,increasing ,personal ,efficiency ,women ,musical ,culture ,oratory ,self ,help ,some ,advice to ,young ,men ,by ,,russell ,h4 ,,conwell ,,volume #e ,,national ,,extension ,,university #eig ,fifth ,avenue1 ,new ,york ,,observation--,,every ,,man ,,his ,,own ,,university ,copyright1 #aiag1 by ,harper ,brothers ,printed in the ,united ,states of ,america ,increasing ,personal ,efficiency ,i ,,women ,some women may be superficial in education and accomplishments1 extravagant in tastes1 conspicuous in apparel1 something more than self-assured in bearing1 devoted to trivialities1 inclined to frequent public places4 ,it is1 nevertheless1 not without cause that art has always shown the virtues in woman's dress1 and that true literature teems with eloquent tributes and ideal pictures of true womanhood--from ,homer's ,andromache to ,scott's ,ellen ,douglas1 and farther4 ,while ,shakespeare had no heroes1 all his women except ,ophelia are heroines1 even if ,lady ,macbeth1 ,regan1 and ,goneril are hideously wicked4 ,in the moral world1 women are what flowers and fruit are in the physical4 ,the soul's armor is never well set to the heart until woman's hand has braced it2 and it is only when she braces it loosely that the honor of manhood fails4 ,men will mainly be what women make them1 and there can never be entirely free men until there are entirely free women with no special privileges1 but with all her rights4 ,the wife makes the home1 the mother makes the man1 and she is the creator of joyous boyhood and heroic manhood2 when women fulfil their divine mission1 all reform societies will die1 brutes will become men1 and men shall be divine4 ,there are unkind things said of her in the cheaper writings of to-day--perhaps because their authors have seen her only in boarding-houses1 restaurants1 theaters1 dance-halls1 and at card-parties2 and the poor1 degraded stage with its warped mirror shows her up to the ridicule of the cheaper brood4 ,the greatest writings and the greatest dramas of all time have more than compensated for all this indignity1 and we have only to read deep into the great literature to be disillusioned of any vulgar estimations of womanhood1 and to understand the beauty and power of soul of every woman who is true to the royalty of womanhood4 ,there are few surer tests of a manly character than the estimation he has of women1 and it is noteworthy that the men who stand highest in the esteem of both men and women are always men with worthy ideas of womanhood1 and with praiseworthy ideals for their mothers1 sisters1 wives1 and daughters4 ,as men sink in self-respect and moral worth1 their esteem of womanhood lowers4 ,the women who become the theme for poets and philosophers and high-class playwrights are the women who have been bred mainly in the home4 ,they seem without exception to abhor throngs1 and only stern necessity can induce them to appear in them2 the motherly1 matronly1 and filial graces appeal strongly to them--such as are portrayed in ,cornelia1 ,portia1 and ,cordelia4 ,they may yearn for society1 but it is the best society--for the women whose beauty and sweetness and dignity and high accomplishments and grace make us understand the ,greek mythology1 and for the men who mold the time1 who refresh our faith in heroism and virtue1 who make ,plato and ,zeno and ,shakespeare and all ,shakespeare's gentlemen possible again4 ,if there is any inferiority in women1 it is the result of environment and of lack of opportunity--never from lack of intelligence and other soul-powers4 ,there is no sex in spiritual endowments1 and woman seems entitled to all the rights of man--plus the right of protection4 ,ruskin says1 ,we are foolish without excuse in talking of the superiority of one sex over the other2 each has attributes the other has not1 each is completed by the other1 and the happiness of both depends upon each seeking and receiving from the other what the other can alone give4 ,in speaking of the time when perfect manhood and perfect womanhood has come1 ,tennyson says in ,the ,princess3 ,yet in the long years liker must they grow3 ,the man be more of woman1 she of man2 ,he gain in sweetness and in moral height1 ,nor lose the wrestling thews that throw the world2 ,she mental breadth1 nor fail in childward care1 ,nor lose the childlike in the larger mind4 ,home is the true sphere for woman2 her best work for humanity has always been done there1 or has had its first impulse from within those four walls4 ,it was home with all its duties that made the ,roman matron ,cornelia the type of the lofty woman of the world and the worthy mother4 ,while it endowed her with the power to raise two sons as worthy as any known to history1 who sacrificed their lives in defense of the ,roman poor1 it also endowed her with courage to say to the second of her sons when he was leaving her for the battle which brought his death1 ,my son1 see that thou returnest with thy shield or on it4 ,napoleon claimed that it was the women of ,france who caused the loss at ,waterloo1 not its men4 ,man's intellect is for speculation and invention1 and his energy is for just war and just conquest2 woman's intellect is for sweet ordering1 arrangement1 and decision2 her energy is not for battle1 but for rule4 ,apparently relying upon man's magnanimity not to resent her abdicating her home1 woman's exigencies--and perhaps her ambitions--have forced her more and more during the past fifty years into man's domains of speculation and energy--perhaps into some war and some conquest4 ,the ever-increasing demand for her in these man-realms which she has invaded or into which she has intruded herself is abundant evidence that she has creditably acquitted herself in the betterment of business1 education1 and literature1 as well as in the numberless things which she has invented to add beauty and comfort to the home1 and to remove much of the bitter drudgery from house and office1 and to promote the health and happiness of millions4 ,all these helps she has given1 even if she has undoubtedly lost some of the graces which have always made so lovable the woman of whom ,andromache1 ,portia1 and ,cordelia are but types4 ,although matrimony and motherhood were the first conditions of women and only conditions that poets sing about and philosophers write about1 and although these are still the conditions where she is doing her largest and noblest work in humanizing1 yet her proper sphere is as man's1 wherever she can live nobly and work nobly4 ,how many myriads in this country alone are drudging or almost drudging in shops and offices to relieve the too stern pressure of pain or poverty from some one who is dear to them1 yet are doing it unselfishly and uncomplainingly6 ,a young woman lately told me that she had for several years been employed to interview women applicants for positions2 that during these years she had interviewed scores of women daily1 and had learned much of their private lives2 that although the majority were working partly or entirely to