me40 ,!re are cases :]e jeal\sy ( ano!r's man's att5tions w ha/5 a proposal4 ,b two are 9 ! case !re1 h[ev]1 & bo? are 9 love4 ,avoid _m g5tlem5 call]s4 ,d n all[ y\r h\se to become a meet+-place4 ,a man w n fall 9 love :]e he sees y smile z sweetly on ano!r man z y d ^u him4 ,he w reign alone4 ,he nev] goes on %>es :]e a he>t is conc]n$4 ,a man may call (t51 :]e he kn[s he w meet o!r m51 b x is only z a fri5d4 ,he does n fall 9 love ) 8 ho/ess4 ,:5 he m>ries x w likely be "s little mode/ girl :o h>dly kn[s any man b himself4 ,:5 ,i 0 v "y ,i rememb] hop+ t :5 ,i grew old] ,i w\ld h z _m g5tlem5 call]s z a c]ta9 "y lady :o liv$ ne> u4 ,e night h] p>lors 7 ?rong$4 ,x seem$ to be a g5]al meet+-place = "y m54 ,h] si/] & h]self lavi%$ _! smiles ^u !m4 ,%e nev] m>ri$4 ,h] si/] m>ri$ a man :om %e met 9 ano!r place1 & :o h>dly ev] came to ! h\se4 ,ano!r girl _h q z _m call]s4 ,%e mu/ h se5 h] dang]1 = %e ceas$ to receive !m4 ,"s "t lat] %e m>ri$4 ,x is flatt]+ to y\r vanity to h a great _m g5tlem5 fri5ds :o call1 & :o take y out1 b x w c]ta9ly /& 9 ! way ( m>riage4 ,x is fun1 d\btless1 to c\nt up a long li/ ( escorts1 b ! girl :o c d s r>ely c\nts up a long li/ ( (f]s4 ,a girl :o 0 s retir+ t %e 0 r>ely invit$ out by a g5tleman1 0 lov$ by almo/ e man :o got well-acqua9t$ ) h]4 ,%e c\ld h c\nt$ up a long li/ ( (f]s b a %ort li/ ( escorts4 ,at a p>ty %e 0 a wall-fl[]4 ,%e _h few g5tlem5 call]s1 yet x seems z ?\gh all m5 long$ to possess h]4 ,%e pass$ mo/ ( h] ev5+s alone ) h] family1 & m>ri$ well4 ,s x %[s t kn[+ _m m5 w\ld r indicate no m>riage ?an a surety ( "o4 ,! cold girl nev] succe$s4 ,a man w\ld z soon make love to an icicle4 ,a man pref]s fire4 ,he likes a w>m1 liv+ he>t4 ,he wants to see t a girl has t he>t4 ,a pretty1 /yli% "y girl :om ,i want to see settl$ 9 life is fail+ to d s on j t acc\nt4 ,%e 9 n naturally cold1 b :5 %e is at all int]e/$ 9 a man1 %e becomes almo/ frigid 9 8 pres5ce4 ,%e is too afraid ( %[+ h] int]e/ 9 him to all[ him to see t %e responds to 84 ,a man wants an affectionate1 w>m-he>t$ wife4 ,s he w m>ry :at seems to him to be an affectionate girl4 ,!re is a c]ta9 w>m? ( mann] t w %[ ?is disposition4 ,a girl fails :o w n let ! man :o is beg9n+ to love h] see t %e c return love4 ,x mu/ be %[n mode/ly1 h[ev]4 ,y mu/ be sympa!tic4 ,man has 8 success & 8 failures 9 life4 ,z he comes to y1 he is ?9k+ ( !m m ?an he is ( y4 ,he wants to talk ( !m4 ,if y d n %[ a sympa!tic int]e/1 he w g :]e he c get x4 ,draw him out on 8 favorite topic1 no matt] if x is himself4 ,i rememb] once walk+ two squ>es ) a g5tleman :o talk$ ( no?+ else b a slight injury on 8 h&4 ,an int]e/+1 intellectual lady is go+ ?r\gh life unm>ri$ = no o!r reason1 ,i believe1 ?an h] lack ( sympa?y4 ,y are consci\s ( ?is lack :5ev] y conv]se ) h]4 ,if y m5tion y\rself1 y\r humble aim & ambitions1 a dead sil5ce falls4 ,y feel z if y 7 undone & wi% y c\ld hide y\r head4 ,a woman w ha/5 to *ange ! subject & to make am5ds4 ,a man leaves & nev] returns4 ,a man likes to look1 z x 71 9 a mirror4 ,he likes to see himself reflect$ 9 ! eyes t meet 84 ,he wants to feel t ! girl has s mu* int]e/ 9 him t %e is int]e/$ 9 e ^w he says ab\t himself4 ,! girl :o talks ab\t h]self usurps 8 pr]ogative4 ,he does n reli% t1 & h] society is /upid to him4 ,i is a man's pron\n4 ,y is a woman's4 ,v "y girls :o are fill$ ) !mselves & _! own affairs are v mu* giv5 to ?is4 ,z !y gr[ old]1 !y see x does n d4 ,be> 9 m9d t no matt] h[ pretty y are or h[ sweet1 if y w talk ab\t y\rself to a man1 y become 8z t$i\s z a twice-told tale vex+ ! dull e>s ( a dr[sy man40 ,!re is an old witticism :i* tells ! tru? 9 a nut%ell3 8,:at is a bore8 ,a man :o talks ab\t himself :5 y want to talk ab\t y\rself40 ,! high-temp]$ girl fails4 ,a man b5t ^u matrimony avoids h] if he is aw>e ( x4 ,if y h su* an infirmity1 try to get rid ( x z y w\ld a facial blemi%4 ,try h>d]2 = x is inde$ f> worse ?an any bodily disfigurem5t4 ,our ,"l1 ^: /r5g? is suffici5t = y always1 w help y to d s4 ,"s girls falsely call x a high _s4 ,x is any?+ b t4 ,x is a weak _s4 ,a girl :o gives way to temp] has no control ov] h]self4 ,%e is weak in/ead ( high & /rong4 ,h] doors are always op51 & :oev] w may come 9 & upset h]4 ,in/ead ( be+ pr\d ( x1 be a%am$ ( x4 ,:ile possess+ x1 y\r life is a failure ev]y:]e4 ,a sweet1 int]e/+1 lively conv]sationali/ is "o ?+1 & a girl ) a long tongue is ano!r4 ,avoid gossip & m$dl+4 ,x is a mi/ake to ent]ta9 a g5tleman ) an acc\nt ( y\r neighbor's fail+s & backslid+s4 ,8 int]e/s are broad]4 ,he r>ely /oops to su* little ?+s1 & !y we>y him4 ,m5 nev] c>e = girls :o h ! reputation = be+ gossips4 ,fill y\r m9d ) bett] ?+s4 ,read & enl>ge y\r p[]s ( conv]sation4 ,x is a mi/ake to be inquisitive4 ,:ile a man likes a girl to be int]e/$ 9 him & 9 8 do+s1 he does n want to be que/ion$ ab\t !m4 ,a walk+ int]rogation po9t is nev] a pleasant companion4 ,:5 y draw him out x mu/ be ) tact4 ,a precise1 prim1 :at we call an old maidi% girl is a failure4 ,%e is born to a lonely life ( sp9/]hood4 ,unless %e *ange %e _c escape h] fate4 ,at he>t %e may be all t is true & good1 b no man w ev] f9d t out4 ,z a rule m5 judge ( u by outw>d appe>ances4 ,!y take wom5 m = :at !y seem to be ?an = :at !y are4 ,! good qualities ( ! prim girl are all lo/ ^u him4 ,) g5tlem5 a l\d girl nev] succe$s4 ,%e c always attract ! att5tions ( co>se m51 b a well-br$ man avoids h]4 ,he loves mode/y4 ,he does n want ! girl :om he escorts to be conspicu\s by boi/]\s talk+ & laugh+4 ,he does n want h] to be hail-fell[-well-met ) e man !y meet4 ,x %[s %e has no mode/y4 ,he _c respect h] & w n m>ry h]4 ,x is nev] nice to be 8gay0 or 8fa/40 ,! m5 :om y attract ab\t y by x are n ! m5 y want to m>ry4 ,!y are ! k9d :o d n want to m>ry y or any "o else4 ,l\d1 conspicu\s dress+ is nev] an attraction4 ,m5 l /yli%1 well-dress$ girls1 b !y nev] l any?+ t is fla%y or t attracts att5tion4 ,! girl :o imag9es e man %e meets is 9 love ) h] r>ely is lov$ by "o4 ,?is is a common fault ) "y girls4 ,x comes ei!r f innate sill9ess or f ! read+ ( too _m novels4 ,! wor/ ( x is1 %e is n ev5 cur$ ( h] folly :5 ! m5 d n propose to h]1 b d to "s o!r girl4 ,%e imag9es "s insurm\ntable difficulty 0 9 8 way1 & t he has only m>ri$ ! o!r girl out ( pique4 ,t is ! way x 0 9 ! la/ novel %e read4 ,girls1 be s5sible4 ,e man y meet w n fall 9 love ) y4 ,:5 "o does1 he w let y "k x4 ,m5 are n giv5 to sigh+ 9 secret ov] "o girl1 !n m>ry+ ano!r )\t love4 ,a man :o loves y w be op5 ab\t x4 ,he w n avoid y4 ,he acts on ! spot3 sometimes )\t mu* ?\ght4 ,s :5 a man does n pay att5tion to y1 re/ assur$1 unless y h (f5d$ him1 t he does n want to d s4 ,he is n 9 love ) y4 ,he is m likely to pay att5tion )\t lov+1 ?an to love )\t pay+ att5tions4 ,a va9 girl fails4 ,! pretty girl :o dep5ds altoge!r ^u h] looks & is pr\d ( h] beauty1 r>ely m>ries4 ,i h spok5 ( ?is be=e4 ,x has be5 ?\ght t 9 matrimony1 z 9 o!r fields1 ! pla9-featur$ girl has ! greate/ success4 ,a pretty girl />ts out ) false notions ( h] *>ms4 ,%e ?9ks t %e has only to be se5 to be lov$4 ,%e ov]e/imates h] "o gift1 & does n try to cultivate o!rs4 ,y\?s :o easily fall 9 love & z easily out aga9 are caught by a m]ely pretty face4 ,m5 want some?+ m4 ,let me quote f an article on ?is subject :i* ,i read ! o!r day3 8,look ab\t y & c\nt ! numb] ( fad$1 ?w>t$ beauties y "k1 :o are embitt]$ dep5d5ts1 or else late 9 life h pick$ up a brok5 /ick 9 ! %ape ( a p>tn] to help disguise _! crippl$ vanity4 ,9 fact1 s frequ5tly is ?is ! case t betwe5 ! ages ( sixte5 & tw5ty-six only extraord9>y virtue & tal5t ev] saves a belle f griev\s folly 9 h] aspirations40 ,s if y are a beauty & wi% to m>ry1 ,i advise y /rongly to put aside all vanity1 & to cultivate ! sup]ior *>ms ( y\r pla9] si/]s4 ,nev] all[ y\r "m to d ! c\rt+4 ,!re are times :5 a girl c w9 a man aga9/ 8 w1 & he w nev] "k t x 0 %e :o did x4 ,a "m nev] c d ?is4 ,a man kn[s x e "t4 ,:5 he sees h] ef=ts1 he is =ew>n$ & on 8 gu>d4 ,x is all done 9 cold blood & delib]ately by ! "m4 ,! daught] has less delib]ation & a great deal ( w>m blood :5 %e attempts x4 ,he is likely to ?9k3 8,:at an int]e/+ girl6 ,i believe ,i c\ld get h] if ,i tri$10 & may try4 ,( ! "m's ef=ts1 he ?9ks3 8,t old woman wants me to m>ry h] daught]4 ,i c see ?r\gh h]4 ,i won't d x40 ,a "m may make h]self s attractive t1 if %e 7 a girl1 %e w\ld w9 him4 ,not)/&+ t1 he h>d5s 8 he>t aga9/ ! daught]4 ,a lady :o1 ev5 z a gr&mo!r1 is attractive to m51 tri$ 9 h] e>ly m>ri$ days to w9 a "y man = h] si/]4 ,he respond$ quickly to h] ov]tures1 & seem$ glad to come to ! h\se4 ,%e ?\ght %e 0 succe$+1 :5 "o day he said to h]3 8,i "k :at y are ab\t4 ,y might z well give x up1 y won't accompli% x4 ,if y 7 n m>ri$1 h[ev]1 ,i w\ld propose to y to-day40 ,%e did give x up4 ,a girl makes a mi/ake :o brags ( h] conque/s4 ,%e %\ld nev] speak ( !m to any "o4 ,if a man :om y _c accept (f]s y 8 h&1 =get t he did s4 ,by y\r mann] to him :5 y meet aft]w>ds1 endeavor to make him =get x4 ,! girl :o tells ab\t ! he>ts %e has won1 w9s no m4 ,m5 gr[ afraid ( h]4 ,%e is n to be tru/$1 !y ?9k4 ,if %e w lead o!r m5 on to propose only to reject !m1 !n tell ( x1 %e w d ! same to !m4 ,a girl :o fe>s t ! man to :om %e only is pleasant w ?9k %e is 9 love ) him1 is n likely to accompli% mu* matrimonially4 ,%e gr[s too self-consci\s & /iff 9 h] mann]4 ,y mu/ =get y\rself1 or rememb] only t a man is won by a pleasant mann]4 ,if he did ?9k y 7 a bit int]e/$ 9 him1 he w\ld be flatt]$ by x1 & might return x %ortly4 ,by a pleasant mann] ,i d n mean a cont9ual giggl+4 ,:ile y mu/ be animat$ & lively1 y _c laugh cont9ually4 ,a s5sible girl c be grave z well z gay4 ,!re are times1 & pl5ty ( !m1 :5 laught] j>s4 ,!re is c]ta9ly a "t to laugh & a "t to cry2 b !re is nev] a "t to giggle4 ,solomon gives a li/ ( almo/ ev]y?+ = :i* we h "t1 b he nev] says a ^w ab\t giggl+4 ,a bright1 animat$ mann] & cont9ual giggl+ are two diff]5t ?