,transcriber's ,notes3 ,words in italics in the original are surrounded by underscores4 ,a row of asterisks represents a thought break4 ,,memorial ,,of ,,mrs4 ,,lucy ,,gilpatrick ,,marsh4 ,a ,,funeral ,,address ,,delivered ,,at ,,the ,,eliot ,,church1 ,,boston ,,highlands1 ,,monday1 ,,june #bb1 #ahfh4 ,,by ,,rev4 ,a4 ,c4 ,,thompson1 ,d4,d4 ,,printed ,,by ,,order ,,of ,,the ,,executive ,,committee ,,of ,,the ,,eliot ,,city ,,mission ,,society4 ,,boston3 ,,gould ,,and ,,lincoln1 #ei ,,washington ,,street4 #ahfh4 ,,funeral ,,address4 ,when the ,lord removed his servant ,moses1 there was but one mourner1 and that mourner was all ,israel4 ,to-day a whole community is the mourner4 ,a mother--may ,i not say1 the mother--in ,israel has been taken from us4 ,a woman1 a whole woman1 an aged woman1 a thoroughly ,christian woman1--one worthy to have sat with ,mary ,magdalene and the other ,mary over against the sepulchre1 to have returned with them1 that she might assist in preparing sweet spices1 and1 when the ,sabbath was past1 to have come back again to the tomb1--is herself to be laid away to-day4 ,we glance at her career and character4 ,it is of small moment where she was born1--it was in the town of ,biddeford1 ,maine2 of small moment that it was on ,july #c;d1 #agib2 of small moment that she was the youngest of twelve children1 none of whom now survive4 ,but it is a point of interest to us1 that1 when a little past twenty years of age1 she became by renewing grace a child of ,god2 that the chief reason for leaving home1 fifty years ago1 was a persistent opposition1 on the part of friends1 to her ,christian activity2 that afterwards she left for a time her field of usefulness in this city to attend upon her mother in her last sickness1 and then had the satisfaction of rejoicing over the conversion of that parent at the same age she has now herself departed this life4 ,still later1 and under the same circumstances1 she performed a similar kind service for her father in his closing sickness1 and was cheered by the hope of his conversion too1 when just verging upon fourscore4 ,being in ,biddeford at that time for ten months1 she established a female prayer-meeting1 and several conversions followed4 ,she also1 after much opposition1 opened a ,sabbath school1 having obtained permission to occupy a school-house1 but at the same time being forbidden to use wood belonging to the town4 ,that1 it was supposed1 would prevent the attendance of children4 ,but the noble woman was not to be baffled thus4 ,in her own arms she carried fuel from her house4 ,of course the ,sabbath school was a success4 ,she had previously had tempting offers1 to the extent even of the homestead to be secured to her1 if she would remain there2 but ,providence1 as she believed1 evidently called her to ,christian labors in this city1 and to her mind that was decisive4 ,pecuniary considerations might not divert her from the ,master's service here4 ,how far from a sinecure was that6 ,while acting indefatigably as matron of a reformatory institution1 she attended the prayer-meetings of the church to which she belonged1 and a private devotional meeting preparatory to each of them4 ,in addition to her regular ,sabbath-school exercise1 she once a week taught a class of colored children1 and spent ,saturday afternoons in visiting members of the same1 besides paying weekly visits to persons in the ,house of ,correction4 ,one of the senior members of this church hands me1 by request1 the following memorandum3,footnote3 ,rev ,r4 ,anderson1 ,d4,d4-- ,i have known ,mrs4 ,marsh since the year #ahbj1 or about forty-eight years4 ,in that year ,i came to ,boston from the ,andover ,seminary1 with several classmates1 to spend a vacation in missionary labors1 and made my home at a religious boarding-house1 kept by ,miss ,witham and ,miss ,gilpatrick4 ,as ,i recollect ,miss ,gilpatrick1--and ,i well recollect her1--she was the same sort of a ,christian woman then that we have known her to be of late years1 only without that grand development1 which time and the grace of ,god have given her1 placing her among the more remarkable ,christian women of her generation4 ,miss ,witham was married1 not long after1 to the ,rev4 ,amos ,bingham1 brother of the missionary1 and1 at a later period1 ,miss ,gilpatrick was married to the ,rev4 ,christopher ,marsh1 pastor of the ,congregational ,church in ,west ,roxbury4 ,for several years before her marriage she had filled a responsible station in one of the most self-denying departments of the religious charities in ,boston2 and always1 as ,i have understood1 with the unbounded confidence of those who knew her1 in her ability1 integrity1 and devotedness to the cause of her ,redeemer1 and in her unwearied efforts for the salvation of those placed under her care4 ,since that time she has been a striking illustration of an humble1 devoted1 self-denying1 intelligent1 useful follower of the ,lord ,jesus4 99 99 99 99 99 ,what might be expected of such a one as parishioner8 ,just what her pastor at ,jamaica ,plain1,footnote3 ,rev ,a4 ,h4 ,quint1 ,d4,d4 and other friends there testify4 ,the church in that place1 