,,an ,,address1 ,,delivered ,,at ,,the ,,interment ,,of ,,mrs4 ,,harriet ,,storrs1 ,,consort ,,of ,,rev4 ,,richard ,s4 ,,storrs1 ,,braintree1 ,,mass4 ,,july #aa1 #ahcd4 ,,by ,,rev4 ,,john ,,codman1 ,d4 ,d4 ,printed for private distribution4 ,,boston3 ,,munroe ,,and ,,francis4 #ahcd4 ,,address4 ,there are some events1 in the providence of ,god1 so completely overwhelming as to render it extremely difficult1 almost impossible1 to give utterance to the full feelings of the soul through the medium of words4 ,language refuses its aid to relieve the burdened heart2 and the oppressed spirit finds itself more inclined to the deep silence of grief1 than to the expression of its sorrows by the human voice4 ,when the heart-rending intelligence reached us of the event that has filled our souls with grief and dismay1 we felt that no language could relieve our distress or mitigate our sorrow4 ,we were dumb3 we opened not our mouth4 ,our hearts bled--and they bled most freely in silence4 ,but the solemnities of the occasion await us1 and the usages of society demand1 that we should attempt to give utterance1 in the presence of our fellow creatures1 to those feelings1 which we can pour out before our compassionate ,god and ,saviour in sighs and tears1 without the intervention of set forms of speech4 ,but where shall we find words to express the depth of our affliction8 ,where shall we find language to depict the character of the dear departed--or to administer comfort and support to the beloved survivors8 ,mysterious ,heaven6 how unsearchable are thy judgments1 and thy ways past finding out6 ,we bow before that holy and righteous ,being1 whose inspiration gave us understanding1 and who has the undoubted right to resume the gift which he bestowed4 ,we know that all his ways are just and equal1 and that he will not hold us accountable for any act1 committed in the absence of that mental and moral power by which we are enabled to distinguish between right and wrong4 ,on the painful and distressing circumstances1 by which our ever lamented and beloved friend is numbered among the silent dead1 we will dwell no longer than to express an entire and unwavering conviction1 that her character and present condition cannot in the least degree be affected by the manner of her removal from this sublunary state4 ,we have not the shadow of a doubt1 that the spiritual intelligence1 which once beamed upon us with such mild and gentle lustre1 and which was1 for a short season1 shrouded in darkness1 is now rekindled by the same gracious hand that so mysteriously overshadowed it1 to burn1 with increasing and never-ending brightness1 with seraphs that surround the throne of ,god4 ,it is utterly impossible for the speaker to do justice to the character of our much loved friend1 though it has been his privilege to have known her worth for nearly thirty years4 ,the circle of christians which1 at the time of his first acquaintance with her1 then resided in our metropolis1 many of whom are now in heaven1 were distinguished for deep and ardent piety4 ,surrounded as they were by fashionable and increasing errors1 they maintained their integrity and held fast their attachment to the doctrines of grace4 ,the precious names of ,mrs4 ,waters1 and ,mrs4 ,mason1 and other aged saints1 are embalmed in the memory of many a child of ,god4 ,with these venerable pilgrims was associated a young disciple1 who1 with all the loveliness of youthful attractions1 separated herself from the world1 and consecrated herself to the service of her ,god and ,saviour4 ,from the prayers and conversation of these aged saints1 through the blessing of ,god1 she seemed to receive a peculiar unction of spirit1 which was strikingly characteristic of her future course4 ,in all plans of usefulness1 which1 though small and few when compared with those which distinguish this stirring age1 no one took a more decided and active part4 ,her peculiarly affectionate manner ingratiated her with many1 who were won by her mild and lovely spirit to congeniality of sentiment and effort4 ,her usefulness at that period1 in the sphere in which she moved1 was by no means inconsiderable2 but the great ,head of the church had still more important and interesting duties for her to perform4 ,there are few situations in life that present more promising fields of usefulness to a pious1 devoted female1 than that of the wife of a minister of a united parish4 ,even the pastor himself1 with his additional opportunities of affording instruction from the sacred desk1 can scarcely exert a greater or a happier influence upon the minds and hearts of his congregation1 than is often produced by the more humble1 but not less important labours of his devoted companion4 ,her influence is not unfrequently greater than his1 especially upon her own sex1 and upon the tender1 opening minds of the lambs of the flock4 ,in the promotion of benevolent enterprize1 by female associations1 and in maternal counsels and prayers for the children of the church1 she finds her appropriate and successful sphere1 though upon the whole congregation1 in their varied seasons of prosperity and adversity1 her silent but benign influence is felt like