+s4 ,a bright girl is ev]y:]e a success4 ,a giggl] is g5]ally consid]$ half-witt$4 ,a giggl] has no dep? ( feel+4 ,a bright1 lively girl g5]ally has a great deal ( feel+2 %e is n sl[ to %[ x1 ei!r4 ,d n laugh :5 y talk4 ,d n laugh ! mom5t a man speaks to y1 keep+ x up all ! "t he is ) y4 ,x looks z if y 7 delight$ out ( y\r s5ses4 ,d n laugh e "t he looks at y till he beg9s to wond] if !re is a black spot on 8 nose4 ,"s m5 may pref] a grave girl any way4 ,y might /udy ! man & ! place be=e y are too lively4 ,x may be t "s ( y :o read ^! *apt]s h fail$ s f> to w9 any man's love4 ,exam9e y\rself & y\r peculi>ities to see :]e9 ! tr\ble lies4 ,:5 y h f\nd x1 /rive to ov]come ! difficulty4 ,y _c d x 9 y\r own /r5g?4 ,! ,"l w help y4 ,he w give y grace to ov]come e evil temp]1 e disagreeable habit1 e unlovely mann]4 ,if y ask ,him1 ,he w make y sweet & lovely4 ,re/ assur$ t ,he is int]e/$ 9 y\r success2 = ,he did n int5d woman to live alone4 ,,*apt] ,v4 ,,"s ,,unfail+ ,,me?ods4 ,x is univ]sally kn[n t :5 a man & woman h a mutual int]e/1 !y get int]e/$ 9 ea* o!r4 ,:5 !y are 9 any way drawn toge!r1 !y soon f9d t !y _c live ap>t4 ,:5 a man gr[s accu/om$ to a woman ) :om he is pleas$1 he desires to keep h] ) him4 ,s we may consid] t a companion%ip ) a man is an unfail+ way to w9 him4 ,?is companion%ip un=tunately is n always easy to arrange4 ,x is (t5 difficult to get up a mutual int]e/4 ,:5 y c1 be sure to d s4 ,x mu/ come naturally h[ev]4 ,a =c$ arrangem5t1 pla9ly se51 w\ld defeat itself4 ,m>riages frequ5tly take place betwe5 p>ties :o bo>d 9 ! same h\se4 ,see+ ea* o!r daily1 gett+ well acqua9t$1 & ! mutual int]e/1 ev5 ( ! table1 w draw !m toge!r4 ,a "y lady bo>d$1 ) h] bro!r1 9 a h\se :]e !re 7 no o!r "y ladies1 b a numb] ( g5tlem54 ,all admir$ h]1 sev]al 7 smitt5 ) h]1 & two ask$ h] h& 9 m>riage4 ,a ?ird began to ?9k m ( h] ?an ( ! girl to :om he 0 engag$4 ,a wid[1 ) a nice home ( h] own1 took two cl]gym5 to bo>d4 ,x 0 n long be=e bo? want$ to m>ry h]4 ,%e did n want ei!r ( !m1 b took ! "o :o 0 ! mo/ p]si/5t4 ,s++ toge!r is ano!r mutual int]e/4 ,x is ! means ( _m a m>riage4 ,9 a qu>tette1 ! soprano & t5or m>ry1 ! bass & alto4 ,! s+] may m>ry 8 accompani/4 ,j5nie ,l9d m>ri$ h] unkn[n piani/1 ,golds*midt1 :o 0 y\ng] ?an h]self4 ,actors1 :o are always ?r[n mu* toge!r1 m>ry & unm>ry ad libitum 9 a disgraceful way4 ,! m>riage ( ! type-writ] & h] employ] is s frequ5t t x has pass$ into a joke4 ,!y gr[ int]e/$ 9 ea* o!r f m]e companion%ip4 ,a /ud5t falls 9 love ) ! si/] ( 8 fri5d :]e he visits dur+ vacation4 ,! late ,h5ry ,w>d ,bee*] met 8 wife at h] fa!r's home :i!r he _h gone ) a college *um1 h] bro!r4 ,i _h an aunt :o _h (f]s f two /ud5ts br\ght home by h] bro!rs4 ,?is is su* a common occurr5ce t ent]pris+ mo!rs sometimes urge sons to br+ home desirable /ud5ts to introduce to h] daught]s4 ,a lawy] w m>ry a fair cli5t4 ,i might add t he is ! m likely to d s if he is settl+ up a l>ge e/ate = h]4 ,a physician r>ely m>ries a pati5t4 ,if y\r he>t is set ^u a c]ta9 physician d n play ! rle ( an invalid4 ,:5 y are sick y %\ld h a m>ri$ physician4 ,a "y lady 0 tak5 ill ) pneumonia4 ,h] family 7 /rang]s 9 ! place1 &1 )\t kn[+ x1 call$ 9 an unm>ri$ physician4 ,he 0 int]e/$ 9 ! case1 b n 9 ! lea/ 9 h]4 ,a ye> lat] he met h]1 :5 9 p]fect heal?1 at ! h\se ( a mutual fri5d & fell 9 love ) h]4 ,liv+ next door to ea* o!r w (t5 make "y p int]e/$ 9 ea* o!r4 ,*ur*-"w :i* br+s "y m5 & maid5s toge!r is fruitful ( _m m>riages4 ,a "y man 0 put on a fair-table ) a numb] ( ladies4 ,he fell 9 love ) ! only unm>ri$ "o on x4 ,a "y cl]gyman comes 9 contact ) s _m girls1 & is s run aft]1 t go+ to 8 *ur* & ent]+ into ! "w = 8 sake is b lo/ labor4 ,if y want to "w 9 a ,*ur*1 d x = ! ,"l1 )\t a ?\ght ( :o has *>ge ( t body ( wor%ipp]s4 ,we le>n f ,abel>d & ,heloise :at ! pupil w become to ! tea*]4 ,almo/ always1 :5 nei!r are m>ri$1 free lessons 9 love accompany ano!r k9d ( a lesson--t is1 if ! lessons are private4 ,m5 fall 9 love ) a lady :o tea*es !m any?+4 ,a "y lady 0 taught ,hebrew by an unm>ri$ cl]gyman4 ,!y m>ri$ ab\t a ye> aft] ! lessons began4 ,a man & woman :o are 9 bus9ess toge!r almo/ always m>ry4 ,an au?or has be5 kn[n to m>ry h] publi%]4 ,a ,mr4 ,maxwell publi%$ ,miss ,braddon's novels1 & n[ %e is ,mrs4 ,maxwell4 ,m>g>et ,sydney is ! nom de plume ( a writ] :o m>ri$ h] publi%]1 ,daniel ,lo?rop1 ( ,lo?rop & ,co4 ,an almo/ c]ta9 way to w9 a man's love is to w9 8 confid5ce4 ,:5 a man talks to a woman ab\t 8 greate/ int]e/1 he becomes int]e/$ 9 h]4 ,:5 he op5s 8 :ole he>t to h]1 he gives h] t he>t4 ,i nev] knew ?is to fail4 ,h[ to w9 ?is confid5ce is ! puzzle4 ,! v man y want may be ! "o :o kn[s ! mo/ ab\t keep+ 8 affairs to himself4 ,y w h to use tact & pati5ce 9 draw+ him out4 ,get him to talk ab\t 8 bus9ess1 or make him talk ( 8 books1 8 pleasures1 8 family3 always ab\t himself4 ,p]si/ 9 ?is g5tly4 ,%[ him y c keep a secret4 ,enc\rage him to talk ab\t himself until he t\*es ^u some?+ t is ne>e/ 8 he>t4 ,"s m5 w d ?is soon] ?an o!rs4 ,! man :o readily confides 9 y1 readily falls 9 love--& almo/ z readily falls out4 ,x is said t ! he>t :i* is easily won is h>d to keep2 & t ! he>t :i* is h>d to w9 y nev] lose4 ,:5 y h drawn any man to tell y 8 he>t unres]v$ly1 he is y\rs4 ,a "y man 0 9 love ) a girl ( :om 8 "m did n approve4 ,he 0 mu* di/ress$ by ! fuss %e made4 ,he did n want to give up ! girl or to pa9 8 "m4 ,he mu/ talk ( 8 tr\ble to "s "o1 & he select$ a "y girl :o 0 visit+ ! family4 ,he told h] all 8 tr\bles4 ,%e enc\rag$ him ) inf9ite tact until he spoke unres]v$ly4 ,:5ev] he c\ld f9d h] alone he talk$ ( t & ( no?+ else4 ,!n he plann$ to be alone ) h]4 ,be=e ?ree mon?s he lov$ h] bett] ?an he did ! fir/ "o4 ,,*apt] ,,vi4 ,a ,,^w ,,( ,,w>n+4 ,! greate/ mi/ake a girl c make is to all[ famili>ities f m54 ,a girl mu/ be circumspect 9 h] conduct4 ,%e mu/ be self-respect+4 ,hav+ a prop] self-respect & be+ a prude are two diff]5t ?+s4 ,a man nev] likes a prude4 ,he nev]1 9 8 he>t1 c>es = "o :o has no self-respect4 ,a man1 ( a c]ta9 class1 w pay h] att5tion & take advantage ( ! lib]ties %e all[s1 b he nev] m>ries h]4 ,y are n safe if y all[ ! lea/ digression f ! "r pa?4 ,a slip once made c nev] be recall$1 & ! second foll[s v easily on ! fir/4 ,!n comes ! ?ird1 & s on1 till ru9 is ! end = y--n = him4 ,x is a girl's own fault if %e fall4 ,x is h] place to gu>d h] honor4 ,y w meet _m a man :o is lov]-l & fasc9at+1 b if he says no?+ ab\t m>riage1 leave him alone4 ,y d n want to he> ( love1 if t is all he has to say4 ,nev] m9d if y d love him4 ,if he loves y & f9ds he _c possess y o!rwise1 he w want to m>ry y4 ,bew>e ( ! beg9n+4 ,be c>eful ( y\r conv]sation4 ,nev] smile at a joke ) a d\ble mean+4 ,meet x ) sil5ce4 ,d n pret5d y d n und]/& if y d3 !re are m5 :o w\ld take pleasure 9 enlight5+ y4 ,!re are times :5 x is well to %[ t y d n approve ( x2 y may ev5 h to rebuke x4 ,!reaft] avoid t man4 ,if he c>es to cont9ue y\r fri5d%ip1 he w "k h[ he mu/ behave himself4 ,nev] let a "y man repeat a /ory to y t he w\ld n repeat if y\r "m 7 pres5t4 ,a man :o w\ld d t1 means no good to y4 ,an old & excell5t rule is1 nev] talk ab\t any?+ to a man y w\ld n talk ab\t be=e a ?ird p>ty2 & nev] talk to a girl z y w\ld n talk if a man 7 pres5t4 ,nev] say any?+ to ei!r :i* y w\ld n repeat to y\r "m4 ,a well-kn[n writ] has lately said3 8,x is always a mi/ake = a "y girl to talk to a man z if %e 7 blas & widely exp]i5c$ 9 all human emotions1 frailties1 & faults4 ,_m inexp]i5c$1 innoc5t girls adopt ?is mann]1 ?9k+ x w r5d] !m fasc9at+ 9 ! eyes ( m54 ,m5 take u = :at we seem1 n = :at we are4 ,! mo/ h>d5$ monda9e :o we>s a mask ( frank innoc5ce f>es bett] ) !m ?an ! good1 sweet-he>t$ girl :o puts on blas airs & pret5ds to be a little wick$40 ,let y\r he>t be pure4 ,keep y\r lips pure4 ,god c make & keep !m s4 ,he c take away all int]e/ 9 s94 ,nev] make an appo9tm5t ) a "y man ( :i* y _c tell y\r "m4 ,:5 a "y man urges y to deceive y\r "m1 he means to deceive y4 ,y\r "m is y\r be/ fri5d2 make h] y\r confidante 9 all ?+s1 !n y w nev] g a/ray4 ,on ! fir/ approa* ( famili>ities1 consult h] & be guid$ by h] advice4 ,m5 d n h to be told3 !y "k :at girl !y may approa* famili>ly & :at "o !y mu/ treat ) respect4 ,y may be sure !re is some?+ wrong 9 y\r conduct if y are approa*$ z y d n wi% to be4 ,be c>eful n to call a man by 8 fir/ "n unless he is a relative4 ,a well-br$ lady w n ev5 address a man ?us :om %e has kn[n 9 h] *ildhood4 ,d n all[ a man to call y by y\r fir/ "n4 ,y c easily %[ by y\r mann] t x is di/a/eful to y4 ,*eck ev5 ! lib]ty ( y\r ,*ri/ian "n ) ! prefix ,miss4 ,al?\gh y may h an old] si/]1 y h a "r to y\r fa!r's "n4 ,if y _c be ,miss ,jones1 y c be ,miss ,m>y ,jones4 ,:5 y are out walk+ ) a g5tleman1 d n all[ him to grasp y\r elb[4 ,"s m5 d ?is in/ead ( (f]+ ! arm4 ,he is ill-br$ if he attempts x4 ,x is too famili> altoge!r1 & is becom+ too common4 ,a poli%$ g5tleman w n d x4 ,he w (f] 8 arm4 ,bew>e ( all[+ a c>ess f a man to :om y are n engag$4 ,/ifle 9 ! beg9n+ any attempt to d s4 ,d n s mu* z all[ him to hold y\r h&4 ,no matt] if y d l him1 & if 8 w>m grasp does s5d ! happy blood to y\r he>t1 x is a happ9ess y h no "r to--nei!r has he1 until he has spok54 ,sometimes ^! ?+s1 small z !y seem1 are b ! fir/ /ep on ! broad pa? t leads to de/ruction4 ,p]haps y l z mu* to feel t /rong arm ab\t y z he does to put x !re4 ,x is 9 8 p[] to make x "r to d s2 x is n 9 y\rs1 s refuse x4 ,believe me1 y w ga9 no?+ by x1 & may lose all4 ,if a man f9ds he _c embrace y un5gag$1 he w take /eps to be engag$ to y if he loves y4 ,poor *ild6 ,y all[ x because y love him4 ,x may be any?+ b love = y & y\r good t prompts 8 action4 ,a man r>ely b9ds himself to a girl :o all[s 8 c>esses )\t x4 ,ano!r ?+1 :ile y are treasur+ up ?is c>ess z a closely-gu>d$ secret1 he is d\btlessly tell+ 8 comrades :at lib]ties be c take ) y4 ,t is too true4 ,! indiscretions :i* a girl w hide1 he w boa/ (--x is a man's nature4 ,he judges y by himself1 too4 ,he kn[s t he kisses o!r girls :5 he c get a *ance1 & he supposes t y all[ o!r m5's c>esses4 ,a man c>es m = ! c>ess ?an = ! girl4 ,:5 he is n g5u9ely 9 love1 "o girl w d almo/ z well z ano!r4 ,he supposes x is ! same ) y4 ,he argues t if y are *eap to him1 y w be *eap to o!r m54 8,nev] speak ( love till y\r lov] speaks ( m>riage10 is a good old rule4 ,m5 d n talk mu* ab\t m>riage to a girl :o w pr(ess h] love be=e he asks h] to be 8 wife4 ,be c>eful to :om y give y\r photograph4 ,l figures1 !y _c lie4 ,if y h giv5 x1 y _c d5y do+ s3 x is !re1 a fact1 9 ! "y man's possession--he may %[ x to :om he pleases4 ,he g5]ally pleases to %[ x to all 8 male fri5ds4 ,x is ano!r ?+ :i* *eap5s y4 ,y\r picture is "o ( a collection he has ( girls4 ,maybe = a :ile1 :5 exhibit+ 8 gall]y ( beauties1 he may call y 8 be/ girl4 ,he does x all lightly1 & z ! "y m5 look ov] ! collection1 !y w make rem>ks ab\t y all :i*1 if y he>d !m1 w\ld make y blu%4 ,if a girl has no m respect = h]self ?an to give a picture to e man :o asks = x1 y mu/ n expect m5 to respect h]4 ,x is no sign a man loves y because he asks = y\r picture4 ,if he does1 let him ask = y fir/4 ,he m likely wants to enl>ge 8 collection ( photographs4 ,if y w5t into 8 room1 y w\ld see x /uck up 9 8 mirror ) a doz5 or s ( o!rs4 ,x is a mi/ake to imag9e t an engagem5t breaks d[n all b>ri]s4 ,engagem5ts are s frequ5tly brok54 ,in/ead ( be+ almo/ z sacr$ z m>riage1 !y are held lightly4 ,y mu/ cont9ue aft] y\r engagem5t to be c>eful ( y\r conduct & n to all[ any undue lib]ties4 ,d n let y\r lov]'s c>esses be too frequ5t or passionate4 ,"s "y p act z if !y only become engag$ s !y might kiss ea* o!r--!y sp5d all _! "t at x :5 !y are alone4 ,"s ( ^! ?