,,lectures ,,in ,,the ,,training ,,schools ,,for ,kindergarten ,teachers4 ,,education ,,in ,,the ,,home1 ,,the ,,kindergarten1 ,,and ,,the ,,primary ,,school4 ,,by ,,elizabeth ,p4 ,,peabody4 ,,with ,,an ,,introduction ,,by ,e4 ,,adelaide ,,manning4 ,come1 let us live with our children4--,,froebel4 ,,london3 ,,swan ,,sonnenschein1 ,,lowrey ,,co41 ,,paternoster ,,square4 #ahhg4 ,,introduction4 ,,among those who in the last twenty years have helped to spread a knowledge of the educational principles of ,froebel beyond the limits of his native country1 ,miss ,elizabeth ,peabody's name deserves to be specially remembered4 ,it is mainly owing to her enthusiastic efforts that the value of the ,kindergarten was early recognised in the ,united ,states1 and that its first ,american promoters were encouraged to maintain1 amid many difficulties1 a standard of real efficiency for the teachers of ,froebel's system4 ,miss ,peabody had long occupied herself1 theoretically and practically1 with educational subjects4 ,not satisfied by merely intellectual methods of instruction1 and impatient of the superficiality which was too often approved1 she made it her great aim to train character1 and1 by a simultaneous development of children's mental capacities and of their moral nature1 to prepare them for the responsible duties of life4 ,it was not surprising that when ,miss ,peabody1 holding such views of education1 came in contact with the ideas and the work of ,froebel1 she at once experienced the delight always attached to the discovery that the problems exercising our own minds have been successfully solved by some one who has started from principles such as ours1 and who has cultivated the same ideal4 ,she found that ,froebel had carried into practice that very kind of training of which she had realized the immense importance1 and that he had placed in a clear light truths which she had already more dimly perceived4 ,eager to inform herself about the new system1 ,miss ,peabody travelled1 in #ahfh1 to ,europe1 on purpose to visit in ,germany the ,kindergartens established by ,froebel1 who was no longer living1 and by his best pupils4 ,on her return to ,america1 she devoted herself for many years to the introduction and improvement of ,kindergartens and of training institutions1 and to enlightening1 by her writings and addresses1 mothers and educators respecting the value and simplicity of ,froebel's methods4 ,miss ,peabody has the satisfaction of witnessing a good measure of success from her generous exertions1 in the increasing number of advocates of the ,kindergarten in ,america1 in its adoption as a first department of many ,state primary schools1 and in the numerous private and charity ,kindergartens founded from ,north to ,south1 and from ,new ,york to ,san ,francisco4 ,advanced now in years1 this warm-hearted lady is engaged in other lines of philanthropic work1 but she retains1 and still manifests1 her earnest interest in the educational progress which she has laboured so actively to secure4 ,ever since ,miss ,peabody's zeal was kindled for ,froebel's ideal as to young children's education1 her help and criticism have been sought by the trainers of ,kindergarten students in ,america1 and by all who1 with serious purpose1 have thus worked for the movement4 ,hence she has often delivered lectures at the opening of the session at ,normal ,colleges1 and on other occasions when she saw an opportunity of exercising influence in favour of rational principles of education4 ,this book1 which appeared only lately at ,boston1 consists of a few of such lectures4 ,it is now1 with ,miss ,peabody's consent1 published in ,england1 where many parents and teachers will be glad to profit by the author's wise and loving study of little children1 and her sympathetic insight into ,froebel's methods for their development4 ,during the last few years various thoughtful writers on education have drawn attention here to the subject of infant management1 and it is remarkable how widely the principles of ,froebel and ,pestalozzi are now recognised and accepted4 ,but books are still greatly needed which1 especially addressed to those who have charge of children1 urge in a convincing manner how essential it is that the first few years should be rightly guided1 and indicate certain defined educational aims4 ,i think that ,miss ,peabody's lectures are likely to prove very useful in this direction4 ,though her readers will perhaps contest some of her psychological deductions1 they cannot fail to be impressed and benefited by the high tone of her reasoning1 by her evidently tender and reverent love of children1 and by her excellent suggestions in regard to their harmonious development4 ,amongst its other merits1 this book tends to correct the still too prevalent notion1 that the ,kindergarten is a peculiar--an almost magical--institution1 which provides a sure remedy for children's imperfections1 apart from their home conditions4 ,doubtless1 in the case of poor neglected little ones1 the contrast between their treatment at the ,kindergarten and their ordinary experience1 is necessarily striking and decided1 because the parents are careless and ignorant4 ,but ,froebel's view of the ,kindergarten was1 that it should be a supplementary help to the loving and judicious mother1 who1 owing to her many household and other duties1 might be unable to give1 through the whole day1 to her younger children the regular attention which their awakening faculties need4 ,it was to be a portion of the home pattern and web of training1 not a patch of a new texture4 ,he saw that a child requires to have about it1 as ,miss ,peabody says1 love and thought in practical operation1 and this not now and then1 but always4 ,and as the mother may have at times to transfer her children to the charge of others1 he organised the ,kindergarten--a higher nursery1 under refined and motherly influences1 for those that have passed out of babyhood4 ,there1 on the same principles as at home1 they may be gently tended for two or three hours of the day1 and developed in body1 mind1 and character4 ,froebel's object also was to provide companionship for these children1 adapted to their age and attainments1 which could only be done by including some from outside the family circle4 ,but again1 he desired to give the opportunity to inexperienced mothers of observing the patient and resourceful guidance carried out by even young teachers1 who had been trained to study children1 and had learnt how to occupy them suitably4 ,here we see another link with the home4 ,now ,miss ,peabody entered so much into ,froebel's ideas that she helps to remove the ,kindergarten out of its supposed exceptional sphere1 and to show that the teachers represent temporarily the mother1 doing that which the mother also aims1 or ought to aim1 at doing1 for the children's good4 ,these ,lectures are also useful in presenting a high ideal of ,kindergarten teaching4 ,miss ,peabody sees that the work of educating requires special qualifications in those who undertake it1 and that such as are not fitted for it1 had better take up a different career4 ,at the same time placing1 as always1 character above intellect1 she considers that most women1 whose religious and moral nature is well cultivated1 and who take pains to develop their mental powers1 may hope for success in devoting themselves to the training of young children4 ,her writings are calculated to inspire the teacher with hearty zest for her labour1 and yet with an abiding feeling that even years of practice leave her far behind her ever advancing standard4 ,miss ,peabody encourages no exaggerated estimate of ,froebel's thoughts and methods4 ,she freely recognises that he gained many truths from fellow-students of children's nature and faculties2 but she claims for him the originality which belongs to those who with unselfish aims bestow close attention on a subject of deep human interest4 ,to teachers1 therefore1 as well as to all who love children1 she says--and with this quotation ,i will close my few introductory remarks--,you will not be wise if you do not look out of ,froebel's window4 ,e4 ,a4 ,,manning4 ,,lecture ,i4 ,,the ,,kindergartner4 ,,whoever proposes to become a kindergartner according to the idea of ,froebel1 must at once dismiss from her mind the notion that it requires less ability and culture to educate children of three1 than those of ten or fifteen years of age4 ,it demands more2 for1 is it not plain that to superintend and guide accurately the formation of the human understanding itself1 requires a finer ability and a profounder insight than to listen to recitations from books ever so learned and scientific8 ,to form the human understanding is a work of time1 demanding a knowledge of the laws of thought1 will1 and feeling1 in their interaction upon the threshold of consciousness1 which can be acquired only by the study of children themselves in their every act of life--a study to be pursued in the spirit that reveals what ,jesus ,christ meant1 when he said3 ,he that receiveth a little child in my name1 receiveth me1 and ,him that sent me2 ,woe unto him who offends one of these little ones1 for their spirits behold the face of my ,father who is in heaven4 ,not till children who have been themselves educated according to ,froebel's principles1 grow up1 will there be found any adult persons who can keep kindergartens without devoting themselves to a special study of child-nature in the spirit of devout humility4 ,for we are all suffering the ignorance and injury inevitable from having begun our own lives in the confusions of accidental and disorderly impressions1 without having had the clue of reason put into our hands by that human providence of education1 which1 to be true1 must reflect point by point the ,divine ,providence1 that according to the revelations of history is educating the whole race1 and which may find hints for its procedure in observing the spontaneous play of children fresh from the hands of the ,creator4 ,the education of children by a genial training of their spontaneous playful activities to the production of order and beauty within the humble sphere of childish fancy and affection1 was a fresh idea with ,froebel2 but1 like every universal idea1 it was not absolutely new in the world4 ,plato says1 in his great book on ,laws3-- ,play has the mightiest influence on the maintenance and non-maintenance of laws2 and if children's plays are conducted according to laws and rules1 and they always pursue their amusements in conformity with order1 while finding pleasure therein1 it need not be feared that when they are grown up they will break laws whose objects are more serious4 ,and again1 in his ,republic1 he says3-- ,from their earliest years1 the plays of children ought to be subject to strict laws4 ,for if their plays1 and those who mingle with them1 are arbitrary and lawless1 how can they become virtuous men1 law-abiding and obedient8 ,on the contrary1 when children are early trained to submit to laws in their plays1 love for these laws enters into their souls with the music accompanying them1 and helps their development4 ,you will observe ,plato's association of music with the laws that are to regulate play4 ,music1 with the ,greeks1 had indeed a broader meaning than attaches to the word with us1 who confine it to that subtle expression of the sense of law and harmony which is made in the element of sound1 and addressed to the imagination through the ear4 ,all knowledge and art inspired by the sacred ,nine1 they named music4 ,singing was no more music than dancing1 drawing1 the harmonizing of colors1 plastic art1 poetry1 and science1 which is nothing less than thinking according to the rhythmic laws of nature4 ,to learn to commune with the ,muses1 daughters of ,memory and ,jove1 who were led by the god ,apollo1 symbolizing the moral harmony of the universe1 and expressing the mind of the ,father of gods and men1 by oracle1 was learning music or how to live divinely2 a process which may commence before children leave the nursery1 if their plays are regulated according to artistic principles4 ,it is common to speak of the ,greeks1 as if they were of exceptional organization4 ,i think their organization was only exceptional1 because it was more carefully treated in infancy than ours is apt to be4 ,i do not believe that in ,greece1 or anywhere in the world1 there were ever more beautiful little children than there are in ,america2 and the beauty would not be so transient as it unquestionably is with us1 if truly cultivated persons took our children in hand from babyhood for the care of their bodies and minds1 instead of leaving this work to the most ignorant class of the community1 such as the general run of the servants who have the education of them during their earliest infancy4 ,even many parents who take care of their own children do not make it an object to study physiology or psychology1 and seem to think that there is nothing in little children which requires special study1 except indeed at the very first1 when the child is put into the mother's arms more helpless than the lowest form of animal life 7for the very insect is endowed by nature1 as the child is not1 with enough absolute knowledge--we call it instinct--to fulfil its small circle of relations without help of its parents74 ,it seems mysterious1 at first sight1 that the child1 whose duty and whose destiny it is to have dominion over nature1 should be endowed least of all creatures with any absolute knowledge of it4 ,but the mystery is solved when we consider that the happiness which is distinctively human1 is only to be found in the discovery and enjoyment of ever-widening relations to our kind1 with the fulfilment of the duties belonging to them4 ,it is the absolute helplessness of the human infant which challenges the maternal instinct to rush to his rescue1 lest he should die at once4 ,and to continue to study his manifestations of pleasure and discontent with obedient respectfulness1 is the perfection of the maternal nursing4 ,but when the child has got on so far as to know the simplest uses of its own body1 and especially after it has learned enough words to express its simplest wants and sensations1 even parents seem to think it can get on by itself1 so that children from about two to five years of age are left to self-education1 as it were2 this virtual abandonment being crossed by a capricious and arbitrary handling of them--mind and body--on the part of those around them1 which is even worse than the neglect2 for when are children more unable1 than between three and five years old1 to guide their own thoughts and action8 ,how would a garden of flowers fare1 to be planted1 and then left to grow with so little scientific care taken by the gardener1 as is bestowed upon children between one and five years old8 ,froebel1 in the very word kindergarten1 proclaimed that gospel for children which holds within it the promise of the coming of the kingdom1 in which ,god's will is to be done on earth as it is in heaven--a consummation which we daily pray for with our lips1 but do not do the first thing to bring about1 by educating our children in the way of order1 which is no less earth's than heaven's first law1 and makes earth heaven so far as it is fulfilled4 ,a kindergarten means a guarded company of children1 who are to be treated as a gardener treats his plants2 that is1 in the first place1 studied to see what they are1 and what conditions they require for the fullest and most beautiful growth2 in the second place1 put into or supplied with these conditions1 with as little handling of their individuality as possible1 but with an unceasing genial and provident care to remove all obstructions1 and favor all the circumstances of growth4 ,it is because they are living organisms that they are to be cultivated--not drilled 7which is a process only appropriate to insensate stone74 ,i think there is perhaps no better way of making apparent what this kindergartning is1 which makes such an importunate demand on your consideration1 than to tell you how the idea germinated and grew in the mind of ,froebel himself2 for thus we shall see that it would be unreasonable to expect that it could be improvised by every teacher2 but that here1 as elsewhere in human life1 ,god has sent into the world a gifted person to guide his fellows1 according to the law enunciated by ,st4 ,john in the #chth verse of the #dth chapter of his ,gospel4 ,we have the materials of this history on ,froebel's own authority1 in an autobiographical letter that he wrote to the ,duke of ,meiningen1 whose interest in him was excited by an incident so characteristic of ,froebel1 that ,i will relate it4 ,having heard of a cruel and stupid opposition made to the ardent educator by the unthinking officials of a region where he was making a martyr of himself1 the duke made inquiries1 which resulted in his offering him the situation of head-tutor to his only son4 ,but ,froebel astonished him with a refusal of the place1 sending the duke word that it would be impossible to educate1 in a perfect manner1 a child so isolated by conventional rank and circumstances that he must inevitably conceive himself to be intrinsically superior to other children4 ,the duke was so much struck that a poor man1 struggling with every difficulty1 should refuse one of the highest posts in a royal household1 with all its emoluments1 from a purely conscientious scruple of this kind1 that his curiosity was piqued4 ,he sent for ,froebel1 and they had a conversation upon the principles and spirit of a truly human education1 by which ,froebel convinced him that a noble moral development was indispensable to a truly intellectual one1 so that the duke was actually persuaded to send his son as an equal with other boys to a neighboring school4 ,one day1 some little time after1 the boy came home roaring1 on account of a beating he had received from one of his playmates4 ,the duke1 in a transport of rage1 asked the name of the offender1 and said that he should be immediately expelled from the school4 ,then was ,froebel's advice justified4 ,the young prince dried his tears1 refused to tell the boy's name1 and declared that the beating was all fair6 ,it is quite consistent with these facts1 that the duke should ask ,froebel how his idea grew in his mind4 ,froebel's answer is still extant4 ,i have not been able to get the original text1 but ,i can give you the substance of it1 as it was given to me4 ,friedrich ,froebel was the son of a laborious pastor of seven villages in ,thuringia4 ,he lost his mother before his remembrance1 and fell into the care of hard-worked domestic servants1 with no light upon his infant life except what came from the love and sympathy of two older brothers1 who cherished him when they were at home from boarding-school4 ,the parsonage was in the shadow of the church1 and into it no ray of sunshine ever came2 and the child was kept drearily in the house4 ,he tells of seeing workmen building a part of the church that had become dilapidated1 and how he longed to imitate them2 and traces to this desire of employing the time that hung so heavily on his hands1 his discovery of the building instinct1 so universal in childhood1 and which he thought should always have simple materials afforded it with which to express itself4 ,at last his father married again1 and at first the stepmother petted the young child of her husband1 and awakened in him a hope of a satisfying love1 which he reciprocated with all the energies of his long-starved heart4 ,but when the merely instinctive woman had a child of her own1 a certain jealousy arose in her1 and she repulsed poor little ,friedrich1 and no longer--as he pathetically remarks--called him thou1 7du7 which is an endearing expression in ,german1 but he 7er71 which has a rough association4 ,it is plain that the child was endowed with an immense sensibility to1 or more than ordinary presentiment of the ,divine ,order of ,nature1 and with the extreme tendency to reflection always involved in this gift4 ,as he was so poorly developed physically1 he became in his joyless early life perhaps morbidly nervous4 ,disappointed in his timid efforts to please1 all the sweet bells of his nature were jangled1 and he was miserable--he knew not why4 ,he says he always found himself doing the wrong thing--the too much1 or the too little--and was complained of to his father1 who treated him as a naughty boy4 ,but sometimes the pastor took him out of his stepmother's way1 to accompany himself in his parochial visits1 in which ,froebel says he seemed continually to be settling family quarrels4 ,this made on the child's mind an impression of things that was rather ludicrously expressed1 when he one day asked of his oldest brother1 who happened to come home from boarding-school1 why it was that ,god had not made people all men1 or all women1 so that there should not be so much quarrelling in the world4 ,in order to divert him from such premature consideration of social questions1 the posed elder brother undertook to teach him botany according to the sexual system1 revealing to him the law of contrasts conciliated with each other for the production of harmony and beauty4 ,the child was delighted with what he was shown2 but still his exceptionally moral genius importunately asked1 why may not human differences be thus harmonized1 to produce happiness and goodness8 ,the presentiment of the great truth which was felt in his heart1 though not yet caught by his mind1 was signalized by another anecdote that he tells of himself4 ,there was a rumor among the peasants of ,north ,germany 7it was about the year #agib7 that the world was coming to an end2 but ,froebel declares that he could not make himself feel alarmed4 ,he says he was sure it could not be true1 because the will of ,god had not yet been brought about in human life4 ,this extraordinary reflection of a child of ten years old was preceded1 probably1 by a happy change that came over him in consequence of the visit of his maternal uncle to his father's house2 who1 seeing that the child was not happy1 invited him to go home with him to live with his grandmother4 ,his uncle's house was bright and sunny1 and he was received by his grandmother with joy and tenderness4 ,immediately the freedom of the fields was given him1 provided only that he should come home punctually to the meals4 ,he soon became so healthy and happy1 that his uncle put him into a day school in the neighborhood1 to the child's great delight4 ,the school was opened1 the first day he went into it1 with a little sermon of the master's upon the text3 ,seek first the kingdom of heaven and its righteousness1 and all other things shall be added unto you4 ,it must have been a wise and good discourse1 for it left a life-long impression upon the mind of the little ,froebel4 ,there was a law then1 for human beings as well as for plants2 human beings might consciously realize in happiness and virtue1 the harmony and beauty unconsciously manifested by the vegetable world4 ,for ,god was the ,ever-present ,friend and ,lawgiver6 ,he tells the duke how happy he felt himself in his new circumstances and opportunities1 and blessed with this inspiring faith4 ,after school1 he went out to play with his schoolmates2 but1 alas6 poor starveling of nature as he was1 he found he could not play with his athletic companions1 and had to sit on one side and look on2 and then and there he distinctly came to a conclusion1 which is a first principle of the kindergarten1 that every child should have free exercise of his limbs in play1 in order to get entire command of all the physical strength and agility they are capable of4 ,after a few years of this happy home and school life1 which he continually reflected upon in contrast with what he had suffered for so many years1 the good grandmother died1 and he was sent back to his stepmother4 ,the question now came up1 whether he should study for the university1 where his brothers had gone2 but the stepmother1 in the interest of her younger child1 opposed his father's spending the money1 and he went to a farmer to learn practical agriculture4 ,but he was physically so incompetent to the labor of a farm life1 that it did not pay2 and being sent home by the farmer1 he was finally apprenticed to a forester1 where he found genial occupation in wood-lore1 and in studying geometry for the purpose of surveying4 ,here he became a thorough and ardent mathematician4 ,but his friend the forester died1 or was removed1 which brought this occupation to a premature close4 ,at that moment1 however1 a maternal relation died1 and left him a little money1 so that he went to the ,university of ,jena1 where he devoted himself principally to the physical sciences2 and by and by we find him curator of the ,mineralogical ,museum of ,berlin4 ,here he made a great impression on the mind of a young lady who frequented the museum1 by the sermons that he found in stones1 for he read them out to her1 showing that in inorganic nature1 so called1 could be traced not only laws of decay1 that threw into stronger light those laws of life that he had learned to see in vegetation1 but those of crystallization4 ,everywhere he read ,god's revelation of the processes of life and death1 which also make human development and happiness1 or its deterioration and misery4 ,the trumpet call of patriotism1 to rescue ,germany from ,french despotism1 made by the good ,queen ,louise of ,prussia1 called him from these peaceful studies to partake in the great national act of delivering his country2 and he obeyed it by volunteering his service4 ,though his regiment was never called into battle1 he always rejoiced in the effects upon himself of learning the military drill1 as well as in the life-long friendships he made in camp4 ,after the war was over1 a legacy received at the death of his uncle ,hoffman gave him the means to enter an architect's office1 to which he had a great attraction4 ,he was boarding at ,frankfort-on-the-,main1 where ,middendorf and other of his late military friends were boarding1 who had just engaged themselves as teachers in the city1 waiting to perfect this arrangement4 ,it was a moment when there was a great uprising of education in ,germany1 and that system was beginning to germinate1 which has turned out to make ,prussia the effective power in ,europe that she has lately proved herself to be2 and whose first principle is1 that the primary is the most important stage of education4 ,in connection with this general movement1 there was about to be established a new school in ,frankfort2 and ,grner1 its principal1 who was one of the boarders1 talked over with ,froebel and the others the new plan4 ,whatever ,froebel said was so striking and vital1 that ,grner at last exclaimed3 ,plainly this is your vocation6 ,give up the architecture1 and come in with us1 and help to build men4 ,strange to say1 though ,froebel had all his life been meditating upon the secret of human education1 this was the first time it occurred to him to make it his own business4 ,the more he thought of ,grner's suggestion1 the more he liked it2 and the issue was1 that he took one of the younger classes in the new school4 ,immediately afterwards he wrote to his brother that at last he had found his element--he felt like a bird in air1 a fish in water4 ,but the teachers were hampered in their action by the proprietors of the school2 and after a season ,grner said to ,froebel1 ,you should lead2 not be led4 ,i release you from your engagement4 ,set up independently1 and carry out your own ideas unhindered4 ,when his purpose of leaving was known1 one of the parents who patronized the school1 gave him his two sons to educate1 just as he should think best2 and because he now heard of ,pestalozzi1 he took them to ,yverdun1 where he remained as pupil with them1 for a season4 ,but he was not quite satisfied with ,pestalozzi's methods4 ,he saw there was a process to be attended to1 anterior to the observation of objects2 namely1 to employ and discipline the activity of children yet too young to attend except to what they are themselves doing4 ,education was to begin1 as he saw1 in doing1 and thence proceed to knowing4 ,in returning from ,yverdun1 his elder brother1 and his younger brother's widow1 offered him their children to add to the two young ,frankforters2 and the widow offered1 besides1 a small house that she owned in ,keilhau1 if he would fit it up4 ,he and ,middendorf and another friend united together and accepted this offer2 and1 with their own hands repaired the house1 living in the outbuildings meanwhile and subsisting on rations most carefully economized4 ,they then1 for one thing1 went to work on the land1 which they taught the children to cultivate1 and deduced their lessons out of the objects into which they were putting their life and labor4 ,to these six children three cultivated men devoted themselves2 and ,froebel also wrote to the lady that used to study with him in the ,mineralogical ,museum of ,berlin1 and she took her fortune1 and left her rank1 to help the poor schoolmaster in his life work1 as the most devoted of wives4 ,working on the land was not all that they did4 ,they began with it1 because the children of the city had been rather starved of the gratification of that instinct to work in the earth1 which very soon appears in all children--though1 as ,froebel says1 it will die out by being left uncultivated4 ,he found that his pupils had been already injured by their artificial city life1 and in many ways they had things to unlearn4 ,it was not a perfectly easy thing to determine how much liberty to give to individual tendencies that had been exaggerated by the reactions of disorder1 or of an artificial order4 ,froebel thought the educator should give full play to all that is universal in human nature without pampering human idiosyncrasy1 to do which was the vicious point of ,rousseau's system that ,froebel has happily avoided4 ,it was natural that he should first bring before his pupils the processes of vegetable growth1 because it was in observing them that he had himself first found the laws of ,god4 ,but he was older than any child in the kindergarten when he learned that lesson4 ,observation of anything outward is not the first thing in human development1 but exertion of powers from within1 which provokes the reaction of the outward and makes it known4 ,i cannot follow out1 in this introductory lecture1 all his studies of the nature of man in these children1 and all his experiments of cultivation4 ,but ,i hope to do so in those which follow4 ,the school founded in ,keilhau exists to this day2 but ,froebel ever found himself going back till at last he came to the infant in the mother's arms4 ,then he went into the huts of the peasantry to observe the mother's instinctive ways1 reason upon them1 purify them of her individual caprices and selfishness1 and eliminate everything inconsistent with the divine idea and method of procedure1 indicated by the instinct to the intelligence4 ,he did not confine himself to ,keilhau1 where ,middendorf steadily lived1 though always keeping in relation with it2 but went at times to other places1 and once1 for a year or two1 left all1 to go to the ,university of ,gttingen to study philology4 ,there he made himself acquainted with ,greek1 ,latin1 and ,sanskrit1 studying out those laws of mind exemplified in the formation and decay of languages4 ,for it was the secret of a perfect development that he sought1 and how to keep his pupils at the height they were competent to gain4 ,after half a century of the study of childhood in the living subject1 and elaboration of the means of discipline1 he settled in his old age into the conviction1 that the most important period of human education was before the child was seven years old4 ,and his last years were spent in preparing teachers for kindergartens at ,rudolstadt and at ,hamburg--which he did by teaching before them as well as by lecturing to them4 ,now it is what he discovered and elaborated1 and has left1 not in logical formulas1 though he has certainly stated principles in words and embodied them in songs1 but in processes of work and play1 that is to be taught in our training schools4 ,it took a ,newton to discover gravitation and other principles of nature1 but men without genius can comprehend and apply these principles1 which they could not1 like him1 discover4 ,so it took a ,froebel's genius to discover the first principles of education1 and his sensibility to apply them without mistake2 but intelligent and heartful young women can learn them and apply them1 if--and only if--they will study devoutly and faithfully what he has taught2 and in doing so they will find themselves--not becoming artificial1 but more profoundly natural than ever2 for the true educational process is but the mother's instinct and method1 clearly understood in all its bearings1 and acted out4 ,to be a kindergartner is the perfect development of womanliness--a working with ,god at the very fountain of artistic and intellectual power and moral character4 ,it is therefore the highest finish that can be given to a woman's education1 to be educated for a kindergartner2 and it is from the most advanced classes of high and normal schools1 public and private1 that the pupils of our training schools should come1 and from the most refined circles of private life--remembering that these are not identical with wealthy and fashionable ones1 for in the latter we often find the vulgar and coarse4 ,the refinement of feeling and thought which is always attended with gentle and courteous manners is a religious quality1 that not seldom glorifies humble homes whose inmates escape the sometimes hardening effect of poverty by seeing ,him who is invisible1 while those the imagination of whose hearts are evil continually1 and even the merely frivolous1 betray that they have faculties that they have never used though they dwell in palaces4 ,ever since the normal teaching of kindergartners was begun in ,america1 in #ahfh1 letters have been received from teachers1 already at work in the old routine of primary instruction1 asking for knowledge of the plays and occupations invented by ,froebel2 in order that1 by means of them1 they may give such prestige to their infant schools as the name of kindergarten may4 ,but this superficial1 inappreciative use of ,froebel's processes1 is as fatal to his reform as was judaizing to the primitive ,christian ,church4 ,froebel's method is a radical change of direction4 ,it changes the educator's point of view4 ,instead of looking down upon the child1 the kindergartner must clear her mind of all foregone arbitrary conclusions1 and humbly look up to the innocent soul1 which in its turn sees nothing but the face of the ,father in heaven--7for thus ,christ explains children's being of the kingdom of heaven74 ,this is difficult for her to do1 because--not seldom--a shadow has fallen on the original innocence of the children confided to her care1 from those human beings in relation to them1 who have not done for them what every human being needs by reason of the essential dependence of individuals upon their race4 ,the child is doubtless an embryo angel2 but no less certainly a possible devil4 ,if the immortal will1 impassioned by the heart1 which never rests permanently satisfied till the mind recognizes ,god1 be puzzled1 it may be turned in a wrong direction by what it meets1 and then the manifestation will be ugly and more or less hateful4 ,evil is the inevitable effect of an ignorant1 disorderly action of the will2 of its not adopting the laws of order1 by which ,god creates the universe1 and of which the universe is the unconscious exponent4 ,but knowledge of the laws of order must come to guide the will1 from outside the child's conscious individuality1 through the human providence of education1 in which the heavenly ,father veils ,his infinite power1 in order that the child may be free to make the choice of good1 that shall lift him from the state1 of merely instinctive being1 into that union of ,love and ,thought1 which characterizes a spirit creative1 i4e41 causing effects4 ,perhaps you will say that if human influence must embody ,divine ,providence1 in order to educate1 then children never will be educated4 ,well6 ,except in one instance ,i admit that children never have been educated up to the ideal standard4 ,but the one instance of the perfectly ,divine ,son of the perfectly holy ,mother2 and the partial successes of such fitful good education as history and tradition report1 forbid us to despair of making human education a worthy image of ,divine ,providence4 ,to despair of this is want of the proper action of human free will1--,faith4 ,the first qualification of the true kindergartner1 then1 is ,faith1 which can be based only on the abiding conviction that ,god is with us to will and to do1 if we will only have the courage to take for granted that if we are willing1 ,he will make of us divine guides to others4 ,that ,he is calling them to be so1 whoever feels a strong love of children1 sympathy with their life1 and sensibility to their beauty1 may have a reasonable assurance2 and that such as shall faithfully qualify themselves for the work will not fail of the divine help4 ,but observe my proviso4 ,their love must not be a passing emotion1 grounded on the children's superficial beauty4 ,it must be a love that involves patience1 that can stand the manifestation of ugly temper1 and perverse will1 and never lose sight of the embryo angel that wears for the moment the devilish mask4 ,in children1 evil is actual1 but always superficial and temporary1 if the educator does not become party to it by losing her own temper and idea4 ,also she must have resources by means of a cultivated understanding and imagination1 to command the child's imagination and heart4 ,it may be said that everybody cannot have1 at will1 imagination and culture4 ,this is true2 but such persons should not undertake to keep a kindergarten4 ,let them do something else2 keep shop1 cultivate vegetables1 work the sewing machine2 even keep those schools for older children1 in which books are the main teachers4 ,there are multitudes of things to be done2 the greatest variety of functions to be performed in human life4 ,but of all things to do1 the cultivation of human beings at that period of life when they are utterly at the mercy of those who teach them1 is the most sacred4 ,why rush into that1 impelled by any motive below the highest8 ,on the other hand1 ,i do not wish to produce any artificial sentimentality on this subject4 ,it is my belief that the average woman is sufficiently gifted by nature to make a good kindergartner1 if she will give her nature fair play1 by cultivating religious and moral sentiment2 and will take pains to develop her intellect by the study of nature's laws in at least one department of science--that of vegetable physiology for instance1 the materials of which are everywhere4 ,one who could not be educated to become a kindergartner1 should never dare to become a mother2 for she would not know even how to choose the assistance necessary to her for the work that ought to be done for every child by somebody4 ,while ,i would discourage1 and if possible effectually frighten every one from professing kindergartning who is morally disqualified by sordid aims1 or by making it a means to another end than itself1 ,i welcome the young and ardent to this beautiful womanly work1 which1 to do well1 requires of them to do the very best thing for their own intellect and heart1 and which1 more certainly than anything else1 will give them the secret of ,power and ,beauty4 ,it was my privilege1 a year or two since1 to pass a week in one of the schools of the feeble-minded2 and ,i there saw six women1 some of them quite young girls1 devoted to the terrible work of waking up ,will and ,perception in those poor prisoners of mal-organization1 so many of them frightful to look upon4 ,they were doing their work under the strongest sense of humanity and religion4 ,it would have been impossible to do it at all1 as they were doing it1 had they had no other inspiration than the pay they were receiving4 ,the main reward was in their having some success in waking up the mind4 ,in their countenances something angelic was dawning2 and this was not my fancy merely1 for ,i heard the same remark made again and again1 by persons who went there as ,i did4 ,i do not think one of these women wished to leave the good work2 and if acting on a mind-cherishing principle was so interesting1 and productive of such reactive effects1 in such sad circumstances1 how much more may be expected from working upon children fairly gifted6 ,the charm of the sadder work was1 that1 like kindergartning1 it stimulated to profound study of the laws of mental nature1 in order to work reverently among them1 instead of arbitrarily1 in defiance or irreverence of them4 ,to do this made these women feel that they were working with ,god2 and this made them practical saints4 ,but why cannot we believe that ,god is present1 and acting with us1 and wooing us to act with ,himself1 in the joyous paradise of life1 as well as in chambers of disease1 and among the wretched8 ,is ,he not the ,god of the living and joyful1 as well as of the dying and sad8 ,why is the church-yard only a grave-yard8 ,why should it not always be a kindergarten8 ,one of the pleasantest observations that ,i made of the kindergartens of ,germany--and ,i went to the very best ones1 those kept by the kindergartners whom ,froebel had trained--was the happy absorption of the teachers in the children2 their sympathy with them2 the utter companionship between them4 ,i never saw a punishment2 ,i never heard a ,don't 7or its ,german equivalent72 but when anything went wrong1 there was always a pause1 and sometimes questions were asked2 and all seemed to wait till the inward guide had been brought out into consciousness 7whether the thing in hand was social action or artistic work74 ,perhaps it might be harder work to govern ,american children4 ,their vivacious temperament1 their lively energies1 need conscious law as a curb1 rather than as a spur4 ,but all the more is it necessary for the ,american kindergartner to vivify the invisible guide2 she should present order to the mind1 by her genial questioning and conversation over the work in hand1 rather than exert an arbitrary power which might stimulate the reaction of obstinacy or the subterfuges of cunning4 ,to govern is not the whole thing4 ,the question is how we govern2 whether we so govern as to make a cringing slave1 a cunning hypocrite1 or an intelligent1 law-abiding1 self-respecting1 willing servant of ,god4 ,i have seen a magnetic teacher produce a marvellous obedience1 and apparent order1 by his imposing presence and keen satire4 ,he imagined that he governed by moral power2 but as soon as he was out of the schoolroom1 the children were the victims of their own impulses1 to which seemed given a stronger spring by the enforced repression4 ,there is no order which is more than skin deep1 unless it be the free1 glad obedience of the child to a law1 which he perceives to be creative because it enables him to do something real4 ,nothing short of the union of love and thought can produce spiritual power1 i4e41 creativeness4 ,it is only spiritual power that inaugurates order--the ,eternal ,beauty may be inaugurated in childhood and among childish toys4 ,there is reason1 on their own account1 why we want our pupils1 in this art of kindergartning1 to be in their disposition and circumstances above merely pecuniary motive for entering on the work2 and that is1 because it will be long before the work will pay much in money4 ,i need not adduce any other proof of this than our experience in ,boston2 where1 for four years1 the rarely gifted1 thoroughly educated1 religiously devoted ,alma ,kriege poured out her young energies on classes of less than a score of children2 bringing her a pittance so small that she had to fill up the rest of her hours1 which ought to have been given to recreation and culture1 with other work1 in order to pay for rent and necessary bread4 ,our rich and cultivated people will not forego a little more upholstery than is necessary1 or a style of dress that makes the laundry bill--to say nothing of the mantua-maker's and milliner's--larger than the school bill1 in order to give the required remuneration to the kindergartner for spending herself on their children in exhausting study and labor4 ,but the truth is1 people do not really believe that anything better can be done for children than to kill the time between the mother's arms and the season when they are to be taught to read2 and so this precious interval1 when the habits of thought and affection are forming1 is given up to be filled by chance1 risking life-long difficulties for the child4 ,now1 what is to reform this state of things8 ,nothing but the self-sacrificing work of kindergartners1 who1 for the sake of enlightening these benighted parents1 will do their work faithfully1 steadily refusing to undertake the care of those whom their parents will not trust to ,froebel's system4 ,the refusal will not seldom force the truth on the parents--who1 when they know it1 will be glad to know it4 ,i do not say to any particular person1 it is your duty to wear yourself out and half starve1 for the sake of keeping a kindergarten4 ,it is only you who are sufficiently free from other obligations1 to give yourselves the privilege and luxury of working with ,god1 on the paradisaical ground of childhood1 who should enter this field4 ,if you can make it your object to study how to avoid offending those who are beholding the face of the ,father in heaven1 by not hindering1 but bringing them to ,christ1 which means helping them to grow as ,he did1 in grace as in stature1 and in favor with ,god and man1 till like ,him they become redeemers of their brethren from bondage1 and can help to make earth the kingdom of heaven2 then you may hope1 in your day and generation1 to initiate kindergartning1 and make the way smooth for those that follow4 ,when the true thing is initiated1 it will pay even in money2 for parents will see that it is invaluable4 ,it is twenty-two years since ,froebel died4 ,he had made a band of kindergartners1 and set them at work4 ,they all began with small pecuniary reward4 ,it was at first a starving business4 ,in ,europe it is more difficult than it is here1 to induce women of culture and position to undertake any work which is paid for with money4 ,froebel's genius had overcome this prejudice in a few instances4 ,the ladies of one wealthy family in ,hamburg became his pupils1 one of whom introduced it into ,england1 though under some great disadvantages4 ,the ,baroness ,marenholtz-,blow is the most important person inspired by ,froebel2 and the circumstances of her introduction to him are even picturesque4 ,being in feeble health1 she went into an obscure village for rest and retirement2 and one day asked the woman with whom she boarded1 if anything interesting was going on among the villagers4 ,the woman replied that there was one queer thing1 a natural fool who played about among the children1 who followed him1 and were very much taken up with him4 ,the ,baroness hardly heeded this singular assertion2 but some time after1 being abroad for exercise1 she saw a white-haired man under a tree1 with a group of children around him2 and1 thinking this might be the natural fool1 she drew near1 and was soon arrested by what she heard1 and joined the little throng herself4 ,subsequent interviews with ,froebel--for it was he--made a new era in her life1 and she corresponded with him closely till his death4 ,she has since been his chief apostle4 ,after years of earnest work1 with tongue and pen1 she succeeded in getting rid of the injunction against his schools1 made by the ,prussian ,government1 which was jealous of what claimed to be an improvement on their world-renowned ,reform4 ,since this injunction was taken off1 she has worked1 by means of a normal school which she helped to found in ,berlin1 in which she lectured gratuitously many years1 fighting earnestly against just such deteriorations of the system as have already begun to appear in this country4 ,some of the pseudo-kindergartens use the plays and occupations there1 as here1 in the most superficial way4 ,when children work by patterns1 or are shown--instead of being told in words--how to do things1 they merely imitate1 with as little accompaniment of intellectual action as a monkey2 and neither the mind nor the character will be developed1 but rather dissipated and weakened4 ,others1 especially in this country1 use the plays in the intervals between lessons or reading1--which1 being taught before the mind has been regularly developed by success in doing things1 and before the meaning of words has been learned in an adequate manner1 are confused with a chaos of unrelated particulars1 that it will take years of self-education1 by and by1 to grow out of2 and1 in short1 only a few vigorous natures fortunately situated ever surmount the difficulty4 ,but the work of the ,baroness has not been in vain2 and she writes in a late letter that a government decree has just been made in ,austria1 ordering that all the children between four and six years of age should be sent to kindergartens2 and that every normal school must give kindergarten training1 and every teacher1 whether of that or the following stages of education1 must be made acquainted with ,froebel's principles and practices4 ,this great step is the final result of the agitation of the subject for the last few years in ,europe1 which began in the first ,philosophers' ,congress at ,prague1 in #ahfg4 ,the dying out of the teachers instructed by ,froebel himself was manifestly producing a deteriorating effect in the quality of kindergartners2 and his most intelligent and devoted disciples proposed to the ,congress an effort for the revival of his science and art in its pristine purity and power4 ,it is most desirable that such falsification and deterioration do not get ahead in ,america4 ,but there is impending danger of it1 and it can only be prevented by establishing and keeping up adequate training-schools1 and so informing public opinion1 that it shall not be tolerated in the community to call by the sacred name of kindergarten anything short of it4 ,there will necessarily be infant schools of an inferior quality for a long time1 because it will take time to make common an adequate education in the art of kindergartning2 but let such be called play-schools4 ,pretenders in this profession should be frowned upon by all good people1 as pretenders in the clerical profession are4 ,they do more harm than bad clergymen can1 because the subjects of their teaching are more helpless and undefended1 and can do nothing for themselves4 ,the experience ,i have had in my apostolate in this cause1 has brought me to the conclusion that in ,america the best way to proceed is1 to induce the public authorities to have kindergartning taught in the ,state and city normal schools1 and to open public kindergartens as fast as there are adequate teachers for them4 ,everything depends on the quality of the first kindergartners we train--their spiritual1 moral and intellectual quality--which must be such as to operate in two ways3 first1 to do for the children the right thing2 secondly1 to educate the community to require it done as a general thing4 ,many characteristics of ,america give great encouragement4 ,we are not dragged back1 as they are in ,europe1 by old customs1 whose roots are intertwined with the heart-strings of inherited sentiment4 ,our patriotic hearts fasten themselves on the great future that our fathers died to inaugurate4 ,we must justify their ideal of universal equality1 by an equal education1 an equal opportunity for development of all our people4 ,the spirit that makes all things new1 as the heart of childhood craves1 and its hand is eager to enact1 is every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of ,god1 to make alive the human heart4 ,therefore we leave behind us--more and more--those conventions of the ,old ,world that have made even the great work of educating rank as inferior to that which wields the sword of war4 ,some people groan at seeing how the growing facilities of getting money1 which our institutions give to every man and woman of energy1 is effacing the old distinctions of rank4 ,but if our ,culture may be made universal1 by employing part of this money in making public education adequate1 what ground will be left for distinction of rank8 ,what pretext for exclusion will there be1 when there are none rude and uncultivated to be excluded8 ,that any distinction of ranks came among the children of ,god is incidental to free agency4 ,children know nothing of them--till we profane their golden age of innocence by revealing them4 7,appendix1 ,note ,a47 ,,lecture ,,ii4 ,,the ,,nursery4 ,,it is my object to inspire1 if ,i can1 an enthusiasm for educating children strictly on ,froebel's