,,power ,,through ,,repose ,,by ,,annie ,,payson ,,call ,new ,edition with ,additions ,personality binds--universality expands4 ,,francoise ,,delsarte4 ,when the body is perfectly adjusted1 perfectly supplied with force1 perfectly free and works with the greatest economy of expenditure1 it is fitted to be a perfect instrument alike of impression1 experience1 and expression4 ,w4 ,r4 ,,alger4 ,i4 ,,the ,,guidance ,,of ,,the ,,body ,,the literature relating to the care of the human body is already very extensive4 ,much has been written about the body's proper food1 the air it should breathe1 the clothing by which it should be protected1 the best methods of its development4 ,that literature needs but little added to it1 until we1 as rational beings1 come nearer to obeying the laws which it discloses1 and to feeling daily the help which comes from that obedience4 ,it is of the better use1 the truer guidance of this machine1 that ,i wish especially to write4 ,although attention is constantly called to the fact of its misuse1--as in neglected rest and in over-strain1--in all the unlimited variety which the perverted ingenuity of a clever people has devised1 it seems never to have come to any one's mind that this strain in all things1 small and great1 is something that can be and should be studiously abandoned1 with as regular a process of training1 from the first simple steps to those more complex1 as is required in the work for the development of muscular strength4 ,when a perversion of ,nature's laws has continued from generation to generation1 we1 of the ninth or tenth generation1 can by no possibility jump back into the place where the laws can work normally through us1 even though our eyes have been opened to a full recognition of such perversion4 ,we must climb back to an orderly life1 step by step1 and the compensation is large in the constantly growing realization of the greatness of the laws we have been disobeying4 ,the appreciation of the power of a natural law1 as it works through us1 is one of the keenest pleasures that can come to man in this life4 ,the general impression seems to be that common-sense should lead us to a better use of our machines at once4 ,whereas1 common-sense will not bring a true power of guiding the muscles1 any more than it will cause the muscles' development1 unless having the common-sense to see the need1 we realize with it the necessity for cutting a path and walking in it4 ,for the muscles' development1 several paths have been cut1 and many who are in need are walking in them1 but1 to the average man1 the road to the best kind of muscular development still remains closed4 ,the only training now in use is followed by sleight-of-hand performers1 acrobats1 or other jugglers1 and that is limited to the professional needs of its followers4 ,again1 as the muscles are guided by means of the nerves1 a training for the guidance of the muscles means1 so far as the physique is concerned1 first1 a training for the better use of the nervous force4 ,the nervous system is so wonderful in its present power for good or ill1 so wonderful in its possible power either way1 and so much more wonderful as we realize what we do not know about it1 that it is not surprising that it is looked upon with awe4 ,neither is it strange that it seems to many1 especially the ignorant1 a subject to be shunned4 ,it is not uncommon for a mother1 whose daughter is suffering1 and may be on the verge of nervous prostration because of her misused nerves1 to say1 ,i do not want my daughter to know that she has nerves4 ,the poor child knows it already in the wrong way4 ,it is certainly better that she should know her nerves by learning a wholesome1 natural use of them4 ,the mother's remark is common with many men and women when speaking of themselves1--common with teachers when talking to or of their pupils4 ,it is of course quite natural that it should be a prevailing idea1 because hitherto the mention of nerves by man or woman has generally meant perverted nerves1 and to dwell on our perversions1 except long enough to shun them1 is certainly unwholesome in the extreme4 ,,ii4 ,,perversions ,,in ,,the ,,guidance ,,of ,,the ,,body ,,so evident are the various1 the numberless perversions of our powers in the misuse of the machine1 that it seems almost unnecessary to write of them4 ,and yet1 from another point of view1 it is very necessary2 for superabundant as they are1 thrusting their evil results upon us every day in painful ways1 still we have eyes and see not1 ears and hear not1 and for want of a fuller realization of these most grievous mistakes1 we are in danger of plunging more and more deeply into the snarls to which they bring us4 ,from nervous prostration to melancholia1 or other forms of insanity1 is not so long a step4 ,it is of course a natural sequence that the decadence of an entire country must follow the waning powers of the individual citizens4 ,although that seems very much to hint1 it cannot be too much when we consider even briefly the results that have already come to us through this very misuse of our own voluntary powers4 ,the advertisements of nerve medicines alone speak loudly to one who studies in the least degree the physical tendencies of the nation4 ,nothing proves better the artificial state of man1 than the artificial means he uses to try to adjust himself to ,nature's laws1--means which1 in most cases1 serve to assist him to keep up a little longer the appearance of natural life4 ,for any simulation of that which is natural must sooner or later lead to nothing1 or worse than nothing4 ,even the rest-cures1 the most simple and harmless of the nerve restorers1 serve a mistaken end4 ,patients go with nerves tired and worn out with misuse1--commonly called over-work4 ,through rest1 ,nature1 with the warm1 motherly help she is ever ready to bring us1 restores the worn body to a normal state2 but its owner has not learned to work the machine any better1--to drive his horses more naturally1 or with a gentler hand4 ,he knows he must take life more easily1 but even with a passably good realization of that necessity1 he can practise it only to a certain extent2 and most occupants of rest-cures find themselves driven back more than once for another rest4 ,nervous disorders1 resulting from overwork are all about us4 ,extreme nervous prostration is most prevalent4 ,a thoughtful study of the faces around us1 and a better understanding of their lives1 brings to light many who are living1 one might almost say1 in a chronic state of nervous prostration1 which lasts for years before the break comes4 ,and because of the want of thought1 the want of study for a better1 more natural use of the machine1 few of us appreciate our own possible powers4 ,when with study the appreciation grows1 it is a daily surprise1 a constantly increasing delight4 ,extreme nervous tension seems to be so peculiarly ,american1 that a ,german physician coming to this country to practise became puzzled by the variety of nervous disorders he was called upon to help1 and finally announced his discovery of a new disease which he chose to call ,americanitis4 ,and now we suffer from ,americanitis in all its unlimited varieties4 ,doctors study it2 nerve medicines arise on every side2 nervine hospitals establish themselves2 and rest-cures innumerable spring up in all directions1--but the root of the matter is so comparatively simple that in general it is overlooked entirely4 ,when illnesses are caused by disobedience to the perfect laws of ,nature1 a steady1 careful obedience to these laws will bring us to a healthful state again4 ,nature is so wonderfully kind that if we go one-tenth of the way1 she will help us the other nine-tenths4 ,indeed she seems to be watching and hoping for a place to get in1 so quickly does she take possession of us1 if we do but turn toward her ever so little4 ,but instead of adopting her simple laws and following quietly her perfect way1 we try by every artificial means to gain a rapid transit back to her dominion1 and succeed only in getting farther away from her4 ,where is the use of taking medicines to give us new strength1 while at the same time we are steadily disobeying the very laws from the observance of which alone the strength can come8 ,no medicine can work in a man's-body while the man's habits are constantly counteracting it4 ,more harm than good is done in the end4 ,where is the use of all the quieting medicines1 if we only quiet our nerves in order that we may continue to misuse them without their crying out8 ,they will cry out sooner or later2 for ,nature1 who is so quick to help us to the true way of living1 loses patience at last1 and her punishments are justly severe4 ,or1 we might better say1 a law is fixed and immovable1 and if we disobey and continue to disobey it1 we suffer the consequences4 ,,iii4 ,,rest ,,in ,,sleep ,,how do we misuse our nervous force8 ,first1 let us consider1 ,when should the body be completely at rest8 ,the longest and most perfect rest should be during sleep at night4 ,in sleep we can accomplish nothing in the way of voluntary activity either of mind or body4 ,any nervous or muscular effort during sleep is not only useless but worse1--it is pure waste of fuel1 and results in direct and irreparable harm4 ,realizing fully that sleep is meant for rest1 that the only gain is rest1 and that new power for use comes as a consequence1--how absurd it seems that we do not abandon ourselves completely to gaining all that ,nature would give us through sleep4 ,suppose1 instead of eating our dinner1 we should throw the food out of the window1 give it to the dogs1 do anything with it but what ,nature meant we should1 and then wonder why we were not nourished1 and why we suffered from faintness and want of strength4 ,it would be no more senseless than the way in which most of us try to sleep now1 and then wonder why we are not better rested from eight hours in bed4 ,only this matter of fatiguing sleep has crept upon us so slowly that we are blind to it4 ,we disobey mechanically all the laws of ,nature in sleep1 simple as they are1 and are so blinded by our own immediate and personal interests1 that the habit of not resting when we sleep has grown to such an extent that to return to natural sleep1 we must think1 study1 and practise4 ,few who pretend to rest give up entirely to the bed1 a dead weight1--letting the bed hold them1 instead of trying to hold themselves on the bed4 ,watch1 and unless you are an exceptional case 7of which happily there are a few71 you will be surprised to see how you are holding yourself on the bed1 with tense muscles1 if not all over1 so nearly all over that a little more tension would hardly increase the fatigue with which you are working yourself to sleep4 ,the spine seems to be the central point of tension--it does not give to the bed and rest there easily from end to end2 it touches at each end and just so far along from each end as the man or woman who is holding it will permit4 ,the knees are drawn up1 the muscles of the legs tense1 the hands and arms contracted1 and the fingers clinched1 either holding the pillow or themselves4 ,the head1 instead of letting the pillow have its full weight1 holds itself onto the pillow4 ,the tongue cleaves to the roof of the mouth1 the throat muscles are contracted1 and the muscles of the face drawn up in one way or another4 ,this seems like a list of horrors1 somewhat exaggerated when we realize that it is of sleep1 ,tired ,nature's sweet restorer1 that we are speaking2 but indeed it is only too true4 ,of course cases are not in the majority where the being supposed to enjoy repose is using all these numerous possibilities of contraction4 ,but there are very few who have not1 unconsciously1 some one or two or half-dozen nervous and muscular strains2 and even after they become conscious of the useless contractions1 it takes time and watchfulness and patience to relax out of them1 the habit so grows upon us4 ,one would think that even though we go to sleep in a tense way1 after being once soundly off ,nature could gain the advantage over us1 and relax the muscles in spite of ourselves2 but the habits of inheritance and of years are too much for her4 ,although she is so constantly gracious and kind1 she cannot go out of her way1 and we cannot ask her to do so4 ,how simple it seems to sleep in the right way2 and how wholesome it is even to think about it1 in contrast to the wrong way into which so many of us have fallen4 ,if we once see clearly the great compensation in getting back to the only way of gaining restful sleep1 the process is very simple1 although because we were so far out of the right path it often seems slow4 ,but once gained1 or even partially gained1 one great enemy to healthful1 natural nerves is conquered1 and has no possibility of power4 ,of course the mind and its rapid and misdirected working is a strong preventive of free nerves1 relaxed muscles1 and natural sleep4 ,if ,i could only stop myself from thinking is a complaint often heard1 and reason or philosophy does not seem to touch it4 ,even the certain knowledge that nothing is gained by this rapid thought at the wrong time1 that very much is lost1 makes no impression on the overwrought mind1--often even excites it more1 which proves that the trouble1 if originally mental1 has now gained such a hold upon the physique that it must be attacked there first4 ,the nerves should be trained to enable the body to be an obedient servant to a healthy mind1 and the mind in giving its attention to such training gains in normal power of direction4 ,if you cannot stop thinking1 do not try2 let your thoughts steam ahead if they will4 ,only relax your muscles1 and as the attention is more and more fixed on the interesting process of letting-go of the muscles 7interesting1 simply because the end is so well worth gaining71 the imps of thought find less and less to take hold of1 and the machinery in the head must stop its senseless working1 because the mind which allowed it to work has applied itself to something worth accomplishing4 ,the body should also be at rest in necessary reclining in the day1 where of course all the laws of sleep apply4 ,five minutes of complete rest in that way means greater gain than an hour or three hours taken in the usual manner4 ,i remember watching a woman resting on a lounge1 propped up with the downiest of pillows1 holding her head perfectly erect and in a strained position1 when it not only would have been easier to let it fall back on the pillow1 but it seemed impossible that she should not let it go2 and yet there it was1 held erect with an evident strain4 ,hers is not an unusual case1 on the contrary quite a common one4 ,can we wonder that the ,german doctor thought he had discovered a new disease8 ,and must he not be already surprised and shocked at the precocious growth of the infant monster which he found and named8 ,so prone are mortals to their own damnation1 it seems as though a devil's use were gone4 ,there is no better way of learning to overcome these perversions in sleep and similar forms of rest1 than to study with careful thought the sleep of a wholesome little child4 ,having gained the physical freedom necessary to give perfect repose to the body1 the quiet1 simple dropping of all thought and care can be made more easily possible4 ,so we can approach again the natural sleep and enjoy consciously the refreshment which through our own babyhood was the unconscious means of giving us daily strength and power for growth4 ,to take the regular process1 first let go of the muscles1--that will enable us more easily to drop disturbing thoughts2 and as we refuse1 without resistance1 admittance to the thoughts1 the freedom from care for the time will follow1 and the rest gained will enable us to awaken with new life for cares to come4 ,this1 however1 is a habit to be established and thoughtfully cultivated2 it cannot be acquired at once4 ,more will be said in future chapters as to the process of gaining the habit4 ,,iv4 ,,other ,,forms ,,of ,,rest ,,do you hold yourself on the chair1 or does the chair hold you8 ,when you are subject to the laws of gravitation give up to them1 and feel their strength4 ,do not resist these laws1 as a thousand and one of us do when instead of yielding gently and letting ourselves sink into a chair1 we put our bodies rigidly on and then hold them there as if fearing the chair would break if we gave our full weight to it4 ,it is not only unnatural and unrestful1 but most awkward4 ,so in a railroad car4 ,much1 indeed most of the fatigue from a long journey by rail is quite unnecessary1 and comes from an unconscious officious effort of trying to carry the train1 instead of allowing the train to carry us1 or of resisting the motion1 instead of relaxing and yielding to it4 ,there is a pleasant rhythm in the motion of the rapidly moving cars which is often restful rather than fatiguing1 if we will only let go and abandon ourselves to it4 ,this was strikingly proved by a woman who1 having just learned the first principles of relaxation1 started on a journey overstrained from mental anxiety4 ,the first effect of the motion was that most disagreeable1 faint feeling known as car-sickness4 ,understanding the cause1 she began at once to drop the unnecessary tension1 and the faintness left her4 ,then she commenced an interesting novel1 and as she became excited by the plot her muscles were contracted in sympathy 7so-called71 and the faintness returned in full force1 so that she had to drop the book and relax again2 and this process was repeated half-a-dozen times before she could place her body so under control of natural laws that it was possible to read without the artificial tension asserting itself and the car-sickness returning in consequence4 ,the same law is illustrated in driving4 ,i cannot drive1 it tires me so1 is a common complaint4 ,why does it tire you8 ,because instead of yielding entirely and freely to the seat of the carriage first1 and then to its motion1 you try to help the horses1 or to hold yourself still while the carriage is moving4 ,a man should become one with a carriage in driving1 as much as one with his horse in riding4 ,notice the condition in any place where there is excuse for some anxiety1--while going rather sharply round a corner1 or nearing a railroad track4 ,if your feet are not pressed forcibly against the floor of the carriage1 the tension will be somewhere else4 ,you are using nervous force to no earthly purpose1 and to great earthly loss4 ,where any tension is necessary to make things better1 it will assert itself naturally and more truly as we learn to drop all useless and harmful tension4 ,take a patient suffering from nervous prostration for a long drive1 and you will bring him back more nervously prostrated2 even the fresh air will not counteract the strain that comes from not knowing how to relax to the motion of the carriage4 ,a large amount of nervous energy is expended unnecessarily while waiting4 ,if we are obliged to wait for any length of time1 it does not hurry the minutes or bring that for which we wait to keep nervously strained with impatience2 and it does use vital force1 and so helps greatly toward ,americanitis4 ,the strain which comes from an hour's nervous waiting1 when simply to let yourself alone and keep still would answer much better1 is often equal to a day's labor4 ,it must be left to individuals to discover how this applies in their own especial cases1 and it will be surprising to see not only how great and how common such strain is1 but how comparatively easy it is to drop it4 ,there are of course exceptional times and states when only constant trying and thoughtful watchfulness will bring any marked result4 ,we have taken a few examples where there is nothing to do but keep quiet1 body and brain1 from what should be the absolute rest of sleep to the enforced rest of waiting4 ,just one word more in connection with waiting and driving4 ,you must catch a certain train4 ,not having time to trust to your legs or the cars1 you hastily take a cab4 ,you will in your anxiety keep up exactly the same strain that you would have had in walking1--as if you could help the carriage along1 or as if reaching the station in time depended upon your keeping a rigid spine and tense muscles4 ,you have hired the carriage to take you1 and any activity on your part is quite unnecessary until you reach the station2 why not keep quiet and let the horses do the work1 and the driver attend to his business8 ,it would be easy to fill a small volume with examples of the way in which we are walking directly into nervous prostration2 examples only of this one variety of disobedience1--namely1 of the laws of rest4 ,and to give illustrations of all the varieties of disobedience to ,nature's laws in activity would fill not one small book1 but several large ones2 and then1 unless we improve1 a year-book of new examples of nervous strain could be published4 ,but fortunately1 if we are nervous and short-sighted1 we have a good share of brain and commonsense when it is once appealed to1 and a few examples will open our eyes and set us thinking1 to real and practical results4 ,v4 ,,the ,,use ,,of ,,the ,,brain ,,let us now consider instances where the brain alone is used1 and the other parts of the body have nothing to do but keep quiet and let the brain do its work4 ,take thinking1 for instance4 ,most of us think with the throat so contracted that it is surprising there is room enough to let the breath through1 the tongue held firmly1 and the jaw muscles set as if suffering from an acute attack of lockjaw4 ,each has his own favorite tension in the act of meditation1 although we are most generous in the force given to the jaw and throat4 ,the same superfluous tension may be observed in one engaged in silent reading2 and the force of the strain increases in proportion to the interest or profundity of the matter read4 ,it is certainly clear1 without a knowledge of anatomy or physiology1 that for pure1 unadulterated thinking1 only the brain is needed2 and if vital force is given to other parts of the body to hold them in unnatural contraction2 we not only expend it extravagantly1 but we rob the brain of its own4 ,when1 for purely mental work1 all the activity is given to the brain1 and the body left free and passive1 the concentration is better1 conclusions are reached with more satisfaction1 and the reaction1 after the work is over1 is healthy and refreshing4 ,this whole machine can be understood perhaps more clearly by comparing it to a community of people4 ,in any community1--,church1 ,state1 institution1 or household1--just so far as each member minds his own business1 does his own individual work for himself and for those about him1 and does not officiously interfere with the business of others1 the community is quiet1 orderly1 and successful4 ,imagine the state of a deliberative assembly during the delivery of a speech1 if half-a-dozen of the listeners were to attempt to help the speaker by rising and talking at the same time2 and yet this is the absurd action of the human body when a dozen or more parts1 that are not needed1 contract in sympathy with those that have the work to do4 ,it is an unnecessary brace that means loss of power and useless fatigue4 ,one would think that the human machine having only one mind1 and the community many thousands1 the former would be in a more orderly state than the latter4 ,in listening attentively1 only the brain and ears are needed2 but watch the individuals at an entertaining lecture1 or in church with a stirring preacher4 ,they are listening with their spines1 their shoulders1 the muscles of their faces4 ,i do not refer to the look of interest and attention1 or to any of the various expressions which are the natural and true reflection of the state of the mind1 but to the strained attention which draws the facial muscles1 not at all in sympathy with the speaker1 but as a consequence of the tense nerves and contracted muscles of the listener4 ,i do not understand why ,i have this peculiar sort of asthma every ,sunday afternoon1 a lady said to me4 ,she was in the habit of hearing1 ,sunday morning1 a preacher1 exceedingly interesting1 but with a very rapid utterance1 and whose mind travelled so fast that the words embodying his thoughts often tumbled over one another4 ,she listened with all her nerves1 as well as with those needed1 held her breath when he stumbled1 to assist him in finding his verbal legs1 reflected every action with twice the force the preacher himself gave1--and then wondered why on ,sunday afternoon1 and at no other time1 she had this nervous catching of the breath4 ,she saw as soon as her attention was drawn to the general principles of ,nature1 how she had disobeyed this one1 and why she had trouble on ,sunday afternoon4 ,this case is very amusing1 even laughable1 but it is a fair example of many similar nervous attacks1 greater or less2 and how easy it is to see that a whole series of these1 day after day1 doing their work unconsciously to the victim1 will sooner or later bring some form of nervous prostration4 ,the same attitudes and the same effects often attend listening to music4 ,it is a common experience to be completely fagged after two hours of delightful music4 ,there is no exaggeration in saying that we should be rested after a good concert1 if it is not too long4 ,and yet so upside-down are we in our ways of living1 and1 through the mistakes of our ancestors1 so accustomed have we become to disobeying ,nature's laws1 that the general impression seems to be that music cannot be fully enjoyed without a strained attitude of mind and body2 whereas1 in reality1 it is much more exquisitely appreciated and enjoyed in ,nature's way4 ,if the nerves are perfectly free1 they will catch the rhythm of the music1 and so be helped back to the true rhythm of ,nature1 they will respond to the harmony and melody with all the vibratory power that ,god gave them1 and how can the result be anything else than rest and refreshment1--unless having allowed them to vibrate in one direction too long1 we have disobeyed a law in another way4 ,our bodies cannot by any possibility be free1 so long as they are strained by our own personal effort4 ,so long as our nervous force is misdirected in personal strain1 we can no more give full and responsive attention to the music1 than a piano can sound the harmonies of a sonata if some one is drawing his hands at the same time backwards and forwards over the strings4 ,but1 alas6 a contracted personality is so much the order of the day that many of us carry the chronic contractions of years constantly with us1 and can no more free ourselves for a concert at a day's or a week's notice1 than we can gain freedom to receive all the grand universal truths that are so steadily helpful4 ,it is only by daily patience and thought and care that we can cease to be an obstruction to the best power for giving and receiving4 ,there are1 scattered here and there1 people who have not lost the natural way of listening to music1--people who are musicians through and through so that the moment they hear a fine strain they are one with it4 ,singularly enough the majority of these are fine animals1 most perfectly and normally developed in their senses4 ,when the intellect begins to assert itself to any extent1 then the nervous strain comes4 ,so noticeable is this1 in many cases1 that nervous excitement seems often to be from misdirected intellect2 and people under the control of their misdirected nervous force often appear wanting in quick intellectual power1--illustrating the law that a stream spreading in all directions over a meadow loses the force that the same amount of water would have if concentrated and flowing in one channel4 ,there are also many cases where the strained nerves bring an abnormal intellectual action4 ,fortunately for the saving of the nation1 there are people who from a physical standpoint live naturally4 ,these are refreshing to see2 but they are apt to take life too easily1 to have no right care or thought1 and to be sublimely selfish4 ,another way in which the brain is constantly used is through the eyes4 ,what deadly fatigue comes from time spent in picture galleries6 ,there the strain is necessarily