then struggling into existence1 was not a little indebted to her4 ,it was her constant endeavor to promote sociability in the congregation2 she made it an invariable practice to call on all new-comers1 and to request others to do the same4 ,never did she1 except under necessity1 absent herself from church meetings1 nor omit to speak a kind word and also a faithful word to those whom she met1 when suitable occasions presented4 ,her spirit and ways were peculiarly motherly4 ,during her residence here1 ,i have never looked upon her as a parishioner so much as a colleague1 my senior1 and one that may well be accounted a model4 99 99 99 99 99 ,what might be expected of such a one as pastor's wife8 ,i indulge in no vague and conjectural portrait-painting1 nor yield to any professional bias1 but give the deliberate judgment of those acquainted1 and qualified to speak4 ,in the delicate relation now referred to1 she was greatly beloved at ,west ,roxbury2,footnote3 #ahca-ahej4 her life there was that of a missionary laboring in the by-ways for miles around4 ,it was very much owing to her truly self-denying and most energetic efforts1 that a place of worship was built1 for which1 as for the communion service1 she solicited funds4 ,she collected the ,sabbath school1 and for a time superintended it herself4 ,she gathered a female prayer-meeting1 and a meeting of mothers1 both of which she sustained almost unaided4 ,her kind attentions to the sick and afflicted1 to the aged and the young1 were unwearied4 99 99 99 99 99 ,in #ahch1 the ,rev4 ,mr4 ,marsh1 finding his health improved1 was invited to settle again over the church in ,sanford1 ,me41 where he had first been a pastor4 ,soon after1 there began a remarkable work of grace in that town1 and during the short ministry there1 till death closed her husband's labors1 ,mrs4 ,marsh toiled and prayed1 and rejoiced over a spiritual harvest4 ,it is not too much to say there will be weeping throughout the town of ,sanford1 where these remains are to be taken1 when the news of her decease shall reach the place4 ,what she was as a mother1 faithful and tender1 there are those present who can testify4 ,what now might be expected of one1 with such a character and such antecedents1 on becoming our city missionary8 ,precisely what we delight to record of her4 ,in ,september1 #ahfa1 she began that labor amongst us4 ,singular devotedness1 fidelity1 and good judgment have marked her whole ministry here4 ,not long since she mentioned to a friend that she had taken this passage for her daily resting-place1--,be careful for nothing4 ,of nothing that pertained to herself--ease1 strength1 or health--was she careful4 ,the cause of the poor1 and those spiritually perishing1 she made her own4 ,she gathered1 and chiefly maintained1 two or more series of weekly prayer-meetings1 and a mother's meeting2 she taught a ,bible-class in the mission ,sabbath school2 and that school1 by their tearful presence1 now attest the deep regard which they entertain for her4 99 99 99 99 99 ,a sewing school1 during the colder season1 was one favorite method of usefulness4 ,the first intimation of her coming in was the signal of a general brightening of faces1 and her smiles1 bestowed upon all1 gave fullest satisfaction4 ,while interested in providing employment for each scholar during the session1 her chief thought seemed to be1 ,how can ,i benefit these immortal souls8 ,to the utmost would she strive to win their attention to ,god's ,word1 to a hymn1 or valuable story4 ,though coming to the school1 often weary with labors elsewhere1 she would still listen with great patience to the many questions asked1 and would bear up cheerfully under the multiplied cares of the hour4 ,but her chief vocation was to visit from house to house4 ,go out with her into the region assigned4 ,it is no fancy sketch that ,i draw4 ,those who have accompanied ,mrs4 ,marsh supply the materials1 if not the colors4 ,in her walks through by-ways1 after her character had become manifest1 words of greeting would everywhere meet her from the little child and from older persons4 ,the young were drawn to her1 and for all she had a kind word and a wise word4 ,in the sick-room her presence acted like a charm2 the languid eye would brighten1 and the name of ,jesus was sure to be whispered in the ear4 ,it was as easy for her to pray to our heavenly ,father as to speak to any friend2 her prayers were earnest1 simple1 confiding1 and appropriate to the occasion and the person4 99 99 99 99 99 ,her peculiar field presents phases quite varied1 and which quite decisively test character4 ,the concurrent testimony of those who have been associated with ,mrs4 ,marsh more or less intimately1 and have seen her in the different departments of ,christian work1 is that they cannot name a fault in her2 that they have been deeply impressed with her singular fitness for such service2 that they have found her always calm and collected2 that she never seemed surprised at any scene of destitution1 or any amount of complaint poured into her patient ear2 that she showed herself forbearing and sympathizing1 yet watchful and decided2 and