method1 and no other2 and ,i wish to justify myself by giving reasons for this2 for ,i know that1 at first sight1 ,americans start back from putting faith in any leader2 immediately exclaiming1 that they must be free to follow the light of their own minds4 ,this sounds large and liberal1 certainly2 and no one sees the danger of yielding to any individual authority more than ,i do2 but it is certain that nothing may make us so narrow1 as a bigoted adherence to the rule of following the light of our own mind condignly4 ,the light of our own individual mind may be darkness2 it must1 in any case1 be that of a farthing candle1 compared with ,eternal ,reason1 the light that lighteth every man that cometh into the world4 ,the question is1 do we distinguish between that greater light and our own idiosyncrasy1 with a becoming and discriminating humility8 ,i once heard a lady1 whose name was ,gurley1 say to a witty gentleman1 that she believed in the total depravity of human nature from the experience of her own heart4 ,ah6 but that is not quite fair1 he replied1 for how do you know what is human nature and what is ,gurleyism8 ,here is tersely suggested the danger of the individualistic philosophy1 which has developed itself into a new kind of bigotry in these later days1 not less denunciatory in its animus than any other2 and which shuts up its votaries in a dungeon from the light of ,universal experience4 ,i acknowledge the legitimacy of the philosophy of individualism1 as a protest against the glittering generality which theological philosophy had become1 at the time when it arose2 and as affirmation that ,god makes every man separately an eye1 and if he would see into the ,infinite ,over-soul1 he must look with it out of his own window4 ,but this is only the way to begin to search for truth4 ,if he is not self-intoxicated1 every man soon learns that his window does not command the whole horizon1 that ,god not only has given a window to him1 but to every other man2 that we are all free to look out of each others' windows1 some being higher up in the tower of the common humanity than our own1 commanding wider views2 in fine that it is with all the sons of man that wisdom dwells1 and they must inter-communicate with mutual reverence if they would know her well4 ,froebel had not been so wise1 had he not1 with reverent humility1 sought what ,god says immediately to mothers and babes4 ,you will not be wise if you do not look out of ,froebel's window4 ,the story ,i told you1 in my last lecture1 of the growth of ,froebel's mind from his boyhood1 suggested the fact that the common motherly instinct1 purified of individual passion and caprice1 and1 understanding itself as the presence of the ,living ,god overshadowing her1 is the social atmosphere necessary to be breathed by every child who is to grow in wisdom and stature1 and in favor with ,god and man4 ,froebel learned this primal fact or truth1 first negatively1 as it were1 by lacking it in his own childish experience2 and he verified it positively afterwards1 by studying the method of unsophisticated mothers1 at that earliest period of their children's lives1 when1 in order to keep them alive merely1 the nurse must take the rule of her nursing from the needs which her heart divines1 aided by the nursling's own expression of want and content--its tears and smiles4 ,let us then determine first1 as he did1 the nursery art1 which is preliminary to that of the ,kindergarten4 ,by the primal miracle 7i4e41 wonder working7 of nature1 the mother finds in her arms a fellow-being1 who has an immeasurable susceptibility of suffering1 and an immeasurable desire of enjoyment1 and an equally immeasurable force intent on compassing this desire1 already in activity1 but with no knowledge at all of the material conditions in which he is placed1 to which he is subject1 and by which he is limited in the exercise of this immense nature4 ,as ,i have said before1 every form of animal existence but the human1 is endowed with some absolute knowledge1 enabling it to fulfil its limited sphere of relationship as unerringly as the magnetized needle turns to the pole1 and1 even with more or less of enjoyment2 yet with no forethought4 ,but the knowledge that is to guide the blind will of the human being1 even to escape death in the first hour of its bodily life1 exists substantially outside of its own individuality in the mother1 or whoever supplies the mother's place4 ,and throughout the existence of the human being1 the forethought that is to enable him to appreciate his ever multiplying relations with his own kind1 and which grows wider and sweeter as he fulfils the duties they involve1 is essentially outside of himself as a mere individual2 being found first in those who are in relation with him in the family1 afterwards in social1 national1 cosmopolitan relationship2 till at last he realizes himself to be in sonship with ,god1 in whom all humanity1 nations1 families1 individuals1 live and move and have their being4 ,there is no absolute isolation or independency possible for a spiritual being4 ,this is a truth involved in the very meaning of the word spirit1 and revealed to every family on earth1 by the ever recurring fact of the child born into the arms of a love that emparadises both parties1 on which he lives more or less a pensioner throughout his whole existence1 so far as he lives humanly1 finding fullness of life at last in the clear vision and conscious communion of an ,infinite ,father1 who has been revealing ,himself all along1 in the love of parent and child1 brother and sister1 husband and wife1 friend1 fellow-citizen and fellow-man4 ,christ said1 that little children see the ,father face to face1 but surely not with the eyes of the body or of the understanding6 ,they see him with the heart4 ,and is it not true1 that we never quite forget the child's vision in turning our eyes on lower things8 for what but remembrance of our ,heavenly ,father's face is hope1 that springs eternal in the human breast8 ,what but this remembrance are the ideals of beauty1 that haunt the savage and the sage8 the sense of law that gives us our moral dignity1 and in the saddest case1 what but this are the pangs of remorse1 in which1 as ,emerson has sung in his wonderful sphinx song1 lurks the joy that is sweetest8 ,froebel has authority with me1 because1 in this great faith1 making himself a little child1 he received little children in the name 7that is1 as germinating forms7 of the ,divine humanity1 with a simple sincerity1 such as few seem to have done since ,jesus claimed little children as the pure elements of the kingdom he came to establish on earth2 and exhorted that1 as they were such1 they should be brought to him as the motherly instinct prompted1 and declared that they were not to be forbidden 7that is1 hindered as all false education hinders47 ,as an ,american then1 and more--as a human being1 ,i acknowledge no authority except the union of love and thought in practical operation4 ,but whenever ,i see this union in any one1 to a greater degree than ,i have it in myself1 ,i bow before that person1 and feel 7which is the subtlest kind of knowing7 that ,i am larger wiser1 freer1 more effective for good1 by following and obeying him as a master for the time being4 ,therefore1 after the study ,i have made of ,froebel1 and of the method with little children that he was fifty years discovering and elaborating into practical processes1 whose rationale and creative influence ,i perceive2 ,i feel1 as it were1 ,divinely authorized to present him to you as an authority which you can reverently trust2 and so be delivered from the uncertainties of your own narrow and crude notions1 inexperienced and ignorant as you undoubtedly are1 however talented4 ,it is quite necessary for me to say1 and for you to accept this now1 or our short time together will be wasted4 ,there is a time for criticism undoubtedly1 and nothing is true that can not make itself good against honest doubt4 ,but as ,sterne has said1 of all the cants that are canted in this canting world1 though the cant of hypocrisy may be the worst1 the cant of criticism is the most provoking4 ,i would go fifty miles on foot to kiss the hand of that man1 whose generous heart will give up the reins into his author's hands1 for the time being1 and let him lead him where he will4 ,i am quoting from memory1 and may forget the exact words2 but the idea is1 that the mood of self-surrendering reverence is the mood for profitable study1 for it is to become a little child1 which ,christ told his disciples was the condition of any one's becoming the greatest in the kingdom of ,divine ,truth4 ,let us begin1 then1 with reverently considering the new born child1 as ,froebel did2 for that is to be the light of all our seeing4 ,a child is a living soul1 from the very first2 not a mere animal force1 but a person1 open to ,god on one side by his heart1 which appreciates love1 and on the other side to be opened to nature1 by the reaction upon his sensibility of those beauteous forms of things that are the analysis of ,god's creative wisdom2 and which1 therefore1 gives him a growing understanding1 whereby his mere active force shall be elevated into a rational1 productive will4 ,for heart and will are1 at first1 blind to outward things and therefore inefficient1 until the understanding shall be developed according to the order of nature4 ,but during this process of its development1 adult wisdom must supply the place of the child's wisdom1 which is not1 as yet1 grown2 that is--an educator must point out the way1 genially1 not peremptorily2 for in following the educator's indications1 the child must still act in a measure from himself4 ,as he is irrefragably free1 he will not always obey2 he will try other paths--perhaps the contrary one--by way of testing whether he has life in himself4 ,but unless he shall go a right way1 he will accomplish nothing satisfactory and reproductive2 and it is ,froebel's idea to give him something to do1 within the possible sphere of his affection and fancy1 which shall be an opportunity of his making an experience of success1 that shall stimulate him to desire1 and thereby make him receptive of the guidance of creative law1 which is the only true object for the obedience of a spiritual being4 ,to the new born child1 his own body is the whole universe2 and the first impression he gets of it seems to come from his need of nutriment4 ,but it is the mother1 not the child1 that responds to this want1 by presenting food to the organ of taste1 and producing a pleasurable impression which arouses the soul to intend itself into the organ1 which is developed to receive impression more and more perfectly1 by the child's seeking for a repetition of the pleasure4 ,for a time1 whatever uneasiness a child feels1 he attempts to remove by the exercise of this organ1 through which he has gained his first pleasant impression of objective nature4 ,therefore is it1 that his lips and tongue become his first means of examining the outward world into which he has been projected by his ,creator4 ,the ear seems to be the next organ of which the child becomes conscious1 or through which he receives impressions of personal pleasure and pain2 and here it is noticeable1 that rhythmical sound seems1 from the very first1 to give most pleasure2 and is wonderfully effective to soothe the nerves1 and remove uneasiness4 ,all mothers and nurses sing to babies1 as well as rock them1 7which is rhythmical motion17 and this pleasant impression on the ear diverts the child from intending himself exclusively into the organ of tasting4 ,he now stretches himself into his ears1 whose powers are developed by gently exercising their function of hearing4 ,the child seems to taste and hear1 before he begins to see anything more definite than the difference between light and darkness4 ,by and by a salient point of light1 it may be the light of a candle1 catches and fixes his eye1 and gives a distinct visual impression1 which is evidently pleasurable1 for the child's eye follows the light1 showing that the soul intends itself into the organ of sight4 ,soon after1 gay colors fix its gaze and evidently give pleasure4 ,the eye for color is developed gradually1 like the ear for music1 by exercise1 which being pleasurable becomes spontaneous4 ,the whole body is the organ of touch2 but as the hands are made convenient for grasping1 to which the infant has an instinctive tendency1 and the tips of the fingers are especially handy for touching1 they become1 by the intension of the mind into them1 the special organ for examining things by touch1 and getting impressions of qualities obvious to no other sense4 ,when1 as it sometimes happens1 by malformation or maltreatment of them1 the eyes fail to perform their functions1 it is wonderful how much more the soul intends itself into the special organs of touch1 developing them to such a degree1 that a cultivated blind person seems almost to see with the tips of the fingers4 ,this fact proves what ,i have been trying to impress on your minds1 that the soul which spontaneously desires and wills enjoyment1 takes possession and becomes conscious of its organs of sensuous perception1 partly by an original impulse1 given to it by the ,creator1 and partly1 7which ,i want you especially to observe17 by the genial1 sympathetic1 intelligent1 careful co-working of the mother and nurse2 who1 by what we call nursery play1 gives a needed help to the child to accomplish this feat in a healthy and pleasurable manner4 ,and we shall be better convinced of the virtue of this nursery play1 if we consider the case of the neglected children of the very poor1 so pathetically described by ,charles ,lamb4 ,see essays on ,popular ,fallacies1 ,no4 #ab4 ,madame ,marenholtz-,blow has happily remarked1 in her preface to ,jacob's ,manual1 ,le jardin des ,enfans1 that to develop and train the senses is not to pamper them4 ,the organs of tasting and smelling do not require so much exercise by the duplicate action of the mother1 as those of seeing and hearing4 ,the former have for their end to build up the body2 the latter to lead the child's mind out of the body1 to that part of nature which connects him with other persons4 ,the functions of both are equally worthy2 but those of the latter belong to the child as a social and intellectual being4 ,it is the mother's office to temper the exercises of each sense1 so that they may limit and balance each other4 ,and in order to limit those which are building up the body1 so that they shall not absorb the child1 the action of the others must be helped out4 ,our bodies feel--where'er they be--against or with our will2 but to see and hear all that children can1 requires exertion of will and this is coaxed out by the sympathetic action of others4 ,yet the functions of tasting or smelling are not to be banned4 ,the ,creator has made them delightful2 and if others do their proper part1 their exercise will never become harmful4 ,to enjoy tasting and smelling is no less innocent than to enjoy seeing and hearing4 ,there is no function of mind or body but may be performed ,divinely4 ,milton shows insight into this truth by making ,raphael sit and eat at table with man in ,paradise2 and he says some wonderful things upon the point1 which will bear much study4 ,and have we not in sacred tradition a symbol1 still more venerable1 of the truth1 that the fire of spirit burns without consuming1 and may transform the body without leaving visible residue8 ,there are in ,brown's philosophy 7which does not penetrate into all the mysteries of the rational soul and immortal spirit7 some very instructive chapters on the social and moral relations of the grosser senses1 7as taste1 smell and touch are sometimes called47 ,it is the part of rational education to understand all these things thoroughly1 and adjust the spontaneous activities by subordinating them to the end of a harmonious and beneficent social life4 ,the ,lord's ,supper may be made to illustrate this general human duty4 ,there is doubtless marked difference in the original energy of life1 in different children4 ,young--but not too young1 happy1 healthy1 loving parents1 have the most vigorous1 lively and harmoniously organized children2 but in all cases1 the impulse of life must be met and cherished by the tender1 attractive1 inspiring force of motherly love2 which with caressing tone and invoking smile1 peers into the infant's eyes1 and importunately calls forth the new person1 who1 as her instinctive motherly faith and love assure her1 is there2 and whom she yearns to make conscious of himself in self-enjoyment4 ,the time comes when the little body has become so far subject to the new soul1 that an answering smile of recognition signalizes the arrival upon the shores of mortal being of that light which never was on sea or land1 another immortal intelligence6 ,it is only the smile of the intelligent human face1 that can call forth this smile of the child in the first instance2 but let this glad mutual recognition of souls take place once1 and both parties will seek to repeat the delight1 again and again4 ,few persons1 indeed1 get so chilled by the sufferings and disappointments1 and so hardened by the crimes of human life1 but on the sight of a little child1 they are impelled to invoke this answering smile by making themselves1 for the moment1 little children again2 seeking and finding that communion with our kind which is the ,alpha and ,omega of life4 ,do not say that ,i am wandering1 fancifully1 from the serious work which we are upon3 ,i am only beginning at the beginning4 ,we can only understand the child1 and what we are to do for it in the ,kindergarten1 by understanding the first stage of its being--the pre-intellectual one in the nursery4 ,the body is the first garden in which ,god plants the human soul1 to dress and to keep it4 ,the loving mother is the first gardener of the human flower4 ,good nursing is the first word of ,froebel's gospel of child-culture4 ,the process of taking possession of the organs1 that ,i have just described1 is never performed perfectly unless children are nursed genially4 ,if bitter and disagreeable things are presented to the organ of the taste1 they are rejected with the whole force of a will1 which is too blind in its ignorance to find the thing it wants1 but vindicates its irrefragable freedom of choice by uttering cries of fright1 pain and anger1 as it shrinks back1 instead of throwing itself forward into nature4 ,if the cruel thing is repeated1 the nerves are paralyzed1 or at least rendered morbid1 especially when rude untender handling outrages the sense of touch4 ,when rough and discordant sounds assail the ear1 or too sharply salient a light1 the eye1 these organs will be injured1 and may be rendered useless for life4 ,the neglected and maltreated child is dull of sense1 and lifeless1 or morbidly impulsive1 possibly savagely cruel and cunning1 in sheer self-defence4 ,the pure element and first condition of perfect growth1 is the joy that responds to the electric touch of love4 ,underlying and outmeasuring all this delicate development of the organs of the five senses1 is the whole body's instinct of motion1 which is the primal action of will4 ,the perfectly healthy body of a little child1 when it is awake1 is always in motion--more or less intentionally4 ,when asleep1 there is the circulation of the blood1 and pulsation of the solids of the body1 corresponding to the act of breathing1 which is involuntary2 and any interruption of these produces disease--their suspension1 death4 ,but the motion which makes the limbs agile1 and the whole body elastic1 and gradually to become an obedient servant1 is voluntary1 intentional1 and can be helped by that sympathetic action of others1 which we call playing with the child4 ,froebel's rich suggestions on this play are contained in his mother's cossetting songs2 and ,i am glad to tell you that two ,english ladies1 a poet and a musician1 have translated and set to music this unique book2 and that just now it has been published by ,wilkie1 ,wood ,co41 in ,london4 ,it suggests all kinds of little gymnastics of the hands1 fingers1 feet1 toes and legs1 for these are the child's first play things2 and also the first symbols of intelligent communication1 giving the core and significance to all languages4#a ,i think that a baby never begins to play1 in the first instance1 but responds to the mother and nurse's play1 and learns thereby its various members and their powers and uses2 and when at last it jumps1 runs1 walks by itself1 which it cannot begin to do without the help of others1 it is prepared to say ,i1 with a clear sense of individuality4 ,in analyzing the process of a child's learning to walk1 we see most clearly the characteristic difference between the human person and the animals below man in the scale of relation4 ,the little chicken runs about of itself1 as soon as it is out of the shell2 but the human child1 even after all its limbs are grown1 and though he has been moving himself on all fours by means of the floor1 and supporting himself by means of the furniture to which he clings1 does not walk4 ,he will only stand alone1 unsupported1 when he sees that there are guarding arms round about him1 all ready to catch him if he should fall4 ,he seems to know instinctively1 that all the force of the earth's gravitation is against him4 ,he does not know that he may balance it by his personal power4 ,his body weighs upon his soul like a mountain1 precisely because he is intelligent of it as an object1 loves it as a means of pleasure1 and dreads its power of giving pain to him4 ,the little darling stands1 perhaps between the knees of his father1 whose arms are round about him2 the mother opens her loving arms to receive him1 and calls him to her embrace2 the way is short between1 and three steps will be sufficient1 but where is the courageous faith to say to this mountain of a body1 be removed to another place8 ,it is not in himself2 he cannot produce it any more than he can take himself up by his own ears4 ,it is in the mother2 for it is she1 not he1 who has the knowledge of the yet unexerted power which is flowing into the child from the ,creator4 ,only by the electric touch of her faith in him does his faith in himself flash out in answer to her look and voice of cheer1 and he rushes to her arms4 ,it is the doing of the deed which gives to himself the knowledge of the power that is in him4 ,he repeats it again and again1 seeming to wish to be more and more certain of his being the cause of so great effect4 ,thus cause and effect are discriminated1 and to him that hath a sense of individuality1 shall be given1 forevermore1 a growing power over the body1 to which no measure can be stated4 ,even on the vulgar plane of the professional tumbler1 a man's power over his body seems1 sometimes1 to be absolute and miraculous4 ,but the annals of heroism and martyrdom are full of facts that go to prove to all who consider them profoundly1 that the immaterial soul is sovereign1 when1 by recognizing all its relations1 it subjects the individual to the universal1 and becomes thereby entirely spiritual1 7which is man reciprocating with ,god2 becoming more and more conscious forever4#b7 ,from what has been said of the soul's taking possession of the body and its several organs1 by exercising the functions of tasting1 hearing1 seeing1 smelling1 touching1 grasping1 moving the limbs1 and at last taking up the whole body into itself in the act of walking1 we see that it is all done1 even the last1 by virtue of the social nature4 ,froebel took his clue from this fact1 a primal one1 and never let it go1 and it is of the greatest importance that it be understood clearly1 that conscious individuality1 which gives the sense of free personality1 the starting point1 as it were1 of intelligent will1 is perfectly consistent with and even dependent on the simultaneous development of the social principle in all its purity and power4 ,we see a sad negative proof of this1 in asylums for infants abandoned by their mothers1 or given up by them through stress of poverty4 ,there is one of these in ,new ,york city1 into which are received poor little things in the first weeks of their existence4 ,every thing is done for their bodily comfort which the general human kindness can devise4 ,they have clean warm cradles and clothes1 good milk1 in short everything but that caressing motherly play1 which goes from the personal heart to the personal heart4 ,that is one thing general charity cannot supply2 it is the personal gift of ,god to the mother for her child1 and none but she can be the sufficient medium of it1 and therefore1 undoubtedly it is1 that almost all new-born children in foundling hospitals die2 or1 if they survive1 are found to be feeble-minded or idiotic4 ,they seem to sink into their animal natures1 and belie the legend man written on their brows1 showing none of that beautiful fearlessness and courageous affectionateness that characterise the heartily welcomed1 healthy1 well-cared-for human infant4 ,on the contrary1 they show a dreary apathy1 morbid fearfulness1 or a belligerent self-defence1 anticipative of other forms of the cruel neglect which has been their dreary experience4 ,taking a hint from observations of this kind1 together with the bitter experiences of his own childhood1 ,froebel supplied to the mother or nurse some playthings for the baby1 which might continue to improve the various organs of its body1 by making the exercise of their functions a social delight4 ,what is called the first gift1 he proposes should be used in the nursery first4 ,it consists of six soft balls1 not too large to be grasped by a little hand1 and the use of which in the nursery1 is suggested by a little first book for mothers1 that has been translated from ,jacob's ,le jardin des ,enfans4#c ,i think it is important for the ,kindergartner to know what ,froebel thought could be done for the development of the infant in the nursery1 since if it has not been done there1 she must contrive to remedy the evil in the ,kindergarten4 ,you will bear with me1 therefore1 if ,i go quite into the minuti of this matter4 ,it will open your eyes to observe delicately1 as ,froebel did4 ,he proposed that the red ball should be first presented4 ,he had observed that a bright light concentrated1 as in a candle1 first excited the organ of sight and stimulated its action4 ,hence he inferred that a bright color would do the same1 a neutral tint would not be seen at all probably4 ,the red ball is not quite so salient and exciting as the light of a candle1 but on that account it can be gazed at longer1 without producing a painful re-action4 ,the child will have a pleasure in grasping it1 and will probably carry it to his lips2 but as it is woolen1 it will not be especially agreeable to the delicate organ of taste4 ,it will all the more be looked at therefore1 and give the impression of red4 ,froebel proposes that it shall be called the red ball1 in order that the impression of the word red on the ear1 shall blend in memory with the impression of the color on the eye4 ,as long as the child seems amused with the red ball1 he would not have another color introduced1 because he thought it took time for the eye to get a clear and strong impression of one color1 and this should be done before it was tried with a contrasted impression4 ,but by and by the blue ball1 as the greatest contrast1 may be given and named2 and all the little plays suggested in the mother's book be repeated with the blue ball2 and then the yellow ball should be given with its name2 and then the three be given together1 and the baby be asked to choose the blue1 or red1 or yellow one4 ,by attaching a string to them1 and whirling them1 or letting the infant do so1 it is surprising how long the child will amuse itself with these balls1 and what pleasure colors alone give1 especially when combined with motion4 ,the secondary colors may afterwards be added to the treasury for the eye1 with the same carefulness to secure completeness and distinctness of impression2 and to associate the color with the word that names it2 for language1 the special organ of social communion1 should be addressed to the child from the first1 though its complete attainment and use is the crown of all education4 ,smiles and sounds1 proceeding out of the mouth1 are the first languages1 and begin to fix the little child's eyes and attention upon the mouth of the mother1 from which issue the tones that are sweetest to hear1 and especially when in musical cadence4 ,but the child understands the words addressed to him long before he himself begins to articulate2 for language is no function of the individual1 but only of the consciously social being1 yearning to find himself in another4 ,there is a reciprocal communication between infants and adults that precedes the difficult act of articulation4 ,this we call the natural language1 and it is common to all nations1 being mutually intelligible1 as is proved by deaf mutes from remote countries who understand each other at once4 ,but this natural language has a very narrow scope4 ,it serves to communicate instinctive wants of body and heart1 but does not serve the fine purposes of intellectual communication1 nor minister any considerable intellectual development4 ,these signs are very general1 while every word in its origin has represented a particular object in nature4 ,in analyzing any language1 we find that the names given to the body and its members1 and to the actions and facts of life1 without which no human society can exist1 are the nucleus or central words that characterize it1 and from which the whole national rhetoric is derived4 ,hence there is a value for the mind in associating the words and action of even such a little play as here we go up1 up1 up1 and here we go down1 down1 down1 and here we go backwards and forwards1 and here we go round1 round1 round1 with other rhymes and plays of an analogous character that are found wherever there are mothers and children4 ,we have observed that the moment of first accomplishing the feat of running alone1 seemed to be that of the child's beginning to realize himself to be a person1 but that even1 in this act1 he was dependent upon his mother2 that his bodily independence was the gift of her faith in that within him1 which is essentially superior to the body and can command it as instrumentality4 ,to make it instrumentality is1 more and more1 a delight to the child1 in which his mother sympathises2 and by this sympathy aids him4 ,all his plays involve exercise of the power of commanding his body4 ,as soon as a child can move it from place to place1 his desire to exercise power on nature outside of himself increases1 and he is prompted to measure strength with other children4 ,if children were mere individuals they would merely quarrel1 as ,hobbes says2 but being social beings also1 they tend to unite forces and aid one another to compass desired ends4 ,by so doing1 they rise to a greater sense of life1 and brotherly love is evolved4 ,but in the development of the social life1 the more developed and cultivated elder must come in1 to keep both parties steady to some object outside of themselves1 which it takes their union to reach4 ,children can be taught to play together1 by engaging their powers of imitation1 and addressing their fancy4 ,every mother knows1 that in the first opening of children's social life1 their bodily energies are stimulated to such a degree1 that it is quite as much as she or one nurse can do1 to tend two or three children together2 and by the time they are three years old1 the family nursery becomes too narrow a sphere for them4 ,it is then that they are to be received into a ,kindergarten1 whose very numbers will check the energy of activity a little1 by presenting a greater variety of objects to be contemplated2 and because social action must be orderly and rhythmical1 in order to be agreeable4 ,this1 a properly prepared ,kindergartner knows1 and by her sympathetic influence and power over the childish imagination1 she will bring gradually all the laws of the child's being to the conscious understanding1 beginning with this rhythmical one at the center4 ,the movement plays which ,froebel invented1 express1 in dramatic form1 some simple fact of nature or some childish fancy1 for which he gives1 as accompaniment1 a descriptive song set to a simple melody4 ,the children learn both to recite and to sing the words of the song1 and then the movements of the play4 ,to them the whole reason for the play seems to be the delight it gives1 the exhilaration of body1 the amusement of mind4 ,but the ,kindergartner knows that it serves higher ends1 and that it is at least always a lesson in order1 enabling them to begin to enact upon earth ,heaven's first law4 ,do not say ,i am making too solemn a matter of these movement plays1 to the ,kindergartner4 ,unless she remembers that this very serious aim underlies every play which she conducts1 she will not do justice to the children4 ,law or order is one and the same thing with beauty2 and play is hindrance if it is not beautiful4 ,when she insists upon the children governing themselves1 so far as to keep their proper places in relation to each other2 to forbear exerting undue force1 and to seek to give the necessary aid to others by exerting sufficient force1 the beautiful result justifies her will to the minds of the children1 and commands their ready obedience4 ,she must call forth by addressing the sense of personal responsibility in each child2 and this1 if done tenderly and with faith1 it is by no means difficult to do4 ,the reward to the children is instant in the success of the play1 and therefore not thought of as reward of merit4 ,it is a form of obedience that really elevates the little one higher in the scale of being as an individual1 without danger of the re-action of pride and self-conceit2 for self is swallowed up in social joy4 ,when ,i was in ,germany1 ,i went1 as ,i believe ,i told you1 to those ,kindergartens1 which were taught by ,froebel's own pupils1 and ,i found that in these the movement plays were the most prominent feature of the practice4 ,more than one was played in the course of the three or four hours1 and especially when the session was as much as four hours4 ,it was done in a very exact though not constrained manner1 and much stress seemed to be laid upon every part4 ,the singing was not done by three or four1 but all the children were encouraged to sing4 ,often the little timider ones were called on to repeat the rhyme alone1 without singing it1 and then to sing it alone with the teacher4 ,thus the stronger and abler were exercised 7as they must be so much in real life7 in waiting1 sympathetically1 for the weaker4 ,a great deal of care was also exercised in regard to the form and character of the play itself4 ,those of ,froebel's own suggestion and invention were the preferred ones4 ,they consisted in imitating1 in rather a free and fanciful manner1 the actions of the gentler animals1 hares and rabbits1 fishes1 bees and birds4 ,there were plays in which children impersonated animals1 evidently for the purpose of awakening their sympathies and eliciting their kindness towards them4 ,many of the labors of human beings1 common mechanics1 such as cooperage1 the work of the farmer1 that of the miller1 trundling the wheelbarrow1 sawing wood1 c41 were put into form by simple rhymes4 ,the children sometimes personated machinery1 sometimes great natural movements4 ,in one instance ,i saw the solar system performed by a company of children that had been in the ,kindergarten four years1 but none of them were over seven years old4 ,mere movement is in itself so delightful and salutary for children that a very little action of the imitative or fanciful power is necessary1 just to take the rudeness out of bodily exercise without destroying its exhilaration4 ,my ,kindergarten ,guide1 the revised edition of which is published by ,e4 ,steiger1 of ,new ,york1 contains some of the principal plays1 set to ,froebel's own music4 ,i would gladly have printed all that ,madame ,ronge published in her ,guide1 which is out of print1 but for the expense4 ,but it is by no means merely a moral discipline that is aimed at in the ,kindergarten1 as you will see when the bearings upon their habits of thought1 of all that the children do1 are pointed out to you1 in the various occupations1 which are sedentary sports1 though the moral discipline is the paramount idea1 and never must be lost sight of one moment by the ,kindergartner4 ,we mean by moral discipline1 exercising the children to act to the end of making others happy1 rather than of merely enjoying themselves4 ,if the individual enjoyment is not a social enjoyment1 it is disorderly and vitiating4 ,but the individual is lifted into the higher order for which he is created1 by merely enjoying1 whenever his enjoyment is social4 ,i am of course speaking of that season of life under seven years of age1 when the mind is yet undeveloped to the comprehension of humanity as a whole2 when the good1 the true and the beautiful are nothing as abstractions1 and can only be realized to their experience and brought within the sphere of their senses1 by being embodied in persons whom they love1 reverence or trust4 ,the words good1 beautiful1 kind1 true1 get their meaning for children by their intercourse with such persons4 ,specific knowledge of ,god cannot be opened up in them by any words1 unless these words have first got their meaning by being associated with human beings who bear traces that they can appreciate of ,his ineffable perfections4 ,to liken ,god's love to the mother's love1 brings home a conception of it to children1 for hers they realize every day4 ,the connecting link between the nursery and ,kindergarten is the ,first ,gift of ,froebel's series1 being used in both4 ,the nursery use will have taught the names of the six colors1 red1 orange1 yellow1 green1 blue and purple1 and made it a favorite play thing4 ,it is all the better if the child has had no other playthings prepared for him4 ,he has doubtless used the chairs1 footstools1 and whatever else he could lay his hands on1 to embody his childish fancies2 and it is to be hoped he has been allowed to play out of doors with the earth1 and has made mud pies to his heart's content--not tormented with any sense of the--at his age--artificial duty of keeping his clothes clean4 ,that duty is to be reserved for the ,kindergarten age1 and will come duly1 by proper development of the mental powers4 ,in the ,kindergarten1 the ball-plays are to become more skillful1 and the teacher must see that the child learns to throw the ball so that it may bound back into his own hands2 so that it may bound into the hands of another who is in such position as to catch its reflex motion4 ,the children must learn to toss it up and catch it again themselves4 ,when standing in two rows they can throw it back and forwards to each other4 ,when standing in a circle1 the balls may be made to circulate with rapidity1 passing from hand to hand1 the children singing the accompanying song4 ,who'll buy my eggs8 is a good play to exercise them in counting4 ,and all these movement plays with the ball are admirable for exercising the body1 giving it agility1 grace of movement1 precision of eye and touch4 ,these things will accrue all the more surely if it is kept play1 and no constraining sense of duty is called on4 ,as most of these plays are not solitary1 they become the occasion for children's learning to adjust themselves to each other1 and the teacher must watch that hilarity do not become violence or rudeness to each other1 but furtherance of one another's fun2 and occasionally1 in enforcing this harmony1 a child must be removed from the play1 and made to stand in a corner alone1 or even outside the room1 till the desire of rejoining his companions shall quicken him to be sufficiently considerate of them to make pleasant play possible4 ,all children in playing together learn justice and social graces1 more or less1 because they find that without fair play their sport is spoilt2 but this play must be supervised by the ,kindergartner1 in order that there may not be injustice1 selfishness and quarreling4 ,a ,kindergartner1 who is not a martinet1 and who is herself a good play-fellow1 will magnetize the children1 and inspire such general good will that unpleasantness will be foreclosed in a great measure2 but a company of children are generally of such variety of temperament and different degrees of bodily strength1 have so often come from such inadequate nursery life1 that the regulating ,kindergartner has a good deal to do to prevent discords and secure their kindness to each other1 and the reasonable little self-sacrifices of common courtesy4 ,but she will find a word is often enough2 the question1 ,is that right8 ,would you like to have any one else do so8 ,it is sometimes necessary to bring all the play to a full stop1 in order to bring the common conscience to pronounce upon the fairness of what some one is doing4 ,i would suggest that the question be asked not of the class1 but of the individual culprit1 whether what is being done wrong1 is right or wrong8 ,the child1 with the eyes of the class upon him1 will generally be eager to confess and reform1 because the moral sense is quite as strong as self-love1 and especially when re-inforced by the presence of others4 ,it is not worth while to make too much of little faults1 and the first indication of turning to the right must be accepted2 the child is grateful for being believed in and trusted1 and the wrong doing is a superficial thing2 the moral sentiment is the substantial being of the child4 ,of all the materials used in ,kindergarten1 the colored balls are most purely playthings2 and there are none of the plays so liable to be riotous as the ball plays4 ,there is the greatest difficulty in keeping children from being too noisy1 and it is not wise to make too much of a point of it4 ,the ball seems a thing of life4 ,it is very difficult for them to get good command of it4 ,it excites them to run after it2 and shouts and laughter are irrepressible4 ,but there are reasonable limits4 ,the ,kindergartner1 in conversation before hand1 should make them see that they may get too noisy1 and tire each other1 and she will easily induce them to agree to stop short when she shall ring the bell1 and be willing to stand still while she counts twenty-five1 or watches the second hand of her watch go around a quarter1 a half1 or a whole minute1 as may be agreed upon4 ,this can be made a part of the play1 and to pause and be perfectly still in this way1 will give them some conception of the length of a minute1 and teach self-command1 as well as make a pleasant variety4 ,the ball plays should always be accompanied and alternated1 in the ,kindergarten1 with conversations upon the ball1 naming the colors1 telling which are primary1 which secondary1 and illustrating the difference by giving them pieces of glass of pure carmine1 blue and yellow1 and letting them put two upon each other1 and hold them towards the window1 and so realize the combinations of the secondary colors4 ,ask them1 afterwards1 to tell what colors make orange1 or purple1 or green2 and what color connects the orange and green2 or the purple and orange1 or the green and purple4 ,one of the other exercises1 on the day of using the ,first ,gift may be sewing with the colored threads on the cards2 and the colors may be arranged so as to illustrate the connections1 c41 just learned4 ,the use of the ,first ,gift need only be once a week4 ,it will then be a fresh pleasure every time during the whole of the ,kindergarten course1 even if it should last three years4 ,after the children have become perfectly familiar with the primary and secondary colors1 their combinations and connections1 the lessons on colors may be varied1 by telling them that tints of the primary colors and of the secondary colors1 are made by adding white to them2 and shades of them1 7which will1 of course1 be darker17 by adding black to them4 ,this may be illustrated by flowers1 as may various combinations of colors4 ,a very little child1 whom it was hard to train even to the hilarious and gay plays1 and whose attention could not easily be fixed1 surprised a teacher one day by his aptitude in detecting what color had been mixed with red to make a very glorious pink in a phlox4 ,this child liked to sew1 but was very impatient of putting his needle into any special holes4 ,it proved to be the pleasure of handling the colored yarns1 and he was always eager to change them and form new combinations4 ,it may not be irrelevant to say here1 in regard to ball playing1 from which ,i have digressed to colors1 that the ball is the last plaything of men as well as the first with children4 ,the object teaching upon the ball is strictly inexhaustible4 ,children learn practically1 by means of it1 the laws of motion4 ,beware of any strictly scientific teaching of these laws in terms4 ,you may make children familiar with the phenomena of the laws of incidence and reflection1 by simply telling them that if they strike the ball straight against the wall opposite1 it will bound straight back to them1 and then ask them whether it returns to them when they strike it in a slanting direction4 ,by and by this knowledge can be used to give meaning to a scientific expression4 ,it is a first principle that the object1 motion1 or action1 should precede the word that names them4 ,this is ,froebel's uniform method1 and the reason is1 that when the scientific study does come1 it shall be substantial mental life1 and not mere superficial talk4 ,it is the laws of things that are the laws of thought2 and thought must precede all attempt at logic1 or logic will be deceptive1 not reasonable4 ,most erroneous speculation has its roots in mistakes about words1 which it is fatal to divorce from what they express of nature1 or to use without taking in their full meaning4 ,in the easy mood of mind that attends the lively play of childhood1 impressions are made clearly2 and it should be the care of the educator to have all the child's notions associated with significant words1 as can only be done by his becoming their companion in the play1 and talking about it1 as children always incline to do4 ,it is half the pleasure of their play1 to represent it in words1 as they are playing4 ,in the nursery1 the mothers play with the child1 and all her dealings with it1 are expressed in words that are important lessons in language2 and together with language1 we give a lesson in manners1 by first trotting a child gently1 and then jouncingly1 to the words1 ,this is the way the gentle folks go1 this is the way the gentle folks go2 and this is the way the country folks go1 this is the way the country folks go--bouncing and jouncing and jumping so4 ,to describe what they are doing in little rhymes when playing ball1 makes it a mental as well as physical play of faculty1 and ,froebel published a hundred little rhymes1 and the music for as many ball plays4 ,it is not an unimportant lesson for children to learn1 that the same things seem different in different circumstances4 ,the fact that white light is composed of different colored rays can be illustrated by giving the children prisms to hold up in the sunshine2 and by calling their attention to the splendid colors of the sky at sunset and sunrise1 when the clouds act as prisms1 and to the rainbow4 ,children of the ,kindergarten age1 will be so much engaged with the beautiful phenomenon1 they will not be likely to ask questions as to how the light is separated by the prism and clouds2 they will rest in the fact4 ,but if1 by chance1 analytic reflection has supervened1 and they do1 then a large ball on which all the six colors are arranged in lines meridian-wise1 to which a string is attached at one pole1 or both poles1 can be given them1 and they be told to whirl it very swiftly4 ,this will present the phenomenon of the merging of the colors to the eye by motion1 so that the ball looks whitish from which you can proceed to speak of light as being composed of multitudinous little balls1 of the colors of the rainbow1 in motion1 and so looking white4 ,if some uncommon little investigator should persist to ask why things seem to be other than they are1 he must be plainly told1 that the reason is in something about his eyes1 which he cannot understand now1 but will learn by and by1 when he goes to school and learns optics4 ,children are only to be entertained in the ,kindergarten1 with the facts of nature that develop the organs of perception1 but a skillful teacher who reads ,tyndall's charming books and the photographic journals1 may bring into the later years of the ,kindergarten period many pretty phenomena of light and colors1 which shall increase the stock of facts1 on which the scientific mind1 when it shall be developed1 may work1 or which the future painter may make use of in his art4 ,when ,allston painted his great picture of ,uriel1 whose background was the sun1 he thought out carefully the means of producing the dazzling effect1 and drew lines of all the rainbow colors in their order1 side by side1 after having put on his canvass a ground of the three primary colors mixed4 ,when the picture was first exhibited at ,somerset ,house1 the effect was dazzling1 and it was bought at once by ,lord ,egremont1 in a transport of delight2 and for twice the sum the artist put upon it1 that is1 six hundred guineas4 ,i do not know whether time may not have dimmed its brilliancy1 since paint is of the earth1 earthy2 but to paint the sun at high noon1 and have it a success1 even for a short time1 is a great feat2 and art1 in this instance1 took counsel of science deliberately1 according to the artist's confession4 ,but perfect sensuous impressions of color and its combinations1 were the basis of both the science and the art4 ,this lecture is getting too long1 and ,i will close by saying1 that the ,first ,gift has1 for its most important office1 to develop the organ of sight1 which grows by seeing4 ,colors arouse intentional seeing by the delightful impression they make4 ,i believe that color-blindness1 7which our army examinations have proved to be as common as want of ear for music17 may be cured by intentional exercise of the organ of sight in a systematic way2 just as ear for music may be developed in those who are not born with it4 ,lowell ,mason proved1 by years of experiment in the public schools1 that the musical ear may be formed1 in all cases1 by beginning gently with little children1 giving graduated exercises1 so agreeable to them as to arouse their will to try to hear1 in order to reproduce4 ,that you may receive a sufficiently strong impression of the fact1 that the organs of perception actually grow by exercise with intention1 ,i will relate to you a fact that came under my own observation4 ,a young friend of mine became a pupil of ,mr4 ,agassiz1 who gave him1 among his first exercises1 two fish scales to look at through a very powerful microscope1 asking him to find out and tell all their differences4 ,at first they appeared exactly alike1 but on peering through the microscope1 all the time that he dared to use his eyes1 for a month1 he found them full of differences2 and he afterwards said1 that it was the best month's work he ever did1 to form the scientific eye which could detect differences ever after1 at a glance1 and proved to him an invaluable talent1 and gave him exceptional authority with scientists4 ,,footnotes3 #a ,an ,american translation has been published by ,lee ,shepard1 ,boston4 #b ,since this lecture was written and delivered in ,boston1 ,i have received from ,europe a ,french version of the ,baroness ,crombrugghe's translation of ,froebel's ,education of ,man1 and find that the first chapters analyze the first and second stages of development so much1 in the way that ,i have done1 that it gives me1 on the one hand1 confidence in myself as a true interpreter of ,froebel1 and on the other1 new confidence in ,froebel as a scientific observer and recorder of what ,i have been accused of founding on a merely sentimental knowledge4 ,but scientific knowledge1 or that gained by the exercise of the understanding1 and sentimental knowledge1 or what is gained by the intuitions of the heart1 must necessarily correspond if the understanding is sound and the heart has been kept diligently to the issues of life4 ,mr4 ,emerson calls the intellect sensibility1 and there is a fine meaning in this4 ,is there not analogous instruction in calling the heart apprehension8 ,what are love1 justice1 beauty1 c41 but apprehensions of the primal relations established by ,god8 ,can the understanding have sensibility to them1 unless apprehension of them exists from the beginning8 ,in the ,june1 ,july and ,august numbers of the ,kindergarten ,messenger1 for #ahgd1 will be found translations of the first chapters of ,froebel's book1 above mentioned4 ,i began in ,february to print the translation of the introduction1 which will be finished