greater than in listening1 because all the pictures and all the colors are before us at once1 with no appreciable interval between forms and subjects that differ widely4 ,but as the strain is greater1 so should the care to relieve it increase4 ,we should not go out too far to meet the pictures1 but be quiet1 and let the pictures come to us4 ,the fatigue can be prevented if we know when to stop1 and pleasure at the time and in the memory afterwards will be surprisingly increased4 ,so is it in watching a landscape from the car window1 and in all interests which come from looking4 ,i am not for one instant condemning the natural expression of pleasure1 neither do ,i mean that there should be any apparent nonchalance or want of interest2 on the contrary1 the real interest and its true expression increase as we learn to shun the shams4 ,but will not the discovery of all this superfluous tension make one self-conscious8 ,certainly it will for a time1 and it must do so4 ,you must be conscious of a smooch on your face in order to wash it off1 and when the face is clean you think no more of it4 ,so you must see an evil before you can shun it4 ,all these physical evils you must be vividly conscious of1 and when you are so annoyed as to feel the necessity of moving from under them self-consciousness decreases in equal ratio with the success of your efforts4 ,whenever the brain alone is used in thinking1 or in receiving and taking note of impressions through either of the senses1 new power comes as we gain freedom from all misdirected force1 and with muscles in repose leave the brain to quietly do its work without useless strain of any kind4 ,it is of course evident that this freedom cannot be gained without1 first1 a consciousness of its necessity4 ,the perfect freedom1 however1 when reached1 means freedom from self-consciousness as well as from the strain which made self-consciousness for a time essential4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,brain ,,in ,,its ,,direction ,,of ,,the ,,body ,,we come now to the brain and its direction of other parts of the body4 ,what tremendous and unnecessary force is used in talking1--from the aimless motion of the hands1 the shoulders1 the feet1 the entire body1 to a certain rigidity of carriage1 which tells as powerfully in the wear and tear of the nervous system as superfluous motion4 ,it is a curious discovery when we find often how we are holding our shoulders in place1 and in the wrong place4 ,a woman receiving a visitor not only talks all over herself1 but reflects the visitor's talking all over1 and so at the end of the visit is doubly fatigued4 ,it tires me so to see people is heard often1 not only from those who are under the full influence of ,americanitis1 but from many who are simply hovering about its borders4 ,of course it tires you to see people1 you see them with1 so much superfluous effort1 can almost without exception be a true answer4 ,a very little simple teaching will free a woman from that unnecessary fatigue4 ,if she is sensible1 once having had her attention brought and made keenly alive to the fact that she talks all over1 she will through constant correction gain the power of talking as ,nature meant she should1 with her vocal apparatus only1 and with such easy motions as may be needed to illustrate her words4 ,in this change1 so far from losing animation1 she gains it1 and gains true expressive power2 for all unnecessary motion of the body in talking simply raises a dust1 so to speak1 and really blurs the true thought of the mind and feeling of the heart4 ,the ,american voice--especially the female voice--is a target which has been hit hard many times1 and very justly4 ,a ladies' luncheon can often be truly and aptly compared to a poultry-yard1 the shrill cackle being even more unpleasant than that of a large concourse of hens4 ,if we had once become truly appreciative of the natural mellow tones possible to every woman1 these shrill voices would no more be tolerated than a fashionable luncheon would be served in the kitchen4 ,a beautiful voice has been compared to corn1 oil1 and wine4 ,we lack almost entirely the corn and the oil2 and the wine in our voices is far more inclined to the sharp1 unpleasant taste of very poor currant wine1 than to the rich1 spicy flavor of fine wine from the grape4 ,it is not in the province of this book to consider the physiology of the voice1 which would be necessary in order to show clearly how its natural laws are constantly disobeyed4 ,we can now speak of it only with regard to the tension which is the immediate cause of the trouble4 ,the effort to propel the voice from the throat1 and use force in those most delicate muscles when it should come from the stronger muscles of the diaphragm1 is like trying to make one man do the work of ten2 the result must eventually be the utter collapse of the one man from over-activity1 and loss of power in the ten men because of muscles unused4 ,clergyman's sore throat is almost always explainable in this way2 and there are many laymen with constant trouble in the throat from no cause except the misuse of its muscles in talking4 ,the old philosopher said the seat of the soul was in the diaphragm4 ,however that may be1 the word begins there1 soul and body2 but you squeeze the life out of it in your throat1 and so your words are born dead6 was the most expressive exclamation of an able trainer of the voice4 ,few of us feel that we can take the time or exercise the care for the proper training of our voices2 and such training is not made a prominent feature1 as it should be1 in all ,american schools4 ,indeed1 if it were1 we would have to begin with the teachers2 for the typical teacher's voice1 especially in our public schools1 coming from unnecessary nervous strain is something frightful4 ,in a large school-room a teacher can be heard1 and more impressively heard1 in common conversational tones2 for then it is her mind that is felt more than her body4 ,but the teacher's voice mounts the scale of shrillness and force just in proportion as her nervous fatigue increases2 and often a true enthusiasm expresses itself--or1 more correctly1 hides itself--in a sharp1 loud voice1 when it would be far more effective in its power with the pupils if the voice were kept quiet4 ,if we cannot give time or money to the best development of our voices1 we can grow sensitive to the shrill1 unpleasant tones1 and by a constant preaching of lower your voices1 speak more quietly1 from the teacher to herself1 and then to her pupils1 from mother to child1 and from every woman to her own voice1 the standard ,american voice would change1 greatly to the national advantage4 ,i never shall forget the restful pleasure of hearing a teacher call the roll in a large schoolroom as quietly as she would speak to a child in a closet1 and every girl answering in the same soft and pleasant way4 ,the effect even of that daily roll-call could not have been small in its counteracting influence on the shrill ,american tone4 ,watch two people in an argument1 as the excitement increases the voice rises4 ,in such a case one of the best and surest ways to govern your temper is to lower your voice4 ,indeed the nervous system and the voice are in such exquisite sympathy that they constantly act and react on each other4 ,it is always easier to relax superfluous tension after lowering the voice4 ,take the bone and flesh sound from your voice is a simple and interesting direction4 ,it means do not push so hard with your body and so interfere with the expression of your soul4 ,thumping on a piano1 or hard scraping on a violin1 will keep all possible expression from the music1 and in just the same proportion will unnecessary physical force hide the soul in a voice4 ,indeed with the voice--because the instrument is finer--the contrast between ,nature's way and man's perversion is far greater4 ,one of the first cares with a nervous invalid1 or with any one who suffers at all from overstrained nerves1 should be for a quiet1 mellow voice4 ,it is not an invariable truth that women with poorly balanced nerves have shrill1 strained voices4 ,there is also a rigid tone in a nervously low voice1 which1 though not unpleasant to the general ear1 is expressive to one who is in the habit of noticing nervous people1 and is much more difficult to relax than the high pitched voices4 ,there is also a forced calm which is tremendous in its nervous strain1 the more so as its owner takes pride in what she considers remarkable self-control4 ,another common cause of fatigue with women is the useless strain in sewing4 ,i get so tired in the back of my neck is a frequent complaint4 ,it is because you sew with the back of your neck is generally the correct explanation4 ,and it is because you sew with the muscles of your waist that they feel so strangely fatigued1 and the same with the muscles of your legs or your chest4 ,wherever the tired feeling comes it is because of unnatural and officious tension1 which1 as soon as the woman becomes sensible of it1 can be stopped entirely by taking two or three minutes now and then to let go of these wrongly sympathetic muscles and so teach them to mind their own business1 and sew with only the muscles that are needed4 ,a very simple cause of over-fatigue in sewing is the cramped1 strained position of the lungs2 this can be prevented without even stopping in the work1 by taking long1 quiet1 easy breaths4 ,here there must be no exertion whatever in the chest muscles4 ,the lungs must seem to expand from the pressure of the air alone1 as independently as a rubber ball will expand when external pressure is removed1 and they must be allowed to expel the air with the same independence4 ,in this way the growth of breathing power will be slow1 but it will be sure and delightfully restful4 ,frequent1 full1 quiet breaths might be the means of relief to many sufferers1 if only they would take the trouble to practise them faithfully1--a very slight effort compared with the result which will surely ensue4 ,and so it is with the fatigue from sewing4 ,i fear ,i do not exaggerate1 when ,i say that in nine cases out of ten a woman would rather sew with a pain in her neck than stop for the few moments it would take to relax it and teach it truer habits1 so that in the end the pain might be avoided entirely4 ,then1 when the inevitable nervous exhaustion follows1 and all the kindred troubles that grow out of it she pities herself and is pitied by others1 and wonders why ,god thought best to afflict her with suffering and illness4 ,thought best6 ,god never thought best to give any one pain4 ,he made ,his laws1 and they are wholesome and perfect and true1 and if we disobey them we must suffer the consequences6 ,i knock my head hard against a stone and then wonder why ,god thought best to give me the headache4 ,there would be as much sense in that as there is in much of the so-called ,christian resignation to be found in the world to-day4 ,to be sure there are inherited illnesses and pains1 physical and mental1 but the laws are so made that the compensation of clear-sightedness and power for use gained by working our way rightly out of all inheritances and suffering brought by others1 fully equalizes any apparent loss4 ,in writing there is much unnecessary nervous fatigue4 ,the same cramped attitude of the lungs that accompanies sewing can be counteracted in the same way1 although in neither case should a cramped attitude be allowed at all ,still the relief of a long breath is always helpful and even necessary where one must sit in one position for any length of time4 ,almost any even moderately nervous man or woman will hold a pen as if some unseen force were trying to pull it away1 and will write with firmly set jaw1 contracted throat1 and a powerful tension in the muscles of the tongue1 or whatever happens to be the most officious part of this especial individual community4 ,to swing the pendulum to another extreme seems not to enter people's minds when trying to find a happy medium4 ,writer's paralysis1 or even the ache that comes from holding the hand so long in a more or less cramped attitude1 is easily obviated by stopping once in an hour or half hour1 stretching the fingers wide and letting the muscles slowly relax of their own accord4 ,repeat this half-a-dozen times1 and after each exercise try to hold the pen or pencil with natural lightness2 it will not take many days to change the habit of tension to one of ease1 although if you are a steady writer the stretching exercise will always be necessary1 but much less often than at first4 ,in lifting a heavyweight1 as in nursing the sick1 the relief is immediate from all straining in the back1 by pressing hard with the feet on the floor and thinking the power of lifting in the legs4 ,there is true economy of nervous force here1 and a sensitive spine is freed from a burden of strain which might undoubtedly be the origin of nervous prostration4 ,i have made nurses practise lifting1 while impressing the fact forcibly upon them by repetition before they lift1 and during the process of raising a body and lowering it1 that they must use entirely the muscles of the legs4 ,when once their minds have full comprehension of the new way1 the surprise with which they discover the comparative ease of lifting is very pleasant4 ,the whole secret in this and all similar efforts is to use muscular instead of nervous force4 ,direct with the directing power2 work with the working power4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,direction ,,of ,,the ,,body ,,in ,,locomotion ,,lifting brings us to the use of the entire body1 which is considered simply in the most common of all its movements1--that of walking4 ,the rhythm of a perfect walk is not only delightful1 but restful2 so that having once gained a natural walk there is no pleasanter way to rest from brain fatigue than by means of this muscle fatigue4 ,and yet we are constantly contradicting and interfering with ,nature in walking4 ,women--perhaps partly owing to their unfortunate style of dress--seem to hold themselves together as if fearing that having once given their muscles free play1 they would fall to pieces entirely4 ,rather than move easily forward1 and for fear they might tumble to pieces1 they shake their shoulders and hips from side to side1 hold their arms perfectly rigid from the shoulders down1 and instead of the easy1 natural swing that the motion of walking would give the arms1 they go forward and back with no regularity1 but are in a chronic state of jerk4 ,the very force used in holding an arm as stiff as the ordinary woman holds it1 would be enough to give her an extra mile in every five-mile walk4 ,then again1 the muscles of the throat must help1 and more than anywhere else is force unnecessarily expended in the waist muscles4 ,they can be very soon felt1 pushing with all their might--and it is not a small might--officiously trying to assist in the action of the legs2 whereas if they would only let go1 mind their own business1 and let the legs swing easily as if from the shoulders1 they might reflect the rhythmic motion1 and gain in a true freedom and power4 ,of course all this waste of force comes from nervous strain and is nervous strain1 and a long walk in the open air1 when so much of the new life gained is wrongly expended1 does not begin to do the good work that might be accomplished4 ,to walk with your muscles and not use superfluous nervous force is the first thing to be learned1 and after or at the same time to direct your muscles as ,nature meant they should be directed1--indeed we might almost say to let ,nature direct them herself1 without our interference4 ,hurry with your muscles and not with your nerves4 ,this tells especially in hurrying for a train1 where the nervous anxiety in the fear of losing it wakes all possible unnecessary tension and often impedes the motion instead of assisting it4 ,the same law applies here that was mentioned before with regard to the carriage1--only instead of being quiet and letting the carriage take you1 be quiet and let your walking machine do its work4 ,so in all hurrying1 and the warning can hardly be given too many times1 we must use our nerves only as transmitters--calm1 well-balanced transmitters--that our muscles may be more efficient and more able servants4 ,the same mistakes of unnecessary tension will be found in running1 and1 indeed1 in all bodily motion1 where the machine is not trained to do its work with only the nerves and muscles needed for the purpose4 ,we shall have opportunity to consider these motions in a new light when we come to the directions for gaining a power of natural motion2 now we are dealing only with mistakes4 ,,viii4 ,,nervous ,,strain ,,in ,,pain ,,and ,,sickness ,,there is no way in which superfluous and dangerous tension is so rapidly increased as in the bearing of pain4 ,the general impression seems to be that one should brace up to a pain2 and very great strength of will is often shown in the effort made and the success achieved in bearing severe pain by means of this bracing process4 ,but alas1 the reaction after the pain is over--that alone would show the very sad misuse which had been made of a strong will4 ,not that there need be no reaction2 but it follows naturally that the more strain brought to bear upon the nervous system in endurance1 the greater must be the reaction when the load is lifted4 ,indeed1 so well is this known in the medical profession1 that it is a surgical axiom that the patient who most completely controls his expression of pain will be the greatest sufferer from the subsequent reaction4 ,while there is so much pain to be endured in this world1 a study of how best to bear it certainly is not out of place1 especially when decided practical effects can be quickly shown as the result of such study4 ,so prevalent is the idea that a pain is better borne by clinching the fists and tightening all other muscles in the body correspondingly1 that ,i know the possibility of a better or more natural mode of endurance will be laughed at by many1 and others will say1 ,that is all very well for those who can relax to a pain1--let them gain from it1 ,i cannot2 it is natural for me to set my teeth and bear it4 ,there is a distinct difference between what is natural to us and natural to ,nature1 although the first term is of course misused4 ,pain comes from an abnormal state of some part of the nervous system4 ,the more the nerves are strained to bear pain1 the more sensitive they become2 and of course those affected immediately feel most keenly the increased sensitiveness1 and so the pain grows worse4 ,reverse that action1 and through the force of our own inhibitory power let a new pain be a reminder to us to let go1 instead of to hold on1 and by decreasing the strain we decrease the possibility of more pain4 ,whatever reaction may follow pain then1 will be reaction from the pain itself1 not from the abnormal tension which has been held for the purpose of bearing it4 ,but--it will be objected--is not the very effort of the brain to relax the tension a nervous strain8 ,yes1 it is1--not so great1 however1 as the continued tension all over the body1 and it grows less and less as the habit is acquired of bearing the pain easily4 ,the strain decreases more rapidly with those who having undertaken to relax1 perceive the immediate effects2 for1 of course1 as the path clears and new light comes they are encouraged to walk more steadily in the easier way4 ,i know there are pains that are better borne and even helped by a certain amount of bracing1 but if the idea of bearing such pain quietly1 easily1 naturally1 takes a strong hold of the mind1 all bracing will be with a true equilibrium of the muscles1 and will have the required effect without superfluous tension4 ,one of the most simple instances of bearing pain more easily by relaxing to it occurs while sitting in the dentist's chair4 ,most of us clutch the arms1 push with our feet1 and hold ourselves off the chair to the best of our ability4 ,every nerve is alive with the expectation of being hurt4 ,the fatigue which results from an hour or more of this dentist tension is too well known to need description4 ,most of the nervous fatigue suffered from the dentist's work is in consequence of the unnecessary strain of expecting a hurt and not from any actual pain inflicted4 ,the result obtained by insisting upon making yourself a dead weight in the chair1 if you succeed only partially1 will prove this4 ,it will also be a preliminary means of getting well rid of the dentist fright1--that peculiar dread which is so well known to most of us4 ,the effect of fright is nervous strain1 which again contracts the muscles4 ,if we drop the muscular tension1 and so the nervous strain1 thus working our way into the cause by means of the effect1 there will be no nerves or muscles to hold the fright1 which then so far as the physique is concerned cannot exist4 ,so far as the physique is concerned1--that is emphatic2 for as we work inward from the effect to the cause we must be met by the true philosophy inside1 to accomplish the whole work4 ,i might relax my body out of the nervous strain of fright all day2 if my mind insisted upon being frightened it would simply be a process of freeing my nerves and muscles that they might be made more effectually tense by an unbalanced1 miserably controlled mind4 ,in training to bring body and mind to a more normal state1 the teacher must often begin with the body only1 and use his own mind to gently lead the pupil to clearer sight4 ,then when the pupil can strike the equilibrium between mind and body1--he must be left to acquire the habit for himself4 ,the same principles by which bearing the work of the dentist is made easier1 are applicable in all pain1 and especially helpful when pain is nervously exaggerated4 ,it would be useless and impossible to follow the list of various pains which we attempt to bear by means of additional strain4 ,each of us has his own personal temptation in the way of pain1--from the dentist's chair to the most severe suffering1 or the most painful operation1--and each can apply for himself the better way of bearing it4 ,and it is not perhaps out of place here to speak of the taking of ether or any anaesthetic before an operation4 ,the power of relaxing to the process easily and quietly brings a quicker and pleasanter effect with less disagreeable results4 ,one must take ether easily in mind and body4 ,it a man forces himself to be quiet externally1 and is frightened and excited mentally1 as soon as he has become unconscious enough to lose control of his voluntary muscles1 the impression of fright made upon the brain asserts itself1 and he struggles and resists in proportion4 ,these same principles of repose should be applied in illness when it comes in other forms than that of pain4 ,we can easily increase whatever illness may attack us by the nervous strain which comes from fright1 anxiety1 or annoyance4 ,i have seen a woman retain a severe cold for days more than was necessary1 simply because of the chronic state of strain she kept herself in by fretting about it2 and in another unpleasantly amusing case the sufferer's constantly expressed annoyance took the form of working almost without intermission to find remedies for herself4 ,without using patience enough to wait for the result of one remedy1 she would rush to another until she became--so to speak--twisted and snarled in the meshes of a cold which it took weeks thoroughly to cure4 ,this is not uncommon1 and not confined merely to a cold in the head4 ,we can increase the suffering of friends through sympathy given in the same mistaken way by which we increase our own pain1 or keep ourselves longer than necessary in an uncomfortable illness4 ,,ix4 ,,nervous ,,strain ,,in ,,the ,,emotions ,,the most intense suffering which follows a misuse of the nervous power comes from exaggerated1 unnecessary1 or sham emotions4 ,we each have our own emotional microscope1 and the strength of its lens increases in proportion to the supersensitiveness of our nervous system4 ,if we are a little tired1 an emotion which in itself might hardly be noticed1 so slight is the cause and so small the result1 will be magnified many times4 ,if we are very tired1 the magnifying process goes on until often we have made ourselves ill through various sufferings1 all of our own manufacture4 ,this increase of emotion has not always nervous fatigue as an excuse4 ,many people have inherited emotional magnifying glasses1 and carry them through the world1 getting and giving unnecessary pain1 and losing more than half of the delight of life in failing to get an unprejudiced view of it4 ,if the tired man or woman would have the good sense to stop for one minute and use the power which is given us all of understanding and appreciating our own perverted states and so move on to better1 how easy it would be to recognize that a feeling is exaggerated because of fatigue1 and wait until we have gained the power to drop our emotional microscopes and save all the evil results of allowing nervous excitement to control us4 ,we are even permitted to see clearly an inherited tendency to magnify emotions and to overcome it to such an extent that life seems new to us4 ,this must be done by the individual himself1 through a personal appreciation of his own mistakes and active steps to free himself from them4 ,no amount of talking1 persuading1 or teaching will be of the slightest service until that personal recognition comes4 ,this has been painfully proved too often by those who see a friend suffering unnecessarily1 and in the short-sighted attempt to wrench the emotional microscope from his hand1 simply cause the hold to tighten and the magnifying power to increase4 ,a careful1 steady training of the physique opens the way for a better practice of the wholesome philosophy1 and the microscope drops with the relaxation of the external tension which has helped to hold it4 ,emotions are often not even exaggerated but are from the beginning imaginary2 and there are no more industrious imps of evil than these sham feelings4 ,the imps have no better field for their destructive work than in various forms of morbid1 personal attachment1 and in what is commonly called religion1--but which has no more to do with genuine religion than the abnormal personal likings have to do with love4 ,it is a fact worthy of notice that the two powers most helpful1 most strengthening1 when sincerely felt and realized1 are the ones oftenest perverted and shammed1 through morbid states and abnormal nervous excitement4 ,the sham is often so perfect an image of the reality that even the shammer is deceived4 ,to tell one of these pseudo-religious women that the whole attitude of her externally sanctified life is a sham emotion1 would rouse anything but a saintly spirit1 and surprise her beyond measure4 ,yet the contrast between the true1 healthful1 religious feeling and the sham is perfectly marked1 even though both classes follow the same forms and belong to the same charitable societies4 ,with the one1 religion seems to be an accomplishment1 with a rivalry as to who can carry it to the finest point2 with the other1 it is a steadily growing power of wholesome use4 ,this nervous strain from sham emotions1 it must be confessed1 is more common to the feminine nature4 ,so dangerously prevalent is it that in every girls' school a true repression of the sham and a development of real feeling should be the thoughtful1 silent effort of all the teachers4 ,any one who knows young girls feels deeply the terrible harm which comes to them in the weakening of their delicate1 nervous systems through morbid1 emotional excitement4 ,the emotions are vividly real to the girls1 but entirely sham in themselves4 ,great care must be taken to respect the sense of reality which a young girl has in these mistakes1 until she can be led out so far that she herself recognizes the sham2 then will come a hearty1 wholesome desire to be free from it4 ,a school governed by a woman with strong magnetism1 and an equally strong love of admiration and devotion1 can be kept in a chronic state of hysteria by the emotional affection of the girls for their teacher4 ,when they cannot reach the teacher they will transfer