,transcriber's ,notes3 ,in this text1 a caret character indicates that the following letter is superscripted in the original4 ,other notes follow the text4 ,,the ,,humanist',s ,,library ,edited by ,lewis ,einstein ,,viii ,,galateo ,,of ,,manners ,,and ,,behaviours ,a ,,renaissance ,,courtesy-,,book ,,galateo ,,of ,,manners ,,behaviours ,,by ,,giovanni ,,della ,,casa ,with an ,introduction by ,j4 ,e4 ,,spingarn ,,grant ,,richards ,,ltd4 ,,london ,copyright1 #aiad1 by ,d4 ,b4 ,updike ,a ,,table ,,of ,,contents ,introduction ix ,the ,dedication #c ,commendatory ,verses #f ,the ,treatise of ,master ,jhon ,della ,casa #ac ,bibliographical ,note #aba ,,introduction ,one day1 in ,rome1 about the middle of the sixteenth century1 the ,bishop of ,sessa suggested to the ,archbishop of ,benevento that he write a treatise on good manners4 ,many books had touched the subject on one or more of its sides1 but no single book had attempted to formulate the whole code of refined conduct for their time and indeed for all time4 ,and who could deal with the subject more exquisitely than the ,archbishop of ,benevento8 ,as a scion of two distinguished ,florentine families 7his mother was a ,tornabuoni71 as an eminent prelate and diplomatist1 an accomplished poet and orator1 a master of ,tuscan prose1 a frequenter of all the fashionable circles of his day1 the author of licentious capitoli1 and more especially as one whose morals were distinctly not above reproach1 he seemed eminently fitted for the office of arbiter elegantiarum4 ,so it was that some years later1 in disfavour with the new ,pope1 and in the retirement of his town house in ,venice and his villa in the ,marca ,trivigiana1 with a gallant company of gentlemen and ladies to share his enforced but charming leisure1 the ,archbishop composed the little book that had been suggested by the ,bishop of ,sessa1 and that1 as a compliment to its only begetter1 bears as a title his poetic or academic name4 ,there have been modern scholars who have wondered that so eminent a prelate1 and so austere and passionate a lyric poet 7for the licentious capitoli were best forgotten71 should have thought it worthy of his pains to formulate so many rules of simple decency1 descending even to such trifles as the use of the napkin1 the avoidance of immodest topics1 and the details of personal apparel4 ,it might1 however1 be pointed out that it is just because such distinguished men as our ,archbishop formulated these details for us in the ,renaissance that they have become part and parcel of our social code2 that to quarrel with the ,archbishop on this score were not unlike quarrelling with ,euclid because he formulated laws of geometry which mathematicians nowadays leave to schoolboys2 and that the serious preoccupation with manners1 characteristic of the ,middle ,ages and the ,renaissance1 made it possible for modern ,european society to form an organic social whole1 with a model of the finished gentleman1 more or less the same in all countries and all periods4 ,but the fact is that it is the didactic form and tone1 and not the content1 of the ,archbishop's treatise with which our modern taste has its quarrel4 ,if books on etiquette are no longer in fashion1 it is not because preoccupation with the details of social conduct has ceased1 but because we no longer express it in the form of rules or codes4 ,our plays1 our novels1 our essays1 are mosaics of reflections on the very things that interested the courts and coteries of the ,renaissance4 ,when a modern writer wishes to enforce the idea that such apparent trifles are of real concern1 he no longer says3 ,it is important that every young man should pay careful heed to the little tricks of manners1 but he puts into the mouth of one of his characters1 as ,mr4 ,galsworthy does1 such a speech as this3 ,for people brought up as we are1 to have different manners is worse than to have different souls4444 ,how are you going to stand it2 with a woman who----8 ,it's the little things4 ,the ,archbishop of ,benevento1 if permitted to read passages like this in modern plays and essays1 would recognize his own ideas in all of them2 he could point to dialogues and discourses of his own time in which dogmatic precepts were in like manner disguised as witty and elegant conversation2 but because he was the product of an age of formal treatises1 exquisitely written1 he would have insisted on his right to state precepts as precepts1 and to sum them up in such a rounded code as he has given us in the ,galateo4 ,the ,galateo1 then1 is a summary of the refined manners of the later ,renaissance4 ,for centuries such books had been written1 but out of them1 and from the practices of his own age1 ,della ,casa attempted to select the essential details1 and to develop1 for the first time1 a norm of social conduct1--in a book1 above all1 that should be a work of art1 and should conform to all the graces and elegancies of ,tuscan speech4 ,the details are subordinated to a philosophy of manners1 which is lightly sketched1 on the assumption that subtle reasoning would be unintelligible to the youthful auditor to whom the precepts are theoretically addressed1 but which has an importance of its own1 as characteristic of the attitude of a whole epoch4 ,when ,della ,casa calls good manners a virtue1 or something closely akin to virtue1 he is making a mere concession to the ideals of his day4 ,the moralists of the later ,renaissance1 or ,catholic ,reaction1 felt it necessary to defend every social practice on the ground of its real or imaginary relation to virtue1 as the only thing which can ever justify anything to a moralist4 ,so the sixteenth century theorists of honour called honour a form of virtue2 those who argued about the nature of true nobility made it to consist of virtue 7a theory1 indeed1 as old as ,menander and ,juvenal72 just as the moralists of the ,middle ,ages had justified love by calling it a virtue1 too4 ,for ,della ,casa1 however1 the real foundation of good manners is to be found in the desire to please4 ,this desire is the aim or end of all manners1 teaching us alike to follow what pleases others and to avoid what displeases them4 ,this is a far cry from virtue1 which in its very essence would seem to be divorced from the idea of conciliating the moods or whims of those about us2 unless we assume that perhaps the slight personal sacrifice involved in yielding to such whims was the only form of virtue which a fashionable prelate might care to recognize4 ,in order to give pleasure1 we are told1 it is essential to pay heed to the way a thing is done as well as to what is done2 it is not enough to do a good deed1 but it must be done with a good grace4 ,that is to say1 good manners are concerned with the form which actions take1 as morals are concerned with their content2 and from the social standpoint1 the manner as well as the content of an act must be passed upon in any judgement of it4 ,and1 finally1 if the desire to please is the aim of good manners1 the guide1 or test1 or norm is common usage or custom1 which no less than reason furnishes the laws of courtesy1 and which in a sense may be said to be the equivalent in manners of what duty is in morals4 ,it will be seen that ,della ,casa does not concern himself with that conception of manners which relates it to a sense of personal dignity1 and which is summed up in ,locke's dictum that the foundation of good breeding is not to think meanly of ourselves and not to think meanly of others4 ,this side of the social ideal was summed up for the later ,renaissance in the term honour1 which formed the theme of many separate treatises in the sixteenth century4 ,the ,galateo deals solely with those little concessions to the tastes and whims of those around us which are necessitated by the fact that cultivated gentlemen are not hermits1 and must consider the customs and habits of others if they wish to form part of a smoothly organized and polished society4 ,we may prefer to call this considerateness for the feelings of others1 but1 essentially1 most justifications of good manners depend on the same idea of conciliating the accidental and immediate circle in which we happen to move1 at the expense of wider interests or larger groups2 and both considerateness and the desire to please fail as justifications1 or at least as incitements1 as soon as the idea of success within a definite circle is eliminated or submerged4 ,it is unnecessary1 however1 to break so fragile a butterfly as ,della ,casa's philosophy on any wheel of serious argument4 ,he is interested solely in the superficial aspects of life1 and an intricate or consistent philosophy would have served no other purpose than to alienate or confuse minds concerned1 like his own1 solely with life on its superficial side4 ,on the basis of such ideas1--to please others2 to win their good graces and one's own ultimate success2 to be sweetly reasonable in conforming to custom2 to perform every act with an eye to its effect on those about us1--on the basis of ideas as elementary yet appealing as these1 he formulates in detail the precepts of conduct for daily human intercourse in a refined society4 ,in the first place1 there are the things that are to be avoided because they offend the senses4 ,coughing1 sneezing1 or yawning in someone's face1 greediness or carelessness in eating1 and various sides of our physical life fall within this category4 ,we are not only to avoid indiscretion in such matters1 but we are to refrain from mentioning in conversation whatever might be indelicate as a physical act4 ,in the second place1 there are other indiscretions that have no such basis in the mere senses1 and refer solely to the mental attitude or to the mere personal pride of our neighbours4 ,to read a letter or to fall asleep in company1 to turn your back to your neighbour1 to be careless about one's way of standing or sitting1 to be absent-minded or touchy about trifles1 are social sins of this second kind4 ,the art of conversation was the mainstay of social life in the ,italian ,renaissance1 and to it ,della ,casa naturally1 at this point1 devotes most of his attention4 ,to be obscene1 or blasphemous1 or too subtle2 to dwell on inappropriate things 7as when repeating a friar's sermon to a young lady72 to brag or lie2 to be too ceremonious or too servile2 to tell a story awkwardly or to mention indelicate matters without some polite periphrasis2--these are some of the chief sins against this art of arts4 ,there is very much that is modern in the diatribe against the ceremoniousness that was then creeping into ,italy from ,spain1 for sixteenth century ,venice was not unlike nineteenth century ,england in its preference for ease and simplicity1 and a grave and reasonable charm of manner4 ,finally1 there are the details of individual conduct dictated essentially by custom1 without apparent regard to the physical comfort or personal pride of those about us2 and under this third heading1 ,della ,casa summarizes the various problems of personal apparel1 table manners1 and the like4 ,della ,casa invents no new laws for conduct1 deduces no new theories of courtesy or manners2 even the details are to be found in many of his mediaeval and ,renaissance predecessors4 ,what he adds1 in precept or dictum or anecdote1 is the fruit both of his own social experience and of his classical studies4 ,his book is1 like ,castiglione's ,cortegiano and ,sannazzaro's ,arcadia1 almost a mosaic of ,greek and ,latin borrowings4 ,aristotle's ,nicomachean ,ethics1 ,plutarch's moral treatises1 the ,characters of ,theophrastus1 and the moral and rhetorical works of ,cicero are the chief sources1 although none of these books is devoted solely1 like his1 to the superficial conduct of men among their equals and superiors4 ,but even to these he adds something that was born out of those refinements of life which in ,renaissance ,italy had been developed more highly than elsewhere1 and had made the fashions of ,urbino1 ,mantua1 and ,ferrara the models of all courts and coteries1 wherever the ,renaissance gained a foothold beyond the ,alps4 ,in the courts and cities of ,italy1 combining alike the atmosphere of the mediaeval court and the ancient city1--combining1 that is to say1 courtoisie and civilitas 7urbanitas71--the modern gentleman1 as distinguished from his classical or romantic forbears1 may be said to have been born4 ,courtesy1 as its very name indicates1 is the flowering of that spirit which first shone in the little courts of mediaeval ,provence and ,france1 but which did not1 perhaps1 find its most complete expression1 as a philosophy of life1 until ,castiglione wrote the ,cortegiano at the beginning of the sixteenth century4 ,by that time the small court was already beginning to give way to the larger court or the cultivated coterie as the overwhelming centre of social influence in ,europe1 although the glory of ,ferrara and ,mantua and ,urbino did not wane for two or three generations4 ,but even before ,castiglione's day the more humane and graceful of courtly manners had spread beyond the confines of courts2 and almost before he was dead1 the name courtesy1 in so far as it still suggested a definite locus1 no longer expressed the new wide range of polished manners4 ,other words crept into cultivated speech1 so that1 by the first half of the seventeenth century1 we find in a little ,french treatise on manners1 the ,loix de la ,galanterie1 four distinct terms for man regarded simply as a creature of social manners1--courtisain1 honnte homme1 galant1 and homme du monde4 ,the first of these1 as described by ,castiglione1 seemed to this author ,italianate and obsolete1 and the second1 which had just furnished the title to a treatise on ,l',honnte ,homme1 ou l',art de ,plaire la ,cour1 still retained something of its original moral significance1 so that gallant and man of the world summed up1 best of all1 the social qualities of the life of the day4 ,it is no longer the court but the monde about which social life centres1 not that other men do not belong to the world 7as this author navely explains71 but because we are concerned solely with that great world which is the home of fashion4 ,this was the age of prcieux and prcieuses1 and their code was no longer that of the court of ,urbino1 as it flourished in ,castiglione's day2 it was the over-refined manners of the academies and coteries of ,siena and ,ferrara during the later sixteenth century that furnished all that was essential in ,french prciosit4 ,for the moment gallantry sufficed to express good manners2 but gradually it too became obsolete1 and the ,latin term civility1 with its inclusion of all civil society rather than any group or class1 superseded both gallantry and courtesy4 ,courtois is scarcely any longer used in cultivated conversation1 ,callires1 a ,french wit of the end of the seventeenth century1 tells us1 just as civilit has replaced courtoisie4 ,indeed1 the word courtoisie no longer finds a place in any but elevated or poetic language in ,france to-day2 and ,english speech1 which has retained it after its original meaning has been lost1 now finds it necessary to distinguish between the courtly and the courteous1 by the former suggesting the content of what once1 at least in part1 belonged to the latter4 ,it is the civilitas of ancient ,rome no less than the civilit of seventeenth century ,france that is summed up in the ,galateo4 ,as ,castiglione expresses the courtly ideals of the ,middle ,ages and the ,renaissance1 so ,della ,casa expresses the ideals of manners no longer restricted to courts and courtiers1 but common to all cultivated civilians1 the manners that were to form the basis of the ,european code from that time to this4 ,a long line of ,italian predecessors had prepared the way for its coming4 ,indeed1 every encyclopaedia1 every romance of chivalry of the ,middle ,ages1 contains precepts which find a place in its pages4 ,in the late thirteenth and early fourteenth centuries1 ,provence and ,italy had already begun to furnish books on such subjects4 ,the ,breviari d',amor of ,matfre ,ermengaud includes instruction in social conduct2 the ,italian1 ,bonvesin da ,riva1 had written a treatise on ,fifty ,courtesies of the ,table2 ,francesco da ,barberino had dealt at length with ,the ,manners and ,behaviour of ,women2 still later1 ,sulpizio ,verulano had written a treatise on the table manners of children1 which had found currency beyond the ,alps2 and most influential of all1 the great ,erasmus1 in #aebf1 had dealt at length with children's manners in his ,de ,civilitate ,morum ,puerilium ,libellus4 ,della ,casa follows tradition1 or is moved by the example of ,erasmus1 to the extent of representing his book as the discourse of an old man to a young one2 but this is a mere subterfuge1 and neither youth nor age figures in the precepts that follow4 ,unlike his predecessors1 he is concerned not merely with children1 or with women1 or with the ideals of a narrow class like the courtier1 or with the general moral life of which manners are only an ornament or a garment4 ,he has written a book that touches on the essentials of good manners as they affect all classes and groups which aim at individual perfection1--not merely the young1 but the mature2 not merely men or women1 but both sexes2 not merely the courtier1 but all cultivated classes4 ,in this sense1 it is the first of its kind4 ,it is a trifling and perhaps negligible kind1 but at least this much distinction belongs to the book4 ,the ,galateo is a product of the ,catholic ,reaction4 ,it is one of the results of the casuistry and the scholastic spirit which in every field of intellectual activity were applied to the life and art that had found creative expression in the age of the ,renaissance4 ,what the ,renaissance did or wrote1 the ,catholic ,reaction reasoned about1 codified1 and stereotyped4 ,the creative poetry of the ,renaissance was reduced to formulae in the treatises on the art of poetry of the later sixteenth century2 politics and history found reasoned expression in treatises on political theory and historical method2 and in similar fashion1 the social life of earlier ,italy resulted in this age in treatises on the practice and theory of society4 ,it would be idle to catalogue the various examples of this curious intellectual activity1 for the works of the sixteenth century dealing with this subject may be numbered by hundreds1 indeed by thousands4 ,there were of course treatises on court life and the ideals of the courtier1 from the ,cortegiano of ,castiglione to the discourses of ,domenichi and ,tasso2 treatises on honour and the duel1 of which ,possevino's ,dell',onore is the type2 treatises on the gentleman1 his nature1 his education1 and his occupations1 like ,il ,gentiluomo of ,muzio ,justinipolitano1 the quality of which may be tasted in ,english in ,peacham's ,compleat ,gentleman2 treatises on love and the relations of the sexes1 all summed up in ,equicola's encyclopaedic ,libro di ,natura d',amore2 treatises on social amusements1 parlor games1 and the like1 such as ,scipione ,bargagli's ,i ,trattenimenti and ,ringhieri's ,cento ,giuochi ,liberali e d',ingegno2 treatises on conversation1 like ,guazzo's ,civil ,conversatione2 and finally1 a large number of treatises on the education of women and children4 ,among all these the ,cortegiano1 one of the earliest1 stands out preminently1 just because it is the spontaneous product of the age of which it is also a reasoned expression2 that is to say1 because it is a work of art of the ,renaissance rather than a mere scholastic treatise of the ,catholic ,reaction4 ,it is in no sense a courtesy-book2 it is concerned with principles of social conduct rather than with details of etiquette4 ,but of all the mere courtesy-books1 the ,galateo alone survives2 its name is current coin in ,italian speech to-day2 and in the eighteenth century ,dr4 ,johnson coupled it with the ,cortegiano as two books yet celebrated in ,italy for purity and elegance4 ,a ,french scholar of our own day has said that for modern culture antiquity means ancient ,greece and ,rome1 but that for modern manners antiquity means mediaeval ,france4 ,yet this is only in part true1 and these sixteenth century books sum up that combination of courtoisie and civilitas which gives its special note to ,renaissance manners1 and which distinguishes such books from their predecessors of the twelfth to the fifteenth centuries4 ,we have but to examine any typical discussion of manners in mediaeval literature1 such as the famous description of the exquisite table manners of the ,prioress in the ,prologue to the ,canterbury ,tales1 or the passage in the ,roman de la ,rose from which ,chaucer borrowed his own details1 to note a characteristic distinction4 ,both of these passages are concerned with women2 in the ,middle ,ages it was only a woman who was supposed to exhibit such refined delicacy in the details of conduct4 ,liberality1 magnanimity1 courage1 loyalty1 chivalrousness to women1 and courtesy in its larger sense1--these and other social virtues the mediaeval man was supposed to possess2 but even in the courtly circles of ,provence1 it may be doubted whether the delicacy and refinement of every movement which ,chaucer ascribes to his ,prioress would have been expected of the courtliest knight4 ,moderation and discretion--called measure or manner--were the nearest mediaeval approach to these requirements for men4 ,moderation may be said to be implicit in the ideal of the gentleman in every age 7indeed1 it may be said to express the limitations of the ideal1 for moderation is as often a vice as a virtue72 but it was never more insisted on than in those ages when it was heeded least4 ,for the ,middle ,ages1 measure and good manners were almost synonymous terms4 ,courtesy and measure are the same thing1--we are told in the fourteenth century ,french romance of ,perceforest1--for manner and measure must be added to all your deeds if you would have great virtue4 ,this may seem to be closely akin to ,della ,casa's statement that polished behaviour consists in adding a good grace to a good deed2 but to the hero of ,perceforest1 it would have argued lack of measure1 or discretion1 for any man to adopt graces and refinements so essentially feminine and unmanly as the table manners of ,chaucer's ,prioress4 ,it was in the ,renaissance1 and in the courts and cities of ,italy1 that the larger virtues of measure and magnanimity and liberality were first felt to be inadequate1 in men no less than in women and children1 without the minor nuances of good manners4 ,it was first felt there that in such matters as yawning or coughing in another's face1 carelessness and greediness in eating1 and other annoying traits1 there could be only one standard for both sexes and for all ages4 ,if the mediaeval ideal of courtoisie was based essentially on the relation of the sexes1 without regard to individual instinct or social agreement in the wider sense1 the ,galateo1 in basing good manners on the desire to please others1 wholly regardless of sex1 represents a real advance1 or at least a widening of social interest4 ,on a basis of mediaeval manners1 then1 the ,renaissance superimposed the classical ideal of urbanitas or civilitas4 ,in keeping with the spirit of his time1 ,della ,casa rounded all this practice and precept into a code2 and because to codify is to stereotype1 he is in part responsible for the fact that the pattern he formulated has scarcely been altered from his day to ours4 ,there is one side of personal manners1 however1 in which there has been much change4 ,when ,bacon says that cleanness