,transcrib]'s ,note3 ,und]scores are us$ z delimit]s = italics ,,! ,,exp]t ,,maid-,,s]vant ,,by ,,*ri/9e ,,t]hune ,,h]rick ,,au?or ,,( ,,h\sekeep+ ,,made ,,easy ,,:at ,,to ,,eat ,,& ,,h[ ,,to ,,s]ve ,,x ,,cradle ,,& ,,nurs]y ,,etc4 ,,new ,,york ,,& ,,london ,,h>p] ,,bro!rs ,,publi%]s 33 #aijd ,copyright1 #aijd1 by ,h>p] ,bro!rs4 ,all rights res]v$4 ,publi%$ ,octob]1 #aijd4 ,,to ,a ,,fri5d ,,9 ,,ne$ ,,cont5ts ,,*apt] ,,page ,i4 ,engag+ ! ,maid #a ,,ii4 ,:5 ! ,maid ,arrives #ai ,,iii4 ,mi/ress & ,maid #cf ,,iv4 ,! ,duties ( ! ,maid-(-all-"w #eb ,v4 ,duties ( ,two or ,m ,s]vants #gj ,,vi4 ,c]ta9 ,problems ( ,s]vice #hh ,,vii4 ,g5]al ,sugge/ions #ajd ,,viii4 ,a ,recapitulation ( ,daily ,duties #abe ,,! ,,exp]t ,,maid-,,s]vant ,i ,,engag+ ,,! ,,maid ,! mo/ common me?od ( engag+ a s]vant is ?r\gh an intellig5ce (fice4 ,!re are ne>ly z _m diff]5t k9ds ( ^! z !re are types ( dome/ics :o patronize !m4 ,an (fice ) a high /&+ %\ld be select$4 ,?is is n only because a l[] grade ( employes is to be f\nd at ! o!r v>iety1 b also on acc\nt ( ! me?ods foll[$ 9 "s ( ! *eap] (fices4 ,su* e/abli%m5ts occasionally h unscrupul\s manag]s1 :o make a bus9ess ( enc\rag+ ! maids !y place to *ange (t51 9 ord] t ! r5ew$ fee ( ! employ] may come to ! (fice4 ,?is practice has become common en\gh 9 "s ,/ates to ju/ify legislative int]v5tion4 ,9 ne>ly e city or t[n !re are reputable ag5cies1 sometimes conduct$ z bus9ess ent]prises simply1 sometimes run 9 connection ) *ur* or b5evol5t societies1 :]e a regi/] is kept ( ! ref]5ces ( s]vants = :om places are secur$4 ,^! ref]5ces are usually held z confid5tial betwe5 ! ag5t & ! w\ld-be employ]1 & ! latt] is ?us enabl$ to le>n ) "s c]ta9ty ! qualifications ( ! maid %e ?9ks ( engag+4 ,once 9 a :ile a mi/ress is s =tunate z to secure a maid by ! recomm5dation ( "s o!r h\sekeep] or ?r\gh a s]vant 9 h] own or a fri5d's employ4 ,maids engag$ 9 ?is fa%ion are (t5 m satisfactory ?an ^? f\nd at an (fice1 f ! fact t !y ent] _! new positions some:at prejudic$ 9 favor ( ! employ]1 in/ead ( hold+ ! attitude ( arm$ neutrality (t5 f\nd 9 s]vants :o seek places ?r\gh an (fice4 ,:]ev] ! maid is met & 9 :atev] capacity %e is engag$1 !re %\ld be a cle> und]/&+ f ! beg9n+ z to :at h] "w %all be4 ,! mi/ress %\ld beg9 ! int]view ) ! maid %e seeks to employ by /at+ :at are ! duties ( ! place %e (f]s & inquir+ z to ! capabilities ( ! maid = ! position4 ,(t5 a few que/ions & answ]s w prove ! unsatisfactor9ess ( ! situation or ( ! applicant4 ,9 ?is case1 ! affair %\ld be dropp$ at once4 ,nev]1 no matt] :at ! exig5cy1 %\ld ! h\sekeep] endeavor to p]suade a dome/ic into tak+ a place = :i* %e is dis9cl9$4 ,x is a mi/ake almo/ sure to result badly4 ,! h\sekeep] %\ld come to an int]view ) a prospective maid ) an op5 m9d1 & n all[ h]self to be prejudic$ by appe>ances4 ,an aspect ( sull5ness is frequ5tly ! result ( %yness & does n indicate unwill+ness to "w or a bad temp]4 ,! w\ld-be employ] %\ld speak g5tly & n ask que/ions ) a mann] ( hav+ ! maid 9 ! witness-box4 ,su* treatm5t w sometimes fright5 a timid maid into inability to answ] intellig5tly1 & ! employ] w produce an impression ( h] own h>dness & sev]ity :i* %e w f9d x difficult to ov]come lat]4 ,! p]t & self-suffici5t maid is likely to decl>e h] nature )9 a v few m9utes4 ,k9dness w n int5sify ^! qualities 9 h]1 :ile x w enable a ba%ful girl to appe> to bett] advantage4 ,be=e int]view+ a maid1 ! mi/ress %\ld h cle>ly fram$ 9 h] own m9d ! outl9es ( ! "w requir$1 & %\ld "k def9itely :at qu]ies %e means to put4 ,ea* mi/ress probably has h] own way ( le>n+ ! maid's capabilities & ( expla9+ ! "w %e wi%es done4 ,! h\sekeep] :o has _h little practice 9 engag+ s]vants w d well to make up a =mula ( inquiries 9 advance4 ,to beg9 )1 x %\ld be asc]ta9$ :at exp]i5ce ! maid has _h1 :at 0 h] la/ place1 h[ long %e /ay$ 9 x1 :at 7 h] reasons = leav+ x4 ,hav+ ?us le>n$ if ! s]vant seems to be 9 ! ma9 satisfactory1 s f> z disposition & will+ness are conc]n$1 ! mi/ress %\ld proce$ to expla9 :at is ! "w ( ! h\se1 putt+ su* que/ions z w enable ! girl to tell ( h] compet5cy4 ,= in/ance1 9 engag+ a maid = g5]al h\sework1 %e %\ld be ask$ if %e und]/&s pla9 cook+ ( meats & vegetables2 if %e c make bread1 biscuit & muff9s1 s\ps & pla9 pudd+s2 if %e c foll[ a recipe1 etc4 ,m elaborate cul9>y accompli%m5ts c r>ely be look$ = 9 a maid-(-all-"w4 ,%e %\ld also be able to d wa%+ & iron+1 h "s k ( *amb]-"w & ( wait+1 & be will+ to le>n4 ,!re are s _m qualifications = ! g5]al-h\sework girl1 :o mu/ be a sort ( ,pooh ,bah 9 petticoats1 t x is no wond] ! supply is usually inadequate to ! dem&4 ,!re %\ld be no attempt on ! "p ( ! mi/ress to make ?+s 9 ! place %e (f]s seem bett] ?an !y are4 ,a s]vant :o is br\ght into a h\se "u false pret5ces is nev] likely to d well4 ,if ! prospective mi/ress ent]ta9s a good deal1 if %e is likely to h gue/s /ay+ 9 ! h\se (t51 %e %\ld give full notice ( h] int5tion f ! />t1 expla9+ at ! same "t t %e is will+ to d all %e c to light5 ! burd5 ( extra "w4 ,s f> z possible1 ! am\nt ( labor %\ld be put cle>ly be=e ! employe1 s t if ! place does n suit h] %e may "k its drawbacks f ! beg9n+4 ,naturally1 x %\ld also be ! "p ( ! mi/ress to po9t out :at are ! especial advantages ( ! situation1 & to let ! maid see t ! employ] is ready to d any?+ 9 h] p[] to prev5t unusual toil f be+ too heavily felt4 ,no *ance %\ld be left = misund]/&+ ^u any po9t1 & f ! fir/ x %\ld be compreh5d$ t a _s ( accommodation & k9dl9ess w be accord$ by ! mi/ress & expect$ f ! maid4 ,aft] ! mi/ress & maid h rea*$ "s k9d ( an adju/m5t t makes !m feel ! relation ( employ] & employ$ w\ld be desirable to bo?1 x is "t = ! h\sekeep] to make special inquiry ab\t ! maid's ref]5ces4 ,if ! (fice is a reputable "o x may be tak5 = grant$ t ! s]vants' *>act]s are 9 ! ma9 :at !y %\ld be1 b ! mi/ress w wi% to g into details & ei!r see ! =m] employ] or write to h]4 ,?is matt] ( ref]5ces is mo/ important4 ,! mi/ress owes x to ! maid z well z to h]self to see t ^! are all !y %\ld be4 ,no matt] h[ excell5t is ! writt5 ref]5ce %[n by ! s]vant1 x %\ld be v]ifi$ by ! prospective employ]4 ,9 _m cases ! mi/ress ( a dep>t+ maid w write = h] an unc&id ref]5ce = ! sake ( sav+ h]self an unpleasant sc5e or f a mi/ak5 k9dl9ess4 ,%e does n wi% to endang] ! maid's *ances ( secur+ fur!r employm5t1 & %e pref]s to /ret* ! tru? to be+ hone/ 9 ! recomm5dation %e be/[s4 ,a lam5table want ( honor prevails betwe5 h\sekeep]s 9 ?is reg>d1 & ! woman :o has n f\nd a maid 9 ! lea/ satisfactory :ile 9 h] own employ w s5d h] =? ) a ref]5ce :i* makes x tol]ably sure %e c obta9 a situation else:]e )\t difficulty4 ,on ! o!r h&1 ! new mi/ress is no less he$less & w take a s]vant into h] employ simply on ! /r5g? ( a writt5 ref]5ce )\t giv+ h]self ! pa9s to inquire z to its accuracy4 ,too mu* /ress c h>dly be laid ^u ?is necessity = hone/y 9 ! ref]5ces giv54 ,x is ! protection ( ! maid z well z ( ! mi/ress4 ,s long z any s]vant c secure a good place by a =g$ ref]5ce or by "o grant$ to incompet5cy by easy good-nature1 %e w n feel t h] employm5t dep5ds ^u h] m]its4 ,! consci5ti\s tra9$ work] /&s on precisely ! same plane z ! c>eless1 unqualifi$ %irk4 ,a good "p ( ! re=mation ( ! mu* criticis$ dome/ic s]vice lies ) ! mi/ress :o deplores its faults4 ,:5 a maid und]/&s t laz9ess1 imp]t95ce1 di%one/y1 ill-temp]1 incompet5cy1 w be m5tion$ 9 h] ref]5ce j z frankly z ! contr>y good qualities1 %e w take m pa9s conc]n+ ! recomm5dation t w w9 or lose h] a place4 ,z a matt] ( c\rse1 !re is always ! *ance t an unscrupul\s or bad-temp]$ mi/ress may take advantage ( ! p[] ( ! ref]5ce4 ,b ?is risk is small1 especially 9 ! pres5t condition ( our dome/ic s]vice4 ,we h n yet rea*$ ! po9t atta9$ by ! ,engli%1 ) :om a false ref]5ce--t is1 "o n writt5 by a g5u9e employ] ( ! s]vant hold+ ! ref]5ce--is puni%$ by f9e or imprisonm5t4 ,f pres5t appe>ances1 x does n seem likely t we %all ev] get to t4 ,b ! mi/resses might at lea/ h ! s5se ( mutual responsibility t m>ks liv+-out girls4 ,if a place is once kn[n z h>d1 or a mi/ress z unreasonable1 unk9d1 or a driv]1 x is difficult to f9d s]vants to fill x4 ,!re is an unorganiz$ trades-union among s]vants :i* helps to protect !m1 9 a measure4 ,! mi/resses h too little esprit de corps :5 ref]5ces are 9 "q4 ,x is difficult to describe to a prospective maid exactly :at h] "w w be1 b %e c h a g5]al outl9e ( x giv5 to h]4 ,conc]n+ h] privileges x is possible to be m explicit1 al?\gh ! privileges v>y ) ! position ! maid occupies 9 ! h\sehold4 ,:]e "o s]vant is kept1 x is cu/om>y to all[ h] e o!r ,sunday aft]noon & ev5+ out1 & an aft]noon & ev5+ besides on a week-day1 once a =tnight--or else an ev5+ e week4 ,:5 two s]vants are employ$ ! same privilege is all[$ to ea*1 & x is ! g5]al rule t "o %all take ! "w ( ! o!r on ! days & ev5+s out ( ! latt]4 ,?us1 ! second maid prep>es d9n] z well z s]ves x1 :5 ! cook is out1 :ile ! cook does ! wait+ & s]v+ & answ]s ! bell1 9 addition to do+ h] own "w1 :5 ! second maid has h] holiday4 ,9 "s h\seholds x is ! cu/om to h supp] in/ead ( d9n] on ! night :5 ! cook goes out1 ?us light5+ ! task ( ! waitress4 ,! ,sunday ev5+ supp] is practically univ]sal1 z x gives ! maids _! heavie/ "w 9 ! e>ly "p ( ! day & less5s ! labor ( ! aft]noon & ev5+4 ,9 ! h\sehold :]e ?ree wom5 s]vants are employ$1 x is ! cu/om to h b "o out at a "t1 except on ,sundays4 ,m or less plann+ is requir$ to divide ! "w satisfactorily "u ^! circum/ances1 & ! me?od 9 :i* ! division is accompli%$ mu/ be decid$ by ! features ( ea* case4 ,:atev] ! peculi>ities ( ! position1 !y mu/ be made pla9 to ! maid :5 %e is engag$1 & n left at r&om to be decid$ ^u lat]4 ,! arrangem5ts once made1 x mu/ be und]/ood t ! rules =m$ are n to be lightly brok51 ei!r by mi/ress or maid4 ,! employe is to "k t %e c c\nt positively on a c]ta9 day a week1 & ! mi/ress mu/ submit to great p]sonal inconv5i5ce soon] ?an v>y f ?is rule4 ,if1 = in/ance1 x is m agreeable = h] to ent]ta9 gue/s on ,?ursday ?an on ,w$nesday1 & ! =m] is ! maid's ev5+ out1 ! mi/ress %\ld waive h] own pref]5ces & conv5i5ce soon] ?an break 9 ^u ! maid's out+4 ,! same pr9ciple %\ld be foll[$ by ! maid4 ,h] day out is agre$ ^u to be ?is or t4 ,%e %\ld n feel t %e c *ange x to suit h]self1 m]ely by reque/+ ! indulg5ce ( h] mi/ress4 ,9 o!r matt]s ab\t ! h\sehold !re %\ld be a fix$ r\t9e1 & ?is %\ld be und]/ood f ! outset4 ,meals w be s]v$ at c]ta9 h\rs1 ! maid w be expect$ to h !m on "t & ! family to be prompt at ! table4 ,su* sy/em z ?is does mu* t[>ds simplify+ ! "w ( a h\sehold & gives a maid a feel+ ( /ability t helps h] to d h] "w to bett] advantage4 ,%e kn[s :at %e has to d 9 ! l9e ( "w & :at to dep5d ^u 9 ! way ( "t1 & z a consequ5ce ! :eels ( ! home move m smoo?ly4 ,su* a h>d-&-fa/ rule z ?is _c prevail1 p]haps1 9 e h\sehold4 ,take ! case ( a physician1 = in/ance1 ( a newspap] man1 ( "s bus9ess-m54 ,x is almo/ out ( ! "q = !m to con=m to an immutable regulation4 ,if a doctor has be5 up all night ) a pati5t1 x is rank absurdity to say t he mu/ be on h& 9 ! morn+ = an eight-o'clock breakfa/1 or t if a commut] loses 8 tra9 he mu/ /op 9 t[n & get 8 d9n] soon] ?an d]ange ! times & seasons ( ! dome/ic economy4 ,9 su* cases x is well to rememb] t ! h\se is made = ! family & n ! family = ! h\se4 ,b in/ances l ^! are exceptions1 & d n affect ! g5]al application ( ! rule4 ,on ! o!r h&1 x may be urg$ t !re are happy &1 9 ! ma91 well-conduct$ homes :]e a diff]5t pr9ciple is foll[$4 ,9 ^! ! e/abli%m5t is consid]$ m z ! home & less z a piece ( ma*9]y4 ,concessions are r5d]$ to ! pref]5ces ( ! s]vants :5 !y wi% to v>y _! days out1 & !y 9 turn are ready to accommodate !mselves to ! wi%es ( _! employ]s :5 a *ange ( holidays seems desirable4 ,su* lib]ties z ^! x is n safe to advise4 ,!y are ! exceptions1 &1 9 ! long run1 ! /rict] plan w probably prove m satisfactory to all conc]n$4 ,at ! "t ( engag+ ! maid1 ! mi/ress %\ld make /ipulations z to ! m9uti ( caps1 aprons1 broad coll>s & cuffs1 & ! l4 ,9 "s p>ts ( ! c\ntry !re are maids :o object to any?+ t seems to sugge/ a liv]y or uni=m1 &1 if !re are prote/s to be made & met1 ! process %\ld be dispos$ ( at ! />t4 ,_m mi/resses & maids fail to grasp ! fact t ! engagem5t betwe5 !m is 9 ! nature ( a legal contract4 ,mi/ress & maid are equals 9 ! eyes ( ! law1 & an agreem5t is z b9d+ ^u "o z ^u ! o!r4 ,x %\ld be p]fectly und]/ood at ! beg9n+ = :at t]m ! maid is engag$ & at :at rates4 ,9 "s places x is ! cu/om to pay by ! week1 & ! s]vant is !n engag$ by t t]m4 ,9 o!r localities %e is engag$ & paid by ! mon?1 al?