,,! ,,ladies' ,,book ,,( ,,etiquette1 ,,& ,,manual ,,( ,,polit5ess4 ,a ,,complete ,,h& ,,book ,,= ,,! ,,use ,,( ,,! ,,lady ,,9 ,,polite ,,society4 ,,conta9+ ,,full ,,directions ,,= ,,correct ,,mann]s1 ,,dress1 ,,deportm5t1 ,,& ,,conv]sation2 ,,rules ,,= ,,! ,,duties ,,( ,,bo? ,,ho/ess ,,& ,,gue/ ,,9 ,,morn+ ,,receptions1 ,,d9n] ,,companies1 ,,visit+1 ,,ev5+ ,,p>ties ,,& ,,balls2 ,a ,,complete ,,guide ,,= ,,lett] ,,writ+ ,,& ,,c>ds ,,( ,,complim5t2 ,,h9ts ,,on ,,manag+ ,,s]vants1 ,,on ,,! ,,pres]vation ,,( ,,heal?1 ,,& ,,on ,,accompli%m5ts4 ,,& ,,also ,,useful ,,receipts ,,= ,,! ,,complexion1 ,,hair1 ,,& ,,) ,,h9ts ,,& ,,directions ,,= ,,! ,,c>e ,,( ,,! ,,w>drobe4 ,,by ,,flor5ce ,,h>tley1 ,,au?or ,,( ,,! ,,ladies' ,,h& ,,book ,,( ,,fancy ,,& ,,ornam5tal ,,"w4 ,,bo/on3 ,g4 ,w4 ,,cottrell1 ,,publi%]1 #cf ,cornhill4 ,ent]$ accord+ to ! ,act ( ,congress1 9 ! ye> #ahfj1 by ,g4 ,g4 ,,evans1 9 ! ,cl]k's ,(fice ( ! ,di/rict ,c\rt = ! ,ea/]n ,di/rict ( ,p5nsylvania4 ,,introduction4 ,9 prep>+ a book ( etiquette = ladies1 ,i w\ld lay d[n z ! fir/ rule1 ,d unto o!rs z y w\ld o!rs %\ld d to y4 ,y c nev] be rude if y be> ! rule always 9 m9d1 = :at lady likes to be treat$ rudely8 ,true ,*ri/ian polit5ess w always be ! result ( an unselfi% reg>d = ! feel+s ( o!rs1 & ?\gh y may err 9 ! c]emoni\s po9ts ( etiquette1 y w nev] be impolite4 ,polit5ess1 f\nd$ ^u su* a rule1 becomes ! expression1 9 graceful mann]1 ( social virtues4 ,! _s ( polit5ess consi/s 9 a c]ta9 att5tion to =ms & c]emonies1 :i* are meant bo? to please o!rs & ourselves1 & to make o!rs pleas$ ) u2 a /ill cle>] def9ition may be giv5 by say+ t polit5ess is goodness ( he>t put into daily practice2 !re c be no true polit5ess )\t k9dness1 purity1 s+l5ess ( he>t1 & s5sibility4 ,_m believe t polit5ess is b a mask worn 9 ! _w to conceal bad passions & impulses1 & to make a %[ ( possess+ virtues n really exi/+ 9 ! he>t2 ?us1 t polit5ess is m]ely hypocrisy & dissimulation4 ,d n believe ?is2 be c]ta9 t ^? :o pr(ess su* a doctr9e are practis+ !mselves ! deceit !y condemn s mu*4 ,su* p sc\t polit5ess1 because1 to be truly a lady1 "o mu/ c>ry ! pr9ciples into e circum/ance ( life1 into ! family circle1 ! mo/ intimate fri5d%ip1 & nev] =get to ext5d ! g5tle c\rtesies ( life to e "o4 ,?is !y f9d too mu* tr\ble1 & s d]ide ! idea ( be+ polite & call x deceitfulness4 ,true polit5ess is ! language ( a good he>t1 & ^? possess+ t he>t w nev]1 "u any circum/ances1 be rude4 ,!y may n ent] a cr[d$ saloon gracefully2 !y may be entirely ignorant ( ! =ms ( good society2 !y may be awkw>d at table1 ungrammatical 9 spee*2 b !y w nev] be he>d speak+ s z to w\nd ! feel+s ( ano!r2 !y w nev] be se5 mak+ o!rs uncom=table by seek+ solely = _! own p]sonal conv5i5ce2 !y w always endeavor to set e "o ar\nd !m at ease2 !y w be self-sacrific+1 fri5dly1 unselfi%2 truly 9 ^w & de$1 polite4 ,give to su* a woman ! k ( ! =ms & cu/oms ( society1 tea* h] h[ be/ to %[ ! g5tle c\rtesies ( life1 & y h a lady1 creat$ by ,god1 only indebt$ = ! outw>d poli% to ! _w4 ,x is true t society dem&s ?is same unselfi%ness & c\rtesy1 b :5 !re is no he>t 9 ! "w1 ! "t is fritt]$ away on ! m]e c]emonies1 =ms ( etiquette1 & cu/oms ( society1 & ?is polit5ess seeks only its own ends2 to be kn[n z c\rte\s1 spok5 ( z lady-l1 & n belov$ z unselfi% & womanly4 ,etiquette exi/s 9 "s =m 9 all c\ntries1 has exi/$ & w exi/ 9 all ages4 ,f ! rude/ savage :o d>es n approa* 8 ignorant1 b>b>\s rul] )\t c]ta9 =ms & c]emonies1 to ! mo/ poli%$ c\rts 9 ,europe1 or ! home circles ( ,am]ica1 etiquette reigns4 ,true polit5ess w be f\nd1 its basis 9 ! human he>t1 ! same 9 all ^! v>i$ sc5es & situations1 b ! outw>d =ms ( etiquette w v>y ev]y:]e4 ,ev5 9 ! same sc5e1 "t w alt] e =m1 & r5d] ! exquisite poli% ( la/ ye>1 obsolete rud5ess next ye>4 ,polit5ess1 be+ bas$ ^u real k9dness ( he>t1 _c exi/ :]e !re is selfi%ness or brutality to w>p its gr[?4 ,x is f\nd$ ^u love ( ! neighbor1 & a desire to be belov$1 & to %[ love4 ,?us1 :]e su* pure1 noble feel+s d n exi/1 ! m]e =ms ( polit5ess become hypocrisy & deceit4 ,rud5ess w repel1 :]e c\rtesy w\ld attract fri5ds4 ,nev] by ^w or action notice ! defects ( ano!r2 be *>itable1 = all ne$ *>ity4 ,rememb] :o said1 ,let him t is )\t fault ca/ ! fir/ /one4 ,rememb] t ! laws ( polit5ess require ! consid]ation ( ! feel+s ( o!rs2 ! endeavor to make e "o feel at ease2 & frank c\rtesy t[>ds all4 ,nev] meet rud5ess 9 o!rs ) rud5ess ^u y\r own "p2 ev5 ! mo/ brutal & impolite w be m %am$ by be+ met ) c\rtesy & k9dness1 ?an by any attempt to annoy !m by insol5ce on y\r "p4 ,polit5ess =bids any display ( res5tm5t4 ,! poli%$ surface ?r[s back ! arr[4 ,rememb] t a favor becomes d\bly valuable if grant$ ) c\rtesy1 & t ! pa9 ( a refusal may be s(t5$ if ! mann] expresses polite regret4 ,k9dness1 ev5 to ! mo/ humble1 w nev] lose any?+ by be+ (f]$ 9 a g5tle1 c\rte\s mann]1 & ! mo/ common-place action w admit ( grace & ease 9 its execution4 ,let e action1 :ile x is f9i%$ 9 /rict accordance ) etiquette1 be1 at ! same "t1 easy1 z if dictat$ solely by ! he>t4 ,to be truly polite1 rememb] y mu/ be polite at all times1 & "u all circum/ances4 ,,cont5ts4 ,,page ,,*apt] ,i4 ,,conv]sation #aa ,,*apt] ,,ii4 ,,dress #ba ,,*apt] ,,iii4 ,,travel+ #cd ,,*apt] ,,iv4 ,,h[ ,,to ,,behave ,,at ,a ,,hotel #dj ,,*apt] ,v4 ,,ev5+ ,,p>ties--,etiquette = ! ,ho/ess #dd ,,*apt] ,,vi4 ,,ev5+ ,,p>ties--,etiquette = ! ,gue/ #ed ,,*apt] ,,vii4 ,,visit+--,etiquette = ! ,ho/ess #fj ,,*apt] ,,viii4 ,,visit+--,etiquette = ! ,gue/ #ff ,,*apt] ,,ix4 ,,morn+ ,,receptions ,,or ,,calls--,etiquette = ! ,ho/ess #gf ,,*apt] ,x4 ,,morn+ ,,receptions ,,or ,,calls--,etiquette = ! ,call] #ha ,,*apt] ,,xi4 ,,d9n] ,,company--,etiquette = ! ,ho/ess #hg ,,*apt] ,,xii4 ,,d9n] ,,company--,etiquette = ! ,gue/ #ig ,,*apt] ,,xiii4 ,,table ,,etiquette #aje ,,*apt] ,,xiv4 ,,conduct ,,9 ,,! ,,/reet #aji ,,*apt] ,,xv4 ,,lett] ,,writ+ #aaf ,,*apt] ,,xvi4 ,,polite ,,deportm5t ,,& ,,good ,,habits #adb ,,*apt] ,,xvii4 ,,conduct ,,9 ,,*ur* #aed ,,*apt] ,,xviii4 ,,ball ,,room ,,etiquette--,= ! ,ho/ess #aeh ,,*apt] ,,xix4 ,,ball ,,room ,,etiquette--,= ! ,gue/ #aff ,,*apt] ,,xx4 ,,places ,,( ,,amusem5t #agb ,,*apt] ,,xxi4 ,,accompli%m5ts #agh ,,*apt] ,,xxii4 ,,s]vants #bcb ,,*apt] ,,xxiii4 ,,on ,a ,,"y ,,lady',s ,,conduct ,,:5 ,,contemplat+ ,,m>riage #bdd ,,*apt] ,,xxiv4 ,,bridal ,,etiquette #bei ,,*apt] ,,xxv4 ,,h9ts ,,on ,,heal? #bfd ,,*apt] ,,xxvi4 ,,miscellane\s #bhc ,,receipts4 ,,= ,,! ,,complexion1 c4 #cjc ,,ladies' ,,book ,,( ,,etiquette4 ,,*apt] ,i4 ,,conv]sation4 ,! art ( conv]sation consi/s 9 ! ex]cise ( two f9e qualities4 ,y mu/ orig9ate1 & y mu/ sympa?ize2 y mu/ possess at ! same "t ! habit ( communicat+ & ( li/5+ att5tively4 ,! union is r>e b irresi/ible4 ,none b an excessively ill-br$ p]son w all[ h] att5tion to w&] f ! p]son ) :om %e is conv]s+2 & especially %e w nev]1 :ile seem+ to be entirely att5tive to h] companion1 answ] a rem>k or "q made to ano!r p]son1 9 ano!r gr\p4 ,unless ! conv]sation be g5]al among a p>ty ( fri5ds1 conf9e y\r rem>ks & att5tion entirely to ! p]son ) :om y are conv]s+4 ,/eele says1 ,i w\ld e/abli% b "o great g5]al rule 9 conv]sation1 :i* is ?is--t p %\ld n talk to please !mselves1 b ^? :o he> !m4 ,?is w\ld make !m consid] :e!r :at !y speak be wor? he>+2 :e!r !re be ei!r wit or s5se 9 :at !y are ab\t to say2 & :e!r x be adapt$ to ! "t :51 ! place :]e1 & ! p]son to :om1 x is spok54 ,be c>eful 9 conv]sation to avoid topics :i* may be suppos$ to h any direct ref]5ce to ev5ts or circum/ances :i* may be pa9ful = y\r companion to he> discuss$2 y may un9t5tionally />t a subject :i* annoys or tr\bles ! fri5d ) :om y may be conv]s+2 9 t case1 d n /op abruptly1 :5 y p]ceive t x causes pa91 &1 above all1 d n make ! matt] worse by apologiz+2 turn to ano!r subject z soon z possible1 & pay no att5tion to ! agitation y\r un=tunate rem>k may h excit$4 ,_m p]sons w1 = ! sake ( appe>+ witty or sm>t1 w\nd ! feel+s ( ano!r deeply2 avoid ?is2 x is n only ill-br$1 b cruel4 ,rememb] t hav+ all ! talk su/a9$ by "o p]son is n conv]sation2 d n engross all ! att5tion y\rself1 by refus+ to all[ ano!r p]son an opportunity to speak1 & also avoid ! o!r extreme ( total sil5ce1 or answ]+ only 9 monosyllables4 ,if y\r companion relates an incid5t or tells a /ory1 be v c>eful n to int]rupt h] by que/ions1 ev5 if y d n cle>ly und]/& h]2 wait until %e has f9i%$ h] relation1 & !n ask any que/ions y may desire4 ,!re is no?+ m annoy+ ?an to be s int]rupt$4 ,i h he>d a /ory told to an imp]t95t li/5]1 :i* ran 9 ?is way3-- ,i saw a fe>ful sight---- ,:58 ,i 0 ab\t to tell y2 la/ ,monday1 on ! tra9---- ,:at tra98 ,! tra9 f ,b----4 ,we 7 ne> ! bridge---- ,:at bridge8 ,i w tell y all ab\t x1 if y w only let me speak4 ,i 0 com+ f ,b---- ,la/ ,monday1 did y say8 & s on4 ,! /ory 0 int]rupt$ at e s5t5ce1 & ! relator condemn$ z a mo/ t$i\s /ory-tell]1 :51 _h he be5 p]mitt$ to g =w>d1 he w\ld h made ! incid5t int]e/+ & %ort4 ,nev] int]rupt any "o :o is speak+4 ,x is v ill-br$4 ,if y see t a p]son to :om y wi% to speak is be+ address$ by ano!r p]son1 nev] speak until %e has he>d & repli$2 until h] conv]sation ) t p]son is f9i%$4 ,no truly polite lady ev] breaks 9 ^u a conv]sation or int]rupts ano!r speak]4 ,nev]1 9 speak+ to a m>ri$ lady1 enquire = h] husb&1 or1 if a g5tleman1 ask = 8 wife4 ,! elegant way is to call ! abs5t p>ty by _! "n2 ask ,mr4 ,smi? h[ ,mrs4 ,smi? is1 or enquire ( ,mrs4 ,jones = ,mr4 ,jones1 b nev] = y\r husb& or y\r wife4 ,on ! o!r h&1 if y are m>ri$1 nev] speak ( y\r husb& z y\r "l1 husb&1 or good man1 avoid1 also1 unless among/ relatives1 call+ him by 8 ,*ri/ian "n4 ,if y wi% o!rs to respect him1 %[ by speak+ ( him 9 respectful t]ms t y d s y\rself4 ,if ei!r y\r own husb& or y\r fri5d's is 9 ! army or navy1 or c claim ! ,dr41 ,pr(41 or any o!r prefix to 8 "n1 !re is no impropriety 9 speak+ ( him z ! colonel1 doctor1 or :atev] 8 title may be4 ,x is a m>k ( ill-bre$+ to use ,fr5* phrases or words1 unless y are sure y\r companion is a ,fr5* s*ol>1 &1 ev5 !n1 x is be/ to avoid !m4 ,above all1 d n use any =eign ^w or phrase1 unless y h ! language p]fectly at y\r comm&4 ,i he>d a lady once use a ,spani% quotation2 %e _h ma/]$ t "o s5t5ce alone2 b a ,cuban g5tleman1 delight$ to meet an ,am]ican :o c\ld conv]se ) him 9 8 own tongue1 imm$iately address$ h] 9 ,spani%4 ,emb>rass$ & a%am$1 %e 0 oblig$ to confess t h] k ( ! language 0 conf9$ to "o quotation4 ,nev] anticipate ! po9t or joke ( any anecdote told 9 y\r pres5ce4 ,if y h he>d ! /ory be=e1 x may be new to o!rs1 & ! n>rator %\ld always be all[$ to f9i% x 9 8 own words4 ,to take any s5t5ce f ! m\? ( ano!r p]son1 be=e he has "t to utt] x1 is ! height ( ill-bre$+4 ,avoid x c>efully4 ,nev] use ! phrases1 ,:at-d-ye call x1 ,?+ummy1 ,:at's 8 "n1 or any su* sub/itutes = a prop] "n or place4 ,if y _c recall ! names y wi% to use1 x is bett] n to tell ! /ory or incid5t connect$ ) !m4 ,no lady ( high bre$+ w ev] use ^! sub/itutes 9 conv]sation4 ,be c>eful always to speak 9 a di/9ct1 cle> voice2 at ! same "t avoid talk+ too l\dly1 !re is a happy m$ium betwe5 mumbl+ & scream+4 ,/rive to atta9 x4 ,ov]look ! defici5cies ( o!rs :5 conv]s+ ) !m1 z !y may be ! results ( ignorance1 & impossible to correct4 ,nev] pa9 ano!r p]son by correct+1 be=e o!rs1 a ^w or phrase mispron\nc$ or ungrammatically con/ruct$4 ,if y\r intimacy w all[ x1 speak ( ! fault ^u ano!r occasion1 k9dly & privately1 or let x pass4 ,d n be cont9ually wat*+ = faults1 t y may display y\r own sup]ior wisdom 9 correct+ !m4 ,let mode/y & k9d feel+ gov]n y\r conv]sation1 z o!r rules ( life4 ,if1 on ! o!r h&1 y\r companion uses words or expressions :i* y _c und]/&1 d n affect k1 or be a%am$ ( y\r ignorance1 b frankly ask = an explanation4 ,9 conv]s+ ) pr(essional g5tlem51 nev] "q !m ^u matt]s connect$ ) _! employm5t4 ,an au?or may communicate1 volunt>ily1 in=mation int]e/+ to y1 ^u ! subject ( 8 works1 b any que/ions f y w\ld be extremely rude4 ,if y meet a physician :o is att5d+ a fri5d1 y may enquire = _! progress1 b d n expect him to give y a detail$ acc\nt ( ! disease & 8 mann] ( treat+ x4 ,! same rule applies to que/ion+ lawy]s ab\t _! cli5ts1 arti/s on _! pa9t+s1 m]*ants or me*anics ( _! sev]al bran*es ( bus9ess4 ,pr(essional or bus9ess m51 :5 ) ladies1 g5]ally wi% = miscellane\s subjects ( conv]sation1 &1 z _! visits are = recreation1 !y w feel excessively annoy$ if oblig$ to talk %op4 ,/ill _m m5 c conv]se on no o!r subject ?an _! e day employm5t4 ,9 ?is case li/5 politely1 & %[ y\r int]e/4 ,y w probably ga9 useful in=mation 9 su* conv]sation4 ,nev] "q ! v]acity ( any /atem5t made 9 g5]al conv]sation4 ,if y are c]ta9 a /atem5t is false1 & x is injuri\s to ano!r p]son1 :o may be abs5t1 y may quietly & c\rte\sly in=m ! speak] t he is mi/ak51 b if ! falsehood is ( no consequ5ce1 let x pass4 ,if a /atem5t appe>s mon/r\s1 b y d n "k t x is false1 li/51 b d n "q its v]acity4 ,x may be true1 ?\gh x /rikes y z improbable4 ,nev] attempt to disp>age an abs5t fri5d4 ,x is ! height ( meanness4 ,if o!rs admire h]1 & y d n1 let !m h _! op9ion 9 peace2 y w probably fail if y try to l[] h] 9 _! e/eem1 & ga9 = y\rself ! "* ( an ill-natur$1 envi\s p]son4 ,9 conv]s+ ) =eign]s1 if !y speak slight+ly ( ! mann]s ( y\r c\ntry1 d n retort rudely1 or res5tfully4 ,if _! views are wrong1 conv]se ^u ! subject1 giv+ !m frankly y\r views1 b nev] retaliate by tell+ !m t "s cu/om ( _! own c\ntry is worse4 ,a g5tleman or lady ( true ref9em5t w always give y\r words c&id consid]ation1 & admit t an ,am]ican may possibly "k ! cu/oms ( h] c\ntry bett] ?an !y d1 & if y\r oppon5t is n well-br$1 y\r rud5ess w n improve 8 mann]s4 ,let ! conv]sation ^u national subjects be c&id1 & at ! same "t c\rte\s1 & leave him to ?9k t ! ladies 9 ,am]ica are well-br$1 h[ev] mu* he may dislike "s little national peculi>ity4 ,avoid1 at all times1 m5tion+ subjects or incid5ts t c 9 any way disgu/ y\r he>]s4 ,_m p]sons w ent] into ! details ( sicknesses :i* %\ld be m5tion$ only :5 absolutely necess>y1 or describe ! mo/ revolt+ sc5es be=e a room full ( p1 or ev5 at table4 ,o!rs speak ( v]m91 noxi\s plants1 or in/ances ( uncleanl9ess4 ,all su* conv]sation or allusion is excessively ill-br$4 ,x is n only annoy+1 b absolutely sick5+ to "s1 & a truly lady-l p]son w avoid all su* topics4 ,i _c too sev]ely c5sure ! habit ( us+ s5t5ces :i* admit ( a d\ble mean+4 ,x is n only ill-br$1 b indelicate1 & no p]son ( true ref9em5t w ev] d x4 ,if y are s un=tunate z to conv]se ) "o :o uses su* phrases1 nev] by ^w1 look1 or sign %[ t y und]/& any mean+ beyond ! pla91 outspok5 language4 ,avoid always any discussion ^u religi\s topics1 unless y are p]fectly c]ta9 t y\r rem>ks _c annoy or pa9 any "o pres5t4 ,if y are tete-a-tete ) a fri5d1 & su* a discussion arise1 inquire y\r companion's *ur* & m5tion y\r own1 t y may y\rself avoid unpleasant rem>ks1 & caution him4 ,nev]1 :5 advanc+ an op9ion1 ass]t positively t a ?+ is s1 b give y\r op9ion z an op9ion4 ,say1 ,i ?9k ?is is s1 or ^! are my views1 b rememb] t y\r companion may be bett] in=m$ ^u ! subject "u discussion1 or1 :]e x is a m]e matt] ( ta/e or feel+1 d n expect t all ! _w w feel exactly z y d4 ,nev] repeat to a p]son ) :om y conv]se1 any unpleasant spee* y may h he>d conc]n+ h]4 ,if y c give h] pleasure by ! repetition ( a delicate complim5t1 or tok5 ( approval %[n by a mutual fri5d1 tell h] ! pleasant spee* or incid5t1 b d n hurt h] feel+s1 or involve h] 9 a qu>rel by ! repetition ( ill-natur$ rem>ks4 ,among/ well-br$ p]sons1 e conv]sation is consid]$ 9 a measure confid5tial4 ,a lady or g5tleman tacitly confides 9 y :5 he 7or %e7 tells y an incid5t :i* may cause tr\ble if repeat$1 & y violate a confid5ce z mu* 9 su* a repetition1 z if y 7 b\nd ov] to secrecy4 ,rememb] ?is4 ,nev] criticise a companion's dress1 or inde$ make any rem>k :atev] ^u x4 ,if a ne> fri5d1 y may1 if s9c]e1 admire any article1 b ) a m]e acqua9tance let x pass unnotic$4 ,if1 h[ev]1 any accid5t has happ5$ to ! dress1 ( :i* %e is ignorant1 tell h] ( x1 & assi/ h] 9 repair+ ! mis*ief4 ,to be able to conv]se really well1 y mu/ read mu*1 treasure 9 y\r memory ! pe>ls ( :at y read2 y mu/ h a quick compreh5sion1 obs]ve pass+ ev5ts1 & li/5 att5tively :5ev] !re is any opportunity ( acquir+ k4 ,a quick tact is necess>y1 too1 9 conv]sation4 ,to conv]se ) an entirely un$ucat$ p]son ^u lit]ature1 int]l>d+ y\r rem>ks ) quotations1 is ill-br$4 ,x places !m 9 an awkw>d situation1 & does n add to y\r popul>ity4 ,9 conv]s+ ) p]sons ( ref9em5t & intellig5ce1 d n endeavor to attract _! admiration by p\r+ =? e item ( y\r own in=mation ^u ! subject "u consid]ation1 b li/5 z well z talk1 & mode/ly foll[ _! lead4 ,i d n mean1 to ass5t to any op9ion !y may advance1 if y really diff] 9 y\r own ta/es1 b d n be too ready to %[ y\r sup]ior judgm5t or in=mation4 ,avoid argum5t2 x is n conv]sation1 & frequ5tly leads to ill feel+4 ,if y are un=tunately drawn into an argum5t1 keep y\r temp] "u p]fect control1 & if y f9d y\r adv]s>y is gett+ too w>m1 endeavor to introduce "s o!r topic4 ,avoid c>efully any allusion to ! age or p]sonal defects ( y\r companion1 or any "o :o may be 9 ! room1 & be v c>eful 9 y\r language :5 speak+ ( a /rang] to ano!r p]son4 ,i h he>d a lady inquire ( a g5tleman1 :o t frightful girl 9 blue c\ld be1 & receive ! in=mation t ! lady 9 "q 0 ! g5tleman's own si/]4 ,be c>eful1 :5 travel+1 n to w\nd ! feel+s ( y\r fri5ds 9 ano!r c\ntry or city1 by und]rat+ _! native place1 or attempt+ to prove ! sup]iority ( y\r own home ov] !irs4 ,v "y girls are apt to suppose1 f :at !y obs]ve 9 old] ones1 t !re is "s p>ticul> mann] to be put on1 9 talk+ to g5tlem51 &1 n kn[+ exactly :at x is1 !y are emb>rass$ & res]v$2 o!rs obs]ve c]ta9 airs & looks1 us$ by _! eld]s 9 ?is int]c\rse1 & try to imitate !m1 z a necess>y "p ( company behavi\rs1 &1 s become affect$1 & lose t fir/ ( *>ms1 simplicity1 natural grace4 ,to su*1 let me say1 y\r companions are 9 error2 x requires no peculi> mann]1 no?