,note3 ,images of the original pages are available through ,internet ,archive4 ,see https3_/_/archive4org_/details_/cu#caibd ajaiefiga ,transcriber's note3 ,text enclosed by underscores is in italics 7italics74 ,,seneca',s ,,morals ,,of ,a ,,happy ,,life1 ,,benefits1 ,,anger ,,and ,,clemency4 ,translated by ,,sir ,,roger ,l',,estrange4 ,new ,edition4 ,chicago3 ,belford1 ,clarke ,co41 #ahhb4 ,belford 4 ,clarke ,co41 #ahha4 ,printed and ,bound by ,donohue ,henneberry4 ,chicago1 ,ill4 ,,to ,,the ,,reader4 ,it has been a long time my thought to turn ,,seneca into ,english2 but whether as a translation or an abstract1 was the question4 ,a translation1 ,i perceive1 it must not be1 at last1 for several reasons4 ,first1 it is a thing already done to my hand1 and of above sixty years' standing2 though with as little credit1 perhaps1 to the ,author1 as satisfaction to the ,reader4 ,secondly1 ,there is a great deal in him1 that is wholly foreign to my business3 as his philosophical treatises of ,meteors1 ,earthquakes1 the ,original of ,rivers1 several frivolous disputes betwixt the ,epicureans and the ,stoics1 etc41 to say nothing of his frequent repetitions of the same thing again in other words1 7wherein he very handsomely excuses himself1 by saying1 8,that he does but inculcate over and over the same counsels to those that over and over commit the same faults407,thirdly1 ,his excellency consists rather in a rhapsody of divine and extraordinary hints and notions1 than in any regulated method of discourse2 so that to take him as he lies1 and so to go through with him1 were utterly inconsistent with the order and brevity which ,i propound2 my principal design1 being only to digest1 and commonplace his ,morals1 in such sort1 that any man1 upon occasion1 may know where to find them4 ,and ,i have kept myself so close to this proposition1 that ,i have reduced all his scattered ,ethics to their proper heads1 without any additions of my own1 more than of absolute necessity for the tacking of them together4 ,some other man in my place would perhaps make you twenty apologies for his want of skill and address1 in governing this affair2 but these are formal and pedantic fooleries1 as if any man that first takes himself for a coxcomb in his own heart1 would afterwards make himself one in print too4 ,this ,abstract1 such as it is1 you are extremely welcome to2 and ,i am sorry it is no better1 both for your sakes and my own1 for if it were written up to the spirit of the original1 it would be one of the most valuable presents that ever any private man bestowed upon the public2 and this1 too1 even in the judgment of both parties1 as well ,christian as ,heathen1 of which in its due place4 ,next to my choice of the ,author and of the subject1 together with the manner of handling it1 ,i have likewise had some regard1 in this publication1 to the timing of it1 and to the preference of this topic of ,benefits above all others1 for the groundwork of my first essay4 ,we are fallen into an age of vain philosophy 7as the holy apostle calls it7 and so desperately overrun with ,drolls and ,sceptics1 that there is hardly any thing so certain or so sacred1 that is not exposed to question and contempt1 insomuch1 that betwixt the hypocrite and the ,atheist1 the very foundations of religion and good manners are shaken1 and the two tables of the ,decalogue dashed to pieces the one against the other2 the laws of government are subjected to the fancies of the vulgar2 public authority to the private passions and opinions of the people2 and the supernatural motions of grace confounded with the common dictates of nature4 ,in this state of corruption1 who so fit as a good honest ,christian ,pagan for a moderator among ,pagan ,christians8 ,to pass now from the general scope of the whole work to the particular argument of the first part of it1 ,i pitched upon the theme of ,benefits1 ,gratitude1 and ,ingratitude1 to begin withal1 as an earnest of the rest1 and a lecture expressly calculated for the unthankfulness of these times2 the foulest undoubtedly1 and the most execrable of all others1 since the very apostasy of the angels3 nay1 if ,i durst but suppose a possibility of mercy for those damned spirits1 and that they might ever be taken into favor again1 my charity would hope even better for them than we have found from some of our revolters1 and that they would so behave themselves as not to incur a second forfeiture4 ,and to carry the resemblance yet one point farther1 they do both of them agree in an implacable malice against those of their fellows that keep their stations4 ,but1 alas6 what could ,ingratitude do without ,hypocrisy1 the inseparable companion of it1 and1 in effect1 the bolder and blacker devil of the two8 for ,lucifer himself never had the face to lift up his eyes to heaven1 and talk to the ,,almighty at the familiar rate of our pretended patriots and zealots1 and at the same time to make him party to a cheat4 ,it is not for nothing that the ,holy ,ghost has denounced so many woes1 and redoubled so many cautions against hypocrites2 plainly intimating at once how dangerous a snare they are to mankind1 and no less odious to ,god himself2 which is sufficiently denoted in the force of that dreadful expression1 ,and your portion shall be with hypocrites4 ,you will find in the holy scriptures 7as ,i have formerly observed7 that ,god has given the grace of repentance to persecutors1 idolaters1 murderers1 adulterers1 etc41 but ,i am mistaken if the whole ,bible affords you any one instance of a converted hypocrite4 ,to descend now from truth itself to our own experience have we not seen1 even in our days1 a most pious 7and almost faultless7 ,prince brought to the scaffold by his own subjects8 ,the most glorious constitution upon the face of the earth1 both ecclesiastical and civil1 torn to pieces and dissolved8 ,the happiest people under the sun enslaved8 ,our temples sacrilegiously profaned1 and a license given to all sorts of heresy and outrage8 ,and by whom but by a race of hypocrites8 who had nothing in their mouths all this while but the purity of the gospel1 the honor of the king1 and the liberty of the people1 assisted underhand with defamatory papers1 which were levelled at the king himself through the sides of his most faithful ministers4 ,this ,,project succeeded so well against one government1 that it is now again set afoot against another2 and by some of the very actors too in that ,,tragedy1 and after a most gracious pardon also1 when ,providence had laid their necks and their fortunes at his majesty's feet4 ,it is a wonderful thing that libels and libellers1 the most infamous of practices and of men2 the most unmanly sneaking methods and instruments of mischief2 the very bane of human society1 and the plague of all governments2 it is a wonderful thing 7,i say7 that these engines and engineers should ever find credit enough in the world to engage a party2 but it would be still more wonderful if the same trick should pass twice upon the same people1 in the same age1 and from the same ,,impostors4 ,this contemplation has carried me a little out of my way1 but it has at length brought me to my text again1 for there is in the bottom of it the highest opposition imaginable of ingratitude and obligation4 ,the reader will1 in some measure1 be able to judge by this taste what he is farther to expect2 that is to say1 as to the cast of my design1 and the simplicity of the style and dress2 for that will still be the same1 only accompanied with variety of matter4 ,whether it pleases the world or no1 the care is taken2 and yet ,i could wish that it might be as delightful to others upon the perusal1 as it has been to me in the speculation4 ,next to the gospel itself1 ,i do look upon it as the most sovereign remedy against the miseries of human nature3 and ,i have ever found it so1 in all the injuries and distresses of an unfortunate life4 ,you may read more of him1 if you please1 in the ,appendix1 which ,i have here subjoined to this ,preface1 concerning the authority of his writings1 and the circumstances of his life2 as ,i have extracted them out of ,lipsius4 ,,of ,,seneca',s ,,writings4 ,it appears that our author had among the ancients three professed enemies4 ,in the first place ,caligula1 who called his writings1 sand without lime2 alluding to the starts of his fancy1 and the incoherence of his sentences4 ,but ,seneca was never the worse for the censure of a person that propounded even the suppressing of ,homer himself2 and of casting ,virgil and ,livy out of all public libraries4 ,the next was ,fabius1 who taxes him for being too bold with the eloquence of former times1 and failing in that point himself2 and likewise for being too quaint and finical in his expressions2 which ,tacitus imputes1 in part to the freedom of his own particular inclination1 and partly to the humor of the times4 ,he is also charged by ,fabius as no profound philosopher2 but with all this1 he allows him to be a man very studious and learned1 of great wit and invention1 and well read in all sorts of literature2 a severe reprover of vice2 most divinely sententious2 and well worth the reading1 if it were only for his morals2 adding1 that if his judgment had been answerable to his wit1 it had been much the more for his reputation2 but he wrote whatever came next2 so that ,i would advise the reader 7says he7 to distinguish where he himself did not1 for there are many things in him1 not only to be approved1 but admired2 and it was great pity that he that could do what he would1 should not always make the best choice4 ,his third adversary is ,agellius1 who falls upon him for his style1 and a kind of tinkling in his sentences1 but yet commends him for his piety and good counsels4 ,on the other side1 ,columela calls him a man of excellent wit and learning2 ,pliny1 the prince of erudition2 ,tacitus gives him the character of a wise man1 and a fit tutor for a prince2 ,dio reports him to have been the greatest man of his age4 ,of those pieces of his that are extant1 we shall not need to give any particular account3 and of those that are lost1 we cannot1 any farther than by lights to them from other authors1 as we find them cited much to his honor2 and we may reasonably compute them to be the greater part of his works4 ,that he wrote several poems in his banishment1 may be gathered partly from himself1 but more expressly out of ,tacitus1 who says1 8that he was reproached with his applying himself to poetry1 after he saw that ,nero took pleasure in it1 out of a design to curry favor40 ,st4 ,jerome refers to a discourse of his concerning matrimony4 ,lactantius takes notice of his history1 and his books of ,moralities3 ,st4 ,augustine quotes some passages of his out of a book of ,superstition2 some references we meet with to his books of ,exhortations3 ,fabius makes mention of his ,dialogues3 and he himself speaks of a treatise of his own concerning ,earthquakes1 which he wrote in his youth1 but the opinion of an epistolary correspondence that he had with ,st4 ,paul1 does not seem to have much color for it4 ,some few fragments1 however1 of those books of his that are wanting1 are yet preserved in the writings of other eminent authors1 sufficient to show the world how great a treasure they have lost by the excellency of that little that is left4 ,seneca1 says ,lactantius1 that was the sharpest of all the ,stoics1 how great a veneration has he for the ,almighty6 as for instance1 discoursing of a violent death2 8,do you not understand80 says he1 8the majesty and the authority of your ,judge2 he is the supreme ,governor of heaven and earth1 and the ,god of all your gods2 and it is upon him that all those powers depend which we worship for deities40 ,moreover1 in his ,exhortations1 8,this ,god10 says he1 8when he laid the foundations of the universe1 and entered upon the greatest and the best work in nature1 in the ordering of the government of the world1 though he was himself ,all in all1 yet he substituted other subordinate ministers1 as the servants of his commands40 ,and how many other things does this ,heathen speak of ,god like one of us6 ,which the acute ,seneca1 says ,lactantius again1 saw in his ,exhortations4 8,we10 says he1 8have our dependence elsewhere1 and should look up to that power1 to which we are indebted for all that we can pretend to that is good40 ,and again1 ,seneca says very well in his ,morals1 8,they worship the images of the ,god10 says he1 8kneel to them1 and adore them1 they are hardly ever from them1 either plying them with offerings or sacrifices1 and yet1 after all this reverence to the image1 they have no regard at all to the workman that made it40 ,lactantius again4 8,an invective10 says ,seneca in his ,exhortations1 8is the masterpiece of most of our philosophers2 and if they fall upon the subject of avarice1 lust1 ambition1 they lash out into such excess of bitterness1 as if railing were a mark of their profession4 ,they make me think of gallipots in an apothecary's shop1 that have remedies without and poison within40 ,lactantius still4 8,he that would know all things1 let him read ,seneca2 the most lively describer of public vices and manners1 and the smartest reprehender of them40 ,and again2 as ,seneca has it in the books of ,moral ,philosophy1 8,he is the brave man1 whose splendor and authority is the least part of his greatness1 that can look death in the face without trouble or surprise2 who1 if his body were to be broken upon the wheel1 or melted lead to be poured down his throat1 would be less concerned for the pain itself1 than for the dignity of bearing it40 ,let no man1 says ,lactantius1 think himself the safer in his wickedness for want of a witness2 for ,god is omniscient1 and to him nothing can be a secret4 ,it is an admirable sentence that ,seneca concludes his ,exhortations withal3 8,god10 says he1 8is a great1 7,i know not what71 an incomprehensible ,power2 it is to him that we live1 and to him that we must approve ourselves4 ,what does it avail us that our consciences are hidden from men1 when our souls lie open to ,god80 ,what could a ,christian have spoken more to the purpose in this case than this divine ,pagan8 ,and in the beginning of the same work1 says ,seneca1 8,what is it that we do8 to what end is it to stand contriving1 and to hide ourselves8 ,we are under a guard1 and there is no escaping from our keeper4 ,one man may be parted from another by travel1 death1 sickness2 but there is no dividing us from ourselves4 ,it is to no purpose to creep into a corner where nobody shall see us4 ,ridiculous madness6 ,make it the case1 that no mortal eye could find us out1 he that has a conscience gives evidence against himself40 ,it is truly and excellently spoken of ,seneca1 says ,lactantius1 once again2 8,consider10 says he 8the majesty1 the goodness1 and the venerable mercies of the ,almighty2 a friend that is always at hand4 ,what delight can it be to him the slaughter of innocent creatures or the worship of bloody sacrifices8 ,let us purge our minds1 and lead virtuous and honest lives4 ,his pleasure lies not in the magnificence of temples made with stone1 but in the pity and devotion of consecrated hearts40 ,in the book that ,seneca wrote against ,superstitions1 treating of images1 says ,st4 ,austin1 he writes thus3 8,they represent the holy1 the immortal1 and the inviolable gods in the basest matter1 and without life or motion2 in the forms of men1 beasts1 fishes1 some of mixed bodies1 and those figures they call deities1 which1 if they were but animated1 would affright a man1 and pass for monsters40 ,and then1 a little farther1 treating of ,natural ,theology1 after citing the opinions of philosophers1 he supposes an objection against himself3 8,somebody will perhaps ask me1 would you have me then to believe the heavens and the earth to be gods1 and some of them above the moon1 and some below it8 ,shall ,i ever be brought to the opinion of ,plato1 or of ,strabo the ,peripatetic8 the one of which would have ,god to be without a body1 and the other without a mind40 ,to which he replies1 8,and do you give more credit then to the dreams of ,t4 ,tatius1 ,romulus1 ,hostilius1 who caused1 among other deities1 even ,fear and ,paleness to be worshipped8 the vilest of human affections2 the one being the motion of an affrighted mind1 and the other not so much the disease as the color of a disordered body4 ,are these the deities that you will rather put your faith in1 and place in the heavens80 ,and speaking afterward of their abominable customs1 with what liberty does he write6 8,one10 says he1 8out of zeal1 makes himself an eunuch1 another lances his arms2 if this be the way to please their gods1 what should a man do if he had a mind to anger them8 or1 if this be the way to please them1 they do certainly deserve not to be worshipped at all4 ,what a frenzy is this to imagine that the gods can be delighted with such cruelties1 as even the worst of men would make a conscience to inflict6 ,the most barbarous and notorious of tyrants1 some of them have perhaps done it themselves1 or ordered the tearing of men to pieces by others2 but they never went so far as to command any man to torment himself4 ,we have heard of those that have suffered castration to gratify the lust of their imperious masters1 but never any man that was forced to act it upon himself4 ,they murder themselves in their very temples1 and their prayers are offered up in blood4 ,whosoever shall but observe what they do1 and what they suffer1 will find it so misbecoming an honest man1 so unworthy of a freeman1 and so inconsistent with the action of a man in his wits1 that he must conclude them all to be mad1 if it were not that there are so many of them2 for only their number is their justification and their protection40 ,when he comes to reflect1 says ,st4 ,augustine1 upon those passages which he himself had seen in the ,capitol1 he censures them with liberty and resolution2 and no man will believe that such things would be done unless in mockery or frenzy4 ,what lamentation is there in the ,egyptian sacrifices for the loss of ,osiris8 and then what joy for the finding of him again8 ,which he makes himself sport with2 for in truth it is all a fiction2 and yet those people that neither lost any thing nor found any thing1 must express their sorrows and their rejoicings to the highest degree4 8,but there is only a certain time10 says he1 8for this freak1 and once in a year people may be allowed to be mad4 ,i came into the ,capitol10 says ,seneca1 8where the several deities had their several servants and attendants1 their lictors1 their dressers1 and all in posture and action1 as if they were executing their offices2 some to hold the glass1 others to comb out ,juno's and ,minerva's hair2 one to tell ,jupiter what o'clock it is2 some lasses there are that sit gazing upon the image1 and fancy ,jupiter has a kindness for them4 ,all these things10 says ,seneca1 a while after1 8a wise man will observe for the law's sake more than for the gods2 and all this rabble of deities1 which the superstition of many ages has gathered together1 we are in such manner to adore1 as to consider the worship to be rather matter of custom than of conscience40 ,whereupon ,st4 ,augustine observes1 that this illustrious senator worshipped what he reproved1 acted what he disliked1 and adored what he condemned4 ,,seneca',s ,,life ,,and ,,death4 ,it has been an ancient custom to record the actions and the writings of eminent men1 with all their circumstances1 and it is but a right that we owe to the memory of our famous author4 ,seneca was by birth a ,spaniard of ,cordova1 7a ,roman colony of great fame and antiquity47 ,he was of the family of ,annus1 of the order of knights2 and the father1 ,lucius ,annus ,seneca1 was distinguished from the son1 by the name of the ,orator4 ,his mother's name was ,helvia1 a woman of excellent qualities4 ,his father came to ,rome in the time of ,augustus1 and his wife and children soon followed him1 our ,seneca yet being in his infancy4 ,there were three brothers of them1 and never a sister4 ,marcus ,annus ,novatus1 ,lucius ,annus ,seneca1 and ,lucius ,annus ,mela2 the first of these changed his name for ,junius ,gallio1 who adopted him2 to him it was that he dedicated his treatise of ,,anger1 whom he calls ,novatus too2 and he also dedicated his discourse of a ,happy ,life to his brother ,gallio4 ,the youngest brother 7,annus ,mela7 was ,lucan's father4 ,seneca was about twenty years of age in the fifth year of ,tiberius1 when the ,jews were expelled from ,rome4 ,his father trained him up to rhetoric1 but his genius led him rather to philosophy2 and he applied his wit to morality and virtue4 ,he was a great hearer of the celebrated men of those times2 as ,attalus1 ,sotion1 ,papirius1 ,fabianus1 7of whom he makes often mention17 and he was much an admirer also of ,demetrius the ,cynic1 whose conversation he had afterwards in the ,court1 and both at home also and abroad1 for they often travelled together4 ,his father was not at all pleased with his humor of philosophy1 but forced him upon the law1 and for a while he practiced pleading4 ,after which he would needs put him upon public employment3 and he came first to be qustor1 then prtor1 and some will have it that he was chosen consul2 but this is doubtful4 ,seneca finding that he had ill offices done him at court1 and that ,nero's favor began to cool1 he went directly and resolutely to ,nero1 with an offer to refund all that he had gotten1 which ,nero would not receive2 but however1 from that time he changed his course of life1 received few visits1 shunned company1 went little abroad2 still pretending to be kept at home1 either by indisposition or by his study4 ,being ,nero's tutor and governor1 all things were well so long as ,nero followed his counsel4 ,his two chief favorites were ,burrhus and ,seneca1 who were both of them excellent in their ways3 ,burrhus1 in his care of military affairs1 and severity of discipline2 ,seneca for his precepts and good advice in the matter of eloquence1 and the gentleness of an honest mind2 assisting one another1 in that slippery age of the prince 7says ,tacitus7 to invite him1 by the allowance of lawful pleasures1 to the love of virtue4 ,seneca had two wives2 the name of the first is not mentioned2 his second was ,paulina1 whom he often speaks of with great passion4 ,by the former he had his son ,marcus4 ,in the first year of ,claudius he was banished into ,corsica1 when ,julia1 the daughter of ,germanicus1 was accused by ,messalina of adultery and banished too1 ,seneca being charged as one of the adulterers4 ,after a matter of eight years or upwards in exile1 he was called back1 and as much in favor again as ever4 ,his estate was partly patrimonial1 but the greatest part of it was the bounty of his prince4 ,his gardens1 villas1 lands1 possessions1 and incredible sums of money1 are agreed upon at all hands2 which drew an envy upon him4 ,dio reports him to have had #bej1jjjl4 sterling at interest in ,britanny alone1 which he called in all at a sum4 ,the ,court itself could not bring him to flattery2 and for his piety1 submission1 and virtue1 the practice of his whole life witnesses for him4 8,so soon10 says he1 8as the candle is taken away1 my wife1 that knows my custom1 lies still1 without a word speaking1 and then do ,i recollect all that ,i have said or done that day1 and take myself to shrift4 ,and why should ,i conceal or reserve anything1 or make any scruple of inquiring into my errors1 when ,i can say to myself1 ,do so no more1 and for this once ,i will forgive thee80 ,and again1 what can be more pious and self-denying than this passage1 in one of his epistles8 8,believe me now1 when ,i tell you the very bottom of my soul3 in all the difficulties and crosses of my life1 this is my consideration--since it is ,god's will1 ,i do not only obey1 but assent to it2 nor do ,i comply out of necessity1 but inclination40 8,here follows now10 says ,tacitus1 8the death of ,seneca1 to ,nero's great satisfaction2 not so much for any pregnant proof against him that he was of ,piso's conspiracy2 but ,nero was resolved to do that by the sword which he could not effect by poison4 ,for it is reported1 that ,nero had corrupted ,cleonicus 7a freeman of ,seneca's7 to give his master poison1 which did not succeed4 ,whether that the servant had discovered it to his master1 or that ,seneca1 by his own caution and jealousy1 had avoided it2 for he lived only upon a simple diet1 as the fruits of the earth1 and his drink was most commonly river water4 8,natalis1 it seems1 was sent upon a visit to him 7being indisposed7 with a complaint that he would not let ,piso come at him2 and advising him to the continuance of their friendship and acquaintance as formerly4 ,to whom ,seneca made answer1 that frequent meetings and conferences betwixt them could do neither of them any good2 but that he had a great interest in ,piso's welfare4 ,hereupon ,granius ,silvanus 7a captain of the guard7 was sent to examine ,seneca upon the discourse that passed betwixt him and ,natalis1 and to return his answer4 ,seneca1 either by chance or upon purpose1 came that day from ,campania1 to a villa of his own1 within four miles of the city2 and thither the officer went the next evening1 and beset the place4 ,he found ,seneca at supper with his wife ,paulina1 and two of his friends2 and gave him immediately an account of his commission4 ,seneca told him1 that it was true that ,natalis had been with him in ,piso's name1 with a complaint that ,piso could not be admitted to see him2 and that he excused himself by reason of his want of health1 and his desires to be quiet and private2 and that he had no reason to prefer another man's welfare before his own4 ,csar himself1 he said1 knew very well that he was not a man of compliment1 having received more proofs of his freedom than of his flattery4 ,this answer of ,seneca's was delivered to ,csar in the presence of ,poppa1 and ,tigellinus1 the intimate confidants of this barbarous prince3 and ,nero asked him whether he could gather anything from ,seneca as if he intended to make himself away8 ,the tribune's answer was1 that he did not find him one jot moved with the message3 but that he went on roundly with his tale1 and never so much as changed countenance for the matter4 ,go back to him then1 says ,nero1 and tell him1 that he is condemned to die4 ,fabius ,rusticus delivers it1 that the tribune did not return the same way he came1 but went aside to ,fenius 7a captain of that name7 and told him ,csar's orders1 asking his advice whether he should obey them or not2 who bade him by all means to do as he was ordered4 ,which want of resolution was fatal to them all2 for ,silvanus also1 that was one of the conspirators1 assisted now to serve and to increase those crimes1 which he had before complotted to revenge4 ,and yet he did not think fit to appear himself in the business1 but sent a centurion to ,seneca to tell him his doom4 8,seneca1 without any surprise or disorder1 calls for his will2 which being refused him by the officer1 he turned to his friends1 and told them that since he was not permitted to requite them as they deserved1 he was yet at liberty to bequeath them the thing of all others that he esteemed the most1 that is1 the image of his life2 which should give them the reputation both of constancy and friendship1 if they would but imitate it2 exhorting them to a firmness of mind1 sometimes by good counsel1 otherwhile by reprehension1 as the occasion required4 ,where1 says he1 is all your philosophy now8 all your premeditated resolutions against the violences of ,fortune8 ,is there any man so ignorant of ,nero's cruelty1 as to expect1 after the murder of his mother and his brother1 that he should ever spare the life of his governor and tutor8 ,after some general expressions to this purpose1 he took his wife in his arms1 and having somewhat fortified her against the present calamity1 he besought and conjured her to moderate her sorrows1 and betake herself to the contemplations and comforts of a virtuous life2 which would be a fair and ample consolation to her for the loss of her husband4 ,paulina1 on the other side1 tells him her determination to bear him company1 and wills the executioner to do his office4 ,well1 says ,seneca1 if after the sweetness of life1 as ,i have represented it to thee1 thou hadst rather entertain an honorable death1 ,i shall not envy thy example2 consulting1 at the same time1 the fame of the person he loved1 and his own tenderness1 for fear of the injuries that might attend her when he was gone4 ,our resolution1 says he1 in this generous act1 may be equal1 but thine will be the greater reputation4 ,after this the veins of both their arms were opened at the same time4 ,seneca did not bleed so freely1 his spirits being wasted with age and a thin diet2 so that he was forced to cut the veins of his thighs and elsewhere1 to hasten his dispatch4 ,when he was far spent1 and almost sinking under his torments1 he desired his wife to remove into another chamber1 lest the agonies of the one might work upon the courage of the other4 ,his eloquence continued to the last1 as appears by the excellent things he delivered at his death2 which being taken in writing from his own mouth1 and published in his own words1 ,i shall not presume to deliver them in any other4 ,nero1 in the meantime1 who had no particular spite to ,paulina1 gave orders to prevent her death1 for fear his cruelty should grow more and more insupportable and odious4 ,whereupon the soldiers gave all freedom and encouragement to her servants to bind up her wounds1 and stop the blood1 which they did accordingly2 but whether she was sensible of it or not is a question4 ,for among the common people1 who are apt to judge the worst1 there were some of opinion1 that as long as she despaired of ,nero's mercy1 she seemed to court the glory of dying with her husband for company2 but that upon the likelihood of better quarter she was prevailed upon to outlive him2 and so for some years she did survive him1 with all piety and respect to his memory2 but so miserably pale and wan1 that everybody might read the loss of her blood and spirits in her very countenance4 8,seneca finding his death slow and lingering1 desires ,statius ,annus 7his old friend and physician7 to give him a dose of poison1 which he had provided beforehand1 being the same preparation which was appointed for capital offenders in ,athens4 ,this was brought him1 and he drank it up1 but to little purpose2 for his body was already chilled1 and bound up against the force of it4 ,he went at last into a hot bath1 and sprinkling some of his servants that were next him1 this1 says he1 is an oblation to ,jupiter the deliverer4 ,the fume of the bath soon dispatched him1 and his body was burnt1 without any funeral solemnity1 as he had directed in his testament3 though this will of his was made in the height of his prosperity and power4 ,there was a rumor that ,subrius ,flavius1 in a private consultation with the centurions1 had taken up this following resolution1 7and that ,seneca himself was no stranger to it7 that is to say1 that after ,nero should have been slain by the help of ,piso1 ,piso himself should have been killed too2 and the empire delivered up to ,seneca1 as one that well deserved it1 for his integrity and virtue40 ,,seneca ,,of ,,benefits4 ,,chapter ,i4 ,,of ,,benefits ,,in ,,general4 ,it is1 perhaps1 one of the most pernicious errors of a rash and inconsiderate life1 the common ignorance of the world in the matter of exchanging benefits4 ,and this arises from a mistake1 partly in the person that we would oblige1 and partly in the thing itself4 ,to begin with the latter3 8,a benefit is a good office1 done with intention and judgment20 that is to say1 with a due regard to all the circumstances of what1 how1 why1 when1 where1 to whom1 how much1 and the like2 or otherwise3 8,it is a voluntary and benevolent action that delights the giver in the comfort it brings to the receiver40 ,it will be hard to draw this subject1 either into method or compass3 the one1 because of the infinite variety and complication of cases2 the other1 by reason of the large extent of it3 for the whole business 7almost7 of mankind in society falls under this head2 the duties of kings and subjects1 husbands and wives1 parents and children1 masters and servants1 natives and strangers1 high and low1 rich and poor1 strong and weak1 friends and enemies4 ,the very meditation of it breeds good blood and generous thoughts2 and instructs us in honor1 humanity1 friendship1 piety1 gratitude1 prudence1 and justice4 ,in short1 the art and skill of conferring benefits is1 of all human duties1 the most absolutely necessary to the well-being1 both of reasonable nature1 and of every individual2 as the very cement of all communities1 and the blessing of particulars4 ,he that does good to another man does good also to himself2 not only in the consequence1 but in the very act of doing it2 for the conscience of well-doing is an ample reward4 ,of benefits in general1 there are several sorts2 as necessary1 profitable1 and delightful4 ,some things there are1 without which we cannot live2 others without which we ought not to live2 and some1 again1 without which we will not live4 ,in the first rank are those which deliver us from capital dangers1 or apprehensions of death3 and the favor is rated according to the hazard2 for the greater the extremity1 the greater seems the obligation4 ,the next is a case wherein we may indeed live1 but we had better die2 as in the question of liberty1 modesty1 and a good conscience4 ,in the third place1 follow those things which custom1 use1 affinity1 and acquaintance1 have made dear to us2 as husbands1 wives1 children1 friends1 etc41 which an honest man will preserve at his utmost peril4 ,of things profitable there is a large field1 as money1 honor1 etc41 to which might be added1 matters of superfluity and pleasure4 ,but we shall open a way to the circumstances of a benefit by some previous and more general deliberations upon the thing itself4 ,,chapter ,,ii4 ,,several ,,sorts ,,of ,,benefits4 ,we shall divide benefits into absolute and vulgar2 the one appertaining to good life1 the other is only matter of commerce4 ,the former are the more excellent1 because they can never be made void2 whereas all material benefits are tossed back and forward1 and change their master4 ,there are some offices that look like benefits1 but are only desirable conveniences1 as wealth1 etc41 and these a wicked man may receive from a good1 or a good man from an evil4 ,others1 again1 that bear the face of injuries1 which are only benefits ill taken2 as cutting1 lancing1 burning1 under the hand of a surgeon4 ,the greatest benefits of all are those of good education1 which we receive from our parents1 either in the state of ignorance or perverseness2 as1 their care and tenderness in our infancy2 their discipline in our childhood1 to keep us to our duties by fear2 and1 if fair means will not do1 their proceeding afterwards to severity and punishment1 without which we should never have come to good4 ,there are matters of great value1 many times1 that are but of small price2 as instructions from a tutor1 medicine from a physician1 etc4 ,and there are small matters again1 which are of great consideration to us3 the gift is small1 and the consequence great2 as a cup of cold water in a time of need may save a man's life4 ,some things are of great moment to the giver1 others to the receiver3 one man gives me a house2 another snatches me out when it is falling upon my head2 one gives me an estate2 another takes me out of the fire1 or casts me out a rope when ,i am sinking4 ,some good offices we do to friends1 others to strangers2 but those are the noblest that we do without pre-desert4 ,there is an obligation of bounty1 and an obligation of charity2 this in case of necessity1 and that in point of convenience4 ,some benefits are common1 others are personal2 as if a prince 7out of pure grace7 grant a privilege to a city1 the obligation lies upon the community1 and only upon every individual as a part of the whole2 but if it be done particularly for my sake1 then am ,i singly the debtor for it4 ,the cherishing of strangers is one of the duties of hospitality1 and exercises itself in the relief and protection of the distressed4 ,there are benefits of good counsel1 reputation1 life1 fortune1 liberty1 health1 nay1 and of superfluity and pleasure4 ,one man obliges me out of his pocket2 another gives me matter of ornament and curiosity2 a third1 consolation4 ,to say nothing of negative benefits2 for there are that reckon it an obligation if they do a body no hurt2 and place it to account1 as if they saved a man1 when they do not undo him4 ,to shut up all in one word2 as benevolence is the most sociable of all virtues1 so it is of the largest extent2 for there is not any man1 either so great or so little1 but he is yet capable of giving and of receiving benefits4 ,,chapter ,,iii4 ,a ,,son ,,may ,,oblige ,,his ,,father1 ,,and ,a ,,servant ,,his ,,master4 ,the question is 7in the first place7 whether it may not be possible for a father to owe more to a son1 in other respects1 than the son owes to his father for his being8 ,that many sons are both greater and better than their fathers1 there is no question2 as there are many other things that derive their beings from others1 which yet are far greater than their original4 ,is not the tree larger than the seed8 the river than the fountain8 ,the foundation of all things lies hid1 and the superstructure obscures it4 ,if ,i owe all to my father1 because he gives me life1 ,i may owe as much to a physician that saved his life2 for if my father had not been cured1 ,i had never been begotten3 or1 if ,i stand indebted for all that ,i am to my beginning1 my acknowledgment must run back to the very original of all human beings4 ,my father gave me the benefit of life3 which he had never done1 if his father had not first given it to him4 ,he gave me life1 not knowing to whom2 and when ,i was in a condition neither to feel death nor to fear it4 ,that is the great benefit1 to give life to one that knows how to use it1 and that is capable of the apprehension of death4 ,it is true1 that without a father ,i could never have had a being2 and so1 without a nurse1 that being had never been improved3 but ,i do not therefore owe my virtue either to my nativity or to her that gave me suck4 ,the generation of me was the last part of the benefit3 for to live is common with brutes2 but to live well is the main business2 and that virtue is all my own1 saving what ,i drew from my education4 ,it does not follow that the first benefit must be the greatest1 because without the first the greatest could never have been4 ,the father gives life to the son but once2 but if the son save the father's life often1 though he do but his duty1 it is yet a greater benefit4 ,and again1 the benefit that a man receives is the greater1 the more he needs it2 but the living has more need of life than he that is not yet born2 so that the father receives a greater benefit in the continuance of his life than the son in the beginning of it4 ,what if a son deliver his father from the rack2 or1 which is more1 lay himself down in his place8 ,the giving of him a being was but the office of a father2 a simple act1 a benefit given at a venture3 beside that1 he had a participant in it1 and a regard to his family4 ,he gave only a single life1 and he received a happy one4 ,my mother brought me into the world naked1 exposed1 and void of reason2 but my reputation and my fortune are advanced by my virtue4 ,scipio 7as yet in his minority7 rescued his father in a battle with ,hannibal1 and afterward from the practices and persecution of a powerful faction2 covering him with consulary honors1 and the spoils of public enemies4 ,he made himself as eminent for his moderation as for his piety and military knowledge3 he was the defender and the establisher of his country3 he left the empire without a competitor1 and made himself as well the ornament of ,rome as the security of it3 and did not ,scipio1 in all this1 more than requite his father barely for begetting of him8 ,whether did ,anchises more for neas1 in dandling the child in his arms2 or neas for his father1 when he carried him upon his back through the flames of ,troy1 and made his name famous to future ages among the founders of the ,roman ,empire8 ,t4 ,manlius was the son of a sour and imperious father1 who banished him his house as a blockhead1 and a scandal to the family4 ,this ,manlius1 hearing that his father's life was in question1 and a day set for his trial1 went to the tribune that was concerned in his cause1 and discoursed with him about it3 the tribune told him the appointed time1 and withal 7as an obligation upon the young man7 that his cruelty to his son would be part of his accusation4 ,manlius1 upon this1 takes the tribune aside1 and presenting a poniard to his breast1 8,swear10 says he1 8that you will let this cause fall1 or you shall have this dagger in the heart of you2 and now it is at your choice which way you will deliver my father40 ,the tribune swore and kept his word1 and made a fair report of the whole matter to the council4 ,he that makes himself famous by his eloquence1 justice1 or arms1 illustrates his extraction1 let it be never so mean2 and gives inestimable reputation to his parents4 ,we should never have heard of ,sophroniscus1 but for his son ,socrates2 nor for ,aristo and ,gryllus1 if it had not been for ,xenophon and ,plato4 ,this is not to discountenance the veneration we owe to parents2 nor to make children the worse1 but the better2 and to stir up generous emulations3 for1 in contests of good offices1 both parties are happy2 as well the vanquished as those that overcome4 ,it is the only honorable dispute that can arise betwixt a father and son1 which of the two shall have the better of the other in the point of benefits4 ,in the question betwixt a master and a servant1 we must distinguish betwixt benefits1 duties1 and actions ministerial4 ,by benefits1 we understand those good offices that we receive from strangers1 which are voluntary1 and may be forborne without blame4 ,duties are the parts of a son and wife1 and incumbent upon kindred and relations4 ,offices ministerial belong to the part of a servant4 ,now1 since it is the mind1 and not the condition of a person1 that prints the value upon the benefit1 a servant may oblige his master1 and so may a subject his sovereign1 or a common soldier his general1 by doing more than he is expressly bound to do4 ,some things there are1 which the law neither commands nor forbids2 and here the servant is free4 ,it would be very hard for a servant to be chastised for doing less than his duty1 and not thanked for it when he does more4 ,his body1 it is true1 is his master's1 but his mind is his own3 and there are many commands which a servant ought no more to obey than a master to impose4 ,there is no man so great1 but he may both need the help and service1 and stand in fear of the power and unkindness1 even of the meanest of mortals4 ,one servant kills his master2 another saves him1 nay1 preserves his master's life1 perhaps1 with the loss of his own3 he exposes himself to torment and death2 he stands firm against all threats and batteries3 which is not only a benefit in a servant1 but much the greater for his being so4 ,when ,domitius was besieged in ,corfinium1 and the place brought to great extremity1 he pressed his servant so earnestly to poison him1 that at last he was prevailed upon to give him a potion2 which1 it seems1 was an innocent opiate1 and ,domitius outlived it3 ,csar took the town1 and gave ,domitius his life1 but it was his servant that gave it him first4 ,there was another town besieged1 and when it was upon the last pinch1 two servants made their escape1 and went over to the enemy3 upon the ,romans entering the town1 and in the heat of the soldiers' fury1 these two fellows ran directly home1 took their mistress out of her house1 and drove her before them1 telling every body how barbarously she had used them formerly1 and that they would now have their revenge2 when they had her without the gates1 they kept her close till the danger was over2 by which means they gave their mistress her life1 and she gave them their freedom4 ,this was not the action of a servile mind1 to do so glorious a thing1 under an appearance of so great a villainy2 for if they had not passed for deserters and parricides1 they could not have gained their end4 ,with one instance more 7and that a very brave one7 ,i shall conclude this chapter4 ,in the civil wars of ,rome1 a party coming to search for a person of quality that was proscribed1 a servant put on his master's clothes1 and delivered himself up to the soldiers as the master of the house2 he was taken into custody1 and put to death1 without discovering the mistake4 ,what could be more glorious1 than for a servant to die for his master1 in that age1 when there were not many servants that would not betray their masters8 ,so generous a tenderness in a public cruelty2 so invincible a faith in a general corruption2 what could be more glorious1 ,i say1 than so exalted a virtue1 as rather to choose death for the reward of his fidelity1 than the greatest advantages he might otherwise have had for the violation of it8 ,,chapter ,,iv4 ,,it ,,is ,,the ,,intention1 ,,not ,,the ,,matter1 ,,that ,,makes ,,the ,,benefit4 ,the good-will of the benefactor is the fountain of all benefits2 nay it is the benefit itself1 or1 at least1 the stamp that makes it valuable and current4 ,some there are1 ,i know1 that take the matter for the benefit1 and tax the obligation by weight and measure4 ,when anything is given them1 they presently cast it up2 8,what may such a house be worth8 such an office8 such an estate80 as if that were the benefit which is only the sign and mark of it3 for the obligation rests in the mind1 not in the matter2 and all those advantages which we see1 handle1 or hold in actual possession by the courtesy of another1 are but several modes or ways of explaining and putting the good-will in execution4 ,there needs no great subtlety to prove1 that both benefits and injuries receive their value from the intention1 when even brutes themselves are able to decide this question4 ,tread upon a dog by chance1 or put him to pain upon the dressing of a wound2 the one he passes by as an accident2 and the other1 in his fashion1 he acknowledges as a kindness3 but1 offer to strike at him1 though you do him no hurt at all1 he flies yet in the face of you1 even for the mischief that you barely meant him4 ,it is further to be observed1 that all benefits are good2 and 7like the distributions of ,providence7 made up of wisdom and bounty2 whereas the gift itself is neither good nor bad1 but may indifferently be applied1 either to the one or to the other4 ,the benefit is immortal1 the gift perishable3 for the benefit itself continues when we have no longer either the use or the matter of it4 ,he that is dead was alive2 he that has lost his eyes1 did see2 and1 whatsoever is done1 cannot be rendered undone4 ,my friend 7for instance7 is taken by pirates2 ,i redeem him2 and after that he falls into other pirates' hands2 his obligation to me is the same still as if he had preserved his freedom4 ,and so1 if ,i save a man from any misfortune1 and he falls into another2 if ,i give him a sum of money1 which is afterwards taken away by thieves2 it comes to the same case4 ,fortune may deprive us of the matter of a benefit1 but the benefit itself remains inviolable4 ,if the benefit resided in the matter1 that which is good for one man would be so for another2 whereas many times the very same thing1 given to several persons1 work contrary effects1 even to the difference of life or death2 and that which is one body's cure proves another body's poison4 ,beside that1 the timing of it alters the value2 and a crust of bread1 upon a pinch1 is a greater present than an imperial crown4 ,what is more familiar than in a battle to shoot at an enemy and kill a friend8 or1 instead of a friend1 to save an enemy8 ,but yet this disappointment1 in the event1 does not at all operate upon the intention4 ,what if a man cures me of a wen with a stroke that was designed to cut off my head8 or1 with a malicious blow upon my stomach1 breaks an imposthume8 or1 what if he saves my life with a draught that was prepared to poison me8 ,the providence of the issue does not at all discharge the obliquity of the intent4 ,and the same reason holds good even in religion itself4 ,it is not the incense1 or the offering1 that is acceptable to ,god1 but the purity and devotion of the worshipper3 neither is the bare will1 without action1 sufficient1 that is1 where we have the means of acting2 for1 in that case1 it signifies as little to wish well1 without well-doing1 as to do good without willing it4 ,there must be effect as well as intention1 to make me owe a benefit2 but1 to will against it1 does wholly discharge it4 ,in fine1 the conscience alone is the judge1 both of benefits and injuries4 ,it does not follow now1 because the benefit rests in the good-will1 that therefore the good-will should be always a benefit2 for if it be not accompanied with government and discretion1 those offices1 which we call benefits1 are but the works of passion1 or of chance2 and many times1 the greatest of all injuries4 ,one man does me good by mistake2 another ignorantly2 a third upon force3 but none of these cases do ,i take to be an obligation2 for they were neither directed to me1 nor was there any kindness of intention2 we do not thank the seas for the advantages we receive by navigation2 or the rivers with supplying us with fish and flowing of our grounds2 we do not thank the trees either for their fruits or shades1 or the winds for a fair gale2 and what is the difference betwixt a reasonable creature that does not know and an inanimate that cannot8 ,a good horse saves one man's life2 a good suit of arms another's2 and a man1 perhaps1 that never intended it1 saves a third4 ,where is the difference now betwixt the obligation of one and of the other8 ,a man falls into a river1 and the fright cures him of the ague2 we may call this a kind of lucky mischance1 but not a remedy4 ,and so it is with the good we receive1 either without1 or beside1 or contrary to intention4 ,it is the mind1 and not the event1 that distinguishes a benefit from an injury4 ,,chapter ,v4 ,,there ,,must ,,be ,,judgment ,,in ,a ,,benefit1 ,,as ,,well ,,as ,,matter ,,and ,,intention2 ,,and ,,especially ,,in ,,the ,,choice ,,of ,,the ,,person4 ,as it is the will that designs the benefit1 and the matter that conveys it1 so it is the judgment that perfects it2 which depends upon so many critical niceties1 that the least error1 either in the person1 the matter1 the manner1 the quality1 the quantity1 the time1 or the place1 spoils all4 ,the consideration of the person is a main point3 for we are to give by choice1 and not by hazard4 ,my inclination bids me oblige one man2 ,i am bound in duty and justice to serve another2 here it is a charity1 there it is pity2 and elsewhere1 perhaps1 encouragement4 ,there are some that want1 to whom ,i would not give2 because1 if ,i did1 they would want still4 ,to one man ,i would barely offer a benefit2 but ,i would press it upon another4 ,to say the truth1 we do not employ any more profit than that which we bestow2 and it is not to our friends1 our acquaintances or countrymen1 nor to this or that condition of men1 that we are to restrain our bounties2 but wheresoever there is a man1 there is a place and occasion for a benefit4 ,we give to some that are good already2 to others1 in hope to make them so3 but we must do all with discretion2 for we are as well answerable for what we give as for what we receive2 nay1 the misplacing of a benefit is worse than the not receiving of it2 for the one is another man's fault2 but the other is mine4 ,the error of the giver does oft-times excuse the ingratitude of the receiver3 for a favor ill-placed is rather a profusion than a benefit4 ,it is the most shameful of losses1 an inconsiderate bounty4 ,i will choose a man of integrity1 sincere1 considerate1 grateful1 temperate1 well-natured1 neither covetous nor sordid3 and when ,i have obliged such a man1 though not worth a groat in the world1 ,i have gained my end4 ,if we give only to receive1 we lose the fairest objects of our charity3 the absent1 the sick1 the captive1 and the needy4 ,when we oblige those that can never pay us again in kind1 as a stranger upon his last farewell1 or a necessitous person upon his death-bed1 we make ,providence our debtor1 and rejoice in the conscience even of a fruitless benefit4 ,so long as we are affected with passions1 and distracted with hopes and fears1 and 7the most unmanly of vices7 with our pleasures1 we are incompetent judges where to place our bounties3 but when death presents itself1 and that we come to our last will and testament1 we leave our fortunes to the most worthy4 ,he that gives nothing1 but in hopes of receiving1 must die intestate4 ,it is the honesty of another man's mind that moves the kindness of mine2 and ,i would sooner oblige a grateful man than an ungrateful3 but this shall not hinder me from doing good also to a person that is known to be ungrateful3 only with this difference1 that ,i will serve the one in all extremities with my life and fortune1 and the other no farther than stands with my convenience4 ,but what shall ,i do1 you will say1 to know whether a man will be grateful or not8 ,i will follow probability1 and hope the best4 ,he that sows is not sure to reap2 nor the seaman to reach his port2 nor the soldier to win the field3 he that weds is not sure his wife shall be honest1 or his children dutiful3 but shall we therefore neither sow1 sail1 bear arms1 nor marry8 ,nay1 if ,i knew a man to be incurably thankless1 ,i would yet be so kind as to put him in his way1 or let him light a candle at mine1 or draw water at my well2 which may stand him perhaps in great stead1 and yet not be reckoned as a benefit from me2 for ,i do it carelessly1 and not for his sake1 but my own2 as an office of humanity1 without any choice or kindness4 ,,chapter ,,vi4 ,,the ,,matter ,,of ,,obligations1 ,,with ,,its ,,circumstances4 ,next to the choice of the person follows that of the matter2 wherein a regard must be had to time1 place1 proportion1 quality2 and to the very nicks of opportunity and humor4 ,one man values his peace above his honor1 another his honor above his safety2 and not a few there are that 7provided they may save their bodies7 never care what becomes of their souls4 ,so that good offices depend much upon construction4 ,some take themselves to be obliged1 when they are not2 others will not believe it1 when they are2 and some again take obligations and injuries1 the one for the other4 ,for our better direction1 let it be noted1 8,that a benefit is a common tie betwixt the giver and receiver1 with respect to both30 wherefore it must be accommodated to the rules of discretion2 for all things have their bounds and measures1 and so must liberality among the rest2 that it be neither too much for the one nor too little for the other2 the excess being every jot as bad as the defect4 ,alexander bestowed a city upon one of his favorites2 who modestly excusing himself1 8,that it was too much for him to receive40 8,well1 but10 says ,alexander1 8it is not too much for me to give40 ,a haughty certainly1 and an imprudent speech2 for that which was not fit for the one to take could not be fit for the other to give4 ,it passes in the world for greatness of mind to be perpetually giving and loading of people with bounties2 but it is one thing to know how to give1 and another thing not to know how to keep4 ,give me a heart that is easy and open1 but ,i will have no holes in it2 let it be bountiful with judgment1 but ,i will have nothing run out of it ,i know not how4 ,how much greater was he that refused the city than the other that offered it8 ,some men throw away their money as if they were angry with it1 which is the error commonly of weak minds and large fortunes4 ,no man esteems of anything that comes to him by chance2 but when it is governed by reason1 it brings credit both to the giver and receiver2 whereas those favors are1 in some sort1 scandalous1 that make a man ashamed of his patron4 ,it is a matter of great prudence1 for the benefactor to suit the benefit to the condition of the receiver3 who must be either his superior1 his inferior1 or his equal2 and that which would be the highest obligation imaginable to the one1 would perhaps be as great a mockery and affront to the other2 as a plate of broken meat 7for the purpose7 to a rich man were an indignity1 which to a poor man is a charity4 ,the benefits of princes and of great men1 are honors1 offices1 monies1 profitable commissions1 countenance1 and protection3 the poor man has nothing to present but good-will1 good advice1 faith1 industry1 the service and hazard of his person1 an early apple1 peradventure1 or some other cheap curiosity3 equals indeed may correspond in kind2 but whatsoever the present be1 or to whomsoever we offer it1 this general rule must be observed1 that we always design the good and satisfaction of the receiver1 and never grant anything to his detriment4 ,it is not for a man to say1 ,i was overcome by importunity2 for when the fever is off1 we detest the man that was prevailed upon to our destruction4 ,i will no more undo a man with his will1 than forbear saving him against it4 ,it is a benefit in some cases to grant1 and in others to deny2 so that we are rather to consider the advantage than the desire of the petitioner4 ,for we may in a passion earnestly beg for 7and take it ill to be denied too7 that very thing1 which1 upon second thoughts1 we may come to curse1 as the occasion of a most pernicious bounty4 ,never give anything that shall turn to mischief1 infamy1 or shame4 ,i will consider another man's want or safety2 but so as not to forget my own2 unless in the case of a very excellent person1 and then ,i shall not much heed what becomes of myself4 ,there is no giving of water to a man in a fever2 or putting a sword into a madman's hand4 ,he that lends a man money to carry him to a bawdy-house1 or a weapon for his revenge1 makes himself a partaker of his crime4 ,he that would make an acceptable present1 will pitch upon something that is desired1 sought for1 and hard to be found2 that which he sees nowhere else1 and which few have2 or at least not in that place or season2 something that may be always in his eye1 and mind him of his benefactor4 ,if it be lasting and durable1 so much the better2 as plate1 rather than money2 statues than apparel2 for it will serve as a monitor to mind the receiver of the obligation1 which the presenter cannot so handsomely do4 ,however1 let it not be improper1 as arms to a woman1 books to a clown1 toys to a philosopher3 ,i will not give to any man that which he cannot receive1 as if ,i threw a ball to a man without hands2 but ,i will make a return1 though he cannot receive it2 for my business is not to oblige him1 but to free myself3 nor anything that may reproach a man of his vice or infirmity2 as false dice to a cheat2 spectacles to a man that is blind4 ,let it not be unseasonable neither2 as a furred gown in summer1 an umbrella in winter4 ,it enhances the value of the present1 if it was never given to him by anybody else1 nor by me to any other2 for that which we give to everybody is welcome to nobody4 ,the particularity does much1 but yet the same thing may receive a different estimate from several persons2 for there are ways of marking and recommending it in such a manner1 that if the same good office be done to twenty people1 every one of them shall reckon himself peculiarly obliged as a cunning whore1 if she has a thousand sweethearts1 will persuade every one of them she loves him best4 ,but this is rather the artifice of conversation than the virtue of it4 ,the citizens of ,megara send ambassadors to ,alexander in the height of his glory1 to offer him1 as a compliment1 the freedom of their city4 ,upon ,alexander's smiling at the proposal1 they told him1 that it was a present which they had never made but to ,hercules and himself4 ,whereupon ,alexander treated them kindly1 and accepted of it2 not for the presenters' sake1 but because they had joined him with ,hercules2 now unreasonably soever2 for ,hercules conquered nothing for himself1 but made his business to vindicate and to protect the miserable1 without any private interest or design2 but this intemperate young man 7whose virtue was nothing else but a successful temerity7 was trained up from his youth in the trade of violence2 the common enemy of mankind1 as well of his friends as of his foes1 and one that valued himself upon being terrible to all mortals3 never considering1 that the dullest creatures are as dangerous and as dreadful1 as the fiercest2 for the poison of a toad1 or the tooth of a snake1 will do a man's business1 as sure as the paw of a tiger4 ,,chapter ,,vii4 ,,the ,,manner ,,of ,,obliging4 ,there is not any benefit so glorious in itself1 but it may yet be exceedingly sweetened and improved by the manner of conferring it4 ,the virtue1 ,i know1 rests in the intent1 the profit in the judicious application of the matter2 but the beauty and ornament of an obligation lies in the manner of it2 and it is then perfect when the dignity of the office is accompanied with all the charms and delicacies of humanity1 good-nature1 and address2 and with dispatch too2 for he that puts a man off from time to time1 was never right at heart4 ,in the first place1 whatsoever we give1 let us do it frankly3 a kind benefactor makes a man happy as soon as he can1 and as much as he can4 ,there should be no delay in a benefit but the modesty of the receiver4 ,if we cannot forsee the request1 let us1 however1 immediately grant it1 and by no means suffer the repeating of it4 ,it is so grievous a thing to say1 ,i ,,beg2 the very word puts a man out of countenance2 and it is a double kindness to do the thing1 and save an honest man the confusion of a blush4 ,it comes too late that comes for the asking3 for nothing costs us so dear as that we purchase with our prayers3 it is all we give1 even for heaven itself2 and even there too1 where our petitions are at the fairest1 we choose rather to present them in secret ejaculations than by word of mouth4 ,that is the lasting and the acceptable benefit that meets the receiver half-way4 ,the rule is1 we are to give1 as we would receive1 cheerfully1 quickly1 and without hesitation2 for there is no grace in a benefit that sticks to the fingers4 ,nay1 if there should be occasion for delay1 let us1 however1 not seem to deliberate2 for demurring is next door to denying2 and so long as we suspend1 so long are we unwilling4 ,it is a court-humor to keep people upon the tenters2 their injuries are quick and sudden1 but their benefits are slow4 ,great ministers love to rack men with attendance1 and account it an ostentation of their power to hold their suitors in hand1 and to have many witnesses of their interest4 ,a benefit should be made acceptable by all possible means1 even to the end that the receiver1 who is never to forget it1 may bear it in his mind with satisfaction4 ,there must be no mixture of sourness1 severity1 contumely1 or reproof1 with our obligations2 nay1 in case there should be any occasion for so much as an admonition1 let it be referred to another time4 ,we are a great deal apter to remember injuries than benefits2 and it is enough to forgive an obligation that has the nature of an offence4 ,there are some that spoil a good office after it is done and others1 in the very instant of doing it4 ,there be so much entreaty and importunity2 nay1 if we do but suspect a petitioner1 we put on a sour face2 look another way2 pretend haste1 company1 business2 talk of other matters1 and keep him off with artificial delays1 let his necessities be never so pressing2 and when we are put to it at last1 it comes so hard from us that it is rather extorted than obtained2 and not so properly the giving of a bounty1 as the quitting of a man's hold upon the tug1 when another is too strong for him2 so that this is but doing one kindness for me1 and another for himself3 he gives for his own quiet1 after he has tormented me with difficulties and delays4 ,the manner of saying or of doing any thing1 goes a great way in the value of the thing itself4 ,it was well said of him that called a good office1 that was done harshly1 and with an ill will1 a stony piece of bread2 it is necessary for him that is hungry to receive it1 but it almost chokes a man in the going down4 ,there must be no pride1 arrogance of looks1 or tumor of words1 in the bestowing of benefits2 no insolence of behavior1 but a modesty of mind1 and a diligent care to catch at occasions and prevent necessities4 ,a pause1 an unkind tone1 word1 look1 or action1 destroys the grace of a courtesy4 ,it corrupts a bounty1 when it is accompanied with state1 haughtiness1 and elation of mind1 in the giving of it4 ,some have a trick of shifting off a suitor with a point of wit1 or a cavil4 ,as in the case of the ,cynic that begged a talent of ,antigonus3 8,that is too much10 says he1 8for a ,cynic to ask20 and when he fell to a penny1 8,that is too little10 says he1 8for a prince to give40 ,he might have found a way to have compounded this controversy1 by giving him a penny as to a ,cynic and a talent as from a prince4 ,whatsoever we bestow1 let it be done with a frank and cheerful countenance3 a man must not give with his hand1 and deny with his looks4 ,he that gives quickly1 gives willingly4 ,we are likewise to accompany good deeds with good words1 and say1 7for the purpose17 8,why should you make such a matter of this8 why did not you come to me sooner8 why would you make use of any body else8 ,i take it ill that you should bring me a recommendation2 pray let there be no more of this1 but when you have occasion hereafter1 come to me upon your own account40 ,that is the glorious bounty1 when the receiver can say to himself2 8,what a blessed day has this been to me6 never was any thing done so generously1 so tenderly1 with so good a grace4 ,what is it ,i would not do to serve this man8 ,a thousand times as much another way could not have given me this satisfaction40 ,in such a case1 let the benefit be never so considerable1 the manner of conferring it is yet the noblest part4 ,where there is harshness of language1 countenance1 or behavior1 a man had better be without it4 ,a flat denial is infinitely before a vexatious delay3 as a quick death is a mercy1 compared with a lingering torment4 ,but to be put to waitings and intercessions1 after a promise is passed1 is a cruelty intolerable4 ,it is troublesome to stay long for a benefit1 let it be never so great2 and he that holds me needlessly in pain1 loses two precious things1 time1 and the proof of friendship4 ,nay1 the very hint of a man's want comes many times too late4 8,if ,i had money10 said ,socrates1 8,i would buy me a cloak40 ,they that knew he wanted one should have prevented the very intimation of that want4 ,it is not the value of the present1 but the benevolence of the mind1 that we are to consider4 8,he gave me but a little1 but it was generously and frankly done2 it was a little out of a little3 he gave it me without asking2 he pressed it upon me2 he watched the opportunity of doing it1 and took it as an obligation upon himself40 ,on the other side1 many benefits are great in show1 but little or nothing perhaps in effect1 when they come hard1 slow1 or at unawares4 ,that which is given with pride and ostentation1 is rather an ambition than a bounty4 ,some favors are to be conferred in public1 others in private4 ,in public the rewards of great actions2 as honors1 charges1 or whatsoever else gives a man reputation in the world2 but the good offices we do for a man in want1 distress1 or under reproach1 these should be known only to those that have the benefit of them4 ,nay1 not to them neither1 if we can handsomely conceal it from whence the favor came2 for the secrecy1 in many cases1 is a main part of the benefit4 ,there was a good man that had a friend1 who was both poor and sick1 and ashamed to own his condition3 he privately conveyed a bag of money under his pillow1 that he might seem rather to find than receive it4 ,provided ,i know that ,i give it1 no matter for his knowing from whence it comes that receives it4 ,many a man stands in need of help that has not the face to confess it3 if the discovery may give offence1 let it lie concealed2 he that gives to be seen would never relieve a man in the dark4 ,it would be too tedious to run through all the niceties that may occur upon this subject2 but1 in two words1 he must be a wise1 a friendly1 and a well-bred man1 that perfectly acquits himself in the art and duty of obliging3 for all his actions must be squared according to the measures of civility1 good-nature and discretion4 ,,chapter ,,viii4 ,,the ,,difference ,,and ,,value ,,of ,,benefits4 ,we have already spoken of benefits in general2 the matter and the intention1 together with the manner of conferring them4 ,it follows now1 in course1 to say something of the value of them2 which is rated1 either by the good they do us1 or by the inconvenience they save us1 and has no other standard than that of a judicious regard to circumstance and occasion4 ,suppose ,i save a man from drowning1 the advantage of life is all one to him1 from what hand soever it comes1 or by what means2 but yet there may be a vast difference in the obligation4 ,i may do it with hazard1 or with security1 with trouble1 or with ease2 willingly1 or by compulsion2 upon intercession1 or without it3 ,i may have a prospect of vain-glory or profit3 ,i may do it in kindness to another1 or an hundred by-ends to myself2 and every point does exceedingly vary the case4 ,two persons may part with the same sum of money1 and yet not the same benefit3 the one had it of his own1 and it was but a little out of a great deal2 the other borrowed it1 and bestowed upon me that which he wanted for himself4 ,two boys were sent out to fetch a certain person to their master3 the one of them hunts up and down1 and comes home again weary1 without finding him2 the other falls to play with his companions at the wheel of ,fortune1 sees him by chance passing by1 delivers him his errand1 and brings him4 ,he that found him by chance deserves to be punished2 and he that sought for him1 and missed him1 to be rewarded for his good-will4 ,in some cases we value the thing1 in others the labor and attendance4 ,what can be more precious than good manners1 good letters1 life1 and health8 and yet we pay our physicians and tutors only for their service in the professions4 ,if we buy things cheap1 it matters not1 so long as it is a bargain3 it is no obligation from the seller1 if nobody else will give him more for it4 ,what would not a man give to be set ashore in a tempest8 for a house in a wilderness8 a shelter in a storm8 a fire1 or a bit of meat1 when a man is pinched with hunger or cold8 a defence against thieves1 and a thousand other matters of moment1 that cost but little8 ,and yet we know that the skipper has but his freight for our passage2 and the carpenters and bricklayers do their work by the day4 ,those are many times the greatest obligations in truth1 which in vulgar opinions are the smallest3 as comfort to the sick1 poor captives2 good counsel1 keeping of people from wickedness1 etc4 ,wherefore we should reckon ourselves to owe most for the noblest benefits4 ,if the physician adds care and friendship to the duty of his calling1 and the tutor to the common method of his business1 ,i am to esteem them as the nearest of my relations3 for to watch with me1 to be troubled for me1 and to put off all other patients for my sake1 is a particular kindness3 and so it is in my tutor1 if he takes more pains with me than with the rest of my fellows4 ,it is not enough1 in this case1 to pay the one his fees1 and the other his salary2 but ,i am indebted to them over and above for their friendship4 ,the meanest of mechanics1 if he does his work with industry and care1 it is an usual thing to cast in something by way of reward more than the bare agreement3 and shall we deal worse with the preservers of our lives1 and the reformers of our manners8 ,he that gives me himself 7if he be worth taking7 gives the greatest benefit3 and this is the present which schines1 a poor disciple of ,socrates1 made to his master1 and as a matter of great consideration3 8,others may have given you much10 says he1 8but ,i am the only man that has left nothing to himself40 8,this gift10 says ,socrates1 8you shall never repent of2 for ,i will take care to return it better than ,i found it40 ,so that a brave mind can never want matter for liberality in the meanest condition2 for ,nature has been so kind to us1 that where we have nothing of ,fortune's1 we may bestow something of our own4 ,it falls out often1 that a benefit is followed with an injury2 let which will be foremost1 it is with the latter as with one writing upon another2 it does in a great measure hide the former1 and keep it from appearing1 but it does not quite take it away4 ,we may in some cases divide them1 and both requite the one1 and revenge the other2 or otherwise compare them1 to know whether ,i am creditor or debtor4 ,you have obliged me in my servant1 but wounded me in my brother2 you have saved my son1 but have destroyed my father2 in this instance1 ,i will allow as much as piety1 and justice1 and good nature1 will bear2 but ,i am not willing to set an injury against a benefit4 ,i would have some respect to the time2 the obligation came first2 and then1 perhaps1 the one was designed1 the other against his will2 under these considerations ,i would amplify the benefit1 and lessen the injury2 and extinguish the one with the other2 nay1 ,i would pardon the injury even without the benefit1 but much more after it4 ,not that a man can be bound by one benefit to suffer all sorts of injuries2 for there are some cases wherein we lie under no obligation for a benefit2 because a greater injury absolves it3 as1 for example1 a man helps me out of a law-suit1 and afterwards commits a rape upon my daughter2 where the following impiety cancels the antecedent obligation4 ,a man lends me a little money1 and then sets my house on fire2 the debtor is here turned creditor1 when the injury outweighs the benefit4 ,nay1 if a man does but so much as repent the good office done1 and grow sour and insolent upon it1 and upbraid me with it2 if he did it only for his own sake1 or for any other reason than for mine1 ,i am in some degree1 more or less1 acquitted of the obligation4 ,i am not at all beholden to him that makes me the instrument of his own advantage4 ,he that does me good for his own sake1 ,i will do him good for mine4 ,suppose a man makes suit for a place1 and cannot obtain it1 but upon the ransom of ten slaves out of the galleys4 ,if there be ten1 and no more1 they owe him nothing for their redemption2 but they are indebted to him for the choice1 where he might have taken ten others as well as these4 ,put the case again1 that by an act of grace so many prisoners are to be released1 their names to be drawn by lot1 and mine happens to come out among the rest3 one part of my obligation is to him that put me in a capacity of freedom1 and the other