,,divorce v]sus ,,democracy ,,by ,g4 ,k4 ,,*e/]ton ,repr9t$ f 8,na%'s ,magaz9e0 ,illu/ration3 ,,ihs ,loqure ut pr(ifiliis ciscantur ,israel ,london ,,! ,,society ,,( ,,ss4 ,,pet] ,,paul ,publi%]s to ! ,*ur* ( ,engl& #cb ,george ,/41 ,hanov] ,squ>e1 & #cjb ,reg5t ,/41 ,w4 #aiaf ,preface ,i h be5 ask$ to put =w>d 9 pamphlet =m ?is r ha/y essay z x appe>$ 9 8,na%'s ,magaz9e02 & ,i d s by ! k9d p]mission ( ! editor4 ,! r *aotic quality ( its j\rnalism x is n[ impossible to alt]4 ,! convictions ^u :i* x is bas$ are unalt]$ & unalt]able4 ,inde$1 9 s f> z circum/ances h s9ce affect$ !m1 !y are greatly /r5g!n$4 ,9 s f> z !re 0 some?+ sporadic & seem+ly irrelevant 9 ! writ+1 x 0 p>tly because ,i 0 cont5d+ aga9/ an evil t 0 diffus$ & indef9able1 at once t5tative & ubiquit\s4 ,s9ce !n t disease has come to a head & bur/2 prim>ily 9 ! ,nor? ( ,europe4 ,by t hi/oric habit :i* g5]ally makes "o ,european p ! /&>d-be>] ( a social t5d5cy1 :i* made ! ,empire a ,roman ,empire & ! ,revolution a ,fr5* ,revolution1 ! ,nor? ,g]mans h become ! peculi> *ampions ( t mod]n *ange :i* w\ld make ! ,/ate inf9itely sup]ior to ! ,family4 ,x is ev5 ass]t$ t ,prussian political au?ority is n[ enc\rag+ ! ab&onm5t ( common morality = ! support ( population2 & ev5 if ?is horrible ?+ be untrue1 x is highly significant t x c be plausibly said ( ,prussia1 & c]ta9ly ( no o!r ,*ri/ian ,/ate4 ,& 9 ! new light ( action x is possible to trace m cle>ly ! tr5d t[>ds divorce1 z also t tr5d t[>ds ! o!r pagan in/itution ( slav]y1 :i* w\ld c]ta9ly h accompani$ x4 ,b ! enslav+ =ce 9 ,europe /ruck too e>ly2 & ! :ole movem5t has be5 br\ght to a /&/ill4 ,! same circum/ances h giv5 an importance to a =mula ( my own :i* ,i /ill ?9k r important4 ,x may be summ>is$ z ! patriotism ( ! h\sehold4 ,9 ! exp]i5ce ( nationality we d n admit t any excess ( despair c come into ! same logical _w z des]tion4 ,no am\nt ( trag$y ne$ am\nt to treason4 ,! ,*ri/ian view ( m>riage conceives ( ! home z self-gov]n+ 9 a mann] analog\s to an indep5d5t /ate2 t is1 t x may include int]nal re=m & ev5 int]nal rebellion2 b because ( ! bond1 n aga9/ x4 ,9 ?is way x is itself a sort ( /&+ re=m] ( ! ,/ate2 = ! ,/ate is judg$ by :e!r its arrangem5ts be> helpfully or be> h>dly on ! human fulness & f]tility ( ! free family4 ,?us ! ,wick$ ,t5 9 ,rome 7 condemn$ & ca/ d[n because _! public p[]s p]mitt$ a wrong aga9/ ! purity ( a private family4 ,?us ! m$ival revolt aga9/ ! ,poll ,tax began by ! au?ority ( an (ficial insult+ ! au?ority ( a fa!r4 ,m5 d n n[1 any m ?an !n1 become s9less by receiv+ a po/ 9 a bureaucracy2 & if ! dome/ic affairs ( ! poor 7 once put into ! h&s ( m]e lawy]s & inspectors1 ! poor w\ld soon f9d !mselves 9 positions f :i* !re is no exit save by ! sword ( ,virg9ius & ! hamm] ( ,wat ,tyl]4 ,z = ! section ( ! ri* :o are /ill seek+ a s]vile solution1 !y1 ( c\rse1 are /ill seek+ ! ext5sion ( divorce4 ,x is only 8divide et imp]a02 & !y want ! division ( sex = ! division ( lab\r4 ,! v same economic calculation :i* makes !m enc\rage tyranny 9 ! %op makes !m enc\rage lic5ce 9 ! family4 ,b n[ ! free families ( five great nations h ris5 aga9/ !m2 & _! plot has fail$4 ,g4 ,k4 ,,*e/]ton ,divorce v]sus ,democracy ,on ?is "q ( divorce ,i d n pr(ess to be imp>tial1 = ,i h nev] p]ceiv$ any intellig5t mean+ 9 ! ^w4 ,i m]ely 7& mo/ mode/ly7 pr(ess to be "r4 ,i also pr(ess to be repres5tative3 t is1 democratic4 ,n[1 "o may believe 9 democracy or disbelieve 9 x4 ,x w\ld be grossly unfair to conceal ! fact t !re are difficulties on bo? sides4 ,! difficulty ( believ+ 9 democracy is t x is s h>d to believe--l ,god & mo/ o!r good ?