\gh %e is frequ5tly tak5 at fir/ on a week's trial1 ) ! und]/&+ t1 if %e gives satisfaction & is suit$ ) ! place1 %e is to cont9ue h] s]vices by ! mon?4 ,:5 ! latt] p]iod is ! t]m ( engagem5t1 x is und]/ood t ! employ] is expect$ to give n less ?an a week's notice ( dis*>ge to a maid1 & t ! latt] %\ld ann\nce a week be=e h] mon? is up h] int5tion ( leav+4 ,%\ld ! mi/ress pref]1 %e c give a week's wages 9 lieu ( a week's notice1 b ! =m] me?od is 9 m g5]al use4 ,:5 a s]vant is engag$ by ! week1 two or ?ree days' notice is dem&$ on ei!r side4 ,! mon?'s notice ) :i* ,engli% books h made u famili> is n common "h1 unless ! s]vant has be5 = a long "t 9 ! place4 ,immorality1 drunk5ness1 di%one/y1 & absolute refusal to obey ord]s are suffici5t causes = dismiss+ a s]vant )\t w>n+ or wages2 b ?is is an extreme measure1 & %\ld be resort$ to only 9 circum/ances ( great provocation4 ,ev5 !n1 complications are (t5 avoid$ by pay+ a s]vant some?+1 if n all ( :at is due4 ,! s]vant :o leaves )\t w>n+ 9 ! middle ( h] t]m is n legally entitl$ to h] wages1 b 9 ?is case1 also1 tr\ble is usually sav$ by pay+ h] up to date4 ,among ! /ipulations incid5t to ! engagem5t ( a maid1 x is well to make m5tion ( breakages4 ,?is may n be ne$ful :5 hir+ a cook1 b x is a safegu>d :5 engag+ a waitress or ev5 a g5]al h\sework s]vant4 ,inquiries %\ld be put z to ! maid's c>efulness ) *9a1 & !re %\ld be an agreem5t t ! maid is responsible = breakages except 9 cases ( unavoidable accid5t4 ,su* a proviso z ?is may det] "s maids f tak+ a place1 b ! c>eful girl is n likely to object to ! rule1 & ! mi/ress w\ld probably be un=tunate %\ld %e engage a maid :o res5t$ su* a regulation4 ,,ii ,,:5 ,,! ,,maid ,,arrives ,! fir/ days ( a s]vant 9 a new place are n easy ei!r = mi/ress or = maid4 ,?is %\ld be recogniz$ by ! mi/ress1 & %e %\ld lay 9 an extra supply ( pati5ce = ! em]g5cy4 ,%e w ne$ x1 9 ord] to endure ) equanimity ! s9s1 neglig5ces1 & ignorances ( ! new-com]--especially ! ignorances4 ,yet1 look$ at imp>tially1 ! blund]s made by ! maid are probably n s mu* ! result ( ignorance z ( unaccu/om$ness4 ,! situation is mu* h>d] = h] ?an = ! mi/ress4 ,! latt] is at lea/ on famili> gr\nd4 ,to ! =m] ! place is an unkn[n quantity4 ,%e does n "k :]e any?+ is kept4 ,%e is ignorant ( ! pref]5ces ( h] new employ]4 ,%e is encompass$ by novel surr\nd+s & faces2 &--a fact t is n always recogniz$ by employ]s--! v phraseology ( ! new mi/ress is /range to h]4 ,! maid lacks ! m5tal tra9+ t w\ld enable h] to adapt h]self quickly to ! *ang$ conditions1 ! unusual expressions4 ,"u ! circum/ances1 ! wond] is n t %e does ?+s s badly1 b t %e accommodates h]self z readily z %e does to ! fre% environm5t4 ,i h spok5 ( ! diffid5ce t sometimes produces ! impression ( sull5ness4 ,?is same diffid5ce (t5 takes o!r =ms t are ev5 m try+ ?an gloom4 ,i h kn[n ( "o maid :o1 dur+ ! fir/ =tnight ( h] /ay 9 a new place1 receiv$ e ord] ) a l\d giggle--! fa%ion 9 :i* h] emb>rassm5t manife/$ itself4 ,ano!r 0 s mu* at a loss :at to d ) h] h&s :5 !y 7 n occupi$ ) h] "w1 t %e slapp$ !m toge!r con/antly z %e mov$ ab\t ! h\se or /ood wait+ = ord]s4 ,yet bo? ( ^! maids1 aft] _! fir/ %yness _h worn (f & !y _h f\nd !mselves & _! relation to _! "w1 became admirable s]vants & ov]came ! defects t _h at fir/ tri$ ! pati5ce ( ! mi/ress almo/ beyond endurance4 ,9 ! av]age ,am]ican h\sehold1 :]e !re is only a small dome/ic =ce1 ! mi/ress %\ld always %[ ! s]vant :at are h] duties or direct h[ ^! are to be p]=m$4 ,9 l>ge h\seholds1 :]e !re is a h\sekeep]1 ! tra9+ ( ! new s]vants may be delegat$ to h]1 b ^! e/abli%m5ts are too few to be weigh$ 9 mak+ up ! ma9 acc\nt4 ,z soon z ! maid comes ! mi/ress %\ld direct h] or %[ h] to h] room1 & tell h] to *ange h] /reet g>b = h] work+-dress & !n to report h]self to ! mi/ress4 ,%e1 on h] own "p1 %\ld be ready = ! new-com]1 n only ) a cle>ly fram$ idea ( ! "w %e w put h] to fir/1 b also ) ! h\se 9 good ord] = ! "w t is to be done4 ,no?+ is m disc\rag+ to a s]vant ?an to come into a place t is dirty f ! c>elessness ( ! =m] occupant1 or untidy & topsy-turvy4 ,! maid is z susceptible to fir/ impressions z ! re/ ( u1 & ! moral effect ( br++ h] into a dirty & disord]ly kit*5 is di/9ctly bad4 ,! mi/ress %\ld h _h ! kit*5 & pantries clean$ by ! outgo+ maid--& x %\ld h be5 done "u h] own sup]vision or else ?or\ghly inspect$ aft] ! "w is f9i%$4 ,%\ld ! maid :o is leav+ n h done h] task ?or\ghly1 x is bett] = ! mi/ress to give h] own "t & labor to clean+ closets & %elves1 or engage a *>woman to d x1 ?an to p]mit ! maid to come 9 be=e ! "w is prop]ly p]=m$4 ,! s]vant :o f9ds du/ 9 ! corn]s1 ! /ove unpoli%$1 ! cell> & refrig]ator unclean$1 is likely to draw ! conclusion t ! places c rema9 z %e f\nd !m1 or may be suff]$ to drift into ! same condition aga9 :5ev] %e is too lazy or too c>eless to give !m prop] att5tion4 ,a ^w ab\t ! maid's b$room4 ,9 "s circum/ances x is impossible to make x v allur+4 ,:5 all ( a family are tuck$ away 9 d>k1 inside rooms1 z is ! case 9 _m city ap>tm5ts1 x _c be expect$ t ! maid w f>e bett] ?an h] employ]s4 ,b1 =tunately1 all humanity are n cliff-dwell]s4 ,!re are pl5ty ( homes :]e x is possible = ! maid to h a light1 airy b$room1 :i* c\ld be made attractive at a small exp5diture ( "t & money4 ,yet x is seldom t a s]vant's room has any?+ pleas+ ab\t x4 ,! mi/resses def5d !mselves by say+ t ! s]vants are he$less ) good ?+s1 t !y d n take c>e ( :at is giv5 !m1 & any mi/ress c cite facts to prove ?is position4 ,)\t disput+ ! tru? ( ^! /atem5ts1 x may yet be urg$ t x is h>d = a s]vant to come into a room t be>s pla9ly ! traces ( its =m] occupant's untid9ess4 ,possibly ! new-com] has 9 h] ! pot5tialities ( neatness & cleanl9ess1 & x is unfair to *eck ^! at ! />t4 ,! room _c be refurni%$ = e new maid2 b ! furniture x conta9s c be ( a sort t is readily fre%5$4 ,! :ite iron cots are neat z well z com=table1 & !re %\ld be a good mattress always4 ,a h>d-work+ maid has a "r to a com=table b$4 ,if !re are two s]vants1 !y %\ld h sep>ate b$s4 ,?is %\ld be an inv>iable rule4 ,! mattress %\ld be protect$ by "o ( ! cov]s t come = ?is purpose4 ,?is c be wa%$ z (t5 z x ne$s x4 ,! blankets1 too1 %\ld be wa%$ betwe5 ! dep>ture ( "o maid & ! arrival ( ano!r4 ,a neat iron wa%-/&1 a pla9 bureau t c h a fre% bureau-cov] or a clean t[el laid ov] x1 a com=table *air1 a rug by ! b$1 are n exp5sive & add mu* to ! com=t ( a room4 ,x is wis] to h ! floor b>e & pa9t$1 or spread ) a matt+1 ?an cov]$ ) a %abby & worn-out c>pet :i* ga!rs du/ & dirt4 ,! walls are bett] pa9t$ ?an pap]$4 ,! mi/ress c consult h] own pref]5ces z to :e!r or n %e %all put pictures on ! walls1 b %e %\ld n make ( ! maid's room a lumb] place = ! old engrav+s & *romos t w be tol]at$ 9 no o!r "p ( ! h\se1 & d x "u ! impression t %e is mak+ ! place attractive to ! maid-s]vant )9 h] gates4 ,! b$ %\ld1 if possible1 be made up be=e ! maid arrives1 ) a fre% spread1 & ! room %\ld h ! absolute cleanl9ess t is always a *>m4 ,"o m po9t %\ld be look$ aft] 9 prep>+ = ! maid's arrival4 ,! mi/ress %\ld make sure t ! supply ( *9a & cutl]y t ! maid w use = h] own meals is 9 dec5t ord]4 ,x _c be pleasant = any "o to h b5t & t>ni%$ =ks & spoons1 crack$ & /a9$ cups1 sauc]s1 & plates = h] food4 ,! co/ ( replac+ ^! by new is v slight & pays = itself 9 ! agreeable impression giv5 ! maid by ! fre%1 bright articles4 ,a li/ ( ! d9+-room silv]1 l951 & *9a %\ld be made by ! mi/ress & gone ov] by h] ) ! maid ! day ( ! latt]'s arrival4 ,by ?us v]ify+ ! li/ ! maid has a cle> idea ( ! prop]ty t is giv5 into h] *>ge & kn[s = :at %e is responsible4 ,if ! *9a is nick$ or crack$1 m5tion %\ld be made on ! li/ ( ea* piece ?us disfigur$1 & !re %\ld be a note ( l95 t is worn or brok54 ,by means ( su* a li/ ! mi/ress is able to keep track ( h] possessions & !re is no possibility ( ! maid's excus+ a *ipp$ plate or a crack$ di% ) ! plea t x 0 injur$ be=e %e came4 ,su* a li/ is also a safegu>d to ! maid1 :o is by x enabl$ to prove t %e is n to be blam$ = disa/]s t occurr$ dur+ ! /ay ( a pr$ecessor4 ,:5 ! s]vant pres5ts h]self ready dress$ = h] "w1 ! mi/ress %\ld tell h] z simply z possible :at ?is w be4 ,! in/ruction w\ld bett] be giv5 9 brok5 doses4 ,! work+s ( ! untra9$ m9d are peculi>1 & 9 m5tal equipm5t ! av]age s]vant is (t5 on a level ) a *ild ( t5 or twelve4 ,be/[ too _m facts at once & y produce only confusion4 ,s x is n well to make an attempt to give ! maid a bird's-eye view ( :at w be h] :ole duty1 b r to acqua9t h] by degrees ) h] occupations4 ,! fir/ /ep is = ! mi/ress to %[ h] :]e h] "w is to be & ! in/rum5ts ) :i* %e is to p]=m x4 ,%\ld %e be a cook1 %e mu/ be introduc$ to ! kit*51 ! managem5t ( ! range expla9$ to h]1 ! :]eab\ts ( ! pr9cipal ut5sils made cle>4 ,if x is ! waitress :o is to be induct$ into (fice1 %e %\ld be tak5 to ! *9a-closet1 ! cont5ts ( ?is & ( ! silv] & l95 draw]s display$1 & ! p>ticul> pieces po9t$ out t are 9 daily s]vice4 ,:5 ! waitress is also ! *amb]maid1 !re are explanations requir$ z to ! up/airs "w4 ,b1 z ,i h said1 x is bett] to supply ^! little by little4 ,= example1 if ! cook comes into ! h\se 9 ! morn+1 give h] "t to get us$ to h] kit*5 & h] tools be=e too mu* in=mation is (f]$ z to ! pref]5ces ( ! family 9 cook]y4 ,s9ce ! fir/ meal %e w h to prep>e w be lun*eon1 tell h] ab\t ?is1 & d n burd5 h] ) ! details ( d9n] until aft] lun* is ov]4 ,/ill less try to give h] at "o fell swoop all %e w ne$ to "k ab\t breakfa/ ! next morn+ or :at %e w be expect$ to d on wa%+ & iron+ day4 ,^! in/ructions may s\nd unnecess>y to ! tra9$ & exp]i5c$ h\sekeep]2 b ! _w is n entirely made up ( ^!4 ,! majority ( wom5 are m or less lack+ 9 s5se ( proportion & 9 p]spective1 & ?is lack leads to a jumbl+ ( _! ideas :i* makes life complex = ^? to :om ! ideas are to be imp>t$4 ,( c\rse1 once 9 a :ile "o f9ds an intellig5t s]vant :o und]/&s h]self well en\gh to slip at once into h] place & d ! "w ( x smoo?ly1 b %e is ! r>e exception to ! rule4 ,! h\sekeep] mu/ plan = ! av]age1 n = ! exception4 ,?is way ( giv+ ord]s naturally conf9es ! h\sekeep] m or less dur+ ! fir/ days ( h] new maid's arrival--b a dome/ic convulsion ( any sort is att5d$ ) drawbacks4 ,! mi/ress mu/ appreciate ! fact t %e w h to sacrifice h]self a little 9 ord] to tra9 h] new maid prop]ly1 & t ! result w be wor? ! tr\ble4 ,?is does n mean t ! mi/ress %\ld /& ov] a s]vant & dictate ! way 9 :i* e duty is to be p]=m$4 ,! employ] %\ld be> 9 m9d t !re is m ?an "o "r way ( do+ ne>ly ev]y?+1 & if ! new maid has a special way ( h] own ( accompli%+ ?is or t1 %e %\ld be all[$ to foll[ h] cu/om until %e has prov$ t x is n s good z t ( h] mi/ress4 ,?is may s\nd reckless1 b x has common-s5se to comm5d x4 ,:5 ! maid is giv5 a *ance to prove or disprove ! excell5ce ( h] me?od & x turns out to be z good z t ( ! mi/ress1 !re is ! sav+ ( j s mu* friction & ef=t 9 tea*+ & le>n+ a new way4 ,9 advocat+ ?is ,i am tak+ x = grant$ t ! maid has "s idea ( ! mann] 9 :i* h] "w is to be done4 ,if %e is absolutely gre51 %e w h to be taught f ! beg9n+1 & !n ! mi/ress has no option4 ,su* s]vants are disc\rag+ & tiresome at ! outset1 b !y (t5 turn out ! be/ 9 ! long-run4 ,9 _! cases ! mi/ress has no bad impressions to efface & %e c implant h] own modes 9 virg9 soil4 ,:51 h[ev]1 ! maid has "s k ( h] duties1 ! mi/ress %\ld %[ h] :]e %e is to "w1 give h] directions = ! s]vices t come next1 & !n leave h] to h]self4 ,%e w le>n h] way ab\t h] doma9 mu* m quickly if %e is unemb>rass$ by ! pres5ce ( an obs]v]4 ,! mi/ress mu/ be prep>$ = blund]s ev5 aft] %e has giv5 explicit directions4 ,z ,i h said1 x is q possible ! maid may n und]/& ! mi/ress at fir/1 or1 9 ! confusion ( new impressions1 %e may =get or conf\nd directions4 ,%\ld %e s]ve a di% 9 a diff]5t fa%ion f t 9 :i* x has be5 ord]$1 repro( %\ld be res]v$ until ! mi/ress has made sure ( ! reason = ! v>iation4 ,if ! wrong *9a or silv] or l95 is us$1 corrections %\ld be made judici\sly4 ,! fault may h be5 =getfulness1 x may h be5 misund]/&+1 &1 9 any case1 fre% confusion w be ! result if too _m blund]s are comm5t$ ^u at once4 ,! maid %\ld be direct$ to repair "o or two omissions1 & ! re/ %\ld be ignor$ = ! "t be+1 to be put "r lat] on4 ,occasionally a maid w be f\nd :o seems *ronically unable to set a table "r4 ,i h kn[n ( sev]al :o p]si/$ 9 putt+ on crook$ ! squ>e ( damask t 0 us$ at breakfa/ & lun*eon in/ead ( ! l>ge clo? t cov]$ ! entire table at d9n]4 ,! squ>e w\ld be laid 9 a slant+1 to-"o-side fa%ion t gave ! :ole table a drunk5 look4 ,! mi/ress f9ally hit ^u a successful plan4 ,%e put f\r *airs on ! f\r sides ( ! table1 ea* exactly 9 ! middle ( a side1 & !n laid on ! clo? ) ea* ( its f\r corn]s precisely 9 front ( a *air4 ,! object-lesson work$ to a *>m & crook$ clo?s became a ?+ ( ! pa/4 ,=getfulness ( "s piece ( table-furniture is a m common fault & "o m difficult to rectify4 ,if x seems impossible to ov]come x 9 any o!r way1 ! mi/ress may make a gr\nd plan ( ! table z x %\ld look :5 prop]ly laid1 or write a li/ ( all ! objects t %\ld g on x = diff]5t meals4 ,x is n necess>y to resort to ?is1 h[ev]1 until sev]al days' exp]i5ce has prov$ ! new maid's inability to grasp :at is requir$4 ,a *amb]maid w make correspond+ blund]s = a "t4 ,%e w h to be told m ?an once h[ ! b$s are to be made1 w h to receive repeat$ in/ruction nev] to put ! blankets on ) ! d\bl$ end at ! top1 & to be c>eful ab\t /ret*+ tight ! l[] %eet & tuck+ 9 ! cov]+s prop]ly at ! bottom4 ,at ! beg9n+ ! mi/ress %\ld e/abli% h] /&>d ab\t ?is sort ( ?