,transcribed from an undated copy in ,kensington and ,chelsea local studies1 bound with pamphlets by ,rev4 ,joseph ,phillimore4 ,many thanks to ,kensington and ,chelsea local studies for making it available for transcription4 ,picture3 ,public domain cover ,a ,,sermon4 ,,exodus1 ,,xx4 #ad4 ,thou shalt not commit ,adultery4 ,,nothing is more serious than religion1 and this ,commandment1 which ,god himself hath taught us1 nothing is less seriously considered2 religion teacheth us our duty to our ,creator1 our fellow creatures1 and ourselves1 shewing us the way to escape future misery1 and present trouble1 and to obtain everlasting happiness4 ,in the present ra1 the crime of adultery seems much to prevail1 to the great dishonour of what ,i have just mentioned2 let me implore the attention of this congregation to enquire into the causes of it1 pointing out the fatal and dreadful consequences attendant on this course of living1 and if haply1 we can find them1 eradicate the same1 as an evil apparently spreading in the world1 it becometh the professors of christianity to condemn and discourage it1 as well as the preacher of the ,gospel to intimidate his hearers1 in order to suppress the progress of it in future1 as a crime that must undermine all the social virtues the heart possesses1 and all the real enjoyment and hope of happiness1 here and hereafter4 ,my first endeavour is to find out the origin or cause of this most melancholy evil1 to prevent its present as well as future extent1 and save the souls of many who are at a very critical time just entering into life1 big with the prospect of enjoying every comfort1 innocency and pureness of heart can receive1 till art and delusive sin make their various attacks2 for if we enter into life void of sin1 void of hypocrisy1 and of a deceitful heart1 with minds desirous of being informed with every requisite perfection that adorns and animates the human race1 to perform virtuous and laudable actions1 it is to be acquired at a time when we are supposed to have arrived at mature age1 and reason directs us1 and are judged proper and fit to be accountable only to our conscience for the loss of our souls1 and not owing to ignorance and inattention to those instructive commandments1 we ought to have had engraved and written in our hearts the ten ,commandments1 as the guide of our youth1 and the great comfort of old age2 the world in general wants a thorough reformation1 and all ranks and degrees of people whatever1 and whensoever any societies private or public meet or assemble1 and encourage or countenance such neglect of duty1 and the breaking of any one single commandment of our blessed ,saviour's as trifling or of immaterial consequence1 they ought to be informed of the great danger they stand in here in this life of trial and approbation1 and of the little hopes of futurity1 for scripture assures us ,god can as soon destroy whole nations and cities1 as he has done1 for continuing in wicked and abandoned courses1 as he can take away the life of a single individual1 therefore let the world be warned of and desist from its error1 as it will encrease in the displeasure of the ,almighty1 and let not this cause be advanced1 that any one commits it through inattention1 or having had examples which apparently are not immediately corrected by the hands of providence1 yet ,god knoweth the very secrets of all our hearts4 ,the next reason to be advanced for the origin1 or cause1 ,i am afraid on examination more like to be1 than the preceding one1 therefore weigh them both deeply in your minds1 all ye that this day hear my text and discourse1 and which ever you think most likely to prevail forsake it--,this then1 ,i am fearfully1 wonderfully and sorely afraid is the source1 the disturbed and impure spring from whence the mind is tainted while young1 and very susceptible of receiving the first impressions whether good or bad1 is idolized1 neglected1 or flattered1 and for want of examination either1 from an affectionate father1 guardian1 or conductor1 whether she improved as she grows mature1 in virtue1 steadiness1 discretion1 and understanding the commandments of our blessed ,redeemer1 the full meaning1 the full intent and design of them1 as our fond father wished1 and hoped every one would in whatsoever sphere of life1 either male or female1 moved in1 that they were to be the great foundation from whence every comfort present and future should flow1 and bring salvation at the last great day of universal judgment to our immortal souls3 but many have been taught them insignificantly1 and at a time long ere they come into the world have forgot the great use of them1 thinking they were to be learnt while very young1 and of no consequence to be attended to hereafter1 and that other ornaments and qualification were far more requisite1 and more desirable1 all qualifications and improvements are highly laudable in any one to obtain3 but yet may you all remember the commandments of your ,god are the sole protectors of innocency1 religion and virtue1 and when all others fade they will remain1 and plead for the broken and contrite heart at the throne of grace1 for ,satan misses no opportunity of pursuing the ignorant and neglected1 and is continually on the watch seeking whom he may devour like a ramping and roaring lion greedy of his prey1 laying his snares1 and while young the heart is soon tempted and led astray1 and instantly as the incautious and giddy enter into the large and spacious