+s4 ,! difficulty ( disbeliev+ 9 democracy is t !re is no?+ else to believe 94 ,i mean !re is no?+ else on e>? or 9 e>?ly politics4 ,unless an ari/ocracy is select$ by gods1 x mu/ be select$ by m54 ,x may be negatively & passively p]mitt$1 b ei!r heav5 or humanity mu/ p]mit x2 o!rwise x has no m moral au?ority ?an a lucky pickpocket4 ,x is baby talk to talk ab\t 8,sup]m50 or 8,nature's ,ari/ocracy0 or 8,! ,wise ,few40 8,! ,wise ,few0 mu/ be ei!r ^? :om o!rs ?9k wise--:o are (t5 fools2 or ^? :o ?9k !mselves wise--:o are always fools4 ,well1 if "o happ5s to believe 9 democracy z ,i d1 z a l>ge tru/ 9 ! active & passive judgm5t ( ! human consci5ce1 "o c h no hesitation1 no 8imp>tiality10 ab\t "o's view ( divorce2 & especially ab\t "o's view ( ! ext5sion ( divorce among ! democracy4 ,a democrat 9 any s5se mu/ reg>d t ext5sion z ! la/ & vile/ ( ! insults (f]$ by ! mod]n ri* to ! mod]n poor4 ,! ri* d l>gely believe 9 divorce2 ! poor d ma9ly believe 9 fidelity4 ,b ! mod]n ri* are p[]ful & ! mod]n poor are p[]less4 ,!re=e = ye>s & decades pa/ ! ri* h be5 prea*+ _! own virtues4 ,n[ t !y h begun to prea* _! vices too1 ,i ?9k x is "t to kick4 ,!re is "o enorm\s & elem5t>y objection to ! popul>is+ ( divorce1 :i* comes be=e any consid]ation ( ! nature ( m>riage4 ,x is l an alphabet 9 lett]s too l>ge to be se54 ,x is ?is3 ,t ev5 if ! democracy approv$ ( divorce z /rongly & deeply z ! democracy does 79 fact7 disapprove ( x--any man ( common s5se mu/ "k t n[adays ! ?+ w be work$ probably aga9/ ! democracy1 b q c]ta9ly by ! plutocracy4 ,p seem to =get t 9 a society :]e p[] goes ) weal? & :]e weal? is 9 an extreme /ate ( inequality1 ext5d+ ! p[]s ( ! law means some?+ entirely diff]5t f ext5d+ ! p[]s ( ! public4 ,!y seem to =get t !re is a great deal ( diff]5ce betwe5 :at laws def9e & :at laws d4 ,a poor woman 9 a poor public-h\se 0 brok5 ) a ru9\s f9e = giv+ a *ild a sip ( %&y-gaff4 ,nobody suppos$ t ! law v]bally /igmatis$ ! action = be+ done by a poor p]son 9 a poor public-h\se4 ,b mo/ c]ta9ly nobody w d>e to pret5d t a ri* man giv+ a boy a sip ( *ampagne w\ld h be5 puni%$ s heavily--or puni%$ at all4 ,i h se5 ! ?+ done frequ5tly 9 c\ntry h\ses2 & my ho/ & ho/ess w\ld h be5 v mu* surpris$ if ,i _h gone outside & telephon$ = ! police4 ,! law !oretically condemns any "o :o tries to fru/rate ! police or ev5 fails to assi/ !m4 ,yet ! ri* motori/s are all[$ to keep up an organis$ s]vice ( anti-police detectives--we>+ a conspicu\s uni=m--= ! av[$ purpose ( %[+ motori/s h[ to avoid capture4 ,no "o supposes aga9 t ! law says 9 s _m words t ! "r to organise = ! evasion ( laws is a privilege ( ! ri* b n ( ! poor4 ,b take ! same practical te/4 ,:at w\ld ! police say1 :at w\ld ! _w say1 if m5 /ood ab\t ! /reets 9 gre5 & yell[ uni=ms1 notori\sly = ! purpose ( w>n+ pickpockets ( ! pres5ce ( a pla9-clo!s (fic]8 ,:at w\ld ! _w say if recognis$ (ficials 9 peak$ caps wat*$ by night to w>n a burgl> t ! police 7 wait+ = him8 ,yet !re is no di/9ction ( pr9ciple betwe5 ! evasion ( t police-trap & ! o!r police-trap--! police-trap :i* prev5ts a motori/ f kill+ a *ild l a *ick52 :i* prev5ts ! mo/ frivol\s k9d ( murd]1 ! mo/ pite\s k9d ( sudd5 dea?4 ,well1 ! ,poor ,man's ,divorce ,law w be appli$ exactly z all ^! o!rs are appli$4 ,ev]ybody mu/ "k t x w\ld mean 9 practice t well-dress$ m51 doctors1 magi/rates1 & inspectors1 w\ld h m p[] ov] ! family lives ( ill-dress$ m51 navvies1 plumb]s1 & potm54 ,nobody c h ! impud5ce to pret5d t x w\ld mean t navvies1 plumb]s1 & potm5 w\ld 7ei!r individually or collectively7 h m p[] ov] ! family lives ( doctors1 magi/rates1 & inspectors4 ,nobody d>e ass]t t because divorce is a ,/ate affair1 !re=e ! poor citiz5 w h any p[]1 direct or indirect1 to divorce a du*ess f a duke or a bank] f a bank]'s wife4 ,b no "o w call x inconceivable t ! p[] ( ri* families ov] poor families1 :i* is already great1 ! p[] ( ! duke z l&lord1 ! p[] ( ! bank] z money-l5d]1 might be consid]ably increas$ by arm+ magi/rates ) m p[]s ( int]f]5ce 9 private life4 ,= ! dukes & bank]s (t5 are magi/rates1 always ! fri5ds & relatives ( magi/rates4 ,! navvies are n4 ,! navvy w be ! subject ( ! new exp]im5ts2 c]ta9ly nev] ! exp]im5tali/4 ,x is ! poor man :o w %[ to ! imag9ative eye ( sci5ce all ^? horrors :i*1 accord+ to newspap] correspond5ts1 cry al\d = divorce--drunk5ness1 madness1 cruelty1 incurable disease4 ,if he is sl[ 9 work+ = 8 ma/]1 he w be 8defective40 ,if he is worn out by work+ = 8 ma/]1 he w be 8deg5]ate40 ,if he1 at "s p>ticul> opportunity1 pref]s to "w = himself to work+ = 8 ma/]1 he w be obvi\sly insane4 ,if he nev] has any opportunity ( work+ = any ma/]s he w be 8unemployable40 ,all ! bitt] emb>rassm5ts & entanglem5ts incid5tal to extreme pov]ty w be us$ to break conjugal happ9ess1 z !y are already us$ to break p>5tal au?ority4 ,m>riage w be call$ a failure :]ev] x is a /ruggle2 j z p>5ts 9 mod]n ,engl& are s5t to prison = neglect+ ! *ildr5 :om !y _c af=d to fe$4 ,i w take b "o in/ance ( ! enormity & sill9ess :i* is really impli$ 9 ^! proposals = ! ext5sion ( divorce4 ,take ! case quot$ by _m contributors to ! discussion 9 ! pap]s--! case ( :at is call$ 8cruelty40 ,n[ :at is ! real mean+ ( ?is z reg>ds ! prosp]\s & z reg>ds ! /ruggl+ classes ( ! community8 ,let u take ! prosp]\s classes fir/4 ,e "o kn[s t ^? :o are really to be describ$ z g5tlem5 all pr(ess a p>ticul> tradition1 p>tly *ivalr\s1 p>tly m]ely mod]n & ref9$--a tradition aga9/ 8lay+ h&s ^u a woman1 save 9 a way ( k9dness40 ,i d n mean t a g5tleman hates ! c[+ ( a woman by brute =ce3 any "o mu/ hate t4 ,i mean he has a ritual1 taboo k9d ( feel+ ab\t ! lay+ on ( a f+]4 ,if a g5tleman 7real or imitation7 has /ruck 8 wife ev] s lightly1 he feels he has done "o ( ^? ?+s t ?rill ! ?\ghts ) ! notion ( a bord]-l9e2 some?+ l say+ ! ,"l's ,pray] backw>ds1 t\*+ a hot kettle1 rev]s+ ! crucifix1 or 8break+ ! pl$ge40 ,! wife may =give ! husb& m easily = ?is ?an = _m ?