the feeling to one another4 ,where this is allowed to pervade the atmosphere of a girls' school1 those who escape floods of tears or other acute hysterical symptoms are the dull1 phlegmatic temperaments4 ,often a girt will go from one of these morbid attachments to another1 until she seems to have lost the power for a good1 wholesome affection4 ,strange as it may seem1 the process is a steady hardening of the heart4 ,the same result comes to man or woman who has followed a series of emotional flirtations1--the perceptions are dulled1 and the whole tone of the system1 mental and physical1 is weakened4 ,the effect is in exact correspondence in another degree with the result which follows an habitual use of stimulants4 ,most abnormal emotional states are seen in women--and sometimes in men--who believe themselves in love4 ,the suffering is to them very real4 ,it seems cruel to say1 ,my dear1 you are not in the least in love with that man2 you are in love with your own emotions4 ,if some one more attractive should appear1 you could at once transfer your emotional tortures to the seemingly more worthy object4 ,such ideas need not be flung in so many words at a woman1 but she may be gently led until she sees clearly for herself the mistake1 and will even laugh at the morbid sensations that before seemed to her terribly real4 ,how many foolish1 almost insane actions of men and women come from sham emotions and the nervous excitement generated by them1 or from nervous excitement and the sham emotions that result in consequence6 ,care should be taken first to change the course of the nervous power that is expressing itself morbidly1 to open for it a healthy outlet1 to guide it into that more wholesome channel1 and then help the owner to a better control and a clearer understanding1 that she may gain a healthy use of her wonderful nervous power4 ,a gallop on horseback1 a good swim1 fresh air taken with any form of wholesome fun and exercise is the way to begin if possible4 ,a woman who has had all the fresh air and interesting exercise she needs1 will shake off the first sign of morbid emotions as she would shake off a rat or any other vermin4 ,to one who is interested to study the possible results of misdirected nervous power1 nothing could illustrate it with more painful force than the story by ,rudyard ,kipling1 ,in the ,matter of a ,private4 ,real emotions1 whether painful or delightful1 leave one eventually with a new supply of strength2 the sham1 without exception1 leave their victim weaker1 physically and mentally1 unless they are recognized as sham1 and voluntarily dismissed by the owner of the nerves that have been rasped by them4 ,it is an inexpressibly sad sight to see a woman broken1 down and an invalid1 for no reason whatever but the unnecessary nervous excitement of weeks and months of sham emotion4 ,hardly too strong an appeal can be made to mothers and teachers for a careful watchfulness of their girls1 that their emotions be kept steadily wholesome1 so that they may grow and develop into that great power for use and healthful sympathy which always belongs to a woman of fine feeling4 ,there is a term used in college which describes most expressively an intense nervous excitement and want of control1--namely1 dry drunk4 ,it has often seemed to me that sham emotions are a woman's form of getting drunk1 and nervous prostration is its delirium tremens4 ,not the least of the suffering caused by emotional excitement comes from mistaken sympathy with others4 ,certain people seem to live on the principle that if a friend is in a swamp1 it is necessary to plunge in with him2 and that if the other man is up to his waist1 the sympathizer shows his friendliness by allowing the mud to come up to his neck4 ,whereas1 it is evident that the deeper my friend is immersed in a swamp1 the more sure ,i must be to keep on firm ground that ,i may help him out2 and sometimes ,i cannot even give my hand1 but must use a long pole1 the more surely to relieve him from danger4 ,it is the same with a mental or moral swamp1 or most of all with a nervous swamp1 and yet so little do people appreciate the use of this long pole that if ,i do not cry when my friend cries1 moan when my friend moans1 and persistently refuse to plunge into the same grief that ,i may be of more real use in helping him out of it1 ,i am accused by my friend and my friend's friend of coldness and want of sympathy4 ,people have been known to refuse the other end of your pole because you will not leave it and come into the swamp with them4 ,it is easy to see why this mistaken sympathy is the cause of great unnecessary nervous strain4 ,the head nurse of a hospital in one of our large cities was interrupted while at dinner by the deep interest taken by the other nurses in seeing an accident case brought in4 ,when the man was put out of sight the nurses lost their appetite from sympathy2 and the forcible way with which their superior officer informed them that if they had any real sympathy for the man they would eat to gain strength to serve him1 gave a lesson by which many nervous sympathizers could greatly profit4 ,of course it is possible to become so hardened that you eat your dinner from a want of feeling1 and to be consumed only with sympathy for yourself2 but it is an easy matter to make the distinction between a strong1 wholesome sympathy and selfish want of feeling1 and easier to distinguish between the sham sympathy and the real4 ,the first causes you to lose nervous strength1 the second gives you new power for wholesome use to others4 ,in all the various forms of nervous strain1 which we study to avoid1 let us realize and turn from false sympathy as one to be especially and entirely shunned4 ,sham emotions are1 of course1 always misdirected force2 but it is not unusual to see a woman suffering from nervous prostration caused by nervous power lying idle4 ,this form of invalidism comes to women who have not enough to fill their lives in necessary interest and work1 and have not thought of turning or been willing to turn their attention to some needed charity or work for others4 ,a woman in this state is like a steam-engine with the fire in full blast1 and the boiler shaking with the power of steam not allowed to escape in motive force4 ,a somewhat unusual example of this is a young woman who had been brought up as a nervous invalid1 had been through nervous prostration once1 and was about preparing for another attack1 when she began to work for a better control of her nervous force4 ,after gaining a better use of her machine1 she at once applied its power to work1--gradually at first and then more and more1 until she found herself able to endure what others had to give up as beyond their strength4 ,the help for these1 and indeed for all cases1 is to make the life objective instead of subjective4 ,look out1 not in2 look up1 not down2 lend a hand1 is the motto that must be followed gently and gradually1 but surely1 to cure or to prevent a case of ,americanitis4 ,but again1 good sense and care must be taken to preserve the equilibrium2 for nervous tension and all the suffering that it brings come more often from mistaken devotion to others than from a want of care for them4 ,too many of us are trying to make special ,providences of ourselves for our friends4 ,to say that this short-sighted martyrdom is not only foolish but selfish seems hard1 but a little thought will show it to be so4 ,a woman sacrifices her health in over-exertion for a friend4 ,if she does not distress the object of her devotion entirely out of proportion to the use she performs1 she at least unfits herself1 by over-working1 for many other uses1 and causes more suffering than she saves4 ,so are the great ends sacrificed to the smaller4 ,if you only knew how hard ,i am trying to do right comes with a strained face and nervous voice from many and many a woman4 ,if she could only learn in this case1 as in others1 of vaulting ambition that o'er-leaps itself and falls upon the other side2 if she could only realize that the very strained effort with which she tries1 makes it impossible for her to gain1--if she would only relax to whatever she has to do1 and then try1 the gain would be incomparable4 ,the most intense sufferers from nervous excitement are those who suppress any sign of their feeling4 ,the effort to hold in increases the nervous strain immensely4 ,as in the case of one etherized1 who has suppressed fright which he feels very keenly1 as soon as the voluntary muscles are relaxed the impression on the brain shows itself with all the vehemence of the feeling1--so when the muscles are consciously relaxed the nervous excitement bursts forth like the eruption of a small volcano1 and for a time is a surprise to the man or woman who has been in a constant effort of suppression4 ,the contrast between true self-control and that which is merely repressed feeling1 is1 like all contrast between the natural and the artificial1 immeasurable2 and the steadily increasing power to be gained by true self-control cannot be conveyed in words1 but must be experienced in actual use4 ,many of us know with what intense force a temper masters us when1 having held in for some time1 some spring is touched which makes silence impossible1 and the sense of relief which follows a volley of indignant words4 ,to say that we can get a far greater and more lasting relief without a word1 but simply through relaxing our muscles and freeing our excited nerves1 seems tame2 but it is practically true1 and is indeed the only way from a physical standpoint that one may be sure of controlling a high temper4 ,in that way1 also1 we keep the spirit1 the power1 the strength1 from which the temper comes1 and so far from being tame1 life has more for us4 ,we do not tire ourselves and lose nervous force through the wear and tear of losing our temper4 ,to speak expressively1 if not scientifically1 ,let go1 and let the temper slip over your nerves and off1--you do not lose it then1 for you know where it is1 and you keep all the nervous force that would have been used in suppression or expression for better work4 ,that1 the reader will say1 is not so easy as it sounds4 ,granted1 there must be the desire to get a true control of the temper2 but most of us have that desire1 and while we cannot expect immediate success1 steady practice will bring startling results sooner than we realize4 ,there must be a clear1 intelligent understanding of what we are aiming at1 and how to gain it2 but that is not difficult1 and once recognized grows steadily as we gain practical results4 ,let the first feeling of anger be a reminder to let go4 ,but you will say1 ,i do not want to let go1--only because your various grandfathers and grandmothers were unaccustomed to relieving themselves in that manner4 ,when we give way to anger and let it out in a volley of words1 there is often a sense of relief1 but more often a reaction which is most unpleasant1 and is greatly increased by the pain given to others4 ,the relief is certain if we relax2 and not only is there then no painful reaction1 but we gain a clear head to recognize the justice or injustice of our indignation1 and to see what can be done about its cause4 ,petty irritability can be met in the same way4 ,as with nervous pain it seems at first impossible to relax to it2 but the ,rubicon once crossed1 we cannot long be irritable1--it is so much simpler not to be1 and so much more comfortable4 ,if when we are tempted to fly into a rage or to snap irritably at others we could go through a short process of relaxing motions1 the effect would be delightful4 ,but that would be ridiculous2 and we must do our relaxing in the privacy of the closet and recall it when needed outside1 that we may relax without observation except in its happy results4 ,i know people will say that anything to divert the mind will cure a high temper or irritability4 ,that is only so to a limited extent2 and so far as it is so1 simply proves the best process of control4 ,diversion relieves the nervous excitement1 turning the attention in another direction1--and so is relaxing so far as it goes4 ,much quicker and easier than self-control is the control which allows us to meet the irritability of others without echoing it4 ,the temptation to echo a bad temper or an irritable disposition in others1 we all know2 but the relief which comes to ourselves and to the sufferer as we quietly relax and refuse to reflect it1 is a sensation that many of us have yet to experience4 ,one keeps a clear head in that way1 not to mention a charitable heart2 saves any quantity of nervous strain1 and keeps off just so much tendency to nervous prostration4 ,practically the way is opened to this better control through a physical training which gives us the power of relaxing at will1 and so of maintaining a natural1 wholesome equilibrium of nerves and muscles4 ,personal sensitiveness is1 to a great degree1 a form of nervous tension4 ,an individual case of the relief of this sensitiveness1 although laughable in the means of cure1 is so perfectly illustrative of it that it is worth telling4 ,a lady who suffered very much from having her feelings hurt came to me for advice4 ,i told her whenever anything was said to wound her1 at once to imagine her legs heavy1--that relaxed her muscles1 freed her nerves1 and relieved the tension caused by her sensitive feelings4 ,the cure seemed to her wonderful4 ,it would not have done for her to think a table heavy1 or a chair1 or to have diverted her mind in any other way1 for it was the effect of relaxation in her own body that she wanted1 which came from persistently thinking her legs heavy4 ,neither could her sensitiveness have taken a very deep hold1 or mere outside relaxation would not have reached it2 but that outside process had the effect of greatly assisting in the power to use a higher philosophy with the mind4 ,self-consciousness and all the personal annoyances that come with or follow it are to so great an extent nervous tension1 that the ease with which they may be helped seems sometimes like a miracle to those who study for a better guidance of their bodies4 ,of worries1 from the big worries with a real foundation to the miserable1 petty1 nagging worries that wear a woman's nervous system more than any amount of steady work1 there is so much to be said that it would prove tedious1 and indeed unnecessary to recount them4 ,a few words will suggest enough toward their remedy to those who are looking in the right direction1 and to others many words would be of no avail4 ,the petty worries are the most wearing1 and they fortunately are the most easily helped4 ,by relaxing the muscular contractions invariably accompanying them we seem to make an open channel1 and they slip through1--which expression ,i am well aware is not scientific4 ,the common saying1 ,cares roll off her like water off a duck's back1 means the same thing4 ,some human ducks are made with backs eminently fitted for cares to slip from2 but those whose backs seem to be made to hold the cares can remould themselves to the right proportions1 and there is great compensation in their appreciation of the contrast4 ,never resist a worry4 ,it is increased many times by the effort to overcome it4 ,the strain of the effort makes it constantly more difficult to drop the strain of the worry4 ,when we quietly go to work to relax the muscles and so quiet the nerves1 ignoring a worry1 the way in which it disappears is surprising4 ,then is the time to meet it with a broad philosophizing on the uselessness of worry1 etc41 and clinch our freedom1 so to speak4 ,it is not at the first attempt to relax1 or the second1 or the ninth1 that the worry will disappear for many of us1 and especially for worriers4 ,it takes many hours to learn what relaxing is2 but having once learned1 its helpful power is too evident for us not to keep at it1 if we really desire to gain our freedom4 ,to give the same direction to a worrier that was so effective with the woman whose feelings were easily hurt1 may seem equally ridiculous2 but in many cases it will certainly prove most useful4 ,when you begin to worry1 think your legs heavy4 ,your friends will appreciate the relief more than you do1 and will gain as you gain4 ,a recital of all the emotional disturbances which seem to have so strong a hold on us1 and which are merely misdirected nervous force1 might easily fill a volume2 but a few of the most common troubles1 such as have been given1 will perhaps suffice to help each individual to understand his own especial temptations in that direction1--and if ,i have made even partially clear the ease with which they may be relieved through careful physical training1 it is all ,i can hope for4 ,the body must be trained to obey the mind2 the mind must be trained to give the body commands worth obeying4 ,the real feelings of life are too exquisite and strengthening in their depth and power to be crowded out by those gross forms of nervous excitement which ,i can find no better name for than sham emotions4 ,if we could only realize this more broadly1 and bring up the children with a wholesome dread of morbid feeling what a marked change would there be in the state of the entire race6 ,all physicians agree that in most cases it is not overwork1 it is not mental strain1 that causes the greater number of cases of nervous disturbance1 but that they are more often brought on by emotional strain4 ,the deepest grief1 as well as the greatest joy1 can be met in a way to give new strength and new power for use if we have a sound philosophy and a well-guided1 wholesome body to meet it4 ,but these last are the work of years2 and neither the philosophy nor the physical strength can be brought to bear at short notice1 although we can do much toward a better equilibrium even late in life4 ,various forms of egotism1 if not exactly sham emotions1 are the causes of great nervous strain4 ,every physician knows the intense egotism which often comes with nervous prostration4 ,some one has very aptly said that insanity is only egotism gone to seed4 ,it often seems so1 especially when it begins with nervous prostration4 ,we cannot be too careful to shun this nervous over-care for self4 ,we inherit so strongly the subjective way of living rather than the objective1 that it impresses itself upon our very nerves2 and they1 instead of being open channels for the power always at our command to pass freely to the use for which it is intended1 stop the way by means of the attention which is so uselessly turned back on ourselves1 our narrow personal interests1 and our own welfare4 ,how often we see cases where by means of the nervous tension all this has increased to a disease1 and the tiresome ,ego is a monster in the way of its owner and all his would-be friends4 ,i cannot bear this4 ,i shall take cold4 ,if you only knew how ,i suffered4 ,why should we know1 unless through knowing we can give you some relief8 ,and so it goes1 ,i--,i--,i--forever1 and the more the more nervous prostration4 ,keep still1 that all which is good may come to you1 and live out to others that your life may broaden for use4 ,in this way we can take all that ,nature is ready to give us1 and will constantly give us1 and use it as hers and for her purposes1 which are always the truest and best ,then we live as a little child would live1--only with more wisdom4 ,x4 ,,nature',s ,,teaching ,,nature is not only our one guide in the matter of physical training1 she is the chief engineer who will keep us in order and control the machine1 if we aim to fulfil her conditions and shun every personal interference with the wholesome working of her laws4 ,here is where the exquisite sense of growing power comes4 ,in studying ,nature1 we not only realize the strength that comes from following her lead1 but we discover her in ourselves gently moving us onward4 ,we all believe we look to ,nature1 if we think at all2 and it is a surprise to find how mistaken we are4 ,the time would not be wasted if we whose duties do not lead us to any direct study of natural life for personal reasons1 would take fifteen minutes every day simply to think of ,nature and her methods of working1 and to see at the same time where1 so far as we individually are concerned1 we constantly interfere with the best use of her powers4 ,with all reverence ,i say it1 this should be the first form of prayer2 and our ability to pray sincerely to ,god and live in accordance with ,his laws would grow in proportion to our power of sincere sympathy with the workings of those laws in ,nature4 ,try to realize the quiet power of all natural growth and movement1 from a blade of grass1 through a tree1 a forest of trees1 the entire vegetable growth on the earth1 the movement of the planets1 to the growth and involuntary vital operations of our own bodies4 ,no words can bring so full a realization of the quiet power in the progress of ,nature as will the simple process of following the growth of a tree in imagination from the working of its sap in the root up to the tips of the leaves1 the blossoms1 and the fruit4 ,or beginning lower1 follow the growth of a blade of grass or a flower1 then a tree1 and so on to the movement of the earth1 and then of all the planets in the universe4 ,let your imagination picture so vividly all natural movements1 little by little1 that you seem to be really at one with each and all4 ,study the orderly working of your own bodily functions2 and having this clearly in mind1 notice where you1 in all movements that are or might be under the control of your will1 are disobeying ,nature's laws4 ,nature shows us constantly that at the back of every action there should be a great repose4 ,this holds good from the minutest growth to the most powerful tornado4 ,it should be so with us not only in the simple daily duties1 but in all things up to the most intense activity possible to man4 ,and this study and realization of ,nature's method which ,i am pleading for brings a vivid sense of our own want of repose4 ,the compensation is fortunately great1 or the discouragement might be more than could be borne4 ,we must appreciate a need to have it supplied2 we must see a mistake in order to shun it4 ,how can we expect repose of mind when we have not even repose of muscle8 ,when the most external of the machine is not at our command1 surely the spirit that animates the whole cannot find its highest plane of action4 ,or how can we possibly expect to know the repose that should be at our command for every emergency1 or hope to realize the great repose behind every action1 when we have not even learned the repose in rest8 ,think of ,nature's resting times1 and see how painful would be the result of a digression4 ,our side of the earth never turns suddenly toward the sun at night1 giving us flashes of day in the darkness4 ,when it is night1 it is night steadily1 quietly1 until the time comes for day4 ,a tree in winter1 its time for rest1 never starts out with a little bud here and there1 only to be frost bitten1 and so when spring-time comes1 to result in an uneven looking1 imperfectly developed tree4 ,it rests entirely in its time for rest2 and when its time for blooming comes1 its action is full and true and perfect4 ,the grass never pushes itself up in little1 untimely blades through the winter1 thus leaving our lawns and fields full of bare patches in the warmer season4 ,the flowers that close at night do not half close1 folding some petals and letting others stay wide open4 ,indeed1 so perfectly does ,nature rest when it is her time for resting1 that even the suggestion of these abnormal actions seems absolutely ridiculous4 ,the less we allow ourselves to be controlled by ,nature's laws1 the more we ignore their wonderful beauty2 and yet there is that in us which must constantly respond to ,nature unconsciously1 else how could we at once feel the absurdity of any disobedience to her laws1 everywhere except with man8 ,and man1 who is not only free to obey1 but has exquisite and increasing power to realize and enjoy them in all their fulness1 lives so far out of harmony with these laws as ever to be blind to his own steady disobedience4 ,think of the perfect power for rest in all animals4 ,lift a cat when she is quiet1 and see how perfectly relaxed she is in every muscle4 ,that is not only the way she sleeps1 but the way she rests2 and no matter how great or how rapid the activity1 she drops all tension at once when she stops4 ,so it is with all animals1 except in rare cases where man has tampered with them in a way to interfere with the true order of their lives4 ,watch a healthy baby sleeping2 lift its arm1 its leg1 or its head carefully1 and you will find each perfectly relaxed and free4 ,you can even hold it on your outspread hands1 and the whole little weight1 full of life and gaining new power through the perfect rest1 will give itself entirely to your hands1 without one particle of tension4 ,the sleep that we get in babyhood is the saving health of many4 ,but1 alas6 at a very early age useless tension begins1 and goes on increasing2 and if it does not steadily lead to acute ,americanitis1 it prevents the perfect use of all our powers4 ,mothers1 watch your children with a care which will be all the more effective because they will be unconscious of it2 for a child's attention should seldom be drawn to its own body4 ,lead them toward the laws of ,nature1 that they may grow in harmony with them1 and so be saved the useless suffering1 strain1 and trouble that comes to us ,americans4 ,if we do not take care1 the children will more and more inherit this fearful misuse of the nervous force1 and the inheritance will be so strong that at best we can have only little invalids4 ,how great the necessity seems for the effort to get back into ,nature's ways when we reflect upon the possibilities of a continued disobedience6 ,to be sure1 ,nature has ,repose itself and does not have to work for it4 ,man is left free to take it or not as he chooses4 ,but before he is able to receive it he has personal tendencies to restlessness to overcome4 ,and more than that1 there are the inherited nervous habits of generations of ancestors to be recognized and shunned4 ,but repose is an inmost law of our being1 and the quiet of ,nature is at our command much sooner than we realize1 if we want it enough to work for it steadily day by day4 ,nothing will increase our realization of the need more than a little daily thought of the quiet in the workings of ,nature and the consequent appreciation of our own lack4 ,ruskin tells the story with his own expressive power when he says1 ,are not the elements of ease on the face of all the greatest works of creation8 ,do they not say1 not there has been a great effort here1 but there has been a great power here8 ,the greatest act1 the only action which we know to be power in itself1 is the act of ,creation4 ,behind that action there lies a great ,repose4 ,we are part of ,creation1 we should be moved by its laws4 ,let us shun everything we see to be in the way of our own best power of action in muscle1 nerve1 senses1 mind1 and heart4 ,who knows the new perception and strength1 the increased power for use that is open to us if we will but cease to be an obstruction8 ,freedom within the limits of ,nature's laws1 and indeed there is no freedom without those limits1 is best studied and realized in the growth of all plants1--in the openness of the branch of a vine to receive the sap from the main stem1 in the free circulation of the sap in a tree and in all vegetable organisms4 ,imagine the branch of a vine endowed with the power to grow according to the laws which govern it1 or to ignore and disobey those laws4 ,imagine the same branch having made up its vegetable mind that it could live its own life apart from the vine1 twisting its various fibres into all kinds of knots and snarls1 according to its own idea of living1 so that the sap from the main stem could only reach it in a minimum quantity4 ,what a dearth of leaf1 flower1 and fruit would appear in the branch6 ,yet the figure is perfectly illustrative of the way in which most of us are interfering with the best use of the life that is ours4 ,freedom is obedience to law4 ,a bridge can be built to stand1 only in obedience to the laws of mechanics4 ,electricity can be made a useful power only in exact obedience to the laws that govern it1 otherwise it is most destructive4 ,has man the privilege of disobeying natural laws1 only in the use of his own individual powers8 ,clearly not4 ,and why is it that while recognizing and endeavoring to obey the laws of physics1 of mechanics1 and all other laws of ,nature in his work in the world1 he so generally defies the same laws in their application to his own being8 ,the freedom of an animal's body in obeying the animal instincts is beautiful to watch4 ,the grace and power expressed in the freedom of a tiger are wonderful4 ,the freedom in the body of a baby to respond to every motion and expression is exquisite to study4 ,but before most children have been in the world three years their inherited personal contractions begin1 and unless the little bodies can be watched and trained out of each unnecessary contraction as it appears1 and so kept in their own freedom1 there comes a time later1 when to live to the greatest power for use they must spend hours in learning to be babies all over again1 and then gain a new freedom and natural movement4 ,the law which perhaps appeals to us most strongly when trying to identify ourselves with ,nature is the law of rhythm3 action1 re-action2 action1 re-action2 action1 re-action1--and the two must balance1 so that equilibrium is always the result4 ,there is no similar thought that can give us keener pleasure than when we rouse all our imagination1 and realize all our power of identifying ourselves with the workings of a great law1 and follow this rhythmic movement till we find rhythm within rhythm1--from the rhythmic motion of the planets to the delicate vibrations of heat and light4 ,it is helpful to think of rhythmic growth and motion1 and not to allow the thought of a new rhythm to pass without identifying ourselves with it as fully as our imagination will allow4 ,we have the rhythm of the seasons1 of day and night1 of the tides1 and of vegetable and animal life1--as the various rhythmic motions in the flying of birds4 ,the list will be endless1 of course1 for the great law rules everything in ,nature1 and our appreciation of it grows as we identify ourselves with its various modes of action4 ,one hair's variation in the rhythm of the universe would bring destruction1 and yet we little individual microcosms are knocking ourselves into chronic states of chaos because we feel that we can be gods1 and direct our own lives so much better than the ,god who made us4 ,we are left in freedom to go according to ,his laws1 or against them2 and we are generally so convinced that our own stupid1 short-sighted way is the best1 that it is only because ,nature tenderly holds to some parts of us and keeps them in the rhythm1 that we do not hurl ourselves to pieces4 ,this law of rhythm--or of equilibrium in motion and in rest--is the end1 aim1 and effect of all true physical training for the development and guidance of the body4 ,its ruling power is proved in the very construction of the body1--the two sides2 the circulation of the blood1 veins and arteries2 the muscles1 extensor and flexor2 the nerves1 sensory and motor4 ,when the long rest of a body balances the long activity1 in day and night2 when the shorter rests balance the shorter activity1 as in the various opportunities offered through the day for entire rest1 if only a minute at a time2 when the sensory and motor nerves are clear for impression and expression2 when the muscles in parts of the body not needed are entirely quiet1 allowing those needed for a certain action to do their perfect work2 when the co-ordination of the muscles in use is so established that the force for a movement is evenly divided2 when the flexor rests while its antagonizing muscle works1 and vice versa1-- when all this which is merely a natural power for action and rest is automatically established1 then the body is ready to obey and will obey the lightest touch of its owner1 going in whatever direction it may be sent1 artistic1 scientific1 or domestic4 ,as this exquisite sense of ease in a natural movement grows upon us1 no one can describe the feeling of new power or of positive comfort which comes with it2 and yet it is no miracle1 it is only natural4 ,the beasts have the same freedom2 but they have not the mind to put it to higher uses1 or the sense to enjoy its exquisite power4 ,often it seems that the care and trouble to get back into ,nature's way is more than compensated for in the new appreciation of her laws and their uses4 ,but the body1 after all1 is merely a servant2 and1 however perfect its training may have been1 if the man1 the master1 puts his natural power to mean or low uses1 sooner or later the power will be lost4 ,self-conscious pride will establish its own contractions4 ,the use of a natural power for evil ends will limit itself sooner or later4 ,the love for unwholesome surroundings will eventually put a check on a perfectly free body1 although sometimes the wonder is that the check is so long in coming4 ,if we have once trained ourselves into natural ways1 so akin are the laws of ,nature and spirit1 both must be obeyed2 and to rise to our greatest power means always to rise to our greatest power for use4 ,a man's life is ,god's love for the use for which he was made2 a man's power lies in the best direction of that use4 ,this is a truth as practical as the necessity for walking on the feet with the head up4 ,,xi4 ,,the ,,child ,,as ,,an ,,ideal ,,while the path of progress in the gaining of repose could not be traced thus far without reference to the freedom of a baby1 a fuller consideration of what we may learn from this source must be of great use to us4 ,the peace and freshness of a little baby are truly beautiful1 but are rarely appreciated4 ,few of us have peace enough in ourselves to respond to these charms4 ,it is like playing the softest melody upon a harp to those whose ears have long been closed4 ,let us halt1 and watch1 and listen1 and see what we shall gain6 ,throughout the muscular system of a normal1 new-born baby it is impossible to find any waste of force4 ,an apparent waste will1 upon examination1 prove itself otherwise4 ,its cry will at first seem to cause contractions of the face2 but the absolute removal of all traces of contraction as the cry ceases1 and a careful watching of the act itself1 show it to be merely an exaggeration of muscular action1 not a permanent contraction4 ,each muscle is balanced by an opposing one2 in fact1 the whole thing is only a very even stretching of the face1 and1 undoubtedly1 has a purpose to accomplish4 ,examine a baby's bed1 and see how distinctly it bears the impression of an absolute giving up of weight and power4 ,they actually do that which we only theorize about1 and from them we may learn it all1 if we will4 ,a babe in its bath gives us another fine opportunity for learning to be simple and free4 ,it yields to the soft pressure of the water with a repose which is deeply expressive of gratitude2 while we1 in our clumsy departures from ,nature's state1 often resist with such intensity as not to know--in circumstances just as simply useful to us--that we have anything for which to be grateful4 ,in each new experience we find it the same1 the healthy baby yields1 lets himself go1 with an case which must double his chances for comfort4 ,could we but learn to do so1 our lives would lengthen1 and our joys and usefulness strengthen in exact proportion4 ,all through the age of unconsciousness1 this physical freedom is maintained even where the mental attitude is not free4 ,baby wrath is as free and economical of physical force as are the winsome moods1 and this until the personality has developed to some extent1--that is1 until the child reflects the contractions of those around him4 ,it expends itself in well-balanced muscular exercise1 one set of muscles resting fully in their moment of non-use1 while another set takes up the battle4 ,at times it will seem that all wage war together2 if so1 the rest is equal to the action4 ,it is not the purpose of this chapter to recommend anger1 even of the most approved sort2 but if we will express the emotion at all1 let us do it as well as we did in our infancy6 ,channels so free as this would necessitate1 would lessen our temptations to such expression2 we1 with mature intellects1 would see it for what it is1 and the next generation of babies would less often exercise their wonderfully balanced little bodies in such an unlovely waste4 ,note the perfect openness of a baby throat as the child coos out his expression of happiness4 ,could anything be more free1 more like the song of a bird in its obedience to natural laws8 ,alas1 for how much must we answer that these throats are so soon contracted1 the tones changed to so high a pitch1 the voice becoming so shrill and harsh6 ,can we not open our throats and become as these little children8 ,the same openness in the infant organism is the child's protection in many dangers4 ,falls that would result in breaks1 strains1 or sprains in us1 leave the baby entirely whole save in its feelings1 and often there1 too1 if the child has been kept in the true state mentally4 ,watch a baby take its food1 and contrast it with our own ways of eating4 ,the baby draws it in slowly and evenly1 with a quiet rhythm which is in exact accord with the rhythmic action of its digestive organs4 ,you feel each swallow taken in the best way for repair1 and for this reason it seems sometimes as if one could see a baby grow while feeding4 ,there cannot be a lovelier glimpse of innocent physical repose than the little respites from the fatigue of feeding which a baby often takes4 ,his face moist1 with open pores1 serene and satisfied1 he views the hurry about him as an interesting phase of harmless madness4 ,he is entirely outside of it until self-consciousness is quite developed4 ,the sleep of a little child is another opportunity for us to learn what we need4 ,every muscle free1 every burden dropped1 each breath carries away the waste1 and fills its place with the needed substance of increasing growth and power4 ,in play1 we find the same freedom4 ,when one idea is being executed1 every other is excluded4 ,they do not think dolls while they roll hoop6 ,they do not think of work while they play4 ,examine and see how we do both4 ,the baby of one year1 sitting on the shore burying his fat hand in the soft warm sand1 is for the time being alive only to its warmth and softness1 with a dim consciousness of the air and color about him4 ,if we could engross ourselves as fully and with as simple a pleasure1 we should know far more of the possible power of our minds for both work and rest4 ,it is interesting to watch normal children in these concentrations1 because from their habits we may learn so much which may improve our own sadly different manner of living4 ,it is also interesting but pathetic to see the child gradually leaving them as he approaches boyhood1 and to trace our part in leading him away from the true path4 ,the baby's perfect placidity1 caused by mental and bodily freedom1 is disturbed at a very early age by those who should be his true guides4 ,it would be impossible to say when the first wrong impression is made1 but it is so early that a true statement of the time could only be accepted from scientific men4 ,for mothers and fathers have often so dulled their own sensitiveness1 that they are powerless to recognize the needs of their children1 and their impressions are1 in consequence1 untrustworthy4 ,at the time the pangs of teething begin1 it is the same4 ,the healthy child left to itself would wince occasionally at the slight pricking pain1 and then turn its entire attention elsewhere1 and thus become refreshed for the next trial4 ,but under the adult influence the agony of the first little prick is often magnified until the result is a cross1 tired baby1 already removed several degrees from the beautiful state of peace and freedom in which ,nature placed him under our care4 ,the bodily freedom of little children is the foundation of a most beautiful mental freedom1 which cannot be wholly destroyed by us4 ,this is plainly shown by the childlike trust which they display in all the affairs of life1 and also in their exquisite responsiveness to the spiritual truths which are taught to them4 ,the very expression of face of a little child as it is led by the hand is a lesson to us upon which pages might be written4 ,had we the same spirit dwelling in us1 we more often should feel ourselves led beside the still waters1 and made to lie down in green pastures4 ,we should grow faster spiritually1 because we should not make conflicts for ourselves1 but should meet with the ,lord's quiet strength whatever we had to pass through4 ,let us learn of these little ones1 and help them to hold fast to that which they teach us4 ,let us remember that the natural and the ideal are truly one1 and endeavor to reach the latter by means of the former4 ,when through hereditary tendency our little child is not ideal1--that is1 natural1--let us with all the more earnestness learn to be quiet ourselves that we may lead him to it1 and thus open the channels of health and strength4 ,,xii4 ,,training ,,for ,,rest ,,but how shall we gain a natural repose8 ,it is absurd to emphasize the need without giving the remedy4 ,i should be so glad to relax1 but ,i do not know how1 is the sincere lament of many a nervously strained being4 ,there is a regular training which acts upon the nervous force and teaches its proper use1 as the gymnasium develops the muscles4 ,this1 as will be easily seen1 is at first just the reverse of vigorous exercise1 and no woman should do powerful muscular work without learning at the same time to guide her body with true economy of force4 ,it is appalling to watch the faces of women in a gymnasium1 to see them using five1 ten1 twenty times the nervous force necessary for every exercise4 ,the more excited they get1 the more nervous force they use2 and the hollows under their eyes increase1 the strained expression comes1 and then they wonder that after such fascinating exercise they feel so tired4 ,a common sight in gymnasium work1 especially among women1 is the nervous straining of the muscles of the arms and hands1 while exercises meant for the legs alone are taken4 ,this same muscular tension is evident in the arm that should be at rest while the other arm is acting2 and if this want of equilibrium in exercise is so strikingly noticeable in the limbs themselves1 how much worse it must be all through the less prominent muscles6 ,to guide the body in trapeze work1 every well-trained acrobat knows he must have a quiet mind1 a clear head1 and obedient muscles4 ,i recall a woman who stands high in gymnastic work1 whose agility on the triple bars is excellent1 but the nervous strain shown in the drawn lines of her face before she begins1 leaves one who studies her carefully always in doubt as to whether she will not get confused before her difficult performance is over1 and break her neck in consequence4 ,a realization also of the unnecessary nervous force she is using1 detracts greatly from the pleasure in watching her performance4 ,if we were more generally sensitive to misdirected nervous power1 this interesting gymnast1 with many others1 would lose no time in learning a more quiet and naturally economical guidance of her muscles1 and gymnasium work would not be1 as ,dr4 ,checkley very justly calls it1 more often a straining than a training4 ,to aim a gun and hit the mark1 a quiet control of the muscles is necessary4 ,if the purpose of our actions were as well defined as the bull's eye of a target1 what wonderful power in the use of our muscles we might very soon obtain6 ,but the precision and ease in an average motion comes so far short of its possibility1 that if the same carelessness were taken as a matter of course in shooting practice1 the side of a barn should be an average target4 ,gymnasium work for women would be grand in its wholesome influence1 if only they might learn the proper use of the body while they are working for its development4 ,and no gymnasium will be complete and satisfactory in its results until the leader arranges separate classes for training in economy of force and rhythmic motion4 ,in order to establish a true physical balance the training of the nerves should receive as much attention as the training of the muscles4 ,the more we misuse our nervous force1 the worse the expenditure will be as muscular power increases2 ,i cannot waste so much force on a poorly developed muscle as on one that is well developed4 ,this does not by any means argue against the development of muscle2 it argues for its proper use4 ,where is the good of an exquisitely formed machine1 if it is to be shattered for want of control of the motive power8 ,it would of course be equally harmful to train the guiding power while neglecting entirely flabby1 undeveloped muscles4 ,the only difference is that in the motions for this training and for the perfect co-ordinate use of the muscles1 there must be a certain amount of even1 muscular development2 whereas although the vigorous exercise for the growth of the muscles often helps toward a healthy nervous system1 it more often1 where the nervous force is misused1 exaggerates greatly the tension4 ,in every case it is equilibrium we are working for1 and a one-sided view of physical training is to be deplored and avoided1 whether the balance is lost on the side of the nerves or the muscles4 ,take a little child early enough1 and watch it carefully through a course of natural rhythmic exercises1 and there will be no need for the careful training necessary to older people4 ,but help for us who have gone too far in this tension comes only through patient study4 ,so far as ,i can1 ,i will give directions for gaining the true relaxation4 ,but because written directions are apt to be misunderstood1 and so bring discouragement and failure1 ,i will purposely omit all but the most simple means of help2 but these ,i am sure will bring very pleasant effects if followed exactly and with the utmost patience4 ,the first care should be to realize how far you are from the ability to let go of your muscles when they are not needed2 how far you are from the natural state of a cat when she is quiet1 or better still from the perfect freedom of a sleeping baby2 consequently how impossible it is for you ever to rest thoroughly4 ,almost all of us are constantly exerting ourselves to hold our own heads on4 ,this is easily proved by our inability to let go of them4 ,the muscles are so well balanced that ,nature holds our heads on much more perfectly than we by any possibility can4 ,so it is with all our muscles2 and to teach them better habits we must lie flat on our backs1 and try to give our whole weight to the floor or the bed4 ,the floor is better1 for that does not yield in the least to us1 and the bed does4 ,once on the floor1 give way to it as far as possible4 ,every day you will become more sensitive to tension1 and every day you will be better able to drop it4 ,while you are flat on your backs1 if you can find some one to prove your relaxation1 so much the better4 ,let your friend lift an arm1 bending it at the different joints1 and then carefully lay it down4 ,see if you can give its weight entirely to the other person1 so that it seems to be no part of you1 but as separate as if it were three bags of sand1 fastened loosely at the wrist1 the elbow1 and the shoulder2 it will then be full of life without tension4 ,you will find probably1 either that you try to assist in raising the arm in your anxiety to make it heavy1 or you will resist so that it is not heavy with its own weight but with ,i your personal effort4 ,in some cases the nervous force is so active that the arm reminds one of a lively eel4 ,then have your legs treated in the same way4 ,it is good even to have some one throw your arm or your leg up and catch it2 also to let it go unexpectedly4 ,unnecessary tension is proved when the limb1 instead of dropping by the pure force of gravity1 sticks fast wherever it was left4 ,the remark when the extended limb is brought to the attention of its owner is1 ,well1 what did you want me to do8 ,you did not say you wanted me to drop it1--which shows the habitual attitude of tension so vividly as to be almost ridiculous2 the very idea being1 of course1 that you are not wanted to do anything but let go1 when the arm would drop of its own accord4 ,if the person holding your arm says1 ,now ,i will let go1 and it must drop as if a dead weight1 almost invariably it will not be the force of gravity that takes it1 but your own effort to make it a dead weight2 and it will come down with a thump which shows evident muscular effort1 or so slowly and actively as to prove that you cannot let it alone4 ,constant and repeated trial1 with right thought from the pupil1 will be certain to bring good results1 so that at least he or she can be sure of better power for rest in the limbs4 ,unfortunately this first gain will not last4 ,unless the work goes on1 the legs and arms will soon be all tightened up again1 and it will seem harder to let go than ever4 ,the next care must be with the head4 ,that cannot be treated as roughly as the limbs4 ,it can be tossed1 if the tosser will surely catch it on his open hand4 ,never let it drop with its full weight on the floor1 for the jar of the fall1 if you are perfectly relaxed1 is unpleasant2 if you are tense1 it is dangerous4 ,at first move it slowly up and down4 ,as with the arms1 there will be either resistance or attempted assistance4 ,it seems at times as though it were and always would be impossible to let go of your own head4 ,of course1 if you cannot give up and let go for a friend to move it quietly up and down1 you cannot let go and give way entirely to the restful power of sleep4 ,the head must be moved up and down1 from side to side1 and round and round in opposite ways1 gently and until its owner can let go so completely that it seems like a big ball in the hands that move it4 ,of course care must be taken to move it gently and never to extremes1 and it will not do to trust an unintelligent person to prove a body in any way4 ,ladies' maids have been taught to do it very well1 but they had in all cases to be carefully watched at first4 ,the example of a woman who had for years been an invalid is exceedingly interesting as showing how persistently people hold on4 ,although the greater part of her time had been spent in a reclining attitude1 she had not learned the very rudiments of relaxation1 and could not let go of her own muscles any more easily than others who have always been in active life4 ,think of holding yourself on to the bed for ten years6 ,her maid learned to move her in the way that has been described1 and after repeated practice1 by the time she had reached the last movement the patient would often be sleeping like a baby4 ,it did not cure her1 of course2 that was not expected4 ,but it taught her to relax to a pain instead of bracing up and fighting it1 and to live in a natural way so far as an organic disease and sixty years of misused and over-used force would allow4 ,having relaxed the legs and arms and head1 next the spine and all the muscles of the chest must be helped to relax4 ,this is more difficult1 and requires not only care but greater muscular strength in the lifter4 ,if the one who is lifting will only remember to press hard on the floor with the feet1 and put all the effort of lifting in the legs1 the strain will be greatly lessened4 ,take hold of the hands and lift the patient or pupil to a sitting attitude4 ,here1 of course1 if the muscles that hold the head are perfectly relaxed1 the head will drop back from its own weight4 ,then1 in letting the body back again1 of course1 keep hold of the hands1--never let go2 and after it is down1 if the neck has remained relaxed1 the head will be back in a most uncomfortable attitude1 and must be lifted and placed in the right position4 ,it is some time before relaxation is so complete as that4 ,at first the head and spine will come up like a ramrod1 perfectly rigid and stiff4 ,there will be the same effort either to assist or resist2 the same disinclination to give up2 often the same remark1 ,if you will tell me what you want me to do1 ,i will do it2 the same inability to realize that the remark1 and the feeling that prompts it1 are entirely opposed to the principle that you are wanted to do nothing1 and to do nothing with an effort is impossible4 ,in lowering the body it must give like a bag of bones fastened loosely together and well padded4 ,sometimes when it is nearly down1 one arm can be dropped1 and the body let down the rest of the way by the other4 ,then it is simply giving way completely to the laws of gravity1 it will fall over on the side that is not held1 and only roll on its back as the other arm is dropped4 ,care must always be taken to arrange the head comfortably after the body is resting on the ground4 ,sometimes great help is given toward relaxing the muscles of the chest and spine by pushing the body up as if to roll it over1 first one side and then the other1 and letting it roll back from its own weight4 ,it is always good1 after helping the separate parts to a restful state1 to take the body as a whole and roll it over and over1 carefully1 and see if the owner can let you do so without the slightest effort to assist you4 ,it will be easily seen that the power1 once gained1 of remaining perfectly passive while another moves you1 means a steadily increasing ability to relax at all times when the body should be given to perfect rest4 ,this power to let go causes an increasing sensitiveness to all tension1 which1 unpleasant as it always is to find mistakes of any kind in ourselves1 brings a very happy result in the end2 for we can never shun evils1 physical or spiritual1 until we have recognized them fully1 and every mistaken way of using our machine1 when studiously avoided1 brings us nearer to that beautiful unconscious use of it which makes it possible for us to forget it entirely in giving it the more truly to its highest use4 ,after having been helped in some degree by another1 and often without that preliminary help1 come the motions by which we are enabled to free ourselves2 and it is interesting to see how much more easily the body will move after following this course of exercises4 ,take the same attitude on the floor1 giving up entirely in every part to the force of gravity1 and keep your eyes closed through the whole process4 ,then stop and imagine yourself heavy4 ,first think one leg heavy1 then the other1 then each arm1 and both arms1 being sure to keep the same weight in the legs2 then your body and head4 ,use your imagination to the full extent of its power1 and think the whole machine heavy2 wonder how the floor can hold such a weight4 ,begin then to take a deep breath4 ,inhale through the nose quietly and easily4 ,let it seem as if the lungs expanded themselves with1 out voluntary effort on your part4 ,fill first the lower lungs and then the upper4 ,let go1 and exhale the air with a sense of relief4 ,as the air leaves your lungs1 try to let your body rest back on the floor more heavily1 as a rubber bag would if the air were allowed to escape from it4 ,repeat this breathing exercise several times2 then inhale and exhale rhythmically1 with breaths long enough to give about six to a minute1 for ten times1 increasing the number every day until you reach fifty4 ,this eventually will establish the habit of longer breaths in the regular unconscious movement of our lungs1 which is most helpful to a wholesome physical state4 ,the directions for deep breathing should be carefully followed in the deep breaths taken after each motion4 ,after the deep breathing1 drag your leg up slowly1 very slowly1 trying to have no effort except in the hip joint1 allowing the knee to bend1 and dragging the heel heavily along the floor1 until it is up so far that the sole of the foot touches without effort on your part4 ,stop occasionally in the motion and let the weight come into the heel1 then drag the foot with less effort than before1--so will the strain of movement be steadily decreased4 ,let the leg slip slowly