+s are sweet] if !y are wait$ =4 ,c\ples :o are p>t$ dur+ _! engagem5t g5]ally are ! mo/ happy :5 !y are m>ri$4 ,!y h n exhau/$ _! affection2 in/ead ( its be+ an old /ory1 x is fre%4 ,if x 7 wor? ! :ile1 ,i w\ld advise y n to sit on a man's lap till y 7 8 wife4 ,x is q cu/om>y ) lov]s1 ,i "k2 b x seems to me to be lett+ d[n b>s :i* %\ld be left up4 ,engagem5ts are s easily brok5 t !re %\ld be /rict] l9es drawn4 ,surely no true woman :o has ent]$ ^u h] second engagem5t wants to rememb] h[ %e sat on ! lap ( ! fir/ betro!d4 ,:ile !re is no h>m 9 s do+1 y w be on ! safe side n to4 ,x is wrong to take money f y\r betro!d4 ,if y live on dry cru/s & "w till y drop1 refuse x4 ,be m>ri$ 9 calico r ?an h 8 money buy y\r w$d+-dress4 ,sometimes girls w urge a spe$y w$d+-day4 ,y h no m "r to d t ?an y h to ask him to m>ry y--! two g toge!r4 ,if he is too sl[ & y "k ( no reason :y he %\ld be1 he does n c>e mu* = y2 y _h bett] break ! engagem5t4 ,h[ev]1 if y\r he>t w\ld break ) ! engagem5t1 try to make him m anxi\s to h y all to himself4 ,x is n a girl's place to be eag] = ! m>riage4 ,if y are self-support+ & want to m>ry him because y are tir$ ( work+1 y wrong him4 ,no matt] :at reason y may h = wi%+ an e>ly m>riage1 x is nev] y\r "r to propose x4 ,att5tions f a m>ri$ man are bla/+ to a girl's reputation4 ,no matt] h[ fasc9at+ he is1 h[ mu* y admire him1 h[ mu* y l 8 att5tions1 refuse to accept !m4 ,he is desecrat+ ! mo/ sacr$ ord9ance1 m>riage4 ,he is insult+ y & wrong+ 8 wife4 ,ev5tually he w return to h]1 leav+ y ) a t>ni%$ "n4 ,8 wife w =give him1 & society w =get he w5t a/ray2 b 8 wife w nev] =give y1 & society w nev] =get x4 ,y w always be spok5 ( z ! girl t 0 8crazy aft] him40 ,x w /& 9 ! way ( a m>riage = y4 ,m5 d n c>e to m>ry a girl :o has be5 talk$ ab\t1 or ^: "n 0 c\pl$ ) a m>ri$ man's4 ,y lose ev]y?+ by x1 almo/ y\r "*4 ,!re is no su* food = gossip z ! att5tions ( a m>ri$ man to a girl4 ,!y suspect y are n all y ought to be1 !y h good reason to d s4 ,!y may ?9k if y w enc\rage a man to trample on 8 m>riage v[s1 y w\ld trample on y\r own4 ,y are condemn$ by e "o4 ,y\r vanity may lead y to feel a degree ( triumph 9 w9n+ a husb& f a wife4 ,x is no triumph1 h[ev]1 to d s4 ,! man :o w be s won is 9 mo/ cases extremely weak & decid$ly untrue4 ,x is n t y\r attractions are sup]ior to h]s1 x is t he is fickle1 & y 7 ! fir/ girl :o accepts 8 unlawful love4 ,in/ead ( be+ a triumph1 x is a s94 ,in/ead ( be+ a subject = boa/+1 x is some?+ to be a%am$ (4 ,in/ead ( enc\rag+ him = "o mom5t1 flee f him4 ,in/ead ( look+ ^u him z y\r lov]1 consid] him y\r wor/ enemy3 an enemy :o = ! selfi% indulg5ce ( ! "t w\ld ru9 y\r :ole life4 ,9 ?is _w ( s9 & sorr[ful consequ5ces ( s91 y _c be too c>eful ( y\rself1 y\r conduct1 & y\r associates4 ,if a man is kn[n by ! company he keeps1 mu* m is a girl4 ,mu* mis]y w come f "o imprud5t1 maybe innoc5t1 act4 ,a trifle may sometimes be :at />ts y on ! road to de/ruction4 ,t road is broad1 & v entic+ to "s2 b ! end is dea?4 ,nev] dr9k ) a man4 ,! pity ( x t ?is %\ld h to be writt5 d[n6 ,!re is a class ( girls :o aim to be a little fa/4 ,!y ?9k !y make !mselves attractive to m5 by keep+ pace ) all _! s9s4 ,!y ?9k m5 w l !m if !y h a 8good "t0 ) !m4 ,!y call ?is a 8good "t40 ,x is an unmitigat$ bad "t2 a "t t w make y & him bad too4 ,y w fail 9 y\r object1 = y w n attract him4 ,x is a l[ man :o w c>e = a girl :o c>es s little = h]self4 ,in/ead ( dr9k+ ) a man1 keep him f do+ s4 ,y\r p[] ov] m5 is v great1 girls2 x is mu* great] ?an y ?9k4 ,y c make him good or bad1 if he loves y4 ,if he is only y\r fri5d1 y c help him )/& temptation & turn him f wrong4 ,try to exhibit ! ideal woman always4 ,let y\r "* be s elevat$ t y w raise ! man :o walks beside y4 ,be a pure1 true girl1 & he w be a bett]1 pur] man4 ,! v ?\ght ( y1 z he goes out into a s9ful _w & meets temptations ( :i* y are ignorant1 w be a %ield to him4 ,next to ! /r5g? ,god c give him1 w be ! remembrance ( y\r goodness & purity4 ,he w1 = y\r sake1 abhor ?+s :i* be=e _h a fasc9ation = him4 ,always be wrapt 9 a cloak ( sweet maid5ly res]ve & dignity4 ,!n no tongue c assail y1 no man w d>e to (f] y any famili>ity2 ! conv]sation & conduct ( m5 w take a bett] tone 9 y\r society4 ,try to make e man y meet1 ev5 a pass+ acqua9tance1 bett]4 ,resolve t y w "k no man :om y w n influ5ce decid$ly = good4 ,s act t :5 y look back 9 aft] ye>s y c hone/ly say t y tri$ to make e man :om y knew well1 a ,*ri/ian4 ,s /rive to lead "y m5 to ,*ri/ t y w see ! fruits ( y\r ef=ts dott$ all along y\r pa? ( life4 ,let e man :om y "k be able to say1 z he looks back1 8,i h be5 a bett] man = kn[+ h]40 ,9 all y\r int]c\rse ) m51 d ev]y?+ to ennoble & no?+ to l[] 8 "*4 8,let him see t y are a true woman & a ,*ri/ian3 "o ^: life is beautiful 9 its maid5ly dignity & attractive lovel9ess40 ,,*apt] ,,vii4 ,,! ,,secret ,,( ,,! ,,wid[',s ,,p[]4 ,!re is no d\bt t a wid[ c1 if %e *oose1 attract a man :]e a girl is p[]less to d s4 ,%e has a *>m :i* is irresi/ible :5 %e pleases to ex]cise x4 ,?is p[] lies greatly 9 h] k ( man-nature4 ,x lies also 9 h] tak+ a man j z he is4 ,in/ead ( w\nd+ 8 vanity by try+ to make him con=m to h] ideas1 %e makes him pleas$ ) himself z he is4 ,girls h %>p corn]s :i* hurt a man if he runs aga9/ !m2 wid[s nev] h4 ,girls are unk9d2 wid[s nev] are4 ,girls l to tease & ridicule a man2 a wid[ is too wise to d s4 ,girls w w\nd ev5 a man :o is n s5sitive2 a wid[ soo!s4 ,girls nev] rememb] a man's feel+s2 a wid[ nev] =gets !m4 ,%e has /udi$ "o man ?or\ghly4 ,%e kn[s 8 peculi>ities1 8 weaknesses1 8 /rong po9ts1 8 likes & dislikes4 ,9 kn[+ "o man well1 %e kn[s 8 sex4 ,%e has le>n$ well :at w please "o man4 ,9 le>n+ t %e kn[s :at w please all m54 ,%e has le>n$ to s9k h] own individuality4 ,%e has le>n$ to foll[1 & has no desire to lead4 ,%e kn[s t m5 l to be obey$4 ,%e kn[s !y l _! ease4 ,%e kn[s !y w\ld r be amus$1 ent]ta9$1 ?an to dance att5dance4 ,%e kn[s t ! be/ way to ent]ta9 a man is to make him talk ( himself or 8 hobby4 ,%e nev] m9ds h[ mu* he rides ?is hobby :5 he is ) h]4 ,a girl w\ld =bid its entrance4 ,a wid[ may ev5 get up & ride ) him4 ,:5 a girl w\ld %[ a man %e has no int]e/ 9 8 affairs1 a wid[ w\ld make him believe %e 0 ev5 m int]e/$ ?an he 04 ,a girl w\ld say1 8,i get s sick ( he>+ t man talk on t subject t ,i won't li/5 to him40 ,! wid[ draws him out4 ,:]e a girl w\ld cut him %ort1 %e enc\rages him to g on at l5g?4 ,he beg9s to connect h] ) 8 hobby4 ,he le>ns to come eag]ly to h] ) e new developm5t1 sure ( sympa?y4 ,:5 he is d[nca/ ab\t x1 he comes to h] z quickly = ! enc\ragem5t he is sure to get4 ,he beg9s to feel t !re is no "o 9 ! _w :o und]/&s & appreciates him z %e does4 ,! re/ soon foll[s4 ,a wid[ is sympa!tic--%e is s9c]e 9 t sympa?y4 ,%e has suff]$ & feels = all :o suff]4 ,%e c und]/& a he>ta*e1 because %e kn[s :at x is to h h] de>e/ e>?ly hopes %att]$4 ,h] life is a disappo9tm5t1 & %e c weep ) ^? :o h be5 disappo9t$4 ,%e has f\nd out t life is n a b$ ( roses only1 b has _m ?orns4 ,%e w help soo! ! w\nds t ?orns h made 9 o!r he>ts4 ,%e kn[s t m5 h tr\bles1 little or great2 & %e kn[s too mu* to give him any m4 ,%e has /ood by "o man z he has f\ght ) ! _w1 & kn[s t x is woman's prov9ce to /r5g!n him by h] sympa?y & helpful ^w = ! battle4 ,%e kn[s t :5 a man seeks a woman's society he wants peace4 ,%e kn[s 8 vanity is w\nd$ e day 9 8 contact ) m51 & t :5 he comes to h] he wants x flatt]$4 ,s a wid[ tries to make a man happy & com=table4 ,%e r>ely alludes to h] own grief4 ,x is m int]e/+ because %e does n4 ,%e mutely appeals = sympa?y1 :ile %e gives t same sympa?y4 ,few "y girls "k any?+ ab\t sorr[2 !y _c und]/& :at x is4 ,!y are g5]ally s full ( !mselves !y _c sympa?ize4 ,h]e9 lies _! weakness1 & h]e9 lies a wid['s /r5g?4 ,sympa?y is a woman's greate/ p[]4 ,girls are self-c5tr$2 a wid[ nev] is4 ,a girl is absorb$ 9 h] own pleasure2 a wid[ has le>n$ to make ! pleasures ( ano!r h]s4 ,a girl puts h]self =w>d prom95tly2 a wid[ s9ks h] p]sonality4 ,%e has le>n$ to d s4 ,%e kn[s ! man ) :om %e is talk+ is m int]e/$ 9 himself ?an he is 9 h]4 ,%e kn[s t no man c>es z mu* = h] int]e/s1 plans1 hopes1 z he does = 8 own2 & %e talks ( 8 only4 ,%e lets him take ! lead 9 ! conv]sation1 %e foll[s4 ,a "y girl has moods2 a wid[ has none4 ,%e is always ! same4 ,a man is sure ( h]4 ,he kn[s :5 he leaves h]1 %e w be ! same :5 he meets h] aga94 ,i h kn[n girls to lose an admir] by a cool greet+ or *ange ( demeanor4 ,a wid[ nev] w\ld4 ,x is said t ,madame ,recami]'s great *>m 0 h] graci\s sweetness1 :i* 0 "u all circum/ances ! same4 ,a girl fancies t a man ?9ks ( h] all ! "t1 z %e does ( him4 ,%e likely ?9ks ( him all day & dreams ( him by night4 ,a man1 out 9 ! _w1 is engross$ 9 bus9ess--t is 8 fir/ consid]ation4 ,x is only 8 leisure he c give to h]4 ,he goes to h] = 8 pleasure4 ,a wid[ kn[s ?is4 ,%e has o!r ?+s to occupy h] m9d1 & comes z fre% to him z he does to h]4 ,%e kn[s t he has n liv$ ov] & ov] h] la/ rem>ks1 & %e has n dwelt ^u 84 ,%e makes no mi/akes 9 e/imat+ 8 affection = h]4 ,%e nev] puts 8 affection to a te/4 ,girls love to d s4 ,a wid[ kn[s t x w h to be a pretty /rong "o t w /& x4 ,%e nev] makes any exp]im5ts4 ,%e kn[s him 9 & out4 ,%e kn[s :at w please him & :at w n please him4 ,%e kn[s :at flatt]s 8 vanity & :at w drive him away4 ,h] lessons h be5 too ?or\gh to all[ any mi/ake4 ,exp]i5ce has taught h] t ! be/ way to w9 a man is to make him ?9k m ( himself4 ,exp]i5ce has taught h] t %e c h h] own way easily by prop] managem5t4 ,a girl fights op5ly = h] own way4 ,%e is unsuccessful z h] plans are op54 ,a wid[ kn[s t ! royal road to a man's he>t lies ?r\gh 8 /oma*4 ,h] little d9n]s & tempt+ lun*es are a "p ( h] mode ( w>f>e4 ,a man w always g :]e he c get a good d9n]4 ,he does n wait = a second invitation1 & h>dly a fir/4 ,a man is always pleas$ ) himself 7unless he is a bad case ( dyspepsia7 :5 he has a good d9n]4 ,:5 he is pleas$ ) himself1 he is pleas$ ) ^? ab\t him4 ,:5 a man kn[s t an ev5+ call means a pretty little lun*1 he is q sure to come aga94 ,he goes fir/ = ! sake ( 8 /oma*1 & lat] = ! sake ( 8 he>t4 ,a wid[ nev] =gets t ! bett] fri5ds %e & ! man become1 ! m likely he is to love h]4 ,) a man & woman !re is b a %ort /ep f fri5d%ip to love4 ,x has be5 said t !re is no su* ?