+ to be put on1 9 ord] to conv]se ) g5tlem51 any m ?an ) ladies2 & ! m pure & elevat$ y\r s5tim5ts are1 & ! bett] cultivat$ y\r intellect is1 ! easi] w y f9d x to conv]se pleasantly ) all4 ,"o good rule c be always foll[$ by "y ladies2 to conv]se ) a lady fri5d z if !re 7 g5tlem5 pres5t1 & to conv]se ) a g5tleman z if 9 ! room ) o!r ladies4 ,avoid affectation2 x is ! sure te/ ( a deceitful1 vulg> m9d4 ,! be/ cure is to try to h ^? virtues :i* y w\ld affect1 & !n !y w appe> naturally4 ,,*apt] ,,ii4 ,,dress4 ,a lady is nev] s well dress$ z :5 y _c rememb] :at %e we>s4 ,no tru] rem>k ?an ! above 0 ev] made4 ,su* an effect c only be produc$ :]e e "p ( ! dress h>monizes entirely ) ! o!r p>ts1 :]e ea* color or %ade suits ! we>]'s /yle completely1 & :]e !re is p]fect neatness 9 ea* detail4 ,"o gl>+ color1 or conspicu\s article1 w\ld entirely m> ! beauty ( su* a dress4 ,x is1 un=tunately1 too mu* ! cu/om 9 ,am]ica to we> any article1 or %ape 9 make1 t is fa%ionable1 )\t any reg>d to ! /yle ( ! p]son pur*as+ goods4 ,if x is ! fa%ion x mu/ be worn1 ?\gh x may greatly exagg]ate a slight p]sonal defect1 or conceal or m> :at w\ld o!rwise be a beauty4 ,x requires ! ex]cise ( "s judgm5t to decide h[ f> an individual may foll[ ! dictates ( fa%ion1 9 ord] to avoid ! appe>ance ( ecc5tricity1 & yet we> :at is peculi>ly becom+ to h] own face or figure4 ,ano!r fault ( our fair c\ntrywom5 is _! extravagance 9 dress4 ,no bett] advice c be giv5 to a "y p]son ?an to dress always accord+ to h] circum/ances4 ,%e w be m respect$ ) a simple w>drobe1 if x is kn[n ei!r t %e is dep5d5t ^u h] own ex]tions = support1 or is sav+ a husb& or fa!r f unnecess>y outlay1 ?an if %e wore ! mo/ co/ly fabrics1 & by s do+ incurr$ debt or burd5$ h] relatives ) heavy1 unw>rantable exp5se4 ,if neatness1 consi/5cy1 & good ta/e1 preside ov] ! w>drobe ( a lady1 exp5sive fabrics w n be ne$$2 = ) ! simple/ mat]ials1 h>mony ( color1 accurate fitt+ to ! figure1 & p]fect neatness1 %e w always appe> well dress$4 ,,g5]al ,,rules4 ,,neatness--,?is is ! fir/ ( all rules to be obs]v$ ) reg>d to dress4 ,p]fect cleanl9ess & c>eful adju/m5t ( ea* article 9 ! dress are indisp5sable 9 a f9i%$ toilet4 ,let ! hair be always smoo? & becom+ly arrang$1 ea* article exquisitely clean1 neat coll> & sleeves1 & tidy %oes & /ock+s1 & ! simple/ dress w appe> well1 :ile a torn or soil$ coll>1 r\gh hair1 or untidy feet w entirely ru9 ! effect ( ! mo/ co/ly & elaborate dress4 ,! _m articles requir$ 9 a lady's w>drobe make a neat arrangem5t ( h] draw]s & closets necess>y1 & also require c>e 9 select+ & keep+ goods 9 prop] ord]4 ,a f9e coll> or lace1 if tumbl$ or soil$1 w lose its beauty :5 contra/$ ) ! same article 9 ! co>se/ mat]ial p]fectly pure & smoo?4 ,ea* article ( dress1 :5 tak5 (f1 %\ld be plac$ c>efully & smoo?ly 9 its prop] place4 ,nice dresses %\ld be hung up by a loop on ! inside ( ! wai/b&1 ) ! skirts turn$ inside out1 & ! body turn$ inside ( ! skirt4 ,cloaks %\ld hang 9 smoo? folds f a loop on ! inside ( ! neck4 ,%awls %\ld be always fold$ 9 ! creases 9 :i* !y 7 pur*as$4 ,all f9e articles1 lace1 embroid]y1 & h&k]*iefs1 %\ld be plac$ by !mselves 9 a draw]1 always laid out smoo?ly1 & kept f du/4 ,furs %\ld be kept 9 a box1 alone1 & 9 summ] c>efully pack$1 ) a quantity ( lump camphor to protect f mo?s4 ,! bonnet %\ld always re/ ^u a /& 9 ! b&-box1 z ! %ape & trimm+ w bo? be injur$ by lett+ x lie ei!r on ! face1 sides1 or cr[n4 ,,adaptiv5ess--,let ea* dress worn by a lady be suitable to ! occasion ^u :i* %e we>s x4 ,a toilet may be z (f5sive to good ta/e & propriety by be+ too elaborate1 z by be+ slov5ly4 ,nev] we> a dress :i* is out ( place or out ( season "u ! impression t x w d = once1 or nobody w notice x4 ,x is 9 z bad ta/e to receive y\r morn+ calls 9 an elaborate ev5+ dress1 z x w\ld be to att5d a ball 9 y\r morn+ wrapp]4 ,,h>mony--,to appe> well dress$ )\t h>mony1 bo? 9 color & mat]ials1 is impossible4 ,:5 arrang+ any dress1 :e!r = home1 /reet1 or ev5+1 be c>eful t ea* color h>monizes well ) ! re/1 & let no "o article1 by its gl>+ co/l9ess1 make all ! re/ appe> mean4 ,a co/ly lace worn ov] a ?91 flimsy silk1 w only make ! dress appe> poor]1 n1 z "s suppose1 hide its defects4 ,a ri* trimm+ looks z badly ^u a *eap dress1 z a mean "o does ^u an exp5sive fabric4 ,obs]ve ?is rule always 9 pur*as+ goods4 ,"o co/ly article w entirely ru9 ! h>mony 9 a dress1 :i*1 )\t x1 ?\gh pla9 & inexp5sive1 w\ld be becom+ & beautiful4 ,d n save on ! dress or cloak to buy a m elaborate bonnet1 b let ! co/ be well equaliz$ & ! effect w be good4 ,a pla9 m]9o or d>k silk1 ) a clo? cloak1 w look mu* bett] ?an ! mo/ exp5sive velvet cloak ov] a *eap dela9e dress4 ,,fa%ion--,d n be too submissive to ! dictates ( fa%ion2 at ! same "t avoid oddity or ecc5tricity 9 y\r dress4 ,!re are "s p]sons :o w foll[1 9 defiance ( ta/e & judgm5t1 ! fa%ion to its mo/ extreme po9t2 ?is is a sure m>k ( vulg>ity4 ,e new /yle ( dress w admit ( adaptation to individual cases1 ?us produc+ a pleas+1 z well z fa%ionable effect4 ,n only good ta/e1 b heal? is (t5 sacrific$ to ! silly error ( dress+ 9 ! extreme ( fa%ion4 ,be c>eful to h y\r dress com=table & becom+1 & let ! prevail+ mode come into second>y consid]ation2 avoid+1 always1 ! o!r extreme ( oddity or ecc5tricity 9 co/ume4 ,,/yle ,,& ,,=m ,,( ,,dress--,be always c>eful :5 mak+ up ! v>i\s p>ts ( y\r w>drobe1 t ea* article fits y accurately4 ,n 9 ! outside g>m5ts alone mu/ ?is rule be foll[$1 an ill-fitt+ pair ( corsets1 or wr9kles 9 any o!r article ( ! "u-clo!s1 w make a dress set badly1 ev5 if x has be5 itself fitt$ ) ! utmo/ accuracy4 ,a /ock+ :i* is too l>ge1 w make ! boot uncom=tably tight1 & too small w compress ! foot1 mak+ ! %oe loose & untidy4 ,9 a dress1 no outlay ^u ! mat]ial w comp5sate = a badly fitt+ g>m5t4 ,a *eap calico made to fit ! =m accurately & easily1 w give ! we>] a m lady-l air ?an ! ri*e/ silk :i* ei!r wr9kles or is too tightly /ra9$ ov] ! figure4 ,coll>s or sleeves1 p9n$ ov] or tightly /ra9$ to meet1 w entirely m> ! effect ( ! prettie/ dress4 ,,economy--,& by economy ,i d n mean m]e *eapness4 ,to buy a poor1 flimsy fabric m]ely because ! price is l[1 is extravagance1 n economy2 /ill worse if y buy articles because !y are (f]$ *eap1 :5 y h no use = !m4 ,9 pur*as+ goods = ! w>drobe1 let ea* mat]ial be ! be/ ( its k9d4 ,! same am\nt ( sew+ t is put into a good mat]ial1 mu/ be put into a poor "o1 &1 z ! latt] w v soon wa% or we> out1 !re mu/ be ano!r "o to supply its place1 pur*as$ & made up1 :51 by buy+ a good article at fir/1 ?is "t & labor might h be5 sav$4 ,a good1 /rong mat]ial w be f\nd *eape/ 9 ! end1 ?\gh ! actual exp5diture ( money may be l>g] at fir/4 ,,com=t--,_m ladies h to trace mon?s ( sev]e suff]+ to an improp] disreg>d ( com=t1 9 prep>+ _! w>drobe1 or 9 exposure aft] !y are dress$4 ,! mo/ exquisite ball co/ume w nev] comp5sate = ! injury done by tight lac+1 ! prettie/ foot is de>ly paid = by ! pa9 a tight boot entails1 & ! mo/ graceful effects w n prev5t suff]+ f exposure to cold4 ,a light ball dress & exquisite arrangem5t ( ! hair1 too (t5 make ! we>] d>e ! inclem5cy ( ! colde/ night1 by we>+ a light %awl or hood1 to prev5t cru%+ delicate lace or fl[]s4 ,make x a fix$ rule to h ! head1 feet1 & *e/ well protect$ :5 go+ to a p>ty1 ev5 at ! risk ( a cru%$ fl[] or a /ray curl4 ,_m a fair head has be5 laid 9 a c(f91 a victim to consumption1 f ra%ly v5tur+ out ( a heat$ ball room1 flu%$ & excit$1 ) only a light protection aga9/ ke5 night air4 ,! excitem5t ( ! occasion may prev5t imm$iate discom=t 9 su* cases1 b x adds to ! subsequ5t dang]4 ,,details--,be c>eful always t ! details ( y\r dress are p]fectly f9i%$ 9 e po9t4 ,! small articles ( a w>drobe require con/ant c>e to keep 9 p]fect ord]1 yet !y w w(ully rev5ge !mselves if neglect$4 ,let ! coll>1 h&k]*ief1 boots1 gloves1 & belts be always :ole1 neat1 & adapt$ to ! dress4 ,a lace coll> w look z badly ov] a *9tz dress1 z a l95 "o w\ld ) velvet1 ?\gh ea* may be p]fect ( its k9d4 ,att5tion to ^! m9or po9ts are sure te/s ( ta/e 9 a lady's dress4 ,a %abby or ill fitt+ boot or glove w ru9 ! mo/ elaborate walk+ dress1 :ile "o ( mu* pla9] make & co>s] fabric w be becom+ & lady-l1 if all ! details are accurately fitt$1 clean1 & well put on4 ,9 arrang+ a dress = e occasion1 be c>eful t !re is no miss+ /r+1 hook1 or button1 t ! folds hang well1 & t e "p is ev5 & prop]ly adju/$4 ,let ! skirts hang smoo?ly1 ! outside ones be+ always ab\t an in* long] ?an ! "u ones2 let ! dress set smoo?ly1 c>efully hook$ or button$2 let ! coll> fit neatly1 & be fa/5$ firmly & smoo?ly at ! ?roat2 let %oes & /ock+s be :ole1 clean1 & fit nicely2 let ! hair be smoo? & glossy1 ! sk9 pure1 & ! colors & fabric ( y\r dress h>monize & be suitable = ! occasion1 & y w always appe> bo? lady-l & well-dress$4 ,,home ,,dresses4 ,,morn+ ,,dress--,! mo/ suitable dress = breakfa/1 is a wrapp] made to fit ! figure loosely1 & ! mat]ial1 except+ :5 ! w9t] wea!r requires wool5 goods1 %\ld be ( *9tz1 g+ham1 brilliante1 or musl94 ,a lady :o has *ildr51 or "o accu/om$ to p]=m = h]self light h\sehold duties1 w soon f9d ! advantage ( we>+ mat]ials t w wa%4 ,a l>ge apron ( dome/ic g+ham1 :i* c be tak5 (f1 if ! we>] is call$ to see unexpect$ visit]s1 w protect ! front ( ! dress1 & save wa%+ ! wrapp] too frequ5tly4 ,if a lady's dome/ic duties require h] att5tion = sev]al h\rs 9 ! morn+1 :il/ h] li/ ( acqua9tances is l>ge1 & %e has frequ5t morn+ calls1 x is be/ to dress = call]s be=e breakfa/1 & we> ov] ?is dress a loose sack & skirt ( dome/ic g+ham4 ,?is1 :ile protect+ ! dress p]fectly1 c be tak5 (f at a mom5t's notice if call]s are ann\nc$4 ,m>ri$ ladies (t5 we> a cap 9 ! morn+1 & lately1 "y girls h adopt$ ! fa%ion4 ,x is mu* bett] to let ! hair be p]fectly smoo?1 requir+ no cap1 :i* is (t5 worn to conceal ! lazy1 slov5ly arrangem5t ( ! hair4 ,a few mom5ts giv5 to mak+ ! hair smoo? & pres5table )\t any cov]+1 w n be wa/$4 ,slipp]s ( embroid]$ clo? are prettie/ ) a wrapp]1 & 9 summ] black morocco is ! mo/ suitable = ! h\se 9 ! morn+4 ,,dress ,,= ,,morn+ ,,visits--,a lady %\ld nev] receive h] morn+ call]s 9 a wrapp]1 unless !y call at an unusually e>ly h\r1 or "s unexpect$ dem& ^u h] "t makes x impossible to *ange h] dress aft] breakfa/4 ,on ! o!r h&1 an elaborate co/ume be=e d9n] is 9 excessively bad ta/e4 ,! dress %\ld be made to fit ! figure neatly1 f9i%$ at ! ?roat & wri/s by an embroid]$ coll> & cuffs1 &1 unless !re is a necessity = x1 9 loss ( ! hair or age1 !re %\ld be no cap or head dress worn4 ,a wrapp] made ) h&some trimm+1 op5 ov] a pretty :ite skirt1 may be worn ) propriety2 b ! simple dress worn = breakfa/1 or 9 ! ex]cise ( dome/ic duties1 is n suitable = ! p>lor :5 receiv+ visits ( c]emony 9 ! morn+4 ,,ev5+ ,,dress--,! home ev5+ dress %\ld be v>i$ accord+ to circum/ances4 ,if no visitor is expect$1 ! dress worn 9 ! morn+ is suitable = ! ev5+2 b to receive visitors1 x %\ld be ( light] mat]ial1 & a light head-dress may be worn4 ,= "y ladies1 at home1 ribbon or velvet are ! mo/ suitable mat]ials = a head-dress4 ,fl[]s1 unless !y be natural ones 9 summ]1 are 9 v bad ta/e1 except+ 9 cases :]e a p>ty ( invit$ gue/s are expect$4 ,d>k silk 9 w9t]1 & ?9 mat]ial 9 summ]1 make ! mo/ suitable dresses = ev5+1 & ! reception ( ! *ance-gue/s ladies 9 society may usually expect4 ,,walk+ ,,dresses--,walk+ dresses1 to be 9 good ta/e1 %\ld be ( quiet colors1 & nev] conspicu\s4 ,br[ns1 modes1 & neutral t9ts1 ) black & :ite1 make ! prettie/ dresses = ! /reet4 ,above all1 avoid we>+ sev]al bright colors4 ,"o may be worn ) p]fect propriety to take (f ! sombre effect ( a dress ( br[n or black1 b d n let x be too gl>+1 & we> b little ( x4 ,let ! boots be suffici5tly /rong & ?ick to protect ! feet f damp or du/1 & we> always neat1 clean1 nicely fitt+ gloves4 ,! entire effect ( ! mo/ ta/eful co/ume w be ru9$ if att5tion is n paid to ! details ( dress4 ,a soil$ bonnet cap1 untidy /r+s1 or torn gloves & coll> w utt]ly spoil ! prettie/ co/ume4 ,!re is no sur] m>k ( vulg>ity ?an ov] dress+ or gay dress+ 9 ! /reet4 ,let ! mat]ials be ( ! co/lie/ k9d1 if y w1 b d n ei!r we> ! exagg]ations ( ! fa%ion1 or conspicu\s colors4 ,let good ta/e dictate ! limits :]e fa%ion may rule1 & let ! colors h>monize well1 & be ( su* t9ts z w n attract att5tion4 ,,= ,,morn+ ,,calls--,! dress %\ld be pla91 & 9 w9t] furs & d>k gloves may be worn4 ,,= ,,bridal ,,calls--,! dress %\ld be ( light silk1 ! bonnet dressy1 & ei!r a ri* %awl or light cloak2 no furs1 & light gloves4 ,9 summ]1 a lace or silk mantle & :ite gloves %\ld be worn4 ,,%opp+ ,,dresses--,%\ld be ( su* mat]ial z w be> ! cru% ( a cr[d$ /ore )\t injury1 & nei!r lace or delicate fabrics %\ld ev] be worn4 ,a dress ( m]9o 9 w9t]1 ) a clo? cloak & pla9 velvet or silk bonnet is ! mo/ suitable4 ,9 summ]1 a dress & cloak ( pla9 mode-color$ ,lavella clo?1 or any o!r cool b /rong fabric1 ) a simply trimm$ /raw bonnet1 is ! be/ dress = a %opp+ excursion4 ,,/orm ,,dresses--,a lady :o is oblig$ to g out frequ5tly 9 bad wea!r1 w f9d x bo? a conv5i5ce & economy to h a /orm dress4 ,bo? dress & cloak %\ld be made ( a wool5 mat]ial1 7v>y+ ( c\rse ) ! season17 :i* w %$ wat]4 ,:ite skirts are entirely out ( place1 z1 if ! dress is held up1 !y w be 9 a few mom5ts disgracefully dirty4 ,a wool5 skirt1 made q %ort1 to cle> ! muddy /reets1 is ! prop] ?+4 ,/\t1 ?ick-sol$ boots1 & gloves ( ei!r silk1 beav]-clo?1 or lisle ?read1 are ! mo/ suitable4 ,! bonnet %\ld be ei!r ( /raw or felt1 simply trimm$2 &1 above all1 c>ry a l>ge umbrella4 ,! little light umbrellas are v pretty1 no d\bt1 b to be ( any real protection 9 a /orm1 ! umbrella %\ld be l>ge en\gh to protect ! :ole dress4 ,,m>ket+--,"h a dress ( ! mo/ inexp5sive k9d is ! be/4 ,!re is no sur] m>k ( vulg>ity1 ?an a co/ly dress 9 ! m>ket4 ,a *9tz is ! be/ skirt to we>1 & 9 w9t] a d>k *9tz skirt put on ov] a dela9e dress1 w protect x f baskets1 & ! unavoidable soils contract$ 9 a m>ket1 :ile x looks p]fectly well1 & c be wa%$ if requir$4 ,,travel+--,travel+ dresses %\ld be made always ( "s quiet color1 p]fectly pla91 ) a deep mantle or cloak ( ! same mat]ial4 ,:5 travel+ ) a "y babe1 a dress ( mat]ial t w wa% is ! be/1 b x %\ld be d>k & pla94 ,a conspicu\s travel+ dress is 9 v bad ta/e1 & jewelry or ornam5ts ( any k9d are entirely out ( place4 ,let ! dress be made ( d>k1 pla9 mat]ial1 ) a simple /raw or felt bonnet1 trimm$ ) ! same color z ! dress1 & a ?ick b>ege veil4 ,an ela/ic /r+ run ?r\gh a tuck made 9 ! middle ( ! veil1 w all[ "o half to fall ov] ! face1 :ile ! o!r half falls back1 cov]+ ! bonnet1 & protect+ x f du/4 ,if :ite coll>s & sleeves are worn1 !y %\ld be ( l951 p]fectly pla94 ,/rong boots & ?ick gloves are indisp5sable 9 travel+1 & a heavy %awl %\ld be c>ri$1 to meet any sudd5 *ange 9 ! wea!r4 ,corsets & petticoats ( d>k l95 are m suitable ?an :ite ones1 z !re is s mu* unavoidable du/ & mud con/antly meet+ a travel]4 ,,ev5+ ,,dresses--,mu/ be gov]n$ by ! numb] ( gue/s y may expect to meet1 & ! "* ( ! ent]ta9m5t to :i* y are invit$4 ,= small social companies1 a d>k silk 9 w9t]1 & a pretty lawn1 b>ege1 or :ite musl9 9 summ]1 are ! mo/ appropriate4 ,a light head-dress ( ribbon or velvet1 or a pla9 cap1 are ! mo/ suitable ) ?is dress4 ,= a l>g] p>ty1 l[-neck$1 %ort-sleev$ silk1 light color$1 or any ( ! ?9 goods made expressly = ev5+ we>1 ) kid gloves1 ei!r ( a color to mat* ! dress or ( :ite2 black lace mitt5s are admissible1 & fl[]s 9 ! hair4 ,a ball dress %\ld be made ( ei!r v dressy silk1 or light1 ?9 mat]ial made ov] silk4 ,x %\ld be trimm$ ) lace1 fl[]s1 or ribbon1 & made dressy4 ,! coiffure %\ld be elaborate1 & mat* ! dress1 be+ ei!r ( ribbon1 fea!r1 or fl[]s4 ,:ite kid gloves1 trimm$ to mat* ! dress1 & :ite or black sat9 slipp]s1 ) silk /ock+s1 mu/ be worn4 ,,m\rn+--,!re is su* a v>iety ( op9ion ^u ! subject ( m\rn+1 t x is extremely difficult to lay d[n any g5]al rules ^u ! subject4 ,"s we> v close black = a long p]iod1 = a di/ant relative2 :il/ o!rs w we> dressy m\rn+ = a %ort "t 9 a case ( dea? 9 ! imm$iate family4 ,!re is no rule ei!r = ! dep? ( m\rn+1 or ! "t :5 x may be laid aside1 & ,i mu/ conf9e my rem>ks to ! diff]5t degrees ( m\rn+4 ,= deep m\rn+1 ! dress %\ld be ( bombaz9e1 ,p>ramatta clo?1 dela9e1 b>ege1 or m]9o1 made up ov] black l9+4 ,! only appropriate trimm+ is a deep fold1 ei!r ( ! same mat]ial or ( crape4 ,! %awl or cloak mu/ be ( pla9 black1 )\t bord] or trimm+1 unless a fold ( crape be put on ! cloak2 ! bonnet %\ld be ( crape1 made p]fectly pla91 ) crape fac+s1 unless ! wid['s cap be worn1 & a deep crape veil %\ld be ?r[n ov] bo? face & bonnet4 ,black crape coll> & sleeves1 & black boots & gloves4 ,! next degree is to we> :ite coll> & sleeves1 a b[ ( crape ^u ! bonnet1 & pla9 :ite lace fac+s1 leav+ (f ! crape veil1 & sub/itut+ "o ( pla9 black net4 ,a little lat]1 black silk )\t any gloss1 trimm$ ) crape1 may be worn1 & dela9e or bombaz9e1 ) a trimm+ ( broad1 pla9 ribbon1 or a bias fold ( silk4 ,! next /age admits a silk bonnet trimm$ ) crape1 & lead color1 d>k purple1 or :ite figures on ! dress4 ,f ?is ! m\rn+ passes into second m\rn+4 ,"h a /raw bonnet1 trimm$ ) black ribbon or crape fl[]s1 or a silk bonnet ) black fl[]s on ! outside1 & :ite ones 9 ! face1 a black silk dress1 & gray %awl or cloak1 may be worn4 ,lead color1 purple1 lav5d]1 & :ite1 are all admissible 9 second m\rn+1 & ! dress may be light5$ gradually1 a :ite bonnet1 %awl1 & light purple or lav5d] dress1 be+ ! dress usually worn la/1 be=e ! m\rn+ is ?r[n aside entirely1 & colors resum$4 ,x is especially to be recomm5d$ to buy always ! be/ mat]ials :5 mak+ up m\rn+4 ,crape & wool5 goods ( ! f9e/ quality are v exp5sive1 b a *eap] article w we> mis]ably2 !re is no great] error 9 economy ?an pur*as+ *eap m\rn+1 = no goods are s inf]ior1 or we> out & gr[ ru/y s soon4 ,,*apt] ,,iii4 ,,travel+4 ,!re is no situation 9 :i* a lady is m expos$ ?an :5 %e travels1 & !re is no position :]e a dignifi$1 lady-l deportm5t is m indisp5sable & m c]ta9 to comm& respect4 ,if y travel "u ! escort ( a g5tleman1 give him z little tr\ble z possible2 at ! same "t1 d n int]f]e ) ! arrangem5ts he may make = y\r com=t4 ,x is be/1 :5 />t+ ^u y\r j\rney1 to h& y\r escort a suffici5t sum ( money to cov] all y\r exp5ses1 reta9+ y\r pocket book 9 case y %\ld wi% to use x4 ,h a /rong pocket made 9 y\r upp] petticoat1 & 9 t c>ry y\r money1 only res]v+ 9 y\r dress pocket a small sum = incid5tal exp5ses4 ,9 y\r travel+ sat*el c>ry an oil sk9 bag1 conta9+ y\r sponge1 too? & nail bru%es1 & "s soap2 h also a calico bag1 ) hair bru% & comb1 "s p9s1 hair p9s1 a small mirror1 & "s t[els4 ,9 ?is sat*el c>ry also "s crack]s1 or s&wi*es1 if y w be long en\gh ^u ! road to ne$ a lun*eon4 ,9 y\r c>pet bag1 c>ry a l>ge %awl1 & if y w travel by night1 or /op :]e x w be inconv5i5t to op5 y\r trunks1 c>ry y\r night clo!s1 & :at clean l95 y may require1 9 ! c>pet bag4 ,x is be/ to h y\r "n & address engrav$ ^u ! plate ( y\r c>pet bag1 & to sew a :ite c>d1 ) y\r "n & ! address to :i* y are travel+1 9 cle>1 pla9 lett]s ^u x4 ,if y c>ry a novel or any o!r read+1 x is be/ to c>ry ! book 9 y\r sat*el1 & n op5 ! c>pet bag until y are ready = ! night4 ,if y are to pass ! night 9 ! c>s1 c>ry a w>m wool5 or silk hood1 t y may take (f y\r bonnet at night4 ,no "o c sleep com=tably 9 a bonnet4 ,c>ry also1 9 ?is case1 a l>ge %awl to wrap r\nd y\r feet4 ,"o rule to be always obs]v$ 9 travel+ is punctuality4 ,rise e>ly en\gh to h ample "t = arrang+ ev]y?