is to ,providence for my being one of that number4 ,the greatest benefits of all have no witnesses1 but lie concealed in the conscience4 ,there is a great difference betwixt a common obligation and a particular2 he that lends my country money1 obliges me only as a part of the whole4 ,plato crossed the river1 and the ferry-man would take no money of him3 he reflected upon it as honor done to himself2 and told him1 8,that ,plato was in debt40 ,but ,plato1 when he found it to be no more than he did for others1 recalled his words1 8,for10 says he1 8,plato will owe nothing in particular for a benefit in common2 what ,i owe with others1 ,i will pay with others40 ,some will have it that the necessity of wishing a man well is some abatement to the obligation in the doing of him a good office4 ,but ,i say1 on the contrary1 that it is the greater2 because the good-will cannot be changed4 ,it is one thing to say1 that a man could not but do me this or that civility1 because he was forced to do it2 and another thing1 that he could not quit the good-will of doing it4 ,in the former case1 ,i am a debtor to him that imposeth the force1 in the other to himself4 ,the unchangeable good-will is an indispensable obligation3 and1 to say1 that nature cannot go out of her course1 does not discharge us of what we owe to ,providence4 ,shall he be said to will1 that may change his mind the next moment8 and shall we question the will of the ,almighty1 whose nature admits no change8 ,must the stars quit their stations1 and fall foul one upon another8 must the sun stand still in the middle of his course1 and heaven and earth drop into confusion8 must a devouring fire seize upon the universe2 the harmony of the creation be dissolved2 and the whole frame of nature swallowed up in a dark abyss2 and will nothing less than this serve to convince the world of their audacious and impertinent follies8 ,it is not to say1 that these heavenly bodies are not made for us2 for in part they are so2 and we are the better for their virtues and motions1 whether we will or not2 though1 undoubtedly1 the principal cause is the unalterable law of ,god4 ,providence is not moved by anything from without2 but the ,divine will is an everlasting law1 an immutable decree2 and the impossibility of variation proceeds from ,god's purpose of preserving2 for he never repents of his first counsels4 ,it is not with our heavenly as with our earthly father4 ,god thought of us and provided for us1 before he made us3 7for unto him all future events are present47 ,man was not the work of chance2 his mind carries him above the slight of fortune1 and naturally aspires to the contemplation of heaven and divine mysteries4 ,how desperate a frenzy is it now to undervalue1 nay1 to contemn and to disclaim these divine blessings1 without which we are utterly incapable of enjoying any other6 ,,chapter ,,ix4 ,,an ,,honest ,,man ,,cannot ,,be ,,outdone ,,in ,,courtesy4 ,it passes in the world for a generous and magnificent saying1 that 8it is a shame for a man to be outdone in courtesy20 and it is worth the while to examine1 both the truth of it1 and the mistake4 ,first1 there can be no shame in a virtuous emulation2 and1 secondly1 there can be no victory without crossing the cudgels1 and yielding the cause4 ,one man may have the advantage of strength1 of means1 of fortune2 and this will undoubtedly operate upon the events of good purposes1 but yet without any diminution to the virtue4 ,the good will may be the same in both1 and yet one may have the heels of the other2 for it is not in a good office as in a course1 where he wins the plate that comes first to the post3 and even there also1 chance has many times a great hand in the success4 ,where the contest is about benefits2 and that the one has not only a good will1 but matter to work upon1 and a power to put that good intent in execution2 and the other has barely a good-will1 without either the means1 or the occasion1 of a requital2 if he does but affectionately wish it1 and endeavor it1 the latter is no more overcome in courtesy than he is in courage that dies with his sword in his hand1 and his face to the enemy1 and without shrinking maintains his station3 for where fortune is partial1 it is enough that the good-will is equal4 ,there are two errors in this proposition3 first1 to imply that a good man may be overcome2 and then to imagine that anything shameful can befall him4 ,the ,spartans prohibited all those exercises where the victory was declared by the confession of the contendant4 ,the #cjj ,fabii were never said to be conquered1 but slain2 nor ,regulus to be overcome1 though he was taken prisoner by the ,carthaginians4 ,the mind may stand firm under the greatest malice and iniquity of fortune2 and yet the giver and receiver continue upon equal terms3 as we reckon it a drawn battle1 when two combatants are parted1 though the one has lost more blood than the other4 ,he that knows how to owe a courtesy1 and heartily wishes that he could requite it1 is invincible2 so that every man may be as grateful as he pleases4 ,it is your happiness to give1 it is my fortune that ,i can only receive4 ,what advantage now has your chance over my virtue8 ,but there are some men that have philosophized themselves almost out of the sense of human affections2 as ,diogenes1 that walked naked and unconcerned through the middle of ,alexander's treasures1 and was1 as well in other men's opinions as in his own1 even above ,alexander himself1 who at that time had the whole world at his feet3 for there was more that the one scorned to take than that the other had it in his power to give3 and it is a greater generosity for a beggar to refuse money than for a prince to bestow it4 ,this is a remarkable instance of an immovable mind1 and there is hardly any contending with it2 but a man is never the less valiant for being worsted by an invulnerable enemy2 nor the fire one jot the weaker for not consuming an incombustible body2 nor a sword ever a whit the worse for not cleaving a rock that is impenetrable2 neither is a grateful mind overcome for want of an answerable fortune4 ,no matter for the inequality of the things given and received1 so long as1 in point of good affection1 the two parties stand upon the same level4 ,it is no shame not to overtake a man1 if we follow him as fast as we can4 ,that tumor of a man1 the vain-glorious ,alexander1 was used to make his boast1 that never any man went beyond him in benefits2 and yet he lived to see a poor fellow in a tub1 to whom there was nothing that he could give1 and from whom there was nothing that he could take away4 ,nor is it always necessary for a poor man to fly to the sanctuary of an invincible mind to quit scores with the bounties of a plentiful fortune2 but it does often fall out1 that the returns which he cannot make in kind are more than supplied in dignity and value4 ,archelaus1 a king of ,macedon1 invited ,socrates to his palace3 but he excused himself1 as unwilling to receive greater benefits than he was able to requite4 ,this perhaps was not pride in ,socrates1 but craft2 for he was afraid of being forced to accept of something which might possibly have been unworthy of him2 beside1 that he was a man of liberty1 and loath to make himself a voluntary slave4 ,the truth of it is1 that ,archelaus had more need of ,socrates than ,socrates of ,archelaus2 for he wanted a man to teach him the art of life and death1 and the skill of government1 and to read the book of ,nature to him1 and show him the light at noon-day3 he wanted a man that1 when the sun was in an eclipse1 and he had locked himself up in all the horror and despair imaginable2 he wanted a man1 ,i say1 to deliver him from his apprehensions1 and to expound the prodigy to him1 by telling him1 that there was no more in it than only that the moon was got betwixt the sun and the earth1 and all would be well again presently4 ,let the world judge now1 whether ,archelaus' bounty1 or ,socrates' philosophy1 would have been the greater present3 he does not understand the value of wisdom and friendship that does not know a wise friend to be the noblest of presents4 ,a rarity scarce to be found1 not only in a family1 but in an age2 and nowhere more wanted than where there seems to be the greatest store4 ,the greater a man is1 the more need he has of him2 and the more difficulty there is both of finding and of knowing him4 ,nor is it to be said1 that 8,i cannot requite such a benefactor because ,i am poor1 and have it not20 ,i can give good counsel2 a conversation wherein he may take both delight and profit2 freedom of discourse1 without flattery2 kind attention1 where he deliberates2 and faith inviolable where he trusts2 ,i may bring him to a love and knowledge of truth2 deliver him from the errors of his credulity1 and teach him to distinguish betwixt friends and parasites4 ,,chapter ,x4 ,,the ,,question ,,discussed1 ,,whether ,,or ,,not ,a ,,man ,,may ,,give ,,or ,,return ,a ,,benefit ,,to ,,himself8 ,there are many cases1 wherein a man speaks of himself as of another4 ,as1 for example1 8,i may thank myself for this2 ,i am angry at myself2 ,i hate myself for that40 ,and this way of speaking has raised a dispute among the ,stoics1 8whether or not a man may give or return a benefit to himself80 ,for1 say they1 if ,i may hurt myself1 ,i may oblige myself2 and that which were a benefit to another body1 why is it not so to myself8 ,and why am ,i not as criminal in being ungrateful to myself as if ,i were so to another body8 ,and the case is the same in flattery and several other vices2 as1 on the other side1 it is a point of great reputation for a man to command himself4 ,plato thanked ,socrates for what he had learned of him2 and why might not ,socrates as well thank ,plato for that which he had taught him8 8,that which you want10 says ,plato1 8borrow it of yourself40 ,and why may not ,i as well give to myself as lend8 ,if ,i may be angry with myself1 ,i may thank myself2 and if ,i chide myself1 ,i may as well commend myself1 and do myself good as well as hurt2 there is the same reason of contraries3 it is a common thing to say1 8,such a man hath done himself an injury40 ,if an injury1 why not a benefit8 ,but ,i say1 that no man can be a debtor to himself2 for the benefit must naturally precede the acknowledgment2 and a debtor can no more be without a creditor than a husband without a wife4 ,somebody must give1 that somebody may receive2 and it is neither giving nor receiving1 the passing of a thing from one hand to the other4 ,what if a man should be ungrateful in the case8 there is nothing lost2 for he that gives it has it3 and he that gives and he that receives are one and the same person4 ,now1 properly speaking1 no man can be said to bestow any thing upon himself1 for he obeys his nature1 that prompts every man to do himself all the good he can4 ,shall ,i call him liberal1 that gives to himself2 or good-natured1 that pardons himself2 or pitiful1 that is affected with his own misfortunes8 ,that which were bounty1 clemency1 compassion1 to another1 to myself is nature4 ,a benefit is a voluntary thing2 but to do good to myself is a thing necessary4 ,was ever any man commended for getting out of a ditch1 or for helping himself against thieves8 ,or what if ,i should allow1 that a man might confer a benefit upon himself2 yet he cannot owe it1 for he returns it in the same instant that he receives it4 ,no man gives1 owes1 or makes a return1 but to another4 ,how can one man do that to which two parties are requisite in so many respects8 ,giving and receiving must go backward and forward betwixt two persons4 ,if a man give to himself1 he may sell to himself2 but to sell is to alienate a thing1 and to translate the right of it to another2 now1 to make a man both the giver and the receiver is to unite two contraries4 ,that is a benefit1 which1 when it is given1 may possibly not be requited2 but he that gives to himself1 must necessarily receive what he gives2 beside1 that all benefits are given for the receiver's sake1 but that which a man does for himself1 is for the sake of the giver4 ,this is one of those subtleties1 which1 though hardly worth a man's while1 yet it is not labor absolutely lost neither4 ,there is more of trick and artifice in it than solidity2 and yet there is matter of diversion too2 enough perhaps to pass away a winter's evening1 and keep a man waking that is heavy-headed4 ,,chapter ,,xi4 ,,how ,,far ,,one ,,man ,,may ,,be ,,obliged ,,for ,a ,,benefit ,,done ,,to ,,another4 ,the question now before us requires distinction and caution4 ,for though it be both natural and generous to wish well to my friend's friend1 yet a second-hand benefit does not bind me any further than to a second-hand gratitude3 so that ,i may receive great satisfaction and advantage from a good office done to my friend1 and yet lie under no obligation myself2 or1 if any man thinks otherwise1 ,i must ask him1 in the first place1 ,where it begins8 and1 ,how it extends8 that it may not be boundless4 ,suppose a man obliges the son1 does that obligation work upon the father8 and why not upon the uncle too8 the brother8 the wife8 the sister8 the mother8 nay1 upon all that have any kindness for him8 and upon all the lovers of his friends8 and upon all that love them too8 and so in infinitum4 ,in this case we must have recourse1 as is said heretofore1 to the intention of the benefactor1 and fix the obligation upon him unto whom the kindness was directed4 ,if a man manures my ground1 keeps my house from burning or falling1 it is a benefit to me1 for ,i am the better for it1 and my house and land are insensible4 ,but if he save the life of my son1 the benefit is to my son2 it is a joy and a comfort to me1 but no obligation4 ,i am as much concerned as ,i ought to be in the health1 the felicity1 and the welfare of my son1 as happy in the enjoyment of him2 and ,i should be as unhappy as is possible in his loss2 but it does not follow that ,i must of necessity lie under an obligation for being either happier or less miserable1 by another body's means4 ,there are some benefits1 which although conferred upon one man1 may yet work upon others2 as a sum of money may be given to a poor man for his own sake1 which in the consequence proves the relief of his whole family2 but still the immediate receiver is the debtor for it2 for the question is not1 to whom it comes afterward to be transferred1 but who is the principal8 and upon whom it was first bestowed8 ,my son's life is as dear to me as my own2 and in saving him you preserve me too3 in this case ,i will acknowledge myself obliged to you1 that is to say1 in my son's name2 for in my own1 and in strictness1 ,i am not2 but ,i am content to make myself a voluntary debtor4 ,what if he had borrowed money8 my paying of it does not at all make it my debt4 ,it would put me to the blush perhaps to have him taken in bed with another man's wife2 but that does not make me an adulterer4 ,it is a wonderful delight and satisfaction that ,i receive in his safety2 but still this good is not a benefit4 ,a man may be the better for an animal1 a plant1 a stone2 but there must be a will1 an intention1 to make it an obligation4 ,you save the son without so much as knowing the father1 nay1 without so much as thinking of him2 and1 perhaps you would have done the same thing even if you had hated him4 ,but without any further alteration of dialogue1 the conclusion is this2 if you meant him the kindness1 he is answerable for it1 and ,i may enjoy the fruit of it without being obliged by it3 but if it was done for my sake1 then ,i am accountable2 or howsoever1 upon any occasion1 ,i am ready to do you all the kind offices imaginable2 not as the return of a benefit1 but as the earnest of a friendship2 which you are not to challenge neither1 but to entertain as an act of honor and of justice1 rather than of gratitude4 ,if a man find the body of my dead father in a desert1 and give it a burial2 if he did it as to my father1 ,i am beholden to him3 but if the body was unknown to him1 and that he would have done the same thing for any other body1 ,i am no farther concerned in it than as a piece of public humanity4 ,there are1 moreover1 some cases wherein an unworthy person may be obliged and for the sake of others3 and the sottish extract of an ancient nobilty may be preferred before a better man that is but of yesterday's standing4 ,and it is but reasonable to pay a reverence even to the memory of eminent virtues4 ,he that is not illustrious in himself1 may yet be reputed so in the right of his ancestors3 and there is a gratitude to be entailed upon the offspring of famous progenitors4 ,was it not for the father's sake that ,cicero the son was made counsel8 and was it not the eminence of one ,pompey that raised and dignified the rest of his family8 ,how came ,caligula to be emperor of the world8 a man so cruel1 that he spilt blood as greedily as if he were to drink it2 the empire was not given to himself1 but to his father ,germanicus4 ,a brave man deserved that for him1 which he could never have challenged upon his own merit4 ,what was it that preferred ,fabius ,persicus1 7whose very mouth was the uncleanest part about him17 what was it but the #cjj of that family that so generously opposed the enemy for the safety of the commonwealth8 ,nay1 ,providence itself is gracious to the wicked posterity of an honorable race4 ,the counsels of heaven are guided by wisdom1 mercy1 and justice4 ,some men are made kings of their proper virtues1 without any respect to their predecessors3 others for their ancestors' sakes1 whose virtues1 though neglected in their lives1 come to be afterward rewarded in their issues4 ,and it is but equity1 that our gratitude should extend as far as the influence of their heroical actions and examples4 ,,chapter ,,xii4 ,,the ,,benefactor ,,must ,,have ,,no ,,by-,,ends4 ,we come now to the main point of the matter in question3 that is to say1 whether or not it be a thing desirable in itself1 the giving and receiving of benefits8 ,there is a sect of philosophers that accounts nothing valuable but what is profitable1 and so makes all virtue mercenary2 an unmanly mistake to imagine1 that the hope of gain1 or fear of loss1 should make a man either the more or less honest4 ,as who should say1 8,what will ,i get by it1 and ,i will be an honest man80 ,whereas1 on the contrary1 honesty is a thing in itself to be purchased at any rate4 ,it is not for a body to say1 8,it will be a charge1 a hazard1 ,i shall give offence10 etc4 ,my business is to do what ,i ought to do3 all other considerations are foreign to the office4 ,whensoever my duty calls me1 it is my part to attend1 without scrupulizing upon forms or difficulties4 ,shall ,i see an honest man oppressed at the bar1 and not assist him1 for fear of a court faction8 or not second him upon the highway against thieves1 for fear of a broken head8 and choose rather to sit still1 the quiet spectator of fraud and violence8 ,why will men be just1 temperate1 generous1 brave1 but because it carries along with it fame and a good conscience8 and for the same reason1 and no other1 7to apply it to the subject in hand17 let a man also be bountiful4 ,the school of ,epicurus1 ,i am sure1 will never swallow this doctrine3 7that effeminate tribe of lazy and voluptuous philosophers27 they will tell you1 that virtue is but the servant and vassal of pleasure4 8,no10 says ,epicurus1 8,i am not for pleasure neither without virtue40 ,but1 why then for pleasure1 say ,i1 before virtue8 ,not that the stress of the controversy lies upon the order only2 for the power of it1 as well as the dignity1 is now under debate4 ,it is the office of virtue to superintend1 to lead1 and to govern2 but the parts you have assigned it1 are to submit1 to follow1 and to be under command4 ,but this1 you will say1 is nothing to the purpose1 so long as both sides are agreed1 that there can be no happiness without virtue3 8,take away that10 says ,epicurus1 8and ,i am as little a friend to pleasure as you40 ,the pinch1 in short1 is this1 whether virtue itself be the supreme good or the only cause of it8 ,it is not the inverting of the order that will clear this point2 7though it is a very preposterous error1 to set that first which should be last47 ,it does not half so much offend me2 ranging of pleasure before virtue1 as the very comparing of them2 and the bringing of the two opposites1 and professed enemies1 into any sort of competition4 ,the drift of this discourse is1 to support the cause of benefits2 and to prove1 that it is a mean and dishonorable thing to give for any other end than for giving's sake4 ,he that gives for gain1 profit1 or any by-end1 destroys the very intent of bounty2 for it falls only upon those that do not want1 and perverts the charitable inclinations of princes and of great men1 who cannot reasonably propound to themselves any such end4 ,what does the sun get by travelling about the universe2 by visiting and comforting all the quarters of the earth8 ,is the whole creation made and ordered for the good of mankind1 and every particular man only for the good of himself8 ,there passes not an hour of our lives1 wherein we do not enjoy the blessings of ,providence1 without measure and without intermission4 ,and what design can the ,almighty have upon us1 who is in himself full1 safe1 and inviolable8 ,if he should give only for his own sake1 what would become of poor mortals1 that have nothing to return him at best but dutiful acknowledgments8 ,it is putting out of a benefit to interest only to bestow where we may place it to advantage4 ,let us be liberal then1 after the example of our great ,creator1 and give to others with the same consideration that he gives to us4 ,epicurus's answer will be to this1 that ,god gives no benefits at all1 but turns his back upon the world2 and without any concern for us1 leaves ,nature to take her course3 and whether he does anything himself1 or nothing1 he takes no notice1 however1 either of the good or of the ill that is done here below4 ,if there were not an ordering and an over-ruling ,providence1 how comes it 7say ,i1 on the other side7 that the universality of mankind should ever have so unanimously agreed in the madness of worshipping a power that can neither hear nor help us8 ,some blessings are freely given us2 others upon our prayers are granted us2 and every day brings forth instances of great and of seasonable mercies4 ,there never was yet any man so insensible as not to feel1 see1 and understand1 a ,deity in the ordinary methods of nature1 though many have been so obstinately ungrateful as not to confess it2 nor is any man so wretched as not to be a partaker in that divine bounty4 ,some benefits1 it is true1 may appear to be unequally divided2 but it is no small matter yet that we possess in common3 and which ,nature has bestowed upon us in her very self4 ,if ,god be not bountiful1 whence is it that we have all that we pretend to8 ,that which we give1 and that which we deny1 that which we lay up1 and that which we squander away8 ,those innumerable delights for the entertainment of our eyes1 our ears1 and our understandings8 nay1 that copious matter even for luxury itself8 ,for care is taken1 not only for our necessities1 but also for our pleasures1 and for the gratifying of all our senses and appetites4 ,so many pleasant groves2 fruitful and salutary plants2 so many fair rivers that serve us1 both for recreation1 plenty1 and commerce3 vicissitudes of seasons2 varieties of food1 by nature made ready to our hands1 and the whole creation itself subjected to mankind for health1 medicine and dominion4 ,we can be thankful to a friend for a few acres1 or a little money3 and yet for the freedom and command of the whole earth1 and for the great benefits of our being1 as life1 health1 and reason1 we look upon ourselves as under no obligation4 ,if a man bestows upon us a house that is delicately beautified with paintings1 statues1 gildings1 and marble1 we make a mighty business of it1 and yet it lies at the mercy of a puff of wind1 the snuff of a candle1 and a hundred other accidents1 to lay it in the dust4 ,and is it nothing now to sleep under the canopy of heaven1 where we have the globe of the earth for our place of repose1 and the glories of the heavens for our spectacle8 ,how comes it that we should so much value what we have1 and yet at the same time be so unthankful for it8 ,whence is it that we have our breath1 the comforts of light and of heat1 the very blood that runs in our veins8 the cattle that feed us1 and the fruits of the earth that feed them8 ,whence have we the growth of our bodies1 the succession of our ages1 and the faculties of our minds8 so many veins of metals1 quarries of marble1 etc4 ,the seed of everything is in itself1 and it is the blessing of ,god that raises it out of the dark into act and motion4 ,to say nothing of the charming varieties of music1 beautiful objects1 delicious provisions for the palate1 exquisite perfumes1 which are cast in1 over and above1 to the common necessities of our being4 ,all this1 says ,epicurus1 we are to ascribe to ,nature4 ,and why not to ,god1 ,i beseech ye8 as if they were not both of them one and the same power1 working in the whole1 and in every part of it4 ,or1 if you call him the ,almighty ,jupiter2 the ,thunderer2 the ,creator and ,preserver of us all3 it comes to the same issue2 some will express him under the notion of ,fate2 which is only a connexion of causes1 and himself the uppermost and original1 upon which all the rest depend4 ,the ,stoics represent the several functions of the ,almighty ,power under several appellations4 ,when they speak of him as the father and the fountain of all beings1 they call him ,bacchus3 and under the name of ,hercules1 they denote him to be indefatigable and invincible2 and in the contemplation of him in the reason1 order1 proportion1 and wisdom of his proceedings1 they call him ,mercury2 so that which way soever they look1 and under what name soever they couch their meaning1 they never fail of finding him2 for he is everywhere1 and fills his own work4 ,if a man should borrow money of ,seneca1 and say that he owes it to ,amnus or ,lucius1 he may change the name but not his creditor2 for let him take which of the three names he pleases1 he is still a debtor to the same person4 ,as justice1 integrity1 prudence1 frugality1 fortitude1 are all of them goods of one and the same mind1 so that whichsoever of them pleases us1 we cannot distinctly say that it is this or that1 but the mind4 ,but1 not to carry this digression too far2 that which ,god himself does1 we are sure is well done2 and we are no less sure1 that for whatsoever he gives1 he neither wants1 expects1 nor receives1 anything in return2 so that the end of a benefit ought to be the advantage of the receiver2 and that must be our scope without any by-regard to ourselves4 ,it is objected to us1 the singular caution we prescribe in the choice of the person3 for it were a madness1 we say1 for a husbandman to sow the sand3 which1 if true1 say they1 you have an eye upon profit1 as well in giving as in plowing and sowing4 ,and then they say again1 that if the conferring of a benefit were desirable in itself1 it would have no dependence upon the choice of a man2 for let us give it when1 how1 or wheresoever we please1 it would be still a benefit4 ,this does not at all affect our assertion2 for the person1 the matter1 the manner1 and the time1 are circumstances absolutely necessary to the reason of the action3 there must be a right judgment in all respects to make it a benefit4 ,it is my duty to be true to a trust1 and yet there may be a time or a place1 wherein ,i would make little difference betwixt the renouncing of it and the delivering of it up2 and the same rule holds in benefits2 ,i will neither render the one1 nor bestow the other1 to the damage of the receiver4 ,a wicked man will run all risks to do an injury1 and to compass his revenge2 and shall not an honest man venture as far to do a good office8 ,all benefits must be gratuitous4 ,a merchant sells me the corn that keeps me and my family from starving2 but he sold it for his interests1 as well as ,i bought it for mine2 and so ,i owe him nothing for it4 ,he that gives for profit1 gives to himself2 as a physician or a lawyer1 gives counsel for a fee1 and only makes use of me for his own ends2 as a grazier fats his cattle to bring them to a better market4 ,this is more properly the driving of a trade than the cultivating of a generous commerce4 ,this for that1 is rather a truck than a benefit2 and he deserves to be cozened that gives any thing in hope of a return4 ,and in truth1 what end should a man honorably propound8 not profit2 sure that is vulgar and mechanic2 and he that does not contemn it can never be grateful4 ,and then for glory1 it is a mighty matter indeed for a man to boast of doing his duty4 ,we are to give1 if it were only to avoid not giving2 if any thing comes of it1 it is clear gain2 and1 at worst1 there is nothing lost2 beside1 that one benefit well placed makes amends for a thousand miscarriages4 ,it is not that ,i would exclude the benefactor neither for being himself the better for a good office he does for another4 ,some there are that do us good only for their own sakes2 others for ours2 and some again for both4 ,he that does it for me in common with himself1 if he had a prospect upon both in the doing it1 ,i am obliged to him for it2 and glad with all my heart that he had a share in it4 ,nay1 ,i were ungrateful and unjust if ,i should not rejoice1 that what was beneficial to me might be so likewise to himself4 ,to pass now to the matter of gratitude and ingratitude4 ,there never was any man yet so wicked as not to approve of the one1 and detest the other2 as the two things in the whole world1 the one to be the most abominated1 the other the most esteemed4 ,the very story of an ungrateful action puts us out of all patience1 and gives us a loathing for the author of it4 8,that inhuman villain10 we cry1 8to do so horrid a thing30 not1 8that inconsiderate fool for omitting so profitable a virtue20 which plainly shows the sense we naturally have1 both of the one and of the other1 and that we are led to it by a common impulse of reason and of conscience4 ,epicurus fancies ,god to be without power1 and without arms2 above fear himself1 and as little to be feared4 ,he places him betwixt the orbs1 solitary and idle1 out of the reach of mortals1 and neither hearing our prayers nor minding our concerns2 and allows him only such a veneration and respect as we pay to our parents4 ,if a man should ask him now1 why any reverence at all1 if we have no obligation to him1 or rather1 why that greater reverence to his fortuitous atoms8 his answer would be1 that it was for their majesty and their admirable nature1 and not out of any hope or expectation from them4 ,so that by his proper confession1 a thing may be desirable for its own worth4 ,but1 says he1 gratitude is a virtue that has commonly profit annexed to it4 ,and where is the virtue1 say ,i1 that has not8 but still the virtue is to be valued for itself1 and not for the profit that attends it4 ,there is no question1 but gratitude for benefits received is the ready way to procure more2 and in requiting one friend we encourage many3 but these accessions fall in by the by2 and if ,i were sure that the doing of good offices would be my ruin1 ,i would yet pursue them4 ,he that visits the sick1 in hope of a legacy1 let him be never so friendly in all other cases1 ,i look upon him in this to be no better than a raven1 that watches a weak sheep only to peck out the eyes of it4 ,we never give with so much judgment or care1 as when we consider the honesty of the action1 without any regard to the profit of it2 for our understandings are corrupted by fear1 hope1 and pleasure4 ,,chapter ,,xiii4 ,,there ,,are ,,many ,,cases ,,wherein ,a ,,man ,,may ,,be ,,minded ,,of ,a ,,benefit1 ,,but ,,it ,,is ,,very ,,rarely ,,to ,,be ,,challenged1 ,,and ,,never ,,to ,,be ,,upbraided4 ,if the world were wise1 and as honest as it should be1 there would be no need of caution or precept how to behave ourselves in our several stations and duties2 for both the giver and the receiver would do what they ought to do on their own accord3 the one would be bountiful1 and the other grateful1 and the only way of minding a man of one good turn would be the following of it with another4 ,but as the case stands1 we must take other measures1 and consult the best we can1 the common ease and relief of mankind4 ,as there are several sorts of ungrateful men1 so there must be several ways of dealing with them1 either by artifice1 counsel1 admonition1 or reproof1 according to the humor of the person1 and the degree of the offence3 provided always1 that as well in the reminding a man of a benefit1 as in the bestowing of it1 the good of the receiver be the principal thing intended4 ,there is a curable ingratitude1 and an incurable2 there is a slothful1 a neglectful1 a proud1 a dissembling1 a disclaiming1 a heedless1 a forgetful1 and a malicious ingratitude2 and the application must be suited to the matter we have to work upon4 ,a gentle nature may be reclaimed by authority1 advice1 or reprehension2 a father1 a husband1 a friend may do good in the case4 ,there are a sort of lazy and sluggish people1 that live as if they were asleep1 and must be lugged and pinched to wake them4 ,these men are betwixt grateful and ungrateful2 they will neither deny an obligation nor return it1 and only want quickening4 ,i will do all ,i can to hinder any man from ill-doing1 but especially a friend2 and yet more especially from doing ill to me4 ,i will rub up his memory with new benefits3 if that will not serve1 ,i will proceed to good counsel1 and from thence to rebuke3 if all fails1 ,i will look upon him as a desperate debtor1 and even let him alone in his ingratitude1 without making him my enemy3 for no necessity shall ever make me spend time in wrangling with any man upon that point4 ,assiduity of obligation strikes upon the conscience as well as the memory1 and pursues an ungrateful man till he becomes grateful3 if one good office will not do it1 try a second1 and then a third4 ,no man can be so thankless1 but either shame1 occasion1 or example1 will1 at some time or other1 prevail upon him4 ,the very beasts themselves1 even lions and tigers1 are gained by good usage3 beside1 that one obligation does naturally draw on another2 and a man would not willingly leave his own work imperfect4 8,i have helped him thus far1 and ,i will even go through with it now40 ,so that1 over and above the delight and the virtue of obliging1 one good turn is a shouting-horn to another4 ,this1 of all hints1 is perhaps the most effectual1 as well as the most generous4 ,in some cases it must be carried more home3 as in that of ,julius ,csar1 who1 as he was hearing a cause1 the defendant finding himself pinched2 8,sir10 says he1 8do not you remember a strain you got in your ankle when you commanded in ,spain2 and that a soldier lent you his cloak for a cushion1 upon the top of a craggy rock1 under the shade of a little tree1 in the heat of the day80 8,i remember it perfectly well10 says ,csar1 8and that when ,i was ready to choke with thirst1 an honest fellow fetched me a draught of water in his helmet40 8,but that man1 and that helmet10 says the soldier1 8does ,csar think that he could not know them again1 if he saw them80 8,the man1 perchance1 ,i might10 says ,csar1 somewhat offended1 8but not the helmet4 ,but what is the story to my business8 you are none of the man40 8,pardon me1 ,sir10 says the soldier1 8,i am that very man2 but ,csar may well forget me3 for ,i have been trepanned since1 and lost an eye at the battle of ,munda1 where that helmet too had the honor to be cleft with a ,spanish blade40 ,csar took it as it was intended3 and it was an honorable and a prudent way of refreshing his memory4 ,but this would not have gone down so well with ,tiberius3 for when an old acquaintance of his began his address to him with1 8,you remember1 ,csar40 8,no10 says ,csar1 7cutting him short17 8,i do not remember what ,i ,,was40 ,now1 with him1 it was better to be forgotten than remembered2 for an old friend was as bad as an informer4 ,it is a common thing for men to hate the authors of their preferment1 as the witnesses of their mean original4 ,there are some people well enough disposed to be grateful1 but they cannot hit upon it without a prompter2 they are a little like school-boys that have treacherous memories2 it is but helping them here and there with a word1 when they stick1 and they will go through with their lesson2 they must be taught to be thankful1 and it is a fair step1 if we can but bring them to be willing1 and only offer at it4 ,some benefits we have neglected2 some we are not willing to remember4 ,he is ungrateful that disowns an obligation1 and so is he that dissembles it1 or to his power does not requite it2 but the worst of all is he that forgets it4 ,conscience1 or occasion1 may revive the rest2 but here the very memory of it is lost4 ,those eyes that cannot endure the light are weak1 but those are stark blind that cannot see it4 ,i do not love to hear people say1 8,alas6 poor man1 he has forgotten it10 as if that were the excuse of ingratitude1 which is the very cause of it3 for if he were not ungrateful1 he would not be forgetful1 and lay that out of the way which should be always uppermost and in sight4 ,he that thinks as he ought to do1 of requiting a benefit1 is in no danger of forgetting it4 ,there are1 indeed1 some benefits so great that they can never slip the memory2 but those which are less in value1 and more in number1 do commonly escape us4 ,we are apt enough to acknowledge that 8such a man has been the making of us20 so long as we are in possession of the advantage he has brought us2 but new appetites deface old kindnesses1 and we carry our prospect forward to something more1 without considering what we have obtained already4 ,all that is past we give for lost2 so that we are only intent upon the future4 ,when a benefit is once out of sight1 or out of use1 it is buried4 ,it is the freak of many people1 they cannot do a good office but they are presently boasting of it1 drunk or sober3 and about it goes into all companies what wonderful things they have done for this man1 and what for the other4 ,a foolish and a dangerous vanity1 of a doubtful friend to make a certain enemy4 ,for these reproaches and contempts will set everybody's tongue a walking2 and people will conclude that these things would never be1 if there were not something very extraordinary in the bottom of it4 ,when it comes to that once1 there is not any calumny but fastens more or less1 nor any falsehood so incredible1 but in some part or other of it1 shall pass for a truth4 ,our great mistake is this1 we are still inclined to make the most of what we give1 and the least of what we receive2 whereas we should do the clean contrary4 8,it might have been more1 but he had a great many to oblige4 ,it was as much as he could well spare2 but he will make it up some other time10 etc4 ,nay1 we should be so far from making publication of our bounties1 as not to hear them so much as mentioned without sweetening the matter3 as1 8,alas1 ,i owe him a great deal more than that comes to4 ,if it were in my power to serve him1 ,i should be very glad of it40 ,and this1 too1 not with the figure of a compliment1 but with all humanity and truth4 ,there was a man of quality1 that in the triumviral proscription1 was saved by one of ,csar's friends1 who would be still twitting him with it2 who it was that preserved him1 and telling him over and over1 8you had gone to pot1 friend1 but for me40 8,pr'ythee10 says the proscribed1 8let me hear no more of this1 or even leave me as you found me3 ,i am thankful enough of myself to acknowledge that ,i owe you my life1 but it is death to have it rung in my ears perpetually as a reproach2 it looks as if you had only saved me to carry me about for a spectacle4 ,i would fain forget the misfortune that ,i was once a prisoner1 without being led in triumph every day of my life40 ,oh6 the pride and folly of a great fortune1 that turns benefits into injuries6 that delights in excesses1 and disgraces every thing it does6 ,who would receive any thing from it upon these terms8 the higher it raises us1 the more sordid it makes us4 ,whatsoever it gives it corrupts4 ,what is there in it that should thus puff us up8 by what magic is it that we are so transformed1 that we do no longer know ourselves8 ,is it impossible for greatness to be liberal without insolence8 ,the benefits that we receive from our superiors are then welcome when they come with an open hand1 and a clear brow2 without either contumely or state2 and so as to prevent our necessities4 ,the benefit is never the greater for the making of a bustle and a noise about it3 but the benefactor is much the less for the ostentation of his good deeds2 which makes that odious to us1 which would otherwise be delightful4 ,tiberius had gotten a trick1 when any man begged money of him1 to refer him to the senate1 where all the petitioners were to deliver up the names of their creditors4 ,his end perhaps was1 to deter men from asking1 by exposing the condition of their fortunes to an examination4 ,but it was1 however1 a benefit turned unto a reprehension1 and he made a reproach of a bounty4 ,but it is not enough yet to forbear the casting of a benefit in a man's teeth2 for there are some that will not allow it to be so much as challenged4 ,for an ill man1 say they1 will not make a return1 though it be demanded1 and a good man will do it of himself3 and then the asking of it seems to turn it into a debt4 ,it is a kind of injury to be too quick with the former3 for to call upon him too soon reproaches him1 as if he would not have done it otherwise4 ,nor would ,i recall a benefit from any man so as to force it1 but only to receive it4 ,if ,i let him quite alone1 ,i make myself guilty of his ingratitude3 and undo him for want of plain dealing4 ,a father reclaims a disobedient son1 a wife reclaims a dissolute husband2 and one friend excites the languishing kindness of another4 ,how many men are lost for want of being touched to the quick8 ,so long as ,i am not pressed1 ,i will rather desire a favor1 than so much as mention a requital2 but if my country1 my family1 or my liberty1 be at stake1 my zeal and indignation shall overrule my modesty1 and the world shall then understand that ,i have done all ,i could1 not to stand in need of an ungrateful man4 ,and in conclusion the necessity of receiving a benefit shall overcome the shame of recalling it4 ,nor is it only allowable upon some exigents to put the receiver in mind of a good turn1 but it is many times for the common advantage of both parties4 ,,chapter ,,xiv4 ,,how ,,far ,,to ,,oblige ,,or ,,requite ,a ,,wicked ,,man4 ,there are some benefits whereof a wicked man is wholly incapable2 of which hereafter4 ,there are others1 which are bestowed upon him1 not for his own sake1 but for secondary reasons2 and of these we have spoken in part already4 ,there are1 moreover1 certain common offices of humanity1 which are only allowed him as he is a man1 and without any regard either to vice or virtue4 ,to pass over the first point2 the second must be handled with care and distinction1 and not without some seeming exceptions to the general rule2 as first1 here is no choice or intention in the case1 but it is a good office done him for some by-interest1 or by chance4 ,secondly1 ,there is no judgment in it neither1 for it is to a wicked man4 ,but to shorten the matter3 without these circumstances it is not properly a benefit2 or at least not to him2 for it looks another way4 ,i rescue a friend from thieves1 and the other escapes for company4 ,i discharge a debt for a friend1 and the other comes off too3 for they were both in a bond4 ,the third is of a great latitude1 and varies according to the degree of generosity on the one side1 and of wickedness on the other4 ,some benefactors will supererogate1 and do more than they are bound to do2 and some men are so lewd1 that it is dangerous to do them any sort of good2 no1 not so much as by way of return or requital4 ,if the benefactor's bounty must extend to the bad as well as the good2 put the case1 that ,i promise a good office to an ungrateful man2 we are first to distinguish 7as ,i said before7 betwixt a common benefit and a personal2 betwixt what is given for merit and what for company4 ,secondly1 ,whether or not we know the person to be ungrateful1 and can reasonably conclude1 that this vice is incurable4 ,thirdly1 ,a consideration must be had of the promise1 how far that may oblige us4 ,the two first points are cleared both in one3 we cannot justify any particular kindness for one that we conclude to be a hopelessly wicked man3 so that the force of the promise is in the single point in question4 ,in the promise of a good office to a wicked or ungrateful man1 ,i am to blame if ,i did it knowingly2 and ,i am to blame nevertheless1 if ,i did it otherwise3 but ,i must yet make it good1 7under due qualifications17 because ,i promised it2 that is to say1 matters continuing in the same state1 for no man is answerable for accidents4 ,i will sup at such a place though it be cold2 ,i will rise at such an hour though ,i be sleepy2 but if it prove tempestuous1 or that ,i fall sick of a fever1 ,i will neither do the one nor the other4 ,i promise to second a friend in a quarrel1 or to plead his cause2 and when ,i come into the field1 or into the court1 it proves to be against my father or my brother3 ,i promise to go a journey with him1 but there is no traveling upon the road for robbing2 my child is fallen sick2 or my wife is in labor3 these circumstances are sufficient to discharge me2 for a promise against law or duty is void in its own nature4 ,the counsels of a wise man are certain1 but events are uncertain3 and yet if ,i have passed a rash promise1 ,i will in some degree punish the temerity of making it with the damage of keeping it1 unless it turn very much to my shame or detriment1 and then ,i will be my own confessor in the point1 and rather be once guilty of denying1 than always of giving4 ,it is not with a benefit as with a debt--it is one thing to trust an ill paymaster1 and another thing to oblige an unworthy person--the one is an ill man1 and the other only an ill husband4 ,there was a valiant fellow in the army1 that ,philip of ,macedon took particular notice of1 and he gave him several considerable marks of the kindness he had for him4 ,this soldier put to sea and was cast away upon a coast where a charitable neighbor took him up half dead1 carried him to the house1 and there1 at his own charge maintained and provided for him thirty days1 until he was perfectly recovered1 and1 after all1 furnished him over and above1 with a viaticum at parting4 ,the soldier told him the mighty matters that he would do for him in return1 so soon as he should have the honor once again to see his master4 ,to court he goes1 tells ,philip of the wreck1 but not a syllable of his preserver1 and begs the estate of this very man that kept him alive4 ,it was with ,philip as it was with many other princes1 they give they know not what1 especially in a time of war4 ,he granted the soldier his request1 contemplating at the same time1 the impossibility of satisfying so many ravenous appetites as he had to please4 ,when the good man came to be turned out of all1 he was not so mealy-mouthed as to thank his majesty for not giving away his person too as well as his fortune2 but in a bold1 frank letter to ,philip1 made a just report of the whole story4 ,the king was so incensed at the abuse1 that he immediately commanded the right owner to be restored to his estate1 and the unthankful guest and soldier to be stigmatized for an example to others4 ,should ,philip now have kept this promise8 ,first1 he owed the soldier nothing4 ,secondly1 it would have been injurious and impious2 and1 lastly1 a precedent of dangerous consequence to human society2 for it would have been little less than an interdiction of fire and water to the miserable1 to have inflicted such a penalty upon relieving them2 so that there must be always some tacit exception or reserve3 if ,i can1 if ,i may2 or1 if matters continue as they were4 ,if it should be my fortune to receive a benefit from one that afterwards betrays his country1 ,i should still reckon myself obliged to him for such a requital as might stand with my public duty2 ,i would not furnish him with arms1 nor with money or credit1 or levy or pay soldiers2 but ,i should not stick to gratify him at my own expense with such curiosities as might please him one way without doing mischief another4 ,i would not do any thing that might contribute to the support or advantage of his party4 ,but what should ,i do now in the case of a benefactor1 that should afterwards become not only mine and my country's enemy1 but the common enemy of mankind6 ,i would here distinguish betwixt the wickedness of a man and the cruelty of a beast--betwixt a limited or a particular passion and a sanguinary rage that extends to the hazard and destruction of human society4 ,in the former case ,i would quit scores1 that ,i might have no more to do with him2 but if he comes once to delight in blood1 and to act outrages with greediness--to study and invent torments1 and to take pleasure in them--the law of reasonable nature has discharged me of such a debt4 ,but this is an impiety so rare that it might pass for a portent1 and be reckoned among comets and monsters4 ,let us therefore restrain our discourse to such men as we detest without horror2 such men as we see every day in courts1 camps1 and upon the seats of justice2 to such wicked men ,i will return what ,i have received1 without making any advantage of their unrighteousness4 ,it does not divert the ,almighty from being still gracious1 though we proceed daily in the abuse of his bounties4 ,how many there are that enjoy the comfort of the light that do not deserve it2 that wish they had never been born6 and yet ,nature goes quietly on with her work1 and allows them a being1 even in despite of their unthankfulness4 ,such a knave1 we cry1 was better used than ,i3 and the same complaint we extend to ,providence itself4 ,how many wicked men have good crops1 when better than themselves have their fruits blasted6 ,such a man1 we say1 has treated me very ill4 ,why1 what should we do1 but that very thing which is done by ,god himself8 that is to say1 give to the ignorant1 and persevere to the wicked4 ,all our ingratitude1 we see1 does not turn ,providence from pouring down of benefits1 even upon those that question whence they come4 ,the wisdom of ,heaven does all things with a regard to the good of the universe1 and the blessings of nature are granted in common1 to the worst as well as to the best of men2 for they live promiscuously together2 and it is ,god's will1 that the wicked shall rather fare the better for the good1 than that the good shall fare the worse for the wicked4 ,it is true that a wise prince will confer peculiar honors only upon the worthy2 but in the dealing of a public dole1 there is no respect had to the manners of the man2 but a thief or traitor shall put in for a share as well as an honest man4 ,if a good man and a wicked man sail both in the same bottom1 it is impossible that the same wind which favors the one should cross the other4 ,the common benefits of laws1 privileges1 communities1 letters1 and medicines1 are permitted to the bad as well as to the good2 and no man ever yet suppressed a sovereign remedy for fear a wicked man might be cured with it4 ,cities are built for both sorts1 and the same remedy works upon both alike4 ,in these cases1 we are to set an estimate upon the persons3 there is a great difference betwixt the choosing of a man and the not excluding him3 the law is open to the rebellious as well as to the obedient3 there are some benefits which1 if they were not allowed to all1 could not be enjoyed by any4 ,the sun was never made for me1 but for the comfort of the world1 and for the providential order of the seasons2 and yet ,i am not without my private obligation also4 ,to conclude1 he that will oblige the wicked and the ungrateful1 must resolve to oblige nobody2 for in some sort or another we are all of us wicked1 we are all of us ungrateful1 every man of us4 ,we have been discoursing all this while how far a wicked man may be obliged1 and the ,stoics tell us at last1 that he cannot be obliged at all4 ,for they make him incapable of any good1 and consequently of any benefit4 ,but he has this advantage1 that if he cannot be obliged1 he cannot be ungrateful3 for if he cannot receive1 he is not bound to return4 ,on the other side1 a good man and an ungrateful1 are a contradiction3 so that at this rate there is no such thing as ingratitude in nature4 ,they compare a wicked man's mind to a vitiated stomach2 he corrupts whatever he receives1 and the best nourishment turns to the disease4 ,but taking this for granted1 a wicked man may yet so far be obliged as to pass for ungrateful1 if he does not requite what he receives3 for though it be not a perfect benefit1 yet he receives something like it4 ,there are goods of the mind1 the body1 and of fortune4 ,of the first sort1 fools and wicked men are wholly incapable2 to the rest they may be admitted4 ,but why should ,i call any man ungrateful1 you will say1 for not restoring that which ,i deny to be a benefit8 ,i answer1 that if the receiver take it for a benefit1 and fails of a return1 it is ingratitude in him3 for that which goes for an obligation among wicked men1 is an obligation upon them3 and they may pay one another in their own coin2 the money is current1 whether it be gold or leather1 when it comes once to be authorized4 ,nay1 ,cleanthes carries it farther2 he that is wanting1 says he1 to a kind office1 though it be no benefit1 would have done the same thing if it had been one2 and is as guilty as a thief is1 that has set his booty1 and is already armed and mounted with a purpose to seize it1 though he has not yet drawn blood4 ,wickedness is formed in the heart2 and the matter of fact is only the discovery and the execution of it4 ,now1 though a wicked man cannot either receive or bestow a benefit1 because he wants the will of doing good1 and for that he is no longer wicked1 when virtue has taken possession of him2 yet we commonly call it one1 as we call a man illiterate that is not learned1 and naked that is not well clad2 not but that the one can read1 and the other is covered4 ,,chapter ,,xv4 ,a ,,general ,,view ,,of ,,the ,,parts ,,and ,,duties ,,of ,,the ,,benefactor4 ,the three main points in the question of benefits are1 first1 a judicious choice in the object2 secondly1 in the matter of our benevolence2 and thirdly1 a grateful felicity in the manner of expressing it4 ,but there are also incumbent upon the benefactor other considerations1 which will deserve a place in this discourse4 ,it is not enough to do one good turn1 and to do it with a good grace too1 unless we follow it with more1 and without either upbraiding or repining4 ,it is a common shift1 to charge that upon the ingratitude of the receiver1 which1 in truth1 is most commonly the levity and indiscretion of the giver2 for all circumstances must be duly weighed to consummate the action4 ,some there are that we find ungrateful2 but what with our forwardness1 change of humor and reproaches1 there are more that we make so4 ,and this is the business3 we give with design1 and most to those that are able to give most again4 ,we give to the covetous1 and to the ambitious2 to those that can never be thankful1 7for their desires are insatiable17 and to those that will not4 ,he that is a tribune would be prtor2 the prtor1 a consul2 never reflecting upon what he was1 but only looking forward to what he would be4 ,people are still computing1 ,must ,i lose this or that benefit8 ,if it be lost1 the fault lies in the ill bestowing of it2 for rightly placed1 it is as good as consecrated2 if we be deceived in another1 let us not be deceived in ourselves too4 ,a charitable man will mend the matter3 and say to himself1 ,perhaps he has forgot it1 perchance he could not1 perhaps he will yet requite it4 ,a patient creditor will1 of an ill paymaster1 in time make a good one2 an obstinate goodness overcomes an ill disposition1 as a barren soil is made fruitful by care and tillage4 ,but let a man be never so ungrateful or inhuman1 he shall never destroy the satisfaction of my having done a good office4 ,but what if others will be wicked8 does it follow that we must be so too8 ,if others will be ungrateful1 must we therefore be inhuman8 ,to give and to lose1 is nothing2 but to lose and to give still1 is the part of a great mind4 ,and the others in effect is the greater loss2 for the one does but lose his benefit1 and the other loses himself4 ,the light shines upon the profane and sacrilegious as well as upon the righteous4 ,how many disappointments do we meet with in our wives and children1 and yet we couple still8 ,he that has lost one battle hazards another4 ,the mariner puts to sea again after a wreck4 ,an illustrious mind does not propose the profit of a good office1 but the duty4 ,if the world be wicked1 we should yet persevere in well-doing1 even among evil men4 ,i had rather never receive a kindness than never bestow one3 not to return a benefit is the greater sin1 but not to confer it is the earlier4 ,we cannot propose to ourselves a more glorious example than that of the ,almighty1 who neither needs nor expects anything from us2 and yet he is continually showering down and distributing his mercies and his grace among us1 not only for our necessities1 but also for our delights2 as fruits and seasons1 rain and sunshine1 veins of water and of metal2 and all this to the wicked as well as to the good1 and without any other end than the common benefit of the receivers4 ,with what face then can we be mercenary one to another1 that have received all things from ,divine ,providence gratis8 ,it is a common saying1 8,i gave such or such a man so much money3 ,i would ,i had thrown it into the sea20 and yet the merchant trades again after a piracy1 and the banker ventures afresh after a bad security4 ,he that will do no good offices after a disappointment1 must stand still1 and do just nothing at all4 ,the plow goes on after a barren year3 and while the ashes are yet warm1 we raise a new house upon the ruins of a former4 ,what obligations can be greater than those which children receive from their parents8 and yet should we give them over in their infancy1 it were all to no purpose4 ,benefits1 like grain1 must be followed from the seed to the harvest4 ,i will not so much as leave any place for ingratitude4 ,i will pursue1 and ,i will encompass the receiver with benefits2 so that let him look which way he will1 his benefactor shall be still in his eye1 even when he would avoid his own memory3 and then ,i will remit to one man because he calls for it2 to another1 because he does not2 to a third1 because he is wicked2 and to a fourth1 because he is the contrary4 ,i will cast away a good turn upon a bad man1 and ,i will requite a good one2 the one because it is my duty1 and the other that ,i may not be in debt4 ,i do not love to hear any man complain that he has met with a thankless man4 ,if he has met but with one1 he has either been very fortunate or very careful4 ,and yet care is not sufficient3 for there is no way to escape the hazard of losing a benefit but the not bestowing of it1 and to neglect a duty to myself for fear another should abuse it4 ,it is another's fault if he be ungrateful1 but it is mine if ,i do not give4 ,to find one thankful man1 ,i will oblige a great many that are not so4 ,the business of mankind would be at a stand1 if we should do nothing for fear of miscarriages in matters of certain event4 ,i will try and believe all things1 before ,i give any man over1 and do all that is possible that ,i may not lose a good office and a friend together4 ,what do ,i know but he may misunderstand the obligation8 business may have put it out of his head1 or taken him off from it3 he may have slipt his opportunity4 ,i will say1 in excuse of human weakness1 that one man's memory is not sufficient for all things2 it is but a limited capacity1 so as to hold only so much1 and no more3 and when it is once full1 it must let out part of what it had to take in anything beside2 and the last benefit ever sits closest to us4 ,in our youth we forget the obligations of our infancy1 and when we are men we forget those of our youth4 ,if nothing will prevail1 let him keep what he has and welcome2 but let him have a care of returning evil for good1 and making it dangerous for a man to do his duty4 ,i would no more give a benefit for such a man1 than ,i would lend money to a beggarly spendthrift2 or deposit any in the hands of a known knight of the post4 ,however the case stands1 an ungrateful person is never the better for a reproach2 if he be already hardened in his wickedness1 he gives no heed to it2 and if he be not1 it turns a doubtful modesty into an incorrigible impudence3 beside that1 he watches for all ill words to pick a quarrel with them4 ,as the benefactor is not to upbraid a benefit1 so neither to delay it3 the one is tiresome1 and the other odious4 ,we must not hold men in hand1 as physicians and surgeons do their patients1 and keep them longer in fear and pain than needs1 only to magnify the cure4 ,a generous man gives easily1 and receives as he gives1 but never exacts4 ,he rejoices in the return1 and judges favorably of it whatever it be1 and contents himself with bare thanks for a requital4 ,it is a harder matter with some to get the benefit after it is promised than the first promise of it1 there must be so many friends made in the case4 ,one must be desired to solicit another2 and he must be entreated to move a third2 and a fourth must be at last besought to receive it2 so that the author1 upon the upshot1 has the least share in the obligation4 ,it is then welcome when it comes free1 and without deduction2 and no man either to intercept or hinder1 or to detain it4 ,and let it be of such a quality too1 that it be not only delightful in the receiving1 but after it is received2 which it will certainly be1 if we do but observe this rule1 never to do any thing for another which we would not honestly desire for ourselves4 ,,chapter ,,xvi4 ,,how ,,the ,,receiver ,,ought ,,to ,,behave ,,himself4 ,there are certain rules in common betwixt the giver and the receiver4 ,we must do both cheerfully1 that the giver may receive the fruit of his benefit in the very act of bestowing it4 ,it is a just ground of satisfaction to see a friend pleased2 but it is much more to make him so4 ,the intention of the one is to be suited to the intention of the other2 and there must be an emulation betwixt them1 whether shall oblige most4 ,let the one say1 that he has received a benefit1 and let the other persuade himself that he has not returned it4 ,let the one say1 ,i am paid1 and the other1 ,i am yet in your debt2 let the benefactor acquit the receiver1 and the receiver bind himself4 ,the frankness of the discharge heightens the obligation4 ,it is in conversation as in a tennis-court2 benefits are to be tossed like balls2 the longer the rest1 the better are the gamesters4 ,the giver1 in some respect1 has the odds1 because 7as in a race7 he starts first1 and the other must use great diligence to overtake him4 ,the return must be larger than the first obligation to come up to it2 and it is a kind of ingratitude not to render it with interest4 ,in a matter of money1 it is a common thing to pay a debt out of course1 and before it be due2 but we account ourselves to owe nothing for a good office2 whereas the benefit increases by delay4 ,so insensible are we of the most important affair of human life6 ,that man were doubtless in a miserable condition1 that could neither see1 nor hear1 nor taste1 nor feel1 nor smell2 but how much more unhappy is he then that1 wanting a sense of benefits1 loses the greatest comfort in nature in the bliss of giving and receiving them8 ,he that takes a benefit as it is meant is in the right2 for the benefactor has then his end1 and his only end1 when the receiver is grateful4 ,the more glorious part1 in appearance1 is that of the giver2 but the receiver has undoubtedly the harder game to play in many regards4 ,there are some from whom ,i would not accept of a benefit2 that is to say1 from those upon whom ,i would not bestow one4 ,for why should ,i not scorn to receive a benefit where ,i am ashamed to own it8 and ,i would yet be more tender too1 where ,i receive1 than where ,i give2 for it is no torment to be in debt where a man has no mind to pay2 as it is the greatest delight imaginable to be engaged by a friend1 whom ,i should yet have a kindness for2 if ,i were never so much disobliged4 ,it is a pain to an honest and a generous mind to lie under a duty of affection against inclination4 ,i do not speak here of wise men1 that love to do what they ought to do2 that have their passions at command2 that prescribe laws to themselves1 and keep them when they have done2 but of men in a state of imperfection1 that may have a good will perhaps to be honest1 and yet be overborne by the contumacy of their affections4 ,we must therefore have a care to whom we become obliged2 and ,i would be much stricter yet in the choice of a creditor for benefits than for money4 ,in the one case1 it is but paying what ,i had1 and the debt is discharged2 in the other1 ,i do not only owe more1 but when ,i have paid that1 ,i am still in arrear3 and this law is the very foundation of friendship4 ,i will suppose myself a prisoner2 and a notorious villain offers to lay down a good sum of money for my redemption4 ,first1 ,shall ,i make use of this money or not8 ,secondly1 ,if ,i do1 what return shall ,i make him for it8 ,to the first point1 ,i will take it2 but only as a debt2 not as a benefit1 that shall ever tie me to a friendship with him2 and1 secondly1 my acknowledgment shall be only correspondent to such an obligation4 ,it is a school question1 whether or not ,brutus1 that thought ,csar not fit to live1 7and put himself at the head of a conspiracy against him17 could honestly have received his life from ,csar1 if he had fallen into ,csar's power1 without examining what reason moved him to that action8 ,how great a man soever he was in other cases1 without dispute he was extremely out in this1 and below the dignity of his profession4 ,for a ,stoic to fear the name of a king1 when yet monarchy is the best state of government2 or there to hope for liberty1 where so great rewards are propounded1 both for tyrants and their slaves2 for him to imagine ever to bring the laws to their former state1 where so many thousand lives had been lost in the contest1 not so much whether they should serve or not1 but who should be their master3 he was strangely mistaken1 in the nature and reason of things1 to fancy1 that when ,julius was gone1 somebody else would not start up in his place1 when there was yet a ,tarquin found1 after so many kings that were destroyed1 either by sword or thunder3 and yet the resolution is1 that he might have received it1 but not as a benefit2 for at that rate ,i owe my life to every man that does not take it away4 ,grcinus ,julius 7whom ,caligula put to death out of a pure malice to his virtue7 had a considerable sum of money sent him from ,fabius ,persicus 7a man of great and infamous example7 as a contribution towards the expense of plays and other public entertainments2 but ,julius would not receive it2 and some of his friends that had an eye more upon the present than the presenter1 asked him1 with some freedom1 what he meant by refusing it8 8,why10 says he1 8do you think that ,i will take money where ,i would not take so much as a glass of wine80 ,after this ,rebilus 7a man of the same stamp7 sent him a greater sum upon the same score4 8,you must excuse me10 says he to the messenger1 8for ,i would not take any thing of ,persicus neither40 ,to match this scruple of receiving money with another of keeping it2 and the sum not above three pence1 or a groat at most4 ,there was a certain ,pythagorean that contracted with a cobbler for a pair of shoes1 and some three or four days after1 going to pay him his money1 the shop was shut up2 and when he had knocked a great while at the door1 8,friend10 says a fellow1 8you may hammer your heart out there1 for the man that you look for is dead4 ,and when our friends are dead1 we hear no more news of them2 but yours1 that are to live again1 will shift well enough10 7alluding to ,pythagora's transmigration74 ,upon this the philosopher went away1 with his money chinking in his hand1 and well enough content to save it3 at last1 his conscience took check at it2 and1 upon reflection1 8,though the man be dead10 says he1 8to others1 he is alive to thee2 pay him what thou owest him30 and so he went back presently1 and thrust it into his shop through the chink of the door4 ,whatever we owe1 it is our part to find where to pay it1 and to do it without asking too2 for whether the creditor be good or bad1 the debt is still the same4 ,if a benefit be forced upon me1 as from a tyrant1 or a superior1 where it may be dangerous to refuse1 this is rather obeying than receiving1 where the necessity destroys the choice4 ,the way to know what ,i have a mind to do1 is to leave me at liberty whether ,i will do it or not2 but it is yet a benefit1 if a man does me good in spite of my teeth2 as it is none1 if ,i do any man good against my will4 ,a man may both hate and yet receive a benefit at the same time2 the money is never the worse1 because a fool that is not read in coins refuses to take it4 ,if the thing be good for the receiver1 and so intended1 no matter how ill it is taken4 ,nay1 the receiver may be obliged1 and not know it2 but there can be no benefit which is unknown to the giver4 ,neither will ,i1 upon any terms1 receive a benefit from a worthy person that may do him a mischief3 it is the part of an enemy to save himself by doing another man harm4 ,but whatever we do1 let us be sure always to keep a grateful mind4 ,it is not enough to say1 what requital shall a poor man offer to a prince2 or a slave to his patron2 when it is the glory of gratitude that it depends only upon the good will8 ,suppose a man defends my fame2 delivers me from beggary2 saves my life2 or gives me liberty1 that is more than life2 how shall ,i be grateful to that man8 ,i will receive1 cherish1 and rejoice in the benefit4 ,take it kindly1 and it is requited3 not that the debt itself is discharged1 but it is nevertheless a discharge of the conscience4 ,i will yet distinguish betwixt the debtor that becomes insolvent by expenses upon whores and dice1 and another that is undone by fire or thieves2 nor do ,i take this gratitude for a payment1 but there is no danger1 ,i presume1 of being arrested for such a debt4 ,in the return of benefits let us be ready and cheerful but not pressing4 ,there is as much greatness of mind in the owing of a good turn as in doing of it2 and we must no more force a requital out of season than be wanting in it4 ,he that precipitates a return1 does as good as say1 8,i am weary of being in this man's debt30 not but that the hastening of a requital1 as a good office1 is a commendable disposition1 but it is another thing to do it as a discharge2 for it looks like casting off a heavy and a troublesome burden4 ,it is for the benefactor to say when he will receive it2 no matter for the opinion of the world1 so long as ,i gratify my own conscience2 for ,i cannot be mistaken in myself1 but another may4 ,he that is over solicitous to return a benefit1 thinks the other so likewise to receive it4 ,if he had rather we should keep it1 why should we refuse1 and presume to dispose of his treasure1 who may call it in1 or let it lie out1 at his choice8 ,it is as much a fault to receive what ,i ought not1 as not to give what ,i ought2 for the giver has the privilege of choosing his own time of receiving4 ,some are too proud in the conferring of benefits2 others1 in the receiving of them2 which is1 to say the truth1 intolerable4 ,the same rule serves both sides1 as in the case of a father and a son2 a husband and a wife2 one friend or acquaintance and another1 where the duties are known and common4 ,there are some that will not receive a benefit but in private1 nor thank you for it but in your ear1 or in a corner2 there must be nothing under hand and seal1 no brokers1 notaries1 or witnesses1 in the case3 that is not so much a scruple of modesty as a kind of denying the obligation1 and only a less hardened ingratitude4 ,some receive benefits so coldly and indifferently1 that a man would think the obligation lay on the other side3 as who should say1 8,well1 since you will needs have it so1 ,i am content to take it40 ,some again so carelessly1 as if they hardly knew of any such thing1 whereas we should rather aggravate the matter3 8,you cannot imagine how many you have obliged in this act3 there never was so great1 so kind1 so seasonable a courtesy40 ,furnius never gained so much upon ,augustus as by a speech1 upon the getting of his father's pardon for siding with ,antony3 8,this grace10 says he1 8is the only injury that ever ,csar did me3 for it has put me upon a necessity of living and dying ungrateful40 ,it is safer to affront some people than to oblige them2 for the better a man deserves1 the worse they will speak of him3 as if the possessing of open hatred to their benefactors were an argument that they lie under no obligation4 ,some people are so sour and ill-natured1 that they take it for an affront to have an obligation or a return offered them1 to the discouragement both of bounty and gratitude together4 ,the not doing1 and the not receiving1 of benefits1 are equally a mistake4 ,he that refuses a new one1 seems to be offended at an old one3 and yet sometimes ,i would neither return a benefit1 no1 nor so much as receive it1 if ,i might4 ,,chapter ,,xvii4 ,,of ,,gratitude4 ,he that preaches gratitude1 pleads the cause both of ,god and man2 for without it we can neither be sociable nor religious4 ,there is a strange delight in the very purpose and contemplation of it1 as well as in the action2 when ,i can say to myself1 8,i love my benefactor2 what is there in this world that ,i would not do to oblige and serve him80 ,where ,i have not the means of a requital1 the very meditation of it is sufficient4 ,a man is nevertheless an artist for not having his tools about him2 or a musician1 because he wants his fiddle3 nor is he the less brave because his hands are bound2 or the worse pilot for being upon dry ground4 ,if ,i have only will to be grateful1 ,i am so4 ,let me be upon the wheel1 or under the hand of the executioner2 let me be burnt limb by limb1 and my whole body dropping in the flames1 a good conscience supports me in all extremes2 nay1 it is comfortable even in death itself2 for when we come to approach that point1 what care do we take to summon and call to mind all our benefactors1 and the good offices they have done us1 that we leave the world fair1 and set our minds in order8 ,without gratitude1 we can neither have security1 peace1 nor reputation3 and it is not therefore the less desirable1 because it draws many adventitious benefits along with it4 ,suppose the sun1 the moon1 and the stars1 had no other business than