+ z ,platonic fri5d%ips betwe5 ! two sexes4 ,a wid[ kn[s t fri5d%ip rip5s m quickly ov] ! well-lad5 table ?an "u any o!r circum/ances4 ,a girl tru/s to romantic surr\nd+s4 ,a wid[ nev] does4 ,%e has f\nd out t h] h]o 0 fle%ly1 & %e kn[s t all m5 are4 ,%e kn[s t only a boy1 wildly 9 love1 pref]s moonlight to a sub/antial meal4 ,if a girl takes a meal ) a man x is always at 8 exp5se4 ,a wid[ nev] all[s a man to sp5d mu*1 if any1 money ^u h]4 ,%e kn[s j h[ little he c>es ab\t do+ s4 ,%e has he>d ! op9ion ( "o man /rongly express$ on t subject4 ,%e w n put "o /umbl+-block 9 a man's way4 ,a wid[ kn[s h[ to dress4 ,%e kn[s j ! k9d ( dresses a man likes4 ,%e r>ely is giv5 to display4 ,%e *ooses quiet tones or cont9ues to we> black4 ,co/ly app>el %e is well aw>e w fright5 away a man ( limit$ means4 ,%e /udies h]self1 & h[ to dress1 s z to make ! be/ ( bo?4 ,h] art is s p]fect t x is hidd54 ,a wid[ is 9 no ha/e to w$4 ,_m d n wi% to d s at any "t4 ,%e does n h to m>ry = a home3 %e ei!r has inh]it$ "o or is able to support h]self4 ,%e has no fe> be=e h] eyes ( be+ an old maid4 ,ye>s d n less5 h] *ances1 z !y d a girl's4 ,%e does n pret5d to be "y4 ,y\? is n h] attraction4 ,9 ^! respects %e is z indep5d5t z a man4 ,x is n matrimony alone %e c>es =1 if %e m>ries1 b a cong5ial companion4 ,if %e does n meet ! "r "o ?is ye>1 %e may ! next4 ,%e c af=d to wait4 ,a wid[ is consci\s ( h] p[]4 ,t gives h] a good comm& ( h]self4 ,%e kn[s1 f "o man at lea/1 if n f m1 ! full value ( h] *>ms4 ,%e kn[s h] p[] to reta9 "o man's love ev5 until ! end4 ,%e kn[s h[ to make a man happy4 ,%e has done s4 ,%e kn[s t :at once won love w d s aga94 ,%e kn[s a man's weak po9ts3 %e kn[s 8 /rong ones4 ,%e kn[s h] own weak po9ts3 %e may h be5 told ( !m v pla9ly4 ,^! %e takes pa9s to /r5g!n4 ,old ba*elors are prov]bially h>d to w94 ,:5 "o does m>ry x is almo/ always a wid[4 ,%e only seems to "k h[ to attract him4 ,%e kn[s :at a h>d fight x w be1 & sets delib]ately ab\t do+ x4 ,%e kn[s he is selfi%4 ,only a selfi% man tries to avoid family ties & tr\bles4 ,y\r w>m-he>t$1 unselfi% m5 always m>ry4 ,a wid[ is n %ock$ at 8 selfi%ness4 ,%e has n look$ = p]fection4 ,%e helps him be selfi%4 ,%e makes him look ^u h] z "o :o w enc\rage 8 pet foibles4 ,%e %[s him t %e w help him ) !m2 in/ead ( hav+ to give up = h] 8my dog & my cat10 %e w pet 8my dog & my cat40 ,yet a wid[ has a great drawback4 ,!re are "s m5 at :om %e c nev] get a *ance4 ,a man :o does n wi% to m>ry avoids a wid[4 ,he w pay att5tion to a "y girl p]fectly sure he c )/& h] *>ms2 b ! "y wid[ is a diff]5t p]son4 ,he kn[s t if he all[s himself to beg9 !re1 he _c break (f4 ,dick5s gave ! key-note to ! :ole situation :5 he said1 8,samivel1 bew>e ( ! widd]s40 ,= ages ,samivels :o d n wi% to m>ry h obey$ t injunction4 ,,*apt] ,,viii4 8,,lady ,,beauty40 ,! foll[+ is quot$1 v]batim1 f an ,engli% novel entitl$1 8,lady ,beauty2 or1 ,*>m+ to ,h] ,late/ ,day40 ,z x be>s ^u ?is subject1 & _m may n h read ! book1 ,i copy "s p>ts4 8,y w f9d t y\r own enjoym5t is height5$ by ! consci\sness ( p[] to please o!rs4444 ,let ?is ev] be 9 y\r m9d3 #8,i am a creature =m$ to give pleasure4' ,be c\rte\s1 be g5tle1 be ref9$1 be sweet 9 all y\r deal+s4 ,nev] lose y\r temp]3 x ru9s ! face2 & x always leaves a disagreeable impression :i* no?+ rubs out4 ,dep5d ^u x1 m5 may respect ^? creatures :o are call$ wom5 ( "*1 :i* g5]ally means wom5 :o p]=m awkw>dly duties :i* ) a little ?\ght !y might p]=m 9 a *>m+ way3 m5 may respect !m1 b :5 !y want enjoym5t !y turn to wom5 :o /udy ! art ( pleas+4 ,n[1 :at ,i want to tea* y is1 to be solid & pleas+ too4 ,believe me a woman is seldom call$ ^u to d any?+ :i* %e may n d 9 an agreeable /yle if %e w only take pa9s4444 ,nev] dis>range = an in/ant ! drap]y ( pleasantness :i* a woman ought always to we>3 keep x on y ev5 = y\r husb&s4444 ,be agreeable ev5 :5 y are alone ) y\r look+-glass4 ,please ev]ybody z f> z y c4 ,/udy morn+1 noon1 & night to be agreeable4 8,don't expect too mu* ( m5 & wom51 & y w le>n to be good-humor$ ov] _! selfi%ness & hypocrisy4 8,le>n$ talk is v affect$4 ,be z well-educat$ z y please1 b don't seem s4 8,%e _h a frank1 spontane\s sympa?y ) life all ar\nd & 9 e "p1 su* z ,i nev] met 9 any "o beside h]self4 ,by reason ( ?is virtue %e 0 always int]e/$ 9 :at 0 go+ on1 & ! v quality :i* subdu$ h] individuality 9 "o way made h] "* fre% & delightful 9 ano!r4 ,%e resolv$ to *>m o!rs ) happ9ess & goodness 9 view1 n m]e society conque/s4444 ,%e us$ worldly me?ods = mo/ unworldly means4 ,! poli%1 ! graces1 ! social attractions1 ! accompli%m5ts1 lit]ature1 & wit1 :i* "s despise1 %e us$ z ! v mat]ial out ( :i* h] noble purpose mu/ be wov54444 ,9 ! secret int]ior ( h] int5tions %e 0 truly devot$1 try+ by ! spell ( a beautiful womanhood to make ^? ) :om %e liv$ bett] & happi]4 8#8,tell me ab\t x1' %e :isp]s1 oh s l[1 s delici\sly4 ,%e meant1 #8,any?+ y say w be sweet to he>4' 8,too womanly = coquetry or coyness1 %e gave h] answ] at once4 8,w>m?1 purity1 t5d]ness1 pr9ciple1 all ! f9] p>ts ( "* 7 h]s4444 ,h] face 0 beautiful because x 0 ! image ( ! s\l4 8,x is a good maxim3 #8,nev] really be angry4' 8,to ! opposite1 h] si/] reli$ on h] beauty = a place among h] sex1 & 0 at no pa9s to cultivate conv]sation1 lett]s1 or any bran* ( ! art ( pleas+ except ! sett+ =? ( h] p]sonal *>ms4 ,_h h] mann] & h] talk be5 :at %e might easily h made !m1 %e w\ld h %one out z a beauty 9 ! prime ( h] womanhood4 ,%e _h no lack ( s5se nor ( education1 ei!r2 b pr\dly repos+ on h] inconte/able lovel9ess1 %e r )drew ?an put =w>d h] attractions4 8,i wi% to conv9ce wom5 t x is a great mi/ake on _! "p to suppose t _! p[] to please dep>ts ) y\?4 ,at all times ,i h notic$ t m5 ( s5se seldom admire--or gr[ enamor$ (--wom5 = beauty alone1 b = "*1 mann]1 ta/e1 & conv]sation4 ,n[1 :ile beauty1 we mu/ admit1 less5s ) "t1 "*1 mann]1 ta/e1 & conv]sation may ea* be ref9$ & enri*$4444 ,m]e beauty is b "o bright un*ang+ beam3 x w ev5 gr[ we>isome2 b wit1 s5se1 c\rtesy1 & humanity are =ev] ca/+ =? new & unexpect$ rays & enliv5+ int]c\rse ) agreeable surprises4 8,%e 0 ! be/ dress] ,i ev] knew4 ,h] appe>ance pleas$ numb]s ( p be=e !y saw h] face4444 ,%e manag$ ?r\gh all ! *anges ( fa%ion to respect h]self & h] own figure & face3 9 ! fa%ion %e w\ld always be2 b /ill %e w\ld modulate x s z to be ! que5 & n ! slave4 8,h] mann]s 9 society 7 captivat+4 ,) :at graceful att5tion %e he>d :at y _h to say4 ,h[ mode/ly %e gave h] own op9ion4444 ,%e tri$ to please4 ,%e knew t a woman ought to be an object ( admiration & affection1 & %e rul$ h] :ole life ) a view to ?is fact4 ,h] religion gave a ri*ness1 a sweetness1 a s]i\sness to all h] *>ms4 8,y w laugh :5 ,i tell y t ,lady ,beauty at ! age ( fifty-?ree _h a new lov]40 8,,beauty ,,rules40 8,rule ,"o4--,a woman's p[] 9 ! _w is measur$ by h] p[] to please4 ,:atev] %e w wi% to accompli%1 %e w manage x be/ by pleas+4 ,a woman's gr& social aim %\ld be to please4 8,rule ,two4--,mode/y is ! gr\nd on :i* all a woman's *>ms appe> to ! be/ advantage4 ,9 mann]1 dress1 conv]sation1 rememb] always t mode/y mu/ n be =gott54444 ,n prud]y4 ,mode/y is ( ! s\l4 ,prud]y is on ! surface4 8,rule ,?ree4--,s ! woman's aim is to please1 & mode/y is ! fir/ pr9ciple4 8,rule ,f\r4--,always dress up to y\r age or a little beyond x4 ,let y\r face be ! y\nge/ ?+ ab\t y1 n ! olde/4 8,rule ,five4--,rememb] t :at wom5 admire 9 !mselves is seldom :at m5 admire 9 !m4 8,rule ,six4--,wom5's beauties are seldom m5's beauties4 8,rule ,sev54--,gayety temp]$ by s]i\sness is ! happie/ mann] 9 society4 8,rule ,eight4--,always speak l[4 8,rule ,n9e4--,a pla9 woman c nev] be pretty4 ,%e c always be fasc9at+ if %e takes pa9s4 ,i rememb] well a man :o 0 a great admir] ( our sex tell+ me t "o ( ! mo/ fasc9at+ wom5 he ev] knew 0 n only n pretty1 b z to h] face decid$ly pla94 #8,h] figure1' he said1 #80 neat1 h] dress+ faultless1 h] e movem5t graceful2 h] conv]sation 0 clev] & animat$1 & %e always tri$ to please4 ,%e 0 "o ( ! mo/ acceptable wom5 9 society ,i ev] knew4 ,%e m>ri$ brilliantly4 8,rule ,t54--,e ye> a woman lives1 ! m pa9s %e mu/ take ) h] dress4 8,rule ,elev54--,9 all ?+s1 let a woman ask :at w please a man ( s5se be=e %e asks :at w please ! m5 ( fa%ion4 ,y see1 if a woman lives = ! comm5dation ( m5 ( fa%ion1 %e w1 if pretty1 piquant1 or :at n1 h a reign ( t5 ye>s4 ,b if %e rememb]s t %e has *>ms ( m9d & "* & ta/e1 z well z *>ms ( figure & complexion1 ! m5 ( s5se w foll[ h] = a half c5tury2 & 9 ! long run ! m5 ( fa%ion w be l$ by ! m5 ( s5se4 8,i h (t5 ask$ myself1 #8,:at is ! secret ( h] "*8' & ,i h always come to ! same conclusion3 t if h] religi\s fai? 7 d$uct$ f h]1 %e w\ld n be :at %e is1 b mu/ become a less agreeable & n s good a woman40 ,,*apt] ,,ix4 ,,! ,,lov$ ,,wife4 ,our life-/ory does n end1 z x does 9 ! novel1 :5 ! w$d+-bells r+4 ,aft] t comes ! real life4 ,! w$d+-bells are b ! call to m fai?ful duties1 m e>ne/1 unselfi% love1 great] ef=t to be attractive1 m pa9s to make ! husb& happy ?an 7 tak5 to w9 8 love4 ,!y r+ out ! bir? ( a love t is until dea?4 ,!y r+ out ! knell ( all coyness & romance4 ,! h]o becomes ! v human man3 ! %y girl is a woman :o is to be 8 helpmeet4 ,!y r+ out ! beg9n+ ( a battle :]e man & woman mu/ /& %\ld] to %\ld] if !y w\ld w94 ,!y tell ( a conflict :]e !re w be /r5g? 9 union1 b 9 division weakness1 de/ruction ( happ9ess1 complete failure1 disgrace1 & sometimes ev5 dea?4 ,a girl r>ely consid]s ! deep responsibilities %e takes ^u h]self :5 %e m>ries4 ,%e is m (t5 ?9k+ ( ! happ9ess x w give h] ?an ( :at %e is to be to ! man4 ,%e does n /op to ?9k :e!r or n %e is go+ to make h] husb& happy4 ,%e =gets t f t "t 8 :ole happ9ess1 8 success 9 life1 almo/ 8 s\l1 are 9 h] keep+4 8,a man mu/ ask 8 wife's leave to ?rive0 is altoge!r true4 ,a wife may be a dead weight or an inspiration4 ,! dead weight drags ev5 ! /ronge/ d[n1 & an inspiration helps him to conqu] e "t4 ,i h he>d a man ) a bad wife say3 8,oh1 ,i h no he>t 9 me to d any?+4 ,%e takes x all out ( me40 ,i h kn[n a man ) less ability1 b ) a true wife to inspire him1 to conqu] :]e ! o!r fail$4 ,m>riage itself is n happ9ess unalloy$4 ,life nev] is 9 any /ate4 ,y are happi] m>ri$ ?an s+le1 b m>riage has its h>d places4 ,! romance soon dies out4 ,real life comes4 ,! e day liv+ toge!r br+s friction4 ,x is = bett] & = worse4 ,x seems a light ?