in the ,may number1 and then will follow the first chapter1 entitled ,the ,nursling1 and in the following numbers the subsequent chapters1 on the child's development during the ,kindergarten era4 ,this work of ,froebel's was published at an earlier period of his career than #ahdj1 when he began to devote himself almost entirely to the first stage of education1 which1 as he grew older1 he felt to be the most important1 because it enfolds the germs of all later developments4 #c ,it is sold for ten cents by ,hammett1 publisher1 in ,brattle street1 ,boston4 ,,lecture ,,iii4 ,,discipline4 ,,since the kindergartner is to receive the child from the nursery1 and half of the work in the kindergarten is what ought to have been done in the nursery1 ,i will give another lecture upon what ,froebel thought the nursery ought to do for religious nurture2 since1 if it has not been done in the nursery1 it must be done in the kindergarten4 ,we have seen that the soul takes possession of the organs of sense gradually1 by tasting1 hearing1 seeing1 smelling1 and touching that which is agreeable2 and that the continuous exercise of the organs develops them up to a certain though indefinite limit to finer susceptibility of impression4 ,we have seen that by exercising the limbs1 the soul takes possession of them in particular and in general4 ,thus the nursery plays1 improvised instinctively by all mothers1 ,froebel has enlarged1 describing in his ,mother's ,book various duplicate movements of the limbs1 especially of the hands1 that1 with the accompanying songs1 have for their end1 besides physical health1 to make the mind discriminate various parts of the body and know their several forms and functions4 ,this is the beginning of human education4 ,patty-cake teaches a child that he has hands and fingers2 ,this little pig goes to market1 this one stays at home1 that he has toes4 ,it is the child's own body that first furnishes the objects of his attention to be associated with words4 ,from the beginning it is the instinct of the maternal nurse to talk to the child1 which attracts him to observe the organs of speech2 and this prompts the sympathetic use of his own organs4 ,speech is a function distinctively human1 which1 beginning in the nursery1 is carried on carefully in the kindergarten1 creating the sphere of the intellectual life2 for words support the operation of thinking4 ,from all that ,i said of the modus operandi of the child's taking possession of his body in the nursery period1 you see that childish action is involved in the mother's action4 ,it is her wisdom1 such as it may be1 which must be the guide of the child's will1 as it is brought gradually out of the blindness of ignorance2 and it is she1 not the child1 who is responsible for the perfection of this part of the child's life4 ,and is not this1 on the whole1 the common sense of mankind8 ,does any sane person hold a baby1 up to three years old1 and often1 indeed1 much later1 responsible for the state of its temper1 or for the rightfulness of its action8 ,nevertheless1 the child is a moral person all this time1 and it is of the last importance to his subsequent moral life whether or not his temper has been kept sweet1 and his action according to law1 or discordant4 ,discordant action must have a bad reactionary effect upon the temper1 and interrupt or retard the growth of the several organs of sense and of motion4 ,hence the mother or nurse must not neglect to use her power wisely as well as gently to prevent these evils1 by duplicate movements that are rhythmic1 and calculated to bring about some end that the child's mind may easily grasp4 ,it is instinctive with every one1 as soon as he begins to play with a child1 whether it be reasonable or not1 to talk to it about its being good or bad1 although a little child cannot be good or bad1 but only orderly or disorderly2 and there is no little danger to his moral and spiritual future in anticipating by our words the workings of his conscience before it has the conditions for its development4 ,one of these conditions is such a sense of individuality as enables the child to say ,i1 with which it presently combines such perception of relationship to others as will say1 ,i ought1--a phrase that occurs in all languages1 and means something very different from ,i will4 ,it is of the greatest importance to keep this distinction in mind1 for an imposed or artificial conscience almost certainly forecloses the natural or inspired conscience1--a truth largely illustrated by the history both of families and of nations1 from which we learn that periods of corruption and wild license invariably follow periods of extreme restraint and asceticism4 ,and all conscientious action and moral judgment in children also presupposes thinking1 which is a process that does not begin until after much repetition of impressions1 being a reflective act1 which associates impressions with specific things and actions 7as the etymology of the word suggests74 ,mere reception of impressions is passive2 but to compare impressions of difference or similarity 7which individualizes things7 is active4 ,therefore thinking and putting thoughts into words includes comparison and inference1 and really produces the human understanding1 which we do not bring into the world with us1 as we do our heart and will4 ,before there is a possibility of conscience or any moral judgment properly so called1 the child's affections 7or feeling of relation with other persons7 must be cultivated by the mother's genial care1 directing mental activity towards fellow-beings1 instead of leaving the heart to turn back and stagnate upon self4 ,the more impressible a child is1 the more important is the mother's or kindergartner's providential care of his affections during this irresponsible1 pre-intellectual period of his life4 ,i think the most frightfully selfish beings ,i have ever known were endowed with great natural sensibility1 which was left to concentrate upon self1 because the claims made by the sensibility of others were not early enough presented to the imagination of their hearts4 ,by the growth of personal affections1 the individual intensifies the feeling of individuality1 which first comes to him by his having taken such possession of his body as enabled him to run alone2 and this growth1 whether intentionally directed towards that combination of his soul and body1 which he begins to call himself or ,i1 or directed toward others1 to whom he clings at first as part of himself 7their embrace of him being necessary to his comfort71 is cherished by the duplicate action of the mother4 ,she moulds his heart in her heart1 as she has moulded his bodily activity by her care and cheering sympathy1 when helping out the power of his limbs in walking and manipulation4 ,she half creates the child's generous and devout affections1 if she is herself faithful to their proper objects1 starting him on the way of a brotherly humanity and a filial adoration of the common ,father1 long before the understanding has completely discerned the objects of these human and divine affections1 which must be blended in order to continue vital and pure4 ,but the moral and religious is the most delicate region of the child's life1 the holy of holies1 into which fools incontinently rush1 though angels fear to tread4 ,she can only be the mother of the soul as well as of the body of her child1 on condition of being herself rich in love of others and in piety to ,god4 ,froebel suggests this in the introductory poems of ,die ,mutter ,spiele und ,kose ,lieder4 ,the first five of these are the mother's communings with herself upon the emotions that arise in her heart1 as she nurses her baby in her arms1 and realizes that to her and her husband has been sent a living witness of the very present ,god1 who is the author of their being1 and has united them by a love that makes that being a blessing to themselves1 which they are bound to extend beyond themselves4 ,the rhymed introduction of the several little child-songs that follow are suggestions to her of the meaning of her instincts1 and of the bearing on the development of the child's heart and mind of the little gymnastics described4 ,and just as she could not be the educator of her child into his individual body if she were a paralytic herself1 so1 if she be not affectionate and generous herself1 she cannot educate him into the social body of which he is a living member2 nor unless she loves ,god herself1 can she inspire him to recognize the ,parental ,spirit of whom we are 7as heathen poet and ,christian apostle alike aver7 the veritable children4 ,we are the offspring of ,god1 said ,st4 ,paul1 quoting from the ,greek poet ,aratus in the ,sermon on ,mars' ,hill1 which is a model of all reformatory instruction1 whether religious or secular4 ,i think all true instruction1 proceeding from the known to the unknown1 is both secular and religious1 on the principle that to those who have the seed1 can be given the increase4 ,in the first of these mother-songs of ,froebel1 the mother finds that the baby she holds in her arms1 though another than herself1 is in a certain sense one with herself2 thus is unveiled 7revealed7 to her the ,divine ,fountain of ,being1 the ,person of ,persons1 from whom she and her little one have severally come2 and her feelings of wonder and gratitude awaken the sense of responsibility to make her child grow conscious as she is of the common ,father1--and thankful as she is for life in such close relation with herself1--who is the first form in which ,god reveals ,himself to the child2 for when he first looks away from his body so far as to perceive that his mother is another than himself1 she fills the whole sphere of his perception6 ,rousseau affirms that every child1 if left to its own natural growth1 would think its mother was its creator4 ,and ,william ,godwin in his ,enquirer 7or some volume of his writings7 has quite an eloquent paper1 setting forth that the natural religion of a child is to worship its earthly parents4 ,i have made some observations and had a personal experience which makes me doubt this1 though ,i do not doubt that the characteristics of parents nearly always determine the character of the child's religion4 ,but the question of who is his own creator does not naturally come up to a child1 even when he begins to ask who made the things about him4 ,his own consciousness is of being increate1 and when brought to know that his body grows old and must die1 the fear that this causes is because he imaginatively associates his undying self1 which is a presence not to be put by with the perishing body4 ,what the soul1 by virtue of its inherent immortality1 fears and hates1 is loneliness1 absolute isolation6 ,and when we think of the body1 which we identify with ourselves from the moment that we have taken it up and walked by its instrumentality1 as put away alone in the ground1 the undying person that the soul is1 shudders1 and can only be comforted by learning to conceive itself wholly detached from the decay1 and housed within the bosom of ,him who is the ,alpha and ,omega of our life2 of ,him whom we have learnt to know with the spirit and understanding also1 by the process of living in human relations4 ,for we know ourselves as individuals first by means of the body1 and we know ourselves as a component part of the social whole of humanity by means of genial intercourse with our kindred1 it being revealed to us that we are substantially social1 as well as distinctly individual1 by our instinctive horror of separation from them4 ,later in life only1 there are pleasures of solitude for those few who by imaginative act make nature populous with personifications1 and consequently the refracting atmosphere of the ,divine ,personality4 ,the baby that finds itself alone cries for and is comforted by the embrace which restores the sense of union with its mother4 ,seldom is a baby in such a wretched state of feeling that a tender embrace and kiss will not completely comfort it4 ,what a proof it is that ,god is ,love1 that the very embrace that symbolizes to the baby's heart the sense of human companionship1 gives its mind that impression of objective nature which is the first momentum of the human understanding6 ,the gentle pressure of one sensitive body upon another produces counter-pressure1 a resistance that is positively pleasurable1 whereby the impenetrability of matter becomes a delightful instead of a frightful revelation to the mind of the ,immutable ,reality of the loving ,creator1 as the complement of our own changeful individuality6 ,it is the first syllable of that word 7or speech of ,god7 made intelligible by the various qualities and forms of matter1 the ,truth which ,he is forever addressing to man4 ,how gracious it is1 that ,he should so inextricably mingle the first impression of matter with that perception of the otherness of person that makes ,love possible6 ,thus love and the sense of individuality are correlative creations and twin births4 ,later1 the sense of individuality becomes a positive self-love 7which in its healthy degree is innocent71 and the perception of otherness of person1 with whom it is delightful to be in free union1 becomes the basis of the self-forgetting generosity of mankind4 ,these opposite principles are at first mere and perhaps equal sources of satisfaction1 having no moral character whatever4 ,afterwards1 they become respectively hard selfishness or a weak and base servility1 or they may rise into a majestic self-respect1 and that sublimest love which is to make the human race1 as a whole1 the image of ,god1 not only king over material nature1 but one with the perfect ,son of ,man1 also ,son of ,god1 who1 with a humility and dignity equally venerable1 is able to say1 ,i and my ,father are ,one6 ,but you will say that ,i am getting quite beyond the nursery4 ,in the earlier years1 the growth of the religious life is merely germinal4 ,and as it is involved within the mothers at the beginning1 it must be cherished sympathetically by her removing all occasion for self-care and self-defence1 and thus prevent the sense of individuality from degenerating through fear into inordinate self-will and self-love4 ,the child should be treated with unvarying tenderness and consideration1 without having his senses pampered into morbid excess by over-indulgence1 but above all things1 never wounding nor frightening his heart1 nor repressing the simple and healthy expression of his feelings and thoughts4 ,for enforced repression tends to produce ugly temper1 baseness1 or subtlety1 according to the child's temperament1 which is also in imperfect social harmony1 if not absolutely quarrelsome4 ,it must be her work1 therefore1 not only to complete the child's organic education1 but to take him1 as it were1 into her own affectionate spirit by using the methods which ,froebel has suggested to the mother for the discipline of her infants4 7,i use this word discipline in its true sense of teaching2 not in the sense of punishment4 ,that the word discipline should ever have come to mean punishment is a severe commentary on the ideas and modes of education that have hitherto prevailed in ,christendom47 ,the kindergartner1 as well as the mother1 must be thoroughly grounded in the faith that ,god has done ,his part in the original endowment of children2 and that ,he is truly present with her1 helping her to remedy the effects of the mother's shortcomings4 ,she will certainly succeed in her work if she studies ,his laws with an earnest purpose to carry them out1 first in the government of herself1 and then in leading the children to self-government4 ,wordsworth in his ,ode to ,duty1 sings3-- ,there are who ask not if ,thine eye ,be on them1 who1 in love and truth1 ,where no misgiving is1 rely ,upon the genial sense of youth4 ,glad hearts6 without reproach or blot1 ,who do ,thy work1 and know it not6 ,and blest are they who in the main ,this happy faith still entertain1 ,live in the spirit of this creed1 ,yet find another strength according to their need4 ,may joy be theirs while life shall last1 ,and ,thou1 if they should totter1 teach them to stand fast4 ,little children certainly1 of all persons1 are oftenest found in this condition when ,love is an unerring light1 ,and joy its own security4 ,and that other strength1 which must come by reflection on and study of the unfolding nature of the child in the felt presence of the ,inspirer of ,duty1 will certainly be needed by the kindergartner who will receive children not always from the hands of natural and faithful mothers1 but of uncultured servant-maids4 7,it is but justice to the latter to say that there are occasionally found among the ,irish nurses those who could teach many mothers4 ,the ,irish nature is not altogether bad material for the production of good motherly nurses2 but it must not be left wild2 it needs a great deal of discipline2 and ,i hope the time may come when schools for the education of children's nurses1 such as ,froebel established in ,hamburg1 which still exist1 may be founded in all our cities47 ,though ,i think the education of mothers is still more important and the first thing to aim at1 as it would render nursery maids comparatively unnecessary4 ,it is so short a period of a mother's life when she has young children1 and the book of nature which these few years open to her is so rich1 that1 for her own being's sake as well as for the children's1 it seems to me a terrible loss for her to delegate her maternal cares to others during the nursery period4 ,on the other hand1 when the age for the kindergarten comes1 the mother needs to be relieved of the increasing care2 and children1 in their turn1 need other influences than can be had in a family1 especially in families where parents have work to do outside of their homes4 ,it is1 indeed1 a consummation devoutly to be wished1 that the time may come when labor may be so organized that no mothers may be obliged to leave their children's souls uncared for in order to get the wherewithal to sustain their bodies4 ,the deepest reason why a child should be taken care of in its earliest infancy by its mother rather than by a person comparatively uninterested in its personality1 is this1 that only a mother can respect a child's personality sufficiently4 ,all others regard the child for its manifested qualities2 but with the mother1 it is the child itself that she loves1 quite irrespective of any qualities that he manifests4 ,phenomenally1 a little child is a complex of self-assertion and generosity 7or a desire for union with its kind72 a desire or a feeling of finiteness in strange contrast with that instinct to have dominion which gives vitality to self-assertion4 ,we call this primal desire for union his heart1 and this primal self-assertion his will4 ,the will expresses itself in efforts to change its environments1 putting what is at rest in motion1 knocking down1 tearing up1 because it does not yet know how to put in order1 or to change things artistically4 ,the child acts without external motive1--doing things merely because it can4 ,even after a child is old enough to think and talk1 and has done some act for which you see no reason or motive1 when you ask him why he did it1 he not unfrequently will say1 because4 ,i remember when ,i was a child of six or seven1 that ,i would give this answer with a perfect sense of satisfaction that it was an answer2 and when it would sometimes be said1 because is no reason1 or because is an old woman's reason1 ,i recollect my feeling of surprise4 ,i seemed to myself to have given the most substantial reason4 ,the word meant to me a great deal4 ,and ,i now think ,i was truly philosophical in this1 for ,i affirmed the primal truth1 that a self-determining person in spontaneous action1 if only of some instinct1 is a first cause#d--;an absolute cause--to the extent of consciousness4 ,it was an intuition4 ,now to retain the sense of this causal personality is at the root of all stability of character1 all nobleness of manifestation4 ,but self-assertion in an ignorant child is more apt than otherwise to be disorderly1 discordant1 and perhaps destructive2 it therefore provokes resistance in the unthinking1 but challenges the thoughtful to give guidance4 ,it is of life-and-death importance to the child whether this force shall meet mere hard resistance1 which shall utterly crush it or increase it by reaction1 or whether it shall meet with a genial sympathetic guidance to which it will voluntarily and gladly surrender itself4 ,a mother loves this little ignorant force of self-will and wants it to have free course4 ,she cannot help desiring to have her child have its own way4 ,she does not want it to be opposed by others4 ,she will1 as far as possible1 further or humor it1 as we say4 ,and when she finds it necessary to control it1 she will try to do it by awakening the child's affectionateness1 and so captivating its fancy as to make it feel it is doing as it likes1 though it be something different from what it was impelled to do at first2 in short1 she inspires him to will the better thing1 and so educates the blind instinct of self-assertion into a harmonizing and beneficent power1 and preserves the child's dignity and nobleness instead of crushing its personality4 ,we hear of breaking the child's will4 ,a child's will should never be broken1 but opened up into harmony with ,god's will through a lower harmony with the will of its loving and loved mother or kindergartner4 ,but a mother will be more sure than any one else to bring about this result1 because she acts from an impulse of the heart deeper than all thought1 while the kindergartner by thought must cultivate in herself the impulse4 ,there are those who deprecate motherly indulgence as if it were the greatest evil4 ,doubtless it will become a great evil if it be not properly subordinated to the wisdom which appreciates the divinity of order1 or if it is alternated with capricious severities2 in short1 if the indulgence proceeds from indolence or self-love instead of love of the child4 ,the indulgence that really comes from the last is a recognition 7unconscious1 it may be7 of the divine possibilities of the child1--a spark of the divine creativeness6 ,of the two evils1 extreme indulgence is not so deadly a mistake as extreme severity4 ,indulged children return from afar4 ,the prodigal of the ,gospel story may have been over-indulged1 perhaps1 in being allowed to take his portion of goods1 and go off by himself1 out of the reach of his father's counsel and authority1 and left to his own uneducated self-will4 ,but the sinner1 when he came to himself 7observe that expression71 recognized the self-forgetting1 fatherly love in that very indulgence2 and it was the immeasurableness of that love that revived his self-respect and hope1 and saved him2 for the hope was not disappointed4 ,love giveth1 upbraiding not4 ,the one fatal thing is to wound the child's heart4 ,it is better to give up the point of controlling its will to righteousness for the moment1 than to do that2 and a parent is the least likely of all persons to wound his child's heart4 ,when nothing can be done without wounding1 the parent who trusts his own heart will leave the rebel to the consequences which ,god holds in his gracious hands for the final salvation of every one of his children4 ,besides1 to choose to give up one's own will is the only complete and salutary giving up1 enabling the soul to mount up spiritually like the eagle and renew its strength4 ,there are families in which the act of disobedience is absolutely unknown1 in earlier or in later life2 where there is no necessity for uttered commands1 because expressed wishes are enough4 ,the most perfect1 if not the only real1 obedience ,i have ever seen1 has been that of strong men to an unexacting1 tender mother4 ,this is a subject on which ,i feel very strongly1 for it seems to me that the greatest social disorders that exist in the nations among which the order that reigns in ,warsaw#e is foremost1 is the consequence of unreasoning obedience to wills not infinitely wise and good4 ,the worth and duty of obedience is precisely in ratio with the validity of the command2 and a command is valid only so far as it is inspired by a disinterested and proper respect for the being who is commanded4 ,children should only obey their parents1 in the ,lord2 and parents should never provoke their children to wrath4 ,i may be told that the important element of self-assertion 7which gives strength to character7 may be weakened by being always disarmed1 and killed by the mother's sympathy2 and that to provoke it into conscious strength1 direct antagonism is necessary4 ,but the best antagonism is that quiet1 inevitable one1 that comes from the inexorableness of material nature which the child must needs feel1 the more disorderly he is1 but which he sees is insensate and impersonal2 whose antagonism1 therefore1 does not grieve his heart1 and disappoint his hope as human oppression does1 making him sad or bitter1 but stimulates his mind to conquer and subdue it1 or develops a dignified patience4 ,the appointed domain for kingly man is not the brotherhood1 but material nature2 and gradually he is to learn that nature's inexorable laws are the expression of a ,supreme ,personality as benignant as it is august1 who takes up ,his human child into ,himself1 not without his concurring will2 for mankind mounts on the nature which he gradually subdues into a stepping-stone1 by knowledge1 and the use of it4 ,the mother must remember that though the first1 she is not the only instrumentality by which the ,divine ,providence works4 ,the time comes when she is compelled to deliver her cherished darling up to other influences2 when the child bursts out of the nursery1 not only self-asserting and affectionate1 but putting forth energies1 and seeking satisfaction of sensibilities that cannot be met within that narrow precinct4 ,the kindergarten must1 then1 succeed by complementing the nursery2 and the child begin to take his place in the company of his equals1 to learn his place in their companionship1 and still later to learn wider social relations and their involved duties4 ,no nursery1 therefore1 not even a perfect one1 can supersede the necessity of a kindergarten1 where children shall come into cognizance of the moral laws which are to restrain and guide their self-assertion1 and quicken and enlarge their social affections1 leading them to self-denials for the sake of opportunities for themselves of useful and creative art1 beneficence1 and heroism4 ,the time for transition from the nursery to the kindergarten is definitely indicated by two facts4 ,firstly1 ,divine ,providence has so arranged general family events that every mother must give up having the child live1 as it were1 entirely within her life1 because she has other children to nurse1 or other social duties to do4 ,and1 secondly1 every child's growth in bodily strength and conscious individuality makes him too strong a force of will for so narrow a scope of relation as is afforded by one family4 ,while hitherto1 to be outside of the single family influence was an evil1 it would now be an evil to confine the child entirely to it1 narrowing his heart and mind1 and deforming his character4 ,he needs to be brought into relation with equals who have other personal characteristics1 other relations with nature and the human race than his own family4 ,the instinct of the growing child1 at this period1 to get out of doors to play with other children1 is unmistakable4 ,to check it vexes or depresses him4 ,in getting possession1 first of his body1 and then of his personal and social consciousness1 he has become an object to himself1 and feels himself a power among other powers affecting each other4 ,but he is still more or less consciously a prisoner 7if not a slave7 of nature1 by reason of his ignorance of the laws of the universe1--that body outside of his own body1--which he is destined1 in alliance with others1 to take possession of1 by action upon and within it1 giving him knowledge of it1 and enabling him to make it into instrumentality for the expression and embodiment of great ideas and a noble will4 ,all government worthy of the name begins in self-government1 a free subordination of the individual in order to form the social whole4 ,subordination is something higher than subjection4 ,we subject mere animals2 intelligent moral agents must be subordinated4 ,it is still the mother's part rather to inspire2 the kindergartner's part is to subordinate1 not to check childish1 spontaneous talk1 though1 of course1 it must be regulated so far as not to let the children interrupt each other impolitely1 and to keep it to some main subject4 ,some kindergartners begin the session by asking each in turn what is interesting to him4 ,mrs4 ,kraus-,boelte generally receives each one as he or she comes in4 ,they go to her for the morning kiss1 and have something to say1 in which she expresses due sympathy1 and later recurs to and connects with what others say1 and thus produces general conversation4 ,mrs4 ,van ,kirk is very happy in her introductory conversations4 ,in playing with the gifts1 the teacher dictates certain movements and arrangements1 for the purpose of the children's getting into the habit of listening and quickly catching the directions given2 and the children should be encouraged to follow her words in what they do1 rather than to imitate each other4 ,in their spontaneous work they often make a new symmetrical form1 which is really beautiful2 and then it is well to call on the child to direct his companions how to make it2 for children delight in the dignity of directing1 and learn to be very precise in the use of all the words expressing relation of all kinds1--prepositions1 adjectives1 and adverbs1--precisely as well as nouns and verbs4 ,language does not merely transfer the outward inward1 but soon begins to transfer the inward outward4 ,love1 and other sentiments of the soul1 good and bad1 are named1 as well as sensible objects4 ,even the instinctive search after proximate causes leads children to infer the substantiality of wind and the other invisible forms of matter2 and the spiritual senses inherent in the ,me1 which is the most essential of all substances1 verifies the ideal world to children1 as truly as the bodily senses verify the material world1 and even more so2 for children live in ,god before they exist out of ,god4 ,the ,italian philosopher ,gioberti says that the soul is a spiritual activity2 that is1 it sees ,god as the first act of its life4 ,god says1 ,be thou and the soul--before it is put into the sleep of nature 7the deep sleep that came upon ,adam7--looks back and says1 ,thou art4 ,we have the memory of this primeval vision1 and act in our sense of holiness 7wholeness871 right1 justice1 pure love from the uncalculating delight of loving1 the ideals of beauty1 and the sense of accountability to ,god and man1 which forever haunt us1 sometimes giving us pain1 as remorse1 whose sting is in the comparison of our outward manifested self with our inward sense of being increate 7as ,milton expresses it74 ,it is this supernatural pre-intellectual soul which distinguishes man from the animal creation1 and is symbolized by his form1 which looks upward to the symbol of infinity made by the sky1 with which the human being instinctively communes1 and towards which the child wants to fly1--and delights in and loves the birds1 beyond all other forms of animal life1 because they can fly4 ,gioberti goes on1 in his psychology1 to say that when the soul1 which has recognized its ,divine ,source as the first act of its life1 is put to sleep in nature1 it is gradually waked up by the individual forms of nature1 which are so many syllables of the ,divine ,word that are echoed in human words1 which describe matter and its evolutions2 then the understanding begins1 and 7which is the point ,i want you to observe especially at this moment7 the words of even a very young child soon bring to its understanding spiritual realities4 ,and it is the office of education to see that the relations of things1--the laws of order among things1--the adjustment of external cause and effect1 be accurately worded2 and especially that the spiritual consciousness gets a happy symbolization2 that is1 that the best words are used to do justice to the ,ideas of ,god and the sentiments of the heart of man4 ,a materialistic educator 7or no less a mere dogmatist in religion1 who does not see that the logical formulas and abstract terms of scientific theology cannot possibly wake up the primeval vision7 may do an all but infinite mischief to the character and heart1 by the words he uses in talking to children2 and the theologian a greater mischief than the materialist1 because the forms and evolutions of matter are1 as ,i have said1 syllables of the ,word that was in the beginning with ,god and1 in a certain sense1 ,god1 while the abstractions of the human mind are the refuse of finite spirit1 infinitely superficial1 mere limitations of thought which become stumbling-blocks to the mind when not used as stepping-stones to new outlooks1 or rather1 inlooks4 ,never should children be talked to in the language of theological science1 but wholly in imaginative symbolization1 and the symbols should be chosen with great care1 and we should be on our guard against rousing the faculty of abstraction which is a sleeping danger in the nature1 whose premature development is injurious in strict proportion to ignorance and sensitiveness4 ,the symbols of the spiritual should be human because human consciousness involves substance outside the physical1 and1 therefore1 did the ,word which had not been comprehended in its creation of everything which it had made1 though without it nothing was made1 take flesh and dwell among us1 in order that we might apprehend the glory of ,god and perfection of man with our whole nature4 ,that it would do so1 was the insight of the ,hebrew genius1 whenever by worthy soul-action the law-giver1 king1 and whoever entered into the liberty of prophesying was raised to the height of his nature4 ,now a child is on its being's height1 mighty prophet1 seer blest1 ,on whom those truths do rest ,that we are toiling all our lives to find1 and therefore a child can supply a substantial meaning to any name for ,god adequate to awaken the living echo of the soul that ,cometh from afar ,trailing clouds of glory from ,god1 whose voice sent it forth1 as ,gioberti says1 to suffer and to be for a season on earth4 ,i hope you follow me in my thought1 for ,i think ,i am looking into the child1 which is the thing that ought to be done if one undertakes to teach it4 ,that the child really knows ,god before ,god is even named to him is not a speculative theory with me but a fact of my experience4 ,it is one of my earliest remembrances1 that ,i was sitting in the lap of a young lady1 whose name and countenance ,i have forgotten1 who was caressing me1 and calling me sweet1 beautiful1 darling1 etc41 when all at once she seized me into a closer embrace and exclaimed1 rather than asked1 ,who made you8 ,i remember my pleased surprise at the question1 that ,i feel very sure had never been addressed to my consciousness before4 ,at once a ,face arose to my imagination1--only a ,face and head1--close to me1 and looking upon me with the most benignant smile1 in which the kindness rather predominated over the intelligence2 but it looked at me as if meaning1 ,yes1 ,i made you1 as you know very well4 ,i was so thoroughly satisfied1 that ,i replied to the question decisively1 ,a man4 ,the lady said to another who sat near us1 ,only think6 this great girl does not know who made her6 ,i remember ,i was no less sure of my knowledge1 notwithstanding she said this4 ,though it was the first time ,i had thought ,god and given the name man to the thought1 it seemed not new to me4 ,i had felt ,god before4 ,i was a rather large girl1 more than four years old1 as ,i know from the fact that we were living in a certain house1 to which we went on my fourth birthday4 ,my next recollection is of going into a room of this house1 where my mother was sitting1 working at an embroidery frame that hung against the wall4 ,i went up to her and said1 ,mamma1 ,eliza asked me who made me1 and ,i told her a man1 and she said he didn't6 ,i stated this reply as a grievance and outrage4 ,since ,i came to the age of reflection1 ,i have always regretted the conversation that followed4 ,it was not judicious1 and seems to me a little out of character for my mother1 who was of strong religious sentiment and quick imagination1 and all other conversation on religious subjects that ,i remember of hers was very good4 ,she was rather thrown off her guard by my unexpected theology and lost her presence of mind4 ,i was her oldest child1 and she had waited to see some enquiry raised before speaking on the subject4 ,i had seemed more stupid than ,i was1 for ,i belong by nature rather to the reflective than perceptive class1 and so had very little language4 ,at this distance of time ,i cannot1 of course1 remember the details of the conversation1 but ,i came out of it with another image of ,god in my mind1 conveying not half so much of the truth as did that kind ,face1 close up to mine1 and seeming to be so wholly occupied with ,his creature4 ,the new image was of an old man1 sitting away up on the clouds1 dressed in a black silk gown and cocked hat1 the costume of our old ,puritan minister4 ,he was looking down upon the earth1 and spying round among the children to see who was doing wrong1 in order to punish offenders by touching them with a long rod he held in his hand1 thus exposing them to everybody's censure4 ,of course my mother said no such thing to me1 but what she did say1 by subtle associations with the words she used1 gave me this image1 which ,i need not say rather checked than promoted my spiritual advancement4 ,this experience has been of value to me as a teacher since1 for it has effectually saved me from being didactic and dogmatic in my religious teaching of children4 ,the ,socratic method is the true way of bringing into the definite conscious thought ,god's revelation of ,himself to the soul4 ,that image of authority and power to punish did not1 ,i think1 help1 but rather puzzled my moral sense of which ,i was already conscious4 ,for ,i remember that ,i used to muse very much in my childhood upon the mental phenomenon of feeling myself to be two persons4 ,i was clearly conscious of an inward conversation on all occasions of a question of right and wrong1 when a higher and lower law distinctly uttered themselves4 ,the lower self often prevailed by the argument that the thing to be done was transient1 ,i would do it only this once1 and never again2 and often ,i thus sinned against the very present ,god1 which ,i think ,i might not have done so presumptuously1 had ,i associated the thought of this strange other me with that kind face of ,love ,divine4 ,when later in life ,i did learn that the remonstrating voice was unquestionably ,god1 because ,he is the ,love that ,i saw in my childish vision1 the war between self-love and conscience ceased4 ,but this was not till a great body of death had been accumulated1 which ,i have never shuffled off except in moments of hope4 ,but to take up the thread of my discourse again4 ,i would very earnestly say that the ,socratic or conversational method is the only way of bringing into a child's definite consciousness ,god's revelation of ,himself to souls4 ,but this requires a mutual understanding of words1 and if we are careful1 we may produce this in the kindergarten4 ,froebel intimates that a general impression of there being an invisible ,friend and ,protector may be given by the baby's seeing the mother in the attitude of devotion1 and he would have recognition of ,god called forth by her naming the unseen ,father at moments when the child's heart is overflowing with joy and love1 or seeking to know where some beautiful thing comes from4 ,the child feels already at such times the presence of the ,infinite ,cause1 the ,infinite ,source of joy and goodness1 and the name of ,heavenly ,father given to this presence will not be an empty vocable4 ,using with the name of ,father the word our1 with which the ,lord's ,prayer begins1 suggests that ,he is the ,father of all alike1 and all human beings will thus be united together with ,him in the child's imagination4#f ,this idea of one personal but comprehensive ,being1 the centre of the social organization1 is a quickening of the immortal personality1 which has a date in time no less certainly than the quickening of the body1 and is our sense of identity4#g ,,footnotes3 #d ,see ,hazard's ,man a ,creative ,first ,cause4 ,a book published since this lecture was first given4 #e ,order reigns in ,warsaw was the form of words in which the subjugation of the ,poles to ,russians in #ahdi was announced in ,france4 #f ,see ,frederic ,denison ,maurice's book on the ,lord's ,prayer1 published by ,hurd ,houghton4 #g ,see ,appendix1 note ,a4 ,,lecture ,,iv4 ,,the ,,kindergarten4 ,,in my last lecture ,i spoke of the ideal nursery2 for only there1 hitherto1 has the divine method of education ever been completely carried out1 the unquestionable teacher there being the child1 trailing clouds of glory from ,god who is our home2 its sweet content and inspiring smile indicating when its nurse is treating it aright2 while all that is wrong1 whether proceeding from mere ignorance or selfish wilfulness on the part of the adult1 is indicated by its cries of fright and anger1 which it behooves her to heed4 ,how is it that1 with the spectacle forever before our eyes of the mother and infant1 mutually emparadised in child's play 7that mutually educating communion of trust and love1 by which the child is put into gradual possession of his body1 and joyous consciousness of his individuality71--how is it1 ,i say1 that we find education has lost its ideal1 and as soon as the child leaves the nursery for the schoolroom1 an antagonism has begun1 with its blessedness at strife1 and which leaves us all such scarred and bewildered creatures as we find ourselves to be1 as soon as we come to reflect8 ,but ,i must remember that what we have to speak of especially is the kindergarten1 which follows hard upon the nursery4 ,when the child's growing activities begin to require a larger social sphere than the nursery1--i4e41 at about three years old1--it was ,froebel's plan to gather the children of several families into what he called a ,child ,garden1 and to extend the nursery law of cherishing 7which is the dealing with living organisms that children are71 by exercising them for several hours of every day in rehearsing in plays1 in the first place1 all the sweet charities of life4 ,this employs their physical forces1 and makes them experimentally know that human happiness and goodness are social and generous4 ,for the so-called movement plays are social exercises1 gently calling out moral sentiments1 as well as intellectual powers4 ,they can only be beautiful and enjoyable when they give mutual pleasure2 and this involves that mutual reference and kind consideration of each other which leave no room for selfish feeling or action4 ,moral education is the alpha and omega of a kindergarten1 but it cannot be given by precept4 ,to do the will of ,god1--i4e41 to obey the moral law1--doing to others as we would have others do to us1 even in play1 is the only way for children to know vitally the doctrine of moral life4 ,froebel has suggested a variety of these movement plays1 all of them conceived with the greatest care as to their intellectual as well as moral effect4 ,they always have a fanciful aim1 within the scope of the child's knowledge and affection1 and to play them begins to develop the understanding also4 ,a gentle intellectual exercise1 involved in learning by rote1 reciting1 and singing the songs that direct the plays1 takes the rudeness out and puts intelligence into that exhilaration of the animal spirits which healthy children crave1 and prevents it from exhausting the body or disordering the mind2 the joyous association of the children with each other aiding this effect4 ,in the sedentary plays1 which are called occupations1 and in which the child is genially drawn into producing symmetrical effects to the eye1 by making things 7albeit only little toys7 which begin their artistic life1 ,froebel has had equal regard to the moral as to the intellectual influences4 ,when the child has gone beyond the age in which he is satisfied with making transient forms and gathering the materials back into boxes1 and desires to make something that will last1 a legitimate sense of property arises4 ,he feels that what he has made is his own1 for the thought and work which he knows that he has put into it are his own4 ,froebel1 therefore1 would have him1 before he begins to make anything1 pause and appropriate it intentionally to some object of his love1 reverence1 or pity4 ,this will check the otherwise rampant propensity to hoard1 and prevent the passions of avarice1 vanity1 and jealousy from making their appearance4 ,in our common school life1 the pride of showing off their powers1 and excelling others1 is regularly cultivated in children by competition1 as a stimulus to industry4 ,but this is as unnecessary as it is deleterious4 ,for disinterested desire to confer pleasure1 and express gratitude and love of others1 is found by experience to be a surer stimulus to industry than the baser passions1 and has the additional value of cultivating positive sweetness and active benevolence4 ,it is desirable1 and really produces the greatest practical humility1 for children to regard themselves as embryo powers of beneficence1 learning to do the ,heavenly ,father's business from the beginning1 like the child ,jesus4 ,then may they grow in favor with ,god and men1 as they grow in stature1 and all their knowledge will prove a divine wisdom unto the salvation of others and themselves4 ,to go into a truly ordered and well governed child-garden1 and see all the little children busy making things for the ,christmas tree1 or for birthday and new year's gifts1 for all the friends they know or fancy1 we shall see sufficient proofs that love is the truest quickener of industry1 and love-inspired industry the true sweetener of the disposition and temper4 ,moreover1 such industry is the special desideratum to temper the spirit of the present age1 which is so keen and energetic that it hurries our young men into pursuits in their amusements which take on the character of gambling2 and hence gambling in business1 gambling in politics1 where even human beings1 instead of being regarded as brothers to be kept1 are used as dice1 to be recklessly thrown in our game4 ,the only preventive or cure for this passion for gambling is industry1 and the only industry that is attractive is artistic2 and why should not all industry become artistic1 now that the great cosmic forces are suborned1 by our advancing civilization1 as the legitimate slaves of men1 to do all the hard work for men8 ,i have already set forth this view of the subject in the ,plea for ,froebel's ,kindergarten as the ,primary ,art-,school1 which ,i appended to ,cardinal ,wiseman's lecture on the relation of the arts of design with the arts of production 7which ,i published in #ahfi1 under the title of ,the ,artist and the ,artisan ,identified1--the ,proper ,object of ,american ,education74 ,before ,i leave these general remarks for more specific explanation of ,froebel's method of intellectual development1 ,i would make one more observation4 ,it is in the social and moral character of the kindergarten that ,froebel has shown himself so much superior to ,rousseau1 whose method was to cultivate individualities exclusively1 the teacher pretending to know no more than the child1 but taking his idiosyncrasy for his only guide in discovery and invention4 ,in the first place1 ,rousseau's method has been found an impracticable one1 for it requires a separate teacher for every child2 and in the only instance1 perhaps1 in which it was ever carried out with perfect fidelity1 that of ,maria ,edgeworth's eldest brother 7we have in her memoirs of her father all the facts71 the ultimate effect was to make a monstrosity4 ,he was utterly strange1 so odd and unsocial1 nobody but his father1 who educated him1 could have any practicable relation with him4 ,he might be said to be conscientiously unsocial1 and therefore immoral2 and1 though not ungifted1 he was an utter failure in human life4 ,we see similar effects produced measurably1 in all cases where the main object is to cultivate the individual rather than the universal characteristics of humanity4 ,froebel was tender1 and gave freedom to individualities1 but he took great care not to pamper them4 ,they are the results of the free-will1 irrefragable1 and will take care of themselves sufficiently1 if not cruelly snubbed1 but tenderly respected4 ,what is to be intentionally cultivated in earliest infancy1 are the general affections and faculties1 which relate us to our kind1 insuring common sense and common conscience with a reasonable self-respect4 ,therefore1 what is done in the kindergarten is necessary for all children1 their idiosyncrasies being left free to play on the surface and give variety and piquancy to life1 freedom and dignity to the individual4 ,all minds seem to be divided into two classes4 ,in one class1 the primal tendency is to observe single objects2 and these are the so-called smart children1 interesting the spectator by their vivacity and precocity4 ,in the other class1 children seem to be dull in sense1 unobserving1 but dreamy1 as if they had an over-mastering presentiment of that connection of things which binds them into wholes4 ,it has been remarked that this latter class turns out the great men1--the poets1 the philosophers1 the inventors1 high artists1 great statesmen1 and law-givers1--while the precocious children disappoint expectation2 probably because they have accumulated such a chaos of single impressions of disconnected things1 that it quite overwhelms the classifying and generalizing powers of the intellect4 ,froebel's method equally meets the respective wants of both these classes of minds1 supplying by specific culture the other side of their practical endowment4 ,by its discipline of production1 it gives the lively and restless ones the wand of the ,fairy-,order1 in discovering to them the connections of things1 and the conditions as well as laws of organization2 while for those of the dreamy1 poetic1 philosophic temperament1 it sharpens the senses to individual things1 supplying the definite and sensuous impressions1 and suggesting the corresponding words that enable them to give an account of their own thinking1 and illustrate to others the struggling ideal2 which1 like conscience and the love of order and rhythm1 is perhaps the yet persistent vision of that ,heavenly ,father's face1 which ,jesus ,christ has told us we are created beholding4 ,jesus evidently is quoting a familiar proverb1 when he says for their angels behold the face of my ,father who is in heaven4 ,does it not refer to the ,persian mythology current in ,judea after the captivity8 ,however neglected and eclipsed1 that primeval vision can never be quite lost4 ,it persists in the love of order and beauty2 in the desire to be loved infinitely2 in hope that springs eternal in the human breast2 in the ideals of imagination1 that haunt both the savage and the sage1 and1 at worst1 in remorse1 in which1 as ,emerson says1 there is a certain sweetness1 whether it be gentle as in what the ,quakers call the reproof of truth1 or felt as the reproachful strivings within us of our neglected infinite nature4 ,this brings me to speak of ,froebel's superiority to ,pestalozzi4 ,the kindergarten is not mainly object-teaching1 though of course a constant object-teaching is involved2 all the materials of their work and all the surroundings of the children become objects of examination in their individualities of form1 size1 number1 etc41 and in their possible connections with each other and with the child4 ,if ,froebel proposes to give the fruits of the tree of life1 before he gives those of the tree of knowledge1 it is only that the latter may prove1 not a curse1 but a blessing4 ,the world's history and the present state of civilization in the foremost nations of the world shows us that knowledge may be a power without being a good 7a snakish subtlety not ,divine ,wisdom74 ,it begins to be realized in ,europe as well as in ,america1 that ,froebel's idea of education1 in making character the first thing1 and knowledge the hand-maiden of goodness1 is the desideratum of the age1 and promise of the millennium4 ,i should like to read you some letters of eminent men in ,france1 addressed to ,froebel's most earnest disciple and apostle1 the ,baroness ,marenholtz-,blow1 which ,i have translated from the appendix of her ,work in ,relation to ,education 7see ,appendix1 ,note ,b74 ,in an address to the school committee of ,boston in #ahfh ,i gave the call addressed in #ahfg by the ,philosophers' ,congress in ,prague to the convention of teachers in ,berlin1 and the call of the latter to the second convention of this congress at ,frankfort-on-the-,main in #ahfi4 ,the burden of all these papers is the paramount necessity of religious and moral education1 begun in earliest infancy1 in order that the modern intellectual activity may not land us in licentious vices and heartless atheism1 our nearest dangers4 ,they all accept ,froebel's method of education by work and experience 7beginning with the work and experience of the child of three years old7 as the first condition of the regeneration of the human race4 ,it is the office of the kindergartner to awaken the intellect1 which the child does not bring into the world1 like its heart and will1 full-grown4 ,the infant suffers and enjoys as keenly1 and wills as energetically1 at first as ever in its life1 but apparently begins and lives for some time1 unconscious of a world without as a not me4 ,it is purely subjective1 i4e41 feeling its material environment to be a part of itself4 ,as ,emerson says3-- ,the babe1 by its mother1 ,lies bathed in joy2 ,glide its hours uncounted2 ,the sun is its toy6 ,shines the peace of all being1 ,without cloud1 in its eyes2 ,and the sum of the world ,in soft miniature lies6 ,only by intentional help of those around the child can it grow into individual consciousness of its relations with nature in that order which produces the sound intellect4 ,for the intellect is a growth in time1 that carries on the nursery exercises of the limbs and affections by the movement plays1 and adds those sedentary plays with the series of gifts1 which are symbols of all nature in miniature1 that objective revelation of ,god to which the receptive mind answers by thoughts4 ,thinking is that reaction of the individual mind upon nature which1 when it is put into words1 produces progressively an image of ,god1 which is the human mind4 ,the kindergartner's conversation with the children upon their playthings is therefore her most important and delicate work1 and one which she cannot do instinctively1 but only if she scientifically understands the child on the one hand1 and nature in some department on the other4 ,it is impossible in this lecture1 perhaps1 to demonstrate my meaning4 ,by following out ,froebel's own method of playing with the gifts1 as suggested in ,mrs4 ,kraus-,boelte's guide or in ,the ,florence ,handbook1 the whole process of the formation of the human understanding by the order of objective nature will become patent1 and enable the kindergartner to avoid any great mistakes in her guidance of the children's minds1 which guidance should always be tentative1 and respectful1 to say the least1 of their freedom to will4 ,then we shall have not mechanical work1 but orderly1 creative work from the children1 whose spontaneity is not to be choked2 but when it seems to be going in a wrong direction1 interrogatively guided4 ,like ,ariel1 she must do her spiriting gently1 lest she violate the legitimate individuality1 and we have ,caliban instead of the germ of ,prospero4 ,i here pause to display two kinds of work actually done by children under seven years of age at ,frau ,marquadt's kindergarten in ,dresden4 ,they enable me to show that those sedentary plays1 with which ,froebel would have children amused1 must needs develop and educate the perceptive faculty and understanding in a substantial manner2 for these things were done without patterns1 and therefore from thought1--the thought being sometimes suggested by the dictation of the child-gardener1 requiring of the child only one single act of reflection4 ,but much of this work was invented by the children themselves1 their wildest fancies being controlled to produce symmetry1 by following the one rhythmical law of always making an opposite to everything they do4 ,after showing and explaining the modus operandi of the work exhibited1 ,i went on to say3-- ,i believe nobody disputes1 after they see what kindergarten is1 that it is the gospel of salvation for children4 ,the exercises put them into complete possession1 not only of their limbs1 especially the characteristic limb of man1 the hand1 just when they are the most flexible1 and therefore most easily trained2 and of their organs of sense 7by which they gradually make the universe their instrumentality71 but also of accurate speech1 enabling them to express their impressions of individual things1 as well as of what they do with things and in the order of its doing4 ,thus they are prepared for entering upon more abstract subjects1 by means of books and schools of instruction4 ,a child well gardened and exercised in the intelligent use of his mother tongue enters upon the process of learning to read1 for instance1 with all the more advantage from being accustomed to hear and use language with precision and fluency2 and is ready to learn to cipher all the more quickly1 because of the concrete arithmetic and geometry he has mastered experimentally with the playthings and in the occupations1 all his habits of delicate observation and nice calculation formed by the embroidery and other fanciful work giving the basis for intelligent classifications4 ,even the few years of experience of some genuine kindergartens in this country has already proved this4 ,i can give an instance in detail of the almost miraculous rapidity with which a class of seven-year-old children learned to read in the primer called ,after ,kindergarten--,what8 7,note ,c1 in ,appendix47 ,all the time given to child-gardening is therefore more than saved at the next stage1 when instruction begins4 ,other advantages accruing are incalculable1 for the children themselves have become intelligent and conscientious co-operators with their elders1 instead of passive receivers or antagonists4 ,when ,miss ,youmans' ,first ,lessons in ,botany 7a book made to teach botany in nature on ,prof4 ,henslow's method7 was introduced into the ,new ,york primary schools1 with great expectations of a brilliant success1 it was found that the children did not take hold as expected of this science of observation4 ,i see now1 said ,miss ,youmans to me1 the indispensableness of kindergartens to develop the faculties2 more than half the children are intellectually demoralized by neglect or injudicious teaching before they are seven years old4 ,everything1 however1 depends upon the single-minded self-devotion and affectionate character of the kindergartner1 and it is obvious that her education must be as special as that of a teacher of instrumental and vocal music2 for as little as music can be taught by the ear1 or drawing by the eye1 without studying the underlying principles of harmony and symmetry1 can kindergartning be taught empirically4 ,its foundation is in both a scientific and sympathetic study and understanding of the child's perceptive powers and the material world4 ,not merely what is to be taught1 as is the case with a university professor1 but the free-willing and deep-feeling beings that are to be taught must be studied generally and individually above all things else4 ,hence1 there must be special schools for teaching child-gardening1 or a special department made in the already existing normal schools4 ,the burden of thinking out the steps of procedure in the schoolroom is too great a one to be laid on the teacher who has to exercise the general care4 ,it must all be at the tongue's tip and fingers' ends beforehand4 ,it took ,froebel a lifetime1 with all his genius and wisdom1 to discover all the steps of this order of exercises1 in correspondence with the true evolution of the faculties2 but one man dies1 and other men enter into the fruits of his labors4 ,besides1 it is as cruel to study the philosophy of education at the expense of the living children's minds1 as it would be to study anatomy and medicine at the expense of their living bodies4 ,all kindergartners should observe and practise for awhile under the direction and criticism of those who are already experts and adepts2 and the latter should be careful that their assistants try no rash experiments1 but at first reverently observe successful work4 ,it is the highest interest of all teachers to learn this method1 because it develops themselves4 ,it not only makes the best mothers1 but the most perfectly accomplished women4 ,it is entering into the secret of creation and redemption1 which is the flower and fruit of human culture4#h ,when people ask me if kindergartning is not a method especially adapted to ,german children1 ,i reply that it seems to me to encounter as great obstacles in that nationality as in any other4 ,it is not a national method1 but the human method2 and ,i would remark in this place that it strikes me as especially desirable for ,irish children4 ,the natural predominance in them of fancy needs the check of accurate perception1 associated with accurate expression2 accurate perception1 first1 of the individuality of objects1 their form1 size1 color1 direction1 their mutual resemblances and contrasts1 and the no less accurate perception of their relations to each other and to the child4 ,these things can only be made objects of perception by children's being accustomed to make things1 which employ the activities that otherwise will play at random and divert their attention from the matter in hand4 ,in my observations of ,irish servants1 ,i am struck with their never seeming to see what is before their eyes1 or to hear what is said to them1 on account of the predominance of their creative faculties4 ,accurate perception of the things children play with1 and successful manipulation of them to produce effects1 would also help them to moral integrity2 for order moralizes just in proportion as disorder demoralizes4 ,successful action cures idle dissipation1 while unsuccessful efforts discourage and paralyze industry4 ,froebel wishes the child to be started at something he can certainly accomplish1 though perhaps not without direction in words4 ,when the child sees an effect produced by himself1 he will repeat it until he can produce the effect without direction1 and1 if asked1 will be delighted to show another child how he has done it4 ,it is a necessary step to put his action into words1 and raises it from mere mechanical into intellectual work2 from ,chinese imitation into ,european and ,american invention4 ,by and by1 when he has learned a little steadiness of attention by doing successfully what pleases his fancy1 he will make some motion of his own1 and proceed according to the law of symmetry 7whose virtue he has learned7 to discover and make new forms of beauty and use2 but he should still be carefully overlooked1 and saved1 by timely suggestions1 from making mistakes4 ,these suggestions he will crave and not resist1 if they are not peremptory1 but are put in the form of a question1 which seems to respect his power to choose1 which is his personality1 the image of ,god within him4 ,in proceeding in this way1 both teacher and child are led more and more to realize that there is a mysterious third ,being present1 who is neither the teacher nor the child1 but in whom they meet1 through whom they communicate1 and who gives the law they both must respect2 that there is1 in short1 ,one in whom they live and move and have their being2 that is the ,god who worketh in them to will and to do2 that ,he enables them to create beauty1 not at random1 but with a certain freedom which is not lawlessness4 ,he is the ,creator of the ,beauty they do not make1 and of the ,good they love1 and gives the ,laws which they obey1 and in obeying become powers of good and inventors of beauty2 for the laws of order are truly ,god's thought revealed to their thought4 ,to be active powers of good and beauty is to be religious1 and also to be free from superstition2 to love ,god instead of being afraid of ,him2 to make their lives a reasonable service1 and thus become free from priestcraft and spiritual tyranny4 ,inefficiency1 still more than ignorance1 is the mother of fetich worship1 and reduces man to slavery2 and to be surrounded by natural and artistic beauty does not cultivate the mind1 unless it is already an active power4 ,reverie is not thinking4 ,but the mind can only become active by the electric touch of a sympathetic mind which is already in motion4 ,it is the destiny of men to become one in that same sense that the ,divine ,father and ,son are one4 ,god has made human communion a moral necessity1 and does nothing for man1 except by the instrumentality of man4 ,by man came death1 by man also cometh the resurrection from the dead4 ,in short1 education1 that mysterious communion of wisdom and innocence1 is presupposed in reasonable religion4 ,i once heard an eloquent man1 who was speaking of education1 say1 ,the ,archangel is born upon earth2 we may know him by the many difficulties that he has found and surmounted1 and his consequent power to educate2 for education is the highest function of humanity in earth and heaven1 cementing the links of the chain of love which binds us all to one another and to ,god4 ,we are always either educating or hindering the development of our fellow-creatures2 we are always being uplifted or being dragged down by our fellow-creatures4 ,education is always mutual4 ,the child teaches his parents 7as ,goethe has said7 what his parents omitted to teach him4 ,every child is a new thought of ,god1 whose individuality is significant and interesting to others1 though it is his own limitation2 and to appreciate a child's individuality is the advantage the teacher gets in exchange for the general laws which he leads the child to appreciate4 ,it is this variety of individuals that makes the work of education fascinating1 and takes from it all wearisome monotony4 ,those persons who feel that education is wearisome work have not learned the secret of it4 ,i have never seen a good kindergartner who was not as fond of the work as a painter of his painting1 a sculptor of his modelling4 ,teachers who are not conscious of learning from their pupils1 may be pretty sure they teach them very little4 ,it is because kindergartning is this true education1 which is mutual delight to the adult and the child1 that ,i have faith it will prevail1 and its prevalence is my hope for humanity4 ,by the infinite mercy of ,god1 no human being is hopeless of redemption into ,god's perfect image at last2 but humanity will not be redeemed as a whole1--will not become the image of ,god1 or live the life of ,god1--until little children are suffered to go unto ,christ while they are yet of the kingdom of heaven1 and are blessed from the first and continually1 by those who shall take them in their arms to bless them4 ,those are only perfect kindergartners who are hidden in ,christ1 receiving every child in his name1 and humbly learning of them the secrets of greatness in the kingdom of heaven1 which is to be established on earth4 ,kindergartning is not a craft1 it is a religion2 not an avocation1 but a vocation from on ,high4 ,,footnotes3 #h ,for details of manipulating the gifts and occupations1 see ,the ,florence ,handbook1 published by ,milton ,bradley2 or ,mrs4 ,kraus-,boelte's ,manual in ,eight ,parts1 which is being published by ,steiger4 ,,lecture ,v4 ,,language4 ,,teaching1 which in the common sense of the word is the suggestion of thoughts by words1 is not the kindergartner's special work1 but the a priori process of drawing out into the individual consciousness of a child those latent powers whose free activity gives him conscious relations1 first1 with his kind2 secondly1 with material nature1 including his own body2 and1 thirdly1 with ,god4 ,he is unconsciously in this threefold relation already1 but to become conscious of these relations severally1 in his own growth builds up the human understanding1 which is not born with him like his sensibility and force of will4 ,the human understanding1 a creation in time of the free will1 creates language as the element of a life not shared with animals2 an intellectual life using the symbolism of nature as a means of intercommunication1 and which is correspondent and bearing a relation to its creator1 man1 similar to the relation of the material universe to ,god1 being in both instances an image1 as in a mirror1 of what is necessary and immutable in the self-consciousness1 though without entity itself4 ,hence1 as the material universe expresses the wisdom of ,god1 human languages express the imperfect wisdom of man4 ,language is the element in which the intellectual nature makes a sphere wherein to live and move and have its being4 ,what breath is to the material body1 making man alive in nature1 language is to the social body1 making it alive in history4 ,a word is both spiritual and material1 being an articulate form of the voice which1 as ,goethe has happily said1 is the nearest spiritual of our bodily powers1 taking significance from the articulating organs1 which are symbolical1 like everything else in material nature1 which1 as ,i said before1 is but an image1 as reflected in a mirror1 without absolute entity1 but bearing witness of an entity progressively apprehended by the finite spirits of men1 who are the children of the ,infinite ,spirit inheriting creative power forevermore4 ,the inarticulate sound of the voice is the scream of pain or the shout of joy1 mutually intelligible to all human hearts2 and this aerial basis of language continues to be more or less intelligible to all souls1 when modulated as in poetry into melody and rhythm by emotion and character4 ,the first human language was1 perhaps1 music of the deepest character1 of which phase there is historic trace in the spoken ,chinese1 which has been perishing for ages on the lips of a nation whose origin is lost in the depths of antiquity4 ,this spoken language is monosyllabic1 and even the initial consonant often only a semivowel1 while the whole word takes its significance from the tone of the vowel2 thus lu in a low tone would have one meaning1 ,,lu in the tone of a musical third another meaning1 and so on as the tone ascends through the octave4 ,the inception of such a language implies an original equipoise of a brain not yet despoiled of its first vigor through moral delinquency which is incident to the freedom to will of a finite spirit1 and consequently the ,chinese language was inevitably lost4 ,it would be interesting to enquire if those rare individuals among the ,chinese who are expert in the spoken ,chinese1 are not of finest musical temperament4 ,not till after thinking had begun could articulation by the organs of speech begin4 ,thinking is the free individual act which associates the mind's activity and the sensibility of the heart with material things1 and must precede the use of words4 ,a time comes to every intelligent child when it wonders how words should express thoughts4 ,victorious analysis has never yet penetrated the whole mystery of language to the complete satisfaction of men1 though ,i think philologists and metaphysicians are on the way to it1 and have reached some fundamental facts4 ,for instance1 that insignificant sounds and articulations could not make significant words1 and that vocal sounds 7vowels7 get their meaning from feeling1 while articulations get theirs from the symbolism of the organs of speech4 ,the organs of speech are1 first1 the throat1--as the guttural organ is called in ,english because through it we take our food and send forth our voice1--is out of sight1 covered up1 hidden1 the central point where the voice starts2 secondly1 the lips1 which are obvious1 movable1 parallel2 thirdly1 our teeth1 against which the voice strikes1 are hard1 stiff1 and dead in comparison with the flexible lips1 and the tongue which connects all together1 the voice rolling over it and hardly articulated4 ,hence the hard c and g1 and the rough aspirate h are factors in all words signifying the beginning of self-originating motion 7observe go and kick1 or cause to go71 the causal1 the central1 covered1 hidden2 while the labials1 p1 b1 f1 v1 are factors in all words expressing obviously moving phenomena2 and the dentals1 d1 t1 s1 z1 found in words expressive of stiff1 hard1 dead phenomena 7the word death is all but identical with the word teeth72 separation and number being expressed by s and z1 which are made by throwing the vocal breath out between the separated teeth4 ,the liquids r and l1 r being also a factor of words expressing indefinite beginning1 7as original1 auroral1 arise1 etc47 are made by the voice moving over the tongue more or less energetically1 to express movements whose difference of energy is exemplified in the words fry and fly1 grow and glow1 ,m closes the lips without preventing the continuous sound of the voice from being heard2 and n1 negating limitation by throwing the breath 7or voice7 out at the nose1 symbolize respectively the positive and negative aspects of ,infinity4 ,of course ,i am giving only a hint in order to define what ,i mean when ,i say significant words are not made out of insignificant sounds1 and that articulated sounds get their meaning from the symbolism of the organs of speech4 ,the historical origin of language is lost in the depths of antiquity1 when the human race was yet in that equipoise of mind1 heart1 and self-activity1 which in the process of evolution is only progressively recovered by the free agent1 it being the office of education to restore it4 ,the infant 7that is1 the non-speaking child7 in vision of the ,eternal1 only gradually becomes aware of the succession of time4 ,for1 as ,mr4 ,emerson sings in his ,sphinx song1-- ,the babe by its mother ,lies bathed in joy1 ,glide its hours uncounted4 ,and ,wordsworth says of the little child1-- ,on whom those truths do rest1 ,that we are toiling all our lives to find2 ,by the vision splendid ,the youth is still attended2 and ,shades of the prison-house begin to close ,upon the growing boy1 ,yet he beholds the light and whence it flows2 ,he sees it in his joy3 ,at length the man perceives it die away1 ,and fade into the light of common day4 ,but this fall from the ,ideal is not what ,calvinistic theology declares it to be1 reprobation either intellectual or spiritual6 ,oh1 joy that in our embers ,is something that doth live1 ,that nature yet remembers ,what was so fugitive4 ,true education shall lead out the imprisoned spirit1 growingly conscious of individuality1 by means of the symbolism of the prison-house itself which is that correlation of necessary forces we call the material universe4 ,the material universe1 as ,i have already said1 is the symbolization of everything in ,god except his creativeness which is the spiritual essence that he shares with ,humanity1 his only-begotten ,son4 ,it is the body of ,god1 and human language is the body of individualized ,humanity1 whose imperfections correspond with its various partial developments and short-comings4 ,and it is ever growing towards perfection in the form of poetry1 bearing witness to the creativeness 7or genius7 of man forevermore4 ,as breath is to the material body1 keeping men alive in nature1 so language is to the social body1 keeping individuals alive in history and literature2 and as the material universe is symbolical of ,god's wisdom1 so the echoes of the universe tossed from the lips of men are symbolic images of the wisdom of man4 ,language1 in short1 being of both natures1 spiritual and material1 makes an elemental sphere for the intellectual life1 beyond the material2 in short1 makes a metaphysical world1 in which the finite and infinite spirits commune with other finite spirits and with the ,infinite ,one2 for by words every minutest shade of individual consciousness may be communicated from one finite mind to another1 making not only an immortal communion of men possible1 but a communion of ,god and ,humanity also that shall have no end4 ,heaven and earth pass away1 but the ,word of the ,lord endureth forever4 ,but ,i must not be tempted into philosophizing farther upon language at present1 precisely because it takes us into the deepest mysteries of speculative thought1 and our business with it now is practical1 and concerns the nursery and kindergarten processes of culture4 ,looking at it superficially1 speech is an imitative art1 and so far as our experience goes1 is always taught by elders to the young generation empirically4 ,this teaching of the mother-tongue in the nursery is an immensely important thing1 because it carries on the development of the understanding towards the fulness of ,reason 7which is seeing particular things in their proportionate relation to the whole74 ,in the whole course of a child's education1 nothing is done which so much involves the totality of his activity as his learning to talk4 ,for to talk presupposes observation1 discrimination1 memory1 fancy1 understanding4 ,the first three 7observation1 discrimination1 and memory7 are nearly passive reactions from sensuous impressions4 ,but fancy and understanding are creative acts of the human spirit1 almost defying analysis4 ,in fancy1 the mind acts quite reckless and even defiant of nature's laws and order4 ,in understanding1 it observes and uses them subjectively4 ,that children delight in using words to name things in the order of nature1 and to express qualities and relations in connection1 making an echo-picture within of what they see without1 is not so wonderful as the exaltation of delight produced by a story which is1 as it were1 triumphant over nature's laws1 and reckless of its order2 and the shocks of laughter with which they catch at a grotesque and impossible combination of images made in their fancy by means of words4 ,the predominance of fanciful talk to children which seems to be instinctive with all peoples1 everywhere1 is an indication that fancy is as legitimate an activity as understanding1 to say the least4 ,it seems to me to be an evidence of our being begotten directly by the creative spirit1 sons of a divine ,father1 who is the complex of ,infinite ,love1 ,infinite ,wisdom1 and ,infinite ,power1 of which our human feeling1 power of thinking1 and executive ability are the shadow1 or rather a living image4 ,both fancy and understanding are developed in time by words4 ,we all know how children are waked up and delighted by ,mother ,goose absurdities1 and still more by fairy stories that seem to set at naught the facts and override the laws of nature4 ,it is a stubborn fact1 of which materialistic positivists afford us no explanation1 and which ,i commend to the consideration of ,mr4 ,mansell1 and whoever else talks of the limitations of religious thought4 ,and ,i think it will be found that children who are talked to by ,mother ,goose and fairy-story tellers learn to talk more quickly than others1 and have more vivacity of mind generally1 with a power of entering into the minds of others commensurate with their sensibility1 and justifying the human sympathies which are often a burden to the unimaginative1 who are nevertheless kind4 ,a great deal of the misunderstanding of others which causes unnecessary pain and social bitterness1 checking generous furtherance of one another's good purposes1 arises from want of saliency of imagination1 preventing us from being able to put ourselves in another's place4 ,and of course it is not without the highest reason that the ,father of our ,spirits has given fancy the advantage of the first start in our mental process4 ,that fancy precedes understanding in our psychological history cannot be denied by any nice observer4 ,i have known some parents who would not use ,mother ,goose or fairy stories with their children1 but substituted therefor amusing experiments in physics1--the metamorphosis of insects and the classification of plants according to their differences4 ,their children became scientific when they grew up1 were fine mathematicians1 and were interested in mechanical inventions and natural history2 but took comparatively little interest in political and moral problems1 though not at all wanting in the social and patriotic affections1 which also characterized their parents1 who were themselves brought up on the imaginative system not well modified by studies of nature's phenomena1 which was probably the reason of their strong reaction from the imaginative method4 ,but ,i have known as intimately some other parents who made predominant1 perhaps extreme use of ,mother ,goose and fairy literature4 ,their children much earlier and more completely got command of all the resources of language1 had a tendency to art1 especially literary art1 in their own activity1 and were earlier interested in human history1 and all varieties of human experience reflected in the literature of nations2 but perhaps were slower in attaining practical ability for life's labors4 ,each direction of education has its advantages and disadvantages in the religious relation1 and ,i think it is the better way to mingle them1 especially at the early period of the kindergarten1 where the objective point is to cultivate the understanding1 which needs that we should appreciate the facts and order of external nature as the exponent of ,god's wisdom4 ,this will chasten and give substantiality to the creative action of the human fancy1 which is never to be snubbed1 but gently entreated to be reasonable1 or we shall have ,caliban instead of ,ariel or ,prospero1 as ,i have said before4 ,i cannot find out whether ,froebel has anywhere expressed himself distinctly on this point4 ,there are certainly no grotesque images and no fairy stories in the mother's prattle with her children over pictures1 and in the out-door walks which are suggested in the ,mtterspiele und ,kse-,lieder2 but children are led to recognize the poetical symbolism of nature1 and its invisible and impalpable substances and forces2 the invisible forces of air1 heat1 and light are used to lead them out from the world of matter towards the more substantial spiritual world where the soul meets and communes with ,god1 the omnipresent ,spirit to be apprehended only by the spirit within us1 whose organs are ideas4#i ,in the kindergarten1 as in the nursery1 children learn language by using it empirically4 ,to utilize their love of talking as they play is what is first to be done by the kindergartner4 ,the things seen and done give a clear definition and precise significance to the words used1 which become the stepping-stones of the mind1 by which it mounts up from the sensuous ground of the understanding into the heaven of invention and imaginative art1 plastic and heroic2 and thence to communion with ,god4 ,but before children are put to reading1 before proceeding from things through thoughts1 and from spiritual experiences through ideas to their vocal signs1 and from vocal signs to their written or printed representations1 it is wise to consider the signs themselves4 ,i do not mean to go deeply into etymologies or anything that is abstract4 ,it is not doing so1 for instance1 to ask children what is the difference between the words see and look4 7,can you see without looking8 ,can you look without seeing87 ,it gives precision to the understanding to discriminate what are often called synonymes1 but which seldom mean precisely the same thing1 unless1 in our potpourri of a language they are mere translations1 as for instance morsel and bit1 respective derivatives from the ,latin morsum and the ,english bitten4 ,the little ,english-speaking child should not be troubled with the derivation of morsel1 but is pleased to be called to notice that of bit4 ,we must be guided here by ,froebel's rule of proceeding from the known to the unknown1 and not endeavor to plunge children into the unknown without a clue4 ,that children understand and use figurative language readily1 shows that without going out of their childish world we can define symbolic expression to some degree1 and this is a means of regulating fancy4 ,but ,i must take another opportunity to speak of the method of doing this4#aj ,i can now only affirm that unless children could signify by words not merely their impressions of material things and their correlations1 but their feelings and thoughts1 it would be impossible for the religious education to be begun in the nursery1 or to be carried on in the kindergarten1 as ,froebel proposes it shall be4 ,it is only by naming to the child his own intuition of creative being or cause1 or rather by leading the child to name it1 that the understanding is started upon the religious thinking which is necessary to keep pure from superstition his religious feeling1 while his blind sense of ,god is changing from an undefined intuition of the heart into a definite thought of the mind1 which change ,froebel would have take place very early4 ,but this is the most delicate region of consciousness to enter1 and we must take great care that we do not profane instead of consecrating the process by what we do and say4 ,words that are adequate and living names for the spiritual intuition of a very present ,god1 generate spiritual thoughts in natural relation with them4 ,and this reminds me of a circumstance in the mental history of ,laura ,bridgeman1 illustrative of what ,i mean4 ,this poor child was deprived1 when two years old1 of her sight and hearing1 and partially of taste and smell1 by the scarlet fever1 which left her but one avenue of knowledge of material things1--the sense of touch4 ,but through that the practical benevolence of ,dr4 ,howe won a way to her imprisoned spirit1 and opened communication of thought with her by means of words2 and she even learned to read in the raised type for the blind4 ,the whole story is immensely interesting and important to any teacher4 ,she had been taught enough of the properties of matter to be able to work on and with things1 and moral science could be taught her through her own and others' activity2 but how was she to be taught about ,god and spiritual things8 ,dr4 ,howe reserved to himself to speak to her of ,god1 forbidding all others to do so1 and watched for his opportunity4 ,my sister ,sophia went over to the asylum to model ,laura's bust1 and one day asked her teacher 7who was with her always7 to translate into spoken words the conversation that she saw was passing between them by means of the hand language4 ,very soon occurred the following3-- ,laura4 ,i want to go to walk4 ,teacher4 ,you cannot go to-day1 because it rains4 ,laura4 ,who makes it rain8 ,instead of making a direct reply1 the teacher went on to explain how moisture exhaled from the earth by the action of the sun1 and was collected in masses which were called clouds1 and when the clouds were so full as to be heavier than the air1 it fell to the earth in drops of rain4 ,laura said1 reverently1 ,god is very full4 ,the teacher was startled1 and said1 ,who told you about ,god8 ,laura4 ,no one told me4 ,the ,doctor is going to tell me about him when ,i know more words4 ,but ,i think about ,god all times4 ,the teacher said to my sister1 ,this is very important1 and went to tell the ,doctor1 who was a good deal moved1 but found himself at somewhat of a loss4 ,that evening he came to a little gathering at our house to talk about it4 ,he said that nearly a year before1 if not longer1 ,laura had come upon the word ,god in her reading1 and immediately stopped and asked the meaning of the word4 ,according to his directions1 she was then sent to him1 and he was so anxious not to do any harm1 especially not to frighten her with the idea of ,infinite ,power 7which is the main element of our conception of ,god1 even eighteen hundred years after ,christ's manifestation of ,infinite ,love71 that he was embarrassed1 and said to her that she did not yet know other words enough to explain the word ,god1 but when she had learned more words1 he would tell her1 and meanwhile he wished she would not ask any one else4 ,but now he was pondering what was the best way to proceed4 ,i suggested that perhaps ,laura could teach him more than he could teach her about ,god1 and asked what was the sentence in which she had found the word4 ,but this he had never known4 ,it was then suggested that probably the word had explained itself1 for no sentence could possibly contain the word1 not even in an exclamation1 that would not suggest to such a perfectly clear thinking mind as ,laura had always shown1 the fact of supreme love or wisdom4 ,the company present proved this by trying to make sentences4 ,i do not know what he finally concluded to do or say to ,laura4 ,i think certainly that the true way would have been to have drawn her out1 and according to what she said or seemed to need1 to have shaped whatever teaching he had to give1 taking great care not to negate any of her positive assertions2 for we could not doubt that ,god was manifesting himself to the imagination of her heart1 if not yet in the forms of the human understanding4 ,if ,i had known how to use the hand language1 ,i would have solicited the privilege of going to learn what this hermit soul could have told me before it was darkened by our traditional theology1 which did not originate in children1-- ,on whom those truths do rest ,that we are toiling all our lives to find1 but in the minds of old sinners who had lost the original purity of soul that sees ,god4 ,i think about ,god all times6 ,how interesting it would be to know exactly what she thought6 ,that it was nothing terrific or painful was evident from her habitual mood1 which was even joyous4 ,so careful had the ,doctor been to educate every bodily and mental activity1 that she had none of that discouragement1 inelasticity1 and indolence of mind1 which comes of want of success in childish effort4 ,a genial1 educating assistance was always around her1 but careful not to weaken her by doing anything for her that she could learn to do for herself4 ,obstacles1 therefore1 only stimulated her efforts1 and so delightful was her sense of overcoming them1 that1 for instance1 she would laugh exultingly when sewing if her thread became knotted1 or if in anything she was doing there was some little difficulty to be surmounted4 ,her faith in herself seemed never to have been broken2 but she rested on the fulcrum of ,infinite ,god1 in whom she lives and moves and has her being4 ,the only thing we ought to do in the religious nurture of childhood is to preserve this faith which comes from the child's seeing ,god even more clearly and certainly than it can see outward things4 ,see to it that you use language so as more clearly to define and not to blot out the divine vision1 as old ,dr4 ,barnard's cocked hat and black silk gown and seat in the clouds eclipsed the sweet face with which my ,creator seemed to own me as his child1 as ,i told you in my last lecture4 ,another mistake that was made in my religious education was during a visit that ,i made to a great-aunt when ,i was five years old1 and was taught to say the ,lord's prayer by the servant who put me to bed4 ,i got the idea that some unknown evil might happen to me in my sleep if ,i did not do this1 and was also told that ,god would be displeased with me if ,i thought about anything else when ,i was saying it4 ,but ,i was involuntarily conscious of having my mind full of images1 while the words of the prayer were empty vocables4 ,in order to prevent the intruding thoughts1 ,i would try to rush through the words quickly1 going back to the beginning over and over again4 ,but this artificial duty was not associated with the instruction of my mother1 who was in general very happy in what she said to me about ,god1 dwelling on his goodness1 referring to it everything delightful1 making ,sunday a day of quiet but constant enjoyment1 letting us paint1 and cut paper1 with other little amusements1 devoting herself to making us happy1 while the rest of the week she was busy2 for she kept a large school1 and ,sunday was1 as she often said1 her only and blessed day of rest4 ,long after1 at a time of religious controversy and so-called revival1 ,i was immensely aided by hearing my mother say to a young aunt of mine who affirmed that ,st4 ,paul1 in saying that we must pray without ceasing was fanatically unreasonable3 ,yes1 if praying meant saying over prayers2 but spiritual prayers mean a devotional attitude of mind towards ,god which we can have whatever we are doing4 ,this sentence seemed to pour light into a shady place4 ,don't you say prayers1 mama8 ,i said to her when aunt was gone4 ,not when ,i am alone1 she said2 for ,god sees my thoughts and feelings1 and knows that ,i love him1 and always want his help4 ,my mother had nothing of the martinet about her4 ,she took it for granted that upon the whole we wanted to do what was right4 ,she was not apt to give the worst1 but the best interpretation to doubtful phenomena4 ,she believed that to treat a child with generous confidence invoked generosity and truthfulness1 and what was better than all the rest1 she did not talk down to her children1 but rather drew them up to her own mental and moral level2 and interlarded stories from ,spenser's ,faerie ,queen and the ,scriptures with stories of the kind and noble deeds of real people around us4 7,see ,appendix47 ,her religion was moral inspiration to herself and consolation for all calamity1 and always very naturally expressed4 ,she more than corrected her first mistake and inadequate talk with me about my ,creator1 by telling me the story of the ,pilgrim ,fathers1 when ,i was yet so very young that my fancy clothed her words with grotesque images1 but on the whole did better justice to the spirit of the emigration and the ultimate results it has worked out for the world than the exact facts that transpired in history4 ,what ,i gained from my self-created mythology was that my ancestors knew themselves to be ,god's children1 whom neither tyrannizing king nor priest had any right to prevent from going to him in prayer first hand1 and that in order to do his will as their consciences understood it1 they left home and country and all the comforts of civilization1 and trusted themselves in a frail vessel to be driven over a stormy ocean by the winds1 at imminent peril from the waves below1 which would have swallowed them up1 had not ,god1 who loved them1 approved what they were doing1 guided the ship 7by a power stronger than the wind1 for it was his love7 through the narrow opening of ,plymouth ,harbor to the rock where ,i still seem to see them streaming along1 a procession of fair women in white robes as sisters 7for so ,i had interpreted the word ancestors1 who strangely enough were all named ,ann74 ,i still seem to see these holy women kneel down in the snow under the trees of the forest1 and thank ,god for their safety from the perils of the sea2 and then go to work in the sense of his very present help1 and gather sticks to make a fire1 and build shelters from the weather with the branches of the trees4 ,among these rude buildings my mother took pains to tell me that they built a schoolhouse where all the children were to be taught to read the ,bible4 ,there is nothing for which ,i thank my mother and my ,god more than for this grand impression of all-inspiring love to ,god1 and of all-conquering duty to posterity1 thus made on my childish imagination1 and its association with the idea of personal freedom and independent action4 ,it never could have been made except by one who herself had faith in ,god1 and believed that he had made all men free to come to him1 and also that the mother was his first appointed mouthpiece4 ,the fanciful images which were the effect of the shortcomings of my ignorance did not hide the vital truths which ,i was as open to accept then as now2 namely1 that ,god is my ,father1 the ,father of all souls1 from whom no one has a right to shut off another4 ,that first schoolhouse1 which ,i fancied that ,i saw the ,ann ,sisters building1 taught me as no mere words ever could have done1 that it was the most acceptable service to ,god to educate all his children to know him and his works4 ,that first idea of human duty ,i have never outgrown1 but still believe universal education is the true culture of the ,american people1 the reasonable service they owe to him who called them out of the ,old ,world to be a nation of individuals4 ,there was nothing fatal1 therefore1 in that first false notion of ,god 7which ,i received for a time71 though it was for a time more of an evil to me than it would have been to a child less subjective1 or of more lively perception of things without4 ,liveliness of perception brings so many things before the mind1 and so stimulates its volatility1 that it undoubtedly prevents the stereotyping of many a single impression and fancy that does injustice to spiritual truths2 and false impressions1 unless strongly associated with terror or some other morbid sensibility1 do not take hold of a child so strongly as the images that are consistent with the eternal laws of mental evolution1 such1 for instance1 as that human face divine with which ,i had instantaneously clothed my intuition of ,god1 and which1 notwithstanding its temporary eclipse1 has haunted me all my life4 ,it is very encouraging to the educator to know that the innocent soul of childhood has so much more affinity with truth than with falsehood1 because the best and most careful educator cannot sequestrate children entirely from false impressions4 ,but what finds no echo in the spirit passes off1 unless the mind is shocked into passivity by fear or pain4 ,when the soul is active1 it has a certain superiority to passive impressions1 and makes use of them as materials for imaginative production4 ,it is1 therefore1 desirable to keep children employed in gentle activity which has successful results1 and happy in the midst of attractive natural surroundings1 by which ,god is working with us in the same purpose of educating the child1 allowing us to be his partners1 as it were1 in this work1 because it educates us4 ,it is not uncommon to hear persons say that they would like to begin life all over again with the knowledge they have gained from their life-experience4 ,this we can all do if we will in imagination really live with our children1 as ,froebel says1 whose motto explains what ,christ meant when he bids us to be converted and become little children4 ,,footnotes3 #i ,idea is a word ,i always use in the sense of insight1 as ,plato uses it1 rather than in the sense of notion1 as ,locke uses it4 #aj ,see note ,a in ,appendix1 and the ,record of a ,school4 ,,lecture ,,vi4 ,a ,,psychological ,,observation4 ,,part ,,first4 ,i ,,said in my last lecture that had ,i possessed the power to talk in ,laura ,bridgeman's hand1 ,i should have begged ,dr4 ,howe to let me have some conversation with her after she said that she thought about ,god all times2 not that ,i felt that ,i could teach her1 but that ,i might learn what ,god had taught her concerning ,himself4 ,it was a wonderful chance for a most important psychological observation of the innocent mind of childhood1 and would have afforded1 doubtless1 a luminous illustration of the truth that the human soul is also a divine personality justifying the method initiated by ,froebel of conversing with the children in the ,socratic manner4 ,but already in my lifetime ,i had had an opportunity for psychological observation1 made under circumstances perhaps still more favorable for getting evidence of the importance of a very early recognition of the ,heavenly ,father's name in the formation in a healthy manner of the human understanding and the development of the reason1 verifying the declaration which ,froebel has made the corner-stone of his system2 namely1 that though a child is the extreme opposite of ,god1 contrasting as effect to cause1 as absolute want to infinite supply1 all these terms are connected--conciliated--into unity1 by ,love and ,thought1 which must recognize each other1 and whose loss of equal companionship is a ,grief1 past all balsam and relief1 as ,mr4 ,emerson has sung4 ,i have somewhere1 very careful memoranda1 made at the time1 which ,i have unfortunately mislaid1 but ,i will present from present recollection as well as ,i can the whole psychological observation1 though ,i am aware that ,i shall leave out many little things said and done which were perhaps not unimportant links in the chain4 ,before ,i begin1 ,i will observe that ,i tell it to the class to show the difference between talking to and conversing with children1 and to illustrate several truths4 ,first1 ,there is an innate ,idea1 not as a thought but as a feeling1 given to every child1 of an all-embracing ,love 7named by ,jesus1 ,father71 one in substance with the deepest consciousness of self2 ,second1 ,that this ,idea becomes a child's personal and individual perception only when he has a realizable name for it2 ,third1 ,that such a name is not an empty vocable1 a mere movement of air1 but a sign1 to which the intuition of his heart gives vital meaning2 ,fourth1 ,that an adequate name for ,,god is the axis of the intellect1 and the revolution of thought around it gives perfect globular form and solidity to the mind1 balancing the centripetal force of individual self-assertion with the centripetal force of a ,divine ,love1 comprehending all ,being4 ,before ,,god was named to and by this child of whom ,i am about to speak1 you will see that he was a dreary little chaos without form and void4 ,after he had learned to utter intelligently the name of a ,heavenly ,father he was what ,i am going to tell you4 ,but first ,i must tell you how ,i had this opportunity and privilege of being the first person to name ,,god to this child when he was four and a half years old4 ,he was the son of a most conscientious mother whose early orphan life had been saddened with religious terrors4 ,her earliest recollection1 as she told me1 having been the death-bed1 and immediately after1 the burial of her mother1 whom she saw1 when she was too young to comprehend death1 shut up in a coffin and put into the ground2 and she remembered how her agonizing cries at what seemed the frightful cruelty1 were peremptorily hushed1 with the declaration of the person taking care of her1 that ,,god who made the heavens and the earth willed it to be so and would punish her if she did not acquiesce4 ,little did the thoughtless and heartless person who thus dealt with the distressed little heart think1 how disastrously she was emasculating the word ,,god of good by associating it with such an image of ruthless power divorced from tenderness1 as she unheedingly did4 ,it was not till long years after that her imagination was cleared of the frightful falsehood2 and when she came to have a child of her own1 her governing thought was to keep him ignorant of the fact of death1 and the name of ,,god1 until he should be old enough to understand them1 as she said4 ,she was a person of deep feeling1 upright and benevolent1 but her imagination1 probably by reason of this life-long depression1 was of feeble wing1 and she was taciturn4 ,in consequence1 her child1 though most tenderly cared for as to his body1 was starved in mind and spirit4 ,his face continued to be an infant's countenance1 and he was strangely without that childish joyousness called animal spirits1 and grew more and more peevish as he grew older2 for he was sequestered to the society of his silent mother1 who would not even be read to in his presence1 lest1 as she said1 some chance word which he could not understand should excite some fear4 ,suddenly a hemorrhage of the lungs brought this mother to death's door4 ,she had been1 for a few years before her marriage1 my pupil in my own house1 and she used to say she owed to me all the happy views she had of ,god and ,heaven1 as well as of human life and death1 and ,i was sent for in this extremity as a mother to a child4 ,since her marriage she had lived in a city distant from me1 and ,i had seen her but little4 ,her child was so very timid ,i had made no acquaintance with him in transient interviews1 and of me he had no impression but of one little story that ,i had told him six months before when ,i met him at the house of her husband's parents4 ,this story ,i had half invented to explain a picture in the ,story without an end1 that ,i was showing to him4 7,see ,appendix47 ,when ,i came to the mother's bedside1 she told me it was best for her to die1 because she was utterly baffled in all her efforts to bring up her child4 ,she went on to describe her timid methods2 she said she feared he was non compos1 for he made no progress4 ,among many phenomena1 she mentioned that when she gave him playthings1 he immediately broke them to pieces1 and when she tried to prevent this1 by endeavoring to make him understand their uses and construction1 he would look drearily into her face and say1 rather than ask1 ,what for8 ,he seemed deficient in will1 without impulse1 for1 though flowers seemed rather to please him1 if she took him into the garden and told him he might gather them1 he would stand still1 and helplessly cry2 and she had to command him to do everything1 even to play1 before he would attempt it4 ,he acted like an automaton4 ,moreover1 he had no