only to pass over our heads1 without any effect upon our minds or bodies2 without any regard to our health1 fruits1 or seasons2 a man could hardly lift up his eyes towards the heavens without wonder and veneration1 to see so many millions of radiant lights1 and to observe their courses and revolutions1 even without any respect to the common good of the universe4 ,but when we come to consider that ,providence and ,nature are still at work when we sleep1 with the admirable force and operation of their influences and motions1 we cannot then but acknowledge their ornament to be the least part of their value2 and that they are more to be esteemed for their virtues than for their splendor4 ,their main end and use is matter of life and necessity1 though they may seem to us more considerable for their majesty and beauty4 ,and so it is with gratitude2 we love it rather for secondary ends1 than for itself4 ,no man can be grateful without contemning those things that put the common people out of their wits4 ,we must go into banishment2 lay down our lives2 beggar and expose ourselves to reproaches2 nay1 it is often seen1 that loyalty suffers the punishment due to rebellion1 and that treason receives the rewards of fidelity4 ,as the benefits of it are many and great1 so are the hazards2 which is the case more or less of all other virtues3 and it were hard1 if this1 above the rest1 should be both painful and fruitless3 so that though we may go currently on with it in a smooth way1 we must yet prepare and resolve 7if need be7 to force our passage to it1 even if the way were covered with thorns and serpents2 and fall back1 fall edge1 we must be grateful still3 grateful for the virtue's sake1 and grateful over and above upon the point of interest2 for it preserves old friends1 and gains new ones4 ,it is not our business to fish for one benefit with another2 and by bestowing a little to get more2 or to oblige for any sort of expedience1 but because ,i ought to do it1 and because ,i love it1 and that to such a degree1 that if ,i could not be grateful without appearing the contrary1 if ,i could not return a benefit without being suspected of doing an injury2 in despite of infamy itself1 ,i would yet be grateful4 ,no man is greater in my esteem than he that ventures the fame to preserve the conscience of an honest man2 the one is but imaginary1 the other solid and inestimable4 ,i cannot call him grateful1 who in the instant of returning one benefit has his eye upon another4 ,he that is grateful for profit or fear1 is like a woman that is honest only upon the score of reputation4 ,as gratitude is a necessary and a glorious1 so it is also an obvious1 a cheap1 and an easy virtue2 so obvious1 that wheresoever there is a life there is a place for it--so cheap that the covetous man may be grateful without expense--and so easy that the sluggard may be so1 likewise1 without labor4 ,and yet it is not without its niceties too2 for there may be a time1 a place or occasion wherein ,i ought not to return a benefit2 nay1 wherein ,i may better disown it than deliver it4 ,let it be understood1 by the way1 that it is one thing to be grateful for a good office1 and another thing to return it--the good will is enough in one case1 being as much as the one side demands and the other promises2 but the effect is requisite in the other4 ,the physician that has done his best is acquitted though the patient dies1 and so is the advocate1 though the client may lose his cause4 ,the general of an army1 though the battle be lost1 is yet worthy of commendation1 if he has discharged all the parts of a prudent commander2 in this case1 the one acquits himself1 though the other be never the better for it4 ,he is a grateful man that is always willing and ready3 and he that seeks for all means and occasions of requiting a benefit1 though without attaining his end1 does a great deal more than the man that1 without any trouble1 makes an immediate return4 ,suppose my friend a prisoner1 and that ,i have sold my estate for his ransom2 ,i put to sea in foul weather1 and upon a coast that is pestered with pirates2 my friend happens to be redeemed before ,i come to the place2 my gratitude is as much to be esteemed as if he had been a prisoner2 and if ,i had been taken and robbed myself1 it would still have been the same case4 ,nay1 there is a gratitude in the very countenance2 for an honest man bears his conscience in his face1 and propounds the requital of a good turn in the very moment of receiving it2 he is cheerful and confident2 and1 in the possession of a true friendship1 delivered from all anxiety4 ,there is this difference betwixt a thankful man and an unthankful1 the one is always pleased in the good he has done1 and the other only once in what he has received4 ,there must be a benignity in the estimation even of the smallest offices2 and such a modesty as appears to be obliged in whatsoever it gives4 ,as it is indeed a very great benefit1 the opportunity of doing a good office to a worthy man4 ,he that attends to the present1 and remembers what is past1 shall never be ungrateful4 ,but who shall judge in the case8 for a man may be grateful without making a return1 and ungrateful with it4 ,our best way is to help every thing by a fair interpretation2 and wheresoever there is a doubt1 to allow it the most favorable construction2 for he that is exceptious at words1 or looks1 has a mind to pick a quarrel4 ,for my own part1 when ,i come to cast up my account1 and know what ,i owe1 and to whom1 though ,i make my return sooner to some1 and later to others1 as occasion or fortune will give me leave1 yet ,i will be just to all3 ,i will be grateful to ,god1 to man1 to those that have obliged me3 nay1 even to those that have obliged my friends4 ,i am bound in honor and in conscience to be thankful for what ,i have received2 and if it be not yet full1 it is some pleasure still that ,i may hope for more4 ,for the requital of a favor there must be virtue1 occasion1 means1 and fortune4 ,it is a common thing to screw up justice to the pitch of an injury4 ,a man may be over-righteous2 and why not over-grateful too8 ,there is a mischievous excess1 that borders so close upon ingratitude1 that it is no easy matter to distinguish the one from the other3 but1 in regard that there is good-will in the bottom of it1 7however distempered1 for it is effectually but kindness out of the wits17 we shall discourse it under the title of ,gratitude mistaken4 ,,chapter ,,xviii4 ,,gratitude ,,mistaken4 ,to refuse a good office1 not so much because we do not need it1 as because we would not be indebted for it1 is a kind of fantastical ingratitude1 and somewhat akin to that nicety of humor1 on the other side1 of being over-grateful2 only it lies another way1 and seems to be the more pardonable ingratitude of the two4 ,some people take it for a great instance of their good-will to be wishing their benefactors such or such a mischief2 only1 forsooth1 that they themselves may be the happy instruments of their release4 ,these men do like extravagant lovers1 that take it for a great proof of their affection to wish one another banished1 beggared1 or diseased1 that they might have the opportunity of interposing to their relief4 ,what difference is there betwixt such wishing and cursing8 such an affection and a mortal hatred8 ,the intent is good1 you will say1 but this is a misapplication of it4 ,let such a one fall into my power1 or into the hands of his enemies1 his creditors1 or the common people1 and no mortal be able to rescue him but myself3 let his life1 his liberty1 and his reputation1 lie all at stake1 and no creature but myself in condition to succor him2 and why all this1 but because he has obliged me1 and ,i would requite him8 ,if this be gratitude to propound jails1 shackles1 slavery1 war1 beggary1 to the man that you would requite1 what would you do where you are ungrateful8 ,this way of proceeding1 over and above that it is impious in itself1 is likewise over-hasty and unseasonable3 for he that goes too fast is as much to blame as he that does not move at all1 7to say nothing of the injustice17 for if ,i had never been obliged1 ,i should never have wished it4 ,there are seasons wherein a benefit is neither to be received nor requited4 ,to press a return upon me when ,i do not desire it1 is unmannerly2 but it is worse to force me to desire it4 ,how rigorous would he be to exact a requital2 who is thus eager to return it6 ,to wish a man in distress that ,i may relieve him1 is first to wish him miserable3 to wish that he may stand in need of anybody1 is against him2 and to wish that he may stand in need of me1 is for myself3 so that my business is not so much a charity to my friend as the cancelling of a bond2 nay1 it is half-way the wish of an enemy4 ,it is barbarous to wish a man in chains1 slavery1 or want1 only to bring him out again3 let me rather wish him powerful and happy1 and myself indebted to him6 ,by nature we are prone to mercy1 humanity compassion2 may we be excited to be more so by the number of the grateful6 may their number increase1 and may we have no need of trying them6 ,it is not for an honest man to make way to a good office by a crime3 as if a pilot should pray for a tempest1 that he might prove his skill3 or a general wish his army routed1 that he may show himself a great commander in recovering the day4 ,it is throwing a man into a river to take him out again4 ,it is an obligation1 ,i confess1 to cure a wound or a disease2 but to make that wound or disease on purpose to cure it1 is a most perverse ingratitude4 ,it is barbarous even to an enemy1 much more to a friend2 for it is not so much to do him a kindness1 as to put him in need of it4 ,of the two1 let me rather be a scar than a wound2 and yet it would be better to have it neither4 ,rome had been little beholden to ,scipio if he had prolonged the ,punic war that he might have the finishing of it at last1 or to the ,decii for dying for their country1 if they had first brought it to the last extremity of needing their devotion4 ,it may be a good contemplation1 but it is a lewd wish4 neas had never been surnamed the ,pious1 if he had wished the ruin of his country1 only that he might have the honor of taking his father out of the fire4 ,it is the scandal of a physician to make work1 and irritate a disease1 and to torment his patient1 for the reputation of his cure4 ,if a man should openly imprecate poverty1 captivity1 fear1 or danger1 upon a person that he has been obliged to1 would not the whole world condemn him for it8 ,and what is the difference1 but the one is only a private wish1 and the other a public declaration8 ,rutilius was told in his exile1 that1 for his comfort1 there would be ere-long a civil war1 that would bring all the banished men home again4 8,god forbid10 says he1 8for ,i had rather my country should blush for my banishment than mourn for my return40 ,how much more honorable it is to owe cheerfully1 than to pay dishonestly8 ,it is the wish of an enemy to take a town that he may preserve it1 and to be victorious that he may forgive2 but the mercy comes after the cruelty2 beside that it is an injury both to ,god and man2 for the man must be first afflicted by ,heaven to be relieved by me4 ,so that we impose the cruelty upon ,god1 and take the compassion to ourselves2 and at the best1 it is but a curse that makes way for a blessing2 the bare wish is an injury2 and if it does not take effect1 it is because ,heaven has not heard our prayers2 or if they should succeed1 the fear itself is a torment2 and it is much more desirable to have a firm and unshaken security4 ,it is friendly to wish it in your power to oblige me1 if ever ,i chance to need it2 but it is unkind to wish me miserable that ,i may need it4 ,how much more pious is it1 and humane1 to wish that ,i may never want the occasion of obliging1 nor the means of doing it2 nor ever have reason to repent of what ,i have done8 ,,chapter ,,xix4 ,,of ,,ingratitude4 ,ingratitude is of all the crimes1 that which we are to account the most venial in others1 and the most unpardonable in ourselves4 ,it is impious to the highest degree2 for it makes us fight against our children and our altars4 ,there are1 there ever were1 and there ever will be criminals of all sorts1 as murderers1 tyrants1 thieves1 adulterers1 traitors1 robbers and sacrilegious persons2 but there is hardly any notorious crime without a mixture of ingratitude4 ,it disunites mankind1 and breaks the very pillars of society2 and yet so far is this prodigious wickedness from being any wonder to us1 that even thankfulness itself were much the greater of the two2 for men are deterred from it by labor1 expense1 laziness1 business2 or else diverted from it by lust1 envy1 ambition1 pride1 levity1 rashness1 fear2 nay1 by the very shame of confessing what they have received4 ,and the unthankful man has nothing to say for himself all this while1 for there needs neither pains or fortune for the discharge of his duty1 beside the inward anxiety and torment when a man's conscience makes him afraid of his own thoughts4 ,to speak against the ungrateful is to rail against mankind1 for even those that complain are guilty3 nor do ,i speak only of those that do not live up to the strict rule of virtue2 but mankind itself is degenerated and lost4 ,we live unthankfully in this world1 and we go struggling and murmuring out of it1 dissatisfied with our lot1 whereas we should be grateful for the blessings we have enjoyed1 and account that sufficient which ,providence has provided for us2 a little more time may make our lives longer but not happier1 and whensoever it is the pleasure of ,god to call us1 we must obey2 and yet all this while we go on quarreling at the world for what we find in ourselves1 and we are yet more unthankful to ,heaven than we are to one another4 ,what benefit can be great now to that man that despises the bounties of his ,maker8 ,we would be as strong as elephants1 as swift as bucks1 as light as birds--and we complain that we have not the sagacity of dogs1 the sight of eagles1 the long life of ravens--nay1 that we are not immortal1 and endued with the knowledge of things to come3 nay1 we take it ill that we are not gods upon earth1 never considering the advantages of our condition1 or the benignity of ,providence in the comforts that we enjoy4 ,we subdue the strongest of creatures and overtake the fleetest--we reclaim the fiercest and outwit the craftiest4 ,we are within one degree of heaven itself1 and yet we are not satisfied4 ,since there is not any one creature which we had rather be1 we take it ill that we cannot draw the united excellencies of all other creatures into ourselves4 ,why are we not rather thankful to that goodness which has subjected the whole creation to our use and service8 ,the principal causes of ingratitude are pride and self-conceit1 avarice1 envy1 etc4 ,it is a familiar exclamation1 8,it is true he did this or that for me1 but it came so late1 and it was so little1 ,i had even as good have been without it--if he had not given it to me1 he must have given it to somebody else--it was nothing out of his pocket40 ,nay1 we are so ungrateful1 that he that gives us all we have1 if he leaves any thing to himself1 we reckon that he does us an injury4 ,it cost ,julius ,csar his life by the disappointment of his insatiable companions2 and yet he reserved nothing of all that he got to himself but the liberty of disposing of it4 ,there is no benefit so large but malignity will still lessen it2 none so narrow1 which a good interpretation will not enlarge4 ,no man shall ever be grateful that views a benefit on the wrong side1 or takes a good office by the wrong handle4 ,the avaricious man is naturally ungrateful1 for he never thinks he has enough1 but1 without considering what he has1 only minds what he covets4 ,some pretend want of power to make a competent return1 and you shall find in others a kind of graceless modesty1 that makes a man ashamed of requiting an obligation1 because it is a confession that he has received one4 ,not to return one good office for another is inhuman2 but to return evil for good is diabolical4 ,there are too many even of this sort1 who1 the more they owe1 the more they hate4 ,there is nothing more dangerous than to oblige those people2 for when they are conscious of not paying the debt1 they wish the creditor out of the way4 ,it is a mortal hatred1 that which arises from the shame of an abused benefit4 ,when we are on the asking side1 what a deal of cringing there is1 and profession6 8,well1 ,i shall never forget this favor1 it will be an eternal obligation to me40 ,but within a while the note is changed1 and we hear no more words of it1 until1 by little and little1 it is all quite forgotten4 ,so long as we stand in need of a benefit1 there is nothing dearer to us2 nor anything cheaper1 when we have received it4 ,and yet a man may as well refuse to deliver up a sum of money that is left him in trust without a suit1 as not to return a good office without asking2 and when we have no value any farther for the benefit1 we do commonly care as little for the author4 ,people follow their interest3 one man is grateful for his convenience1 and another man is ungrateful for the same reason4 ,some are ungrateful to their own country1 and their country no less ungrateful to others2 so that the complaint of ingratitude reaches all men4 ,doth not the son wish for the death of his father1 the husband for that of his wife1 etc4 ,but who can look for gratitude in an age of so many gaping and craving appetites1 where all people take1 and none give8 ,in an age of license to all sorts of vanity and wickedness1 as lust1 gluttony1 avarice1 envy1 ambition1 sloth1 insolence1 levity1 contumacy1 fear1 rashness1 private discords and public evils1 extravagant and groundless wishes1 vain confidences1 sickly affections1 shameless impieties1 rapine authorized1 and the violation of all things1 sacred and profane3 obligations are pursued with sword and poison2 benefits are turned into crimes1 and that blood most seditiously spilt for which every honest man should expose his own4 ,those that should be the preservers of their country are the destroyers of it2 and it is a matter of dignity to trample upon the government3 the sword gives the law1 and mercenaries take up arms against their masters4 ,among these turbulent and unruly motions1 what hope is there of finding honesty or good faith1 which is the quietest of all virtues8 ,there is no more lively image of human life than that of a conquered city2 there is neither mercy1 modesty1 nor religion2 and if we forget our lives1 we may well forget our benefits4 ,the world abounds with examples of ungrateful persons1 and no less with those of ungrateful governments4 ,was not ,catiline ungrateful8 whose malice aimed1 not only at the mastering of his country1 but at the total destruction of it1 by calling in an inveterate and vindictive enemy from beyond the ,alps1 to wreak their long-thirsted-for revenge1 and to sacrifice the lives of as many noble ,romans as might serve to answer and appease the ghosts of the slaughtered ,gauls8 ,was not ,marius ungrateful1 that1 from a common soldier1 being raised up to a consul1 not only gave the world for civil bloodshed and massacres1 but was himself the sign of the execution2 and every man he met in the streets1 to whom he did not stretch out his right hand1 was murdered8 ,and was not ,sylla ungrateful too8 that when he had waded up to the gates in human blood1 carried the outrage into the city1 and there most barbarously cut two entire legions to pieces in a corner1 not only after the victory1 but most perfidiously after quarter given them8 ,good ,god6 that ever any man should not only escape with impunity1 but receive a reward for so horrid a villainy6 ,was not ,pompey ungrateful too8 who1 after three consulships1 three triumphs1 and so many honors1 usurped before his time1 split the commonwealth into three parts1 and brought it to such a pass1 that there was no hope of safety but by slavery only2 forsooth1 to abate the envy of his power1 he took other partners with him into the government1 as if that which was not lawful for any one might have been allowable for more2 dividing and distributing the provinces1 and breaking all into a triumvirate1 reserving still two parts of the three in his own family4 ,and was not ,csar ungrateful also1 though to give him his due1 he was a man of his word2 merciful in his victories1 and never killed any man but with his sword in his hand8 ,let us therefore forgive one another4 ,only one word more now for the shame of ungrateful ,governments4 ,was not ,camillus banished8 ,scipio dismissed8 and ,cicero exiled and plundered8 ,but1 what is all this to those who are so mad1 and to dispute even the goodness of ,heaven1 which gives us all1 and expects nothing again1 but continues giving to the most unthankful and complaining8 ,,chapter ,,xx4 ,,there ,,can ,,be ,,no ,,law ,,against ,,ingratitude4 ,ingratitude is so dangerous to itself1 and so detestable to other people1 that nature1 one would think1 had sufficiently provided against it1 without need of any other law4 ,for every ungrateful man is his own enemy1 and it seems superfluous to compel a man to be kind to himself1 and to follow in his own inclinations4 ,this1 of all wickedness imaginable1 is certainly the vice which does the most divide and distract human nature4 ,without the exercise and the commerce of mutual offices1 we can be neither happy nor safe for it is only society that secures us3 take us one by one1 and we are a prey even to brutes as well as to one another4 ,nature has brought us into the world naked and unarmed2 we have not the teeth or the paws of lions or bears to make ourselves terrible2 but by the two blessings of reason and union1 we secure and defend ourselves against violence and fortune4 ,this it is that makes man the master of all other creatures1 who otherwise were scarce a match for the weakest of them4 ,this it is that comforts us in sickness1 in age1 in misery1 in pains1 and in the worst of calamities4 ,take away this combination1 and mankind is dissociated1 and falls to pieces4 ,it is true1 that there is no law established against this abominable vice2 but we cannot say yet that it escapes unpunished1 for a public hatred is certainly the greatest of all penalties2 over and above that we lose the most valuable blessings of life1 in the not bestowing and receiving of benefits4 ,if ingratitude were to be punished by a law1 it would discredit the obligation2 for a benefit to be given1 not lent3 and if we have no return at all1 there is no just cause of complaint3 for gratitude were no virtue1 if there were any danger in being ungrateful4 ,there are halters1 ,i know1 hooks and gibbets1 provided for homicide poison1 sacrilege1 and rebellion2 but ingratitude 7here upon earth7 is only punished in the schools2 all farther pains and inflictions being wholly remitted to divine justice4 ,and1 if a man may judge of the conscience by the countenance the ungrateful man is never without a canker at his heart2 his mind an aspect is sad and solicitous2 whereas the other is always cheerful and serene4 ,as there are no laws extant against ingratitude1 so is it utterly impossible to contrive any1 that in all circumstances shall reach it4 ,if it were actionable1 there would not be courts enough in the whole world to try the causes in4 ,there can be no setting a day for the requiting of benefits as for the payment of money1 nor any estimate upon the benefits themselves2 but the whole matter rests in the conscience of both parties3 and then there are so many degrees of it1 that the same rule will never serve all4 ,beside that1 to proportion it as the benefit is greater or less1 will be both impracticable and without reason4 ,one good turn saves my life2 another1 my freedom1 or peradventure my very soul4 ,how shall any law now suit a punishment to an ingratitude under these differing degrees8 ,it must not be said in benefits as in bonds1 ,pay what you owe4 ,how shall a man pay life1 health1 credit1 security1 in kind8 ,there can be no set rule to bound that infinite variety of cases1 which are more properly the subject of humanity and religion than of law and public justice4 ,there would be disputes also about the benefit itself1 which must totally depend upon the courtesy of the judge2 for no law imaginable can set it forth4 ,one man gives me an estate2 another only lends me a sword1 and that sword preserves my life4 ,nay1 the very same thing1 several ways done1 changes the quality of the obligation4 ,a word1 a tone1 a look1 makes a great alteration in the case4 ,how shall we judge then1 and determine a matter which does not depend upon the fact itself1 but upon the force and intention of it8 ,some things are reputed benefits1 not for their value1 but because we desire them3 and there are offices of as much greater value1 that we do not reckon upon at all4 ,if ingratitude were liable to a law1 we must never give but before witnesses1 which would overthrow the dignity of the benefit3 and then the punishment must either be equal where the crimes are unequal1 or else it must be unrighteous1 so that blood must answer for blood4 ,he that is ungrateful for my saving his life must forfeit his own4 ,and what can be more inhuman than that benefits should conclude in sanguinary events8 ,a man saves my life1 and ,i am ungrateful for it4 ,shall ,i be punished in my purse8 that is too little2 if it be less than the benefit1 it is unjust1 and it must be capital to be made equal to it4 ,there are1 moreover1 certain privileges granted to parents1 that can never be reduced to a common rule4 ,their injuries may be cognizable1 but not their benefits4 ,the diversity of cases is too large and intricate to be brought within the prospect of a law3 so that it is much more equitable to punish none than to punish all alike4 ,what if a man follows a good office with an injury2 whether or no shall this quit scores8 or who shall compare them1 and weigh the one against the other8 ,there is another thing yet which perhaps we do not dream of3 not one man upon the face of the earth would escape1 and yet every man would expect to be his judge4 ,once again1 we are all of us ungrateful2 and the number does not only take away the shame1 but gives authority and protection to the wickedness4 ,it is thought reasonable by some1 that there should be a law against ingratitude2 for1 say they1 it is common for one city to upbraid another1 and to claim that of posterity which was bestowed upon their ancestors2 but this is only clamor without reason4 ,it is objected by others1 as a discouragement to good offices1 if men shall not be made answerable for them2 but ,i say1 on the other side1 that no man would accept of a benefit upon those terms4 ,he that gives is prompted to it by a goodness of mind1 and the generosity of the action is lessened by the caution3 for it is his desire that the receiver should please himself1 and owe no more than he thinks fit4 ,but what if this might occasion fewer benefits1 so long as they would be franker8 nor is there any hurt in putting a check upon rashness and profusion4 ,in answer to this2 men will be careful enough when they oblige without a law3 nor is it possible for a judge ever to set us right in it2 or indeed1 anything else1 but the faith of the receiver4 ,the honor of a benefit is this way preserved1 which is otherwise profaned1 when it comes to the mercenary1 and made matter of contention4 ,we are even forward enough of ourselves to wrangle1 without necessary provocations4 ,it would be well1 ,i think1 if moneys might pass upon the same conditions with other benefits1 and the payment remitted to the conscience1 without formalizing upon bills and securities3 but human wisdom has rather advised with convenience than virtue2 and chosen rather to force honesty than expect it4 ,for every paltry sum of money there must be bonds1 witnesses1 counterparts1 powers1 etc41 which is no other than a shameful confession of fraud and wickedness1 when more credit is given to our seals than to our minds2 and caution taken lest he that has received the money should deny it4 ,were it not better now to be deceived by some than to suspect all8 what is the difference1 at this rate1 betwixt the benefactor and the usurer1 save only that in the benefactor's case there is nobody stands bound8 ,,seneca ,,of ,a ,,happy ,,life4 ,,chapter ,i4 ,,of ,a ,,happy ,,life1 ,,and ,,wherein ,,it ,,consists4 ,there is not any thing in this world1 perhaps1 that is more talked of1 and less understood1 than the business of a happy life4 ,it is every man's wish and design2 and yet not one of a thousand that knows wherein that happiness consists4 ,we live1 however1 in a blind and eager pursuit of it2 and the more haste we make in a wrong way1 the further we are from our journey's end4 ,let us therefore1 first1 consider 8what it is we should be at20 and1 secondly1 8which is the readiest way to compass it40 ,if we be right1 we shall find every day how much we improve2 but if we either follow the cry1 or the track1 of people that are out of the way1 we must expect to be misled1 and to continue our days in wandering in error4 ,wherefore1 it highly concerns us to take along with us a skilful guide2 for it is not in this1 as in other voyages1 where the highway brings us to our place of repose2 or if a man should happen to be out1 where the inhabitants might set him right again3 but on the contrary1 the beaten road is here the most dangerous1 and the people1 instead of helping us1 misguide us4 ,let us not therefore follow1 like beasts1 but rather govern ourselves by reason1 than by example4 ,it fares with us in human life as in a routed army2 one stumbles first1 and then another falls upon him1 and so they follow1 one upon the neck of another1 until the whole field comes to be but one heap of miscarriages4 ,and the mischief is1 8that the number of the multitude carries it against truth and justice20 so that we must leave the crowd1 if we would be happy3 for the question of a happy life is not to be decided by vote3 nay1 so far from it1 that plurality of voices is still an argument of the wrong2 the common people find it easier to believe than to judge1 and content themselves with what is usual1 never examining whether it be good or not4 ,by the common people is intended the man of title as well as the clouted shoe3 for ,i do not distinguish them by the eye1 but by the mind1 which is the proper judge of the man4 ,worldly felicity1 ,i know1 makes the head giddy2 but if ever a man comes to himself again1 he will confess1 that 8whatsoever he has done1 he wishes undone20 and that 8the things he feared were better than those he prayed for40 ,the true felicity of life is to be free from perturbations1 to understand our duties towards ,god and man3 to enjoy the present without any anxious dependence upon the future4 ,not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears1 but to rest satisfied with what we have1 which is abundantly sufficient2 for he that is so1 wants nothing4 ,the great blessings of mankind are within us1 and within our reach2 but we shut our eyes1 and1 like people in the dark1 we fall foul upon the very thing which we search for without finding it4 8,tranquillity is a certain equality of mind1 which no condition of fortune can either exalt or depress40 ,nothing can make it less3 for it is the state of human perfection3 it raises us as high as we can go2 and makes every man his own supporter2 whereas he that is borne up by any thing else may fall4 ,he that judges aright1 and perseveres in it1 enjoys a perpetual calm3 he takes a true prospect of things2 he observes an order1 measure1 a decorum in all his actions2 he has a benevolence in his nature2 he squares his life according to reason2 and draws to himself love and admiration4 ,without a certain and an unchangeable judgment1 all the rest is but fluctuation3 but 8he that always wills and nills the same thing1 is undoubtedly in the right40 ,liberty and serenity of mind must necessarily ensue upon the mastering of those things which either allure or affright us2 when instead of those flashy pleasures1 7which even at the best are both vain and hurtful together17 we shall find ourselves possessed of joy transporting and everlasting4 ,it must be a sound mind that makes a happy man2 there must be a constancy in all conditions1 a care for the things of this world1 but without trouble2 and such an indifferency for the bounties of fortune1 that either with them1 or without them1 we may live contentedly4 ,there must be neither lamentation1 nor quarrelling1 nor sloth1 nor fear2 for it makes a discord in a man's life4 8,he that fears1 serves40 ,the joy of a wise man stands firm without interruption2 in all places1 at all times1 and in all conditions1 his thoughts are cheerful and quiet4 ,as it never came in to him from without1 so it will never leave him2 but it is born within him1 and inseparable from him4 ,it is a solicitous life that is egged on with the hope of any thing1 though never so open and easy1 nay1 though a man should never suffer any sort of disappointment4 ,i do not speak this either as a bar to the fair enjoyment of lawful pleasures1 or to the gentle flatteries of reasonable expectations3 but1 on the contrary1 ,i would have men to be always in good humor1 provided that it arises from their own souls1 and be cherished in their own breasts4 ,other delights are trivial2 they may smooth the brow1 but they do not fill and affect the heart4 8,true joy is a serene and sober motion20 and they are miserably out that take laughing for rejoicing4 ,the seat of it is within1 and there is no cheerfulness like the resolution of a brave mind1 that has fortune under his feet4 ,he that can look death in the face1 and bid it welcome2 open his door to poverty1 and bridle his appetites2 this is the man whom ,providence has established in the possession of inviolable delights4 ,the pleasures of the vulgar are ungrounded1 thin1 and superficial2 but the others are solid and eternal4 ,as the body itself is rather a necessary thing1 than a great2 so the comforts of it are but temporary and vain2 beside that1 without extraordinary moderation1 their end is only pain and repentance2 whereas a peaceful conscience1 honest thoughts1 virtuous actions1 and an indifference for casual events1 are blessings without end1 satiety1 or measure4 ,this consummated state of felicity is only a submission to the dictate of right nature2 8,the foundation of it is wisdom and virtue2 the knowledge of what we ought to do1 and the conformity of the will to that knowledge40 ,,chapter ,,ii4 ,,human ,,happiness ,,is ,,founded ,,upon ,,wisdom ,,and ,,virtue2 ,,and ,,first1 ,,of ,,wisdom4 ,taking for granted that human happiness is founded upon wisdom and virtue we shall treat of these two points in order as they lie3 and1 first1 of wisdom2 not in the latitude of its various operations but as it has only a regard to good life1 and the happiness of mankind4 ,wisdom is a right understanding1 a faculty of discerning good from evil2 what is to be chosen1 and what rejected2 a judgment grounded upon the value of things1 and not the common opinion of them2 an equality of force1 and a strength of resolution4 ,it sets a watch over our words and deeds1 it takes us up with the contemplation of the works of nature1 and makes us invincible by either good or evil fortune4 ,it is large and spacious1 and requires a great deal of room to work in2 it ransacks heaven and earth2 it has for its object things past and to come1 transitory and eternal4 ,it examines all the circumstances of time2 8what it is1 when it began1 and how long it will continue3 and so for the mind2 whence it came2 what it is2 when it begins2 how long it lasts2 whether or not it passes from one form to another1 or serves only one and wanders when it leaves us2 whether it abides in a state of separation1 and what the action of it2 what use it makes of its liberty2 whether or not it retains the memory of things past1 and comes to the knowledge of itself40 ,it is the habit of a perfect mind1 and the perfection of humanity1 raised as high as ,nature can carry it4 ,it differs from philosophy1 as avarice and money2 the one desires1 and the other is desired2 the one is the effect and the reward of the other4 ,to be wise is the use of wisdom1 as seeing is the use of eyes1 and well-speaking the use of eloquence4 ,he that is perfectly wise is perfectly happy2 nay1 the very beginning of wisdom makes life easy to us4 ,neither is it enough to know this1 unless we print it in our minds by daily meditation1 and so bring a good-will to a good habit4 ,and we must practice what we preach3 for philosophy is not a subject for popular ostentation2 nor does it rest in words1 but in things4 ,it is not an entertainment taken up for delight1 or to give a taste to our leisure2 but it fashions the mind1 governs our actions1 tells us what we are to do1 and what not4 ,it sits at the helm1 and guides us through all hazards2 nay1 we cannot be safe without it1 for every hour gives us occasion to make use of it4 ,it informs us in all duties of life1 piety to our parents1 faith to our friends1 charity to the miserable1 judgment in counsel2 it gives us peace by fearing nothing1 and riches by coveting nothing4 ,there is no condition of life that excludes a wise man from discharging his duty4 ,if his fortune be good1 he tempers it2 if bad1 he masters it2 if he has an estate1 he will exercise his virtue in plenty2 if none1 in poverty3 if he cannot do it in his country1 he will do it in banishment2 if he has no command1 he will do the office of a common soldier4 ,some people have the skill of reclaiming the fiercest of beasts2 they will make a lion embrace his keeper1 a tiger kiss him1 and an elephant kneel to him4 ,this is the case of a wise man in the extremest difficulties2 let them be never so terrible in themselves1 when they come to him once1 they are perfectly tame4 ,they that ascribe the invention of tillage1 architecture1 navigation1 etc41 to wise men1 may perchance be in the right1 that they were invented by wise men1 as wise men2 for wisdom does not teach our fingers1 but our minds3 fiddling and dancing1 arms and fortifications1 were the works of luxury and discord2 but wisdom instructs us in the way of nature1 and in the arts of unity and concord1 not in the instruments1 but in the government of life2 not to make us live only1 but to live happily4 ,she teaches us what things are good1 what evil1 and what only appear so2 and to distinguish betwixt true greatness and tumor4 ,she clears our minds of dross and vanity2 she raises up our thoughts to heaven1 and carries them down to hell3 she discourses of the nature of the soul1 the powers and faculties of it2 the first principles of things2 the order of ,providence3 she exalts us from things corporeal to things incorporeal1 and retrieves the truth of all3 she searches nature1 gives laws to life2 and tells us1 8,that it is not enough to ,god1 unless we obey him30 she looks upon all accidents as acts of ,providence3 sets a true value upon things2 delivers us from false opinions1 and condemns all pleasures that are attended with repentance4 ,she allows nothing to be good that will not be so forever2 no man to be happy but that needs no other happiness than what he has within himself4 ,this is the felicity of human life2 a felicity that can neither be corrupted nor extinguished3 it inquires into the nature of the heavens1 the influence of the stars2 how far they operate upon our minds and bodies3 which thoughts1 though they do not form our manners1 they do yet raise and dispose us for glorious things4 ,it is agreed upon all hands that 8right reason is the perfection of human nature10 and wisdom only the dictate of it4 ,the greatness that arises from it is solid and unmovable1 the resolutions of wisdom being free1 absolute and constant2 whereas folly is never long pleased with the same thing1 but still shifting of counsels and sick of itself4 ,there can be no happiness without constancy and prudence1 for a wise man is to write without a blot1 and what he likes once he approves for ever4 ,he admits of nothing that is either evil or slippery1 but marches without staggering or stumbling1 and is never surprised2 he lives always true and steady to himself1 and whatsoever befalls him1 this great artificer of both fortunes turns to advantage2 he that demurs and hesitates is not yet composed2 but wheresoever virtue interposes upon the main1 there must be concord and consent in the parts2 for all virtues are in agreement1 as well as all vices are at variance4 ,a wise man1 in what condition soever he is will be still happy1 for he subjects all things to himself1 because he submits himself to reason1 and governs his actions by council1 not by passion4 ,he is not moved with the utmost violence of fortune1 nor with the extremities of fire and sword2 whereas a fool is afraid of his own shadow1 and surprised at ill accidents1 as if they were all levelled at him4 ,he does nothing unwillingly1 for whatever he finds necessary1 he makes it his choice4 ,he propounds to himself the certain scope and end of human life3 he follows that which conduces to it1 and avoids that which hinders it4 ,he is content with his lot whatever it be1 without wishing what he has not1 though1 of the two1 he had rather abound than want4 ,the great business of his life like that of nature1 is performed without tumult or noise4 ,he neither fears danger or provokes it1 but it is his caution1 not any want of courage--for captivity1 wounds and chains1 he only looks upon as false and lymphatic terrors4 ,he does not pretend to go through with whatever he undertakes1 but to do that well which he does4 ,arts are but the servants--wisdom commands--and where the matter fails it is none of the workman's fault4 ,he is cautelous in doubtful cases1 in prosperity temperate1 and resolute in adversity1 still making the best of every condition and improving all occasions to make them serviceable to his fate4 ,some accidents there are1 which ,i confess may affect him1 but not overthrow him1 as bodily pains1 loss of children and friends1 the ruin and desolation of a man's country4 ,one must be made of stone or iron1 not to be sensible of these calamities2 and1 beside1 it were no virtue to bear them1 if a body did not feel them4 ,there are three degrees of proficients in the school of wisdom4 ,the first are those that come within sight of it1 but not up to it--they have learned what they ought to do1 but they have not put their knowledge in practice--they are past the hazard of a relapse1 but they have still the grudges of a disease1 though they are out of the danger of it4 ,by a disease ,i do understand an obstinacy in evil1 or an ill habit1 that makes us over eager upon things which are either not much to be desired1 or not at all4 ,a second sort are those that have subjected their appetites for a season1 but are yet in fear of falling back4 ,a third sort are those that are clear of many vices but not of all4 ,they are not covetous1 but perhaps they are choleric--nor lustful1 but perchance ambitious2 they are firm enough in some cases but weak enough in others3 there are many that despise death and yet shrink at pain4 ,there are diversities in wise men1 but no inequalities--one is more affable1 another more ready1 a third a better speaker2 but the felicity of them all is equal4 ,it is in this as in heavenly bodies1 there is a certain state in greatness4 ,in civil and domestic affairs1 a wise man may stand in need of counsel1 as of a physician1 an advocate1 a solicitor2 but in greater matters1 the blessing of wise men rests in the joy they take in the communication of their virtues4 ,if there were nothing else in it1 a man would apply himself to wisdom1 because it settles him in a perfect tranquillity of mind4 ,,chapter ,,iii4 ,,there ,,can ,,be ,,no ,,happiness ,,without ,,virtue4 ,virtue is that perfect good which is the complement of a happy life2 the only immortal thing that belongs to mortality--it is the knowledge both of others and itself--it is an invincible greatness of mind1 not to be elevated or dejected with good or ill fortune4 ,it is sociable and gentle1 free1 steady1 and fearless1 content within itself1 full of inexhaustible delights1 and it is valued for itself4 ,one may be a good physician1 a good governor1 a good grammarian1 without being a good man1 so that all things from without are only accessories1 for the seat of it is a pure and holy mind4 ,it consists in a congruity of actions which we can never expect so long as we are distracted by our passions3 not but that a man may be allowed to change color and countenance1 and suffer such impressions as are properly a kind of natural force upon the body1 and not under the dominion of the mind2 but all this while ,i will have his judgment firm1 and he shall act steadily and boldly1 without wavering betwixt the motions of his body and those of his mind4 ,it is not a thing indifferent1 ,i know1 whether a man lies at ease upon a bed1 or in torment upon a wheel--and yet the former may be the worse of the two if he suffer the latter with honor1 and enjoy the other with infamy4 ,it is not the matter1 but the virtue1 that makes the action good or ill2 and he that is led in triumph may be yet greater than his conqueror4 ,when we come once to value our flesh above our honesty we are lost3 and yet ,i would not press upon dangers1 no1 not so much as upon inconveniences1 unless where the man and the brute come in competition2 and in such a case1 rather than make a forfeiture of my credit1 my reason1 or my faith1 ,i would run all extremities4 ,they are great blessings to have tender parents1 dutiful children1 and to live under a just and well-ordered government4 ,now1 would it not trouble even a virtuous man to see his children butchered before his eyes1 his father made a slave1 and his country overrun by a barbarous enemy8 ,there is a great difference betwixt the simple loss of a blessing and the succeeding of a great mischief in the place of it1 over and above4 ,the loss of health is followed with sickness1 and the loss of sight with blindness2 but this does not hold in the loss of friends and children1 where there is rather something to the contrary to supply that loss3 that is to say1 virtue1 which fills the mind1 and takes away the desire of what we have not4 ,what matters it whether the water be stopped or not1 so long as the fountain is safe8 ,is a man ever the wiser for a multitude of friends1 or the more foolish for the loss of them8 so neither is he the happier1 nor the more miserable4 ,short life1 grief and pain are accessions that have no effect at all upon virtue4 ,it consists in the action and not in the things we do--in the choice itself1 and not in the subject-matter of it4 ,it is not a despicable body or condition1 nor poverty1 infamy or scandal1 that can obscure the glories of virtue2 but a man may see her through all oppositions3 and he that looks diligently into the state of a wicked man will see the canker at his heart1 through all the false and dazzling splendors of greatness and fortune4 ,we shall then discover our childishness1 in setting our hearts upon things trivial and contemptible1 and in the selling of our very country and parents for a rattle4 ,and what is the difference 7in effect7 betwixt old men and children1 but that the one deals in paintings and statues1 and the other in babies1 so that we ourselves are only the more expensive fools4 ,if one could but see the mind of a good man1 as it is illustrated with virtue2 the beauty and the majesty of it1 which is a dignity not so much as to be thought of without love and veneration--would not a man bless himself at the sight of such an object as at the encounter of some supernatural power--a power so miraculous that it is a kind of charm upon the souls of those that are truly affected with it4 ,there is so wonderful a grace and authority in it that even the worst of men approve it1 and set up for the reputation of being accounted virtuous themselves4 ,they covet the fruit indeed1 and the profit of wickedness2 but they hate and are ashamed of the imputation of it4 ,it is by an impression of ,nature that all men have a reverence for virtue--they know it and they have a respect for it though they do not practice it--nay1 for the countenance of their very wickedness1 they miscall it virtue4 ,their injuries they call benefits1 and expect a man should thank them for doing him a mischief--they cover their most notorious iniquities with a pretext of justice4 ,he that robs upon the highway had rather find his booty than force it2 ask any of them that live upon rapine1 fraud1 oppression1 if they had not rather enjoy a fortune honestly gotten1 and their consciences will not suffer them to deny it4 ,men are vicious only for the proof of villainy2 for at the same time that they commit it they condemn it2 nay1 so powerful is virtue1 and so gracious is ,providence1 that every man has a light set up within him for a guide1 which we do1 all of us1 both see and acknowledge1 though we do not pursue it4 ,this it is that makes the prisoner upon the torture happier than the executioner1 and sickness better than health1 if we bear it without yielding or repining--this it is that overcomes ill-fortune and moderates good--for it marches betwixt the one and the other1 with an equal contempt for both4 ,it turns 7like fire7 all things into itself1 our actions and our friendships are tinctured with it1 and whatever it touches becomes amiable4 ,that which is frail and mortal rises and falls1 grows1 wastes1 and varies from itself2 but the state of things divine is always the same2 and so is virtue1 let the matter be what it will4 ,it is never the worse for the difficulty of the action1 nor the better for the easiness of it4 ,it is the same in a rich man as in a poor2 in a sickly man as in a sound2 in a strong as in a weak2 the virtue of the besieged is as great as that of the besiegers4 ,there are some virtues1 ,i confess1 which a good man cannot be without1 and yet he had rather have no occasion to employ them4 ,if there were any difference1 ,i should prefer the virtues of patience before those of pleasure2 for it is braver to break through difficulties than to temper our delights4 ,but though the subject of virtue may possibly be against nature1 as to be burnt or wounded1 yet the virtue itself of an invincible patience is according to nature4 ,we may seem1 perhaps1 to promise more than human nature is able to perform2 but we speak with a respect to the mind1 and not to the body4 ,if a man does not live up to his own rules1 it is something yet to have virtuous meditations and good purposes1 even without acting2 it is generous1 the very adventure of being good1 and the bare proposal of an eminent course of life1 though beyond the force of human frailty to accomplish4 ,there is something of honor yet in the miscarriage2 nay1 in the naked contemplation of it4 ,i would receive my own death with as little trouble as ,i would hear of another man's2 ,i would bear the same mind whether ,i be rich or poor1 whether ,i get or lose in the world2 what ,i have1 ,i will neither sordidly spare1 or prodigally squander away1 and ,i will reckon upon benefits well-placed as the fairest part of my possession3 not valuing them by number or weight1 but by the profit and esteem of the receiver2 accounting myself never the poorer for that which ,i give to a worthy person4 ,what ,i do shall be done for conscience1 not ostentation4 ,i will eat and drink1 not to gratify my palate1 or only to fill and empty1 but to satisfy nature3 ,i will be cheerful to my friends1 mild and placable to my enemies3 ,i will prevent an honest request if ,i can foresee it1 and ,i will grant it without asking3 ,i will look upon the whole world as my country1 and upon the gods1 both as the witnesses and the judges of my words and deeds4 ,i will live and die with this testimony1 that ,i loved good studies1 and a good conscience2 that ,i never invaded another man's liberty2 and that ,i preserved my own4 ,i will govern my life and my thoughts as if the whole world were to see the one1 and to read the other2 for 8what does it signify to make anything a secret to my neighbor1 when to ,god 7who is the searcher of our hearts7 all our privacies are open80 ,virtue is divided into two parts1 contemplation and action4 ,the one is delivered by institution1 the other by admonition3 one part of virtue consists in discipline1 the other in exercise3 for we must first learn1 and then practice4 ,the sooner we begin to apply ourselves to it1 and the more haste we make1 the longer shall we enjoy the comforts of a rectified mind2 nay1 we have the fruition of it in the very act of forming it3 but it is another sort of delight1 ,i must confess1 that arises from a contemplation of a soul which is advanced into the possession of wisdom and virtue4 ,if it was so great a comfort to us to pass from the subjection of our childhood into a state of liberty and business1 how much greater will it be when we come to cast off the boyish levity of our minds1 and range ourselves among the philosophers8 ,we are past our minority1 it is true1 but not our indiscretions2 and1 which is yet worse1 we have the authority of seniors1 and the weaknesses of children1 7,i might have said of infants1 for every little thing frights the one1 and every trivial fancy the other47 ,whoever studies this point well will find that many things are the less to be feared the more terrible they appear4 ,to think anything good that is not honest1 were to reproach ,providence2 for good men suffer many inconveniences2 but virtue1 like the sun1 goes on still with her work1 let the air be never so cloudy1 and finishes her course1 extinguishing likewise all other splendors and oppositions2 insomuch that calamity is no more to a virtuous mind1 than a shower into the sea4 ,that which is right1 is not to be valued by quantity1 number1 or time2 a life of a day may be as honest as a life of a hundred years3 but yet virtue in one man may have a larger field to show itself in than in another4 ,one man1 perhaps1 may be in a station to administer unto cities and kingdoms2 to contrive good laws1 create friendships1 and do beneficial offices to mankind4 ,for virtue is open to all2 as well to servants and exiles1 as to princes3 it is profitable to the world and to itself1 at all distances and in all conditions2 and there is no difficulty can excuse a man from the exercise of it2 and it is only to be found in a wise man1 though there may be some faint resemblances of it in the common people4 ,the ,stoics hold all virtues to be equal2 but yet there is great variety in the matter they have to work upon1 according as it is larger or narrower1 illustrious or less noble1 of more or less extent2 as all good men are equal1 that is to say1 as they are good2 but yet one may be young1 another old2 one may be rich1 another poor2 one eminent and powerful1 another unknown and obscure4 ,there are many things which have little or no grace in themselves1 and are yet glorious and remarkable by virtue4 ,nothing can be good which gives neither greatness nor security to the mind2 but1 on the contrary1 infects it with insolence1 arrogance1 and tumor3 nor does virtue dwell upon the tip of the tongue1 but in the temple of a purified heart4 ,he that depends upon any other good becomes covetous of life1 and what belongs to it2 which exposes a man to appetites that are vast1 unlimited1 and intolerable4 ,virtue is free and indefatigable1 and accompanied with concord and gracefulness2 whereas pleasure is mean1 servile1 transitory1 tiresome1 and sickly and scarce outlives the tasting of it3 it is the good of the belly1 and not of the man2 and only the felicity of brutes4 ,who does not know that fools enjoy their pleasures1 and that there is great variety in the entertainments of wickedness8 ,nay1 the mind itself has its variety of perverse pleasures as well as the body3 as insolence1 self-conceit1 pride1 garrulity1 laziness1 and the abusive wit of turning everything into ridicule1 whereas virtue weighs all this1 and corrects it4 ,it is the knowledge both of others and of itself2 it is to be learned from itself2 and the very will itself may be taught2 which will cannot be right1 unless the whole habit of the mind be right from whence the will comes4 ,it is by the impulse of virtue that we love virtue1 so that the very way to virtue1 lies by virtue1 which takes in also1 at a view1 the laws of human life4 ,neither are we to value ourselves upon a day1 or an hour1 or any one action1 but upon the whole habit of the mind4 ,some men do one thing bravely1 but not another2 they will shrink at infamy1 and bear up against poverty3 in this case1 we commend the fact1 and despise the man4 ,the soul is never in the right place until it be delivered from the cares of human affairs2 we must labor and climb the hill1 if we will arrive at virtue1 whose seat is upon the top of it4 ,he that masters avarice1 and is truly good1 stands firm against ambition2 he looks upon his last hour not as a punishment1 but as the equity of a common fate2 he that subdues his carnal lusts shall easily keep himself untainted with any other3 so that reason does not encounter this or that vice by itself1 but beats down all at a blow4 ,what does he care for ignominy that only values himself upon conscience1 and not opinion8 ,socrates looked a scandalous death in the face with the same constancy that he had before practiced towards the thirty tyrants3 his virtue consecrated the very dungeon3 as ,cato's repulse was ,cato's honor1 and the reproach of the government4 ,he that is wise will take delight even in an ill opinion that is well gotten2 it is ostentation1 not virtue1 when a man will have his good deeds published2 and it is not enough to be just where there is honor to be gotten1 but to continue so1 in defiance of infamy and danger4 ,but virtue cannot lie hid1 for the time will come that shall raise it again 7even after it is buried7 and deliver it from the malignity of the age that oppressed it3 immortal glory is the shadow of it1 and keeps it company whether we will or not2 but sometimes the shadow goes before the substance1 and other whiles it follows it2 and the later it comes1 the larger it is1 when even envy itself shall have given way to it4 ,it was a long time that ,democritus was taken for a madman1 and before ,socrates had any esteem in the world4 ,how long was it before ,cato could be understood8 ,nay1 he was affronted1 contemned1 and rejected2 and the people never knew the value of him until they had lost him3 the integrity and courage of mad ,rutilius had been forgotten but for his sufferings4 ,i speak of those that fortune has made famous for their persecutions3 and there are others also that the world never took notice of until they were dead2 as ,epicurus and ,metrodorus1 that were almost wholly unknown1 even in the place where they lived4 ,now1 as the body is to be kept in upon the down-hill1 and forced upwards1 so there are some virtues that require the rein and others the spur4 ,in liberality1 temperance1 gentleness of nature1 we are to check ourselves for fear of falling2 but in patience1 resolutions1 and perseverance1 where we are to mount the hill1 we stand in need of encouragement4 ,upon this division of the matter1 ,i had rather steer the smoother course than pass through the experiments of sweat and blood3 ,i know it is my duty to be content in all conditions2 but yet1 if it were at my election1 ,i would choose the fairest4 ,when a man comes once to stand in need of fortune1 his life is anxious1 suspicious1 timorous1 dependent upon every moment1 and in fear of all accidents4 ,how can that man resign himself to ,god1 or bear his lot1 whatever it be1 without murmuring1 and cheerfully submit to ,providence1 that shrinks at every motion of pleasure or pain8 ,it is virtue alone that raises us above griefs1 hopes1 fears and chances2 and makes us not only patient1 but willing1 as knowing that whatever we suffer is according to the decree of ,heaven4 ,he that is overcome with pleasure1 7so contemptible and weak an enemy7 what will become of him when he comes to grapple with dangers1 necessities1 torments1 death1 and the dissolution of nature itself8 ,wealth1 honor1 and favor1 may come upon a man by chance2 nay1 they may be cast upon him without so much as looking after them3 but virtue is the work of industry and labor2 and certainly it is worth the while to purchase that good which brings all others along with it4 ,a good man is happy within himself1 and independent upon fortune3 kind to his friend1 temperate to his enemy1 religiously just1 indefatigably laborious2 and he discharges all duties with a constancy and congruity of actions4 ,,chapter ,,iv4 ,,philosophy ,,is ,,the ,,guide ,,of ,,life4 ,if it be true1 that the understanding and the will are the two eminent faculties of the reasonable soul1 it follows necessarily1 that wisdom and virtue1 7which are the best improvements of these two faculties17 must be the perfection also of our reasonable being2 and consequently1 the undeniable foundation of a happy life4 ,there is not any duty to which ,providence has not annexed a blessing2 nor any institution of ,heaven which1 even in this life1 we may not be the better for2 not any temptation1 either of fortune or of appetite1 that is not subject to our reason2 nor any passion or affliction for which virtue has not provided a remedy4 ,so that it is our own fault if we either fear or hope for anything2 which two affections are the root of all our miseries4 ,from this general prospect of the foundation of our tranquillity1 we shall pass by degrees to a particular consideration of the means by which it may be procured1 and of the impediments that obstruct it2 beginning with that philosophy which principally regards our manners1 and instructs us in the measures of a virtuous and quiet life4 ,philosophy is divided into moral1 natural1 and rational3 the first concerns our manners2 the second searches the works of ,nature2 and the third furnishes us with propriety of words and arguments1 and the faculty of distinguishing1 that we may not be imposed upon with tricks and fallacies4 ,the causes of things fall under natural philosophy1 arguments under rational1 and actions under moral4 ,moral philosophy is again divided into matter of justice1 which arises from the estimation of things and of men2 and into affections and actions2 and a failing in any one of these1 disorders all the rest3 for what does it profit us to know the true value of things1 if we be transported by our passion8 or to master our appetites without understanding the when1 the what1 the how1 and other circumstances of our proceedings8 ,for it is one thing to know the rate and dignity of things1 and another to know the little nicks and springs of acting4 ,natural philosophy is conversant about things corporeal and incorporeal2 the disquisition of causes and effects1 and the contemplation of the cause of causes4 ,rational philosophy is divided into logic and rhetoric2 the one looks after words1 sense1 and order2 the other treats barely of words1 and the significations of them4 ,socrates places all philosophy in morals2 and wisdom in the distinguishing of good and evil4 ,it is the art and law of life1 and it teaches us what to do in all cases1 and1 like good marksmen1 to hit the white at any distance4 ,the force of it is incredible2 for it gives us in the weakness of a man the security of a spirit3 in sickness it is as good as a remedy to us2 for whatsoever eases the mind is profitable also to the body4 ,the physician may prescribe diet and exercise1 and accommodate his rule and medicine to the disease1 but it is philosophy that must bring us to a contempt of death1 which is the remedy of all diseases4 ,in poverty it gives us riches1 or such a state of mind as makes them superfluous to us4 ,it arms us against all difficulties3 one man is pressed with death1 another with poverty2 some with envy1 others are offended at ,providence1 and unsatisfied with the condition of mankind3 but philosophy prompts us to relieve the prisoner1 the infirm1 the necessitous1 the condemned2 to show the ignorant their errors1 and rectify their affections4 ,it makes us inspect and govern our manners2 it rouses us where we are faint and drowsy3 it binds up what is loose1 and humbles in us that which is contumacious3 it delivers the mind from the bondage of the body1 and raises it up to the contemplation of its divine original4 ,honors1 monuments1 and all the works of vanity and ambition are demolished and destroyed by time2 but the reputation of wisdom is venerable to posterity1 and those that were envied or neglected in their lives are adored in their memories1 and exempted from the very laws of created nature1 which has set bounds to all other things4 ,the very shadow of glory carries a man of honor upon all dangers1 to the contempt of fire and sword2 and it were a shame if right reason should not inspire as generous resolutions into a man of virtue4 ,neither is philosophy only profitable to the public1 but one wise man helps another1 even in the exercise of the virtues2 and the one has need of the other1 both for conversation and counsel2 for they kindle a mutual emulation in good offices4 ,we are not so perfect yet1 but that many new things remain still to be found out1 which will give us the reciprocal advantages of instructing one another3 for as one wicked man is contagious to another1 and the more vices are mingled1 the worse it is1 so is it on the contrary with good men and their virtues4 ,as men of letters are the most useful and excellent of friends1 so are they the best of subjects2 as being better judges of the blessings they enjoy under a well-ordered government1 and of what they owe to the magistrate for their freedom and protection4 ,they are men of sobriety and learning1 and free from boasting and insolence2 they reprove the vice without reproaching the person2 for they have learned to be without either pomp or envy4 ,that which we see in high mountains1 we find in philosophers2 they seem taller near at hand than at a distance4 ,they are raised above other men1 but their greatness is substantial4 ,nor do they stand upon tiptoe1 that they may seem higher than they are1 but1 content with their own stature1 they reckon themselves tall enough when fortune cannot reach them4 ,their laws are short1 and yet comprehensive too1 for they bind all4 ,it is the bounty of nature that we live2 but of philosophy that we live well1 which is in truth a greater benefit than life itself4 ,not but that philosophy is also the gift of ,heaven1 so far as to the faculty1 but not to the science2 for that must be the business of industry4 ,no man is born wise2 but wisdom and virtue require a tutor1 though we can easily learn to be vicious without a master4 ,it is philosophy that gives us a veneration for ,god1 a charity for our neighbor1 that teaches us our duty to ,heaven1 and exhorts us to an agreement one with another2 it unmasks things that are terrible to us1 assuages our lusts1 refutes our errors1 restrains our luxury1 reproves our avarice1 and works strangely upon tender natures4 ,i could never hear ,attalus 7says ,seneca7 upon the vices of the age and the errors of life1 without a compassion for mankind2 and in his discourses upon poverty1 there was something methought that was more than human4 8,more than we use10 says he1 8is more than we need1 and only a burden to the bearer40 ,that saying of his put me out of countenance at the superfluities of my own fortune4 ,and so in his invectives against vain pleasures1 he did at such a rate advance the felicities of a sober table1 a pure mind1 and a chaste body that a man could not hear him without a love for continence and moderation4 ,upon these lectures of his1 ,i denied myself1 for a while after1 certain delicacies that ,i had formerly used3 but in a short time ,i fell to them again1 though so sparingly1 that the proportion came little short of a total abstinence4 ,now1 to show you 7says our author7 how much earnester my entrance upon philosophy was than my progress1 my tutor ,sotion gave me a wonderful kindness for ,pythagoras1 and after him for ,sextius3 the former forbore shedding of blood upon his metempsychosis3 and put men in fear of it1 lest they should offer violence to the souls of some of their departed friends or relations4 8,whether10 says he1 8there be a transmigration or not2 if it be true1 there is no hurt2 if false1 there is frugality3 and nothing is gotten by cruelty neither1 but the cozening a wolf1 perhaps1 or a vulture1 of a supper40 ,now1 ,sextius abstained upon another account1 which was1 that he would not have men inured to hardness of heart by the laceration and tormenting of living creatures2 beside1 8that ,nature had sufficiently provided for the sustenance of mankind without blood40 ,this wrought upon me so far that ,i gave over eating of flesh1 and in one year ,i made it not only easy to me but pleasant2 my mind methought was more at liberty1 7and ,i am still of the same opinion17 but ,i gave it over nevertheless2 and the reason was this3 it was imputed as a superstition to the ,jews1 the forbearance of some sorts of flesh1 and my father brought me back again to my old custom1 that ,i might not be thought tainted with their superstition4 ,nay1 and ,i had much ado to prevail upon myself to suffer it too4 ,i make use of this instance to show the aptness of youth to take good impressions1 if there be a friend at hand to press them4 ,philosophers are the tutors of mankind2 if they have found out remedies for the mind1 it must be our part to employ them4 ,i cannot think of ,cato1 ,lelius1 ,socrates1 ,plato1 without veneration3 their very names are sacred to me4 ,philosophy is the health of the mind2 let us look to that health first1 and in the second place to that of the body1 which may be had upon easier terms2 for a strong arm1 a robust constitution1 or the skill of procuring this1 is not a philosopher's business4 ,he does some things as a wise man1 and other things as he is a man2 and he may have strength of body as well as of mind2 but if he runs1 or casts the sledge1 it were injurious to ascribe that to his wisdom which is common to the greatest of fools4 ,he studies rather to fill his mind than his coffers2 and he knows that gold and silver were mingled with dirt1 until avarice or ambition parted them4 ,his life is ordinate1 fearless1 equal1 secure2 he stands firm in all extremities1 and bears the lot of his humanity with a divine temper4 ,there is a great difference betwixt the splendor of philosophy and of fortune2 the one shines with an original light1 the other with a borrowed one2 beside that it makes us happy and immortal3 for learning shall outlive palaces and monuments4 ,the house of a wise man is safe1 though narrow2 there is neither noise nor furniture in it1 no porter at the door1 nor anything that is either vendible or mercenary1 nor any business of fortune1 for she has nothing to do where she has nothing to look after4 ,this is the way to ,heaven which ,nature has chalked out1 and it is both secure and pleasant2 there needs no train of servants1 no pomp or equipage1 to make good our passage2 no money or letters of credit1 for expenses upon the voyage2 but the graces of an honest mind will serve us upon the way1 and make us happy at our journey's end4 ,to tell you my opinion now of the liberal sciences2 ,i have no great esteem for any thing that terminates in profit or money2 and yet ,i shall allow them to be so far beneficial1 as they only prepare the understanding without detaining it4 ,they are but the rudiments of wisdom1 and only then to be learned when the mind is capable of nothing better1 and the knowledge of them is better worth the keeping than the acquiring4 ,they do not so much as pretend to the making of us virtuous1 but only to give us an aptitude of disposition to be so4 ,the grammarian's business lies in a syntax of speech2 or if he proceed to history1 or the measuring of a verse1 he is at the end of his line2 but what signifies a congruity of periods1 the computing of syllables1 or the modifying of numbers1 to the taming of our passions1 or the repressing of our lusts8 ,the philosopher proves the body of the sun to be large1 but for the true dimensions of it we must ask the mathematician3 geometry and music1 if they do not teach us to master our hopes and fears1 all the rest is to little purpose4 ,what does it concern us which was the elder of the two1 ,homer or ,hesiod8 or which was the taller1 ,helen or ,hecuba8 ,we take a great deal of pains to trace ,ulysses in his wanderings1 but were it not time as well spent to look to ourselves that we may not wander at all8 ,are not we ourselves tossed with tempestuous passions8 and both assaulted by terrible monsters on the one hand1 and tempted by syrens on the other8 ,teach me my duty to my country1 to my father1 to my wife1 to mankind4 ,what is it to me whether ,penelope was honest or not8 teach me to know how to be so myself1 and to live according to that knowledge4 ,what am ,i the better for putting so many parts together in music1 and raising a harmony out of so many different tones8 teach me to tune my affections1 and to hold constant to myself4 ,geometry teaches me the art of measuring acres2 teach me to measure my appetites1 and to know when ,i have enough2 teach me to divide with my brother1 and to rejoice in the prosperity of my neighbor4 ,you teach me how ,i may hold my own1 and keep my estate2 but ,i would rather learn how ,i may lose it all1 and yet be contented4 8,it is hard10 you will say1 8for a man to be forced from the fortune of his family40 ,this estate1 it is true1 was my father's2 but whose was it in the time of my grandfather8 ,i do not only say1 what man's was it8 but what nation's8 ,the astrologer tells me of ,saturn and ,mars in opposition2 but ,i say1 let them be as they will1 their courses and their positions are ordered them by an unchangeable decree of fate4 ,either they produce and point out the effects of all things1 or else they signify them2 if the former1 what are we the better for the knowledge of that which must of necessity come to pass8 ,if the latter1 what does it avail us to foresee what we cannot avoid8 ,so that whether we know or not know1 the event will still be the same4 ,he that designs the institution of human life should not be over-curious of his words2 it does not stand with his dignity to be solicitous about sounds and syllables1 and to debase the mind of man with trivial things2 placing wisdom in matters that are rather difficult than great4 ,if it be eloquent1 it is his good fortune1 not his business4 ,subtle disputations are only the sport of wits1 that play upon the catch1 and are fitter to be contemned than resolved4 ,were not ,i a madman to sit wrangling about words1 and putting of nice and impertinent questions1 when the enemy has already made the breach1 the town fired over my head1 and the mine ready to play that shall blow me up into the air8 were this a time for fooleries8 ,let me rather fortify myself against death and inevitable necessities2 let me understand that the good of life does not consist in the length or space1 but in the use of it4 ,when ,i go to sleep1 who knows whether ,i shall ever wake again8 and when ,i wake1 whether ever ,i shall sleep again8 ,when ,i go abroad1 whether ever ,i shall come home again8 and when ,i return1 whether