+ z %e does ab\t sweep+1 du/+1 & o!r clean+1 & %e mu/ nev] relax h] requirem5ts if %e expects to h h] h\se prop]ly kept4 ,all ?is ne$ n be told ! maid ! fir/ day %e comes1 b ev5 !n %e may be made to und]/& t "w is n to be slight$ or neglect$4 ,?is pr9ciple1 at lea/1 %e mu/ h cle>ly 9 h] m9d at ! end ( ! fir/ day's s]vice1 ev5 al?\gh h] ?\ghts may be a trifle *aotic z reg>ds details4 ,^? x w be ! "w ( ! mi/ress to make cle> z "t goes on & ! maid becomes accu/om$ to h] "w4 ,,iii ,,mi/ress ,,& ,,maid ,!re is a type ( mi/ress :o seems to reg>d s]vants z be+s ( an inf]ior ord]4 ,h] directions are giv5 curtly--sometimes h>%ly4 ,%e takes ! gr\nd t ! s]vant is paid = h] "w & t = any?+ beyond ! bus9ess relation !re is no ne$ = consid]ation4 ,%e may be call$ "o extreme type4 ,! o!r extreme is m common4 ,9 h] desire to propitiate h] employe %e is h]self almo/ s]vile4 ,%e is 9 frank fe> le/ ! s]vant may leave h]1 & 9 ord] to reta9 h] s]vices makes almo/ any concession4 ,su* mi/resses z ^! furni% mat]ials = mo/ ( ! jokes on ! s]vant "q--jokes t are h>dly exagg]at$4 ,betwe5 ^! two extremes !re is room = a mi/ress :o unites consid]at5ess ) self-respect4 ,%e speaks pleasantly to h] s]vants1 b %e does n spoil !m by an +ratiatory mann] or %[ h]self ready to make any sacrifice soon] ?an run ! risk ( p>t+ ) !m4 ,%e gives ord]s z ord]s1 in/ead ( ask+ s]vices z favors2 b %e issues h] comm&s 9 a k9dly way & ) none ( ! tone or mann] ( a dictator1 /ill less ( a %rew4 ,:5 h] s]vants are to be reprim&$1 %e does x quietly1 l[]+ r ?an rais+ h] voice4 ,if a s]vant _c be manag$ 9 ?is mann]1 %e feels x is bett] to "p ) h]4 ,9 ! words ( a vet]an h\sekeep] ( ?is v>iety1 ,i w n h a s]vant 9 my h\se :om ,i h to scold4 ,e "o recollects ! say+ t 9 h]d+ %eep x is necess>y n only to tea* ! dogs to drive ! %eep1 b to accu/om ! %eep to obey ! dogs4 ,s x is z desirable = ! mi/ress to le>n ! prop] me?od ( deal+ ) ! maids z x is = ! maids to und]/& ! mi/ress4 ,!re are _m k9ds ( mann]s 9 bo?4 ,b few are ! s]vants :o d n respond m quickly to a k9dly1 graci\s mann] ?an to "o t+$ ) sev]ity4 ,m5tion has be5 made ( ! difficulty a maid sometimes has 9 accu/om+ h]self to ! phraseology ( a new mi/ress4 ,to ! girl's hesitancy ab\t ask+ = a repetition ( an ord]1 or an explanation1 are due "s ( ! blund]s %e makes4 ,! mi/ress %\ld be sure %e is entirely und]/ood be=e %e s5ds ! girl ab\t h] "w4 ,also1 %e %\ld be cle> z to ! cause ( a mi/ake or ( app>5t disob$i5ce be=e %e f9ds fault4 ,always ! mi/ress %\ld be ready to make explanations ab\t ! "w4 ,:5 ! maid comes = in/ruction %e %\ld be met pati5tly1 & if !re seems to be a difficulty ( und]/&+1 a practical illu/ration w (t5 d m ?an half an h\r ( v]bal directions4 ,:5 ! mi/ress c %[ ! maid h[ ! table is to be set1 h[ ! b$s are to be made1 c give h] an object-lesson 9 sweep+ or du/+ or di%-wa%+1 %e w h accompli%$ m ?an a doz5 lectures w\ld h wr\ght4 ,no?+ bett] 9 in/ruction has be5 devis$ ?an ! ,sque]s me?od4 ,fir/ !y spells x & !y goes & does x4 ,b x is ! mi/ress :o does ! spell+ z well z ! do+ if %e wi%es ! new maid to grasp a novel mode ( p]=m+ a h\sehold duty4 ,! mi/ress %\ld n %r9k f repro( :5 x has to be adm9i/]$4 ,!re are v few employes 9 any walk ( life :o are possess$ ( s l>ge a supply ( consci5ti\sness t !y dis*>ge _! duties z well )\t ov]sight z ) x4 ,to e gang ( workm5 !re is an ov]se]4 ,9 h\sekeep+ ! mi/ress is ov]se] z well z plann]4 ,%e mu/ foll[ up h] maids--n s obvi\sly t !y feel %e does n tru/ !m1 b closely en\gh to produce ! impression ^u !m t %e takes an int]e/ 9 _! "w & means to see t x is ?or\ghly done4 ,:5 x is n accompli%$ to h] lik+ %e %\ld call !m to acc\nt1 n unk9dly1 b decid$ly4 ,if a r+ ( du/ ar\nd ! bric--brac %[s :]e ! du/] has be5 fl\ri%$ ab\t ! furniture in/ead ( be+ us$ to wipe ea* surface c>efully1 ! mi/ress %\ld call ! maid to br+ h] clo? & po9t out to h] ! defects 9 t portion ( h] "w4 ,%\ld !re be dirt left 9 ! corn]s ( ! room1 f+]-m>ks on ! pa9t1 /reaks on ! w9d[s1 ! same c\rse %\ld be pursu$4 ,:5 ?is has be5 done a few times1 unless ! employe is exceptionally sl[-witt$1 %e le>ns t x is less tr\ble to p]=m ! "w prop]ly 9 ! fir/ place ?an to h to g ov] x twice1 & ! second "t "u ! sup]vision ( ! mi/ress4 ,all ?is ! employ] c d )\t jo9+ ! ranks ( ! fuss]s or belong+ to t class kn[n z ! na/y p>ticul> h\sekeep]s4 ,! latt]1 :o put ! cleanl9ess ( ! h\se s f> above ! com=t ( its inmates t ^! feel !y w\ld r h dirt ) peace ?an tid9ess )\t x1 are common en\gh to make a ^w ( w>n+ 9 place4 ,b x is possible to accompli% neatness )\t sacrific+ family concord1 & 9 ! desire to secure ! latt] ! h\sekeep] %\ld n p]mit h]self or h] s]vants to drift into c>elessness4 ,f ! fir/ ! mi/ress %\ld h x cle>ly und]/ood t !re is no place 9 ! h\se into :i* %e may n p5etrate4 ,h] daily inspection ( ! refrig]ator & ! pantries %\ld be a matt] ( c\rse4 ,h] pres5ce 9 ! kit*5 %\ld nev] excite surprise or provoke criticism4 ,naturally1 %e %\ld ex]cise tact 9 ?is z 9 e o!r relation ( life4 ,= in/ance1 %e %\ld n *oose ! "t = h] morn+ visit to ! kit*5 :5 ! maids are at _! breakfa/4 ,9 fact1 %e %\ld be punctili\s n to call h] s]vants f _! meals except 9 cases ( absolute necessity4 ,!y h a "r to take _! food undi/urb$1 & ?is "r ! mi/ress %\ld respect4 ,nor %\ld ! h\sekeep] *oose ! cook's busie/ day = do+ cook+ on h] own acc\nt1 if ?is is go+ to add to ! sum ( ! s]vant's labors4 ,x is lack ( consid]ation on ^! po9ts t gives a h\se ! reputation ( be+ a h>d place4 ,:5 su* details z ^! are obs]v$1 s]vants are m likely to be cont5t$1 ev5 if ! "w is heavy1 ?an !y are 9 a light] place :]e !y feel t _! rights & privileges are disreg>d$4 ,if a s]vant is to be reprim&$1 x %\ld nev] be done 9 ! pres5ce ( a ?ird p]son4 ,! maid is no less human because %e is 9 a subord9ate position1 & x is h>d = any ( u to take repro( k9dly :5 x is be/[$ 9 ! he>+ ( "s "o else4 ,if ! mi/ress is incl9$ to be ha/y1 x is well = h] to wait a few m9utes aft] ! discov]y ( ! fault be=e %e utt]s h] rebuke4 ,t w give h] "t to get ! fault a little 9 p]spective & to see its true proportions4 ,!n %e %\ld summon ! maid to h] & deliv] h] words ( w>n+ or reprim&4 ,nev] %\ld %e g to ! kit*5 to scold ! cook4 ,!re ! k ( ! latt] t %e is1 s to speak1 on h] own gr\nd has sometimes ! un=tunate effect ( provok+ an imp]t95t rejo9d]1 :i* w\ld n be =?com+ if ! int]view _h tak5 place 9 ! mi/ress's own room or 9 ! draw+-room4 ,!re is a peculi> /+ 9 a repro( giv5 = a fault t is due to accid5t1 to misund]/&+1 or to "s o!r p>donable cause4 ,v (t5 ! reque/ = an explanation w br+ out facts t ! mi/ress _h n kn[n & :i* put a diff]5t face ^u ! occurr5ce4 ,:5 rebuke is ess5tial x %\ld n only be deliv]$ quietly1 b !re %\ld be no m>k ( ang] 9 ! mann] ( ! mi/ress4 ,su* demeanor z ?is is m impressive ?an ! h>% tones1 ! %>p words1 = :i* ! culprit might h be5 prep>$4 ,!re are1 ( c\rse1 limits to :i* faults may be p]mitt$ to g4 ,if x is impossible to conqu] !m by repro(1 x is bett] to dis*>ge a s]vant ?an to h to p]si/ 9 fault-f9d+4 ,life is too %ort = p]petual rebukes4 ,nev] %\ld ! mi/ress =get t !re is z mu* dem& = c\rtesy 9 h] t]ms ) h] s]vants z 9 any o!r relation 9 :i* %e is plac$4 ,?is is a fact t is (t5 ov]look$4 ,a woman does n make h]self less b m ( a lady by prefix+ please to h] reque/s to h] s]vants1 or by rew>d+ a s]vice ) a ^w ( ?anks4 ,?is s\nds s obvi\s t ! injunction may seem absurd1 b a little obs]vation ( mi/resses & maids w conv9ce any "o t !re is ne$ = ! advice4 ,9 _m h\seholds n only ! mi/ress b ! ma/] ( ! home gives ord]s h>%ly & disc\rte\sly1 & ! *ildr5 are quick to take _! cue f _! eld]s4 ,a degree ( rud5ess is p]mitt$ by p>5ts 9 _! *ildr5 t %\ld n be tol]at$ = an in/ant4 ,! small boys & girls 9 presumably well-br$ families bully & sauce ! s]vants 9 a fa%ion t w\ld d cr$it to a gang ( hoodlums 9 a t\gh di/rict4 ,sometimes ! p>5ts d n "k x1 at o!r times !y "k ( x & d n take ! pa9s to correct x4 ,! *ildr5 %\ld be taught to %[ c\rtesy to s]vants z well z to any "o else ) :om !y are br\ght into contact4 ,! v fact t ! employes are n at lib]ty to retaliate 9 k9d %\ld be us$ z an argum5t to tea* !m ! c[>dice ( insol5ce & unk9dness4 ,:5 c\rtesy is giv5 by ! employ]s x seldom fails to be accord$ by ! employ$4 ,a c\rte\s ord] meets a respectful response1 &1 z a rule1 will+ s]vice is m likely to be grant$4 ,z a matt] ( c\rse1 ! s]vice is 9 a way an obligation t is b\ght & paid =1 b ! introduction ( a little k9dl9ess into ! transaction does mu* to dim9i% friction4 ,ap>t f t1 h[ev]1 ! c\rtesy is a duty ! employ] owes h]self1 q irrespective ( its effect ^u h] s]vants4 ,:ile repro( %\ld be giv5 :]e x is ne$$1 ! mi/ress %\ld nev] suff] h]self to neglect ! virtue ( praise4 ,x is a h>d life :5 "o's %ortcom+s only are recogniz$ & "o's good de$s are tak5 z a matt] ( c\rse4 ,if humanity 7 at its highe/ level ! ?\ght t ! "w 0 well done w\ld p]haps be en\gh to br+ satisfaction1 b z x is1 a ^w ( comm5dation is grateful to all ( u4 ,x is a little ?+ to praise ! late/ bak+ z rem>kably good1 to comm5d ! maid :o has wait$ exceptionally well at a company lun* or d9n]1 to say a k9dly ^w :5 a fault ( he$lessness or neglect has be5 correct$2 b su* words z ^! are ! oil t greases ! dome/ic ma*9]y4 ,)\t !m x runs h>d & dem&s m p[] to keep x 9 motion4 ,!re is always ! possibility ( su* comm5dation be+ giv5 s (t5 t x comes to mean no?+4 ,?is dang] ! mi/ress mu/ gu>d aga9/4 ,!re is also ! *ance t ! maid may be ( ! v>iety ) :om praise mu/ be cumulative 9 ord] to produce any effect4 ,i h kn[n "o ( t sort4 ,if h] biscuit 7 prais$ once z be+ good1 !y _h to be call$ excell5t ! second "t1 surpass+ ! ?ird1 & s on1 until ! adjectives applicable to biscuit _h be5 exhau/$ & ! mi/ress saw d>k gloom on ! s]vant's face1 & 0 ask$ coldly if ! biscuit 7 n z good z usual4 ,b su* cases z ^! are n common1 & 9 any circum/ances ! h\sekeep] mu/ gauge ! appetite = praise & adm9i/] x ) judgm5t4 ,sometimes "o meets a presum+ maid :o takes advantage ( ! k9dness ( ! mi/ress to =ce an undue famili>ity4 ,?is1 too1 mu/ be wat*$ =1 b ! possibility ( ?is result does n d away ) ! desirability ( consid]ation on ! "p ( ! mi/ress to ! maid4 ,fully z (t5 z "o f9ds ?is tr\ble does "o see a fooli% mi/ress :o1 tak+ a fancy to a maid1 lets ! latt] drift into a position ( pseudo-intimacy :i* is h>d to break (f4 ,x is n probable t ! latt] w\ld h put h]self =w>d )\t a c]ta9 am\nt ( enc\ragem5t4 ,once 9 a blue moon "o meets a pe>l ( a s]v+-woman :o is wor?y ( all ! confid5ce & affection t c be be/[$ ^u h]1 & :o grants to h] employ]s an unselfi% devotion t "o r>ely gets f "o's next ( k94 ,su* cases are few & f> betwe51 & bless$ among wom5 is %e :o has su* a treasure 9 h] h\sehold4 ,! av]age h\sekeep] %\ld n be too ready to ?9k %e has drawn "o ( ^! prizes 9 ! dome/ic-s]vice lott]y4 ,if %e goes ahead too quickly on ?is hypo!sis1 %e may h an unpleasant awak5+4 ,:5 advances are made by ! mi/ress1 & ! maid presumes ^u !m1 x is only ! mi/ress :o is to blame if ! maid =gets h] place4 ,! mi/ress %\ld avoid tak+ sides 9 any controv]sy betwe5 s]vants4 ,(t5 !re is a good deal ( jeal\sy betwe5 ! employes 9 a h\sehold1 & if "o maid is favor$ m ?an ano!r !re is likely to be h>d feel+4 ,?is pitfall mu/ be kept 9 m9d by ! mi/ress4 ,ev5 )\t express$ pref]5ces = "o ov] ! o!r1 %e is sometimes 9 dang] ( be+ drawn into qu>rels ! s]vants h betwe5 !mselves4 ,almo/ always %e is wise to decl9e to esp\se ! "p ( ei!r "o4 ,occasionally1 if %e has good s]vants :o seem to misund]/& "o ano!r x may be wor? :ile1 = h] own sake z well z = !irs1 to attempt to adju/ diff]5ces betwe5 !m4 ,z a rule1 x is well = h] to keep out ( x aft] "o trial has %[n h] t h] int]v5tion has work$ no good4 ,nev] %\ld ! mi/ress be l$ into discuss+ "o s]vant ) ano!r1 or li/5+ to ! compla9ts t a dome/ic makes ( h] fell[-work]s4 ,class-feel+ is /rong] ?an ! relation ( employ] & employ$1 & ! mi/ress :o takes up ! cause ( "o maid aga9/ ano!r is by way ( f9d+ %e has put h] f+]s betwe5 ! b>k & ! tree4 ,! two employes are likely to make up ! qu>rel & comb9e 9 common cause aga9/ ! mi/ress4 ,?is does n bespeak any especial depravity on _! "p4 ,!y are simply human be+s1 & ! tie t b9ds !m toge!r holds :]e t :i* atta*es !m to ! mi/ress fails4 ,!y g ) _! own z %e w\ld ) h] own4 ,9 ord] to av]t complications x is safe = ! mi/ress to give h] ord]s direct to h] s]vants in/ead ( s5d+ !m by "o maid to ano!r4 ,! latt] c\rse makes room = misund]/&+ & recrim9ations4 ,:5 a maid has be5 9 ! same employ = a good :ile1 ?is rule may be waiv$1 b :5 %e is new to ! place !re %\ld be no g-betwe5 9 ! matt] ( giv+ directions4 ,! mi/ress %\ld ann\nce h] own ord]s4 ,,iv ,,! ,,duties ,,( ,,! ,,maid-,,(-,,all-,,"w ,! g5]al h\sework s]vant has already be5 ref]r$ to z a ,pooh ,bah 9 petticoats4 ,%e takes practically all labor = h] prov9ce4 ,x is an illu/ration ( ! value ( specialization t z a rule %e comm&s l[] wages = h] s]vices ?an does a maid :o fills any "o alone ( ! functions ! g5]al h\sework s]vant p]=ms4 ,s9ce ! duties ( ! maid-(-all-"w are :at !y are1 ! mi/ress %\ld make a /ipulation at ! "t ( ! engagem5t t ! employe %\ld be ready to turn h] h& to any?