world surrounded with gaiety and pleasure1 they fall a sacrifice to infamy and disgrace which let succeeding years let ever so quick1 ever so many1 can never entirely wipe away or extinguish4 ,if there are any among you chosen as examples of virtue1 be religious and let not this be laid against you1 who ought to have been examplary in every thing that is praiseworthy behaved quite contrary to morality and decency4 ,think on the fond parent who watches the infant1 with every tender thought1 with every affectionate look1 folds him in his arms1 with transports of the greatest love and joy1 reflecting within himself can ,i but support my child1 with industry will ,i labour night and day1 till it is able to secure comfort to itself1 ,i am determined it shall not want food for its maintenance1 or raiment for its body to protect it from the inclemency of severe and nipping winter1 and every improvement for its mind that is to be acquired2 all these advantages for a beloved child will ,i eagerly seek after1 even suffer adversity rather than it should be neglected1 and a denial of many wonted comforts1 for ,i shall be rewarded by it hereafter when it arrives at years of discretion1 and judgment3 but1 alas after all these warm1 these most pleasing feelings2 the time comes for these virtues and all this affection1 and accomplishments to shine forth1 and to be returned to the aged parent declining with years and almost bending to the brink of the grave1 to bid a long farewell to the world1 and receive the last comforts of worn out and decrepid old age1 this darling object in which all his delight and happiness for many past years had been placed and vainly thought to be innocent1 is led forth1 accused1 and condemned by the great council of the nation of the most horrid crime of adultery2 oh1 miserable state1 lost innocence and fallen virtue truly lamentable1 never to be restored or recovered4 ,having given you two reasons from whence this unhappy sin arises4 ,i shall proceed to inform mankind why ,god instituted marriage1 and prove it the most solemn engagement on this side of the grave concluding with some useful reflections on my text4 ,providence's delight1 pleasure1 and satisfaction1 is1 was1 and ever will be to consult and provide every comfort for man void of sin1 during his short and uncertain passage on earth1 knowing very well when he created him1 he could not live alone1 and it was highly necessary the human race should be spread into different parts of the earth and of ,god's large and spacious dominions in order that the whole earth might be inhabited and that a knowledge of a future state should be delivered down to posterity1 that religion should flourish2 that ,god should be worshipped in spirit and in truth1 that man should have a due sense of his nature1 how wonderful he was in all his works1 that he made the heavens1 and the earth1 and the stars2 and the sun to rule by day1 and the moon by night1 that learning should flourish1 that an eager desire of improvement in every art and science should enter into the mind of man according to the abilities nature had endowed him with2 some men should turn their thoughts to lofty and sublime contemplations1 others to the various sorts of husbandry and agriculture1 and that the earth should be tilled and at a proper season1 man for his earnest endeavours of industry and integrity should be paid for his trouble1 and expence in his respective employment1 whether high or low2 for ,god loveth the good in every situation3 that he should look round about him and be thoroughly satisfied with these blessings1 but all these things could not be accomplished and brought to perfection without man was to have a mate and partner in life2 accordingly1 that nothing should be deficient or wanting for man's real happiness1 ,god1 instituted this holy and solemn ceremony that by living together in pureness and love the world should be peopled1 this was the only means ,providence in his great wisdom and mercy to a fallen generation condescended to prevent sin and secure to himself a peculiar people free from corruption and disobedience1 shewing at the same time how manifestly1 and how greatly he wished the salvation of his beloved children he ordained this commandment1 thou shalt not commit adultery1 for as ,isaac and ,rebecca lived together soberly and quietly and as ,sarah obeyed ,abraham in calling him ,lord1 so ought all ye as long as ye live together1 in sickness and in health1 in adversity as well as prosperity1 till death either the one or the other takes away4 ,yet this sacred1 this wonderful affection and love of our great and fond father1 creator and redeemer is like the rest of his most valuable precepts and institutions in these our sinful days very frequently broken1 therefore be cautious all ye who are about to approach1 the sacred altar of ,god and come not irreverently1 ,i mean either male or female disinterested in your choice having made it either for lucre or splendor1 but pay due attention to what you then hear and are about to perform1 a ceremony1 which must give ,god the greatest pleasure if you adhere to your commandments and as you call upon ,god to witness the truth of your intention1 you ought previously to have revolved serious thoughts in your minds in order not to be negligent or inattentive to what you then hear and ought to understand1 never intending to fulfil your promise faithfully1 you act the most wicked and unfeeling of all human actions1 for whoever