of body was ever deemed to proceed from a due reverence to ,god1 he can hardly be said to summarize theological opinion on the subject of cleanliness in the preceding fifteen hundred years4 ,the rules of ,st4 ,benedict permit bathing only to invalids and the very old1 except on rare occasions2 although an eighteenth century ,french ecclesiastic insists that the church never objected to bathing1 provided one indulges in it because of necessity and not for the sake of pleasure4 ,but our concern is only with secular society1 and there we find that cleanliness was considered only in so far as it was a social necessity1 if indeed then2 as an individual necessity or habit it scarcely appears at all4 ,della ,casa's standard of social manners applies here1 too3 cleanliness was dictated by the need of pleasing others1 and not because of any inner demand of individual instinct4 ,but even in this ,italy was in advance of her neighbours1 if personal cleanliness represents social advance4 ,in ,france1 odorous greatness was the rule1 and contemporary chronicles record the filthy personal habits of ,henry of ,navarre1 the great ,cond1 and ,louis ,,xiii4 ,the ,loix de la ,galanterie1 nearly a century after the ,galateo1 advises the gallant to wash his hands every day--and his face almost as often4 ,all this has changed4 ,personal cleanliness1 because of its complete acceptance as an individual necessity1 has virtually ceased to touch the problem of social manners at any point2 and cultivated society simply acts from time to time by formulating new delicacies of neatness and cleanliness1 makes them the habit of life1 and1 forgetting them completely1 passes on to new trifles of perfection4 ,perhaps we can judge this modern change without too great an exaggeration of its importance1 if we bear in mind the paradox of the modern wit1 that dirt is evil chiefly as evidence of sloth1 but the fact remains that the classes that wash most are those that work least4 ,i have already pointed out that one of the limitations of that code of good breeding which we have inherited from the ,renaissance and which it is almost the mission of modern life to destroy1 is that it looks merely to the comfort of those around us at any accidental point of time or place1 often if not always at the expense of other groups1 other classes1 and wider interests4 ,those who inveigh against democracy as destructive of the finer graces of life have hit upon what is1 for good or evil1 the very essence of its reformative programme4 ,a modern idealist sums up this newer attitude when he says of the old code that it asks us rather to let a million pine than hurt the feelings of a single man4 ,but wholly apart from this1 codes and rules have no more justification in the art of life than in the arts of poetry and painting4 ,each individual soul must express its past and its present1 its inheritance and its aspiration1 in its own way2 and it is as futile and vulgar to apply rules in the estimate of a life as it is in the criticism of a poem or a picture4 ,children and novices and immature societies may obtain practical guidance from the empirical observations of those who have had experience1 but in order to create a real life of their own1 a real social atmosphere1 they must reach the point where the very rules that nurtured them no longer apply4 ,to disregard every rule of good breeding is the symbol of real attainment in the creative art of living4 ,but this is no place to wage a battle for old codes or new ones4 ,the ,galateo describes habits and impulses that for centuries have moved the souls of men1 dictated their conduct1 given them pleasure and pain1 and that probably for centuries will continue to do so4 ,nothing that has so stirred men and women1 however trifling it may seem1 can fail to hold a little human interest for those who call themselves ,humanists4 ,j4 ,e4 ,s4 ,new ,york1 ,february1 #aiad4 ,galateo of ,maister ,john ,della ,casa1 ,archebishop of ,benevento4 ,or rather1 ,a ,treatise of the ,manners and ,behaviours1 it behoveth a ,man to use and eschewe1 in his ,familiar ,conversation4 ,a ,worke very necessary profitable for all ,gentlemen1 or ,other4 ,first written in the ,italian ,tongue1 and now done into ,english by ,robert ,peterson1 of ,lincolnes ,inne ,gentleman4 ,satis1 si sapienter4 ,imprinted at ,london for ,raufe ,newbery dwelling in ,fleetestreate litle above the ,conduit4 ,an4 ,do4 #aegf4 ,,the ,,dedication ,to the ,right ,honorable my singular good ,lord1 the ,lord ,robert ,dudley1 ,earle of ,leicester1 ,baron of ,denbigh1 ,knight of the ,honorable order of the ,garter1 ,maister of the ,queenes ,majesties ,horses1 and one of her ,highnesse privie ,counsell3 ,robert ,peterson wisheth perfect felicitie4 ,lighting of late 7,right ,honorable7 upon this treatise of courtesie1 penned by an experienced ,italian1 drawn for the profit therof1 in to so many languages3 ,i thought his lessons fit for our store1 sought to make him speake ,englishe4 ,wise was that ,cato1 that ended bothe his learning1 and living day together4 ,and truly1 ,courtesie and ,courtiership1 be like ,hippocrates twinnes1 that laughe together1 and grow together3 and are so one affected1 that who so divorceth them1 destroyeth them4 ,but yet1 seeing moe redie to condemne the least trip then commend the best meaning1 and knowing that the ,scarre sticketh thogh good desert do hele the wound3 perceiving that ,naevus in articulo pueri delectat ,alcaeum1 ,roscii oculi perversissimi catulum1 ,that is1 many dote on their fansie3 ,i durst not send this1 mine ,heire and firste fruites of my toile1 to the view of the world1 without the guarde of your ,patronage1 wherin there is no presumption to teach them that are perfected1 but may serve either as ,simonides ,characters1 to stablish memory1 or as an ,index1 to point them to other behaviours enrolled whersoever4 ,spread therefore 7,i beseeche your honour7 the winges of wel liking over this worke1 which presseth to you1 as not only the patrone to protect1 but the patterne to expresse any courtesie therin conteined4 ,mine ,authour reporteth one ,maestro ,chiarissimo a perfect ,mason1 when he had described the finest precepts of his art1 to have made his ,regolo a piller so exactly1 as would beare the proofe of every demonstration1 thinking it learned speedely1 where the mind and the eye1 precept and experience joined hands together3 whose steps ,i tread 7though with better successe then mine ,author1 who could not finde a ,regolo7 hoping1 when others shall come to trie these preceptes1 not by showe or sound1 as fooles do their ,golde3 but1 by your behaviour1 as by the touchstone3 when they shal come1 not to ken aloofe1 but at hand1 to view your so singular demeanour1 so civil1 so courteous1 as maketh you renoumed abrode1 and honored at home3 coveted of the ,noblest1 wonderful of the learnedst3 when they shall in the glasse of your courtesie1 see the blots that blemishe the dignitie of their estate3 when they compare these lessons with the ,regolo1 they shal herein see no lesse commoditie1 then was in ,alcibiades ,sileni 7whereunto ,socrates was compared7 whiche though they bare not1 in the front1 any shewe of singularitie3 yet within1 bare they pictures of excellent wit delight4 ,this worke1 if it please your honour to vouchsafe as a companion of ease to trace the pathes1 which you have already so well beaten1 7which presumeth not to be guide for conduction7 or if your honour daine at highe leasure to peruse it 7whiche is not cunningly but faithfully translated7 ,i doubt not1 but your countenance will so credit the ,author1 as wil embolden him to presse amongst the thickest throng of ,courtiers3 ,and herewithall beseeche your honour1 to accept the humble and dutifull meaning minde of him3 who1 not satisfied1 till he might by some meanes give shewe of his thankefull minde1 for your honorable favours shewed unto him1 hathe offered this small1 though as faithfull a gifte as ,sinaetes did to ,cyrus3 hoping1 that your honour will take it as well in worth1 as ,artaxerxes did his poore ,persians handfull of water4 ,thus with hartie prayer1 for the advauncement of your estate1 increase of honor1 attainement of perfect and perpetual felicitie3 ,i commend your ,lordship1 to the patronage and protection of the ,almightie4 ,your ,lordships moste humble to dispose and commaunde4 ,robert ,peterson ,,commendatory ,,verses ,al ,signor ,ruberto ,peterson1 esortandolo ,a tradurre in ,inghilese il ,galateo ,ben posson dirsi avventurate carte ,quelle ch' el dotto1 e gentil ,casa spese3 ,quand' in breve discors' insegnar prese ,del honesta creanza la prima arte4 ,poi che tanto si apprezz' in ogni parte ,quel ch' ei ne scrisse1 e ch' ei si ben intese ,e ch' ogn' un con manire pi cortese ,dal bel trattato suo tosto si parte4 ,esso ,donn' e donzelle1 cavallieri ,non sol d',italia3 ma di ,francia1 e ,spagna ,di gentilezza mostr' i modi veri4 ,venga per voi felice anco in ,brettagna ,e parli ,inglese ne ,palazzi alteri ,del regn' invitto che 'l ,tamigi bagna4 ,francesco ,pucci ,le creanze1 e i costumi1 ,tanto splendenti lumi1 ,ch'a gli huomini fan l'huom superiore1 ,eccoli tratti fore ,de l',italico seno ,e piantati ne l',anglico terreno4 ,or se li goda ogniun1 che porta amore ,a 'l suo decoro1 e a 'l suo compiuto onore4 ,alessandro ,citolini ,edouardus ,cradoccus1 ,s4 ,theologiae ,doctor ,professor ,moribus quisquis rudis est ineptis1 ,nescit is vitam placidam tueri3 ,nemini gratus1 sociusque nulli ,charus habetur4 ,quisquis at pulchre simul decore ,se gerit1 mentis studio repellens ,rusticos mores1 popularis ille ,jure videtur4 ,hoc ,petersoni liber hic venustus ,praestat1 ostendens habitu decoro ,possit ut quisque probitate splendens ,utilis esse4 ,idque dum magno satagit labore1 ,italum fecit patria loquela ,hunc perornatas meus hic amicus ,fundere voces4 ,thomas ,drant1 ,archedeacon in praise of this ,booke ,an happy turne that ,casa once did hatche1 ,of haviours choice this booke in ,ital' phrase3 ,an ,archebishop1 and writer without matche ,in this he was1 and peereles pight with praise4 ,such he his lore so well and wise doth lend3 ,it heare ne reade we can1 but must amend4 ,this booke by ,tiber1 and by ,po hath past1 ,through all ,italia ,townes and ,country lands4 ,iberus1 throughe thy ,spanishe coasts as fast ,it after yoade3 and ,gauls it held in hands1 ,throughe ,rhenus realmes it spred in prosperous speede1 ,to ,lordes and ,ladies reaching comly reede4 ,it ,peterson1 to ,britain eyes doth bring ,translated true and trimme3 and fit to frame ,faire maners fine for men4 ,this prety ,ring ,bedecketh feate our life3 discourse and game ,it ordereth apt with grace4 ,the booke is grave1 ,eke wise and good1 for civil folke to have4 ,to his friend ,maister ,robert ,peterson ,gent4 ,thy ,galateo 7,peterson7 doth shrowd him selfe to long4 ,what8 shall it sleepe ,endymions yeares8 thou dost thy countrie wrong4 ,she hath a childs parte1 ,plato saies1 and with the ,author cries1 ,that both thy toile1 and this her gaine1 may reare his skill to skies4 ,what thoughe thou thinke thy present small1 for view of gallant ones ,this litle ,diamond1 shall out prize1 a quarry full of stones4 ,and ,noble ,cyrus 7,man7 will daine cold water in ,sinaetaes hand3 ,then fray not1 if thy booke1 in pure1 unfiled termes doe stand4 ,translatours can not mount3 for though1 their armes with wings be spread1 ,in vaine they toile to take the flight1 their feete are clogd with lead4 ,this faith1 that makes the ,authour1 speake his owne in language new3 ,renoumes the more1 then if thou blazdst it out1 in painted hew4 ,for1 serpents lurke in greenest grasse1 and with a garishe gloze1 ,the ,strumpet pounts in pride1 where matrones marche in comelie clothes4 ,go publishe it1 and dreade not scowling ,momus poisond spite4 ,and though ,archilochus ,iambes fly1 or ,theons taunts doe bite3 ,thinke1 winds doe haunt the gallauntst trees1 and ,envy things of state4 ,and lightning checks1 ,cerauniaes tops1 whome no hils els do mate4 ,the best have borne the bob1 and ,zoiles brutes durst geve the charge3 ,but ,zoile hangs1 and ,callisthen keepes in cage for talking large4 ,and yet1 wordes they be winde3 but as erst ,plinies ,draconite ,no toole could pierce or carve3 or as the gemme ,chalazias hight1 ,keepes cold1 though it in ,aetna frie1 or ,adiantons flowers ,drawes not a drop1 though skies distill downe everlasting showers3 ,so good desert1 doth chalenge good reporte by reasons rate1 ,though oft they beare the checkes and taunts1 they cannot take the mate4 ,yet seeke ,mecaenas wings to shroude thy toile3 ,virgilio ,found his ,augustus3 ,ennie thou maist finde thy ,scipio4 ,this trump shall sound thy praise4 ,sir ,phoebus golden rayes shall turne ,to foggie mistes1 and seas that beare their ysie crust1 shall burne3 ,and lumpishe lowte1 with country shares shall salte ,sea fome divide1 ,and sowe his graine in ,afrik ,syrtes that wallow every tide1 ,before this worke shall die3 which neither ,joves thundering threate1 ,nor fierie flames shall waste1 nor rustie1 cankred age shall freate4 ,nolo ,persium nolo ,laelium4 ,your friend4 ,i4 ,stoughton ,student ,the vine is praisde1 that daintie grape doth give ,although the fruite more please then holsome be1 ,each fertil tree1 is favord for the fruite1 ,so is the hearb that gallant is to see4 ,if this be trueth1 he needes must merit well1 ,that gives us groundes to guide our erring wayes1 ,and trades us truely in the golden maze1 ,where vertue growes1 and courtlike manner stayes4 ,galateo first did frame this golden booke ,in ,ital land4 ,from thence it went to ,spaine4 ,and after came into the coasts of ,fraunce4 ,and nowe at last in ,england doth remaine4 ,the ,authour sure deserveth more renoume1 ,that so could spend his time for our behoofe1 ,then my poore wit or cunning can recite1 ,as thou thy selfe by reading shalt finde proofe4 ,and as the ,authour merits passing well1 ,so doth my friend deserve as greate a meede3 ,that makes a worke so hard to understand1 ,so easie that each simple may it reede4 ,i say no more3 for 7lo7 it were in vaine ,to praise good wine by hanging up a bushe1 ,the best will give 7,i hope7 my friende his due4 ,as for the bad1 ,i way them not a rushe4 ,thomas ,browne of ,l4 ,i4 ,gent4 ,,the ,,treatise ,,of ,,master ,,jhon ,,della ,,casa ,wherin under the person of an old unlearned man1 instructing a youthe of his1 he hath talke of the maners and fashions1 it behoves a man to use or eschewe1 in his familiar conversation3 intituled ,galateo1 of fashions and maners4 ,for as muche as thou doste now enter the journy1 wherof ,i have allredy ronne forth the better parte 7as thou seest7 ,i meane the transitorie waye of this mortall life3 ,i have determined 7such is the ,love ,i beare thee7 to shewe all the daungerous straights thou must passe3 ,for my experience maketh me feare1 yt walking that way thou mayst easily either fall1 or by some meanes or other go astray4 ,to the ende thou maist once1 taughte both by my instructions and experience1 be able to keepe the right waye1 as well for the helthe of thy ,soule1 as the commendation and praise of the ,honourable and ,noble house thou doest come of4 ,and bycause thy tender ,age1 is unfit 7as yet7 to receave more principall and higher precepts1 reserving them for fitter time1 ,i will beginn to discourse of such things as many men will deeme1 perchaunce1 but trifles3 ,i meane what manner of ,countenance and grace1 behoveth a man to use1 that hee may be able in ,communication and familiar acquaintance with men1 to shewe him selfe plesant1 courteous1 and gentle3 which neverthelesse is either a vertue1 or the thing that comes very nere to vertue4 ,and albeit ,liberalitie1 or magnanimitie1 of themselves beare a greater praise1 then1 to be a well taught or manored man3 yet perchaunce1 the courteous behaviour and entertainement with good maners and words1 helpe no lesse1 him that hath them3 then the high minde and courage1 advaunceth him in whome they be4 ,for these be such things as a man shall neede alwayes at all hands to use1 because a man must necessarily be familiar with men at all times1 ever have talk communication with them3 ,but justice1 fortitude1 and the other greater1 and more noble vertues1 are seldome put in uze4 ,neither is ye liberall and noble minded man1 caused every hower to doe bountifull things3 for to use it often1 cannot any man beare the charge1 by any meanes4 ,and these valiant men yt be so full of highe minde and courage3 are very seldome driven to trye their valour vertue by their deeds4 ,then as muche as these last1 doe passe those first1 in greatnes 7as it were7 in weight3 so much do the other surmount these in number1 often occasion to use them4 ,and1 if ,i could wel intend it1 ,i could name you many1 whoe1 7being otherwise of litle account7 have ben be still1 muche estemed made of1 for their cherefull plesaunt behaviour alone3 which hath bin suche a helpe advauncement unto them1 that they have gotten greate preferments1 leaving farre behinde them1 such men as have bin endowed with those other noble and better vertues1 spoken of before4 ,and as these plesaunt gentle behaviours1 have power to draw their harts minds unto us1 with whome we live3 so contrariwise1 grosse and rude maners1 procure men to hate and despise us4 ,wherby albeit the lawes1 have injoined no paine for unmanerly grose behaviours1 as the fault that is thought but light 7 to saye a trueth1 it is not greate7 yet we see notwithstanding1 yt nature herselfe punisheth them wt sharpe shrewde correction1 putting them by this meanes1 besydes ye companie favour of men4 ,and truly even as greate foule faults1 doe muche harme3 so doe these light1 much hurt1 or hurte at least more often4 ,for1 as men doe commonly fere ye beasts yt be cruell wild1 have no maner of feare of som litle ones1 as ye gnats and the flies1 yet by ye continual noiaunce they find by them1 complaine them selves more of thes then of ye other3 so it chaunceth yt most men do hate in maner asmuche1 ye unmanerly untaught1 as ye wicked1 more4 ,so yt there is no doubte1 but who so disposeth himselfe to live1 not in solitarie and deserte places1 as ,heremites1 but in fellowship with men1 and in populous ,cities1 will think it a very necessarie thing1 to have skill to put himselfe forth comely and seemely1 in his fashions1 gestures and maners3 the lacke of which parts doth make those other vertues lame1 and litle or nothing can they work to good effect1 without other helpes3 wheare this civilitie and courtesie1 without other releefe or patrimonie1 is riche of it selfe1 hath substance enough1 as a thing yt standeth in speache and gestures alone4 ,and that yu mayst now more easily learne the way unto it1 thou must understand1 it behoves thee1 to frame and order thy maners and doings1 not according to thine owne minde and fashion3 but to please those1 with whome thou livest1 and after that sort direct thy doings3 ,and this must be done by ,discretion and ,measure4 ,for who so applieth himself to much1 to feede other mens humors1 in his familiar conversation1 and behaviour with men1 is rather to be thought a ,jester1 a ,jugler or flatterer1 then a gentleman wel taught and nourtured3 ,as contrariwise1 whoe so hath no care or mind to please1 or displese1 is a rude1 untaught1 and uncourteous fellowe4 ,for asmuche then1 as our maners1 have some pleasure in them when we respect other men1 and not our owne pleasure3 if we diligently searche forthe what those things be1 that most men do generally like or dislike3 we shall in suche sorte wisely and easily finde out1 the meanes wayes1 to choose and eschewe1 those fashions and maners1 we are to leave or take1 to live amongest men4 ,we say then1 that every act that offendeth any the common senses1 or overthwarteth a mans will and desire1 or els presenteth to the ,imagination and conceite1 matters unpleasaunt1 that likewise1 which ye minde doth abhorre1 such things ,i say bee naught1 and must not be used3 for we must not only refraine from such thinges as be fowle1 filthy1 lothsome and nastie3 but we must not so muche as name them4 ,and it is not only a fault to dooe such things1 but against good maner1 by any act or signe to put a man in minde of them4 ,and therefore1 it is an ilfavoured fashion1 that some men use1 openly to thrust their hands in what parte of their bodye they list4 ,likwise1 ,i like it as ill to see a ,gentleman settle him selfe1 to do the needes of ,nature1 in presence of men3 ,and after he hath doone1 to trusse him selfe againe before them4 ,neither would ,i have him 7if ,i may geve him councell7 when he comes from suche an occupation1 so much as washe his hands1 in the sight of honest company3 for yt the cause of his washing1 puts them in minde of some filthy matter that hath bene done aparte4 ,and by the same reason1 it is no good maner1 when a man chaunceth to see1 as he passeth the waye 7as many times it happeneth7 a lothesome thing1 yt wil make a man to cast his stomacke1 to tourne unto the company1 shewe it them4 ,and much worse ,i like it1 to reache some stinking thing unto a man to smell unto it3 as it is many a mans fashion to do1 wt importunate meanes1 yea1 thrusting it unto their nose1 saying3 ,foh1 feele ,i pray you1 how this doth stink3 where they should rather say1 smell not unto it3 for it hath an ill sent4 ,and as these and like fashions offend the senses1 to which they appertaine3 so to grinde the teethe1 to whistle1 to make pitifull cries1 to rubb sharpe stones together1 and to file uppon ,iron1 do muche offend the ,eares and would be lefte in any case4 ,neither must wee refraine those things alone1 but we must also beware we do not sing1 and specialy alone1 if we have an untuneable voice1 which is a common fault with moste men3 ,and yet1 hee that is of nature least apt unto it1 doth use it moste4 ,so there be some kinde of men1 that in coffing or neesing1 make suche noise1 that they make a man deafe to here them3 other some use in like things1 so little discretion1 that they spit in mens faces that stand about them3 besides these there be some1 that in yauning1 braye and crye out like ,asses4 ,and yet such1 with open mouth wil ever say and do what they list1 and make such noise1 or rather such roaring1 as the dumme man doth1 when he striveth with him selfe to speake4 ,all these yllfavoured fashions1 a man must leave1 as lothsome to the eare and the eye4 ,and a man must leave to yawne muche1 not only for the respect of the matter ,i have saide alreadye1 as that it seemes to proceede1 of a certaine werines1 that shewes that he that yawneth1 could better like to be els where1 then there in that place3 as wearied with the companie1 their talke1 and their doings4 ,and sure1 albeit a man be many times disposed to yawne1 yet if he be occupied with any delight1 or earnest matter to think uppon3 he shall have no minde to doe it4 ,but if he be lumpishe idle3 it is an easy matter to fall in to it4 ,and therefore1 ,when a man yawneth1 in place where there bee slouthfull and ,idle folkes1 that have nothing to doe1 the rest1 as you may see many times1 yawne againe for companie by by3 as if he that yawned1 had put them in minde to doe it1 which of them selves they would have done first1 if hee had not be-goone unto them4 ,and ,i have many times heard learned and wise men say1 that ,a yawner meaneth as much in ,latin as a careles and ,idle bodie4 ,let us then flye these condicions1 that loathe 7as ,i said7 the eyes1 the ,eares1 the ,stomacke4 ,for in using these fashions1 we doe not only shewe that we take litle pleasure in the company1 but we geve them occasion withall1 to judge amis of us3 ,i