ever ,i shall go abroad again8 ,it is not at sea only that life and death are within a few inches one of another2 but they are as near everywhere else too1 only we do not take so much notice of it4 ,what have we to do with frivolous and captious questions1 and impertinent niceties8 ,let us rather study how to deliver ourselves from sadness1 fear1 and the burden of all our secret lusts3 let us pass over all our most solemn levities1 and make haste to a good life1 which is a thing that presses us4 ,shall a man that goes for a midwife1 stand gaping upon a post to see what play to-day8 or1 when his house is on fire1 stay the curling of a periwig before he calls for help8 ,our houses are on fire1 our country invaded1 our goods taken away1 our children in danger2 and1 ,i might add to these1 the calamities of earthquakes1 shipwrecks1 and whatever else is most terrible4 ,is this a time for us now to be playing fast and loose with idle questions1 which are in effect so many unprofitable riddles8 ,our duty is the cure of the mind rather than the delight of it2 but we have only the words of wisdom without the works2 and turn philosophy into a pleasure that was given for a remedy4 ,what can be more ridiculous than for a man to neglect his manners and compose his style8 ,we are sick and ulcerous1 and must be lanced and scarified1 and every man has as much business within himself as a physician in a common pestilence4 8,misfortunes10 in fine1 8cannot be avoided2 but they may be sweetened1 if not overcome2 and our lives may be made happy by philosophy40 ,,chapter ,v4 ,,the ,,force ,,of ,,precepts4 ,there seems to be so near an affinity betwixt wisdom1 philosophy1 and good counsels1 that it is rather matter of curiosity than of profit to divide them2 philosophy1 being only a limited wisdom2 and good counsels a communication of that wisdom1 for the good of others1 as well as of ourselves2 and to posterity1 as well as to the present4 ,the wisdom of the ancients1 as to the government of life1 was no more than certain precepts1 what to do and what not3 and men were much better in that simplicity2 for as they came to be more learned1 they grew less careful of being good4 ,that plain and open virtue is now turned into a dark and intricate science2 and we are taught to dispute rather than to live4 ,so long as wickedness was simple1 simple remedies also were sufficient against it2 but now it has taken root1 and spread1 we must make use of stronger4 ,there are some dispositions that embrace good things as soon as they hear them2 but they will still need quickening by admonition and precept4 ,we are rash and forward in some cases1 and dull in others2 and there is no repressing of the one humor1 or raising of the other1 but by removing the causes of them2 which are 7in one word7 false admiration and false fear4 ,every man knows his duty to his country1 to his friends1 to his guests2 and yet when he is called upon to draw his sword for the one1 or to labor for the other1 he finds himself distracted betwixt his apprehensions and his delights3 he knows well enough the injury he does his wife in the keeping of a wench1 and yet his lust overrules him3 so that it is not enough to give good advice1 unless we can take away that which hinders the benefit of it4 ,if a man does what he ought to do1 he will never do it constantly or equally1 without knowing why he does it3 and if it be only chance or custom1 he that does well by chance1 may do ill so too4 ,and farther1 a precept may direct us what we ought to do1 and yet fall short in the manner of doing it3 an expensive entertainment may1 in one case be extravagance or gluttony1 and yet a point of honor and discretion in another4 ,tiberius ,csar had a huge mullet presented him1 which he sent to the market to be sold3 8and now10 says he1 8my masters10 to some company with him1 8you shall see that either ,apicius or ,octavius will be the chapman for this fish40 ,octavius beat the price1 and gave about thirty pounds sterling for it4 ,now1 there was a great difference between ,octavius1 that bought it for his luxury1 and the other that purchased it for a compliment to ,tiberius4 ,precepts are idle1 if we be not first taught what opinion we are to have of the matter in question2 whether it be poverty1 riches1 disgrace1 sickness1 banishment1 etc4 ,let us therefore examine them one by one2 not what they are called1 but what in truth they are4 ,and so for the virtues2 it is to no purpose to set a high esteem upon prudence1 fortitude1 temperance1 justice1 if we do not first know what virtue is2 whether one or more2 or if he that has one1 has all2 or how they differ4 ,precepts are of great weight2 and a few useful ones at hand do more toward a happy life than whole volumes or cautions1 that we know not where to find4 ,these salutary precepts should be our daily meditation1 for they are the rules by which we ought to square our lives4 ,when they are contracted into sentences1 they strike the affections3 whereas admonition is only blowing of the coal2 it moves the vigor of the mind1 and excites virtue3 we have the thing already1 but we know not where it lies4 ,it is by precept that the understanding is nourished and augmented3 the offices of prudence and justice are guided by them1 and they lead us to the execution of our duties4 ,a precept delivered in verse has a much greater effect than in prose3 and those very people that never think they have enough1 let them but hear a sharp sentence against avarice1 how will they clap and admire it1 and bid open defiance to money8 ,so soon as we find the affections struck1 we must follow the blow2 not with syllogisms or quirks of wit2 but with plain and weighty reason and we must do it with kindness too1 and respect for 8there goes a blessing along with counsels and discourses that are bent wholly upon the good of the hearer30 and those are still the most efficacious that take reason along with them2 and tell us as well why we are to do this or that1 as what we are to do3 for some understandings are weak1 and need an instructor to expound to them what is good and what is evil4 ,it is a great virtue to love1 to give1 and to follow good counsel2 if it does not lead us to honesty1 it does at least prompt us to it4 ,as several parts make up but one harmony1 and the most agreeable music arises from discords2 so should a wise man gather many acts1 many precepts1 and the examples of many arts1 to inform his own life4 ,our forefathers have left us in charge to avoid three things2 hatred1 envy1 and contempt2 now1 it is hard to avoid envy and not incur contempt2 for in taking too much care not to usurp upon others1 we become many times liable to be trampled upon ourselves4 ,some people are afraid of others1 because it is possible that others may be afraid of them3 but let us secure ourselves upon all hands2 for flattery is as dangerous as contempt4 ,it is not to say1 in case of admonition1 ,i knew this before1 for we know many things1 but we do not think of them2 so that it is the part of a monitor1 not so much to teach as to mind us of our duties4 ,sometimes a man oversees that which lies just under his nose2 otherwhile he is careless1 or pretends not to see it3 we do all know that friendship is sacred1 and yet we violate it2 and the greatest libertine expects that his own wife should be honest4 ,good counsel is the most needful service that we can do to mankind2 and if we give it to many1 it will be sure to profit some3 for of many trials1 some or other will undoubtedly succeed4 ,he that places a man in the possession of himself does a great thing2 for wisdom does not show itself so much in precept as in life2 in a firmness of mind and a mastery of appetite3 it teaches us to do as well as to talk3 and to make our words and actions all of a color4 ,if that fruit be pleasantest which we gather from a tree of our own planting1 how much greater delight shall we take in the growth and increase of good manners of our own forming6 ,it is an eminent mark of wisdom for a man to be always like himself4 ,you shall have some that keep a thrifty table1 and lavish out upon building2 profuse upon themselves1 and forbid to others2 niggardly at home1 and lavish abroad4 ,this diversity is vicious1 and the effect of a dissatisfied and uneasy mind2 whereas every wise man lives by rule4 ,this disagreement of purposes arises from hence1 either that we do not propound to ourselves what we would be at2 or if we do1 that we do not pursue it1 but pass from one thing to another2 and we do not only change neither but return to the very thing which we had both quitted and condemned4 ,in all our undertakings1 let us first examine our own strength2 the enterprise next2 and1 thirdly1 the persons with whom we have to do4 ,the first point is most important2 for we are apt to overvalue ourselves1 and reckon that we can do more than indeed we can4 ,one man sets up for a speaker1 and is out as soon as he opens his mouth2 another overcharges his estate1 perhaps1 or his body3 a bashful man is not fit for public business3 some again are too stiff and peremptory for the court3 many people are apt to fly out in their anger1 nay1 and in a frolic too2 if any sharp thing fall in their way1 they will rather venture a neck than lose a jest4 ,these people had better be quiet in the world than busy4 ,let him that is naturally choleric and impatient avoid all provocations1 and those affairs also that multiply and draw on more2 and those also from which there is no retreat4 ,when we may come off at pleasure1 and fairly hope to bring our matters to a period1 it is well enough4 ,if it so happen that a man be tied up to business1 which he can neither loosen nor break off1 let him imagine those shackles upon his mind to be irons upon his legs3 they are troublesome at first2 but when there is no remedy but patience1 custom makes them easy to us1 and necessity gives us courage4 ,we are all slaves to fortune3 some only in loose and golden chains1 others in strait ones1 and coarser3 nay1 and they that bind us are slaves too themselves2 some to honor1 others to wealth2 some to offices1 and others to contempt2 some to their superiors1 others to themselves3 nay1 life itself is a servitude3 let us make the best of it then1 and with our philosophy mend our fortune4 ,difficulties may be softened1 and heavy burdens disposed of to our ease4 ,let us covet nothing out of our reach1 but content ourselves with things hopeful and at hand2 and without envying the advantages of others2 for greatness stands upon a craggy precipice1 and it is much safer and quieter living upon a level4 ,how many great men are forced to keep their station upon mere necessity2 because they find there is no coming down from it but headlong8 ,these men should do well to fortify themselves against ill consequences by such virtues and meditations as may make them less solicitous for the future4 ,the surest expedient in this case is to bound our desires1 and to leave nothing to fortune which we may keep in our own power4 ,neither will this course wholly compose us1 but it shows us at worst the end of our troubles4 ,it is but a main point to take care that we propose nothing but what is hopeful and honest4 ,for it will be equally troublesome to us1 either not to succeed1 or to be ashamed of the success4 ,wherefore let us be sure not to admit any ill design into our heart2 that we may lift up pure hands to heaven and ask nothing which another shall be a loser by4 ,let us pray for a good mind1 which is a wish to no man's injury4 ,i will remember always that ,i am a man1 and then consider1 that if ,i am happy1 it will not last always2 if unhappy1 ,i may be other if ,i please4 ,i will carry my life in my hand1 and deliver it up readily when it shall be called for4 ,i will have a care of being a slave to myself2 for it is a perpetual1 a shameful1 and the heaviest of all servitudes3 and this may be done by moderate desires4 ,i will say to myself1 8,what is it that ,i labor1 sweat1 and solicit for1 when it is but very little that ,i want1 and it will not be long that ,i will need any thing80 ,he that would make a trial of the firmness of his mind1 let him set certain days apart for the practice of his virtues4 ,let him mortify himself with fasting1 coarse clothes1 and hard lodging2 and then say to himself1 8,is this the thing now that ,i was afraid of80 ,in a state of security1 a man may thus prepare himself against hazards1 and in plenty fortify himself against want4 ,if you will have a man resolute when he comes to the push1 train him up to it beforehand4 ,the soldier does duty in peace1 that he may be in breath when he comes to battle4 ,how many great and wise men have made experiment of their moderation by a practice of abstinence1 to the highest degree of hunger and thirst2 and convinced themselves that a man may fill his belly without being beholden to fortune2 which never denies any of us wherewith to satisfy our necessities1 though she be never so angry6 ,it is as easy to suffer it always as to try it once2 and it is no more than thousands of servants and poor people do every day in their lives4 ,he that would live happily1 must neither trust to good fortune nor submit to bad3 he must stand upon his guard against all assaults2 he must stick to himself1 without any dependence upon other people4 ,where the mind is tinctured with philosophy1 there is no place for grief1 anxiety1 or superfluous vexations4 ,it is prepossessed with virtue to the neglect of fortune1 which brings us to a degree of security not to be disturbed4 ,it is easier to give counsel than to take it2 and a common thing for one choleric man to condemn another4 ,we may be sometimes earnest in advising1 but not violent or tedious4 ,few words1 with gentleness and efficacy1 are best3 the misery is1 that the wise do not need counsel1 and fools will not take it4 ,a good man1 it is true1 delights in it2 and it is a mark of folly and ill-nature to hate reproof4 ,to a friend ,i would be always frank and plain2 and rather fail in the success than be wanting in the matter of faith and trust4 ,there are some precepts that serve in common both to the rich and poor1 but they are too general2 as 8,cure your avarice1 and the work is done40 ,it is one thing not to desire money1 and another thing not to understand how to use it4 ,in the choice of the persons we have to do withal1 we should see that they be worth our while2 in the choice of our business1 we are to consult nature1 and follow our inclinations4 ,he that gives sober advice to a witty droll must look to have every thing turned into ridicule4 8,as if you philosophers10 says ,marcellinus1 8did not love your whores and your guts as well as other people30 and then he tells you of such and such that were taken in the manner4 ,we are all sick1 ,i must confess1 and it is not for sick men to play the physicians2 but it is yet lawful for a man in an hospital to discourse of the common condition and distempers of the place4 ,he that should pretend to teach a madman how to speak1 walk1 and behave himself1 were not he the most mad man of the two8 ,he that directs the pilot1 makes him move the helm1 order the sails so or so1 and makes the best of a scant wind1 after this or that manner4 ,and so should we do in our counsels4 ,do not tell me what a man should do in health or poverty1 but show me the way to be either sound or rich4 ,teach me to master my vices3 for it is to no purpose1 so long as ,i am under their government1 to tell me what ,i must do when ,i am clear of it4 ,in case of an avarice a little eased1 a luxury moderated1 a temerity restrained1 a sluggish humor quickened2 precepts will then help us forward1 and tutor us how to behave ourselves4 ,it is the first and the main tie of a soldier his military oath1 which is an engagement upon him both of religion and honor4 ,in like manner1 he that pretends to a happy life must first lay a foundation of virtue1 as a bond upon him1 to live and die true to that cause4 ,we do not find felicity in the veins of the earth where we dig for gold1 nor in the bottom of the sea where we fish for pearls1 but in a pure and untainted mind1 which1 if it were not holy1 were not fit to entertain the ,deity4 8,he that would be truly happy1 must think his own lot best1 and so live with men1 as considering that ,god sees him1 and so speak to ,god as if men heard him40 ,,chapter ,,vi4 ,,no ,,felicity ,,like ,,peace ,,of ,,conscience4 8,a good conscience is the testimony of a good life1 and the reward of it40 ,this is it that fortifies the mind against fortune1 when a man has gotten the mastery of his passions2 placed his treasure and security within himself2 learned to be content with his condition2 and that death is no evil in itself1 but only the end of man4 ,he that has dedicated his mind to virtue1 and to the good of human society1 whereof he is a member1 has consummated all that is either profitable or necessary for him to know or to do toward the establishment of his peace4 ,every man has a judge and a witness within himself of all the good and ill that he does1 which inspires us with great thoughts1 and administers to us wholesome counsels4 ,we have a veneration for all the works of ,nature1 the heads of rivers1 and the springs of medicinal waters2 the horrors of groves and of caves strike us with an impression of religion and worship4 ,to see a man fearless in dangers1 untainted with lusts1 happy in adversity1 composed in a tumult1 and laughing at all those things which are generally either coveted or feared2 all men must acknowledge that this can be nothing else but a beam of divinity that influences a mortal body4 ,and this is it that carries us to the disquisition of things divine and human2 what the state of the world was before the distribution of the first matter into parts2 what power it was that drew order out of that confusion1 and gave laws both to the whole1 and to every particle thereof2 what that space is beyond the world2 and whence proceed the several operations of ,nature4 ,shall any man see the glory and order of the universe2 so many scattered parts and qualities wrought into one mass2 such a medley of things1 which are yet distinguished3 the world enlightened1 and the disorders of it so wonderfully regulated2 and shall he not consider the ,author and ,disposer of all this2 and whither we ourselves shall go1 when our souls shall be delivered from the slavery of our flesh8 ,the whole creation we see conforms to the dictates of ,providence1 and follows ,god both as a governor and as a guide4 ,a great1 a good1 and a right mind1 is a kind of divinity lodged in flesh1 and may be the blessing of a slave as well as of a prince2 it came from heaven1 and to heaven it must return2 and it is a kind of heavenly felicity1 which a pure and virtuous mind enjoys1 in some degree1 even upon earth3 whereas temples of honor are but empty names1 which1 probably1 owe their beginning either to ambition or to violence4 ,i am strangely transported with the thoughts of eternity2 nay1 with the belief of it2 for ,i have a profound veneration for the opinions of great men1 especially when they promise things so much to my satisfaction3 for they do promise them1 though they do not prove them4 ,in the question of the immortality of the soul1 it goes very far with me1 a general consent to the opinion of a future reward and punishment2 which meditation raises me to the contempt of this life1 in hopes of a better4 ,but still1 though we know that we have a soul2 yet what the soul is1 how1 and from whence1 we are utterly ignorant3 this only we understand1 that all the good and ill we do is under the dominion of the mind2 that a clear conscience states us in an inviolable peace2 and that the greatest blessing in ,nature is that which every honest man may bestow upon himself4 ,the body is but the clog and prisoner of the mind2 tossed up and down1 and persecuted with punishments1 violences1 and diseases2 but the mind itself is sacred and eternal1 and exempt from the danger of all actual impression4 ,provided that we look to our consciences1 no matter for opinion3 let me deserve well1 though ,i hear ill4 ,the common people take stomach and audacity for the marks of magnanimity and honor2 and if a man be soft and modest1 they look upon him as an easy fop2 but when they come once to observe the dignity of his mind in the equality and firmness of his actions2 and that his external quiet is founded upon an internal peace1 the very same people who have him in esteem and admiration2 for there is no man but approves of virtue1 though but few pursue it2 we see where it is1 but we dare not venture to come at it3 and the reason is1 we overvalue that which we must quit to obtain it4 ,a good conscience fears no witnesses1 but a guilty conscience is solicitous even of solitude4 ,if we do nothing but what is honest1 let all the world know it2 but if otherwise1 what does it signify to have nobody else know it1 so long as ,i know it myself8 ,miserable is he that slights that witness6 ,wickedness1 it is true1 may escape the law1 but not the conscience2 for a private conviction is the first and the greatest punishment to offenders2 so that sin plagues itself2 and the fear of vengeance pursues even those that escape the stroke of it4 ,it were ill for good men that iniquity may so easily evade the law1 the judge1 and the execution1 if ,nature had not set up torments and gibbets in the consciences of transgressors4 ,he that is guilty lives in perpetual terror2 and while he expects to be punished1 he punishes himself2 and whosoever deserves it expects it4 ,what if he be not detected8 he is still in apprehension yet that he may be so4 ,his sleeps are painful1 and never secure2 and he cannot speak of another man's wickedness without thinking of his own1 whereas a good conscience is a continual feast4 ,those are the only certain and profitable delights1 which arise from the consciousness of a well-acted life2 no matter for noise abroad1 so long as we are quiet within3 but if our passions be seditious1 that is enough to keep us waking without any other tumult4 ,it is not the posture of the body1 or the composure of the bed1 that will give rest to an uneasy mind3 there is an impatient sloth that may be roused by action1 and the vices of laziness must be cured by business4 ,true happiness is not to be found in excesses of wine1 or of women1 or in the largest prodigalities of fortune2 what she has given to me1 she may take away1 but she shall not tear it from me2 and1 so long as it does not grow to me1 ,i can part with it without pain4 ,he that would perfectly know himself1 let him set aside his money1 his fortune1 his dignity1 and examine himself naked1 without being put to learn from others the knowledge of himself4 ,it is dangerous for a man too suddenly1 or too easily1 to believe himself4 ,wherefore let us examine1 observe1 and inspect our own hearts1 for we ourselves are our own greatest flatterers3 we should every night call ourselves to account1 8,what infirmity have ,i mastered to-day8 what passion opposed8 what temptation resisted8 what virtue acquired80 ,our vices will abate of themselves1 if they be brought every day to the shrift4 ,oh the blessed sleep that follows such a diary6 ,oh the tranquillity1 liberty1 and greatness of that mind that is a spy upon itself1 and a private censor of its own manners6 ,it is my custom 7says our author7 every night1 so soon as the candle is out1 to run over all the words and actions of the past day2 and ,i let nothing escape me2 for why should ,i fear the sight of my own errors1 when ,i can admonish and forgive myself8 8,i was a little too hot in such a dispute3 my opinion might have been as well spared1 for it gave offence1 and did no good at all4 ,the thing was true1 but all truths are not to be spoken at all times2 ,i would ,i had held my tongue1 for there is no contending either with fools or our superiors4 ,i have done ill1 but it shall be so no more40 ,if every man would but thus look into himself1 it would be the better for us all4 ,what can be more reasonable than this daily review of a life that we cannot warrant for a moment8 ,our fate is set1 and the first breath we draw is only the first motion toward our last3 one cause depends upon another2 and the course of all things1 public and private1 is but a long connection of providential appointments4 ,there is a great variety in our lives1 but all tends to the same issue4 ,nature may use her own bodies as she pleases2 but a good man has this consolation1 that nothing perishes which he can call his own4 ,it is a great comfort that we are only condemned to the same fate with the universe2 the heavens themselves are mortal as well as our bodies2 ,nature has made us passive1 and to suffer is our lot4 ,while we are in flesh1 every man has his chain and his clog1 only it is looser and lighter to one man than to another2 and he is more at ease that takes it up and carries it1 than he that drags it4 ,we are born1 to lose and to perish1 to hope and to fear1 to vex ourselves and others2 and there is no antidote against a common calamity but virtue2 for 8the foundation of true joy is in the conscience40 ,,chapter ,,vii4 ,a ,,good ,,man ,,can ,,never ,,be ,,miserable1 ,,nor ,a ,,wicked ,,man ,,happy4 ,there is not in the scale of nature a more inseparable connection of cause and effect1 than in the case of happiness and virtue2 nor anything that more naturally produces the one1 or more necessarily presupposes the other4 ,for what is it to be happy1 but for a man to content himself with his lot1 in a cheerful and quiet resignation to the appointments of ,god8 ,all the actions of our lives ought to be governed with respect to good and evil3 and it is only reason that distinguishes2 by which reason we are in such manner influenced1 as if a ray of the ,divinity were dipt in a mortal body1 and that is the perfection of mankind4 ,it is true1 we have not the eyes of eagles or the sagacity of hounds3 nor if we had1 could we pretend to value ourselves upon anything which we have in common with brutes4 ,what are we the better for that which is foreign to us1 and may be given and taken away8 ,as the beams of the sun irradiate the earth1 and yet remain where they were2 so is it in some proportion with a holy mind that illustrates all our actions1 and yet it adheres to its original4 ,why do we not as well commend a horse for his glorious trappings1 as a man for his pompous additions8 ,how much a braver creature is a lion1 7which by nature ought to be fierce and terrible7 how much braver 7,i say7 in his natural horror than in his chains8 so that everything in its pure nature pleases us best4 ,it is not health1 nobility1 riches1 that can justify a wicked man3 nor is it the want of all these that can discredit a good one4 ,that is the sovereign blessing1 which makes the possessor of it valuable without anything else1 and him that wants it contemptible1 though he had all the world besides4 ,it is not the painting1 gilding1 or carving1 that makes a good ship2 but if she be a nimble sailer1 tight and strong to endure the seas2 that is her excellency4 ,it is the edge and temper of the blade that makes a good sword1 not the richness of the scabbard3 and so it is not money or possessions1 that makes a man considerable1 but his virtue4 ,it is every man's duty to make himself profitable to mankind--if he can1 to many--if not1 to fewer--if not so neither1 to his neighbor--but1 however1 to himself4 ,there are two republics3 a great one1 which is human nature2 and a less1 which is the place where we were born4 ,some serve both at a time1 some only the greater1 and some again only the less4 ,the greater may be served in privacy1 solitude1 contemplation1 and perchance that way better than any other2 but it was the intent of ,nature1 however1 that we should serve both4 ,a good man may serve the public1 his friend1 and himself in any station3 if he be not for the sword1 let him take the gown2 if the bar does not agree with him1 let him try the pulpit2 if he be silenced abroad1 let him give counsel at home1 and discharge the part of a faithful friend and a temperate companion4 ,when he is no longer a citizen1 he is yet a man2 but the whole world is his country1 and human nature never wants matter to work upon3 but if nothing will serve a man in the civil government unless he be prime minister1 or in the field but to command in chief1 it is his own fault4 ,the common soldier where he cannot use his hands1 fights with his looks1 his example1 his encouragement1 his voice1 and stands his ground even when he has lost his hands1 and does service too with his very clamor1 so that in any condition whatsoever1 he still discharges the duty of a good patriot--nay1 he that spends his time well even in a retirement1 gives a great example4 ,we may enlarge1 indeed1 or contract1 according to the circumstances of time1 place1 or abilities2 but above all things we must be sure to keep ourselves in action1 for he that is slothful is dead even while he lives4 ,was there ever any state so desperate as that of ,athens under the thirty tyrants--where it was capital to be honest1 and the senate-house was turned into a college of hangmen8 ,never was any government so wretched and so hopeless2 and yet ,socrates at the same time preached temperance to the tyrants1 and courage to the rest1 and afterwards died an eminent example of faith and resolution1 and a sacrifice for the common good4 ,it is not for a wise man to stand shifting and fencing with fortune1 but to oppose her barefaced1 for he is sufficiently convinced that she can do him no hurt2 she may take away his servants1 possessions1 dignity1 assault his body1 put out his eyes1 cut off his hands1 and strip him of all the external comforts of life4 ,but what does all this amount to more than the recalling of a trust which he has received1 with condition to deliver it up again upon demand8 ,he looks upon himself as precarious1 and only lent to himself1 and yet he does not value himself ever the less because he is not his own1 but takes such care as an honest man should do of a thing that is committed to him in trust4 ,whensoever he that lent me myself and what ,i have1 shall call for all back again1 it is not a loss but a restitution1 and ,i must willingly deliver up what most undeservedly was bestowed upon me1 and it will become me to return my mind better than ,i received it4 ,demetrius1 upon the taking of ,megara1 asked ,stilpo1 the philosopher1 what he had lost4 8,nothing10 said he1 8for ,i had all that ,i could call my own about me40 ,and yet the enemy had then made himself master of his patrimony1 his children1 and his country2 but these he looked upon as only adventitious goods1 and under the command of fortune4 ,now1 he that neither lost any thing nor feared any thing in a public ruin1 but was safe and at peace in the middle of the flames1 and in the heat of a military intemperance and fury--what violence or provocation imaginable can put such a man as this out of the possession of himself8 ,walls and castles may be mined and battered1 but there is no art or engine that can subvert a steady mind4 8,i have made my way10 says ,stilpo1 8through fire and blood--what has become of my children ,i know not2 but these are transitory blessings1 and servants that are bound to change their masters2 what was my own before is my own still4 ,some have lost their estates1 others their dear-bought mistresses1 their commissions and offices3 the usurers have lost their bonds and securities3 but1 ,demetrius1 for my part ,i have saved all1 and do not imagine after all this1 either that ,demetrius is a conqueror1 or that ,stilpo is overcome--it is only thy fortune has been too hard for mine40 ,alexander took ,babylon1 ,scipio took ,carthage1 the capitol was burnt2 but there is no fire or violence that can discompose a generous mind2 and let us not take this character either for a chimera1 for all ages afford some1 though not many1 instances of this elevated virtue4 ,a good man does his duty1 let it be never so painful1 so hazardous1 or never so great a loss to him2 and it is not all the money1 the power1 and the pleasure in the world2 not any force of necessity1 that can make him wicked3 he considers what he is to do1 not what he is to suffer1 and will keep on his course1 though there should be nothing but gibbets and torments in the way4 ,and in this instance of ,stilpo1 who1 when he had lost his country1 his wife1 his children1 the town on fire over his head1 himself escaping very hardly and naked out of the flames2 8,i have saved all my goods10 says he1 8my justice1 my courage1 my temperance1 my prudence20 accounting nothing his own1 or valuable1 and showing how much easier it was to overcome a nation than one wise man4 ,it is a certain mark of a brave mind not to be moved by any accidents3 the upper region of the air admits neither clouds nor tempests2 the thunder1 storms1 and meteors1 are formed below2 and this is the difference betwixt a mean and an exalted mind2 the former is rude and tumultuary2 the latter is modest1 venerable1 composed1 and always quiet in its station4 ,in brief1 it is the conscience that pronounces upon the man whether he be happy or miserable4 ,but1 though sacrilege and adultery be generally condemned1 how many are there still that do not so much as blush at the one1 and in truth that take a glory in the other8 ,for nothing is more common than for great thieves to ride in triumph when the little ones are punished4 ,but let 8wickedness escape as it may at the bar1 it never fails of doing justice upon itself2 for every guilty person is his own hangman40 ,,chapter ,,viii4 ,,the ,,due ,,contemplation ,,of ,,divine ,,providence ,,is ,,the ,,certain ,,cure ,,of ,,all ,,misfortunes4 ,whoever observes the world1 and the order of it1 will find all the motions in it to be only vicissitudes of falling and rising2 nothing extinguished1 and even those things which seem to us to perish are in truth but changed4 ,the seasons go and return1 day and night follow in their courses1 the heavens roll1 and ,nature goes on with her work3 all things succeed in their turns1 storms and calms2 the law of ,nature will have it so1 which we must follow and obey1 accounting all things that are done to be well done2 so that what we cannot mend we must suffer1 and wait upon ,providence without repining4 ,it is the part of a cowardly soldier to follow his commander groaning3 but a generous man delivers himself up to ,god without struggling2 and it is only for a narrow mind to condemn the order of the world1 and to propound rather the mending of ,nature than of himself4 ,no man has any cause of complaint against ,providence1 if that which is right pleases him4 ,those glories that appear fair to the eye1 their lustre is but false and superficial2 and they are only vanity and delusion3 they are rather the goods of a dream than a substantial possession3 they may cozen us at a distance1 but bring them once to the touch1 they are rotten and counterfeit4 ,there are no greater wretches in the world than many of those which the people take to be happy4 ,those are the only true and incorruptible comforts that will abide all trials1 and the more we turn and examine them1 the more valuable we find them2 and the greatest felicity of all is1 not to stand in need of any4 ,what is poverty8 ,no man lives so poor as he was born4 ,what is pain8 ,it will either have an end itself1 or make an end of us4 ,in short1 ,fortune has no weapon that reaches the mind3 but the bounties of ,providence are certain and permanent blessings2 and they are the greater and the better1 the longer we consider them2 that is to say1 8the power of contemning things terrible1 and despising what the common people covet40 ,in the very methods of ,nature we cannot but observe the regard that ,providence had to the good of mankind1 even in the disposition of the world1 in providing so amply for our maintenance and satisfaction4 ,it is not possible for us to comprehend what the ,power is which has made all things3 some few sparks of that ,divinity are discovered1 but infinitely the greater part of it lies hid4 ,we are all of us1 however1 thus far agreed1 first1 in the acknowledgement and belief of that almighty ,being2 and1 secondly1 that we are to ascribe to it all majesty and goodness4 8,if there be a ,providence10 say some1 8how comes it to pass that good men labor under affliction and adversity1 and wicked men enjoy themselves in ease and plenty80 ,my answer is1 that ,god deals by us as a good father does by his children2 he tries us1 he hardens us1 and fits us for himself4 ,he keeps a strict hand over those that he loves2 and by the rest he does as we do by our slaves2 he lets them go on in license and boldness4 ,as the master gives his most hopeful scholars the hardest lessons1 so does ,god deal with the most generous spirits2 and the cross encounters of fortune we are not to look upon as a cruelty1 but as a contest3 the familiarity of dangers brings us to the contempt of them1 and that part is strongest which is most exercised3 the seaman's hand is callous1 the soldier's arm is strong1 and the tree that is most exposed to the wind takes the best root3 there are people that live in a perpetual winter1 in extremity of frost and penury1 where a cave1 a lock of straw1 or a few leaves1 is all their covering1 and wild beasts their nourishment2 all this by custom is not only made tolerable1 but when it is once taken up upon necessity1 by little and little1 it becomes pleasant to them4 ,why should we then count that condition of life a calamity which is the lot of many nations8 ,there is no state of life so miserable but that there are in it remissions1 diversions1 nay1 and delights too2 such is the benignity of ,nature towards us1 even in the severest accidents of human life4 ,there were no living if adversity should hold on as it begins1 and keep up the force of the first impression4 ,we are apt to murmur at many things as great evils1 that have nothing at all of evil in them besides the complaint1 which we should more reasonably take up against ourselves4 ,if ,i be sick1 it is part of my fate2 and for other calamities1 they are usual things2 they ought to be2 nay1 which is more1 they must be1 for they come by divine appointment4 ,so that we should not only submit to ,god1 but assent to him1 and obey him out of duty1 even if there were no necessity4 ,all those terrible appearances that make us groan and tremble are but the tribute of life2 we are neither to wish1 nor to ask1 nor to hope to escape them2 for it is a kind of dishonesty to pay a tribute unwillingly4 ,am ,i troubled with the stone1 or afflicted with continual losses8 nay1 is my body in danger8 ,all this is no more than what ,i prayed for when ,i prayed for old age4 ,all these things are as familiar in a long life1 as dust and dirt in a long way4 ,life is a warfare2 and what brave man would not rather choose to be in a tent than in shambles8 ,fortune does like a swordsman1 she scorns to encounter a fearful man3 there is no honor in the victory where there is no danger in the way to it2 she tries ,mucius by fire2 ,rutilius by exile2 ,socrates by poison2 ,cato by death4 ,it is only in adverse fortune1 and in bad times1 that we find great examples4 ,mucius thought himself happier with his hand in the flame1 than if it had been in the bosom of his mistress4 ,fabricius took more pleasure in eating the roots of his own planting than in all the delicacies of luxury and expense4 ,shall we call ,rutilius miserable1 whom his very enemies have adored8 who1 upon a glorious and a public principle1 chose rather to lose his country than to return from banishment8 the only man that denied any thing to ,sylla the dictator1 who recalled him4 ,nor did he only refuse to come1 but drew himself further off3 8,let them10 says he1 8that think banishment a misfortune1 live slaves at ,rome1 under the imperial cruelties of ,sylla3 he that sets a price upon the heads of senators2 and after a law of his own institution against cut-throats1 becomes the greatest himself40 ,is it not better for a man to live in exile abroad than to be massacred at home8 ,in suffering for virtue1 it is not the torment but the cause1 that we are to consider2 and the more pain1 the more renown4 ,when any hardship befalls us1 we must look upon it as an act of ,providence1 which many times suffers particulars to be wounded for the conservation of the whole3 beside that1 ,god chastises some people under an appearance of blessing them1 turning their prosperity to their ruin as a punishment for abusing his goodness4 ,and we are further to consider1 that many a good man is afflicted1 only to teach others to suffer2 for we are born for example2 and likewise that where men are contumacious and refractory1 it pleases ,god many times to cure greater evils by less1 and to turn our miseries to our advantage4 ,how many casualties and difficulties are there that we dread as insupportable mischiefs1 which1 upon farther thoughts1 we find to be mercies and benefits8 as banishment1 poverty1 loss of relations1 sickness1 disgrace4 ,some are cured by the lance2 by fire1 hunger1 thirst2 taking out of bones1 lopping off limbs1 and the like3 nor do we only fear things that are many times beneficial to us2 but1 on the other side1 we hanker after and pursue things that are deadly and pernicious3 we are poisoned in the very pleasure of our luxury1 and betrayed to a thousand diseases by the indulging of our palate4 ,to lose a child or a limb1 is only to part with what we have received1 and ,nature may do what she pleases with her own4 ,we are frail ourselves1 and we have received things transitory--that which was given us may be taken away--calamity tries virtue as the fire does gold1 nay1 he that lives most at ease is only delayed1 not dismissed1 and his portion is to come4 ,when we are visited with sickness or other afflictions we are not to murmur as if we were ill used--it is a mark of the general's esteem when he puts us upon a post of danger3 we do not say 8,my captain uses me ill10 but 8he does me honor20 and so should we say that are commanded to encounter difficulties1 for this is our case with ,god ,almighty4 ,what was ,regulus the worse1 because ,fortune made choice of him for an eminent instance both of faith and patience8 ,he was thrown into a case of wood stuck with pointed nails1 so that which way soever he turned his body1 it rested upon his wounds2 his eyelids were cut off to keep him waking2 and yet ,mecnas was not happier upon his bed than ,regulus upon his torments4 ,nay1 the world is not yet grown so wicked as not to prefer ,regulus before ,mecnas3 and can any man take that to be an evil of which ,providence accounted this brave man worthy8 8,it has pleased ,god10 says he1 8to single me out for an experiment of the force of human nature40 ,no man knows his own strength or value but by being put to the proof4 ,the pilot is tried in a storm2 the soldier in a battle2 the rich man knows not how to behave himself in poverty3 he that has lived in popularity and applause1 knows not how he would bear infamy and reproach3 nor he that never had children how he would bear the loss of them4 ,calamity is the occasion of virtue1 and a spur to a great mind4 ,the very apprehension of a wound startles a man when he first bears arms2 but an old soldier bleeds boldly1 because he knows that a man may lose blood1 and yet win the day4 ,nay1 many times a calamity turns to our advantage2 and great ruins have but made way to greater glories4 ,the crying out of fire has many times quieted a fray1 and the interposing of a wild beast has parted the thief and the traveller2 for we are not at leisure for less mischiefs while we are under the apprehensions of greater4 ,one man's life is saved by a disease3 another is arrested1 and taken out of the way1 just when his house was falling upon his head4 ,to show now that the favors or the crosses of fortune1 and the accidents of sickness and of health1 are neither good nor evil1 ,god permits them indifferently both to good and evil men4 8,it is hard10 you will say1 8for a virtuous man to suffer all sorts of misery1 and for a wicked man not only to go free1 but to enjoy himself at pleasure40 ,and is it not the same thing for men of prostituted impudence and wickedness to sleep in a whole skin1 when men of honor and honesty bear arms2 lie in the trenches1 and receive wounds8 or for the vestal virgins to rise in the night to their prayers1 when common strumpets lie stretching themselves in their beds8 ,we should rather say with ,demetrius1 8,if ,i had known the will of ,heaven before ,i was called to it1 ,i would have offered myself40 ,if it be the pleasure of ,god to take my children1 ,i have brought them up to that end3 if my fortune1 any part of my body1 or my life1 ,i would rather present it than yield it up3 ,i am ready to part with all1 and to suffer all2 for ,i know that nothing comes to pass but what ,god appoints3 our fate is decreed1 and things do not so much happen1 as in their due time proceed1 and every man's portion of joy and sorrow is predetermined4 ,there is nothing falls amiss to a good man that can be charged upon ,providence2 for wicked actions1 lewd thoughts1 ambitious projects1 blind lusts1 and insatiable avarice--against all these he is armed by the benefit of reason3 and do we expect now that ,god should look to our luggage too8 7,i mean our bodies47 ,demetrius discharged himself of his treasure as the clog and burden of his mind3 shall we wonder then if ,god suffers that to befall a good man which a good man sometimes does to himself8 ,i lose a son1 and why not1 when it may sometimes so fall out that ,i myself may kill him8 ,suppose he be banished by an order of state1 is it not the same thing with a man's voluntarily leaving his country never to return8 ,many afflictions may befall a good man1 but no evil1 for contraries will never incorporate--all the rivers in the world are never able to change the taste or quality of the sea4 ,prudence and religion are above accidents1 and draw good out of every thing--affliction keeps a man in use1 and makes him strong1 patient1 and hardy4 ,providence treats us like a generous father1 and brings us up to labors1 toils1 and dangers2 whereas the indulgence of a fond mother makes us weak and spiritless4 ,god loves us with a masculine love1 and turns us loose to injuries and indignities3 he takes delight to see a brave and a good man wrestling with evil fortune1 and yet keeping himself upon his legs1 when the whole world is in disorder about him4 ,and are not we ourselves delighted1 to see a bold fellow press with his lance upon a boar or lion8 and the constancy and resolution of the action is the grace and dignity of the spectacle4 ,no man can be happy that does not stand firm against all contingencies2 and say to himself in all extremities1 8,i should have been content1 if it might have been so or so1 but since it is otherwise determined1 ,god will provide better40 ,the more we struggle with our necessities1 we draw the knot the harder1 and the worse it is with us3 and the more a bird flaps and flutters in the snare1 the surer she is caught3 so that the best way is to submit and lie still1 under this double consideration1 that 8the proceedings of ,god are unquestionable1 and his decrees are not to be resisted40 ,,chapter ,,ix4 ,,of ,,levity ,,of ,,mind1 ,,and ,,other ,,impediments ,,of ,a ,,happy ,,life4 ,now1 to sum up what is already delivered1 we have showed what happiness is1 and wherein it consists3 that it is founded upon wisdom and virtue2 for we must first know what we ought to do1 and then live according to that knowledge4 ,we have also discoursed the helps of philosophy and precept toward a happy life2 the blessing of a good conscience2 that a good man can never be miserable1 nor a wicked man happy2 nor any man unfortunate that cheerfully submits to ,providence4 ,we shall now examine1 how it comes to pass that1 when the certain way to happiness lies so fair before us1 men will yet steer their course on the other side1 which as manifestly leads to ruin4 ,there are some that live without any design at all1 and only pass in the world like straws upon a river2 they do not go1 but they are carried4 ,others only deliberate upon the parts of life1 and not upon the whole1 which is a great error3 for there is no disposing of the circumstances of it1 unless we first propound the main scope4 ,how shall any man take his aim without a mark8 or what wind will serve him that is not yet resolved upon his port8 ,we live as it were by chance1 and by chance we are governed4 ,some there are that torment themselves afresh with the memory of what is past3 8,lord6 what did ,i endure8 never was any man in my condition2 everybody gave me over2 my very heart was ready to break10 etc4 ,others1 again1 afflict themselves with the apprehension of evils to come2 and very ridiculously3 for the one does not now concern us1 and the other not yet3 beside that1 there may he remedies for mischiefs likely to happen2 for they give us warning by signs and symptoms of their approach4 ,let him that would be quiet take heed not to provoke men that are in power1 but live without giving offence2 and if we cannot make all great men our friends1 it will suffice to keep them from being our enemies4 ,this is a thing we must avoid1 as a mariner would do a storm4 ,a rash seaman never considers what wind blows1 or what course he steers1 but runs at a venture1 as if he would brave the rocks and the eddies2 whereas he that is careful and considerate1 informs himself beforehand where the danger lies1 and what weather it is like to be3 he consults his compass1 and keeps aloof from those places that are infamous for wrecks and miscarriages2 so does a wise man in the common business of life2 he keeps out of the way from those that may do him hurt3 but it is a point of prudence not to let them take notice that he does it on purpose2 for that which a man shuns he tacitly condemns4 ,let him have a care also of listeners1 newsmongers1 and meddlers in other people's matters2 for their discourse is commonly of such things as are never profitable1 and most commonly dangerous either to be spoken or heard4 ,levity of mind is a great hindrance of repose1 and the very change of wickedness is an addition to the wickedness itself2 for it is inconstancy added to iniquity2 we relinquish the thing we sought1 and then we take it up again2 and so divide our lives between our lust and our repentances4 ,from one appetite we pass to another1 not so much upon choice as for change2 and there is a check of conscience that casts a damp upon all our unlawful pleasures1 which makes us lose the day in expectation of the night1 and the night itself for fear of the approaching light4 ,some people are never at quiet1 others are always so1 and they are both to blame3 for that which looks like vivacity and industry in the one is only a restlessness and agitation2 and that which passes in the other for moderation and reserve is but a drowsy and unactive sloth4 ,let motion and rest both take their turns1 according to the order of ,nature1 which makes both the day and the night4 ,some are perpetually shifting from one thing to another2 others1 again1 make their whole life but a kind of uneasy sleep3 some lie tossing and turning until very weariness brings them to rest2 others1 again1 ,i cannot so properly call inconstant as lazy4 ,there are many proprieties and diversities of vice2 but it is one never-failing effect of it to live displeased4 ,we do all of us labor under inordinate desires2 we are either timorous1 and dare not venture1 or venturing we do not succeed2 or else we cast ourselves upon uncertain hopes1 where we are perpetually solicitous1 and in suspense4 ,in this distraction we are apt to propose to ourselves things dishonest and hard2 and when we have taken great pains to no purpose1 we come then to repent of our undertakings3 we are afraid to go on1 and we can neither master our appetites nor obey them3 we live and die restless and irresolute2 and1 which is worst of all1 when we grow weary of the public1 and betake ourselves to solitude for relief1 our minds are sick and wallowing1 and the very house and walls are troublesome to us2 we grow impatient and ashamed of ourselves1 and suppress our inward vexation until it breaks our heart for want of vent4 ,this is it that makes us sour and morose1 envious of others1 and dissatisfied with ourselves2 until at last1 betwixt our troubles for other people's successes and the despair of our own1 we fall foul upon ,fortune and the times1 and get into a corner perhaps1 where we sit brooding over our own disquiets4 ,in these dispositions there is a kind of pruriginous fancy1 that makes some people take delight in labor and uneasiness1 like the clawing of an itch until the blood starts4 ,this is it that puts us upon rambling voyages2 one while by land2 but still disgusted with the present3 the town pleases us to-day1 the country to-morrow3 the splendors of the court at one time1 the horrors of a wilderness at another1 but all this while we carry our plague about us2 for it is not the place we are weary of1 but ourselves4 ,nay1 our weakness extends to everything2 for we are impatient equally of toil and of pleasure4 ,this trotting of the ring1 and only treading the same steps over and over again1 has made many a man lay violent hands upon himself4 ,it must be the change of the mind1 not of the climate1 that will remove the heaviness of the heart2 our vices go along with us1 and we carry in ourselves the causes of our disquiets4 ,there is a great weight lies upon us1 and the bare shocking of it makes it the more uneasy2 changing of countries1 in this case1 is not travelling1 but wandering4 ,we must keep on our course1 if we would gain our journey's end4 8,he that cannot live happily anywhere1 will live happily nowhere40 ,what is a man the better for travelling8 as if his cares could not find him out wherever he goes8 ,is there any retiring from the fear of death1 or of torments8 or from those difficulties which beset a man wherever he is8 ,it is only philosophy that makes the mind invincible1 and places us out of the reach of fortune1 so that all her arrows fall short of us4 ,this it is that reclaims the rage of our lusts1 and sweetens the anxiety of our fears4 ,frequent changing of places or councils1 shows an instability of mind2 and we must fix the body before we can fix the soul4 ,we can hardly stir abroad1 or look about us1 without encountering something or other that revives our appetites4 ,as he that would cast off an unhappy love avoids whatsoever may put him in mind of the person1 so he that would wholly deliver himself from his beloved lusts must shun all objects that may put them in his head again1 and remind him of them4 ,we travel1 as children run up and down after strange sights1 for novelty1 not profit2 we return neither the better nor the sounder2 nay1 and the very agitation hurts us4 ,we learn to call towns and places by their names1 and to tell stories of mountains and of rivers2 but had not our time been better spent in the study of wisdom and of virtue8 in the learning of what is already discovered1 and in the quest of things not yet found out8 ,if a man break his leg1 or strain his ankle1 he sends presently for a surgeon to set all right again1 and does not take horse upon it1 or put himself on ship-board2 no more does the change of place work upon our disordered minds than upon our bodies4 ,it is not the place1 ,i hope1 that makes either an orator or a physician4 ,will any man ask upon the road1 ,pray1 which is the way to prudence1 to justice1 to temperance1 to fortitude8 ,no matter whither any man goes that carries his affections along with him4 ,he that would make his travels delightful must make himself a temperate companion4 ,a great traveller was complaining that he was never the better for his travels2 8,that is very true10 said ,socrates1 8because you travelled with yourself40 ,now1 had not he better have made himself another man than to transport himself to another place8 ,it is no matter what manners we find anywhere2 so long as we carry our own4 ,but we have all of us a natural curiosity of seeing fine sights1 and of making new discoveries1 turning over antiquities1 learning the customs of nations1 etc4 ,we are never quiet2 to-day we seek an office1 to-morrow we are sick of it4 ,we divide our lives betwixt a dislike of the present and a desire of the future3 but he that lives as he should1 orders himself so1 as neither to fear nor to wish for to-morrow2 if it comes1 it is welcome2 but if not1 there is nothing lost2 for that which is come1 is but the same over again with what is past4 ,as levity is a pernicious enemy to quiet1 so pertinacity is a great one too4 ,the one changes nothing1 the other sticks to nothing2 and which of the two is the worse1 may be a question4 ,it is many times seen1 that we beg earnestly for those things1 which1 if they were offered us1 we would refuse2 and it is but just to punish this easiness of asking with an equal facility of granting4 ,there are some things we would be thought to desire1 which we are so far from desiring that we dread them4 8,i shall tire you10 says one1 in the middle of a tedious story4 8,nay1 pray be pleased to go on10 we cry1 though we wish his tongue out at half-way3 nay1 we do not deal candidly even with ,god himself4 ,we should say to ourselves in these cases1 8,this ,i have drawn upon myself4 ,i could never be quiet until ,i had gotten this woman1 this place1 this estate1 this honor1 and now see what is come of it40 ,one sovereign remedy against all misfortunes is constancy of mind3 the changing of parties and countenances looks as if a man were driven with the wind4 ,nothing can be above him that is above fortune4 ,it is not violence1 reproach1 contempt1 or whatever else from without1 that can make a wise man quit his ground3 but he is proof against calamities1 both great and small3 only our error is1 that what we cannot do ourselves1 we think nobody else can2 so that we judge of the wise by the measures of the weak4 ,place me among princes or among beggars1 the one shall not make me proud1 nor the other ashamed4 ,i can take as sound a sleep in a barn as in a palace1 and a bundle of hay makes me as good a lodging as a bed of down4 ,should every day succeed to my wish1 it should not transport me2 nor would ,i think myself miserable if ,i should not have one quiet hour in my life4 ,i will not transport myself with either pain or pleasure2 but yet for all that1 ,i could wish that ,i had an easier game to play1 and that ,i were put rather to moderate my joys than my sorrows4 ,if ,i were an imperial prince1 ,i had rather take than be taken2 and yet ,i would bear the same mind under the chariot of my conqueror that ,i had in my own4 ,it is no great matter to trample upon those things that are most coveted or feared by the common people4 ,there are those that will laugh upon the wheel1 and cast themselves upon a certain death1 only upon a transport of love1 perhaps anger1 avarice1 or revenge2 how much more then upon an instinct of virtue1 which is invincible and steady6 ,if a short obstinacy of mind can do this1 how much more shall a composed and deliberate virtue1 whose force is equal and perpetual4 ,to secure ourselves in this world1 first1 we must aim at nothing that men count worth the wrangling for4 ,secondly1 we must not value the possession of any thing which even a common thief would think worth the stealing4 ,a man's body is no booty4 ,let the way be never so dangerous for robberies1 the poor and the naked pass quietly4 ,a plain-dealing sincerity of manners makes a man's life happy1 even in despite of scorn and contempt1 which is every clear man's fate4 ,but we had better yet be contemned for simplicity than lie perpetually upon the torture of a counterfeit2 provided that care be taken not to confound simplicity with negligence2 and it is1 moreover1 an uneasy life that of a disguise2 for a man to seem to be what he is not1 to keep a perpetual guard upon himself1 and to live in fear of a discovery4 ,he takes every man that looks upon him for a spy1 over and above the trouble of being put to play another man's part4 ,it is a good remedy in some cases for a man to apply himself to civil affairs and public business2 and yet1 in this state of life too1 what betwixt ambition and calumny1 it is hardly safe to be honest4 ,there are1 indeed1 some cases wherein a wise man will give way2 but let him not yield over easily neither2 if he marches off1 let him have a care of his honor1 and make his retreat with his sword in his hand1 and his face to the enemy4 ,of all others1 a studious life is the least tiresome3 it makes us easy to ourselves and to others1 and gains us both friends and reputation4 ,,chapter ,x4 ,,he ,,that ,,sets ,,up ,,his ,,rest ,,upon ,,contingencies ,,shall ,,never ,,be ,,quiet4 ,never pronounce any man happy that depends upon fortune for his happiness2 for nothing can be more preposterous than to place the good of a reasonable creature in unreasonable things4 ,if ,i have lost any thing1 it was adventitious2 and the less money1 the less trouble2 the less favor1 the less envy2 nay1 even in those cases that put us out of their wits1 it is not the loss itself1 but the opinion of the loss1 that troubles us4 ,it is a common mistake to account those things necessary that are superfluous1 and to depend upon fortune for the felicity of life1 which arises only from virtue4 ,there is no trusting to her smiles2 the sea swells and rages in a moment1 and the ships are swallowed at night1 in the very place where they sported themselves in the morning4 ,and fortune has the same power over princes that it has over empires1 over nations that it has over cities1 and the same power over cities that it has over private men4 ,where is that estate that may not be followed upon the heel with famine and beggary8 that dignity which the next moment may not be laid in the dust8 that kingdom that is secure from desolation and ruin8 ,the period of all things is at hand1 as well that which casts out the fortunate as the other that delivers the unhappy2 and that which may fall out at any time may fall out this very day4 ,what shall come to pass ,i know not1 but what may come to pass ,i know3 so that ,i will despair of nothing1 but expect everything2 and whatsoever ,providence remits is clear gain4 ,every moment1 if it spares me1 deceives me2 and yet in some sort it does not deceive me2 for though ,i know that any thing may happen1 yet ,i know likewise that everything will not4 ,i will hope the best1 and provide for the worst4 ,methinks we should not find so much fault with ,fortune for her inconstancy when we ourselves suffer a change every moment that we live2 only other changes make more noise1 and this steals upon us like the shadow upon a dial1 every jot as certainly1 but more insensibly4 ,the burning of ,lyons may serve to show us that we are never safe1 and to arm us against all surprises4 ,the terror of it must needs be great1 for the calamity is almost without example4 ,if it had been fired by an enemy1 the flame would have left some further mischief to have been done by the soldiers2 but to be wholly consumed1 we have not heard of many earthquakes so pernicious3 so many rarities to be destroyed in one night2 and in the depth of peace to suffer an outrage beyond the extremity of war2 who would believe it8 but twelve hours betwixt so fair a city and none at all6 ,it was laid in ashes in less time than it would require to tell the story4 ,to stand unshaken in such a calamity is hardly to be expected1 and our wonder can but be equal to our grief4 ,let this accident teach us to provide against all possibilities that fall within the power of fortune4 ,all external things are under her dominion3 one while she calls our hands to her assistance2 another while she contents herself with her own force1 and destroys us with mischiefs of which we cannot find the author4 ,no time1 place1 or condition1 is excepted2 she makes our very pleasures painful to us2 she makes war upon us in the depth of peace1 and turns the means of our security into an occasion of fear2 she turns a friend into an enemy1 and makes a foe of a companion2 we suffer the effects of war without any adversary2 and rather than fail1 our felicity shall be the cause of our destruction4 ,lest we should either forget or neglect her power1 every day produces something extraordinary4 ,she persecutes the most temperate with sickness1 the strongest constitutions with the phthisis2 she brings the innocent to punishment1 and the most retired she assaults with tumults4 ,those glories that have grown up with many ages1 with infinite labor and expense1 and under the favor of many auspicious providences1 one day scatters and brings to nothing4 ,he that pronounced a day1 nay1 an hour1 sufficient for the destruction of the greatest empire1 might have fallen to a moment4 ,it were some comfort yet to the frailty of mankind and of human affairs1 if things might but decay as slowly as they rise2 but they grow by degrees1 and they fall to ruin in an instant4 ,there is no felicity in anything either private or public2 men1 nations1 and cities1 have all their fates and periods2 our very entertainments are not without terror1 and our calamity rises there where we least expect it4 ,those kingdoms that stood the shock both of foreign wars and civil1 come to destruction without the sight of an enemy4 ,nay1 we are to dread our peace and felicity more than violence1 because we are here taken unprovided2 unless in a state of peace we do the duty of men in war1 and say to ourselves1 ,whatsoever may be1 will be4 ,i am to-day safe and happy in the love of my country2 ,i am to-morrow banished3 to-day in pleasure1 peace1 health2 to-morrow broken upon a wheel1 led in triumph1 and in the agony of sickness4 ,let us therefore prepare for a shipwreck in the port1 and for a tempest in a calm4 ,one violence drives me from my country1 another ravishes that from me2 and that very place where a man can hardly pass this day for a crowd may be to-morrow a desert4 ,wherefore let us set before our eyes the whole condition of human nature1 and consider as well what may happen as what commonly does4 ,the way to make future calamities easy to us in the sufferance1 is to make them familiar to us in the contemplation4 ,how many cities in ,asia1 ,achaia1 ,assyria1 ,macedonia1 have been swallowed up by earthquakes8 nay1 whole countries are lost1 and large provinces laid under water2 but time brings all things to an end2 for all the works of mortals are mortal2 all possessions and their possessors are uncertain and perishable2 and what wonder is it to lose anything at any time1 when we must one day lose all8 ,that which we call our own is but lent us2 and what we have received gratis we must return without complaint4 ,that which ,fortune gives us this hour she may take away the next2 and he that trusts to her favors1 shall either find himself deceived1 or if he be not1 he will at least be troubled1 because he may be so4 ,there is no defence in walls1 fortifications1 and engines1 against the power of fortune2 we must provide ourselves within1 and when we are safe there1 we are invincible2 we may be battered1 but not taken4 ,she throws her gifts among us1 and we sweat and scuffle for them1 never considering how few are the better for that which is expected by all4 ,some are transported with what they get2 others tormented for what they miss2 and many times there is a leg or an arm broken in a contest for a counter4 ,she gives us honors1 riches1 favors1 only to take them away again1 either by violence or treachery3 so that they frequently turn to the damage of the receiver4 ,she throws out baits for us1 and sets traps as we do for birds and beasts2 her bounties are snares and lime-twigs to us2 we think that we take1 but we are taken4 ,if they had any thing in them that was substantial1 they would some time or other fill and quiet us2 but they serve only to provoke our appetite without anything more than pomp and show to allay it4 ,but the best of it is1 if a man cannot mend his fortune1 he may yet mend his manners1 and put himself so far out of her reach1 that whether she gives or takes1 it shall be all one to us2 for we are neither the greater for the one1 nor the less for the other4 ,we call this a dark room1 or that a light one2 when it is in itself neither the one nor the other1 but only as the day and the night render it4 ,and so it is in riches1 strength of body1 beauty1 honor1 command3 and likewise in pain1 sickness1 banishment1 death3 which are in themselves middle and indifferent things1 and only good or bad as they are influenced by virtue4 ,to weep1 lament1 and groan1 is to renounce our duty2 and it is the same weakness on the other side to exult and rejoice4 ,i would rather make my fortune than expect it2 being neither depressed with her injuries1 nor dazzled with her favors4 ,when ,zeno was told1 that all his goods were drowned2 8,why then10 says he1 8,fortune has a mind to make me a philosopher40 ,it is a great matter for a man to advance his mind above her threats or flatteries2 for he that has once gotten the better of her is safe forever4 ,it is some comfort yet to the unfortunate1 that great men lie under the lash for company2 and that death spares the palace no more than the cottage1 and that whoever is above me has a power also above him4 ,do we not daily see funerals without trouble1 princes deposed1 countries depopulated1 towns sacked2 without so much as thinking how soon it may be our own case8 whereas1 if we would but prepare and arm ourselves against the iniquities of fortune1 we should never be surprised4 ,when we see any man banished1 beggared1 tortured1 we are to account1 that though the mischief fell upon another1 it was levelled at us4 ,what wonder is it if1 of so many thousands of dangers that are constantly hovering about us1 one comes to hit us at last8 ,that which befalls any man1 may befall every man2 and then it breaks the force of a present calamity to provide against the future4 ,whatsoever our lot is1 we must bear it3 as suppose it be contumely1 cruelty1 fire1 sword1 pains1 diseases1 or a prey to wild beasts2 there is no struggling1 nor any remedy but moderation4 ,it is to no purpose to bewail any part of our life1 when life itself is miserable throughout2 and the whole flux of it only a course of transition from one misfortune to another4 ,a man may as well wonder that he should be cold in winter1 sick at sea1 or have his bones clatter together in a wagon1 as at the encounter of ill accidents and crosses in the passage of human life2 and it is in vain to run away from fortune1 as if there were any hiding-place wherein she could not find us2 or to expect any quiet from her2 for she makes life a perpetual state of war1 without so much as any respite or truce4 ,this we may conclude upon1 that her empire is but imaginary1 and that whosoever serves her1 makes himself a voluntary slave2 for 8the things that are often contemned by the inconsiderate1 and always by the wise1 are in themselves neither good nor evil30 as pleasure and pains2 prosperity and adversity2 which can only operate upon our outward condition1 without any proper and necessary effect upon the mind4 ,,chapter ,,xi4 ,a ,,sensual ,,life ,,is ,a ,,miserable ,,life4 ,the sensuality that we here treat of falls naturally under the head of luxury2 which extends to all the excesses of gluttony1 lust1 effeminacy of manners2 and1 in short1 to whatsoever concerns the overgreat care of the carcass4 ,to begin now with the pleasures of the palate1 7which deal with us like ,egyptian thieves1 that strangle those they embrace71 what shall we say of the luxury of ,nomentanus and ,apicius1 that entertained their very souls in the kitchen3 they have the choicest music for their ears2 the most diverting spectacles for their eyes2 the choicest variety of meats and drinks for their palates4 ,what is all this1 ,i say1 but a merry madness8 ,it is true1 they have their delights1 but not without heavy and anxious thoughts1 even in their very enjoyments1 beside that1 they are followed with repentance1 and their frolics are little more than the laughter of so many people out of their wits4 ,their felicities are full of disquiet1 and neither sincere nor well grounded3 but they have need of one pleasure to support another2 and of new prayers to forgive the errors of their former4 ,their life must needs be wretched that get with great pains what they keep with greater4 ,one diversion overtakes another2 hope excites hope2 ambition begets ambition2 so that they only change the matter of their miseries1 without seeking any end of them2 and shall never be without either prosperous or unhappy causes of disquiet4 ,what if a body might have all the pleasures in the world for the asking8 who would so much unman himself1 as by accepting of them1 to desert his soul1 and become a perpetual slave to his senses8 ,those false and miserable palates1 that judge of meats by the price and difficulty1 not by the healthfulness of taste1 they vomit that they may eat1 and they eat that they may fetch it up again4 ,they cross the seas for rarities1 and when they have swallowed them1 they will not so much as give them time to digest4 ,wheresoever ,nature has placed men1 she has provided them aliment3 but we rather choose to irritate hunger by expense than to allay it at an easier rate4 ,what is it that we plow the seas for2 or arm ourselves against men and beasts8 ,to what end do we toil1 and labor1 and pile bags upon bags8 ,we may enlarge our fortunes1 but we cannot our bodies2 so that it does but spill and run over1 whatsoever we take more than we can hold4 ,our forefathers 7by the force of whose virtues we are now supported in our vices7 lived every jot as well as we1 when they provided and dressed their own meat with their own hands2 lodged upon the ground1 and were not as yet come to the vanity of gold and gems2 when they swore by their earthen gods1 and kept their oath1 though they died for it4 ,did not our consuls live more happily when they cooked their own meat with those victorious hands that had conquered so many enemies and won so many laurels8 ,did they not live more happily1 ,i say1 than our ,apicius 7that corrupter of youth1 and plague of the age he lived in7 who1 after he had spent a prodigious fortune upon his belly1 poisoned himself for fear of starving1 when he had yet #bej1jjj crowns in his coffers8 which may serve to show us1 that it is the mind1 and not the sum1 that makes any man rich2 when ,apicius with all his treasure counted himself in a state of beggary1 and took poison to avoid that condition1 which another would have prayed for4 ,but why do we call it poison1 which was the wholesomest draught of his life8 ,his daily gluttony was poison rather1 both to himself and others4 ,his ostentation of it was intolerable2 and so was the infinite pains he took to mislead others by his example1 who went even fast enough of themselves without driving4 ,it is a shame for a man to place his felicity in those entertainments and appetites that are stronger in brutes4 ,do not beasts eat with a better stomach8 ,have they not more satisfaction in their lusts8 ,and they have not only a quicker relish of their pleasures1 but they enjoy them without either scandal or remorse4 ,if sensuality were happiness1 beasts were happier than men2 but human felicity is lodged in the soul1 not in the flesh4 ,they that deliver themselves up to luxury are still either