breaks this commandment is sure to bring unhappiness and misery on one side1 and most likely destruction and a broken heart on the other2 adultery induceth sinful man to do what is wrong to his fellow creature1 but ,god is not thus to be dealt with1 and without allowing a single moment's thought or reflection1 on future punishment1 for wicked deeds2 by this crime his own feelings must plunge him into trouble and unhappiness in the day time1 and in the calm and serene hour of sleep and refreshment awaken him with the guilt of a wicked conscience1 having disunited by subtility and hypocrisy1 the hearts of those who had been once endeared to each other and knitted together in the bonds of friendship and in the tenderest and dearest ties of affection and love4 ,present time and youth may make sinners inattentive to such wickedness1 but depend upon it1 the serious departing hour and a death bed repentance will renew all these sad and melancholy actions to our view1 when the broken heart is overwhelmed with grief1 and the tongue too feeble to pray to its ,god4 ,we read in ,scripture of one of the best of men having been guilty of this crime1 but ,god suffered him not to go unpunished1 for king ,david very much displeased the ,lord for the treatment of ,uriah the ,hittite for the sake of ,bathsheba1 and besides the crime of adultery he was hypocritical and perfidious and ungrateful1 and for this very purpose it is mentioned so very strong in holy writ1 to prevent in future1 the very best of men in every other respect from committing this crime4 ,david became penitent and sorrowful1 for having displeased the ,lord1 for as his crime was of the highest nature1 it called aloud for his severe vengeance1 and he punished him in the most feeling manner1 for the little child which he had born unto him in which his soul delighted1 the ,lord struck with sickness and it died3 this is scripture evidence of temporal punishment1 but what makes this crime the greater1 it is generally attended with hypocrisy1 for the very person that performs it pretends to be the most sincere friend1 to him1 in whose heart he pierces the most sharp pointed dart1 and secretly bereaves him of that peace of mind the world can never restore1 and that confidence the greatest of all happiness1 which he vainly thought no time or circumstances could ever remove2 remember this1 ,o ye dealers in iniquity1 it was not an open enemy that had done me this dishonor1 but it was even thou my companion1 mine own familiar friend4 ,men are exhorted in scripture to love their wives1 as ,christ loved the church1 and gave himself for her1 and to forsake father and mother1 and cleave to their wives2 as for the female part of the creation1 let them remember1 a virtuous woman is a crown of glory to her husband1 but she that maketh him ashamed is as rottenness in his bones4 ,be wise now therefore1 ,o ye sons and daughters of ,abraham and attend to the proverbs of ,solomon1 the ,lord giveth wisdom and discretion unto thee1 to preserve thee1 from the ways of the evil man1 whose ways are darkness and sorrow1 and from the strange woman1 which flattereth with her words1 and forsaketh the guide of her youth1 and forgetteth the covenant of her ,god2 whose house inclineth unto death1 and her paths unto the dead1 none that go unto her return again1 neither take they hold of the path of life4 ,marriage is reduced by our ,saviour to its original institution1 as it was in the beginning1 before the passions of men had broken through the rules1 which right reason prescribed1 and by polygamy had brought poverty and discord into houses1 and many troubles and wickedness into the world1 to which had been added another evil1 that of frequent divorces4 ,the ,gospel requires of all those who enter into this holy state1 that they pass their days together in sacred love1 fidelity1 and friendship1 and in a joint care of their families4 ,before ,i conclude1 there is one rank of people1 ,i most feelingly address myself unto1 in order to prevent adultery1 and that is1 parents of every condition1 being as such myself1 most affectionately interested for the future race avoiding disgrace1 and ignominy1 as well as the present4 ,my advice and recommendation to one and all1 is to consider the weighty and important characters they support1 and maintain it in dignity and being patterns of virtue themselves1 and governing their children by good examples1 rather than threatenings or punishment1 for the truly affectionate and virtuous parents1 ,god in his great mercy in all probability will grant obedient and affectionate children1 as a recompence1 that will honour them while on earth and reverence their name after their departure1 remembering there is no advantage to speak evil of the dead especially he who hath walked uprightly1 walketh surely1 but he that perverteth the ways of the good shall be known4 ,two qualifications for the mind are incumbent on all parents1 who are capable1 which few are not1 in these our enlightened and improved days1 to learn their children1 at least if not to learn them1 to examine them frequently1 and hear them when instructed1 and particularly on the sabbath day1 that is their prayers and the church catechism1 which may appear to the giddy and inconsiderate an arduous and irksome task1 yet to the truly pious and religious1 must be laudable1 and meet with approbation3 this will be building their posterity on a rock which will not easily be moved1 and when the vices of the age which