+4 ,= x is fatal if %e once beg9s to say t ?is or t is n h] "w4 ,t phrase is res]v$ = ! use ( ! speciali/4 ,! g5]al s]vant %\ld und]/& t "o ( ! conditions ( h] position is ! necessity = mak+ h]self useful 9 e dep>tm5t ( ! h\sehold4 ,?is does n mean t %e is to be a dome/ic drudge ( ! ,london slavey type4 ,%e ne$s no w>n+ aga9/ ?is4 ,dome/ic s]vice ( a good sort is too h>d to secure 9 ?is c\ntry = !re to be any dang] ( ! maid becom+ d[n-trodd5 & impos$ ^u4 ,! c\ntry b\nd-girl may h to submit to imposition1 b x w\ld n be tol]at$ = a mom5t by ! ord9>y indep5d5t s]v+-maid4 ,if !re is dom9ation on ei!r side x is m likely to be f\nd on ! "p ( ! maid1 :o feels ! advantage at :i* %e holds h] alleg$ mi/ress4 ,putt+ aside extreme cases & turn+ to ! av]age maid & mi/ress1 x may be repeat$ t x is difficult to def9e ) cle>ness ! exact duties ( ! maid-(-all-"w4 ,%e und]/&s t %e is to d cook+1 wait+1 & *amb]-"w1 & probably wa%+ & iron+4 ,%\ld ! family be small %e w p]=m ne>ly all ^! duties h]self--t is1 if ! family live 9 a simple fa%ion4 ,%\ld ! h\sehold be l>ge1 ! maid may expect a help] ) ! laundry-"w1 & ! light] h\se-"w w devolve ^u ! mi/ress ( ! h\se or h] daught]s4 ,"o pair ( h&s1 ev5 :5 back$ by a quick head & a will+ he>t1 _c accompli% ev]y?+ 9 ! "w ( ! h\se )\t neglect+ or slight+ some?+4 ,! mi/ress ( "o maid mu/ recognize ?is & be prep>$ to take h] %>e ( ! labor :5 ?is is heavy4 ,:at h] "p is to be %e mu/ def9e z cle>ly z possible at ! fir/1 9 ord] t ! maid may "k j :at %e has to d & be able to arrange h] occupations to ! be/ advantage4 ,:5 ! mi/ress does some?+ outside ( ! duties %e has assum$1 %e %\ld h x ?or\ghly und]/ood t h] act is an exception1 p]=m$ = "s specific reason4 ,x is v easy to let ! exception glide into a rule1 & :at ! maid receiv$ at fir/ z a favor :i* w\ld sp>e h] extra toil %e reg>ds lat] z a "r to :i* %e is entitl$4 ,at ! beg9n+1 ! mi/ress does well to lay out ! r\t9e ( ! "w ( ! day = ! b5efit ( ! new maid4 ,aft] ! latt] has le>n$ ! ways ( ! h\se1 & f9ds t %e c make slight alt]ations :i* w r5d] h] "w easi]1 %e %\ld be p]mitt$ to d s if ! mi/ress f9ds t ! tasks are dis*>g$ z well z "u ! e>li] plan4 ,_m a mi/ress ga9s good po9ts f a s]vant1 & ! intellig5t h\sekeep]1 kn[+ ?is1 is on ! look\t = sugge/ions %e may f9d ( s]vice4 ,c]ta9 regul> duties are practically ! same ea* day1 no matt] :at ! o!r "w may be4 ,e>ly ris+ %\ld be insi/$ ^u4 ,six o'clock is none too e>ly = a maid to be up 9 a h\se :]e breakfa/ is at sev5-?irty or eight o'clock4 ,by half aft] six ! maid %\ld be dress$ & d[n-/airs4 ,if ! c>e ( ! furnace falls ^u h]1 h] fir/ duty 9 w9t] is to op5 ! draughts ( ! furnace & put on a little coal4 ,:ile ?is is k9dl+ %e c g back to h] "w up-/airs4 ,! kit*5 fire mu/ be light$1 ! kettle fill$ fre%ly & set to boil1 ! c]eal put ov] ! fire1 be=e ! maid goes into ! liv+-rooms to op5 ! w9d[s4 ,:ile ^! rooms are air+ %e may bru% out ! front hall & sweep (f ! /eps1 unless !re is a man engag$ to take c>e ( ! outside "w ( ! h\se & to look aft] ! furnace4 ,:5 !re is a gas-/ove1 ! maid's "w is mu* simpl]1 & 9 t case %e may op5 ! w9d[s & d ! bru%+-up be=e %e puts ! kettle to boil4 ,:5 ! furnace fire has come up1 %e may g d[n1 put on m coal1 & close ! draughts4 ,9 mo/ families :]e b "o maid is employ$ ! mi/ress ( ! h\se du/s h] draw+-room4 ,:5 ?is is ! rule1 ! maid has only to air ! rooms1 /raight5 ! furniture t is out ( place1 & bru% up any scraps or du/ t ne$ to be remov$4 ,if ! floors or p>ts ( !m are b>e1 %e %\ld g ov] !m ) a damp clo?4 ,%\ld ! family be v small1 consi/+ ( b two or ?ree p]sons1 x is possible = ! maid to d all ! du/+4 ,if ?is does n devolve ^u h]1 !re are o!r small duties %e c p]=m at ?is "t1 su* z fill+ & clean+ lamps4 ,:5 !re is a sitt+-room1 ?is1 too1 %\ld be set 9 ord]4 ,:atev] else may be po/pon$ until aft] breakfa/1 ! d9+-room mu/ n be ov]look$4 ,x mu/ be bru%$ up & ?or\ghly du/$4 ,few ?+s are m de-appetiz+ ?an to sit d[n to ! fir/ meal ( ! day 9 a room :i* is /ill1 s to speak1 9 curl-pap]s4 ,if ! s]vant is brisk ab\t h] "w %e c look aft] ! draw+-room1 halls1 & d9+-room1 & set ! table be=e %e has to g back to ! kit*54 ,9 h\seholds :]e a heavy breakfa/ is s]v$1 or :]e ! rooms are elaborately furni%$1 %e may h to get up e>li] or leave "p ( ! du/+ to be done lat]4 ,b ! du/+ ( ! d9+-room mu/ nev] be omitt$4 ,! morn+ tasks may be light5$ a little by sett+ ! breakfa/-table ov]night1 & :5 ?is is done a ?9 cov]--a %eet ( *eese-clo? is excell5t--%\ld be ?r[n ov] ! table aft] x is set to protect ! di%es & o!r table-furniture f du/4 ,! prep>ation ( ! breakfa/ is ! maid's next duty4 ,! ext5t ( ! "w ?is involves v>ies1 ( c\rse1 9 diff]5t h\seholds4 ,9 "s homes ! old-fa%ion$ ,am]ican breakfa/ ( hot meat or fi%1 w>m bread1 & potatoes cook$ 9 "s =m is /ill pres]v$4 ,o!r families h adopt$ a modification ( ! ,cont95tal breakfa/1 & f9d all !y ne$ = ! morn+ meal 9 fruit1 a c]eal1 rolls or toa/1 eggs or bacon1 & c(fee4 ,! latt] breakfa/ simplifies ! "w ( ! h\sehold1 b x is n popul> ev]y:]e4 ,:atev] ! breakfa/1 x %\ld be 9 read9ess at ! h\r appo9t$1 if ! memb]s ( ! family are on h& or n4 ,x ne$ n be s]v$ until x is ord]$1 b x %\ld be entirely ready4 ,:5 all ! p]sons 9 a h\sehold c reconcile !mselves to breakfa/+ toge!r1 x makes "w easi] & saves "t4 ,%\ld !y f9d x impossible to p>take ( x 9 h>mony z well z 9 unison1 & ea* "o eats alone1 x r5d]s ! meal a m prolong$ function4 ,"u su* circum/ances1 ! food may be kept hot = ! t>dy ones & !y may be grant$ ! privilege ( gett+ x = !mselves f ! kit*5 :5 !y arrive1 in/ead ( imp$+ progress by mak+ ! duties ( ! day yield to _! conv5i5ce4 ,! fruit-c\rse may be on ! table :5 ! family is summon$4 ,at breakfa/ !y usually d = !mselves su* wait+ z pass+ plates1 cups & sauc]s1 & ! l4 ,a plate & f+]-b[l may be 9 front ( ea* p]son1 & ! porridge-b[l & sauc] may be close by also1 if x is desirable to simplify ! s]vice4 ,or ^! di%es may be on ! s]v+-table or sidebo>d1 & ! maid may put !m on ! table ) ! c]eal :5 %e comes 9 to take out ! fruit-plates4 ,aft] ! c]eal-di%es h be5 remov$ & ! re/ ( ! breakfa/ s]v$1 ! maid may be excus$ to g ab\t h] o!r "w4 ,! "t ( h] own breakfa/ may be settl$ by ! mi/ress & h]self4 ,! s5sible c\rse is = ! maid to eat some?+ & take a cup ( tea or c(fee 9 ! int]vals ( h] e>ly "w1 b !re are few s]vants :o c be p]suad$ to d ?is4 ,if ! maid pref]s %e c take h] breakfa/ :ile ! family is eat+1 b mo/ maids & mi/resses seem to f9d x m conv5i5t to dispose ( ! b$room "w z e>ly z possible4 ,:5 ?is is ! case ! maid %\ld g to ! *amb]s z soon z ! sub/antial "p ( ! breakfa/ is on ! table4 ,! occupants ( ! b$s %\ld h /ripp$ ^! on ris+ & op5$ ! w9d[s on leav+ ! rooms4 ,if ?is has be5 done ! b$clo?+ has _h a *ance to air4 ,9 ord] t su* air+ may be adequately done1 ! cov]s %\ld be tak5 f ! b$ & spread across a c\ple ( *airs plac$ back to back4 ,! cov]s mu/ n drag on ! floor4 ,! mattresses %\ld be beat5 & turn$ back ov] ! foot ( ! b$ t ! air may rea* !m f bo? sides4 ,to fre%5 !m ?or\ghly1 !y %\ld be left ?us1 ! w9d[s op51 = f fifte5 m9utes to half an h\r4 ,:ile ?is is go+ on ! rooms may be bru%$ or gone ov] ) a c>pet-sweep]--n ?or\ghly swept3 ?is comes at ano!r "t4 ,! b$s may n[ be made & ! du/+ done4 ,9 a small family x is tak5 = grant$ t ! maid %\ld d ?is "w1 b 9 a h\sehold ( m ?an two or ?ree x is cu/om>y = ! wom5 ( ! family to look aft] ! b$s4 ,9 t case ! maid ne$ only bru% up ! rooms1 /rip ! b$s1 & empty soil$ wat]1 leav+ ! re/ ( ! up-/airs "w undone :ile %e goes back to ! kit*54 ,%e may n[ take h] own breakfa/ if %e has n _h x e>li]1 & cle> ! table4 ,aft] e meal ! di%es %\ld be remov$ f ! table z soon z possible4 ,!y %\ld be c>ri$ into ! kit*5 or ! butl]'s pantry1 ! clo? bru%$--nev] %ak5--& fold$1 & ! d9+-room put 9 ord]1 ! crumbs bru%$ f ab\t ! table1 ! *airs put 9 _! places1 ! room d>k5$1 if x is w>m wea!r4 ,if ! mi/ress ( ! h\se du/s ! *amb]s1 ! maid may n[ wa% ! di%es2 if n1 %e may scrape !m & leave !m to soak 9 w>m wat] :ile %e goes back to h] du/+ & cleans & arranges ! ba?-room4 ,to clean ! ba?-room prop]ly1 !re %\ld always be a bottle ( h\sehold ammonia at h&1 "o ( =ty p] c5t4 solution ( =maldehyde or o!r good dis9fectant1 a c\ple ( clo?s1 a long-h&l$ bru%1 & a scrubb+-bru%4 ,x is also well to h a c ( conc5trat$ lye or "o ( ! prep>ations l x :i* w cut accumulations 9 wa/e-pipes4 ,! h&-bas91 tub1 & closet %\ld be sc\r$ out ea* morn+1 ! dra9-pipes flu%$ twice a week ) wat] to :i* has be5 add$ =maldehyde or ! lye4 ,! =m] is admirable = remov+ /a9s & deposits1 b if ^! are v ob/9ate ! =maldehyde mu/ be left 9 ! bas9 ov]night4 ,! long-h&l$ bru% enables ! maid to clean ! closet bas9 satisfactorily4 ,ammonia on ! clo? us$ 9 wa%+ ! tub & bas9 w remove greasy deposits4 ,! nickel fitt+s & woodwork mu/ be wip$ (f1 ! soap-di%es & too?-bru% racks wa%$4 ,! vessels us$ 9 ! b$rooms mu/ be cleans$ 9 ! same mann]1 ! wat]-pit*]s r9s$ out & fill$ fre% e day1 & ! slop-j>s & commodes scald$ daily4 ,! l95-closet %\ld be 9 ! *>ge ( ! mi/ress ( ! h\se1 & ! maid %\ld h no?+ to d ) giv+ out fre% l95 = ! b$s or t[els = ! ba?-room4 ,:5 ! ba?-room "w is f9i%$1 ! maid may return to ! kit*51 wa% & put away ! di%es1 & get ! kit*5 & pantries 9 ord]4 ,! maid :o takes prop] c>e ( h] *9a1 glass1 & silv] w r9se h] di%es ?or\ghly 9 "o wat] & !n wa% !m 9 hot suds1 ! glass fir/1 !n ! silv]1 & !n ! *9a1 dry+ ea* piece z x comes f ! suds4 ,! breakfa/-di%es wa%$1 ! di%-t[els %\ld be rubb$ out4 ,once a day !y %\ld be boil$4 ,?is is ! "t :5 ! mi/ress inspects ! cont5ts ( ! refrig]ator & decides :at %all be ! meals = ! day4 ,ei!r be=e or aft] su* inspection ! maid mu/ wipe (f ! %elves ( ! ice-box1 & ?ree times a week x mu/ be sc\r$ out ) hot wat] & wa%+-soda4 ,! g5]al "w ( ! h\se--( :i* m lat]--is und]tak5 n[1 & aft] x comes ! prep>ation ( ! mid-day lun*eon4 ,at ?is meal little wait+ is requir$4 ,! table is set z = breakfa/4 ,if ! "w is prop]ly manag$ !re %\ld be no heavy tasks = ! maid to accompli% 9 ! aft]noon1 except on wa%+ & iron+ days4 ,%e may p]haps att5d to "s light "w l ! poli%+ ( silv]1 b1 if h] duties are arrang$ z !y %\ld be & %e is brisk 9 _! p]=mance1 %e ought to be able to h a little "t to h]self 9 ! aft]noon4 ,! prep>ation ( d9n] is seldom und]tak5 until aft] f\r o'clock 9 h\ses :]e d9n] is s]v$ at sev54 ,! maid is expect$ to dis*>ge ! "w ( a regul> waitress at d9n]1 s f> z s]v+ ! di%es1 pass+ plates1 & ! l are conc]n$4 ,%e is n requir$ to rema9 9 ! room1 b to come :5 rung =4 ,h] "w ( cle>+ away & wa%+ di%es is practically ! same aft] lun*eon & d9n] z aft] breakfa/4 ,! usual co/ume ( ! maid-(-all-"w 9 ! e>ly "p ( ! day is a neat wa%-frock & :ite apron4 ,:ile wait+ at table %e %\ld we> a cap4 ,%e %\ld h a color$ apron on :5 work+ 9 ! kit*51 b !re %\ld always be a fre% :ite apron at h& = h] to slip on :5 %e answ]s ! bell4 ,:5 %e dresses to wait at d9n] %e %\ld put on a black frock1 :ite coll> & apron & cap4 ,s9ce %e mu/ we> ! frock 9 ! kit*51 x is bett] to h x ( wa% goods4 ,! mi/ress %\ld be 9 read9ess to answ] ! bell :5 ! maid is dress+ = d9n]1 or :5 %e is at ! wa%-tub or do+ any o!r "w x is difficult = h] to leave4 ,a great deal ( consid]ation is dem&$ ( bo? mi/ress & maid :5 !re is b "o s]vant & ! family desires to live da9tily & 9 accordance ) good =m4 ,a g5]al outl9e ( ! daily "w has ?us be5 giv51 b ea* day mu/ h its %>e ( ! week's duties4 ,by g5]al cons5t ,monday & ,tuesday are giv5 ov] to wa%+ & iron+1 & on ^! days1 unless a laundress is hir$ to help1 ! mi/ress ( ! h\se mu/ take *>ge ( ! *amb]-"w & ( all ! du/+1 &1 if ! wa% is l>ge1 w p]haps feel x well to wa% ! di%es aft] breakfa/1 & to l5d a h& 9 ! prep>ation ( lun*eon4 ,! plan practis$ 9 "s h\ses ( hav+ all ! sweep+ done on ,friday is op5 to criticism4 ,ev5 if !re is bak+ to be done on ,w$nesday1 a portion ( ! sweep+ or o!r clean+ may also be accompli%$ !n4 ,! d9+-room or draw+-room1 z be+ ne> ! kit*51 may be clean$ on ! days :5 ! maid mu/ wat* h] cook+ closely4 ,?is me?od ( apportion+ ! "w has mu* to comm5d x4 ,wa%+ w9d[s is tiresome1 & ! maid w feel x less if %e does a few e day ?an if %e gives a :ole morn+ or aft]noon to !m4 ,! sc\r+ ( l>ge pieces ( brass or silv] & ! clean+ ( pa9t x is well to dis*>ge all at "o "t1 & ?is may be done on ,?ursday1 :ile ! sweep+ ( ! b$rooms & clean+ ( ! upp] "p ( ! h\se may be res]v$ = ,friday4 ,! woodwork ab\t ! doorknobs %\ld be wip$ (f1 ! /airs bru%$ d[n1 & ! halls gone ov] ) ! c>pet-sweep] daily1 & ! h\se1 f top to bottom1 swept well at lea/ once a week4 ,v ,,duties ,,( ,,two ,,or ,,m ,,s]vants ,) specialization 9 ! h\sehold come complications4 ,! manual labor ( ! mi/ress may be less5$ :5 %e adds to h] dome/ic =ce1 b ) e new maid %e assumes m responsibilities4 ,%e has to recon/ruct ! sy/em to :i* %e _h become accu/om$ :5 %e employ$ b "o s]vant1 & v (t5 ! :ole tone ( ! e/abli%m5t is *ang$ f :at x 0 9 ! days to :i* %e sometimes looks back z comp>atively c>e free4 ,yet ) ! increase 9 a family or ) an alt]ation 9 ! mode ( liv+ additional s]vice becomes necess>y1 &1 unless ! h\sekeep] is ( ! type :o takes life h>d1 !re is no reason :y %e %\ld n soon adapt h]self to ! new conditions4 ,z 9 all o!r circum/ances :]e %e mu/ make plans = h] dome/ics1 %e %\ld h h] s*eme ( action cle> 9 h] own m9d be=e %e gives x to h] s]vants4 ,vacillation & unc]ta9ty on ! "p ( ! mi/ress %ake ! maid's confid5ce 9 ! judgm5t ( ! rul+ bra91 & dispose h] to "q decisions & to neglect ! duties :i* %e ?9ks d n /rike ev5 ! mi/ress z absolutely ess5tial4 ,x is h>d to *ange ! me?od ( "w :5 ! =m] g5]al h\sehold s]vant is put into ! place ( cook or waitress & a second maid engag$4 ,! =m] factotum is likely to criticise ! way 9 :i* h] late duties are p]=m$1 & p]haps to feel t ! lion's %>e /ill falls to h]4 ,s1 unless x is an exceptionally compet5t maid :o has be5 do+ all ! "w1 x is usually well to beg9 a new deal ( ?is sort by gett+ two maids & divid+ ! "w betwe5 !m f ! outset4 ,! duties assign$ to ! diff]5t dome/ics 9 a h\se :]e two or m s]vants are employ$ are n easy to def9e explicitly4 ,!y mu/ be det]m9$ l>gely by ! individual wants & conditions4 ,! size ( ! family1 ! arrangem5t ( ! h\se1 ! /yle ( liv+1 ! fact ( !re be+ small *ildr5 9 ! home1 all sugge/ modifications ( any g5]al outl9e4 ,!re=e1 ! s*$ule ( ord9>y h\sehold duties foll[+ mu/ be subord9ate to ! conditions m5tion$1 & also to ! capabilities ( ! individual s]vant4 ,9 a h\sehold :]e m ?an "o s]vant is employ$ x is desirable t !re %\ld be f ! beg9n+ z cle> z possible an und]/&+ ( ! duties to be dis*>g$1 s9ce ) ! specialization comes a dis9cl9ation to und]take any "w outside ( ! p>ticul> l9e = :i* ! s]vant 0 employ$4 ,9 ! h\sehold ( m ?an "o s]vant !re is a /rong probability t ! /atem5t1 ,i 0 n engag$ to d ?is k9d ( "w1 w be he>d1 soon] or lat]4 ,x seems absurd t ,i %\ld employ a man-s]vant besides ! coa*man & ! g>d5]1 said a h\sekeep] to me ! o!r day4 ,i h pl5ty ( maids1 &1 z ne>ly z ,i c make out1 ,i took on ?is extra man = ! sake ( hav+ him sweep (f ! /one plat=m 9 front ( ! por* /eps4 ,x 0 nobody's "w4 ,! waitress said %e did n hire to d outside "w1 & ! coa*man said x _h no?+ to d ) 8 "w4 ,x 0 n ! g>d5]'s bus9ess1 & !y 7 all s /r5u\s ab\t x t ,i told my husb& ,i seem$ to be ! only "o to ^: lot x really fell by rights to keep t plat=m clean4 ,!re 0 s mu* discussion ov] x t ,i f9ally hir$ a h\seman = ! especial purpose ( hav+ t plat=m swept4 ,( c\rse1 he looks aft] ! furnace & bru%es (f ! por* & wa%es w9d[s & does o!r ?+s ( t sort1 b !y are m]ely incid5ts4 ,! real reason ,i keep him is s t my husb& or ,i won't h to sweep t plat=m6 ,be>+ 9 m9d ! possibility ( su* complications1 ! mi/ress %\ld tell h] second maid :5 %e engages h] t %e may h to p]=m o!r tasks ?an ^? :i* lie exactly )9 an ov]-rigid conception ( h] duties4 ,if ?is is und]/ood f ! />t x av]ts lat] annoyance4 ,9 a family ( adults :]e two maids are kept1 ^! are usually ! cook & ! waitress & *amb]maid4 ,unless "s special provision has be5 made to t effect1 ! cook does no?+ outside ( ! kit*5 9 ! e>ly morn+4 ,%e may p]haps take c>e ( ! furnace 7?is w\ld be h] fir/ duty :5 %e came d[n-/airs71 & x is also possible t %e may bru% (f ! front /eps & sidewalk1 b ) t h] extra kit*5-"w ceases = ! mom5t4 ,%e gets ! breakfa/ & %\ld be up e>ly en\gh to d ?is1 bru% up h] kit*51 & p]haps make prep>ations = cook+ t is to be done lat] 9 ! day4 ,aft] breakfa/ %e may assi/ ! waitress to wa% ! di%es4 ,?is dep5ds ^u ! "w ! latt] has to d4 ,^u ! waitress comes ! "w ( op5+ & air+ ! liv+-rooms1 bru%+ out ! halls1 sweep+ d[n ! /airs1 & du/+ ! rooms4 ,all ?is %\ld be done be=e breakfa/1 & 9 ord] to a*ieve ?is1 ! waitress mu/ rise z e>ly z ! cook4 ,z ) ! g5]al h\sework maid1 ! h\r ( ris+ %\ld be n lat] ?an six :5 breakfa/ is at half-aft] sev5 or eight4 ,9 mo/ homes x is cu/om>y to excuse ! waitress z soon z ! pr9cipal "p ( ! breakfa/ has be5 s]v$1 t %e may g ab\t h] *amb]-"w & be ready to come d[n to h] breakfa/ by ! "t ! family has f9i%$4 ,be=e %e goes to h] own meal %e cle>s ! d9+-room table & takes ! di%es into ! kit*5 or butl]'s pantry4 ,ev5 if ! *amb]maid is compet5t1 x is well = ! mi/ress to make x possible to ent] ! b$rooms occasionally :ile "w is go+ on !re to make sure t x is all be+ accompli%$ prop]ly4 ,x is easy = ! be/ employes to drift into c>eless habits1 & ! details ( b$-mak+ are too (t5 neglect$4 ,"u no circum/ances %\ld ! mi/ress delegate ! c>e ( h] l95-closet to a s]vant4 ,%e h]self %\ld lay out ! l95 t is to be us$1 tak+ x out 9 a c]ta9 r\t9e s t x may all be worn alike4 ,on ! days :5 ! b$s are to be *ang$1 %e %\ld select ! %eets1 pill[-slips1 spreads1 etc41 be=e %e goes d[n to breakfa/1 t ! *amb]maid may n be h9d]$ 9 h] "w4 ,clean t[els %\ld also be giv5 out by ! mi/ress4 ,9 a v l>ge e/abli%m5t1 or 9 ! case ( an exceptionally tru/wor?y maid1 ?is "w may p]haps be safe 9 ! h&s ( "s "o besides ! mi/ress1 b1 simple z is ! task1 x requires a discretion & famili>ity ) ! h\sehold supplies t only ! mi/ress is likely to possess4 ,aft] ! waitress has _h h] breakfa/ %e returns & f9i%es any "w %e has left undone 9 ! b$rooms4 ,x is possible %e may n h _h "t to du/ prop]ly1 or t ! du/ _h n _h a *ance to settle aft] %e gave ! room its morn+ bru%+4 ,! ba?-room1 too1 is att5d$ to at ?is "t4 ,aft] ?is ! waitress wa%es ! breakfa/-di%es4 ,be=e %e left ! kit*5 aft] h] own breakfa/ %e %\ld h scrap$ ! di%es & put !m 9 soak4 ,?is w less5 ! "w ( wa%+-up :5 %e comes d[n4 ,if !re is a special arrangem5t by :i* ! cook wa%es ! di%es1 ! waitress is free = o!r "w4 ,sometimes ! di%-wa%+ is divid$1 ! cook tak+ *>ge ( ! di%es 9 :i* ! food has be5 s]v$1 :ile ! waitress looks aft] ! glass1 silv]1 & ! f9] *9a4 ,x is n easy to apportion ! "w 9 ?is fa%ion if ! di%-wa%+ is all done 9 ! kit*51 b :]e !re is a butl]'s pantry x is comp>atively simple4 ,9 ?is case ! f9e tablew>e %\ld nev] g into ! kit*5 at all4 ,?is plan light5s ! "w ( ! waitress & makes h] responsible = ! m delicate d9+-room w>e4 ,a ^w "h ab\t ! di%-wa%+4 ,if ! maid is op5 to sugge/ion ! "t %e takes to d h] di%es may be %ort5$4 ,! g5]al habit ( s]vants is to leave all ! di%es until ! entire meal is conclud$ & !n attack ! m\nta9 t has accumulat$4 ,mu* "t c be sav$ if !y w wa% ! di%es z !y come f ! table4 ,z a matt] ( c\rse1 ?is _c be done 9 a family :]e ! waitress is requir$ to rema9 9 ! room dur+ ! entire meal4 ,b ?is is seldom ! practice 9 ! av]age home1 :5 only ! family is pres5t4 ,!re is a pref]5ce = :at "s "o has call$ unexpurgat$ meals1 & ! fre$om ( conv]sation t is n possible :5 s]vants are pres5t4 ,if ?is is ! case1 x is an easy matt] = ! waitress to wa% ! s\p-plates :ile ! heavie/ c\rse ( ! meal is be+ eat51 & to get "s ( ! di%es ( ! second c\rse out ( ! way :ile ! family is discuss+ ! salad4 ,9 a l>ge family all ! *9a may n be wa%$ !n1 b ! silv] at lea/ & "s ( ! small] pieces may be clean & out ( ! way by ! "t ! meal is at an end4 ,! sci5ce t is kn[n z mak+ ! head save ! heels is n und]/ood & appreciat$ by ! av]age maid1 & if %e c\ld receive & apply a little in/ruction along ^! l9es %e w\ld f9d h] h\rs ( "w %ort5$ & h] toil light5$4 ,if ! butl]'s pantry adjo9s ! d9+-room too closely1 x is n always feasible to wa% di%es :ile ! family is eat+1 unless x c be done s c>efully t unpleasant clatt] is sp>$4 ,b a little ?\ght & skill giv5 to ! matt] w usually less5 ! labor ( wa%+-up aft] a long meal4 ,to return to ! r\t9e ( "w4 ,except :5 !re is a great deal ( cook+ done x is well to arrange to h ! cook take a %>e 9 ! sweep+4 ,:at "p ?is %all be circum/ances mu/ decide4 ,%e may sweep ! fir/ floor1 includ+ d9+-room1 draw+-room1 sitt+-room1 & halls1 once a week4 ,or !re may be a day on :i* %e goes up-/airs & gives ! b$rooms a ?or\gh sweep+4 ,aga91 x may be /ipulat$ :5 %e is engag$ t %e is to wa% ! w9d[s4 ,if "o set ( ^! tasks devolves ^u h] x leaves ! waitress m free = h] special duties4 ,^! v>y1 accord+ to ! size ( ! family4 ,:5 ?is consi/s ( b two or ?ree memb]s1 ! second maid %\ld h "t 9 a small h\se to keep ev]y?+ 9 h] doma9 9 p]fect ord] & ev5 to d a little ( ! m5d+4 ,if ! family is l>g] %e w h leisure = no?+ outside ( h] regul> duties1 & ! case w be ! same if !re is a good deal ( ent]ta9+ done4 ,"o "p ( ! daily "w ( ! waitress is to take c>e ( ! lamps1 clean+ & fill+ ^!4 ,:5 dusk draws on %e %\ld light ^! & ! gas1 pull d[n ! %ades1 & make ! liv+-rooms ready = ! ev5+4 ,x is also ! "w ( ! second maid to put ! b$rooms 9 ord] = ! night1 clos+ ! bl9ds1 turn+ d[n ! b$s1 remov+ spreads & day-pill[s1 & br++ ic$ wat] to ea* room ! la/ ?+ be=e %e goes to b$ h]self4 ,9 po9t ( fact1 ! "w ( ! waitress is ne>ly z g5]al 9 its nature z t ( ! maid-(-all-"w4 ,%e att5ds ! door1 z a matt] ( c\rse1 answ]s ! bells f ! *amb]s or draw+-room1 br+s hot wat] to ! b$rooms 9 ! morn+1 prep>es & c>ries 9 ! aft]noon tea-tray1 & mu/ be on ! al]t to see t ! h\se is 9 spick-&-span ord]4 ,%e has ! *>ge ( ! silv]1 keep+ x clean & poli%+ ! brasses4 ,= ea* ( ^! especial duties %e %\ld h a regul> "t1 & ! mi/ress %\ld see t ! sy/em %e put into practice :5 %e _h b "o s]vant is foll[$ out aft] %e has add$ to h] h\sehold =ce4 ,all ! du/+ falls to ! c>e ( ! waitress1 unless ! mi/ress pref]s to res]ve = h]self ! h&l+ ( curios & *oice bric--brac4 ,! cook may sweep1 b x is ! waitress :o foll[s h] ) a du/-clo? & :o scrubs ! pa9t & wipes (f /ray f+]-m>ks f m\ld+s & w9d[-panes4 ,:5 !re is a *ild 9 ! h\se1 & ! second maid unites ! (fices ( nurse & waitress1 h] "w mu/ be divid$ diff]5tly4 ,%e may d ! *amb]-"w1 b %e _c be expect$ to wa% ! di%es unless ! "m or "s o!r memb] ( ! family assumes ! c>e ( ! infant :ile ! nurse is o!rwise employ$4 ,nor c %e be held responsible = all ! details t w\ld fall to h] 7 %e waitress1 pure & simple4 ,:5 a nurse is employ$ z well z a waitress1 h] "w is usually absolutely sep>ate f t ( ! o!r maid4 ,%e may d sew+ & ! baby's wa%+1 help make ! b$s1 & l5d a h& on ! aft]noons & ev5+s out ( ! o!r maids1 b %e has little or no?+ to d ) ! g5]al "w ( ! h\se4 ,if ! cook has ?us f> receiv$ slight] att5tion ?an ! waitress1 x is because h] "w is s mu* m closely conf9$ to "o dep>tm5t t x requires less m9ute consid]ation4 ,%e prep>es ! meals1 takes *>ge ( ! kit*51 cell>1 & pantries1 inspects ! latt] & ! refrig]ator e morn+ 9 company ) ! mi/ress ( ! h\se1 & reigns supreme 9 ! l[] realms4 ,9 small families :]e two s]vants are employ$ ! cook usually is laundress z well4 ,9 t case ! waitress g5]ally takes "p ( ! cook's "w on wa%+ & iron+ days1 prep>+ ! lun*eon on ^? days1 wa%+ all ! di%es1 & keep+ ! kit*5 9 ord]4 ,! waitress (t5 assi/s ) ! f9e iron+ on ,tuesday4 ,cook & waitress relieve ea* o!r on _! days out4 ,! cook waits on table :5 ! waitress goes out & att5ds ! door1 unless ! mi/ress *ooses to d ?is h]self4 ,:5 ! cook takes h] holiday ! waitress assumes h] duties4 ,:5 ! h\sekeep] has a =ce ( m ?an two s]vants ! complications ?ick51 s9ce ) ! introduction ( ea* new maid comes m specialization4 ,unless ! new s]vant is engag$ because ! family is s l>ge t ! "w is too heavy = two maids1 or because ( ! ne$ ( a special s]vant1 z a nurse1 ! addition is usually due to increas$ elaboration 9 ! way ( liv+1 & ?is1 ( c\rse1 subdivides specialization /ill m z well z raises ! scale ( wages4 ,! pr(ess$ cook1 :o does no?+ b cook & dem&s a help] or scull]y-maid1 gets high] pay ?an ! g5]al cook :o does ! wa%+ & iron+ or ! "o :o may refuse to d laundry-"w b yet und]takes all ! labor ( ! kit*54 ,! waitress :o und]/&s ! s]vice ( w9es & is an adept at h&l+ l>ge d9n]s & lun*eons1 dem&s--& gets--l>ge wages & feels h] dignity to an ext5t t makes h] cl+ t5aci\sly to ! rights & privileges ( h] position4 ,! av]age ,am]ican h\sehold :i* employs s]vants--& !re is a surpris+ly l>ge proportion ( ! sum total :o keep no s]vant at all--is cont5t$ ) "o1 two1 or1 at ! mo/1 ?ree s]vants4 ,! ?ird may be a nurse1 z ,i h said1 or a laundress1 :o1 besides h] wa%+ & iron+1 does ! *amb]-"w & ?us leaves ! waitress free = h] especial tasks 9 ! d9+-room & = ! duties ( a p>lor-maid4 ,! laundress may also wa% w9d[s or help 9 o!r clean+4 ,or ! ?ird s]vant may be seam/ress & *amb]maid & h no?