meane yt we have a drowsye hevie nowle1 which makes us ill wellcom1 to all companies we come unto4 ,and when thou hast blowne thy nose1 use not to open thy handkercheif1 to glare uppon thy snot1 as if yu hadst pearles and ,rubies fallen from thy braynes3 for these be slovenly parts1 ynough to cause men1 not so much not to love us1 as if they did love us1 to unlove us againe4 ,as the ,sprite of ,labirintho doth testifie 7who soever he were that made it7 who 7to quenche ye heate wherwith ,master ,john ,boccase burned in desire and ,love of his ,lady unknowne7 tells1 come ella covaua la cenere1 sedendosi insu le calcagna2 tossiua1 isputaua farfalloni4 ,it is also an unmanerly parte1 for a man to lay his nose uppon the cup where another must drinke3 or uppon the meate yt another must eate1 to the end to smell unto it3 ,but rather1 ,i would wish he should not smell at all1 no not to that which he himselfe should eate and drinke3 because it may chaunce there might fall some droppe from his nose1 that would make a man to loath it3 although there fall nothing at all in deede4 ,neither1 by mine advise1 shalt thou reache to any man1 that cup of wine wherof thy selfe hast first dronke and tasted3 wtout he be more then a familiar friend unto thee4 ,and much lesse must thou give any parte of the peare or the fruite1 which thou hast bitten in thy mouth before4 ,and esteeme not light of my talke1 for that these things be of little account3 ,for even light stripes 7their number may be such7 be able to slaye fast ynoughe4 ,now you shall understand1 there was in ,verona1 a bishop a wise man1 a learned of a singular good wit by nature1 whose name was ,giovanni ,matheo ,giberti3 ,amongst many good parts yt were in him1 he was very courtious liberall1 to all gentlemen noble men that came unto him1 doing them all ye honor he could in his house1 not with over much pompe and cost1 but with convenient entertainement and measure1 such as besemed well a man of the ,clergie4 ,it chaunced in his time1 a noble gentleman called ,count ,richard1 passed that way1 to spend a fewe dayes with the ,bishop and his householde together3 which was thoroughly furnished wt honest gentlemen and very well learned4 ,and bycause they found him a ,noble gentleman1 courteous and well beseene in all good behaviour1 they praised him muche1 and made muche of him1 save that one unmanerly fashion they muche misliked in him4 ,when the ,bishop was advertised of it1 consulting with some of his familiars about it 7as he was a wise man in all his doings7 straite they concluded1 it should be necessary to let ye ,count have knowledge of it3 albeit they feared1 they should offend him4 ,upon this1 ye ,count taking his leave1 and redy to ride away the next morning1 the ,bishop called one of his servants unto him1 7a man of good discretion7 and gave him in charge to take his horse1 to beare the ,count company1 some parte of his waye3 ,and when he sawe his time1 after an honest sorte1 to tell him1 that which they had determined betwene them selves4 ,the same gentleman that had this charge1 was a man well strooken in yeares1 very lerned1 and mervailous pleasaunt1 welspoken1 comely1 and had muche frequented in his time1 ye ,courtes of greate ,princes3 who was 7perhaps7 and is1 called ,galateo3 at whose request and councell1 ,i first tooke in hand to set forth this present treatise4 ,riding with the ,count1 he found him plesaunt talke ynoughe1 and passing from one matter to another1 when he thought it time to returne to ,verona1 in taking leave at parting1 with a gentle cherefull countenaunce1 he used this speache unto him4 ,sir ,count1 my ,lorde yealdeth you many thanks for the honour you have done him1 in that it hath pleased you to vouchesafe his poore house3 and that he may not be unthankfull1 for this your greate courtesie shewed unto him1 he hath geven me in charge1 that ,i must leave a present with you in his behalfe3 and he sends it unto you with earnest request1 that you please to take it in good worthe3 and this is the gift4 ,you are a goodly gentleman1 and the best manered man my ,lorde hath ever seene3 ,so that very heedefully beholding your behaviours1 and particularly considering them all1 hee findeth no one that is not very comely and comendable1 only one unsemely tricke alone excepted1 which you make with your lippes and your mouth together1 feeding at your meate with a certaine straunge noyes1 unpleasaunt to all men that heare it4 ,this my ,lord willed me to tell you1 and prayes you to endevour your selfe to leave it1 and withall to accept in lewe of a beter present1 this loving admonition and councell of his3 for he is sure1 there is none in the worlde1 would make you the like present4 ,the ,count 7that never wist of his fault till now7 hearing himselfe reproved1 chaunged his countenance a little1 but 7as a man full of stomacke ynough7 taking hart at grasse1 he said3 ,tell your ,lorde1 that if all the gifts that men wont to geve eche other1 were such as his1 men should be muche more riche then they are4 ,and for his greate courtesie and liberalitie to mee1 geve him many thanks ,i pray you1 and let him be sure1 ,i will not faile from henceforthe to mend my fault1 and ,god be with you4 ,now what shal we thinke this ,bishop1 his modest and honest company about him would say1 if they sawe these whome wee see other while1 7like swine wt their snouts in the washe1 all begroined7 never lift up their heads nor looke up1 and muche lesse keepe their hands from the meate1 and wt both their cheeks blowne 7as if they should sound a trumpet1 or blowe the fier7 not eate but ravon3 whoe1 besmearing their hands1 almost up to their elbowes1 so bedawbe ye napkins1 that ye cloathes in the places of easement1 be other while cleaner4 ,and to mend these slovenly maners1 be not ashamed1 many times with these filthy napkins1 to wipe awaye the sweat that trickleth and falleth downe their browes1 their face and their necke 7they be such greedy guts in their feeding7 and otherwhile to1 7when it comes uppon them7 spare not to snot their sniveld nose uppon them4 ,truly these beastly behaviours and fashions1 deserve not alone1 to be thrust out of this noble bishops house1 that was so pure and cleane3 but to be throughly banished all places1 where any honest men should com4 ,let a man then take hede1 hee doe not begrease his fingers so deepe1 yt he befyle the napkins to much3 for it is an ill sight to see it3 neither is it good maner1 to rubbe your gresie fingers uppon ye bread you must eate4 ,the servaunts that bee appointed to waite uppon the table1 must not 7in any wise7 scratche and rubbe their heades1 nor any parte els in the sight of their ,lorde ,master3 nor thrust their hands in any those partes of their body that be covered1 no not so muche as make any proffer3 as some careles fellowes doo1 holding their hands in their bosome1 or cast under the flappes of their coates behind them4 ,but they must beare them abroade without any suspicion and keepe them 7in any case7 washt cleane without any spot of durt uppon them4 ,and they that cary the dishes1 or reache the cup1 must beware at that time1 they doe not spit1 coughe or neese3 for in such doings1 ,suspicion is as greate1 and offendeth asmuche1 as the very deede it selfe3 and therefore1 servants must forsee1 they geve no cause to ,maisters to suspect3 ,for that which might chaunce1 anoyeth asmuche1 as if it had chaunced indeede4 ,and if thou do roaste any fruite1 or make a toaste at the fier1 thou must not blowe of the ashes1 7if there be any7 for it is an old saying1 that1 winde was never without water4 ,but yu must lightly strike it uppon the plate1 or after some suche sorte or other beate of ye ashes4 ,thou shalt not offer thy handkerchiefe to any man to use it1 albeit1 it be very cleane washed3 for he to whome thou doest offer it1 can not 7perhaps7 awaye wt it1 and may be to curious to take it4 ,when a man talketh with one1 it is no good maner to come so neere1 that he must needes breathe in his face3 for there be many that cannot abide to feele the ayer of another mans breathe1 albeit there come no ill savour from him4 ,these and like fashions1 be very unsemely1 and would be eschewed1 because their senses1 wt whome we acquaint our selves1 cannot brooke nor beare them4 ,now1 let us speake of those things which 7without any hurt or anoyaunce to the senses7 offende the minds of most men1 before whome they be doone4 ,you shall understand1 that ,the appetites of men1 7throughe a naturall instinct and inclination7 be verie strange and divers3 ,some be cholerike hasty1 may not be satisfied with out revenge3 other doe give them selves cleane over1 to pamper the belly3 this man sets his delighte in lust and sensualitie3 that man is carried away with his covetous desires3 and many suche appetites more there are1 to which mans minde is too subject3 but you shall not in any company1 easily judge or discerne betweene them1 where and in what1 they bee moste affected4 ,for1 these matters doe not consist in the maners1 the fashions and speache of men3 but rest in some other point4 ,they seeke to purchase yt which the benefit of mutuall conferrence may yeald them1 that doe 7as ,i weene7 good will1 honour1 comforte and pleasure1 or some other thing like unto these3 therfore we must neither say or doe the thing1 that may give any signe of litle loving or esteming them1 we live withall4 ,so that1 it is a rude fashion1 7in my conceipte7 yt som men use1 to lie lolling a sleepe in that place1 where honest men be met together1 of purpose to talke4 ,for his so doing1 shewes that he doth not esteeme the company1 and little rekoneth of them or their talke4 ,and more then that1 he that sleepeth 7and specially lying at litle ease1 as he must7 wonts 7for the moste parte7 to doe some fowle thing1 to beholde1 or heare3 and many times they awake sweating and driveling at the mouth4 ,and in like maner1 to rise up where other men doe sit and talke1 and to walke up and downe the chamber1 it is no point of good maner4 ,also there be some that so buskell them selves1 reache1 streatch and yawne1 writhing now one side1 and then another1 that a man would weene1 they had some fever uppon them3 ,a manifest signe1 that the company they keepe1 doth weary them4 ,likewise doe they very ill1 yt now then pull out a letter out of their pocket1 to reade it3 as if they had greate matters of charge1 and affaires of the common weale committed unto them4 ,but they are much more to bee blamed1 that pull out their knives or their scisers1 and doe nothing els but pare their nailes1 as if they made no account at all of the company1 and would seeke some other solace to passe the time awaye4 ,theis fashions to1 must be left1 yt some men use1 to sing betwene the teeth1 or playe the dromme with their fingers1 or shoofle their feete3 ,for these demeanours shewe that a body is carelesse of any man ells4 ,besides1 let not a man so sit that he turne his taile to him that sitteth next to him3 nor lie tottering with one legg so high above the other1 that a man may see all bare that his cloathes would cover4 ,for such parts be never playde1 but amongst those to whome a man needs use no reverence4 ,it is very true1 that if a gentleman should use these fashions before his servants1 or in the presence of some friende of meaner condition then him selfe3 it would betoken no pride1 but a love and familiaritie4 ,let a man stand uppright of him selfe1 and not leane or loll uppon another mans shoulder3 and when he talketh1 let him not pounche his fellow with his elbowe1 7as many be wont to doe7 at every worde they speake1 saying3 ,did ,i not say true ,sirra4 ,master4 ,n4 ,it is ,master4 ,h4 ,and still they be jotting with their elbowe4 ,i would have every man well appareled1 meete for his age and calling3 for otherwise1 they seeme to have men in contempt that be better attired then themselves4 ,and therefore the ,citizens of ,padua1 were woont to take it done of spighte unto them1 when any gentleman of ,venice walked up downe their citie in his coate1 as though he thought him selfe in the countrey4 ,and a mans apparell1 would not be made of fine cloathe alone3 but he must frame it1 all that he may1 to the fashions that other men weare1 and suffer him selfe to bee lead by common use3 although 7perchaunce7 it be1 and seeme to be lesse commodious1 lesse gallant1 and lesse faire in shewe1 then his oulde4 ,and if all men els1 doe weare their heads powled3 it shalbe an ill sight for thee alone1 to weare a longe bushe of haire4 ,and where other men1 make muche of their beardes and weare them longe3 thou shalt not doe well to cut thine of1 or shave it4 ,for that weare to be overthwarte in everything3 which thou must 7in any case7 beware of1 except necessitie require it1 as thou shalt heare hereafter4 ,for this singularitie1 beyond all other ill customes1 makes us generally spited of all men4 ,thou must not then go against common custome in these things1 but use them measureably3 that thou maist not bee an odd man alone in a countrey3 that shall weare a long ,gowne downe to the foote1 where other men weare them very shorte1 litle beneath the waste4 ,for as it hapens to him1 that hath a very crabbed ilfavoured face1 7,i meane suche1 as is more harde and sower then most mennes be1 for nature doth mostly shape them well in moste men7 that men will wonder and 7with a kinde of admiration7 gape most uppon him3 ,so fares it with them that attire them selves1 not as most men doe3 but as they are egged by their owne fantasticall heads1 with long heare spred downe to their shoulders1 their beardes short and shaven1 and weare quaiues or greate cappes after ye ,flaundres fashion3 that all men doe gaze uppon them1 as wondering at suche1 whome they weene have taken uppon them1 to conquer all countries wheresoever they come4 ,let your apparell then1 be very well made1 and fit for your body3 for they that weare rich and coastly garments1 but so illfavouredly shaped1 that a man would weene the measure had bin taken by another3 geve us to judge one of these twaine1 that either they have no regarde or consideration how to please or displease3 or els have no skill to judge of measure or grace1 or what doth become them4 ,such maner of people1 with their rude behaviours and fashions1 make men with whome they live1 suspect1 they doe esteeme them but light4 ,and that causeth them worse welcome whersoever they com and ill beloved amongest men4 ,but there be some besides these1 that deserve more then bare suspicion3 their deeds and their doings be so intollerable1 that a man cannot abide to live amongest them by any meanes4 ,for they be ever a let1 a hurt and a trouble to all the companie1 they be never redie3 ever a trimming3 never well dressed to their mindes4 ,but when men be readie to sit downe to the table1 the meate at the boorde1 and their handes washed3 then they must write or make water1 or have their exercise to doe3 saying1 ,it is too early3 we might have taried a while3 what haste is this1 this morning8 ,and thus they disquiet all the company1 as men1 caring for them selves alone their owne matters1 without consideration in the worlde of other men4 ,besides this1 they will in all things be preferred above others3 they must have the best bed1 and best chamber3 they must take uppon them the highest place at the table1 and be first set and served of all men4 ,and they be so deintie and nice1 that nothing pleaseth them1 but what they them selves devise3 they make a sower face at any thing ells4 ,and they be so proude minded1 that they looke that men should waite uppon them when they dine1 ride1 sporte1 or solace them selves4 ,there be other so furious1 testie waywarde1 that nothing you doe can please them3 and what soever is said they aunswer in choler1 and never leave brauling wt their servants1 and rayling at them1 and continually disturbe the company with their unquietnes3 using such speeches3 ,thou cauledst me well up this morning4 ,looke heere how cleane thou hast made these pynsons4 ,thou beaste1 thou diddest waite well uppon me to ,churche4 ,it were a good deede to breake thy head4 ,these be unsemely and very fowle fashions3 suche as every honest man will hate to death4 ,for1 albeit a mans minde were full fraught with all humilitie1 and would use these maners1 not uppon pride or disdaine1 but uppon a rechelesse care1 not heeding his doings1 or elles by meanes of ill custome3 yet notwithstanding1 because his outward doings1 woulde make men thinke him proude3 it cannot be chosen1 but all men woulde hate him for it4 ,for1 ,pride is none other thinge1 then to despise and disdaine another4 ,and as ,i have saide from the beginning3 ,eache man desireth to bee well thought of1 ,albeit there bee no valoure or goodnes in him4 ,it is not long1 since there was in ,rome a worthy gentleman1 of singular good witt and profound learning1 whose name was ,ubaldino ,bandinelli4 ,this gentleman was woont to say1 that as ofte as hee went or came from the ,courte1 although the stretes weare ever full of gallant ,courtiers1 of ,prelates and ,noble men1 and likewise of poore men1 and people of meane and base condition3 yet he thought he never encountred any1 that was either better or worse then himselfe4 ,and without doubte hee could meete with fewe1 that might bee compared in goodnes to him3 respecting his vertues1 that did excel beyond measure4 ,but we must not alwayes in these things measure men by ye ,elne3 ,we must rather waye them in the millers scoles1 then in the goldsmythes balaunce4 ,and it is a courtious parte1 redily to receave them in to favour3 not bycause they bee woorthe it3 but as men doe with coines1 bycause they be currant4 ,to go further1 wee must doe nothing in their sight whome wee desire to please1 that may shewe wee covet1 rather to rule and to reigne1 then to live in a familiar equalitie amongest them4 ,for hautines of harte and ambitious disposition1 as it kindleth an ill opinion3 so it ministreth muche cause of contempte1 which in conclusion will so woorke against thee1 yt thou shalt bee cleane cast out of honest company4 ,but our dooings must rather beare a signe and shewe of reverence1 meekenes1 respect to ye company1 in which wee fellowship ourselves4 ,so that1 what so ever is doone in meete and convenient time1 may hapely deserve no blame3 but yet in respect of the place and the persone1 it may be reproved well3 althoughe for it self1 ye matter deserve no rebuke4 ,as to brawle and to raile at your servaunts 7which we have talked of before7 but muche more to beate them4 ,because these partes1 are asmuche as to reigne and to rule3 which no honest and civil gentleman will use1 in presence of them he doth respect with any reverence or courtesie4 ,besides this1 the company is muche offended with it1 and their meetinges are broken1 and especially1 if it be done at the table1 which is a place of solace and mirthe1 and not of brawle and scolding4 ,so that ,i must nedes commend ,currado ,gianfigliazzi for his civil behaviour in yt he multiplied no words with ,chichibio to trouble his guests3 albeit he deserved to be sharply punished for it1 when he would sooner displease his master then ,brunetta4 ,and yet if ,currado had made lesse adoe about it then he did3 it had ben more his praise4 ,for then he should never have neded1 to call uppon ,god1 to witnes his threatnings so muche as he did4 ,but to returne to our matter3 it is not good for a man to chide at the table for any cause4 ,and if thou be angrie1 shew it not1 nor make no signe of thy greefe1 for the reason ,i have tolde thee1 and specially if thou have straungers with thee3 because thou haste called them to be merry1 and this wil make them sad4 ,for1 as the sharpe and tarte things yt other men doe feede uppon in thy sight1 doe set thy teeth likewise on edge3 so to see other men vexed and out of quiet1 it maketh us unquiet too4 ,i call them ,fromward people1 which will in allthings be overtwhart to other men3 as the very worde it selfe doth shewe4 ,for1 ,frome-warde1 signifieth asmuche1 as ,shorne against the wooll4 ,now1 how fit a thinge this frowardnes is1 to win the good will of men1 and cause men to wishe well unto them3 that you your self may easily ,judge1 in that it consisteth in overtwharting other mens desiers3 which qualitie never mainteineth friendship1 but maketh friends become foes4 ,and therfor let them that desire to be well thought of and welcome amongst men1 endevour them selves to shunne this fault3 ,for it breedes no good liking nor love1 but hatred and hurt4 ,i would councell you rather to measure your pleasures by other mens willes3 where there shal come no hurt nor shame of it3 and therin alwayes to doe to saye1 more to please other mens mindes and fansies1 then your owne4 ,againe1 you must be neither clownishe nor lumpishe3 but pleasaunt and familiar4 ,for there should bee no oddes1 betweene the ,mystell and the ,pungitopo3 but that the one is wilde3 the other growes in gardens4 ,and you must understand1 that he is pleasaunt and courteous3 whose manners bee suche in his common behaviour1 as practise to keepe1 and maintaine him friendeship amongst them3 where hee that is solleyne and waywarde1 makes him selfe a straunger whersoever hee comes3 a straunger1 ,i meane1 asmuch as a forreigne or alienborne3 where contrariwise1 he that is familiar gentle1 in what place so ever he comes3 is taken for a familiar and friend with all men4 ,so that it shalbe necessarie for a man1 to use him selfe to salute1 to speake1 and to answer after a gentle sorte1 and to behave him selfe wt all men so3 as if hee were their countryman borne1 of their olde acquaintance4 ,which some can ill skill to doe1 that never give a man a good countenaunce3 easily say1 ,no1 to all things3 never take in good worthe1 the honour and courtesie that men doe unto them 7like to the people ,i spake of before1 rude and barbarous73 never take delight in any pleasaunt conceites or other pleasures3 but ever refuse it all1 what soever is presented or offered unto them4 ,if a man say3 ,sir1 suche a one willed me to commend him unto you3 ,they aunswere straite3 what have ,i too doe with his greetings8 ,and if a man say3 ,sir1 suche a one your friend1 asked me how you did4 ,they aunswer againe in choler3 ,let him come feele my pulse4 ,these carterlike and clownishe aunswers and maners1 and the men them selves that doe use them3 would bee chased and hunted away1 out of all good and honest company4 ,it ill becomes a man when hee is in company1 to bee sad1 musing1 and full of contemplation4 ,and albeit1 it may bee suffered perchaunce in them that have long beaten their braines in these ,mathematicall studies3 which are called 7as ,i take it7 the ,liberall ,artes3 yet without doubte it may not be borne in other men4 ,for1 even these studious fellowes1 at suche time1 when they be so ful of their ,muses3 should be much wiser to get them selves alone4 ,againe1 to bee to nice or to deintie3 it may not be abiden1 and specially in men4 ,for1 to live with suche kinde of people3 is rather a slaverie then pleasure4 ,and sure there bee som such1 so softe tender3 yt to live and deale with such people1 it is as daungerous3 as to medle with the finest and brittelest glasse that may be3 ,so muche they are affraide of every light touche4 ,and they wilbe as testy and frowarde1 if you doe not quickly and readily salute them1 visite them1 worship them1 and make them answer3 as some other body would be1 for the greatest injurie yt can be donne unto them4 ,and if you doe not give them all the due reverence that may be3 they will presently take a thousand occasions to quarell and fall out with you4 ,if you chaunce to ,master him1 and leave