+ ne$ful = ! day's j\rney4 ,if y sleep ^u ! boat1 or at a hotel1 always give directions to ! s]vant to wak5 y at an h\r suffici5tly e>ly to all[ ample "t = prep>ation4 ,x is bett] to be all ready tw5ty m9utes too soon1 ?an five m9utes late1 or ev5 late en\gh to be annoy$ & heat$ by hurry+ at ! la/ mom5t4 ,a lady w always dress pla9ly :5 travel+4 ,a gay dress1 or f9]y ( any sort1 :5 9 a boat1 /age1 or c>1 lays a woman op5 to ! mo/ sev]e miscon/ruction4 ,we> always neutral t9ts1 & h ! mat]ial made up pla9ly & sub/antially1 b avoid c>efully any article ( dress t is gl>+ or conspicu\s4 ,above all1 nev] we> jewelry1 7unless x be y\r wat*17 or fl[]s2 !y are bo? 9 excessively bad ta/e4 ,a quiet1 unpret5d+ dress1 & dignifi$ demeanor1 w insure = a lady respect1 ?\gh %e travel alone f ,ma9e to ,florida4 ,if y are oblig$ to pass ! night ^u a /eamboat secure1 if possible1 a /at]oom4 ,y w f9d ! luxury ( be+ alone1 able to retire & rise )\t witnesses1 fully comp5sates = ! extra *>ge4 ,be=e y retire1 f9d out ! position & numb] ( ! /at]oom occupi$ by y\r escort1 9 case y wi% to f9d him dur+ ! night4 ,9 times ( t]ror1 f accid5t or dang]1 su* c>e w be f\nd invaluable4 ,y may n be able to obta9 a /at]oom ^u all occasions :5 travel+1 & mu/ !n sleep 9 ! ladies' cab94 ,x is be/1 9 ?is case1 to take (f ! dress only1 m]ely loos5+ ! /ays & skirts1 &1 unless y are sick1 y may sit up to read until q a late h\r4 ,nev] all[ y\r escort to accompany y into ! cab94 ,! saloon is op5 always to bo? ladies & g5tlem51 & ! cab9 is = ladies alone4 ,_m ladies are suffici5tly ill-br$ to ask a husb& or bro!r into ! cab91 & keep him !re talk+ = an h\r or two1 totally ov]look+ ! fact t by s do+ %e may be keep+ o!rs1 suff]+1 p]haps1 ) sickness1 f remov+ _! dresses to lie d[n4 ,su* conduct is n only excessively ill-br$1 b int5sely selfi%4 ,!re is sc>cely any situation 9 :i* a lady c be plac$1 m admirably adapt$ to te/ h] good bre$+1 ?an 9 ! sleep+ cab9 ( a /eam-boat4 ,if y are s un=tunate z to suff] f sea-sickness1 y\r *ances = usefulness are limit$1 & pati5t suff]+ y\r only res\rce4 ,9 ?is case1 nev] leave home )\t a /raw-cov]$ bottle ( br&y1 & ano!r ( camphor1 9 y\r c>pet-bag4 ,if y are n sick1 be v c>eful n to keep ! *amb]maid f ^? :o are suff]+2 %\ld y require h] s]vices1 dismiss h] z soon z possible4 ,z acqua9tances1 =m$ dur+ a j\rney1 are n recogniz$ aft]w>ds1 unless mutually agreeable1 d n refuse ei!r a pleasant ^w or any little (f] ( s]vice f y\r companions2 &1 on ! o!r h&1 be ready to aid !m1 if 9 y\r p[]4 ,9 e case1 selfi%ness is ! root ( all ill-bre$+1 & x is nev] m conspicu\sly display$ ?an 9 travel+4 ,a c\rte\s mann]1 & graceful (f] ( s]vice are valu$ highly :5 (f]$1 & ! giv] loses no?+ by h] civility4 ,:5 9 ! c> if y f9d ! ex]tion ( talk+ pa9ful1 say s frankly2 y\r escort _c be (f5d$4 ,d n cont9ually pe/] ei!r y\r companion or ! conductor ) que/ions1 su* z ,:]e are we n[8 ,:5 %all we arrive8 ,if y are we>i$1 ?is impati5ce w only make ! j\rney /ill m t$i\s4 ,try to occupy y\rself ) look+ at ! c\ntry ?r\gh :i* y are pass+1 or ) a book4 ,if y are travel+ )\t any escort1 speak to ! conductor be=e y />t1 reque/+ him to att5d to y :il/ 9 ! c> or boat "u 8 control4 ,sit quietly 9 ! c>s :5 !y rea* ! depot until ! fir/ bu/le is ov]1 & !n engage a port] to procure = y a hack1 & get y\r baggage4 ,if ^u a boat1 let "o ( ! s]vants p]=m ?is (fice1 be+ c>eful to fee him = x4 ,make an engagem5t ) ! hackman1 to take y only 9 8 hack1 & enquire 8 *>ge be=e />t+4 ,9 ?is way y avoid unpleasant company dur+ y\r drive1 & ov]*>ge at ! end ( x4 ,if y expect a fri5d to meet y at ! end ( y\r j\rney1 sit ne> ! door ( ! /eam-boat saloon1 or 9 ! ladies' room at ! c> depot1 t he may f9d y easily4 ,!re are _m little civilities :i* a true g5tleman w (f] to a lady travel+ alone1 :i* %e may accept1 ev5 f an entire /rang]1 ) p]fect propriety2 b1 :ile c>eful to ?ank him c\rte\sly1 :e!r y accept or decl9e 8 att5tions1 avoid any advance t[>ds acqua9tance%ip4 ,if he sits ne> y & seems dispos$ to be imp]t95t1 or obtrusive 9 8 att5tions or conv]sation1 l[] y\r veil & turn f him1 ei!r look+ f ! w9d[ or read+4 ,a dignifi$1 mode/ res]ve is ! sure/ way to repel imp]t95ce4 ,if y f9d y\rself1 dur+ y\r j\rney1 9 any awkw>d or emb>rass+ situation1 y may1 )\t impropriety1 reque/ ! assi/ance ( a g5tleman1 ev5 a /rang]1 & he w1 probably1 p]=m ! s]vice reque/$1 receive y\r ?anks1 & !n relieve y ( 8 pres5ce4 ,nev]1 ^u any acc\nt1 or "u any provocation1 return rud5ess by rud5ess4 ,no?+ w rebuke incivility 9 ano!r s surely z p]fect c\rtesy 9 y\r own mann]4 ,_m w be %am$ into apology1 :o w\ld annoy y = h\rs1 if y enc\rag$ !m by acts ( rud5ess on y\r own "p4 ,9 travel+ alone1 *oose1 if possible1 a seat next to ano!r lady1 or ne> an eld]ly g5tleman4 ,if y\r neighbor seems dispos$ to %ort5 ! "t by conv]s+1 d n be too ha/y 9 *eck+ him4 ,su* acqua9tances end ) ! j\rney1 & a lady c always s deport h]self t %e may beguile ! "t pleasantly1 )\t1 9 ! lea/1 compromis+ h] dignity4 ,any slight att5tion1 or an apology made = cru%+ or incommod+ y1 is be/ ackn[l$g$ by a c\rte\s b[1 9 sil5ce4 ,,*apt] ,,iv4 ,,h[ ,,to ,,behave ,,at ,a ,,hotel4 ,9 ,am]ica1 :]e ! mania = travel+ ext5ds ?r\gh all classes1 f ! highe/ to ! l[e/1 a few h9ts ^u deportm5t at a hotel w n be amiss1 & ^! h9ts are especially address$ to ladies travel+ alone4 ,:5 y arrive at ! hotel1 enquire at once = ! proprietor4 ,tell him y\r "n & address1 & ask him to conduct y to a good room1 nam+ ! l5g? ( "t y purpose occupy+ x4 ,y may also reque/ him to wait ^u y to ! table1 & allot y a seat4 ,z ! h\rs = meals1 at a l>ge hotel1 are v num]\s1 x is be/ to m5tion ! "t :5 y wi% to breakfa/1 d9e1 or sup4 ,if y /ay m ?an "o day at ! hotel1 d n tax ! proprietor ) ! duty ( escort+ y to ! table m ?an once4 ,reque/ "o ( ! wait]s always to meet y z y ent]1 & wait ^u y to y\r seat4 ,?is saves ! emb>rassm5t ( cross+ ! room entirely unatt5d$1 :ile x %[s o!rs t y are a resid5t at ! h\se4 ,! wait] w !n take y\r ord] = ! di%es y wi%4 ,give ?is ord] 9 a l[ tone1 & d n h>ass ! man by contradict+ y\rself sev]al times2 decide :at y want be=e y ask = x1 & !n give y\r ord] quietly b di/9ctly4 ,use1 always1 ! butt]-knife1 salt-spoon1 & sug>-tongs1 ?\gh y may be entirely alone 9 ! use ( !m4 ,! att5tion to ! small details ( table etiquette is "o ( ! sure/ m>ks ( good bre$+4 ,if any trifl+ civility is (f]$ by ! g5tleman beside y1 or opposite to y1 ?ank him civilly1 if y ei!r accept or decl9e x4 ,?ank ! wait] = any extra att5tion he may (f]4 ,rememb] t a lady-l deportm5t is always mode/ & quiet4 ,if y meet a fri5d at table1 & conv]se1 let x be 9 a tone ( voice suffici5tly l\d = him to he>1 b n l\d en\gh to rea* e>s = :i* ! rem>ks are n int5d$4 ,a boi/]\s1 l\d voice1 l\d laught]1 & bold deportm5t1 at a hotel1 are sure signs ( vulg> bre$+4 ,:5 y h f9i%$ y\r meal1 cross ! room quietly2 if y g into ! p>lor1 d n attract att5tion by a ha/y entrance1 or =w>d mann]1 b take ! seat y may select1 quietly4 ,! acqua9tances made 9 a hotel may be dropp$ aft]w>ds1 if desirable1 )\t rud5ess1 & a pleasant greet+ to o!r ladies :om y may recognize f meet+ !m 9 ! entries or at table1 is c\rte\s & well-br$2 be c>eful1 h[ev]1 n to =ce att5tions :]e y see !y are n agreeably receiv$4 ,a lady's dress1 :5 alone at a hotel1 %\ld be ( ! mo/ mode/ k9d4 ,at breakfa/ let h] we> a close1 morn+ dress1 & nev]1 ev5 at supp]1 appe> alone at ! table ) b>e arms or neck4 ,if %e comes 9 late f ! op]a or a p>ty1 9 full dress1 %e %\ld n come into ! supp]-room1 unless h] escort accompanies h]4 ,a travel+ or walk+-dress c be worn ) p]fect propriety1 at any meal at a hotel1 z x is usually travel]s :o are ! gue/s at ! table4 ,aft] breakfa/1 pass an h\r or two 9 ! p>lor1 unless y are go+ out1 :il/ ! *amb]maid puts y\r room 9 ord]4 ,y %\ld1 be=e leav+ ! room1 lock y\r trunk1 & be c>eful n to leave money or tr9kets ly+ ab\t4 ,:5 y g out1 lock y\r door1 & give ! key to ! s]vant to h& to ! cl]k ( ! (fice1 :o w give x to y :5 y return4 ,y may d ?is1 ev5 if y leave ! room 9 disord]1 z ! *amb]maids all c>ry duplicate keys1 & c easily ent] y\r room 9 y\r abs5ce to arrange x4 ,! door %\ld n be left op51 z di%one/ p]sons1 pass+ along ! entry1 c\ld ent] )\t fe> ( be+ que/ion$4 ,if y see t ano!r lady1 ?\gh %e may be an entire /rang]1 is los+ h] coll>1 or ne$s att5tion call$ to any disord] 9 h] dress1 speak to h] 9 a l[ tone1 & (f] to assi/ h] 9 rem$y+ ! difficulty4 ,be c>eful always 9 op5+ a door or rais+ a w9d[ 9 a public p>lor1 t y are n incommod+ any "o else4 ,nev] sit d[n to ! piano un9vit$1 unless y are alone 9 ! p>lor4 ,d n take any book y may f9d 9 ! room away f x4 ,x is be/ always to c>ry writ+ mat]ials ) y1 b if ?is is n conv5i5t1 y c always obta9 !m at ! (fice4 ,9 a /range city x is be/ to provide y\rself ) a small map & guide book1 t y may be able to f9d y\r way f ! hotel to any giv5 po9t1 )\t tr\bl+ any "o = directions4 ,if y wi% = a c>riage1 r+1 & let ! wait] ord] "o = y4 ,:5 leav+ a hotel1 if y h be5 !re = sev]al days1 give ! wait] at table1 & ! *amb]maid1 a fee1 z y\r unprotect$ situation w probably call = _m s]vices out ( _! regul> r\t9e ( duties4 ,on leav+1 r+1 ord] y\r bill1 pay x1 /ate ! "t at :i* y wi% to leave1 & ! tra9 y w take to leave ! city4 ,reque/ a man to be s5t1 to c>ry y\r baggage to ! hack2 & if y require y\r next meal at an unusual h\r1 to be ready = y\r j\rney1 ord] x !n4 ,,*apt] ,v4 ,,ev5+ ,,p>ties4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,ho/ess4 ,! mo/ fa%ionable z well z pleasant way 9 ! pres5t day1 to ent]ta9 gue/s1 is to invite !m to ev5+ p>ties1 :i* v>y 9 size f ! company1 sociable1 soiree1 to ! p>ty1 p> excell5ce1 :i* is b "o /ep f ! ball4 ,! ent]ta9m5t ^u su* occasions1 may v>y ) ! ta/e ( ! ho/ess1 or ! caprice ( h] gue/s4 ,"s pref] danc+1 "s music1 "s conv]sation4 ,small p>ties call$ toge!r = dramatic or poetical read+s1 are n[ fa%ionable1 & v delightful4 ,9 writ+ an invitation = a small p>ty1 x is k9d1 z well z polite1 to specify ! numb] ( gue/s invit$1 t y\r fri5ds may dress to suit ! occasion4 ,to be ei!r too mu*1 or too little dress$ at su* times is emb>rass+4 ,= l>ge p>ties1 ! usual =mula is3 ,miss ,s----'s complim5ts to ,miss ,g----1 & reque/s ! pleasure ( h] company = ,w$nesday1 ,m>* #h?1 at #h o'clock4 ,su* an invitation1 address$ ei!r to an intimate fri5d or m]e acqua9tance1 w signify full dress4 ,if y\r p>ty is a musical soiree1 or y\r fri5ds meet = read+ or conv]sation alone1 say s 9 y\r invitation1 z-- ,miss ,s---- reque/s ! pleasure ( ,miss ,g----'s company1 on ,?ursday ev5+ next1 at #h o'clock1 to meet ! memb]s ( ! musical club1 to :i* ,miss ,s---- belongs2 or1 ,miss ,s---- expects a few fri5ds1 on ,monday ev5+ next1 at #h o'clock1 to take "p 9 "s dramatic read+s1 & w\ld be happy to h ,miss ,g---- jo9 ! p>ty4 ,always date y\r note ( invitation1 & put y\r address 9 "o corn]4 ,hav+ dispat*$ ^! notes1 ! next /ep is to prep>e to receive y\r gue/s4 ,if ! numb] invit$ is l>ge1 & y hire wait]s1 give !m notice sev]al days be=eh&1 & engage !m to come 9 ! morn+4 ,give !m full directions = ! supp]1 appo9t "o to op5 ! door1 ano!r to %[ ! gue/s to ! dress+ rooms1 & a ?ird to wait 9 ! g5tlem5's dress+-room1 to att5d to !m1 if _! s]vices are requir$4 ,if y use y\r own plate1 glass1 & *9a1 %[ ! wait]s :]e to f9d !m1 z well z ! table clo?s1 napk9s1 & o!r ?+s !y may require4 ,if y hire ! s]vice f ! confection]'s or re/aurateur's :]e y ord] y\r supp]1 y h only to %[ y\r wait]s :]e to spread supp]1 & tell !m ! h\r4 ,y w h to place at lea/ f\r rooms at ! disposal ( y\r gue/s--! supp] room1 & two dress+-rooms1 beside ! draw+-room4 ,9 ! morn+1 see t ! fires 9 y\r rooms are 9 good ord]2 & 9 ! draw+-room1 x is be/ to h x s arrang$ t ! heat c be less5$ t[>ds ev5+1 z ! cr[d1 & danc+1 w make x excessively uncom=table if ! rooms are too w>m4 ,see t ! lights are 9 good ord]1 & if y propose to h music in/ead ( danc+1 or to use y\r piano = danc+ music1 h x put 9 good tune 9 ! morn+4 ,if y int5d to dance1 & d n wi% to take up ! c>pets1 y w f9d x economical1 z well z mu* pleasant]1 to cov] !m ) co>se :ite musl9 or l952 be sure x is fa/5$ d[n smoo?ly1 firmly1 & drawn tightly ov] ! c>pets4 ,d n remove all ! *airs f ! p>lor2 or1 if ?is is necess>y1 leave "s 9 ! hall1 = ^? :o wi% to re/ aft] danc+4 ,9 ! d9+-room1 unless x w accommodate all y\r gue/s at once1 h a silk cord s fa/5$ t1 :5 ! room is full1 x c be drawn across ! door-way2 ^? foll[+ ! gue/s already 9 ! room1 w !n return to ! p>lor1 & wait _! turn4 ,a /ill bett] way1 is to set ! supp] table twice1 invit+ ! m>ri$ & eld]ly p to g into ! fir/ table1 & !n1 aft] x is ready = ! second "t1 let ! "y folks g up4 ,two dress+-rooms mu/ be ready2 "o = ! ladies1 & ! o!r = ! g5tlem54 ,h bo? ^! rooms com=tably heat$1 & well light$4 ,no?+ c be m disagreeable ?an cold1 ill-light$ rooms to dress 91 p>ticul>ly if y\r gue/s come 9 half-froz5 by ! cold ( a w9t]'s night1 or /ill worse1 damp f a /ormy "o4 ,be sure t !re is pl5ty ( wat]1 soap & t[els on ! wa%/&1 two or ?ree bru%es & combs on ! bureau1 two mirrors1 "o l>ge & "o small1 & a p9 cu%ion1 well fill$ ) l>ge & small p9s4 ,9 ! ladies' room1 h "o1 or if y\r p>ty is l>ge1 two wom5 to wait ^u y\r gue/s2 to remove _! cloaks1 ov]%oes1 & hoods1 & assi/ !m 9 smoo?+ _! dresses or hair4 ,aft] ea* gue/ removes h] %awl & hood1 let "o ( ! maids roll all ! ?+s %e lays aside into a bundle1 & put x :]e %e c easily f9d x4 ,x is an admirable plan1 & prev5ts mu* confusion1 to p9 to ea* bundle1 a c>d1 or /rip ( pap]1 7previ\sly prep>$17 ) ! "n ( ! p]son to :om x belongs writt5 cle>ly & di/9ctly ^u x4 ,^u ! bureau 9 ! ladies' room1 h a supply ( hair-p9s1 & a workbox furni%$ ) ev]y?+ requisite to repair any accid5t t may happ5 to ! dress ( a gue/4 ,x is well1 also1 to h ,eau de ,cologne1 h>t%orn1 & salts1 9 case ( sudd5 fa9tness4 ,9 ! g5tlem5's room1 place a clo!s bru% & boot-jack4 ,x is be/ to s5d out y\r invitations by y\r own s]vant1 or "o hir$ = t purpose especially4 ,x is ill-br$ to s5d invitations ei!r by ! dispat*1 or ?r\gh ! po/-(fice2 & besides be+ disc\rte\s1 y risk (f5d+ y\r fri5ds1 z ^! modes ( deliv]y are prov]bially unc]ta94 ,be dress$ & ready to receive y\r gue/s 9 good season1 z "s1 9 _! desire to be punctual1 may come be=e ! "t appo9t$4 ,x is bett] to be ready too soon1 ?an too late1 z y\r gue/s w feel pa9fully emb>rass$ if y are n ready to receive !m4 ,= ! e>ly "p ( ! ev5+1 take a position 9 y\r p>lor1 ne> or opposite to ! door1 t ea* gue/ may f9d y easily4 ,x is n necess>y to rema9 all ! ev5+ nail$ to ?is "o spot1 b /ay ne> x until y\r gue/s h all or ne>ly all assembl$4 ,late com]s w ( c\rse expect to f9d y ent]ta9+ y\r gue/s4 ,z ea* gue/ or p>ty ent] ! room1 advance a few /eps to meet !m1 speak+ fir/ to ! lady1 or if !re are sev]al ladies1 to ! elde/1 !n to ! y\ng] ones1 & f9ally to ! g5tlem54 ,if ! new com]s are acqua9t$ ) ^? already 9 ! room1 !y w leave y1 aft] a few words ( greet+1 to jo9 _! fri5ds2 b if !y are /rang]s to ! city1 or mak+ _! fir/ visit to y\r h\se1 introduce !m to a fri5d :o is well acqua9t$ 9 y\r circle1 :o w ent]ta9 !m till y c aga9 jo9 !m & introduce !m to o!rs4 ,d n leave ! room dur+ ! ev5+4 ,to see a ho/ess fidget+1 con/antly go+ 9 & out1 argues ill = h] tact 9 arrang+ ! h\se = company4 ,) well-tra9$ wait]s1 y ne$ give y\rself no uneas9ess ab\t ! arrangem5ts outside ( ! p>lors4 ,! p]fection ( good bre$+ 9 a ho/ess1 is p]fect ease ( mann]2 = ! "t %e %\ld appe> to h no ?