,,transcriber',s ,,note3 ,italicized text is surrounded by underscores3 italics4 ,,the ,,babees' ,,book ,illustration3 ,,elizabeth ,,tingle ,,fairbanks ,,the ,,babees' ,,book ,,medieval ,,manners ,,for ,,the ,,young ,,done ,,into ,,modern ,,english ,,from ,,dr4 ,,furnivall',s ,,texts ,,by ,,edith ,,rickert ,illustration ,,new ,,york ,,privately ,,printed ,,christmas #aiac ,,dedicated ,,to ,e4 ,t4 ,f4 ,,and ,e4 ,t4 ,f4 ,a ,matter of ,manners ,in this present day1 when chivalry has achieved at last its perfect bloom1 it is hard to realize that but a scant four centuries ago the children of even the very best families in ,england had to be taught their table manners4 ,today the graces of deportment come by nature to our youth2 and the generation that has produced the immortal ,rollo can not comprehend the rude manners of the 8bela babee10 or beautiful well-born boy of ,queen ,elizabeth's time4 ,o1 tempora6 ,o1 mores6 ,how the times change and manners multiply6 ,but throughout the centuries--on the lengthening road of which we shall plant another milestone presently with feasting and merry-making--good manners and bad have ever gone hand in hand4 ,and ever has he of the mind conscious of virtue looked smugly down on the artless and indifferent vulgarian4 8,the ,babees' ,book10 from which some quaint extracts are here reprinted1 is from old ,dr4 ,furnivall's collection of 8,divers treaties touching the ,manners and ,meals of ,englishmen in former days40 ,it gives a moving picture of the domestic life of the ,middle ,ages4 ,the present translation out of the archaic language of the ,fifteenth ,century into intelligible ,english has been made by ,edith ,rickert1 who seems to have preserved with skill and fidelity the spirit and form of the antiquated original4 ,it will perhaps amuse the good little ,rollo of today to know just how his ancient cousin was taught to behave at table2 and it will interest his elders to observe that the fundamental basis of good manners lay then as now in cleanliness1 self respect1 reverence and consideration for the feelings of others4 ,c4 ,m4 ,f4 ,christmas #aiac4 ,,the ,,babees' ,,book ,,or ,a ,,little ,,report ,,of ,,how ,,young ,,people ,,should ,,behave ,may ,he who formed mankind in ,his image1 support me while ,i turn this treatise out of ,latin into my common language1 that through this little comment all of tender years may receive instruction in courtesy and virtue4 ,facet saith that the ,book of ,courtesy to teach the practice of virtue is the most helpful thing in the world1 so ,i will not shrink from this labour or refuse it2 but for mine own learning will say something that touches upon the matter4 ,but oh1 young babies1 whom blood royal hath endowed with grace1 comeliness1 and high ability1 it is on you ,i call to know this book1 for it were great pity but that ye added to sovereign beauty virtue and good manners4 ,therefore ,i speak to you specially1 and not to old men expert in governance1 decorum1 and honest manners1 for what need is to give pangs to ,hell1 joy to ,heaven1 water to the sea1 or heat to fire already hot8 ,and so1 young babies1 my book is only for your instruction2 wherefore ,i pray that no man reprehend it1 but amend it where it is at fault1 and judge it not1 for your own sake4 ,i seek no other reward but that it may please men and give you some ease in learning4 ,also1 sweet children1 if there be in it any word that ye ken not1 speer while ye may1 and when ye know it1 bear it in mind2 and so by asking you may learn of wise men4 ,also1 think not too strangely that my pen writes in this metre2 for such verse is commonly used1 therefore take heed4 ,and first of all1 ,i think to show how you babies who dwell in households1 should 'have yourselves when ye be set at meat1 and how when men bid you be merry1 you should be ready with lovely1 sweet and benign words4 ,in this1 aid me1 ,o ,mary1 ,mother ,revered2 and eke1 ,o lady mine1 ,facetia1 guide thou my pen and show unto me help4 ,for as ,a is the first of all letters1 so art thou mother of all virtue4 ,have pity1 sweet lady1 of my lack of wit1 and though untaught ,i speak of demeanour1 support my ignorance with thy goodly aid4 ,ah1 8bele babees10 hearken now to my lore4 ,when you enter your lord's place1 say 8,god speed10 and with humble cheer greet all who are there present4 ,do not rush in rudely1 but enter with head up and at an easy pace1 and kneel on one knee only to your lord or sovereign1 whichever he be4 ,if any speak to you at your coming1 look straight at them with a steady eye1 and give good ear to their words while they be speaking2 and see to it with all your might that ye jangle not1 nor let your eyes wander about the house1 but pay heed to what is said1 with blithe visage and diligent spirit4 ,when ye answer1 ye shall be ready with what ye shall say1 and speak 8things fructuous10 and give your reasons smoothly1 in words that are gentle but compendious1 for many words are right tedious to the wise man who listens2 therefore eschew them with diligence4 ,take no seat1 but be ready to stand until you are bidden to sit down4 ,keep your hands and feet at rest2 do not claw your flesh or lean against a post1 in the presence of your lord1 or handle anything belonging to the house4 ,make obeisance to your lord always when you answer2 otherwise1 stand as still as a stone1 unless he speak4 ,look with one accord