,,emile ,by ,jean-,jacques ,rousseau ,translated by ,barbara ,foxley ,author's ,preface ,this collection of scattered thoughts and observations has little order or continuity2 it was begun to give pleasure to a good mother who thinks for herself4 ,my first idea was to write a tract a few pages long1 but ,i was carried away by my subject1 and before ,i knew what ,i was doing my tract had become a kind of book1 too large indeed for the matter contained in it1 but too small for the subject of which it treats4 ,for a long time ,i hesitated whether to publish it or not1 and ,i have often felt1 when at work upon it1 that it is one thing to publish a few pamphlets and another to write a book4 ,after vain attempts to improve it1 ,i have decided that it is my duty to publish it as it stands4 ,i consider that public attention requires to be directed to this subject1 and even if my own ideas are mistaken1 my time will not have been wasted if ,i stir up others to form right ideas4 ,a solitary who casts his writings before the public without any one to advertise them1 without any party ready to defend them1 one who does not even know what is thought and said about those writings1 is at least free from one anxiety--if he is mistaken1 no one will take his errors for gospel4 ,i shall say very little about the value of a good education1 nor shall ,i stop to prove that the customary method of education is bad2 this has been done again and again1 and ,i do not wish to fill my book with things which everyone knows4 ,i will merely state that1 go as far back as you will1 you will find a continual outcry against the established method1 but no attempt to suggest a better4 ,the literature and science of our day tend rather to destroy than to build up4 ,we find fault after the manner of a master2 to suggest1 we must adopt another style1 a style less in accordance with the pride of the philosopher4 ,in spite of all those books1 whose only aim1 so they say1 is public utility1 the most useful of all arts1 the art of training men1 is still neglected4 ,even after ,locke's book was written the subject remained almost untouched1 and ,i fear that my book will leave it pretty much as it found it4 ,we know nothing of childhood2 and with our mistaken notions the further we advance the further we go astray4 ,the wisest writers devote themselves to what a man ought to know1 without asking what a child is capable of learning4 ,they are always looking for the man in the child1 without considering what he is before he becomes a man4 ,it is to this study that ,i have chiefly devoted myself1 so that if my method is fanciful and unsound1 my observations may still be of service4 ,i may be greatly mistaken as to what ought to be done1 but ,i think ,i have clearly perceived the material which is to be worked upon4 ,begin thus by making a more careful study of your scholars1 for it is clear that you know nothing about them2 yet if you read this book with that end in view1 ,i think you will find that it is not entirely useless4 ,with regard to what will be called the systematic portion of the book1 which is nothing more than the course of nature1 it is here that the reader will probably go wrong1 and no doubt ,i shall be attacked on this side1 and perhaps my critics may be right4 ,you will tell me1 ,this is not so much a treatise on education as the visions of a dreamer with regard to education4 ,what can ,i do8 ,i have not written about other people's ideas of education1 but about my own4 ,my thoughts are not those of others2 this reproach has been brought against me again and again4 ,but is it within my power to furnish myself with other eyes1 or to adopt other ideas8 ,it is within my power to refuse to be wedded to my own opinions and to refuse to think myself wiser than others4 ,i cannot change my mind2 ,i can distrust myself4 ,this is all ,i can do1 and this ,i have done4 ,if ,i sometimes adopt a confident tone1 it is not to impress the reader1 it is to make my meaning plain to him4 ,why should ,i profess to suggest as doubtful that which is not a matter of doubt to myself8 ,i say just what ,i think4 ,when ,i freely express my opinion1 ,i have so little idea of claiming authority that ,i always give my reasons1 so that you may weigh and judge them for yourselves2 but though ,i would not obstinately defend my ideas1 ,i think it my duty to put them forward2 for the principles with regard to which ,i differ from other writers are not matters of indifference2 we must know whether they are true or false1 for on them depends the happiness or the misery of mankind4 ,people are always telling me to make ,,practicable suggestions4 ,you might as well tell me to suggest what people are doing already1 or at least to suggest improvements which may be incorporated with the wrong methods at present in use4 ,there are matters with regard to which such a suggestion is far more chimerical than my own1 for in such a connection the good is corrupted and the bad is none the better for it4 ,i would rather follow exactly the established method than adopt a better method by halves4 ,there would be fewer contradictions in the man2 he cannot aim at one and the same time at two different objects4 ,fathers and mothers1 what you desire that you can do4 ,may ,i count on your goodwill8 ,there are two things to be considered with regard to any scheme4 ,in the first place1 ,is it good in itself ,in the second1 ,can it be easily put into practice8 ,with regard to the first of these it is enough that the scheme should be intelligible and feasible in itself1 that what is good in it should be adapted to the nature of things1 in this case1 for example1 that the proposed method of education should be suitable to man and adapted to the human heart4 ,the second consideration depends upon certain given conditions in particular cases2 these conditions are accidental and therefore variable2 they may vary indefinitely4 ,thus one kind of education would be possible in ,switzerland and not in ,france2 another would be adapted to the middle classes but not to the nobility4 ,the scheme can be carried out1 with more or less success1 according to a multitude of circumstances1 and its results can only be determined by its special application to one country or another1 to this class or that4 ,now all these particular applications are not essential to my subject1 and they form no part of my scheme4 ,it is enough for me that1 wherever men are born into the world1 my suggestions with regard to them may be carried out1 and when you have made them what ,i would have them be1 you have done what is best for them and best for other people4 ,if ,i fail to fulfil this promise1 no doubt ,i am to blame2 but if ,i fulfil my promise1 it is your own fault if you ask anything more of me1 for ,i have promised you nothing more4 ,,book ,i ,god makes all things good2 man meddles with them and they become evil4 ,he forces one soil to yield the products of another1 one tree to bear another's fruit4 ,he confuses and confounds time1 place1 and natural conditions4 ,he mutilates his dog1 his horse1 and his slave4 ,he destroys and defaces all things2 he loves all that is deformed and monstrous2 he will have nothing as nature made it1 not even man himself1 who must learn his paces like a saddle-horse1 and be shaped to his master's taste like the trees in his garden4 ,yet things would be worse without this education1 and mankind cannot be made by halves4 ,under existing conditions a man left to himself from birth would be more of a monster than the rest4 ,prejudice1 authority1 necessity1 example1 all the social conditions into which we are plunged1 would stifle nature in him and put nothing in her place4 ,she would be like a sapling chance sown in the midst of the highway1 bent hither and thither and soon crushed by the passers-by4 ,tender1 anxious mother1 ,footnote3 ,the earliest education is most important and it undoubtedly is woman's work4 ,if the author of nature had meant to assign it to men he would have given them milk to feed the child4 ,address your treatises on education to the women1 for not only are they able to watch over it more closely than men1 not only is their influence always predominant in education1 its success concerns them more nearly1 for most widows are at the mercy of their children1 who show them very plainly whether their education was good or bad4 ,the laws1 always more concerned about property than about people1 since their object is not virtue but peace1 the laws give too little authority to the mother4 ,yet her position is more certain than that of the father1 her duties are more trying2 the right ordering of the family depends more upon her1 and she is usually fonder of her children4 ,there are occasions when a son may be excused for lack of respect for his father1 but if a child could be so unnatural as to fail in respect for the mother who bore him and nursed him at her breast1 who for so many years devoted herself to his care1 such a monstrous wretch should be smothered at once as unworthy to live4 ,you say mothers spoil their children1 and no doubt that is wrong1 but it is worse to deprave them as you do4 ,the mother wants her child to be happy now4 ,she is right1 and if her method is wrong1 she must be taught a better4 ,ambition1 avarice1 tyranny1 the mistaken foresight of fathers1 their neglect1 their harshness1 are a hundredfold more harmful to the child than the blind affection of the mother4 ,moreover1 ,i must explain what ,i mean by a mother and that explanation follows4 ,i appeal to you4 ,you can remove this young tree from the highway and shield it from the crushing force of social conventions4 ,tend and water it ere it dies4 ,one day its fruit will reward your care4 ,from the outset raise a wall round your child's soul2 another may sketch the plan1 you alone should carry it into execution4 ,plants are fashioned by cultivation1 man by education4 ,if a man were born tall and strong1 his size and strength would be of no good to him till he had learnt to use them2 they would even harm him by preventing others from coming to his aid2 ,footnote3 ,like them in externals1 but without speech and without the ideas which are expressed by speech1 he would be unable to make his wants known1 while there would be nothing in his appearance to suggest that he needed their help4 left to himself he would die of want before he knew his needs4 ,we lament the helplessness of infancy2 we fail to perceive that the race would have perished had not man begun by being a child4 ,we are born weak1 we need strength2 helpless1 we need aid2 foolish1 we need reason4 ,all that we lack at birth1 all that we need when we come to man's estate1 is the gift of education4 ,this education comes to us from nature1 from men1 or from things4 ,the inner growth of our organs and faculties is the education of nature1 the use we learn to make of this growth is the education of men1 what we gain by our experience of our surroundings is the education of things4 ,thus we are each taught by three masters4 ,if their teaching conflicts1 the scholar is ill-educated and will never be at peace with himself2 if their teaching agrees1 he goes straight to his goal1 he lives at peace with himself1 he is well-educated4 ,now of these three factors in education nature is wholly beyond our control1 things are only partly in our power2 the education of men is the only one controlled by us2 and even here our power is largely illusory1 for who can hope to direct every word and deed of all with whom the child has to do4 ,viewed as an art1 the success of education is almost impossible1 since the essential conditions of success are beyond our control4 ,our efforts may bring us within sight of the goal1 but fortune must favour us if we are to reach it4 ,what is this goal8 ,as we have just shown1 it is the goal of nature4 ,since all three modes of education must work together1 the two that we can control must follow the lead of that which is beyond our control4 ,perhaps this word ,nature has too vague a meaning4 ,let us try to define it4 ,nature1 we are told1 is merely habit4 ,what does that mean8 ,are there not habits formed under compulsion1 habits which never stifle nature8 ,such1 for example1 are the habits of plants trained horizontally4 ,the plant keeps its artificial shape1 but the sap has not changed its course1 and any new growth the plant may make will be vertical4 ,it is the same with a man's disposition2 while the conditions remain the same1 habits1 even the least natural of them1 hold good2 but change the conditions1 habits vanish1 nature reasserts herself4 ,education itself is but habit1 for are there not people who forget or lose their education and others who keep it8 ,whence comes this difference8 ,if the term nature is to be restricted to habits conformable to nature we need say no more4 ,we are born sensitive and from our birth onwards we are affected in various ways by our environment4 ,as soon as we become conscious of our sensations we tend to seek or shun the things that cause them1 at first because they are pleasant or unpleasant1 then because they suit us or not1 and at last because of judgments formed by means of the ideas of happiness and goodness which reason gives us4 ,these tendencies gain strength and permanence with the growth of reason1 but hindered by our habits they are more or less warped by our prejudices4 ,before this change they are what ,i call ,nature within us4 ,everything should therefore be brought into harmony with these natural tendencies1 and that might well be if our three modes of education merely differed from one another2 but what can be done when they conflict1 when instead of training man for himself you try to train him for others8 ,harmony becomes impossible4 ,forced to combat either nature or society1 you must make your choice between the man and the citizen1 you cannot train both4 ,the smaller social group1 firmly united in itself and dwelling apart from others1 tends to withdraw itself from the larger society4 ,every patriot hates foreigners2 they are only men1 and nothing to him4,footnote3 ,thus the wars of republics are more cruel than those of monarchies4 ,but if the wars of kings are less cruel1 their peace is terrible2 better be their foe than their subject4 ,this defect is inevitable1 but of little importance4 ,the great thing is to be kind to our neighbours4 ,among strangers the ,spartan was selfish1 grasping1 and unjust1 but unselfishness1 justice1 and harmony ruled his home life4 ,distrust those cosmopolitans who search out remote duties in their books and neglect those that lie nearest4 ,such philosophers will love the ,tartars to avoid loving their neighbour4 ,the natural man lives for himself2 he is the unit1 the whole1 dependent only on himself and on his like4 ,the citizen is but the numerator of a fraction1 whose value depends on its denominator2 his value depends upon the whole1 that is1 on the community4 ,good social institutions are those best fitted to make a man unnatural1 to exchange his independence for dependence1 to merge the unit in the group1 so that he no longer regards himself as one1 but as a part of the whole1 and is only conscious of the common life4 ,a citizen of ,rome was neither ,caius nor ,lucius1 he was a ,roman2 he ever loved his country better than his life4 ,the captive ,regulus professed himself a ,carthaginian2 as a foreigner he refused to take his seat in the ,senate except at his master's bidding4 ,he scorned the attempt to save his life4 ,he had his will1 and returned in triumph to a cruel death4 ,there is no great likeness between ,regulus and the men of our own day4 ,the ,spartan ,pedaretes presented himself for admission to the council of the ,three ,hundred and was rejected2 he went away rejoicing that there were three hundred ,spartans better than himself4 ,i suppose he was in earnest2 there is no reason to doubt it4 ,that was a citizen4 ,a ,spartan mother had five sons with the army4 ,a ,helot arrived2 trembling she asked his news4 ,your five sons are slain4 ,vile slave1 was that what ,i asked thee8 ,we have won the victory4 ,she hastened to the temple to render thanks to the gods4 ,that was a citizen4 ,he who would preserve the supremacy of natural feelings in social life knows not what he asks4 ,ever at war with himself1 hesitating between his wishes and his duties1 he will be neither a man nor a citizen4 ,he will be of no use to himself nor to others4 ,he will be a man of our day1 a ,frenchman1 an ,englishman1 one of the great middle class4 ,to be something1 to be himself1 and always at one with himself1 a man must act as he speaks1 must know what course he ought to take1 and must follow that course with vigour and persistence4 ,when ,i meet this miracle it will be time enough to decide whether he is a man or a citizen1 or how he contrives to be both4 ,two conflicting types of educational systems spring from these conflicting aims4 ,one is public and common to many1 the other private and domestic4 ,if you wish to know what is meant by public education1 read ,plato's ,republic4 ,those who merely judge books by their titles take this for a treatise on politics1 but it is the finest treatise on education ever written4 ,in popular estimation the ,platonic ,institute stands for all that is fanciful and unreal4 ,for my own part ,i should have thought the system of ,lycurgus far more impracticable had he merely committed it to writing4 ,plato only sought to purge man's heart2 ,lycurgus turned it from its natural course4 ,the public institute does not and cannot exist1 for there is neither country nor patriot4 ,the very words should be struck out of our language4 ,the reason does not concern us at present1 so that though ,i know it ,i refrain from stating it4 ,i do not consider our ridiculous colleges ,footnote3 ,there are teachers dear to me in many schools and especially in the ,university of ,paris1 men for whom ,i have a great respect1 men whom ,i believe to be quite capable of instructing young people1 if they were not compelled to follow the established custom4 ,i exhort one of them to publish the scheme of reform which he has thought out4 ,perhaps people would at length seek to cure the evil if they realised that there was a remedy4 as public institutes1 nor do ,i include under this head a fashionable education1 for this education facing two ways at once achieves nothing4 ,it is only fit to turn out hypocrites1 always professing to live for others1 while thinking of themselves alone4 ,these professions1 however1 deceive no one1 for every one has his share in them2 they are so much labour wasted4 ,our inner conflicts are caused by these contradictions4 ,drawn this way by nature and that way by man1 compelled to yield to both forces1 we make a compromise and reach neither goal4 ,we go through life1 struggling and hesitating1 and die before we have found peace1 useless alike to ourselves and to others4 ,there remains the education of the home or of nature2 but how will a man live with others if he is educated for himself alone8 ,if the twofold aims could be resolved into one by removing the man's self-contradictions1 one great obstacle to his happiness would be gone4 ,to judge of this you must see the man full-grown2 you must have noted his inclinations1 watched his progress1 followed his steps2 in a word you must really know a natural man4 ,when you have read this work1 ,i think you will have made some progress in this inquiry4 ,what must be done to train this exceptional man6 ,we can do much1 but the chief thing is to prevent anything being done4 ,to sail against the wind we merely follow one tack and another2 to keep our position in a stormy sea we must cast anchor4 ,beware1 young pilot1 lest your boat slip its cable or drag its anchor before you know it4 ,in the social order where each has his own place a man must be educated for it4 ,if such a one leave his own station he is fit for nothing else4 ,his education is only useful when fate agrees with his parents' choice2 if not1 education harms the scholar1 if only by the prejudices it has created4 ,in ,egypt1 where the son was compelled to adopt his father's calling1 education had at least a settled aim2 where social grades remain fixed1 but the men who form them are constantly changing1 no one knows whether he is not harming his son by educating him for his own class4 ,in the natural order men are all equal and their common calling is that of manhood1 so that a well-educated man cannot fail to do well in that calling and those related to it4 ,it matters little to me whether my pupil is intended for the army1 the church1 or the law4 ,before his parents chose a calling for him nature called him to be a man4 ,life is the trade ,i would teach him4 ,when he leaves me1 ,i grant you1 he will be neither a magistrate1 a soldier1 nor a priest2 he will be a man4 ,all that becomes a man he will learn as quickly as another4 ,in vain will fate change his station1 he will always be in his right place4 ,occupavi te1 fortuna1 atque cepi2 omnes-que aditus tuos interclusi1 ut ad me aspirare non posses4 ,the real object of our study is man and his environment4 ,to my mind those of us who can best endure the good and evil of life are the best educated2 hence it follows that true education consists less in precept than in practice4 ,we begin to learn when we begin to live2 our education begins with ourselves1 our first teacher is our nurse4 ,the ancients used the word ,education in a different sense1 it meant ,nurture4 ,educit obstetrix1 says ,varro4 ,educat nutrix1 instituit paedagogus1 docet magister4 ,thus1 education1 discipline1 and instruction are three things as different in their purpose as the dame1 the usher1 and the teacher4 ,but these distinctions are undesirable and the child should only follow one guide4 ,we must therefore look at the general rather than the particular1 and consider our scholar as man in the abstract1 man exposed to all the changes and chances of mortal life4 ,if men were born attached to the soil of our country1 if one season lasted all the year round1 if every man's fortune were so firmly grasped that he could never lose it1 then the established method of education would have certain advantages2 the child brought up to his own calling would never leave it1 he could never have to face the difficulties of any other condition4 ,but when we consider the fleeting nature of human affairs1 the restless and uneasy spirit of our times1 when every generation overturns the work of its predecessor1 can we conceive a more senseless plan than to educate a child as if he would never leave his room1 as if he would always have his servants about him8 ,if the wretched creature takes a single step up or down he is lost4 ,this is not teaching him to bear pain2 it is training him to feel it4 ,people think only of preserving their child's life2 this is not enough1 he must be taught to preserve his own life when he is a man1 to bear the buffets of fortune1 to brave wealth and poverty1 to live at need among the snows of ,iceland or on the scorching rocks of ,malta4 ,in vain you guard against death2 he must needs die2 and even if you do not kill him with your precautions1 they are mistaken4 ,teach him to live rather than to avoid death3 life is not breath1 but action1 the use of our senses1 our mind1 our faculties1 every part of ourselves which makes us conscious of our being4 ,life consists less in length of days than in the keen sense of living4 ,a man maybe buried at a hundred and may never have lived at all4 ,he would have fared better had he died young4 ,our wisdom is slavish prejudice1 our customs consist in control1 constraint1 compulsion4 ,civilised man is born and dies a slave4 ,the infant is bound up in swaddling clothes1 the corpse is nailed down in his coffin4 ,all his life long man is imprisoned by our institutions4 ,i am told that many midwives profess to improve the shape of the infant's head by rubbing1 and they are allowed to do it4 ,our heads are not good enough as ,god made them1 they must be moulded outside by the nurse and inside by the philosopher4 ,the ,caribs are better off than we are4 ,the child has hardly left the mother's womb1 it has hardly begun to move and stretch its limbs1 when it is deprived of its freedom4 ,it is wrapped in swaddling bands1 laid down with its head fixed1 its legs stretched out1 and its arms by its sides2 it is wound round with linen and bandages of all sorts so that it cannot move4 ,it is fortunate if it has room to breathe1 and it is laid on its side so that water which should flow from its mouth can escape1 for it is not free to turn its head on one side for this purpose4 ,the new-born child requires to stir and stretch his limbs to free them from the stiffness resulting from being curled up so long4 ,his limbs are stretched indeed1 but he is not allowed to move them4 ,even the head is confined by a cap4 ,one would think they were afraid the child should look as if it were alive4 ,thus the internal impulses which should lead to growth find an insurmountable obstacle in the way of the necessary movements4 ,the child exhausts his strength in vain struggles1 or he gains strength very slowly4 ,he was freer and less constrained in the womb2 he has gained nothing by birth4 ,the inaction1 the constraint to which the child's limbs are subjected can only check the circulation of the blood and humours2 it can only hinder the child's growth in size and strength1 and injure its constitution4 ,where these absurd precautions are absent1 all the men are tall1 strong1 and well-made4 ,where children are swaddled1 the country swarms with the hump-backed1 the lame1 the bow-legged1 the rickety1 and every kind of deformity4 ,in our fear lest the body should become deformed by free movement1 we hasten to deform it by putting it in a press4 ,we make our children helpless lest they should hurt themselves4 ,is not such a cruel bondage certain to affect both health and temper8 ,their first feeling is one of pain and suffering2 they find every necessary movement hampered2 more miserable than a galley slave1 in vain they struggle1 they become angry1 they cry4 ,their first words you say are tears4 ,that is so4 ,from birth you are always checking them1 your first gifts are fetters1 your first treatment1 torture4 ,their voice alone is free2 why should they not raise it in complaint8 ,they cry because you are hurting them2 if you were swaddled you would cry louder still4 ,what is the origin of this senseless and unnatural custom8 ,since mothers have despised their first duty and refused to nurse their own children1 they have had to be entrusted to hired nurses4 ,finding themselves the mothers of a stranger's children1 without the ties of nature1 they have merely tried to save themselves trouble4 ,a child unswaddled would need constant watching2 well swaddled it is cast into a corner and its cries are unheeded4 ,so long as the nurse's negligence escapes notice1 so long as the nursling does not break its arms or legs1 what matter if it dies or becomes a weakling for life4 ,its limbs are kept safe at the expense of its body1 and if anything goes wrong it is not the nurse's fault4 ,these gentle mothers1 having got rid of their babies1 devote themselves gaily to the pleasures of the town4 ,do they know how their children are being treated in the villages8 ,if the nurse is at all busy1 the child is hung up on a nail like a bundle of clothes and is left crucified while the nurse goes leisurely about her business4 ,children have been found in this position purple in the face1 their tightly bandaged chest forbade the circulation of the blood1 and it went to the head2 so the sufferer was considered very quiet because he had not strength to cry4 ,how long a child might survive under such conditions ,i do not know1 but it could not be long4 ,that1 ,i fancy1 is one of the chief advantages of swaddling clothes4 ,it is maintained that unswaddled infants would assume faulty positions and make movements which might injure the proper development of their limbs4 ,that is one of the empty arguments of our false wisdom which has never been confirmed by experience4 ,out of all the crowds of children who grow up with the full use of their limbs among nations wiser than ourselves1 you never find one who hurts himself or maims himself2 their movements are too feeble to be dangerous1 and when they assume an injurious position1 pain warns them to change it4 ,we have not yet decided to swaddle our kittens and puppies2 are they any the worse for this neglect8 ,children are heavier1 ,i admit1 but they are also weaker4 ,they can scarcely move1 how could they hurt themselves6 ,if you lay them on their backs1 they will lie there till they die1 like the turtle1 unable to turn itself over4 ,not content with having ceased to suckle their children1 women no longer wish to do it2 with the natural result motherhood becomes a burden2 means are found to avoid it4 ,they will destroy their work to begin it over again1 and they thus turn to the injury of the race the charm which was given them for its increase4 ,this practice1 with other causes of depopulation1 forbodes the coming fate of ,europe4 ,her arts and sciences1 her philosophy and morals1 will shortly reduce her to a desert4 ,she will be the home of wild beasts1 and her inhabitants will hardly have changed for the worse4 ,i have sometimes watched the tricks of young wives who pretend that they wish to nurse their own children4 ,they take care to be dissuaded from this whim4 ,they contrive that husbands1 doctors1 and especially mothers should intervene4 ,if a husband should let his wife nurse her own baby it would be the ruin of him2 they would make him out a murderer who wanted to be rid of her4 ,a prudent husband must sacrifice paternal affection to domestic peace4 ,fortunately for you there are women in the country districts more continent than your wives4 ,you are still more fortunate if the time thus gained is not intended for another than yourself4 ,there can be no doubt about a wife's duty1 but1 considering the contempt in which it is held1 it is doubtful whether it is not just as good for the child to be suckled by a stranger4 ,this is a question for the doctors to settle1 and in my opinion they have settled it according to the women's wishes1 ,footnote3 ,the league between the women and the doctors has always struck me as one of the oddest things in ,paris4 ,the doctors' reputation depends on the women1 and by means of the doctors the women get their own way4 ,it is easy to see what qualifications a doctor requires in ,paris if he is to become celebrated4 and for my own part ,i think it is better that the child should suck the breast of a healthy nurse rather than of a petted mother1 if he has any further evil to fear from her who has given him birth4 ,ought the question1 however1 to be considered only from the physiological point of view8 ,does not the child need a mother's care as much as her milk8 ,other women1 or even other animals1 may give him the milk she denies him1 but there is no substitute for a mother's love4 ,the woman who nurses another's child in place of her own is a bad mother2 how can she be a good nurse8 ,she may become one in time2 use will overcome nature1 but the child may perish a hundred times before his nurse has developed a mother's affection for him4 ,and this affection when developed has its drawbacks1 which should make any feeling woman afraid to put her child out to nurse4 ,is she prepared to divide her mother's rights1 or rather to abdicate them in favour of a stranger2 to see her child loving another more than herself2 to feel that the affection he retains for his own mother is a favour1 while his love for his foster-mother is a duty2 for is not some affection due where there has been a mother's care8 ,to remove this difficulty1 children are taught to look down on their nurses1 to treat them as mere servants4 ,when their task is completed the child is withdrawn or the nurse is dismissed4 ,her visits to her foster-child are discouraged by a cold reception4 ,after a few years the child never sees her again4 ,the mother expects to take her place1 and to repair by her cruelty the results of her own neglect4 ,but she is greatly mistaken2 she is making an ungrateful foster-child1 not an affectionate son2 she is teaching him ingratitude1 and she is preparing him to despise at a later day the mother who bore him1 as he now despises his nurse4 ,how emphatically would ,i speak if it were not so hopeless to keep struggling in vain on behalf of a real reform4 ,more depends on this than you realise4 ,would you restore all men to their primal duties1 begin with the mothers2 the results will surprise you4 ,every evil follows in the train of this first sin2 the whole moral order is disturbed1 nature is quenched in every breast1 the home becomes gloomy1 the spectacle of a young family no longer stirs the husband's love and the stranger's reverence4 ,the mother whose children are out of sight wins scanty esteem2 there is no home life1 the ties of nature are not strengthened by those of habit2 fathers1 mothers1 children1 brothers1 and sisters cease to exist4 ,they are almost strangers2 how should they love one another8 ,each thinks of himself first4 ,when the home is a gloomy solitude pleasure will be sought elsewhere4 ,but when mothers deign to nurse their own children1 then will be a reform in morals2 natural feeling will revive in every heart2 there will be no lack of citizens for the state2 this first step by itself will restore mutual affection4 ,the charms of home are the best antidote to vice4 ,the noisy play of children1 which we thought so trying1 becomes a delight2 mother and father rely more on each other and grow dearer to one another2 the marriage tie is strengthened4 ,in the cheerful home life the mother finds her sweetest duties and the father his pleasantest recreation4 ,thus the cure of this one evil would work a wide-spread reformation2 nature would regain her rights4 ,when women become good mothers1 men will be good husbands and fathers4 ,my words are vain6 ,when we are sick of worldly pleasures we do not return to the pleasures of the home4 ,women have ceased to be mothers1 they do not and will not return to their duty4 ,could they do it if they would8 ,the contrary custom is firmly established2 each would have to overcome the opposition of her neighbours1 leagued together against the example which some have never given and others do not desire to follow4 ,yet there are still a few young women of good natural disposition who refuse to be the slaves of fashion and rebel against the clamour of other women1 who fulfil the sweet task imposed on them by nature4 ,would that the reward in store for them might draw others to follow their example4 ,my conclusion is based upon plain reason1 and upon facts ,i have never seen disputed2 and ,i venture to promise these worthy mothers the firm and steadfast affection of their husbands and the truly filial love of their children and the respect of all the world4 ,child-birth will be easy and will leave no ill-results1 their health will be strong and vigorous1 and they will see their daughters follow their example1 and find that example quoted as a pattern to others4 ,no mother1 no child2 their duties are reciprocal1 and when ill done by the one they will be neglected by the other4 ,the child should love his mother before he knows what he owes her4 ,if the voice of instinct is not strengthened by habit it soon dies1 the heart is still-born4 ,from the outset we have strayed from the path of nature4 ,there is another by-way which may tempt our feet from the path of nature4 ,the mother may lavish excessive care on her child instead of neglecting him2 she may make an idol of him2 she may develop and increase his weakness to prevent him feeling it2 she wards off every painful experience in the hope of withdrawing him from the power of nature1 and fails to realise that for every trifling ill from which she preserves him the future holds in store many accidents and dangers1 and that it is a cruel kindness to prolong the child's weakness when the grown man must bear fatigue4 ,thetis1 so the story goes1 plunged her son in the waters of ,styx to make him invulnerable4 ,the truth of this allegory is apparent4 ,the cruel mothers ,i speak of do otherwise2 they plunge their children into softness1 and they are preparing suffering for them1 they open the way to every kind of ill1 which their children will not fail to experience after they grow up4 ,fix your eyes on nature1 follow the path traced by her4 ,she keeps children at work1 she hardens them by all kinds of difficulties1 she soon teaches them the meaning of pain and grief4 ,they cut their teeth and are feverish1 sharp colics bring on convulsions1 they are choked by fits of coughing and tormented by worms1 evil humours corrupt the blood1 germs of various kinds ferment in it1 causing dangerous eruptions4 ,sickness and danger play the chief part in infancy4 ,one half of the children who are born die before their eighth year4 ,the child who has overcome hardships has gained strength1 and as soon as he can use his life he holds it more securely4 ,this is nature's law2 why contradict it8 ,do you not see that in your efforts to improve upon her handiwork you are destroying it2 her cares are wasted8 ,to do from without what she does within is according to you to increase the danger twofold4 ,on the contrary1 it is the way to avert it2 experience shows that children delicately nurtured are more likely to die4 ,provided we do not overdo it1 there is less risk in using their strength than in sparing it4 ,accustom them therefore to the hardships they will have to face2 train them to endure extremes of temperature1 climate1 and condition1 hunger1 thirst1 and weariness4 ,dip them in the waters of ,styx4 ,before bodily habits become fixed you may teach what habits you will without any risk1 but once habits are established any change is fraught with peril4 ,a child will bear changes which a man cannot bear1 the muscles of the one are soft and flexible1 they take whatever direction you give them without any effort2 the muscles of the grown man are harder and they only change their accustomed mode of action when subjected to violence4 ,so we can make a child strong without risking his life or health1 and even if there were some risk1 it should not be taken into consideration4 ,since human life is full of dangers1 can we do better than face them at a time when they can do the least harm8 ,a child's worth increases with his years4 ,to his personal value must be added the cost of the care bestowed upon him4 ,for himself there is not only loss of life1 but the consciousness of death4 ,we must therefore think most of his future in our efforts for his preservation4 ,he must be protected against the ills of youth before he reaches them3 for if the value of life increases until the child reaches an age when he can be useful1 what madness to spare some suffering in infancy only to multiply his pain when he reaches the age of reason4 ,is that what our master teaches us8 ,man is born to suffer2 pain is the means of his preservation4 ,his childhood is happy1 knowing only pain of body4 ,these bodily sufferings are much less cruel1 much less painful1 than other forms of suffering1 and they rarely lead to self-destruction4 ,it is not the twinges of gout which make a man kill himself1 it is mental suffering that leads to despair4 ,we pity the sufferings of childhood2 we should pity ourselves2 our worst sorrows are of our own making4 ,the new-born infant cries1 his early days are spent in crying4 ,he is alternately petted and shaken by way of soothing him2 sometimes he is threatened1 sometimes beaten1 to keep him quiet4 ,we do what he wants or we make him do what we want1 we submit to his whims or subject him to our own4 ,there is no middle course2 he must rule or obey4 ,thus his earliest ideas are those of the tyrant or the slave4 ,he commands before he can speak1 he obeys before he can act1 and sometimes he is punished for faults before he is aware of them1 or rather before they are committed4 ,thus early are the seeds of evil passions sown in his young heart4 ,at a later day these are attributed to nature1 and when we have taken pains to make him bad we lament his badness4 ,in this way the child passes six or seven years in the hands of women1 the victim of his own caprices or theirs1 and after they have taught him all sorts of things1 when they have burdened his memory with words he cannot understand1 or things which are of no use to him1 when nature has been stifled by the passions they have implanted in him1 this sham article is sent to a tutor4 ,the tutor completes the development of the germs of artificiality which he finds already well grown1 he teaches him everything except self-knowledge and self-control1 the arts of life and happiness4 ,when at length this infant slave and tyrant1 crammed with knowledge but empty of sense1 feeble alike in mind and body1 is flung upon the world1 and his helplessness1 his pride1 and his other vices are displayed1 we begin to lament the wretchedness and perversity of mankind4 ,we are wrong2 this is the creature of our fantasy2 the natural man is cast in another mould4 ,would you keep him as nature made him8 ,watch over him from his birth4 ,take possession of him as soon as he comes into the world and keep him till he is a man2 you will never succeed otherwise4 ,the real nurse is the mother and the real teacher is the father4 ,let them agree in the ordering of their duties as well as in their method1 let the child pass from one to the other4 ,he will be better educated by a sensible though ignorant father than by the cleverest master in the world4 ,for zeal will atone for lack of knowledge1 rather than knowledge for lack of zeal4 ,but the duties of public and private business6 ,duty indeed6 ,does a father's duty come last4 ,footnote3 ,when we read in ,plutarch that ,cato the ,censor1 who ruled ,rome with such glory1 brought up his own sons from the cradle1 and so carefully that he left everything to be present when their nurse1 that is to say their mother1 bathed them2 when we read in ,suetonius that ,augustus1 the master of the world which he had conquered and which he himself governed1 himself taught his grandsons to write1 to swim1 to understand the beginnings of science1 and that he always had them with him1 we cannot help smiling at the little people of those days who amused themselves with such follies1 and who were too ignorant1 no doubt1 to attend to the great affairs of the great people of our own time4 ,it is not surprising that the man whose wife despises the duty of suckling her child should despise its education4 ,there is no more charming picture than that of family life2 but when one feature is wanting the whole is marred4 ,if the mother is too delicate to nurse her child1 the father will be too busy to teach him4 ,their children1 scattered about in schools1 convents1 and colleges1 will find the home of their affections elsewhere1 or rather they will form the habit of caring for nothing4 ,brothers and sisters will scarcely know each other2 when they are together in company they will behave as strangers4 ,when there is no confidence between relations1 when the family society ceases to give savour to life1 its place is soon usurped by vice4 ,is there any man so stupid that he cannot see how all this hangs together8 ,a father has done but a third of his task when he begets children and provides a living for them4 ,he owes men to humanity1 citizens to the state4 ,a man who can pay this threefold debt and neglect to do so is guilty1 more guilty1 perhaps1 if he pays it in part than when he neglects it entirely4 ,he has no right to be a father if he cannot fulfil a father's duties4 ,poverty1 pressure of business1 mistaken social prejudices1 none of these can excuse a man from his duty1 which is to support and educate his own children4 ,if a man of any natural feeling neglects these sacred duties he will repent it with bitter tears and will never be comforted4 ,but what does this rich man do1 this father of a family1 compelled1 so he says1 to neglect his children8 ,he pays another man to perform those duties which are his alone4 ,mercenary man6 do you expect to purchase a second father for your child8 ,do not deceive yourself2 it is not even a master you have hired for him1 it is a flunkey1 who will soon train such another as himself4 ,there is much discussion as to the characteristics of a good tutor4 ,my first requirement1 and it implies a good many more1 is that he should not take up his task for reward4 ,there are callings so great that they cannot be undertaken for money without showing our unfitness for them2 such callings are those of the soldier and the teacher4 ,but who must train my child8 ,i have just told you1 you should do it yourself4 ,i cannot4 ,you cannot6 ,then find a friend4 ,i see no other course4 ,a tutor6 ,what a noble soul6 ,indeed for the training of a man one must either be a father or more than man4 ,it is this duty you would calmly hand over to a hireling6 ,the more you think of it the harder you will find it4 ,the tutor must have been trained for his pupil1 his servants must have been trained for their master1 so that all who come near him may have received the impression which is to be transmitted to him4 ,we must pass from education to education1 ,i know not how far4 ,how can a child be well educated by one who has not been well educated himself6 ,can such a one be found8 ,i know not4 ,in this age of degradation who knows the height of virtue to which man's soul may attain8 ,but let us assume that this prodigy has been discovered4 ,we shall learn what he should be from the consideration of his duties4 ,i fancy the father who realises the value of a good tutor will contrive to do without one1 for it will be harder to find one than to become such a tutor himself2 he need search no further1 nature herself having done half the work4 ,some one whose rank alone is known to me suggested that ,i should educate his son4 ,he did me a great honour1 no doubt1 but far from regretting my refusal1 he ought to congratulate himself on my prudence4 ,had the offer been accepted1 and had ,i been mistaken in my method1 there would have been an education ruined2 had ,i succeeded1 things would have been worse--his son would have renounced his title and refused to be a prince4 ,i feel too deeply the importance of a tutor's duties and my own unfitness1 ever to accept such a post1 whoever offered it1 and even the claims of friendship would be only an additional motive for my refusal4 ,few1 ,i think1 will be tempted to make me such an offer when they have read this book1 and ,i beg any one who would do so to spare his pains4 ,i have had enough experience of the task to convince myself of my own unfitness1 and my circumstances would make it impossible1 even if my talents were such as to fit me for it4 ,i have thought it my duty to make this public declaration to those who apparently refuse to do me the honour of believing in the sincerity of my determination4 ,if ,i am unable to undertake the more useful task1 ,i will at least venture to attempt the easier one2 ,i will follow the example of my predecessors and take up1 not the task1 but my pen2 and instead of doing the right thing ,i will try to say it4 ,i know that in such an undertaking the author1 who ranges at will among theoretical systems1 utters many fine precepts impossible to practise1 and even when he says what is practicable it remains undone for want of details and examples as to its application4 ,i have therefore decided to take an imaginary pupil1 to assume on my own part the age1 health1 knowledge1 and talents required for the work of his education1 to guide him from birth to manhood1 when he needs no guide but himself4 ,this method seems to me useful for an author who fears lest he may stray from the practical to the visionary2 for as soon as he departs from common practice he has only to try his method on his pupil2 he will soon know1 or the reader will know for him1 whether he is following the development of the child and the natural growth of the human heart4 ,this is what ,i have tried to do4 ,lest my book should be unduly bulky1 ,i have been content to state those principles the truth of which is self-evident4 ,but as to the rules which call for proof1 ,i have applied them to ,emile or to others1 and ,i have shown1 in very great detail1 how my theories may be put into practice4 ,such at least is my plan2 the reader must decide whether ,i have succeeded4 ,at first ,i have said little about ,emile1 for my earliest maxims of education1 though very different from those generally accepted1 are so plain that it is hard for a man of sense to refuse to accept them1 but as ,i advance1 my scholar1 educated after another fashion than yours1 is no longer an ordinary child1 he needs a special system4 ,then he appears upon the scene more frequently1 and towards the end ,i never lose sight of him for a moment1 until1 whatever he may say1 he needs me no longer4 ,i pass over the qualities required in a good tutor2 ,i take them for granted1 and assume that ,i am endowed with them4 ,as you read this book you will see how generous ,i have been to myself4 ,i will only remark that1 contrary to the received opinion1 a child's tutor should be young1 as young indeed as a man may well be who is also wise4 ,were it possible1 he should become a child himself1 that he may be the companion of his pupil and win his confidence by sharing his games4 ,childhood and age have too little in common for the formation of a really firm affection4 ,children sometimes flatter old men2 they never love them4 ,people seek a tutor who has already educated one pupil4 ,this is too much2 one man can only educate one pupil2 if two were essential to success1 what right would he have to undertake the first8 ,with more experience you may know better what to do1 but you are less capable of doing it2 once this task has been well done1 you will know too much of its difficulties to attempt it a second time--if ill done1 the first attempt augurs badly for the second4 ,it is one thing to follow a young man about for four years1 another to be his guide for five-and-twenty4 ,you find a tutor for your son when he is already formed2 ,i want one for him before he is born4 ,your man may change his pupil every five years2 mine will never have but one pupil4 ,you distinguish between the teacher and the tutor4 ,another piece of folly6 ,do you make any distinction between the pupil and the scholar8 ,there is only one science for children to learn--the duties of man4 ,this science is one1 and1 whatever ,xenophon may say of the education of the ,persians1 it is indivisible4 ,besides1 ,i prefer to call the man who has this knowledge master rather than teacher1 since it is a question of guidance rather than instruction4 ,he must not give precepts1 he must let the scholar find them out for himself4 ,if the master is to be so carefully chosen1 he may well choose his pupil1 above all when he proposes to set a pattern for others4 ,this choice cannot depend on the child's genius or character1 as ,i adopt him before he is born1 and they are only known when my task is finished4 ,if ,i had my choice ,i would take a child of ordinary mind1 such as ,i assume in my pupil4 ,it is ordinary people who have to be educated1 and their education alone can serve as a pattern for the education of their fellows4 ,the others find their way alone4 ,the birthplace is not a matter of indifference in the education of man2 it is only in temperate climes that he comes to his full growth4 ,the disadvantages of extremes are easily seen4 ,a man is not planted in one place like a tree1 to stay there the rest of his life1 and to pass from one extreme to another you must travel twice as far as he who starts half-way4 ,if the inhabitant of a temperate climate passes in turn through both extremes his advantage is plain1 for although he may be changed as much as he who goes from one extreme to the other1 he only removes half-way from his natural condition4 ,a ,frenchman can live in ,new ,guinea or in ,lapland1 but a negro cannot live in ,tornea nor a ,samoyed in ,benin4 ,it seems also as if the brain were less perfectly organised in the two extremes4 ,neither the negroes nor the ,laps are as wise as ,europeans4 ,so if ,i want my pupil to be a citizen of the world ,i will choose him in the temperate zone1 in ,france for example1 rather than elsewhere4 ,in the north with its barren soil men devour much food1 in the fertile south they eat little4 ,this produces another difference3 the one is industrious1 the other contemplative4 ,society shows us1 in one and the same spot1 a similar difference between rich and poor4 ,the one dwells in a fertile land1 the other in a barren land4 ,the poor man has no need of education4 ,the education of his own station in life is forced upon him1 he can have no other2 the education received by the rich man from his own station is least fitted for himself and for society4 ,moreover1 a natural education should fit a man for any position4 ,now it is more unreasonable to train a poor man for wealth than a rich man for poverty1 for in proportion to their numbers more rich men are ruined and fewer poor men become rich4 ,let us choose our scholar among the rich2 we shall at least have made another man2 the poor may come to manhood without our help4 ,for the same reason ,i should not be sorry if ,emile came of a good family4 ,he will be another victim snatched from prejudice4 ,emile is an orphan4 ,no matter whether he has father or mother1 having undertaken their duties ,i am invested with their rights4 ,he must honour his parents1 but he must obey me4 ,that is my first and only condition4 ,i must add that there is just one other point arising out of this2 we must never be separated except by mutual consent4 ,this clause is essential1 and ,i would have tutor and scholar so inseparable that they should regard their fate as one4 ,if once they perceive the time of their separation drawing near1 the time which must make them strangers to one another1 they become strangers then and there2 each makes his own little world1 and both of them being busy in thought with the time when they will no longer be together1 they remain together against their will4 ,the disciple regards his master as the badge and scourge of childhood1 the master regards his scholar as a heavy burden which he longs to be rid of4 ,both are looking forward to the time when they will part1 and as there is never any real affection between them1 there will be scant vigilance on the one hand1 and on the other scant obedience4 ,but when they consider they must always live together1 they must needs love one another1 and in this way they really learn to love one another4 ,the pupil is not ashamed to follow as a child the friend who will be with him in manhood2 the tutor takes an interest in the efforts whose fruits he will enjoy1 and the virtues he is cultivating in his pupil form a store laid up for his old age4 ,this agreement made beforehand assumes a normal birth1 a strong1 well-made1 healthy child4 ,a father has no choice1 and should have no preference within the limits of the family ,god has given him2 all his children are his alike1 the same care and affection is due to all4 ,crippled or well-made1 weak or strong1 each of them is a trust for which he is responsible to the ,giver1 and nature is a party to the marriage contract along with husband and wife4 ,but if you undertake a duty not imposed upon you by nature1 you must secure beforehand the means for its fulfilment1 unless you would undertake duties you cannot fulfil4 ,if you take the care of a sickly1 unhealthy child1 you are a sick nurse1 not a tutor4 ,to preserve a useless life you are wasting the time which should be spent in increasing its value1 you risk the sight of a despairing mother reproaching you for the death of her child1 who ought to have died long ago4 ,i would not undertake the care of a feeble1 sickly child1 should he live to four score years4 ,i want no pupil who is useless alike to himself and others1 one whose sole business is to keep himself alive1 one whose body is always a hindrance to the training of his mind4 ,if ,i vainly lavish my care upon him1 what can ,i do but double the loss to society by robbing it of two men1 instead of one8 ,let another tend this weakling for me2 ,i am quite willing1 ,i approve his charity1 but ,i myself have no gift for such a task2 ,i could never teach the art of living to one who needs all his strength to keep himself alive4 ,the body must be strong enough to obey the mind2 a good servant must be strong4 ,i know that intemperance stimulates the passions2 in course of time it also destroys the body2 fasting and penance often produce the same results in an opposite way4 ,the weaker the body1 the more imperious its demands2 the stronger it is1 the better it obeys4 ,all sensual passions find their home in effeminate bodies2 the less satisfaction they can get the keener their sting4 ,a feeble body makes a feeble mind4 ,hence the influence of physic1 an art which does more harm to man than all the evils it professes to cure4 ,i do not know what the doctors cure us of1 but ,i know this3 they infect us with very deadly diseases1 cowardice1 timidity1 credulity1 the fear of death4 ,what matter if they make the dead walk1 we have no need of corpses2 they fail to give us men1 and it is men we need4 ,medicine is all the fashion in these days1 and very naturally4 ,it is the amusement of the idle and unemployed1 who do not know what to do with their time1 and so spend it in taking care of themselves4 ,if by ill-luck they had happened to be born immortal1 they would have been the most miserable of men2 a life they could not lose would be of no value to them4 ,such men must have doctors to threaten and flatter them1 to give them the only pleasure they can enjoy1 the pleasure of not being dead4 ,i will say no more at present as to the uselessness of medicine4 ,my aim is to consider its bearings on morals4 ,still ,i cannot refrain from saying that men employ the same sophism about medicine as they do about the search for truth4 ,they assume that the patient is cured and that the seeker after truth finds it4 ,they fail to see that against one life saved by the doctors you must set a hundred slain1 and against the value of one truth discovered the errors which creep in with it4 ,the science which instructs and the medicine which heals are no doubt excellent1 but the science which misleads us and the medicine which kills us are evil4 ,teach us to know them apart4 ,that is the real difficulty4 ,if we were content to be ignorant of truth we should not be the dupes of falsehood2 if we did not want to be cured in spite of nature1 we should not be killed by the doctors4 ,we should do well to steer clear of both1 and we should evidently be the gainers4 ,i do not deny that medicine is useful to some men2 ,i assert that it is fatal to mankind4 ,you will tell me1 as usual1 that the doctors are to blame1 that medicine herself is infallible4 ,well and good1 then give us the medicine without the doctor1 for when we have both1 the blunders of the artist are a hundredfold greater than our hopes from the art4 ,this lying art1 invented rather for the ills of the mind than of the body1 is useless to both alike2 it does less to cure us of our diseases than to fill us with alarm4 ,it does less to ward off death than to make us dread its approach4 ,it exhausts life rather than prolongs it2 should it even prolong life it would only be to the prejudice of the race1 since it makes us set its precautions before society and our fears before our duties4 ,it is the knowledge of danger that makes us afraid4 ,if we thought ourselves invulnerable we should know no fear4 ,the poet armed ,achilles against danger and so robbed him of the merit of courage2 on such terms any man would be an ,achilles4 ,would you find a really brave man8 ,seek him where there are no doctors1 where the results of disease are unknown1 and where death is little thought of4 ,by nature a man bears pain bravely and dies in peace4 ,it is the doctors with their rules1 the philosophers with their precepts1 the priests with their exhortations1 who debase the heart and make us afraid to die4 ,give me a pupil who has no need of these1 or ,i will have nothing to do with him4 ,no one else shall spoil my work1 ,i will educate him myself or not at all4 ,that wise man1 ,locke1 who had devoted part of his life to the study of medicine1 advises us to give no drugs to the child1 whether as a precaution1 or on account of slight ailments4 ,i will go farther1 and will declare that1 as ,i never call in a doctor for myself1 ,i will never send for one for ,emile1 unless his life is clearly in danger1 when the doctor can but kill him4 ,i know the doctor will make capital out of my delay4 ,if the child dies1 he was called in too late2 if he recovers1 it is his doing4 ,so be it2 let the doctor boast1 but do not call him in except in extremity4 ,as the child does not know how to be cured1 he knows how to be ill4 ,the one art takes the place of the other and is often more successful2 it is the art of nature4 ,when a beast is ill1 it keeps quiet and suffers in silence2 but we see fewer sickly animals than sick men4 ,how many men have been slain by impatience1 fear1 anxiety1 and above all by medicine1 men whom disease would have spared1 and time alone have cured4 ,i shall be told that animals1 who live according to nature1 are less liable to disease than ourselves4 ,well1 that way of living is just what ,i mean to teach my pupil2 he should profit by it in the same way4 ,hygiene is the only useful part of medicine1 and hygiene is rather a virtue than a science4 ,temperance and industry are man's true remedies2 work sharpens his appetite and temperance teaches him to control it4 ,to learn what system is most beneficial you have only to study those races remarkable for health1 strength1 and length of days4 ,if common observation shows us that medicine neither increases health nor prolongs life1 it follows that this useless art is worse than useless1 since it wastes time1 men1 and things on what is pure loss4 ,not only must we deduct the time spent1 not in using life1 but preserving it1 but if this time is spent in tormenting ourselves it is worse than wasted1 it is so much to the bad1 and to reckon fairly a corresponding share must be deducted from what remains to us4 ,a man who lives ten years for himself and others without the help of doctors lives more for himself and others than one who spends thirty years as their victim4 ,i have tried both1 so ,i think ,i have a better right than most to draw my own conclusions4 ,for these reasons ,i decline to take any but a strong and healthy pupil1 and these are my principles for keeping him in health4 ,i will not stop to prove at length the value of manual labour and bodily exercise for strengthening the health and constitution2 no one denies it4 ,nearly all the instances of long life are to be found among the men who have taken most exercise1 who have endured fatigue and labour4 ,footnote3 ,i cannot help quoting the following passage from an ,english newspaper1 as it throws much light on my opinions3 ,a certain ,patrick ,o',neil1 born in #afdg1 has just married his seventh wife in #agfj4 ,in the seventeenth year of ,charles ,,ii4 he served in the dragoons and in other regiments up to #agdj1 when he took his discharge4 ,he served in all the campaigns of ,william ,,iii4 and ,marlborough4 ,this man has never drunk anything but small beer2 he has always lived on vegetables1 and has never eaten meat except on few occasions when he made a feast for his relations4 ,he has always been accustomed to rise with the sun and go to bed at sunset unless prevented by his military duties4 ,he is now in his #acjth year2 he is healthy1 his hearing is good1 and he walks with the help of a stick4 ,in spite of his great age he is never idle1 and every ,sunday he goes to his parish church accompanied by his children1 grandchildren1 and great grandchildren4 ,neither will ,i enter into details as to the care ,i shall take for this alone4 ,it will be clear that it forms such an essential part of my practice that it is enough to get hold of the idea without further explanation4 ,when our life begins our needs begin too4 ,the new-born infant must have a nurse4 ,if his mother will do her duty1 so much the better2 her instructions will be given her in writing1 but this advantage has its drawbacks1 it removes the tutor from his charge4 ,but it is to be hoped that the child's own interests1 and her respect for the person to whom she is about to confide so precious a treasure1 will induce the mother to follow the master's wishes1 and whatever she does you may be sure she will do better than another4 ,if we must have a strange nurse1 make a good choice to begin with4 ,it is one of the misfortunes of the rich to be cheated on all sides2 what wonder they think ill of mankind6 ,it is riches that corrupt men1 and the rich are rightly the first to feel the defects of the only tool they know4 ,everything is ill-done for them1 except what they do themselves1 and they do next to nothing4 ,when a nurse must be selected the choice is left to the doctor4 ,what happens8 ,the best nurse is the one who offers the highest bribe4 ,i shall not consult the doctor about ,emile's nurse1 ,i shall take care to choose her myself4 ,i may not argue about it so elegantly as the surgeon1 but ,i shall be more reliable1 ,i shall be less deceived by my zeal than the doctor by his greed4 ,there is no mystery about this choice2 its rules are well known1 but ,i think we ought probably to pay more attention to the age of the milk as well as its quality4 ,the first milk is watery1 it must be almost an aperient1 to purge the remains of the meconium curdled in the bowels of the new-born child4 ,little by little the milk thickens and supplies more solid food as the child is able to digest it4 ,it is surely not without cause that nature changes the milk in the female of every species according to the age of the offspring4 ,thus a new-born child requires a nurse who has recently become mother4 ,there is1 ,i know1 a difficulty here1 but as soon as we leave the path of nature there are difficulties in the way of all well-doing4 ,the wrong course is the only right one under the circumstances1 so we take it4 ,the nurse must be healthy alike in disposition and in body4 ,the violence of the passions as well as the humours may spoil her milk4 ,moreover1 to consider the body only is to keep only half our aim in view4 ,the milk may be good and the nurse bad2 a good character is as necessary as a good constitution4 ,if you choose a vicious person1 ,i do not say her foster-child will acquire her vices1 but he will suffer for them4 ,ought she not to bestow on him day by day1 along with her milk1 a care which calls for zeal1 patience1 gentleness1 and cleanliness4 ,if she is intemperate and greedy her milk will soon be spoilt2 if she is careless and hasty what will become of a poor little wretch left to her mercy1 and unable either to protect himself or to complain4 ,the wicked are never good for anything4 ,the choice is all the more important because her foster-child should have no other guardian1 just as he should have no teacher but his tutor4 ,this was the custom of the ancients1 who talked less but acted more wisely than we4 ,the nurse never left her foster-daughter2 this is why the nurse is the confidante in most of their plays4 ,a child who passes through many hands in turn1 can never be well brought up4 ,at every change he makes a secret comparison1 which continually tends to lessen his respect for those who control him1 and with it their authority over him4 ,if once he thinks there are grown-up people with no more sense than children the authority of age is destroyed and his education is ruined4 ,a child should know no betters but its father and mother1 or failing them its foster-mother and its tutor1 and even this is one too many1 but this division is inevitable1 and the best that can be done in the way of remedy is that the man and woman who control him shall be so well agreed with regard to him that they seem like one4 ,the nurse must live rather more comfortably1 she must have rather more substantial food1 but her whole way of living must not be altered1 for a sudden change1 even a change for the better1 is dangerous to health1 and since her usual way of life has made her healthy and strong1 why change it8 ,country women eat less meat and more vegetables than towns-women1 and this vegetarian diet seems favourable rather than otherwise to themselves and their children4 ,when they take nurslings from the upper classes they eat meat and broth with the idea that they will form better chyle and supply more milk4 ,i do not hold with this at all1 and experience is on my side1 for we do not find children fed in this way less liable to colic and worms4 ,that need not surprise us1 for decaying animal matter swarms with worms1 but this is not the case with vegetable matter4 ,footnote3 ,women eat bread1 vegetables1 and dairy produce2 female dogs and cats do the same2 the she-wolves eat grass4 ,this supplies vegetable juices to their milk4 ,there are still those species which are unable to eat anything but flesh1 if such there are1 which ,i very much doubt4 ,milk1 although manufactured in the body of an animal1 is a vegetable substance2 this is shown by analysis2 it readily turns acid1 and far from showing traces of any volatile alkali like animal matter1 it gives a neutral salt like plants4 ,the milk of herbivorous creatures is sweeter and more wholesome than the milk of the carnivorous2 formed of a substance similar to its own1 it keeps its goodness and becomes less liable to putrifaction4 ,if quantity is considered1 it is well known that farinaceous foods produce more blood than meat1 so they ought to yield more milk4 ,if a child were not weaned too soon1 and if it were fed on vegetarian food1 and its foster-mother were a vegetarian1 ,i do not think it would be troubled with worms4 ,milk derived from vegetable foods may perhaps be more liable to go sour1 but ,i am far from considering sour milk an unwholesome food2 whole nations have no other food and are none the worse1 and all the array of absorbents seems to me mere humbug4 ,there are constitutions which do not thrive on milk1 others can take it without absorbents4 ,people are afraid of the milk separating or curdling2 that is absurd1 for we know that milk always curdles in the stomach4 ,this is how it becomes sufficiently solid to nourish children and young animals2 if it did not curdle it would merely pass away without feeding them4 ,footnote3 ,although the juices which nourish us are liquid1 they must be extracted from solids4 ,a hard-working man who ate nothing but soup would soon waste away4 ,he would be far better fed on milk1 just because it curdles4 ,in vain you dilute milk and use absorbents2 whoever swallows milk digests cheese1 this rule is without exception2 rennet is made from a calf's stomach4 ,instead of changing the nurse's usual diet1 ,i think it would be enough to give food in larger quantities and better of its kind4 ,it is not the nature of the food that makes a vegetable diet indigestible1 but the flavouring that makes it unwholesome4 ,reform your cookery1 use neither butter nor oil for frying4 ,butter1 salt1 and milk should never be cooked4 ,let your vegetables be cooked in water and only seasoned when they come to table4 ,the vegetable diet1 far from disturbing the nurse1 will give her a plentiful supply of milk4 ,footnote3 ,those who wish to study a full account of the advantages and disadvantages of the ,pythagorean regime1 may consult the works of ,dr4 ,cocchi and his opponent ,dr4 ,bianchi on this important subject4 ,if a vegetable diet is best for the child1 how can meat food be best for his nurse8 ,the things are contradictory4 ,fresh air affects children's constitutions1 particularly in early years4 ,it enters every pore of a soft and tender skin1 it has a powerful effect on their young bodies4 ,its effects can never be destroyed4 ,so ,i should not agree with those who take a country woman from her village and shut her up in one room in a town and her nursling with her4 ,i would rather send him to breathe the fresh air of the country than the foul air of the town4 ,he will take his new mother's position1 will live in her cottage1 where his tutor will follow him4 ,the reader will bear in mind that this tutor is not a paid servant1 but the father's friend4 ,but if this friend cannot be found1 if this transfer is not easy1 if none of my advice can be followed1 you will say to me1 ,what shall ,i do instead8 ,i have told you already--,do what you are doing2 no advice is needed there4 ,men are not made to be crowded together in ant-hills1 but scattered over the earth to till it4 ,the more they are massed together1 the more corrupt they become4 ,disease and vice are the sure results of over-crowded cities4 ,of all creatures man is least fitted to live in herds4 ,huddled together like sheep1 men would very soon die4 ,man's breath is fatal to his fellows4 ,this is literally as well as figuratively true4 ,men are devoured by our towns4 ,in a few generations the race dies out or becomes degenerate2 it needs renewal1 and it is always renewed from the country4 ,send your children to renew themselves1 so to speak1 send them to regain in the open fields the strength lost in the foul air of our crowded cities4 ,women hurry home that their children may be born in the town2 they ought to do just the opposite1 especially those who mean to nurse their own children4 ,they would lose less than they think1 and in more natural surroundings the pleasures associated by nature with maternal duties would soon destroy the taste for other delights4 ,the new-born infant is first bathed in warm water to which a little wine is usually added4 ,i think the wine might be dispensed with4 ,as nature does not produce fermented liquors1 it is not likely that they are of much value to her creatures4 ,in the same way it is unnecessary to take the precaution of heating the water2 in fact among many races the new-born infants are bathed with no more ado in rivers or in the sea4 ,our children1 made tender before birth by the softness of their parents1 come into the world with a constitution already enfeebled1 which cannot be at once exposed to all the trials required to restore it to health4 ,little by little they must be restored to their natural vigour4 ,begin then by following this custom1 and leave it off gradually4 ,wash your children often1 their dirty ways show the need of this4 ,if they are only wiped their skin is injured2 but as they grow stronger gradually reduce the heat of the water1 till at last you bathe them winter and summer in cold1 even in ice-cold water4 ,to avoid risk this change must be slow1 gradual1 and imperceptible1 so you may use the thermometer for exact measurements4 ,this habit of the bath1 once established1 should never be broken off1 it must be kept up all through life4 ,i value it not only on grounds of cleanliness and present health1 but also as a wholesome means of making the muscles supple1 and accustoming them to bear without risk or effort extremes of heat and cold4 ,as he gets older ,i would have the child trained to bathe occasionally in hot water of every bearable degree1 and often in every degree of cold water4 ,now water being a denser fluid touches us at more points than air1 so that1 having learnt to bear all the variations of temperature in water1 we shall scarcely feel this of the air4 ,footnote3 ,children in towns are stifled by being kept indoors and too much wrapped up4 ,those who control them have still to learn that fresh air1 far from doing them harm1 will make them strong1 while hot air will make them weak1 will give rise to fevers1 and will eventually kill them4 ,when the child draws its first breath do not confine it in tight wrappings4 ,no cap1 no bandages1 nor swaddling clothes4 ,loose and flowing flannel wrappers1 which leave its limbs free and are not too heavy to check his movements1 not too warm to prevent his feeling the air4 ,footnote3 ,i say cradle using the common word for want of a better1 though ,i am convinced that it is never necessary and often harmful to rock children in the cradle4 ,put him in a big cradle1 well padded1 where he can move easily and safely4 ,as he begins to grow stronger1 let him crawl about the room2 let him develop and stretch his tiny limbs2 you will see him gain strength from day to day4 ,compare him with a well swaddled child of the same age and you will be surprised at their different rates of progress4 ,footnote3 ,the ancient ,peruvians wrapped their children in loose swaddling bands1 leaving the arms quite free4 ,later they placed them unswaddled in a hole in the ground1 lined with cloths1 so that the lower part of the body was in the hole1 and their arms were free and they could move the head and bend the body at will without falling or hurting themselves4 ,when they began to walk they were enticed to come to the breast4 ,the little negroes are often in a position much more difficult for sucking4 ,they cling to the mother's hip1 and cling so tightly that the mother's arm is often not needed to support them4 ,they clasp the breast with their hand and continue sucking while their mother goes on with her ordinary work4 ,these children begin to walk at two months1 or rather to crawl4 ,later on they can run on all fours almost as well as on their feet4--,buffon4 ,m4 ,buffon might also have quoted the example of ,england1 where the senseless and barbarous swaddling clothes have become almost obsolete4 ,cf4 ,la ,longue ,voyage de ,siam1 ,le ,beau ,voyage de ,canada1 etc4 ,you must expect great opposition from the nurses1 who find a half strangled baby needs much less watching4 ,besides his dirtyness is more perceptible in an open garment2 he must be attended to more frequently4 ,indeed1 custom is an unanswerable argument in some lands and among all classes of people4 ,do not argue with the nurses2 give your orders1 see them carried out1 and spare no pains to make the attention you prescribe easy in practice4 ,why not take your share in it8 ,with ordinary nurslings1 where the body alone is thought of1 nothing matters so long as the child lives and does not actually die1 but with us1 when education begins with life1 the new-born child is already a disciple1 not of his tutor1 but of nature4 ,the tutor merely studies under this master1 and sees that his orders are not evaded4 ,he watches over the infant1 he observes it1 he looks for the first feeble glimmering of intelligence1 as the ,moslem looks for the moment of the moon's rising in her first quarter4 ,we are born capable of learning1 but knowing nothing1 perceiving nothing4 ,the mind1 bound up within imperfect and half grown organs1 is not even aware of its own existence4 ,the movements and cries of the new-born child are purely reflex1 without knowledge or will4 ,suppose a child born with the size and strength of manhood1 entering upon life full grown like ,pallas from the brain of ,jupiter2 such a child-man would be a perfect idiot1 an automaton1 a statue without motion and almost without feeling2 he would see and hear nothing1 he would recognise no one1 he could not turn his eyes towards what he wanted to see2 not only would he perceive no external object1 he would not even be aware of sensation through the several sense-organs4 ,his eye would not perceive colour1 his ear sounds1 his body would be unaware of contact with neighbouring bodies1 he would not even know he had a body1 what his hands handled would be in his brain alone2 all his sensations would be united in one place1 they would exist only in the common sensorium1 he would have only one idea1 that of self1 to which he would refer all his sensations2 and this idea1 or rather this feeling1 would be the only thing in which he excelled an ordinary child4 ,this man1 full grown at birth1 would also be unable to stand on his feet1 he would need a long time to learn how to keep his balance2 perhaps he would not even be able to try to do it1 and you would see the big strong body left in one place like a stone1 or creeping and crawling like a young puppy4 ,he would feel the discomfort of bodily needs without knowing what was the matter and without knowing how to provide for these needs4 ,there is no immediate connection between the muscles of the stomach and those of the arms and legs to make him take a step towards food1 or stretch a hand to seize it1 even were he surrounded with it2 and as his body would be full grown and his limbs well developed he would be without the perpetual restlessness and movement of childhood1 so that he might die of hunger without stirring to seek food4 ,however little you may have thought about the order and development of our knowledge1 you cannot deny that such a one would be in the state of almost primitive ignorance and stupidity natural to man before he has learnt anything from experience or from his fellows4 ,we know then1 or we may know1 the point of departure from which we each start towards the usual level of understanding2 but who knows the other extreme8 ,each progresses more or less according to his genius1 his taste1 his needs1 his talents1 his zeal1 and his opportunities for using them4 ,no philosopher1 so far as ,i know1 has dared to say to man1 ,thus far shalt thou go and no further4 ,we know not what nature allows us to be1 none of us has measured the possible difference between man and man4 ,is there a mind so dead that this thought has never kindled it1 that has never said in his pride1 ,how much have ,i already done1 how much more may ,i achieve8 ,why should ,i lag behind my fellows8 ,as ,i said before1 man's education begins at birth2 before he can speak or understand he is learning4 ,experience precedes instruction2 when he recognises his nurse he has learnt much4 ,the knowledge of the most ignorant man would surprise us if we had followed his course from birth to the present time4 ,if all human knowledge were divided into two parts1 one common to all1 the other peculiar to the learned1 the latter would seem very small compared with the former4 ,but we scarcely heed this general experience1 because it is acquired before the age of reason4 ,moreover1 knowledge only attracts attention by its rarity1 as in algebraic equations common factors count for nothing4 ,even animals learn much4 ,they have senses and must learn to use them2 they have needs1 they must learn to satisfy them2 they must learn to eat1 walk1 or fly4 ,quadrupeds which can stand on their feet from the first cannot walk for all that2 from their first attempts it is clear that they lack confidence4 ,canaries who escape from their cage are unable to fly1 having never used their wings4 ,living and feeling creatures are always learning4 ,if plants could walk they would need senses and knowledge1 else their species would die out4 ,the child's first mental experiences are purely affective1 he is only aware of pleasure and pain2 it takes him a long time to acquire the definite sensations which show him things outside himself1 but before these things present and withdraw themselves1 so to speak1 from his sight1 taking size and shape for him1 the recurrence of emotional experiences is beginning to subject the child to the rule of habit4 ,you see his eyes constantly follow the light1 and if the light comes from the side the eyes turn towards it1 so that one must be careful to turn his head towards the light lest he should squint4 ,he must also be accustomed from the first to the dark1 or he will cry if he misses the light4 ,food and sleep1 too1 exactly measured1 become necessary at regular intervals1 and soon desire is no longer the effect of need1 but of habit1 or rather habit adds a fresh need to those of nature4 ,you must be on your guard against this4 ,the only habit the child should be allowed to contract is that of having no habits2 let him be carried on either arm1 let him be accustomed to offer either hand1 to use one or other indifferently2 let him not want to eat1 sleep1 or do anything at fixed hours1 nor be unable to be left alone by day or night4 ,prepare the way for his control of his liberty and the use of his strength by leaving his body its natural habit1 by making him capable of lasting self-control1 of doing all that he wills when his will is formed4 ,as soon as the child begins to take notice1 what is shown him must be carefully chosen4 ,the natural man is interested in all new things4 ,he feels so feeble that he fears the unknown3 the habit of seeing fresh things without ill effects destroys this fear4 ,children brought up in clean houses where there are no spiders are afraid of spiders1 and this fear often lasts through life4 ,i never saw peasants1 man1 woman1 or child1 afraid of spiders4 ,since the mere choice of things shown him may make the child timid or brave1 why should not his education begin before he can speak or understand8 ,i would have him accustomed to see fresh things1 ugly1 repulsive1 and strange beasts1 but little by little1 and far off till he is used to them1 and till having seen others handle them he handles them himself4 ,if in childhood he sees toads1 snakes1 and crayfish1 he will not be afraid of any animal when he is grown up4 ,those who are continually seeing terrible things think nothing of them4 ,all children are afraid of masks4 ,i begin by showing ,emile a mask with a pleasant face1 then some one puts this mask before his face2 ,i begin to laugh1 they all laugh too1 and the child with them4 ,by degrees ,i accustom him to less pleasing masks1 and at last hideous ones4 ,if ,i have arranged my stages skilfully1 far from being afraid of the last mask1 he will laugh at it as he did at the first4 ,after that ,i am not afraid of people frightening him with masks4 ,when ,hector bids farewell to ,andromache1 the young ,astyanax1 startled by the nodding plumes on the helmet1 does not know his father2 he flings himself weeping upon his nurse's bosom and wins from his mother a smile mingled with tears4 ,what must be done to stay this terror8 ,just what ,hector did2 put the helmet on the ground and caress the child4 ,in a calmer moment one would do more2 one would go up to the helmet1 play with the plumes1 let the child feel them2 at last the nurse would take the helmet and place it laughingly on her own head1 if indeed a woman's hand dare touch the armour of ,hector4 ,if ,emile must get used to the sound of a gun1 ,i first fire a pistol with a small charge4 ,he is delighted with this sudden flash1 this sort of lightning2 ,i repeat the process with more powder2 gradually ,i add a small charge without a wad1 then a larger2 in the end ,i accustom him to the sound of a gun1 to fireworks1 cannon1 and the most terrible explosions4 ,i have observed that children are rarely afraid of thunder unless the peals are really terrible and actually hurt the ear1 otherwise this fear only comes to them when they know that thunder sometimes hurts or kills4 ,when reason begins to cause fear1 let us reassure them4 ,by slow and careful stages man and child learn to fear nothing4 ,in the dawn of life1 when memory and imagination have not begun to function1 the child only attends to what affects its senses4 ,his sense experiences are the raw material of thought2 they should1 therefore1 be presented to him in fitting order1 so that memory may at a future time present them in the same order to his understanding2 but as he only attends to his sensations it is enough1 at first1 to show him clearly the connection between these sensations and the things which cause them4 ,he wants to touch and handle everything2 do not check these movements which teach him invaluable lessons4 ,thus he learns to perceive the heat1 cold1 hardness1 softness1 weight1 or lightness of bodies1 to judge their size and shape and all their physical properties1 by looking1 feeling1 ,footnote3 ,of all the senses that of smell is the latest to develop in children up to two or three years of age they appear to be insensible of pleasant or unpleasant odours2 in this respect they are as indifferent or rather as insensible as many animals4 listening1 and1 above all1 by comparing sight and touch1 by judging with the eye what sensation they would cause to his hand4 ,it is only by movement that we learn the difference between self and not self2 it is only by our own movements that we gain the idea of space4 ,the child has not this idea1 so he stretches out his hand to seize the object within his reach or that which is a hundred paces from him4 ,you take this as a sign of tyranny1 an attempt to bid the thing draw near1 or to bid you bring it4 ,nothing of the kind1 it is merely that the object first seen in his brain1 then before his eyes1 now seems close to his arms1 and he has no idea of space beyond his reach4 ,be careful1 therefore1 to take him about1 to move him from place to place1 and to let him perceive the change in his surroundings1 so as to teach him to judge of distances4 ,when he begins to perceive distances then you must change your plan1 and only carry him when you please1 not when he pleases2 for as soon as he is no longer deceived by his senses1 there is another motive for his effort4 ,this change is remarkable and calls for explanation4 ,the discomfort caused by real needs is shown by signs1 when the help of others is required4 ,hence the cries of children2 they often cry2 it must be so4 ,since they are only conscious of feelings1 when those feelings are pleasant they enjoy them in silence2 when they are painful they say so in their own way and demand relief4 ,now when they are awake they can scarcely be in a state of indifference1 either they are asleep or else they are feeling something4 ,all our languages are the result of art4 ,it has long been a subject of inquiry whether there ever was a natural language common to all2 no doubt there is1 and it is the language of children before they begin to speak4 ,this language is inarticulate1 but it has tone1 stress1 and meaning4 ,the use of our own language has led us to neglect it so far as to forget it altogether4 ,let us study children and we shall soon learn it afresh from them4 ,nurses can teach us this language2 they understand all their nurslings say to them1 they answer them1 and keep up long conversations with them2 and though they use words1 these words are quite useless4 ,it is not the hearing of the word1 but its accompanying intonation that is understood4 ,to the language of intonation is added the no less forcible language of gesture4 ,the child uses1 not its weak hands1 but its face4 ,the amount of expression in these undeveloped faces is extraordinary2 their features change from one moment to another with incredible speed4 ,you see smiles1 desires1 terror1 come and go like lightning2 every time the face seems different4 ,the muscles of the face are undoubtedly more mobile than our own4 ,on the other hand the eyes are almost expressionless4 ,such must be the sort of signs they use at an age when their only needs are those of the body4 ,grimaces are the sign of sensation1 the glance expresses sentiment4 ,as man's first state is one of want and weakness1 his first sounds are cries and tears4 ,the child feels his needs and cannot satisfy them1 he begs for help by his cries4 ,is he hungry or thirsty8 there are tears2 is he too cold or too hot8 more tears2 he needs movement and is kept quiet1 more tears2 he wants to sleep and is disturbed1 he weeps4 ,the less comfortable he is1 the more he demands change4 ,he has only one language because he has1 so to say1 only one kind of discomfort4 ,in the imperfect state of his sense organs he does not distinguish their several impressions2 all ills produce one feeling of sorrow4 ,these tears1 which you think so little worthy of your attention1 give rise to the first relation between man and his environment2 here is forged the first link in the long chain of social order4 ,when the child cries he is uneasy1 he feels some need which he cannot satisfy2 you watch him1 seek this need1 find it1 and satisfy it4 ,if you can neither find it nor satisfy it1 the tears continue and become tiresome4 ,the child is petted to quiet him1 he is rocked or sung to sleep2 if he is obstinate1 the nurse becomes impatient and threatens him2 cruel nurses sometimes strike him4 ,what strange lessons for him at his first entrance into life6 ,i shall never forget seeing one of these troublesome crying children thus beaten by his nurse4 ,he was silent at once4 ,i thought he was frightened1 and said to myself1 ,this will be a servile being from whom nothing can be got but by harshness4 ,i was wrong1 the poor wretch was choking with rage1 he could not breathe1 he was black in the face4 ,a moment later there were bitter cries1 every sign of the anger1 rage1 and despair of this age was in his tones4 ,i thought he would die4 ,had ,i doubted the innate sense of justice and injustice in man's heart1 this one instance would have convinced me4 ,i am sure that a drop of boiling liquid falling by chance on that child's hand would have hurt him less than that blow1 slight in itself1 but clearly given with the intention of hurting him4 ,this tendency to anger1 vexation1 and rage needs great care4 ,boerhaave thinks that most of the diseases of children are of the nature of convulsions1 because the head being larger in proportion and the nervous system more extensive than in adults1 they are more liable to nervous irritation4 ,take the greatest care to remove from them any servants who tease1 annoy1 or vex them4 ,they are a hundredfold more dangerous and more fatal than fresh air and changing seasons4 ,when children only experience resistance in things and never in the will of man1 they do not become rebellious or passionate1 and their health is better4 ,this is one reason why the children of the poor1 who are freer and more independent1 are generally less frail and weakly1 more vigorous than those who are supposed to be better brought up by being constantly thwarted2 but you must always remember that it is one thing to refrain from thwarting them1 but quite another to obey them4 ,the child's first tears are prayers1 beware lest they become commands2 he begins by asking for aid1 he ends by demanding service4 ,thus from his own weakness1 the source of his first consciousness of dependence1 springs the later idea of rule and tyranny2 but as this idea is aroused rather by his needs than by our services1 we begin to see moral results whose causes are not in nature2 thus we see how important it is1 even at the earliest age1 to discern the secret meaning of the gesture or cry4 ,when the child tries to seize something without speaking1 he thinks he can reach the object1 for he does not rightly judge its distance2 when he cries and stretches out his hands he no longer misjudges the distance1 he bids the object approach1 or orders you to bring it to him4 ,in the first case bring it to him slowly2 in the second do not even seem to hear his cries4 ,the more he cries the less you should heed him4 ,he must learn in good time not to give commands to men1 for he is not their master1 nor to things1 for they cannot hear him4 ,thus when the child wants something you mean to give him1 it is better to carry him to it rather than to bring the thing to him4 ,from this he will draw a conclusion suited to his age1 and there is no other way of suggesting it to him4 ,the ,abbe ,saint-,pierre calls men big children2 one might also call children little men4 ,these statements are true1 but they require explanation4 ,but when ,hobbes calls the wicked a strong child1 his statement is contradicted by facts4 ,all wickedness comes from weakness4 ,the child is only naughty because he is weak2 make him strong and he will be good2 if we could do everything we should never do wrong4 ,of all the attributes of the ,almighty1 goodness is that which it would be hardest to dissociate from our conception of ,him4 ,all nations who have acknowledged a good and an evil power1 have always regarded the evil as inferior to the good2 otherwise their opinion would have been absurd4 ,compare this with the creed of the ,savoyard clergyman later on in this book4 ,reason alone teaches us to know good and evil4 ,therefore conscience1 which makes us love the one and hate the other1 though it is independent of reason1 cannot develop without it4 ,before the age of reason we do good or ill without knowing it1 and there is no morality in our actions1 although there is sometimes in our feeling with regard to other people's actions in relation to ourselves4 ,a child wants to overturn everything he sees4 ,he breaks and smashes everything he can reach2 he seizes a bird as he seizes a stone1 and strangles it without knowing what he is about4 ,why so8 ,in the first place philosophy will account for this by inbred sin1 man's pride1 love of power1 selfishness1 spite2 perhaps it will say in addition to this that the child's consciousness of his own weakness makes him eager to use his strength1 to convince himself of it4 ,but watch that broken down old man reduced in the downward course of life to the weakness of a child2 not only is he quiet and peaceful1 he would have all about him quiet and peaceful too2 the least change disturbs and troubles him1 he would like to see universal calm4 ,how is it possible that similar feebleness and similar passions should produce such different effects in age and in infancy1 if the original cause were not different8 ,and where can we find this difference in cause except in the bodily condition of the two4 ,the active principle1 common to both1 is growing in one case and declining in the other2 it is being formed in the one and destroyed in the other2 one is moving towards life1 the other towards death4 ,the failing activity of the old man is centred in his heart1 the child's overflowing activity spreads abroad4 ,he feels1 if we may say so1 strong enough to give life to all about him4 ,to make or to destroy1 it is all one to him2 change is what he seeks1 and all change involves action4 ,if he seems to enjoy destructive activity it is only that it takes time to make things and very little time to break them1 so that the work of destruction accords better with his eagerness4 ,while the ,author of nature has given children this activity1 ,he takes care that it shall do little harm by giving them small power to use it4 ,but as soon as they can think of people as tools to be used1 they use them to carry out their wishes and to supplement their own weakness4 ,this is how they become tiresome1 masterful1 imperious1 naughty1 and unmanageable2 a development which does not spring from a natural love of power1 but one which has been taught them1 for it does not need much experience to realise how pleasant it is to set others to work and to move the world by a word4 ,as the child grows it gains strength and becomes less restless and unquiet and more independent4 ,soul and body become better balanced and nature no longer asks for more movement than is required for self-preservation4 ,but the love of power does not die with the need that aroused it2 power arouses and flatters self-love1 and habit strengthens it2 thus caprice follows upon need1 and the first seeds of prejudice and obstinacy are sown4 ,,first ,,maxim4--,far from being too strong1 children are not strong enough for all the claims of nature4 ,give them full use of such strength as they have2 they will not abuse it4 ,,second ,,maxim4--,help them and supply the experience and strength they lack whenever the need is of the body4 ,,third ,,maxim4--,in the help you give them confine yourself to what is really needful1 without granting anything to caprice or unreason2 for they will not be tormented by caprice if you do not call it into existence1 seeing it is no part of nature4 ,,fourth ,,maxim--,study carefully their speech and gestures1 so that at an age when they are incapable of deceit you may discriminate between those desires which come from nature and those which spring from perversity4 ,the spirit of these rules is to give children more real liberty and less power1 to let them do more for themselves and demand less of others2 so that by teaching them from the first to confine their wishes within the limits of their powers they will scarcely feel the want of whatever is not in their power4 ,this is another very important reason for leaving children's limbs and bodies perfectly free1 only taking care that they do not fall1 and keeping anything that might hurt them out of their way4 ,the child whose body and arms are free will certainly cry much less than a child tied up in swaddling clothes4 ,he who knows only bodily needs1 only cries when in pain2 and this is a great advantage1 for then we know exactly when he needs help1 and if possible we should not delay our help for an instant4 ,but if you cannot relieve his pain1 stay where you are and do not flatter him by way of soothing him2 your caresses will not cure his colic1 but he will remember what he must do to win them2 and if he once finds out how to gain your attention at will1 he is your master2 the whole education is spoilt4 ,their movements being less constrained1 children will cry less2 less wearied with their tears1 people will not take so much trouble to check them4 ,with fewer threats and promises1 they will be less timid and less obstinate1 and will remain more nearly in their natural state4 ,ruptures are produced less by letting children cry than by the means taken to stop them1 and my evidence for this is the fact that the most neglected children are less liable to them than others4 ,i am very far from wishing that they should be neglected2 on the contrary1 it is of the utmost importance that their wants should be anticipated1 so that they need not proclaim their wants by crying4 ,but neither would ,i have unwise care bestowed on them4 ,why should they think it wrong to cry when they find they can get so much by it8 ,when they have learned the value of their silence they take good care not to waste it4 ,in the end they will so exaggerate its importance that no one will be able to pay its price2 then worn out with crying they become exhausted1 and are at length silent4 ,prolonged crying on the part of a child neither swaddled nor out of health1 a child who lacks nothing1 is merely the result of habit or obstinacy4 ,such tears are no longer the work of nature1 but the work of the child's nurse1 who could not resist its importunity and so has increased it1 without considering that while she quiets the child to-day she is teaching him to cry louder to-morrow4 ,moreover1 when caprice or obstinacy is the cause of their tears1 there is a sure way of stopping them by distracting their attention by some pleasant or conspicuous object which makes them forget that they want to cry4 ,most nurses excel in this art1 and rightly used it is very useful2 but it is of the utmost importance that the child should not perceive that you mean to distract his attention1 and that he should be amused without suspecting you are thinking about him2 now this is what most nurses cannot do4 ,most children are weaned too soon4 ,the time to wean them is when they cut their teeth4 ,this generally causes pain and suffering4 ,at this time the child instinctively carries everything he gets hold of to his mouth to chew it4 ,to help forward this process he is given as a plaything some hard object such as ivory or a wolf's tooth4 ,i think this is a mistake4 ,hard bodies applied to the gums do not soften them2 far from it1 they make the process of cutting the teeth more difficult and painful4 ,let us always take instinct as our guide2 we never see puppies practising their budding teeth on pebbles1 iron1 or bones1 but on wood1 leather1 rags1 soft materials which yield to their jaws1 and on which the tooth leaves its mark4 ,we can do nothing simply1 not even for our children4 ,toys of silver1 gold1 coral1 cut crystal1 rattles of every price and kind2 what vain and useless appliances4 ,away with them all6 ,let us have no corals or rattles2 a small branch of a tree with its leaves and fruit1 a stick of liquorice which he may suck and chew1 will amuse him as well as these splendid trifles1 and they will have this advantage at least1 he will not be brought up to luxury from his birth4 ,it is admitted that pap is not a very wholesome food4 ,boiled milk and uncooked flour cause gravel and do not suit the stomach4 ,in pap the flour is less thoroughly cooked than in bread and it has not fermented4 ,i think bread and milk or rice-cream are better4 ,if you will have pap1 the flour should be lightly cooked beforehand4 ,in my own country they make a very pleasant and wholesome soup from flour thus heated4 ,meat-broth or soup is not a very suitable food and should be used as little as possible4 ,the child must first get used to chewing his food2 this is the right way to bring the teeth through1 and when the child begins to swallow1 the saliva mixed with the food helps digestion4 ,i would have them first chew dried fruit or crusts4 ,i should give them as playthings little bits of dry bread or biscuits1 like the ,piedmont bread1 known in the country as grisses4 ,by dint of softening this bread in the mouth some of it is eventually swallowed the teeth come through of themselves1 and the child is weaned almost imperceptibly4 ,peasants have usually very good digestions1 and they are weaned with no more ado4 ,from the very first children hear spoken language2 we speak to them before they can understand or even imitate spoken sounds4 ,the vocal organs are still stiff1 and only gradually lend themselves to the reproduction of the sounds heard2 it is even doubtful whether these sounds are heard distinctly as we hear them4 ,the nurse may amuse the child with songs and with very merry and varied intonation1 but ,i object to her bewildering the child with a multitude of vain words of which it understands nothing but her tone of voice4 ,i would have the first words he hears few in number1 distinctly and often repeated1 while the words themselves should be related to things which can first be shown to the child4 ,that fatal facility in the use of words we do not understand begins earlier than we think4 ,in the schoolroom the scholar listens to the verbiage of his master as he listened in the cradle to the babble of his nurse4 ,i think it would be a very useful education to leave him in ignorance of both4 ,all sorts of ideas crowd in upon us when we try to consider the development of speech and the child's first words4 ,whatever we do they all learn to talk in the same way1 and all philosophical speculations are utterly useless4 ,to begin with1 they have1 so to say1 a grammar of their own1 whose rules and syntax are more general than our own2 if you attend carefully you will be surprised to find how exactly they follow certain analogies1 very much mistaken if you like1 but very regular2 these forms are only objectionable because of their harshness or because they are not recognised by custom4 ,i have just heard a child severely scolded by his father for saying1 ,mon pere1 irai-je-t-y8 ,now we see that this child was following the analogy more closely than our grammarians1 for as they say to him1 ,vas-y1 why should he not say1 ,irai-je-t-y8 ,notice too the skilful way in which he avoids the hiatus in irai-je-y or y-irai-je8 ,is it the poor child's fault that we have so unskilfully deprived the phrase of this determinative adverb y1 because we did not know what to do with it8 ,it is an intolerable piece of pedantry and most superfluous attention to detail to make a point of correcting all children's little sins against the customary expression1 for they always cure themselves with time4 ,always speak correctly before them1 let them never be so happy with any one as with you1 and be sure that their speech will be imperceptibly modelled upon yours without any correction on your part4 ,but a much greater evil1 and one far less easy to guard against1 is that they are urged to speak too much1 as if people were afraid they would not learn to talk of themselves4 ,this indiscreet zeal produces an effect directly opposite to what is meant4 ,they speak later and more confusedly2 the extreme attention paid to everything they say makes it unnecessary for them to speak distinctly1 and as they will scarcely open their mouths1 many of them contract a vicious pronunciation and a confused speech1 which last all their life and make them almost unintelligible4 ,i have lived much among peasants1 and ,i never knew one of them lisp1 man or woman1 boy or girl4 ,why is this8 ,are their speech organs differently made from our own8 ,no1 but they are differently used4 ,there is a hillock facing my window on which the children of the place assemble for their games4 ,although they are far enough away1 ,i can distinguish perfectly what they say1 and often get good notes for this book4 ,every day my ear deceives me as to their age4 ,i hear the voices of children of ten2 ,i look and see the height and features of children of three or four4 ,this experience is not confined to me2 the townspeople who come to see me1 and whom ,i consult on this point1 all fall into the same mistake4 ,this results from the fact that1 up to five or six1 children in town1 brought up in a room and under the care of a nursery governess1 do not need to speak above a whisper to make themselves heard4 ,as soon as their lips move people take pains to make out what they mean2 they are taught words which they repeat inaccurately1 and by paying great attention to them the people who are always with them rather guess what they meant to say than what they said4 ,it is quite a different matter in the country4 ,a peasant woman is not always with her child2 he is obliged to learn to say very clearly and loudly what he wants1 if he is to make himself understood4 ,children scattered about the fields at a distance from their fathers1 mothers and other children1 gain practice in making themselves heard at a distance1 and in adapting the loudness of the voice to the distance which separates them from those to whom they want to speak4 ,this is the real way to learn pronunciation1 not by stammering out a few vowels into the ear of an attentive governess4 ,so when you question a peasant child1 he may be too shy to answer1 but what he says he says distinctly1 while the nurse must serve as interpreter for the town child2 without her one can understand nothing of what he is muttering between his teeth4 ,footnote3 ,there are exceptions to this2 and often those children who at first are most difficult to hear1 become the noisiest when they begin to raise their voices4 ,but if ,i were to enter into all these details ,i should never make an end2 every sensible reader ought to see that defect and excess1 caused by the same abuse1 are both corrected by my method4 ,i regard the two maxims as inseparable--always enough--never too much4 ,when the first is well established1 the latter necessarily follows on it4 ,as they grow older1 the boys are supposed to be cured of this fault at college1 the girls in the convent schools2 and indeed both usually speak more clearly than children brought up entirely at home4 ,but they are prevented from acquiring as clear a pronunciation as the peasants in this way--they are required to learn all sorts of things by heart1 and to repeat aloud what they have learnt2 for when they are studying they get into the way of gabbling and pronouncing carelessly and ill2 it is still worse when they repeat their lessons2 they cannot find the right words1 they drag out their syllables4 ,this is only possible when the memory hesitates1 the tongue does not stammer of itself4 ,thus they acquire or continue habits of bad pronunciation4 ,later on you will see that ,emile does not acquire such habits or at least not from this cause4 ,i grant you uneducated people and villagers often fall into the opposite extreme4 ,they almost always speak too loud2 their pronunciation is too exact1 and leads to rough and coarse articulation2 their accent is too pronounced1 they choose their expressions badly1 etc4 ,but1 to begin with1 this extreme strikes me as much less dangerous than the other1 for the first law of speech is to make oneself understood1 and the chief fault is to fail to be understood4 ,to pride ourselves on having no accent is to pride ourselves on ridding our phrases of strength and elegance4 ,emphasis is the soul of speech1 it gives it its feeling and truth4 ,emphasis deceives less than words2 perhaps that is why well-educated people are so afraid of it4 ,from the custom of saying everything in the same tone has arisen that of poking fun at people without their knowing it4 ,when emphasis is proscribed1 its place is taken by all sorts of ridiculous1 affected1 and ephemeral pronunciations1 such as one observes especially among the young people about court4 ,it is this affectation of speech and manner which makes ,frenchmen disagreeable and repulsive to other nations on first acquaintance4 ,emphasis is found1 not in their speech1 but in their bearing4 ,that is not the way to make themselves attractive4 ,all these little faults of speech1 which you are so afraid the children will acquire1 are mere trifles2 they may be prevented or corrected with the greatest ease1 but the faults which are taught them when you make them speak in a low1 indistinct1 and timid voice1 when you are always criticising their tone and finding fault with their words1 are never cured4 ,a man who has only learnt to speak in society of fine ladies could not make himself heard at the head of his troops1 and would make little impression on the rabble in a riot4 ,first teach the child to speak to men2 he will be able to speak to the women when required4 ,brought up in all the rustic simplicity of the country1 your children will gain a more sonorous voice2 they will not acquire the hesitating stammer of town children1 neither will they acquire the expressions nor the tone of the villagers1 or if they do they will easily lose them2 their master being with them from their earliest years1 and more and more in their society the older they grow1 will be able to prevent or efface by speaking correctly himself the impression of the peasants' talk4 ,emile will speak the purest ,french ,i know1 but he will speak it more distinctly and with a better articulation than myself4 ,the child who is trying to speak should hear nothing but words he can understand1 nor should he say words he cannot articulate2 his efforts lead him to repeat the same syllable as if he were practising its clear pronunciation4 ,when he begins to stammer1 do not try to understand him4 ,to expect to be always listened to is a form of tyranny which is not good for the child4 ,see carefully to his real needs1 and let him try to make you understand the rest4 ,still less should you hurry him into speech2 he will learn to talk when he feels the want of it4 ,it has indeed been remarked that those who begin to speak very late never speak so distinctly as others2 but it is not because they talked late that they are hesitating2 on the contrary1 they began to talk late because they hesitate2 if not1 why did they begin to talk so late8 ,have they less need of speech1 have they been less urged to it8 ,on the contrary1 the anxiety aroused with the first suspicion of this backwardness leads people to tease them much more to begin to talk than those who articulated earlier2 and this mistaken zeal may do much to make their speech confused1 when with less haste they might have had time to bring it to greater perfection4 ,children who are forced to speak too soon have no time to learn either to pronounce correctly or to understand what they are made to say2 while left to themselves they first practise the easiest syllables1 and then1 adding to them little by little some meaning which their gestures explain1 they teach you their own words before they learn yours4 ,by this means they do not acquire your words till they have understood them4 ,being in no hurry to use them1 they begin by carefully observing the sense in which you use them1 and when they are sure of them they adopt them4 ,the worst evil resulting from the precocious use of speech by young children is that we not only fail to understand the first words they use1 we misunderstand them without knowing it2 so that while they seem to answer us correctly1 they fail to understand us and we them4 ,this is the most frequent cause of our surprise at children's sayings2 we attribute to them ideas which they did not attach to their words4 ,this lack of attention on our part to the real meaning which words have for children seems to me the cause of their earliest misconceptions2 and these misconceptions1 even when corrected1 colour their whole course of thought for the rest of their life4 ,i shall have several opportunities of illustrating these by examples later on4 ,let the child's vocabulary1 therefore1 be limited2 it is very undesirable that he should have more words than ideas1 that he should be able to say more than he thinks4 ,one of the reasons why peasants are generally shrewder than townsfolk is1 ,i think1 that their vocabulary is smaller4 ,they have few ideas1 but those few are thoroughly grasped4 ,the infant is progressing in several ways at once2 he is learning to talk1 eat1 and walk about the same time4 ,this is really the first phase of his life4 ,up till now1 he was little more than he was before birth2 he had neither feeling nor thought1 he was barely capable of sensation2 he was unconscious of his own existence4 ,vivit1 et est vitae nescius ipse suae4--,ovid4 ,,book ,,ii ,we have now reached the second phase of life2 infancy1 strictly so-called1 is over2 for the words infans and puer are not synonymous4 ,the latter includes the former1 which means literally one who cannot speak2 thus ,valerius speaks of puerum infantem4 ,but ,i shall continue to use the word child 7,french enfant7 according to the custom of our language till an age for which there is another term4 ,when children begin to talk they cry less4 ,this progress is quite natural2 one language supplants another4 ,as soon as they can say ,it hurts me1 why should they cry1 unless the pain is too sharp for words8 ,if they still cry1 those about them are to blame4 ,when once ,emile has said1 ,it hurts me1 it will take a very sharp pain to make him cry4 ,if the child is delicate and sensitive1 if by nature he begins to cry for nothing1 ,i let him cry in vain and soon check his tears at their source4 ,so long as he cries ,i will not go near him2 ,i come at once when he leaves off crying4 ,he will soon be quiet when he wants to call me1 or rather he will utter a single cry4 ,children learn the meaning of signs by their effects2 they have no other meaning for them4 ,however much a child hurts himself when he is alone1 he rarely cries1 unless he expects to be heard4 ,should he fall or bump his head1 or make his nose bleed1 or cut his fingers1 ,i shall show no alarm1 nor shall ,i make any fuss over him2 ,i shall take no notice1 at any rate at first4 ,the harm is done2 he must bear it2 all my zeal could only frighten him more and make him more nervous4 ,indeed it is not the blow but the fear of it which distresses us when we are hurt4 ,i shall spare him this suffering at least1 for he will certainly regard the injury as he sees me regard it2 if he finds that ,i hasten anxiously to him1 if ,i pity him or comfort him1 he will think he is badly hurt4 ,if he finds ,i take no notice1 he will soon recover himself1 and will think the wound is healed when it ceases to hurt4 ,this is the time for his first lesson in courage1 and by bearing slight ills without fear we gradually learn to bear greater4 ,i shall not take pains to prevent ,emile hurting himself2 far from it1 ,i should be vexed if he never hurt himself1 if he grew up unacquainted with pain4 ,to bear pain is his first and most useful lesson4 ,it seems as if children were small and weak on purpose to teach them these valuable lessons without danger4 ,the child has such a little way to fall he will not break his leg2 if he knocks himself with a stick he will not break his arm2 if he seizes a sharp knife he will not grasp it tight enough to make a deep wound4 ,so far as ,i know1 no child1 left to himself1 has ever been known to kill or maim itself1 or even to do itself any serious harm1 unless it has been foolishly left on a high place1 or alone near the fire1 or within reach of dangerous weapons4 ,what is there to be said for all the paraphernalia with which the child is surrounded to shield him on every side so that he grows up at the mercy of pain1 with neither courage nor experience1 so that he thinks he is killed by a pin-prick and faints at the sight of blood8 ,with our foolish and pedantic methods we are always preventing children from learning what they could learn much better by themselves1 while we neglect what we alone can teach them4 ,can anything be sillier than the pains taken to teach them to walk1 as if there were any one who was unable to walk when he grows up through his nurse's neglect8 ,how many we see walking badly all their life because they were ill taught8 ,emile shall have no head-pads1 no go-carts1 no leading-strings2 or at least as soon as he can put one foot before another he shall only be supported along pavements1 and he shall be taken quickly across them4 ,footnote3 ,there is nothing so absurd and hesitating as the gait of those who have been kept too long in leading-strings when they were little4 ,this is one of the observations which are considered trivial because they are true4 ,instead of keeping him mewed up in a stuffy room1 take him out into a meadow every day2 let him run about1 let him struggle and fall again and again1 the oftener the better2 he will learn all the sooner to pick himself up4 ,the delights of liberty will make up for many bruises4 ,my pupil will hurt himself oftener than yours1 but he will always be merry2 your pupils may receive fewer injuries1 but they are always thwarted1 constrained1 and sad4 ,i doubt whether they are any better off4 ,as their strength increases1 children have also less need for tears4 ,they can do more for themselves1 they need the help of others less frequently4 ,with strength comes the sense to use it4 ,it is with this second phase that the real personal life has its beginning2 it is then that the child becomes conscious of himself4 ,during every moment of his life memory calls up the feeling of self2 he becomes really one person1 always the same1 and therefore capable of joy or sorrow4 ,hence we must begin to consider him as a moral being4 ,although we know approximately the limits of human life and our chances of attaining those limits1 nothing is more uncertain than the length of the life of any one of us4 ,very few reach old age4 ,the chief risks occur at the beginning of life2 the shorter our past life1 the less we must hope to live4 ,of all the children who are born scarcely one half reach adolescence1 and it is very likely your pupil will not live to be a man4 ,what is to be thought1 therefore1 of that cruel education which sacrifices the present to an uncertain future1 that burdens a child with all sorts of restrictions and begins by making him miserable1 in order to prepare him for some far-off happiness which he may never enjoy8 ,even if ,i considered that education wise in its aims1 how could ,i view without indignation those poor wretches subjected to an intolerable slavery and condemned like galley-slaves to endless toil1 with no certainty that they will gain anything by it8 ,the age of harmless mirth is spent in tears1 punishments1 threats1 and slavery4 ,you torment the poor thing for his good2 you fail to see that you are calling ,death to snatch him from these gloomy surroundings4 ,who can say how many children fall victims to the excessive care of their fathers and mothers8 ,they are happy to escape from this cruelty2 this is all that they gain from the ills they are forced to endure3 they die without regretting1 having known nothing of life but its sorrows4 ,men1 be kind to your fellow-men2 this is your first duty1 kind to every age and station1 kind to all that is not foreign to humanity4 ,what wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness8 ,love childhood1 indulge its sports1 its pleasures1 its delightful instincts4 ,who has not sometimes regretted that age when laughter was ever on the lips1 and when the heart was ever at peace8 ,why rob these innocents of the joys which pass so quickly1 of that precious gift which they cannot abuse8 ,why fill with bitterness the fleeting days of early childhood1 days which will no more return for them than for you8 ,fathers1 can you tell when death will call your children to him8 ,do not lay up sorrow for yourselves by robbing them of the short span which nature has allotted to them4 ,as soon as they are aware of the joy of life1 let them rejoice in it1 go that whenever ,god calls them they may not die without having tasted the joy of life4 ,how people will cry out against me6 ,i hear from afar the shouts of that false wisdom which is ever dragging us onwards1 counting the present as nothing1 and pursuing without a pause a future which flies as we pursue1 that false wisdom which removes us from our place and never brings us to any other4 ,now is the time1 you say1 to correct his evil tendencies2 we must increase suffering in childhood1 when it is less keenly felt1 to lessen it in manhood4 ,but how do you know that you can carry out all these fine schemes2 how do you know that all this fine teaching with which you overwhelm the feeble mind of the child will not do him more harm than good in the future8 ,how do you know that you can spare him anything by the vexations you heap upon him now8 ,why inflict on him more ills than befit his present condition unless you are quite sure that these present ills will save him future ill8 ,and what proof can you give me that those evil tendencies you profess to cure are not the result of your foolish precautions rather than of nature8 ,what a poor sort of foresight1 to make a child wretched in the present with the more or less doubtful hope of making him happy at some future day4 ,if such blundering thinkers fail to distinguish between liberty and licence1 between a merry child and a spoilt darling1 let them learn to discriminate4 ,let us not forget what befits our present state in the pursuit of vain fancies4 ,mankind has its place in the sequence of things2 childhood has its place in the sequence of human life2 the man must be treated as a man and the child as a child4 ,give each his place1 and keep him there4 ,control human passions according to man's nature2 that is all we can do for his welfare4 ,the rest depends on external forces1 which are beyond our control4 ,absolute good and evil are unknown to us4 ,in this life they are blended together2 we never enjoy any perfectly pure feeling1 nor do we remain for more than a moment in the same state4 ,the feelings of our minds1 like the changes in our bodies1 are in a continual flux4 ,good and ill are common to all1 but in varying proportions4 ,the happiest is he who suffers least2 the most miserable is he who enjoys least4 ,ever more sorrow than joy--this is the lot of all of us4 ,man's happiness in this world is but a negative state2 it must be reckoned by the fewness of his ills4 ,every feeling of hardship is inseparable from the desire to escape from it2 every idea of pleasure from the desire to enjoy it4 ,all desire implies a want1 and all wants are painful2 hence our wretchedness consists in the disproportion between our desires and our powers4 ,a conscious being whose powers were equal to his desires would be perfectly happy4 ,what then is human wisdom8 ,where is the path of true happiness8 ,the mere limitation of our desires is not enough1 for if they were less than our powers1 part of our faculties would be idle1 and we should not enjoy our whole being2 neither is the mere extension of our powers enough1 for if our desires were also increased we should only be the more miserable4 ,true happiness consists in decreasing the difference between our desires and our powers1 in establishing a perfect equilibrium between the power and the will4 ,then only1 when all its forces are employed1 will the soul be at rest and man will find himself in his true position4 ,in this condition1 nature1 who does everything for the best1 has placed him from the first4 ,to begin with1 she gives him only such desires as are necessary for self-preservation and such powers as are sufficient for their satisfaction4 ,all the rest she has stored in his mind as a sort of reserve1 to be drawn upon at need4 ,it is only in this primitive condition that we find the equilibrium between desire and power1 and then alone man is not unhappy4 ,as soon as his potential powers of mind begin to function1 imagination1 more powerful than all the rest1 awakes1 and precedes all the rest4 ,it is imagination which enlarges the bounds of possibility for us1 whether for good or ill1 and therefore stimulates and feeds desires by the hope of satisfying them4 ,but the object which seemed within our grasp flies quicker than we can follow2 when we think we have grasped it1 it transforms itself and is again far ahead of us4 ,we no longer perceive the country we have traversed1 and we think nothing of it2 that which lies before us becomes vaster and stretches still before us4 ,thus we exhaust our strength1 yet never reach our goal1 and the nearer we are to pleasure1 the further we are from happiness4 ,on the other hand1 the more nearly a man's condition approximates to this state of nature the less difference is there between his desires and his powers1 and happiness is therefore less remote4 ,lacking everything1 he is never less miserable2 for misery consists1 not in the lack of things1 but in the needs which they inspire4 ,the world of reality has its bounds1 the world of imagination is boundless2 as we cannot enlarge the one1 let us restrict the other2 for all the sufferings which really make us miserable arise from the difference between the real and the imaginary4 ,health1 strength1 and a good conscience excepted1 all the good things of life are a matter of opinion2 except bodily suffering and remorse1 all our woes are imaginary4 ,you will tell me this is a commonplace2 ,i admit it1 but its practical application is no commonplace1 and it is with practice only that we are now concerned4 ,what do you mean when you say1 ,man is weak8 ,the term weak implies a relation1 a relation of the creature to whom it is applied4 ,an insect or a worm whose strength exceeds its needs is strong2 an elephant1 a lion1 a conqueror1 a hero1 a god himself1 whose needs exceed his strength is weak4 ,the rebellious angel who fought against his own nature was weaker than the happy mortal who is living at peace according to nature4 ,when man is content to be himself he is strong indeed2 when he strives to be more than man he is weak indeed4 ,but do not imagine that you can increase your strength by increasing your powers4 ,not so2 if your pride increases more rapidly your strength is diminished4 ,let us measure the extent of our sphere and remain in its centre like the spider in its web2 we shall have strength sufficient for our needs1 we shall have no cause to lament our weakness1 for we shall never be aware of it4 ,the other animals possess only such powers as are required for self-preservation2 man alone has more4 ,is it not very strange that this superfluity should make him miserable8 ,in every land a man's labour yields more than a bare living4 ,if he were wise enough to disregard this surplus he would always have enough1 for he would never have too much4 ,great needs1 said ,favorin1 spring from great wealth2 and often the best way of getting what we want is to get rid of what we have4 ,by striving to increase our happiness we change it into wretchedness4 ,if a man were content to live1 he would live happy2 and he would therefore be good1 for what would he have to gain by vice8 ,if we were immortal we should all be miserable2 no doubt it is hard to die1 but it is sweet to think that we shall not live for ever1 and that a better life will put an end to the sorrows of this world4 ,if we had the offer of immortality here below1 who would accept the sorrowful gift8 ,footnote3 ,you understand ,i am speaking of those who think1 and not of the crowd4 ,what resources1 what hopes1 what consolation would be left against the cruelties of fate and man's injustice8 ,the ignorant man never looks before2 he knows little of the value of life and does not fear to lose it2 the wise man sees things of greater worth and prefers them to it4 ,half knowledge and sham wisdom set us thinking about death and what lies beyond it2 and they thus create the worst of our ills4 ,the wise man bears life's ills all the better because he knows he must die4 ,life would be too dearly bought did we not know that sooner or later death will end it4 ,our moral ills are the result of prejudice1 crime alone excepted1 and that depends on ourselves2 our bodily ills either put an end to themselves or to us4 ,time or death will cure them1 but the less we know how to bear it1 the greater is our pain1 and we suffer more in our efforts to cure our diseases than if we endured them4 ,live according to nature2 be patient1 get rid of the doctors2 you will not escape death1 but you will only die once1 while the doctors make you die daily through your diseased imagination2 their lying art1 instead of prolonging your days1 robs you of all delight in them4 ,i am always asking what real good this art has done to mankind4 ,true1 the doctors cure some who would have died1 but they kill millions who would have lived4 ,if you are wise you will decline to take part in this lottery when the odds are so great against you4 ,suffer1 die1 or get better2 but whatever you do1 live while you are alive4 ,human institutions are one mass of folly and contradiction4 ,as our life loses its value we set a higher price upon it4 ,the old regret life more than the young2 they do not want to lose all they have spent in preparing for its enjoyment4 ,at sixty it is cruel to die when one has not begun to live4 ,man is credited with a strong desire for self-preservation1 and this desire exists2 but we fail to perceive that this desire1 as felt by us1 is largely the work of man4 ,in a natural state man is only eager to preserve his life while he has the means for its preservation2 when self-preservation is no longer possible1 he resigns himself to his fate and dies without vain torments4 ,nature teaches us the first law of resignation4 ,savages1 like wild beasts1 make very little struggle against death1 and meet it almost without a murmur4 ,when this natural law is overthrown reason establishes another1 but few discern it1 and man's resignation is never so complete as nature's4 ,prudence6 ,prudence which is ever bidding us look forward into the future1 a future which in many cases we shall never reach2 here is the real source of all our troubles6 ,how mad it is for so short-lived a creature as man to look forward into a future to which he rarely attains1 while he neglects the present which is his8 ,this madness is all the more fatal since it increases with years1 and the old1 always timid1 prudent1 and miserly1 prefer to do without necessaries to-day that they may have luxuries at a hundred4 ,thus we grasp everything1 we cling to everything2 we are anxious about time1 place1 people1 things1 all that is and will be2 we ourselves are but the least part of ourselves4 ,we spread ourselves1 so to speak1 over the whole world1 and all this vast expanse becomes sensitive4 ,no wonder our woes increase when we may be wounded on every side4 ,how many princes make themselves miserable for the loss of lands they never saw1 and how many merchants lament in ,paris over some misfortune in the ,indies6 ,is it nature that carries men so far from their real selves8 ,is it her will that each should learn his fate from others and even be the last to learn it2 so that a man dies happy or miserable before he knows what he is about4 ,there is a healthy1 cheerful1 strong1 and vigorous man2 it does me good to see him2 his eyes tell of content and well-being2 he is the picture of happiness4 ,a letter comes by post2 the happy man glances at it1 it is addressed to him1 he opens it and reads it4 ,in a moment he is changed1 he turns pale and falls into a swoon4 ,when he comes to himself he weeps1 laments1 and groans1 he tears his hair1 and his shrieks re-echo through the air4 ,you would say he was in convulsions4 ,fool1 what harm has this bit of paper done you8 ,what limb has it torn away8 ,what crime has it made you commit8 ,what change has it wrought in you to reduce you to this state of misery8 ,had the letter miscarried1 had some kindly hand thrown it into the fire1 it strikes me that the fate of this mortal1 at once happy and unhappy1 would have offered us a strange problem4 ,his misfortunes1 you say1 were real enough4 ,granted2 but he did not feel them4 ,what of that8 ,his happiness was imaginary4 ,i admit it2 health1 wealth1 a contented spirit1 are mere dreams4 ,we no longer live in our own place1 we live outside it4 ,what does it profit us to live in such fear of death1 when all that makes life worth living is our own8 ,oh1 man6 live your own life and you will no longer be wretched4 ,keep to your appointed place in the order of nature and nothing can tear you from it4 ,do not kick against the stern law of necessity1 nor waste in vain resistance the strength bestowed on you by heaven1 not to prolong or extend your existence1 but to preserve it so far and so long as heaven pleases4 ,your freedom and your power extend as far and no further than your natural strength2 anything more is but slavery1 deceit1 and trickery4 ,power itself is servile when it depends upon public opinion2 for you are dependent on the prejudices of others when you rule them by means of those prejudices4 ,to lead them as you will1 they must be led as they will4 ,they have only to change their way of thinking and you are forced to change your course of action4 ,those who approach you need only contrive to sway the opinions of those you rule1 or of the favourite by whom you are ruled1 or those of your own family or theirs4 ,had you the genius of ,themistocles1 ,footnote3 ,you see that little boy1 said ,themistocles to his friends1 the fate of ,greece is in his hands1 for he rules his mother and his mother rules me1 ,i rule the ,athenians and the ,athenians rule the ,greeks4 ,what petty creatures we should often find controlling great empires if we traced the course of power from the prince to those who secretly put that power in motion4 viziers1 courtiers1 priests1 soldiers1 servants1 babblers1 the very children themselves1 would lead you like a child in the midst of your legions4 ,whatever you do1 your actual authority can never extend beyond your own powers4 ,as soon as you are obliged to see with another's eyes you must will what he wills4 ,you say with pride1 ,my people are my subjects4 ,granted1 but what are you8 ,the subject of your ministers4 ,and your ministers1 what are they8 ,the subjects of their clerks1 their mistresses1 the servants of their servants4 ,grasp all1 usurp all1 and then pour out your silver with both hands2 set up your batteries1 raise the gallows and the wheel2 make laws1 issue proclamations1 multiply your spies1 your soldiers1 your hangmen1 your prisons1 and your chains4 ,poor little men1 what good does it do you8 ,you will be no better served1 you will be none the less robbed and deceived1 you will be no nearer absolute power4 ,you will say continually1 ,it is our will1 and you will continually do the will of others4 ,there is only one man who gets his own way--he who can get it single-handed2 therefore freedom1 not power1 is the greatest good4 ,that man is truly free who desires what he is able to perform1 and does what he desires4 ,this is my fundamental maxim4 ,apply it to childhood1 and all the rules of education spring from it4 ,society has enfeebled man1 not merely by robbing him of the right to his own strength1 but still more by making his strength insufficient for his needs4 ,this is why his desires increase in proportion to his weakness2 and this is why the child is weaker than the man4 ,if a man is strong and a child is weak it is not because the strength of the one is absolutely greater than the strength of the other1 but because the one can naturally provide for himself and the other cannot4 ,thus the man will have more desires and the child more caprices1 a word which means1 ,i take it1 desires which are not true needs1 desires which can only be satisfied with the help of others4 ,i have already given the reason for this state of weakness4 ,parental affection is nature's provision against it2 but parental affection may be carried to excess1 it may be wanting1 or it may be ill applied4 ,parents who live under our ordinary social conditions bring their child into these conditions too soon4 ,by increasing his needs they do not relieve his weakness2 they rather increase it4 ,they further increase it by demanding of him what nature does not demand1 by subjecting to their will what little strength he has to further his own wishes1 by making slaves of themselves or of him instead of recognising that mutual dependence which should result from his weakness or their affection4 ,the wise man can keep his own place2 but the child who does not know what his place is1 is unable to keep it4 ,there are a thousand ways out of it1 and it is the business of those who have charge of the child to keep him in his place1 and this is no easy task4 ,he should be neither beast nor man1 but a child4 ,he must feel his weakness1 but not suffer through it2 he must be dependent1 but he must not obey2 he must ask1 not command4 ,he is only subject to others because of his needs1 and because they see better than he what he really needs1 what may help or hinder his existence4 ,no one1 not even his father1 has the right to bid the child do what is of no use to him4 ,when our natural tendencies have not been interfered with by human prejudice and human institutions1 the happiness alike of children and of men consists in the enjoyment of their liberty4 ,but the child's liberty is restricted by his lack of strength4 ,he who does as he likes is happy provided he is self-sufficing2 it is so with the man who is living in a state of nature4 ,he who does what he likes is not happy if his desires exceed his strength2 it is so with a child in like conditions4 ,even in a state of nature children only enjoy an imperfect liberty1 like that enjoyed by men in social life4 ,each of us1 unable to dispense with the help of others1 becomes so far weak and wretched4 ,we were meant to be men1 laws and customs thrust us back into infancy4 ,the rich and great1 the very kings themselves are but children2 they see that we are ready to relieve their misery2 this makes them childishly vain1 and they are quite proud of the care bestowed on them1 a care which they would never get if they were grown men4 ,these are weighty considerations1 and they provide a solution for all the conflicting problems of our social system4 ,there are two kinds of dependence3 dependence on things1 which is the work of nature2 and dependence on men1 which is the work of society4 ,dependence on things1 being non-moral1 does no injury to liberty and begets no vices2 dependence on men1 being out of order1 ,footnote3 ,in my ,,principles ,,of ,,political ,,law it is proved that no private will can be ordered in the social system4 gives rise to every kind of vice1 and through this master and slave become mutually depraved4 ,if there is any cure for this social evil1 it is to be found in the substitution of law for the individual2 in arming the general will with a real strength beyond the power of any individual will4 ,if the laws of nations1 like the laws of nature1 could never be broken by any human power1 dependence on men would become dependence on things2 all the advantages of a state of nature would be combined with all the advantages of social life in the commonwealth4 ,the liberty which preserves a man from vice would be united with the morality which raises him to virtue4 ,keep the child dependent on things only4 ,by this course of education you will have followed the order of nature4 ,let his unreasonable wishes meet with physical obstacles only1 or the punishment which results from his own actions1 lessons which will be recalled when the same circumstances occur again4 ,it is enough to prevent him from wrong doing without forbidding him to do wrong4 ,experience or lack of power should take the place of law4 ,give him1 not what he wants1 but what he needs4 ,let there be no question of obedience for him or tyranny for you4 ,supply the strength he lacks just so far as is required for freedom1 not for power1 so that he may receive your services with a sort of shame1 and look forward to the time when he may dispense with them and may achieve the honour of self-help4 ,nature provides for the child's growth in her own fashion1 and this should never be thwarted4 ,do not make him sit still when he wants to run about1 nor run when he wants to be quiet4 ,if we did not spoil our children's wills by our blunders their desires would be free from caprice4 ,let them run1 jump1 and shout to their heart's content4 ,all their own activities are instincts of the body for its growth in strength2 but you should regard with suspicion those wishes which they cannot carry out for themselves1 those which others must carry out for them4 ,then you must distinguish carefully between natural and artificial needs1 between the needs of budding caprice and the needs which spring from the overflowing life just described4 ,i have already told you what you ought to do when a child cries for this thing or that4 ,i will only add that as soon as he has words to ask for what he wants and accompanies his demands with tears1 either to get his own way quicker or to over-ride a refusal1 he should never have his way4 ,if his words were prompted by a real need you should recognise it and satisfy it at once2 but to yield to his tears is to encourage him to cry1 to teach him to doubt your kindness1 and to think that you are influenced more by his importunity than your own good-will4 ,if he does not think you kind he will soon think you unkind2 if he thinks you weak he will soon become obstinate2 what you mean to give must be given at once4 ,be chary of refusing1 but1 having refused1 do not change your mind4 ,above all1 beware of teaching the child empty phrases of politeness1 which serve as spells to subdue those around him to his will1 and to get him what he wants at once4 ,the artificial education of the rich never fails to make them politely imperious1 by teaching them the words to use so that no one will dare to resist them4 ,their children have neither the tone nor the manner of suppliants2 they are as haughty or even more haughty in their entreaties than in their commands1 as though they were more certain to be obeyed4 ,you see at once that ,if you please means ,it pleases me1 and ,i beg means ,i command4 ,what a fine sort of politeness which only succeeds in changing the meaning of words so that every word is a command6 ,for my own part1 ,i would rather ,emile were rude than haughty1 that he should say ,do this as a request1 rather than ,please as a command4 ,what concerns me is his meaning1 not his words4 ,there is such a thing as excessive severity as well as excessive indulgence1 and both alike should be avoided4 ,if you let children suffer you risk their health and life2 you make them miserable now2 if you take too much pains to spare them every kind of uneasiness you are laying up much misery for them in the future2 you are making them delicate and over-sensitive2 you are taking them out of their place among men1 a place to which they must sooner or later return1 in spite of all your pains4 ,you will say ,i am falling into the same mistake as those bad fathers whom ,i blamed for sacrificing the present happiness of their children to a future which may never be theirs4 ,not so2 for the liberty ,i give my pupil makes up for the slight hardships to which he is exposed4 ,i see little fellows playing in the snow1 stiff and blue with cold1 scarcely able to stir a finger4 ,they could go and warm themselves if they chose1 but they do not choose2 if you forced them to come in they would feel the harshness of constraint a hundredfold more than the sharpness of the cold4 ,then what becomes of your grievance8 ,shall ,i make your child miserable by exposing him to hardships which he is perfectly ready to endure8 ,i secure his present good by leaving him his freedom1 and his future good by arming him against the evils he will have to bear4 ,if he had his choice1 would he hesitate for a moment between you and me8 ,do you think any man can find true happiness elsewhere than in his natural state2 and when you try to spare him all suffering1 are you not taking him out of his natural state8 ,indeed ,i maintain that to enjoy great happiness he must experience slight ills2 such is his nature4 ,too much bodily prosperity corrupts the morals4 ,a man who knew nothing of suffering would be incapable of tenderness towards his fellow-creatures and ignorant of the joys of pity2 he would be hard-hearted1 unsocial1 a very monster among men4 ,do you know the surest way to make your child miserable8 ,let him have everything he wants2 for as his wants increase in proportion to the ease with which they are satisfied1 you will be compelled1 sooner or later1 to refuse his demands1 and this unlooked-for refusal will hurt him more than the lack of what he wants4 ,he will want your stick first1 then your watch1 the bird that flies1 or the star that shines above him4 ,he will want all he sets eyes on1 and unless you were ,god himself1 how could you satisfy him8 ,man naturally considers all that he can get as his own4 ,in this sense ,hobbes' theory is true to a certain extent3 ,multiply both our wishes and the means of satisfying them1 and each will be master of all4 ,thus the child1 who has only to ask and have1 thinks himself the master of the universe2 he considers all men as his slaves2 and when you are at last compelled to refuse1 he takes your refusal as an act of rebellion1 for he thinks he has only to command4 ,all the reasons you give him1 while he is still too young to reason1 are so many pretences in his eyes2 they seem to him only unkindness2 the sense of injustice embitters his disposition2 he hates every one4 ,though he has never felt grateful for kindness1 he resents all opposition4 ,how should ,i suppose that such a child can ever be happy8 ,he is the slave of anger1 a prey to the fiercest passions4 ,happy6 ,he is a tyrant1 at once the basest of slaves and the most wretched of creatures4 ,i have known children brought up like this who expected you to knock the house down1 to give them the weather-cock on the steeple1 to stop a regiment on the march so that they might listen to the band2 when they could not get their way they screamed and cried and would pay no attention to any one4 ,in vain everybody strove to please them2 as their desires were stimulated by the ease with which they got their own way1 they set their hearts on impossibilities1 and found themselves face to face with opposition and difficulty1 pain and grief4 ,scolding1 sulking1 or in a rage1 they wept and cried all day4 ,were they really so greatly favoured8 ,weakness1 combined with love of power1 produces nothing but folly and suffering4 ,one spoilt child beats the table2 another whips the sea4 ,they may beat and whip long enough before they find contentment4 ,if their childhood is made wretched by these notions of power and tyranny1 what of their manhood1 when their relations with their fellow-men begin to grow and multiply8 ,they are used to find everything give way to them2 what a painful surprise to enter society and meet with opposition on every side1 to be crushed beneath the weight of a universe which they expected to move at will4 ,their insolent manners1 their childish vanity1 only draw down upon them mortification1 scorn1 and mockery2 they swallow insults like water2 sharp experience soon teaches them that they have realised neither their position nor their strength4 ,as they cannot do everything1 they think they can do nothing4 ,they are daunted by unexpected obstacles1 degraded by the scorn of men2 they become base1 cowardly1 and deceitful1 and fall as far below their true level as they formerly soared above it4 ,let us come back to the primitive law4 ,nature has made children helpless and in need of affection2 did she make them to be obeyed and feared8 ,has she given them an imposing manner1 a stern eye1 a loud and threatening voice with which to make themselves feared8 ,i understand how the roaring of the lion strikes terror into the other beasts1 so that they tremble when they behold his terrible mane1 but of all unseemly1 hateful1 and ridiculous sights1 was there ever anything like a body of statesmen in their robes of office with their chief at their head bowing down before a swaddled babe1 addressing him in pompous phrases1 while he cries and slavers in reply8 ,if we consider childhood itself1 is there anything so weak and wretched as a child1 anything so utterly at the mercy of those about it1 so dependent on their pity1 their care1 and their affection8 ,does it not seem as if his gentle face and touching appearance were intended to interest every one on behalf of his weakness and to make them eager to help him8 ,and what is there more offensive1 more unsuitable1 than the sight of a sulky or imperious child1 who commands those about him1 and impudently assumes the tones of a master towards those without whom he would perish8 ,on the other hand1 do you not see how children are fettered by the weakness of infancy8 ,do you not see how cruel it is to increase this servitude by obedience to our caprices1 by depriving them of such liberty as they have8 a liberty which they can scarcely abuse1 a liberty the loss of which will do so little good to them or us4 ,if there is nothing more ridiculous than a haughty child1 there is nothing that claims our pity like a timid child4 ,with the age of reason the child becomes the slave of the community2 then why forestall this by slavery in the home8 ,let this brief hour of life be free from a yoke which nature has not laid upon it2 leave the child the use of his natural liberty1 which1 for a time at least1 secures him from the vices of the slave4 ,bring me those harsh masters1 and those fathers who are the slaves of their children1 bring them both with their frivolous objections1 and before they boast of their own methods let them for once learn the method of nature4 ,i return to practical matters4 ,i have already said your child must not get what he asks1 but what he needs2 ,footnote3 ,we must recognise that pain is often necessary1 pleasure is sometimes needed4 ,so there is only one of the child's desires which should never be complied with1 the desire for power4 ,hence1 whenever they ask for anything we must pay special attention to their motive in asking4 ,as far as possible give them everything they ask for1 provided it can really give them pleasure2 refuse everything they demand from mere caprice or love of power4 he must never act from obedience1 but from necessity4 ,the very words ,,obey and ,,command will be excluded from his vocabulary1 still more those of ,,duty and ,,obligation2 but the words strength1 necessity1 weakness1 and constraint must have a large place in it4 ,before the age of reason it is impossible to form any idea of moral beings or social relations2 so avoid1 as far as may be1 the use of words which express these ideas1 lest the child at an early age should attach wrong ideas to them1 ideas which you cannot or will not destroy when he is older4 ,the first mistaken idea he gets into his head is the germ of error and vice2 it is the first step that needs watching4 ,act in such a way that while he only notices external objects his ideas are confined to sensations2 let him only see the physical world around him4 ,if not1 you may be sure that either he will pay no heed to you at all1 or he will form fantastic ideas of the moral world of which you prate1 ideas which you will never efface as long as he lives4 ,reason with children was ,locke's chief maxim2 it is in the height of fashion at present1 and ,i hardly think it is justified by its results2 those children who have been constantly reasoned with strike me as exceedingly silly4 ,of all man's faculties1 reason1 which is1 so to speak1 compounded of all the rest1 is the last and choicest growth1 and it is this you would use for the child's early training4 ,to make a man reasonable is the coping stone of a good education1 and yet you profess to train a child through his reason6 ,you begin at the wrong end1 you make the end the means4 ,if children understood reason they would not need education1 but by talking to them from their earliest age in a language they do not understand you accustom them to be satisfied with words1 to question all that is said to them1 to think themselves as wise as their teachers2 you train them to be argumentative and rebellious2 and whatever you think you gain from motives of reason1 you really gain from greediness1 fear1 or vanity with which you are obliged to reinforce your reasoning4 ,most of the moral lessons which are and can be given to children may be reduced to this formula2 ,master4 ,you must not do that4 ,child4 ,why not8 ,master4 ,because it is wrong4 ,child4 ,wrong6 ,what is wrong8 ,master4 ,what is forbidden you4 ,child4 ,why is it wrong to do what is forbidden8 ,master4 ,you will be punished for disobedience4 ,child4 ,i will do it when no one is looking4 ,master4 ,we shall watch you4 ,child4 ,i will hide4 ,master4 ,we shall ask you what you were doing4 ,child4 ,i shall tell a lie4 ,master4 ,you must not tell lies4 ,child4 ,why must not ,i tell lies8 ,master4 ,because it is wrong1 etc4 ,that is the inevitable circle4 ,go beyond it1 and the child will not understand you4 ,what sort of use is there in such teaching8 ,i should greatly like to know what you would substitute for this dialogue4 ,it would have puzzled ,locke himself4 ,it is no part of a child's business to know right and wrong1 to perceive the reason for a man's duties4 ,nature would have them children before they are men4 ,if we try to invert this order we shall produce a forced fruit immature and flavourless1 fruit which will be rotten before it is ripe2 we shall have young doctors and old children4 ,childhood has its own ways of seeing1 thinking1 and feeling2 nothing is more foolish than to try and substitute our ways2 and ,i should no more expect judgment in a ten-year-old child than ,i should expect him to be five feet high4 ,indeed1 what use would reason be to him at that age8 ,it is the curb of strength1 and the child does not need the curb4 ,when you try to persuade your scholars of the duty of obedience1 you add to this so-called persuasion compulsion and threats1 or still worse1 flattery and bribes4 ,attracted by selfishness or constrained by force1 they pretend to be convinced by reason4 ,they see as soon as you do that obedience is to their advantage and disobedience to their disadvantage4 ,but as you only demand disagreeable things of them1 and as it is always disagreeable to do another's will1 they hide themselves so that they may do as they please1 persuaded that they are doing no wrong so long as they are not found out1 but ready1 if found out1 to own themselves in the wrong for fear of worse evils4 ,the reason for duty is beyond their age1 and there is not a man in the world who could make them really aware of it2 but the fear of punishment1 the hope of forgiveness1 importunity1 the difficulty of answering1 wrings from them as many confessions as you want2 and you think you have convinced them when you have only wearied or frightened them4 ,what does it all come to8 ,in the first place1 by imposing on them a duty which they fail to recognise1 you make them disinclined to submit to your tyranny1 and you turn away their love2 you teach them deceit1 falsehood1 and lying as a way to gain rewards or escape punishment2 then by accustoming them to conceal a secret motive under the cloak of an apparent one1 you yourself put into their hands the means of deceiving you1 of depriving you of a knowledge of their real character1 of answering you and others with empty words whenever they have the chance4 ,laws1 you say1 though binding on conscience1 exercise the same constraint over grown-up men4 ,that is so1 but what are these men but children spoilt by education8 ,this is just what you should avoid4 ,use force with children and reasoning with men2 this is the natural order2 the wise man needs no laws4 ,treat your scholar according to his age4 ,put him in his place from the first1 and keep him in it1 so that he no longer tries to leave it4 ,then before he knows what goodness is1 he will be practising its chief lesson4 ,give him no orders at all1 absolutely none4 ,do not even let him think that you claim any authority over him4 ,let him only know that he is weak and you are strong1 that his condition and yours puts him at your mercy2 let this be perceived1 learned1 and felt4 ,let him early find upon his proud neck1 the heavy yoke which nature has imposed upon us1 the heavy yoke of necessity1 under which every finite being must bow4 ,let him find this necessity in things1 not in the caprices ,footnote3 ,you may be sure the child will regard as caprice any will which opposes his own or any will which he does not understand4 ,now the child does not understand anything which interferes with his own fancies4 of man2 let the curb be force1 not authority4 ,if there is something he should not do1 do not forbid him1 but prevent him without explanation or reasoning2 what you give him1 give it at his first word without prayers or entreaties1 above all without conditions4 ,give willingly1 refuse unwillingly1 but let your refusal be irrevocable2 let no entreaties move you2 let your ,no1 once uttered1 be a wall of brass1 against which the child may exhaust his strength some five or six times1 but in the end he will try no more to overthrow it4 ,thus you will make him patient1 equable1 calm1 and resigned1 even when he does not get all he wants2 for it is in man's nature to bear patiently with the nature of things1 but not with the ill-will of another4 ,a child never rebels against1 ,there is none left1 unless he thinks the reply is false4 ,moreover1 there is no middle course2 you must either make no demands on him at all1 or else you must fashion him to perfect obedience4 ,the worst education of all is to leave him hesitating between his own will and yours1 constantly disputing whether you or he is master2 ,i would rather a hundred times that he were master4 ,it is very strange that ever since people began to think about education they should have hit upon no other way of guiding children than emulation1 jealousy1 envy1 vanity1 greediness1 base cowardice1 all the most dangerous passions1 passions ever ready to ferment1 ever prepared to corrupt the soul even before the body is full-grown4 ,with every piece of precocious instruction which you try to force into their minds you plant a vice in the depths of their hearts2 foolish teachers think they are doing wonders when they are making their scholars wicked in order to teach them what goodness is1 and then they tell us seriously1 ,such is man4 ,yes1 such is man1 as you have made him4 ,every means has been tried except one1 the very one which might succeed--well-regulated liberty4 ,do not undertake to bring up a child if you cannot guide him merely by the laws of what can or cannot be4 ,the limits of the possible and the impossible are alike unknown to him1 so they can be extended or contracted around him at your will4 ,without a murmur he is restrained1 urged on1 held back1 by the hands of necessity alone2 he is made adaptable and teachable by the mere force of things1 without any chance for vice to spring up in him2 for passions do not arise so long as they have accomplished nothing4 ,give your scholar no verbal lessons2 he should be taught by experience alone2 never punish him1 for he does not know what it is to do wrong2 never make him say1 ,forgive me1 for he does not know how to do you wrong4 ,wholly unmoral in his actions1 he can do nothing morally wrong1 and he deserves neither punishment nor reproof4 ,already ,i see the frightened reader comparing this child with those of our time2 he is mistaken4 ,the perpetual restraint imposed upon your scholars stimulates their activity2 the more subdued they are in your presence1 the more boisterous they are as soon as they are out of your sight4 ,they must make amends to themselves in some way or other for the harsh constraint to which you subject them4 ,two schoolboys from the town will do more damage in the country than all the children of the village4 ,shut up a young gentleman and a young peasant in a room2 the former will have upset and smashed everything before the latter has stirred from his place4 ,why is that1 unless that the one hastens to misuse a moment's licence1 while the other1 always sure of freedom1 does not use it rashly4 ,and yet the village children1 often flattered or constrained1 are still very far from the state in which ,i would have them kept4 ,let us lay it down as an incontrovertible rule that the first impulses of nature are always right2 there is no original sin in the human heart1 the how and why of the entrance of every vice can be traced4 ,the only natural passion is self-love or selfishness taken in a wider sense4 ,this selfishness is good in itself and in relation to ourselves2 and as the child has no necessary relations to other people he is naturally indifferent to them2 his self-love only becomes good or bad by the use made of it and the relations established by its means4 ,until the time is ripe for the appearance of reason1 that guide of selfishness1 the main thing is that the child shall do nothing because you are watching him or listening to him2 in a word1 nothing because of other people1 but only what nature asks of him2 then he will never do wrong4 ,i do not mean to say that he will never do any mischief1 never hurt himself1 never break a costly ornament if you leave it within his reach4 ,he might do much damage without doing wrong1 since wrong-doing depends on the harmful intention which will never be his4 ,if once he meant to do harm1 his whole education would be ruined2 he would be almost hopelessly bad4 ,greed considers some things wrong which are not wrong in the eyes of reason4 ,when you leave free scope to a child's heedlessness1 you must put anything he could spoil out of his way1 and leave nothing fragile or costly within his reach4 ,let the room be furnished with plain and solid furniture2 no mirrors1 china1 or useless ornaments4 ,my pupil ,emile1 who is brought up in the country1 shall have a room just like a peasant's4 ,why take such pains to adorn it when he will be so little in it8 ,i am mistaken1 however2 he will ornament it for himself1 and we shall soon see how4 ,but if1 in spite of your precautions1 the child contrives to do some damage1 if he breaks some useful article1 do not punish him for your carelessness1 do not even scold him2 let him hear no word of reproval1 do not even let him see that he has vexed you2 behave just as if the thing had come to pieces of itself2 you may consider you have done great things if you have managed to hold your tongue4 ,may ,i venture at this point to state the greatest1 the most important1 the most useful rule of education8 ,it is3 ,do not save time1 but lose it4 ,i hope that every-day readers will excuse my paradoxes2 you cannot avoid paradox if you think for yourself1 and whatever you may say ,i would rather fall into paradox than into prejudice4 ,the most dangerous period in human life lies between birth and the age of twelve4 ,it is the time when errors and vices spring up1 while as yet there is no means to destroy them2 when the means of destruction are ready1 the roots have gone too deep to be pulled up4 ,if the infant sprang at one bound from its mother's breast to the age of reason1 the present type of education would be quite suitable1 but its natural growth calls for quite a different training4 ,the mind should be left undisturbed till its faculties have developed2 for while it is blind it cannot see the torch you offer it1 nor can it follow through the vast expanse of ideas a path so faintly traced by reason that the best eyes can scarcely follow it4 ,therefore the education of the earliest years should be merely negative4 ,it consists1 not in teaching virtue or truth1 but in preserving the heart from vice and from the spirit of error4 ,if only you could let well alone1 and get others to follow your example2 if you could bring your scholar to the age of twelve strong and healthy1 but unable to tell his right hand from his left1 the eyes of his understanding would be open to reason as soon as you began to teach him4 ,free from prejudices and free from habits1 there would be nothing in him to counteract the effects of your labours4 ,in your hands he would soon become the wisest of men2 by doing nothing to begin with1 you would end with a prodigy of education4 ,reverse the usual practice and you will almost always do right4 ,fathers and teachers who want to make the child1 not a child but a man of learning1 think it never too soon to scold1 correct1 reprove1 threaten1 bribe1 teach1 and reason4 ,do better than they2 be reasonable1 and do not reason with your pupil1 more especially do not try to make him approve what he dislikes2 for if reason is always connected with disagreeable matters1 you make it distasteful to him1 you discredit it at an early age in a mind not yet ready to understand it4 ,exercise his body1 his limbs1 his senses1 his strength1 but keep his mind idle as long as you can4 ,distrust all opinions which appear before the judgment to discriminate between them4 ,restrain and ward off strange impressions2 and to prevent the birth of evil do not hasten to do well1 for goodness is only possible when enlightened by reason4 ,regard all delays as so much time gained2 you have achieved much1 you approach the boundary without loss4 ,leave childhood to ripen in your children4 ,in a word1 beware of giving anything they need to-day if it can be deferred without danger to to-morrow4 ,there is another point to be considered which confirms the suitability of this method3 it is the child's individual bent1 which must be thoroughly known before we can choose the fittest moral training4 ,every mind has its own form1 