sensibility1 and expressed no affection4 ,just at this point of her dismal story her chamber door was opened by the nurse1 with this great boy in her arms4 ,he had his mother's beautiful large brow and deep eyes1 but with no speculation in them1 and his whole figure was lifeless and so languid that the arms that had been about the nurse's neck1 slowly lost their curve when she put him down on his feet4 ,but his look rested on me1 who1 with an inviting smile and gesture1 held out my hand4 ,immediately the large eyes filled with intelligent light1 and with a cry of joy he sprang towards me1 climbed up into my lap1 clasped his arms round my neck1 nestled upon my bosom1 and looking up with a joyful expression of confidence said1 ,story--little boy--drop of water6 ,it was1 as ,i have said1 about half a year before1 that ,i had lured him to me as he held off in timidity1 by offering to show him the picture where the child1 in the ,story without an end is represented beside the brook1 looking at a drop of water hanging from a leaf1 telling the little boy a story1 as ,i said1 to which he had answered ,story6 and ,i had gone on and invented a free paraphrase of the story given in the book1 adapted to his infantile capacity1 and when ,i had finished1 he said1 ,story again6 and ,i repeated it again and again1 so imperative was his story again6 and now he again said ,story1 with a confiding pressure1 as he leaned on me then1 gazing at the picture on the book in my lap1 giving me the conviction that he understood me4 ,it was really1 as ,i found subsequently1 the only rational words that had ever been addressed to the child's imagination4 ,this does not look like want of sensibility1 or mens non compos1 ,i said to the mother4 ,i never saw anything like it before1 she said1 all tears4 ,the ensuing silence was immediately broken by the child's imperative repetition of the word story6 ,i was too much affected by the mother's emotion to remember or invent any story1 but it was an early1 warm spring day and the windows were open4 ,the house stood on a bluff of the ,merrimac1 within sight of the ,rapids2 and the sound of the rushing waters came in upon our silence4 ,i said1 cheerfully1 ,do you hear the water running8 to which he responded with a joyful yes6 what does it run for8 ,oh1 because it is glad1 ,i replied1 and again he responded with a joyful and satisfied yes1 and after a moment asked1 ,where is it running to8 ,oh1 into the ocean1 where all the rest of the waters are6 and again an emphatic yes expressed his satisfaction4 ,perhaps he remembered that in the story ,i had told him of a drop of water it had ended with the drop falling off the leaf1 and running away with its brothers and sisters1 and falling into the ocean1 out of which the sun had originally taken it4 ,at any rate1 he not only repeated his yes with the emphasis of satisfaction1 but seemed to be thoughtful4 ,i said1 ,do you ever look out of the window and see the sun shine on the water1 and all the little sparkles of light in the water8 ,yes1 said he1 joyfully1 what makes the sun shine on the water8 ,oh1 said ,i1 it is because the sun loves the water4 ,yes1 said he1 and began to embrace me in the most energetic manner4 ,it was too much for the poor mother1 who absolutely wept aloud1 whether with joy or sorrow she could not tell1 as she afterwards said4 ,the sound of her weeping attracted his attention1 and he sat up in my lap and turned his large eyes upon her as she lay in bed1 and then upon me1 with a look of concern and appeal4 ,see1 said ,i1 poor mother4 ,she is sick and sorry4 ,she wants me to tell her a story1 and won't you get down and go into the nursery and let me tell dear mother a story to make her feel better8 ,then ,i will come to you and tell you one4 ,with a cheerful yes he immediately got down and went into the nursery1 but stopped at the door to say3-- ,when you have told mother a story1 won't you come right in and tell me one8 ,i said to the mother1 ,you see1 my dear friend1 that the child has mind enough1 heart enough1 and a moral nature4 ,he can understand and feel sympathy2 feels the symbolism of nature2 and can obey a self-denying motive4 ,no fatal harm has been done after all by your delay1 but he needs now to know he has a ,heavenly ,father1 fully to manifest all the powers of a human being4 ,you must allow me to give him that name for the ,love he feels within and without4 ,not quite yet1 said she1 not until you come to stay1 because he would ask me questions that ,i should not know how to answer4 ,children ask such terrible questions4 ,i am afraid as soon as you name the ,invisible ,,god1 he will be frightened4 ,don't you know ,m4 ,d4 was afraid to stay in a room alone because of the omnipresence of ,,god1 which seemed to be an unimaginable horror to her8 ,i do not wonder1 ,i replied4 ,omnipresence of ,,god6 ,what was there in a child's experience to interpret this ,latin abstraction8 ,i think it would have been quite another thing1 considering who her earthly father was1 had she been told that our ,heavenly ,father was all about her though she could not see ,him with her eyes1 but could feel ,him giving her love and joy4 ,i cannot but wonder that anybody around her should have talked to her in such abstractions4 ,i am so unready in expression1 she persisted1 and can so poorly express my thoughts and feelings1 ,i am sure ,i should only do mischief if ,i should try to answer his questions1 and ,i am sure he will go on asking them1 for his mind seemed to wake up at once as soon as you began to talk to him4 ,how different was that 'yes' from the dreary 'what for8' with which he always received the very best explanations that ,i could make of the things he played with4 ,that 'what for8' was not an enquiry of intelligence1 but an expression of utter want of perception1 with no interest to hear a reply4 ,it is best for him that ,i should die2 then ,i shall ask his father to give him to you to bring up4 ,nobody ought to have children but people of genius6 ,no1 no1 said ,i2 it does not require genius to talk with children1 but only simplicity of heart trusted in4 ,i interested him and gained a response1 not because of genius1 for ,i have none1 but because ,i believe in him1 and in myself1 whose happiness is in loving1 and that ,,god has created us to love and commune with one another and ,him4 ,you have said yourself that he seemed to love flowers1 though he was afraid to gather them1 and that he loved to hear the street musicians4 ,beauty and music touch his sensibility4 ,by saying that the waters run because they are glad1 and the sun shines on and makes things beautiful because he loves them1 ,i put his own conscious life into the music of waters and the light of the sun4 ,he recognized the meaning of gladness and love because he himself felt glad and loving1 which made a pre-existent possibility of recognizing the love and joy of the ,creator that shine in those natural objects1 because they are ,,god',s own words of love addressed to ,his own image1 who is capable of love and joy and knowledge of ,him4 ,if we talk to children in instinctive faith1 they understand us4 ,you have not done so because of your early misfortune that saddened your heart and took away your instinctive courage4 ,faith is the proper act of the heart 7courage1 you know1 is a synonym of heartiness72 the heart goes before the understanding in the process of life4 ,without heart one can do no justice to children in talking with them2 with it1 we awaken their minds and nurture their souls1 and all our mistakes will be of small account beside the positive advantage of setting their minds in joyful motion 'amidst this mighty sum of things forever speaking4' ,when you come to stay1 was her rejoinder1 you can say to him what you please1 for then you will be here to take care of his mind and answer his questions4 ,this was all ,i could gain at that moment1 and ,i left her1 to go to the child1 who had several times opened the door and looked at me wistfully1 with a silent appeal which was all the more proof of his quickened intelligence that he did not tease4 ,his own desire to have a story had interpreted to him his mother's need4 ,i have very little power of inventing a story1 and to his demand for one ,i responded by taking from the bookshelves ,miss ,edgeworth's first story of ,frank1 and began to read to him of ,frank's making a noise on the table and the conversation between him and his mother that ensued4 ,but this did not suit my little one's mood1 which was a little exalted by his delight at seeing me1 and having had his imagination touched by the beautiful language of nature that ,i had made intelligible to him4 ,he pulled the book away1 and asked me to tell him a story out of your own self1 as he said4 ,thus urged1 ,i began3 ,once there was a little worm about as long as the nail of my thumb1 and no larger round than a big darning-needle4 ,this little worm lived in a little house that he had made for himself in the ground1 just big enough to hold him1 when he rolled himself up like a little ball with his head sticking out4 ,there were no windows nor doors in his house1 but one on top1 which was his door to go in at1 and his window to look out of4 ,when he had made this house he was tired and crawled into it and curled himself up and went to sleep1 and slept all night4 ,in the morning the sun rose and spread his beams all over the world1 and one of the bright sunbeams shone into the window of the little worm's house and touched his eyes and waked him1 and he popped up his head and looked out and saw it was very pleasant in the garden1 and he thought he would go out4 ,he squirmed himself up out of his hole1 and because he had no feet he crept along the garden path4 ,the warm beams of the sun put their arms all round his cold1 little body and made it warm as could be1 and the sunbeam went into his little mites of eyes1 and filled him all full of light1 and the songs of the birds went into his little mites of ears and filled him all up with music1 and the sweet smell of hundreds of flowers went up that little mite of a nose and filled him up with their perfumes4 ,and so that little worm went creeping along as glad as he could be that he was alive4 ,now in the house that stood in that garden lived a little boy about four years old2 and when the morning came1 the sunbeams had gone into the window of his nursery and waked him1 and he was washed and dressed and had his breakfast of bread and milk1 and then his mama took him to the door that led down the steps of the piazza into the garden1 and told him he might go down the path and have a good run to make himself warm4 ,so down he ran4 ,but now if that little boy should put his strong foot on that dear little worm1 it would break him all to pieces-- ,oh1 he shall not1 he must not6 cried the child in a spasm of distress4 ,aunt ,lizzie1 don't let him break the dear little worm to pieces6 ,no indeed1 said ,i1 that little boy would not not do such a cruel thing for the world6 ,he saw the little worm creeping along1 so glad to be alive1 and he ran on the other side of the path2 and the little worm nibbled a little blade of grass1 and drank a little dew for his breakfast1 and then he felt tired1 and went creeping back1 full of good food1 to the little hole that was his home1 and curled himself up like a little ball and went to sleep4 ,now tell me that story all over again6 said the child4 ,i did so more than once at his entreaty1 and always when ,i came to the possible catastrophe of crushing the worm1 the same terror seemed to seize him1 and he would cry out3-- ,oh1 he must not1 he shall not6 and ,i always tranquillized him again1 and gratified his sense of justice by my assurance of the little boy's consideration of the little worm's right to his life and happiness4 ,of course1 ,i told his mother of the effect of this story1 and the evidence it gave of the child's sound moral nature and innate sense of justice4 ,and ,i begged her to let me lose no time in referring to the presence of the ,heavenly ,father1 that the intuition of his heart might become the possession of his mind4 ,i said ,i did not believe that he would ask any question4 ,he would suppose that ,i alone knew1 for1 as ,i observed to her1 he had never for the whole six months referred to the little boy with the drop of water1 and yet had vividly remembered the whole story1 as his greeting me had shown1 and ,i had the proof of it1 for ,i had just told it to him again at his request4 ,i told her if ,i proved to be mistaken1 and he should ask her any question she could not answer to her own satisfaction1 she could say she would write to me and ask me1 and ,i felt sure he would wait4 ,but ,i told her ,i believed what ,i was thinking of saying to him would keep his thoughts busy while ,i was gone 7for ,i was going only for a week to prepare for a stay with her for an indefinite time74 ,at last ,i gained her consent1 and the child was put into my bed1 that ,i might have the conversation the first thing in the morning4 ,when ,i awoke1 ,i found him awake1 close by me1 and his great eyes seemed to devour me4 ,how long you did sleep6 said he2 ,i have been seeing you sleep4 ,said ,i1 ,what do you see with8 ,my eyes1 he replied1 and to the questions1 ,what do you hear1 smell1 taste1 touch with8 he made the appropriate answers4 ,but what do you love with8 ,i asked4 ,he jumped up upon his knees and crossed his arms on his breast1 paused a moment wonderingly1 and then exclaimed1 ,with my arms6 and throwing his arms round my neck1 hugged me4 ,i was taken a little aback1 but in a moment said3-- ,have you a great deal of love8 ,oh1 a great deal1 a great deal6 he exclaimed4 ,where is it8 where do you keep it8 said ,i4 ,he started up again on his knees1 again crossed his arms upon his breast1 and said1 ,where do ,i8 ,placing my hand on his heart1 ,i said1 ,is it not in there8 ,his whole expression was affirmative1 he looked delighted1 but did not speak4 ,are you good8 said ,i4 ,sometimes1 he said4 ,what are you when you are not good8 ,i cry4 ,he had evidently been told it was naughty to cry4 ,i said1 ,why are you not good all the time8 ,why ain't ,i8 said he1 after a moment's pause4 ,oh1 said ,i1 ,i think you have not goodness enough to be good with all the time4 ,he looked assent1 delighted and earnest4 ,i answered his unuttered feeling with the question1-- ,should you like to have goodness enough to be good with all the time8 ,how can ,i8 ,oh1 said ,i1 you have a good friend who has a whole sky full of goodness4 ,he gave you all the goodness and love you have in there 7,i touched his breast71 and will give you more and more if you want him to1 always and always1 enough to be good with all the time4 ,he looked perfectly blest1 did not speak1 but laid himself down close by me1 took my arm and put it over him1 and said1 as he nestled up to me1-- ,talk to me some more4 ,i went on3 ,your good friend gives you all your joy to be glad with1 and all your love and goodness4 ,they always go together4 ,and now listen to me3 the next time you are going to cry 7,i used his own practical expression instead of saying the next time you are naughty71 stop and think4 ,i have a good friend who has a whole sky full of goodness and he will give me goodness enough to be good with all the time1 and ,i guess you will not cry4 ,he responded only with huggings and kissings and exclamations of ,i love you a whole sky full1 and as ,i did not want to overdo or say anything to mar the impression ,i had made1 ,i took advantage of a noise ,i heard1 to change the subject1 and said3-- ,what is that noise8 ,he jumped out of bed1 went to the window1 and said3-- ,it is the carpenters making a house1 and after a pause1 asked1 ,who made all the other houses8 ,carpenters1 said ,i2 don't you see they make houses out of boards8 ,who made the boards8 ,the boards are made out of trees4 ,people cut down the trees1 and then they saw them up into great logs1 and then they split up the logs and smooth them out into pieces we call boards4 ,who made the trees8 said he4 ,i understood very well where the tyrannizing unity of his personality was leading his understanding1 but did not wish1 just then1 to risk giving outward form or connection to his thought of the ,divine ,cause1 so ,i said3-- ,the trees grow out of the ground2 don't you see old trees and young trees and little baby trees growing out of the ground8 ,for this information he did not give me that hearty yes with which he had received my communication of spiritual facts1 but came back to bed again4 ,i persisted1 however1 in talking playful nonsense for half an hour1 until his nurse came to take him up to dress him4 ,as soon as she appeared at the door1 he started up on his knees again1 crossed his arms over his breast1 and in a loud1 joyful voice cried out3-- ,mrs4 ,doyle6 ,i have a good friend up in the sky who has a whole sky full of goodness1 and he will give me as much goodness as ,i want to be good with all the time1 emphasizing the last three words4 ,the nurse1 a good-hearted ,roman ,catholic1 who1 like all the servants1 had been forbidden to talk to the child about ,,god or any kindred subject1 looked at me startled1 yet gratified1 and said3-- ,what will his mother say8 ,i replied1 ,his mother will be very glad2 she only wanted to wait till she thought he could understand4 ,but ,i have told him enough for the present2 don't talk to him about it2 but if he says anything to you1 come and tell me4 ,yes1 said she1 and ,i thank ,,god you have come to teach the poor child something4 ,i then said to her aside1 ,his mother is very anxious lest he be frightened2 for she was frightened about ,,god and death when she was a little child1 and has suffered from it all her life long4 ,she has been a double orphan ever since she can remember4 ,i said this to her for several reasons3 one was my extreme desire to see what the one simple truth would do for the child1 and this was the reason ,i gave good friend for ,,god's name4 ,of course1 the mother craved to know exactly what had passed on this important occasion1 and was immensely relieved and gratified at what ,i told her1 and wanted it all to be written down2 and thus it happened that ,i made memoranda of this and subsequent conversations1 and even of those held in her presence1 for they continued to be no less interesting than they began4 ,observe these points in the child's speech to the nurse3 he interpolated the words up in the sky4 ,i had given no place to the good friend1 though ,i had said he had a whole sky full of goodness and love2 and the sky being the glorious symbol of unboundedness1 elevation1 purity1 and power to the human imagination1 in all nations and times1 as is proved by the earliest idolaters who worshipped the heavens1 and the host of stars1 and verifying the more spiritual conceptions of the ,hebrew ,psalmist1 and of ,job1 who did not confound 7nor did this child7 the sign with the ,living ,,god who created it to signify ,his ,being4 ,another thing3 ,observe it was not even as the giver of love and joy1 but as the giver of goodness that the ,person of ,persons had seized the imagination of the child so powerfully4 ,it was wonderful to see that very day1 the effect upon his understanding of this conversation4 ,the night before1 when ,i told him the story of the little worm1 ,i found his vocabulary so small that ,i could give my imagination a very narrow scope4 ,but in the course of the day 7in which1 for the first time in his life7 he talked incessantly1 asking innumerable questions about his good friend1 he seemed to have no difficulty in talking4 ,i am very sorry ,i have not my written memoranda1 because ,i should like to tell you everything in order2 but ,i remember he wanted to know how his good friend looked4 ,i replied by asking him1 ,how does love look8 ,he laughed1 and said1 ,love does not look1 but feels4 ,well1 said ,i1 so your good friend does not look1 but feels4 ,don't you feel him now1 putting love and goodness into you8 ,he laughed assent1 and said1 ,where is he8 ,wherever love and goodness are1 said ,i2 in you1 in me1 and in mother1 in everybody who loves4 ,i was encouraged to believe he would comprehend this language1 unimaginable and inconceivable as such truth is to the mere understanding1 for ,i had in my remembrance a conversation ,i once overheard between two children1 one five and the other not three years old1 at which ,i had not ceased to wonder since ,i heard it4 ,i was sitting drawing with their mother in a recess of a room that hid us from the children's sight1 when our attention was diverted by hearing the younger one say3-- ,can ,,god see me now1 when ,i am all wrapped up in this shawl8 ,the elder one replied very earnestly1 ,o yes6 ,,god can see everybody1 everywhere4 ,but ,i don't see how ,he can see me when ,i am all wrapped up in this shawl4 ,it is dark1 persisted the little three-year-old4 ,there was a pause1 when ,eliza1 in a very anxious voice1 said3-- ,amelia1 can you see mama in your eye8 7,she meant imagination47 ,amelia replied after a moment1 ,yes1 ,i can see mama in my eye1 just how she looks4 ,well1 said ,eliza1 ,i suppose that is the way ,,god sees everything1 because ,he knows everything4 ,i cannot conceive a more perfect proof that the soul of a child is a sparkle of ,,god1 and its mind the intuition of the eternal reason--its image1 than was given by this original illustration of the truth of truths made by a child of five years old4 ,the mother made an exclamation of wonder1 and said3-- ,i am sure ,i never could have given so profound an answer as that1 and ,i continue to think it the most wonderful thing ,i ever heard of so young a child's saying1 and had ,i not heard it myself1 ,i doubt if ,i could have believed it was said4 ,but it has given me courage to think that children might have very early a definite conception of the invisible ,,god without materializing it4 ,the omnipresence and invisibility of ,,god were mysteries that attracted my little pupil's mind and taxed it1 but did not distress nor perplex it4 ,of the reality of ,,god's being1 the intimacy of his own relations with ,him1 he never seemed to have a doubt2 his delight in the thought of ,him was boundless4 ,at the end of the first day he said a thing which struck his parents with astonishment4 ,the evening of the day on which ,i arrived1 his father had made tea for me in the parlor1 and as the child did not want to leave me a moment1 he was set up at the table in his high-chair opposite me1 to eat his bread and milk with us4 ,while the father talked of one thing and another1 the child's eye and mine occasionally met1 and he would immediately make some gesture of lovingness and an inarticulate sound1 ee ee ee6 ,at last his father checked him with the words ,don't make those silly noises1 ,foster6 ,i interposed1 and playfully said3-- ,now please don't come between me and ,foster4 ,i understand his silly noises and just what he means to say to me4 ,how can you expect he will talk any sense when you have never given him any help to think8 ,the father laughed at my transcendentalism1 as he called it4 ,but the second night1 when we were all again in the same relative position1 the demeanor of the child was wholly changed2 he sat silently eating as if wrapped in thought4 ,by and by he said in a very decided tone1 ,some things live1 and some things only keep4 ,with a look of astonishment his father exclaimed1 ,what an extraordinary generalization6 ,the consequence1 said ,i1 of being talked to as if he were a rational being one day6 ,the next day ,i went to ,boston for a day or two1 to make arrangements for returning to stay an indefinite time1 which was such a disappointment to the poor little thing that he screamed in the most passionate manner1 so that his mother could no longer doubt his sensibility or will4 ,he was so angry with the stage-coachman who took me away1 that his father had great difficulty in persuading him that he was not a bad man1 but1 on the contrary1 a kind one1 whom ,aunt ,lizzie had asked to come to take her to the railroad4 ,at last he somewhat reluctantly agreed that he might be a good man4 ,but ,i shall never like him1 he said1 and left his father1 to go and caress his mother1 who was weeping1 as he divined1 with the same regret as his own1 and he was apparently comforted by her saying1 that she1 too1 was sorry ,aunt ,lizzie had to go away for a little while1 but she had promised to come back in a day or two and stay all summer4 ,it turned out as ,i had surmised1 that he had asked no questions while ,i was gone1 and had said very little except to wonder that ,i stayed so long1 though ,i was gone only two days4 ,when ,i came back ,i had immediate evidence that he had been thinking while ,i was gone1 and to some purpose4 ,you remember that on that first morning of our conversation1 he had asked me who made the trees1 and ,i had said1 ,the trees grow out of the ground1 which did not seem to give him the satisfaction that my reference of his emotions1 sensibilities1 and thoughts1 to an invisible personality had given him4 ,now1 as soon as the embraces of welcome and expressions of joy had subsided a little1 he burst into the subject which had so possessed his mind1 and with a sort of triumphant air1 as if he was sure of a satisfactory response1 he asked3-- ,what did our good friend want the trees to grow out cf the ground for8 ,i said1 ,do you think the trees are pretty8 ,do you like to look at them8 ,yes1 ,i think they are beautiful4 ,well1 said ,i1 ,i guess that was one reason2 you know he loves us all1 and so he likes to please us4 ,do you like to please those you love8 ,yes6 and a passionate embrace and kiss was the expressive reply4 ,i then went on to call his attention to the fruits that grow on some of the trees1 and which serve us with delicious food1 and the uses of wood to build houses with1 etc4 ,this conversation naturally introduced other kindred subjects of inquiry as to why our good friend had arranged things so and so4 ,the tyrannizing instinct of his own mind1 of which he had become conscious through the exercise of it1 that my naming of the ,spirit ,father had so happily started1 had made objective to him the ,unity of all life1 and he was sure that the good friend was at the bottom of everything outward as well as inward1 even trifles2 for ,i one day heard him say1 as he was lying on the floor at play1 ,heavenly ,father1 ,i wish you would not let my leg feel so cold4 ,this was later on1 in the winter time1 however4 ,i cannot sufficiently regret that ,i have lost my original memoranda4 ,they were transcribed from notes that his mother made1 who was watching every word said1 with the most intense interest4 ,she always had pencil and paper at her side1 because the danger of hemorrhage caused her to avoid speaking4 ,she wrote down with care the very words1 as if they were1 as indeed they were1 a divine ,revelation4 ,whatever he accepted or expressed with joy1 she felt was true1 knowing as well as she did the past emptiness of his understanding1 and the dreariness of his feeling as an individual4 ,but ,i can perhaps remember enough to show you the method ,i took1 which was truly the very method of conversation that ,froebel proposes we should have with children1 prompted by the ,wisdom of love1 which so profoundly respects its object that it gives it opportunity to be itself by not obtruding4 ,the reason that we do not get the lesson that childhood can give us is that we thrust our finite minds between the child and the ,divine1 instead of limiting ourselves to putting the child into the point of view to see for itself what of course though essentially one1 is perhaps of different aspect to each4 ,i made it a point to be very quiet1 and to exhibit no surprise at his questions or mistakes1 but to lead him by my questions to the answers1 and the corrections of mistakes which must needs arise from one-sidedness4 ,the entire respect with which ,i listened to what he said gave him complete possession of and confidence in his own mind4 ,one laugh at any incongruity he uttered 7as ,dr4 ,seguin would tell you7 would have shut him up perhaps forever4 ,how often children's thinking is thus nipped in the bud6 ,the circumstances in this instance were favorable to real conversation4 ,in addition to my love of psychological observation in general1 and my love and interest in this child in particular1 was that which ,i felt in the mother1 whose own childhood had been so shadowed by her human environment that it had not taught her what only childhood can teach with its uneclipsed vision of the ,father's face1 of which ,christ speaks and warns the adult not to offend 7or1 as the revised version translates it1 cause to stumble74 ,on her account1 as well as on my own and the child's1 ,i was careful not to put my thoughts into his head1 but merely lead him to the standpoint from which he could see the truth for himself4 ,it is because these conditions made for once an opportunity for a genuine conversation between intuitive childhood and such maturity of experience as ,i had attained1 realizing ,froebel's ideal of the conversation of the kindergarten1 that ,i am desirous to give it to you as a hint of how you should proceed--though1 of course1 you would probably never have so exceptional an opportunity2 because the children that come to you will generally have minds already misty with half-defined ideas of ,,god1 received from the vague1 half-defined minds of the imperfectly educated adults1 conveyed to the children either in that careless or dogmatic manner in which they are usually talked to1 not with4 ,another advantage ,i had with this child was1 that besides the arrested development arising from his mother's timid plan with him1 he inherited from both parents1 and perhaps from remoter ancestry1 an individuality of mind that was not at all imaginative2 which did not1 however1 exclude him from spiritual truth1 for that is not the work of imagination1 but is discerned by the spiritual sense1 being as objective as what is discerned by the five senses 7a transcendental objective1 not a material one74 ,the respectful interest with which ,i treated him gave him a happy confidence in his own thought1 which was my opportunity for observing the natural order of mental development4 ,in short1 the conversation we had was a genuine one as between equals1 unless1 indeed1 he was the superior in giving to me the divine laws of the spiritual order4 ,he often surprised me by his next question1 and was so disarmed of all fear by my consideration and tenderness1 that he revealed that which is always the individual's secret1 and ,i gained as much as he did by the conversations1 and certainly ,i gained certainty in what was previously only conjecture on my part4 ,i was sometimes obliged to say ,i did not know1 and remember his asking me with surprise1 ,don't you know everything8 ,oh1 no6 said ,i4 ,only our good friend knows everything and gives us our thoughts all the time4 ,doesn't he give new thoughts to you every day8 ,yes1 he gives me a great many new thoughts all the time1 he replied with animation4 ,on another occasion1 when ,i had become perfectly exhausted in answering his questions1 ,i said to him3-- ,i am very tired1 but ,i will answer that question1 provided you will not ask me another before dinner4 ,as he walked away he said1 ,oh1 ,i wish ,i had asked another question instead of that6 ,well1 said ,i1 what8 ,perhaps ,i will answer that one4 ,turning back1 he said eagerly1 ,will our good friend answer all my questions when ,i go into the sky8 ,i said1 ,yes1 every one2 for he knows everything1 and can never be tired4 ,the expression of complete satisfaction with which he went away from me was most expressive4 ,you will observe his expression of when ,i go into the sky1 and consider it together with the words that he interpolated saying1 ,i have a good friend up in the sky1 in repeating to ,mrs4 ,doyle that first morning when ,i had told him that his good friend who gave him thoughts1 and joy1 and goodness1 and love1 had a sky full of goodness4 ,the sky is the natural symbol of the unbounded and infinite and the essentially spiritual1 and the conception of ,,god into which ,i had led him1 and which ,i named his good friend1 pervaded all space4 ,the subsequent questions of how ,,god looked1 and upon ,his whereabouts1 and the conversation on this1 by identifying ,him with the ,love that he felt within himself1 had revealed to him ,immortality before he had defined mortality4 ,the ,,god he felt within him in his conscious ,love and without him in all manifestations of beauty and power1 gave him assurance that he would be sometime wherever ,,god was4 ,i have lost the connection and place in the narrative of another conversation ,i had with him on the omnipresence of ,,god4 ,he often had said his thoughts were in his head1 and his feelings were in his bosom4 ,one day he was sitting in my lap close to a table1 with his feet bare1 and ,i put my hand under the table and pinched his toe4 ,he said3-- ,what are you pinching my toe for8 ,i said1 ,how do you know ,i pinched your toe8 you cannot see what ,i am doing under the table4 ,i think you pinched my toe1 because ,i felt it4 ,i thought all your thoughts were in your head1 and all your feelings in your bosom1 not in your toes4 ,my feelings are all over my body1 said he2 and when you pinched my toe1 the feeling ran right into my head and turned into a thought4 ,so you see1 said ,i1 that you live all over your body and in any part of it1 just as your ,heavenly ,father lives all over the world and in everything at once4 ,yes1 said he1 ,i did not know how that was before4 ,the date of this conversation was some weeks1 perhaps months1 from the beginning of our intercourse1 as ,i know from the use of the word ,heavenly ,father1 which came after a time to take the place of good friend1 and it was preceded by some other conversations4 ,he was always overflowing with expressions of love to me4 ,when ,i gave him anything1 he would embrace me1 and ,i would ask1 ,which do you love best1 me or the thing given8 7an apple perhaps1 or whatever it might be74 ,he would always say1 ,you1 you4 ,once he said1 ,i love you more than all the apples in the world4 ,once when he was kissing my hand1 ,i said1 ,which do you love best1 me or my hand8 ,i love both1 he said4 ,i persisted1 and said1 ,supposing my hand was cut off1 would you love me as well8 ,i should love you a great deal more1 said he1 energetically2 for it would hurt you so to have your poor hand cut off4 ,would it not hurt you dreadfully8 ,i suppose it would1 but by and by it would get well and what ,i want to know is1 whether you would love me as well without my hand as with it8 ,he still declared he should love me more4 ,i then said1 ,so you see my hand is not me4 ,it is only one of the things the ,heavenly ,father gave me to make things with1 and ,he gave me my feet to walk with1 and eyes to see with2 but my eyes and ears and tongue are not me2 and if ,i should lose them all1 still ,i would be all of myself1 and you could love me8 ,yes1 said he2 but ,i don't want you to lose any of those things1 for ,i love them all together4 ,my object in these conversations was to see if he would separate in thought the finite material body from the conscious soul or himself1 as ,i preferred to say1 for to speak of one's self as a soul makes what is essentially subjective as objective as we desire to make the body1 the use of which is to reveal to others the feelings and thoughts of the individual that otherwise the finite apprehension could not seize4 ,i was endeavoring to prepare him to minister to his mother1 when ,i could persuade her to let him know the fact of death1 by appreciating and defining that crisis of life as a step onward into the deep consciousness of immortality1 which ,i believed would lift her out of the abyss into which her own consciousness seemed to fall at the utterance of the word1 in spite of all the intellectual views of immortality which she had for many years cultivated1 but which somehow did not meet her exigency1 when she felt herself on the brink of the separation of body and mind4 ,no intellectual process can give what the faith of childhood has in its own immortality of which those who had the care of her infancy had robbed her4 ,it was delightful to see how she enjoyed the child who had long been a burden to her4 ,she wanted him in her presence all the time with his playthings1 and to hear all our conversation1 and that ,i should tell her what we said in the little time that he could not be with her4 ,she declared that she never had known what the enjoyment of life was till she had it in her sympathy with him4 ,all the pleasures of intellect1 and also of personal affections of the happiest kind1 were pale beside the joy of this child--in his communion with ,,god1 who was in all his thoughts1 and had taken him from his dreariness and growing peevishness1 into that joy of childhood which ,ruskin speaks of as so entirely out of proportion to the occasions of its expression1 and which still had no painful excitement in it1 but was simply a spontaneous outflow1 not only quickening his thoughts but informing his affections with generosity and gratitude4 ,the self that lost all sense of boundary1 in its joy in the unbounded1 spread out to embrace all about it4 ,he said one thing to me which will1 ,i think1 explain to you what ,i mean4 ,of course1 ,i was the first person on whom the flood of his heart poured itself out1 though he did not stop with me1 but also expressed his love to all with whom he came into near or remote relation4 ,when saying to me how much he loved me1 what a skyful of love he had for me1 ,i said1 ,yes1 darling1 ,i know you love me as much as you can1 he replied scornfully1 ,i love you a great deal more than ,i can6 ,was not that a wonderful expression of the immortal essence of his love1--of ,love ,divine8 ,without its being suggested to him to thank others for kindnesses1 he did so without a single exception4 ,he would be taken to drive in the carriage with his mother1 and standing at the window1 would shout with delight at the things he saw on the way1 and when he got home would often run back to the gate to say1 ,thank you1 horsey6 and all his habits of timidity were forgotten when the street musicians came by1 and he was allowed to take out pennies to them4 ,callers at the house1 from whom he used to shrink when they would have spoken to him1 were in wonder at his hospitable welcome and fearless but intelligent interpositions in the conversation1 which they thought indicated precocity instead of backwardness4 ,the length1 breadth1 and depth of all the words ,christ let fall in the last part of his life1 of which ,i had had some insight before1 became doubly intelligible to me4 ,i saw into the beauty and meaning of mankind's being created in successive generations1 and ,i was thus prepared to enter into and appreciate ,froebel's ideas and methods1 with which ,i did not become acquainted till a quarter of a century later4 ,i want you to observe that in what ,i did there was simply the spontaneous wisdom of love--love1 not fondness1 not desire of reciprocation1 but self-forgetting and reverent of its object4 ,only this gives the creative method1 or is the essence of creativeness1 whether human or divine4 ,you remember1 in the memoir of ,froebel with which ,i began this course of lectures1 it was said that he posed his elder brother with his questionings of ,,god's wisdom in the arrangement of the social sphere4 ,unable to answer him1 the instinct of his love led him to divert the child's attention into a department of nature where apparent discords were seen to be harmonized for the production of beauty and use1 that the poor little perplexed and bewildered child might enjoy himself legitimately4 ,he gave him the clue to the labyrinth and the strength to conquer the ,minotaur4 ,he had no idea of educating1 but only of comforting4 ,thus1 unconscious of any theory of education1 he solved the problem practically1 first for the child ,froebel himself1 later for mankind to whom the man ,froebel has revealed it with such ample illustrations as to make an era in human history that1 as we hope1 shall retrieve the past4 ,childhood understood1 leading in the promised millennium of peace on earth and good will among men1 will make mankind forget the ,babel confusion of its first experimenting1 and enter into the mutual understanding of the ,pentecostal miracle4 ,,lecture ,,vii4 ,a ,,psychological ,,observation4 ,,part ,,second4 ,,in our little ,f4's case1 as it became perfectly plain to his mother that he conceived clearly of ,god's embracing unbounded space as well as time in ,his ,infinite ,essence1 she became desirous of knowing how he would receive the fact of death1 so painfully and prematurely forced upon her own soul1--whether his mind would leap the gulf in which hers seemed to sink at the utterance of the word4 ,but the difficulty for him seemed to be to conceive of death at all4 ,i tried to approach the subject in such a manner that he should have the initiative1 as it were1 in any conversation upon it4 ,there was a poor old man who occasionally passed the house in the clothes of a pauper1 supporting his steps with a stick4 ,one day when he did so1 ,f4 asked me1 ,what makes men old8 and before ,i had time to answer1 added1 ,mary the name of a former servant used to say many days1 when ,i asked her4 ,do many days make men old8 ,yes1 said ,i1 just as many days make your clothes and shoes old4 ,that old man has walked on his poor old legs so long that they are quite worn out1 and he has looked so long with his eyes that they are dim1 and listened so long with his ears that they have grown dull1 and his back has grown weak1 and his whole body is so worn out that it will not do what his thoughts tell it to do1 as your little fresh legs and eyes and ears and as your whole body does4 ,he received this intimation quietly1 but raised no question as to the ultimate result2 and as often as the old man walked by1 he would ask the same question and receive the same answer4 ,at last ,i took down from the book-closet ,mrs4 ,trimmer's story of the robins and read it to him1 and he became very much interested in the little nest and its inhabitants4 ,after a while1 the children in the story had birds of their own in a cage1 which they took care of assiduously1 but at length on one occasion went away and left them for many days uncared for1 so that they died2 ,i read right on through the page on which it was told that on going to the cage when they came home1 they found the birds lying on their backs with their beaks wide open1 stark dead6 ,i paused in my reading1 and he repeated1 stark dead6 what do those words mean8 ,what was the matter with the birds8 ,i laid the book down1 and said1 ,you know that some things live1 and some things only keep4 ,yes1 said he4 ,i continued1 ,you know that living beings feel pain or pleasure1 one or the other1 all the time1 and that things that only keep do not feel at all4 ,yes1 said he4 ,well1 things that live and feel--living beings--always eat and drink2 they continue to live by eating and drinking1 and ,god tells them to eat by making it pleasant for them to taste things4 ,now these little birds lived by eating and drinking1 and if they had been free1 they would have found food and drink somewhere in the world2 but those children had shut them up in a cage2 and when they were so thoughtless as to go away and forget the birds that they had undertaken to take care of1 the little birds grew hungry1 and you know it is not pleasant to feel even a little hungry1 but they grew hungrier and hungrier till their poor little bodies were as full of pain as they could be4 ,now our ,heavenly ,father could not possibly have them suffer so much pain1 and so ,he told them to come to ,him1 and their life went right out of their bodies1 and then their bodies were just like everything else that only keeps2 they could feel no more pain4 ,what a dear1 dear1 dear ,heavenly ,father it is6 said the child2 what nice ways ,he has about everything6 ,yes1 said ,i1 ,he has the ways of love4 ,he asked no questions at this time1 nor made any generalization4 ,i took up the book1 and read on about the children's burying the bodies of the birds1 etc4 ,thus the death of the body was first presented to his imagination as only a relief from pain of the life that inhabited it4 ,he was immensely interested1 and the subject became the most common topic of conversation4 ,there were some books in the house which had pictures of hunts1 and one was of a stag-hunt1 the stag at bay1 the dogs seizing him1 the huntsmen firing4 ,these books had been carefully kept from him4 ,i now took them down1 and showed them to him1 interested him in the timid stag running for its life1 and its ingenious devices to elude the dogs by swimming across streams1 and at last when the dogs had seized it1 or the huntsman fired the cruel shot which tore the breast or side of the poor beast1 the final release1 ,god's call of the life to ,himself6 ,at which the child would utter exclamations of delight3 that final escape was the best of all4 ,this story was so interesting1 it absorbed his attention1 and he did not generalize4 ,but it took its place among the good deeds of ,god's love1 that when life became too painful in the body it was taken away to enjoy itself with ,god4 ,his mother1 in whose presence were all the conversations1 was intensely interested2 but still as he did not think of human death1 she hardly felt that he had conceived the idea4 ,i told him about the metamorphoses of insects1 and their depositing their life in eggs as soon as they were born4 ,when the old man came by1 as he did nearly every day1 we commented on the wearing out of his body1 but he did not think of death as a relief for him4 ,at last one day it happened that stretching out of the window for some purpose1 he nearly lost his balance1 and it was only by my timely seizing him that he escaped falling out4 ,i said1 ,f41 what if you had fallen out on those rocks and been broken all to pieces6 ,he shrieked with horror1 ,i don't want to6 ,i don't want to6 ,but what if you had6 said ,i1 calmly4 ,you came very near it4 ,what should you have done8 ,what could ,i8 he screamed4 ,what could ,i do1 all broken to pieces6 ,why1 don't you think1 said ,i1 smiling1 that your ,heavenly ,father would have taken you right into ,his own bosom8 ,a heavenly smile spread over his face and a look of perfect satisfaction and acquiescence1 and he said after a moment's pause1 ,i forgot my ,heavenly ,father4 ,oh1 what a dear1 dear1 dear ,heavenly ,father ,he is6 ,then1 after another moment1 he said in a distressed voice1 ,but must ,i be broken all to pieces when ,i go to the ,heavenly ,father8 ,oh1 dear1 no6 said ,i2 but when we are broken all to pieces1 or starved1 or are very sick1 ,he takes us2 but generally people grow to be old like the old man1 and all their bodies get worn out1 and they get very tired and kind of go to sleep1 and the ,heavenly ,father takes them1 so they do not wake up again in their old bodies1 which are buried as the children buried the bodies of the robins4 ,he expressed himself very happy1 and asked a great many questions1 and it seemed as if he had already known of the fact of death4 ,at all events1 he now accepted it as the common destiny1 without any painful feeling1 and it seemed to give new realization to his mother's feeling that her own was indeed nothing but a morbid feeling1 and that normal nature did not shrink from death4 ,the subsequent questions were innumerable4 ,i read to him ,krummacher's parable of the caterpillar and butterfly in the garden of ,thirza1 after the death of ,abel1 as it was paraphrased by ,mr4 ,alcott when he read it in his school1 in which ,i was assisting him at the very time that ,i was called away to the child's mother4 ,and it was the study ,i had made of childhood in his school which had enabled me to pursue with so much confidence the method ,i took with the child1 though it was in my own childhood ,i conceived the plan2 and ,i remember speaking of it to ,dr4 ,channing in #ahbd1 and how much interested he was in the idea1 though he told me that in his own case he was indebted to the symbolism of nature1 especially the ocean seen from the beach at ,newport1 for clearing his mind of the effects of the teaching and preaching which he had heard4 ,these grand objects1 and later the beauty of some manifestations he had seen of love giving courage and power to the weak1 kindled his ideal1 and gave form and substance to his consciousness of ,god4 ,for a time there was nothing but delight expressed in the fact of death1 the relief from all suffering1 the enlargement of life and joy and new knowledge of ,god and ,his ways4 ,at last a little incident showed him the shadow which attends death in this world4 ,we often went to call on the family of the physician who attended his mother4 ,one day when we went1 the ,doctor1 who was very fond of ,f41 took him into his lap while ,i was playing with the baby in his mother's arms4 ,they always called it baby4 ,i said to ,mrs4 ,d41 ,has not baby any name8 ,the mother replied1 ,his name is ,edward4 ,f4 looked up at the ,doctor with a bright1 joyous expression1 and said1 ,where is your other ,edward8 ,the ,doctor's face changed instantaneously2 he clasped the child close to him1 and said1 ,oh1 he has gone to his ,heavenly ,father1 with a burst of grief4 ,f4 stretched himself back1 looked into the agitated face1 and said with a look of the greatest concern1 ,are you sorry that he has gone to the ,heavenly ,father8 ,oh1 very1 very sorry1 said the poor father4 ,should not you be sorry if he should take away your dear mother8 and putting the child down1 he immediately left the room4 ,mrs4 ,d4 said1 ,the ,doctor has never got over the death of that child1 and we never name him in his presence4 ,i immediately left the house1 and we walked some distance in silence1 and as ,i found ,f4 did not incline to speak1 ,i said1 ,f41 did the ,doctor look glad when you spoke to him about his other ,edward8 ,he pressed himself close up to me1 and said eagerly1 ,no1 no6 he looked very sorry4 ,what made him sorry8 ,did he not like to have his other ,edward with the ,heavenly ,father8 ,oh1 yes6 he liked that1 but then he wanted to have him in his own arms4 ,you see he cannot see him now1 and he wants to kiss him4 ,yes1 said ,f41 he hugged me6 ,i continued3 ,you see1 the ,doctor is very strong and well1 and ,i suppose he will live in his body a good many years1 and he has ,mrs4 ,d4 and ,julia and the rest1 but he wants that other ,edward1 too1 every day of his life4 ,f4 replied sympathizingly1 ,he was large1 and white1 and bright1 and when ,i go into the sky1 ,i shall look all over to see where he is4 ,i said1 after a little while1 ,shall you say anything more to the ,doctor about his other ,edward8 ,no1 indeed6 said he4 ,i never shall say another word about him4 ,do you think ,i want to make the poor ,doctor sorry8 ,i told his mother1 when ,i got home1 of the whole affair1 and we agreed that it was well he should see the sad side of death for the survivors4 ,it was soon a question with ,f4 how we were to live without the body1 and he asked me4 ,i told him ,i did not know exactly how it was to be1 but ,i supposed ,god would let new eyes1 ears1 and whatever limbs we should need1 grow out of us1 made of the finest stuff like air1 which we could not see because it was so delicate1 or even feel1 as we did the air when it moved1 but which souls could use just as they pleased4 ,he said1 ,i have seen some pictures of souls that had gone out of their bodies1 and ,i did not know before what they were4 ,surprised1 ,i asked him how they looked4 ,he said1 ,they were nothing but heads with wings4 ,the delightful thing was to see the effect of all this earnest prattle upon the mother2 and one day1 after ,i had returned from a visit to a friend in the town1 she told me she had had a conversation with ,f4 on her own approaching death that was very satisfactory4 ,she said she had his bread and milk put on a little table opposite her easy-chair1 and when he was happily engaged1 she said1 ,f41 ,i think our ,heavenly ,father will soon take me to ,himself4 ,he looked up with an expression of great feeling1 and said tenderly3 ,do you8 ,then you will get rid of that poor1 sick body1 and your cough2 and he added presently1 ,perhaps he will give you wings6 ,she said nothing could be likened to the impression of peace and sweetness which these simple words made upon her4 ,soon after1 he said1 ,but what will be done with your poor old body8 7,she said he spoke as if it was of not much importance47 ,she replied1 ,your father and ,aunt ,lizzy will take it to ,cambridge in a carriage1 and put it into the ground2 and the grass will grow over the place1 and sometimes you can come to the place2 and ,i guess ,i shall look out of heaven and see you4 ,but in a few minutes he began to cry1 and said1 ,i want to go with you into the sky4 ,she said1 ,oh1 you have a nice little body1 which gives you