tormented with too little1 or oppressed with too much2 and equally miserable1 by being either deserted or overwhelmed3 they are like men in a dangerous sea2 one while cast a-dry upon a rock1 and another while swallowed up in a whirlpool2 and all this from the mistake of not distinguishing good from evil4 ,the huntsman1 that with which labor and hazard takes a wild beast1 runs as great a risk afterwards in the keeping of him2 for many times he tears out the throat of his master2 and it is the same thing with inordinate pleasures3 the more in number1 and the greater they are1 the more general and absolute a slave is the servant of them4 ,let the common people pronounce him as happy as they please1 he pays his liberty for his delights1 and sells himself for what he buys4 ,let any man take a view of our kitchens1 the number of our cooks1 and the variety of our meats2 will he not wonder to see so much provision made for one belly8 ,we have as many diseases as we have cooks or meats2 and the service of the appetite is the study now in vogue4 ,to say nothing of our trains of lackeys1 and our troops of caterers and sewers3 ,good ,god6 that ever one belly should employ so many people6 ,how nauseous and fulsome are the surfeits that follow these excesses8 ,simple meats are out of fashion1 and all are collected into one2 so that the cook does the office of the stomach2 nay1 and of the teeth too2 for the meat looks as if it were chewed beforehand3 here is the luxury of all tastes in one dish1 and liker a vomit than a soup4 ,from these compounded dishes arise compounded diseases1 which require compounded medicines4 ,it is the same thing with our minds that it is with our tables2 simple vices are curable by simple counsels1 but a general dissolution of manners is hardly overcome2 we are overrun with a public as well as with a private madness4 ,the physicians of old understood little more than the virtue of some herbs to stop blood1 or heal a wound2 and their firm and healthful bodies needed little more before they were corrupted by luxury and pleasure2 and when it came to that once1 their business was not to allay hunger1 but to provoke it by a thousand inventions and sauces4 ,that which was aliment to a craving stomach is become a burden to a full one4 ,from hence came paleness1 trembling1 and worse effects from crudities than famine2 a weakness in the joints1 the belly stretched1 suffusion of choler1 the torpor of the nerves1 and a palpitation of the heart4 ,to say nothing of megrims1 torments of the eyes and ears1 head-ache1 gout1 scurvy1 several sorts of fevers and putrid ulcers1 with other diseases that are but the punishment of luxury4 ,so long as our bodies were hardened with labor1 or tired with exercise or hunting1 our food was plain and simple2 many dishes have made many diseases4 ,it is an ill thing for a man not to know the measure of his stomach1 nor to consider that men do many things in their drink that they are ashamed of sober2 drunkenness being nothing else but a voluntary madness4 ,it emboldens men to do all sorts of mischiefs2 it both irritates wickedness and discovers it2 it does not make men vicious1 but it shows them to be so4 ,it was in a drunken fit that ,alexander killed ,clytus4 ,it makes him that is insolent prouder1 him that is cruel fiercer1 it takes away all shame4 ,he that is peevish breaks out presently into ill words and blows4 ,the lecher1 without any regard to decency or scandal1 turns up his whore in the market-place4 ,a man's tongue trips1 his head runs round1 he staggers in his pace4 ,to say nothing of the crudities and diseases that follow upon this distemper1 consider the public mischiefs it has done4 ,how many warlike nations and strong cities1 that have stood invincible to attacks and sieges1 has drunkenness overcome6 ,is it not a great honor to drink the company dead8 a magnificent virtue to swallow more wine than the rest1 and yet at last to be outdone by a hogshead8 ,what shall we say of those men that invert the offices of day and night8 as if our eyes were only given us to make use of in the dark8 ,is it day8 8,it is time to go to bed40 ,is it night8 8,it is time to rise40 ,is it toward morning8 8,let us go to supper40 ,when other people lie down they rise1 and lie till the next night to digest the debauch of the day before4 ,it is an argument of clownery1 to do as other people do4 ,luxury steals upon us by degrees2 first1 it shows itself in a more than ordinary care of our bodies1 it slips next into the furniture of our houses2 and it gets then into the fabric1 curiosity1 and expense of the house itself4 ,it appears1 lastly1 in the fantastical excesses of our tables4 ,we change and shuffle our meats1 confound our sauces1 serve that in first that used to be last1 and value our dishes1 not for the taste1 but for the rarity4 ,nay1 we are so delicate1 that we must be told when we are to eat or drink2 when we are hungry or weary2 and we cherish some vices as proofs and arguments of our happiness4 ,the most miserable mortals are they that deliver themselves up to their palates1 or to their lusts3 the pleasure is short and turns presently nauseous1 and the end of it is either shame or repentance4 ,it is a brutal entertainment1 and unworthy of a man1 to place his felicity in the service of his senses4 ,as to the wrathful1 the contentious1 the ambitious1 though the distemper be great1 the offence has yet something in it that is manly2 but the basest of prostitutes are those that dedicate themselves wholly to lust2 what with their hopes and fears1 anxiety of thought1 and perpetual disquiets1 they are never well1 full nor fasting4 ,what a deal of business is now made about our houses and diet1 which was at first both obvious and of little expense8 ,luxury led the way1 and we have employed our wits in the aid of our vices4 ,first we desired superfluities1 our next step was to wickedness1 and1 in conclusion1 we delivered up our minds to our bodies1 and so became slaves to our appetites1 which before were our servants1 and are now become our masters4 ,what was it that brought us to the extravagance of embroideries1 perfumes1 tire-women1 etc4 ,we passed the bounds of ,nature1 and launched out into superfluities2 insomuch1 that it is now-a-days only for beggars and clowns to content themselves with what is sufficient2 our luxury makes us insolent and mad4 ,we take upon us like princes1 and fly out for every trifle1 as though there were life and death in the case4 ,what a madness is it for a man to lay out an estate upon a table or a cabinet1 a patrimony upon a pain of pendants1 and to inflame the price of curiosities according to the hazard either of breaking or losing of them8 ,to wear garments that will neither defend a woman's body1 nor her modesty3 so thin that one could make a conscience of swearing she were naked3 for she hardly shows more in the privacies of her amour than in public8 ,how long shall we covet and oppress1 enlarge our possessions1 and account that too little for one man which was formerly enough for a nation8 ,and our luxury is as insatiable as our avarice4 ,where is that lake1 that sea1 that forest1 that spot of land2 that is not ransacked to gratify our palate8 ,the very earth is burdened with our buildings2 not a river1 not a mountain1 escapes us4 ,oh1 that there should be such boundless desires in our little bodies6 ,would not fewer lodgings serve us8 ,we lie but in one1 and where we are not1 that is not properly ours4 ,what with our hooks1 snares1 nets1 dogs1 etc41 we are at war with all living creatures2 and nothing comes amiss but that which is either too cheap1 or too common2 and all this is to gratify a fantastical palate4 ,our avarice1 our ambition1 our lusts1 are insatiable2 we enlarge our possessions1 swell our families1 we rifle sea and land for matter of ornament and luxury4 ,a bull contents himself with one meadow1 and one forest is enough for a thousand elephants2 but the little body of a man devours more than all other living creatures4 ,we do not eat to satisfy hunger1 but ambition2 we are dead while we are alive1 and our houses are so much our tombs1 that a man might write our epitaphs upon our very doors4 ,a voluptuous person1 in fine1 can neither be a good man1 a good patriot1 nor a good friend2 for he is transported with his appetites1 without considering1 that the lot of man is the law of ,nature4 ,a good man 7like a good soldier7 will stand his ground1 receive wounds1 glory in his scars1 and in death itself love his master for whom he falls2 with that divine precept always in his mind1 8,follow good30 whereas he that complains1 laments1 and groans1 must yield nevertheless1 and do his duty though in spite of his heart4 ,now1 what a madness is it for a man to choose rather to be lugged than to follow1 and vainly to contend with the calamities of human life8 ,whatsoever is laid upon us by necessity1 we should receive generously2 for it is foolish to strive with what we cannot avoid4 ,we are born subjects1 and to obey ,god is perfect liberty4 ,he that does this shall be free1 safe1 and quiet3 all his actions shall succeed to his wish3 and what can any man desire more than to want nothing from without1 and to have all things desirable within himself8 ,pleasures do but weaken our minds1 and send us for our support to ,fortune1 who gives us money only as the wages of slavery4 ,we must stop our eyes and our ears4 ,ulysses had but one rock to fear1 but human life has many4 ,every city1 nay1 every man1 is one2 and there is no trusting even to our nearest friends4 ,deliver me from the superstition of taking those things which are light and vain for felicities4 ,,chapter ,,xii4 ,,avarice ,,and ,,ambition ,,are ,,insatiable ,,and ,,restless4 ,the man that would be truly rich must not increase his fortune1 but retrench his appetites3 for riches are not only superfluous1 but mean1 and little more to the possessor than to the looker-on4 ,what is the end of ambition and avarice1 when at best we are but stewards of what we falsely call our own8 ,all those things that we pursue with so much hazard and expense of blood1 as well to keep as to get1 for which we break faith and friendship1 what are they but the mere deposita of ,fortune8 and not ours1 but already inclining toward a new master4 ,there is nothing our own but that which we give to ourselves1 and of which we have a certain and an inexpugnable possession4 ,avarice is so insatiable1 that it is not in the power of liberality to content it2 and our desires are so boundless1 that whatever we get is but in the way to getting more without end3 and so long as we are solicitous for the increase of wealth1 we lose the true use of it2 and spend our time in putting out1 calling in1 and passing our accounts1 without any substantial benefit1 either to the world or to ourselves4 ,what is the difference betwixt old men and children8 the one cries for nuts and apples1 and the other for gold and silver3 the one sets up courts of justice1 hears and determines1 acquits and condemns1 in jest2 the other in earnest3 the one makes houses of clay1 the other of marble3 so that the works of old men are nothing in the world but the progress and improvement of children's errors2 and they are to be admonished and punished too like children1 not in revenge for injuries received1 but as a correction of injuries done1 and to make them give over4 ,there is some substance yet in gold and silver2 but as to judgments and statutes1 procuration and continuance-money1 these are only the visions and dreams of avarice4 ,throw a crust of bread to a dog1 he takes it open-mouthed1 swallows it whole1 and presently gapes for more3 just so do we with the gifts of ,fortune2 down they go without chewing1 and we are immediately ready for another chop4 ,but what has avarice now to do with gold and silver1 that is so much outdone by curiosities of a far greater value8 ,let us no longer complain that there was not a heavier load laid upon those precious metals1 or that they were not buried deep enough1 when we have found out ways by wax and parchments1 and by bloody usurious contracts1 to undo one another4 ,it is remarkable1 that ,providence has given us all things for our advantage near at hand2 but iron1 gold1 and silver1 7being both the instrument of blood and slaughter1 and the price of it7 ,nature has hidden in the bowels of the earth4 ,there is no avarice without some punishment1 over and above that which it is to itself4 ,how miserable is it in the desire6 how miserable even in the attaining of our ends6 ,for money is a greater torment in the possession than it is in the pursuit4 ,the fear of losing it is a great trouble1 the loss of it a greater1 and it is made a greater yet by opinion4 ,nay1 even in the case of no direct loss at all1 the covetous man loses what he does not get4 ,it is true1 the people call the rich man a happy man1 and wish themselves in his condition2 but can any condition be worse than that which carries vexation and envy along with it8 ,neither is any man to boast of his fortune1 his herds of cattle1 his number of slaves1 his lands and palaces2 for comparing that which he has to that which he further covets1 he is a beggar4 ,no man can possess all things1 but any man may contemn them2 and the contempt of riches is the nearest way to the gaining of them4 ,some magistrates are made for money1 and those commonly are bribed with money4 ,we are all turned merchants1 and look not into the quality of things1 but into the price of them2 for reward we are pious1 and for reward again we are impious4 ,we are honest so long as we may thrive upon it2 but if the devil himself gives better wages1 we change our party4 ,our parents have trained us up into an admiration of gold and silver1 and the love of it is grown up with us to that degree that when we would show our gratitude to ,heaven1 we make presents of those metals4 ,this it is that makes poverty look like a curse and a reproach2 and the poets help it forward2 the chariot of the sun must be all of gold2 the best of times must be the ,golden ,age1 and thus they turn the greatest misery of mankind into the greatest blessings4 ,neither does avarice make us only unhappy in ourselves1 but malevolent also to mankind4 ,the soldier wishes for war2 the husbandman would have his corn dear2 the lawyer prays for dissension2 the physician for a sickly year2 he that deals in curiosities1 for luxury and excess1 for he makes up his fortunes out of the corruptions of the age4 ,high winds and public conflagrations make work for the carpenter and bricklayer1 and one man lives by the loss of another2 some few1 perhaps1 have the fortune to be detected1 but they are all wicked alike4 ,a great plague makes work for the sexton2 and1 in one word1 whosoever gains by the dead has not much kindness for the living4 ,demades of ,athens condemned a fellow that sold necessaries for funerals1 upon proof that he wished to make himself a fortune by his trade1 which could not be but by a great mortality2 but perhaps he did not so much desire to have many customers1 as to sell dear1 and buy cheap2 besides1 that all of that trade might have been condemned as well as he4 ,whatsoever whets our appetites1 flatters and depresses the mind1 and1 by dilating it1 weakens it2 first blowing it up1 and then filling and deluding it with vanity4 ,to proceed now from the most prostitute of all vices1 sensuality and avarice1 to that which passes in the world for the most generous1 the thirst of glory and dominion4 ,if they that run mad after wealth and honor1 could but look into the hearts of them that have already gained these points1 how would it startle them to see those hideous cares and crimes that wait upon ambitious greatness3 all those acquisitions that dazzle the eyes of the vulgar are but false pleasures1 slippery and uncertain4 ,they are achieved with labor1 and the very guard of them is painful4 ,ambition puffs us up with vanity and wind3 and we are equally troubled either to see any body before us1 or nobody behind us2 so that we lie under a double envy2 for whosoever envies another is also envied himself4 ,what matters it how far ,alexander extended his conquests1 if he was not yet satisfied with what he had8 ,every man wants as much as he covets2 and it is lost labor to pour into a vessel that will never be full4 ,he that had subdued so many princes and nations1 upon the killing of ,clytus 7one friend7 and the loss of ,hyphestion 7another7 delivered himself up to anger and sadness2 and when he was master of the world1 he was yet a slave to his passions4 ,look into ,cyrus1 ,cambyses1 and the whole ,persian line1 and you shall not find so much as one man of them that died satisfied with what he had gotten4 ,ambition aspires from great things to greater2 and propounds matters even impossible1 when it has once arrived at things beyond expectation4 ,it is a kind of dropsy2 the more a man drinks1 the more he covets4 ,let any man but observe the tumults and the crowds that attend palaces2 what affronts must we endure to be admitted1 and how much greater when we are in6 ,the passage to virtue is fair1 but the way to greatness is craggy and it stands not only upon a precipice1 but upon ice too2 and yet it is a hard matter to convince a great man that his station is slippery1 or to prevail with him not to depend upon his greatness2 but all superfluities are hurtful4 ,a rank crop lays the corn2 too great a burden of fruit breaks the bough2 and our minds may be as well overcharged with an immoderate happiness4 ,nay1 though we ourselves would be at rest1 our fortune will not suffer it3 the way that leads to honor and riches leads to troubles2 and we find the source of our sorrows in the very objects of our delights4 ,what joy is there in feasting and luxury2 in ambition and a crowd of clients2 in the arms of a mistress1 or in the vanity of an unprofitable knowledge8 ,these short and false pleasures deceive us1 and1 like drunkenness1 revenge the jolly madness of one hour with the nauseous and sad repentance of many4 ,ambition is like a gulf3 everything is swallowed up in it and buried1 beside the dangerous consequences of it2 for that which one has taken from all1 may be easily taken away again by all from one4 ,it was not either virtue or reason1 but the mad love of a deceitful greatness1 that animated ,pompey in his wars1 either abroad or at home4 ,what was it but his ambition that hurried him to ,spain1 ,africa1 and elsewhere1 when he was too great already in everybody's opinion but his own8 ,and the same motive had ,julius ,csar1 who could not1 even then1 brook a superior himself1 when the commonwealth had submitted unto two already4 ,nor was it any instinct of virtue that pushed on ,marius1 who at the head of an army was himself led on under the command of ambition3 but he came at last to the deserved fate of other wicked men1 and to drink himself of the same cup that he had filled to others4 ,we impose upon our reason1 when we suffer ourselves to be transported with titles2 for we know that they are nothing but a more glorious sound2 and so for ornaments and gildings1 though there be a lustre to dazzle our eyes1 our understanding tells us that it is only outside1 and the matter under it is only coarse and common4 ,i will never envy those that the people call great and happy4 ,a sound mind is not to be shaken with a popular and vain applause2 nor is it in the power of their pride to disturb the state of our happiness4 ,an honest man is known now-a-days by the dust he raises upon the way1 and it is become a point of honor to overrun people1 and keep all at a distance2 though he that is put out of the way may perchance be happier than he that takes it4 ,he that would exercise a power profitable to himself1 and grievous to nobody else1 let him practice it upon his passion4 ,they that have burnt cities1 otherwise invincible1 driven armies before them1 and bathed themselves in human blood1 after they have overcome all open enemies1 they have been vanquished by their lust1 by their cruelty1 and without any resistance4 ,alexander was possessed with the madness of laying kingdoms waste4 ,he began with ,greece1 where he was brought up2 and there he quarried himself upon that in it which was the best2 he enslaved ,lacedemon1 and silenced ,athens3 nor was he content with the destruction of those towns which his father ,philip had either conquered or bought2 but he made himself the enemy of human nature2 and1 like the worst of beasts1 he worried what he could not eat4 ,felicity is an unquiet thing2 it torments itself1 and puzzles the brain4 ,it makes some people ambitious1 others luxurious2 it puffs up some1 and softens others2 only 7as it is with wine7 some heads bear it better than others2 but it dissolves all4 ,greatness stands upon a precipice3 and if prosperity carries a man never so little beyond his poise1 it overbears and dashes him to pieces4 ,it is a rare thing for a man in a great fortune to lay down his happiness gently2 it being a common fate for a man to sink under the weight of those felicities that raise him4 ,how many of the nobility did ,marius bring down to herdsmen and other mean offices6 ,nay1 in the very moment of our despising servants1 we may be made so ourselves4 ,,chapter ,,xiii4 ,,hope ,,and ,,fear ,,are ,,the ,,bane ,,of ,,human ,,life4 ,no man can be said to be perfectly happy that runs the risk of disappointment3 which is the case of every man that fears or hopes for anything4 ,for hope and fear1 how distant soever they may seem to be the one from the other1 they are both of them yet coupled in the same chain1 as the guard and the prisoner2 and the one treads upon the heels of the other4 ,the reason of this is obvious1 for they are passions that look forward1 and are ever solicitous for the future2 only hope is the more plausible weakness of the two1 which in truth1 upon the main1 are inseparable2 for the one cannot be without the other3 but where the hope is stronger than the fear1 or the fear than the hope1 we call it the one or the other2 for without fear it were no longer hope1 but certainty2 as without hope it were no longer fear but despair4 ,we may come to understand whether our disputes are vain or not1 if we do but consider that we are either troubled about the present1 the future or both4 ,if the present1 it is easy to judge1 and the future is uncertain4 ,it is a foolish thing to be miserable beforehand for fear of misery to come2 for a man loses the present1 which he might enjoy1 in expectation of the future3 nay1 the fear of losing anything is as bad as the loss itself4 ,i will be as prudent as ,i can1 but not timorous or careless2 and ,i will bethink myself1 and forecast what inconveniences may happen before they come4 ,it is true1 a man may fear1 and yet not be fearful2 which is no more than to have the affection of fear without the vice of it2 but yet a frequent admittance of it runs into a habit4 ,it is a shameful and an unmanly thing to be doubtful1 timorous1 and uncertain2 to set one step forward1 and another backward2 and to be irresolute4 ,can there be any man so fearful1 that had not rather fall once than hang always in suspense8 ,our miseries are endless1 if we stand in fear of all possibilities2 the best way1 in such a case1 is to drive out one nail with another1 and a little to qualify fear with hope2 which may serve to palliate a misfortune2 though not to cure it4 ,there is not anything that we fear1 which is so certain to come1 as it is certain that many things which we do fear will not come2 but we are loth to oppose our credulity when it begins to move us1 and so to bring our fear to the test4 ,well6 but 8what if the thing we fear should come to pass80 ,perhaps it will be the better for us4 ,suppose it be death itself1 why may it not prove the glory of my life8 ,did not poison make ,socrates famous8 and was not ,cato's sword a great part of his honor8 8,do we fear any misfortune to befall us80 ,we are not presently sure that it will happen4 ,how many deliverances have come unlooked for8 and how many mischiefs that we looked for have never come to pass8 ,it is time enough to lament when it comes1 and1 in the interim1 to promise ourselves the best4 ,what do ,i know but something or other may delay or divert it8 ,some have escaped out of the fire2 others1 when a house has fallen over their head1 have received no hurt3 one man has been saved when a sword was at his throat2 another has been condemned1 and outlived his headsman3 so that ill-fortune1 we see1 as well as good1 has her levities2 peradventure it will be1 peradventure not2 and until it comes to pass1 we are not sure of it3 we do many times take words in a worse sense than they were intended1 and imagine things to be worse taken than they are4 ,it is time enough to bear a misfortune when it comes1 without anticipating it4 ,he that would deliver himself from all apprehensions of the future1 let him first take for granted1 that all fears will fall upon him2 and then examine and measure the evil that he fears1 which he will find to be neither great nor long4 ,beside1 that the ills which he fears he may suffer1 he suffers in the very fear of them4 ,as in the symptoms of an approaching disease1 a man shall find himself lazy and listless3 a weariness in his limbs1 with a yawning and shuddering all over him2 so it is in the case of a weak mind1 it fancies misfortunes1 and makes a man wretched before his time4 ,why should ,i torment myself at present with what1 perhaps1 may fall out fifty years hence8 ,this humor is a kind of voluntary disease1 and an industrious contrivance of our own unhappiness1 to complain of an affliction that we do not feel4 ,some are not only moved with grief itself1 but with the mere opinion of it2 as children will start at a shadow1 or at the sight of a deformed person4 ,if we stand in fear of violence from a powerful enemy1 it is some comfort to us1 that whosoever makes himself terrible to others is not without fear himself3 the least noise makes a lion start2 and the fiercest of beasts1 whatsoever enrages them1 makes them tremble too3 a shadow1 a voice1 an unusual odor1 rouses them4 ,the things most to be feared ,i take to be of three kinds2 want1 sickness1 and those violences that may be imposed upon us by a strong hand4 ,the last of these has the greatest force1 because it comes attended with noise and tumult2 whereas the incommodities of poverty and diseases are more natural1 and steal upon us in silence1 without any external circumstances of horror3 but the other marches in pomp1 with fire and sword1 gibbets1 racks1 hooks2 wild beasts to devour us2 stakes to impale us2 engines to tear us to pieces2 pitched bags to burn us in1 and a thousand other exquisite inventions of cruelty4 ,no wonder then1 if that be the most dreadful to us that presents itself in so many uncouth shapes2 and by the very solemnity is rendered the most formidable4 ,the more instruments of bodily pain the executioner shows us1 the more frightful he makes himself3 for many a man that would have encountered death in any generous form1 with resolution enough1 is yet overcome with the manner of it4 ,as for the calamities of hunger and thirst1 inward ulcers1 scorching fevers1 tormenting fits of the stone1 ,i look upon these miseries to be at least as grievous as any of the rest2 only they do not so much affect the fancy1 because they lie out of sight4 ,some people talk high of danger at a distance2 but 7like cowards7 when the executioner comes to do his duty1 and show us the fire1 the ax1 the scaffold1 and death at hand1 their courage fails them upon the very pinch1 when they have most need of it4 ,sickness1 7,i hope7 captivity1 fire1 are no new things to us2 the fall of houses1 funerals1 and conflagrations1 are every day before our eyes4 ,the man that ,i supped with last night is dead before morning2 why should ,i wonder then1 seeing so many fall about me1 to be hit at last myself8 ,what can be greater madness than to cry out1 8,who would have dreamed of this80 ,and why not1 ,i beseech you8 ,where is that estate that may not be reduced to beggary8 that dignity which may not be followed with banishment1 disgrace1 and extreme contempt8 that kingdom that may not suddenly fall to ruin2 change its master1 and be depopulated8 that prince that may not pass the hand of a common hangman8 ,that which is one man's fortune may be another's2 but the foresight of calamities to come breaks the violence of them4 ,,chapter ,,xiv4 ,,it ,,is ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,true ,,or ,,false ,,estimate ,,of ,,things ,,that ,,we ,,are ,,happy ,,or ,,miserable4 ,how many things are there that the fancy makes terrible by night1 which the day turns into ridiculous6 ,what is there in labor1 or in death1 that a man should be afraid of8 ,they are much slighter in act than in contemplation2 and we may contemn them1 but we will not3 so that it is not because they are hard that we dread them1 but they are hard because we are first afraid of them4 ,pains1 and other violences of ,fortune1 are the same thing to us that goblins are to children3 we are more scared with them than hurt4 ,we take up our opinions upon trust1 and err for company1 still judging that to be best that has most competitors4 ,we make a false calculation of matters1 because we advise with opinion1 and not with ,nature2 and this misleads us to a higher esteem for riches1 honor1 and power1 than they are worth3 we have been used to admire and recommend them1 and a private error is quickly turned into a public4 ,the greatest and the smallest things are equally hard to be comprehended2 we account many things great1 for want of understanding what effectually is so3 and we reckon other things to be small1 which we find frequently to be of the highest value4 ,vain things only move vain minds4 ,the accidents that we so much boggle at are not terrible in themselves1 but they are made so by our infirmities2 but we consult rather what we hear than what we feel1 without examining1 opposing1 or discussing the things we fear2 so that we either stand still and tremble1 or else directly run for it1 as those troops did1 that1 upon the raising of the dust1 took a flock of sheep for the enemy4 ,when the body and mind are corrupted1 it is no wonder if all things prove intolerable2 and not because they are so in truth1 but because we are dissolute and foolish3 for we are infatuated to such a degree1 that1 betwixt the common madness of men1 and that which falls under the care of the physician1 there is but this difference1 the one labors of a disease1 and the other of a false opinion4 ,the ,stoics hold1 that all those torments that commonly draw from us groans and ejaculations1 are in themselves trivial and contemptible4 ,but these high-flown expressions apart 7how true soever7 let us discourse the point at the rate of ordinary men1 and not make ourselves miserable before our time2 for the things we apprehend to be at hand may possibly never come to pass4 ,some things trouble us more than they should1 other things sooner2 and some things again disorder us that ought not to trouble us at all2 so that we either enlarge1 or create1 or anticipate our disquiets4 ,for the first part1 let it rest as a matter in controversy2 for that which ,i account light1 another perhaps will judge insupportable6 ,one man laughs under the lash1 and another whines for a fillip4 ,how sad a calamity is poverty to one man1 which to another appears rather desirable than inconvenient8 ,for the poor man1 who has nothing to lose1 has nothing to fear3 and he that would enjoy himself to the satisfaction of his soul1 must be either poor indeed1 or at least look as if he were so4 ,some people are extremely dejected with sickness and pain2 whereas ,epicurus blessed his fate with his last breath1 in the acutest torments of the stone imaginable4 ,and so for banishment1 which to one man is so grievous1 and yet to another is no more than a bare change of place3 a thing that we do every day for our health1 pleasure1 nay1 and upon the account even of common business4 ,how terrible is death to one man1 which to another appears the greatest providence in nature1 even toward all ages and conditions6 ,it is the wish of some1 the relief of many1 and the end of all4 ,it sets the slave at liberty1 carries the banished man home1 and places all mortals upon the same level3 insomuch1 that life itself were a punishment without it4 ,when ,i see tyrants1 tortures1 violences1 the prospect of death is a consolation to me1 and the only remedy against the injuries of life4 ,nay1 so great are our mistakes in the true estimate of things1 that we have hardly done any thing that we have not had reason to wish undone2 and we have found the things we feared to be more desirable than those we coveted4 ,our very prayers have been more pernicious than the curses of our enemies2 and we must pray to have our former prayers forgiven4 ,where is the wise man that wishes to himself the wishes of his mother1 nurse1 or his tutor2 the worst of enemies1 with the intention of the best of friends4 ,we are undone if their prayers be heard2 and it is our duty to pray that they may not2 for they are no other than well-meaning execrations4 ,they take evil for good1 and one wish fights with another3 give me rather the contempt of all those things whereof they wish me the greatest plenty4 ,we are equally hurt by some that pray for us1 and by others that curse us3 the one imprints in us a false fear1 and the other does us mischief by a mistake3 so that it is no wonder if mankind be miserable1 when we are brought up from the very cradle under the imprecations of our parents4 ,we pray for trifles1 without so much as thinking of the greatest blessings2 and we are not ashamed many times to ask ,god for that which we should blush to own to our neighbor4 ,it is with us as with an innocent that my father had in his family2 she fell blind on a sudden1 and nobody could persuade her she was blind4 8,she could not endure the house10 she cried1 8it was so dark10 and was still calling to go abroad4 ,that which we laughed at in her we find to be true in ourselves1 we are covetous and ambitious2 but the world shall never bring us to acknowledge it1 and we impute it to the place3 nay1 we are the worse of the two2 for that blind fool called for a guide1 and we wander about without one4 ,it is a hard matter to cure those that will not believe they are sick4 ,we are ashamed to admit a master1 and we are too old to learn4 ,vice still goes before virtue3 so that we have two works to do3 we must cast off the one1 and learn the other4 ,by one evil we make way to another1 and only seek things to be avoided1 or those of which we are soon weary4 ,that which seemed too much when we wished for it1 proves too little when we have it2 and it is not1 as some imagine1 that felicity is greedy1 but it is little and narrow1 and cannot satisfy us4 ,that which we take to be very high at a distance1 we find to be but low when we come at it4 ,and the business is1 we do not understand the true state of things3 we are deceived by rumors2 when we have gained the thing we aimed at1 we find it to be either ill or empty2 or perchance less than we expect1 or otherwise perhaps great1 but not good4 ,,chapter ,,xv4 ,,the ,,blessings ,,of ,,temperance ,,and ,,moderation4 ,there is not anything that is necessary to us but we have it either cheap or gratis3 and this is the provision that our heavenly ,father has made for us1 whose bounty was never wanting to our needs4 ,it is true the belly craves and calls upon us1 but then a small matter contents it3 a little bread and water is sufficient1 and all the rest is but superfluous4 ,he that lives according to reason shall never be poor1 and he that governs his life by opinion shall never be rich3 for nature is limited1 but fancy is boundless4 ,as for meat1 clothes1 and lodging1 a little feeds the body1 and as little covers it2 so that if mankind would only attend human nature1 without gaping at superfluities1 a cook would be found as needless as a soldier3 for we may have necessaries upon very easy terms2 whereas we put ourselves to great pains for excesses4 ,when we are cold1 we may cover ourselves with skins of beasts2 and1 against violent heats1 we have natural grottoes2 or with a few osiers and a little clay we may defend ourselves against all seasons4 ,providence has been kinder to us than to leave us to live by our wits1 and to stand in need of invention and arts4 ,it is only pride and curiosity that involve us in difficulties3 if nothing will serve a man but rich clothes and furniture1 statues and plate1 a numerous train of servants1 and the rarities of all nations1 it is not ,fortune's fault1 but his own1 that he is not satisfied3 for his desires are insatiable1 and this is not a thirst1 but a disease2 and if he were master of the whole world1 he would be still a beggar4 ,it is the mind that makes us rich and happy1 in what condition soever we are2 and money signifies no more to it than it does to the gods4 ,if the religion be sincere1 no matter for the ornaments it is only luxury and avarice that make poverty grievous to us2 for it is a very small matter that does our business2 and when we have provided against cold1 hunger1 and thirst1 all the rest is but vanity and excess3 and there is no need of expense upon foreign delicacies1 or the artifices of the kitchen4 ,what is he the worse for poverty that despises these things8 nay1 is he not rather the better for it1 because he is not able to go to the price of them8 for he is kept sound whether he will or not3 and that which a man cannot do1 looks many times as if he would not4 ,when ,i look back into the moderation of past ages1 it makes me ashamed to discourse1 as if poverty had need of any consolation2 for we are now come to that degree of intemperance1 that a fair patrimony is too little for a meal4 ,homer had but one servant1 ,plato three1 and ,zeno 7the master of the masculine sect of ,stoics7 had none at all4 ,the daughters of ,scipio had their portions out of the common treasury1 for their father left them not a penny3 how happy were the husbands that had the people of ,rome for their father-in-law6 ,shall any man now contemn poverty after these eminent examples1 which are sufficient not only to justify but to recommend it8 ,upon ,diogenes' only servant running away from him1 he was told where he was1 and persuaded to fetch him back again3 8,what10 says he1 8can ,manes live without ,diogenes1 and not ,diogenes without ,manes80 and so let him go4 ,the piety and moderation of ,scipio have made his memory more venerable than his arms2 and more yet after he left his country than while he defended it3 for matters were come to that pass1 that either ,scipio must be injurious to ,rome or ,rome to ,scipio4 ,coarse bread and water to a temperate man is as good as a feast2 and the very herbs of the field yield a nourishment to man as well as to beasts4 ,it was not by choice meats and perfumes that our forefathers recommended themselves1 but in virtuous actions1 and the sweat of honest1 military1 and of manly labors4 ,while ,nature lay in common1 and all her benefits were promiscuously enjoyed1 what could be happier than the state of mankind1 when people lived without avarice or envy8 ,what could be richer than when there was not a poor man to be found in the world8 ,so soon as this impartial bounty of ,providence came to be restrained by covetousness1 and that particulars appropriated to themselves that which was intended for all1 then did poverty creep into the world1 when some men1 by desiring more than came to their share1 lost their title to the rest2 a loss never to be repaired2 for though we may come yet to get much1 we once had all4 ,the fruits of the earth were in those days divided among the inhabitants of it1 without either want or excess4 ,so long as men contented themselves with their lot1 there was no violence1 no engrossing or hiding of those benefits for particular advantages1 which were appointed for the community2 but every man had as much care for his neighbor as for himself4 ,no arms or bloodshed1 no war1 but with wild beasts3 but under the protection of a wood or a cave1 they spent their days without cares1 and their nights without groans2 their innocence was their security and their protection4 ,there were as yet no beds of state1 no ornaments1 of pearl or embroidery1 nor any of those remorses that attend them2 but the heavens were their canopy1 and the glories of them their spectacle4 ,the motions of the orbs1 the courses of the stars1 and the wonderful order of ,providence1 was their contemplation4 ,there was no fear of the house falling1 or the rustling of a rat behind the arras2 they had no palaces then like cities2 but they had open air1 and breathing room1 crystal fountains1 refreshing shades1 the meadows dressed up in their native beauty1 and such cottages as were according to nature1 and wherein they lived contentedly1 without fear either of losing or of falling4 ,these people lived without either solitude or fraud2 and yet ,i must call them rather happy than wise4 ,that men were generally better before they were corrupted than after1 ,i make no doubt2 and ,i am apt to believe that they were both stronger and hardier too but their wits were not yet come to maturity2 for ,nature does not give virtue2 and it is a kind of art to become good4 ,they had not as yet torn up the bowels of the earth for gold1 silver1 or precious stones2 and so far were they from killing any man1 as we do1 for a spectacle1 that they were not as yet come to it1 either in fear or anger2 nay1 they spared the very fishes4 ,but1 after all this1 they were innocent because they were ignorant3 and there is a great difference betwixt not knowing how to offend and not being willing to do it4 ,they had1 in that rude life1 certain images and resemblances of virtue1 but yet they fell short of virtue itself1 which comes only by institution1 learning1 and study1 as it is perfected by practice4 ,it is indeed the end for which we were born1 but yet it did not come into the world with us2 and in the best of men1 before they are instructed1 we find rather the matter and the seeds of virtue than the virtue itself4 ,it is the wonderful benignity of ,nature that has laid open to us all things that may do us good1 and only hid those things from us that may hurt us2 as if she durst not trust us with gold and silver1 or with iron1 which is the instrument of war and contention1 for the other4 ,it is we ourselves that have drawn out of the earth both the causes and the instruments of our dangers3 and we are so vain as to set the highest esteem upon those things to which ,nature has assigned the lowest place4 ,what can be more coarse and rude in the mine than these precious metals1 or more slavish and dirty than the people that dig and work them8 and yet they defile our minds more than our bodies1 and make the possessor fouler than the artificer of them4 ,rich men1 in fine1 are only the greater slaves2 both the one and the other want a great deal4 ,happy is that man that eats only for hunger1 and drinks only for thirst2 that stands upon his own legs1 and lives by reason1 not by example2 and provides for use and necessity1 not for ostentation and pomp6 ,let us curb our appetites1 encourage virtue1 and rather be beholden to ourselves for riches than to ,fortune1 who when a man draws himself into a narrow compass1 has the least mark at him4 ,let my bed be plain and clean1 and my clothes so too3 my meat without much expense1 or many waiters1 and neither a burden to my purse nor to my body1 not to go out the same way it came in4 ,that which is too little for luxury1 is abundantly enough for nature4 ,the end of eating and drinking is satiety2 now1 what matters it though one eats and drinks more1 and another less1 so long as the one is not a-hungry1 nor the other athirst8 ,epicurus1 who limits pleasure to nature1 as the ,stoics do virtue1 is undoubtedly in the right2 and those that cite him to authorize their voluptuousness do exceedingly mistake him1 and only seek a good authority for an evil cause3 for their pleasures of sloth1 gluttony1 and lust1 have no affinity at all with his precepts or meaning4 ,it is true1 that at first sight his philosophy seems effeminate2 but he that looks nearer him will find him to be a very brave man only in a womanish dress4 ,it is a common objection1 ,i know1 that these philosophers do not live at the rate they talk2 fer they can flatter their superiors1 gather estates1 and be as much concerned at the loss of fortune1 or of friends1 as other people3 as sensible of reproaches1 as luxurious in their eating and drinking1 their furniture1 their houses2 as magnificent in their plate1 servants1 and officers2 as profuse and curious in their gardens1 etc4 ,well6 and what of all this1 or if it were twenty times more8 ,it is some degree of virtue for a man to condemn himself2 and if he cannot come up to the best1 to be yet better than the worst2 and if he cannot wholly subdue his appetites1 however to check and diminish them4 ,if ,i do not live as ,i preach1 take notice that ,i do not speak of myself1 but of virtue1 nor am ,i so much offended with other men's vices as with my own4 ,all this was objected to ,plato1 ,epicurus1 ,zeno2 nor is any virtue so sacred as to escape malevolence4 ,the ,cynic ,demetrius was a great instance of severity and mortification2 and one that imposed upon himself neither to possess anything1 nor so much as to ask it3 and yet he had this scorn put upon him1 that his profession was poverty1 not virtue4 ,plato is blamed for asking money2 ,aristotle for receiving it2 ,democritus for neglecting it2 ,epicurus for consuming it4 ,how happy were we if we could but come to imitate these men's vices2 for if we knew our own condition1 we should find work enough at home4 ,but we are like people that are making merry at a play or a tavern when their own houses are on fire1 and yet they know nothing of it4 ,nay1 ,cato himself was said to be a drunkard2 but drunkenness itself shall sooner be proved to be no crime than ,cato dishonest4 ,they that demolish temples1 and overturn altars1 show their good-will1 though they can do the gods no hurt1 and so it fares with those that invade the reputation of great men4 ,if the professors of virtue be as the world calls them1 avaricious1 libidinous1 ambitious--what are they then that have a detestation for the very name of it3 but malicious natures do not want wit to abuse honester men than themselves4 ,it is the practice of the multitude to bark at eminent men as little dogs do at strangers2 for they look upon other men's virtues as the upbraiding of their own wickedness4 ,we should do well to commend those that are good1 if not1 let us pass them over2 but1 however1 let us spare ourselves3 for beside the blaspheming of virtue1 our rage is to no purpose4 ,but to return now to my text4 ,we are ready enough to limit others but loth to put bonds and restraints upon ourselves1 though we know that many times a greater evil is cured by a less2 and the mind that will not be brought to virtue by precepts1 comes to it frequently by necessity4 ,let us try a little to eat upon a joint stool1 to serve ourselves1 to live within compass1 and accommodate our clothes to the end they were made for4 ,occasional experiments of our moderation give us the best proof of our firmness and virtue4 ,a well-governed appetite is a great part of liberty1 and it is a blessed lot1 that since no man can have all things that he would have1 we may all of us forbear desiring what we have not4 ,it is the office of temperance to overrule us in our pleasures2 some she rejects1 others she qualifies and keeps within bounds4 ,oh6 the delights of rest when a man comes to be weary1 and of meat when he is heartily hungry4 ,i have learned 7says our author7 by one journey how many things we have that are superfluous1 and how easily they might be spared1 for when we are without them upon necessity1 we do not so much as feel the want of them4 ,this is the second blessed day 7says he7 that my friend and ,i have travelled together3 one wagon carries ourselves and our servants2 my mattress lies upon the ground and ,i upon that3 our diet answerable to our lodging1 and never without our figs and our table-books4 ,the muleteer without shoes1 and the mules only prove themselves to be alive by their walking4 ,in this equipage1 ,i am not willing1 ,i perceive1 to own myself1 but as often as we happen into better company1 ,i presently fall a-blushing1 which shows that ,i am not yet confirmed in those things which ,i approve and commend4 ,i am not yet come to own my frugality1 for he that is ashamed to be seen in a mean condition would be proud of a splendid one4 ,i value myself upon what passengers think of me1 and tacitly renounce my principles1 whereas ,i should rather lift up my voice to be heard by mankind1 and tell them 8,you are all mad--your minds are set upon superfluities and you value no man for his virtues40 ,i came one night weary home1 and threw myself upon the bed with this consideration about me3 8,there is nothing ill that is well taken40 ,my baker tells me he has no bread2 but1 says he1 ,i may get some of your tenants1 though ,i fear it is not good4 ,no matter1 said ,i1 for ,i will stay until it be better--that is to say until my stomach will be glad of worse4 ,it is discretion sometimes to practice temperance and wont ourselves to a little1 for there are many difficulties both of time and place that may force us upon it4 ,when we come to the matter of patrimony1 how strictly do we examine what every man is worth before we will trust him with a penny6 8,such a man10 we cry1 8has a great estate1 but it is shrewdly encumbered--a very fair house1 but it was built with borrowed money--a numerous family1 but he does not keep touch with his creditors--if his debts were paid he would not be worth a groat40 ,why do we not take the same course in other things1 and examine what every man is worth8 ,it is not enough to have a long train of attendants1 vast possessions1 or an incredible treasure in money and jewels--a man may be poor for all this4 ,there is only this difference at best--one man borrows of the usurer1 and the other of fortune4 ,what signifies the carving or gilding of the chariot2 is the master ever the better of it8 ,we cannot close up this chapter with a more generous instance of moderation than that of ,fabricius4 ,pyrrhus tempted him with a sum of money to betray his country1 and ,pyrrhus's physician offered ,fabricius1 for a sum of money1 to poison his master2 but he was too brave either to be overcome by gold1 or to be overcome by poison1 so that he refused the money1 and advised ,pyrrhus to have a care of treachery3 and this too in the heat of a licentious war4 ,fabricius valued himself upon his poverty1 and was as much above the thought of riches as of poison4 8,live ,pyrrhus10 says he 8by my friendship2 and turn that to thy satisfaction which was before thy trouble30 that is to say that ,fabricius could not be corrupted4 ,,chapter ,,xvi4 ,,constancy ,,of ,,mind ,,gives ,a ,,man ,,reputation1 ,,and ,,makes ,,him ,,happy ,,in ,,despite ,,of ,,all ,,misfortune4 ,the whole duty of man may be reduced to the two points of abstinence and patience2 temperance in prosperity1 and courage in adversity4 ,we have already treated of the former3 and the other follows now in course4 ,epicurus will have it1 that a wise man will bear all injuries2 but the ,stoics will not allow those things to be injuries which ,epicurus calls so4 ,now1 betwixt these two1 there is the same difference that we find betwixt two gladiators2 the one receives wounds1 but yet maintains his ground1 the other tells the people1 when he is in blood1 that it is but a scratch1 and will not suffer anybody to part them4 ,an injury cannot be received1 but it must be done2 but it may be done and yet not received2 as a man may be in the water1 and not swim1 but if he swims1 it is presumed that he is in the water4 ,or if a blow or a shot be levelled at us1 it may so happen that a man may miss his aim1 or some accident interpose that may divert the mischief4 ,that which is hurt is passive1 and inferior to that which hurts it4 ,but you will say1 that ,socrates was condemned and put to death1 and so received an injury2 but ,i answer1 that the tyrants did him an injury1 and yet he received none4 ,he that steals anything from me and hides it in my own house1 though ,i have not lost it1 yet he has stolen it4 ,he that lies with his own wife1 and takes her for another woman1 though the woman be honest1 the man is an adulterer4 ,suppose a man gives me a draught of poison and it proves not strong enough to kill me1 his guilt is nevertheless for the disappointment4 ,he that makes a pass at me is as much a murderer1 though ,i put it by1 as if he had struck me to the heart4 ,it is the intention1 not the effect1 that makes the wickedness4 ,he is a thief that has the will of killing and slaying1 before his hand is dipt in blood2 as it is sacrilege1 the very intention of laying violent hands upon holy things4 ,if a philosopher be exposed to torments1 the ax over his head1 his body wounded1 his guts in his hands1 ,i will allow him to groan2 for virtue itself cannot divest him of the nature of a man2 but if his mind stand firm1 he has discharged his part4 ,a great mind enables a man to maintain his station with honor2 so that he only makes use of what he meets in his way1 as a pilgrim that would fain be at his journey's end4 ,it is the excellency of a great mind to ask nothing1 and to want nothing2 and to say1 8,i will have nothing to do with fortune1 that repulses ,cato1 and prefers ,vatinius40 ,he that quits his hold1 and accounts anything good that is not honest1 runs gaping after casualties1 spends his days in anxiety and vain expectation1 that man is miserable4 ,and yet it is hard1 you will say1 to be banished or cast into prison3 nay1 what if it were to be burnt1 or any other way destroyed8 ,we have examples in all ages and cases1 of great men that have triumphed over all misfortunes4 ,metellus suffered exile resolutely1 ,rutilius cheerfully2 ,socrates disputed in the dungeon2 and though he might have made his escape1 refused it2 to show the world how easy a thing it was to subdue the two great terrors of mankind1 death and a jail4 ,or what shall we say of ,mucius ,scevola1 a man only of a military courage1 and without the help either of philosophy or letters8 who1 when he found that he had killed the ,secretary instead of ,porsenna1 7the prince17 burnt his right hand to ashes for the mistake2 and held his arm in the flame until it was taken away by his very enemies4 ,porsenna did more easily pardon ,mucius for his intent to kill him than ,mucius forgave himself for missing of his aim4 ,he might have a luckier thing1 but never a braver4 ,did not ,cato1 in the last night of his life1 take ,plato to bed with him1 with his sword at his bed's head2 the one that he might have death at his will1 the other1 that he might have it in his power2 being resolved that no man should be able to say1 either that he killed or that he saved ,cato8 ,so soon as he had composed his thoughts1 he took his sword2 8,fortune10 says he1 8,i have hitherto fought for my country's liberty1 and for my own1 and only that ,i might live free among freemen2 but the cause is now lost1 and ,cato safe40 ,with that word he cast himself upon his sword2 and after the physicians that pressed in upon him had bound up his wound1 he tore it up again1 and expired with the same greatness of soul that he lived4 ,but these are the examples1 you will say1 of men famous in their generations4 ,let us but consult history1 and we shall find1 even in the most effeminate of nations1 and the most dissolute of times1 men of all degrees1 ages1 and fortunes1 nay1 even women themselves1 that have overcome the fear of death3 which1 in truth1 is so little to be feared1 that duly considered1 it is one of the greatest benefits of nature4 ,it was as great an honor for ,cato1 when his party was broken1 that he himself stood his ground1 as it would have been if he had carried the day1 and settled an universal peace3 for1 it is an equal prudence1 to make the best of a bad game1 and to manage a good one4 ,the day that he was repulsed1 he played1 and the night that he killed himself1 he read1 as valuing the loss of his life1 and the missing of an office at the same rate4 ,people1 ,i know1 are apt to pronounce upon other men's infirmities by the measure of their own1 and to think it impossible that a man should be content to be burnt1 wounded1 killed1 or shackled1 though in some cases he may4 ,it is only for a great mind to judge of great things2 for otherwise1 that which is our infirmity will seem to be another body's1 as a straight stick in the water appears to be crooked3 he that yields1 draws upon his own head his own ruin2 for we are sure to get the better of ,fortune1 if we do but struggle with her4 ,fencers and wrestlers1 we see what blows and bruises they endure1 not only for honor1 but for exercise4 ,if we turn our backs once1 we are routed and pursued2 that man only is happy that draws good out of evil1 that stands fast in his judgment1 and unmoved by any external violence2 or however1 so little moved1 that the keenest arrow in the quiver of ,fortune is but as the prick of a needle to him rather than a wound2 and all her other weapons fall upon him only as hail upon the roof of a house1 that crackles and skips off again1 without any damage to the inhabitant4 ,a generous and clear-sighted young man will take it for a happiness to encounter ill fortune4 ,it is nothing for a man to hold up his head in a calm2 but to maintain his post when all others have quitted their ground1 and there to stand upright where other men are beaten down1 this is divine and praiseworthy4 ,what ill is there in torments1 or in those things which we commonly account grievous crosses8 ,the great evil is the want of courage1 the bowing and submitting to them1 which can never happen to a wise man2 for he stands upright under any weight2 nothing that is to be borne displeases him2 he knows his strength1 and whatsoever may be any man's lot1 he never complains of1 if it be his own4 ,nature1 he says1 deceives nobody2 she does not tell us whether our children shall be fair or foul1 wise or foolish1 good subjects or traitors1 nor whether our fortune shall be good or bad4 ,we must not judge of a man by his ornaments1 but strip him of all the advantages and the impostures of ,fortune1 nay1 of his very body too1 and look into his mind4 ,if he can see a naked sword at his eyes without so much as winking2 if he make it a thing indifferent to him whether his life go out at his throat or at his mouth2 if he can hear himself sentenced to torments or exiles1 and under the very hand of the executioner1 says thus to himself1 8,all this ,i am provided for1 and it is no more than a man that is to suffer the fate of humanity40 ,this is the temper of mind that speaks a man happy2 and without this1 all the confluences of external comforts signify no more than the personating of a king upon the stage2 when the curtain is drawn1 we are players again4 ,not that ,i pretend to exempt a wise man out of a number of men1 as if he had no sense of pain2 but ,i reckon him as compounded of body and soul2 the body is irrational1 and may be galled1 burnt1 tortured2 but the rational part is fearless1 invincible1 and not to be shaken4 ,this it is that ,i reckon upon as the supreme good of man2 which until it be perfected1 is but an unsteady agitation of thought1 and in the perfection an immovable stability4 ,it is not in our contentions with ,fortune as in those of the theatre1 where we may throw down our arms1 and pray for quarter2 but here we must die firm and resolute4 ,there needs no encouragement to those things which we are inclined to by a natural instinct1 as the preservation of ourselves with ease and pleasure2 but if it comes to the trial of our faith by torments1 or of our courage by wounds1 these are difficulties that we must be armed against by philosophy and precept2 and yet all this is no more than what we were born to1 and no matter of wonder at all2 so that a wise man prepares himself for it1 as expecting whatsoever may be will be4 ,my body is frail1 and liable not only to the impressions of violence1 but to afflictions also1 that naturally succeed our pleasures4 ,full meals bring crudities2 whoring and drinking make the hands to shake and the knees to tremble4 ,it is only the surprise and newness of the thing which makes that misfortune terrible1 which1 by premeditation1 might be made easy to us3 for that which some people make light by sufferance1 others do by foresight4 ,whatsoever is necessary1 we must bear patiently4 ,it is no new thing to die1 no new thing to mourn1 and no new thing to be merry again4 ,must ,i be poor8 ,i shall have company3 in banishment8 ,i will think myself born there4 ,if ,i die1 ,i shall be no more sick2 and it is a thing ,i cannot do but once4 ,let us never wonder at anything we are born to2 for no man has reason to complain1 where we are all in the same condition4 ,he that escapes might have suffered2 and it is but equal to submit to the law of mortality4 ,we must undergo the colds of winter1 the heats of summer2 the distempers of the air1 and the diseases of the body4 ,a wild beast meets us in one place1 and a man that is more brutal in another2 we are here assaulted by fire1 there by water4 ,demetrius was reserved by ,providence for the age he lived in1 to show1 that neither the times could corrupt him1 nor he reform the people4 ,he was a man of an exact judgment1 steady to his purpose1 and of a strong eloquence2 not finical in his words1 but his sense was masculine and vehement4 ,he was so qualified in his life and discourse1 that he served both for an example and a reproach4 ,if fortune should have offered that man the government and possession of the whole world1 upon condition not to lay it down again1 ,i dare say he would have refused it3 and thus have expostulated the matter with you3 8,why should you tempt a freeman to put his shoulder under a burden2 or an honest man to pollute himself with the dregs of mankind8 ,why do you offer me the spoils of princes1 and of nations1 and the price not only of your blood1 but of your souls80 ,it is the part of a great mind to be temperate in prosperity1 resolute in adversity2 to despise what the vulgar admire1 and to prefer a mediocrity to an excess4 ,was not ,socrates oppressed with poverty1 labor1 nay1 the worst of wars in his own family1 a fierce and turbulent woman for his wife8 were not his children indocile1 and like their mother8 ,after seven-and-twenty years spent in arms1 he fell under a slavery to the thirty tyrants1 and most of them his bitter enemies3 he came at last to be sentenced as 8a violater of religion1 a corrupter of youth1 and a common enemy to ,god and man40 ,after this he was imprisoned1 and put to death by poison1 which was all so far from working upon his mind1 that it never so much as altered his countenance4 ,we are to bear ill accidents as unkind seasons1 distempers1 or diseases2 and why may we not reckon the actions of wicked men even among those accidents2 their deliberations are not counsels but frauds1 snares1 and inordinate motions of the mind2 and they are never without a thousand pretences and occasions of doing a man mischief4 ,they have their informers1 their knights of the post2 they can make an interest with powerful men1 and one may be robbed as well upon the bench as upon the highway4 ,they lie in wait for advantages1 and live in perpetual agitation betwixt hope and fear2 whereas he that is truly composed will stand all shocks1 either of violences1 flatteries1 or menaces1 without perturbation4 ,it is an inward fear that makes us curious after what we hear abroad4 ,it is an error to attribute either good or ill to ,fortune2 but the matter of it we may2 and we ourselves are the occasion of it1 being in effect the artificers of our own happiness or misery3 for the mind is above fortune2 if that be evil1 it makes everything else so too2 but if it be right and sincere1 it corrects what is wrong1 and mollifies what is hard1 with modesty and courage4 ,there is a great difference among those that the world calls wise men4 ,some take up private resolutions of opposing ,fortune1 but they cannot go through with them2 for they are either dazzled with splendor on the one hand1 or affrighted with terrors on the other2 but there are others that will close and grapple with ,fortune1 and still come off victorious4 ,mucius overcame the fire2 ,regulus1 the gibbet2 ,socrates1 poison2 ,rutilius1 banishment2 ,cato1 death2 ,fabricius1 riches2 ,tubero1 poverty2 and ,sextius1 honors4 ,but there are some again so delicate1 that they cannot so much as bear a scandalous report2 which is the same thing as if a man should quarrel for being jostled in a crowd1 or dashed as he walks in the streets4 ,he that has a great way to go must expect a slip1 to stumble1 and to be tired4 ,to the luxurious man frugality is a punishment2 labor and industry to the sluggard2 nay1 study itself is a torment to him2 not that these things are hard to us by nature1 but we ourselves are vain and irresolute2 nay1 we wonder many of us1 how any man can live without wine1 or endure to rise so early in a morning4 ,a brave man must expect to be tossed2 for he is to steer his course in the teeth of ,fortune1 and to work against wind and weather4 ,in the suffering of torments1 though there appears but one virtue1 a man exercises many4 ,that which is most eminent is patience1 7which is but a branch of fortitude47 ,but there is prudence also in the choice of the action1 and in the bearing what we cannot avoid2 and there is constancy in bearing it resolutely3 and there is the same concurrence also of several virtues in other generous undertakings4 ,when ,leonidas was to carry his #cjj men into the ,straits of ,thermopyl1 to put a stop to ,xerxes's huge army3 8,come1 fellow-soldiers10 says he1 8eat your dinners here as if you were to sup in another world40 ,and they answered his resolution4 ,how plain and imperious was that short speech of ,cditius to his men upon a desperate action6 and how glorious a mixture was there in it both of bravery and prudence6 8,soldiers10 says he1 8it is necessary for us to go1 but it is not necessary for us to return40 ,this brief and pertinent harangue was worth ten thousand of the frivolous cavils and distinctions of the schools1 which rather break the mind than fortify it2 and when it is once perplexed and pricked with difficulties and scruples1 there they leave it4 ,our passions are numerous and strong1 and not to be mastered with quirks and tricks1 as if a man should undertake to defend the cause of ,god and man with a bulrush4 ,it was a remarkable piece of honor and policy together1 that action of ,csar's upon the taking of ,pompey's cabinet at the battle of ,pharsalia3 it is probable that the letters in it might have discovered who were his friends1 and who his enemies2 and yet he burnt it without so much as opening it2 esteeming it the noblest way of pardoning1 to keep himself ignorant both of the offender and of the offense4 ,it was a brave presence of mind also in ,alexander1 who1 upon advice that his physician ,philip intended to poison him1 took the letter of advice in one hand and the cup in the other2 delivering ,philip the letter to read while he himself drank the potion4 ,some are of opinion that death gives a man courage to support pain1 and that pain fortifies a man against death3 but ,i say rather1 that a wise man depends upon himself against both1 and that he does not either suffer with patience1 in hopes of death1 or die willingly1 because he is weary of life2 but he bears the one1 and waits for the other1 and carries a divine mind through all the accidents of human life4 ,he looks upon faith and honesty as the most sacred good of mankind1 and neither to be forced by necessity nor corrupted by reward2 kill1 burn1 tear him in pieces1 he will be true to his trust2 and the more any man labors to make him discover a secret1 the deeper will he hide it4 ,resolution is the inexpugnable defence of human weakness1 and it is a wonderful ,providence that attends it4 ,horatius ,cocles opposed his single body to the whole army until the bridge was cut down behind him and then leaped into the river with his sword in his hand and came off safe to his party4 ,there was a fellow questioned about a plot upon the life of a tyrant1 and put to the torture to declare his confederates3 he named1 by one and one1 all the tyrant's friends that were about him3 and still as they were named1 they were put to death3 the tyrant asked him at last if there were any more4 8,yes10 says he1 8yourself were in the plot2 and now you have never another friend left in the world30 whereupon the tyrant cut the throats of his own guards4 8,he is the happy man that is the master of himself1 and triumphs over the fear of death1 which has overcome the conquerors of the world40 ,,chapter ,,xvii4 ,,our ,,happiness ,,depends ,,in ,a ,,great ,,measure ,,upon ,,the ,,choice ,,of ,,our ,,company4 ,the comfort of life depends upon conversation4 ,good offices1 and concord1 and human society1 is like the working of an arch of stone2 all would fall to the ground if one piece did not support another4 ,above all things let us have a tenderness for blood2 and it is yet too little not to hurt1 unless we profit one another4 ,we are to relieve the distressed2 to put the wanderer into his way2 and to divide our bread with the hungry3 which is but the doing of good to ourselves2 for we are only several members of one great body4 ,nay1 we are all of a consanguinity2 formed of the same materials1 and designed to the same end2 this obliges us to a mutual tenderness and converse2 and the other1 to live with a regard to equity and justice4 ,the love of society is natural2 but the choice of our company is matter of virtue and prudence4 ,noble examples stir us up to noble actions2 and the very history of large and public souls1 inspires a man with generous thoughts4 ,it makes a man long to be in action1 and doing something that the world may be the better for2 as protecting the weak1 delivering the oppressed1 punishing the insolent4 ,it is a great blessing the very conscience of giving a good example2 beside1 that it is the greatest obligation any man can lay upon the age he lives in4 ,he that converses with the proud shall be puffed up2 a lustful acquaintance makes a man lascivious2 and the way to secure a man from wickedness is to withdraw from the examples of it4 ,it is too much to have them near us1 but more to have them within us--ill examples1 pleasure and ease1 are1 no doubt of it1 great corrupters of manners4 ,a rocky ground hardens the horse's hoof2 the mountaineer makes the best soldier2 the miner makes the best pioneer1 and severity of discipline fortifies the mind4 ,in all excesses and extremities of good and of ill fortune1 let us have recourse to great examples that have contemned both4 8,these are the best instructors that teach in their lives1 and prove their words by their actions40 ,as an ill air may endanger a good constitution1 so may a place of ill example endanger a good man1 nay1 there are some places that have a kind of privilege to be licentious1 and where luxury and dissolution of manners seem to be lawful2 for great examples give both authority and excuse to wickedness4 ,those places are to be avoided as dangerous to our manners4 ,hannibal himself was unmanned by the looseness of ,campania1 and though a conqueror by his arms1 he was overcome by his pleasures4 ,i would as soon live among butchers as among cooks--not but a man may be temperate in any place--but to see drunken men staggering up and down everywhere1 and only the spectacle of lust1 luxury and excess before our eyes1 it is not safe to expose ourselves to the temptation4 ,if the victorious ,hannibal himself could not resist it1 what shall become of us then that are subdued1 and give ground to our lusts already8 ,he that has to do with an enemy in his breast1 has a harder task upon him than he that is to encounter one in the field2 his hazard is greater if he loses ground1 and his duty is perpetual1 for he has no place or time for rest4 ,if ,i give way to pleasure1 ,i must also yield to grief1 to poverty1 to labor1 ambition1 anger1 until ,i am torn to pieces by my misfortunes and lusts4 ,but against all this philosophy propounds a liberty1 that is to say1 a liberty from the service of accidents and fortune4 ,there is not anything that does more mischief to mankind than mercenary masters and philosophy1 that do not live as they teach--they give a scandal to virtue4 ,how can any man expect that a ship should steer a fortunate course1 when the pilot lies wallowing in his own vomit8 ,it is a usual thing first to learn to do ill ourselves1 and then to instruct others to do so3 but that man must needs be very wicked that has gathered into himself the wickedness of other people4 ,the best conversation is with the philosophers--that is to say1 with such of them as teach us matter1 not words--that preach to us things necessary and keep us to the practice of them4 ,there can be no peace in human life without the contempt of all events4 ,there is nothing that either puts better thoughts into a man1 or sooner sets him right that is out of the way1 than a good companion1 for the example has the force of a precept1 and touches the heart with an affection to goodness2 and not only the frequent hearing and seeing of a wise man delights us1 but the very encounter of him suggests profitable contemplation such as a man finds himself moved with when he goes into a holy place4 ,i will take more care with whom ,i eat and drink than what1 for without a friend the table is a manger4 ,writing does well1 but personal discourse and conversation does better2 for men give great credit to their ears1 and take stronger impressions from example than precept4 ,cleanthes had never hit ,zeno so to the life if he had not been in with him at all his privacies1 if he had not watched and observed him whether or not he practised as he taught4 ,plato got more from ,socrates' manners than from his words1 and it was not the school1 but the company and familiarity of ,epicurus that made ,metrodorus1 ,hermachus and ,polynus so famous4 ,now1 though it be by instinct that we covet society1 and avoid solitude1 we should yet take this along with us1 that the more acquaintance the more danger3 nay1 there is not one man of a hundred that is to be trusted with himself4 ,if company cannot alter us1 it may interrupt us1 and he that so much as stops upon the way loses a great deal of a short life1 which we yet make shorter by our inconstancy4 ,if an enemy were at our heels1 what haste should we make6--but death is so1 and yet we never mind it4 ,there is no venturing of tender and easy natures among the people1 for it is odds that they will go over to the major party4 ,it would1 perhaps1 shake the constancy of ,socrates1 ,cato1 ,llius1 or any of us all1 even when our resolutions are at the height1 to stand the shock of vice that presses upon us with a kind of public authority4 ,it is a world of mischief that may be done by one single example of avarice or luxury4 ,one voluptuous palate makes a great many4 ,a wealthy neighbor stirs up envy1 and a fleering companion moves ill-nature wherever he comes4 ,what will become of those people then that expose themselves to a popular violence8 which is