\ght or c>e beyond ! pleasure ( h] gue/s4 ,h a wait] 9 ! hall to op5 ! front door1 & ano!r at ! head ( ! fir/ flight ( /airs1 to po9t out to ! ladies & g5tlem5 _! respective dress+-rooms4 ,nev] try to out%9e y\r gue/s 9 dress4 ,x is vulg> 9 ! extreme4 ,a ho/ess %\ld be dress$ z simply z is consi/5t ) ! occasion1 we>+1 if %e w1 ! ri*e/ fabrics1 exquisitely made1 b avoid+ any display ( jewels or gay colors1 su* z w be1 probably1 m conspicu\s ?an ^? worn by h] gue/s4 ,rememb]1 f ! mom5t y\r fir/ gue/ ent]s ! p>lor1 y mu/ =get y\rself entirely to make ! ev5+ pleasant = o!rs4 ,y\r duties w call y f "o gr\p to ano!r1 & require con/ant wat*fulness t no "o gue/ is slight$4 ,be c>eful t none ( ! company are left to mope alone f be+ unacqua9t$ ) o!r gue/s4 ,introduce g5tlem5 to ladies1 & g5tlem5 to g5tlem51 ladies to ladies4 ,x requires mu* skill & tact to make a p>ty = conv]sation only1 g (f pleasantly4 ,y mu/ invite only su* gue/s z w mutually please1 & y mu/ be c>eful ab\t introductions4 ,if y h a lit]>y lion ^u y\r li/1 x is well to invite o!r lions to meet him or h]1 t ! att5tion may n be con/antly conc5trat$ ^u "o p]son4 ,:]e y see a c\ple conv]s+ sl[ly & we>ily1 /ir !m up ) a few sprightly words1 & introduce a new p]son1 ei!r to make a trio1 or1 z a sub/itute 9 ! duet1 c>ry+ (f ! o!r "o ( ! c\ple to f9d a m cong5ial companion else:]e4 ,nev] int]rupt an e>ne/ or app>5tly int]e/+ conv]sation4 ,nei!r p>ty w ?ank y1 ev5 if y propose ! mo/ delightful sub/itute4 ,if y\r p>ty meet = read+1 h a table ) ! books 9 ! c5tre ( ! ap>tm5t1 t w divide ! room1 ^? read+ be+ on "o side1 ! li/5]s on ! o!r4 ,be c>eful "h n to endeavor to %9e above y\r gue/s1 leav+ to !m ! mo/ prom95t places1 & tak+1 *e]fully1 a subord9ate place4 ,on ! o!r h&1 if y are urg$ to display any tal5t y may possess 9 ?is way1 rememb] y\r only desire is to please y\r gue/s1 & if !y are really desir\s to li/5 to y1 comply1 gracefully & promptly1 ) _! wi%es4 ,if y h danc+1 & h n engag$ a b&1 x is be/ to hire a piani/ = ! ev5+ to play danc+ music4 ,y w f9d x exce$+ly we>isome to play y\rself all ! ev5+1 & x is ill-br$ to ask any gue/ to play = o!rs to dance4 ,?is victimiz+ ( "s oblig+ gue/ is only too common1 b no true lady w ev] be guilty ( su* rud5ess4 ,if !re are sev]al memb]s ( ! family able & will+ to play1 let !m divide ?is duty among/ !m1 or1 if y wi% to play y\rself1 d s4 ,if any gue/1 9 ?is case1 (f]s to relieve y1 accept _! k9dness = "o dance only4 ,"y p1 :o enjoy danc+1 b :o also play well1 w (t5 /ay on ! piano-/ool all ! ev5+1 because _! own good-nature w n all[ !m to compla91 & _! ho/ess wilfully1 or ?r\gh neglig5ce1 p]mits ! tax4 ,see t y\r gue/s are well provid$ ) p>tn]s1 introduc+ e g5tleman & lady :o dances1 to "o :o w dance well ) !m4 ,be c>eful t none sit /ill ?r\gh y\r neglig5ce 9 provid+ p>tn]s4 ,d n dance y\rself1 :51 by s do+1 y are prev5t+ a gue/ f enjoy+ t pleasure4 ,if a lady is want$ to make up a set1 !n dance1 or if1 late 9 ! ev5+1 y h b few lady danc]s left1 b d n int]f]e ) ! pleasure 9 o!rs4 ,if invit$1 say t y d n wi% to take ! place ( a gue/ ^u ! floor1 & introduce ! g5tleman :o invites y to "s lady fri5d :o dances4 ,x is v pleasant 9 a danc+ p>ty to h ices alone1 h&$ r\nd at ab\t t5 o'clock1 hav+ supp] set two or ?ree h\rs lat]4 ,!y are v refre%+1 :5 x w\ld be too e>ly to h ! m sub/antial supp] ann\nc$4 ,x is v cu/om>y n[1 ev5 9 l>ge p>ties1 to h no refre%m5ts b ice-cream1 lemonade1 & cake1 or1 9 summ]1 fruit1 cake1 & ices4 ,x is less tr\blesome1 z well z less exp5sive1 ?an a hot supp]1 & ! cu/om w be a good "o to adopt p]man5tly4 ,"o ^w ( w>n+ to all ho/esses4 ,y c nev] "k1 :5 y place w9e or br&y be=e y\r gue/s1 :om y may be tempt+ to utt] ru94 ,bett]1 f> bett]1 to h a reputation z /rict1 or mean1 ?an by y\r example1 or ! temptation y (f]1 to h ! s9 ^u y\r s\l ( hav+ put poison be=e ^? :o p>took ( y\r hospitality4 ,x is n necess>y2 hospitality & g5]osity d n require x1 & y w h ! approval ( all :o truly love y = y\r good qualities1 if y resolutely refuse to h ei!r w9e or any o!r intoxicat+ liquor ^u y\r supp]-table4 ,if ! ev5+ ( y\r p>ty is /ormy1 let a wait] /& 9 ! ve/ibule ) a l>ge umbrella1 to meet ! ladies at ! c>riage door1 & protect !m :il/ cross+ ! pavem5t & /eps4 ,:5 y\r gue/s take leave ( y1 x w be 9 ! draw+-room1 & let t f>ewell be f9al4 ,d n accompany !m to ! dress+-room1 & nev] /op !m 9 ! hall = a la/ ^w4 ,_m ladies d n l to display _! sortie du soiree be=e a cr[d$ room1 & y w be keep+ _! escort wait+4 ,say f>ewell 9 ! p>lor1 & d n repeat x4 ,if y\r p>ty is mix$1 t is1 conv]sation1 danc+1 & music are all m+l$1 rememb] x is y\r place to invite a gue/ to s+ or play1 & be c>eful n to (f5d any amateur p]=m]s by =gett+ to invite !m to favor ! company4 ,if !y decl9e1 nev] urge ! matt]4 ,if ! refusal proce$s f unwill+ness or inability on t occasion1 x is rude to insi/2 & if !y refuse = ! sake ( be+ urg$1 !y w be ju/ly puni%$ by a disappo9tm5t4 ,if y h gue/s :o1 p]=m+ badly1 w expect an invitation to play1 sacrifice _! desire to ! good ( ! o!rs1 pass !m by4 ,x is torture to li/5 to bad music4 ,d n ask a gue/ to s+ or play m ?an once4 ,?is is h] fair %>e1 & y h no "r to tax h] too sev]ely to ent]ta9 y\r o!r gue/s4 ,if1 h[ev]1 ! p]=mance is s pleas+ t o!rs ask = a repetition1 !n y too may reque/ x1 ?ank+ ! p]=m] = ! pleasure giv54 ,,*apt] ,,vi4 ,,ev5+ ,,p>ties4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,gue/4 ,^u receiv+ an invitation = an ev5+ p>ty1 answ] x imm$iately1 t y\r ho/ess may "k = h[ _m gue/s %e mu/ provide4 ,if1 aft] accept+ an invitation1 any un=ese5 ev5t prev5ts y\r keep+ ! engagem5t1 write a second note1 conta9+ y\r regrets4 ,! usual =m is3-- ,miss ,g---- accepts ) pleasure ,miss ,s----'s polite invitation = ,monday next2 or1 ,miss ,g---- regrets t a prior engagem5t w prev5t h] accept+ ,miss ,s----'s k9d invitation = ,monday ev5+4 ,punctuality is a m>k ( polit5ess1 if y\r invitation /ates ! h\r at :i* y\r ho/ess w be ready to welcome y4 ,d n be m ?an half an h\r lat] ?an ! "t nam$1 b if unavoidably deta9$1 make no apology :5 y meet y\r ho/ess2 x w be 9 bad ta/e to speak ( y\r want ( punctuality4 ,:5 y arrive at y\r fri5d's h\se1 d n /op to speak to any "o 9 ! hall1 or ^u ! /airs1 b g imm$iately to ! dress+ room4 ,! g5tleman :o accompanies y w g to ! door ( ! lady's room1 leave y1 to remove 8 own hat & ov]-coat1 & !n return to ! door to wait = y4 ,9 ! dress+-room1 d n pu% =w>d to ! mirror if y see t o!rs are be=e y !re4 ,wait = y\r turn1 !n p]=m ! ne$ful arrangem5ts ( y\r toilette quickly1 & re-jo9 y\r escort z soon z possible4 ,if y meet fri5ds 9 ! lady's-room1 d n /op !re to *at2 y keep y\r escort wait+1 & y\r fri5ds w jo9 y 9 ! p>lor a few mom5ts lat]4 ,avoid all confid5tial communications or private rem>ks 9 ! dress+-room4 ,y may be ov]he>d1 & give pa9 or cause annoyance by y\r untimely conv]sation4 ,:5 y ent] ! p>lor1 g imm$iately to y\r ho/ess1 & speak to h]2 if ! g5tleman att5d+ y is a /rang] to ! lady ( ! h\se1 introduce him1 & !n jo9 ! o!r gue/s1 z by delay+1 to conv]se too long ) y\r ho/ess1 y may prev5t h] speak+ to o!rs :o h arriv$ lat] ?an y\rself4 ,if y h no escort1 y may ) p]fect propriety s5d = ! ma/] ( ! h\se1 to wait ^u y f ! dress+-room to ! p>lor1 & z soon z y h spok5 to ! ho/ess1 ?ank y\r ho/ & release him1 z ! same att5tion may be requir$ by o!rs4 ,aga91 :5 alone1 if y meet a fri5d 9 ! dress+-room1 y may ask ! privilege ( ent]+ ! p>lor ) h] & h] escort2 or1 if %e also is alone1 !re is no impropriety 9 two ladies go+ into ! room unatt5d$ by a g5tleman4 ,:ile y ma9ta9 a *e]ful deportm5t1 avoid l\d talk+ & laugh+1 & /ill m c>efully avoid any action or ge/ure t may attract att5tion & make y conspicu\s4 ,:5 dress+ = a p>ty1 :ile y %[ t y honor ! occasion by a ta/eful dress1 avoid gl>+ colors1 or any conspicu\s ornam5t or /yle ( co/ume4 ,avoid long tete-a-tete conv]sations2 !y are 9 bad ta/e1 & to hold confid5tial communication1 especially ) g5tlem51 is /ill worse4 ,d n make any display ( affection = ev5 y\r de>e/ fri5d2 kiss+ 9 public1 or embrac+1 are 9 bad ta/e4 ,walk+ ) arms encircl+ wai/s1 or su* demon/rative tok5s ( love1 are m>ks ( l[ bre$+4 ,avoid cross+ ! room alone1 & nev] run1 ev5 if y feel emb>rass$1 & wi% to cross quickly4 ,if y are a musician1 & c]ta9 t y w conf] pleasure by a display ( y\r tal5ts1 d n make a %[ ( reluctance :5 invit$ to play or s+4 ,comply gracefully1 & aft] "o piece1 leave ! in/rum5t4 ,be c>eful to avoid ! appe>ance ( wi%+ to be invit$1 &1 above all1 nev] h9t t ?is w\ld be agreeable4 ,if y\r ho/ess has reque/$ y to br+ y\r notes1 & y are dep5d5t ^u !m1 br+ !m1 & quietly place !m on ! music /&1 or1 /ill bett]1 s5d !m 9 ! aft]noon4 ,x is a bett] plan1 if y are call$ ^u frequ5tly to contribute 9 ?is way to ! ev5+'s amusem5t1 to le>n a few pieces s z to play !m p]fectly well )\t notes4 ,nev] attempt any piece be=e company1 unless y are c]ta9 t y c play x )\t mi/ake or hesitation4 ,:5 y h f9i%$ y\r song or piece1 rise in/antly f ! piano /ool1 z y\r ho/ess may wi% to invite ano!r gue/ to take ! place4 ,if y h a reason = decl9+ to play1 d s decid$ly :5 fir/ invit$1 & d n *ange y\r decision4 ,if y\r ho/ess or any ( ! family play = ! gue/s to dance1 x is bo? polite & k9d to (f] to relieve !m2 & if truly polite !mselves1 !y w n take advantage ( ! (f]1 to ov] tax y\r good nature4 ,:5 o!rs are play+ or s++1 li/5 quietly & att5tively2 to laugh or talk l\dly :5 !re is music 9 ! room1 is rude1 bo? t[>d ! p]=m] & y\r ho/ess4 ,if y are conv]s+ at ! "t ! music beg9s1 & y f9d t y\r companion is n dispos$ to li/5 to ! p]=m] at ! h>p or piano1 conv]se 9 a l[ tone1 & take a position at "s di/ance f ! in/rum5t4 ,if ! rooms are n l>ge en\gh = all ! gue/s to dance at "o "t1 d n dance e set1 ev5 if invit$4 ,x is ill-br$ & selfi%4 ,:5 y g up to supp]1 d n accept any?+ f any g5tleman b ! "o :o has escort$ y f ! p>lor4 ,if o!rs (f] y1 z !y probably w1 any refre%m5t1 say t ,mr4 ---- 7nam+ y\r escort7 has gone to get y :at y desire4 ,he has a "r to be (f5d$1 if1 aft] tell+ him :at y wi% =1 he returns to f9d y already suppli$4 ,x is q z rude to (f] :at he br+s to ano!r lady4 ,h] escort is probably on ! same err& f :i* y\rs has j return$4 ,x may seem trivial & *ildi% to w>n a lady aga9/ putt+ cakes or bon-bons 9 h] pocket at supp]1 yet x is (t5 done by ^? :o w\ld deeply res5t ! accusation ( rud5ess or meanness4 ,x is n only ill-br$1 b x gives rise1 if se51 to suspicions t y are s little accu/om$ to society1 or s />v$ at home1 t y are ignorant ( ! =ms ( etiquette1 or are =c$ to ! !ft by positive hung]4 ,if y are oblig$ to leave ! company at an e>li] h\r ?an ! o!r gue/s1 say s to y\r ho/ess 9 a l[ tone1 :5 y h an opportunity1 & !n /ay a %ort "t 9 ! room1 & slip out unp]ceiv$4 ,by a =mal leave-tak+1 y may lead o!rs to suppose ! h\r lat] ?an x is 9 reality1 & ?us deprive y\r ho/ess ( o!r gue/s1 :o1 b = y\r example1 w\ld h rema9$ long]4 ,fr5* leave is pref]able to a =mal leave-tak+ ^u su* occasions4 ,if y rema9 until ! usual h\r = break+ up1 g to y\r ho/ess be=e y leave ! room1 express ! pleasure y h enjoy$1 & bid h] f>ewell4 ,)9 ! next week1 y %\ld call ^u y\r ho/ess1 if x is ! fir/ p>ty y h att5d$ at h] h\se4 ,if %e is an intimate fri5d1 ! call %\ld be made )9 a =tnight4 ,,*apt] ,,vii4 ,,visit+4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,ho/ess4 ,:5 y write to invite a fri5d to visit y1 "n a "t :5 x w be conv5i5t & agreeable = y to receive h]1 & if %e accepts y\r invitation1 s arrange y\r duties & engagem5ts t !y w n int]f]e ) y\r devot+ ! pr9cipal "p ( y\r "t to ! ent]ta9m5t ( y\r gue/4 ,if y h c]ta9 duties :i* mu/ be p]=m$ daily1 say s frankly :5 %e fir/ arrives1 & see t dur+ ! "t y are s occupi$ %e has "w1 read+1 music1 or "s o!r employm5t1 to pass ! "t away pleasantly4 ,h a room prep>$ especially = h] use1 & let h] occupy x alone4 ,_m p]sons h a dislike to any "o sleep+ ) !m1 & w be kept awake by a companion 9 ! room or b$4 ,above all1 d n put a *ild to sleep 9 ! *amb] ) y\r gue/4 ,! day be=e y\r fri5d arrives1 h h] room swept1 du/$1 & air$2 put clean1 fre% l95 ^u ! b$1 see t ! curta9s are 9 good ord]1 ! locks 9 p]fect repair1 & ! closet or w>drobe & bureau empty = h] clo!s4 ,h ^u ! bureau a p9 cu%ion well fill$1 hair p9s1 bru% & comb1 & two mirrors1 "o l>ge1 & "o small = ! h&1 z %e may wi% to smoo? h] hair1 )\t unpack+ h] own toilet articles4 ,^u ! wa%/&1 h two pit*]s full ( wat]1 a cup1 tumbl]1 soap-di% & soap1 bas91 bru%-di%1 & a sponge1 wa% rag1 & pl5ty ( clean t[els4 ,h bo? a fea!r b$ & a mattress ^u ! b$/ead1 t %e may place :i*ev] %e pref]s upp]mo/4 ,two %eets1 a blanket1 quilt1 & c\nt]pane1 %\ld be on ! b$1 & !re %\ld be two extra blankets 9 ! room1 %\ld %e require m cov]+ 9 ! night4 ,on ! mantel piece1 place a few books t %e may read1 if %e wi%es1 be=e sleep+4 ,h ^u ! mantel piece a box ( mat*es1 & if ! room is n light$ by gas1 h also a supply ( c&les 9 a box1 & a c&le/ick4 ,if ! room is n heat$ by a furnace1 be c>eful t ! fire is made e morn+ be=e %e rises1 & keep a good supply ( fuel 9 ! room4 ,besides ! l>g] *airs1 h a l[ "o1 to use :ile *ang+ ! %oes or wa%+ ! feet4 ,^u ! table1 place a full supply ( writ+ mat]ials1 z y\r gue/ may wi% to s5d ^w ( h] safe arrival be=e unpack+ h] own writ+-desk4 ,put two or ?ree po/age /amps ^u ?is table4 ,be sure t bells1 locks1 h+es1 & w9d[s1 are all 9 p]fect ord]4 ,be=e y\r gue/ arrives1 g to h] room4 ,if x is 9 w9t]1 h a good fire1 hot wat] on ! wa%/&1 & see t ! w9d[s are tightly clos$1 & ! room *e]ful ) sun%9e1 or pl5ty ( c&le or gas light4 ,if 9 summ]1 draw ! curta9s1 b[ ! %utt]s1 op5 ! w9d[s1 & h a fan ^u ! table4 ,x is well to h a ba? ready1 %\ld y\r gue/ desire t refre%m5t aft] ! du/ & heat ( travel+4 ,:5 ! "t arrives at :i* y may expect y\r gue/1 s5d a c>riage to ! /ation to meet h]1 &1 if possible1 g y\rself1 or s5d "s memb] ( ! family to welcome h] !re4 ,aft] h] baggage is on ! c>riage1 drive imm$iately to ! h\se1 & be c]ta9 all is ready !re = h] com=t4 ,z soon z %e is at y\r h\se1 h h] trunks c>ri$ imm$iately to h] own room1 & lead h] !re y\rself4 ,!n1 aft] w>mly assur+ h] h[ welcome %e is1 leave h] alone to *ange h] dress1 ba!1 or lie d[n if %e wi%es4 ,if h] j\rney has be5 a long "o1 & x is n ! usual h\r = y\r next meal1 h a sub/antial repa/ ready = h] ab\t half an h\r aft] h] arrival1 ) tea or c(fee4 ,if %e arrives late at night1 aft] %e has remov$ h] bonnet & ba!d h] face1 invite h] to p>take ( a sub/antial supp]1 & !n pity h] we>9ess & lead ! way to h] room4 ,%e may politely ass]t t %e c /ill sit up & talk1 b be c>eful y d n keep h] up too long2 & d n wak5 h] 9 ! morn+4 ,aft] ! fir/ day1 %e w1 ( c\rse1 desire to breakfa/ at y\r usual h\r1 b if %e has _h a long1 fatigu+ j\rney1 %e w be glad to sleep late ! fir/ day4 ,be c>eful t %e has a hot breakfa/ ready :5 %e does rise1 & take a seat at ! table to wait ^u h]4 ,aft] ! *amb]maid has arrang$ ! gue/-*amb] 9 ! morn+1 g 9 y\rself & see t all is 9 ord]1 & com=table1 & t !re is pl5ty ( fre% wat] & t[els1 ! b$ prop]ly made1 & ! room du/$4 ,!n d n g 9 aga9 ?r\gh ! day1 unless invit$4 ,if y are con/antly runn+ 91 to put a *air back1 op5 or %ut ! w9d[s1 or arrange ! furniture1 y w entirely de/roy ! pleasante/ "p ( y\r gue/'s visit1 by rem9d+ h] t %e is n at home1 & mu/ n take lib]ties1 ev5 9 h] own room4 ,x looks1 too1 z if y 7 afraid to tru/ h]1 & ?\ght %e w\ld injure ! furniture4 ,if y h *ildr51 =bid !m to ent] ! room y\r fri5d occupies1 unless %e invites !m to d s1 or !y are s5t !re ) a message4 ,if y\r h\sehold duties w occupy y\r "t = "s h\rs 9 ! morn+1 introduce y\r gue/ to ! piano1 book-case1 or picture-folio1 & place all at h] s]vice4 ,:5 y\r duties are f9i%$1 ei!r jo9 h] 9 h] own room1 or invite h] to sit ) y1 & "w1 *att+1 mean:ile1 toge!r4 ,if y keep y\r own c>riage1 place x at h] disposal z soon z %e arrives4 ,if %e is a /rang] 9 ! city1 accompany h] to ! po9ts ( int]e/ %e may wi% to visit1 & also (f] to %[ h] :]e to f9d ! be/ goods1 %\ld %e wi% to d any %opp+4 ,enquire ( y\r visitor if !re is any p>ticul> habit %e may wi% to indulge 91 su* z ris+ late1 retir+ e>ly1 ly+ d[n 9 ! daytime1 or any o!r habit t y\r family d n usually foll[4 ,if !re is1 arrange x s t %e may enjoy h] peculi>ity 9 com=t4 ,if !re is any di% :i* is di/a/eful to h]1 avoid plac+ x ^u ! table dur+ h] visit1 & if %e m5tions1 9 conv]sation1 any favorite di%1 h x frequ5tly plac$ be=e h]4 ,if %e is accu/om$ to eat j be=e retir+1 & y\r family d n take supp]1 see t some?+ is s5t to h] room e night4 ,if y\r fri5d has intimate fri5ds 9 ! same city1 beside y\rself1 x is an act ( k9dly c\rtesy to invite !m to d9n]1 tea1 or to pass a day1 & :5 calls are made1 & y see t x w\ld be pleasant1 invite ! call] to rema9 to d9n] or tea4 ,nev] accept any invitation1 ei!r to a p>ty1 ball1 or public ent]ta9m5t1 t does n include y\r gue/4 ,9 answ]+ ! invitation give t z y\r reason = decl9+1 :5 ano!r note w be s5t enclos+ an invitation = h]4 ,if ! invitation is f an intimate fri5d1 say1 9 answ]+ x1 t y\r gue/ is ) y1 & t %e w accompany y4 ,x is a mi/ak5 idea to suppose t hospitality & c\rtesy require con/ant att5tion to a gue/4 ,!re are times :5 %e may pref] to be alone1 ei!r to write lett]s1 to read1 or practice4 ,"s ladies foll[ a gue/ f "o room to ano!r1 nev] leav+ !m alone = a s+le in/ant1 :5 !y w\ld enjoy an h\r or two 9 ! libr>y or at ! piano1 b d n l to say s4 ,! be/ rule is to make y\r gue/ feel t %e is he>tily welcome1 & p]fectly at home4 ,:5 %e is ready to leave y1 see t h] trunks are /rapp$ 9 "t by ! s]vants1 h a c>riage ready to take h] to ! /ation1 h ! breakfa/ or d9n] at an h\r t w suit h]1 prep>e a lun*eon = h] to c>ry1 & let "s g5tleman 9 ! family escort h] to ! :>f1 *eck h] trunks1 & procure h] tickets4 ,if y\r gue/ is 9 m\rn+1 decl9e any invitations to p>ties or places ( amusem5t :il/ %e is ) y4 ,%[ h] by su* little att5tions t y sympa?ize 9 h] rec5t affliction1 & t ! pleasure ( h] society1 & ! love y be> h]1 make su* sacrifices ( gayety trifl+1 comp>$ ) ! sweet duty ( com=t+ h]4 ,,*apt] ,,viii4 ,,visit+4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,gue/4 ,z a fir/ rule ) reg>d to pay+ a visit1 ! be/ "o is1 nev] to accept a g5]al invitation4 ,in/ances are v common :]e wom5 7,i _c say ladies7 h1 ^u a slight acqua9tance1 & a ,:5 y are 9 ,c---- ,i %\ld be v happy to h y visit me1 actually gone to ,c---- f _! own home1 &1 ) bag & baggage1 qu>t]$ !mselves ^u ! hospitality ( _! newly made fri5d1 = weeks at a "t4 ,ev5 :]e !re is a long /&+ fri5d%ip x is n well to visit un9vit$4 ,x is impossible = y1 9 ano!r city1 to "k exactly :5 x w be conv5i5t = y\r fri5d to h y visit h]1 unless %e tells y1 & t w1 ( c\rse1 be a special invitation4 ,if y\r fri5ds are really desir\s to h y pay !m a visit1 !y w "n a "t :5 x w be conv5i5t & agreeable to h y come1 & y may accept ! invitation ) ! c]ta9ty t y w n incommode !m4 ,self-propos$ visits are /ill worse4 ,y1 9 a mann]1 =ce an invitation f y\r fri5d :5 y tell h] t y c come at a c]ta9 "t1 unless y h previ\sly arrang$ to let h] "k :5 y c be h] gue/4 ,9 t case1 y\r own "t is und]/ood to be ! mo/ agreeable = h]4 ,if1 :il/ travel+1 y pass ?r\gh a t[n :]e y h fri5ds :om y wi% to visit1 & :o w\ld be hurt if y omitt$ to d s1 g fir/ to a hotel1 & ei!r call or s5d ^w t y are !re4 ,!n1 x is optional ) !m to ext5d _! hospitality or n4 ,d n be (f5d$ if x is n done4 ,! love = y may be undim9i%$1 & ! desire to ent]ta9 y v great1 yet family reasons may r5d] su* an invitation z y expect1 impossible4 ,y\r fri5d may h engagem5ts or duties at ! "t1 t w\ld prev5t h] mak+ ! visit pleasant = y1 & wi% to po/pone ! invitation until %e c ent]ta9 y z %e wi%es4 ,to drive1 trunks & all1 9 su* a case1 to y\r fri5d's h\se1 )\t a ^w ( w>n+1 is unk9d1 z well z ill-br$4 ,y =ce h] to invite y to /ay1 :5 x may be inconv5i5t1 &1 ev5 if %e is really glad to see y1 & wi%es y to make a prolong$ visit1 y may feel c]ta9 %e w\ld h pref]r$ to "k y 7 com+4 ,if %e really loves y1 h] natural desire w\ld be to h ev]y?