+ to say at ! "t :5 y are sure x w all be = ! bett]4 ,y fancy y h only half le>n$ 8 goodness4 ,9 _m cases t is s4 ,9 _m m x is n3 x is = ! worse4 ,!n ! break comes4 ,gradually 8 weaknesses w be reveal$ to y4 ,! gold5 idol %[s clay feet4 ,sl[ly ! gild+ is all rubb$ (f1 & ! idol is se5 to be clay all ?r\gh4 ,_m a woman meets ) ?is disappo9tm5t4 ,x is ! great disappo9tm5t ( h] life4 ,god help ! woman :o f9ds t h] husb& is unwor?y ( h] love6 ,a weak woman s9ks "u ! bl[1 & drags him ev5 f>!r d[n4 ,a /rong woman w /& up bravely & 9 ! end draw him up to h] heights4 ,%e mu/ ga!r toge!r all h] love = him4 ,%e mu/ all[ religion to take ! helm ) ?is love or all is lo/4 ,sometimes love reels3 sometimes ! s5ses d4 ,!n1 ( all times1 a woman mu/ wat* h]self well4 ,%e is fight+ a t]rible battle ) h] disappo9tm5t z well z ) 8 faults4 ,!y mu/ be sil5t battles3 ! m sil5t ! /rong] !y w be1 & ! m sure %e w be ( victory4 ,%e mu/ nev] by h9t or ^w let any "o outside "k ( 8 fail+s4 ,if !y are ( ! k9d :i* g be=e or :i* are well kn[n by ! community1 %e mu/ %[ ! _w t %e is bl9d to !m4 ,%e mu/ nev] speak aga9/ h] husb& ev5 to h] own "m4 ,%e mu/ nev] admit t he has a fault4 ,%e has ent]$ into a p>tn]%ip :]e "o p>tn] _c be untrue to ! o!r4 ,%e has promis$ be=e ,god to honor him4 ,h] loyalty may save him4 ,x is c]ta9 t if %e does talk ab\t him1 & x comes to 8 e>s1 x w drive him away f h]4 ,:5 a brea* is made betwe5 husb& & wife1 x wid5s cont9ually4 ,:at 9 ! beg9n+ is a t9y ?read soon becomes a broad gulf4 ,x is really wond]ful :at a little :ile x takes = ?is brea* to wid51 & h[ disa/r\s are ! effects4 ,our daily pap]s are a cont9ual illu/ration ( t fact4 ,a p]fect wife w nev] all[ h] op9ion ( h] unwor?y husb& to be kn[n4 ,if he is unk9d to h]1 %e hides x z %e hides h] own misde$s4 ,inde$1 %e w\ld r take ^u h]self ! blame = any tr\ble o!rs may h se54 ,%e is pleas$ always ) any k9d att5tion he receives4 ,a lady wrote h] si/]1 ) :om h] husb& 0 /opp+ = a few days3 8,he writes me y are do+ e ?+ to make 8 visit pleasant4 ,?ank y4 ,:atev] k9dness y be/[ ^u him y be/[ ^u me40 ,y w f9d pl5ty ( li/5]s :5 y tell ( y\r husb&'s faults & y\r own wrongs4 ,!y w be y\r app>5t sympa?iz]s4 ,n "o1 h[ev]1 w respect y = do+ s4 ,no "o w c>e ab\t y4 ,almo/ all w repeat x to "s "o else4 ,x w be g5]ally said t y live unhappily ) y\r husb&4 ,y w h z mu* blame z he has4 ,x is ! way ( ! _w4 ,x kn[s pretty well t ! wife :o s f> =gets h]self z to talk aga9/ h] husb& is z mu* to blame = ! tr\ble z he is4 ,%e _c be a good1 lov+1 ,*ri/ian wife1 :o is try+ to lead him to bett] ?+s4 ,su* a woman w\ld hold h] tongue4 ,9 tell+1 y h simply op5$ all ! doors & w9d[s ( y\r h\se & invit$ ! community to look _! fill at y\r mo/ private affairs4 ,! re/ ( ! doors & w9d[s ( ! community are clos$4 ,y h notic$--h y n8--t y\r confid5ce has n be5 return$4 ,no1 inde$4 ,x is well kn[n t ! woman :o _c gu>d h] husb&'s honor _c respect ano!r's confid5ce4 ,if only 9 ! sight ( m5 !n1 ! untrue wife is ! los]4 ,%e s5ds him into great] wrong4 ,%e undoes h]self z %e undoes him4 ,toge!r !y mu/ rise or fall4 ,_m a woman 9 h] bl9d ang] at h] husb& has tri$ to cru% him4 ,l ,samson1 :5 he w\ld cru% ! ,phili/9es1 %e has succe$$1 b only to bury h]self 9 ! ru9s ) him4 ,t h] husb& is n :at %e ?\ght him1 is no excuse3 %e took him = worse z well z bett]4 ,%e is simply %[+ t %e is n "o :it above him1 & t he has be5 decid$ly deceiv$ 9 h]4 ,he has gott5 ! worse too4 ,un=tunately true1 good m5 h bad wives1 too--!y are n conf9$ to bad husb&s only4 ,!re are wives ( good m5 :o =get t ! husb&'s :ole happ9ess dep5ds ^u !m4 ,_m a wife =gets ?is great responsibility4 ,8 bus9ess may be successful & ev]y?+ outside go+ along satisfactorily1 b if he has no peace at home he has no happ9ess4 ,a woman :o does n make h] husb& happy fails 9 h] great life-"w4 ,%e is unwor?y to be ! "m ( 8 *ildr54 ,god gave woman to man to be 8 helpmeet2 %e is no helpmeet if %e makes 8 life wret*$4 ,x is h] highe/ pleasure1 h] great 8rights10 to smoo? 8 pa?4 ,if %e fail !re1 %e f> bett] nev] h m>ri$4 ,:at a man wants 9 8 wife is companion%ip1 sympa?y1 & love4 ,he wants to feel t %e is 8 be/ fri5d4 ,he nev] wants to look any:]e else = sympa?y & help3 he nev] w if he c get all he ne$s f h]4 ,8 life has _m h>d places3 he ne$s a companion to g ov] !m ) him4 ,he is (t5 ov]tak5 by mis=tunes3 he ne$s "s "o to /& by him & sympa?ize z %e helps him to be> !m4 ,he has to fight ) pov]ty (t51 & he ne$s a woman :om he feels1 :5 he puts 8 arms ab\t h]1 is wor? fight+ =4 ,he has _m enemies3 he ne$s a wife ^: lov+ words w make up = ! bitt] ones he he>s f !m4 ,he ne$s a wife :o w make him =get1 :5 he is 9 h] pres5ce1 t !re is an unk9d _w outside4 ,he meets s9 ev]y:]e3 he wants a wife :o w give him words ( c\nsel1 & :o w take 8 h&s & lead him to great] fai? 91 & love =1 ! ,fa!r4 ,/orms w come all ?r\gh life1 he mu/ enc\nt] !m4 ,he ne$s a woman :o w cl+ to him ?r\gh ! h>de/4 ,he ne$s h] love ?r\gh sun%9e & victory z well4 ,he wants to feel ?r\gh all t 8 refuge is 9 h] arms z h]s is 9 84 ,he wants a wife ^u ^: brea/ he c lay 8 head1 :5 sorr[s come1 & weep4 ,he wants "o :o w make him feel t no matt] :]e else dea? /rikes1 z long z he has h] he c endure life4 ,i rememb] a man :o1 :5 8 de>ly-belov$ si/] di$1 laid 8 head on 8 wife's %\ld]1 weep+1 & said1 8,if x 7 y ,i %\ld die40 ,!re are 9 hi/ory wom5 ^u ^: /rong he>ts /rong m5 h lean$ & h become m /r5g!n$ 9 t lean+4 ,weak m5 h become manly ?r\gh a womanly wife4 ,/rong m5 h be5 weak5$ by a weak1 wick$ wife4 ,truly a man is made or m>r$ :5 he m>ries4 ,he mu/ inde$ ask 8 wife leave to ?rive4 ,x is 9 e woman's p[] to be a well-lov$ wife4 ,%e _c exact x3 %e mu/ w9 x4 ,%e has 8 affection to />t ^u4 ,%e mu/ increase x1 in/ead ( all[+ x to decrease4 ,%e mu/ n g ^u ! pr9ciple t because %e is 8 wife x is 8 duty to wor%ip h]4 ,if %e does1 %e w be bankrupt z f> z 8 affection is conc]n$4 ,m5 are n made 9 t way1 z ,i h said be=e1 & y mu/ take !m z y f9d !m if y take "o at all4 ,_m a wife has all[$ h] husb&'s affection to die4 ,%e has fanci$1 maybe1 t %e 0 l[]+ h] dignity to try to keep :at %e consid]$ 0 h] due4 ,no?+ is our due ( :i* we are n wor?y4 ,we are n wor?y ( a love we d n try to keep4 ,wom5 :o are exact+ aft] m>riage are g5]ally ! ones :o tri$ ! h>de/ to attract ! man at fir/4 ,x is g5]ally ! girl :o runs aft] a man till %e gets him :o makes no ef=t aft] m>riage to reta9 8 love1 & :o talks ! l\de/ ab\t h] 8rights1 & n grovell+ at 8 feet10 if x is sugge/$ t %e d bett]4 ,be=e %e m>ri$ %e dress$ = him4 ,no?+ %e own$ 0 too pretty to put on :5 %e knew he w\ld see h]4 ,%e 0 c>eful to be tidy 9 h] p]son4 ,%e w\ld nev] let him see a room 9 h] home :i* 0 9 disord]4 ,%e 0 c\rte\s always4 ,%e nev] said an impati5t ^w to him or be=e him4 ,if he 0 cross1 %e bore x l an angel4 ,%e greet$ him always :5 he came ) a sweet smile & c>ess4 ,%e _h lov+ words = him z %e told him h[ %e want$ to see him e m9ute s9ce !y _h p>t$4 ,%e desir$ 9 e way to appe> at h] be/ be=e him4 ,%e hid e defect ( temp] or disposition4 ,aft] m>riage %e does n c>e h[ untidy %e is :5 he comes home4 ,%e nev] ?9ks ( dress+ = him4 ,%e is n c\rte\s to him4 ,%e has no lov+ ^w1 & %e nev] hesitates to speak a cross "o to him4 ,%e has smiles yet = ! outside _w1 b none = ! man :om %e has promis$ to love & honor4 ,%e talks to him z %e w\ld be a%am$ to h any "o he> h] speak4 ,%e nev] be>s ) him4 ,if he is cross1 %e is cross]4 ,is x any wond] %e loses 8 love8 ,%e is n :at he ?\ght %e 01 or :at he ?\ght he 0 m>ry+4 ,if he _h se5 h] 9 h] true colors be=e ! fatal words 7 spok51 he nev] w\ld h b\nd himself to h]4 ,! beautiful s\l1 ! sweet smile t won him1 are gone4 ,! g5tle _s he fanci$ he detect$1 0 a delusion4 ,:at he lov$1 he does n possess4 ,he possesses an unwomanly wife1 & t he did n woo4 ,) a weak man !re comes a break4 ,he (t5 seeks 8 happ9ess ) ano!r woman4 ,a /rong man endures 9 sil5ce1 gr[+ old & sad1 brok5 9 8 y\?4 ,ought ?is to be8 ,!re is no reason1 because y h gr[n famili> to ea* o!r1 y %\ld n try to hide y\r temp] z y did be=e4 ,!re is no reason1 because he is 8caught0 & _c get away f y1 t y %\ld cease to be attractive to him4 ,y spread y\r net well4 ,n[ make ! ne/ s attractive t he w be glad t he 0 8caught40 ,be all t y l$ him to fancy y 74 ,:y %\ld n a woman dress = h] husb&8 ,:y %\ld %e n cultivate a sweet disposition = him & endeavor to make 8 home ! happie/ spot on e>?8 ,:y n try to bani% f x e cl\d1 ev]y?+ t w annoy or irritate8 ,is x ( no use8 ,x is ( ! greate/ e>?ly use4 ,x is a means ( help+ y bo? on to ,heav54 ,if y mu/ be selfi%1 rememb] x is mak+ y\rself happi] to h y\r husb& love y z he loves no o!r e>?ly be+4 ,m51 aft] all1 are easily pleas$--y f\nd t out 9 y\r c\rt%ip days4 ,!y are easily manag$ too4 ,a man w d almo/ ev]y?+ = ! wife t makes him happy4 ,he is almo/ too mu* ( a slave to h]4 ,%e c d :at %e w to him4 ,) him1 gett+ h] own way is only a matt] ( tact & sweetness4 ,husb&s are almo/ all l ! man 9 ! fable ( ! w9d & sun4 ,! sun beat 9 ! end4 ,w>m? ( love & sweetness ( mann] w ga9 a victory1 :]e an ill-temp]$ insi/+ ^u 8rights0 fails completely4 ,w>d ,mc,allister says 9 8 8,society z ,i ,h ,f\nd ,x10 8,my advice to all m>ri$ wom5 is to keep up flirt+ ) _! husb&s z mu* aft] m>riage z be=e2 to make !mselves z attractive aft] _! m>riage z !y 7 :5 !y captivat$ !m2 n to neglect _! toilet1 b r to improve x3 to be z coquetti% & coy aft] !y are b\nd toge!r z be=e :5 no ties held !m40 ,*oice ,selections 9 ,poetry & ,prose4 ,compil$ by ,,rhodum ,l4 ,,griggs4 ,,introduction4 ,we "k t !re is an un=tunate t5d5cy 9 human nature to treat ) levity ! subject ( love1 c\rt%ip & m>riage4 ,b a mom5t's consid]ation %\ld conv9ce y h[ utt]ly repugnant x is to all manly feel+s to je/ 9 ^! matt]s4 ,!y are ! mo/ s]i\s que/ions ( y\r life1 z y\r weal or woe1 & ! weal & woe ( ^? :o come aft] y1 dep5d 9 great measure1 ^u ! wisdom & virtue ) :i* y conduct y\r prep>ations = m>riage4 ,! :ole t5d5cy ( su* lightness is to cause ! m>riage relation to be lightly e/eem$1 & ! true aim ( c\rt%ip to be lo/ sight (1 = unless y view x 9 its true light1 ) t sob] e>ne/ness :i* ! subject dem&s1 y\r c\rt%ip w be no?+ m ?an a gr& game ( hypocrisy1 result+ 9 mis]y ! mo/ deplorable4 ,,love4 ,love is an actual ne$1 an urg5t requirem5t ( ! he>t4 ,e prop]ly con/itut$ human be+ :o ent]ta9s an appreciation ( lonel9ess & looks =w>d to a home ( happ9ess & cont5t1 feels ! necessity ( lov+4 ,)\t love1 life is unf9i%$2 hope1 )\t aim2 nature defective1 & man mis]able4 ,love is ! rul+ elem5t ( life2 ! great in/rum5t ( nature2 t s(t1 subdu+ sun aga9/ ^: melt+ beams !re is n "o human s\l 9 a million1 n a ?\s& m5 9 all e>?'s doma91 ^: he>ts are h>d5$4 ,love1 if pure1 unselfi% & discreet1 con/itutes ! *ief happ9ess ( human life4 ,no man or woman is complete 9 _! exp]i5ce ( life until !y h be5 subdu$ into union ) ! _w ?r\gh _! affections4 ,! bosom :i* does n feel love is cold2 ! m9d :i* does n conceive x is dull2 ! philosophy :i* does n accept x is false2 ! only true religion 9 ! _w has pure1 undy+ love = its basis4 ,look back ov] y\r life2 if !re is a bright spot to be se51 x is :]e ! /> ( love %$ its light2 if !re is a plant1 fl[] or any beautiful ?