+ to d ) ! d9+-room or ) ! kit*5 unless %e fills "o ( ^! places on ! day (f ( ! regul> incumb5t4 ,9 a book t deals ) ! "w ( ! maid-s]vant x is n wor? :ile to g into ! duties ( ! man-s]vant or to t\* ^u ! possibilities ( *ange lat5t 9 ! introduction ( ,japanese & ,*9ese s]vice4 ,t all has its "p 9 ! dome/ic labor problem1 b ?is is n ! opportunity = discuss+ ?is phase ( ! s]vant "q4 ,,vi ,,c]ta9 ,,problems ,,( ,,s]vice ,! t5d5cy to introduce ! we>+ ( liv]y into dome/ic s]vice has gr[n )9 ! pa/ few ye>s4 ,!re are /ill _m prote/s aga9/ x1 & writ]s are f\nd :o decl>e ! cap & apron ( ! h\semaid a badge ( s]vitude4 ,b ! gr[? ( ! liv]y has be5 univ]sal1 & implies no m degradation 9 "o relation ( life ?an 9 ano!r4 ,! public s]vant1 :e!r he be policeman or /reet-clean] or motorman or c> conductor or :at y w1 takes 8 uni=m z a matt] ( c\rse4 ,! %op-girl1 :o (t5 prides h]self on belong+ to a high] social class ?an ! liv+-out girl1 does n feel disgrac$ if 9 ! big dep>tm5t /ore :]e %e works %e is expect$ to con=m to ! rules ( ! e/abli%m5t & don a black g[n & a :ite coll>4 ,! tra9$ nurse does n feel x an indignity to we> a cap4 ,9 tru?1 !re is a great deal ( nons5se talk$ ab\t ! liv]y ( ! s]vant-girl4 ,i h kn[n s5sible "y wom5--at lea/ !y 7 s5sible 9 ev]y?+ else--:o w\ld flatly refuse to we> a pretty & becom+ cap1 & w\ld give up ! *ance ( a good place soon] ?an put "o on4 ,! girl :o surveys matt]s ) an unprejudic$ view w recognize a pretty little cap z an uncommonly becom+ adjunct to h] dress4 ,%e w also appreciate ! fact t %e looks mu* neat] ) h] fly+ locks tuck$ back "u a cap ?an %e w\ld ) ! /ray tresses w&]+ ov] a =ehead t is heat$ by brisk "w4 ,rightly consid]$1 ! cap is no m>k ( s]vitude1 & has a reason = its exi/5ce 9 ! add$ neatness & fre%ness x imp>ts to ! work+-girl's g>b4 ,?is1 inde$1 is ! :ole object ( ! liv]y4 ,:5 ! maid is at "w %e %\ld be dress$ 9 a mann] t is suitable = h] employm5t4 ,9 ! morn+ :5 %e is to be busy ) h] h\sework1 9 & out ( ! kit*51 h&l+ a broom & du/-clo?1 h] dress %\ld be a neat pr9t4 ,9 h\ses :]e ! mi/ress provides ! work+-frocks ( ! maids1 z is sometimes done1 %e c h ^! frocks made all 9 "o piece1 b 9 ! majority ( homes1 :]e b "o or two maids are kept1 !y dress !mselves4 ,"u ^! circum/ances !y _c be expect$ to con=m to any especial color or /yle1 & w probably we> %irtwai/s & skirts4 ,x is a pity if ! skirts are d>k wooll5 goods1 because ^! ga!r du/ & reta9 ! odors ( cook]y1 b a l>ge apron w protect ! skirt1 & wa%+ is sav$ to ! maid if h] :ole g[n is n ( a light mat]ial4 ,%e is wise if %e we>s a l>ge sweep+-cap 9 ! morn+ :5 %e is busy at "w t is likely to make du/1 b ?is c be ex*ang$ = a small] cap :5 ! r\gh] p>ts ( h] labor are out ( ! way4 ,= ! aft]noon1 :5 x is feasible1 ! maid1 :e!r %e be ! maid-(-all-"w :o dis*>ges ! functions ( bo? cook & waitress1 or ! s]vant :o is waitress & p>lor-maid1 %\ld1 if correctly dress$1 we> a black frock ) :ite coll> & cuffs1 & a :ite bib apron4 ,! latt] may be a little m elaborately trimm$ ?an t %e has on 9 ! morn+4 ,9 fact1 ) a morn+ apron %e may disp5se ) ! bib altoge!r & we> only a pla91 l>ge apron4 ,"s mi/resses dem& ! broad coll>1 al?\gh ! cuffs may be omitt$4 ,i say :5 x is feasible ! maid %\ld make ?is *ange1 because x is n always ! mo/ conv5i5t ?+ 9 ! _w = ! maid :o has to d ! cook+ ( ! d9n] be=e %e s]ves x to be 9 h] black frock all ! aft]noon4 ,%e may look neat 9 h] g+ham wai/ & skirt1 & !n1 :5 %e gets ev]y?+ 9 ord] = ! d9n]1 %e may slip away to h] room = a m9ute & get into ! black wai/4 ,! waitress :o has no kit*5 "w is usually expect$ to h on h] black wai/ soon aft] lun*eon 9 ord] to be ready to answ] ! bell prop]ly dress$4 ,! absolutely correct cu/om dem&s t %e %\ld be 9 ?is g>b be=e lun*eon is s]v$1 b ?is rule is n foll[$ 9 ! av]age h\sehold4 ,!re are _m ob/acles 9 ! way ( /rict en=cem5t ( v>i\s regulations :i* are insi/$ ^u z ess5tial by ^? :o endeavor to make ! social by-laws4 ,to su* rules ! majority ( h\sekeep]s w\ld be glad to con=m if !y c\ld4 ,l ,lady ,teazle1 !y w\ld be only too happy if roses grew "u _! feet & !y c\ld ga!r /rawb]ries all ! ye> r\nd4 ,b dome/ic exig5cies =bid _m indulg5ces1 & ! wise woman is %e :o adapts h]self to ?+s z !y are & does n make h]self wret*$ ov] non-ess5tials4 ,:5 a woman keeps b "o maid to d ! "w ( a h\sehold ( half a doz5 memb]s1 %e _c hope to h h] e/abli%m5t conduct$ z x w\ld be ) a =ce ( ?ree or f\r maids4 ,%e may v prop]ly insi/ ^u c]ta9 niceties ( s]v+ & wait+1 b if %e does ?is %e mu/ make up = x 9 o!r ways4 ,= in/ance1 ! woman :o dem&s c&les = h] d9n]-table in/ead ( gas mu/ n expect ! maid :o does all ! "w ( ! h\se to h "t to keep ! c&le/icks 9 ord]4 ,! c>e ( ! fl[]s t bright5 ! table mu/ also come ^u ! mi/ress4 ,%e mu/ take ?is sort ( ?+ = grant$ z mu* z %e does ! necessity = rely+ ^u h] own ef=ts 9 ! prep>ation ( h] m delicate dess]ts & salads4 ,su* ef=ts are ! price %e pays = wi%+ to live 9 a c]ta9 fa%ion1 &1 s9ce %e has made h] *oice1 %e has no "r to be dissatisfi$ ) x4 ,pla9] modes ( life & ultimate salvation are n incompatible1 b if %e pref]s ! add$ da9t9ess to ! light] labor x devolves ^u h] to d ! additional "w necess>ily impli$ by ! t\*es ( elegance4 ,i h spok5 ( ! habit ( "s mi/resses ( provid+ ! maids' work+-dress4 ,?is is done 9 l>ge e/abli%m5ts :]e a c]ta9 liv]y is requir$1 & 9 o!r homes1 :]e ! mi/ress feels x wor? :ile1 %e supplies ! black frock to be worn 9 ! aft]noon4 ,:e!r ?is is done or n x is cu/om>y = ! mi/ress to provide ! caps & :ite aprons worn by h] maids1 & ! coll>s & cuffs1 if %e insi/s ^u ! latt]4 ,^! belong to ! mi/ress1 & are n tak5 away by ! maid :5 %e leaves4 ,! laund]+ ( ^! articles is g5]ally paid = by ! mi/ress4 ,t is1 if ! wa%+ is put out or "s "o comes 9 to d x1 ! aprons are includ$ 9 ! family wa%+ in/ead ( be+ done by ! maid h]self ) h] own wa%+4 ,9 ! av]age family1 :]e two or ?ree s]vants are employ$1 ea* does h] own wa%+ & has a fix$ "t = x1 unless "s o!r arrangem5t is made betwe5 ! mi/ress & ! s]vant4 ,9 "s cases ! mi/ress provides also color$ aprons = ! maid to we> at h] heavy "w1 b ?is is n obligatory4 ,!re is n ! same reason = ?is t !re is = ! mi/ress's pur*as+ ! liv]y4 ,x is tak5 = grant$ t ! maid has en\gh clo?+ ( h] own to enable h] to look dec5t ab\t ! h\se4 ,if1 h[ev]1 ! mi/ress has h] decid$ pref]5ces 9 favor ( ! maid dress+ h]self 9 a special fa%ion1 x is h] bus9ess to provide ! raim5t 9 :i* ! maid is requir$ to appe>4 ,(t5 x w be f\nd t ! maid has adapt$ h]self to h] "w & has pur*as$ = h]self neat black wai/s or frocks to we> 9 ! aft]noon4 ,9 ?is case ! mi/ress is sav$ j s mu* exp5se & may e/eem h]self =tunate1 b %e has no "r to dem& t ! maid %all supply h]self ) su* a g>b at h] own exp5se4 ,! social relations ( s]vants is a matt] ) :i* "s mi/resses ex]cise !mselves ov]-mu*1 :ile o!rs1 p]haps1 give too little att5tion to x4 ,accord+ to ! ideas ( "s p]sons1 ! affairs ( a maid outside ( work+ h\rs conc]n no "o b h]self4 ,s long z %e con=ms to c]ta9 rules ( ! h\sehold1 h] com+ & go+1 h] associates & habits1 are no "o's bus9ess b h] own1 unless !y int]f]e ) ! prop] p]=mance ( h] "w4 ,9 a way ?is is entirely true1 & a mi/ress has no m "r to pry into ! affairs ( h] maid ?an ! maid has to be ov]curi\s ab\t ! bus9ess ( ! mi/ress4 ,b !re is some?+ to be said on ! o!r side4 ,look at x 9 z matt]-(-fact fa%ion z "o w1 relations ( dome/ic s]vice are diff]5t f any o!r bus9ess association4 ,! mi/ress & maid d n only meet 9 ! morn+ & "p aga9 at night1 aft] hav+ be5 toge!r simply 9 ! way ( _! "w dur+ ! day2 !y eat & sleep "u ! same ro(4 ,(t5 !y "w side by side = an h\r at a "t4 ,!y see ea* o!r 9 bodily & m5tal di%abille4 ,!y are by way ( ask+ or grant+ little k9dly s]vices t 7 nev] nom9at$ 9 ! bond4 ,)\t br++ too mu* s5tim5t into ! relation1 x may yet be ass]t$ t x is next to impossible = !m to meet on purely bus9ess t]ms4 ,:5 ?is is admitt$ x op5s ! way = some?+ m4 ,n famili>ity or int]f]5ce1 b a k9dly & fri5dly int]e/4 ,?is int]e/ gr[s to be some?+ v l a s5se ( responsibility if ! maid is a "y girl f> remov$--z %e (t5 is--f ! family & associations amid :i* %e 0 re>$4 ,! ties t us$ to hold h] h be5 loos5$1 & x w\ld be no wond] if 9 ! feel+ ( irresponsibility t comes ) novel fre$om %e %\ld occasionally make a mi/ake :i* %e aft]w>ds has to rep5t m or less bitt]ly4 ,9 "o s5se x is none ( ! mi/ress's bus9ess4 ,%e is n h] maid-s]vant's keep]4 ,yet %e c\ld h>dly help reproa*+ h]self if %e ?\ght t a k9dly ^w1 a qu]y t %[$ h] int]e/1 might h sp>$ ! girl a blund]1 ev5 if ?is did n am\nt to wrong-do+4 ,s1 if ! mi/ress c d x1 %e %\ld try to e/abli% "s sort ( an ent5te ) h] maid4 ,x c h>dly be an ent5te cordiale1 p]haps1 until !y h be5 toge!r long en\gh to h brok5 d[n ! little class antagonism t g5]ally exi/s at fir/ betwe5 mi/ress & maid & to conv9ce ! latt] ( ! good-w ( ! =m]4 ,x does n take mu* tr\ble to br+ ab\t ?is /ate ( affairs4 ,an int]e/ 9 ! girl's family1 a "q or two z to :e!r %e has any ( h] own p on ?is side ( ! wat]1 an inquiry z to h] fri5ds--n 9 a mann] t seems to imply a m]e curiosity or patronage1 b 9 a fa%ion t %[s a g5u9e fri5dl9ess is prompt+ ! qu]ies4 ,! assurance ( ! maid t %e may feel free to h h] fri5ds come to see h]1 a pleasant ^w ( greet+ to ^! if !y come & ! mi/ress happ5s to meet !m1 all d _! "p t[>ds mak+ ! maid sure t h] employ] is 9 a measure h] fri5d4 ,:5 x comes to ! "q ( foll[]s--t vex$ "q 9 s _m h\seholds--! mi/ress is wise if %e pursues ! /raighte/ c\rse4 ,9 ! fir/ place1 %e %\ld recognize ! fact t ! maid-(-all-"w %\ld be p]mitt$ to h h] m5 fri5ds come to call on h]4 ,%e did n ent] a nunn]y :5 %e w5t into dome/ic s]vice4 ,%e is a human be+1 & %e has ! "r to fri5ds among ! opposite sex--j z good a "r z ! daught] ( madam h]self4 ,be>+ ?is 9 m9d1 ! employ] %\ld all[ foll[]s subject to ! same rules :i* %e w\ld en=ce ) h] own daught]s4 ,! "y m5 %\ld come at a suitable h\r & g at a suitable h\r4 ,!y %\ld no m be grant$ p]mission to l+] ar\nd ! kit*5 :5 ! objects ( _! att5tion are busy ) ! daily toil ?an %\ld ! call]s ( mademoiselle be welcom$ :5 %e is at h] music lesson or occupi$ ) h] language tea*]4 ,to d ! foll[]s ju/ice1 !y d n (t5 attempt x1 nor d ! maids enc\rage x4 ,( c\rse1 !re are ! /ock jokes ab\t ! policeman on ! beat & ! milkman & ! but*]'s boy1 b none ( ^!--except ! policeman--has suffici5t leisure to sp5d mu* "t 9 ! kit*5 or ! front area dur+ work+ h\rs4 ,ev5 if !re is violation ( ?is rule once 9 a :ile--well1 we h all _h little occurr5ces ( ! same k9d 9 our lives4 ,our *ance meet+s & p>t+s out ( canonical h\rs did n take place 9 ! front area1 p]haps1 b t 0 because our employm5ts did n lead ei!r ( u !re4 ,! responsibility ( ! mi/ress does n g s f> z to make x necess>y = h] to inquire into ! antec$5ts ( ! "y m5 :o visit 9 h] kit*5 z %e w\ld into ^? ( ! m5 call]s 9 ! draw+-room4 ,t is outside ( h] prov9ce4 ,yet %e may let ! maid "k t %e feels an int]e/ 9 h] admir]s & fri5ds1 & su* an int]e/ is likely to be appreciat$4 ,aga9 ,i feel ,i mu/ def5d myself aga9/ a *>ge ( s5tim5tality4 ,b ,i h se5 ^! exp]im5ts tri$ ) success4 ,i d n mean by ?is t ! maids 7 models ( un5d+ devotion & fidelity4 ,we seldom f9d ?is sort ( ?+ )\t flaw among our *os5 associates4 ,b ,i h kn[n in/ances :]e ! casual fri5dl9ess ( ! mi/ress 0 repaid t5fold 9 times ( sickness or tr\ble by (fices :i* c\ld n be comp5sat$ = 9 money4 ,& x 0 done freely & gladly1 ) no ?\ght ( any?+ out ( ! ord9>y1 ) no h9t t sacrifices 7 be+ made4 ,yes1 says "s "o1 & ^? v maids w talk y ov] beh9d y\r back4 ,q true1 de> madam4 ,z ! majority ( u discuss n only our maids b our own famili> fri5ds beh9d _! backs--z !y d u :5 our backs are turn$4 ,we are all ( u z ready to res5t criticism z we are to (f] x4 ,:5 we f9d ! habits ( high life bel[-/airs1 x behooves u to ask ourselves :at sort ( an example along ^? l9es we _h set ! maid-s]vants )9 our gates4 ,)\t hope ( any rew>d1 except t ( ! com=table s5sation we h :5 we h attempt$ to d ! dec5t ?