ill both ways2 either if they comply with the wicked1 because they are many1 or quarrel with the multitude because they are not principled alike4 ,the best way is to retire1 and associate only with those that may be the better for us1 and we for them4 ,these respects are mutual2 for while we teach1 we learn4 ,to deal freely1 ,i dare not trust myself in the hands of much company3 ,i never go abroad that ,i come home again the same man ,i went out4 ,something or other that ,i had put in order is discomposed2 some passion that ,i had subdued gets head again2 and it is just with our minds as it is after a long indisposition with our bodies2 we are grown so tender1 that the least breath of air exposes us to a relapse4 ,and it is no wonder if a numerous conversation be dangerous1 where there is scarce any single man but by his discourse1 example1 or behavior1 does either recommend to us1 or imprint in us1 or1 by a kind of contagion1 insensibly infect us with one vice or other2 and the more people the greater is the peril4 ,especially let us have a care of public spectacles where wickedness insinuates itself with pleasure2 and1 above all others1 let us avoid spectacles of cruelty and blood2 and have nothing to do with those that are perpetually whining and complaining2 there may be faith and kindness there1 but no peace4 ,people that are either sad or fearful1 we do commonly1 for their own sakes1 set a guard upon them1 for fear they should make an ill use of being alone2 especially the imprudent1 who are still contriving of mischief1 either for others or for themselves1 in cherishing their lusts1 or forming their designs4 ,so much for the choice of a companion2 we shall now proceed to that of a friend4 ,,chapter ,,xviii4 ,,the ,,blessings ,,of ,,friendship4 ,of all felicities1 the most charming is that of a firm and gentle friendship4 ,it sweetens all our cares1 dispels our sorrows1 and counsels us in all extremities4 ,nay1 if there were no other comfort in it than the bare exercise of so generous a virtue1 even for that single reason1 a man would not be without it4 ,beside1 that it is a sovereign antidote against all calamities1 even against the fear of death itself4 ,but we are not to number our friends by the visits that are made us2 and to confound the decencies of ceremony and commerce with the offices of united affections4 ,caius ,gracchus1 and after him ,livius ,drusus1 were the men that introduced among the ,romans the fashion of separating their visitants2 some were taken into their closet1 others were only admitted into the antechamber3 and some1 again1 were fain to wait in the hall perhaps1 or in the court4 ,so that they had their first1 their second1 and their third rate friends2 but none of them true3 only they are called so in course1 as we salute strangers with some title or other of respect at a venture4 ,there is no depending upon those men that only take their compliment in their turn1 and rather slip through the door than enter at it4 ,he will find himself in a great mistake1 that either seeks for a friend in a palace1 or tries him at a feast4 ,the great difficulty rests in the choice of him2 that is to say1 in the first place1 let him be virtuous1 for vice is contagious1 and there is no trusting the sound and the sick together2 and he ought to be a wise man too1 if a body knew where to find him2 but in this case1 he that is least ill is best1 and the highest degree of human prudence is only the most venial folly4 ,that friendship where men's affections are cemented by an equal and by a common love of goodness1 it is not either hope or fear1 or any private interest1 that can ever dissolve it3 but we carry it with us to our graves1 and lay down our lives for it with satisfaction4 ,paulina's good and mine 7says our author7 were so wrapped up together1 that in consulting her comfort ,i provided for my own2 and when ,i could not prevail upon her to take less care for me1 she prevailed upon me to take more care for myself4 ,some people make it a question1 whether is the greatest delight1 the enjoying of an old friendship1 or the acquiring of a new one8 but it is in the preparing of a friendship1 and in the possession of it1 as it is with the husbandman in sowing and reaping2 his delight is the hope of his labor in the one case1 and the fruit of it in the other4 ,my conversation lies among my books1 but yet in the letters of a friend1 methinks ,i have his company2 and when ,i answer them1 ,i do not only write1 but speak3 and1 in effect1 a friend is an eye1 a heart1 a tongue1 a hand1 at all distances4 ,when friends see one another personally1 they do not see one another as they do when they are divided1 where the meditation dignifies the prospect2 but they are effectually in a great measure absent even when they are present4 ,consider their nights apart1 their private studies1 their separate employments1 and necessary visits2 and they are almost as much together divided as present4 ,true friends are the whole world to one another2 and he that is a friend to himself is also a friend to mankind4 ,even in my very studies1 the greatest delight ,i take in what ,i learn is the teaching of it to others2 for there is no relish1 methinks1 in the possession of anything without a partner2 nay1 if wisdom itself were offered me upon condition only of keeping it to myself1 ,i should undoubtedly refuse it4 ,lucilius tells me1 that he was written to by a friend1 but cautions me withal not to say anything to him of the affair in question2 for he himself stands upon the same guard4 ,what is this but to affirm and to deny the same thing in the same breath1 in calling a man a friend1 whom we dare not trust as our own soul8 ,for there must be no reserves in friendship3 as much deliberation as you please before the league is struck1 but no doubtings or jealousies after4 ,it is a preposterous weakness to love a man before we know him1 and not to care for him after4 ,it requires time to consider of a friendship1 but the resolution once taken1 entitles him to my very heart4 ,i look upon my thoughts to be as safe in his breast as in my own3 ,i shall1 without any scruple1 make him the confidant of my most secret cares and counsels4 ,it goes a great way toward the making of a man faithful1 to let him understand that you think him so3 and he that does but so much as suspect that ,i will deceive him gives me a kind of right to cozen him4 ,when ,i am with my friend1 methinks ,i am alone1 and as much at liberty to speak anything as to think it1 and as our hearts are one1 so must be our interest and convenience2 for friendship lays all things in common1 and nothing can be good to the one that is ill to the other4 ,i do not speak of such a community as to destroy one another's propriety2 but as the father and the mother have two children1 not one apiece1 but each of them two4 ,but let us have a care1 above all things1 that our kindness be rightfully founded2 for where there is any other invitation to friendship than the friendship itself1 that friendship will be bought and sold4 ,he derogates upon the majesty of it that makes it only dependent upon good fortune4 ,it is a narrow consideration for a man to please himself in the thought of a friend1 8because10 says he1 8,i shall have one to help me when ,i am sick1 in prison1 or in want40 ,a brave man should rather take delight in the contemplation of doing the same offices for another4 ,he that loves a man for his own sake is in an error4 ,a friendship of interest cannot last any longer than the interest itself1 and this is the reason that men in prosperity are so much followed1 and when a man goes down the wind1 nobody comes near him4 ,temporary friends will never stand the test4 ,one man is forsaken for fear of profit1 another is betrayed4 ,it is a negotiation1 not a friendship1 that has an eye to advantages2 only1 through the corruption of times1 that which was formerly a friendship is now become a design upon a booty3 alter your testament1 and you lose your friend4 ,but my end of friendship is to have one dearer to me than myself1 and for the saving of whose life ,i would cheerfully lay down my own2 taking this along with me1 that only wise men can be friends1 others are but companions2 and that there is a great difference also betwixt love and friendship2 the one may sometimes do us hurt1 the other always does us good1 for the one friend is hopeful to another in all cases1 as well in prosperity as in affliction4 ,we receive comfort1 even at a distance1 from those we love1 but then it is light and faint2 whereas1 presence and conversation touch us to the quick1 especially if we find the man we love to be such a person as we wish4 ,it is usual with princes to reproach the living by commending the dead1 and to praise those people for speaking truth from whom there is no longer any danger of hearing it4 ,this is ,augustus's case3 he was forced to banish his daughter ,julia for her common and prostituted impudence2 and still upon fresh informations1 he was often heard to say1 8,if ,agrippa or ,mecenas had been now alive1 this would never have been40 ,but yet where the fault lay may be a question2 for perchance it was his own1 that had rather complain for the want of them than seek for others as good4 ,the ,roman losses by war and by fire1 ,augustus could quickly supply and repair2 but for the loss of two friends he lamented his whole life after4 ,xerxes1 7a vain and a foolish prince7 when he made war upon ,greece1 one told him1 8,it would never come to a battle02another1 8,that he would find only empty cities and countries1 for they would not so much as stand the very fame of his coming20 others soothed him in the opinion of his prodigious numbers2 and they all concurred to puff him up to his destruction2 only ,damaratus advised him not to depend too much upon his numbers1 for he would rather find them a burden to him than an advantage3 and that three hundred men in the straits of the mountains would be sufficient to give a check to his whole army2 and that such an accident would undoubtedly turn his vast numbers to his confusion4 ,it fell out afterward as he foretold1 and he had thanks for his fidelity4 ,a miserable prince1 that among so many thousand subjects had but one servant to tell him the truth6 ,,chapter ,,xix4 ,,he ,,that ,,would ,,be ,,happy ,,must ,,take ,,an ,,account ,,of ,,his ,,time4 ,in the distribution of human life1 we find that a great part of it passes away in evil doing2 a greater yet in doing just nothing at all3 and effectually the whole in doing things beside our business4 ,some hours we bestow upon ceremony and servile attendances2 some upon our pleasures1 and the remainder runs at waste4 ,what a deal of time is it that we spend in hopes and fears1 love and revenge1 in balls1 treats1 making of interests1 suing for offices1 soliciting of causes1 and slavish flatteries6 ,the shortness of life1 ,i know1 is the common complaint both of fools and philosophers2 as if the time we have were not sufficient for our duties4 ,but it is with our lives as with our estates1 a good husband makes a little go a great way2 whereas1 let the revenue of a prince fall into the hands of a prodigal1 it is gone in a moment4 ,so that the time allotted us1 if it were well employed1 were abundantly enough to answer all the ends and purposes of mankind4 ,but we squander it away in avarice1 drink1 sleep1 luxury1 ambition1 fawning addresses1 envy1 rambling1 voyages1 impertinent studies1 change of counsels1 and the like2 and when our portion is spent1 we find the want of it1 though we gave no heed to it in the passage3 insomuch1 that we have rather made our life short than found it so4 ,you shall have some people perpetually playing with their fingers1 whistling1 humming1 and talking to themselves2 and others consume their days in the composing1 hearing1 or reciting of songs and lampoons4 ,how many precious morning hours do we spend in consultation with barbers1 tailors1 and tire-women1 patching and painting betwixt the comb and the glass6 ,a council must be called upon every hair we cut2 and one curl amiss is as much as a body's life is worth4 ,the truth is1 we are more solicitous about our dress than our manners1 and about the order of our periwigs than that of the government4 ,at this rate1 let us but discount1 out of a life of a hundred years1 that time which has been spent upon popular negotiations1 frivolous amours1 domestic brawls1 sauntering up and down to no purpose1 diseases that we have brought upon ourselves1 and this large extent of life will not amount perhaps to the minority of another man4 ,it is a long being1 but perchance a short life4 ,and what is the reason of all this8 ,we live as we should never die1 and without any thought of human frailty1 when yet the very moment we bestow upon this man or thing1 may1 peradventure1 be our last4 ,but the greatest loss of time is delay and expectation1 which depend upon the future4 ,we let go the present1 which we have in our own power2 we look forward to that which depends upon ,fortune2 and so quit a certainty for an uncertainty4 ,we should do by time as we do by a torrent1 make use of it while we have it1 for it will not last always4 ,the calamities of human nature may be divided into the fear of death1 and the miseries and errors of life4 ,and it is the great work of mankind to master the one1 and to rectify the other2 and so live as neither to make life irksome to us1 nor death terrible4 ,it should be our care1 before we are old1 to live well1 and when we are so1 to die well2 that we may expect our end without sadness3 for it is the duty of life to prepare ourselves for death2 and there is not an hour we live that does not mind us of our mortality4 ,time runs on1 and all things have their fate1 though it lies in the dark4 ,the period is certain to nature1 but what am ,i the better for it if it be not so to me8 ,we propound travels1 arms1 adventures1 without ever considering that death lies in the way4 ,our term is set1 and none of us know how near it is2 but we are all of us agreed that the decree is unchangeable4 ,why should we wonder to have that befall us to-day which might have happened to us any minute since we were born8 ,let us therefore live as if every moment were to be our last1 and set our accounts right every day that passes over our heads4 ,we are not ready for death1 and therefore we fear it1 because we do not know what will become of us when we are gone1 and that consideration strikes us with an inexplicable terror4 ,the way to avoid this distraction is to contract our business and our thoughts--when the mind is once settled1 a day or an age is all one to us2 and the series of time1 which is now our trouble will be then our delight2 for he that is steadily resolved against all uncertainties1 shall never be disturbed with the variety of them4 ,let us make haste1 therefore1 to live1 since every day to a wise man is a new life--for he has done his business the day before1 and so prepared himself for the next1 that if it be not his last1 he knows yet that it might have been so4 ,no man enjoys the true taste of life but he that is willing and ready to quit it4 ,the wit of man is not able to express the blindness of human folly in taking so much more care of our fortunes1 our houses1 and our money1 than we do of our lives--everybody breaks in upon the one gratis1 but we betake ourselves to fire and sword if any man invades the other4 ,there is no dividing in the case of patrimony1 but people share our time with us at pleasure1 so profuse are we of that only thing whereof we may be honestly covetous4 ,it is a common practice to ask an hour or two of a friend for such or such a business1 and it is as easily granted1 both parties only considering the occasion1 and not the thing itself4 ,they never put time to account1 which is the most valuable of all precious things2 but because they do not see it they reckon upon it as nothing3 and yet these easy men when they come to die would give the whole world for those hours again which they so inconsiderately cast away before2 but there is no recovering of them4 ,if they could number their days that are yet to come as they can those that are already past1 how would those very people tremble at the apprehension of death1 though a hundred years hence1 that never so much as think of it at present1 though they know not but it may take them away the next immediate minute6 ,it is an usual saying 8,i would give my life for such or such a friend10 when1 at the same time1 we do give it without so much as thinking of it2 nay1 when that friend is never the better for it1 and we ourselves the worse4 ,our time is set1 and day and night we travel on4 ,there is no baiting by the way1 and it is not in the power of either prince or people to prolong it4 ,such is the love of life1 that even those decrepit dotards that have lost the use of it will yet beg the continuance of it1 and make themselves younger than they are1 as if they could cozen even ,fate itself6 ,when they fall sick1 what promises of amendment if they escape that bout6 ,what exclamations against the folly of their misspent time--and yet if they recover1 they relapse4 ,no man takes care to live well1 but long2 when yet it is in everybody's power to do the former1 and in no man's to do the latter4 ,we consume our lives in providing the very instruments of life1 and govern ourselves still with a regard to the future1 so that we do not properly live1 but we are about to live4 ,how great a shame is it to be laying new foundations of life at our last gasp1 and for an old man 7that can only prove his age by his beard17 with one foot in the grave1 to go to school again6 ,while we are young we may learn2 our minds are tractable and our bodies fit for labor and study2 but when age comes on1 we are seized with languor and sloth1 afflicted with diseases1 and at last we leave the world as ignorant as we came into it--only we die worse than we were born1 which is none of ,nature's fault1 but ours2 for our fears1 suspicions1 perfidy1 etc41 are from ourselves4 ,i wish with all my soul that ,i had thought of my end sooner1 but ,i must make the more haste now and spur on like those that set out late upon a journey--it will be better to learn late than not at all--though it be but only to instruct me how ,i may leave the stage with honor4 ,in the division of life1 there is time present1 past1 and to come4 ,what we do is short1 what we shall do is doubtful1 but what we have done is certain1 and out of the power of fortune4 ,the passage of time is wonderfully quick1 and a man must look backward to see it2 and1 in that retrospect1 he has all past ages at a view2 but the present gives us the slip unperceived4 ,it is but a moment that we live1 and yet we are dividing it into childhood1 youth1 man's estate1 and old age1 all which degrees we bring into that narrow compass4 ,if we do not watch1 we lose our opportunities2 if we do not make haste1 we are left behind2 our best hours escape us1 the worst are to come4 ,the purest part of our life runs first1 and leaves only the dregs at the bottom2 and 8that time which is good for nothing else1 we dedicate to virtue20 and only propound to begin to live at an age that very few people arrive at4 ,what greater folly can there be in the world than this loss of time1 the future being so uncertain1 and the damages so irreparable8 ,if death be necessary1 why should any man fear it8 and if the time of it be uncertain1 why should not we always expect it8 ,we should therefore first prepare ourselves by a virtuous life against the dread of an inevitable death2 and it is not for us to put off being good until such or such a business is over1 for one business draws on another1 and we do as good as sow it1 one grain produces more4 ,it is not enough to philosophize when we have nothing else to do1 but we must attend wisdom even to the neglect of all things else2 for we are so far from having time to spare1 that the age of the world would be yet too narrow for our business2 nor is it sufficient not to omit it1 but we must not so much as intermit it4 ,there is nothing that we can properly call our own but our time1 and yet every body fools us out of it that has a mind to it4 ,if a man borrows a paltry sum of money1 there must be bonds and securities1 and every common civility is charged upon account2 but he that has my time1 thinks he owes me nothing for it1 though it be a debt that gratitude itself can never repay4 ,i cannot call any man poor that has enough still left1 be it never so little3 it is good advice yet to those that have the world before them1 to play the good husbands betimes1 for it is too late to spare at the bottom1 when all is drawn out to the lees4 ,he that takes away a day from me1 takes away what he can never restore me4 ,but our time is either forced away from us1 or stolen from us1 or lost2 of which the last is the foulest miscarriage4 ,it is in life as in a journey2 a book or a companion brings us to our lodging before we thought we were half-way4 ,upon the whole matter we consume ourselves one upon another1 without any regard at all to our own particular4 ,i do not speak of such as live in notorious scandal1 but even those men themselves1 whom the world pronounces happy1 are smothered in their felicities1 servants to their professions and clients1 and drowned in their lusts4 ,we are apt to complain of the haughtiness of great men1 when yet there is hardly any of them all so proud but that1 at some time or other1 a man may yet have access to him1 and perhaps a good word or look into the bargain4 ,why do we not rather complain of ourselves1 for being of all others1 even to ourselves1 the most deaf and inaccessible4 ,company and business are great devourers of time1 and our vices destroy our lives as well as our fortunes4 ,the present is but a moment1 and perpetually in flux2 the time past1 we call to mind when we please1 and it will abide the examination and inspection4 ,but the busy man has not leisure to look back1 or if he has1 it is an unpleasant thing to reflect upon a life to be repented of1 whereas the conscience of a good life puts a man into a secure and perpetual possession of a felicity never to be disturbed or taken away3 but he that has led a wicked life is afraid of his own memory2 and1 in the review of himself1 he finds only appetite1 avarice1 or ambition1 instead of virtue4 ,but still he that is not at leisure many times to live1 must1 when his fate comes1 whether he will or not1 be at leisure to die4 ,alas6 what is time to eternity8 the age of a man to the age of the world8 ,and how much of this little do we spend in fears1 anxieties1 tears1 childhood6 nay1 we sleep away the one half4 ,how great a part of it runs away in luxury and excess3 the ranging of our guests1 our servants1 and our dishes6 ,as if we were to eat and drink not for satiety1 but ambition4 ,the nights may well seem short that are so dear bought1 and bestowed upon wine and women2 the day is lost in expectation of the night1 and the night in the apprehension of the morning4 ,there is a terror in our very pleasures2 and this vexatious thought in the very height of them1 that they will not last always3 which is a canker in the delights1 even of the greatest and the most fortunate of men4 ,,chapter ,,xx4 ,,happy ,,is ,,the ,,man ,,that ,,may ,,choose ,,his ,,own ,,business4 ,oh the blessings of privacy and leisure6 ,the wish of the powerful and eminent1 but the privilege only of inferiors2 who are the only people that live to themselves3 nay1 the very thought and hope of it is a consolation1 even in the middle of all the tumults and hazards that attend greatness4 ,it was ,augustus' prayer1 that he might live to retire and deliver himself from public business3 his discourses were still pointing that way1 and the highest felicity which this mighty prince had in prospect1 was the divesting himself of that illustrious state1 which1 how glorious soever in show1 had at the bottom of it only anxiety and care4 ,but it is one thing to retire for pleasure1 and another thing for virtue1 which must be active even in that retreat1 and give proof of what it has learned3 for a good and a wise man does in privacy consult the well-being of posterity4 ,zeno and ,chrysippus did greater things in their studies than if they had led armies1 borne offices1 or given laws2 which in truth they did1 not to one city alone1 but to all mankind3 their quiet contributed more to the common benefit than the sweat and labor of other people4 ,that retreat is not worth the while which does not afford a man greater and nobler work than business4 ,there is no slavish attendance upon great officers1 no canvassing for places1 no making of parties1 no disappointments in my pretension to this charge1 to that regiment1 or to such or such a title1 no envy of any man's favor or fortune2 but a calm enjoyment of the general bounties of ,providence in company with a good conscience4 ,a wise man is never so busy as in the solitary contemplation of ,god and the works of ,nature4 ,he withdraws himself to attend the service of future ages3 and those counsels which he finds salutary to himself1 he commits to writing for the good of after-times1 as we do the receipts of sovereign antidotes or balsams4 ,he that is well employed in his study1 though he may seem to do nothing at all1 does the greatest things yet of all others1 in affairs both human and divine4 ,to supply a friend with a sum of money1 or give my voice for an office1 these are only private and particular obligations3 but he that lays down precepts for the governing of our lives and the moderating of our passions1 obliges human nature not only in the present1 but in all succeeding generations4 ,he that would be at quiet1 let him repair to his philosophy1 a study that has credit with all sorts of men4 ,the eloquence of the bar1 or whatsoever else addresses to the people1 is never without enemies2 but philosophy minds its own business1 and even the worst have an esteem for it4 ,there can never be such a conspiracy against virtue1 the world can never be so wicked1 but the very name of a philosopher shall still continue venerable and sacred4 ,and yet philosophy itself must be handled modestly and with caution4 ,but what shall we say of ,cato then1 for his meddling in the broil of a civil war1 and interposing himself in the quarrel betwixt two enraged princes8 ,he that1 when ,rome was split into two factions betwixt ,pompey and ,csar1 declared himself against both4 ,i speak this of ,cato's last part2 for in his former time the commonwealth was made unfit for a wise man's administration4 ,all he could do then was but bawling and beating of the air3 one while he was lugged and tumbled by the rabble1 spit upon and dragged out of the forum1 and then again hurried out of the senate-house to prison4 ,there are some things which we propound originally1 and others which fall in as accessory to another proposition4 ,if a wise man retire1 it is no matter whether he does it because the commonwealth was wanting to him1 or because he was wanting to it4 ,but to what republic shall a man betake himself8 ,not to ,athens1 where ,socrates was condemned1 and whence ,aristotle fled1 for fear he should have been condemned too1 and where virtue was oppressed by envy3 not to ,carthage1 where there was nothing but tyranny1 injustice1 cruelty1 and ingratitude4 ,there is scarce any government to be found that will either endure a wise man1 or which a wise man will endure2 so that privacy is made necessary1 because the only thing which is better is nowhere to be had4 ,a man may commend navigation1 and yet caution us against those seas that are troublesome and dangerous3 so that he does as good as command me not to weigh anchor that commends sailing only upon these terms4 ,he that is a slave to business is the most wretched of slaves4 8,but how shall ,i get myself at liberty8 ,we can run any hazards for money3 take any pains for honor2 and why do we not venture also something for leisure and freedom8 without which we must expect to live and die in a tumult3 for so long as we live in public1 business breaks in upon us1 as one billow drives on another2 and there is no avoiding it with either modesty or quiet40 ,it is a kind of whirlpool1 that sucks a man in1 and he can never disengage himself4 ,a man of business cannot in truth be said to live1 and not one of a thousand understands how to do it3 for how to live1 and how to die1 is the lesson of every moment of our lives3 all other arts have their masters4 ,as a busy life is always a miserable life1 so it is the greatest of all miseries to be perpetually employed upon other people's business2 for to sleep1 to eat1 to drink1 at their hour2 to walk their pace1 and to love and hate as they do1 is the vilest of servitudes4 ,now1 though business must be quitted1 let it not be done unseasonably2 the longer we defer it1 the more we endanger our liberty2 and yet we must no more fly before the time than linger when the time comes3 or1 however1 we must not love business for business' sake1 nor indeed do we1 but for the profit that goes along with it3 for we love the reward of misery1 though we hate the misery itself4 ,many people1 ,i know1 seek business without choosing it1 and they are even weary of their lives without it for want of entertainment in their own thoughts2 the hours are long and hateful to them when they are alone1 and they seem as short on the other side in their debauches4 ,when they are no longer candidates1 they are suffragans2 when they give over other people's business1 they do their own2 and pretend business1 but they make it1 and value themselves upon being thought men of employment4 ,liberty is the thing which they are perpetually a-wishing1 and never come to obtain3 a thing never to be bought nor sold1 but a man must ask it of himself1 and give it to himself4 ,he that has given proof of his virtue in public1 should do well to make a trial of it in private also4 ,it is not that solitude1 or a country life1 teaches innocence or frugality2 but vice falls of itself1 without witnesses and spectators1 for the thing it designs is to be taken notice of4 ,did ever any man put on rich clothes not to be seen8 or spread the pomp of his luxury where nobody was to take notice of it8 ,if it were not for admirers and spectators there would be no temptations to excess3 the very keeping of us from exposing them cures us of desiring them1 for vanity and intemperance are fed with ostentation4 ,he that has lived at sea in a storm1 let him retire and die in the haven2 but let his retreat be without ostentation1 and wherein he may enjoy himself with a good conscience1 without the want1 the fear1 the hatred1 or the desire1 of anything1 not out of malevolent detestation of mankind1 but for satisfaction and repose4 ,he that shuns both business and men1 either out of envy1 or any other discontent1 his retreat is but to the life of a mole3 nor does he live to himself1 as a wise man does1 but to his bed1 his belly1 and his lusts4 ,many people seem to retire out of a weariness of public affairs1 and the trouble of disappointments2 and yet ambition finds them out even in that recess into which fear and weariness had cast them2 and so does luxury1 pride1 and most of the distempers of a public life4 ,there are many that lie close1 not that they may live securely1 but that they may transgress more privately3 it is their conscience1 not their states1 that makes them keep a porter2 for they live at such a rate1 that to be seen before they be aware is to be detected4 ,crates saw a young man walking by himself2 8,have a care10 says he 8of lewd company40 ,some men are busy in idleness1 and make peace more laborious and troublesome than war2 nay1 and more wicked too1 when they bestow it upon such lusts1 and other vices1 which even the license of a military life would not endure4 ,we cannot call these people men of leisure that are wholly taken up with their pleasures4 ,a troublesome life is much to be preferred before a slothful one2 and it is a strange thing1 methinks1 that any man should fear death that has buried himself alive2 as privacy without letters is but the burying of a man quick4 ,there are some that make a boast of their retreat1 which is but a kind of lazy ambition2 they retire to make people talk of them1 whereas ,i would rather withdraw to speak to myself4 ,and what shall that be1 but that which we are apt to speak of one another8 ,i will speak ill of myself3 ,i will examine1 accuse1 and punish my infirmities4 ,i have no design to be cried up for a great man1 that has renounced the world in a contempt of the vanity and madness of human life2 ,i blame nobody but myself1 and ,i address only to myself4 ,he that comes to me for help is mistaken1 for ,i am not a physician1 but a patient3 and ,i shall be well enough content to have it said1 when any man leaves me1 8,i took him for a happy and a learned man1 and truly ,i find no such matter40 ,i had rather have my retreat pardoned than envied4 ,there are some creatures that confound their footing about their dens1 that they may not be found out1 and so should a wise man in the case of his retirement4 ,when the door is open1 the thief passes it by as not worth his while2 but when it is bolted and sealed1 it is a temptation for people to be prying4 ,to have it said 8that such a one is never out of his study1 and sees nobody10 etc42 this furnishes matter for discourse4 ,he that makes his retirement too strict and severe1 does as good as call company to take notice of it4 ,every man knows his own constitution2 one eases his stomach by vomit--another supports it with good nourishment2 he that has the gout forbears wine and bathing1 and every man applies to the part that is most infirm4 ,he that shows a gouty foot1 a lame hand1 or contracted nerves1 shall be permitted to lie still and attend his cure2 and why not so in the vices of his mind6 ,we must discharge all impediments and make way for philosophy1 as a study inconsistent with common business4 ,to all other things we must deny ourselves openly and frankly1 when we are sick refuse visits1 keep ourselves close1 and lay aside all public cares1 and shall we not do as much when we philosophize8 ,business is the drudgery of the world1 and only fit for slaves1 but contemplation is the work of wise men4 ,not but that solitude and company may be allowed to take their turns3 the one creates in us the love of mankind1 the other that of ourselves2 solitude relieves us when we are sick of company1 and conversation when we are weary of being alone2 so that the one cures the other4 8,there is no man10 in fine1 8so miserable as he that is at a loss how to spend his time40 ,he is restless in his thoughts1 unsteady in his counsels1 dissatisfied with the present1 solicitous for the future2 whereas he that prudently computes his hours and his business1 does not only fortify himself against the common accidents of life1 but improves the most rigorous dispensations of ,providence to his comfort1 and stands firm under all the trials of human weakness4 ,,chapter ,,xxi4 ,,the ,,contempt ,,of ,,death ,,makes ,,all ,,the ,,miseries ,,of ,,life ,,easy ,,to ,,us4 ,it is a hard task to master the natural desire of life by a philosophical contempt of death1 and to convince the world that there is no hurt in it1 and crush an opinion that was brought up with us from our cradles4 ,what help8 what encouragement8 what shall we say to human frailty1 to carry it fearless through the fury of flames1 and upon the points of swords8 what rhetoric shall we use to bear down the universal consent of people to so dangerous an error8 ,the captious and superfine subtleties of the schools will never do the work3 these speak many things sharp1 but utterly unnecessary1 and void of effect4 ,the truth of it is1 there is but one chain that holds all the world in bondage1 and that is the love of life4 ,it is not that ,i propound the making of death so indifferent to us1 as it is1 whether a man's hairs be even or odd2 for what with self-love1 and an implanted desire in every being of preserving itself1 and a long acquaintance betwixt the soul and body1 friends may be loth to part1 and death may carry an appearance of evil1 though in truth it is itself no evil at all4 ,beside1 that we are to go to a strange place in the dark1 and under great uncertainties of our future state2 so that people die in terror1 because they do not know whither they are to go1 and they are apt to fancy the worst of what they do not understand3 these thoughts are indeed sufficient to startle a man of great resolution without a wonderful support from above4 ,and1 moreover1 our natural scruples and infirmities are assisted by the wits and fancies of all ages1 in their infamous and horrid description of another world3 nay1 taking it for granted that there will be no reward and punishment1 they are yet more afraid of an annihilation than of hell itself4 ,but what is it we fear8 8,oh6 it is a terrible thing to die40 ,well2 and is it not better once to suffer it1 than always to fear it8 ,the earth itself suffers both with me1 and before me4 ,how many islands are swallowed up in the sea6 how many towns do we sail over6 nay1 how many nations are wholly lost1 either by inundations or earthquakes6 and shall ,i be afraid of my little body8 why should ,i1 that am sure to die1 and that all other things are mortal1 be fearful of coming to my last gasp myself8 ,it is the fear of death that makes us base1 and troubles and destroys the life we would preserve2 that aggravates all circumstances1 and makes them formidable4 ,we depend but upon a flying moment4 ,die we must2 but when8 what is that to us8 ,it is the law of ,nature1 the tribute of mortals1 and the remedy of all evils4 ,it is only the disguise that affrights us2 as children that are terrified with a vizor4 ,take away the instruments of death1 the fire1 the ax1 the guards1 the executioners1 the whips1 and the racks2 take away the pomp1 ,i say1 and the circumstances that accompany it1 and death is no more than what my slave yesterday contemned2 the pain is nothing to a fit of the stone2 if it be tolerable1 it is not great2 and if intolerable1 it cannot last long4 ,there is nothing that ,nature has made necessary which is more easy than death3 we are longer a-coming into the world than going out of it2 and there is not any minute of our lives wherein we may not reasonably expect it4 ,nay1 it is but a moment's work1 the parting of the soul and body4 ,what a shame is it then to stand in fear of anything so long that is over so soon6 ,nor is it any great matter to overcome this fear2 for we have examples as well of the meanest of men as of the greatest that have done it4 ,there was a fellow to be exposed upon the theatre1 who in disdain thrust a stick down his own throat1 and choked himself2 and another on the same occasion1 pretended to nod upon the chariot1 as if he were asleep1 cast his head betwixt the spokes of the wheel1 and kept his seat until his neck was broken4 ,caligula1 upon a dispute with ,canius ,julius2 8,do not flatter yourself10 says he1 8for ,i have given orders to put you to death40 8,i thank your most gracious ,majesty for it10 says ,canius1 giving to understand1 perhaps1 that under his government death was a mercy3 for he knew that ,caligula seldom failed of being as good as his word in that case4 ,he was at play when the officer carried him away to his execution1 and beckoning to the centurion1 8,pray10 says he1 8will you bear me witness1 when ,i am dead and gone1 that ,i had the better of the game80 ,he was a man exceedingly beloved and lamented1 and1 for a farewell1 after he had preached moderation to his friends2 8,you10 says he1 8are here disputing about the immortality of the soul1 and ,i am now going to learn the truth of it4 ,if ,i discover any thing upon that point1 you shall hear of it40 ,nay1 the most timorous of creatures1 when they see there is no escaping1 they oppose themselves to all dangers2 the despair gives them courage1 and the necessity overcomes the fear4 ,socrates was thirty days in prison after his sentence1 and had time enough to have starved himself1 and so to have prevented the poison3 but he gave the world the blessing of his life as long as he could1 and took that fatal draught in the meditation and contempt of death4 ,marcellinus1 in a deliberation upon death1 called several of his friends about him3 one was fearful1 and advised what he himself would have done in the case2 another gave the counsel which he thought ,marcellinus would like best2 but a friend of his that was a ,stoic1 and a stout man1 reasoned the matter to him after this manner2 ,marcellinus do not trouble yourself1 as if it were such a mighty business that you have now in hand2 it is nothing to live2 all your servants do it1 nay1 your very beasts too2 but to die honestly and resolutely1 that is a great point4 ,consider with yourself there is nothing pleasant in life but what you have tasted already1 and that which is to come is but the same over again2 and how many men are there in the world that rather choose to die than to suffer the nauseous tediousness of the repetition8 ,upon which discourse he fasted himself to death4 ,it was the custom of ,pacuvius to solemnize1 in a kind of pageantry1 every day his own funeral4 ,when he had swilled and gormandized to a luxurious and beastly excess1 he was carried away from supper to bed with this song and acclamation1 8,he has lived1 he has lived40 ,that which he did in lewdness1 will become us to do in sobriety and prudence4 ,if it shall please ,god to add another day to our lives1 let us thankfully receive it2 but1 however1 it is our happiest and securest course so to compose ourselves to-night1 that we may have no anxious dependence on to-morrow4 8,he that can say1 ,i have lived this day1 makes the next clear again40 ,death is the worst that either the severity of laws or the cruelty of tyrants can impose upon us2 and it is the utmost extent of the dominion of ,fortune4 ,he that is fortified against that1 must1 consequently1 be superior to all other difficulties that are put in the way to it4 ,nay1 and on some occasions1 it requires more courage to live than to die4 ,he that is not prepared for death shall be perpetually troubled1 as well with vain apprehensions1 as with real dangers4 ,it is not death itself that is dreadful1 but the fear of it that goes before it4 ,when the mind is under a consternation1 there is no state of life that can please us2 for we do not so endeavor to avoid mischiefs as to run away from them1 and the greatest slaughter is upon a flying enemy4 ,had not a man better breathe out his last once for all1 than lie agonizing in pains1 consuming by inches1 losing of his blood by drops8 and yet how many are there that are ready to betray their country1 and their friends1 and to prostitute their very wives and daughters1 to preserve a miserable carcass6 ,madmen and children have no apprehension of death2 and it were a shame that our reason should not do as much toward our security as their folly4 ,but the great matter is to die considerately and cheerfully upon the foundation of virtue2 for life in itself is irksome1 and only eating and drinking in a circle4 ,how many are there that1 betwixt the apprehensions of death and the miseries of life1 are at their wits' end what to do with themselves8 ,wherefore let us fortify ourselves against those calamities from which the prince is no more exempt than the beggar4 ,pompey the ,great had his head taken off by a boy and a eunuch1 7young ,ptolemy and ,photinus47 ,caligula commanded the tribune ,dcimus to kill ,lepidus2 and another tribune 7,chreus7 did as much for ,caligula4 ,never was a man so great but he was as liable to suffer mischief as he was able to do it4 ,has not a thief1 or an enemy1 your throat at his mercy8 nay1 and the meanest of servants has the power of life and death over his master2 for whosoever contemns his own life may be master of another body's4 ,you will find in story1 that the displeasure of servants has been as fatal as that of tyrants3 and what matters it the power of him we fear1 when the thing we fear is in every body's power8 ,suppose ,i fall into the hands of an enemy1 and the conqueror condemns me to be led in triumph2 it is but carrying me thither whither ,i should have gone without him1 that is to say1 toward death1 whither ,i have been marching ever since ,i was born4 ,it is the fear of our last hour that disquiets all the rest4 ,by the justice of all constitutions1 mankind is condemned to a capital punishment2 now1 how despicable would that man appear1 who1 being sentenced to death in common with the whole world1 should only petition that he might be the last man brought to the block8 ,some men are particularly afraid of thunder1 and yet extremely careless of other and of greater dangers3 as if that were all they have to fear4 ,will not a sword1 a stone1 a fever1 do the work as well8 ,suppose the bolt should hit us1 it were yet braver to die with a stroke than with the bare apprehension of it3 beside the vanity of imagining that heaven and earth should be put into such a disorder only for the death of one man4 ,a good and a brave man is not moved with lightning1 tempest1 or earthquakes2 but perhaps he would voluntarily plunge himself into that gulf1 where otherwise he should only fall4 ,the cutting of a corn1 or the swallowing of a fly1 is enough to dispatch a man2 and it is no matter how great that is that brings me to my death1 so long as death itself is but little4 ,life is a small matter2 but it is a matter of importance to contemn it4 ,nature1 that begat us1 expels us1 and a better and a safer place is provided for us4 ,and what is death but a ceasing to be what we were before8 ,we are kindled and put out3 to cease to be1 and not to begin to be1 is the same thing4 ,we die daily1 and while we are growing1 our life decreases2 every moment that passes takes away part of it2 all that is past is lost2 nay1 we divide with death the very instant that we live4 ,as the last sand in the glass does not measure the hour1 but finishes it2 so the last moment that we live does not make up death1 but concludes4 ,there are some that pray more earnestly for death than we do for life2 but it is better to receive it cheerfully when it comes than to hasten it before the time4 8,but what is it that we would live any longer for80 ,not for our pleasures2 for those we have tasted over and over1 even to satiety3 so that there is no point of luxury that is new to us4 8,but a man would be loth to leave his country and his friends behind him20 that is to say1 he would have them go first2 for that is the least part of his care4 8,well2 but ,i would fain live to do more good1 and discharge myself in the offices of life20 as if to die were not the duty of every man that lives4 ,we are loth to leave our possessions2 and no man swims well with his luggage4 ,we are all of us equally fearful of death1 and ignorant of life2 but what can be more shameful than to be solicitous upon the brink of security8 ,if death be at any time to be feared1 it is always to be feared2 but the way never to fear it1 is to be often thinking of it4 ,to what end is it to put off for a little while that which we cannot avoid8 ,he that dies does but follow him that is dead4 8,why are we then so long afraid of that which is so little awhile of doing80 ,how miserable are those people that spend their lives in the dismal apprehensions of death6 for they are beset on all hands1 and every minute in dread of a surprise4 ,we must therefore look about us1 as if we were in an enemy's country2 and consider our last hour1 not as a punishment1 but as the law of ,nature3 the fear of it is a continual palpitation of the heart1 and he that overcomes that terror shall never be troubled with any other4 ,life is a navigation2 we are perpetually wallowing and dashing one against another2 sometimes we suffer shipwreck1 but we are always in danger and in expectation of it4 ,and what is it when it comes1 but either the end of a journey1 or a passage8 ,it is as great a folly to fear death as to fear old age2 nay1 as to fear life itself2 for he that would not die ought not to live1 since death is the condition of life4 ,beside that it is a madness to fear a thing that is certain2 for where there is no doubt1 there is no place for fear4 ,we are still chiding of ,fate1 and even those that exact the most rigorous justice betwixt man and man are yet themselves unjust to ,providence4 8,why was such a one taken away in the prime of his years80 ,as if it were the number of years that makes death easy to us1 and not the temper of the mind4 ,he that would live a little longer to-day1 would be as loth to die a hundred years hence4 ,but which is more reasonable for us to obey ,nature1 or for ,nature to obey us8 ,go we must at last1 and no matter how soon4 ,it is the work of ,fate to make us live long1 but it is the business of virtue to make a short life sufficient4 ,life is to be measured by action1 not by time2 a man may die old at thirty1 and young at fourscore3 nay1 the one lives after death1 and the other perished before he died4 ,i look upon age among the effects of chance4 ,how long ,i shall live is in the power of others1 but it is in my own how well4 ,the largest space of time is to live till a man is wise4 ,he that dies of old age does no more than go to bed when he is weary4 ,death is the test of life1 and it is that only which discovers what we are1 and distinguishes betwixt ostentation and virtue4 ,a man may dispute1 cite great authorities1 talk learnedly1 huff it out1 and yet be rotten at heart4 ,but let us soberly attend our business3 and since it is uncertain when1 or where1 we shall die1 let us look for death in all places1 and at all times3 we can never study that point too much1 which we can never come to experiment whether we know it or not4 ,it is a blessed thing to dispatch the business of life before we die1 and then to expect death in the possession of a happy life4 ,he is the great man who is willing to die when his life is pleasant to him4 ,an honest life is not a greater good than an honest death4 ,how many brave young men1 by an instinct of ,nature1 are carried on to great actions1 and even to the contempt of all hazards6 ,it is childish to go out of the world groaning and wailing as we came into it4 ,our bodies must be thrown away1 as the secundine that wraps up the infant1 the other being only the covering of the soul2 we shall then discover the secrets of ,nature2 the darkness shall be discussed1 and our souls irradiated with light and glory3 a glory without a shadow2 a glory that shall surround us1 and from whence we shall look down and see day and night beneath us4 ,if we cannot lift up our eyes toward the lamp of heaven without dazzling1 what shall we do when we come to behold the divine light in its illustrious original8 ,that death which we so much dread and decline1 is not the determination1 but the intermission of a life1 which will return again4 ,all those things1 that are the very cause of life1 are the way to death3 we fear it as we do fame2 but it is a great folly to fear words4 ,some people are so impatient of life1 that they are still wishing for death2 but he that wishes to die does not desire it3 let us rather wait ,god's pleasure1 and pray for health and life4 ,if we have a mind to live1 why do we wish to die8 ,if we have a mind to die1 we may do it without talking of it4 ,men are a great deal more resolute in the article of death itself than they are about the circumstances of it3 for it gives a man courage to consider that his fate is inevitable3 the slow approaches of death are the most troublesome to us2 as we see many a gladiator1 who upon his wounds1 will direct his adversary's weapon to his very heart1 though but timorous perhaps in the combat4 ,there are some that have not the heart either to live or die2 that is a sad case4 ,but this we are sure of1 8the fear of death is a continual slavery1 as the contempt of it is certain liberty40 ,,chapter ,,xxii4 ,,consolations ,,against ,,death1 ,,from ,,the ,,providence ,,and ,,the ,,necessity ,,of ,,it4 ,this life is only a prelude to eternity1 where we are to expect another original1 and another state of things2 we have no prospect of heaven here but at a distance2 let us therefore expect our last and decretory hour with courage4 ,the last 7,i say7 to our bodies1 but not to our minds3 our luggage we leave behind us1 and return as naked out of the world as we came into it4 ,the day which we fear as our last is but the birth-day of our eternity2 and it is the only way to it4 ,so that what we fear as a rock1 proves to be but a port1 in many cases to be desired1 never to be refused2 and he that dies young has only made a quick voyage of it4 ,some are becalmed1 others cut it away before wind2 and we live just as we sail3 first1 we rub our childhood out of sight2 our youth next2 and then our middle age3 after that follows old age1 and brings us to the common end of mankind4 ,it is a great providence that we have more ways out of the world than we have into it4 ,our security stands upon a point1 the very article of death4 ,it draws a great many blessings into a very narrow compass3 and although the fruit of it does not seem to extend to the defunct1 yet the difficulty of it is more than balanced by the contemplation of the future4 ,nay1 suppose that all the business of this world should be forgotten1 or my memory1 traduced1 what is all this to me8 8,i have done my duty40 ,undoubtedly that which puts an end to all other evils1 cannot be a very great evil itself1 and yet it is no easy thing for flesh and blood to despise life4 ,what if death comes8 ,if it does not stay with us why should we fear it8 ,one hangs himself for a mistress2 another leaps the garret-window to avoid a choleric master2 a third runs away and stabs himself1 rather than he will be brought back again4 ,we see the force even of our infirmities1 and shall we not then do greater things for the love of virtue8 ,to suffer death is but the law of nature2 and it is a great comfort that it can be done but once2 in the very convulsions of it we have this consolation1 that our pain is near an end1 and that it frees us from all the miseries of life4 ,what it is we know not1 and it were rash to condemn what we do not understand2 but this we presume1 either that we shall pass out of this into a better life1 where we shall live with tranquillity and splendor1 in diviner mansions1 or else return to our first principles1 free from the sense of any inconvenience4 ,there is nothing immortal1 nor many things lasting2 by but divers ways everything comes to an end4 ,what an arrogance is it then1 when the world itself stands condemned to a dissolution1 that man alone should expect to live forever6 ,it is unjust not to allow unto the giver the power of disposing of his own bounty1 and a folly only to value the present4 ,death is as much a debt as money1 and life is but a journey towards it3 some dispatch it sooner1 others later1 but we must all have the same period4 ,the thunderbolt is undoubtedly just that draws even from those that are struck with it a veneration4 ,a great soul takes no delight in staying with the body3 it considers whence it came1 and knows whither it is to go4 ,the day will come that shall separate this mixture of soul and body1 of divine and human2 my body ,i will leave where ,i found it1 my soul ,i will restore to heaven1 which would have been there already1 but for the clog that keeps it down3 and beside1 how many men have been the worse for longer living1 that might have died with reputation if they had been sooner taken away6 ,how many disappointments of hopeful youths1 that have proved dissolute men6 ,over and above the ruins1 shipwrecks1 torments1 prisons1 that attend long life2 a blessing so deceitful1 that if a child were in condition to judge of it1 and at liberty to refuse it1 he would not take it4 ,what ,providence has made necessary1 human prudence should comply with cheerfully3 as there is a necessity of death1 so that necessity is equal and invincible4 ,no man has cause of complaint for that which every man must suffer as well as himself4 ,when we should die1 we will not1 and when we would not we must3 but our fate is fixed1 and unavoidable is the decree4 ,why do we then stand trembling when the time comes8 ,why do we not as well lament that we did not live a thousand years ago1 as that we shall not be alive a thousand years hence8 ,it is but traveling the great road1 and to the place whither we must all go at last4 ,it is but submitting to the law of ,nature1 and to that lot which the whole world has suffered that is gone before us2 and so must they too that are to come after us4 ,nay1 how many thousands1 when our time comes1 will expire in the same moment with us6 ,he that will not follow shall be drawn by force3 and is it not much better now to do that willingly which we shall otherwise be made to do in spite of our hearts8 ,the sons of mortal parents must expect a mortal posterity--death is the end of great and small4 ,we are born helpless1 and exposed to the injuries of all creatures and of all weathers4 ,the very necessaries of life are deadly to us2 we meet with our fate in our dishes1 in our cups1 and in the very air we breathe2 nay1 our very birth is inauspicious1 for we come into the world weeping1 and in the middle of our designs1 while we are meditating great matters1 and stretching of our thoughts to after ages1 death cuts us off1 and our longest date is only the revolution of a few years4 ,one man dies at the table2 another goes away in his sleep1 a third in his mistress's arms1 a fourth is stabbed1 another is stung with an adder1 or crushed with the fall of a house4 ,we have several ways to our end1 but the end itself1 which is death1 is still the same4 ,whether we die by a sword1 by a halter1 by a potion1 or by a disease1 it is all but death4 ,a child dies in the swaddling-clouts1 and an old man at a hundred--they are both mortal alike1 though the one goes sooner than the other4 ,all that lies betwixt the cradle and the grave is uncertain4 ,if we compute the troubles1 the life even of a child is long3 if the sweetness of the passage1 that of an old man is short2 the whole is slippery and deceitful1 and only death certain2 and yet all people complain of that which never deceived any man4 ,senecio raised himself from a small beginning to a vast fortune1 being very well skilled in the faculties both of getting and of keeping1 and either of them was sufficient for the doing of his business4 ,he was a man infinitely careful both of his patrimony and of his body4 ,he gave me a morning's visit1 7says our author17 and after that visit he went away and spent the rest of the day with a friend of his that was desperately sick4 ,at night1 he was merry at supper1 and seized immediately after with a quinsy which dispatched him in a few hours4 ,this man that had money at use in all places1 and in the very course and height of his prosperity was thus cut off4 ,how foolish a thing is it then for a man to flatter himself with long hopes1 and to pretend to dispose of the future3 nay1 the very present slips through our fingers1 and there is not that moment which we can call our own4 ,how vain a thing is it for us to enter upon projects1 and to say to ourselves1 8,well1 ,i will go build1 purchase1 discharge such offices1 settle my affairs1 and then retire60 ,we are all of us born to the same casualties--all equally frail and uncertain of to-morrow4 ,at the very altar where we pray for life1 we learn to die1 by seeing the sacrifices killed before us4 ,but there is no need of a wound1 or searching the heart for it1 when the noose of a cord1 or the smothering of a pillow will do the work4 ,all things have their seasons--they begin1 they increase1 and they die4 ,the heavens and the earth grow old1 and are appointed their periods4 ,that which we call death is but a pause or suspension2 and1 in truth1 a progress to life1 only our thoughts look downward upon the body1 and not forward upon things to come4 ,all things under the sun are mortal--cities--empires--and the time will come when it shall be a question where they were1 and1 perchance1 whether ever they had a being or not4 ,some will be destroyed by war1 others by luxury1 fire1 inundations1 earthquakes--why should it trouble me then to die1 as a forerunner of an universal dissolution8 ,a great mind submits itself to ,god1 and suffers willingly what the law of the universe will otherwise bring to pass upon necessity4 ,that good old man ,bassus1 7though with one foot in the grave17 how cheerful a mind does he bear4 ,he lives in the view of death1 and contemplates his own end with less concern of thought or countenance1 than he would do another man's4 ,it is a hard lesson1 and we are a long time a learning of it1 to receive our death without trouble1 especially in the case of ,bassus3 in other deaths there is a mixture of hope--a disease may be cured1 a fire quenched1 a falling house either propped or avoided1 the sea may swallow a man and throw him up again1 a pardon may interpose twixt the ax and the body--but in the case of old age there is no place for either hope or intercession4 ,let us live in our bodies1 therefore1 as if we were only to lodge in them this night1 and to leave them to-morrow4 ,it is the frequent thought of death that must fortify us against the necessity of it4 ,he that has armed himself against poverty1 may1 perhaps1 come to live in plenty4 ,a man may strengthen himself against pain and yet live in a state of health2 against the loss of friends1 and never lose any1 but he that fortifies himself against the fear of death shall most certainly have occasion to employ that virtue4 ,it is the care of a wise and a good man to look to his manners and actions2 and rather how well he lives than how long1 for to die sooner or later is not the business1 but to die well or ill1 for 8death brings us to immortality40 ,,chapter ,,xxiii4 ,,against ,,immoderate ,,sorrow ,,for ,,the ,,death ,,of ,,friends4 ,next to the encounter of death in our own bodies1 the most sensible calamity to an honest man is the death of a friend2 and we are not in truth without some generous instances of those that have preferred a friend's life before their own2 and yet this affliction1 which by nature is so grievous to us1 is by virtue and ,providence made familiar and easy4 ,to lament the death of a friend is both natural and just2 a sigh or a tear ,i would allow to his memory3 but no profuse or obstinate sorrow4 ,clamorous and public lamentations are not so much the effects of grief as of vain-glory4 ,he that is sadder in company than alone1 shows rather the ambition of his sorrow than the piety of it4 ,nay1 and in the violence of his passion there fall out twenty things that set him a-laughing4 ,at the long-run1 time cures all1 but it were better done by moderation and wisdom4 ,some people do as good as set a watch upon themselves1 as if they were afraid that their grief would make an escape4 ,the ostentation of grief is many times more than the grief itself4 ,when any body is within hearing1 what groans and outcries6 when they are alone and private1 all is hush and quiet3 so soon as any body comes in1 they are at it again2 and down they throw themselves upon the bed2 fall to wringing of their hands1 and wishing of themselves dead2 which they might have executed by themselves2 but their sorrow goes off with the company4 ,we forsake nature1 and run over to the practices of the people1 that never were the authors of anything that is good4 ,if destiny were to be wrought upon by tears1 ,i would allow you to spend your days and nights in sadness and mourning1 tearing of your hair1 and beating of your breast2 but if ,fate be inexorable1 and death will keep what it has taken1 grief is to no purpose4 ,and yet ,i would not advise insensibility and hardness2 it were inhumanity1 and not virtue1 not to be moved at the separation of familiar friends and relations3 now1 in such cases1 we cannot command ourselves1 we cannot forbear weeping1 and we ought not to forbear3 but let us not pass the bounds of affection1 and run into imitation2 within these limits it is some ease to the mind4 ,a wise man gives way to tears in some cases1 and cannot avoid them in others4 ,when one is struck with the surprise of ill-news1 as the death of a friend1 or the like2 or upon the last embrace of an acquaintance under the hand of an executioner1 he lies under a natural necessity of weeping and trembling4 ,in another case1 we may indulge our sorrow1 as upon the memory of a dead friend's conversation or kindness1 one may let fall tears of generosity and joy4 ,we favor the one1 and we are overcome by the other2 and this is well3 but we are not upon any terms to force them3 they may flow of their own accord1 without derogating from the dignity of a wise man2 who at the same time both preserves his gravity1 and obeys nature4 ,nay1 there is a certain decorum even in weeping2 for excess of sorrow is as foolish as profuse laughter4 ,why do we not as well cry1 when our trees that we took pleasure in1 shed their leaves1 as at the loss of our satisfactions2 when the next season repairs them1 either with the same again1 or others in their places4 ,we may accuse ,fate1 but we cannot alter it2 for it is hard and inexorable1 and not to be removed either with reproaches or tears4 ,they may carry us to the dead1 but never bring them back again to us4 ,if reason does not put an end to our sorrows1 fortune never will3 one is pinched with poverty2 another solicited with ambition1 and fears the very wealth that he coveted4 ,one is troubled for the loss of children2 another for the want of them3 so that we shall sooner want tears than matter for them2 let us therefore spare that for which we have so much occasion4 ,i do confess1 that in the very parting of friends there is something of uneasiness and trouble2 but it is rather voluntary than natural2 and it is custom more than sense that affects us3 we do rather impose a sorrow upon ourselves than submit to it2 as people cry when they have company1 and when nobody looks on1 all is well again4 ,to mourn without measure is folly1 and not to mourn at all is insensibility4 ,the best temper is betwixt piety and reason2 to be sensible1 but neither transported nor cast down4 ,he that can put a stop to his tears and pleasures when he will is safe4 ,it is an equal infelicity to be either too soft or too hard3 we are overcome by the one1 and put to struggle with the other4 ,there is a certain intemperance in that sorrow that passes the rules of modesty2 and yet great piety is1 in many cases1 a dispensation to good manners4 ,the loss of a son or of a friend1 cuts a man to the heart1 and there is no opposing the first violence of his passion2 but when a man comes once to deliver himself wholly up to lamentations1 he is to understand1 that though some tears deserve compassion1 others are yet ridiculous4 ,a grief that is fresh finds pity and comfort1 but when it is inveterate it is laughed at1 for it is either counterfeit or foolish4 ,beside that1 to weep excessively for the dead is an affront to the living4 ,the most justifiable cause of mourning is to see good men come to ill ends1 and virtue oppressed by the iniquity of ,fortune4 ,but in this case1 too1 they either suffer resolutely1 and yield us delight in their courage and example1 or meanly1 and so give us the less trouble for the loss4 ,he that dies cheerfully1 dries up my tears2 and he that dies whiningly1 does not deserve them4 ,i would bear the death of friends and children with the same constancy that ,i would expect my own1 and no more lament the one than fear the other4 ,he that bethinks himself1 how often friends have been parted1 will find more time lost among the living1 than upon the dead2 and the most desperate mourners are they that cared least for their friends when they were living2 for they think to redeem their credits1 for want of kindness to the living1 by extravagant ravings after the dead4 ,some 7,i know7 will have grief to be only the perverse delight of a restless mind1 and sorrows and pleasures to be near akin2 and there are1 ,i am confident1 that find joy even in their tears4 ,but which is more barbarous1 to be insensible of grief for the death of a friend1 or to fish for pleasure in grief1 when a son perhaps is burning1 or a friend expiring8 ,to forget one's friend1 to bury the memory with the body1 to lament out of measure1 is all inhuman4 ,he that is gone either would not have his friend tormented1 or does not know that he is so3 if he does not feel it1 it is superfluous2 if he does1 it is unacceptable to him4 ,if reason cannot prevail1 reputation may2 for immoderate mourning lessens a man's character3 it is a shameful thing for a wise man to make the weariness of grieving the remedy of it4 ,in time1 the most stubborn grief will leave us1 if in prudence we do not leave that first4 ,but do ,i grieve for my friend's sake or for my own8 ,why should ,i afflict myself for the loss of him that is either happy or not at all in being8 ,in the one case it is envy1 and in the other it is madness4 ,we are apt to say1 8,what would ,i give to see him again1 and to enjoy his conversation6 ,i was never sad in his company3 my heart leaped whenever ,i met him2 ,i want him wherever ,i go40 ,all that is to be said is1 8,the greater the loss1 the greater is the virtue to overcome it40 ,if grieving will do no good1 it is an idle thing to grieve2 and if that which has befallen one man remains to all1 it is as unjust to complain4 ,the whole world is upon the march towards the same point2 why do we not cry for ourselves that are to follow1 as well as for him that has gone first8 ,why do we not as well lament beforehand for that which we know will be1 and can not possibly but be8 ,he is not gone1 but sent before4 ,as there are many things that he has lost1 so there are many things that he does not fear2 as anger1 jealousy1 envy1 etc4 ,is he not more happy in desiring nothing than miserable in what he has lost8 ,we do not mourn for the absent1 why then for the dead1 who are effectually no other8 ,we have lost one blessing1 but we have many left2 and shall not all these satisfactions support us against one sorrow8 ,the comfort of having a friend may be taken away1 but not that of having had one4 ,as there is a sharpness in some fruits1 and a bitterness in some wines that please us1 so there is a mixture in the remembrance of friends1 where the loss of their company is sweetened again by the contemplation of their virtues4 ,in some respects1 ,i have lost what ,i had1 and in others1 ,i retain still what ,i have lost4 ,it is an ill construction of ,providence to reflect only upon my friend's being taken away1 without any regard to the benefit of his being once given me4 ,let us therefore make the best of our friends while we have them2 for how long we shall keep them is uncertain4 ,i have lost a hopeful son1 but how many fathers have been deceived in their expectations6 and how many noble families have been destroyed by luxury and riot6 ,he that grieves for the loss of a son1 what if he had lost a friend8 and yet he that has lost a friend has more cause of joy that he once had him1 than of grief that he is taken away4 ,shall a man bury his friendship with his friend8 ,we are ungrateful for that which is past1 in hope of what is to come2 as if that which is to come would not quickly be past too4 ,that which is past we are sure of4 ,we may receive satisfaction1 it is true1 both from the future and what is already past2 the one by expectation1 and the other by memory2 only the one may possibly not come to pass1 and it is impossible to make the other not to have been4 ,but there is no applying of consolation to fresh and bleeding sorrow2 the very discourse irritates the grief and inflames it4 ,it is like an unseasonable medicine in a disease2 when the first violence is over1 it will be more tractable1 and endure the handling4 ,those people whose minds are weakened by long felicity may be allowed to groan and complain1 but it is otherwise with those that have led their days in misfortunes4 ,a long course of adversity has this good in it1 that though it vexes a body a great while1 it comes to harden us at last2 as a raw soldier shrinks at every wound1 and dreads the surgeon more than an enemy2 whereas a veteran sees his own body cut and lamed with as little concern as if it were another's4 ,with the same resolution should we stand the shock and cure of all misfortunes2 we are never the better for our experience1 if we have not yet learned to be miserable4 ,and there is no thought of curing us by the diversion of sports and entertainments2 we are apt to fall into relapses2 wherefore we had better overcome our sorrow than delude it4 ,,chapter ,,xxiv4 ,,consolation ,,against ,,banishment ,,and ,,bodily ,,pain4 ,it is a masterpiece to draw good out of evil2 and1 by the help of virtue1 to improve misfortunes into blessings4 8,it is a sad condition10 you will say1 8for a man to be barred the freedom of his own country40 ,and is not this the case of thousands that we meet every day in the streets8 ,some for ambition2 others1 to negotiate1 or for curiosity1 delight1 friendship1 study1 experience1 luxury1 vanity1 discontent3 some to exercise their virtues1 others their vices2 and not a few to prostitute either their bodies or their eloquence8 ,to pass now from pleasant countries into the worst of islands2 let them be never so barren or rocky1 the people never so barbarous1 or the clime never so intemperate1 he that is banished thither shall find many strangers to live there for their pleasure4 ,the mind of man is naturally curious and restless2 which is no wonder1 considering their divine original2 for heavenly things are always in motion3 witness the stars1 and the orbs1 which are perpetually moving1 rolling1 and changing of place and according to the law and appointment of ,nature4 ,but here are no woods1 you will say1 no rivers1 no gold nor pearl1 no commodity for traffic or commerce2 nay1 hardly provision enough to keep the inhabitants from starving4 ,it is very right2 here are no palaces1 no artificial grottoes1 or materials for luxury and excess2 but we lie under the protection of ,heaven2 and a poor cottage for a retreat is more worth than the most magnificent temple1 when that cottage is consecrated by an honest man under the guard of his virtue4 ,shall any man think banishment grievous1 when he may take such company along with him6 ,nor is there any banishment but yields enough for our necessities1 and no kingdom is sufficient for superfluities4 ,it is the mind that makes us rich in a desert2 and if the body be but kept alive1 the soul enjoys all spiritual felicities in abundance4 ,what signifies the being banished from one spot of ground to another1 to a man that has his thoughts above1 and can look forward and backward1 and wherever he pleases2 and that1 wherever he is1 has the same matter to work upon8 ,the body is but the prison or the clog of the mind1 subjected to punishments1 robberies1 diseases2 but the mind is sacred and spiritual1 and liable to no violence4 ,is it that1 a man shall want garments or covering in banishment8 ,the body is as easily clothed as fed2 and ,nature has made nothing hard that is necessary4 ,but if nothing will serve us but rich embroideries and scarlet1 it is none of ,fortune's fault that we are poor1 but our own4 ,nay1 suppose a man should have all restored him back again that he has lost1 