in accordance with which it must be controlled2 and the success of the pains taken depends largely on the fact that he is controlled in this way and no other4 ,oh1 wise man1 take time to observe nature2 watch your scholar well before you say a word to him2 first leave the germ of his character free to show itself1 do not constrain him in anything1 the better to see him as he really is4 ,do you think this time of liberty is wasted8 ,on the contrary1 your scholar will be the better employed1 for this is the way you yourself will learn not to lose a single moment when time is of more value4 ,if1 however1 you begin to act before you know what to do1 you act at random2 you may make mistakes1 and must retrace your steps2 your haste to reach your goal will only take you further from it4 ,do not imitate the miser who loses much lest he should lose a little4 ,sacrifice a little time in early childhood1 and it will be repaid you with usury when your scholar is older4 ,the wise physician does not hastily give prescriptions at first sight1 but he studies the constitution of the sick man before he prescribes anything2 the treatment is begun later1 but the patient is cured1 while the hasty doctor kills him4 ,but where shall we find a place for our child so as to bring him up as a senseless being1 an automaton8 ,shall we keep him in the moon1 or on a desert island8 ,shall we remove him from human society8 ,will he not always have around him the sight and the pattern of the passions of other people8 ,will he never see children of his own age8 ,will he not see his parents1 his neighbours1 his nurse1 his governess1 his man-servant1 his tutor himself1 who after all will not be an angel8 ,here we have a real and serious objection4 ,but did ,i tell you that an education according to nature would be an easy task8 ,oh1 men6 is it my fault that you have made all good things difficult8 ,i admit that ,i am aware of these difficulties2 perhaps they are insuperable2 but nevertheless it is certain that we do to some extent avoid them by trying to do so4 ,i am showing what we should try to attain1 ,i do not say we can attain it1 but ,i do say that whoever comes nearest to it is nearest to success4 ,remember you must be a man yourself before you try to train a man2 you yourself must set the pattern he shall copy4 ,while the child is still unconscious there is time to prepare his surroundings1 so that nothing shall strike his eye but what is fit for his sight4 ,gain the respect of every one1 begin to win their hearts1 so that they may try to please you4 ,you will not be master of the child if you cannot control every one about him2 and this authority will never suffice unless it rests upon respect for your goodness4 ,there is no question of squandering one's means and giving money right and left2 ,i never knew money win love4 ,you must neither be harsh nor niggardly1 nor must you merely pity misery when you can relieve it2 but in vain will you open your purse if you do not open your heart along with it1 the hearts of others will always be closed to you4 ,you must give your own time1 attention1 affection1 your very self2 for whatever you do1 people always perceive that your money is not you4 ,there are proofs of kindly interest which produce more results and are really more useful than any gift2 how many of the sick and wretched have more need of comfort than of charity2 how many of the oppressed need protection rather than money8 ,reconcile those who are at strife1 prevent lawsuits2 incline children to duty1 fathers to kindness2 promote happy marriages2 prevent annoyances2 freely use the credit of your pupil's parents on behalf of the weak who cannot obtain justice1 the weak who are oppressed by the strong4 ,be just1 human1 kindly4 ,do not give alms alone1 give charity2 works of mercy do more than money for the relief of suffering2 love others and they will love you2 serve them and they will serve you2 be their brother and they will be your children4 ,this is one reason why ,i want to bring up ,emile in the country1 far from those miserable lacqueys1 the most degraded of men except their masters2 far from the vile morals of the town1 whose gilded surface makes them seductive and contagious to children2 while the vices of peasants1 unadorned and in their naked grossness1 are more fitted to repel than to seduce1 when there is no motive for imitating them4 ,in the village a tutor will have much more control over the things he wishes to show the child2 his reputation1 his words1 his example1 will have a weight they would never have in the town2 he is of use to every one1 so every one is eager to oblige him1 to win his esteem1 to appeal before the disciple what the master would have him be2 if vice is not corrected1 public scandal is at least avoided1 which is all that our present purpose requires4 ,cease to blame others for your own faults2 children are corrupted less by what they see than by your own teaching4 ,with your endless preaching1 moralising1 and pedantry1 for one idea you give your scholars1 believing it to be good1 you give them twenty more which are good for nothing2 you are full of what is going on in your own minds1 and you fail to see the effect you produce on theirs4 ,in the continual flow of words with which you overwhelm them1 do you think there is none which they get hold of in a wrong sense8 ,do you suppose they do not make their own comments on your long-winded explanations1 that they do not find material for the construction of a system they can understand--one which they will use against you when they get the chance8 ,listen to a little fellow who has just been under instruction2 let him chatter freely1 ask questions1 and talk at his ease1 and you will be surprised to find the strange forms your arguments have assumed in his mind2 he confuses everything1 and turns everything topsy-turvy2 you are vexed and grieved by his unforeseen objections2 he reduces you to be silent yourself or to silence him3 and what can he think of silence in one who is so fond of talking8 ,if ever he gains this advantage and is aware of it1 farewell education2 from that moment all is lost2 he is no longer trying to learn1 he is trying to refute you4 ,zealous teachers1 be simple1 sensible1 and reticent2 be in no hurry to act unless to prevent the actions of others4 ,again and again ,i say1 reject1 if it may be1 a good lesson for fear of giving a bad one4 ,beware of playing the tempter in this world1 which nature intended as an earthly paradise for men1 and do not attempt to give the innocent child the knowledge of good and evil2 since you cannot prevent the child learning by what he sees outside himself1 restrict your own efforts to impressing those examples on his mind in the form best suited for him4 ,the explosive passions produce a great effect upon the child when he sees them2 their outward expression is very marked2 he is struck by this and his attention is arrested4 ,anger especially is so noisy in its rage that it is impossible not to perceive it if you are within reach4 ,you need not ask yourself whether this is an opportunity for a pedagogue to frame a fine disquisition4 ,what6 no fine disquisition1 nothing1 not a word6 ,let the child come to you2 impressed by what he has seen1 he will not fail to ask you questions4 ,the answer is easy2 it is drawn from the very things which have appealed to his senses4 ,he sees a flushed face1 flashing eyes1 a threatening gesture1 he hears cries2 everything shows that the body is ill at ease4 ,tell him plainly1 without affectation or mystery1 ,this poor man is ill1 he is in a fever4 ,you may take the opportunity of giving him in a few words some idea of disease and its effects2 for that too belongs to nature1 and is one of the bonds of necessity which he must recognise4 ,by means of this idea1 which is not false in itself1 may he not early acquire a certain aversion to giving way to excessive passions1 which he regards as diseases2 and do you not think that such a notion1 given at the right moment1 will produce a more wholesome effect than the most tedious sermon8 ,but consider the after effects of this idea2 you have authority1 if ever you find it necessary1 to treat the rebellious child as a sick child2 to keep him in his room1 in bed if need be1 to diet him1 to make him afraid of his growing vices1 to make him hate and dread them without ever regarding as a punishment the strict measures you will perhaps have to use for his recovery4 ,if it happens that you yourself in a moment's heat depart from the calm and self-control which you should aim at1 do not try to conceal your fault1 but tell him frankly1 with a gentle reproach1 ,my dear1 you have hurt me4 ,moreover1 it is a matter of great importance that no notice should be taken in his presence of the quaint sayings which result from the simplicity of the ideas in which he is brought up1 nor should they be quoted in a way he can understand4 ,a foolish laugh may destroy six months' work and do irreparable damage for life4 ,i cannot repeat too often that to control the child one must often control oneself4 ,i picture my little ,emile at the height of a dispute between two neighbours going up to the fiercest of them and saying in a tone of pity1 ,you are ill1 ,i am very sorry for you4 ,this speech will no doubt have its effect on the spectators and perhaps on the disputants4 ,without laughter1 scolding1 or praise ,i should take him away1 willing or no1 before he could see this result1 or at least before he could think about it2 and ,i should make haste to turn his thoughts to other things1 so that he would soon forget all about it4 ,i do not propose to enter into every detail1 but only to explain general rules and to give illustrations in cases of difficulty4 ,i think it is impossible to train a child up to the age of twelve in the midst of society1 without giving him some idea of the relations between one man and another1 and of the morality of human actions4 ,it is enough to delay the development of these ideas as long as possible1 and when they can no longer be avoided to limit them to present needs1 so that he may neither think himself master of everything nor do harm to others without knowing or caring4 ,there are calm and gentle characters which can be led a long way in their first innocence without any danger2 but there are also stormy dispositions whose passions develop early2 you must hasten to make men of them lest you should have to keep them in chains4 ,our first duties are to ourselves2 our first feelings are centred on self2 all our instincts are at first directed to our own preservation and our own welfare4 ,thus the first notion of justice springs not from what we owe to others1 but from what is due to us4 ,here is another error in popular methods of education4 ,if you talk to children of their duties1 and not of their rights1 you are beginning at the wrong end1 and telling them what they cannot understand1 what cannot be of any interest to them4 ,if ,i had to train a child such as ,i have just described1 ,i should say to myself1 ,a child never attacks people1 ,footnote3 ,a child should never be allowed to play with grown-up people as if they were his inferiors1 nor even as if they were only his equals4 ,if he ventured to strike any one in earnest1 were it only the footman1 were it the hangman himself1 let the sufferer return his blows with interest1 so that he will not want to do it again4 ,i have seen silly women inciting children to rebellion1 encouraging them to hit people1 allowing themselves to be beaten1 and laughing at the harmless blows1 never thinking that those blows were in intention the blows of a murderer1 and that the child who desires to beat people now will desire to kill them when he is grown up4 only things2 and he soon learns by experience to respect those older and stronger than himself4 ,things1 however1 do not defend themselves4 ,therefore the first idea he needs is not that of liberty but of property1 and that he may get this idea he must have something of his own4 ,it is useless to enumerate his clothes1 furniture1 and playthings2 although he uses these he knows not how or why he has come by them4 ,to tell him they were given him is little better1 for giving implies having2 so here is property before his own1 and it is the principle of property that you want to teach him2 moreover1 giving is a convention1 and the child as yet has no idea of conventions4 ,i hope my reader will note1 in this and many other cases1 how people think they have taught children thoroughly1 when they have only thrust on them words which have no intelligible meaning to them4 ,footnote3 ,this is why most children want to take back what they have given1 and cry if they cannot get it4 ,they do not do this when once they know what a gift is2 only they are more careful about giving things away4 ,we must therefore go back to the origin of property1 for that is where the first idea of it must begin4 ,the child1 living in the country1 will have got some idea of field work2 eyes and leisure suffice for that1 and he will have both4 ,in every age1 and especially in childhood1 we want to create1 to copy1 to produce1 to give all the signs of power and activity4 ,he will hardly have seen the gardener at work twice1 sowing1 planting1 and growing vegetables1 before he will want to garden himself4 ,according to the principles ,i have already laid down1 ,i shall not thwart him2 on the contrary1 ,i shall approve of his plan1 share his hobby1 and work with him1 not for his pleasure but my own2 at least1 so he thinks2 ,i shall be his under-gardener1 and dig the ground for him till his arms are strong enough to do it2 he will take possession of it by planting a bean1 and this is surely a more sacred possession1 and one more worthy of respect1 than that of ,nunes ,balboa1 who took possession of ,south ,america in the name of the ,king of ,spain1 by planting his banner on the coast of the ,southern ,sea4 ,we water the beans every day1 we watch them coming up with the greatest delight4 ,day by day ,i increase this delight by saying1 ,those belong to you4 ,to explain what that word belong means1 ,i show him how he has given his time1 his labour1 and his trouble1 his very self to it2 that in this ground there is a part of himself which he can claim against all the world1 as he could withdraw his arm from the hand of another man who wanted to keep it against his will4 ,one fine day he hurries up with his watering-can in his hand4 ,what a scene of woe6 ,alas6 all the beans are pulled up1 the soil is dug over1 you can scarcely find the place4 ,oh6 what has become of my labour1 my work1 the beloved fruits of my care and effort8 ,who has stolen my property6 ,who has taken my beans8 ,the young heart revolts2 the first feeling of injustice brings its sorrow and bitterness2 tears come in torrents1 the unhappy child fills the air with cries and groans1 ,i share his sorrow and anger2 we look around us1 we make inquiries4 ,at last we discover that the gardener did it4 ,we send for him4 ,but we are greatly mistaken4 ,the gardener1 hearing our complaint1 begins to complain louder than we3 ,what1 gentlemen1 was it you who spoilt my work6 ,i had sown some ,maltese melons2 the seed was given me as something quite out of the common1 and ,i meant to give you a treat when they were ripe2 but you have planted your miserable beans and destroyed my melons1 which were coming up so nicely1 and ,i can never get any more4 ,you have behaved very badly to me and you have deprived yourselves of the pleasure of eating most delicious melons4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,my poor ,robert1 you must forgive us4 ,you had given your labour and your pains to it4 ,i see we were wrong to spoil your work1 but we will send to ,malta for some more seed for you1 and we will never dig the ground again without finding out if some one else has been beforehand with us4 ,,robert4 ,well1 gentlemen1 you need not trouble yourselves1 for there is no more waste ground4 ,i dig what my father tilled2 every one does the same1 and all the land you see has been occupied time out of mind4 ,,emile4 ,mr4 ,robert1 do people often lose the seed of ,maltese melons8 ,,robert4 ,no indeed1 sir2 we do not often find such silly little gentlemen as you4 ,no one meddles with his neighbour's garden2 every one respects other people's work so that his own may be safe4 ,,emile4 ,but ,i have not got a garden4 ,,robert4 ,i don't care2 if you spoil mine ,i won't let you walk in it1 for you see ,i do not mean to lose my labour4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,could not we suggest an arrangement with this kind ,robert8 ,let him give my young friend and myself a corner of his garden to cultivate1 on condition that he has half the crop4 ,,robert4 ,you may have it free4 ,but remember ,i shall dig up your beans if you touch my melons4 ,in this attempt to show how a child may be taught certain primitive ideas we see how the notion of property goes back naturally to the right of the first occupier to the results of his work4 ,that is plain and simple1 and quite within the child's grasp4 ,from that to the rights of property and exchange there is but a step1 after which you must stop short4 ,you also see that an explanation which ,i can give in writing in a couple of pages may take a year in practice1 for in the course of moral ideas we cannot advance too slowly1 nor plant each step too firmly4 ,young teacher1 pray consider this example1 and remember that your lessons should always be in deeds rather than words1 for children soon forget what they say or what is said to them1 but not what they have done nor what has been done to them4 ,such teaching should be given1 as ,i have said1 sooner or later1 as the scholar's disposition1 gentle or turbulent1 requires it4 ,the way of using it is unmistakable2 but to omit no matter of importance in a difficult business let us take another example4 ,your ill-tempered child destroys everything he touches4 ,do not vex yourself2 put anything he can spoil out of his reach4 ,he breaks the things he is using2 do not be in a hurry to give him more2 let him feel the want of them4 ,he breaks the windows of his room2 let the wind blow upon him night and day1 and do not be afraid of his catching cold2 it is better to catch cold than to be reckless4 ,never complain of the inconvenience he causes you1 but let him feel it first4 ,at last you will have the windows mended without saying anything4 ,he breaks them again2 then change your plan2 tell him dryly and without anger1 ,the windows are mine1 ,i took pains to have them put in1 and ,i mean to keep them safe4 ,then you will shut him up in a dark place without a window4 ,at this unexpected proceeding he cries and howls2 no one heeds4 ,soon he gets tired and changes his tone2 he laments and sighs2 a servant appears1 the rebel begs to be let out4 ,without seeking any excuse for refusing1 the servant merely says1 ,i1 too1 have windows to keep1 and goes away4 ,at last1 when the child has been there several hours1 long enough to get very tired of it1 long enough to make an impression on his memory1 some one suggests to him that he should offer to make terms with you1 so that you may set him free and he will never break windows again4 ,that is just what he wants4 ,he will send and ask you to come and see him2 you will come1 he will suggest his plan1 and you will agree to it at once1 saying1 ,that is a very good idea2 it will suit us both2 why didn't you think of it sooner8 ,then without asking for any affirmation or confirmation of his promise1 you will embrace him joyfully and take him back at once to his own room1 considering this agreement as sacred as if he had confirmed it by a formal oath4 ,what idea do you think he will form from these proceedings1 as to the fulfilment of a promise and its usefulness8 ,if ,i am not greatly mistaken1 there is not a child upon earth1 unless he is utterly spoilt already1 who could resist this treatment1 or one who would ever dream of breaking windows again on purpose4 ,follow out the whole train of thought4 ,the naughty little fellow hardly thought when he was making a hole for his beans that he was hewing out a cell in which his own knowledge would soon imprison him4 ,footnote3 ,moreover if the duty of keeping his word were not established in the child's mind by its own utility1 the child's growing consciousness would soon impress it on him as a law of conscience1 as an innate principle1 only requiring suitable experiences for its development4 ,this first outline is not sketched by man1 it is engraved on the heart by the author of all justice4 ,take away the primitive law of contract and the obligation imposed by contract and there is nothing left of human society but vanity and empty show4 ,he who only keeps his word because it is to his own profit is hardly more pledged than if he had given no promise at all4 ,this principle is of the utmost importance1 and deserves to be thoroughly studied1 for man is now beginning to be at war with himself4 ,we are now in the world of morals1 the door to vice is open4 ,deceit and falsehood are born along with conventions and duties4 ,as soon as we can do what we ought not to do1 we try to hide what we ought not to have done4 ,as soon as self-interest makes us give a promise1 a greater interest may make us break it2 it is merely a question of doing it with impunity2 we naturally take refuge in concealment and falsehood4 ,as we have not been able to prevent vice1 we must punish it4 ,the sorrows of life begin with its mistakes4 ,i have already said enough to show that children should never receive punishment merely as such2 it should always come as the natural consequence of their fault4 ,thus you will not exclaim against their falsehood1 you will not exactly punish them for lying1 but you will arrange that all the ill effects of lying1 such as not being believed when we speak the truth1 or being accused of what we have not done in spite of our protests1 shall fall on their heads when they have told a lie4 ,but let us explain what lying means to the child4 ,there are two kinds of lies2 one concerns an accomplished fact1 the other concerns a future duty4 ,the first occurs when we falsely deny or assert that we did or did not do something1 or1 to put it in general terms1 when we knowingly say what is contrary to facts4 ,the other occurs when we promise what we do not mean to perform1 or1 in general terms1 when we profess an intention which we do not really mean to carry out4 ,these two kinds of lie are sometimes found in combination1 ,footnote3 ,thus the guilty person1 accused of some evil deed1 defends himself by asserting that he is a good man4 ,his statement is false in itself and false in its application to the matter in hand4 but their differences are my present business4 ,he who feels the need of help from others1 he who is constantly experiencing their kindness1 has nothing to gain by deceiving them2 it is plainly to his advantage that they should see things as they are1 lest they should mistake his interests4 ,it is therefore plain that lying with regard to actual facts is not natural to children1 but lying is made necessary by the law of obedience2 since obedience is disagreeable1 children disobey as far as they can in secret1 and the present good of avoiding punishment or reproof outweighs the remoter good of speaking the truth4 ,under a free and natural education why should your child lie8 ,what has he to conceal from you8 ,you do not thwart him1 you do not punish him1 you demand nothing from him4 ,why should he not tell everything to you as simply as to his little playmate8 ,he cannot see anything more risky in the one course than in the other4 ,the lie concerning duty is even less natural1 since promises to do or refrain from doing are conventional agreements which are outside the state of nature and detract from our liberty4 ,moreover1 all promises made by children are in themselves void2 when they pledge themselves they do not know what they are doing1 for their narrow vision cannot look beyond the present4 ,a child can hardly lie when he makes a promise2 for he is only thinking how he can get out of the present difficulty1 any means which has not an immediate result is the same to him2 when he promises for the future he promises nothing1 and his imagination is as yet incapable of projecting him into the future while he lives in the present4 ,if he could escape a whipping or get a packet of sweets by promising to throw himself out of the window to-morrow1 he would promise on the spot4 ,this is why the law disregards all promises made by minors1 and when fathers and teachers are stricter and demand that promises shall be kept1 it is only when the promise refers to something the child ought to do even if he had made no promise4 ,the child cannot lie when he makes a promise1 for he does not know what he is doing when he makes his promise4 ,the case is different when he breaks his promise1 which is a sort of retrospective falsehood2 for he clearly remembers making the promise1 but he fails to see the importance of keeping it4 ,unable to look into the future1 he cannot foresee the results of things1 and when he breaks his promises he does nothing contrary to his stage of reasoning4 ,children's lies are therefore entirely the work of their teachers1 and to teach them to speak the truth is nothing less than to teach them the art of lying4 ,in your zeal to rule1 control1 and teach them1 you never find sufficient means at your disposal4 ,you wish to gain fresh influence over their minds by baseless maxims1 by unreasonable precepts2 and you would rather they knew their lessons and told lies1 than leave them ignorant and truthful4 ,we1 who only give our scholars lessons in practice1 who prefer to have them good rather than clever1 never demand the truth lest they should conceal it1 and never claim any promise lest they should be tempted to break it4 ,if some mischief has been done in my absence and ,i do not know who did it1 ,i shall take care not to accuse ,emile1 nor to say1 ,did you do it8 ,footnote3 ,nothing could be more indiscreet than such a question1 especially if the child is guilty4 ,then if he thinks you know what he has done1 he will think you are setting a trap for him1 and this idea can only set him against you4 ,if he thinks you do not know1 he will say to himself1 ,why should ,i make my fault known8 ,and here we have the first temptation to falsehood as the direct result of your foolish question4 ,for in so doing what should ,i do but teach him to deny it8 ,if his difficult temperament compels me to make some agreement with him1 ,i will take good care that the suggestion always comes from him1 never from me2 that when he undertakes anything he has always a present and effective interest in fulfilling his promise1 and if he ever fails this lie will bring down on him all the unpleasant consequences which he sees arising from the natural order of things1 and not from his tutor's vengeance4 ,but far from having recourse to such cruel measures1 ,i feel almost certain that ,emile will not know for many years what it is to lie1 and that when he does find out1 he will be astonished and unable to understand what can be the use of it4 ,it is quite clear that the less ,i make his welfare dependent on the will or the opinions of others1 the less is it to his interest to lie4 ,when we are in no hurry to teach there is no hurry to demand1 and we can take our time1 so as to demand nothing except under fitting conditions4 ,then the child is training himself1 in so far as he is not being spoilt4 ,but when a fool of a tutor1 who does not know how to set about his business1 is always making his pupil promise first this and then that1 without discrimination1 choice1 or proportion1 the child is puzzled and overburdened with all these promises1 and neglects1 forgets or even scorns them1 and considering them as so many empty phrases he makes a game of making and breaking promises4 ,would you have him keep his promise faithfully1 be moderate in your claims upon him4 ,the detailed treatment ,i have just given to lying may be applied in many respects to all the other duties imposed upon children1 whereby these duties are made not only hateful but impracticable4 ,for the sake of a show of preaching virtue you make them love every vice2 you instil these vices by forbidding them4 ,would you have them pious1 you take them to church till they are sick of it2 you teach them to gabble prayers until they long for the happy time when they will not have to pray to ,god4 ,to teach them charity you make them give alms as if you scorned to give yourself4 ,it is not the child1 but the master1 who should give2 however much he loves his pupil he should vie with him for this honour2 he should make him think that he is too young to deserve it4 ,alms-giving is the deed of a man who can measure the worth of his gift and the needs of his fellow-men4 ,the child1 who knows nothing of these1 can have no merit in giving2 he gives without charity1 without kindness2 he is almost ashamed to give1 for1 to judge by your practice and his own1 he thinks it is only children who give1 and that there is no need for charity when we are grown up4 ,observe that the only things children are set to give are things of which they do not know the value1 bits of metal carried in their pockets for which they have no further use4 ,a child would rather give a hundred coins than one cake4 ,but get this prodigal giver to distribute what is dear to him1 his toys1 his sweets1 his own lunch1 and we shall soon see if you have made him really generous4 ,people try yet another way2 they soon restore what he gave to the child1 so that he gets used to giving everything which he knows will come back to him4 ,i have scarcely seen generosity in children except of these two types1 giving what is of no use to them1 or what they expect to get back again4 ,arrange things1 says ,locke1 so that experience may convince them that the most generous giver gets the biggest share4 ,that is to make the child superficially generous but really greedy4 ,he adds that children will thus form the habit of liberality4 ,yes1 a usurer's liberality1 which expects cent4 per cent4 ,but when it is a question of real giving1 good-bye to the habit2 when they do not get things back1 they will not give4 ,it is the habit of the mind1 not of the hands1 that needs watching4 ,all the other virtues taught to children are like this1 and to preach these baseless virtues you waste their youth in sorrow4 ,what a sensible sort of education6 ,teachers1 have done with these shams2 be good and kind2 let your example sink into your scholars' memories till they are old enough to take it to heart4 ,rather than hasten to demand deeds of charity from my pupil ,i prefer to perform such deeds in his presence1 even depriving him of the means of imitating me1 as an honour beyond his years2 for it is of the utmost importance that he should not regard a man's duties as merely those of a child4 ,if when he sees me help the poor he asks me about it1 and it is time to reply to his questions1 ,footnote3 ,it must be understood that ,i do not answer his questions when he wants2 that would be to subject myself to his will and to place myself in the most dangerous state of dependence that ever a tutor was in4 ,i shall say1 ,my dear boy1 the rich only exist1 through the good-will of the poor1 so they have promised to feed those who have not enough to live on1 either in goods or labour4 ,then you promised to do this8 ,certainly2 ,i am only master of the wealth that passes through my hands on the condition attached to its ownership4 ,after this talk 7and we have seen how a child may be brought to understand it7 another than ,emile would be tempted to imitate me and behave like a rich man2 in such a case ,i should at least take care that it was done without ostentation2 ,i would rather he robbed me of my privilege and hid himself to give4 ,it is a fraud suitable to his age1 and the only one ,i could forgive in him4 ,i know that all these imitative virtues are only the virtues of a monkey1 and that a good action is only morally good when it is done as such and not because of others4 ,but at an age when the heart does not yet feel anything1 you must make children copy the deeds you wish to grow into habits1 until they can do them with understanding and for the love of what is good4 ,man imitates1 as do the beasts4 ,the love of imitating is well regulated by nature2 in society it becomes a vice4 ,the monkey imitates man1 whom he fears1 and not the other beasts1 which he scorns2 he thinks what is done by his betters must be good4 ,among ourselves1 our harlequins imitate all that is good to degrade it and bring it into ridicule2 knowing their owners' baseness they try to equal what is better than they are1 or they strive to imitate what they admire1 and their bad taste appears in their choice of models1 they would rather deceive others or win applause for their own talents than become wiser or better4 ,imitation has its roots in our desire to escape from ourselves4 ,if ,i succeed in my undertaking1 ,emile will certainly have no such wish4 ,so we must dispense with any seeming good that might arise from it4 ,examine your rules of education2 you will find them all topsy-turvy1 especially in all that concerns virtue and morals4 ,the only moral lesson which is suited for a child--the most important lesson for every time of life--is this3 ,never hurt anybody4 ,the very rule of well-doing1 if not subordinated to this rule1 is dangerous1 false1 and contradictory4 ,who is there who does no good8 ,every one does some good1 the wicked as well as the righteous2 he makes one happy at the cost of the misery of a hundred1 and hence spring all our misfortunes4 ,the noblest virtues are negative1 they are also the most difficult1 for they make little show1 and do not even make room for that pleasure so dear to the heart of man1 the thought that some one is pleased with us4 ,if there be a man who does no harm to his neighbours1 what good must he have accomplished6 ,what a bold heart1 what a strong character it needs6 ,it is not in talking about this maxim1 but in trying to practise it1 that we discover both its greatness and its difficulty4 ,footnote3 ,the precept ,never hurt anybody1 implies the greatest possible independence of human society2 for in the social state one man's good is another man's evil4 ,this relation is part of the nature of things2 it is inevitable4 ,you may apply this test to man in society and to the hermit to discover which is best4 ,a distinguished author says1 ,none but the wicked can live alone4 ,i say1 ,none but the good can live alone4 ,this proposition1 if less sententious1 is truer and more logical than the other4 ,if the wicked were alone1 what evil would he do8 ,it is among his fellows that he lays his snares for others4 ,if they wish to apply this argument to the man of property1 my answer is to be found in the passage to which this note is appended4 ,this will give you some slight idea of the precautions ,i would have you take in giving children instruction which cannot always be refused without risk to themselves or others1 or the far greater risk of the formation of bad habits1 which would be difficult to correct later on2 but be sure this necessity will not often arise with children who are properly brought up1 for they cannot possibly become rebellious1 spiteful1 untruthful1 or greedy1 unless the seeds of these vices are sown in their hearts4 ,what ,i have just said applies therefore rather to the exception than the rule4 ,but the oftener children have the opportunity of quitting their proper condition1 and contracting the vices of men1 the oftener will these exceptions arise4 ,those who are brought up in the world must receive more precocious instruction than those who are brought up in retirement4 ,so this solitary education would be preferable1 even if it did nothing more than leave childhood time to ripen4 ,there is quite another class of exceptions3 those so gifted by nature that they rise above the level of their age4 ,as there are men who never get beyond infancy1 so there are others who are never1 so to speak1 children1 they are men almost from birth4 ,the difficulty is that these cases are very rare1 very difficult to distinguish2 while every mother1 who knows that a child may be a prodigy1 is convinced that her child is that one4 ,they go further2 they mistake the common signs of growth for marks of exceptional talent4 ,liveliness1 sharp sayings1 romping1 amusing simplicity1 these are the characteristic marks of this age1 and show that the child is a child indeed4 ,is it strange that a child who is encouraged to chatter and allowed to say anything1 who is restrained neither by consideration nor convention1 should chance to say something clever8 ,were he never to hit the mark1 his case would be stranger than that of the astrologer who1 among a thousand errors1 occasionally predicts the truth4 ,they lie so often1 said ,henry ,,iv41 that at last they say what is true4 ,if you want to say something clever1 you have only to talk long enough4 ,may ,providence watch over those fine folk who have no other claim to social distinction4 ,the finest thoughts may spring from a child's brain1 or rather the best words may drop from his lips1 just as diamonds of great worth may fall into his hands1 while neither the thoughts nor the diamonds are his own2 at that age neither can be really his4 ,the child's sayings do not mean to him what they mean to us1 the ideas he attaches to them are different4 ,his ideas1 if indeed he has any ideas at all1 have neither order nor connection2 there is nothing sure1 nothing certain1 in his thoughts4 ,examine your so-called prodigy4 ,now and again you will discover in him extreme activity of mind and extraordinary clearness of thought4 ,more often this same mind will seem slack and spiritless1 as if wrapped in mist4 ,sometimes he goes before you1 sometimes he will not stir4 ,one moment you would call him a genius1 another a fool4 ,you would be mistaken in both2 he is a child1 an eaglet who soars aloft for a moment1 only to drop back into the nest4 ,treat him1 therefore1 according to his age1 in spite of appearances1 and beware of exhausting his strength by over-much exercise4 ,if the young brain grows warm and begins to bubble1 let it work freely1 but do not heat it any further1 lest it lose its goodness1 and when the first gases have been given off1 collect and compress the rest so that in after years they may turn to life-giving heat and real energy4 ,if not1 your time and your pains will be wasted1 you will destroy your own work1 and after foolishly intoxicating yourself with these heady fumes1 you will have nothing left but an insipid and worthless wine4 ,silly children grow into ordinary men4 ,i know no generalisation more certain than this4 ,it is the most difficult thing in the world to distinguish between genuine stupidity1 and that apparent and deceitful stupidity which is the sign of a strong character4 ,at first sight it seems strange that the two extremes should have the same outward signs2 and yet it may well be so1 for at an age when man has as yet no true ideas1 the whole difference between the genius and the rest consists in this3 the latter only take in false ideas1 while the former1 finding nothing but false ideas1 receives no ideas at all4 ,in this he resembles the fool2 the one is fit for nothing1 the other finds nothing fit for him4 ,the only way of distinguishing between them depends upon chance1 which may offer the genius some idea which he can understand1 while the fool is always the same4 ,as a child1 the young ,cato was taken for an idiot by his parents2 he was obstinate and silent1 and that was all they perceived in him2 it was only in ,sulla's ante-chamber that his uncle discovered what was in him4 ,had he never found his way there1 he might have passed for a fool till he reached the age of reason4 ,had ,caesar never lived1 perhaps this same ,cato1 who discerned his fatal genius1 and foretold his great schemes1 would have passed for a dreamer all his days4 ,those who judge children hastily are apt to be mistaken2 they are often more childish than the child himself4 ,i knew a middle-aged man1 ,footnote3 ,the ,abbe de ,condillac whose friendship ,i esteemed an honour1 who was reckoned a fool by his family4 ,all at once he made his name as a philosopher1 and ,i have no doubt posterity will give him a high place among the greatest thinkers and the profoundest metaphysicians of his day4 ,hold childhood in reverence1 and do not be in any hurry to judge it for good or ill4 ,leave exceptional cases to show themselves1 let their qualities be tested and confirmed1 before special methods are adopted4 ,give nature time to work before you take over her business1 lest you interfere with her dealings4 ,you assert that you know the value of time and are afraid to waste it4 ,you fail to perceive that it is a greater waste of time to use it ill than to do nothing1 and that a child ill taught is further from virtue than a child who has learnt nothing at all4 ,you are afraid to see him spending his early years doing nothing4 ,what6 is it nothing to be happy1 nothing to run and jump all day8 ,he will never be so busy again all his life long4 ,plato1 in his ,republic1 which is considered so stern1 teaches the children only through festivals1 games1 songs1 and amusements4 ,it seems as if he had accomplished his purpose when he had taught them to be happy2 and ,seneca1 speaking of the ,roman lads in olden days1 says1 ,they were always on their feet1 they were never taught anything which kept them sitting4 ,were they any the worse for it in manhood8 ,do not be afraid1 therefore1 of this so-called idleness4 ,what would you think of a man who refused to sleep lest he should waste part of his life8 ,you would say1 ,he is mad2 he is not enjoying his life1 he is robbing himself of part of it2 to avoid sleep he is hastening his death4 ,remember that these two cases are alike1 and that childhood is the sleep of reason4 ,the apparent ease with which children learn is their ruin4 ,you fail to see that this very facility proves that they are not learning4 ,their shining1 polished brain reflects1 as in a mirror1 the things you show them1 but nothing sinks in4 ,the child remembers the words and the ideas are reflected back2 his hearers understand them1 but to him they are meaningless4 ,although memory and reason are wholly different faculties1 the one does not really develop apart from the other4 ,before the age of reason the child receives images1 not ideas2 and there is this difference between them3 images are merely the pictures of external objects1 while ideas are notions about those objects determined by their relations4 ,an image when it is recalled may exist by itself in the mind1 but every idea implies other ideas4 ,when we image we merely perceive1 when we reason we compare4 ,our sensations are merely passive1 our notions or ideas spring from an active principle which judges4 ,the proof of this will be given later4 ,i maintain1 therefore1 that as children are incapable of judging1 they have no true memory4 ,they retain sounds1 form1 sensation1 but rarely ideas1 and still more rarely relations4 ,you tell me they acquire some rudiments of geometry1 and you think you prove your case2 not so1 it is mine you prove2 you show that far from being able to reason themselves1 children are unable to retain the reasoning of others2 for if you follow the method of these little geometricians you will see they only retain the exact impression of the figure and the terms of the demonstration4 ,they cannot meet the slightest new objection2 if the figure is reversed they can do nothing4 ,all their knowledge is on the sensation-level1 nothing has penetrated to their understanding4 ,their memory is little better than their other powers1 for they always have to learn over again1 when they are grown up1 what they learnt as children4 ,i am far from thinking1 however1 that children have no sort of reason4 ,footnote3 ,i have noticed again and again that it is impossible in writing a lengthy work to use the same words always in the same sense4 ,there is no language rich enough to supply terms and expressions sufficient for the modifications of our ideas4 ,the method of defining every term and constantly substituting the definition for the term defined looks well1 but it is impracticable4 ,for how can we escape from our vicious circle8 ,definitions would be all very well if we did not use words in the making of them4 ,in spite of this ,i am convinced that even in our poor language we can make our meaning clear1 not by always using words in the same sense1 but by taking care that every time we use a word the sense in which we use it is sufficiently indicated by the sense of the context1 so that each sentence in which the word occurs acts as a sort of definition4 ,sometimes ,i say children are incapable of reasoning4 ,sometimes ,i say they reason cleverly4 ,i must admit that my words are often contradictory1 but ,i do not think there is any contradiction in my ideas4 ,on the contrary1 ,i think they reason very well with regard to things that affect their actual and sensible well-being4 ,but people are mistaken as to the extent of their information1 and they attribute to them knowledge they do not possess1 and make them reason about things they cannot understand4 ,another mistake is to try to turn their attention to matters which do not concern them in the least1 such as their future interest1 their happiness when they are grown up1 the opinion people will have of them when they are men--terms which are absolutely meaningless when addressed to creatures who are entirely without foresight4 ,but all the forced studies of these poor little wretches are directed towards matters utterly remote from their minds4 ,you may judge how much attention they can give to them4 ,the pedagogues1 who make a great display of the teaching they give their pupils1 are paid to say just the opposite2 yet their actions show that they think just as ,i do4 ,for what do they teach8 ,words6 words6 words6 ,among the various sciences they boast of teaching their scholars1 they take good care never to choose those which might be really useful to them1 for then they would be compelled to deal with things and would fail utterly2 the sciences they choose are those we seem to know when we know their technical terms--heraldry1 geography1 chronology1 languages1 etc41 studies so remote from man1 and even more remote from the child1 that it is a wonder if he can ever make any use of any part of them4 ,you will be surprised to find that ,i reckon the study of languages among the useless lumber of education2 but you must remember that ,i am speaking of the studies of the earliest years1 and whatever you may say1 ,i do not believe any child under twelve or fifteen ever really acquired two languages4 ,if the study of languages were merely the study of words1 that is1 of the symbols by which language expresses itself1 then this might be a suitable study for children2 but languages1 as they change the symbols1 also modify the ideas which the symbols express4 ,minds are formed by language1 thoughts take their colour from its ideas4 ,reason alone is common to all4 ,every language has its own form1 a difference which may be partly cause and partly effect of differences in national character2 this conjecture appears to be confirmed by the fact that in every nation under the sun speech follows the changes of manners1 and is preserved or altered along with them4 ,by use the child acquires one of these different forms1 and it is the only language he retains till the age of reason4 ,to acquire two languages he must be able to compare their ideas1 and how can he compare ideas he can barely understand8 ,everything may have a thousand meanings to him1 but each idea can only have one form1 so he can only learn one language4 ,you assure me he learns several languages2 ,i deny it4 ,i have seen those little prodigies who are supposed to speak half a dozen languages4 ,i have heard them speak first in ,german1 then in ,latin1 ,french1 or ,italian2 true1 they used half a dozen different vocabularies1 but they always spoke ,german4 ,in a word1 you may give children as many synonyms as you like2 it is not their language but their words that you change2 they will never have but one language4 ,to conceal their deficiencies teachers choose the dead languages1 in which we have no longer any judges whose authority is beyond dispute4 ,the familiar use of these tongues disappeared long ago1 so they are content to imitate what they find in books1 and they call that talking4 ,if the master's ,greek and ,latin is such poor stuff1 what about the children8 ,they have scarcely learnt their primer by heart1 without understanding a word of it1 when they are set to translate a ,french speech into ,latin words2 then when they are more advanced they piece together a few phrases of ,cicero for prose or a few lines of ,vergil for verse4 ,then they think they can speak ,latin1 and who will contradict them8 ,in any study whatsoever the symbols are of no value without the idea of the things symbolised4 ,yet the education of the child in confined to those symbols1 while no one ever succeeds in making him understand the thing signified4 ,you think you are teaching him what the world is like2 he is only learning the map2 he is taught the names of towns1 countries1 rivers1 which have no existence for him except on the paper before him4 ,i remember seeing a geography somewhere which began with3 ,what is the world8--,a sphere of cardboard4 ,that is the child's geography4 ,i maintain that after two years' work with the globe and cosmography1 there is not a single ten-year-old child who could find his way from ,paris to ,saint ,denis by the help of the rules he has learnt4 ,i maintain that not one of these children could find his way by the map about the paths on his father's estate without getting lost4 ,these are the young doctors who can tell us the position of ,pekin1 ,ispahan1 ,mexico1 and every country in the world4 ,you tell me the child must be employed on studies which only need eyes4 ,that may be2 but if there are any such studies1 they are unknown to me4 ,it is a still more ridiculous error to set them to study history1 which is considered within their grasp because it is merely a collection of facts4 ,but what is meant by this word fact8 ,do you think the relations which determine the facts of history are so easy to grasp that the corresponding ideas are easily developed in the child's mind6 ,do you think that a real knowledge of events can exist apart from the knowledge of their causes and effects1 and that history has so little relation to words that the one can be learnt without the other8 ,if you perceive nothing in a man's actions beyond merely physical and external movements1 what do you learn from history8 ,absolutely nothing2 while this study1 robbed of all that makes it interesting1 gives you neither pleasure nor information4 ,if you want to judge actions by their moral bearings1 try to make these moral bearings intelligible to your scholars4 ,you will soon find out if they are old enough to learn history4 ,remember1 reader1 that he who speaks to you is neither a scholar nor a philosopher1 but a plain man and a lover of truth2 a man who is pledged to no one party or system1 a hermit1 who mixes little with other men1 and has less opportunity of imbibing their prejudices1 and more time to reflect on the things that strike him in his intercourse with them4 ,my arguments are based less on theories than on facts1 and ,i think ,i can find no better way to bring the facts home to you than by quoting continually some example from the observations which suggested my arguments4 ,i had gone to spend a few days in the country with a worthy mother of a family who took great pains with her children and their education4 ,one morning ,i was present while the eldest boy had his lessons4 ,his tutor1 who had taken great pains to teach him ancient history1 began upon the story of ,alexander and lighted on the well-known anecdote of ,philip the ,doctor4 ,there is a picture of it1 and the story is well worth study4 ,the tutor1 worthy man1 made several reflections which ,i did not like with regard to ,alexander's courage1 but ,i did not argue with him lest ,i should lower him in the eyes of his pupil4 ,at dinner they did not fail to get the little fellow talking1 ,french fashion4 ,the eager spirit of a child of his age1 and the confident expectation of applause1 made him say a number of silly things1 and among them from time to time there were things to the point1 and these made people forget the rest4 ,at last came the story of ,philip the ,doctor4 ,he told it very distinctly and prettily4 ,after the usual meed of praise1 demanded by his mother and expected by the child himself1 they discussed what he had said4 ,most of them blamed ,alexander's rashness1 some of them1 following the tutor's example1 praised his resolution1 which showed me that none of those present really saw the beauty of the story4 ,for my own part1 ,i said1 if there was any courage or any steadfastness at all in ,alexander's conduct ,i think it was only a piece of bravado4 ,then every one agreed that it was a piece of bravado4 ,i was getting angry1 and would have replied1 when a lady sitting beside me1 who had not hitherto spoken1 bent towards me and whispered in my ear4 ,jean ,jacques1 said she1 say no more1 they will never understand you4 ,i looked at her1 ,i recognised the wisdom of her advice1 and ,i held my tongue4 ,several things made me suspect that our young professor had not in the least understood the story he told so prettily4 ,after dinner ,i took his hand in mine and we went for a walk in the park4 ,when ,i had questioned him quietly1 ,i discovered that he admired the vaunted courage of ,alexander more than any one4 ,but in what do you suppose he thought this courage consisted8 ,merely in swallowing a disagreeable drink at a single draught without hesitation and without any signs of dislike4 ,not a fortnight before the poor child had been made to take some medicine which he could hardly swallow1 and the taste of it was still in his mouth4 ,death1 and death by poisoning1 were for him only disagreeable sensations1 and senna was his only idea of poison4 ,i must admit1 however1 that ,alexander's resolution had made a great impression on his young mind1 and he was determined that next time he had to take medicine he would be an ,alexander4 ,without entering upon explanations which were clearly beyond his grasp1 ,i confirmed him in his praiseworthy intention1 and returned home smiling to myself over the great wisdom of parents and teachers who expect to teach history to children4 ,such words as king1 emperor1 war1 conquest1 law1 and revolution are easily put into their mouths2 but when it is a question of attaching clear ideas to these words the explanations are very different from our talk with ,robert the gardener4 ,i feel sure some readers dissatisfied with that ,say no more1 ,jean ,jacques1 will ask what ,i really saw to admire in the conduct of ,alexander4 ,poor things6 if you need telling1 how can you comprehend it8 ,alexander believed in virtue1 he staked his head1 he staked his own life on that faith1 his great soul was fitted to hold such a faith4 ,to swallow that draught was to make a noble profession of the faith that was in him4 ,never did mortal man recite a finer creed4 ,if there is an ,alexander in our own days1 show me such deeds4 ,if children have no knowledge of words1 there is no study that is suitable for them4 ,if they have no real ideas they have no real memory1 for ,i do not call that a memory which only recalls sensations4 ,what is the use of inscribing on their brains a list of symbols which mean nothing to them8 ,they will learn the symbols when they learn the things signified2 why give them the useless trouble of learning them twice over8 ,and yet what dangerous prejudices are you implanting when you teach them to accept as knowledge words which have no meaning for them4 ,the first meaningless phrase1 the first thing taken for granted on the word of another person without seeing its use for himself1 this is the beginning of the ruin of the child's judgment4 ,he may dazzle the eyes of fools long enough before he recovers from such a loss4 ,footnote3 ,the learning of most philosophers is like the learning of children4 ,vast erudition results less in the multitude of ideas than in a multitude of images4 ,dates1 names1 places1 all objects isolated or unconnected with ideas are merely retained in the memory for symbols1 and we rarely recall any of these without seeing the right or left page of the book in which we read it1 or the form in which we first saw it4 ,most science was of this kind till recently4 ,the science of our times is another matter2 study and observation are things of the past2 we dream and the dreams of a bad night are given to us as philosophy4 ,you will say ,i too am a dreamer2 ,i admit it1 but ,i do what the others fail to do1 ,i give my dreams as dreams1 and leave the reader to discover whether there is anything in them which may prove useful to those who are awake4 ,no1 if nature has given the child this plasticity of brain which fits him to receive every kind of impression1 it was not that you should imprint on it the names and dates of kings1 the jargon of heraldry1 the globe and geography1 all those words without present meaning or future use for the child1 which flood of words overwhelms his sad and barren childhood4 ,but by means of this plasticity all the ideas he can understand and use1 all that concern his happiness and will some day throw light upon his duties1 should be traced at an early age in indelible characters upon his brain1 to guide him to live in such a way as befits his nature and his powers4 ,without the study of books1 such a memory as the child may possess is not left idle2 everything he sees and hears makes an impression on him1 he keeps a record of men's sayings and doings1 and his whole environment is the book from which he unconsciously enriches his memory1 till his judgment is able to profit by it4 ,to select these objects1 to take care to present him constantly with those he may know1 to conceal from him those he ought not to know1 this is the real way of training his early memory2 and in this way you must try to provide him with a storehouse of knowledge which will serve for his education in youth and his conduct throughout life4 ,true1 this method does not produce infant prodigies1 nor will it reflect glory upon their tutors and governesses1 but it produces men1 strong1 right-thinking men1 vigorous both in mind and body1 men who do not win admiration as children1 but honour as men4 ,emile will not learn anything by heart1 not even fables1 not even the fables of ,la ,fontaine1 simple and delightful as they are1 for the words are no more the fable than the words of history are history4 ,how can people be so blind as to call fables the child's system of morals1 without considering that the child is not only amused by the apologue but misled by it8 ,he is attracted by what is false and he misses the truth1 and the means adopted to make the teaching pleasant prevent him profiting by it4 ,men may be taught by fables2 children require the naked truth4 ,all children learn ,la ,fontaine's fables1 but not one of them understands them4 ,it is just as well that they do not understand1 for the morality of the fables is so mixed and so unsuitable for their age that it would be more likely to incline them to vice than to virtue4 ,more paradoxes6 you exclaim4 ,paradoxes they may be2 but let us see if there is not some truth in them4 ,i maintain that the child does not understand the fables he is taught1 for however you try to explain them1 the teaching you wish to extract from them demands ideas which he cannot grasp1 while the poetical form which makes it easier to remember makes it harder to understand1 so that clearness is sacrificed to facility4 ,without quoting the host of wholly unintelligible and useless fables which are taught to children because they happen to be in the same book as the others1 let us keep to those which the author seems to have written specially for children4 ,in the whole of ,la ,fontaine's works ,i only know five or six fables conspicuous for child-like simplicity2 ,i will take the first of these as an example1 for it is one whose moral is most suitable for all ages1 one which children get hold of with the least difficulty1 which they have most pleasure in learning1 one which for this very reason the author has placed at the beginning of his book4 ,if his object were really to delight and instruct children1 this fable is his masterpiece4 ,let us go through it and examine it briefly4 ,,the ,,fox ,,and ,,the ,,crow ,a ,,fable ,maitre corbeau1 sur un arbre perche 7,mr4 ,crow perched on a tree74--,mr46 what does that word really mean8 ,what does it mean before a proper noun8 ,what is its meaning here8 ,what is a crow8 ,what is un arbre perche8 ,we do not say on a tree perched1 but perched on a tree4 ,so we must speak of poetical inversions1 we must distinguish between prose and verse4 ,tenait dans son bec un fromage 7,held a cheese in his beak7--,what sort of a cheese8 ,swiss1 ,brie1 or ,dutch8 ,if the child has never seen crows1 what is the good of talking about them8 ,if he has seen crows will he believe that they can hold a cheese in their beak8 ,your illustrations should always be taken from nature4 ,maitre renard1 par l'odeur alleche 7,mr4 ,fox1 attracted by the smell74--,another ,master6 ,but the title suits the fox1--who is master of all the tricks of his trade4 ,you must explain what a fox is1 and distinguish between the real fox and the conventional fox of the fables4 ,alleche4 ,the word is obsolete2 you will have to explain it4 ,you will say it is only used in verse4 ,perhaps the child will ask why people talk differently in verse4 ,how will you answer that question8 ,alleche1 par l'odeur d'un fromage4 ,the cheese was held in his beak by a crow perched on a tree2 it must indeed have smelt strong if the fox1 in his thicket or his earth1 could smell it4 ,this is the way you train your pupil in that spirit of right judgment1 which rejects all but reasonable arguments1 and is able to distinguish between truth and falsehood in other tales4 ,lui tient a peu pres ce langage 7,spoke to him after this fashion74--,ce langage4 ,so foxes talk1 do they6 ,they talk like crows6 ,mind what you are about1 oh1 wise tutor2 weigh your answer before you give it1 it is more important than you suspect4 ,eh6 ,bonjour1 ,monsieur le ,corbeau6 7,good-day1 ,mr4 ,crow67--,mr46 ,the child sees this title laughed to scorn before he knows it is a title of honour4 ,those who say ,monsieur du ,corbeau will find their work cut out for them to explain that du4 ,que vous etes joli6 ,que vous me semblez beau6 7,how handsome you are1 how beautiful in my eyes67--,mere padding4 ,the child1 finding the same thing repeated twice over in different words1 is learning to speak carelessly4 ,if you say this redundance is a device of the author1 a part of the fox's scheme to make his praise seem all the greater by his flow of words1 that is a valid excuse for me1 but not for my pupil4 ,sans mentir1 si votre ramage 7,without lying1 if your song74--,without lying4 ,so people do tell lies sometimes4 ,what will the child think of you if you tell him the fox only says ,sans mentir because he is lying8 ,se rapporte a votre plumage 7,answered to your fine feathers74--,answered6 ,what does that mean8 ,try to make the child compare qualities so different as those of song and plumage2 you will see how much he understands4 ,vous seriez le phenix des hotes de ces bois6 7,you would be the phoenix of all the inhabitants of this wood67--,the phoenix6 ,what is a phoenix8 ,all of a sudden we are floundering in the lies of antiquity--we are on the edge of mythology4 ,the inhabitants of this wood4 ,what figurative language6 ,the flatterer adopts the grand style to add dignity to his speech1 to make it more attractive4 ,will the child understand this cunning8 ,does he know1 how could he possibly know1 what is meant by grand style and simple style8 ,a ces mots le corbeau ne se sent pas de joie 7,at these words1 the crow is beside himself with delight74--,to realise the full force of this proverbial expression we must have experienced very strong feeling4 ,et1 pour montrer sa belle voix 7,and1 to show his fine voice74--,remember that the child1 to understand this line and the whole fable1 must know what is meant by the crow's fine voice4 ,il ouvre un large bec1 laisse tomber sa proie 7,he opens his wide beak and drops his prey74--,this is a splendid line2 its very sound suggests a picture4 ,i see the great big ugly gaping beak1 ,i hear the cheese crashing through the branches2 but this kind of beauty is thrown away upon children4 ,le renard s'en saisit1 et dit1 ',mon bon monsieur' 7,the fox catches it1 and says1 ,my dear sir74--,so kindness is already folly4 ,you certainly waste no time in teaching your children4 ,apprenez que tout flatteur 7,you must learn that every flatterer74--,a general maxim4 ,the child can make neither head nor tail of it4 ,vit au depens de celui qui l'ecoute 7,lives at the expense of the person who listens to his flattery74--,no child of ten ever understood that4 ,ce lecon vaut bien un fromage1 sans doute 7,no doubt this lesson is well worth a cheese74--,this is intelligible and its meaning is very good4 ,yet there are few children who could compare a cheese and a lesson1 few who would not prefer the cheese4 ,you will therefore have to make them understand that this is said in mockery4 ,what subtlety for a child6 ,le corbeau1 honteux et confus 7,the crow1 ashamed and confused74--,a nothing pleonasm1 and there is no excuse for it this time4 ,jura1 mais un peu tard1 qu'on ne l'y prendrait plus 7,swore1 but rather too late1 that he would not be caught in that way again74--,swore4 ,what master will be such a fool as to try to explain to a child the meaning of an oath8 ,what a host of details6 but much more would be needed for the analysis of all the ideas in this fable and their reduction to the simple and elementary ideas of which each is composed4 ,but who thinks this analysis necessary to make himself intelligible to children8 ,who of us is philosopher enough to be able to put himself in the child's place8 ,let us now proceed to the moral4 ,should we teach a six-year-old child that there are people who flatter and lie for the sake of gain8 ,one might perhaps teach them that there are people who make fools of little boys and laugh at their foolish vanity behind their backs4 ,but the whole thing is spoilt by the cheese4 ,you are teaching them how to make another drop his cheese rather than how to keep their own4 ,this is my second paradox1 and it is not less weighty than the former one4 ,watch children learning their fables and you will see that when they have a chance of applying them they almost always use them exactly contrary to the author's meaning2 instead of being on their guard against the fault which you would prevent or cure1 they are disposed to like the vice by which one takes advantage of another's defects4 ,in the above fable children laugh at the crow1 but they all love the fox4 ,in the next fable you expect them to follow the example of the grasshopper4 ,not so1 they will choose the ant4 ,they do not care to abase themselves1 they will always choose the principal part--this is the choice of self-love1 a very natural choice4 ,but what a dreadful lesson for children6 ,there could be no monster more detestable than a harsh and avaricious child1 who realised what he was asked to give and what he refused4 ,the ant does more2 she teaches him not merely to refuse but to revile4 ,in all the fables where the lion plays a part1 usually the chief part1 the child pretends to be the lion1 and when he has to preside over some distribution of good things1 he takes care to keep everything for himself2 but when the lion is overthrown by the gnat1 the child is the gnat4 ,he learns how to sting to death those whom he dare not attack openly4 ,from the fable of the sleek dog and the starving wolf he learns a lesson of licence rather than the lesson of moderation which you profess to teach him4 ,i shall never forget seeing a little girl weeping bitterly over this tale1 which had been told her as a lesson in obedience4 ,the poor child hated to be chained up2 she felt the chain chafing her neck2 she was crying because she was not a wolf4 ,so from the first of these fables the child learns the basest flattery2 from the second1 cruelty2 from the third1 injustice2 from the fourth1 satire2 from the fifth1 insubordination4 ,the last of these lessons is no more suitable for your pupils than for mine1 though he has no use for it4 ,what results do you expect to get from your teaching when it contradicts itself6 ,but perhaps the same system of morals which furnishes me with objections against the fables supplies you with as many reasons for keeping to them4 ,society requires a rule of morality in our words2 it also requires a rule of morality in our deeds2 and these two rules are quite different4 ,the former is contained in the ,catechism and it is left there2 the other is contained in ,la ,fontaine's fables for children and his tales for mothers4 ,the same author does for both4 ,let us make a bargain1 ,m4 de la ,fontaine4 ,for my own part1 ,i undertake to make your books my favourite study2 ,i undertake to love you1 and to learn from your fables1 for ,i hope ,i shall not mistake their meaning4 ,as to my pupil1 permit me to prevent him studying any one of them till you have convinced me that it is good for him to learn things three-fourths of which are unintelligible to him1 and until you can convince me that in those fables he can understand he will never reverse the order and imitate the villain instead of taking warning from his dupe4 ,when ,i thus get rid of children's lessons1 ,i get rid of the chief cause of their sorrows1 namely their books4 ,reading is the curse of childhood1 yet it is almost the only occupation you can find for children4 ,emile1 at twelve years old1 will hardly know what a book is4 ,but1 you say1 he must1 at least1 know how to read4 ,when reading is of use to him1 ,i admit he must learn to read1 but till then he will only find it a nuisance4 ,if children are not to be required to do anything as a matter of obedience1 it follows that they will only learn what they perceive to be of real and present value1 either for use or enjoyment2 what other motive could they have for learning8 ,the art of speaking to our absent friends1 of hearing their words2 the art of letting them know at first hand our feelings1 our desires1 and our longings1 is an art whose usefulness can be made plain at any age4 ,how is it that this art1 so useful and pleasant in itself1 has become a terror to children8 ,because the child is compelled to acquire it against his will1 and to use it for purposes beyond his comprehension4 ,a child has no great wish to perfect himself in the use of an instrument of torture1 but make it a means to his pleasure1 and soon you will not be able to keep him from it4 ,people make a great fuss about discovering the beat way to teach children to read4 ,they invent bureaux ,footnote3 ,translator's note4--,the bureau was a sort of case containing letters to be put together to form words4 ,it was a favourite device for the teaching of reading and gave its name to a special method1 called the bureau-method1 of learning to read4 and cards1 they turn the nursery into a printer's shop4 ,locke would have them taught to read by means of dice4 ,what a fine idea6 ,and the pity of it6 ,there is a better way than any of those1 and one which is generally overlooked--it consists in the desire to learn4 ,arouse this desire in your scholar and have done with your bureaux and your dice--any method will serve4 ,present interest1 that is the motive power1 the only motive power that takes us far and safely4 ,sometimes ,emile receives notes of invitation from his father or mother1 his relations or friends2 he is invited to a dinner1 a walk1 a boating expedition1 to see some public entertainment4 ,these notes are short1 clear1 plain1 and well written4 ,some one must read them to him1 and he cannot always find anybody when wanted2 no more consideration is shown to him than he himself showed to you yesterday4 ,time passes1 the chance is lost4 ,the note is read to him at last1 but it is too late4 ,oh6 if only he had known how to read6 ,he receives other notes1 so short1 so interesting1 he would like to try to read them4 ,sometimes he gets help1 sometimes none4 ,he does his best1 and at last he makes out half the note2 it is something about going to-morrow to drink cream--,where8 ,with whom8 ,he cannot tell--how hard he tries to make out the rest6 ,i do not think ,emile will need a bureau4 ,shall ,i proceed to the teaching of writing8 ,no1 ,i am ashamed to toy with these trifles in a treatise on education4 ,i will just add a few words which contain a principle of great importance4 ,it is this--,what we are in no hurry to get is usually obtained with speed and certainty4 ,i am pretty sure ,emile will learn to read and write before he is ten1 just because ,i care very little whether he can do so before he is fifteen2 but ,i would rather he never learnt to read at all1 than that this art should be acquired at the price of all that makes reading useful4 ,what is the use of reading to him if he always hates it8 ,id imprimis cavere oportebit1 ne studia1 qui amare nondum potest1 oderit1 et amaritudinem semel perceptam etiam ultra rudes annos reformidet4--,quintil4 ,the more ,i urge my method of letting well alone1 the more objections ,i perceive against it4 ,if your pupil learns nothing from you1 he will learn from others4 ,if you do not instil truth he will learn falsehoods2 the prejudices you fear to teach him he will acquire from those about him1 they will find their way through every one of his senses2 they will either corrupt his reason before it is fully developed or his mind will become torpid through inaction1 and will become engrossed in material things4 ,if we do not form the habit of thinking as children1 we shall lose the power of thinking for the rest of our life4 ,i fancy ,i could easily answer that objection1 but why should ,i answer every objection8 ,if my method itself answers your objections1 it is good2 if not1 it is good for nothing4 ,i continue my explanation4 ,if1 in accordance with the plan ,i have sketched1 you follow rules which are just the opposite of the established practice1 if instead of taking your scholar far afield1 instead of wandering with him in distant places1 in far-off lands1 in remote centuries1 in the ends of the earth1 and in the very heavens themselves1 you try to keep him to himself1 to his own concerns1 you will then find him able to perceive1 to remember1 and even to reason2 this is nature's order4 ,as the sentient being becomes active his discernment develops along with his strength4 ,not till his strength is in excess of what is needed for self-preservation1 is the speculative faculty developed1 the faculty adapted for using this superfluous strength for other purposes4 ,would you cultivate your pupil's intelligence1 cultivate the strength it is meant to control4 ,give his body constant exercise1 make it strong and healthy1 in order to make him good and wise2 let him work1 let him do things1 let him run and shout1 let him be always on the go2 make a man of him in strength1 and he will soon be a man in reason4 ,of course by this method you will make him stupid if you are always giving him directions1 always saying come here1 go there1 stop1 do this1 don't do that4 ,if your head always guides his hands1 his own mind will become useless4 ,but remember the conditions we laid down2 if you are a mere pedant it is not worth your while to read my book4 ,it is a lamentable mistake to imagine that bodily activity hinders the working of the mind1 as if these two kinds of activity ought not to advance hand in hand1 and as if the one were not intended to act as guide to the other4 ,there are two classes of men who are constantly engaged in bodily activity1 peasants and savages1 and certainly neither of these pays the least attention to the cultivation of the mind4 ,peasants are rough1 coarse1 and clumsy2 savages are noted1 not only for their keen senses1 but for great subtility of mind4 ,speaking generally1 there is nothing duller than a peasant or sharper than a savage4 ,what is the cause of this difference8 ,the peasant has always done as he was told1 what his father did before him1 what he himself has always done2 he is the creature of habit1 he spends his life almost like an automaton on the same tasks2 habit and obedience have taken the place of reason4 ,the case of the savage is very different2 he is tied to no one place1 he has no prescribed task1 no superior to obey1 he knows no law but his own will2 he is therefore forced to reason at every step he takes4 ,he can neither move nor walk without considering the consequences4 ,thus the more his body is exercised1 the more alert is his mind2 his strength and his reason increase together1 and each helps to develop the other4 ,oh1 learned tutor1 let us see which of our two scholars is most like the savage and which is most like the peasant4 ,your scholar is subject to a power which is continually giving him instruction2 he acts only at the word of command2 he dare not eat when he is hungry1 nor laugh when he is merry1 nor weep when he is sad1 nor offer one hand rather than the other1 nor stir a foot unless he is told to do it2 before long he will not venture to breathe without orders4 ,what would you have him think about1 when you do all the thinking for him8 ,he rests securely on your foresight1 why should he think for himself8 ,he knows you have undertaken to take care of him1 to secure his welfare1 and he feels himself freed from this responsibility4 ,his judgment relies on yours2 what you have not forbidden that he does1 knowing that he runs no risk4 ,why should he learn the signs of rain8 ,he knows you watch the clouds for him4 ,why should he time his walk8 ,he knows there is no fear of your letting him miss his dinner hour4 ,he eats till you tell him to stop1 he stops when you tell him to do so2 he does not attend to the teaching of his own stomach1 but yours4 ,in vain do you make his body soft by inaction2 his understanding does not become subtle4 ,far from it1 you complete your task of discrediting reason in his eyes1 by making him use such reasoning power as he has on the things which seem of least importance to him4 ,as he never finds his reason any use to him1 he decides at last that it is useless4 ,if he reasons badly he will be found fault with2 nothing worse will happen to him2 and he has been found fault with so often that he pays no attention to it1 such a common danger no longer alarms him4 ,yet you will find he has a mind4 ,he is quick enough to chatter with the women in the way ,i spoke of further back2 but if he is in danger1 if he must come to a decision in difficult circumstances1 you will find him a hundredfold more stupid and silly than the son of the roughest labourer4 ,as for my pupil1 or rather ,nature's pupil1 he has been trained from the outset to be as self-reliant as possible1 he has not formed the habit of constantly seeking help from others1 still less of displaying his stores of learning4 ,on the other hand1 he exercises discrimination and forethought1 he reasons about everything that concerns himself4 ,he does not chatter1 he acts4 ,not a word does he know of what is going on in the world at large1 but he knows very thoroughly what affects himself4 ,as he is always stirring he is compelled to notice many things1 to recognise many effects2 he soon acquires a good deal of experience4 ,nature1 not man1 is his schoolmaster1 and he learns all the quicker because he is not aware that he has any lesson to learn4 ,so mind and body work together4 ,he is always carrying out his own ideas1 not those of other people1 and thus he unites thought and action2 as he grows in health and strength he grows in wisdom and discernment4 ,this is the way to attain later on to what is generally considered incompatible1 though most great men have achieved it1 strength of body and strength of mind1 the reason of the philosopher and the vigour of the athlete4 ,young teacher1 ,i am setting before you a difficult task1 the art of controlling without precepts1 and doing everything without doing anything at all4 ,this art is1 ,i confess1 beyond your years1 it is not calculated to display your talents nor to make your value known to your scholar's parents2 but it is the only road to success4 ,you will never succeed in making wise men if you do not first make little imps of mischief4 ,this was the education of the ,spartans2 they were not taught to stick to their books1 they were set to steal their dinners4 ,were they any the worse for it in after life8 ,ever ready for victory1 they crushed their foes in every kind of warfare1 and the prating ,athenians were as much afraid of their words as of their blows4 ,when education is most carefully attended to1 the teacher issues his orders and thinks himself master1 but it is the child who is really master4 ,he uses the tasks you set him to obtain what he wants from you1 and he can always make you pay for an hour's industry by a week's complaisance4 ,you must always be making bargains with him4 ,these bargains1 suggested in your fashion1 but carried out in his1 always follow the direction of his own fancies1 especially when you are foolish enough to make the condition some advantage he is almost sure to obtain1 whether he fulfils his part of the bargain or not4 ,the child is usually much quicker to read the master's thoughts than the master to read the child's feelings4 ,and that is as it should be1 for all the sagacity which the child would have devoted to self-preservation1 had he been left to himself1 is now devoted to the rescue of his native freedom from the chains of his tyrant2 while the latter1 who has no such pressing need to understand the child1 sometimes finds that it pays him better to leave him in idleness or vanity4 ,take the opposite course with your pupil2 let him always think he is master while you are really master4 ,there is no subjection so complete as that which preserves the forms of freedom2 it is thus that the will itself is taken captive4 ,is not this poor child1 without knowledge1 strength1 or wisdom1 entirely at your mercy8 ,are you not master of his whole environment so far as it affects him8 ,cannot you make of him what you please8 ,his work and play1 his pleasure and pain1 are they not1 unknown to him1 under your control8 ,no doubt he ought only to do what he wants1 but he ought to want to do nothing but what you want him to do4 ,he should never take a step you have not foreseen1 nor utter a word you could not foretell4 ,then he can devote himself to the bodily exercises adapted to his age without brutalising his mind2 instead of developing his cunning to evade an unwelcome control1 you will then find him entirely occupied in getting the best he can out of his environment with a view to his present welfare1 and you will be surprised by the subtlety of the means he devises to get for himself such things as he can obtain1 and to really enjoy things without the aid of other people's ideas4 ,you leave him master of his own wishes1 but you do not multiply his caprices4 ,when he only does what he wants1 he will soon only do what he ought1 and although his body is constantly in motion1 so far as his sensible and present interests are concerned1 you will find him developing all the reason of which he is capable1 far better and in a manner much better fitted for him than in purely theoretical studies4 ,thus when he does not find you continually thwarting him1 when he no longer distrusts you1 no longer has anything to conceal from you1 he will neither tell you lies nor deceive you2 he will show himself fearlessly as he really is1 and you can study him at your ease1 and surround him with all the lessons you would have him learn1 without awaking his suspicions4 ,neither will he keep a curious and jealous eye on your own conduct1 nor take a secret delight in catching you at fault4 ,it is a great thing to avoid this4 ,one of the child's first objects is1 as ,i have said1 to find the weak spots in its rulers4 ,though this leads to spitefulness1 it does not arise from it1 but from the desire to evade a disagreeable control4 ,overburdened by the yoke laid upon him1 he tries to shake it off1 and the faults he finds in his master give him a good opportunity for this4 ,still the habit of spying out faults and delighting in them grows upon people4 ,clearly we have stopped another of the springs of vice in ,emile's heart4 ,having nothing to gain from my faults1 he will not be on the watch for them1 nor will he be tempted to look out for the faults of others4 ,all these methods seem difficult because they are new to us1 but they ought not to be really difficult4 ,i have a right to assume that you have the knowledge required for the business you have chosen2 that you know the usual course of development of the human thought1 that you can study mankind and man1 that you know beforehand the effect on your pupil's will of the various objects suited to his age which you put before him4 ,you have the tools and the art to use them2 are you not master of your trade8 ,you speak of childish caprice2 you are mistaken4 ,children's caprices are never the work of nature1 but of bad discipline2 they have either obeyed or given orders1 and ,i have said again and again1 they must do neither4 ,your pupil will have the caprices you have taught him2 it is fair you should bear the punishment of your own faults4 ,but how can ,i cure them8 do you say8 ,that may still be done by better conduct on your own part and great patience4 ,i once undertook the charge of a child for a few weeks2 he was accustomed not only to have his own way1 but to make every one else do as he pleased2 he was therefore capricious4 ,the very first day he wanted to get up at midnight1 to try how far he could go with me4 ,when ,i was sound asleep he jumped out of bed1 got his dressing-gown1 and waked me up4 ,i got up and lighted the candle1 which was all he wanted4 ,after a quarter of an hour he became sleepy and went back to bed quite satisfied with his experiment4 ,two days later he repeated it1 with the same success and with no sign of impatience on my part4 ,when he kissed me as he lay down1 ,i said to him very quietly1 ,my little dear1 this is all very well1 but do not try it again4 ,his curiosity was aroused by this1 and the very next day he did not fail to get up at the same time and woke me to see whether ,i should dare to disobey him4 ,i asked what he wanted1 and he told me he could not sleep4 ,so much the worse for you1 ,i replied1 and ,i lay quiet4 ,he seemed perplexed by this way of speaking4 ,he felt his way to the flint and steel and tried to strike a light4 ,i could not help laughing when ,i heard him strike his fingers4 ,convinced at last that he could not manage it1 he brought the steel to my bed2 ,i told him ,i did not want it1 and ,i turned my back to him4 ,then he began to rush wildly about the room1 shouting1 singing1 making a great noise1 knocking against chairs and tables1 but taking1 however1 good care not to hurt himself seriously1 but screaming loudly in the hope of alarming me4 ,all this had no effect1 but ,i perceived that though he was prepared for scolding or anger1 he was quite unprepared for indifference4 ,however1 he was determined to overcome my patience with his own obstinacy1 and he continued his racket so successfully that at last ,i lost my temper4 ,i foresaw that ,i should spoil the whole business by an unseemly outburst of passion4 ,i determined on another course4 ,i got up quietly1 went to the tinder box1 but could not find it2 ,i asked him for it1 and he gave it me1 delighted to have won the victory over me4 ,i struck a light1 lighted the candle1 took my young gentleman by the hand and led him quietly into an adjoining dressing-room with the shutters firmly fastened1 and nothing he could break4 ,i left him there without a light2 then locking him in ,i went back to my bed without a word4 ,what a noise there was6 ,that was what ,i expected1 and took no notice4 ,at last the noise ceased2 ,i listened1 heard him settling down1 and ,i was quite easy about him4 ,next morning ,i entered the room at daybreak1 and my little rebel was lying on a sofa enjoying a sound and much needed sleep after his exertions4 ,the matter did not end there4 ,his mother heard that the child had spent a great part of the night out of bed4 ,that spoilt the whole thing2 her child was as good as dead4 ,finding a good chance for revenge1 he pretended to be ill1 not seeing that he would gain nothing by it4 ,they sent for the doctor4 ,unluckily for the mother1 the doctor was a practical joker1 and to amuse himself with her terrors he did his best to increase them4 ,however1 he whispered to me1 ,leave it to me1 ,i promise to cure the child of wanting to be ill for some time to come4 ,as a matter of fact he prescribed bed and dieting1 and the child was handed over to the apothecary4 ,i sighed to see the mother cheated on every hand except by me1 whom she hated because ,i did not deceive her4 ,after pretty severe reproaches1 she told me her son was delicate1 that he was the sole heir of the family1 his life must be preserved at all costs1 and she would not have him contradicted4 ,in that ,i thoroughly agreed with her1 but what she meant by contradicting was not obeying him in everything4 ,i saw ,i should have to treat the mother as ,i had treated the son4 ,madam1 ,i said coldly1 ,i do not know how to educate the heir to a fortune1 and what is more1 ,i do not mean to study that art4 ,you can take that as settled4 ,i was wanted for some days longer1 and the father smoothed things over4 ,the mother wrote to the tutor to hasten his return1 and the child1 finding he got nothing by disturbing my rest1 nor yet by being ill1 decided at last to get better and to go to sleep4 ,you can form no idea of the number of similar caprices to which the little tyrant had subjected his unlucky tutor2 for his education was carried on under his mother's eye1 and she would not allow her son and heir to be disobeyed in anything4 ,whenever he wanted to go out1 you must be ready to take him1 or rather to follow him1 and he always took good care to choose the time when he knew his tutor was very busy4 ,he wished to exercise the same power over me and to avenge himself by day for having to leave me in peace at night4 ,i gladly agreed and began by showing plainly how pleased ,i was to give him pleasure2 after that when it was a matter of curing him of his fancies ,i set about it differently4 ,in the first place1 he must be shown that he was in the wrong4 ,this was not difficult2 knowing that children think only of the present1 ,i took the easy advantage which foresight gives2 ,i took care to provide him with some indoor amusement of which he was very fond4 ,just when he was most occupied with it1 ,i went and suggested a short walk1 and he sent me away4 ,i insisted1 but he paid no attention4 ,i had to give in1 and he took note of this sign of submission4 ,the next day it was my turn4 ,as ,i expected1 he got tired of his occupation2 ,i1 however1 pretended to be very busy4 ,that was enough to decide him4 ,he came to drag me from my work1 to take him at once for a walk4 ,i refused2 he persisted4 ,no1 ,i said1 when ,i did what you wanted1 you taught me how to get my own way2 ,i shall not go out4 ,very well1 he replied eagerly1 ,i shall go out by myself4 ,as you please1 and ,i returned to my work4 ,he put on his things rather uneasily when he saw ,i did not follow his example4 ,when he was ready he came and made his bow2 ,i bowed too2 he tried to frighten me with stories of the expeditions he was going to make2 to hear him talk you would think he was going to the world's end4 ,quite unmoved1 ,i wished him a pleasant journey4 ,he became more and more perplexed4 ,however1 he put a good face on it1 and when he was ready to go out he told his foot man to follow him4 ,the footman1 who had his instructions1 replied that he had no time1 and that he was busy carrying out my orders1 and he must obey me first4 ,for the moment the child was taken aback4 ,how could he think they would really let him go out alone1 him1 who1 in his own eyes1 was the most important person in the world1 who thought that everything in heaven and earth was wrapped up in his welfare8 ,however1 he was beginning to feel his weakness1 he perceived that he should find himself alone among people who knew nothing of him4 ,he saw beforehand the risks he would run2 obstinacy alone sustained him2 very slowly and unwillingly he went downstairs4 ,at last he went out into the street1 consoling himself a little for the harm that might happen to himself1 in the hope that ,i should be held responsible for it4 ,this was just what ,i expected4 ,all was arranged beforehand1 and as it meant some sort of public scene ,i had got his father's consent4 ,he had scarcely gone a few steps1 when he heard1 first on this side then on that1 all sorts of remarks about himself4 ,what a pretty little gentleman1 neighbour8 ,where is he going all alone8 ,he will get lost6 ,i will ask him into our house4 ,take care you don't4 ,don't you see he is a naughty little boy1 who has been turned out of his own house because he is good for nothing8 ,you must not stop naughty boys2 let him go where he likes4 ,well1 well2 the good ,god take care of him4 ,i should be sorry if anything happened to him4 ,a little further on he met some young urchins of about his own age who teased him and made fun of him4 ,the further he got the more difficulties he found4 ,alone and unprotected he was at the mercy of everybody1 and he found to his great surprise that his shoulder knot and his gold lace commanded no respect4 ,however1 ,i had got a friend of mine1 who was a stranger to him1 to keep an eye on him4 ,unnoticed by him1 this friend followed him step by step1 and in due time he spoke to him4 ,the role1 like that of ,sbrigani in ,pourceaugnac1 required an intelligent actor1 and it was played to perfection4 ,without making the child fearful and timid by inspiring excessive terror1 he made him realise so thoroughly the folly of his exploit that in half an hour's time he brought him home to me1 ashamed and humble1 and afraid to look me in the face4 ,to put the finishing touch to his discomfiture1 just as he was coming in his father came down on his way out and met him on the stairs4 ,he had to explain where he had been1 and why ,i was not with him4 ,footnote3 ,in a case like this there is no danger in asking a child to tell the truth1 for he knows very well that it cannot be hid1 and that if he ventured to tell a lie he would be found out at once4 ,the poor child would gladly have sunk into the earth4 ,his father did not take the trouble to scold him at length1 but said with more severity than ,i should have expected1 ,when you want to go out by yourself1 you can do so1 but ,i will not have a rebel in my house1 so when you go1 take good care that you never come back4 ,as for me1 ,i received him somewhat gravely1 but without blame and without mockery1 and for fear he should find out we had been playing with him1 ,i declined to take him out walking that day4 ,next day ,i was well pleased to find that he passed in triumph with me through the very same people who had mocked him the previous day1 when they met him out by himself4 ,you may be sure he never threatened to go out without me again4 ,by these means and other like them ,i succeeded during the short time ,i was with him in getting him to do everything ,i wanted without bidding him or forbidding him to do anything1 without preaching or exhortation1 without wearying him with unnecessary lessons4 ,so he was pleased when ,i spoke to him1 but when ,i was silent he was frightened1 for he knew there was something amiss1 and he always got his lesson from the thing itself4 ,but let us return to our subject4 ,the body is strengthened by this constant exercise under the guidance of nature herself1 and far from brutalising the mind1 this exercise develops in it the only kind of reason of which young children are capable1 the kind of reason most necessary at every age4 ,it teaches us how to use our strength1 to perceive the relations between our own and neighbouring bodies1 to use the natural tools1 which are within our reach and adapted to our senses4 ,is there anything sillier than a child brought up indoors under his mother's eye1 who1 in his ignorance of weight and resistance1 tries to uproot a tall tree or pick up a rock4 ,the first time ,i found myself outside ,geneva ,i tried to catch a galloping horse1 and ,i threw stones at ,mont ,saleve1 two leagues away2 ,i was the laughing stock of the whole village1 and was supposed to be a regular idiot4 ,at eighteen we are taught in our natural philosophy the use of the lever2 every village boy of twelve knows how to use a lever better than the cleverest mechanician in the academy4 ,the lessons the scholars learn from one another in the playground are worth a hundredfold more than what they learn in the class-room4 ,watch a cat when she comes into a room for the first time2 she goes from place to place1 she sniffs about and examines everything1 she is never still for a moment2 she is suspicious of everything till she has examined it and found out what it is4 ,it is the same with the child when he begins to walk1 and enters1 so to speak1 the room of the world around him4 ,the only difference is that1 while both use sight1 the child uses his hands and the cat that subtle sense of smell which nature has bestowed upon it4 ,it is this instinct1 rightly or wrongly educated1 which makes children skilful or clumsy1 quick or slow1 wise or foolish4 ,man's primary natural goals are1 therefore1 to measure himself against his environment1 to discover in every object he sees those sensible qualities which may concern himself1 so his first study is a kind of experimental physics for his own preservation4 ,he is turned away from this and sent to speculative studies before he has found his proper place in the world4 ,while his delicate and flexible limbs can adjust themselves to the bodies upon which they are intended to act1 while his senses are keen and as yet free from illusions1 then is the time to exercise both limbs and senses in their proper business4 ,it is the time to learn to perceive the physical relations between ourselves and things4 ,since everything that comes into the human mind enters through the gates of sense1 man's first reason is a reason of sense-experience4 ,it is this that serves as a foundation for the reason of the intelligence2 our first teachers in natural philosophy are our feet1 hands1 and eyes4 ,to substitute books for them does not teach us to reason1 it teaches us to use the reason of others rather than our own2 it teaches us to believe much and know little4 ,before you can practise an art you must first get your tools2 and if you are to make good use of those tools1 they must be fashioned sufficiently strong to stand use4 ,to learn to think we must therefore exercise our limbs1 our senses1 and our bodily organs1 which are the tools of the intellect2 and to get the best use out of these tools1 the body which supplies us with them must be strong and healthy4 ,not only is it quite a mistake that true reason is developed apart from the body1 but it is a good bodily constitution which makes the workings of the mind easy and correct4 ,while ,i am showing how the child's long period of leisure should be spent1 ,i am entering into details which may seem absurd4 ,you will say1 ,this is a strange sort of education1 and it is subject to your own criticism1 for it only teaches what no one needs to learn4 ,why spend your time in teaching what will come of itself without care or trouble8 ,is there any child of twelve who is ignorant of all you wish to teach your pupil1 while he also knows what his master has taught him4 ,gentlemen1 you are mistaken4 ,i am teaching my pupil an art1 the acquirement of which demands much time and trouble1 an art which your scholars certainly do not possess2 it is the art of being ignorant2 for the knowledge of any one who only thinks he knows1 what he really does know is a very small matter4 ,you teach science2 well and good2 ,i am busy fashioning the necessary tools for its acquisition4 ,once upon a time1 they say the ,venetians were displaying the treasures of the ,cathedral of ,saint ,mark to the ,spanish ambassador2 the only comment he made was1 ,qui non c'e la radice4 ,when ,i see a tutor showing off his pupil's learning1 ,i am always tempted to say the same to him4 ,every one who has considered the manner of life among the ancients1 attributes the strength of body and mind by which they are distinguished from the men of our own day to their gymnastic exercises4 ,the stress laid by ,montaigne upon this opinion1 shows that it had made a great impression on him2 he returns to it again and again4 ,speaking of a child's education he says1 ,to strengthen the mind you must harden the muscles2 by training the child to labour you train him to suffering2 he must be broken in to the hardships of gymnastic exercises to prepare him for the hardships of dislocations1 colics1 and other bodily ills4 ,the philosopher ,locke1 the worthy ,rollin1 the learned ,fleury1 the pedant ,de ,crouzas1 differing as they do so widely from one another1 are agreed in this one matter of sufficient bodily exercise for children4 ,this is the wisest of their precepts1 and the one which is certain to be neglected4 ,i have already dwelt sufficiently on its importance1 and as better reasons and more sensible rules cannot be found than those in ,locke's book1 ,i will content myself with referring to it1 after taking the liberty of adding a few remarks of my own4 ,the limbs of a growing child should be free to move easily in his clothing2 nothing should cramp their growth or movement2 there should be nothing tight1 nothing fitting closely to the body1 no belts of any kind4 ,the ,french style of dress1 uncomfortable and unhealthy for a man1 is especially bad for children4 ,the stagnant humours1 whose circulation is interrupted1 putrify in a state of inaction1 and this process proceeds more rapidly in an inactive and sedentary life2 they become corrupt and give rise to scurvy2 this disease1 which is continually on the increase among us1 was almost unknown to the ancients1 whose way of dressing and living protected them from it4 ,the hussar's dress1 far from correcting this fault1 increases it1 and compresses the whole of the child's body1 by way of dispensing with a few bands4 ,the best plan is to keep children in frocks as long as possible and then to provide them with loose clothing1 without trying to define the shape which is only another way of deforming it4 ,their defects of body and mind may all be traced to the same source1 the desire to make men of them before their time4 ,there are bright colours and dull2 children like the bright colours best1 and they suit them better too4 ,i see no reason why such natural suitability should not be taken into consideration2 but as soon as they prefer a material because it is rich1 their hearts are already given over to luxury1 to every caprice of fashion1 and this taste is certainly not their own4 ,it is impossible to say how much education is influenced by this choice of clothes1 and the motives for this choice4 ,not only do short-sighted mothers offer ornaments as rewards to their children1 but there are foolish tutors who threaten to make their pupils wear the plainest and coarsest clothes as a punishment4 ,if you do not do your lessons better1 if you do not take more care of your clothes1 you shall be dressed like that little peasant boy4 ,this is like saying to them1 ,understand that clothes make the man4 ,is it to be wondered at that our young people profit by such wise teaching1 that they care for nothing but dress1 and that they only judge of merit by its outside4 ,if ,i had to bring such a spoilt child to his senses1 ,i would take care that his smartest clothes were the most uncomfortable1 that he was always cramped1 constrained1 and embarrassed in every way2 freedom and mirth should flee before his splendour4 ,if he wanted to take part in the games of children more simply dressed1 they should cease their play and run away4 ,before long ,i should make him so tired and sick of his magnificence1 such a slave to his gold-laced coat1 that it would become the plague of his life1 and he would be less afraid to behold the darkest dungeon than to see the preparations for his adornment4 ,before the child is enslaved by our prejudices his first wish is always to be free and comfortable4 ,the plainest and most comfortable clothes1 those which leave him most liberty1 are what he always likes best4 ,there are habits of body suited for an active life and others for a sedentary life4 ,the latter leaves the humours an equable and uniform course1 and the body should be protected from changes in temperature2 the former is constantly passing from action to rest1 from heat to cold1 and the body should be inured to these changes4 ,hence people1 engaged in sedentary pursuits indoors1 should always be warmly dressed1 to keep their bodies as nearly as possible at the same temperature at all times and seasons4 ,those1 however1 who come and go in sun1 wind1 and rain1 who take much exercise1 and spend most of their time out of doors1 should always be lightly clad1 so as to get used to the changes in the air and to every degree of temperature without suffering inconvenience4 ,i would advise both never to change their clothes with the changing seasons1 and that would be the invariable habit of my pupil ,emile4 ,by this ,i do not mean that he should wear his winter clothes in summer like many people of sedentary habits1 but that he should wear his summer clothes in winter like hard-working folk4 ,sir ,isaac ,newton always did this1 and he lived to be eighty4 ,emile should wear little or nothing on his head all the year round4 ,the ancient ,egyptians always went bareheaded2 the ,persians used to wear heavy tiaras and still wear large turbans1 which according to ,chardin are required by their climate4 ,i have remarked elsewhere on the difference observed by ,herodotus on a battle-field between the skulls of the ,persians and those of the ,egyptians4 ,since it is desirable that the bones of the skull should grow harder and more substantial1 less fragile and porous1 not only to protect the brain against injuries but against colds1 fever1 and every influence of the air1 you should therefore accustom your children to go bare-headed winter and summer1 day and night4 ,if you make them wear a night-cap to keep their hair clean and tidy1 let it be thin and transparent like the nets with which the ,basques cover their hair4 ,i am aware that most mothers will be more impressed by ,chardin's observations than my arguments1 and will think that all climates are the climate of ,persia1 but ,i did not choose a ,european pupil to turn him into an ,asiatic4 ,children are generally too much wrapped up1 particularly in infancy4 ,they should be accustomed to cold rather than heat2 great cold never does them any harm1 if they are exposed to it soon enough2 but their skin is still too soft and tender and leaves too free a course for perspiration1 so that they are inevitably exhausted by excessive heat4 ,it has been observed that infant mortality is greatest in ,august4 ,moreover1 it seems certain from a comparison of northern and southern races that we become stronger by bearing extreme cold rather than excessive heat4 ,but as the child's body grows bigger and his muscles get stronger1 train him gradually to bear the rays of the sun4 ,little by little you will harden him till he can face the burning heat of the tropics without danger4 ,locke1 in the midst of the manly and sensible advice he gives us1 falls into inconsistencies one would hardly expect in such a careful thinker4 ,the same man who would have children take an ice-cold bath summer and winter1 will not let them drink cold water when they are hot1 or lie on damp grass4 ,but he would never have their shoes water-tight2 and why should they let in more water when the child is hot than when he is cold1 and may we not draw the same inference with regard to the feet and body that he draws with regard to the hands and feet and the body and face8 ,if he would have a man all face1 why blame me if ,i would have him all feet8 ,to prevent children drinking when they are hot1 he says they should be trained to eat a piece of bread first4 ,it is a strange thing to make a child eat because he is thirsty2 ,i would as soon give him a drink when he is hungry4 ,you will never convince me that our first instincts are so ill-regulated that we cannot satisfy them without endangering our lives4 ,were that so1 the man would have perished over and over again before he had learned how to keep himself alive4 ,whenever ,emile is thirsty let him have a drink1 and let him drink fresh water just as it is1 not even taking the chill off it in the depths of winter and when he is bathed in perspiration4 ,the only precaution ,i advise is to take care what sort of water you give him4 ,if the water comes from a river1 give it him just as it is2 if it is spring-water let it stand a little exposed to the air before he drinks it4 ,in warm weather rivers are warm2 it is not so with springs1 whose water has not been in contact with the air4 ,you must wait till the temperature of the water is the same as that of the air4 ,in winter1 on the other hand1 spring water is safer than river water4 ,it is1 however1 unusual and unnatural to perspire greatly in winter1 especially in the open air1 for the cold air constantly strikes the skin and drives the perspiration inwards1 and prevents the pores opening enough to give it passage4 ,now ,i do not intend ,emile to take his exercise by the fireside in winter1 but in the open air and among the ice4 ,if he only gets warm with making and throwing snowballs1 let him drink when he is thirsty1 and go on with his game after drinking1 and you need not be afraid of any ill effects4 ,and if any other exercise makes him perspire let him drink cold water even in winter provided he is thirsty4 ,only take care to take him to get the water some little distance away4 ,in such cold as ,i am supposing1 he would have cooled down sufficiently when he got there to be able to drink without danger4 ,above all1 take care to conceal these precautions from him4 ,i would rather he were ill now and then1 than always thinking about his health4 ,since children take such violent exercise they need a great deal of sleep4 ,the one makes up for the other1 and this shows that both are necessary4 ,night is the time set apart by nature for rest4 ,it is an established fact that sleep is quieter and calmer when the sun is below the horizon1 and that our senses are less calm when the air is warmed by the rays of the sun4 ,so it is certainly the healthiest plan to rise with the sun and go to bed with the sun4 ,hence in our country man and all the other animals with him want more sleep in winter than in summer4 ,but town life is so complex1 so unnatural1 so subject to chances and changes1 that it is not wise to accustom a man to such uniformity that he cannot do without it4 ,no doubt he must submit to rules2 but the chief rule is this--be able to break the rule if necessary4 ,so do not be so foolish as to soften your pupil by letting him always sleep his sleep out4 ,leave him at first to the law of nature without any hindrance1 but never forget that under our conditions he must rise above this law2 he must be able to go to bed late and rise early1 be awakened suddenly1 or sit up all night without ill effects4 ,begin early and proceed gently1 a step at a time1 and the constitution adapts itself to the very conditions which would destroy it if they were imposed for the first time on the grown man4 ,in the next place he must be accustomed to sleep in an uncomfortable bed1 which is the best way to find no bed uncomfortable4 ,speaking generally1 a hard life1 when once we have become used to it1 increases our pleasant experiences2 an easy life prepares the way for innumerable unpleasant experiences4 ,those who are too tenderly nurtured can only sleep on down2 those who are used to sleep on bare boards can find them anywhere4 ,there is no such thing as a hard bed for the man who falls asleep at once4 ,the body is1 so to speak1 melted and dissolved in a soft bed where one sinks into feathers and eider-down4 ,the reins when too warmly covered become inflamed4 ,stone and other diseases are often due to this1 and it invariably produces a delicate constitution1 which is the seed-ground of every ailment4 ,the best bed is that in which we get the best sleep4 ,emile and ,i will prepare such a bed for ourselves during the daytime4 ,we do not need ,persian slaves to make our beds2 when we are digging the soil we are turning our mattresses4 ,i know that a healthy child may be made to sleep or wake almost at will4 ,when the child is put to bed and his nurse grows weary of his chatter1 she says to him1 ,go to sleep4 ,that is much like saying1 ,get well1 when he is ill4 ,the right way is to let him get tired of himself4 ,talk so much that he is compelled to hold his tongue1 and he will soon be asleep4 ,here is at least one use for sermons1 and you may as well preach to him as rock his cradle2 but if you use this narcotic at night1 do not use it by day4 ,i shall sometimes rouse ,emile1 not so much to prevent his sleeping too much1 as to accustom him to anything--even to waking with a start4 ,moreover1 ,i should be unfit for my business if ,i could not make him wake himself1 and get up1 so to speak1 at my will1 without being called4 ,if he wakes too soon1 ,i shall let him look forward to a tedious morning1 so that he will count as gain any time he can give to sleep4 ,if he sleeps too late ,i shall show him some favourite toy when he wakes4 ,if ,i want him to wake at a given hour ,i shall say1 ,to-morrow at six ,i am going fishing1 or ,i shall take a walk to such and such a place4 ,would you like to come too8 ,he assents1 and begs me to wake him4 ,i promise1 or do not promise1 as the case requires4 ,if he wakes too late1 he finds me gone4 ,there is something amiss if he does not soon learn to wake himself4 ,moreover1 should it happen1 though it rarely does1 that a sluggish child desires to stagnate in idleness1 you must not give way to this tendency1 which might stupefy him entirely1 but you must apply some stimulus to wake him4 ,you must understand that is no question of applying force1 but of arousing some appetite which leads to action1 and such an appetite1 carefully selected on the lines laid down by nature1 kills two birds with one stone4 ,if one has any sort of skill1 ,i can think of nothing for which a taste1 a very passion1 cannot be aroused in children1 and that without vanity1 emulation1 or jealousy4 ,their keenness1 their spirit of imitation1 is enough of itself2 above all1 there is their natural liveliness1 of which no teacher so far has contrived to take advantage4 ,in every game1 when they are quite sure it is only play1 they endure without complaint1 or even with laughter1 hardships which they would not submit to otherwise without floods of tears4 ,the sports of the young savage involve long fasting1 blows1 burns1 and fatigue of every kind1 a proof that even pain has a charm of its own1 which may remove its bitterness4 ,it is not every master1 however1 who knows how to season this dish1 nor can every scholar eat it without making faces4 ,however1 ,i must take care or ,i shall be wandering off again after exceptions4 ,it is not to be endured that man should become the slave of pain1 disease1 accident1 the perils of life1 or even death itself2 the more familiar he becomes with these ideas the sooner he will be cured of that over-sensitiveness which adds to the pain by impatience in bearing it2 the sooner he becomes used to the sufferings which may overtake him1 the sooner he shall1 as ,montaigne has put it1 rob those pains of the sting of unfamiliarity1 and so make his soul strong and invulnerable2 his body will be the coat of mail which stops all the darts which might otherwise find a vital part4 ,even the approach of death1 which is not death itself1 will scarcely be felt as such2 he will not die1 he will be1 so to speak1 alive or dead and nothing more4 ,montaigne might say of him as he did of a certain king of ,morocco1 ,no man ever prolonged his life so far into death4 ,a child serves his apprenticeship in courage and endurance as well as in other virtues2 but you cannot teach children these virtues by name alone2 they must learn them unconsciously through experience4 ,but speaking of death1 what steps shall ,i take with regard to my pupil and the smallpox8 ,shall he be inoculated in infancy1 or shall ,i wait till he takes it in the natural course of things8 ,the former plan is more in accordance with our practice1 for it preserves his life at a time when it is of greater value1 at the cost of some danger when his life is of less worth2 if indeed we can use the word danger with regard to inoculation when properly performed4 ,but the other plan is more in accordance with our general principles--to leave nature to take the precautions she delights in1 precautions she abandons whenever man interferes4 ,the natural man is always ready2 let nature inoculate him herself1 she will choose the fitting occasion better than we4 ,do not think ,i am finding fault with inoculation1 for my reasons for exempting my pupil from it do not in the least apply to yours4 ,your training does not prepare them to escape catching smallpox as soon as they are exposed to infection4 ,if you let them take it anyhow1 they will probably die4 ,i perceive that in different lands the resistance to inoculation is in proportion to the need for it2 and the reason is plain4 ,so ,i scarcely condescend to discuss this question with regard to ,emile4 ,he will be inoculated or not according to time1 place1 and circumstances2 it is almost a matter of indifference1 as far as he is concerned4 ,if it gives him smallpox1 there will be the advantage of knowing what to expect1 knowing what the disease is2 that is a good thing1 but if he catches it naturally it will have kept him out of the doctor's hands1 which is better4 ,an exclusive education1 which merely tends to keep those who have received it apart from the mass of mankind1 always selects such teaching as is costly rather than cheap1 even when the latter is of more use4 ,thus all carefully educated young men learn to ride1 because it is costly1 but scarcely any of them learn to swim1 as it costs nothing1 and an artisan can swim as well as any one4 ,yet without passing through the riding school1 the traveller learns to mount his horse1 to stick on it1 and to ride well enough for practical purposes2 but in the water if you cannot swim you will drown1 and we cannot swim unless we are taught4 ,again1 you are not forced to ride on pain of death1 while no one is sure of escaping such a common danger as drowning4 ,emile shall be as much at home in the water as on land4 ,why should he not be able to live in every element8 ,if he could learn to fly1 he should be an eagle2 ,i would make him a salamander1 if he could bear the heat4 ,people are afraid lest the child should be drowned while he is learning to swim2 if he dies while he is learning1 or if he dies because he has not learnt1 it will be your own fault4 ,foolhardiness is the result of vanity2 we are not rash when no one is looking4 ,emile will not be foolhardy1 though all the world were watching him4 ,as the exercise does not depend on its danger1 he will learn to swim the ,hellespont by swimming1 without any danger1 a stream in his father's park2 but he must get used to danger too1 so as not to be flustered by it4 ,this is an essential part of the apprenticeship ,i spoke of just now4 ,moreover1 ,i shall take care to proportion the danger to his strength1 and ,i shall always share it myself1 so that ,i need scarcely fear any imprudence if ,i take as much care for his life as for my own4 ,a child is smaller than a man2 he has not the man's strength or reason1 but he sees and hears as well or nearly as well2 his sense of taste is very good1 though he is less fastidious1 and he distinguishes scents as clearly though less sensuously4 ,the senses are the first of our faculties to mature2 they are those most frequently overlooked or neglected4 ,to train the senses it is not enough merely to use them2 we must learn to judge by their means1 to learn to feel1 so to speak2 for we cannot touch1 see1 or hear1 except as we have been taught4 ,there is a mere natural and mechanical use of the senses which strengthens the body without improving the judgment4 ,it is all very well to swim1 run1 jump1 whip a top1 throw stones2 but have we nothing but arms and legs8 ,have we not eyes and ears as well2 and are not these organs necessary for the use of the rest8 ,do not merely exercise the strength1 exercise all the senses by which it is guided2 make the best use of every one of them1 and check the results of one by the other4 ,measure1 count1 weigh1 compare4 ,do not use force till you have estimated the resistance2 let the estimation of the effect always precede the application of the means4 ,get the child interested in avoiding insufficient or superfluous efforts4 ,if in this way you train him to calculate the effects of all his movements1 and to correct his mistakes by experience1 is it not clear that the more he does the wiser he will become8 ,take the case of moving a heavy mass2 if he takes too long a lever1 he will waste his strength2 if it is too short1 he will not have strength enough2 experience will teach him to use the very stick he needs4 ,this knowledge is not beyond his years4 ,take1 for example1 a load to be carried2 if he wants to carry as much as he can1 and not to take up more than he can carry1 must he not calculate the weight by the appearance8 ,does he know how to compare masses of like substance and different size1 or to choose between masses of the same size and different substances8 ,he must set to work to compare their specific weights4 ,i have seen a young man1 very highly educated1 who could not be convinced1 till he had tried it1 that a bucket full of blocks of oak weighed less than the same bucket full of water4 ,all our senses are not equally under our control4 ,one of them1 touch1 is always busy during our waking hours2 it is spread over the whole surface of the body1 like a sentinel ever on the watch to warn us of anything which may do us harm4 ,whether we will or not1 we learn to use it first of all by experience1 by constant practice1 and therefore we have less need for special training for it4 ,yet we know that the blind have a surer and more delicate sense of touch than we1 for not being guided by the one sense1 they are forced to get from the touch what we get from sight4 ,why1 then1 are not we trained to walk as they do in the dark1 to recognise what we touch1 to distinguish things about us2 in a word1 to do at night and in the dark what they do in the daytime without sight8 ,we are better off than they while the sun shines2 in the dark it is their turn to be our guide4 ,we are blind half our time1 with this difference3 the really blind always know what to do1 while we are afraid to stir in the dark4 ,we have lights1 you say4 ,what always artificial aids4 ,who can insure that they will always be at hand when required4 ,i had rather ,emil's eyes were in his finger tips1 than in the chandler's shop4 ,if you are shut up in a building at night1 clap your hands1 you will know from the sound whether the space is large or small1 if you are in the middle or in one corner4 ,half a foot from a wall the air1 which is refracted and does not circulate freely1 produces a different effect on your face4 ,stand still in one place and turn this way and that2 a slight draught will tell you if there is a door open4 ,if you are on a boat you will perceive from the way the air strikes your face not merely the direction in which you are going1 but whether the current is bearing you slow or fast4 ,these observations and many others like them can only be properly made at night2 however much attention we give to them by daylight1 we are always helped or hindered by sight1 so that the results escape us4 ,yet here we use neither hand nor stick4 ,how much may be learnt by touch1 without ever touching anything6 ,i would have plenty of games in the dark6 ,this suggestion is more valuable than it seems at first sight4 ,men are naturally afraid of the dark2 so are some animals4 ,footnote3 ,this terror is very noticeable during great eclipses of the sun4 ,only a few men are freed from this burden by knowledge1 determination1 and courage4 ,i have seen thinkers1 unbelievers1 philosophers1 exceedingly brave by daylight1 tremble like women at the rustling of a leaf in the dark4 ,this terror is put down to nurses' tales2 this is a mistake2 it has a natural cause4 ,what is this cause8 ,what makes the deaf suspicious and the lower classes superstitious8 ,ignorance of the things about us1 and of what is taking place around us4 ,footnote3 ,another cause has been well explained by a philosopher1 often quoted in this work1 a philosopher to whose wide views ,i am very greatly indebted4 ,when under special conditions we cannot form a fair idea of distance1 when we can only judge things by the size of the angle or rather of the image formed in our eyes1 we cannot avoid being deceived as to the size of these objects4 ,every one knows by experience how when we are travelling at night we take a bush near at hand for a great tree at a distance1 and vice versa4 ,in the same way1 if the objects were of a shape unknown to us1 so that we could not tell their size in that way1 we should be equally mistaken with regard to it4 ,if a fly flew quickly past a few inches from our eyes1 we should think it was a distant bird2 a horse standing still at a distance from us in the midst of open country1 in a position somewhat like that of a sheep1 would be taken for a large sheep1 so long as we did not perceive that it was a horse2 but as soon as we recognise what it is1 it seems as large as a horse1 and we at once correct our former judgment4 ,whenever one finds oneself in unknown places at night where we cannot judge of distance1 and where we cannot recognise objects by their shape on account of the darkness1 we are in constant danger of forming mistaken judgments as to the objects which present themselves to our notice4 ,hence that terror1 that kind of inward fear experienced by most people on dark nights4 ,this is foundation for the supposed appearances of spectres1 or gigantic and terrible forms which so many people profess to have seen4 ,they are generally told that they imagined these things1 yet they may really have seen them1 and it is quite possible they really saw what they say they did see2 for it will always be the case that when we can only estimate the size of an object by the angle it forms in the eye1 that object will swell and grow as we approach it2 and if the spectator thought it several feet high when it was thirty or forty feet away1 it will seem very large indeed when it is a few feet off2 this must indeed astonish and alarm the spectator until he touches it and perceives what it is1 for as soon as he perceives what it is1 the object which seemed so gigantic will suddenly shrink and assume its real size1 but if we run away or are afraid to approach1 we shall certainly form no other idea of the thing than the image formed in the eye1 and we shall have really seen a gigantic figure of alarming size and shape4 ,there is1 therefore1 a natural ground for the tendency to see ghosts1 and these appearances are not merely the creation of the imagination1 as the men of science would have us think4--,buffon1 ,nat4 ,hist4 ,in the text ,i have tried to show that they are always partly the creation of the imagination1 and with regard to the cause explained in this quotation1 it is clear that the habit of walking by night should teach us to distinguish those appearances which similarity of form and diversity of distance lend to the objects seen in the dark4 ,for if the air is light enough for us to see the outlines there must be more air between us and them when they are further off1 so that we ought to see them less distinctly when further off1 which should be enough1 when we are used to it1 to prevent the error described by ,m4 ,buffon4 ,whichever explanation you prefer1 my mode of procedure is still efficacious1 and experience entirely confirms it4 ,accustomed to perceive things from a distance and to calculate their effects1 how can ,i help supposing1 when ,i cannot see1 that there are hosts of creatures and all sorts of movements all about me which may do me harm1 and against which ,i cannot protect myself8 ,in vain do ,i know ,i am safe where ,i am2 ,i am never so sure of it as when ,i can actually see it1 so that ,i have always a cause for fear which did not exist in broad daylight4 ,i know1 indeed1 that a foreign body can scarcely act upon me without some slight sound1 and how intently ,i listen6 ,at the least sound which ,i cannot explain1 the desire of self-preservation makes me picture everything that would put me on my guard1 and therefore everything most calculated to alarm me4 ,i am just as uneasy if ,i hear no sound1 for ,i might be taken unawares without a sound4 ,i must picture things as they were before1 as they ought to be2 ,i must see what ,i do not see4 ,thus driven to exercise my imagination1 it soon becomes my master1 and what ,i did to reassure myself only alarms me more4 ,i hear a noise1 it is a robber2 ,i hear nothing1 it is a ghost4 ,the watchfulness inspired by the instinct of self-preservation only makes me more afraid4 ,everything that ought to reassure me exists only for my reason1 and the voice of instinct is louder than that of reason4 ,what is the good of thinking there is nothing to be afraid of1 since in that case there is nothing we can do8 ,the cause indicates the cure4 ,in everything habit overpowers imagination2 it is only aroused by what is new4 ,it is no longer imagination1 but memory which is concerned with what we see every day1 and that is the reason of the maxim1 ,ab assuetis non fit passio1 for it is only at the flame of imagination that the passions are kindled4 ,therefore do not argue with any one whom you want to cure of the fear of darkness2 take him often into dark places and be assured this practice will be of more avail than all the arguments of philosophy4 ,the tiler on the roof does not know what it is to be dizzy1 and those who are used to the dark will not be afraid4 ,there is another advantage to be gained from our games in the dark4 ,but if these games are to be a success ,i cannot speak too strongly of the need for gaiety4 ,nothing is so gloomy as the dark3 do not shut your child up in a dungeon1 let him laugh when he goes1 into a dark place1 let him laugh when he comes out1 so that the thought of the game he is leaving and the games he will play next may protect him from the fantastic imagination which might lay hold on him4 ,there comes a stage in life beyond which we progress backwards4 ,i feel ,i have reached this stage4 ,i am1 so to speak1 returning to a past career4 ,the approach of age makes us recall the happy days of our childhood4 ,as ,i grow old ,i become a child again1 and ,i recall more readily what ,i did at ten than at thirty4 ,reader1 forgive me if ,i sometimes draw my examples from my own experience4 ,if this book is to be well written1 ,i must enjoy writing it4 ,i was living in the country with a pastor called ,m4 ,lambercier4 ,my companion was a cousin richer than myself1 who was regarded as the heir to some property1 while ,i1 far from my father1 was but a poor orphan4 ,my big cousin ,bernard was unusually timid1 especially at night4 ,i laughed at his fears1 till ,m4 ,lambercier was tired of my boasting1 and determined to put my courage to the proof4 ,one autumn evening1 when it was very dark1 he gave me the church key1 and told me to go and fetch a ,bible he had left in the pulpit4 ,to put me on my mettle he said something which made it impossible for me to refuse4 ,i set out without a light2 if ,i had had one1 it would perhaps have been even worse4 ,i had to pass through the graveyard2 ,i crossed it bravely1 for as long as ,i was in the open air ,i was never afraid of the dark4 ,as ,i opened the door ,i heard a sort of echo in the roof2 it sounded like voices and it began to shake my ,roman courage4 ,having opened the door ,i tried to enter1 but when ,i had gone a few steps ,i stopped4 ,at the sight of the profound darkness in which the vast building lay ,i was seized with terror and my hair stood on end4 ,i turned1 ,i went out through the door1 and took to my heels4 ,in the yard ,i found a little dog1 called ,sultan1 whose caresses reassured me4 ,ashamed of my fears1 ,i retraced my steps1 trying to take ,sultan with me1 but he refused to follow4 ,hurriedly ,i opened the door and entered the church4 ,i was hardly inside when terror again got hold of me and so firmly that ,i lost my head1 and though the pulpit was on the right1 as ,i very well knew1 ,i sought it on the left1 and entangling myself among the benches ,i was completely lost4 ,unable to find either pulpit or door1 ,i fell into an indescribable state of mind4 ,at last ,i found the door and managed to get out of the church and run away as ,i had done before1 quite determined never to enter the church again except in broad daylight4 ,i returned to the house2 on the doorstep ,i heard ,m4 ,lambercier laughing1 laughing1 as ,i supposed1 at me4 ,ashamed to face his laughter1 ,i was hesitating to open the door1 when ,i heard ,miss ,lambercier1 who was anxious about me1 tell the maid to get the lantern1 and ,m4 ,lambercier got ready to come and look for me1 escorted by my gallant cousin1 who would have got all the credit for the expedition4 ,all at once my fears departed1 and left me merely surprised at my terror4 ,i ran1 ,i fairly flew1 to the church2 without losing my way1 without groping about1 ,i reached the pulpit1 took the ,bible1 and ran down the steps4 ,in three strides ,i was out of the church1 leaving the door open4 ,breathless1 ,i entered the room and threw the ,bible on the table1 frightened indeed1 but throbbing with pride that ,i had done it without the proposed assistance4 ,you will ask if ,i am giving this anecdote as an example1 and as an illustration1 of the mirth which ,i say should accompany these games4 ,not so1 but ,i give it as a proof that there is nothing so well calculated to reassure any one who is afraid in the dark as to hear sounds of laughter and talking in an adjoining room4 ,instead of playing alone with your pupil in the evening1 ,i would have you get together a number of merry children2 do not send them alone to begin with1 but several together1 and do not venture to send any one quite alone1 until you are quite certain beforehand that he will not be too frightened4 ,i can picture nothing more amusing and more profitable than such games1 considering how little skill is required to organise them4 ,in a large room ,i should arrange a sort of labyrinth of tables1 armchairs1 chairs1 and screens4 ,in the inextricable windings of this labyrinth ,i should place some eight or ten sham boxes1 and one real box almost exactly like them1 but well filled with sweets4 ,i should describe clearly and briefly the place where the right box would be found4 ,i should give instructions sufficient to enable people more attentive and less excitable than children to find it4 ,footnote3 ,to practise them in attention1 only tell them things which it is clearly to their present interest that they should understand thoroughly2 above all be brief1 never say a word more than necessary4 ,but neither let your speech be obscure nor of doubtful meaning4 ,then having made the little competitors draw lots1 ,i should send first one and then another till the right box was found4 ,i should increase the difficulty of the task in proportion to their skill4 ,picture to yourself a youthful ,hercules returning1 box in hand1 quite proud of his expedition4 ,the box is placed on the table and opened with great ceremony4 ,i can hear the bursts of laughter and the shouts of the merry party when1 instead of the looked-for sweets1 he finds1 neatly arranged on moss or cotton-wool1 a beetle1 a snail1 a bit of coal1 a few acorns1 a turnip1 or some such thing4 ,another time in a newly whitewashed room1 a toy or some small article of furniture would be hung on the wall and the children would have to fetch it without touching the wall4 ,when the child who fetches it comes back1 if he has failed ever so little to fulfil the conditions1 a dab of white on the brim of his cap1 the tip of his shoe1 the flap of his coat or his sleeve1 will betray his lack of skill4 ,this is enough1 or more than enough1 to show the spirit of these games4 ,do not read my book if you expect me to tell you everything4 ,what great advantages would be possessed by a man so educated1 when compared with others4 ,his feet are accustomed to tread firmly in the dark1 and his hands to touch lightly2 they will guide him safely in the thickest darkness4 ,his imagination is busy with the evening games of his childhood1 and will find it difficult to turn towards objects of alarm4 ,if he thinks he hears laughter1 it will be the laughter of his former playfellows1 not of frenzied spirits2 if he thinks there is a host of people1 it will not be the witches' sabbath1 but the party in his tutor's study4 ,night only recalls these cheerful memories1 and it will never alarm him2 it will inspire delight rather than fear4 ,he will be ready for a military expedition at any hour1 with or without his troop4 ,he will enter the camp of ,saul1 he will find his way1 he will reach the king's tent without waking any one1 and he will return unobserved4 ,are the steeds of ,rhesus to be stolen1 you may trust him4 ,you will scarcely find a ,ulysses among men educated in any other fashion4 ,i have known people who tried to train the children not to fear the dark by startling them4 ,this is a very bad plan2 its effects are just the opposite of those desired1 and it only makes children more timid4 ,neither reason nor habit can secure us from the fear of a present danger whose degree and kind are unknown1 nor from the fear of surprises which we have often experienced4 ,yet how will you make sure that you can preserve your pupil from such accidents8 ,i consider this the best advice to give him beforehand4 ,i should say to ,emile1 ,this is a matter of self-defence1 for the aggressor does not let you know whether he means to hurt or frighten you1 and as the advantage is on his side you cannot even take refuge in flight4 ,therefore seize boldly anything1 whether man or beast1 which takes you unawares in the dark4 ,grasp it1 squeeze it with all your might2 if it struggles1 strike1 and do not spare your blows2 and whatever he may say or do1 do not let him go till you know just who he is4 ,the event will probably prove that you had little to be afraid of1 but this way of treating practical jokers would naturally prevent their trying it again4 ,although touch is the sense oftenest used1 its discrimination remains1 as ,i have already pointed out1 coarser and more imperfect than that of any other sense1 because we always use sight along with it2 the eye perceives the thing first1 and the mind almost always judges without the hand4 ,on the other hand1 discrimination by touch is the surest just because of its limitations2 for extending only as far as our hands can reach1 it corrects the hasty judgments of the other senses1 which pounce upon objects scarcely perceived1 while what we learn by touch is learnt thoroughly4 ,moreover1 touch1 when required1 unites the force of our muscles to the action of the nerves2 we associate by simultaneous sensations our ideas of temperature1 size1 and shape1 to those of weight and density4 ,thus touch is the sense which best teaches us the action of foreign bodies upon ourselves1 the sense which most directly supplies us with the knowledge required for self-preservation4 ,as the trained touch takes the place of sight1 why should it not1 to some extent1 take the place of hearing1 since sounds set up1 in sonorous bodies1 vibrations perceptible by touch8 ,by placing the hand on the body of a 'cello one can distinguish without the use of eye or ear1 merely by the way in which the wood vibrates and trembles1 whether the sound given out is sharp or flat1 whether it is drawn from the treble string or the bass4 ,if our touch were trained to note these differences1 no doubt we might in time become so sensitive as to hear a whole tune by means of our fingers4 ,but if we admit this1 it is clear that one could easily speak to the deaf by means of music2 for tone and measure are no less capable of regular combination than voice and articulation1 so that they might be used as the elements of speech4 ,there are exercises by which the sense of touch is blunted and deadened1 and others which sharpen it and make it delicate and discriminating4 ,the former1 which employ much movement and force for the continued impression of hard bodies1 make the skin hard and thick1 and deprive it of its natural sensitiveness4 ,the latter are those which give variety to this feeling1 by slight and repeated contact1 so that the mind is attentive to constantly recurring impressions1 and readily learns to discern their variations4 ,this difference is clear in the use of musical instruments4 ,the harsh and painful touch of the 'cello1 bass-viol1 and even of the violin1 hardens the finger-tips1 although it gives flexibility to the fingers4 ,the soft and smooth touch of the harpsichord makes the fingers both flexible and sensitive4 ,in this respect the harpsichord is to be preferred4 ,the skin protects the rest of the body1 so it is very important to harden it to the effects of the air that it may be able to bear its changes4 ,with regard to this ,i may say ,i would not have the hand roughened by too servile application to the same kind of work1 nor should the skin of the hand become hardened so as to lose its delicate sense of touch which keeps the body informed of what is going on1 and by the kind of contact sometimes makes us shudder in different ways even in the dark4 ,why should my pupil be always compelled to wear the skin of an ox under his foot8 ,what harm would come of it if his own skin could serve him at need as a sole4 ,it is clear that a delicate skin could never be of any use in this way1 and may often do harm4 ,the ,genevese1 aroused at midnight by their enemies in the depth of winter1 seized their guns rather than their shoes4 ,who can tell whether the town would have escaped capture if its citizens had not been able to go barefoot8 ,let a man be always fore-armed against the unforeseen4 ,let ,emile run about barefoot all the year round1 upstairs1 downstairs1 and in the garden4 ,far from scolding him1 ,i shall follow his example2 only ,i shall be careful to remove any broken glass4 ,i shall soon proceed to speak of work and manual occupations4 ,meanwhile1 let him learn to perform every exercise which encourages agility of body2 let him learn to hold himself easily and steadily in any position1 let him practise jumping and leaping1 climbing trees and walls4 ,let him always find his balance1 and let his every movement and gesture be regulated by the laws of weight1 long before he learns to explain them by the science of statics4 ,by the way his foot is planted on the ground1 and his body supported on his leg1 he ought to know if he is holding himself well or ill4 ,an easy carriage is always graceful1 and the steadiest positions are the most elegant4 ,if ,i were a dancing master ,i would refuse to play the monkey tricks of ,marcel1 which are only fit for the stage where they are performed2 but instead of keeping my pupil busy with fancy steps1 ,i would take him to the foot of a cliff4 ,there ,i would show him how to hold himself1 how to carry his body and head1 how to place first a foot then a hand1 to follow lightly the steep1 toilsome1 and rugged paths1 to leap from point to point1 either up or down4 ,he should emulate the mountain-goat1 not the ballet dancer4 ,as touch confines its operations to the man's immediate surroundings1 so sight extends its range beyond them2 it is this which makes it misleading2 man sees half his horizon at a glance4 ,in the midst of this host of simultaneous impressions and the thoughts excited by them1 how can he fail now and then to make mistakes8 ,thus sight is the least reliable of our senses1 just because it has the widest range2 it functions long before our other senses1 and its work is too hasty and on too large a scale to be corrected by the rest4 ,moreover1 the very illusions of perspective are necessary if we are to arrive at a knowledge of space and compare one part of space with another4 ,without false appearances we should never see anything at a distance2 without the gradations of size and tone we could not judge of distance1 or rather distance would have no existence for us4 ,if two trees1 one of which was a hundred paces from us and the other ten1 looked equally large and distinct1 we should think they were side by side4 ,if we perceived the real dimensions of things1 we should know nothing of space2 everything would seem close to our eyes4 ,the angle formed between any objects and our eye is the only means by which our sight estimates their size and distance1 and as this angle is the simple effect of complex causes1 the judgment we form does not distinguish between the several causes2 we are compelled to be inaccurate4 ,for how can ,i tell1 by sight alone1 whether the angle at which an object appears to me smaller than another1 indicates that it is really smaller or that it is further off4 ,here we must just reverse our former plan4 ,instead of simplifying the sensation1 always reinforce it and verify it by means of another sense4 ,subject the eye to the hand1 and1 so to speak1 restrain the precipitation of the former sense by the slower and more reasoned pace of the latter4 ,for want of this sort of practice our sight measurements are very imperfect4 ,we cannot correctly1 and at a glance1 estimate height1 length1 breadth1 and distance2 and the fact that engineers1 surveyors1 architects1 masons1 and painters are generally quicker to see and better able to estimate distances correctly1 proves that the fault is not in our eyes1 but in our use of them4 ,their occupations give them the training we lack1 and they check the equivocal results of the angle of vision by its accompanying experiences1 which determine the relations of the two causes of this angle for their eyes4 ,children will always do anything that keeps them moving freely4 ,there are countless ways of rousing their interest in measuring1 perceiving1 and estimating distance4 ,there is a very tall cherry tree2 how shall we gather the cherries8 ,will the ladder in the barn be big enough8 ,there is a wide stream2 how shall we get to the other side8 ,would one of the wooden planks in the yard reach from bank to bank8 ,from our windows we want to fish in the moat2 how many yards of line are required8 ,i want to make a swing between two trees2 will two fathoms of cord be enough8 ,they tell me our room in the new house will be twenty-five feet square2 do you think it will be big enough for us8 ,will it be larger than this8 ,we are very hungry2 here are two villages1 which can we get to first for our dinner8 ,an idle1 lazy child was to be taught to run4 ,he had no liking for this or any other exercise1 though he was intended for the army4 ,somehow or other he had got it into his head that a man of his rank need know nothing and do nothing--that his birth would serve as a substitute for arms and legs1 as well as for every kind of virtue4 ,the skill of ,chiron himself would have failed to make a fleet-footed ,achilles of this young gentleman4 ,the difficulty was increased by my determination to give him no kind of orders4 ,i had renounced all right to direct him by preaching1 promises1 threats1 emulation1 or the desire to show off4 ,how should ,i make him want to run without saying anything8 ,i might run myself1 but he might not follow my example1 and this plan had other drawbacks4 ,moreover1 ,i must find some means of teaching him through this exercise1 so as to train mind and body to work together4 ,this is how ,i1 or rather how the teacher who supplied me with this illustration1 set about it4 ,when ,i took him a walk of an afternoon ,i sometimes put in my pocket a couple of cakes1 of a kind he was very fond of2 we each ate one while we were out1 and we came back well pleased with our outing4 ,one day he noticed ,i had three cakes2 he could have easily eaten six1 so he ate his cake quickly and asked for the other4 ,no1 said ,i1 ,i could eat it myself1 or we might divide it1 but ,i would rather see those two little boys run a race for it4 ,i called them to us1 showed them the cake1 and suggested that they should race for it4 ,they were delighted4 ,the cake was placed on a large stone which was to be the goal2 the course was marked out1 we sat down1 and at a given signal off flew the children6 ,the victor seized the cake and ate it without pity in the sight of the spectators and of his defeated rival4 ,the sport was better than the cake2 but the lesson did not take effect all at once1 and produced no result4 ,i was not discouraged1 nor did ,i hurry2 teaching is a trade at which one must be able to lose time and save it4 ,our walks were continued1 sometimes we took three cakes1 sometimes four1 and from time to time there were one or two cakes for the racers4 ,if the prize was not great1 neither was the ambition of the competitors4 ,the winner was praised and petted1 and everything was done with much ceremony4 ,to give room to run and to add interest to the race ,i marked out a longer course and admitted several fresh competitors4 ,scarcely had they entered the lists than all the passers-by stopped to watch4 ,they were encouraged by shouting1 cheering1 and clapping4 ,i sometimes saw my little man trembling with excitement1 jumping up and shouting when one was about to reach or overtake another--to him these were the ,olympian games4 ,however1 the competitors did not always play fair1 they got in each other's way1 or knocked one another down1 or put stones on the track4 ,that led us to separate them and make them start from different places at equal distances from the goal4 ,you will soon see the reason for this1 for ,i must describe this important affair at length4 ,tired of seeing his favourite cakes devoured before his eyes1 the young lord began to suspect that there was some use in being a quick runner1 and seeing that he had two legs of his own1 he began to practise running on the quiet4 ,i took care to see nothing1 but ,i knew my stratagem had taken effect4 ,when he thought he was good enough 7and ,i thought so too71 he pretended to tease me to give him the other cake4 ,i refused2 he persisted1 and at last he said angrily1 ,well1 put it on the stone and mark out the course1 and we shall see4 ,very good1 said ,i1 laughing1 ,you will get a good appetite1 but you will not get the cake4 ,stung by my mockery1 he took heart1 won the prize1 all the more easily because ,i had marked out a very short course and taken care that the best runner was out of the way4 ,it will be evident that1 after the first step1 ,i had no difficulty in keeping him in training4 ,soon he took such a fancy for this form of exercise that without any favour he was almost certain to beat the little peasant boys at running1 however long the course4 ,the advantage thus obtained led unexpectedly to another4 ,so long as he seldom won the prize1 he ate it himself like his rivals1 but as he got used to victory he grew generous1 and often shared it with the defeated4 ,that taught me a lesson in morals and ,i saw what was the real root of generosity4 ,while ,i continued to mark out a different starting place for each competitor1 he did not notice that ,i had made the distances unequal1 so that one of them1 having farther to run to reach the goal1 was clearly at a disadvantage4 ,but though ,i left the choice to my pupil he did not know how to take advantage of it4 ,without thinking of the distance1 he always chose the smoothest path1 so that ,i could easily predict his choice1 and could almost make him win or lose the cake at my pleasure4 ,i had more than one end in view in this stratagem2 but as my plan was to get him to notice the difference himself1 ,i tried to make him aware of it4 ,though he was generally lazy and easy going1 he was so eager in his sports and trusted me so completely that ,i had great difficulty in making him see that ,i was cheating him4 ,when at last ,i managed to make him see it in spite of his excitement1 he was angry with me4 ,what have you to complain of8 said ,i4 ,in a gift which ,i propose to give of my own free will am not ,i master of the conditions8 ,who makes you run8 ,did ,i promise to make the courses equal8 ,is not the choice yours8 ,do not you see that ,i am favouring you1 and that the inequality you complain of is all to your advantage1 if you knew how to use it8 ,that was plain to him2 and to choose he must observe more carefully4 ,at first he wanted to count the paces1 but a child measures paces slowly and inaccurately2 moreover1 ,i decided to have several races on one day2 and the game having become a sort of passion with the child1 he was sorry to waste in measuring the portion of time intended for running4 ,such delays are not in accordance with a child's impatience2 he tried therefore to see better and to reckon the distance more accurately at sight4 ,it was now quite easy to extend and develop this power4 ,at length1 after some months' practice1 and the correction of his errors1 ,i so trained his power of judging at sight that ,i had only to place an imaginary cake on any distant object and his glance was nearly as accurate as the surveyor's chain4 ,of all the senses1 sight is that which we can least distinguish from the judgments of the mind2 as it takes a long time to learn to see4 ,it takes a long time to compare sight and touch1 and to train the former sense to give a true report of shape and distance4 ,without touch1 without progressive motion1 the sharpest eyes in the world could give us no idea of space4 ,to the oyster the whole world must seem a point1 and it would seem nothing more to it even if it had a human mind4 ,it is only by walking1 feeling1 counting1 measuring the dimensions of things1 that we learn to judge them rightly2 but1 on the other hand1 if we were always measuring1 our senses would trust to the instrument and would never gain confidence4 ,nor must the child pass abruptly from measurement to judgment2 he must continue to compare the parts when he could not compare the whole2 he must substitute his estimated aliquot parts for exact aliquot parts1 and instead of always applying the measure by hand he must get used to applying it by eye alone4 ,i would1 however1 have his first estimates tested by measurement1 so that he may correct his errors1 and if there is a false impression left upon the senses he may correct it by a better judgment4 ,the same natural standards of measurement are in use almost everywhere1 the man's foot1 the extent of his outstretched arms1 his height4 ,when the child wants to measure the height of a room1 his tutor may serve as a measuring rod2 if he is estimating the height of a steeple let him measure it by the house2 if he wants to know how many leagues of road there are1 let him count the hours spent in walking along it4 ,above all1 do not do this for him2 let him do it himself4 ,one cannot learn to estimate the extent and size of bodies without at the same time learning to know and even to copy their shape2 for at bottom this copying depends entirely on the laws of perspective1 and one cannot estimate distance without some feeling for these laws4 ,all children in the course of their endless imitation try to draw2 and ,i would have ,emile cultivate this art2 not so much for art's sake1 as to give him exactness of eye and flexibility of hand4 ,generally speaking1 it matters little whether he is acquainted with this or that occupation1 provided he gains clearness of sense--perception and the good bodily habits which belong to the exercise in question4 ,so ,i shall take good care not to provide him with a drawing master1 who would only set him to copy copies and draw from drawings4 ,nature should be his only teacher1 and things his only models4 ,he should have the real thing before his eyes1 not its copy on paper4 ,let him draw a house from a house1 a tree from a tree1 a man from a man2 so that he may train himself to observe objects and their appearance accurately and not to take false and conventional copies for truth4 ,i would even train him to draw only from objects actually before him and not from memory1 so that1 by repeated observation1 their exact form may be impressed on his imagination1 for fear lest he should substitute absurd and fantastic forms for the real truth of things1 and lose his sense of proportion and his taste for the beauties of nature4 ,of course ,i know that in this way he will make any number of daubs before he produces anything recognisable1 that it will be long before he attains to the graceful outline and light touch of the draughtsman2 perhaps he will never have an eye for picturesque effect or a good taste in drawing4 ,on the other hand1 he will certainly get a truer eye1 a surer hand1 a knowledge of the real relations of form and size between animals1 plants1 and natural objects1 together with a quicker sense of the effects of perspective4 ,that is just what ,i wanted1 and my purpose is rather that he should know things than copy them4 ,i would rather he showed me a plant of acanthus even if he drew a capital with less accuracy4 ,moreover1 in this occupation as in others1 ,i do not intend my pupil to play by himself2 ,i mean to make it pleasanter for him by always sharing it with him4 ,he shall have no other rival2 but mine will be a continual rivalry1 and there will be no risk attaching to it2 it will give interest to his pursuits without awaking jealousy between us4 ,i shall follow his example and take up a pencil2 at first ,i shall use it as unskilfully as he4 ,i should be an ,apelles if ,i did not set myself daubing4 ,to begin with1 ,i shall draw a man such as lads draw on walls1 a line for each arm1 another for each leg1 with the fingers longer than the arm4 ,long after1 one or other of us will notice this lack of proportion2 we shall observe that the leg is thick1 that this thickness varies1 that the length of the arm is proportionate to the body4 ,in this improvement ,i shall either go side by side with my pupil1 or so little in advance that he will always overtake me easily and sometimes get ahead of me4 ,we shall get brushes and paints1 we shall try to copy the colours of things and their whole appearance1 not merely their shape4 ,we shall colour prints1 we shall paint1 we shall daub2 but in all our daubing we shall be searching out the secrets of nature1 and whatever we do shall be done under the eye of that master4 ,we badly needed ornaments for our room1 and now we have them ready to our hand4 ,i will have our drawings framed and covered with good glass1 so that no one will touch them1 and thus seeing them where we put them1 each of us has a motive for taking care of his own4 ,i arrange them in order round the room1 each drawing repeated some twenty or thirty times1 thus showing the author's progress in each specimen1 from the time when the house is merely a rude square1 till its front view1 its side view1 its proportions1 its light and shade are all exactly portrayed4 ,these graduations will certainly furnish us with pictures1 a source of interest to ourselves and of curiosity to others1 which will spur us on to further emulation4 ,the first and roughest drawings ,i put in very smart gilt frames to show them off2 but as the copy becomes more accurate and the drawing really good1 ,i only give it a very plain dark frame2 it needs no other ornament than itself1 and it would be a pity if the frame distracted the attention which the picture itself deserves4 ,thus we each aspire to a plain frame1 and when we desire to pour scorn on each other's drawings1 we condemn them to a gilded frame4 ,some day perhaps the gilt frame will become a proverb among us1 and we shall be surprised to find how many people show what they are really made of by demanding a gilt frame4 ,i have said already that geometry is beyond the child's reach2 but that is our own fault4 ,we fail to perceive that their method is not ours1 that what is for us the art of reasoning1 should be for them the art of seeing4 ,instead of teaching them our way1 we should do better to adopt theirs1 for our way of learning geometry is quite as much a matter of imagination as of reasoning4 ,when a proposition is enunciated you must imagine the proof2 that is1 you must discover on what proposition already learnt it depends1 and of all the possible deductions from that proposition you must choose just the one required4 ,in this way the closest reasoner1 if he is not inventive1 may find himself at a loss4 ,what is the result8 ,instead of making us discover proofs1 they are dictated to us2 instead of teaching us to reason1 our memory only is employed4 ,draw accurate figures1 combine them together1 put them one upon another1 examine their relations1 and you will discover the whole of elementary geometry in passing from one observation to another1 without a word of definitions1 problems1 or any other form of demonstration but super-position4 ,i do not profess to teach ,emile geometry2 he will teach me2 ,i shall seek for relations1 he will find them1 for ,i shall seek in such a fashion as to make him find4 ,for instance1 instead of using a pair of compasses to draw a circle1 ,i shall draw it with a pencil at the end of bit of string attached to a pivot4 ,after that1 when ,i want to compare the radii one with another1 ,emile will laugh at me and show me that the same thread at full stretch cannot have given distances of unequal length4 ,if ,i wish to measure an angle of #fj degrees ,i describe from the apex of the angle1 not an arc1 but a complete circle1 for with children nothing must be taken for granted4 ,i find that the part of the circle contained between the two lines of the angle is the sixth part of a circle4 ,then ,i describe another and larger circle from the same centre1 and ,i find the second arc is again the sixth part of its circle4 ,i describe a third concentric circle with a similar result1 and ,i continue with more and more circles till ,emile1 shocked at my stupidity1 shows me that every arc1 large or small1 contained by the same angle will always be the sixth part of its circle4 ,now we are ready to use the protractor4 ,to prove that two adjacent angles are equal to two right angles people describe a circle4 ,on the contrary ,i would have ,emile observe the fact in a circle1 and then ,i should say1 ,if we took away the circle and left the straight lines1 would the angles have changed their size1 etc48 ,exactness in the construction of figures is neglected2 it is taken for granted and stress is laid on the proof4 ,with us1 on the other hand1 there will be no question of proof4 ,our chief business will be to draw very straight1 accurate1 and even lines1 a perfect square1 a really round circle4 ,to verify the exactness of a figure we will test it by each of its sensible properties1 and that will give us a chance to discover fresh properties day by day4 ,we will fold the two semi-circles along the diameter1 the two halves of the square by the diagonal2 he will compare our two figures to see who has got the edges to fit most exactly1 i4e41 who has done it best2 we should argue whether this equal division would always be possible in parallelograms1 trapezes1 etc4 ,we shall sometimes try to forecast the result of an experiment1 to find reasons1 etc4 ,geometry means to my scholar the successful use of the rule and compass2 he must not confuse it with drawing1 in which these instruments are not used4 ,the rule and compass will be locked up1 so that he will not get into the way of messing about with them1 but we may sometimes take our figures with us when we go for a walk1 and talk over what we have done1 or what we mean to do4 ,i shall never forget seeing a young man at ,turin1 who had learnt as a child the relations of contours and surfaces by having to choose every day isoperimetric cakes among cakes of every geometrical figure4 ,the greedy little fellow had exhausted the art of ,archimedes to find which were the biggest4 ,when the child flies a kite he is training eye and hand to accuracy2 when he whips a top1 he is increasing his strength by using it1 but without learning anything4 ,i have sometimes asked why children are not given the same games of skill as men2 tennis1 mall1 billiards1 archery1 football1 and musical instruments4 ,i was told that some of these are beyond their strength1 that the child's senses are not sufficiently developed for others4 ,these do not strike me as valid reasons2 a child is not as tall as a man1 but he wears the same sort of coat2 ,i do not want him to play with our cues at a billiard-table three feet high2 ,i do not want him knocking about among our games1 nor carrying one of our racquets in his little hand2 but let him play in a room whose windows have been protected2 at first let him only use soft balls1 let his first racquets be of wood1 then of parchment1 and lastly of gut1 according to his progress4 ,you prefer the kite because it is less tiring and there is no danger4 ,you are doubly wrong4 ,kite-flying is a sport for women1 but every woman will run away from a swift ball4 ,their white skins were not meant to be hardened by blows and their faces were not made for bruises4 ,but we men are made for strength2 do you think we can attain it without hardship1 and what defence shall we be able to make if we are attacked8 ,people always play carelessly in games where there is no danger4 ,a falling kite hurts nobody1 but nothing makes the arm so supple as protecting the head1 nothing makes the sight so accurate as having to guard the eye4 ,to dash from one end of the room to another1 to judge the rebound of a ball before it touches the ground1 to return it with strength and accuracy1 such games are not so much sports fit for a man1 as sports fit to make a man of him4 ,the child's limbs1 you say1 are too tender4 ,they are not so strong as those of a man1 but they are more supple4 ,his arm is weak1 still it is an arm1 and it should be used with due consideration as we use other tools4 ,children have no skill in the use of their hands4 ,that is just why ,i want them to acquire skill2 a man with as little practice would be just as clumsy4 ,we can only learn the use of our limbs by using them4 ,it is only by long experience that we learn to make the best of ourselves1 and this experience is the real object of study to which we cannot apply ourselves too early4 ,what is done can be done4 ,now there is nothing commoner than to find nimble and skilful children whose limbs are as active as those of a man4 ,they may be seen at any fair1 swinging1 walking on their hands1 jumping1 dancing on the tight rope4 ,for many years past1 troops of children have attracted spectators to the ballets at the ,italian ,comedy ,house4 ,who is there in ,germany and ,italy who has not heard of the famous pantomime company of ,nicolini8 ,has it ever occurred to any one that the movements of these children were less finished1 their postures less graceful1 their ears less true1 their dancing more clumsy than those of grown-up dancers8 ,if at first the fingers are thick1 short1 and awkward1 the dimpled hands unable to grasp anything1 does this prevent many children from learning to read and write at an age when others cannot even hold a pen or pencil8 ,all ,paris still recalls the little ,english girl of ten who did wonders on the harpsichord4 ,i once saw a little fellow of eight1 the son of a magistrate1 who was set like a statuette on the table among the dishes1 to play on a fiddle almost as big as himself1 and even artists were surprised at his execution4 ,to my mind1 these and many more examples prove that the supposed incapacity of children for our games is imaginary1 and that if they are unsuccessful in some of them1 it is for want of practice4 ,you will tell me that with regard to the body ,i am falling into the same mistake of precocious development which ,i found fault with for the mind4 ,the cases are very different3 in the one1 progress is apparent only2 in the other it is real4 ,i have shown that children have not the mental development they appear to have1 while they really do what they seem to do4 ,besides1 we must never forget that all this should be play1 the easy and voluntary control of the movements which nature demands of them1 the art of varying their games to make them pleasanter1 without the least bit of constraint to transform them into work2 for what games do they play in which ,i cannot find material for instruction for them8 ,and even if ,i could not do so1 so long as they are amusing themselves harmlessly and passing the time pleasantly1 their progress in learning is not yet of such great importance4 ,but if one must be teaching them this or that at every opportunity1 it cannot be done without constraint1 vexation1 or tedium4 ,what ,i have said about the use of the two senses whose use is most constant and most important1 may serve as an example of how to train the rest4 ,sight and touch are applied to bodies at rest and bodies in motion1 but as hearing is only affected by vibrations of the air1 only a body in motion can make a noise or sound2 if everything were at rest we should never hear4 ,at night1 when we ourselves only move as we choose1 we have nothing to fear but moving bodies2 hence we need a quick ear1 and power to judge from the sensations experienced whether the body which causes them is large or small1 far off or near1 whether its movements are gentle or violent4 ,when once the air is set in motion1 it is subject to repercussions which produce echoes1 