maintain others1 yet had she never heard one complaint of the sacrifices this service involved4 ,hundreds of other women1 like ,george ,eliot1 ,charlotte ,bronte and ,helen ,hunt will long continue to bring pleasure and profit to millions through their writings4 ,it is women1 too1 whose inventions have not only lightened domestic work and brightened the home1 but also have so far removed the modern schoolroom from the little red schoolhouse of long ago2 and it is women who have improved the books and the studies for children4 ,they seem to have entered almost every activity outside of the home1 and their finer powers of observation1 aided by their innate love of the beautiful and the practicality they have learned while in service1 seem mainly to have bettered conditions for wage-earners as well as for home and childhood4 ,think of the thousands upon thousands in this land whose work with the smaller children of the school could never be so well done by men6 ,think of the service daily rendered by women outside the home1 and picture the confusion that would now arise if all these remained at home1 even for one week6 ,as a class1 women do not speak so well as men1 but they excel him as a talker4 ,in truth it is less difficult for them to talk little1 than to talk well4 ,somebody has said that there is nothing a woman cannot endure if she can only talk4 ,it is the woman who is ordained to teach talking to infancy4 ,those who see short distances see clearly1 which probably accounts for woman's being able to see into and through character so much better than men4 ,a man admires a woman who is worthy of admiration4 ,as dignity is a man's quality1 loveliness is a woman's2 her heart is love's favorite seat2 women who are loyal to their womanhood can ever influence the gnarliest hearts4 ,they go farther in love than men1 but men go farther in friendship than women4 ,women mourn for the lost love1 says ,dr4 ,brinton1 men mourn for the lost loved-one4 ,a woman's love consoles2 a man's friendship supports4 ,what a real man most desires in a woman is womanhood4 ,as every woman despises a womanish man1 so every man despises a mannish woman4 ,men are more sincere with the women of most culture1 although mere brain-women never please them so much as heart-women4 ,men feel that it is the exceptional woman who should have exceptional rights2 but they scorn women whose soul has shrunk into mere intellect1 and a godless woman is a supreme horror to them4 ,when to her womanly attributes she adds the lady's attributes of veracity1 delicate honor1 deference1 and refinement1 she becomes a high school of politeness for all who know her4 ,true women1 says ,charles ,reade1 are not too high to use their arms1 nor too low to cultivate their minds1 but ,hamerton believes that her greatest negative quality is1 that she does not of her own force push forward intellectually2 that she needs watchful masculine influence for this4 ,it is claimed that single women are mainly best comforters1 best sympathizers1 best nurses1 best companions4 ,dean ,swift says3 ,so many marriages prove unhappy because so many young women spend their time in making nets1 not in making cages4 ,perhaps this is why they say that1 in choosing a wife1 the ear is a safer guide than the eye4 ,the gifts a gentlewoman seeks are packed and locked up in a manly heart4 ,without a woman's love1 a man's soul is without its garden4 ,he is happiest in marriage who selects as his wife the woman he would have chosen as his bosom-companion1 a happy marriage demands a soul-mate as for as a house-mate or a yoke-mate4 ,spalding says that it is doubtful whether a woman should ever marry who cannot sing and does not love poetry4 ,the conceptions of a wife differ4 ,when the ,celt married1 he put necklace and bracelets upon his wife2 when the ,teuton married1 he gave his wife a horse1 an ox1 a spear1 and a shield4 ,a true wife delights both sense and soul2 with her1 a man unfolds a mine of gold4 ,like a good wine1 the happiest marriages take years to attain perfection1 and ,hamerton says that marriage is a long1 slow intergrowth1 like that of two trees closely planted in a forest4 ,the marriage of a deaf man and a blind woman is always happy2 but this does not imply that conjugal happiness is attained only under these conditions4 ,the greatest merit of many a man is his wife1 but no real woman ever wears her husband as her appendage4 ,maternity is the loveliest word in the language1 and every worthy mother is an aristocrat4 ,mothers are the chief requisites of all educational systems1 and the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world4 ,the home has always been the best school in the world1 and nothing else that is known to education can ever supersede it4 ,the cradle is the first room in the school of life1 and what is learned there lasts to the grave4 ,dearth of real mothers is responsible for dearth of real education4 ,each boy and each man is what his mother has made him1 and every worthy mother rears her children to stand upon their own two feet1 and to do without her4 ,while a thoughtful wife and mother is busied with the affairs of home1 she is never done with her intellectual education1 for she realizes early in her career that a mother loses half her influence with her children when she ceases to be their intellectual superior4 ,women are far more observant of little things than men1 and the greatest among them have marvelous powers of observation4 ,it is this power that made ,mrs4 ,gladstone and ,mrs4 ,disraeli the sturdy helpmates they were to their husbands in all their trying cares of government4 ,it is said of ,gladstone that it was not unusual for him to adjourn a ,cabinet meeting through a desire to consult with ,catherine4 ,had there not been large power of observation1 we should never have had the works of ,george ,eliot1 ,charlotte ,bronte1 ,jane ,austin1 ,helen ,hunt1 and all the other notable women creators of fiction4 ,charlotte ,cushman was the greatest actress ,america has ever produced because her observation was so close that not the smallest detail of the character she played escaped her or was neglected4 ,the beautifying of ,athens owes its inception to ,aspasia rather than to ,pericles4 ,,ii ,,musical ,,culture ,of all the arts1 none is more difficult to define than music4 ,no two persons seem to agree as to what it is1 and a harsh sound to one is often sweet music to another4 ,when music is controlled by those who use carefully their powers of observation1 it will be vastly more useful to mankind4 ,the need of music in the advancement of humanity it too apparent to admit of discussion4 ,from the ,greek instrument with one string down to the wonderful pipe-organ1 music has been intensely attractive and marvelously helpful1 and for the good of the human family4 ,no art or science needs more to be developed to-day than that of music4 ,its influence on soul and body has been noticed and advanced by some of the greatest thinkers of ancient and modern times1 