down1 and when it is nearly flat on the floor again1 let go1 so that it gives entirely and drops from its own weight4 ,if it is perfectly free1 there is a pleasant little spring from the impetus of dropping1 which is more or less according to the healthful state of the body4 ,the same motion must be repeated with the other leg4 ,every movement should be slower each day4 ,it is well to repeat the movements of the legs for three times1 trying each time to move more slowly1 with the leg heavier than the time before4 ,after this1 lift the arm slowly from the shoulder1 letting the hand hang over until it is perpendicular to the floor4 ,be careful to think the arm heavy1 and the motive power in the shoulder4 ,it helps to relax if you imagine your arm held to the shoulder by a single hair1 and that if you move it with a force beyond the minimum needed to raise it1 it will drop off entirely4 ,to those who have little or no imagination this will seem ridiculous2 to others who have more1 and can direct it usefully1 this and similar ways will be very helpful4 ,after the arm is raised to a perpendicular position1 let the force of gravity have it1--first the upper arm to the elbow1 and then the forearm and hand1 so that it falls by pieces4 ,follow the same motion with the other arm1 and repeat this three times1 trying to improve with each repetition4 ,next1 the head must be moved slowly1--so slowly that it seems as though it hardly moved at all1--first rolled to the left1 then back and to the right and back again2 and this also can be repeated three times4 ,after each of the above motions there should be two or three long1 quiet breaths4 ,to free the spine1 sit up on the floor1 and with heavy arms and legs1 head dropped forward1 let it go back slowly and easily1 as if the vertebrae were beads on a string1 and first one bead lay flat1 then another and another1 until the whole string rests on the floor1 and the head falls back with its own weight4 ,this should be practised over and over before the movement can be perfectly free2 and it is well to begin on the bed1 until you catch the idea and its true application4 ,after1 and sometimes before1 the process of slow motions1 rolling over loosely on one side should be practised1--remaining there until the weight all seems near the floor1 and then giving way so that the force of gravity seems to flop it back 7,i use flop advisedly72 so again resting on the other side4 ,but one must go over by regular motions1 raising the leg first heavily and letting it fall with its full weight over the other leg1 so that the ankles are crossed4 ,the arm on the same side must be raised as high as possible and dropped over the chest4 ,then the body can be rolled over1 and carried as it were by the weight of the arm and leg4 ,it must go over heavily and freely like a bag of loose bones1 and it helps greatly to freedom to roll over and over in this way4 ,long breaths1 taken deeply and quietly1 should be interspersed all through these exercises for extreme relaxation4 ,they prevent the possibility of relaxing too far4 ,and as there is a pressure on every muscle of the body during a deep inspiration1 the muscles1 being now relaxed into freedom1 are held in place1 so to speak1 by the pressure from the breath1--as we blow in the fingers of a glove to put them in shape4 ,remember always that it is equilibrium we are working for1 and this extreme relaxation will bring it1 because we have erred so far in the opposite direction4 ,for instance1 there is now no balance at all between our action and our rest1 because we are more or less tense and consequently active all through the times when we should be entirely at rest2 and we never can be moved by ,nature's rhythm until we learn absolute relaxation for rest1 and so gain the true equilibrium in that way4 ,then again1 since we use so much unnecessary tension in everything we do1 although we cannot remove it entirely until we learn the normal motion of our muscles1 still after an hour's practice and the consequent gain in extreme relaxation1 it will be impossible to attack our work with the same amount of unnecessary force1 at least for a time2 and every day the time in which we are able to work1 or talk1 or move with less tension will increase1 and so our bad habits be gradually changed1 if not to good1 to better ones4 ,so the true equilibrium comes gradually more and more into every action of our lives1 and we feel more and more the wholesome harmony of a rhythmic life4 ,we gradually swing into rhythm with ,nature through a child-like obedience to her laws4 ,of one thing ,i must warn all nervous people who mean to try the relief to be gained from relaxation4 ,the first effects will often be exceedingly unpleasant4 ,the same results are apt to follow that come from the reaction after extreme excitement1--all the way from nervous nausea and giddiness to absolute fainting4 ,this1 as must be clearly seen1 is a natural result from the relaxation that comes after years of habitual tension4 ,the nerves have been held in a chronic state of excitement over something or nothing2 and1 of course1 when their owner for the first time lets go1 they begin to feel their real state1 and the result of habitual strain must be unpleasant4 ,the greater the nervous strain at the beginning1 the more slowly the pupil should advance1 practising in some cases only five minutes a day4 ,and with regard to those people who live on their nerves1 not a few1 indeed very many1 are so far out of the normal way of living that they detest relaxation4 ,a hearty hatred of the relaxing motions is often met1 and even when the mind is convinced of the truth of the theory1 it is only with difficulty that such people can persuade themselves or be persuaded by others to work steadily at the practice until the desired result is gained4 ,it makes me ten times more nervous than ,i was before4 ,oh1 no1 it does not2 it only makes you realize your nervousness ten times more4 ,well1 then1 ,i do not care to realize my nervousness1 it is very disagreeable4 ,but1 unfortunately1 if you do not realize it now and relax into ,nature's ways1 she will knock you hard against one of her stone walls1 and you will rebound with a more unpleasant realization of nervousness than is possible now4 ,the locomotive engine only utilizes nineteen per cent of the amount of fuel it burns1 and inventors are hard at work in all directions to make an engine that will burn only the fuel needed to run it4 ,here is a much more valuable machine--the human engine--burning perhaps eighty-one per cent more than is needed to accomplish its ends1 not through the mistake of its ,divine ,maker1 but through the stupid1 short-sighted thoughtlessness of the engineer4 ,is not the economy of our vital forces of much greater importance than mechanical or business economy8 ,it is painful to see a man--thin and pale from the excessive nervous force he has used1 and from a whole series of attacks of nervous prostration--speak with contempt of this method of relaxation4 ,it is not a method in any sense except that in which all the laws of ,nature are methods4 ,no one invented it1 no one planned it2 every one can see1 who will look1 that it is ,nature's way and the only true way of living4 ,to call it a new idea or method is as absurd as it would be1 had we carried our tension so far as to forget sleep entirely1 for some one to come with a new method of sleep to bring us into a normal state again2 and then the people suffering most intensely from want of tired ,nature's sweet restorer would be the most scornful in their irritation at this new idea of sleep4 ,again1 there are many1 especially women1 who insist that they prefer the nervously excited state1 and would not lose it4 ,this is like a man's preferring to be chronically drunk4 ,but all these abnormal states are to be expected in abnormal people1 and must be quietly met by ,nature's principles in order to lead the sufferers back to ,nature's ways4 ,our minds are far enough beyond our bodies to lead us to help ourselves out of mistaken opinions2 although often the sincere help of others takes us more rapidly over hard ground and prevents many a stumble4 ,great nervous excitement is possible1 every one knows1 without muscular tension2 therefore in all these motions for gaining freedom and a better physical equilibrium in nerve and muscle1 the warning cannot be given too often to take every exercise easily4 ,do not work at it1 go so far even as not to care especially whether you do it right or not1 but simply do what is to be done without straining mind or body by effort4 ,it is quite possible to make so desperate an effort to relax1 that more harm than good is done4 ,particularly harmful is the intensity with which an effort to gain physical freedom is made by so many highly strung natures4 ,the additional mental excitement is quite out of proportion to the gain that may come from muscular freedom4 ,for this reason it is never advisable for one who feels the need of gaining a more natural control of nervous power to undertake the training without a teacher4 ,if a teacher is out of the question1 ten minutes practice a day is all that should be tried for several weeks4 ,,xiii4 ,,training ,,for ,,motion ,,in every new movement1 in every unknown attitude needed in difficult exercises1 the nerve centres have to exercise a kind of selection of the muscles1 bringing into action those which favor the movement1 and suppressing those which oppose it4 ,this very evident truth ,dr4 ,lagrange gives us in his valuable book on the ,physiology of ,exercise4 ,at first1 every new movement is unknown2 and1 owing to inherited and personal contractions1 almost from the earliest movement in a child's learning to walk to the most complicated action of our daily lives1 the nerve centres exercise a mistaken selection of muscles1--not only selecting more muscles than are needed for perfect co-ordination of movement1 but throwing more force than necessary into the muscles selected4 ,to a gradually increasing extent1 the contracting force1 instead of being withdrawn when the muscle is inactive1 remains2 and1 as we have already seen1 an arm or leg that should be passive is lifted1 and the muscles are found to be contracted as if for severe action4 ,to the surprise of the owner the contraction cannot be at once removed4 ,help for this habitual contraction is given in the preceding chapter4 ,further on ,dr4 ,lagrange tells us that ,besides the apprenticeship of movements which are unknown1 there is the improvement of already known movements4 ,when the work of mistaken selection of muscles has gone on for years1 the improvement of already known movements1 from the simplest domestic action to the accomplishment of very great purposes1 is a study in itself4 ,one must learn first to be a grown baby1 and1 as we have already seen1 gain the exquisite passiveness of a baby2 then one must learn to walk and to move by a natural process of selection1 which1 thanks to the contractions of his various ancestors1 was not the process used for his original movements4 ,this learning to live all over again is neither so frightful nor so difficult as it sounds4 ,having gained the passive state described in the last chapter1 one is vastly more sensitive to unnecessary tension2 and it seems often as though the child in us asserted itself1 rising with alacrity to claim its right of natural movement1 and with a new sense of freedom in the power gained to shun inherited and personal contractions4 ,certainly it is a fact that freedom of movement is gained through shunning the contractions4 ,and this should always be kept in mind to avoid the self-consciousness and harm which come from a studied movement1 not to mention the very disagreeable impression such movements give to all who appreciate their artificiality4 ,motion in the human body1 as well as music1 is an art4 ,an artist has very aptly said that we should so move that if every muscle struck a note1 only harmony would result4 ,were it so the harmony would be most exquisite1 for the instrument is ,nature's own4 ,we see how far we are from a realization of natural movement when we watch carefully and note the muscular discords evident to our eyes at all times4 ,even the average ballet dancing1 which is supposed to be the perfection of artistic movement1 is merely a series of pirouettes and gymnastic contortions1 with the theatrical smile of a pretty woman to throw the glare of a calcium light over the imperfections and dazzle us4 ,the average ballet girl is not adequately trained1 from the natural and artistic standpoint4 ,if this is the case in what should be the quintessence of natural1 and so of artistic movement1 it is to a great degree owing to the absolute carelessness in the selection of the muscles to be used in every movement of daily life4 ,many exercises which lead to the freedom of the body are well known in the letter--not in the spirit--through the so-called ,delsarte system4 if they had been followed with a broad appreciation of what they were meant for and what they could lead to1 before now students would have realized to a far greater extent what power is possible to the human body4 ,but so much that is good and helpful in the ,delsarte system has been misused1 and so much of what is thoroughly artificial and unhealthy has been mixed with the useful1 that one hesitates now to mention ,delsarte4 ,either he was a wonderful genius whose thoughts and discoveries have been sadly perverted1 or the inconsistencies of his teachings were great enough to limit the true power which certainly can be found in much that he has left us4 ,besides the exercises already described there are many others1 suited to individual needs1 for gaining the freedom of each part of the body and of the body as a whole4 ,it is not possible to describe them clearly enough to allow them to be followed without a teacher1 and to secure the desired result4 ,indeed1 there would be danger of unpleasant results from misunderstanding4 ,the object is so to stand that our muscles hold us1 with the natural balance given them1 instead of trying1 as most of us do1 to hold our muscles4 ,in moving to gain this natural equilibrium we allow our muscles to carry us forward1 and when they have contracted as far as is possible for one set1 the antagonizing muscles carry us back4 ,so it is with the side-to-side poising from the ankles1 and the circular motion1 which is a natural swinging of the muscles to find their centre of equilibrium1 having once been started out of it4 ,to stand for a moment and think the feet heavy is a great help in gaining the natural poising motions1 but care should always be taken to hold the chest well up4 ,indeed1 we need have no sense of effort in standing1 except in raising the chest1--and that must be as if it were pulled up outside by a button in its centre1 but there must be no strain in the effort4 ,the result of the exercises taken to free the head is shown in the power to toss the head lightly and easily1 with the waist muscles1 from a dropped forward to an erect position4 ,the head shows its freedom then by the gentle swing of the neck muscles1 which is entirely involuntary and comes from the impetus given them in tossing the head4 ,tension in the muscles of the neck is often very difficult to overcome2 because1 among other reasons1 the sensations coming from certain forms of nervous over-strain are very commonly referred to the region of the base of the brain4 ,it is not unusual to find the back of the neck rigid in extreme tension1 and whether the strain is very severe or not1 great care must be taken to free it by slow degrees1 and the motions should at first be practised only a few minutes at a time4 ,i can hardly warn readers too often against the possibility of an unpleasant reaction1 if the relaxing is practised too long1 or gained too rapidly4 ,then should come exercises for freeing the arms2 and these can be taken sitting4 ,let the arms hang heavily at the sides2 raise one arm slowly1 feeling the weight more and more distinctly1 and only contracting the shoulder muscles4 ,it is well to raise it a few inches1 then drop it heavily and try again1--each time taking force out of the lower muscles by thinking the arm heavy1 and the motive power in the shoulder4 ,if the arm itself can rest heavily on some one's hand while you are still raising it from the shoulder1 that proves that you have succeeded in withdrawing the useless tension4 ,most arms feel stiff all the way along1 when the owners raise them4 ,your arm must be raised until high overhead1 the hand hanging from the wrist and dropped into your lap or down at the side1 letting the elbow give1 so that the upper arm drops first1 and then the fore arm and hand1--like three heavy sand-bags sewed together4 ,the arm can be brought up to the level of the shoulder1 and then round in front and dropped4 ,to prove its freedom1 toss it with the shoulder muscles from the side into the lap4 ,watch carefully that the arm itself has no more tension than if it were a sand-bag hung at the side1 and could only be moved by the shoulder4 ,after practising this two or three times so that the arms are relaxed enough to make you more sensitive to tension1 one hundred times a day you will find your arms held rigidly1 while you are listening or talking or walking4 ,every day you will grow more sensitive to the useless tension1 and every day gain new power to drop it4 ,this is wherein the real practice comes4 ,an hour or two hours a day of relaxing exercises will amount to nothing if at the same time we are not careful to use the freedom gained1 and to do everything more naturally4 ,it is often said1 ,but ,i cannot waste time watching all day to see if ,i am using too much force4 ,there is no need to watch2 having once started in the right direction1 if you drop useless muscular contraction every time you notice it1 that is enough4 ,it will be as natural to do that as for a musician to correct a discord which he has inadvertently made on the piano4 ,there are no motions so quieting1 so helpful in the general freeing of the body1 as the motions of the spine4 ,there are no motions more difficult to describe1 or which should be more carefully directed4 ,the habitual rigidity of the spine1 as compared with its possible freedom1 is more noticeable in training1 of course1 than is that of any other part of the body4 ,each vertebra should be so distinctly independent of every other1 as to make the spine as smoothly jointed as the toy snakes1 which1 when we hold the tip of the tail in our fingers1 curve in all directions4 ,most of us have spinal columns that more or less resemble ramrods4 ,it is a surprise and delight to find what can be accomplished1 when the muscles of the spine and back are free and under control4 ,of course the natural state of the spine1 as the seat of a great nervous centre1 affects many muscles of the body1 and1 on the other hand1 the freedom of these muscles reacts favorably upon the spine4 ,the legs are freed for standing and walking by shaking the foot free from the ankle with the leg1 swinging the fore leg from the upper leg1 and so freeing the muscles at the knee1 and by standing on a footstool and letting one leg hang off the stool a dead weight while swinging it round from the hip4 ,greater freedom and ease of movement can be gained by standing on the floor and swinging the leg from the hip as high as possible4 ,be sure that the only effort for motion is in the muscles of the hip4 ,there are innumerable other motions to free the legs1 and often a great variety must be practised before the freedom can be gained4 ,the muscles of the chest and waist are freed through a series of motions1 the result of which is shown in the ability to toss the body lightly from the hips1 as the head is tossed from the waist muscles2 and there follows the same gentle involuntary swing of the muscles of the waist which surprises one so pleasantly in the neck muscles after tossing the head1 and gives a new realization of what physical freedom is4 ,in tossing the body the motion must be successive1 like running the scale with the vertebrae4 ,in no motion should the muscles work en masse4 ,the more perfect the co-ordination of muscles in any movement1 the more truly each muscle holds its own individuality4 ,this power of freedom in motion should be worked for after once approaching the natural equilibrium4 ,if you rest on your left leg1 it pushes your left hip a little farther out1 which causes your body to swerve slightly to the right1--and1 to keep the balance true1 the head again tips to the left a little4 ,now rise slowly and freely from that to standing on both feet1 with body and head erect2 then drop on the right foot with the body to left1 and head to right4 ,here again1 as in the motions with the spine1 there is a great difference in the way they are practised4 ,their main object is to help the muscles to an independent individual co-ordination1 and there should be a new sense of ease and freedom every time we practise it4 ,hold the chest up1 and push yourself erect with the ball of your free foot4 ,the more the weight is thought into the feet the freer the muscles are for action1 provided the chest is well raised4 ,the forward and back spinal motion should be taken standing also2 and there is a gentle circular motion of the entire body which proves the freedom of all the muscles for natural movement1 and is most restful in its result4 ,the study for free movement in the arms and legs should of course be separate4 ,the law that every part moves from something prior to it1 is illustrated exquisitely in the motion of the fingers from the wrist4 ,here also the individuality of the muscles in their perfect co-ordination is pleasantly illustrated4 ,to gain ease of movement in the fore arm1 its motive power must seem to be in the upper arm2 the motive power for the entire arm must seem to be centred in the shoulder4 ,when through various exercises a natural co-ordination of the muscles is gained1 the arm can be moved in curves from the shoulder1 which remind one of a graceful snake2 and the balance is so true that the motion seems hardly more than a thought in the amount of effort it takes4 ,great care should be given to freeing the hands and fingers4 ,because the hand is in such constant communication with the brain1 the tension of the entire body often seems to be reflected there4 ,sometimes it is even necessary to train the hand to some extent in the earliest lessons4 ,exercises for movement in the legs are to free the joints1 so that motions may follow one another as in the arm1--the foot from the ankle2 the lower leg from the upper leg2 the upper leg from the hip2 and1 as--in the arm1 the free action of the joints in the leg comes as we seem to centre the motive power in the hip4 ,there is then the same grace and ease of movement which we gain in the arm1 simply because the muscles have their natural equilibrium4 ,thus the motive power of the body will seem to be gradually drawn to an imaginary centre in the lower part of the trunk1--which simply means withdrawing superfluous tension from every part4 ,the exercise to help establish this equilibrium is graceful1 and not difficult if we take it quietly and easily1 using the mind to hold a balance without effort4 ,raise the right arm diagonally forward1 the left leg diagonally back1--the arm must be high up1 the foot just off the floor1 so that as far as possible you make a direct line from the wrist to the ankle2 in this attitude stretch all muscles across the body from left to right slowly and steadily1 then relax quite as slowly4 ,now1 be sure your arm and leg are free from all tension1 and swing them very slowly1 as if they were one piece1 to as nearly a horizontal position as they can reach2 then slowly pivot round until you bring your arm diagonally back and your leg diagonally forward2 still horizontal1 pivot again to the starting point2 then bring leg down and arm up1 always keeping them as in a line1 until your foot is again off the floor2 then slowly lower your arm and let your foot rest on the floor so that gradually your whole weight rests on that leg1 and the other is free to swing up and pivot with the opposite arm4 ,all this must be done slowly and without strain of any kind4 ,the motions which follow in sets are for the better daily working of the body1 as well as to establish its freedom4 ,the first set is called the ,big ,rhythms1 because it takes mainly the rhythmic movement of the larger muscles of the body1 and is meant1 through movements taken on one foot1 to give a true balance in the poise of the body as well as to make habitual the natural co-ordination in the action of all the larger muscles4 ,it is like practising a series of big musical chords to accustom our ears to their harmonies4 ,the second set1 named the ,little ,rhythms1--because that is a convenient way of designating it1--is a series meant to include the movement of all the smaller muscles as well as the large ones1 and is carried out even to the fingers4 ,the third set is for spring and rapid motion1 especially in joints of arms and legs4 ,of course having once found the body's natural freedom1 the variety of motions is as great as the variety of musical sounds and combinations possible to an instrument which will respond to every tone in the musical scale4 ,it is in opening the way for this natural motion that the exquisite possibilities in motion purely artistic dawn upon us with ever-increasing light4 ,and as in music it is the sonata1 the waltz1 or the nocturne we must feel1 not the mechanical process of our own performance1--so in moving1 it is the beautiful1 natural harmonies of the muscles1 from the big rhythms to all the smaller ones1 that we must feel and make others feel1 and not the mere mechanical grace of our bodies2 and we can move a sonata from the first to the last1 changing the time and holding the theme so that the soul will be touched through the eye1 as it is through the ear now in music4 ,but1 according to the present state of the human body1 more than one generation will pass before we reach1 or know the beginning of1 the highest artistic power of motion4 ,if art is ,nature illuminated1 one must have some slight appreciation and experience of ,nature before attempting her illumination4 ,the set of motions mentioned can be only very inadequately described in print4 ,but although they are graceful1 because they are natural1 the first idea in practising them is that they are a means to an end1 not an end in themselves4 ,for in the big and little rhythms and the springing motions1 in practising them over and over again we are establishing the habit of natural motion1 and will carry it more and more into everything we do4 ,if the work of the brain in muscular exercise were reduced to its minimum1 the consequent benefit from all exercise would greatly increase4 ,a new movement can be learned with facility in proportion to the power for dropping at the time all impressions of previous movements4 ,in training to take every motion easily1 after a time the brain-work is relieved1 for we move with ease1--that is1 with a natural co-ordination of muscles1 automatically1--in every known motion2 and we lessen very greatly the mental strain1 in learning a new movement1 by gaining the power to relax entirely at first1 and then1 out of a free body1 choose the muscles needed1 and so avoid the nervous strain of useless muscular experiment4 ,so far as the mere muscular movement goes1 the sensation is that of being well oiled4 ,as for instance1 in a natural walk1 where the swinging muscles and the standing muscles act and rest in alternate rhythmic action1 the chest is held high1 the side muscles free to move in1 harmony with the legs1 and all the spring in the body brought into play through inclining slightly forward and pushing with the ball of the back foot1 the arms swinging naturally without tension4 ,walking with a free body is often one of the best forms of rest1 and in the varying forms of motion arranged for practice we are enabled to realize1 that perfect harmony of action in the entire man invigorates every part4 ,,xiv4 ,,mind ,,training ,,it will be plainly seen that this training of the body is at the same time a training of