that1 if occasion required1--as occasion sometimes did require1--they found she could be stern4 ,she understood human nature well2 character seemed to lie open to her eye4 ,attempts at concealment or deceit were almost always futile4 ,one had need be master of chicanery to impose upon her4 ,very few here know what courage there was in that heart4 ,never otherwise than womanly1 never weakly feminine1 she exhibited1 when there was need1 true heroism1 a masculine daring of benevolence4 ,she never boasted1--no truly courageous person is ever boastful1--she seldom spoke of what she had done2 but there are persons living who know somewhat of a history1 in former years especially1 that shows the highest style of undaunted1 self-forgetting intrepidity4 ,another characteristic of ,mrs4 ,marsh--and far from being unimportant--was her habit of great exactness in making a written record of articles sent in for gratuitous distribution1 and in keeping a detailed account1 even to every two-cent purchase1 from her ,poor's ,purse1 which was entirely separate from the mission treasury4 99 99 99 99 99 ,her industry was remarkable4 ,it was not fragmentary1 occasional1 spasmodic2 but maintained month by month1 year after year1 in heat and cold1 in rain1 snow1 and tempest1 in weariness1 and often in great discomfort walking a long way from her home that she might minister to those in need4 ,after visiting thus from house to house all day1 she has frequently sewed till the neighborhood of midnight preparing garments for the destitute4 ,if there are any two stars symbolizing activity and perseverance1 it must have been under their conjunction that she was born4 ,growing old and growing indolent had no affinity in her4 ,it should be borne in mind that almost the whole of this good work amongst us has been performed on borrowed time1 since the period of three-score and ten had been reached1--a period which by universal consent is allowed and is usually taken for repose1 for remission of all laborious effort4 ,at the hour of her decease last ,saturday morning1 ,mrs4 ,marsh lacked only thirteen days of being seventy-six4 ,look at her record for the last year only4 ,besides being almoner of other comforts and delicacies for the sick and destitute1 she distributed more than one thousand two hundred garments and other articles to the needy2 more than two thousand religious tracts1 papers1 books1 and the like2 and made rising of three thousand visits2 which1 owing to lameness1 was a number less by one thousand than that of the year previous4 ,it should be stated that in early life her constitution and her health seemed not to be firm2 and that frequently her toils have been prosecuted amidst no small amount of weakness and even suffering4 ,hers is one of the cases going to show that nothing conduces more to longevity than benevolent industry4 ,it should also be stated that this perseverance in ,christian toil did not stand connected with personal necessities4 ,children had urged her to withdraw from these labors1 and at more than one of their homes is an apartment called ,mother's ,room1 which has for years stood waiting for her4 ,loyalty to the ,master demanded1 as she believed1 that all remaining strength should1 no less than in former years1 be devoted to him4 ,her life was1 to its close1 a protest against the prevailing spirit of self-indulgence4 ,though fully aware that the hour of departure hastened on1 she could not bring herself to the pitiful work of merely saving her own soul4 ,there are certain of woman's rights which she strenuously yet modestly vindicated1--her right to quiet benevolent activity1 her right to be a ministering angel4 ,you may have noticed that trees and plants1 when they feel the approach of decay1 sometimes seem to hasten their fruitage just at the last4 ,she was aware that her time was short1 and she hastened to make the most of it4 ,and it would be an important omission if the statement were not made that in her views of duty and in her ,christian sympathies there was no narrowness4 ,this work of city evangelization was no pet employment4 ,it proceeded from genuine principle1 which is always expansive and liberalizing4 ,her heart went out with special interest to the ,home ,missionary ,society1 and yet more toward the foreign fields of the ,american ,board4 99 99 99 99 99 ,had our deceased friend the weakness--the comparatively pardonable weakness of vanity8 ,had the characteristic infirmity of old age come upon her1--a fondness for recounting earlier or more recent labors and successes8 ,from what has been said1 you who are strangers to her would hardly expect it1 for you have noticed that it is the lighter ears of grain that hold their heads highest1 and wave about most freely4 ,mrs4 ,marsh was a branch so laden with fruit as to hang low2 she was clothed with humility4 ,she sat at the ,master's feet4 ,she did not talk about meekness or modesty1--she illustrated them4 ,moses probably did not know how his face shone as he came down from the mount2 our friend seemed not to know how radiant hers was with benevolence2 nor how busy were her own feet in errands of kindness4 ,all