therefore it is not necessary to discuss the supreme need for real music to bring into harmony motives and movements for good4 ,when we duly consider the subject of music1 and ask where we shall find the great musicians who are to-day so much in demand1 we feel that many so-called schools of music are often more misleading than instructive1 and that they follow fashions that are far more unreasonable than the fashions of dress4 ,the art of music needs philosophic study1 and it should be begun with a far better understanding of the many causes which contribute to its composition4 ,the singing of birds is literally one of the most discordant expressions of sound4 ,indeed1 the tones of the nightingale and the meadow-lark are only shrill whistles when they are considered with reference only to the tones of their voice1 yet they furnish the ideal of some of the richest music to which the ear has ever listened1 being one part of the delicate orchestra of nature4 ,the lowing of the cow1 the bellow of the bull1 the bark of an angry dog echoing among the hills at eventide1 combined with so many other different sounds and impressions1 has become enticingly sweet to the pensive listener4 ,the insect-choir of night has as much of the calming and refining influences as the bird-choir of the morning4 ,real music requires not only that the tones should be clear and resonant1 but that they should be uttered amid harmonious surroundings4 ,dixie and ,yankee ,doodle1 sung with a banjo accompaniment on a lawn in the evening1 surrounded by gay companions1 may be the most delightful music1 which will start the blood coursing or rest the disturbed mind1 but it would not be called music if sung at a funeral4 ,i ,know ,that ,my ,redeemer ,liveth is glorious music when it is sung in a great cathedral1 with echoes from its shadowy arches and the dim light of its stained-glass windows4 ,but the same solo would be in awful discord with a ballroom jig4 ,harmonious circumstances and appropriate environment are as essential for perfect effects in music as is the concord of sweet sounds4 ,the foolish idea that music consists in screaming up to the highest ,c and growling down to the lowest ,b has misled many an amateur1 and destroyed her helpfulness to a world that has far too much misery and far too little of the joy that comes from a sweet-voiced songster4 ,the beginner in voice culture who attempts to wiggle her voice like a hired mourner1 and with her tremulous effects sets the teeth of her audience on edge1 has surely been misled into darkest delusion as to music1 and will soon be lost amid the throng of vocal failures4 ,extremists are out of place anywhere1 but the myriads of them in the musical world make humanity shudder4 ,what is needed in music to-day more than anything else is a standard of musical culture which shall demand careful discipline in all the influences that contribute to good music4 ,true music is the music that always produces benign effects1 the music that holds the attention of the auditor and permanently influences him to nobler thought1 feeling1 and action4 ,those large-hearted1 artistic-souled men and women who are capable of interpreting into feeling what they have heard from voice or instrument must be the final court of appeal4 ,a trapeze performance in acoustics is not music4 ,it has been frequently shown that music is potent in its effects upon the body as well as upon the soul4 ,in #aija1 a notable illustration of the power of music over disease was given at the ,samaritan ,hospital1 connected with ,temple ,university in ,philadelphia1 although the experiments were made under disadvantageous circumstances and environment4 ,the patients were informed what the physicians were endeavoring to do1 and the efforts of the first few months were wasted for the most part4 ,many of the patients who were placed under the influence of the music grew confident that they were going to be cured4 ,while the recovery of some seemed miraculous1 those who conducted the experiments felt that the healing might be largely due to the influence of the mind and not directly to the music4 ,the matter was dropped for several months1 until the patients were nearly all new cases4 ,the doctors charged the nurses not to let the patients know for what cause the music was placed in the hospital4 ,they eliminated also the personal influence of the nurses as well as the use of drugs at the time the music was produced4 ,the experiment convinced those who conducted it that music has a powerful restorative effect even upon a person who is suffering from a combination of diseases4 ,so many of the patients who recovered at that time from the influence of the music are alive and in good health to-day that common honesty disposes us to conclude that there is some undiscovered benefit in music which should be immediately investigated4 ,this will never be attained by musical faddists or by selfish musicians who sing or perform for applause or money4 ,some plain1 every day-man or woman will ultimately be the apostle of music for the people1 and the experiments at ,samaritan ,hospital furnish only a suggestion of the resources of music which must soon be known to the world4 ,there was one patient in the hospital who had lost his memory through softening of the brain4 ,he lay most of the time unconscious1 but occasionally talked irrationally upon all sorts of subjects4 ,a quartet sang several pieces in his ward1 but the nurses who sat upon each side of him noticed no effect whatever upon him until the quartet sang ,my ,old ,kentucky ,home4 ,then his eyes brightened and he began to hum the tune4 ,before they had finished the third verse1 he asked the nurse about the singing1 and requested the quartet to repeat the song4 ,his intelligence seemed completely normal for a little while after the music ceased4 ,he asked and answered questions clearly1 but soon relapsed into his incoherent talk and listlessness4 ,when the man's lawyer heard of the effects upon the patient1 he asked that the song might be sung while he was present1 that he might then ask the patient about some very important papers of great value to the patient's family4 ,as soon as the song was again sung by the quartet his intelligence returned4 ,he informed the lawyer accurately as to the bank vault in which his box was locked1 and told where he had left the keys in a private drawer of his desk4 ,although the effect of the music was not permanent as to his case1 many persons who know of it feel that some time music may be so applied as permanently to cure even such cases1 if kept up for a sufficient length of time4 ,accidents to the skull1 heart diseases1 nervous exhaustion1 and spinal ailments seem especially amenable to music4 ,two of the hospital cases of paralysis were permanently relieved by music4 ,in one of these cases instrumental music seemed to produce a strong electric effect4 ,while four violins were accompanied by an organ1 the patient could use his feet and hands1 but it was several