the mind1 and indeed it is in essence a training of the will4 ,for as we think of it carefully and analyze it to its fundamental principles1 we realize that it might almost be summed up as in itself a training of the will alone4 ,that is certainly what it leads to1 and where it leads from4 ,maudsley tells us that he who is incapable of guiding his muscles1 is incapable of concentrating his mind2 and it would seem to follow1 by a natural sequence1 that training for the best use of all the powers given us should begin with the muscles1 and continue through the nerves and the senses to the mind1--all by means of the will1 which should gradually remove all personal contractions and obstructions to the wholesome working of the law of cause and effect4 ,help a child to use his own ability of gaining free muscles1 nerves clear to take impressions through every sense1 a mind open to recognize them1 and a will alive with interest in and love for finding the best in each new sensation or truth1 and what can he not reach in power of use to others and in his own growth4 ,the consistency of creation is perfect4 ,the law that applies to the guidance of the muscles works just as truly in training the senses and the mind4 ,a new movement can be learned with facility in proportion to the power of dropping at the time all impressions of previous movements4 ,quickness and keenness of sense are gained only in proportion to the power of quieting the senses not in use1 and erasing previous impressions upon the sense which is active at the time4 ,true concentration of mind means the ability to drop every subject but that centred upon4 ,tell one man to concentrate his mind on a difficult problem until he has worked it out1--he will clinch his fists1 tighten his throat1 hold his teeth hard together1 and contract nobody knows how many more muscles in his body1 burning and wasting fuel in a hundred or more places where it should be saved4 ,this is not concentration4 ,concentration means the focussing of a force2 and when the mathematical faculty of the brain alone should be at work1 the force is not focussed if it is at the same time flying over all other parts of the body in useless strain of innumerable muscles4 ,tell another man1 one who works naturally1 to solve the same problem1--he will instinctively and at once erase all previous impressions in muscle and nerve1 and with a quiet1 earnest expression1 not a face knotted with useless strain1 will concentrate upon his work4 ,the result1 so far as the problem itself is concerned1 may be the same in both cases2 but the result upon the physique of the men who have undertaken the work will be vastly different4 ,it will be insisted upon by many1 and1 strange as it may seem1 by many who have a large share of good sense1 that they can work better with this extra tension4 ,for1 the explanation is1 it is natural to me4 ,that may be1 but it is not natural to ,nature2 and however difficult it may be at first to drop our own way and adopt ,nature's1 the proportionate gain is very great in the end4 ,normal exercise often stimulates the brain1 and by promoting more vigorous circulation1 and so greater physical activity all over the body1 helps the brain to work more easily4 ,therefore some men can think better while walking4 ,this is quite unlike the superfluous strain of nervous motion1 which1 however it may seem to help at the time1 eventually and steadily lessens mental power instead of increasing it4 ,the distinction between motion which wholesomely increases the brain activity and that which is simply unnecessary tension1 is not difficult to discern when our eyes are well opened to superfluous effort4 ,this misdirected force seems to be the secret of much of the overwork in schools1 and the consequent physical break-down of school children1 especially girls4 ,it is not that they have too much to do1 it is that they do not know how to study naturally1 and with the real concentration which learns the lesson most quickly1 most surely1 and with the least amount of effort4 ,they study a lesson with all the muscles of the body when only the brain is needed1 with a running accompaniment of worry for fear it will not be learned4 ,girls can be1 have been1 trained out of worrying about their lessons4 ,nervous strain is often extreme in students1 from lesson-worry alone2 and indeed in many cases it is the worry that tires and brings illness1 and not the study4 ,worry is brain tension4 ,it is partly a vague1 unformed sense that work is not being done in the best way which makes the pressure more than it need be2 and instead of quietly studying to work to better advantage1 the worrier allows herself to get more and more oppressed by her anxieties1--as we have seen a child grow cross over a snarl of twine which1 with very little patience1 might be easily unravelled1 but in which1 in the child's nervous annoyance1 every knot is pulled tighter4 ,perhaps we ought hardly to expect as much from the worried student as from the child1 because the ideas of how to study arc so vague that they seldom bring a realization of the fact that there might be an improvement in the way of studying4 ,this possible improvement may be easily shown4 ,i have taken a girl inclined to the mistaken way of working1 asked her to lie on the floor where she could give up entirely to the force of gravity1--then after helping her to a certain amount of passivity1 so that at least she looked quiet1 have asked her to give me a list of her lessons4 ,before opening her mouth to answer1 she moved in little nervous twitches1 apparently every muscle in her body1 from head to foot4 ,i stopped her1 took time to bring her again to a quiet state1 and then repeated the question4 ,again the nervous movement began1 but this time the child exclaimed1 ,why1 isn't it funny8 ,i cannot think without moving all over6 ,here was the ,rubicon crossed4 ,she had become alive to her own superfluous tension2 and after that to train her not only to think without moving all over1 but to answer questions easily and quietly and so with more expression1 and then to study with greatly decreased effort1 was a very pleasant process4 ,every boy and girl should have this training to a greater or less degree4 ,it is a steady1 regular process1 and should be so taken4 ,we have come through too many generations of misused force to get back into a natural use of our powers in any rapid way2 it must come step by step1 as a man is trained to use a complicated machine4 ,it seems hardly fair to compare such training to the use of a machine1--it opens to us such extensive and unlimited power4 ,we can only make the comparison with regard to the first process of development4 ,a training for concentration of mind should begin with the muscles4 ,first1 learn to withdraw the will from the muscles entirely4 ,learn1 next1 to direct the will over the muscles of one arm while the rest of the body is perfectly free and relaxed1--first1 by stretching the arm slowly and steadily1 and then allowing it to relax2 next1 by clinching the fist and drawing the arm up with all the force possible until the elbow is entirely bent4 ,there is not one person in ten1 hardly one in a hundred1 who can command his muscles to that slight extent4 ,at first some one must lift the arm that should be free1 and drop it several times while the muscles of the other arm are contracting2 that will make the unnecessary tension evident4 ,there are also ways by which the free arm can be tested without the help of a second person4 ,the power of directing the will over various muscles that should be independent1 without the so-called sympathetic contraction of other muscles1 should be gained all over the body4 ,this is the beginning of concentration in a true sense of the word4 ,the necessity for returning to an absolute freedom of body before directing the will to any new part cannot be too often impressed upon the mind4 ,having once sensed a free body--so to speak--we are not masters until we gain the power to return to it at a moment's notice4 ,in a second we can erase previous impressions for the time2 and that is the foundation1 the rock1 upon which our house is built4 ,then follows the process of learning to think and to speak in freedom4 ,first1 as to useless muscular contractions4 ,watch children work their hands when reciting in class4 ,tell them to stop1 and the poor things will1 with great effort1 hold their hands rigidly still1 and suffer from the discomfort and strain of doing so4 ,help them to freedom of body1 then to the sense that the working of their hands is not really needed1 and they will learn to recite with a feeling of freedom which is better than they can understand4 ,sometimes a child must be put on the floor to learn to think quietly and directly1 and to follow the same directions in this manner of answering4 ,it would be better if this could always be done with thoughtful care and watching2 but as this would be inappropriate with large classes1 there are quieting and relaxing exercises to be practised sitting and standing1 which will bring children to a normal freedom1 and help them to drop muscular contractions which interfere with ease and control of thought and expression4 ,pictures can be described1--scenes from ,shakespeare1 for instance1--in the child's own words1 while making quiet motions4 ,such exercise increases the sensitiveness to muscular contraction1 and unnecessary muscular contraction1 beside something to avoid in itself1 obviously makes thought indirect4 ,a child must think quietly1 to express his thought quietly and directly4 ,this exercise1 of course1 also cultivates the imagination4 ,in all this work1 as clear channels are opened for impression and expression1 the faculties themselves naturally have a freer growth4 ,the process of quiet thought and expression must be trained in all phases1--from the slow description of something seen or imagined or remembered1 to the quick and correct answer required to an example in mental arithmetic1 or any other rapid thinking4 ,this1 of course1 means a growth in power of attention1--attention which is real concentration1 not the strained attention habitual to most of us1 and which being abnormal in itself causes abnormal reaction4 ,and this natural attention is learned in the use of each separate sense1--to see1 to hear1 to taste1 to smell1 to touch with quick and exact impression and immediate expression1 if required1 and a in obedience to the natural law of the conservation of human energy4 ,with the power of studying freely1 comes that of dropping a lesson when it is once well learned1 and finding it ready when needed for recitation or for any other use4 ,the temptation to take our work into our play is very great1 and often cannot be overcome until we have learned how to erase all previous impressions4 ,the concentration which enables us all through life to be intent upon the one thing we are doing1 whether it is tennis or trigonometry1 and drop what we have in hand at once and entirely at the right time1 free to give out attention fully to the next duty or pleasure1 is our saving health in mind and body4 ,the trouble is we are afraid4 ,we have no trust4 ,a child is afraid to stop thinking of a lesson after it is learned1--afraid he will forget it4 ,when he has once been persuaded to drop it1 the surprise when he takes it up again1 to find it more clearly impressed upon his mind1 is delightful4 ,one must trust to the digestion of a lesson1 as to that of a good wholesome dinner4 ,worry and anxiety interfere with the one as much as with the other4 ,if you can drop a muscle when you have ceased using it1 that leads to the power of dropping a subject in mind2 as the muscle is fresher for use when you need it1 so the subject seems to have grown in you1 and your grasp seems to be stronger when you recur to it4 ,the law of rhythm must be carefully followed in this training for the use of the mind4 ,do not study too long at a time4 ,it makes a natural reaction impossible4 ,arrange the work so that lessons as far unlike as possible may be studied in immediate succession4 ,we help to the healthy reaction of one faculty1 by exercising another that is quite different4 ,this principle should be inculcated in classes1 and for that purpose a regular programme of class work should be followed1 calculated to bring about the best results in all branches of study4 ,the first care should be to gain quiet1 as through repose of mind and body we cultivate the power to erase all previous impressions4 ,in class1 quiet1 rhythmic breathing1 with closed eyes1 is most helpful for a beginning4 ,the eyes must be closed and opened slowly and gently1 not snapped together or apart2 and fifty breaths1 a little longer than they would naturally be1 are enough to quiet a class4 ,the breaths must be counted1 to keep the mind from wandering1 and the faces must be watched very carefully1 for the expression often shows anything but quiet4 ,for this reason it is necessary1 in initiating a class1 to begin with simple relaxing motions2 later these motions will follow the breathing4 ,then follow exercises for directing the muscles4 ,the force is directed into one arm with the rest of the body free1 and so in various simple exercises the power of directing the will only to the muscles needed is cultivated4 ,after the muscle-work1 the pupils are asked to centre their minds for a minute on one subject1--the subject to be chosen by some member1 with slight help to lead the choice to something that will be suggestive for a minute's thinking4 ,at first it seems impossible to hold one subject in mind for a minute2 but the power grows rapidly as we learn the natural way of concentrating1 and instead of trying to hold on to our subject1 allow the subject to hold us by refusing entrance to every other thought4 ,in the latter case one suggestion follows another with an ease and pleasantness which reminds one of walking through new paths and seeing on every side something fresh and unexpected4 ,then the class is asked to think of a list of flowers1 trees1 countries1 authors1 painters1 or whatever may be suggested1 and see who can think of the greatest number in one minute4 ,at first1 the mind will trip and creak and hesitate over the work1 but with practice the list comes steadily and easily4 ,then follow exercises for quickness and exactness of sight1 then for hearing1 and finally for the memory4 ,all through this process1 by constant help and suggestion1 the pupils are brought to the natural concentration4 ,with regard to the memory1 especial care should be taken1 for the harm done by a mechanical training of the memory can hardly be computed4 ,repose and the consequent freedom of body and mind lead to an opening of all the faculties for better use2 if that is so1 a teacher must be more than ever alive to lead pupils to the spirit of all they are to learn1 and make the letter in every sense suggestive of the spirit4 ,first1 care should be taken to give something worth memorizing2 secondly1 ideas must be memorized before the words4 ,a word is a symbol1 and in so far as we have the habit of regarding it as such1 will each word we hear be more and more suggestive to us4 ,with this habit well cultivated1 one sees more in a single glance at a poem than many could see in several readings4 ,yet the reader who sees the most may be unable to repeat the poem word for word4 ,in cultivating the memory1 the training should be first for the attention1 then for the imagination and the power of suggestive thought2 and from the opening of these faculties a true memory will grow4 ,the mechanical power of repeating after once hearing so many words is a thing in itself to be dreaded4 ,let the pupil first see in mind a series of pictures as the poem or page is read1 then describe them in his own words1 and if the words of the author are well worth remembering the pupil should be led to them from the ideas4 ,in the same way a series of interesting or helpful thoughts can be learned4 ,avoidance of mere mechanism cannot be too strongly insisted upon2 for exercise for attaining a wholesome1 natural guidance of mind and body cannot be successful unless it rouses in the mind an appreciation of the laws of ,nature which we are bound to obey4 ,a conscious experience of the results of such obedience is essential to growth4 ,,xv4 ,,artistic ,,considerations ,,although so much time and care are given to the various means of artistic expression1 it is a singular fact that comparatively little attention is given to the use of the very first instrument which should be under command before any secondary instrument can be made perfectly expressive4 ,an old artist who thanked his friend for admiring his pictures added3 ,if you could only see the pictures in my brain4 ,but-- pointing to his brain and then to the ends of his fingers--the channels from here to here are so long6 ,the very sad tone which we can hear in the wail of the painter expresses strongly the deficiencies of our age in all its artistic efforts4 ,the channels are shorter just in proportion to their openness4 ,if the way from the brain to the ends of the fingers is perfectly clear1 the brain can guide the ends of the fingers to carry out truly its own aspirations1 and the honest expression of the brain will lead always to higher ideals4 ,but the channels cannot be free1 and the artist will be bound so long as there is superfluous tension in any part of the body4 ,so absolutely necessary1 is it for the best artistic expression that the body should throughout be only a servant of the mind1 that the more we think of it the more singular it seems that the training of the body to a childlike state is not regarded as essential1 and taken as a matter of course1 even as we take our regular nourishment4 ,the artificial is tension in its many trying and disagreeable phases4 ,art is freedom1 equilibrium1 rhythm1--anything and everything that means wholesome life and growth toward all that is really the good1 the true1 and the beautiful4 ,art is immeasurably greater than we are4 ,if we are free and quiet1 the poem1 the music1 the picture will carry us1 so that we shall be surprised at our own expression2 and when we have finished1 instead of being personally elated with conceited delight in what we have done1 or exhausted with the superfluous effort used1 we shall feel as if a strong wind had blown through us and cleared us for better work in the future4 ,every genius obeys the true principle4 ,it is because a genius is involuntarily under the law of his art that he is pervaded by its power4 ,but we who have only talent must learn the laws of genius1 which are the laws of ,nature1 and by careful study and steady practice in shunning all personal obstructions to the laws1 bring ourselves under their sway4 ,who would wish to play on a stringed instrument already vibrating with the touch of some one else1 or even with the last touch we ourselves gave it4 ,what noise1 what discord1 with no possible harmonies6 ,so it is with our nerves and muscles4 ,they cannot be used for artistic purposes to the height of their best powers while they are tense and vibrating to our own personal states or habits2 so that the first thing is to free them absolutely1 and not only keep them free by constant practice1 but so train them that they will become perfectly free at a moment's notice1 and ready to respond clearly to whatever the heart and the mind want to express4 ,the finer the instrument1 the lighter the touch it will vibrate to4 ,indeed it must have a light touch to respond clearly with musical harmonies2 any other touch would blur4 ,with a fine piano or a violin1 whether the effect is to be piano or fortissimo1 the touch should be only with the amount of force needed to give a clear vibration1 and the ease with which a fortissimo effect is thus produced is astonishing4 ,it is only those with the most delicate touch who can produce from a fine piano grand and powerful harmonies without a blur4 ,the response in a human instrument to a really light touch is far more wonderful than that from any instrument made by man2 and bodily effort blurs just as much more in proportion4 ,the muscles are all so exquisitely balanced in their power for co-ordinate movement1 that a muscle pulling one way is almost entirely freed from effort by the equalizing power of the antagonizing muscle2 and at some rare moments when we have really found the equilibrium and can keep it1 we seem to do no more than think a movement or a tone or a combination of words1 and they come with so slight a physical exertion that it seems like no effort at all4 ,so far are we from our possibilities in this lightness of touch in the use of our bodies1 that it is impossible now for most of us to touch as lightly as would1 after training1 bring the most powerful response4 ,one of the best laws for artistic practice is1 ,every day less effort1 every day more power4 ,as the art of acting is the only art where the whole body is used with no subordinate instrument1 let us look at that with regard to the best results to be obtained by means of relief from superfluous tension4 ,the effects of unnecessary effort are strongly felt in the exhaustion which follows the interpretation of a very exciting role4 ,it is a law without exception1 that if ,i absorb an emotion and allow my own nerves to be shaken by it1 ,i fail to give it in all its expressive power to the audience2 and not only do ,i fall far short in my artistic interpretation1 but because of that very failure1 come off the stage with just so much nervous force wasted4 ,certain as this law is1 and infallible as are its effects1 it is not only generally disbelieved1 but it is seldom thought of at all4 ,i must feet ,juliet in my heart1 understand her with my mind1 and let her vibrate clearly across my nerves1 to the audience4 ,the moment ,i let my nerves be shaken as ,juliet's nerves were in reality1 ,i am absorbing her myself1 misusing nervous force1 preparing to come off the stage thoroughly exhausted1 and keeping her away from the audience4 ,the present low state of the drama is largely due to this failure to recognize and practise a natural use of the nervous force4 ,to work up an emotion1 a most pernicious practice followed by young aspirants1 means to work your nerves up to a state of mild or even severe hysteria4 ,this morbid1 inartistic1 nervous excitement actually trains men and women to the loss of all emotional control1 and no wonder that their nerves play the mischief with them1 and that the atmosphere of the stage is kept in its present murkiness4 ,the power to work the nerves up in the beginning finally carries them to the state where they must be more artificially urged by stimulants2 and when the actor is off the stage he has no self-control at all4 ,this all means misused and over-used force4 ,in no schools is the general influence so absolutely morbid and unwholesome1 as in most of the schools of elocution and acting4 ,the methods by which the necessity for artificial stimulants can be overcome are so simple and so pleasant and so immediately effective1 that it is worth taking the time and space to describe them briefly4 ,of course1 to begin with1 the body must be trained to perfect freedom in repose1 and then to freedom in its use4 ,a very simple way of practising is to take the most relaxed attitude possible1 and then1 without changing it1 to recite with all the expression that belongs to it some poem or selection from a play full of emotional power4 ,you will become sensitive at once to any new tension1 and must stop and drop it4 ,at first1 an hour's daily practice will be merely a beginning over and over1--the nervous tension will be so evident1--but the final reward is well worth working and waiting for4 ,it is well to begin by simply inhaling through the nose1 and exhaling quietly through the mouth several times2 then inhale and exhale an exclamation in every form of feeling you can think of ,let the exclamation come as easily and freely as the breath alone1 without superfluous tension in any part of the body4 ,so much freedom gained1 inhale as before1 and exhale brief expressive sentences1--beginning with very simple expressions1 and taking sentences that express more and more feeling as your freedom is better established4 ,this practice can be continued until you are able to recite the potion scene in ,juliet1 or any of ,lady ,macbeth's most powerful speeches1 with an case and freedom which is surprising4 ,this refers only to the voice2 the practice which has been spoken of in a previous chapter brings the same effect in gesture4 ,it will be readily seen that this power once gained1 no actor would find it necessary to skip every other night1 in consequence of the severe fatigue which follows the acting of an emotional role4 ,not only is the physical fatigue saved1 but the power of expression1 the power for intense acting1 so far as it impresses the audience1 is steadily increased4 ,the inability of young persons to express an emotion which they feel and appreciate heartily1 can be always overcome in this way4 ,relaxing frees the channels1 and the channels being open the real poetic or dramatic feeling cannot be held back4 ,the relief is as if one were let out of prison4 ,personal faults that come from self-consciousness and nervous tension may be often cured entirely without the necessity of drawing attention to them1 simply by relaxing4 ,dramatic instinct is a delicate perception of1 quick and keen sympathies for1 and ability to express the various phases of human nature4 ,deep study and care are necessary for the best development of these faculties2 but the nerves must be left free to be guided to the true expression1--neither allowed to vibrate to the ecstatic delight of the impressions1 or in mistaken sympathy with them1 but kept clear as conductors of all the heart can feel and the mind understand in the character or poem to be interpreted4 ,this may sound cold4 ,it is not2 it is merely a process of relieving superfluous nervous tension in acting1 by which obstructions are removed so that real sympathetic emotions can be stronger and fuller1 and perceptions keener4 ,those who get no farther than emotional vibrations of the nerves in acting1 know nothing whatever of the greatness or power of true dramatic instinct4 ,there are three distinct schools of dramatic art1--one may be called dramatic hysteria1 the second dramatic hypocrisy4 ,the first means emotional excitement and nervous exhaustion2 the second artificial simulation of a feeling4 ,dramatic sincerity is the third school1 and the school that seems most truly artistic4 ,what a wonderful training is that which might1--which ought to be given an actor to help him rise to the highest possibility of his art6 ,a free body1 exquisitely responsive to every command of the mind1 is absolutely necessary2 therefore there should be a perfect physical training4 ,a quick and keen perception to appreciate noble thoughts1 holding each idea distinctly1 and knowing the relations of each idea to the others1 must certainly be cultivated2 for in acting1 every idea1 every word1 should come clearly1 each taking its own place in the thought expressed4 ,broad human sympathies1 the imaginative power of identifying himself with all phases of human nature1 if he has an ideal in his profession above the average1 an actor cannot lack4 ,this last is quite impossible without broad human charity2 for to observe truly you must sympathize with those you observe1 and to sympathize with them you must love them1 and to love them you must forget yourself4 ,and all these requisites--the physical state1 the understanding1 and the large heart--seem to centre in the expression of a well-trained voice1--a voice in which there is the minimum of body and the maximum of soul4 ,by training1 ,i always mean a training into ,nature4 ,as ,i have said before1 if art is ,nature illuminated1 we must find ,nature before we can reach art4 ,the trouble is that in acting1 more than in any other art1 the distinction between what is artistic and what is artificial is neither clearly understood nor appreciated2 yet so marked is the difference when once we see it1 that the artificial may well be called the hell of art1 as art itself is heavenly4 ,sincerity and simplicity are