+ visible x is :]e ! smiles & te>s ( y\r affections 7 sp5t2 :]e "s fond eye met y\r own2 :]e "s ende>+ he>t 0 clasp$ to y\rs4 ,love1 to make y\r life & home beautiful1 mu/ %9e on ?r\gh ye>s1 & its radiance l+] till ! %ad[s ( dea? d>k5 altoge!r4 ,,c\rt%ip ,is ! fir/ turn+ po9t 9 y\r life1 cr[d$ ) p]ils & temptations4 ,! rose t9ts ( affection dazzle & bewild] y\r imag9ation4 ,y %\ld n tru/ too mu* to ! impulse ( ! he>t1 or be too easily captivat$ by a w9n+ ext]ior4 ,n once 9 a hundr$ times d two natures1 br\ght side by side1 h>monize 9 e "p4 ,:ile always be>+ 9 m9d t life )\t love is a wild]ness1 x %\ld n be ov]look$ t true affection requires solid support4 ,y\r object 9 c\rt%ip %\ld n be to *>m1 gratify1 nor please simply = ! pres5t pleasure1 b = ! selection ( a companion :o mu/ be>1 suff] & enjoy life ) y 9 all its =ms2 "o :o w walk pleasantly1 will+ly & confid+ly by y\r side ?r\gh all ! intricate & *ang+ vicissitudes incid5t to mortal life2 "o possess$ ( a con/itution ( s\l simil> to y\r own2 ( simil> age1 op9ions1 ta/es1 habits1 modes ( ?\ght & feel+2 "o :o "u any giv5 comb9ation ( circum/ances w\ld be affect$ z y w\ld2 "o :o w\ld approve :at y approve & condemn :at y condemn2 n = ! purpose ( agree+ ) y b ( h] own free w2 "o :o is already unit$ to y by ! ties ( spiritual h>mony4 ,9 ! selection ( a wife1 a pure1 lov+ he>t & good common s5se are _m times m valuable ?an p]sonal beauty or weal?1 = once in/all$ 9 ! affections ( su* a woman1 y h a life claim on h] good (fices1 & no sacrifice t %e c make is too great1 no adv]sity s /rong t x c %ake h] firmness4 ,true c\rt%ip is )al a beautiful sight4 ,only ! co>se & illit]ate c see !re aught = ridicule or je/4 ,x is ! fl[+ toge!r ( two sep>ate lives t h h]et(ore be5 divid$1 n[ my/]i\sly br\ght toge!r1 to fl[ on ?r\gh all "t1 & only ,god 9 ,8 inf9ite wisdom kn[s h[ f> 9 ! %ad[y h]eaft]4 ,,m>riage4 ,= all pr(essions1 trades & call+s 9 life1 m5 & wom5 prep>e !mselves by previ\s att5tion to _! pr9ciples & duties4 ,!y /udy !m1 devote "t & money to !m4 ,e imag9able case1 difficulty or trial is consid]$ & duly dispos$ ( accord+ to ! g5]al pr9ciples ( ! trade or pr(ession4 ,b m>riage1 ! mo/ important & holy relation ( life1 involv+ ! mo/ sacr$ responsibilities & influ5ces1 social1 civil & religi\s1 t be> ^u m5 & wom51 is ent]$ ^u 9 hot ha/e or bl9d /upidity by a great majority ( ! m5 & wom5 ( to-day4 ,no man has a "r to ask a woman to ent] matrimonial bonds ) him unless he is ?or\ghly acqua9t$ ) ! female con/itution & "*1 = he :o kn[s n h] nature kn[s n h[ to gratify or satisfy t nature4 ,x is ignorance 9 ^! matt]s t causes a great am\nt ( matrimonial infelicity4 ,m>riage1 to be a bless+1 mu/ be prop]ly ent]$4 ,x has its fundam5tal laws1 :i* mu/ be obey$4 ,! conditions ^u :i* its joys & advantages are realiz$ may be le>n$ be=eh&1 & %\ld n be ent]$ 9 bl9dness1 b 9 ! light ( a p]fect k ( its rules & regulations1 its promises1 conditions1 laws & privileges1 s t no unc]ta9ty %all foll[ a k ( its reality4 ,"s are disappo9t$ 9 m>riage because !y expect too mu* f x4 ,_! imag9ation has pictur$ a condition ( ?+s nev] exp]i5c$ on ?is side ( heav54 ,) ! m>riage c]emony y ent] a new _w1 if y ent] und]/&+ly1 & live z becomes ?\ghtful1 consid]ate human be+s1 ea* try+ to be> ) ! o!r's infirmities1 & to consid] ! o!r's happ9ess z p>am\nt to _! own4 ,m>riage !n becomes a delightful sc5e ( dome/ic happ9ess1 to :i* all true m5 & wom5 look =w>d z ! condition ( life mo/ consonant to _! true happ9ess4 ,,selection ,,( ,a ,,husb&4 ,to ! "y woman :o is j ab\t to det]m9e h] />t 9 life1 we w\ld say3 ,give up y\r :ole m9d to ?is problem ( f9d+ a husb& :om y c love1 & :o c love y4 ,x is wor?y ( y\r utmo/ ef=t4 ,rememb] t 9 select+ ! fa!r ( y\r *ild ! qualities :i* w %[ 9 ! little "o h no relation to 8 accompli%m5ts1 & t ev5 ! homelie/ features may become beautiful1 %9+ ) ! light ( 8 noble qualities4 ,! pr(ession ( mo!rhood /&s ready to give y e repaym5t if y w b devote to fitt+ y\rself = its duties ! same pati5t ef=t y w\ld give to ! /udy ( any sci5ce1 or ! same en]gy y w\ld ?r[ into social duties4 ,unlike social di/9ction1 x w n be disappo9t+2 b z ! ye>s g by1 lov+ *ildr5 w /& ready to en?rone y 9 _! he>ts & gratefully recognize y\r e ef=t 9 _! behalf4 ,fir/--,give p]fect tru? & exact x4 ,second--,use e endeavor to eradicate y\r own faults1 & g5tly1 pati5tly & lov+ly help y\r companion to d ! same4 ,?ird--,d n expect too mu* f ei!r y\rself or y\r mate4 ,be humble1 ) a cle> und]/&+ ( y\r own limitations2 b be firm 9 ! det]m9ation t ) ea* day y w climb toge!r to a high] level4 ,f\r?--,d n be disc\rag$ at sl[ progress4 ,d n d\bt t 9 ! end y w be repaid = all ef=t4 ,s also d n d\bt t if y are c>eless1 selfi% or deceitful y w be plant+ se$s = ev5tual cata/rophe4 ,,:at ,,pleases ,,m5 ,,& ,,wom54 ,,! ,,woman4 ,x pleases h] to be told t %e is fasc9at+2 to be call$ well dress$2 to be call$ s5sible2 to dep5d on "s man & pret5d t %e is rul+ him2 to be told t %e improves man by h] companion%ip2 to be treat$ c\rte\sly & ) respect1 & to be talk$ to reasonably4 ,x pleases h] to be treat$ s5sibly & hone/ly2 to be consid]$ & que/ion$1 & n treat$ z a butt]fly ) no head or he>t4 ,x pleases h] to be lov$ & admir$ by a man :o is /rong en\gh to subdue h] & make 8 way h] way2 to lead h] & take c>e ( h]2 & x pleases h] to f9d happ9ess 9 be+ rul$ by an intellect t %e c look up to admir+ly1 & "o to :om h] m9d b[s 9 rev]5ce4 ,,! ,,man4 ,x pleases ! man to h a woman love him2 to h h] lead him 9 ! way he wants to g2 to h h] sometimes treat him z a great big baby1 to be c>$ =1 pett$ & c>ess$2 also to h h] ?9k him great1 & good1 & true1 & favor him ) h] att5tions accord+ly4 ,x pleases him to h a woman's bright eyes express+ ! approbation1 approval & admiration ! lips d n speak4 ,x pleases him to h h] h& smoo? away ! c>eworn expression & wr9kles f 8 br[1 & to h h] /r5g? to help him ov] ! weak places 9 life4 ,x pleases a wor?y man :o tries to be good to h a sweet woman lead him 9 ! way call$ beautiful4 ,a woman c s9k a man to ! dep?s ( mis]y or help him to ! z5i? ( happ9ess2 h] smile inspires him4 ,,moody',s ,,eulogy ,,on ,,wom54 8,i ?9k t ! ,almighty int5d$ ! "w ( woman 9 ?is _w %\ld be1 above all1 ! re>+ ( a family4 ,he gave into h] keep+ ! s\ls & *>act]s ( ! "y1 to make or m>4 ,& surely !re is no nobl] or m responsible "w ?an ?is4 ,f ! home--! doma9 ( woman--spr+ mo/ ( ! highe/ impulses ( humanity4 ,& to fit woman = h] great "w ! ,creator made h] ( a f9] ca/ ?an man2 !re is no?+ on e>? s noble1 s pure1 s exalt$1 s ne> ! ideal ( "*1 z a woman4 ,woman c rise high] ?an man1 b %e c likewise s9k l[]4 ,! v height :i* %e c atta9 seems to make h] fall ! great] :5 %e does fall4 ,!re is great /r5g? & great weakness 9 woman's "*2 & x is a vital duty ( m51 ^: great] ev5ness ( temp]am5t gives !m great] self-control1 & consequ5tly a comm&+ position1 to d ev]y?+ 9 _! p[] to enable ! woman to be true to h] high] nature4 8,i believe t1 o!r ?+s be+ equal1 ! happie/ woman is ! woman :o is a "m & ! mak] ( a home2 b if %e _c fulfil h] true de/9y1 if %e mu/ ent] ! bus9ess _w1 %e %\ld be giv5 ! greate/ consid]ation1 simply because %e is a woman4 ,i h he>d wom5 say t !y ask = no?+ on ! gr\nd ( sex4 ,p]haps !y don't1 b p]sonally ,i _c =get _! sex4 ,ev5 9 a purely bus9ess matt]1 my attitude & mann] t[>d !m are n j :at !y w\ld be t[>d m540--,dwight ,l4 ,moody4 99 99 99 99 99 8,god has made ! m9d ( woman ! complem5t to ! m9d ( man4 8,:5 prop]ly c\pl$ !y are a s\rce ( /r5g? to ea* o!r4 ,z /eel & fl9t /rike fire1 s ! brighte/ wit & be/ ?\ght spr+ f ! intellectual union ( man & wife4 ,beg9n+ z a /imulus to rese>* & high] endeavor1 ea* le>ns to "k ! m9d ( ! o!r4 ,a glance (t5 reads ?\ght )\t ! spok5 ^w40 ,a ,,"m',s ,,smile4 ,?\gh a "m may seem void ( beauty1 ,h] tongue h no art to beguile1 ,to h] *ildr5 !re's no?+ s lovely ,z h] face :5 bright ) a smile4 ,:5 !y wake f ! slumb]s ( *ildhood1 ,& gaze on ! _w1 half afraid1 ,if !y see "m's face b5d+ o'er !m1 ,_! swift-/>t+ fe>s are allay$4 ,to _! f+]s h] *eek is ! s(te/1 ,?\gh c>e may h h>d5$ its l9es1 ,& _! bruises are heal$ by h] kisses1 ,f lips on :i* age has its signs4 ,%e's a comrade to %>e 9 _! pa/imes1 ,a refuge if dang]s betide1 ,!re is always a com=t 9 tr\bles1 ,a hav5 ( peace at h] side4 ,oh1 ye mo!rs1 smile (t on y\r *ildr51 ,= ble/ is ! woman ^: face1 ,once impress$ on ^! he>ts 9 _! *ildhood1 ,nor di/ance nor "t c efface4 ,& m happy ! man or ! woman1 ,imm]s$ 9 ! _w's sn>e & wile1 ,:o be>s ^u memory's tablets ,! ?\ght ( a "m's fond smile4 ,a ,,l[ ,,voice ,,9 ,,woman4 ,yes1 we agree ) t old poet1 :o said t a l[1 s(t voice 0 an excell5t ?+ 9 woman4 ,inde$1 we feel incl9$ to g mu* f>!r ?an he has on ! subject1 & call x "o ( h] cr[n+ *>ms4 ,h[ (t5 ! spell ( beauty is rudely brok5 by co>se1 l\d talk+6 ,h[ (t5 y are irresi/ibly drawn to a pla91 unassum+ woman1 ^: s(t1 silv]y tones r5d] h] positively attractive4 ,9 ! social circle1 h[ pleasant x is to he> a woman talk 9 t l[ key :i* always *>act]izes ! true lady4 ,9 ! sanctu>y ( home h[ su* a voice soo!s ! fretful *ild & *e]s ! we>y husb&4 ,,connubialities4 ,x is ! h>de/ ?+ 9 love to feign x :]e x is n1 or hide x :]e x is2 b x is easi] c\nt]feit$ ?an conceal$4 ,! face ( h] we love is ! faire/ ( sights1 & h] voice ! sweete/ h>mony 9 ! _w4 ,a man is m res]v$ 9 8 fri5d's conc]ns ?an 9 8 own2 a woman1 on ! contr>y1 keeps h] own conc]ns bett] ?an ano!r's4 ,a woman w ?9k h]self slight$ if %e is n c\rt$1 yet pret5ds to "k h]self too well to believe y\r flatt]y4 ,abs5ce is to love :at fa/+ is to ! body2 a little /imulates x1 b a long ab/95ce is fatal4 ,! greate/ pleasure ( life is love2 ! greate/ treasure1 cont5tm5t2 ! greate/ possession1 heal?2 ! greate/ ease is sleep2 & ! greate/ m$ic9e1 a true fri5d4 ,,love4 8,x helps u to be> ) ! tr\ble1 ,x helps u to /& 9 ! /rife1 ,x bright5s ! skies = ! sorr[+ eyes1 ,& light5s ! burd5s ( life4 8,x makes ! rose bloom 9 ! des]t1 ,& br+s d[n ! dew on ! sod2 ,! tempe/ may beat1 b ! pa?way is sweet ,) ! roses & lilies ( ,god40 ,,y ,,kiss$ ,,me4 8,my =ehead droop$ l[ on y\r brea/1 ,) a feel+ ( %elt] & inf9ite re/1 ,:ile ! holy emotion my tongue d>$ n speak ,fla%$ up l a flame f my he>t to my *eek4 8,y\r arms held me fa/--,oh6 y\r arms 7 s bold-- ,he>t beat aga9/ he>t 9 t passionate fold4 ,y\r glances seem$ draw+ my s\l ?r\gh my eyes1 ,z ! sun draws ! mi/ f ! sea to ! skies4 8,y kiss$ me6 ,my he>t & my brea? & my w1 ,9 delici\s joy1 = ! mom5t1 /ood /ill4 ,life _h = me !n no temptations1 no *>ms1 ,no vision ( pleasure outside ( y\r arms40 ,,! ,,m>riage ,,"q4 8,?