the dew of ,hermon1 like the dew that descended upon the mountains of ,zion4 ,from the more diversified and exciting scenes of usefulness in a city our departed friend was called to the more arduous and self-denying labours that devolve upon the conscientious wife of the pastor of a country parish4 ,with what untiring zeal1 with what scrupulous fidelity1 she discharged these duties1 ,i need only appeal to this crowded1 this weeping1 this afflicted assembly6 ,from lisping infancy to hoary age1 the testimony is one and the same4 ,the children of affliction remember with affectionate gratitude her tender sympathy and her active benevolence4 ,with the spirit of her divine ,master1 it may be truly said1 that in all their afflictions she was afflicted4 ,mothers1 with their youthful charge1 will never forget her wise counsels and her fervent prayers4 ,the aged and infirm will pour out their benedictions upon her memory1 and even babes and sucklings will lisp the praises of one1 who watched with maternal solicitude over their cradles1 and taught them to pronounce the name of ,jesus4 ,but1 great and painful as this bereavement is to this afflicted people1--their griefs are almost forgotten1 when we turn to the chief mourner in this scene of deep and heart-rending calamity4 ,god help thee1 my brother6--,the ,god of ,jacob1 the ,angel of the ,covenant sustain thee6 ,that your brethren1 your people1 the church of ,christ1 your numerous and attached friends1 feel for you1 you cannot doubt4 ,could they have averted the dreadful blow1 how readily would they have hastened to your relief4 ,but no human precaution could turn aside the fatal stroke4 ,dethroned reason will find opportunity to escape the most vigilant eye1 and to elude the most watchful care4 ,but dwell not1 my brother1 on circumstances which were beyond human control1 and which affect not in the least degree the accountability of the dear departed4 ,bury in the grave1 to which we are soon to assign these precious relics1 as far as possible1 the memory of the awful circumstances that attended their dissolution1 and think only of the bright and happy spirit1 of what she was1 and what she is4 ,o6 she was every thing which a fond husband could desire in a companion of his life and labours2 truly a help-mate for him in his temporal and spiritual concerns1 in his family1 and in his parish2 in the social circle1 and in the widely extended plans of usefulness in which the devoted servant of ,christ is sometimes engaged beyond the limits of his congregation4 ,my brother1 in the repeated domestic bereavements which you have sustained1 you have indeed been greatly afflicted1 but you have also been greatly blessed4 ,to the lot of but few does it fall to have been united to two such companions to cheer them in their pilgrimage through this vale of tears4,a ,their sainted spirits are waiting to receive you to those blessed mansions where reason holds her unclouded empire1 where sighing and sorrow can never come1 where death can never enter1 and where sin can never defile4 ,but not yet1 my brother4 ,the ,lord hath need of you to work in his vineyard4 ,from your repeated and heart-rending trials you will be better qualified1 than ever for that important work which the ,lord has assigned you in his ,american ,israel4 ,go on then1 my brother1 and spend and be spent for ,christ2 and when you shall have performed your appointed service1 you shall be welcomed by those whom you have loved on earth to the society of the redeemed--to the vision of ,jesus--to the presence of ,god4 ,and you1 the dear and only child of the lamented dead6 ,my heart bleeds for you4 ,your loss is indeed irreparable2 but a mother's prayers are your legacy1 and they are better than thousands of gold and silver4 ,how much she loved you1 and how closely you were entwined about the fibres of her heart1 is abundantly evident from the affecting fact1 that maternal solicitude1 struggling with departing reason1 directed her to the bed of her sleeping child to bid him a last and long farewell4 ,although the affecting circumstances of her removal can never be obliterated from your memory1 think less of them than of the pious counsels1 the holy example1 the fervent prayers of your much-loved mother4 ,let these dwell on your mind1 and they will be a restraint1 a comfort1 and a support to you under all the various trials of life to which you may be called4 ,god bless you1 my dear child6 ,may your life be spared to your surviving parent1 to console him in his deep affliction1 and to be the prop of his declining years4 ,the near relatives of our departed friend claim and receive our tender and affectionate sympathy4 ,more especially do we feel for that afflicted sister1 who1 while she mourns with us on this affecting occasion1 has the additional trial of watching around the sick bed of a beloved husband1 deprived also of the exercise of his reason4 ,may she be supported1 in this season of her deep affliction1 by the consolations of that holy religion1 which are neither few nor small4 ,and may all the relatives and the numerous christian friends of the deceased1 whether present or absent1 be graciously sustained under this