these renew the sensations and make us hear a loud or penetrating sound in another quarter4 ,if you put your ear to the ground you may hear the sound of men's voices or horses' feet in a plain or valley much further off than when you stand upright4 ,as we have made a comparison between sight and touch1 it will be as well to do the same for hearing1 and to find out which of the two impressions starting simultaneously from a given body first reaches the sense-organ4 ,when you see the flash of a cannon1 you have still time to take cover2 but when you hear the sound it is too late1 the ball is close to you4 ,one can reckon the distance of a thunderstorm by the interval between the lightning and the thunder4 ,let the child learn all these facts1 let him learn those that are within his reach by experiment1 and discover the rest by induction2 but ,i would far rather he knew nothing at all about them1 than that you should tell him4 ,in the voice we have an organ answering to hearing2 we have no such organ answering to sight1 and we do not repeat colours as we repeat sounds4 ,this supplies an additional means of cultivating the ear by practising the active and passive organs one with the other4 ,man has three kinds of voice1 the speaking or articulate voice1 the singing or melodious voice1 and the pathetic or expressive voice1 which serves as the language of the passions1 and gives life to song and speech4 ,the child has these three voices1 just as the man has them1 but he does not know how to use them in combination4 ,like us1 he laughs1 cries1 laments1 shrieks1 and groans1 but he does not know how to combine these inflexions with speech or song4 ,these three voices find their best expression in perfect music4 ,children are incapable of such music1 and their singing lacks feeling4 ,in the same way their spoken language lacks expression2 they shout1 but they do not speak with emphasis1 and there is as little power in their voice as there is emphasis in their speech4 ,our pupil's speech will be plainer and simpler still1 for his passions are still asleep1 and will not blend their tones with his4 ,do not1 therefore1 set him to recite tragedy or comedy1 nor try to teach declamation so-called4 ,he will have too much sense to give voice to things he cannot understand1 or expression to feelings he has never known4 ,teach him to speak plainly and distinctly1 to articulate clearly1 to pronounce correctly and without affectation1 to perceive and imitate the right accent in prose and verse1 and always to speak loud enough to be heard1 but without speaking too loud--a common fault with school-children4 ,let there be no waste in anything4 ,the same method applies to singing2 make his voice smooth and true1 flexible and full1 his ear alive to time and tune1 but nothing more4 ,descriptive and theatrical music is not suitable at his age----,i would rather he sang no words2 if he must have words1 ,i would try to compose songs on purpose for him1 songs interesting to a child1 and as simple as his own thoughts4 ,you may perhaps suppose that as ,i am in no hurry to teach ,emile to read and write1 ,i shall not want to teach him to read music4 ,let us spare his brain the strain of excessive attention1 and let us be in no hurry to turn his mind towards conventional signs4 ,i grant you there seems to be a difficulty here1 for if at first sight the knowledge of notes seems no more necessary for singing than the knowledge of letters for speaking1 there is really this difference between them3 ,when we speak1 we are expressing our own thoughts2 when we sing we are expressing the thoughts of others4 ,now in order to express them we must read them4 ,but at first we can listen to them instead of reading them1 and a song is better learnt by ear than by eye4 ,moreover1 to learn music thoroughly we must make songs as well as sing them1 and the two processes must be studied together1 or we shall never have any real knowledge of music4 ,first give your young musician practice in very regular1 well-cadenced phrases2 then let him connect these phrases with the very simplest modulations2 then show him their relation one to another by correct accent1 which can be done by a fit choice of cadences and rests4 ,on no account give him anything unusual1 or anything that requires pathos or expression4 ,a simple1 tuneful air1 always based on the common chords of the key1 with its bass so clearly indicated that it is easily felt and accompanied1 for to train his voice and ear he should always sing with the harpsichord4 ,we articulate the notes we sing the better to distinguish them2 hence the custom of sol-faing with certain syllables4 ,to tell the keys one from another they must have names and fixed intervals2 hence the names of the intervals1 and also the letters of the alphabet attached to the keys of the clavier and the notes of the scale4 ,c and ,a indicate fixed sounds1 invariable and always rendered by the same keys2 ,ut and ,la are different4 ,ut is always the dominant of a major scale1 or the leading-note of a minor scale4 ,la is always the dominant of a minor scale or the sixth of a major scale4 ,thus the letters indicate fixed terms in our system of music1 and the syllables indicate terms homologous to the similar relations in different keys4 ,the letters show the keys on the piano1 and the syllables the degrees in the scale4 ,french musicians have made a strange muddle of this4 ,they have confused the meaning of the syllables with that of the letters1 and while they have unnecessarily given us two sets of symbols for the keys of the piano1 they have left none for the chords of the scales2 so that ,ut and ,c are always the same for them2 this is not and ought not to be2 if so1 what is the use of ,c8 ,their method of sol-faing is1 therefore1 extremely and needlessly difficult1 neither does it give any clear idea to the mind2 since1 by this method1 ,ut and ,me1 for example1 may mean either a major third1 a minor third1 an augmented third1 or a diminished third4 ,what a strange thing that the country which produces the finest books about music should be the very country where it is hardest to learn music6 ,let us adopt a simpler and clearer plan with our pupil2 let him have only two scales whose relations remain unchanged1 and indicated by the same symbols4 ,whether he sings or plays1 let him learn to fix his scale on one of the twelve tones which may serve as a base1 and whether he modulates in ,d1 ,c1 or ,g1 let the close be always ,ut or ,la1 according to the scale4 ,in this way he will understand what you mean1 and the essential relations for correct singing and playing will always be present in his mind2 his execution will be better and his progress quicker4 ,there is nothing funnier than what the ,french call natural sol-faing2 it consists in removing the real meaning of things and putting in their place other meanings which only distract us4 ,there is nothing more natural than sol-faing by transposition1 when the scale is transposed4 ,but ,i have said enough1 and more than enough1 about music2 teach it as you please1 so long as it is nothing but play4 ,we are now thoroughly acquainted with the condition of foreign bodies in relation to our own1 their weight1 form1 colour1 density1 size1 distance1 temperature1 stability1 or motion4 ,we have learnt which of them to approach or avoid1 how to set about overcoming their resistance or to resist them so as to prevent ourselves from injury2 but this is not enough4 ,our own body is constantly wasting and as constantly requires to be renewed4 ,although we have the power of changing other substances into our own1 our choice is not a matter of indifference4 ,everything is not food for man1 and what may be food for him is not all equally suitable2 it depends on his racial constitution1 the country he lives in1 his individual temperament1 and the way of living which his condition demands4 ,if we had to wait till experience taught us to know and choose fit food for ourselves1 we should die of hunger or poison2 but a kindly providence which has made pleasure the means of self-preservation to sentient beings teaches us through our palate what is suitable for our stomach4 ,in a state of nature there is no better doctor than a man's own appetite1 and no doubt in a state of nature man could find the most palateable food the most wholesome4 ,nor is this all4 ,our ,maker provides1 not only for those needs he has created1 but for those we create for ourselves2 and it is to keep the balance between our wants and our needs that he has caused our tastes to change and vary with our way of living4 ,the further we are from a state of nature1 the more we lose our natural tastes2 or rather1 habit becomes a second nature1 and so completely replaces our real nature1 that we have lost all knowledge of it4 ,from this it follows that the most natural tastes should be the simplest1 for those are more easily changed2 but when they are sharpened and stimulated by our fancies they assume a form which is incapable of modification4 ,the man who so far has not adapted himself to one country can learn the ways of any country whatsoever2 but the man who has adopted the habits of one particular country can never shake them off4 ,this seems to be true of all our senses1 especially of taste4 ,our first food is milk2 we only become accustomed by degrees to strong flavours2 at first we dislike them4 ,fruit1 vegetables1 herbs1 and then fried meat without salt or seasoning1 formed the feasts of primitive man4 ,when the savage tastes wine for the first time1 he makes a grimace and spits it out2 and even among ourselves a man who has not tasted fermented liquors before twenty cannot get used to them2 we should all be sober if we did not have wine when we were children4 ,indeed1 the simpler our tastes are1 the more general they are2 made dishes are those most frequently disliked4 ,did you ever meet with any one who disliked bread or water8 ,here is the finger of nature1 this then is our rule4 ,preserve the child's primitive tastes as long as possible2 let his food be plain and simple1 let strong flavours be unknown to his palate1 and do not let his diet be too uniform4 ,i am not asking1 for the present1 whether this way of living is healthier or no2 that is not what ,i have in view4 ,it is enough for me to know that my choice is more in accordance with nature1 and that it can be more readily adapted to other conditions4 ,in my opinion1 those who say children should be accustomed to the food they will have when they are grown up are mistaken4 ,why should their food be the same when their way of living is so different8 ,a man worn out by labour1 anxiety1 and pain needs tasty foods to give fresh vigour to his brain2 a child fresh from his games1 a child whose body is growing1 needs plentiful food which will supply more chyle4 ,moreover the grown man has already a settled profession1 occupation1 and home1 but who can tell what ,fate holds in store for the child8 ,let us not give him so fixed a bent in any direction that he cannot change it if required without hardship4 ,do not bring him up so that he would die of hunger in a foreign land if he does not take a ,french cook about with him2 do not let him say at some future time that ,france is the only country where the food is fit to eat4 ,by the way1 that is a strange way of praising one's country4 ,on the other hand1 ,i myself should say that the ,french are the only people who do not know what good food is1 since they require such a special art to make their dishes eatable4 ,of all our different senses1 we are usually most affected by taste4 ,thus it concerns us more nearly to judge aright of what will actually become part of ourselves1 than of that which will merely form part of our environment4 ,many things are matters of indifference to touch1 hearing1 and sight2 but taste is affected by almost everything4 ,moreover the activity of this sense is wholly physical and material2 of all the senses1 it alone makes no appeal to the imagination1 or at least1 imagination plays a smaller part in its sensations2 while imitation and imagination often bring morality into the impressions of the other senses4 ,thus1 speaking generally1 soft and pleasure-loving minds1 passionate and truly sensitive dispositions1 which are easily stirred by the other senses1 are usually indifferent to this4 ,from this very fact1 which apparently places taste below our other senses and makes our inclination towards it the more despicable1 ,i draw just the opposite conclusion--that the best way to lead children is by the mouth4 ,greediness is a better motive than vanity2 for the former is a natural appetite directly dependent on the senses1 while the latter is the outcome of convention1 it is the slave of human caprice and liable to every kind of abuse4 ,believe me the child will cease to care about his food only too soon1 and when his heart is too busy1 his palate will be idle4 ,when he is grown up greediness will be expelled by a host of stronger passions1 while vanity will only be stimulated by them2 for this latter passion feeds upon the rest till at length they are all swallowed up in it4 ,i have sometimes studied those men who pay great attention to good eating1 men whose first waking thought is--,what shall we have to eat to-day8 men who describe their dinner with as much detail as ,polybius describes a combat4 ,i have found these so-called men were only children of forty1 without strength or vigour--fruges consumere nati4 ,gluttony is the vice of feeble minds4 ,the gourmand has his brains in his palate1 he can do nothing but eat2 he is so stupid and incapable that the table is the only place for him1 and dishes are the only things he knows anything about4 ,let us leave him to this business without regret2 it is better for him and for us4 ,it is a small mind that fears lest greediness should take root in the child who is fit for something better4 ,the child thinks of nothing but his food1 the youth pays no heed to it at all2 every kind of food is good1 and we have other things to attend to4 ,yet ,i would not have you use the low motive unwisely4 ,i would not have you trust to dainties rather than to the honour which is the reward of a good deed4 ,but childhood is1 or ought to be1 a time of play and merry sports1 and ,i do not see why the rewards of purely bodily exercises should not be material and sensible rewards4 ,if a little lad in ,majorca sees a basket on the tree-top and brings it down with his sling1 is it not fair that he should get something by this1 and a good breakfast should repair the strength spent in getting it4 ,if a young ,spartan1 facing the risk of a hundred stripes1 slips skilfully into the kitchen1 and steals a live fox cub1 carries it off in his garment1 and is scratched1 bitten till the blood comes1 and for shame lest he should be caught the child allows his bowels to be torn out without a movement or a cry1 is it not fair that he should keep his spoils1 that he should eat his prey after it has eaten him8 ,a good meal should never be a reward2 but why should it not be sometimes the result of efforts made to get it4 ,emile does not consider the cake ,i put on the stone as a reward for good running2 he knows that the only way to get the cake is to get there first4 ,this does not contradict my previous rules about simple food2 for to tempt a child's appetite you need not stimulate it1 you need only satisfy it2 and the commonest things will do this if you do not attempt to refine children's taste4 ,their perpetual hunger1 the result of their need for growth1 will be the best sauce4 ,fruit1 milk1 a piece of cake just a little better than ordinary bread1 and above all the art of dispensing these things prudently1 by these means you may lead a host of children to the world's end1 without on the one hand giving them a taste for strong flavours1 nor on the other hand letting them get tired of their food4 ,the indifference of children towards meat is one proof that the taste for meat is unnatural2 their preference is for vegetable foods1 such as milk1 pastry1 fruit1 etc4 ,beware of changing this natural taste and making children flesh-eaters1 if not for their health's sake1 for the sake of their character2 for how can one explain away the fact that great meat-eaters are usually fiercer and more cruel than other men2 this has been recognised at all times and in all places4 ,the ,english are noted for their cruelty ,footnote3 ,i am aware that the ,english make a boast of their humanity and of the kindly disposition of their race1 which they call good-natured people2 but in vain do they proclaim this fact2 no one else says it of them4 while the ,gaures are the gentlest of men4 ,footnote3 ,the ,banians1 who abstain from flesh even more completely than the ,gaures1 are almost as gentle as the ,gaures themselves1 but as their morality is less pure and their form of worship less reasonable they are not such good men4 ,all savages are cruel1 and it is not their customs that tend in this direction2 their cruelty is the result of their food4 ,they go to war as to the chase1 and treat men as they would treat bears4 ,indeed in ,england butchers are not allowed to give evidence in a court of law1 no more can surgeons4 ,footnote3 ,one of the ,english translators of my book has pointed out my mistake1 and both of them have corrected it4 ,butchers and surgeons are allowed to give evidence in the law courts1 but butchers may not serve on juries in criminal cases1 though surgeons are allowed to do so4 ,great criminals prepare themselves for murder by drinking blood4 ,homer makes his flesh-eating ,cyclops a terrible man1 while his ,lotus-eaters are so delightful that those who went to trade with them forgot even their own country to dwell among them4 ,you ask me1 said ,plutarch1 why ,pythagoras abstained from eating the flesh of beasts1 but ,i ask you1 what courage must have been needed by the first man who raised to his lips the flesh of the slain1 who broke with his teeth the bones of a dying beast1 who had dead bodies1 corpses1 placed before him and swallowed down limbs which a few moments ago were bleating1 bellowing1 walking1 and seeing8 ,how could his hand plunge the knife into the heart of a sentient creature1 how could his eyes look on murder1 how could he behold a poor helpless animal bled to death1 scorched1 and dismembered8 how can he bear the sight of this quivering flesh8 does not the very smell of it turn his stomach8 is he not repelled1 disgusted1 horror-struck1 when he has to handle the blood from these wounds1 and to cleanse his fingers from the dark and viscous bloodstains8 ,the scorched skins wriggled upon the ground1 ,the shrinking flesh bellowed upon the spit4 ,man cannot eat them without a shudder2 ,he seems to hear their cries within his breast4 ,thus must he have felt the first time he did despite to nature and made this horrible meal2 the first time he hungered for the living creature1 and desired to feed upon the beast which was still grazing2 when he bade them slay1 dismember1 and cut up the sheep which licked his hands4 ,it is those who began these cruel feasts1 not those who abandon them1 who should cause surprise1 and there were excuses for those primitive men1 excuses which we have not1 and the absence of such excuses multiplies our barbarity a hundredfold4 ',mortals1 beloved of the gods1' says this primitive man1 'compare our times with yours2 see how happy you are1 and how wretched were we4 ,the earth1 newly formed1 the air heavy with moisture1 were not yet subjected to the rule of the seasons4 ,three-fourths of the surface of the globe was flooded by the ever-shifting channels of rivers uncertain of their course1 and covered with pools1 lakes1 and bottomless morasses4 ,the remaining quarter was covered with woods and barren forests4 ,the earth yielded no good fruit1 we had no instruments of tillage1 we did not even know the use of them1 and the time of harvest never came for those who had sown nothing4 ,thus hunger was always in our midst4 ,in winter1 mosses and the bark of trees were our common food4 ,a few green roots of dogs-bit or heather were a feast1 and when men found beech-mast1 nuts1 or acorns1 they danced for joy round the beech or oak1 to the sound of some rude song1 while they called the earth their mother and their nurse4 ,this was their only festival1 their only sport2 all the rest of man's life was spent in sorrow1 pain1 and hunger4 ',at length1 when the bare and naked earth no longer offered us any food1 we were compelled in self-defence to outrage nature1 and to feed upon our companions in distress1 rather than perish with them4 ,but you1 oh1 cruel men6 who forces you to shed blood8 ,behold the wealth of good things about you1 the fruits yielded by the earth1 the wealth of field and vineyard2 the animals give their milk for your drink and their fleece for your clothing4 ,what more do you ask8 ,what madness compels you to commit such murders1 when you have already more than you can eat or drink8 ,why do you slander our mother earth1 and accuse her of denying you food8 ,why do you sin against ,ceres1 the inventor of the sacred laws1 and against the gracious ,bacchus1 the comforter of man1 as if their lavish gifts were not enough to preserve mankind8 ,have you the heart to mingle their sweet fruits with the bones upon your table1 to eat with the milk the blood of the beasts which gave it8 ,the lions and panthers1 wild beasts as you call them1 are driven to follow their natural instinct1 and they kill other beasts that they may live4 ,but1 a hundredfold fiercer than they1 you fight against your instincts without cause1 and abandon yourselves to the most cruel pleasures4 ,the animals you eat are not those who devour others2 you do not eat the carnivorous beasts1 you take them as your pattern4 ,you only hunger for the sweet and gentle creatures which harm no one1 which follow you1 serve you1 and are devoured by you as the reward of their service4 ',o unnatural murderer6 if you persist in the assertion that nature has made you to devour your fellow-creatures1 beings of flesh and blood1 living and feeling like yourself1 stifle if you can that horror with which nature makes you regard these horrible feasts2 slay the animals yourself1 slay them1 ,i say1 with your own hands1 without knife or mallet2 tear them with your nails like the lion and the bear1 take this ox and rend him in pieces1 plunge your claws into his hide2 eat this lamb while it is yet alive1 devour its warm flesh1 drink its soul with its blood4 ,you shudder6 you dare not feel the living throbbing flesh between your teeth8 ,ruthless man2 you begin by slaying the animal and then you devour it1 as if to slay it twice4 ,it is not enough4 ,you turn against the dead flesh1 it revolts you1 it must be transformed by fire1 boiled and roasted1 seasoned and disguised with drugs2 you must have butchers1 cooks1 turnspits1 men who will rid the murder of its horrors1 who will dress the dead bodies so that the taste deceived by these disguises will not reject what is strange to it1 and will feast on corpses1 the very sight of which would sicken you4' ,although this quotation is irrelevant1 ,i cannot resist the temptation to transcribe it1 and ,i think few of my readers will resent it4 ,in conclusion1 whatever food you give your children1 provided you accustom them to nothing but plain and simple dishes1 let them eat and run and play as much as they want2 you may be sure they will never eat too much and will never have indigestion2 but if you keep them hungry half their time1 when they do contrive to evade your vigilance1 they will take advantage of it as far as they can2 they will eat till they are sick1 they will gorge themselves till they can eat no more4 ,our appetite is only excessive because we try to impose on it rules other than those of nature1 opposing1 controlling1 prescribing1 adding1 or substracting2 the scales are always in our hands1 but the scales are the measure of our caprices not of our stomachs4 ,i return to my usual illustration2 among peasants the cupboard and the apple-loft are always left open1 and indigestion is unknown alike to children and grown-up people4 ,if1 however1 it happened that a child were too great an eater1 though1 under my system1 ,i think it is impossible1 he is so easily distracted by his favourite games that one might easily starve him without his knowing it4 ,how is it that teachers have failed to use such a safe and easy weapon4 ,herodotus records that the ,lydians1 ,footnote3 ,the ancient historians are full of opinions which may be useful1 even if the facts which they present are false4 ,but we do not know how to make any real use of history4 ,criticism and erudition are our only care2 as if it mattered more that a statement were true or false than that we should be able to get a useful lesson from it4 ,a wise man should consider history a tissue of fables whose morals are well adapted to the human heart4 under the pressure of great scarcity1 decided to invent sports and other amusements with which to cheat their hunger1 and they passed whole days without thought of food4 ,your learned teachers may have read this passage time after time without seeing how it might be applied to children4 ,one of these teachers will probably tell me that a child does not like to leave his dinner for his lessons4 ,you are right1 sir--,i was not thinking of that sort of sport4 ,the sense of smell is to taste what sight is to touch2 it goes before it and gives it warning that it will be affected by this or that substance2 and it inclines it to seek or shun this experience according to the impressions received beforehand4 ,i have been told that savages receive impressions quite different from ours1 and that they have quite different ideas with regard to pleasant or unpleasant odours4 ,i can well believe it4 ,odours alone are slight sensations2 they affect the imagination rather than the senses1 and they work mainly through the anticipations they arouse4 ,this being so1 and the tastes of savages being so unlike the taste of civilised men1 they should lead them to form very different ideas with regard to flavours and therefore with regard to the odours which announce them4 ,a ,tartar must enjoy the smell of a haunch of putrid horseflesh1 much as a sportsman enjoys a very high partridge4 ,our idle sensations1 such as the scents wafted from the flower beds1 must pass unnoticed among men who walk too much to care for strolling in a garden1 and do not work enough to find pleasure in repose4 ,hungry men would find little pleasure in scents which did not proclaim the approach of food4 ,smell is the sense of the imagination2 as it gives tone to the nerves it must have a great effect on the brain2 that is why it revives us for the time1 but eventually causes exhaustion4 ,its effects on love are pretty generally recognised4 ,the sweet perfumes of a dressing-room are not so slight a snare as you may fancy them1 and ,i hardly know whether to congratulate or condole with that wise and somewhat insensible person whose senses are never stirred by the scent of the flowers his mistress wears in her bosom4 ,hence the sense of smell should not be over-active in early childhood2 the imagination1 as yet unstirred by changing passions1 is scarcely susceptible of emotion1 and we have not enough experience to discern beforehand from one sense the promise of another4 ,this view is confirmed by observation1 and it is certain that the sense of smell is dull and almost blunted in most children4 ,not that their sensations are less acute than those of grown-up people1 but that there is no idea associated with them2 they do not easily experience pleasure or pain1 and are not flattered or hurt as we are4 ,without going beyond my system1 and without recourse to comparative anatomy1 ,i think we can easily see why women are generally fonder of perfumes than men4 ,it is said that from early childhood the ,redskins of ,canada1 train their sense of smell to such a degree of subtlety that1 although they have dogs1 they do not condescend to use them in hunting--they are their own dogs4 ,indeed ,i believe that if children were trained to scent their dinner as a dog scents game1 their sense of smell might be nearly as perfect2 but ,i see no very real advantage to be derived from this sense1 except by teaching the child to observe the relation between smell and taste4 ,nature has taken care to compel us to learn these relations4 ,she has made the exercise of the latter sense practically inseparable from that of the former1 by placing their organs close together1 and by providing1 in the mouth1 a direct pathway between them1 so that we taste nothing without smelling it too4 ,only ,i would not have these natural relations disturbed in order to deceive the child1 e4g42 to conceal the taste of medicine with an aromatic odour1 for the discord between the senses is too great for deception1 the more active sense overpowers the other1 the medicine is just as distasteful1 and this disagreeable association extends to every sensation experienced at the time2 so the slightest of these sensations recalls the rest to his imagination and a very pleasant perfume is for him only a nasty smell2 thus our foolish precautions increase the sum total of his unpleasant sensations at the cost of his pleasant sensations4 ,in the following books ,i have still to speak of the training of a sort of sixth sense1 called common-sense1 not so much because it is common to all men1 but because it results from the well-regulated use of the other five1 and teaches the nature of things by the sum-total of their external aspects4 ,so this sixth sense has no special organ1 it has its seat in the brain1 and its sensations which are purely internal are called percepts or ideas4 ,the number of these ideas is the measure of our knowledge2 exactness of thought depends on their clearness and precision2 the art of comparing them one with another is called human reason4 ,thus what ,i call the reasoning of the senses1 or the reasoning of the child1 consists in the formation of simple ideas through the associated experience of several sensations2 what ,i call the reasoning of the intellect1 consists in the formation1 of complex ideas through the association of several simple ideas4 ,if my method is indeed that of nature1 and if ,i am not mistaken in the application of that method1 we have led our pupil through the region of sensation to the bounds of the child's reasoning2 the first step we take beyond these bounds must be the step of a man4 ,but before we make this fresh advance1 let us glance back for a moment at the path we have hitherto followed4 ,every age1 every station in life1 has a perfection1 a ripeness1 of its own4 ,we have often heard the phrase a grown man2 but we will consider a grown child4 ,this will be a new experience and none the less pleasing4 ,the life of finite creatures is so poor and narrow that the mere sight of what is arouses no emotion4 ,it is fancy which decks reality1 and if imagination does not lend its charm to that which touches our senses1 our barren pleasure is confined to the senses alone1 while the heart remains cold4 ,the earth adorned with the treasures of autumn displays a wealth of colour which the eye admires2 but this admiration fails to move us1 it springs rather from thought than from feeling4 ,in spring the country is almost bare and leafless1 the trees give no shade1 the grass has hardly begun to grow1 yet the heart is touched by the sight4 ,in this new birth of nature1 we feel the revival of our own life2 the memories of past pleasures surround us2 tears of delight1 those companions of pleasure ever ready to accompany a pleasing sentiment1 tremble on our eyelids4 ,animated1 lively1 and delightful though the vintage may be1 we behold it without a tear4 ,and why is this8 ,because imagination adds to the sight of spring the image of the seasons which are yet to come2 the eye sees the tender shoot1 the mind's eye beholds its flowers1 fruit1 and foliage1 and even the mysteries they may conceal4 ,it blends successive stages into one moment's experience2 we see things1 not so much as they will be1 but as we would have them be1 for imagination has only to take her choice4 ,in autumn1 on the other hand1 we only behold the present2 if we wish to look forward to spring1 winter bars the way1 and our shivering imagination dies away among its frost and snow4 ,this is the source of the charm we find in beholding the beauties of childhood1 rather than the perfection of manhood4 ,when do we really delight in beholding a man8 ,when the memory of his deeds leads us to look back over his life and his youth is renewed in our eyes4 ,if we are reduced to viewing him as he is1 or to picturing him as he will be in old age1 the thought of declining years destroys all our pleasure4 ,there is no pleasure in seeing a man hastening to his grave2 the image of death makes all hideous4 ,but when ,i think of a child of ten or twelve1 strong1 healthy1 well-grown for his age1 only pleasant thoughts are called up1 whether of the present or the future4 ,i see him keen1 eager1 and full of life1 free from gnawing cares and painful forebodings1 absorbed in this present state1 and delighting in a fullness of life which seems to extend beyond himself4 ,i look forward to a time when he will use his daily increasing sense1 intelligence and vigour1 those growing powers of which he continually gives fresh proof4 ,i watch the child with delight1 ,i picture to myself the man with even greater pleasure4 ,his eager life seems to stir my own pulses1 ,i seem to live his life and in his vigour ,i renew my own4 ,the hour strikes1 the scene is changed4 ,all of a sudden his eye grows dim1 his mirth has fled4 ,farewell mirth1 farewell untrammelled sports in which he delighted4 ,a stern1 angry man takes him by the hand1 saying gravely1 ,come with me1 sir1 and he is led away4 ,as they are entering the room1 ,i catch a glimpse of books4 ,books1 what dull food for a child of his age6 ,the poor child allows himself to be dragged away2 he casts a sorrowful look on all about him1 and departs in silence1 his eyes swollen with the tears he dare not shed1 and his heart bursting with the sighs he dare not utter4 ,you who have no such cause for fear1 you for whom no period of life is a time of weariness and tedium1 you who welcome days without care and nights without impatience1 you who only reckon time by your pleasures1 come1 my happy kindly pupil1 and console us for the departure of that miserable creature4 ,come6 ,here he is and at his approach ,i feel a thrill of delight which ,i see he shares4 ,it is his friend1 his comrade1 who meets him2 when he sees me he knows very well that he will not be long without amusement2 we are never dependent on each other1 but we are always on good terms1 and we are never so happy as when together4 ,his face1 his bearing1 his expression1 speak of confidence and contentment2 health shines in his countenance1 his firm step speaks of strength2 his colour1 delicate but not sickly1 has nothing of softness or effeminacy4 ,sun and wind have already set the honourable stamp of manhood on his countenance2 his rounded muscles already begin to show some signs of growing individuality2 his eyes1 as yet unlighted by the flame of feeling1 have at least all their native calm2 ,they have not been darkened by prolonged sorrow1 nor are his cheeks furrowed by ceaseless tears4 ,behold in his quick and certain movements the natural vigour of his age and the confidence of independence4 ,his manner is free and open1 but without a trace of insolence or vanity2 his head which has not been bent over books does not fall upon his breast2 there is no need to say1 ,hold your head up1 he will neither hang his head for shame or fear4 ,make room for him1 gentlemen1 in your midst2 question him boldly2 have no fear of importunity1 chatter1 or impertinent questions4 ,you need not be afraid that he will take possession of you and expect you to devote yourself entirely to him1 so that you cannot get rid of him4 ,neither need you look for compliments from him2 nor will he tell you what ,i have taught him to say2 expect nothing from him but the plain1 simple truth1 without addition or ornament and without vanity4 ,he will tell you the wrong things he has done and thought as readily as the right1 without troubling himself in the least as to the effect of his words upon you2 he will use speech with all the simplicity of its first beginnings4 ,we love to augur well of our children1 and we are continually regretting the flood of folly which overwhelms the hopes we would fain have rested on some chance phrase4 ,if my scholar rarely gives me cause for such prophecies1 neither will he give me cause for such regrets1 for he never says a useless word1 and does not exhaust himself by chattering when he knows there is no one to listen to him4 ,his ideas are few but precise1 he knows nothing by rote but much by experience4 ,if he reads our books worse than other children1 he reads far better in the book of nature2 his thoughts are not in his tongue but in his brain2 he has less memory and more judgment2 he can only speak one language1 but he understands what he is saying1 and if his speech is not so good as that of other children his deeds are better4 ,he does not know the meaning of habit1 routine1 and custom2 what he did yesterday has no control over what he is doing to-day2 he follows no rule1 submits to no authority1 copies no pattern1 and only acts or speaks as he pleases4 ,so do not expect set speeches or studied manners from him1 but just the faithful expression of his thoughts and the conduct that springs from his inclinations4 ,footnote3 ,habit owes its charm to man's natural idleness1 and this idleness grows upon us if indulged2 it is easier to do what we have already done1 there is a beaten path which is easily followed4 ,thus we may observe that habit is very strong in the aged and in the indolent1 and very weak in the young and active4 ,the rule of habit is only good for feeble hearts1 and it makes them more and more feeble day by day4 ,the only useful habit for children is to be accustomed to submit without difficulty to necessity1 and the only useful habit for man is to submit without difficulty to the rule of reason4 ,every other habit is a vice4 ,you will find he has a few moral ideas concerning his present state and none concerning manhood2 what use could he make of them1 for the child is not1 as yet1 an active member of society4 ,speak to him of freedom1 of property1 or even of what is usually done2 he may understand you so far2 he knows why his things are his own1 and why other things are not his1 and nothing more4 ,speak to him of duty or obedience2 he will not know what you are talking about2 bid him do something and he will pay no attention2 but say to him1 ,if you will give me this pleasure1 ,i will repay it when required1 and he will hasten to give you satisfaction1 for he asks nothing better than to extend his domain1 to acquire rights over you1 which will1 he knows1 be respected4 ,maybe he is not sorry to have a place of his own1 to be reckoned of some account2 but if he has formed this latter idea1 he has already left the realms of nature1 and you have failed to bar the gates of vanity4 ,for his own part1 should he need help1 he will ask it readily of the first person he meets4 ,he will ask it of a king as readily as of his servant2 all men are equals in his eyes4 ,from his way of asking you will see he knows you owe him nothing1 that he is asking a favour4 ,he knows too that humanity moves you to grant this favour2 his words are few and simple4 ,his voice1 his look1 his gesture are those of a being equally familiar with compliance and refusal4 ,it is neither the crawling1 servile submission of the slave1 nor the imperious tone of the master1 it is a modest confidence in mankind2 it is the noble and touching gentleness of a creature1 free1 yet sensitive and feeble1 who asks aid of a being1 free1 but strong and kindly4 ,if you grant his request he will not thank you1 but he will feel he has incurred a debt4 ,if you refuse he will neither complain nor insist2 he knows it is useless2 he will not say1 ,they refused to help me1 but ,it was impossible1 and as ,i have already said1 we do not rebel against necessity when once we have perceived it4 ,leave him to himself and watch his actions without speaking1 consider what he is doing and how he sets about it4 ,he does not require to convince himself that he is free1 so he never acts thoughtlessly and merely to show that he can do what he likes2 does he not know that he is always his own master8 ,he is quick1 alert1 and ready2 his movements are eager as befits his age1 but you will not find one which has no end in view4 ,whatever he wants1 he will never attempt what is beyond his powers1 for he has learnt by experience what those powers are2 his means will always be adapted to the end in view1 and he will rarely attempt anything without the certainty of success2 his eye is keen and true2 he will not be so stupid as to go and ask other people about what he sees2 he will examine it on his own account1 and before he asks he will try every means at his disposal to discover what he wants to know for himself4 ,if he lights upon some unexpected difficulty1 he will be less upset than others2 if there is danger he will be less afraid4 ,his imagination is still asleep and nothing has been done to arouse it2 he only sees what is really there1 and rates the danger at its true worth2 so he never loses his head4 ,he does not rebel against necessity1 her hand is too heavy upon him2 he has borne her yoke all his life long1 he is well used to it2 he is always ready for anything4 ,work or play are all one to him1 his games are his work2 he knows no difference4 ,he brings to everything the cheerfulness of interest1 the charm of freedom1 and he shows the bent of his own mind and the extent of his knowledge4 ,is there anything better worth seeing1 anything more touching or more delightful1 than a pretty child1 with merry1 cheerful glance1 easy contented manner1 open smiling countenance1 playing at the most important things1 or working at the lightest amusements8 ,would you now judge him by comparison8 ,set him among other children and leave him to himself4 ,you will soon see which has made most progress1 which comes nearer to the perfection of childhood4 ,among all the children in the town there is none more skilful and none so strong4 ,among young peasants he is their equal in strength and their superior in skill4 ,in everything within a child's grasp he judges1 reasons1 and shows a forethought beyond the rest4 ,is it a matter of action1 running1 jumping1 or shifting things1 raising weights or estimating distance1 inventing games1 carrying off prizes2 you might say1 ,nature obeys his word1 so easily does he bend all things to his will4 ,he is made to lead1 to rule his fellows2 talent and experience take the place of right and authority4 ,in any garb1 under any name1 he will still be first2 everywhere he will rule the rest1 they will always feel his superiority1 he will be master without knowing it1 and they will serve him unawares4 ,he has reached the perfection of childhood2 he has lived the life of a child2 his progress has not been bought at the price of his happiness1 he has gained both4 ,while he has acquired all the wisdom of a child1 he has been as free and happy as his health permits4 ,if the ,reaper ,death should cut him off and rob us of our hopes1 we need not bewail alike his life and death1 we shall not have the added grief of knowing that we caused him pain2 we will say1 ,his childhood1 at least1 was happy2 we have robbed him of nothing that nature gave him4 ,the chief drawback to this early education is that it is only appreciated by the wise2 to vulgar eyes the child so carefully educated is nothing but a rough little boy4 ,a tutor thinks rather of the advantage to himself than to his pupil2 he makes a point of showing that there has been no time wasted2 he provides his pupil with goods which can be readily displayed in the shop window1 accomplishments which can be shown off at will2 no matter whether they are useful1 provided they are easily seen4 ,without choice or discrimination he loads his memory with a pack of rubbish4 ,if the child is to be examined he is set to display his wares2 he spreads them out1 satisfies those who behold them1 packs up his bundle and goes his way4 ,my pupil is poorer1 he has no bundle to display1 he has only himself to show4 ,now neither child nor man can be read at a glance4 ,where are the observers who can at once discern the characteristics of this child8 ,there are such people1 but they are few and far between2 among a thousand fathers you will scarcely find one4 ,too many questions are tedious and revolting to most of us and especially to children4 ,after a few minutes their attention flags1 they cease to listen to your everlasting questions and reply at random4 ,this way of testing them is pedantic and useless2 a chance word will often show their sense and intelligence better than much talking1 but take care that the answer is neither a matter of chance nor yet learnt by heart4 ,a man must needs have a good judgment if he is to estimate the judgment of a child4 ,i heard the late ,lord ,hyde tell the following story about one of his friends4 ,he had returned from ,italy after a three years' absence1 and was anxious to test the progress of his son1 a child of nine or ten4 ,one evening he took a walk with the child and his tutor across a level space where the schoolboys were flying their kites4 ,as they went1 the father said to his son1 ,where is the kite that casts this shadow8 ,without hesitating and without glancing upwards the child replied1 ,over the high road4 ,and indeed1 said ,lord ,hyde1 the high road was between us and the sun4 ,at these words1 the father kissed his child1 and having finished his examination he departed4 ,the next day he sent the tutor the papers settling an annuity on him in addition to his salary4 ,what a father6 and what a promising child6 ,the question is exactly adapted to the child's age1 the answer is perfectly simple2 but see what precision it implies in the child's judgment4 ,thus did the pupil of ,aristotle master the famous steed which no squire had ever been able to tame4 ,,book ,,iii ,the whole course of man's life up to adolescence is a period of weakness2 yet there comes a time during these early years when the child's strength overtakes the demands upon it1 when the growing creature1 though absolutely weak1 is relatively strong4 ,his needs are not fully developed and his present strength is more than enough for them4 ,he would be a very feeble man1 but he is a strong child4 ,what is the cause of man's weakness8 ,it is to be found in the disproportion between his strength and his desires4 ,it is our passions that make us weak1 for our natural strength is not enough for their satisfaction4 ,to limit our desires comes to the same thing1 therefore1 as to increase our strength4 ,when we can do more than we want1 we have strength enough and to spare1 we are really strong4 ,this is the third stage of childhood1 the stage with which ,i am about to deal4 ,i still speak of childhood for want of a better word2 for our scholar is approaching adolescence1 though he has not yet reached the age of puberty4 ,about twelve or thirteen the child's strength increases far more rapidly than his needs4 ,the strongest and fiercest of the passions is still unknown1 his physical development is still imperfect and seems to await the call of the will4 ,he is scarcely aware of extremes of heat and cold and braves them with impunity4 ,he needs no coat1 his blood is warm2 no spices1 hunger is his sauce1 no food comes amiss at this age2 if he is sleepy he stretches himself on the ground and goes to sleep2 he finds all he needs within his reach2 he is not tormented by any imaginary wants2 he cares nothing what others think2 his desires are not beyond his grasp2 not only is he self-sufficing1 but for the first and last time in his life he has more strength than he needs4 ,i know beforehand what you will say4 ,you will not assert that the child has more needs than ,i attribute to him1 but you will deny his strength4 ,you forget that ,i am speaking of my own pupil1 not of those puppets who walk with difficulty from one room to another1 who toil indoors and carry bundles of paper4 ,manly strength1 you say1 appears only with manhood2 the vital spirits1 distilled in their proper vessels and spreading through the whole body1 can alone make the muscles firm1 sensitive1 tense1 and springy1 can alone cause real strength4 ,this is the philosophy of the study2 ,i appeal to that of experience4 ,in the country districts1 ,i see big lads hoeing1 digging1 guiding the plough1 filling the wine-cask1 driving the cart1 like their fathers2 you would take them for grown men if their voices did not betray them4 ,even in our towns1 iron-workers'1 tool makers'1 and blacksmiths' lads are almost as strong as their masters and would be scarcely less skilful had their training begun earlier4 ,if there is a difference1 and ,i do not deny that there is1 it is1 ,i repeat1 much less than the difference between the stormy passions of the man and the few wants of the child4 ,moreover1 it is not merely a question of bodily strength1 but more especially of strength of mind1 which reinforces and directs the bodily strength4 ,this interval in which the strength of the individual is in excess of his wants is1 as ,i have said1 relatively though not absolutely the time of greatest strength4 ,it is the most precious time in his life2 it comes but once2 it is very short1 all too short1 as you will see when you consider the importance of using it aright4 ,he has1 therefore1 a surplus of strength and capacity which he will never have again4 ,what use shall he make of it8 ,he will strive to use it in tasks which will help at need4 ,he will1 so to speak1 cast his present surplus into the storehouse of the future2 the vigorous child will make provision for the feeble man2 but he will not store his goods where thieves may break in1 nor in barns which are not his own4 ,to store them aright1 they must be in the hands and the head1 they must be stored within himself4 ,this is the time for work1 instruction1 and inquiry4 ,and note that this is no arbitrary choice of mine1 it is the way of nature herself4 ,human intelligence is finite1 and not only can no man know everything1 he cannot even acquire all the scanty knowledge of others4 ,since the contrary of every false proposition is a truth1 there are as many truths as falsehoods4 ,we must1 therefore1 choose what to teach as well as when to teach it4 ,some of the information within our reach is false1 some is useless1 some merely serves to puff up its possessor4 ,the small store which really contributes to our welfare alone deserves the study of a wise man1 and therefore of a child whom one would have wise4 ,he must know not merely what is1 but what is useful4 ,from this small stock we must also deduct those truths which require a full grown mind for their understanding1 those which suppose a knowledge of man's relations to his fellow-men--a knowledge which no child can acquire2 these things1 although in themselves true1 lead an inexperienced mind into mistakes with regard to other matters4 ,we are now confined to a circle1 small indeed compared with the whole of human thought1 but this circle is still a vast sphere when measured by the child's mind4 ,dark places of the human understanding1 what rash hand shall dare to raise your veil8 ,what pitfalls does our so-called science prepare for the miserable child4 ,would you guide him along this dangerous path and draw the veil from the face of nature8 ,stay your hand4 ,first make sure that neither he nor you will become dizzy4 ,beware of the specious charms of error and the intoxicating fumes of pride4 ,keep this truth ever before you--,ignorance never did any one any harm1 error alone is fatal1 and we do not lose our way through ignorance but through self-confidence4 ,his progress in geometry may serve as a test and a true measure of the growth of his intelligence1 but as soon as he can distinguish between what is useful and what is useless1 much skill and discretion are required to lead him towards theoretical studies4 ,for example1 would you have him find a mean proportional between two lines1 contrive that he should require to find a square equal to a given rectangle2 if two mean proportionals are required1 you must first contrive to interest him in the doubling of the cube4 ,see how we are gradually approaching the moral ideas which distinguish between good and evil4 ,hitherto we have known no law but necessity1 now we are considering what is useful2 we shall soon come to what is fitting and right4 ,man's diverse powers are stirred by the same instinct4 ,the bodily activity1 which seeks an outlet for its energies1 is succeeded by the mental activity which seeks for knowledge4 ,children are first restless1 then curious2 and this curiosity1 rightly directed1 is the means of development for the age with which we are dealing4 ,always distinguish between natural and acquired tendencies4 ,there is a zeal for learning which has no other foundation than a wish to appear learned1 and there is another which springs from man's natural curiosity about all things far or near which may affect himself4 ,the innate desire for comfort and the impossibility of its complete satisfaction impel him to the endless search for fresh means of contributing to its satisfaction4 ,this is the first principle of curiosity2 a principle natural to the human heart1 though its growth is proportional to the development of our feeling and knowledge4 ,if a man of science were left on a desert island with his books and instruments and knowing that he must spend the rest of his life there1 he would scarcely trouble himself about the solar system1 the laws of attraction1 or the differential calculus4 ,he might never even open a book again2 but he would never rest till he had explored the furthest corner of his island1 however large it might be4 ,let us therefore omit from our early studies such knowledge as has no natural attraction for us1 and confine ourselves to such things as instinct impels us to study4 ,our island is this earth2 and the most striking object we behold is the sun4 ,as soon as we pass beyond our immediate surroundings1 one or both of these must meet our eye4 ,thus the philosophy of most savage races is mainly directed to imaginary divisions of the earth or to the divinity of the sun4 ,what a sudden change you will say4 ,just now we were concerned with what touches ourselves1 with our immediate environment1 and all at once we are exploring the round world and leaping to the bounds of the universe4 ,this change is the result of our growing strength and of the natural bent of the mind4 ,while we were weak and feeble1 self-preservation concentrated our attention on ourselves2 now that we are strong and powerful1 the desire for a wider sphere carries us beyond ourselves as far as our eyes can reach4 ,but as the intellectual world is still unknown to us1 our thoughts are bounded by the visible horizon1 and our understanding only develops within the limits of our vision4 ,let us transform our sensations into ideas1 but do not let us jump all at once from the objects of sense to objects of thought4 ,the latter are attained by means of the former4 ,let the senses be the only guide for the first workings of reason4 ,no book but the world1 no teaching but that of fact4 ,the child who reads ceases to think1 he only reads4 ,he is acquiring words not knowledge4 ,teach your scholar to observe the phenomena of nature2 you will soon rouse his curiosity1 but if you would have it grow1 do not be in too great a hurry to satisfy this curiosity4 ,put the problems before him and let him solve them himself4 ,let him know nothing because you have told him1 but because he has learnt it for himself4 ,let him not be taught science1 let him discover it4 ,if ever you substitute authority for reason he will cease to reason2 he will be a mere plaything of other people's thoughts4 ,you wish to teach this child geography and you provide him with globes1 spheres1 and maps4 ,what elaborate preparations6 ,what is the use of all these symbols2 why not begin by showing him the real thing so that he may at least know what you are talking about8 ,one fine evening we are walking in a suitable place where the wide horizon gives us a full view of the setting sun1 and we note the objects which mark the place where it sets4 ,next morning we return to the same place for a breath of fresh air before sun-rise4 ,we see the rays of light which announce the sun's approach2 the glow increases1 the east seems afire1 and long before the sun appears the light leads us to expect its return4 ,every moment you expect to see it4 ,there it is at last6 ,a shining point appears like a flash of lightning and soon fills the whole space2 the veil of darkness rolls away1 man perceives his dwelling place in fresh beauty4 ,during the night the grass has assumed a fresher green2 in the light of early dawn1 and gilded by the first rays of the sun1 it seems covered with a shining network of dew reflecting the light and colour4 ,the birds raise their chorus of praise to greet the ,father of life1 not one of them is mute2 their gentle warbling is softer than by day1 it expresses the langour of a peaceful waking4 ,all these produce an impression of freshness which seems to reach the very soul4 ,it is a brief hour of enchantment which no man can resist2 a sight so grand1 so fair1 so delicious1 that none can behold it unmoved4 ,fired with this enthusiasm1 the master wishes to impart it to the child4 ,he expects to rouse his emotion by drawing attention to his own4 ,mere folly6 ,the splendour of nature lives in man's heart2 to be seen1 it must be felt4 ,the child sees the objects themselves1 but does not perceive their relations1 and cannot hear their harmony4 ,it needs knowledge he has not yet acquired1 feelings he has not yet experienced1 to receive the complex impression which results from all these separate sensations4 ,if he has not wandered over arid plains1 if his feet have not been scorched by the burning sands of the desert1 if he has not breathed the hot and oppressive air reflected from the glowing rocks1 how shall he delight in the fresh air of a fine morning4 ,the scent of flowers1 the beauty of foliage1 the moistness of the dew1 the soft turf beneath his feet1 how shall all these delight his senses4 ,how shall the song of the birds arouse voluptuous emotion if love and pleasure are still unknown to him8 ,how shall he behold with rapture the birth of this fair day1 if his imagination cannot paint the joys it may bring in its track8 ,how can he feel the beauty of nature1 while the hand that formed it is unknown8 ,never tell the child what he cannot understand3 no descriptions1 no eloquence1 no figures of speech1 no poetry4 ,the time has not come for feeling or taste4 ,continue to be clear and cold2 the time will come only too soon when you must adopt another tone4 ,brought up in the spirit of our maxims1 accustomed to make his own tools and not to appeal to others until he has tried and failed1 he will examine everything he sees carefully and in silence4 ,he thinks rather than questions4 ,be content1 therefore1 to show him things at a fit season2 then1 when you see that his curiosity is thoroughly aroused1 put some brief question which will set him trying to discover the answer4 ,on the present occasion when you and he have carefully observed the rising sun1 when you have called his attention to the mountains and other objects visible from the same spot1 after he has chattered freely about them1 keep quiet for a few minutes as if lost in thought and then say1 ,i think the sun set over there last night2 it rose here this morning4 ,how can that be8 ,say no more2 if he asks questions1 do not answer them2 talk of something else4 ,let him alone1 and be sure he will think about it4 ,to train a child to be really attentive so that he may be really impressed by any truth of experience1 he must spend anxious days before he discovers that truth4 ,if he does not learn enough in this way1 there is another way of drawing his attention to the matter4 ,turn the question about4 ,if he does not know how the sun gets from the place where it sets to where it rises1 he knows at least how it travels from sunrise to sunset1 his eyes teach him that4 ,use the second question to throw light on the first2 either your pupil is a regular dunce or the analogy is too clear to be missed4 ,this is his first lesson in cosmography4 ,as we always advance slowly from one sensible idea to another1 and as we give time enough to each for him to become really familiar with it before we go on to another1 and lastly as we never force our scholar's attention1 we are still a long way from a knowledge of the course of the sun or the shape of the earth2 but as all the apparent movements of the celestial bodies depend on the same principle1 and the first observation leads on to all the rest1 less effort is needed1 though more time1 to proceed from the diurnal revolution to the calculation of eclipses1 than to get a thorough understanding of day and night4 ,since the sun revolves round the earth it describes a circle1 and every circle must have a centre2 that we know already4 ,this centre is invisible1 it is in the middle of the earth1 but we can mark out two opposite points on the earth's surface which correspond to it4 ,a skewer passed through the three points and prolonged to the sky at either end would represent the earth's axis and the sun's daily course4 ,a round teetotum revolving on its point represents the sky turning on its axis1 the two points of the teetotum are the two poles2 the child will be delighted to find one of them1 and ,i show him the tail of the ,little bear4 ,here is a another game for the dark4 ,little by little we get to know the stars1 and from this comes a wish to know the planets and observe the constellations4 ,we saw the sun rise at midsummer1 we shall see it rise at ,christmas or some other fine winter's day2 for you know we are no lie-a-beds and we enjoy the cold4 ,i take care to make this second observation in the same place as the first1 and if skilfully lead up to1 one or other will certainly exclaim1 ,what a funny thing6 ,the sun is not rising in the same place2 here are our landmarks1 but it is rising over there4 ,so there is the summer east and the winter east1 etc4 ,young teacher1 you are on the right track4 ,these examples should show you how to teach the sphere without any difficulty1 taking the earth for the earth and the sun for the sun4 ,as a general rule--never substitute the symbol for the thing signified1 unless it is impossible to show the thing itself2 for the child's attention is so taken up with the symbol that he will forget what it signifies4 ,i consider the armillary sphere a clumsy disproportioned bit of apparatus4 ,the confused circles and the strange figures described on it suggest witchcraft and frighten the child4 ,the earth is too small1 the circles too large and too numerous1 some of them1 the colures1 for instance1 are quite useless1 and the thickness of the pasteboard gives them an appearance of solidity so that they are taken for circular masses having a real existence1 and when you tell the child that these are imaginary circles1 he does not know what he is looking at and is none the wiser4 ,we are unable to put ourselves in the child's place1 we fail to enter into his thoughts1 we invest him with our own ideas1 and while we are following our own chain of reasoning1 we merely fill his head with errors and absurdities4 ,should the method of studying science be analytic or synthetic8 ,people dispute over this question1 but it is not always necessary to choose between them4 ,sometimes the same experiments allow one to use both analysis and synthesis1 and thus to guide the child by the method of instruction when he fancies he is only analysing4 ,then1 by using both at once1 each method confirms the results of the other4 ,starting from opposite ends1 without thinking of following the same road1 he will unexpectedly reach their meeting place and this will be a delightful surprise4 ,for example1 ,i would begin geography at both ends and add to the study of the earth's revolution the measurement of its divisions1 beginning at home4 ,while the child is studying the sphere and is thus transported to the heavens1 bring him back to the divisions of the globe and show him his own home4 ,his geography will begin with the town he lives in and his father's country house1 then the places between them1 the rivers near them1 and then the sun's aspect and how to find one's way by its aid4 ,this is the meeting place4 ,let him make his own map1 a very simple map1 at first containing only two places2 others may be added from time to time1 as he is able to estimate their distance and position4 ,you see at once what a good start we have given him by making his eye his compass4 ,no doubt he will require some guidance in spite of this1 but very little1 and that little without his knowing it4 ,if he goes wrong let him alone1 do not correct his mistakes2 hold your tongue till he finds them out for himself and corrects them1 or at most arrange something1 as opportunity offers1 which may show him his mistakes4 ,if he never makes mistakes he will never learn anything thoroughly4 ,moreover1 what he needs is not an exact knowledge of local topography1 but how to find out for himself4 ,no matter whether he carries maps in his head provided he understands what they mean1 and has a clear idea of the art of making them4 ,see what a difference there is already between the knowledge of your scholars and the ignorance of mine4 ,they learn maps1 he makes them4 ,here are fresh ornaments for his room4 ,remember that this is the essential point in my method--,do not teach the child many things1 but never to let him form inaccurate or confused ideas4 ,i care not if he knows nothing provided he is not mistaken1 and ,i only acquaint him with truths to guard him against the errors he might put in their place4 ,reason and judgment come slowly1 prejudices flock to us in crowds1 and from these he must be protected4 ,but if you make science itself your object1 you embark on an unfathomable and shoreless ocean1 an ocean strewn with reefs from which you will never return4 ,when ,i see a man in love with knowledge1 yielding to its charms and flitting from one branch to another unable to stay his steps1 he seems to me like a child gathering shells on the sea-shore1 now picking them up1 then throwing them aside for others which he sees beyond them1 then taking them again1 till overwhelmed by their number and unable to choose between them1 he flings them all away and returns empty handed4 ,time was long during early childhood2 we only tried to pass our time for fear of using it ill2 now it is the other way2 we have not time enough for all that would be of use4 ,the passions1 remember1 are drawing near1 and when they knock at the door your scholar will have no ear for anything else4 ,the peaceful age of intelligence is so short1 it flies so swiftly1 there is so much to be done1 that it is madness to try to make your child learned4 ,it is not your business to teach him the various sciences1 but to give him a taste for them and methods of learning them when this taste is more mature4 ,that is assuredly a fundamental principle of all good education4 ,this is also the time to train him gradually to prolonged attention to a given object2 but this attention should never be the result of constraint1 but of interest or desire2 you must be very careful that it is not too much for his strength1 and that it is not carried to the point of tedium4 ,watch him1 therefore1 and whatever happens1 stop before he is tired1 for it matters little what he learns2 it does matter that he should do nothing against his will4 ,if he asks questions let your answers be enough to whet his curiosity but not enough to satisfy it2 above all1 when you find him talking at random and overwhelming you with silly questions instead of asking for information1 at once refuse to answer2 for it is clear that he no longer cares about the matter in hand1 but wants to make you a slave to his questions4 ,consider his motives rather than his words4 ,this warning1 which was scarcely needed before1 becomes of supreme importance when the child begins to reason4 ,there is a series of abstract truths by means of which all the sciences are related to common principles and are developed each in its turn4 ,this relationship is the method of the philosophers4 ,we are not concerned with it at present4 ,there is quite another method by which every concrete example suggests another and always points to the next in the series4 ,this succession1 which stimulates the curiosity and so arouses the attention required by every object in turn1 is the order followed by most men1 and it is the right order for all children4 ,to take our bearings so as to make our maps we must find meridians4 ,two points of intersection between the equal shadows morning and evening supply an excellent meridian for a thirteen-year-old astronomer4 ,but these meridians disappear1 it takes time to trace them1 and you are obliged to work in one place4 ,so much trouble and attention will at last become irksome4 ,we foresaw this and are ready for it4 ,again ,i must enter into minute and detailed explanations4 ,i hear my readers murmur1 but ,i am prepared to meet their disapproval2 ,i will not sacrifice the most important part of this book to your impatience4 ,you may think me as long-winded as you please2 ,i have my own opinion as to your complaints4 ,long ago my pupil and ,i remarked that some substances such as amber1 glass1 and wax1 when well rubbed1 attracted straws1 while others did not4 ,we accidentally discover a substance which has a more unusual property1 that of attracting filings or other small particles of iron from a distance and without rubbing4 ,how much time do we devote to this game to the exclusion of everything else6 ,at last we discover that this property is communicated to the iron itself1 which is1 so to speak1 endowed with life4 ,we go to the fair one day ,footnote3 ,i could not help laughing when ,i read an elaborate criticism of this little tale by ,m4 de ,formy4 ,this conjuror1 says he1 who is afraid of a child's competition and preaches to his tutor is the sort of person we meet with in the world in which ,emile and such as he are living4 ,this witty ,m4 de ,formy could not guess that this little scene was arranged beforehand1 and that the juggler was taught his part in it2 indeed ,i did not state this fact4 ,but ,i have said again and again that ,i was not writing for people who expected to be told everything4 and a conjuror has a wax duck floating in a basin of water1 and he makes it follow a bit of bread4 ,we are greatly surprised1 but we do not call him a wizard1 never having heard of such persons4 ,as we are continually observing effects whose causes are unknown to us1 we are in no hurry to make up our minds1 and we remain in ignorance till we find an opportunity of learning4 ,when we get home we discuss the duck till we try to imitate it4 ,we take a needle thoroughly magnetised1 we imbed it in white wax1 shaped as far as possible like a duck1 with the needle running through the body1 so that its eye forms the beak4 ,we put the duck in water and put the end of a key near its beak1 and you will readily understand our delight when we find that our duck follows the key just as the duck at the fair followed the bit of bread4 ,another time we may note the direction assumed by the duck when left in the basin2 for the present we are wholly occupied with our work and we want nothing more4 ,the same evening we return to the fair with some bread specially prepared in our pockets1 and as soon as the conjuror has performed his trick1 my little doctor1 who can scarcely sit still1 exclaims1 ,the trick is quite easy2 ,i can do it myself4 ,do it then4 ,he at once takes the bread with a bit of iron hidden in it from his pocket2 his heart throbs as he approaches the table and holds out the bread1 his hand trembles with excitement4 ,the duck approaches and follows his hand4 ,the child cries out and jumps for joy4 ,the applause1 the shouts of the crowd1 are too much for him1 he is beside himself4 ,the conjuror1 though disappointed1 embraces him1 congratulates him1 begs the honour of his company on the following day1 and promises to collect a still greater crowd to applaud his skill4 ,my young scientist is very proud of himself and is beginning to chatter1 but ,i check him at once and take him home overwhelmed with praise4 ,the child counts the minutes till to-morrow with absurd anxiety4 ,he invites every one he meets1 he wants all mankind to behold his glory2 he can scarcely wait till the appointed hour4 ,he hurries to the place2 the hall is full already2 as he enters his young heart swells with pride4 ,other tricks are to come first4 ,the conjuror surpasses himself and does the most surprising things4 ,the child sees none of these2 he wriggles1 perspires1 and hardly breathes2 the time is spent in fingering with a trembling hand the bit of bread in his pocket4 ,his turn comes at last2 the master announces it to the audience with all ceremony2 he goes up looking somewhat shamefaced and takes out his bit of bread4 ,oh fleeting joys of human life6 the duck1 so tame yesterday1 is quite wild to-day2 instead of offering its beak it turns tail and swims away2 it avoids the bread and the hand that holds it as carefully as it followed them yesterday4 ,after many vain attempts accompanied by derisive shouts from the audience the child complains that he is being cheated1 that is not the same duck1 and he defies the conjuror to attract it4 ,the conjuror1 without further words1 takes a bit of bread and offers it to the duck1 which at once follows it and comes to the hand which holds it4 ,the child takes the same bit of bread with no better success2 the duck mocks his efforts and swims round the basin4 ,overwhelmed with confusion he abandons the attempt1 ashamed to face the crowd any longer4 ,then the conjuror takes the bit of bread the child brought with him and uses it as successfully as his own4 ,he takes out the bit of iron before the audience--another laugh at our expense--then with this same bread he attracts the duck as before4 ,he repeats the experiment with a piece of bread cut by a third person in full view of the audience4 ,he does it with his glove1 with his finger-tip4 ,finally he goes into the middle of the room and in the emphatic tones used by such persons he declares that his duck will obey his voice as readily as his hand2 he speaks and the duck obeys2 he bids him go to the right and he goes1 to come back again and he comes4 ,the movement is as ready as the command4 ,the growing applause completes our discomfiture4 ,we slip away unnoticed and shut ourselves up in our room1 without relating our successes to everybody as we had expected4 ,next day there is a knock at the door4 ,when ,i open it there is the conjuror1 who makes a modest complaint with regard to our conduct4 ,what had he done that we should try to discredit his tricks and deprive him of his livelihood8 ,what is there so wonderful in attracting a duck that we should purchase this honour at the price of an honest man's living8 ,my word1 gentlemen6 had ,i any other trade by which ,i could earn a living ,i would not pride myself on this4 ,you may well believe that a man who has spent his life at this miserable trade knows more about it than you who only give your spare time to it4 ,if ,i did not show you my best tricks at first1 it was because one must not be so foolish as to display all one knows at once4 ,i always take care to keep my best tricks for emergencies2 and ,i have plenty more to prevent young folks from meddling4 ,however1 ,i have come1 gentlemen1 in all kindness1 to show you the trick that gave you so much trouble2 ,i only beg you not to use it to my hurt1 and to be more discreet in future4 ,he then shows us his apparatus1 and to our great surprise we find it is merely a strong magnet in the hand of a boy concealed under the table4 ,the man puts up his things1 and after we have offered our thanks and apologies1 we try to give him something4 ,he refuses it4 ,no1 gentlemen1 says he1 ,i owe you no gratitude and ,i will not accept your gift4 ,i leave you in my debt in spite of all1 and that is my only revenge4 ,generosity may be found among all sorts of people1 and ,i earn my pay by doing my tricks not by teaching them4 ,as he is going he blames me out-right4 ,i can make excuses for the child1 he says1 he sinned in ignorance4 ,but you1 sir1 should know better4 ,why did you let him do it8 ,as you are living together and you are older than he1 you should look after him and give him good advice4 ,your experience should be his guide4 ,when he is grown up he will reproach1 not only himself1 but you1 for the faults of his youth4 ,when he is gone we are greatly downcast4 ,i blame myself for my easy-going ways4 ,i promise the child that another time ,i will put his interests first and warn him against faults before he falls into them1 for the time is coming when our relations will be changed1 when the severity of the master must give way to the friendliness of the comrade2 this change must come gradually1 you must look ahead1 and very far ahead4 ,we go to the fair again the next day to see the trick whose secret we know4 ,we approach our ,socrates1 the conjuror1 with profound respect1 we scarcely dare to look him in the face4 ,he overwhelms us with politeness1 gives us the best places1 and heaps coals of fire on our heads4 ,he goes through his performance as usual1 but he lingers affectionately over the duck1 and often glances proudly in our direction4 ,we are in the secret1 but we do not tell4 ,if my pupil did but open his mouth he would be worthy of death4 ,there is more meaning than you suspect in this detailed illustration4 ,how many lessons in one6 ,how mortifying are the results of a first impulse towards vanity6 ,young tutor1 watch this first impulse carefully4 ,if you can use it to bring about shame and disgrace1 you may be sure it will not recur for many a day4 ,what a fuss you will say4 ,just so2 and all to provide a compass which will enable us to dispense with a meridian6 ,having learnt that a magnet acts through other bodies1 our next business is to construct a bit of apparatus similar to that shown us4 ,a bare table1 a shallow bowl placed on it and filled with water1 a duck rather better finished than the first1 and so on4 ,we often watch the thing and at last we notice that the duck1 when at rest1 always turns the same way4 ,we follow up this observation2 we examine the direction1 we find that it is from south to north4 ,enough6 we have found our compass or its equivalent2 the study of physics is begun4 ,there are various regions of the earth1 and these regions differ in temperature4 ,the variation is more evident as we approach the poles2 all bodies expand with heat and contract with cold2 this is best measured in liquids and best of all in spirits2 hence the thermometer4 ,the wind strikes the face1 then the air is a body1 a fluid2 we feel it though we cannot see it4 ,i invert a glass in water2 the water will not fill it unless you leave a passage for the escape of the air2 so air is capable of resistance4 ,plunge the glass further in the water2 the water will encroach on the air-space without filling it entirely2 so air yields somewhat to pressure4 ,a ball filled with compressed air bounces better than one filled with anything else2 so air is elastic4 ,raise your arm horizontally from the water when you are lying in your bath2 you will feel a terrible weight on it2 so air is a heavy body4 ,by establishing an equilibrium between air and other fluids its weight can be measured1 hence the barometer1 the siphon1 the air-gun1 and the air-pump4 ,all the laws of statics and hydrostatics are discovered by such rough experiments4 ,for none of these would ,i take the child into a physical cabinet2 ,i dislike that array of instruments and apparatus4 ,the scientific atmosphere destroys science4 ,either the child is frightened by these instruments or his attention1 which should be fixed on their effects1 is distracted by their appearance4 ,we shall make all our apparatus ourselves1 and ,i would not make it beforehand1 but having caught a glimpse of the experiment by chance we mean to invent step by step an instrument for its verification4 ,i would rather our apparatus was somewhat clumsy and imperfect1 but our ideas clear as to what the apparatus ought to be1 and the results to be obtained by means of it4 ,for my first lesson in statics1 instead of fetching a balance1 ,i lay a stick across the back of a chair1 ,i measure the two parts when it is balanced2 add equal or unequal weights to either end2 by pulling or pushing it as required1 ,i find at last that equilibrium is the result of a reciprocal proportion between the amount of the weights and the length of the levers4 ,thus my little physicist is ready to rectify a balance before ever he sees one4 ,undoubtedly the notions of things thus acquired for oneself are clearer and much more convincing than those acquired from the teaching of others2 and not only is our reason not accustomed to a slavish submission to authority1 but we develop greater ingenuity in discovering relations1 connecting ideas and inventing apparatus1 than when we merely accept what is given us and allow our minds to be enfeebled by indifference1 like the body of a man whose servants always wait on him1 dress him and put on his shoes1 whose horse carries him1 till he loses the use of his limbs4 ,boileau used to boast that he had taught ,racine the art of rhyming with difficulty4 ,among the many short cuts to science1 we badly need some one to teach us the art of learning with difficulty4 ,the most obvious advantage of these slow and laborious inquiries is this3 the scholar1 while engaged in speculative studies1 is actively using his body1 gaining suppleness of limb1 and training his hands to labour so that he will be able to make them useful when he is a man4 ,too much apparatus1 designed to guide us in our experiments and to supplement the exactness of our senses1 makes us neglect to use those senses4 ,the theodolite makes it unnecessary to estimate the size of angles2 the eye which used to judge distances with much precision1 trusts to the chain for its measurements2 the steel yard dispenses with the need of judging weight by the hand as ,i used to do4 ,the more ingenious our apparatus1 the coarser and more unskilful are our senses4 ,we surround ourselves with tools and fail to use those with which nature has provided every one of us4 ,but when we devote to the making of these instruments the skill which did instead of them1 when for their construction we use the intelligence which enabled us to dispense with them1 this is gain not loss1 we add art to nature1 we gain ingenuity without loss of skill4 ,if instead of making a child stick to his books ,i employ him in a workshop1 his hands work for the development of his mind4 ,while he fancies himself a workman he is becoming a philosopher4 ,moreover1 this exercise has other advantages of which ,i shall speak later2 and you will see how1 through philosophy in sport1 one may rise to the real duties of man4 ,i have said already that purely theoretical science is hardly suitable for children1 even for children approaching adolescence2 but without going far into theoretical physics1 take care that all their experiments are connected together by some chain of reasoning1 so that they may follow an orderly sequence in the mind1 and may be recalled at need2 for it is very difficult to remember isolated facts or arguments1 when there is no cue for their recall4 ,in your inquiry into the laws of nature always begin with the commonest and most conspicuous phenomena1 and train your scholar not to accept these phenomena as causes but as facts4 ,i take a stone and pretend to place it in the air2 ,i open my hand1 the stone falls4 ,i see ,emile watching my action and ,i say1 ,why does this stone fall8 ,what child will hesitate over this question8 ,none1 not even ,emile1 unless ,i have taken great pains to teach him not to answer4 ,every one will say1 ,the stone falls because it is heavy4 ,and what do you mean by heavy8 ,that which falls4 ,so the stone falls because it falls8 ,here is a poser for my little philosopher4 ,this is his first lesson in systematic physics1 and whether he learns physics or no it is a good lesson in common-sense4 ,as the child develops in intelligence other important considerations require us to be still more careful in our choice of his occupations4 ,as soon as he has sufficient self-knowledge to understand what constitutes his well-being1 as soon as he can grasp such far-reaching relations as to judge what is good for him and what is not1 then he is able to discern the difference between work and play1 and to consider the latter merely as relaxation4 ,the objects of real utility may be introduced into his studies and may lead him to more prolonged attention than he gave to his games4 ,the ever-recurring law of necessity soon teaches a man to do what he does not like1 so as to avert evils which he would dislike still more4 ,such is the use of foresight1 and this foresight1 well or ill used1 is the source of all the wisdom or the wretchedness of mankind4 ,every one desires happiness1 but to secure it he must know what happiness is4 ,for the natural man happiness is as simple as his life2 it consists in the absence of pain2 health1 freedom1 the necessaries of life are its elements4 ,the happiness of the moral man is another matter1 but it does not concern us at present4 ,i cannot repeat too often that it is only objects which can be perceived by the senses which can have any interest for children1 especially children whose vanity has not been stimulated nor their minds corrupted by social conventions4 ,as soon as they foresee their needs before they feel them1 their intelligence has made a great step forward1 they are beginning to know the value of time4 ,they must then be trained to devote this time to useful purposes1 but this usefulness should be such as they can readily perceive and should be within the reach of their age and experience4 ,what concerns the moral order and the customs of society should not yet be given them1 for they are not in a condition to understand it4 ,it is folly to expect them to attend to things vaguely described as good for them1 when they do not know what this good is1 things which they are assured will be to their advantage when they are grown up1 though for the present they take no interest in this so-called advantage1 which they are unable to understand4 ,let the child do nothing because he is told2 nothing is good for him but what he recognises as good4 ,when you are always urging him beyond his present understanding1 you think you are exercising a foresight which you really lack4 ,to provide him with useless tools which he may never require1 you deprive him of man's most useful tool--common-sense4 ,you would have him docile as a child2 he will be a credulous dupe when he grows up4 ,you are always saying1 ,what ,i ask is for your good1 though you cannot understand it4 ,what does it matter to me whether you do it or not2 my efforts are entirely on your account4 ,all these fine speeches with which you hope to make him good1 are preparing the way1 so that the visionary1 the tempter1 the charlatan1 the rascal1 and every kind of fool may catch him in his snare or draw him into his folly4 ,a man must know many things which seem useless to a child1 but need the child learn1 or can he indeed learn1 all that the man must know8 ,try to teach the child what is of use to a child and you will find that it takes all his time4 ,why urge him to the studies of an age he may never reach1 to the neglect of those studies which meet his present needs8 ,but1 you ask1 will it not be too late to learn what he ought to know when the time comes to use it8 ,i cannot tell2 but this ,i do know1 it is impossible to teach it sooner1 for our real teachers are experience and emotion1 and man will never learn what befits a man except under its own conditions4 ,a child knows he must become a man2 all the ideas he may have as to man's estate are so many opportunities for his instruction1 but he should remain in complete ignorance of those ideas which are beyond his grasp4 ,my whole book is one continued argument in support of this fundamental principle of education4 ,as soon as we have contrived to give our pupil an idea of the word ,useful1 we have got an additional means of controlling him1 for this word makes a great impression on him1 provided that its meaning for him is a meaning relative to his own age1 and provided he clearly sees its relation to his own well-being4 ,this word makes no impression on your scholars because you have taken no pains to give it a meaning they can understand1 and because other people always undertake to supply their needs so that they never require to think for themselves1 and do not know what utility is4 ,what is the use of that8 ,in future this is the sacred formula1 the formula by which he and ,i test every action of our lives4 ,this is the question with which ,i invariably answer all his questions2 it serves to check the stream of foolish and tiresome questions with which children weary those about them4 ,these incessant questions produce no result1 and their object is rather to get a hold over you than to gain any real advantage4 ,a pupil1 who has been really taught only to want to know what is useful1 questions like ,socrates2 he never asks a question without a reason for it1 for he knows he will be required to give his reason before he gets an answer4 ,see what a powerful instrument ,i have put into your hands for use with your pupil4 ,as he does not know the reason for anything you can reduce him to silence almost at will2 and what advantages do your knowledge and experience give you to show him the usefulness of what you suggest4 ,for1 make no mistake about it1 when you put this question to him1 you are teaching him to put it to you1 and you must expect that whatever you suggest to him in the future he will follow your own example and ask1 ,what is the use of this8 ,perhaps this is the greatest of the tutor's difficulties4 ,if you merely try to put the child off when he asks a question1 and if you give him a single reason he is not able to understand1 if he finds that you reason according to your own ideas1 not his1 he will think what you tell him is good for you but not for him2 you will lose his confidence and all your labour is thrown away4 ,but what master will stop short and confess his faults to his pupil8 ,we all make it a rule never to own to the faults we really have4 ,now ,i would make it a rule to admit even the faults ,i have not1 if ,i could not make my reasons clear to him2 as my conduct will always be intelligible to him1 he will never doubt me and ,i shall gain more credit by confessing my imaginary faults than those who conceal their real defects4 ,in the first place do not forget that it is rarely your business to suggest what he ought to learn2 it is for him to want to learn1 to seek and to find it4 ,you should put it within his reach1 you should skilfully awaken the desire and supply him with means for its satisfaction4 ,so your questions should be few and well-chosen1 and as he will always have more questions to put to you than you to him1 you will always have the advantage and will be able to ask all the oftener1 ,what is the use of that question8 ,moreover1 as it matters little what he learns provided he understands it and knows how to use it1 as soon as you cannot give him a suitable explanation give him none at all4 ,do not hesitate to say1 ,i have no good answer to give you2 ,i was wrong1 let us drop the subject4 ,if your teaching was really ill-chosen there is no harm in dropping it altogether2 if it was not1 with a little care you will soon find an opportunity of making its use apparent to him4 ,i do not like verbal explanations4 ,young people pay little heed to them1 nor do they remember them4 ,things6 ,things6 ,i cannot repeat it too often4 ,we lay too much stress upon words2 we teachers babble1 and our scholars follow our example4 ,suppose we are studying the course of the sun and the way to find our bearings1 when all at once ,emile interrupts me with the question1 ,what is the use of that8 what a fine lecture ,i might give1 how many things ,i might take occasion to teach him in reply to his question1 especially if there is any one there4 ,i might speak of the advantages of travel1 the value of commerce1 the special products of different lands and the peculiar customs of different nations1 the use of the calendar1 the way to reckon the seasons for agriculture1 the art of navigation1 how to steer our course at sea1 how to find our way without knowing exactly where we are4 ,politics1 natural history1 astronomy1 even morals and international law are involved in my explanation1 so as to give my pupil some idea of all these sciences and a great wish to learn them4 ,when ,i have finished ,i shall have shown myself a regular pedant1 ,i shall have made a great display of learning1 and not one single idea has he understood4 ,he is longing to ask me again1 ,what is the use of taking one's bearings8 but he dare not for fear of vexing me4 ,he finds it pays best to pretend to listen to what he is forced to hear4 ,this is the practical result of our fine systems of education4 ,but ,emile is educated in a simpler fashion4 ,we take so much pains to teach him a difficult idea that he will have heard nothing of all this4 ,at the first word he does not understand1 he will run away1 he will prance about the room1 and leave me to speechify by myself4 ,let us seek a more commonplace explanation2 my scientific learning is of no use to him4 ,we were observing the position of the forest to the north of ,montmorency when he interrupted me with the usual question1 ,what is the use of that8 ,you are right1 ,i said4 ,let us take time to think it over1 and if we find it is no use we will drop it1 for we only want useful games4 ,we find something else to do and geography is put aside for the day4 ,next morning ,i suggest a walk before breakfast2 there is nothing he would like better2 children are always ready to run about1 and he is a good walker4 ,we climb up to the forest1 we wander through its clearings and lose ourselves2 we have no idea where we are1 and when we want to retrace our steps we cannot find the way4 ,time passes1 we are hot and hungry2 hurrying vainly this way and that we find nothing but woods1 quarries1 plains1 not a landmark to guide us4 ,very hot1 very tired1 very hungry1 we only get further astray4 ,at last we sit down to rest and to consider our position4 ,i assume that ,emile has been educated like an ordinary child4 ,he does not think1 he begins to cry2 he has no idea we are close to ,montmorency1 which is hidden from our view by a mere thicket2 but this thicket is a forest to him1 a man of his size is buried among bushes4 ,after a few minutes' silence ,i begin anxiously---- ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,my dear ,emile1 what shall we do get out8 ,,emile4 ,i am sure ,i do not know4 ,i am tired1 ,i am hungry1 ,i am thirsty4 ,i cannot go any further4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,do you suppose ,i am any better off8 ,i would cry too if ,i could make my breakfast off tears4 ,crying is no use1 we must look about us4 ,let us see your watch2 what time is it8 ,,emile4 ,it is noon and ,i am so hungry6 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,just so2 it is noon and ,i am so hungry too4 ,,emile4 ,you must be very hungry indeed4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,unluckily my dinner won't come to find me4 ,it is twelve o'clock4 ,this time yesterday we were observing the position of the forest from ,montmorency4 ,if only we could see the position of ,montmorency from the forest4 ,,emile4 ,but yesterday we could see the forest1 and here we cannot see the town4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,that is just it4 ,if we could only find it without seeing it4 ,,emile4 ,oh6 my dear friend6 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,did not we say the forest was444 ,,emile4 ,north of ,montmorency4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,then ,montmorency must lie444 ,,emile4 ,south of the forest4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,we know how to find the north at midday4 ,,emile4 ,yes1 by the direction of the shadows4 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,but the south8 ,,emile4 ,what shall we do8 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,the south is opposite the north4 ,,emile4 ,that is true2 we need only find the opposite of the shadows4 ,that is the south6 ,that is the south6 ,montmorency must be over there6 ,let us look for it there6 ,,jean ,,jacques4 ,perhaps you are right2 let us follow this path through the wood4 ,,emile4 7,clapping his hands47 ,oh1 ,i can see ,montmorency6 there it is1 quite plain1 just in front of us6 ,come to luncheon1 come to dinner1 make haste6 ,astronomy is some use after all4 ,be sure that he thinks this if he does not say it2 no matter which1 provided ,i do not say it myself4 ,he will certainly never forget this day's lesson as long as he lives1 while if ,i had only led him to think of all this at home1 my lecture would have been forgotten the next day4 ,teach by doing whenever you can1 and only fall back upon words when doing is out of the question4 ,the reader will not expect me to have such a poor opinion of him as to supply him with an example of every kind of study2 but1 whatever is taught1 ,i cannot too strongly urge the tutor to adapt his instances to the capacity of his scholar2 for once more ,i repeat the risk is not in what he does not know1 but in what he thinks he knows4 ,i remember how ,i once tried to give a child a taste for chemistry4 ,after showing him several metallic precipitates1 ,i explained how ink was made4 ,i told him how its blackness was merely the result of fine particles of iron separated from the vitriol and precipitated by an alkaline solution4 ,in the midst of my learned explanation the little rascal pulled me up short with the question ,i myself had taught him4 ,i was greatly puzzled4 ,after a few moments' thought ,i decided what to do4 ,i sent for some wine from the cellar of our landlord1 and some very cheap wine from a wine-merchant4 ,i took a small ,footnote3 ,before giving any explanation to a child a little bit of apparatus serves to fix his attention4 flask of an alkaline solution1 and placing two glasses before me filled with the two sorts of wine1 ,i said4 ,food and drink are adulterated to make them seem better than they really are4 ,these adulterations deceive both the eye and the palate1 but they are unwholesome and make the adulterated article even worse than before in spite of its fine appearance4 ,all sorts of drinks are adulterated1 and wine more than others2 for the fraud is more difficult to detect1 and more profitable to the fraudulent person4 ,sour wine is adulterated with litharge2 litharge is a preparation of lead4 ,lead in combination with acids forms a sweet salt which corrects the harsh taste of the sour wine1 but it is poisonous4 ,so before we drink wine of doubtful quality we should be able to tell if there is lead in it4 ,this is how ,i should do it4 ,wine contains not merely an inflammable spirit as you have seen from the brandy made from it2 it also contains an acid as you know from the vinegar made from it4 ,this acid has an affinity for metals1 it combines with them and forms salts1 such as iron-rust1 which is only iron dissolved by the acid in air or water1 or such as verdegris1 which is only copper dissolved in vinegar4 ,but this acid has a still greater affinity for alkalis than for metals1 so that when we add alkalis to the above-mentioned salts1 the acid sets free the metal with which it had combined1 and combines with the alkali4 ,then the metal1 set free by the acid which held it in solution1 is precipitated and the liquid becomes opaque4 ,if then there is litharge in either of these glasses of wine1 the acid holds the litharge in solution4 ,when ,i pour into it an alkaline solution1 the acid will be forced to set the lead free in order to combine with the alkali4 ,the lead1 no longer held in solution1 will reappear1 the liquor will become thick1 and after a time the lead will be deposited at the bottom of the glass4 ,if there is no lead ,footnote3 ,the wine sold by retail dealers in ,paris is rarely free from lead1 though some of it does not contain litharge1 for the counters are covered with lead and when the wine is poured into the measures and some of it spilt upon the counter and the measures left standing on the counter1 some of the lead is always dissolved4 ,it is strange that so obvious and dangerous an abuse should be tolerated by the police4 ,but indeed well-to-do people1 who rarely drink these wines1 are not likely to be poisoned by them4 nor other metal in the wine the alkali will slowly ,footnote3 ,the vegetable acid is very gentle in its action4 ,if it were a mineral acid and less diluted1 the combination would not take place without effervescence4 combine with the acid1 all will remain clear and there will be no precipitate4 ,then ,i poured my alkaline solution first into one glass and then into the other4 ,the wine from our own house remained clear and unclouded1 the other at once became turbid1 and an hour later the lead might be plainly seen1 precipitated at the bottom of the glass4 ,this1 said ,i1 is a pure natural wine and fit to drink2 the other is adulterated and poisonous4 ,you wanted to know the use of knowing how to make ink4 ,if you can make ink you can find out what wines are adulterated4 ,i was very well pleased with my illustration1 but ,i found it made little impression on my pupil4 ,when ,i had time to think about it ,i saw ,i had been a fool1 for not only was it impossible for a child of twelve to follow my explanations1 but the usefulness of the experiment did not appeal to him2 he had tasted both glasses of wine and found them both good1 so he attached no meaning to the word adulterated which ,i thought ,i had explained so nicely4 ,indeed1 the other words1 unwholesome and poison1 had no meaning whatever for him2 he was in the same condition as the boy who told the story of ,philip and his doctor4 ,it is the condition of all children4 ,the relation of causes and effects whose connection is unknown to us1 good and ill of which we have no idea1 the needs we have never felt1 have no existence for us4 ,it is impossible to interest ourselves in them sufficiently to make us do anything connected with them4 ,at fifteen we become aware of the happiness of a good man1 as at thirty we become aware of the glory of ,paradise4 ,if we had no clear idea of either we should make no effort for their attainment2 and even if we had a clear idea of them1 we should make little or no effort unless we desired them and unless we felt we were made for them4 ,it is easy to convince a child that what you wish to teach him is useful1 but it is useless to convince if you cannot also persuade4 ,pure reason may lead us to approve or censure1 but it is feeling which leads to action1 and how shall we care about that which does not concern us8 ,never show a child what he cannot see4 ,since mankind is almost unknown to him1 and since you cannot make a man of him1 bring the man down to the level of the child4 ,while you are thinking what will be useful to him when he is older1 talk to him of what he knows he can use now4 ,moreover1 as soon as he begins to reason let there be no comparison with other children1 no rivalry1 no competition1 not even in running races4 ,i would far rather he did not learn anything than have him learn it through jealousy or self-conceit4 ,year by year ,i shall just note the progress he had made1 ,i shall compare the results with those of the following year1 ,i shall say1 ,you have grown so much2 that is the ditch you jumped1 the weight you carried1 the distance you flung a pebble1 the race you ran without stopping to take breath1 etc42 let us see what you can do now4 ,in this way he is stimulated to further effort without jealousy4 ,he wants to excel himself as he ought to do2 ,i see no reason why he should not emulate his own performances4 ,i hate books2 they only teach us to talk about things we know nothing about4 ,hermes1 they say1 engraved the elements of science on pillars lest a deluge should destroy them4 ,had he imprinted them on men's hearts they would have been preserved by tradition4 ,well-trained minds are the pillars on which human knowledge is most deeply engraved4 ,is there no way of correlating so many lessons scattered through so many books1 no way of focussing them on some common object1 easy to see1 interesting to follow1 and stimulating even to a child8 ,could we but discover a state in which all man's needs appear in such a way as to appeal to the child's mind1 a state in which the ways of providing for these needs are as easily developed1 the simple and stirring portrayal of this state should form the earliest training of the child's imagination4 ,eager philosopher1 ,i see your own imagination at work4 ,spare yourself the trouble2 this state is already known1 it is described1 with due respect to you1 far better than you could describe it1 at least with greater truth and simplicity4 ,since we must have books1 there is one book which1 to my thinking1 supplies the best treatise on an education according to nature4 ,this is the first book ,emile will read2 for a long time it will form his whole library1 and it will always retain an honoured place4 ,it will be the text to which all our talks about natural science are but the commentary4 ,it will serve to test our progress towards a right judgment1 and it will always be read with delight1 so long as our taste is unspoilt4 ,what is this wonderful book8 ,is it ,aristotle8 ,pliny8 ,buffon8 ,no2 it is ,robinson ,crusoe4 ,robinson ,crusoe on his island1 deprived of the help of his fellow-men1 without the means of carrying on the various arts1 yet finding food1 preserving his life1 and procuring a certain amount of comfort2 this is the thing to interest people of all ages1 and it can be made attractive to children in all sorts of ways4 ,we shall thus make a reality of that desert island which formerly served as an illustration4 ,the condition1 ,i confess1 is not that of a social being1 nor is it in all probability ,emile's own condition1 but he should use it as a standard of comparison for all other conditions4 ,the surest way to raise him above prejudice and to base his judgments on the true relations of things1 is to put him in the place of a solitary man1 and to judge all things as they would be judged by such a man in relation to their own utility4 ,this novel1 stripped of irrelevant matter1 begins with ,robinson's shipwreck on his island1 and ends with the coming of the ship which bears him from it1 and it will furnish ,emile with material1 both for work and play1 during the whole period we are considering4 ,his head should be full of it1 he should always be busy with his castle1 his goats1 his plantations4 ,let him learn in detail1 not from books but from things1 all that is necessary in such a case4 ,let him think he is ,robinson himself2 let him see himself clad in skins1 wearing a tall cap1 a great cutlass1 all the grotesque get-up of ,robinson ,crusoe1 even to the umbrella which he will scarcely need4 ,he should anxiously consider what steps to take2 will this or that be wanting4 ,he should examine his hero's conduct2 has he omitted nothing2 is there nothing he could have done better8 ,he should carefully note his mistakes1 so as not to fall into them himself in similar circumstances1 for you may be sure he will plan out just such a settlement for himself4 ,this is the genuine castle in the air of this happy age1 when the child knows no other happiness but food and freedom4 ,what a motive will this infatuation supply in the hands of a skilful teacher who has aroused it for the purpose of using it4 ,the child who wants to build a storehouse on his desert island will be more eager to learn than the master to teach4 ,he will want to know all sorts of useful things and nothing else2 you will need the curb as well as the spur4 ,make haste1 therefore1 to establish him on his island while this is all he needs to make him happy2 for the day is at hand1 when1 if he must still live on his island1 he will not be content to live alone1 when even the companionship of ,man ,friday1 who is almost disregarded now1 will not long suffice4 ,the exercise of the natural arts1 which may be carried on by one man alone1 leads on to the industrial arts which call for the cooperation of many hands4 ,the former may be carried on by hermits1 by savages1 but the others can only arise in a society1 and they make society necessary4 ,so long as only bodily needs are recognised man is self-sufficing2 with superfluity comes the need for division and distribution of labour1 for though one man working alone can earn a man's living1 one hundred men working together can earn the living of two hundred4 ,as soon as some men are idle1 others must work to make up for their idleness4 ,your main object should be to keep out of your scholar's way all idea of such social relations as he cannot understand1 but when the development of knowledge compels you to show him the mutual dependence of mankind1 instead of showing him its moral side1 turn all his attention at first towards industry and the mechanical arts which make men useful to one another4 ,while you take him from one workshop to another1 let him try his hand at every trade you show him1 and do not let him leave it till he has thoroughly learnt why everything is done1 or at least everything that has attracted his attention4 ,with this aim you should take a share in his work and set him an example4 ,be yourself the apprentice that he may become a master2 you may expect him to learn more in one hour's work than he would retain after a whole day's explanation4 ,the value set by the general public on the various arts is in inverse ratio to their real utility4 ,they are even valued directly according to their uselessness4 ,this might be expected4 ,the most useful arts are the worst paid1 for the number of workmen is regulated by the demand1 and the work which everybody requires must necessarily be paid at a rate which puts it within the reach of the poor4 ,on the other hand1 those great people who are called artists1 not artisans1 who labour only for the rich and idle1 put a fancy price on their trifles2 and as the real value of this vain labour is purely imaginary1 the price itself adds to their market value1 and they are valued according to their costliness4 ,the rich think so much of these things1 not because they are useful1 but because they are beyond the reach of the poor4 ,nolo habere bona1 nisi quibus populus inviderit4 ,what will become of your pupils if you let them acquire this foolish prejudice1 if you share it yourself8 ,if1 for instance1 they see you show more politeness in a jeweller's shop than in a locksmith's4 ,what idea will they form of the true worth of the arts and the real value of things when they see1 on the one hand1 a fancy price and1 on the other1 the price of real utility1 and that the more a thing costs the less it is worth8 ,as soon as you let them get hold of these ideas1 you may give up all attempt at further education2 in spite of you they will be like all the other scholars--you have wasted fourteen years4 ,emile1 bent on furnishing his island1 will look at things from another point of view4 ,robinson would have thought more of a toolmaker's shop than all ,saide's trifles put together4 ,he would have reckoned the toolmaker a very worthy man1 and ,saide little more than a charlatan4 ,my son will have to take the world as he finds it1 he will not live among the wise but among fools2 he must therefore be acquainted with their follies1 since they must be led by this means4 ,a real knowledge of things may be a good thing in itself1 but the knowledge of men and their opinions is better1 for in human society man is the chief tool of man1 and the wisest man is he who best knows the use of this tool4 ,what is the good of teaching children an imaginary system1 just the opposite of the established order of things1 among which they will have to live8 ,first teach them wisdom1 then show them the follies of mankind4 ,these are the specious maxims by which fathers1 who mistake them for prudence1 strive to make their children the slaves of the prejudices in which they are educated1 and the puppets of the senseless crowd1 which they hope to make subservient to their passions4 ,how much must be known before we attain to a knowledge of man4 ,this is the final study of the philosopher1 and you expect to make it the first lesson of the child6 ,before teaching him our sentiments1 first teach him to judge of their worth4 ,do you perceive folly when you mistake it for wisdom8 ,to be wise we must discern between good and evil4 ,how can your child know men1 when he can neither judge of their judgments nor unravel their mistakes8 ,it is a misfortune to know what they think1 without knowing whether their thoughts are true or false4 ,first teach him things as they really are1 afterwards you will teach him how they appear to us4 ,he will then be able to make a comparison between popular ideas and truth1 and be able to rise above the vulgar crowd2 for you are unaware of the prejudices you adopt1 and you do not lead a nation when you are like it4 ,but if you begin to teach the opinions of other people before you teach how to judge of their worth1 of one thing you may be sure1 your pupil will adopt those opinions whatever you may do1 and you will not succeed in uprooting them4 ,i am therefore convinced that to make a young man judge rightly1 you must form his judgment rather than teach him your own4 ,so far you see ,i have not spoken to my pupil about men2 he would have too much sense to listen to me4 ,his relations to other people are as yet not sufficiently apparent to him to enable him to judge others by himself4 ,the only person he knows is himself1 and his knowledge of himself is very imperfect4 ,but if he forms few opinions about others1 those opinions are correct4 ,he knows nothing of another's place1 but he knows his own and keeps to it4 ,i have bound him with the strong cord of necessity1 instead of social laws1 which are beyond his knowledge4 ,he is still little more than a body2 let us treat him as such4 ,every substance in nature and every work of man must be judged in relation to his own use1 his own safety1 his own preservation1 his own comfort4 ,thus he should value iron far more than gold1 and glass than diamonds2 in the same way he has far more respect for a shoemaker or a mason than for a ,lempereur1 a ,le ,blanc1 or all the jewellers in ,europe4 ,in his eyes a confectioner is a really great man1 and he would give the whole academy of sciences for the smallest pastrycook in ,lombard ,street4 ,goldsmiths1 engravers1 gilders1 and embroiderers1 he considers lazy people1 who play at quite useless games4 ,he does not even think much of a clockmaker4 ,the happy child enjoys ,time without being a slave to it2 he uses it1 but he does not know its value4 ,the freedom from passion which makes every day alike to him1 makes any means of measuring time unnecessary4 ,when ,i assumed that ,emile had a watch1 ,footnote3 ,when our hearts are abandoned to the sway of passion1 then it is that we need a measure of time4 ,the wise man's watch is his equable temper and his peaceful heart4 ,he is always punctual1 and he always knows the time4 just as ,i assumed that he cried1 it was a commonplace ,emile that ,i chose to serve my purpose and make myself understood4 ,the real ,emile1 a child so different from the rest1 would not serve as an illustration for anything4 ,there is an order no less natural and even more accurate1 by which the arts are valued according to bonds of necessity which connect them2 the highest class consists of the most independent1 the lowest of those most dependent on others4 ,this classification1 which suggests important considerations on the order of society in general1 is like the preceding one in that it is subject to the same inversion in popular estimation1 so that the use of raw material is the work of the lowest and worst paid trades1 while the oftener the material changes hands1 the more the work rises in price and in honour4 ,i do not ask whether industry is really greater and more deserving of reward when engaged in the delicate arts which give the final shape to these materials1 than in the labour which first gave them to man's use2 but this ,i say1 that in everything the art which is most generally useful and necessary1 is undoubtedly that which most deserves esteem1 and that art which requires the least help from others1 is more worthy of honour than those which are dependent on other arts1 since it is freer and more nearly independent4 ,these are the true laws of value in the arts2 all others are arbitrary and dependent on popular prejudice4 ,agriculture is the earliest and most honourable of arts2 metal work ,i put next1 then carpentry1 and so on4 ,this is the order in which the child will put them1 if he has not been spoilt by vulgar prejudices4 ,what valuable considerations ,emile will derive from his ,robinson in such matters4 ,what will he think when he sees the arts only brought to perfection by sub-division1 by the infinite multiplication of tools4 ,he will say1 ,all those people are as silly as they are ingenious2 one would think they were afraid to use their eyes and their hands1 they invent so many tools instead4 ,to carry on one trade they become the slaves of many others2 every single workman needs a whole town4 ,my friend and ,i try to gain skill2 we only make tools we can take about with us2 these people1 who are so proud of their talents in ,paris1 would be no use at all on our island2 they would have to become apprentices4 ,reader1 do not stay to watch the bodily exercises and manual skill of our pupil1 but consider the bent we are giving to his childish curiosity2 consider his common-sense1 his inventive spirit1 his foresight2 consider what a head he will have on his shoulders4 ,he will want to know all about everything he sees or does1 to learn the why and the wherefore of it2 from tool to tool he will go back to the first beginning1 taking nothing for granted2 he will decline to learn anything that requires previous knowledge which he has not acquired4 ,if he sees a spring made he will want to know how they got the steel from the mine2 if he sees the pieces of a chest put together1 he will want to know how the tree was out down2 when at work he will say of each tool1 ,if ,i had not got this1 how could ,i make one like it1 or how could ,i get along without it8 ,it is1 however1 difficult to avoid another error4 ,when the master is very fond of certain occupations1 he is apt to assume that the child shares his tastes2 beware lest you are carried away by the interest of your work1 while the child is bored by it1 but is afraid to show it4 ,the child must come first1 and you must devote yourself entirely to him4 ,watch him1 study him constantly1 without his knowing it2 consider his feelings beforehand1 and provide against those which are undesirable1 keep him occupied in such a way that he not only feels the usefulness of the thing1 but takes a pleasure in understanding the purpose which his work will serve4 ,the solidarity of the arts consists in the exchange of industry1 that of commerce in the exchange of commodities1 that of banks in the exchange of money or securities4 ,all these ideas hang together1 and their foundation has already been laid in early childhood with the help of ,robert the gardener4 ,all we have now to do is to substitute general ideas for particular1 and to enlarge these ideas by means of numerous examples1 so as to make the child understand the game of business itself1 brought home to him by means of particular instances of natural history with regard to the special products of each country1 by particular instances of the arts and sciences which concern navigation and the difficulties of transport1 greater or less in proportion to the distance between places1 the position of land1 seas1 rivers1 etc4 ,there can be no society without exchange1 no exchange without a common standard of measurement1 no common standard of measurement without equality4 ,hence the first law of every society is some conventional equality either in men or things4 ,conventional equality between men1 a very different thing from natural equality1 leads to the necessity for positive law1 i4e41 government and kings4 ,a child's political knowledge should be clear and restricted2 he should know nothing of government in general1 beyond what concerns the rights of property1 of which he has already some idea4 ,conventional equality between things has led to the invention of money1 for money is only one term in a comparison between the values of different sorts of things2 and in this sense money is the real bond of society2 but anything may be money2 in former days it was cattle2 shells are used among many tribes at the present day2 ,sparta used iron2 ,sweden1 leather2 while we use gold and silver4 ,metals1 being easier to carry1 have generally been chosen as the middle term of every exchange1 and these metals have been made into coin to save the trouble of continual weighing and measuring1 for the stamp on the coin is merely evidence that the coin is of given weight2 and the sole right of coining money is vested in the ruler because he alone has the right to demand the recognition of his authority by the whole nation4 ,the stupidest person can perceive the use of money when it is explained in this way4 ,it is difficult to make a direct comparison between various things1 for instance1 between cloth and corn2 but when we find a common measure1 in money1 it is easy for the manufacturer and the farmer to estimate the value of the goods they wish to exchange in terms of this common measure4 ,if a given quantity of cloth is worth a given some of money1 and a given quantity of corn is worth the same sum of money1 then the seller1 receiving the corn in exchange for his cloth1 makes a fair bargain4 ,thus by means of money it becomes possible to compare the values of goods of various kinds4 ,be content with this1 and do not touch upon the moral effects of this institution4 ,in everything you must show clearly the use before the abuse4 ,if you attempt to teach children how the sign has led to the neglect of the thing signified1 how money is the source of all the false ideas of society1 how countries rich in silver must be poor in everything else1 you will be treating these children as philosophers1 and not only as philosophers but as wise men1 for you are professing to teach them what very few philosophers have grasped4 ,what a wealth of interesting objects1 towards which the curiosity of our pupil may be directed without ever quitting the real and material relations he can understand1 and without permitting the formation of a single idea beyond his grasp6 ,the teacher's art consists in this3 ,to turn the child's attention from trivial details and to guide his thoughts continually towards relations of importance which he will one day need to know1 that he may judge rightly of good and evil in human society4 ,the teacher must be able to adapt the conversation with which he amuses his pupil to the turn already given to his mind4 ,a problem which another child would never heed will torment ,emile half a year4 ,we are going to dine with wealthy people2 when we get there everything is ready for a feast1 many guests1 many servants1 many dishes1 dainty and elegant china4 ,there is something intoxicating in all these preparations for pleasure and festivity when you are not used to them4 ,i see how they will affect my young pupil4 ,while dinner is going on1 while course follows course1 and conversation is loud around us1 ,i whisper in his ear1 ,how many hands do you suppose the things on this table passed through before they got here8 ,what a crowd of ideas is called up by these few words4 ,in a moment the mists of excitement have rolled away4 ,he is thinking1 considering1 calculating1 and anxious4 ,the child is philosophising1 while philosophers1 excited by wine or perhaps by female society1 are babbling like children4 ,if he asks questions ,i decline to answer and put him off to another day4 ,he becomes impatient1 he forgets to eat and drink1 he longs to get away from table and talk as he pleases4 ,what an object of curiosity1 what a text for instruction4 ,nothing has so far succeeded in corrupting his healthy reason2 what will he think of luxury when he finds that every quarter of the globe has been ransacked1 that some #b1jjj1jjj men have laboured for years1 that many lives have perhaps been sacrificed1 and all to furnish him with fine clothes to be worn at midday and laid by in the wardrobe at night4 ,be sure you observe what private conclusions he draws from all his observations4 ,if you have watched him less carefully than ,i suppose1 his thoughts may be tempted in another direction2 he may consider himself a person of great importance in the world1 when he sees so much labour concentrated on the preparation of his dinner4 ,if you suspect his thoughts will take this direction you can easily prevent it1 or at any rate promptly efface the false impression4 ,as yet he can only appropriate things by personal enjoyment1 he can only judge of their fitness or unfitness by their outward effects4 ,compare a plain rustic meal1 preceded by exercise1 seasoned by hunger1 freedom1 and delight1 with this magnificent but tedious repast4 ,this will suffice to make him realise that he has got no real advantage from the splendour of the feast1 that his stomach was as well satisfied when he left the table of the peasant1 as when he left the table of the banker2 from neither had he gained anything he could really call his own4 ,just fancy what a tutor might say to him on such an occasion4 ,consider the two dinners and decide for yourself which gave you most pleasure1 which seemed the merriest1 at which did you eat and drink most heartily1 which was the least tedious and required least change of courses8 ,yet note the difference--this black bread you so enjoy is made from the peasant's own harvest2 his wine is dark in colour and of a common kind1 but wholesome and refreshing2 it was made in his own vineyard2 the cloth is made of his own hemp1 spun and woven in the winter by his wife and daughters and the maid2 no hands but theirs have touched the food4 ,his world is bounded by the nearest mill and the next market4 ,how far did you enjoy all that the produce of distant lands and the service of many people had prepared for you at the other dinner8 ,if you did not get a better meal1 what good did this wealth do you8 how much of it was made for you8 ,had you been the master of the house1 the tutor might say1 it would have been of still less use to you2 for the anxiety of displaying your enjoyment before the eyes of others would have robbed you of it2 the pains would be yours1 the pleasure theirs4 ,this may be a very fine speech1 but it would be thrown away upon ,emile1 as he cannot understand it1 and he does not accept second-hand opinions4 ,speak more simply to him4 ,after these two experiences1 say to him some day1 ,where shall we have our dinner to-day8 ,where that mountain of silver covered three quarters of the table and those beds of artificial flowers on looking glass were served with the dessert1 where those smart ladies treated you as a toy and pretended you said what you did not mean2 or in that village two leagues away1 with those good people who were so pleased to see us and gave us such delicious cream8 ,emile will not hesitate2 he is not vain and he is no chatterbox2 he cannot endure constraint1 and he does not care for fine dishes2 but he is always ready for a run in the country and is very fond of good fruit and vegetables1 sweet cream and kindly people4 ,footnote3 ,this taste1 which ,i assume my pupil to have acquired1 is a natural result of his education4 ,moreover1 he has nothing foppish or affected about him1 so that the ladies take little notice of him and he is less petted than other children2 therefore he does not care for them1 and is less spoilt by their company2 he is not yet of an age to feel its charm4 ,i have taken care not to teach him to kiss their hands1 to pay them compliments1 or even to be more polite to them than to men4 ,it is my constant rule to ask nothing from him but what he can understand1 and there is no good reason why a child should treat one sex differently from the other4 ,on our way1 the thought will occur to him1 ,all those people who laboured to prepare that grand feast were either wasting their time or they have no idea how to enjoy themselves4 ,my example may be right for one child and wrong for the rest4 ,if you enter into their way of looking at things you will know how to vary your instances as required2 the choice depends on the study of the individual temperament1 and this study in turn depends on the opportunities which occur to show this temperament4 ,you will not suppose that1 in the three or four years at our disposal1 even the most gifted child can get an idea of all the arts and sciences1 sufficient to enable him to study them for himself when he is older2 but by bringing before him what he needs to know1 we enable him to develop his own tastes1 his own talents1 to take the first step towards the object which appeals to his individuality and to show us the road we must open up to aid the work of nature4 ,there is another advantage of these trains of limited but exact bits of knowledge2 he learns by their connection and interdependence how to rank them in his own estimation and to be on his guard against those prejudices1 common to most men1 which draw them towards the gifts they themselves cultivate and away from those they have neglected4 ,the man who clearly sees the whole1 sees where each part should be2 the man who sees one part clearly and knows it thoroughly may be a learned man1 but the former is a wise man1 and you remember it is wisdom rather than knowledge that we hope to acquire4 ,however that may be1 my method does not depend on my examples2 it depends on the amount of a man's powers at different ages1 and the choice of occupations adapted to those powers4 ,i think it would be easy to find a method which appeared to give better results1 but if it were less suited to the type1 sex1 and age of the scholar1 ,i doubt whether the results would really be as good4 ,at the beginning of this second period we took advantage of the fact that our strength was more than enough for our needs1 to enable us to get outside ourselves4 ,we have ranged the heavens and measured the earth2 we have sought out the laws of nature2 we have explored the whole of our island4 ,now let us return to ourselves1 let us unconsciously approach our own dwelling4 ,we are happy indeed if we do not find it already occupied by the dreaded foe1 who is preparing to seize it4 ,what remains to be done when we have observed all that lies around us8 ,we must turn to our own use all that we can get1 we must increase our comfort by means of our curiosity4 ,hitherto we have provided ourselves with tools of all kinds1 not knowing which we require4 ,perhaps those we do not want will be useful to others1 and perhaps we may need theirs4 ,thus we discover the use of exchange2 but for this we must know each other's needs1 what tools other people use1 what they can offer in exchange4 ,given ten men1 each of them has ten different requirements4 ,to get what he needs for himself each must work at ten different trades2 but considering our different talents1 one will do better at this trade1 another at that4 ,each of them1 fitted for one thing1 will work at all1 and will be badly served4 ,let us form these ten men into a society1 and let each devote himself to the trade for which he is best adapted1 and let him work at it for himself and for the rest4 ,each will reap the advantage of the others' talents1 just as if they were his own2 by practice each will perfect his own talent1 and thus all the ten1 well provided for1 will still have something to spare for others4 ,this is the plain foundation of all our institutions4 ,it is not my aim to examine its results here2 ,i have done so in another book 7,discours sur l'inegalite74 ,according to this principle1 any one who wanted to consider himself as an isolated individual1 self-sufficing and independent of others1 could only be utterly wretched4 ,he could not even continue to exist1 for finding the whole earth appropriated by others while he had only himself1 how could he get the means of subsistence8 ,when we leave the state of nature we compel others to do the same2 no one can remain in a state of nature in spite of his fellow-creatures1 and to try to remain in it when it is no longer practicable1 would really be to leave it1 for self-preservation is nature's first law4 ,thus the idea of social relations is gradually developed in the child's mind1 before he can really be an active member of human society4 ,emile sees that to get tools for his own use1 other people must have theirs1 and that he can get in exchange what he needs and they possess4 ,i easily bring him to feel the need of such exchange and to take advantage of it4 ,sir1 ,i must live1 said a miserable writer of lampoons to the minister who reproved him for his infamous trade4 ,i do not see the necessity1 replied the great man coldly4 ,this answer1 excellent from the minister1 would have been barbarous and untrue in any other mouth4 ,every man must live2 this argument1 which appeals to every one with more or less force in proportion to his humanity1 strikes me as unanswerable when applied to oneself4 ,since our dislike of death is the strongest of those aversions nature has implanted in us1 it follows that everything is permissible to the man who has no other means of living4 ,the principles1 which teach the good man to count his life a little thing and to sacrifice it at duty's call1 are far removed from this primitive simplicity4 ,happy are those nations where one can be good without effort1 and just without conscious virtue4 ,if in this world there is any condition so miserable that one cannot live without wrong-doing1 where the citizen is driven into evil1 you should hang1 not the criminal1 but those who drove him into crime4 ,as soon as ,emile knows what life is1 my first care will be to teach him to preserve his life4 ,hitherto ,i have made no distinction of condition1 rank1 station1 or fortune2 nor shall ,i distinguish between them in the future1 since man is the same in every station2 the rich man's stomach is no bigger than the poor man's1 nor is his digestion any better2 the master's arm is neither longer nor stronger than the slave's2 a great man is no taller than one of the people1 and indeed the natural needs are the same to all1 and the means of satisfying them should be equally within the reach of all4 ,fit a man's education to his real self1 not to what is no part of him4 ,do you not see that in striving to fit him merely for one station1 you are unfitting him for anything else1 so that some caprice of ,fortune may make your work really harmful to him8 ,what could be more absurd than a nobleman in rags1 who carries with him into his poverty the prejudices of his birth8 ,what is more despicable than a rich man fallen into poverty1 who recalls the scorn with which he himself regarded the poor1 and feels that he has sunk to the lowest depth of degradation8 ,the one may become a professional thief1 the other a cringing servant1 with this fine saying1 ,i must live4 ,you reckon on the present order of society1 without considering that this order is itself subject to inscrutable changes1 and that you can neither foresee nor provide against the revolution which may affect your children4 ,the great become small1 the rich poor1 the king a commoner4 ,does fate strike so seldom that you can count on immunity from her blows8 ,the crisis is approaching1 and we are on the edge of a revolution4 ,footnote3 ,in my opinion it is impossible that the great kingdoms of ,europe should last much longer4 ,each of them has had its period of splendour1 after which it must inevitably decline4 ,i have my own opinions as to the special applications of this general statement1 but this is not the place to enter into details1 and they are only too evident to everybody4 ,who can answer for your fate8 ,what man has made1 man may destroy4 ,nature's characters alone are ineffaceable1 and nature makes neither the prince1 the rich man1 nor the nobleman4 ,this satrap whom you have educated for greatness1 what will become of him in his degradation8 ,this farmer of the taxes who can only live on gold1 what will he do in poverty8 ,this haughty fool who cannot use his own hands1 who prides himself on what is not really his1 what will he do when he is stripped of all8 ,in that day1 happy will he be who can give up the rank which is no longer his1 and be still a man in ,fate's despite4 ,let men praise as they will that conquered monarch who like a madman would be buried beneath the fragments of his throne2 ,i behold him with scorn2 to me he is merely a crown1 and when that is gone he is nothing4 ,but he who loses his crown and lives without it1 is more than a king2 from the rank of a king1 which may be held by a coward1 a villain1 or madman1 he rises to the rank of a man1 a position few can fill4 ,thus he triumphs over ,fortune1 he dares to look her in the face2 he depends on himself alone1 and when he has nothing left to show but himself he is not a nonentity1 he is somebody4 ,better a thousandfold the king of ,corinth a schoolmaster at ,syracuse1 than a wretched ,tarquin1 unable to be anything but a king1 or the heir of the ruler of three kingdoms1 the sport of all who would scorn his poverty1 wandering from court to court in search of help1 and finding nothing but insults1 for want of knowing any trade but one which he can no longer practise4 ,the man and the citizen1 whoever he may be1 has no property to invest in society but himself1 all his other goods belong to society in spite of himself1 and when a man is rich1 either he does not enjoy his wealth1 or the public enjoys it too2 in the first case he robs others as well as himself2 in the second he gives them nothing4 ,thus his debt to society is still unpaid1 while he only pays with his property4 ,but my father was serving society while he was acquiring his wealth4 ,just so2 he paid his own debt1 not yours4 ,you owe more to others than if you had been born with nothing1 since you were born under favourable conditions4 ,it is not fair that what one man has done for society should pay another's debt1 for since every man owes all that he is1 he can only pay his own debt1 and no father can transmit to his son any right to be of no use to mankind4 ,but1 you say1 this is just what he does when he leaves me his wealth1 the reward of his labour4 ,the man who eats in idleness what he has not himself earned1 is a thief1 and in my eyes1 the man who lives on an income paid him by the state for doing nothing1 differs little from a highwayman who lives on those who travel his way4 ,outside the pale of society1 the solitary1 owing nothing to any man1 may live as he pleases1 but in society either he lives at the cost of others1 or he owes them in labour the cost of his keep2 there is no exception to this rule4 ,man in society is bound to work2 rich or poor1 weak or strong1 every idler is a thief4 ,now of all the pursuits by which a man may earn his living1 the nearest to a state of nature is manual labour2 of all stations that of the artisan is least dependent on ,fortune4 ,the artisan depends on his labour alone1 he is a free man while the ploughman is a slave2 for the latter depends on his field where the crops may be destroyed by others4 ,an enemy1 a prince1 a powerful neighbour1 or a law-suit may deprive him of his field2 through this field he may be harassed in all sorts of ways4 ,but if the artisan is ill-treated his goods are soon packed and he takes himself off4 ,yet agriculture is the earliest1 the most honest of trades1 and more useful than all the rest1 and therefore more honourable for those who practise it4 ,i do not say to ,emile1 ,study agriculture1 he is already familiar with it4 ,he is acquainted with every kind of rural labour1 it was his first occupation1 and he returns to it continually4 ,so ,i say to him1 ,cultivate your father's lands1 but if you lose this inheritance1 or if you have none to lose1 what will you do8 ,learn a trade4 ,a trade for my son6 ,my son a working man6 ,what are you thinking of1 sir8 ,madam1 my thoughts are wiser than yours2 you want to make him fit for nothing but a lord1 a marquis1 or a prince2 and some day he may be less than nothing4 ,i want to give him a rank which he cannot lose1 a rank which will always do him honour2 ,i want to raise him to the status of a man1 and1 whatever you may say1 he will have fewer equals in that rank than in your own4 ,the letter killeth1 the spirit giveth life4 ,learning a trade matters less than overcoming the prejudices he despises4 ,you will never be reduced to earning your livelihood2 so much the worse for you4 ,no matter2 work for honour1 not for need3 stoop to the position of a working man1 to rise above your own4 ,to conquer ,fortune and everything else1 begin by independence4 ,to rule through public opinion1 begin by ruling over it4 ,remember ,i demand no talent1 only a trade1 a genuine trade1 a mere mechanical art1 in which the hands work harder than the head1 a trade which does not lead to fortune but makes you independent of her4 ,in households far removed from all danger of want ,i have known fathers carry prudence to such a point as to provide their children not only with ordinary teaching but with knowledge by means of which they could get a living if anything happened4 ,these far-sighted parents thought they were doing a great thing4 ,it is nothing1 for the resources they fancy they have secured depend on that very fortune of which they would make their children independent2 so that unless they found themselves in circumstances fitted for the display of their talents1 they would die of hunger as if they had none4 ,as soon as it is a question of influence and intrigue you may as well use these means to keep yourself in plenty1 as to acquire1 in the depths of poverty1 the means of returning to your former position4 ,if you cultivate the arts which depend on the artist's reputation1 if you fit yourself for posts which are only obtained by favour1 how will that help you when1 rightly disgusted with the world1 you scorn the steps by which you must climb4 ,you have studied politics and state-craft1 so far so good2 but how will you use this knowledge1 if you cannot gain the ear of the ministers1 the favourites1 or the officials8 if you have not the secret of winning their favour1 if they fail to find you a rogue to their taste8 ,you are an architect or a painter2 well and good2 but your talents must be displayed4 ,do you suppose you can exhibit in the salon without further ado8 ,that is not the way to set about it4 ,lay aside the rule and the pencil1 take a cab and drive from door to door2 there is the road to fame4 ,now you must know that the doors of the great are guarded by porters and flunkeys1 who only understand one language1 and their ears are in their palms4 ,if you wish to teach what you have learned1 geography1 mathematics1 languages1 music1 drawing1 even to find pupils1 you must have friends who will sing your praises4 ,learning1 remember1 gains more credit than skill1 and with no trade but your own none will believe in your skill4 ,see how little you can depend on these fine ,resources1 and how many other resources are required before you can use what you have got4 ,and what will become of you in your degradation8 ,misfortune will make you worse rather than better4 ,more than ever the sport of public opinion1 how will you rise above the prejudices on which your fate depends8 ,how will you despise the vices and the baseness from which you get your living8 ,you were dependent on wealth1 now you are dependent on the wealthy2 you are still a slave and a poor man into the bargain4 ,poverty without freedom1 can a man sink lower than this6 ,but if instead of this recondite learning adapted to feed the mind1 not the body1 you have recourse1 at need1 to your hands and your handiwork1 there is no call for deceit1 your trade is ready when required4 ,honour and honesty will not stand in the way of your living4 ,you need no longer cringe and lie to the great1 nor creep and crawl before rogues1 a despicable flatterer of both1 a borrower or a thief1 for there is little to choose between them when you are penniless4 ,other people's opinions are no concern of yours1 you need not pay court to any one1 there is no fool to flatter1 no flunkey to bribe1 no woman to win over4 ,let rogues conduct the affairs of state2 in your lowly rank you can still be an honest man and yet get a living4 ,you walk into the first workshop of your trade4 ,master1 ,i want work4 ,comrade1 take your place and work4 ,before dinner-time you have earned your dinner4 ,if you are sober and industrious1 before the week is out you will have earned your keep for another week2 you will have lived in freedom1 health1 truth1 industry1 and righteousness4 ,time is not wasted when it brings these returns4 ,emile shall learn a trade4 ,an honest trade1 at least1 you say4 ,what do you mean by honest8 ,is not every useful trade honest8 ,i would not make an embroiderer1 a gilder1 a polisher of him1 like ,locke's young gentleman4 ,neither would ,i make him a musician1 an actor1 or an author4,footnote3 ,you are an author yourself1 you will reply4 ,yes1 for my sins2 and my ill deeds1 which ,i think ,i have fully expiated1 are no reason why others should be like me4 ,i do not write to excuse my faults1 but to prevent my readers from copying them4 ,with the exception of these and others like them1 let him choose his own trade1 ,i do not mean to interfere with his choice4 ,i would rather have him a shoemaker than a poet1 ,i would rather he paved streets than painted flowers on china4 ,but1 you will say1 policemen1 spies1 and hangmen are useful people4 ,there would be no use for them if it were not for the government4 ,but let that pass4 ,i was wrong4 ,it is not enough to choose an honest trade1 it must be a trade which does not develop detestable qualities in the mind1 qualities incompatible with humanity4 ,to return to our original expression1 ,let us choose an honest trade1 but let us remember there can be no honesty without usefulness4 ,a famous writer of this century1 whose books are full of great schemes and narrow views1 was under a vow1 like the other priests of his communion1 not to take a wife4 ,finding himself more scrupulous than others with regard to his neighbour's wife1 he decided1 so they say1 to employ pretty servants1 and so did his best to repair the wrong done to the race by his rash promise4 ,he thought it the duty of a citizen to breed children for the state1 and he made his children artisans4 ,as soon as they were old enough they were taught whatever trade they chose2 only idle or useless trades were excluded1 such as that of the wigmaker who is never necessary1 and may any day cease to be required1 so long as nature does not get tired of providing us with hair4 ,this spirit shall guide our choice of trade for ,emile1 or rather1 not our choice but his2 for the maxims he has imbibed make him despise useless things1 and he will never be content to waste his time on vain labours2 his trade must be of use to ,robinson on his island4 ,when we review with the child the productions of art and nature1 when we stimulate his curiosity and follow its lead1 we have great opportunities of studying his tastes and inclinations1 and perceiving the first spark of genius1 if he has any decided talent in any direction4 ,you must1 however1 be on your guard against the common error which mistakes the effects of environment for the ardour of genius1 or imagines there is a decided bent towards any one of the arts1 when there is nothing more than that spirit of emulation1 common to men and monkeys1 which impels them instinctively to do what they see others doing1 without knowing why4 ,the world is full of artisans1 and still fuller of artists1 who have no native gift for their calling1 into which they were driven in early childhood1 either through the conventional ideas of other people1 or because those about them were deceived by an appearance of zeal1 which would have led them to take to any other art they saw practised4 ,one hears a drum and fancies he is a general2 another sees a building and wants to be an architect4 ,every one is drawn towards the trade he sees before him if he thinks it is held in honour4 ,i once knew a footman who watched his master drawing and painting and took it into his head to become a designer and artist4 ,he seized a pencil which he only abandoned for a paint-brush1 to which he stuck for the rest of his days4 ,without teaching or rules of art he began to draw everything he saw4 ,three whole years were devoted to these daubs1 from which nothing but his duties could stir him1 nor was he discouraged by the small progress resulting from his very mediocre talents4 ,i have seen him spend the whole of a broiling summer in a little ante-room towards the south1 a room where one was suffocated merely passing through it2 there he was1 seated or rather nailed all day to his chair1 before a globe1 drawing it again and again and yet again1 with invincible obstinacy till he had reproduced the rounded surface to his own satisfaction4 ,at last with his master's help and under the guidance of an artist he got so far as to abandon his livery and live by his brush4 ,perseverance does instead of talent up to a certain point2 he got so far1 but no further4 ,this honest lad's perseverance and ambition are praiseworthy2 he will always be respected for his industry and steadfastness of purpose1 but his paintings will always be third-rate4 ,who would not have been deceived by his zeal and taken it for real talent6 ,there is all the difference in the world between a liking and an aptitude4 ,to make sure of real genius or real taste in a child calls for more accurate observations than is generally suspected1 for the child displays his wishes not his capacity1 and we judge by the former instead of considering the latter4 ,i wish some trustworthy person would give us a treatise on the art of child-study4 ,this art is well worth studying1 but neither parents nor teachers have mastered its elements4 ,perhaps we are laying too much stress on the choice of a trade2 as it is a manual occupation1 ,emile's choice is no great matter1 and his apprenticeship is more than half accomplished already1 through the exercises which have hitherto occupied him4 ,what would you have him do8 ,he is ready for anything4 ,he can handle the spade and hoe1 he can use the lathe1 hammer1 plane1 or file2 he is already familiar with these tools which are common to many trades4 ,he only needs to acquire sufficient skill in the use of any one of them to rival the speed1 the familiarity1 and the diligence of good workmen1 and he will have a great advantage over them in suppleness of body and limb1 so that he can easily take any position and can continue any kind of movements without effort4 ,moreover his senses are acute and well-practised1 he knows the principles of the various trades2 to work like a master of his craft he only needs experience1 and experience comes with practice4 ,to which of these trades which are open to us will he give sufficient time to make himself master of it8 ,that is the whole question4 ,give a man a trade befitting his sex1 to a young man a trade befitting his age4 ,sedentary indoor employments1 which make the body tender and effeminate1 are neither pleasing nor suitable4 ,no lad ever wanted to be a tailor4 ,it takes some art to attract a man to this woman's work4,footnote3 ,there were no tailors among the ancients2 men's clothes were made at home by the women4 ,the same hand cannot hold the needle and the sword4 ,if ,i were king ,i would only allow needlework and dressmaking to be done by women and cripples who are obliged to work at such trades4 ,if eunuchs were required ,i think the ,easterns were very foolish to make them on purpose4 ,why not take those provided by nature1 that crowd of base persons without natural feeling8 ,there would be enough and to spare4 ,the weak1 feeble1 timid man is condemned by nature to a sedentary life1 he is fit to live among women or in their fashion4 ,let him adopt one of their trades if he likes2 and if there must be eunuchs let them take those men who dishonour their sex by adopting trades unworthy of it4 ,their choice proclaims a blunder on the part of nature2 correct it one way or other1 you will do no harm4 ,an unhealthy trade ,i forbid to my pupil1 but not a difficult or dangerous one4 ,he will exercise himself in strength and courage2 such trades are for men not women1 who claim no share in them4 ,are not men ashamed to poach upon the women's trades8 ,luctantur paucae1 comedunt coliphia paucae4 ,vos lanam trahitis1 calathisque peracta refertis ,vellera4--,juven4 ,sat4 ,,ii4 ,v4 #ee4 ,women are not seen in shops in ,italy1 and to persons accustomed to the streets of ,england and ,france nothing could look gloomier4 ,when ,i saw drapers selling ladies ribbons1 pompons1 net1 and chenille1 ,i thought these delicate ornaments very absurd in the coarse hands fit to blow the bellows and strike the anvil4 ,i said to myself1 ,in this country women should set up as steel-polishers and armourers4 ,let each make and sell the weapons of his or her own sex2 knowledge is acquired through use4 ,i know ,i have said too much for my agreeable contemporaries1 but ,i sometimes let myself be carried away by my argument4 ,if any one is ashamed to be seen wearing a leathern apron or handling a plane1 ,i think him a mere slave of public opinion1 ready to blush for what is right when people poke fun at it4 ,but let us yield to parents' prejudices so long as they do not hurt the children4 ,to honour trades we are not obliged to practise every one of them1 so long as we do not think them beneath us4 ,when the choice is ours and we are under no compulsion1 why not choose the pleasanter1 more attractive and more suitable trade4 ,metal work is useful1 more useful1 perhaps1 than the rest1 but unless for some special reason ,emile shall not be a blacksmith1 a locksmith nor an iron-worker4 ,i do not want to see him a ,cyclops at the forge4 ,neither would ,i have him a mason1 still less a shoemaker4 ,all trades must be carried on1 but when the choice is ours1 cleanliness should be taken into account2 this is not a matter of class prejudice1 our senses are our guides4 ,in conclusion1 ,i do not like those stupid trades in which the workmen mechanically perform the same action without pause and almost without mental effort4 ,weaving1 stocking-knitting1 stone-cutting2 why employ intelligent men on such work8 it is merely one machine employed on another4 ,all things considered1 the trade ,i should choose for my pupil1 among the trades he likes1 is that of a carpenter4 ,it is clean and useful2 it may be carried on at home2 it gives enough exercise2 it calls for skill and industry1 and while fashioning articles for everyday use1 there is scope for elegance and taste4 ,if your pupil's talents happened to take a scientific turn1 ,i should not blame you if you gave him a trade in accordance with his tastes1 for instance1 he might learn to make mathematical instruments1 glasses1 telescopes1 etc4 ,when ,emile learns his trade ,i shall learn it too4 ,i am convinced he will never learn anything thoroughly unless we learn it together4 ,so we shall both serve our apprenticeship1 and we do not mean to be treated as gentlemen1 but as real apprentices who are not there for fun2 why should not we actually be apprenticed8 ,peter the ,great was a ship's carpenter and drummer to his own troops2 was not that prince at least your equal in birth and merit8 ,you understand this is addressed not to ,emile but to you--to you1 whoever you may be4 ,unluckily we cannot spend the whole of our time at the workshop4 ,we are not only 'prentice-carpenters but 'prentice-men--a trade whose apprenticeship is longer and more exacting than the rest4 ,what shall we do8 ,shall we take a master to teach us the use of the plane and engage him by the hour like the dancing-master8 ,in that case we should be not apprentices but students1 and our ambition is not merely to learn carpentry but to be carpenters4 ,once or twice a week ,i think we should spend the whole day at our master's2 we should get up when he does1 we should be at our work before him1 we should take our meals with him1 work under his orders1 and after having had the honour of supping at his table we may if we please return to sleep upon our own hard beds4 ,this is the way to learn several trades at once1 to learn to do manual work without neglecting our apprenticeship to life4 ,let us do what is right without ostentation2 let us not fall into vanity through our efforts to resist it4 ,to pride ourselves on our victory over prejudice is to succumb to prejudice4 ,it is said that in accordance with an old custom of the ,ottomans1 the sultan is obliged to work with his hands1 and1 as every one knows1 the handiwork of a king is a masterpiece4 ,so he royally distributes his masterpieces among the great lords of the ,porte and the price paid is in accordance with the rank of the workman4 ,it is not this so-called abuse to which ,i object2 on the contrary1 it is an advantage1 and by compelling the lords to share with him the spoils of the people it is so much the less necessary for the prince to plunder the people himself4 ,despotism needs some such relaxation1 and without it that hateful rule could not last4 ,the real evil in such a custom is the idea it gives that poor man of his own worth4 ,like ,king ,midas he sees all things turn to gold at his touch1 but he does not see the ass' ears growing4 ,let us keep ,emile's hands from money lest he should become an ass1 let him take the work but not the wages4 ,never let his work be judged by any standard but that of the work of a master4 ,let it be judged as work1 not because it is his4 ,if anything is well done1 ,i say1 ,that is a good piece of work1 but do not ask who did it4 ,if he is pleased and proud and says1 ,i did it1 answer indifferently1 ,no matter who did it1 it is well done4 ,good mother1 be on your guard against the deceptions prepared for you4 ,if your son knows many things1 distrust his knowledge2 if he is unlucky enough to be rich and educated in ,paris he is ruined4 ,as long as there are clever artists he will have every talent1 but apart from his masters he will have none4 ,in ,paris a rich man knows everything1 it is the poor who are ignorant4 ,our capital is full of amateurs1 especially women1 who do their work as ,m4 ,gillaume invents his colours4 ,among the men ,i know three striking exceptions1 among the women ,i know no exceptions1 and ,i doubt if there are any4 ,in a general way a man becomes an artist and a judge of art as he becomes a ,doctor of ,laws and a magistrate4 ,if then it is once admitted that it is a fine thing to have a trade1 your children would soon have one without learning it4 ,they would become postmasters like the councillors of ,zurich4 ,let us have no such ceremonies for ,emile2 let it be the real thing not the sham4 ,do not say what he knows1 let him learn in silence4 ,let him make his masterpiece1 but not be hailed as master2 let him be a workman not in name but in deed4 ,if ,i have made my meaning clear you ought to realise how bodily exercise and manual work unconsciously arouse thought and reflexion in my pupil1 and counteract the idleness which might result from his indifference to men's judgments1 and his freedom from passion4 ,he must work like a peasant and think like a philosopher1 if he is not to be as idle as a savage4 ,the great secret of education is to use exercise of mind and body as relaxation one to the other4 ,but beware of anticipating teaching which demands more maturity of mind4 ,emile will not long be a workman before he discovers those social inequalities he had not previously observed4 ,he will want to question me in turn on the maxims ,i have given him1 maxims he is able to understand4 ,when he derives everything from me1 when he is so nearly in the position of the poor1 he will want to know why ,i am so far removed from it4 ,all of a sudden he may put scathing questions to me4 ,you are rich1 you tell me1 and ,i see you are4 ,a rich man owes his work to the community like the rest because he is a man4 ,what are you doing for the community8 ,what would a fine tutor say to that8 ,i do not know4 ,he would perhaps be foolish enough to talk to the child of the care he bestows upon him4 ,the workshop will get me out of the difficulty4 ,my dear ,emile that is a very good question2 ,i will undertake to answer for myself1 when you can answer for yourself to your own satisfaction4 ,meanwhile ,i will take care to give what ,i can spare to you and to the poor1 and to make a table or a bench every week1 so as not to be quite useless4 ,we have come back to ourselves4 ,having entered into possession of himself1 our child is now ready to cease to be a child4 ,he is more than ever conscious of the necessity which makes him dependent on things4 ,after exercising his body and his senses you have exercised his mind and his judgment4 ,finally we have joined together the use of his limbs and his faculties4 ,we have made him a worker and a thinker2 we have now to make him loving and tender-hearted1 to perfect reason through feeling4 ,but before we enter on this new order of things1 let us cast an eye over the stage we are leaving behind us1 and perceive as clearly as we can how far we have got4 ,at first our pupil had merely sensations1 now he has ideas2 he could only feel1 now he reasons4 ,for from the comparison of many successive or simultaneous sensations and the judgment arrived at with regard to them1 there springs a sort of mixed or complex sensation which ,i call an idea4 ,the way in which ideas are formed gives a character to the human mind4 ,the mind which derives its ideas from real relations is thorough2 the mind which relies on apparent relations is superficial4 ,he who sees relations as they are has an exact mind2 he who fails to estimate them aright has an inaccurate mind2 he who concocts imaginary relations1 which have no real existence1 is a madman2 he who does not perceive any relation at all is an imbecile4 ,clever men are distinguished from others by their greater or less aptitude for the comparison of ideas and the discovery of relations between them4 ,simple ideas consist merely of sensations compared one with another4 ,simple sensations involve judgments1 as do the complex sensations which ,i call simple ideas4 ,in the sensation the judgment is purely passive2 it affirms that ,i feel what ,i feel4 ,in the percept or idea the judgment is active2 it connects1 compares1 it discriminates between relations not perceived by the senses4 ,that is the whole difference2 but it is a great difference4 ,nature never deceives us2 we deceive ourselves4 ,i see some one giving an ice-cream to an eight-year-old child2 he does not know what it is and puts the spoon in his mouth4 ,struck by the cold he cries out1 ,oh1 it burns6 ,he feels a very keen sensation1 and the heat of the fire is the keenest sensation he knows1 so he thinks that is what he feels4 ,yet he is mistaken2 cold hurts1 but it does not burn2 and these two sensations are different1 for persons with more experience do not confuse them4 ,so it is not the sensation that is wrong1 but the judgment formed with regard to it4 ,it is just the same with those who see a mirror or some optical instrument for the first time1 or enter a deep cellar in the depths of winter or at midsummer1 or dip a very hot or cold hand into tepid water1 or roll a little ball between two crossed fingers4 ,if they are content to say what they really feel1 their judgment1 being purely passive1 cannot go wrong2 but when they judge according to appearances1 their judgment is active2 it compares and establishes by induction relations which are not really perceived4 ,then these inductions may or may not be mistaken4 ,experience is required to correct or prevent error4 ,show your pupil the clouds at night passing between himself and the moon2 he will think the moon is moving in the opposite direction and that the clouds are stationary4 ,he will think this through a hasty induction1 because he generally sees small objects moving and larger ones at rest1 and the clouds seems larger than the moon1 whose distance is beyond his reckoning4 ,when he watches the shore from a moving boat he falls into the opposite mistake and thinks the earth is moving because he does not feel the motion of the boat and considers it along with the sea or river as one motionless whole1 of which the shore1 which appears to move1 forms no part4 ,the first time a child sees a stick half immersed in water he thinks he sees a broken stick2 the sensation is true and would not cease to be true even if he knew the reason of this appearance4 ,so if you ask him what he sees1 he replies1 ,a broken stick1 for he is quite sure he is experiencing this sensation4 ,but when deceived by his judgment he goes further and1 after saying he sees a broken stick1 he affirms that it really is broken he says what is not true4 ,why8 ,because he becomes active and judges no longer by observation but by induction1 he affirms what he does not perceive1 i4e41 that the judgment he receives through one of his senses would be confirmed by another4 ,since all our errors arise in our judgment1 it is clear1 that had we no need for judgment1 we should not need to learn2 we should never be liable to mistakes1 we should be happier in our ignorance than we can be in our knowledge4 ,who can deny that a vast number of things are known to the learned1 which the unlearned will never know8 ,are the learned any nearer truth8 ,not so1 the further they go the further they get from truth1 for their pride in their judgment increases faster than their progress in knowledge1 so that for every truth they acquire they draw a hundred mistaken conclusions4 ,every one knows that the learned societies of ,europe are mere schools of falsehood1 and there are assuredly more mistaken notions in the ,academy of ,sciences than in a whole tribe of ,american ,indians4 ,the more we know1 the more mistakes we make2 therefore ignorance is the only way to escape error4 ,form no judgments and you will never be mistaken4 ,this is the teaching both of nature and reason4 ,we come into direct contact with very few things1 and these are very readily perceived2 the rest we regard with profound indifference4 ,a savage will not turn his head to watch the working of the finest machinery or all the wonders of electricity4 ,what does that matter to me8 is the common saying of the ignorant2 it is the fittest phrase for the wise4 ,unluckily this phrase will no longer serve our turn4 ,everything matters to us1 as we are dependent on everything1 and our curiosity naturally increases with our needs4 ,this is why ,i attribute much curiosity to the man of science and none to the savage4 ,the latter needs no help from anybody2 the former requires every one1 and admirers most of all4 ,you will tell me ,i am going beyond nature4 ,i think not4 ,she chooses her instruments and orders them1 not according to fancy1 but necessity4 ,now a man's needs vary with his circumstances4 ,there is all the difference in the world between a natural man living in a state of nature1 and a natural man living in society4 ,emile is no savage to be banished to the desert1 he is a savage who has to live in the town4 ,he must know how to get his living in a town1 how to use its inhabitants1 and how to live among them1 if not of them4 ,in the midst of so many new relations and dependent on them1 he must reason whether he wants to or no4 ,let us therefore teach him to reason correctly4 ,the best way of learning to reason aright is that which tends to simplify our experiences1 or to enable us to dispense with them altogether without falling into error4 ,hence it follows that we must learn to confirm the experiences of each sense by itself1 without recourse to any other1 though we have been in the habit of verifying the experience of one sense by that of another4 ,then each of our sensations will become an idea1 and this idea will always correspond to the truth4 ,this is the sort of knowledge ,i have tried to accumulate during this third phase of man's life4 ,this method of procedure demands a patience and circumspection which few teachers possess2 without them the scholar will never learn to reason4 ,for example1 if you hasten to take the stick out of the water when the child is deceived by its appearance1 you may perhaps undeceive him1 but what have you taught him8 ,nothing more than he would soon have learnt for himself4 ,that is not the right thing to do4 ,you have not got to teach him truths so much as to show him how to set about discovering them for himself4 ,to teach him better you must not be in such a hurry to correct his mistakes4 ,let us take ,emile and myself as an illustration4 ,to begin with1 any child educated in the usual way could not fail to answer the second of my imaginary questions in the affirmative4 ,he will say1 ,that is certainly a broken stick4 ,i very much doubt whether ,emile will give the same reply4 ,he sees no reason for knowing everything or pretending to know it2 he is never in a hurry to draw conclusions4 ,he only reasons from evidence and on this occasion he has not got the evidence4 ,he knows how appearances deceive us1 if only through perspective4 ,moreover1 he knows by experience that there is always a reason for my slightest questions1 though he may not see it at once2 so he has not got into the habit of giving silly answers2 on the contrary1 he is on his guard1 he considers things carefully