+ ready to give y a com=table reception1 & n h to leave y1 p]haps ) y\r travel+ co/ume on1 = an h\r or two1 :ile %e prep>es a room = y4 ,x is n en\gh to say1 at su* a "t1 ,don't m9d me1 or1 ,treat me z "o ( ! family4 ,h[ev] mu* h] polit5ess or love may conceal annoyance1 be sure1 9 h] secret he>t %e does m9d y1 & rememb] y are n "o ( h] private family4 ,to take ! lib]ty ( go+ to ! h\se ( a m]e acqua9tance1 = a night or two1 :ile travel+1 )\t invitation1 is mak+ a conv5i5ce ( !m1 & we>s ! appe>ance ( wi%+ to save ! cu/om>y hotel-bill1 s1 :ile x is extremely ill-br$ & imp]t95t1 x is also excessively mean4 ,9 case ( relation%ip1 or long intimate fri5d%ip1 an unexpect$ visit may be p>don$ & give pleasure1 b x is bett] to avoid x1 z ! pleasure w surely be increas$ if y\r relative or fri5d has "t to prep>e = y\r reception z h] love w prompt1 & arrange h] duties & engagem5ts to really enjoy y\r company4 ,:5 y receive an invitation by lett] to visit a fri5d1 answ] x imm$iately1 ?ank+ h] = h] pr(f]$ hospitality1 & say decid$ly !n :e!r y c accept or decl9e4 ,if y accept ! invitation1 /ate 9 y\r lett] by :at tra91 & at :at h\r y w arrive1 t %e may meet y1 & let no?+ b positive necessity keep y f be+ punctually at ! "t & place appo9t$4 ,to l+] by ! way1 = m]e pleasure1 & make h] come sev]al times to meet y1 is unk9d1 z well z ill-br$4 ,if y are unavoidably deta9$1 write to h]1 /ate ! reason t w prev5t y\r keep+ ! appo9tm5t1 & "n ano!r "t :5 y c come4 ,x is well 9 answ]+ a lett] ( invitation1 to /ate ! limits ( y\r visit1 & !n to keep !m4 ,if %e is unwill+ to let y g1 & y are tempt$ to /ay1 t v fact promises well = ! pleasure ( a second visit4 ,x is bett] to leave :ile all w regret y1 ?an to l+] on until y h worn out y\r welcome4 ,inquire1 z soon z possible aft] y\r arrival1 :at are ! regul> habits ( ! family2 ! h\rs = ris+1 = meals1 & = retir+1 & !n be punctual 9 y\r att5dance4 ,_m ladies are v c]emoni\s ab\t wait+ = a gue/1 & by delay 9 y\r room1 or inatt5tion to ! "t1 :5 y are out1 y w keep ! :ole family wait+4 ,if y d n wake e>ly en\gh = ! usual breakfa/ h\r1 reque/ ! *amb]maid to knock at y\r door 9 "t = y to be ready to g d[n ) ! family4 ,be=e y leave y\r room 9 ! morn+1 take ! clo!s (f y\r b$1 ?r[ ! upp] b$ ov] ! foot-bo>d1 & !n op5 all ! w9d[s 7unless x /orms71 t room & b$ may be ?or\ghly air$ be=e y sit !re aga94 ,aft] breakfa/1 ask y\r ho/ess if y c be ( any assi/ance to h] 9 ! h\sehold duties4 ,if %e decl9es y\r s]vices1 d n foll[ h] f room to room :il/ %e is ?us engag$1 b take y\r "w1 books1 or music to ! sitt+ room or p>lor1 until y\r own room is ready = y4 ,by ?us prov+ t y c occupy y\rself pleasantly1 :ile %e is away1 y make x less annoy+ to h] to feel ! obligation to leave y4 ,z soon z y see t %e is ready to sew & *at1 leave y\r book1 or1 if 9 y\r own room1 come to ! sitt+ room1 :]e %e is1 & "w ) h]4 ,x is polite & k9d1 if y see t %e has a l>ge supply ( family sew+1 to (f] to assi/ h]1 b if %e positively decl9es y\r aid1 !n h "s "w ( y\r own on h&1 t y may sew ) h]4 ,_m pleasant morn+s may be sp5t :ile visit+1 by "o lady read+ al\d :il/ ! o!r sews1 alt]nat+ ! "w4 ,x is a pretty complim5t to repay ! hospitality ( y\r ho/ess1 by work+ :il/ ) h] ^u "s piece ( fancy "w1 a *air cov]1 s(a cu%ion1 or pair ( ottomans1 pres5t+ !m to h] :5 f9i%$1 z a keepsake4 ,!y w be duly appreciat$1 & rem9d h] con/antly ( ! pleasures ( y\r visit4 ,if y pass ! morn+ out ( ! h\se1 rememb] y\r "t is h]s1 & h no engagem5t to int]f]e ) ! plans %e has laid = ent]ta9+ y4 ,obs]ve ?is rule dur+ y\r :ole visit1 & d n act indep5d5t ( h] plans4 ,by con/antly =m+ engagem5ts )\t h] k1 go+ out )\t h]1 or /ay+ 9 :5 %e has made "s excursion or p>ty = y\r pleasure1 y insult h]1 by intimat+ t h] h\se is no m to y ?an a hotel1 to sleep & eat 91 :ile y\r pleasures lie else:]e4 ,aft] d9n]1 retire = an h\r to y\r own room1 t y\r ho/ess may lie d[n if %e is accu/om$ to d s4 ,if ! h\rs kept are lat] ?an y h be5 accu/om$ to1 or if ! gayety ( ! family keeps y out at p>ty or op]a1 x is be/ to sleep aft] d9n]1 ev5 if y d n always d x4 ,to give signs ( we>9ess 9 ! ev5+ w be excessively rude1 imply+ want ( enjoym5t1 & mak+ y\r ho/ess feel hurt & annoy$4 ,if y h %opp+ to d1 f9d out :]e ! be/ /ores are1 & !n g to !m alone1 unless y\r ho/ess w accompany y ^u simil> bus9ess ( h] own4 ,d n tax h] good nature to g1 m]ely = ! sake ( aid+ y z guide4 ,if "o ( ! *ildr5 9 ! family is famili> ) ! /ores & /reets1 ask h] to accompany y1 & be c>eful to ackn[l$ge ! k9dness by buy+ some?+ especially = ! *ild :il/ %e is out ) y1 if x is only "s cakes or bonbons4 ,*oose an h\r :5 y are c]ta9 y\r ho/ess has made no o!r engagem5t = y1 or :ile %e is busy 9 h] dome/ic duties1 = ^! %opp+ excursions4 ,(f]1 :5 y are go+1 to att5d to any %opp+ %e may want1 & ask if !re is any commission y c execute = h] :ile y are out4 ,:ile on a visit to "o fri5d1 d n accept too _m invitations f o!rs1 & avoid sp5d+ too mu* "t 9 pay+ calls :]e y\r ho/ess is n acqua9t$4 ,y owe ! great] portion ( y\r "t & society to ! lady ^: hospitality y are accept+1 & x is be/ to decl9e invitations f o!r h\ses1 unless !y inclose "o = y\r ho/ess also4 ,avoid pay+ any visits 9 a family n ^u good t]ms ) y\r ho/ess4 ,if su* a family are v de> fri5ds ( y\r own1 or y c claim an acqua9tance1 pleasant ^u bo? sides1 ) !m1 write1 & /ate c&idly ! reason :y y _c visit !m1 & !y w appreciate y\r delicacy4 ,if1 :ile on a visit to "o fri5d1 y receive an invitation to sp5d "s "t ) ano!r fri5d 9 ! same place1 accept x = ! p]iod :i* y h nam$ z ! t]m9ation ( y\r fir/ visit4 ,y insult y\r ho/ess by %ort5+ y\r visit to h] to accept ano!r invitation1 & q z mu* ( an insult is x1 to take ! "t f ! fir/ visit to g to pay ano!r1 & !n return to y\r fir/ ho/ess1 unless su* an arrangem5t has be5 made imm$iately ^u y\r arrival4 ,nev] invite any fri5d :o may call ^u y to /ay to d9n] or tea2 y w be tak+ a mo/ unw>rantable lib]ty 9 s do+4 ,?is is ! "r ( y\r ho/ess1 & if1 by h] sil5ce1 %e tacitly decl9es ext5d+ ?is c\rtesy1 y w be guilty ( imp]t95ce 9 usurp+ h] privilege4 ,nev] take any "o :o calls ^u y into any room b ! p>lor1 unless invit$ to d s by y\r ho/ess4 ,y h1 ( c\rse1 ! entree ( o!r rooms1 b y h no "r to ext5d ?is privilege to o!rs4 ,if y h _m g5tlem5 visit]s1 *eck too frequ5t calls1 & make no appo9tm5ts ) !m4 ,if !y %[ y any su* att5tion z to (f] to drive y to places ( int]e/1 or visit ) y picture gall]ies or public places1 always consult y\r ho/ess be=e accept+ su* civilities1 & decl9e !m if %e has made o!r engagem5ts = y4 ,if y receive an invitation to visit any place ( public amusem5t1 decl9e x1 unless "o ( ! family ) :om y are /ay+ is also invit$4 ,9 t case y may accept4 ,if ! g5tleman :o invites y is a /rang] to ! family1 introduce him to y\r ho/ess1 or m5tion h] "n 9 conv]sation4 ,he w !n1 if he really desires y to accept 8 pr(f]$ att5tion1 include h] 9 ! invitation4 ,:5 visit+ 9 a family :]e ! memb]s are 9 m\rn+1 decl9e all invitations to p>ties or places ( public amusem5t4 ,x is an insult to !m to leave !m to jo9 9 pleasure f :i* _! rec5t affliction excludes !m4 ,y\r visit at su* a "t w be prompt$ by sympa?y 9 _! tr\ble1 & = ! "t x is ?\ghtful & delicate to make _! sorr[s y\rs4 ,if sudd5 sickness or family tr\ble come to y\r fri5d :il/ y are ) h]1 unless y c really be useful1 %ort5 y\r visit4 ,9 "t ( tr\ble families g5]ally l to be alone1 all 9 all to ea* o!r2 & a visitor is felt a con/ant re/ra9t4 ,if dea? comes :ile y are ) y\r fri5d1 endeavor to take f h] z mu* ( ! c>e z y c1 a really sympa?iz+ fri5d is an inexpressible com=t at su* a "t1 z ! try+ details :i* mu/ be tak5 9 *>ge by "s "o1 w be less try+ to h] ?an to a memb] ( ! family4 ,d ! necess>y %opp+ = y\r fri5d1 & relieve h] ( z mu* family c>e z y c4 ,let h] feel t y are really glad t y are ne> h] 9 h] affliction1 & repay ! hospitality %e (f]$ 9 h] season ( joy by %[+ h] t h] sorr[ makes h] /ill m de>1 & t1 :ile y c enjoy ! gayety ( h] h\se1 y w n flee f its m\rn+4 ,:5 y\r pres5ce c be ( no fur!r s]vice1 !n leave h]4 ,put out y\r wa%+ & iron+ :5 on a visit4 ,x is annoy+ & ill-br$ to ?r[ y\r soil$ clo!s into ! family wa%4 ,take ) y1 f home1 all ! writ+ & sew+ mat]ials y may require :ile pay+ y\r visit4 ,x is annoy+ to be con/antly reque/$ by a visitor to l5d h] scissors1 p9s1 ne$les1 or pap]2 no lady %\ld be )\t h] own portfolio & "w-box4 ,be v c>eful n to injure any article ( furniture 9 y\r sleep+ ap>tm5t1 & if1 un=tunately1 any?+ suff]s f y\r c>elessness1 h ! accid5t repair$1 or ! article replac$1 at y\r own exp5se4 ,:5 y\r visit is ov]1 give a pres5t to ea* ( ! s]vants1 v>y+ its value1 accord+ to ! l5g? ( y\r visit or ! s]vices y may h requir$4 ,y w add to ! pleasure by pres5t+ su* gifts y\rself1 ) a few pleasant words4 ,nev] comp>e ! h\se y may be visit+ ) y\r own1 or any o!r y may visit4 ,avoid also speak+ ( any h\se :]e y may h be5 a gue/ 9 t]ms ( ov]praise1 giv+ gl[+ pictures ( its spl5dor4 ,y\r ho/ess may imag9e y are draw+ comp>isons unfavorable to y\r pres5t resid5ce4 ,also avoid speak+ unfavorably ( any =m] visit1 z y\r ho/ess w naturally conclude t h] turn = c5sure w come z soon z y\r visit is ov]4 ,if any family secret comes to y\r k :ile y are on a visit 9 t family1 rememb] ! hospitality ext5d$ to y b9ds y to ! mo/ inviolable secrecy4 ,x is mean1 contemptible1 rude1 & ill-br$ to make y\r ent]ta9]s regret _! hospitality by betray+ any su* confid5ce2 = x is z sacr$ a confid5ce z if y 7 b\nd ov] to sil5ce 9 ! mo/ solemn mann]4 ,aft] pay+ a visit1 y %\ld write to y\r ho/ess z soon z y rea* home aga92 ?ank h] 9 ?is lett] = h] hospitality1 speak w>mly ( ! enjoym5t y h _h 9 y\r rec5t visit1 & m5tion by "n e memb] ( ! family1 desir+ to be rememb]$ to all4 ,,*apt] ,,ix4 ,,morn+ ,,receptions ,,or ,,calls4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,ho/ess4 ,if y\r circle ( visit+ acqua9tance is v l>ge1 :ile at ! same "t y\r "t is fully occupi$1 or y\r home duties make x inconv5i5t to dress e morn+ to receive visitors1 x is a good plan to set aside "o morn+ 9 ! week = a reception day4 ,^u y\r own visit+ c>ds1 bel[ ! "n1 put ! day :5 x w be prop] to return ! visit1 ?us3 ,,mrs4 ,,james ,,hunt]4 ,,at ,,home ,,w$nesdays4 ,no4 #agah ,c---- /4 ,y\r fri5ds w1 unless !re is "s especial reason = a call 9 ! int]val1 pay _! visit ^u ! day nam$4 ,let no?+1 b ! mo/ imp]ative duty1 call y out ^u y\r reception day4 ,y\r call]s are1 9 a measure1 invit$ gue/s1 & x w be an insult+ m>k ( rud5ess to be out :5 !y call4 ,nei!r c y be excus$1 except 9 case ( sickness4 ,hav+ appo9t$ ! day :5 y w be at home to see y\r fri5ds1 y mu/1 = t day1 prep>e to give y\r "t :olly to !m4 ,! usual h\rs = morn+ receptions are f twelve to ?ree1 & y %\ld be dress$1 & ready = call]s1 at lea/ half an h\r be=e t "t4 ,to come 91 flu%$ f a hurri$ toilette1 to meet y\r fir/ call]s1 is unbecom+ z well z rude4 ,y\r dress %\ld be h&some1 b n %[y4 ,a silk or ca%m]e wrapp]1 ri*ly trimm$1 ov] an embroid]$ skirt1 ) a pretty cap1 or ! hair neatly arrang$ )\t head-dress1 is a becom+ & appropriate dress4 ,/ill bett] is a ri* b pla9 silk1 made high 9 ! neck1 ) long sleeves4 ,we> a h&somely embroid]$1 or lace coll>1 & sleeves1 & a r dressy cap1 or1 /ill bett]1 ! hair alone1 prettily arrang$4 ,z ea* visitor arrives1 rise1 & advance "p ( ! way to meet h]4 ,if g5tlem51 rise1 b d n advance4 ,x is n cu/om>y n[ to introduce call]s at ^! morn+ receptions1 ?\gh y c d s ) p]fect propriety :]e y "k su* an introduction w be agreeable to bo? p>ties4 ,9 introduc+ a g5tleman to a lady1 address h] fir/1 z-- ,miss ,jones1 p]mit me to introduce ,mr4 ,lee2 &1 :5 introduc+ a "y lady to a matron1 y introduce ! y\ng] "o to ! eld]1 z-- ,mrs4 ,gre51 all[ me to introduce to y my fri5d1 ,miss ,br[n4 ,9 introduc+ /rang]s 9 ! city x is well to "n ! place ( _! resid5ce1 z--,mr4 ,james ( ,g]many1 or1 ,mr4 ,br[n ( ,new ,york1 or1 if !y h rec5tly return$ f abroad1 x is well to say s1 z1 ,mr4 ,lee1 lately f ,india2 ?is is useful 9 />t+ conv]sation4 ,be c>eful1 :5 introduc+ y\r fri5ds1 to pron\nce ! "n ( ea* "o cle>ly & di/9ctly1 t !re may be no mi/ake or necessity = repetition4 ,x is a good plan1 if y\r receptions are usually l>gely att5d$1 to h books & pictures on ! c5tre table1 & scatt]$ ab\t y\r p>lors4 ,y mu/1 ( c\rse1 conv]se ) ea* call]1 b _m w rema9 9 ! room = a long "t1 & ^! trifles are excell5t pa/ime1 & s]ve z subjects = conv]sation4 ,x requires mu* tact to "k :5 to introduce fri5ds1 :5 to take refuge "u ! %ield fa%ion (f]s1 & n make !m acqua9t$ ) ea* o!r4 ,x is a positive cruelty to =ce a tal5t$1 witty p]son1 to conv]se ) "o :o is ignorant & dull1 z !y w1 ( c\rse1 be oblig$ to d1 if introduc$4 ,a well-br$ lady1 :o is receiv+ sev]al visitors at a "t1 pays equal att5tion to all1 & attempts1 z mu* z possible1 to g5]alize ! conv]sation1 turn+ to all 9 succession4 ,! la/ arrival1 h[ev]1 receives a little m att5tion at fir/1 ?an ! o!rs4 ,if x is n agreeable to y to set aside a day = ! especial reception ( call]s1 & y h a l>ge circle ( acqua9tances1 be ready to receive !m ea* day t y are at home4 ,if y are engag$1 let ! s]vant say s :5 %e op5s ! door1 & d n s5d d[n t message aft] y\r fri5d has be5 admitt$4 ,if %e is told :5 %e arrives t y are engag$1 %e w und]/& t y are d5i$ to all call]s1 b if t message comes aft] %e has s5t up h] c>d1 %e may draw ! inf]5ce t y w n see h]1 ?\gh y may see o!r fri5ds4 ,nev] keep a call] wait+ :il/ y make an elaborate toilette4 ,if y are n ready = visitors1 x is be/ to ent] ! p>lor 9 y\r wrapp]1 apologiz+ = x1 ?an to keep y\r fri5d wait+ :il/ y *ange y\r dress4 ,if a /rang] calls1 br++ a lett] ( introduction1 & s5ds ! lett]1 y may read x be=e go+ d[n /airs1 b if !y wait till y are 9 ! p>lor be=e pres5t+ ! lett]1 m]ely glance at ! signature & at ! "n ( y\r call]2 d n read ! lett] ?r\gh1 unless x is v %ort1 or y are reque/$ by ! be>] to d s4 ,if y h a fri5d /ay+ ) y1 invite h] to jo9 y 9 ! p>lor :5 y h call]s1 & introduce h] to y\r fri5ds4 ,if y wi% to invite a call] to /ay to lun*eon or d9n]1 give ! invitation z soon z y h ex*ang$ greet+s1 n aft] %e has be5 seat$ = "s "t4 ,9 ! latt] case x appe>s l an aft] ?\ght1 n1 z 9 ! =m]1 z if f a real desire to h ! pleasure ( h] company4 ,if y h b "o call] at a "t1 rise :5 %e does1 & accompany h] to ! ve/ibule2 b1 if !re are sev]al 9 ! room1 rise :5 ea* "o does1 b only accompany !m to ! p>lor door2 !re take leave ( !m1 & return to ^? :o /ill rema9 seat$4 ,if1 aft] affliction1 y\r fri5ds call be=e y are able to see !m1 d n fe> to give (f5ce by decl9+ to receive !m4 ,!y w respect y\r sorr[1 & ! call is made m to %[ _! sympa?y ?an f a desire to conv]se ) y4 ,visits ( condol5ce1 paid betwe5 ! dea? ( "o ( y\r family & ! day ( ! fun]al1 y may always excuse y\rself f1 ) p]fect propriety4 ,!y are made 9 k9dness1 & %[ int]e/1 b if y decl9e see+ su* call]s1 !re is no (f5ce giv54 ,9 p>t+ f a g5tleman call]1 rise :5 he does1 & rema9 /&+ until he leaves ! room1 b d n g t[>ds ! door4 ,:5 a g5tleman calls 9 ! morn+ he w n remove 8 outside coat1 & w hold 8 hat 9 8 h&4 ,nev] (f] to take ! latt]1 & d n invite him to remove 8 coat4 ,take no notice ( ei!r "o or ! o!r4 ,if /rang]s 9 ! city call ^u y1 enquire at :at hotel !y are /ay+1 & h[ long !y w be !re1 t y may return _! call be=e !y leave t[n4 ,,*apt] ,x4 ,,morn+ ,,receptions ,,or ,,calls4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,call]4 ,! usual h\rs = pay+ morn+ calls are betwe5 elev5 & two1 or twelve & ?ree1 & all calls ( c]emony %\ld be made betwe5 ^! h\rs4 ,nev]1 9 pay+ a c]emoni\s call1 /ay m ?an tw5ty m9utes1 or less ?an t54 ,if y\r ho/ess has sev]al o!r visitors at ! same "t t y are 9 h] p>lor1 make y\r visit %ort1 t %e may h m att5tion to be/[ ^u o!rs4 ,aft] y h receiv$ an invitation to a p>ty1 call )9 a week or =tnight aft] ! ev5+1 :e!r y h accept$ or decl9$ ! invitation4 ,if y h decl9$ on acc\nt ( m\rn+1 ! excuse ext5ds also to ! call4 ,:5 ! s]vant answ]s y\r r+1 h& 9 y\r c>d4 ,if y\r fri5d is out or engag$1 leave ! c>d1 & if %e is 91 s5d x up4 ,nev] call )\t c>ds4 ,y may (f5d y\r fri5d1 z %e may nev] he> ( y\r call1 if %e is out at ! "t1 & y tru/ to ! memory ( ! s]vant4 ,if y\r fri5d is at home1 aft] s5d+ y\r c>d up to h] by ! s]vant1 g into ! p>lor to wait = h]4 ,sit d[n quietly1 & d n leave y\r seat until y rise to meet h] z %e ent]s ! room4 ,to walk ab\t ! p>lor1 exam9+ ! ornam5ts & pictures1 is ill-br$4 ,x is /ill m unlady-l to sit d[n & turn ov] to read ! c>ds 9 h] c>d basket4 ,if %e keeps y wait+ = a long "t1 y may take a book f ! c5tre-table to pass away ! int]val4 ,nev]1 :ile wait+ 9 a fri5d's p>lor1 g to ! piano & play till %e comes4 ,?is is a brea* ( good-bre$+ (t5 committ$1 & no?