that if ye see any person better than yourself come in1 ye go backwards anon and give him place1 and in nowise turn your face from him1 as far forth as you may4 ,if you see your lord drinking1 keep silence1 without loud laughter1 chattering1 whispering1 joking or other insolence4 ,if he command you to sit in his presence1 fulfil his wish at once1 and strive not with another about your seat4 ,when you are set down1 tell no dishonest tale2 eschew also1 with all your might1 to be scornful2 and let your cheer be humble1 blithe1 and merry1 not chiding as if ye were ready for a fight4 ,if you perceive that your better is pleased to commend you1 rise up anon and thank him heartily4 ,if you see your lord and lady speaking of household matters1 leave them alone1 for that is courtesy1 and interfere not with their doing2 but be ready1 without feigning1 to do your lord service1 and so shall you get a good name4 ,also1 to fetch him drink1 to hold the light when it is time1 and to do whatsoever ought to be done1 look ye be ready2 for so shall ye full soon get a gentle name in nurture4 ,and if you should ask a boon of ,god1 you can desire no better thing than to be well-mannered4 ,if your lord is pleased to offer you his own cup to drink1 rise when you take it1 and receive it goodly with both your hands1 and when you have done1 proffer it to no man else1 but render it again to him that brought it1 for in nowise should it be used commonly--so wise men teach us4 ,now must ,i tell you shortly what you shall do at noon when your lord goes to his meat4 ,be ready to fetch him clear water1 and some of you hold the towel for him until he has done1 and leave not until he be set down1 and ye have heard grace said4 ,stand before him until he bids you sit1 and be always ready to serve him with clean hands4 ,when ye be set1 keep your own knife clean and sharp1 that so ye may carve honestly your own meat4 ,let courtesy and silence dwell with you1 and tell no foul tales to another4 ,cut your bread with your knife and break it not4 ,lay a clean trencher before you1 and when your pottage is brought1 take your spoon and eat quietly2 and do not leave your spoon in the dish1 ,i pray you4 ,look ye be not caught leaning on the table1 and keep clear of soiling the cloth4 ,do not hang your head over your dish1 or in any wise drink with full mouth4 ,keep from picking your nose1 your teeth1 your nails at meal-time--so we are taught4 ,advise you against taking so muckle meat into your mouth but that ye may right well answer when men speak to you4 ,when ye shall drink1 wipe your mouth clean with a cloth1 and your hands also1 so that you shall not in any way soil the cup1 for then shall none of your companions be loth to drink with you4 ,likewise1 do not touch the salt in the salt-cellar with any meat2 but lay salt honestly on your trencher1 for that is courtesy4 ,do not carry your knife to your mouth with food1 or hold the meat with your hands in any wise2 and also if divers good meats are brought to you1 look that with all courtesy ye assay of each2 and if your dish be taken away with its meat and another brought courtesy demands that ye shall let it go and not ask for it back again4 ,and if strangers be set at table with you1 and savoury meat be brought or sent to you1 make them good cheer with part of it1 for certainly it is not polite when others be present at meat with you1 to keep all that is brought you1 and like churls vouchsafe nothing to others4 ,do not cut your meat like field-men who have such an appetite that they reck not in what wise1 where or when or how ungoodly they hack at their meat2 but1 sweet children1 have always your delight in courtesy and in gentleness1 and eschew boisterousness with all your might4 ,when cheese is brought1 have a clean trencher1 on which with a clean knife ye may cut it2 and in your feeding look ye appear goodly1 and keep your tongue from jangling1 for so indeed shall ye deserve a name for gentleness and good governance1 and always advance yourself in virtue4 ,when the end of the meal is come1 clean your knives1 and look you put them up where they ought to be1 and keep your seat until you have washed1 for so wills honesty4 ,when ye have done1 look then that ye rise up without laughter or joking or boisterous word1 and go to your lord's table1 and there stand1 and pass not from him until grace be said and brought to an end4 ,then some of you should go for water1 some hold the cloth1 some pour upon his hands4 ,other things ,i might commend you to do1 but as my time is brief1 ,i put them not into this little report2 but overpass them1 praying with a spirit that rejoices in this labour1 that no man abuse me2 but where too little is1 let him add more1 and where too much1 let him take away1 for though ,i would1 time forbids that ,i say more4 ,therefore ,i take my leave1 and inscribe this book to every wight whom it may please to correct it4 ,and1 sweet children1 for love of whom ,i write1 ,i beseech you1 with very loving heart1 that you set your delight upon knowing this book2 and may ,almighty ,god that suffered bitter pains1 make you so expert in courtesy that through your nurture and your governance you may advance yourselves to lasting bliss4 ,,of ,,this ,,book #bej ,,copies ,,were ,,printed ,,for ,,thomas ,,nast ,,fairbanks ,,by ,,the ,,marchbanks ,,press ,,in ,,december1 ,,nineteen ,,hundred ,,and ,,thirteen