+s2 b ! husb& w f9d x h>d to =give himself4 ,x is a purely class s5tim5t1 l ! poor folks' dislike ( hospitals4 ,:at is ! effect ( ?is class s5tim5t on divorce among ! high] classes8 ,! fir/ effect1 ( c\rse1 is greatly to assi/ ^? fak$ divorces s common among ! fa%ionable4 ,i mean t :]e !re is a collusion1 a small pat or pu% c be rememb]$1 exagg]at$1 or inv5t$2 & yet seem to ! solemn judges a v solemn ?+ 9 p ( _! own social class4 ,b outside ^! cases1 ! te/ is n :olly inappropriate z appli$ to ! ri*] classes4 ,=1 all g5tlem5 feel+ or affect+ ?is special horror1 x does really look bad if a g5tleman has brok5 ?r\gh x2 x does look l madness or a p]sonal hatr$ & p]secution4 ,x may ev5 look l worse ?+s4 ,if a man ) luxuri\s habits1 9 arti/ic surr\nd+s1 is cruel to 8 wife1 x may be connect$ ) "s p]v]sion ( sex cruelty1 su* z 0 alleg$ 7,i "k n h[ truly7 9 ! case ( ! millionaire ,?aw4 ,we ne$ n d5y t su* cases are cases = sep>ation1 if n = divorce4 ,b ?is te/ ( te*nical cruelty1 :i* is r\gh & ready z appli$ to ! ri*1 is absolutely mad & mean+less z appli$ to ! poor4 ,a poor woman does n judge h] husb& z a bully by :e!r he has ev] hit out4 ,"o might z well say t a s*oolboy judges :e!r ano!r s*oolboy is a bully by :e!r he has ev] hit out4 ,! poor wife1 l ! s*oolboy1 judges him z a bully by :e!r he is a bully4 ,%e kn[s t :ile wife-beat+ may really be a crime1 wife-hitt+ is sometimes v l j self-def5ce4 ,no "o kn[s bett] ?an %e does t h] husb& (t5 has a great deal to put up )2 sometimes %e means him to2 sometimes %e is ju/ifi$4 ,%e comes & tells all ?is to magi/rates aga9 & aga92 9 police c\rt aft] police c\rt wom5 ) black eyes try to expla9 ! ?+ to judges ) no eyes4 ,9 /reet aft] /reet wom5 turn 9 ang] on ! hapless knight-errant :o has int]rupt$ an in/antane\s misund]/&+4 ,9 ^! p's lives ! rooms are cr[d$1 ! temp]s are torn to rags1 ! natural exits are =bidd54 ,9 su* societies x is z abom9able to puni% or divorce p = a bl[ z x w\ld be to puni% or divorce a g5tleman = slamm+ ! door4 ,yet :o c d\bt1 if ev] divorce is appli$ to ! populace1 x w\ld be appli$ 9 ! _s :i* takes ! bl[ q s]i\sly8 ,if any "o d\bts x1 he does n "k :at _w he is liv+ 94 ,x is common to meet n[adays m5 :o talk ( :at !y call ,free ,love z if x 7 some?+ l ,free ,silv]--a new & +5i\s political s*eme4 ,!y seem to =get t x is z easy to judge :at x w\ld be l z to judge ( :at legal m>riage w\ld be l4 8,free ,love0 has be5 go+ on 9 e t[n & village s9ce ! beg9n+ ( ! _w2 & ! fir/ fact t e man ( ! _w kn[s ab\t x is pla9 en\gh4 ,x nev] does produce any ( ! wild purity & p]fect fre$om its fri5ds attribute to x4 ,if any pap] _h ! pluck to head a column 8,is ,concub9age a ,failure80 in/ead ( 8,is ,m>riage a ,failure80 ! answ] 8,yes0 w\ld be giv5 by ! p]sonal memory ( _m m51 & by ! hi/oric memory ( all4 ,mod]n p p]petually quote "s wild expression ( monks 9 ! wild]ness 7:5 a :ole civilisation 0 madd5$ by remorse7 ab\t ! p]il\s quality ( ,woman1 ab\t h[ %e 0 a spectre & a s]p5t & a de/roy+ fire4 ,probably ! e/abli%m5t ( nuns1 situat$ a few miles (f1 describ$ ,man also z a s]p5t & a spectre2 b _! works h n come d[n to u4 ,n[ all ?is old-_w wit aga9/ ,b5$ick ! m>ri$ man 0 s5sible en\gh4 ,b s 0 ! ba*elorhood ( ! old monks1 :o said x1 s5sible en\gh4 ,x is p]fectly true t to entangle y\rself ) ano!r s\l 9 ! mo/ t5d] & tragic degree is to make1 9 all rational possibility1 a m>tyr or a fool ( y\rself4 ,mo/ ( ! mod]n d5unciations ( m>riage might h be5 copi$ direct f ! madde/ ( ! monki% di>ies4 ,! attack on m>riage is an argum5t = celibacy4 ,x is n an argum5t = divorce4 ,= t entanglem5t :i* celibacy av[$ly avoids1 divorce m]ely r$uplicates & repeats4 ,x may h be5 a sort ( solemn com=t to a g5tleman ( ,africa to reflect t he _h no wife4 ,x _c be any?+ b a discom=t to a g5tleman ( ,am]ica to wond] :i* wife he really has4 ,if progress means1 z 9 ! ludicr\s def9ition ( ,h]b]t ,sp5c]1 8an advance f ! simple to ! complex10 !n c]ta9ly divorce is a "p ( progress4 ,no?+ c be conceiv$ m complex ?an ! condition ( a man :o has settl$ d[n f9ally f\r or five times4 ,no?+ c be conceiv$ m complex ?an ! position ( a pr(ligate :o has n only _h t5 liaisons1 b t5 legal liaisons4 ,!re is a real s5se 9 :i* free love might free m54 ,b fre] divorce w\ld cat* !m 9 ! mo/ complicat$ net ev] wov5 9 ?is wick$ _w4 ,! trag$y ( love is 9 love1 n 9 m>riage4 ,!re is no unhappy m>riage t might n be an equally unhappy concub9age1 or a f> m unhappy s$uction4 ,:e!r ! tie be legal or no1 matt]s some?+ to ! fai?less p>ty2 x matt]s no?+ to ! fai?ful "o4 ,! pa?os reposes ^u ! p]fectly simple fact t if any "o delib]ately provokes ei!r passions or affections1 he is responsible = !m z long z !y g on1 z ! man is responsible = lett+ loose a flood or sett+ fire to a city4 ,8 rem$y is n to provoke !m1 l ! h]mit4 ,8 puni%m5t1 :5 he des]ves puni%m5t1 is to sp5d ! re/ ( 8 life 9 try+ to undo any ill he has done4 ,8 escape is despair--:i* is call$1 9 ?is connection1 divorce4 ,= e heal?y man feels "o fundam5tal fact 9 8 s\l4 ,he feels t he mu/ h a life1 & n a s]ies ( lives4 ,he w\ld r ! human drama 7 a trag$y ?an t x 7 a s]ies ( ,music-hall ,turns & ,pott$ ,plays4 ,a man wi%es to save ! s\ls ( all ! m5 t he has be53 ( ! dirty little s*oolboy2 ( ! d\btful & morbid y\?2 ( ! lov]2 ( ! husb&4 ,re-inc>nation has always seem$ to me a cold cre$2 because ea* inc>nation mu/ =get ! o!r4 ,x w\ld be worse /ill if ?is %ort human life 7 brok5 up into yet %ort] lives1 ea* ( :i* 0 9 its turn =gott54 ,if y are a democrat :o likes also to be an hone/ man--if 79 o!r words7 y want to "k :at ! p want & n m]ely :at y c someh[ induce !m to ask =--!n !re is no d\bt at all t ?is is :at !y want4 ,y c only realise x by look+ = human nature else:]e ?an 9 election reports2 b :5 y h once look$ = x y see x & y nev] =get x4 ,f ! fact t e "o ?9ks x natural t "y m5 & wom5 %\ld c>ve names on trees1 to ! fact t e "o ?9ks x unnatural t old m5 & wom5 %\ld be sep>at$ 9 workh\ses1 millions & millions ( daily details prove t p d reg>d ! relation z normally p]man5t2 n z a vision1 b z a v[4 ,n[ = ! exceptions1 true or false4 ,i w\ld note a /range & ev5 silly ov]sight 9 ! discussion ( su* exceptions1 :i* has haunt$ mo/ argum5ts = fur!r divorce4 ,! ord9>y emancipat$ prig or poet :o urges ?is side ( ! "q always talks to "o tune4 8,m>riage may be ! be/ = mo/ m510 he says1 8b !re are exceptional natures t dem& a m undulat+ exp]i5ce2 con/ancy w d = ! common h]d1 b !re are complex natures & complex cases :]e no "o c\ld recomm5d con/ancy4 ,i d n ask 7at ! pres5t ,/age ( ,progress7 = ! abolition ( m>riage2 ,i h]eby ask t x may be remitt$ 9 su* individual & extreme examples40 ,n[ x is p]fectly a/\nd+ to me t any "o :o has walk$ ab\t ?is _w %\ld make su* a blund] ab\t ! bre$ we call mank9d4 ,surely x is pla9 en\gh t if y ask = dreadful exceptions1 y w get !m--too _m ( !m4 ,let me take once aga9 a r\gh p>able4 ,suppose ,i adv]tis$ 9 ! pap]s t ,i _h a place = any "o :o 0 too /upid to be a cl]k4 ,probably ,i %\ld receive no replies2 possibly "o4 ,possibly also 7nay1 probably7 x w\ld be f ! "o man :o 0 n /upid at all4 ,b suppose ,i _h adv]tis$ t ,i _h a place = any "o :o 0 too clev] to be a cl]k4 ,my (fice w\ld be in/antly besieg$ by all ! mo/ hopeless fools 9 ! f\r k+doms4 ,to adv]tise = exceptions is simply to adv]tise = egoi/s4 ,to adv]tise = egoi/s is to adv]tise = idiots4 ,x is exactly ! bore :o does ?9k t 8 case is int]e/+4 ,x is precisely ! really common p]son :o does ?9k t 8 case is uncommon4 ,x is always ! dull man :o does ?9k himself r wild4 ,to ask solely = /range exp]i5ces ( ! s\l is simply to let loose all ! imbecile asylums ab\t "o's e>s4 ,:atev] o!r !ory is "r1 ?is !ory ( ! exceptions is obvi\sly wrong--or 7:at matt]s m to our mod]n a!i/s7 is obvi\sly unbus9esslike4 ,x is1 moreov]1 to any "o ) popul> political sympa?ies1 a v deep & subtle sort ( treason4 ,by ?us putt+ a premium on ! exceptional we grossly deceive ! unconsci\sness ( ! normal4 ,x seems /rangely =gott5 t ! indiff]5ce ( a nation is sacr$ z well z its diff]5ces4 ,ev5 public apa?y is a k9d ( public op9ion--& 9 _m cases a v s5sible k9d4 ,if ,i ask ev]ybody to vote ab\t ,m9]al ,meals & d n get a s+le ballot-pap] return$1 ,i may say t ! citiz5s h n vot$4 ,b !y h4 ,! pr9ciple held by ! populace1 aga9/ :i* ?is plutocratic conspiracy is be+ eng9e]$1 is simply ! pr9ciple express$ 9 ! ,pray] ,book 9 ! words 8= bett]1 = worse40 ,x is ! pr9ciple t all noble ?+s h to be paid =1 ev5 if y only pay = !m ) a promise4 ,"o does n take "o's int]e/ out ( ,engl& z "o takes x out ( ,consols4 ,a man is n an ,engli%man unless he c endure ev5 ! decay & dea? ( ,engl&4 ,& j z e citiz5 is a pot5tial soldi]1 s e wife or husb& is a pot5tial hospital nurse--or ev5 asylum att5dant4 ,= ?\gh we %\ld all approve ( c]ta9 trag$ies be+ mitigat$ by a celibate sep>ation--yet ! m real love & hon\r !re has be5 9 ! m>riage1 ! less real mitigation !re w be 9 ! p>t+4 ,b ?is s\nd public in/9ct bo? ab\t patriotism & m>riage also insi/s t ! fir/ v[ or obligation %all be mitigat$1 n m]ely eras$ & =gott54 ,_m a good woman has lov$ & refus$ a d\btful man1 ) ! proviso t %e w\ld m>ry no "o else2 ! old in/itution ( m>riage has ! same feel+ ab\t ! trag$y t is po/-matrimonial4 ,! ?+ rema9s real2 x b9ds "o to some?+4 ,if ,i am exil$ f ,engl& ,i w g & live on an isl& some:]e & be z jolly z ,i c4 ,i w n become a patriot ( any o!r l&4 ,illu/ration