+ c be m ill-br$4 ,y may be di/urb+ an invalid unaw>es1 or y may prev5t y\r fri5d1 if %e has *ildr51 f com+ d[n /airs at all1 by wak+ ! baby4 ,if y are a /rang] 9 ! city1 & br+ a lett] ( introduction to y\r ho/ess1 s5d ?is lett] up /airs ) y\r c>d1 t %e may read x1 & "k h[ to welcome y :5 %e comes d[n /airs4 ,9 ?is case1 write ^u ! c>d ! "n ( ! hotel at :i* y are /ay+1 & m5tion 9 ! c\rse ( conv]sation1 h[ long y w be 9 ! city4 ,if y h a visitor1 & desire to introduce h] to y\r fri5ds1 y may invite h] to accompany y :5 pay+ calls4 ,9 mak+ a call = condol5ce1 x is suffici5t to leave a c>d ) y\r enquiries = ! heal? ( y\r fri5d1 & (f]s ( s]vice4 ,! same if call+ ^u invalids1 if !y are too ill to see y4 ,9 visits ( congratulation1 g 91 & be he>ty 9 y\r expressions ( int]e/ & sympa?y4 ,pay visits1 bo? ( condol5ce & congratulation1 )9 a week aft] ! ev5t :i* calls = !m occurs4 ,x is prop]1 :5 y h already made y\r call ( ! usual l5g?1 & ano!r call] is ann\nc$1 to rise & leave1 n imm$iately1 z if y %unn$ ! new arrival1 b aft] a mom5t or two4 ,nev] out-sit two or ?ree p>ties ( visitors1 unless y h private bus9ess ) y\r ho/ess :i* _c be po/pon$4 ,_m d5\nce ! sy/em ( morn+ calls z silly1 frivol\s1 & a wa/e ( "t4 ,!y are wrong4 ,x may be c>ri$ to an excess1 & s admit ( ^! objections1 b 9 mod]ation ! cu/om is a good & pleasant "o4 ,y h !n an opportunity ( mak+ fri5ds ( m]e acqua9tances1 & y c1 9 a pleasant *at ) a fri5d at home1 h m real enjoym5t 9 h] society ?an 9 a doz5 meet+s 9 l>ge companies1 ) all ! =mality & re/ra9t ( a p>ty ?r[n ar\nd y4 ,!re are _m subjects ( conv]sation :i* are pleasant 9 a p>lor1 tete-a-tete ) a fri5d1 :i* y w\ld n c>e to discuss 9 a cr[d$ saloon1 or 9 ! /reet4 ,p]sonal inquiries1 private affairs c be cosily *att$ ov]4 ,9 pay+ y\r visits ( condol5ce1 %[1 by y\r own quiet gravity1 t y sympa?ize 9 ! rec5t affliction ( y\r fri5d4 ,?\gh y may endeavor to com=t & *e] h]1 y mu/ avoid a gay or c>eless air1 z x w be an insult at su* a "t4 ,avoid any allusion to ! pa/ t may be try+ = h] to he> or answ]1 yet d n ignore ! subject entirely1 z t appe>s l a want ( int]e/ 9 x4 ,?\gh y may feel happy1 avoid p>ad+ y\r own joy\sness at su* a "t2 :atev] y\r own feel+ may be1 respect ! sorr[ ( ano!r4 ,nev] sit gaz+ curi\sly ar\nd ! room :5 pay+ a call1 z if tak+ a m5tal inv5tory ( ! furniture4 ,x is excessively rude4 ,x is /ill worse to appe> to notice any disord] or irregul>ity t may occur4 ,if1 :ile pay+ a call1 y p]ceive t any un=ese5 matt] 9 ! family1 calls = ! att5tion ( ! lady ( ! h\se1 leave in/antly1 no matt] h[ %ort y\r call has be54 ,y\r fri5d may n appe> to notice ! screams ( a *ild1 a noise 9 ! kit*51 or ! cry f ! nurs]y t ! fire bo>d has caught fire1 b y may be sure %e does he> x1 & ?\gh too well-br$ to speak ( x1 w he>tily rejoice to say good-bye4 ,d n take a *ild ) y to pay calls1 until x is old en\gh to behave quietly & ) propriety4 ,to h a tr\blesome *ild con/antly t\*+ ! p>lor ornam5ts1 balanc+ itself on ! back ( a *air1 lean+ f a w9d[1 or p]=m+ any ( ! ?\s& tricks 9 :i* *ildr5 excel1 is an annoyance1 bo? to y\rself & y\r ho/ess4 ,make no rem>k ^u ! temp]ature ( ! room1 or its arrangem5t1 :5 y ent] x4 ,nev] op5 or %ut a w9d[ or door )\t ask+ p]mission1 & unless really suff]+ f excessive heat or cold1 refra9 f ask+ leave to take ?is lib]ty4 ,if y are invit$ to g up /airs to y\r fri5d's private ap>tm5t1 y w1 ( c\rse1 accept ! invitation1 b nev] g up /airs un9vit$4 ,:5 y rea* h] door1 if ! s]vant has n prec$$ & ann\nc$ y1 knock1 & await h] invitation to ent]4 ,!n1 once 91 take no notice ( ! room1 b g in/antly to y\r fri5d4 ,if %e is sew+1 d n speak ( ! nature ( h] "w1 b reque/ h] to cont9ue1 z if y 7 n pres5t4 ,9 cases ( long /&+ fri5d%ip1 y w n1 ( c\rse1 /& ^u ! c]emony ( wait+ = ea* & e "o ( y\r calls to be return$ be=e pay+ ano!r1 b be c>eful t y are n too lavi% ( y\r visits4 ,! mo/ cordial welcome may be worn ?readb>e1 if x is call$ into use too (t54 ,if y are visit+ an invalid1 or "o conf9$ by physical infirmity to "o ap>tm5t1 :ile y are *e]ful & ready to imp>t all ! news t w int]e/ !m1 d n1 by too gl[+ descriptions ( out-door pleasures1 make !m feel m ke5ly _! own deprivations4 ,x is well1 :5 mak+ su* calls1 to conv]se ^u lit]ature1 or su* g5]al subjects z w n rem9d !m ( _! mis=tune4 ,9 cases :]e1 f long illness or o!r infirmity1 a g5tleman fri5d is conf9$ entirely to 8 room1 y may1 ) p]fect propriety1 call ^u him4 ,x is bo? polite & k9d to d s1 z o!rwise he w\ld be depriv$ entirely ( ! society ( 8 lady fri5ds4 ,_m ?us un=tunately situat$1 f /udy & read+ :ile s %ut out f ! _w1 become ! mo/ delightful companions4 ,if1 :5 y make a call1 y un=tunately intrude ^u an e>ly d9n] h\r1 d n g 91 b leave y\r c>d1 & say t y w call aga94 ,if y call ^u two ladies :o are bo>d+ at ! same h\se1 d n s5d up y\r c>d to bo? at ! same "t4 ,if "o is out1 s5d a c>d to h] room1 & !n s5d up = ! o!r4 ,if ! fir/ "o is 91 wait till %e comes d[n1 & !n *at z long z a call usually la/s4 ,:5 y rise z if to take leave1 accompany y\r fri5d to ! p>lor door1 !n tell h] t y are go+ to s5d up = y\r o!r fri5d4 ,%e w bid y good-morn+1 & g to h] own room2 r+ ! bell aft] %e leaves y1 & s5d y\r c>d by ! wait] to y\r o!r fri5d4 ,9 call+ at a hotel1 ent] by ! ladies' door1 & s5d y\r c>d to ! room ( y\r fri5d by ! wait]4 ,x is well1 if y are call+ ^u an entire /rang]1 to *oose a seat1 & tell ! wait] to say to ! lady exactly :]e %e w f9d y4 ,%e w probably ent] ) y\r c>d 9 h] h&2 !n rise1 greet h] by "n1 & introduce y\rself4 ,if y speak to ano!r /rang] ^u ! same err& z ! "o y expect1 ! error w be in/antly p]ceiv$ by ! diff]5ce 9 "n4 ,if a /rang]1 br++ a lett] ( introduction1 s5ds ! lett] ) h] c>d1 in/ead ( call+1 c\rtesy requires y to make ! fir/ call1 imm$iately2 ! same day t y receive ! lett]1 if possible1 if n1 ! day aft]4 ,,*apt] ,,xi4 ,,d9n] ,,company4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,ho/ess4 ,9 issu+ invitations = a l>ge d9n] p>ty1 ! usual =m is-- ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,g---- reque/ ! favor ( ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,l----'s company to d9n]1 on ,w$nesday1 ,m>* #h?1 at ---- o'clock4 ,if y\r husb& is giv+ a p>ty to g5tlem5 only1 he w h a c>d pr9t$ or writt5 = ! occasion1 b y\r duties z ho/ess1 if he wi%es y to preside1 w /ill be z ardu\s z if y\r own fri5ds 7 includ$ 9 ! invitation4 ,! directions giv5 9 ! *apt] on ,ev5+ p>ties = ! arrangem5t ( ! p>lor & ! dress+-rooms1 w apply "h equally well1 b ! d9+-room 79 ?is case ! c5tre ( attraction7 requires /ill m c>eful att5tion4 ,any fault "h w m> y\r own com=t & ! pleasure ( y\r gue/s1 & mu/ be c>efully avoid$4 ,s5d out y\r invitations by a s]vant1 or man hir$ = ! purpose2 d n tru/ !m to despat* or p5ny po/4 ,be c>eful 9 select+ ! gue/s = a d9n] p>ty4 ,rememb] t conv]sation w be ! sole ent]ta9m5t = sev]al h\rs1 & if y\r gue/s are n well *os51 y\r d9n]1 no matt] h[ p]fect or co/ly ! vi&s1 w prove a failure4 ,! mo/ agreeable d9n]s are ^? ^: numb]s w all[ all ! gue/s to jo9 9 a common conv]sation1 & :]e ! ho/ has _s & intellig5ce to take ! lead1 & />t a new subject :5 ! int]e/ 9 ! old "o beg9s to flag4 ,d9n]s :]e ! gue/s dep5d entirely ^u ! p]son next !m = conv]sation1 are apt to be /upid1 z x requires m>vel\s tact to pair (f all ! c\ples1 s t e "o w be ent]ta9+ 9 tete-a-tete conv]sation4 ,to give a good d9n]1 y\r means1 room1 & e/abli%m5t mu/ all be tak5 into consid]ation :5 y are prep>+ = a d9n] company4 ,if y invite a l>ge numb]1 y mu/ increase y\r e/abli%m5t = ! occasion1 z to sit d[n to a d9n] badly s]v$1 ) a sc>city ( wait]s1 is tiresome1 & %[s little tact or grace on ! "p ( ! ho/ess4 ,"o cook _c prep>e d9n] prop]ly = m ?an t5 p]sons1 & ?ree wait]s w f9d ample employm5t 9 wait+ ^u ! same numb]4 ,m ?an ?is numb] w require a table too l>ge = g5]al1 easy conv]sation1 & ?r[ y\r company into c\ples or trios1 = ent]ta9m5t4 ,h y\r table spread 9 a room t w accommodate all ! gue/s com=tably1 at ! same "t avoid putt+ a small social p>ty 9 a l>ge room1 :]e !y w appe> lo/ 9 ! space ar\nd !m4 ,let ! room be com=tably w>m$1 & if y\r d9n] is late1 h ! ap>tm5ts well light$4 ,if y sit d[n by daylight1 b w rema9 9 ! room until aft] d>k1 h ! %utt]s clos$ & ! lights lit1 be=e ! d9n] is ann\nc$1 z no?+ c be m awkw>d ?an to d ?is 9 ! middle ( ! meal4 ,! %ape ( a table is a po9t ( m importance ?an "s p ?9k4 ,if y wi% y\r d9n] to be social--n a m]e collection ( tete-a-tetes--! table %\ld be ( a %ape :i* w make x easy = ea* gue/ to address any "o at ! table4 ,! long p>allelogram1 ) ! ho/ at "o end & ! ho/ess at ! o!r1 is /iff1 too broad1 too long1 & isolates ! giv]s ( ! fea/ f ! gue/s4 ,! r\nd table1 if l>ge en\gh to accommodate _m gue/s1 has too l>ge a diamet] ea* way = easy conv]sation4 ,! be/ table is ! oval1 & ! ho/ & ho/ess %\ld sit 9 ! middle ( ea* side1 fac+ ea* o!r4 ,! d9+ room1 ev5 9 ! heat ( summ]1 %\ld be c>pet$1 to dead5 ! noise ( ! s]vants' feet4 ,! *airs %\ld be easy1 )\t arms1 & ) tall1 slant+ backs4 ,x adds mu* to ! com=t1 if ea* p]son is provid$ ) a foot-/ool4 ,y mu/ h1 besides ! wait]s1 "o s]vant to c>ve1 & he mu/ be an adept4 ,no di% %\ld be c>v$ ^u ! table1 & t no gue/ %all wait too long = 8 meat1 y mu/ engage a rapid & dext]\s c>v]4 ,= a p>ty ( t51 two wait]s1 & ! c>v]1 are amply suffici5t4 ,if y h too _m s]vants1 !y w only int]f]e ) ea* o!r1 & /& />+ at ! gue/s4 ,give y\r ord]s be=e d9n]1 & ?r\gh ! meal nev] speak to ! s]vants4 ,y\r :ole att5tion mu/ be giv5 to ! gue/s4 ,ev5 if y see t matt]s are go+ wrong1 d n let y\r annoyance appe>1 b gracefully ignore ! pa9ful facts4 ,let ea* s]vant h 8 regul> position at ! table4 ,"o %\ld take ! gue/s at ! "r ( ! ho/ess1 & ! left ( ! ho/2 ! o!r ! gue/s on ! o!r side4 ,!y %\ld we> light1 noiseless %oes1 & :ite gloves1 & ea* "o c>ry a fold$ napk9 ov] 8 "r arm4 ,! ma9 po9t 9 ! arrangem5t ( ! table itself1 is to secure beauty1 )\t int]f]+ ) conv]sation4 ,! table cov] & napk9s mu/ be ( sn[y damask1 ! glass cle> z cry/al1 & ta/e mu/ preside ov] ea* detail4 ,let no?+ high be plac$ on ! table1 t w effectually sep>ate ! gue/s f ea* o!r4 ,!re %\ld be1 fir/1 a h&some c5tre piece1 & ?is may be ( glass1 silv]1 or *9a1 & n too high or l>ge1 & mu/ be elegant z a "w ( art1 or x is bett] omitt$ altoge!r4 ,pres]ve or fruit /&s1 ta/efully decorat$1 ) ! fruit on fre%1 gre5 leaves1 & fl[]s m+l$ ) !m1 =m exquisite c5tre pieces4 ,a pyramid ( fl[]s1 or ta/y vase or basket1 =ms1 too1 a beautiful ornam5t = ! c5tre ( ! table4 ,9 addition to ?is1 ! ,fr5* scatt] vases ( fl[]s all ov] ! table1 at ! corn]s & 9 ! c5tre4 ,"s place a small1 fragrant b\quet be=e ! plate ( ea* gue/4 ,no?+ c be m beautiful ?an ?is arrangem5t4 ,glasses ( cel]y1 di%es ( cle>1 transp>5t jellies or pres]ves1 exquisite little glass plates ( pickles %\ld /& 9 ord] on ! table4 ,place be=e ea* gue/1 ! plate1 knife1 =k1 spoon1 f\r w9e-glasses ( v>i\s sizes1 ! goblet = wat]1 napk91 small salt cell>1 salt spoon1 & roll ( bread4 ,place none ( ! meats or vegetables ^u ! l>ge table4 ,^! %\ld all be s]v$ at a side-table1 ea* gue/ select+ 8 own1 to be h&$ by ! s]vants4 ,! fir/ c\rse is s\p4 ,z ?is is n meant to de/roy ! appetite = o!r vi&s1 x %\ld be light1 n too ri* or ?ick4 ,let ! s]vant h& "o ladlefull to ea* p]son4 ,if y h m ?an "o k9d1 he mu/ fir/ inquire :i* ea* gue/ pref]s4 ,if y h w9es1 let !m be h&$ r\nd aft] ! s\p4 ,next comes ! fi%4 ,if y h l>ge fi%1 let a slice1 cut smoo?ly1 n made into a ha% by awkw>d c>v+1 be plac$ ^u ! plate ( ! gue/1 ) a slice ( egg1 & drawn butt]4 ,if ! fi% are small1 "o %\ld be plac$ ^u ea* plate4 ,!n come ! patties ( oy/]s1 m9c$ veal1 or lob/]2 or1 in/ead ( ^!1 y may h p\ltry or game4 ,next ! roa/4 ,) ! meats h vegetables s]v$ on a sep>ate plate1 t ! gue/ may take z mu* z he wi%es ) meat4 ,y w1 ( c\rse1 h a v>iety ( vegetables1 b sc>cely any gue/ w *oose m ?an two4 ,! pa/ry & pudd+s come next 9 ord]1 & ^!1 too1 are bett] s]v$ f a side table4 ,betwe5 ! pa/ry & ! dess]t1 h salad & *eese plac$ be=e ea* gue/4 ,if y eat dess]t 9 ! same room t y d9e 91 x %\ld be plac$ ^u ! table 7) ! exception ( ! ices7 be=e ! gue/s are seat$1 & ?is comes aft] ! pa/ry has be5 discuss$4 ,x %\ld consi/ ( fruit & ices4 ,a pleasant] & m elegant way1 is to h ! fruit & ices spread 9 a sep>ate room1 & leave ! d9+ room aft] ! pa/ry has be5 eat54 ,! *ange ( position1 ! abs5ce ( ! meat flavor 9 ! atmosph]e1 make ! dess]t mu* m delightful ?an if x is eat5 9 ! same room z ! d9n]4 ,9 summ] especially1 ! *ange to a cool1 fre% room1 :]e ! ices & fruits are ta/efully spread1 & fl[]s are scatt]$ pr(usely ab\t ! room1 delights e s5se4 ,c(fee foll[s ! dess]t1 & :5 ?is ent]s1 if y\r gue/s are g5tlem5 only1 y\r duty is at an end4 ,y may !n rise1 leave ! room1 & ne$ n re-appe>4 ,if y h lady gue/s1 y give ! signal = ris+ aft] c(fee1 & lead ! way to ! p>lor1 :]e1 9 a few mom5ts1 ! g5tlem5 w aga9 jo9 y4 ,suppose y\r gue/s invit$1 s]vants in/ruct$1 e arrangem5t made1 & ! important day arriv$4 ,! next po9t to consid] is ! reception ( y\r gue/s4 ,be dress$ 9 good season1 z _m seem to consid] an invitation to d9n] z "o to pass ! day1 & come e>ly4 ,take a position 9 y\r draw+-room1 :]e ea* gue/ w f9d y easily1 & rema9 ne> x1 until e gue/ has arriv$4 ,z ea* "o ent]s1 advance to meet him1 & ext5d y\r h&4 ,h pl5ty ( *airs ready 9 ! draw+-room1 z an invitation to d9n] by no means argues a /& up p>ty4 ,z y h already arrang$ e detail1 y\r duty z ho/ess consi/s 9 receiv+ y\r gue/s gracefully1 conv]s+ & look+ z *>m+ly z possible4 ,fl[]s 9 ! draw+-room are z great a pro( ( ta/e z 9 ! d9+ room4 ,z ! "t j be=e d9n] is v apt to be tiresome1 y %\ld br+ =w>d all ! armor aga9/ /upidity t y possess4 ,display ^u tables arrang$ conv5i5tly ab\t ! room1 curiosities1 h&some books1 photographs1 engrav+s1 /]eoscopes1 m$allions1 any works ( art y may own1 & h ! ottomans1 s(as1 & *airs s plac$ t y\r gue/s c move easily ab\t ! room1 or rooms4 ,! sev]e/ te/ ( good bre$+ 9 a lady1 is 9 ! position ( ho/ess1 receiv+ d9n] gue/s4 ,y\r gue/s may arrive all at once1 yet y mu/ make ea* "o feel t he or %e is ! object ( y\r individual att5tion1 & none mu/ be hurt by neglect4 ,!y may arrive v e>ly1 yet y\r duty is to make ! "t fly until d9n] is ann\nc$4 ,!y may come late1 & risk ! ru9 ( y\r *oice/ di%es1 yet y mu/ n1 ^u pa9 ( a brea* ( etiquette1 %[ ! lea/ annoyance4 ,if y "k t ! :ole kit*5 is 9 arms at ! delay1 y mu/ conceal ! angui%1 z ! ,sp>tan boy did 8 pangs1 to turn a *e]ful1 smil+ face ^u ! t>dy gue/s4 ,:5 d9n] is ann\nc$1 y w lead ! way to ! d9+-room ^u ! arm ( "o ( y\r g5tlem5 gue/s1 hav+ pair$ (f ! company 9 c\ples4 ,! ho/ comes 9 la/ ) a lady ^u 8 arm4 ,y may indicate to ea* c\ple1 z !y ent] ! d9+-room1 ! seats !y are to occupy1 /&+ until all are seat$1 or y may all[ !m to *oose _! own places4 ,! ,engli% fa%ion ( plac+ a c>d ^u ea* plate ) ! "n ( ! p]son to take t seat ^u x1 is a good "o4 ,x enables ! ho/ess to place ^? :om %e is c]ta9 w be mutually ent]ta9+1 next ea* o!r4 ,place ! g5tleman :o escorts y f ! p>lor at y\r "r h&4 ,hav+ once tak5 y\r seat at table1 y h no?+ to d ) ! d9n] b to p>take ( x4 ,n a ^w1 or ev5 a glance1 w a well-br$ ho/ess be/[ ^u ! s]vants1 nor w %e speak to ! gue/s ( ! di%es4 ,_! *oice re/s betwe5 !mselves & ! wait]s1 & y mu/ take no notice ( :at !y eat1 h[ mu*1 or h[ little4 ,nay1 %\ld !y p>take ( "o di% only1 y mu/ ignore ! fact4 ,! greate/ tact is display$ :]e ! ho/ess makes ea* gue/ feel p]fectly at ease4 ,%e w aid h] husb& bo? 9 lead+ & support+ ! conv]sation1 & w see t no gue/ is left 9 sil5ce f want ( att5tion4 ,:il/ %e ignores e brea* ( etiquette h] gue/s may commit1 %e mu/ c>efully obs]ve e rule h]self1 & ?is %e mu/ d 9 an easy1 natural mann]1 avoid+ e appe>ance ( re/ra9t4 ,h] deportm5t1 %e may be sure1 is secretly wat*$ & criticis$ by ea* gue/1 yet %e mu/ appe> utt]ly unconsci\s t %e is occupy+ any conspicu\s position4 ,to wat* ! s]vants1 or appe> uneasy1 le/ some?+ %\ld g wrong1 is excessively ill-br$1 & if any accid5t does occur1 y only make x worse by notic+ x4 ,to reprove or speak %>ply to a s]vant be=e y\r gue/s1 manife/s a %ock+ want ( good bre$+4 ,! rules giv5 above are only applicable to l>ge d9n] p>ties1 & :]e ! gue/s are few1 & ! ho/ himself c>ves1 ^! rules w n apply4 ,9 ?is case1 z y w only require ! s]vices ( y\r own h\sehold dome/ics1 y mu/1 ( c\rse1 att5d p]sonally to ! wants ( y\r gue/s4 ,d9n] n be+ s]v$ f a side table1 y mu/1 :ile putt+ ta/eful ornam5ts ^u x1 be c>eful n to cr[d !m1 & leave room = ! sub/antial di%es4 ,y mu/ wat* ! plate ( ea* gue/1 to see t x is well provid$1 & y w invite ea* "o to p>take ( ! v>i\s di%es4 ,h a s]vant to pass ! plates f y to ea* gue/1 & f ! ho/ to y1 aft] he has put ! meat ^u !m1 t y may add gravy & vegetables be=e !y are set be=e y\r visitors4 ,at ^! small] d9n] companies1 avoid apologiz+ = any?+1 ei!r 9 ! vi&s or ! arrangem5t ( !m4 ,y h provid$ ! be/ y\r purse w all[1 prep>$ z faultlessly z possible2 y w only ga9 cr$it = mock mode/y if y apologize = a well-prep>$1 well-spread d9n]1 & if !re are faults !y w only be made m conspicu\s if att5tion is drawn to !m by an apology4 ,ease ( mann]1 quiet dignity1 *e]ful1 intellig5t conv]sation1 & g5tle1 lady-l deportm5t1 nev] appe> m *>m+ ?an :5 !y adorn a lady at ! head ( h] own table4 ,,*apt] ,,xii4 ,,d9n] ,,company4 ,,etiquette ,,= ,,! ,,gue/4 ,:5 y receive an invitation to jo9 a d9n]-p>ty1 answ] x imm$iately1 z1 by leav+ y\r ho/ess 9 d\bt :e!r y int5d to accept or decl9e h] hospitality1 y make x impossible = h] to decide h[ _m %e mu/ prep>e =4 ,if y accept at fir/1 & any un=ese5 ev5t keeps y f fulfill+ y\r engagem5t1 write a second note1 t y\r ho/ess may n wait d9n] = y4 ,su* a note1 if circum/ances r5d] x necess>y to write x1 may be s5t ) p]fect propriety an h\r be=e ! "t appo9t$ = d9n]1 ?