weeks before he could walk without music4 ,in the other case1 vocal music put an insomnia patient to sleep1 but after sleeping through the program1 the patient was better2 after a few trials he returned home4 ,some of the hundred cases experimented upon were complete failures4 ,but those conducting the experiments were convinced that the failure was attributable to the fact that they were unable to find the right kind of music4 ,in the use of religious selections1 ,pleyel's ,hymn made the patients of every ward worse2 but ,the ,dead ,march from ,saul was soothing to typhoid patients4 ,when this march was rendered softly1 the nurses discovered that two cases had been so susceptible to the influences of the music that the physicians omitted the usual treatment and the patients recovered sooner than some other patients who had the disease in a less dangerous form4 ,children were helped by a different class of music from that used with adults1 and difference in sex also was noted4 ,mothers who sing to their children may become the best investigators as to the power of vocal music on the healthy development of childhood4 ,in the ,baptist ,temple1 ,philadelphia1 several hymns were once forcefully rendered by the great chorus of the church to a congregation of three thousand people4 ,at the close1 slips of paper were passed to the worshipers1 and they were asked to write upon the paper what thoughts the music had suggested to them4 ,while there was nothing in the anthems suggestive of youth1 and the burden of the stanzas seemed to divert from childhood1 yet more than half of the two thousand slips returned attested that the hearer had been reminded of his schooldays and of the games of childhood2 these slips were collected before the congregation had time to confer4 ,it shows that the music was not in accord with the words1 and that it had greater power upon the mind than the words had4 ,it proves that1 to produce its highest effects1 sacred music must harmonize with the meaning of the words and with the environment4 ,it also shows that the purpose for which one sings is an important factor--random vociferations or a display of vocal gymnastics even of the most cultured kind is both inartistic and unmusical4 ,these pages have been written to suggest that music is still with the common people2 that the future blessings which mankind shall derive from musical art and science are probably dependent upon some observant person who is free from the trammels of misguided and misdirected culture1 and who may come to it with an independent genius1 and handle the subject in the light of every-day common-sense4 ,,iii ,,oratory ,oratory has always been a potent influence for good4 ,the printing-press with its newspapers and magazines and tens of thousands of books has done much during the past fifty years to draw attention away from oratory4 ,the printing-press is a huge blessing1 and has greatly advanced during these years that oratory has declined in public esteem or public attention4 ,but we are learning that there is yet something in the living man1 in his voice and his manner and his mesmeric force1 which cannot be expressed through the cold lead of type4 ,hence the need for orators1 both men and women1 has been steadily increasing during the past few years1 until there seems to be a pressing demand for the restoration of the science and the art of oratory4 ,the country lad or the hard-working laborer or mechanic who thinks that public speaking is beyond his reach has done himself a wrong4 ,it was such as they who oftener than can be told have become some of the greatest orators of history4 ,men who afterward became great as effective debaters made their first addresses to the cows in the pasture1 to the pigs in pens1 to the birds in trees1 and to the dog and the cat upon the hearth4 ,they often drew lessons concerning the effects of their addresses from the actions of the animal auditors which heard their talk1 and were attracted or repulsed by what they heard and saw4 ,there is a mystery about public speaking4 ,after years of study and application1 some men cannot accomplish as much by their addresses as some uncultured laborer can do with his very first attempt4 ,some have imperfectly called this power personal magnetism4 ,while this is mainly born with men and women--as the power of the true poet and the true teacher--yet it can be cultivated to a surprising degree4 ,the schools of elocution so often seem to fail to recognize the wide gulf that exists between elocution and oratory4 ,the former is an art which deals primarily with enunciation1 pronunciation1 and gesture2 the work of the later science is persuasive--it has to do mainly with influencing the head and the heart4 ,there is a law of oratory which does not seem to be understood or recognized by elocution teachers4 ,the plow-boy in a debating society of the country school may feel that natural law1 like ,daniel ,webster1 without being conscious that he is following it4 ,but there is a danger of losing this great natural power through injurious cultivation4 ,the powerful speaker is consciously or unconsciously observant at all times of his audience1 and he naturally adopts the tones1 the gesture1 and the language which attract the most attention and leave the most potent influence upon the audience4 ,that is the law of all oratory1 whether it applies to the domestic animals1 to conversation with our fellows1 to debates or addresses1 lectures1 speeches1 sermons1 or arguments4 ,where the orator has not been misdirected or misled by some superficial teacher of elocution1 his aim will be first to win the favorable attention of his audience and then to strongly impress them with his opening sentence1 his appearance1 his manners1 and his subject4 ,his reputation will have also very much to do with winning this favorable impression at first4 ,the words of the speaker either drive away or attract1 and the speaker endeavors at the outset to command the attention of the hearers1 whether they be dogs or congregation4 ,the beginner in oratory who is true to his instincts strives to adopt the methods which he feels will favorably impress those for whom he has a message4 ,in his oration at the funeral of ,julius ,caesar1 ,mark ,anthony disarmed the enemies of ,caesar and of himself by opening his oration with1 ,friends1 ,romans1 countrymen1 lend me your ears4 ,i come to bury ,caesar1 not to praise him4 ,almost any man or woman can become an orator of power by keeping himself or herself natural while talking4 ,the second condition of a successful oration is the statements of the important facts or truths4 ,cicero1 the elder ,pitt1 and ,edward ,everett held strictly to the statement of all the facts at the outset of their speech4 ,facts and truths are the most important things in all kinds of oratory2 as they are the most difficult to handle1 the audience is more likely to listen to them at the opening of the talk1 and they must be placed before the hearers clearly and emphatically1 