painful bereavement1 and bow1 with humble submission1 to the will of ,god4 ,friends of this ,church and ,congregation1 with you too we heartily sympathize4 ,you have been called in divine providence to repeated trials4 ,we bear record to your disinterested regard to the cause of evangelical religion in our growing country1 in consenting to the arrangement by which1 for a definite period1 you have been deprived of the immediate services of your beloved pastor4 ,you have hitherto had the consolation1 and it has been one of no small importance1 of the presence and laborious efforts for your good of the partner of his life4 ,with what exemplary patience1 with what admirable self-denial1 she sustained the peculiar trials of her situation1 watching around the couch of a dying brother1,b administering to the comfort of your late youthful pastor1,c adopting into her family the orphan and the fatherless1,d while her best earthly friend was laboriously employed in the service of the church1 are well known to you all1 and ought to be suitably appreciated4 ,how far she fell a sacrifice to these painful deprivations--to this uncommon self-denial1 is known only to ,him1 who is best acquainted with the intimate connection between the body and the mind4,e ,that she died in your service--in the service of her family--and in the service of her ,god and ,saviour1 cannot admit of a doubt4 ,you will delight1 ,i know1 to cherish her memory1 to dwell upon her virtues1 and to imitate her example4 ,and now1 my respected hearers and friends1 it only remains1 that we deposit these precious relics in yonder receptacle of the dead6 there to rest1 till the trump of the archangel awake the sleeping dust4 ,then1 when the millions of the dead shall burst the cerements of the grave1 we doubt not that the bright form of our departed friend1 arrayed in immortal youth and vigour1 will ascend to meet the ,lord in the air1 and enter with him into his glory4 ,,footnotes3 ,footnote ,a3 ,mrs4 ,sarah ,strong ,storrs1 the first wife of the bereaved husband1 was the daughter of ,rev4 ,nathan ,woodhull1 of ,newtown1 ,long ,island2 married ,april #b1 #ahab--;died ,april #f1 #ahah1 aged #be years4 ,eminently devoted to the service of her ,lord in life1 and sweetly cheered by his presence in death4 ,footnote ,b3 ,rev4 ,charles ,b4 ,storrs1 ,president of the ,western ,reserve ,college1 who left the world for heaven1 after five weeks sickness at ,braintree1 ,sept4 #ae1 #ahcc4 ,footnote ,c3 ,rev4 ,edwards ,a4 ,park4 ,footnote ,d3 ,the two little sons of ,rev4 ,c4 ,b4 ,storrs4 ,footnote ,e3 ,her feelings on this subject are briefly noticed in her diary4 ,after alluding to the circumstances of the case1 and to what she believed to be the ruling motives of her husband in his request to his people for liberty to engage in the service of ,home ,missions1 she says3-- ,i think in no instance of my life have ,i felt more entirely willing to be in ,god's hands1 and to have him dispose of us as he pleases4 ,my trembling head at times anticipates evil to my dear husband--and my selfish heart1 in anticipating the days and nights of loneliness that await me1 is ready to say1--',how can ,i give thee up8' ,but ,i would not dare to cherish these feelings4 ,god has an entire right to do with us as he pleases--and ,i would love him for doing just as he does4 ,but ,o6 strengthen us for our coming trials6 ,,note4 ,mrs4 ,storrs had been for months declining in health--a fact more evident to herself than to others1 because she still continued to discharge her usual domestic duties with alacrity and cheerfulness4 ,but often1 the conviction of her mind on this subject extorted from her the remark--my constitution is breaking up--,i cannot long live4 ,though the remark had never fallen from her lips in other years1 it was too little heeded by her friends4 ,it was on the evening of ,march #eth1 #ahcd1 that she was suddenly seized with a delirium that indicated inflammation on the brain4 ,a physician was immediately called1 and his skilful applications seemed to be blessed2 the disease yielded2 and after a few days1 ,reason resumed its seat2 not however to hold it as formerly1 but only to sway a broken sceptre1 and fill the minds of friends with constant alarms4 ,from this time till the first of ,june1 the struggle between disease and nature was constant1 and the issue doubtful2 but on the whole1 it was evident that the mind was losing its power of judgment1 and submitting to the control of a bewildered imagination4 ,her most judicious friends judged it expedient to change the scene1 and try the effect of new objects and the revival of old friendships on her disordered system4 ,she herself1 having been often benefitted by the fatigues and various occurrences of journeying1 consented to the measure with some cheerfulness4 ,and on the #abth of ,june1 we left our home1 and leisurely pursued our way to the western part of the ,state1 calling freely on those friends she had long known and loved1 and sharing largely in their kind attentions4 ,but nothing could restore to her mind its balance4 ,occasionally cheerful for an hour--but habitually brooding over some imagined impropriety of conduct1 