\gh1 if y are aw>e t y _c att5d1 e>li]1 y mu/ s5d ! in=mation 9 good season4 ,y %\ld ent] ! h\se ( y\r ho/ess f a qu>t] to half an h\r e>li] ?an ! "t appo9t$ = d9+4 ,proce$ at once to ! dress+-room1 & arrange y\r dress & hair1 & !n ent] ! draw+-room4 ,by go+ to ! h\se too e>ly1 y may ha/5 or int]rupt ! toilet arrangem5ts ( y\r ho/ess2 :ile1 by be+ late1 y w e/abli% a mo/ disagreeable association 9 ! m9ds ( all pres5t1 z ! lady :o kept d9n] wait+ at ,mrs4 ,l----'s4 ,imm$iately ^u ent]+ ! p>lor f9d y\r ho/ess1 & speak to h] fir/4 ,x is v rude to /op to *at ) o!r gue/s be=e greet+ ! lady ( ! h\se4 ,y may b[ to any "o y "k1 9 pass+1 b d n /op to speak4 ,hav+ ex*ang$ a few words ) y\r ho/ess1 turn to ! o!r gue/s1 unless y are ! fir/ arrival4 ,9 t case1 conv]se ) y\r ho/ & ho/ess until o!rs come 94 ,be c>eful1 if d9n] is delay$ by ! t>d9ess ( ! gue/s1 or f any o!r cause1 t y d n %[ by y\r mann] t y are aw>e ( su* delay4 ,to look t[>ds ! door (t51 consult y\r wat*1 or give tok5s ( we>9ess1 are all m>ks ( ill-bre$+4 ,y\r ho/ess w probably be suffici5tly annoy$ by ! irregul>ity itself2 d n add to h] discom=t by all[+ h] to suppose t h] gue/s p]ceive ! defici5cies4 ,look ov] ! books & pictures ) an air ( int]e/1 conv]se *e]fully1 & 9 e way appe> z if d9n] 7 a matt] ( second>y importance1 7z1 inde$1 x %\ld be17 comp>$ ) ! pleasure ( ! society ar\nd y4 ,:5 ! signal = d9n] is giv51 y\r ho/ess w probably "n y\r escort to ! table4 ,if he is a /rang]1 b[ 9 ackn[l$gem5t ( ! introduction1 take 8 arm1 & fall into y\r place 9 ! /ream ( gue/s pass+ f ! p>lor to ! d9+-room4 ,take ! seat po9t$ out by y\r ho/ess1 or ! wait]1 z soon z x is (f]$4 ,ea* "o w d ?is ^u ent]+1 & x prev5ts ! confusion t w result if ^? fir/ ent]+ ! room1 rema9 /&+ until all ! o!r gue/s come 94 ,:5 y take y\r seat1 be c>eful t y\r *air does n /& ^u ! dress ( ! lady next y1 z %e may n rise at ! same in/ant t y d1 & s y risk te>+ h] dress4 ,sit gracefully at ! table2 nei!r s close z to make y\r movem5ts awkw>d1 nor s f> away z to drag y\r food ov] y\r dress be=e x rea*es y\r m\?4 ,x is well to c>ry 9 y\r pocket a small p9cu%ion1 &1 hav+ unfold$ y\r napk91 to p9 x at ! belt4 ,y may d ?is quietly1 )\t its be+ p]ceiv$1 & y w ?us really save y\r dress4 ,if ! napk9 is m]ely laid op5 ^u y\r lap1 x w be v apt to slip d[n1 if y\r dress is ( silk or sat91 & y risk ! *ance ( appe>+ aga9 9 ! draw+-room ) ! front ( y\r dress soil$ or greas$4 ,if1 by ! c>elessness or awkw>dness ( y\r neighbors or ! s]vants1 y h a plate ( s\p1 glass ( w9e1 or any di% int5d$ = y\r m\?1 deposit$ ^u y\r dress1 d n spr+ up1 or make any exclamation4 ,y may wipe (f ! wor/ ( ! spot ) y\r napk91 & !n let x pass )\t fur!r notice4 ,if an apology is made by ! unlucky p]petrator ( ! accid5t1 try to set him at 8 ease by y\r own lady-l composure4 ,he w feel sorry & awkw>d en\gh1 )\t reproa*1 sull5ness1 or cold looks f y4 ,gloves & mitt5s are no long] worn at table1 ev5 at ! l>ge/ d9n]-p>ties4 ,to make rem>ks ^u ! gue/s or ! di%es is excessively rude4 ,if ! conv]sation is g5]al1 speak l\dly en\gh to be he>d by ^? ar\nd y1 b1 at ! same "t1 avoid rais+ y\r voice too mu*4 ,if ! company is v l>ge1 & y conv]se only ) ! p]son imm$iately beside y1 speak 9 a di/9ct1 b l[ tone1 t y may n int]rupt o!r c\ples1 b c>efully avoid :isp]+ or a confid5tial air4 ,bo? are 9 excessively bad ta/e4 ,to laugh 9 a suppress$ way1 has ! appe>ance ( laugh+ at ^? ar\nd y1 & a l\d1 boi/]\s laugh is always unlady-l4 ,conv]se *e]fully1 laugh quietly1 b freely1 if y w1 & :ile y conf9e y\r att5tion entirely to y\r neighbor1 /ill avoid any air ( secrecy or my/]y4 ,nev] use an eye-glass1 ei!r to look at ! p]sons ar\nd y or ! articles ^u ! table4 ,eat y\r s\p quietly4 ,to make any noise 9 eat+ x1 is simply disgu/+4 ,d n break bread into y\r s\p4 ,break (f small pieces & put into y\r m\?1 if y w1 b nei!r bite x f ! roll nor break x up1 & eat x f y\r s\p-plate ) a spoon4 ,9 eat+ bread ) meat1 nev] dip x into ! gravy on y\r plate1 & !n bite ! end (f4 ,if y wi% to eat x ) gravy1 break (f a small piece1 put x ^u y\r plate1 & !n1 ) a =k1 convey x to y\r m\?4 ,:5 help$ to fi%1 remove1 ) knife & =k1 all ! bones1 !n lay d[n ! knife1 &1 ) a piece ( bread 9 y\r left h& & a =k 9 y\r "r1 eat ! flakes ( fi%4 ,ne$ ,i say t ! knife is to cut y\r food )1 & mu/ nev] be us$ :ile eat+8 ,to put x 9 y\r m\? is a di/9ctive m>k ( l[-bre$+4 ,if y h select$ :at y w eat1 keep ! plate t is plac$ be=e y2 nev] pass x to ! p]sons next y1 z !y may h an entirely diff]5t *oice ( meat or vegetables4 ,nev] attempt to t\* any di% t is ^u ! table1 b out ( y\r rea*1 by /ret*+ out y\r arms1 lean+ =w>d1 or1 /ill worse1 /&+ up4 ,ask ! wait] to h& x1 if y wi% = x2 or1 if ! g5tleman beside y c easily d s1 y may ask him to pass x to y4 ,d n press ^? ne> y to take m or o!r ?+s ?an are ^u _! plate4 ,?is is ! duty ( ! ho/ess1 or1 if ! company is l>ge1 ! s]vants w att5d to x4 ,= y to d s is (fici\s & ill-br$4 ,:5 conv]s+ let y\r knife & =k re/ easily ^u y\r plate1 ev5 if /ill 9 y\r h&4 ,avoid hold+ !m upright4 ,keep y\r own knife1 =k1 & spoon solely = ! articles ^u y\r own plate4 ,to use !m = help+ y\rself to butt] or salt1 is rude 9 ! extreme4 ,:5 y d n use ! salt-spoon1 sug> tongs1 & butt]-knife1 y may be sure t ^? ar\nd y w conclude t y h nev] se5 ! articles1 & d n "k _! use4 ,y ne$ n fe> to (f5d by refus+ to take w9e ) a g5tleman1 ev5 y\r ho/4 ,if y decl9e gracefully1 he w appreciate ! delicacy :i* makes y refuse4 ,if1 h[ev]1 y h no consci5ti\s scruples1 & are invit$ to take w9e1 b[1 & m]ely raise ! glass to y\r lips1 !n set x d[n aga94 ,y may ?us ackn[l$ge ! c\rtesy1 & yet avoid actually dr9k+ ! w9e4 ,no lady %\ld dr9k w9e at d9n]4 ,ev5 if h] head is /rong en\gh to be> x1 %e w f9d h] *eeks1 soon aft] ! indulg5ce1 flu%$1 hot1 & uncom=table2 & if ! room is w>m1 & ! d9n] a long "o1 %e w probably pay ! p5alty ( h] folly1 by hav+ a heada*e all ! ev5+4 ,if (f]$ any di% ( :i* y d n wi% to p>take1 decl9e x1 b d n assign any reason4 ,to object to ! di% itself is an insult to y\r ent]ta9]s1 & if y ass]t any reason = y\r own dislike x is ill-br$4 ,d n b5d too mu* =w>d ov] y\r food1 & conv]se easily4 ,to eat fa/1 or appe> to be s mu* engross$ z to be unable to conv]se1 is ill-br$2 & x makes ^? ar\nd y suspect t y are s little accu/om$ to d9+ well1 t y fe> to /op eat+ an in/ant1 le/ y %\ld n get en\gh4 ,x is equally ill-br$ to accept e ?+ t is (f]$ to y4 ,nev] take m ?an two vegetables2 d n take a second plate ( s\p1 pa/ry1 or pudd+4 ,inde$1 x is be/ to accept b "o plate ( any article4 ,nev] use a spoon = any?+ b liquids1 & nev] t\* any?+ to eat1 except+ bread1 cel]y1 or fruit1 ) y\r f+]s4 ,9 ! int]vals :i* mu/ occur betwe5 ! c\rses1 d n appe> to be consci\s ( ! lapse ( "t4 ,we> a c>eless air :5 wait+1 conv]s+ *e]fully & pleasantly1 & avoid look+ r\nd ! room1 z if wond]+ :at ! wait]s are ab\t4 ,nev] eat e morsel t is ^u y\r plate2 & surely no lady w ev] scrape h] plate1 or pass ! bread r\nd x1 z if to save ! s]vants ! tr\ble ( wa%+ x4 ,take su* small m\?fulls t y c always be ready = conv]sation1 b avoid play+ ) y\r food1 or p>tak+ ( x ) an affectation ( delicate appetite4 ,y\r ho/ess may suppose y despise h] f>e1 if y appe> s v *oice1 or eat too sp>+ly4 ,if y\r /ate ( heal? deprives y ( appetite1 x is bad en\gh = y to decl9e ! invitation to d9e out4 ,nev] exam9e m9utely ! food be=e y4 ,y insult y\r ho/ess by su* a proce$+1 z x looks z if y fe>$ to f9d some?+ ^u ! plate t %\ld n be !re4 ,if y f9d a worm on op5+ a nut1 or 9 any ( ! fruit1 h& y\r plate quietly1 & )\t rem>k1 to ! wait]1 & reque/ him to br+ y a clean "o4 ,d n let o!rs p]ceive ! movem5t1 or ! cause ( x1 if y c avoid s do+4 ,nev] make a noise 9 eat+4 ,to mun* or smack ! lips are vulg> faults4 ,sit quietly at table1 avoid /iffness1 b1 at ! same "t1 be c>eful t y d n annoy o!rs by y\r re/lessness4 ,d n eat s fa/ z to be done long be=e o!rs1 nor s sl[ly z to keep !m wait+4 ,:5 ! f+]-glasses are pass$ r\nd1 dip ! ends ( y\r f+]s into !m1 & wipe !m ^u y\r napk92 !n d n fold y\r napk91 b place x beside y\r plate ^u ! table4 ,to c>ry away fruit or bonbons f ! table is a sign ( l[ bre$+4 ,rise ) ! o!r ladies :5 y\r ho/ess gives ! signal4 ,aft] return+ to ! p>lor1 rema9 9 ! h\se at lea/ an h\r aft] d9n] is ov]4 ,if y h ano!r engagem5t 9 ! ev5+1 y may !n take y\r leave1 b n be=e4 ,y w insult y\r ho/ess by leav+ soon]1 z x appe>s t y came only = ! d9n]1 & t be+ ov]1 y\r int]e/ 9 ! h\se1 = ! "t1 has ceas$4 ,x is only begg>s :o eat & run6 ,,*apt] ,,xiii4 ,,table ,,etiquette4 ,9 ord] to appe> p]fectly well-br$ at table :5 9 company1 or 9 public1 z at a hotel1 y mu/ pay att5tion1 ?ree times a day1 to ! po9ts ( table etiquette4 ,if y neglect ^! little details at home & 9 private1 !y w be p]=m$ awkw>dly & ) an air ( re/ra9t :5 y are 9 company4 ,by mak+ !m habitual1 !y w become natural1 & appe> easily1 & sit gracefully ^u y4 ,ev5 :5 eat+ entirely alone1 obs]ve ^! little details1 ?us mak+ ! mo/ f9i%$ & elegant mann]s p]fectly famili>1 & ?us avoid+ ! /iff1 awkw>d air y w we> if y keep y\r polit5ess only = company1 :5 y w be con/antly appreh5sive ( do+ wrong4 ,at breakfa/ or tea1 if y\r seat is at ! head ( ! table1 y mu/1 be=e tak+ any?+ ^u y\r own plate1 fill a cup = ea* "o ( ! family1 & pass !m r\nd1 be+ c>eful to suit ea* "o 9 ! prep>ation ( ! cup1 t none may return to y = m tea1 wat]1 sug>1 or milk4 ,if y h a visitor1 pass ! cup ) ! tea or c(fee alone 9 x1 & h& ) ! cup ! sug> b[l & cream pit*]1 t ^! may be add$ 9 ! quantity pref]r$4 ,aft] all ! cups h be5 fill$ & pass$ r\nd1 y may take ! bread1 butt]1 & o!r food ^u y\r own plate4 ,tra9 y\r *ildr51 s t !y w pass ^! ?+s to y z soon z !y see y are ready to receive !m4 ,if y are y\rself at ! side ( ! table1 pass ! bread1 butt]1 etc41 to ! lady at ! head1 :5 y see t %e has s5t ! cups f ! wait] be=e h]1 to ^? seat$ at ! table4 ,if y occupy ! place ( head ( ! table1 y mu/ wat* ! cups1 (f] to fill !m :5 empty1 & also see t ea* "o ( ! family is well help$ to ! o!r articles ^u ! table4 ,avoid mak+ any noise 9 eat+1 ev5 if ea* meal is eat5 9 solit>y /ate4 ,x is a disgu/+ habit1 & "o n easily cur$ if once contract$1 to make any noise ) ! lips :5 eat+4 ,nev] put l>ge pieces ( food into y\r m\?4 ,eat sl[ly1 & cut y\r food into small pieces be=e putt+ x into y\r m\?4 ,use y\r =k1 or spoon1 nev] y\r knife1 to put y\r food into y\r m\?4 ,at d9n]1 hold 9 y\r left h& a piece ( bread1 & raise y\r meat or vegetables ) ! =k1 hold+ ! bread to prev5t ! pieces slipp+ f ! plate4 ,if y are ask$ at table :at "p ( ! meat y pref]1 "n y\r favorite piece1 b d n give su* in=mation unless ask$ to d s4 ,to po9t out any especial "p ( a di%1 & ask = x1 is ill-br$4 ,to answ]1 :5 ask$ to select a "p1 t x is a matt] ( indiff]5ce1 or1 ,i c eat any "p1 is annoy+ to ! c>v]1 z he c>es less ?an y\rself c]ta9ly1 & w\ld pref] to give y ! piece y really l be/4 ,d n p\r c(fee or tea f y\r cup into y\r sauc]1 & d n bl[ ei!r ^! or s\p4 ,wait until !y cool4 ,use ! butt]-knife1 salt-spoon1 & sug>-tongs z scrupul\sly :5 alone1 z if a room full ( p 7 wat*+ y4 ,o!rwise1 y may neglect to d s :5 ! omission w mortify y4 ,nev] put p\ltry or fi% bones1 or ! /ones ( fruit1 ^u ! table-clo?1 b place !m on ! edge ( y\r plate4 ,d n beg9 to eat until o!rs at ! table are ready to comm5ce too4 ,sit easily 9 y\r *air1 nei!r too ne> ! table1 nor too f> f x1 & avoid su* tricks z putt+ y\r arms on ! table1 lean+ back lazily 9 y\r *air1 or play+ ) y\r knife1 =k1 or spoon4 ,nev] raise y\r voice1 :5 speak+1 any high] ?an is necess>y4 ,! cle> articulation & di/9ct pronunciation ( ea* ^w1 w make a l[ tone m agreeable & m easily und]/ood1 ?an ! l\de/ tone1 if ! spee* is rapid or indi/9ct4 ,nev] pass y\r plate ) ! knife or =k ^u x1 & :5 y pass y\r cup1 put ! spoon 9 ! sauc]4 ,nev] pile up ! food on y\r plate4 ,x looks z if y fe>$ x w\ld all be gone be=e y c\ld be help$ aga91 & x w c]ta9ly make y\r attempts to cut ! food awkw>d1 if y\r plate is cr[d$4 ,if !re is a delicacy ^u ! table1 p>take ( x sp>+ly1 & nev] help y\rself to x a second "t4 ,if y wi% to c\gh1 or use y\r h&k]*ief1 rise f ! table1 & leave ! room4 ,if y h n "t to d ?is1 cov] y\r m\?1 & turn y\r head aside f ! table1 & p]=m ! disagreeable necessity z rapidly & quietly z possible4 ,avoid ge/iculation at ! table4 ,inde$1 a well-br$ lady w nev] ge/iculate1 b conv]se quietly1 lett+ ! expression & animation ( h] features give =ce to h] words4 ,nev]1 :5 at ! home table1 leave x until ! o!r memb]s ( ! family are also ready to rise4 ,,*apt] ,,xiv4 ,,conduct ,,9 ,,! ,,/reet4 ,a lady's conduct is nev] s entirely at ! m]cy ( critics1 because nev] s public1 z :5 %e is 9 ! /reet4 ,h] dress1 c>riage1 walk1 w all be expos$ to notice2 e pass]-by w look at h]1 if x is only = "o glance2 e unlady-l action w be m>k$2 & 9 no position w a dignifi$1 lady-l deportm5t be m c]ta9 to comm& respect4 ,let me />t ) y ^u y\r prom5ade1 my fri5d1 & ,i w soon decide y\r place ^u ! li/ ( well-br$ ladies4 ,fir/1 y\r dress4 ,n t sc>let %awl1 ) a gre5 dress1 ,i beg1 &--oh6 sp>e my n]ves6--y are n s insane z to put on a blue bonnet4 ,t's "r4 ,if y wi% to we> ! gre5 dress1 don a black %awl1 &--t :ite bonnet w d v well4 ,"o rule y mu/ lay d[n ) reg>d to a walk+ dress4 ,x mu/ nev] be conspicu\s4 ,let ! mat]ial be ri*1 if y w2 ! set ( ea* g>m5t faultless2 h coll> & sleeves sn[y :ite1 & we> neatly-fitt+1 :ole1 clean gloves & boots4 ,e detail may be scrupul\sly att5d$ to1 b let ! :ole effect be quiet & mode/4 ,we> a little ( "o bright color1 if y w1 b n m ?an "o4 ,let ea* "p ( ! dress h>monize ) all ! re/2 avoid ! extreme ( fa%ion1 & let ! dress suit y4 ,if y are %ort & plump1 d n we> fl\nces1 because !y are fa%ionable1 & avoid l>ge plaids1 ev5 if !y are ! v late/ /yle4 ,if tall & slight1 d n add to ! l5g? ( y\r figure by long /ripes1 a little mantilla1 & a c>icature ( a bonnet1 ) long1 /ream+ ribbons4 ,a l>ge1 r\nd face w nev] look well1 />+ f a t9y1 delicate bonnet2 nor w a long1 ?9 "o /& ! te/ mu* bett]4 ,we> :at is becom+ to y\rself1 & only b[ to fa%ion en\gh to avoid ecc5tricity4 ,to h ev]y?+ 9 ! extreme ( fa%ion1 is a sure m>k ( vulg>ity4 ,we> no jewelry 9 ! /reet except+ y\r wat* & broo*4 ,jewelry is only suit$ = full ev5+ dress1 :5 all ! o!r details unite to set x (f4 ,if x is real1 x is too valuable to risk los+ 9 ! /reet1 & if x is n real1 no lady %\ld we> x4 ,mock jewelry is utt]ly dete/able4 ,:at are y do+8 ,suck+ ! head ( y\r p>asol6 ,h y n breakfa/$8 ,take t piece ( ivory f y\r m\?6 ,to suck x is unlady-l1 & let me tell y1 excessively unbecom+4 ,rosy lips & pe>ly tee? c be put to a bett] use4 ,:y did y n dress be=e y came out8 ,x is a m>k ( ill-bre$+ to draw y\r gloves on 9 ! /reet4 ,n[ y\r bonnet-/r+s1 & n[--y\r coll>6 ,pray arrange y\r dress be=e y leave ! h\se6 ,no?+ looks worse ?an to see a lady fuss+ ov] h] dress 9 ! /reet4 ,take a few mom5ts m 9 y\r dress+-room1 & s arrange y\r dress t y w n ne$ to ?9k ( x aga9 :il/ y are out4 ,d n walk s fa/6 y are n *as+ anybody6 ,walk sl[ly1 gracefully6 ,oh1 d n drag "o foot aft] ! o!r z if y 7 fa/ asleep--set d[n ! foot lightly1 b at ! same "t firmly2 n[1 c>ry y\r head up1 n s2 y hang x d[n z if y fe>$ to look any "o 9 ! face6 ,nay1 t is ! o!r extreme6 ,n[ y look l a drill-major1 on p>ade6 ,s6 t is ! m$ium4 ,erect1 yet1 at ! same "t1 easy & elegant4 ,n[1 my fri5d1 d n sw+ y\r arms4 ,y don't "k :at to d ) !m8 ,y\r p>asol takes "o h&2 hold y\r dress up a little ) ! o!r4 ,n s6 ,no lady %\ld raise h] dress above ! ankle4 ,take c>e6 don't drag y\r dress ?r\gh t mud-puddle6 ,worse & worse6 ,if y take hold ( y\r dress on bo? sides1 9 t way1 & drag x up s high1 y w be set d[n z a raw c\ntry girl4 ,s4 ,raise x j above ! boot1 all r\nd1 easily1 lett+ x fall aga9 9 ! old folds4 ,don't %ake x d[n2 x w fall back ( itself4 ,/op6 don't y see !re is a c>riage com+8 ,d y want to be ?r[n d[n by ! horses8 ,y c run across8 ,v lady-l inde$6 ,surely no?+ c be m ungraceful ?an to see a lady %uffle & run across a /reet4 ,wait until ! way is cle> & !n walk sl[ly across4 ,d n try to raise y\r skirts4 ,x is bett] to soil !m4 7,y 7 v fooli% to we> :ite skirts ?is muddy day47 ,!y are easily wa%$1 & y _c raise all4 ,y w surely be awkw>d 9 mak+ ! attempt1 & probably fail1 9 spite ( y\r ef=ts4 ,true1 !y w be badly soil$1 & y expose ?is :5 y raise ! dress1 b ! /ate ( ! /reets mu/ be se5 by all :o see y\r %>e ( ! dirt1 & !y w apologize = y\r untidy appe>ance 9 a language di/9ctly und]/ood4 ,don't hold y\r p>asol s close to y\r face1 nor s l[ d[n4 ,y _c see y\r way cle>1 & y w run aga9/ somebody4 ,always hold an umbrella or p>asol s t x w cle> y\r bonnet1 & leave ! space be=e y\r face op51 t y may see y\r way cle>ly4 ,if y are ev] caught 9 a %[]1 & meet a g5tleman fri5d :o (f]s an umbrella1 accept x1 if he w accompany y to y\r de/9ation2 b d n deprive him ( x1 if he is n able to jo9 y4 ,%\ld he insi/1 return x to 8 h\se or /ore ! in/ant y rea* home1 ) a note ( ?anks4 ,if a /rang] (f]s y ! same s]vices1 decl9e x positively1 b c\rte\sly1 at ! same "t ?ank+ him4 ,nev] /op to speak to a g5tleman 9 ! /reet4 ,if y h any?+ important to say to him1 all[ him to jo9 & walk ) y1 b d n /op4 ,x is be/ to foll[ ! same rule ) reg>d to ladies1 & ei!r walk ) !m or invite !m to walk ) y1 in/ead ( /opp+ to talk4 ,a lady :o desires to pay /rict reg>d to etiquette1 w n /op to gaze 9 at ! %op w9d[s4 ,x looks c\ntrifi$4 ,if %e is alone1 x looks z if %e 7 wait+ = "s "o2 & if %e is n alone1 %e is victimiz+ "s "o else1 to satisfy h] curiosity4 ,rememb] t 9 meet+ y\r g5tlem5 fri5ds x is y\r duty to speak fir/1 !re=e d n cut !m by wait+ to be recogniz$4 ,be sure1 h[ev]1 t !y see y be=e y b[1 or y place y\rself 9 ! awkw>d position ( hav+ y\r b[ pass1 unreturn$4 ,y are n expect$ to recognize any fri5d on ! opposite side ( ! /reet4 ,ev5 if y see !m1 d n b[4 ,avoid cutt+ any "o4 ,x is a small way ( %[+ spite1 & l[]s y m ?an y\r enemy4 ,if y wi% to avoid any fur!r int]c\rse b[1 coldly & gravely1 b d n look at any "o1 to :om y are 9 ! habit ( b[+1 & pass )\t b[+4 ,if y d ?is1 !y may flatt] !mselves t !y 7 really unrecogniz$1 b a di/ant1 cold b[ w %[ !m t y speak f civility only1 n f fri5d%ip4 ,9 ! /reet a lady takes ! arm ( a relative1 h] affianc$ lov]1 or husb&1 b ( no o!r g5tleman1 unless ! /reets are slipp]y1 or 9 ! ev5+4 ,:5 a lady walks ) two g5tlem51 %e %\ld endeavor to divide h] att5tion & rem>ks equally betwe5 !m4 ,if y d /op 9 ! /reet1 draw ne> ! walls1 t y may n keep o!rs f pass+4 ,l\d talk+ & laugh+ 9 ! /reet are excessively vulg>4 ,n only ?is1 b !y expose a lady to ! mo/ sev]e miscon/ruction4 ,let y\r conduct be mode/ & quiet4 ,if a g5tleman1 al?