before the speaker enters upon the next division of his address4 ,the third condition of a successful address is the argument1 or reasoning which is used to prove the conclusion he wishes his hearers to reach4 ,it is here that logic has its special place2 it is at this vital point that many political speakers fail to convince the men they address4 ,after he has thus reasoned1 the natural orator makes his appeal1 which is the chief purpose of all true oratory4 ,it is here where the orator becomes vehement1 here where he shows all the ornament of his talk in appropriate figures of speech4 ,the most effective orators are always those whose hearts are in strong sympathy with humanity1 and whose sympathies are always aroused to plead for men4 ,this is the condition that accounts for the eloquence--the power to arouse hearers--which characterizes men like ,logan1 the ,american ,indian1 and which characterizes many of the religious enthusiasts like ,peter the ,hermit1 who have surprised the world and often moved them to mighty deeds4 ,so long as our government depends upon the votes of the people1 just so long must there be a stirring need of men and women orators to teach the principles of government and to keep open to the light of truth the consciences of the thousands and millions whose votes will decide the welfare or the misfortune of our nation4 ,as the speaker must adapt himself and his message to all kinds of people1 it is difficult to advise any one in certain terms how to accomplish this4 ,it is another instance of the necessity of cultivating the daily habit of observation1 and of being always loyal to our instincts4 ,while schools and colleges have their uses1 they are by no means a necessity for those who will accomplish great things through their oratory4 ,many a man laden with a wealth of college accomplishment has been an utter failure on the platform4 ,where reading-matter is as abundant and as cheap as it is in ,america1 the poor boy at work upon the farm or in the factory1 with no time but his evenings for study1 may get the essentials of education1 and by observing those who speak may give himself forms of oratorical expression that will enable him to outshine those with scholarship who have been led into fads4 ,we must be impressed with a high sense of duty in becoming an orator of any class2 we must feel that it is our calling to adhere to the truth always and in all things1 to warn our hearers of dangers1 and to encourage the good and help those who are struggling to be so4 ,we must have a passion for oratory which shall impel us to vigorous thought and eloquent expression4 ,the greatest oratory is that which is most persuasive4 ,it is not so fully in what an orator says or the vehemence with which he says it that counts1 but the practical good that results from it4 ,many an oration has been elegant enough from its choice diction and labored phraseology1 yet it has fallen flat upon the audience4 ,when a man has been worked into natural passion over his theme1 his words will strike root and inspire his hearers into similar passion4 ,it is wonderful how true are our instincts in detecting what comes from the heart and that which is mere words4 ,the greatest orators have been those who have not learned by rote what they have spoken4 ,when ,lincoln broke away in his celebrated ,cooper ,institute address1 and pictured the word freedom written by the ,lord across the skies in rainbow hues1 the hearts of his audience stopped beating for the instant4 ,it is foolhardy for any one to presume to speak with no preparation1 for those who wish to give themselves to oratory should carefully study the great debaters1 learn how they expressed themselves1 and then accumulate important truths and facts concerning their subject4 ,but we must not forget that too much study as to nicety of expression may lose something of the mountainous effects of what we wish to state4 ,when an orator feels his subject1 his soul overflows with a thrill indescribable1 which is known only to those who have felt it4 ,genius is lifted free for the moment to fly at will to the mountain heights1 and finds supreme delight therein4 ,everything that is food for the mind is helpful to the orator1 whether it come from school or work4 ,but it is an attainment which can be reached by the every-day plain man employed in any every-day occupation4 ,demosthenes1 the greatest orator the world has yet known1 found his ,school of ,oratory along the shore talking to the waves4 ,john ,b4 ,gough and ,henry ,clay and both the elder and the younger ,pitt gained all their powers by means as humble4 ,the mere study of grammar has never yet made a correct speaker2 the mere study of rhetoric has never yet made a correct and powerful writer2 and the study of elocution cannot make an orator4 ,grammar1 rhetoric1 and elocution may teach him only the laws which govern speech1 writing1 oratory1 and leave him ignorant of the best methods of execution4 ,during the last hundred years the leading orators of ,congress have mainly come from among the humble and the poor1 and all the learning they had of their art was got in the schoolhouse1 the shop1 the fields1 and the ,university of ,hard ,knocks4 ,it is a calling that seems to be open to every man and woman of fair talent4 ,if you desire to become a platform orator1 read the lives of successful orators1 and apply to yourself the means which helped them to distinction4 ,but be vigilant not to lose your own individuality1 and never strive to be any one but yourself4 ,in no place more than upon the platform does sham mean shame2 nothing is more transparent4 ,,iv ,,self-,,help ,although ,samuel ,smiles's ,self-,help is the first and perhaps the best of the many inspirational books that have been written of late years1 it is by far the most serviceable of all to any one who wishes and intends to stand squarely on his own feet and to fight his own battle of life from start to finish4 ,that book is attractive because it is anecdotal of life and character1 and because of the interest that all men feel in those who have achieved great things through their own labors1 their trials1 and their struggles4 ,it abounds with references to men who were forced to be self-helpful1 who were born lowly enough1 but died among ,god's gentlemen1 and often among the aristocracy of the land1 through sheer force of character1 labor1 and determination4 ,they have left their footprints on the sands of time mainly because they were self-reliant and self-helpful4 ,the aids to the royal life are all within1 and no life is worthless unless its owner wills it2 the fountain of all good is within1 and it will bubble up1 if we dig4 ,doctor ,holland used to say that there is a super-abundance of inspiration in ,america1 but a lamentable dearth of perspiration4 ,aspiration plus perspiration carries men to dizzy heights of success2 aspiration minus perspiration often lands them in the gutter4 ,self-help is not selfishness4 ,the duty of helping oneself in the