a great deal of pleasure1 and you must stay here with poor1 dear father6 ,what would he do when he has no wife any longer1 without his little boy to make him happy1 and take care of him when he grows old8 ,after a little more of such remonstrance he said1 ,well1 ,i will stay with him6 ,it was curious that in talking with me he never referred to this subject of his mother's approaching death1 which evidently had touched him tenderly1 and ,i did not introduce the subject4 ,it was also a curious circumstance1 that after this matter of death was1 as it were1 settled satisfactorily1 and the mind of his mother freed from all trouble on the point1 the love of this life1 to which she had hitherto been more than indifferent1 sprang up in her with great energy1 and she proposed to break up the house1 and go to ,florida for cure6 ,her husband and ,i could not share the hope1 but we could not but sympathize in the new joy in life1 that she seemed to have received from her now happy child1 with whom she had learnt to live in the spirit4 ,things were so arranged that she made her husband's father's house1 about thirty miles distant1 the first goal of her journey4 ,she reached with great fatigue this first stage1 and stopped to rest1 and never mentioned ,florida afterwards4 ,she breathed on another year1 during which time ,i only saw her in weekly visits1 having returned to ,mr4 ,alcott's school in ,boston4 ,her disease was not very painful1 but so lingering that every trace of her former beauty was lost in the ghastly emaciation4 ,there were in the house two little cousins1 younger than ,f41 taken care of exclusively by a very sweet mother1 and this gave him the most desirable social intercourse and play that took the place of our discourses at the right moment1 and called into action very sweet traits of character4 ,my weekly visit of a day or two was a great affair to the children4 ,i told them stories1 innumerable variations of ,the ,story without an ,end1 and of ,pilgrim's ,progress1 modified to their infant minds4 ,i always repeated the stories in precisely the same words 7which is a great point in telling stories to children1 and impresses them on the memory71 and they became very familiar with the ends of my paragraphs1 and would take them from my lips1 and repeat them as a chorus4 ,thus when ,i had got ,pilgrim laid away in the upper chamber of the ,house ,beautiful1 whose white draperies ,i minutely described1 they would all interrupt me1 and sing out1 ,and the name of that chamber was ,peace4 ,so of the last words of other paragraphs that ,i purposely made epigrammatic4 ,the substantial character of the child's piety and sense of immortality1 which ,i have described as bubbling up at the name ,heavenly ,father1 spoken at the right time1 and in the right way1 was exhibited unmistakably in his after life1 and began to express itself at once in his association with his little cousins1 which proved a very timely thing for him1 bringing out his moral character by means of what he constantly did to make them happy1 and keep them good1 but he never said anything to them about the ,heavenly ,father4 ,that subject seemed reserved for me4 ,it was amusing to see how fatherly he was to the little one1 and he continued this fatherly manner all his after life to all the children with whom he came in contact1 and even during his childhood it was singularly unmixed with any tyranny or managing spirit4 ,he would play as they wanted to with them4 ,he seemed to be drawn to children because he could so easily understand their innocence1 and make them happy by his companionship1 and because he enjoyed them4 ,all his subsequent life he exhibited an exquisite sensibility to beauty1 which he continued to accept as the ,creator's smile of consent2 the very good pronounced on everything which ,he had made4 ,in the last part of his mother's life1 she became so frightfully emaciated1 that it was evidently painful for him to look at her2 but he said nothing about it2 and it was sweet to see the delicacy with which he tried to conceal this pain from her1 when he was admitted into the room to see her1 which1 at length1 came to be only in the middle of the day1 when she was seated in an easy-chair1 with a broad white footstool at her feet4 ,he would come into the room1 looking on the floor1 and seat himself on the footstool1 with his back partly turned to her1 and1 drawing down her hands1 cover them with kisses3 he refused1 as it were1 to recognize her1 under that ghastly mask1 which1 however1 did not shut off from his remembrance1 her former loveliness2 for1 as soon as she was really dead1 and he began to think of her in heaven1 she became his standard of beauty4 ,during the little more than a year that he continued under my care1 not so beautiful as my mother1 or as beautiful as my mother were words very frequently in his mouth4 ,as she approached her death1 she was so careful lest he should have any of the shock which her own mother's death gave to her1 that she readily consented that he should go for the last few days with the other children to stay with a kind neighbor4 ,he was therefore not present at her death2 neither was ,i4 ,it was an event greatly longed for by herself1 at last1 and its approach1 which she knew before any one else discerned any special change1 seemed to gladden her4 ,her last breath was peaceful2 her last words1 ,give my love to ,f4 ,i told him of the event the morning after the funeral1 from which ,i returned with his father1 in the dusk of the evening1 calling for the child to go home and sleep with me1 which he always was delighted to do4 ,he was put to bed in the room where his mother had died1 and ,i went in with him1 to explain her absence1 if he should notice it4 ,but he was tired1 and so occupied with my presence1 he did not1--not even when he woke in the morning4 ,at last1 ,i said to him1 ,do you see what room we are in8 ,he rose up and looked around1 and said1 ,why1 it is my mother's chamber6 ,where is my mother8 ,i paused a moment to see if he would divine the truth1 and then said1 ,the dear ,heavenly ,father has taken her at last6 ,he fell back on the pillow1 with a single exclamation of not painful wonder1 and a countenance sublime with the mingled expression of awe1 love1 and joyful satisfaction4 ,the fact of her absent body seemed to be a more palpable proof of the truth of her deathless soul1 than even her form and word1 which had represented it to his senses4 ,he was silent1 as we grow when feeling most1 as if he realized that he was in the presence of the substance of things hoped for1 the evidence of things unseen4 ,you may be sure ,i respected this sacred silence1 which seemed to me to last several minutes1 but possibly it was only one4 ,at last he said gently1 ,was the window open8 ,i replied1 ,i don't know2 ,i only know our ,heavenly ,father1 who is everywhere1 you know1 took her to himself4 ,he does not mind about windows1 you know4 ,no1 indeed6 ,i know that very well1 he said1 with a little laugh 7as if he wondered at his momentary lapse of thought74 ,soon he asked1 ,did ,he give her a new body right away8 ,i do not know anything more about that than you do1 ,i replied2 ,i only know ,he will do better things for her than we can think of4 ,do you think1 said he1 that she looks beautiful as she used to8 but1 before ,i could reply1 he suddenly added1 ,i want to go to my mother4 ,i want to see her now1 and began to cry4 ,i kissed him1 and began gently to recall the conversation that she had had with him the day she told him she expected soon to leave him2 and1 after a while1 he said spontaneously1 as he had done when he talked with her he would stay with his father to comfort him for the loss of her4 ,his father told me afterwards1 that when he saw him1 he went over the same ground again1 beginning with saying that he wanted to go to her2 but when his father represented to him how solitary he should be with no wife or son to show their love to him1 ,f4 closed the conversation with the words1 ,well1 ,i will stay with you till ,i grow up 7as if it was quite within his option to do so or not74 ,very soon after this ,i took him away with me to ,salem1 where he remained in our family for a year or more1 ,i think4 ,my father's family were living at the corner of an old burial ground1 two sides of the house being bordered by it4 ,the day we arrived we went directly to my sister ,sophia's room1 which looked out upon this burial ground4 ,he was immediately attracted to the window by the trees1 and exclaimed joyfully1 ,oh1 ,aunt ,lizzy1 what a beautiful green garden this is6 ,what are those things8 7referring to the tomb stones47 ,i replied3 ,that green garden is where people lay away1 underground1 the poor old worn-out dead bodies of their friends1 who are with our ,father in ,heaven1 and those things are called tombstones2 they are put there with the names carved on them of the persons whose bodies are buried in those spots4 ,he at once seemed greatly interested and pleased1 and became still more so after he had seen some burials2 his emotions of joy at the thought of the enfranchised spirits entering on their heavenly life1 being tempered with tender sympathy for the bereaved friends in their mourning-robes1 whom he sometimes saw weeping at the earthly parting4 ,he was always very anxious to know how the buried ones had died1 from what particular sickness or danger they had escaped2 and one day when my sister ,mary came back from a walk1 he joyfully told her that he had found out another way in which souls went to heaven4 ,she1 of course1 asked him1 ,what way8 and he said1 ,why1 sometimes ships that go to sea are driven by the wind against some rocks and broken to pieces1 and all the men's bodies are drowned1 and they go to heaven through the water4 ,another time1 he ran to her in great excitement1 and said3 ,oh1 ,aunt ,mary6 ,i saw a little baby's body buried in the green garden2 some carriages came1 and there was a hole dug already1 and people got out of the carriages1 and one man had a little box in his arms in which the baby's body was2 and they put some ropes around it1 and let it down2 and then they filled up the hole with the dirt1 and ,i saw the little baby fly up1 fly up1 fly up6 and he accompanied the words with a circular gesture of his arm4 ,whether the subjective conception was so vivid1 that it reproduced itself to his imagination in an objective form1 as the ,sistine ,madonna is said to have done to ,raphael2 or it was what is called a spiritual manifestation2 it was evidently a reality to him1 and no comment was made1 except that my sister said1 ,i never saw a soul fly up4 ,i should say here that this child was not imaginative1 and we never saw in him the smallest untruthfulness in speech or act1 nor tendency to exaggeration4 ,in this he resembled both his parents4 ,afterwards1 he became something of a scientist1 and studied medicine for his profession4 ,he was a good classical scholar in college1 and before his early death1 had completed in manuscript the history of one of the mechanical arts4 ,i think he was not of a visionary temperament4 7,see ,appendix ,e47 ,his life with us in ,salem was perfectly delightful4 ,he had no faults1 though a certain pertinacity 7which was an expression of inherited firmness of character7 sometimes required a little disciplinary conversation1 nothing more4 ,i never knew of his being subjected to any punishment1 or requiring any1 in all his childhood4 ,he had not the usual impetuosity of children2 perhaps the effect of his early depression of spirits4 ,my sister ,mary had a day-school in the house1 made up of children between six and twelve years of age2 he was allowed to have his playthings in the school-room1 and loved to listen to her oral instruction of the children in natural history and science1 especially in the stories that she told or read to them about human beings1 in whom he was always more interested than in animals4 ,i taught him how to read by the word method in ,the ,story without an ,end1 a slower and more laborious way both for him and me than the mixed method detailed in my ,kindergarten ,guide1 of which ,i have lately published a primer under the title of ,after ,kindergarten1 what8 ,but had ,i then known of ,froebel's method of employing childish play1 organized by the adult with single aim to intellectual development1 ,i should not have taught him to read so early1 but something more profitable2 ,i then shared what ,professor ,agassiz called the ,american insanity of teaching children to read before they have learned the things signified by words1 which he1 like ,froebel1 believed would produce habits of mind positively injurious1 dropping a veil between the observer and nature1 preventing all freshness of thought1 and destroying the mind's elasticity and originality4 ,but ,i had not 7at that time7 presumed to question the time-honored tradition1 that the beginning of education was learning to read4 ,when1 later1 my studies with a great philologist gave me a little light upon the subject1 and showed me that ,english had the misfortune to be written by an inadequate alphabet1 whose result was to confuse the phonography entirely1 by obscuring the original principle of having but one letter for one sound1 and a letter for every different sound1 ,i realized the positive disadvantage of children's being forced through a process which baffles all their natural instincts of classification2 and it was then ,i invented a method of separating ,english words into classes1 the phonographic ones to be first made familiar1 and the exceptions classified4 ,yet ,i could not be insensible to the unnaturalness of beginning with spending so much of the time of very young children upon this work of the imperfect mind of man1 as languages are1 rather than on the works of ,infinite ,wisdom4 ,i was therefore well prepared to accept ,froebel's method of first sharpening the senses by examination of things that charm children1 and of developing the understanding by first making things according to the laws which constitute the mind1 and then naming them in all perceptible relations4 ,first let us form a mind which can apprehend nature as the standard of truth1 before we undertake to inform it with what embodies the confusions and errors of men2 as1 for instance1 in a considerable degree the written ,english language does4 ,for language stands in the same relation to man as nature does in relation to ,god4 ,the eternal word of ,truth makes things before it is made flesh4 ,the confusion of tongues was the inevitable consequence of the fall of man out of that communion with ,god in which children are born1 and our written language is an image of this confusion1 especially the ,english1 whose so-called orthography is the most anomalous of all languages2 and the acquisition1 therefore1 ought to be postponed1 at least until the understanding is fairly developed by some recognition of so much of the ,word of ,god as is alive in the things we see and can handle4 ,the time comes when the children can understand that exceptions prove the rule1 and then those irregularities and anomalies of ,english writing may be made even entertaining lessons to children2 because if its laws and rules are apprehended first1 there is something amusing to them in contradictions of law that so many words seem to be4 ,it is the pleasure in the grotesque2 children enjoy the funny1 as they call it1 but it is a different enjoyment from that of the beautiful1 and the latter is the highest element for human activity4 ,a predominance of the funny even demoralizes intellectually as well as morally1 but it has its own subordinate place in healthy child life4 ,my little friend had a slate and pencil1 and immediately inclined to draw from real objects1 but we did not know how to give him any other help than to guess at what were the things he was trying to represent4 ,if we could not guess1 ,i remember he would blush1 and go away1 saying he would fix it a little4 ,i had the instinct that he could only be effectually encouraged by success1 and ,i would endeavor to divine what he meant1 by looking to see what were the surrounding objects when ,i saw him drawing1 and would point out to him with congratulation any part in which he had at all succeeded1 letting the rest go4 ,but without adequate and legitimate guidance he necessarily became discouraged with his failures4 ,what children do not succeed in1 becomes distasteful to them1 and they turn their attention from what has disappointed them1 and thus their natural tastes die1 or are starved out4 ,as they have no knowledge of materials1 nor judgment in using them1 they undertake the impossible1 and being baffled1 lose courage to undertake the possible4 ,so young artists accumulate difficulties by their unwise choice of subjects1 not realizing the limitations of their own powers4 ,it is the part of the educated kindergartner to supply this want of judgment and analysis until the pupil catches the secret of gradualism and the law of opposites4 ,froebel's plan of giving the squared slate and paper to ensure straightness of line in children's drawing is like the leading strings by which the mother helps the child to develop his limbs for walking1 which cannot be done without his own personal effort4 ,so ,froebel's plan of having the kindergartner suggest a symmetrical drawing of lines in opposites1 vivifies the sense of symmetry into a thought1 whence springs a plan of making still another symmetry4 ,for by suggesting opposites1 and then the connecting of them1 the child delightedly sees orderly forms that grow under his hands1 and feels that he is acting from his own individual personality 7which he is1 though the thought was suggested by the words of another74 ,what he does gives him confidence in his own mind1 whose fanciful movement suggests other symmetries2 for though fancy is a spontaneous play of the free will among impressions passively received1 it is amenable to the laws whose exponents are presented to it by nature's works and human suggestion4 ,f4 liked to watch my sister ,sophia at her drawing and painting1 but its very perfection discouraged efforts on his own part4 ,it is bad not to do really at once what we conceive of ideally4 ,it was only in the moral and religious sphere that we really lived with him1 and he was properly educated by us4 ,we always answered all his questions about what we were doing1 and how1 and why 7,i wish now ,i had asked him more questions74 ,my sister ,sophia had a rare talent for talking with children1 whose purity and innocence she comprehended by a sympathetic intuition1 and to whose imagination her ,christian faith gave ample scope1 for it was hampered by no human creeds4 ,we had a circle of acquaintances who were only too much inclined to pet him1 and who1 knowing something of the history of his mind1 liked to talk with him4 ,his mother had been very much beloved by this circle1 and ,i used to tell him that for her sake1 they cared for and attended to him1 which interested him immensely1 and perhaps prevented his considering himself as a person of too much importance comparatively4 ,he would talk of going to see his ,,mother',s ,,friends4 ,if new persons spoke to him kindly1 he would ask me immediately if they knew and loved his mother2 at all events1 the element of personal ,,egotism did not appear1 and the affection he at first poured out on me1 now freely flowed out in every direction4 ,i remember his saying to me1 one day1 with an accent of great self-gratulation1 ,i think ,i have a great many friends1 and in a moment after added1 my mother was so beautiful6 7as if that were the reason of it74 ,a young husband and wife became inmates of our house1 and brought a beautiful infant4 ,this was a perennial fountain of delight to ,f4 ,the singular beauty of the little one was a constant subject of observation4 ,one day he was looking at her1 as she lay on her mother's lap1 and presently he burst out1 ,oh1 ,ellen1 your little bright eyes are shining themselves into a sun6 ,he was equally delighted with the musical sound of her crowing4 ,his ear for sounds was fastidiously delicate4 ,one day my mother was in the garden1 looking at some wild flowers which had been brought to her for transplanting4 ,as she looked at them she said to ,f41 ,run into the house1 and get my-- ,he interrupted her eagerly with1 ,don't say that ugly word6 ,i know what you mean1 and he ran into the house1 and brought back ,bigelow's ,plants around ,boston 7,bigelow was the ugly word74 ,but let me hasten from these details1 to redeem my promise of telling you how prayer became a thought of his mind1 and his spontaneous practice4 ,it was very early a question of great interest to his mother1 and also to me1 whether prayer would become spontaneous with him2 that is1 whether he would think of speaking to ,god in human words4 ,his intense realization of ,god's presence seemed to be a cause of his not doing so1 and ,i feared to put ,,god at a distance by suggesting what1 in ordinary cases1 is a means of bringing ,him near4 ,if prayer be defined as a communion of the finite and ,infinite1 as personal as that of children with earthly parents1 his whole conscious life was a prayer2 for truly ,god was in all his thoughts from the day he first accepted ,him so joyfully as the ,substance and ,giver of goodness and love1 which involved to the natural logic of his innocent mind the corollary that ,he was the ,giver of everything outward1 as well as inward1 which gave him any happiness4 ,i did not dare to meddle with the natural evolution of thought in so happy an instance1 but watched to learn the true method of life of the little child1 as ,christ suggested to his disciples to do4 ,one day when his grandmother1 who was at the house on a visit1 dropped her needle1 she called to ,f41 ,come1 and look with your little sharp eyes for my needle4 ,he did so1 with his usual alacrity in service1 and soon found it4 ,then he ran to me1 and said1 ,when ,i go into the sky1 ,i shall thank my good ,friend for giving me such sharp eyes4 ,i said1 ,what do you wait so long for8 ,he gave me a glance of recognition1 as it were1 and laughed 7as if he had been convicted of saying something silly72 but he said no more then4 ,from that moment1 however1 he often came to me to say1 ,when ,i go into the sky1 ,i shall thank my ,heavenly ,father for giving me this or that2 and ,i would always answer him as before1 ,why do you wait8 which would always bring out the same complete expression of satisfaction on his face1 showing that he loved to renew the occasion for my uniform reply1 ,why do you wait till then8 ,on one of these occasions he turned from me1 and said very tenderly1 ,i thank you1 ,god4 ,one day1 after he went to ,salem1 he had been suffering from a bad earache1 and my sister had relieved it by putting a little tuft of cotton dipped in arnica into his ear4 ,then she asked him to go to the window and look out into the green garden1 and she took up a pencil to draw4 ,very soon he began1 ,,god1 ,i thank you for making this green garden to put away the dead bodies in4 ,,god1 ,i thank you for making these beautiful trees grow out of the ground4 ,,god1 ,i thank you for making all the pretty wild flowers grow4 ,he paused between each complete sentence1 and my sister1 having a pencil in her hand1 wrote down his words till she had covered a sheet of letter paper with his thanksgivings2 for he went on naming everything he could think of2 and it was quite wonderful to hear the minuteness of his grateful appreciation of life4 ,one sentence was3 ,i thank you1 ,,god1 for making medicine to put into my ear when it aches4 ,he also thanked ,,god for his father1 and his father's letters to him1 for his mother in heaven1 for many friends whom he loved1 naming them4 ,i hope that sometime ,i shall find my sister's paper1 which ,i have mislaid with the other memoranda of this interesting psychological observation4 ,the pauses between the thanksgivings became longer and longer1 and at last1 after one for which he seemed to have searched his inmost mind1 in despair of finding anything else1 he closed with1 ,my dear ,,god1 ,i love you very much4 ,you will observe that in all this spontaneous act of devotion1 there was no petition4 ,in the fulness of his happy life1 and1 as ,i think1 in the faith that ,god was giving him everything needful1 and more1 he never thought of asking for anything4 ,temptation to wrong-doing had not yet revealed the need that the progressing spirit always feels of more goodness and love1 which ,i had taken care to represent that ,god gave whenever the soul acknowledged to itself its need and aspired for more of this1 its vital substance4 ,for it is my opinion that prayer should always be for spiritual good only1 in order that our religion should be pure from self-seeking1 and generously self-forgetting in its aspirations for perfection4 ,a little while after this incident1 my sister was reading to him1 and came to a sentence in which were the words morning and evening prayer4 ,he immediately stopped her and asked her1 ,what does that mean1 that word prayer8 ,she said1 ,many grown up people1 when they wake in the morning1 and find that ,god has taken care of them in the night when they could not take care of themselves1 and given them a new day after their good sleep1 feel very thankful1 and love to tell ,god so1 just as you did the other day when you thanked ,god for so many things2 and besides1 remembering that there are a good many things they ought to do1 and that ,he gives the love and goodness1 they like to ask ,him beforehand to give them what they shall need to be good with when the time comes to want it2 and at night1 after they have got through the day1 they like to thank ,him for all the joys of the day1 and they ask ,him to take care of them through the night that is coming1 when they shall be asleep and cannot take care of themselves2 and this loving talk with ,god is called the morning and evening prayer4 ,i think she added that when she was little she used to say1 when she was going to bed3-- ,now ,i lay me down to sleep2 ,i pray the ,lord my soul to keep2 ,if ,i should die before ,i wake1 ,i pray the ,lord my soul to take2 and that was her evening prayer4 ,i think it is a very good way1 said he1 and ,i mean to do so this very night when ,i go to bed4 ,and it was true that when he went to bed1 he remembered and made a similar thanksgiving to his former one in kind1 and closed with this little verse4 ,and again in the morning he began the first thing to thank ,god for the new day1 etc4 ,nor did he forget afterwards1 night and morning1 to give thanks and utter prayers spontaneously1 and seemed to enjoy it4 ,one morning he waked me with his loud singing1 and as soon as ,i opened my eyes1 said to me1 ,aunt ,lizzy1 ,i am singing my morning prayer4 ,i said1 ,there was a wonderful little shepherd boy once1 whose name was ,david1 who loved ,god as you do1 and who always sang his prayers4 ,immediately he wanted to know all about him1 and ,i told him the story of ,david in his childhood and up to the time he was sent for to sing to ,king ,saul2 and ,i ended with saying that ,i would read to him some of ,david's psalms 7as these sung prayers were called72 and this ,i did1 and the eloquence of the sweet singer of ,israel seemed to vivify his idea of the ,heavenly ,father1 and of ,his connection with the soul within us all and the world without4 ,especially ,i tried on him the effect of the ,psalm beginning1 ,the heavens are telling of the glory of ,god1 whose rhythm had charmed my own childhood1 even before ,i fully comprehended it2 and he liked to hear it1 too4 ,before this1 ,i had read considerably from the ,bible to him1 for he had one day said that he wondered how the world began to be in the first place1 and ,i had said3 ,yes1 everybody wonders about that4 ,but there is a book 7pointing to the ,bible7 where one of the first men told about how it seemed to him1 and ,i will read it to you4 ,so ,i opened the book and began the first chapter of ,genesis1 without introductory comment4 ,when ,i came to the words ,and there was light1 he sprang up and shouted1 ,directly when ,he said ',let there be light1' there was light directly6 ,i wished ,longinus could have heard the confirmation of his great criticism4 ,immediately he ran into my father's study1 which was across the entry1 and burst out1 ,dr4 ,peabody1 when it was all dark and there was nothing made1 ,god said1 ',let there be light1 and there was light' directly6 directly6 ,this was not enough2 he ran to find my mother and sister1 and again repeated the simply sublime words4 ,then he came back to me to hear the rest1 and ,i finished the chapter which he wanted me to read to him again and again1 day after day4 ,i read afterwards the parable of ,jotham1 which he liked to hear very much4 ,i cannot help thinking how much more ,i might have made of that very parable for his moral culture had ,i then known of ,froebel's gospel of work4 ,i can hardly bear to think how stupid ,i was2 the effect of not having had the kindergarten education myself4 ,but he was too soon taken away from my observation1 not without my acquiescence1 however2 for it was to go to his father1 who1 ,i thought1 needed his companionship4 ,and as it was at a distance that he lived1 and1 as afterwards my own life was full of vicissitude for many years1 ,i lost the run of him entirely4 ,there was a mutual misunderstanding between his father and me1 for several years1 from his thinking ,i wanted to be free from the care of him1 and ,i thinking he did not desire my personal influence on him1 and we were both mistaken1 as we found out afterwards4 ,when he went to ,harvard ,college1 he came to see me1 and the interview was very interesting4 ,he had a sweet1 though it had become a dim1 remembrance of a happy time with us1 succeeded1 as he told me1 by a lack-love experience of years of a dark1 gloomy time at a boarding-school1 to which he was sent when he was eight years old1 because1 as he said1 his grandmother thought he ought not to be living with his solitary father at a hotel4 ,but the boarding-school proved more than a heart solitude1 as the boys were rough and cruel to him in their unguided play4 ,while he was with me1 on the occasion of this call1 it happened that my sister ,sophia's children came into the room where we were4 ,they had a very vivid idea of him from their mother1 she having often spoken of him to them1 and telling them of his joy in learning he had a ,heavenly ,father1 when he had never thought or been told of it4 ,when ,i said to them1 ,this is ,f41 one of them said1 ,is this ,f48 ,i thought he was a little boy1 looking at him wonderingly1 surprised to see a grown-up man4 ,i told him they were well acquainted with his childhood4 ,it touched him very much1 and the conversation that ensued touching on several things ,i have told1 brought back the old time more distinctively1 and he said he should often come to recall it by my help1 and to learn more of his mother1 whose beautiful face haunted his dreams4 ,but just afterwards ,i left ,boston for some years1 and did not see him again until after his return from ,vienna1 where he went after leaving college1 and remained till he had completed his medical studies4 ,i promised then to show him his mother's letters to me1 written in her girlhood1 and to tell him how much the early experience of his own childhood had ministered to her a heavenly consolation4 ,but again inexorable circumstances interfered4 ,he became a practising physician in ,worcester1 and ,i went to ,concord to live1 and we procrastinated a promised visit until at last ,death mocked our slow affections4 ,i saw him last wrapped in the flag of his country1 for when the war broke out in #ahfa1 nothing would do but he must go to it2 and he went as one of the surgeons of the #aeth ,regiment1 which was terribly cut up4 ,for a year and a half he did an incredible amount of work1 for he would always have his hospital on the field of battle1 and the #aeth was in a great many battles1 and left but few survivors1 most of whom are maimed or halt4 ,he took care of those wounded ones who could not be taken from the battle-field1 wrote letters for them1 and never took a furlough1 as every other officer and surgeon did4 ,in the last letter that he wrote to his father1 he said that this year and a half was in one sense the happiest time of his life2 for it was the only time when he seemed to be of any use4 ,he was killed at last1 walking up through the main street of ,fredericksburg1 ,virginia1 in the van of the regiment1 as was his wont1 and his death was instantaneous4 ,his patriotism and his bravery were the fruits of his piety4 ,every year his father and ,i met to decorate his grave until his father's death in #ahhc-d4 ,he is buried at ,mt4 ,auburn by his mother's side1 whose body was removed from the tomb in the old burial ground of ,cambridge4 ,i have a photograph of him taken at the same age as his mother when she died1--thirty-one years4 ,it was the year before he went to the war1 a drooping head1 pensive as if marked for early death4 ,but when ,i saw him dead1 his brow was lifted1 his whole countenance had become grand and heroic1 and it was plain that he had found his ideal vocation4 ,his funeral was celebrated in the city of ,worcester with military honors1 the wounded soldiers of his regiment following the hearse in carriages1 and the sidewalks of the city thronged with the multitude of spectators4 ,a discourse upon the text1 ,no man can do more than lay down his life for his friends1 was pronounced over him at the church1 and the beautiful hymn sung1 ,nearer my ,god to ,thee1 which seemed to me the most appropriate conceivable1 though he had never been far from ,him1 after he knew a name for ,him4 ,after the funeral his father's relatives and friends gathered together1 and we talked of him4 ,i told my recollections of his childhood1 and all of them expressed the feeling that the life he had led was in perfect harmony with such an early acquaintance made with the ,heavenly ,father4 ,,lecture ,,viii4 ,,religious ,,nurture4 ,,froebel speaks of the child as a trinity1 meaning a unity in threefold relation 7with ,god1 with man1 and with nature71 and says that education1 to be perfect1 or even healthy1 must help him to be conscious of all these relations at once1 in order to ensure the equipoise of heart and intellect with his spiritual power 7or freedom to will71 in which inheres his just self-respect and natural religion4 ,nature 7that is1 the material universe1 as ,i have said before7 is ,god's expression of mathematical and all correlative laws1 the apprehension of which builds up the intellect of the individual who1 through his sense perceptions1 on which he reflects and generalizes1 gains knowledge of his surroundings1 beginning with that part of nature which is within his own skin4 ,it was the grand intuition of ,oken which has been splendidly illustrated by ,dr4 ,j4 ,garth ,wilkinson in his ,human ,body in its ,connections with ,man1 that the human body is the metropolis of material nature1 in which may be found in vital order all the elements of the material universe which are1 outside of the human body1 in a more or less chaotic state4 ,this development of the individual intellect needs more or less aid from the human environment1 simultaneously with that nurture of the heart which means man's conscious relation to man4 ,but though morality1 which is the performance of man's duty to man1 is not religion1 which is man's consciousness of relation to ,god1 it leads to it inversely1 because it shows the heart its need of a ,father of us all1 in order to be happy4 ,all three processes1 the intellectual1 the moral1 and the religious1 must go on together1 to make a perfect education1 for in proportion as integral education is wanting in those about the child1 his intellect will be starved1 confused1 or darkened with error2 and immorality and irreligion will more or less transpire in the individual4 ,froebel perfectly realized the deficiency of this integral education to be the cause of all the evil that is the present experience of mankind1 in spite of ,church and ,state and the optimism which in form of hope springs eternal in the human breast 7for the pessimist is the exception1 not the rule among men1 the great mass of whom are pursuing some ideal aim1 even though it be a low one1 their moral sentiment having been perverted and their religion having become a superstitious idolatry either of material forms or of logical formulas74 ,the system of education which ,froebel discovered1 or invented1 in consequence of realizing this1 is what we are endeavoring to learn and apply1 that we may bring out of the moral chaos around us the lost equipoise of the threefold nature in our children1 by ourselves plunging into infant life in imagination and realizing its innocent heart and unfallen spiritual state1 watching it in its own attempts to understand and use its material surroundings and its human environment1 to the end of guiding it by our own experience and matured knowledge1 from the errors and misfortunes it inevitably falls into if left to its own ignorant experimenting unrevised4 ,the playthings and means of occupation ,froebel invented are to develop the intellect1 and are a perfect miniature of nature1 and to use them in playing with the child is an art and a science that the kindergartner must add to her moral affections and religion1 which are also her indispensable qualifications4 ,i wish to say this very emphatically1 all the more because this part of your education 7the art and science that develop the intellect7 is not my part of your training course1 but the moral and religious nurture2 and therefore ,i must leave the exhaustive analysis of the gifts in their relation to the unfolding intellect as well as of the schools of work 7as the series of embroideries1 foldings1 drawings1 weavings1 pea-work1 etc41 are called1 and which require your study the whole year7 to your accomplished trainers to do justice to4 ,but before ,i turn to my specific department1 ,i would say that this intellectual part of the training1 which it was the special genius of ,froebel to discover1 is of equal importance2 for it is the duty of man to worship ,god with the mind1 as well as with the heart and might1 though that is a part of the great commandment1 which seems to have been systematically overlooked by many of the churches1 if not virtually denied4 ,to worship ,god with the mind means to develop the intellect2 as to worship ,him with the heart keeps pure the moral sentiments and quickens moral action2 and to worship ,him with the might lifts the will1 quickened by the heart and enlightened by the mind into oneness with the ,holy ,spirit1 more and more forever4 ,and here let me recall to you what ,i said of ,froebel's authority in my second lecture1 and beware of deviating from the path he has pointed out 7he was nearly fifty years in inventing his technique72 and be very careful about adding to his ,gifts or ,schools of ,work1 though ,i would not have you mechanical followers4 ,there will be legitimate outgrowths of his method4 ,he himself1 in one of his ,pedagogies1 published after his death by ,wichard ,lange1 has suggested a school of drawing upon the curve1 which ,miss ,marwedel has developed1 leading the child naturally through vegetable formation2 and ,mr4 ,edward ,a4 ,spring1 the sculptor1 has also suggested and partly carried some children through animal forms1 from the worm to the human face divine2 and we hope both these schools may be published and used4 ,in the musical line1 also1 in which ,froebel was personally rather deficient1 ,mr4 ,daniel ,bachellor1 now of ,philadelphia1 has suggested a series of exercises by means of the correspondence of tones and colors1 that makes the children as creative in the discovery of melodies1 as they are of the harmonies of color in their weaving and painting4 ,there is unquestionably danger that the kindergartner may degenerate into mechanical imitation and rote-work in this part of her guidance of the children1 nevertheless in some of the charity kindergartens ,i have seen there was danger of doing injustice to the technique4 99 99 99 99 99 ,on this last day of communion with you on the ,froebel education1 ,i would like to speak with some comprehensiveness and particularity on the subject of religious nurture4 ,mark me1 ,i say religious nurture1 not religious teaching4 ,the religion that integrates human education is not to be taught4 ,it is the primeval consciousness of filial relation to ,,god1 who alone can reveal ,himself2 for human language has no adequate expression of ,,god1 founded as it is on the material universe1 which is the finite opposite of ,creative ,being4 ,every individual child is a momentum of ,,god's creativeness which the human ,providence of education must take as its datum4 ,only childhood symbolizes ,,god as the sum of all being1 realizing itself in joy incommensurable4 ,ruskin has happily said the joy of childhood is out of all proportion to the occasions that call forth its expression1 and in order to make ,,god the central conscious truth of the child's intellect1 we must give the name father or mother to ,,god1 which is intelligible to the heart1 and which will identify its filial aspiration with the parental bounty1 as another1 yet the same4 ,but what ,i want you to observe is1 that language being limited in meaning by its origin in material nature1 you should talk about ,,god as little as possible1 after having given ,him the name that will excite the child's worshipful aspiration1 and limit yourselves carefully to regulating moral manifestations1 leading children to act kindly1 generously1 truthfully1 in your own assured faith that ,,god is present to inspire the truth1 generosity1 and loving will that is practically prayed for with good resolution4 7,good resolutions are the special prayers of faith1 as children should be taught expressly47 ,kindergartners cannot carry out this course quite irrespective of the theory of human nature declared in their creeds4 ,but the heart is generally larger than the creed1 as was once strikingly evidenced to me by ,louisa ,frankenberg1 a dear1 devout old ,german kindergartner1 who had learned the art of kindergartning from ,froebel himself1 in the very beginning of his own experimenting2 but she was such a bigot to the ,lutheran ,church that she could not theoretically admit as a ,christian any one who did not swear by its dogma of total depravity4 ,yet ,i remember hearing her exclaim1 ,oh1 ,froebel's method is so beautiful6 because the affectionate plays and innocent occupations take the children entirely away from the depravity of their hearts4 ,she said this with a gush of love and faith that showed how much the unbounded human heart is beyond being totally eclipsed by shadows cast by the limited human intellect4 ,it is neither feeling or thinking1 but righteous doing1 that gives us victory4#aa ,the child in the first era of his life has no individual consciousness of separation from ,,god1 and for a certain time it is obvious to all observers that this august unconsciousness even prevents the immediate development of an intellectual conception of him4 ,the child in its infancy 7infant1 you remember1 means not speaking7 does not see nature as object1 but feels it also to be himself1 and hence he has no language1 for language is the expression of his intellect4 ,hence the infant's sublime unconsciousness of danger and absolute fearlessness1 and its impulse to spring upward out of its mother's arms1 the laws of gravity notwithstanding6 ,it stands1 as ,wordsworth has sung1-- ,glorious in the might of heaven-born freedom on its being's height1 and only gradually do ,shades of the prison-house begin to close around the growing boy4 ,for1 as the same poet has it in that ode which is as much inspired as anything in the sacred oracles of the ,hebrew or the ,christian3-- ,earth fills her lap with pleasures of her own2 ,yearnings she hath in her own natural kind1 ,and even with something of a mother's mind1 ,and no unworthy aim1 ,the homely nurse doth all she can ,to make her foster-child1 her innate man1 ,forget the glories he hath known ,and that ,imperial ,palace whence he came4 99 99 99 99 99 ,hence1 in a season of calm weather1 ,though inland far we be1 ,our souls have sight of that immortal sea ,which brought us hither2 ,can in a moment travel thither1 ,and see the children sport upon the shore1 ,and hear the mighty waters rolling evermore4 ,the not unworthy aim of the humble nurse is to give the child the sense of having life in himself as an individual free agent1 so that he may come into intellectual consciousness of the laws of ,,god by going counter to them1 which reveals to him that he is separating from ,,god in his activity4 ,this separation is sin1 which is a short word for separation1 and the first step in the development of individuality1 and therefore pardonable1 because it is finite4 ,now the true religious nurture is to keep the child in the mood of ineffable joy in which he was created1 while he is evolving his sense of individuality and free agency by experimenting freely1 but more or less painfully1 so that he shall not lose sight of the central ,sun1 to which everything he is slowly learning through his senses and his reflection is related2 and this must be begun by giving a name to the central ,sun that shall express the character of his inmost consciousness of joy and love1 which is his vision of ,,god1 and needs to be recognized as ,,god in the understanding4 ,in the ,old ,testament we see that it is the name of the ,lord which is set forth as the only means of escaping that idolatry which is destructive of progressive spiritual religion4 ,the name of the ,lord1 or ,ruler1 with the ,hebrews was ,,jehovah1 a word made up of the three tenses of the substantive verb to be1 was1 is1 and shall be1 and which ,philo1 the ,alexandrian ,jewish philosopher1 translates ,,the ,,eternal4 ,it was understood by the worshippers to be the ineffable ,creative ,reality1 so that when they came to the word in their sacred ritual they did not speak it1 but reverently bowed their heads in a moment's silence1 or paraphrased it1 ,,the ,,lord ,,god4 ,but ,jesus1 the bright1 consummate flower of the ,hebrew race1 used the name ,father 7my and our ,father71 which you may observe was original with him4 ,that word expressed the whole of his theology4 ,he made no disquisitions on ,,god',s being1 but simply recognized the vital relation of mankind to its ,creator by this word1 which any child who has come to see that he and his mother are two can understand and will love4 ,froebel has proved by his nursery method that the child shall get this idea and name of ,,god from his mother2 and at all events when children come to the kindergarten they will generally already have heard some name for ,,god1 adequate or inadequate4 ,now all you have to do--but that is a great deal1 indeed the greatest thing--is not to cloud the child's intuitive knowledge of ,,god by your inadequate words as was done in the case of ,m4 ,d41 who was afraid of the omnipresence of ,,god1 as ,i mentioned in my narrative of ,f4 ,h41 and in the case of his unfortunate mother at her mother's funeral4 ,in the case of little ,f4 the mistake was not to have given any name before his sense perceptions had made a prison house for the growing boy4 ,but you have seen how the shades were dispelled by my taking it for granted with him that a ,heavenly ,father existed1 which he joyfully accepted at once1 for ,i knew that ,in the embers was something that did live1 ,and ,nature yet remembers ,what was so fugitive4 ,the naming of ,,god in the kindergarten should be in music1 which is the natural language of spirituality 7or aspiration71 lifting the soul above the cold level of the intellect that cognizes the correlations of the natural universe4 ,froebel finds support of his faith in the efficacy of song1 that puts devout expression into the works of nature1 in the historical fact that the civilizing literature of all nations begins in religious hymns4 ,the different characteristics and the different destinies of nations are seen in germ in the national songs1 which are in large degree and sometimes exclusively addressed to the ,powers above4 ,the ,li-king of the ,chinese1 the ,rig ,veda of the old ,aryans1 the ,puranas of the ,hindus1 the ,garthas of the ,iranians1 the recently discovered early poetry of the ,egyptians1 and even the magical formulas of the ,babylonians1 all express with more or less exaltation of spirit the primeval intuition of ,supreme ,being1 and use the particulars of material nature as words of ,,god pointing to that unity of all life that is the music of the spheres4 ,is it not heard in the voice of the healthy infant1 which is the most exquisite music on earth1 and later seen in the pictures made by the imagination before language that is coined by the human understanding has introduced prosaic1 that is1 analytic definitions1 and drawn the human individual away from feeding its heart on the fruits of the ,tree of ,life 7which are music and poetry7 to the fruits of the tree of knowledge1 which are evil as well as good4 ,the kindergarten exercises should begin and end with spiritual songs and hymns2 indeed1 they should come in any time at the call of the children1 who1 it will be found1 will oftener call for hymns of praise than for any other songs4 ,the hymns of the kindergarten repertory should be entirely free from all that is didactic and denominationally doctrinal4 ,their object is not to teach any science1 whether intellectual1 moral1 or theological2 but to express childish joy in existence1 or quicken the original childish faith1 which in all ages and nations has expressed itself in music and the dance4 ,nor should the singing of hymns in kindergarten be ever perfunctory or a thing of course4 ,a good kindergartner begins the day with bringing all the children into company for preliminary conversation1 and asking each in turn what is in his mind2 or the class as a whole may be asked some general question1 perhaps about the weather1 which always has something beneficial that can be brought to the attention2 then they could be asked1 ,could you have made this weather8 ,who made it8 and would you not like to thank the ,heavenly ,father for it8 ,something similar to this should precede all the hymns to rouse their sense of free activity1 and prevent routine1 and then they will sing with the heart and understanding also4 ,i remember going one day into a kindergarten with ,mr4 ,alcott when such a preliminary conversation was going on1 which was followed by this song of the weather1 the children making the illustrative gesticulations with their arms4 ,they began with the weather of the day1 and continued with several varieties1 for it is not often the whole song is sung at one time4 ,the intense delight of the children when themselves personifying the weather1 poured itself out in the chorus1 which they had first learned to sing with a will1-- ,wonderful1 ,lord1 are all thy works1 ,wheresoever falling4 ,all1 their various voices raise2 ,speaking forth their ,maker's praise ,wheresoever falling4 7,see ,appendix1 ,note ,f47 ,mr4 ,alcott1 with his eyes full of tears1 turned to me1 and said1 ,this must have an immense influence upon character4 ,in religious conversation children have the advantage of us in their as yet uneclipsed original vision of ,,god1 and we have an advantage of them in knowledge of outside things and the adaptation of means to ends4 ,by this knowledge of ours we can generally guide them to accomplish their purposes when they are such as will really give them pleasure and do no harm to any one else4 ,they get our knowledge by confidingly doing as we direct1 and a confidence in the method which brings about the results they have instinctively foreseen4 ,we save their minds from getting lost or bewildered in the chaos of particulars by winning their attention to the orderly connections of things1 and leading them to realize how they connect little things in order to make larger things1 and how opposites are connected in the world around about them4 ,to recognize their own little plans and open their eyes to ,,god's methods and plans2 and because they cause new effects1 they realize that all effects have causes1 and in the last analysis realize one personal cause4 ,they must believe in themselves as a preliminary to believing in ,,god4 ,let them with things create order2 and you will have influence with them in proportion to their feeling that you respect their free will1 and divine in a genial way what they want2 and this you can do if you inform yourself of what is universal in human desire1 keeping your eyes open to what modifications their individuality suggests2 and it is your cognizance of these individualities which makes your part of the enjoyment4 ,if there are no two leaves alike1 much more are there no two human individuals precisely alike1 and human intercourse is made refreshing by these various