,,dean's ,illustrated ,farthing ,books4 ,,every-,,day ,,heroism4 ,,london3 ,,dean ,,son1 #aa1 ,ludgate ,hill4 #dh ,,every-,,day ,,heroism4 ,illustration 8,i will not try any more4 ,everything goes wrong to-day10 exclaimed ,charley ,morris1 throwing down his slate in a pet4 8,nothing succeeds that ,i try to do4 ,everything turns out just the wrong way40 8,i want you to run and get me the book10 said his mother1 8which ,i left on the seat at the farther end of the garden2 then afterwards we will see if anything can be done to coax events into a better humour40 ,charley returned with his face a little brighter from a moment's exercise in the fresh air1 and seated himself at his mother's feet4 8,do you believe in unlucky days1 mother80 said he4 8,i do not believe they come very often10 said ,mrs4 ,morris4 8,but how can you help their coming1 mother80 8,treat them in such a way when they occur that they will not return very soon4 ,but now ,i want you to tell me what has made this day #8unlucky1' and then perhaps ,i can tell you what to do about it40 8,well1 you see1 mother1 ,i overslept myself this morning1 and was late at breakfast4 ,that put me out4 ,then ,agnes laughed at me for being so late1 and that made me cross40 ,illustration 8,stop a moment1 my dear1 and notice where your #8unlucky day' began4 ,the trifling error in being late in rising cannot excuse the greater fault of ill-temper4 ,a single act of self control might have altered the course of the whole day40 8,then1 mother1 ,i went to school feeling just as cross2 ,i thought ,i had all my lessons perfectly2 but when ,i got to school1 ,i found ,i had learned the wrong spelling-lesson1 and that provoked me a little more1 but ,i set to work to learn the right one4 ,while in the midst of that1 the arithmetic class was called4 ,i had studied the lesson thoroughly last night1 but somehow the spelling1 or being provoked1 or something else1 had put it all out of my head1 so that ,i missed ever so many questions3 and1 to end it all1 ,i have got twelve extra examples to work out at home4 ,i cannot do them2 it is no use trying to do anything on such days40 ,there was a pause of a few moments1 and then his mother said3 8,charley1 you like to read the histories of great soldiers and heroes of old times1 such as ,alexander1 and ,csar1 and ,napoleon80 8,yes1 mother1 very much40 8,well1 tell me1 when do you like ,alexander best--feasting at ,babylon--or in action1 commanding his army1 attacking the enemy1 and gaining victories80 8,i like him best in action1 mother1 of course40 8,true1 we like bravery better than cowardice4 ,when do you like best to read of ,napoleon--imprisoned at ,st4 ,helena1 or at the beginning of his course with difficulties around him1 but rising above them all by his strength of will80 8,oh1 ,i like him best in the beginning1 mother10 said ,charley1 with kindled enthusiasm4 8,but10 said ,mrs4 ,morris1 8suppose he could have marched by a smooth road1 straight from ,france to ,italy40 8,why1 he would not have been a hero at all1 if he had not something to conquer40 8,and the will to conquer it10 added ,mrs4 ,morris with a smile4 8 ,that is just what ,i want you to notice4 ,we cannot imitate1 if we would1 the precise actions of these great conquerors2 but we can copy their energy and strength of purpose1 and our daily life furnishes opportunities to cultivate these qualities40 8,i do not see how1 mother40 8,the life of a little school-boy presents some difficulties--does it not1 ,charley80 8,yes1 mother10 he replied1 glancing ruefully at his ,arithmetic4 8,then there is something to conquer1 and in the conquest you can grow strong and brave4 ,like ,napoleon you can never be a hero1 unless you have some obstacles to overcome40 8,i wish the difficulties would not always come when ,i feel so cross40 8,the crossness is the very first thing you need to conquer4 ,there is a proverb on that subject3 8,he that is slow to anger1 is better than the mighty2 and he that ruleth his spirit1 than he that taketh a city40 8,that is an important thing to remember10 said ,mrs4 ,morris4 8,if we are ever to attain anything great or good in life1 our career of conquest must begin in our own hearts4 ,until all unruly feelings and passions are under control1 our efforts toward knowledge1 or anything else that is worth the winning1 will be of little avail4 ,what people call adverse fate1 is the result of their own faults and failings40 8,do you think one can always help feeling unpleasantly1 mother80 8,i think one can learn either to put down all disagreeable feelings1 or to work bravely on and never mind them4 ,but what lessons do you most frequently have trouble with1 ,charley80 8,oh6 this arithmetic1 mother1 it is the only thing that troubles me40 8,i will write on your book1 two mottos which ,i wish you to look at1 whenever you are fretted1 or discouraged by difficulties4 ,the first is3--#8,every boy may be a hero4' ,and that you may remember what sort of heroism is to be sought1 ,i will add this verse3 #8,he that ruleth his spirit1 is greater than he that taketh a city4'0