highest sense always involves the duty of helping others4 ,the self-helpful are not always the men who have achieved greatest success in what vulgarians call success4 ,that man's life is a success which has attained the end for which he started out--the greatest failure may sometimes be the hugest success through the discipline it has afforded4 ,they tell us that men never fail who die in a worthy cause2 that it is nobler to have failed in a noble cause than to have won in a low one2 that it is not failure1 but low aim1 that is wicked4 ,god sows the seed and starts us all out with about the same quantity and the same quality2 whether the crop shall be abundant depends upon the environment in which we grow and the way we take care of the field4 ,the supreme end of each man's life is to take individual care of his own garden4 ,when this is neglected his life is wasted1 and there is no immorality that is comparable to the immorality of a wasted life--and every life is wasted unless its owner has made it yield its full capacity4 ,if it is only a ten-bushel-an-acre field1 he has done worthy work who has reaped ten bushels from an acre2 if it is a seventy-bushel-an-acre field it is dishonorable to have reaped sixty-nine bushels from an acre4 ,god gives us the chance2 the improvement of it we give ourselves4 ,the spirit of self-help is the root of all genuine growth4 ,help from the outside may be convenient1 but it enfeebles2 all self-help invigorates4 ,the self-helper must be self-reliant2 the measure of his self-help is always proportioned to the measure of his self-reliance4 ,the self-reliant does not consider himself as the creature of circumstances1 but the architect of them4 ,all that ,adam had1 all that ,caesar could1 we have had and can4 ,the self-reliant and the self-helpful are the minority2 the majority are forever looking toward and relying upon some government or some institution to do for them what they should only do for themselves4 ,a real man wants no protection2 so long as his human powers are left to him1 he asks nothing more than the freedom to win his own battles4 ,the best any government or any institution can do for men is to leave them as free as possible from either guidance or help1 so that they may best develop and improve themselves4 ,as it has been during the centuries1 we put too much faith in government and other institutions1 and too little in ourselves4 ,men who count for something do not wait for opportunities from any source--they help themselves to their opportunities4 ,they can win who believe they can1 and the strong-hearted always ultimately achieve success4 ,a nation is worth just what the individuals of that nation are worth1 and the highest philanthropy and patriotism does not wholly consist in aiding institutions and enacting laws--especially the laws which teach men to lean--but they rather consist in helping men to improve themselves through their own self-help4 ,there is no aid comparable to the aid that is given a man to help himself--we may stand him upon his feet1 but remaining upon them should be his own task4 ,he is a magnificent somebody who steadfastly refuses to hang upon others2 and nothing brings the blush sooner to the true-hearted man1 than to feel that he has been unnecessarily helped to anything by men or by governments4 ,there is no man who rides through life so well as the man who has learned to ride by being set upon the bare-backed horse called self-dependence4 ,paradise was not meant for cowards2 self-reliance and self-help is the manliness of the soul4 ,the solid foundations of all liberty rest upon individual character1 and individual character is the only sure guaranty for social security and national progress4 ,whatever crushes individuality is despotism1 no matter by what other name you call it4 ,the gods are always on the side of the man who relies on himself and helps himself2 men's arms are long enough to reach stars1 if they will only stretch them4 ,it is so contrary to the spirit of our nation to be anything but self-helpful4 ,the flag of freedom cannot long float over a nation of deadheads2 only those who determine to pay their way from cradle to grave have a right to make the journey4 ,schiller says that the kind of education that perfects the human race is action1 conduct1 self-culture1 self-control4 ,it has been said that the individual is perfected far more by work than by reading1 by action more than by study1 by character more than by biography2 these are courses that are given by the ,university of ,life more completely than in all other institutions known to men4 ,the great men of science1 literature1 art1 action--those apostles of great thoughts and lords of the great heart--belong to no special rank4 ,they come from colleges1 workshops1 farms1 from poor men's huts and rich men's mansions2 but they all began with reliance upon themselves1 and with an instinctive feeling that they must help themselves solely in climbing to the work or the station which they had assigned to themselves4 ,many of ,god's greatest apostles of thought and feeling and action have come from the humblest stations1 but the most insuperable difficulties have not long been obstacles to them4 ,these greatest of difficulties are true men's greatest helpers--they stimulate powers that might have lain dormant all through life1 but often have readily yielded to the stout and reliant heart4 ,there is no greater blessing in the world than poverty which is allied to self-reliance and the spirit of self-help4 ,poverty is the northwind which lashes men into vikings4 ,lord ,bacon says that men believe too great things of riches1 and too little of indomitable perseverance4 ,every nation that has a history has a long list of men who began life in the humblest stations1 yet rose to high station in honor and service4 ,no inheritance and environments can do for a man what he can do for himself4 ,cook1 the navigator1 ,brindley1 the engineer1 and ,burns1 the poet1 are three men who began life as day laborers2 the most poetic of clergymen1 ,jeremy ,taylor2 the inventor of the spinning-jenny and founder of cotton manufacture1 ,sir ,richard ,arkwright2 the greatest of landscape painters1 ,turner1 and that most distinguished ,chief-justice ,tenterden were barbers4 ,ben ,jonson1 the poet2 ,telford1 the engineer2 ,hugh ,miller1 the geologist2 ,cunningham1 the sculptor1 were ,english stone-masons4 ,inigo ,jones1 the architect2 ,hunter1 the physiologist2 ,romney and ,poie1 the painters2 ,gibson1 the sculptor2 ,fox1 the statesman2 ,wilson1 the ornithologist2 ,livingstone1 the missionary--started life as weavers4 ,admiral ,sir ,cloudesly ,shovel2 ,bloomfield1 the poet2 ,carey1 the missionary--were shoemakers4 ,bunyan1 was a tinker2 ,herschel1 a musician2 ,lincoln1 a rail-splitter2 ,faraday1 a book-binder2 ,stephenson1 the inventor of the locomotive1 a stoker2 ,watt1 the discoverer of steam-power1 a watchmaker2 ,franklin1 a printer2 ,president ,johnson1 a tailor2 ,president ,garfield1 an employee