it will come to nothing1 for he will want more after that to satisfy his desires than he did before to supply his necessities4 ,insatiable appetites are not so much a thirst as a disease4 ,to come lower now2 where is the people or nation that have not changed their place of abode8 ,some by the fate of war2 others have been cast by tempests1 shipwrecks1 or want of provisions1 upon unknown coasts4 ,some have been forced abroad by pestilence1 sedition1 earthquakes1 surcharge of people at home4 ,some travel to see the world1 others for commerce2 but1 in fine1 it is clear1 that1 upon some reason or other1 the whole race of mankind have shifted their quarters2 changed their very names as well as their habitations2 insomuch that we have lost the very memorials of what they were4 ,all these transportations of people1 what are they but public banishments8 ,the very founder of the ,roman empire was an exile3 briefly1 the whole world has been transplanted1 and one mutation treads upon the heel of another4 ,that which one man desires1 turns another man's stomach2 and he that proscribes me to-day1 shall himself be cast out to-morrow4 ,we have1 however1 this comfort in our misfortune2 we have the same nature1 the same ,providence1 and we carry our virtues along with us4 ,and this blessing we owe to that almighty ,power1 call it what you will2 either a ,god1 or an ,incorporeal ,reason1 a ,divine ,spirit1 or ,fate1 and the unchangeable ,course of causes and effects3 it is1 however1 so ordered1 that nothing can be taken from us but what we can well spare3 and that which is most magnificent and valuable continues with us4 ,wherever we go1 we have the heavens over our heads1 and no farther from us than they were before2 and so long as we can entertain our eyes and thoughts with those glories1 what matter is it what ground we tread upon8 ,in the case of pain or sickness1 it is only the body that is affected2 it may take off the speed of a footman1 or bind the hands of a cobbler1 but the mind is still at liberty to hear1 learn1 teach1 advise1 and to do other good offices4 ,it is an example of public benefit1 a man that is in pain and patient4 ,virtue may show itself as well in the bed as in the field2 and he that cheerfully encounters the terrors of death and corporal anguish1 is as great a man as he that most generously hazards himself in a battle4 ,a disease1 it is true1 bars us of some pleasures1 but procures us others4 ,drink is never so grateful to us as in a burning fever2 nor meat1 as when we have fasted ourselves sharp and hungry4 ,the patient may be forbidden some sensual satisfaction1 but no physician will forbid us the delight of the mind4 ,shall we call any sick man miserable1 because he must give over his intemperance of wine and gluttony1 and betake himself to a diet of more sobriety1 and less expense2 and abandon his luxury1 which is the distemper of the mind as well as of the body8 ,it is troublesome1 ,i know1 at first1 to abstain from the pleasures we have been used to1 and to endure hunger and thirst2 but in a little time we lose the very appetite1 and it is no trouble then to be without that which we do not desire4 ,in diseases there are great pains2 but if they be long they remit1 and give us some intervals of ease2 if short and violent1 either they dispatch us1 or consume themselves2 so that either their respites make them tolerable1 or the extremity makes them short4 ,so merciful is ,almighty ,god to us1 that our torments cannot be very sharp and lasting4 ,the acutest pains are those that affect the nerves1 but there is this comfort in them too1 that they will quickly make us stupid and insensible4 ,in cases of extremity1 let us call to mind the most eminent instances of patience and courage1 and turn our thoughts from our afflictions to the contemplation of virtue4 ,suppose it be the stone1 the gout1 nay1 the rack itself2 how many have endured it without so much as a groan or word speaking2 without so much as asking for relief1 or giving an answer to a question6 ,nay1 they have laughed at the tormentors upon the very torture1 and provoked them to new experiments of their cruelty1 which they have had still in derision4 ,the asthma ,i look upon as of all diseases the most importunate2 the physicians call it the meditation of death1 as being rather an agony than a sickness2 the fit holds one not above an hour1 as nobody is long in expiring4 ,are there not three things grievous in sickness1 the fear of death1 bodily pain1 and the intermission of our pleasures8 the first is to be imputed to nature1 not to the disease2 for we do not die because we are sick1 but because we live4 ,nay1 sickness itself has preserved many a man from dying4 ,,chapter ,,xxv4 ,,poverty ,,to ,a ,,wise ,,man ,,is ,,rather ,a ,,blessing ,,than ,a ,,misfortune4 ,no man shall ever be poor that goes to himself for what he wants2 and that is the readiest way to riches4 ,nature1 indeed1 will have her due2 but yet whatsoever is beyond necessity is precarious1 and not necessary4 ,it is not her business to gratify the palate1 but to satisfy a craving stomach4 ,bread1 when a man is hungry1 does his work1 let it be never so coarse2 and water when he is dry2 let his thirst be quenched1 and ,nature is satisfied1 no matter whence it comes1 or whether he drinks in gold1 silver1 or in the hollow of his hand4 ,to promise a man riches1 and to teach him poverty1 is to deceive him3 but shall ,i call him poor that wants nothing2 though he maybe beholden for it to his patience1 rather than to his fortune8 ,or shall any man deny him to be rich1 whose riches can never be taken away8 ,whether is it better to have much or enough8 ,he that has much desires more1 and shows that he has not yet enough2 but he that has enough is at rest4 ,shall a man be reputed the less rich for not having that for which he shall be banished2 for which his very wife1 or son1 shall poison him3 that which gives him security in war1 and quiet in peace2 which he possesses without danger1 and disposes of without trouble8 ,no man can be poor that has enough2 nor rich1 that covets more than he has4 ,alexander1 after all his conquests1 complained that he wanted more worlds2 he desired something more1 even when he had gotten all3 and that which was sufficient for human nature was not enough for one man4 ,money never made any man rich2 for the more he had1 the more he still coveted4 ,the richest man that ever lived is poor in my opinion1 and in any man's may be so3 but he that keeps himself to the stint of ,nature1 does neither feel poverty nor fear it2 nay1 even in poverty itself there are some things superfluous4 ,those which the world calls happy1 their felicity is a false splendor1 that dazzles the eyes of the vulgar2 but our rich man is glorious and happy within4 ,there is no ambition in hunger or thirst3 let there be food1 and no matter for the table1 the dish1 and the servants1 nor with what meats nature is satisfied4 ,those are the torments of luxury1 that rather stuff the stomach than fill it3 it studies rather to cause an appetite than to allay it4 ,it is not for us to say1 8,this is not handsome2 that is common2 the other offends my eye40 ,nature provides for health1 not delicacy4 ,when the trumpet sounds a charge1 the poor man knows that he is not aimed at2 when they cry out fire1 his body is all he has to look after3 if he be to take a journey1 there is no blocking up of streets1 and thronging of passages1 for a parting compliment3 a small matter fills his belly1 and contents his mind3 he lives from hand to mouth1 without caring or fearing for to-morrow4 ,the temperate rich man is but his counterfeit2 his wit is quicker and his appetite calmer4 ,no man finds poverty a trouble to him1 but he that thinks it so2 and he that thinks it so1 makes it so4 ,does not a rich man travel more at ease with less luggage1 and fewer servants8 ,does he not eat many times as little and as coarse in the field as a poor man8 ,does he not for his own pleasure1 sometimes1 and for variety1 feed upon the ground1 and use only earthen vessels8 ,is not he a madman then1 that always fears what he often desires1 and dreads the thing that he takes delight to imitate3 he that would know the worst of poverty1 let him but compare the looks of the rich and of the poor1 and he shall find the poor man to have a smoother brow1 and to be more merry at heart2 or if any trouble befalls him1 it passes over like a cloud3 whereas the other1 either his good humor is counterfeit1 or his melancholy deep and ulcerated1 and the worse1 because he dares not publicly own his misfortune2 but he is forced to play the part of a happy man even with a cancer in his heart4 ,his felicity is but personated2 and if he were but stripped of his ornaments1 he would be contemptible4 ,in buying of a horse1 we take off his clothes and his trappings1 and examine his shape and body for fear of being cozened2 and shall we put an estimate upon a man for being set off by his fortune and quality8 ,nay1 if we see anything of ornament about him1 we are to suspect him the more for some infirmity under it4 ,he that is not content in poverty1 would not be so neither in plenty2 for the fault is not in the thing1 but in the mind4 ,if that be sickly1 remove him from a kennel to a palace1 he is at the same pass2 for he carries his disease along with him4 ,what can be happier than the condition both of mind and of fortune from which we cannot fall--what can be a greater felicity than in a covetous1 designing age1 for a roan to live safe among informers and thieves8 ,it puts a poor man into the very condition of ,providence1 that gives all1 without reserving anything to itself4 ,how happy is he that owes nothing but to himself1 and only that which he can easily refuse or easily pay6 ,i do not reckon him poor that has but a little1 but he is so that covets more--it is a fair degree of plenty to have what is necessary4 ,whether had a man better find satiety in want1 or hunger in plenty8 ,it is not the augmenting of our fortunes1 but the abating of our appetites that makes us rich4 ,why may not a man as well contemn riches in his own coffers as in another man's1 and rather hear that they are his than feel them to be so1 though it is a great matter not to be corrupted even by having them under the same roof4 ,he is the greater man that is honestly poor in the middle of plenty--but he is the more secure that is free from the temptation of that plenty1 and has the least matter for another to design upon4 ,it is no great business for a poor man to preach the contempt of riches1 or for a rich man to extol the benefits of poverty1 because we do not know how either the one or the other would behave himself in the contrary condition4 ,the best proof is the doing of it by choice and not by necessity2 for the practice of poverty in jest is a preparation toward the bearing of it in earnest2 but it is yet a generous disposition so to provide for the worst of fortunes as what may be easily borne--the premeditation makes them not only tolerable but delightful to us1 for there is that in them without which nothing can be comfortable1 that is to say1 security4 ,if there were nothing else in poverty but the certain knowledge of our friends1 it were yet a most desirable blessing1 when every man leaves us but those that love us4 ,it is a shame to place the happiness of life in gold and silver1 for which bread and water is sufficient2 or1 at the worst1 hunger puts an end to hunger4 ,for the honor of poverty1 it was both the foundation and the cause of the ,roman empire2 and no man was ever yet so poor but he had enough to carry him to his journey's end4 ,all ,i desire is that my property may not be a burden to myself1 or make me so to others2 and that is the best state of fortune that is neither directly necessitous1 nor far from it4 ,a mediocricity of fortune with a gentleness of mind1 will preserve us from fear or envy1 which is a desirable condition1 for no man wants power to do mischief4 ,we never consider the blessing of coveting nothing1 and the glory of being full in ourselves1 without depending upon ,fortune4 ,with parsimony a little is sufficient and without it nothing2 whereas frugality makes a poor man rich4 ,if we lose an estate1 we had better never have had it--he that has least to lose has least to fear1 and those are better satisfied whom ,fortune never favored1 than those whom she has forsaken4 ,the state is most commodious that lies betwixt poverty and plenty4 ,diogenes understood this very well when he put himself into an incapacity of losing any thing4 ,that course of life is most commodious which is both safe and wholesome--the body is to be indulged no farther than for health1 and rather mortified than not kept in subjection to the mind4 ,it is necessary to provide against hunger1 thirst1 and cold2 and somewhat for a covering to shelter us against other inconveniences2 but not a pin matter whether it be of turf or of marble--a man may lie as warm and as dry under a thatched as under a gilded roof4 ,let the mind be great and glorious1 and all other things are despicable in comparison4 8,the future is uncertain1 and ,i had rather beg of myself not to desire any thing1 than of ,fortune to bestow it40 ,,seneca ,,of ,,anger4 ,,chapter ,i4 ,,anger ,,described1 ,,it ,,is ,,against ,,nature1 ,,and ,,only ,,to ,,be ,,found ,,in ,,man4 ,we are here to encounter the most outrageous1 brutal1 dangerous1 and intractable of all passions2 the most loathsome and unmannerly2 nay1 the most ridiculous too2 and the subduing of this monster will do a great deal toward the establishment of human peace4 ,it is the method of physicians to begin with a description of the disease1 before they meddle with the cure3 and ,i know not why this may not do as well in the distempers of the mind as in those of the body4 ,the ,stoics will have anger to be a 8desire of punishing another for some injury done40 ,against which it is objected1 that we are many times angry with those that never did hurt us1 but possibly may1 though the harm be not as yet done4 ,but ,i say1 that they hurt us already in conceit3 and the very purpose of it is an injury in thought before it breaks out into act4 ,it is opposed again1 that if anger were a desire of punishing1 mean people would not be angry with great ones that are out of their reach2 for no man can be said to desire any thing which he judges impossible to compass4 ,but ,i answer to this1 ,that anger is the desire1 not the power and faculty of revenge2 neither is any man so low1 but that the greatest man alive may peradventure lie at his mercy4 ,aristotle takes anger to be1 8a desire of paying sorrow for sorrow20 and of plaguing those that have plagued us4 ,it is argued against both1 that beasts are angry2 though neither provoked by any injury1 nor moved with a desire of any body's grief or punishment4 ,nay1 though they cause it1 they do not design or seek it4 ,neither is anger 7how unreasonable soever in itself7 found anywhere but in reasonable creatures4 ,it is true1 the beasts have an impulse of rage and fierceness2 as they are more affected also than men with some pleasures2 but we may as well call them luxurious and ambitious as angry4 ,and yet they are not without certain images of human affections4 ,they have their likings and their loathings2 but neither the passions of reasonable nature1 nor their virtues1 nor their vices4 ,they are moved to fury by some objects2 they are quieted by others2 they have their terrors and their disappointments1 but without reflection3 and let them be never so much irritated or affrighted1 so soon as ever the occasion is removed they fall to their meat again1 and lie down and take their rest4 ,wisdom and thought are the goods of the mind1 whereof brutes are wholly incapable2 and we are as unlike them within as we are without3 they have an odd kind of fancy1 and they have a voice too2 but inarticulate and confused1 and incapable of those variations which are familiar to us4 ,anger is not only a vice1 but a vice point-blank against nature1 for it divides instead of joining2 and in some measure1 frustrates the end of ,providence in human society4 ,one man was born to help another2 anger makes us destroy one another2 the one unites1 the other separates2 the one is beneficial to us1 the other mischievous2 the one succors even strangers1 the other destroys even the most intimate friends2 the one ventures all to save another1 the other ruins himself to undo another4 ,nature is bountiful1 but anger is pernicious3 for it is not fear1 but mutual love that binds up mankind4 ,there are some motions that look like anger1 which cannot properly be called so2 as the passion of the people against the gladiators1 when they hang off1 and will not make so quick a dispatch as the spectators would have them3 there is something in it of the humor of children1 that if they get a fall1 will never leave bawling until the naughty ground is beaten1 and then all is well again4 ,they are angry without any cause or injury2 they are deluded by an imitation of strokes1 and pacified with counterfeit tears4 ,a false and a childish sorrow is appeased with as false and as childish a revenge4 ,they take it for a contempt1 if the gladiators do not immediately cast themselves upon the sword's point4 ,they look presently about them from one to another1 as who should say2 8,do but see1 my masters1 how these rogues abuse us40 ,to descend to the particular branches and varieties would be unnecessary and endless4 ,there is a stubborn1 a vindictive1 a quarrelsome1 a violent1 a froward1 a sullen1 a morose kind of anger2 and then we have this variety in complication too4 ,one goes no further than words2 another proceeds immediately to blows1 without a word speaking2 a third sort breaks out into cursing and reproachful language2 and there are that content themselves with chiding and complaining4 ,there is a conciliable anger and there is an implacable2 but in what form or degree soever it appears1 all anger1 without exception1 is vicious4 ,,chapter ,,ii4 ,,the ,,rise ,,of ,,anger4 ,the question will be here1 whether anger takes its rise from impulse or judgment2 that is1 whether it be moved of its own accord1 or1 as many other things are1 from within us1 that arise we know not how8 ,the clearing of this point will lead us to greater matters4 ,the first motion of anger is in truth involuntary1 and only a kind of menacing preparation towards it4 ,the second deliberates2 as who should say1 8,this injury should not pass without a revenge10 and there it stops4 ,the third is impotent2 and1 right or wrong1 resolves upon vengeance4 ,the first motion is not to be avoided1 nor indeed the second1 any more than yawning for company2 custom and care may lessen it1 but reason itself cannot overcome it4 ,the third1 as it rises upon consideration1 it must fall so too1 for that motion which proceeds with judgment may be taken away with judgment4 ,a man thinks himself injured1 and hath a mind to be revenged1 but for some reason lets it rest4 ,this is not properly anger1 but an affection overruled by reason2 a kind of proposal disapproved--and what are reason and affection1 but only changes of the mind for the better or for the worse8 ,reason deliberates before it judges2 but anger passes sentence without deliberation4 ,reason only attends the matter in hand2 but anger is startled at every accident2 it passes the bounds of reason1 and carries it away with it4 ,in short1 8anger is an agitation of the mind that proceeds to the resolution of a revenge1 the mind assenting to it40 ,there is no doubt but anger is moved by the species of an injury2 but whether that motion be voluntary or involuntary is the point in debate2 though it seems manifest to me that anger does nothing but where the mind goes along with it1 for1 first1 to take an offence1 and then to meditate a revenge1 and after that to lay both propositions together1 and say to myself1 8,this injury ought not to have been done2 but as the case stands1 ,i must do myself right40 ,this discourse can never proceed without the concurrence of the will4 ,the first motion indeed is single2 but all the rest is deliberation and superstructure--there is something understood and condemned--an indignation conceived and a revenge propounded4 ,this can never be without the agreement of the mind to the matter in deliberation4 ,the end of this question is to know the nature and quality of anger4 ,if it be bred in us it will never yield to reason1 for all involuntary motions are inevitable and invincible2 as a kind of horror and shrugging upon the sprinkling of cold water2 the hair standing on end at ill news2 giddiness at the sight of a precipice2 blushing at lewd discourse4 ,in these cases reason can do no good1 but anger may undoubtedly be overcome by caution and good counsel1 for it is a voluntary vice1 and not of the condition of those accidents that befall us as frailties of our humanity1 amongst which must be reckoned the first motions of the mind after the opinion of an injury received1 which it is not in the power of human nature to avoid1 and this is it that affects us upon the stage1 or in a story4 ,can any man read the death of ,pompey1 and not be touched with an indignation8 ,the sound of a trumpet rouses the spirits and provokes courage4 ,it makes a man sad to see the shipwreck even of an enemy2 and we are much surprised by fear in other cases--all these motions are not so much affections as preludes to them4 ,the clashing of arms or the beating of a drum excites a war-horse3 nay1 a song from ,xenophantes would make ,alexander take his sword in his hand4 ,in all these cases the mind rather suffers than acts1 and therefore it is not an affection to be moved1 but to give way to that motion1 and to follow willingly what was started by chance--these are not affections1 but impulses of the body4 ,the bravest man in the world may look pale when he puts on his armor1 his knees knock1 and his heart work before the battle is joined3 but these are only motions2 whereas anger is an excursion1 and proposes revenge or punishment1 which cannot be without the mind4 ,as fear flies1 so anger assaults2 and it is not possible to resolve1 either upon violence or caution1 without the concurrence of the will4 ,,chapter ,,iii4 ,,anger ,,may ,,be ,,suppressed4 ,it is an idle thing to pretend that we cannot govern our anger2 for some things that we do are much harder than others that we ought to do2 the wildest affections may be tamed by discipline1 and there is hardly anything which the mind will do but it may do4 ,there needs no more argument in this case than the instances of several persons1 both powerful and impatient1 that have gotten the absolute mastery of themselves in this point4 ,thrasippus in his drink fell foul upon the cruelties of ,pisistratus2 who1 when he was urged by several about him to make an example of him1 returned this answer1 8,why should ,i be angry with a man that stumbles upon me blindfold80 ,in effect most of our quarrels are of our own making1 either by mistake or by aggravation4 ,anger comes sometimes upon us1 but we go oftener to it1 and instead of rejecting it we call it4 ,augustus was a great master of his passion3 for ,timagenus1 an historian1 wrote several bitter things against his person and his family3 which passed among the people plausibly enough1 as pieces of rash wit commonly do4 ,csar advised him several times to forbear2 and when that would not do1 forbade him his roof4 ,after this1 ,asinius ,pollio gave him entertainment2 and he was so well beloved in the city1 that every man's house was open to him4 ,those things that he had written in honor of ,augustus1 he recited and burnt1 and publicly professed himself ,csar's enemy4 ,augustus1 for all this1 never fell out with any man that received him2 only once1 he told ,pollio1 that he had taken a snake into his bosom3 and as ,pollio was about to excuse himself2 8,no10 says ,csar1 interrupting him1 8make your best of him40 ,and offering to cast him off at that very moment1 if ,csar pleased3 8,do you think10 says ,csar1 8that ,i will ever contribute to the parting of you1 that made you friends80 for ,pollio was angry with him before1 and only entertained him now because ,csar had discarded him4 ,the moderation of ,antigonus was remarkable4 ,some of his soldiers were railing at him one night1 where there was but a hanging betwixt them4 ,antigonus overheard them1 and putting it gently aside2 8,soldiers10 says he1 8stand a little further off1 for fear the king should hear you40 ,and we are to consider1 not only violent examples1 but moderate1 where there wanted neither cause of displeasure nor power of revenge3 as in the case of ,antigonus1 who the same night hearing his soldiers cursing him for bringing them into so foul a way1 he went to them1 and without telling them who he was1 helped them out of it4 8,now10 says he1 8you may be allowed to curse him that brought you into the mire1 provided you bless him that took you out of it40 ,it was a notable story that of ,vedius ,pallio1 upon his inviting of ,augustus to supper4 ,one of his boys happened to break a glass3 and his master1 in a rage1 commanded him to be thrown in a pond to feed his lampreys4 ,this action of his might be taken for luxury1 though1 in truth1 it was cruelty4 ,the boy was seized1 but brake loose and threw himself at ,augustus' feet1 only desiring that he might not die that death4 ,csar1 in abhorrence of the barbarity1 presently ordered all the rest of the glasses to be broken1 the boy to be released1 and the pond to be filled up1 that there might be no further occasion for an inhumanity of that nature4 ,this was an authority well employed4 ,shall the breaking of a glass cost a man his life8 ,nothing but a predominant fear could ever have mastered his choleric and sanguinary disposition4 ,this man deserved to die a thousand deaths1 either for eating human flesh at second-hand in his lampreys1 or for keeping of his fish to be so fed4 ,it is written of ,prxaspes 7a favorite of ,cambyses1 who was much given to wine7 that he took the freedom to tell this prince of his hard drinking1 and to lay before him the scandal and the inconveniences of his excesses2 and how that1 in those distempers1 he had not the command of himself4 8,now10 says ,cambyses1 8to show you your mistake1 you shall see me drink deeper than ever ,i did1 and yet keep the use of my eyes1 and of my hands1 as well as if ,i were sober40 ,upon this he drank to a higher pitch than ordinary1 and ordered ,prxaspes' son to go out1 and stand on the other side of the threshold1 with his left arm over his head2 8,and10 says he1 8if ,i have a good aim1 have at the heart of him40 ,he shot1 and upon cutting up the young man1 they found indeed that the arrow had struck him through the middle of the heart4 8,what do you think now10 says ,cambyses1 8is my hand steady or not80 8,apollo himself10 says ,prxaspes1 8could not have outdone it40 ,it may be a question now1 which was the greater impiety1 the murder itself1 or the commendation of it2 for him to take the heart of his son1 while it was yet reeking and panting under the wound1 for an occasion of flattery3 why was there not another experiment made upon the father1 to try if ,cambyses could not have yet mended his shot8 ,this was a most unmanly violation of hospitality2 but the approbation of the act was still worse than the crime itself4 ,this example of ,prxaspes proves sufficiently that a man may repress his anger2 for he returned not one ill word1 no not so much as a complaint2 but he paid dear for his good counsel4 ,he had been wiser1 perhaps1 if he had let the king alone in his cups1 for he had better have drunk wine than blood4 ,it is a dangerous office to give good advice to intemperate princes4 ,another instance of anger suppressed1 we have in ,harpagus1 who was commanded to expose ,cyrus upon a mountain4 ,but the child was preserved2 which1 when ,astyages came afterwards to understand1 he invited ,harpagus to a dish of meat2 and when he had eaten his fill1 he told him it was a piece of his son1 and asked him how he liked the seasoning4 8,whatever pleases your ,majesty10 says ,harpagus1 8must please me30 and he made no more words of it4 ,it is most certain1 that we might govern our anger if we would2 for the same thing that galls us at home gives us no offence at all abroad2 and what is the reason of it1 but that we are patient in one place1 and froward in another8 ,it was a strong provocation that which was given to ,philip of ,macedon1 the father of ,alexander4 ,the ,athenians sent their ambassadors to him1 and they were received with this compliment1 8,tell me1 gentlemen10 says ,philip1 8what is there that ,i can do to oblige the ,athenians80 ,democharas1 one of the ambassadors1 told him1 that they would take it for a great obligation if he would be pleased to hang himself4 ,this insolence gave an indignation to the by-standers2 but ,philip bade them not to meddle with him1 but even to let that foul-mouthed fellow go as he came4 8,and for you1 the rest of the ambassadors10 says he1 8pray tell the ,athenians1 that it is worse to speak such things than to hear and forgive them40 ,this wonderful patience under contumelies was a great means of ,philip's security4 ,,chapter ,,iv4 ,,it ,,is ,a ,,short ,,madness1 ,,and ,a ,,deformed ,,vice4 ,he was much in the right1 whoever it was1 that first called anger a short madness2 for they have both of them the same symptoms2 and there is so wonderful a resemblance betwixt the transports of choler and those of frenzy1 that it is a hard matter to know the one from the other4 ,a bold1 fierce1 and threatening countenance1 as pale as ashes1 and1 in the same moment1 as red as blood2 a glaring eye1 a wrinkled brow1 violent motions1 the hands restless and perpetually in action1 wringing and menacing1 snapping of the joints1 stamping with the feet1 the hair starting1 trembling of the lips1 a forced and squeaking voice2 the speech false and broken1 deep and frequent sighs1 and ghastly looks2 the veins swell1 the heart pants1 the knees knock2 with a hundred dismal accidents that are common to both distempers4 ,neither is anger a bare resemblance only of madness1 but many times an irrevocable transition into the thing itself4 ,how many persons have we known1 read1 and heard of1 that have lost their wits in a passion1 and never came to themselves again8 ,it is therefore to be avoided1 not only for moderation's sake1 but also for health4 ,now1 if the outward appearance of anger be so foul and hideous1 how deformed must that miserable mind be that is harassed with it8 for it leaves no place either for counsel or friendship1 honesty or good manners2 no place either for the exercise of reason1 or for the offices of life4 ,if ,i were to describe it1 ,i would draw a tiger bathed in blood1 sharp set1 and ready to take a leap at his prey2 or dress it up as the poets represent the furies1 with whips1 snakes1 and flames2 it should be sour1 livid1 full of scars1 and wallowing in gore1 raging up and down1 destroying1 grinning1 bellowing1 and pursuing2 sick of all other things1 and most of all1 itself4 ,it turns beauty into deformity1 and the calmest counsels into fierceness3 it disorders our very garments1 and fills the mind with horror4 ,how abominable is it in the soul then1 when it appears so hideous even through the bones1 the skin and so many impediments6 ,is not he a madman that has lost the government of himself1 and is tossed hither and thither by his fury as by a tempest8 the executioner and the murderer of his nearest friends8 ,the smallest matter moves it1 and makes us unsociable and inaccessible4 ,it does all things by violence1 as well upon itself as others2 and it is1 in short2 the master of all passions4 ,there is not any creature so terrible and dangerous by nature1 but it becomes fiercer by anger4 ,not that beasts have human affections1 but certain impulses they have which come very near them4 ,the boar foams1 champs1 and whets his tusks2 the bull tosses his horns in the air1 bounds1 and tears up the ground with his feet2 the lion roars and swinges himself with his tail2 the serpent swells2 and there is a ghastly kind of fellness in the aspect of a mad dog4 ,how great a wickedness is it now to indulge a violence1 that does not only turn a man into a beast1 but makes even the most outrageous of beasts themselves to be more dreadful and mischievous6 ,a vice that carries along with it neither pleasure nor profit1 neither honor nor security2 but on the contrary1 destroys us to all the comfortable and glorious purposes of our reasonable being4 ,some there are1 that will have the root of it to be the greatness of mind4 ,and1 why may we not as well entitle impudence to courage1 whereas the one is proud1 the other brave2 the one is gracious and gentle1 the other rude and furious8 ,at the same rate we may ascribe magnanimity to avarice1 luxury1 and ambition1 which are all but splendid impotences1 without measure and without foundation4 ,there is nothing great but what is virtuous1 nor indeed truly great1 but what is also composed and quiet4 ,anger1 alas6 is but a wild impetuous blast1 an empty tumor1 the very infirmity of woman and children2 a brawling1 clamorous evil3 and the more noise the less courage2 as we find it commonly1 that the boldest tongues have the faintest hearts4 ,,chapter ,v4 ,,anger ,,is ,,neither ,,warrantable ,,nor ,,useful4 ,in the first place1 ,anger is unwarrantable as it is unjust3 for it falls many times upon the wrong person1 and discharges itself upon the innocent instead of the guilty3 beside the disproportion of making the most trivial offences to be capital1 and punishing an inconsiderate word perhaps with torments1 fetters1 infamy1 or death4 ,it allows a man neither time nor means for defence1 but judges a cause without hearing it1 and admits of no mediation4 ,it flies into the face of truth itself1 if it be of the adverse party2 and turns obstinacy in an error1 into an argument of justice4 ,it does every thing with agitation and tumult2 whereas reason and equity can destroy whole families1 if there be occasion for it1 even to the extinguishing of their names and memories1 without any indecency1 either of countenance or action4 ,secondly1 ,it is unsociable to the highest point2 for it spares neither friend nor foe2 but tears all to pieces1 and casts human nature into a perpetual state of war4 ,it dissolves the bond of mutual society1 insomuch that our very companions and relations dare not come near us2 it renders us unfit for the ordinary offices of life3 for we can neither govern our tongues1 our hands1 nor any part of our body4 ,it tramples upon the laws of hospitality1 and of nations1 leaves every man to be his own carver1 and all things1 public and private1 sacred and profane1 suffer violence4 ,thirdly1 ,it is to no purpose4 8,it is a sad thing10 we cry1 8to put up with these injuries1 and we are not able to bear them20 as if any man that can bear anger could not bear an injury1 which is much more supportable4 ,you will say that anger does some good yet1 for it keeps people in awe1 and secures a man from contempt2 never considering1 that it is more dangerous to be feared than despised4 ,suppose that an angry man could do as much as he threatens2 the more terrible1 he is still the more odious2 and on the other side1 if he wants power1 he is the more despicable for his anger2 for there is nothing more wretched than a choleric huff1 that makes a noise1 and nobody cares for it4 ,if anger would be valuable because men are afraid of it1 why not an adder1 a toad1 or a scorpion as well8 ,it makes us lead the life of gladiators2 we live1 and we fight together4 ,we hate the happy1 despise the miserable1 envy our superiors1 insult our inferiors1 and there is nothing in the world which we will not do1 either for pleasure or profit4 ,to be angry at offenders is to make ourselves the common enemies of mankind1 which is both weak and wicked2 and we may as well be angry that our thistles do not bring forth apples1 or that every pebble in our ground is not an oriental pearl4 ,if we are angry both with young men and with old1 because they do offend1 why not with infants too1 because they will offend8 ,it is laudable to rejoice for anything that is well done2 but to be transported for another man's doing ill1 is narrow and sordid4 ,nor is it for the dignity of virtue to be either angry or sad4 ,it is with a tainted mind as with an ulcer1 not only the touch1 but the very offer at it1 makes us shrink and complain2 when we come once to be carried off from our poise1 we are lost4 ,in the choice of a sword1 we take care that it be wieldy and well mounted2 and it concerns us as much to be wary of engaging in the excesses of ungovernable passions4 ,it is not the speed of a horse altogether that pleases us unless we find that he can stop and turn at pleasure4 ,it is a sign of weakness1 and a kind of stumbling1 for a man to run when he intends only to walk2 and it behoves us to have the same command of our mind that we have of our bodies4 ,besides that the greatest punishment of an injury is the conscience of having done it2 and no man suffers more than he that is turned over to the pain of a repentance4 ,how much better is it to compose injuries than to revenge them8 ,for it does not only spend time1 but the revenge of one injury exposes to more4 ,in fine1 as it is unreasonable to be angry at a crime1 it is as foolish to be angry without one4 ,but 8may not an honest man then be allowed to be angry at the murder of his father1 or the ravishing of his sister or daughter before his face80 ,no1 not at all4 ,i will defend my parents1 and ,i will repay the injuries that are done them2 but it is my piety and not my anger1 that moves me to it4 ,i will do my duty without fear or confusion1 ,i will not rage1 ,i will not weep2 but discharge the office of a good man without forfeiting the dignity of a man4 ,if my father be assaulted1 ,i will endeavor to rescue him2 if he be killed1 ,i will do right to his memory2 find all this1 not in any transport of passion1 but in honor and conscience4 ,neither is there any need of anger where reason does the same thing4 ,a man may be temperate1 and yet vigorous1 and raise his mind according to the occasion1 more or less1 as a stone is thrown according to the discretion and intent of the caster4 ,how outrageous have ,i seen some people for the loss of a monkey or a spaniel6 ,and were it not a shame to have the same sense for a friend that we have for a puppy2 and to cry like children1 as much for a bauble as for the ruin of our country8 ,this is not the effect of reason1 but of infirmity4 ,for a man indeed to expose his person for his prince1 or his parents1 or his friends1 out of a sense of honesty1 and judgment of duty1 it is1 without dispute1 a worthy and a glorious action2 but it must be done then with sobriety1 calmness1 and resolution4 ,it is high time to convince the world of the indignity and uselessness of this passion1 when it has the authority and recommendation of no less than ,aristotle himself1 as an affection very much conducing to all heroic actions that require heat and vigor3 now1 to show1 on the other side1 that it is not in any case profitable1 we shall lay open the obstinate and unbridled madness of it3 a wickedness neither sensible of infamy nor of glory1 without either modesty or fear2 and if it passes once from anger into a hardened hatred1 it is incurable4 ,it is either stronger than reason1 or it is weaker4 ,if stronger1 there is no contending with it2 if weaker1 reason will do the business without it4 ,some will have it that an angry man is good-natured and sincere2 whereas1 in truth1 he only lays himself open out of heedlessness and want of caution4 ,if it were in itself good the more of it the better2 but in this case1 the more the worse2 and a wise man does his duty1 without the aid of anything that is ill4 ,it is objected by some1 that those are the most generous creatures which are the most prone to anger4 ,but1 first1 reason in man is impetuous in beasts4 ,secondly1 without discipline it runs into audaciousness and temerity2 over and above that1 the same thing does not help all4 ,if anger helps the lion1 it is fear that saves the stag1 swiftness the hawk1 and flight the pigeon3 but man has ,god for his example 7who is never angry7 and not the creatures4 ,and yet it is not amiss sometimes to counterfeit anger2 as upon the stage2 nay1 upon the bench1 and in the pulpit1 where the imitation of it is more effectual than the thing itself4 ,but it is a great error to take this passion either for a companion or for an assistant to virtue2 that makes a man incapable of those necessary counsels by which virtue is to govern herself4 ,those are false and inauspicious powers1 and destructive of themselves1 which arise only from the accession and fervor of disease4 ,reason judges according to right2 anger will have every thing seem right1 whatever it does1 and when it has once pitched upon a mistake1 it is never to be convinced1 but prefers a pertinacity1 even in the greatest evil1 before the most necessary repentance4 ,some people are of opinion that anger inflames and animates the soldier2 that it is a spur to bold and arduous undertakings2 and that it were better to moderate than to wholly suppress it1 for fear of dissolving the spirit and force of the mind4 ,to this ,i answer1 that virtue does not need the help of vice2 but where there is any ardor of mind necessary1 we may rouse ourselves1 and be more or less brisk and vigorous as there is occasion3 but all without anger still4 ,it is a mistake to say1 that we may make use of anger as a common soldier1 but not as a commander2 for if it hears reason1 and follows orders1 it is not properly anger2 and if it does not1 it is contumacious and mutinous4 ,by this argument a man must be angry to be valiant2 covetous to be industrious2 timorous to be safe1 which makes our reason confederate with our affections4 ,and it is all one whether passion be inconsiderate without reason1 or reason ineffectual without passion2 since the one cannot be without the other4 ,it is true1 the less the passion1 the less is the mischief2 for a little passion is the smaller evil4 ,nay1 so far is it from being of use or advantage in the field1 that it is in place of all others where it is the most dangerous2 for the actions of war are to be managed with order and caution1 not precipitation and fancy2 whereas anger is heedless and heady1 and the virtue only of barbarous nations2 which1 though their bodies were much stronger and more hardened1 were still worsted by the moderation and discipline of the ,romans4 ,there is not upon the face of the earth a bolder or a more indefatigable nation than the ,germans2 not a braver upon a charge1 nor a hardier against colds and heats2 their only delights and exercise is in arms1 to the utter neglect of all things else3 and1 yet upon the encounter1 they are broken and destroyed through their own undisciplined temerity1 even by the most effeminate of men4 ,the huntsman is not angry with the wild boar when he either pursues or receives him2 a good swordsman watches his opportunity1 and keeps himself upon his guard1 whereas passion lays a man open3 nay1 it is one of the prime lessons in a fencing-school to learn not to be angry4 ,if ,fabius had been choleric1 ,rome had been lost2 and before he conquered ,hannibal he overcame himself4 ,if ,scipio had been angry1 he would never have left ,hannibal and his army 7who were the proper objects of his displeasure7 to carry the war into ,afric and so compass his end by a more temperate way4 ,nay1 he was so slow1 that it was charged upon him for want of mettle and resolution4 ,and what did the other ,scipio8 7,africanus ,i mean37 how much time did he spend before ,numantia1 to the common grief both of his country and himself8 ,though he reduced it at last by so miserable a famine1 that the inhabitants laid violent hands upon themselves1 and left neither man1 woman1 nor child1 to survive the ruins of it4 ,if anger makes a man fight better1 so does wine1 frenzy1 nay1 and fear itself2 for the greatest coward in despair does the greatest wonders4 ,no man is courageous in his anger that was not so without it4 ,but put the case1 that anger by accident may have done some good1 and so have fevers removed some distempers2 but it is an odious kind of remedy that makes us indebted to a disease for a cure4 ,how many men have been preserved by poison2 by a fall from a precipice2 by a shipwreck2 by a tempest6 does it therefore follow that we are to recommend the practice of these experiments8 8,but in case of an exemplary and prostitute dissolution of manners1 when ,clodius shall be preferred1 and ,cicero rejected2 when loyalty shall be broken upon the wheel1 and treason sit triumphant upon the bench2 is not this a subject to move the choler of any virtuous man80 ,no1 by no means1 virtue will never allow of the correcting of one vice by another2 or that anger1 which is the greater crime of the two1 should presume to punish the less4 ,it is the natural property of virtue to make a man serene and cheerful2 and it is not for the dignity of a philosopher to be transported either with grief or anger2 and then the end of anger is sorrow1 the constant effect of disappointment and repentance4 ,but1 to my purpose4 ,if a man should be angry at wickedness1 the greater the wickedness is1 the greater must be his anger2 and1 so long as there is wickedness in the world he must never be pleased3 which makes his quiet dependent upon the humor or manners of others4 ,there passes not a day over our heads but he that is choleric shall have some cause or other of displeasure1 either from men1 accidents1 or business4 ,he shall never stir out of his house but he shall meet with criminals of all sorts2 prodigal1 impudent1 covetous1 perfidious1 contentious1 children persecuting their parents1 parents cursing their children1 the innocent accused1 the delinquent acquitted1 and the judge practicing that in his chamber which he condemns upon the bench4 ,in fine1 wherever there are men there are faults2 and upon these terms1 ,socrates himself should never bring the same countenance home again that he carried out with him4 ,if anger was sufferable in any case1 it might be allowed against an incorrigible criminal under the hand of justice3 but punishment is not matter of anger but of caution4 ,the law is without passion1 and strikes malefactors as we do serpents and venomous creatures1 for fear of greater mischief4 ,it is not for the dignity of a judge1 when he comes to pronounce the fatal sentence1 to express any motions of anger in his looks1 words1 or gestures3 for he condemns the vice1 not the man2 and looks upon the wickedness without anger1 as he does upon the prosperity of wicked men without envy4 ,but though he be not angry1 ,i would have him a little moved in point of humanity2 but yet without any offence1 either to his place or wisdom4 ,our passions vary1 but reason is equal2 and it were a great folly for that which is stable1 faithful1 and sound1 to repair for succor to that which is uncertain1 false1 and distempered4 ,if the offender be incurable1 take him out of the world1 that if he will not be good he may cease to be evil2 but this must be without anger too4 ,does any man hate an arm1 or a leg1 when he cuts it off2 or reckon that a passion which is only a miserable cure8 ,we knock mad dogs on the head1 and remove scabbed sheep out of the fold3 and this is not anger still1 but reason1 to separate the sick from the sound4 ,justice cannot be angry2 nor is there any need of an angry magistrate for the punishment of foolish and wicked men4 ,the power of life and death must not be managed with passion4 ,we give a horse the spur that is restive or jadish1 and tries to cast his rider2 but this is without anger too1 and only to take down his stomach1 and bring him1 by correction1 to obedience4 ,it is true1 that correction is necessary1 yet within reason and bounds2 for it does not hurt1 but profits us under an appearance of harm4 ,ill dispositions in the mind are to be dealt with as those in the body3 the physician first tries purging and abstinence2 if this will not do1 he proceeds to bleeding1 nay1 to dismembering rather than fail2 for there is no operation too severe that ends in health4 ,the public magistrate begins with persuasion1 and his business is to beget a detestation for vice1 and a veneration for virtue2 from thence1 if need be1 he advances to admonition and reproach1 and then to punishments2 but moderate and revocable1 unless the wickedness be incurable1 and then the punishment must be so too4 ,there is only this difference1 the physician when he cannot save his patient's life1 endeavors to make his death easy2 but the magistrate aggravates the death of the criminal with infamy and disgrace2 not as delighting in the severity of it1 7for no good man can be so barbarous7 but for example1 and to the end that they that will do no good living may do some dead4 ,the end of all correction is either the amendment of wicked men1 or to prevent the influence of ill example3 for men are punished with a respect to the future2 not to expiate offenses committed1 but for fear of worse to come4 ,public offenders must be a terror to others2 but still1 all this while1 the power of life and death must not be managed with passion4 ,the medicine1 in the mean time must be suited to the disease2 infamy cures one1 pain another1 exile cures a third1 beggary a fourth2 but there are some that are only to be cured by the gibbet4 ,i would be no more angry with a thief1 or a traitor1 than ,i am angry with myself when ,i open a vein4 ,all punishment is but a moral or civil remedy4 ,i do not do anything that is very ill1 but yet ,i transgress often4 ,try me first with a private reprehension1 and then with a public2 if that will not serve1 see what banishment will do2 if not that neither1 load me with chains1 lay me in prison3 but if ,i should prove wicked for wickedness' sake1 and leave no hope of reclaiming me1 it would be a kind of mercy to destroy me4 ,vice is incorporated with me2 and there is no remedy but the taking of both away together2 but still without anger4 ,,chapter ,,vi4 ,,anger ,,in ,,general1 ,,with ,,the ,,danger ,,and ,,effects ,,of ,,it4 ,there is no surer argument of a great mind than not to be transported to anger by any accident2 the clouds and the tempests are formed below1 but all above is quiet and serene2 which is the emblem of a brave man1 that suppresses all provocations1 and lives within himself1 modest1 venerable1 and composed3 whereas anger is a turbulent humor1 which1 at first dash1 casts off all shame1 without any regard to order1 measure1 or good manners2 transporting a man into misbecoming violences with his tongue1 his hands1 and every part of his body4 ,and whoever considers the foulness and the brutality of this vice1 must acknowledge that there is no such monster in ,nature as one man raging against another1 and laboring to sink that which can never be drowned but with himself for company4 ,it renders us incapable either of discourse or of other common duties4 ,it is of all passions the most powerful2 for it makes a man that is in love to kill his mistress1 the ambitious man to trample upon his honors1 and the covetous to throw away his fortune4 ,there is not any mortal that lives free from the danger of it2 for it makes even the heavy and the good-natured to be fierce and outrageous3 it invades us like a pestilence1 the lusty as well as the weak2 and it is not either strength of body1 or a good diet1 that can secure us against it2 nay1 the most learned1 and men otherwise of exemplary sobriety1 are infected with it4 ,it is so potent a passion that ,socrates durst not trust himself with it4 8,sirrah10 says he to his man1 8now would ,i beat you1 if ,i were not angry with you60 ,there is no age or sect of men that escapes it4 ,other vices take us one by one2 but this1 like an epidemical contagion1 sweeps all3 men1 women1 and children1 princes and beggars1 are carried away with it in shoals and troops as one man4 ,it was never seen that a whole nation was in love with one woman1 or unanimously bent upon one vice3 but here and there some particular men are tainted with some particular crimes2 whereas in anger1 a single word many times inflames the whole multitude1 and men betake themselves presently to fire and sword upon it2 the rabble take upon them to give laws to their governors2 the common soldiers to their officers1 to the ruin1 not only of private families1 but of kingdoms3 turning their arms against their own leaders1 and choosing their own generals4 ,there is no public council1 no putting things to the vote2 but in a rage the mutineers divide from the senate1 name their head1 force the nobility in their own houses1 and put them to death with their own hands4 ,the laws of nations are violated1 the persons of public ministers affronted1 whole cities infected with a general madness1 and no respite allowed for the abatement or discussing of this public tumor4 ,the ships are crowded with tumultuary soldiers2 and in this rude and ill-boding manner they march1 and act under the conduct only of their own passions4 ,whatever comes next serves them for arms1 until at last they pay for their licentious rashness with the slaughter of the whole party3 this is the event of a heady and inconsiderate war4 ,when men's minds are struck with the opinion of an injury1 they fall on immediately wheresoever their passion leads them1 without either order1 fear1 or caution3 provoking their own mischief2 never at rest till they come to blows2 and pursuing their revenge1 even with their bodies1 upon the points of their enemies' weapons4 ,so that the anger itself is much more hurtful for us than the injury that provokes it2 for the one is bounded1 but where the other will stop1 no man living knows4 ,there are no greater slaves certainly1 than those that serve anger2 for they improve their misfortunes by an impatience more insupportable than the calamity that causes it4 ,nor does it rise by degrees1 as other passions1 but flashes like gunpowder1 blowing up all in a moment4 ,neither does it only press to the mark1 but overbears everything in the way to it4 ,other vices drive us1 but this hurries us headlong2 other passions stand firm themselves1 though perhaps we cannot resist them2 but this consumes and destroys itself3 it falls like thunder or a tempest1 with an irrevocable violence1 that gathers strength in the passage1 and then evaporates in the conclusion4 ,other vices are unreasonable1 but this is unhealthful too2 other distempers have their intervals and degrees1 but in this we are thrown down as from a precipice3 there is not anything so amazing to others1 or so destructive to itself2 so proud and insolent if it succeeds1 or so extravagant if it be disappointed4 ,no repulse discourages it1 and1 for want of other matter to work upon1 it falls foul upon itself2 and1 let the ground be never so trivial1 it is sufficient for the wildest outrage imaginable4 ,it spares neither age1 sex1 nor quality4 ,some people would be luxurious perchance1 but that they are poor2 and others lazy1 if they were not perpetually kept at work4 ,the simplicity of a country life1 keeps many men in ignorance of the frauds and impieties of courts and camps3 but no nation or condition of men is exempt from the impressions of anger2 and it is equally dangerous1 as well in war as in peace4 ,we find that elephants will be made familiar2 bulls will suffer children to ride upon their backs1 and play with their horns2 bears and lions1 by good usage1 will be brought to fawn upon their masters2 how desperate a madness is it then for men1 after the reclaiming of the fiercest of beasts1 and the bringing of them to be tractable and domestic1 to become yet worse than beasts one to another6 ,alexander had two friends1 ,clytus and ,lysimachus2 the one he exposed to a lion1 the other to himself2 and he that was turned loose to the beast escaped4 ,why do we not rather make the best of a short life1 and render ourselves amiable to all while we live1 and desirable when we die8 ,let us bethink ourselves of our mortality1 and not squander away the little time that we have upon animosities and feuds1 as if it were never to be at an end4 ,had we not better enjoy the pleasure of our own life than to be still contriving how to gall and torment another's8 in all our brawlings and contentions never so much as dreaming of our weakness4 ,do we not know that these implacable enmities of ours lie at the mercy of a fever1 or any petty accident1 to disappoint8 ,our fate is at hand1 and the very hour that we have set for another man's death may peradventure be prevented by our own4 ,what is it that we make all this bustle for1 and so needlessly disquiet our minds8 ,we are offended with our servants1 our masters1 our princes1 our clients3 it is but a little patience1 and we shall be all of us equal2 so that there is no need either of ambushes or of combats4 ,our wrath cannot go beyond death2 and death will most undoubtedly come whether we be peevish or quiet4 ,it is time lost to take pains to do that which will infallibly be done without us4 ,but suppose that we would only have our enemy banished1 disgraced1 or damaged1 let his punishment be more or less1 it is yet too long1 either for him to be inhumanly tormented1 or for us ourselves to be most barbarously pleased with it4 ,it holds in anger as in mourning1 it must and it will at last fall of itself2 let us look to it then betimes1 for when it is once come to an ill habit1 we shall never want matter to feed it2 and it is much better to overcome our passions than to be overcome by them4 ,some way or other1 either our parents1 children1 servants1 acquaintance1 or strangers1 will be continually vexing us4 ,we are tossed hither and thither by our affections1 like a feather in a storm1 and by fresh provocations the madness becomes perpetual4 ,miserable creatures6 that ever our precious hours should be so ill employed6 ,how prone and eager are we in our hatred1 and how backward in our love6 ,were it not much better now to be making of friendships1 pacifying of enemies1 doing of good offices both public and private1 than to be still meditating of mischief1 and designing how to wound one man in his fame1 another in his fortune1 a third in his person8 the one being so easy1 innocent1 and safe1 and the other so difficult1 impious1 and hazardous4 ,nay1 take a man in chains1 and at the foot of his oppressor2 how many are there1 who1 even in this case1 have maimed themselves in the heat of their violence upon others4 ,this untractable passion is much more easily kept out than governed when it is once admitted2 for the stronger will give laws to the weaker2 and make reason a slave to the appetite4 ,it carries us headlong2 and in the course of our fury1 we have no more command of our minds1 than we have of our bodies down a precipice3 when they are once in motion1 there is no stop until they come to the bottom4 ,not but that it is possible for a man to be warm in winter1 and not to sweat in the summer1 either by the benefit of the place1 or the hardiness of the body3 and in like manner we may provide against anger4 ,but certain it is1 that virtue and vice can never agree in the same subject2 and one may as well be a sick man and a sound at the same time1 as a good man1 and an angry4 ,besides1 if we will needs be quarrelsome1 it must be either with our superior1 our equal1 or inferior4 ,to contend with our superior is folly and madness3 with our equals1 it is doubtful and dangerous3 and with our inferiors1 it is base4 ,for does any man know but that he that is now our enemy may come hereafter to be our friend1 over and above the reputation of clemency and good nature8 ,and what can be more honorable or comfortable1 than to exchange a feud for a friendship8 ,the people of ,rome never had more faithful allies than those that were at first the most obstinate enemies2 neither had the ,roman ,empire ever arrived at that height of power1 if ,providence had not mingled the vanquished with the conquerors4 ,there is an end of the contest when one side deserts it2 so that the paying of anger with benefits puts a period to the controversy4 ,but1 however1 if it be our fortune to transgress1 let not our anger descend to the children1 friends or relations1 even of our bitterest enemies4 ,the very cruelty of ,sylla was heightened by that instance of incapacitating the issue of the proscribed4 ,it is inhuman to entail the hatred we have for the father upon his posterity4 ,a good and a wise man is not to be an enemy of wicked men1 but a reprover of them2 and he is to look upon all the drunkards1 the lustful1 the thankless1 covetous1 and ambitious1 that he meets with1 not otherwise than as a physician looks upon his patients2 for he that will be angry with any man must be displeased with all2 which were as ridiculous as to quarrel with a body for stumbling in the dark2 with one that is deaf1 for not doing as you bid him2 or with a school-boy for loving his play better than his book4 ,democritus laughed1 and ,heraclitus wept1 at the folly and wickedness of the world1 but we never read of any angry philosopher4 ,this is undoubtedly the most detestable of vices1 even compared with the worst of them4 ,avarice scrapes and gathers together that which somebody may be the better for3 but anger lashes out1 and no man comes off gratis4 ,an angry master makes one servant run away1 and another hang himself2 and his choler causes him a much greater loss than he suffered in the occasion of it4 ,it is the cause of mourning to the father1 and of divorce to the husband3 it makes the magistrate odious1 and gives the candidate a repulse4 ,and it is worse than luxury too1 which only aims at its proper pleasure2 whereas the other is bent upon another body's pain4 ,the malevolent and the envious content themselves only to wish another man miserable2 but it is the business of anger to make him so1 and to wreck the mischief itself2 not so much desiring the hurt of another1 as to inflict it4 ,among the powerful1 it breaks out into open war1 and into a private one with the common people1 but without force or arms4 ,it engages us in treacheries1 perpetual troubles and contentions3 it alters the very nature of a man1 and punishes itself in the persecution of others4 ,humanity excites us to love1 this to hatred2 that to be beneficial to others1 this to hurt them3 beside1 that1 though it proceeds from too high a conceit of ourselves1 it is yet1 in effect1 but a narrow and contemptible affection2 especially when it meets with a mind that is hard and impenetrable1 and returns the dart upon the head of him that casts it4 ,to take a farther view1 now1 of the miserable consequences and sanguinary effects of this hideous distemper2 from hence come slaughters and poisons1 wars1 and desolations1 the razing and burning of cities2 the unpeopling of nations1 and the turning of populous countries into deserts1 public massacres and regicides2 princes led in triumph2 some murdered in their bed-chambers2 others stabbed in the senate or cut off in the security of their spectacles and pleasures4 ,some there are that take anger for a princely quality2 as ,darius1 who1 in his expedition against the ,scythians1 being besought by a nobleman1 that had three sons1 that he would vouchsafe to accept of two of them into his service1 and leave the third at home for a comfort to his father4 8,i will do more for you than that10 says ,darius1 8for you shall have them all three again20 so he ordered them to be slain before his face1 and left him their bodies4 ,but ,xerxes dealt a little better with ,pythius1 who had five sons1 and desired only one of them for himself4 ,xerxes bade him take his choice1 and he named the eldest1 whom he immediately commanded to be cut in halves2 and one half of the body to be laid on each side of the way when his army was to pass betwixt them2 undoubtedly a most auspicious sacrifice2 but he came afterward to the end that he deserved2 for he lived to see that prodigious power scattered and broken3 and instead of military and victorious troops1 to be encompassed with carcasses4 ,but these1 you will say1 were only barbarous princes that knew neither civility nor letters2 and these savage cruelties will be imputed perchance to their rudeness of manners1 and want of discipline4 ,but what will you say then of ,alexander the ,great1 that was trained up under the institution of ,aristotle himself1 and killed ,clytus1 his favorite and schoolfellow1 with his own hand1 under his own roof1 and over the freedom of a cup of wine8 ,and what was his crime8 ,he was loth to degenerate from a ,macedonian liberty into a ,persian slavery2 that is to say1 he could not flatter4 ,lysimachus1 another of his friends1 he exposed to a lion2 and this very ,lysimachus1 after he had escaped this danger1 was never the more merciful when he came to reign himself2 for he cut off the ears and nose of his friend ,telesphorous2 and when he had so disfigured him that he had no longer the face of a man1 he threw him into a dungeon1 and there kept him to be showed for a monster1 as a strange sight4 ,the place was so low that he was fain to creep upon all fours1 and his sides were galled too with the straitness of it4 ,in this misery he lay half-famished in his own filth2 so odious1 so terrible1 and so loathsome a spectacle1 that the horror of his condition had even extinguished all pity for him4 8,nothing was ever so unlike a mar as the poor wretch that suffered this1 saving the tyrant that acted it40 ,nor did this merciless hardness only exercise itself among foreigners1 but the fierceness of their outrages and punishments1 as well as their vices1 brake in upon the ,romans4 ,c4 ,marius1 that had his statue set up everywhere1 and was adored as a ,god1 ,l4 ,sylla commanded his bones to be broken1 his eyes to be pulled out1 his hands to be cut off2 and1 as if every wound had been a several death1 his body to be torn to pieces1 and ,catiline was the executioner4 ,a cruelty that was only fit for ,marius to suffer1 ,sylla to command1 and ,catiline to act2 but most dishonorable and fatal to the commonwealth1 to fall indifferently upon the sword's point both of citizens and of enemies4 ,it was a severe instance1 that of ,piso too4 ,a soldier that had leave to go abroad with his comrade1 came back to the camp at his time1 but without his companion4 ,piso condemned him to die1 as if he had killed him1 and appoints a centurion to see the execution4 ,just as the headsman was ready to do his office1 the other soldier appeared1 to the great joy of the whole field1 and the centurion bade the executioner hold his hand4 ,hereupon ,piso1 in a rage1 mounts the tribunal1 and sentences all three to death3 the one because he was condemned1 the other because it was for his sake that his fellow-soldier was condemned1 the centurion for not obeying the order of his superior4 ,an ingenious piece of inhumanity1 to contrive how to make three criminals1 where effectively there were none4 ,there was a ,persian king that caused the noses of a whole nation to be cut off1 and they were to thank him that he spared their heads4 ,and this1 perhaps1 would have been the fate of the ,macrobii1 7if ,providence had not hindered it17 for the freedom they used to ,cambyses' ambassadors1 in not accepting the slavish terms that were offered them4 ,this put ,cambyses into such a rage1 that he presently listed into his service every man that was able to bear arms2 and1 without either provisions or guides1 marched immediately through dry and barren deserts1 and where never any man had passed before him1 to take his revenge4 ,before he was a third part of the way1 his provisions failed him4 ,his men1 at first1 made shift with the buds of trees1 boiled leather1 and the like2 but soon after there was not so much as a root or a plant to be gotten1 nor a living creature to be seen2 and then by lot every tenth man was to die for a nourishment to the rest1 which was still worse than the famine4 ,but yet this passionate king went on so far1 until one part of his army was lost1 and the other devoured1 and until he feared that he himself might come to be served with the same sauce4 ,so that at last he ordered a retreat1 wanting no delicates all this while for himself1 while his soldiers were taking their chance who should die miserably1 or live worse4 ,here was an anger taken up against a whole nation1 that neither deserved any ill from him1 nor was so much as known to him4 ,,chapter ,,vii4 ,,the ,,ordinary ,,grounds ,,and ,,occasions ,,of ,,anger4 ,in this wandering state of life we meet with many occasions of trouble and displeasure1 both great and trivial2 and not a day passes but1 from men or things1 we have some cause or other for offense2 as a man must expect to be jostled1 dashed1 and crowded1 in a populous city4 ,one man deceives our expectation2 another delays it2 and a third crosses it2 and if everything does not succeed to our wish1 we presently fall out either with the person1 the business1 the place1 our fortune1 or ourselves4 ,some men value themselves upon their wit1 and will never forgive anyone that pretends to lessen it2 others are inflamed by wine3 and some are distempered by sickness1 weariness1 watchings1 love1 care1 etc4 ,some are prone to it1 by heat of constitution2 but moist1 dry1 and cold complexions are more liable to other affections2 as suspicion1 despair1 fear1 jealousy1 etc4 ,but most of our quarrels are of our own contriving4 ,one while we suspect upon mistake2 and another while we make a great matter of trifles4 ,to say the truth1 most of those things that exasperate us are rather subjects of disgust than of mischief3 there is a large difference betwixt opposing a man's satisfaction and not assisting it3 betwixt taking away and not giving2 but we reckon upon denying and deferring as the same thing2 and interpret another's being for himself as if he were against us4 ,nay1 we do many times entertain an ill opinion of well doing1 and a good one of the contrary3 and we hate a man for doing that very thing which we should hate him for on the other side1 if he did not do it4 ,we take it ill to be opposed when there is a father perhaps1 a brother1 or a friend1 in the case against us2 when we should rather love a man for it2 and only wish that he could be honestly of our party4 ,we approve of the fact1 and detest the doer of it4 ,it is a base thing to hate the person whom we cannot but commend2 but it is a great deal worse yet if we hate him for the very thing that deserves commendation4 ,the things that we desire1 if they be such as cannot be given to one without being taken away from another1 must needs set those people together by the ears that desire the same thing4 ,one man has a design upon my mistress1 another upon mine inheritance2 and that which should make friends makes enemies1 our being all of a mind4 ,the general cause of anger is the sense or opinion of an injury2 that is1 the opinion either of an injury simply done1 or of an injury done1 which we have not deserved4 ,some are naturally given to anger1 others are provoked to it by occasion2 the anger of women and children is commonly sharp1 but not lasting3 old men are rather querulous and peevish4 ,hard labor1 diseases1 anxiety of thought1 and whatsoever hurts the body or the mind1 disposes a man to be froward1 but we must not add fire to fire4 ,he that duly considers the subject-matter of all our controversies and quarrels1 will find them low and mean1 not worth the thought of a generous mind2 but the greatest noise of all is about money4 ,this is it that sets fathers and children together by the ears1 husbands and wives2 and makes way for sword and poison4 ,this is it that tires out courts of justice1 enrages princes1 and lays cities in the dust1 to seek for gold and silver in the ruins of them4 ,this is it that finds work for the judge to determine which side is least in the wrong2 and whose is the more plausible avarice1 the plaintiff's or the defendant's4 ,and what is it that we contend for all this while1 but those baubles that make us cry when we should laugh8 ,to see a rich old cuff1 that has nobody to leave his estate to1 break his heart for a handful of dirt2 and a gouty usurer1 that has no other use of his fingers left him but to count withal2 to see him1 ,i say in the extremity of his fit1 wrangling for the odd money in his interest4 ,if all that is precious in ,nature were gathered into one mass1 it were not worth the trouble of a sober mind4 ,it were endless to run over all those ridiculous passions that are moved about meats and drinks1 and the matter of our luxury2 nay1 about words1 looks1 actions1 jealousies1 mistakes1 which are all of them as contemptible fooleries as those very baubles that children scratch and cry for4 ,there is nothing great or serious in all that which we keep such a clutter about2 the madness of it is1 that we set too great a value upon trifles4 ,one man flies out upon a salute1 a letter1 a speech1 a question1 a gesture1 a wink1 a look4 ,an action moves one man2 a word affects another2 one man is tender of his family2 another of his person2 one sets up for an orator1 another for a philosopher3 this man will not bear pride1 nor that man opposition4 ,he that plays the tyrant at home1 is gentle as a lamb abroad4 ,some take offense if a man ask a favor of them1 and others1 if he does not4 ,every man has his weak side2 let us learn which that is1 and take a care of it2 for the same thing does not work upon all men alike4 ,we are moved like beasts at the idle appearances of things1 and the fiercer the creature1 the more is it startled4 ,the sight of a red coat enrages a bull2 a shadow provokes the asp2 nay1 so unreasonable are some men1 that they take moderate benefits for injuries1 and squabble about it with their nearest relations3 8,they have done this and that for others10 they cry2 8and they might have dealt better with us if they had pleased40 ,very good6 and if it be less than we looked for1 it may be yet more than we deserve4 ,of all unquiet humors this is the worst1 that will never suffer any man to be happy1 so long as he sees a happier man than himself4 ,i have known some men so weak as to think themselves contemned if a horse did but play the jade with them1 that is yet obedient to another rider4 ,a brutal folly to be offended at a mute animal2 for no injury can be done us without the concurrence of reason4 ,a beast may hurt us1 as a sword or a stone1 and no otherwise4 ,nay1 there are that will complain of 8foul weather1 a raging sea1 a biting winter10 as if it were expressly directed to them2 and this they charge upon ,providence1 whose operations are all of them so far from being injurious1 that they are beneficial to us4 ,how vain and idle are many of those things that make us stark mad6 ,a resty horse1 the overturning of a glass1 the falling of a key1 the dragging of a chair1 a jealousy1 a misconstruction4 ,how shall that man endure the extremities of hunger and thirst that flies out into a rage for putting of a little too much water in his wine8 ,what haste is there to lay a servant by the heels1 or break a leg or an arm immediately for it1 as if he were not to have the same power over him an hour after1 that he has at that instant8 ,the answer of a servant1 a wife1 a tenant1 puts some people out of all patience2 and yet they can quarrel with the government1 for not allowing them the same liberty in public1 which they themselves deny to their own families4 ,if they say nothing1 it is contumacy3 if they speak or laugh1 it is insolence4 ,as if a man had his ears given him only for music2 whereas we must suffer all sorts of noises1 good and bad1 both of man and beast4 ,how idle is it to start at the tinkling of a bell1 or the creaking of a door1 when1 for all this delicacy1 we must endure thunder6 ,neither are our eyes less curious and fantastical than our ears4 ,when we are abroad1 we can bear well enough with foul ways1 nasty streets1 noisome ditches2 but a spot upon a dish at home1 or an unswept hearth1 absolutely distracts us4 ,and what is the reason1 but that we are patient in the one place1 and fantastically peevish in the other8 ,nothing makes us more intemperate than luxury1 that shrinks at every stroke1 and starts at every shadow4 ,it is death to some to have another sit above them1 as if a body were ever the more or the less honest for the cushion4 ,but they are only weak creatures that think themselves wounded if they be but touched4 ,one of the ,sybarites1 that saw a fellow hard at work a digging1 desired him to give over1 for it made him weary to see him3 and it was an ordinary complaint with him1 that 8he could take no rest because the rose-leaves lay double under him40 ,when we are once weakened with our pleasures1 everything grows intolerable4 ,and we are angry as well with those things that cannot hurt us as with those that do4 ,we tear a book because it is blotted2 and our clothes1 because they are not well made3 things that neither deserve our anger nor feel it3 the tailor1 perchance1 did his best1 or1 however1 had no intent to displease us3 if so1 first1 why should we be angry at all8 ,secondly1 why should we be angry with the thing for the man's sake8 ,nay1 our anger extends even to dogs1 horses1 and other beasts4 ,it was a blasphemous and a sottish extravagance1 that of ,caius ,csar1 who challenged ,jupiter for making such a noise with his thunder1 that he could not hear his mimics1 and so invented a machine in imitation of it to oppose thunder to thunder2 a brutal conceit1 to imagine1 either that he could reach the ,almighty1 or that the ,almighty could not reach him6 ,and every jot as ridiculous1 though not so impious1 was that of ,cyrus2 who1 in his design upon ,babylon1 found a river in his way that put a stop to his march3 the current was strong1 and carried away one of the horses that belonged to his own chariot3 upon this he swore1 that since it had obstructed his passage1 it should never hinder any body's else2 and presently set his whole army to work upon it1 which diverted it into a hundred and fourscore channels1 and laid it dry4 ,in this ignoble and unprofitable employment he lost his time1 and the soldiers their courage1 and gave his adversaries an opportunity of providing themselves1 while he was waging war with a river instead of an enemy4 ,,chapter ,,viii4 ,,advice ,,in ,,the ,,cases ,,of ,,contumely ,,and ,,revenge4 ,of provocations to anger there are two sorts2 there is an injury1 and there is a contumely4 ,the former in its own nature is the heavier2 the other slight in itself1 and only troublesome to a wounded imagination4 ,and yet some there are that will bear blows1 and death itself1 rather than contumelious words4 ,a contumely is an indignity below the consideration of the very law2 and not worthy either of a revenge1 or so much as a complaint4 ,it is only the vexation and infirmity of a weak mind1 as well as the practice of a haughty and insolent nature1 and signifies no more to a wise and sober man than an idle dream1 that is no sooner past than forgotten4 ,it is true1 it implies contempt2 but what needs any man care for being contemptible to others1 if he be not so to himself8 ,for a child in the arms to strike the mother1 tear her hair1 claw the face of her1 and call her names1 that goes for nothing with us1 because the child knows not what he does4 ,neither are we moved at the impudence and bitterness of a buffoon1 though he fall upon his own master as well as the guests2 but1 on the contrary1 we encourage and entertain the freedom4 ,are we not mad then1 to be delighted and displeased with the same thing1 and to take that as an injury from one man1 which passes only for a raillery from another8 ,he that is wise will behave himself toward all men as we do to our children2 for they are but children too1 though they have gray hairs3 they are indeed of a larger size1 and their errors are grown up with them2 they live without rule1 they covet without choice1 they are timorous and unsteady2 and if at any time they happen to be quiet1 it is more out of fear than reason4 ,it is a wretched condition to stand in awe of everybody's tongue2 and whosoever is vexed at a reproach would be proud if he were commended4 ,we should look upon contumelies1 slanders1 and ill words1 only as the clamor of enemies1 or arrows shot at a distance1 that make a clattering upon our arms1 but do no execution4 ,a man makes himself less than his adversary by fancying that he is contemned4 ,things are only ill that are ill taken2 and it is not for a man of worth to think himself better or worse for the opinion of others4 ,he that thinks himself injured1 let him say1 8,either ,i have deserved this1 or ,i have not4 ,if ,i have1 it is a judgment2 if ,i have not1 it is an injustice3 and the doer of it has more reason to be ashamed than the sufferers40 ,nature has assigned every man his post1 which he is bound in honor to maintain1 let him be never so much pressed4 ,diogenes was disputing of anger1 and an insolent young fellow1 to try if he could put him beside his philosophy1 spit in his face3 8,young man10 says ,diogenes1 8this does not make me angry yet2 but ,i am in some doubt whether ,i should be so or not40 ,some are so impatient that they cannot bear a contumely1 even from a woman2 whose very beauty1 greatness1 and ornaments1 are all of them little enough to vindicate her from any indecencies1 without much modesty and discretion2 nay1 they will lay it to heart even from the meanest of servants4 ,how wretched is that man whose peace lies at the mercy of the people8 ,a physician is not angry at the intemperance of a mad patient2 nor does he take it ill to be railed at by a man in a fever2 just so should a wise man treat all mankind as a physician does his patient2 and looking upon them only as sick and extravagant1 let their words and actions1 whether good or bad1 go equally for nothing1 attending still his duty even in the coarsest offices that may conduce to their recovery4 ,men that are proud1 froward1 and powerful1 he values their scorn as little as their quality1 and looks upon them no otherwise than as people in the excess of a fever4 ,if a beggar worships him1 or if he takes no notice of him1 it is all one to him2 and with a rich man he makes it the same case4 ,their honors and their injuries he accounts much alike2 without rejoicing at the one1 or grieving at the other4 ,in these cases1 the rule is to pardon all offenses1 where there is any sign of repentance1 or hope of amendment4 ,it does not hold in injuries as in benefits1 the requiting of the one with the other2 for it is a shame to overcome in the one1 and in the other to be overcome4 ,it is the part of a great mind to despise injuries2 and it is one kind of revenge to neglect a man as not worth it3 for it makes the first aggressor too considerable4 ,our philosophy1 methinks1 might carry us up to the bravery of a generous mastiff1 that can hear the barking of a thousand curs without taking any notice of them4 ,he that receives an injury from his superior1 it is not enough for him to bear it with patience1 and without any thought of revenge1 but he must receive it with a cheerful countenance1 and look as if he did not understand it too2 for if he appear too sensible1 he shall be sure to have more of it4 8,it is a damned humor in great men1 that whom they wrong they will hate40 ,it is well answered of an old courtier1 that was asked how he kept so long in favor8 8,why10 says he1 8by receiving injuries1 and crying your humble servant for them40 ,some men take it for an argument of greatness to have revenge in their power2 but so far is he that is under the dominion of anger from being great1 that he is not so much as free4 ,not but that anger is a kind of pleasure to some in the act of revenge2 but the very word is inhuman1 though it may pass for honest4 8,virtue10 in short1 8is impenetrable1 and revenge is only the confession of an infirmity40 ,it is a fantastical humor1 that the same jest in private should make us merry1 and yet enrage us in public2 nay1 we will not allow the liberty that we take4 ,some railleries we account pleasant1 others bitter3 a conceit upon a squint-eye1 a hunch-back1 or any personal defect1 passes for a reproach4 ,and why may we not as well hear it as see it8 ,nay1 if a man imitates our gait1 speech1 or any natural imperfection1 it puts us out of all patience2 as if the counterfeit were more grievous than the doing of the thing itself4 ,some cannot endure to hear of their age1 nor others of their poverty2 and they make the thing the more taken notice of the more they desire to hide it4 ,some bitter jest 7for the purpose7 was broken upon you at the table3 keep better company then4 ,in the freedom of cups1 a sober man will hardly contain himself within bounds4 ,it sticks with us extremely sometimes1 that the porter will not let us in to his great master4 ,will any but a madman quarrel with a cur for barking1 when he may pacify him with a crust8 ,what have we to do but to keep further off1 and laugh at him8 ,fidus ,cornelius 7a tall slim fellow7 fell downright a-crying in the senate-house at ,corbulo's saying that 8he looked like an ostrich40 ,he was a man that made nothing of a lash upon his life and manners2 but it was worse than death to him a reflection upon his person4 ,no man was ever ridiculous to others that laughed at himself first3 it prevents mischief1 and it is a spiteful disappointment of those that take pleasure in such abuses4 ,vatinius1 7a man that was made up for scorn and hatred1 scurrilous and impudent to the highest degree1 but most abusively witty and with all this he was diseased1 and deformed to extremity71 his way1 was always to make sport with himself1 and so he prevented the mockeries of other people4 ,there are none more abusive to others than they that lie most open to it themselves2 but the humor goes round1 and he that laughs at me to-day will have somebody to laugh at him to-morrow1 and revenge my quarrel4 ,but1 however1 there are some liberties that will never go down with some men4 ,asiaticus ,valerius1 7one of ,caligula's particular friends1 and a man of stomach1 that would not easily digest an affront7 ,caligula told him in public what kind of bedfellow his wife was4 ,good ,god6 that ever any man should hear this1 or a prince speak it1 especially to a man of consular authority1 a friend1 and a husband3 and in such a manner too as at once to own his disgust and his adultery4 ,the tribune ,chreas had a weak broken voice1 like an hermaphrodite2 when he came to ,caligula for the word1 he would give him sometimes ,venus1 otherwhiles ,priapus1 as a slur upon him both ways4 ,valerius was afterwards the principal instrument in the conspiracy against him2 and ,chreas1 to convince him of his manhood1 at one blow cleft him down the chin with his sword4 ,no man was so forward as ,caligula to break a jest1 and no man so unwilling to bear it4 ,,chapter ,,ix4 ,,cautions ,,against ,,anger ,,in ,,the ,,matter ,,of ,,education1 ,,converse1 ,,and ,,other ,,general ,,rules ,,of ,,preventing ,,it1 ,,both ,,in ,,ourselves ,,and ,,others4 ,all that we have to say in particular upon this subject lies under these two heads3 first1 that we do not fall into anger2 and secondly1 that we do not transgress in it4 ,as in the case of our bodies1 we have some medicines to preserve us when we are well1 and others to recover us when we are sick2 so it is one thing not to admit it1 and another thing to overcome it4 ,we are1 in the first place1 to avoid all provocations1 and the beginnings of anger3 for if we be once down1 it is a hard task to get up again4 ,when our passion has got the better of our reason1 and the enemy is received into the gate1 we cannot expect that the conqueror should take conditions from the prisoner4 ,and1 in truth1 our reason1 when it is thus mastered1 turns effectually into passion4 ,a careful education is a great matter2 for our minds are easily formed in our youth1 but it is a harder business to cure ill habits3 beside that1 we are inflamed by climate1 constitution1 company1 and a thousand other accidents1 that we are not aware of4 ,the choice of a good nurse1 and a well-natured tutor1 goes a great way3 for the sweetness both of the blood and of the manners will pass into the child4 ,there is nothing breeds anger more than a soft and effeminate education2 and it is very seldom seen that either the mother's or the school-master's darling ever comes to good4 ,but my young master1 when he comes into the world1 behaves himself like a choleric coxcomb2 for flattery1 and a great fortune1 nourish touchiness4 ,but it is a nice point so to check the seeds of anger in a child as not to take off his edge1 and quench his spirits2 whereof a principal care must be taken betwixt license and severity1 that he be neither too much emboldened nor depressed4 ,commendation gives him courage and confidence2 but then the danger is1 of blowing him up into insolence and wrath3 so that when to use the bit1 and when the spur1 is the main difficulty4 ,never put him to a necessity of begging anything basely3 or if he does1 let him go without it4 ,inure him to a familiarity where he has any emulation2 and in all his exercises let him understand that it is generous to overcome his competitor1 but not to hurt him4 ,allow him to be pleased when he does well1 but not transported2 for that will puff him up into too high a conceit of himself4 ,give him nothing that he cries for till the dogged fit is over1 but then let him have it when he is quiet2 to show him that there is nothing to be gotten by being peevish4 ,chide him for whatever he does amiss1 and make him betimes acquainted with the fortune that he was born to4 ,let his diet be cleanly1 but sparing2 and clothe him like the rest of his fellows3 for by placing him upon that equality at first1 he will be the less proud afterward3 and1 consequently the less waspish and quarrelsome4 ,in the next place1 let us have a care of temptations that we cannot resist1 and provocations that we cannot bear2 and especially of sour and exceptious company3 for a cross humor is contagious4 ,nor is it all that a man shall be the better for the example of a quiet conversation2 but an angry disposition is troublesome1 because it has nothing else to work upon4 ,we should therefore choose a sincere1 easy1 and temperate companion1 that will neither provoke anger nor return it2 nor give a man any occasion of exercising his distempers4 ,nor is it enough to be gentle1 submissive1 and humane1 without integrity and plain-dealing2 for flattery is as offensive on the other side4 ,some men would take a curse from you better than a compliment4 ,clius1 a passionate orator1 had a friend of singular patience that supped with him1 who had no way to avoid a quarrel but by saying amen to all that ,clius said4 ,clius1 taking this ill3 8,say something against me10 says he1 8that you and ,i may be two20 and he was angry with him because he would not3 but the dispute fell1 as it needs must1 for want of an opponent4 ,he that is naturally addicted to anger1 let him use a moderate diet1 and abstain from wine2 for it is but adding fire to fire4 ,gentle exercises1 recreations1 and sports1 temper and sweeten the mind4 ,let him have a care also of long and obstinate disputes2 for it is easier not to begin them than to put an end to them4 ,severe studies are not good for him either1 as law1 mathematics2 too much attention preys upon the spirits1 and makes him eager3 but poetry1 history and those lighter entertainments1 may serve him for diversion and relief4 ,he that would be quiet1 must not venture at things out of his reach1 or beyond his strength2 for he shall either stagger under the burden1 or discharge it upon the next man he meets2 which is the same case in civil and domestic affairs4 ,business that is ready and practicable goes off with ease2 but when it is too heavy for the bearer1 they fall both together4 ,whatsoever we design1 we should first take a measure of ourselves1 and compare our force with the undertaking2 for it vexes a man not to go through with his work3 a repulse inflames a generous nature1 as it makes one that is phlegmatic1 sad4 ,i have known some that have advised looking in a glass when a man is in the fit1 and the very spectacle of his own deformity has cured him4 ,many that are troublesome in their drink1 and know their own infirmity1 give their servant order beforehand to take them away by force for fear of mischief1 and not to obey their masters themselves when they are hot-headed4 ,if the thing were duly considered we should need no other cure than the bare consideration of it4 ,we are not angry at madmen1 children1 and fools1 because they do not know what they do3 and why should not imprudence have an equal privilege in other cases8 ,if a horse kick1 or a dog bite1 shall a man kick or bite again8 ,the one1 it is true1 is wholly void of reason1 but it is also an equivalent darkness of mind that possesses the other4 ,so long as we are among men1 let us cherish humanity1 and so live that no man may be either in fear or in danger of us4 ,losses1 injuries1 reproaches1 calumnies1 they are but short inconveniences1 and we should bear them with resolution4 ,beside that1 some people are above our anger1 others below it4 ,to contend with our superiors were a folly1 and with our inferiors an indignity4 ,there is hardly a more effectual remedy against anger than patience and consideration4 ,let but the first fervor abate1 and that mist which darkens the mind will be either lessened or dispelled2 a day1 nay1 an hour1 does much in the most violent cases1 and perchance totally suppresses it2 time discovers the truth of things1 and turns that into judgment which at first was anger4 ,plato was about to strike his servant1 and while his hand was in the air1 he checked himself1 but still held it in that menacing posture4 ,a friend of his took notice of it1 and asked him what he meant8 8,i am now10 says ,plato1 8punishing of an angry man20 so that he had left his servant to chastise himself4 ,another time his servant having committed a great fault3 8,speusippus10 says he1 8do you beat that fellow1 for ,i am angry10 so that he forebore striking him for the very reason that would have made another man have done it4 8,i am angry10 says he1 8and shall go further than becomes me40 ,nor is it fit that a servant should be in his power that is not his own master4 ,why should any one venture now to trust an angry man with a revenge1 when ,plato durst not trust himself8 ,either he must govern that1 or that will undo him4 ,let us do our best to overcome it1 but let us1 however1 keep it close1 without giving it any vent4 ,an angry man1 if he gives himself liberty at all times1 will go too far4 ,if it comes once to show itself in the eye or countenance1 it has got the better of us4 ,nay1 we should so oppose it as to put on the very contrary dispositions2 calm looks1 soft and slow speech1 an easy and deliberate march1 and by little and little1 we may possibly bring our thoughts into sober conformity with our actions4 ,when ,socrates was angry1 he would take himself in it1 and speak low1 in opposition to the motions of his displeasure4 ,his friends would take notice of it2 and it was not to his disadvantage neither1 but rather to his credit1 that so many should know that he was angry1 and nobody feel it2 which could not have been1 if he had not given his friends the same liberty of admonition which he himself took4 ,and this course should we take2 we should desire our friends not to flatter us in our follies1 but to treat us with all liberties of reprehension1 even when we are least willing to bear it1 against so powerful and so insinuating an evil2 we should call for help while we have our eyes in our head1 and are yet masters of ourselves4 ,moderation is profitable for subjects1 but more for princes1 who have the means of executing all that their anger prompts them to4 ,when that power comes once to be exercised to a common mischief1 it can never long continue2 a common fear joining in one cause all their divided complaints4 ,in a word now1 how we may prevent1 moderate1 or master this impotent passion in others4 ,it is not enough to be sound ourselves1 unless we endeavor to make others so1 wherein we must accommodate the remedy to the temper of the patient4 ,some are to be dealt with by artifice and address3 as1 for example1 8,why will you gratify your enemies to show yourself so much concerned8 ,it is not worth your anger3 it is below you3 ,i am as much troubled at it myself as you can be2 but you had better say nothing1 and take your time to be even with them40 ,anger in some people is to be openly opposed2 in others1 there must be a little yielding1 according to the disposition of the person4 ,some are won by entreaties1 others are gained by mere shame and conviction1 and some by delay2 a dull way of cure for a violent distemper1 but this must be the last experiment4 ,other affections may be better dealt with at leisure2 for they proceed gradually3 but this commences and perfects itself in the same moment4 ,it does not1 like other passions1 solicit and mislead us1 but it runs away with us by force1 and hurries us on with an irresistible temerity1 as well to our own as to another's ruin3 not only flying in the face of him that provokes us1 but like a torrent1 bearing down all before it4 ,there is no encountering the first heat and fury of it3 for it is deaf and mad1 the best way is 7in the beginning7 to give it time and rest1 and let it spend itself3 while the passion is too hot to handle1 we may deceive it2 but1 however1 let all instruments of revenge be put out of the way4 ,it is not amiss sometimes to pretend to be angry too2 and join with him1 not only in the opinion of the injury1 but in the seeming contrivance of a revenge4 ,but this must be a person then that has some authority over him4 ,this is a way to get time1 and1 by advising upon some greater punishment to delay the present4 ,if the passion be outrageous1 try what shame or fear can do4 ,if weak1 it is no hard matter to amuse it by strange stories1 grateful news1 or pleasant discourses4 ,deceit1 in this case1 is friendship2 for men must be cozened to be cured4 ,the injuries that press hardest upon us are those which either we have not deserved1 or not expected1 or1 at least1 not in so high a degree4 ,this arises from the love of ourselves3 for every man takes upon him1 like a prince1 in this case1 to practice all liberties1 and to allow none1 which proceeds either from ignorance or insolence4 ,what news is it for people to do ill things8 for an enemy to hurt us2 nay1 for a friend or a servant to transgress1 and to prove treacherous1 ungrateful1 covetous1 impious8 ,what we find in one man we may in another1 and there is more security in fortune than in men4 ,our joys are mingled with fear1 and a tempest may arise out of a calm2 but a skilful pilot is always provided for it4 ,,chapter ,x4 ,,against ,,rash ,,judgment4 ,it is good for every man to fortify himself on his weak side3 and if he loves his peace he must not be inquisitive1 and hearken to tale-bearers2 for the man that is over-curious to hear and see everything1 multiplies troubles to himself3 for a man does not feel what he does not know4 ,he that is listening after private discourse1 and what people say of him1 shall never be at peace4 ,how many things that are innocent in themselves are made injuries yet by misconstruction6 ,wherefore1 some things we are to pause upon1 others to laugh at1 and others again to pardon4 ,or1 if we cannot avoid the sense of indignities1 let us however shun the open profession of it1 which may easily be done1 as appears by many examples of those that have suppressed their anger under the awe of a greater fear4 ,it is a good caution not to believe any thing until we are very certain of it2 for many probable things prove false1 and a short time will make evidence of the undoubted truth4 ,we are prone to believe many things which we are willing to hear1 and so we conclude1 and take up a prejudice before we can judge4 ,never condemn a friend unheard2 or without letting him know his accuser1 or his crime4 ,it is a common thing to say1 8,do not you tell that you had it from me3 for if you do1 ,i will deny it1 and never tell you any thing again30 by which means friends are set together by the ears1 and the informer slips his neck out of the collar4 ,admit no stories upon these terms3 for it is an unjust thing to believe in private and to be angry openly4 ,he that delivers himself up to guess and conjecture runs a great hazard2 for there can be no suspicion without some probable grounds2 so that without much candor and simplicity1 and making the best of every thing1 there is no living in society with mankind4 ,some things that offend us we have by report2 others we see or hear4 ,in the first case1 let us not be too credulous3 some people frame stories that they may deceive us2 others only tell what they hear1 and are deceived themselves3 some make it their sport to do ill offices1 others do them only to pick a thank3 there are some that would part the dearest friends in the world2 others love to do mischief1 and stand aloof off to see what comes of it4 ,if it be a small matter1 ,i would have witnesses2 but if it be a greater1 ,i would have it upon oath1 and allow time to the accused1 and counsel too1 and hear over and over again4 ,in those cases where we ourselves are witnesses1 we should take into consideration all the circumstances4 ,if a child1 it was ignorance3 if a woman1 a mistake3 if done by command a necessity2 if a man be injured1 it is but quod pro quo3 if a judge1 he knows what he does3 if a prince1 ,i must submit2 either if guilty1 to justice1 or if innocent1 to fortune3 if a brute1 ,i make myself one by imitating it3 if a calamity or disease1 my best relief is patience3 if providence1 it is both impious and vain to be angry at it3 if a good man1 ,i will make the best of it3 if a bad1 ,i will never wonder at it4 ,nor is it only by tales and stories that we are inflamed1 but suspicions1 countenances1 nay1 a look or a smile1 is enough to blow us up4 ,in these cases1 let us suspend our displeasure1 and plead the cause of the absent4 8,perhaps he is innocent2 or1 if not1 ,i have time to consider of it and may take my revenge at leisure30 but when it is once executed it is not to be recalled4 ,a jealous head is apt to take that to himself which was never meant him4 ,let us therefore trust to nothing but what we see1 and chide ourselves where we are over-credulous4 ,by this course we shall not be so easily imposed upon1 nor put to trouble ourselves about things not worth the while3 as the loitering of a servant upon an errand1 and the tumbling of a bed1 or the spilling of a glass of drink4 ,it is a madness to be disordered at these fooleries2 we consider the thing done1 and not the doer of it4 8,it may be he did it unwillingly1 or by chance4 ,it was a trick put upon him1 or he was forced to it4 ,he did it for reward perhaps1 not hatred2 nor of his own accord1 but he was urged on to it40 ,nay1 some regard must be had to the age of the person1 or to fortune2 and we must consult humanity and candor in the case4 ,one does me a great mischief at unawares2 another does me a very small one by design1 or peradventure none at all1 but intended me one4 ,the latter was more in fault1 but ,i will be angry with neither4 ,we must distinguish betwixt what a man cannot do and what he will not4 8,it is true he has once offended me2 but how often has he pleased me6 ,he has offended me often1 and in other kinds2 and why should not ,i bear it as well now as ,i have done80 ,is he my friend8 why then1 8,it was against his will40 ,is he my enemy8 ,it is 8no more than ,i looked for40 ,let us give way to wise men1 and not squabble with fools2 and say thus to ourselves1 8,we have all of us our errors40 ,no man is so circumspect1 so considerate1 or so fearful of offending1 but he has much to answer for4 ,a generous prisoner cannot immediately comply with all the sordid and laborious offices of a slave4 ,a footman that is not breathed cannot keep pace with his master's horse4 ,he that is over-watched may be allowed to be drowsy4 ,all these things are to be weighed before we give any ear to the first impulse4 ,if it be my duty to love my country1 ,i must be kind also to my countrymen2 if a veneration be due to the whole1 so is a piety also to the parts3 and it is the common interest to preserve them4 ,we are all members of one body1 and it is as natural to help one another as for the hands to help the feet1 or the eyes the hands4 ,without the love and care of the parts1 the whole can never be preserved1 and we must spare one another because we are born for society1 which cannot be maintained without a regard to particulars4 ,let this be a rule to us1 never to deny a pardon1 that does no hurt either to the giver or receiver4 ,that may be well enough in one which is ill in another2 and therefore we are not to condemn anything that is common to a nation2 for custom defends it4 ,but much more pardonable are those things which are common to mankind4 ,it is a kind of spiteful comfort1 that whoever does me an injury may receive one2 and that there is a power over him that is above me4 ,a man should stand as firm against all indignities as a rock does against the waves4 ,as it is some satisfaction to a man in a mean condition that there is no security in a more prosperous2 and as the loss of a son in a corner is borne with more patience upon the sight of a funeral carried out of a palace2 so are injuries and contempts the more tolerable from a meaner person1 when we consider1 that the greatest men and fortunes are not exempt4 ,the wisest also of mortals have their failings1 and no man living is without the same excuse4 ,the difference is1 that we do not all of us transgress the same way2 but we are obliged in humanity to bear one with another4 ,we should1 every one of us1 bethink ourselves1 how remiss we have been in our duties1 how immodest in our discourses1 how intemperate in our cups2 and why not1 as well1 how extravagant we have been in our passions8 ,let us clear ourselves of this evil1 purge our minds1 and utterly root out all those vices1 which upon leaving the least sting1 will grow again and recover4 ,we must think of everything1 expect everything1 that we may not be surprised4 ,it is a shame1 says ,fabius1 for a commander to excuse himself by saying1 8,i was not aware of it40 ,,chapter ,,xi4 ,,take ,,nothing ,,ill ,,from ,,another ,,man1 ,,until ,,you ,,have ,,made ,,it ,,your ,,own ,,case4 ,it is not prudent to deny a pardon to any man1 without first examining if we stand not in need of it ourselves2 for it may be our lot to ask it1 even at his feet to whom we refuse it4 ,but we are willing enough to do what we are very unwilling to suffer4 ,it is unreasonable to charge public vices upon particular persons2 for we are all of us wicked1 and that which we blame in others we find in ourselves4 ,it is not a paleness in one1 or a leanness in another1 but a pestilence that has laid hold upon all4 ,it is a wicked world1 and we make part of it2 and the way to be quiet is to bear one with another4 8,such a man10 we cry1 8has done me a shrewd turn1 and ,i never did him any hurt40 ,well1 but it may be ,i have mischieved other people1 or at least1 ,i may live to do as much to him as that comes to4 8,such a one has spoken ill things of me20 but if ,i first speak ill of him1 as ,i do of many others1 this is not an injury1 but a repayment4 ,what if he did overshoot himself8 ,he was loth to lose his conceit perhaps1 but there was no malice in it2 and if he had not done me a mischief1 he must have done himself one4 ,how many good offices are there that look like injuries6 ,nay1 how many have been reconciled and good friends after a professed hatred6 ,before we lay anything to heart1 let us ask ourselves if we have not done the same thing to others4 ,but where shall we find an equal judge8 ,he that loves another man's wife 7only because she is another's7 will not suffer his own to be so much looked upon4 ,no man is so fierce against calumny as the evil speaker2 none so strict exactors of modesty in a servant as those that are most prodigal of their own4 ,we carry our neighbors' crimes in sight1 and we throw our own over our shoulders4 ,the intemperance of a bad son is chastised by a worse father2 and the luxury that we punish in others1 we allow to ourselves4 ,the tyrant exclaims against homicide2 and sacrilege against theft4 ,we are angry with the persons1 but not with the faults4 ,some things there are that cannot hurt us1 and others will not2 as good magistrates1 parents1 tutors1 judges2 whose reproof or correction we are to take as we do abstinence1 bleeding1 and other uneasy things1 which we are the better for1 in which cases1 we are not so much to reckon upon what we suffer as upon what we have done4 8,i take it ill10 says one2 and1 8,i have done nothing10 says another3 when1 at the same time1 we make it worse1 by adding arrogance and contumacy to our first error4 ,we cry out presently1 8,what law have we transgressed80 ,as if the letter of the law were the sum of our duty1 and that piety1 humanity1 liberality1 justice1 and faith1 were things beside our business4 ,no1 no2 the rule of human duty is of a greater latitude2 and we have many obligations upon us that are not to be found in the statute-books4 ,and yet we fall short of the exactness event of that legal innocency4 ,we have intended one thing and done another2 wherein only the want of success has kept us from being criminals4 ,this very thing1 methinks1 should make us more favorable to delinquents1 and to forgive not only ourselves1 but the gods too2 of whom we seem to have harder thoughts in taking that to be a particular evil directed to us1 that befalls us only by the common law of mortality4 ,in fine1 no man living can absolve himself to his conscience1 though to the world1 perhaps1 he may4 ,it is true1 that we are also condemned to pains and diseases1 and to death too1 which is no more than the quitting of the soul's house4 ,but why should any man complain of bondage1 that1 wheresoever he looks1 has his way open to liberty8 ,that precipice1 that sea1 that river1 that well1 there is freedom in the bottom of it4 ,it hangs upon every crooked bow2 and not only a man's throat1 or his heart1 but every vein in his body1 opens a passage to it4 ,to conclude1 where my proper virtue fails me1 ,i will have recourse to examples1 and say to myself1 ,am ,i greater than ,philip or ,augustus1 who both of them put up with greater reproaches8 ,many have pardoned their enemies1 and shall not ,i forgive a neglect1 a little freedom of the tongue8 ,nay1 the patience but of a second thought does the business3 for though the first shock be violent2 take it in parts1 and it is subdued4 ,and1 to wind up all in one word1 the great lesson of mankind1 as well in this as in all other cases1 is1 8to do as we would be done by40 ,,chapter ,,xii4 ,,of ,,cruelty4 ,there is so near an affinity betwixt anger and cruelty1 that many people confound them2 as if cruelty were only the execution of anger in the payment of a revenge3 which holds in some cases1 but not in others4 ,there are a sort of men that take delight in the spilling of human blood1 and in the death of those that never did them any injury1 nor were ever so much suspected for it2 as ,apollodorus1 ,phalaris1 ,sinis1 ,procrustus1 and others1 that burnt men alive2 whom we cannot so properly call angry as brutal1 for anger does necessarily presuppose an injury1 either done1 or conceived1 or feared1 but the other takes pleasure in tormenting1 without so much as pretending any provocation to it1 and kills merely for killing sake4 ,the original of this cruelty perhaps was anger1 which by frequent exercise and custom1 has lost all sense of humanity and mercy1 and they that are thus affected are so far from the countenance and appearance of men in anger1 that they will laugh1 rejoice1 and entertain themselves with the most horrid spectacles1 as racks1 jails1 gibbets1 several sorts of chains and punishments1 dilaceration of members1 stigmatizing1 and wild beasts1 with other exquisite inventions of torture2 and yet1 at last the cruelty itself is more horrid and odious than the means by which it works4 ,it is a bestial madness to love mischief2 beside1 that it is womanish to rage and tear4 ,a generous beast will scorn to do it when he has any thing at his mercy4 ,it is a vice for wolves and tigers1 and no less abominable to the world than dangerous to itself4 ,the ,romans had their morning and their meridian spectacles4 ,in the former1 they had their combats of men with wild beasts2 and in the latter1 the men fought one with another4 8,i went10 says our author1 8the other day to the meridian spectacles1 in hope of meeting somewhat of mirth and diversion to sweeten the humors of those that had been entertained with blood in the morning2 but it proved otherwise1 for1 compared with this inhumanity1 the former was a mercy4 ,the whole business was only murder upon murder3 the combatants fought naked1 and every blow was a wound4 ,they do not contend for victory1 but for death2 and he that kills one man is to be killed by another4 ,by wounds they are forced upon wounds which they take and give upon their bare breasts4 ,burn that rogue1 they cry ,what6 ,is he afraid of his flesh8 ,do but see how sneakingly that rascal dies4 ,look to yourselves1 my masters1 and consider of it3 who knows but this may come to be your own case80 ,wicked examples seldom fail of coming home at last to the authors4 ,to destroy a single man may be dangerous2 but to murder whole nations is only a more glorious wickedness4 ,private avarice and rigor are condemned1 but oppression1 when it comes to be authorized by an act of state1 and to be publicly commanded1 though particularly forbidden1 becomes a point of dignity and honor4 ,what a shame is it for men to interworry one another1 when yet the fiercest even of beasts are at peace with those of their own kind8 ,this brutal fury puts philosophy itself to a stand4 ,the drunkard1 the glutton1 the covetous1 may be reduced2 nay1 and the mischief of it is that no vice keeps itself within its proper bounds4 ,luxury runs into avarice1 and when the reverence of virtue is extinguished1 men will stick at nothing that carries profit along with it2 man's blood is shed in wantonness--his death is a spectacle for entertainment1 and his groans are music4 ,when ,alexander delivered up ,lysimachus to a lion1 how glad would he have been to have had nails and teeth to have devoured him himself3 it would have too much derogated1 he thought1 from the dignity of his wrath1 to have appointed a man for the execution of his friend4 ,private cruelties1 it is true1 cannot do much mischief1 but in princes they are a war against mankind4 ,c4 ,csar would commonly1 for exercise and pleasure1 put senators and ,roman knights to the torture2 and whip several of them like slaves1 or put them to death with the most acute torments1 merely for the satisfaction of his cruelty4 ,that ,csar that 8wished the people of ,rome had but one neck1 that he might cut it off at one blow20--it was the employment1 the study1 and the joy of his life4 ,he would not so much as give the expiring leave to groan1 but caused their mouths to be stopped with sponges1 or for want of them1 with rags of their own clothes1 that they might not breathe out so much as their last agonies at liberty2 or1 perhaps1 lest the tormented should speak something which the tormentor had no mind to hear4 ,nay1 he was so impatient of delay1 that he would frequently rise from supper to have men killed by torch-light1 as if his life and death had depended upon their dispatch before the next morning2 to say nothing how many fathers were put to death in the same night with their sons 7which was a kind of mercy in the prevention of their mourning74 ,and was not ,sylla's cruelty prodigious too1 which was only stopped for want of enemies8 ,he caused seven thousand citizens of ,rome to be slaughtered at once2 and some of the senators being startled at their cries that were heard in the senate-house1 8,let us mind our business10 says ,sylla2 8this is nothing but a few mutineers that ,i have ordered to be sent out of the way40 ,a glorious spectacle6 says ,hannibal1 when he saw the trenches flowing with human blood2 and if the rivers had run blood too1 he would have liked it so much the better4 ,among the famous and detestable speeches that are committed to memory1 ,i know none worse than that impudent and tyrannical maxim1 8,let them hate me1 so they fear me20 not considering that those that are kept in obedience by fear1 are both malicious and mercenary1 and only wait for an opportunity to change their master4 ,beside that1 whosoever is terrible to others is likewise afraid of himself4 ,what is more ordinary than for a tyrant to be destroyed by his own guards8 which is no more than the putting those crimes into practice which they learned of their masters4 ,how many slaves have revenged themselves of their cruel oppressors1 though they were sure to die for it6 but when it comes once to a popular tyranny1 whole nations conspire against it4 ,for 8whosoever threatens all1 is in danger of all10 over and above1 that the cruelty of the prince increases the number of his enemies1 by destroying some of them2 for it entails an hereditary hatred upon the friends and relations of those that are taken away4 ,and then it has this misfortune1 that a man must be wicked upon necessity2 for there is no going back2 so that he must betake himself to arms1 and yet he lives in fear4 ,he can neither trust to the faith of his friends1 nor to the piety of his children2 he both dreads death and wishes it2 and becomes a greater terror to himself than he is to his people4 ,nay1 if there were nothing else to make cruelty detestable1 it were enough that it passes all bounds1 both of custom and humanity2 and is followed upon the heel with sword or poison4 ,a private malice indeed does not move whole cities2 but that which extends to all is every body's mark4 ,one sick person gives no great disturbance in a family2 but when it comes to a depopulating plague1 all people fly from it4 ,and why should a prince expect any man to be good whom he has taught to be wicked8 ,but what if it were safe to be cruel8 ,were it not still a sad thing1 the very state of such a government8 ,a government that bears the image of a taken city1 where there is nothing but sorrow1 trouble1 and confusion4 ,men dare not so much as trust themselves with their friends or with their pleasures4 ,there is not any entertainment so innocent but it affords pretence of crime and danger4 ,people are betrayed at their tables and in their cups1 and drawn from the very theatre to the prison4 ,how horrid a madness is it to be still raging and killing2 to have the rattling of chains always in our ears2 bloody spectacles before our eyes2 and to carry terror and dismay wherever we go6 ,if we had lions and serpents1 to rule over us1 this would be the manner of their government1 saving that they agree better among themselves4 ,it passes for a mark of greatness to burn cities1 and lay whole kingdoms waste2 nor is it for the honor of a prince1 to appoint this or that single man to be killed1 unless they have whole troops1 or 7sometimes7 legions1 to work upon4 ,but it is not the spoils of war and bloody trophies that make a prince glorious1 but the divine power of preserving unity and peace4 ,ruin without distinction is more properly the business of a general deluge1 or a conflagration4 ,neither does a fierce and inexorable anger become the supreme magistrate2 8,greatness of mind is always meek and humble2 but cruelty is a note and an effect of weakness1 and brings down a governor to the level of a competitor40 ,,seneca ,,of ,,clemency4 ,the humanity and excellence of this virtue is confessed at all hands1 as well by the men of pleasure1 and those that think every man was made for himself1 as by the ,stoics1 that make 8man a sociable creature1 and born for the common good of mankind30 for it is of all dispositions the most peaceable and quiet4 ,but before we enter any farther upon the discourse1 it should be first known what clemency is1 that we may distinguish it from pity2 which is a weakness1 though many times mistaken for a virtue3 and the next thing will be1 to bring the mind to the habit and exercise of it4 8,clemency is a favorable disposition of the mind1 in the matter of inflicting punishment2 or1 a moderation that remits somewhat of the penalty incurred2 as pardon is the total remission of a deserved punishment40 ,we must be careful not to confound clemency with pity2 for as religion worships ,god1 and superstition profanes that worship2 so should we distinguish betwixt clemency and pity2 practicing the one1 and avoiding the other4 ,for pity proceeds from a narrowness of mind1 that respects rather the fortune than the cause4 ,it is a kind of moral sickness1 contracted from other people's misfortune3 such another weakness as laughing or yawning for company1 or as that of sick eyes that cannot look upon others that are bleared without dropping themselves4 ,i will give a shipwrecked man a plank1 a lodging to a stranger1 or a piece of money to him that wants it3 ,i will dry up the tears of my friend1 yet ,i will not weep with him1 but treat him with constancy and humanity1 as one man ought to treat another4 ,it is objected by some1 that clemency is an insignificant virtue2 and that only the bad are the better for it1 for the good have no need of it4 ,but in the first place1 as physic is in use only among the sick1 and yet in honor with the sound1 so the innocent have a reverence for clemency1 though criminals are properly the objects of it4 ,and then again1 a man may be innocent1 and yet have occasion for it too2 for by the accidents of fortune1 or the condition of times1 virtue itself may come to be in danger4 ,consider the most populous city or nation2 what a solitude would it be if none should be left there but those that could stand the test of a severe justice6 ,we should have neither judges nor accusers2 none either to grant a pardon or to ask it4 ,more or less1 we are all sinners2 and he that has best purged his conscience1 was brought by errors to repentance4 ,and it is farther profitable to mankind2 for many delinquents come to be converted4 ,there is a tenderness to be used even toward our slaves1 and those that we have bought with our money3 how much more then to free and to honest men1 that are rather under our protection than dominion6 ,not that ,i would have it so general neither as not to distinguish betwixt the good and the bad2 for that would introduce a confusion1 and give a kind of encouragement to wickedness4 ,it must therefore have a respect to the quality of the offender1 and separate the curable from the desperate2 for it is an equal cruelty to pardon all and to pardon none4 ,where the matter is in balance1 let mercy turn the scale3 if all wicked men should be punished1 who should escape8 ,though mercy and gentleness of nature keeps all in peace and tranquillity1 even in a cottage2 yet it is much more beneficial and conspicuous in a palace4 ,private men in their condition are likewise private in their virtues and in their vices2 but the words and the actions of princes are the subject of public rumor2 and therefore they had need have a care1 what occasion they give people for discourse1 of whom people will be always a talking4 ,there is the government of a prince over his people1 a father over his children1 a master over his scholars1 an officer over his soldiers4 ,he is an unnatural father1 that for every trifle beats his children4 ,who is the better master1 he that rages over his scholars for but missing a word in a lesson1 or he that tries1 by admonition and fair words1 to instruct and reform them8 ,an outrageous officer makes his men run from their colors4 ,a skilful rider brings his horse to obedience by mingling fair means with foul2 whereas to be perpetually switching and spurring1 makes him vicious and jadish3 and shall we not have more care of men than of beasts8 ,it breaks the hope of generous inclinations1 when they are depressed by servility and terror4 ,there is no creature so hard to be pleased with ill usage as man4 ,clemency does well with all but best with princes2 for it makes their power comfortable and beneficial1 which would otherwise be the pest of mankind4 ,it establishes their greatness1 when they make the good of the public their particular care1 and employ their power for the safety of the people4 ,the prince1 in effect1 is but the soul of the community1 as the community is only the body of the prince2 so that being merciful to others1 he is tender of himself3 nor is any man so mean but his master feels the loss of him1 as a part of his empire3 and he takes care not only of the lives of his people1 but also of their reputation4 ,now1 giving for granted that all virtues are in themselves equal1 it will not yet be denied1 that they may be more beneficial to mankind in one person than in another4 ,a beggar may be as magnanimous as a king3 for what can be greater or braver than to baffle ill fortune8 ,this does not hinder but that a man in authority and plenty has more matter for his generosity to work upon than a private person2 and it is also more taken notice of upon the bench than upon the level4 ,when a gracious prince shows himself to his people1 they do not fly from him as from a tiger that rouses himself out of his den1 but they worship him as a benevolent influence2 they secure him against all conspiracies1 and interpose their bodies betwixt him and danger4 ,they guard him while he sleeps1 and defend him in the field against his enemies4 ,nor is it without reason1 this unanimous agreement in love and loyalty1 and this heroical zeal of abandoning themselves for the safety of their prince2 but it is as well the interest of the people4 ,in the breath of a prince there is life and death2 and his sentence stands good1 right or wrong4 ,if he be angry1 nobody dares advise him2 and if he does amiss1 who shall call him to account8 ,now1 for him that has so much mischief in his power1 and yet applies that power to the common utility and comfort of his people1 diffusing also clemency and goodness into their hearts too1 what can be a greater blessing to mankind than such a prince8 ,any man may kill another against the law1 but only a prince can save him so4 ,let him so deal with his own subjects as he desires ,god should deal with him4 ,if ,heaven should be inexorable to sinners1 and destroy all without mercy1 what flesh could be safe8 ,but as the faults of great men are not presently punished with thunder from above1 let them have a like regard to their inferiors here upon earth4 ,he that has revenge in his power1 and does not use it1 is the great man4 ,which is the more beautiful and agreeable state1 that of a calm1 a temperate1 and a clear day2 or that of lightning1 thunder1 and tempests8 and this is the very difference betwixt a moderate and turbulent government4 ,it is for low and vulgar spirits to brawl1 storm1 and transport themselves3 but it is not for the majesty of a prince to lash out into intemperance of words4 ,some will think it rather slavery than empire to be debarred liberty of speech3 and what if it be1 when government itself is but a more illustrious servitude8 ,he that uses his power as he should1 takes as much delight in making it comfortable to his people as glorious to himself4 ,he is affable and easy of access2 his very countenance makes him the joy of his people's eyes1 and the delight of mankind4 ,he is beloved1 defended1 and reverenced by all his subjects2 and men speak as well of him in private as in public4 ,he is safe without guards1 and the sword is rather his ornament than his defence4 ,in his duty1 he is like that of a good father1 that sometimes gently reproves a son1 sometimes threatens him2 nay1 and perhaps corrects him3 but no father in his right wits will disinherit a son for the first fault2 there must be many and great offences1 and only desperate consequences1 that should bring him to that decretory resolution4 ,he will make many experiments to try if he can reclaim him first1 and nothing but the utmost despair must put him upon extremities4 ,it is not flattery that calls a prince the father of his country2 the titles of great and august are matter of compliment and of honor2 but in calling him father1 we mind him of that moderation and indulgence which he owes to his children4 ,his subjects are his members2 where1 if there must be an amputation1 let him come slowly to it2 and when the part is cut off1 let him wish it were on again3 let him grieve in the doing of it4 ,he that passes a sentence hastily1 looks as if he did it willingly2 and then there is an injustice in the excess4 ,it is a glorious contemplation for a prince1 first to consider the vast multitudes of his people1 whose seditious1 divided1 and impotent passions1 would cast all in confusion1 and destroy themselves1 and public order too1 if the hand of government did not restrain them2 and thence to pass the examination of his conscience1 saying thus to himself1 8,it is by the choice of ,providence that ,i am here made ,god's deputy upon earth1 the arbitrator of life and death2 and that upon my breath depends the fortune of my people4 ,my lips are the oracles of their fate1 and upon them hangs the destiny both of cities and of men4 ,it is under my favor that people seek either for prosperity or protection3 thousands of swords are drawn or sheathed at my pleasure4 ,what towns shall be advanced or destroyed2 who shall be slaves1 or who free1 depends upon my will2 and yet1 in this arbitrary power of acting without control1 ,i was never transported to do any cruel thing1 either by anger or hot blood in myself or by the contumacy1 rashness1 or provocations of other men2 though sufficient to turn mercy itself into fury4 ,i was never moved by the odious vanity of making myself terrible by my power1 7that accursed1 though common humor of ostentation and glory that haunts imperious natures47 ,my sword has not only been buried in the scabbard1 but in a manner bound to the peace1 and tender even of the cheapest blood3 and where ,i find no other motive to compassion1 humanity itself is sufficient4 ,i have been always slow to severity1 and prone to forgive2 and under as strict a guard to observe the laws as if ,i were accountable for the breaking of them4 ,some ,i pardoned for their youth1 others for their age4 ,i spare one man for his dignity1 another for his humility2 and when ,i find no other matter to work upon1 ,i spare myself4 ,so that if ,god should at this instant call me to an account1 the whole world agree to witness for me1 that ,i have not by any force1 either public or private1 either by myself or by any other1 defrauded the commonwealth2 and the reputation that ,i have ever sought for has been that which few princes have obtained1 the conscience of my proper innocence4 ,and ,i have not lost my labor neither2 for no man was ever so dear to another1 as ,i have made myself to the whole body of my people40 ,under such a prince the subjects have nothing to wish for beyond what they enjoy2 their fears are quieted1 and their prayers heard1 and there is nothing can make their felicity greater1 unless to make it perpetual2 and there is no liberty denied to the people but that of destroying one another4 ,it is the interest of the people1 by the consent of all nations1 to run all hazards for the safety of their prince1 and by a thousand deaths to redeem that one life1 upon which so many millions depend4 ,does not the whole body serve the mind1 though only the one is exposed to the eye and the other not1 but thin and invisible1 the very seat of it being uncertain8 ,yet the hands1 feet1 and eyes1 observe the motions of it4 ,we lie down1 run about and ramble1 as that commands us4 ,if we be covetous1 we fish the seas and ransack the earth for treasure3 if ambitious1 we burn our own flesh with ,scvola2 we cast ourselves into the gulf with ,curtius3 so would that vast multitude of people1 which is animated but with one soul1 governed by one spirit1 and moved by one reason1 destroy itself with its own strength1 if it were not supported by wisdom and government4 ,wherefore1 it is for their own security that the people expose their lives for their prince1 as the very bond that ties the republic together2 the vital spirit of so many thousands1 which would be nothing else but a burden and prey without a governor4 ,when this union comes once to be dissolved1 all falls to pieces2 for empire and obedience must stand and fall together4 ,it is no wonder then if a prince be dear to his people1 when the community is wrapt up in him1 and the good of both as inseparable as the body and the head2 the one for strength1 and the other for counsel2 for what signifies the force of the body without the direction of the understanding8 ,while the prince watches1 his people sleep2 his labor keeps them at ease1 and his business keeps them quiet4 ,the natural intent of monarchy appears even from the very discipline of bees3 they assign to their master the fairest lodgings1 the safest place2 and his office is only to see that the rest perform their duties4 ,when their king is lost1 the whole swarm dissolve3 more than one they will not admit2 and then they contend who shall have the best4 ,they are of all creatures the fiercest for their bigness2 and leave their stings behind them in their quarrels2 only the king himself has none1 intimating that kings should neither be vindictive nor cruel4 ,is it not a shame1 after such an example of moderation in these creatures1 that men should be yet intemperate8 ,it were well if they lost their stings too in their revenge1 as well as the other1 that they might hurt but once1 and do no mischief by their proxies4 ,it would tire them out1 if either they were to execute all with their own hands1 or to wound others at the peril of their own lives4 ,a prince should behave himself generously in the power which ,god has given him of life and death1 especially towards those that have been at any time his equals2 for the one has his revenge1 and the other his punishment in it4 ,he that stands indebted for his life has lost it2 but he that receives his life at the foot of his enemy1 lives to the honor of his preserver3 he lives the lasting monument of his virtue2 whereas1 if he had been led in triumph1 the spectacle would have been quickly over4 ,or what if he should restore him to his kingdom again8 would it not be an ample accession to his honor to show that he found nothing about the conquered that was worthy of the conqueror8 ,there is nothing more venerable than a prince that does not revenge an injury4 ,he that is gracious is beloved and reverenced as a common father2 but a tyrant stands in fear and in danger even of his own guards4 ,no prince can be safe himself of whom all others are afraid2 for to spare none is to enrage all4 ,it is an error to imagine that any man can be secure that suffers nobody else to be so too4 ,how can any man endure to lead an uneasy1 suspicious1 anxious life1 when he may be safe if he please1 and enjoy all the blessings of power1 together with the prayers of his people8 ,clemency protects a prince without a guard2 there is no need of troops1 castles1 or fortifications3 security on the one side is the condition of security on the other2 and the affections of the subject are the most invincible fortress4 ,what can be fairer1 than for a prince to live the object of his people's love2 to have the vows of their heart as well as of their lips1 and his health and sickness their common hopes and fears8 ,there will be no danger of plots2 nay1 on the contrary1 who would not frankly venture his blood to save him1 under whose government1 justice1 peace1 modesty1 and dignity flourish8 under whose influence men grow rich and happy2 and whom men look upon with such veneration1 as they would do upon the immortal gods1 if they were capable of seeing them8 ,and as the true representative of the ,,almighty they consider him1 when he is gracious and bountiful1 and employs his power to the advantage of his subjects4 ,when a prince proceeds to punishment1 it must be either to vindicate himself or others4 ,it is a hard matter to govern himself in his own case4 ,if a man should advise him not to be credulous1 but to examine matters1 and indulge the innocent1 this is rather a point of justice than of clemency3 but in case that he be manifestly injured1 ,i would have him forgive1 where he may safely do it3 and be tender even where he cannot forgive2 but far more exorable in his own case1 however1 than in another's4 ,it is nothing to be free of another man's purse1 and it is as little to be merciful in another man's cause4 ,he is the great man that masters his passion where he is stung himself1 and pardons when he might destroy4 ,the end of punishment is either to comfort the party injured1 or to secure him for the future4 ,a prince's fortune is above the need of such a comfort1 and his power is too eminent to seek an advance of reputation by doing a private man a mischief4 ,this ,i speak in case of an affront from those that are below us2 but he that of an equal has made any man his inferior1 has his revenge in the bringing of him down4 ,a prince has been killed by a servant1 destroyed by a serpent3 but whosoever preserves a man must be greater than the person that he preserves4 ,with citizens1 strangers1 and people of low condition1 a prince is not to contend1 for they are beneath him3 he may spare some out of good will1 and others as he would do some little creatures that a man cannot touch without fouling his fingers3 but for those that are to be pardoned or exposed to public punishment1 he may use mercy as he sees occasion2 and a generous mind can never want inducements and motives to it2 and whether it be age or sex1 high or low1 nothing comes amiss4 ,to pass now to the vindication of others1 there must be had a regard either to the amendment of the person punished1 or the making others better for fear of punishment1 or the taking the offender out of the way for the security of others4 ,an amendment may be procured by a small punishment1 for he lives more carefully that has something yet to lose--it is a kind of impunity to be incapable of a farther punishment4 ,the corruptions of a city are best cured by a few and sparing severities2 for the multitude of offenders creates a custom of offending1 and company authorizes a crime1 and there is more good to be done upon a dissolute age by patience than by rigor2 provided that it pass not for an approbation of ill-manners1 but only as an unwillingness to proceed to extremities4 ,under a merciful prince1 a man will be ashamed to offend1 because a punishment that is inflicted by a gentle governor seems to fall heavier and with more reproach3 and it is remarkable also1 that 8those sins are often committed which are very often punished40 ,caligula1 in five years1 condemned more people to the sack than ever were before him3 and there were 8fewer parricides before the law against them than after20 for our ancestors did wisely presume that the crime would never be committed1 until by law for punishing it1 they found that it might be done4 ,parricides began with the law against them1 and the punishment instructed men in the crime4 ,where there are few punishments1 innocency is indulged as a public good1 and it is a dangerous thing to show a city how strong it is in delinquents4 ,there is a certain contumacy in the nature of man that makes him oppose difficulties4 ,we are better to follow than to drive2 as a generous horse rides best with an easy bit4 ,people obey willingly where they are commanded kindly4 ,when ,burrhus the prefect was to sentence two malefactors1 he brought the warrant to ,nero to sign2 who1 after a long reluctancy came to it at last with this exclamation3 8,i would ,i could not write60 ,a speech that deserved the whole world for an auditory1 but all princes especially2 and that the hearts of all the subjects would conform to the likeness of their masters4 ,as the head is well or ill1 so is the mind dull or merry4 ,what is the difference betwixt a king and a tyrant1 but a diversity of will under one and the same power4 ,the one destroys for his pleasure1 the other upon necessity2 a distinction rather in fact than in name4 ,a gracious prince is armed as well as a tyrant2 but it is for the defence of his people and not for the ruin of them4 ,no king can ever have faithful servants that accustoms them to tortures and executions2 the very guilty themselves do not lead so anxious a life as the persecutors3 for they are not only afraid of justice1 both divine and human1 but it is dangerous for them to mend their manners2 so that when they are once in1 they must continue to be wicked upon necessity4 ,an universal hatred unites in a popular rage4 ,a temperate fear may be kept in order2 but when it comes once to be continual and sharp1 it provokes people to extremities1 and transports them to desperate resolutions1 as wild beasts when they are pressed upon the toil1 turn back and assault the very pursuers4 ,a turbulent government is a perpetual trouble both to prince and people2 and he that is a terror to all others is not without terror also himself4 ,frequent punishments and revenges may suppress the hatred of a few1 but then it stirs up the detestation of all1 so that there is no destroying one enemy without making many4 ,it is good to master the will of being cruel1 even while there may be cause for it1 and matter to work upon4 ,augustus was a gracious prince when he had the power in his own hand2 but in the triumviracy he made use of his sword1 and had his friends ready armed to set upon ,antony during that dispute4 ,but he behaved himself afterwards at another rate2 for when he was betwixt forty and fifty years of age he was told that ,cinna was in a plot to murder him1 with the time1 place and manner of the design2 and this from one of the confederates4 ,upon this he resolved upon a revenge1 and sent for several of his friends to advise upon it4 ,the thought of it kept him waking1 to consider1 that there was the life of a young nobleman in the case1 the nephew of ,pompey1 and a person otherwise innocent4 ,he was off and on several times whether he should put him to death or not4 8,what60 says he1 8shall ,i live in trouble and in danger myself1 and the contriver of my death walk free and secure8 ,will nothing serve him but that life which ,providence has preserved in so many civil wars--in so many battles both by sea and land2 and now in the state of an universal peace too--and not a simple murder either1 but a sacrifice2 for ,i am to be assaulted at the very altar--and shall the contriver of all this villainy escape unpunished80 ,here ,augustus made a little pause1 and then recollecting himself3 8,no1 no1 ,csar10 says he1 8it is rather ,csar than ,cinna that ,i am to be angry with3 why do ,i myself live any longer after that my death is become the interest of so many people8 ,and if ,i go on1 what end will there be of blood and of punishment8 ,if it be against my life that the nobility arm itself1 and level its weapons1 my single life is not worth the while1 if so many must be destroyed that ,i may be preserved40 ,his wife ,livia gave him here an interruption1 and desired him that he would for once hear a woman's counsel4 8,do10 says she1 8like a physician1 that when common remedies fail1 will try the contrary3 you have got nothing hitherto by severity--after ,salvidianus there followed ,lepidus--after him ,murna--,cpio followed him1 and ,egnatius followed ,cpio--try now what mercy will do--forgive ,cinna4 ,he is discovered1 and can do no hurt to your person2 and it will yet advantage you in your reputation40 ,augustus was glad of the advice1 and he gave thanks for it2 and thereupon countermanded the meeting of his friends1 and ordered ,cinna to be brought to him alone2 for whom he caused a chair to be set1 and then discharged the rest of the company4 8,cinna10 says ,augustus1 8before ,i go any farther1 you must promise not to give me the interruption of one syllable until ,i have told you all ,i have to say1 and you shall have liberty afterwards to say what you please4 ,you cannot forget1 that when ,i found you in arms against me1 and not only made my enemy1 but born so1 ,i gave you your life and fortune4 ,upon your petition for the priesthood1 ,i granted it1 with a repulse to the sons of those that had been my fellow-soldiers2 and you are at this day so happy and so rich1 that even the conquerors envy him that is overcome2 and yet after all this1 you are in a plot1 ,cinna1 to murder me40 ,at that word ,cinna started1 and interposed with exclamations1 8that certainly he was far from being either so wicked or so mad40 8,this is a breach of conditions1 ,cinna10 says ,augustus1 8it is not your time to speak yet3 ,i tell you again1 that you are in a plot to murder me20 and so he told him the time1 the place1 the confederates1 the order and manner of the design1 and who it was that was to do the deed4 ,cinna1 upon this1 fixed his eye upon the ground without any reply3 not for his word's sake1 but as in a confusion of conscience3 and so ,augustus went on4 8,what10 says he1 8may your design be in all this8 ,is it that you would pretend to step into my place8 ,the commonwealth were in an ill condition1 if only ,augustus were in the way betwixt you and the government4 ,you were cast the other day in a cause by one of your own freemen1 and do you expect to find a weaker adversary of ,csar8 ,but what if ,i were removed8 ,there is milius ,paulus1 ,fabius ,maximus1 and twenty other families of great blood and interest1 that would never bear it40 ,to cut off the story short2 7for it was a discourse of above two hours2 and ,augustus lengthened the punishment in words1 since he intended that should be all27 8,well1 ,cinna10 says he1 8the life that ,i gave to you once as an enemy1 ,i will now repeat it to a traitor and to a parricide1 and this shall be the last reproach ,i will give you4 ,for the time to come there shall be no other contention betwixt you and me1 than which shall outdo the other in point of friendship40 ,after this ,augustus made ,cinna consul1 7an honor which he confessed he durst not so much as desire7 and ,cinna was ever affectionately faithful to him3 he made ,csar his sole heir2 and this was the last conspiracy that ever was formed against him4 ,this moderation of ,augustus was the excellency of his mature age2 for in his youth he was passionate and sudden2 and he did many things which afterward he looked back upon with trouble3 after the battle of ,actium1 so many navies broken in ,sicily1 both ,roman and strangers3 the ,perusian altars1 where #cjj lives were sacrificed to the ghost of ,julius2 his frequent proscriptions1 and other severities2 his temperance at last seemed to be little more than a weary cruelty4 ,if he had not forgiven those that he conquered1 whom should he have governed8 ,he chose his very life-guard from among his enemies1 and the flower of the ,romans owed their lives to his clemency4 ,nay1 he only punished ,lepidus himself with banishment1 and permitted him to wear the ensigns of his dignity1 without taking the pontificate to himself so long as ,lepidus was living2 for he would not possess it as a spoil1 but as an honor4 ,this clemency it was that secured him in his greatness1 and ingratiated him to the people1 though he laid his hand upon the government before they had thoroughly submitted to the yoke2 and this clemency it was that made his name famous to posterity4 ,this is it that makes us reckon him divine without the authority of an apotheosis4 ,he was so tender and patient1 that though many a bitter jest was broken upon him1 7and contumelies upon princes are the most intolerable of all injuries7 yet he never punished any man upon that subject4 ,it is1 then1 generous to be merciful1 when we have it in our power to take revenge4 ,a son of ,titus ,arius1 being examined and found guilty of parricide1 was banished ,rome1 and confined to ,marseilles1 where his father allowed him the same annuity that he had before2 which made all people conclude him guilty1 when they saw that his father had yet condemned the son that he could not hate4 ,augustus was pleased to sit upon the fact in the house of ,arius1 only as a single member of the council that was to examine it3 if it had been in ,csar's palace1 the judgment must have been ,csar's and not the father's4 ,upon a full hearing of the matter1 ,csar directed that every man should write his opinion whether guilty or not1 and without declaring of his own1 for fear of a partial vote4 ,before the opening of the books1 ,csar passed an oath1 that he would not be ,arius's heir3 and to show that he had no interest in his sentence1 as appeared afterward2 for he was not condemned to the ordinary punishments of parricides1 nor to a prison1 but1 by the mediation of ,csar1 only banished ,rome1 and confined to the place which his father should name2 ,augustus insisting upon it1 that the father should content himself with an easy punishment3 and arguing that the young man was not moved to the attempt by malice1 and that he was but half resolved upon the fact1 for he wavered in it2 and1 therefore1 to remove him from the city1 and from his father's sight1 would be sufficient4 ,this is a glorious mercy1 and worthy of a prince1 to make all things gentler wherever he comes4 ,how miserable is that man in himself1 who1 when he has employed his power in rapines and cruelty upon others1 is yet more unhappy in himself6 ,he stands in fear both of his domestics and of strangers2 the faith of his friends and the piety of his children1 and flies to actual violence to secure him from the violence he fears4 ,when he comes to look about him1 and to consider what he has done1 what he must1 and what he is about to do2 what with the wickedness1 and with the torments of his conscience1 many times he fears death1 oftener he wishes for it2 and lives more odious to himself than to his subjects2 whereas on the contrary1 he that takes a care of the public1 though of one part more perhaps than of another1 yet there is not any part of it but he looks upon as part of himself4 ,his mind is tender and gentle2 and even where punishment is necessary and profitable1 he comes to it unwillingly1 and without any rancor or enmity in his heart4 ,let the authority1 in fine1 be what it will1 clemency becomes it2 and the greater the power1 the greater is the glory of it4 8,it is a truly royal virtue for a prince to deliver his people from other men's anger1 and not to oppress them with his own40 99 99 99 99 99 ,transcriber's note3 ,obvious typographical errors have been corrected silently4 ,other variations in hyphenation1 spelling and punctuation remain unchanged4