and attentively before answering4 ,he never gives me an answer unless he is satisfied with it himself1 and he is hard to please4 ,lastly we neither of us take any pride in merely knowing a thing1 but only in avoiding mistakes4 ,we should be more ashamed to deceive ourselves with bad reasoning1 than to find no explanation at all4 ,there is no phrase so appropriate to us1 or so often on our lips1 as1 ,i do not know2 neither of us are ashamed to use it4 ,but whether he gives the silly answer or whether he avoids it by our convenient phrase ,i do not know1 my answer is the same4 ,let us examine it4 ,this stick immersed half way in the water is fixed in an upright position4 ,to know if it is broken1 how many things must be done before we take it out of the water or even touch it4 #a4 ,first we walk round it1 and we see that the broken part follows us4 ,so it is only our eye that changes it2 looks do not make things move4 #b4 ,we look straight down on that end of the stick which is above the water1 the stick is no longer bent1 ,footnote3 ,i have since found by more exact experiment that this is not the case4 ,refraction acts in a circle1 and the stick appears larger at the end which is in the water1 but this makes no difference to the strength of the argument1 and the conclusion is correct4 the end near our eye exactly hides the other end4 ,has our eye set the stick straight8 #c4 ,we stir the surface of the water2 we see the stick break into several pieces1 it moves in zigzags and follows the ripples of the water4 ,can the motion we gave the water suffice to break1 soften1 or melt the stick like this8 #d4 ,we draw the water off1 and little by little we see the stick straightening itself as the water sinks4 ,is not this more than enough to clear up the business and to discover refraction8 ,so it is not true that our eyes deceive us1 for nothing more has been required to correct the mistakes attributed to it4 ,suppose the child were stupid enough not to perceive the result of these experiments1 then you must call touch to the help of sight4 ,instead of taking the stick out of the water1 leave it where it is and let the child pass his hand along it from end to end2 he will feel no angle1 therefore the stick is not broken4 ,you will tell me this is not mere judgment but formal reasoning4 ,just so2 but do not you see that as soon as the mind has got any ideas at all1 every judgment is a process of reasoning8 ,so that as soon as we compare one sensation with another1 we are beginning to reason4 ,the art of judging and the art of reasoning are one and the same4 ,emile will never learn dioptrics unless he learns with this stick4 ,he will not have dissected insects nor counted the spots on the sun2 he will not know what you mean by a microscope or a telescope4 ,your learned pupils will laugh at his ignorance and rightly1 ,i intend him to invent these instruments before he uses them1 and you will expect that to take some time4 ,this is the spirit of my whole method at this stage4 ,if the child rolls a little ball between two crossed fingers and thinks he feels two balls1 ,i shall not let him look until he is convinced there is only one4 ,this explanation will suffice1 ,i hope1 to show plainly the progress made by my pupil hitherto and the route followed by him4 ,but perhaps the number of things ,i have brought to his notice alarms you4 ,i shall crush his mind beneath this weight of knowledge4 ,not so1 ,i am rather teaching him to be ignorant of things than to know them4 ,i am showing him the path of science1 easy indeed1 but long1 far-reaching and slow to follow4 ,i am taking him a few steps along this path1 but ,i do not allow him to go far4 ,compelled to learn for himself1 he uses his own reason not that of others1 for there must be no submission to authority if you would have no submission to convention4 ,most of our errors are due to others more than ourselves4 ,this continual exercise should develop a vigour of mind like that acquired by the body through labour and weariness4 ,another advantage is that his progress is in proportion to his strength1 neither mind nor body carries more than it can bear4 ,when the understanding lays hold of things before they are stored in the memory1 what is drawn from that store is his own2 while we are in danger of never finding anything of our own in a memory over-burdened with undigested knowledge4 ,emile knows little1 but what he knows is really his own2 he has no half-knowledge4 ,among the few things he knows and knows thoroughly this is the most valuable1 that there are many things he does not know now but may know some day1 many more that other men know but he will never know1 and an infinite number which nobody will ever know4 ,he is large-minded1 not through knowledge1 but through the power of acquiring it2 he is open-minded1 intelligent1 ready for anything1 and1 as ,montaigne says1 capable of learning if not learned4 ,i am content if he knows the ,wherefore of his actions and the ,why of his beliefs4 ,for once more my object is not to supply him with exact knowledge1 but the means of getting it when required1 to teach him to value it at its true worth1 and to love truth above all things4 ,by this method progress is slow but sure1 and we never need to retrace our steps4 ,emile's knowledge is confined to nature and things4 ,the very name of history is unknown to him1 along with metaphysics and morals4 ,he knows the essential relations between men and things1 but nothing of the moral relations between man and man4 ,he has little power of generalisation1 he has no skill in abstraction4 ,he perceives that certain qualities are common to certain things1 without reasoning about these qualities themselves4 ,he is acquainted with the abstract idea of space by the help of his geometrical figures2 he is acquainted with the abstract idea of quantity by the help of his algebraical symbols4 ,these figures and signs are the supports on which these ideas may be said to rest1 the supports on which his senses repose4 ,he does not attempt to know the nature of things1 but only to know things in so far as they affect himself4 ,he only judges what is outside himself in relation to himself1 and his judgment is exact and certain4 ,caprice and prejudice have no part in it4 ,he values most the things which are of use to himself1 and as he never departs from this standard of values1 he owes nothing to prejudice4 ,emile is industrious1 temperate1 patient1 stedfast1 and full of courage4 ,his imagination is still asleep1 so he has no exaggerated ideas of danger2 the few ills he feels he knows how to endure in patience1 because he has not learnt to rebel against fate4 ,as to death1 he knows not what it means2 but accustomed as he is to submit without resistance to the law of necessity1 he will die1 if die he must1 without a groan and without a struggle2 that is as much as we can demand of nature1 in that hour which we all abhor4 ,to live in freedom1 and to be independent of human affairs1 is the best way to learn how to die4 ,in a word ,emile is possessed of all that portion of virtue which concerns himself4 ,to acquire the social virtues he only needs a knowledge of the relations which make those virtues necessary2 he only lacks knowledge which he is quite ready to receive4 ,he thinks not of others but of himself1 and prefers that others should do the same4 ,he makes no claim upon them1 and acknowledges no debt to them4 ,he is alone in the midst of human society1 he depends on himself alone1 for he is all that a boy can be at his age4 ,he has no errors1 or at least only such as are inevitable2 he has no vices1 or only those from which no man can escape4 ,his body is healthy1 his limbs are supple1 his mind is accurate and unprejudiced1 his heart is free and untroubled by passion4 ,pride1 the earliest and the most natural of passions1 has scarcely shown itself4 ,without disturbing the peace of others1 he has passed his life contented1 happy1 and free1 so far as nature allows4 ,do you think that the earlier years of a child1 who has reached his fifteenth year in this condition1 have been wasted8 ,,book ,,iv ,how swiftly life passes here below6 ,the first quarter of it is gone before we know how to use it2 the last quarter finds us incapable of enjoying life4 ,at first we do not know how to live2 and when we know how to live it is too late4 ,in the interval between these two useless extremes we waste three-fourths of our time sleeping1 working1 sorrowing1 enduring restraint and every kind of suffering4 ,life is short1 not so much because of the short time it lasts1 but because we are allowed scarcely any time to enjoy it4 ,in vain is there a long interval between the hour of death and that of birth2 life is still too short1 if this interval is not well spent4 ,we are born1 so to speak1 twice over2 born into existence1 and born into life2 born a human being1 and born a man4 ,those who regard woman as an imperfect man are no doubt mistaken1 but they have external resemblance on their side4 ,up to the age of puberty children of both sexes have little to distinguish them to the eye1 the same face and form1 the same complexion and voice1 everything is the same2 girls are children and boys are children2 one name is enough for creatures so closely resembling one another4 ,males whose development is arrested preserve this resemblance all their lives2 they are always big children2 and women who never lose this resemblance seem in many respects never to be more than children4 ,but1 speaking generally1 man is not meant to remain a child4 ,he leaves childhood behind him at the time ordained by nature2 and this critical moment1 short enough in itself1 has far-reaching consequences4 ,as the roaring of the waves precedes the tempest1 so the murmur of rising passions announces this tumultuous change2 a suppressed excitement warns us of the approaching danger4 ,a change of temper1 frequent outbreaks of anger1 a perpetual stirring of the mind1 make the child almost ungovernable4 ,he becomes deaf to the voice he used to obey2 he is a lion in a fever2 he distrusts his keeper and refuses to be controlled4 ,with the moral symptoms of a changing temper there are perceptible changes in appearance4 ,his countenance develops and takes the stamp of his character2 the soft and sparse down upon his cheeks becomes darker and stiffer4 ,his voice grows hoarse or rather he loses it altogether4 ,he is neither a child nor a man and cannot speak like either of them4 ,his eyes1 those organs of the soul which till now were dumb1 find speech and meaning2 a kindling fire illumines them1 there is still a sacred innocence in their ever brightening glance1 but they have lost their first meaningless expression2 he is already aware that they can say too much2 he is beginning to learn to lower his eyes and blush1 he is becoming sensitive1 though he does not know what it is that he feels2 he is uneasy without knowing why4 ,all this may happen gradually and give you time enough2 but if his keenness becomes impatience1 his eagerness madness1 if he is angry and sorry all in a moment1 if he weeps without cause1 if in the presence of objects which are beginning to be a source of danger his pulse quickens and his eyes sparkle1 if he trembles when a woman's hand touches his1 if he is troubled or timid in her presence1 ,o ,ulysses1 wise ,ulysses6 have a care6 ,the passages you closed with so much pains are open2 the winds are unloosed2 keep your hand upon the helm or all is lost4 ,this is the second birth ,i spoke of2 then it is that man really enters upon life2 henceforth no human passion is a stranger to him4 ,our efforts so far have been child's play1 now they are of the greatest importance4 ,this period when education is usually finished is just the time to begin2 but to explain this new plan properly1 let us take up our story where we left it4 ,our passions are the chief means of self-preservation2 to try to destroy them is therefore as absurd as it is useless2 this would be to overcome nature1 to reshape ,god's handiwork4 ,if ,god bade man annihilate the passions he has given him1 ,god would bid him be and not be2 ,he would contradict himself4 ,he has never given such a foolish commandment1 there is nothing like it written on the heart of man1 and what ,god will have a man do1 ,he does not leave to the words of another man4 ,he speaks ,himself2 ,his words are written in the secret heart4 ,now ,i consider those who would prevent the birth of the passions almost as foolish as those who would destroy them1 and those who think this has been my object hitherto are greatly mistaken4 ,but should we reason rightly1 if from the fact that passions are natural to man1 we inferred that all the passions we feel in ourselves and behold in others are natural8 ,their source1 indeed1 is natural2 but they have been swollen by a thousand other streams2 they are a great river which is constantly growing1 one in which we can scarcely find a single drop of the original stream4 ,our natural passions are few in number2 they are the means to freedom1 they tend to self-preservation4 ,all those which enslave and destroy us have another source2 nature does not bestow them on us2 we seize on them in her despite4 ,the origin of our passions1 the root and spring of all the rest1 the only one which is born with man1 which never leaves him as long as he lives1 is self-love2 this passion is primitive1 instinctive1 it precedes all the rest1 which are in a sense only modifications of it4 ,in this sense1 if you like1 they are all natural4 ,but most of these modifications are the result of external influences1 without which they would never occur1 and such modifications1 far from being advantageous to us1 are harmful4 ,they change the original purpose and work against its end2 then it is that man finds himself outside nature and at strife with himself4 ,self-love is always good1 always in accordance with the order of nature4 ,the preservation of our own life is specially entrusted to each one of us1 and our first care is1 and must be1 to watch over our own life2 and how can we continually watch over it1 if we do not take the greatest interest in it8 ,self-preservation requires1 therefore1 that we shall love ourselves2 we must love ourselves above everything1 and it follows directly from this that we love what contributes to our preservation4 ,every child becomes fond of its nurse2 ,romulus must have loved the she-wolf who suckled him4 ,at first this attachment is quite unconscious2 the individual is attracted to that which contributes to his welfare and repelled by that which is harmful2 this is merely blind instinct4 ,what transforms this instinct into feeling1 the liking into love1 the aversion into hatred1 is the evident intention of helping or hurting us4 ,we do not become passionately attached to objects without feeling1 which only follow the direction given them2 but those from which we expect benefit or injury from their internal disposition1 from their will1 those we see acting freely for or against us1 inspire us with like feelings to those they exhibit towards us4 ,something does us good1 we seek after it2 but we love the person who does us good2 something harms us and we shrink from it1 but we hate the person who tries to hurt us4 ,the child's first sentiment is self-love1 his second1 which is derived from it1 is love of those about him2 for in his present state of weakness he is only aware of people through the help and attention received from them4 ,at first his affection for his nurse and his governess is mere habit4 ,he seeks them because he needs them and because he is happy when they are there2 it is rather perception than kindly feeling4 ,it takes a long time to discover not merely that they are useful to him1 but that they desire to be useful to him1 and then it is that he begins to love them4 ,so a child is naturally disposed to kindly feeling because he sees that every one about him is inclined to help him1 and from this experience he gets the habit of a kindly feeling towards his species2 but with the expansion of his relations1 his needs1 his dependence1 active or passive1 the consciousness of his relations to others is awakened1 and leads to the sense of duties and preferences4 ,then the child becomes masterful1 jealous1 deceitful1 and vindictive4 ,if he is not compelled to obedience1 when he does not see the usefulness of what he is told to do1 he attributes it to caprice1 to an intention of tormenting him1 and he rebels4 ,if people give in to him1 as soon as anything opposes him he regards it as rebellion1 as a determination to resist him2 he beats the chair or table for disobeying him4 ,self-love1 which concerns itself only with ourselves1 is content to satisfy our own needs2 but selfishness1 which is always comparing self with others1 is never satisfied and never can be2 for this feeling1 which prefers ourselves to others1 requires that they should prefer us to themselves1 which is impossible4 ,thus the tender and gentle passions spring from self-love1 while the hateful and angry passions spring from selfishness4 ,so it is the fewness of his needs1 the narrow limits within which he can compare himself with others1 that makes a man really good2 what makes him really bad is a multiplicity of needs and dependence on the opinions of others4 ,it is easy to see how we can apply this principle and guide every passion of children and men towards good or evil4 ,true1 man cannot always live alone1 and it will be hard therefore to remain good2 and this difficulty will increase of necessity as his relations with others are extended4 ,for this reason1 above all1 the dangers of social life demand that the necessary skill and care shall be devoted to guarding the human heart against the depravity which springs from fresh needs4 ,man's proper study is that of his relation to his environment4 ,so long as he only knows that environment through his physical nature1 he should study himself in relation to things2 this is the business of his childhood2 when he begins to be aware of his moral nature1 he should study himself in relation to his fellow-men2 this is the business of his whole life1 and we have now reached the time when that study should be begun4 ,as soon as a man needs a companion he is no longer an isolated creature1 his heart is no longer alone4 ,all his relations with his species1 all the affections of his heart1 come into being along with this4 ,his first passion soon arouses the rest4 ,the direction of the instinct is uncertain4 ,one sex is attracted by the other2 that is the impulse of nature4 ,choice1 preferences1 individual likings1 are the work of reason1 prejudice1 and habit2 time and knowledge are required to make us capable of love2 we do not love without reasoning or prefer without comparison4 ,these judgments are none the less real1 although they are formed unconsciously4 ,true love1 whatever you may say1 will always be held in honour by mankind2 for although its impulses lead us astray1 although it does not bar the door of the heart to certain detestable qualities1 although it even gives rise to these1 yet it always presupposes certain worthy characteristics1 without which we should be incapable of love4 ,this choice1 which is supposed to be contrary to reason1 really springs from reason4 ,we say ,love is blind because his eyes are better than ours1 and he perceives relations which we cannot discern4 ,all women would be alike to a man who had no idea of virtue or beauty1 and the first comer would always be the most charming4 ,love does not spring from nature1 far from it2 it is the curb and law of her desires2 it is love that makes one sex indifferent to the other1 the loved one alone excepted4 ,we wish to inspire the preference we feel2 love must be mutual4 ,to be loved we must be worthy of love2 to be preferred we must be more worthy than the rest1 at least in the eyes of our beloved4 ,hence we begin to look around among our fellows2 we begin to compare ourselves with them1 there is emulation1 rivalry1 and jealousy4 ,a heart full to overflowing loves to make itself known2 from the need of a mistress there soon springs the need of a friend4 ,he who feels how sweet it is to be loved1 desires to be loved by everybody2 and there could be no preferences if there were not many that fail to find satisfaction4 ,with love and friendship there begin dissensions1 enmity1 and hatred4 ,i behold deference to other people's opinions enthroned among all these divers passions1 and foolish mortals1 enslaved by her power1 base their very existence merely on what other people think4 ,expand these ideas and you will see where we get that form of selfishness which we call natural selfishness1 and how selfishness ceases to be a simple feeling and becomes pride in great minds1 vanity in little ones1 and in both feeds continually at our neighbour's cost4 ,passions of this kind1 not having any germ in the child's heart1 cannot spring up in it of themselves2 it is we who sow the seeds1 and they never take root unless by our fault4 ,not so with the young man2 they will find an entrance in spite of us4 ,it is therefore time to change our methods4 ,let us begin with some considerations of importance with regard to the critical stage under discussion4 ,the change from childhood to puberty is not so clearly determined by nature but that it varies according to individual temperament and racial conditions4 ,everybody knows the differences which have been observed with regard to this between hot and cold countries1 and every one sees that ardent temperaments mature earlier than others2 but we may be mistaken as to the causes1 and we may often attribute to physical causes what is really due to moral3 this is one of the commonest errors in the philosophy of our times4 ,the teaching of nature comes slowly2 man's lessons are mostly premature4 ,in the former case1 the senses kindle the imagination1 in the latter the imagination kindles the senses2 it gives them a precocious activity which cannot fail to enervate the individual and1 in the long run1 the race4 ,it is a more general and more trustworthy fact than that of climatic influences1 that puberty and sexual power is always more precocious among educated and civilised races1 than among the ignorant and barbarous4 ,footnote3 ,in towns1 says ,m4 ,buffon1 and among the well-to-do classes1 children accustomed to plentiful and nourishing food sooner reach this state2 in the country and among the poor1 children are more backward1 because of their poor and scanty food4 ,i admit the fact but not the explanation1 for in the districts where the food of the villagers is plentiful and good1 as in the ,valais and even in some of the mountain districts of ,italy1 such as ,friuli1 the age of puberty for both sexes is quite as much later than in the heart of the towns1 where1 in order to gratify their vanity1 people are often extremely parsimonious in the matter of food1 and where most people1 in the words of the proverb1 have a velvet coat and an empty belly4 ,it is astonishing to find in these mountainous regions big lads as strong as a man with shrill voices and smooth chins1 and tall girls1 well developed in other respects1 without any trace of the periodic functions of their sex4 ,this difference is1 in my opinion1 solely due to the fact that in the simplicity of their manners the imagination remains calm and peaceful1 and does not stir the blood till much later1 and thus their temperament is much less precocious4 ,children are preternaturally quick to discern immoral habits under the cloak of decency with which they are concealed4 ,the prim speech imposed upon them1 the lessons in good behaviour1 the veil of mystery you profess to hang before their eyes1 serve but to stimulate their curiosity4 ,it is plain1 from the way you set about it1 that they are meant to learn what you profess to conceal2 and of all you teach them this is most quickly assimilated4 ,consult experience and you will find how far this foolish method hastens the work of nature and ruins the character4 ,this is one of the chief causes of physical degeneration in our towns4 ,the young people1 prematurely exhausted1 remain small1 puny1 and misshapen1 they grow old instead of growing up1 like a vine forced to bear fruit in spring1 which fades and dies before autumn4 ,to know how far a happy ignorance may prolong the innocence of children1 you must live among rude and simple people4 ,it is a sight both touching and amusing to see both sexes1 left to the protection of their own hearts1 continuing the sports of childhood in the flower of youth and beauty1 showing by their very familiarity the purity of their pleasures4 ,when at length those delightful young people marry1 they bestow on each other the first fruits of their person1 and are all the dearer therefore4 ,swarms of strong and healthy children are the pledges of a union which nothing can change1 and the fruit of the virtue of their early years4 ,if the age at which a man becomes conscious of his sex is deferred as much by the effects of education as by the action of nature1 it follows that this age may be hastened or retarded according to the way in which the child is brought up2 and if the body gains or loses strength in proportion as its development is accelerated or retarded1 it also follows that the more we try to retard it the stronger and more vigorous will the young man be4 ,i am still speaking of purely physical consequences2 you will soon see that this is not all4 ,from these considerations ,i arrive at the solution of the question so often discussed--,should we enlighten children at an early period as to the objects of their curiosity1 or is it better to put them off with decent shams8 ,i think we need do neither4 ,in the first place1 this curiosity will not arise unless we give it a chance4 ,we must therefore take care not to give it an opportunity4 ,in the next place1 questions one is not obliged to answer do not compel us to deceive those who ask them2 it is better to bid the child hold his tongue than to tell him a lie4 ,he will not be greatly surprised at this treatment if you have already accustomed him to it in matters of no importance4 ,lastly1 if you decide to answer his questions1 let it be with the greatest plainness1 without mystery or confusion1 without a smile4 ,it is much less dangerous to satisfy a child's curiosity than to stimulate it4 ,let your answers be always grave1 brief1 decided1 and without trace of hesitation4 ,i need not add that they should be true4 ,we cannot teach children the danger of telling lies to men without realising1 on the man's part1 the danger of telling lies to children4 ,a single untruth on the part of the master will destroy the results of his education4 ,complete ignorance with regard to certain matters is perhaps the best thing for children2 but let them learn very early what it is impossible to conceal from them permanently4 ,either their curiosity must never be aroused1 or it must be satisfied before the age when it becomes a source of danger4 ,your conduct towards your pupil in this respect depends greatly on his individual circumstances1 the society in which he moves1 the position in which he may find himself1 etc4 ,nothing must be left to chance2 and if you are not sure of keeping him in ignorance of the difference between the sexes till he is sixteen1 take care you teach him before he is ten4 ,i do not like people to be too fastidious in speaking with children1 nor should they go out of their way to avoid calling a spade a spade2 they are always found out if they do4 ,good manners in this respect are always perfectly simple2 but an imagination soiled by vice makes the ear over-sensitive and compels us to be constantly refining our expressions4 ,plain words do not matter2 it is lascivious ideas which must be avoided4 ,although modesty is natural to man1 it is not natural to children4 ,modesty only begins with the knowledge of evil2 and how should children without this knowledge of evil have the feeling which results from it8 ,to give them lessons in modesty and good conduct is to teach them that there are things shameful and wicked1 and to give them a secret wish to know what these things are4 ,sooner or later they will find out1 and the first spark which touches the imagination will certainly hasten the awakening of the senses4 ,blushes are the sign of guilt2 true innocence is ashamed of nothing4 ,children have not the same desires as men2 but they are subject like them to the same disagreeable needs which offend the senses1 and by this means they may receive the same lessons in propriety4 ,follow the mind of nature which has located in the same place the organs of secret pleasures and those of disgusting needs2 she teaches us the same precautions at different ages1 sometimes by means of one idea and sometimes by another2 to the man through modesty1 to the child through cleanliness4 ,i can only find one satisfactory way of preserving the child's innocence1 to surround him by those who respect and love him4 ,without this all our efforts to keep him in ignorance fail sooner or later2 a smile1 a wink1 a careless gesture tells him all we sought to hide2 it is enough to teach him to perceive that there is something we want to hide from him4 ,the delicate phrases and expressions employed by persons of politeness assume a knowledge which children ought not to possess1 and they are quite out of place with them1 but when we truly respect the child's innocence we easily find in talking to him the simple phrases which befit him4 ,there is a certain directness of speech which is suitable and pleasing to innocence2 this is the right tone to adopt in order to turn the child from dangerous curiosity4 ,by speaking simply to him about everything you do not let him suspect there is anything left unsaid4 ,by connecting coarse words with the unpleasant ideas which belong to them1 you quench the first spark of imagination2 you do not forbid the child to say these words or to form these ideas2 but without his knowing it you make him unwilling to recall them4 ,and how much confusion is spared to those who speaking from the heart always say the right thing1 and say it as they themselves have felt it6 ,where do little children come from8 ,this is an embarrassing question1 which occurs very naturally to children1 one which foolishly or wisely answered may decide their health and their morals for life4 ,the quickest way for a mother to escape from it without deceiving her son is to tell him to hold his tongue4 ,that will serve its turn if he has always been accustomed to it in matters of no importance1 and if he does not suspect some mystery from this new way of speaking4 ,but the mother rarely stops there4 ,it is the married people's secret1 she will say1 little boys should not be so curious4 ,that is all very well so far as the mother is concerned1 but she may be sure that the little boy1 piqued by her scornful manner1 will not rest till he has found out the married people's secret1 which will very soon be the case4 ,let me tell you a very different answer which ,i heard given to the same question1 one which made all the more impression on me1 coming1 as it did1 from a woman1 modest in speech and behaviour1 but one who was able on occasion1 for the welfare of her child and for the cause of virtue1 to cast aside the false fear of blame and the silly jests of the foolish4 ,not long before the child had passed a small stone which had torn the passage1 but the trouble was over and forgotten4 ,mamma1 said the eager child1 where do little children come from8 ,my child1 replied his mother without hesitation1 women pass them with pains that sometimes cost their life4 ,let fools laugh and silly people be shocked2 but let the wise inquire if it is possible to find a wiser answer and one which would better serve its purpose4 ,in the first place the thought of a need of nature with which the child is well acquainted turns his thoughts from the idea of a mysterious process4 ,the accompanying ideas of pain and death cover it with a veil of sadness which deadens the imagination and suppresses curiosity2 everything leads the mind to the results1 not the causes1 of child-birth4 ,this is the information to which this answer leads4 ,if the repugnance inspired by this answer should permit the child to inquire further1 his thoughts are turned to the infirmities of human nature1 disgusting things1 images of pain4 ,what chance is there for any stimulation of desire in such a conversation8 ,and yet you see there is no departure from truth1 no need to deceive the scholar in order to teach him4 ,your children read2 in the course of their reading they meet with things they would never have known without reading4 ,are they students1 their imagination is stimulated and quickened in the silence of the study4 ,do they move in the world of society1 they hear a strange jargon1 they see conduct which makes a great impression on them2 they have been told so continually that they are men that in everything men do in their presence they at once try to find how that will suit themselves2 the conduct of others must indeed serve as their pattern when the opinions of others are their law4 ,servants1 dependent on them1 and therefore anxious to please them1 flatter them at the expense of their morals2 giggling governesses say things to the four-year-old child which the most shameless woman would not dare to say to them at fifteen4 ,they soon forget what they said1 but the child has not forgotten what he heard4 ,loose conversation prepares the way for licentious conduct2 the child is debauched by the cunning lacquey1 and the secret of the one guarantees the secret of the other4 ,the child brought up in accordance with his age is alone4 ,he knows no attachment but that of habit1 he loves his sister like his watch1 and his friend like his dog4 ,he is unconscious of his sex and his species2 men and women are alike unknown2 he does not connect their sayings and doings with himself1 he neither sees nor hears1 or he pays no heed to them2 he is no more concerned with their talk than their actions2 he has nothing to do with it4 ,this is no artificial error induced by our method1 it is the ignorance of nature4 ,the time is at hand when that same nature will take care to enlighten her pupil1 and then only does she make him capable of profiting by the lessons without danger4 ,this is our principle2 the details of its rules are outside my subject2 and the means ,i suggest with regard to other matters will still serve to illustrate this4 ,do you wish to establish law and order among the rising passions1 prolong the period of their development1 so that they may have time to find their proper place as they arise4 ,then they are controlled by nature herself1 not by man2 your task is merely to leave it in her hands4 ,if your pupil were alone1 you would have nothing to do2 but everything about him enflames his imagination4 ,he is swept along on the torrent of conventional ideas2 to rescue him you must urge him in the opposite direction4 ,imagination must be curbed by feeling and reason must silence the voice of conventionality4 ,sensibility is the source of all the passions1 imagination determines their course4 ,every creature who is aware of his relations must be disturbed by changes in these relations and when he imagines or fancies he imagines others better adapted to his nature4 ,it is the errors of the imagination which transmute into vices the passions of finite beings1 of angels even1 if indeed they have passions2 for they must needs know the nature of every creature to realise what relations are best adapted to themselves4 ,this is the sum of human wisdom with regard to the use of the passions4 ,first1 to be conscious of the true relations of man both in the species and the individual2 second1 to control all the affections in accordance with these relations4 ,but is man in a position to control his affections according to such and such relations8 ,no doubt he is1 if he is able to fix his imagination on this or that object1 or to form this or that habit4 ,moreover1 we are not so much concerned with what a man can do for himself1 as with what we can do for our pupil through our choice of the circumstances in which he shall be placed4 ,to show the means by which he may be kept in the path of nature is to show plainly enough how he might stray from that path4 ,so long as his consciousness is confined to himself there is no morality in his actions2 it is only when it begins to extend beyond himself that he forms first the sentiments and then the ideas of good and ill1 which make him indeed a man1 and an integral part of his species4 ,to begin with we must therefore confine our observations to this point4 ,these observations are difficult to make1 for we must reject the examples before our eyes1 and seek out those in which the successive developments follow the order of nature4 ,a child sophisticated1 polished1 and civilised1 who is only awaiting the power to put into practice the precocious instruction he has received1 is never mistaken with regard to the time when this power is acquired4 ,far from awaiting it1 he accelerates it2 he stirs his blood to a premature ferment2 he knows what should be the object of his desires long before those desires are experienced4 ,it is not nature which stimulates him2 it is he who forces the hand of nature2 she has nothing to teach him when he becomes a man2 he was a man in thought long before he was a man in reality4 ,the true course of nature is slower and more gradual4 ,little by little the blood grows warmer1 the faculties expand1 the character is formed4 ,the wise workman who directs the process is careful to perfect every tool before he puts it to use2 the first desires are preceded by a long period of unrest1 they are deceived by a prolonged ignorance1 they know not what they want4 ,the blood ferments and bubbles2 overflowing vitality seeks to extend its sphere4 ,the eye grows brighter and surveys others1 we begin to be interested in those about us1 we begin to feel that we are not meant to live alone2 thus the heart is thrown open to human affection1 and becomes capable of attachment4 ,the first sentiment of which the well-trained youth is capable is not love but friendship4 ,the first work of his rising imagination is to make known to him his fellows2 the species affects him before the sex4 ,here is another advantage to be gained from prolonged innocence2 you may take advantage of his dawning sensibility to sow the first seeds of humanity in the heart of the young adolescent4 ,this advantage is all the greater because this is the only time in his life when such efforts may be really successful4 ,i have always observed that young men1 corrupted in early youth and addicted to women and debauchery1 are inhuman and cruel2 their passionate temperament makes them impatient1 vindictive1 and angry2 their imagination fixed on one object only1 refuses all others2 mercy and pity are alike unknown to them2 they would have sacrificed father1 mother1 the whole world1 to the least of their pleasures4 ,a young man1 on the other hand1 brought up in happy innocence1 is drawn by the first stirrings of nature to the tender and affectionate passions2 his warm heart is touched by the sufferings of his fellow-creatures2 he trembles with delight when he meets his comrade1 his arms can embrace tenderly1 his eyes can shed tears of pity2 he learns to be sorry for offending others through his shame at causing annoyance4 ,if the eager warmth of his blood makes him quick1 hasty1 and passionate1 a moment later you see all his natural kindness of heart in the eagerness of his repentance2 he weeps1 he groans over the wound he has given2 he would atone for the blood he has shed with his own2 his anger dies away1 his pride abases itself before the consciousness of his wrong-doing4 ,is he the injured party1 in the height of his fury an excuse1 a word1 disarms him2 he forgives the wrongs of others as whole-heartedly as he repairs his own4 ,adolescence is not the age of hatred or vengeance2 it is the age of pity1 mercy1 and generosity4 ,yes1 ,i maintain1 and ,i am not afraid of the testimony of experience1 a youth of good birth1 one who has preserved his innocence up to the age of twenty1 is at that age the best1 the most generous1 the most loving1 and the most lovable of men4 ,you never heard such a thing2 ,i can well believe that philosophers such as you1 brought up among the corruption of the public schools1 are unaware of it4 ,man's weakness makes him sociable4 ,our common sufferings draw our hearts to our fellow-creatures2 we should have no duties to mankind if we were not men4 ,every affection is a sign of insufficiency2 if each of us had no need of others1 we should hardly think of associating with them4 ,so our frail happiness has its roots in our weakness4 ,a really happy man is a hermit2 ,god only enjoys absolute happiness2 but which of us has any idea what that means8 ,if any imperfect creature were self-sufficing1 what would he have to enjoy8 ,to our thinking he would be wretched and alone4 ,i do not understand how one who has need of nothing could love anything1 nor do ,i understand how he who loves nothing can be happy4 ,hence it follows that we are drawn towards our fellow-creatures less by our feeling for their joys than for their sorrows2 for in them we discern more plainly a nature like our own1 and a pledge of their affection for us4 ,if our common needs create a bond of interest our common sufferings create a bond of affection4 ,the sight of a happy man arouses in others envy rather than love1 we are ready to accuse him of usurping a right which is not his1 of seeking happiness for himself alone1 and our selfishness suffers an additional pang in the thought that this man has no need of us4 ,but who does not pity the wretch when he beholds his sufferings8 who would not deliver him from his woes if a wish could do it8 ,imagination puts us more readily in the place of the miserable man than of the happy man2 we feel that the one condition touches us more nearly than the other4 ,pity is sweet1 because1 when we put ourselves in the place of one who suffers1 we are aware1 nevertheless1 of the pleasure of not suffering like him4 ,envy is bitter1 because the sight of a happy man1 far from putting the envious in his place1 inspires him with regret that he is not there4 ,the one seems to exempt us from the pains he suffers1 the other seems to deprive us of the good things he enjoys4 ,do you desire to stimulate and nourish the first stirrings of awakening sensibility in the heart of a young man1 do you desire to incline his disposition towards kindly deed and thought1 do not cause the seeds of pride1 vanity1 and envy to spring up in him through the misleading picture of the happiness of mankind2 do not show him to begin with the pomp of courts1 the pride of palaces1 the delights of pageants2 do not take him into society and into brilliant assemblies2 do not show him the outside of society till you have made him capable of estimating it at its true worth4 ,to show him the world before he is acquainted with men1 is not to train him1 but to corrupt him2 not to teach1 but to mislead4 ,by nature men are neither kings1 nobles1 courtiers1 nor millionaires4 ,all men are born poor and naked1 all are liable to the sorrows of life1 its disappointments1 its ills1 its needs1 its suffering of every kind2 and all are condemned at length to die4 ,this is what it really means to be a man1 this is what no mortal can escape4 ,begin then with the study of the essentials of humanity1 that which really constitutes mankind4 ,at sixteen the adolescent knows what it is to suffer1 for he himself has suffered2 but he scarcely realises that others suffer too2 to see without feeling is not knowledge1 and as ,i have said again and again the child who does not picture the feelings of others knows no ills but his own2 but when his imagination is kindled by the first beginnings of growing sensibility1 he begins to perceive himself in his fellow-creatures1 to be touched by their cries1 to suffer in their sufferings4 ,it is at this time that the sorrowful picture of suffering humanity should stir his heart with the first touch of pity he has ever known4 ,if it is not easy to discover this opportunity in your scholars1 whose fault is it8 ,you taught them so soon to play at feeling1 you taught them so early its language1 that speaking continually in the same strain they turn your lessons against yourself1 and give you no chance of discovering when they cease to lie1 and begin to feel what they say4 ,but look at ,emile2 ,i have led him up to this age1 and he has neither felt nor pretended to feel4 ,he has never said1 ,i love you dearly1 till he knew what it was to love2 he has never been taught what expression to assume when he enters the room of his father1 his mother1 or his sick tutor2 he has not learnt the art of affecting a sorrow he does not feel4 ,he has never pretended to weep for the death of any one1 for he does not know what it is to die4 ,there is the same insensibility in his heart as in his manners4 ,indifferent1 like every child1 to every one but himself1 he takes no interest in any one2 his only peculiarity is that he will not pretend to take such an interest2 he is less deceitful than others4 ,emile having thought little about creatures of feeling will be a long time before he knows what is meant by pain and death4 ,groans and cries will begin to stir his compassion1 he will turn away his eyes at the sight of blood2 the convulsions of a dying animal will cause him ,i know not what anguish before he knows the source of these impulses4 ,if he were still stupid and barbarous he would not feel them2 if he were more learned he would recognise their source2 he has compared ideas too frequently already to be insensible1 but not enough to know what he feels4 ,so pity is born1 the first relative sentiment which touches the human heart according to the order of nature4 ,to become sensitive and pitiful the child must know that he has fellow-creatures who suffer as he has suffered1 who feel the pains he has felt1 and others which he can form some idea of1 being capable of feeling them himself4 ,indeed1 how can we let ourselves be stirred by pity unless we go beyond ourselves1 and identify ourselves with the suffering animal1 by leaving1 so to speak1 our own nature and taking his4 ,we only suffer so far as we suppose he suffers2 the suffering is not ours but his4 ,so no one becomes sensitive till his imagination is aroused and begins to carry him outside himself4 ,what should we do to stimulate and nourish this growing sensibility1 to direct it1 and to follow its natural bent8 ,should we not present to the young man objects on which the expansive force of his heart may take effect1 objects which dilate it1 which extend it to other creatures1 which take him outside himself8 should we not carefully remove everything that narrows1 concentrates1 and strengthens the power of the human self8 that is to say1 in other words1 we should arouse in him kindness1 goodness1 pity1 and beneficence1 all the gentle and attractive passions which are naturally pleasing to man2 those passions prevent the growth of envy1 covetousness1 hatred1 all the repulsive and cruel passions which make our sensibility not merely a cipher but a minus quantity1 passions which are the curse of those who feel them4 ,i think ,i can sum up the whole of the preceding reflections in two or three maxims1 definite1 straightforward1 and easy to understand4 ,,first ,,maxim4--,it is not in human nature to put ourselves in the place of those who are happier than ourselves1 but only in the place of those who can claim our pity4 ,if you find exceptions to this rule1 they are more apparent than real4 ,thus we do not put ourselves in the place of the rich or great when we become fond of them2 even when our affection is real1 we only appropriate to ourselves a part of their welfare4 ,sometimes we love the rich man in the midst of misfortunes2 but so long as he prospers he has no real friend1 except the man who is not deceived by appearances1 who pities rather than envies him in spite of his prosperity4 ,the happiness belonging to certain states of life appeals to us2 take1 for instance1 the life of a shepherd in the country4 ,the charm of seeing these good people so happy is not poisoned by envy2 we are genuinely interested in them4 ,why is this8 ,because we feel we can descend into this state of peace and innocence and enjoy the same happiness2 it is an alternative which only calls up pleasant thoughts1 so long as the wish is as good as the deed4 ,it is always pleasant to examine our stores1 to contemplate our own wealth1 even when we do not mean to spend it4 ,from this we see that to incline a young man to humanity you must not make him admire the brilliant lot of others2 you must show him life in its sorrowful aspects and arouse his fears4 ,thus it becomes clear that he must force his own way to happiness1 without interfering with the happiness of others4 ,,second ,,maxim4--,we never pity another's woes unless we know we may suffer in like manner ourselves4 ,non ignara mali1 miseris succurrere disco4--,virgil4 ,i know nothing go fine1 so full of meaning1 so touching1 so true as these words4 ,why have kings no pity on their people8 ,because they never expect to be ordinary men4 ,why are the rich so hard on the poor8 ,because they have no fear of becoming poor4 ,why do the nobles look down upon the people8 ,because a nobleman will never be one of the lower classes4 ,why are the ,turks generally kinder and more hospitable than ourselves8 ,because1 under their wholly arbitrary system of government1 the rank and wealth of individuals are always uncertain and precarious1 so that they do not regard poverty and degradation as conditions with which they have no concern2 to-morrow1 any one may himself be in the same position as those on whom he bestows alms to-day4 ,this thought1 which occurs again and again in eastern romances1 lends them a certain tenderness which is not to be found in our pretentious and harsh morality4 ,so do not train your pupil to look down from the height of his glory upon the sufferings of the unfortunate1 the labours of the wretched1 and do not hope to teach him to pity them while he considers them as far removed from himself4 ,make him thoroughly aware of the fact that the fate of these unhappy persons may one day be his own1 that his feet are standing on the edge of the abyss1 into which he may be plunged at any moment by a thousand unexpected irresistible misfortunes4 ,teach him to put no trust in birth1 health1 or riches2 show him all the changes of fortune2 find him examples--there are only too many of them--in which men of higher rank than himself have sunk below the condition of these wretched ones4 ,whether by their own fault or another's is for the present no concern of ours2 does he indeed know the meaning of the word fault8 ,never interfere with the order in which he acquires knowledge1 and teach him only through the means within his reach2 it needs no great learning to perceive that all the prudence of mankind cannot make certain whether he will be alive or dead in an hour's time1 whether before nightfall he will not be grinding his teeth in the pangs of nephritis1 whether a month hence he will be rich or poor1 whether in a year's time he may not be rowing an ,algerian galley under the lash of the slave-driver4 ,above all do not teach him this1 like his catechism1 in cold blood2 let him see and feel the calamities which overtake men2 surprise and startle his imagination with the perils which lurk continually about a man's path2 let him see the pitfalls all about him1 and when he hears you speak of them1 let him cling more closely to you for fear lest he should fall4 ,you will make him timid and cowardly1 do you say8 ,we shall see2 let us make him kindly to begin with1 that is what matters most4 ,,third ,,maxim4--,the pity we feel for others is proportionate1 not to the amount of the evil1 but to the feelings we attribute to the sufferers4 ,we only pity the wretched so far as we think they feel the need of pity4 ,the bodily effect of our sufferings is less than one would suppose2 it is memory that prolongs the pain1 imagination which projects it into the future1 and makes us really to be pitied4 ,this is1 ,i think1 one of the reasons why we are more callous to the sufferings of animals than of men1 although a fellow-feeling ought to make us identify ourselves equally with either4 ,we scarcely pity the cart-horse in his shed1 for we do not suppose that while he is eating his hay he is thinking of the blows he has received and the labours in store for him4 ,neither do we pity the sheep grazing in the field1 though we know it is about to be slaughtered1 for we believe it knows nothing of the fate in store for it4 ,in this way we also become callous to the fate of our fellow-men1 and the rich console themselves for the harm done by them to the poor1 by the assumption that the poor are too stupid to feel4 ,i usually judge of the value any one puts on the welfare of his fellow-creatures by what he seems to think of them4 ,we naturally think lightly of the happiness of those we despise4 ,it need not surprise you that politicians speak so scornfully of the people1 and philosophers profess to think mankind so wicked4 ,the people are mankind2 those who do not belong to the people are so few in number that they are not worth counting4 ,man is the same in every station of life2 if that be so1 those ranks to which most men belong deserve most honour4 ,all distinctions of rank fade away before the eyes of a thoughtful person2 he sees the same passions1 the same feelings in the noble and the guttersnipe2 there is merely a slight difference in speech1 and more or less artificiality of tone2 and if there is indeed any essential difference between them1 the disadvantage is all on the side of those who are more sophisticated4 ,the people show themselves as they are1 and they are not attractive2 but the fashionable world is compelled to adopt a disguise2 we should be horrified if we saw it as it really is4 ,there is1 so our wiseacres tell us1 the same amount of happiness and sorrow in every station4 ,this saying is as deadly in its effects as it is incapable of proof2 if all are equally happy why should ,i trouble myself about any one8 ,let every one stay where he is2 leave the slave to be ill-treated1 the sick man to suffer1 and the wretched to perish2 they have nothing to gain by any change in their condition4 ,you enumerate the sorrows of the rich1 and show the vanity of his empty pleasures2 what barefaced sophistry6 ,the rich man's sufferings do not come from his position1 but from himself alone when he abuses it4 ,he is not to be pitied were he indeed more miserable than the poor1 for his ills are of his own making1 and he could be happy if he chose4 ,but the sufferings of the poor man come from external things1 from the hardships fate has imposed upon him4 ,no amount of habit can accustom him to the bodily ills of fatigue1 exhaustion1 and hunger4 ,neither head nor heart can serve to free him from the sufferings of his condition4 ,how is ,epictetus the better for knowing beforehand that his master will break his leg for him2 does he do it any the less8 ,he has to endure not only the pain itself but the pains of anticipation4 ,if the people were as wise as we assume them to be stupid1 how could they be other than they are8 ,observe persons of this class2 you will see that1 with a different way of speaking1 they have as much intelligence and more common-sense than yourself4 ,have respect then for your species2 remember that it consists essentially of the people1 that if all the kings and all the philosophers were removed they would scarcely be missed1 and things would go on none the worse4 ,in a word1 teach your pupil to love all men1 even those who fail to appreciate him2 act in such way that he is not a member of any class1 but takes his place in all alike3 speak in his hearing of the human race with tenderness1 and even with pity1 but never with scorn4 ,you are a man2 do not dishonour mankind4 ,it is by these ways and others like them--how different from the beaten paths--that we must reach the heart of the young adolescent1 and stimulate in him the first impulses of nature2 we must develop that heart and open its doors to his fellow-creatures1 and there must be as little self-interest as possible mixed up with these impulses2 above all1 no vanity1 no emulation1 no boasting1 none of those sentiments which force us to compare ourselves with others2 for such comparisons are never made without arousing some measure of hatred against those who dispute our claim to the first place1 were it only in our own estimation4 ,then we must be either blind or angry1 a bad man or a fool2 let us try to avoid this dilemma4 ,sooner or later these dangerous passions will appear1 so you tell me1 in spite of us4 ,i do not deny it4 ,there is a time and place for everything2 ,i am only saying that we should not help to arouse these passions4 ,this is the spirit of the method to be laid down4 ,in this case examples and illustrations are useless1 for here we find the beginning of the countless differences of character1 and every example ,i gave would possibly apply to only one case in a hundred thousand4 ,it is at this age that the clever teacher begins his real business1 as a student and a philosopher who knows how to probe the heart and strives to guide it aright4 ,while the young man has not learnt to pretend1 while he does not even know the meaning of pretence1 you see by his look1 his manner1 his gestures1 the impression he has received from any object presented to him2 you read in his countenance every impulse of his heart2 by watching his expression you learn to protect his impulses and actually to control them4 ,it has been commonly observed that blood1 wounds1 cries and groans1 the preparations for painful operations1 and everything which directs the senses towards things connected with suffering1 are usually the first to make an impression on all men4 ,the idea of destruction1 a more complex matter1 does not have so great an effect2 the thought of death affects us later and less forcibly1 for no one knows from his own experience what it is to die2 you must have seen corpses to feel the agonies of the dying4 ,but when once this idea is established in the mind1 there is no spectacle more dreadful in our eyes1 whether because of the idea of complete destruction which it arouses through our senses1 or because we know that this moment must come for each one of us and we feel ourselves all the more keenly affected by a situation from which we know there is no escape4 ,these various impressions differ in manner and in degree1 according to the individual character of each one of us and his former habits1 but they are universal and no one is altogether free from them4 ,there are other impressions less universal and of a later growth1 impressions most suited to sensitive souls1 such impressions as we receive from moral suffering1 inward grief1 the sufferings of the mind1 depression1 and sadness4 ,there are men who can be touched by nothing but groans and tears2 the suppressed sobs of a heart labouring under sorrow would never win a sigh2 the sight of a downcast visage1 a pale and gloomy countenance1 eyes which can weep no longer1 would never draw a tear from them4 ,the sufferings of the mind are as nothing to them2 they weigh them1 their own mind feels nothing2 expect nothing from such persons but inflexible severity1 harshness1 cruelty4 ,they may be just and upright1 but not merciful1 generous1 or pitiful4 ,they may1 ,i say1 be just1 if a man can indeed be just without being merciful4 ,but do not be in a hurry to judge young people by this standard1 more especially those who have been educated rightly1 who have no idea of the moral sufferings they have never had to endure2 for once again they can only pity the ills they know1 and this apparent insensibility is soon transformed into pity when they begin to feel that there are in human life a thousand ills of which they know nothing4 ,as for ,emile1 if in childhood he was distinguished by simplicity and good sense1 in his youth he will show a warm and tender heart2 for the reality of the feelings depends to a great extent on the accuracy of the ideas4 ,but why call him hither8 ,more than one reader will reproach me no doubt for departing from my first intention and forgetting the lasting happiness ,i promised my pupil4 ,the sorrowful1 the dying1 such sights of pain and woe1 what happiness1 what delight is this for a young heart on the threshold of life8 ,his gloomy tutor1 who proposed to give him such a pleasant education1 only introduces him to life that he may suffer4 ,this is what they will say1 but what care ,i8 ,i promised to make him happy1 not to make him seem happy4 ,am ,i to blame if1 deceived as usual by the outward appearances1 you take them for the reality8 ,let us take two young men at the close of their early education1 and let them enter the world by opposite doors4 ,the one mounts at once to ,olympus1 and moves in the smartest society2 he is taken to court1 he is presented in the houses of the great1 of the rich1 of the pretty women4 ,i assume that he is everywhere made much of1 and ,i do not regard too closely the effect of this reception on his reason2 ,i assume it can stand it4 ,pleasures fly before him1 every day provides him with fresh amusements2 he flings himself into everything with an eagerness which carries you away4 ,you find him busy1 eager1 and curious2 his first wonder makes a great impression on you2 you think him happy2 but behold the state of his heart2 you think he is rejoicing1 ,i think he suffers4 ,what does he see when first he opens his eyes8 all sorts of so-called pleasures1 hitherto unknown4 ,most of these pleasures are only for a moment within his reach1 and seem to show themselves only to inspire regret for their loss4 ,does he wander through a palace2 you see by his uneasy curiosity that he is asking why his father's house is not like it4 ,every question shows you that he is comparing himself all the time with the owner of this grand place4 ,and all the mortification arising from this comparison at once revolts and stimulates his vanity4 ,if he meets a young man better dressed than himself1 ,i find him secretly complaining of his parents' meanness4 ,if he is better dressed than another1 he suffers because the latter is his superior in birth or in intellect1 and all his gold lace is put to shame by a plain cloth coat4 ,does he shine unrivalled in some assembly1 does he stand on tiptoe that they may see him better1 who is there who does not secretly desire to humble the pride and vanity of the young fop8 ,everybody is in league against him2 the disquieting glances of a solemn man1 the biting phrases of some satirical person1 do not fail to reach him1 and if it were only one man who despised him1 the scorn of that one would poison in a moment the applause of the rest4 ,let us grant him everything1 let us not grudge him charm and worth2 let him be well-made1 witty1 and attractive2 the women will run after him2 but by pursuing him before he is in love with them1 they will inspire rage rather than love2 he will have successes1 but neither rapture nor passion to enjoy them4 ,as his desires are always anticipated2 they never have time to spring up among his pleasures1 so he only feels the tedium of restraint4 ,even before he knows it he is disgusted and satiated with the sex formed to be the delight of his own2 if he continues its pursuit it is only through vanity1 and even should he really be devoted to women1 he will not be the only brilliant1 the only attractive young man1 nor will he always find his mistresses prodigies of fidelity4 ,i say nothing of the vexation1 the deceit1 the crimes1 and the remorse of all kinds1 inseparable from such a life4 ,we know that experience of the world disgusts us with it2 ,i am speaking only of the drawbacks belonging to youthful illusions4 ,hitherto the young man has lived in the bosom of his family and his friends1 and has been the sole object of their care2 what a change to enter all at once into a region where he counts for so little2 to find himself plunged into another sphere1 he who has been so long the centre of his own4 ,what insults1 what humiliation1 must he endure1 before he loses among strangers the ideas of his own importance which have been formed and nourished among his own people6 ,as a child everything gave way to him1 everybody flocked to him2 as a young man he must give place to every one1 or if he preserves ever so little of his former airs1 what harsh lessons will bring him to himself6 ,accustomed to get everything he wants without any difficulty1 his wants are many1 and he feels continual privations4 ,he is tempted by everything that flatters him2 what others have1 he must have too2 he covets everything1 he envies every one1 he would always be master4 ,he is devoured by vanity1 his young heart is enflamed by unbridled passions1 jealousy and hatred among the rest2 all these violent passions burst out at once2 their sting rankles in him in the busy world1 they return with him at night1 he comes back dissatisfied with himself1 with others2 he falls asleep among a thousand foolish schemes disturbed by a thousand fancies1 and his pride shows him even in his dreams those fancied pleasures2 he is tormented by a desire which will never be satisfied4 ,so much for your pupil2 let us turn to mine4 ,if the first thing to make an impression on him is something sorrowful his first return to himself is a feeling of pleasure4 ,when he sees how many ills he has escaped he thinks he is happier than he fancied4 ,he shares the suffering of his fellow-creatures1 but he shares it of his own free will and finds pleasure in it4 ,he enjoys at once the pity he feels for their woes and the joy of being exempt from them2 he feels in himself that state of vigour which projects us beyond ourselves1 and bids us carry elsewhere the superfluous activity of our well-being4 ,to pity another's woes we must indeed know them1 but we need not feel them4 ,when we have suffered1 when we are in fear of suffering1 we pity those who suffer2 but when we suffer ourselves1 we pity none but ourselves4 ,but if all of us1 being subject ourselves to the ills of life1 only bestow upon others the sensibility we do not actually require for ourselves1 it follows that pity must be a very pleasant feeling1 since it speaks on our behalf2 and1 on the other hand1 a hard-hearted man is always unhappy1 since the state of his heart leaves him no superfluous sensibility to bestow on the sufferings of others4 ,we are too apt to judge of happiness by appearances2 we suppose it is to be found in the most unlikely places1 we seek for it where it cannot possibly be2 mirth is a very doubtful indication of its presence4 ,a merry man is often a wretch who is trying to deceive others and distract himself4 ,the men who are jovial1 friendly1 and contented at their club are almost always gloomy grumblers at home1 and their servants have to pay for the amusement they give among their friends4 ,true contentment is neither merry nor noisy2 we are jealous of so sweet a sentiment1 when we enjoy it we think about it1 we delight in it for fear it should escape us4 ,a really happy man says little and laughs little2 he hugs his happiness1 so to speak1 to his heart4 ,noisy games1 violent delight1 conceal the disappointment of satiety4 ,but melancholy is the friend of pleasure2 tears and pity attend our sweetest enjoyment1 and great joys call for tears rather than laughter4 ,if at first the number and variety of our amusements seem to contribute to our happiness1 if at first the even tenor of a quiet life seems tedious1 when we look at it more closely we discover that the pleasantest habit of mind consists in a moderate enjoyment which leaves little scope for desire and aversion4 ,the unrest of passion causes curiosity and fickleness2 the emptiness of noisy pleasures causes weariness4 ,we never weary of our state when we know none more delightful4 ,savages suffer less than other men from curiosity and from tedium2 everything is the same to them--themselves1 not their possessions--and they are never weary4 ,the man of the world almost always wears a mask4 ,he is scarcely ever himself and is almost a stranger to himself2 he is ill at ease when he is forced into his own company4 ,not what he is1 but what he seems1 is all he cares for4 ,i cannot help picturing in the countenance of the young man ,i have just spoken of an indefinable but unpleasant impertinence1 smoothness1 and affectation1 which is repulsive to a plain man1 and in the countenance of my own pupil a simple and interesting expression which indicates the real contentment and the calm of his mind2 an expression which inspires respect and confidence1 and seems only to await the establishment of friendly relations to bestow his own confidence in return4 ,it is thought that the expression is merely the development of certain features designed by nature4 ,for my own part ,i think that over and above this development a man's face is shaped1 all unconsciously1 by the frequent and habitual influence of certain affections of the heart4 ,these affections are shown on the face1 there is nothing more certain2 and when they become habitual1 they must surely leave lasting traces4 ,this is why ,i think the expression shows the character1 and that we can sometimes read one another without seeking mysterious explanations in powers we do not possess4 ,a child has only two distinct feelings1 joy and sorrow2 he laughs or he cries2 he knows no middle course1 and he is constantly passing from one extreme to the other4 ,on account of these perpetual changes there is no lasting impression on the face1 and no expression2 but when the child is older and more sensitive1 his feelings are keener or more permanent1 and these deeper impressions leave traces more difficult to erase2 and the habitual state of the feelings has an effect on the features which in course of time becomes ineffaceable4 ,still it is not uncommon to meet with men whose expression varies with their age4 ,i have met with several1 and ,i have always found that those whom ,i could observe and follow had also changed their habitual temper4 ,this one observation thoroughly confirmed would seem to me decisive1 and it is not out of place in a treatise on education1 where it is a matter of importance1 that we should learn to judge the feelings of the heart by external signs4 ,i do not know whether my young man will be any the less amiable for not having learnt to copy conventional manners and to feign sentiments which are not his own2 that does not concern me at present1 ,i only know he will be more affectionate2 and ,i find it difficult to believe that he1 who cares for nobody but himself1 can so far disguise his true feelings as to please as readily as he who finds fresh happiness for himself in his affection for others4 ,but with regard to this feeling of happiness1 ,i think ,i have said enough already for the guidance of any sensible reader1 and to show that ,i have not contradicted myself4 ,i return to my system1 and ,i say1 when the critical age approaches1 present to young people spectacles which restrain rather than excite them2 put off their dawning imagination with objects which1 far from inflaming their senses1 put a check to their activity4 ,remove them from great cities1 where the flaunting attire and the boldness of the women hasten and anticipate the teaching of nature1 where everything presents to their view pleasures of which they should know nothing till they are of an age to choose for themselves4 ,bring them back to their early home1 where rural simplicity allows the passions of their age to develop more slowly2 or if their taste for the arts keeps them in town1 guard them by means of this very taste from a dangerous idleness4 ,choose carefully their company1 their occupations1 and their pleasures2 show them nothing but modest and pathetic pictures which are touching but not seductive1 and nourish their sensibility without stimulating their senses4 ,remember also1 that the danger of excess is not confined to any one place1 and that immoderate passions always do irreparable damage4 ,you need not make your pupil a sick-nurse or a ,brother of ,pity2 you need not distress him by the perpetual sight of pain and suffering2 you need not take him from one hospital to another1 from the gallows to the prison4 ,he must be softened1 not hardened1 by the sight of human misery4 ,when we have seen a sight it ceases to impress us1 use is second nature1 what is always before our eyes no longer appeals to the imagination1 and it is only through the imagination that we can feel the sorrows of others2 this is why priests and doctors who are always beholding death and suffering become so hardened4 ,let your pupil therefore know something of the lot of man and the woes of his fellow-creatures1 but let him not see them too often4 ,a single thing1 carefully selected and shown at the right time1 will fill him with pity and set him thinking for a month4 ,his opinion about anything depends not so much on what he sees1 but on how it reacts on himself2 and his lasting impression of any object depends less on the object itself than on the point of view from which he regards it4 ,thus by a sparing use of examples1 lessons1 and pictures1 you may blunt the sting of sense and delay nature while following her own lead4 ,as he acquires knowledge1 choose what ideas he shall attach to it2 as his passions awake1 select scenes calculated to repress them4 ,a veteran1 as distinguished for his character as for his courage1 once told me that in early youth his father1 a sensible man but extremely pious1 observed that through his growing sensibility he was attracted by women1 and spared no pains to restrain him2 but at last when1 in spite of all his care1 his son was about to escape from his control1 he decided to take him to a hospital1 and1 without telling him what to expect1 he introduced him into a room where a number of wretched creatures were expiating1 under a terrible treatment1 the vices which had brought them into this plight4 ,this hideous and revolting spectacle sickened the young man4 ,miserable libertine1 said his father vehemently1 begone2 follow your vile tastes2 you will soon be only too glad to be admitted to this ward1 and a victim to the most shameful sufferings1 you will compel your father to thank ,god when you are dead4 ,these few words1 together with the striking spectacle he beheld1 made an impression on the young man which could never be effaced4 ,compelled by his profession to pass his youth in garrison1 he preferred to face all the jests of his comrades rather than to share their evil ways4 ,i have been a man1 he said to me1 ,i have had my weaknesses1 but even to the present day the sight of a harlot inspires me with horror4 ,say little to your pupil1 but choose time1 place1 and people2 then rely on concrete examples for your teaching1 and be sure it will take effect4 ,the way childhood is spent is no great matter2 the evil which may find its way is not irremediable1 and the good which may spring up might come later4 ,but it is not so in those early years when a youth really begins to live4 ,this time is never long enough for what there is to be done1 and its importance demands unceasing attention2 this is why ,i lay so much stress on the art of prolonging it4 ,one of the best rules of good farming is to keep things back as much as possible4 ,let your progress also be slow and sure2 prevent the youth from becoming a man all at once4 ,while the body is growing the spirits destined to give vigour to the blood and strength to the muscles are in process of formation and elaboration4 ,if you turn them into another channel1 and permit that strength which should have gone to the perfecting of one person to go to the making of another1 both remain in a state of weakness and the work of nature is unfinished4 ,the workings of the mind1 in their turn1 are affected by this change1 and the mind1 as sickly as the body1 functions languidly and feebly4 ,length and strength of limb are not the same thing as courage or genius1 and ,i grant that strength of mind does not always accompany strength of body1 when the means of connection between the two are otherwise faulty4 ,but however well planned they may be1 they will always work feebly if for motive power they depend upon an exhausted1 impoverished supply of blood1 deprived of the substance which gives strength and elasticity to all the springs of the machinery4 ,there is generally more vigour of mind to be found among men whose early years have been preserved from precocious vice1 than among those whose evil living has begun at the earliest opportunity2 and this is no doubt the reason why nations whose morals are pure are generally superior in sense and courage to those whose morals are bad4 ,the latter shine only through ,i know not what small and trifling qualities1 which they call wit1 sagacity1 cunning2 but those great and noble features of goodness and reason1 by which a man is distinguished and honoured through good deeds1 virtues1 really useful efforts1 are scarcely to be found except among the nations whose morals are pure4 ,teachers complain that the energy of this age makes their pupils unruly2 ,i see that it is so1 but are not they themselves to blame8 ,when once they have let this energy flow through the channel of the senses1 do they not know that they cannot change its course8 ,will the long and dreary sermons of the pedant efface from the mind of his scholar the thoughts of pleasure when once they have found an entrance2 will they banish from his heart the desires by which it is tormented2 will they chill the heat of a passion whose meaning the scholar realises8 ,will not the pupil be roused to anger by the obstacles opposed to the only kind of happiness of which he has any notion8 ,and in the harsh law imposed upon him before he can understand it1 what will he see but the caprice and hatred of a man who is trying to torment him8 ,is it strange that he rebels and hates you too8 ,i know very well that if one is easy-going one may be tolerated1 and one may keep up a show of authority4 ,but ,i fail to see the use of an authority over the pupil which is only maintained by fomenting the vices it ought to repress2 it is like attempting to soothe a fiery steed by making it leap over a precipice4 ,far from being a hindrance to education1 this enthusiasm of adolescence is its crown and coping-stone2 this it is that gives you a hold on the youth's heart when he is no longer weaker than you4 ,his first affections are the reins by which you control his movements2 he was free1 and now ,i behold him in your power4 ,so long as he loved nothing1 he was independent of everything but himself and his own necessities2 as soon as he loves1 he is dependent on his affections4 ,thus the first ties which unite him to his species are already formed4 ,when you direct his increasing sensibility in this direction1 do not expect that it will at once include all men1 and that the word mankind will have any meaning for him4 ,not so2 this sensibility will at first confine itself to those like himself1 and these will not be strangers to him1 but those he knows1 those whom habit has made dear to him or necessary to him1 those who are evidently thinking and feeling as he does1 those whom he perceives to be exposed to the pains he has endured1 those who enjoy the pleasures he has enjoyed2 in a word1 those who are so like himself that he is the more disposed to self-love4 ,it is only after long training1 after much consideration as to his own feelings and the feelings he observes in others1 that he will be able to generalise his individual notions under the abstract idea of humanity1 and add to his individual affections those which may identify him with the race4 ,when he becomes capable of affection1 he becomes aware of the affection of others1 ,footnote3 ,affection may be unrequited2 not so friendship4 ,friendship is a bargain1 a contract like any other2 though a bargain more sacred than the rest4 ,the word friend has no other correlation4 ,any man who is not the friend of his friend is undoubtedly a rascal2 for one can only obtain friendship by giving it1 or pretending to give it4 and he is on the lookout for the signs of that affection4 ,do you not see how you will acquire a fresh hold on him8 ,what bands have you bound about his heart while he was yet unaware of them6 ,what will he feel1 when he beholds himself and sees what you have done for him2 when he can compare himself with other youths1 and other tutors with you6 ,i say1 ,when he sees it1 but beware lest you tell him of it2 if you tell him he will not perceive it4 ,if you claim his obedience in return for the care bestowed upon him1 he will think you have over-reached him2 he will see that while you profess to have cared for him without reward1 you meant to saddle him with a debt and to bind him to a bargain which he never made4 ,in vain you will add that what you demand is for his own good2 you demand it1 and you demand it in virtue of what you have done without his consent4 ,when a man down on his luck accepts the shilling which the sergeant professes to give him1 and finds he has enlisted without knowing what he was about1 you protest against the injustice2 is it not still more unjust to demand from your pupil the price of care which he has not even accepted6 ,ingratitude would be rarer if kindness were less often the investment of a usurer4 ,we love those who have done us a kindness2 what a natural feeling6 ,ingratitude is not to be found in the heart of man1 but self-interest is there2 those who are ungrateful for benefits received are fewer than those who do a kindness for their own ends4 ,if you sell me your gifts1 ,i will haggle over the price2 but if you pretend to give1 in order to sell later on at your own price1 you are guilty of fraud2 it is the free gift which is beyond price4 ,the heart is a law to itself2 if you try to bind it1 you lose it2 give it its liberty1 and you make it your own4 ,when the fisherman baits his line1 the fish come round him without suspicion2 but when they are caught on the hook concealed in the bait1 they feel the line tighten and they try to escape4 ,is the fisherman a benefactor8 ,is the fish ungrateful8 ,do we find a man forgotten by his benefactor1 unmindful of that benefactor8 ,on the contrary1 he delights to speak of him1 he cannot think of him without emotion2 if he gets a chance of showing him1 by some unexpected service1 that he remembers what he did for him1 how delighted he is to satisfy his gratitude2 what a pleasure it is to earn the gratitude of his benefactor4 ,how delightful to say1 ,it is my turn now4 ,this is indeed the teaching of nature2 a good deed never caused ingratitude4 ,if therefore gratitude is a natural feeling1 and you do not destroy its effects by your blunders1 be sure your pupil1 as he begins to understand the value of your care for him1 will be grateful for it1 provided you have not put a price upon it2 and this will give you an authority over his heart which nothing can overthrow4 ,but beware of losing this advantage before it is really yours1 beware of insisting on your own importance4 ,boast of your services and they become intolerable2 forget them and they will not be forgotten4 ,until the time comes to treat him as a man let there be no question of his duty to you1 but his duty to himself4 ,let him have his freedom if you would make him docile2 hide yourself so that he may seek you2 raise his heart to the noble sentiment of gratitude by only speaking of his own interest4 ,until he was able to understand ,i would not have him told that what was done was for his good2 he would only have understood such words to mean that you were dependent on him and he would merely have made you his servant4 ,but now that he is beginning to feel what love is1 he also knows what a tender affection may bind a man to what he loves2 and in the zeal which keeps you busy on his account1 he now sees not the bonds of a slave1 but the affection of a friend4 ,now there is nothing which carries so much weight with the human heart as the voice of friendship recognised as such1 for we know that it never speaks but for our good4 ,we may think our friend is mistaken1 but we never believe he is deceiving us4 ,we may reject his advice now and then1 but we never scorn it4 ,we have reached the moral order at last2 we have just taken the second step towards manhood4 ,if this were the place for it1 ,i would try to show how the first impulses of the heart give rise to the first stirrings of conscience1 and how from the feelings of love and hatred spring the first notions of good and evil4 ,i would show that justice and kindness are no mere abstract terms1 no mere moral conceptions framed by the understanding1 but true affections of the heart enlightened by reason1 the natural outcome of our primitive affections2 that by reason alone1 unaided by conscience1 we cannot establish any natural law1 and that all natural right is a vain dream if it does not rest upon some instinctive need of the human heart4 ,footnote3 ,the precept ,do unto others as you would have them do unto you has no true foundation but that of conscience and feeling2 for what valid reason is there why ,i1 being myself1 should do what ,i would do if ,i were some one else1 especially when ,i am morally certain ,i never shall find myself in exactly the same case2 and who will answer for it that if ,i faithfully follow out this maxim1 ,i shall get others to follow it with regard to me8 ,the wicked takes advantage both of the uprightness of the just and of his own injustice2 he will gladly have everybody just but himself4 ,this bargain1 whatever you may say1 is not greatly to the advantage of the just4 ,but if the enthusiasm of an overflowing heart identifies me with my fellow-creature1 if ,i feel1 so to speak1 that ,i will not let him suffer lest ,i should suffer too1 ,i care for him because ,i care for myself1 and the reason of the precept is found in nature herself1 which inspires me with the desire for my own welfare wherever ,i may be4 ,from this ,i conclude that it is false to say that the precepts of natural law are based on reason only2 they have a firmer and more solid foundation4 ,the love of others springing from self-love1 is the source of human justice4 ,the whole of morality is summed up in the gospel in this summary of the law4 ,but ,i do not think it is my business at present to prepare treatises on metaphysics and morals1 nor courses of study of any kind whatsoever2 it is enough if ,i indicate the order and development of our feelings and our knowledge in relation to our growth4 ,others will perhaps work out what ,i have here merely indicated4 ,hitherto my ,emile has thought only of himself1 so his first glance at his equals leads him to compare himself with them2 and the first feeling excited by this comparison is the desire to be first4 ,it is here that self-love is transformed into selfishness1 and this is the starting point of all the passions which spring from selfishness4 ,but to determine whether the passions by which his life will be governed shall be humane and gentle or harsh and cruel1 whether they shall be the passions of benevolence and pity or those of envy and covetousness1 we must know what he believes his place among men to be1 and what sort of obstacles he expects to have to overcome in order to attain to the position he seeks4 ,to guide him in this inquiry1 after we have shown him men by means of the accidents common to the species1 we must now show him them by means of their differences4 ,this is the time for estimating inequality natural and civil1 and for the scheme of the whole social order4 ,society must be studied in the individual and the individual in society2 those who desire to treat politics and morals apart from one another will never understand either4 ,by confining ourselves at first to the primitive relations1 we see how men should be influenced by them and what passions should spring from them2 we see that it is in proportion to the development of these passions that a man's relations with others expand or contract4 ,it is not so much strength of arm as moderation of spirit which makes men free and independent4 ,the man whose wants are few is dependent on but few people1 but those who constantly confound our vain desires with our bodily needs1 those who have made these needs the basis of human society1 are continually mistaking effects for causes1 and they have only confused themselves by their own reasoning4 ,since it is impossible in the state of nature that the difference between man and man should be great enough to make one dependent on another1 there is in fact in this state of nature an actual and indestructible equality4 ,in the civil state there is a vain and chimerical equality of right2 the means intended for its maintenance1 themselves serve to destroy it2 and the power of the community1 added to the power of the strongest for the oppression of the weak1 disturbs the sort of equilibrium which nature has established between them4 ,footnote3 ,the universal spirit of the laws of every country is always to take the part of the strong against the weak1 and the part of him who has against him who has not2 this defect is inevitable1 and there is no exception to it4 ,from this first contradiction spring all the other contradictions between the real and the apparent1 which are to be found in the civil order4 ,the many will always be sacrificed to the few1 the common weal to private interest2 those specious words--justice and subordination--will always serve as the tools of violence and the weapons of injustice2 hence it follows that the higher classes which claim to be useful to the rest are really only seeking their own welfare at the expense of others2 from this we may judge how much consideration is due to them according to right and justice4 ,it remains to be seen if the rank to which they have attained is more favourable to their own happiness to know what opinion each one of us should form with regard to his own lot4 ,this is the study with which we are now concerned2 but to do it thoroughly we must begin with a knowledge of the human heart4 ,if it were only a question of showing young people man in his mask1 there would be no need to point him out1 and he would always be before their eyes2 but since the mask is not the man1 and since they must not be led away by its specious appearance1 when you paint men for your scholar1 paint them as they are1 not that he may hate them1 but that he may pity them and have no wish to be like them4 ,in my opinion that is the most reasonable view a man can hold with regard to his fellow-men4 ,with this object in view we must take the opposite way from that hitherto followed1 and instruct the youth rather through the experience of others than through his own4 ,if men deceive him he will hate them2 but1 if1 while they treat him with respect1 he sees them deceiving each other1 he will pity them4 ,the spectacle of the world1 said ,pythagoras1 is like the ,olympic games2 some are buying and selling and think only of their gains2 others take an active part and strive for glory2 others1 and these not the worst1 are content to be lookers-on4 ,i would have you so choose the company of a youth that he should think well of those among whom he lives1 and ,i would have you so teach him to know the world that he should think ill of all that takes place in it4 ,let him know that man is by nature good1 let him feel it1 let him judge his neighbour by himself2 but let him see how men are depraved and perverted by society2 let him find the source of all their vices in their preconceived opinions2 let him be disposed to respect the individual1 but to despise the multitude2 let him see that all men wear almost the same mask1 but let him also know that some faces are fairer than the mask that conceals them4 ,it must be admitted that this method has its drawbacks1 and it is not easy to carry it out2 for if he becomes too soon engrossed in watching other people1 if you train him to mark too closely the actions of others1 you will make him spiteful and satirical1 quick and decided in his judgments of others2 he will find a hateful pleasure in seeking bad motives1 and will fail to see the good even in that which is really good4 ,he will1 at least1 get used to the sight of vice1 he will behold the wicked without horror1 just as we get used to seeing the wretched without pity4 ,soon the perversity of mankind will be not so much a warning as an excuse2 he will say1 ,man is made so1 and he will have no wish to be different from the rest4 ,but if you wish to teach him theoretically to make him acquainted1 not only with the heart of man1 but also with the application of the external causes which turn our inclinations into vices2 when you thus transport him all at once from the objects of sense to the objects of reason1 you employ a system of metaphysics which he is not in a position to understand2 you fall back into the error1 so carefully avoided hitherto1 of giving him lessons which are like lessons1 of substituting in his mind the experience and the authority of the master for his own experience and the development of his own reason4 ,to remove these two obstacles at once1 and to bring the human heart within his reach without risk of spoiling his own1 ,i would show him men from afar1 in other times or in other places1 so that he may behold the scene but cannot take part in it4 ,this is the time for history2 with its help he will read the hearts of men without any lessons in philosophy2 with its help he will view them as a mere spectator1 dispassionate and without prejudice2 he will view them as their judge1 not as their accomplice or their accuser4 ,to know men you must behold their actions4 ,in society we hear them talk2 they show their words and hide their deeds2 but in history the veil is drawn aside1 and they are judged by their deeds4 ,their sayings even help us to understand them2 for comparing what they say and what they do1 we see not only what they are but what they would appear2 the more they disguise themselves the more thoroughly they stand revealed4 ,unluckily this study has its dangers1 its drawbacks of several kinds4 ,it is difficult to adopt a point of view which will enable one to judge one's fellow-creatures fairly4 ,it is one of the chief defects of history to paint men's evil deeds rather than their good ones2 it is revolutions and catastrophes that make history interesting2 so long as a nation grows and prospers quietly in the tranquillity of a peaceful government1 history says nothing2 she only begins to speak of nations when1 no longer able to be self-sufficing1 they interfere with their neighbours' business1 or allow their neighbours to interfere with their own2 history only makes them famous when they are on the downward path2 all our histories begin where they ought to end4 ,we have very accurate accounts of declining nations2 what we lack is the history of those nations which are multiplying2 they are so happy and so good that history has nothing to tell us of them2 and we see indeed in our own times that the most successful governments are least talked of4 ,we only hear what is bad2 the good is scarcely mentioned4 ,only the wicked become famous1 the good are forgotten or laughed to scorn1 and thus history1 like philosophy1 is for ever slandering mankind4 ,moreover1 it is inevitable that the facts described in history should not give an exact picture of what really happened2 they are transformed in the brain of the historian1 they are moulded by his interests and coloured by his prejudices4 ,who can place the reader precisely in a position to see the event as it really happened8 ,ignorance or partiality disguises everything4 ,what a different impression may be given merely by expanding or contracting the circumstances of the case without altering a single historical incident4 ,the same object may be seen from several points of view1 and it will hardly seem the same thing1 yet there has been no change except in the eye that beholds it4 ,do you indeed do honour to truth when what you tell me is a genuine fact1 but you make it appear something quite different8 ,a tree more or less1 a rock to the right or to the left1 a cloud of dust raised by the wind1 how often have these decided the result of a battle without any one knowing it8 ,does that prevent history from telling you the cause of defeat or victory with as much assurance as if she had been on the spot8 ,but what are the facts to me1 while ,i am ignorant of their causes1 and what lessons can ,i draw from an event1 whose true cause is unknown to me8 ,the historian indeed gives me a reason1 but he invents it2 and criticism itself1 of which we hear so much1 is only the art of guessing1 the art of choosing from among several lies1 the lie that is most like truth4 ,have you ever read ,cleopatra or ,cassandra or any books of the kind8 ,the author selects some well-known event1 he then adapts it to his purpose1 adorns it with details of his own invention1 with people who never existed1 with imaginary portraits2 thus he piles fiction on fiction to lend a charm to his story4 ,i see little difference between such romances and your histories1 unless it is that the novelist draws more on his own imagination1 while the historian slavishly copies what another has imagined2 ,i will also admit1 if you please1 that the novelist has some moral purpose good or bad1 about which the historian scarcely concerns himself4 ,you will tell me that accuracy in history is of less interest than a true picture of men and manners2 provided the human heart is truly portrayed1 it matters little that events should be accurately recorded2 for after all you say1 what does it matter to us what happened two thousand years ago8 ,you are right if the portraits are indeed truly given according to nature2 but if the model is to be found for the most part in the historian's imagination1 are you not falling into the very error you intended to avoid1 and surrendering to the authority of the historian what you would not yield to the authority of the teacher8 ,if my pupil is merely to see fancy pictures1 ,i would rather draw them myself2 they will1 at least1 be better suited to him4 ,the worst historians for a youth are those who give their opinions4 ,facts6 ,facts6 and let him decide for himself2 this is how he will learn to know mankind4 ,if he is always directed by the opinion of the author1 he is only seeing through the eyes of another person1 and when those ayes are no longer at his disposal he can see nothing4 ,i leave modern history on one side1 not only because it has no character and all our people are alike1 but because our historians1 wholly taken up with effect1 think of nothing but highly coloured portraits1 which often represent nothing4 ,footnote3 ,take1 for instance1 ,guicciardini1 ,streda1 ,solis1 ,machiavelli1 and sometimes even ,de ,thou himself4 ,vertot is almost the only one who knows how to describe without giving fancy portraits4 ,the old historians generally give fewer portraits and bring more intelligence and common-sense to their judgments2 but even among them there is plenty of scope for choice1 and you must not begin with the wisest but with the simplest4 ,i would not put ,polybius or ,sallust into the hands of a youth2 ,tacitus is the author of the old1 young men cannot understand him2 you must learn to see in human actions the simplest features of the heart of man before you try to sound its depths4 ,you must be able to read facts clearly before you begin to study maxims4 ,philosophy in the form of maxims is only fit for the experienced4 ,youth should never deal with the general1 all its teaching should deal with individual instances4 ,to my mind ,thucydides is the true model of historians4 ,he relates facts without giving his opinion2 but he omits no circumstance adapted to make us judge for ourselves4 ,he puts everything that he relates before his reader2 far from interposing between the facts and the readers1 he conceals himself2 we seem not to read but to see4 ,unfortunately he speaks of nothing but war1 and in his stories we only see the least instructive part of the world1 that is to say the battles4 ,the virtues and defects of the ,retreat of the ,ten ,thousand and the ,commentaries of ,caesar are almost the same4 ,the kindly ,herodotus1 without portraits1 without maxims1 yet flowing1 simple1 full of details calculated to delight and interest in the highest degree1 would be perhaps the best historian if these very details did not often degenerate into childish folly1 better adapted to spoil the taste of youth than to form it2 we need discretion before we can read him4 ,i say nothing of ,livy1 his turn will come2 but he is a statesman1 a rhetorician1 he is everything which is unsuitable for a youth4 ,history in general is lacking because it only takes note of striking and clearly marked facts which may be fixed by names1 places1 and dates2 but the slow evolution of these facts1 which cannot be definitely noted in this way1 still remains unknown4 ,we often find in some battle1 lost or won1 the ostensible cause of a revolution which was inevitable before this battle took place4 ,war only makes manifest events already determined by moral causes1 which few historians can perceive4 ,the philosophic spirit has turned the thoughts of many of the historians of our times in this direction2 but ,i doubt whether truth has profited by their labours4 ,the rage for systems has got possession of all alike1 no one seeks to see things as they are1 but only as they agree with his system4 ,add to all these considerations the fact that history shows us actions rather than men1 because she only seizes men at certain chosen times in full dress2 she only portrays the statesman when he is prepared to be seen2 she does not follow him to his home1 to his study1 among his family and his friends2 she only shows him in state2 it is his clothes rather than himself that she describes4 ,i would prefer to begin the study of the human heart with reading the lives of individuals2 for then the man hides himself in vain1 the historian follows him everywhere2 he never gives him a moment's grace nor any corner where he can escape the piercing eye of the spectator2 and when he thinks he is concealing himself1 then it is that the writer shows him up most plainly4 ,those who write lives1 says ,montaigne1 in so far as they delight more in ideas than in events1 more in that which comes from within than in that which comes from without1 these are the writers ,i prefer2 for this reason ,plutarch is in every way the man for me4 ,it is true that the genius of men in groups or nations is very different from the character of the individual man1 and that we have a very imperfect knowledge of the human heart if we do not also examine it in crowds2 but it is none the less true that to judge of men we must study the individual man1 and that he who had a perfect knowledge of the inclinations of each individual might foresee all their combined effects in the body of the nation4 ,we must go back again to the ancients1 for the reasons already stated1 and also because all the details common and familiar1 but true and characteristic1 are banished by modern stylists1 so that men are as much tricked out by our modern authors in their private life as in public4 ,propriety1 no less strict in literature than in life1 no longer permits us to say anything in public which we might not do in public2 and as we may only show the man dressed up for his part1 we never see a man in our books any more than we do on the stage4 ,the lives of kings may be written a hundred times1 but to no purpose2 we shall never have another ,suetonius4 ,the excellence of ,plutarch consists in these very details which we are no longer permitted to describe4 ,with inimitable grace he paints the great man in little things2 and he is so happy in the choice of his instances that a word1 a smile1 a gesture1 will often suffice to indicate the nature of his hero4 ,with a jest ,hannibal cheers his frightened soldiers1 and leads them laughing to the battle which will lay ,italy at his feet2 ,agesilaus riding on a stick makes me love the conqueror of the great king2 ,caesar passing through a poor village and chatting with his friends unconsciously betrays the traitor who professed that he only wished to be ,pompey's equal4 ,alexander swallows a draught without a word--it is the finest moment in his life2 ,aristides writes his own name on the shell and so justifies his title2 ,philopoemen1 his mantle laid aside1 chops firewood in the kitchen of his host4 ,this is the true art of portraiture4 ,our disposition does not show itself in our features1 nor our character in our great deeds2 it is trifles that show what we really are4 ,what is done in public is either too commonplace or too artificial1 and our modern authors are almost too grand to tell us anything else4 ,m4 de ,turenne was undoubtedly one of the greatest men of the last century4 ,they have had the courage to make his life interesting by the little details which make us know and love him2 but how many details have they felt obliged to omit which might have made us know and love him better still8 ,i will only quote one which ,i have on good authority1 one which ,plutarch would never have omitted1 and one which ,ramsai would never have inserted had he been acquainted with it4 ,on a hot summer's day ,viscount ,turenne in a little white vest and nightcap was standing at the window of his antechamber2 one of his men came up and1 misled by the dress1 took him for one of the kitchen lads whom he knew4 ,he crept up behind him and smacked him with no light hand4 ,the man he struck turned round hastily4 ,the valet saw it was his master and trembled at the sight of his face4 ,he fell on his knees in desperation4 ,sir1 ,i thought it was ,george4 ,well1 even if it was ,george1 exclaimed ,turenne rubbing the injured part1 you need not have struck so hard4 ,you do not dare to say this1 you miserable writers6 ,remain for ever without humanity and without feeling2 steel your hard hearts in your vile propriety1 make yourselves contemptible through your high-mightiness4 ,but as for you1 dear youth1 when you read this anecdote1 when you are touched by all the kindliness displayed even on the impulse of the moment1 read also the littleness of this great man when it was a question of his name and birth4 ,remember it was this very ,turenne who always professed to yield precedence to his nephew1 so that all men might see that this child was the head of a royal house4 ,look on this picture and on that1 love nature1 despise popular prejudice1 and know the man as he was4 ,there are few people able to realise what an effect such reading1 carefully directed1 will have upon the unspoilt mind of a youth4 ,weighed down by books from our earliest childhood1 accustomed to read without thinking1 what we read strikes us even less1 because we already bear in ourselves the passions and prejudices with which history and the lives of men are filled2 all that they do strikes us as only natural1 for we ourselves are unnatural and we judge others by ourselves4 ,but imagine my ,emile1 who has been carefully guarded for eighteen years with the sole object of preserving a right judgment and a healthy heart1 imagine him when the curtain goes up casting his eyes for the first time upon the world's stage2 or rather picture him behind the scenes watching the actors don their costumes1 and counting the cords and pulleys which deceive with their feigned shows the eyes of the spectators4 ,his first surprise will soon give place to feelings of shame and scorn of his fellow-man2 he will be indignant at the sight of the whole human race deceiving itself and stooping to this childish folly2 he will grieve to see his brothers tearing each other limb from limb for a mere dream1 and transforming themselves into wild beasts because they could not be content to be men4 ,given the natural disposition of the pupil1 there is no doubt that if the master exercises any sort of prudence or discretion in his choice of reading1 however little he may put him in the way of reflecting on the subject-matter1 this exercise will serve as a course in practical philosophy1 a philosophy better understood and more thoroughly mastered than all the empty speculations with which the brains of lads are muddled in our schools4 ,after following the romantic schemes of ,pyrrhus1 ,cineas asks him what real good he would gain by the conquest of the world1 which he can never enjoy without such great sufferings2 this only arouses in us a passing interest as a smart saying2 but ,emile will think it a very wise thought1 one which had already occurred to himself1 and one which he will never forget1 because there is no hostile prejudice in his mind to prevent it sinking in4 ,when he reads more of the life of this madman1 he will find that all his great plans resulted in his death at the hands of a woman1 and instead of admiring this pinchbeck heroism1 what will he see in the exploits of this great captain and the schemes of this great statesman but so many steps towards that unlucky tile which was to bring life and schemes alike to a shameful death8 ,all conquerors have not been killed2 all usurpers have not failed in their plans2 to minds imbued with vulgar prejudices many of them will seem happy1 but he who looks below the surface and reckons men's happiness by the condition of their hearts will perceive their wretchedness even in the midst of their successes2 he will see them panting after advancement and never attaining their prize1 he will find them like those inexperienced travellers among the ,alps1 who think that every height they see is the last1 who reach its summit only to find to their disappointment there are loftier peaks beyond4 ,augustus1 when he had subdued his fellow-citizens and destroyed his rivals1 reigned for forty years over the greatest empire that ever existed2 but all this vast power could not hinder him from beating his head against the walls1 and filling his palace with his groans as he cried to ,varus to restore his slaughtered legions4 ,if he had conquered all his foes what good would his empty triumphs have done him1 when troubles of every kind beset his path1 when his life was threatened by his dearest friends1 and when he had to mourn the disgrace or death of all near and dear to him8 ,the wretched man desired to rule the world and failed to rule his own household4 ,what was the result of this neglect8 ,he beheld his nephew1 his adopted child1 his son-in-law1 perish in the flower of youth1 his grandson reduced to eat the stuffing of his mattress to prolong his wretched existence for a few hours2 his daughter and his granddaughter1 after they had covered him with infamy1 died1 the one of hunger and want on a desert island1 the other in prison by the hand of a common archer4 ,he himself1 the last survivor of his unhappy house1 found himself compelled by his own wife to acknowledge a monster as his heir4 ,such was the fate of the master of the world1 so famous for his glory and his good fortune4 ,i cannot believe that any one of those who admire his glory and fortune would accept them at the same price4 ,i have taken ambition as my example1 but the play of every human passion offers similar lessons to any one who will study history to make himself wise and good at the expense of those who went before4 ,the time is drawing near when the teaching of the life of ,anthony will appeal more forcibly to the youth than the life of ,augustus4 ,emile will scarcely know where he is among the many strange sights in his new studies2 but he will know beforehand how to avoid the illusion of passions before they arise1 and seeing how in all ages they have blinded men's eyes1 he will be forewarned of the way in which they may one day blind his own should he abandon himself to them4 ,footnote3 ,it is always prejudice which stirs up passion in our heart4 ,he who only sees what really exists and only values what he knows1 rarely becomes angry4 ,the errors of our judgment produce the warmth of our desires4 ,these lessons1 ,i know1 are unsuited to him1 perhaps at need they may prove scanty and ill-timed2 but remember they are not the lessons ,i wished to draw from this study4 ,to begin with1 ,i had quite another end in view2 and indeed1 if this purpose is unfulfilled1 the teacher will be to blame4 ,remember that1 as soon as selfishness has developed1 the self in its relations to others is always with us1 and the youth never observes others without coming back to himself and comparing himself with them4 ,from the way young men are taught to study history ,i see that they are transformed1 so to speak1 into the people they behold1 that you strive to make a ,cicero1 a ,trajan1 or an ,alexander of them1 to discourage them when they are themselves again1 to make every one regret that he is merely himself4 ,there are certain advantages in this plan which ,i do not deny2 but1 so far as ,emile is concerned1 should it happen at any time when he is making these comparisons that he wishes to be any one but himself--were it ,socrates or ,cato--,i have failed entirely2 he who begins to regard himself as a stranger will soon forget himself altogether4 ,it is not philosophers who know most about men2 they only view them through the preconceived ideas of philosophy1 and ,i know no one so prejudiced as philosophers4 ,a savage would judge us more sanely4 ,the philosopher is aware of his own vices1 he is indignant at ours1 and he says to himself1 ,we are all bad alike2 the savage beholds us unmoved and says1 ,you are mad4 ,he is right1 for no one does evil for evil's sake4 ,my pupil is that savage1 with this difference3 ,emile has thought more1 he has compared ideas1 seen our errors at close quarters1 he is more on his guard against himself1 and only judges of what he knows4 ,it is our own passions that excite us against the passions of others2 it is our self-interest which makes us hate the wicked2 if they did us no harm we should pity rather than hate them4 ,we should readily forgive their vices if we could perceive how their own heart punishes those vices4 ,we are aware of the offence1 but we do not see the punishment2 the advantages are plain1 the penalty is hidden4 ,the man who thinks he is enjoying the fruits of his vices is no less tormented by them than if they had not been successful2 the object is different1 the anxiety is the same2 in vain he displays his good fortune and hides his heart2 in spite of himself his conduct betrays him2 but to discern this1 our own heart must be utterly unlike his4 ,we are led astray by those passions which we share2 we are disgusted by those that militate against our own interests2 and with a want of logic due to these very passions1 we blame in others what we fain would imitate4 ,aversion and self-deception are inevitable when we are forced to endure at another's hands what we ourselves would do in his place4 ,what then is required for the proper study of men8 ,a great wish to know men1 great impartiality of judgment1 a heart sufficiently sensitive to understand every human passion1 and calm enough to be free from passion4 ,if there is any time in our life when this study is likely to be appreciated1 it is this that ,i have chosen for ,emile2 before this time men would have been strangers to him2 later on he would have been like them4 ,convention1 the effects of which he already perceives1 has not yet made him its slave1 the passions1 whose consequences he realises1 have not yet stirred his heart4 ,he is a man2 he takes an interest in his brethren2 he is a just man and he judges his peers4 ,now it is certain that if he judges them rightly he will not want to change places with any one of them1 for the goal of all their anxious efforts is the result of prejudices which he does not share1 and that goal seems to him a mere dream4 ,for his own part1 he has all he wants within his reach4 ,how should he be dependent on any one when he is self-sufficing and free from prejudice8 ,strong arms1 good health1 ,footnote3 ,i think ,i may fairly reckon health and strength among the advantages he has obtained by his education1 or rather among the gifts of nature which his education has preserved for him4 moderation1 few needs1 together with the means to satisfy those needs1 are his4 ,he has been brought up in complete liberty and servitude is the greatest ill he understands4 ,he pities these miserable kings1 the slaves of all who obey them2 he pities these false prophets fettered by their empty fame2 he pities these rich fools1 martyrs to their own pomp2 he pities these ostentatious voluptuaries1 who spend their life in deadly dullness that they may seem to enjoy its pleasures4 ,he would pity the very foe who harmed him1 for he would discern his wretchedness beneath his cloak of spite4 ,he would say to himself1 ,this man has yielded to his desire to hurt me1 and this need of his places him at my mercy4 ,one step more and our goal is attained4 ,selfishness is a dangerous tool though a useful one2 it often wounds the hand that uses it1 and it rarely does good unmixed with evil4 ,when ,emile considers his place among men1 when he finds himself so fortunately situated1 he will be tempted to give credit to his own reason for the work of yours1 and to attribute to his own deserts what is really the result of his good fortune4 ,he will say to himself1 ,i am wise and other men are fools4 ,he will pity and despise them and will congratulate himself all the more heartily2 and as he knows he is happier than they1 he will think his deserts are greater4 ,this is the fault we have most to fear1 for it is the most difficult to eradicate4 ,if he remained in this state of mind1 he would have profited little by all our care2 and if ,i had to choose1 ,i hardly know whether ,i would not rather choose the illusions of prejudice than those of pride4 ,great men are under no illusion with respect to their superiority2 they see it and know it1 but they are none the less modest4 ,the more they have1 the better they know what they lack4 ,they are less vain of their superiority over us than ashamed by the consciousness of their weakness1 and among the good things they really possess1 they are too wise to pride themselves on a gift which is none of their getting4 ,the good man may be proud of his virtue for it is his own1 but what cause for pride has the man of intellect8 ,what has ,racine done that he is not ,pradon1 and ,boileau that he is not ,cotin8 ,the circumstances with which we are concerned are quite different4 ,let us keep to the common level4 ,i assumed that my pupil had neither surpassing genius nor a defective understanding4 ,i chose him of an ordinary mind to show what education could do for man4 ,exceptions defy all rules4 ,if1 therefore1 as a result of my care1 ,emile prefers his way of living1 seeing1 and feeling to that of others1 he is right2 but if he thinks because of this that he is nobler and better born than they1 he is wrong2 he is deceiving himself2 he must be undeceived1 or rather let us prevent the mistake1 lest it be too late to correct it4 ,provided a man is not mad1 he can be cured of any folly but vanity2 there is no cure for this but experience1 if indeed there is any cure for it at all2 when it first appears we can at least prevent its further growth4 ,but do not on this account waste your breath on empty arguments to prove to the youth that he is like other men and subject to the same weaknesses4 ,make him feel it or he will never know it4 ,this is another instance of an exception to my own rules2 ,i must voluntarily expose my pupil to every accident which may convince him that he is no wiser than we4 ,the adventure with the conjurer will be repeated again and again in different ways2 ,i shall let flatterers take advantage of him2 if rash comrades draw him into some perilous adventure1 ,i will let him run the risk2 if he falls into the hands of sharpers at the card-table1 ,i will abandon him to them as their dupe4,footnote3 ,moreover our pupil will be little tempted by this snare2 he has so many amusements about him1 he has never been bored in his life1 and he scarcely knows the use of money4 ,as children have been led by these two motives1 self-interest and vanity1 rogues and courtesans use the same means to get hold of them later4 ,when you see their greediness encouraged by prizes and rewards1 when you find their public performances at ten years old applauded at school or college1 you see too how at twenty they will be induced to leave their purse in a gambling hell and their health in a worse place4 ,you may safely wager that the sharpest boy in the class will become the greatest gambler and debauchee4 ,now the means which have not been employed in childhood have not the same effect in youth4 ,but we must bear in mind my constant plan and take the thing at its worst4 ,first ,i try to prevent the vice2 then ,i assume its existence in order to correct it4 ,i will let them flatter him1 pluck him1 and rob him2 and when having sucked him dry they turn and mock him1 ,i will even thank them to his face for the lessons they have been good enough to give him4 ,the only snares from which ,i will guard him with my utmost care are the wiles of wanton women4 ,the only precaution ,i shall take will be to share all the dangers ,i let him run1 and all the insults ,i let him receive4 ,i will bear everything in silence1 without a murmur or reproach1 without a word to him1 and be sure that if this wise conduct is faithfully adhered to1 what he sees me endure on his account will make more impression on his heart than what he himself suffers4 ,i cannot refrain at this point from drawing attention to the sham dignity of tutors1 who foolishly pretend to be wise1 who discourage their pupils by always professing to treat them as children1 and by emphasising the difference between themselves and their scholars in everything they do4 ,far from damping their youthful spirits in this fashion1 spare no effort to stimulate their courage2 that they may become your equals1 treat them as such already1 and if they cannot rise to your level1 do not scruple to come down to theirs without being ashamed of it4 ,remember that your honour is no longer in your own keeping but in your pupil's4 ,share his faults that you may correct them1 bear his disgrace that you may wipe it out2 follow the example of that brave ,roman who1 unable to rally his fleeing soldiers1 placed himself at their head1 exclaiming1 ,they do not flee1 they follow their captain6 ,did this dishonour him8 ,not so2 by sacrificing his glory he increased it4 ,the power of duty1 the beauty of virtue1 compel our respect in spite of all our foolish prejudices4 ,if ,i received a blow in the course of my duties to ,emile1 far from avenging it ,i would boast of it2 and ,i doubt whether there is in the whole world a man so vile as to respect me any the less on this account4 ,i do not intend the pupil to suppose his master to be as ignorant1 or as liable to be led astray1 as he is himself4 ,this idea is all very well for a child who can neither see nor compare things1 who thinks everything is within his reach1 and only bestows his confidence on those who know how to come down to his level4 ,but a youth of ,emile's age and sense is no longer so foolish as to make this mistake1 and it would not be desirable that he should4 ,the confidence he ought to have in his tutor is of another kind2 it should rest on the authority of reason1 and on superior knowledge1 advantages which the young man is capable of appreciating while he perceives how useful they are to himself4 ,long experience has convinced him that his tutor loves him1 that he is a wise and good man who desires his happiness and knows how to procure it4 ,he ought to know that it is to his own advantage to listen to his advice4 ,but if the master lets himself be taken in like the disciple1 he will lose his right to expect deference from him1 and to give him instruction4 ,still less should the pupil suppose that his master is purposely letting him fall into snares or preparing pitfalls for his inexperience4 ,how can we avoid these two difficulties8 ,choose the best and most natural means2 be frank and straightforward like himself2 warn him of the dangers to which he is exposed1 point them out plainly and sensibly1 without exaggeration1 without temper1 without pedantic display1 and above all without giving your opinions in the form of orders1 until they have become such1 and until this imperious tone is absolutely necessary4 ,should he still be obstinate as he often will be1 leave him free to follow his own choice1 follow him1 copy his example1 and that cheerfully and frankly2 if possible fling yourself into things1 amuse yourself as much as he does4 ,if the consequences become too serious1 you are at hand to prevent them2 and yet when this young man has beheld your foresight and your kindliness1 will he not be at once struck by the one and touched by the other8 ,all his faults are but so many hands with which he himself provides you to restrain him at need4 ,now under these circumstances the great art of the master consists in controlling events and directing his exhortations so that he may know beforehand when the youth will give in1 and when he will refuse to do so1 so that all around him he may encompass him with the lessons of experience1 and yet never let him run too great a risk4 ,warn him of his faults before he commits them2 do not blame him when once they are committed2 you would only stir his self-love to mutiny4 ,we learn nothing from a lesson we detest4 ,i know nothing more foolish than the phrase1 ,i told you so4 ,the best way to make him remember what you told him is to seem to have forgotten it4 ,go further than this1 and when you find him ashamed of having refused to believe you1 gently smooth away the shame with kindly words4 ,he will indeed hold you dear when he sees how you forget yourself on his account1 and how you console him instead of reproaching him4 ,but if you increase his annoyance by your reproaches he will hate you1 and will make it a rule never to heed you1 as if to show you that he does not agree with you as to the value of your opinion4 ,the turn you give to your consolation may itself be a lesson to him1 and all the more because he does not suspect it4 ,when you tell him1 for example1 that many other people have made the same mistakes1 this is not what he was expecting2 you are administering correction under the guise of pity2 for when one thinks oneself better than other people it is a very mortifying excuse to console oneself by their example2 it means that we must realise that the most we can say is that they are no better than we4 ,the time of faults is the time for fables4 ,when we blame the guilty under the cover of a story we instruct without offending him2 and he then understands that the story is not untrue by means of the truth he finds in its application to himself4 ,the child who has never been deceived by flattery understands nothing of the fable ,i recently examined2 but the rash youth who has just become the dupe of a flatterer perceives only too readily that the crow was a fool4 ,thus he acquires a maxim from the fact1 and the experience he would soon have forgotten is engraved on his mind by means of the fable4 ,there is no knowledge of morals which cannot be acquired through our own experience or that of others4 ,when there is danger1 instead of letting him try the experiment himself1 we have recourse to history4 ,when the risk is comparatively slight1 it is just as well that the youth should be exposed to it2 then by means of the apologue the special cases with which the young man is now acquainted are transformed into maxims4 ,it is not1 however1 my intention that these maxims should be explained1 nor even formulated4 ,nothing is so foolish and unwise as the moral at the end of most of the fables2 as if the moral was not1 or ought not to be so clear in the fable itself that the reader cannot fail to perceive it4 ,why then add the moral at the end1 and go deprive him of the pleasure of discovering it for himself4 ,the art of teaching consists in making the pupil wish to learn4 ,but if the pupil is to wish to learn1 his mind must not remain in such a passive state with regard to what you tell him that there is really nothing for him to do but listen to you4 ,the master's vanity must always give way to the scholars2 he must be able to say1 ,i understand1 ,i see it1 ,i am getting at it1 ,i am learning something4 ,one of the things which makes the ,pantaloon in the ,italian comedies so wearisome is the pains taken by him to explain to the audience the platitudes they understand only too well already4 ,we must always be intelligible1 but we need not say all there is to be said4 ,if you talk much you will say little1 for at last no one will listen to you4 ,what is the sense of the four lines at the end of ,la ,fontaine's fable of the frog who puffed herself up4 ,is he afraid we should not understand it8 ,does this great painter need to write the names beneath the things he has painted8 ,his morals1 far from generalising1 restrict the lesson to some extent to the examples given1 and prevent our applying them to others4 ,before ,i put the fables of this inimitable author into the hands of a youth1 ,i should like to cut out all the conclusions with which he strives to explain what he has just said so clearly and pleasantly4 ,if your pupil does not understand the fable without the explanation1 he will not understand it with it4 ,moreover1 the fables would require to be arranged in a more didactic order1 one more in agreement with the feelings and knowledge of the young adolescent4 ,can you imagine anything so foolish as to follow the mere numerical order of the book without regard to our requirements or our opportunities4 ,first the grasshopper1 then the crow1 then the frog1 then the two mules1 etc4 ,i am sick of these two mules2 ,i remember seeing a child who was being educated for finance2 they never let him alone1 but were always insisting on the profession he was to follow2 they made him read this fable1 learn it1 say it1 repeat it again and again without finding in it the slightest argument against his future calling4 ,not only have ,i never found children make any real use of the fables they learn1 but ,i have never found anybody who took the trouble to see that they made such a use of them4 ,the study claims to be instruction in morals2 but the real aim of mother and child is nothing but to set a whole party watching the child while he recites his fables2 when he is too old to recite them and old enough to make use of them1 they are altogether forgotten4 ,only men1 ,i repeat1 can learn from fables1 and ,emile is now old enough to begin4 ,i do not mean to tell you everything1 so ,i only indicate the paths which diverge from the right way1 so that you may know how to avoid them4 ,if you follow the road ,i have marked out for you1 ,i think your pupil will buy his knowledge of mankind and his knowledge of himself in the cheapest market2 you will enable him to behold the tricks of fortune without envying the lot of her favourites1 and to be content with himself without thinking himself better than others4 ,you have begun by making him an actor that he may learn to be one of the audience2 you must continue your task1 for from the theatre things are what they seem1 from the stage they seem what they are4 ,for the general effect we must get a distant view1 for the details we must observe more closely4 ,but how can a young man take part in the business of life8 ,what right has he to be initiated into its dark secrets8 ,his interests are confined within the limits of his own pleasures1 he has no power over others1 it is much the same as if he had no power at all4 ,man is the cheapest commodity on the market1 and among all our important rights of property1 the rights of the individual are always considered last of all4 ,when ,i see the studies of young men at the period of their greatest activity confined to purely speculative matters1 while later on they are suddenly plunged1 without any sort of experience1 into the world of men and affairs1 it strikes me as contrary alike to reason and to nature1 and ,i cease to be surprised that so few men know what to do4 ,how strange a choice to teach us so many useless things1 while the art of doing is never touched upon6 ,they profess to fit us for society1 and we are taught as if each of us were to live a life of contemplation in a solitary cell1 or to discuss theories with persons whom they did not concern4 ,you think you are teaching your scholars how to live1 and you teach them certain bodily contortions and certain forms of words without meaning4 ,i1 too1 have taught ,emile how to live2 for ,i have taught him to enjoy his own society and1 more than that1 to earn his own bread4 ,but this is not enough4 ,to live in the world he must know how to get on with other people1 he must know what forces move them1 he must calculate the action and re-action of self-interest in civil society1 he must estimate the results so accurately that he will rarely fail in his undertakings1 or he will at least have tried in the best possible way4 ,the law does not allow young people to manage their own affairs nor to dispose of their own property2 but what would be the use of these precautions if they never gained any experience until they were of age4 ,they would have gained nothing by the delay1 and would have no more experience at five-and-twenty than at fifteen4 ,no doubt we must take precautions1 so that a youth1 blinded by ignorance or misled by passion1 may not hurt himself2 but at any age there are opportunities when deeds of kindness and of care for the weak may be performed under the direction of a wise man1 on behalf of the unfortunate who need help4 ,mothers and nurses grow fond of children because of the care they lavish on them2 the practice of social virtues touches the very heart with the love of humanity2 by doing good we become good2 and ,i know no surer way to this end4 ,keep your pupil busy with the good deeds that are within his power1 let the cause of the poor be his own1 let him help them not merely with his money1 but with his service2 let him work for them1 protect them1 let his person and his time be at their disposal2 let him be their agent2 he will never all his life long have a more honourable office4 ,how many of the oppressed1 who have never got a hearing1 will obtain justice when he demands it for them with that courage and firmness which the practice of virtue inspires2 when he makes his way into the presence of the rich and great1 when he goes1 if need be1 to the footstool of the king himself1 to plead the cause of the wretched1 the cause of those who find all doors closed to them by their poverty1 those who are so afraid of being punished for their misfortunes that they do not dare to complain8 ,but shall we make of ,emile a knight-errant1 a redresser of wrongs1 a paladin8 ,shall he thrust himself into public life1 play the sage and the defender of the laws before the great1 before the magistrates1 before the king8 ,shall he lay petitions before the judges and plead in the law courts8 ,that ,i cannot say4 ,the nature of things is not changed by terms of mockery and scorn4 ,he will do all that he knows to be useful and good4 ,he will do nothing more1 and he knows that nothing is useful and good for him which is unbefitting his age4 ,he knows that his first duty is to himself2 that young men should distrust themselves2 that they should act circumspectly2 that they should show respect to those older than themselves1 reticence and discretion in talking without cause1 modesty in things indifferent1 but courage in well doing1 and boldness to speak the truth4 ,such were those illustrious ,romans who1 having been admitted into public life1 spent their days in bringing criminals to justice and in protecting the innocent1 without any motives beyond those of learning1 and of the furtherance of justice and of the protection of right conduct4 ,emile is not fond of noise or quarrelling1 not only among men1 but among animals4 ,footnote3 ,but what will he do if any one seeks a quarrel with him8 ,my answer is that no one will ever quarrel with him1 he will never lend himself to such a thing4 ,but1 indeed1 you continue1 who can be safe from a blow1 or an insult from a bully1 a drunkard1 a bravo1 who for the joy of killing his man begins by dishonouring him8 ,that is another matter4 ,the life and honour of the citizens should not be at the mercy of a bully1 a drunkard1 or a bravo1 and one can no more insure oneself against such an accident than against a falling tile4 ,a blow given1 or a lie in the teeth1 if he submit to them1 have social consequences which no wisdom can prevent and no tribunal can avenge4 ,the weakness of the laws1 therefore1 so far restores a man's independence2 he is the sole magistrate and judge between the offender and himself1 the sole interpreter and administrator of natural law4 ,justice is his due1 and he alone can obtain it1 and in such a case there is no government on earth so foolish as to punish him for so doing4 ,i do not say he must fight2 that is absurd2 ,i say justice is his due1 and he alone can dispense it4 ,if ,i were king1 ,i promise you that in my kingdom no one would ever strike a man or call him a liar1 and yet ,i would do without all those useless laws against duels2 the means are simple and require no law courts4 ,however that may be1 ,emile knows what is due to himself in such a case1 and the example due from him to the safety of men of honour4 ,the strongest of men cannot prevent insult1 but he can take good care that his adversary has no opportunity to boast of that insult4 ,he will never set two dogs to fight1 he will never set a dog to chase a cat4 ,this peaceful spirit is one of the results of his education1 which has never stimulated self-love or a high opinion of himself1 and so has not encouraged him to seek his pleasure in domination and in the sufferings of others4 ,the sight of suffering makes him suffer too2 this is a natural feeling4 ,it is one of the after effects of vanity that hardens a young man and makes him take a delight in seeing the torments of a living and feeling creature2 it makes him consider himself beyond the reach of similar sufferings through his superior wisdom or virtue4 ,he who is beyond the reach of vanity cannot fall into the vice which results from vanity4 ,so ,emile loves peace4 ,he is delighted at the sight of happiness1 and if he can help to bring it about1 this is an additional reason for sharing it4 ,i do not assume that when he sees the unhappy he will merely feel for them that barren and cruel pity which is content to pity the ills it can heal4 ,his kindness is active and teaches him much he would have learnt far more slowly1 or he would never have learnt at all1 if his heart had been harder4 ,if he finds his comrades at strife1 he tries to reconcile them2 if he sees the afflicted1 he inquires as to the cause of their sufferings2 if he meets two men who hate each other1 he wants to know the reason of their enmity2 if he finds one who is down-trodden groaning under the oppression of the rich and powerful1 he tries to discover by what means he can counteract this oppression1 and in the interest he takes with regard to all these unhappy persons1 the means of removing their sufferings are never out of his sight4 ,what use shall we make of this disposition so that it may re-act in a way suited to his age8 ,let us direct his efforts and his knowledge1 and use his zeal to increase them4 ,i am never weary of repeating3 let all the lessons of young people take the form of doing rather than talking2 let them learn nothing from books which they can learn from experience4 ,how absurd to attempt to give them practice in speaking when they have nothing to say1 to expect to make them feel1 at their school desks1 the vigour of the language of passion and all the force of the arts of persuasion when they have nothing and nobody to persuade6 ,all the rules of rhetoric are mere waste of words to those who do not know how to use them for their own purposes4 ,how does it concern a schoolboy to know how ,hannibal encouraged his soldiers to cross the ,alps8 ,if instead of these grand speeches you showed him how to induce his prefect to give him a holiday1 you may be sure he would pay more attention to your rules4 ,if ,i wanted to teach rhetoric to a youth whose passions were as yet undeveloped1 ,i would draw his attention continually to things that would stir his passions1 and ,i would discuss with him how he should talk to people so as to get them to regard his wishes favourably4 ,but ,emile is not in a condition so favourable to the art of oratory4 ,concerned mainly with his physical well-being1 he has less need of others than they of him2 and having nothing to ask of others on his own account1 what he wants to persuade them to do does not affect him sufficiently to awake any very strong feeling4 ,from this it follows that his language will be on the whole simple and literal4 ,he usually speaks to the point and only to make himself understood4 ,he is not sententious1 for he has not learnt to generalise2 he does not speak in figures1 for he is rarely impassioned4 ,yet this is not because he is altogether cold and phlegmatic1 neither his age1 his character1 nor his tastes permit of this4 ,in the fire of adolescence the life-giving spirits1 retained in the blood and distilled again and again1 inspire his young heart with a warmth which glows in his eye1 a warmth which is felt in his words and perceived in his actions4 ,the lofty feeling with which he is inspired gives him strength and nobility2 imbued with tender love for mankind his words betray the thoughts of his heart2 ,i know not how it is1 but there is more charm in his open-hearted generosity than in the artificial eloquence of others2 or rather this eloquence of his is the only true eloquence1 for he has only to show what he feels to make others share his feelings4 ,the more ,i think of it the more convinced ,i am that by thus translating our kindly impulses into action1 by drawing from our good or ill success conclusions as to their cause1 we shall find that there is little useful knowledge that cannot be imparted to a youth2 and that together with such true learning as may be got at college he will learn a science of more importance than all the rest together1 the application of what he has learned to the purposes of life4 ,taking such an interest in his fellow-creatures1 it is impossible that he should fail to learn very quickly how to note and weigh their actions1 their tastes1 their pleasures1 and to estimate generally at their true value what may increase or diminish the happiness of men2 he should do this better than those who care for nobody and never do anything for any one4 ,the feelings of those who are always occupied with their own concerns are too keenly affected for them to judge wisely of things4 ,they consider everything as it affects themselves1 they form their ideas of good and ill solely on their own experience1 their minds are filled with all sorts of absurd prejudices1 and anything which affects their own advantage ever so little1 seems an upheaval of the universe4 ,extend self-love to others and it is transformed into virtue1 a virtue which has its root in the heart of every one of us4 ,the less the object of our care is directly dependent on ourselves1 the less we have to fear from the illusion of self-interest2 the more general this interest becomes1 the juster it is2 and the love of the human race is nothing but the love of justice within us4 ,if therefore we desire ,emile to be a lover of truth1 if we desire that he should indeed perceive it1 let us keep him far from self-interest in all his business4 ,the more care he bestows upon the happiness of others the wiser and better he is1 and the fewer mistakes he will make between good and evil2 but never allow him any blind preference founded merely on personal predilection or unfair prejudice4 ,why should he harm one person to serve another8 ,what does it matter to him who has the greater share of happiness1 providing he promotes the happiness of all8 ,apart from self-interest this care for the general well-being is the first concern of the wise man1 for each of us forms part of the human race and not part of any individual member of that race4 ,to prevent pity degenerating into weakness we must generalise it and extend it to mankind4 ,then we only yield to it when it is in accordance with justice1 since justice is of all the virtues that which contributes most to the common good4 ,reason and self-love compel us to love mankind even more than our neighbour1 and to pity the wicked is to be very cruel to other men4 ,moreover1 you must bear in mind that all these means employed to project my pupil beyond himself have also a distinct relation to himself2 since they not only cause him inward delight1 but ,i am also endeavouring to instruct him1 while ,i am making him kindly disposed towards others4 ,first ,i showed the means employed1 now ,i will show the result4 ,what wide prospects do ,i perceive unfolding themselves before his mind6 ,what noble feelings stifle the lesser passions in his heart6 ,what clearness of judgment1 what accuracy in reasoning1 do ,i see developing from the inclinations we have cultivated1 from the experience which concentrates the desires of a great heart within the narrow bounds of possibility1 so that a man superior to others can come down to their level if he cannot raise them to his own6 ,true principles of justice1 true types of beauty1 all moral relations between man and man1 all ideas of order1 these are engraved on his understanding2 he sees the right place for everything and the causes which drive it from that place2 he sees what may do good1 and what hinders it4 ,without having felt the passions of mankind1 he knows the illusions they produce and their mode of action4 ,i proceed along the path which the force of circumstances compels me to tread1 but ,i do not insist that my readers shall follow me4 ,long ago they have made up their minds that ,i am wandering in the land of chimeras1 while for my part ,i think they are dwelling in the country of prejudice4 ,when ,i wander so far from popular beliefs ,i do not cease to bear them in mind2 ,i examine them1 ,i consider them1 not that ,i may follow them or shun them1 but that ,i may weigh them in the balance of reason4 ,whenever reason compels me to abandon these popular beliefs1 ,i know by experience that my readers will not follow my example2 ,i know that they will persist in refusing to go beyond what they can see1 and that they will take the youth ,i am describing for the creation of my fanciful imagination1 merely because he is unlike the youths with whom they compare him2 they forget that he must needs be different1 because he has been brought up in a totally different fashion2 he has been influenced by wholly different feelings1 instructed in a wholly different manner1 so that it would be far stranger if he were like your pupils than if he were what ,i have supposed4 ,he is a man of nature's making1 not man's4 ,no wonder men find him strange4 ,when ,i began this work ,i took for granted nothing but what could be observed as readily by others as by myself2 for our starting-point1 the birth of man1 is the same for all2 but the further we go1 while ,i am seeking to cultivate nature and you are seeking to deprave it1 the further apart we find ourselves4 ,at six years old my pupil was not so very unlike yours1 whom you had not yet had time to disfigure2 now there is nothing in common between them2 and when they reach the age of manhood1 which is now approaching1 they will show themselves utterly different from each other1 unless all my pains have been thrown away4 ,there may not be so very great a difference in the amount of knowledge they possess1 but there is all the difference in the world in the kind of knowledge4 ,you are amazed to find that the one has noble sentiments of which the others have not the smallest germ1 but remember that the latter are already philosophers and theologians while ,emile does not even know what is meant by a philosopher and has scarcely heard the name of ,god4 ,but if you come and tell me1 ,there are no such young men1 young people are not made that way2 they have this passion or that1 they do this or that1 it is as if you denied that a pear tree could ever be a tall tree because the pear trees in our gardens are all dwarfs4 ,i beg these critics who are so ready with their blame to consider that ,i am as well acquainted as they are with everything they say1 that ,i have probably given more thought to it1 and that1 as ,i have no private end to serve in getting them to agree with me1 ,i have a right to demand that they should at least take time to find out where ,i am mistaken4 ,let them thoroughly examine the nature of man1 let them follow the earliest growth of the heart in any given circumstances1 so as to see what a difference education may make in the individual2 then let them compare my method of education with the results ,i ascribe to it2 and let them tell me where my reasoning is unsound1 and ,i shall have no answer to give them4 ,it is this that makes me speak so strongly1 and as ,i think with good excuse3 ,i have not pledged myself to any system1 ,i depend as little as possible on arguments1 and ,i trust to what ,i myself have observed4 ,i do not base my ideas on what ,i have imagined1 but on what ,i have seen4 ,it is true that ,i have not confined my observations within the walls of any one town1 nor to a single class of people2 but having compared men of every class and every nation which ,i have been able to observe in the course of a life spent in this pursuit1 ,i have discarded as artificial what belonged to one nation and not to another1 to one rank and not to another2 and ,i have regarded as proper to mankind what was common to all1 at any age1 in any station1 and in any nation whatsoever4 ,now if in accordance with this method you follow from infancy the course of a youth who has not been shaped to any special mould1 one who depends as little as possible on authority and the opinions of others1 which will he most resemble1 my pupil or yours8 ,it seems to me that this is the question you must answer if you would know if ,i am mistaken4 ,it is not easy for a man to begin to think2 but when once he has begun he will never leave off4 ,once a thinker1 always a thinker1 and the understanding once practised in reflection will never rest4 ,you may therefore think that ,i do too much or too little2 that the human mind is not by nature so quick to unfold2 and that after having given it opportunities it has not got1 ,i keep it too long confined within a circle of ideas which it ought to have outgrown4 ,but remember1 in the first place1 that when ,i want to train a natural man1 ,i do not want to make him a savage and to send him back to the woods1 but that living in the whirl of social life it is enough that he should not let himself be carried away by the passions and prejudices of men2 let him see with his eyes and feel with his heart1 let him own no sway but that of reason4 ,under these conditions it is plain that many things will strike him2 the oft-recurring feelings which affect him1 the different ways of satisfying his real needs1 must give him many ideas he would not otherwise have acquired or would only have acquired much later4 ,the natural progress of the mind is quickened but not reversed4 ,the same man who would remain stupid in the forests should become wise and reasonable in towns1 if he were merely a spectator in them4 ,nothing is better fitted to make one wise than the sight of follies we do not share1 and even if we share them1 we still learn1 provided we are not the dupe of our follies and provided we do not bring to them the same mistakes as the others4 ,consider also that while our faculties are confined to the things of sense1 we offer scarcely any hold to the abstractions of philosophy or to purely intellectual ideas4 ,to attain to these we require either to free ourselves from the body to which we are so strongly bound1 or to proceed step by step in a slow and gradual course1 or else to leap across the intervening space with a gigantic bound of which no child is capable1 one for which grown men even require many steps hewn on purpose for them2 but ,i find it very difficult to see how you propose to construct such steps4 ,the ,incomprehensible embraces all1 he gives its motion to the earth1 and shapes the system of all creatures1 but our eyes cannot see him nor can our hands search him out1 he evades the efforts of our senses2 we behold the work1 but the workman is hidden from our eyes4 ,it is no small matter to know that he exists1 and when we have got so far1 and when we ask4 ,what is he8 ,where is he8 our mind is overwhelmed1 we lose ourselves1 we know not what to think4 ,locke would have us begin with the study of spirits and go on to that of bodies4 ,this is the method of superstition1 prejudice1 and error2 it is not the method of nature1 nor even that of well-ordered reason2 it is to learn to see by shutting our eyes4 ,we must have studied bodies long enough before we can form any true idea of spirits1 or even suspect that there are such beings4 ,the contrary practice merely puts materialism on a firmer footing4 ,since our senses are the first instruments to our learning1 corporeal and sensible bodies are the only bodies we directly apprehend4 ,the word spirit has no meaning for any one who has not philosophised4 ,to the unlearned and to the child a spirit is merely a body4 ,do they not fancy that spirits groan1 speak1 fight1 and make noises8 ,now you must own that spirits with arms and voices are very like bodies4 ,this is why every nation on the face of the earth1 not even excepting the ,jews1 have made to themselves idols4 ,we1 ourselves1 with our words1 ,spirit1 ,trinity1 ,persons1 are for the most part quite anthropomorphic4 ,i admit that we are taught that ,god is everywhere2 but we also believe that there is air everywhere1 at least in our atmosphere2 and the word ,spirit meant originally nothing more than breath and wind4 ,once you teach people to say what they do not understand1 it is easy enough to get them to say anything you like4 ,the perception of our action upon other bodies must have first induced us to suppose that their action upon us was effected in like manner4 ,thus man began by thinking that all things whose action affected him were alive4 ,he did not recognise the limits of their powers1 and he therefore supposed that they were boundless2 as soon as he had supplied them with bodies they became his gods4 ,in the earliest times men went in terror of everything and everything in nature seemed alive4 ,the idea of matter was developed as slowly as that of spirit1 for the former is itself an abstraction4 ,thus the universe was peopled with gods like themselves4 ,the stars1 the winds and the mountains1 rivers1 trees1 and towns1 their very dwellings1 each had its soul1 its god1 its life4 ,the teraphim of ,laban1 the manitos of savages1 the fetishes of the negroes1 every work of nature and of man1 were the first gods of mortals2 polytheism was their first religion and idolatry their earliest form of worship4 ,the idea of one ,god was beyond their grasp1 till little by little they formed general ideas1 and they rose to the idea of a first cause and gave meaning to the word substance1 which is at bottom the greatest of abstractions4 ,so every child who believes in ,god is of necessity an idolater or at least he regards the ,deity as a man1 and when once the imagination has perceived ,god1 it is very seldom that the understanding conceives him4 ,locke's order leads us into this same mistake4 ,having arrived1 ,i know not how1 at the idea of substance1 it is clear that to allow of a single substance it must be assumed that this substance is endowed with incompatible and mutually exclusive properties1 such as thought and size1 one of which is by its nature divisible and the other wholly incapable of division4 ,moreover it is assumed that thought or1 if you prefer it1 feeling is a primitive quality inseparable from the substance to which it belongs1 that its relation to the substance is like the relation between substance and size4 ,hence it is inferred that beings who lose one of these attributes lose the substance to which it belongs1 and that death is1 therefore1 but a separation of substances1 and that those beings in whom the two attributes are found are composed of the two substances to which those two qualities belong4 ,but consider what a gulf there still is between the idea of two substances and that of the divine nature1 between the incomprehensible idea of the influence of our soul upon our body and the idea of the influence of ,god upon every living creature4 ,the ideas of creation1 destruction1 ubiquity1 eternity1 almighty power1 those of the divine attributes--these are all ideas so confused and obscure that few men succeed in grasping them2 yet there is nothing obscure about them to the common people1 because they do not understand them in the least2 how then should they present themselves in full force1 that is to say in all their obscurity1 to the young mind which is still occupied with the first working of the senses1 and fails to realise anything but what it handles8 ,in vain do the abysses of the ,infinite open around us1 a child does not know the meaning of fear2 his weak eyes cannot gauge their depths4 ,to children everything is infinite1 they cannot assign limits to anything2 not that their measure is so large1 but because their understanding is so small4 ,i have even noticed that they place the infinite rather below than above the dimensions known to them4 ,they judge a distance to be immense rather by their feet than by their eyes2 infinity is bounded for them1 not so much by what they can see1 but how far they can go4 ,if you talk to them of the power of ,god1 they will think he is nearly as strong as their father4 ,as their own knowledge is in everything the standard by which they judge of what is possible1 they always picture what is described to them as rather smaller than what they know4 ,such are the natural reasonings of an ignorant and feeble mind4 ,ajax was afraid to measure his strength against ,achilles1 yet he challenged ,jupiter to combat1 for he knew ,achilles and did not know ,jupiter4 ,a ,swiss peasant thought himself the richest man alive2 when they tried to explain to him what a king was1 he asked with pride1 ,has the king got a hundred cows on the high pastures8 ,i am aware that many of my readers will be surprised to find me tracing the course of my scholar through his early years without speaking to him of religion4 ,at fifteen he will not even know that he has a soul1 at eighteen even he may not be ready to learn about it4 ,for if he learns about it too soon1 there is the risk of his never really knowing anything about it4 ,if ,i had to depict the most heart-breaking stupidity1 ,i would paint a pedant teaching children the catechism2 if ,i wanted to drive a child crazy ,i would set him to explain what he learned in his catechism4 ,you will reply that as most of the ,christian doctrines are mysteries1 you must wait1 not merely till the child is a man1 but till the man is dead1 before the human mind will understand those doctrines4 ,to that ,i reply1 that there are mysteries which the heart of man can neither conceive nor believe1 and ,i see no use in teaching them to children1 unless you want to make liars of them4 ,moreover1 ,i assert that to admit that there are mysteries1 you must at least realise that they are incomprehensible1 and children are not even capable of this conception6 ,at an age when everything is mysterious1 there are no mysteries properly so-called4 ,we must believe in ,god if we would be saved4 ,this doctrine wrongly understood is the root of bloodthirsty intolerance and the cause of all the futile teaching which strikes a deadly blow at human reason by training it to cheat itself with mere words4 ,no doubt there is not a moment to be lost if we would deserve eternal salvation2 but if the repetition of certain words suffices to obtain it1 ,i do not see why we should not people heaven with starlings and magpies as well as with children4 ,the obligation of faith assumes the possibility of belief4 ,the philosopher who does not believe is wrong1 for he misuses the reason he has cultivated1 and he is able to understand the truths he rejects4 ,but the child who professes the ,christian faith--what does he believe8 ,just what he understands2 and he understands so little of what he is made to repeat that if you tell him to say just the opposite he will be quite ready to do it4 ,the faith of children and the faith of many men is a matter of geography4 ,will they be rewarded for having been born in ,rome rather than in ,mecca8 ,one is told that ,mahomet is the prophet of ,god and he says1 ,mahomet is the prophet of ,god4 ,the other is told that ,mahomet is a rogue and he says1 ,mahomet is a rogue4 ,either of them would have said just the opposite had he stood in the other's shoes4 ,when they are so much alike to begin with1 can the one be consigned to ,paradise and the other to ,hell8 ,when a child says he believes in ,god1 it is not ,god he believes in1 but ,peter or ,james who told him that there is something called ,god1 and he believes it after the fashion of ,euripides-- ,o ,jupiter1 of whom ,i know nothing but thy name4 ,footnote3 ,plutarch4 ,it is thus that the tragedy of ,menalippus originally began1 but the clamour of the ,athenians compelled ,euripides to change these opening lines4 ,we hold that no child who dies before the age of reason will be deprived of everlasting happiness2 the ,catholics believe the same of all children who have been baptised1 even though they have never heard of ,god4 ,there are1 therefore1 circumstances in which one can be saved without belief in ,god1 and these circumstances occur in the case of children or madmen when the human mind is incapable of the operations necessary to perceive the ,godhead4 ,the only difference ,i see between you and me is that you profess that children of seven years old are able to do this and ,i do not think them ready for it at fifteen4 ,whether ,i am right or wrong depends1 not on an article of the creed1 but on a simple observation in natural history4 ,from the same principle it is plain that any man having reached old age without faith in ,god will not1 therefore1 be deprived of ,god's presence in another life if his blindness was not wilful2 and ,i maintain that it is not always wilful4 ,you admit that it is so in the case of lunatics deprived by disease of their spiritual faculties1 but not of their manhood1 and therefore still entitled to the goodness of their ,creator4 ,why then should we not admit it in the case of those brought up from infancy in seclusion1 those who have led the life of a savage and are without the knowledge that comes from intercourse with other men4 ,footnote3 ,for the natural condition of the human mind and its slow development1 cf4 the first part of the ,discours sur ,inegalite4 ,for it is clearly impossible that such a savage could ever raise his thoughts to the knowledge of the true ,god4 ,reason tells that man should only be punished for his wilful faults1 and that invincible ignorance can never be imputed to him as a crime4 ,hence it follows that in the sight of the ,eternal ,justice every man who would believe if he had the necessary knowledge is counted a believer1 and that there will be no unbelievers to be punished except those who have closed their hearts against the truth4 ,let us beware of proclaiming the truth to those who cannot as yet comprehend it1 for to do so is to try to inculcate error4 ,it would be better to have no idea at all of the ,divinity than to have mean1 grotesque1 harmful1 and unworthy ideas2 to fail to perceive the ,divine is a lesser evil than to insult it4 ,the worthy ,plutarch says1 ,i would rather men said1 ',there is no such person as ,plutarch1' than that they should say1 ',plutarch is unjust1 envious1 jealous1 and such a tyrant that he demands more than can be performed4' ,the chief harm which results from the monstrous ideas of ,god which are instilled into the minds of children is that they last all their life long1 and as men they understand no more of ,god than they did as children4 ,in ,switzerland ,i once saw a good and pious mother who was so convinced of the truth of this maxim that she refused to teach her son religion when he was a little child for fear lest he should be satisfied with this crude teaching and neglect a better teaching when he reached the age of reason4 ,this child never heard the name of ,god pronounced except with reverence and devotion1 and as soon as he attempted to say the word he was told to hold his tongue1 as if the subject were too sublime and great for him4 ,this reticence aroused his curiosity and his self-love2 he looked forward to the time when he would know this mystery so carefully hidden from him4 ,the less they spoke of ,god to him1 the less he was himself permitted to speak of ,god1 the more he thought about ,him2 this child beheld ,god everywhere4 ,what ,i should most dread as the result of this unwise affectation of mystery is this3 by over-stimulating the youth's imagination you may turn his head1 and make him at the best a fanatic rather than a believer4 ,but we need fear nothing of the sort for ,emile1 who always declines to pay attention to what is beyond his reach1 and listens with profound indifference to things he does not understand4 ,there are so many things of which he is accustomed to say1 ,that is no concern of mine1 that one more or less makes little difference to him2 and when he does begin to perplex himself with these great matters1 it is because the natural growth of his knowledge is turning his thoughts that way4 ,we have seen the road by which the cultivated human mind approaches these mysteries1 and ,i am ready to admit that it would not attain to them naturally1 even in the bosom of society1 till a much later age4 ,but as there are in this same society inevitable causes which hasten the development of the passions1 if we did not also hasten the development of the knowledge which controls these passions we should indeed depart from the path of nature and disturb her equilibrium4 ,when we can no longer restrain a precocious development in one direction we must promote a corresponding development in another direction1 so that the order of nature may not be inverted1 and so that things should progress together1 not separately1 so that the man1 complete at every moment of his life1 may never find himself at one stage in one of his faculties and at another stage in another faculty4 ,what a difficulty do ,i see before me6 ,a difficulty all the greater because it depends less on actual facts than on the cowardice of those who dare not look the difficulty in the face4 ,let us at least venture to state our problem4 ,a child should always be brought up in his father's religion2 he is always given plain proofs that this religion1 whatever it may be1 is the only true religion1 that all others are ridiculous and absurd4 ,the force of the argument depends entirely on the country in which it is put forward4 ,let a ,turk1 who thinks ,christianity so absurd at ,constantinople1 come to ,paris and see what they think of ,mahomet4 ,it is in matters of religion more than in anything else that prejudice is triumphant4 ,but when we who profess to shake off its yoke entirely1 we who refuse to yield any homage to authority1 decline to teach ,emile anything which he could not learn for himself in any country1 what religion shall we give him1 to what sect shall this child of nature belong8 ,the answer strikes me as quite easy4 ,we will not attach him to any sect1 but we will give him the means to choose for himself according to the right use of his own reason4 ,incedo per ignes ,suppositos cineri doloso4--,horace1 lib4 ii4 ode ,i4 ,no matter6 ,thus far zeal and prudence have taken the place of caution4 ,i hope that these guardians will not fail me now4 ,reader1 do not fear lest ,i should take precautions unworthy of a lover of truth2 ,i shall never forget my motto1 but ,i distrust my own judgment all too easily4 ,instead of telling you what ,i think myself1 ,i will tell you the thoughts of one whose opinions carry more weight than mine4 ,i guarantee the truth of the facts ,i am about to relate2 they actually happened to the author whose writings ,i am about to transcribe2 it is for you to judge whether we can draw from them any considerations bearing on the matter in hand4 ,i do not offer you my own idea or another's as your rule2 ,i merely present them for your examination4 ,thirty years ago there was a young man in an ,italian town2 he was an exile from his native land and found himself reduced to the depths of poverty4 ,he had been born a ,calvinist1 but the consequences of his own folly had made him a fugitive in a strange land2 he had no money and he changed his religion for a morsel of bread4 ,there was a hostel for proselytes in that town to which he gained admission4 ,the study of controversy inspired doubts he had never felt before1 and he made acquaintance with evil hitherto unsuspected by him2 he heard strange doctrines and he met with morals still stranger to him2 he beheld this evil conduct and nearly fell a victim to it4 ,he longed to escape1 but he was locked up2 he complained1 but his complaints were unheeded2 at the mercy of his tyrants1 he found himself treated as a criminal because he would not share their crimes4 ,the anger kindled in a young and untried heart by the first experience of violence and injustice may be realised by those who have themselves experienced it4 ,tears of anger flowed from his eyes1 he was wild with rage2 he prayed to heaven and to man1 and his prayers were unheard2 he spoke to every one and no one listened to him4 ,he saw no one but the vilest servants under the control of the wretch who insulted him1 or accomplices in the same crime who laughed at his resistance and encouraged him to follow their example4 ,he would have been ruined had not a worthy priest visited the hostel on some matter of business4 ,he found an opportunity of consulting him secretly4 ,the priest was poor and in need of help himself1 but the victim had more need of his assistance1 and he did not hesitate to help him to escape at the risk of making a dangerous enemy4 ,having escaped from vice to return to poverty1 