on a canal-boat2 ,louisa ,alcott1 both housemaid and laundress2 ,james ,whitcomb ,riley1 an itinerant sign-painter2 ,thoreau1 a man-of-all-work for ,emerson2 the poets1 ,keats and ,drake1 as well as ,sir ,humphry ,davy1 were druggists4 ,benjamin ,thompson was a humble ,new ,hampshire schoolmaster whose industry1 perseverance1 and integrity1 coupled to his genius and a truly benevolent spirit1 ultimately made him the companion of kings and philosophers1 ,count ,rumford of the ,holy ,roman ,empire4 ,he declined to participate in the ,revolution1 and was compelled to flee from his home in ,rumford1 now ,concord 7,new ,hampshire71 leaving behind his mother1 wife1 and friends2 but this persecution by his countrymen led to his greatness4 ,in the spring of #aggf ,general ,howe sent him to ,england with important despatches for the ,ministry4 ,at once the ,english government appreciated his worth and scientific men sought his acquaintance4 ,in less than four years after he landed in ,england he became ,under-,secretary of ,state4 ,in #aghh1 he left ,england with letters to the ,elector of ,bavaria1 who immediately offered him honorable employment which the ,english government permitted him to accept after he had been knighted by the king4 ,in ,bavaria he became lieutenant-general1 commander-in-chief of staff1 minister of war1 member of the council of state1 knight of ,poland1 member of the academy of science in three cities1 commander-in-chief of the general staff1 superintendent of police of ,bavaria1 and chief of the regency during the sovereign's compulsory absence in #agih4 ,during his ten years' service he made great civil and military reforms and produced such salutary changes in the condition of the people that they erected a monument in his honor in the pleasure-grounds of ,munich1 which he had made for them4 ,when ,munich was attacked by an ,austrian army in #agif1 he conducted the defense so successfully that he was accorded the highest praise throughout ,europe4 ,the ,bavarian monarch showed his appreciation by making him a count2 he chose the title of ,count ,rumford as an honor to the birthplace of his wife and child4 ,he ended his days at ,paris in literary and scientific studies and in the society of the most learned men of ,europe4 ,the ,rumford professorship at ,harvard was very liberally endowed by him1 and he gave five thousand dollars to the ,american ,academy of ,arts and ,sciences in #agif4 ,v ,,some ,,advice ,,to ,,young ,,men ,a life is divine when duty is a joy4 ,the best work we ever do is the work we get pleasure from doing1 and the work we are likeliest to enjoy most is the work we are best fitted to do with our talent4 ,there is nothing in the world except marriage that we should be slower in taking upon ourselves than our life-work2 therefore1 think much1 read much1 inquire much before you assume any life career4 ,when you have once decided what is best fitted for you1 pursue it ceaselessly and courageously1 no matter how far distant it may be1 how arduous the labor attending it1 or how difficult the ascent4 ,the greater the difficulty surmounted1 the more you will value your achievement and the greater power you will have for keeping on with your work after you have reached your goal4 ,do your utmost to find a friend who is older than you1 and consult him freely1 and give every man your ear1 for the humblest in station and those with the most meager acquirements in other matters may see some few things more clearly than other men1 and may be well stored with what you most require4 ,take each man's advice1 but act according to your own judgment4 ,teachers should be the best advisers of those about to enter upon their life-work1 and no service of the schoolmaster or professor can ever be more helpful to the young intrusted to him than that of helping them to choose a career4 ,the best work real teachers do for their pupils is by no means the teaching of a few minor branches--it is almost always the work he is not paid for1 and which nobody outside of those who realize what real education is1 seems ever to consider4 ,it is sympathy for their students1 getting them to understand the great things that are involved in the process of getting an education1 making them realize that true education means growth of all our spiritual faculties--head and heart and will1 and that what we get from textbooks is the very least part of an education4 ,it is helping them to understand that knowledge got from books and from schoolmasters is always a menace to a man whose spiritual faculties of head1 heart1 and will have not been thoroughly disciplined4 ,it is wise counsel in choosing a life career4 ,instead of looking upon this side of the work as divine1 instead of being wise counselors and friendly guides during this great transitional stage from youth to manhood1 teachers can be far more interested in their individual concerns or in what they call research-work--the research-work may give some temporary glory to themselves1 and give some little advertisement to the institutions that employ them2 but the supreme duty they owe to their students1 to ,god1 and to humanity is to do their utmost to make full men1 and worthy and successful men1 out of the youths whose education they have taken upon themselves4 ,no traitor is such a traitor to his country and to the whole world as the man who is unfaithful to this sacred trust4 ,once again1 find some sincere and prudent elder counselor1 and turn to him in all your difficulties4 ,get advice as to the best books to read--a good book is the best of counselors1 for it is the best of some good man2 and it is a patient counselor whom we may continually consult upon the same subject as often as we wish4 ,but waste no time1 especially at the opening of your career1 upon books which have no message for your manhood and no helpfulness in the work you shall assume for life4 ,when you have once taken up a book as your counselor1 don't put it aside until it has been thoroughly digested and assimilated4 ,one book read is worth a hundred books peeped through2 and of all the dilettantes1 a literary dilettante is the most contemptible4 ,bacon says1 ,some books are to be tasted1 others to be swallowed1 some few to be chewed and digested4 ,but it is only the books that are to be chewed and digested that we can afford to peruse at the outset in our career2 the literary pleasure--gardens--may come later in life4 ,do your utmost to understand poetic expression1 for the poets are the greatest teachers in the world as well as the greatest of all legislators4 ,it is they who teach the great in conduct and the pure in thought4 ,without education that shall enable us to take them as our friends1 life bears upon it the stamp of death4 ,the great poets are now the only truth-tellers left to ,god4 ,they are free1 and they make their lovers free2 the great poet is nature's masterpiece4 ,at the touch of his imagination words blossom into beauty4 ,a true poet is the most precious gift to a nation1 