individualities playing over the surface of the universal race-consciousness4 ,if you respect the individuality of a child1 and let it have fair play1 you gain its confidence4 ,nothing is so delightful as to feel oneself understood4 ,it is much more delightful than to be admired4 ,but to give a child's individuality fair play in a company of children1 you must open children's eyes to one another's individualities1 and you will find that if you suggest their respecting each other's rights in the plays1 there is something within them that will justify you4 ,the consciousness of individuality is the correlated opposite to the conscience of universality4 ,justice is an intuition4 ,the opposite poles of a human being are self-assertion or personal consciousness on the one side1 and generosity or race consciousness on the other4 ,we have seen that the maternal instinct1 which the kindergartner is to make her own by cultivating it1 cherishes the indispensable innocent self-assertion 7which is only changed into selfishness by lack of that social cherishing which keeps generosity wide awake to balance self-assertion74 ,we must sympathize with the play instincts of the child1 so that it may get knowledge of its body in its parts and its powers of locomotion1 manipulation and speech1 giving self-respect to the consciousness of power1 while the simultaneous knowledge of limitation is prevented from becoming fear by experience of the motherly providence1 which is the first comprehensible form of that love which in due time calls forth ideal worship of the ,infinite ,,god1 if ,,god has been adequately named in natural sympathetic conversation with an earnest self-persuasion but without sanctimonious affectation4 ,unless you have unaffected spontaneity of faith yourselves1 you should not dare to talk about ,,god to the child4 ,the religious nurture which ,froebel proposes therefore consists simply in so living with children as to preserve their primeval joy by tenderly and reverently respecting it1 as that human instinct prompts which is in the highest power in the mother4 ,sympathetic tenderness is the first of all means for moral culture4 ,the child's faith in ,,god must be cherished into self-reliance4 ,there is a self-distrust that is really a distrust of ,,god1 and no harm we can do a child is so great as to lead it to doubt its own spontaneity4 ,the common religious teacher--even a conscientious mother--sometimes does this1 and so far from nurturing the child's conscious union with ,,god1 starts a morbid self-consciousness1 the opposite of religious peace4 ,in order not to make this mistake1 let the mother and kindergartner read and ponder ,froebel's ,mother ,love and ,cossetting ,songs4#ab ,if you ask me what aid the moral culture derives from the religious nurture1 ,i reply1 the name ,heavenly ,father1 given to the inmost consciousness1 keeps the heart happy and the will self-respecting1 by preventing those indefinite fears1 incident to a sense of helplessness1 which engenders selfishness4 ,hope and ,faith are correlatives1 and conscious or necessary means of goodness 7which is enacted thereby71 not agonies of will in the absence of this support4 ,in the majority of cases moral discouragement is the secret of children's naughtiness2 and1 as ,dr4 ,channing used to say1 there is nothing fatal to child or man but discouragement1 which often exists close beside manifestations of pride and self-will4 ,when ,i kept school1 in my earlier life1 ,i became the confidante of many cases of wrong-doing and conscious wrong feeling4 ,sometimes the confidentialness was altogether spontaneous on the part of the children1 and in other cases ,i took the initiative1 drawing out the confidence1 by intervening on occasion to console and help1 especially when ,i saw that the sensibility had been wounded1 or there was moral puzzle4 ,and my experience and observation in this line justified the faith in which ,i began to keep school2 viz41 that children are all but perfectly good1 in all cases1 and are never so grateful for anything else1 when they find themselves naughty1 as for spiritual and moral help1 given as ,god gives1 upbraiding not4 ,when they are not grateful for moral help1 it is the fault or mistake of the grown-up counsellor4 ,even in the worst cases ,i always took it for granted that nevertheless they loved goodness better than the naughty self which for the hour had got the victory over the better self4 ,spiritual being1 whether finite or infinite1 is only to be discerned by aspiring faith4 ,yet ,i do not think it right or wise to suggest to little children that their wrong-doings1 which are more weaknesses than presumptions1 are sins against ,god4 ,children can comprehend their relations to each other1 and the violation of each other's rights to happiness1 and can be easily led to sympathize with the pain or inconvenience of those they make suffer1 which touches their sense of justice and generosity2 they can appreciate wrong and its consequences to their equals and to themselves in the present life4 ,but ,,god is too great to be injured by them2 and to bring ,,god to their imagination as personally angry with them1 overwhelms thought1 and annihilates all sense of responsibility1 with all self-respect4 ,children can comprehend perfectly that wrong-doing1 in particular cases1 is an injury to themselves1 as well as a harm to their neighbor2 also that they forfeit1 for the time being1 their privilege of being1 as it were1 in partnership with ,,god in making others happy1 as well as being companions with ,him in making things grow2 and an occasional hint of this1 when they are very happy and successful1 is well4 ,but to suggest that they are forfeiting this privilege of divine companionship and partnership1 is quite painful enough1 be this forfeiture ever so partial4 ,old sinners are to be disciplined1 perhaps1 by that love of ,,god which speaks in the thunder1 the earthquake1 and fire1 breaking through the crust of selfish habit to awaken attention to the still1 small voice of conscience1 in which alone the ,lord is in person4 ,but the naughty child1 at his worst1 needs only to think of ,god as sorry for him1 and waiting to be gracious1 like the father of the prodigal son4 ,i can illustrate this by anecdotes of a child to whose moral life ,i was obliged to call in the aid of the religious sentiment1 and even of the specific ,christian revelation of pardon for all past wrong repented4 ,it was the case of a very sensitive child of nine years of age1 whose mother was gifted with the finest imagination and moral instincts1 but was married to a cold1 ,dombey-like husband1 whom she unfortunately thought superior to herself1 whom she idealized1 and endeavored to make her children satisfactory to his worldly ideal4 ,the result in their characters was more or less disastrous to each1 ending with the suicide of one4 ,this child's conscience of the duty of satisfying both parents ,i soon found to be abnormal2 and her sense of her father's contempt for her intellect1 and her mother's painstaking that she should satisfy him1 so worked on her sensibility that it suspended her reasoning powers2 and no matter what it was she failed in1 whether in missing an answer to a question in arithmetic1 or in failure of good temper when tormented1 she fell into despair4 ,i endeavored to show her that a mistake in any school exercise was no crime1 but only made an occasion for her learning more thoroughly the thing in hand1 and to show her that1 unless she had fortitude to bear failures1 and courage and hope to overcome them1 ,i could not help her out of them2 and ,i never rebuked any naughty manifestation of a moral character of any one in her presence1 but she would burst into tears1 and tell me how much naughtier she was4 ,one ,monday morning ,i asked my children1 as ,i was wont to do1 if there was anything interesting that they had heard at church or ,sunday-school the day before1 when1 almost with a shriek1 she cried out1 ,oh1 don't ask me that4 ,i said gently1 ,come with me into my chamber1 which she did1 crying all the while4 ,mr4 ,greenwood preached about the prayers1 and he said we should not look about the church1 or think of anything else1 while the service was being read2 and ,i always do1 and ,i can't help it1 because ,i am so bad4 ,i took her into my arms1 and said1 ,it is a sure proof that you are not bad1 that you are so distressed at the thought of doing wrong4 ,bad people do not care1 and so they grow worse and worse2 but your conscience seems to forget the ,heavenly ,father1 who did not give it to you to discourage you1 but to help you to see what way you must not go1 and to remind you that ,he is close by to help your good resolution1 which is the prayer of your will4 ,but ,i read in a hymn that ,,god sets down everything we do wrong in a book2 and at the judgment day ,he will read it all out to the assembled universe4 ,i told a lie once4 ,did you8 said ,i1 tenderly4 ,tell me all about how you came to4 ,i cannot1 said she1 because then ,i should have to tell something bad about somebody else1 which ,i must not4 ,how long ago was it8 ,it was when we were living at ----4 ,i saw by this that it was several years before4 ,she had a little brother1 of whom she was very fond4 ,i took hold of a locket that she wore about her neck1 that contained the hair of the lady for whom she was named1 and the memory of whose great virtues had been impressed on her imagination1 and said3-- ,what if ,edward should take this locket and break it1 and take out the hair and throw it in the fire8 ,with a great deal of energy she said3-- ,he never would do such a naughty thing4 ,he might do it without being naughty2 he would not know that you never could get any more of ,miss ----'s hair2 and he would do it from innocent curiosity--and what if he should do it1 what would you do8 ,why1 ,i should tell him he was a very naughty boy1 meddling with other people's things1 and that he had done something that he could never make up1 for there was no more of that hair4 ,well1 said ,i1 and ,i suppose you would say that1 very likely crying1 and if he seeing that he had given you such pain1 should begin to cry1 and should cry all the rest of the day1 and cry himself to sleep1 and when he waked in the morning should begin to cry again1 and should cry all day for weeks--what would you do8 ,why1 ,i should tell him ,i was sorry to lose my locket1 but ,i could bear it1 and he must forget about it1 for he did not know what a mischief he was doing1 and ,i should take him out to walk1 and amuse him1 and do everything to make him forget it4 ,why should you do all this8 ,because ,i love him1 she said4 ,do you believe you love him better than ,,god loves you8 ,with a look of surprise1 she said1 ,does ,,god love us the same way we love8 ,there is but one kind of love1 ,i said1 and ,i really think ,he would like to have you forget that lie you told so long ago1 without thinking how wrong it was1 because you were thinking of something else1 just as ,edward was only thinking he wanted to see what was under the glass of the locket4 ,she looked at me wistfully4 ,did you ever read about ,jesus ,christ in the ,new ,testament8 said ,i4 ,yes1 and ,i hate to4 ,why8 ,because you know everybody says we must be like ,him1 and ,he never did anything wrong1 and ,i cannot be like ,him1 for ,i do wrong of all kinds--beside that lie1 and you know how cross ,i am4 ,o1 said ,i1 ,i do not wonder you feel discouraged if you think that you must be as good as ,jesus ,christ right away1 to begin with2 but ,jesus ,christ came into the world to say a word that is the most important word in the ,new ,testament1 and if ,he had not said it1 ,he would have done us more harm than good with ,his perfect example1 discouraging us entirely4 ,what was that word8 she asked1 with the most eager interest4 ,pardon1 said ,i1 for all past wrong-doing that you are sorry for4 ,oh1 ,miss ,peabody1 ,i never thought of the meaning of that word before4 ,yes1 darling1 said ,i1 and that is the reason of all your trouble4 ,now think of it always2 and thank ,,god that ,he sent ,jesus to say it4 ,that lie of yours ,,god has pardoned long ago1 just as you would have pardoned little ,edward4 ,we all do wrong things when we are children1 and learn by doing them not to do them again4 ,now from to-day begin all your life over again4 ,when you miss in your lessons1 instead of crying1 just let it go1 and ask me to help you try again4 ,so in making other mistakes1 and when you feel cross1 which comes in your case because you are so easily discouraged1--for that makes you have dyspepsia1--just forget it as soon as possible and go and do something pleasant1 and think that ,,god loves you1 and only lets you do wrong to show you that you need to be getting wisdom all the time1 and you will grow stronger continually1 and the older you grow1 the better you will understand4 ,i never knew a moral crisis in any child's life so marked as this was4 ,she had a very hard path in life to walk and suffered much1 but she never again lost the hope by which we live1 and at length1 full of years1 joined the ,choir ,invisible1 from which commanding standpoint she doubtless sees the end from the beginning1 and how ,,god's redeeming ,providence completes ,his creation of a free agent4 ,what ,i insist upon is1 that a child should never be left to doubt1 but should always be helped to feel sure that ,,god is loving him better than he loves himself2 is sorry far more than angry with him when he has done wrong1 and therefore it is that ,he will not let him succeed in doing wrong1 but has so arranged things that the wrong always gets checked2 that ,,god is especially good precisely because ,he makes the ways of the transgressor hard4 ,never let the ,infinite ,power appear to the naughty child's imagination as punishing1 but only as encouraging1 inspiring1 helping6 ,it is recorded as characteristic of the highest manifestation of ,,god and ,educator of man1 who appeared to ,his most spiritual disciple as the ,eternal ,word made flesh1 that ,he did not quench the smoking flax or bruise the broken reed1 but distilled upon humanity--especially in its flowering stage--the gentle dews of blessing1--taking little children in ,his arms to bless them4 ,you may ask1 ,but what if a child proves in some instances incorrigible to the method of love8 ,what shall we do then8 ,i think it will be sufficient to ask any ,christian1 ,what did ,jesus do when the ,jews proved insensible and incorrigible to his long-suffering1 brotherly love1 making it the occasion of their own capital crime8 ,did he abandon the method of love when they nailed him to the cross1 or even doubt it8 ,let us dwell on this a little4 ,was it not the special trial of ,jesus ,christ's human life1 the last temptation through which he was constrained by his apparent failure of accomplishing the work of redeeming ,israel1 by leading them of their own selves to judge and do what is right to cry out1 ,my ,god6 my ,god6 why hast thou forsaken me8 ,for instead of their coming to him to get the waters of life he offered1 they had made it the very act of their religion to murder him as a blasphemer4 ,i ask1 ,did he1 even then1 exchange his method of forbearing love for cursing8 ,did he not1 even then1 hold fast to the principle of brotherliness by commending his spirit 7which was his work7 into the hands of the ,father1 with the words3 ,forgive them1 for they know not what they do2 showing that he felt that this ignorance was infinitely more pitiable than his own apparently forgotten bodily agonies8 ,and1 in this great humane act of forbearance1 and divine act of faith did he not reveal in its fulness the loving character of ,god1 whom he had always called ,father1 and with whom he proved himself one by this very token1 which converted the ,jewish thief and the ,roman centurion on the spot2 and which1 step by step1 is slowly but surely 7by inspiring his disciples with the same spirit and method of dealing with their fellow-beings7 converting the world8 ,the moment of despair of an immediate spiritual good we are trying to do1 is often the moment of our doing a higher and greater good4 ,as ,jesus resigned his own finite will1 as the son of ,david1 which was fixed on bringing the ,jewish nation to fulfil its national mission of blessing all the families of the earth1 which he understood to be the motive inspiration of ,abraham's emigration from ,babylonian civilization into the wilderness2 and as he accepted the will of his ,father1 which seemed to be that the privilege to do this patriotic duty was not granted to him as he had grown up thinking1 the will was lifted1 and he found himself doing more--becoming the ,saviour1 not of the nation of the ,jews merely1 but of all men1 and so sat down on the right hand of ,,god4 ,for he proved himself to the heart of all humanity1 ,,god's ,son1 loving1 not for the sake of men's reciprocation and appreciation of himself1 but for the sake of the salvation of humanity4 ,therefore ,christ's method is the one for every man and woman on all planes of activity1 however humble4 ,i have heard more than one mother say1 that when they had tried every method they knew of to influence their child to give up some wrong object on which the irrefragable free will was bent1 and all tender and violent measures had failed1 the irrepressible tears of their despairing love had most unexpectedly melted the hardness of self-will at once1 and effected the cure4 ,,love1 when it is understood1 is irresistible4 ,our sacred oracles teach us that the origin of evil is in a doubt of ,,god's love4 ,in ,eden it was a suspicion that ,he had some selfish ends in forbidding even one thing in a world of free gifts4 ,the conquest of evil1 on the other hand1 they represent1 was in ,jesus ,christ's trusting ,god's love1 in a lost world1 amidst the physical agonies of his cross1 and the moral anguish of a disappointment of the grandest aim that ever one born of woman had set to himself for his life-work4 ,in faithfully trying to do the lesser good just at hand1 he developed the power to save all men from their sins2 not merely his own people4 ,to the training class of kindergartners ,i would say1 your special work is rather to prevent1 than to conquer sin1 in the objects of your care2 therefore you should1 in your own imagination1 associate yourself with ,god creating1 first leading children to realize that all ,he has made is very good and must be kept so1 which is giving the religious nurture4 ,that great word of ,froebel1 man is a creative being1 has said in the world of education1 whether religious1 moral1 or intellectual1 ,let there be light1 and is never to be forgotten in its uttermost meaning4 ,in this truth you will find an infinite resource of hope and successful energy4 ,you may think that you apprehend and accept the scope of this pregnant word1 because you do not reject it as a proposition2 but partial knowledge is often deluding1 and not doubting is far from efficient conviction1 which a comprehensive and penetrating understanding of a principle gives4 ,let me illustrate this illusion of thinking we comprehend when we do not1 by some of ,froebel's gifts4 ,think of the four last gifts of ,froebel in their wholeness of form1 as cubes4 ,when these cubes are uncovered and you recognize them as eight1 or twenty-seven1 or thirty-six wooden1 solid1 six-sided1 eight-cornered1 twelve-edged units1 and see the relations of their properties in nature1 it may seem to you as if you exhaustively knew the cube2 but you do not if you have omitted to notice one property inherent in it1 more important because pregnant with more consequences than any other property1--,i mean its divisibility by means of which its possible transformations are innumerable1 every transformation presenting the symmetry of the original in a new variety of beauty1 so that if you will give to a child one of these divisible cubes and suggest to him the clue of the law of connecting contrasts1 which is the law of all production1 he will never tire 7except physically7 of making the new combinations1 and seeking through each and all1 that sense of a whole which was the first impression4 ,it is by reason of its divisibility1 that the cube can be transformed infinitely4 ,now you may conceive the nature of man as a whole1 and observe a great many of his attributes1 and yet not see the greatest1--his creativeness1 whose consequences are infinite4 ,educational science has1 in fact1 generally omitted to do this in the past1 and treated a child according to the attributes it recognized2 but1 because before ,froebel's day man had not been recognized by the reflective mind as a creative being1 it had not been realized that he can be transformed1 or transform himself as well as his surroundings1 infinitely1 ever producing something new1 and hence that there may be1 in the lapse of ages1 as much variety in human production as there is in ,god's workings in the ,universe4 ,it is1 in short1 because education has not hitherto conceived of man as creative1 that there has been so much dead uniformity and lifeless repetition on the plane of humanity2 and that a general characteristic of educational systems hitherto has been a mechanical running of the human being into certain fixed moulds1 not only irrespective of individual tendencies1 but antagonistic to the universal creative impulse1 which is the profoundest characteristic of man1 and which1 not being understood1 has1 in a great measure1 proved only a source of disorder1 and given a bad name with people of genius to educational art 7although it is the highest of all the high arts71 its material1 if you will forgive the verbal ambiguity1 being living spirit4 ,richard ,wagner has said that were it not for education1 all men would be geniuses1 for they are endowed at birth with the passionate pursuit of the new1 needing only liberty and opportunity for self-direction4 ,liberty and opportunity6 ,there could not be a better description of ,froebel's principle and method of education4 ,to give liberty and opportunity to the creative principle of the child is just the work you have to do2 but observe1 this is not to leave him to the caprices of an uneducated will4 ,there is neither liberty nor opportunity in that6 ,eternal vigilance is the price of liberty1 moral as well as political2 and before the child is old enough to appreciate this1 and be vigilant for himself1 the educator must do so for him1 genially1 but firmly intervening to secure to his mind that pause before action on the moral1 the artistic1 and intellectual plane1 that the ,friends recognize to be necessary before acting on the spiritual plane4 ,the ways of caprice are multitudinous1--the way of life is one for each individual1 and is pointed out to the pausing attentive mind by the ,father1 who speaks to us1 within1 forever2 but whose voice can only be heard when listened to by intention2 even on the intellectual plane1 we do not let the will go storming on1 without the guidance of law1 which is the voice of the very present ,creator heard in the silence of reflection on perceived facts and truths4 ,there is a right and a wrong way of doing everything1--always4 ,the right way will always produce a thing of use or of beauty1 whose reaction on the mind of the producer cultivates his mind1 or grows the human understanding2 but this right way is only to be discovered in that pause between impulse and action which is the characteristic discrimination of man from all other animals1 and must be secured for the child by the care of his educators--even when he is only playing1 or the play will tire instead of exhilarate4 ,hence it is not enough1 though it is indispensable1 to guide children's activity while it is still irreflective to spontaneously make forms of beauty and use with its playthings and materials of occupation2 but after they have made something1 you are to make them stop and look back 7not every time1 but often71 and go over in thought1 and put into words1 what they have done1 and lead them to observe all the properties and relations of the thing that are obvious to the childish sense2 and when you have thus secured an impression of the means by which order is attained1 you have given an experimental knowledge of there being a spiritual order2 that is1 a world of individual laws and a law-giver independent of human will and meant to lift it into the divine4 ,those of you who are ,friends will agree with me that human beings can manifest no spiritual beauty or moral power1 except so far as they listen to the ,shepherd of souls in the holy pause of the hours of worship1 a voice always suggesting loving activity4 ,and cannot you see1 that no artistic production1 no intellectual work1 is possible without listening1 in the pause of reflection for the word of the law of beauty or use1 that the ,creator of the intellect gives8 and which makes art and science the worship of ,,god with the mind8 ,the most important1 the crowning work of the kindergartner1 is to secure to the child this moment of reflection in the midst of his play and work on all planes of life2 and you do so by sympathetically playing with him and gently guiding his unthinking1 impulsive activity1 and asking him what he has done and is going to do1 and not letting him do anything till he seeks to do the symmetrical or1 at least1 the useful thing4 ,it is not every movement that will produce the satisfactory result4 ,it is thus that the child learns that there is a greater mind than his own1 or even than his teacher's mind1 present with him guiding the intellect1 for artistic principles flow into the mind from an ,eternal source1 no less than do moral and spiritual principles4 ,in short1 the true method of the intellect is the perpetual gift of a very present ,,god1 as much as the true method of the heart and soul4 ,man1 then1 in the last analysis1 is a creative being2 and the ,froebel education has for its final object1 to give him the dominion over everything in the earth2 put all the cosmic forces into his hands1--as well as to bring him into the communion of love with his fellows2 thus lifting his whole nature to the height of sitting down with our ,elder brother on the throne1 with the ,universal ,father4 ,you should keep this great idea before you1 and it will enable you to use the technique that you have been learning1 with a certain freedom as well as fidelity1 guiding these playful exercises in such an order as you may find agreeable and salutary for them2 and to check caprice1 you must insist that1 in these appointed times1 they do the appointed things1 ,,or ,,do ,,nothing1 for they will generally conclude to do the thing in hand1 rather than ,,do ,,nothing while all their companions are doing their work2 and when they are doing nothing1 they will have time for reflection1 and to hear the inward voice of law1 with the opportunity voluntarily to accept it4 ,thus does ,,god give to all his children to have life in themselves1 and to bring out their whole likeness to ,himself1 which proves that they are not his bond slaves1--like the lower animals1--but ,,sons4 ,if there are not in the universe two leaves that are alike1 still less are there two souls that are alike4 ,but leaves and souls1 after all1 are alike in more than they are different4 ,you can provide action for all the instincts that children have in common1 and create a common consciousness to a certain extent1 which is the common sense2 but what is peculiar to each1 and makes the independent individual1 is his own secret1 and you can only help ,,that to flower and fruitage by giving him the conditions of free1 independent action1 opening the inward eye and sharpening the inward ear for communication with ,him who alone can adequately guide the will to the satisfaction of all the sensibilities of the heart1 and the powers of intellect1 and all the creative energies3 but the religious and moral principles ,i shall endeavor to define are general1 not peculiar to1 but inclusive of1 the kindergarten plan of education4 ,to have these principles clear and disengaged from the accidental associations of the various denominations of the church1 all of which 7and also with many of those outside of any visible church7 unite in that faith in ,god1 and that disinterested love of humanity1 which was historically enacted on earth by ,jesus ,christ1 and into which every child born on the earth should be brought before he is old enough to appreciate those intellectual distinctions which make different creeds2 because then the kindergartner will be able to meet children on the high plane of life where their angels 7does not that mean their spiritual instincts or ideals87 behold the face of the ,father1 and only then will the kindergartner practically enter into ,froebel's method of living with the children1 and communing with their innocence4 ,i see a great deal of this practical application in the kindergartens kept by the well-trained kindergartners2 and especially when they are mothers1 who unquestionably make the best kindergartners 7other things being equal71 because it is easier for mothers to divine the consciousness of their children4 ,in the opening hour of the kindergarten1 when the kindergartner interchanges the songs and hymns which the children choose1 or at least agree to1 with real free conversation1 in which each child has a chance to tell what is uppermost in his little mind1 the very most important work of the kindergartner is done4 ,it has been my privilege to listen to much of this in the kindergartens kept severally by the mothers1 who make the children feel that they are interested in whatever they say1 however apparently trivial is the subject1 and who answer genially1 connecting it with something else1 and so organizing the reflective powers of the children1 that everything they think is seen to be a part of the process of moral1 religious1 and even intellectual growth4 ,the possibility of doing this will prove to any one who has any heart and imagination that it is no mere poetic phrase1 but a profound spiritual truth1 that ,heaven lies about us in our infancy1 that children do come from ,,god who is their home1 trailing clouds of glory1 and for a time are still attended ,by the vision splendid1 although too often ,the man beholds it die away1 ,and fade into the light of common day4 ,of course all the opening conversation need not be on the moral and religious planes1 but some of it should lead into explanations of nature and of the common life of this work-day world1 improving dexterity and common sense2 but one can hardly talk with children about anything1 in a genuine way1 that does not bring out of them some religious or moral expression4 ,i think it is in connection with these conversations to which the children furnish by their spontaneous confidences the vital points1 round which the thoughts of the whole little company shall revolve1 that the teacher can connect her own story-telling4 ,for such genuine conversation the necessary prerequisite on the part of the teacher is a real faith in children's being the breath of ,god in their ,essence4 ,then she will not have any will-work of her own1 but listen to hear what the child is attending to1 be it nothing but a bit of string1 which1 of course1 must have a certain length that can be measured1 and with which other things may be measured1 and which is made of material that has passed perhaps through the hands of many manufacturers1 and which in its elements at least was a growth of nature1 all whose works bear witness to the being of ,,god2 for ,,god's throne may be reached from the ground of childish play as certainly and readily as from many a pulpit and cathedral1 if not more so4 ,a child whose affection for his companions and for the personages of a story told by the kindergartner1 and who sees the connection of some little playful or other experience that he tells as his story for the morning1 is engaged in a service of ,god1 more vitally bearing on his growth in grace than any mere repetition of prayers4 ,a play bringing out little kindnesses1 sweet courtesies1 gentle self-adjustments to his companions1 the asking and giving of forgiveness for little discourtesies or grave wrong-doings1 brings the child nearer ,,god than any spoken words of worship can1 the joy attending such innocent sweetness being the proof of the vital union of his soul with a very present ,,god4 ,so the work of the good ,samaritan1 though he was doubtless thinking only of the individual he was comforting1 and not at all of ,god1 was recognized by ,christ as a real act of worship2 for it was the fulfilment of the second commandment like unto the first4 ,the time will come1 ,i confidently believe1 when all religionists of whatever denomination will recognize that the favorite doctrines and formalities which distinguish them from each other are a mere superficial crust of that true spiritual life which is to be lived when the grown-up shall all become as little children1 who feel that1 ,in their work and in their play1 ,god is with them all the day4 ,in speaking of the ceremonies of the ,temple worship1 which ,moses made symbolical of all the virtues of life1 moral and religious1 but which in ,paul's day had fallen into such a mere ritual that this great ,apostle said that the ,holy ,ghost was not bodily exercise1 but a hopeful1 faithful charity of thought1 feeling1 and deed2 and this is what children can be guided into from the beginning1 provided the kindergartner knows how to converse and play with them instead of talking to them and coercing them ever so kindly into acting out her will4 ,the play of childhood is the most genuine and intense life that is lived1 body1 heart1 and will conspiring entirely2 and it is by respecting the child's will and heart that you really help instead of hindering this unification of his threefold nature1 which corresponds to the ,trinity of the ,supreme ,being and prevents that from becoming a bewildering tritheism in his conception4 ,a child cannot be just unless he is loving1 nor attain the freedom of moral dignity unless he asserts himself2 and there is no way to nurture this self-respect except to express respect to him1 by being as courteous to him as you are to any adult1 always asking him to explain himself and his own motives1 when he seems to be in the wrong1 before you condemn him4 ,i think ,i have gained some of the deepest insights ,i have ever had into ,divine ,truth1 by discovering what was the motive thought of some child1 who did what seemed inexplicable1 till he told me1 or ,i had divined1 his secret reason4 ,it is not mothers alone who can charm out of children their secret1 as those know who have seen some maiden kindergartners talk with their pupils in the opening exercises2 but those who are not mothers will always do well to observe carefully those who are4 ,on the other hand1 mothers have to guard themselves against exaggerating their own children's natures comparatively4 ,i have known some of the best mothers in the world do that1 so as to be practically of bad influence over children not their own4 ,mothers who would be and can be the best kindergartners should therefore none the less study ,froebel's science carefully and humbly4 ,all children are alike in having the threefold nature4 ,i wish ,i had time to tell of a hundred kindergarten experiences that have come under my observation1 in which the respectful1 genial kindergartner has assisted in some moral development1 whose occasion was very trivial to the superficial observer4 ,herein lies the importance of prefacing the school with the kindergarten1 that in it all the virtues and ,christian graces can be unconsciously practised on the plane of play1 which is the moral gymnasium of mankind4 ,this is the meaning of ,solomon's wise saying1 ,train up a child in the way he should go1 and when he is old he will not depart from it4 ,but the nature1 which is the image of the ,divine ,nature1 cannot be mechanically1 but must be morally and spiritually1 trained2 that is1 addressed and treated as free agency4 ,the salutation of the ,brahmin to his youthful son1 no less than to his equal in age1 is to the divinity which is in you ,i do homage4 ,this is one of the gleams of light from the lost ,paradise in which man was created1 and to which we hope the kindergarten is to more than restore the race1 when it shall have become the universally applied principle of culture for human beings4 7,see ,appendix1 ,note ,f47 ,,footnotes3 #aa ,see ,george ,macdonald's ,vicar's ,daughter4 #ab ,this unique book was the text-book ,froebel used in his training-school4 ,its profound meaning1 and how it points to the divine philosophy of the instinctive play1 that is the first phenomenon of human life with mother and child1 some of you have heard ,miss ,blow and ,miss ,fisher luminously explain in a course of lectures much longer than mine1 and which ,i hope they may be persuaded to publish in book form4 ,,glimpses ,,of ,,psychology4 ,,spirituality4 ,,we speak of the necessity of studying childhood2 we call children living books of nature1 and say that we cannot succeed in educating them 7which is putting them into a harmonious activity of all their powers71 without knowledge1 such as a musical performer has of his instrument1 of these harps of a thousand strings4 ,this fundamental knowledge of children is not chiefly a discrimination of their individualities2 though observation of these will be made by a consummate kindergartner2 it is a knowledge of what is universal in children1 essential to the constitution of human beings4 ,froebel never wrote out1 in systematic form1 the psychology which underlies and gives the rational ground to all the details of his method4 ,but there are pregnant sentences in all his writings1 and in his sayings handed down by tradition1 which give such insights1 that it can be divined with some completeness4 ,we propose to give such glimpses as occur to us from time to time--not always in our own words1 but as often as we can in ,froebel's1 and also in the words of other thinkers1 whose guesses at this kind of truth light up their writings on many subjects4 ,we must1 in the first place1 attend to one important fact2 there is1 in the experience of childhood1 somewhat pre-existent to all impressions made by the universe1 and consequently to all operations of the understanding--perceiving1 comparing1 judging--for these are intentional acts of the pre-existent soul breathed into his body and bidden to have dominion4--,genesis #a4 ,what is this pre-existent soul1 this mysterious depth of personality8 ,washington ,allston1 in his posthumous lectures on ,art1 has finely said3 ,man does not live by science2 he feels1 acts1 and judges right in a thousand things1 without the consciousness of any rule by which he so feels1 acts1 and judges4 ,happily for him1 he has a surer guide than human science in that unknown power within him1 without which he had been without any knowledge4 ,again1 he speaks of those intuitive powers1 which are above and beyond both the understanding and the senses2 which1 nevertheless1 are so far from precluding knowledge1 as1 on the contrary1 to require--as their effective condition--the widest intimacy with things external1 without which their very existence must remain unknown4 ,he does not1 however1 merely assert this pre-existence of the soul to the understanding1 but speaks of the evidence of it that we all can appreciate4 ,suppose1 he says1 we analyze a certain combination of sounds and colors1 so as to ascertain the exact relative qualities of the one1 and the collocation of the other1 and then compare them1 what possible resemblance can the understanding perceive between these sounds and colors8 ,and yet a something within us responds to both--a similar emotion4 ,and so it is with a thousand things1 nay1 with myriads of objects1 that have no other affinity but with that mysterious harmony1 which began with our being1 which slept with our infancy1 and which their presence only seems to have awakened4 ,if we cannot go back to our own childhood1 we may see its illustration in those about us who are now in that unsophisticated state4 ,look at them in the fields1 among the birds and flowers2 their happy faces speak the harmony within them2 the divine instrument which these objects have touched1 gives them a joy1 which perhaps only childhood1 in its first fresh consciousness1 can know1 yet what do children understand of the theory of colors1 or musical quantities8 ,that this mysterious power1 this feeling soul1 is the human characteristic1 is suggested in another paragraph of these lectures4 ,what1 for instance1 can we suppose to be the effect of the purple haze of a summer sunset on the cows or sheep1 or even on the more delicate inhabitants of the air8 ,from what we know of their habits1 we cannot suppose more than the mere physical enjoyment of its genial temperature8 ,but how is it with the man1 whom we shall suppose an object in the same scene1 stretched on the same bank with the ruminating cattle1 and basking in the same light that flickers from the skimming birds8 ,does he feel nothing more than the genial warmth8--,vol4 ,i4 p4 #hd4 ,this feeling of beauty1 this power which appreciates harmony1 this creative unity1 in fine1 this sthetic soul1 distinct from and above the understanding 7which certain philosophers seem to think is all of man1 over and above his body71 is not all of the soul1--but the moral and even merely social sentiment has the same pre-existence4 ,allston bears witness to this also4 ,he says3 ,with respect to ,truth and ,goodness1 whose pre-existent ideas1 being living constituents of an immortal spirit1 need but the slightest breath of some outward condition of the true and good--a simple problem or a kind act--to awaken them1 as it were1 from their unconscious sleep4444 ,we may venture to assert that no philosopher1 however ingenious1 could communicate to a child the abstract idea of ,right1 had the child nothing beyond or above the understanding4 ,he might1 indeed1 be taught1 like inferior animals1--a dog1 for instance1--that if he took certain forbidden things1 he would be punished1 and thus do right through fear4 ,still he would desire the forbidden thing belonging to another1 nor could he conceive why he should not appropriate to himself--and thus allay his appetite--what was another's1 could he do so undetected2 nor attain to any higher notion of ,right than that of the strongest4 ,but the child has something higher than the mere power of apprehending consequences 7external874 ,the simplest exposition1 whether of right or wrong1 is instantly responded to by something within him1 which1 thus awakened1 becomes to him a living voice1 and the good and the true must thenceforth answer its call4 ,we do not say that these ideas of ,beauty1 ,truth1 and ,goodness will1 strictly speaking1 always act4 ,though indestructible1 they may be banished for a time by the perverted ,will1 and mockeries of the brain1 like the fume-born phantoms from the witches' cauldron in ,macbeth1 may take their places and assume their functions4 ,we have examples of this in every age1 and perhaps in none more startling than the present4 ,but we mean only that they cannot be 7absolutely87 forgotten2 nay1 they are but too often recalled with unwelcome distinctness4444 ,from the dim present1 then1 we would appeal to that fresher time1 ere the young spirit had shrunk from the overbearing pride of the 7vitiated87 understanding1 and confidently ask1 if the emotions we then felt from the ,beautiful1 the ,true1 and the ,good1 did not seem1 in some way1 to refer to a common origin8 ,and we would also ask1 if it was frequent that the influence from one was singly felt8 if it did not rather bring with it1 however remotely1 a sense of something--though widely differing1--yet still akin to it8 when we have basked in the beauty of a summer sunset1 was there nothing in the sky1 that spoke to the soul of ,truth and ,goodness8 ,and when the opening intellect first received the truth of the great law of gravitation1 and felt itself mounting through the profound of space1 to travel with the planets in their unerring rounds1--did never then the kindred ideas of ,goodness and ,beauty chime in1 as it were1 with the fabled music 7not fabled to the soul71 which led you on as one entranced8 ,and again1 when1 in the passive quiet of your moral nature1 so predisposed1 in youth1 to all things genial1 you have looked around on this marvellous1 ever-teeming earth1 ever teeming alike for mind and body1 and have felt upon you the flow1 as from ten thousand streams of innocent enjoyment1 did you not then almost hear them shout in confluence1 and almost see them gushing upwards1 as if they would prove their unity in one harmonious fountain8 ,it is of the last consequence that the kindergartner should take into her mind that this sthetic soul exists in children as a primary fact2 for1 unless she believes in it1 she will not respect it1 and take advantage of it in what she does for them4 ,it is to be respected and brought out into the understanding of children1 by means of the beautiful things which she leads them to do and make1 and with which she surrounds them2 for1 as ,allston says1 this consciousness requires as its effective condition1 the widest intimacy with things external4 ,when children are continually in squalid surroundings1 these seem at length to strike in and paralyze the spontaneous action of the sthetic being1 who is pre-existent to consciousness of the power which compares and judges and makes up a theory of colors4 ,and1 as has been shown1 this feeling of beauty1 this power of appreciating harmony and unity1 this sthetic nature1 distinct from and above the understanding1 which some people idly think to be all of man beside his body1 is not all of the soul1 for the moral sentiment has the same pre-existence4 ,we have brought together these paragraphs taken from ,allston's lectures on ,art1 for the consideration of practical kindergartners1 all the more confidently1 because they were not written as theory of education1 but were parts of a practical inquiry after the standard of judgment for pictorial and plastic artists and the spectator of their works4 ,he sought to deliver them from the benumbing effect of inadequate science1--for science must always be inadequate1 as ,newton so forcibly expressed1 when he defined it gathering a few pebbles on the shores of the infinite ocean of truth4 ,the object of the lecturer was what the kindergartner's first object should be1--to awaken the self-respect of the eternal soul within us all1 making the life of our individuality--our personality--which1 in its mysterious depth and independent pre-existence to the finite understanding1 is the image of the ,divine ,personality1 whose spoken word is the material universe1 but clothed in flesh becomes ,,man4 ,it is no part of the kindergartner's duty to give--she can only awaken--the feelings of harmony1 beauty1 unity1 and conscience4 ,she is to present the right order of proceeding1 in all that the child shall do1 thereby assisting him to form his own understanding so that his bodily organization may be properly developed2 to let in upon his soul nature in its beauteous forms and order1 and his fellow-creatures1 in their legitimate claims upon him4 ,then he shall come forth from the sleep of unconscious infancy1 into a progressive consciousness of all his relations1 with the blessings and duties that belong to them4 ,this forming of the understanding1 this marrying of finite thought to infinite love1 is ,froebel's ,education2 and cannot be accomplished1 unless the kindergartner clearly sees what ,god has done for the child absolutely1 and what for an ineffable purpose1--most gracious to the human race1--,he has left to be done by human providence1 whether of the mother or kindergartner1 or some other fellow-creature4 ,it makes a heaven-wide difference whether the soul of a child is regarded as a piece of blank paper to be written upon1 or as a living power1 to be quickened by sympathy1 to be educated by truth4 ,,understanding4 ,,we have spoken of the evidences of the sthetic being found in the mysterious depths of human personality1 pre-existent to the individual understanding 7which is a growth in time72 and that1 without there were this sthetic being1 underlying all individual consciousness1 there would be no standard of human virtue or art4 ,this sthetic person has also 7previous to the development of the understanding1 which makes the synthesis of himself and nature7 an impulsive force1 instinct with the desire to change his conditions4 ,man does not appear in the world merely as sensibility to enjoyment and suffering2 but as veritable force1 as well1 whose action must produce an effect either orderly or disorderly4 ,the material universe is composed of forces1 limiting in a measure personal force4 ,all material forces are uniform and necessary and correlative in their action1 which is impressed upon them from without themselves4 ,man alone is self-active1 and may clash with the other forces to his own pain1 and he will often do so1 until by knowledge of them he can harmonize with them1 and make them his own instrumentality to satisfy his sthetic nature4 ,we call this self-activity of man1 which is in such vital union with his sensibility1 the human will1 and it makes the personal life of every one to learn this self-activity of his1 in its differences from and relations to all other forces1 as he can only do perfectly by keeping in intellectual and sympathetic social relation with other sthetic persons4 ,in every individual case1 he finds himself in these relations with fellow-beings who have more or less of the knowledge he has not2 and some of them have all the responsibility of his actions until he has begun to know himself in discrimination from the material universe and its fixed relations and laws1 which serve as a fulcrum for his own effective action among them4 ,the one central unity whose sthetic being and will are inclusive of himself and fellow-beings as subject1 on the one hand1 and of the material universe as object1 on the other1 is ,god4 ,the absoluteness of man as a force1 is no less certain because he is finite and not omnipotent4 ,god is the omnipotent maker of the material universe1 but man is not absolutely made2 he is a cause1 that is1 created to make1 if we may credit the ancient prophet1 whose hymn of creation is the most wonderful expression of human genius1 unless it be surpassed by the proem of ,st4 ,john's ,gospel1 which is a correspondent poem1 with ,god for its theme instead of man and nature4 ,it was not till the embryo man had become1 in one instance at least1 the fully developed man1 that this hymn of the ,creator was possible4 ,god's word 7revelation of himself7 was in the world1 embodied in the things made from the beginning2 but until it was embodied in a man1 free to will1 it was truth in the form of law only 7regulative71 not yet in the completer form of love 7creative74 ,in short1 before ,st4 ,john could sing that divine song1 he must have seen ,god in a man1 full of grace and truth1 dwelling among men as a fellow-man1 and overflowing with a power at once sympathetic and causal4 ,god created man1 male and female 7that is1 giving and receiving equally71 to be keepers of each other1 and to educate each other4 ,they may tempt and fail each other by presumption as ,eve1 and want of self-respect as ,adam1 are represented to have done1 at the beginning2 or may save and redeem one another1 as the cherished son of ,mary historically did in a measure1 and is doing forevermore1 by inspiring all who know him1 to educate and redeem each other4 ,in coming into relation with infant man1 to educate him1 it is indispensable to appreciate his freedom of willing1 which is a primeval fact1 as much as his susceptibility of suffering and enjoyment4 ,the educator ought to embody ,god in a measure1 and treat the will of the child that is to be educated1 on the same grand system of respecting individual freedom1 as must needs flow from ,infinite love4 ,let him clothe law in love1 and instead of rousing fear of opposition1 awaken the hope of becoming a beauty-creating and man-blessing power4 ,this is the rationale of ,froebel's method of government4 ,he assumes that the child is--not to be made by education a sensibility1 but--an infinite sensibility already1 and to be vivified into individual consciousness thereof1 by the knowledge of nature to which you are to give him the clue2--not to be made by your government of him1 a power of creating effects1 but already an immeasurable power of creating effects 7that is1 causal7--which you are to make him feel responsible for1 by helping him to get experimental knowledge of the laws that obtain in ,god's creation4 ,for it is knowledge of laws that is the first thing attainable--not knowledge of objects4 ,a child's senses are the avenues of the knowledge of objects2 his self-activity is the avenue of the knowledge of laws4 ,he must have experimental knowledge of laws before he can begin to have knowledge of