the foundations of art4 ,a feigning of either is often necessary to the artificial1 but many times impossible4 ,although the external effect of this natural training is a great saving of nervous force in acting1 the height of its power cannot be reached except through a simple aim1 from the very heart1 toward sincere artistic expression4 ,so much for acting4 ,it is a magnificent study1 and should be more truly wholesome in its effects than any other art1 because it deals with the entire body4 ,but1 alas ,i it seems now the most thoroughly morbid and unwholesome4 ,all that has been said of acting will apply also to singing1 especially to dramatic singing and study for opera2 only with singing even more care should be taken4 ,no singer realizes the necessity of a quiet1 absolutely free body for the best expression of a high note1 until having gained a certain physical freedom without singing1 she takes a high note and is made sensitive to the superfluous tension all over the body1 and later learns to reach the same note with the repose which is natural2 then the contrast between the natural and the unnatural methods of singing becomes most evident1--and not with high notes alone1 but with all notes1 and all combinations of notes4 ,i speak of the high note first1 because that is an extreme2 for with the majority of singers there is always more or less fear when a high note is coming lest it may not be reached easily and with all the clearness that belongs to it4 ,this fear in itself is tension4 ,for that reason one must learn to relax to a high note4 ,a free body relieves the singer immensely from the mechanism of singing4 ,so perfect is the unity of the body that a voice will not obey perfectly unless the body1 as a whole1 be free4 ,once secure in the freedom of voice and body to obey1 the song can burst forth with all the musical feeling1 and all the deep appreciation of the words of which the singer is capable4 ,now1 unfortunately1 it is not unusual in listening to a public singer1 to feel keenly that he is entirely adsorbed in the mechanism of his art4 ,if this freedom is so helpful1 indeed so necessary1 to reach one's highest power in singing1 it is absolutely essential on the operatic stage4 ,with it we should have less of the wooden motion so common to singers in opera4 ,when one is free1 physically free1 the music seems to draw out the acting4 ,with a great composer and an interpreter free to respond1 the music and the body of the actor are one in their power of expressing the emotions4 ,and the songs without words of the interludes so affect the spirit of the singer that1 whether quiet or in motion1 he seems1 through being a living embodiment of the music1 to impress the sense of seeing so that it increases the pleasure of hearing4 ,i am aware that this standard is ideal2 but it is not impossible to approach it1--to come at least much nearer to it than we do now1 when the physical movements on the stage are such1 that one wants to listen to most operas with closed eyes4 ,we have considered artistic expression when the human body alone is the instrument4 ,when the body is merely a means to the use of a secondary instrument1 a primary training of the body itself is equally necessary4 ,a pianist practises for hours to command his fingers and gain a touch which will bring the soul from his music1 without in the least realizing that so long as he is keeping other muscles in his body tense1 and allowing the nervous force to expend itself unnecessarily in other directions1 there never will be clear and open channels from his brain to his fingers2 and as he literally plays with his brain1 and not with his fingers1 free channels for a magnetic touch are indispensable4 ,to watch a body give to the rhythm of the music in playing is most fascinating4 ,although the motion is slight1 the contrast between that and a pianist stiff and rigid with superfluous tension is1 very marked1 and the difference in touch when one relaxes to the music with free channels has been very clearly proved4 ,beside this1 the freedom in mechanism which follows the exercises for arms and hands is strikingly noticeable4 ,with the violin1 the same physical equilibrium of motion must be gained2 in fact it is equally necessary in all musical performance1 as the perfect freedom of the body is always necessary before it can reach its highest power in the use of any secondary instrument4 ,in painting1 the freer a body is the more perfectly the mind can direct it4 ,how often we can see clearly in our minds a straight line or a curve or a combination of both1 but our hands will not obey the brain1 and the picture fails4 ,it does not by any means follow that with free bodies we can direct the hand at once to whatever the brain desires1 but simply that by making the body free1 and so a perfect servant of the mind1 it can be brought to obey the mind in a much shorter time and more directly1 and so become a truer channel for whatever the mind wishes to accomplish4 ,in the highest art1 whatever form it may take1 the law of simplicity is perfectly illustrated4 ,it would be tiresome to go through a list of the various forms of artistic expression2 enough has been said to show the necessity for a free body1 sensitive to respond to1 quick to obey1 and open to express the commands of its owner4 ,,xvi4 ,,tests ,,adopting the phrase of our forefathers1 with all its force and brevity1 we say1 ,the proof of the pudding is in the eating4 ,if the laws adduced in this book are ,nature's laws1 they should preserve us in health and strength4 ,and so they do just so far as we truly and fully obey them4 ,then are students and teachers of these laws never ill1 never run down1 nervous1 or prostrated8 ,yes1 they are sometimes ill1 sometimes run down and overworked1 and suffer the many evil effects ensuing2 but the work which has produced these results is much greater and more laborious than would have been possible without the practice of the principles4 ,at the same time their states of illness occur because they only partially obey the laws4 ,in the degree which they obey they will be preserved from the effects of tensity1 overstrung nerves1 and generally worn-out bodies2 and in sickness coming from other causes--mechanical1 hereditary1 etc4--again1 according to their obedience1 they will be held in all possible physical and mental peace1 so that the disease may wither and drop like the decayed leaf of a plant4 ,as well might we ask of the wisest clergyman in the land1 ,do his truths never fail him8 ,is he always held in harmony and nobility by their power8 ,however great and good the man may be1 this state of perfection will never be reached in this world4 ,in exact parallel to the spiritual laws upon which all universal truth1 of all religions1 is founded1 are the truths of this teaching of physical peace and equilibrium4 ,as religion applies to all the needs of the soul1 so this applies to all the needs of the body4 ,as a man may be continually progressing in nobility of thought and action1 and yet find himself under peculiar circumstances tried even to the stumbling point1--so may the student of bodily quiet and equilibrium1 who appears even to a very careful observer to be in surprising possession of his forces1 under a similar test stumble and fall into some form of the evil effects out of which he has had power to lead others4 ,it is important that this parallelism should be recognized1 that the unity of these truths may be finally accomplished in the living2 therefore we repeat1 ,is this any more possible than that the full control of the soul should be at once possessed8 ,think of the marvellous construction of the human body1--the exquisite adjustment of its economy4 ,could a power of control sufficient to apply to its every detail be fully acquired at once1 or even in a life-time8 ,but when one does fall who has made himself even partially at one with ,nature's way of living1 the power of patient waiting for relief is very different4 ,he separates himself from his ailments in a way which without the preparation would be to him unknown4 ,he has1 without drug or other external assistance1 an anodyne always within himself which he can use at pleasure4 ,he positively experiences that underneath are the everlasting arms1 and the power to experience this gives him much respite from pain4 ,pain is so often prolonged and accentuated by dwelling in its memory1 living in a self-pity of the time when it shall come again6 ,the patient who comes to his test with the bodily and mental repose already acquired1 cuts off each day from the last1 each hour from the last1 one might almost say each breath from the last1 so strong is his confidence in the renewal of forces possible to those who give themselves quite trustfully into ,nature's hands4 ,it is not that they refuse external aid or precaution4 ,no2 indeed the very quiet within makes them feel most keenly when it is orderly to rest and seek the advice of others4 ,also it makes them faithful in following every direction which will take them back into the rhythm of a healthful life4 ,but while they do this they do not centre upon it4 ,they take the precautions as a means and not as an end4 ,they centre upon that which they have within themselves1 and they know that that possible power being in a state of disorder and chaos no one or all of the outside measures are of any value4 ,as patients prepared by the work return into normal life1 the false exhilaration1 which is a sure sign of another stumble1 is seen and avoided4 ,they have learned a serious lesson in economy1 and they profit by it4 ,where they were free before1 they become more so2 and where they were not1 they quietly set themselves toward constant gain4 ,they work at lower pressure1 steadily gaining in spreading the freedom and quiet deeper into their systems1 thus lessening the danger of future falls4 ,let us state some of the causes for breaking down1 even while trying well to learn ,nature's ways4 ,first1 a trust in one's own capacity for freedom and quiet4 ,i can do this1 now that ,i know how to relax4 ,when truly considered1 the thing is out of reason1 and we should say1 ,because ,i know how to relax1 ,i see that ,i must not do this4 ,the case is the same with the gymnast who greatly overtaxes his muscle1 having foolishly concluded that because he has had some training he can successfully meet the test4 ,there is nothing so truly stupid as self-satisfaction2 and these errors1 with all others of the same nature1 re fruits of our stupidity1 and unless shunned surely lead us into trouble4 ,some natures1 after practice1 relax so easily that they are soon met by the dangers of overrelaxation4 ,let them remember that it is really equilibrium they are seeking1 and by balancing their activity and their relaxation1 and relaxing only as a means to an end1--the end of greater activity and use later1--they avoid any such ill effect4 ,as the gymnast can mistake the purpose of his muscular development1 putting it in the place of greater things1 regarding it as an end instead of a means1--so can he who is training for a better use of his nervous force4 ,in the latter case1 the signs of this error are a slackened circulation1 a loathing to activity1 and various evanescent sensations of peace and satisfaction which bear no test1 vanishing as soon as they are brought to the slightest trial4 ,unless you take up your work with fresh interest and renewed vigor each time after practice1 you may know that all is not as it should be4 ,to avoid all these mistakes1 examine the work of each day and let the next improve upon it4 ,if you are in great need of relaxing1 take more exercise in the fresh air4 ,if unable to exercise1 get your balance by using slow and steady breaths1 which push the blood vigorously over its path in the body1 and give one1 to a degree1 the effect of exercise4 ,do not mistake the disorders which come at first1 when turning away from an unnatural and wasteful life of contractions1 for the effects of relaxing4 ,such disorders are no more caused by relaxing than are the disorders which beset a drunkard or an opium-eater1 upon refusing to continue in the way of his error1 primarily caused by the abandonment of his evil habit1 even though the appearance is that he must return to it in order to re-establish his pseudo-equilibrium4 ,one more cause of trouble1 especially in working without a guide1 is the habit of going through the form of the exercises without really doing them4 ,the tests needed here have been spoken of before4 ,do not separate your way of practising from your way of living1 but separate your life entirely from your practice while practising1 trying outside of this time always to accomplish the agreement of the two1--that is1 live the economy of force that you are practising4 ,you can be just as gay1 just as vivacious1 but without the fatiguing after-effects4 ,as you work to gain the ideal equilibrium1 if your test comes1 do not be staggered nor dismayed4 ,avoid its increase by at once giving careful consideration to the causes1 and dropping them4 ,keep your life quietly to the form of its usual action1 as far as you wisely can4 ,if you have gained even a little appreciation of equilibrium1 you will not easily mistake and overdo4 ,when you find yourself becoming bound to the dismal thought of your test and its terrors1 free yourself from it every time1 by concentrating upon the weight of your body1 or the slowness of the slowest breaths you can draw4 ,keep yourself truly free1 and these feelings of discouragement and all other mental distortions will steadily lose power1 until for you they are no more4 ,if they last longer than you think they should1 persist in every endeavor1 knowing that the after-result1 in increased capacity to help yourself and others1 will be in exact ratio to your power of persistency without succumbing4 ,the only way to keep truly free1 and therefore ready to profit by the help ,nature always has at hand1 is to avoid thought of your form of illness as far as possible4 ,the man with indigestion gives the stomach the first place in his mind2 he is a mass of detailed and subdued activity1 revolving about a monstrous stomach1--his brain1 heart1 lungs1 and other organs1 however orderly they may be1 are of no consideration1 and are slowly made the degraded slaves of himself and his stomach4 ,the man who does not sleep1 worships sleep until all life seems sleep1 and no life any importance without it4 ,he fixes his mind on not sleeping1 rushes for his watch with feverish intensity if a nap does come1 to gloat over its brevity or duration1 and then wonders that each night brings him no more sleep4 ,there is nothing more contracting to mind and body than such idol-worship4 ,neither blood nor nervous fluid can flow as it should4 ,let us be sincere in our work1 and having gained even one step toward a true equilibrium1 hold fast to it1 never minding how severely we are tempted4 ,we see the work of quiet and economy1 the lack of strain and of false purpose1 in fine old ,nature herself2 let us constantly try to do our part to make the picture as evident1 as clear and distinct1 in ,god's greater creation1--,human ,nature4 ,,xvii ,,the ,,rational ,,care ,,of ,,self ,a ,,woman who had had some weeks of especially difficult work for mind and body1 and who had finished it feeling fresh and well1 when a friend expressed surprise at her freedom from fatigue1 said1 with a smiling face3 ,oh6 but ,i took great care of myself all through it3 ,i always went to bed early1 and rested when it was possible4 ,i was careful to eat only nourishing food1 and to have exercise and fresh air when ,i could get them4 ,you see ,i knew that the work must be accomplished1 and that if ,i were over-tired ,i could not do it well4 ,the work1 instead of fatiguing1 had evidently refreshed her4 ,if that same woman had insisted1 as many have in similar cases1 that she had no time to think of herself2 or if such care had seemed to her selfish1 her work could not have been done as well1 she would have ended it tired and jaded1 and would have declared to sympathizing friends that it was impossible to do a work like that without being all tired out1 and the sympathizing friends would have agreed and thought her a heroine4 ,a well-known author1 who had to support his wife and family while working for a start in his literary career1 had a commercial position that occupied him every day from nine to five4 ,he came home and dined at six1 went to bed at seven1 slept until three1 when he got up1 made himself a cup of coffee1 and wrote until he breakfasted at eight4 ,he got all the exercise he needed in walking to and from his outside work and was able to keep up this regular routine1 with no loss of health1 until he could support his family comfortably on what he earned from his pen4 ,then he returned to ordinary hours4 ,a brain once roused will take a man much farther than his strength2 if this man had come home tired and allowed himself to write far into the night1 and then1 after a short sleep1 had gone to the indispensable earning of his bread and butter1 the chances are that his intellectual power would have decreased1 until both publishers and author would have felt quite certain that he had no power at all4 ,the complacent words1 ,i cannot think of myself1 or1 ,it is out of the question for me to care for myself1 or any other of the various forms in which the same idea is expressed1 come often from those who are steadily thinking of themselves1 and1 as a natural consequence1 are so blinded that they cannot see the radical difference between unselfish care for one's self1 as a means to an end1 and the selfish care for one's self which has no other object in view4 ,the wholesome care is necessary to the best of all good work4 ,the morbid care means steady decay for body and soul4 ,we should care for our bodies as a violinist cares for his instrument4 ,it is the music that comes from his violin which he has in mind1 and he is careful of his instrument because of its musical power4 ,so we1 with some sense of the possible power of a healthy body1 should be careful to keep it fully supplied with fresh air2 to keep it exercised and rested2 to supply it with the quality and quantity of nourishment it needs2 and to protect it from unnecessary exposure4 ,when1 through mistake or for any other reason1 our bodies get out of order1 instead of dwelling on our discomfort1 we should take immediate steps to bring them back to a normal state4 ,if we learned to do this as a matter of course1 as we keep our hands clean1 even though we had to be conscious of our bodies for a short time while we were gaining the power1 the normal care would lead to a happy unconsciousness4 ,carlyle says1 and very truly1 that we are conscious of no part of our bodies until it is out of order1 and it certainly follows that the habit of keeping our bodies in order would lead us eventually to a physical freedom which1 since our childhood1 few of us have known4 ,in the same way we can take care of our minds with a wholesome spirit4 ,we can see to it that they are exercised to apply themselves well1 that they are properly diverted1 and know how to change1 easily1 from one kind of work to another4 ,we can be careful not to attempt to sleep directly after severe mental work1 but first to refresh our minds by turning our attention into entirely different channels in the way of exercise or amusement4 ,we must not allow our minds to be over-fatigued any more than our bodies1 and we must learn how to keep them in a state of quiet readiness for whatever work or emergency may be before them4 ,there is also a kind of moral care which is quite in line with the care of the mind and the body1 and which is a very material aid to these1--a way of refusing to be irritable1 of gaining and maintaining cheerfulness1 kindness1 and thoughtfulness for others4 ,it is well known how much the health of any one part of us depends upon all the others4 ,the theme of one of ,howells's novels is the steady mental1 moral1 and physical degeneration of a man from eating a piece of cold mince-pie at midnight1 and the sequence of steps by which he is led down is a very natural process4 ,indeed1 how much irritability and unkindness might be traced to chronic indigestion1 which originally must have come from some careless disobedience of simple physical laws4 ,when the stomach is out of order1 it needs more than its share of vital force to do its work1 and necessarily robs the brain2 but when it is in good condition this force may be used for mental work4 ,then again1 when we are in a condition of mental strain or unhealthy concentration1 this condition affects our circulation and consumes force that should properly be doing its work elsewhere1 and in this way the normal balance of our bodies is disturbed4 ,the physical and mental degeneration that follows upon moral wrong-doing is too well known to dwell upon4 ,it is self-evident in conspicuous cases1 and very real in cases that are too slight to attract general attention4 ,we might almost say that little ways of wrongdoing often produce a worse degeneration1 for they are more subtle in their effects1 and more difficult to realize1 and therefore to eradicate4 ,the wise care for one's self is simply steering into the currents of law and order1--mentally1 morally1 and physically4 ,when we are once established in that life and our forces are adjusted to its currents1 then we can forget ourselves1 but not before3 and no one can find these currents of law and order and establish himself in them1 unless he is working for some purpose beyond his own health4 ,for a man may be out of order physically1 mentally1 or morally simply for the want of an aim in life beyond his own personal concerns4 ,no care is to any purpose--indeed1 it is injurious--unless we are determined to work for an end which is not only useful in itself1 but is cultivating in us a living interest in accomplishment1 and leading us on to more usefulness and more accomplishment4 ,the physical1 mental1 and moral man are all three mutually interdependent1 but all the care in the world for each and all of them can only lead to weakness instead of strength1 unless they are all three united in a definite purpose of useful life for the benefit of others4 ,even a hobby re-acts upon itself and eats up the man who follows it1 unless followed to some useful end4 ,a man interested in a hobby for selfish purposes alone first refuses to look at anything outside of his hobby1 and later turns his back on everything but his own idea of his hobby4 ,the possible mental contraction which may follow1 is almost unlimited1 and such contraction affects the whole man4 ,it is just as certain a law for an individual that what he gives out must have a definite relation to what he takes in1 as it is for the best strength of a country that its imports and exports should be in proper balance4 ,indeed1 this law is much more evident in the case of the individual1 if we look only a little below the surface4 ,a man can no more expect to live without giving out to others than a shoemaker can expect to earn his bread and butter by making shoes and leaving them piled in a closet4 ,to be sure1 there are many men who are well and happy1 and yet1 so far as appearances go1 are living entirely for themselves1 with not only no thought of giving1 but a decided unwillingness to give4 ,but their comfort and health are dependent on temporary conditions1 and the external well-being they have acquired would vanish1 if a serious demand were made upon their characters4 ,happy the man or woman who1 through illness of body or soul1 or through stress of circumstances1 is aroused to appreciate the strengthening power of useful work1 and develops a wholesome sense of the usefulness and necessity of a rational care of self6 ,try to convince a man that it is better on all accounts that he should keep his hands clean and he might answer1 ,yes1 ,i appreciate that2 but ,i have never thought of my hands1 and to keep them clean would make me conscious of them4 ,try to convince an unselfishly-selfish or selfishly-unselfish person that the right care for one's self means greater usefulness to others1 and you will have a most difficult task4 ,the man with dirty hands is quite right in his answer4 ,to keep his hands clean would make him more conscious of them1 but he does not see that1 after he had acquired the habit of cleanliness1 he would only be conscious of his hands when they were dirty1 and that this consciousness could be at any time relieved by soap and water4 ,the selfishly-unselfish person is right3 it is most pernicious to care for one's self in a self-centred spirit2 and if we cannot get a clear sense of wholesome care of self1 it is better not to care at all4 ,with a perception of the need for such wholesome care1 would come a growing realization of the morbidness of all self-centred care1 and a clearer1 more definite standard of unselfishness4 ,for the self-centred care takes away life1 closes the sympathies1 and makes useful service obnoxious to us2 whereas the wholesome care1 with useful service as an end1 gives renewed life1 an open sympathy1 and growing power for further usefulness4 ,we do not need to study deeply into the laws of health1 but simply to obey those we know4 ,this obedience will lead to our knowing more laws and knowing them better1 and it will in time become a very simple matter to distinguish the right care from the wrong1 and to get a living sense of how power increases with the one1 and decreases with the other4 ,,xviii4 ,,our ,,relations ,,with ,,others ,,every one will admit that our relations to others should be quiet and clear1 in order to give us freedom for our work4 ,indeed1 to make these relations quiet and happy is the special work that some of us have to do4 ,there are laws for health1 laws for gaining and keeping normal nerves1 laws for honest1 kindly action toward others1--but the obedience to all these is a dead obedience1 and does not lead to vigorous life1 unless accompanied by a hearty love for work and play with those to whom we stand in natural relations1--both young and old4 ,it is with life as it is with art1 what we do must be done with love1 or it will have no force4 ,without the living spark of love1 we may have the appearance1 but never the spirit1 of useful work or quiet content4 ,stagnation is not peace1 and there can be no life1 and so no living peace1 without happy relations with those about us4 ,the more we realize the practical strength of the law which bids us love our neighbor as ourselves1 and the more we act upon it1 the more quickly we gain the habit of pleasant1 patient friendliness1 which sooner or later may beget the same friendliness in return4 ,in this kind of friendly relation there is a savor which so surpasses the unhealthy snap of disagreement1 that any one who truly finds it will soon feel the fallacy of the belief that between friends there must be a little quarrelling1 to give spice to friendship4 ,to be willing that every one should be himself1 and work out his salvation in his own way1 seems to be the first principle of the working plan drawn from the law of loving your neighbor as yourself4 ,if we drop all selfish resistance to the ways of others1 however wrong or ignorant they may be1 we are more free to help them to better ways when they turn to us for help4 ,it is in pushing and being pushed that we feel most strain in all human relations4 ,we wait willingly for the growth of plants1 and do not complain1 or try in abnormal ways to force them to do what is entirely contrary to the laws of nature2 and if we paid more attention to the laws of human nature1 we should not stunt the growth of children1 relatives1 and friends by resisting their efforts1--or their lack of effort1--or by trying to force them into ways that we think must be right for them because we are sure they are right for us4 ,there is a selfish1 restless way of pushing others for their own good and straining to help them1 and there is a selfish1 entirely thoughtless way of letting them alone2 it is difficult to tell which is the worse1 or which does more harm4 ,the first is the attitude of unconscious hypocrisy2 the second is that of selfish indifference4 ,it is in letting