the young man struggled vainly against fate3 for a moment he thought he had gained the victory4 ,at the first gleam of good fortune his woes and his protector were alike forgotten4 ,he was soon punished for this ingratitude2 all his hopes vanished2 youth indeed was on his side1 but his romantic ideas spoiled everything4 ,he had neither talent nor skill to make his way easily1 he could neither be commonplace nor wicked1 he expected so much that he got nothing4 ,when he had sunk to his former poverty1 when he was without food or shelter and ready to die of hunger1 he remembered his benefactor4 ,he went back to him1 found him1 and was kindly welcomed2 the sight of him reminded the priest of a good deed he had done2 such a memory always rejoices the heart4 ,this man was by nature humane and pitiful2 he felt the sufferings of others through his own1 and his heart had not been hardened by prosperity2 in a word1 the lessons of wisdom and an enlightened virtue had reinforced his natural kindness of heart4 ,he welcomed the young man1 found him a lodging1 and recommended him2 he shared with him his living which was barely enough for two4 ,he did more1 he instructed him1 consoled him1 and taught him the difficult art of bearing adversity in patience4 ,you prejudiced people1 would you have expected to find all this in a priest and in ,italy8 ,this worthy priest was a poor ,savoyard clergyman who had offended his bishop by some youthful fault2 he had crossed the ,alps to find a position which he could not obtain in his own country4 ,he lacked neither wit nor learning1 and with his interesting countenance he had met with patrons who found him a place in the household of one of the ministers1 as tutor to his son4 ,he preferred poverty to dependence1 and he did not know how to get on with the great4 ,he did not stay long with this minister1 and when he departed he took with him his good opinion2 and as he lived a good life and gained the hearts of everybody1 he was glad to be forgiven by his bishop and to obtain from him a small parish among the mountains1 where he might pass the rest of his life4 ,this was the limit of his ambition4 ,he was attracted by the young fugitive and he questioned him closely4 ,he saw that ill-fortune had already seared his heart1 that scorn and disgrace had overthrown his courage1 and that his pride1 transformed into bitterness and spite1 led him to see nothing in the harshness and injustice of men but their evil disposition and the vanity of all virtue4 ,he had seen that religion was but a mask for selfishness1 and its holy services but a screen for hypocrisy2 he had found in the subtleties of empty disputations heaven and hell awarded as prizes for mere words2 he had seen the sublime and primitive idea of ,divinity disfigured by the vain fancies of men2 and when1 as he thought1 faith in ,god required him to renounce the reason ,god himself had given him1 he held in equal scorn our foolish imaginings and the object with which they are concerned4 ,with no knowledge of things as they are1 without any idea of their origins1 he was immersed in his stubborn ignorance and utterly despised those who thought they knew more than himself4 ,the neglect of all religion soon leads to the neglect of a man's duties4 ,the heart of this young libertine was already far on this road4 ,yet his was not a bad nature1 though incredulity and misery were gradually stifling his natural disposition and dragging him down to ruin2 they were leading him into the conduct of a rascal and the morals of an atheist4 ,the almost inevitable evil was not actually consummated4 ,the young man was not ignorant1 his education had not been neglected4 ,he was at that happy age when the pulse beats strongly and the heart is warm1 but is not yet enslaved by the madness of the senses4 ,his heart had not lost its elasticity4 ,a native modesty1 a timid disposition restrained him1 and prolonged for him that period during which you watch your pupil so carefully4 ,the hateful example of brutal depravity1 of vice without any charm1 had not merely failed to quicken his imagination1 it had deadened it4 ,for a long time disgust rather than virtue preserved his innocence1 which would only succumb to more seductive charms4 ,the priest saw the danger and the way of escape4 ,he was not discouraged by difficulties1 he took a pleasure in his task2 he determined to complete it and to restore to virtue the victim he had snatched from vice4 ,he set about it cautiously2 the beauty of the motive gave him courage and inspired him with means worthy of his zeal4 ,whatever might be the result1 his pains would not be wasted4 ,we are always successful when our sole aim is to do good4 ,he began to win the confidence of the proselyte by not asking any price for his kindness1 by not intruding himself upon him1 by not preaching at him1 by always coming down to his level1 and treating him as an equal4 ,it was1 so ,i think1 a touching sight to see a serious person becoming the comrade of a young scamp1 and virtue putting up with the speech of licence in order to triumph over it more completely4 ,when the young fool came to him with his silly confidences and opened his heart to him1 the priest listened and set him at his ease2 without giving his approval to what was bad1 he took an interest in everything2 no tactless reproof checked his chatter or closed his heart2 the pleasure which he thought was given by his conversation increased his pleasure in telling everything2 thus he made his general confession without knowing he was confessing anything4 ,after he had made a thorough study of his feelings and disposition1 the priest saw plainly that1 although he was not ignorant for his age1 he had forgotten everything that he most needed to know1 and that the disgrace which fortune had brought upon him had stifled in him all real sense of good and evil4 ,there is a stage of degradation which robs the soul of its life2 and the inner voice cannot be heard by one whose whole mind is bent on getting food4 ,to protect the unlucky youth from the moral death which threatened him1 he began to revive his self-love and his good opinion of himself4 ,he showed him a happier future in the right use of his talents2 he revived the generous warmth of his heart by stories of the noble deeds of others2 by rousing his admiration for the doers of these deeds he revived his desire to do like deeds himself4 ,to draw him gradually from his idle and wandering life1 he made him copy out extracts from well-chosen books2 he pretended to want these extracts1 and so nourished in him the noble feeling of gratitude4 ,he taught him indirectly through these books1 and thus he made him sufficiently regain his good opinion of himself so that he would no longer think himself good for nothing1 and would not make himself despicable in his own eyes4 ,a trifling incident will show how this kindly man tried1 unknown to him1 to raise the heart of his disciple out of its degradation1 without seeming to think of teaching4 ,the priest was so well known for his uprightness and his discretion1 that many people preferred to entrust their alms to him1 rather than to the wealthy clergy of the town4 ,one day some one had given him some money to distribute among the poor1 and the young man was mean enough to ask for some of it on the score of poverty4 ,no1 said he1 we are brothers1 you belong to me and ,i must not touch the money entrusted to me4 ,then he gave him the sum he had asked for out of his own pocket4 ,lessons of this sort seldom fail to make an impression on the heart of young people who are not wholly corrupt4 ,i am weary of speaking in the third person1 and the precaution is unnecessary2 for you are well aware1 my dear friend1 that ,i myself was this unhappy fugitive2 ,i think ,i am so far removed from the disorders of my youth that ,i may venture to confess them1 and the hand which rescued me well deserves that ,i should at least do honour to its goodness at the cost of some slight shame4 ,what struck me most was to see in the private life of my worthy master1 virtue without hypocrisy1 humanity without weakness1 speech always plain and straightforward1 and conduct in accordance with this speech4 ,i never saw him trouble himself whether those whom he assisted went to vespers or confession1 whether they fasted at the appointed seasons and went without meat2 nor did he impose upon them any other like conditions1 without which you might die of hunger before you could hope for any help from the devout4 ,far from displaying before him the zeal of a new convert1 ,i was encouraged by these observations and ,i made no secret of my way of thinking1 nor did he seem to be shocked by it4 ,sometimes ,i would say to myself1 he overlooks my indifference to the religion ,i have adopted because he sees ,i am equally indifferent to the religion in which ,i was brought up2 he knows that my scorn for religion is not confined to one sect4 ,but what could ,i think when ,i sometimes heard him give his approval to doctrines contrary to those of the ,roman ,catholic ,church1 and apparently having but a poor opinion of its ceremonies4 ,i should have thought him a ,protestant in disguise if ,i had not beheld him so faithful to those very customs which he seemed to value so lightly2 but ,i knew he fulfilled his priestly duties as carefully in private as in public1 and ,i knew not what to think of these apparent contradictions4 ,except for the fault which had formerly brought about his disgrace1 a fault which he had only partially overcome1 his life was exemplary1 his conduct beyond reproach1 his conversation honest and discreet4 ,while ,i lived on very friendly terms with him1 ,i learnt day by day to respect him more2 and when he had completely won my heart by such great kindness1 ,i awaited with eager curiosity the time when ,i should learn what was the principle on which the uniformity of this strange life was based4 ,this opportunity was a long time coming4 ,before taking his disciple into his confidence1 he tried to get the seeds of reason and kindness which he had sown in my heart to germinate4 ,the most difficult fault to overcome in me was a certain haughty misanthropy1 a certain bitterness against the rich and successful1 as if their wealth and happiness had been gained at my own expense1 and as if their supposed happiness had been unjustly taken from my own4 ,the foolish vanity of youth1 which kicks against the pricks of humiliation1 made me only too much inclined to this angry temper2 and the self-respect1 which my mentor strove to revive1 led to pride1 which made men still more vile in my eyes1 and only added scorn to my hatred4 ,without directly attacking this pride1 he prevented it from developing into hardness of heart2 and without depriving me of my self-esteem1 he made me less scornful of my neighbours4 ,by continually drawing my attention from the empty show1 and directing it to the genuine sufferings concealed by it1 he taught me to deplore the faults of my fellows and feel for their sufferings1 to pity rather than envy them4 ,touched with compassion towards human weaknesses through the profound conviction of his own failings1 he viewed all men as the victims of their own vices and those of others2 he beheld the poor groaning under the tyranny of the rich1 and the rich under the tyranny of their own prejudices4 ,believe me1 said he1 our illusions1 far from concealing our woes1 only increase them by giving value to what is in itself valueless1 in making us aware of all sorts of fancied privations which we should not otherwise feel4 ,peace of heart consists in despising everything that might disturb that peace2 the man who clings most closely to life is the man who can least enjoy it2 and the man who most eagerly desires happiness is always most miserable4 ,what gloomy ideas6 ,i exclaimed bitterly4 ,if we must deny ourselves everything1 we might as well never have been born2 and if we must despise even happiness itself who can be happy8 ,i am1 replied the priest one day1 in a tone which made a great impression on me4 ,you happy6 ,so little favoured by fortune1 so poor1 an exile and persecuted1 you are happy6 ,how have you contrived to be happy8 ,my child1 he answered1 ,i will gladly tell you4 ,thereupon he explained that1 having heard my confessions1 he would confess to me4 ,i will open my whole heart to yours1 he said1 embracing me4 ,you will see me1 if not as ,i am1 at least as ,i seem to myself4 ,when you have heard my whole confession of faith1 when you really know the condition of my heart1 you will know why ,i think myself happy1 and if you think as ,i do1 you will know how to be happy too4 ,but these explanations are not the affair of a moment1 it will take time to show you all my ideas about the lot of man and the true value of life2 let us choose a fitting time and a place where we may continue this conversation without interruption4 ,i showed him how eager ,i was to hear him4 ,the meeting was fixed for the very next morning4 ,it was summer time2 we rose at daybreak4 ,he took me out of the town on to a high hill above the river ,po1 whose course we beheld as it flowed between its fertile banks2 in the distance the landscape was crowned by the vast chain of the ,alps2 the beams of the rising sun already touched the plains and cast across the fields long shadows of trees1 hillocks1 and houses1 and enriched with a thousand gleams of light the fairest picture which the human eye can see4 ,you would have thought that nature was displaying all her splendour before our eyes to furnish a text for our conversation4 ,after contemplating this scene for a space in silence1 the man of peace spoke to me4 ,,the ,,creed ,,of ,a ,,savoyard ,,priest ,my child1 do not look to me for learned speeches or profound arguments4 ,i am no great philosopher1 nor do ,i desire to be one4 ,i have1 however1 a certain amount of common-sense and a constant devotion to truth4 ,i have no wish to argue with you nor even to convince you2 it is enough for me to show you1 in all simplicity of heart1 what ,i really think4 ,consult your own heart while ,i speak2 that is all ,i ask4 ,if ,i am mistaken1 ,i am honestly mistaken1 and therefore my error will not be counted to me as a crime2 if you1 too1 are honestly mistaken1 there is no great harm done4 ,if ,i am right1 we are both endowed with reason1 we have both the same motive for listening to the voice of reason4 ,why should not you think as ,i do8 ,by birth ,i was a peasant and poor2 to till the ground was my portion2 but my parents thought it a finer thing that ,i should learn to get my living as a priest and they found means to send me to college4 ,i am quite sure that neither my parents nor ,i had any idea of seeking after what was good1 useful1 or true2 we only sought what was wanted to get me ordained4 ,i learned what was taught me1 ,i said what ,i was told to say1 ,i promised all that was required1 and ,i became a priest4 ,but ,i soon discovered that when ,i promised not to be a man1 ,i had promised more than ,i could perform4 ,conscience1 they tell us1 is the creature of prejudice1 but ,i know from experience that conscience persists in following the order of nature in spite of all the laws of man4 ,in vain is this or that forbidden2 remorse makes her voice heard but feebly when what we do is permitted by well-ordered nature1 and still more when we are doing her bidding4 ,my good youth1 nature has not yet appealed to your senses2 may you long remain in this happy state when her voice is the voice of innocence4 ,remember that to anticipate her teaching is to offend more deeply against her than to resist her teaching2 you must first learn to resist1 that you may know when to yield without wrong-doing4 ,from my youth up ,i had reverenced the married state as the first and most sacred institution of nature4 ,having renounced the right to marry1 ,i was resolved not to profane the sanctity of marriage2 for in spite of my education and reading ,i had always led a simple and regular life1 and my mind had preserved the innocence of its natural instincts2 these instincts had not been obscured by worldly wisdom1 while my poverty kept me remote from the temptations dictated by the sophistry of vice4 ,this very resolution proved my ruin4 ,my respect for marriage led to the discovery of my misconduct4 ,the scandal must be expiated2 ,i was arrested1 suspended1 and dismissed2 ,i was the victim of my scruples rather than of my incontinence1 and ,i had reason to believe1 from the reproaches which accompanied my disgrace1 that one can often escape punishment by being guilty of a worse fault4 ,a thoughtful mind soon learns from such experiences4 ,i found my former ideas of justice1 honesty1 and every duty of man overturned by these painful events1 and day by day ,i was losing my hold on one or another of the opinions ,i had accepted4 ,what was left was not enough to form a body of ideas which could stand alone1 and ,i felt that the evidence on which my principles rested was being weakened2 at last ,i knew not what to think1 and ,i came to the same conclusion as yourself1 but with this difference3 ,my lack of faith was the slow growth of manhood1 attained with great difficulty1 and all the harder to uproot4 ,i was in that state of doubt and uncertainty which ,descartes considers essential to the search for truth4 ,it is a state which cannot continue1 it is disquieting and painful2 only vicious tendencies and an idle heart can keep us in that state4 ,my heart was not so corrupt as to delight in it1 and there is nothing which so maintains the habit of thinking as being better pleased with oneself than with one's lot4 ,i pondered1 therefore1 on the sad fate of mortals1 adrift upon this sea of human opinions1 without compass or rudder1 and abandoned to their stormy passions with no guide but an inexperienced pilot who does not know whence he comes or whither he is going4 ,i said to myself1 ,i love truth1 ,i seek her1 and cannot find her4 ,show me truth and ,i will hold her fast2 why does she hide her face from the eager heart that would fain worship her8 ,although ,i have often experienced worse sufferings1 ,i have never led a life so uniformly distressing as this period of unrest and anxiety1 when ,i wandered incessantly from one doubt to another1 gaining nothing from my prolonged meditations but uncertainty1 darkness1 and contradiction with regard to the source of my being and the rule of my duties4 ,i cannot understand how any one can be a sceptic sincerely and on principle4 ,either such philosophers do not exist or they are the most miserable of men4 ,doubt with regard to what we ought to know is a condition too violent for the human mind2 it cannot long be endured2 in spite of itself the mind decides one way or another1 and it prefers to be deceived rather than to believe nothing4 ,my perplexity was increased by the fact that ,i had been brought up in a church which decides everything and permits no doubts1 so that having rejected one article of faith ,i was forced to reject the rest2 as ,i could not accept absurd decisions1 ,i was deprived of those which were not absurd4 ,when ,i was told to believe everything1 ,i could believe nothing1 and ,i knew not where to stop4 ,i consulted the philosophers1 ,i searched their books and examined their various theories2 ,i found them all alike proud1 assertive1 dogmatic1 professing1 even in their so-called scepticism1 to know everything1 proving nothing1 scoffing at each other4 ,this last trait1 which was common to all of them1 struck me as the only point in which they were right4 ,braggarts in attack1 they are weaklings in defence4 ,weigh their arguments1 they are all destructive2 count their voices1 every one speaks for himself2 they are only agreed in arguing with each other4 ,i could find no way out of my uncertainty by listening to them4 ,i suppose this prodigious diversity of opinion is caused1 in the first place1 by the weakness of the human intellect2 and1 in the second1 by pride4 ,we have no means of measuring this vast machine1 we are unable to calculate its workings2 we know neither its guiding principles nor its final purpose2 we do not know ourselves1 we know neither our nature nor the spirit that moves us2 we scarcely know whether man is one or many2 we are surrounded by impenetrable mysteries4 ,these mysteries are beyond the region of sense1 we think we can penetrate them by the light of reason1 but we fall back on our imagination4 ,through this imagined world each forces a way for himself which he holds to be right2 none can tell whether his path will lead him to the goal4 ,yet we long to know and understand it all4 ,the one thing we do not know is the limit of the knowable4 ,we prefer to trust to chance and to believe what is not true1 rather than to own that not one of us can see what really is4 ,a fragment of some vast whole whose bounds are beyond our gaze1 a fragment abandoned by its ,creator to our foolish quarrels1 we are vain enough to want to determine the nature of that whole and our own relations with regard to it4 ,if the philosophers were in a position to declare the truth1 which of them would care to do so8 ,every one of them knows that his own system rests on no surer foundations than the rest1 but he maintains it because it is his own4 ,there is not one of them who1 if he chanced to discover the difference between truth and falsehood1 would not prefer his own lie to the truth which another had discovered4 ,where is the philosopher who would not deceive the whole world for his own glory8 ,if he can rise above the crowd1 if he can excel his rivals1 what more does he want8 ,among believers he is an atheist2 among atheists he would be a believer4 ,the first thing ,i learned from these considerations was to restrict my inquiries to what directly concerned myself1 to rest in profound ignorance of everything else1 and not even to trouble myself to doubt anything beyond what ,i required to know4 ,i also realised that the philosophers1 far from ridding me of my vain doubts1 only multiplied the doubts that tormented me and failed to remove any one of them4 ,so ,i chose another guide and said1 ,let me follow the ,inner ,light2 it will not lead me so far astray as others have done1 or if it does it will be my own fault1 and ,i shall not go so far wrong if ,i follow my own illusions as if ,i trusted to their deceits4 ,i then went over in my mind the various opinions which ,i had held in the course of my life1 and ,i saw that although no one of them was plain enough to gain immediate belief1 some were more probable than others1 and my inward consent was given or withheld in proportion to this improbability4 ,having discovered this1 ,i made an unprejudiced comparison of all these different ideas1 and ,i perceived that the first and most general of them was also the simplest and the most reasonable1 and that it would have been accepted by every one if only it had been last instead of first4 ,imagine all your philosophers1 ancient and modern1 having exhausted their strange systems of force1 chance1 fate1 necessity1 atoms1 a living world1 animated matter1 and every variety of materialism4 ,then comes the illustrious ,clarke who gives light to the world and proclaims the ,being of beings and the ,giver of things4 ,what universal admiration1 what unanimous applause would have greeted this new system--a system so great1 so illuminating1 and so simple4 ,other systems are full of absurdities2 this system seems to me to contain fewer things which are beyond the understanding of the human mind4 ,i said to myself1 ,every system has its insoluble problems1 for the finite mind of man is too small to deal with them2 these difficulties are therefore no final arguments1 against any system4 ,but what a difference there is between the direct evidence on which these systems are based6 ,should we not prefer that theory which alone explains all the facts1 when it is no more difficult than the rest8 ,bearing thus within my heart the love of truth as my only philosophy1 and as my only method a clear and simple rule which dispensed with the need for vain and subtle arguments1 ,i returned with the help of this rule to the examination of such knowledge as concerned myself2 ,i was resolved to admit as self-evident all that ,i could not honestly refuse to believe1 and to admit as true all that seemed to follow directly from this2 all the rest ,i determined to leave undecided1 neither accepting nor rejecting it1 nor yet troubling myself to clear up difficulties which did not lead to any practical ends4 ,but who am ,i8 ,what right have ,i to decide8 ,what is it that determines my judgments8 ,if they are inevitable1 if they are the results of the impressions ,i receive1 ,i am wasting my strength in such inquiries2 they would be made or not without any interference of mine4 ,i must therefore first turn my eyes upon myself to acquaint myself with the instrument ,i desire to use1 and to discover how far it is reliable4 ,i exist1 and ,i have senses through which ,i receive impressions4 ,this is the first truth that strikes me and ,i am forced to accept it4 ,have ,i any independent knowledge of my existence1 or am ,i only aware of it through my sensations8 ,this is my first difficulty1 and so far ,i cannot solve it4 ,for ,i continually experience sensations1 either directly or indirectly through memory1 so how can ,i know if the feeling of self is something beyond these sensations or if it can exist independently of them8 ,my sensations take place in myself1 for they make me aware of my own existence2 but their cause is outside me1 for they affect me whether ,i have any reason for them or not1 and they are produced or destroyed independently of me4 ,so ,i clearly perceive that my sensation1 which is within me1 and its cause or its object1 which is outside me1 are different things4 ,thus1 not only do ,i exist1 but other entities exist also1 that is to say1 the objects of my sensations2 and even if these objects are merely ideas1 still these ideas are not me4 ,but everything outside myself1 everything which acts upon my senses1 ,i call matter1 and all the particles of matter which ,i suppose to be united into separate entities ,i call bodies4 ,thus all the disputes of the idealists and the realists have no meaning for me2 their distinctions between the appearance and the reality of bodies are wholly fanciful4 ,i am now as convinced of the existence of the universe as of my own4 ,i next consider the objects of my sensations1 and ,i find that ,i have the power of comparing them1 so ,i perceive that ,i am endowed with an active force of which ,i was not previously aware4 ,to perceive is to feel2 to compare is to judge2 to judge and to feel are not the same4 ,through sensation objects present themselves to me separately and singly as they are in nature2 by comparing them ,i rearrange them1 ,i shift them so to speak1 ,i place one upon another to decide whether they are alike or different1 or more generally to find out their relations4 ,to my mind1 the distinctive faculty of an active or intelligent being is the power of understanding this word is4 ,i seek in vain in the merely sensitive entity that intelligent force which compares and judges2 ,i can find no trace of it in its nature4 ,this passive entity will be aware of each object separately1 it will even be aware of the whole formed by the two together1 but having no power to place them side by side it can never compare them1 it can never form a judgment with regard to them4 ,to see two things at once is not to see their relations nor to judge of their differences2 to perceive several objects1 one beyond the other1 is not to relate them4 ,i may have at the same moment an idea of a big stick and a little stick without comparing them1 without judging that one is less than the other1 just as ,i can see my whole hand without counting my fingers4 ,footnote3 ,m4 de le ,cordamines' narratives tell of a people who only know how to count up to three4 ,yet the men of this nation1 having hands1 have often seen their fingers without learning to count up to five4 ,these comparative ideas1 'greater'1 'smaller'1 together with number ideas of 'one'1 'two'1 etc4 are certainly not sensations1 although my mind only produces them when my sensations occur4 ,we are told that a sensitive being distinguishes sensations from each other by the inherent differences in the sensations2 this requires explanation4 ,when the sensations are different1 the sensitive being distinguishes them by their differences2 when they are alike1 he distinguishes them because he is aware of them one beyond the other4 ,otherwise1 how could he distinguish between two equal objects simultaneously experienced8 ,he would necessarily confound the two objects and take them for one object1 especially under a system which professed that the representative sensations of space have no extension4 ,when we become aware of the two sensations to be compared1 their impression is made1 each object is perceived1 both are perceived1 but for all that their relation is not perceived4 ,if the judgment of this relation were merely a sensation1 and came to me solely from the object itself1 my judgments would never be mistaken1 for it is never untrue that ,i feel what ,i feel4 ,why then am ,i mistaken as to the relation between these two sticks1 especially when they are not parallel8 ,why1 for example1 do ,i say the small stick is a third of the large1 when it is only a quarter8 ,why is the picture1 which is the sensation1 unlike its model which is the object8 ,it is because ,i am active when ,i judge1 because the operation of comparison is at fault2 because my understanding1 which judges of relations1 mingles its errors with the truth of sensations1 which only reveal to me things4 ,add to this a consideration which will1 ,i feel sure1 appeal to you when you have thought about it3 it is this--,if we were purely passive in the use of our senses1 there would be no communication between them2 it would be impossible to know that the body we are touching and the thing we are looking at is the same4 ,either we should never perceive anything outside ourselves1 or there would be for us five substances perceptible by the senses1 whose identity we should have no means of perceiving4 ,this power of my mind which brings my sensations together and compares them may be called by any name2 let it be called attention1 meditation1 reflection1 or what you will2 it is still true that it is in me and not in things1 that it is ,i alone who produce it1 though ,i only produce it when ,i receive an impression from things4 ,though ,i am compelled to feel or not to feel1 ,i am free to examine more or less what ,i feel4 ,being now1 so to speak1 sure of myself1 ,i begin to look at things outside myself1 and ,i behold myself with a sort of shudder flung at random into this vast universe1 plunged as it were into the vast number of entities1 knowing nothing of what they are in themselves or in relation to me4 ,i study them1 ,i observe them2 and the first object which suggests itself for comparison with them is myself4 ,all that ,i perceive through the senses is matter1 and ,i deduce all the essential properties of matter from the sensible qualities which make me perceive it1 qualities which are inseparable from it4 ,i see it sometimes in motion1 sometimes at rest1 ,footnote3 ,this repose is1 if you prefer it1 merely relative2 but as we perceive more or less of motion1 we may plainly conceive one of two extremes1 which is rest2 and we conceive it so clearly that we are even disposed to take for absolute rest what is only relative4 ,but it is not true that motion is of the essence of matter1 if matter may be conceived of as at rest4 hence ,i infer that neither motion nor rest is essential to it1 but motion1 being an action1 is the result of a cause of which rest is only the absence4 ,when1 therefore1 there is nothing acting upon matter it does not move1 and for the very reason that rest and motion are indifferent to it1 its natural state is a state of rest4 ,i perceive two sorts of motions of bodies1 acquired motion and spontaneous or voluntary motion4 ,in the first the cause is external to the body moved1 in the second it is within4 ,i shall not conclude from that that the motion1 say of a watch1 is spontaneous1 for if no external cause operated upon the spring it would run down and the watch would cease to go4 ,for the same reason ,i should not admit that the movements of fluids are spontaneous1 neither should ,i attribute spontaneous motion to fire which causes their fluidity4 ,footnote3 ,chemists regard phlogiston or the element of fire as diffused1 motionless1 and stagnant in the compounds of which it forms part1 until external forces set it free1 collect it and set it in motion1 and change it into fire4 ,you ask me if the movements of animals are spontaneous2 my answer is1 ,i cannot tell1 but analogy points that way4 ,you ask me again1 how do ,i know that there are spontaneous movements8 ,i tell you1 ,i know it because ,i feel them4 ,i want to move my arm and ,i move it without any other immediate cause of the movement but my own will4 ,in vain would any one try to argue me out of this feeling1 it is stronger than any proofs2 you might as well try to convince me that ,i do not exist4 ,if there were no spontaneity in men's actions1 nor in anything that happens on this earth1 it would be all the more difficult to imagine a first cause for all motion4 ,for my own part1 ,i feel myself so thoroughly convinced that the natural state of matter is a state of rest1 and that it has no power of action in itself1 that when ,i see a body in motion ,i at once assume that it is either a living body or that this motion has been imparted to it4 ,my mind declines to accept in any way the idea of inorganic matter moving of its own accord1 or giving rise to any action4 ,yet this visible universe consists of matter1 matter diffused and dead1 ,footnote3 ,i have tried hard to grasp the idea of a living molecule1 but in vain4 ,the idea of matter feeling without any senses seems to me unintelligible and self-contradictory4 ,to accept or reject this idea one must first understand it1 and ,i confess that so far ,i have not succeeded4 matter which has none of the cohesion1 the organisation1 the common feeling of the parts of a living body1 for it is certain that we who are parts have no consciousness of the whole4 ,this same universe is in motion1 and in its movements1 ordered1 uniform1 and subject to fixed laws1 it has none of that freedom which appears in the spontaneous movements of men and animals4 ,so the world is not some huge animal which moves of its own accord2 its movements are therefore due to some external cause1 a cause which ,i cannot perceive1 but the inner voice makes this cause so apparent to me that ,i cannot watch the course of the sun without imagining a force which drives it1 and when the earth revolves ,i think ,i see the hand that sets it in motion4 ,if ,i must accept general laws whose essential relation to matter is unperceived by me1 how much further have ,i got8 ,these laws1 not being real things1 not being substances1 have therefore some other basis unknown to me4 ,experiment and observation have acquainted us with the laws of motion2 these laws determine the results without showing their causes2 they are quite inadequate to explain the system of the world and the course of the universe4 ,with the help of dice ,descartes made heaven and earth2 but he could not set his dice in motion1 nor start the action of his centrifugal force without the help of rotation4 ,newton discovered the law of gravitation2 but gravitation alone would soon reduce the universe to a motionless mass2 he was compelled to add a projectile force to account for the elliptical course of the celestial bodies2 let ,newton show us the hand that launched the planets in the tangent of their orbits4 ,the first causes of motion are not to be found in matter2 matter receives and transmits motion1 but does not produce it4 ,the more ,i observe the action and reaction of the forces of nature playing on one another1 the more ,i see that we must always go back from one effect to another1 till we arrive at a first cause in some will2 for to assume an infinite succession of causes is to assume that there is no first cause4 ,in a word1 no motion which is not caused by another motion can take place1 except by a spontaneous1 voluntary action2 inanimate bodies have no action but motion1 and there is no real action without will4 ,this is my first principle4 ,i believe1 therefore1 that there is a will which sets the universe in motion and gives life to nature4 ,this is my first dogma1 or the first article of my creed4 ,how does a will produce a physical and corporeal action8 ,i cannot tell1 but ,i perceive that it does so in myself2 ,i will to do something and ,i do it2 ,i will to move my body and it moves1 but if an inanimate body1 when at rest1 should begin to move itself1 the thing is incomprehensible and without precedent4 ,the will is known to me in its action1 not in its nature4 ,i know this will as a cause of motion1 but to conceive of matter as producing motion is clearly to conceive of an effect without a cause1 which is not to conceive at all4 ,it is no more possible for me to conceive how my will moves my body than to conceive how my sensations affect my mind4 ,i do not even know why one of these mysteries has seemed less inexplicable than the other4 ,for my own part1 whether ,i am active or passive1 the means of union of the two substances seem to me absolutely incomprehensible4 ,it is very strange that people make this very incomprehensibility a step towards the compounding of the two substances1 as if operations so different in kind were more easily explained in one case than in two4 ,the doctrine ,i have just laid down is indeed obscure2 but at least it suggests a meaning and there is nothing in it repugnant to reason or experience2 can we say as much of materialism8 ,is it not plain that if motion is essential to matter it would be inseparable from it1 it would always be present in it in the same degree1 always present in every particle of matter1 always the same in each particle of matter1 it would not be capable of transmission1 it could neither increase nor diminish1 nor could we ever conceive of matter at rest4 ,when you tell me that motion is not essential to matter but necessary to it1 you try to cheat me with words which would be easier to refute if there was a little more sense in them4 ,for either the motion of matter arises from the matter itself and is therefore essential to it2 or it arises from an external cause and is not necessary to the matter1 because the motive cause acts upon it2 we have got back to our original difficulty4 ,the chief source of human error is to be found in general and abstract ideas2 the jargon of metaphysics has never led to the discovery of any single truth1 and it has filled philosophy with absurdities of which we are ashamed as soon as we strip them of their long words4 ,tell me1 my friend1 when they talk to you of a blind force diffused throughout nature1 do they present any real idea to your mind8 ,they think they are saying something by these vague expressions--universal force1 essential motion--but they are saying nothing at all4 ,the idea of motion is nothing more than the idea of transference from place to place2 there is no motion without direction2 for no individual can move all ways at once4 ,in what direction then does matter move of necessity8 ,has the whole body of matter a uniform motion1 or has each atom its own motion8 ,according to the first idea the whole universe must form a solid and indivisible mass2 according to the second it can only form a diffused and incoherent fluid1 which would make the union of any two atoms impossible4 ,what direction shall be taken by this motion common to all matter8 ,shall it be in a straight line1 in a circle1 or from above downwards1 to the right or to the left8 ,if each molecule has its own direction1 what are the causes of all these directions and all these differences8 ,if every molecule or atom only revolved on its own axis1 nothing would ever leave its place and there would be no transmitted motion1 and even then this circular movement would require to follow some direction4 ,to set matter in motion by an abstraction is to utter words without meaning1 and to attribute to matter a given direction is to assume a determining cause4 ,the more examples ,i take1 the more causes ,i have to explain1 without ever finding a common agent which controls them4 ,far from being able to picture to myself an entire absence of order in the fortuitous concurrence of elements1 ,i cannot even imagine such a strife1 and the chaos of the universe is less conceivable to me than its harmony4 ,i can understand that the mechanism of the universe may not be intelligible to the human mind1 but when a man sets to work to explain it1 he must say what men can understand4 ,if matter in motion points me to a will1 matter in motion according to fixed laws points me to an intelligence2 that is the second article of my creed4 ,to act1 to compare1 to choose1 are the operations of an active1 thinking being2 so this being exists4 ,where do you find him existing1 you will say8 ,not merely in the revolving heavens1 nor in the sun which gives us light1 not in myself alone1 but in the sheep that grazes1 the bird that flies1 the stone that falls1 and the leaf blown by the wind4 ,i judge of the order of the world1 although ,i know nothing of its purpose1 for to judge of this order it is enough for me to compare the parts one with another1 to study their co-operation1 their relations1 and to observe their united action4 ,i know not why the universe exists1 but ,i see continually how it is changed2 ,i never fail to perceive the close connection by which the entities of which it consists lend their aid one to another4 ,i am like a man who sees the works of a watch for the first time2 he is never weary of admiring the mechanism1 though he does not know the use of the instrument and has never seen its face4 ,i do not know what this is for1 says he1 but ,i see that each part of it is fitted to the rest1 ,i admire the workman in the details of his work1 and ,i am quite certain that all these wheels only work together in this fashion for some common end which ,i cannot perceive4 ,let us compare the special ends1 the means1 the ordered relations of every kind1 then let us listen to the inner voice of feeling2 what healthy mind can reject its evidence8 ,unless the eyes are blinded by prejudices1 can they fail to see that the visible order of the universe proclaims a supreme intelligence8 ,what sophisms must be brought together before we fail to understand the harmony of existence and the wonderful co-operation of every part for the maintenance of the rest8 ,say what you will of combinations and probabilities2 what do you gain by reducing me to silence if you cannot gain my consent8 ,and how can you rob me of the spontaneous feeling which1 in spite of myself1 continually gives you the lie8 ,if organised bodies had come together fortuitously in all sorts of ways before assuming settled forms1 if stomachs are made without mouths1 feet without heads1 hands without arms1 imperfect organs of every kind which died because they could not preserve their life1 why do none of these imperfect attempts now meet our eyes2 why has nature at length prescribed laws to herself which she did not at first recognise8 ,i must not be surprised if that which is possible should happen1 and if the improbability of the event is compensated for by the number of the attempts4 ,i grant this2 yet if any one told me that printed characters scattered broadcast had produced the ,aeneid all complete1 ,i would not condescend to take a single step to verify this falsehood4 ,you will tell me ,i am forgetting the multitude of attempts4 ,but how many such attempts must ,i assume to bring the combination within the bounds of probability8 ,for my own part the only possible assumption is that the chances are infinity to one that the product is not the work of chance4 ,in addition to this1 chance combinations yield nothing but products of the same nature as the elements combined1 so that life and organisation will not be produced by a flow of atoms1 and a chemist when making his compounds will never give them thought and feeling in his crucible4 ,footnote3 ,could one believe1 if one had not seen it1 that human absurdity could go so far8 ,amatus ,lusitanus asserts that he saw a little man an inch long enclosed in a glass1 which ,julius ,camillus1 like a second ,prometheus1 had made by alchemy4 ,paracelsis 7,de natura rerum7 teaches the method of making these tiny men1 and he maintains that the pygmies1 fauns1 satyrs1 and nymphs have been made by chemistry4 ,indeed ,i cannot see that there is anything more to be done1 to establish the possibility of these facts1 unless it is to assert that organic matter resists the heat of fire and that its molecules can preserve their life in the hottest furnace4 ,i was surprised and almost shocked when ,i read ,neuwentit4 ,how could this man desire to make a book out of the wonders of nature1 wonders which show the wisdom of the author of nature8 ,his book would have been as large as the world itself before he had exhausted his subject1 and as soon as we attempt to give details1 that greatest wonder of all1 the concord and harmony of the whole1 escapes us4 ,the mere generation of living organic bodies is the despair of the human mind2 the insurmountable barrier raised by nature between the various species1 so that they should not mix with one another1 is the clearest proof of her intention4 ,she is not content to have established order1 she has taken adequate measures to prevent the disturbance of that order4 ,there is not a being in the universe which may not be regarded as in some respects the common centre of all1 around which they are grouped1 so that they are all reciprocally end and means in relation to each other4 ,the mind is confused and lost amid these innumerable relations1 not one of which is itself confused or lost in the crowd4 ,what absurd assumptions are required to deduce all this harmony from the blind mechanism of matter set in motion by chance6 ,in vain do those who deny the unity of intention manifested in the relations of all the parts of this great whole1 in vain do they conceal their nonsense under abstractions1 co-ordinations1 general principles1 symbolic expressions2 whatever they do ,i find it impossible to conceive of a system of entities so firmly ordered unless ,i believe in an intelligence that orders them4 ,it is not in my power to believe that passive and dead matter can have brought forth living and feeling beings1 that blind chance has brought forth intelligent beings1 that that which does not think has brought forth thinking beings4 ,i believe1 therefore1 that the world is governed by a wise and powerful will2 ,i see it or rather ,i feel it1 and it is a great thing to know this4 ,but has this same world always existed1 or has it been created8 ,is there one source of all things8 ,are there two or many8 ,what is their nature8 ,i know not2 and what concern is it of mine8 ,when these things become of importance to me ,i will try to learn them2 till then ,i abjure these idle speculations1 which may trouble my peace1 but cannot affect my conduct nor be comprehended by my reason4 ,recollect that ,i am not preaching my own opinion but explaining it4 ,whether matter is eternal or created1 whether its origin is passive or not1 it is still certain that the whole is one1 and that it proclaims a single intelligence2 for ,i see nothing that is not part of the same ordered system1 nothing which does not co-operate to the same end1 namely1 the conservation of all within the established order4 ,this being who wills and can perform his will1 this being active through his own power1 this being1 whoever he may be1 who moves the universe and orders all things1 is what ,i call ,god4 ,to this name ,i add the ideas of intelligence1 power1 will1 which ,i have brought together1 and that of kindness which is their necessary consequence2 but for all this ,i know no more of the being to which ,i ascribe them4 ,he hides himself alike from my senses and my understanding2 the more ,i think of him1 the more perplexed ,i am2 ,i know full well that he exists1 and that he exists of himself alone2 ,i know that my existence depends on his1 and that everything ,i know depends upon him also4 ,i see ,god everywhere in his works2 ,i feel him within myself2 ,i behold him all around me2 but if ,i try to ponder him himself1 if ,i try to find out where he is1 what he is1 what is his substance1 he escapes me and my troubled spirit finds nothing4 ,convinced of my unfitness1 ,i shall never argue about the nature of ,god unless ,i am driven to it by the feeling of his relations with myself4 ,such reasonings are always rash2 a wise man should venture on them with trembling1 he should be certain that he can never sound their abysses2 for the most insolent attitude towards ,god is not to abstain from thinking of him1 but to think evil of him4 ,after the discovery of such of his attributes as enable me to conceive of his existence1 ,i return to myself1 and ,i try to discover what is my place in the order of things which he governs1 and ,i can myself examine4 ,at once1 and beyond possibility of doubt1 ,i discover my species2 for by my own will and the instruments ,i can control to carry out my will1 ,i have more power to act upon all bodies about me1 either to make use of or to avoid their action at my pleasure1 than any of them has power to act upon me against my will by mere physical impulsion2 and through my intelligence ,i am the only one who can examine all the rest4 ,what being here below1 except man1 can observe others1 measure1 calculate1 forecast their motions1 their effects1 and unite1 so to speak1 the feeling of a common existence with that of his individual existence8 ,what is there so absurd in the thought that all things are made for me1 when ,i alone can relate all things to myself8 ,it is true1 therefore1 that man is lord of the earth on which he dwells2 for not only does he tame all the beasts1 not only does he control its elements through his industry2 but he alone knows how to control it2 by contemplation he takes possession of the stars which he cannot approach4 ,show me any other creature on earth who can make a fire and who can behold with admiration the sun4 ,what6 can ,i observe and know all creatures and their relations2 can ,i feel what is meant by order1 beauty1 and virtue2 can ,i consider the universe and raise myself towards the hand that guides it2 can ,i love good and perform it2 and should ,i then liken myself to the beasts8 ,wretched soul1 it is your gloomy philosophy which makes you like the beasts2 or rather in vain do you seek to degrade yourself2 your genius belies your principles1 your kindly heart belies your doctrines1 and even the abuse of your powers proves their excellence in your own despite4 ,for myself1 ,i am not pledged to the support of any system4 ,i am a plain and honest man1 one who is not carried away by party spirit1 one who has no ambition to be head of a sect2 ,i am content with the place where ,god has set me2 ,i see nothing1 next to ,god himself1 which is better than my species2 and if ,i had to choose my place in the order of creation1 what more could ,i choose than to be a man6 ,i am not puffed up by this thought1 ,i am deeply moved by it2 for this state was no choice of mine1 it was not due to the deserts of a creature who as yet did not exist4 ,can ,i behold myself thus distinguished without congratulating myself on this post of honour1 without blessing the hand which bestowed it8 ,the first return to self has given birth to a feeling of gratitude and thankfulness to the author of my species1 and this feeling calls forth my first homage to the beneficent ,godhead4 ,i worship his ,almighty power and my heart acknowledges his mercies4 ,is it not a natural consequence of our self-love to honour our protector and to love our benefactor8 ,but when1 in my desire to discover my own place within my species1 ,i consider its different ranks and the men who fill them1 where am ,i now8 ,what a sight meets my eyes6 ,where is now the order ,i perceived8 ,nature showed me a scene of harmony and proportion2 the human race shows me nothing but confusion and disorder4 ,the elements agree together2 men are in a state of chaos4 ,the beasts are happy2 their king alone is wretched4 ,o ,wisdom1 where are thy laws8 ,o ,providence1 is this thy rule over the world8 ,merciful ,god1 where is thy ,power8 ,i behold the earth1 and there is evil upon it4 ,would you believe it1 dear friend1 from these gloomy thoughts and apparent contradictions1 there was shaped in my mind the sublime idea of the soul1 which all my seeking had hitherto failed to discover8 ,while ,i meditated upon man's nature1 ,i seemed to discover two distinct principles in it2 one of them raised him to the study of the eternal truths1 to the love of justice1 and of true morality1 to the regions of the world of thought1 which the wise delight to contemplate2 the other led him downwards to himself1 made him the slave of his senses1 of the passions which are their instruments1 and thus opposed everything suggested to him by the former principle4 ,when ,i felt myself carried away1 distracted by these conflicting motives1 ,i said1 ,no2 man is not one2 ,i will and ,i will not2 ,i feel myself at once a slave and a free man2 ,i perceive what is right1 ,i love it1 and ,i do what is wrong2 ,i am active when ,i listen to the voice of reason2 ,i am passive when ,i am carried away by my passions2 and when ,i yield1 my worst suffering is the knowledge that ,i might have resisted4 ,young man1 hear me with confidence4 ,i will always be honest with you4 ,if conscience is the creature of prejudice1 ,i am certainly wrong1 and there is no such thing as a proof of morality2 but if to put oneself first is an inclination natural to man1 and if the first sentiment of justice is moreover inborn in the human heart1 let those who say man is a simple creature remove these contradictions and ,i will grant that there is but one substance4 ,you will note that by this term 'substance' ,i understand generally the being endowed with some primitive quality1 apart from all special and secondary modifications4 ,if then all the primitive qualities which are known to us can be united in one and the same being1 we should only acknowledge one substance2 but if there are qualities which are mutually exclusive1 there are as many different substances as there are such exclusions4 ,you will think this over2 for my own part1 whatever ,locke may say1 it is enough for me to recognise matter as having merely extension and divisibility to convince myself that it cannot think1 and if a philosopher tells me that trees feel and rocks think ,footnote3 ,it seems to me that modern philosophy1 far from saying that rocks think1 has discovered that men do not think4 ,it perceives nothing more in nature than sensitive beings2 and the only difference it finds between a man and a stone is that a man is a sensitive being which experiences sensations1 and a stone is a sensitive being which does not experience sensations4 ,but if it is true that all matter feels1 where shall ,i find the sensitive unit1 the individual ego8 ,shall it be in each molecule of matter or in bodies as aggregates of molecules8 ,shall ,i place this unity in fluids and solids alike1 in compounds and in elements8 ,you tell me nature consists of individuals4 ,but what are these individuals8 ,is that stone an individual or an aggregate of individuals8 ,is it a single sensitive being1 or are there as many beings in it as there are grains of sand8 ,if every elementary atom is a sensitive being1 how shall ,i conceive of that intimate communication by which one feels within the other1 so that their two egos are blended in one8 ,attraction may be a law of nature whose mystery is unknown to us2 but at least we conceive that there is nothing in attraction acting in proportion to mass which is contrary to extension and divisibility4 ,can you conceive of sensation in the same way8 ,the sensitive parts have extension1 but the sensitive being is one and indivisible2 he cannot be cut in two1 he is a whole or he is nothing2 therefore the sensitive being is not a material body4 ,i know not how our materialists understand it1 but it seems to me that the same difficulties which have led them to reject thought1 should have made them also reject feeling2 and ,i see no reason why1 when the first step has been taken1 they should not take the second too2 what more would it cost them8 ,since they are certain they do not think1 why do they dare to affirm that they feel8 in vain will he perplex me with his cunning arguments2 ,i merely regard him as a dishonest sophist1 who prefers to say that stones have feeling rather than that men have souls4 ,suppose a deaf man denies the existence of sounds because he has never heard them4 ,i put before his eyes a stringed instrument and cause it to sound in unison by means of another instrument concealed from him2 the deaf man sees the chord vibrate4 ,i tell him1 ,the sound makes it do that4 ,not at all1 says he1 the string itself is the cause of the vibration2 to vibrate in that way is a quality common to all bodies4 ,then show me this vibration in other bodies1 ,i answer1 or at least show me its cause in this string4 ,i cannot1 replies the deaf man2 but because ,i do not understand how that string vibrates why should ,i try to explain it by means of your sounds1 of which ,i have not the least idea8 ,it is explaining one obscure fact by means of a cause still more obscure4 ,make me perceive your sounds2 or ,i say there are no such things4 ,the more ,i consider thought and the nature of the human mind1 the more likeness ,i find between the arguments of the materialists and those of the deaf man4 ,indeed1 they are deaf to the inner voice which cries aloud to them1 in a tone which can hardly be mistaken4 ,a machine does not think1 there is neither movement nor form which can produce reflection2 something within thee tries to break the bands which confine it2 space is not thy measure1 the whole universe does not suffice to contain thee2 thy sentiments1 thy desires1 thy anxiety1 thy pride itself1 have another origin than this small body in which thou art imprisoned4 ,no material creature is in itself active1 and ,i am active4 ,in vain do you argue this point with me2 ,i feel it1 and it is this feeling which speaks to me more forcibly than the reason which disputes it4 ,i have a body which is acted upon by other bodies1 and it acts in turn upon them2 there is no doubt about this reciprocal action2 but my will is independent of my senses2 ,i consent or ,i resist2 ,i yield or ,i win the victory1 and ,i know very well in myself when ,i have done what ,i wanted and when ,i have merely given way to my passions4 ,i have always the power to will1 but not always the strength to do what ,i will4 ,when ,i yield to temptation ,i surrender myself to the action of external objects4 ,when ,i blame myself for this weakness1 ,i listen to my own will alone2 ,i am a slave in my vices1 a free man in my remorse2 the feeling of freedom is never effaced in me but when ,i myself do wrong1 and when ,i at length prevent the voice of the soul from protesting against the authority of the body4 ,i am only aware of will through the consciousness of my own will1 and intelligence is no better known to me4 ,when you ask me what is the cause which determines my will1 it is my turn to ask what cause determines my judgment2 for it is plain that these two causes are but one2 and if you understand clearly that man is active in his judgments1 that his intelligence is only the power to compare and judge1 you will see that his freedom is only a similar power or one derived from this2 he chooses between good and evil as he judges between truth and falsehood2 if his judgment is at fault1 he chooses amiss4 ,what then is the cause that determines his will8 ,it is his judgment4 ,and what is the cause that determines his judgment8 ,it is his intelligence1 his power of judging2 the determining cause is in himself4 ,beyond that1 ,i understand nothing4 ,no doubt ,i am not free not to desire my own welfare1 ,i am not free to desire my own hurt2 but my freedom consists in this very thing1 that ,i can will what is for my own good1 or what ,i esteem as such1 without any external compulsion4 ,does it follow that ,i am not my own master because ,i cannot be other than myself8 ,the motive power of all action is in the will of a free creature2 we can go no farther4 ,it is not the word freedom that is meaningless1 but the word necessity4 ,to suppose some action which is not the effect of an active motive power is indeed to suppose effects without cause1 to reason in a vicious circle4 ,either there is no original impulse1 or every original impulse has no antecedent cause1 and there is no will properly so-called without freedom4 ,man is therefore free to act1 and as such he is animated by an immaterial substance2 that is the third article of my creed4 ,from these three you will easily deduce the rest1 so that ,i need not enumerate them4 ,if man is at once active and free1 he acts of his own accord2 what he does freely is no part of the system marked out by ,providence and it cannot be imputed to ,providence4 ,providence does not will the evil that man does when he misuses the freedom given to him2 neither does ,providence prevent him doing it1 either because the wrong done by so feeble a creature is as nothing in its eyes1 or because it could not prevent it without doing a greater wrong and degrading his nature4 ,providence has made him free that he may choose the good and refuse the evil4 ,it has made him capable of this choice if he uses rightly the faculties bestowed upon him1 but it has so strictly limited his powers that the misuse of his freedom cannot disturb the general order4 ,the evil that man does reacts upon himself without affecting the system of the world1 without preventing the preservation of the human species in spite of itself4 ,to complain that ,god does not prevent us from doing wrong is to complain because he has made man of so excellent a nature1 that he has endowed his actions with that morality by which they are ennobled1 that he has made virtue man's birthright4 ,supreme happiness consists in self-content2 that we may gain this self-content we are placed upon this earth and endowed with freedom1 we are tempted by our passions and restrained by conscience4 ,what more could divine power itself have done on our behalf8 ,could it have made our nature a contradiction1 and have given the prize of well-doing to one who was incapable of evil8 ,to prevent a man from wickedness1 should ,providence have restricted him to instinct and made him a fool8 ,not so1 ,o ,god of my soul1 ,i will never reproach thee that thou hast created me in thine own image1 that ,i may be free and good and happy like my ,maker6 ,it is the abuse of our powers that makes us unhappy and wicked4 ,our cares1 our sorrows1 our sufferings are of our own making4 ,moral ills are undoubtedly the work of man1 and physical ills would be nothing but for our vices which have made us liable to them4 ,has not nature made us feel our needs as a means to our preservation6 ,is not bodily suffering a sign that the machine is out of order and needs attention8 ,death4444 ,do not the wicked poison their own life and ours8 ,who would wish to live for ever8 ,death is the cure for the evils you bring upon yourself2 nature would not have you suffer perpetually4 ,how few sufferings are felt by man living in a state of primitive simplicity6 ,his life is almost entirely free from suffering and from passion2 he neither fears nor feels death2 if he feels it1 his sufferings make him desire it2 henceforth it is no evil in his eyes4 ,if we were but content to be ourselves we should have no cause to complain of our lot2 but in the search for an imaginary good we find a thousand real ills4 ,he who cannot bear a little pain must expect to suffer greatly4 ,if a man injures his constitution by dissipation1 you try to cure him with medicine2 the ill he fears is added to the ill he feels2 the thought of death makes it horrible and hastens its approach2 the more we seek to escape from it1 the more we are aware of it2 and we go through life in the fear of death1 blaming nature for the evils we have inflicted on ourselves by our neglect of her laws4 ,o ,man6 seek no further for the author of evil2 thou art he4 ,there is no evil but the evil you do or the evil you suffer1 and both come from yourself4 ,evil in general can only spring from disorder1 and in the order of the world ,i find a never failing system4 ,evil in particular cases exists only in the mind of those who experience it2 and this feeling is not the gift of nature1 but the work of man himself4 ,pain has little power over those who1 having thought little1 look neither before nor after4 ,take away our fatal progress1 take away our faults and our vices1 take away man's handiwork1 and all is well4 ,where all is well1 there is no such thing as injustice4 ,justice and goodness are inseparable2 now goodness is the necessary result of boundless power and of that self-love which is innate in all sentient beings4 ,the omnipotent projects himself1 so to speak1 into the being of his creatures4 ,creation and preservation are the everlasting work of power2 it does not act on that which has no existence2 ,god is not the ,god of the dead2 he could not harm and destroy without injury to himself4 ,the omnipotent can only will what is good4 ,footnote3 ,the ancients were right when they called the supreme ,god ,optimus ,maximus1 but it would have been better to say ,maximus ,optimus1 for his goodness springs from his power1 he is good because he is great4 ,therefore he who is supremely good1 because he is supremely powerful1 must also be supremely just1 otherwise he would contradict himself2 for that love of order which creates order we call goodness and that love of order which preserves order we call justice4 ,men say ,god owes nothing to his creatures4 ,i think he owes them all he promised when he gave them their being4 ,now to give them the idea of something good and to make them feel the need of it1 is to promise it to them4 ,the more closely ,i study myself1 the more carefully ,i consider1 the more plainly do ,i read these words1 ,be just and you will be happy4 ,it is not so1 however1 in the present condition of things1 the wicked prospers and the oppression of the righteous continues4 ,observe how angry we are when this expectation is disappointed4 ,conscience revolts and murmurs against her ,creator2 she exclaims with cries and groans1 ,thou hast deceived me4 ,i have deceived thee1 rash soul6 ,who told thee this8 ,is thy soul destroyed8 ,hast thou ceased to exist8 ,o ,brutus6 ,o my son6 let there be no stain upon the close of thy noble life2 do not abandon thy hope and thy glory with thy corpse upon the plains of ,philippi4 ,why dost thou say1 ',virtue is naught1' when thou art about to enjoy the reward of virtue8 ,thou art about to die6 ,nay1 thou shalt live1 and thus my promise is fulfilled4 ,one might judge from the complaints of impatient men that ,god owes them the reward before they have deserved it1 that he is bound to pay for virtue in advance4 ,oh6 let us first be good and then we shall be happy4 ,let us not claim the prize before we have won it1 nor demand our wages before we have finished our work4 ,it is not in the lists that we crown the victors in the sacred games1 says ,plutarch1 it is when they have finished their course4 ,if the soul is immaterial1 it may survive the body2 and if it so survives1 ,providence is justified4 ,had ,i no other proof of the immaterial nature of the soul1 the triumph of the wicked and the oppression of the righteous in this world would be enough to convince me4 ,i should seek to resolve so appalling a discord in the universal harmony4 ,i should say to myself1 ,all is not over with life1 everything finds its place at death4 ,i should still have to answer the question1 ,what becomes of man when all we know of him through our senses has vanished8 ,this question no longer presents any difficulty to me when ,i admit the two substances4 ,it is easy to understand that what is imperceptible to those senses escapes me1 during my bodily life1 when ,i perceive through my senses only4 ,when the union of soul and body is destroyed1 ,i think one may be dissolved and the other may be preserved4 ,why should the destruction of the one imply the destruction of the other8 ,on the contrary1 so unlike in their nature1 they were during their union in a highly unstable condition1 and when this union comes to an end they both return to their natural state2 the active vital substance regains all the force which it expended to set in motion the passive dead substance4 ,alas6 my vices make me only too well aware that man is but half alive during this life2 the life of the soul only begins with the death of the body4 ,but what is that life8 ,is the soul of man in its nature immortal8 ,i know not4 ,my finite understanding cannot hold the infinite2 what is called eternity eludes my grasp4 ,what can ,i assert or deny1 how can ,i reason with regard to what ,i cannot conceive8 ,i believe that the soul survives the body for the maintenance of order2 who knows if this is enough to make it eternal8 ,however1 ,i know that the body is worn out and destroyed by the division of its parts1 but ,i cannot conceive a similar destruction of the conscious nature1 and as ,i cannot imagine how it can die1 ,i presume that it does not die4 ,as this assumption is consoling and in itself not unreasonable1 why should ,i fear to accept it8 ,i am aware of my soul2 it is known to me in feeling and in thought2 ,i know what it is without knowing its essence2 ,i cannot reason about ideas which are unknown to me4 ,what ,i do know is this1 that my personal identity depends upon memory1 and that to be indeed the same self ,i must remember that ,i have existed4 ,now after death ,i could not recall what ,i was when alive unless ,i also remembered what ,i felt and therefore what ,i did2 and ,i have no doubt that this remembrance will one day form the happiness of the good and the torment of the bad4 ,in this world our inner consciousness is absorbed by the crowd of eager passions which cheat remorse4 ,the humiliation and disgrace involved in the practice of virtue do not permit us to realise its charm4 ,but when1 freed from the illusions of the bodily senses1 we behold with joy the supreme ,being and the eternal truths which flow from him2 when all the powers of our soul are alive to the beauty of order and we are wholly occupied in comparing what we have done with what we ought to have done1 then it is that the voice of conscience will regain its strength and sway2 then it is that the pure delight which springs from self-content1 and the sharp regret for our own degradation of that self1 will decide by means of overpowering feeling what shall be the fate which each has prepared for himself4 ,my good friend1 do not ask me whether there are other sources of happiness or suffering2 ,i cannot tell2 that which my fancy pictures is enough to console me in this life and to bid me look for a life to come4 ,i do not say the good will be rewarded1 for what greater good can a truly good being expect than to exist in accordance with his nature8 ,but ,i do assert that the good will be happy1 because their maker1 the author of all justice1 who has made them capable of feeling1 has not made them that they may suffer2 moreover1 they have not abused their freedom upon earth and they have not changed their fate through any fault of their own2 yet they have suffered in this life and it will be made up to them in the life to come4 ,this feeling relies not so much on man's deserts as on the idea of good which seems to me inseparable from the divine essence4 ,i only assume that the laws of order are constant and that ,god is true to himself4 ,do not ask me whether the torments of the wicked will endure for ever1 whether the goodness of their creator can condemn them to the eternal suffering2 again1 ,i cannot tell1 and ,i have no empty curiosity for the investigation of useless problems4 ,how does the fate of the wicked concern me8 ,i take little interest in it4 ,all the same ,i find it hard to believe that they will be condemned to everlasting torments4 ,if the supreme justice calls for vengeance1 it claims it in this life4 ,the nations of the world with their errors are its ministers4 ,justice uses self-inflicted ills to punish the crimes which have deserved them4 ,it is in your own insatiable souls1 devoured by envy1 greed1 and ambition1 it is in the midst of your false prosperity1 that the avenging passions find the due reward of your crimes4 ,what need to seek a hell in the future life8 ,it is here in the breast of the wicked4 ,when our fleeting needs are over1 and our mad desires are at rest1 there should also be an end of our passions and our crimes4 ,can pure spirits be capable of any perversity8 ,having need of nothing1 why should they be wicked8 ,if they are free from our gross senses1 if their happiness consists in the contemplation of other beings1 they can only desire what is good2 and he who ceases to be bad can never be miserable4 ,this is what ,i am inclined to think though ,i have not been at the pains to come to any decision4 ,o ,god1 merciful and good1 whatever thy decrees may be ,i adore them2 if thou shouldst commit the wicked to everlasting punishment1 ,i abandon my feeble reason to thy justice2 but if the remorse of these wretched beings should in the course of time be extinguished1 if their sufferings should come to an end1 and if the same peace shall one day be the lot of all mankind1 ,i give thanks to thee for this4 ,is not the wicked my brother8 ,how often have ,i been tempted to be like him8 ,let him be delivered from his misery and freed from the spirit of hatred that accompanied it2 let him be as happy as ,i myself2 his happiness1 far from arousing my jealousy1 will only increase my own4 ,thus it is that1 in the contemplation of ,god in his works1 and in the study of such of his attributes as it concerned me to know1 ,i have slowly grasped and developed the idea1 at first partial and imperfect1 which ,i have formed of this ,infinite ,being4 ,but if this idea has become nobler and greater it is also more suited to the human reason4 ,as ,i approach in spirit the eternal light1 ,i am confused and dazzled by its glory1 and compelled to abandon all the earthly notions which helped me to picture it to myself4 ,god is no longer corporeal and sensible2 the supreme mind which rules the world is no longer the world itself2 in vain do ,i strive to grasp his inconceivable essence4 ,when ,i think that it is he that gives life and movement to the living and moving substance which controls all living bodies2 when ,i hear it said that my soul is spiritual and that ,god is a spirit1 ,i revolt against this abasement of the divine essence2 as if ,god and my soul were of one and the same nature6 ,as if ,god were not the one and only absolute being1 the only really active1 feeling1 thinking1 willing being1 from whom we derive our thought1 feeling1 motion1 will1 our freedom and our very existence6 ,we are free because he wills our freedom1 and his inexplicable substance is to our souls what our souls are to our bodies4 ,i know not whether he has created matter1 body1 soul1 the world itself4 ,the idea of creation confounds me and eludes my grasp2 so far as ,i can conceive of it ,i believe it2 but ,i know that he has formed the universe and all that is1 that he has made and ordered all things4 ,no doubt ,god is eternal2 but can my mind grasp the idea of eternity8 ,why should ,i cheat myself with meaningless words8 ,this is what ,i do understand2 before things were--,god was2 he will be when they are no more1 and if all things come to an end he will still endure4 ,that a being beyond my comprehension should give life to other beings1 this is merely difficult and beyond my understanding2 but that ,being and ,nothing should be convertible terms1 this is indeed a palpable contradiction1 an evident absurdity4 ,god is intelligent1 but how8 ,man is intelligent when he reasons1 but the ,supreme ,intelligence does not need to reason2 there is neither premise nor conclusion for him1 there is not even a proposition4 ,the ,supreme ,intelligence is wholly intuitive1 it sees what is and what shall be2 all truths are one for it1 as all places are but one point and all time but one moment4 ,man's power makes use of means1 the divine power is self-active4 ,god can because he wills2 his will is his power4 ,god is good2 this is certain2 but man finds his happiness in the welfare of his kind4 ,god's happiness consists in the love of order2 for it is through order that he maintains what is1 and unites each part in the whole4 ,god is just2 of this ,i am sure1 it is a consequence of his goodness2 man's injustice is not ,god's work1 but his own2 that moral justice which seems to the philosophers a presumption against ,providence1 is to me a proof of its existence4 ,but man's justice consists in giving to each his due2 ,god's justice consists in demanding from each of us an account of that which he has given us4 ,if ,i have succeeded in discerning these attributes of which ,i have no absolute idea1 it is in the form of unavoidable deductions1 and by the right use of my reason2 but ,i affirm them without understanding them1 and at bottom that is no affirmation at all4 ,in vain do ,i say1 ,god is thus1 ,i feel it1 ,i experience it1 none the more do ,i understand how ,god can be thus4 ,in a word3 the more ,i strive to envisage his infinite essence the less do ,i comprehend it2 but it is1 and that is enough for me2 the less ,i understand1 the more ,i adore4 ,i abase myself1 saying1 ,being of beings1 ,i am because thou art2 to fix my thoughts on thee is to ascend to the source of my being4 ,the best use ,i can make of my reason is to resign it before thee2 my mind delights1 my weakness rejoices1 to feel myself overwhelmed by thy greatness4 ,having thus deduced from the perception of objects of sense and from my inner consciousness1 which leads me to judge of causes by my native reason1 the principal truths which ,i require to know1 ,i must now seek such principles of conduct as ,i can draw from them1 and such rules as ,i must lay down for my guidance in the fulfilment of my destiny in this world1 according to the purpose of my ,maker4 ,still following the same method1 ,i do not derive these rules from the principles of the higher philosophy1 ,i find them in the depths of my heart1 traced by nature in characters which nothing can efface4 ,i need only consult myself with regard to what ,i wish to do2 what ,i feel to be right is right1 what ,i feel to be wrong is wrong2 conscience is the best casuist2 and it is only when we haggle with conscience that we have recourse to the subtleties of argument4 ,our first duty is towards ourself2 yet how often does the voice of others tell us that in seeking our good at the expense of others we are doing ill8 ,we think we are following the guidance of nature1 and we are resisting it2 we listen to what she says to our senses1 and we neglect what she says to our heart2 the active being obeys1 the passive commands4 ,conscience is the voice of the soul1 the passions are the voice of the body4 ,it is strange that these voices often contradict each other8 ,and then to which should we give heed8 ,too often does reason deceive us2 we have only too good a right to doubt her2 but conscience never deceives us2 she is the true guide of man2 it is to the soul what instinct is to the body1 ,footnote3 ,modern philosophy1 which only admits what it can understand1 is careful not to admit this obscure power called instinct which seems to guide the animals to some end without any acquired experience4 ,instinct1 according to some of our wise philosophers1 is only a secret habit of reflection1 acquired by reflection2 and from the way in which they explain this development one ought to suppose that children reflect more than grown-up people3 a paradox strange enough to be worth examining4 ,without entering upon this discussion ,i must ask what name ,i shall give to the eagerness with which my dog makes war on the moles he does not eat1 or to the patience with which he sometimes watches them for hours and the skill with which he seizes them1 throws them to a distance from their earth as soon as they emerge1 and then kills them and leaves them4 ,yet no one has trained him to this sport1 nor even told him there were such things as moles4 ,again1 ,i ask1 and this is a more important question1 why1 when ,i threatened this same dog for the first time1 why did he throw himself on the ground with his paws folded1 in such a suppliant attitude 44444calculated to touch me1 a position which he would have maintained if1 without being touched by it1 ,i had continued to beat him in that position8 ,what6 ,had my dog1 little more than a puppy1 acquired moral ideas8 ,did he know the meaning of mercy and generosity8 ,by what acquired knowledge did he seek to appease my wrath by yielding to my discretion8 ,every dog in the world does almost the same thing in similar circumstances1 and ,i am asserting nothing but what any one can verify for himself4 ,will the philosophers1 who so scornfully reject instinct1 kindly explain this fact by the mere play of sensations and experience which they assume we have acquired8 ,let them give an account of it which will satisfy any sensible man2 in that case ,i have nothing further to urge1 and ,i will say no more of instinct4 he who obeys his conscience is following nature and he need not fear that he will go astray4 ,this is a matter of great importance1 continued my benefactor1 seeing that ,i was about to interrupt him2 let me stop awhile to explain it more fully4 ,the morality of our actions consists entirely in the judgments we ourselves form with regard to them4 ,if good is good1 it must be good in the depth of our heart as well as in our actions2 and the first reward of justice is the consciousness that we are acting justly4 ,if moral goodness is in accordance with our nature1 man can only be healthy in mind and body when he is good4 ,if it is not so1 and if man is by nature evil1 he cannot cease to be evil without corrupting his nature1 and goodness in him is a crime against nature4 ,if he is made to do harm to his fellow-creatures1 as the wolf is made to devour his prey1 a humane man would be as depraved a creature as a pitiful wolf2 and virtue alone would cause remorse4 ,my young friend1 let us look within1 let us set aside all personal prejudices and see whither our inclinations lead us4 ,do we take more pleasure in the sight of the sufferings of others or their joys8 ,is it pleasanter to do a kind action or an unkind action1 and which leaves the more delightful memory behind it8 ,why do you enjoy the theatre8 ,do you delight in the crimes you behold8 ,do you weep over the punishment which overtakes the criminal8 ,they say we are indifferent to everything but self-interest2 yet we find our consolation in our sufferings in the charms of friendship and humanity1 and even in our pleasures we should be too lonely and miserable if we had no one to share them with us4 ,if there is no such thing as morality in man's heart1 what is the source of his rapturous admiration of noble deeds1 his passionate devotion to great men8 ,what connection is there between self-interest and this enthusiasm for virtue8 ,why should ,i choose to be ,cato dying by his own hand1 rather than ,caesar in his triumphs8 ,take from our hearts this love of what is noble and you rob us of the joy of life4 ,the mean-spirited man in whom these delicious feelings have been stifled among vile passions1 who by thinking of no one but himself comes at last to love no one but himself1 this man feels no raptures1 his cold heart no longer throbs with joy1 and his eyes no longer fill with the sweet tears of sympathy1 he delights in nothing2 the wretch has neither life nor feeling1 he is already dead4 ,there are many bad men in this world1 but there are few of these dead souls1 alive only to self-interest1 and insensible to all that is right and good4 ,we only delight in injustice so long as it is to our own advantage2 in every other case we wish the innocent to be protected4 ,if we see some act of violence or injustice in town or country1 our hearts are at once stirred to their depths by an instinctive anger and wrath1 which bids us go to the help of the oppressed2 but we are restrained by a stronger duty1 and the law deprives us of our right to protect the innocent4 ,on the other hand1 if some deed of mercy or generosity meets our eye1 what reverence and love does it inspire6 ,do we not say to ourselves1 ,i should like to have done that myself8 ,what does it matter to us that two thousand years ago a man was just or unjust8 and yet we take the same interest in ancient history as if it happened yesterday4 ,what are the crimes of ,cataline to me8 ,i shall not be his victim4 ,why then have ,i the same horror of his crimes as if he were living now8 ,we do not hate the wicked merely because of the harm they do to ourselves1 but because they are wicked4 ,not only do we wish to be happy ourselves1 we wish others to be happy too1 and if this happiness does not interfere with our own happiness1 it increases it4 ,in conclusion1 whether we will or not1 we pity the unfortunate2 when we see their suffering we suffer too4 ,even the most depraved are not wholly without this instinct1 and it often leads them to self-contradiction4 ,the highwayman who robs the traveller1 clothes the nakedness of the poor2 the fiercest murderer supports a fainting man4 ,men speak of the voice of remorse1 the secret punishment of hidden crimes1 by which such are often brought to light4 ,alas6 who does not know its unwelcome voice8 ,we speak from experience1 and we would gladly stifle this imperious feeling which causes us such agony4 ,let us obey the call of nature2 we shall see that her yoke is easy and that when we give heed to her voice we find a joy in the answer of a good conscience4 ,the wicked fears and flees from her2 he delights to escape from himself2 his anxious eyes look around him for some object of diversion2 without bitter satire and rude mockery he would always be sorrowful2 the scornful laugh is his one pleasure4 ,not so the just man1 who finds his peace within himself2 there is joy not malice in his laughter1 a joy which springs from his own heart2 he is as cheerful alone as in company1 his satisfaction does not depend on those who approach him2 it includes them4 ,cast your eyes over every nation of the world2 peruse every volume of its history2 in the midst of all these strange and cruel forms of worship1 among this amazing variety of manners and customs1 you will everywhere find the same ideas of right and justice2 everywhere the same principles of morality1 the same ideas of good and evil4 ,the old paganism gave birth to abominable gods who would have been punished as scoundrels here below1 gods who merely offered1 as a picture of supreme happiness1 crimes to be committed and lust to be gratified4 ,but in vain did vice descend from the abode of the gods armed with their sacred authority2 the moral instinct refused to admit it into the heart of man4 ,while the debaucheries of ,jupiter were celebrated1 the continence of ,xenocrates was revered2 the chaste ,lucrece adored the shameless ,venus2 the bold ,roman offered sacrifices to ,fear2 he invoked the god who mutilated his father1 and he died without a murmur at the hand of his own father4 ,the most unworthy gods were worshipped by the noblest men4 ,the sacred voice of nature was stronger than the voice of the gods1 and won reverence upon earth2 it seemed to relegate guilt and the guilty alike to heaven4 ,there is therefore at the bottom of our hearts an innate principle of justice and virtue1 by which1 in spite of our maxims1 we judge our own actions or those of others to be good or evil2 and it is this principle that ,i call conscience4 ,but at this word ,i hear the murmurs of all the wise men so-called4 ,childish errors1 prejudices of our upbringing1 they exclaim in concert6 ,there is nothing in the human mind but what it has gained by experience2 and we judge everything solely by means of the ideas we have acquired4 ,they go further2 they even venture to reject the clear and universal agreement of all peoples1 and to set against this striking unanimity in the judgment of mankind1 they seek out some obscure exception known to themselves alone2 as if the whole trend of nature were rendered null by the depravity of a single nation1 and as if the existence of monstrosities made an end of species4 ,but to what purpose does the sceptic ,montaigne strive himself to unearth in some obscure corner of the world a custom which is contrary to the ideas of justice8 ,to what purpose does he credit the most untrustworthy travellers1 while he refuses to believe the greatest writers8 ,a few strange and doubtful customs1 based on local causes1 unknown to us2 shall these destroy a general inference based on the agreement of all the nations of the earth1 differing from each other in all else1 but agreed in this8 ,o ,montaigne1 you pride yourself on your truth and honesty2 be sincere and truthful1 if a philosopher can be so1 and tell me if there is any country upon earth where it is a crime to keep one's plighted word1 to be merciful1 helpful1 and generous1 where the good man is scorned1 and the traitor is held in honour4 ,self-interest1 so they say1 induces each of us to agree for the common good4 ,but how is it that the good man consents to this to his own hurt8 ,does a man go to death from self-interest8 ,no doubt each man acts for his own good1 but if there is no such thing as moral good to be taken into consideration1 self-interest will only enable you to account for the deeds of the wicked2 possibly you will not attempt to do more4 ,a philosophy which could find no place for good deeds would be too detestable2 you would find yourself compelled either to find some mean purpose1 some wicked motive1 or to abuse ,socrates and slander ,regulus4 ,if such doctrines ever took root among us1 the voice of nature1 together with the voice of reason1 would constantly protest against them1 till no adherent of such teaching could plead an honest excuse for his partisanship4 ,it is no part of my scheme to enter at present into metaphysical discussions which neither you nor ,i can understand1 discussions which really lead nowhere4 ,i have told you already that ,i do not wish to philosophise with you1 but to help you to consult your own heart4 ,if all the philosophers in the world should prove that ,i am wrong1 and you feel that ,i am right1 that is all ,i ask4 ,for this purpose it is enough to lead you to distinguish between our acquired ideas and our natural feelings2 for feeling precedes knowledge2 and since we do not learn to seek what is good for us and avoid what is bad for us1 but get this desire from nature1 in the same way the love of good and the hatred of evil are as natural to us as our self-love4 ,the decrees of conscience are not judgments but feelings4 ,although all our ideas come from without1 the feelings by which they are weighed are within us1 and it is by these feelings alone that we perceive fitness or unfitness of things in relation to ourselves1 which leads us to seek or shun these things4 ,to exist is to feel2 our feeling is undoubtedly earlier than our intelligence1 and we had feelings before we had ideas4,footnote3 ,in some respects ideas are feelings and feelings are ideas4 ,both terms are appropriate to any perception with which we are concerned1 appropriate both to the object of that perception and to ourselves who are affected by it2 it is merely the order in which we are affected which decides the appropriate term4 ,when we are chiefly concerned with the object and only think of ourselves as it were by reflection1 that is an idea2 when1 on the other hand1 the impression received excites our chief attention and we only think in the second place of the object which caused it1 it is a feeling4 ,whatever may be the cause of our being1 it has provided for our preservation by giving us feelings suited to our nature2 and no one can deny that these at least are innate4 ,these feelings1 so far as the individual is concerned1 are self-love1 fear1 pain1 the dread of death1 the desire for comfort4 ,again1 if1 as it is impossible to doubt1 man is by nature sociable1 or at least fitted to become sociable1 he can only be so by means of other innate feelings1 relative to his kind2 for if only physical well-being were considered1 men would certainly be scattered rather than brought together4 ,but the motive power of conscience is derived from the moral system formed through this twofold relation to himself and to his fellow-men4 ,to know good is not to love it2 this knowledge is not innate in man2 but as soon as his reason leads him to perceive it1 his conscience impels him to love it2 it is this feeling which is innate4 ,so ,i do not think1 my young friend1 that it is impossible to explain the immediate force of conscience as a result of our own nature1 independent of reason itself4 ,and even should it be impossible1 it is unnecessary2 for those who deny this principle1 admitted and received by everybody else in the world1 do not prove that there is no such thing2 they are content to affirm1 and when we affirm its existence we have quite as good grounds as they1 while we have moreover the witness within us1 the voice of conscience1 which speaks on its own behalf4 ,if the first beams of judgment dazzle us and confuse the objects we behold1 let us wait till our feeble sight grows clear and strong1 and in the light of reason we shall soon behold these very objects as nature has already showed them to us4 ,or rather let us be simpler and less pretentious2 let us be content with the first feelings we experience in ourselves1 since science always brings us back to these1 unless it has led us astray4 ,conscience6 ,conscience6 ,divine instinct1 immortal voice from heaven2 sure guide for a creature ignorant and finite indeed1 yet intelligent and free2 infallible judge of good and evil1 making man like to ,god6 ,in thee consists the excellence of man's nature and the morality of his actions2 apart from thee1 ,i find nothing in myself to raise me above the beasts--nothing but the sad privilege of wandering from one error to another1 by the help of an unbridled understanding and a reason which knows no principle4 ,thank heaven we have now got rid of all that alarming show of philosophy2 we may be men without being scholars2 now that we need not spend our life in the study of morality1 we have found a less costly and surer guide through this vast labyrinth of human thought4 ,but it is not enough to be aware that there is such a guide2 we must know her and follow her4 ,if she speaks to all hearts1 how is it that so few give heed to her voice8 ,she speaks to us in the language of nature1 and everything leads us to forget that tongue4 ,conscience is timid1 she loves peace and retirement2 she is startled by noise and numbers2 the prejudices from which she is said to arise are her worst enemies4 ,she flees before them or she is silent2 their noisy voices drown her words1 so that she cannot get a hearing2 fanaticism dares to counterfeit her voice and to inspire crimes in her name4 ,she is discouraged by ill-treatment2 she no longer speaks to us1 no longer answers to our call2 when she has been scorned so long1 it is as hard to recall her as it was to banish her4 ,how often in the course of my inquiries have ,i grown weary of my own coldness of heart6 ,how often have grief and weariness poured their poison into my first meditations and made them hateful to me6 ,my barren heart yielded nothing but a feeble zeal and a lukewarm love of truth4 ,i said to myself3 ,why should ,i strive to find what does not exist8 ,moral good is a dream1 the pleasures of sense are the only real good4 ,when once we have lost the taste for the pleasures of the soul1 how hard it is to recover it6 ,how much more difficult to acquire it if we have never possessed it6 ,if there were any man so wretched as never to have done anything all his life long which he could remember with pleasure1 and which would make him glad to have lived1 that man would be incapable of self-knowledge1 and for want of knowledge of goodness1 of which his nature is capable1 he would be constrained to remain in his wickedness and would be for ever miserable4 ,but do you think there is any one man upon earth so depraved that he has never yielded to the temptation of well-doing8 ,this temptation is so natural1 so pleasant1 that it is impossible always to resist it2 and the thought of the pleasure it has once afforded is enough to recall it constantly to our memory4 ,unluckily it is hard at first to find satisfaction for it2 we have any number of reasons for refusing to follow the inclinations of our heart2 prudence1 so called1 restricts the heart within the limits of the self2 a thousand efforts are needed to break these bonds4 ,the joy of well-doing is the prize of having done well1 and we must deserve the prize before we win it4 ,there is nothing sweeter than virtue2 but we do not know this till we have tried it4 ,like ,proteus in the fable1 she first assumes a thousand terrible shapes when we would embrace her1 and only shows her true self to those who refuse to let her go4 ,ever at strife between my natural feelings1 which spoke of the common weal1 and my reason1 which spoke of self1 ,i should have drifted through life in perpetual uncertainty1 hating evil1 loving good1 and always at war with myself1 if my heart had not received further light1 if that truth which determined my opinions had not also settled my conduct1 and set me at peace with myself4 ,reason alone is not a sufficient foundation for virtue2 what solid ground can be found8 ,virtue we are told is love of order4 ,but can this love prevail over my love for my own well-being1 and ought it so to prevail8 ,let them give me clear and sufficient reason for this preference4 ,their so-called principle is in truth a mere playing with words2 for ,i also say that vice is love of order1 differently understood4 ,wherever there is feeling and intelligence1 there is some sort of moral order4 ,the difference is this3 the good man orders his life with regard to all men2 the wicked orders it for self alone4 ,the latter centres all things round himself2 the other measures his radius and remains on the circumference4 ,thus his place depends on the common centre1 which is ,god1 and on all the concentric circles which are ,his creatures4 ,if there is no ,god1 the wicked is right and the good man is nothing but a fool4 ,my child6 ,may you one day feel what a burden is removed when1 having fathomed the vanity of human thoughts and tasted the bitterness of passion1 you find at length near at hand the path of wisdom1 the prize of this life's labours1 the source of that happiness which you despaired of4 ,every duty of natural law1 which man's injustice had almost effaced from my heart1 is engraven there1 for the second time in the name of that eternal justice which lays these duties upon me and beholds my fulfilment of them4 ,i feel myself merely the instrument of the ,omnipotent1 who wills what is good1 who performs it1 who will bring about my own good through the co-operation of my will with his own1 and by the right use of my liberty4 ,i acquiesce in the order he establishes1 certain that one day ,i shall enjoy that order and find my happiness in it2 for what sweeter joy is there than this1 to feel oneself a part of a system where all is good8 ,a prey to pain1 ,i bear it in patience1 remembering that it will soon be over1 and that it results from a body which is not mine4 ,if ,i do a good deed in secret1 ,i know that it is seen1 and my conduct in this life is a pledge of the life to come4 ,when ,i suffer injustice1 ,i say to myself1 the ,almighty who does all things well will reward me3 my bodily needs1 my poverty1 make the idea of death less intolerable4 ,there will be all the fewer bonds to be broken when my hour comes4 ,why is my soul subjected to my senses1 and imprisoned in this body by which it is enslaved and thwarted8 ,i know not2 have ,i entered into the counsels of the ,almighty8 ,but ,i may1 without rashness1 venture on a modest conjecture4 ,i say to myself3 ,if man's soul had remained in a state of freedom and innocence1 what merit would there have been in loving and obeying the order he found established1 an order which it would not have been to his advantage to disturb8 ,he would be happy1 no doubt1 but his happiness would not attain to the highest point1 the pride of virtue1 and the witness of a good conscience within him2 he would be but as the angels are1 and no doubt the good man will be more than they4 ,bound to a mortal body1 by bonds as strange as they are powerful1 his care for the preservation of this body tempts the soul to think only of self1 and gives it an interest opposed to the general order of things1 which it is still capable of knowing and loving2 then it is that the right use of his freedom becomes at once the merit and the reward2 then it is that it prepares for itself unending happiness1 by resisting its earthly passions and following its original direction4 ,if even in the lowly position in which we are placed during our present life our first impulses are always good1 if all our vices are of our own making1 why should we complain that they are our masters8 ,why should we blame the ,creator for the ills we have ourselves created1 and the enemies we ourselves have armed against us8 ,oh1 let us leave man unspoilt2 he will always find it easy to be good and he will always be happy without remorse4 ,the guilty1 who assert that they are driven to crime1 are liars as well as evil-doers2 how is it that they fail to perceive that the weakness they bewail is of their own making2 that their earliest depravity was the result of their own will2 that by dint of wishing to yield to temptations1 they at length yield to them whether they will or no and make them irresistible8 ,no doubt they can no longer avoid being weak and wicked1 but they need not have become weak and wicked4 ,oh1 how easy would it be to preserve control of ourselves and of our passions1 even in this life1 if with habits still unformed1 with a mind beginning to expand1 we were able to keep to such things as we ought to know1 in order to value rightly what is unknown2 if we really wished to learn1 not that we might shine before the eyes of others1 but that we might be wise and good in accordance with our nature1 that we might be happy in the performance of our duty4 ,this study seems tedious and painful to us1 for we do not attempt it till we are already corrupted by vice and enslaved by our passions4 ,our judgments and our standards of worth are determined before we have the knowledge of good and evil2 and then we measure all things by this false standard1 and give nothing its true worth4 ,there is an age when the heart is still free1 but eager1 unquiet1 greedy of a happiness which is still unknown1 a happiness which it seeks in curiosity and doubt2 deceived by the senses it settles at length upon the empty show of happiness and thinks it has found it where it is not4 ,in my own case these illusions endured for a long time4 ,alas6 too late did ,i become aware of them1 and ,i have not succeeded in overcoming them altogether2 they will last as long as this mortal body from which they arise4 ,if they lead me astray1 ,i am at least no longer deceived by them2 ,i know them for what they are1 and even when ,i give way to them1 ,i despise myself2 far from regarding them as the goal of my happiness1 ,i behold in them an obstacle to it4 ,i long for the time when1 freed from the fetters of the body1 ,i shall be myself1 at one with myself1 no longer torn in two1 when ,i myself shall suffice for my own happiness4 ,meanwhile ,i am happy even in this life1 for ,i make small account of all its evils1 in which ,i regard myself as having little or no part1 while all the real good that ,i can get out of this life depends on myself alone4 ,to raise myself so far as may be even now to this state of happiness1 strength1 and freedom1 ,i exercise myself in lofty contemplation4 ,i consider the order of the universe1 not to explain it by any futile system1 but to revere it without ceasing1 to adore the wise ,author who reveals himself in it4 ,i hold intercourse with him2 ,i immerse all my powers in his divine essence2 ,i am overwhelmed by his kindness1 ,i bless him and his gifts1 but ,i do not pray to him4 ,what should ,i ask of him--to change the order of nature1 to work miracles on my behalf8 ,should ,i1 who am bound to love above all things the order which he has established in his wisdom and maintained by his providence1 should ,i desire the disturbance of that order on my own account8 ,no1 that rash prayer would deserve to be punished rather than to be granted4 ,neither do ,i ask of him the power to do right2 why should ,i ask what he has given me already8 ,has he not given me conscience that ,i may love the right1 reason that ,i may perceive it1 and freedom that ,i may choose it8 ,if ,i do evil1 ,i have no excuse2 ,i do it of my own free will2 to ask him to change my will is to ask him to do what he asks of me2 it is to want him to do the work while ,i get the wages2 to be dissatisfied with my lot is to wish to be no longer a man1 to wish to be other than what ,i am1 to wish for disorder and evil4 ,thou source of justice and truth1 merciful and gracious ,god1 in thee do ,i trust1 and the desire of my heart is--,thy will be done4 ,when ,i unite my will with thine1 ,i do what thou doest2 ,i have a share in thy goodness2 ,i believe that ,i enjoy beforehand the supreme happiness which is the reward of goodness4 ,in my well-founded self-distrust the only thing that ,i ask of ,god1 or rather expect from his justice1 is to correct my error if ,i go astray1 if that error is dangerous to me4 ,to be honest ,i need not think myself infallible2 my opinions1 which seem to me true1 may be so many lies2 for what man is there who does not cling to his own beliefs2 and how many men are agreed in everything8 ,the illusion which deceives me may indeed have its source in myself1 but it is ,god alone who can remove it4 ,i have done all ,i can to attain to truth2 but its source is beyond my reach2 is it my fault if my strength fails me and ,i can go no further2 it is for ,truth to draw near to me4 ,the good priest had spoken with passion2 he and ,i were overcome with emotion4 ,it seemed to me as if ,i were listening to the divine ,orpheus when he sang the earliest hymns and taught men the worship of the gods4 ,i saw any number of objections which might be raised2 yet ,i raised none1 for ,i perceived that they were more perplexing than serious1 and that my inclination took his part4 ,when he spoke to me according to his conscience1 my own seemed to confirm what he said4 ,the novelty of the sentiments you have made known to me1 said ,i1 strikes me all the more because of what you confess you do not know1 than because of what you say you believe4 ,they seem to be very like that theism or natural religion1 which ,christians profess to confound with atheism or irreligion which is their exact opposite4 ,but in the present state of my faith ,i should have to ascend rather than descend to accept your views1 and ,i find it difficult to remain just where you are unless ,i were as wise as you4 ,that ,i may be at least as honest1 ,i want time to take counsel with myself4 ,by your own showing1 the inner voice must be my guide1 and you have yourself told me that when it has long been silenced it cannot be recalled in a moment4 ,i take what you have said to heart1 and ,i must consider it4 ,if after ,i have thought things out1 ,i am as convinced as you are1 you will be my final teacher1 and ,i will be your disciple till death4 ,continue your teaching however2 you have only told me half what ,i must know4 ,speak to me of revelation1 of the ,scriptures1 of those difficult doctrines among which ,i have strayed ever since ,i was a child1 incapable either of understanding or believing them1 unable to adopt or reject them4 ,yes1 my child1 said he1 embracing me1 ,i will tell you all ,i think2 ,i will not open my heart to you by halves2 but the desire you express was necessary before ,i could cast aside all reserve4 ,so far ,i have told you nothing but what ,i thought would be of service to you1 nothing but what ,i was quite convinced of4 ,the inquiry which remains to be made is very difficult4 ,it seems to me full of perplexity1 mystery1 and darkness2 ,i bring to it only doubt and distrust4 ,i make up my mind with trembling1 and ,i tell you my doubts rather than my convictions4 ,if your own opinions were more settled ,i should hesitate to show you mine2 but in your present condition1 to think like me would be gain4 ,footnote3 ,i think the worthy clergyman might say this at the present time to the general public4 ,moreover1 give to my words only the authority of reason2 ,i know not whether ,i am mistaken4 ,it is difficult in discussion to avoid assuming sometimes a dogmatic tone2 but remember in this respect that all my assertions are but reasons to doubt me4 ,seek truth for yourself1 for my own part ,i only promise you sincerity4 ,in my exposition you find nothing but natural religion2 strange that we should need more6 ,how shall ,i become aware of this need8 ,what guilt can be mine so long as ,i serve ,god according to the knowledge he has given to my mind1 and the feelings he has put into my heart8 ,what purity of morals1 what dogma useful to man and worthy of its author1 can ,i derive from a positive doctrine which cannot be derived without the aid of this doctrine by the right use of my faculties8 ,show me what you can add to the duties of the natural law1 for the glory of ,god1 for the good of mankind1 and for my own welfare2 and what virtue you will get from the new form of religion which does not result from mine4 ,the grandest ideas of the ,divine nature come to us from reason only4 ,behold the spectacle of nature2 listen to the inner voice4 ,has not ,god spoken it all to our eyes1 to our conscience1 to our reason8 ,what more can man tell us8 ,their revelations do but degrade ,god1 by investing him with passions like our own4 ,far from throwing light upon the ideas of the ,supreme ,being1 special doctrines seem to me to confuse these ideas2 far from ennobling them1 they degrade them2 to the inconceivable mysteries which surround the ,almighty1 they add absurd contradictions1 they make man proud1 intolerant1 and cruel2 instead of bringing peace upon earth1 they bring fire and sword4 ,i ask myself what is the use of it all1 and ,i find no answer4 ,i see nothing but the crimes of men and the misery of mankind4 ,they tell me a revelation was required to teach men how ,god would be served2 as a proof of this they point to the many strange rites which men have instituted1 and they do not perceive that this very diversity springs from the fanciful nature of the revelations4 ,as soon as the nations took to making ,god speak1 every one made him speak in his own fashion1 and made him say what he himself wanted4 ,had they listened only to what ,god says in the heart of man1 there would have been but one religion upon earth4 ,one form of worship was required2 just so1 but was this a matter of such importance as to require all the power of the ,godhead to establish it8 ,do not let us confuse the outward forms of religion with religion itself4 ,the service ,god requires is of the heart2 and when the heart is sincere that is ever the same4 ,it is a strange sort of conceit which fancies that ,god takes such an interest in the shape of the priest's vestments1 the form of words he utters1 the gestures he makes before the altar and all his genuflections4 ,oh1 my friend1 stand upright1 you will still be too near the earth4 ,god desires to be worshipped in spirit and in truth2 this duty belongs to every religion1 every country1 every individual4 ,as to the form of worship1 if order demands uniformity1 that is only a matter of discipline and needs no revelation4 ,these thoughts did not come to me to begin with4 ,carried away by the prejudices of my education1 and by that dangerous vanity which always strives to lift man out of his proper sphere1 when ,i could not raise my feeble thoughts up to the great ,being1 ,i tried to bring him down to my own level4 ,i tried to reduce the distance he has placed between his nature and mine4 ,i desired more immediate relations1 more individual instruction2 not content to make ,god in the image of man that ,i might be favoured above my fellows1 ,i desired supernatural knowledge2 ,i required a special form of worship2 ,i wanted ,god to tell me what he had not told others1 or what others had not understood like myself4 ,considering the point ,i had now reached as the common centre from which all believers set out on the quest for a more enlightened form of religion1 ,i merely found in natural religion the elements of all religion4 ,i beheld the multitude of diverse sects which hold sway upon earth1 each of which accuses the other of falsehood and error2 which of these1 ,i asked1 is the right8 ,every one replied1 ',my own2' every one said1 ',i alone and those who agree with me think rightly1 all the others are mistaken4' ,and how do you know that your sect is in the right8 ,because ,god said so4 ,and how do you know ,god said so8 ,footnote3 ,all men1 said a wise and good priest1 maintain that they hold and believe their religion 7and all use the same jargon71 not of man1 nor of any creature1 but of ,god4 ,but to speak truly1 without pretence or flattery1 none of them do so2 whatever they may say1 religions are taught by human hands and means2 take1 for example1 the way in which religions have been received by the world1 the way in which they are still received every day by individuals2 the nation1 the country1 the locality gives the religion2 we belong to the religion of the place where we are born and brought up2 we are baptised or circumcised1 we are ,christians1 ,jews1 ,mohametans before we know that we are men2 we do not pick and choose our religion for see how ill the life and conduct agree with the religion1 see for what slight and human causes men go against the teaching of their religion4--,charron1 ,de la ,sagesse4--,it seems clear that the honest creed of the holy theologian of ,condom would not have differed greatly from that of the ,savoyard priest4 ,and who told you that ,god said it8 ,my pastor1 who knows all about it4 ,my pastor tells me what to believe and ,i believe it2 he assures me that any one who says anything else is mistaken1 and ,i give not heed to them4 ,what6 thought ,i1 is not truth one2 can that which is true for me be false for you8 ,if those who follow the right path and those who go astray have the same method1 what merit or what blame can be assigned to one more than to the other8 ,their choice is the result of chance2 it is unjust to hold them responsible for it1 to reward or punish them for being born in one country or another4 ,to dare to say that ,god judges us in this manner is an outrage on his justice4 ,either all religions are good and pleasing to ,god1 or if there is one which he prescribes for men1 if they will be punished for despising it1 he will have distinguished it by plain and certain signs by which it can be known as the only true religion2 these signs are alike in every time and place1 equally plain to all men1 great or small1 learned or unlearned1 ,europeans1 ,indians1 ,africans1 savages4 ,if there were but one religion upon earth1 and if all beyond its pale were condemned to eternal punishment1 and if there were in any corner of the world one single honest man who was not convinced by this evidence1 the ,god of that religion would be the most unjust and cruel of tyrants4 ,let us therefore seek honestly after truth2 let us yield nothing to the claims of birth1 to the authority of parents and pastors1 but let us summon to the bar of conscience and of reason all that they have taught us from our childhood4 ,in vain do they exclaim1 ',submit your reason2' a deceiver might say as much2 ,i must have reasons for submitting my reason4 ,all the theology ,i can get for myself by observation of the universe and by the use of my faculties is contained in what ,i have already told you4 ,to know more one must have recourse to strange means4 ,these means cannot be the authority of men1 for every man is of the same species as myself1 and all that a man knows by nature ,i am capable of knowing1 and another may be deceived as much as ,i2 when ,i believe what he says1 it is not because he says it but because he proves its truth4 ,the witness of man is therefore nothing more than the witness of my own reason1 and it adds nothing to the natural means which ,god has given me for the knowledge of truth4 ,apostle of truth1 what have you to tell me of which ,i am not the sole judge8 ,god himself has spoken2 give heed to his revelation4 ,that is another matter4 ,god has spoken1 these are indeed words which demand attention4 ,to whom has he spoken8 ,he has spoken to men4 ,why then have ,i heard nothing8 ,he has instructed others to make known his words to you4 ,i understand2 it is men who come and tell me what ,god has said4 ,i would rather have heard the words of ,god himself2 it would have been as easy for him and ,i should have been secure from fraud4 ,he protects you from fraud by showing that his envoys come from him4 ,how does he show this8 ,by miracles4 ,where are these miracles8 ,in the books4 ,and who wrote the books8 ,men4 ,and who saw the miracles8 ,the men who bear witness to them4 ,what6 ,nothing but human testimony6 ,nothing but men who tell me what others told them6 ,how many men between ,god and me6 ,let us see1 however1 let us examine1 compare1 and verify4 ,oh6 if ,god had but deigned to free me from all this labour1 ,i would have served him with all my heart4 ,consider1 my friend1 the terrible controversy in which ,i am now engaged2 what vast learning is required to go back to the remotest antiquity1 to examine1 weigh1 confront prophecies1 revelations1 facts1 all the monuments of faith set forth throughout the world1 to assign their date1 place1 authorship1 and occasion4 ,what exactness of critical judgment is needed to distinguish genuine documents from forgeries1 to compare objections with their answers1 translations with their originals2 to decide as to the impartiality of witnesses1 their common-sense1 their knowledge2 to make sure that nothing has been omitted1 nothing added1 nothing transposed1 altered1 or falsified2 to point out any remaining contradictions1 to determine what weight should be given to the silence of our adversaries with regard to the charges brought against them2 how far were they aware of those charges2 did they think them sufficiently serious to require an answer2 were books sufficiently well known for our books to reach them2 have we been honest enough to allow their books to circulate among ourselves and to leave their strongest objections unaltered8 ,when the authenticity of all these documents is accepted1 we must now pass to the evidence of their authors' mission2 we must know the laws of chance1 and probability1 to decide which prophecy cannot be fulfilled without a miracle2 we must know the spirit of the original languages1 to distinguish between prophecy and figures of speech2 we must know what facts are in accordance with nature and what facts are not1 so that we may say how far a clever man may deceive the eyes of the simple and may even astonish the learned2 we must discover what are the characteristics of a prodigy and how its authenticity may be established1 not only so far as to gain credence1 but so that doubt may be deserving of punishment2 we must compare the evidence for true and false miracles1 and find sure tests to distinguish between them2 lastly we must say why ,god chose as a witness to his words means which themselves require so much evidence on their behalf1 as if he were playing with human credulity1 and avoiding of set purpose the true means of persuasion4 ,assuming that the divine majesty condescends so far as to make a man the channel of his sacred will1 is it reasonable1 is it fair1 to demand that the whole of mankind should obey the voice of this minister without making him known as such8 ,is it just to give him as his sole credentials certain private signs1 performed in the presence of a few obscure persons1 signs which everybody else can only know by hearsay8 ,if one were to believe all the miracles that the uneducated and credulous profess to have seen in every country upon earth1 every sect would be in the right2 there would be more miracles than ordinary events2 and it would be the greatest miracle if there were no miracles wherever there were persecuted fanatics4 ,the unchangeable order of nature is the chief witness to the wise hand that guides it2 if there were many exceptions1 ,i should hardly know what to think2 for my own part ,i have too great a faith in ,god to believe in so many miracles which are so little worthy of him4 ,let a man come and say to us3 ,mortals1 ,i proclaim to you the will of the ,most ,highest2 accept my words as those of him who has sent me2 ,i bid the sun to change his course1 the stars to range themselves in a fresh order1 the high places to become smooth1 the floods to rise up1 the earth to change her face4 ,by these miracles who will not recognise the master of nature8 ,she does not obey impostors1 their miracles are wrought in holes and corners1 in deserts1 within closed doors1 where they find easy dupes among a small company of spectators already disposed to believe them4 ,who will venture to tell me how many eye-witnesses are required to make a miracle credible6 ,what use are your miracles1 performed if proof of your doctrine1 if they themselves require so much proof6 ,you might as well have let them alone4 ,there still remains the most important inquiry of all with regard to the doctrine proclaimed2 for since those who tell us ,god works miracles in this world1 profess that the devil sometimes imitates them1 when we have found the best attested miracles we have got very little further2 and since the magicians of ,pharaoh dared in the presence of ,moses to counterfeit the very signs he wrought at ,god's command1 why should they not1 behind his back1 claim a like authority8 ,so when we have proved our doctrine by means of miracles1 we must prove our miracles by means of doctrine1 ,footnote3 ,this is expressly stated in many passages of ,scripture1 among others in ,deuteronomy xiii41 where it is said that when a prophet preaching strange gods confirms his words by means of miracles and what he foretells comes to pass1 far from giving heed to him1 this prophet must be put to death4 ,if then the heathen put the apostles to death when they preached a strange god and confirmed their words by miracles which came to pass ,i cannot see what grounds we have for complaint which they could not at once turn against us4 ,now1 what should be done in such a case8 ,there is only one course2 to return to argument and let the miracles alone4 ,it would have been better not to have had recourse to them at all4 ,that is plain common-sense which can only be obscured by great subtlety of distinction4 ,subtleties in ,christianity6 ,so ,jesus ,christ was mistaken when he promised the kingdom of heaven to the simple1 he was mistaken when he began his finest discourse with the praise of the poor in spirit1 if so much wit is needed to understand his teaching and to get others to believe in him4 ,when you have convinced me that submission is my duty1 all will be well2 but to convince me of this1 come down to my level2 adapt your arguments to a lowly mind1 or ,i shall not recognise you as a true disciple of your master1 and it is not his doctrine that you are teaching me4 for fear lest we should take the devil's doings for the handiwork of ,god4 ,what think you of this dilemma8 ,this doctrine1 if it comes from ,god1 should bear the sacred stamp of the godhead2 not only should it illumine the troubled thoughts which reason imprints on our minds1 but it should also offer us a form of worship1 a morality1 and rules of conduct in accordance with the attributes by means of which we alone conceive of ,god's essence4 ,if then it teaches us what is absurd and unreasonable1 if it inspires us with feelings of aversion for our fellows and terror for ourselves1 if it paints us a ,god1 angry1 jealous1 revengeful1 partial1 hating men1 a ,god of war and battles1 ever ready to strike and to destroy1 ever speaking of punishment and torment1 boasting even of the punishment of the innocent1 my heart would not be drawn towards this terrible ,god1 ,i would take good care not to quit the realm of natural religion to embrace such a religion as that2 for you see plainly ,i must choose between them4 ,your ,god is not ours4 ,he who begins by selecting a chosen people1 and proscribing the rest of mankind1 is not our common father2 he who consigns to eternal punishment the greater part of his creatures1 is not the merciful and gracious ,god revealed to me by my reason4 ,reason tells me that dogmas should be plain1 clear1 and striking in their simplicity4 ,if there is something lacking in natural religion1 it is with respect to the obscurity in which it leaves the great truths it teaches2 revelation should teach us these truths in a way which the mind of man can understand2 it should bring them within his reach1 make him comprehend them1 so that he may believe them4 ,faith is confirmed and strengthened by understanding2 the best religion is of necessity the simplest4 ,he who hides beneath mysteries and contradictions the religion that he preaches to me1 teaches me at the same time to distrust that religion4 ,the ,god whom ,i adore is not the ,god of darkness1 he has not given me understanding in order to forbid me to use it2 to tell me to submit my reason is to insult the giver of reason4 ,the minister of truth does not tyrannise over my reason1 he enlightens it4 ,we have set aside all human authority1 and without it ,i do not see how any man can convince another by preaching a doctrine contrary to reason4 ,let them fight it out1 and let us see what they have to say with that harshness of speech which is common to both4 ,,inspiration3 ,reason tells you that the whole is greater than the part2 but ,i tell you1 in ,god's name1 that the part is greater than the whole4 ,,reason3 ,and who are you to dare to tell me that ,god contradicts himself8 ,and which shall ,i choose to believe4 ,god who teaches me1 through my reason1 the eternal truth1 or you who1 in his name1 proclaim an absurdity8 ,,inspiration3 ,believe me1 for my teaching is more positive2 and ,i will prove to you beyond all manner of doubt that he has sent me4 ,,reason3 ,what6 you will convince me that ,god has sent you to bear witness against himself8 ,what sort of proofs will you adduce to convince me that ,god speaks more surely by your mouth than through the understanding he has given me8 ,,inspiration3 ,the understanding he has given you6 ,petty1 conceited creature6 ,as if you were the first impious person who had been led astray through his reason corrupted by sin4 ,,reason3 ,man of ,god1 you would not be the first scoundrel who asserts his arrogance as a proof of his mission4 ,,inspiration3 ,what6 do even philosophers call names8 ,,reason3 ,sometimes1 when the saints set them the example4 ,,inspiration3 ,oh1 but ,i have a right to do it1 for ,i am speaking on ,god's behalf4 ,,reason3 ,you would do well to show your credentials before you make use of your privileges4 ,,inspiration3 ,my credentials are authentic1 earth and heaven will bear witness on my behalf4 ,follow my arguments carefully1 if you please4 ,,reason3 ,your arguments6 ,you forget what you are saying4 ,when you teach me that my reason misleads me1 do you not refute what it might have said on your behalf8 ,he who denies the right of reason1 must convince me without recourse to her aid4 ,for suppose you have convinced me by reason1 how am ,i to know that it is not my reason1 corrupted by sin1 which makes me accept what you say8 besides1 what proof1 what demonstration1 can you advance1 more self-evident than the axiom it is to destroy8 ,it is more credible that a good syllogism is a lie1 than that the part is greater than the whole4 ,,inspiration3 ,what a difference6 ,there is no answer to my evidence2 it is of a supernatural kind4 ,,reason3 ,supernatural6 ,what do you mean by the word8 ,i do not understand it4 ,,inspiration3 ,i mean changes in the order of nature1 prophecies1 signs1 and wonders of every kind4 ,,reason3 ,signs and wonders6 ,i have never seen anything of the kind4 ,,inspiration3 ,others have seen them for you4 ,clouds of witnesses--the witness of whole nations4444 ,,reason3 ,is the witness of nations supernatural8 ,,inspiration3 ,no2 but when it is unanimous1 it is incontestable4 ,,reason3 ,there is nothing so incontestable as the principles of reason1 and one cannot accept an absurdity on human evidence4 ,once more1 let us see your supernatural evidence1 for the consent of mankind is not supernatural4 ,,inspiration3 ,oh1 hardened heart1 grace does not speak to you4 ,,reason3 ,that is not my fault2 for by your own showing1 one must have already received grace before one is able to ask for it4 ,begin by speaking to me in its stead4 ,,inspiration3 ,but that is just what ,i am doing1 and you will not listen4 ,but what do you say to prophecy8 ,,reason3 ,in the first place1 ,i say ,i have no more heard a prophet than ,i have seen a miracle4 ,in the next1 ,i say that no prophet could claim authority over me4 ,,inspiration3 ,follower of the devil6 ,why should not the words of the prophets have authority over you8 ,,reason3 ,because three things are required1 three things which will never happen3 firstly1 ,i must have heard the prophecy2 secondly1 ,i must have seen its fulfilment2 and thirdly1 it must be clearly proved that the fulfilment of the prophecy could not by any possibility have been a mere coincidence2 for even if it was as precise1 as plain1 and clear as an axiom of geometry1 since the clearness of a chance prediction does not make its fulfilment impossible1 this fulfilment when it does take place does not1 strictly speaking1 prove what was foretold4 ,see what your so-called supernatural proofs1 your miracles1 your prophecies come to3 believe all this upon the word of another4 ,submit to the authority of men the authority of ,god which speaks to my reason4 ,if the eternal truths which my mind conceives of could suffer any shock1 there would be no sort of certainty for me2 and far from being sure that you speak to me on ,god's behalf1 ,i should not even be sure that there is a ,god4 ,my child1 here are difficulties enough1 but these are not all4 ,among so many religions1 mutually excluding and proscribing each other1 one only is true1 if indeed any one of them is true4 ,to recognise the true religion we must inquire into1 not one1 but all2 and in any question whatsoever we have no right to condemn unheard4 ,footnote3 ,on the other hand1 ,plutarch relates that the ,stoics maintained1 among other strange paradoxes1 that it was no use hearing both sides2 for1 said they1 the first either proves his point or he does not prove it2 if he has proved it1 there is an end of it1 and the other should be condemned3 if he has not proved it1 he himself is in the wrong and judgment should be given against him4 ,i consider the method of those who accept an exclusive revelation very much like that of these ,stoics4 ,when each of them claims to be the sole guardian of truth1 we must hear them all before we can choose between them without injustice4 ,the objections must be compared with the evidence2 we must know what accusation each brings against the other1 and what answers they receive4 ,the plainer any feeling appears to us1 the more we must try to discover why so many other people refuse to accept it4 ,we should be simple1 indeed1 if we thought it enough to hear the doctors on our own side1 in order to acquaint ourselves with the arguments of the other4 ,where can you find theologians who pride themselves on their honesty8 ,where are those who1 to refute the arguments of their opponents1 do not begin by making out that they are of little importance8 ,a man may make a good show among his own friends1 and be very proud of his arguments1 who would cut a very poor figure with those same arguments among those who are on the other side4 ,would you find out for yourself from books8 ,what learning you will need6 ,what languages you must learn2 what libraries you must ransack2 what an amount of reading must be got through6 ,who will guide me in such a choice8 ,it will be hard to find the best books on the opposite side in any one country1 and all the harder to find those on all sides2 when found they would be easily answered4 ,the absent are always in the wrong1 and bad arguments boldly asserted easily efface good arguments put forward with scorn4 ,besides books are often very misleading1 and scarcely express the opinions of their authors4 ,if you think you can judge the ,catholic faith from the writings of ,bossuet1 you will find yourself greatly mistaken when you have lived among us4 ,you will see that the doctrines with which ,protestants are answered are quite different from those of the pulpit4 ,to judge a religion rightly1 you must not study it in the books of its partisans1 you must learn it in their lives2 this is quite another matter4 ,each religion has its own traditions1 meaning1 customs1 prejudices1 which form the spirit of its creed1 and must be taken in connection with it4 ,how many great nations neither print books of their own nor read ours6 ,how shall they judge of our opinions1 or we of theirs8 ,we laugh at them1 they despise us2 and if our travellers turn them into ridicule1 they need only travel among us to pay us back in our own coin4 ,are there not1 in every country1 men of common-sense1 honesty1 and good faith1 lovers of truth1 who only seek to know what truth is that they may profess it8 ,yet every one finds truth in his own religion1 and thinks the religion of other nations absurd2 so all these foreign religions are not so absurd as they seem to us1 or else the reason we find for our own proves nothing4 ,we have three principal forms of religion in ,europe4 ,one accepts one revelation1 another two1 and another three4 ,each hates the others1 showers curses on them1 accuses them of blindness1 obstinacy1 hardness of heart1 and falsehood4 ,what fair-minded man will dare to decide between them without first carefully weighing their evidence1 without listening attentively to their arguments8 ,that which accepts only one revelation is the oldest and seems the best established2 that which accepts three is the newest and seems the most consistent2 that which accepts two revelations and rejects the third may perhaps be the best1 but prejudice is certainly against it2 its inconsistency is glaring4 ,in all three revelations the sacred books are written in languages unknown to the people who believe in them4 ,the ,jews no longer understand ,hebrew1 the ,christians understand neither ,hebrew nor ,greek2 the ,turks and ,persians do not understand ,arabic1 and the ,arabs of our time do not speak the language of ,mahomet4 ,is not it a very foolish way of teaching1 to teach people in an unknown tongue8 ,these books are translated1 you say4 ,what an answer6 ,how am ,i to know that the translations are correct1 or how am ,i to make sure that such a thing as a correct translation is possible8 ,if ,god has gone so far as to speak to men1 why should he require an interpreter8 ,i can never believe that every man is obliged to know what is contained in books1 and that he who is out of reach of these books1 and of those who understand them1 will be punished for an ignorance which is no fault of his4 ,books upon books6 ,what madness6 ,as all ,europe is full of books1 ,europeans regard them as necessary1 forgetting that they are unknown throughout three-quarters of the globe4 ,were not all these books written by men8 ,why then should a man need them to teach him his duty1 and how did he learn his duty before these books were in existence8 ,either he must have learnt his duties for himself1 or his ignorance must have been excused4 ,our ,catholics talk loudly of the authority of the ,church2 but what is the use of it all1 if they also need just as great an array of proofs to establish that authority as the other seeks to establish their doctrine8 ,the ,church decides that the ,church has a right to decide4 ,what a well-founded authority6 ,go beyond it1 and you are back again in our discussions4 ,do you know many ,christians who have taken the trouble to inquire what the ,jews allege against them8 ,if any one knows anything at all about it1 it is from the writings of ,christians4 ,what a way of ascertaining the arguments of our adversaries6 ,but what is to be done8 ,if any one dared to publish in our day books which were openly in favour of the ,jewish religion1 we should punish the author1 publisher1 and bookseller4 ,this regulation is a sure and certain plan for always being in the right4 ,it is easy to refute those who dare not venture to speak4 ,those among us who have the opportunity of talking with ,jews are little better off4 ,these unhappy people feel that they are in our power2 the tyranny they have suffered makes them timid2 they know that ,christian charity thinks nothing of injustice and cruelty2 will they dare to run the risk of an outcry against blasphemy8 ,our greed inspires us with zeal1 and they are so rich that they must be in the wrong4 ,the more learned1 the more enlightened they are1 the more cautious4 ,you may convert some poor wretch whom you have paid to slander his religion2 you get some wretched old-clothes-man to speak1 and he says what you want2 you may triumph over their ignorance and cowardice1 while all the time their men of learning are laughing at your stupidity4 ,but do you think you would get off so easily in any place where they knew they were safe6 ,at the ,sorbonne it is plain that the ,messianic prophecies refer to ,jesus ,christ4 ,among the rabbis of ,amsterdam it is just as clear that they have nothing to do with him4 ,i do not think ,i have ever heard the arguments of the ,jews as to why they should not have a free state1 schools and universities1 where they can speak and argue without danger4 ,then alone can we know what they have to say4 ,at ,constantinople the ,turks state their arguments1 but we dare not give ours2 then it is our turn to cringe4 ,can we blame the ,turks if they require us to show the same respect for ,mahomet1 in whom we do not believe1 as we demand from the ,jews with regard to ,jesus ,christ in whom they do not believe8 ,are we right8 ,on what grounds of justice can we answer this question8 ,two-thirds of mankind are neither ,jews1 ,mahometans1 nor ,christians2 and how many millions of men have never heard the name of ,moses1 ,jesus ,christ1 or ,mahomet8 ,they deny it2 they maintain that our missionaries go everywhere4 ,that is easily said4 ,but do they go into the heart of ,africa1 still undiscovered1 where as yet no ,european has ever ventured8 ,do they go to ,eastern ,tartary to follow on horseback the wandering tribes1 whom no stranger approaches1 who not only know nothing of the pope1 but have scarcely heard tell of the ,grand ,lama6 ,do they penetrate into the vast continents of ,america1 where there are still whole nations unaware that the people of another world have set foot on their shores8 ,do they go to ,japan1 where their intrigues have led to their perpetual banishment1 where their predecessors are only known to the rising generation as skilful plotters who came with feigned zeal to take possession in secret of the empire8 ,do they reach the harems of the ,asiatic princes to preach the gospel to those thousands of poor slaves8 ,what have the women of those countries done that no missionary may preach the faith to them8 ,will they all go to hell because of their seclusion8 ,if it were true that the gospel is preached throughout the world1 what advantage would there be8 ,the day before the first missionary set foot in any country1 no doubt somebody died who could not hear him4 ,now tell me what we shall do with him8 ,if there were a single soul in the whole world1 to whom ,jesus ,christ had never been preached1 this objection would be as strong for that man as for a quarter of the human race4 ,if the ministers of the gospel have made themselves heard among far-off nations1 what have they told them which might reasonably be accepted on their word1 without further and more exact verification8 ,you preach to me ,god1 born and dying1 two thousand years ago1 at the other end of the world1 in some small town ,i know not where2 and you tell me that all who have not believed this mystery are damned4 ,these are strange things to be believed so quickly on the authority of an unknown person4 ,why did your ,god make these things happen so far off1 if he would compel me to know about them8 ,is it a crime to be unaware of what is happening half a world away8 ,could ,i guess that in another hemisphere there was a ,hebrew nation and a town called ,jerusalem8 ,you might as well expect me to know what was happening in the moon4 ,you say you have come to teach me2 but why did you not come and teach my father1 or why do you consign that good old man to damnation because he knew nothing of all this8 ,must he be punished everlastingly for your laziness1 he who was so kind and helpful1 he who sought only for truth8 ,be honest2 put yourself in my place2 see if ,i ought to believe1 on your word alone1 all these incredible things which you have told me1 and reconcile all this injustice with the just ,god you proclaim to me4 ,at least allow me to go and see this distant land where such wonders1 unheard of in my own country1 took place2 let me go and see why the inhabitants of ,jerusalem put their ,god to death as a robber4 ,you tell me they did not know he was ,god4 ,what then shall ,i do1 ,i who have only heard of him from you8 ,you say they have been punished1 dispersed1 oppressed1 enslaved2 that none of them dare approach that town4 ,indeed they richly deserved it2 but what do its present inhabitants say of their crime in slaying their ,god6 ,they deny him2 they too refuse to recognise ,god as ,god4 ,they are no better than the children of the original inhabitants4 ,what6 ,in the very town where ,god was put to death1 neither the former nor the latter inhabitants knew him1 and you expect that ,i should know him1 ,i who was born two thousand years after his time1 and two thousand leagues away8 ,do you not see that before ,i can believe this book which you call sacred1 but which ,i do not in the least understand1 ,i must know from others than yourself when and by whom it was written1 how it has been preserved1 how it came into your possession1 what they say about it in those lands where it is rejected1 and what are their reasons for rejecting it1 though they know as well as you what you are telling me8 ,you perceive ,i must go to ,europe1 ,asia1 ,palestine1 to examine these things for myself2 it would be madness to listen to you before that4 ,not only does this seem reasonable to me1 but ,i maintain that it is what every wise man ought to say in similar circumstances2 that he ought to banish to a great distance the missionary who wants to instruct and baptise him all of a sudden before the evidence is verified4 ,now ,i maintain that there is no revelation against which these or similar objections cannot be made1 and with more force than against ,christianity4 ,hence it follows that if there is but one true religion and if every man is bound to follow it under pain of damnation1 he must spend his whole life in studying1 testing1 comparing all these religions1 in travelling through the countries in which they are established4 ,no man is free from a man's first duty2 no one has a right to depend on another's judgment4 ,the artisan who earns his bread by his daily toil1 the ploughboy who cannot read1 the delicate and timid maiden1 the invalid who can scarcely leave his bed1 all without exception must study1 consider1 argue1 travel over the whole world2 there will be no more fixed and settled nations2 the whole earth will swarm with pilgrims on their way1 at great cost of time and trouble1 to verify1 compare1 and examine for themselves the various religions to be found4 ,then farewell to the trades1 the arts1 the sciences of mankind1 farewell to all peaceful occupations2 there can be no study but that of religion1 even the strongest1 the most industrious1 the most intelligent1 the oldest1 will hardly be able in his last years to know where he is2 and it will be a wonder if he manages to find out what religion he ought to live by1 before the hour of his death4 ,hard pressed by these arguments1 some prefer to make ,god unjust and to punish the innocent for the sins of their fathers1 rather than to renounce their barbarous dogmas4 ,others get out of the difficulty by kindly sending an angel to instruct all those who in invincible ignorance have lived a righteous life4 ,a good idea1 that angel6 ,not content to be the slaves of their own inventions they expect ,god to make use of them also6 ,behold1 my son1 the absurdities to which pride and intolerance bring us1 when everybody wants others to think as he does1 and everybody fancies that he has an exclusive claim upon the rest of mankind4 ,i call to witness the ,god of ,peace whom ,i adore1 and whom ,i proclaim to you1 that my inquiries were honestly made2 but when ,i discovered that they were and always would be unsuccessful1 and that ,i was embarked upon a boundless ocean1 ,i turned back1 and restricted my faith within the limits of my primitive ideas4 ,i could never convince myself that ,god would require such learning of me under pain of hell4 ,so ,i closed all my books4 ,there is one book which is open to every one--the book of nature4 ,in this good and great volume ,i learn to serve and adore its ,author4 ,there is no excuse for not reading this book1 for it speaks to all in a language they can understand4 ,suppose ,i had been born in a desert island1 suppose ,i had never seen any man but myself1 suppose ,i had never heard what took place in olden days in a remote corner of the world2 yet if ,i use my reason1 if ,i cultivate it1 if ,i employ rightly the innate faculties which ,god bestows upon me1 ,i shall learn by myself to know and love him1 to love his works1 to will what he wills1 and to fulfil all my duties upon earth1 that ,i may do his pleasure4 ,what more can all human learning teach me8 ,with regard to revelation1 if ,i were a more accomplished disputant1 or a more learned person1 perhaps ,i should feel its truth1 its usefulness for those who are happy enough to perceive it2 but if ,i find evidence for it which ,i cannot combat1 ,i also find objections against it which ,i cannot overcome4 ,there are so many weighty reasons for and against that ,i do not know what to decide1 so that ,i neither accept nor reject it4 ,i only reject all obligation to be convinced of its truth2 for this so-called obligation is incompatible with ,god's justice1 and far from removing objections in this way it would multiply them1 and would make them insurmountable for the greater part of mankind4 ,in this respect ,i maintain an attitude of reverent doubt4 ,i do not presume to think myself infallible2 other men may have been able to make up their minds though the matter seems doubtful to myself2 ,i am speaking for myself1 not for them2 ,i neither blame them nor follow in their steps2 their judgment may be superior to mine1 but it is no fault of mine that my judgment does not agree with it4 ,i own also that the holiness of the gospel speaks to my heart1 and that this is an argument which ,i should be sorry to refute4 ,consider the books of the philosophers with all their outward show2 how petty they are in comparison6 ,can a book at once so grand and so simple be the work of men8 ,is it possible that he whose history is contained in this book is no more than man8 ,is the tone of this book1 the tone of the enthusiast or the ambitious sectary8 ,what gentleness and purity in his actions1 what a touching grace in his teaching1 how lofty are his sayings1 how profoundly wise are his sermons1 how ready1 how discriminating1 and how just are his answers6 ,what man1 what sage1 can live1 suffer1 and die without weakness or ostentation8 ,when ,plato describes his imaginary good man1 overwhelmed with the disgrace of crime1 and deserving of all the rewards of virtue1 every feature of the portrait is that of ,christ2 the resemblance is so striking that it has been noticed by all the ,fathers1 and there can be no doubt about it4 ,what prejudices and blindness must there be before we dare to compare the son of ,sophronisca with the son of ,mary4 ,how far apart they are6 ,socrates dies a painless death1 he is not put to open shame1 and he plays his part easily to the last2 and if this easy death had not done honour to his life1 we might have doubted whether ,socrates1 with all his intellect1 was more than a mere sophist4 ,he invented morality1 so they say2 others before him had practised it2 he only said what they had done1 and made use of their example in his teaching4 ,aristides was just before ,socrates defined justice2 ,leonidas died for his country before ,socrates declared that patriotism was a virtue2 ,sparta was sober before ,socrates extolled sobriety2 there were plenty of virtuous men in ,greece before he defined virtue4 ,but among the men of his own time where did ,jesus find that pure and lofty morality of which he is both the teacher and pattern8 ,footnote3 ,cf4 in the ,sermon on the ,mount the parallel he himself draws between the teaching of ,moses and his own4--,matt4 v4 ,the voice of loftiest wisdom arose among the fiercest fanaticism1 the simplicity of the most heroic virtues did honour to the most degraded of nations4 ,one could wish no easier death than that of ,socrates1 calmly discussing philosophy with his friends2 one could fear nothing worse than that of ,jesus1 dying in torment1 among the insults1 the mockery1 the curses of the whole nation4 ,in the midst of these terrible sufferings1 ,jesus prays for his cruel murderers4 ,yes1 if the life and death of ,socrates are those of a philosopher1 the life and death of ,christ are those of a ,god4 ,shall we say that the gospel story is the work of the imagination8 ,my friend1 such things are not imagined2 and the doings of ,socrates1 which no one doubts1 are less well attested than those of ,jesus ,christ4 ,at best1 you only put the difficulty from you2 it would be still more incredible that several persons should have agreed together to invent such a book1 than that there was one man who supplied its subject matter4 ,the tone and morality of this story are not those of any ,jewish authors1 and the gospel indeed contains characters so great1 so striking1 so entirely inimitable1 that their invention would be more astonishing than their hero4 ,with all this the same gospel is full of incredible things1 things repugnant to reason1 things which no natural man can understand or accept4 ,what can you do among so many contradictions8 ,you can be modest and wary1 my child2 respect in silence what you can neither reject nor understand1 and humble yourself in the sight of the ,divine ,being who alone knows the truth4 ,this is the unwilling scepticism in which ,i rest2 but this scepticism is in no way painful to me1 for it does not extend to matters of practice1 and ,i am well assured as to the principles underlying all my duties4 ,i serve ,god in the simplicity of my heart2 ,i only seek to know what affects my conduct4 ,as to those dogmas which have no effect upon action or morality1 dogmas about which so many men torment themselves1 ,i give no heed to them4 ,i regard all individual religions as so many wholesome institutions which prescribe a uniform method by which each country may do honour to ,god in public worship2 institutions which may each have its reason in the country1 the government1 the genius of the people1 or in other local causes which make one preferable to another in a given time or place4 ,i think them all good alike1 when ,god is served in a fitting manner4 ,true worship is of the heart4 ,god rejects no homage1 however offered1 provided it is sincere4 ,called to the service of the ,church in my own religion1 ,i fulfil as scrupulously as ,i can all the duties prescribed to me1 and my conscience would reproach me if ,i were knowingly wanting with regard to any point4 ,you are aware that after being suspended for a long time1 ,i have1 through the influence of ,m4 ,mellarede1 obtained permission to resume my priestly duties1 as a means of livelihood4 ,i used to say ,mass with the levity that comes from long experience even of the most serious matters when they are too familiar to us2 with my new principles ,i now celebrate it with more reverence2 ,i dwell upon the majesty of the ,supreme ,being1 his presence1 the insufficiency of the human mind1 which so little realises what concerns its ,creator4 ,when ,i consider how ,i present before him the prayers of all the people in a form laid down for me1 ,i carry out the whole ritual exactly2 ,i give heed to what ,i say1 ,i am careful not to omit the least word1 the least ceremony2 when the moment of the consecration approaches1 ,i collect my powers1 that ,i may do all things as required by the ,church and by the greatness of this sacrament2 ,i strive to annihilate my own reason before the ,supreme ,mind2 ,i say to myself1 ,who art thou to measure infinite power8 ,i reverently pronounce the sacramental words1 and ,i give to their effect all the faith ,i can bestow4 ,whatever may be this mystery which passes understanding1 ,i am not afraid that at the day of judgment ,i shall be punished for having profaned it in my heart4 ,honoured with the sacred ministry1 though in its lowest ranks1 ,i will never do or say anything which may make me unworthy to fulfil these sublime duties4 ,i will always preach virtue and exhort men to well-doing2 and so far as ,i can ,i will set them a good example4 ,it will be my business to make religion attractive2 it will be my business to strengthen their faith in those doctrines which are really useful1 those which every man must believe2 but1 please ,god1 ,i shall never teach them to hate their neighbour1 to say to other men1 ,you will be damned2 to say1 ,no salvation outside the ,church4 ,footnote3 ,the duty of following and loving the religion of our country does not go so far as to require us to accept doctrines contrary to good morals1 such as intolerance4 ,this horrible doctrine sets men in arms against their fellow-men1 and makes them all enemies of mankind4 ,the distinction between civil toleration and theological toleration is vain and childish4 ,these two kinds of toleration are inseparable1 and we cannot accept one without the other4 ,even the angels could not live at peace with men whom they regarded as the enemies of ,god4 ,if ,i were in a more conspicuous position1 this reticence might get me into trouble2 but ,i am too obscure to have much to fear1 and ,i could hardly sink lower than ,i am4 ,come what may1 ,i will never blaspheme the justice of ,god1 nor lie against the ,holy ,ghost4 ,i have long desired to have a parish of my own2 it is still my ambition1 but ,i no longer hope to attain it4 ,my dear friend1 ,i think there is nothing so delightful as to be a parish priest4 ,a good clergyman is a minister of mercy1 as a good magistrate is a minister of justice4 ,a clergyman is never called upon to do evil2 if he cannot always do good himself1 it is never out of place for him to beg for others1 and he often gets what he asks if he knows how to gain respect4 ,oh6 if ,i should ever have some poor mountain parish where ,i might minister to kindly folk1 ,i should be happy indeed2 for it seems to me that ,i should make my parishioners happy4 ,i should not bring them riches1 but ,i should share their poverty2 ,i should remove from them the scorn and opprobrium which are harder to bear than poverty4 ,i should make them love peace and equality1 which often remove poverty1 and always make it tolerable4 ,when they saw that ,i was in no way better off than themselves1 and that yet ,i was content with my lot1 they would learn to put up with their fate and to be content like me4 ,in my sermons ,i would lay more stress on the spirit of the gospel than on the spirit of the church2 its teaching is simple1 its morality sublime2 there is little in it about the practices of religion1 but much about works of charity4 ,before ,i teach them what they ought to do1 ,i would try to practise it myself1 that they might see that at least ,i think what ,i say4 ,if there were ,protestants in the neighbourhood or in my parish1 ,i would make no difference between them and my own congregation so far as concerns ,christian charity2 ,i would get them to love one another1 to consider themselves brethren1 to respect all religions1 and each to live peaceably in his own religion4 ,to ask any one to abandon the religion in which he was born is1 ,i consider1 to ask him to do wrong1 and therefore to do wrong oneself4 ,while we await further knowledge1 let us respect public order2 in every country let us respect the laws1 let us not disturb the form of worship prescribed by law2 let us not lead its citizens into disobedience2 for we have no certain knowledge that it is good for them to abandon their own opinions for others1 and on the other hand we are quite certain that it is a bad thing to disobey the law4 ,my young friend1 ,i have now repeated to you my creed as ,god reads it in my heart2 you are the first to whom ,i have told it2 perhaps you will be the last4 ,as long as there is any true faith left among men1 we must not trouble quiet souls1 nor scare the faith of the ignorant with problems they cannot solve1 with difficulties which cause them uneasiness1 but do not give them any guidance4 ,but when once everything is shaken1 the trunk must be preserved at the cost of the branches4 ,consciences1 restless1 uncertain1 and almost quenched like yours1 require to be strengthened and aroused2 to set the feet again upon the foundation of eternal truth1 we must remove the trembling supports on which they think they rest4 ,you are at that critical age when the mind is open to conviction1 when the heart receives its form and character1 when we decide our own fate for life1 either for good or evil4 ,at a later date1 the material has hardened and fresh impressions leave no trace4 ,young man1 take the stamp of truth upon your heart which is not yet hardened1 if ,i were more certain of myself1 ,i should have adopted a more decided and dogmatic tone2 but ,i am a man ignorant and liable to error2 what could ,i do8 ,i have opened my heart fully to you2 and ,i have told what ,i myself hold for certain and sure2 ,i have told you my doubts as doubts1 my opinions as opinions2 ,i have given you my reasons both for faith and doubt4 ,it is now your turn to judge2 you have asked for time2 that is a wise precaution and it makes me think well of you4 ,begin by bringing your conscience into that state in which it desires to see clearly2 be honest with yourself4 ,take to yourself such of my opinions as convince you1 reject the rest4 ,you are not yet so depraved by vice as to run the risk of choosing amiss4 ,i would offer to argue with you1 but as soon as men dispute they lose their temper2 pride and obstinacy come in1 and there is an end of honesty4 ,my friend1 never argue2 for by arguing we gain no light for ourselves or for others4 ,so far as ,i myself am concerned1 ,i have only made up my mind after many years of meditation2 here ,i rest1 my conscience is at peace1 my heart is satisfied4 ,if ,i wanted to begin afresh the examination of my feelings1 ,i should not bring to the task a purer love of truth2 and my mind1 which is already less active1 would be less able to perceive the truth4 ,here ,i shall rest1 lest the love of contemplation1 developing step by step into an idle passion1 should make me lukewarm in the performance of my duties1 lest ,i should fall into my former scepticism without strength to struggle out of it4 ,more than half my life is spent2 ,i have barely time to make good use of what is left1 to blot out my faults by my virtues4 ,if ,i am mistaken1 it is against my will4 ,he who reads my inmost heart knows that ,i have no love for my blindness4 ,as my own knowledge is powerless to free me from this blindness1 my only way out of it is by a good life2 and if ,god from the very stones can raise up children to ,abraham1 every man has a right to hope that he may be taught the truth1 if he makes himself worthy of it4 ,if my reflections lead you to think as ,i do1 if you share my feelings1 if we have the same creed1 ,i give you this advice3 ,do not continue to expose your life to the temptations of poverty and despair1 nor waste it in degradation and at the mercy of strangers2 no longer eat the shameful bread of charity4 ,return to your own country1 go back to the religion of your fathers1 and follow it in sincerity of heart1 and never forsake it2 it is very simple and very holy2 ,i think there is no other religion upon earth whose morality is purer1 no other more satisfying to the reason4 ,do not trouble about the cost of the journey1 that will be provided for you4 ,neither do you fear the false shame of a humiliating return2 we should blush to commit a fault1 not to repair it4 ,you are still at an age when all is forgiven1 but when we cannot go on sinning with impunity4 ,if you desire to listen to your conscience1 a thousand empty objections will disappear at her voice4 ,you will feel that1 in our present state of uncertainty1 it is an inexcusable presumption to profess any faith but that we were born into1 while it is treachery not to practise honestly the faith we profess4 ,if we go astray1 we deprive ourselves of a great excuse before the tribunal of the sovereign judge4 ,will he not pardon the errors in which we were brought up1 rather than those of our own choosing8 ,my son1 keep your soul in such a state that you always desire that there should be a ,god and you will never doubt it4 ,moreover1 whatever decision you come to1 remember that the real duties of religion are independent of human institutions2 that a righteous heart is the true temple of the ,godhead2 that in every land1 in every sect1 to love ,god above all things and to love our neighbour as ourself is the whole law2 remember there is no religion which absolves us from our moral duties2 that these alone are really essential1 that the service of the heart is the first of these duties1 and that without faith there is no such thing as true virtue4 ,shun those who1 under the pretence of explaining nature1 sow destructive doctrines in the heart of men1 those whose apparent scepticism is a hundredfold more self-assertive and dogmatic than the firm tone of their opponents4 ,under the arrogant claim1 that they alone are enlightened1 true1 honest1 they subject us imperiously to their far-reaching decisions1 and profess to give us1 as the true principles of all things1 the unintelligible systems framed by their imagination4 ,moreover1 they overthrow1 destroy1 and trample under foot all that men reverence2 they rob the afflicted of their last consolation in their misery2 they deprive the rich and powerful of the sole bridle of their passions2 they tear from the very depths of man's heart all remorse for crime1 and all hope of virtue2 and they boast1 moreover1 that they are the benefactors of the human race4 ,truth1 they say1 can never do a man harm4 ,i think so too1 and to my mind that is strong evidence that what they teach is not true4 ,footnote3 ,the rival parties attack each other with so many sophistries that it would be a rash and overwhelming enterprise to attempt to deal with all of them2 it is difficult enough to note some of them as they occur4 ,one of the commonest errors among the partisans of philosophy is to contrast a nation of good philosophers with a nation of bad ,christians2 as if it were easier to make a nation of good philosophers than a nation of good ,christians4 ,i know not whether in individual cases it is easier to discover one rather than the other2 but ,i am quite certain that1 as far as nations are concerned1 we must assume that there will be those who misuse their philosophy without religion1 just as our people misuse their religion without philosophy1 and that seems to put quite a different face upon the matter4--,bayle has proved very satisfactorily that fanaticism is more harmful than atheism1 and that cannot be denied2 but what he has not taken the trouble to say1 though it is none the less true1 is this3 ,fanaticism1 though cruel and bloodthirsty1 is still a great and powerful passion1 which stirs the heart of man1 teaching him to despise death1 and giving him an enormous motive power1 which only needs to be guided rightly to produce the noblest virtues2 while irreligion1 and the argumentative philosophic spirit generally1 on the other hand1 assaults the life and enfeebles it1 degrades the soul1 concentrates all the passions in the basest self-interest1 in the meanness of the human self2 thus it saps unnoticed the very foundations of all society1 for what is common to all these private interests is so small that it will never outweigh their opposing interests4--,if atheism does not lead to bloodshed1 it is less from love of peace than from indifference to what is good2 as if it mattered little what happened to others1 provided the sage remained undisturbed in his study4 ,his principles do not kill men1 but they prevent their birth1 by destroying the morals by which they were multiplied1 by detaching them from their fellows1 by reducing all their affections to a secret selfishness1 as fatal to population as to virtue4 ,the indifference of the philosopher is like the peace in a despotic state2 it is the repose of death2 war itself is not more destructive4--,thus fanaticism though its immediate results are more fatal than those of what is now called the philosophic mind1 is much less fatal in its after effects4 ,moreover1 it is an easy matter to exhibit fine maxims in books2 but the real question is--,are they really in accordance with your teaching1 are they the necessary consequences of it8 and this has not been clearly proved so far4 ,it remains to be seen whether philosophy1 safely enthroned1 could control successfully man's petty vanity1 his self-interest1 his ambition1 all the lesser passions of mankind1 and whether it would practise that sweet humanity which it boasts of1 pen in hand4--,in theory1 there is no good which philosophy can bring about which is not equally secured by religion1 while religion secures much that philosophy cannot secure4--,in practice1 it is another matter2 but still we must put it to the proof4 ,no man follows his religion in all things1 even if his religion is true2 most people have hardly any religion1 and they do not in the least follow what they have2 that is still more true2 but still there are some people who have a religion and follow it1 at least to some extent2 and beyond doubt religious motives do prevent them from wrong-doing1 and win from them virtues1 praiseworthy actions1 which would not have existed but for these motives4--,a monk denies that money was entrusted to him2 what of that8 ,it only proves that the man who entrusted the money to him was a fool4 ,if ,pascal had done the same1 that would have proved that ,pascal was a hypocrite4 ,but a monk6 ,are those who make a trade of religion religious people8 ,all the crimes committed by the clergy1 as by other men1 do not prove that religion is useless1 but that very few people are religious4--,most certainly our modern governments owe to ,christianity their more stable authority1 their less frequent revolutions2 it has made those governments less bloodthirsty2 this can be shown by comparing them with the governments of former times4 ,apart from fanaticism1 the best known religion has given greater gentleness to ,christian conduct4 ,this change is not the result of learning2 for wherever learning has been most illustrious humanity has been no more respected on that account2 the cruelties of the ,athenians1 the ,egyptians1 the ,roman emperors1 the ,chinese bear witness to this4 ,what works of mercy spring from the gospel6 ,how many acts of restitution1 reparation1 confession does the gospel lead to among ,catholics6 ,among ourselves1 as the times of communion draw near1 do they not lead us to reconciliation and to alms-giving8 ,did not the ,hebrew ,jubilee make the grasping less greedy1 did it not prevent much poverty8 ,the brotherhood of the ,law made the nation one2 no beggar was found among them4 ,neither are there beggars among the ,turks1 where there are countless pious institutions2 from motives of religion they even show hospitality to the foes of their religion4--,the ,mahometans say1 according to ,chardin1 that after the interrogation which will follow the general resurrection1 all bodies will traverse a bridge called ,poul-,serrho1 which is thrown across the eternal fires1 a bridge which may be called the third and last test of the great ,judgment1 because it is there that the good and bad will be separated1 etc4--,the ,persians1 continues ,chardin1 make a great point of this bridge2 and when any one suffers a wrong which he can never hope to wipe out by any means or at any time1 he finds his last consolation in these words3 ',by the living ,god1 you will pay me double at the last day2 you will never get across the ,poul-,serrho if you do not first do me justice2 ,i will hold the hem of your garment1 ,i will cling about your knees4' ,i have seen many eminent men1 of every profession1 who for fear lest this hue and cry should be raised against them as they cross that fearful bridge1 beg pardon of those who complained against them2 it has happened to me myself on many occasions4 ,men of rank1 who had compelled me by their importunity to do what ,i did not wish to do1 have come to me when they thought my anger had had time to cool1 and have said to me2 ,i pray you ,halal becon antchisra1 that is1 ,make this matter lawful and right4 ,some of them have even sent gifts