have ruined1 and ,i am afraid will continue to shorten the lives of many of their cotemporaries1 they will stand fast1 having prayed to ,god night and morning for his peculiar care and protection1 wherefore ,providence having carried them through the many casualties of infancy1 and safely guided them against1 and turned them aside from the perpetual dream and pressing torrent of unruly and raging passions swollen with intemperance and excess1 at a maturer age he will crown them with virtue at the end4 ,children are not looked upon by many parents as the greatest of all blessings1 and as a gift and heritage that cometh of the ,lord1 many treat them not as the first and principal object of man's heart1 remembering what our blessed ,saviour saith1 suffer the little children to come unto me1 and forbid them not1 for of such is the kingdom of heaven1 but train up a child in the way he shall go1 and when he is old1 he will not depart from it2 this is of the highest moment to all parents1 and let them remember1 not to deserve the rebuke and chastisement of that all merciful and most affectionate father of the universe1 who wishes not that the least of all these his little children should perish1 but live1 be happy1 and be immortal4 ,i will now point out a method1 which ,i hope will prevent this crime1 as for man1 let him marry a woman purely for her virtue1 and the woman the hidden man of the heart1 preferring one another1 concealing nothing from each other which concerns mutual affection1 remembering1 we are all imperfect beings1 yet we are the noblest objects of ,god's thoughts1 and each sex as valuable in its respective situation1 in the sight of ,god1 the one as the other1 therefore as ,god was without spot and blemish1 let us imitate him and become as pure as our frail nature will admit of1 let us obey the text1 and turn not from the path of righteousness4 ,we should do all that is in our power for the mutual advantages of one another1 and if either is guilty of any trifling fault1 look upon it as accidental1 and not a designed intention of disobliging1 by which means we shall never have cause to dispute one with another1 for frequently from very trifling circumstances1 inattention first begins1 succeeded with dislike1 and then successive faults on both sides1 the one grows careless and inattentive to the other1 till at last a thorough dislike arises on each side1 and for revenge1 this unhappy sin takes its origin1 attended on one part with all the disgrace and dishonour the female has to boast of1 and on the other1 dissatisfaction and inquietude at home1 from whence1 man becomes restless1 and uneasy in his mind1 for as soon as he is deprived of comfort in his own dwelling1 in vain will he hunt for peace in the whole world besides4--,therefore in order to preserve virtue and chastity1 let all make trial at a proper season of life of this divine blessing1 instituted and ordained by ,providence1 and those that are joined together in ,god's presence1 by obedience in their situation1 let not man have it in his power to put asunder1 but by living together in harmony1 faithfulness and constancy1 in adversity as well as prosperity1 for the school of adversity which we all wish to escape1 is the great trial of our faith and obedience1 and in vain let the sycophant boast at that period1 the unhappiness1 woe1 and misery he hath caused the innocent to experience and frustrate all the mischievous and insinuating attempts of artful and deceitful men1 which1 let them be ever so long secreted from man during his passage here1 at the last great day1 ,god will disclose them1 and the secrets of the libertine and adulterer brought forth to condemn him4 ,thus have ,i endeavoured to prove how highly culpable1 every person is and how daring to presume to break through3 a commandment descended from so great an author2 the disadvantages accompanying this disobedience ,i have already fully described1 and am persuaded1 must be unhappiness continually while we are here1 for reason before mentioned and observed1 but still there is worse punishment and inconveniencies to fear1 and greater sufferings to undergo1 and that is not man's displeasure only1 but ,almighty ,god's just and severe correction1 remembering he will grant his most gracious pardon to all those who ignorantly do wrong and by that means fall into error1 but this is one of his most express commandments1 and he adds1 happy are ye when ye know them1 if ye do them1 but if ye continue to break them1 your future salvation1 will be insecure when you quit this scene of life1 resting assured there is not a greater crime to be committed by man than this1 therefore write it in your hearts1 that perfect obedience to the divine will of our father which is in heaven1 is the only spring1 the only fountain from whence peace in this present world can be obtained1 and the only method of receiving pardon and forgiveness in the world to come1 in those blessed mansions where the pure alone will see ,god4 ,remember this1 ,o ye wives1 as ,st4 ,paul saith to the ,ephesians1 submit yourselves unto your own husbands1 as unto the ,lord1 and let every man in particular1 says the same apostle1 so love his wife as himself1 and the wife that she reverence her husband4 ,be ye followers of ,god as dear children1 and walk in love1 as ,christ also hath loved us1 and hath given himself for us an offering and sacrifice for a sweet smelling favour4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,finis4