+1 let u try to make our maids feel at home 9 our h\ses4 ,if x is possible1 !y %\ld h a place 9 :i* to meet _! fri5ds4 ,:]e !re is space1 x is becom+ m & m ! cu/om to provide a sitt+-room = ! s]vants 9 :i* _! visitors c be receiv$4 ,to _m h\sekeep]s su* an arrangem5t z ?is w\ld be impossible4 ,9 su* cases !re %\ld at lea/ be an ef=t to r5d] ! kit*5 z pleasant z ! circum/ances w p]mit4 ,x may be clean & neat1 !re may be a c\ple ( *airs t are tol]ably com=table1 & any little attempt ! maid may wi% to make to add to ! attractiv5ess ( ! ap>tm5t %\ld be enc\rag$4 ,,vii ,,g5]al ,,sugge/ions ,! mi/ress ( a h\se mu/ n look = bricks )\t /raw4 ,9 o!r words1 %e mu/ n dem& good "w f h] maids if !y lack ! tools ) :i* to a*ieve x4 ,:5 wom51 9 ! c\rse ( discussions on dome/ic topics at clubs & else:]e1 decl>e t h\sekeep+ c be practis$ on ! same pr9ciples z ^? on :i* m5 conduct _! bus9ess1 :5 !y affirm t h\sekeep+ may be run l ma*9]y1 !y sometimes =get :at is meant by ! managem5t ( ma*9]y4 ,! metaphor pleases !m s mu* t !y fail to exam9e x too closely4 ,b any ma*9i/ w tell "o t an eng9e does n g ( itself4 ,i d n mean only t ! fires mu/ be kept up & ! wat] :i* is to g5]ate /eam mu/ be provid$4 ,!re is m to x ?an t4 ,! ma*9]y mu/ be wat*$ & oil$ & kept 9 p]fect repair4 ,if any bit ( x is injur$ x mu/ at once be replac$4 ,!re mu/ be a regul> inspection made to see t !re is n s mu* friction on "o "p z to make too mu* we> & te>1 & t o!r portions :i* are tempor>ily out ( use d n become ru/y s t !y are unmanageable :5 !y come 9 dem&4 ,b :at h\sekeep] takes su* c>e ( h] home ma*9]y z ?is8 ,"h & !re "o may be f\nd1 b ! majority1 hav+ />t$ ! works go+1 seem to h ! impression t ! :eels w cont9ue to revolve ) no fur!r att5tion4 ,x is tak5 = grant$ t ! maid w pursue ! ev5 t5or ( h] way z if %e 7 ano!r piece ( clockwork t has be5 w\nd up--or1 p]haps1 z if %e 7 a "p ( ! same big ma*9e :i* comprises ! h\sehold & all its appo9tm5ts4 ,! diff]5ce1 ( c\rse1 betwe5 ! ma*9]y & ! home is t 9 ! conduct ( ! latt] ! human equation has to be reckon$ ) con/antly4 ,x is n en\gh = ! mi/ress to see t all p>ts ( ! eng9e are suppli$1 if ?is or t section is to be injur$ ?r\gh c>elessness z soon z h] back is turn$4 ,! head ma*9i/ w\ld probably drop a man on %ort notice :o _h prov$ himself to be p]si/5tly c>eless ( ! portion ( labor committ$ to 8 *>ge4 ,! fact t he c\ld d o!r p>ts ( 8 "w well1 t he 0 k9dly & good-natur$ & nev] spoke an imp]t95t ^w1 w\ld weigh = little if he did n pay att5tion to 8 especial duty & take prop] c>e ( t :i* 0 committ$ to 8 *>ge4 ,) ! dome/ic s]vant matt]s are on a diff]5t foot+4 ,9 c\nt+ up h] good & bad qualities ! mi/ress mu/ keep a debit-&-cr$it acc\nt & feel t "o positive virtue (fsets _m negative defects4 ,yet1 ev5 :ile %e does ?is & puts up ) %ortcom+s because ( "s "o conspicu\s m]it1 ! mi/ress %\ld n relax h] ef=t to approximate1 s f> z %e may1 ! p]=mance ( h\sehold duties to ! work+s ( ! ma*9]y to :i* x is s (t5 lik5$4 ,& to d ?is %e mu/ see t ev]y?+ necess>y is at h&1 to make ! :eels turn smoo?ly4 ,x is a pro( ( ! c>elessness ) :i* _m homes are manag$1 & ( ! slackness :i* maids take = grant$1 t ! h\sehold equipm5t is s (t5 conspicu\sly poor4 ,i h be5 9 h\ses t 7 well furni%$ above-/airs :]e ,i h se5 ! maids attempt+ to d c>eful cook]y ) ut5sils t 7 utt]ly inadequate4 ,!re 7 brok5 vegetable-grat]s1 cream-*urns1 egg-beat]s1 fl\r-sift]s1 c(fee-pots ) p>ts ( _! me*anism miss+1 b[ls & di%es ) l>ge sections gone f !m1 an insuffici5t supply ( su* small items z measur+-cups1 mix+-spoons1 vegetable-knives1 & ! l4 ,i h also _h a glimpse ( ! articles provid$ = keep+ a h\se clean--/ubby brooms1 worn-out bru%es1 half-bri/l$ scrubb+-bru%es1 a /+y provision ( ! det]g5ts & cleans+ fluids manufactur$ = h\sehold use4 ,9 ! mid/ ( ?is de>? ! maids work$ z be/ !y c\ld1 accompli%+ wond]s :5 "o ?\ght ( ! means !y _h 9 h&4 ,b1 "s "o w say1 ^! ?+s 7 d\btless provid$ at fir/1 & if !y are lack+ n[ x is because ( ! c>elessness ( ! maids t _h !m 9 *>ge4 ,precisely s4 ,b ! maids ought n to h be5 p]mitt$ to be c>eless4 ,if t consummation dev\tly to be desir$ ( mak+ ! h\se run l a ma*9e is ev] to be br\ght ab\t1 ! me?ods ( ! %op mu/ be introduc$ into dome/ic "w4 ,! maid %\ld h giv5 to h] ! ut5sils t %e w ne$ 9 ord] to d h] "w prop]ly & !n %e %\ld be held responsible = !m--n responsible m]ely by ^w ei!r4 ,x w be necess>y = ! mi/ress to keep h] eyes on ^! details j z ! head ma*9i/ makes 8 inspection4 ,%e w h to see = h]self t ! broom is hung up or /ood on ! h&le in/ead ( on ! bri/le end1 t ! bru%es & du/-pans n only h _! nails or hooks1 b are kept on !m :5 n 9 use in/ead ( be+ ?r[n into a corn] ( ! kit*5 & kick$ ab\t by any "o :o f9ds !m 9 ! way4 ,%e w h to inquire if ! di%-t[els are wa%$ out aft] s]vice1 boil$ once a day1 & well dri$ & air$--n ?r[n c>elessly ov] a clo!s-horse or a l9e to dry ) ! grease & /a9s f c>elessly wa%$ di%es /ill cl++ to !m4 ,once 9 s (t5 ! mi/ress mu/ make an exam9ation ( ! cont5ts ( ! pot-closet to asc]ta9 = h]self if ! d\ble boil] has be5 left on ! fire until ! wat] has cook$ away & ! bottom has crack$ f dryness4 ,%e mu/ see t h] pans are sc\r$ :5 !y ne$ x1 t no ut5sil is ev] put away ) "p ( ! cont5ts /ick+ to ! inside4 ,d "s or all ( ^! admonitions appe> uncall$ =8 ,i hope !y are1 b ,i am afraid t at lea/ five out ( e t5 h\sekeep]s w\ld f9d "o ( ^! defects 9 h] pantries %\ld %e g !re seek+ p]fection4 ,:5 ! mi/ress neglects matt]s 9 ?is way ! maid-s]vant is n :olly to blame = h] he$lessness4 ,x mu/ always be borne 9 m9d t our dome/ic s]vice is n recruit$ f tra9+-s*ools4 ,! maid comes to u f h] own home or f a succession ( o!r p]sons' homes1 :]e %e has be5 taught to d "o ?+ 9 half a doz5 diff]5t ways4 ,f all ^! %e has evolv$ h] own me?od1 :i* may be good & may be poor4 ,su* z x is1 %e is likely to foll[ x1 unless %e is p]suad$ ( a m excell5t way or compell$ into x by h] new mi/ress4 ,9 ! latt] case %e w probably g back to ! blanket z soon z %e is at lib]ty4 ,i h already said t x is a mi/ake = ! mi/ress to dem& t ! maid %all *ange h] mode ( do+ a piece ( "w1 provid$ ! results are good4 ,! mi/ress %\ld all[ "t to discov] ! advantages or disadvantages ( ! s]vant's sy/em4 ,b if %e feels t h] own way is surely bett] ?an t ! maid foll[s1 %e %\ld insi/ ^u a *ange4 ,%e %\ld recognize ! possibility ( ! employe's be+ a reasonable creature1 & %[ h] :at %e consid]s ! m]its ( ! new plan at ! same "t t %e makes x cle>ly und]/ood t1 :e!r ! maid sees ^! or n1 ! "w is to be done 9 ! mann] prescrib$ by ! mi/ress4 ,%e pays = ! "w & %e has a "r to say 9 :at way x %all be p]=m$4 ,sometimes "o f9ds a maid :o rebels aga9/ ?is sort ( managem5t4 ,9 t case a mi/ress is wise to dis*>ge h] at ! end ( ! mon?--t is1 unless %e c be induc$ to d ! "w 9 ! "r fa%ion4 ,( c\rse1 x is always ^u ! c>ds t ! maid may h s _m o!r good qualities t !y make up = ?is defect2 b1 z a rule1 x w be f\nd t ! maid :o p]si/s 9 refus+ to adopt a me?od ( "w ord]$ by h] employ] w be h>d to manage 9 o!r ways4 ,be=e giv+ up su* a s]vant1 h[ev]1 x is well = ! mi/ress to ?9k c>efully ( ! "q at issue & be v sure t ! way %e desires possesses en\gh advantages to make x wor? :ile to raise an issue ^u x4 ,sometimes a maid w come ar\nd to a new me?od ( h] own accord4 ,i knew ( a cook ^: mi/ress _h pur*as$ "o ( ! admirable bread-mak+ ma*9es4 ,! h\sekeep] _h inve/igat$ x ?or\ghly & become p]suad$ t x n only sav$ "t & labor1 b t ! bread made f x 0 m :olesome ?an t mix$ & knead$ 9 ! ord9>y mann]4 ,s %e in/all$ ! ma*9e 9 h] kit*51 expla9$ its work+s & its virtues to ! cook1 & suppos$ t !re w\ld be no tr\ble ab\t x4 ,b ! cook 0 an ob/9ate cons]vative4 ,%e _h made good bread by ! old way1 & to ! old way %e w\ld adh]e4 ,%e did n absolutely refuse to use ! ma*9e1 b %e calmly w5t on mak+ bread by h&4 ,excell5t bread x 01 too4 ,! mi/ress c\ld f9d no fault ) x--b t 0 beside ! po9t4 ,be+ a s5sible woman1 %e hesitat$ to raise an issue & possibly lose a good cook & a tru/wor?y s]vant4 ,%e h]self w5t into ! kit*5 & made bread two or ?ree times ) ! ma*9e4 ,h] daught] did ! same4 ,9 spite ( h]self ! cook became int]e/$ 9 ! new-fangl$ notion4 ,%e saw t x sav$ "t & toil4 ,at la/ %e tri$ ! ma*9e h]self4 ,! results 7 s good & at s small a co/ ( "w t %e became an ard5t conv]t4 ,sure1 x 0 wick$ ,i us$ to be ab\t x1 %e confess$ to ! mi/ress lat]4 ,:5 y & ,miss ,jane 7 mak+ bread ) x ,i us$ to be j pray9' t x w\ld turn out bad4 ,!re are pl5ty ( maids ( ?is k9d1 al?\gh once 9 a :ile "o f9ds a specim5 ( ! o!r sort4 ,usually ! latt] k9d is f\nd among ! old] wom5 :o h become set 9 _! ways & object to exp]im5ts ( any nature4 ,if ! employ] wi%es to be mi/ress 9 h] own h\se %e c h>dly reta9 "o ( ?is v>iety 9 h] s]vice4 ,b if !re are reasons t make h] will+ to waive h] own au?ority = ! sake ( com=t 9 o!r directions1 %e is p]haps prud5t to d x4 ,?is is a matt] ea* h\sekeep] mu/ settle = h]self4 ,to return to ! fir/ po9t = a mom5t4 ,! mi/ress mu/ give h] maids :at !y ne$ to d _! "w well be=e %e expects to receive good "w f !m1 & hav+ done ?is %all dem& t !y keep _! tools 9 ord]4 ,at ! same "t t %e makes adequate provision %e %\ld n enc\rage extravagance by ov]abundance4 ,we all h a t5d5cy to be lavi% :5 we see be=e u :at seems l m ?an en\gh4 ,! maid %\ld h :at w suffice = ! pres5t ne$1 b no m4 ,!re is no s5se 9 hav+ half a doz5 d\ble boil]s1 = in/ance1 :5 ! utmo/ ne$ ( ! h\sehold does n call = m ?an f\r4 ,keep two 9 res]ve until accid5t or use has disabl$ "o ( ! o!rs4 ,! maid %\ld n h s l>ge a supply ( kit*5 & *9a t[els t %e feels x makes little diff]5ce if %e takes prop] c>e ( !m4 ,in/ead1 %e %\ld h en\gh to wipe h] di%es )\t hav+ to /9t h]self1 & if extra t[els are ne$$ = extra s]vice !y %\ld be giv5 = t "t & !n put away until ! next occasion arises = _! use4 ,%e %\ld n h ?ree or f\r du/-clo?s 9 commission all ! :ile1 b %\ld wa% ^? %e has e day or two & use !m until !y are worn out4 ,h] clean+-clo?s--= lamps1 b$room crock]y1 & ! l--%\ld n be s num]\s t %e feels x is easi] to ?r[ !m away ?an to take ! tr\ble to r9se !m aft] s]vice4 ,n only ! h\sekeep] is to be consid]$ 9 ! en=cem5t ( ^! rules4 ,! maid is be+ tra9$ 9 habits ( ?rift or ( wa/efulness1 & ! h\sekeep] is prep>+ = h] own kit*5 or = ! kit*5 ( "s o!r woman a s]vant :o w be valuable or ! rev]se4 ,i h t\*$ ^u ! responsibility ( ! h\sekeep] = h] s]vants 9 o!r respects1 & ?is is ano!r way 9 :i* %e %\ld appreciate h] duty to h] neighbor4 ,9 "s h\seholds ! mi/resses h slipp$ into ! c>eless way ( p]mitt+ ! maid to give ord]s to ! but*] & ! groc]4 ,?is %\ld only be done 9 unusual circum/ances4 ,! maid may be entirely hone/ & consci5ti\s4 ,at ! same "t1 ! mi/ress is n only putt+ h] 9 ! way ( a temptation to extravagance1 b is also neglect+ "o ( h] own duties4 ,! maid %\ld h a pad & p5cil hang+ 9 ! kit*54 ,) ^! %e %\ld keep a li/ ( :at is want$ 9 ! l9e ( h\sehold supplies4 ,:5 %e takes ! la/ ( any k9d ( provision f its receptacle %e %\ld make a note ( x on ! pad4 ,by ?is me?od !re is nev] a discov]y at ! la/ mom5t t a supply ( "s desir$ groc]y is exhau/$4 ,?is memor&um ! mi/ress mu/ g ov] e morn+ :5 %e makes h] daily inspection ( ! kit*5 & pantries4 ,! slip %e te>s f ! pad w s]ve z h] li/ ( pur*ases :5 %e goes to m>ket4 ,?is1 too1 %\ld n be ! "w ( ! maid4 ,once 9 a :ile %e c be s5t out on an em]g5cy err&1 b1 z a rule1 x is ! mi/ress :o %\ld d ! buy+4 ,by foll[+ ?is plan %e kn[s :at is ord]$1 :at deliv]$1 & is able at ! end ( ! week to *eck intellig5tly ! record 9 h] weekly book f ! groc] or ! m>ket-man4 ,9 all t has be5 said !re has be5 no attempt to consid] ! l>ge e/abli%m5t :]e !re is a h\sekeep] :o assumes ! duties ( ! mi/ress ( ! home 9 ! way ( ord]+ meals1 direct+ s]vants1 & look+ aft] all ! details ( ! h\sehold4 ,su* e/abli%m5ts are n pl5tiful en\gh to be consid]$ 9 a book ( ?is scope4 ,x is 9 ! homes :]e b "o s]vant or at ! mo/ two or ?ree are kept t problems ( ! sort we h t\*$ ^u pres5t !mselves = solution4 ,9 su* homes ^! problems are (t5 matt]s ( daily or weekly consid]ation4 ,! mi/ress desires to d all %e c to enable ! maid to make ! be/ ( h] place2 ! maid's int5tions are usually z good z ^? ( ! mi/ress1 ev5 if !y are n q s cle>ly =mulat$4 ,some?+ may be said conc]n+ paym5t = extra "w4 ,:5 a maid is engag$ x is ) ! und]/&+ t %e is to d = a fix$ wage all ! "w 9 h] p>ticul> l9e4 ,if h]s is ! place ( a g5]al-h\sework s]vant1 ! duties are1 z already said1 h>d to def9e1 b !re may be an approximate idea =m$ ( :at !y comprise4 ,9 o!r positions 9 ! h\sehold x is a simpl] matt] to lay d[n ) "s precision :at ! avocations ( ea* s]vant %all be4 ,except by special arrangem5t %e %\ld n be requir$ to /ep outside h] r\nd4 ,b !re are times 9 ne>ly e family :5 "s accid5t or set ( unavoidable occurr5ces r5d]s x necess>y to ask "o maid to d ! "w ( ano!r4 ,sudd5 illness1 ! dep>ture ( "o maid be=e x is possible to engage ano!r1 ! desc5t ( unexpect$ gue/s--any "o ( ^! ?+s may make x ne$ful = ! h\sekeep] to reque/ a s]vant to d some?+ besides h] regul> "w4 ,:5 ?is is ! case x %\ld be %[n by ! mi/ress t %e appreciates ! consid]ation ( ! s]vant1 & !re %\ld be an ef=t made to comp5sate = su* consid]ation--n necess>ily by a paym5t ( money1 b by a gift1 ! grant+ ( an unusual privilege1 or by reliev+ ! maid ( a "p ( h] own regul> "w4 ,x is n a good pr9ciple = ! mi/ress to fall into ! habit ( be/[+ tips = any extra s]vice4 ,if matt]s 7 conduct$ on a purely bus9ess basis ?is might be desirable1 b1 z ,i h said be=e1 9 ! relation ( mi/ress & maid !re are too _m opportunities = mutual accommodation = ei!r to /& ^u a po9t ( a k9dl9ess grant$ by ! o!r side4 ,:5 x comes to tips f gue/s x is ano!r matt]4 ,if a visitor feels m com=table to (f] a gift to a s]vant on leav+1 !re is no reason :y x %\ld n be done4 ,i "k ( employ]s :o say t !y pay _! s]vants adequate wages & d n ?ank _! gue/s = feel+ x obligatory ^u !m to supplem5t ^! by pres5ts4 ,?is is n q ! po9t at issue4 ,! gue/ does n mean to "q ! ju/ice or g5]osity ( 8 ho/1 b he feels t he has caus$ extra labor & has receiv$ s]vices = :i* he w\ld l to make "s return to ! dome/ic4 ,! gift is n tak5 by ! s]vant z a supplem5t to h] wages1 b z an ackn[l$gm5t ( s]vices giv51 on h] own "p1 & z a tok5 ( appreciation ( ^! by ! gue/4 ,! matt] ( tips 9 ?is c\ntry has nev] assum$ ! importance x possesses on ! o!r side ( ! wat]1 al?