and done me service1 so that ,i might forgive them and say ,i did it willingly2 the cause of this is nothing else but this belief that they will not be able to get across the bridge of hell until they have paid the uttermost farthing to the oppressed4--,must ,i think that the idea of this bridge where so many iniquities are made good is of no avail8 ,if the ,persians were deprived of this idea1 if they were persuaded that there was no ,poul-,serrho1 nor anything of the kind1 where the oppressed were avenged of their tyrants after death1 is it not clear that they would be very much at their ease1 and they would be freed from the care of appeasing the wretched8 ,but it is false to say that this doctrine is hurtful2 yet it would not be true4--,o ,philosopher1 your moral laws are all very fine2 but kindly show me their sanction4 ,cease to shirk the question1 and tell me plainly what you would put in the place of ,poul-,serrho4 ,my good youth1 be honest and humble2 learn how to be ignorant1 then you will never deceive yourself or others4 ,if ever your talents are so far cultivated as to enable you to speak to other men1 always speak according to your conscience1 without caring for their applause4 ,the abuse of knowledge causes incredulity4 ,the learned always despise the opinions of the crowd2 each of them must have his own opinion4 ,a haughty philosophy leads to atheism just as blind devotion leads to fanaticism4 ,avoid these extremes2 keep steadfastly to the path of truth1 or what seems to you truth1 in simplicity of heart1 and never let yourself be turned aside by pride or weakness4 ,dare to confess ,god before the philosophers2 dare to preach humanity to the intolerant4 ,it may be you will stand alone1 but you will bear within you a witness which will make the witness of men of no account with you4 ,let them love or hate1 let them read your writings or despise them2 no matter4 ,speak the truth and do the right2 the one thing that really matters is to do one's duty in this world2 and when we forget ourselves we are really working for ourselves4 ,my child1 self-interest misleads us2 the hope of the just is the only sure guide4 ,i have transcribed this document not as a rule for the sentiments we should adopt in matters of religion1 but as an example of the way in which we may reason with our pupil without forsaking the method ,i have tried to establish4 ,so long as we yield nothing to human authority1 nor to the prejudices of our native land1 the light of reason alone1 in a state of nature1 can lead us no further than to natural religion2 and this is as far as ,i should go with ,emile4 ,if he must have any other religion1 ,i have no right to be his guide2 he must choose for himself4 ,we are working in agreement with nature1 and while she is shaping the physical man1 we are striving to shape his moral being1 but we do not make the same progress4 ,the body is already strong and vigorous1 the soul is still frail and delicate1 and whatever can be done by human art1 the body is always ahead of the mind4 ,hitherto all our care has been devoted to restrain the one and stimulate the other1 so that the man might be as far as possible at one with himself4 ,by developing his individuality1 we have kept his growing susceptibilities in check2 we have controlled it by cultivating his reason4 ,objects of thought moderate the influence of objects of sense4 ,by going back to the causes of things1 we have withdrawn him from the sway of the senses2 it is an easy thing to raise him from the study of nature to the search for the author of nature4 ,when we have reached this point1 what a fresh hold we have got over our pupil2 what fresh ways of speaking to his heart6 ,then alone does he find a real motive for being good1 for doing right when he is far from every human eye1 and when he is not driven to it by law4 ,to be just in his own eyes and in the sight of ,god1 to do his duty1 even at the cost of life itself1 and to bear in his heart virtue1 not only for the love of order which we all subordinate to the love of self1 but for the love of the ,author of his being1 a love which mingles with that self-love1 so that he may at length enjoy the lasting happiness which the peace of a good conscience and the contemplation of that supreme being promise him in another life1 after he has used this life aright4 ,go beyond this1 and ,i see nothing but injustice1 hypocrisy1 and falsehood among men2 private interest1 which in competition necessarily prevails over everything else1 teaches all things to adorn vice with the outward show of virtue4 ,let all men do what is good for me at the cost of what is good for themselves2 let everything depend on me alone2 let the whole human race perish1 if needs be1 in suffering and want1 to spare me a moment's pain or hunger4 ,yes1 ,i shall always maintain that whoso says in his heart1 ,there is no ,god1 while he takes the name of ,god upon his lips1 is either a liar or a madman4 ,reader1 it is all in vain2 ,i perceive that you and ,i shall never see ,emile with the same eyes2 you will always fancy him like your own young people1 hasty1 impetuous1 flighty1 wandering from fete to fete1 from amusement to amusement1 never able to settle to anything4 ,you smile when ,i expect to make a thinker1 a philosopher1 a young theologian1 of an ardent1 lively1 eager1 and fiery young man1 at the most impulsive period of youth4 ,this dreamer1 you say1 is always in pursuit of his fancy2 when he gives us a pupil of his own making1 he does not merely form him1 he creates him1 he makes him up out of his own head2 and while he thinks he is treading in the steps of nature1 he is getting further and further from her4 ,as for me1 when ,i compare my pupil with yours1 ,i can scarcely find anything in common between them4 ,so differently brought up1 it is almost a miracle if they are alike in any respect4 ,as his childhood was passed in the freedom they assume in youth1 in his youth he begins to bear the yoke they bore as children2 this yoke becomes hateful to them1 they are sick of it1 and they see in it nothing but their masters' tyranny2 when they escape from childhood1 they think they must shake off all control1 they make up for the prolonged restraint imposed upon them1 as a prisoner1 freed from his fetters1 moves and stretches and shakes his limbs4 ,footnote3 ,there is no one who looks down upon childhood with such lofty scorn as those who are barely grown-up2 just as there is no country where rank is more strictly regarded than that where there is little real inequality2 everybody is afraid of being confounded with his inferiors4 ,emile1 however1 is proud to be a man1 and to submit to the yoke of his growing reason2 his body1 already well grown1 no longer needs so much action1 and begins to control itself1 while his half-fledged mind tries its wings on every occasion4 ,thus the age of reason becomes for the one the age of licence2 for the other1 the age of reasoning4 ,would you know which of the two is nearer to the order of nature6 ,consider the differences between those who are more or less removed from a state of nature4 ,observe young villagers and see if they are as undisciplined as your scholars4 ,the ,sieur de ,beau says that savages in childhood are always active1 and ever busy with sports that keep the body in motion2 but scarcely do they reach adolescence than they become quiet and dreamy2 they no longer devote themselves to games of skill or chance4 ,emile1 who has been brought up in full freedom like young peasants and savages1 should behave like them and change as he grows up4 ,the whole difference is in this1 that instead of merely being active in sport or for food1 he has1 in the course of his sports1 learned to think4 ,having reached this stage1 and by this road1 he is quite ready to enter upon the next stage to which ,i introduce him2 the subjects ,i suggest for his consideration rouse his curiosity1 because they are fine in themselves1 because they are quite new to him1 and because he is able to understand them4 ,your young people1 on the other hand1 are weary and overdone with your stupid lessons1 your long sermons1 and your tedious catechisms2 why should they not refuse to devote their minds to what has made them sad1 to the burdensome precepts which have been continually piled upon them1 to the thought of the ,author of their being1 who has been represented as the enemy of their pleasures8 ,all this has only inspired in them aversion1 disgust1 and weariness2 constraint has set them against it2 why then should they devote themselves to it when they are beginning to choose for themselves8 ,they require novelty1 you must not repeat what they learned as children4 ,just so with my own pupil1 when he is a man ,i speak to him as a man1 and only tell him what is new to him2 it is just because they are tedious to your pupils that he will find them to his taste4 ,this is how ,i doubly gain time for him by retarding nature to the advantage of reason4 ,but have ,i indeed retarded the progress of nature8 ,no1 ,i have only prevented the imagination from hastening it2 ,i have employed another sort of teaching to counterbalance the precocious instruction which the young man receives from other sources4 ,when he is carried away by the flood of existing customs and ,i draw him in the opposite direction by means of other customs1 this is not to remove him from his place1 but to keep him in it4 ,nature's due time comes at length1 as come it must4 ,since man must die1 he must reproduce himself1 so that the species may endure and the order of the world continue4 ,when by the signs ,i have spoken of you perceive that the critical moment is at hand1 at once abandon for ever your former tone4 ,he is still your disciple1 but not your scholar4 ,he is a man and your friend2 henceforth you must treat him as such4 ,what6 ,must ,i abdicate my authority when most ,i need it8 ,must ,i abandon the adult to himself just when he least knows how to control himself1 when he may fall into the gravest errors6 ,must ,i renounce my rights when it matters most that ,i should use them on his behalf8 ,who bids you renounce them2 he is only just becoming conscious of them4 ,hitherto all you have gained has been won by force or guile2 authority1 the law of duty1 were unknown to him1 you had to constrain or deceive him to gain his obedience4 ,but see what fresh chains you have bound about his heart4 ,reason1 friendship1 affection1 gratitude1 a thousand bonds of affection1 speak to him in a voice he cannot fail to hear4 ,his ears are not yet dulled by vice1 he is still sensitive only to the passions of nature4 ,self-love1 the first of these1 delivers him into your hands2 habit confirms this4 ,if a passing transport tears him from you1 regret restores him to you without delay2 the sentiment which attaches him to you is the only lasting sentiment1 all the rest are fleeting and self-effacing4 ,do not let him become corrupt1 and he will always be docile2 he will not begin to rebel till he is already perverted4 ,i grant you1 indeed1 that if you directly oppose his growing desires and foolishly treat as crimes the fresh needs which are beginning to make themselves felt in him1 he will not listen to you for long2 but as soon as you abandon my method ,i cannot be answerable for the consequences4 ,remember that you are nature's minister2 you will never be her foe4 ,but what shall we decide to do8 ,you see no alternative but either to favour his inclinations or to resist them2 to tyrannise or to wink at his misconduct2 and both of these may lead to such dangerous results that one must indeed hesitate between them4 ,the first way out of the difficulty is a very early marriage2 this is undoubtedly the safest and most natural plan4 ,i doubt1 however1 whether it is the best or the most useful4 ,i will give my reasons later2 meanwhile ,i admit that young men should marry when they reach a marriageable age4 ,but this age comes too soon2 we have made them precocious2 marriage should be postponed to maturity4 ,if it were merely a case of listening to their wishes and following their lead it would be an easy matter2 but there are so many contradictions between the rights of nature and the laws of society that to conciliate them we must continually contradict ourselves4 ,much art is required to prevent man in society from being altogether artificial4 ,for the reasons just stated1 ,i consider that by the means ,i have indicated and others like them the young man's desires may be kept in ignorance and his senses pure up to the age of twenty4 ,this is so true that among the ,germans a young man who lost his virginity before that age was considered dishonoured2 and the writers justly attribute the vigour of constitution and the number of children among the ,germans to the continence of these nations during youth4 ,this period may be prolonged still further1 and a few centuries ago nothing was more common even in ,france4 ,among other well-known examples1 ,montaigne's father1 a man no less scrupulously truthful than strong and healthy1 swore that his was a virgin marriage at three and thirty1 and he had served for a long time in the ,italian wars4 ,we may see in the writings of his son what strength and spirit were shown by the father when he was over sixty4 ,certainly the contrary opinion depends rather on our own morals and our own prejudices than on the experience of the race as a whole4 ,i may1 therefore1 leave on one side the experience of our young people2 it proves nothing for those who have been educated in another fashion4 ,considering that nature has fixed no exact limits which cannot be advanced or postponed1 ,i think ,i may1 without going beyond the law of nature1 assume that under my care ,emil has so far remained in his first innocence1 but ,i see that this happy period is drawing to a close4 ,surrounded by ever-increasing perils1 he will escape me at the first opportunity in spite of all my efforts1 and this opportunity will not long be delayed2 he will follow the blind instinct of his senses2 the chances are a thousand to one on his ruin4 ,i have considered the morals of mankind too profoundly not to be aware of the irrevocable influence of this first moment on all the rest of his life4 ,if ,i dissimulate and pretend to see nothing1 he will take advantage of my weakness2 if he thinks he can deceive me1 he will despise me1 and ,i become an accomplice in his destruction4 ,if ,i try to recall him1 the time is past1 he no longer heeds me1 he finds me tiresome1 hateful1 intolerable2 it will not be long before he is rid of me4 ,there is therefore only one reasonable course open to me2 ,i must make him accountable for his own actions1 ,i must at least preserve him from being taken unawares1 and ,i must show him plainly the dangers which beset his path4 ,i have restrained him so far through his ignorance2 henceforward his restraint must be his own knowledge4 ,this new teaching is of great importance1 and we will take up our story where we left it4 ,this is the time to present my accounts1 to show him how his time and mine have been spent1 to make known to him what he is and what ,i am2 what ,i have done1 and what he has done2 what we owe to each other2 all his moral relations1 all the undertakings to which he is pledged1 all those to which others have pledged themselves in respect to him2 the stage he has reached in the development of his faculties1 the road that remains to be travelled1 the difficulties he will meet1 and the way to overcome them2 how ,i can still help him and how he must henceforward help himself2 in a word1 the critical time which he has reached1 the new dangers round about him1 and all the valid reasons which should induce him to keep a close watch upon himself before giving heed to his growing desires4 ,remember that to guide a grown man you must reverse all that you did to guide the child4 ,do not hesitate to speak to him of those dangerous mysteries which you have so carefully concealed from him hitherto4 ,since he must become aware of them1 let him not learn them from another1 nor from himself1 but from you alone2 since he must henceforth fight against them1 let him know his enemy1 that he may not be taken unawares4 ,young people who are found to be aware of these matters1 without our knowing how they obtained their knowledge1 have not obtained it with impunity4 ,this unwise teaching1 which can have no honourable object1 stains the imagination of those who receive it if it does nothing worse1 and it inclines them to the vices of their instructors4 ,this is not all2 servants1 by this means1 ingratiate themselves with a child1 gain his confidence1 make him regard his tutor as a gloomy and tiresome person2 and one of the favourite subjects of their secret colloquies is to slander him4 ,when the pupil has got so far1 the master may abandon his task2 he can do no good4 ,but why does the child choose special confidants8 ,because of the tyranny of those who control him4 ,why should he hide himself from them if he were not driven to it8 ,why should he complain if he had nothing to complain of8 ,naturally those who control him are his first confidants2 you can see from his eagerness to tell them what he thinks that he feels he has only half thought till he has told his thoughts to them4 ,you may be sure that when the child knows you will neither preach nor scold1 he will always tell you everything1 and that no one will dare to tell him anything he must conceal from you1 for they will know very well that he will tell you everything4 ,what makes me most confident in my method is this3 when ,i follow it out as closely as possible1 ,i find no situation in the life of my scholar which does not leave me some pleasing memory of him4 ,even when he is carried away by his ardent temperament or when he revolts against the hand that guides him1 when he struggles and is on the point of escaping from me1 ,i still find his first simplicity in his agitation and his anger2 his heart as pure as his body1 he has no more knowledge of pretence than of vice2 reproach and scorn have not made a coward of him2 base fears have never taught him the art of concealment4 ,he has all the indiscretion of innocence2 he is absolutely out-spoken2 he does not even know the use of deceit4 ,every impulse of his heart is betrayed either by word or look1 and ,i often know what he is feeling before he is aware of it himself4 ,so long as his heart is thus freely opened to me1 so long as he delights to tell me what he feels1 ,i have nothing to fear2 the danger is not yet at hand2 but if he becomes more timid1 more reserved1 if ,i perceive in his conversation the first signs of confusion and shame1 his instincts are beginning to develop1 he is beginning to connect the idea of evil with these instincts1 there is not a moment to lose1 and if ,i do not hasten to instruct him1 he will learn in spite of me4 ,some of my readers1 even of those who agree with me1 will think that it is only a question of a conversation with the young man at any time4 ,oh1 this is not the way to control the human heart4 ,what we say has no meaning unless the opportunity has been carefully chosen4 ,before we sow we must till the ground2 the seed of virtue is hard to grow2 and a long period of preparation is required before it will take root4 ,one reason why sermons have so little effect is that they are offered to everybody alike1 without discrimination or choice4 ,how can any one imagine that the same sermon could be suitable for so many hearers1 with their different dispositions1 so unlike in mind1 temper1 age1 sex1 station1 and opinion4 ,perhaps there are not two among those to whom what is addressed to all is really suitable2 and all our affections are so transitory that perhaps there are not even two occasions in the life of any man when the same speech would have the same effect on him4 ,judge for yourself whether the time when the eager senses disturb the understanding and tyrannise over the will1 is the time to listen to the solemn lessons of wisdom4 ,therefore never reason with young men1 even when they have reached the age of reason1 unless you have first prepared the way4 ,most lectures miss their mark more through the master's fault than the disciple's4 ,the pedant and the teacher say much the same2 but the former says it at random1 and the latter only when he is sure of its effect4 ,as a somnambulist1 wandering in his sleep1 walks along the edge of a precipice1 over which he would fall if he were awake1 so my ,emile1 in the sleep of ignorance1 escapes the perils which he does not see2 were ,i to wake him with a start1 he might fall4 ,let us first try to withdraw him from the edge of the precipice1 and then we will awake him to show him it from a distance4 ,reading1 solitude1 idleness1 a soft and sedentary life1 intercourse with women and young people1 these are perilous paths for a young man1 and these lead him constantly into danger4 ,i divert his senses by other objects of sense2 ,i trace another course for his spirits by which ,i distract them from the course they would have taken2 it is by bodily exercise and hard work that ,i check the activity of the imagination1 which was leading him astray4 ,when the arms are hard at work1 the imagination is quiet2 when the body is very weary1 the passions are not easily inflamed4 ,the quickest and easiest precaution is to remove him from immediate danger4 ,at once ,i take him away from towns1 away from things which might lead him into temptation4 ,but that is not enough2 in what desert1 in what wilds1 shall he escape from the thoughts which pursue him8 ,it is not enough to remove dangerous objects2 if ,i fail to remove the memory of them1 if ,i fail to find a way to detach him from everything1 if ,i fail to distract him from himself1 ,i might as well have left him where he was4 ,emile has learned a trade1 but we do not have recourse to it2 he is fond of farming and understands it1 but farming is not enough2 the occupations he is acquainted with degenerate into routine2 when he is engaged in them he is not really occupied2 he is thinking of other things2 head and hand are at work on different subjects4 ,he must have some fresh occupation which has the interest of novelty--an occupation which keeps him busy1 diligent1 and hard at work1 an occupation which he may become passionately fond of1 one to which he will devote himself entirely4 ,now the only one which seems to possess all these characteristics is the chase4 ,if hunting is ever an innocent pleasure1 if it is ever worthy of a man1 now is the time to betake ourselves to it4 ,emile is well-fitted to succeed in it4 ,he is strong1 skilful1 patient1 unwearied4 ,he is sure to take a fancy to this sport2 he will bring to it all the ardour of youth2 in it he will lose1 at least for a time1 the dangerous inclinations which spring from softness4 ,the chase hardens the heart a well as the body2 we get used to the sight of blood and cruelty4 ,diana is represented as the enemy of love2 and the allegory is true to life2 the languors of love are born of soft repose1 and tender feelings are stifled by violent exercise4 ,in the woods and fields1 the lover and the sportsman are so diversely affected that they receive very different impressions4 ,the fresh shade1 the arbours1 the pleasant resting-places of the one1 to the other are but feeding grounds1 or places where the quarry will hide or turn to bay4 ,where the lover hears the flute and the nightingale1 the hunter hears the horn and the hounds2 one pictures to himself the nymphs and dryads1 the other sees the horses1 the huntsman1 and the pack4 ,take a country walk with one or other of these men2 their different conversation will soon show you that they behold the earth with other eyes1 and that the direction of their thoughts is as different as their favourite pursuit4 ,i understand how these tastes may be combined1 and that at last men find time for both4 ,but the passions of youth cannot be divided in this way4 ,give the youth a single occupation which he loves1 and the rest will soon be forgotten4 ,varied desires come with varied knowledge1 and the first pleasures we know are the only ones we desire for long enough4 ,i would not have the whole of ,emile's youth spent in killing creatures1 and ,i do not even profess to justify this cruel passion2 it is enough for me that it serves to delay a more dangerous passion1 so that he may listen to me calmly when ,i speak of it1 and give me time to describe it without stimulating it4 ,there are moments in human life which can never be forgotten4 ,such is the time when ,emile receives the instruction of which ,i have spoken2 its influence should endure all his life through4 ,let us try to engrave it on his memory so that it may never fade away4 ,it is one of the faults of our age to rely too much on cold reason1 as if men were all mind4 ,by neglecting the language of expression we have lost the most forcible mode of speech4 ,the spoken word is always weak1 and we speak to the heart rather through the eyes than the ears4 ,in our attempt to appeal to reason only1 we have reduced our precepts to words1 we have not embodied them in deed4 ,mere reason is not active2 occasionally she restrains1 more rarely she stimulates1 but she never does any great thing4 ,small minds have a mania for reasoning4 ,strong souls speak a very different language1 and it is by this language that men are persuaded and driven to action4 ,i observe that in modern times men only get a hold over others by force or self-interest1 while the ancients did more by persuasion1 by the affections of the heart2 because they did not neglect the language2 of symbolic expression4 ,all agreements were drawn up solemnly1 so that they might be more inviolable2 before the reign of force1 the gods were the judges of mankind2 in their presence1 individuals made their treaties and alliances1 and pledged themselves to perform their promises2 the face of the earth was the book in which the archives were preserved4 ,the leaves of this book were rocks1 trees1 piles of stones1 made sacred by these transactions1 and regarded with reverence by barbarous men2 and these pages were always open before their eyes4 ,the well of the oath1 the well of the living and seeing one2 the ancient oak of ,mamre1 the stones of witness1 such were the simple but stately monuments of the sanctity of contracts2 none dared to lay a sacrilegious hand on these monuments1 and man's faith was more secure under the warrant of these dumb witnesses than it is to-day upon all the rigour of the law4 ,in government the people were over-awed by the pomp and splendour of royal power4 ,the symbols of greatness1 a throne1 a sceptre1 a purple robe1 a crown1 a fillet1 these were sacred in their sight4 ,these symbols1 and the respect which they inspired1 led them to reverence the venerable man whom they beheld adorned with them2 without soldiers and without threats1 he spoke and was obeyed4 ,footnote3 ,the ,roman ,catholic clergy have very wisely retained these symbols1 and certain republics1 such as ,venice1 have followed their example4 ,thus the ,venetian government1 despite the fallen condition of the state1 still enjoys1 under the trappings of its former greatness1 all the affection1 all the reverence of the people2 and next to the pope in his triple crown1 there is perhaps no king1 no potentate1 no person in the world so much respected as the ,doge of ,venice2 he has no power1 no authority1 but he is rendered sacred by his pomp1 and he wears beneath his ducal coronet a woman's flowing locks4 ,that ceremony of the ,bucentaurius1 which stirs the laughter of fools1 stirs the ,venetian populace to shed its life-blood for the maintenance of this tyrannical government4 ,in our own day men profess to do away with these symbols4 ,what are the consequences of this contempt8 ,the kingly majesty makes no impression on all hearts1 kings can only gain obedience by the help of troops1 and the respect of their subjects is based only on the fear of punishment4 ,kings are spared the trouble of wearing their crowns1 and our nobles escape from the outward signs of their station1 but they must have a hundred thousand men at their command if their orders are to be obeyed4 ,though this may seem a finer thing1 it is easy to see that in the long run they will gain nothing4 ,it is amazing what the ancients accomplished with the aid of eloquence2 but this eloquence did not merely consist in fine speeches carefully prepared2 and it was most effective when the orator said least4 ,the most startling speeches were expressed not in words but in signs2 they were not uttered but shown4 ,a thing beheld by the eyes kindles the imagination1 stirs the curiosity1 and keeps the mind on the alert for what we are about to say1 and often enough the thing tells the whole story4 ,thrasybulus and ,tarquin cutting off the heads of the poppies1 ,alexander placing his seal on the lips of his favourite1 ,diogenes marching before ,zeno1 do not these speak more plainly than if they had uttered long orations8 ,what flow of words could have expressed the ideas as clearly8 ,darius1 in the course of the ,scythian war1 received from the king of the ,scythians a bird1 a frog1 a mouse1 and five arrows4 ,the ambassador deposited this gift and retired without a word4 ,in our days he would have been taken for a madman4 ,this terrible speech was understood1 and ,darius withdrew to his own country with what speed he could4 ,substitute a letter for these symbols and the more threatening it was the less terror it would inspire2 it would have been merely a piece of bluff1 to which ,darius would have paid no attention4 ,what heed the ,romans gave to the language of signs6 ,different ages and different ranks had their appropriate garments1 toga1 tunic1 patrician robes1 fringes and borders1 seats of honour1 lictors1 rods and axes1 crowns of gold1 crowns of leaves1 crowns of flowers1 ovations1 triumphs1 everything had its pomp1 its observances1 its ceremonial1 and all these spoke to the heart of the citizens4 ,the state regarded it as a matter of importance that the populace should assemble in one place rather than another1 that they should or should not behold the ,capitol1 that they should or should not turn towards the ,senate1 that this day or that should be chosen for their deliberations4 ,the accused wore a special dress1 so did the candidates for election2 warriors did not boast of their exploits1 they showed their scars4 ,i can fancy one of our orators at the death of ,caesar exhausting all the commonplaces of rhetoric to give a pathetic description of his wounds1 his blood1 his dead body2 ,anthony was an orator1 but he said none of this2 he showed the murdered ,caesar4 ,what rhetoric was this6 ,but this digression1 like many others1 is drawing me unawares away from my subject2 and my digressions are too frequent to be borne with patience4 ,i therefore return to the point4 ,do not reason coldly with youth4 ,clothe your reason with a body1 if you would make it felt4 ,let the mind speak the language of the heart1 that it may be understood4 ,i say again our opinions1 not our actions1 may be influenced by cold argument2 they set us thinking1 not doing2 they show us what we ought to think1 not what we ought to do4 ,if this is true of men1 it is all the truer of young people who are still enwrapped in their senses and cannot think otherwise than they imagine4 ,even after the preparations of which ,i have spoken1 ,i shall take good care not to go all of a sudden to ,emile's room and preach a long and heavy sermon on the subject in which he is to be instructed4 ,i shall begin by rousing his imagination2 ,i shall choose the time1 place1 and surroundings most favourable to the impression ,i wish to make2 ,i shall1 so to speak1 summon all nature as witness to our conversations2 ,i shall call upon the eternal ,god1 the ,creator of nature1 to bear witness to the truth of what ,i say4 ,he shall judge between ,emile and myself2 ,i will make the rocks1 the woods1 the mountains round about us1 the monuments of his promises and mine2 eyes1 voice1 and gesture shall show the enthusiasm ,i desire to inspire4 ,then ,i will speak and he will listen1 and his emotion will be stirred by my own4 ,the more impressed ,i am by the sanctity of my duties1 the more sacred he will regard his own4 ,i will enforce the voice of reason with images and figures1 ,i will not give him long-winded speeches or cold precepts1 but my overflowing feelings will break their bounds2 my reason shall be grave and serious1 but my heart cannot speak too warmly4 ,then when ,i have shown him all that ,i have done for him1 ,i will show him how he is made for me2 he will see in my tender affection the cause of all my care4 ,how greatly shall ,i surprise and disturb him when ,i change my tone4 ,instead of shrivelling up his soul by always talking of his own interests1 ,i shall henceforth speak of my own2 he will be more deeply touched by this4 ,i will kindle in his young heart all the sentiments of affection1 generosity1 and gratitude which ,i have already called into being1 and it will indeed be sweet to watch their growth4 ,i will press him to my bosom1 and weep over him in my emotion2 ,i will say to him3 ,you are my wealth1 my child1 my handiwork2 my happiness is bound up in yours2 if you frustrate my hopes1 you rob me of twenty years of my life1 and you bring my grey hairs with sorrow to the grave4 ,this is the way to gain a hearing and to impress what is said upon the heart and memory of the young man4 ,hitherto ,i have tried to give examples of the way in which a tutor should instruct his pupil in cases of difficulty4 ,i have tried to do so in this instance2 but after many attempts ,i have abandoned the task1 convinced that the ,french language is too artificial to permit in print the plainness of speech required for the first lessons in certain subjects4 ,they say ,french is more chaste than other languages2 for my own part ,i think it more obscene2 for it seems to me that the purity of a language does not consist in avoiding coarse expressions but in having none4 ,indeed1 if we are to avoid them1 they must be in our thoughts1 and there is no language in which it is so difficult to speak with purity on every subject than ,french4 ,the reader is always quicker to detect than the author to avoid a gross meaning1 and he is shocked and startled by everything4 ,how can what is heard by impure ears avoid coarseness8 ,on the other hand1 a nation whose morals are pure has fit terms for everything1 and these terms are always right because they are rightly used4 ,one could not imagine more modest language than that of the ,bible1 just because of its plainness of speech4 ,the same things translated into ,french would become immodest4 ,what ,i ought to say to ,emile will sound pure and honourable to him2 but to make the same impression in print would demand a like purity of heart in the reader4 ,i should even think that reflections on true purity of speech and the sham delicacy of vice might find a useful place in the conversations as to morality to which this subject brings us2 for when he learns the language of plain-spoken goodness1 he must also learn the language of decency1 and he must know why the two are so different4 ,however this may be1 ,i maintain that if instead of the empty precepts which are prematurely dinned into the ears of children1 only to be scoffed at when the time comes when they might prove useful1 if instead of this we bide our time1 if we prepare the way for a hearing1 if we then show him the laws of nature in all their truth1 if we show him the sanction of these laws in the physical and moral evils which overtake those who neglect them1 if while we speak to him of this great mystery of generation1 we join to the idea of the pleasure which the ,author of nature has given to this act the idea of the exclusive affection which makes it delightful1 the idea of the duties of faithfulness and modesty which surround it1 and redouble its charm while fulfilling its purpose2 if we paint to him marriage1 not only as the sweetest form of society1 but also as the most sacred and inviolable of contracts1 if we tell him plainly all the reasons which lead men to respect this sacred bond1 and to pour hatred and curses upon him who dares to dishonour it2 if we give him a true and terrible picture of the horrors of debauch1 of its stupid brutality1 of the downward road by which a first act of misconduct leads from bad to worse1 and at last drags the sinner to his ruin2 if1 ,i say1 we give him proofs that on a desire for chastity depends health1 strength1 courage1 virtue1 love itself1 and all that is truly good for man--,i maintain that this chastity will be so dear and so desirable in his eyes1 that his mind will be ready to receive our teaching as to the way to preserve it2 for so long as we are chaste we respect chastity2 it is only when we have lost this virtue that we scorn it4 ,it is not true that the inclination to evil is beyond our control1 and that we cannot overcome it until we have acquired the habit of yielding to it4 ,aurelius ,victor says that many men were mad enough to purchase a night with ,cleopatra at the price of their life1 and this is not incredible in the madness of passion4 ,but let us suppose the maddest of men1 the man who has his senses least under control2 let him see the preparations for his death1 let him realise that he will certainly die in torment a quarter of an hour later2 not only would that man1 from that time forward1 become able to resist temptation1 he would even find it easy to do so2 the terrible picture with which they are associated will soon distract his attention from these temptations1 and when they are continually put aside they will cease to recur4 ,the sole cause of our weakness is the feebleness of our will1 and we have always strength to perform what we strongly desire4 ,volenti nihil difficile6 ,oh6 if only we hated vice as much as we love life1 we should abstain as easily from a pleasant sin as from a deadly poison in a delicious dish4 ,how is it that you fail to perceive that if all the lessons given to a young man on this subject have no effect1 it is because they are not adapted to his age1 and that at every age reason must be presented in a shape which will win his affection8 ,speak seriously to him if required1 but let what you say to him always have a charm which will compel him to listen4 ,do not coldly oppose his wishes2 do not stifle his imagination1 but direct it lest it should bring forth monsters4 ,speak to him of love1 of women1 of pleasure2 let him find in your conversation a charm which delights his youthful heart2 spare no pains to make yourself his confidant2 under this name alone will you really be his master4 ,then you need not fear he will find your conversation tedious2 he will make you talk more than you desire4 ,if ,i have managed to take all the requisite precautions in accordance with these maxims1 and have said the right things to ,emile at the age he has now reached1 ,i am quite convinced that he will come of his own accord to the point to which ,i would lead him1 and will eagerly confide himself to my care4 ,when he sees the dangers by which he is surrounded1 he will say to me with all the warmth of youth1 ,oh1 my friend1 my protector1 my master6 resume the authority you desire to lay aside at the very time when ,i most need it2 hitherto my weakness has given you this power4 ,i now place it in your hands of my own free-will1 and it will be all the more sacred in my eyes4 ,protect me from all the foes which are attacking me1 and above all from the traitors within the citadel2 watch over your work1 that it may still be worthy of you4 ,i mean to obey your laws1 ,i shall ever do so1 that is my steadfast purpose2 if ,i ever disobey you1 it will be against my will2 make me free by guarding me against the passions which do me violence2 do not let me become their slave2 compel me to be my own master and to obey1 not my senses1 but my reason4 ,when you have led your pupil so far 7and it will be your own fault if you fail to do so71 beware of taking him too readily at his word1 lest your rule should seem too strict to him1 and lest he should think he has a right to escape from it1 by accusing you of taking him by surprise4 ,this is the time for reserve and seriousness2 and this attitude will have all the more effect upon him seeing that it is the first time you have adopted it towards him4 ,you will say to him therefore3 ,young man1 you readily make promises which are hard to keep2 you must understand what they mean before you have a right to make them2 you do not know how your fellows are drawn by their passions into the whirlpool of vice masquerading as pleasure4 ,you are honourable1 ,i know2 you will never break your word1 but how often will you repent of having given it8 ,how often will you curse your friend1 when1 in order to guard you from the ills which threaten you1 he finds himself compelled to do violence to your heart4 ,like ,ulysses who1 hearing the song of the ,sirens1 cried aloud to his rowers to unbind him1 you will break your chains at the call of pleasure2 you will importune me with your lamentations1 you will reproach me as a tyrant when ,i have your welfare most at heart2 when ,i am trying to make you happy1 ,i shall incur your hatred4 ,oh1 ,emile1 ,i can never bear to be hateful in your eyes2 this is too heavy a price to pay even for your happiness4 ,my dear young man1 do you not see that when you undertake to obey me1 you compel me to promise to be your guide1 to forget myself in my devotion to you1 to refuse to listen to your murmurs and complaints1 to wage unceasing war against your wishes and my own4 ,before we either of us undertake such a task1 let us count our resources2 take your time1 give me time to consider1 and be sure that the slower we are to promise1 the more faithfully will our promises be kept4 ,you may be sure that the more difficulty he finds in getting your promise1 the easier you will find it to carry it out4 ,the young man must learn that he is promising a great deal1 and that you are promising still more4 ,when the time is come1 when he has1 so to say1 signed the contract1 then change your tone1 and make your rule as gentle as you said it would be severe4 ,say to him1 ,my young friend1 it is experience that you lack2 but ,i have taken care that you do not lack reason4 ,you are ready to see the motives of my conduct in every respect2 to do this you need only wait till you are free from excitement4 ,always obey me first1 and then ask the reasons for my commands2 ,i am always ready to give my reasons so soon as you are ready to listen to them1 and ,i shall never be afraid to make you the judge between us4 ,you promise to follow my teaching1 and ,i promise only to use your obedience to make you the happiest of men4 ,for proof of this ,i have the life you have lived hitherto4 ,show me any one of your age who has led as happy a life as yours1 and ,i promise you nothing more4 ,when my authority is firmly established1 my first care will be to avoid the necessity of using it4 ,i shall spare no pains to become more and more firmly established in his confidence1 to make myself the confidant of his heart and the arbiter of his pleasures4 ,far from combating his youthful tastes1 ,i shall consult them that ,i may be their master2 ,i will look at things from his point of view that ,i may be his guide2 ,i will not seek a remote distant good at the cost of his present happiness4 ,i would always have him happy always if that may be4 ,those who desire to guide young people rightly and to preserve them from the snares of sense give them a disgust for love1 and would willingly make the very thought of it a crime1 as if love were for the old4 ,all these mistaken lessons have no effect2 the heart gives the lie to them4 ,the young man1 guided by a surer instinct1 laughs to himself over the gloomy maxims which he pretends to accept1 and only awaits the chance of disregarding them4 ,all that is contrary to nature4 ,by following the opposite course ,i reach the same end more safely4 ,i am not afraid to encourage in him the tender feeling for which he is so eager1 ,i shall paint it as the supreme joy of life1 as indeed it is2 when ,i picture it to him1 ,i desire that he shall give himself up to it2 by making him feel the charm which the union of hearts adds to the delights of sense1 ,i shall inspire him with a disgust for debauchery2 ,i shall make him a lover and a good man4 ,how narrow-minded to see nothing in the rising desires of a young heart but obstacles to the teaching of reason4 ,in my eyes1 these are the right means to make him obedient to that very teaching4 ,only through passion can we gain the mastery over passions2 their tyranny must be controlled by their legitimate power1 and nature herself must furnish us with the means to control her4 ,emile is not made to live alone1 he is a member of society1 and must fulfil his duties as such4 ,he is made to live among his fellow-men and he must get to know them4 ,he knows mankind in general2 he has still to learn to know individual men4 ,he knows what goes on in the world2 he has now to learn how men live in the world4 ,it is time to show him the front of that vast stage1 of which he already knows the hidden workings4 ,it will not arouse in him the foolish admiration of a giddy youth1 but the discrimination of an exact and upright spirit4 ,he may no doubt be deceived by his passions2 who is there who yields to his passions without being led astray by them8 ,at least he will not be deceived by the passions of other people4 ,if he sees them1 he will regard them with the eye of the wise1 and will neither be led away by their example nor seduced by their prejudices4 ,as there is a fitting age for the study of the sciences1 so there is a fitting age for the study of the ways of the world4 ,those who learn these too soon1 follow them throughout life1 without choice or consideration1 and although they follow them fairly well they never really know what they are about4 ,but he who studies the ways of the world and sees the reason for them1 follows them with more insight1 and therefore more exactly and gracefully4 ,give me a child of twelve who knows nothing at all2 at fifteen ,i will restore him to you knowing as much as those who have been under instruction from infancy2 with this difference1 that your scholars only know things by heart1 while mine knows how to use his knowledge4 ,in the same way plunge a young man of twenty into society2 under good guidance1 in a year's time1 he will be more charming and more truly polite than one brought up in society from childhood4 ,for the former is able to perceive the reasons for all the proceedings relating to age1 position1 and sex1 on which the customs of society depend1 and can reduce them to general principles1 and apply them to unforeseen emergencies2 while the latter1 who is guided solely by habit1 is at a loss when habit fails him4 ,young ,french ladies are all brought up in convents till they are married4 ,do they seem to find any difficulty in acquiring the ways which are so new to them1 and is it possible to accuse the ladies of ,paris of awkward and embarrassed manners or of ignorance of the ways of society1 because they have not acquired them in infancy6 ,this is the prejudice of men of the world1 who know nothing of more importance than this trifling science1 and wrongly imagine that you cannot begin to acquire it too soon4 ,on the other hand1 it is quite true that we must not wait too long4 ,any one who has spent the whole of his youth far from the great world is all his life long awkward1 constrained1 out of place2 his manners will be heavy and clumsy1 no amount of practice will get rid of this1 and he will only make himself more ridiculous by trying to do so4 ,there is a time for every kind of teaching and we ought to recognise it1 and each has its own dangers to be avoided4 ,at this age there are more dangers than at any other2 but ,i do not expose my pupil to them without safeguards4 ,when my method succeeds completely in attaining one object1 and when in avoiding one difficulty it also provides against another1 ,i then consider that it is a good method1 and that ,i am on the right track4 ,this seems to be the case with regard to the expedient suggested by me in the present case4 ,if ,i desire to be stern and cold towards my pupil1 ,i shall lose his confidence1 and he will soon conceal himself from me4 ,if ,i wish to be easy and complaisant1 to shut my eyes1 what good does it do him to be under my care8 ,i only give my authority to his excesses1 and relieve his conscience at the expense of my own4 ,if ,i introduce him into society with no object but to teach him1 he will learn more than ,i want4 ,if ,i keep him apart from society1 what will he have learnt from me8 ,everything perhaps1 except the one art absolutely necessary to a civilised man1 the art of living among his fellow-men4 ,if ,i try to attend to this at a distance1 it will be of no avail2 he is only concerned with the present4 ,if ,i am content to supply him with amusement1 he will acquire habits of luxury and will learn nothing4 ,we will have none of this4 ,my plan provides for everything4 ,your heart1 ,i say to the young man1 requires a companion2 let us go in search of a fitting one2 perhaps we shall not easily find such a one1 true worth is always rare1 but we will be in no hurry1 nor will we be easily discouraged4 ,no doubt there is such a one1 and we shall find her at last1 or at least we shall find some one like her4 ,with an end so attractive to himself1 ,i introduce him into society4 ,what more need ,i say8 ,have ,i not achieved my purpose8 ,by describing to him his future mistress1 you may imagine whether ,i shall gain a hearing1 whether ,i shall succeed in making the qualities he ought to love pleasing and dear to him1 whether ,i shall sway his feelings to seek or shun what is good or bad for him4 ,i shall be the stupidest of men if ,i fail to make him in love with he knows not whom4 ,no matter that the person ,i describe is imaginary1 it is enough to disgust him with those who might have attracted him2 it is enough if it is continually suggesting comparisons which make him prefer his fancy to the real people he sees2 and is not love itself a fancy1 a falsehood1 an illusion8 ,we are far more in love with our own fancy than with the object of it4 ,if we saw the object of our affections as it is1 there would be no such thing as love4 ,when we cease to love1 the person we used to love remains unchanged1 but we no longer see with the same eyes2 the magic veil is drawn aside1 and love disappears4 ,but when ,i supply the object of imagination1 ,i have control over comparisons1 and ,i am able easily to prevent illusion with regard to realities4 ,for all that ,i would not mislead a young man by describing a model of perfection which could never exist2 but ,i would so choose the faults of his mistress that they will suit him1 that he will be pleased by them1 and they may serve to correct his own4 ,neither would ,i lie to him and affirm that there really is such a person2 let him delight in the portrait1 he will soon desire to find the original4 ,from desire to belief the transition is easy2 it is a matter of a little skilful description1 which under more perceptible features will give to this imaginary object an air of greater reality4 ,i would go so far as to give her a name2 ,i would say1 smiling4 ,let us call your future mistress ,sophy2 ,sophy is a name of good omen2 if it is not the name of the lady of your choice at least she will be worthy of the name2 we may honour her with it meanwhile4 ,if after all these details1 without affirming or denying1 we excuse ourselves from giving an answer1 his suspicions will become certainty2 he will think that his destined bride is purposely concealed from him1 and that he will see her in good time4 ,if once he has arrived at this conclusion and if the characteristics to be shown to him have been well chosen1 the rest is easy2 there will be little risk in exposing him to the world2 protect him from his senses1 and his heart is safe4 ,but whether or no he personifies the model ,i have contrived to make so attractive to him1 this model1 if well done1 will attach him none the less to everything that resembles itself1 and will give him as great a distaste for all that is unlike it as if ,sophy really existed4 ,what a means to preserve his heart from the dangers to which his appearance would expose him1 to repress his senses by means of his imagination1 to rescue him from the hands of those women who profess to educate young men1 and make them pay so dear for their teaching1 and only teach a young man manners by making him utterly shameless4 ,sophy is so modest8 ,what would she think of their advances6 ,sophy is so simple6 ,how would she like their airs8 ,they are too far from his thoughts and his observations to be dangerous4 ,every one who deals with the control of children follows the same prejudices and the same maxima1 for their observation is at fault1 and their reflection still more so4 ,a young man is led astray in the first place neither by temperament nor by the senses1 but by popular opinion4 ,if we were concerned with boys brought up in boarding schools or girls in convents1 ,i would show that this applies even to them2 for the first lessons they learn from each other1 the only lessons that bear fruit1 are those of vice2 and it is not nature that corrupts them but example4 ,but let us leave the boarders in schools and convents to their bad morals2 there is no cure for them4 ,i am dealing only with home training4 ,take a young man carefully educated in his father's country house1 and examine him when he reaches ,paris and makes his entrance into society2 you will find him thinking clearly about honest matters1 and you will find his will as wholesome as his reason4 ,you will find scorn of vice and disgust for debauchery2 his face will betray his innocent horror at the very mention of a prostitute4 ,i maintain that no young man could make up his mind to enter the gloomy abodes of these unfortunates by himself1 if indeed he were aware of their purpose and felt their necessity4 ,see the same young man six months later1 you will not know him2 from his bold conversation1 his fashionable maxims1 his easy air1 you would take him for another man1 if his jests over his former simplicity and his shame when any one recalls it did not show that it is he indeed and that he is ashamed of himself4 ,how greatly has he changed in so short a time6 ,what has brought about so sudden and complete a change8 ,his physical development8 ,would not that have taken place in his father's house1 and certainly he would not have acquired these maxims and this tone at home8 ,the first charms of sense8 ,on the contrary2 those who are beginning to abandon themselves to these pleasures are timid and anxious1 they shun the light and noise4 ,the first pleasures are always mysterious1 modesty gives them their savour1 and modesty conceals them2 the first mistress does not make a man bold but timid4 ,wholly absorbed in a situation so novel to him1 the young man retires into himself to enjoy it1 and trembles for fear it should escape him4 ,if he is noisy he knows neither passion nor love2 however he may boast1 he has not enjoyed4 ,these changes are merely the result of changed ideas4 ,his heart is the same1 but his opinions have altered4 ,his feelings1 which change more slowly1 will at length yield to his opinions and it is then that he is indeed corrupted4 ,he has scarcely made his entrance into society before he receives a second education quite unlike the first1 which teaches him to despise what he esteemed1 and esteem what he despised2 he learns to consider the teaching of his parents and masters as the jargon of pedants1 and the duties they have instilled into him as a childish morality1 to be scorned now that he is grown up4 ,he thinks he is bound in honour to change his conduct2 he becomes forward without desire1 and he talks foolishly from false shame4 ,he rails against morality before he has any taste for vice1 and prides himself on debauchery without knowing how to set about it4 ,i shall never forget the confession of a young officer in the ,swiss ,guards1 who was utterly sick of the noisy pleasures of his comrades1 but dared not refuse to take part in them lest he should be laughed at4 ,i am getting used to it1 he said1 as ,i am getting used to taking snuff2 the taste will come with practice2 it will not do to be a child for ever4 ,so a young man when he enters society must be preserved from vanity rather than from sensibility2 he succumbs rather to the tastes of others than to his own1 and self-love is responsible for more libertines than love4 ,this being granted1 ,i ask you4 ,is there any one on earth better armed than my pupil against all that may attack his morals1 his sentiments1 his principles2 is there any one more able to resist the flood8 ,what seduction is there against which he is not forearmed8 ,if his desires attract him towards women1 he fails to find what he seeks1 and his heart1 already occupied1 holds him back4 ,if he is disturbed and urged onward by his senses1 where will he find satisfaction8 ,his horror of adultery and debauch keeps him at a distance from prostitutes and married women1 and the disorders of youth may always be traced to one or other of these4 ,a maiden may be a coquette1 but she will not be shameless1 she will not fling herself at the head of a young man who may marry her if he believes in her virtue2 besides she is always under supervision4 ,emile1 too1 will not be left entirely to himself2 both of them will be under the guardianship of fear and shame1 the constant companions of a first passion2 they will not proceed at once to misconduct1 and they will not have time to come to it gradually without hindrance4 ,if he behaves otherwise1 he must have taken lessons from his comrades1 he must have learned from them to despise his self-control1 and to imitate their boldness4 ,but there is no one in the whole world so little given to imitation as ,emile4 ,what man is there who is so little influenced by mockery as one who has no prejudices himself and yields nothing to the prejudices of others4 ,i have laboured twenty years to arm him against mockery2 they will not make him their dupe in a day2 for in his eyes ridicule is the argument of fools1 and nothing makes one less susceptible to raillery than to be beyond the influence of prejudice4 ,instead of jests he must have arguments1 and while he is in this frame of mind1 ,i am not afraid that he will be carried away by young fools2 conscience and truth are on my side4 ,if prejudice is to enter into the matter at all1 an affection of twenty years' standing counts for something2 no one will ever convince him that ,i have wearied him with vain lessons2 and in a heart so upright and so sensitive the voice of a tried and trusted friend will soon efface the shouts of twenty libertines4 ,as it is therefore merely a question of showing him that he is deceived1 that while they pretend to treat him as a man they are really treating him as a child1 ,i shall choose to be always simple but serious and plain in my arguments1 so that he may feel that ,i do indeed treat him as a man4 ,i will say to him1 ,you will see that your welfare1 in which my own is bound up1 compels me to speak2 ,i can do nothing else4 ,but why do these young men want to persuade you8 ,because they desire to seduce you2 they do not care for you1 they take no real interest in you2 their only motive is a secret spite because they see you are better than they2 they want to drag you down to their own level1 and they only reproach you with submitting to control that they may themselves control you4 ,do you think you have anything to gain by this8 ,are they so much wiser than ,i1 is the affection of a day stronger than mine8 ,to give any weight to their jests they must give weight to their authority2 and by what experience do they support their maxima above ours8 ,they have only followed the example of other giddy youths1 as they would have you follow theirs4 ,to escape from the so-called prejudices of their fathers1 they yield to those of their comrades4 ,i cannot see that they are any the better off2 but ,i see that they lose two things of value--the affection of their parents1 whose advice is that of tenderness and truth1 and the wisdom of experience which teaches us to judge by what we know2 for their fathers have once been young1 but the young men have never been fathers4 ,but you think they are at least sincere in their foolish precepts4 ,not so1 dear ,emile2 they deceive themselves in order to deceive you2 they are not in agreement with themselves2 their heart continually revolts1 and their very words often contradict themselves4 ,this man who mocks at everything good would be in despair if his wife held the same views4 ,another extends his indifference to good morals even to his future wife1 or he sinks to such depths of infamy as to be indifferent to his wife's conduct2 but go a step further2 speak to him of his mother2 is he willing to be treated as the child of an adulteress and the son of a woman of bad character1 is he ready to assume the name of a family1 to steal the patrimony of the true heir1 in a word will he bear being treated as a bastard8 ,which of them will permit his daughter to be dishonoured as he dishonours the daughter of another8 ,there is not one of them who would not kill you if you adopted in your conduct towards him all the principles he tries to teach you4 ,thus they prove their inconsistency1 and we know they do not believe what they say4 ,here are reasons1 dear ,emile2 weigh their arguments if they have any1 and compare them with mine4 ,if ,i wished to have recourse like them to scorn and mockery1 you would see that they lend themselves to ridicule as much or more than myself4 ,but ,i am not afraid of serious inquiry4 ,the triumph of mockers is soon over2 truth endures1 and their foolish laughter dies away4 ,you do not think that ,emile1 at twenty1 can possibly be docile4 ,how differently we think6 ,i cannot understand how he could be docile at ten1 for what hold have ,i on him at that age8 ,it took me fifteen years of careful preparation to secure that hold4 ,i was not educating him1 but preparing him for education4 ,he is now sufficiently educated to be docile2 he recognises the voice of friendship and he knows how to obey reason4 ,it is true ,i allow him a show of freedom1 but he was never more completely under control1 because he obeys of his own free will4 ,so long as ,i could not get the mastery over his will1 ,i retained my control over his person2 ,i never left him for a moment4 ,now ,i sometimes leave him to himself because ,i control him continually4 ,when ,i leave him ,i embrace him and ,i say with confidence3 ,emile1 ,i trust you to my friend1 ,i leave you to his honour2 he will answer for you4 ,to corrupt healthy affections which have not been previously depraved1 to efface principles which are directly derived from our own reasoning1 is not the work of a moment4 ,if any change takes place during my absence1 that absence will not be long1 he will never be able to conceal himself from me1 so that ,i shall perceive the danger before any harm comes of it1 and ,i shall be in time to provide a remedy4 ,as we do not become depraved all at once1 neither do we learn to deceive all at once2 and if ever there was a man unskilled in the art of deception it is ,emile1 who has never had any occasion for deceit4 ,by means of these precautions and others like them1 ,i expect to guard him so completely against strange sights and vulgar precepts that ,i would rather see him in the worst company in ,paris than alone in his room or in a park left to all the restlessness of his age4 ,whatever we may do1 a young man's worst enemy is himself1 and this is an enemy we cannot avoid4 ,yet this is an enemy of our own making1 for1 as ,i have said again and again1 it is the imagination which stirs the senses4 ,desire is not a physical need2 it is not true that it is a need at all4 ,if no lascivious object had met our eye1 if no unclean thought had entered our mind1 this so-called need might never have made itself felt1 and we should have remained chaste1 without temptation1 effort1 or merit4 ,we do not know how the blood of youth is stirred by certain situations and certain sights1 while the youth himself does not understand the cause of his uneasiness-an uneasiness difficult to subdue and certain to recur4 ,for my own part1 the more ,i consider this serious crisis and its causes1 immediate and remote1 the more convinced ,i am that a solitary brought up in some desert1 apart from books1 teaching1 and women1 would die a virgin1 however long he lived4 ,but we are not concerned with a savage of this sort4 ,when we educate a man among his fellow-men and for social life1 we cannot1 and indeed we ought not to1 bring him up in this wholesome ignorance1 and half knowledge is worse than none4 ,the memory of things we have observed1 the ideas we have acquired1 follow us into retirement and people it1 against our will1 with images more seductive than the things themselves1 and these make solitude as fatal to those who bring such ideas with them as it is wholesome for those who have never left it4 ,therefore1 watch carefully over the young man2 he can protect himself from all other foes1 but it is for you to protect him against himself4 ,never leave him night or day1 or at least share his room2 never let him go to bed till he is sleepy1 and let him rise as soon as he wakes4 ,distrust instinct as soon as you cease to rely altogether upon it4 ,instinct was good while he acted under its guidance only2 now that he is in the midst of human institutions1 instinct is not to be trusted2 it must not be destroyed1 it must be controlled1 which is perhaps a more difficult matter4 ,it would be a dangerous matter if instinct taught your pupil to abuse his senses2 if once he acquires this dangerous habit he is ruined4 ,from that time forward1 body and soul will be enervated2 he will carry to the grave the sad effects of this habit1 the most fatal habit which a young man can acquire4 ,if you cannot attain to the mastery of your passions1 dear ,emile1 ,i pity you2 but ,i shall not hesitate for a moment1 ,i will not permit the purposes of nature to be evaded4 ,if you must be a slave1 ,i prefer to surrender you to a tyrant from whom ,i may deliver you2 whatever happens1 ,i can free you more easily from the slavery of women than from yourself4 ,up to the age of twenty1 the body is still growing and requires all its strength2 till that age continence is the law of nature1 and this law is rarely violated without injury to the constitution4 ,after twenty1 continence is a moral duty2 it is an important duty1 for it teaches us to control ourselves1 to be masters of our own appetites4 ,but moral duties have their modifications1 their exceptions1 their rules4 ,when human weakness makes an alternative inevitable1 of two evils choose the least2 in any case it is better to commit a misdeed than to contract a vicious habit4 ,remember1 ,i am not talking of my pupil now1 but of yours4 ,his passions1 to which you have given way1 are your master2 yield to them openly and without concealing his victory4 ,if you are able to show him it in its true light1 he will be ashamed rather than proud of it1 and you will secure the right to guide him in his wanderings1 at least so as to avoid precipices4 ,the disciple must do nothing1 not even evil1 without the knowledge and consent of his master2 it is a hundredfold better that the tutor should approve of a misdeed than that he should deceive himself or be deceived by his pupil1 and the wrong should be done without his knowledge4 ,he who thinks he must shut his eyes to one thing1 must soon shut them altogether2 the first abuse which is permitted leads to others1 and this chain of consequences only ends in the complete overthrow of all order and contempt for every law4 ,there is another mistake which ,i have already dealt with1 a mistake continually made by narrow-minded persons2 they constantly affect the dignity of a master1 and wish to be regarded by their disciples as perfect4 ,this method is just the contrary of what should be done4 ,how is it that they fail to perceive that when they try to strengthen their authority they are really destroying it2 that to gain a hearing one must put oneself in the place of our hearers1 and that to speak to the human heart1 one must be a man4 ,all these perfect people neither touch nor persuade2 people always say1 ,it is easy for them to fight against passions they do not feel4 ,show your pupil your own weaknesses if you want to cure his2 let him see in you struggles like his own2 let him learn by your example to master himself and let him not say like other young men1 ,these old people1 who are vexed because they are no longer young1 want to treat all young people as if they were old2 and they make a crime of our passions because their own passions are dead4 ,montaigne tells us that he once asked ,seigneur de ,langey how often1 in his negotiations with ,germany1 he had got drunk in his king's service4 ,i would willingly ask the tutor of a certain young man how often he has entered a house of ill-fame for his pupil's sake4 ,how often8 ,i am wrong4 ,if the first time has not cured the young libertine of all desire to go there again1 if he does not return penitent and ashamed1 if he does not shed torrents of tears upon your bosom1 leave him on the spot2 either he is a monster or you are a fool2 you will never do him any good4 ,but let us have done with these last expedients1 which are as distressing as they are dangerous2 our kind of education has no need of them4 ,what precautions we must take with a young man of good birth before exposing him to the scandalous manners of our age6 ,these precautions are painful but necessary2 negligence in this matter is the ruin of all our young men2 degeneracy is the result of youthful excesses1 and it is these excesses which make men what they are4 ,old and base in their vices1 their hearts are shrivelled1 because their worn-out bodies were corrupted at an early age2 they have scarcely strength to stir4 ,the subtlety of their thoughts betrays a mind lacking in substance2 they are incapable of any great or noble feeling1 they have neither simplicity nor vigour2 altogether abject and meanly wicked1 they are merely frivolous1 deceitful1 and false2 they have not even courage enough to be distinguished criminals4 ,such are the despicable men produced by early debauchery2 if there were but one among them who knew how to be sober and temperate1 to guard his heart1 his body1 his morals from the contagion of bad example1 at the age of thirty he would crush all these insects1 and would become their master with far less trouble than it cost him to become master of himself4 ,however little ,emile owes to birth and fortune1 he might be this man if he chose2 but he despises such people too much to condescend to make them his slaves4 ,let us now watch him in their midst1 as he enters into society1 not to claim the first place1 but to acquaint himself with it and to seek a helpmeet worthy of himself4 ,whatever his rank or birth1 whatever the society into which he is introduced1 his entrance into that society will be simple and unaffected2 ,god grant he may not be unlucky enough to shine in society2 the qualities which make a good impression at the first glance are not his1 he neither possesses them1 nor desires to possess them4 ,he cares too little for the opinions of other people to value their prejudices1 and he is indifferent whether people esteem him or not until they know him4 ,his address is neither shy nor conceited1 but natural and sincere1 he knows nothing of constraint or concealment1 and he is just the same among a group of people as he is when he is alone4 ,will this make him rude1 scornful1 and careless of others8 ,on the contrary2 if he were not heedless of others when he lived alone1 why should he be heedless of them now that he is living among them8 ,he does not prefer them to himself in his manners1 because he does not prefer them to himself in his heart1 but neither does he show them an indifference which he is far from feeling2 if he is unacquainted with the forms of politeness1 he is not unacquainted with the attentions dictated by humanity4 ,he cannot bear to see any one suffer2 he will not give up his place to another from mere external politeness1 but he will willingly yield it to him out of kindness if he sees that he is being neglected and that this neglect hurts him2 for it will be less disagreeable to ,emile to remain standing of his own accord than to see another compelled to stand4 ,although ,emile has no very high opinion of people in general1 he does not show any scorn of them1 because he pities them and is sorry for them4 ,as he cannot give them a taste for what is truly good1 he leaves them the imaginary good with which they are satisfied1 lest by robbing them of this he should leave them worse off than before4 ,so he neither argues nor contradicts2 neither does he flatter nor agree2 he states his opinion without arguing with others1 because he loves liberty above all things1 and freedom is one of the fairest gifts of liberty4 ,he says little1 for he is not anxious to attract attention2 for the same reason he only says what is to the point2 who could induce him to speak otherwise8 ,emile is too well informed to be a chatter-box4 ,a great flow of words comes either from a pretentious spirit1 of which ,i shall speak presently1 or from the value laid upon trifles which we foolishly think to be as important in the eyes of others as in our own4 ,he who knows enough of things to value them at their true worth never says too much2 for he can also judge of the attention bestowed on him and the interest aroused by what he says4 ,people who know little are usually great talkers1 while men who know much say little4 ,it is plain that an ignorant person thinks everything he does know important1 and he tells it to everybody4 ,but a well-educated man is not so ready to display his learning2 he would have too much to say1 and he sees that there is much more to be said1 so he holds his peace4 ,far from disregarding the ways of other people1 ,emile conforms to them readily enough2 not that he may appear to know all about them1 nor yet to affect the airs of a man of fashion1 but on the contrary for fear lest he should attract attention1 and in order to pass unnoticed2 he is most at his ease when no one pays any attention to him4 ,although when he makes his entrance into society he knows nothing of its customs1 this does not make him shy or timid2 if he keeps in the background1 it is not because he is embarrassed1 but because1 if you want to see1 you must not be seen2 for he scarcely troubles himself at all about what people think of him1 and he is not the least afraid of ridicule4 ,hence he is always quiet and self-possessed and is not troubled with shyness4 ,all he has to do is done as well as he knows how to do it1 whether people are looking at him or not2 and as he is always on the alert to observe other people1 he acquires their ways with an ease impossible to the slaves of other people's opinions4 ,we might say that he acquires the ways of society just because he cares so little about them4 ,but do not make any mistake as to his bearing2 it is not to be compared with that of your young dandies4 ,it is self-possessed1 not conceited2 his manners are easy1 not haughty2 an insolent look is the mark of a slave1 there is nothing affected in independence4 ,i never saw a man of lofty soul who showed it in his bearing2 this affectation is more suited to vile and frivolous souls1 who have no other means of asserting themselves4 ,i read somewhere that a foreigner appeared one day in the presence of the famous ,marcel1 who asked him what country he came from4 ,i am an ,englishman1 replied the stranger4 ,you are an ,englishman6 replied the dancer1 ,you come from that island where the citizens have a share in the government1 and form part of the sovereign power8 ,footnote3 ,as if there were citizens who were not part of the city and had not1 as such1 a share in sovereign power6 ,but the ,french1 who have thought fit to usurp the honourable name of citizen which was formerly the right of the members of the ,gallic cities1 have degraded the idea till it has no longer any sort of meaning4 ,a man who recently wrote a number of silly criticisms on the ,nouvelle ,heloise added to his signature the title ,citizen of ,paimboeuf1 and he thought it a capital joke4 ,no1 sir1 that modest bearing1 that timid glance1 that hesitating manner1 proclaim only a slave adorned with the title of an elector4 ,i cannot say whether this saying shows much knowledge of the true relation between a man's character and his appearance4 ,i have not the honour of being a dancing master1 and ,i should have thought just the opposite4 ,i should have said1 ,this ,englishman is no courtier2 ,i never heard that courtiers have a timid bearing and a hesitating manner4 ,a man whose appearance is timid in the presence of a dancer might not be timid in the ,house of ,commons4 ,surely this ,m4 ,marcel must take his fellow-countrymen for so many ,romans4 ,he who loves desires to be loved1 ,emile loves his fellows and desires to please them4 ,even more does he wish to please the women2 his age1 his character1 the object he has in view1 all increase this desire4 ,i say his character1 for this has a great effect2 men of good character are those who really adore women4 ,they have not the mocking jargon of gallantry like the rest1 but their eagerness is more genuinely tender1 because it comes from the heart4 ,in the presence of a young woman1 ,i could pick out a young man of character and self-control from among a hundred thousand libertines4 ,consider what ,emile must be1 with all the eagerness of early youth and so many reasons for resistance6 ,for in the presence of women ,i think he will sometimes be shy and timid2 but this shyness will certainly not be displeasing1 and the least foolish of them will only too often find a way to enjoy it and augment it4 ,moreover1 his eagerness will take a different shape according to those he has to do with4 ,he will be more modest and respectful to married women1 more eager and tender towards young girls4 ,he never loses sight of his purpose1 and it is always those who most recall it to him who receive the greater share of his attentions4 ,no one could be more attentive to every consideration based upon the laws of nature1 and even on the laws of good society2 but the former are always preferred before the latter1 and ,emile will show more respect to an elderly person in private life than to a young magistrate of his own age4 ,as he is generally one of the youngest in the company1 he will always be one of the most modest1 not from the vanity which apes humility1 but from a natural feeling founded upon reason4 ,he will not have the effrontery of the young fop1 who speaks louder than the wise and interrupts the old in order to amuse the company4 ,he will never give any cause for the reply given to ,louis ,,xv by an old gentleman who was asked whether he preferred this century or the last3 ,sire1 ,i spent my youth in reverence towards the old2 ,i find myself compelled to spend my old age in reverence towards the young4 ,his heart is tender and sensitive1 but he cares nothing for the weight of popular opinion1 though he loves to give pleasure to others2 so he will care little to be thought a person of importance4 ,hence he will be affectionate rather than polite1 he will never be pompous or affected1 and he will be always more touched by a caress than by much praise4 ,for the same reasons he will never be careless of his manners or his clothes2 perhaps he will be rather particular about his dress1 not that he may show himself a man of taste1 but to make his appearance more pleasing2 he will never require a gilt frame1 and he will never spoil his style by a display of wealth4 ,all this demands1 as you see1 no stock of precepts from me2 it is all the result of his early education4 ,people make a great mystery of the ways of society1 as if1 at the age when these ways are acquired1 we did not take to them quite naturally1 and as if the first laws of politeness were not to be found in a kindly heart4 ,true politeness consists in showing our goodwill towards men2 it shows its presence without any difficulty2 those only who lack this goodwill are compelled to reduce the outward signs of it to an art4 ,the worst effect of artificial politeness is that it teaches us how to dispense with the virtues it imitates4 ,if our education teaches us kindness and humanity1 we shall be polite1 or we shall have no need of politeness4 ,if we have not those qualities which display themselves gracefully we shall have those which proclaim the honest man and the citizen2 we shall have no need for falsehood4 ,instead of seeking to please by artificiality1 it will suffice that we are kindly2 instead of flattering the weaknesses of others by falsehood1 it will suffice to tolerate them4 ,those with whom we have to do will neither be puffed up nor corrupted by such intercourse2 they will only be grateful and will be informed by it4 ,footnote3 ,considerations sur les moeurs de ce siecle1 par ,m4 ,duclos4 ,it seems to me that if any education is calculated to produce the sort of politeness required by ,m4 ,duclos in this passage1 it is the education ,i have already described4 ,yet ,i admit that with such different teaching ,emile will not be just like everybody else1 and heaven preserve him from such a fate6 ,but where he is unlike other people1 he will neither cause annoyance nor will he be absurd2 the difference will be perceptible but not unpleasant4 ,emile will be1 if you like1 an agreeable foreigner4 ,at first his peculiarities will be excused with the phrase1 ,he will learn4 ,after a time people will get used to his ways1 and seeing that he does not change they will still make excuses for him and say1 ,he is made that way4 ,he will not be feted as a charming man1 but every one will like him without knowing why2 no one will praise his intellect1 but every one will be ready to make him the judge between men of intellect2 his own intelligence will be clear and limited1 his mind will be accurate1 and his judgment sane4 ,as he never runs after new ideas1 he cannot pride himself on his wit4 ,i have convinced him that all wholesome ideas1 ideas which are really useful to mankind1 were among the earliest known1 that in all times they have formed the true bonds of society1 and that there is nothing left for ambitious minds but to seek distinction for themselves by means of ideas which are injurious and fatal to mankind4 ,this way of winning admiration scarcely appeals to him2 he knows how he ought to seek his own happiness in life1 and how he can contribute to the happiness of others4 ,the sphere of his knowledge is restricted to what is profitable4 ,his path is narrow and clearly defined2 as he has no temptation to leave it1 he is lost in the crowd2 he will neither distinguish himself nor will he lose his way4 ,emile is a man of common sense and he has no desire to be anything more2 you may try in vain to insult him by applying this phrase to him2 he will always consider it a title of honour4 ,although from his wish to please he is no longer wholly indifferent to the opinion of others1 he only considers that opinion so far as he himself is directly concerned1 without troubling himself about arbitrary values1 which are subject to no law but that of fashion or conventionality4 ,he will have pride enough to wish to do well in everything that he undertakes1 and even to wish to do it better than others2 he will want to be the swiftest runner1 the strongest wrestler1 the cleverest workman1 the readiest in games of skill2 but he will not seek advantages which are not in themselves clear gain1 but need to be supported by the opinion of others1 such as to be thought wittier than another1 a better speaker1 more learned1 etc42 still less will he trouble himself with those which have nothing to do with the man himself1 such as higher birth1 a greater reputation for wealth1 credit1 or public estimation1 or the impression created by a showy exterior4 ,as he loves his fellows because they are like himself1 he will prefer him who is most like himself1 because he will feel that he is good2 and as he will judge of this resemblance by similarity of taste in morals1 in all that belongs to a good character1 he will be delighted to win approval4 ,he will not say to himself in so many words1 ,i am delighted to gain approval1 but ,i am delighted because they say ,i have done right2 ,i am delighted because the men who honour me are worthy of honour2 while they judge so wisely1 it is a fine thing to win their respect4 ,as he studies men in their conduct in society1 just as he formerly studied them through their passions in history1 he will often have occasion to consider what it is that pleases or offends the human heart4 ,he is now busy with the philosophy of the principles of taste1 and this is the most suitable subject for his present study4 ,the further we seek our definitions of taste1 the further we go astray2 taste is merely the power of judging what is pleasing or displeasing to most people4 ,go beyond this1 and you cannot say what taste is4 ,it does not follow that the men of taste are in the majority2 for though the majority judges wisely with regard to each individual thing1 there are few men who follow the judgment of the majority in everything2 and though the most general agreement in taste constitutes good taste1 there are few men of good taste just as there are few beautiful people1 although beauty consists in the sum of the most usual features4 ,it must be observed that we are not here concerned with what we like because it is serviceable1 or hate because it is harmful to us4 ,taste deals only with things that are indifferent to us1 or which affect at most our amusements1 not those which relate to our needs2 taste is not required to judge of these1 appetite only is sufficient4 ,it is this which makes mere decisions of taste so difficult and as it seems so arbitrary2 for beyond the instinct they follow there appears to be no reason whatever for them4 ,we must also make a distinction between the laws of good taste in morals and its laws in physical matters4 ,in the latter the laws of taste appear to be absolutely inexplicable4 ,but it must be observed that there is a moral element in everything which involves imitation4,footnote3 ,this is demonstrated in an ,essay on the ,origin of ,languages which will be found in my collected works4 ,this is the explanation of beauties which seem to be physical1 but are not so in reality4 ,i may add that taste has local rules which make it dependent in many respects on the country we are in1 its manners1 government1 institutions2 it has other rules which depend upon age1 sex1 and character1 and it is in this sense that we must not dispute over matters of taste4 ,taste is natural to men2 but all do not possess it in the same degree1 it is not developed to the same extent in every one2 and in every one it is liable to be modified by a variety of causes4 ,such taste as we may possess depends on our native sensibility2 its cultivation and its form depend upon the society in which we have lived4 ,in the first place we must live in societies of many different kinds1 so as to compare much4 ,in the next place1 there must be societies for amusement and idleness1 for in business relations1 interest1 not pleasure1 is our rule4 ,lastly1 there must be societies in which people are fairly equal1 where the tyranny of public opinion may be moderate1 where pleasure rather than vanity is queen2 where this is not so1 fashion stifles taste1 and we seek what gives distinction rather than delight4 ,in the latter case it is no longer true that good taste is the taste of the majority4 ,why is this8 ,because the purpose is different4 ,then the crowd has no longer any opinion of its own1 it only follows the judgment of those who are supposed to know more about it2 its approval is bestowed not on what is good1 but on what they have already approved4 ,at any time let every man have his own opinion1 and what is most pleasing in itself will always secure most votes4 ,every beauty that is to be found in the works of man is imitated4 ,all the true models of taste are to be found in nature4 ,the further we get from the master1 the worse are our pictures4 ,then it is that we find our models in what we ourselves like1 and the beauty of fancy1 subject to caprice and to authority1 is nothing but what is pleasing to our leaders4 ,those leaders are the artists1 the wealthy1 and the great1 and they themselves follow the lead of self-interest or pride4 ,some to display their wealth1 others to profit by it1 they seek eagerly for new ways of spending it4 ,this is how luxury acquires its power and makes us love what is rare and costly2 this so-called beauty consists1 not in following nature1 but in disobeying her4 ,hence luxury and bad taste are inseparable4 ,wherever taste is lavish1 it is bad4 ,taste1 good or bad1 takes its shape especially in the intercourse between the two sexes2 the cultivation of taste is a necessary consequence of this form of society4 ,but when enjoyment is easily obtained1 and the desire to please becomes lukewarm1 taste must degenerate2 and this is1 in my opinion1 one of the best reasons why good taste implies good morals4 ,consult the women's opinions in bodily matters1 in all that concerns the senses2 consult the men in matters of morality and all that concerns the understanding4 ,when women are what they ought to be1 they will keep to what they can understand1 and their judgment will be right2 but since they have set themselves up as judges of literature1 since they have begun to criticise books and to make them with might and main1 they are altogether astray4 ,authors who take the advice of blue-stockings will always be ill-advised2 gallants who consult them about their clothes will always be absurdly dressed4 ,i shall presently have an opportunity of speaking of the real talents of the female sex1 the way to cultivate these talents1 and the matters in regard to which their decisions should receive attention4 ,these are the elementary considerations which ,i shall lay down as principles when ,i discuss with ,emile this matter which is by no means indifferent to him in his present inquiries4 ,and to whom should it be a matter of indifference8 ,to know what people may find pleasant or unpleasant is not only necessary to any one who requires their help1 it is still more necessary to any one who would help them2 you must please them if you would do them service2 and the art of writing is no idle pursuit if it is used to make men hear the truth4 ,if in order to cultivate my pupil's taste1 ,i were compelled to choose between a country where this form of culture has not yet arisen and those in which it has already degenerated1 ,i would progress backwards2 ,i would begin his survey with the latter and end with the former4 ,my reason for this choice is1 that taste becomes corrupted through excessive delicacy1 which makes it sensitive to things which most men do not perceive2 this delicacy leads to a spirit of discussion1 for the more subtle is our discrimination of things the more things there are for us4 ,this subtlety increases the delicacy and decreases the uniformity of our touch4 ,so there are as many tastes as there are people4 ,in disputes as to our preferences1 philosophy and knowledge are enlarged1 and thus we learn to think4 ,it is only men accustomed to plenty of society who are capable of very delicate observations1 for these observations do not occur to us till the last1 and people who are unused to all sorts of society exhaust their attention in the consideration of the more conspicuous features4 ,there is perhaps no civilised place upon earth where the common taste is so bad as in ,paris4 ,yet it is in this capital that good taste is cultivated1 and it seems that few books make any impression in ,europe whose authors have not studied in ,paris4 ,those who think it is enough to read our books are mistaken2 there is more to be learnt from the conversation of authors than from their books2 and it is not from the authors that we learn most4 ,it is the spirit of social life which develops a thinking mind1 and carries the eye as far as it can reach4 ,if you have a spark of genius1 go and spend a year in ,paris2 you will soon be all that you are capable of becoming1 or you will never be good for anything at all4 ,one may learn to think in places where bad taste rules supreme2 but we must not think like those whose taste is bad1 and it is very difficult to avoid this if we spend much time among them4 ,we must use their efforts to perfect the machinery of judgment1 but we must be careful not to make the same use of it4 ,i shall take care not to polish ,emile's judgment so far as to transform it1 and when he has acquired discernment enough to feel and compare the varied tastes of men1 ,i shall lead him to fix his own taste upon simpler matters4 ,i will go still further in order to keep his taste pure and wholesome4 ,in the tumult of dissipation ,i shall find opportunities for useful conversation with him2 and while these conversations are always about things in which he takes a delight1 ,i shall take care to make them as amusing as they are instructive4 ,now is the time to read pleasant books2 now is the time to teach him to analyse speech and to appreciate all the beauties of eloquence and diction4 ,it is a small matter to learn languages1 they are less useful than people think2 but the study of languages leads us on to that of grammar in general4 ,we must learn ,latin if we would have a thorough knowledge of ,french2 these two languages must be studied and compared if we would understand the rules of the art of speaking4 ,there is1 moreover1 a certain simplicity of taste which goes straight to the heart2 and this is only to be found in the classics4 ,in oratory1 poetry1 and every kind of literature1 ,emile will find the classical authors as he found them in history1 full of matter and sober in their judgment4 ,the authors of our own time1 on the contrary1 say little and talk much4 ,to take their judgment as our constant law is not the way to form our own judgment4 ,these differences of taste make themselves felt in all that is left of classical times and even on their tombs4 ,our monuments are covered with praises1 theirs recorded facts4 ,sta1 viator2 heroem calcas4 ,if ,i had found this epitaph on an ancient monument1 ,i should at once have guessed it was modern2 for there is nothing so common among us as heroes1 but among the ancients they were rare4 ,instead of saying a man was a hero1 they would have said what he had done to gain that name4 ,with the epitaph of this hero compare that of the effeminate ,sardanapalus-- ,tarsus and ,anchiales ,i built in a day1 and now ,i am dead4 ,which do you think says most8 ,our inflated monumental style is only fit to trumpet forth the praises of pygmies4 ,the ancients showed men as they were1 and it was plain that they were men indeed4 ,xenophon did honour to the memory of some warriors who were slain by treason during the retreat of the ,ten ,thousand4 ,they died1 said he1 without stain in war and in love4 ,that is all1 but think how full was the heart of the author of this short and simple elegy4 ,woe to him who fails to perceive its charm4 ,the following words were engraved on a tomb at ,thermopylae-- ,go1 ,traveller1 tell ,sparta that here we fell in obedience to her laws4 ,it is pretty clear that this was not the work of the ,academy of ,inscriptions4 ,if ,i am not mistaken1 the attention of my pupil1 who sets so small value upon words1 will be directed in the first place to these differences1 and they will affect his choice in his reading4 ,he will be carried away by the manly eloquence of ,demosthenes1 and will say1 ,this is an orator2 but when he reads ,cicero1 he will say1 ,this is a lawyer4 ,speaking generally ,emile will have more taste for the books of the ancients than for our own1 just because they were the first1 and therefore the ancients are nearer to nature and their genius is more distinct4 ,whatever ,la ,motte and the ,abbe ,terrasson may say1 there is no real advance in human reason1 for what we gain in one direction we lose in another2 for all minds start from the same point1 and as the time spent in learning what others have thought is so much time lost in learning to think for ourselves1 we have more acquired knowledge and less vigour of mind4 ,our minds like our arms are accustomed to use tools for everything1 and to do nothing for themselves4 ,fontenelle used to say that all these disputes as to the ancients and the moderns came to this--,were the trees in former times taller than they are now4 ,if agriculture had changed1 it would be worth our while to ask this question4 ,after ,i have led ,emile to the sources of pure literature1 ,i will also show him the channels into the reservoirs of modern compilers2 journals1 translations1 dictionaries1 he shall cast a glance at them all1 and then leave them for ever4 ,to amuse him he shall hear the chatter of the academies2 ,i will draw his attention to the fast that every member of them is worth more by himself than he is as a member of the society2 he will then draw his own conclusions as to the utility of these fine institutions4 ,i take him to the theatre to study taste1 not morals2 for in the theatre above all taste is revealed to those who can think4 ,lay aside precepts and morality1 ,i should say2 this is not the place to study them4 ,the stage is not made for truth2 its object is to flatter and amuse3 there is no place where one can learn so completely the art of pleasing and of interesting the human heart4 ,the study of plays leads to the study of poetry2 both have the same end in view4 ,if he has the least glimmering of taste for poetry1 how eagerly will he study the languages of the poets1 ,greek1 ,latin1 and ,italian6 ,these studies will afford him unlimited amusement and will be none the less valuable2 they will be a delight to him at an age and in circumstances when the heart finds so great a charm in every kind of beauty which affects it4 ,picture to yourself on the one hand ,emile1 on the other some young rascal from college1 reading the fourth book of the ,aeneid1 or ,tibollus1 or the ,banquet of ,plato3 what a difference between them6 ,what stirs the heart of ,emile to its depths1 makes not the least impression on the other6 ,oh1 good youth1 stay1 make a pause in your reading1 you are too deeply moved2 ,i would have you find pleasure in the language of love1 but ,i would not have you carried away by it2 be a wise man1 but be a good man too4 ,if you are only one of these1 you are nothing4 ,after this let him win fame or not in dead languages1 in literature1 in poetry1 ,i care little4 ,he will be none the worse if he knows nothing of them1 and his education is not concerned with these mere words4 ,my main object in teaching him to feel and love beauty of every kind is to fix his affections and his taste on these1 to prevent the corruption of his natural appetites1 lest he should have to seek some day in the midst of his wealth for the means of happiness which should be found close at hand4 ,i have said elsewhere that taste is only the art of being a connoisseur in matters of little importance1 and this is quite true2 but since the charm of life depends on a tissue of these matters of little importance1 such efforts are no small thing2 through their means we learn how to fill our life with the good things within our reach1 with as much truth as they may hold for us4 ,i do not refer to the morally good which depends on a good disposition of the heart1 but only to that which depends on the body1 on real delight1 apart from the prejudices of public opinion4 ,the better to unfold my idea1 allow me for a moment to leave ,emile1 whose pure and wholesome heart cannot be taken as a rule for others1 and to seek in my own memory for an illustration better suited to the reader and more in accordance with his own manners4 ,there are professions which seem to change a man's nature1 to recast1 either for better or worse1 the men who adopt them4 ,a coward becomes a brave man in the regiment of ,navarre4 ,it is not only in the army that esprit de corps is acquired1 and its effects are not always for good4 ,i have thought again and again with terror that if ,i had the misfortune to fill a certain post ,i am thinking of in a certain country1 before to-morrow ,i should certainly be a tyrant1 an extortioner1 a destroyer of the people1 harmful to my king1 and a professed enemy of mankind1 a foe to justice and every kind of virtue4 ,in the same way1 if ,i were rich1 ,i should have done all that is required to gain riches2 ,i should therefore be insolent and degraded1 sensitive and feeling only on my own behalf1 harsh and pitiless to all besides1 a scornful spectator of the sufferings of the lower classes2 for that is what ,i should call the poor1 to make people forget that ,i was once poor myself4 ,lastly ,i should make my fortune a means to my own pleasures with which ,i should be wholly occupied2 and so far ,i should be just like other people4 ,but in one respect ,i should be very unlike them2 ,i should be sensual and voluptuous rather than proud and vain1 and ,i should give myself up to the luxury of comfort rather than to that of ostentation4 ,i should even be somewhat ashamed to make too great a show of my wealth1 and if ,i overwhelmed the envious with my pomp ,i should always fancy ,i heard him saying1 ,here is a rascal who is greatly afraid lest we should take him for anything but what he is4 ,in the vast profusion of good things upon this earth ,i should seek what ,i like best1 and what ,i can best appropriate to myself4 ,to this end1 the first use ,i should make of my wealth would be to purchase leisure and freedom1 to which ,i would add health1 if it were to be purchased2 but health can only be bought by temperance1 and as there is no real pleasure without health1 ,i should be temperate from sensual motives4 ,i should also keep as close as possible to nature1 to gratify the senses given me by nature1 being quite convinced that1 the greater her share in my pleasures1 the more real ,i shall find them4 ,in the choice of models for imitation ,i shall always choose nature as my pattern2 in my appetites ,i will give her the preference2 in my tastes she shall always be consulted2 in my food ,i will always choose what most owes its charm to her1 and what has passed through the fewest possible hands on its way to table4 ,i will be on my guard against fraudulent shams2 ,i will go out to meet pleasure4 ,no cook shall grow rich on my gross and foolish greediness2 he shall not poison me with fish which cost its weight in gold1 my table shall not be decked with fetid splendour or putrid flesh from far-off lands4 ,i will take any amount of trouble to gratify my sensibility1 since this trouble has a pleasure of its own1 a pleasure more than we expect4 ,if ,i wished to taste a food from the ends of the earth1 ,i would go1 like ,apicius1 in search of it1 rather than send for it2 for the daintiest dishes always lack a charm which cannot be brought along with them1 a flavour which no cook can give them--the air of the country where they are produced4 ,for the same reason ,i would not follow the example of those who are never well off where they are1 but are always setting the seasons at nought1 and confusing countries and their seasons2 those who seek winter in summer and summer in winter1 and go to ,italy to be cold and to the north to be warm1 do not consider that when they think they are escaping from the severity of the seasons1 they are going to meet that severity in places where people are not prepared for it4 ,i shall stay in one place1 or ,i shall adopt just the opposite course2 ,i should like to get all possible enjoyment out of one season to discover what is peculiar to any given country4 ,i would have a variety of pleasures1 and habits quite unlike one another1 but each according to nature2 ,i would spend the summer at ,naples and the winter in ,st4 ,petersburg2 sometimes ,i would breathe the soft zephyr lying in the cool grottoes of ,tarentum1 and again ,i would enjoy the illuminations of an ice palace1 breathless and wearied with the pleasures of the dance4 ,in the service of my table and the adornment of my dwelling ,i would imitate in the simplest ornaments the variety of the seasons1 and draw from each its charm without anticipating its successor4 ,there is no taste but only difficulty to be found in thus disturbing the order of nature2 to snatch from her unwilling gifts1 which she yields regretfully1 with her curse upon them2 gifts which have neither strength nor flavour1 which can neither nourish the body nor tickle the palate4 ,nothing is more insipid than forced fruits4 ,a wealthy man in ,paris1 with all his stoves and hot-houses1 only succeeds in getting all the year round poor fruit and poor vegetables for his table at a very high price4 ,if ,i had cherries in frost1 and golden melons in the depths of winter1 what pleasure should ,i find in them when my palate did not need moisture or refreshment4 ,would the heavy chestnut be very pleasant in the heat of the dog-days2 should ,i prefer to have it hot from the stove1 rather than the gooseberry1 the strawberry1 the refreshing fruits which the earth takes care to provide for me4 ,a mantelpiece covered in ,january with forced vegetation1 with pale and scentless flowers1 is not winter adorned1 but spring robbed of its beauty2 we deprive ourselves of the pleasure of seeking the first violet in the woods1 of noting the earliest buds1 and exclaiming in a rapture of delight1 ,mortals1 you are not forsaken1 nature is living still4 ,to be well served ,i would have few servants2 this has been said before1 but it is worth saying again4 ,a tradesman gets more real service from his one man than a duke from the ten gentlemen round about him4 ,it has often struck me when ,i am sitting at table with my glass beside me that ,i can drink whenever ,i please2 whereas1 if ,i were dining in state1 twenty men would have to call for ,wine before ,i could quench my thirst4 ,you may be sure that whatever is done for you by other people is ill done4 ,i would not send to the shops1 ,i would go myself2 ,i would go so that my servants should not make their own terms with the shopkeepers1 and to get a better choice and cheaper prices2 ,i would go for the sake of pleasant exercise and to get a glimpse of what was going on out of doors2 this is amusing and sometimes instructive2 lastly ,i would go for the sake of the walk2 there is always something in that4 ,a sedentary life is the source of tedium2 when we walk a good deal we are never dull4 ,a porter and footmen are poor interpreters1 ,i should never wish to have such people between the world and myself1 nor would ,i travel with all the fuss of a coach1 as if ,i were afraid people would speak to me4 ,shanks' mare is always ready2 if she is tired or ill1 her owner is the first to know it2 he need not be afraid of being kept at home while his coachman is on the spree2 on the road he will not have to submit to all sorts of delays1 nor will he be consumed with impatience1 nor compelled to stay in one place a moment longer than he chooses4 ,lastly1 since no one serves us so well as we serve ourselves1 had we the power of ,alexander and the wealth of ,croesus we should accept no services from others1 except those we cannot perform for ourselves4 ,i would not live in a palace2 for even in a palace ,i should only occupy one room2 every room which is common property belongs to nobody1 and the rooms of each of my servants would be as strange to me as my neighbour's4 ,the ,orientals1 although very voluptuous1 are lodged in plain and simply furnished dwellings4 ,they consider life as a journey1 and their house as an inn4 ,this reason scarcely appeals to us rich people who propose to live for ever2 but ,i should find another reason which would have the same effect4 ,it would seem to me that if ,i settled myself in one place in the midst of such splendour1 ,i should banish myself from every other place1 and imprison myself1 so to speak1 in my palace4 ,the world is a palace fair enough for any one2 and is not everything at the disposal of the rich man when he seeks enjoyment8 ,ubi bene1 ibi patria1 that is his motto2 his home is anywhere where money will carry him1 his country is anywhere where there is room for his strong-box1 as ,philip considered as his own any place where a mule laden with silver could enter4 ,footnote3 ,a stranger1 splendidly clad1 was asked in ,athens what country he belonged to4 ,i am one of the rich1 was his answer2 and a very good answer in my opinion4 ,why then should we shut ourselves up within walls and gates as if we never meant to leave them8 ,if pestilence1 war1 or rebellion drive me from one place1 ,i go to another1 and ,i find my hotel there before me4 ,why should ,i build a mansion for myself when the world is already at my disposal8 ,why should ,i be in such a hurry to live1 to bring from afar delights which ,i can find on the spot8 ,it is impossible to make a pleasant life for oneself when one is always at war with oneself4 ,thus ,empedocles reproached the men of ,agrigentum with heaping up pleasures as if they had but one day to live1 and building as if they would live for ever4 ,and what use have ,i for so large a dwelling1 as ,i have so few people to live in it1 and still fewer goods to fill it8 ,my furniture would be as simple as my tastes2 ,i would have neither picture-gallery nor library1 especially if ,i was fond of reading and knew something about pictures4 ,i should then know that such collections are never complete1 and that the lack of that which is wanting causes more annoyance than if one had nothing at all4 ,in this respect abundance is the cause of want1 as every collector knows to his cost4 ,if you are an expert1 do not make a collection2 if you know how to use your cabinets1 you will not have any to show4 ,gambling is no sport for the rich1 it is the resource of those who have nothing to do2 ,i shall be so busy with my pleasures that ,i shall have no time to waste4 ,i am poor and lonely and ,i never play1 unless it is a game of chess now and then1 and that is more than enough4 ,if ,i were rich ,i would play even less1 and for very low stakes1 so that ,i should not be disappointed myself1 nor see the disappointment of others4 ,the wealthy man has no motive for play1 and the love of play will not degenerate into the passion for gambling unless the disposition is evil4 ,the rich man is always more keenly aware of his losses than his gains1 and as in games where the stakes are not high the winnings are generally exhausted in the long run1 he will usually lose more than he gains1 so that if we reason rightly we shall scarcely take a great fancy to games where the odds are against us4 ,he who flatters his vanity so far as to believe that ,fortune favours him can seek her favour in more exciting ways2 and her favours are just as clearly shown when the stakes are low as when they are high4 ,the taste for play1 the result of greed and dullness1 only lays hold of empty hearts and heads2 and ,i think ,i should have enough feeling and knowledge to dispense with its help4 ,thinkers are seldom gamblers2 gambling interrupts the habit of thought and turns it towards barren combinations2 thus one good result1 perhaps the only good result of the taste for science1 is that it deadens to some extent this vulgar passion2 people will prefer to try to discover the uses of play rather than to devote themselves to it4 ,i should argue with the gamblers against gambling1 and ,i should find more delight in scoffing at their losses than in winning their money4 ,i should be the same in private life as in my social intercourse4 ,i should wish my fortune to bring comfort in its train1 and never to make people conscious of inequalities of wealth4 ,showy dress is inconvenient in many ways4 ,to preserve as much freedom as possible among other men1 ,i should like to be dressed in such a way that ,i should not seem out of place among all classes1 and should not attract attention in any2 so that without affectation or change ,i might mingle with the crowd at the inn or with the nobility at the ,palais ,royal4 ,in this way ,i should be more than ever my own master1 and should be free to enjoy the pleasures of all sorts and conditions of men4 ,there are women1 so they say1 whose doors are closed to embroidered cuffs1 women who will only receive guests who wear lace ruffles2 ,i should spend my days elsewhere2 though if these women were young and pretty ,i might sometimes put on lace ruffles to spend an evening or so in their company4 ,mutual affection1 similarity of tastes1 suitability of character2 these are the only bonds between my companions and myself2 among them ,i would be a man1 not a person of wealth2 the charm of their society should never be embittered by self-seeking4 ,if my wealth had not robbed me of all humanity1 ,i would scatter my benefits and my services broadcast1 but ,i should want companions about me1 not courtiers1 friends1 not proteges2 ,i should wish my friends to regard me as their host1 not their patron4 ,independence and equality would leave to my relations with my friends the sincerity of goodwill2 while duty and self-seeking would have no place among us1 and we should know no law but that of pleasure and friendship4 ,neither a friend nor a mistress can be bought4 ,women may be got for money1 but that road will never lead to love4 ,love is not only not for sale2 money strikes it dead4 ,if a man pays1 were he indeed the most lovable of men1 the mere fact of payment would prevent any lasting affection4 ,he will soon be paying for some one else1 or rather some one else will get his money2 and in this double connection based on self-seeking and debauchery1 without love1 honour1 or true pleasure1 the woman is grasping1 faithless1 and unhappy1 and she is treated by the wretch to whom she gives her money as she treats the fool who gives his money to her2 she has no love for either4 ,it would be sweet to lie generous towards one we love1 if that did not make a bargain of love4 ,i know only one way of gratifying this desire with the woman one loves without embittering love2 it is to bestow our all upon her and to live at her expense4 ,it remains to be seen whether there is any woman with regard to whom such conduct would not be unwise4 ,he who said1 ,lais is mine1 but ,i am not hers1 was talking nonsense4 ,possession which is not mutual is nothing at all2 at most it is the possession of the sex not of the individual4 ,but where there is no morality in love1 why make such ado about the rest8 ,nothing is so easy to find4 ,a muleteer is in this respect as near to happiness as a millionaire4 ,oh1 if we could thus trace out the unreasonableness of vice1 how often should we find that1 when it has attained its object1 it discovers it is not what it seemed6 ,why is there this cruel haste to corrupt innocence1 to make1 a victim of a young creature whom we ought to protect1 one who is dragged by this first false step into a gulf of misery from which only death can release her8 ,brutality1 vanity1 folly1 error1 and nothing more4 ,this pleasure itself is unnatural2 it rests on popular opinion1 and popular opinion at its worst1 since it depends on scorn of self4 ,he who knows he is the basest of men fears comparison with others1 and would be the first that he may be less hateful4 ,see if those who are most greedy in pursuit of such fancied pleasures are ever attractive young men--men worthy of pleasing1 men who might have some excuse if they were hard to please4 ,not so2 any one with good looks1 merit1 and feeling has little fear of his mistress' experience2 with well-placed confidence he says to her1 ,you know what pleasure is1 what is that to me8 my heart assures me that this is not so4 ,but an aged satyr1 worn out with debauchery1 with no charm1 no consideration1 no thought for any but himself1 with no shred of honour1 incapable and unworthy of finding favour in the eyes of any woman who knows anything of men deserving of love1 expects to make up for all this with an innocent girl by trading on her inexperience and stirring her emotions for the first time4 ,his last hope is to find favour as a novelty2 no doubt this is the secret motive of this desire2 but he is mistaken1 the horror he excites is just as natural as the desires he wishes to arouse4 ,he is also mistaken in his foolish attempt2 that very nature takes care to assert her rights2 every girl who sells herself is no longer a maid2 she has given herself to the man of her choice1 and she is making the very comparison he dreads4 ,the pleasure purchased is imaginary1 but none the less hateful4 ,for my own part1 however riches may change me1 there is one matter in which ,i shall never change4 ,if ,i have neither morals nor virtue1 ,i shall not be wholly without taste1 without sense1 without delicacy2 and this will prevent me from spending my fortune in the pursuit of empty dreams1 from wasting my money and my strength in teaching children to betray me and mock at me4 ,if ,i were young1 ,i would seek the pleasures of youth2 and as ,i would have them at their best ,i would not seek them in the guise of a rich man4 ,if ,i were at my present age1 it would be another matter2 ,i would wisely confine myself to the pleasures of my age2 ,i would form tastes which ,i could enjoy1 and ,i would stifle those which could only cause suffering4 ,i would not go and offer my grey beard to the scornful jests of young girls2 ,i could never bear to sicken them with my disgusting caresses1 to furnish them at my expense with the most absurd stories1 to imagine them describing the vile pleasures of the old ape1 so as to avenge themselves for what they had endured4 ,but if habits unresisted had changed my former desires into needs1 ,i would perhaps satisfy those needs1 but with shame and blushes4 ,i would distinguish between passion and necessity1 ,i would find a suitable mistress and would keep to her4 ,i would not make a business of my weakness1 and above all ,i would only have one person aware of it4 ,life has other pleasures when these fail us2 by hastening in vain after those that fly us1 we deprive ourselves of those that remain4 ,let our tastes change with our years1 let us no more meddle with age than with the seasons4 ,we should be ourselves at all times1 instead of struggling against nature2 such vain attempts exhaust our strength and prevent the right use of life4 ,the lower classes are seldom dull1 their life is full of activity2 if there is little variety in their amusements they do not recur frequently2 many days of labour teach them to enjoy their rare holidays4 ,short intervals of leisure between long periods of labour give a spice to the pleasures of their station4 ,the chief curse of the rich is dullness2 in the midst of costly amusements1 among so many men striving to give them pleasure1 they are devoured and slain by dullness2 their life is spent in fleeing from it and in being overtaken by it2 they are overwhelmed by the intolerable burden2 women more especially1 who do not know how to work or play1 are a prey to tedium under the name of the vapours2 with them it takes the shape of a dreadful disease1 which robs them of their reason and even of their life4 ,for my own part ,i know no more terrible fate than that of a pretty woman in ,paris1 unless it is that of the pretty manikin who devotes himself to her1 who becomes idle and effeminate like her1 and so deprives himself twice over of his manhood1 while he prides himself on his successes and for their sake endures the longest and dullest days which human being ever put up with4 ,proprieties1 fashions1 customs which depend on luxury and breeding1 confine the course of life within the limits of the most miserable uniformity4 ,the pleasure we desire to display to others is a pleasure lost2 we neither enjoy it ourselves1 nor do others enjoy it4 ,footnote3 ,two ladies of fashion1 who wished to seem to be enjoying themselves greatly1 decided never to go to bed before five o'clock in the morning4 ,in the depths of winter their servants spent the night in the street waiting for them1 and with great difficulty kept themselves from freezing4 ,one night1 or rather one morning1 some one entered the room where these merry people spent their hours without knowing how time passed4 ,he found them quite alone2 each of them was asleep in her arm-chair4 ,ridicule1 which public opinion dreads more than anything1 is ever at hand to tyrannise1 and punish4 ,it is only ceremony that makes us ridiculous2 if we can vary our place and our pleasures1 to-day's impressions can efface those of yesterday2 in the mind of men they are as if they had never been2 but we enjoy ourselves for we throw ourselves into every hour and everything4 ,my only set rule would be this3 wherever ,i was ,i would pay no heed to anything else4 ,i would take each day as it came1 as if there were neither yesterday nor to-morrow4 ,as ,i should be a man of the people1 with the populace1 ,i should be a countryman in the fields2 and if ,i spoke of farming1 the peasant should not laugh at my expense4 ,i would not go and build a town in the country nor erect the ,tuileries at the door of my lodgings4 ,on some pleasant shady hill-side ,i would have a little cottage1 a white house with green shutters1 and though a thatched roof is the best all the year round1 ,i would be grand enough to have1 not those gloomy slates1 but tiles1 because they look brighter and more cheerful than thatch1 and the houses in my own country are always roofed with them1 and so they would recall to me something of the happy days of my youth4 ,for my courtyard ,i would have a poultry-yard1 and for my stables a cowshed for the sake of the milk which ,i love4 ,my garden should be a kitchen-garden1 and my park an orchard1 like the one described further on4 ,the fruit would be free to those who walked in the orchard1 my gardener should neither count it nor gather it2 ,i would not1 with greedy show1 display before your eyes superb espaliers which one scarcely dare touch4 ,but this small extravagance would not be costly1 for ,i would choose my abode in some remote province where silver is scarce and food plentiful1 where plenty and poverty have their seat4 ,there ,i would gather round me a company1 select rather than numerous1 a band of friends who know what pleasure is1 and how to enjoy it1 women who can leave their arm-chairs and betake themselves to outdoor sports1 women who can exchange the shuttle or the cards for the fishing line or the bird-trap1 the gleaner's rake or grape-gatherer's basket4 ,there all the pretensions of the town will be forgotten1 and we shall be villagers in a village2 we shall find all sorts of different sports and we shall hardly know how to choose the morrow's occupation4 ,exercise and an active life will improve our digestion and modify our tastes4 ,every meal will be a feast1 where plenty will be more pleasing than any delicacies4 ,there are no such cooks in the world as mirth1 rural pursuits1 and merry games2 and the finest made dishes are quite ridiculous in the eyes of people who have been on foot since early dawn4 ,our meals will be served without regard to order or elegance2 we shall make our dining-room anywhere1 in the garden1 on a boat1 beneath a tree2 sometimes at a distance from the house on the banks of a running stream1 on the fresh green grass1 among the clumps of willow and hazel2 a long procession of guests will carry the material for the feast with laughter and singing2 the turf will be our chairs and table1 the banks of the stream our side-board1 and our dessert is hanging on the trees2 the dishes will be served in any order1 appetite needs no ceremony2 each one of us1 openly putting himself first1 would gladly see every one else do the same2 from this warm-hearted and temperate familiarity there would arise1 without coarseness1 pretence1 or constraint1 a laughing conflict a hundredfold more delightful than politeness1 and more likely to cement our friendship4 ,no tedious flunkeys to listen to our words1 to whisper criticisms on our behaviour1 to count every mouthful with greedy eyes1 to amuse themselves by keeping us waiting for our wine1 to complain of the length of our dinner4 ,we will be our own servants1 in order to be our own masters4 ,time will fly unheeded1 our meal will be an interval of rest during the heat of the day4 ,if some peasant comes our way1 returning from his work with his tools over his shoulder1 ,i will cheer his heart with kindly words1 and a glass or two of good wine1 which will help him to bear his poverty more cheerfully2 and ,i too shall have the joy of feeling my heart stirred within me1 and ,i should say to myself--,i too am a man4 ,if the inhabitants of the district assembled for some rustic feast1 ,i and my friends would be there among the first2 if there were marriages1 more blessed than those of towns1 celebrated near my home1 every one would know how ,i love to see people happy1 and ,i should be invited4 ,i would take these good folks some gift as simple as themselves1 a gift which would be my share of the feast2 and in exchange ,i should obtain gifts beyond price1 gifts so little known among my equals1 the gifts of freedom and true pleasure4 ,i should sup gaily at the head of their long table2 ,i should join in the chorus of some rustic song and ,i should dance in the barn more merrily than at a ball in the ,opera ,house4 ,this is all very well so far1 you will say1 but what about the shooting6 ,one must have some sport in the country4 ,just so2 ,i only wanted a farm1 but ,i was wrong4 ,i assume ,i am rich1 ,i must keep my pleasures to myself1 ,i must be free to kill something2 this is quite another matter4 ,i must have estates1 woods1 keepers1 rents1 seignorial rights1 particularly incense and holy water4 ,well and good4 ,but ,i shall have neighbours about my estate who are jealous of their rights and anxious to encroach on those of others2 our keepers will quarrel1 and possibly their masters will quarrel too2 this means altercations1 disputes1 ill-will1 or law-suits at the least2 this in itself is not very pleasant4 ,my tenants will not enjoy finding my hares at work upon their corn1 or my wild boars among their beans4 ,as they dare not kill the enemy1 every one of them will try to drive him from their fields2 when the day has been spent in cultivating the ground1 they will be compelled to sit up at night to watch it2 they will have watch-dogs1 drums1 horns1 and bells2 my sleep will be disturbed by their racket4 ,do what ,i will1 ,i cannot help thinking of the misery of these poor people1 and ,i cannot help blaming myself for it4 ,if ,i had the honour of being a prince1 this would make little impression on me2 but as ,i am a self-made man who has only just come into his property1 ,i am still rather vulgar at heart4 ,that is not all2 abundance of game attracts trespassers2 ,i shall soon have poachers to punish2 ,i shall require prisons1 gaolers1 guards1 and galleys2 all this strikes me as cruel4 ,the wives of those miserable creatures will besiege my door and disturb me with their crying2 they must either be driven away or roughly handled4 ,the poor people who are not poachers1 whose harvest has been destroyed by my game1 will come next with their complaints4 ,some people will be put to death for killing the game1 the rest will be punished for having spared it2 what a choice of evils6 ,on every side ,i shall find nothing but misery and hear nothing but groans4 ,so far as ,i can see this must greatly disturb the pleasure of slaying at one's ease heaps of partridges and hares which are tame enough to run about one's feet4 ,if you would have pleasure without pain let there be no monopoly2 the more you leave it free to everybody1 the purer will be your own enjoyment4 ,therefore ,i should not do what ,i have just described1 but without change of tastes ,i would follow those which seem likely to cause me least pain4 ,i would fix my rustic abode in a district where game is not preserved1 and where ,i can have my sport without hindrance4 ,game will be less plentiful1 but there will be more skill in finding it1 and more pleasure in securing it4 ,i remember the start of delight with which my father watched the rise of his first partridge and the rapture with which he found the hare he had sought all day long4 ,yes1 ,i declare1 that alone with his dog1 carrying his own gun1 cartridges1 and game bag together with his hare1 he came home at nightfall1 worn out with fatigue and torn to pieces by brambles1 but better pleased with his day's sport than all your ordinary sportsmen1 who on a good horse1 with twenty guns ready for them1 merely take one gun after another1 and shoot and kill everything that comes their way1 without skill1 without glory1 and almost without exercise4 ,the pleasure is none the less1 and the difficulties are removed2 there is no estate to be preserved1 no poacher to be punished1 and no wretches to be tormented2 here are solid grounds for preference4 ,whatever you do1 you cannot torment men for ever without experiencing some amount of discomfort2 and sooner or later the muttered curses of the people will spoil the flavour of your game4 ,again1 monopoly destroys pleasure4 ,real pleasures are those which we share with the crowd2 we lose what we try to keep to ourselves alone4 ,if the walls ,i build round my park transform it into a gloomy prison1 ,i have only deprived myself1 at great expense1 of the pleasure of a walk2 ,i must now seek that pleasure at a distance4 ,the demon of property spoils everything he lays hands upon4 ,a rich man wants to be master everywhere1 and he is never happy where he is2 he is continually driven to flee from himself4 ,i shall therefore continue to do in my prosperity what ,i did in my poverty4 ,henceforward1 richer in the wealth of others than ,i ever shall be in my own wealth1 ,i will take possession of everything in my neighbourhood that takes my fancy2 no conqueror is so determined as ,i2 ,i even usurp the rights of princes2 ,i take possession of every open place that pleases me1 ,i give them names2 this is my park1 chat is my terrace1 and ,i am their owner2 henceforward ,i wander among them at will2 ,i often return to maintain my proprietary rights2 ,i make what use ,i choose of the ground to walk upon1 and you will never convince me that the nominal owner of the property which ,i have appropriated gets better value out of the money it yields him than ,i do out of his land4 ,no matter if ,i am interrupted by hedges and ditches1 ,i take my park on my back1 and ,i carry it elsewhere2 there will be space enough for it near at hand1 and ,i may plunder my neighbours long enough before ,i outstay my welcome4 ,this is an attempt to show what is meant by good taste in the choice of pleasant occupations for our leisure hours2 this is the spirit of enjoyment2 all else is illusion1 fancy1 and foolish pride4 ,he who disobeys these rules1 however rich he may be1 will devour his gold on a dung-hill1 and will never know what it is to live4 ,you will say1 no doubt1 that such amusements lie within the reach of all1 that we need not be rich to enjoy them4 ,that is the very point ,i was coming to4 ,pleasure is ours when we want it2 it is only social prejudice which makes everything hard to obtain1 and drives pleasure before us4 ,to be happy is a hundredfold easier than it seems4 ,if he really desires to enjoy himself the man of taste has no need of riches2 all he wants is to be free and to be his own master4 ,with health and daily bread we are rich enough1 if we will but get rid of our prejudices2 this is the ,golden ,mean of ,horace4 ,you folks with your strong-boxes may find some other use for your wealth1 for it cannot buy you pleasure4 ,emile knows this as well as ,i1 but his heart is purer and more healthy1 so he will feel it more strongly1 and all that he has beheld in society will only serve to confirm him in this opinion4 ,while our time is thus employed1 we are ever on the look-out for ,sophy1 and we have not yet found her4 ,it was not desirable that she should be found too easily1 and ,i have taken care to look for her where ,i knew we should not find her4 ,the time is come2 we must now seek her in earnest1 lest ,emile should mistake some one else for ,sophy1 and only discover his error when it is too late4 ,then farewell ,paris1 far-famed ,paris1 with all your noise and smoke and dirt1 where the women have ceased to believe in honour and the men in virtue4 ,we are in search of love1 happiness1 innocence2 the further we go from ,paris the better4 ,,book ,v ,we have reached the last act of youth's drama2 we are approaching its closing scene4 ,it is not good that man should be alone4 ,emile is now a man1 and we must give him his promised helpmeet4 ,that helpmeet is ,sophy4 ,where is her dwelling-place1 where shall she be found8 ,we must know beforehand what she is1 and then we can decide where to look for her4 ,and when she is found1 our task is not ended4 ,since our young gentleman1 says ,locke1 is about to marry1 it is time to leave him with his mistress4 ,and with these words he ends his book4 ,as ,i have not the honour of educating ,a young gentleman1 ,i shall take care not to follow his example4 ,,sophy1 ,,or ,,woman ,sophy should be as truly a woman as ,emile is a man1 i4e41 she must possess all those characters of her sex which are required to enable her to play her part in the physical and moral order4 ,let us inquire to begin with in what respects her sex differs from our own4 ,but for her sex1 a woman is a man2 she has the same organs1 the same needs1 the same faculties4 ,the machine is the same in its construction2 its parts1 its working1 and its appearance are similar4 ,regard it as you will the difference is only in degree4 ,yet where sex is concerned man and woman are unlike2 each is the complement of the other2 the difficulty in comparing them lies in our inability to decide1 in either case1 what is a matter of sex1 and what is not4 ,general differences present themselves to the comparative anatomist and even to the superficial observer2 they seem not to be a matter of sex2 yet they are really sex differences1 though the connection eludes our observation4 ,how far such differences may extend we cannot tell2 all we know for certain is that where man and woman are alike we have to do with the characteristics of the species2 where they are unlike1 we have to do with the characteristics of sex4 ,considered from these two standpoints1 we find so many instances of likeness and unlikeness that it is perhaps one of the greatest of marvels how nature has contrived to make two beings so like and yet so different4 ,these resemblances and differences must have an influence on the moral nature2 this inference is obvious1 and it is confirmed by experience2 it shows the vanity of the disputes as to the superiority or the equality of the sexes2 as if each sex1 pursuing the path marked out for it by nature1 were not more perfect in that very divergence than if it more closely resembled the other4 ,a perfect man and a perfect woman should no more be alike in mind than in face1 and perfection admits of neither less nor more4 ,in the union of the sexes each alike contributes to the common end1 but in different ways4 ,from this diversity springs the first difference which may be observed between man and woman in their moral relations4 ,the man should be strong and active2 the woman should be weak and passive2 the one must have both the power and the will2 it is enough that the other should offer little resistance4 ,when this principle is admitted1 it follows that woman is specially made for man's delight4 ,if man in his turn ought to be pleasing in her eyes1 the necessity is less urgent1 his virtue is in his strength1 he pleases because he is strong4 ,i grant you this is not the law of love1 but it is the law of nature1 which is older than love itself4 ,if woman is made to please and to be in subjection to man1 she ought to make herself pleasing in his eyes and not provoke him to anger2 her strength is in her charms1 by their means she should compel him to discover and use his strength4 ,the surest way of arousing this strength is to make it necessary by resistance4 ,thus pride comes to the help of desire and each exults in the other's victory4 ,this is the origin of attack and defence1 of the boldness of one sex and the timidity of the other1 and even of the shame and modesty with which nature has armed the weak for the conquest of the strong4 ,who can possibly suppose that nature has prescribed the same advances to the one sex as to the other1 or that the first to feel desire should be the first to show it8 ,what strange depravity of judgment6 ,the consequences of the act being so different for the two sexes1 is it natural that they should enter upon it with equal boldness8 ,how can any one fail to see that when the share of each is so unequal1 if the one were not controlled by modesty as the other is controlled by nature1 the result would be the destruction of both1 and the human race would perish through the very means ordained for its continuance8 ,women so easily stir a man's senses and fan the ashes of a dying passion1 that if philosophy ever succeeded in introducing this custom into any unlucky country1 especially if it were a warm country where more women are born than men1 the men1 tyrannised over by the women1 would at last become their victims1 and would be dragged to their death without the least chance of escape4 ,female animals are without this sense of shame1 but what of that8 ,are their desires as boundless as those of women1 which are curbed by this shame8 ,the desires of the animals are the result of necessity1 and when the need is satisfied1 the desire ceases2 they no longer make a feint of repulsing the male1 they do it in earnest4 ,their seasons of complaisance are short and soon over4 ,impulse and restraint are alike the work of nature4 ,but what would take the place of this negative instinct in women if you rob them of their modesty8 ,the ,most ,high has deigned to do honour to mankind2 he has endowed man with boundless passions1 together with a law to guide them1 so that man may be alike free and self-controlled2 though swayed by these passions man is endowed with reason by which to control them4 ,woman is also endowed with boundless passions2 ,god has given her modesty to restrain them4 ,moreover1 he has given to both a present reward for the right use of their powers1 in the delight which springs from that right use of them1 i4e41 the taste for right conduct established as the law of our behaviour4 ,to my mind this is far higher than the instinct of the beasts4 ,whether the woman shares the man's passion or not1 whether she is willing or unwilling to satisfy it1 she always repulses him and defends herself1 though not always with the same vigour1 and therefore not always with the same success4 ,if the siege is to be successful1 the besieged must permit or direct the attack4 ,how skilfully can she stimulate the efforts of the aggressor4 ,the freest and most delightful of activities does not permit of any real violence2 reason and nature are alike against it2 nature1 in that she has given the weaker party strength enough to resist if she chooses2 reason1 in that actual violence is not only most brutal in itself1 but it defeats its own ends1 not only because the man thus declares war against his companion and thus gives her a right to defend her person and her liberty even at the cost of the enemy's life1 but also because the woman alone is the judge of her condition1 and a child would have no father if any man might usurp a father's rights4 ,thus the different constitution of the two sexes leads us to a third conclusion1 that the stronger party seems to be master1 but is as a matter of fact dependent on the weaker1 and that1 not by any foolish custom of gallantry1 nor yet by the magnanimity of the protector1 but by an inexorable law of nature4 ,for nature has endowed woman with a power of stimulating man's passions in excess of man's power of satisfying those passions1 and has thus made him dependent on her goodwill1 and compelled him in his turn to endeavour to please her1 so that she may be willing to yield to his superior strength4 ,is it weakness which yields to force1 or is it voluntary self-surrender8 ,this uncertainty constitutes the chief charm of the man's victory1 and the woman is usually cunning enough to leave him in doubt4 ,in this respect the woman's mind exactly resembles her body2 far from being ashamed of her weakness1 she is proud of it2 her soft muscles offer no resistance1 she professes that she cannot lift the lightest weight2 she would be ashamed to be strong4 ,and why8 ,not only to gain an appearance of refinement2 she is too clever for that2 she is providing herself beforehand with excuses1 with the right to be weak if she chooses4 ,the experience we have gained through our vices has considerably modified the views held in older times2 we rarely hear of violence for which there is so little occasion that it would hardly be credited4 ,yet such stories are common enough among the ,jews and ancient ,greeks2 for such views belong to the simplicity of nature1 and have only been uprooted by our profligacy4 ,if fewer deeds of violence are quoted in our days1 it is not that men are more temperate1 but because they are less credulous1 and a complaint which would have been believed among a simple people would only excite laughter among ourselves2 therefore silence is the better course4 ,there is a law in ,deuteronomy1 under which the outraged maiden was punished1 along with her assailant1 if the crime were committed in a town2 but if in the country or in a lonely place1 the latter alone was punished4 ,for1 says the law1 the maiden cried for help1 and there was none to hear4 ,from this merciful interpretation of the law1 girls learnt not to let themselves be surprised in lonely places4 ,this change in public opinion has had a perceptible effect on our morals4 ,it has produced our modern gallantry4 ,men have found that their pleasures depend1 more than they expected1 on the goodwill of the fair sex1 and have secured this goodwill by attentions which have had their reward4 ,see how we find ourselves led unconsciously from the physical to the moral constitution1 how from the grosser union of the sexes spring the sweet laws of love4 ,woman reigns1 not by the will of man1 but by the decrees of nature herself2 she had the power long before she showed it4 ,that same ,hercules who proposed to violate all the fifty daughters of ,thespis was compelled to spin at the feet of ,omphale1 and ,samson1 the strong man1 was less strong than ,delilah4 ,this power cannot be taken from woman2 it is hers by right2 she would have lost it long ago1 were it possible4 ,the consequences of sex are wholly unlike for man and woman4 ,the male is only a male now and again1 the female is always a female1 or at least all her youth2 everything reminds her of her sex2 the performance of her functions requires a special constitution4 ,she needs care during pregnancy and freedom from work when her child is born2 she must have a quiet1 easy life while she nurses her children2 their education calls for patience and gentleness1 for a zeal and love which nothing can dismay2 she forms a bond between father and child1 she alone can win the father's love for his children and convince him that they are indeed his own4 ,what loving care is required to preserve a united family6 ,and there should be no question of virtue in all this1 it must be a labour of love1 without which the human race would be doomed to extinction4 ,the mutual duties of the two sexes are not1 and cannot be1 equally binding on both4 ,women do wrong to complain of the inequality of man-made laws2 this inequality is not of man's making1 or at any rate it is not the result of mere prejudice1 but of reason4 ,she to whom nature has entrusted the care of the children must hold herself responsible for them to their father4 ,no doubt every breach of faith is wrong1 and every faithless husband1 who robs his wife of the sole reward of the stern duties of her sex1 is cruel and unjust2 but the faithless wife is worse2 she destroys the family and breaks the bonds of nature2 when she gives her husband children who are not his own1 she is false both to him and them1 her crime is not infidelity but treason4 ,to my mind1 it is the source of dissension and of crime of every kind4 ,can any position be more wretched than that of the unhappy father who1 when he clasps his child to his breast1 is haunted by the suspicion that this is the child of another1 the badge of his own dishonour1 a thief who is robbing his own children of their inheritance4 ,under such circumstances the family is little more than a group of secret enemies1 armed against each other by a guilty woman1 who compels them to pretend to love one another4 ,thus it is not enough that a wife should be faithful2 her husband1 along with his friends and neighbours1 must believe in her fidelity2 she must be modest1 devoted1 retiring2 she should have the witness not only of a good conscience1 but of a good reputation4 ,in a word1 if a father must love his children1 he must be able to respect their mother4 ,for these reasons it is not enough that the woman should be chaste1 she must preserve her reputation and her good name4 ,from these principles there arises not only a moral difference between the sexes1 but also a fresh motive for duty and propriety1 which prescribes to women in particular the most scrupulous attention to their conduct1 their manners1 their behaviour4 ,vague assertions as to the equality of the sexes and the similarity of their duties are only empty words2 they are no answer to my argument4 ,it is a poor sort of logic to quote isolated exceptions against laws so firmly established4 ,women1 you say1 are not always bearing children4 ,granted2 yet that is their proper business4 ,because there are a hundred or so of large towns in the world where women live licentiously and have few children1 will you maintain that it is their business to have few children8 ,and what would become of your towns if the remote country districts1 with their simpler and purer women1 did not make up for the barrenness of your fine ladies8 ,there are plenty of country places where women with only four or five children are reckoned unfruitful4 ,in conclusion1 although here and there a woman may have few children1 what difference does it make8 ,footnote3 ,without this the race would necessarily diminish2 all things considered1 for its preservation each woman ought to have about four children1 for about half the children born die before they can become parents1 and two must survive to replace the father and mother4 ,see whether the towns will supply them8 ,is it any the less a woman's business to be a mother8 ,and to not the general laws of nature and morality make provision for this state of things8 ,even if there were these long intervals1 which you assume1 between the periods of pregnancy1 can a woman suddenly change her way of life without danger8 ,can she be a nursing mother to-day and a soldier to-morrow8 ,will she change her tastes and her feelings as a chameleon changes his colour8 ,will she pass at once from the privacy of household duties and indoor occupations to the buffeting of the winds1 the toils1 the labours1 the perils of war8 ,will she be now timid1 ,footnote3 ,women's timidity is yet another instinct of nature against the double risk she runs during pregnancy4 now brave1 now fragile1 now robust8 ,if the young men of ,paris find a soldier's life too hard for them1 how would a woman put up with it1 a woman who has hardly ventured out of doors without a parasol and who has scarcely put a foot to the ground8 ,will she make a good soldier at an age when even men are retiring from this arduous business8 ,there are countries1 ,i grant you1 where women bear and rear children with little or no difficulty1 but in those lands the men go half-naked in all weathers1 they strike down the wild beasts1 they carry a canoe as easily as a knapsack1 they pursue the chase for #gjj or #hjj leagues1 they sleep in the open on the bare ground1 they bear incredible fatigues and go many days without food4 ,when women become strong1 men become still stronger2 when men become soft1 women become softer2 change both the terms and the ratio remains unaltered4 ,i am quite aware that ,plato1 in the ,republic1 assigns the same gymnastics to women and men4 ,having got rid of the family there is no place for women in his system of government1 so he is forced to turn them into men4 ,that great genius has worked out his plans in detail and has provided for every contingency2 he has even provided against a difficulty which in all likelihood no one would ever have raised2 but he has not succeeded in meeting the real difficulty4 ,i am not speaking of the alleged community of wives which has often been laid to his charge2 this assertion only shows that his detractors have never read his works4 ,i refer to that political promiscuity under which the same occupations are assigned to both sexes alike1 a scheme which could only lead to intolerable evils2 ,i refer to that subversion of all the tenderest of our natural feelings1 which he sacrificed to an artificial sentiment which can only exist by their aid4 ,will the bonds of convention hold firm without some foundation in nature8 ,can devotion to the state exist apart from the love of those near and dear to us8 ,can patriotism thrive except in the soil of that miniature fatherland1 the home8 ,is it not the good son1 the good husband1 the good father1 who makes the good citizen8 ,when once it is proved that men and women are and ought to be unlike in constitution and in temperament1 it follows that their education must be different4 ,nature teaches us that they should work together1 but that each has its own share of the work2 the end is the same1 but the means are different1 as are also the feelings which direct them4 ,we have attempted to paint a natural man1 let us try to paint a helpmeet for him4 ,you must follow nature's guidance if you would walk aright4 ,the native characters of sex should be respected as nature's handiwork4 ,you are always saying1 ,women have such and such faults1 from which we are free4 ,you are misled by your vanity2 what would be faults in you are virtues in them2 and things would go worse1 if they were without these so-called faults4 ,take care that they do not degenerate into evil1 but beware of destroying them4 ,on the other hand1 women are always exclaiming that we educate them for nothing but vanity and coquetry1 that we keep them amused with trifles that we may be their masters2 we are responsible1 so they say1 for the faults we attribute to them4 ,how silly6 ,what have men to do with the education of girls8 ,what is there to hinder their mothers educating them as they please8 ,there are no colleges for girls2 so much the better for them6 ,would ,god there were none for the boys1 their education would be more sensible and more wholesome4 ,who is it that compels a girl to waste her time on foolish trifles8 ,are they forced1 against their will1 to spend half their time over their toilet1 following the example set them by you8 ,who prevents you teaching them1 or having them taught1 whatever seems good in your eyes8 ,is it our fault that we are charmed by their beauty and delighted by their airs and graces1 if we are attracted and flattered by the arts they learn from you1 if we love to see them prettily dressed1 if we let them display at leisure the weapons by which we are subjugated8 ,well then1 educate them like men4 ,the more women are like men1 the less influence they will have over men1 and then men will be masters indeed4 ,all the faculties common to both sexes are not equally shared between them1 but taken as a whole they are fairly divided4 ,woman is worth more as a woman and less as a man2 when she makes a good use of her own rights1 she has the best of it2 when she tries to usurp our rights1 she is our inferior4 ,it is impossible to controvert this1 except by quoting exceptions after the usual fashion of the partisans of the fair sex4 ,to cultivate the masculine virtues in women and to neglect their own is evidently to do them an injury4 ,women are too clear-sighted to be thus deceived2 when they try to usurp our privileges they do not abandon their own2 with this result3 they are unable to make use of two incompatible things1 so they fall below their own level as women1 instead of rising to the level of men4 ,if you are a sensible mother you will take my advice4 ,do not try to make your daughter a good man in defiance of nature4 ,make her a good woman1 and be sure it will be better both for her and us4 ,does this mean that she must be brought up in ignorance and kept to housework only8 ,is she to be man's handmaid or his help-meet8 ,will he dispense with her greatest charm1 her companionship8 ,to keep her a slave will he prevent her knowing and feeling8 ,will he make an automaton of her8 ,no1 indeed1 that is not the teaching of nature1 who has given women such a pleasant easy wit4 ,on the contrary1 nature means them to think1 to will1 to love1 to cultivate their minds as well as their persons2 she puts these weapons in their hands to make up for their lack of strength and to enable them to direct the strength of men4 ,they should learn many things1 but only such things as are suitable4 ,when ,i consider the special purpose of woman1 when ,i observe her inclinations or reckon up her duties1 everything combines to indicate the mode of education she requires4 ,men and women are made for each other1 but their mutual dependence differs in degree2 man is dependent on woman through his desires2 woman is dependent on man through her desires and also through her needs2 he could do without her better than she can do without him4 ,she cannot fulfil her purpose in life without his aid1 without his goodwill1 without his respect2 she is dependent on our feelings1 on the price we put upon her virtue1 and the opinion we have of her charms and her deserts4 ,nature herself has decreed that woman1 both for herself and her children1 should be at the mercy of man's judgment4 ,worth alone will not suffice1 a woman must be thought worthy2 nor beauty1 she must be admired2 nor virtue1 she must be respected4 ,a woman's honour does not depend on her conduct alone1 but on her reputation1 and no woman who permits herself to be considered vile is really virtuous4 ,a man has no one but himself to consider1 and so long as he does right he may defy public opinion2 but when a woman does right her task is only half finished1 and what people think of her matters as much as what she really is4 ,hence her education must1 in this respect1 be different from man's education4 ,what will people think is the grave of a man's virtue and the throne of a woman's4 ,the children's health depends in the first place on the mother's1 and the early education of man is also in a woman's hands2 his morals1 his passions1 his tastes1 his pleasures1 his happiness itself1 depend on her4 ,a woman's education must therefore be planned in relation to man4 ,to be pleasing in his sight1 to win his respect and love1 to train him in childhood1 to tend him in manhood1 to counsel and console1 to make his life pleasant and happy1 these are the duties of woman for all time1 and this is what she should be taught while she is young4 ,the further we depart from this principle1 the further we shall be from our goal1 and all our precepts will fail to secure her happiness or our own4 ,every woman desires to be pleasing in men's eyes1 and this is right2 but there is a great difference between wishing to please a man of worth1 a really lovable man1 and seeking to please those foppish manikins who are a disgrace to their own sex and to the sex which they imitate4 ,neither nature nor reason can induce a woman to love an effeminate person1 nor will she win love by imitating such a person4 ,if a woman discards the quiet modest bearing of her sex1 and adopts the airs of such foolish creatures1 she is not following her vocation1 she is forsaking it2 she is robbing herself of the rights to which she lays claim4 ,if we were different1 she says1 the men would not like us4 ,she is mistaken4 ,only a fool likes folly2 to wish to attract such men only shows her own foolishness4 ,if there were no frivolous men1 women would soon make them1 and women are more responsible for men's follies than men are for theirs4 ,the woman who loves true manhood and seeks to find favour in its sight will adopt means adapted to her ends4 ,woman is a coquette by profession1 but her coquetry varies with her aims2 let these aims be in accordance with those of nature1 and a woman will receive a fitting education4 ,even the tiniest little girls love finery2 they are not content to be pretty1 they must be admired2 their little airs and graces show that their heads are full of this idea1 and as soon as they can understand they are controlled by ,what will people think of you8 ,if you are foolish enough to try this way with little boys1 it will not have the same effect2 give them their freedom and their sports1 and they care very little what people think2 it is a work of time to bring them under the control of this law4 ,however acquired1 this early education of little girls is an excellent thing in itself4 ,as the birth of the body must precede the birth of the mind1 so the training of the body must precede the cultivation of the mind4 ,this is true of both sexes2 but the aim of physical training for boys and girls is not the same2 in the one case it is the development of strength1 in the other of grace2 not that these qualities should be peculiar to either sex1 but that their relative values should be different4 ,women should be strong enough to do anything gracefully2 men should be skilful enough to do anything easily4 ,the exaggeration of feminine delicacy leads to effeminacy in men4 ,women should not be strong like men but for them1 so that their sons may be strong4 ,convents and boarding-schools1 with their plain food and ample opportunities for amusements1 races1 and games in the open air and in the garden1 are better in this respect than the home1 where the little girl is fed on delicacies1 continually encouraged or reproved1 where she is kept sitting in a stuffy room1 always under her mother's eye1 afraid to stand or walk or speak or breathe1 without a moment's freedom to play or jump or run or shout1 or to be her natural1 lively1 little self2 there is either harmful indulgence or misguided severity1 and no trace of reason4 ,in this fashion heart and body are alike destroyed4 ,in ,sparta the girls used to take part in military sports just like the boys1 not that they might go to war1 but that they might bear sons who could endure hardship4 ,that is not what ,i desire4 ,to provide the state with soldiers it is not necessary that the mother should carry a musket and master the ,prussian drill4 ,yet1 on the whole1 ,i think the ,greeks were very wise in this matter of physical training4 ,young girls frequently appeared in public1 not with the boys1 but in groups apart4 ,there was scarcely a festival1 a sacrifice1 or a procession without its bands of maidens1 the daughters of the chief citizens4 ,crowned with flowers1 chanting hymns1 forming the chorus of the dance1 bearing baskets1 vases1 offerings1 they presented a charming spectacle to the depraved senses of the ,greeks1 a spectacle well fitted to efface the evil effects of their unseemly gymnastics4 ,whatever this custom may have done for the ,greek men1 it was well fitted to develop in the ,greek women a sound constitution by means of pleasant1 moderate1 and healthy exercise2 while the desire to please would develop a keen and cultivated taste without risk to character4 ,when the ,greek women married1 they disappeared from public life2 within the four walls of their home they devoted themselves to the care of their household and family4 ,this is the mode of life prescribed for women alike by nature and reason4 ,these women gave birth to the healthiest1 strongest1 and best proportioned men who ever lived1 and except in certain islands of ill repute1 no women in the whole world1 not even the ,roman matrons1 were ever at once so wise and so charming1 so beautiful and so virtuous1 as the women of ancient ,greece4 ,it is admitted that their flowing garments1 which did not cramp the figure1 preserved in men and women alike the fine proportions which are seen in their statues4 ,these are still the models of art1 although nature is so disfigured that they are no longer to be found among us4 ,the ,gothic trammels1 the innumerable bands which confine our limbs as in a press1 were quite unknown4 ,the ,greek women were wholly unacquainted with those frames of whalebone in which our women distort rather than display their figures4 ,it seems to me that this abuse1 which is carried to an incredible degree of folly in ,england1 must sooner or later lead to the production of a degenerate race4 ,moreover1 ,i maintain that the charm which these corsets are supposed to produce is in the worst possible taste2 it is not a pleasant thing to see a woman cut in two like a wasp--it offends both the eye and the imagination4 ,a slender waist has its limits1 like everything else1 in proportion and suitability1 and beyond these limits it becomes a defect4 ,this defect would be a glaring one in the nude2 why should it be beautiful under the costume8 ,i will not venture upon the reasons which induce women to incase themselves in these coats of mail4 ,a clumsy figure1 a large waist1 are no doubt very ugly at twenty1 but at thirty they cease to offend the eye1 and as we are bound to be what nature has made us at any given age1 and as there is no deceiving the eye of man1 such defects are less offensive at any age than the foolish affectations of a young thing of forty4 ,everything which cramps and confines nature is in bad taste2 this is as true of the adornments of the person as of the ornaments of the mind4 ,life1 health1 common-sense1 and comfort must come first2 there is no grace in discomfort1 languor is not refinement1 there is no charm in ill-health2 suffering may excite pity1 but pleasure and delight demand the freshness of health4 ,boys and girls have many games in common1 and this is as it should be2 do they not play together when they are grown up8 ,they have also special tastes of their own4 ,boys want movement and noise1 drums1 tops1 toy-carts2 girls prefer things which appeal to the eye1 and can be used for dressing-up--mirrors1 jewellery1 finery1 and specially dolls4 ,the doll is the girl's special plaything2 this shows her instinctive bent towards her life's work4 ,the art of pleasing finds its physical basis in personal adornment1 and this physical side of the art is the only one which the child can cultivate4 ,here is a little girl busy all day with her doll2 she is always changing its clothes1 dressing and undressing it1 trying new combinations of trimmings well or ill matched2 her fingers are clumsy1 her taste is crude1 but there is no mistaking her bent2 in this endless occupation time flies unheeded1 the hours slip away unnoticed1 even meals are forgotten4 ,she is more eager for adornment than for food4 ,but she is dressing her doll1 not herself1 you will say4 ,just so2 she sees her doll1 she cannot see herself2 she cannot do anything for herself1 she has neither the training1 nor the talent1 nor the strength2 as yet she herself is nothing1 she is engrossed in her doll and all her coquetry is devoted to it4 ,this will not always be so2 in due time she will be her own doll4 ,we have here a very early and clearly-marked bent2 you have only to follow it and train it4 ,what the little girl most clearly desires is to dress her doll1 to make its bows1 its tippets1 its sashes1 and its tuckers2 she is dependent on other people's kindness in all this1 and it would be much pleasanter to be able to do it herself4 ,here is a motive for her earliest lessons1 they are not tasks prescribed1 but favours bestowed4 ,little girls always dislike learning to read and write1 but they are always ready to learn to sew4 ,they think they are grown up1 and in imagination they are using their knowledge for their own adornment4 ,the way is open and it is easy to follow it2 cutting out1 embroidery1 lace-making follow naturally4 ,tapestry is not popular2 furniture is too remote from the child's interests1 it has nothing to do with the person1 it depends on conventional tastes4 ,tapestry is a woman's amusement2 young girls never care for it4 ,this voluntary course is easily extended to include drawing1 an art which is closely connected with taste in dress2 but ,i would not have them taught landscape and still less figure painting4 ,leaves1 fruit1 flowers1 draperies1 anything that will make an elegant trimming for the accessories of the toilet1 and enable the girl to design her own embroidery if she cannot find a pattern to her taste2 that will be quite enough4 ,speaking generally1 if it is desirable to restrict a man's studies to what is useful1 this is even more necessary for women1 whose life1 though less laborious1 should be even more industrious and more uniformly employed in a variety of duties1 so that one talent should not be encouraged at the expense of others4 ,whatever may be said by the scornful1 good sense belongs to both sexes alike4 ,girls are usually more docile than boys1 and they should be subjected to more authority1 as ,i shall show later on1 but that is no reason why they should be required to do things in which they can see neither rhyme nor reason4 ,the mother's art consists in showing the use of everything they are set to do1 and this is all the easier as the girl's intelligence is more precocious than the boy's4 ,this principle banishes1 both for boys and girls1 not only those pursuits which never lead to any appreciable results1 not even increasing the charms of those who have pursued them1 but also those studies whose utility is beyond the scholar's present age and can only be appreciated in later years4 ,if ,i object to little boys being made to learn to read1 still more do ,i object to it for little girls until they are able to see the use of reading2 we generally think more of our own ideas than theirs in our attempts to convince them of the utility of this art4 ,after all1 why should a little girl know how to read and write6 ,has she a house to manage8 ,most of them make a bad use of this fatal knowledge1 and girls are so full of curiosity that few of them will fail to learn without compulsion4 ,possibly cyphering should come first2 there is nothing so obviously useful1 nothing which needs so much practice or gives so much opportunity for error as reckoning4 ,if the little girl does not get the cherries for her lunch without an arithmetical exercise1 she will soon learn to count4 ,i once knew a little girl who learnt to write before she could read1 and she began to write with her needle4 ,to begin with1 she would write nothing but ,o's2 she was always making ,o's1 large and small1 of all kinds and one within another1 but always drawn backwards4 ,unluckily one day she caught a glimpse of herself in the glass while she was at this useful work1 and thinking that the cramped attitude was not pretty1 like another ,minerva she flung away her pen and declined to make any more ,o's4 ,her brother was no fonder of writing1 but what he disliked was the constraint1 not the look of the thing4 ,she was induced to go on with her writing in this way4 ,the child was fastidious and vain2 she could not bear her sisters to wear her clothes4 ,her things had been marked1 they declined to mark them any more1 she must learn to mark them herself2 there is no need to continue the story4 ,show the sense of the tasks you set your little girls1 but keep them busy4 ,idleness and insubordination are two very dangerous faults1 and very hard to cure when once established4 ,girls should be attentive and industrious1 but this is not enough by itself2 they should early be accustomed to restraint4 ,this misfortune1 if such it be1 is inherent in their sex1 and they will never escape from it1 unless to endure more cruel sufferings4 ,all their life long1 they will have to submit to the strictest and most enduring restraints1 those of propriety4 ,they must be trained to bear the yoke from the first1 so that they may not feel it1 to master their own caprices and to submit themselves to the will of others4 ,if they were always eager to be at work1 they should sometimes be compelled to do nothing4 ,their childish faults1 unchecked and unheeded1 may easily lead to dissipation1 frivolity1 and inconstancy4 ,to guard against this1 teach them above all things self-control4 ,under our senseless conditions1 the life of a good woman is a perpetual struggle against self2 it is only fair that woman should bear her share of the ills she has brought upon man4 ,beware lest your girls become weary of their tasks and infatuated with their amusements2 this often happens under our ordinary methods of education1 where1 as ,fenelon says1 all the tedium is on one side and all the pleasure on the other4 ,if the rules already laid down are followed1 the first of these dangers will be avoided1 unless the child dislikes those about her4 ,a little girl who is fond of her mother or her friend will work by her side all day without getting tired2 the chatter alone will make up for any loss of liberty4 ,but if her companion is distasteful to her1 everything done under her direction will be distasteful too4 ,children who take no delight in their mother's company are not likely to turn out well2 but to judge of their real feelings you must watch them and not trust to their words alone1 for they are flatterers and deceitful and soon learn to conceal their thoughts4 ,neither should they be told that they ought to love their mother4 ,affection is not the result of duty1 and in this respect constraint is out of place4 ,continual intercourse1 constant care1 habit itself1 all these will lead a child to love her mother1 if the mother does nothing to deserve the child's ill-will4 ,the very control she exercises over the child1 if well directed1 will increase rather than diminish the affection1 for women being made for dependence1 girls feel themselves made to obey4 ,just because they have1 or ought to have1 little freedom1 they are apt to indulge themselves too