out his title of ,honour or worship3 he takes that in dougeon1 and thinkes you doe mock him4 ,and if you set him beneath as good a man as him self at the table3 that is against his honour4 ,if you doe not visite him at home at his house3 then you knowe not your dutie4 ,theis maner of fashions and behaviours1 bring men to such scorne and disdaine of their doings3 that there is no man1 almost1 can abide to beholde them3 for they love them selves to farre beyonde measure1 and busie them selves so much in that1 that they finde litle leisure to bethinke them selves to love any other3 which 7as ,i have saide from the beginning7 men seeke to finde in the conditions and maners of those with whome they must live3 ,i meane1 that they should apply them selves to the fansies mindes of their friendes4 ,but to live wt suche people1 so hard to please3 whose love and friendship once wonne1 is as easily lost1 as a fine scarfe is lightly caried away with the winde3 that is no life but a service3 and1 besides that it yealdeth no pleasure1 it geves a man greate disdaine and horror4 ,let us therefore leave these softe and wanton behaviours to women4 ,in speach a man may fault many wayes4 ,and first in the matter it selfe that is in talke1 which may not be vaine or filthye4 ,for1 they that doe heare it1 will not abide it3 as ye talk they take no pleasure to heare3 but rather scorne the speache and the speaker both4 ,againe1 a man must not move any question of matters that be to deepe to subtile3 because it is hardly understoode of the moste4 ,and a man must warely foresee1 that the matter bee suche1 as none of the company may blushe to heare it1 or receave any shame by the tale4 ,neither must he talke of any filthy matter1 albeit a man would take a pleasure to heare it3 for1 it ill becomes an honest gentleman1 to seeke to please1 but in things that be honest4 ,neither in sporte nor in earnest1 must a man speake any thing against ,god or his ,saintes1 how witty or pleasaunt so ever the matter be4 ,wherein1 the company that ,giovan ,boccaccio hathe brought to speake in his ,novelles and tales1 hath faulted so muche3 that me thinkes every good body1 may justly blame them for it4 ,and you must thinke ,it is not only a token of great detestation ,impietie in a man1 to talke in jestinge wise of ,god3 but hee is a wicked sinfull man1 that will abide to heare it4 ,but you shall finde some suche good men1 as will flie asmuche as the plague1 the company of such as talke so unreverently1 and without respect1 of the incomprehensible ,majestie of ,god4 ,and wee must not alone speake religiously of him3 but in all our talkes wee must avoide what wee may1 that our wordes may not witnes against our life and our workes4 ,for men doe hate their owne faultes otherwhile1 when they see them in another4 ,likewise it is unsavourie1 to talke of things out of time1 not fitting the place and company3 although the matter it selfe1 and spoken in time1 were otherwise both good and godly4 ,we must not then reherse ,friers sermones to young gentlewomen1 when they are disposed to sporte them selves3 as yt good man did1 that dwelles not farr hence1 nere to ,s4 ,brancatio4 ,and in feastes at table1 wee must beware wee doe not rehearse any sorowfull tales1 nor put them in minde of woundes1 of sicknes1 of deathes1 of ,plagues1 or of other dolefull matters4 ,but if another man chaunce to move suche matter3 it shalbe good1 after an honest and gentell sorte1 to exchaunge that talke1 and thrust in some other1 yt may give them more delighte and pleasure to heare it4 ,albeit1 not long since ,i heard it said to a worthy gentleman our neighbour1 that ,men have many times more neede to weepe then to laugh4 ,and for that cause hee said1 these dolefull tales1 which wee call ,tragedies1 were devised at first1 that when they were playd in the ,theatres 7as at that time they were wont7 they might draw fourth teares out of their eyes1 that had neede to spend them4 ,and so they were by their weeping1 healed of their infirmitie4 ,but albeit it bee good to doe so3 yet it will il become us to drive men into their dumpes3 especially where they bee mett to feaste and to solace themselves1 not to mourne4 ,for if there be any1 yt hath suche weeping disease3 it will bee an easie matter to cure it1 wt stronge ,mustard or a smoaky house4 ,so that1 in no wise1 ,i can excuse our friend ,philostrato1 for his worke that hee made full of dule and of death1 to suche a company as desired nothing more then mirthe4 ,wee must the rather use silence1 then discourse of suche sorrowfull matters4 ,and they doe asmuche amisse too1 that never have other thing in their mouthe1 then their children1 their wife1 and their nourse4 ,my litle boy1 made mee so laughe yesterday3 heare you3 you never sawe a sweeter babe in your life3 my wife is such a one1 ,cecchina told mee3 of troth you would not beleeve what a wit shee hath3 ,there is none so idle a body1 that will either intend to answer1 or abide to heare suche foolishe prittle prattle4 ,for it ircks a mans eares to harken unto it4 ,there be some againe1 so curious in telling their dreames from point to point1 using such wonder and admiration withall1 yt it makes a mans hart ake to heare them3 specially because 7for ye most parte7 they be such kinde of people3 as it is but labour lost to heare1 even the very best exploits they doe1 when they be most awake1 and labour most to shew their best4 ,wherfore we must not trouble men with so base and absurde matter as dreames bee3 especially suche foolishe things1 as most times men have4 ,albeit ,i have heard say many times1 that wisemen in times past1 have leaft in their bookes many sortes of dreames1 conteining matters of deepe knowledge and understanding3 it followeth not yet1 that wee1 the unlearned and common sorte of people1 should use it in our familiar and common talke4 ,and sure of all the dreames that ever ,i heard 7albeit ,i hardly listen to any7 in my conceit1 ,i never heard any1 that was worth the hearing but one alone1 which the good ,master ,flaminio ,tomarozzo a gentleman of ,rome did see1 a man not unlearned and grosse3 but full of knowledge and singular witte4 ,and thus was his dreame1 ,this gentleman ,master ,flaminio ,tomarozzo1 thought he was sitting in a very riche ,apothecaries shop1 a neere neighbour of his4 ,and after he had bin there a while 7what soever the occasion was7 the people were up in a rore one a sodaine1 and fell to spoiling of all that was in the shoppe4 ,one tooke an ,electuarie1 another a ,confection1 some one thing1 some another1 and presently eate it upp all3 ,so that within a while1 there was neither virell glasse1 ertherne pot1 wodden boxe1 nor any potels of drugges1 that was not emptied1 broken1 or overthrowne4 ,but amongest them all1 ther was one verye small glasse1 full to the toppe of verie cleare water1 which many did smell to1 but no man would taste4 ,he stoode not there long1 but there came in a tall man1 an aged and very grave man1 to look unto4 ,this ,aged father beholding this unfortunate ,apothecaries boxes and pottes1 and finding some emptied1 some overthrowne1 and the better parte broken3 ,at lenght casting his eye aside1 he chaunced to see the smal glasse ,i spake of before1 and setting the same to his mouthe1 hee dranke it up so cleane3 that he leaft not one droppe4 ,and this doone1 he went from thence as the rest did before4 ,master ,flaminio was abashed and marveled muche at this matter4 ,and therefore turning to the ,apothecarie he saied unto him3 ,sir1 whoe is this that came laste8 and why did he drinke up so savourly1 all the water in that litle glasse1 which all the reast refused4 ,to whome the ,apothecarie seemed to make this aunswer4 ,my sonne1 this is the ,lord ,god4 ,and the water1 that hee alone dranke1 and all the reast refused and would not taste as you saw3 was discretion3 which1 you know wel ynough men will not taste of1 by any meanes4 ,such kind of dreames1 ,i hould well a man may rehearse1 and heare with much pleasure and profit4 ,bycause they doe more resemble1 the ,cogitations thoughts of an awakened minde3 or better1 ,i shoulde say1 the vertue sensitive3 then the visions and sights of a drowsie head4 ,but those other dreames1 without shape1 fashion or sense3 7which the moste parte of suche men as we are1 bee wont to have7 would be forgotten cleane1 and lost with our sleepe4 ,howbeit1 ,i doe not deny but the dreames of good men and learned1 be better and wiser than theires of the wicked and more unlearned sorte4 ,and albeit a man would weene1 there can bee nothing in the worlde more vaine then ,dreames3 yet there is one thing more light then they1 and that are ,lies4 ,for there is yet some shadowe1 and1 as it were1 a certaine feeling of that which a man hath seene in his dreame4 ,but there is neither shadowe nor bodye of a trueth in a lie4 ,and therfore we should lesse busie mens eares1 and their mindes to harken to lies1 then to dreames1 because they bee otherwhile received for truethes4 ,but time1 in the ende1 discovers suche pelfe3 that liers1 not only doe gaine no credite1 but no man vouchesafes to harken unto them1 in otherwise 7as the men that carry no substaunce in their woordes7 then if they had saide nothing or blowne a litle winde4 ,and you shal understand1 ther be many yt use to lie1 not minding any ill purpose in it1 or to make their owne peculiar proffit by it1 to hurt other men or shame their neighbour3 onely they doe it1 for a pleasure they take to tell a lie3 as men that drinke not1 all for thirst3 but for a pleasure they take1 to taste of the wine4 ,other some doe tell lies1 to make a vaine glorious boasting of them selves3 vaunting and telling in a bravery1 what wonderfull exploits they have doone1 or bearing men in hand1 they be greate doctours and learned men4 ,in ,silence too1 after a sorte1 without speache1 a man may tell a lesinge3 ,i meane with his gestures and grace3 as some you shall see1 that being of meane1 or rather base condition and calling1 use suche a solemnitie in all their doings1 and marche so stately1 and speake with suche a prerogative1 or rather discourse like ,parleament men1 setteling them selves1 as it were1 in a place of ,judgement1 proudly prying about them like ,peacockes3 that it is a very death to behold them4 ,and some suche you shall finde1 that allthough they bee combered with no more wealthe then easily serves their turne3 yet will they never appeare unles their neckes be laden with chaines1 their fingers full of rings1 their cappes beset with agletts1 and every other parte bespangled1 as though they would defie ye ,king of ,castiglio4 ,whose behaviours be full of follies and vaine glorie1 which cometh of pride1 growing of vanitie it selfe4 ,so that wee must eschew these faults1 as foule and unseemely things4 ,you shall understand1 in many ,cities1 and those of the best1 the lawes doe not suffer1 that riche men should go muche more gorgeously attired1 then the poore4 ,for poore men thinke they have a wrong3 when men seeme1 but in countenaunce alone1 as it were ,imperiously to reigne over them4 ,so that we must carefully beware we fall not into these follies4 ,neither must a man boaste of his ,nobilitie1 his ,honour or riches3 muche lesse vaunt of his witt1 or gloriously reherse to much of his deedes valiant ,actes1 or what his ,auncestors have done1 nor uppon every occasion1 fall in rehersall of suche thinges1 as many men doe4 ,for in suche case1 a man would weene1 they seeke1 either to contend with the ,company1 7if they be1 or will take uppon them to bee1 as good ,gentlemen1 of as muche wealthe and worthines1 as they bee37 or elles to overcrowe them1 7if they live in meaner condition and calling1 then they doe74 ,and as it were to upbraide them1 their poore and base condition of life4 ,a man must neither embase1 nor exalte him selfe to muche out of measure3 but rather bury in silence some parte of his merits1 then arrogate to muche unto him4 ,bycause ,goodnes it selfe1 when it excedeth muche1 is ever envide of some4 ,and you may be sure1 they that embase them selves thus beyond measure1 refusing that worship and honour that is but duely their owne of very right3 shewe more pride in this contempte1 then they that usurpe those things1 that are not so due unto them4 ,so yt a man perchaunce1 might saye1 ,giotto hath not deserved those ,commendations yt some beleve1 in yt he refused to be called ,master3 being not only a master but without doubt a singular and cunning master in his art in those dayes4 ,but be it blame1 or praise yt he deserved3 it is most sure1 he that refuseth that which every man els doth hunt for3 sheweth therin1 he reproveth or contemneth the common opinion of men4 ,and1 to contemne the honour renowne1 which other men gape for so much1 is but to glorie and magnifie him selfe above other4 ,for asmuche as there is no man 7without he be mad7 will refuse and reject things that be deare and of price3 unles hee be suche1 as hathe plenty and store of those deare and deintie things4 ,wee must not boast of those good things that be in us1 nor set them to light3 for in ye one1 wee doe upbraide men their faults3 ,in the other1 wee scorne to muche their vertues4 ,but it behoveth every man to speake his owne praise1 as litle as hee may4 ,and if occasion drive him unto it3 it shalbe good1 modestly to speake the truethe1 as ,i have told you before4 ,and therefore1 they that desire to doe men a pleasure3 must needes leave one faulte1 yt is to common with all men3 they must not shewe them selves so afraide and fearefull to speake their mindes1 when a man dothe aske their advise4 ,for1 it is a deadly paine to here them1 specialy if they be men1 in ye ,judgement of ye world1 of good understanding and wisedome4 ,what a fetching about is this1 ere they come to ye mater8 ,sir ,i beseche you pardon mee1 if ,i doe not say well4 ,i will speake like a gros man as ,i am3 grosly according to my pore skil4 ,and ,sir1 ,i am sure you will but mocke me for it4 ,but yet1 to obey you3 they drawe their words forth so long1 put them selves to suche paine3 yt1 while these ceremonies be a doing1 ye hardest question yt is1 might have bin determined with fewer words and shorter time3 bycause they cannot get out of these protestations1 when they bee in4 ,they bee also very tedious to men1 and their conversation maners are very troublesome3 whoe shewe too base and abject a minde in their doings4 ,and where the chefest and highest place1 is apparantly due unto them3 they will ever creepe downe to the lowest4 ,and it is a spitefull buisines to thrust them up3 ,for they will straite jogge backe againe1 like a resty ,jade1 or a ,nagge that startleth a side at his shadowe4 ,so that1 there is muche a dooe wt them1 when wee meete at a doore4 ,for they will not 7for all you can dooe7 in any case enter before you1 but so traverse their ground1 go backe1 and so fray and defend with their armes and their handes3 that at every thirde steppe1 a man must be ready to wage battell with them3 and thus they breake of1 all solace and pleasure1 and otherwhile1 the buisines they meete aboute4 ,and therfore1 ,ceremonies1 which wee name1 as you heare1 by a straunge terme1 as lacking a worde of our owne1 bycause our elders1 having no knowledge of those superstitious fashions1 coulde not well give them a proper name4 ,ceremonies1 ,i saye1 7in my ,judgement17 differ not much from lies dreames1 for their own very vainesse it selfe4 ,so that wee may couple and joine them together in this our treatise1 sithe occasion serves so fitt to speake of them here4 ,as a good man hath often shewed me3 those solemnities that church men doe use at their ,altars1 and in their divine service bothe to ,god and his holy things1 are properly called ,ceremonies3 but after1 men did begin1 to reverence eche other with curious entertainements1 more then were convenient1 and would be called masters and ,lords1 amongest them selves1 yealding bending1 and bowing their bodies1 in token of reverence one to another1 uncovering their heads1 using highe titles and ,styles of honour1 and kissing their hands as if they were hollye things3 some body1 by like considering all these things well1 and finding these newe founde curious follies without any name3 thought good to ,christen and call them ,ceremonies1 but sure in a jest as ,i take it3 as to be mery and make good cheare1 we terme it in sport1 a triumph3 which custome1 no doubt1 tooke not his being at us1 but elles where1 as barbarous straunge3 and not long since1 from whence ,i knowe not1 transported into ,italie3 whose deedes being wretched1 and effects base and vile1 hath gotten encrease and honor1 in vaine woords alone1 and superfluous titles4 ,ceremonies then1 if we consider well their intents that use them3 are but vaine shewes of honour and reverence1 towardes him to whome they be doone3 framed of semblance and wordes touching their titles and courtious offers4 ,i say vaine3 ,in that we honour men to their face1 whome we reverence not in deede1 but otherwhile contemne4 ,and nevertheles1 because we may not go against custome1 wee give them these titles3 ,the most honorable ,lord suche a one3 the ,noble ,lord suche a one4 ,and so otherwhile wee offer them our humble service3 whome wee could better unserve then serve1 commaund then doe them any duety4 ,then not ,lesinges alone1 but also ,treacheries and ,treasons1 shalbe called ,ceremonies4 ,but because these wordes and these titles above rehersed1 have lost their strength3 and waste1 7as a man may say of ,iron7 their temper1 wt such continuall occupying of it as it we doe use3 we must not so precisely way them as other words1 nor so strictly construe the meaning of them4 ,and1 that this is true1 that which allwayes happens to all men1 dothe shewe it plaine inoughe4 ,for if wee meete with a man1 we never sawe before3 with whome1 uppon some occasion1 it behoves us to talke3 without examining wel his worthines1 most commonly1 that wee may not offend in to litle1 we give him to much1 and call him ,gentleman1 and otherwhile ,sir1 althoughe he be but some ,souter or ,barbar1 or other suche stuffe3 and all bycause he is appareled neate1 somewhat gentleman like4 ,and as men in times past1 were wont to have under the ,privilege of the ,pope ,emperour1 peculiar distinct titles of honour1 which might not be untouched1 without doing wrong to the privileged men3 nor againe attributed geven without a scorne1 to them that were no such privileged persones3 ,so at this daye1 wee must more freely use those titles1 and the other significations of honour1 like to those titles3 bycause ,custome the mightiest ,lorde1 hathe largely therewith1 privileged men of our time4 ,this use and custome1 then so faire and gallant without1 is altogether vaine within1 and consisteth in semblance without effect1 in wordes without meaning4 ,but this notwithstanding1 it is not lawful for us to chaunge it3 but rather1 bycause it is not our fault1 but the fault of our time1 wee are bounde to followe it3 but yet wee must discretely doe it4 ,so that wee are to noate1 that ,ceremonies are used1 either for a ,profit1 or for a ,vanitie1 or for a ,duetie4 ,and every lie that is told for a mans private profit3 is a deceite1 a sinne1 and a dishonest parte3 for1 in what so ever it bee1 ,a man can never honestly lie4 ,and this is a common fault with flatterers1 that counterfet them selves to be our friendes1 and apply them selves ever to our desiers1 what soever they be3 not bycause wee would have it so1 but to the ende wee should doe them some pleasure1 for it4 ,and this is not to please us1 but to deceive us4 ,and albeit this kind of fault be1 peradventure1 by reason of custome sufferable3 yet notwithstanding bycause of it selfe1 it is fowle and hurtefull1 it ill becomes a gentle man to doe it4 ,for it is no honestie to seeke a pleasure by the hurt of another4 ,and if lies and false flatteries1 may bee termed ,ceremonies 7as ,i have saide before37 so oft1 as we use them for respect of our gain profit3 so oft wee doe hazard our good name and credite3 so that this consideration alone1 might move us well to leave all ,ceremonies1 and use them no more4 ,it resteth now that ,i speake of those yt bee done of ,dutie1 and of those that be done of a ,vainesse4 ,as touching ye first1 ,we must not leave them undone in any wise4 ,for he that faileth to doe them1 dothe not onely displease1 but doth a wrong to him1 to whome they be due4 ,and many times it chaunceth ye men come to daggers drawing1 even for this occasion alone1 that one man hath not done the other1 that worship and honour uppon the way1 that he ought4 ,for to saye a trueth ,the power of custome is great of much force1 7as ,i said7 and would be taken for a lawe1 in these cases4 ,and that is the cause we say3 ,you3 to every one1 that is not a man of very base calling1 and in suche kinde of speach wee yealde such a one1 no maner of courtesie of our owne4 ,but if wee say3 ,thou3 to suche a one1 then wee disgrace him and offer him outrage and wronge3 and by suche speach1 seeme to make no better reconing of him1 then of a knave and a clowne4 ,and although the times past1 and other countries1 have used other maners3 let us yet1 keepe ourselves to our owne3 ,and let not us dispute the matter1 which is the better of twaine4 ,for wee must observe1 not those1 that we ,judge in our owne conceits to be good3 but suche1 as be currant by custome1 used in our owne time3 as lawes1 which we be bound to keepe1 thoughe they be not all of the best1 till suche time1 as the magistrates1 the ,prince1 or they that have power to amend them1 have chaunged them to better4 ,so that ,it behoves us1 hedefully to marke the doings and speache1 wherewith daily practise and custome1 wonteth to receave1 salute1 name in our owne country1 all sortes and kinds of people1 and in all our familiar communication with men1 let us use the same4 ,and notwithstanding the ,admerall 7as peradventure the maner of his time was suche7 in his talke with ,peter the ,king of ,aragon1 did many times3 ,thou him3 ,let us yet saye to our ,king3 ,your majestie3 and your highnes3 aswell in speache as in writing4 ,and if they have followed the use of their time3 then let not us breake the fashions of ours4 ,and these doe ,i call ,duetifull ,ceremonies1 bycause they proceede not1 as we would1 or of our owne free willes3 but are laide uppon us by the ,lawes3 ,i meane1 ,common custome4 ,and in suche things1 as carry no evill meaning in them1 but rather some face of courtesie3 reason would and commaundeth1 we shoulde rather observe common ,custome1 then dispute and lay the lawe for them4 ,and albeit1 to kisse in shewe of reverence1 of very right appertaineth to the reliques of ,saints and there holy matters3 yet if it bee the maner of your country1 at parting1 to say3 ,signori1 ,io vi bascio la mano4 ,or3 ,io son vostro servidore3 ,or els3 vostro schiavo in catena3 you must not disdaine it1 more then other4 ,but1 ,in farewelles and writings1 you must salute and take leave1 not as reason1 but as custome will have you3 and not as men wont in times past1 or should doe3 but as men use at this day3 for it is a chorlishe maner to say3 ,what greate gentleman is he ,i pray you1 that ,i must master him3 ,or3 is he becom master parson1 that ,i must kisse his hands8 for he that is wont to be 7,sird7 and likewise 7,sirreth7 other3 may thinke you disdaine him1 and use some outrage unto him1 when you call him to his face1 by his bare name1 and give him no addition4 ,and these termes of ,seignory1 service1 duetye1 and such other like unto these1 as ,i have saide3 have lost a greate parte of their harshnes1 and 7as hearbes long steepte in the water7 