\gh x is by way ( becom+ a m s]i\s matt] ) e ye>4 ,at lea/ once a week ! maid %\ld g ov] ! li/ ( silv]1 :i* ! mi/ress %\ld h put into h] h&s :5 %e came fir/ to ! h\se1 & see t no pieces are miss+4 ,9 ! same way x is well = h] to keep track ( ! *9a4 ,:5ev] a piece is nick$1 crack$1 or brok5 %e %\ld report x at once4 ,few mi/resses are sev]e :5 ?is is done1 al?\gh !y are r>ely s amiable z n to be irritat$ to discov] su* damages by accid5t4 ,!re w be mi%aps 9 ! be/-regulat$ h\sehold1 b concealm5t ( ^! or neglect to m5tion !m is a mi/ake4 ,x %akes ! confid5ce ( ! employ] & saves ! employe no tr\ble1 s9ce ! injury is b\nd to be discov]$ soon] or lat]1 & ! repro( is mu* %>p] 9 ^? circum/ances ?an x w\ld be if ! maid _h made a virtue ( necessity & told ( ! breakage :5 x occurr$4 ,:5 !re has be5 an accid5t ( ?is sort !re %\ld be judgm5t ex]cis$ on ! "p ( ! mi/ress z to en=c+ ! rule conc]n+ paym5t = breakages4 ,if ! maid is usually c>eful & ! accid5t 0 ! result ( circum/ances %e c\ld n avoid1 x is bett] n to d$uct ! value ( ! brok5 article f h] wages4 ,if %e is habitually c>eless1 %e w le>n a lesson by hav+ to pay = h] fault4 ,if !re is a cle> und]/&+ on ?is matt] at ! "t ! maid is engag$1 !re is no room = any feel+ ( be+ impos$ ^u :5 ! rule is put into practice4 ,ju/ice %\ld be temp]$ ) m]cy1 h[ev]1 & all[ances made = ! fir/ (f5ce4 ,! maid %\ld be ask$ j h[ ! accid5t happ5$1 w>n$ aga9/ hold+ wet *9a 9 slipp]y1 moi/ f+]s1 cr[d+ too _m pieces into ! di%-pan at once1 attempt+ to c>ry too l>ge a numb] at "o "t1 & o!r me?ods ( provok+ casualties ( ?is sort4 ,%\ld %e p]si/ 9 su* habits aft] ! w>n+ has be5 giv51 ! paym5t = ! brok5 articles %\ld be insi/$ ^u4 ,,viii ,a ,,recapitulation ,,( ,,daily ,,duties ,,! ,,g5]al-,,h\sework ,,maid ,rise at six o'clock & h clo?+ 9 read9ess1 s z to be dress$ & d[n-/airs by six-?irty4 ,/rip ! b$ & op5 ! w9d[ be=e leav+ ! room4 ,if ! c>e ( ! furnace is 9 y\r h&s1 op5 ! draughts & put on a little coal4 ,light ! kit*5 fire1 fill ! kettle1 put on ! breakfa/ c]eal & potatoes1 or any?+ t requires "s "t to cook4 ,op5 ! w9d[s ( rooms on fir/ floor1 bru% up ! floor & ! halls1 & sweep (f ! front /eps4 ,g ov] b>e floor 9 d9+-room ) a clo? & du/ ! d9+-room4 ,put m coal 9 furnace1 close draughts1 & give a look at kit*5 fire4 ,set table = breakfa/4 ,if a l>ge clo? is us$1 put x on ov] ! canton-flannel sil5ce clo?4 ,if a squ>e ( damask or doilies are employ$ at breakfa/1 lay !m on ev5ly4 ,crook$ spread+ ( a table is an abom9ation4 ,at ea* place put a plate1 knife1 =k1 & two spoons1 ! knife & spoons to ! "r1 ) ! napk9 beside !m2 ! tumbl] also on ! "r4 ,! =k mu/ be on ! left1 & ne> x ! bread-&-butt] plate4 ,if fruit is ! fir/ c\rse1 !re %\ld be at ea* place a fruit-plate ) a doily1 f+]-b[l1 & fruit-knife on x4 ,= oranges an orange-spoon %\ld also be laid on ! plate4 ,:5 a c]eal is ! fir/ c\rse1 ! porridge b[ls or sauc]s %\ld be at ea* plate4 ,arrange ! cups & sauc]s1 sug>-b[l1 cream-jug1 & o!r necess>ies at ! end ( ! table :]e ! mi/ress ( ! h\se sits4 ,at ! o!r end place ! c>v]s & lay ! heavy mat = ! hot di% ! ma/] ( ! h\se is to s]ve4 ,see t !re are tablespoons1 salt-cell>s1 & pepp]-cruets1 & ! call-bell on ! table1 a salt & pepp] to e two p]sons1 ! tablespoons at ! corn]s ( ! table1 ! call-bell ne> ! mi/ress's h&4 ,return to kit*5 & prep>e breakfa/4 ,cut bread1 fill glasses1 & br+ 9 butt] ! la/ ?+4 ,d n ann\nce ! meal until ev]y?+ is ready to s]ve4 ,put on a clean apron to wait on table4 ,:ile ! family is eat+ ! la/ c\rse ( breakfa/ g to ! b$rooms1 /rip ! b$s1 turn ! mattresses1 hang ! b$clo?+ ov] *airs1 & leave x to air :ile go+ ov] ! floors ) a c>pet-sweep]4 ,empty soil$ wat] 9 b$rooms4 ,g d[n-/airs & h y\r own breakfa/4 ,cle> ! table1 scrape di%es & put !m 9 wat]4 ,return to second floor1 make b$s1 du/ & clean ba?-room4 ,wa% & put away di%es4 ,r9se out di%-t[els & put !m ov] to boil4 ,see :at is 9 ! pantry & refrig]ator4 ,wipe (f ! %elves ( pantries & refrig]ator e day4 ,scald out ice-box ?ree times a week4 ,clean & fill lamps4 ,g n[ to any special "w1 su* z sweep+1 wa%+ w9d[s1 or g5]al clean+4 ,/op ?is 9 "t to prep>e lun*eon4 ,set ! table = ?is meal z y did = breakfa/4 ,be sure t ! d9+-room has be5 well air$ & t !re is no odor ( /ale food left f breakfa/4 ,obs]ve ! same rules z at breakfa/ ab\t s]v+ butt]1 bread1 & wat]4 ,aft] lun*eon cle> table1 d>k5 d9+-room1 & f9i% any small duties t h be5 left ov] f ! morn+4 ,plan y\r "w s z to h only light tasks 9 ! aft]noon4 ,*ange y\r dress1 bru% y\r hair1 put on a fre% cap & a clean apron1 & be ready to wait on ! door4 ,if aft]noon tea is to be s]v$ at five o'clock1 make ! tray ready & c>ry x 9 at ! prop] h\r4 ,/>t to get d9n] 9 "t s t !re w n be a ru% at ! la/ mom5t4 ,if possible1 arrange ! prep>ations s t ! cook+ c safely be left half an h\r be=e d9n]-"t 9 ord] to set ! table4 ,spread on ! ?ick sil5ce clo? smoo?ly & lay ! table-clo? ov] x ev5ly & )\t a wr9kle4 ,place ! c5tre-piece 9 ! middle ( ! table ) ! vase ( fl[]s or j>d9ire on x1 lay a c>v+-clo? 9 front ( ! ma/] ( ! h\se1 ) ! c>v]s4 ,if a mat is us$ "u ! meat di%1 put x 9 place4 ,at ! o!r end ( ! table lay ! s\p-ladle4 ,at ea* place !re %\ld be a s]vice plate ) ! knife & s\p-spoon to ! "r ( ?is1 ) ! tumbl] & napk92 ! =k or =ks1 if m ?an "o w be ne$$1 at ! left4 ,if butt] is s]v$ at d9n]1 ! bread-&-butt] plate may be at ! left4 ,if n1 a piece ( bread1 cut ?ick1 may be laid on ! napk94 ,9 mo/ h\seholds x is cu/om>y to give a clean napk9 at d9n]4 ,?is %\ld be fold$ pla9ly4 ,! tablespoons1 salts1 pepp]s1 & call-bell %\ld be 9 place z at o!r meals4 ,if su* articles z olives1 salt$ nuts1 & ! l are us$1 !y %\ld be on ! table be=e d9n] is s]v$4 ,:5 s\p is ! fir/ c\rse ! s\p-plates may be put on ! s]vice plates & ! ture5 be plac$ 9 front ( ! mi/ress be=e d9n] is ann\nc$4 ,9 h\ses :]e gongs or bells are n us$1 ! maid comes to ! door ( ! room :]e ! mi/ress is seat$ & ann\nces1 ,d9n] is s]v$4 ,if y h n dress$ e>li]1 *ange y\r wai/ j be=e ann\nc+ d9n]4 ,aft] ! s\p is s]v$1 di% ! re/ ( ! d9n] & be ready to br+ x 9 :5 ! s\p has be5 eat54 ,take out ! ture5 fir/1 !n ! s\p-plates1 c>ry+ out two at a "t1 "o 9 ea* h&4 ,c>ry 9 all ! hot d9n]-plates at once1 put !m on ! s]v+-table1 & z y take up a s]vice plate f ! table put a hot d9n]-plate 9 its place4 ,br+ 9 ! meat di% fir/ & put x 9 front ( ! c>v]1 & !n br+ 9 ! vegetable di%es & place !m on ! s]v+-table or d9n]-wagon4 ,pass meat & vegetables & see t e "o has bread & t ! glasses are fill$4 ,return to ! kit*5 & wa% ! silv] & *9a ( ! fir/ c\rse4 ,:5 cle>+ ! table aft] ?is c\rse1 take out ! meat & vegetables fir/ & !n ! soil$ plates4 ,if salad is to be s]v$ next1 put d[n a salad-plate 9 place ( ! d9n]-plate remov$4 ,set ! oil & v9eg> cruets & ! b[l = mix+ ! salad-dress+ 9 front ( ! ho/ess1 & pass ! salad fir/ & aft]w>ds ! dress+4 ,! di%es ( ! prec$+ c\rse may be wa%$ dur+ ! salad c\rse4 ,if a sweet comes next or 9 place ( a salad c\rse1 cle> ! table1 remov+ salts & pepp]s1 unus$ silv]1 & ev]y?+ except glasses4 ,bru% (f ! crumbs into a plate ) a fold$ napk91 take (f & fold ! c>v+-clo?4 ,put ! plates & f+]-b[ls on ! table4 ,br+ 9 ! sweet4 ,:5 ?is has be5 f9i%$1 take out ! di% t has held x1 remove ! soil$ plates1 & br+ 9 ! c(fee4 ,return to ! kit*51 h y\r own d9n]1 & f9i% wa%+ ! di%es4 ,by ?is "t ! family w h left ! table4 ,cle> ?is1 remove ! clo?1 fold+ x 9 ! creases1 put away ! *9a1 & d>k5 ! room4 ,f9i% putt+ ! kit*5 9 ord] = ! night4 ,on ,monday morn+ rise e>ly en\gh to get a good />t at ! wa%+4 ,any "w ( ?is sort t c be done be=e breakfa/ is j s mu* cle> ga94 ,proce$ ) o!r "w z on o!r days1 except t ! du/+ ( ! rooms & ! c>e ( ! *amb]s w probably be assum$ by ! mi/ress4 ,wa% ! %eets & o!r heavy pieces e>ly 9 ! day 9 ord] t !y may h a *ance to dry4 ,d ! flannels e>ly & foll[ !m ) ! f9e clo!s4 ,! second wat] f ! flannels may be us$ = ! fir/ r9s+ ( ! cotton clo!s4 ,if ! wor/-soil$ pieces c be put 9 soak ov]night x w less5 ! labor on ,monday morn+4 ,on ,tuesday morn+ x is also well to get an e>ly />t 9 ord] to make a good beg9n+ on ! iron+4 ,! same rule ( e>ly ris+ w be f\nd helpful :5 !re is any piece ( extra "w to be accompli%$4 ,a prompt beg9n+ gives "t = re/ 9 ! latt] "p ( ! day4 ,,! ,,cook ,rise at six o'clock & be d[n-/airs by six-?irty4 ,op5 draughts ( furnace & put on a little coal4 ,fill ! kettle & put ! c]eal ov] ! fire4 ,make ready ! mat]ials = ! breakfa/4 ,:5 ! furnace fire has come up put on m coal & close draughts4 ,op5 ! w9d[s ( ! cell>1 air ! pantry1 & see t ! kit*5 is 9 good ord]1 ! /ove black$1 etc4 ,aft] ! family & ! kit*5 breakfa/ inspect ! cont5ts ( ! pantries & refrig]ator & plan ) ! mi/ress = ! be/ use t c be made ( left-ov]s4 ,if s\p is to be made x %\ld be put ov] n[1 & dess]ts t are to be s]v$ cold %\ld be prep>$4 ,! ice-box mu/ be sc\r$ out ) hot wat] & soda ?ree times a week1 ! %elves ( ! pantry & ! refrig]ator wip$ (f e day4 ,ea* morn+ see :at is want$ 9 ! way ( groc]ies & o!r provisions1 & make a li/ ( :at is lack+1 to be h&$ to ! mi/ress be=e %e goes to m>ket4 ,aft] ! lun*eon & d9n] are plann$ !re w probably be "t to d a little "w outside ( ! kit*5 be=e ! h\r = mak+ ready = lun*eon4 ,nev] be beh9dh& 9 su* prep>ations s t ! waitress is delay$ 9 s]v+4 ,keep ! lun*eon hot aft] x comes f ! table1 & h ! kit*5 table set ready = ! maids4 ,9 ! aft]noon !re is usually "t = re/+ & *ang+ ! dress4 ,! beg9n+s ( ! d9n] %\ld be made 9 season & ! ut5sils us$ %\ld1 z f> z possible1 be wa%$ z fa/ z !y are done ) 9 ord] to prev5t a clutt] ( "w :5 ! meal is ov]4 ,wa% ! pots & pans 9 :i* ! d9n] is cook$ z soon z ! food is out ( !m4 ,scald+ wat] %\ld be put into a vessel z soon z y h f9i%$ us+ x4 ,scald out t[els & fi% & jelly clo?s z soon z y h done ) !m4 ,keep ! s9k clean1 & wa% x out ?or\ghly aft] ea* meal4 ,,! ,,waitress ,,& ,,*amb]maid ,rise at six o'clock & be d[n-/airs at six-?irty4 ,op5 & air ! rooms on ! fir/ floor1 bru% (f ! /eps1 sweep out ! halls1 & bru% d[n ! /airs4 ,bru% up ! draw+-room or g ov] ! floor ) a c>pet-sweep]1 wipe up ! h>d-wood floors1 & du/ ! rooms4 ,if ! woodwork is pa9t$1 spots mu/ be wip$ f x4 ,take hot wat] up to b$rooms half to ?ree-qu>t]s ( an h\r be=e breakfa/1 accord+ to directions previ\sly giv5 by mi/ress4 ,wait on table dur+ ! e>ly "p ( ! meal4 ,pass ! fruit1 (f]+ x f ! left side4 ,take (f fruit-plates f ! "r side1 putt+ porridge s]vice 9 ! place ( ! plate remov$4 ,(f] porridge1 z sug> & cream1 f ! left side1 remove soil$ porridge s]vice f "r side1 putt+ hot plate 9 its place4 ,(f] o!r di%es f left side1 or if ! plate is s]v$ by ! c>v]1 put x 9 front ( ! gue/ f "r side4 ,place cup & sauc] on ! "r1 (f] sug> & cream f ! left4 ,:5 dismiss$ aft] ! s]vice ( breakfa/1 g up-/airs to ! b$rooms & proce$ ) !m z direct$ previ\sly 9 duties ( ,g5]al-,h\sework ,maid4 ,h breakfa/ :5 summon$ by cook1 cle> table1 & prep>e di%es = wa%+4 ,return to ! b$rooms1 f9i% ! "w !re & 9 ! ba?-room1 & !n wa% di%es1 put !m away1 & despat* o!r "w ( ! d9+-room4 ,see if silv] ne$s clean+ & t table-l95 is 9 ord]4 ,poli% brasses1 rub (f furniture1 wa% w9d[s1 or att5d to o!r "w ( ?is sort4 ,make butt]-balls = ! next meal4 ,clean & fill lamps4 ,set table = lun* accord+ to previ\s directions4 ,wait z at breakfa/4 ,be c>eful t no glass is all[$ to become empty1 & keep a wat* on ! plate ( ea* gue/1 (f]+ to repl5i% x z x is empti$4 ,aft] lun*eon cle> ! table be=e go+ to lun*eon 9 ! kit*54 ,wa% di%es & dress = ! aft]noon1 reque/+ ! cook to answ] ! bell :ile y are 9 y\r room4 ,be 9 read9ess to att5d ! door dur+ ! aft]noon4 ,make ! tray ready = tea at five o'clock1 & c>ry x 9 at ! appo9t$ h\r )\t wait+ = ! ord]4 ,if ! salad is 9 y\r c>e1 prep>e x 9 "t & see t ! mayonnaise1 if ?is is ne$$1 is made 9 season4 ,set ! table accord+ to directions already giv54 ,at dusk draw d[n ! %ades & light gas & lamps 9 hall & draw+-room4 ,9 pass+ ! s\p d n use a tray1 b put ! s\p-plate d[n 9 front ( ea* gue/1 f ! "r4 ,remove ! s\p-plate f ! "r1 leav+ ! s]vice plate unt\*$4 ,:5 ! hot d9n]-plates are br\ght 91 take up ! s]vice plate1 sub/itut+ ! d9n]-plate4 ,br+ ! meat to ! table fir/1 !n place ! vegetables on ! s]v+-table4 ,/& back ( ! c>v]1 a little to ! left4 ,take ea* plate z he s]ves x & put x d[n 9 front ( ! gue/1 f ! "r4 ,pass vegetables1 etc41 f ! left4 ,foll[ ! same plan z has be5 outl9$ e>li] 9 s]v+ salad1 sweets1 & c(fee4 ,%\ld y be expect$ to rema9 9 ! d9+-room ?r\gh\t ! meal1 ! soil$ di%es mu/ rema9 unt\*$ until aft] d9n]4 ,if y are p]mitt$ to wait 9 ! pantry1 _m ( ! soil$ di%es c be wa%$ dur+ ! meal4 ,:5 c(fee has be5 s]v$1 g up to ! *amb]s1 remove spreads1 %ams1 etc41 turn d[n b$s1 & close ! bl9ds4 ,come d[n to y\r own d9n]1 & !n cle> ! table1 wa% ! di%es1 & put ! d9+-room 9 ord] = ! night4 ,be ready to answ] ! bell dur+ ! ev5+4 ,ab\t t5 o'clock take ic$ wat] to ! *amb]s4 ,if up lat] ?an ! memb]s ( ! family1 turn out lights & lock up4 ,,! ,,end