\s&s m>ry & ! majority ( !m live toge!r all _! lives4 ,b ,i ?9k t n m ?an "o c\ple 9 t5 love ea* o!r1 cont9u\sly1 dur+ t "t4 8,z soon z !y h tak5 ! m>riage v[s !y feel an own]%ip ( ea* o!r1 feel t !y are b\nd s t !y _c get away1 & s gr[ c>eless ab\t ea* o!r's com=ts & pleasures1 until1 be=e !y realize x1 love has fl[n1 & !n x dep5ds ^u ! dispositions ( ! two :e!r x is a cat-&-dog life or "o ( fri5d%ip & companion%ip )\t love4 ,rememb] ?is3 ,x is nature to love1 & if y d n reta9 ! love ( y\r husb& or wife1 "s "o else is liable to d s4 8,= a :ile y may b9d a p]son to y by m>riage v[s1 b love c only be b\nd by love1 & x takes ! same devotion1 ! same love aft] x is won t x takes to w9 x 9 ! fir/ place40--,goe ,van ,hise1 ,gl5dale1 ,cal4 99 99 99 99 99 ,_m boys & girls ent] matrimony be=e !y are old en\gh to realize ! responsibility !y assume1 & !y frequ5tly fill _! lives ) bitt]ness by act+ s ra%ly4 ,wait till y are old en\gh to ex]cise judgm5t 9 ! *oice ( y\r companion2 !n *oose wisely1 & en?rone ! goddess ( ,love ^u a he>t /amp$ ) et]nal fidelity1 & be y\r home a palace or a cottage1 x w inde$ be a 8sweet1 sweet home40 ,,! ,,ages ,,( ,,love4 ,! ,outlook1 9 ! ,?orwalds5 ,gall]y1 ,cop5hag54 99 99 99 99 99 ,fri5d--,x rem9ds me =cibly ( ! "t :5 8!y 7 bo? nak$ & 7 n a%am$40 ,inde$1 x gave me a new compreh5sion ( ! mean+ ( t text4 ,guide--,:i* ( all ,?orwalds5's works did y l ! be/8 ,philosoph]--,h[ is x possible to tell8 ,!re 7 at lea/ a doz5 be/4 ,fri5d--,! 8,ages ( ,love10 because x sugge/$ a s]mon to me :i* ,i am go+ to prea* "s "t4 99 99 99 99 99 ,! 8,ages ( ,love0 is a bas-relief consi/+ ess5tially ( six figures1 ?\gh s comb9$ z to make1 z x 71 "o tableau4 ,9 ! fir/1 a cov]$ basket conta9s a numb] ( imprison$ ,cupids1 & a *ild is curi\sly lift+ a corn] ( ! cov] to look 9 & le>n :at love is l4 ,9 ! second an att5dant female figure--,v5us8--has tak5 a ,cupid out ( ! basket1 & a maid5 is eag]ly & implor+ly rea*+ out bo? h&s to receive x4 ,9 ! ?ird h] pray] has be5 grant$1 & ! woman clasps ! ,cupid to h] brea/4 ,9 ! f\r? ! woman is /ill hold+ ,cupid1 b c>elessly by ! w+s1 h] m9d evid5tly on o!r ?+s int5t4 ,9 ! fif? a man sits look+ ^u ! gr\nd1 :ile ,cupid sits p]*$ ^u 8 back1 & he kn[s n :y he is !re4 ,9 ! six? ,cupid has tak5 8 flight & is j beyond ! rea* ( an old man1 :o /ret*es out 8 h&s 9 va9 to recov] ! fugitive4 99 99 99 99 99 ,guide--,& pray1 p>son1 :at w\ld y\r s]mon be8 ,fri5d--,j ,?orwalds5's s]mon2 no?+ m4 ,x w\ld be 9 five subdivisions4 ,fir/3 ,*ildhood inquir+ into love4 ,x is "r to inquire4 ,! fa!r & "m %\ld answ] ! inquiry & n leave ! *ild to le>n ( ?is mo/ sacr$ my/]y ( life f pr(ane lips4 ,second3 ,maid5hood seek+ love4 ,%e is "r to seek x4 ,x is idle to s+1 8,love n1 love n6 ! ?+ y love w die40 ,love is 8! greate/ ?+ 9 ! _w10 above all o!rs be/ wor? seek+4 ,?ird3 ,mo!rhood possess+4 ,love is weal? inde$1 & ! only weal? wor? hav+4 ,! poore/ is ri* if he h love1 & ! ri*e/ is poor if he h x n4 ,f\r?3 ,manhood =gett+ love4 ,alas1 t s _m ( u no soon] possess love ?an we =get x1 & are indiff]5t to x1 & put x aside4 ,love1 ! mo/ valuable ( all k1 has be5 be/[$ on u1 & we =get x2 ! mo/ sacr$ ( all possessions has be5 giv5 u1 & we turn our backs ^u x4 ,ambition usurps love's cr[n1 & ! true k+ is =gott54 ,& ?us1 fif?1 & la/ ( all3 ,love1 =gott51 flies away1 & ! unlov$ old man looks long+ly ab\t = "s "o to love him1 & !re is none1 & he drops into 8 grave unlov$ & n miss$4 ,x is ! trag$y ( life3 y\? inquir+2 maid5hood seek+2 mo!rhood possess+2 manhood =gett+2 old age los+4 ,guide--,:5 y prea* t s]mon1 give u notice & we w come to he> x4 ,fri5d--,bett]1 in/ead1 buy a photograph ( ,?orwalds5's bas-relief & /udy t4 ,! s]mon is all !re--& m is !re besides4 ,,:i* ,,"o8 ,"o ( u1 de>1 ) grief untold1 ,mu/ ! o!r's dea? ) pa9 behold1 ,mu/ /& ) h& 9 liv+ hold ,( /iff5$ f+]s gr[+ cold4 ,de>e/1 :i* "o8 ,"o ( u1 de>1 b]eft ( *e]1 ,mu/ pause beside a fl[]-/rewn bi]1 ,mu/ kneel alone & drop a te> ,^u a =m to he>t s de>4 ,de>e/1 :i* "o8 ,"o ( u1 de>1 ) he>t l lead1 ,mu/ /& beside a n>r[ b$1 ,mu/ he> ! sod fall on ! dead ,) angui%$ brea? & nameless dread4 ,de>e/1 :i* "o8 ,"o ( u1 de>1 ) /ifl$ moan1 ,mu/ h5ce=? walk ! _w alone2 ,mu/ ev] ye>n = a t5d] tone1 ,he>d only ar\nd ! ,great ,:ite ,?rone4 ,de>e/1 :i* "o8 ,,k9d ,,words4 ,k9d words may prove pe>ls ( ! highe/ price2 s(t5 & turn away wra?2 make fri5d%ip out ( enmity1 & build a monum5t ( good t ! /orms ( "t _c de/roy4 ,*]i% !m1 de> boys & girls4 ,a k9d he>t full ( love & sympa?y & lov+ words1 w spr+ to y\r lips to bless1 to help & to com=t all ar\nd y4 8,t :i* ! f\nta9 s5ds =? returns aga9 to ! f\nta940 ,bett] to hope1 ?\gh ! cl\ds hang l[1 ,& to keep ! eyes /ill lift$1 ,= ! /ill blue sky w /ill peep ?r\gh ,:5 ! om9\s cl\ds are rift$4 ,!re 0 nev] a night )\t a day1 ,or an ev5+ )\t a morn+2 ,& ! d>ke/ h\r1 z ! prov]b goes1 8,is ! h\r be=e ! dawn+40 ,a life ( real virtue1 ( nobl5ess1 ( true greatness1 is n an accid5t4 ,x comes1 if x comes at all1 f l(ty aspirations1 f incorruptible motives1 long *]i%$1 & held sacr$ z life4 ,,s94 8,s9 is ! mo/ exp5sive ?+ possible4 ,x wa/es money4 ,x we>s ! body into decay4 ,b1 bad z ^! ?+s are1 !re are ev5 worse beh9d1 = x blights ! intellect & )]s ! moral nature ( man4 ,x weak5s ! w2 x blunts ! consci5ce2 x h>d5s ! he>t4 ,x dries up all ! f9] feel+s ( ! s\l1 s t ultimately all reg>d = tru? & hol9ess & purity is gone4 ,b worse yet1 s9 is an enslav+ ?+4 ,x becomes ! ma/] ( ! man :o indulges 9 x & sets him to d ! h>de/ drudg]y4 ,x hires him out1 z x 71 to fe$ sw9e1 leav+ him to fe$ along ) !m4 ,t :i* 0 at fir/ a joy becomes 9 ! end a bondage4 ,t :i* 0 fir/ a pleasant companion becomes at l5g? a cruel task-ma/]1 :i* compels him to make bricks )\t /raw1 & sometimes ev5 )\t clay40--,dr4 ,w4 ,m4 ,taylor4 ,let n s91 !re=e1 reign 9 y\r ,m-,o-,r-,t-,a-,l body4--,rom4 vi4 #ab4 ,a ,,hymn4 8,o1 help me1 ,"l1 by grace to w9 ,! victory o'er ?is _w ( s91 ,= ,i am weak :5 left alone1 ,i h no /r5g? to call my own4 8,o6 lead me by ,?y g5tle h&1 ,across ?is des]t's burn+ s&1 ,& :5 ,i'm we>y let me re/ ,my a*+ head ^u ,?y brea/4 8,direct my m9d to ?+s div9e1 ,& keep my ?\ghts z pure z ,?9e2 ,oh1 let no wick$ ?\ghts come 94 ,let no?+ cause my s\l to s94 8,^u ,?y bosom let me lean ,& keep my words s pure & clean ,t angels he>+ w\ld n blu%1 ,nor heav5's cry my voice to hu%4 8,,refra94 8,o1 help me1 ,"l1 by grace to w9 ,! victory o'er ?is _w ( s91 ,& o'er ! bill[s safely guide ,me to life's port on ! o!r side40 ,,john ,w4 ,,griggs1 ,up%aw1 ,ala4 ,jan4 #bf1 #aijc4 ,,! ,,sculptor',s ,,dream4 8,*isel 9 h& /ood a sculptor boy1 ,) 8 m>ble block be=e him1 ,& 8 face lit up ) a smile ( joy1 ,z an angel dream pass$ o'er him4 ,he c>v$ ! dream on t %apeless /one1 ,) _m a %>p incision2 ,) heav5's own light ! sculptor %one-- ,he _h caught ! angel-vision4 8,sculptors ( life are we1 z we /&1 ,) our s\l unc>v$ be=e u1 ,wait+ ! h\r1 :5 at ,god's comm&1 ,our life-dream passes o'er u4 ,if we c>ve x !n on ! yield+ /one1 ,) _m a %>p incision1 ,its heav5ly beauty %all be our own-- ,our lives t angel-vision40 ,,bi%op ,g4 ,w4 ,,doane4 ,,be=e ,,x ,,is ,,too ,,late4 8,if y h a gray-hair$ "m ,9 ! old home f> away1 ,sit d[n & write ! lett] ,y put (f day by day4 ,don't wait until h] tir$ /eps ,rea* heav5's pe>ly gate-- ,b %[ h] t y ?9k ( h] ,be=e x is too late4 8,if y've a t5d] message ,or a lov+ ^w to say1 ,don't wait till y =get x1 ,b :isp] x to-day4 ,:o kn[s :at bitt] memories ,may haunt y if y wait8-- ,s make y\r lov$ ones happy ,be=e x is too late4 8,we live b 9 ! pres5t1 ,! future is unkn[n-- ,to-morr[ is a my/]y1 ,to-day is all our own4 ,! *ance t =tune l5ds to u ,may vani% :ile we wait1 ,s sp5d y\r life's ri* treasure ,be=e x is too late4 8,! t5d] words unspok51 ,! lett] nev] s5t1 ,! long-=gott5 messages1 ,! weal? ( love unsp5t4 ,= ^! "s he>ts are break+1 ,= ^! "s lov$ ones wait-- ,s %[ !m t y c>e = !m ,be=e x is too late40 ,,h[ ,,to ,,talk ,,to ,,m54 ,!re are _m "y girls :o compla9 t !y d n "k h[ to talk to m54 ,!y h probably be5 br\ght up almo/ exclusively among _! own sex1 &1 !re=e1 look ^u m5 v mu* z ^u be+s ( ano!r _w1 & :5 !y f9d !mselves 9 mascul9e society !y are at a loss to "k h[ to make !mselves agreeable1 & :at to talk ab\t4 ,_! task w\ld be light5$ if !y realiz$ t m5 are1 aft] all1 v ne>ly ak9 to !mselves1 & t !y h v mu* ! same ideas1 feel+s & s5tim5ts4 ,! failure to recognize ?is fact g5]ally e>ns !m ! "* among _! male acqua9tances = unamiability or pride2 seldom1 inde$1 are !y cr$it$ ) ! timidity ( ignorance4 ,! girl :o g5]ally is acceptable ) m5 is )\t self-consci\sness1 & talks to a man mu* 9 ! same /yle z %e w\ld to a girl fri5d4 ,%e is n always ?9k+ ( h]self & ! impression %e creates1 b %e is k9d & sympa!tic1 & %e int]e/s h]self 9 him & 8 affairs1 & lets him feel x2 always1 h[ev]1 tak+ c>e to avoid excess 9 ?is respect4 ,:5 talk+ ) him %e %[s int]e/ 9 ! matt] "u discussion1 b1 :ile hold+ to h] own op9ions1 %e takes c>e n to ass]t !m ) too great eag]ness4 ,no man 0 ev] really influ5c$ by a self-ass]tive1 dogmatic woman1 & ! woman :o wi%es to h m5 fri5ds mu/ rememb] t ! secret ( bo? h] p[] & h] popul>ity lies 9 h] g5tl5ess1 sweetness & good temp]4 ,%e mu/ be *e]y1 too1 & ready ) h] smiles2 b t is q ano!r ?+1 be x rememb]$1 f ! s5seless giggl+ :i* "s girls seem to fancy is p>ticul>ly *>m+ to ! o!r sex4 ,,ab\t ,,attract+ ,,husb&s4 ,m5 h1 s9ce ! _w began1 be5 angl$ = delib]ately by girls1 & times out ( c\nt h be5 caught4 ,girls w cont9ue to fi% = husb&s1 & w cont9ue to cat* !m z long z m>riage is a fa%ion--a /ate likely to co9cide ) ! l5g? ( "t ! _w la/s4 ,b = all t1 x ne$ n be ass]t$1 z x s (t5 is1 t all girls angle4 ,:y %\ld ! ^w be us$1 moreov]1 ) su* bitt]ness8 ,surely x is n wrong ( girls to behave *>m+ly & make !mselves look attractive & pretty1 & especially s 9 ! eyes ( ^? m5 = ^: good op9ion !y are mo/ anxi\s8 ,if !y 7 to we> sackclo? & g ab\t v]itable kill-joys1 is x likely t !y w\ld succe$ 9 w9n+ :at !y want8 ,x is said t love is nev] ev5ly di/ribut$1 & t 9 e engag$ c\ple !re is m love on "o side ?an on ! o!r4 ,wom5 fall 9 love ) ! opposite sex j z (t5 z ! opposite sex does ) !m4 ,:at is to happ5 if a girl sees a man %e believes %e c\ld fondly love1 & :om %e is sure w\ld fondly love h]1 if %e is deb>r$ f angl+ = him8 ,a girl may n propose to a man4 ,%e may n put to him ! anxi\s "q1 8,d y love me80 ,f h] lips x w\ld be unp>donable 7 ! t5d] plead+1 8,w y m>ry me80 to proce$4 ,b %e sees "o :om %e has good reason to ?9k %e c\ld w$ & be happy )1 & ! sole /ep %e c rightly take to br+ ab\t a decl>ation ( love f him is j ?is3 ,%e c make h]self s pleasant & fasc9at+ t he falls 9 love ) h]1 & asks h] t sweet "q %e has s deeply long$ to he> f him4 ,! fem99e angl] %\ld be v cauti\s4 ,let h] decl>e h] purpose--%\ld x be only by a />tl$ ^w--& a hundr$ eyes w d>t scorn at h]1 a hundr$ tongues condemn h]4 ,%e :o is wise1 h[ev]1 is c>eful--bo? = ! sake ( ! man %e loves & h] own reputation--t ! little wiles %e practices %all appeal only to him1 & %all n be obs]vable by ^? onlook]s :o are popul>ly suppos$ to see mo/ ( ! game4 ,wom5 are und\bt$ly end[$ ) a special measure ( in/9ct1 & are !re=e able to accompli% wond]s1 app>5tly nev] plann$ or prem$itat$4 ,woe be x to ! swa9 :o does n want to fall 9 love1 %\ld "s fair daught] ( ,eve w t he %all6 ,!re is ?is to console him1 h[ev]3 t ! said daught] ( ,eve1 %\ld %e be discreet & diplomatic1 w s "w matt]s t ! happy man w nev] guess t he has be5 s+l$ out = pref]5ce4 ,he w take ! bait & gre$ily swall[ x1 all ! "t "u ! impression t he 0 ! angl]1 & t x 0 only aft] ! greate/ /ruggle t he manag$ to l& 8 prize4 ,he w be z pr\d ( 8 a*ievem5t z he c be--t is to say1 if ! girl :o has caught him has be5 v canny dur+ h] maneuv]s4 ,%e ne$ n be deceitful1 nor =w>d1 nor unwomanly1 nor any ( ! o!r pla9-spok5 & objectionable epi!ts appli$ to ! fem99e angl]4 ,z has be5 po9t$ out1 %e ne$ m]ely be a tactful1 purposeful1 clev] girl1 "o :o1 kn[+ h] own p[]s to *>m1 ex]cises !m = ! mo/ valuable end & aim life (f]s--t ( =m+ a home 9 :i* two p]sons may be happy1 & f :i* !y may radiate a suffici5cy ( joy to make ! _w ab\t x m cont5t$ & felicit\s ?an x 0 be=e4 ,d m>riages arrang$ z an outcome ( ! angl+ pr9ciple turn out well8 ,does ! fasc9at+ little woman ^: bright eyes1 pretty ways & da9ty dress won h] a husb&1 hav+ secur$ :at %e desir$1 make = ! man ^: helpmeet %e has elect$ to be a good wife8 ,if %e does1 a doz5 to "o he w nev] f9d out t he 0 caught2 or if %e 9 "s sweet mom5t %\ld divulge to him ! secret1 & tell him 9 :isp]s & ) %y kisses1 h[ %e did h] be/ to draw him to h]1 he w1 ) fur!r kisses1 solemnly decl>e unto h] 8 delight & gratitude t %e s ?