objects1 because his impulsive activity is the means of developing his organs of sense1 by which he becomes capable of receiving impressions from objects of nature2 and his own effective action produces the objects outside of his organs which first command his interested attention1 and rouse his powers of analysis1 or by which his powers of analysis are roused through your educating intervention4 ,it is the maternal nursing of body and mind which educates the free force within to produce transient effects1 and finally objects1 agreeable to the sensibility4 ,even before the will is educated to causality1 it exerts itself1 because exertion is agreeable to human sensibility2 but when left uneducated1 the will brings about effects that prove disagreeable ultimately1 if not immediately1 to the sthetic being1 paralyzing it more or less1 if the organization be feeble2 and perverting it when it is strong2 in either case1 whether crushing or exasperating it1 producing selfishness1 the germ of all evil4 ,thus evil begins in the social sphere1 in the disorderly action or in the neglect of those who have in charge the sthetic free force of the child1 compelling it to revolve on its own axis in a vain endeavor to obtain the satisfaction of its sthetic nature1 which it ought to obtain through the generous cherishing action of others' love1 carrying it round the central sun in human companionship4 ,the soul instinctively expects love1 and to do so1 and to act out love intentionally1 is its salvation1 its eternal life4 ,there is no signature of immortality so sure as the immeasurable craving for love on the one hand1 and the immeasurable impulse to love on the other hand1 which characterizes man2 for the satisfaction of the craving is no greater joy than the satisfaction of loving4 ,it is because death seems the cessation of relation with our kind1 that it is the king of terrors4 ,when the disease or decay of the body curtails relations and makes us solitary1 or incapable of enjoying relations1 death is not dreaded1 but craved as relief4 ,to whomever it seems the beginning of wider relations1 it is hailed as the revealing angel of ,god4 ,isolation is the horror of horrors4 ,it was one of the primal intuitions that it is not good for man to be alone4 ,the nurse should remember this1 and not leave the baby to feel lonely4 ,every mother and real nurse knows that when the baby begins to be uneasy and gives a cry of dissatisfaction1--to come near with a smile1 to make one's presence felt by a caressing tone1 or to take the infant in their arms1 will comfort it1 bringing back the joyful sense of life--a word which signifies active relation2--and1 in its highest sense1 spiritual relation4 ,life1 love1 and liberty are identical words in their radical elements4 ,there is no love without liberty1 nor fulness of life without love4 ,the liberty of man1 or his freedom to will1 though it gives him the power to dash himself against antagonizing law1 is the proof of infinite love to man in the ,creator1--a love which must needs outmeasure all the evil he can do himself or others2 for evil provokes others' love for our victims1 and is self-limited1 by reason of the pain it brings1 sooner or later1 on him who does it1 and the desire for infinite love which it defines and stimulates4 ,man and nature are the contrasts which ,god connects and harmonizes4 ,he presents nature to the mind as immutable law1 but before the understanding is formed to apprehend law1 ,he emparadises the child in the love of the mother4 ,in short1 the human race embodies love to the soul1 before the universe 7which embodies law7 is yet apprehended4 ,the heart that apprehends love1 is older than the mind which apprehends law2 and it is because it is so1 that man feels free4 ,when man becomes mere law to man1 instead of love1 he feels he is enslaved4 ,these are the most practical truths for the kindergartner4 ,if these propositions are truths 7and their evidence is the explanation they give of the mysteries of sin and redemption1 both of which are unquestionable facts of human history1 according to the testimony of all nations71 then let her see to it1 that in her relation with the children of her charge1 she never so presents the law1 as to obscure the love1 which it is the primal duty of men to embody and manifest to each other4 ,but1 on the other hand1 do not keep back the law2 for the law1 too1 is one expression of the ,creator's being4 ,what is law8 ,it is the order of the beauteous forms of things1 which1 when appreciated as ,god's order1 becomes a stepping stone to his throne4 ,for ,god proposes to share his throne with us1 if we may trust another primeval intuition of the human mind1 viz41 that ,god commands man1 male and female1 that is1 men in equal social relation1 to have dominion over all creation1 below man4 ,the human being not only craves liberty and love instinctively1 but law also2 he feels the weight of chance desires1 and longs for a repose that ever is the same4 ,this is the rationale of ,froebel's method in the occupations2 he suggests the child's action1 sometimes by interrogation merely1 instead of directing it peremptorily4 ,he asks the child1 when he has done one thing1 what is the opposite8 which itself suggests the combination of opposites1 that immediately produces a symmetrical effect4 ,the child enjoys the symmetry all the more1 if he feels as if he personally produced it4 ,this is the secret of his love of repetition4 ,he wants to see if by the same means he can again produce the same effect4 ,he does the thing again and again1 till he feels that he does it all of himself4 ,he does not want you to help him even with your words 7and you never should help him except with words74 ,if a child acts from a suggestion1 he feels free1--but if he produces the same effect1 or a similar effect1 without your suggestion1 he has a still more self-respecting sense of power2 and his will becomes more consciously free the more he chooses to put on the harness of order4 ,the kindergartner will sometimes have a child put under her care whose will has been exasperated by arbitrary and capricious treatment1 or who has been made to act against his inclination till he has reacted1 out of pure contrariness1 as we say4 ,this contrariness proves that he has been outraged2 perhaps in some instances the effect has been produced by not feeding his mind with knowledge of law4 ,the very violence of the evil may show that he is an exceptionally fine child1 with an enormous sense of power that he does not know what to do with because the proper educational influence has failed him4 ,in other cases obstinacy may be a reaction against the vicious will of another1 who1 instead of offering him the bread of law1 has presented to him the stone of his own stumbling4 ,it is indispensable to give the child law1 as well as love2 but when you are doubtful whether you can genially suggest the law1--at all events express the love2 and never substitute for the law your own will4 ,the law which produces a good or beautiful effect1 is ,god's will2 your will is not creative of the child's will like ,god's2 its best effect is to stimulate the antagonism of the child's1 when the latter is feeble1 which it sometimes is by reason of physical mal-organization1 or by having been crushed by overbearing management1 or vitiated by selfish caprice4 ,i may be told that if ,froebel's education is wholly of a genial1 coaxing character1 it fails of being an image of the ,divine ,providence1 which is an alternation of attractions and antagonisms1 speaking now in the music of nature1 and now in thunders and lightnings1 not only cherishing the heart with love1 but stimulating the will with law2 and be warned not to enervate the character1 by producing an sthetic luxury of sentiment1 by which the personal being shall stagnate in the worst kind of selfishness--the passive kind4 ,this objection might be pertinent1 if the kindergarten were to be protracted beyond the era to which ,froebel limits it4 ,certainly the time comes1 when the finite will should be antagonized1 if need be1 by the law of universal humanity4 ,the purest1 most loving1 most disinterested will known to human history1 recognized that there might be a wiser will1 not to be doubted as still more loving2 and said1 ,not my will1 but ,thine be done1--,into ,thy hands ,i commend my spirit 7my free causal power74 ,but let the kindergartner remember she is not infinitely wise and good1 and beware of enacting the sovereign judge4 ,there is no doubt that an exclusively cherishing tenderness should be the law of the nursery1 with no antagonism whatever1 because at that age it is a wise self-assertion which we wish to develop4 ,we therefore act for the infant1 having secured his acting with us by our genial encouragement4 ,but this is no argument for continuing to act for him1 when he can act with consciousness of an individual life4 ,we must not prolong babyhood into the kindergarten2 or1 at least1 we must begin to engraft personal consciousness upon it1 by playing little antagonisms merely4 ,and so1 it is no argument against the play of kindergarten that it does mature men4 ,let the children play with complete earnestness1 but1 as ,plato says1 according to laws1 and they will all the more likely seek laws when they come into wider relations4 ,the development of the consciousness of man is serial4 ,in the nursery we coax the child to exercise the various muscles by playfully duplicating their action2 we make him make believe walk1 impressing his senses1 as it were1 with the whole operation as an object4 ,the child first experiences the pleasure of movement1 then desires to move for the sake of renewing this pleasure2 then enjoys your helping him to do what he has not yet the bodily strength and skill to accomplish2 and finally wills to take up his body and make his first independent step4 ,this is the first crisis in the history of his individuality1 and every mother knows it is the cheer of her magnetizing faith that enables him to pass through it4 ,he then repeats the action intentionally1 simply because he can2 enjoying the exertion he makes all the more if1 by your care1 he has not begun to walk too soon and experienced the pain of numerous falls1 from want of guardian arms and supporting hands4 ,such pains disturb and haunt his fancy1 and dishearten him4 ,courage and serene joy give strength and enterprise to activity4 ,the nursery and kindergarten education are the preliminary processes which foreshadow all the processes of the ,divine ,providence4 ,therefore1 even in the nursery we play antagonizing processes4 ,we heighten the child's enjoyment by making him conscious of isolation a moment1 to restore1 as it were1 with a shout1 the delightful sense of relation2 for the baby likes to have a handkerchief thrown over his head unexpectedly1 and suddenly withdrawn again and again4 ,so we sometimes pretend to let him fall1 and just when he is about to cry with alarm1 catch him again and kiss him4 ,froebel in his nursery plays has several of this nature2 and as children grow older they play antagonisms spontaneously1 which are beneficial just so far as they elicit the consciousness of individual power2 but are harmful if1 proceeding too far1 they show its limitations painfully1 and make the child feel himself a victim4 ,in the kindergarten season various sensibilities are manifest that have not shown themselves in the nursery1 and which are premonitions of the destined dominion over material nature1 which at first so much dominates the child1 and would destroy his body if you did not intervene with your loving care4 ,these are to be mothered in the kindergartner's heart till they become conscious desires1 informing and directing his will1 which is encouraged and strengthened--if it is never superseded by your will--until he shall begin to realize his personal responsibility4 ,then1 as he took his body into his own keeping when he began to run alone1 so now he will take his character into his own hands to educate1 and he will do it all the more certainly and energetically1 if he feels you to be an all-helping1 all-cherishing1 all-inspiring friend1 which you must needs be if you are open to feel and wise to know ,god's love to you1 in making you ,his vicegerent to give glimpses1 at least1 of the immeasurable love of ,god1 in giving the inexorable laws of nature1 for the fulcrum of the power that ,he pours into ,his children in the form of will2 and which obeys ,him just in proportion as it keeps its freedom to alter and alter and alter1 till there is no longer any evil to be conscious of1 and men shall have got the dominion over nature1 which consists in using it for all generous purposes1 in a universal mutual understanding with one another4 ,to be in the progressive attainment of this high destiny1 is the growing happiness of man2 a happiness which must ever have in it that element of victory1 which distinguishes the eternal life of ,christ from the nirwana of ,buddha4 ,,moral ,,sentiment4 ,,we have been asked by one of the students of ,froebel's art and science1 what books we should recommend to help her to a fuller knowledge of the subjects on which we gave a few hints in our first and second paper of ,glimpses4 ,in reply1 we would first say1 that it is a needed preparation for any study of books on intellectual and moral philosophy1 to look back on our own moral history and mental experience1 and ask ourselves what was the process of our moral growth1 and the circumstances of the formation of our opinions2 that is1 what action of our relatives1 guardians1 and companions1 had the best--and what the worst--practical effects upon our characters2 what aided and what hindered us8 ,every fault in our characters has its history1 having generally originated in the action of others upon us2 sometimes their intentional action1 which may have been merely mistaken1 or may have been wilfully selfish and malignant2 and sometimes an influence unconsciously exerted4 ,on the other hand1 much of our life that has blest ourselves and others1 can be referred to spontaneous manifestations of others1 having no special reference to ourselves2 generous sentiments uttered in felicitous words1 generous acts recorded in history1 or done in the privacy of domestic life2 great truths bodied forth in imaginative poetry1 over which our young hearts mused till the fire burned4 ,this empirical knowledge of the great nature which we share1 is a living nucleus that will give vital meaning to any true words with which scientific treatises on the mind are written2 and a power to judge whether the writer is talking about facts of life1 or mere abstractions1 out of which have died all spiritual substance1 leaving only a heap of empty boxes4 ,in no department of study are we more liable to take words for things than in this4 ,abstraction is the source of all the false philosophy and theology which has distracted the world4 ,generalizations are of no aid--but a delusion and a snare--unless the mental and moral phenomena1 from which they are derived1 have been the writer's experiences1 personal or sympathetic4 ,such experiences are as substantial as material things1 to say the least2 and even they do not do justice to the whole truth1 which is--if we may so express it--the vital experience of ,god4 ,hence is the ,living ,word to which human abstractions can never do justice2 being1 indeed1 but the refuse of thought1 a weight to be laid aside and forgotten1 like a work done1 as we stretch forward to the prize of truth1 which is our high calling4 ,in ,book ,,ii4 chapter vii4 of ,campbell's ,philosophy of ,rhetoric1 there is a section headed1 ,why is it that nonsense so often escapes being detected1 both by the writer and reader8 ,it explains with great perspicuity the uses and abuses of our faculty of abstraction1 which is not a spiritual1 but merely an intellectual faculty4 ,i would commend this essay 7and indeed1 for several reasons1 the whole book7 to a student of intellectual philosophy4 ,a great deal may be learned upon this subject1 also1 from an ,essay on ,language1 printed a second time with some other papers1 by ,phillips ,sampson1 ,boston1 in #aheg1 and probably still to be found in old bookstores1 if it be not reprinted by its author1 ,r4 ,l4 ,hazard4 ,on the subject of my second paper of ,glimpses the same author has written two books1 one published by ,d4 ,appleton1 in ,new ,york1 in #ahfd1 ,the ,freedom of the ,mind in ,willing2 or1 ,every ,being that wills1 a ,creative ,first ,cause2 and in #ahfi1 ,lee ,shepard1 ,boston1 published1 as supplement1 ,two ,letters on ,causation and ,freedom in ,willing1 addressed to ,john ,stuart ,mill1 with an ,appendix on the ,existence of ,matter1 and our ,notions of ,infinite ,space4#ac ,,individual ,,freedom ,,to ,,will4 ,,if the spontaneous will of man1 and its heart with its latent love1 hope1 and sense of beauty and justice1 are without date1 ,an eye among the blind1 ,that deaf and silent reads the eternal deep1 ,haunted forever by the eternal mind1 yet there is no doubt that the human understanding1 as well as the body1 begins in time1 and gradually identifies the individual for communication with other individuals of its kind4 ,the beginning of the human understanding is in the impressions of an environing universe1 against which the sensibility reacts1 and by this activity develops the organs of sense1 which are the connection of those two great contrasts1 the soul and the outward universe4 ,for perceptions of sense are the instrumentality by which the will vivifies the heart1 so disposing the particulars of the surrounding universe as to give the definite form of thoughts to consciousness4 ,the human being has no absolute knowledge like the lower animals1 who are passive instrumentality of ,god to certain finite ends below the plane of spirituality4 ,created for the infinite ends of intelligence1 and free communion with one another and ,god1 men need to become conscious of the whole process of their own being1 and do so by a gradual conversation with ,god1 who is forever saying1 by the universe1 which is his speech1 ,i ,,am4 ,and here education begins its offices1 by helping man to reply ,,thou ,,art1 which he does by his legitimate art4 ,but no one man can utter the thou art of humanity adequately4 ,it takes all humanity forever and ever to do so2 and it does not do so but just so far as the men who compose it are in mutual understanding and communion with each other4 ,therefore each child must be taken by the hand by those already conscious1 and led to realize his own consciousness by learning that of his fellows4 ,in the action and reaction of the individual with his special environment1 he comes to distinguish himself from that which gives him pleasure and pain1 and he will be attracted to the former1 and repelled from the latter2 and thus come to discriminate outward things from each other4 ,the observation and discrimination of the particulars of nature is thinking4 ,sensuous impressions are the raw material of thoughts1 but discrimination and classification of things according to their similarities1 is the operation of thought4 ,education has an office in both the accumulation of sensuous impressions and the operation of thinking4 ,the mother and nurse of each child must so order the objects about him1 that his organs shall be properly impressed1 and not overtaxed1 because only so can they grow to be a good instrumentality for receiving even more delicate impressions4 ,a tender sympathy for the unconscious little one1 who is gradually coming to identify himself1 and love1--such as only a mother can have in the greatest perfection1--are the special qualifications of the educator at this stage4 ,such a knowledge of nature's laws and order1 as may enable the educator to lead the child's activity according to law and order1 can alone help the child to reproduce1 on his finite plane1 an image of ,god's creative action4 ,the educator who should succeed the nurse is the kindergartner1 who1 without lacking the sympathetic affection of the nurse1 must add a knowledge of nature both material and spiritual1 so that she may bring these opposites into their right connection with each other4 ,she will therefore lead the child to produce something that shall serve as a ground for the operation of thinking4 ,instead of letting the blind will spend its energy in wild and aimless motion1 she will present a desirable aim to attain1 which will produce an effect that shall satisfy the heart1 and produce an object that shall engage the attention1 and stimulate to a reproduction of it1 until it is thoroughly known1 not only in its natural properties1 but in the law of its being1 which was the child's own method of producing the thing4 ,the genesis of the understanding1 then1 is1 first1 sensuous impression1 which1 reproducing itself intentionally1 becomes1 secondly1 perception2 and1 thirdly1 an adapting of means to ends1 and thereby rising into judgment and knowledge4 ,to get understanding precedes getting knowledge1 which is the special work of the understanding when it is developed4 ,there is another faculty of the individual1 besides understanding1 and which is to be discriminated from it--fancy4 ,vivid and clear sensuous impressions are the foundation of fancy1 as well as of understanding4 ,but the will1 acting among these impressions in a wild and sovereign way1 is fancy2 while the will arranging impressions according to the order of nature1 is understanding4 ,froebel has provided for the development of the understanding the occupations1 as he calls the regular production of forms1 transient and permanent4 ,nothing can be produced which satisfies the sthetic sense1 except by following the laws of creation4 ,to analyze these productions will give experimental understanding of those laws4 ,in superintending the occupations1 the kindergartner must1 therefore1 see that the child does things in the right order1 and gives an account of what he does in the right words2 for words1 the first works of human art1 have a great deal to do with the development of the understanding1 lifting man into a sphere above that of the mere animal4 ,after a thing is made1 or an effect produced and named1 it must be made a subject for analysis2 and it can easily be made so1 because children's attention is easily conciliated to what they themselves have done or produced4 ,putting their own action into a thing1 makes it interesting to them2 and they can make an exhaustive analysis of it1 because1 in addition to its appearances1 they know the law of its being1 which was their own method1 and the cause of its being1 which was their own motive4 ,from analyzing their own works1 children can1 in due time1 be led to analyze works of nature4 ,and here the kindergartner has great room for the exercise of judgment1 in the selection of suitable objects4 ,froebel advised that objects for lessons should be taken from the vegetable creation2 and that children should be interested in planting seeds and watching growth1 becoming acquainted with its general conditions1 observing which are within the scope of their own powers to provide1 and which are beyond human power2 thus leading the understanding through nature1 outward and inward1 to ,god4 ,if we see that the work done is artistic1 and that the objects of nature analyzed are beautiful1 this culture of the understanding may refine and elevate the taste1 and beautify the fancy4 ,for the fancy is to be carefully cherished by the kindergartner4 ,it is not amenable to direct influence perhaps1 but not beyond an indirect influence4 ,the soundness of the understanding is conducive to a beautiful play of fancy1 which is a peculiarly human faculty2 for we have not a particle of evidence that any animal below man has this kind of thinking1 which delights in transcending the facts of nature in its creations1 and sometimes sets the laws of nature at defiance4 ,but we must defer to another paper the many things we have to say in regard to the imagination and its culture4 ,,conscience4 ,,we have given a few hints by way of answering the questions on psychology1 which must come up1 to be considered by a kindergartner who is intent on understanding the harp of a thousand strings1 from which it is her duty to bring out the music4 ,we have found that the human being comes into the world with an sthetic nature1 which is to be vivified by the presentation of the beauties of nature and art1 in such a way as to insure reaction of the will in creations of fancy2 for only so can sensibility to beauty be prevented from degenerating into sensuality4 ,if the fancy remains wholly subjective1 it loses its childish health and leads astray4 ,it should have objective embodiment in song1 dance1 and artistic manipulation of some sort4 ,now1 artistic manipulation of any kind necessitates the examination of natural elements and the discovery of the laws of production1 which are1 of course1 identical with the organic laws of nature that bear witness to an intelligent ,creator4 ,to excite the human understanding to appreciate names1 and classify things for use and giving pleasure1 it is necessary to present things to children gradually1 first singly1 and then in simple rhythmical combinations1 so that they may have time to find themselves personally1 and not be overwhelmed with a multitude of impressions4 ,a real lover of children will quickly find out that they like to take time playing with things1 as they call it2 and that there is a special pleasure in discovering differences in things2 that a new distinct perception of any relation of things delights the child1 as the discovery of a principle delights the adult mind4 ,the fanciful plays of the kindergarten1 whether sedentary or moving1 cultivate the imagination1 the understanding1 and the physical powers in harmony1 and more than this1 they cultivate the heart and conscience1 because the moving plays have for their indispensable condition numbers of their equals1 and everything they make is intended for others4 ,the presentation of persons1 as having the same needs and desires of enjoyment as themselves1 proves sufficient to call into consciousness the heart and conscience1 just as immediately and inevitably as the presentation of nature and art calls into activity the understanding and imagination4 ,because nature and human kind are so vast that1 as a whole they daunt the young mind1 even to the point of checking its growth1 it is necessary that some one1 who has had time to analyze it in some degree1 should call attention to points2 and it is the consummate art of education to know what points to touch1 so that the mind shall make out the octave2 for1 unless it does so1 it will not act to purpose4 ,as exercise of the limbs is necessary to physical development1 and the act of perceiving1 understanding1 and fancying1 with actual manipulation of nature1 is necessary to intellectual development2 so is kindness and justice acted out1 to the development of the social and moral nature or conscience4 ,but there is something else in man than relations to external nature and fellow-man4 ,this self-determining being1 who moves1 perceives1 understands1 fancies1 loves1 and feels moral responsibility to the race in which he finds himself a living member1 is only consciously happy when he is magnanimous1 which he can only be1 if he feels himself a free power in the bosom of infinite love2 in short1 a son of the ,father of all men6 ,we are the offspring of ,god is the inspiration alike of heathen poet and ,christian apostle4 ,as the psychological condition of the human love which is man's social happiness1 is that sense of individual want and imperfection which stimulates the will to seek the mother and brother2 so the psychological condition of the piety which makes man's beatitude1 is the sense of social imperfection1 in respect both to moral purity and happiness1 stimulating the will to seek a ,father of all spirits4 ,the more we love1 the more we feel the need of ,god4 ,but is ,god nothing but an infinite sigh at the bottom of the heart1 as ,feuerbach1 the holiest of infidels1 sadly says8 or1 as in thinking1 we discover the entity we name ,i2 so in loving1 do we not discover ,god1 or rather does not ,god reveal ,himself to us1 as ,essential ,substance8 ,wordsworth declares that ,serene will be our days and bright1 ,and happy will our nature be1 ,when love is an unerring light1 ,and joy its own security2 ,and blest are they1 who in the main1 ,this faith even now do entertain1 ,live in the spirit of this creed1 ,yet find another strength according to their need4 ,that other strength is to be found1 as he had already sung in that same great song1 in ,duty--daughter of the voice of ,god1 ,victory and ,law ,when empty terrors overawe2 ,from vain temptations doth set free1 ,and calms the weary strife of frail humanity6 ,conscience1 then1 is the soul's witness1 first of the relation of the individual to the human race2 and ultimately1 of the relation of the human race to ,god2 and it must be inspired with knowledge of the sonship of the human race to the ,universal ,father1 or human life is bottomless despair4 ,but with that knowledge which ,god must give 7since man cannot reach it with his own understanding7 he shall be able1 even on the cross1 to love the most ignorant brother infinitely2 and infinitely to trust that the ,father of all will justify his spirit in acting accordingly4 ,,footnotes3 #ac ,in the first of these last two books1 ,mr4 ,hazard has made an examination of ,edwards on the ,will1 and the only satisfactory reply to his argument for ,necessity ever made4 ,very early in life1 the task of answering ,edwards was given him1 by the late ,william ,e4 ,channing1 ,d4,d41 who read his first edition of ,language1 and was so much struck with the metaphysical genius displayed in it1 that he sought out the anonymous author on purpose to make this suggestion4 ,he found him a clerk in his father's great manufactory1 to whose business he afterwards succeeded1 and he was engaged in it until he was an old man4 ,all his books are a proof that business may be as good a disciplinarian of the higher intellect as scholastic education1 to say the least4 ,,appendix4 ,,note ,a1 ,,to ,,lecture ,i4 ,,in #ahgb the first training school for kindergartners was founded in ,england by the ,manchester ,kindergarten ,assoc4 ,to the prospectus is subjoined the following statement3-- ,the aim of the kindergarten system of training1 intended for young children up to the age of seven1 when school-teaching proper should begin1 is to prepare for all subsequent education4 ,a short examination of the system will show that it is in idea far superior to any other method of early training1 while experience proves that its pupils acquit themselves well even under plans most dissimilar4 ,the theory of the kindergarten is that every exertion of the faculties1 whether of body or mind1 will be healthful and pleasurable1 so long as such exertion takes place without compulsion1 without appeal to selfish motives1 with no more than necessary restraint4 ,the experience of parents and teachers may be appealed to as proving that children enjoy their employments most1 and learn best1 when associated in numbers4 ,the kindergarten1 therefore1 gathers children together in numbers1 which vary with class and other circumstances1 and proceeds to exercise1 on a plan most carefully reasoned out1 all limbs and muscles of the body by marching1 gymnastics1 and regulated games2 to practise all the senses1 and tastes that depend directly upon the senses1 by drawing1 singing1 modelling in clay1 and many most beautiful occupations1 which in addition arouse invention--one of the highest human faculties4 ,the intellectual powers1 being in a rudimentary condition1 are less directly called into action2 but the faculties of number and form1 along with skill of hand1 are so developed that the learning of the three ,r's becomes incredibly easy4 ,above all1 good feeling is exercised and evil feeling checked1 by happy social life1 in which the tender plants of the kindergarten see that each one's happiness depends upon all1 and that of all on each4 ,sedulous attention is paid to the effect of each employment upon children of different temperaments4 ,sanitary conditions are most carefully observed1 and unflagging interest is secured by frequent changes of occupation4 ,wherever the kindergarten has been fairly tried1 its results have been lively enjoyment by the little pupils of their school hours1 and readiness to receive not as drudgery1 but with delight1 all opportunities of acquiring knowledge4 ,this readiness1 it is believed1 would less often change into a hatred of lessons1 if the subsequent school-teaching did not too commonly despise those indications of natural taste and fitness which ,froebel1 in his system1 has carefully interpreted and obeyed4 ,the kindergartens for the poor1 already established at ,queen ,street1 ,salford1 and in the ,workpeople's ,hall1 ,pendleton1--where visitors are at all times most heartily welcomed1--will convince any one that this system is able to give a truly humanizing and religious training to children of the least favored class1 gathered in large numbers even out of very neglected homes4 ,by inspecting these schools also1 intelligent persons will form an idea of the ingenuity and beauty of the processes by which this natural and simple training is effected4 ,thus too will be understood1 that the kindergarten system1 which in relation to its pupils is the simplest and easiest possible because it travels along1 not athwart1 their natural tastes1 is1 as respects its professors1 very far removed indeed from every-day facility and rule of thumb4 ,it demands in those who aspire to teach1 a sincere love of children and an earnest devotion to duties which bring much pleasure when well performed1 and it demands besides that they be willing to give up sufficient time and labor to become thoroughly instructed in the principles1 and sufficiently practised in the use1 of a machinery which1 while beautifully simple in idea1 is complicated in detail4 ,a great and increasing demand for teachers thoroughly trained in this system exists1 as well for families as for kindergarten schools proper1 and for infant schools commonly so called4 ,to supply this demand is the purpose of the training school4 ,,note ,b1 ,,to ,,page #ha4 ,letter from ,michelet to the ,baroness ,marenholtz von ,blow4 ,,march #bg1 #ahei4 ,by a stroke of genius ,froebel has found what the wise men of all times have sought in vain1--the solution of the problem of human education4 ,and again3 ,your first explanation made it clear to me that ,froebel has laid the necessary basis for a new education for the present and future4 ,froebel looks at human beings in a new light1 and finds the means to develop them according to natural laws1 as heretofore has never been done4 ,i am your most faithful advocate1 and speak constantly with friends and acquaintances about this great work that you have undertaken4 ,several journalists and writers will mention it in their papers4 ,dispose of all my power to aid you4 ,the ambassador of ,hayti1 ,monsieur ,ardoin1 minister of instruction1 is ready to return to ,port au ,prince1 and wishes to make your acquaintance4 ,he will come to see you to-morrow4 ,for the inhabitants of that island1 in process of reorganization1 ,froebel's method may do a great deal4 ,i have asked several persons to aid in this work4 ,niffner and ,dolfus are writing1 at present1 a great work on education1 and will be happy to give a place to your cause4 ,i send you a letter for ,isodore ,cohen2 you must see him4 ,you1 personally1 can do more than all speeches1 recommendations1 and writings together4 ,i shall come to you shortly to hear more about ,froebel4 ,i would like to have a comparison drawn between him and ,pestalozzi4 ,your written communications interest me highly4 ,let me have some ,german works about ,froebel4 ,i read ,german and know how to guess at incomprehensible things4 ,i would like to know about the continuation of his method for more advanced years1 especially for girls1 and await impatiently the appearance of your manual4 ,the more ,i investigate the heads of children of different ages1 the more important ,froebel's method appears to me1 as it begins in early childhood1 when the most important changes in the brain take place4 ,all my sympathies are with your work4 ,letter from the ,abbe ,miraud1 author of voluminous works1 one of them being ,la ,democratic et la ,catholicisme4 ,,july1 #aheh4 ,we have to fulfil a great mission in common4 ,i shall be most happy to procure for ,froebel's theory1 which ,i accept fully1 a hearing4 ,to appreciate this theory in all its grandeur1 richness1 and utility1 the shade of pantheism it seems to contain is no hindrance to me2 it seems inseparable from the ,german mind4 ,i accept the obligation to work for the ideas of ,froebel according to my ability1 of course within the limits of orthodox ,catholicism1 to which ,i am devoted from faith and reason4 ,you must certainly go with me to ,rome1 that we may work together there4 ,if you resolve to do so1 ,i will meet you at ,orleans4 ,you would find in ,rome a good opportunity for propaganda4 ,my friends there would aid us1 but without your presence nothing can be done4 ,italy needs a regeneration by education4 ,let us work where the most rapid diffusion is certain4 ,mons4 ,a4 ,guyard1 a ,parisian author writes3 ,,june #ad1 #aheg4 ,the more ,i hear you about ,froebel's method1 the more my interest increases1 and the deeper my conviction becomes that by this means a basis is laid for a new education for the salvation of humanity4 ,accept my warmest and most sincere wishes for the propagation of ,froebel's method4 ,he is great1 perhaps the greatest philosopher of our time1 and has found in you what all philosophers need1 that is1 a woman who understands him1 who clothes him with flesh and blood1 and makes him alive4 ,i think1 ,i believe1 indeed1 that an idea in order to bear fruit1 must have a father and a mother4 ,hitherto1 all ideas have had only fathers4 ,as ,froebel's ideas are so likely to find mothers1 they will have an immense success4 ,when the ideas of the future have become alive in devoted women1 the face of the world will be changed4 ,lamarche of ,paris1 philanthropist and writer on social and religious subjects1 after listening to the lectures upon ,froebel given by ,madam ,marenholtz in ,paris1 wrote on3-- ,,paris1 ,march #d1 #ahef4 ,your last lecture has unmistakably shown that ,froebel's method1 in a religious point of view1 surpasses everything that has hitherto been done in education4 ,and this is the main point from which a method of education is to be judged for its aim is to awaken love to ,god and man--the foundation upon which ,christianity rests4 ,education has hitherto done little to awaken this love of man in the young soul1 from which all piety flows4 ,this is the reason we find so much skepticism and indifference in human society1 and which is the source of most of the existing misery1 and of the want of order and lawfulness4 ,these sad results are the condemnations of those methods of education that suppress the human faculties1 or force them into wrong channels1 or arbitrarily superimpose something instead of aiding free development4 ,it is the sad mistake of our moralists who1 without faith in a ,heavenly ,father1 do not understand human nature1 and replace revealed religion with human tenets4444 ,froebel has found the missing truth1 in first awakening the child's senses and capacities by the simplest means1 and making him feel in nature the loving ,creator1 before he taxes his intellect with religious dogmas1 which are beyond the intellect of childhood1 and only confuse it4 ,to lead it through the love of ,god1 the ,heavenly ,father of us all1 to the love of the neighbor1 by acting and doing1 is the natural and simple way which ,froebel has pointed out1 and we shall owe it to him1 if before our children are four or five years old1 before they can read books1 they learn the great law of humanity1 ,love to ,god and the neighbor4 ,again3 ,froebel's discovery1 or invention1 furnishes the means to follow the natural order of all development for human beings1 by which alone they will come to the knowledge of1 and at last to union with1 their ,heavenly ,father4 ,this is the way which ,christianity prescribed eighteen hundred years ago1 but into which education has not understood how to lead us1 because it has put statutes instead of actual experience1 and has not let the study of nature1 as the work of ,god1 precede statutes4 ,froebel leads education again into the path intended by ,,god1 which1 in the course of universal development1 will lead to the happiness of the individual1 as well as of the whole of society4 ,in the human being itself are the rich mines1 the development of which our false modes of education have hitherto made impossible4 ,may mothers have faith in ,,god1 the ,heavenly ,father of their children1 and that he has given them the capacity for good1 which will crush the head of the serpent1 and bring the kingdom of ,god upon earth4 ,,note ,c1 ,,to ,,page #hd4 ,in the second part of my ,guide to ,kindergarten and ,moral ,training of ,infancy1 published by ,e4 ,steiger1 #be ,park ,place1 ,new ,york1 is an account of how ,i actually first began to teach to read on this method1 that may be of practical aid to one teaching ,after ,kindergarten--what8 ,the first kindergartner who tried the method1 in the course of the first half-hour led her children to write on their slates 7in imitation of what she wrote on the blackboard1 letter by letter1 giving the power1 not the name1 of each as she wrote7 words enough to involve the whole alphabet2 namely1 cars1 go1 bells1 sing1 dizzy1 old1 hen1 fixes1 vest1 jelly1 jars1 puss1 kitty4 ,the words were in a column1 and after they were written1 the children recognized each word1 pronouncing it right when she pointed to it on the blackboard4 ,but she was surprised the next day to find they remembered every one1 and they had so clear an idea of the correspondence of the letters and sounds1 that1 long before they had finished writing at her dictation the words of the first vocabulary1 they read at sight any word of it1 no matter how many syllables it had4 ,in fact1 at the end of the first week she wrote and asked me for the groups of exceptions1 and1 beginning with the smallest group1 which is most exceptional1 in a few weeks they could all read4 ,but ,i would not advise this rapid acquisition of the whole language in so short a time4 ,it is better to pause on the meaning of the words1--not asking them to define them by other words1 but asking them to make sentences in which they put the word1 which will show whether or not they understand its meaning4 ,a great deal more than mere pronunciation may be taught children while learning to read4 ,,note ,d1 ,,to ,,page #ajb4 ,history of ,printing1 an unfinished manuscript of which he found in the ,antiquarian ,library of ,worcester4 ,,note ,e1 ,,to ,,page #aaj4 ,the story1 as ,i paraphrased it1 was this4 ,the drop of water speaks1 ,once ,i lived with hundreds1 and hundreds1 and hundreds of brothers and sisters1 in the great ocean4 ,there we all took hold of hands1 and played with each other2 and the winds played with us1 and took us up on their backs1 making us into little waves and great waves4 ,but sometimes1 when the winds were not there1 we would spread ourselves out smooth like a looking-glass1 and look up into the sky2 and the moon and the stars would look down upon us1 and the ocean would look just like the sky4 ,and we wanted to go up into the sky2 and so1 when the sun sent down his sunbeams1 and the moon sent down her moonbeams1 and the stars sent down their starbeams1 some of us would jump up on their backs1 and ride up into the sky4 ,but soon they would be tired of us1 and shake us off2 and down we fell1 and then we would catch hold of hands1 and make ourselves into clouds2 and when the clouds got to be so heavy that the air could not hold them up1 we would let go of hands1 and fall down in drops of rain4 ,but sometimes the clouds would stay up1 and sail round2 and one day the cloud that ,i was in1 bumped up against a mountain1 and we all fell out1 down into the little holes of the mountain1 and ,i soon found ,i was alone in the dark2 but ,i saw a light a little ways off1 and so ,i ran along and came to the light1 which was outside the mountain4 ,and as ,i stood there1 ,i saw a great many of my sisters and brothers standing at just such holes as ,i was looking out of2 and when we saw each other1 we burst out laughing1 and ran to each other1 and took hold of hands1 and made a little brook that ran down the sides of the mountain into a meadow full of flowers2 and we ran about the meadow1 watering the roots of all the flowers to make them grow1 for we wanted to do as much good as we could2 and then we thought we would run on1 and see if we could not find our old home in the ocean1 where we left hundreds of brothers and sisters2 but as ,i got rather tired1 ,i thought ,i would stop and rest awhile on this flower-leaf4 ,but now ,i am rested4 ,so good by2 ,i will jump off1 and run home as fast as ,i can with the rest4 ,this story ,i had to tell over and over again at the time1 which ,i did in the same words2 and now1 when ,i again repeated it in the same words1 he liked to hear it over and over again1 looking at the picture in the book while ,i told it4 ,,note ,f1 ,,to ,,page #afg4 ,i here insert the version of the ,lord's ,prayer and the ,song of the ,weather1 which have been found so effective in the religious nurture1 and which1 if used in the simple1 unsanctimonious manner ,i have so earnestly suggested1 will preclude the necessity of talking to the children in prose4 ,these songs explain themselves to the child's heart and imagination4 ,,our ,,father1 who in ,heaven art1 ,thy name we dearly love2 ,we'd do thy will with all our heart1 ,as done in heaven above4 ,give us this day our daily bread1 ,forgive the wrong we do1 ,and we'll not mind when treated ill1 ,that we may be like you4 ,help us avoid temptation's snare2 ,deliver us from evil ways2 ,for thine's the kingdom and the power1 ,all glory and all praise4 ,,song ,,of ,,the ,,weather4 ,,this is the way the snow comes down1 ,softly1 softly falling4 ,god1 he giveth his snow like wool1 ,fair1 and white1 and beautiful4 ,this is the way the snow comes down1 ,softly1 softly falling4 ,chorus4 ,wonderful1 ,lord1 are all thy works1 ,wheresoever falling2 ,all their various voices raise1 ,speaking forth their ,maker's praise4 ,wonderful1 ,lord1 are all thy works1 ,wheresoever falling4 ,this is the way the rain comes down1 ,swiftly1 swiftly falling2 ,so he sendeth his welcome rain4 ,on the field1 and hill1 and plain1 ,this is the way the rain comes down1 ,swiftly1 swiftly falling4 7,repeat the chorus47 ,this is the way the frost comes down1 ,widely1 widely falling2 ,so it spreadeth all through the night1 ,shining1 cold1 and pure1 and bright1 ,this is the way the frost comes down1 ,widely1 widely falling4 7,chorus47 ,this is the way the hail comes down1 ,loudly1 loudly falling2 ,so it flieth beneath the cloud1 ,swift1 and strong1 and wild1 and loud1 ,this is the way the hail comes down1 ,loudly1 loudly falling4 7,chorus47 ,this is the way the cloud comes down1 ,darkly1 darkly falling2 ,so it covers the shining blue1 ,till no ray can glisten through1 ,this is the way the cloud comes down1 ,darkly1 darkly falling4 7,chorus47 ,this is the way sunshine comes down1 ,sweetly1 sweetly falling2 ,so it chaseth the cloud away1 ,so it waketh the lovely day1 ,this is the way sunshine comes down1 ,sweetly1 sweetly falling4 7,chorus47 ,this is the way rainbow comes round1 ,brightly1 brightly falling2 ,so it smileth across the sky1 ,making fair the heavens on high1 ,this is the way rainbow comes down1 ,brightly1 brightly falling4 ,chorus4 ,wonderful1 ,lord1 are all thy works1 ,wheresoever falling2 ,all their various voices raise1 ,speaking forth their ,maker's praise4 ,wonderful1 ,lord1 are all thy works1 ,wheresoever falling4 7,the appropriate gesture is spreading the arms1 and1 when it is the rain or the hail1 the children enjoy making the patter on the table1--gently for the rain1 and louder for the hail47 ,butler ,tanner1 ,the ,selwood ,printing ,works1 ,frome1 and ,london4 ,,the ,,committee ,,of ,,the ,manchester ,kindergarten ,association ,beg to ,announce that the ,,training ,,classes ,,for ,,teachers ,meet in the ,,afternoon at ,thorney ,abbey1 ,alexandra ,park1 ,manchester1 ,for ,,theoretical instruction in the following subjects3-- ,drawing ,j4 ,,clegg1 ,esq4 ,music ,,miss ,,wichern4 ,theory and ,application of the ,kindergarten ,system ,,miss ,,snell4 ,physiology and ,laws of ,health ,,miss ,,cleghorn4 ,science of ,education ,w4 ,h4 ,,herford1 ,esq41 ,b4,a4 ,natural ,history and ,physiography ,f4 ,j4 ,,webb1 ,esq4 ,elements of ,geometry ,,miss ,,snell4 ,botany ,,miss ,,herford4 ,practical ,instruction is afforded at the ,model ,kindergarten in the ,forenoon4 ,,fees ,,for ,,the ,,above4 ,,the ,,whole ,,course 7per ,term of ,ten ,weeks7 #e ,,guineas4 ,,separate ,,classes 7per term of ,ten ,hours7 #b ,,guineas4 ,students are expected to take the whole ,course of ,two ,years2 when withdrawal before the end of the course is necessary a ,term's notice is required4 ,a ,,limited ,,number ,,of ,,students ,,can ,,be ,,received ,,as ,,boarders ,,by ,,the ,,head ,,mistress4 ,,charge ,,for ,,board ,,and ,,lodging #dd ,,guineas ,,per ,,annum4 ,,weekly ,,boarders #cc ,satisfactory ,references ,required4 ,froebel ,society1 #ag1 ,,buckingham ,,street1 ,,strand4 ,president3 ,,miss ,,shirreff4 ,vice-,presidents3 ,,oscar ,,browning1 ,esq41 ,m4,a4 ,rev4 ,canon ,,daniel1 ,m4,a4 ,j4 ,g4 ,,fitch1 ,esq41 ,h4,m4 ,inspector of ,training ,colleges4 ,prof4 ,g4 ,,carey ,,foster1 ,b4,a4 ,dr4 ,j4 ,h4 ,,gladstone1 ,f4,r4,s4 ,lady ,,goldsmid4 ,mrs4 ,w4 ,,grey4 ,frulein ,,heerwart4 ,prof4 ,,meiklejohn1 ,m4,a4 ,rev4 ,r4 ,h4 ,,quick1 ,m4,a4 ,a4 ,,sonnenschein1 ,esq4 ,council3 ,miss ,m4 ,e4 ,,bailey4 ,miss ,,baker4 ,miss ,,belcher4 ,rev4 ,a4 ,,bourne4 ,hon4 ,mrs4 ,,buxton4 ,e4 ,,cooke1 ,esq4 ,miss ,s4 ,,crombie4 ,mrs4 ,,fielden4 ,miss ,,franks4 ,mrs4 ,,green4 ,mrs4 ,,law4 ,miss ,e4 ,,lord4 ,miss ,,lyschinska4 ,miss ,e4 ,a4 ,,manning4 ,mme4 ,,michaelis4 ,h4 ,k4 ,,moore1 ,esq41 ,b4,mus41 ,b4,a4 ,j4 ,s4 ,,phillpotts1 ,esq4 ,miss ,,kate ,,phillips4 ,mrs4 ,,romanes4 ,rev4 ,t4 ,w4 ,,sharpe1 ,h4,m4,i4,s4 ,miss ,,sim4 ,f4 ,,storr1 ,esq41 ,b4,a4 ,miss ,,kate ,,thornbury4 ,miss ,,ward4 ,hon4 ,treasurer3 ,a4 ,r4 ,,price1 ,esq4 ,hon4 ,secretary3 ,c4 ,g4 ,,montefiore1 ,esq4 ,secretary3 ,miss ,,bayley4 ,the ,froebel ,society ,,was formed in #ahgd for the purpose of promoting co-operation among those engaged in ,kindergarten work1 of spreading the knowledge and practice of the system1 and of maintaining a high standard of efficiency among ,kindergarten ,teachers4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,an ,,examination ,,of ,,students ,will be held in ,london in the month of ,july1 for the ,higher and 7this year only7 for the ,elementary ,certificate4 ,in ,december next there will be an ,examination for the ,elementary ,certificate only4 ,under certain conditions the ,council are prepared to hold the ,examinations at local centres4 99 99 99 99 99 ,a ,registry for ,kindergarten ,teachers ,has been opened at the ,office of the ,society4 ,a small fee is charged to those who apply4 99 99 99 99 99 ,arrangements have been made by the ,council for the ,,inspection ,,and ,,registration ,,of ,,kindergartens upon certain conditions4 99 99 99 99 99 ,the ,calendar of the ,froebel ,society1 price #a_/-1 ,contains the ,syllabus for the ,examinations1 and the ,examination ,papers of #ahhf4 99 99 99 99 99 ,further information can be obtained from the ,secretary1 at the ,office of the ,society1 #ag1 ,,buckingham ,,street1 ,,strand4 99 99 99 99 99 ,the ,office is open daily from #aa a4m4 to #d p4m41 except on ,thursdays4 99 99 99 99 99 ,transcriber's ,notes3 ,in the introduction and last two pages which use an ornamental font in the original1 ,froebel is presented without the oe-ligature4 ,this was retained4 ,book uses both ,mtterspiele und ,kse-,lieder and ,die ,mutter ,spiele und ,kose ,lieder for ,froebel's work3 ,mutter- und ,kose-,lieder4 ,also referenced as ,mother ,love and ,cossetting ,songs4 ,mrs4 ,kraus-,boelte is spelled without an oe-ligature except in a single footnote where a ligature was used4 ,obvious punctuation errors repaired4 ,page #cb1 ,bulow changed to ,blow 7,marenholtz-,blow has happily remarked7 ,page #db1 word it removed from text4 ,original read3 7forth by addressing it the7 ,page #dd1 her's changed to hers 7for hers they realize7 ,page #ej1 combinanations changed to combinations 7color and its combinations7 ,page #ej1 develope changed to develop 7office1 to develop7 ,page #bji1 beuause changed to because 7of it1 because1 in addition7 ,page #bbc-bbd1 the word ,chorus sometimes appeared in parentheses and sometimes did not4 ,this was retained4