for he feels keenest the glorious duty of serving truth2 he cannot strive for despotism of any kind1 for it is still the instinct of all great spirits to be free4 ,more than other authors1 the poets make us self-forgetful1 make life and the whole human race nobler in our eyes2 all things are friendly and sacred to them1 all days holy1 all good men divine4 ,there is very little worthy work nowadays that does not need some schooling that it may be well done4 ,if you have an opportunity to give yourself this help1 don't neglect it4 ,carefully select the courses that will be most helpful to you in your career1 and don't be side-tracked by any of what we sentimentalists term culture studies4 ,there's nothing better in the world than culture study1 if we can afford it and have time for it4 ,but there is not a greater or more wicked waste of valuable time than the time spent upon what some sentimentalists term culture study4 ,when you have once taken up the studies you have decided upon1 keep steadily to your course and shun diversions4 ,recreations are as essential to the student who intends to do high-class work as food is to the body2 but diversions disqualify him for earnest work1 and may breed a habit of halfness that shall bring his failure4 ,don't be foolish and hope to be great in many lines4 ,who sips of many arts drinks none4 ,in every vocation to-day competition is so keen that the man who will succeed must be content to be supreme in one thing alone4 ,halfness weakens all our spiritual powers1 and thoroughness is the central passion of all worthy characters4 ,it is nobler to be confined to one calling1 and to excel in that1 than to dabble in forty4 ,there is some odor about a dabbler that makes him especially offensive to all clean high-class men and women4 ,but when we have formed the habit of doing carelessly other tasks than our life-work1 we shall soon get into the way of doing carelessly the work of our chosen calling4 ,there is nothing that gives us greater assurance that our life-work will be thoroughly done than to habituate ourselves to do the slightest task completely4 ,sing the last note fully1 make the last letter of your name complete4 ,eat the last morsel deliberately4 ,in a real man's life there are no trifles4 ,whatever is worth doing by him is worth doing well4 ,the many-sided ,edward ,everett attributed his being able to do so many things well to his early habit of doing even the least thing thoroughly4 ,he used to say that he prided himself upon the way he tied up the smallest paper parcel4 ,although schools may be very helpful1 don't forget to emphasize again that they are merely helpers4 ,the man is somebody only when the fight is won within himself4 ,without the schools men have often reached the pinnacles of success1 through their own individual earnestness and energy4 ,schools make wise men wiser1 but they may make fools greater fools than ever4 ,if colleges have fallen somewhat into disrepute1 it is largely due to the fact that we may have sent more fools than wise men to college4 ,many a man has been the better for being too poor to attend school1 like ,franklin1 ,lincoln1 ,peter ,cooper1 and ten thousand other ,americans4 ,their thirst for what books had to give them forced them to work harder and to deny themselves all the enjoyments that so vulgarize yet so charm the cheaper brood4 ,all that is won by sacrifice and downright hard work is priceless1 and many noble men and women who have risen to high honor and station owe their place and power solely to this4 ,be always mindful that power is the only safe foundation for reputation4 ,thoughtful ,americans are not concerning themselves about who your ancestors were1 and whether or not they were graduated from some college4 ,like ,doctor ,holmes1 they feel that old families and old trees generally have their best parts underground1 and that the only progressive is the man who is bigger in thought and feeling and accomplishment than his father was4 ,they believe that it is unimportant where you buy your educational tools1 if you are only doing good work with them4 ,there is only one true aristocracy in ,america--those with more spiritual power and individual accomplishment than the rest of men4 ,emerson says that all the winds that move the vanes of universities blow from antiquity1 and this is responsible for many foolish words and many fool acts of schoolmen which are so often misleading the unsuspecting public4 ,nothing is more foolish than the idea that any schooling is worthless which is obtained in schools after the regular school hours2 and more than one attempt has been made to enact laws which shall hinder from practice physicians and lawyers who have been obliged to get their knowledge through channels other than the conventional4 ,the victory of the general does not depend upon the place where he got his military training or the time of the day when he studied4 ,oliver ,cromwell1 the greatest general of his day1 was a farmer until his fortieth year1 when he entered the army of the ,parliament against ,charles ,i4 ,the only question that concerns the nation that puts a general at the head of its forces is1 has he the powers that shall make us victorious8 ,men in distress don't ask for the pedigree of the life-saver1 nor do they stop to inquire when he graduated4 ,don't be frightened off by sticklers for what is customary4 ,knowledge is the right of the poorest boy and girl in ,america1 and it can be had by the humblest in the land4 ,be convinced of this and enter the race4 ,the world steps aside and lets the man pass who knows where he is going2 all the world will shout to clear the track when they see a determined giant is coming4 ,in choosing your career1 don't be limited to the old professions4 ,there are to-day many more occupations calling for the highest skill and offering the highest inducements than there were twenty years ago1 and these positions are steadily increasing4 ,many occupations which were recently regarded almost as menial have risen almost to professions--cooking1 agriculture1 decorative art1 forestry1 nursing1 sanitation1 designing apparel1 and countless others2 and the men and women qualified for these are surer of better positions than formerly1 and far better rewards4 ,but the youth who is imbued with the determination to be right and to do right must never lose sight of this truth--that life is vastly more than place and meat and raiment4 ,living for self is suicide2 men that are men get far greater enjoyment and far greater reward from making life a blessing for those who come their way than they get from all other things combined4 ,no man lives so truly for himself as he who lives for other people1 and one of the chiefest purposes of education is that it gives larger views of life and adds greater power to serve humanity4 ,the man who is really in earnest to make his life count is studiously observant4 ,each day and each place multiplies his means of happiness for himself and others4 ,,the ,,end