are sweetened1 and made softe and tender1 by reason of muche speache in mens mouthes1 and continuall use to speake them4 ,so that we must not abhorre them1 as some rude and rusticall fellowes1 full of foolishe simplicitie1 doe3 that would faine beginne the letters we write to ,kinges and ,emperours after this sort1 vz4 ,if thou and thy children be in healthe it is well3 ,i am also in healthe3 saying1 that suche was the beginning of the letters1 the ,latins did write to the magistrates of ,rome4 ,if men should live by their measure1 and go backe to those fashions and maners1 our first fathers did use3 the worlde then by litle and litle1 would come so about1 that we should feede uppon acornes againe4 ,and in these ,duetifull ,ceremonies1 there be also certain rules and precepts1 we must observe3 that wee may not bee touched wt ,vainesse and ,pride4 ,and first of all1 wee must consider the country where wee doe live4 ,for all customes be not currant a like in all countreys4 ,and peradventure that which they use in ,naples1 which is a ,citye replenished with gentlemen1 of good houses1 and ,lordes of greate power1 were not so fitte for ,florens and ,luke3 ,which are inhabited1 for the most part1 with ,merchants and plaine gentlemen1 without any ,prince1 ,marques1 or ,barone amongest them4 ,so that the brave and ,lordelike manners of the gentlemen of ,naples transported to ,florence3 should be but waste1 and more then needes3 like a tall mans gowne cast over a dwarfe3 as also the manners of ,florence shoulde be to pinchinge and straite1 for the ,noble natures and mindes of the gentlemen of ,naples4 ,and although the gentlemen of ,venice use great embracings and entertainementes amongst themselves1 and fawne without measure the one on the other1 by reason of their offices1 degrees and favours they looke to finde when they meete and assemble to choose their officers3 yet for all this1 it is not convenient1 that the good men of ,rouigo1 or the ,citizens of ,asolo1 should use the like solemnities1 embraceings and entertainements one to another1 haveing no such kinde of cause amongst them3 ,albeit all that same countrie 7if ,i bee not deceived7 is falne a litle1 into these kinde of follies1 as over carelesse and apt inough by nature1 or rather learning those maners of ,venice their ,lady and ,mistris3 because ,everie man gladly seeketh to tread the steps of his better3 although there be no reason for it4 ,moreover we must have a regarde to the time1 to the age1 and the condition of him1 to whom we use these ceremonies1 and likewise respect our owne calling3 and with men of credite maintaine them3 but wt men of small account cut them of cleane1 or at least1 abridge them as muche as wee may1 rather give them a becke then a due garde3 ,which the courtiers in ,rome can very well skill to doe4 ,but in some cases these ,ceremonies be very combersome to a mans busines1 and very tedious3 as ,cover your head1 sayes the ,judge1 yt is busied wt causes1 and is scanted of time to dispatche them4 ,and this fellow so full of these ,ceremonies1 after a number of legges and shuflinge curtesis1 aunswers againe3 ,sir ,i am very well thus4 ,but sayes the ,judge againe1 ,cover your head ,i say4 ,yet this good fellow tourning twise or thrise to fro1 making lowe conges downe to the grounde wt muche reverence and humilitie1 aunswers him1 still3 ,i beseache your worship1 let me doe my duetie4 ,this busines and trouble lasteth so long1 so muche time is trifled3 that the ,judge might very nere have dispatched all his busines within that space4 ,then1 although it be every honest mans parte1 and the duety of every meaner body1 to honour the ,judges1 and men yt be called to worship honour3 yet1 where time will not beare it3 it is a very troublesome thing to use it1 and it must be eschewed1 or measured with reason4 ,neither be ye self same ,ceremonies semely for young men1 respecting their ,age3 yt ould men doe use together4 ,nor yet can it becom men of meane and base condition1 to use the very same1 yt gentlemen greate men may use one to another4 ,and if wee marke it well1 we shall find1 yt the greatest1 ye best men1 men of most valour1 doe not alwayes use ye most ,ceremonies them selves1 nor yet love nor looke a man should make many goodly curtsies unto them1 as men that can ill spend their thoughts one matters so vaine4 ,neither must handy crafts men1 nor men of base condition1 buisie them selves to much1 in over solemne ,ceremonies to greate men1 and ,lordes3 it is not lookt for in suche4 ,for they disdaine them1 more then allowe them3 because it seemes that in such1 they seeke1 looke1 rather for obedience and duetie1 then honour4 ,and therefore it is a foule faulte in a servaunt1 to offer his master his service3 for he counts it his shame1 he thinks the servant doth make a doubt1 whether he is master or no2 as if it were not in him to imploy him1 commaund him too4 ,these kinde of ,ceremonies would be used frankely4 ,for1 ,what a man dothe of duetie1 is taken for a debte1 and hee finds him selfe litle beholding to him that doth it4 ,but he that dothe more then he is bound to3 it seems he parteth with somewhat1 and that makes men to love him1 and to commende him for a liberall man4 ,and ,i remember mee well1 ,i have hearde it saide1 that a worthy ,graecian a greate versifier1 was ever wont to saye3 that ,he that could skill to entertaine men with a small adventure1 made a greate gaine4 ,you shall then use youre ,ceremonies1 as the tailer shapes his garments1 rather to large then to litle3 but yet not so1 that hee cutteth one hose large inough to make a cloke4 ,and if thou doe use in this point1 some litle gentle behaviour1 to suche as be meaner then thy selfe3 thou shalt be counted lowly4 ,and if thou doe asmuche to thy betters3 thou shalt bee saide a ,gentleman well taught1 and courtious4 ,but hee that dothe herin to muche1 and is over lavishe1 shalbe blamed as vaine and light3 and perhaps worse thought of too3 counted a busie body1 a fidging fellowe1 and in wise mens sight1 a flatterer3 which vice1 our elders have called1 7if ,i doe not forget me7 dowble diligence4 ,and there is no faulte in the worlde1 more to bee abhorred1 or yt worsse beseemes a gentleman1 then this4 ,and this is the thirde maner of ,ceremonies1 which simply procedeth of our owne will1 and not of custome4 ,let us then remember1 that ,ceremonies1 7as ,i have alwayes said7 were not so necessarie by nature1 but a man might doe well inough without them3 ,as for example1 our countrie lived 7it is not long since7 in maner cleane without any4 ,but other mens diseases have infected us1 with these infirmities and many mo4 ,so that1 custome and use observed3 the rest that is more1 is but waste3 and such a sufferable leesing1 as if it be more in deede then is in use1 it is not only unsufferable1 but forbidden3 and so uppon1 the matter1 a cold and unsavourie thing to noble mindes1 that cannot brouse uppon shrubbes and shewes4 ,and you shall understand1 that trusting my owne skill but little1 in writing this present treatise3 ,i thought good to consult with many1 and to take the ,judgement of better learned men then my selfe4 ,and this in my reading ,i finde4 ,there was a ,king1 they call him ,oedipus3 being banished and driven out of his countrie 7uppon what occasion ,i know not7 he fled to ,king ,theseus at ,athens1 the better to save him selfe and his life1 from his enemies1 that mainely pursued him4 ,this ,oedipus now comming before the presence of ,theseus1 by good chaunce hearing his daughter speake1 7whome he knew by her voice1 for he was blind and could not beholde her with his eyes7 he was so presently striken with joy1 that1 not tarying to doe his allegeaunce and duetie to the ,king1 he did presently embrace1 make much of his daughter before him3 his fatherly affection so led him1 and rulde him so4 ,but in the end finding his fault1 and better advising himselfe of his doings3 he would needs excuse it to ,theseus1 humbly prayd his grace to pardon his folly4 ,the good and wise ,king1 cut of his talke1 and bad him leave his excuses1 and thus saide unto him3 ,comfort thy selfe1 ,oedipus1 and bee not dismayd at that thou hast done4 ,for ,i will not have my life honoured with other mens woordes1 but with my owne deedes4 ,which sentence a man should have alwayes in mind4 ,and albeit men be well pleased1 that men doe give them worship honour3 yet when they find them selves cuningly courted1 they be soone weary of it1 and also disdaine it4 ,for these glaverings1 or flatteries ,i should say1 to amend their knaveries falsehoodes1 have this fault withall3 that these glavering fellowes doe plainly shewe1 they count him1 whome they court in this sorte1 but a vaine1 and arrogant bodie1 an asse of grose capacitie1 and so simple1 yt it should be an easie matter to baite him and take him too4 ,and these ,vaine and ,curious ,ceremonies1 besides that they be superfluous3 they beare with all a shape of flattery1 so slenderly covered1 that every man doth openly see them1 and know them plaine3 in suche sorte1 that they that doe them1 to the end to make a gaine1 besides that ill that is in them1 wherof ,i spake before3 shewe them selves also1 gentlemen ill taught1 without good maner or any honest fashion4 ,but there is another sorte of ,ceremonious people1 who make it an arte and merchandise1 and keepe a booke and a reconing of it4 ,one these men 7they say7 they must smile1 on such men they must laughe3 and ye better man shall sit in the chair1 and the other uppon a lowe stoole3 which superstitious ,ceremonies1 ,i beleve1 were transported out of ,spaine into ,italie4 ,but our country1 hath geven them but colde entertainement1 and as yet they have taken but slender roote here3 for this precise difference of worship1 and gentry1 is not liked of1 with us4 ,and therefore it is but ill maner1 for a man to make him selfe ,judge1 which is the better man4 ,but it is much worse for a man to make a sale of his ,ceremonies and entertainments1 7after ye maner of harlots7 as ,i have seene many gentlemen doe in the court1 geving good wordes and faire countenaunces for a rewarde and recompence1 of the goods and the time1 their servaunts have spent in their service4 ,and sure they that take a pleasure to use over many ,ceremonies1 more then neede3 shewe they doe it uppon a lustines and bravery1 as men that have nothing elles in them of any valour4 ,and bycause these follies are learned wt ease inough1 and carry withall a litle faire glose in shewe3 they bestowe all their whole mindes none other waye4 ,but grave matters they can not abide to weelde1 as things to farre above their reache3 and coulde finde in their harts to dwell in these toyes and trifles1 as men whose capacitie conceiveth nought of ,importaunce3 like tender milkesops that can beare no brunt3 or that1 beside a glorious outside1 have not mettall inough in them to abide a flea biting4 ,and therfore1 they could wishe it were so3 that these entertainments and acquaintance with men1 should go no further then the first sight4 ,and of these there bee an infinite number4 ,and some againe be to full of words1 and abound to muche in curtious gestures to cover and hide the defects and faults of their treacheries1 and their vile base natures3 ,for they see1 if they should be as baren rude in their woords1 as they be in their deeds their doings1 men would in no case abide them4 ,and to saye a trueth1 yow shall finde yt one of these two causes1 drawe most men one1 to use these wast and needles ,ceremonies1 and nothing els3 which lightly most men cannot away withall1 bycause they be hindered by them1 their meanes1 to live as they would1 and lose their libertie3 whiche a man dothe preferre above anything ells4 ,wee must not speake ill of other men1 nor of their doings3 althoughe it plainely appere1 that men do willingly lend good eare to heare it1 as easily moved therto1 by ye nature of malice and envy1 that pines at our ,neighbours prosperity and rising to worship honour3 for at length men will eschewe the acquaintaunce of ,slaunderous people1 as much as they shunne the ,oxe1 yt goreth with his horns1 or strikes wt his feete3 making their reconing1 that what they tell them of us1 asmuche they will tell us1 of them4 ,and some ther be1 that so quarel at every word1 question1 and wrangle1 that they shew they have litle skill in other mens natures3 for1 ,every man desireth the victory should go one his side3 and hates it asmuche1 to be mastered in words1 as to be vanquished in any other acte that he dothe4 ,so yt1 willfully to overthwart a man1 it workethe no ,love and good will3 but rather displeasure1 rancoure and malice4 ,and therfore1 he that sekes to be well thought of1 and would be taken for a pleasaunt and good ,companion1 must not so redily use these speaches3 ,it was not so3 ,and1 ,nay3 it is as ,i tell you4 ,i wil lay a wager with you3 ,but he must rather take pains1 to apply himself to other mens minds concerning such things1 as have matter of small importaunce3 ,by cause the victorye1 in such cases1 is daungerous3 for1 the gaininge the cause1 in trifling questions1 dooth often loose the ,love of a faithfull friend4 ,and men are so farre out of love liking1 of such hot fellowes3 that they will by no meanes growe acquainted with suche1 least they be driven every hower to bralle1 to chide1 and to fighte with them for it4 ,and suche kinde of people doe purchase these names3 ,maister ,uniciguerra3 ,or1 ,sir ,contraponi3 ,or1 ,sir ,tuttesalle3 ,and sometime3 il ,dottor suttile4 ,and if you chaunce otherwhile1 to be intreated of the company to speake your mind3 ,i would have you doe it after a gentle sort1 without shewing your selfe so greedie to carry the bucklers away1 as if you would eate them up for haste4 ,but you must ,leave to every man his parte3 ,and bee it right or wronge1 consent to the minds of the most1 or the most importunate3 and so leave the fielde unto them3 that some other1 and not your selfe1 may beate and sweat1 and chace in the winning of the cause4 ,for these quarelous contentions1 bee foule and ill favoured fashions for gentlemen to use3 and they get them ill will and displeasure of all men for it3 and they bee uncomely for their owne unseemelines1 which of it selfe offendeth every good honest minde1 as it may chaunce you shall heare hereafter4 ,but the common fault of men is such1 and eche man is so infected with this selfe love and liking of him selfe3 that he hath no respect or care to please any man ells4 ,and to shewe them selves fine headed1 of muche understanding1 and wise3 they counsell1 reprove1 dispute1 and bralle1 to daggers drawing1 and allowe nothing els but that they say them selves4 ,to offer advise1 unrequested3 what is it els but to vaunt youre selfe wiser then he is1 whom you do counsell3 nay rather it is a plaine checke to him1 for his ,ignoraunce and folly4 ,and therfore1 you must not do so1 with all your acquaintance generally3 but only with your very friendes1 or suche whom you are to governe rule3 or els1 when a man hapely standes in daunger perill1 how muche a straunger so ever he be4 ,but in our common ,acquaintance and conversation1 ,let us not busy our selves1 and medle to muche with other mens doings4 ,in which fault many doe fall3 but most of all1 the men of least understanding4 ,for1 ,men of grose capacities consider but litle3 ,and they take no longe time to debate with them selves1 as men that have litle busines to doe4 ,but how so ever it be1 hee that offereth and geveth his counsell3 geves us to thinke1 hee hathe this conceite of him selfe3 that all the witt is in him1 and other poore men have none at all4 ,and sure there bee some1 that stand so muche in conceite of their wit3 that they will be in maner1 at warres1 with him1 that wil not follow the counsell they give them4 ,and thus they will say3 ,very well3 a poore mans counsell will not be taken3 suche a one will doe as he list3 suche a one geves no heede to my wordes4 ,as though there were not more ,arrogancie in thee1 that sekest to bring a man to followe thy ,counsell3 then there is in him1 that followes his owne advise4 ,and they doe also make the like fault1 yt take uppon them to reprove and correct mens faults1 and to geve a definite sentence in all things1 and lay the lawe to all men4 ,suche a thing would not be done3 ,you spake suche woordes3 ,doe not so3 say not so3 ,the wine that you drinke is not good for you3 it would be red wine4 ,you should use suche an ,electuarie1 and suche pilles3 ,and they never leave to reprove and correct4 ,and let us passe that over1 that otherwhile1 they busy them selves so much1 to purge other mens grounds3 that their owne is overgrowen1 and full of thornes and nettles4 ,for it is a mervailous paine unto them1 to heare one that side4 ,and as there be few or none1 whose minds can frame1 to spend their life with a ,physition1 a ,confessour1 and muche lesse a ,judge that hath jurisdiction and power to controwle and correct all criminall faultes3 so is ther not one1 that can take any pleasure to live1 or make himself familiar with suche ,censors3 so hard1 and severe4 ,for1 every man loveth libertye3 and they woulde robbe us of it1 and get to be our masters4 ,so that it is no good manner to be so redie to corect and give rules unto men3 we must geve ,scholemasters and ,fathers leave to do that4 ,and yet that notwithstanding1 experience doth shewe1 the childeren and scholers both1 do often hide them selves from them1 you see4 ,i doe not allow1 that a man should scorne or scoffe at any man1 what so ever he be3 no not his very enimy1 what displeasure so ever he beare him3 for1 it is a greater signe of contempt and disdaine1 to scorne a man1 then to do him an open wrong3 forasmuch as wrongs may be done1 either of choler1 or of som covetous minde or other4 ,and ther is no man will take a displeasure with that1 or for that1 he doth not set by3 nor yet covet that thing1 he doth altogether contemne4 ,so that1 a man doth make some accompt of him he dothe wronge3 but of him that he scoffes and scornes1 he makes no reconing at all1 or as litle as may be4 ,and the ,nature and effect of a scorne1 is properly to take a contentation and pleasure to do another man shame and villany3 thoughe it do our selves no good in the world4 ,so that1 good maner honesty1 would us beware we scorne no man in any case3 wherin they be much to be blamed1 that reprove men those blemishes they have in their person1 either in woords1 as ,master ,forese da ,rabatta did1 laughing at the countenaunce of ,master ,giotta3 or in deeds1 as many doe1 counterfeting those that stutter1 haulte1 or be crookte shoulderd4 ,and likewise1 they that scoffe at any man1 that is deformed1 ill shapen1 leane1 litle1 or a dwarfe1 ar much to be blamed for it3 or1 that make a gibing and jesting at such follies as another man speaketh1 or the woordes that escape him by chaunce3 and with all1 have a sporte and a pleasure to make a man blush3 all these spitefull behaviours and fashions1 worthely deserve to be hated1 and make them that use them1 unworthy to beare the name of an honest gentleman4 ,and such as use to jest at a man1 be very like unto these3 ,i meane them that have a good sport to mocke and beguile men1 not in spite or scorne1 but on a meriment alone4 ,and you shall understand1 ,there is no difference betweene a scorne and a mocke3 but the purpose alone and intent a man hath1 in the meaning the one or the other4 ,for a man mockes and laughes otherwhile1 in a sport and a pastime3 but his scorne is ever in a rage and disdaine4 ,although in common speache and writing1 wee take the one woorde sometime for the other4 ,but ,he that doth scorne a man3 feeleth a contentation in the shame he hath done him3 ,and hee that dothe mocke1 or but laughe3 taketh no contentation in that he hath done3 but a sport1 to be merry passe the time away3 where it would be1 both a greefe and a sorrow1 perchaunce1 unto him1 to see that man receave any shame1 by any thing he said or did unto him4 ,and althoughe ,i profited litle1 in my ,grammar in my youthe2 yet ,i remember that ,mitio1 who loved ,aeschines so muche1 that he him selfe had wonder at it2 yet other while1 toke a sporte a pleasure to mocke him3 as when he said to him selfe3 ,i will go to give him a mocke3 so that1 ,i must inferre1 that the selfe same thing1 done to the very selfe same body3 according to the intent of him that doth it1 may be either a mocke or scorne4 ,and bycause our purpose1 cannot be plainely knowne unto other men3 it shall not be good for us to use such parts1 as bring men in doubt and suspicion1 what our intent and meaning is in them3 but rather let us eschewe them1 then seeke to be counted ,jesters4 ,for1 ,it many times chaunceth1 in boording and ,jesting1 one tackes in sporte1 the other strikes againe in earnest3 thus from playing1 they come to fraying4 ,so1 he that is familiarly mockte in pastime1 recons it1 otherwhile1 to be done to his shame dishonour1 and therat he takes a disdaine4 ,besides this1 ,a mocke is no better1 then a deceite4 ,and naturally1 it greveth every man to erre and be deceived4 ,so that1 many ,reasons ther be to prove1 ,that ,he that seekes to purchase goodwill1 and be well thought of3 must not make him selfe to cunning in mockes and ,jestes4 ,it is very true1 we are not able1 in no wise1 to leade this paineful life1 altogether without some pleasure and solace3 ,and bycause ,jestes do geve us some sporte1 and make us merry1 and so consequently refreash our spirits3 we love them that be pleasaunt1 merry conceited1 and full of solace4 ,so that a body would thinke1 ,i should rather persuade the contrarie3 ,i meane1 ,i shoulde say3 ,it is convenient and meete in company1 to use prety mockes1 and otherwhile some ,jestes and taunts4 ,and without doubt1 they that can stint after a friendly and gentle sort1 be muche more made of1 and better beloved then they that cannot skill or have no wit to doe it4 ,howbeit1 it is needeful in this1 to have a respect to many things4 ,and forasmuche as it is the intent of him that doth ,jest3 to make a sport and pastime at his faulte1 whome he doth love and esteeme1 and of whom he doth make more then a common account3 it must be well lookte to1 that the fault1 wherin his friend hath fallen1 be suche1 as he may sustaine no slaunder or shame1 or any harme by any talke or ,jeste he makes uppon it3 otherwise1 his skil doth ill serve him1 to make a good difference betweene a pleasaunt ,jest1 and a very plaine wronge4 ,and there be some men1 so short so testy1 that you must1 in no wise1 be merry1 nor use any jesting with them4 ,and that can ,biondello well tell1 by ,maister ,philippo ,argenti in the gallery of ,caviccioli4 ,and moreover1 ,it cannot be good to jeaste in matters of weite1 and muche lesse in matters of shame4 ,for1 men will weene that wee have a good sporte 7as the common saying is7 to bragge and boast in our evill3 as it is said1 the ,lady ,philippe of ,prato1 took a singular pleasure and contentation in the pleasaunt prety aunswer she made1 to excuse her loose and wanton life4 ,and therefore1 ,i cannot thinke that ,lupo of ,uberti did any thing extenuat or lessen his shame3 but rather increaste it greater1 by the ,jeste that hee made to excuse his faulte1 and qualifye the opinion of his cowardly minde4 ,for1 where he might have kept him selfe safe without daunger in the castle of ,laterin1 wherein he was besieged round about1 and shutte up3 hee thought hee had plaide the man good inoughe1 in that hee could say at the yealding it up3 that ,a wolfe doth not love to be besieged and shutte up4 ,for1 where it is out of time for to laughe1 there to use any ,jestes or daliaunce1 