\ghtfully & clev]ly made ?+s easy = a blund]+ idiot l himself4 ,on ! contr>y1 %\ld %e ab&on e ef=t to please directly or soon aft] ! gold5 circlet is firmly on h] f+]1 h[ rapidly w 8 eyes be op5$ to all ! crude & ugly s*em+ %e employ$ to secure him6 ,h[ bitt]ly w he rue ! weak mom5t 9 :i* he succumb$ to h] bl&i%m5ts4 ,!n w ! memory ( h] *>m+ little spee*es & sweet little ways be du/ & a%es to him4 ,he w cease to believe 9 wom51 taught by 8 captor to di/ru/ ! sex = h] sake4 ,!re is all ! diff]5ce 9 ! _w betwe5 ! girl :o angles hone/ly1 s t a happy union may be _h ) ! man %e loves1 & ! girl :o angles simply = ! a*ievem5t ( "s tribute to h] vanity--a weal?y husb&1 a husb& ) m money ?an h] fri5d's husb& possesses1 or a husb& :o w give h] a title & position4 ,!re are few wom5 s purely calculat+ t1 once hav+ a*iev$ _! object1 !y c delib]ately %[ !mselves 9 _! true colors4 ,capti\s1 irritable1 ill-temp]$1 untidy--all ^! di/ress+ *>act]i/ics !y may reveal to _! mis]able husb&s lat]1 b = ! fir/ few weeks ( m>riage !y r>ely unmask4 ,x is :5 ! home is settl$ into1 & ! regul> r\t9e ( exi/5ce beg9s1 t ! te/ is fairly made4 ,! admirable angl] n[ %[s h]self 9 h] true colors4 ,%e means to be a good h\sekeep]1 s %e /udies h] husb&'s likes & dislikes1 & inconte/ably1 ?\gh sil5tly1 demon/rates to him t s9ce he hates bacon he %all n h x e morn+4 ,above all1 %e reflects1 & recollects1 & realizes t :at he lov$ h] = 9 ^? v e>ly days1 :5 fir/ %e taught him to gr[ fond ( h]1 7 h] pretty ways4 ,& :o %all say1 ) s glori\s a result z ?is w9n+ woman %all a*ieve1 t %e 0 wrong 9 h] girlhood to be an angl]8 ,if !re 7 m ( !m6 ,b !re are m ?an is imag9$4 ,only x is ! happy c\ntry t has no hi/ory1 & ! successful angl] t has no hi/orian4 ,,duties ,,( ,,an ,,engag$ ,,girl4 ,an engag$ girl %\ld endeavor to be bo? a com=t & a help to h] lov]2 n m]ely a pet & play?+4 ,x is a v bad augury = ! future :5 a man in/9ctively feels t a wax doll w\ld be ( z mu* use to 8 worries z %e :om he int5ds mak+ 8 helpmeet = life4 ,& yet1 only ! o!r day1 a g5tleman 0 he>d to exclaim3 8,no1 no2 ,i w\ld n tr\ble ,lily = ! _w2 :y1 %e is only made = ! sun%9e & ! fl[]s40 ,aga91 x is ! engag$ girl's duty to be op5 & c&id 9 all h] relations ) h] lov]4 ,! se$s ( mu* future di/ru/ & unhapp9ess are s[n if once he suspects %e is keep+ a secret f him4 ,x is also h] duty to be consid]ate ( 8 wi%es1 & if he h a h>mless antipa?y to any little ?+ or o!r1 let h] humor him 9 ?is4 ,no d\bt %e also has "s little 8fads0 :i* require consid]ation4 ,= in/ance1 t girl 0 wise :o ceas$ adopt+ 8manni%0 ways because h] swee!>t disapprov$4 ,by do+ s %e only r5d]$ h]self m *>m+ ?an ev] 9 8 eyes4 ,to be punctual is ano!r ( ! engag$ girl's duties4 ,%e has no m bus9ess to keep h] lov] wait+ ?an he has to keep h] wait+4 ,t>d9ess is n a sign ( maid5ly indiff]5ce1 z "s damsels seem to ?9k4 ,x is m]ely an indication ( bad mann]s4 ,( c\rse1 x is h] b\nd5 duty to be engag$ op5ly4 ,h] lov] %\ld be kn[n to h] p>5ts1 &1 :]e practicable1 %\ld visit h] at h] own h\se4 ,9 conclusion1 ,i w m5tion ! la/ & mo/ important duty ( all1 & t is t %e %\ld love h] lov] ) h] :ole he>t1 m9d & /r5g?4 ,if %e does n p]=m ?is (fice ?or\ghly & well1 ! o!rs might j z easily be left alone4 ,,premature ,,matrimony4 ,m>riage is a div9e & beautiful arrangem5t1 z design$ 9 ,god's provid5ce4 ,x is ! bl5d+ ( two spirits 9 "o4 ,man is incomplete )\t 8 wife3 he has /r5g?1 %e has beauty4 8,x is n good t man %\ld be alone40 8,:oso f9de? a wife f9de? a good ?+40 8,( all ! joys t man c feel1 ,! pure/ sure are !re4 ,:ile o'er 8 he>t affections /eal1 ,l balmy summ] air2 ,8 wife's c>ess1 8 *ildr5's smile1 ,unlike ! _w are free f guile40 ,premature m>riages are among ! greate/ evils ( ! times--! result ( fancy4 ,! ballroom or ev5+ p>ty nev] develops real "*4 ,mat*es made at su* places1 or made "u simil> circum/ances1 are n ( ! class t orig9ate 9 heav54 ,!y m g5]ally are conceiv$ 9 ! opposite place1 & br+ =? only iniquity4 ,! true way to /udy & le>n "o ano!r is to d x at home1 9 ! p>lor1 9 ! kit*51 & on occasions t te/ ! temp]4 ,we see ! result ( premature unions 9 ! almo/ daily divorces t are tak+ place2 9 ! runn+ away ( husb&s--leav+ _! wives & *ildr5 to />ve--& 9 ! elopem5t ( wives4 ,n only ?is1 b we witness x 9 brok5-spirit$ m51 made old 9 ! prime ( life1 /ruggl+ on = m]e food1 clo?+1 & m]e %elt]2 & 9 woman1 cross1 slutti% & wr9kl$4 ,& ! result does n /op ) ! husb& & wife4 ,!re are ! *ildr52 !y p>take ( ! feebl5ess & vices ( ! p>5ts1 bo? physical & moral1 & g out into ! _w /unt$ & gn>l$4 ,"y fri5ds1 bew>e6 8,o lasses take c>e :]e fancy lights1 ,?is _w's full ( sn>es3 ,! end ( frolicsome fancy's flights ,is (t a ne/ ( c>es40 ,a judici\s writ]1 allud+ to ! matrimonial /ate1 says3 8,!re is n a city1 sc>cely a t[n%ip1 :i* does n numb] among its inhabitants wom5 :o h m>ri$ on v %ort acqua9tance1 only to be abus$1 des]t$1 & left a burd5 & a lifelong sorr[ to ! families 9 :i* !y 7 born & re>$1 & :i* !y mo/ imprud5tly & improp]ly des]t$ to %>e ! =tunes ( relative /rang]s40 ,if "y ladies w\ld realize h[ grossly indelicate1 z well z culpably reckless1 su* m>riages appe> 9 ! eyes ( ! obs]v+1 !y surely w\ld =be>4 ,a ye>'s ?or\gh acqua9tance1 ) ! mo/ circum/antial acc\nts1 f dis9t]e/$ & reliable witnesses1 ( ! antec$5ts f *ildhood1 are ! v lea/ gu>antee :i* any woman :o realizes :at m>riage is1 w require ( a /rang]4 ,ev5 !n1 if h] p>5ts are n fully satisfi$1 z well z h]self1 %e %\ld /ill hesitate4 ,m>riage is an und]tak+ 9 :i* no delay c be s haz>d\s z undue precipitation4 8,a prud5t man =esee? ! evil & hide? himself2 b ! simple pass on & are puni%$40--,solomon4 ,9 h[ _m in/ances1 ( ! pres5t day1 is m>riage m]ely a union ( h&s--! affection n be+ tak5 into consid]ation4 ,! "q on ! "o side1 8,is %e h&some8 has %e money80 on ! o!r1 8,c he support me 9 /yle8 %all ,i be able to make an appe>ance80 ,h[ mu* bett] w\ld x be to ask1 8,has ! woman a he>t capable ( pure affection80 8,w %e be will+ to %>e ) me adv]sity z well z prosp]ity80 8,w %e =sake all o!rs & cleave only to me ?r\gh weal & woe80 ,& woman1 yes1 woman1 %e ^: v nature ought to /imulate h] to high] & holi] motives = tak+ ^u h]self ! m>riage relation1 is too (t5 anxi\s only z to ! l5g? ( h] husb&'s purse1 & ! am\nt ( 8 bank /ock2 ! he>t1 ! m9d1 ! intellect1 9 fact ev]y?+ really wor? m>ry+ =1 be+ non-ess5tials4 ,b1 oh1 ! mis]y :i* too (t5 foll[s su* m>riages6 ,! husb&1 :5 x is too late1 lam5ts 8 bl9dness & 8 folly4 ,! wife is made to realize t ri*es take to !mselves w+s & fly away2 & !n comes ! consci\sness ( a want ( sympa?y & cong5iality ( feel+s4 ,bo? are ?r[n back ^u !mselves1 = n a *ord 9 ! brea/ ( "o vibrates 9 unison ) ! o!r4 ,let ! "y bew>e h[ !y ent] ! m>riage /ate f su* motives1 le/ !y wake too late f ! delusion4 ,consult ! judgm5t1 & hesitate :5 t says 8,bew>e40 ,let ! prop]ty be 9 r ?an ) ! companion4 ,oh1 ! lonel9ess ( an unw$d$ he>t6 ,! h&s may be unit$1 b to feel t 9 he>t y are sep>at$ mu/ be mis]y inde$4 ,to ?9k ( be+ oblig$ to associate = life ) "o :o has n a feel+ ( sympa?y ) y1 & :o is1 moreov]1 9 s5tim5t1 ta/e & feel+ directly oppos$ to y--h[ revolt+ ! ?\ght6 ,!n1 let love1 n ambition1 lead y to =m ^? ties t naught b dea? c honorably sev]4 ,weigh well ! consequ5ces ( "o wrong or ha/y /ep 9 ! *oice ( a companion = life4 ,walk s(tly "h1 le/ y fall1 to rise no m4 ,seek wisdom f above4 8,9 all ?y ways ackn[l$ge ! ,"l1 & ,he %all direct ?y pa?s40 8,seek fir/ ! k+dom ( ,god & ,8 righte\sness0 at all times1 & y are safe4 8,oh1 happy /ate6 :5 s\ls ea* o!r draw2 ,:5 love is lib]ty & nature's law2 ,all !n is full1 possess+ & possess$1 ,no crav+ void left a*+ 9 ! brea/2 ,e'en ?\ght meets ?\ght1 ere f ! lips x "p1 ,& ea* w>m wi% spr+s mutual f ! he>t40 ,,! ,,gift ,,( ,,gifts--,a ,,^w ,,to ,,husb&s4 ,husb&1 h y ?is gift ( gifts8 ,has ,god 9 sup]ab\nd+ m]cy giv5 y a de> wife1 lovely1 virtu\s1 prud5t1 s5sible1 intellig5t1 & above all a ,god-fe>+ wife1 meek1 mode/1 humble1 ,*ri/like8--8an helpmeet0 9 v de$8 ,well1 :at d y ?9k ( x8 ,d y appreciate ! bless+ duly8--make suitable returns8 ,c y d x8 ,su* a gift is unspeakable4 ,h[ few1 comp>atively1 appreciate ! gift ( a good wife8 ,a v godly man said to u rec5tly1 8,i ?ank ! ,"l daily1 h\rly1 = ! jewel ( a wife ,god ha? giv5 me40 ,a di/+ui%$ writ]--speak+ ( ! value ( a good wife--rem>ks ?us3 8,9 ! true wife ! husb& f9ds n affection only1 b companion%ip--a companion%ip ) :i* no o!r c comp>e4 ,! family relation gives retirem5t )\t solitude1 & society )\t ! r\gh intrusion ( ! _w4 ,x plants 9 ! husb&'s dwell+ a fri5d :o c li/5 to ! details ( 8 int]e/s ) sympa?y1 :o c appreciate 8 repetition ( ev5ts1 only important z !y are embalm$ 9 ! he>t4 ,common fri5ds are l9k$ to u by a sl5d] ?read4 ,we mu/ reta9 !m by m9i/]+1 9 "s way1 to _! int]e/ or _! enjoym5t4 ,:at a luxury x is = a man to feel t 9 8 h\se !re is a true & affectionate be+1 9 ^: pres5ce he may ?r[ (f re/ra9t )\t dang] to 8 dignity2 he may confide )\t ! fe> ( trea*]y1 & be sick or un=tunate )\t be+ ab&on$4 ,if 9 ! outw>d _w he gr[ we>y ( human selfi%ness1 8 he>t c safely tru/ 9 "o ^: s\l ye>ns = 8 happ9ess1 & ^: indulg5ce ov]looks 8 defects40 ,give y\r wives to und]/& t y e/eem !m above all o!rs2 make !m y\r confidants2 confide 9 !m & !y w confide 9 y2 confid5ce begets confid5ce1 love begets love1 sweetness begets sweetness4 ,above all1 sympa?ize ) ! wives ( y\r bosoms 9 ! h\r ( affliction4 ,rejoice ) !m :5 !y rejoice1 & weep ) !m :5 !y weep4 ,:o1 if n a bosom companion1 w wipe f ! *eek ! fall+ te> ( sorr[8 ,f9ally1 husb&s1 rememb] t dea? 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