or deficiency of faith and love1 she fancied herself a burden to the world1 a curse to the church1 and an alien from ,god4 ,it was ,july #gth when we reached home4 ,and by this time1 the disease had advanced so far1 as to leave but short intervals between the ravings of delirium4 ,her agonies1 in her oft repeated language1 were inexpressible4 ,her bodings were fearful4 ,and it was on the morning of the #ajth instant1 between the hours of five and six o'clock1 that she eluded the long continued vigilance of her family1 and secured time enough to execute a deed1 which of all others she most abhorred when of sane mind--a deed1 which she believed to be right1 because dethroned reason left her a prey to the imagination that the honor of ,god1 and the interests of ,zion demanded it4 ,inscrutable mystery6 ,a more devoted friend of ,jesus--a more humble and self-denying disciple--a more laborious and consistent co-worker with the saints--a more prayerful and active promoter of the great ,cause of ,benevolence--is rarely to be met with in any age1 or in any land4 ,aside of all the fond partialities of one who for fifteen years has known the blessedness of the most intimate companionship with so eminent a child of ,god1 ,i deem it duty to say1 in present circumstances1 that her duties were always her pleasures--her religious privileges1 her sweetest delights--her grand aim1 in all things1 the glory of ,god2--her trust was reposed in his promises alone--her hopes were founded on ,christ--and her only desired reward was1 the consciousness of honoring the religion she professed4 ,she rests with prophets and apostles4 ,so saith the ,spirit1 and her works do follow her4 ,r4 ,s4 ,,storrs4 ,braintree1 ,july #ae1 #ahcd4 ,,obituary ,,notice4 ,,written ,,by ,,rev4 ,b4 ,b4 ,,edwards1 ,,and ,,published ,,in ,,the ,,boston ,,recorder4 ,died at ,braintree1 ,mass4 on ,thursday morning1 ,july #aj1 ,,mrs4 ,,harriet ,,storrs1 wife of the ,rev4 ,richard ,s4 ,storrs1 in the #dhth year of her age4 ,she was a daughter of the late ,mr4 ,samuel ,moore of ,charlestown4 ,her mind was first deeply convinced of the importance of personal piety in listening to the sermons of the ,rev4 ,dr4 ,griffin then minister of the ,park street church4 ,she became a member of the ,old ,south church1 when the ,rev4 ,joshua ,huntington was its pastor4 ,the depth of the loss sustained by her friends and by the church of ,christ1 cannot easily be estimated4 ,in her character was that rare union of lovely natural qualities with intelligent1 elevated piety1 which sweetens domestic life2 throws such charms over the intercourse of friendship as all persons can feel but none describe2 and which exhibits in a most striking manner what that state was from which man fell1 and to which the grace of the ,holy ,spirit can restore him4 ,the path of her life was covered over with evidences of her kindness4 ,every where she lived for the happiness of those around her4 ,her benign inquiries1 her cheerful footsteps1 her sweet smiles1 the same in joy and grief1 those mysterious lines on the countenance1 which almost ally the sympathies of humanity to the purity of angels1 seemed to say to all whom she met1 that she was their servant for ,jesus's sake4 ,she was truly the light and joy of her domestic circle1 shedding the calm and steady lustre of true piety2 in her humility apparently unconscious of the blessings which her presence afforded2 and always prompt to give all the glory of any goodness in herself and others1 to her ,lord and ,redeemer4 ,she discharged the interesting obligations1 which devolve on the wife of a clergyman1 with singular readiness1 kind feeling and success4 ,she was aware of the responsible and delicate nature of many of her duties1 and habitually looked for guidance to the great ,head of the church4 ,he was graciously pleased to hear her prayers1 and to bless her labors4 ,her name will long be like precious balm in the hearts of multitudes1 who testify1 with entire unanimity1 to the value of her labors of love4 ,for several months past1 her soul has been full of trouble1 for she thought that ,god had laid her in the lowest pit1 in darkness1 in the deeps1 that his wrath was lying hard upon her1 that she was cast out of his sight1 and should never again be permitted to look towards his holy temple4 ,she longed for death and it has come2 and we doubt not that her glorified spirit is in that land where the inhabitant shall not say ,i am sick1 where they hunger no more1 neither thirst any more2 and where ,god shall wipe away tears from off all faces4 ,the funeral of ,mrs4 ,storrs was attended on ,friday afternoon in the meetinghouse of the first church in ,braintree4 ,we never saw evidences of more unaffected and heartfelt grief1 than were exhibited by the large congregation convened on this occasion4 ,prayers were offered by the ,rev4 ,messrs4 ,gile of ,milton1 and ,perkins of ,weymouth1 two appropriate funeral anthems were sung1 and a very interesting and affecting address was pronounced by the ,rev4 ,dr4 ,codman of ,dorchester4 99 99 99 99 99 ,transcriber's ,notes ,page #g3 ,changed hasiened to hastened 7how readily would they have hasiened to your relief47