it hath a very colde ,grace4 ,and further1 you shall understand1 there be some ,jestes yt bite1 some yt bite not at all4 ,for the first sorte3 let yt wise counsell that ,lauretta gave for that point1 suffice to teach you3 ,that ,jestes must bite the hearer like a sheepe1 but not like a dogge4 ,for if it pinche1 as the bite of a dogge3 it shalbe no more a ,jeste but a wronge4 ,and the lawes almost in all countries1 will1 that who saith any villanie unto a man1 shalbe grevously punished for it4 ,and1 perchaunce1 it were not amisse1 to provide with all1 some sharp correction for him1 that should bite in way of jesting1 beyond all honest measure4 ,but gentlemen should make account1 that the lawe that punisheth wronges1 extendeth as farre to jestes1 and that they should seldome or very easily nip or taunt any man4 ,and besides all this1 you must understand1 that a jest1 whether it bite1 or bite not1 if it be not fine full of wit1 men take no pleasure at al to heare it1 but rather are wearied with it3 or at least wise1 if they doe laughe1 they laughe not at the jest1 but at the jester him selfe1 that brings it forthe so colde4 ,and bycause1 ,jestes be no other thing but deceites3 and deceite 7as a thing that is framed of subtilenes craft7 cannot be wrought but of men1 that have fine and redy wittes1 and very present3 therefore they have no grace in men that be rude1 and of grose understanding3 not yet in them alwayes1 that have the best and floweing wittes3 as1 peradventure1 they did not altogether become ,master ,john ,boccaccio4 ,but tauntes and ,jestes be a special redines and aptnes of wit1 and quicken the motions of the minde3 wherefore they that have discretion1 doe not in this point1 consider their will1 but their disposition of nature3 and after they have once or twise tried their wittes1 and finde them unfit for suche purpose3 they leave to labour them selves any further in that kind of exercise3 that it may not chaunce unto them1 that hapt to the knight of the lady ,horetta4 ,and if you looke in to the maners of many1 you shall easily see1 this that ,i tell you is true3 ,i say1 that ,to ,jest or to taunt1 is not currant with every man that will1 but onely with them that can4 ,and there be many that for every purpose1 have in their mouth redy1 many of these wordes1 which wee call ,bicticcichi3 that have no maner of sense or meaning in them4 ,and some1 that use very foolishly and fondly to chaunge ,sillables into woords4 ,and some you shall heare speake and make answer1 otherwise then a man would lightly looke for1 without any wit or pleasure in the world in their talke4 ,and if you doe aske them1 ,doue e il signore8 they answer againe4 ,doue egli ha i piedi3 and likewise ,et gli fece unguer le mani con le grascia di signore ,giovan ,boccadoro4 ,doue mi manda egli8 ,ad ,arno4 ,io mi vogli radere1 ,sarebbe meglio rodere4 ,va chiama il ,barbieri4 ,et perrhe non il ,barbadomani4 ,al which be to grose1 to rude and to stale3 and such were almost1 all the pleasaunt purposes and jestes of ,dioneo4 ,but ,i will not take uppon me at this time1 to discourse of the best and the worst kinde of jestes1 what they be3 aswel for that other men have written treatises thereof much more lernedly and better then ,i can3 as also1 bycause jestes and tauntes1 have at first sight1 a large and sure proofe of their grace or disgrace3 such1 as thou canst not do much amisse in this point1 wtout thou stand to much in thy owne conceite1 and think to well of thy selfe3 for where the jest is prety and pleasaunt1 there a man straite is merry1 and shewes a liking by laughing1 and makes a kinde of admiration of it4 ,so that1 where the company geves foorth no liking of thy sportes and conceites1 by their mirthes and their laughing3 hould thy selfe still then1 and jest no more4 ,for it is thy owne faulte thou must think1 and not theirs that do heare the3 forasmuch as the hearers1 as it were allured1 with the redie1 pleasaunt1 and subtile aunswers or questions 7do what they can1 will they or nill they7 cannot forbeare their laughing1 but laughe in spite of their teeth4 ,from whom as from our right lawfull ,judges1 wee must not appeale to our selves4 ,neither must a man1 to make other men merie1 speake foule and filthie wordes1 nor make ilfavoured gestures1 distorting his countenaunce1 disfiguring his bodie3 ,for1 ,no man should1 for other mens pleasures1 dishonest dishonour him self4 ,it is an arte for a ,juggler jester to use3 it doth not become a gentleman to do so4 ,we must not then1 imitate ye common and rude behaviours of ,dioneo4 ,madonna ,aldruda ,alzate ,la coda4 ,nor we must not counterfet our selves to be fooles unsavorie doltes3 but as time occasion serveth1 tell some pretie tale or some news1 never heard of before1 he yt can3 he yt cannot1 let him hold his peace4 ,for1 these be ye partes of ye wit3 which1 if they be sodain prety1 give a proofe a shew of ye quicknes of ye wit1 the goodnes of ye maners of him yt speakes them3 which thing doth verie much please men makes them our lovers friends4 ,but if they be otherwise1 they woorke them a contrary effect4 ,for1 a man would weene the asse would play his parte3 or yt some hody dody louberly lout would friske and daunce in his doublet4 ,there is another pleasaunte kind of communication1 yt is when ye pleasure grace doth not consist in one merrie conceite alone1 but in long continued talke3 which would be well disposed1 wel uttered1 very wel set forth1 to shew ye maners1 ye fashions1 ye gestures behaviours of them we speke1 of so properly lively1 as ye hearer should think that he heareth them not rehearsed1 but seeth them with his eyes do those very things he heares them to speak of3 which be very well observed by the gentlemen and gentlewomen both1 in ,boccace3 although yet otherwhile 7if ,i be not deceived7 they do affect and counterfet1 more then is sightly for a gentleman or gentlewoman to doe1 like to these ,comedie ,players4 ,and to doe this well1 you must have the matter1 the tale1 or the story1 you take uppon you to tell1 perfect in your minde3 and woordes so redy and fit1 that you neede not say in the end3 ,that thing1 and tother thing3 ,this man1 what doe you call him3 ,that matter1 helpe me to terme it3 ,and1 remember what his name is4 ,for this is just the trot of the knight of the ,lady ,horetta4 ,and if you doe reherse any chaunce1 in which there be many speakers3 you must not say1 ,he said and he aunswered3 bycause this worde 7,he7 serveth for all men4 ,so that the hearer that harkens unto it1 is easily deceived1 and forgets whome you meane4 ,then1 it behoves them that discourse matters at length1 to use proper names1 not to chaunge them after4 ,and more over1 a man must beware that he say1 not those things1 which unsaide in silence would make ye tale pleasaunt inoughe and peradventure1 geve it a better grace to leave them out4 ,as to say thus4 ,such a one1 that was the sonne of such a one1 that dwelt in ,cocomer streete3 do you knowe him8 he maried the daughter of ,gianfigliazzi1 the leane scragge1 that went so much to ,saint ,laraunce4 ,no8 do not you know him8 why8 do you not remember the goodly straight old man that ware long haire downe to his shoulders8 ,for if it were nothing materiall to the tale1 whether this chaunce befell him1 or him3 all this long babble1 and fond and folishe questions1 were but a tale of a ,tubbe3 to no purpose1 more then to weary mens eares that harken to it1 and long to understand the end4 ,as peradventure our ,dant hath made this fault otherwhile1 where he sayeth3 ,and borne my parents were of yoare in ,lumbardie1 ,and eke of ,mantuaes soile they both by country be4 ,for1 it was to no purpose1 whether his mother were borne at ,gazuolo1 or ells at ,cremona4 ,but ,i lerned once of a straunger1 a ,rethorician very lerned1 a necessarie lesson concerning this poinct3 that ,men must dispose and order their tale1 first with bynames1 and then rehearse them 7as neede is7 that be proper4 ,for1 the bynames alwayes beare the respect of the persones qualitie3 but the other are to be used at the ,fathers discretion1 or his whome they concerne4 ,and therfore1 that bodie whome in your thought and imagination to your selfe1 you doe conceive1 might be ,lady ,covetousnes her selfe3 in speache you shall call ,maister ,erminio ,grimaldi3 if suche be the common opinion1 the countrie hathe of him4 ,and1 if there be no man in place where you dwell1 so notoriously knowne as might serve the turne fit for your purpose3 you must then imagine the case further of1 and set him a name at your pleasure4 ,it is very true1 that ,with muche greater pleasure we harken and better beholde 7as it were with our eyes7 what soever is told us of men of our acquaintance1 if the matter be suche as toucheth their maners3 then what we doe heare of straungers and men unknowne unto us4 ,and the reason is this3 when wee doe knowe1 that suche a man is woont to doe so3 we doe easily beleeve1 he hathe doone so indeede3 and wee take asmuche knoweledge of him1 as if wee were present3 where it chaunceth not so with us1 in the case of a straunger4 ,our wordes 7be it in longe discourses or other communication7 ,must be so plaine1 that all the companie may easily understand them3 and withall1 for sounde and sense they must be apt and sweete4 ,for if you be to use one of these two wordes3 you shall rather say1 ,il ventre3 then ,l',epa4 ,and where your country speache will beare it1 you shall rather say3 ,la ,pancia1 then il ,ventre3 ,or1 il ,corpo4 ,for1 by these meanes you shalbe understoode1 and not misse understoode1 as we ,florentines say1 nor be darke and obscure to the hearers4 ,the which thing our ,poet1 meaning to eschewe3 in this very woorde it selfe 7,i beleve7 sought to finde out another1 not thinking muche of his paines 7bycause it liked him wel7 to seeke farre to borrow it els where4 ,and said3 ,remember how the ,lorde a man was faine to be1 ,for mans offence and sinne in ,cloister of virginitie4 ,and albeit ,dant the learned ,poet1 did litle set by suche kinde of rules3 ,i doe not think yet1 a man should allow well of him in doing so4 ,and sure1 ,i would not councell you to make him your ,maister in this point1 to learne ,a ,grace3 forasmuche as he him selfe had none4 ,for1 this ,i finde in a ,chronicle of him4 ,this ,dant1 was somewhat proude for his knowledge1 scornefull and disdainfull1 and muche 7as ,philosophers be7 without any grace or courtesie3 having no skill to behave him selfe in company4 ,but to come to our purpose againe3 ,i say1 our speache must be plaine3 which will be easie inough to doe3 if you have wit to choose those wordes that be naturally bred in our soile3 and with all not so olde wt ,age1 that they are become rotten and withered3 and as overworne apparell1 leaft of and cast a side4 ,as1 ,spaldo1 and ,epa1 and ,vopo1 and ,sezzaio1 ,primaio4 ,and moreover1 the wordes you shall use1 must have no double understanding1 but simple4 ,for by coupling suche wordes together3 wee frame that speache that is called ,aenigma4 ,and to speake it plainer in our owne language1 we call it ,gergo4 ,as in this verse3 ,io vidi un che da sette passatoi ,fu da un canto all' altro trapassato4 ,againe1 our wordes would be1 7as nere as they might be7 aptly and properly applied to that thing we go about to deliver1 as litle as may be1 common to other matters3 for1 in so doing1 a man shall weene1 the matter it selfe is openly laide before him3 that it is not expressed with wordes1 but pointed foorthe with the finger4 ,and therefore we may more properly say3 ,a man is knowen by his countenaunce1 then by his figure or counterfet4 ,and ,dant did better expresse the matter1 when he saide1 ,the weightes ,that peize the weight doe make the balance creeke1 ,then if he had saide ,crie out and make a noise4 ,and it is a more proper and peculiar speache to say1 ,the shivering of an ague1 then to call it ,the ,colde4 ,and flesh that is ,tidie1 to terme it rather1 ,fatte3 then ,fulsome4 ,ther be some woordes more in this place to like effect1 which ,i meane not to stande uppon now3 bycause our ,englishe tounge cannot hansomely deliver their perfect meaning4 ,for the ,italians have 7as we have1 and all other ,countreis ells as well as wee7 certaine peculiar wordes and termes1 so naturally and properly their owne1 as it is not possible to expresse them aptly and perfectly in any other ,language4 ,and therefore the ,author him selfe1 fearing1 or knowing asmuche in the sense of these wordes1 which he hath inferred in this place 7as it were preventing a blame7 in maner excuseth and speaketh asmuch as ,i say1 as the matter it selfe that insueth doth shewe4 ,for1 the ,author him selfe following his purpose saithe thus4 ,i am well assured1 if some straunger should1 unhappely for my credite1 hit uppon this treatise of mine3 he would laughe mee to scorne1 and say that ,i taught to speake in riddles1 or els in ,ciphers4 ,for as muche as these wordes1 be almost so properly our owne1 that other countries have no acquaintance with them3 or1 if they woulde use them1 yet they cannot tell how to understand them4 ,for1 who is it that knowes what ,dant ment in this verse4 ,gia veggia per ,mezzul perdere o ,lulla4 ,sure1 ,i beleeve no man ells but we that are ,florentines can understand it4 ,notwithstanding1 for any thing that ,i have saide1 if there be any fault in this text of ,dant3 it is not in the wordes4 ,but1 if he have faulted1 it is rather in this3 that 7as a man somewhat wilfull7 he would take uppon him1 a matter harde to be uttered in wordes1 and per adventure unplesaunt to heare3 then that he hath exprest it ill4 ,it is not then for a man to use any talke1 with him that understandeth not that language you talke unto him4 ,nor yet1 bycause a ,douche man understandes not the ,italian tounge1 must wee 7for that cause7 breake of our talke1 to holde talke with him1 to make our selves counterfets1 as ,maister ,brusaldo did1 and as some other be woont1 that fondly and coldly1 without any grace1 thrust them selves in to ,chat in their language with whome they talke1 what so ever it be1 and chop it out every worde preposterously4 ,and many times it chaunceth1 the ,spaniard talkes ,italian with the ,italian1 and the ,italian babbles againe in a bravevery and gallantnes1 the ,spanishe toung with the ,spaniard4 ,and yet1 it is an easier thing to know1 yt they both talke like strangers3 then to forbeare to laugh at the folish follies that scape them both in speache4 ,let us not therfore use our forreigne language1 but when it is needefull for us to be understoode1 for some necessitie or other1 that appertaineth unto us3 ,and in common use1 use our owne tounge1 thoughe not altogether so good3 rather then a forreigne language1 better then our owne that is naturall unto us4 ,for a ,lumbarde shall speake his owne tounge more aptly 7which is1 notwithstanding1 but base and barbarous7 then he shall speake the ,tuscane1 or other language3 even bycause he hath not so redily1 so proper and peculiar wordes1 althoughe he studie much for them1 as wee our selves that be ,tuscanes4 ,but yet1 if a man have a respect to them with whome he talkes3 and for that cause forbeare leave out those singular wordes1 7which ,i have spoken of7 and in stede of them use the generall and common3 his talke1 by suche meanes1 shall have the lesse pleasure delight4 ,besides this1 it becometh everie honest gentleman1 to eschewe those wordes that have no honest meaning4 ,and1 ,the goodnes of wordes consisteth either in their sound1 or pronouncing3 or1 in their sense and meaning4 ,for as much as som wordes speake an honest matter1 and yet1 perchaunce1 there is a certaine unhonest sense perceaved to stand in the pronouncinge of the worde it selfe3 as ,rinculare3 which1 notwithstanding1 is daily used of all men4 ,but if a man or woman should speake after this sorte1 at that verie warning doe it in sight of any 7che si dice il farsi indietro7 then would the grosenesse of the worde plainlie appeare unto them4 ,but our ,palate1 throughe ,custome and ,use1 happilie tasteth ye wine 7as it were7 and the bestnes of the sense of the worde1 and not ye ,dregges or ,leeze4 ,she gave the ,spanish figge with both her thumbes at once4 ,saith ,dant4 ,but our women1 would be much ashamed to speake so3 yea to shunne this ambiguous woord1 yt signifieth a worse matter1 they rather say ,le castagne4 ,albeit yet some of them at unwares1 many times1 name that unadvisedly1 which if another man had spoken to trie them1 would have made them blushe to heare that remembred in way of blasphemie1 which makes them women4 ,and therefore1 suche as be1 or would be better mannered or taught1 take good heede they doe eschewe1 not only things uncleane and unhonest1 but woordes also3 and not somuche those that be evill indeede1 but those that may be1 or doe but seeme to be unhonest1 foule filthie3 as some men say these are of ,dant4 ,she blewe large blastes of winde ,both in my face and under4 ,or els these4 ,i pray thee tell mee where about the hole doth stand4 ,and one of the ,spirits said4 ,then come behinde and where the hole is1 it may be scand4 ,and you must knowe1 that albeit two1 or moe wordes1 otherwhile chaunce to tell one selfe thinge1 yet the one is more cleanly then the other4 ,as for example1 to say3 ,con lui giacque1 ,della sua persona gli sodisfece4 ,for this self same speach1 if it were in other termes1 would be to broad before to filthie to heare it4 ,and speaking of ,endymion1 you may more aptly say3 ,il ,vago della ,luna3 then you can say ,il ,drudo1 althoughe both these wordes doe import and signifie ,a lover1 and a ,friend4 ,and a much honester speache is it1 if you talke of ,aurora1 to call1 her4 ,tritons prety gerle and lover1 then ,concubine4 ,and it better becomes a mans and womans mouth1 to call ,harlots1 women of the worlde 7as ,belcolore did1 who was more ashamed to speake it then to doe it7 then to use their common name3 ,thaide la ,puttana4 ,and as ,boccace declared ye power of ,meretrici and ,ragazzi4 ,for1 se cosi hauesse nominato dall'arte loro i maschi1 come nomin le femine2 his talke would have byn foule shamefull4 ,and withall1 ,a man must not alone beware of unhonest and filthie talke3 but also of that whiche is base and vile1 and especially where a man talketh discourseth of greate and highe matters4 ,and for this ,cause1 perchaunce1 woorthely some blame our ,beatrice1 sayeing3 ,to passe throughe ,lethes floud1 the highest ,fates would blott1 ,if man mighte taste the ,viandes suche1 as there dooe fall by ,lott1 ,and not pay firste a due repentaunce for his scott4 ,for1 in my conceite1 these base wordes that come out of the ,tavernes1 bee verie uncomely for suche a worthy discourse4 ,and when a man hathe like occasion to speake of ye ,sunne1 it shall not be good to call it ,the ,candell or the ,lampe of the world3 bycause such woordes do put us in minde of ye ,oyle1 the stuffe of the kitchin4 ,neither should a man that is well advised1 say that ,saincte ,dominicke was ,il ,drudo della ,theologia3 ,nor yet talke1 that the glorious ,sainctes have spoken suche base and vile woordes3 ,as for ,example to say4 ,and leave to scratche whereas the scabs of sinne breake out4 ,for they savour of ye dregges1 ye filth of ye common people1 as every man may easily see4 ,againe1 in your long and large discourses1 you must have ye like considerations cares1 some more3 ye which you may more commodiously learne of your ,maisters yt teache you yt arte1 that is commonly called ,rhetorike4 ,and amongest other things1 ,you must accustome your selfe1 to use suche gentle and courtious speache to men1 and so sweete1 that it may have no maner of bitter taste4 ,and you shall rather say1 ,i cannot tell how to say it3 ,then say3 you ar deceived3 ,or1 it is not true3 ,or1 you know it not4 ,for1 it is a courteous and friendly parte to excuse a mans faulte1 even in that very thing1 wherein you know how to blame him4 ,and withall1 it doth well1 to make the proper and peculiar fault of your friend1 indifferent and common to you both3 and first1 to take one piece to your selfe1 and then after1 to blame and reprove him for it4 ,wee were deceived and failed muche3 we forgot our selves yesterday to doe so4 ,althoughe suche negligence errour1 or what soever it be3 be altogether his fault and not yours4 ,and ,restagnone forgat him selfe muche1 when he saide to his companions3 ,if your wordes doe not lie4 ,for1 ,a man should not bring another mannes faithe and honestie in question and doubte4 ,but1 if a man promise you any thing1 and doe not performe it3 it shall not doe well1 for you to say unto him1 ,you have lost your credite with mee3 without some necessarie cause doe drive you to say so1 as to save your owne credite and honestie4 ,but1 you shall rather say3 ,you could not do it3 ,or1 you did not remember to doe it3 ,then1 you have cleane forgotten mee4 ,for1 these kinde of speaches1 have some prickles stinges of ,complaint1 ,anger and ,choler4 ,so that1 suche as use them selves to speake suche churlishe and fumishe woordes1 are taken for sharpe and sower fellowes3 men doe asmuche shunne their acquaintance3 as to thrust them selves uppon thornes and thistles4 ,and bycause ,i knowe som1 of this naughtie condition qualitie3 ,i meane some yt be so hastie and greedy to speake1 yt they take not the sense with them1 but over passe it and runne before it1 as the grehound1 that doth not pinche by overshooting his game3 ther fore ,i will not spare to tell you that1 which may be thought needeles to touche1 as a thing to well knowen3 and that is1 that ,you shall never speake1 before you have first considered laide the plot in your minde what it is you have to saie4 ,for in so doing1 your talke shalbe well delivered and not borne before the time4 ,i trust1 straungers will easily beare with this worde3 if at least they vouchsafe to read these trifles of mine4 ,and if you doe not skorne my preceptes3 it shall never chaunce you to say3 welcome ,maister ,agostino1 to such a one1 whose name is ,agnolo1 or ,bernardo4 ,and you shal never need to say1 ,tell me your name3 ,nor say againe1 ,i saide not well3 ,nor1 ,lorde what doe ,i call him3 ,nor to hack and to stutter long together1 to finde out a worde1 ,maister ,arrigo3 no ,master ,arabico3 ,tushe1 what doe ,i call him ,i should say1 ,maister ,agabito4 ,these fonde foolish behaviours fashions1 paine a man as much to heare them1 as to be drawne and haled with cordes4 ,the voice would be neither hoarse nor shrill4 ,and1 when you laugh and sporte in any sorte3 you must not crye out and criche like the ,pullye of a well3 nor yet speake in your yawning4 ,i knowe well it is not in us1 to geve our selves a ready tongue or perfect voice at our owne will and pleasure4 ,hee yt doth stutter1 or is hoarse3 let him not alwayes bable and gabbe1 and keepe a courte alone3 let him rather amend the defect of his tounge with silence1 and hearinge3 and withall 7if hee can7 with studie diminishe the fault of ,nature4 ,it is an ill noise to heare a man raise his voice highe1 like to a common ,crier4 ,and yet ,i would not have him speake so lowe and softly1 that he that harkens1 shall not heare him4 ,and if he be not heard at ye first time he speaketh1 he must speake1 the next time1 somewhat plainer3 but yet1 not yoape out aloude1 that he make not men thinke he is woode and angry with them3 for hee shall doe but well1 to rehearse that againe he hath spoken1 yt men may understand what he said4 ,your wordes would be disposed1 even as the common use of speache doth require and not unsorted1 disordered and scattered confusedly3 as many be woont to doe uppon a bravery1 whose maner of talke is more