fully with regard to such freedom as they have2 they carry everything to extremes1 and they devote themselves to their games with an enthusiasm even greater than that of boys4 ,this is the second difficulty to which ,i referred4 ,this enthusiasm must be kept in check1 for it is the source of several vices commonly found among women1 caprice and that extravagant admiration which leads a woman to regard a thing with rapture to-day and to be quite indifferent to it to-morrow4 ,this fickleness of taste is as dangerous as exaggeration2 and both spring from the same cause4 ,do not deprive them of mirth1 laughter1 noise1 and romping games1 but do not let them tire of one game and go off to another2 do not leave them for a moment without restraint4 ,train them to break off their games and return to their other occupations without a murmur4 ,habit is all that is needed1 as you have nature on your side4 ,this habitual restraint produces a docility which woman requires all her life long1 for she will always be in subjection to a man1 or to man's judgment1 and she will never be free to set her own opinion above his4 ,what is most wanted in a woman is gentleness2 formed to obey a creature so imperfect as man1 a creature often vicious and always faulty1 she should early learn to submit to injustice and to suffer the wrongs inflicted on her by her husband without complaint2 she must be gentle for her own sake1 not his4 ,bitterness and obstinacy only multiply the sufferings of the wife and the misdeeds of the husband2 the man feels that these are not the weapons to be used against him4 ,heaven did not make women attractive and persuasive that they might degenerate into bitterness1 or meek that they should desire the mastery2 their soft voice was not meant for hard words1 nor their delicate features for the frowns of anger4 ,when they lose their temper they forget themselves2 often enough they have just cause of complaint2 but when they scold they always put themselves in the wrong4 ,we should each adopt the tone which befits our sex2 a soft-hearted husband may make an overbearing wife1 but a man1 unless he is a perfect monster1 will sooner or later yield to his wife's gentleness1 and the victory will be hers4 ,daughters must always be obedient1 but mothers need not always be harsh4 ,to make a girl docile you need not make her miserable2 to make her modest you need not terrify her2 on the contrary1 ,i should not be sorry to see her allowed occasionally to exercise a little ingenuity1 not to escape punishment for her disobedience1 but to evade the necessity for obedience4 ,her dependence need not be made unpleasant1 it is enough that she should realise that she is dependent4 ,cunning is a natural gift of woman1 and so convinced am ,i that all our natural inclinations are right1 that ,i would cultivate this among others1 only guarding against its abuse4 ,for the truth of this ,i appeal to every honest observer4 ,i do not ask you to question women themselves1 our cramping institutions may compel them to sharpen their wits2 ,i would have you examine girls1 little girls1 newly-born so to speak2 compare them with boys of the same age1 and ,i am greatly mistaken if you do not find the little boys heavy1 silly1 and foolish1 in comparison4 ,let me give one illustration in all its childish simplicity4 ,children are commonly forbidden to ask for anything at table1 for people think they can do nothing better in the way of education than to burden them with useless precepts2 as if a little bit of this or that were not readily given or refused without leaving a poor child dying of greediness intensified by hope4 ,every one knows how cunningly a little boy brought up in this way asked for salt when he had been overlooked at table4 ,i do not suppose any one will blame him for asking directly for salt and indirectly for meat2 the neglect was so cruel that ,i hardly think he would have been punished had he broken the rule and said plainly that he was hungry4 ,but this is what ,i saw done by a little girl of six2 the circumstances were much more difficult1 for not only was she strictly forbidden to ask for anything directly or indirectly1 but disobedience would have been unpardonable1 for she had eaten of every dish2 one only had been overlooked1 and on this she had set her heart4 ,this is what she did to repair the omission without laying herself open to the charge of disobedience2 she pointed to every dish in turn1 saying1 ,i've had some of this2 ,i've had some of this2 however she omitted the one dish so markedly that some one noticed it and said1 ,have not you had some of this8 ,oh1 no1 replied the greedy little girl with soft voice and downcast eyes4 ,these instances are typical of the cunning of the little boy and girl4 ,what is1 is good1 and no general law can be bad4 ,this special skill with which the female sex is endowed is a fair equivalent for its lack of strength2 without it woman would be man's slave1 not his helpmeet4 ,by her superiority in this respect she maintains her equality with man1 and rules in obedience4 ,she has everything against her1 our faults and her own weakness and timidity2 her beauty and her wiles are all that she has4 ,should she not cultivate both8 ,yet beauty is not universal2 it may be destroyed by all sorts of accidents1 it will disappear with years1 and habit will destroy its influence4 ,a woman's real resource is her wit2 not that foolish wit which is so greatly admired in society1 a wit which does nothing to make life happier2 but that wit which is adapted to her condition1 the art of taking advantage of our position and controlling us through our own strength4 ,words cannot tell how beneficial this is to man1 what a charm it gives to the society of men and women1 how it checks the petulant child and restrains the brutal husband2 without it the home would be a scene of strife2 with it1 it is the abode of happiness4 ,i know that this power is abused by the sly and the spiteful2 but what is there that is not liable to abuse8 ,do not destroy the means of happiness because the wicked use them to our hurt4 ,the toilet may attract notice1 but it is the person that wins our hearts4 ,our finery is not us2 its very artificiality often offends1 and that which is least noticeable in itself often wins the most attention4 ,the education of our girls is1 in this respect1 absolutely topsy-turvy4 ,ornaments are promised them as rewards1 and they are taught to delight in elaborate finery4 ,how lovely she is6 people say when she is most dressed up4 ,on the contrary1 they should be taught that so much finery is only required to hide their defects1 and that beauty's real triumph is to shine alone4 ,the love of fashion is contrary to good taste1 for faces do not change with the fashion1 and while the person remains unchanged1 what suits it at one time will suit it always4 ,if ,i saw a young girl decked out like a little peacock1 ,i should show myself anxious about her figure so disguised1 and anxious what people would think of her2 ,i should say1 ,she is over-dressed with all those ornaments2 what a pity6 ,do you think she could do with something simpler8 ,is she pretty enough to do without this or that8 ,possibly she herself would be the first to ask that her finery might be taken off and that we should see how she looked without it4 ,in that case her beauty should receive such praise as it deserves4 ,i should never praise her unless simply dressed4 ,if she only regards fine clothes as an aid to personal beauty1 and as a tacit confession that she needs their aid1 she will not be proud of her finery1 she will be humbled by it2 and if she hears some one say1 ,how pretty she is1 when she is smarter than usual1 she will blush for shame4 ,moreover1 though there are figures that require adornment there are none that require expensive clothes4 ,extravagance in dress is the folly of the class rather than the individual1 it is merely conventional4 ,genuine coquetry is sometimes carefully thought out1 but never sumptuous1 and ,juno dressed herself more magnificently than ,venus4 ,as you cannot make her beautiful you are making her fine1 said ,apelles to an unskilful artist who was painting ,helen loaded with jewellery4 ,i have also noticed that the smartest clothes proclaim the plainest women2 no folly could be more misguided4 ,if a young girl has good taste and a contempt for fashion1 give her a few yards of ribbon1 muslin1 and gauze1 and a handful of flowers1 without any diamonds1 fringes1 or lace1 and she will make herself a dress a hundredfold more becoming than all the smart clothes of ,la ,duchapt4 ,good is always good1 and as you should always look your best1 the women who know what they are about select a good style and keep to it1 and as they are not always changing their style they think less about dress than those who can never settle to any one style4 ,a genuine desire to dress becomingly does not require an elaborate toilet4 ,young girls rarely give much time to dress2 needlework and lessons are the business of the day2 yet1 except for the rouge1 they are generally as carefully dressed as older women and often in better taste4 ,contrary to the usual opinion1 the real cause of the abuse of the toilet is not vanity but lack of occupation4 ,the woman who devotes six hours to her toilet is well aware that she is no better dressed than the woman who took half an hour1 but she has got rid of so many of the tedious hours and it is better to amuse oneself with one's clothes than to be sick of everything4 ,without the toilet how would she spend the time between dinner and supper4 ,with a crowd of women about her1 she can at least cause them annoyance1 which is amusement of a kind2 better still she avoids a tete-a-tete with the husband whom she never sees at any other time2 then there are the tradespeople1 the dealers in bric-a-brac1 the fine gentlemen1 the minor poets with their songs1 their verses1 and their pamphlets2 how could you get them together but for the toilet4 ,its only real advantage is the chance of a little more display than is permitted by full dress1 and perhaps this is less than it seems and a woman gains less than she thinks4 ,do not be afraid to educate your women as women2 teach them a woman's business1 that they be modest1 that they may know how to manage their house and look after their family2 the grand toilet will soon disappear1 and they will be more tastefully dressed4 ,growing girls perceive at once that all this outside adornment is not enough unless they have charms of their own4 ,they cannot make themselves beautiful1 they are too young for coquetry1 but they are not too young to acquire graceful gestures1 a pleasing voice1 a self-possessed manner1 a light step1 a graceful bearing1 to choose whatever advantages are within their reach4 ,the voice extends its range1 it grows stronger and more resonant1 the arms become plumper1 the bearing more assured1 and they perceive that it is easy to attract attention however dressed4 ,needlework and industry suffice no longer1 fresh gifts are developing and their usefulness is already recognised4 ,i know that stern teachers would have us refuse to teach little girls to sing or dance1 or to acquire any of the pleasing arts4 ,this strikes me as absurd4 ,who should learn these arts--our boys8 ,are these to be the favourite accomplishments of men or women8 ,of neither1 say they2 profane songs are simply so many crimes1 dancing is an invention of the ,evil ,one2 her tasks and her prayers we all the amusement a young girl should have4 ,what strange amusements for a child of ten6 ,i fear that these little saints who have been forced to spend their childhood in prayers to ,god will pass their youth in another fashion2 when they are married they will try to make up for lost time4 ,i think we must consider age as well as sex2 a young girl should not live like her grandmother2 she should be lively1 merry1 and eager2 she should sing and dance to her heart's content1 and enjoy all the innocent pleasures of youth2 the time will come1 all too soon1 when she must settle down and adopt a more serious tone4 ,but is this change in itself really necessary8 ,is it not merely another result of our own prejudices8 ,by making good women the slaves of dismal duties1 we have deprived marriage of its charm for men4 ,can we wonder that the gloomy silence they find at home drives them elsewhere1 or inspires little desire to enter a state which offers so few attractions8 ,christianity1 by exaggerating every duty1 has made our duties impracticable and useless2 by forbidding singing1 dancing1 and amusements of every kind1 it renders women sulky1 fault-finding1 and intolerable at home4 ,there is no religion which imposes such strict duties upon married life1 and none in which such a sacred engagement is so often profaned4 ,such pains has been taken to prevent wives being amiable1 that their husbands have become indifferent to them4 ,this should not be1 ,i grant you1 but it will be1 since husbands are but men4 ,i would have an ,english maiden cultivate the talents which will delight her husband as zealously as the ,circassian cultivates the accomplishments of an ,eastern harem4 ,husbands1 you say1 care little for such accomplishments4 ,so ,i should suppose1 when they are employed1 not for the husband1 but to attract the young rakes who dishonour the home4 ,but imagine a virtuous and charming wife1 adorned with such accomplishments and devoting them to her husband's amusement2 will she not add to his happiness8 ,when he leaves his office worn out with the day's work1 will she not prevent him seeking recreation elsewhere8 ,have we not all beheld happy families gathered together1 each contributing to the general amusement8 ,are not the confidence and familiarity thus established1 the innocence and the charm of the pleasures thus enjoyed1 more than enough to make up for the more riotous pleasures of public entertainments8 ,pleasant accomplishments have been made too formal an affair of rules and precepts1 so that young people find them very tedious instead of a mere amusement or a merry game as they ought to be4 ,nothing can be more absurd than an elderly singing or dancing master frowning upon young people1 whose one desire is to laugh1 and adopting a more pedantic and magisterial manner in teaching his frivolous art than if he were teaching the catechism4 ,take the case of singing2 does this art depend on reading music2 cannot the voice be made true and flexible1 can we not learn to sing with taste and even to play an accompaniment without knowing a note8 ,does the same kind of singing suit all voices alike8 ,is the same method adapted to every mind8 ,you will never persuade me that the same attitudes1 the same steps1 the same movements1 the same gestures1 the same dances will suit a lively little brunette and a tall fair maiden with languishing eyes4 ,so when ,i find a master giving the same lessons to all his pupils ,i say1 ,he has his own routine1 but he knows nothing of his art6 ,should young girls have masters or mistresses8 ,i cannot say2 ,i wish they could dispense with both2 ,i wish they could learn of their own accord what they are already so willing to learn4 ,i wish there were fewer of these dressed-up old ballet masters promenading our streets4 ,i fear our young people will get more harm from intercourse with such people than profit from their instruction1 and that their jargon1 their tone1 their airs and graces1 will instil a precocious taste for the frivolities which the teacher thinks so important1 and to which the scholars are only too likely to devote themselves4 ,where pleasure is the only end in view1 any one may serve as teacher--father1 mother1 brother1 sister1 friend1 governess1 the girl's mirror1 and above all her own taste4 ,do not offer to teach1 let her ask2 do not make a task of what should be a reward1 and in these studies above all remember that the wish to succeed is the first step4 ,if formal instruction is required ,i leave it to you to choose between a master and a mistress4 ,how can ,i tell whether a dancing master should take a young pupil by her soft white hand1 make her lift her skirt and raise her eyes1 open her arms and advance her throbbing bosom8 but this ,i know1 nothing on earth would induce me to be that master4 ,taste is formed partly by industry and partly by talent1 and by its means the mind is unconsciously opened to the idea of beauty of every kind1 till at length it attains to those moral ideas which are so closely related to beauty4 ,perhaps this is one reason why ideas of propriety and modesty are acquired earlier by girls than by boys1 for to suppose that this early feeling is due to the teaching of the governesses would show little knowledge of their style of teaching and of the natural development of the human mind4 ,the art of speaking stands first among the pleasing arts2 it alone can add fresh charms to those which have been blunted by habit4 ,it is the mind which not only gives life to the body1 but renews1 so to speak1 its youth2 the flow of feelings and ideas give life and variety to the countenance1 and the conversation to which it gives rise arouses and sustains attention1 and fixes it continuously on one object4 ,i suppose this is why little girls so soon learn to prattle prettily1 and why men enjoy listening to them even before the child can understand them2 they are watching for the first gleam of intelligence and sentiment4 ,women have ready tongues2 they talk earlier1 more easily1 and more pleasantly than men4 ,they are also said to talk more2 this may be true1 but ,i am prepared to reckon it to their credit2 eyes and mouth are equally busy and for the same cause4 ,a man says what he knows1 a woman says what will please2 the one needs knowledge1 the other taste2 utility should be the man's object2 the woman speaks to give pleasure4 ,there should be nothing in common but truth4 ,you should not check a girl's prattle like a boy's by the harsh question1 ,what is the use of that8 but by another question at least as difficult to answer1 ,what effect will that have8 ,at this early age when they know neither good nor evil1 and are incapable of judging others1 they should make this their rule and never say anything which is unpleasant to those about them2 this rule is all the more difficult to apply because it must always be subordinated to our first rule1 ,never tell a lie4 ,i can see many other difficulties1 but they belong to a later stage4 ,for the present it is enough for your little girls to speak the truth without grossness1 and as they are naturally averse to what is gross1 education easily teaches them to avoid it4 ,in social intercourse ,i observe that a man's politeness is usually more helpful and a woman's more caressing4 ,this distinction is natural1 not artificial4 ,a man seeks to serve1 a woman seeks to please4 ,hence a woman's politeness is less insincere than ours1 whatever we may think of her character2 for she is only acting upon a fundamental instinct2 but when a man professes to put my interests before his own1 ,i detect the falsehood1 however disguised4 ,hence it is easy for women to be polite1 and easy to teach little girls politeness4 ,the first lessons come by nature2 art only supplements them and determines the conventional form which politeness shall take4 ,the courtesy of woman to woman is another matter2 their manner is so constrained1 their attentions so chilly1 they find each other so wearisome1 that they take little pains to conceal the fact1 and seem sincere even in their falsehood1 since they take so little pains to conceal it4 ,still young girls do sometimes become sincerely attached to one another4 ,at their age good spirits take the place of a good disposition1 and they are so pleased with themselves that they are pleased with every one else4 ,moreover1 it is certain that they kiss each other more affectionately and caress each other more gracefully in the presence of men1 for they are proud to be able to arouse their envy without danger to themselves by the sight of favours which they know will arouse that envy4 ,if young boys must not be allowed to ask unsuitable questions1 much more must they be forbidden to little girls2 if their curiosity is satisfied or unskilfully evaded it is a much more serious matter1 for they are so keen to guess the mysteries concealed from them and so skilful to discover them4 ,but while ,i would not permit them to ask questions1 ,i would have them questioned frequently1 and pains should be taken to make them talk2 let them be teased to make them speak freely1 to make them answer readily1 to loosen mind and tongue while it can be done without danger4 ,such conversation always leading to merriment1 yet skilfully controlled and directed1 would form a delightful amusement at this age and might instil into these youthful hearts the first and perhaps the most helpful lessons in morals which they will ever receive1 by teaching them in the guise of pleasure and fun what qualities are esteemed by men and what is the true glory and happiness of a good woman4 ,if boys are incapable of forming any true idea of religion1 much more is it beyond the grasp of girls2 and for this reason ,i would speak of it all the sooner to little girls1 for if we wait till they are ready for a serious discussion of these deep subjects we should be in danger of never speaking of religion at all4 ,a woman's reason is practical1 and therefore she soon arrives at a given conclusion1 but she fails to discover it for herself4 ,the social relation of the sexes is a wonderful thing4 ,this relation produces a moral person of which woman is the eye and man the hand1 but the two are so dependent on one another that the man teaches the woman what to see1 while she teaches him what to do4 ,if women could discover principles and if men had as good heads for detail1 they would be mutually independent1 they would live in perpetual strife1 and there would be an end to all society4 ,but in their mutual harmony each contributes to a common purpose2 each follows the other's lead1 each commands and each obeys4 ,as a woman's conduct is controlled by public opinion1 so is her religion ruled by authority4 ,the daughter should follow her mother's religion1 the wife her husband's4 ,were that religion false1 the docility which leads mother and daughter to submit to nature's laws would blot out the sin of error in the sight of ,god4 ,unable to judge for themselves they should accept the judgment of father and husband as that of the church4 ,while women unaided cannot deduce the rules of their faith1 neither can they assign limits to that faith by the evidence of reason2 they allow themselves to be driven hither and thither by all sorts of external influences1 they are ever above or below the truth4 ,extreme in everything1 they are either altogether reckless or altogether pious2 you never find them able to combine virtue and piety4 ,their natural exaggeration is not wholly to blame2 the ill-regulated control exercised over them by men is partly responsible4 ,loose morals bring religion into contempt2 the terrors of remorse make it a tyrant2 this is why women have always too much or too little religion4 ,as a woman's religion is controlled by authority it is more important to show her plainly what to believe than to explain the reasons for belief2 for faith attached to ideas half-understood is the main source of fanaticism1 and faith demanded on behalf of what is absurd leads to madness or unbelief4 ,whether our catechisms tend to produce impiety rather than fanaticism ,i cannot say1 but ,i do know that they lead to one or other4 ,in the first place1 when you teach religion to little girls never make it gloomy or tiresome1 never make it a task or a duty1 and therefore never give them anything to learn by heart1 not even their prayers4 ,be content to say your own prayers regularly in their presence1 but do not compel them to join you4 ,let their prayers be short1 as ,christ himself has taught us4 ,let them always be said with becoming reverence and respect2 remember that if we ask the ,almighty to give heed to our words1 we should at least give heed to what we mean to say4 ,it does not much matter that a girl should learn her religion young1 but it does matter that she should learn it thoroughly1 and still more that she should learn to love it4 ,if you make religion a burden to her1 if you always speak of ,god's anger1 if in the name of religion you impose all sorts of disagreeable duties1 duties which she never sees you perform1 what can she suppose but that to learn one's catechism and to say one's prayers is only the duty of a little girl1 and she will long to be grown-up to escape1 like you1 from these duties4 ,example6 ,example6 ,without it you will never succeed in teaching children anything4 ,when you explain the ,articles of ,faith let it be by direct teaching1 not by question and answer4 ,children should only answer what they think1 not what has been drilled into them4 ,all the answers in the catechism are the wrong way about2 it is the scholar who instructs the teacher2 in the child's mouth they are a downright lie1 since they explain what he does not understand1 and affirm what he cannot believe4 ,find me1 if you can1 an intelligent man who could honestly say his catechism4 ,the first question ,i find in our catechism is as follows3 ,who created you and brought you into the world8 ,to which the girl1 who thinks it was her mother1 replies without hesitation1 ,it was ,god4 ,all she knows is that she is asked a question which she only half understands and she gives an answer she does not understand at all4 ,i wish some one who really understands the development of children's minds would write a catechism for them4 ,it might be the most useful book ever written1 and1 in my opinion1 it would do its author no little honour4 ,this at least is certain--if it were a good book it would be very unlike our catechisms4 ,such a catechism will not be satisfactory unless the child can answer the questions of its own accord without having to learn the answers2 indeed the child will often ask the questions itself4 ,an example is required to make my meaning plain and ,i feel how ill equipped ,i am to furnish such an example4 ,i will try to give some sort of outline of my meaning4 ,to get to the first question in our catechism ,i suppose we must begin somewhat after the following fashion4 ,,nurse3 ,do you remember when your mother was a little girl8 ,,child3 ,no1 nurse4 ,,nurse3 ,why not1 when you have such a good memory8 ,,child3 ,i was not alive4 ,,nurse3 ,then you were not always alive6 ,,child3 ,no4 ,,nurse3 ,will you live for ever6 ,,child3 ,yes4 ,,nurse3 ,are you young or old8 ,,child3 ,i am young4 ,,nurse3 ,is your grandmamma old or young8 ,,child3 ,she is old4 ,,nurse3 ,was she ever young8 ,,child3 ,yes4 ,,nurse3 ,why is she not young now8 ,,child3 ,she has grown old4 ,,nurse3 ,will you grow old too8 ,,child3 ,i don't know4 ,,nurse3 ,where are your last year's frocks8 ,,child3 ,they have been unpicked4 ,,nurse3 ,why6 ,,child3 ,because they were too small for me4 ,,nurse3 ,why were they too small8 ,,child3 ,i have grown bigger4 ,,nurse3 ,will you grow any more6 ,,child3 ,oh1 yes4 ,,nurse3 ,and what becomes of big girls8 ,,child3 ,they grow into women4 ,,nurse3 ,and what becomes of women6 ,,child3 ,they are mothers4 ,,nurse3 ,and what becomes of mothers8 ,,child3 ,they grow old4 ,,nurse3 ,will you grow old8 ,,child3 ,when ,i am a mother4 ,,nurse3 ,and what becomes of old people8 ,,child3 ,i don't know4 ,,nurse3 ,what became of your grandfather8 ,,child3 ,he died4 ,footnote3 ,the child will say this because she has heard it said2 but you must make sure she knows what death is1 for the idea is not so simple and within the child's grasp as people think4 ,in that little poem ,abel you will find an example of the way to teach them4 ,this charming work breathes a delightful simplicity with which one should feed one's own mind so as to talk with children4 ,,nurse3 ,why did he die8 ,,child3 ,because he was so old4 ,,nurse3 ,what becomes of old people6 ,,child3 ,they die4 ,,nurse3 ,and when you are old----8 ,,child3 ,oh nurse6 ,i don't want to die6 ,,nurse3 ,my dear1 no one wants to die1 and everybody dies4 ,,child3 ,why1 will mamma die too6 ,,nurse3 ,yes1 like everybody else4 ,women grow old as well as men1 and old age ends in death4 ,,child3 ,what must ,i do to grow old very1 very slowly8 ,,nurse3 ,be good while you are little4 ,,child3 ,i will always be good1 nurse4 ,,nurse3 ,so much the better4 ,but do you suppose you will live for ever8 ,,child3 ,when ,i am very1 very old---- ,,nurse3 ,well8 ,,child3 ,when we are so very old you say we must die8 ,,nurse3 ,you must die some day4 ,,child3 ,oh dear6 ,i suppose ,i must4 ,,nurse3 ,who lived before you8 ,,child3 ,my father and mother4 ,,nurse3 ,and before them8 ,,child3 ,their father and mother4 ,,nurse3 ,who will live after you8 ,,child3 ,my children4 ,,nurse3 ,who will live after them8 ,,child3 ,their children4 ,in this way1 by concrete examples1 you will find a beginning and end for the human race like everything else--that is to say1 a father and mother who never had a father and mother1 and children who will never have children of their own4 ,it is only after a long course of similar questions that we are ready for the first question in the catechism2 then alone can we put the question and the child may be able to understand it4 ,but what a gap there is between the first and the second question which is concerned with the definitions of the divine nature4 ,when will this chasm be bridged8 ,god is a spirit4 ,and what is a spirit8 ,shall ,i start the child upon this difficult question of metaphysics which grown men find so hard to understand8 ,these are no questions for a little girl to answer2 if she asks them1 it is as much or more than we can expect4 ,in that case ,i should tell her quite simply1 ,you ask me what ,god is2 it is not easy to say2 we can neither hear nor see nor handle ,god2 we can only know ,him by ,his works4 ,to learn what ,he is1 you must wait till you know what ,he has done4 ,if our dogmas are all equally true1 they are not equally important4 ,it makes little difference to the glory of ,god that we should perceive it everywhere1 but it does make a difference to human society1 and to every member of that society1 that a man should know and do the duties which are laid upon him by the law of ,god1 his duty to his neighbour and to himself4 ,this is what we should always be teaching one another1 and it is this which fathers and mothers are specially bound to teach their little ones4 ,whether a virgin became the mother of her ,creator1 whether she gave birth to ,god1 or merely to a man into whom ,god has entered1 whether the ,father and the ,son are of the same substance or of like substance only1 whether the ,spirit proceeded from one or both of these who are but one1 or from both together1 however important these questions may seem1 ,i cannot see that it is any more necessary for the human race to come to a decision with regard to them than to know what day to keep ,easter1 or whether we should tell our beads1 fast1 and refuse to eat meat1 speak ,latin or ,french in church1 adorn the walls with statues1 hear or say mass1 and have no wife of our own4 ,let each think as he pleases2 ,i cannot see that it matters to any one but himself2 for my own part it is no concern of mine4 ,but what does concern my fellow-creatures and myself alike is to know that there is indeed a judge of human fate1 that we are all ,his children1 that ,he bids us all be just1 ,he bids us love one another1 ,he bids us be kindly and merciful1 ,he bids us keep our word with all men1 even with our own enemies and ,his2 we must know that the apparent happiness of this world is naught2 that there is another life to come1 in which this ,supreme ,being will be the rewarder of the just and the judge of the unjust4 ,children need to be taught these doctrines and others like them and all citizens require to be persuaded of their truth4 ,whoever sets his face against these doctrines is indeed guilty2 he is the disturber of the peace1 the enemy of society4 ,whoever goes beyond these doctrines and seeks to make us the slaves of his private opinions1 reaches the same goal by another way2 to establish his own kind of order he disturbs the peace2 in his rash pride he makes himself the interpreter of the ,divine1 and in ,his name demands the homage and the reverence of mankind2 so far as may be1 he sets himself in ,god's place2 he should receive the punishment of sacrilege if he is not punished for his intolerance4 ,give no heed1 therefore1 to all those mysterious doctrines which are words without ideas for us1 all those strange teachings1 the study of which is too often offered as a substitute for virtue1 a study which more often makes men mad rather than good4 ,keep your children ever within the little circle of dogmas which are related to morality4 ,convince them that the only useful learning is that which teaches us to act rightly4 ,do not make your daughters theologians and casuists2 only teach them such things of heaven as conduce to human goodness2 train them to feel that they are always in the presence of ,god1 who sees their thoughts and deeds1 their virtue and their pleasures2 teach them to do good without ostentation and because they love it1 to suffer evil without a murmur1 because ,god will reward them2 in a word to be all their life long what they will be glad to have been when they appear in ,his presence4 ,this is true religion2 this alone is incapable of abuse1 impiety1 or fanaticism4 ,let those who will1 teach a religion more sublime1 but this is the only religion ,i know4 ,moreover1 it is as well to observe that1 until the age when the reason becomes enlightened1 when growing emotion gives a voice to conscience1 what is wrong for young people is what those about have decided to be wrong4 ,what they are told to do is good2 what they are forbidden to do is bad2 that is all they ought to know3 this shows how important it is for girls1 even more than for boys1 that the right people should be chosen to be with them and to have authority over them4 ,at last there comes a time when they begin to judge things for themselves1 and that is the time to change your method of education4 ,perhaps ,i have said too much already4 ,to what shall we reduce the education of our women if we give them no law but that of conventional prejudice8 ,let us not degrade so far the set which rules over us1 and which does us honour when we have not made it vile4 ,for all mankind there is a law anterior to that of public opinion4 ,all other laws should bend before the inflexible control of this law2 it is the judge of public opinion1 and only in so far as the esteem of men is in accordance with this law has it any claim on our obedience4 ,this law is our individual conscience4 ,i will not repeat what has been said already2 it is enough to point out that if these two laws clash1 the education of women will always be imperfect4 ,right feeling without respect for public opinion will not give them that delicacy of soul which lends to right conduct the charm of social approval2 while respect for public opinion without right feeling will only make false and wicked women who put appearances in the place of virtue4 ,it is1 therefore1 important to cultivate a faculty which serves as judge between the two guides1 which does not permit conscience to go astray and corrects the errors of prejudice4 ,that faculty is reason4 ,but what a crowd of questions arise at this word4 ,are women capable of solid reason2 should they cultivate it1 can they cultivate it successfully8 ,is this culture useful in relation to the functions laid upon them8 ,is it compatible with becoming simplicity8 ,the different ways of envisaging and answering these questions lead to two extremes2 some would have us keep women indoors sewing and spinning with their maids2 thus they make them nothing more than the chief servant of their master4 ,others1 not content to secure their rights1 lead them to usurp ours2 for to make woman our superior in all the qualities proper to her sex1 and to make her our equal in all the rest1 what is this but to transfer to the woman the superiority which nature has given to her husband8 ,the reason which teaches a man his duties is not very complex2 the reason which teaches a woman hers is even simpler4 ,the obedience and fidelity which she owes to her husband1 the tenderness and care due to her children1 are such natural and self-evident consequences of her position that she cannot honestly refuse her consent to the inner voice which is her guide1 nor fail to discern her duty in her natural inclination4 ,i would not altogether blame those who would restrict a woman to the labours of her sex and would leave her in profound ignorance of everything else2 but that would require a standard of morality at once very simple and very healthy1 or a life withdrawn from the world4 ,in great towns1 among immoral men1 such a woman would be too easily led astray2 her virtue would too often be at the mercy of circumstances2 in this age of philosophy1 virtue must be able to resist temptation2 she must know beforehand what she may hear and what she should think of it4 ,moreover1 in submission to man's judgment she should deserve his esteem2 above all she should obtain the esteem of her husband2 she should not only make him love her person1 she should make him approve her conduct2 she should justify his choice before the world1 and do honour to her husband through the honour given to the wife4 ,but how can she set about this task if she is ignorant of our institutions1 our customs1 our notions of propriety1 if she knows nothing of the source of man's judgment1 nor the passions by which it is swayed6 ,since she depends both on her own conscience and on public opinion1 she must learn to know and reconcile these two laws1 and to put her own conscience first only when the two are opposed to each other4 ,she becomes the judge of her own judges1 she decides when she should obey and when she should refuse her obedience4 ,she weighs their prejudices before she accepts or rejects them2 she learns to trace them to their source1 to foresee what they will be1 and to turn them in her own favour2 she is careful never to give cause for blame if duty allows her to avoid it4 ,this cannot be properly done without cultivating her mind and reason4 ,i always come back to my first principle and it supplies the solution of all my difficulties4 ,i study what is1 ,i seek its cause1 and ,i discover in the end that what is1 is good4 ,i go to houses where the master and mistress do the honours together4 ,they are equally well educated1 equally polite1 equally well equipped with wit and good taste1 both of them are inspired with the same desire to give their guests a good reception and to send every one away satisfied4 ,the husband omits no pains to be attentive to every one2 he comes and goes and sees to every one and takes all sorts of trouble2 he is attention itself4 ,the wife remains in her place2 a little circle gathers round her and apparently conceals the rest of the company from her2 yet she sees everything that goes on1 no one goes without a word with her2 she has omitted nothing which might interest anybody1 she has said nothing unpleasant to any one1 and without any fuss the least is no more overlooked than the greatest4 ,dinner is announced1 they take their places2 the man knowing the assembled guests will place them according to his knowledge2 the wife1 without previous acquaintance1 never makes a mistake2 their looks and bearing have already shown her what is wanted and every one will find himself where he wishes to be4 ,i do not assert that the servants forget no one4 ,the master of the house may have omitted no one1 but the mistress perceives what you like and sees that you get it2 while she is talking to her neighbour she has one eye on the other end of the table2 she sees who is not eating because he is not hungry and who is afraid to help himself because he is clumsy and timid4 ,when the guests leave the table every one thinks she has had no thought but for him1 everybody thinks she has had no time to eat anything1 but she has really eaten more than anybody4 ,when the guests are gone1 husband and wife tails over the events of the evening4 ,he relates what was said to him1 what was said and done by those with whom he conversed4 ,if the lady is not always quite exact in this respect1 yet on the other hand she perceived what was whispered at the other end of the room2 she knows what so-and-so thought1 and what was the meaning of this speech or that gesture2 there is scarcely a change of expression for which she has not an explanation in readiness1 and she is almost always right4 ,the same turn of mind which makes a woman of the world such an excellent hostess1 enables a flirt to excel in the art of amusing a number of suitors4 ,coquetry1 cleverly carried out1 demands an even finer discernment than courtesy2 provided a polite lady is civil to everybody1 she has done fairly well in any case2 but the flirt would soon lose her hold by such clumsy uniformity2 if she tries to be pleasant to all her lovers alike1 she will disgust them all4 ,in ordinary social intercourse the manners adopted towards everybody are good enough for all2 no question is asked as to private likes or dislikes provided all are alike well received4 ,but in love1 a favour shared with others is an insult4 ,a man of feeling would rather be singled out for ill-treatment than be caressed with the crowd1 and the worst that can befall him is to be treated like every one else4 ,so a woman who wants to keep several lovers at her feet must persuade every one of them that she prefers him1 and she must contrive to do this in the sight of all the rest1 each of whom is equally convinced that he is her favourite4 ,if you want to see a man in a quandary1 place him between two women with each of whom he has a secret understanding1 and see what a fool he looks4 ,but put a woman in similar circumstances between two men1 and the results will be even more remarkable2 you will be astonished at the skill with which she cheats them both1 and makes them laugh at each other4 ,now if that woman were to show the same confidence in both1 if she were to be equally familiar with both1 how could they be deceived for a moment8 ,if she treated them alike1 would she not show that they both had the same claims upon her8 ,oh1 she is far too clever for that2 so far from treating them just alike1 she makes a marked difference between them1 and she does it so skilfully that the man she flatters thinks it is affection1 and the man she ill uses think it is spite4 ,so that each of them believes she is thinking of him1 when she is thinking of no one but herself4 ,a general desire to please suggests similar measures2 people would be disgusted with a woman's whims if they were not skilfully managed1 and when they are artistically distributed her servants are more than ever enslaved4 ,usa ogn'arte la donna1 onde sia colto ,nella sua rete alcun novello amante2 ,ne con tutti1 ne sempre un stesso volto ,serba2 ma cangia a tempo atto e sembiante4 ,tasso1 ,jerus4 ,del41 c4 iv41 v4 #hg4 ,what is the secret of this art8 ,is it not the result of a delicate and continuous observation which shows her what is taking place in a man's heart1 so that she is able to encourage or to check every hidden impulse8 ,can this art be acquired8 ,no2 it is born with women2 it is common to them all1 and men never show it to the same degree4 ,it is one of the distinctive characters of the sex4 ,self-possession1 penetration1 delicate observation1 this is a woman's science2 the skill to make use of it is her chief accomplishment4 ,this is what is1 and we have seen why it is so4 ,it is said that women are false4 ,they become false4 ,they are really endowed with skill not duplicity2 in the genuine inclinations of their sex they are not false even when they tell a lie4 ,why do you consult their words when it is not their mouths that speak8 ,consult their eyes1 their colour1 their breathing1 their timid manner1 their slight resistance1 that is the language nature gave them for your answer4 ,the lips always say ,no1 and rightly so2 but the tone is not always the same1 and that cannot lie4 ,has not a woman the same needs as a man1 but without the same right to make them known8 ,her fate would be too cruel if she had no language in which to express her legitimate desires except the words which she dare not utter4 ,must her modesty condemn her to misery8 ,does she not require a means of indicating her inclinations without open expression8 ,what skill is needed to hide from her lover what she would fain reveal6 ,is it not of vital importance that she should learn to touch his heart without showing that she cares for him8 ,it is a pretty story that tale of ,galatea with her apple and her clumsy flight4 ,what more is needed8 ,will she tell the shepherd who pursues her among the willows that she only flees that he may follow8 ,if she did1 it would be a lie2 for she would no longer attract him4 ,the more modest a woman is1 the more art she needs1 even with her husband4 ,yes1 ,i maintain that coquetry1 kept within bounds1 becomes modest and true1 and out of it springs a law of right conduct4 ,one of my opponents has very truly asserted that virtue is one2 you cannot disintegrate it and choose this and reject the other4 ,if you love virtue1 you love it in its entirety1 and you close your heart when you can1 and you always close your lips to the feelings which you ought not to allow4 ,moral truth is not only what is1 but what is good2 what is bad ought not to be1 and ought not to be confessed1 especially when that confession produces results which might have been avoided4 ,if ,i were tempted to steal1 and in confessing it ,i tempted another to become my accomplice1 the very confession of my temptation would amount to a yielding to that temptation4 ,why do you say that modesty makes women false8 ,are those who lose their modesty more sincere than the rest8 ,not so1 they are a thousandfold more deceitful4 ,this degree of depravity is due to many vices1 none of which is rejected1 vices which owe their power to intrigue and falsehood4 ,footnote3 ,i know that women who have openly decided on a certain course of conduct profess that their lack of concealment is a virtue in itself1 and swear that1 with one exception1 they are possessed of all the virtues2 but ,i am sure they never persuaded any but fools to believe them4 ,when the natural curb is removed from their sex1 what is there left to restrain them8 ,what honour will they prize when they have rejected the honour of their sex8 ,having once given the rein to passion they have no longer any reason for self-control4 ,nec femina1 amissa pudicitia1 alia abnuerit4 ,no author ever understood more thoroughly the heart of both sexes than ,tacitus when he wrote those words4 ,on the other hand1 those who are not utterly shameless1 who take no pride in their faults1 who are able to conceal their desires even from those who inspire them1 those who confess their passion most reluctantly1 these are the truest and most sincere1 these are they on whose fidelity you may generally rely4 ,the only example ,i know which might be quoted as a recognised exception to these remarks is ,mlle4 de ,l',enclos2 and she was considered a prodigy4 ,in her scorn for the virtues of women1 she practised1 so they say1 the virtues of a man4 ,she is praised for her frankness and uprightness2 she was a trustworthy acquaintance and a faithful friend4 ,to complete the picture of her glory it is said that she became a man4 ,that may be1 but in spite of her high reputation ,i should no more desire that man as my friend than as my mistress4 ,this is not so irrelevant as it seems4 ,i am aware of the tendencies of our modern philosophy which make a jest of female modesty and its so-called insincerity2 ,i also perceive that the most certain result of this philosophy will be to deprive the women of this century of such shreds of honour as they still possess4 ,on these grounds ,i think we may decide in general terms what sort of education is suited to the female mind1 and the objects to which we should turn its attention in early youth4 ,as ,i have already said1 the duties of their sex are more easily recognised than performed4 ,they must learn in the first place to love those duties by considering the advantages to be derived from them--that is the only way to make duty easy4 ,every age and condition has its own duties4 ,we are quick to see our duty if we love it4 ,honour your position as a woman1 and in whatever station of life to which it shall please heaven to call you1 you will be well off4 ,the essential thing is to be what nature has made you2 women are only too ready to be what men would have them4 ,the search for abstract and speculative truths1 for principles and axioms in science1 for all that tends to wide generalisation1 is beyond a woman's grasp2 their studies should be thoroughly practical4 ,it is their business to apply the principles discovered by men1 it is their place to make the observations which lead men to discover those principles4 ,a woman's thoughts1 beyond the range of her immediate duties1 should be directed to the study of men1 or the acquirement of that agreeable learning whose sole end is the formation of taste2 for the works of genius are beyond her reach1 and she has neither the accuracy nor the attention for success in the exact sciences2 as for the physical sciences1 to decide the relations between living creatures and the laws of nature is the task of that sex which is more active and enterprising1 which sees more things1 that sex which is possessed of greater strength and is more accustomed to the exercise of that strength4 ,woman1 weak as she is and limited in her range of observation1 perceives and judges the forces at her disposal to supplement her weakness1 and those forces are the passions of man4 ,her own mechanism is more powerful than ours2 she has many levers which may set the human heart in motion4 ,she must find a way to make us desire what she cannot achieve unaided and what she considers necessary or pleasing2 therefore she must have a thorough knowledge of man's mind2 not an abstract knowledge of the mind of man in general1 but the mind of those men who are about her1 the mind of those men who have authority over her1 either by law or custom4 ,she must learn to divine their feelings from speech and action1 look and gesture4 ,by her own speech and action1 look and gesture1 she must be able to inspire them with the feelings she desires1 without seeming to have any such purpose4 ,the men will have a better philosophy of the human heart1 but she will read more accurately in the heart of men4 ,woman should discover1 so to speak1 an experimental morality1 man should reduce it to a system4 ,woman has more wit1 man more genius2 woman observes1 man reasons2 together they provide the clearest light and the profoundest knowledge which is possible to the unaided human mind2 in a word1 the surest knowledge of self and of others of which the human race is capable4 ,in this way art may constantly tend to the perfection of the instrument which nature has given us4 ,the world is woman's book2 if she reads it ill1 it is either her own fault or she is blinded by passion4 ,yet the genuine mother of a family is no woman of the world1 she is almost as much of a recluse as the nun in her convent4 ,those who have marriageable daughters should do what is or ought to be done for those who are entering the cloisters3 they should show them the pleasures they forsake before they are allowed to renounce them1 lest the deceitful picture of unknown pleasures should creep in to disturb the happiness of their retreat4 ,in ,france it is the girls who live in convents and the wives who flaunt in society4 ,among the ancients it was quite otherwise2 girls enjoyed1 as ,i have said already1 many games and public festivals2 the married women lived in retirement4 ,this was a more reasonable custom and more conducive to morality4 ,a girl may be allowed a certain amount of coquetry1 and she may be mainly occupied at amusement4 ,a wife has other responsibilities at home1 and she is no longer on the look-out for a husband2 but women would not appreciate the change1 and unluckily it is they who set the fashion4 ,mothers1 let your daughters be your companions4 ,give them good sense and an honest heart1 and then conceal from them nothing that a pure eye may behold4 ,balls1 assemblies1 sports1 the theatre itself2 everything which viewed amiss delights imprudent youth may be safely displayed to a healthy mind4 ,the more they know of these noisy pleasures1 the sooner they will cease to desire them4 ,i can fancy the outcry with which this will be received4 ,what girl will resist such an example8 ,their heads are turned by the first glimpse of the world2 not one of them is ready to give it up4 ,that may be2 but before you showed them this deceitful prospect1 did you prepare them to behold it without emotion8 ,did you tell them plainly what it was they would see8 ,did you show it in its true light8 ,did you arm them against the illusions of vanity8 ,did you inspire their young hearts with a taste for the true pleasures which are not to be met with in this tumult8 ,what precautions1 what steps1 did you take to preserve them from the false taste which leads them astray8 ,not only have you done nothing to preserve their minds from the tyranny of prejudice1 you have fostered that prejudice2 you have taught them to desire every foolish amusement they can get4 ,your own example is their teacher4 ,young people on their entrance into society have no guide but their mother1 who is often just as silly as they are themselves1 and quite unable to show them things except as she sees them herself4 ,her example is stronger than reason2 it justifies them in their own eyes1 and the mother's authority is an unanswerable excuse for the daughter4 ,if ,i ask a mother to bring her daughter into society1 ,i assume that she will show it in its true light4 ,the evil begins still earlier2 the convents are regular schools of coquetry2 not that honest coquetry which ,i have described1 but a coquetry the source of every kind of misconduct1 a coquetry which turns out girls who are the most ridiculous little madams4 ,when they leave the convent to take their place in smart society1 young women find themselves quite at home4 ,they have been educated for such a life2 is it strange that they like it8 ,i am afraid what ,i am going to say may be based on prejudice rather than observation1 but so far as ,i can see1 one finds more family affection1 more good wives and loving mothers in ,protestant than in ,catholic countries2 if that is so1 we cannot fail to suspect that the difference is partly due to the convent schools4 ,the charms of a peaceful family life must be known to be enjoyed2 their delights should be tasted in childhood4 ,it is only in our father's home that we learn to love our own1 and a woman whose mother did not educate her herself will not be willing to educate her own children4 ,unfortunately1 there is no such thing as home education in our large towns4 ,society is so general and so mixed there is no place left for retirement1 and even in the home we live in public4 ,we live in company till we have no family1 and we scarcely know our own relations1 we see them as strangers2 and the simplicity of home life disappears together with the sweet familiarity which was its charm4 ,in this wise do we draw with our mother's milk a taste for the pleasures of the age and the maxims by which it is controlled4 ,girls are compelled to assume an air of propriety so that men may be deceived into marrying them by their appearance4 ,but watch these young people for a moment2 under a pretence of coyness they barely conceal the passion which devours them1 and already you may read in their eager eyes their desire to imitate their mothers4 ,it is not a husband they want1 but the licence of a married woman4 ,what need of a husband when there are so many other resources2 but a husband there must be to act as a screen4 ,footnote3 ,the way of a man in his youth was one of the four things that the sage could not understand2 the fifth was the shamelessness of an adulteress4 ,quae comedit1 et tergens os suum dicit2 non sum operata malum4 ,prov4 xxx4 #bj4 ,there is modesty on the brow1 but vice in the heart2 this sham modesty is one of its outward signs2 they affect it that they may be rid of it once for all4 ,women of ,paris and ,london1 forgive me6 ,there may be miracles everywhere1 but ,i am not aware of them2 and if there is even one among you who is really pure in heart1 ,i know nothing of our institutions4 ,all these different methods of education lead alike to a taste for the pleasures of the great world1 and to the passions which this taste so soon kindles4 ,in our great towns depravity begins at birth2 in the smaller towns it begins with reason4 ,young women brought up in the country are soon taught to despise the happy simplicity of their lives1 and hasten to ,paris to share the corruption of ours4 ,vices1 cloaked under the fair name of accomplishments1 are the sole object of their journey2 ashamed to find themselves so much behind the noble licence of the ,parisian ladies1 they hasten to become worthy of the name of ,parisian4 ,which is responsible for the evil--the place where it begins1 or the place where it is accomplished8 ,i would not have a sensible mother bring her girl to ,paris to show her these sights so harmful to others2 but ,i assert that if she did so1 either the girl has been badly brought up1 or such sights have little danger for her4 ,with good taste1 good sense1 and a love of what is right1 these things are less attractive than to those who abandon themselves to their charm4 ,in ,paris you may see giddy young things hastening to adopt the tone and fashions of the town for some six months1 so that they may spend the rest of their life in disgrace2 but who gives any heed to those who1 disgusted with the rout1 return to their distant home and are contented with their lot when they have compared it with that which others desire4 ,how many young wives have ,i seen whose good-natured husbands have taken them to ,paris where they might live if they pleased2 but they have shrunk from it and returned home more willingly than they went1 saying tenderly1 ,ah1 let us go back to our cottage1 life is happier there than in these palaces4 ,we do not know how many there are who have not bowed the knee to ,baal1 who scorn his senseless worship4 ,fools make a stir2 good women pass unnoticed4 ,if so many women preserve a judgment which is proof against temptation1 in spite of universal prejudice1 in spite of the bad education of girls1 what would their judgment have been1 had it been strengthened by suitable instruction1 or rather left unaffected by evil teaching1 for to preserve or restore the natural feelings is our main business8 ,you can do this without preaching endless sermons to your daughters1 without crediting them with your harsh morality4 ,the only effect of such teaching is to inspire a dislike for the teacher and the lessons4 ,in talking to a young girl you need not make her afraid of her duties1 nor need you increase the burden laid upon her by nature4 ,when you explain her duties speak plainly and pleasantly2 do not let her suppose that the performance of these duties is a dismal thing--away with every affectation of disgust or pride4 ,every thought which we desire to arouse should find its expression in our pupils1 their catechism of conduct should be as brief and plain as their catechism of religion1 but it need not be so serious4 ,show them that these same duties are the source of their pleasures and the basis of their rights4 ,is it so hard to win love by love1 happiness by an amiable disposition1 obedience by worth1 and honour by self-respect8 ,how fair are these woman's rights1 how worthy of reverence1 how dear to the heart of man when a woman is able to show their worth6 ,these rights are no privilege of years2 a woman's empire begins with her virtues2 her charms are only in the bud1 yet she reigns already by the gentleness of her character and the dignity of her modesty4 ,is there any man so hard-hearted and uncivilised that he does not abate his pride and take heed to his manners with a sweet and virtuous girl of sixteen1 who listens but says little2 her bearing is modest1 her conversation honest1 her beauty does not lead her to forget her sex and her youth1 her very timidity arouses interest1 while she wins for herself the respect which she shows to others8 ,these external signs are not devoid of meaning2 they do not rest entirely upon the charms of sense2 they arise from that conviction that we all feel that women are the natural judges of a man's worth4 ,who would be scorned by women8 not even he who has ceased to desire their love4 ,and do you suppose that ,i1 who tell them such harsh truths1 am indifferent to their verdict8 ,reader1 ,i care more for their approval than for yours2 you are often more effeminate than they4 ,while ,i scorn their morals1 ,i will revere their justice2 ,i care not though they hate me1 if ,i can compel their esteem4 ,what great things might be accomplished by their influence if only we could bring it to bear6 ,alas for the age whose women lose their ascendancy1 and fail to make men respect their judgment6 ,this is the last stage of degradation4 ,every virtuous nation has shown respect to women4 ,consider ,sparta1 ,germany1 and ,rome2 ,rome the throne of glory and virtue1 if ever they were enthroned on earth4 ,the ,roman women awarded honour to the deeds of great generals1 they mourned in public for the fathers of the country1 their awards and their tears were alike held sacred as the most solemn utterance of the ,republic4 ,every great revolution began with the women4 ,through a woman ,rome gained her liberty1 through a woman the plebeians won the consulate1 through a woman the tyranny of the decemvirs was overthrown2 it was the women who saved ,rome when besieged by ,coriolanus4 ,what would you have said at the sight of this procession1 you ,frenchmen who pride yourselves on your gallantry1 would you not have followed it with shouts of laughter8 ,you and ,i see things with such different eyes1 and perhaps we are both right4 ,such a procession formed of the fairest beauties of ,france would be an indecent spectacle2 but let it consist of ,roman ladies1 you will all gaze with the eyes of the ,volscians and feel with the heart of ,coriolanus4 ,i will go further and maintain that virtue is no less favourable to love than to other rights of nature1 and that it adds as much to the power of the beloved as to that of the wife or mother4 ,there is no real love without enthusiasm1 and no enthusiasm without an object of perfection real or supposed1 but always present in the imagination4 ,what is there to kindle the hearts of lovers for whom this perfection is nothing1 for whom the loved one is merely the means to sensual pleasure8 ,nay1 not thus is the heart kindled1 not thus does it abandon itself to those sublime transports which form the rapture of lovers and the charm of love4 ,love is an illusion1 ,i grant you1 but its reality consists in the feelings it awakes1 in the love of true beauty which it inspires4 ,that beauty is not to be found in the object of our affections1 it is the creation of our illusions4 ,what matter6 do we not still sacrifice all those baser feelings to the imaginary model8 and we still feed our hearts on the virtues we attribute to the beloved1 we still withdraw ourselves from the baseness of human nature4 ,what lover is there who would not give his life for his mistress8 ,what gross and sensual passion is there in a man who is willing to die8 ,we scoff at the knights of old2 they knew the meaning of love2 we know nothing but debauchery4 ,when the teachings of romance began to seem ridiculous1 it was not so much the work of reason as of immorality4 ,natural relations remain the same throughout the centuries1 their good or evil effects are unchanged2 prejudices1 masquerading as reason1 can but change their outward seeming2 self-mastery1 even at the behest of fantastic opinions1 will not cease to be great and good4 ,and the true motives of honour will not fail to appeal to the heart of every woman who is able to seek happiness in life in her woman's duties4 ,to a high-souled woman chastity above all must be a delightful virtue4 ,she sees all the kingdoms of the world before her and she triumphs over herself and them2 she sits enthroned in her own soul and all men do her homage2 a few passing struggles are crowned with perpetual glory2 she secures the affection1 or it may be the envy1 she secures in any case the esteem of both sexes and the universal respect of her own4 ,the loss is fleeting1 the gain is permanent4 ,what a joy for a noble heart--the pride of virtue combined with beauty4 ,let her be a heroine of romance2 she will taste delights more exquisite than those of ,lais and ,cleopatra2 and when her beauty is fled1 her glory and her joys remain2 she alone can enjoy the past4 ,the harder and more important the duties1 the stronger and clearer must be the reasons on which they are based4 ,there is a sort of pious talk about the most serious subjects which is dinned in vain into the ears of young people4 ,this talk1 quite unsuited to their ideas and the small importance they attach to it in secret1 inclines them to yield readily to their inclinations1 for lack of any reasons for resistance drawn from the facts themselves4 ,no doubt a girl brought up to goodness and piety has strong weapons against temptation2 but one whose heart1 or rather her ears1 are merely filled with the jargon of piety1 will certainly fall a prey to the first skilful seducer who attacks her4 ,a young and beautiful girl will never despise her body1 she will never really deplore sins which her beauty leads men to commit1 she will never lament earnestly in the sight of ,god that she is an object of desire1 she will never be convinced that the tenderest feeling is an invention of the ,evil ,one4 ,give her other and more pertinent reasons for her own sake1 for these will have no effect4 ,it will be worse to instil1 as is often done1 ideas which contradict each other1 and after having humbled and degraded her person and her charms as the stain of sin1 to bid her reverence that same vile body as the temple of ,jesus ,christ4 ,ideas too sublime and too humble are equally ineffective and they cannot both be true4 ,a reason adapted to her age and sex is what is needed4 ,considerations of duty are of no effect unless they are combined with some motive for the performance of our duty4 ,quae quia non liceat non facit1 illa facit4 ,,ovid1 ,amor4 ,i4 iii4 eleg4 iv4 ,one would not suspect ,ovid of such a harsh judgment4 ,if you would inspire young people with a love of good conduct avoid saying1 ,be good2 make it their interest to be good2 make them feel the value of goodness and they will love it4 ,it is not enough to show this effect in the distant future1 show it now1 in the relations of the present1 in the character of their lovers4 ,describe a good man1 a man of worth1 teach them to recognise him when they see him1 to love him for their own sake2 convince them that such a man alone can make them happy as friend1 wife1 or mistress4 ,let reason lead the way to virtue2 make them feel that the empire of their sex and all the advantages derived from it depend not merely on the right conduct1 the morality1 of women1 but also on that of men2 that they have little hold over the vile and base1 and that the lover is incapable of serving his mistress unless he can do homage to virtue4 ,you may then be sure that when you describe the manners of our age you will inspire them with a genuine disgust2 when you show them men of fashion they will despise them2 you will give them a distaste for their maxims1 an aversion to their sentiments1 and a scorn for their empty gallantry2 you will arouse a nobler ambition1 to reign over great and strong souls1 the ambition of the ,spartan women to rule over men4 ,a bold1 shameless1 intriguing woman1 who can only attract her lovers by coquetry and retain them by her favours1 wins a servile obedience in common things2 in weighty and important matters she has no influence over them4 ,but the woman who is both virtuous1 wise1 and charming1 she who1 in a word1 combines love and esteem1 can send them at her bidding to the end of the world1 to war1 to glory1 and to death at her behest4 ,this is a fine kingdom and worth the winning4 ,this is the spirit in which ,sophy has been educated1 she has been trained carefully rather than strictly1 and her taste has been followed rather than thwarted4 ,let us say just a word about her person1 according to the description ,i have given to ,emile and the picture he himself has formed of the wife in whom he hopes to find happiness4 ,i cannot repeat too often that ,i am not dealing with prodigies4 ,emile is no prodigy1 neither is ,sophy4 ,he is a man and she is a woman2 this is all they have to boast of4 ,in the present confusion between the sexes it is almost a miracle to belong to one's own sex4 ,sophy is well born and she has a good disposition2 she is very warm-hearted1 and this warmth of heart sometimes makes her imagination run away with her4 ,her mind is keen rather than accurate1 her temper is pleasant but variable1 her person pleasing though nothing out of the common1 her countenance bespeaks a soul and it speaks true2 you may meet her with indifference1 but you will not leave her without emotion4 ,others possess good qualities which she lacks2 others possess her good qualities in a higher degree1 but in no one are these qualities better blended to form a happy disposition4 ,she knows how to make the best of her very faults1 and if she were more perfect she would be less pleasing4 ,sophy is not beautiful2 but in her presence men forget the fairer women1 and the latter are dissatisfied with themselves4 ,at first sight she is hardly pretty2 but the more we see her the prettier she is2 she wins where so many lose1 and what she wins she keeps4 ,her eyes might be finer1 her mouth more beautiful1 her stature more imposing2 but no one could have a more graceful figure1 a finer complexion1 a whiter hand1 a daintier foot1 a sweeter look1 and a more expressive countenance4 ,she does not dazzle2 she arouses interest2 she delights us1 we know not why4 ,sophy is fond of dress1 and she knows how to dress2 her mother has no other maid2 she has taste enough to dress herself well2 but she hates rich clothes2 her own are always simple but elegant4 ,she does not like showy but becoming things4 ,she does not know what colours are fashionable1 but she makes no mistake about those that suit her4 ,no girl seems more simply dressed1 but no one could take more pains over her toilet2 no article is selected at random1 and yet there is no trace of artificiality4 ,her dress is very modest in appearance and very coquettish in reality2 she does not display her charms1 she conceals them1 but in such a way as to enhance them4 ,when you see her you say1 ,that is a good modest girl1 but while you are with her1 you cannot take your eyes or your thoughts off her and one might say that this very simple adornment is only put on to be removed bit by bit by the imagination4 ,sophy has natural gifts2 she is aware of them1 and they have not been neglected2 but never having had a chance of much training she is content to use her pretty voice to sing tastefully and truly2 her little feet step lightly1 easily1 and gracefully1 she can always make an easy graceful courtesy4 ,she has had no singing master but her father1 no dancing mistress but her mother2 a neighbouring organist has given her a few lessons in playing accompaniments on the spinet1 and she has improved herself by practice4 ,at first she only wished to show off her hand on the dark keys2 then she discovered that the thin clear tone of the spinet made her voice sound sweeter2 little by little she recognised the charms of harmony2 as she grew older she at last began to enjoy the charms of expression1 to love music for its own sake4 ,but she has taste rather than talent2 she cannot read a simple air from notes4 ,needlework is what ,sophy likes best2 and the feminine arts have been taught her most carefully1 even those you would not expect1 such as cutting out and dressmaking4 ,there is nothing she cannot do with her needle1 and nothing that she does not take a delight in doing2 but lace-making is her favourite occupation1 because there is nothing which requires such a pleasing attitude1 nothing which calls for such grace and dexterity of finger4 ,she has also studied all the details of housekeeping2 she understands cooking and cleaning2 she knows the prices of food1 and also how to choose it2 she can keep accounts accurately1 she is her mother's housekeeper4 ,some day she will be the mother of a family2 by managing her father's house she is preparing to manage her own2 she can take the place of any of the servants and she is always ready to do so4 ,you cannot give orders unless you can do the work yourself2 that is why her mother sets her to do it4 ,sophy does not think of that2 her first duty is to be a good daughter1 and that is all she thinks about for the present4 ,her one idea is to help her mother and relieve her of some of her anxieties4 ,however1 she does not like them all equally well4 ,for instance1 she likes dainty food1 but she does not like cooking2 the details of cookery offend her1 and things are never clean enough for her4 ,she is extremely sensitive in this respect and carries her sensitiveness to a fault2 she would let the whole dinner boil over into the fire rather than soil her cuffs4 ,she has always disliked inspecting the kitchen-garden for the same reason4 ,the soil is dirty1 and as soon as she sees the manure heap she fancies there is a disagreeable smell4 ,this defect is the result of her mother's teaching4 ,according to her1 cleanliness is one of the most necessary of a woman's duties1 a special duty1 of the highest importance and a duty imposed by nature4 ,nothing could be more revolting than a dirty woman1 and a husband who tires of her is not to blame4 ,she insisted so strongly on this duty when ,sophy was little1 she required such absolute cleanliness in her person1 clothing1 room1 work1 and toilet1 that use has become habit1 till it absorbs one half of her time and controls the other2 so that she thinks less of how to do a thing than of how to do it without getting dirty4 ,yet this has not degenerated into mere affectation and softness2 there is none of the over refinement of luxury4 ,nothing but clean water enters her room2 she knows no perfumes but the scent of flowers1 and her husband will never find anything sweeter than her breath4 ,in conclusion1 the attention she pays to the outside does not blind her to the fact that time and strength are meant for greater tasks2 either she does not know or she despises that exaggerated cleanliness of body which degrades the soul4 ,sophy is more than clean1 she is pure4 ,i said that ,sophy was fond of good things4 ,she was so by nature2 but she became temperate by habit and now she is temperate by virtue4 ,little girls are not to be controlled1 as little boys are1 to some extent1 through their greediness4 ,this tendency may have ill effects on women and it is too dangerous to be left unchecked4 ,when ,sophy was little1 she did not always return empty handed if she was sent to her mother's cupboard1 and she was not quite to be trusted with sweets and sugar-almonds4 ,her mother caught her1 took them from her1 punished her1 and made her go without her dinner4 ,at last she managed to persuade her that sweets were bad for the teeth1 and that over-eating spoiled the figure4 ,thus ,sophy overcame her faults2 and when she grew older other tastes distracted her from this low kind of self-indulgence4 ,with awakening feeling greediness ceases to be the ruling passion1 both with men and women4 ,sophy has preserved her feminine tastes2 she likes milk and sweets2 she likes pastry and made-dishes1 but not much meat4 ,she has never tasted wine or spirits2 moreover1 she eats sparingly2 women1 who do not work so hard as men1 have less waste to repair4 ,in all things she likes what is good1 and knows how to appreciate it2 but she can also put up with what is not so good1 or can go without it4 ,sophy's mind is pleasing but not brilliant1 and thorough but not deep2 it is the sort of mind which calls for no remark1 as she never seems cleverer or stupider than oneself4 ,when people talk to her they always find what she says attractive1 though it may not be highly ornamental according to modern ideas of an educated woman2 her mind has been formed not only by reading1 but by conversation with her father and mother1 by her own reflections1 and by her own observations in the little world in which she has lived4 ,sophy is naturally merry2 as a child she was even giddy2 but her mother cured her of her silly ways1 little by little1 lest too sudden a change should make her self-conscious4 ,thus she became modest and retiring while still a child1 and now that she is a child no longer1 she finds it easier to continue this conduct than it would have been to acquire it without knowing why4 ,it is amusing to see her occasionally return to her old ways and indulge in childish mirth and then suddenly check herself1 with silent lips1 downcast eyes1 and rosy blushes2 neither child nor woman1 she may well partake of both4 ,sophy is too sensitive to be always good humoured1 but too gentle to let this be really disagreeable to other people2 it is only herself who suffers4 ,if you say anything that hurts her she does not sulk1 but her heart swells2 she tries to run away and cry4 ,in the midst of her tears1 at a word from her father or mother she returns at once laughing and playing1 secretly wiping her eyes and trying to stifle her sobs4 ,yet she has her whims2 if her temper is too much indulged it degenerates into rebellion1 and then she forgets herself4 ,but give her time to come round and her way of making you forget her wrong-doing is almost a virtue4 ,if you punish her she is gentle and submissive1 and you see that she is more ashamed of the fault than the punishment4 ,if you say nothing1 she never fails to make amends1 and she does it so frankly and so readily that you cannot be angry with her4 ,she would kiss the ground before the lowest servant and would make no fuss about it2 and as soon as she is forgiven1 you can see by her delight and her caresses that a load is taken off her heart4 ,in a word1 she endures patiently the wrong-doing of others1 and she is eager to atone for her own4 ,this amiability is natural to her sex when unspoiled4 ,woman is made to submit to man and to endure even injustice at his hands4 ,you will never bring young lads to this2 their feelings rise in revolt against injustice2 nature has not fitted them to put up with it4 ,gravem ,pelidae stomachum cedere nescii4 ,,horace1 lib4 i4 ode vi4 ,sophy's religion is reasonable and simple1 with few doctrines and fewer observances2 or rather as she knows no course of conduct but the right her whole life is devoted to the service of ,god and to doing good4 ,in all her parents' teaching of religion she has been trained to a reverent submission2 they have often said1 ,my little girl1 this is too hard for you2 your husband will teach you when you are grown up4 ,instead of long sermons about piety1 they have been content to preach by their example1 and this example is engraved on her heart4 ,sophy loves virtue2 this love has come to be her ruling passion2 she loves virtue because there is nothing fairer in itself1 she loves it because it is a woman's glory and because a virtuous woman is little lower than the angels2 she loves virtue as the only road to real happiness1 because she sees nothing but poverty1 neglect1 unhappiness1 shame1 and disgrace in the life of a bad woman2 she loves virtue because it is dear to her revered father and to her tender and worthy mother2 they are not content to be happy in their own virtue1 they desire hers2 and she finds her chief happiness in the hope of making them happy4 ,all these feelings inspire an enthusiasm which stirs her heart and keeps all its budding passions in subjection to this noble enthusiasm4 ,sophy will be chaste and good till her dying day2 she has vowed it in her secret heart1 and not before she knew how hard it would be to keep her vow2 she made this vow at a time when she would have revoked it had she been the slave of her senses4 ,sophy is not so fortunate as to be a charming ,french woman1 cold-hearted and vain1 who would rather attract attention than give pleasure1 who seeks amusement rather than delight4 ,she suffers from a consuming desire for love2 it even disturbs and troubles her heart in the midst of festivities2 she has lost her former liveliness1 and her taste for merry games2 far from being afraid of the tedium of solitude she desires it4 ,her thoughts go out to him who will make solitude sweet to her4 ,she finds strangers tedious1 she wants a lover1 not a circle of admirers4 ,she would rather give pleasure to one good man than be a general favourite1 or win that applause of society which lasts but a day and to-morrow is turned to scorn4 ,a woman's judgment develops sooner than a man's2 being on the defensive from her childhood up1 and intrusted with a treasure so hard to keep1 she is earlier acquainted with good and evil4 ,sophy is precocious by temperament in everything1 and her judgment is more formed than that of most girls of her age4 ,there is nothing strange in that1 maturity is not always reached at the same age4 ,sophy has been taught the duties and rights of her own sex and of ours4 ,she knows men's faults and women's vices2 she also knows their corresponding good qualities and virtues1 and has them by heart4 ,no one can have a higher ideal of a virtuous woman1 but she would rather think of a virtuous man1 a man of true worth2 she knows that she is made for such a man1 that she is worthy of him1 that she can make him as happy as he will make her2 she is sure she will know him when she sees him2 the difficulty is to find him4 ,women are by nature judges of a man's worth1 as he is of theirs2 this right is reciprocal1 and it is recognised as such both by men and women4 ,sophy recognises this right and exercises it1 but with the modesty becoming her youth1 her inexperience1 and her position2 she confines her judgment to what she knows1 and she only forms an opinion when it may help to illustrate some useful precept4 ,she is extremely careful what she says about those who are absent1 particularly if they are women4 ,she thinks that talking about each other makes women spiteful and satirical2 so long as they only talk about men they are merely just4 ,so ,sophy stops there4 ,as to women she never says anything at all about them1 except to tell the good she knows2 she thinks this is only fair to her sex2 and if she knows no good of any woman1 she says nothing1 and that is enough4 ,sophy has little knowledge of society1 but she is observant and obliging1 and all that she does is full of grace4 ,a happy disposition does more for her than much art4 ,she has a certain courtesy of her own1 which is not dependent on fashion1 and does not change with its changes2 it is not a matter of custom1 but it arises from a feminine desire to please4 ,she is unacquainted with the language of empty compliment1 nor does she invent more elaborate compliments of her own2 she does not say that she is greatly obliged1 that you do her too much honour1 that you should not take so much trouble1 etc4 ,still less does she try to make phrases of her own4 ,she responds to an attention or a customary piece of politeness by a courtesy or a mere ,thank you2 but this phrase in her mouth is quite enough4 ,if you do her a real service1 she lets her heart speak1 and its words are no empty compliment4 ,she has never allowed ,french manners to make her a slave to appearances2 when she goes from one room to another she does not take the arm of an old gentleman1 whom she would much rather help4 ,when a scented fop offers her this empty attention1 she leaves him on the staircase and rushes into the room saying that she is not lame4 ,indeed1 she will never wear high heels though she is not tall2 her feet are small enough to dispense with them4 ,not only does she adopt a silent and respectful attitude towards women1 but also towards married men1 or those who are much older than herself2 she will never take her place above them1 unless compelled to do so2 and she will return to her own lower place as soon as she can2 for she knows that the rights of age take precedence of those of sex1 as age is presumably wiser than youth1 and wisdom should be held in the greatest honour4 ,with young folks of her own age it is another matter2 she requires a different manner to gain their respect1 and she knows how to adopt it without dropping the modest ways which become her4 ,if they themselves are shy and modest1 she will gladly preserve the friendly familiarity of youth2 their innocent conversation will be merry but suitable2 if they become serious they must say something useful2 if they become silly1 she soon puts a stop to it1 for she has an utter contempt for the jargon of gallantry1 which she considers an insult to her sex4 ,she feels sure that the man she seeks does not speak that jargon1 and she will never permit in another what would be displeasing to her in him whose character is engraved on her heart4 ,her high opinion of the rights of women1 her pride in the purity of her feelings1 that active virtue which is the basis of her self-respect1 make her indignant at the sentimental speeches intended for her amusement4 ,she does not receive them with open anger1 but with a disconcerting irony or an unexpected iciness4 ,if a fair ,apollo displays his charms1 and makes use of his wit in the praise of her wit1 her beauty1 and her grace2 at the risk of offending him she is quite capable of saying politely1 ,sir1 ,i am afraid ,i know that better than you2 if we have nothing more interesting to talk about1 ,i think we may put an end to this conversation4 ,to say this with a deep courtesy1 and then to withdraw to a considerable distance1 is the work of a moment4 ,ask your lady-killers if it is easy to continue to babble to such1 an unsympathetic ear4 ,it is not that she is not fond of praise if it is really sincere1 and if she thinks you believe what you say4 ,you must show that you appreciate her merit if you would have her believe you4 ,her proud spirit may take pleasure in homage which is based upon esteem1 but empty compliments are always rejected2 ,sophy was not meant to practise the small arts of the dancing-girl4 ,with a judgment so mature1 and a mind like that of a woman of twenty1 ,sophy1 at fifteen1 is no longer treated as a child by her parents4 ,no sooner do they perceive the first signs of youthful disquiet than they hasten to anticipate its development1 their conversations with her are wise and tender4 ,these wise and tender conversations are in keeping with her age and disposition4 ,if her disposition is what ,i fancy why should not her father speak to her somewhat after this fashion8 ,you are a big girl now1 ,sophy1 you will soon be a woman4 ,we want you to be happy1 for our own sakes as well as yours1 for our happiness depends on yours4 ,a good girl finds her own happiness in the happiness of a good man1 so we must consider your marriage2 we must think of it in good time1 for marriage makes or mars our whole life1 and we cannot have too much time to consider it4 ,there is nothing so hard to choose as a good husband1 unless it is a good wife4 ,you will be that rare creature1 ,sophy1 you will be the crown of our life and the blessing of our declining years2 but however worthy you are1 there are worthier people upon earth4 ,there is no one who would not do himself honour by marriage with you2 there are many who would do you even greater honour than themselves4 ,among these we must try to find one who suits you1 we must get to know him and introduce you to him4 ,the greatest possible happiness in marriage depends on so many points of agreement that it is folly to expect to secure them all4 ,we must first consider the more important matters2 if others are to be found along with them1 so much the better2 if not we must do without them4 ,perfect happiness is not to be found in this world1 but we can1 at least1 avoid the worst form of unhappiness1 that for which ourselves are to blame4 ,there is a natural suitability1 there is a suitability of established usage1 and a suitability which is merely conventional4 ,parents should decide as to the two latters1 and the children themselves should decide as to the former4 ,marriages arranged by parents only depend on a suitability of custom and convention2 it is not two people who are united1 but two positions and two properties2 but these things may change1 the people remain1 they are always there2 and in spite of fortune it is the personal relation that makes a happy or an unhappy marriage4 ,your mother had rank1 ,i had wealth2 this was all that our parents considered in arranging our marriage4 ,i lost my money1 she lost her position2 forgotten by her family1 what good did it do her to be a lady born8 ,in the midst of our misfortunes1 the union of our hearts has outweighed them all2 the similarity of our tastes led us to choose this retreat2 we live happily in our poverty1 we are all in all to each other4 ,sophy is a treasure we hold in common1 and we thank ,heaven which has bestowed this treasure and deprived us of all others4 ,you see1 my child1 whither we have been led by ,providence2 the conventional motives which brought about our marriage no longer exist1 our happiness consists in that natural suitability which was held of no account4 ,husband and wife should choose each other4 ,a mutual liking should be the first bond between them4 ,they should follow the guidance of their own eyes and hearts2 when they are married their first duty will be to love one another1 and as love and hatred do not depend on ourselves1 this duty brings another with it1 and they must begin to love each other before marriage4 ,that is the law of nature1 and no power can abrogate it2 those who have fettered it by so many legal restrictions have given heed rather to the outward show of order than to the happiness of marriage or the morals of the citizen4 ,you see1 my dear ,sophy1 we do not preach a harsh morality4 ,it tends to make you your own mistress and to make us leave the choice of your husband to yourself4 ,when we have told you our reasons for giving you full liberty1 it is only fair to speak of your reasons for making a wise use of that liberty4 ,my child1 you are good and sensible1 upright and pious1 you have the accomplishments of a good woman and you are not altogether without charms2 but you are poor2 you have the gifts most worthy of esteem1 but not those which are most esteemed4 ,do not seek what is beyond your reach1 and let your ambition be controlled1 not by your ideas or ours1 but by the opinion of others4 ,if it were merely a question of equal merits1 ,i know not what limits to impose on your hopes2 but do not let your ambitions outrun your fortune1 and remember it is very small4 ,although a man worthy of you would not consider this inequality an obstacle1 you must do what he would not do2 ,sophy must follow her mother's example and only enter a family which counts it an honour to receive her4 ,you never saw our wealth1 you were born in our poverty2 you make it sweet for us1 and you share it without hardship4 ,believe me1 ,sophy1 do not seek those good things we indeed thank heaven for having taken from us2 we did not know what happiness was till we lost our money4 ,you are so amiable that you will win affection1 and you are not go poor as to be a burden4 ,you will be sought in marriage1 it may be by those who are unworthy of you4 ,if they showed themselves in their true colours1 you would rate them at their real value2 all their outward show would not long deceive you2 but though your judgment is good and you know what merit is when you see it1 you are inexperienced and you do not know how people can conceal their real selves4 ,a skilful knave might study your tastes in order to seduce you1 and make a pretence of those virtues which he does not possess4 ,you would be ruined1 ,sophy1 before you knew what you were doing1 and you would only perceive your error when you had cause to lament it4 ,the most dangerous snare1 the only snare which reason cannot avoid1 is that of the senses2 if ever you have the misfortune to fall into its toils1 you will perceive nothing but fancies and illusions2 your eyes will be fascinated1 your judgment troubled1 your will corrupted1 your very error will be dear to you1 and even if you were able to perceive it you would not be willing to escape from it4 ,my child1 ,i trust you to ,sophy's own reason2 ,i do not trust you to the fancies of your own heart4 ,judge for yourself so long as your heart is untouched1 but when you love betake yourself to your mother's care4 ,i propose a treaty between us which shows our esteem for you1 and restores the order of nature between us4 ,parents choose a husband for their daughter and she is only consulted as a matter of form2 that is the custom4 ,we shall do just the opposite2 you will choose1 and we shall be consulted4 ,use your right1 ,sophy1 use it freely and wisely4 ,the husband suitable for you should be chosen by you not us4 ,but it is for us to judge whether he is really suitable1 or whether1 without knowing it1 you are only following your own wishes4 ,birth1 wealth1 position1 conventional opinions will count for nothing with us4 ,choose a good man whose person and character suit you2 whatever he may be in other respects1 we will accept him as our son-in-law4 ,he will be rich enough if he has bodily strength1 a good character1 and family affection4 ,his position will be good enough if it is ennobled by virtue4 ,if everybody blames us1 we do not care4 ,we do not seek the approbation of men1 but your happiness4 ,i cannot tell my readers what effect such words would have upon girls brought up in their fashion4 ,as for ,sophy1 she will have no words to reply2 shame and emotion will not permit her to express herself easily2 but ,i am sure that what was said will remain engraved upon her heart as long as she lives1 and that if any human resolution may be trusted1 we may rely on her determination to deserve her parent's esteem4 ,at worst let us suppose her endowed with an ardent disposition which will make her impatient of long delays2 ,i maintain that her judgment1 her knowledge1 her taste1 her refinement1 and1 above all1 the sentiments in which she has been brought up from childhood1 will outweigh the impetuosity of the senses1 and enable her to offer a prolonged resistance1 if not to overcome them altogether4 ,she would rather die a virgin martyr than distress her parents by marrying a worthless man and exposing herself to the unhappiness of an ill-assorted marriage4 ,ardent as an ,italian and sentimental as an ,englishwoman1 she has a curb upon heart and sense in the pride of a ,spaniard1 who even when she seeks a lover does not easily discover one worthy of her4 ,not every one can realise the motive power to be found in a love of what is right1 nor the inner strength which results from a genuine love of virtue4 ,there are men who think that all greatness is a figment of the brain1 men who with their vile and degraded reason will never recognise the power over human passions which is wielded by the very madness of virtue4 ,you can only teach such men by examples2 if they persist in denying their existence1 so much the worse for them4 ,if ,i told them that ,sophy is no imaginary person1 that her name alone is my invention1 that her education1 her conduct1 her character1 her very features1 really existed1 and that her loss is still mourned by a very worthy family1 they would1 no doubt1 refuse to believe me2 but indeed why should ,i not venture to relate word for word the story of a girl so like ,sophy that this story might be hers without surprising any one4 ,believe it or no1 it is all the same to me2 call my history fiction if you will2 in any case ,i have explained my method and furthered my purpose4 ,this young girl with the temperament which ,i have attributed to ,sophy was so like her in other respects that she was worthy of the name1 and so we will continue to use it4 ,after the conversation related above1 her father and mother thought that suitable husbands would not be likely to offer themselves in the hamlet where they lived2 so they decided to send her to spend the winter in town1 under the care of an aunt who was privately acquainted with the object of the journey2 for ,sophy's heart throbbed with noble pride at the thought of her self-control2 and however much she might want to marry1 she would rather have died a maid than have brought herself to go in search of a husband4 ,in response to her parents' wishes her aunt introduced her to her friends1 took her into company1 both private and public1 showed her society1 or rather showed her in society1 for ,sophy paid little heed to its bustle4 ,yet it was plain that she did not shrink from young men of pleasing appearance and modest seemly behaviour4 ,her very shyness had a charm of its own1 which was very much like coquetry2 but after talking to them once or twice she repulsed them4 ,she soon exchanged that air of authority which seems to accept men's homage for a humbler bearing and a still more chilling politeness4 ,always watchful over her conduct1 she gave them no chance of doing her the least service2 it was perfectly plain that she was determined not to accept any one of them4 ,never did sensitive heart take pleasure in noisy amusements1 the empty and barren delights of those who have no feelings1 those who think that a merry life is a happy life4 ,sophy did not find what she sought1 and she felt sure she never would1 so she got tired of the town4 ,she loved her parents dearly and nothing made up for their absence1 nothing could make her forget them2 she went home long before the time fixed for the end of her visit4 ,scarcely had she resumed her home duties when they perceived that her temper had changed though her conduct was unaltered1 she was forgetful1 impatient1 sad1 and dreamy2 she wept in secret4 ,at first they thought she was in love and was ashamed to own it2 they spoke to her1 but she repudiated the idea4 ,she protested she had seen no one who could touch her heart1 and ,sophy always spoke the truth4 ,yet her languor steadily increased1 and her health began to give way4 ,her mother was anxious about her1 and determined to know the reason for this change4 ,she took her aside1 and with the winning speech and the irresistible caresses which only a mother can employ1 she said1 ,my child1 whom ,i have borne beneath my heart1 whom ,i bear ever in my affection1 confide your secret to your mother's bosom4 ,what secrets are these which a mother may not know8 ,who pities your sufferings1 who shares them1 who would gladly relieve them1 if not your father and myself8 ,ah1 my child6 would you have me die of grief for your sorrow without letting me share it8 ,far from hiding her griefs from her mother1 the young girl asked nothing better than to have her as friend and comforter2 but she could not speak for shame1 her modesty could find no words to describe a condition so unworthy of her1 as the emotion which disturbed her senses in spite of all her efforts4 ,at length her very shame gave her mother a clue to her difficulty1 and she drew from her the humiliating confession4 ,far from distressing her with reproaches or unjust blame1 she consoled her1 pitied her1 wept over her2 she was too wise to make a crime of an evil which virtue alone made so cruel4 ,but why put up with such an evil when there was no necessity to do so1 when the remedy was so easy and so legitimate8 ,why did she not use the freedom they had granted her8 ,why did she not take a husband8 ,why did she not make her choice8 ,did she not know that she was perfectly independent in this matter1 that whatever her choice1 it would be approved1 for it was sure to be good8 ,they had sent her to town1 but she would not stay2 many suitors had offered themselves1 but she would have none of them4 ,what did she expect8 ,what did she want8 ,what an inexplicable contradiction8 ,the reply was simple4 ,if it were only a question of the partner of her youth1 her choice would soon be made2 but a master for life is not so easily chosen2 and since the two cannot be separated1 people must often wait and sacrifice their youth before they find the man with whom they could spend their life4 ,such was ,sophy's case2 she wanted a lover1 but this lover must be her husband2 and to discover a heart such as she required1 a lover and husband were equally difficult to find4 ,all these dashing young men were only her equals in age1 in everything else they were found lacking2 their empty wit1 their vanity1 their affectations of speech1 their ill-regulated conduct1 their frivolous imitations alike disgusted her4 ,she sought a man and she found monkeys2 she sought a soul and there was none to be found4 ,how unhappy ,i am6 said she to her mother2 ,i am compelled to love and yet ,i am dissatisfied with every one4 ,my heart rejects every one who appeals to my senses4 ,every one of them stirs my passions and all alike revolt them2 a liking unaccompanied by respect cannot last4 ,that is not the sort of man for your ,sophy2 the delightful image of her ideal is too deeply graven in her heart4 ,she can love no other2 she can make no one happy but him1 and she cannot be happy without him4 ,she would rather consume herself in ceaseless conflicts1 she would rather die free and wretched1 than driven desperate by the company of a man she did not love1 a man she would make as unhappy as herself2 she would rather die than live to suffer4 ,amazed at these strange ideas1 her mother found them so peculiar that she could not fail to suspect some mystery4 ,sophy was neither affected nor absurd4 ,how could such exaggerated delicacy exist in one who had been so carefully taught from her childhood to adapt herself to those with whom she must live1 and to make a virtue of necessity8 ,this ideal of the delightful man with which she was so enchanted1 who appeared so often in her conversation1 made her mother suspect that there was some foundation for her caprices which was still unknown to her1 and that ,sophy had not told her all4 ,the unhappy girl1 overwhelmed with her secret grief1 was only too eager to confide it to another4 ,her mother urged her to speak2 she hesitated1 she yielded1 and leaving the room without a word1 she presently returned with a book in her hand4 ,have pity on your unhappy daughter1 there is no remedy for her grief1 her tears cannot be dried4 ,you would know the cause3 well1 here it is1 said she1 flinging the book on the table4 ,her mother took the book and opened it2 it was ,the ,adventures of ,telemachus4 ,at first she could make nothing of this riddle2 by dint of questions and vague replies1 she discovered to her great surprise that her daughter was the rival of ,eucharis4 ,sophy was in love with ,telemachus1 and loved him with a passion which nothing could cure4 ,when her father and mother became aware of her infatuation1 they laughed at it and tried to cure her by reasoning with her4 ,they were mistaken1 reason was not altogether on their side2 ,sophy had her own reason and knew how to use it4 ,many a time did she reduce them to silence by turning their own arguments against them1 by showing them that it was all their own fault for not having trained her to suit the men of that century2 that she would be compelled to adopt her husband's way of thinking or he must adopt hers1 that they had made the former course impossible by the way she had been brought up1 and that the latter was just what she wanted4 ,give me1 said she1 a man who holds the same opinions as ,i do1 or one who will be willing to learn them from me1 and ,i will marry him2 but until then1 why do you scold me8 ,pity me2 ,i am miserable1 but not mad4 ,is the heart controlled by the will8 ,did my father not ask that very question8 ,is it my fault if ,i love what has no existence8 ,i am no visionary2 ,i desire no prince1 ,i seek no ,telemachus1 ,i know he is only an imaginary person2 ,i seek some one like him4 ,and why should there be no such person1 since there is such a person as ,i1 ,i who feel that my heart is like his8 ,no1 let us not wrong humanity so greatly1 let us not think that an amiable and virtuous man is a figment of the imagination4 ,he exists1 he lives1 perhaps he is seeking me2 he is seeking a soul which is capable of love for him4 ,but who is he1 where is he8 ,i know not2 he is not among those ,i have seen2 and no doubt ,i shall never see him4 ,oh6 mother1 why did you make virtue too attractive8 ,if ,i can love nothing less1 you are more to blame than ,i4 ,must ,i continue this sad story to its close8 ,must ,i describe the long struggles which preceded it8 ,must ,i show an impatient mother exchanging her former caresses for severity8 ,must ,i paint an angry father forgetting his former promises1 and treating the most virtuous of daughters as a mad woman8 ,must ,i portray the unhappy girl1 more than ever devoted to her imaginary hero1 because of the persecution brought upon her by that devotion1 drawing nearer step by step to her death1 and descending into the grave when they were about to force her to the altar8 ,no2 ,i will not dwell upon these gloomy scenes2 ,i have no need to go so far to show1 by what ,i consider a sufficiently striking example1 that in spite of the prejudices arising from the manners of our age1 the enthusiasm for the good and the beautiful is no more foreign to women than to men1 and that there is nothing which1 under nature's guidance1 cannot be obtained from them as well as from us4 ,you stop me here to inquire whether it is nature which teaches us to take such pains to repress our immoderate desires4 ,no1 ,i reply1 but neither is it nature who gives us these immoderate desires4 ,now1 all that is not from nature is contrary to nature1 as ,i have proved again and again4 ,let us give ,emile his ,sophy2 let us restore this sweet girl to life and provide her with a less vivid imagination and a happier fate4 ,i desired to paint an ordinary woman1 but by endowing her with a great soul1 ,i have disturbed her reason4 ,i have gone astray4 ,let us retrace our steps4 ,sophy has only a good disposition and an ordinary heart2 her education is responsible for everything in which she excels other women4 ,in this book ,i intended to describe all that might be done and to leave every one free to choose what he could out of all the good things ,i described4 ,i meant to train a helpmeet for ,emile1 from the very first1 and to educate them for each other and with each other4 ,but on consideration ,i thought all these premature arrangements undesirable1 for it was absurd to plan the marriage of two children before ,i could tell whether this union was in accordance with nature and whether they were really suited to each other4 ,we must not confuse what is suitable in a state of savagery with what is suitable in civilised life4 ,in the former1 any woman will suit any man1 for both are still in their primitive and undifferentiated condition2 in the latter1 all their characteristics have been developed by social institutions1 and each mind1 having taken its own settled form1 not from education alone1 but by the co-operation1 more or less well-regulated1 of natural disposition and education1 we can only make a match by introducing them to each other to see if they suit each other in every respect1 or at least we can let them make that choice which gives the most promise of mutual suitability4 ,the difficulty is this3 while social life develops character it differentiates classes1 and these two classifications do not correspond1 so that the greater the social distinctions1 the greater the difficulty of finding the corresponding character4 ,hence we have ill-assorted marriages and all their accompanying evils2 and we find that it follows logically that the further we get from equality1 the greater the change in our natural feelings2 the wider the distance between great and small1 the looser the marriage tie2 the deeper the gulf between rich and poor the fewer husbands and fathers4 ,neither master nor slave belongs to a family1 but only to a class4 ,if you would guard against these abuses1 and secure happy marriages1 you must stifle your prejudices1 forget human institutions1 and consult nature4 ,do not join together those who are only alike in one given condition1 those who will not suit one another if that condition is changed2 but those who are adapted to one another in every situation1 in every country1 and in every rank in which they may be placed4 ,i do not say that conventional considerations are of no importance in marriage1 but ,i do say that the influence of natural relations is so much more important1 that our fate in life is decided by them alone1 and that there is such an agreement of taste1 temper1 feeling1 and disposition as should induce a wise father1 though he were a prince1 to marry his son1 without a moment's hesitation1 to the woman so adapted to him1 were she born in a bad home1 were she even the hangman's daughter4 ,i maintain indeed that every possible misfortune may overtake husband and wife if they are thus united1 yet they will enjoy more real happiness while they mingle their tears1 than if they possessed all the riches of the world1 poisoned by divided hearts4 ,instead of providing a wife for ,emile in childhood1 ,i have waited till ,i knew what would suit him4 ,it is not for me to decide1 but for nature2 my task is to discover the choice she has made4 ,my business1 mine ,i repeat1 not his father's2 for when he entrusted his son to my care1 he gave up his place to me4 ,he gave me his rights2 it is ,i who am really ,emile's father2 it is ,i who have made a man of him4 ,i would have refused to educate him if ,i were not free to marry him according to his own choice1 which is mine4 ,nothing but the pleasure of bestowing happiness on a man can repay me for the cost of making him capable of happiness4 ,do not suppose1 however1 that ,i have delayed to find a wife for ,emile till ,i sent him in search of her4 ,this search is only a pretext for acquainting him with women1 so that he may perceive the value of a suitable wife4 ,sophy was discovered long since2 ,emile may even have seen her already1 but he will not recognise her till the time is come4 ,although equality of rank is not essential in marriage1 yet this equality along with other kinds of suitability increases their value2 it is not to be weighed against any one of them1 but1 other things being equal1 it turns the scale4 ,a man1 unless he is a king1 cannot seek a wife in any and every class2 if he himself is free from prejudices1 he will find them in others2 and this girl or that might perhaps suit him and yet she would be beyond his reach4 ,a wise father will therefore restrict his inquiries within the bounds of prudence4 ,he should not wish to marry his pupil into a family above his own1 for that is not within his power4 ,if he could do so he ought not desire it2 for what difference does rank make to a young man1 at least to my pupil8 ,yet1 if he rises he is exposed to all sorts of real evils which he will feel all his life long4 ,i even say that he should not try to adjust the balance between different gifts1 such as rank and money2 for each of these adds less to the value of the other than the amount deducted from its own value in the process of adjustment2 moreover1 we can never agree as to a common denominator2 and finally the preference1 which each feels for his own surroundings1 paves the way for discord between the two families and often to difficulties between husband and wife4 ,it makes a considerable difference as to the suitability of a marriage whether a man marries above or beneath him4 ,the former case is quite contrary to reason1 the latter is more in conformity with reason4 ,as the family is only connected with society through its head1 it is the rank of that head which decides that of the family as a whole4 ,when he marries into a lower rank1 a man does not lower himself1 he raises his wife2 if1 on the other hand1 he marries above his position1 he lowers his wife and does not raise himself4 ,thus there is in the first case good unmixed with evil1 in the other evil unmixed with good4 ,moreover1 the law of nature bids the woman obey the man4 ,if he takes a wife from a lower class1 natural and civil law are in accordance and all goes well4 ,when he marries a woman of higher rank it is just the opposite case2 the man must choose between diminished rights or imperfect gratitude2 he must be ungrateful or despised4 ,then the wife1 laying claim to authority1 makes herself a tyrant over her lawful head2 and the master1 who has become a slave1 is the most ridiculous and miserable of creatures4 ,such are the unhappy favourites whom the sovereigns of ,asia honour and torment with their alliance2 people tell us that if they desire to sleep with their wife they must enter by the foot of the bed4 ,i expect that many of my readers will remember that ,i think women have a natural gift for managing men1 and will accuse me of contradicting myself2 yet they are mistaken4 ,there is a vast difference between claiming the right to command1 and managing him who commands4 ,woman's reign is a reign of gentleness1 tact1 and kindness2 her commands are caresses1 her threats are tears4 ,she should reign in the home as a minister reigns in the state1 by contriving to be ordered to do what she wants4 ,in this sense1 ,i grant you1 that the best managed homes are those where the wife has most power4 ,but when she despises the voice of her head1 when she desires to usurp his rights and take the command upon herself1 this inversion of the proper order of things leads only to misery1 scandal1 and dishonour4 ,there remains the choice between our equals and our inferiors2 and ,i think we ought also to make certain restrictions with regard to the latter2 for it is hard to find in the lowest stratum of society a woman who is able to make a good man happy2 not that the lower classes are more vicious than the higher1 but because they have so little idea of what is good and beautiful1 and because the injustice of other classes makes its very vices seem right in the eyes of this class4 ,by nature man thinks but seldom4 ,he learns to think as he acquires the other arts1 but with even greater difficulty4 ,in both sexes alike ,i am only aware of two really distinct classes1 those who think and those who do not2 and this difference is almost entirely one of education4 ,a man who thinks should not ally himself with a woman who does not think1 for he loses the chief delight of social life if he has a wife who cannot share his thoughts4 ,people who spend their whole life in working for a living have no ideas beyond their work and their own interests1 and their mind seems to reside in their arms4 ,this ignorance is not necessarily unfavourable either to their honesty or their morals2 it is often favourable2 we often content ourselves with thinking about our duties1 and in the end we substitute words for things4 ,conscience is the most enlightened philosopher2 to be an honest man we need not read ,cicero's ,de ,officiis1 and the most virtuous woman in the world is probably she who knows least about virtue4 ,but it is none the less true that a cultivated mind alone makes intercourse pleasant1 and it is a sad thing for a father of a family1 who delights in his home1 to be forced to shut himself up in himself and to be unable to make himself understood4 ,moreover1 if a woman is quite unaccustomed to think1 how can she bring up her children8 ,how will she know what is good for them8 ,how can she incline them to virtues of which she is ignorant1 to merit of which she has no conception8 ,she can only flatter or threaten1 she can only make them insolent or timid2 she will make them performing monkeys or noisy little rascals2 she will never make them intelligent or pleasing children4 ,therefore it is not fitting that a man of education should choose a wife who has none1 or take her from a class where she cannot be expected to have any education4 ,but ,i would a thousand times rather have a homely girl1 simply brought up1 than a learned lady and a wit who would make a literary circle of my house and install herself as its president4 ,a female wit is a scourge to her husband1 her children1 her friends1 her servants1 to everybody4 ,from the lofty height of her genius she scorns every womanly duty1 and she is always trying to make a man of herself after the fashion of ,mlle4 de ,l',enclos4 ,outside her home she always makes herself ridiculous and she is very rightly a butt for criticism1 as we always are when we try to escape from our own position into one for which we are unfitted4 ,these highly talented women only get a hold over fools4 ,we can always tell what artist or friend holds the pen or pencil when they are at work2 we know what discreet man of letters dictates their oracles in private4 ,this trickery is unworthy of a decent woman4 ,if she really had talents1 her pretentiousness would degrade them4 ,her honour is to be unknown2 her glory is the respect of her husband2 her joys the happiness of her family4 ,i appeal to my readers to give me an honest answer2 when you enter a woman's room what makes you think more highly of her1 what makes you address her with more respect--to see her busy with feminine occupations1 with her household duties1 with her children's clothes about her1 or to find her writing verses at her toilet table surrounded with pamphlets of every kind and with notes on tinted paper8 ,if there were none but wise men upon earth such a woman would die an old maid4 ,quaeris cur nolim te ducere1 galla8 diserta es4 ,martial xi4 #bj4 ,looks must next be considered2 they are the first thing that strikes us and they ought to be the last1 still they should not count for nothing4 ,i think that great beauty is rather to be shunned than sought after in marriage4 ,possession soon exhausts our appreciation of beauty2 in six weeks' time we think no more about it1 but its dangers endure as long as life itself4 ,unless a beautiful woman is an angel1 her husband is the most miserable of men2 and even if she were an angel he would still be the centre of a hostile crowd and she could not prevent it4 ,if extreme ugliness were not repulsive ,i should prefer it to extreme beauty2 for before very long the husband would cease to notice either1 but beauty would still have its disadvantages and ugliness its advantages4 ,but ugliness which is actually repulsive is the worst misfortune2 repulsion increases rather than diminishes1 and it turns to hatred4 ,such a union is a hell upon earth2 better death than such a marriage4 ,desire mediocrity in all things1 even in beauty4 ,a pleasant attractive countenance1 which inspires kindly feelings rather than love1 is what we should prefer2 the husband runs no risk1 and the advantages are common to husband and wife2 charm is less perishable than beauty2 it is a living thing1 which constantly renews itself1 and after thirty years of married life1 the charms of a good woman delight her husband even as they did on the wedding-day4 ,such are the considerations which decided my choice of ,sophy4 ,brought up1 like ,emile1 by ,nature1 she is better suited to him than any other2 she will be his true mate4 ,she is his equal in birth and character1 his inferior in fortune4 ,she makes no great impression at first sight1 but day by day reveals fresh charms4 ,her chief influence only takes effect gradually1 it is only discovered in friendly intercourse2 and her husband will feel it more than any one4 ,her education is neither showy nor neglected2 she has taste without deep study1 talent without art1 judgment without learning4 ,her mind knows little1 but it is trained to learn2 it is well-tilled soil ready for the sower4 ,she has read no book but ,bareme and ,telemachus which happened to fall into her hands2 but no girl who can feel so passionately towards ,telemachus can have a heart without feeling or a mind without discernment4 ,what charming ignorance6 ,happy is he who is destined to be her tutor4 ,she will not be her husband's teacher but his scholar2 far from seeking to control his tastes1 she will share them4 ,she will suit him far better than a blue-stocking and he will have the pleasure of teaching her everything4 ,it is time they made acquaintance2 let us try to plan a meeting4 ,when we left ,paris we were sorrowful and wrapped in thought4 ,this ,babel is not our home4 ,emile casts a scornful glance towards the great city1 saying angrily1 ,what a time we have wasted2 the bride of my heart is not there4 ,my friend1 you knew it1 but you think nothing of my time1 and you pay no heed to my sufferings4 ,with steady look and firm voice ,i reply1 ,emile1 do you mean what you say8 ,at once he flings his arms round my neck and clasps me to his breast without speaking4 ,that is his answer when he knows he is in the wrong4 ,and now we are wandering through the country like true knights-errant2 yet we are not seeking adventures when we leave ,paris2 we are escaping from them2 now fast now slow1 we wander through the country like knights-errants4 ,by following my usual practice the taste for it has become established2 and ,i do not suppose any of my readers are such slaves of custom as to picture us dozing in a post-chaise with closed windows1 travelling1 yet seeing nothing1 observing nothing1 making the time between our start and our arrival a mere blank1 and losing in the speed of our journey1 the time we meant to save4 ,men say life is short1 and ,i see them doing their best to shorten it4 ,as they do not know how to spend their time they lament the swiftness of its flight1 and ,i perceive that for them it goes only too slowly4 ,intent merely on the object of their pursuit1 they behold unwillingly the space between them and it2 one desires to-morrow1 another looks a month ahead1 another ten years beyond that4 ,no one wants to live to-day1 no one contents himself with the present hour1 all complain that it passes slowly4 ,when they complain that time flies1 they lie2 they would gladly purchase the power to hasten it2 they would gladly spend their fortune to get rid of their whole life2 and there is probably not a single one who would not have reduced his life to a few hours if he had been free to get rid of those hours he found tedious1 and those which separated him from the desired moment4 ,a man spends his whole life rushing from ,paris to ,versailles1 from ,versailles to ,paris1 from town to country1 from country to town1 from one district of the town to another2 but he would not know what to do with his time if he had not discovered this way of wasting it1 by leaving his business on purpose to find something to do in coming back to it2 he thinks he is saving the time he spends1 which would otherwise be unoccupied2 or maybe he rushes for the sake of rushing1 and travels post in order to return in the same fashion4 ,when will mankind cease to slander nature8 ,why do you complain that life is short when it is never short enough for you8 ,if there were but one of you1 able to moderate his desires1 so that he did not desire the flight of time1 he would never find life too short2 for him life and the joy of life would be one and the same2 should he die young1 he would still die full of days4 ,if this were the only advantage of my way of travelling it would be enough4 ,i have brought ,emile up neither to desire nor to wait1 but to enjoy2 and when his desires are bent upon the future1 their ardour is not so great as to make time seem tedious4 ,he will not only enjoy the delights of longing1 but the delights of approaching the object of his desires2 and his passions are under such restraint that he lives to a great extent in the present4 ,so we do not travel like couriers but like explorers4 ,we do not merely consider the beginning and the end1 but the space between4 ,the journey itself is a delight4 ,we do not travel sitting1 dismally imprisoned1 so to speak1 in a tightly closed cage4 ,we do not travel with the ease and comfort of ladies4 ,we do not deprive ourselves of the fresh air1 nor the sight of the things about us1 nor the opportunity of examining them at our pleasure4 ,emile will never enter a post-chaise1 nor will he ride post unless in a great hurry4 ,but what cause has ,emile for haste8 ,none but the joy of life4 ,shall ,i add to this the desire to do good when he can8 ,no1 for that is itself one of the joys of life4 ,i can only think of one way of travelling pleasanter than travelling on horseback1 and that is to travel on foot4 ,you start at your own time1 you stop when you will1 you do as much or as little as you choose4 ,you see the country1 you turn off to the right or left2 you examine anything which interests you1 you stop to admire every view4 ,do ,i see a stream1 ,i wander by its banks2 a leafy wood1 ,i seek its shade2 a cave1 ,i enter it2 a quarry1 ,i study its geology4 ,if ,i like a place1 ,i stop there4 ,as soon as ,i am weary of it1 ,i go on4 ,i am independent of horses and postillions2 ,i need not stick to regular routes or good roads2 ,i go anywhere where a man can go2 ,i see all that a man can see2 and as ,i am quite independent of everybody1 ,i enjoy all the freedom man can enjoy4 ,if ,i am stopped by bad weather and ,i find myself getting bored1 then ,i take horses4 ,if ,i am tired--but ,emile is hardly ever tired2 he is strong2 why should he get tired8 ,there is no hurry8 ,if he stops1 why should he be bored8 ,he always finds some amusement4 ,he works at a trade2 he uses his arms to rest his feet4 ,to travel on foot is to travel in the fashion of ,thales1 ,plato1 and ,pythagoras4 ,i find it hard to understand how a philosopher can bring himself to travel in any other way2 how he can tear himself from the study of the wealth which lies before his eyes and beneath his feet4 ,is there any one with an interest in agriculture1 who does not want to know the special products of the district through which he is passing1 and their method of cultivation8 ,is there any one with a taste for natural history1 who can pass a piece of ground without examining it1 a rock without breaking off a piece of it1 hills without looking for plants1 and stones without seeking for fossils8 ,your town-bred scientists study natural history in cabinets2 they have small specimens2 they know their names but nothing of their nature4 ,emile's museum is richer than that of kings2 it is the whole world4 ,everything is in its right place2 the ,naturalist who is its curator has taken care to arrange it in the fairest order2 ,dauberton could do no better4 ,what varied pleasures we enjoy in this delightful way of travelling1 not to speak of increasing health and a cheerful spirit4 ,i notice that those who ride in nice1 well-padded carriages are always wrapped in thought1 gloomy1 fault-finding1 or sick2 while those who go on foot are always merry1 light-hearted1 and delighted with everything4 ,how cheerful we are when we get near our lodging for the night6 ,how savoury is the coarse food6 ,how we linger at table enjoying our rest6 ,how soundly we sleep on a hard bed6 ,if you only want to get to a place you may ride in a post-chaise2 if you want to travel you must go on foot4 ,if ,sophy is not forgotten before we have gone fifty leagues in the way ,i propose1 either ,i am a bungler or ,emile lacks curiosity2 for with an elementary knowledge of so many things1 it is hardly to be supposed that he will not be tempted to extend his knowledge4 ,it is knowledge that makes us curious2 and ,emile knows just enough to want to know more4 ,one thing leads on to another1 and we make our way forward4 ,if ,i chose a distant object for the end of our first journey1 it is not difficult to find an excuse for it2 when we leave ,paris we must seek a wife at a distance4 ,a few days later we had wandered further than usual among hills and valleys where no road was to be seen and we lost our way completely4 ,no matter1 all roads are alike if they bring you to your journey's end1 but if you are hungry they must lead somewhere4 ,luckily we came across a peasant who took up to his cottage2 we enjoyed his poor dinner with a hearty appetite4 ,when he saw how hungry and tired we were he said1 ,if the ,lord had led you to the other side of the hill you would have had a better welcome1 you would have found a good resting place1 such good1 kindly people6 ,they could not wish to do more for you than ,i1 but they are richer1 though folks say they used to be much better off4 ,still they are not reduced to poverty1 and the whole country-side is the better for what they have4 ,when ,emile heard of these good people his heart warmed to them4 ,my friend1 said he1 looking at me1 let us visit this house1 whose owners are a blessing to the district2 ,i shall be very glad to see them2 perhaps they will be pleased to see us too2 ,i am sure we shall be welcome2 we shall just suit each other4 ,our host told us how to find our way to the house and we set off1 but lost our way in the woods4 ,we were caught in a heavy rainstorm1 which delayed us further4 ,at last we found the right path and in the evening we reached the house1 which had been described to us4 ,it was the only house among the cottages of the little hamlet1 and though plain it had an air of dignity4 ,we went up to the door and asked for hospitality4 ,we were taken to the owner of the house1 who questioned us courteously2 without telling him the object of our journey1 we told him why we had left our path4 ,his former wealth enabled him to judge a man's position by his manners2 those who have lived in society are rarely mistaken2 with this passport we were admitted4 ,the room we were shown into was very small1 but clean and comfortable2 a fire was lighted1 and we found linen1 clothes1 and everything we needed4 ,why1 said ,emile1 in astonishment1 one would think they were expecting us4 ,the peasant was quite right2 how kind and attentive1 how considerate1 and for strangers too6 ,i shall think ,i am living in the times of ,homer4 ,i am glad you feel this1 said ,i1 but you need not be surprised2 where strangers are scarce1 they are welcome2 nothing makes people more hospitable than the fact that calls upon their hospitality are rare2 when guests are frequent there is an end to hospitality4 ,in ,homer's time1 people rarely travelled1 and travellers were everywhere welcome4 ,very likely we are the only people who have passed this way this year4 ,never mind1 said he1 to know how to do without guests and yet to give them a kind welcome1 is its own praise4 ,having dried ourselves and changed our clothes1 we rejoined the master of the house1 who introduced us to his wife2 she received us not merely with courtesy but with kindness4 ,her glance rested on ,emile4 ,a mother1 in her position1 rarely receives a young man into her house without some anxiety or some curiosity at least4 ,supper was hurried forward on our account4 ,when we went into the dining-room there were five places laid2 we took our seats and the fifth chair remained empty4 ,presently a young girl entered1 made a deep courtesy1 and modestly took her place without a word4 ,emile was busy with his supper or considering how to reply to what was said to him2 he bowed to her and continued talking and eating4 ,the main object of his journey was as far from his thoughts as he believed himself to be from the end of his journey4 ,the conversation turned upon our losing our way4 ,sir1 said the master of the house to ,emile1 you seem to be a pleasant well-behaved young gentleman1 and that reminds me that your tutor and you arrived wet and weary like ,telemachus and ,mentor in the island of ,calypso4 ,indeed1 said ,emile1 we have found the hospitality of ,calypso4 ,his ,mentor added1 ,and the charms of ,eucharis4 ,but ,emile knew the ,odyssey and he had not read ,telemachus1 so he knew nothing of ,eucharis4 ,as for the young girl1 ,i saw she blushed up to her eyebrows1 fixed her eyes on her plate1 and hardly dared to breathe4 ,her mother1 noticing her confusion1 made a sign to her father to turn the conversation4 ,when he talked of his lonely life1 he unconsciously began to relate the circumstances which brought him into it2 his misfortunes1 his wife's fidelity1 the consolations they found in their marriage1 their quiet1 peaceful life in their retirement1 and all this without a word of the young girl2 it is a pleasing and a touching story1 which cannot fail to interest4 ,emile1 interested and sympathetic1 leaves off eating and listens4 ,when finally this best of men discourses with delight of the affection of the best of women1 the young traveller1 carried away by his feelings1 stretches one hand to the husband1 and taking the wife's hand with the other1 he kisses it rapturously and bathes it with his tears4 ,everybody is charmed with the simple enthusiasm of the young man2 but the daughter1 more deeply touched than the rest by this evidence of his kindly heart1 is reminded of ,telemachus weeping for the woes of ,philoctetus4 ,she looks at him shyly1 the better to study his countenance2 there is nothing in it to give the lie to her comparison4 ,his easy bearing shows freedom without pride2 his manners are lively but not boisterous2 sympathy makes his glance softer and his expression more pleasing2 the young girl1 seeing him weep1 is ready to mingle her tears with his4 ,with so good an excuse for tears1 she is restrained by a secret shame2 she blames herself already for the tears which tremble on her eyelids1 as though it were wrong to weep for one's family4 ,her mother1 who has been watching her ever since she sat down to supper1 sees her distress1 and to relieve it she sends her on some errand4 ,the daughter returns directly1 but so little recovered that her distress is apparent to all4 ,her mother says gently1 ,sophy1 control yourself2 will you never cease to weep for the misfortunes of your parents8 ,why should you1 who are their chief comfort1 be more sensitive than they are themselves8 ,at the name of ,sophy you would have seen ,emile give a start4 ,his attention is arrested by this dear name1 and he awakes all at once and looks eagerly at one who dares to bear it4 ,sophy6 ,are you the ,sophy whom my heart is seeking8 ,is it you that ,i love8 ,he looks at her2 he watches her with a sort of fear and self-distrust4 ,the face is not quite what he pictured2 he cannot tell whether he likes it more or less4 ,he studies every feature1 he watches every movement1 every gesture2 he has a hundred fleeting interpretations for them all2 he would give half his life if she would but speak4 ,he looks at me anxiously and uneasily2 his eyes are full of questions and reproaches4 ,his every glance seems to say1 ,guide me while there is yet time2 if my heart yields itself and is deceived1 ,i shall never get over it4 ,there is no one in the world less able to conceal his feelings than ,emile4 ,how should he conceal them1 in the midst of the greatest disturbance he has ever experienced1 and under the eyes of four spectators who are all watching him1 while she who seems to heed him least is really most occupied with him4 ,his uneasiness does not escape the keen eyes of ,sophy2 his own eyes tell her that she is its cause2 she sees that this uneasiness is not yet love2 what matter8 ,he is thinking of her1 and that is enough2 she will be very unlucky if he thinks of her with impunity4 ,mothers1 like daughters1 have eyes2 and they have experience too4 ,sophy's mother smiles at the success of our schemes4 ,she reads the hearts of the young people2 she sees that the time has come to secure the heart of this new ,telemachus2 she makes her daughter speak4 ,her daughter1 with her native sweetness1 replies in a timid tone which makes all the more impression4 ,at the first sound of her voice1 ,emile surrenders2 it is ,sophy herself2 there can be no doubt about it4 ,if it were not so1 it would be too late to deny it4 ,the charms of this maiden enchantress rush like torrents through his heart1 and he begins to drain the draughts of poison with which he is intoxicated4 ,he says nothing2 questions pass unheeded2 he sees only ,sophy1 he hears only ,sophy2 if she says a word1 he opens his mouth2 if her eyes are cast down1 so are his2 if he sees her sigh1 he sighs too2 it is ,sophy's heart which seems to speak in his4 ,what a change have these few moments wrought in her heart6 ,it is no longer her turn to tremble1 it is ,emile's4 ,farewell liberty1 simplicity1 frankness4 ,confused1 embarrassed1 fearful1 he dare not look about him for fear he should see that we are watching him4 ,ashamed that we should read his secret1 he would fain become invisible to every one1 that he might feed in secret on the sight of ,sophy4 ,sophy1 on the other hand1 regains her confidence at the sight of ,emile's fear2 she sees her triumph and rejoices in it4 ,no'l mostra gia1 ben che in suo cor ne rida4 ,tasso1 ,jerus4 ,del41 c4 iv4 v4 #cc4 ,her expression remains unchanged2 but in spite of her modest look and downcast eyes1 her tender heart is throbbing with joy1 and it tells her that she has found ,telemachus4 ,if ,i relate the plain and simple tale of their innocent affections you will accuse me of frivolity1 but you will be mistaken4 ,sufficient attention is not given to the effect which the first connection between man and woman is bound to produce on the future life of both4 ,people do not see that a first impression so vivid as that of love1 or the liking which takes the place of love1 produces lasting effects whose influence continues till death4 ,works on education are crammed with wordy and unnecessary accounts of the imaginary duties of children2 but there is not a word about the most important and most difficult part of their education1 the crisis which forms the bridge between the child and the man4 ,if any part of this work is really useful1 it will be because ,i have dwelt at great length on this matter1 so essential in itself and so neglected by other authors1 and because ,i have not allowed myself to be discouraged either by false delicacy or by the difficulties of expression4 ,the story of human nature is a fair romance4 ,am ,i to blame if it is not found elsewhere8 ,i am trying to write the history of mankind4 ,if my book is a romance1 the fault lies with those who deprave mankind4 ,this is supported by another reason2 we are not dealing with a youth given over from childhood to fear1 greed1 envy1 pride1 and all those passions which are the common tools of the schoolmaster2 we have to do with a youth who is not only in love for the first time1 but with one who is also experiencing his first passion of any kind2 very likely it will be the only strong passion he will ever know1 and upon it depends the final formation of his character4 ,his mode of thought1 his feelings1 his tastes1 determined by a lasting passion1 are about to become so fixed that they will be incapable of further change4 ,you will easily understand that ,emile and ,i do not spend the whole of the night which follows after such an evening in sleep4 ,why6 ,do you mean to tell me that a wise man should be so much affected by a mere coincidence of name6 ,is there only one ,sophy in the world8 ,are they all alike in heart and in name8 ,is every ,sophy he meets his ,sophy8 ,is he mad to fall in love with a person of whom he knows so little1 with whom he has scarcely exchanged a couple of words8 ,wait1 young man2 examine1 observe4 ,you do not even know who our hosts may be1 and to hear you talk one would think the house was your own4 ,this is no time for teaching1 and what ,i say will receive scant attention4 ,it only serves to stimulate ,emile to further interest in ,sophy1 through his desire to find reasons for his fancy4 ,the unexpected coincidence in the name1 the meeting which1 so far as he knows1 was quite accidental1 my very caution itself1 only serve as fuel to the fire4 ,he is so convinced already of ,sophy's excellence1 that he feels sure he can make me fond of her4 ,next morning ,i have no doubt ,emile will make himself as smart as his old travelling suit permits4 ,i am not mistaken2 but ,i am amused to see how eager he is to wear the clean linen put out for us4 ,i know his thoughts1 and ,i am delighted to see that he is trying to establish a means of intercourse1 through the return and exchange of the linen2 so that he may have a right to return it and so pay another visit to the house4 ,i expected to find ,sophy rather more carefully dressed too2 but ,i was mistaken4 ,such common coquetry is all very well for those who merely desire to please4 ,the coquetry of true love is a more delicate matter2 it has quite another end in view4 ,sophy is dressed1 if possible1 more simply than last night1 though as usual her frock is exquisitely clean4 ,the only sign of coquetry is her self-consciousness4 ,she knows that an elaborate toilet is a sign of love1 but she does not know that a careless toilet is another of its signs2 it shows a desire to be like not merely for one's clothes but for oneself4 ,what does a lover care for her clothes if he knows she is thinking of him8 ,sophy is already sure of her power over ,emile1 and she is not content to delight his eyes if his heart is not hers also2 he must not only perceive her charms1 he must divine them2 has he not seen enough to guess the rest8 ,we may take it for granted that while ,emile and ,i were talking last night1 ,sophy and her mother were not silent2 a confession was made and instructions given4 ,the morning's meeting is not unprepared4 ,twelve hours ago our young people had never met2 they have never said a word to each other2 but it is clear that there is already an understanding between them4 ,their greeting is formal1 confused1 timid2 they say nothing1 their downcast eyes seem to avoid each other1 but that is in itself a sign that they understand1 they avoid each other with one consent2 they already feel the need of concealment1 though not a word has been uttered4 ,when we depart we ask leave to come again to return the borrowed clothes in person1 ,emile's words are addressed to the father and mother1 but his eyes seek ,sophy's1 and his looks are more eloquent than his words4 ,sophy says nothing by word or gesture2 she seems deaf and blind1 but she blushes1 and that blush is an answer even plainer than that of her parents4 ,we receive permission to come again1 though we are not invited to stay4 ,this is only fitting2 you offer shelter to benighted travellers1 but a lover does not sleep in the house of his mistress4 ,we have hardly left the beloved abode before ,emile is thinking of taking rooms in the neighbourhood2 the nearest cottage seems too far2 he would like to sleep in the next ditch4 ,you young fool6 ,i said in a tone of pity1 are you already blinded by passion8 ,have you no regard for manners or for reason8 ,wretched youth1 you call yourself a lover and you would bring disgrace upon her you love6 ,what would people say of her if they knew that a young man who has been staying at her house was sleeping close by8 ,you say you love her6 ,would you ruin her reputation8 ,is that the price you offer for her parents' hospitality8 ,would you bring disgrace on her who will one day make you the happiest of men8 ,why should we trouble ourselves about the empty words and unjust suspicions of other people8 said he eagerly4 ,have you not taught me yourself to make light of them8 ,who knows better than ,i how greatly ,i honour ,sophy1 what respect ,i desire to show her8 ,my attachment will not cause her shame1 it will be her glory1 it shall be worthy of her4 ,if my heart and my actions continually give her the homage she deserves1 what harm can ,i do her8 ,dear ,emile1 ,i said1 as ,i clasped him to my heart1 you are thinking of yourself alone2 learn to think for her too4 ,do not compare the honour of one sex with that of the other1 they rest on different foundations4 ,these foundations are equally firm and right1 because they are both laid by nature1 and that same virtue which makes you scorn what men say about yourself1 binds you to respect what they say of her you love4 ,your honour is in your own keeping1 her honour depends on others4 ,to neglect it is to wound your own honour1 and you fail in what is due to yourself if you do not give her the respect she deserves4 ,then while ,i explain the reasons for this difference1 ,i make him realise how wrong it would be to pay no attention to it4 ,who can say if he will really be ,sophy's husband8 ,he does not know how she feels towards him2 her own heart or her parents' will may already have formed other engagements2 he knows nothing of her1 perhaps there are none of those grounds of suitability which make a happy marriage4 ,is he not aware that the least breath of scandal with regard to a young girl is an indelible stain1 which not even marriage with him who has caused the scandal can efface8 ,what man of feeling would ruin the woman he loves8 ,what man of honour would desire that a miserable woman should for ever lament the misfortune of having found favour in his eyes8 ,always prone to extremes1 the youth takes alarm at the consequences which ,i have compelled him to consider1 and now he thinks that he cannot be too far from ,sophy's home2 he hastens his steps to get further from it2 he glances round to make sure that no one is listening2 he would sacrifice his own happiness a thousand times to the honour of her whom he loves2 he would rather never see her again than cause her the least unpleasantness4 ,this is the first result of the pains ,i have taken ever since he was a child to make him capable of affection4 ,we must therefore seek a lodging at a distance1 but not too far4 ,we look about us1 we make inquiries2 we find that there is a town at least two leagues away4 ,we try and find lodgings in this town1 rather than in the nearer villages1 where our presence might give rise to suspicion4 ,it is there that the new lover takes up his abode1 full of love1 hope1 joy1 above all full of right feeling4 ,in this way1 ,i guide his rising passion towards all that is honourable and good1 so that his inclinations unconsciously follow the same bent4 ,my course is drawing to a close2 the end is in view4 ,all the chief difficulties are vanquished1 the chief obstacles overcome2 the hardest thing left to do is to refrain from spoiling my work by undue haste to complete it4 ,amid the uncertainty of human life1 let us shun that false prudence which seeks to sacrifice the present to the future2 what is1 is too often sacrificed to what will never be4 ,let us make man happy at every age lest in spite of our care he should die without knowing the meaning of happiness4 ,now if there is a time to enjoy life1 it is undoubtedly the close of adolescence1 when the powers of mind and body have reached their greatest strength1 and when man in the midst of his course is furthest from those two extremes which tell him ,life is short4 ,if the imprudence of youth deceives itself it is not in its desire for enjoyment1 but because it seeks enjoyment where it is not to be found1 and lays up misery for the future1 while unable to enjoy the present4 ,consider my ,emile over twenty years of age1 well formed1 well developed in mind and body1 strong1 healthy1 active1 skilful1 robust1 full of sense1 reason1 kindness1 humanity1 possessed of good morals and good taste1 loving what is beautiful1 doing what is good1 free from the sway of fierce passions1 released from the tyranny of popular prejudices1 but subject to the law of wisdom1 and easily guided by the voice of a friend2 gifted with so many useful and pleasant accomplishments1 caring little for wealth1 able to earn a living with his own hands1 and not afraid of want1 whatever may come4 ,behold him in the intoxication of a growing passion2 his heart opens to the first beams of love2 its pleasant fancies reveal to him a whole world of new delights and enjoyments2 he loves a sweet woman1 whose character is even more delightful than her person2 he hopes1 he expects the reward which he deserves4 ,their first attachment took its rise in mutual affection1 in community of honourable feelings2 therefore this affection is lasting4 ,it abandons itself1 with confidence1 with reason1 to the most delightful madness1 without fear1 regret1 remorse1 or any other disturbing thought1 but that which is inseparable from all happiness4 ,what lacks there yet8 ,behold1 inquire1 imagine what still is lacking1 that can be combined with present joys4 ,every happiness which can exist in combination is already present2 nothing could be added without taking away from what there is2 he is as happy as man can be4 ,shall ,i choose this time to cut short so sweet a period8 ,shall ,i disturb such pure enjoyment8 ,the happiness he enjoys is my life's reward4 ,what could ,i give that could outweigh what ,i should take away8 ,even if ,i set the crown to his happiness ,i should destroy its greatest charm4 ,that supreme joy is a hundredfold greater in anticipation than in possession2 its savour is greater while we wait for it than when it is ours4 ,o worthy ,emile6 love and be loved6 prolong your enjoyment before it is yours2 rejoice in your love and in your innocence1 find your paradise upon earth1 while you await your heaven4 ,i shall not cut short this happy period of life4 ,i will draw out its enchantments1 ,i will prolong them as far as possible4 ,alas6 it must come to an end and that soon2 but it shall at least linger in your memory1 and you will never repent of its joys4 ,emile has not forgotten that we have something to return4 ,as soon as the things are ready1 we take horse and set off at a great pace1 for on this occasion he is anxious to get there4 ,when the heart opens the door to passion1 it becomes conscious of the slow flight of time4 ,if my time has not been wasted he will not spend his life like this4 ,unluckily the road is intricate and the country difficult4 ,we lose our way2 he is the first to notice it1 and without losing his temper1 and without grumbling1 he devotes his whole attention to discovering the path2 he wanders for a long time before he knows where he is and always with the same self-control4 ,you think nothing of that2 but ,i think it a matter of great importance1 for ,i know how eager he is2 ,i see the results of the care ,i have taken from his infancy to harden him to endure the blows of necessity4 ,we are there at last6 ,our reception is much simpler and more friendly than on the previous occasion2 we are already old acquaintances4 ,emile and ,sophy bow shyly and say nothing2 what can they say in our presence8 ,what they wish to say requires no spectators4 ,we walk in the garden2 a well-kept kitchen-garden takes the place of flower-beds1 the park is an orchard full of fine tall fruit trees of every kind1 divided by pretty streams and borders full of flowers4 ,what a lovely place6 exclaims ,emile1 still thinking of his ,homer1 and still full of enthusiasm1 ,i could fancy myself in the garden of ,alcinous4 ,the daughter wishes she knew who ,alcinous was2 her mother asks4 ,alcinous1 ,i tell them1 was a king of ,coreyra4 ,homer describes his garden and the critics think it too simple and unadorned4 ,footnote3 ',when you leave the palace you enter a vast garden1 four acres in extent1 walled in on every side1 planted with tall trees in blossom1 and yielding pears1 pomegranates1 and other goodly fruits1 fig-trees with their luscious burden and green olives4 ,all the year round these fair trees are heavy with fruit2 summer and winter the soft breath of the west wind sways the trees and ripens the fruit4 ,pears and apples wither on the branches1 the fig on the fig-tree1 and the clusters of grapes on the vine4 ,the inexhaustible stock bears fresh grapes1 some are baked1 some are spread out on the threshing floor to dry1 others are made into wine1 while flowers1 sour grapes1 and those which are beginning to wither are left upon the tree4 ,at either end is a square garden filled with flowers which bloom throughout the year1 these gardens are adorned by two fountains1 one of these streams waters the garden1 the other passes through the palace and is then taken to a lofty tower in the town to provide drinking water for its citizens4' ,such is the description of the royal garden of ,alcinous in the #gth book of the ,odyssey1 a garden in which1 to the lasting disgrace of that old dreamer ,homer and the princes of his day1 there were neither trellises1 statues1 cascades1 nor bowling-greens4 ,this ,alcinous had a charming daughter who dreamed the night before her father received a stranger at his board that she would soon have a husband4 ,sophy1 taken unawares1 blushed1 hung her head1 and bit her lips2 no one could be more confused4 ,her father1 who was enjoying her confusion1 added that the young princess bent herself to wash the linen in the river4 ,do you think1 said he1 she would have scorned to touch the dirty clothes1 saying1 that they smelt of grease8 ,sophy1 touched to the quick1 forgot her natural timidity and defended herself eagerly4 ,her papa knew very well all the smaller things would have had no other laundress if she had been allowed to wash them1 and she would gladly have done more had she been set to do it4 ,footnote3 ,i own ,i feel grateful to ,sophy's mother for not letting her spoil such pretty hands with soap1 hands which ,emile will kiss so often4 ,meanwhile she watched me secretly with such anxiety that ,i could not suppress a smile1 while ,i read the terrors of her simple heart which urged her to speak4 ,her father was cruel enough to continue this foolish sport1 by asking her1 in jest1 why she spoke on her own behalf and what had she in common with the daughter of ,alcinous4 ,trembling and ashamed she dared hardly breathe or look at us4 ,charming girl6 ,this is no time for feigning1 you have shown your true feelings in spite of yourself4 ,to all appearance this little scene is soon forgotten2 luckily for ,sophy1 ,emile1 at least1 is unaware of it4 ,we continue our walk1 the young people at first keeping close beside us2 but they find it hard to adapt themselves to our slower pace1 and presently they are a little in front of us1 they are walking side by side1 they begin to talk1 and before long they are a good way ahead4 ,sophy seems to be listening quietly1 ,emile is talking and gesticulating vigorously2 they seem to find their conversation interesting4 ,when we turn homewards a full hour later1 we call them to us and they return slowly enough now1 and we can see they are making good use of their time4 ,their conversation ceases suddenly before they come within earshot1 and they hurry up to us4 ,emile meets us with a frank affectionate expression2 his eyes are sparkling with joy2 yet he looks anxiously at ,sophy's mother to see how she takes it4 ,sophy is not nearly so much at her ease2 as she approaches us she seems covered with confusion at finding herself tete-a-tete with a young man1 though she has met so many other young men frankly enough1 and without being found fault with for it4 ,she runs up to her mother1 somewhat out of breath1 and makes some trivial remark1 as if to pretend she had been with her for some time4 ,from the happy expression of these dear children we see that this conversation has taken a load off their hearts4 ,they are no less reticent in their intercourse1 but their reticence is less embarrassing1 it is only due to ,emile's reverence and ,sophy's modesty1 to the goodness of both4 ,emile ventures to say a few words to her1 she ventures to reply1 but she always looks at her mother before she dares to answer4 ,the most remarkable change is in her attitude towards me4 ,she shows me the greatest respect1 she watches me with interest1 she takes pains to please me2 ,i see that ,i am honoured with her esteem1 and that she is not indifferent to mine4 ,i understand that ,emile has been talking to her about me2 you might say they have been scheming to win me over to their side2 yet it is not so1 and ,sophy herself is not so easily won4 ,perhaps ,emile will have more need of my influence with her than of hers with me4 ,what a charming pair6 ,when ,i consider that the tender love of my young friend has brought my name so prominently into his first conversation with his lady-love1 ,i enjoy the reward of all my trouble2 his affection is a sufficient recompense4 ,our visit is repeated4 ,there are frequent conversations between the young people4 ,emile is madly in love and thinks that his happiness is within his grasp4 ,yet he does not succeed in winning any formal avowal from ,sophy2 she listens to what he says and answers nothing4 ,emile knows how modest she is1 and is not surprised at her reticence2 he feels sure that she likes him2 he knows that parents decide whom their daughters shall marry2 he supposes that ,sophy is awaiting her parents' commands2 he asks her permission to speak to them1 and she makes no objection4 ,he talks to me and ,i speak on his behalf and in his presence4 ,he is immensely surprised to hear that ,sophy is her own mistress1 that his happiness depends on her alone4 ,he begins to be puzzled by her conduct4 ,he is less self-confident1 he takes alarm1 he sees that he has not made so much progress as he expected1 and then it is that his love appeals to her in the tenderest and most moving language4 ,emile is not the sort of man to guess what is the matter2 if no one told him he would never discover it as long as he lived1 and ,sophy is too proud to tell him4 ,what she considers obstacles1 others would call advantages4 ,she has not forgotten her parents' teaching4 ,she is poor2 ,emile is rich2 so much she knows4 ,he must win her esteem2 his deserts must be great indeed to remove this inequality4 ,but how should he perceive these obstacles8 ,is ,emile aware that he is rich8 ,has he ever condescended to inquire8 ,thank heaven1 he has no need of riches1 he can do good without their aid4 ,the good he does comes from his heart1 not his purse4 ,he gives the wretched his time1 his care1 his affection1 himself2 and when he reckons up what he has done1 he hardly dares to mention the money spent on the poor4 ,as he does not know what to make of his disgrace1 he thinks it is his own fault2 for who would venture to accuse the adored one of caprice4 ,the shame of humiliation adds to the pangs of disappointed love4 ,he no longer approaches ,sophy with that pleasant confidence of his own worth2 he is shy and timid in her presence4 ,he no longer hopes to win her affections1 but to gain her pity4 ,sometimes he loses patience and is almost angry with her4 ,sophy seems to guess his angry feelings and she looks at him4 ,her glance is enough to disarm and terrify him2 he is more submissive than he used to be4 ,disturbed by this stubborn resistance1 this invincible silence1 he pours out his heart to his friend4 ,he shares with him the pangs of a heart devoured by sorrow2 he implores his help and counsel4 ,how mysterious it is1 how hard to understand6 ,she takes an interest in me1 that ,i am sure2 far from avoiding me she is pleased to see me2 when ,i come she shows signs of pleasure1 when ,i go she shows regret2 she receives my attentions kindly1 my services seem to give her pleasure1 she condescends to give me her advice and even her commands4 ,yet she rejects my requests and my prayers4 ,when ,i venture to speak of marriage1 she bids me be silent2 if ,i say a word1 she leaves me at once4 ,why on earth should she wish me to be hers but refuse to be mine8 ,she respects and loves you1 and she will not dare to refuse to listen to you4 ,speak to her1 make her answer4 ,come to your friend's help1 and put the coping stone to all you have done for him2 do not let him fall a victim to your care6 ,if you fail to secure his happiness1 your own teaching will have been the cause of his misery4 ,i speak to ,sophy1 and have no difficulty in getting her to confide her secret to me1 a secret which was known to me already4 ,it is not so easy to get permission to tell ,emile2 but at last she gives me leave and ,i tell him what is the matter4 ,he cannot get over his surprise at this explanation4 ,he cannot understand this delicacy2 he cannot see how a few pounds more or less can affect his character or his deserts4 ,when ,i get him to see their effect on people's prejudices he begins to laugh2 he is so wild with delight that he wants to be off at once to tear up his title deeds and renounce his money1 so as to have the honour of being as poor as ,sophy1 and to return worthy to be her husband4 ,why1 said ,i1 trying to check him1 and laughing in my turn at his impetuosity1 will this young head never grow any older8 ,having dabbled all your life in philosophy1 will you never learn to reason8 ,do not you see that your wild scheme would only make things worse1 and ,sophy more obstinate8 ,it is a small superiority to be rather richer than she1 but to give up all for her would be a very great superiority2 if her pride cannot bear to be under the small obligation1 how will she make up her mind to the greater8 ,if she cannot bear to think that her husband might taunt her with the fact that he has enriched her1 would she permit him to blame her for having brought him to poverty8 ,wretched boy1 beware lest she suspects you of such a plan6 ,on the contrary1 be careful and economical for her sake1 lest she should accuse you of trying to gain her by cunning1 by sacrificing of your own free will what you are really wasting through carelessness4 ,do you really think that she is afraid of wealth1 and that she is opposed to great possessions in themselves8 ,no1 dear ,emile2 there are more serious and substantial grounds for her opinion1 in the effect produced by wealth on its possessor4 ,she knows that those who are possessed of fortune's gifts are apt to place them first4 ,the rich always put wealth before merit4 ,when services are reckoned against silver1 the latter always outweighs the former1 and those who have spent their life in their master's service are considered his debtors for the very bread they eat4 ,what must you do1 ,emile1 to calm her fears8 ,let her get to know you better2 that is not done in a day4 ,show her the treasures of your heart1 to counterbalance the wealth which is unfortunately yours4 ,time and constancy will overcome her resistance2 let your great and noble feelings make her forget your wealth4 ,love her1 serve her1 serve her worthy parents4 ,convince her that these attentions are not the result of a foolish fleeting passion1 but of settled principles engraved upon your heart4 ,show them the honour deserved by worth when exposed to the buffets of ,fortune2 that is the only way to reconcile it with that worth which basks in her smiles4 ,the transports of joy experienced by the young man at these words may easily be imagined2 they restore confidence and hope1 his good heart rejoices to do something to please ,sophy1 which he would have done if there had been no such person1 or if he had not been in love with her4 ,however little his character has been understood1 anybody can see how he would behave under such circumstances4 ,here am ,i1 the confidant of these two young people and the mediator of their affection4 ,what a fine task for a tutor6 ,so fine that never in all my life have ,i stood so high in my own eyes1 nor felt so pleased with myself4 ,moreover1 this duty is not without its charms4 ,i am not unwelcome in the home2 it is my business to see that the lovers behave themselves2 ,emile1 ever afraid of offending me1 was never so docile4 ,the little lady herself overwhelms me with a kindness which does not deceive me1 and of which ,i only take my proper share4 ,this is her way of making up for her severity towards ,emile4 ,for his sake she bestows on me a hundred tender caresses1 though she would die rather than bestow them on him2 and he1 knowing that ,i would never stand in his way1 is delighted that ,i should get on so well with her4 ,if she refuses his arm when we are out walking1 he consoles himself with the thought that she has taken mine4 ,he makes way for me without a murmur1 he clasps my hand1 and voice and look alike whisper1 ,my friend1 plead for me6 and his eyes follow us with interest2 he tries to read our feelings in our faces1 and to interpret our conversation by our gestures2 he knows that everything we are saying concerns him4 ,dear ,sophy1 how frank and easy you are when you can talk to ,mentor without being overheard by ,telemachus4 ,how freely and delightfully you permit him to read what is passing in your tender little heart6 ,how delighted you are to show him how you esteem his pupil6 ,how cunningly and appealingly you allow him to divine still tenderer sentiments4 ,with what a pretence of anger you dismiss ,emile when his impatience leads him to interrupt you8 ,with what pretty vexation you reproach his indiscretion when he comes and prevents you saying something to his credit1 or listening to what ,i say about him1 or finding in my words some new excuse to love him6 ,having got so far as to be tolerated as an acknowledged lover1 ,emile takes full advantage of his position2 he speaks1 he urges1 he implores1 he demands4 ,hard words or ill treatment make no difference1 provided he gets a hearing4 ,at length ,sophy is persuaded1 though with some difficulty1 to assume the authority of a betrothed1 to decide what he shall do1 to command instead of to ask1 to accept instead of to thank1 to control the frequency and the hours of his visits1 to forbid him to come till such a day or to stay beyond such an hour4 ,this is not done in play1 but in earnest1 and if it was hard to induce her to accept these rights1 she uses them so sternly that ,emile is often ready to regret that he gave them to her4 ,but whatever her commands1 they are obeyed without question1 and often when at her bidding he is about to leave her1 he glances at me his eyes full of delight1 as if to say1 ,you see she has taken possession of me4 ,yet unknown to him1 ,sophy1 with all her pride1 is observing him closely1 and she is smiling to herself at the pride of her slave4 ,oh that ,i had the brush of an ,alban or a ,raphael to paint their bliss1 or the pen of the divine ,milton to describe the pleasures of love and innocence6 ,not so2 let such hollow arts shrink back before the sacred truth of nature4 ,in tenderness and pureness of heart let your imagination freely trace the raptures of these young lovers1 who under the eyes of parents and tutor1 abandon themselves to their blissful illusions2 in the intoxication of passion they are advancing step by step to its consummation2 with flowers and garlands they are weaving the bonds which are to bind them till death do part4 ,i am carried away by this succession of pictures1 ,i am so happy that ,i cannot group them in any sort of order or scheme2 any one with a heart in his breast can paint the charming picture for himself and realise the different experiences of father1 mother1 daughter1 tutor1 and pupil1 and the part played by each and all in the union of the most delightful couple whom love and virtue have ever led to happiness4 ,now that he is really eager to please1 ,emile begins to feel the value of the accomplishments he has acquired4 ,sophy is fond of singing1 he sings with her2 he does more1 he teaches her music4 ,she is lively and light of foot1 she loves skipping2 he dances with her1 he perfects and develops her untrained movements into the steps of the dance4 ,these lessons1 enlivened by the gayest mirth1 are quite delightful1 they melt the timid respect of love2 a lover may enjoy teaching his betrothed--he has a right to be her teacher4 ,there is an old spinet quite out of order4 ,emile mends and tunes it2 he is a maker and mender of musical instruments as well as a carpenter2 it has always been his rule to learn to do everything he can for himself4 ,the house is picturesquely situated and he makes several sketches of it1 in some of which ,sophy does her share1 and she hangs them in her father's study4 ,the frames are not gilded1 nor do they require gilding4 ,when she sees ,emile drawing1 she draws too1 and improves her own drawing2 she cultivates all her talents1 and her grace gives a charm to all she does4 ,her father and mother recall the days of their wealth1 when they find themselves surrounded by the works of art which alone gave value to wealth2 the whole house is adorned by love2 love alone has enthroned among them1 without cost or effort1 the very same pleasures which were gathered together in former days by dint of toil and money4 ,as the idolater gives what he loves best to the shrine of the object of his worship1 so the lover is not content to see perfection in his mistress1 he must be ever trying to add to her adornment4 ,she does not need it for his pleasure1 it is he who needs the pleasure of giving1 it is a fresh homage to be rendered to her1 a fresh pleasure in the joy of beholding her4 ,everything of beauty seems to find its place only as an accessory to the supreme beauty4 ,it is both touching and amusing to see ,emile eager to teach ,sophy everything he knows1 without asking whether she wants to learn it or whether it is suitable for her4 ,he talks about all sorts of things and explains them to her with boyish eagerness2 he thinks he has only to speak and she will understand2 he looks forward to arguing1 and discussing philosophy with her2 everything he cannot display before her is so much useless learning2 he is quite ashamed of knowing more than she4 ,so he gives her lessons in philosophy1 physics1 mathematics1 history1 and everything else4 ,sophy is delighted to share his enthusiasm and to try and profit by it4 ,how pleased ,emile is when he can get leave to give these lessons on his knees before her6 ,he thinks the heavens are open4 ,yet this position1 more trying to pupil than to teacher1 is hardly favourable to study4 ,it is not easy to know where to look1 to avoid meeting the eyes which follow our own1 and if they meet so much the worse for the lesson4 ,women are no strangers to the art of thinking1 but they should only skim the surface of logic and metaphysics4 ,sophy understands readily1 but she soon forgets4 ,she makes most progress in the moral sciences and aesthetics2 as to physical science she retains some vague idea of the general laws and order of this world4 ,sometimes in the course of their walks1 the spectacle of the wonders of nature bids them not fear to raise their pure and innocent