alone1 with a loving readiness to help1 that we find strength and peace for ourselves in our relations with others4 ,all great laws are illustrated most clearly in their simplest forms1 and there is no better way to get a sense of really free and wholesome relations with others than from the relations of a mother with her baby4 ,even healthy reciprocity is there1 in all the fulness of its best beginnings1 and the results of wholesome1 rational1 maternal care are evident to the delighted observer in the joyous freedom with which the baby mind develops according to the laws of its own life4 ,heidi is a baby not yet a year old1 and is left alone a large part of the day4 ,having no amusements imposed upon her1 she has formed the habit of entertaining herself in her own way2 she greets you with the most fascinating little gurgles1 and laughs up at you when you stop and speak to her as if to say1 ,how do you do8 ,i am having a very happy time6 ,five minutes' smiling and being smiled at by her gives a friend who stops to talk a very happy time too4 ,if you take her up for a little while1 she stays quietly and looks at you1 then at the trees or at something in the room1 then at her own hand4 ,if you say ah1 or oo1 she answers with a vowel too2 so the conversation begins and goes on1 with jolly little laughter every now and then1 and when you give her a gentle kiss and put her down1 her good-bye is a very contented one1 and her ,thank you2 please come again1 is quite as plainly understood as if she had said it4 ,you leave her1 feeling that you have had a very happy visit with one of your best friends4 ,heidi is not officiously interfered with2 she has the best of care4 ,when she cries1 every means is taken to find the cause of her trouble2 and when the trouble is remedied1 she stops4 ,she is a dear little friend1 and gives and takes1 and grows4 ,another baby of the same age is ,peggy4 ,she is needlessly handled and caressed4 ,she is kissed a hundred times a day with rough affection1 which is mistaken for tenderness and love4 ,she is bounced up and down and around2 and the people about her1 who believe themselves her friends and would be heartbroken if she were taken from them1 talk at her1 and not with her2 they make her do cunning little things1 and then laugh and admire2 they try over and over to force her to speak words when her little brain is not ready for the effort2 and when she is awake1 she is almost constantly surrounded by loving noise4 ,peggy is capable of being as good a friend as ,heidi1 but she is not allowed to be4 ,her family are so overwhelmed by their own feelings of love and admiration that they really only love themselves in her1 for they give her not the slightest opportunity to be herself4 ,the poor baby has sleepless1 crying nights1 and a little irritating illness hanging about her all the time2 the doctor is called1 and every one wonders why she should be ill2 every one worries about her2 but the caressing and noisy affection go on4 ,although much of the difference between these two babies could probably be accounted for by differences of heredity and temperament1 it nevertheless remains true that it is very largely the result of a difference between wise and foolish parents4 ,the real friendship which her mother gave to ,heidi1 and which resulted in her happy1 placid ways and quickly responsive intelligence1 meets with a like response in older children2 and reciprocal friendship grows in strength and in pleasure both for child and older friend1 as the child grows older4 ,when a child is permitted the freedom of his own individuality1 he can show the best in himself4 ,when he is tempted to go wrong1 he can be rationally guided in the right way in such a manner that he will accept the guidance as an act of friendship2 and to that friendship he will feel bound in honor to be true1 because he knows that we1 his friends1 are obeying the same laws4 ,of course all this comes to him from no conscious action of his own mind1 but from an unconscious1 contented recognition of the state of mind of his older friends4 ,a poor woman1 who lived in one room with her husband and two children1 said once in a flash of new intelligence1 ,now ,i see3 the more ,i hollers1 the more the children hollers2 ,i am not going to holler any more4 ,there are various grades of hollering2 we holler often without a sound1 and the child feels it1 and hollers with many sounds which are distressing to him and to us4 ,it is primarily true with babies and young children that if you want to have a friend1 you must be a friend4 ,if we want courtesy and kindliness from a child1 we must be courteous and kindly to him4 ,not in outside ways alone1--a child quickly feels the sham of mere superficial attention1--but sincerely1 with a living interest4 ,so should we truly1 from our inmost selves1 meet a child as if he were of our own age1 and as if we were of his age4 ,this sounds like a paradox1 but indeed the one proposition is essential to the other4 ,if we meet a child only as if he were of our age1 our attitude tends to make him a little prig2 if we meet him as if we were as young as he is1 his need for maturer influences produces a lack of balance which we must both feet2 but if we sincerely meet him as if the exchange of age were mutual1 we find common ground and valuable companionship4 ,this mutual understanding is the basis of all true friendship4 ,only read1 instead of age1 habit of mind1 character1 state1 and we have the whole4 ,it is aiming for reciprocal relations1 from the best in us to the best in others1 and from the best in others to the best in ourselves4 ,it is the foundation of all that is strengthening1 and quiet1 and happy1 in all human intercourse with young and old4 ,to gain the friendly habit is more difficult with our contemporaries than it is with children4 ,we have no right to guide older people unless they want to be guided1 and they often want to guide us in ways we do not like at all4 ,we have no right to try to change their opinions1 unless they ask us for new light2 and they often insist upon trying to change ours whether we ask them or not4 ,there is sure to be selfish resistance in us when we complain of it in others1 and we must acknowledge it and get free from it before we can give or find the most helpful sympathy4 ,a healthy letting people alone1 and a good wholesome scouring of ourselves1 will1 if it is to come at all1 bring open friendliness4 ,if it is not to come1 then the healthy letting people alone should continue1 for it is possible to live in the same house with a wilful and trying character1 and live at peace1 if he is lovingly let alone4 ,if he is unlovingly let alone1 the peace will be only on the outside1 and must sooner or later give way to storms1 or1 what is much worse1 harden into unforgiving selfishness4 ,our influence with others depends primarily upon what we are1 and only secondarily upon what we think or upon what we say4 ,it is so with babies and young children1 and more so with our older friends4 ,if we honestly feel that there is something for us to learn from another1 however wrong or ignorant1 in some ways1 he may seem1 we are not only more able to find and profit by the best in him1 but also to give to him in return whatever he may be ready to receive4 ,how little quiet comfort there is in families where useless resistance to one another is habitual6 ,members of one family often live along together with more or less appearance of good fellowship1 but with an inner strain which gives them drawn faces and tired bodies1 or else throws them back upon themselves in the enjoyment of their own selfishness2 and sometimes there is not even the appearance of good fellowship1 but a chronic resistance and disagreement1 all for the want of a little sympathy and common sense4 ,it is the sensitive people that suffer most1 and their sensitiveness is deplored by the family and by themselves4 ,if they could only know how great a gift their sensitiveness is6 ,to appreciate this1 it must be used to find and feel the good in others1 not to make us abnormally alive to real or fancied slights4 ,we must use it to enlarge our sympathies and help us understand the wrong-doing of others enough to point the way1 if possible1 to better things1 not merely to criticise and blame them4 ,only in such ways can we learn to realize and use the delicate power of sensitiveness4 ,selfish sensitiveness is a blessing turned to a curse2 but the more lovingly sensitive we become to the need of moral freedom in our friends1 the ,dearer we are led to our own4 ,there are no human relations that do not illustrate the law which bids me love my neighbor as myself2 especially clearly is it revealed1--in its breach of observance1--in the comparatively external relations of host and guest in ordinary social life1 and in the happiness that can be given and received when it is readily obeyed4 ,a lady once said1 ,i go into my bedroom and take note of all the conveniences ,i have there1 and then look about my guest chamber to see that it is equally well and appropriately furnished4 ,she succeeds in her object in the guest chamber if she is the kind of hostess to her guest that she would have her guest be to her2 not that her guest's tastes are necessarily her own1 but that she knows how to find out what they are and how to satisfy them4 ,it is often difficult to love our neighbor as ourselves because we do not know how to love ourselves4 ,we are selfish1 or stupid1 or aggressive with ourselves1 or try too hard for what is right and good1 instead of trusting with inner confidence and reverence to a power that is above us4 ,over-thoughtfulness for others1 in little things or great1 is oppressive1 and as much an enemy to peace1 as the lack of any thoughtfulness at all4 ,it is like too much attention to the baby1 and comes from the same kind of selfish affection1 with--frequently the added motive of wanting to appear disinterested4 ,one might give pages of examples showing the right and the wrong way in all the varied relations of life1 but they would all show that the right way comes from obedience to the law of unselfishness4 ,to obey this law we must respect our neighbor's rights as we respect our own2 we must gain and keep the clear and quiet atmosphere that we like to find about our friend2 we must shun everything that would interfere with a loving kindliness toward him1 as we would have him show the same kindliness toward us4 ,we must know that we and our friends are one1 and that1 unless a relation is a mutual benefit1 it is no true relation at all4 ,but1 first of all1 we must remember that a true appreciation of the wonderful power of this law comes only with daily1 patient working1 and waiting for the growth it brings4 ,in so far as we are truly the friend of one1 whether he be baby1 child1 or grown man1--shall we be truly the friend of all2 in so far as we are truly the friend of all1 shall we be truly the friend of every one2 and1 as we find the living peace of this principle1 and a greater freedom from selfishness1--whether of affection or dislike1--those who truly belong to us will gravitate to our sides1 and we shall gravitate to theirs4 ,each one of us will understand his own relation to the rest1--whether remote or close1--for in that quiet light it will be seen to rest on intelligible law1 which only the fog and confusion of selfishness concealed4 ,,xix4 ,,the ,,use ,,of ,,the ,,will ,,it is not generally recognized that the will can be trained1 little by little1 by as steadily normal a process as the training of a muscle1 and that such training must be through regular daily exercise1 and as slow in its effects as the training of a muscle is slow4 ,perhaps we are unconsciously following1 as a race1 the law that ,froebel has given for the beginnings of individual education1 which bids us lead from the outer to the inner1 from the known to the unknown4 ,there is so much more to be done to make methods of muscular training perfect1 that we have not yet come to appreciate the necessity for a systematic training of the will4 ,every individual1 however1 who recognizes the need of such training and works accordingly1 is doing his part to hasten a more intelligent use of the will by humanity in general4 ,when muscles are trained abnormally their development weakens1 instead of strengthening1 the whole system4 ,great muscular strength is often deceptive in the appearance of power that it gives2 it often effectually hides1 under a strong exterior1 a process of degeneration which is going on within1 and it is not uncommon for an athlete to die of heart disease or pulmonary consumption4 ,this is exactly analogous to the frequently deceptive appearance of great strength of will4 ,the will is trained abnormally when it is used only in the direction of personal desire1 and the undermining effect upon the character in this case is worse than the weakening result upon the body in the case of abnormal muscular development4 ,a person who is persistently strong in having his own way may be found inconsistently weak when he is thwarted in his own way4 ,this weakness is seldom evident to the general public1 because a man with a strong will to accomplish his own ends is quick to detect and hide any appearance of weakness1 when he knows that it will interfere with whatever he means to do4 ,the weakness1 however1 is none the less certainly there1 and is often oppressively evident to those from whom he feels that he has nothing to gain4 ,when the will is truly trained to its best strength1 it is trained to obey2 not to obey persons or arbitrary ideas1 but to obey laws of life which are as fixed and true in their orderly power1 as the natural laws which keep the suns and planets in their appointed spheres4 ,there is no one who1 after a little serious reflection1 may not be quite certain of two or three fixed laws1 and as we obey the laws we know1 we find that we discover more4 ,to obey truly we must use our wills to yield as well as to act4 ,often the greatest strength is gained through persistent yielding1 for to yield entirely is the most difficult work a strong will can do1 and it is doing the most difficult work that brings the greatest strength4 ,to take a simple example3 a small boy with a strong will is troubled with stammering4 ,every time he stammers it makes him angry1 and he pushes and strains and exerts himself with so much effort to speak1 that the stammering1 in consequence1 increases4 ,if he were told to do something active and very painful1 and to persist in it until his stammering were cured1 he would set his teeth and go through the work like a soldier1 so as to be free from the stammering in the shortest possible time4 ,but when he is told that he must relax his body and stop pushing1 in order to drop the resistance that causes his trouble1 he fights against the idea with all his little might4 ,it is all explained to him1 and he understands that it is his only road to smooth speaking2 but the inherited tendency to use his will only in resistance is so strong1 that at first it seems impossible for him to use it in any other way4 ,the fact that the will sometimes gains its greatest power by yielding seems such a paradox that it is not strange that it takes us long to realize it4 ,indeed1 the only possible realization of it is through practice4 ,the example of the little stammering boy is an illustration that applies to many other cases of the same need for giving up resistance4 ,no matter how actively we need to use our wills1 it is often1 necessary to drop all self-willed resistance first1 before we begin an action1 if we want to succeed with the least possible effort and the best result4 ,when we use the will forcibly to resist or to repress1 we are simply straining our nerves and muscles1 and are exerting ourselves in a way which must eventually be weakening1 not only to them1 but to the will itself4 ,we are using the will normally when1 without repression or unnecessary effort1 we are directing the muscles and nerves in useful work4 ,we want training and not straining as much for the will as for the body1 and only in that way does the will get its strength4 ,the world admires a man for the strength of his will if he can control the appearance of anger1 whereas the only strength of will that is not spurious is that which controls the anger itself4 ,we have had the habit for so long of living in appearances1 that it is only by a slow process that we acquire a strong sense of their frailty and lack of genuine value4 ,in order to bring the will1 by training1 out of the region of appearances into that of realities1 we must learn to find the true causes of weakness and use our wills little by little to remove them4 ,to remove the external effect does no permanent good and produces an apparent strength which only hides an increasing weakness4 ,imagine1 for instance1 a woman with an emotional1 excitable nature who is suffering from jealousy2 she does not call it jealousy1 she calls it sensitive nerves1 and the doctors call it hysteria4 ,she has severe attacks of sensitive nerves or hysteria every time her jealousy is excited4 ,it is not uncommon for such persistent emotional strain1 with its effect upon the circulation and other functions of the body1 to bring on organic disease4 ,in such a case the love of admiration1 and the strength of will resulting from that selfish desire1 makes her show great fortitude1 for which she receives much welcome praise4 ,that is the effect she wants1 and in the pose of a wonderful character she finds it easy to produce more fortitude--and so win more admiration4 ,a will that is strong for the wrong1 may--if taken in time--become equally strong for the right4 ,perversion is not1 at first1 through lack of will1 but through the want of true perception to light the way to its intelligent use4 ,a man sometimes appears to be without power of will who is only using a strong will in the wrong way1 but if he continues in his wrong course long enough1 his weakness becomes real4 ,if a woman who begins her nervous degeneration by indulging herself in jealousy--which is really a gross emotion1 however she may refine it in appearance--could be made to see the truth1 she would1 in many cases1 be glad to use her will in the right direction1 and would become in reality the beautiful character which her friends believe her to be4 ,this is especially true because this moral and nervous perversion often attacks the finest natures4 ,but when such perversion is allowed to continue1 the sufferer's strength is always prominent in external dramatic effects1 but disappears oppressively when she is brought face to face with realities4 ,many people who are nervous invalids1 and many who are not1 are constantly weakening themselves and making themselves suffer by using their wills vigorously in every way but that which is necessary to their moral freedom3 by bearing various unhappy effects with so-called stoicism1 or fighting against them with their eyes tight shut to the real cause of their suffering1 and so hiding an increasing weakness under an appearance of strength4 ,a ludicrous and gross example of this misuse of the will may be observed in men or women who follow vigorously and ostentatiously paths of self-sacrifice which they have marked out for themselves1 while overlooking entirely places where self-denial is not only needed for their better life1 but where it would add greatly to the happiness and comfort of others4 ,it is curious a such weakness is common with people who are apparently very intelligent2 and parallel with this are cases of men who are remarkably strong in the line of their own immediate careers1 and proportionately weak in every other phase of their lives4 ,we very seldom find a soldier1 or a man who is powerful in politics1 who can answer in every principle and action of his life to ,wordsworth's ,character of the ,happy ,warrior4 ,absurd as futile self-sacrifice seems1 it is not less well balanced than the selfish fortitude of a jealous woman or than the apparent strength of a man who can only work forcibly for selfish ends4 ,the wisest use of the will can only grow with the decrease of self-indulgence4 ,nervous women are very effective examples of the perversion of a strong will4 ,there are women who will work themselves into an illness and seem hopelessly weak when they are not having their own way1 who would feel quite able to give dinner parties at which they could be prominent in whatever role they might prefer1 and would forget their supposed weakness with astonishing rapidity4 ,when things do not go to please such women1 they are weak and ill2 when they stand out among their friends according to their own ideal of themselves and are sufficiently flattered1 they enter into work which is far beyond their actual strength1 and sooner or later break down only to be built up on another false basis4 ,this strong will turned the wrong way is called hysteria1 or neurasthenia1 or degeneracy4 ,it may be one of these or all three1 in its effect1 but the training of the will to overcome the cause1 which is always to be found in some kind of selfishness1 would cure the hysteric1 give the neurasthenic more wholesome nerves1 and start the degenerate on a course of regeneration4 ,at times it would hardly surprise us to hear that a child with a stomach-ache crying for more candy was being treated for hysteria and studied as a degenerate4 ,degenerate he certainly is1 but only until he can be taught to deny himself candy when it is not good for him1 with quiet and content4 ,there are many petty self-indulgences which1 if continually practised1 can do great and irreparable harm in undermining the will4 ,every man or woman knows his own little weaknesses best1 but that which leads to the greatest harm is the excuse1 ,it is my temperament2 if ,i were not tardy1 or irritable1 or untidy1--or whatever it may be1--,i would not be myself4 ,our temperament is given us as a servant1 not as a master2 and when we discover that an inherited perversion of temperament can be trained to its opposite good1 and train it so1 we do it not at a loss of individuality1 but at a great gain4 ,this excuse of temperament is often given as a reason for not yielding4 ,the family will is dwelt upon with a pride which effectually prevents it from keeping its best strength1 and blinds the members of the family to the weakness that is sure to come1 sooner or later1 as a result of the misuse of the inheritance of which they are so proud4 ,if we train our wills to be passive or active1 as the need may be1 in little things1 that prepares us for whatever great work may be before us1 just as in the training of a muscle1 the daily gentle exercise prepares it to lift a great weight4 ,whether in little ways or in great ways1 it is stupid and useless to expect to gain real strength1 unless we are working in obedience to the laws that govern its development4 ,we have a faculty for distinguishing order from disorder and harmony from discord1 which grows in delicacy and strength as we use it1 and we can only use it through refusing disorder and choosing order4 ,as our perception grows1 we choose more wisely1 and as we choose more wisely1 our perception grows4 ,but our perceptions must work in causes1 not at all in effects1 except as they lead us to a knowledge of causes4 ,we must1 above all1 train our wills as a means of useful work4 ,it is impossible to perfect ourselves for the sake of ourselves4 ,it is a happy thing to have been taught the right use of the will as a child1 but those of us who have not been so taught1 can be our own fathers and our own mothers1 and we must be content with a slow growth4 ,we are like babies learning to walk4 ,the baby tries day after day1 and does not feel any strain1 or wake in the morning with a distressing sense of ,oh6 ,i must practise walking to-day4 ,when shall ,i have finished learning8 ,he works away1 time after time falling down and picking himself up1 and some one day finally walks1 without thinking about it any more4 ,so we1 in the training of our wills1 need to work patiently day by day2 if we fall1 we must pick ourselves up and go on1 and just as the laws of balance guide the baby1 so the laws of life will carry us4 ,when the baby has succeeded in walking1 he is not elated at his new power1 but uses it quietly and naturally to accomplish his ends4 ,we cannot realize too strongly that any elation or personal pride on our part in a better use of the will1 not only obstructs its growth1 but is directly and immediately weakening4 ,a quiet1 intelligent use of the will is at the root of all character2 and unselfish1 well-balanced character1 with the insight which it develops1 will lead us to well-balanced nerves4 ,,summing ,,up ,,to sum it all up1 the nerves are conductors for impression and expression4 ,as channels1 they should be as free as ,emerson's smooth hollow tube1 for transmission from without in1 and from within out4 ,thus the impressions will be clear1 and the expressions powerful4 ,the perversions in the way of allowing to the nerves the clear conducting power which ,nature would give them are1 so far as the body is concerned1 unnecessary fatigue and strain caused by not resting entirely when the times come for rest1 and by working with more than the amount of force needed to accomplish our ends1--thus defying the natural laws of equilibrium and economy4 ,not only in the ways mentioned do we defy these most powerful laws1 but1 because of carelessness in nourishment and want of normal exercise out of doors1 we make the establishment of such equilibrium impossible4 ,the nerves can never be open channels while the body wants either proper nourishment1 the stimulus that comes from open air exercise1 perfect rest1 or true economy of force in running the human machine4 ,the physical training should be a steady shunning of personal perversions until the nervous system is in a natural state1 and the muscles work in direct obedience to the will with the exquisite co-ordination which is natural to them4 ,the same equilibrium must be found in the use of the mind4 ,rest must be complete when taken1 and must balance the effort in work1--rest meaning often some form of recreation as well as the passive rest of steep4 ,economy of effort should be gained through normal concentration1--that is1 the power of erasing all previous impressions and allowing a subject to hold and carry us1 by dropping every thought or effort that interferes with it1 in muscle1 nerve1 and mind4 ,the nerves of the senses must be kept clear through this same ability to drop all previous impressions4 ,first in importance1 and running all through the previous training1 is the use of the will1 from which all these servants1 mental and physical1 receive their orders1--true or otherwise as the will itself obeys natural and spiritual laws in giving them4 ,the perversions in the will to be shunned are misuse of muscles by want of economy in force and power of direction2 abuse of the nervous system by unwisely dwelling upon pain and illness beyond the necessary care for the relief of either1 or by allowing sham emotions1 irritability1 and all other causes of nervous distemper to overcome us4 ,the remedy for this is to make a peaceful state possible through a normal training of the physique2 to realize and follow a wholesome life in all its phases2 to recognize daily more fully through obedience the great laws of life by which we must be governed1 as certainly as an engineer must obey the laws of mechanics if he wants to build a bridge1 that will stand1 as certainly as a musician must obey the laws of harmony if he would write good music1 as surely as a painter must obey the laws of perspective and of color if he wishes to illuminate ,nature by means of his art4 ,no matter what our work in life1 whether scientific1 artistic1 or domestic1 it is the same body through which the power is transmitted2 and the same freedom in the conductors for impression and expression is needed1 to whatever end the power may be moved1 from the most simple action to the highest scientific or artistic attainment4 ,the quality of power differs greatly2 the results are widely different1 but the laws of transmission are the same4 ,so wonderful is the unity of life and its laws6 ,,the ,,end4