agree in testifying that this grace of humility shed a sweet1 calm lustre over all her other virtues4 ,the only one's faithfulness that she hesitated to speak of was her own2 her uniform estimate of herself was1 ,i am an unprofitable servant4 ,who ever suspected her of vainglory8 ,who will say that she was not accustomed to give all glory and praise to ,god8 ,this quality was too genuine to admit of a sombre tinge4 ,there seemed to be no trace of false spirituality4 ,she exhibited a fine combination of cheerfulness and seriousness4 ,in fact1 she had no time for despondency about herself or others4 ,heart1 lips1 and hands were too full of something else to admit of moodiness4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mrs4 ,marsh had often expressed a desire that1 if it pleased ,god1 she might not outlive active usefulness2 that she might die in the harness1 might die here amongst us4 ,when two years ago a city missionary in ,boston,footnote3 ,deacon ,wilder4 died suddenly1 she said she would like to go in the same way4 ,god has substantially gratified her wish4 ,now1 in all the relations at which we have glanced1 and positions as daughter1 as head of a family1 as head of a charitable institution1 as private church-member1 as a helpmeet for a ,christian minister1 and as city missionary1 she exhibited the highest order of conscientiousness1 and of consecration to ,god4 ,have you ever known one who walked more nearly in the steps of our ,lord and ,saviour1 one who did less to please self8 ,do you recall an acquaintance who appeared to act less from impulse1 or more uniformly from an abiding sense of duty1 in all quietness and steadfastness doing with her might what the hands found to do8 ,a friend1 who has known her intimately for forty years1 states1--,i never knew ,mrs4 ,marsh lukewarm or with a cold heart4 ,her life has been a chain of well doing all along1 without one breakage4 99 99 99 99 99 ,the impression with us is deep1 that the character of our deceased friend was in its type a very uncommon one2 that by the grace of ,god it attained to a moral grandeur seldom witnessed4 ,such concentration1 such unselfishness1 such devout persistency in endeavors to honor our ,lord ,jesus ,christ raise her to a lofty level4 ,we would institute no comparison between her and the votaries of fashion1--the frivolous1 selfish beings1 whose thoughts centre chiefly on personal accomplishments and position4 ,she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth4 ,but for a moment bring to mind those of a more elevated grade1 who1 by the pen1 the pencil1 or in the departments of sculpture and music1 minister to aesthetic enjoyment1 and the mental improvement of a community4 ,select1 if you please1 one who attained to the same age with our departed friend1 a woman of undoubted talents1 of unimpeached morals1 the most distinguished tragic actress that ,england ever produced1 and who was applauded to the skies4 ,let ,sarah ,kemble ,siddons march grandly up that aisle4 ,ah1 to what nothingness does she shrivel in the presence of this heavenly woman1 around whom the light of the cross and the glories of eternity gather6 ,let the present ,roman ,pontiff1 born the same year with this humble city missionary1 enter in all his regalia2 how does his triple crown grow dim before the crown of righteousness that adorns her head6 99 99 99 99 99 ,ten days ago1 at the last meeting of the ,eliot ,city ,mission ,society1 ,mrs4 ,marsh1 in view of failing strength1 sent in her resignation4 ,a committee were appointed to wait upon her1 and convey an expression of the general appreciation in which she and her labors are held4 ,they have as yet had no opportunity to do so4 ,they are now present1 and will briefly perform the duty assigned them4 99 99 99 99 99 ,beloved ,friend1--beloved ,persis1 who hast labored much in the ,lord1--we speak in behalf of ourselves1 and we speak in behalf of multitudes4 ,a church to whom you are endeared1 a missionary association bearing an apostolic name1 an affectionate and indebted ,sabbath school1 who are here at this hour1 a whole section of our city1 many scores of sick-rooms1--,german mothers1 ,holland mothers1 mothers from ,england and ,scotland1--bid us say1 ,we all respect you1 we love you1 we thank ,god for your coming amongst us4 ,your prayers have strengthened us2 your wise and motherly ministrations have relieved us4 ,the very stones of this rocky place have been worn to smoothness by your busy footsteps4 ,the very dust of our streets is hallowed4 ,tears fall apace2 yet we praise the ,lord that there remaineth a rest for his people4 ,rest1 weary head2 ,lie down to slumber in the peaceful tomb2 ,light from above has broken through its gloom2 ,here in the place where once thy ,saviour lay1 ,where he shall wake thee on a future day1-- ,like a tired child upon its mother's breast1-- ,rest1 sweetly rest4 ,rest1 spirit free1 ,in the green pastures of the heavenly shore1 ,where sin and sorrow can approach no more2 ,with all the flock by the ,good ,shepherd fed1 ,beside the streams of life eternal led1 ,forever with thy ,god and ,saviour blest1 ,rest1 sweetly rest4