like a ,scrivener 7me thinke7 that readeth in his mother tounge1 the ,indenture he hath written before in latine3 then a man that reasoneth or talketh in his ,naturall language3 as this for example4 ,they drawe by sent of false and fained steps of truth4 ,or if a man should preposterously place his wordes thus4 ,those times did blossomes geve before their time of soothe4 ,which maner of speache1 may be otherwhile allowed in versifiers3 but it is utterly forbidden in common talke4 ,and1 it behoves a man1 not onely to shunne this versifying maner of speache1 in his familiar and common discourse1 or talke3 but likewise eschewe ye pomp1 bravery1 affectation1 that may be suffered and allowed to inriche an ,oration1 spoken in a publike place4 ,otherwise1 men that doe heare it1 will but spite it1 and laughe him to scorne for it4 ,albeit perchaunce1 a ,sermon may shewe a greater cunning and arte1 then common talke4 ,but1 ,everie thing must have his time and place4 ,for1 he that walkes by the way must not daunce1 but goe4 ,for1 every man hath not the skill to daunce1 yet every man can skill to goe4 ,but1 ,dauncing is meete for feastes weddings3 it is not to use in the stretes4 ,you must then take good heede you speake not with a majestie4 ,it is thought by many ,philosophers4 ,and suche is all ,filocolo1 and the other treatises of ,maister ,john ,boccace1 except his greater woorke1 and litle more perchaunce ,corbaccio4 ,i would not for al this1 that you should use so base a speache1 as ye scum1 as it were1 and the froth of the meanest and vilest sorte of people1 ,launderers ,hucksters3 but suche as gentlemen should speake talke1 which ,i have partly told you before1 in what sort it may be done3 that is1 if you talke of matters that be neither vile1 vaine1 fowle1 nor lothesome4 ,and if you have skill to choose amongest the woords of your owne countrie speache1 the purest and most proper1 suche as have the best sounde1 and best sense1 touching nor remembring1 in no case1 no matter that is foule1 vile and base3 if you can place your woords in good order1 and not shoofle them together at random1 nor yet1 with over muche ,curious studie1 file them 7as it were7 one your beades4 ,moreover1 if you do dispose such things as you have to say with discretion4 ,and take good hede that you couple not unfit unlikely matters together3 as for ,example4 ,as sure as ,god is in ,heaven3 ,so stands the staffe in the chimny corner4 ,and if you speake not so slowe1 as if you were unlustie3 nor so hasty1 as if you wer hungrie3 but as a wise and a temperate man should doe4 ,likewise1 if you pronounce youre woords and your sillables with a certaine grace sweetnes3 not as a ,scholemaister yt teacheth young ,children to read to spell4 ,neither must you mumble them nor supp them up1 as if they were glued pasted together one to another4 ,if you remember these and such other rules and precepts3 youre talke will be liked1 and heard with pleasure enoughe3 and you shall well maintaine the state and countenaunce1 that well besemeth a gentleman well taught and honest4 ,besids these1 there be some1 that never hould their tounge4 ,and as the shippe that sailes1 doth not presently stand still1 by taking downe the sailes3 ,so doe they runne forward1 as caried away with a certaine braide3 and loosing the matter of their talke1 yet leave not to babble1 but either repeate that againe that is said1 or els speake still they cannot tell what4 ,and there be other so full of babble1 that they will not suffer another to speake4 ,and as wee doe see otherwhile1 uppon the flowers in the countrie where they thresh corne1 one ,pullet pull the corne out of the others beake3 so doe they catche the tale out of his mouth yt beganne it1 and tell it them selves4 ,and sure1 suche maner of people1 induce men to quarell and fight with them for it4 ,for1 if you doe marke it wel3 ,nothing moves a man sooner to anger3 then when he is soudainely cut short of his will and his pleasure1 be it of never so little and small importaunce4 ,as when you gape wide with yawning3 another should thrust his hand in your mouth3 or when you doe lift your arme redy to hurle a stone3 it is soudainly staide by one that stands behinde you4 ,even then1 as these doings1 and many moe like unto these1 which tend to hinder the will and desire of another 7albeit but in way of sporte of play7 are unseemely1 and would be eschewed3 ,so in talke and communication with men1 wee should rather pull one1 and further their desiers1 by what meanes we can1 then stop them and hinder them in it4 ,and therefore1 ,if any man be in a redines to tell his tale3 it is no good maner to interrupte him3 nor to say that you doe knowe it well4 ,or1 if hee besprinckle his tale here and there1 with some prety lie3 you must not reprove him for it1 neither in wordes nor in gesture1 as shaking your hed1 or scowling uppon him1 as many be wont3 gloriously vaunting them selves1 that they can1 by no meanes1 abide the taste of a ,lie4444 ,but1 this is not the reason of this1 it is the sharpenes and sowernes of their owne rusticall eager ,natures1 which makes them so venemous bitter in all companies they come3 that no man cares for their acquaintance4 ,likewise1 ,it is an illfavoured condition to stop another mans tale in his mouth3 and it spites him asmuche1 as if a man should take him by the sleeve hould him backe1 even when he is redie to runne his course4 ,and when another man is in a tale1 it is no good maner for you1 by telling the company some newes1 drawing their mindes to other matters1 to make them forsake him cleane1 and leave him alone4 ,for1 it is an uncourtious parte for you to leade and carry away the company3 which the other 7not you7 hath brought together4 ,and1 when a man tells his tale1 you must geve good eare unto him3 that you may not say otherwhile1 ,o what83 ,or1 how83 which is many a mans fashion to doe4 ,and this is asmuch trouble and paine to him that speaketh3 as to shoofle against ye stones1 to him that goeth4 ,all these fashions1 and generally1 that which may stoppe1 and that which may traverse the course of another mans talke1 must be shunned4 ,and1 if a man tell his tale slowe like a drawe-latche3 you must not yet hasten him forwarde1 nor lende him woordes1 although you be quicker in speache then hee4 ,for1 many doe take that ill1 and specially suche1 as persuade themselves they have a ,joly grace in telling a tale4 ,for1 they doe imagine you thinke not so well of them1 as they themselves doe3 ,and that you would geve them instructions in their owne ,arte3 as ,merchaunts that live in greate wealth plentie1 would count it a greate reproche unto them1 that a man should proffer them money1 as if they lived in lacke1 were poore and stoode in neede of releefe4 ,and you must understand1 that1 ,every man in his owne conceite1 thinkes he can tell his tale well3 althoughe for modestie sake he deny it4 ,and ,i cannot gesse how it cometh to passe1 that the veriest foole doth babble most3 which over muche prattle1 ,i would not have a gentleman to use1 and specially1 if his skill be but scant in the matter in talke3 ,not onely1 bycause it is a hard matter3 but1 ,he must run in many faults that talkes muche3 but also1 bycause a man weenes1 that1 ,he that talkes all the talke to him selfe1 woulde 7after a sorte7 preferre him self above them all that heare him1 as a ,maister would be above his scholers4 ,and therfore1 ,it is no good maner for a man to take uppon him a greater state1 then doth become him4 ,and in this fault1 not men alone1 but many countries fall into1 so cackling and prattling3 that1 woe be their eares that geve them hearing4 ,but1 as over muche babble makes a man weary3 so doth over muche ,silence procure as greate disliking4 ,for1 ,to use silence in place where other men talke to and fro3 is in maner1 asmuche a fault1 as not to pay your share and scot as other men doe4 ,and as speache is a meane to shewe men your minde1 to whome you speake3 so1 doth ,silence againe make men wene1 you seke to be unknowne4 ,so yt1 as those people which use to drinke muche at feastes1 and make them selves drunke1 are wont to thrust them out of their companie1 that will not take their drinke as they doe3 ,so be these kinde of mute still fellowes1 coldly welcome to pleasaunt and mery companie1 that meete to passe the time away in pleasure and talke4 ,so that1 ,it is good maner for a man to speake1 and likewise to hold his peace1 as it comes to his turne1 and occasion requires4 ,as an old ,chronicle maketh mention4 ,there was in the parts of ,morea1 a very good workman in stone3 ,who for ye singular good skill he had in his ,art1 was called 7as ,i take it7 ,maestro ,chiarissimo4 ,this man 7now well strooken in yeares7 made a certaine treatise1 therin gathered together al ye precepts rules of his arte3 as the man yt had very good skill to doe it3 shewing in what sorte the proportions and lineaments of the body1 should be duely measured1 as well everyone a parte by it selfe1 as one respecting another3 yt they might justly duely be answerable ye one to the other3 which treatise of his1 he named ,regolo4 ,meaning to shewe1 that according to that1 all the ,images and pictures1 that from thensforth any workeman should make1 should be squared lined forth3 as ye beames1 and ye stones1 and the walles1 are measured by ye rules precepts of that booke4 ,but1 for that it is a muche easier matter to speake it1 then to worke it1 or doe it3 and besides that1 ,the greatest number of men1 especially of us that be prophane and not learned1 have our senses much quicker then our understanding1 and consequently1 better conceive particular things and ,examples1 then the generall propositions and ,syllogismes 7which ,i might terme in plainer speache1 ,reasons7 for this cause this worthy man ,i speake of1 having regard to the ,nature of workemen3 whose capacities are unfit and unable to weeld the weighte of generall ,precepts and rules3 and to declare more plainely1 with all his cunning and skill3 having found out for his purpose1 a fine marble stone1 with muche labour and paine1 he fashioned and shaped an ,image of it1 as perfectly proportioned in every parte and member3 as the precepts and rules of his treatise had before devised4 ,and as he named the booke1 so did he name that ,image1 and called it by name of ,regolo4 ,now1 7and it pleased god7 ,i would ,i could but one parte of those twoe points1 which that noble ,ingraver worckeman ,i speake of1 had perfect skill and knowledge to doe3 ,i meane1 that ,i could gather together in this treatise1 after a sorte1 the due measures of this ,art ,i take uppon me to treate of4 ,for1 to perfourme the other1 to make the second ,regolo3 ,i meane1 to use and observe in my maners1 the measures ,i speake of1 framing and forming1 as it were1 ,a ,visible ,example1 and a material ,image of them3 it were now1 to muche for me to doe4 ,for asmuch as1 ,it is not inough to have knowledge and ,art1 in matters concerning maners fashions of men3 ,but it is needefull withall1 to worke them to a perfect effect1 to practise and use them muche3 which cannot be had uppon the soudaine1 nor learned by by3 but it is number of yeares that must winne it3 ye beste parte of mine be runne fourth alredy1 you see4 ,but for all this1 you must not make ye lesse reconing of these precepts4 ,for1 ,a man may well teache another the way3 although he have gone out of the way himself4 ,and1 peradventure1 they that have lost their wayes1 do better remember the hard wayes to find3 then they that never went a misse4 ,and1 if in mine infancie1 when minds be tender and pliable1 like a young twigge1 they that had ye charge governement of me1 had had the skill to smoothe my manners1 7perhaps of ,nature somwhat hard and rude7 and would have polished and wrought them fine3 peradventure ,i should have beene such ,a one1 as ,i travaile to make thee ,nowe1 whome ,i love no lesse then if thou were my sonne4 ,for albeit1 the power of ,nature be greate3 yet is she many times ,maistered and corrected by custome3 ,but1 we must in time begin to encounter and beate her downe1 before she get to muche strength and hardines4 ,but most men will not doe so3 but rather yealding to their appetite without any striving1 following it where so ever it leades them1 thinke they must submitte themselves to ,nature3 ,as though ,reason were not a naturall thing in man4 ,but1 ,reason hath 7as a ,lady and ,mistris7 power to chaunge olde customes1 and to helpe hold up ,nature1 when she doth at any time decay and fall4 ,but very seldome we harken unto her4 ,and yt for ye moste parte1 maketh us like unto them whome god hath not endued wt ,reason3 ,i mean brute beastes1 in whome notwithstanding1 something yet worketh3 not their owne ,reasons 7for they have none of them selves7 but ours3 as in horses you see it3 which by nature would be ever wilde1 but yt their rider makes them tame1 and withal1 after a sorte1 redy very well paced4 ,for many of them would have a hard trot1 but that the rider makes them have an easier pace4 ,and some he doth teache to stand still1 to galopp1 to treade the ringe1 and passe the carreere3 ,and they learne to doe it all well you see4 ,then1 if the horse1 the dog1 ye hauke1 many other beastes besides1 more wilde then these1 be guided and ruled by ,reason1 and learne that which their owne ,nature cannot attaine1 but rather repugneth3 and become after a sorte cunning and skilfull1 so farre as their kinde doth beare it1 not by ,nature1 but by custome use3 how muche then may we thinke wee should excell them1 by the precepts and rules of our ,reason1 if wee tooke any heede unto it4 ,but1 ,the ,senses desire covet present delightes1 what soever they be3 and can abide no paines1 but puts them of4 ,and by this meanes1 they also shake of ,reason1 and thinke her unpleasant1 forasmuche as she sets before them1 not pleasure1 many times1 hurtfull3 but goodnes and vertue1 ever painfull1 sower and unsavoury in taste4 ,for1 while we live according to the ,sense1 wee are like to the selly sickman1 to whom al cates never so deinty sweete1 seeme untoothsome3 and he chideth still with his ,cater and ,cooke1 in whome there is no fault at all for it4 ,for1 it is the ,nature of his disease1 and the ,extremitie of his sicknes1 and not the fault of his meate1 that he doth not savourly taste what he eates4 ,so ,reason1 which of it selfe is sweete and savourie3 seemes bitter in taste unto us1 though it have no ill taste in dede4 ,and therfore as nice deintie felowes1 we refuse to make any taste of her3 cover our grosnes1 wt saying that ,nature hath no spurres nor raines yt can prick her forth1 or hold her backe4 ,where sure1 if an ,oxe or an ,asse1 or a ,hogge1 could speake3 ,i beleeve1 they could not lightly tell a more fowle shamefull tale then this4 ,we should be children still all the time of our riper yeares1 in our extreame age3 and waxe as very fooles with gray hoary heads1 as when we were very babes3 if it were not that reason1 which increaseth in us with our yeares1 subdueth affections in us and growen to perfection1 transformeth us from beastes in to men4 ,so that it is well seene1 shee ruleth our senses and bridleth our willes4 ,and it is our owne ,imperfection and not her faulte1 if we doe swarve from vertue1 goodnes1 and good order in life4 ,it is not then true1 that there is not a bridell and ,master for ,nature1 ,nay1 she is guided and ruled by twaine3 ,custome ,i meane1 and ,reason4 ,but1 as ,i have tould you a litle before3 ,reason without ,custome and use1 cannot make an uncivile bodie1 well taught and courtious3 ,which custome and use1 is as it were1 bred and borne of time4 ,and therefore they shall doe well1 to harken betime unto her1 not only for that1 by this meanes1 a man shall have more time and leasure to learne to be such as she teacheth1 and to become as it were a houshould servaunt of hers1 and one of her traine3 but also bycause ,the tender age1 as pure and cleane1 doth easily receave all ,impressions1 and reteineth more lively1 the colours wherewith she is dyed3 then when a man comes to riper yeares3 ,and also1 bycause ,the things wherein wee have byn nourished and trained from our youth1 doe ordinarily please us1 above all other things4 ,and for this cause1 it is said that ,diodato1 a man that had a singular good gift grace of utterance1 would evermore bee the first that came fourth uppon the stage to shewe his ,comedie3 allthoughe they were all but counterfets unto him1 whosoever they were that should have spoken before him4 ,but he would not his voice should occupie other mens eares1 after they heard another man speake4 ,although1 in respect of his doings1 it were a greate deale ,inferiour to his4 ,seing then1 ,i cannot agree my workes and my wordes together1 for those causes ,i have shewed you before1 as ,maestro ,chiarissimo did3 whoe had as good a skil to do it1 as he had knowledge to teache it3 let it suffice that ,i have tould in some part what must be done1 by cause ,i am not by any meanes able to doe it in dede4 ,he that liveth in darkenes1 may very well ,judge what comfort it is to enjoy the benefit of light4 ,and by an over long silence1 we knowe what pleasure it is to speake3 so when you beholde my grose and rude maners3 you shall better ,judge1 what goodnes and vertue there is in courtious behaviours and fashions4 ,to come againe then to this treatise1 which growes now to some end3 wee say that ,those be good maners and fashions1 which bring a delight1 or at least1 offend not their senses1 their minds1 and conceits1 with whom we live4 ,and of these1 wee have hitherto spoken inoughe4 ,but you must understand with all this1 that1 ,men be very desirous of bewtifull things1 well proportioned and comely4 ,and of counterfet things fowle and ill shapen1 they be as squemish againe1 on the other side4 ,and this is a speciall privilege geven to us3 that other creatures have no capacitie1 to skill what bewtie or measure meaneth4 ,and1 therefore1 as things not common wt beastes but proper to our selves3 we must embrace them for them selves3 and holde them dere3 yet those1 much more1 yt drawe nerest to ye knowledge of man3 as which are most apt and inclined to understand the perfection which ,nature hath lefte in men4 ,and albeit1 it be a hard matter1 to shewe precisely1 ,bewtie1 what maner of thing it is3 yet yt you may have some marke1 to know her by3 you must understand1 yt ,where jointly severally1 every parte the whole hath his due proportion and measure1 there is ,bewtie4 ,and that thing may justly be called faier1 in which the saide proportion and measure is found4 ,and by that ,i did once learne of a wise a learned man3 ,bewtie he said1 would consist but of one1 at the moste4 ,and ,deformitie contrarywise1 measured her selfe1 by ,many4 ,as you may see by the faces of faier and goodly women4 ,for1 the even lineaments and due proportions of every of them3 seeme to have byn created framed by the judgement and sight of one face alone4 ,which cannot be thought in them that be foule deformed4 ,for1 when you beholde a woman1 that hath1 peradventure1 bigge and bowle eyes1 a little nose1 blubbe cheekes1 a flat mouth1 an out chinne1 a browne skinne3 you thinke straite that that face is not one womans alone3 but is moulded of many faces1 and made of many peeces4 ,and yet1 you shall finde amongest them1 some such1 whose partes considered alone by them selves1 be very perfect to see to3 but all set together1 be foule and ill favoured3 not for any other cause1 but that they be ye lineaments of many faier women1 and not of one3 ,so that a man would weene1 shee had borrowed her partes1 of this and that woman4 ,and it may be1 that ,painter that had all the faier maides of ,calabria1 naked before him3 had none other intent therein1 then to judge discerne in many1 ye partes yt they have1 as it were1 borrowed heere one1 there another1 of one1 alone3 to whome restoring from eache yt was her right3 imagining yt ,venus bewty should be such1 and so proportioned3 he set him selfe to paint her4 ,and1 you must not think1 yt this is to be seene in the faces1 the partes1 and the bodies of women alone3 but it happeneth more or lesse1 in speache1 in gestures doings4 ,for1 if you should chaunce to see a ,noble woman gorgius and gallant1 washing of cloutes in a ,river by ye highe waye side3 ,althoughe if this were not1 you might hapely passe away by her1 wt little heede to her person or state3 yet this would not brook you nor like you1 yt her servile doings doe shewe her more then one4 ,for her state should answer her honourable condition and calling4 ,but her woorke is suche1 as is meete for women of base and servile life3 although you shall feele1 neither ill savour nor sent come from her1 nor heare any noise that should offend you1 nor any thing els to trouble your minde3 yet the foule and filthy maner of doing it1 and the unseemely act itselfe3 will make you muche to loathe it4 ,you must then beware of these fowle and uncomely behaviours1 asmuche1 nay1 more then of those other1 ,i have spoken all this while4 ,for1 it is a harder matter a greate deale1 to knowe when a man faulteth in these1 then when he faulteth in them4 ,bycause1 ,it is easier much1 we see1 to feele then to understande4 ,but yet1 it may chaunce otherwhile1 that even that which offendeth the senses1 may also offend the minde3 thoughe not altogether after one sorte1 as ,i have told you before3 shewing you that ,a man must apparell him selfe1 according to the fashions that other men use3 that it may not be thought he doth reprove and correct their doings3 ,the which thing offendeth most men that seeke to be commended3 ,and the wisest men that be1 mislike it too4 ,for1 the garments of the olde world1 have lost their date1 for men of this age and this season to weare4 ,and it is suche an ill shapen sight1 to see a man clad with other mens cloathes3 that a man would weene there would be a fray betwene the doublet ye hose3 their cloathes doe sit1 uppon them so untowardly4 ,so that1 many of those matters ,i have spoken of allredy1 or peradventure all1 might be aptly rehersed here again3 forasmuch as this measure ,i speake of here1 is not observed in these things3 nor the time1 nor ye place1 nor the worke1 nor the worker1 accorded fitted together1 so well as it should be4 ,for mens minds and fansies doe like it1 take a pleasure and delight in those things4 ,but ,i thought it good to apply speake these matters1 rather under ye badge1 as it were1 of the ,senses and desires3 then properly assigne them to the minde3 that a man may the more easily perceive them3 bycause ,it is a naturall thinge1 for everie man to feele and desire3 but every man cannot so generally understand1 and especially that1 whiche we call bewtie1 gallantnes or entertainement4 ,it is not inoughe for a man1 to doe things that be good3 but hee must also have a care1 hee doe them with a good grace4 ,and a good grace is nothing els1 but suche a maner of light 7as ,i may call it7 as shineth in the aptnes of things set in good order and wel disposed1 one with another3 and perfectly knit and united together4 ,without which proportion and measure1 even that which is good is not faire3 the fairenes it self1 is not plesaunt4 ,and as meates1 though they be good savourie will give men no minde to eate them1 if they have no pleasaunt relish and taste3 ,so fares it with the maners of men other while 7althoughe in them selves in no respect they be ill1 but foolishe a little1 and fond7 if a man doe not season them with a certaine sweetenes1 which you call 7as ,i take it7 ,grace1 and ,comlines4 ,so that1 every vice of it selfe1 without any further matter to helpe it 7it cannot be