hearts to nature's ,god2 they are not afraid of ,his presence1 and they pour out their hearts before him4 ,what6 ,two young lovers spending their time together talking of religion6 ,have they nothing better to do than to say their catechism6 ,what profit is there in the attempt to degrade what is noble8 ,yes1 no doubt they are saying their catechism in their delightful land of romance2 they are perfect in each other's eyes2 they love one another1 they talk eagerly of all that makes virtue worth having4 ,their sacrifices to virtue make her all the dearer to them4 ,their struggles after self-control draw from them tears purer than the dew of heaven1 and these sweet tears are the joy of life2 no human heart has ever experienced a sweeter intoxication4 ,their very renunciation adds to their happiness1 and their sacrifices increase their self-respect4 ,sensual men1 bodies without souls1 some day they will know your pleasures1 and all their life long they will recall with regret the happy days when they refused the cup of pleasure4 ,in spite of this good understanding1 differences and even quarrels occur from time to time2 the lady has her whims1 the lover has a hot temper2 but these passing showers are soon over and only serve to strengthen their union4 ,emile learns by experience not to attach too much importance to them1 he always gains more by the reconciliation than he lost by the quarrel4 ,the results of the first difference made him expect a like result from all2 he was mistaken1 but even if he does not make any appreciable step forward1 he has always the satisfaction of finding ,sophy's genuine concern for his affection more firmly established4 ,what advantage is this to him8 you would ask4 ,i will gladly tell you2 all the more gladly because it will give me an opportunity to establish clearly a very important principle1 and to combat a very deadly one4 ,emile is in love1 but he is not presuming2 and you will easily understand that the dignified ,sophy is not the sort of girl to allow any kind of familiarity4 ,yet virtue has its bounds like everything else1 and she is rather to be blamed for her severity than for indulgence2 even her father himself is sometimes afraid lest her lofty pride should degenerate into a haughty spirit4 ,when most alone1 ,emile dare not ask for the slightest favour1 he must not even seem to desire it2 and if she is gracious enough to take his arm when they are out walking1 a favour which she will never permit him to claim as a right1 it is only occasionally that he dare venture with a sigh to press her hand to his heart4 ,however1 after a long period of self-restraint1 he ventured secretly to kiss the hem of her dress1 and several times he was lucky enough to find her willing at least to pretend she was not aware of it4 ,one day he attempts to take the same privilege rather more openly1 and ,sophy takes it into her head to be greatly offended4 ,he persists1 she gets angry and speaks sharply to him2 ,emile will not put up with this without reply2 the rest of the day is given over to sulks1 and they part in a very ill temper4 ,sophy is ill at ease2 her mother is her confidant in all things1 how can she keep this from her8 ,it is their first misunderstanding1 and the misunderstanding of an hour is such a serious business4 ,she is sorry for what she has done1 she has her mother's permission and her father's commands to make reparation4 ,the next day ,emile returns somewhat earlier than usual and in a state of some anxiety4 ,sophy is in her mother's dressing-room and her father is also present4 ,emile enters respectfully but gloomily4 ,scarcely have her parents greeted him than ,sophy turns round and holding out her hand asks him in an affectionate tone how he is4 ,that pretty hand is clearly held out to be kissed2 he takes it but does not kiss it4 ,sophy1 rather ashamed of herself1 withdraws her hand as best she may4 ,emile1 who is not used to a woman's whims1 and does not know how far caprice may be carried1 does not forget so easily or make friends again all at once4 ,sophy's father1 seeing her confusion1 completes her discomfiture by his jokes4 ,the poor girl1 confused and ashamed1 does not know what to do with herself and would gladly have a good cry4 ,the more she tries to control herself the worse she feels2 at last a tear escapes in spite of all she can do to prevent it4 ,emile1 seeing this tear1 rushes towards her1 falls on his knees1 takes her hand and kisses it again and again with the greatest devotion4 ,my word1 you are too kind to her1 says her father1 laughing2 if ,i were you1 ,i should deal more severely with these follies1 ,i should punish the mouth that wronged me4 ,emboldened by these words1 ,emile turns a suppliant eye towards her mother1 and thinking she is not unwilling1 he tremblingly approaches ,sophy's face2 she turns away her head1 and to save her mouth she exposes a blushing cheek4 ,the daring young man is not content with this2 there is no great resistance4 ,what a kiss1 if it were not taken under her mother's eyes4 ,have a care1 ,sophy1 in your severity2 he will be ready enough to try to kiss your dress if only you will sometimes say ,no4 ,after this exemplary punishment1 ,sophy's father goes about his business1 and her mother makes some excuse for sending her out of the room2 then she speaks to ,emile very seriously4 ,sir1 she says1 ,i think a young man so well born and well bred as yourself1 a man of feeling and character1 would never reward with dishonour the confidence reposed in him by the friendship of this family4 ,i am neither prudish nor over strict2 ,i know how to make excuses for youthful folly1 and what ,i have permitted in my own presence is sufficient proof of this4 ,consult your friend as to your own duty1 he will tell you there is all the difference in the world between the playful kisses sanctioned by the presence of father and mother1 and the same freedom taken in their absence and in betrayal of their confidence1 a freedom which makes a snare of the very favours which in the parents' presence were wholly innocent4 ,he will tell you1 sir1 that my daughter is only to blame for not having perceived from the first what she ought never to have permitted2 he will tell you that every favour1 taken as such1 is a favour1 and that it is unworthy of a man of honour to take advantage of a young girl's innocence1 to usurp in private the same freedom which she may permit in the presence of others4 ,for good manners teach us what is permitted in public2 but we do not know what a man will permit to himself in private1 if he makes himself the sole judge of his conduct4 ,after this well-deserved rebuke1 addressed rather to me than to my pupil1 the good mother leaves us1 and ,i am amazed by her rare prudence1 in thinking it a little thing that ,emile should kiss her daughter's lips in her presence1 while fearing lest he should venture to kiss her dress when they are alone4 ,when ,i consider the folly of worldly maxims1 whereby real purity is continually sacrificed to a show of propriety1 ,i understand why speech becomes more refined while the heart becomes more corrupt1 and why etiquette is stricter while those who conform to it are most immoral4 ,while ,i am trying to convince ,emile's heart with regard to these duties which ,i ought to have instilled into him sooner1 a new idea occurs to me1 an idea which perhaps does ,sophy all the more credit1 though ,i shall take care not to tell her lover2 this so-called pride1 for which she has been censured1 is clearly only a very wise precaution to protect her from herself4 ,being aware that1 unfortunately1 her own temperament is inflammable1 she dreads the least spark1 and keeps out of reach so far as she can4 ,her sternness is due not to pride but to humility4 ,she assumes a control over ,emile because she doubts her control of herself2 she turns the one against the other4 ,if she had more confidence in herself she would be much less haughty4 ,with this exception is there anywhere on earth a gentler1 sweeter girl8 ,is there any who endures an affront with greater patience1 any who is more afraid of annoying others8 ,is there any with less pretension1 except in the matter of virtue8 ,moreover1 she is not proud of her virtue1 she is only proud in order to preserve her virtue1 and if she can follow the guidance of her heart without danger1 she caresses her lover himself4 ,but her wise mother does not confide all this even to her father2 men should not hear everything4 ,far from seeming proud of her conquest1 ,sophy has grown more friendly and less exacting towards everybody1 except perhaps the one person who has wrought this change4 ,her noble heart no longer swells with the feeling of independence4 ,she triumphs modestly over a victory gained at the price of her freedom4 ,her bearing is more restrained1 her speech more timid1 since she has begun to blush at the word lover2 but contentment may be seen beneath her outward confusion and this very shame is not painful4 ,this change is most noticeable in her behaviour towards the young men she meets4 ,now that she has ceased to be afraid of them1 much of her extreme reserve has disappeared4 ,now that her choice is made1 she does not hesitate to be gracious to those to whom she is quite indifferent2 taking no more interest in them1 she is less difficult to please1 and she always finds them pleasant enough for people who are of no importance to her4 ,if true love were capable of coquetry1 ,i should fancy ,i saw traces of it in the way ,sophy behaves towards other young men in her lover's presence4 ,one would say that not content with the ardent passion she inspires by a mixture of shyness and caresses1 she is not sorry to rouse this passion by a little anxiety2 one would say that when she is purposely amusing her young guests she means to torment ,emile by the charms of a freedom she will not allow herself with him2 but ,sophy is too considerate1 too kindly1 too wise to really torment him4 ,love and honour take the place of prudence and control the use of this dangerous weapon4 ,she can alarm and reassure him just as he needs it2 and if she sometimes makes him uneasy she never really gives him pain4 ,the anxiety she causes to her beloved may be forgiven because of her fear that he is not sufficiently her own4 ,but what effect will this little performance have upon ,emile8 ,will he be jealous or not8 ,that is what we must discover2 for such digressions form part of the purpose of my book1 and they do not lead me far from my main subject4 ,i have already shown how this passion of jealousy in matters of convention finds its way into the heart of man4 ,in love it is another matter2 then jealousy is so near akin to nature1 that it is hard to believe that it is not her work2 and the example of the very beasts1 many of whom are madly jealous1 seems to prove this point beyond reply4 ,is it man's influence that has taught cooks to tear each other to pieces or bulls to fight to the death8 ,no one can deny that the aversion to everything which may disturb or interfere with our pleasures is a natural impulse4 ,up to a certain point the desire for the exclusive possession of that which ministers to our pleasure is in the same case4 ,but when this desire has become a passion1 when it is transformed into madness1 or into a bitter and suspicious fancy known as jealousy1 that is quite another matter2 such a passion may be natural or it may not2 we must distinguish between these different cases4 ,i have already analysed the example of the animal world in my ,discourse on ,inequality1 and on further consideration ,i think ,i may refer my readers to that analysis as sufficiently thorough4 ,i will only add this further point to those already made in that work1 that the jealousy which springs from nature depends greatly on sexual power1 and that when sexual power is or appears to be boundless1 that jealousy is at its height2 for then the male1 measuring his rights by his needs1 can never see another male except as an unwelcome rival4 ,in such species the females always submit to the first comer1 they only belong to the male by right of conquest1 and they are the cause of unending strife4 ,among the monogamous species1 where intercourse seems to give rise to some sort of moral bond1 a kind of marriage1 the female who belongs by choice to the male on whom she has bestowed herself usually denies herself to all others2 and the male1 having this preference of affection as a pledge of her fidelity1 is less uneasy at the sight of other males and lives more peaceably with them4 ,among these species the male shares the care of the little ones2 and by one of those touching laws of nature it seems as if the female rewards the father for his love for his children4 ,now consider the human species in its primitive simplicity2 it is easy to see1 from the limited powers of the male1 and the moderation of his desires1 that nature meant him to be content with one female2 this is confirmed by the numerical equality of the two sexes1 at any rate in our part of the world2 an equality which does not exist in anything like the same degree among those species in which several females are collected around one male4 ,though a man does not brood like a pigeon1 and though he has no milk to suckle the young1 and must in this respect be classed with the quadrupeds1 his children are feeble and helpless for so long a time1 that mother and children could ill dispense with the father's affection1 and the care which results from it4 ,all these observations combine to prove that the jealous fury of the males of certain animals proves nothing with regard to man2 and the exceptional case of those southern regions were polygamy is the established custom1 only confirms the rule1 since it is the plurality of wives that gives rise to the tyrannical precautions of the husband1 and the consciousness of his own weakness makes the man resort to constraint to evade the laws of nature4 ,among ourselves where these same laws are less frequently evaded in this respect1 but are more frequently evaded in another and even more detestable manner1 jealousy finds its motives in the passions of society rather than in those of primitive instinct4 ,in most irregular connections the hatred of the lover for his rivals far exceeds his love for his mistress2 if he fears a rival in her affections it is the effect of that self-love whose origin ,i have already traced out1 and he is moved by vanity rather than affection4 ,moreover1 our clumsy systems of education have made women so deceitful1 ,footnote3 ,the kind of deceit referred to here is just the opposite of that deceit becoming in a woman1 and taught her by nature2 the latter consists in concealing her real feelings1 the former in feigning what she does not feel4 ,every society lady spends her life in boasting of her supposed sensibility1 when in reality she cares for no one but herself4 and have so over-stimulated their appetites1 that you cannot rely even on the most clearly proved affection2 they can no longer display a preference which secures you against the fear of a rival4 ,true love is another matter4 ,i have shown1 in the work already referred to1 that this sentiment is not so natural as men think1 and that there is a great difference between the gentle habit which binds a man with cords of love to his helpmeet1 and the unbridled passion which is intoxicated by the fancied charms of an object which he no longer sees in its true light4 ,this passion which is full of exclusions and preferences1 only differs from vanity in this respect1 that vanity demands all and gives nothing1 so that it is always harmful1 while love1 bestowing as much as it demands1 is in itself a sentiment full of equity4 ,moreover1 the more exacting it is1 the more credulous2 that very illusion which gave rise to it1 makes it easy to persuade4 ,if love is suspicious1 esteem is trustful2 and love will never exist in an honest heart without esteem1 for every one loves in another the qualities which he himself holds in honour4 ,when once this is clearly understood1 we can predict with confidence the kind of jealousy which ,emile will be capable of experiencing2 as there is only the smallest germ of this passion in the human heart1 the form it takes must depend solely upon education3 ,emile1 full of love and jealousy1 will not be angry1 sullen1 suspicious1 but delicate1 sensitive1 and timid2 he will be more alarmed than vexed2 he will think more of securing his lady-love than of threatening his rival2 he will treat him as an obstacle to be removed if possible from his path1 rather than as a rival to be hated2 if he hates him1 it is not because he presumes to compete with him for ,sophy's affection1 but because ,emile feels that there is a real danger of losing that affection2 he will not be so unjust and foolish as to take offence at the rivalry itself2 he understands that the law of preference rests upon merit only1 and that honour depends upon success2 he will redouble his efforts to make himself acceptable1 and he will probably succeed4 ,his generous ,sophy1 though she has given alarm to his love1 is well able to allay that fear1 to atone for it2 and the rivals who were only suffered to put him to the proof are speedily dismissed4 ,but whither am ,i going8 ,o ,emile6 what art thou now8 ,is this my pupil8 ,how art thou fallen6 ,where is that young man so sternly fashioned1 who braved all weathers1 who devoted his body to the hardest tasks and his soul to the laws of wisdom2 untouched by prejudice or passion1 a lover of truth1 swayed by reason only1 unheeding all that was not hers8 ,living in softness and idleness he now lets himself be ruled by women2 their amusements are the business of his life1 their wishes are his laws2 a young girl is the arbiter of his fate1 he cringes and grovels before her2 the earnest ,emile is the plaything of a child4 ,so shift the scenes of life2 each age is swayed by its own motives1 but the man is the same4 ,at ten his mind was set upon cakes1 at twenty it is set upon his mistress2 at thirty it will be set upon pleasure2 at forty on ambition1 at fifty on avarice2 when will he seek after wisdom only8 ,happy is he who is compelled to follow her against his will6 ,what matter who is the guide1 if the end is attained4 ,heroes and sages have themselves paid tribute to this human weakness2 and those who handled the distaff with clumsy fingers were none the less great men4 ,if you would prolong the influence of a good education through life itself1 the good habits acquired in childhood must be carried forward into adolescence1 and when your pupil is what he ought to be you must manage to keep him what he ought to be4 ,this is the coping-stone of your work4 ,this is why it is of the first importance that the tutor should remain with young men2 otherwise there is little doubt they will learn to make love without him4 ,the great mistake of tutors and still more of fathers is to think that one way of living makes another impossible1 and that as soon as the child is grown up1 you must abandon everything you used to do when he was little4 ,if that were so1 why should we take such pains in childhood1 since the good or bad use we make of it will vanish with childhood itself2 if another way of life were necessarily accompanied by other ways of thinking8 ,the stream of memory is only interrupted by great illnesses1 and the stream of conduct1 by great passions4 ,our tastes and inclinations may change1 but this change1 though it may be sudden enough1 is rendered less abrupt by our habits4 ,the skilful artist1 in a good colour scheme1 contrives so to mingle and blend his tints that the transitions are imperceptible2 and certain colour washes are spread over the whole picture so that there may be no sudden breaks4 ,so should it be with our likings4 ,unbalanced characters are always changing their affections1 their tastes1 their sentiments2 the only constant factor is the habit of change2 but the man of settled character always returns to his former habits and preserves to old age the tastes and the pleasures of his childhood4 ,if you contrive that young people passing from one stage of life to another do not despise what has gone before1 that when they form new habits1 they do not forsake the old1 and that they always love to do what is right1 in things new and old2 then only are the fruits of your toil secure1 and you are sure of your scholars as long as they live2 for the revolution most to be dreaded is that of the age over which you are now watching4 ,as men always look back to this period with regret so the tastes carried forward into it from childhood are not easily destroyed2 but if once interrupted they are never resumed4 ,most of the habits you think you have instilled into children and young people are not really habits at all2 they have only been acquired under compulsion1 and being followed reluctantly they will be cast off at the first opportunity4 ,however long you remain in prison you never get a taste for prison life2 so aversion is increased rather than diminished by habit4 ,not so with ,emile2 as a child he only did what he could do willingly and with pleasure1 and as a man he will do the same1 and the force of habit will only lend its help to the joys of freedom4 ,an active life1 bodily labour1 exercise1 movement1 have become so essential to him that he could not relinquish them without suffering4 ,reduce him all at once to a soft and sedentary life and you condemn him to chains and imprisonment1 you keep him in a condition of thraldom and constraint2 he would suffer1 no doubt1 both in health and temper4 ,he can scarcely breathe in a stuffy room1 he requires open air1 movement1 fatigue4 ,even at ,sophy's feet he cannot help casting a glance at the country and longing to explore it in her company4 ,yet he remains if he must2 but he is anxious and ill at ease2 he seems to be struggling with himself2 he remains because he is a captive4 ,yes1 you will say1 these are necessities to which you have subjected him1 a yoke which you have laid upon him4 ,you speak truly1 ,i have subjected him to the yoke of manhood4 ,emile loves ,sophy2 but what were the charms by which he was first attracted8 ,sensibility1 virtue1 and love for things pure and honest4 ,when he loves this love in ,sophy1 will he cease to feel it himself8 ,and what price did she put upon herself8 ,she required all her lover's natural feelings--esteem of what is really good1 frugality1 simplicity1 generous unselfishness1 a scorn of pomp and riches4 ,these virtues were ,emile's before love claimed them of him4 ,is he really changed8 ,he has all the more reason to be himself2 that is the only difference4 ,the careful reader will not suppose that all the circumstances in which he is placed are the work of chance4 ,there were many charming girls in the town2 is it chance that his choice is discovered in a distant retreat8 ,is their meeting the work of chance8 ,is it chance that makes them so suited to each other8 ,is it chance that they cannot live in the same place1 that he is compelled to find a lodging so far from her8 ,is it chance that he can see her so seldom and must purchase the pleasure of seeing her at the price of such fatigue8 ,you say he is becoming effeminate4 ,not so1 he is growing stronger2 he must be fairly robust to stand the fatigue he endures on ,sophy's account4 ,he lives more than two leagues away4 ,that distance serves to temper the shafts of love4 ,if they lived next door to each other1 or if he could drive to see her in a comfortable carriage1 he would love at his ease in the ,paris fashion4 ,would ,leander have braved death for the sake of ,hero if the sea had not lain between them8 ,need ,i say more2 if my reader is able to take my meaning1 he will be able to follow out my principles in detail4 ,the first time we went to see ,sophy1 we went on horseback1 so as to get there more quickly4 ,we continue this convenient plan until our fifth visit4 ,we were expected2 and more than half a league from the house we see people on the road4 ,emile watches them1 his pulse quickens as he gets nearer1 he recognises ,sophy and dismounts quickly2 he hastens to join the charming family4 ,emile is fond of good horses2 his horse is fresh1 he feels he is free1 and gallops off across the fields2 ,i follow and with some difficulty ,i succeed in catching him and bringing him back4 ,unluckily ,sophy is afraid of horses1 and ,i dare not approach her4 ,emile has not seen what happened1 but ,sophy whispers to him that he is giving his friend a great deal of trouble4 ,he hurries up quite ashamed of himself1 takes the horses1 and follows after the party4 ,it is only fair that each should take his turn and he rides on to get rid of our mounts4 ,he has to leave ,sophy behind him1 and he no longer thinks riding a convenient mode of travelling4 ,he returns out of breath and meets us half-way4 ,the next time1 ,emile will not hear of horses4 ,why1 say ,i1 we need only take a servant to look after them4 ,shall we put our worthy friends to such expense8 he replies4 ,you see they would insist on feeding man and horse4 ,that is true1 ,i reply2 theirs is the generous hospitality of the poor4 ,the rich man in his niggardly pride only welcomes his friends1 but the poor find room for their friends' horses4 ,let us go on foot1 says he2 won't you venture on the walk1 when you are always so ready to share the toilsome pleasures of your child8 ,i will gladly go with you1 ,i reply at once1 and it seems to me that love does not desire so much show4 ,as we draw near1 we meet the mother and daughter even further from home than on the last occasion4 ,we have come at a great pace4 ,emile is very warm2 his beloved condescends to pass her handkerchief over his cheeks4 ,it would take a good many horses to make us ride there after this4 ,but it is rather hard never to be able to spend an evening together4 ,midsummer is long past and the days are growing shorter4 ,whatever we say1 we are not allowed to return home in the dark1 and unless we make a very early start1 we have to go back almost as soon as we get there4 ,the mother is sorry for us and uneasy on our account1 and it occurs to her that1 though it would not be proper for us to stay in the house1 beds might be found for us in the village1 if we liked to stay there occasionally4 ,emile claps his hands at this idea and trembles with joy2 ,sophy1 unwittingly1 kisses her mother rather oftener than usual on the day this idea occurs to her4 ,little by little the charm of friendship and the familiarity of innocence take root and grow among us4 ,i generally accompany my young friend on the days appointed by ,sophy or her mother1 but sometimes ,i let him go alone4 ,the heart thrives in the sunshine of confidence1 and a man must not be treated as a child2 and what have ,i accomplished so far1 if my pupil is unworthy of my esteem8 ,now and then ,i go without him2 he is sorry1 but he does not complain2 what use would it be8 ,and then he knows ,i shall not interfere with his interests4 ,however1 whether we go together or separately you will understand that we are not stopped by the weather2 we are only too proud to arrive in a condition which calls for pity4 ,unluckily ,sophy deprives us of this honour and forbids us to come in bad weather4 ,this is the only occasion on which she rebels against the rules which ,i laid down for her in private4 ,one day ,emile had gone alone and ,i did not expect him back till the following day1 but he returned the same evening4 ,my dear ,emile1 said ,i1 have you come back to your old friend already8 ,but instead of responding to my caresses he replied with some show of temper1 ,you need not suppose ,i came back so soon of my own accord2 she insisted on it2 it is for her sake not yours that ,i am here4 ,touched by his frankness ,i renewed my caresses1 saying1 ,truthful heart and faithful friend1 do not conceal from me anything ,i ought to know4 ,if you came back for her sake1 you told me so for my own2 your return is her doing1 your frankness is mine4 ,continue to preserve the noble candour of great souls2 strangers may think what they will1 but it is a crime to let our friends think us better than we are4 ,i take care not to let him underrate the cost of his confession by assuming that there is more love than generosity in it1 and by telling him that he would rather deprive himself of the honour of this return1 than give it to ,sophy4 ,but this is how he revealed to me1 all unconsciously1 what were his real feelings2 if he had returned slowly and comfortably1 dreaming of his sweetheart1 ,i should know he was merely her lover2 when he hurried back1 even if he was a little out of temper1 he was the friend of his ,mentor4 ,you see that the young man is very far from spending his days with ,sophy1 and seeing as much of her as he wants4 ,one or two visits a week are all that is permitted1 and these visits are often only for the afternoon and are rarely extended to the next day4 ,he spends much more of his time in longing to see her1 or in rejoicing that he has seen her1 than he actually spends in her presence4 ,even when he goes to see her1 more time is spent in going and returning than by her side4 ,his pleasures1 genuine1 pure1 delicious1 but more imaginary than real1 serve to kindle his love but not to make him effeminate4 ,on the days when he does not see ,sophy he is not sitting idle at home4 ,he is ,emile himself and quite unchanged4 ,he usually scours the country round in pursuit of its natural history2 he observes and studies the soil1 its products1 and their mode of cultivation2 he compares the methods he sees with those with which he is already familiar2 he tries to find the reasons for any differences2 if he thinks other methods better than those of the locality1 he introduces them to the farmers' notice2 if he suggests a better kind of plough1 he has one made from his own drawings2 if he finds a lime pit he teaches them how to use the lime on the land1 a process new to them2 he often lends a hand himself2 they are surprised to find him handling all manner of tools more easily than they can themselves2 his furrows are deeper and straighter than theirs1 he is a more skilful sower1 and his beds for early produce are more cleverly planned4 ,they do not scoff at him as a fine talker1 they see he knows what he is talking about4 ,in a word1 his zeal and attention are bestowed on everything that is really useful to everybody2 nor does he stop there4 ,he visits the peasants in their homes2 inquires into their circumstances1 their families1 the number of their children1 the extent of their holdings1 the nature of their produce1 their markets1 their rights1 their burdens1 their debts1 etc4 ,he gives away very little money1 for he knows it is usually ill spent2 but he himself directs the use of his money1 and makes it helpful to them without distributing it among them4 ,he supplies them with labourers1 and often pays them for work done by themselves1 on tasks for their own benefit4 ,for one he has the falling thatch repaired or renewed2 for another he clears a piece of land which had gone out of cultivation for lack of means2 to another he gives a cow1 a horse1 or stock of any kind to replace a loss2 two neighbours are ready to go to law1 he wins them over1 and makes them friends again2 a peasant falls ill1 he has him cared for1 he looks after him himself2 ,footnote3 ,to look after a sick peasant is not merely to give him a pill1 or medicine1 or to send a surgeon to him4 ,that is not what these poor folk require in sickness2 what they want is more and better food4 ,when you have fever1 you will do well to fast1 but when your peasants have it1 give them meat and wine2 illness1 in their case1 is nearly always due to poverty and exhaustion2 your cellar will supply the best draught1 your butchers will be the best apothecary4 another is harassed by a rich and powerful neighbor1 he protects him and speaks on his behalf2 young people are fond of one another1 he helps forward their marriage2 a good woman has lost her beloved child1 he goes to see her1 he speaks words of comfort and sits a while with her2 he does not despise the poor1 he is in no hurry to avoid the unfortunate2 he often takes his dinner with some peasant he is helping1 and he will even accept a meal from those who have no need of his help2 though he is the benefactor of some and the friend of all1 he is none the less their equal4 ,in conclusion1 he always does as much good by his personal efforts as by his money4 ,sometimes his steps are turned in the direction of the happy abode2 he may hope to see ,sophy without her knowing1 to see her out walking without being seen4 ,but ,emile is always quite open in everything he does2 he neither can nor would deceive4 ,his delicacy is of that pleasing type in which pride rests on the foundation of a good conscience4 ,he keeps strictly within bounds1 and never comes near enough to gain from chance what he only desires to win from ,sophy herself4 ,on the other hand1 he delights to roam about the neighbourhood1 looking for the trace of ,sophy's steps1 feeling what pains she has taken and what a distance she has walked to please him4 ,the day before his visit1 he will go to some neighbouring farm and order a little feast for the morrow4 ,we shall take our walk in that direction without any special object1 we shall turn in apparently by chance2 fruit1 cakes1 and cream are waiting for us4 ,sophy likes sweets1 so is not insensible to these attentions1 and she is quite ready to do honour to what we have provided2 for ,i always have my share of the credit even if ,i have had no part in the trouble2 it is a girl's way of returning thanks more easily4 ,her father and ,i have cakes and wine2 ,emile keeps the ladies company and is always on the look-out to secure a dish of cream in which ,sophy has dipped her spoon4 ,the cakes lead me to talk of the races ,emile used to run4 ,every one wants to hear about them2 ,i explain amid much laughter2 they ask him if he can run as well as ever4 ,better1 says he2 ,i should be sorry to forget how to run4 ,one member of the company is dying to see him run1 but she dare not say so2 some one else undertakes to suggest it2 he agrees and we send for two or three young men of the neighbourhood2 a prize is offered1 and in imitation of our earlier games a cake is placed on the goal4 ,every one is ready1 ,sophy's father gives the signal by clapping his hands4 ,the nimble ,emile flies like lightning and reaches the goal almost before the others have started4 ,he receives his prize at ,sophy's hands1 and no less generous than ,aeneas1 he gives gifts to all the vanquished4 ,in the midst of his triumph1 ,sophy dares to challenge the victor1 and to assert that she can run as fast as he4 ,he does not refuse to enter the lists with her1 and while she is getting ready to start1 while she is tucking up her skirt at each side1 more eager to show ,emile a pretty ankle than to vanquish him in the race1 while she is seeing if her petticoats are short enough1 he whispers a word to her mother who smiles and nods approval4 ,then he takes his place by his competitor2 no sooner is the signal given than she is off like a bird4 ,women were not meant to run2 they flee that they may be overtaken4 ,running is not the only thing they do ill1 but it is the only thing they do awkwardly2 their elbows glued to their sides and pointed backwards look ridiculous1 and the high heels on which they are perched make them look like so many grasshoppers trying to run instead of to jump4 ,emile1 supposing that ,sophy runs no better than other women1 does not deign to stir from his place and watches her start with a smile of mockery4 ,but ,sophy is light of foot and she wears low heels2 she needs no pretence to make her foot look smaller2 she runs so quickly that he has only just time to overtake this new ,atalanta when he sees her so far ahead4 ,then he starts like an eagle dashing upon its prey2 he pursues her1 clutches her1 grasps her at last quite out of breath1 and gently placing his left arm about her1 he lifts her like a feather1 and pressing his sweet burden to his heart1 he finishes the race1 makes her touch the goal first1 and then exclaiming1 ,sophy wins6 he sinks on one knee before her and owns himself beaten4 ,along with such occupations there is also the trade we learnt4 ,one day a week at least1 and every day when the weather is too bad for country pursuits1 ,emile and ,i go to work under a master-joiner4 ,we do not work for show1 like people above our trade2 we work in earnest like regular workmen4 ,once when ,sophy's father came to see us1 he found us at work1 and did not fail to report his wonder to his wife and daughter4 ,go and see that young man in the workshop1 said he1 and you will soon see if he despises the condition of the poor4 ,you may fancy how pleased ,sophy was at this6 ,they talk it over1 and they decide to surprise him at his work4 ,they question me1 apparently without any special object1 and having made sure of the time1 mother and daughter take a little carriage and come to town on that very day4 ,on her arrival1 ,sophy sees1 at the other end of the shop1 a young man in his shirt sleeves1 with his hair all untidy1 so hard at work that he does not see her2 she makes a sign to her mother4 ,emile1 a chisel in one hand and a hammer in the other1 is just finishing a mortise2 then he saws a piece of wood and places it in the vice in order to polish it4 ,the sight of this does not set ,sophy laughing2 it affects her greatly2 it wins her respect4 ,woman1 honour your master2 he it is who works for you1 he it is who gives you bread to eat2 this is he6 ,while they are busy watching him1 ,i perceive them and pull ,emile by the sleeve2 he turns round1 drops his tools1 and hastens to them with an exclamation of delight4 ,after he has given way to his first raptures1 he makes them take a seat and he goes back to his work4 ,but ,sophy cannot keep quiet2 she gets up hastily1 runs about the workshop1 looks at the tools1 feels the polish of the boards1 picks up shavings1 looks at our hands1 and says she likes this trade1 it is so clean4 ,the merry girl tries to copy ,emile4 ,with her delicate white hand she passes a plane over a bit of wood2 the plane slips and makes no impression4 ,it seems to me that ,love himself is hovering over us and beating his wings2 ,i think ,i can hear his joyous cries1 ,hercules is avenged4 ,yet ,sophy's mother questions the master4 ,sir1 how much do you pay these two men a day8 ,i give them each tenpence a day and their food2 but if that young fellow wanted he could earn much more1 for he is the best workman in the country4 ,tenpence a day and their food1 said she looking at us tenderly4 ,that is so1 madam1 replied the master4 ,at these words she hurries up to ,emile1 kisses him1 and clasps him to her breast with tears2 unable to say more she repeats again and again1 ,my son1 my son6 ,when they had spent some time chatting with us1 but without interrupting our work1 ,we must be going now1 said the mother to her daughter1 it is getting late and we must not keep your father waiting4 ,then approaching ,emile she tapped him playfully on the cheek1 saying1 ,well1 my good workman1 won't you come with us8 ,he replied sadly1 ,i am at work1 ask the master4 ,the master is asked if he can spare us4 ,he replies that he cannot4 ,i have work on hand1 said he1 which is wanted the day after to-morrow1 so there is not much time4 ,counting on these gentlemen ,i refused other workmen who came2 if they fail me ,i don't know how to replace them and ,i shall not be able to send the work home at the time promised4 ,the mother said nothing1 she was waiting to hear what ,emile would say4 ,emile hung his head in silence4 ,sir1 she said1 somewhat surprised at this1 have you nothing to say to that8 ,emile looked tenderly at her daughter and merely said1 ,you see ,i am bound to stay4 ,then the ladies left us4 ,emile went with them to the door1 gazed after them as long as they were in sight1 and returned to his work without a word4 ,on the way home1 the mother1 somewhat vexed at his conduct1 spoke to her daughter of the strange way in which he had behaved4 ,why1 said she1 was it so difficult to arrange matters with the master without being obliged to stay4 ,the young man is generous enough and ready to spend money when there is no need for it1 could not he spend a little on such a fitting occasion8 ,oh1 mamma1 replied ,sophy1 ,i trust ,emile will never rely so much on money as to use it to break an engagement1 to fail to keep his own word1 and to make another break his6 ,i know he could easily give the master a trifle to make up for the slight inconvenience caused by his absence2 but his soul would become the slave of riches1 he would become accustomed to place wealth before duty1 and he would think that any duty might be neglected provided he was ready to pay4 ,that is not ,emile's way of thinking1 and ,i hope he will never change on my account4 ,do you think it cost him nothing to stay8 ,you are quite wrong1 mamma2 it was for my sake that he stayed2 ,i saw it in his eyes4 ,it is not that ,sophy is indifferent to genuine proofs of love2 on the contrary she is imperious and exacting2 she would rather not be loved at all than be loved half-heartedly4 ,hers is the noble pride of worth1 conscious of its own value1 self-respecting and claiming a like honour from others4 ,she would scorn a heart that did not recognise the full worth of her own2 that did not love her for her virtues as much and more than for her charms2 a heart which did not put duty first1 and prefer it to everything4 ,she did not desire a lover who knew no will but hers4 ,she wished to reign over a man whom she had not spoilt4 ,thus ,circe1 having changed into swine the comrades of ,ulysses1 bestowed herself on him over whom she had no power4 ,except for this sacred and inviolable right1 ,sophy is very jealous of her own rights2 she observes how carefully ,emile respects them1 how zealously he does her will2 how cleverly he guesses her wishes1 how exactly he arrives at the appointed time2 she will have him neither late nor early2 he must arrive to the moment4 ,to come early is to think more of himself than of her2 to come late is to neglect her4 ,to neglect ,sophy1 that could not happen twice4 ,an unfounded suspicion on her part nearly ruined everything1 but ,sophy is really just and knows how to atone for her faults4 ,they were expecting us one evening2 ,emile had received his orders4 ,they came to meet us1 but we were not there4 ,what has become of us8 ,what accident have we met with8 ,no message from us6 ,the evening is spent in expectation of our arrival4 ,sophy thinks we are dead2 she is miserable and in an agony of distress2 she cries all the night through4 ,in the course of the evening a messenger was despatched to inquire after us and bring back news in the morning4 ,the messenger returns together with another messenger sent by us1 who makes our excuses verbally and says we are quite well4 ,then the scene is changed2 ,sophy dries her tears1 or if she still weeps it is for anger4 ,it is small consolation to her proud spirit to know that we are alive2 ,emile lives and he has kept her waiting4 ,when we arrive she tries to escape to her own room2 her parents desire her to remain1 so she is obliged to do so2 but deciding at once what course she will take she assumes a calm and contented expression which would deceive most people4 ,her father comes forward to receive us saying1 ,you have made your friends very uneasy2 there are people here who will not forgive you very readily4 ,who are they1 papa1 said ,sophy with the most gracious smile she could assume4 ,what business is that of yours1 said her father1 if it is not you8 ,sophy bent over her work without reply4 ,her mother received us coldly and formally4 ,emile was so confused he dared not speak to ,sophy4 ,she spoke first1 inquired how he was1 asked him to take a chair1 and pretended so cleverly that the poor young fellow1 who as yet knew nothing of the language of angry passions1 was quite deceived by her apparent indifference1 and ready to take offence on his own account4 ,to undeceive him ,i was going to take ,sophy's hand and raise it to my lips as ,i sometimes did2 she drew it back so hastily1 with the word1 ,sir1 uttered in such a strange manner that ,emile's eyes were opened at once by this involuntary movement4 ,sophy herself1 seeing that she had betrayed herself1 exercised less control over herself4 ,her apparent indifference was succeeded by scornful irony4 ,she replied to everything he said in monosyllables uttered slowly and hesitatingly as if she were afraid her anger should show itself too plainly4 ,emile half dead with terror stared at her full of sorrow1 and tried to get her to look at him so that his eyes might read in hers her real feelings4 ,sophy1 still more angry at his boldness1 gave him one look which removed all wish for another4 ,luckily for himself1 ,emile1 trembling and dumbfounded1 dared neither look at her nor speak to her again2 for had he not been guilty1 had he been able to endure her wrath1 she would never have forgiven him4 ,seeing that it was my turn now1 and that the time was ripe for explanation1 ,i returned to ,sophy4 ,i took her hand and this time she did not snatch it away2 she was ready to faint4 ,i said gently1 ,dear ,sophy1 we are the victims of misfortune2 but you are just and reasonable2 you will not judge us unheard2 listen to what we have to say4 ,she said nothing and ,i proceeded-- ,we set out yesterday at four o'clock2 we were told to be here at seven1 and we always allow ourselves rather more time than we need1 so as to rest a little before we get here4 ,we were more than half way here when we heard lamentable groans1 which came from a little valley in the hillside1 some distance off4 ,we hurried towards the place and found an unlucky peasant who had taken rather more wine than was good for him2 on his way home he had fallen heavily from his horse and broken his leg4 ,we shouted and called for help2 there was no answer2 we tried to lift the injured man on his horse1 but without success2 the least movement caused intense agony4 ,we decided to tie up the horse in a quiet part of the wood2 then we made a chair of our crossed arms and carried the man as gently as possible1 following his directions till we got him home4 ,the way was long1 and we were constantly obliged to stop and rest4 ,at last we got there1 but thoroughly exhausted4 ,we were surprised and sorry to find that it was a house we knew already and that the wretched creature we had carried with such difficulty was the very man who received us so kindly when first we came4 ,we had all been so upset that until that moment we had not recognised each other4 ,there were only two little children4 ,his wife was about to present him with another1 and she was so overwhelmed at the sight of him brought home in such a condition1 that she was taken ill and a few hours later gave birth to another little one4 ,what was to be done under such circumstances in a lonely cottage far from any help8 ,emile decided to fetch the horse we had left in the wood1 to ride as fast as he could into the town and fetch a surgeon4 ,he let the surgeon have the horse1 and not succeeding in finding a nurse all at once1 he returned on foot with a servant1 after having sent a messenger to you2 meanwhile ,i hardly knew what to do between a man with a broken leg and a woman in travail1 but ,i got ready as well as ,i could such things in the house as ,i thought would be needed for the relief of both4 ,i will pass over the rest of the details2 they are not to the point4 ,it was two o'clock in the morning before we got a moment's rest4 ,at last we returned before daybreak to our lodging close at hand1 where we waited till you were up to let you know what had happened to us4 ,that was all ,i said4 ,but before any one could speak ,emile1 approaching ,sophy1 raised his voice and said with greater firmness than ,i expected1 ,sophy1 my fate is in your hands1 as you very well know4 ,you may condemn me to die of grief2 but do not hope to make me forget the rights of humanity2 they are even more sacred in my eyes than your own rights2 ,i will never renounce them for you4 ,for all answer1 ,sophy rose1 put her arm round his neck1 and kissed him on the cheek2 then offering him her hand with inimitable grace she said to him1 ,emile1 take this hand2 it is yours4 ,when you will1 you shall be my husband and my master2 ,i will try to be worthy of that honour4 ,scarcely had she kissed him1 when her delighted father clapped his hands calling1 ,encore1 encore1 and ,sophy without further ado1 kissed him twice on the other cheek2 but afraid of what she had done she took refuge at once in her mother's arms and hid her blushing face on the maternal bosom4 ,i will not describe our happiness2 everybody will feel with us4 ,after dinner ,sophy asked if it were too far to go and see the poor invalids4 ,it was her wish and it was a work of mercy4 ,when we got there we found them both in bed--,emile had sent for a second bedstead2 there were people there to look after them--,emile had seen to it4 ,but in spite of this everything was so untidy that they suffered almost as much from discomfort as from their condition4 ,sophy asked for one of the good wife's aprons and set to work to make her more comfortable in her bed2 then she did as much for the man2 her soft and gentle hand seemed to find out what was hurting them and how to settle them into less painful positions4 ,her very presence seemed to make them more comfortable2 she seemed to guess what was the matter4 ,this fastidious girl was not disgusted by the dirt or smells1 and she managed to get rid of both without disturbing the sick people4 ,she who had always appeared so modest and sometimes so disdainful1 she who would not for all the world have touched a man's bed with her little finger1 lifted the sick man and changed his linen without any fuss1 and placed him to rest in a more comfortable position4 ,the zeal of charity is of more value than modesty4 ,what she did was done so skilfully and with such a light touch that he felt better almost without knowing she had touched him4 ,husband and wife mingled their blessings upon the kindly girl who tended1 pitied1 and consoled them4 ,she was an angel from heaven come to visit them2 she was an angel in face and manner1 in gentleness and goodness4 ,emile was greatly touched by all this and he watched her without speaking4 ,o man1 love thy helpmeet4 ,god gave her to relieve thy sufferings1 to comfort thee in thy troubles4 ,this is she6 ,the new-born baby was baptised4 ,the two lovers were its god-parents1 and as they held it at the font they were longing1 at the bottom of their hearts1 for the time when they should have a child of their own to be baptised4 ,they longed for their wedding day2 they thought it was close at hand2 all ,sophy's scruples had vanished1 but mine remained4 ,they had not got so far as they expected2 every one must have his turn4 ,one morning when they had not seen each other for two whole days1 ,i entered ,emile's room with a letter in my hands1 and looking fixedly at him ,i said to him1 ,what would you do if some one told you ,sophy were dead8 ,he uttered a loud cry1 got up and struck his hands together1 and without saying a single word1 he looked at me with eyes of desperation4 ,answer me1 ,i continued with the same calmness4 ,vexed at my composure1 he then approached me with eyes blazing with anger2 and checking himself in an almost threatening attitude1 ,what would ,i do8 ,i know not2 but this ,i do know1 ,i would never set eyes again upon the person who brought me such news4 ,comfort yourself1 said ,i1 smiling1 she lives1 she is well1 and they are expecting us this evening4 ,but let us go for a short walk and we can talk things over4 ,the passion which engrosses him will no longer permit him to devote himself as in former days to discussions of pure reason2 this very passion must be called to our aid if his attention is to be given to my teaching4 ,that is why ,i made use of this terrible preface2 ,i am quite sure he will listen to me now4 ,we must be happy1 dear ,emile2 it is the end of every feeling creature2 it is the first desire taught us by nature1 and the only one which never leaves us4 ,but where is happiness8 ,who knows8 ,every one seeks it1 and no one finds it4 ,we spend our lives in the search and we die before the end is attained4 ,my young friend1 when ,i took you1 a new-born infant1 in my arms1 and called ,god himself to witness to the vow ,i dared to make that ,i would devote my life to the happiness of your life1 did ,i know myself what ,i was undertaking8 ,no2 ,i only knew that in making you happy1 ,i was sure of my own happiness4 ,by making this useful inquiry on your account1 ,i made it for us both4 ,so long as we do not know what to do1 wisdom consists in doing nothing4 ,of all rules there is none so greatly needed by man1 and none which he is less able to obey4 ,in seeking happiness when we know not where it is1 we are perhaps getting further and further from it1 we are running as many risks as there are roads to choose from4 ,but it is not every one that can keep still4 ,our passion for our own well-being makes us so uneasy1 that we would rather deceive ourselves in the search for happiness than sit still and do nothing2 and when once we have left the place where we might have known happiness1 we can never return4 ,in ignorance like this ,i tried to avoid a similar fault4 ,when ,i took charge of you ,i decided to take no useless steps and to prevent you from doing so too4 ,i kept to the path of nature1 until she should show me the path of happiness4 ,and lo6 their paths were the same1 and without knowing it this was the path ,i trod4 ,be at once my witness and my judge2 ,i will never refuse to accept your decision4 ,your early years have not been sacrificed to those that were to follow1 you have enjoyed all the good gifts which nature bestowed upon you4 ,of the ills to which you were by nature subject1 and from which ,i could shelter you1 you have only experienced such as would harden you to bear others4 ,you have never suffered any evil1 except to escape a greater4 ,you have known neither hatred nor servitude4 ,free and happy1 you have remained just and kindly2 for suffering and vice are inseparable1 and no man ever became bad until he was unhappy4 ,may the memory of your childhood remain with you to old age6 ,i am not afraid that your kind heart will ever recall the hand that trained it without a blessing upon it4 ,when you reached the age of reason1 ,i secured you from the influence of human prejudice2 when your heart awoke ,i preserved you from the sway of passion4 ,had ,i been able to prolong this inner tranquillity till your life's end1 my work would have been secure1 and you would have been as happy as man can be2 but1 my dear ,emile1 in vain did ,i dip you in the waters of ,styx1 ,i could not make you everywhere invulnerable2 a fresh enemy has appeared1 whom you have not yet learnt to conquer1 and from whom ,i cannot save you4 ,that enemy is yourself4 ,nature and fortune had left you free4 ,you could face poverty1 you could bear bodily pain2 the sufferings of the heart were unknown to you2 you were then dependent on nothing but your position as a human being2 now you depend on all the ties you have formed for yourself2 you have learnt to desire1 and you are now the slave of your desires4 ,without any change in yourself1 without any insult1 any injury to yourself1 what sorrows may attack your soul1 what pains may you suffer without sickness1 how many deaths may you die and yet live6 ,a lie1 an error1 a suspicion1 may plunge you in despair4 ,at the theatre you used to see heroes1 abandoned to depths of woe1 making the stage re-echo with their wild cries1 lamenting like women1 weeping like children1 and thus securing the applause of the audience4 ,do you remember how shocked you were by those lamentations1 cries1 and groans1 in men from whom one would only expect deeds of constancy and heroism4 ',why1' said you1 'are those the patterns we are to follow1 the models set for our imitation6 ,are they afraid man will not be small enough1 unhappy enough1 weak enough1 if his weakness is not enshrined under a false show of virtue4' ,my young friend1 henceforward you must be more merciful to the stage2 you have become one of those heroes4 ,you know how to suffer and to die2 you know how to bear the heavy yoke of necessity in ills of the body1 but you have not yet learnt to give a law to the desires of your heart2 and the difficulties of life arise rather from our affections than from our needs4 ,our desires are vast1 our strength is little better than nothing4 ,in his wishes man is dependent on many things2 in himself he is dependent on nothing1 not even on his own life2 the more his connections are multiplied1 the greater his sufferings4 ,everything upon earth has an end2 sooner or later all that we love escapes from our fingers1 and we behave as if it would last for ever4 ,what was your terror at the mere suspicion of ,sophy's death8 ,do you suppose she will live for ever8 ,do not young people of her age die8 ,she must die1 my son1 and perhaps before you4 ,who knows if she is alive at this moment8 ,nature meant you to die but once2 you have prepared a second death for yourself4 ,a slave to your unbridled passions1 how greatly are you to be pitied6 ,ever privations1 losses1 alarms2 you will not even enjoy what is left4 ,you will possess nothing because of the fear of losing it2 you will never be able to satisfy your passions1 because you desired to follow them continually4 ,you will ever be seeking that which will fly before you2 you will be miserable and you will become wicked4 ,how can you be otherwise1 having no care but your unbridled passions6 ,if you cannot put up with involuntary privations how will you voluntarily deprive yourself8 ,how can you sacrifice desire to duty1 and resist your heart in order to listen to your reason8 ,you would never see that man again who dared to bring you word of the death of your mistress2 how would you behold him who would deprive you of her living self1 him who would dare to tell you1 ',she is dead to you1 virtue puts a gulf between you'8 ,if you must live with her whatever happens1 whether ,sophy is married or single1 whether you are free or not1 whether she loves or hates you1 whether she is given or refused to you1 no matter1 it is your will and you must have her at any price4 ,tell me then what crime will stop a man who has no law but his heart's desires1 who knows not how to resist his own passions4 ,my son1 there is no happiness without courage1 nor virtue without a struggle4 ,the word virtue is derived from a word signifying strength1 and strength is the foundation of all virtue4 ,virtue is the heritage of a creature weak by nature but strong by will2 that is the whole merit of the righteous man2 and though we call ,god good we do not call ,him virtuous1 because ,he does good without effort4 ,i waited to explain the meaning of this word1 so often profaned1 until you were ready to understand me4 ,as long as virtue is quite easy to practise1 there is little need to know it4 ,this need arises with the awakening of the passions2 your time has come4 ,when ,i brought you up in all the simplicity of nature1 instead of preaching disagreeable duties1 ,i secured for you immunity from the vices which make such duties disagreeable2 ,i made lying not so much hateful as unnecessary in your sight2 ,i taught you not so much to give others their due1 as to care little about your own rights2 ,i made you kindly rather than virtuous4 ,but the kindly man is only kind so long as he finds it pleasant2 kindness falls to pieces at the shook of human passions2 the kindly man is only kind to himself4 ,what is meant by a virtuous man8 ,he who can conquer his affections2 for then he follows his reason1 his conscience2 he does his duty2 he is his own master and nothing can turn him from the right way4 ,so far you have had only the semblance of liberty1 the precarious liberty of the slave who has not received his orders4 ,now is the time for real freedom2 learn to be your own master2 control your heart1 my ,emile1 and you will be virtuous4 ,there is another apprenticeship before you1 an apprenticeship more difficult than the former2 for nature delivers us from the evils she lays upon us1 or else she teaches us to submit to them2 but she has no message for us with regard to our self-imposed evils2 she leaves us to ourselves2 she leaves us1 victims of our own passions1 to succumb to our vain sorrows1 to pride ourselves on the tears of which we should be ashamed4 ,this is your first passion4 ,perhaps it is the only passion worthy of you4 ,if you can control it like a man1 it will be the last2 you will be master of all the rest1 and you will obey nothing but the passion for virtue4 ,there is nothing criminal in this passion2 ,i know it2 it is as pure as the hearts which experience it4 ,it was born of honour and nursed by innocence4 ,happy lovers6 for you the charms of virtue do but add to those of love2 and the blessed union to which you are looking forward is less the reward of your goodness than of your affection4 ,but tell me1 ,o truthful man1 though this passion is pure1 is it any the less your master8 ,are you the less its slave8 ,and if to-morrow it should cease to be innocent1 would you strangle it on the spot8 ,now is the time to try your strength2 there is no time for that in hours of danger4 ,these perilous efforts should be made when danger is still afar4 ,we do not practise the use of our weapons when we are face to face with the enemy1 we do that before the war2 we come to the battle-field ready prepared4 ,it is a mistake to classify the passions as lawful and unlawful1 so as to yield to the one and refuse the other4 ,all alike are good if we are their masters2 all alike are bad if we abandon ourselves to them4 ,nature forbids us to extend our relations beyond the limits of our strength2 reason forbids us to want what we cannot get1 conscience forbids us1 not to be tempted1 but to yield to temptation4 ,to feel or not to feel a passion is beyond our control1 but we can control ourselves4 ,every sentiment under our own control is lawful2 those which control us are criminal4 ,a man is not guilty if he loves his neighbour's wife1 provided he keeps this unhappy passion under the control of the law of duty2 he is guilty if he loves his own wife so greatly as to sacrifice everything to that love4 ,do not expect me to supply you with lengthy precepts of morality1 ,i have only one rule to give you which sums up all the rest4 ,be a man2 restrain your heart within the limits of your manhood4 ,study and know these limits2 however narrow they may be1 we are not unhappy within them2 it is only when we wish to go beyond them that we are unhappy1 only when1 in our mad passions1 we try to attain the impossible2 we are unhappy when we forget our manhood to make an imaginary world for ourselves1 from which we are always slipping back into our own4 ,the only good things1 whose loss really affects us1 are those which we claim as our rights4 ,if it is clear that we cannot obtain what we want1 our mind turns away from it2 wishes without hope cease to torture us4 ,a beggar is not tormented by a desire to be a king2 a king only wishes to be a god when he thinks himself more than man4 ,the illusions of pride are the source of our greatest ills2 but the contemplation of human suffering keeps the wise humble4 ,he keeps to his proper place and makes no attempt to depart from it2 he does not waste his strength in getting what he cannot keep2 and his whole strength being devoted to the right employment of what he has1 he is in reality richer and more powerful in proportion as he desires less than we4 ,a man1 subject to death and change1 shall ,i forge for myself lasting chains upon this earth1 where everything changes and disappears1 whence ,i myself shall shortly vanish6 ,oh1 ,emile6 my son6 if ,i were to lose you1 what would be left of myself8 ,and yet ,i must learn to lose you1 for who knows when you may be taken from me8 ,would you live in wisdom and happiness1 fix your heart on the beauty that is eternal2 let your desires be limited by your position1 let your duties take precedence of your wishes2 extend the law of necessity into the region of morals2 learn to lose what may be taken from you2 learn to forsake all things at the command of virtue1 to set yourself above the chances of life1 to detach your heart before it is torn in pieces1 to be brave in adversity so that you may never be wretched1 to be steadfast in duty that you may never be guilty of a crime4 ,then you will be happy in spite of fortune1 and good in spite of your passions4 ,you will find a pleasure that cannot be destroyed1 even in the possession of the most fragile things2 you will possess them1 they will not possess you1 and you will realise that the man who loses everything1 only enjoys what he knows how to resign4 ,it is true you will not enjoy the illusions of imaginary pleasures1 neither will you feel the sufferings which are their result4 ,you will profit greatly by this exchange1 for the sufferings are real and frequent1 the pleasures are rare and empty4 ,victor over so many deceitful ideas1 you will also vanquish the idea that attaches such an excessive value to life4 ,you will spend your life in peace1 and you will leave it without terror2 you will detach yourself from life as from other things4 ,let others1 horror-struck1 believe that when this life is ended they cease to be2 conscious of the nothingness of life1 you will think that you are but entering upon the true life4 ,to the wicked1 death is the close of life2 to the just it is its dawn4 ,emile heard me with attention not unmixed with anxiety4 ,after such a startling preface he feared some gloomy conclusion4 ,he foresaw that when ,i showed him how necessary it is to practise the strength of the soul1 ,i desired to subject him to this stern discipline2 he was like a wounded man who shrinks from the surgeon1 and fancies he already feels the painful but healing touch which will cure the deadly wound4 ,uncertain1 anxious1 eager to know what ,i am driving at1 he does not answer1 he questions me but timidly4 ,what must ,i do8 says he almost trembling1 not daring to raise his eyes4 ,what must you do8 ,i reply firmly4 ,you must leave ,sophy4 ,what are you saying8 he exclaimed angrily4 ,leave ,sophy1 leave ,sophy1 deceive her1 become a traitor1 a villain1 a perjurer6 ,why6 ,i continue1 interrupting him2 does ,emile suppose ,i shall teach him to deserve such titles8 ,no1 he continued with the same vigour4 ,neither you nor any one else2 ,i am capable of preserving your work2 ,i shall not deserve such reproaches4 ,i was prepared for this first outburst2 ,i let it pass unheeded4 ,if ,i had not the moderation ,i preach it would not be much use preaching it6 ,emile knows me too well to believe me capable of demanding any wrong action from him1 and he knows that it would be wrong to leave ,sophy1 in the sense he attaches to the phrase4 ,so he waits for an explanation4 ,then ,i resume my speech4 ,my dear ,emile1 do you think any man whatsoever can be happier than you have been for the last three months8 ,if you think so1 undeceive yourself4 ,before tasting the pleasures of life you have plumbed the depths of its happiness4 ,there is nothing more than you have already experienced4 ,the joys of sense are soon over2 habit invariably destroys them4 ,you have tasted greater joys through hope than you will ever enjoy in reality4 ,the imagination which adorns what we long for1 deserts its possession4 ,with the exception of the one self-existing ,being1 there is nothing beautiful except that which is not4 ,if that state could have lasted for ever1 you would have found perfect happiness4 ,but all that is related to man shares his decline2 all is finite1 all is fleeting in human life1 and even if the conditions which make us happy could be prolonged for ever1 habit would deprive us of all taste for that happiness4 ,if external circumstances remain unchanged1 the heart changes2 either happiness forsakes us1 or we forsake her4 ,during your infatuation time has passed unheeded4 ,summer is over1 winter is at hand4 ,even if our expeditions were possible1 at such a time of year they would not be permitted4 ,whether we wish it or no1 we shall have to change our way of life2 it cannot continue4 ,i read in your eager eyes that this does not disturb you greatly2 ,sophy's confession and your own wishes suggest a simple plan for avoiding the snow and escaping the journey4 ,the plan has its advantages1 no doubt2 but when spring returns1 the snow will melt and the marriage will remain2 you must reckon for all seasons4 ,you wish to marry ,sophy and you have only known her five months6 ,you wish to marry her1 not because she is a fit wife for you1 but because she pleases you2 as if love were never mistaken as to fitness1 as if those1 who begin with love1 never ended with hatred6 ,i know she is virtuous2 but is that enough8 ,is fitness merely a matter of honour8 ,it is not her virtue ,i misdoubt1 it is her disposition4 ,does a woman show her real character in a day8 ,do you know how often you must have seen her and under what varying conditions to really know her temper8 ,is four months of liking a sufficient pledge for the rest of your life8 ,a couple of months hence you may have forgotten her2 as soon as you are gone another may efface your image in her heart2 on your return you may find her as indifferent as you have hitherto found her affectionate4 ,sentiments are not a matter of principle2 she may be perfectly virtuous and yet cease to love you4 ,i am inclined to think she will be faithful and true2 but who will answer for her1 and who will answer for you if you are not put to the proof8 ,will you postpone this trial till it is too late1 will you wait to know your true selves till parting is no longer possible8 ,sophy is not eighteen1 and you are barely twenty-two2 this is the age for love1 but not for marriage4 ,what a father and mother for a family6 ,if you want to know how to bring up children1 you should at least wait till you yourselves are children no longer4 ,do you not know that too early motherhood has weakened the constitution1 destroyed the health1 and shortened the life of many young women8 ,do you not know that many children have always been weak and sickly because their mother was little more than a child herself8 ,when mother and child are both growing1 the strength required for their growth is divided1 and neither gets all that nature intended2 are not both sure to suffer8 ,either ,i know very little of ,emile1 or he would rather wait and have a healthy wife and children1 than satisfy his impatience at the price of their life and health4 ,let us speak of yourself4 ,you hope to be a husband and a father2 have you seriously considered your duties8 ,when you become the head of a family you will become a citizen of your country4 ,and what is a citizen of the state8 ,what do you know about it8 ,you have studied your duties as a man1 but what do you know of the duties of a citizen8 ,do you know the meaning of such terms as government1 laws1 country8 ,do you know the price you must pay for life1 and for what you must be prepared to die8 ,you think you know everything1 when you really know nothing at all4 ,before you take your place in the civil order1 learn to perceive and know what is your proper place4 ,emile1 you must leave ,sophy2 ,i do not bid you forsake her2 if you were capable of such conduct1 she would be only too happy not to have married you2 you must leave her in order to return worthy of her4 ,do not be vain enough to think yourself already worthy4 ,how much remains to be done6 ,come and fulfil this splendid task2 come and learn to submit to absence2 come and earn the prize of fidelity1 so that when you return you may indeed deserve some honour1 and may ask her hand not as a favour but as a reward4 ,unaccustomed to struggle with himself1 untrained to desire one thing and to will another1 the young man will not give way2 he resists1 he argues4 ,why should he refuse the happiness which awaits him8 ,would he not despise the hand which is offered him if he hesitated to accept it8 ,why need he leave her to learn what he ought to know8 ,and if it were necessary to leave her why not leave her as his wife with a certain pledge of his return8 ,let him be her husband1 and he is ready to follow me2 let them be married and he will leave her without fear4 ,marry her in order to leave her1 dear ,emile6 what a contradiction6 ,a lover who can leave his mistress shows himself capable of great things2 a husband should never leave his wife unless through necessity4 ,to cure your scruples1 ,i see the delay must be involuntary on your part2 you must be able to tell ,sophy you leave her against your will4 ,very well1 be content1 and since you will not follow the commands of reason1 you must submit to another master4 ,you have not forgotten your promise4 ,emile1 you must leave ,sophy2 ,i will have it4 ,for a moment or two he was downcast1 silent1 and thoughtful1 then looking me full in the face he said1 ,when do we start8 ,in a week's time1 ,i replied2 ,sophy must be prepared for our going4 ,women are weaker than we are1 and we must show consideration for them2 and this parting is not a duty for her as it is for you1 so she may be allowed to bear it less bravely4 ,the temptation to continue the daily history of their love up to the time of their separation is very great2 but ,i have already presumed too much upon the good nature of my readers2 let us abridge the story so as to bring it to an end4 ,will ,emile face the situation as bravely at his mistress' feet as he has done in conversation with his friend8 ,i think he will2 his confidence is rooted in the sincerity of his love4 ,he would be more at a loss with her1 if it cost him less to leave her2 he would leave her feeling himself to blame1 and that is a difficult part for a man of honour to play2 but the greater the sacrifice1 the more credit he demands for it in the sight of her who makes it so difficult4 ,he has no fear that she will misunderstand his motives4 ,every look seems to say1 ,oh1 ,sophy1 read my heart and be faithful to me2 your lover is not without virtue4 ,sophy tries to bear the unforeseen blow with her usual pride and dignity4 ,she tries to seem as if she did not care1 but as the honours of war are not hers1 but ,emile's1 her strength is less equal to the task4 ,she weeps1 she sighs against her will1 and the fear of being forgotten embitters the pain of parting4 ,she does not weep in her lover's sight1 she does not let him see her terror2 she would die rather than utter a sigh in his presence4 ,i am the recipient of her lamentations1 ,i behold her tears1 it is ,i who am supposed to be her confidant4 ,women are very clever and know how to conceal their cleverness2 the more she frets in private1 the more pains she takes to please me2 she feels that her fate is in my hands4 ,i console and comfort her2 ,i make myself answerable for her lover1 or rather for her husband2 let her be as true to him as he to her and ,i promise they shall be married in two years' time4 ,she respects me enough to believe that ,i do not want to deceive her4 ,i am guarantor to each for the other4 ,their hearts1 their virtue1 my honesty1 the confidence of their parents1 all combine to reassure them4 ,but what can reason avail against weakness8 ,they part as if they were never to meet again4 ,then it is that ,sophy recalls the regrets of ,eucharis1 and fancies herself in her place4 ,do not let us revive that fantastic affection during his absence ,sophy1 say ,i one day1 exchange books with ,emile2 let him have your ,telemachus that he may learn to be like him1 and let him give you his ,spectator which you enjoy reading4 ,study the duties of good wives in it1 and remember that in two years' time you will undertake those duties4 ,the exchange gave pleasure to both and inspired them with confidence4 ,at last the sad day arrived and they must part4 ,sophy's worthy father1 with whom ,i had arranged the whole business1 took affectionate leave of me1 and taking me aside1 he spoke seriously and somewhat emphatically1 saying1 ,i have done everything to please you2 ,i knew ,i had to do with a man of honour2 ,i have only one word to say4 ,remembering your pupil has signed his contract of marriage on my daughter's lips4 ,what a difference in the behaviour of the two lovers6 ,emile1 impetuous1 eager1 excited1 almost beside himself1 cries aloud and sheds torrents of tears upon the hands of father1 mother1 and daughter2 with sobs he embraces every one in the house and repeats the same thing over and over again in a way that would be ludicrous at any other time4 ,sophy1 pale1 sorrowful1 doleful1 and heavy-eyed1 remains quiet without a word or a tear1 she sees no one1 not even ,emile4 ,in vain he takes her hand1 and clasps her in his arms2 she remains motionless1 unheeding his tears1 his caresses1 and everything he does2 so far as she is concerned1 he is gone already4 ,a sight more moving than the prolonged lamentations and noisy regrets of her lover6 ,he sees1 he feels1 he is heartbroken4 ,i drag him reluctantly away2 if ,i left him another minute1 he would never go4 ,i am delighted that he should carry this touching picture with him4 ,if he should ever be tempted to forget what is due to ,sophy1 his heart must have strayed very far indeed if ,i cannot bring it back to her by recalling her as he saw her last4 ,,of ,,travel ,is it good for young people to travel8 ,the question is often asked and as often hotly disputed4 ,if it were stated otherwise--,are men the better for having travelled8--perhaps there would be less difference of opinion4 ,the misuse of books is the death of sound learning4 ,people think they know what they have read1 and take no pains to learn4 ,too much reading only produces a pretentious ignoramus4 ,there was never so much reading in any age as the present1 and never was there less learning2 in no country of ,europe are so many histories and books of travel printed as in ,france1 and nowhere is there less knowledge of the mind and manners of other nations4 ,so many books lead us to neglect the book of the world2 if we read it at all1 we keep each to our own page4 ,if the phrase1 ,can one become a ,persian1 were unknown to me1 ,i should suspect on hearing it that it came from the country where national prejudice is most prevalent and from the sex which does most to increase it4 ,a ,parisian thinks he has a knowledge of men and he knows only ,frenchmen2 his town is always full of foreigners1 but he considers every foreigner as a strange phenomenon which has no equal in the universe4 ,you must have a close acquaintance with the middle classes of that great city1 you must have lived among them1 before you can believe that people could be at once so witty and so stupid4 ,the strangest thing about it is that probably every one of them has read a dozen times a description of the country whose inhabitants inspire him with such wonder4 ,to discover the truth amidst our own prejudices and those of the authors is too hard a task4 ,i have been reading books of travels all my life1 but ,i never found two that gave me the same idea of the same nation4 ,on comparing my own scanty observations with what ,i have read1 ,i have decided to abandon the travellers and ,i regret the time wasted in trying to learn from their books2 for ,i am quite convinced that for that sort of study1 seeing not reading is required4 ,that would be true enough if every traveller were honest1 if he only said what he saw and believed1 and if truth were not tinged with false colours from his own eyes4 ,what must it be when we have to disentangle the truth from the web of lies and ill-faith8 ,let us leave the boasted resources of books to those who are content to use them4 ,like the art of ,raymond ,lully they are able to set people chattering about things they do not know4 ,they are able to set fifteen-year-old ,platos discussing philosophy in the clubs1 and teaching people the customs of ,egypt and the ,indies on the word of ,paul ,lucas or ,tavernier4 ,i maintain that it is beyond dispute that any one who has only seen one nation does not know men2 he only knows those men among whom he has lived4 ,hence there is another way of stating the question about travel3 ,is it enough for a well-educated man to know his fellow-countrymen1 or ought he to know mankind in general8 ,then there is no place for argument or uncertainty4 ,see how greatly the solution of a difficult problem may depend on the way in which it is stated4 ,but is it necessary to travel the whole globe to study mankind8 ,need we go to ,japan to study ,europeans8 ,need we know every individual before we know the species8 ,no1 there are men so much alike that it is not worth while to study them individually4 ,when you have seen a dozen ,frenchmen you have seen them all4 ,though one cannot say as much of the ,english and other nations1 it is1 however1 certain that every nation has its own specific character1 which is derived by induction from the study1 not of one1 but many of its members4 ,he who has compared a dozen nations knows men1 just he who has compared a dozen ,frenchmen knows the ,french4 ,to acquire knowledge it is not enough to travel hastily through a country4 ,observation demands eyes1 and the power of directing them towards the object we desire to know4 ,there are plenty of people who learn no more from their travels than from their books1 because they do not know how to think2 because in reading their mind is at least under the guidance of the author1 and in their travels they do not know how to see for themselves4 ,others learn nothing1 because they have no desire to learn4 ,their object is so entirely different1 that this never occurs to them2 it is very unlikely that you will see clearly what you take no trouble to look for4 ,the ,french travel more than any other nation1 but they are so taken up with their own customs1 that everything else is confused together4 ,there are ,frenchmen in every corner of the globe4 ,in no country of the world do you find more people who have travelled than in ,france4 ,and yet of all the nations of ,europe1 that which has seen most1 knows least4 ,the ,english are also travellers1 but they travel in another fashion2 these two nations must always be at opposite extremes4 ,the ,english nobility travels1 the ,french stays at home2 the ,french people travel1 the ,english stay at home4 ,this difference does credit1 ,i think1 to the ,english4 ,the ,french almost always travel for their own ends2 the ,english do not seek their fortune in other lands1 unless in the way of commerce and with their hands full2 when they travel it is to spend their money1 not to live by their wits2 they are too proud to cringe before strangers4 ,this is why they learn more abroad than the ,french who have other fish to fry4 ,yet the ,english have their national prejudices2 but these prejudices are not so much the result of ignorance as of feeling4 ,the ,englishman's prejudices are the result of pride1 the ,frenchman's are due to vanity4 ,just as the least cultivated nations are usually the best1 so those travel best who travel least2 they have made less progress than we in our frivolous pursuits1 they are less concerned with the objects of our empty curiosity1 so that they give their attention to what is really useful4 ,i hardly know any but the ,spaniards who travel in this fashion4 ,while the ,frenchman is running after all the artists of the country1 while the ,englishman is getting a copy of some antique1 while the ,german is taking his album to every man of science1 the ,spaniard is silently studying the government1 the manners of the country1 its police1 and he is the only one of the four who from all that he has seen will carry home any observation useful to his own country4 ,the ancients travelled little1 read little1 and wrote few books2 yet we see in those books that remain to us1 that they observed each other more thoroughly than we observe our contemporaries4 ,without going back to the days of ,homer1 the only poet who transports us to the country he describes1 we cannot deny to ,herodotus the glory of having painted manners in his history1 though he does it rather by narrative than by comment2 still he does it better than all our historians whose books are overladen with portraits and characters4 ,tacitus has described the ,germans of his time better than any author has described the ,germans of to-day4 ,there can be no doubt that those who have devoted themselves to ancient history know more about the ,greeks1 ,carthaginians1 ,romans1 ,gauls1 and ,persians than any nation of to-day knows about its neighbours4 ,it must also be admitted that the original characteristics of different nations are changing day by day1 and are therefore more difficult to grasp4 ,as races blend and nations intermingle1 those national differences which formerly struck the observer at first sight gradually disappear4 ,before our time every nation remained more or less cut off from the rest2 the means of communication were fewer2 there was less travelling1 less of mutual or conflicting interests1 less political and civil intercourse between nation and nation2 those intricate schemes of royalty1 miscalled diplomacy1 were less frequent2 there were no permanent ambassadors resident at foreign courts2 long voyages were rare1 there was little foreign trade1 and what little there was1 was either the work of princes1 who employed foreigners1 or of people of no account who had no influence on others and did nothing to bring the nations together4 ,the relations between ,europe and ,asia in the present century are a hundredfold more numerous than those between ,gaul and ,spain in the past2 ,europe alone was less accessible than the whole world is now4 ,moreover1 the peoples of antiquity usually considered themselves as the original inhabitants of their country2 they had dwelt there so long that all record was lost of the far-off times when their ancestors settled there2 they had been there so long that the place had made a lasting impression on them2 but in modern ,europe the invasions of the barbarians1 following upon the ,roman conquests1 have caused an extraordinary confusion4 ,the ,frenchmen of to-day are no longer the big fair men of old2 the ,greeks are no longer beautiful enough to serve as a sculptor's model2 the very face of the ,romans has changed as well as their character2 the ,persians1 originally from ,tartary1 are daily losing their native ugliness through the intermixture of ,circassian blood4 ,europeans are no longer ,gauls1 ,germans1 ,iberians1 ,allobroges2 they are all ,scythians1 more or less degenerate in countenance1 and still more so in conduct4 ,this is why the ancient distinctions of race1 the effect of soil and climate1 made a greater difference between nation and nation in respect of temperament1 looks1 manners1 and character than can be distinguished in our own time1 when the fickleness of ,europe leaves no time for natural causes to work1 when the forests are cut down and the marshes drained1 when the earth is more generally1 though less thoroughly1 tilled1 so that the same differences between country and country can no longer be detected even in purely physical features4 ,if they considered these facts perhaps people would not be in such a hurry to ridicule ,herodotus1 ,ctesias1 ,pliny for having described the inhabitants of different countries each with its own peculiarities and with striking differences which we no longer see4 ,to recognise such types of face we should need to see the men themselves2 no change must have passed over them1 if they are to remain the same4 ,if we could behold all the people who have ever lived1 who can doubt that we should find greater variations between one century and another1 than are now found between nation and nation4 ,at the same time1 while observation becomes more difficult1 it is more carelessly and badly done2 this is another reason for the small success of our researches into the natural history of the human race4 ,the information acquired by travel depends upon the object of the journey4 ,if this object is a system of philosophy1 the traveller only sees what he desires to see2 if it is self-interest1 it engrosses the whole attention of those concerned4 ,commerce and the arts which blend and mingle the nations at the same time prevent them from studying each other4 ,if they know how to make a profit out of their neighbours1 what more do they need to know8 ,it is a good thing to know all the places where we might live1 so as to choose those where we can live most comfortably4 ,if every one lived by his own efforts1 all he would need to know would be how much land would keep him in food4 ,the savage1 who has need of no one1 and envies no one1 neither knows nor seeks to know any other country but his own4 ,if he requires more land for his subsistence he shuns inhabited places2 he makes war upon the wild beasts and feeds on them4 ,but for us1 to whom civilised life has become a necessity1 for us who must needs devour our fellow-creatures1 self-interest prompts each one of us to frequent those districts where there are most people to be devoured4 ,this is why we all flock to ,rome1 ,paris1 and ,london4 ,human flesh and blood are always cheapest in the capital cities4 ,thus we only know the great nations1 which are just like one another4 ,they say that men of learning travel to obtain information2 not so1 they travel like other people from interested motives4 ,philosophers like ,plato and ,pythagoras are no longer to be found1 or if they are1 it must be in far-off lands4 ,our men of learning only travel at the king's command2 they are sent out1 their expenses are paid1 they receive a salary for seeing such and such things1 and the object of that journey is certainly not the study of any question of morals4 ,their whole time is required for the object of their journey1 and they are too honest not to earn their pay4 ,if in any country whatsoever there are people travelling at their own expense1 you may be sure it is not to study men but to teach them4 ,it is not knowledge they desire but ostentation4 ,how should their travels teach them to shake off the yoke of prejudice8 ,it is prejudice that sends them on their travels4 ,to travel to see foreign lands or to see foreign nations are two very different things4 ,the former is the usual aim of the curious1 the latter is merely subordinate to it4 ,if you wish to travel as a philosopher you should reverse this order4 ,the child observes things till he is old enough to study men4 ,man should begin by studying his fellows2 he can study things later if time permits4 ,it is therefore illogical to conclude that travel is useless because we travel ill4 ,but granting the usefulness of travel1 does it follow that it is good for all of us8 ,far from it2 there are very few people who are really fit to travel2 it is only good for those who are strong enough in themselves to listen to the voice of error without being deceived1 strong enough to see the example of vice without being led away by it4 ,travelling accelerates the progress of nature1 and completes the man for good or evil4 ,when a man returns from travelling about the world1 he is what he will be all his life2 there are more who return bad than good1 because there are more who start with an inclination towards evil4 ,in the course of their travels1 young people1 ill-educated and ill-behaved1 pick up all the vices of the nations among whom they have sojourned1 and none of the virtues with which those vices are associated2 but those who1 happily for themselves1 are well-born1 those whose good disposition has been well cultivated1 those who travel with a real desire to learn1 all such return better and wiser than they went4 ,emile will travel in this fashion2 in this fashion there travelled another young man1 worthy of a nobler age2 one whose worth was the admiration of ,europe1 one who died for his country in the flower of his manhood2 he deserved to live1 and his tomb1 ennobled by his virtues only1 received no honour till a stranger's hand adorned it with flowers4 ,everything that is done in reason should have its rules4 ,travel1 undertaken as a part of education1 should therefore have its rules4 ,to travel for travelling's sake is to wander1 to be a vagabond2 to travel to learn is still too vague2 learning without some definite aim is worthless4 ,i would give a young man a personal interest in learning1 and that interest1 well-chosen1 will also decide the nature of the instruction4 ,this is merely the continuation of the method ,i have hitherto practised4 ,now after he has considered himself in his physical relations to other creatures1 in his moral relations with other men1 there remains to be considered his civil relations with his fellow-citizens4 ,to do this he must first study the nature of government in general1 then the different forms of government1 and lastly the particular government under which he was born1 to know if it suits him to live under it2 for by a right which nothing can abrogate1 every man1 when he comes of age1 becomes his own master1 free to renounce the contract by which he forms part of the community1 by leaving the country in which that contract holds good4 ,it is only by sojourning in that country1 after he has come to years of discretion1 that he is supposed to have tacitly confirmed the pledge given by his ancestors4 ,he acquires the right to renounce his country1 just as he has the right to renounce all claim to his father's lands2 yet his place of birth was a gift of nature1 and in renouncing it1 he renounces what is his own4 ,strictly speaking1 every man remains in the land of his birth at his own risk unless he voluntarily submits to its laws in order to acquire a right to their protection4 ,for example1 ,i should say to ,emile1 ,hitherto you have lived under my guidance1 you were unable to rule yourself4 ,but now you are approaching the age when the law1 giving you the control over your property1 makes you master of your person4 ,you are about to find yourself alone in society1 dependent on everything1 even on your patrimony4 ,you mean to marry2 that is a praiseworthy intention1 it is one of the duties of man2 but before you marry you must know what sort of man you want to be1 how you wish to spend your life1 what steps you mean to take to secure a living for your family and for yourself2 for although we should not make this our main business1 it must be definitely considered4 ,do you wish to be dependent on men whom you despise8 ,do you wish to establish your fortune and determine your position by means of civil relations which will make you always dependent on the choice of others1 which will compel you1 if you would escape from knaves1 to become a knave yourself8 ,in the next place ,i would show him every possible way of using his money in trade1 in the civil service1 in finance1 and ,i shall show him that in every one of these there are risks to be taken1 every one of them places him in a precarious and dependent position1 and compels him to adapt his morals1 his sentiments1 his conduct to the example and the prejudices of others4 ,there is yet another way of spending your time and money2 you may join the army2 that is to say1 you may hire yourself out at very high wages to go and kill men who never did you any harm4 ,this trade is held in great honour among men1 and they cannot think too highly of those who are fit for nothing better4 ,moreover1 this profession1 far from making you independent of other resources1 makes them all the more necessary2 for it is a point of honour in this profession to ruin those who have adopted it4 ,it is true they are not all ruined2 it is even becoming fashionable to grow rich in this as in other professions2 but if ,i told you how people manage to do it1 ,i doubt whether you would desire to follow their example4 ,moreover1 you must know that1 even in this trade1 it is no longer a question of courage or valour1 unless with regard to the ladies2 on the contrary1 the more cringing1 mean1 and degraded you are1 the more honour you obtain2 if you have decided to take your profession seriously1 you will be despised1 you will be hated1 you will very possibly be driven out of the service1 or at least you will fall a victim to favouritism and be supplanted by your comrades1 because you have been doing your duty in the trenches1 while they have been attending to their toilet4 ,we can hardly suppose that any of these occupations will be much to ,emile's taste4 ,why1 he will exclaim1 have ,i forgotten the amusements of my childhood8 ,have ,i lost the use of my arms8 ,is my strength failing me8 ,do ,i not know how to work8 ,what do ,i care about all your fine professions and all the silly prejudices of others8 ,i know no other pride than to be kindly and just2 no other happiness than to live in independence with her ,i love1 gaining health and a good appetite by the day's work4 ,all these difficulties you speak of do not concern me4 ,the only property ,i desire is a little farm in some quiet corner4 ,i will devote all my efforts after wealth to making it pay1 and ,i will live without a care4 ,give me ,sophy and my land1 and ,i shall be rich4 ,yes1 my dear friend1 that is all a wise man requires1 a wife and land of his own2 but these treasures are scarcer than you think4 ,the rarest you have found already2 let us discuss the other4 ,a field of your own1 dear ,emile6 ,where will you find it1 in what remote corner of the earth can you say1 ',here am ,i master of myself and of this estate which belongs to me8' ,we know where a man may grow rich2 who knows where he can do without riches8 ,who knows where to live free and independent1 without ill-treating others and without fear of being ill-treated himself6 ,do you think it is so easy to find a place where you can always live like an honest man8 ,if there is any safe and lawful way of living without intrigues1 without lawsuits1 without dependence on others1 it is1 ,i admit1 to live by the labour of our hands1 by the cultivation of our own land2 but where is the state in which a man can say1 ',the earth which ,i dig is my own8' ,before choosing this happy spot1 be sure that you will find the peace you desire2 beware lest an unjust government1 a persecuting religion1 and evil habits should disturb you in your home4 ,secure yourself against the excessive taxes which devour the fruits of your labours1 and the endless lawsuits which consume your capital4 ,take care that you can live rightly without having to pay court to intendents1 to their deputies1 to judges1 to priests1 to powerful neighbours1 and to knaves of every kind1 who are always ready to annoy you if you neglect them4 ,above all1 secure yourself from annoyance on the part of the rich and great2 remember that their estates may anywhere adjoin your ,naboth's vineyard4 ,if unluckily for you some great man buys or builds a house near your cottage1 make sure that he will not find a way1 under some pretence or other1 to encroach on your lands to round off his estate1 or that you do not find him at once absorbing all your resources to make a wide highroad4 ,if you keep sufficient credit to ward off all these disagreeables1 you might as well keep your money1 for it will cost you no more to keep it4 ,riches and credit lean upon each other1 the one can hardly stand without the other4 ,i have more experience than you1 dear ,emile2 ,i see more clearly the difficulties in the way of your scheme4 ,yet it is a fine scheme and honourable2 it would make you happy indeed4 ,let us try to carry it out4 ,i have a suggestion to make2 let us devote the two years from now till the time of your return to choosing a place in ,europe where you could live happily with your family1 secure from all the dangers ,i have just described4 ,if we succeed1 you will have discovered that true happiness1 so often sought for in vain2 and you will not have to regret the time spent in its search4 ,if we fail1 you will be cured of a mistaken idea2 you will console yourself for an inevitable ill1 and you will bow to the law of necessity4 ,i do not know whether all my readers will see whither this suggested inquiry will lead us2 but this ,i do know1 if ,emile returns from his travels1 begun and continued with this end in view1 without a full knowledge of questions of government1 public morality1 and political philosophy of every kind1 we are greatly lacking1 he in intelligence and ,i in judgment4 ,the science of politics is and probably always will be unknown4 ,grotius1 our leader in this branch of learning1 is only a child1 and what is worse an untruthful child4 ,when ,i hear ,grotius praised to the skies and ,hobbes overwhelmed with abuse1 ,i perceive how little sensible men have read or understood these authors4 ,as a matter of fact1 their principles are exactly alike1 they only differ in their mode of expression4 ,their methods are also different3 ,hobbes relies on sophism2 ,grotius relies on the poets2 they are agreed in everything else4 ,in modern times the only man who could have created this vast and useless science was the illustrious ,montesquieu4 ,but he was not concerned with the principles of political law2 he was content to deal with the positive laws of settled governments2 and nothing could be more different than these two branches of study4 ,yet he who would judge wisely in matters of actual government is forced to combine the two2 he must know what ought to be in order to judge what is4 ,the chief difficulty in the way of throwing light upon this important matter is to induce an individual to discuss and to answer these two questions4 ,how does it concern me2 and what can ,i do8 ,emile is in a position to answer both4 ,the next difficulty is due to the prejudices of childhood1 the principles in which we were brought up2 it is due above all to the partiality of authors1 who are always talking about truth1 though they care very little about it2 it is only their own interests that they care for1 and of these they say nothing4 ,now the nation has neither professorships1 nor pensions1 nor membership of the academies to bestow4 ,how then shall its rights be established by men of that type8 ,the education ,i have given him has removed this difficulty also from ,emile's path4 ,he scarcely knows what is meant by government2 his business is to find the best2 he does not want to write books2 if ever he did so1 it would not be to pay court to those in authority1 but to establish the rights of humanity4 ,there is a third difficulty1 more specious than real2 a difficulty which ,i neither desire to solve nor even to state2 enough that ,i am not afraid of it2 sure ,i am that in inquiries of this kind1 great talents are less necessary than a genuine love of justice and a sincere reverence for truth4 ,if matters of government can ever be fairly discussed1 now or never is our chance4 ,before beginning our observations we must lay down rules of procedure2 we must find a scale with which to compare our measurements4 ,our principles of political law are our scale4 ,our actual measurements are the civil law of each country4 ,our elementary notions are plain and simple1 being taken directly from the nature of things4 ,they will take the form of problems discussed between us1 and they will not be formulated into principles1 until we have found a satisfactory solution of our problems4 ,for example1 we shall begin with the state of nature1 we shall see whether men are born slaves or free1 in a community or independent2 is their association the result of free will or of force8 ,can the force which compels them to united action ever form a permanent law1 by which this original force becomes binding1 even when another has been imposed upon it1 so that since the power of ,king ,nimrod1 who is said to have been the first conqueror1 every other power which has overthrown the original power is unjust and usurping1 so that there are no lawful kings but the descendants of ,nimrod or their representatives2 or if this original power has ceased1 has the power which succeeded it any right over us1 and does it destroy the binding force of the former power1 so that we are not bound to obey except under compulsion1 and we are free to rebel as soon as we are capable of resistance8 ,such a right is not very different from might2 it is little more than a play upon words4 ,we shall inquire whether man might not say that all sickness comes from ,god1 and that it is therefore a crime to send for the doctor4 ,again1 we shall inquire whether we are bound by our conscience to give our purse to a highwayman when we might conceal it from him1 for the pistol in his hand is also a power4 ,does this word power in this context mean something different from a power which is lawful and therefore subject to the laws to which it owes its being8 ,suppose we reject this theory that might is right and admit the right of nature1 or the authority of the father1 as the foundation of society2 we shall inquire into the extent of this authority2 what is its foundation in nature8 ,has it any other grounds but that of its usefulness to the child1 his weakness1 and the natural love which his father feels towards him8 ,when the child is no longer feeble1 when he is grown-up in mind as well as in body1 does not he become the sole judge of what is necessary for his preservation8 ,is he not therefore his own master1 independent of all men1 even of his father himself8 ,for is it not still more certain that the son loves himself1 than that the father loves the son8 ,the father being dead1 should the children obey the eldest brother1 or some other person who has not the natural affection of a father8 ,should there always be1 from family to family1 one single head to whom all the family owe obedience8 ,if so1 how has power ever come to be divided1 and how is it that there is more than one head to govern the human race throughout the world8 ,suppose the nations to have been formed each by its own choice2 we shall then distinguish between right and fact2 being thus subjected to their brothers1 uncles1 or other relations1 not because they were obliged1 but because they choose1 we shall inquire whether this kind of society is not a sort of free and voluntary association8 ,taking next the law of slavery1 we shall inquire whether a man can make over to another his right to himself1 without restriction1 without reserve1 without any kind of conditions2 that is to say1 can he renounce his person1 his life1 his reason1 his very self1 can he renounce all morality in his actions2 in a word1 can he cease to exist before his death1 in spite of nature who places him directly in charge of his own preservation1 in spite of reason and conscience which tell him what to do and what to leave undone8 ,if there is any reservation or restriction in the deed of slavery1 we shall discuss whether this deed does not then become a true contract1 in which both the contracting powers1 having in this respect no common master1 ,footnote3 ,if they had such a common master1 he would be no other than the sovereign1 and then the right of slavery resting on the right of sovereignty would not be its origin4 remain their own judge as to the conditions of the contract1 and therefore free to this extent1 and able to break the contract as soon as it becomes hurtful4 ,if then a slave cannot convey himself altogether to his master1 how can a nation convey itself altogether to its head8 ,if a slave is to judge whether his master is fulfilling his contract1 is not the nation to judge whether its head is fulfilling his contract8 ,thus we are compelled to retrace our steps1 and when we consider the meaning of this collective nation we shall inquire whether some contract1 a tacit contract at the least1 is not required to make a nation1 a contract anterior to that which we are assuming4 ,since the nation was a nation before it chose a king1 what made it a nation1 except the social contract8 ,therefore the social contract is the foundation of all civil society1 and it is in the nature of this contract that we must seek the nature of the society formed by it4 ,we will inquire into the meaning of this contract2 may it not be fairly well expressed in this formula8 ,as an individual every one of us contributes his goods1 his person1 his life1 to the common stock1 under the supreme direction of the general will2 while as a body we receive each member as an indivisible part of the whole4 ,assuming this1 in order to define the terms we require1 we shall observe that1 instead of the individual person of each contracting party1 this deed of association produces a moral and collective body1 consisting of as many members as there are votes in the ,assembly4 ,this public personality is usually called the body politic1 which is called by its members the ,state when it is passive1 and the ,sovereign when it is active1 and a ,power when compared with its equals4 ,with regard to the members themselves1 collectively they are known as the nation1 and individually as citizens as members of the city or partakers in the sovereign power1 and subjects as obedient to the same authority4 ,we shall note that this contract of association includes a mutual pledge on the part of the public and the individual2 and that each individual1 entering1 so to speak1 into a contract with himself1 finds himself in a twofold capacity1 i4e41 as a member of the sovereign with regard to others1 as member of the state with regard to the sovereign4 ,we shall also note that while no one is bound by any engagement to which he was not himself a party1 the general deliberation which may be binding on all the subjects with regard to the sovereign1 because of the two different relations under which each of them is envisaged1 cannot be binding on the state with regard to itself4 ,hence we see that there is not1 and cannot be1 any other fundamental law1 properly so called1 except the social contract only4 ,this does not mean that the body politic cannot1 in certain respects1 pledge itself to others2 for in regard to the foreigner1 it then becomes a simple creature1 an individual4 ,thus the two contracting parties1 i4e41 each individual and the public1 have no common superior to decide their differences2 so we will inquire if each of them remains free to break the contract at will1 that is to repudiate it on his side as soon as he considers it hurtful4 ,to clear up this difficulty1 we shall observe that1 according to the social pact1 the sovereign power is only able to act through the common1 general will2 so its decrees can only have a general or common aim2 hence it follows that a private individual cannot be directly injured by the sovereign1 unless all are injured1 which is impossible1 for that would be to want to harm oneself4 ,thus the social contract has no need of any warrant but the general power1 for it can only be broken by individuals1 and they are not therefore freed from their engagement1 but punished for having broken it4 ,to decide all such questions rightly1 we must always bear in mind that the nature of the social pact is private and peculiar to itself1 in that the nation only contracts with itself1 i4e41 the people as a whole as sovereign1 with the individuals as subjects2 this condition is essential to the construction and working of the political machine1 it alone makes pledges lawful1 reasonable1 and secure1 without which it would be absurd1 tyrannical1 and liable to the grossest abuse4 ,individuals having only submitted themselves to the sovereign1 and the sovereign power being only the general will1 we shall see that every man in obeying the sovereign only obeys himself1 and how much freer are we under the social part than in the state of nature4 ,having compared natural and civil liberty with regard to persons1 we will compare them as to property1 the rights of ownership and the rights of sovereignty1 the private and the common domain4 ,if the sovereign power rests upon the right of ownership1 there is no right more worthy of respect2 it is inviolable and sacred for the sovereign power1 so long as it remains a private individual right2 as soon as it is viewed as common to all the citizens1 it is subject to the common will1 and this will may destroy it4 ,thus the sovereign has no right to touch the property of one or many2 but he may lawfully take possession of the property of all1 as was done in ,sparta in the time of ,lycurgus2 while the abolition of debts by ,solon was an unlawful deed4 ,since nothing is binding on the subjects except the general will1 let us inquire how this will is made manifest1 by what signs we may recognise it with certainty1 what is a law1 and what are the true characters of the law8 ,this is quite a fresh subject2 we have still to define the term law4 ,as soon as the nation considers one or more of its members1 the nation is divided4 ,a relation is established between the whole and its part which makes of them two separate entities1 of which the part is one1 and the whole1 minus that part1 is the other4 ,but the whole minus the part is not the whole2 as long as this relation exists1 there is no longer a whole1 but two unequal parts4 ,on the other hand1 if the whole nation makes a law for the whole nation1 it is only considering itself2 and if a relation is set up1 it is between the whole community regarded from one point of view1 and the whole community regarded from another point of view1 without any division of that whole4 ,then the object of the statute is general1 and the will which makes that statute is general too4 ,let us see if there is any other kind of decree which may bear the name of law4 ,if the sovereign can only speak through laws1 and if the law can never have any but a general purpose1 concerning all the members of the state1 it follows that the sovereign never has the power to make any law with regard to particular cases2 and yet it is necessary for the preservation of the state that particular cases should also be dealt with2 let us see how this can be done4 ,the decrees of the sovereign can only be decrees of the general will1 that is laws2 there must also be determining decrees1 decrees of power or government1 for the execution of those laws2 and these1 on the other hand1 can only have particular aims4 ,thus the decrees by which the sovereign decides that a chief shall be elected is a law2 the decree by which that chief is elected1 in pursuance of the law1 is only a decree of government4 ,this is a third relation in which the assembled people may be considered1 i4e41 as magistrates or executors of the law which it has passed in its capacity as sovereign4 ,footnote3 ,these problems and theorems are mostly taken from the ,treatise on the ,social ,contract1 itself a summary of a larger work1 undertaken without due consideration of my own powers1 and long since abandoned4 ,we will now inquire whether it is possible for the nation to deprive itself of its right of sovereignty1 to bestow it on one or more persons2 for the decree of election not being a law1 and the people in this decree not being themselves sovereign1 we do not see how they can transfer a right which they do not possess4 ,the essence of sovereignty consisting in the general will1 it is equally hard to see how we can be certain that an individual will shall always be in agreement with the general will4 ,we should rather assume that it will often be opposed to it2 for individual interest always tends to privileges1 while the common interest always tends to equality1 and if such an agreement were possible1 no sovereign right could exist1 unless the agreement were either necessary or indestructible4 ,we will inquire if1 without violating the social pact1 the heads of the nation1 under whatever name they are chosen1 can ever be more than the officers of the people1 entrusted by them with the duty of carrying the law into execution4 ,are not these chiefs themselves accountable for their administration1 and are not they themselves subject to the laws which it is their business to see carried out8 ,if the nation cannot alienate its supreme right1 can it entrust it to others for a time8 ,cannot it give itself a master1 cannot it find representatives8 ,this is an important question and deserves discussion4 ,if the nation can have neither sovereign nor representatives we will inquire how it can pass its own laws2 must there be many laws2 must they be often altered2 is it easy for a great nation to be its own lawgiver8 ,was not the ,roman people a great nation8 ,is it a good thing that there should be great nations8 ,it follows from considerations already established that there is an intermediate body in the state between subjects and sovereign2 and this intermediate body1 consisting of one or more members1 is entrusted with the public administration1 the carrying out of the laws1 and the maintenance of civil and political liberty4 ,the members of this body are called magistrates or kings1 that is to say1 rulers4 ,this body1 as a whole1 considered in relation to its members1 is called the prince1 and considered in its actions it is called the government4 ,if we consider the action of the whole body upon itself1 that is to say1 the relation of the whole to the whole1 of the sovereign to the state1 we can compare this relation to that of the extremes in a proportion of which the government is the middle term4 ,the magistrate receives from the sovereign the commands which he gives to the nation1 and when it is reckoned up his product or his power is in the same degree as the product or power of the citizens who are subjects on one side of the proportion and sovereigns on the other4 ,none of the three terms can be varied without at once destroying this proportion4 ,if the sovereign tries to govern1 and if the prince wants to make the laws1 or if the subject refuses to obey them1 disorder takes the place of order1 and the state falls to pieces under despotism or anarchy4 ,let us suppose that this state consists of ten thousand citizens4 ,the sovereign can only be considered collectively and as a body1 but each individual1 as a subject1 has his private and independent existence4 ,thus the sovereign is as ten thousand to one2 that is to say1 every member of the state has1 as his own share1 only one ten-thousandth part of the sovereign power1 although he is subject to the whole4 ,let the nation be composed of one hundred thousand men1 the position of the subjects is unchanged1 and each continues to bear the whole weight of the laws1 while his vote1 reduced to the one hundred-thousandth part1 has ten times less influence in the making of the laws4 ,thus the subject being always one1 the sovereign is relatively greater as the number of the citizens is increased4 ,hence it follows that the larger the state the less liberty4 ,now the greater the disproportion between private wishes and the general will1 i4e41 between manners and laws1 the greater must be the power of repression4 ,on the other side1 the greatness of the state gives the depositaries of public authority greater temptations and additional means of abusing that authority1 so that the more power is required by the government to control the people1 the more power should there be in the sovereign to control the government4 ,from this twofold relation it follows that the continued proportion between the sovereign1 the prince1 and the people is not an arbitrary idea1 but a consequence of the nature of the state4 ,moreover1 it follows that one of the extremes1 i4e41 the nation1 being constant1 every time the double ratio increases or decreases1 the simple ratio increases or diminishes in its turn2 which cannot be unless the middle term is as often changed4 ,from this we may conclude that there is no single absolute form of government1 but there must be as many different forms of government as there are states of different size4 ,if the greater the numbers of the nation the less the ratio between its manners and its laws1 by a fairly clear analogy1 we may also say1 the more numerous the magistrates1 the weaker the government4 ,to make this principle clearer we will distinguish three essentially different wills in the person of each magistrate2 first1 his own will as an individual1 which looks to his own advantage only2 secondly1 the common will of the magistrates1 which is concerned only with the advantage of the prince1 a will which may be called corporate1 and one which is general in relation to the government and particular in relation to the state of which the government forms part2 thirdly1 the will of the people1 or the sovereign will1 which is general1 as much in relation to the state viewed as the whole as in relation to the government viewed as a part of the whole4 ,in a perfect legislature the private individual will should be almost nothing2 the corporate will belonging to the government should be quite subordinate1 and therefore the general and sovereign will is the master of all the others4 ,on the other hand1 in the natural order1 these different wills become more and more active in proportion as they become centralised2 the general will is always weak1 the corporate will takes the second place1 the individual will is preferred to all2 so that every one is himself first1 then a magistrate1 and then a citizen2 a series just the opposite of that required by the social order4 ,having laid down this principle1 let us assume that the government is in the hands of one man4 ,in this case the individual and the corporate will are absolutely one1 and therefore this will has reached the greatest possible degree of intensity4 ,now the use of power depends on the degree of this intensity1 and as the absolute power of the government is always that of the people1 and therefore invariable1 it follows that the rule of one man is the most active form of government4 ,if1 on the other hand1 we unite the government with the supreme power1 and make the prince the sovereign and the citizens so many magistrates1 then the corporate will is completely lost in the general will1 and will have no more activity than the general will1 and it will leave the individual will in full vigour4 ,thus the government1 though its absolute force is constant1 will have the minimum of activity4 ,these rules are incontestable in themselves1 and other considerations only serve to confirm them4 ,for example1 we see the magistrates as a body far more active than the citizens as a body1 so that the individual will always counts for more4 ,for each magistrate usually has charge of some particular duty of government2 while each citizen1 in himself1 has no particular duty of sovereignty4 ,moreover1 the greater the state the greater its real power1 although its power does not increase because of the increase in territory2 but the state remaining unchanged1 the magistrates are multiplied in vain1 the government acquires no further real strength1 because it is the depositary of that of the state1 which ,i have assumed to be constant4 ,thus1 this plurality of magistrates decreases the activity of the government without increasing its power4 ,having found that the power of the government is relaxed in proportion as the number of magistrates is multiplied1 and that the more numerous the people1 the more the controlling power must be increased1 we shall infer that the ratio between the magistrates and the government should be inverse to that between subjects and sovereign1 that is to say1 that the greater the state1 the smaller the government1 and that in like manner the number of chiefs should be diminished because of the increased numbers of the people4 ,in order to make this diversity of forms clearer1 and to assign them their different names1 we shall observe in the first place that the sovereign may entrust the care of the government to the whole nation or to the greater part of the nation1 so that there are more citizen magistrates than private citizens4 ,this form of government is called ,democracy4 ,or the sovereign may restrict the government in the hands of a lesser number1 so that there are more plain citizens than magistrates2 and this form of government is called ,aristocracy4 ,finally1 the sovereign may concentrate the whole government in the hands of one man4 ,this is the third and commonest form of government1 and is called ,monarchy or royal government4 ,we shall observe that all these forms1 or the first and second at least1 may be less or more1 and that within tolerably wide limits4 ,for the democracy may include the whole nation1 or may be confined to one half of it4 ,the aristocracy1 in its turn1 may shrink from the half of the nation to the smallest number4 ,even royalty may be shared1 either between father and son1 between two brothers1 or in some other fashion4 ,there were always two kings in ,sparta1 and in the ,roman empire there were as many as eight emperors at once1 and yet it cannot be said that the empire was divided4 ,there is a point where each form of government blends with the next2 and under the three specific forms there may be really as many forms of government as there are citizens in the state4 ,nor is this all4 ,in certain respects each of these governments is capable of subdivision into different parts1 each administered in one of these three ways4 ,from these forms in combination there may arise a multitude of mixed forms1 since each may be multiplied by all the simple forms4 ,in all ages there have been great disputes as to which is the best form of government1 and people have failed to consider that each is the best in some cases and the worst in others4 ,for ourselves1 if the number of magistrates ,footnote3 ,you will remember that ,i mean1 in this context1 the supreme magistrates or heads of the nation1 the others being only their deputies in this or that respect4 in the various states is to be in inverse ratio to the number of the citizens1 we infer that generally a democratic government is adapted to small states1 an aristocratic government to those of moderate size1 and a monarchy to large states4 ,these inquiries furnish us with a clue by which we may discover what are the duties and rights of citizens1 and whether they can be separated one from the other2 what is our country1 in what does it really consist1 and how can each of us ascertain whether he has a country or no8 ,having thus considered every kind of civil society in itself1 we shall compare them1 so as to note their relations one with another2 great and small1 strong and weak1 attacking one another1 insulting one another1 destroying one another2 and in this perpetual action and reaction causing more misery and loss of life than if men had preserved their original freedom4 ,we shall inquire whether too much or too little has not been accomplished in the matter of social institutions2 whether individuals who are subject to law and to men1 while societies preserve the independence of nature1 are not exposed to the ills of both conditions without the advantages of either1 and whether it would not be better to have no civil society in the world rather than to have many such societies4 ,is it not that mixed condition which partakes of both and secures neither8 ,per quem neutrum licet1 nec tanquam in bello paratum esse1 nec tanquam in pace securum4--,seneca ,de ,trang3 ,animi1 cap4 ,i4 ,is it not this partial and imperfect association which gives rise to tyranny and war8 ,and are not tyranny and war the worst scourges of humanity8 ,finally we will inquire how men seek to get rid of these difficulties by means of leagues and confederations1 which leave each state its own master in internal affairs1 while they arm it against any unjust aggression4 ,we will inquire how a good federal association may be established1 what can make it lasting1 and how far the rights of the federation may be stretched without destroying the right of sovereignty4 ,the ,abbe de ,saint-,pierre suggested an association of all the states of ,europe to maintain perpetual peace among themselves4 ,is this association practicable1 and supposing that it were established1 would it be likely to last8 ,these inquiries lead us straight to all the questions of international law which may clear up the remaining difficulties of political law4 ,finally we shall lay down the real principles of the laws of war1 and we shall see why ,grotius and others have only stated false principles4 ,i should not be surprised if my pupil1 who is a sensible young man1 should interrupt me saying1 ,one would think we were building our edifice of wood and not of men2 we are putting everything so exactly in its place6 ,that is true2 but remember that the law does not bow to the passions of men1 and that we have first to establish the true principles of political law4 ,now that our foundations are laid1 come and see what men have built upon them2 and you will see some strange sights6 ,then ,i set him to read ,telemachus1 and we pursue our journey2 we are seeking that happy ,salentum and the good ,idomeneus made wise by misfortunes4 ,by the way we find many like ,protesilas and no ,philocles1 neither can ,adrastes1 ,king of the ,daunians1 be found4 ,but let our readers picture our travels for themselves1 or take the same journeys with ,telemachus in their hand2 and let us not suggest to them painful applications which the author himself avoids or makes in spite of himself4 ,moreover1 ,emile is not a king1 nor am ,i a god1 so that we are not distressed that we cannot imitate ,telemachus and ,mentor in the good they did2 none know better than we how to keep to our own place1 none have less desire to leave it4 ,we know that the same task is allotted to all2 that whoever loves what is right with all his heart1 and does the right so far as it is in his power1 has fulfilled that task4 ,we know that ,telemachus and ,mentor are creatures of the imagination4 ,emile does not travel in idleness and he does more good than if he were a prince4 ,if we were kings we should be no greater benefactors4 ,if we were kings and benefactors we should cause any number of real evils for every apparent good we supposed we were doing4 ,if we were kings and sages1 the first good deed we should desire to perform1 for ourselves and for others1 would be to abdicate our kingship and return to our present position4 ,i have said why travel does so little for every one4 ,what makes it still more barren for the young is the way in which they are sent on their travels4 ,tutors1 more concerned to amuse than to instruct1 take them from town to town1 from palace to palace1 where if they are men of learning and letters1 they make them spend their time in libraries1 or visiting antiquaries1 or rummaging among old buildings transcribing ancient inscriptions4 ,in every country they are busy over some other century1 as if they were living in another country2 so that after they have travelled all over ,europe at great expense1 a prey to frivolity or tedium1 they return1 having seen nothing to interest them1 and having learnt nothing that could be of any possible use to them4 ,all capitals are just alike1 they are a mixture of all nations and all ways of living2 they are not the place in which to study the nations4 ,paris and ,london seem to me the same town4 ,their inhabitants have a few prejudices of their own1 but each has as many as the other1 and all their rules of conduct are the same4 ,we know the kind of people who will throng the court4 ,we know the way of living which the crowds of people and the unequal distribution of wealth will produce4 ,as soon as any one tells me of a town with two hundred thousand people1 ,i know its life already4 ,what ,i do not know about it is not worth going there to learn4 ,to study the genius and character of a nation you should go to the more remote provinces1 where there is less stir1 less commerce1 where strangers seldom travel1 where the inhabitants stay in one place1 where there are fewer changes of wealth and position4 ,take a look at the capital on your way1 but go and study the country far away from that capital4 ,the ,french are not in ,paris1 but in ,touraine2 the ,english are more ,english in ,mercia than in ,london1 and the ,spaniards more ,spanish in ,galicia than in ,madrid4 ,in these remoter provinces a nation assumes its true character and shows what it really is2 there the good or ill effects of the government are best perceived1 just as you can measure the arc more exactly at a greater radius4 ,the necessary relations between character and government have been so clearly pointed out in the book of ,l',esprit des ,lois1 that one cannot do better than have recourse to that work for the study of those relations4 ,but speaking generally1 there are two plain and simple standards by which to decide whether governments are good or bad4 ,one is the population4 ,every country in which the population is decreasing is on its way to ruin2 and the countries in which the population increases most rapidly1 even were they the poorest countries in the world1 are certainly the best governed4 ,footnote3 ,i only know one exception to this rule--it is ,china4 ,but this population must be the natural result of the government and the national character1 for if it is caused by colonisation or any other temporary and accidental cause1 then the remedy itself is evidence of the disease4 ,when ,augustus passed laws against celibacy1 those laws showed that the ,roman empire was already beginning to decline4 ,citizens must be induced to marry by the goodness of the government1 not compelled to marry by law2 you must not examine the effects of force1 for the law which strives against the constitution has little or no effect2 you should study what is done by the influence of public morals and by the natural inclination of the government1 for these alone produce a lasting effect4 ,it was the policy of the worthy ,abbe de ,saint-,pierre always to look for a little remedy for every individual ill1 instead of tracing them to their common source and seeing if they could not all be cured together4 ,you do not need to treat separately every sore on a rich man's body2 you should purify the blood which produces them4 ,they say that in ,england there are prizes for agriculture2 that is enough for me2 that is proof enough that agriculture will not flourish there much longer4 ,the second sign of the goodness or badness of the government and the laws is also to be found in the population1 but it is to be found not in its numbers but in its distribution4 ,two states equal in size and population may be very unequal in strength2 and the more powerful is always that in which the people are more evenly distributed over its territory2 the country which has fewer large towns1 and makes less show on this account1 will always defeat the other4 ,it is the great towns which exhaust the state and are the cause of its weakness2 the wealth which they produce is a sham wealth1 there is much money and few goods4 ,they say the town of ,paris is worth a whole province to the ,king of ,france2 for my own part ,i believe it costs him more than several provinces4 ,i believe that ,paris is fed by the provinces in more senses than one1 and that the greater part of their revenues is poured into that town and stays there1 without ever returning to the people or to the king4 ,it is inconceivable that in this age of calculators there is no one to see that ,france would be much more powerful if ,paris were destroyed4 ,not only is this ill-distributed population not advantageous to the state1 it is more ruinous than depopulation itself1 because depopulation only gives as produce nought1 and the ill-regulated addition of still more people gives a negative result4 ,when ,i hear an ,englishman and a ,frenchman so proud of the size of their capitals1 and disputing whether ,london or ,paris has more inhabitants1 it seems to me that they are quarrelling as to which nation can claim the honour of being the worst governed4 ,study the nation outside its towns2 thus only will you really get to know it4 ,it is nothing to see the apparent form of a government1 overladen with the machinery of administration and the jargon of the administrators1 if you have not also studied its nature as seen in the effects it has upon the people1 and in every degree of administration4 ,the difference of form is really shared by every degree of the administration1 and it is only by including every degree that you really know the difference4 ,in one country you begin to feel the spirit of the minister in the manoeuvres of his underlings2 in another you must see the election of members of parliament to see if the nation is really free2 in each and every country1 he who has only seen the towns cannot possibly know what the government is like1 as its spirit is never the same in town and country4 ,now it is the agricultural districts which form the country1 and the country people who make the nation4 ,this study of different nations in their remoter provinces1 and in the simplicity of their native genius1 gives a general result which is very satisfactory1 to my thinking1 and very consoling to the human heart2 it is this3 ,all the nations1 if you observe them in this fashion1 seem much better worth observing2 the nearer they are to nature1 the more does kindness hold sway in their character2 it is only when they are cooped up in towns1 it is only when they are changed by cultivation1 that they become depraved1 that certain faults which were rather coarse than injurious are exchanged for pleasant but pernicious vices4 ,from this observation we see another advantage in the mode of travel ,i suggest2 for young men1 sojourning less in the big towns which are horribly corrupt1 are less likely to catch the infection of vice2 among simpler people and less numerous company1 they will preserve a surer judgment1 a healthier taste1 and better morals4 ,besides this contagion of vice is hardly to be feared for ,emile2 he has everything to protect him from it4 ,among all the precautions ,i have taken1 ,i reckon much on the love he bears in his heart4 ,we do not know the power of true love over youthful desires1 because we are ourselves as ignorant of it as they are1 and those who have control over the young turn them from true love4 ,yet a young man must either love or fall into bad ways4 ,it is easy to be deceived by appearances4 ,you will quote any number of young men who are said to live very chastely without love2 but show me one grown man1 a real man1 who can truly say that his youth was thus spent8 ,in all our virtues1 all our duties1 people are content with appearances2 for my own part ,i want the reality1 and ,i am much mistaken if there is any other way of securing it beyond the means ,i have suggested4 ,the idea of letting ,emile fall in love before taking him on his travels is not my own4 ,it was suggested to me by the following incident4 ,i was in ,venice calling on the tutor of a young ,englishman4 ,it was winter and we were sitting round the fire4 ,the tutor's letters were brought from the post office4 ,he glanced at them1 and then read them aloud to his pupil4 ,they were in ,english2 ,i understood not a word1 but while he was reading ,i saw the young man tear some fine point lace ruffles which he was wearing1 and throw them in the fire one after another1 as quietly as he could1 so that no one should see it4 ,surprised at this whim1 ,i looked at his face and thought ,i perceived some emotion2 but the external signs of passion1 though much alike in all men1 have national differences which may easily lead one astray4 ,nations have a different language of facial expression as well as of speech4 ,i waited till the letters were finished and then showing the tutor the bare wrists of his pupil1 which he did his best to hide1 ,i said1 ,may ,i ask the meaning of this8 ,the tutor seeing what had happened began to laugh2 he embraced his pupil with an air of satisfaction and1 with his consent1 he gave me the desired explanation4 ,the ruffles1 said he1 which ,mr4 ,john has just torn to pieces1 were a present from a lady in this town1 who made them for him not long ago4 ,now you must know that ,mr4 ,john is engaged to a young lady in his own country1 with whom he is greatly in love1 and she well deserves it4 ,this letter is from the lady's mother1 and ,i will translate the passage which caused the destruction you beheld4 ',lucy is always at work upon ,mr4 ,john's ruffles4 ,yesterday ,miss ,betty ,roldham came to spend the afternoon and insisted on doing some of her work4 ,i knew that ,lucy was up very early this morning and ,i wanted to see what she was doing2 ,i found her busy unpicking what ,miss ,betty had done4 ,she would not have a single stitch in her present done by any hand but her own4' ,mr4 ,john went to fetch another pair of ruffles1 and ,i said to his tutor3 ,your pupil has a very good disposition2 but tell me is not the letter from ,miss ,lucy's mother a put up job8 ,is it not an expedient of your designing against the lady of the ruffles8 ,no1 said he1 it is quite genuine2 ,i am not so artful as that2 ,i have made use of simplicity and zeal1 and ,god has blessed my efforts4 ,this incident with regard to the young man stuck in my mind2 it was sure to set a dreamer like me thinking4 ,but it is time we finished4 ,let us take ,mr4 ,john back to ,miss ,lucy1 or rather ,emile to ,sophy4 ,he brings her a heart as tender as ever1 and a more enlightened mind1 and he returns to his native land all the bettor for having made acquaintance with foreign governments through their vices and foreign nations through their virtues4 ,i have even taken care that he should associate himself with some man of worth in every nation1 by means of a treaty of hospitality after the fashion of the ancients1 and ,i shall not be sorry if this acquaintance is kept up by means of letters4 ,not only may this be useful1 not only is it always pleasant to have a correspondent in foreign lands1 it is also an excellent antidote against the sway of patriotic prejudices1 to which we are liable all through our life1 and to which sooner or later we are more or less enslaved4 ,nothing is better calculated to lessen the hold of such prejudices than a friendly interchange of opinions with sensible people whom we respect2 they are free from our prejudices and we find ourselves face to face with theirs1 and so we can set the one set of prejudices against the other and be safe from both4 ,it is not the same thing to have to do with strangers in our own country and in theirs4 ,in the former case there is always a certain amount of politeness which either makes them conceal their real opinions1 or makes them think more favourably of our country while they are with us2 when they get home again this disappears1 and they merely do us justice4 ,i should be very glad if the foreigner ,i consult has seen my country1 but ,i shall not ask what he thinks of it till he is at home again4 ,when we have spent nearly two years travelling in a few of the great countries and many of the smaller countries of ,europe1 when we have learnt two or three of the chief languages1 when we have seen what is really interesting in natural history1 government1 arts1 or men1 ,emile1 devoured by impatience1 reminds me that our time is almost up4 ,then ,i say1 ,well1 my friend1 you remember the main object of our journey2 you have seen and observed2 what is the final result of your observations8 ,what decision have you come to8 ,either my method is wrong1 or he will answer me somewhat after this fashion-- ,what decision have ,i come to8 ,i have decided to be what you made me2 of my own free will ,i will add no fetters to those imposed upon me by nature and the laws4 ,the more ,i study the works of men in their institutions1 the more clearly ,i see that1 in their efforts after independence1 they become slaves1 and that their very freedom is wasted in vain attempts to assure its continuance4 ,that they may not be carried away by the flood of things1 they form all sorts of attachments2 then as soon as they wish to move forward they are surprised to find that everything drags them back4 ,it seems to me that to set oneself free we need do nothing1 we need only continue to desire freedom4 ,my master1 you have made me free by teaching me to yield to necessity4 ,let her come when she will1 ,i follow her without compulsion2 ,i lay hold of nothing to keep me back4 ,in our travels ,i have sought for some corner of the earth where ,i might be absolutely my own2 but where can one dwell among men without being dependent on their passions8 ,on further consideration ,i have discovered that my desire contradicted itself2 for were ,i to hold to nothing else1 ,i should at least hold to the spot on which ,i had settled2 my life would be attached to that spot1 as the dryads were attached to their trees4 ,i have discovered that the words liberty and empire are incompatible2 ,i can only be master of a cottage by ceasing to be master of myself4 ',hoc erat in votis1 modus agri non ita magnus4' ,horace1 lib4 ii41 sat4 vi4 ,i remember that my property was the origin of our inquiries4 ,you argued very forcibly that ,i could not keep both my wealth and my liberty2 but when you wished me to be free and at the same time without needs1 you desired two incompatible things1 for ,i could only be independent of men by returning to dependence on nature4 ,what then shall ,i do with the fortune bequeathed to me by my parents8 ,to begin with1 ,i will not be dependent on it2 ,i will cut myself loose from all the ties which bind me to it2 if it is left in my hands1 ,i shall keep it2 if ,i am deprived of it1 ,i shall not be dragged away with it4 ,i shall not trouble myself to keep it1 but ,i shall keep steadfastly to my own place4 ,rich or poor1 ,i shall be free4 ,i shall be free not merely in this country or in that2 ,i shall be free in any part of the world4 ,all the chains of prejudice are broken2 as far as ,i am concerned ,i know only the bonds of necessity4 ,i have been trained to endure them from my childhood1 and ,i shall endure them until death1 for ,i am a man2 and why should ,i not wear those chains as a free man1 for ,i should have to wear them even if ,i were a slave1 together with the additional fetters of slavery8 ,what matters my place in the world8 ,what matters it where ,i am8 ,wherever there are men1 ,i am among my brethren2 wherever there are none1 ,i am in my own home4 ,so long as ,i may be independent and rich1 and have wherewithal to live1 and ,i shall live4 ,if my wealth makes a slave of me1 ,i shall find it easy to renounce it4 ,i have hands to work1 and ,i shall get a living4 ,if my hands fail me1 ,i shall live if others will support me2 if they forsake me ,i shall die2 ,i shall die even if ,i am not forsaken1 for death is not the penalty of poverty1 it is a law of nature4 ,whensoever death comes ,i defy it2 it shall never find me making preparations for life2 it shall never prevent me having lived4 ,my father1 this is my decision4 ,but for my passions1 ,i should be in my manhood independent as ,god himself1 for ,i only desire what is and ,i should never fight against fate4 ,at least1 there is only one chain1 a chain which ,i shall ever wear1 a chain of which ,i may be justly proud4 ,come then1 give me my ,sophy1 and ,i am free4 ,dear ,emile1 ,i am glad indeed to hear you speak like a man1 and to behold the feelings of your heart4 ,at your age this exaggerated unselfishness is not unpleasing4 ,it will decrease when you have children of your own1 and then you will be just what a good father and a wise man ought to be4 ,i knew what the result would be before our travels2 ,i knew that when you saw our institutions you would be far from reposing a confidence in them which they do not deserve4 ,in vain do we seek freedom under the power of the laws4 ,the laws6 ,where is there any law8 ,where is there any respect for law8 ,under the name of law you have everywhere seen the rule of self-interest and human passion4 ,but the eternal laws of nature and of order exist4 ,for the wise man they take the place of positive law2 they are written in the depths of his heart by conscience and reason2 let him obey these laws and be free2 for there is no slave but the evil-doer1 for he always does evil against his will4 ,liberty is not to be found in any form of government1 she is in the heart of the free man1 he bears her with him everywhere4 ,the vile man bears his slavery in himself2 the one would be a slave in ,geneva1 the other free in ,paris4 ,if ,i spoke to you of the duties of a citizen1 you would perhaps ask me1 ',which is my country8' ,and you would think you had put me to confusion4 ,yet you would be mistaken1 dear ,emile1 for he who has no country has1 at least1 the land in which he lives4 ,there is always a government and certain so-called laws under which he has lived in peace4 ,what matter though the social contract has not been observed1 if he has been protected by private interest against the general will1 if he has been secured by public violence against private aggressions1 if the evil he has beheld has taught him to love the good1 and if our institutions themselves have made him perceive and hate their own iniquities8 ,oh1 ,emile1 where is the man who owes nothing to the land in which he lives8 ,whatever that land may be1 he owes to it the most precious thing possessed by man1 the morality of his actions and the love of virtue4 ,born in the depths of a forest he would have lived in greater happiness and freedom2 but being able to follow his inclinations without a struggle there would have been no merit in his goodness1 he would not have been virtuous1 as he may be now1 in spite of his passions4 ,the mere sight of order teaches him to know and love it4 ,the public good1 which to others is a mere pretext1 is a real motive for him4 ,he learns to fight against himself and to prevail1 to sacrifice his own interest to the common weal4 ,it is not true that he gains nothing from the laws2 they give him courage to be just1 even in the midst of the wicked4 ,it is not true that they have failed to make him free2 they have taught him to rule himself4 ,do not say therefore1 ',what matter where ,i am8' ,it does matter that you should be where you can best do your duty2 and one of these duties is to love your native land4 ,your fellow-countrymen protected you in childhood2 you should love them in your manhood4 ,you should live among them1 or at least you should live where you can serve them to the best of your power1 and where they know where to find you if ever they are in need of you4 ,there are circumstances in which a man may be of more use to his fellow-countrymen outside his country than within it4 ,then he should listen only to his own zeal and should bear his exile without a murmur2 that exile is one of his duties4 ,but you1 dear ,emile1 you have not undertaken the painful task of telling men the truth1 you must live in the midst of your fellow-creatures1 cultivating their friendship in pleasant intercourse2 you must be their benefactor1 their pattern2 your example will do more than all our books1 and the good they see you do will touch them more deeply than all our empty words4 ,yet ,i do not exhort you to live in a town2 on the contrary1 one of the examples which the good should give to others is that of a patriarchal1 rural life1 the earliest life of man1 the most peaceful1 the most natural1 and the most attractive to the uncorrupted heart4 ,happy is the land1 my young friend1 where one need not seek peace in the wilderness6 ,but where is that country8 ,a man of good will finds it hard to satisfy his inclinations in the midst of towns1 where he can find few but frauds and rogues to work for4 ,the welcome given by the towns to those idlers who flock to them to seek their fortunes only completes the ruin of the country1 when the country ought really to be repopulated at the cost of the towns4 ,all the men who withdraw from high society are useful just because of their withdrawal1 since its vices are the result of its numbers4 ,they are also useful when they can bring with them into the desert places life1 culture1 and the love of their first condition4 ,i like to think what benefits ,emile and ,sophy1 in their simple home1 may spread about them1 what a stimulus they may give to the country1 how they may revive the zeal of the unlucky villagers4 ,in fancy ,i see the population increasing1 the land coming under cultivation1 the earth clothed with fresh beauty4 ,many workers and plenteous crops transform the labours of the fields into holidays2 ,i see the young couple in the midst of the rustic sports which they have revived1 and ,i hear the shouts of joy and the blessings of those about them4 ,men say the golden age is a fable2 it always will be for those whose feelings and taste are depraved4 ,people do not really regret the golden age1 for they do nothing to restore it4 ,what is needed for its restoration8 ,one thing only1 and that is an impossibility2 we must love the golden age4 ,already it seems to be reviving around ,sophy's home2 together you will only complete what her worthy parents have begun4 ,but1 dear ,emile1 you must not let so pleasant a life give you a distaste for sterner duties1 if every they are laid upon you2 remember that the ,romans sometimes left the plough to become consul4 ,if the prince or the state calls you to the service of your country1 leave all to fulfil the honourable duties of a citizen in the post assigned to you4 ,if you find that duty onerous1 there is a sure and honourable means of escaping from it2 do your duty so honestly that it will not long be left in your hands4 ,moreover1 you need not fear the difficulties of such a test2 while there are men of our own time1 they will not summon you to serve the state4 ,why may ,i not paint the return of ,emile to ,sophy and the end of their love1 or rather the beginning of their wedded love6 ,a love founded on esteem which will last with life itself1 on virtues which will not fade with fading beauty1 on fitness of character which gives a charm to intercourse1 and prolongs to old age the delights of early love4 ,but all such details would be pleasing but not useful1 and so far ,i have not permitted myself to give attractive details unless ,i thought they would be useful4 ,shall ,i abandon this rule when my task is nearly ended8 ,no1 ,i feel that my pen is weary4 ,too feeble for such prolonged labours1 ,i should abandon this if it were not so nearly completed2 if it is not to be left imperfect it is time it were finished4 ,at last ,i see the happy day approaching1 the happiest day of ,emile's life and my own2 ,i see the crown of my labours1 ,i begin to appreciate their results4 ,the noble pair are united till death do part2 heart and lips confirm no empty vows2 they are man and wife4 ,when they return from the church1 they follow where they are led2 they know not where they are1 whither they are going1 or what is happening around them4 ,they heed nothing1 they answer at random2 their eyes are troubled and they see nothing4 ,oh1 rapture6 ,oh1 human weakness6 ,man is overwhelmed by the feeling of happiness1 he is not strong enough to bear it4 ,there are few people who know how to talk to the newly-married couple4 ,the gloomy propriety of some and the light conversation of others seem to me equally out of place4 ,i would rather their young hearts were left to themselves1 to abandon themselves to an agitation which is not without its charm1 rather than that they should be so cruelly distressed by a false modesty1 or annoyed by coarse witticisms which1 even if they appealed to them at other times1 are surely out of place on such a day4 ,i behold our young people1 wrapped in a pleasant languor1 giving no heed to what is said4 ,shall ,i1 who desire that they should enjoy all the days of their life1 shall ,i let them lose this precious day8 ,no1 ,i desire that they shall taste its pleasures and enjoy them4 ,i rescue them from the foolish crowd1 and walk with them in some quiet place2 ,i recall them to themselves by speaking of them ,i wish to speak1 not merely to their ears1 but to their hearts1 and ,i know that there is only one subject of which they can think to-day4 ,my children1 say ,i1 taking a hand of each1 it is three years since ,i beheld the birth of the pure and vigorous passion which is your happiness to-day4 ,it has gone on growing2 your eyes tell me that it has reached its highest point2 it must inevitably decline4 ,my readers can fancy the raptures1 the anger1 the vows of ,emile1 and the scornful air with which ,sophy withdraws her hand from mine2 how their eyes protest that they will adore each other till their latest breath4 ,i let them have their way2 then ,i continue3 ,i have often thought that if the happiness of love could continue in marriage1 we should find a ,paradise upon earth4 ,so far this has never been4 ,but if it were not quite impossible1 you two are quite worthy to set an example you have not received1 an example which few married couples could follow4 ,my children1 shall ,i tell you what ,i think is the way1 and the only way1 to do it8 ,they look at one another and smile at my simplicity4 ,emile thanks me curtly for my prescription1 saying that he thinks ,sophy has a better1 at any rate it is good enough for him4 ,sophy agrees with him and seems just as certain4 ,yet in spite of her mockery1 ,i think ,i see a trace of curiosity4 ,i study ,emile2 his eager eyes are fixed upon his wife's beauty2 he has no curiosity for anything else2 and he pays little heed to what ,i say4 ,it is my turn to smile1 and ,i say to myself1 ,i will soon get your attention4 ,the almost imperceptible difference between these two hidden impulses is characteristic of a real difference between the two sexes2 it is that men are generally less constant than women1 and are sooner weary of success in love4 ,a woman foresees man's future inconstancy1 and is anxious2 it is this which makes her more jealous4 ,footnote3 ,in ,france it is the wives who first emancipate themselves2 and necessarily so1 for having very little heart1 and only desiring attention1 when a husband ceases to pay them attention they care very little for himself4 ,in other countries it is not so2 it is the husband who first emancipates himself2 and necessarily so1 for women1 faithful1 but foolish1 importune men with their desires and only disgust them4 ,there may be plenty of exceptions to these general truths2 but ,i still think they are truths4 ,when his passion begins to cool she is compelled to pay him the attentions he used to bestow on her for her pleasure2 she weeps1 it is her turn to humiliate herself1 and she is rarely successful4 ,affection and kind deeds rarely win hearts1 and they hardly ever win them back4 ,i return to my prescription against the cooling of love in marriage4 ,it is plain and simple1 ,i continue4 ,it consists in remaining lovers when you are husband and wife4 ,indeed1 said ,emile1 laughing at my secret1 we shall not find that hard4 ,perhaps you will find it harder than you think4 ,pray give me time to explain4 ,cords too tightly stretched are soon broken4 ,this is what happens when the marriage bond is subjected to too great a strain4 ,the fidelity imposed by it upon husband and wife is the most sacred of all rights2 but it gives to each too great a power over the other4 ,constraint and love do not agree together1 and pleasure is not to be had for the asking4 ,do not blush1 ,sophy1 and do not try to run away4 ,god forbid that ,i should offend your modesty6 ,but your fate for life is at stake4 ,for so great a cause1 permit a conversation between your husband and your father which you would not permit elsewhere4 ,it is not so much possession as mastery of which people tire1 and affection is often more prolonged with regard to a mistress than a wife4 ,how can people make a duty of the tenderest caresses1 and a right of the sweetest pledges of love8 ,it is mutual desire which gives the right1 and nature knows no other4 ,the law may restrict this right1 it cannot extend it4 ,the pleasure is so sweet in itself6 ,should it owe to sad constraint the power which it cannot gain from its own charms8 ,no1 my children1 in marriage the hearts are bound1 but the bodies are not enslaved4 ,you owe one another fidelity1 but not complaisance4 ,neither of you may give yourself to another1 but neither of you belongs to the other except at your own will4 ,if it is true1 dear ,emile1 that you would always be your wife's lover1 that she should always be your mistress and her own1 be a happy but respectful lover2 obtain all from love and nothing from duty1 and let the slightest favours never be of right but of grace4 ,i know that modesty shuns formal confessions and requires to be overcome2 but with delicacy and true love1 will the lover ever be mistaken as to the real will8 ,will not he know when heart and eyes grant what the lips refuse8 ,let both for ever be master of their person and their caresses1 let them have the right to bestow them only at their own will4 ,remember that even in marriage this pleasure is only lawful when the desire is mutual4 ,do not be afraid1 my children1 that this law will keep you apart2 on the contrary1 it will make both more eager to please1 and will prevent satiety4 ,true to one another1 nature and love will draw you to each other4 ,emile is angry and cries out against these and similar suggestions4 ,sophy is ashamed1 she hides her face behind her fan and says nothing4 ,perhaps while she is saying nothing1 she is the most annoyed4 ,yet ,i insist1 without mercy2 ,i make ,emile blush for his lack of delicacy2 ,i undertake to be surety for ,sophy that she will undertake her share of the treaty4 ,i incite her to speak1 you may guess she will not dare to say ,i am mistaken4 ,emile anxiously consults the eyes of his young wife2 he beholds them1 through all her confusion1 filled with a1 voluptuous anxiety which reassures him against the dangers of trusting her4 ,he flings himself at her feet1 kisses with rapture the hand extended to him1 and swears that beyond the fidelity he has already promised1 he will renounce all other rights over her4 ,my dear wife1 said he1 be the arbiter of my pleasures as you are already the arbiter of my life and fate4 ,should your cruelty cost me life itself ,i would yield to you my most cherished rights4 ,i will owe nothing to your complaisance1 but all to your heart4 ,dear ,emile1 be comforted2 ,sophy herself is too generous to let you fall a victim to your generosity4 ,in the evening1 when ,i am about to leave them1 ,i say in the most solemn tone1 ,remember both of you1 that you are free1 that there is no question of marital rights2 believe me1 no false deference4 ,emile will you come home with me8 ,sophy permits it4 ,emile is ready to strike me in his anger4 ,and you1 ,sophy1 what do you say8 ,shall ,i take him away8 ,the little liar1 blushing1 answers1 ,yes4 ,a tender and delightful falsehood1 better than truth itself6 ,the next day4 444 ,men no longer delight in the picture of bliss2 their taste is as much depraved by the corruption of vice as their hearts4 ,they can no longer feel what is touching or perceive what is truly delightful4 ,you who1 as a picture of voluptuous joys1 see only the happy lovers immersed in pleasure1 your picture is very imperfect2 you have only its grosser part1 the sweetest charms of pleasure are not there4 ,which of you has seen a young couple1 happily married1 on the morrow of their marriage8 their chaste yet languid looks betray the intoxication of the bliss they have enjoyed1 the blessed security of innocence1 and the delightful certainty that they will spend the rest of their life together4 ,the heart of man can behold no more rapturous sight2 this is the real picture of happiness2 you have beheld it a hundred times without heeding it2 your hearts are so hard that you cannot love it4 ,sophy1 peaceful and happy1 spends the day in the arms of her tender mother2 a pleasant resting place1 after a night spent in the arms of her husband4 ,the day after ,i am aware of a slight change4 ,emile tries to look somewhat vexed2 but through this pretence ,i notice such a tender eagerness1 and indeed so much submission1 that ,i do not think there is much amiss4 ,as for ,sophy she is merrier than she was yesterday2 her eyes are sparkling and she looks very well pleased with herself2 she is charming to ,emile2 she ventures to tease him a little and vexes him still more4 ,these changes are almost imperceptible1 but they do not escape me2 ,i am anxious and ,i question ,emile in private1 and ,i learn that1 to his great regret1 and in spite of all entreaties1 he was not permitted last night to share ,sophy's bed4 ,that haughty lady had made haste to assert her right4 ,an explanation takes place4 ,emile complains bitterly1 ,sophy laughs2 but at last1 seeing that ,emile is really getting angry1 she looks at him with eyes full of tenderness and love1 and pressing my hand1 she only says these two words1 but in a tone that goes to his heart1 ,ungrateful man6 ,emile is too stupid to understand4 ,but ,i understand1 and ,i send ,emile away and speak to ,sophy privately in her turn4 ,i see1 said ,i1 the reason for this whim4 ,no one could be more delicate1 and no one could use that delicacy so ill4 ,dear ,sophy1 do not be anxious1 ,i have given you a man2 do not be afraid to treat him as such4 ,you have had the first fruits of his youth2 he has not squandered his manhood and it will endure for you4 ,my dear child1 ,i must explain to you why ,i said what ,i did in our conversation of the day before yesterday4 ,perhaps you only understood it as a way of restraining your pleasures to secure their continuance4 ,oh1 ,sophy1 there was another object1 more worthy of my care4 ,when ,emile became your husband1 he became your head1 it is yours to obey2 this is the will of nature4 ,when the wife is like ,sophy1 it is1 however1 good for the man to be led by her2 that is another of nature's laws1 and it is to give you as much authority over his heart1 as his sex gives him over your person1 that ,i have made you the arbiter of his pleasures4 ,it will be hard for you1 but you will control him if you can control yourself1 and what has already happened shows me that this difficult art is not beyond your courage4 ,you will long rule him by love if you make your favours scarce and precious1 if you know how to use them aright4 ,if you want to have your husband always in your power1 keep him at a distance4 ,but let your sternness be the result of modesty not caprice2 let him find you modest not capricious2 beware lest in controlling his love you make him doubt your own4 ,be all the dearer for your favours and all the more respected when you refuse them2 let him honour his wife's chastity1 without having to complain of her coldness4 ,thus1 my child1 he will give you his confidence1 he will listen to your opinion1 will consult you in his business1 and will decide nothing without you4 ,thus you may recall him to wisdom1 if he strays1 and bring him back by a gentle persuasion1 you may make yourself lovable in order to be useful1 you may employ coquetry on behalf of virtue1 and love on behalf of reason4 ,do not think that with all this1 your art will always serve your purpose4 ,in spite of every precaution pleasures are destroyed by possession1 and love above all others4 ,but when love has lasted long enough1 a gentle habit takes its place and the charm of confidence succeeds the raptures of passion4 ,children form a bond between their parents1 a bond no less tender and a bond which is sometimes stronger than love itself4 ,when you cease to be ,emile's mistress you will be his friend and wife2 you will be the mother of his children4 ,then instead of your first reticence let there be the fullest intimacy between you2 no more separate beds1 no more refusals1 no more caprices4 ,become so truly his better half that he can no longer do without you1 and if he must leave you1 let him feel that he is far from himself4 ,you have made the charms of home life so powerful in your father's home1 let them prevail in your own4 ,every man who is happy at home loves his wife4 ,remember that if your husband is happy in his home1 you will be a happy wife4 ,for the present1 do not be too hard on your lover2 he deserves more consideration2 he will be offended by your fears2 do not care for his health at the cost of his happiness1 and enjoy your own happiness4 ,you must neither wait for disgust nor repulse desire2 you must not refuse for the sake of refusing1 but only to add to the value of your favours4 ,then1 taking her back to ,emile1 ,i say to her young husband1 ,one must bear the yoke voluntarily imposed upon oneself4 ,let your deserts be such that the yoke may be lightened4 ,above all1 sacrifice to the graces1 and do not think that sulkiness will make you more amiable4 ,peace is soon made1 and everybody can guess its terms4 ,the treaty is signed with a kiss1 after which ,i say to my pupil1 ,dear ,emile1 all his life through a man needs a guide and counsellor4 ,so far ,i have done my best to fulfil that duty2 my lengthy task is now ended1 and another will undertake this duty4 ,to-day ,i abdicate the authority which you gave me2 henceforward ,sophy is your guardian4 ,little by little the first raptures subside and they can peacefully enjoy the delights of their new condition4 ,happy lovers1 worthy husband and wife6 ,to do honour to their virtues1 to paint their felicity1 would require the history of their lives4 ,how often does my heart throb with rapture when ,i behold in them the crown of my life's work6 ,how often do ,i take their hands in mine blessing ,god with all my heart6 ,how often do ,i kiss their clasped hands6 ,how often do their tears of joy fall upon mine6 ,they are touched by my joy and they share my raptures4 ,their worthy parents see their own youth renewed in that of their children2 they begin to live1 as it were1 afresh in them2 or rather they perceive1 for the first time1 the true value of life2 they curse their former wealth1 which prevented them from enjoying so delightful a lot when they were young4 ,if there is such a thing as happiness upon earth1 you must seek it in our abode4 ,one morning a few months later ,emile enters my room and embraces me1 saying1 ,my master1 congratulate your son2 he hopes soon to have the honour of being a father4 ,what a responsibility will be ours1 how much we shall need you6 ,yet ,god forbid that ,i should let you educate the son as you educated the father4 ,god forbid that so sweet and holy a task should be fulfilled by any but myself1 even though ,i should make as good a choice for my child as was made for me6 ,but continue to be the teacher of the young teachers4 ,advise and control us2 we shall be easily led2 as long as ,i live ,i shall need you4 ,i need you more than ever now that ,i am taking up the duties of manhood4 ,you have done your own duty2 teach me to follow your example1 while you enjoy your well-earned leisure4 ,,the ,,end