chosen7 must needes offend a man4 ,for1 ,vices be things so foule and filthie3 that honest and modest mindes1 will greeve to see their shamefull effects4 ,and therefore1 it shall behove them that seeke to be well thought of1 with their familiar acquaintance1 above all things els to eschewe vices1 and especially those1 that be foulest and worst3 as ,leachery1 ,covetousnes1 ,crueltie1 and other4 ,of which1 some be beastly1 as ,drunkennes1 and ,gluttonie3 some uncleane1 as ,leacherie3 other some horrible1 as ,murther1 and such other3 all which for them selves1 and for the very naughtines1 that is properly in them al1 all men eschewe more1 or lesse3 ,but1 as earst ,i said1 generally al1 as things of greate disorder1 make a man misliked muche of all men4 ,but1 bycause ,i have not taken uppon me to shew unto you1 mens sinnes1 but their ,errors3 it shalbe no parte of my charge at this time to entreate of ye ,nature of vices vertues3 but onely of the seemely unseemely fashions and maners wee use one with another4 ,one of the which unseemely fashions was1 that ,count ,richard did use3 of which ,i tould you before4 ,which1 as unseemely and unfitting with those other his good and faire maners hee had besides3 that same worthie ,bishop 7as a skilfull and cunning ,maister in musicke will easily here a note out of ,tune7 had quickly founde out4 ,it shalbe then1 necessarie for gentlemen and men of good behaviour1 to have a regard to this measure ,i speake of3 in going1 in standing1 in sitting1 in gesture1 in porte1 in apparell1 in talke1 in silence1 in rest and in action4 ,for1 a man must not apparell him selfe like a woman3 that the ,attire may not be of one sorte1 and the person of another3 as ,i doe see it in some that weare their heads their beards curled with bodkins1 and have their face1 and their necks1 their hands1 so starchte and painted1 that it were to muche for a girle1 nay1 harlot1 that makes a merchandize of it1 and sets her selfe to the sale4 ,you must smell1 neither of sweete nor of sower3 for a gentleman would not savour nastily like a begger3 n del maschio venga odore di femina o di meretrice4 ,i doe not by this forbid1 but you may very well use some sweete smelles of sweete waters4 ,your apparell must be shaped according to the fashion of the time1 and your calling1 for the causes ,i have shewed you before4 ,for1 ,we must not take uppon us to alter customes at our will4 ,for time doth beget them1 and time doth also weare them out4 ,every man may applie those fashions1 that be in common use1 ye moste to his owne advantage that he can4 ,for1 if perchaunce your legges be very long1 and men use but short garments3 you may use a meane1 not to long1 nor to short4 ,and if your legges be to small1 to greate1 or crooked3 make not your hosen of to light and garishe a colour1 that it may not call men to looke and to gawre uppon your deformitie4 ,thou must weare no garment that shall be to light1 or overmuche daubde with garding2 that men may not say1 thou hast ,ganymedes hosen1 or wearest ,cupides doublet4 ,but1 whatsoever it be thou wearest1 let it be fit and well made for thy bodie3 least thou seme to brave it1 in another mans cloathes4 ,but with all1 thou must in any case respect thy condition or estate4 ,for1 ,a man of the ,clergie1 must not be attired like a ,souldier3 nor a ,souldier goe like a ,player4 ,when ,castruccio was in ,rome with ,lodovico ,bavero at a greate ,pompe1 and triumphe3 who was both ,duke of ,lucca and ,pistoia1 and ,count of ,palazzo1 and ,senatour of ,rome3 this ,castruccio1 being ,lorde greate ,maister of the saide ,lodovico ,bavero his househoulde3 for his bravery1 made him a coate of crimsin1 uppon the brest wherof1 there was this devise1 in letters of ,golde ,it is even as ,god will4 ,and uppon the backe behinde4 ,and it shallbe as ,god will4 ,i beleeve1 you thinke this garment1 would have become ,castruccio his ,trumpeter better1 then it could become him4 ,and although ,kings be free from checke1 and may doe what they list3 ,yet1 ,i could never commend ,king ,manfrede1 ,whoe ever more used1 to suite him selfe in greene4 ,wee must then have a care1 that our apparell be not onely wel made for the bodie3 but that it be meete for our calling4 ,and withall1 it be suche1 as the countrie doth use1 where wee live4 ,for1 ,as in divers places be divers measures1 and yet bying and selling every where used3 ,so in sundry landes be sundrie customes1 and yet every where a man may behave him1 and apparell him selfe1 soberly and comely4 ,these same feathers1 which the ,neapolitanes and ,spaniardes be wont to weare1 and braveries and ,embroderies3 have but ill place amongest grave gowned men1 the attires that ,citizens doe weare4 ,but their ,armour and weapons become suche place a greate deal worse4 ,so that1 looke what hapely might be allowed in ,verona1 would not1 perchaunce1 be suffered in ,venice4 ,for as muche as these gallants1 all begarded1 and huffing in fethers1 warlike fellowes1 would not doe well1 in this ,noble ,citie so peacefull ,civil4 ,suche kinde of people be rather1 in maner1 like nettles and burres1 amongest good and sweete garden flowers1 ,and therefore1 they come out of season to men that medle with graver matters then they doe4 ,i would not have a gentleman to runne in the streate1 nor go to fast3 for that is for lackies1 and not for gentlemen to doe4 ,besides that1 it makes a man weary1 sweate1 and puffe3 which be very unsightly things for suche men to doe4 ,i would not yet have a man go so softe and demurely1 as a maide or a wife4 ,and when a man walkes1 it is no good sight to see a man shake his bodie to muche1 nor to hold his handes bare and emptie3 nor yet cast fling his armes up downe1 in such sort as a man would weene1 hee were soweing of ,corne in the field3 nor ,stare in a mans face1 as if he had spied a mares nest4 ,ther be some again1 in their gate pul up their fete as high as a horse yt hath ye spaven3 yt a man would think they did pluck their fete forth of a bushell4 ,other againe stampe their feete so harde on the ground3 that they make allmoste asmuche noise as a carte4 ,another goes as if he were splay footed4 ,and suche a one quivers with his legges1 as he stands4 ,some other againe1 at every foote1 stoope to stroke up their hose as they goe4 ,and some set their handes to their sides1 and jet up downe like a ,pecocke3 which fashions doe muche offend men3 not as well1 but as ill beseeming a man to use them4 ,for1 if your horse1 perchaunce1 doe champe and play on the bit1 and gape or lill out his tounge1 albeit this geve little proofe of his goodnes3 yet it commends him well to the sale3 and you shoulde finde a misse of it1 if it were otherwise3 not bycause ye horse should be ther fore the worse3 but bycause he should shew the lesse courage and pleasure4 ,now1 if it stand so1 that ,comelines and ,grace1 be so much made of in beasts1 and also in things without life or sense1 as experience doth shewe1 that1 ,two things of equall goodnes comodities1 beare not for all that1 a like price1 if a man doe beholde a finer proportion bewtie1 more in the one then he sees in the other3 ,how muche then more1 should it be estemed and commended in men1 capable of ,reason4 ,it is a rude fashion for a man to clawe or scratche him selfe1 when he sitteth at the table4 ,and a man should at such time have a very greate care yt he spit not at all4 ,but1 if neede inforce him1 then let him doe it1 after an honest sorte4 ,i have heard tell1 many times1 of suche countries that be so sober3 that they doe never spitt4 ,and what should then let us1 but we may well forbeare it for suche a little while4 ,we must also beware we doe not eate so greedily1 that wee get the hicket1 or belche withall3 as some that feede so fast1 that they noy the company with it3 they blowe and puffe so loud4 ,likewise1 you must not rubbe your teeth with your napkin1 much lesse with your fingers4 ,for these be trickes for a sloven4 ,neither must you openly rince your mouth wt the wine1 and then spit it fourthe4 ,neither is it gentleman like1 to carry a sticke in your mouth from the table when you rise1 like ye birde that builds her a nest3 or put it in your eare1 for that is a ,barbars tricke4 ,and to weare a toothpicke1 about your necke3 of all fashions that is ye worst4 ,for1 besides that it is a bauld ,jewell for a gentleman to pull forth of his bosome1 and putteth men in mind of those ,tooth-drawers1 that sit one their benche in the stretes3 it makes men also to thinke1 that the man loves his belly full well1 and is provided for it4 ,and ,i see no reason1 why they should not aswell carry a spoone1 about their neckes1 as a toothepicke4 ,it is a rude fashion besides1 to leane over the table1 or to fill your mouth so ful of meate1 that your cheekes be blowne up wtall3 neither must you by any maner of meanes1 give another man to know what pleasure you take1 in the meate or the wine4 ,for yt it is for ,taverners and ,bousers1 to use suche fashions4 ,and to entertaine men yt sit at your table1 with these words3 ,you eate nothing this morning4 ,there is nothing that likes you4 ,or1 tast you of this or of that3 ,i doe not allowe of these fashions1 although they be commonly received and used of all men4 ,for1 albeit by these meanes1 they shewe they make much of those they have invited unto them3 yet1 many times1 they make men to leave to eate wher they would4 ,for1 it geves them to thinke1 they have their eyes1 allwayes uppon them1 and that makes them ashamed to feede4 ,againe1 ,i doe not like it1 that a man shall take uppon him to be a carver of any meate that stands before him3 if he be not muche the better man1 that is the carver3 that he to whome he carves1 may thinke he receiveth some credite honour by it4 ,for1 ,amongest men that be of like condition and calling1 it makes a hart burning3 that he that playes the carver1 should take more uppon him then another4 ,and otherwhile1 yt which hee carveth1 doth not like him to whom it is geven4 ,and more then this1 by this meanes he sheweth1 that the feaste is not sufficiently furnished1 or at least not well disposed in order1 when some have muche1 other none at all4 ,and ye ,maister of the house1 may chaunce to take displesure at that1 as if it were done to doe him shame4 ,neverthelesse in these matters1 a man must demeasne him self1 as common use and custome will allowe1 and not as ,reason duetie would have it4 ,and ,i would wishe a man rather to erre in these points with many1 then to be singular in doing well4 ,but whatsoever good maner there be in this case1 thou must not refuse it1 whatsoever is carved unto thee4 ,for it may be thought thou doest disdaine it1 or grunt at thy carver4 ,now1 to drink all out to every man3 which is a fashion as litle in use amongst us1 as ye terme it selfe is barbarous straunge3 ,i meane1 ,ick bring you1 is sure a foule thing of it selfe1 in our countrie so coldly accepted yet3 yt we must not go about to bring it in for a fashion4 ,if a man doe quaffe or carrouse unto you1 you may honestly say nay to pledge him1 geveing him thankes1 confesse your weakenesse1 that you are not able to beare it3 or else1 to doe him a pleasure1 you may for curtesie taste it3 and then set downe the cup to them that will1 and charge your selfe no further4 ,and although this1 ,ick bring you1 as ,i have heard many learned men say1 hath beene an auncient custome in ,greece1 and that the ,graecians doe muche commend a goodman of that time1 ,socrates1 by name1 for that hee sat out one whole night long1 drinking a vie with another good man1 ,aristophanes3 and yet ye next morning in the breake of the daye1 without any rest uppon his drinking1 made suche a cunning ,geometricall ,instrument1 that there was no maner of faulte to be found in the same3 ,and albeit they say besides this1 that ,even as it makes a man bould and hardy1 to thrust him selfe venterously otherwhile1 in to daungerous perils of life3 so likewise it brings a man in to good temper and fashion1 to enure him selfe otherwhile1 with the daungers of things not ever chauncing3 ,and bycause the drinking of wine after this sorte1 in a vie1 in such excesse and waste1 is a shrewde assault to trie the strength of him that quaffes so lustily3 these ,graecians1 would have us to use it for a certaine proofe of our strength and constancie3 and to enure us the better1 to resist and master all maner of strong temptations4 ,all this notwithstanding1 ,i am of a contrary mind3 and ,i doe thinke all their reasons to fond1 and to foolishe4 ,but1 we see that ,learned men have suche art and cunning to persuade1 and such filed wordes to serve their turne3 that wrong doth carry the cause away1 and ,reason cannot prevaile4 ,and therefore let us give them no credite in this point4 ,and what can ,i tell1 if they have a secret drift herein1 to excuse and cover the fault of their countrey1 that is corrupt with this vice4 ,but it is daungerous1 perchaunce1 for a man to reprove them for it3 least asmuch happen to him1 as chaunced to ,socrates him selfe1 for his over lavish controuling and checking of every mans fault4 ,for1 he was so spited of all men for it3 that many articles of heresies other foule faultes were put up against him1 and he condemned to die in the end3 allthough they were false4 ,for in truthe1 he was a very good man1 a ,chatholike3 respecting ye ,religion of their false ,idolatrie4 ,but suer1 in that he drunke so muche wine that same night3 he deserved no praise in the worlde4 ,for1 the hoggshead was able to holde receive a great deale more1 then his companion and hee were able to take3 if yt may get any praise4 ,and though it did him no harme1 that was more1 the goodnes of his strong braine3 then the continencie of a sober man4 ,and let the ,chronicles talke what they list of this matter1 ,i give ,god thankes1 that amongest many the ,plagues that have creapt over the ,alpes1 to infect us3 hitherto this worst of all the rest1 is not come over3 that we should take a pleasure and praise1 to be drunke4 ,neither shall ,i ever beleve1 that a man can learne to be temperate1 of suche a ,maister as wine and drounkennes4 ,the ,stewarde of a ,noble mans house1 may not be so bolde to invite straungers1 uppon his owne head1 and set them downe at his ,lorde ,maisters table4 ,and there is none that is wise1 will be intreated to it1 at his request alone4 ,but otherwhile1 the servaunts of the house1 be so malepert and saucie1 that they will take uppon them1 more then their ,maister3 of which things wee speake in this place1 more by chaunce1 then that the order we have taken from the beginning1 doth so require it4 ,a man must not uncase him selfe1 in the presence of any assembly4 ,for it is a slovenly sight1 in place where honest men be met together of good condition and calling4 ,and it may chaunce he doth uncover those parts of his bodie1 which work him shame rebuke to shewe them3 besides yt1 it maketh other men abashed to looke upon them4 ,againe1 ,i wold have no man to combe his head1 nor washe his hands before men4 ,for such things would be done alone in your chamber1 and not abrode3 without it be1 ,i say1 to washe your hands when you sit downe to the table4 ,for1 there it shall doe well1 to washe them in sight1 although you have no neede3 that they with whome you feede1 may assure them selves you have done it4 ,a man must not come forthe with his kercheif1 or quaife one his head1 nor yet stroke up his hosen uppon his legges in company4 ,some men there be1 that have a pride or a use to drawe their mouthes a little awry1 or twinckle up their eye1 to blow up their cheekes1 and to puffe1 and to make1 with their countenaunce1 sundrie such like foolishe and ilfavoured faces and gestures4 ,i councell men to leave them cleane4 ,for1 ,pallas her selfe1 the ,goddesse 7as ,i have hearde some wise men say7 tooke once a greate pleasure to sound the flute the cornet3 therin she was verie cunning4 ,it chaunst her1 on day1 sounding her ,cornet for her plesure over a fontain1 she spide her selfe in the water3 and when she beheld those strange gestures she must nedes make with her mouth as she plaid3 she was so much ashamed of it that she brake the cornet in peces cast it away4 ,and truely she did but well1 for it is no instrument for a woman to use4 ,and it becomes men as ill1 if they be not of yt base condition and calling1 that they must make it a gaine1 an art to live uppon it4 ,and looke what ,i speake1 concerning the unseemely gestures of the countenance and face3 concerneth likewise1 all the partes and members of man4 ,for it is an ill sight1 to lill out ye tounge1 to stroke your bearde much up and downe 7as many doe use to doe7 to rubbe your hands together3 to sighe1 to sorrowe3 to tremble or strike your selfe1 which is also a fashion wt some3 to reatche and stretche your selfe1 so retching1 to cry out after a nice maner1 ,alas1 ,alas3 like a country cloune1 yt should rouse him selfe in his couche4 ,and he that makes a noise wt his mouth in a token of wonder1 and other while1 of contempte and disdaine3 counterfeteth an ilfavoured grace4 ,and ,counterfet things1 differ not muche from truethes4 ,a man must leave those foolishe maner of laughings1 groase and uncomely4 ,and let men laughe uppon occasion1 and not uppon custome4 ,but a man must beware he doe not laughe at his owne gestes1 and his doings4 ,for that makes men weene hee woulde faine praise him selfe4 ,it is for other men to laughe that heare1 and not for him that telles the tale4 ,now1 you must not beare your selfe in hand1 that bycause eache of these matters considered a parte1 is but a small fault1 ye hole therefore together should be as light3 but you must rather persuade your selfe yt ,many a litle doth make a mickle1 as ,i tould you from the beginning4 ,and how muche lesse they be1 so much the more neede a man hathe to looke well in to them3 bycause they be not easily perceived a far of1 but creepe in to us by custom1 before we be a ware4 ,and1 ,as light expences often used1 in ,continuance of time1 doe covertly waste and consume a greate masse of wealth and riches3 ,so doe these light faultes with the multitude and number of them1 in secret overthrow all honest and good civilitie and maner4 ,so yt we must not make a light reconing of them4 ,moreover1 it is a nedefull observation to bethinke your selfe1 how you doe move your bodie1 and specially in talke4 ,for1 it many times chaunceth1 a man is so ernest in his tale1 that hee hath no minde of any thing els4 ,one wagges his head4 ,another lookes bigg and scowles with his browes4 ,that man pulls his mouth awry4 ,and tother spittes in and uppon their faces with whome he talkes4 ,and som suche there be that move their hands in suche a sorte1 as if they should chase ye flies as they go3 which be very unhansome unseemely maners to use4 ,and ,i have heard it saide 7for you knowe ,i have byn familiarly acquainted with learned men in my time7 that ,pindarus that worthy man was wont to saye3 that ,whatsoever it were that had a good savourie taste3 was seasoned by the hands of the ,graces4 ,now1 what shall ,i speake of them yt come forthe of their studies with their penne in their eare3 and nibble their hankercheifs in their mouthe1 or ly lolling wt their legge over the table1 or spit one their fingers1 and of a number of other blockishe gestures and fashions more then these1 which cannot be all rehearsed well3 nor shal not1 ,i meane1 put me to further paines to tel them al if ,i could4 ,for1 there be manie perchaunce will say this is to muche1 that ,i have said allredie4 ,,finis ,,bibliographical ,,note ,,bibliographical ,,note ,giovanni della ,casa1 the author of the ,galateo1 was born near ,florence in #aejc1 and died at ,rome in #aeef4 ,he took orders before #aech1 and became successively ,apostolic ,clerk1 ,apostolic ,commissary1 ,archbishop of ,benevento1 ,papal ,nuncio at ,venice1 and ,secretary of ,state under ,paul ,,iv4 ,he was distinguished as a poet1 as a diplomatist1 and as an orator4 ,the ,galateo was written between #aeea and #aeee1 at the suggestion of ,galeazzo ,florimonte1 ,bishop of ,sessa1 whose poetic name it bears in consequence4 ,it was published posthumously at ,venice1 in #aeeh1 in a volume entitled ,rime e ,prose di ,m4 ,giov4 della ,casa1 and was republished separately at ,milan in #aeei1 at ,florence in #aefj1 and often thereafter4 ,a complete edition of the works of ,della ,casa1 in three volumes1 was edited by ,casotti at ,florence in #agjg4 ,the ,galateo was translated into ,french by ,jean du ,peyrat in #aefb1 and again1 anonymously1 with the original and the translation on opposite pages1 in #aegc4 ,a ,spanish version by ,domingo ,becerra was published in #aehe1 and this was followed in #aeii by a loose imitation by ,gracian ,dantisco1 entitled ,el ,galateo ,espaol1 which in its turn was translated into ,english in #afdj by ,william ,styles as ,galateo ,espagnol1 or the ,spanish ,gallant4 ,in #aeih an edition of the ,galateo in four languages1 ,italian1 ,french1 ,latin1 and ,spanish1 was published at ,lyons2 and a ,german version was added in the editions of #afji and #afae4 ,the first ,english translation1 by ,robert ,peterson of ,lincoln's ,inn1 appeared in #aegf1 as ,galateo of ,maister ,iohn ,della ,casa1 ,archebishop of ,beneventa1 or rather a ,treatise of the ,manners and ,behaviours it behoveth a ,man to use in his familiar ,conversation2 and an edition of it1 limited to one hundred copies1 was privately printed by ,h4 ,j4 ,reid in #ahib4 ,peterson's rendering is based almost entirely on the anonymous ,french translation of #aegc1 although he occasionally refers to the ,italian original on the opposite pages4 ,two proofs of his indebtedness will suffice3 ,where the ,frenchman renders the single ,italian word mezzanamente by the phrase avec discretion et mdiocrit1 ,peterson follows him with by ,discretion and ,measure2 and again1 the single word questa in ,della ,casa becomes cette gracieuset et courtoisie in the ,french and this civilitie and courtesie in the ,english version4 ,at least five other ,english translations have been published4 ,in #afaf1 ,thomas ,gainsford appended to his ,rich ,cabinet an ,epitome of ,good ,manners extracted from ,archbp4 ,j4 de la ,casa2 the treatise was paraphrased by ,n4 ,w4 as ,the ,refin'd ,courtier in #affc2 in #agja1 an ,english translation 7from the ,latin version of ,n4 ,chytraeus7 was published by several young ,gentlemen educated at a private ,grammar ,school near ,hackney1 under the title of ,j4 ,casa his ,galateus1 or a ,treatise of ,manners2 a version entitled ,galateo of ,manners appeared in #agjc2 and still another version1 entitled ,galateo1 or a ,treatise on ,politeness and ,delicacy of ,manners1 appeared in #aggd4 ,della ,casa was also the author of another treatise on conduct1 ,trattato degli ,uffici communi tra gli ,amici superiori e inferiori1 which was translated into ,english by ,henry ,stubbe in #affe1 as ,the ,arts of ,grandeur and ,submission4 ,peterson's version is reproduced in the present work4 ,the proofs have been collated with the ,british ,museum copy of the original #aegf edition by ,mr4 ,w4 ,b4 ,owen1 formerly scholar of ,st4 ,catharine's ,college1 ,cambridge4 ,in deference to the insistence of the publisher and the general editor1 a few passages perfume our pages only in their native ,italian4 ,j4 ,e4 ,s4 ,,this ,,volume ,,with ,,title-,,page ,,by ,t4 ,m4 ,,cleland ,,was ,,printed ,,by ,d4 ,b4 ,,updike ,,at ,,the ,,merrymount ,,press ,,boston1 ,u4,s4,a4 ,,mdcccc ,,xiv ,transcriber's ,notes3 ,punctuation errors repaired4 ,the following correction has been made to the text3 ,page #hh3 not shoofle them together at randomoriginal reads randon