\gh a /rang]1 (f]s 8 h& to assi/ y 9 leav+ a c>riage1 omnibus1 or to aid y 9 cross+ :]e x is wet or muddy1 accept 8 civility1 ?ank him1 b[ & pass on4 ,if y wi% to take an omnibus or c>1 see t x is n already full4 ,if x is1 d n get 94 ,y w annoy o!rs1 & be uncom=table y\rself4 ,x is be/ to c>ry *ange to pay c> or omnibus f>e1 z y keep o!rs wait+ :il/ ! driv] is mak+ *ange1 & x is apt to fall into ! /raw :5 pass+ f "o h& to ano!r4 ,if a g5tleman gives y 8 seat1 h&s y\r f>e1 or (f]s y any su* att5tion1 ?ank him4 ,x is n c\ntrifi$1 x is lady-l4 ,if y d n speak1 b[4 ,be c>eful n to be alone 9 ! /reets aft] night fall4 ,x exposes y to insult4 ,if y are oblig$ to g out1 h a s]vant1 or ano!r lady1 if y _c procure ! escort ( a g5tleman1 :i* is1 ( c\rse1 ! be/4 ,walk sl[ly1 d n turn y\r head to ! "r or left1 unless y wi% to walk t way1 & avoid any ge/ure or ^w t w attract att5tion4 ,nev] look back6 ,x is excessively ill-br$4 ,make no rem>ks ^u ^? :o pass y1 :ile !re is ev5 a possibility t !y may he> y4 ,nev] />e at any "o1 ev5 if !y h peculi>ities1 :i* make !m objects ( rem>k4 ,9 tak+ y\r place 9 an omnibus or c>1 d s quietly1 & !n sit p]fectly /ill4 ,d n *ange y\r place or move re/lessly4 ,make room = o!rs if y see t ! opposite side is full4 ,if y walk ) a g5tleman1 :5 he rea*es y\r door invite him 91 b if he decl9es1 d n urge him4 ,if y are return+ f a ball or p>ty1 & ! h\r is a v late 7or e>ly7 "o1 y are n b\nd 9 polit5ess to invite y\r escort to ent]2 ! h\r w be y\r apology = omitt+ ! c]emony4 ,,*apt] ,,xv4 ,,lett] ,,writ+4 ,!re is no bran* ( education call$ s univ]sally into requisition z ! art ( lett] writ+2 no /ation1 high or l[1 :]e ! necessity = correspond5ce is n felt2 no p]son1 "y or old1 :o does n1 at "s "t1 write1 cause to be writt51 & receive lett]s4 ,f ! ,presid5t 9 8 (ficial capacity1 ) ! busy p5s ( secret>ies con/antly employ$ 9 ?is bran* ( s]vice1 to ! ,iri% labor] :o1 unable to guide a p51 writes1 also by proxy1 to 8 k9sfolks across ! wide ocean2 all1 at "s "t1 feel ! desire to transmit "s message1 ^w ( love1 bus9ess1 or sometimes enmity1 by lett]4 ,yet1 9 spite ( ! univ]sal ne$1 & almo/ univ]sal habit1 !re are really b v few p]sons :o write a good lett]2 a lett] t is1 at ! same "t long en\gh to int]e/1 yet n long en\gh to tire2 suffici5tly cond5s$ to keep ! att5tion1 & n t$i\s1 & yet detail$ en\gh to af=d satisfaction2 t is correct 9 grammatical con/ruction1 prop]ly punctuat$1 writt5 9 a cle>1 legible h&1 ) ! date1 address1 signature1 all 9 ! prop] place1 no words ^: lett]s /& 9 utt] defiance to spell+-book rules2 9 %ort1 a well-writt5 lett]4 ,?\s&s1 millions are s5t f po/ to po/ e day4 ,! lightn+ spe$ ( ! telegraph takes its messages f city to city2 ! pant+ /eam] c>ries f cont95t to cont95t its heavy mail-bags1 lad5 ) its weight ( lov+ messages2 ! iron horse drags beh9d x1 its measure ( ! _m missives2 :ile1 9 ! f>-di/ant ,we/]n wilds1 ! lumb]+ wagon be>s its pap] freight1 ) its p5 eloqu5ce1 to *e] & com=t1 or sadd5 & cru%1 ! wait+ emigrants1 long+ = news ( home4 ,to "s1 :o1 ) he>ts desolat$ by ! sep>ation f ! home circle1 c\ld read1 ) an eag] int]e/1 volumes ( ! mo/ common-place1 trivial incid5ts1 if only connect$ ) ! lov$ ones !re1 w come pages1 f ! p5 ( ! de>e/ relative1 full ( le>n+1 wit1 & wisdom1 :olly un9t]e/+ to ! receiv]4 ,:y is ?is8 ,n f any desire ^u ! "p ( ! writ] to display le>n+ or tal5t1 b because1 writ+ a lett] be+ to !m a great und]tak+1 & ! lett] be+ de/9$ to g a long di/ance1 !y look ^u x z an ev5t too unusual to be wa/$ 9 detail+ ! simple1 e-day details ( dome/ic life1 & ransack memory & le>n+ = a subject wor?y ( ! long j\rney & unusual labor4 ,o!rs w h1 f m]e acqua9tances1 long1 t$i\s details ( un9t]e/+ trivialities1 & f ! ne> relatives1 %ort1 dry epi/les1 :i* fall l /ones ^u ! he>t long+ = little1 affectionate expressions1 & home memories4 ,f "s lett] writ]s1 :o are 9 ! mid/ ( sc5es & ev5ts ( ! mo/ absorb+ int]e/1 lett]s arrive1 only a few l9es long1 )\t "o allusion to ! int]e/+ matt] ly+ s pr(usely ar\nd !m2 :ile o!rs1 ) ! scantie/ ( outw>d subjects1 w1 f _! own teem+ bra91 write bewit*+1 absorb+ epi/les1 read ) eag]ness1 laid aside ) ! e*o ( ,oliv] ,twi/'s petition 9 a sigh2 ! read] long+ = m4 ,x is1 ( c\rse1 impossible to lay d[n any di/9ct rule = ! /yle ( lett] writ+4 ,embrac+1 z x does1 all subjects & all classes1 all c\ntries & associations1 & e relation 9 :i* "o p]son c /& to ano!r1 :at w\ld be an imp]ative rule 9 "s cases1 becomes positive absurdity 9 o!rs4 ,e lett] w v>y f o!rs writt5 be=e1 9 ei!r its subject1 ! p]son address$1 or ! circum/ances :i* make x necess>y to write x4 ,lett] writ+ is1 9 fact1 b conv]sation1 c>ri$ on ) ! p51 :5 di/ance or circum/ances prev5t ! easi] me?od ( ex*ang+ ideas1 by spok5 words4 ,write1 !re=e1 z y w\ld speak1 7 ! p]son to :om y\r lett] is address$ seat$ beside y4 ,z among/ relatives & intimate fri5ds y w\ld conv]se ) a famili> mann]1 & 9 easy language1 s 9 y\r lett]s to su* p]sons1 let y\r /yle be simple1 entirely devoid ( ef=t4 ,aga91 :5 introduc$ to a /rang]1 or conv]s+ ) "o mu* old] ?an y\rself1 y\r mann] is respectful & dignifi$2 s let ! lett]s address$ to ^? on ^! t]ms ) y\rself1 be writt5 9 a m c]emoni\s /yle1 b at ! same "t avoid /iffness1 & above all1 p$antry4 ,a lett] ( advice to a *ild1 w\ld ( c\rse dem& an entirely diff]5t /yle1 f t writt5 by a "y lady to a fri5d or relative advanc$ 9 life2 yet ! g5]al rule1 write z y w\ld conv]se1 applies to ea* & e case4 ,neatness is an important requisite 9 a lett]4 ,to s5d a fair1 clean %eet1 ) ! words writt5 9 a cle>1 legible h&1 w g a great way 9 ensur+ a cordial welcome = y\r lett]4 ,avoid erasures1 z !y spoil ! beauty ( y\r %eet4 ,if x is necess>y to correct a ^w1 draw y\r p5 ?r\gh x1 & write ! ^w y wi% to use z a sub/itute1 above ! "o eras$2 d n scrat* out ! ^w & write ano!r ov] x3 x is untidy1 & ! second ^w is seldom legible4 ,ano!r requisite = a good lett] is a cle>1 concise /yle4 ,use language t w be easily und]/ood1 & avoid ! p>5!sis4 ,important passages 9 lett]s are (t5 lo/ entirely1 by ! ambigu\s mann] 9 :i* !y are word$1 or r5d]$ q z un9telligible by ! blots1 erasures1 or villa9\sly bad h&-writ+4 ,a phrase may1 by ! addition or omission ( "o ^w1 or by ! alt]ation ( "o punctuation m>k1 convey to ! read] an entirely diff]5t idea f t int5d$ by ! writ]2 s1 :ile y write pla9ly1 use good language1 y mu/ also write c>efully1 & punctuate prop]ly4 ,if y are 9 d\bt ab\t ! correct spell+ ( a ^w1 d n tru/ to *ance1 hop+ x may be "r1 b get a diction>y1 & be c]ta9 t y h spelt x z x ought to be4 ,simplicity is a great *>m 9 lett]-writ+4 ,:at y s5d 9 a lett]1 is1 z a g5]al rule1 int5d$ = ! p]usal ( "o p]son only4 ,!re=e to cumb] y\r epi/les ) quotations1 similes1 fl[]y language1 & a /ilt$1 p$antic /yle1 is 9 bad ta/e4 ,y may use elegant language1 yet use x easily4 ,if y use a quotation1 let x come into its place naturally1 z if fl[+ 9 p]fect h>mony ) y\r ideas1 & let x be %ort4 ,long quotations 9 a lett] are tiresome4 ,make no attempt at display 9 a correspond5ce4 ,y w err z mu* 9 su* an attempt1 z if1 :5 seat$ face to face ) y\r correspond5t1 alone 9 y\r own ap>tm5t1 y 7 to rise & conv]se ) ! ge/ures & language ( a m9i/] 9 8 pulpit1 or a lectur] ^u 8 plat=m4 ,z ev]y?+1 9 /yle1 dep5ds ^u ! subject ( ! lett]1 & ! p]son to :om x is address$1 "s words foll[1 relat+ to "s ( ! v>i\s k9ds ( correspond5ce3 ,,bus9ess ,,lett]s %\ld be z brief z is consi/5t ) ! subject2 cle>1 & to ! po9t4 ,say all t is necess>y1 9 pla91 di/9ct language1 & say no m4 ,/ate1 9 =cible words1 e po9t t x is desirable = y\r correspond5t to be made acqua9t$ )1 t y\r designs & prospects ^u ! subject may be p]fectly well und]/ood4 ,write1 9 su* a lett]1 ( no?+ b ! bus9ess 9 h&2 o!r matt]s w be out ( place !re4 ,n[h]e is a confus$ /yle1 or illegible writ+1 m unp>donable ?an 9 a bus9ess lett]2 n[h]e a good /yle & h& m important4 ,avoid fl[]y language1 too _m words1 all pa?os or wit1 any display ( tal5t or le>n+1 & e m]ely p]sonal matt]1 9 a bus9ess lett]4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,complim5t mu/ be re/rict$1 conf9$ entirely to "o subject4 ,if pass+ betwe5 acqua9tances1 !y %\ld be writt5 9 a graceful1 at ! same "t respectful1 mann]4 ,avoid hackney$ expressions1 commonplace quotations1 & long1 labor$ s5t5ces1 b :ile allud+ to ! subject 9 h&1 z if w>mly int]e/$ 9 x1 at ! same "t endeavor to write 9 a /yle ( simple1 natural grace4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,congratulation dem& a *e]ful1 pleasant /yle1 & an appe>ance ( great int]e/4 ,!y %\ld be writt5 f ! he>t1 & ! cordial1 w>m feel+s !re w prompt ! prop] language4 ,be c>eful1 :ile (f]+ to y\r fri5d ! he>ty congratulations h] happy circum/ances dem&1 t y d n let envy at h] good =tune1 creep into y\r head1 to make ! p5 utt] compla9+ words at y\r own h>d lot4 ,d n damp5 h] joy1 by comp>+ h] happ9ess ) ! mis]y ( ano!r4 ,!re are _m cl\ds 9 ! life ( e "o ( u4 ,:ile ! sun %9es cle>ly ^u ! ev5ts ( y\r fri5d's life let h] enjoy ! brightness & w>m?1 un%ad[$ by any words ( y\rs4 ,give h]1 to ! full1 y\r sympa?y 9 h] rejoic+1 *e]ful words1 w>m congratulations1 & bright hopes = ! future4 ,%\ld !re be1 at ! "t ( h] happ9ess1 any sad ev5t y wi% to communicate to h]1 ( :i* x is y\r duty to in=m h]1 write x 9 ano!r lett]4 ,if y mu/ s5d x ! same day1 d s1 b let ! epi/le wi%+ h] joy1 g alone1 uncl\d$ ) ! news ( sorr[4 ,at ! same "t1 avoid exagg]at$ expressions ( congratulation1 le/ y are suspect$ ( a desire to be satirical1 & avoid und]l9+ any words4 ,if ! language is n =cible en\gh to convey y\r ideas1 y w n make x bett] by und]l9+ x4 ,if y say to y\r fri5d ^u h] m>riage1 t y wi% h] joy 9 h] new relations1 & hope %e may be entirely happy 9 h] dome/ic life1 y make h] d\bt y\r wi%es1 & ?9k y mean to ridicule h] *ances ( su* happ9ess4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,condol5ce are exce$+ly try+1 bo? to read & to write4 ,if ! affliction :i* calls = !m is "o :i* t\*es y ne>ly1 really griev+ & di/ress+ y1 all writt5 words mu/ seem tame & cold1 comp>$ ) ! a*+ sympa?y :i* dictates !m4 ,x is h>d ) ! eyes bl9d$ by te>s1 & ! h& %ak+1 to write calmly2 & x is impossible to express ^u pap] all ! burn+ ?\ghts & words t w\ld p\r =?1 7 y beside ! fri5d ^: sorr[ is y\rs4 ,if y d n feel ! trial1 y\r task is /ill m difficult1 = no lett]s dem& tru?1 spok5 f ! he>t1 m ?an lett]s ( condol5ce4 ,d n treat ! subject = grief too lightly4 ,write words ( com=t if y w1 b d n appe> to consid] ! affliction z a trifle4 ,"t may make x less sev]e1 b ! fir/ bl[ ( grief mu/ be heavy1 & a few words ( s9c]e sympa?y w outweigh pages ( m]e expressions ( hope = com=t1 or ! c>eless l9es t %[ ! lett] to be "o ( m]e duty1 n feel+4 ,let y\r fri5d feel t h] sorr[ makes h] de>] to y ?an ev] be=e1 & t h] grief is y\rs4 ,to treat ! subject ) levity1 or to w&] f x into witticisms or e-day *it-*at1 is a wanton insult1 unwor?y ( a lady & a fri5d4 ,d n magnify ! ev5t1 or plunge ! m\rn] into /ill deep] despond5cy by tak+ a despair+1 gloomy view ( ! sorr[1 "u :i* %e is b5t4 ,%[ h] ! silv] l9+ ( h] cl\d1 try to soo! h] grief1 yet be will+ to admit t x is a cl\d1 & t %e has cause = grief4 ,to ?r[ out h9ts t ! sorr[ is s5t z a puni%m5t to an (f5d]2 to imply t neglect or imprud5ce on ! "p ( ! m\rn] is ! cause ( ! calamity2 to hold up ! trial z an example ( retribution1 or a natural consequ5ce ( wrong do+1 is cruel1 & b>b>\s4 ,ev5 if ?is is true1 7inde$1 if ?is is ! case1 x only aggravates ! insult72 avoid su* retrospection4 ,x is z if a surgeon1 call$ 9 to a pati5t suff]+ f a fractur$ limb1 sat d[n1 inatt5tive to ! suff]+1 to lecture 8 pati5t ^u ! c>elessness :i* caus$ ! accid5t4 ,"o ( ! mo/ t\*+ lett]s ( condol5ce ev] writt5 0 s5t by a lit]>y lady1 well kn[n 9 ! ranks ( our ,am]ican au?oresses1 to h] si/]1 :o _h lo/ h] y\nge/ *ild4 ,! words 7 few1 m]ely3-- ,,si/] ,,d>l+3 ,i _c write :at is 9 my he>t = y to-day1 x is too full4 ,fill$ ) a d\ble sorr[1 = y1 = my own grief4 ,te>s bl9d me1 my p5 trembles 9 my h&4 ,oh1 to be ne> y6 to clasp y 9 my arms6 to draw y\r head to my bosom1 & weep ) y6 ,d>l+1 ,god com=t y1 ,i _c4 ,s4 ,t 0 all4 ,yet ! sorr[+ "m said t no o!r lett]1 ?\gh %e appreciat$ ! k9d motive t dictat$ all1 yet none com=t$ h] z did ^! few l9es4 ,writt5 f ! he>t1 _! simple eloqu5ce t\*$ ! he>t = :i* !y 7 int5d$4 ,e>ly /ages ( great grief reject com=t1 b !y long1 ) int5se long+1 = sympa?y4 ,,lett]s ,,writt5 ,,to ,,g5tlem5 %\ld be c]emoni\s & dignifi$4 ,if ! acqua9tance is slight1 write 9 ! ?ird p]son1 if !re is a necessity = a lett]4 ,if a bus9ess lett]1 be respectful1 yet n s]vile4 ,x is bett] to avoid correspond5ce ) g5tlem51 p>ticul>ly :il/ y are "y1 z !re are _m objections to x4 ,/ill1 if a fri5d ( long /&+ solicits a correspond5ce1 & y\r p>5ts or husb& approve & p]mit compliance ) ! reque/1 x w\ld be ov]-prudi% to refuse4 ,write1 h[ev]1 su* lett]s z1 if !y 7 pr9t$ 9 ! newspap]s1 w\ld cause y no annoyance4 ,if ! acqua9tance admits ( a frank1 fri5dly /yle1 be c>eful t y\r expressions ( good w d n become too vehem5t1 & avoid any confid5tial communications4 ,:5 he beg9s to ask y to keep su* & su* passages secret1 believe me1 x is q "t to drop ! correspond5ce4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,enquiry1 especially if !y reque/ a favor1 %\ld conta9 a few l9es ( complim5t4 ,if ! lett] is ^u a private subject1 su* z enquiry ) reg>d to ! illness or mis=tune ( a fri5d1 avoid mak+ x too brief4 ,to write %ort1 c>eless lett]s ^u su* subjects1 is unfeel+1 & !y w surely be attribut$ to motives ( obligation or duty1 n to int]e/4 ,lett]s ( enquiry1 ref]r+ to family matt]s1 %\ld be delicately word$1 & appe> dictat$ by int]e/1 n m]e curiosity4 ,if ! enquiry ref]s to matt]s int]e/+ only to y\rself1 enclose a po/age-/amp = ! reply4 ,9 answ]+ su* lett]s1 if !y ref] to y\r own heal? or subjects int]e/+ to y\rself1 ?ank ! writ] = ! int]e/ express$1 & answ] 9 a satisfactory mann]4 ,if ! answ] int]e/s y\r correspond5t only1 d n reply z if ! enquiry annoy$ y1 b express "s int]e/ 9 ! matt] ( ! lett]1 & give z cle> & satisfactory reply z is 9 y\r p[]4 ,,lett]s ,,(f]+ ,,favors--,be c>eful 9 writ+ to (f] a favor1 t y d n make y\r fri5d feel a heavy weight ( obligation by ov]-rat+ y\r s]vices4 ,! k9dness w be duly appreciat$1 & m highly valu$ if (f]$ 9 a delicate mann]4 ,too /rong a s5se ( obligation is humiliat+1 s d n dim9i% ! real value ( ! s]vice by =c+ ! receiv] to ackn[l$ge a fictiti\s value4 ,let ! recipi5t ( y\r good w feel t x af=ds y z mu* pleasure to conf] ! favor z x w give h] to receive x4 ,a lett] accompany+ a pres5t1 %\ld be %ort & gracefully word$4 ,! affectionate _s ( su* little epi/les w d\ble ! value ( ! gift :i* !y accompany4 ,nev] ref] to a favor receiv$1 9 su* a lett]1 z t w give y\r gift ! appe>ance ( be+ paym5t = su* favor1 & make y\r lett] ( ab\t z mu* value z a tradesman's receipt$ bill4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,?anks = enquiries made1 %\ld be %ort1 m]ely e*o+ ! words ( ! lett] !y answ]1 & conta9 ! answ] to ! "q1 ) an ackn[l$gem5t ( y\r correspond5t's int]e/4 ,if ! lett] is y\r own ackn[l$gem5t ( a favor conf]r$1 let ! language be simple1 b /rong1 grateful1 & graceful4 ,fancy t y are clasp+ ! h& ( ! k9d fri5d :o has be5 g5]\s or ?\ghtful = y1 & !n write1 ev5 z y w\ld speak4 ,nev] h9t t y deem su* a favor an obligation to be return$ at ! fir/ opportunity2 al?\gh ?is may really be ! case1 x is extremely indelicate to say s4 ,9 y\r lett] gracefully ackn[l$ge ! obligation1 & if1 at a lat] day1 y c return ! favor1 !n let actions1 n words1 prove y\r grateful recollection ( ! favor conf]r$ ^u y4 ,if y\r lett] is writt5 to ackn[l$ge ! reception ( a pres5t1 speak ( ! beauty or usefulness ( ! gift1 & ( ! pleasant associations ) h] "n x w always recall4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,recomm5dation %\ld be tru?ful1 polite1 & c>efully consid]$4 ,su* lett]s may be bus9ess lett]s1 or !y may be giv5 to s]vants1 & !y mu/ be giv5 only :5 really des]v$4 ,d n be ha/y 9 giv+ !m2 rememb] t y are1 9 "s measure responsible = ! be>]2 !re=e1 nev] sacrifice tru? & frankness1 to a mi/ak5 idea ( k9dness or polit5ess4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,introduction mu/ be left unseal$4 ,!y mu/ n conta9 any allusion to ! p]sonal qualities ( ! be>]1 z su* allusion w\ld be ab\t z sure a pro( ( ill-bre$+ z if y sat beside y\r fri5d1 & ran ov] ! li/ ( ! virtues & tal5ts possess$ by h]4 ,! fact t ! p]son be>+ ! lett] is y\r fri5d1 w be all suffici5t reason = cordial reception by ! fri5d to :om ! lett] is address$4 ,! be/ =m is3-- ,,philadelphia1 ,june #ah?1 #ah--4 ,,my ,,de> ,,m>y3 ,?is lett] w be h&$ to y by ,mrs4 ,c41 to :om ,i am pleas$ to introduce y1 c]ta9 t ! acqua9tance ?us =m$1 betwe5 two fri5ds ( m9e1 ( s long /&+ & s mu* belov$1 w be pleasant to bo? p>ties4 ,any att5tion t y may f9d x 9 y\r p[] to ext5d to ,mrs4 ,c4 :il/ %e is 9 y\r city1 w be highly appreciat$1 & gratefully ackn[l$g$1 by ,y\r s9c]e fri5d ,a----4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,advice %\ld n be writt5 unsolicit$4 ,!y w1 9 all probability1 ev5 :5 reque/$1 be unpalatable1 & %\ld nev] be s5t unless !y c really be ( s]vice4 ,write !m ) frankness & s9c]ity4 ,to write aft] an act has be5 committ$1 & is irrevocable1 is folly1 & x is also unk9d4 ,y may in=m y\r fri5d t1 _h y be5 consult$1 a diff]5t c\rse f ! "o tak5 w\ld h be5 recomm5d$1 & y may really believe ?is1 yet x w probably be false4 ,see+ ! unfavorable result ( ! wrong c\rse w enable y fully to appreciate ! wisdom ( ! "r "o1 b1 _h y be5 consult$ :5 ! matt] 0 d\btful1 y w\ld probably h be5 z mu* puzzl$ z y\r fri5d to judge ! prop] mode ( action4 ,y %\ld ^w a lett] ( advice delicately1 /at+ y\r op9ion frankly & freely1 b giv+ x z an op9ion1 n z a positive law4 ,if ! advice is n tak51 d n feel (f5d$1 z o!rs1 m exp]i5c$ ?an y\rself ^u ! po9t 9 "q1 may h also be5 consult$4 ,let no selfi% motive gov]n su* a lett]4 ,?9k only ( ! good or evil to result to y\r fri5d1 & :ile y may write w>mly & e>ne/ly1 let ! motive be a really dis9t]e/$ "o4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,excuse %\ld be frank & graceful4 ,!y mu/ be writt5 promptly1 z soon z ! occasion t calls = !m admits4 ,if delay$1 !y become insult+4 ,if su* a lett] is call$ =? by an act ( neglig5ce on y\r own "p1 apologize = x frankly1 & %[ by y\r tone t y s9c]ely desire to rega9 ! confid5ce y\r c>elessness has p]il$4 ,if y h be5 oblig$ by positive inability to neglect ! fulfilm5t ( any promise y h giv51 or any commission y h und]tak51 !n /ate ! reason = y\r delay1 & solicit ! indulg5ce ( y\r fri5d4 ,d n write 9 su* /iff1 =mal language t ! apology w seem =c$ f y1 b (f] y\r excuse frankly1 z if ) a s9c]e desire to atone = an act ( neglig5ce1 or remove a gr\nd ( (f5ce4 ,,lett]s ,,( ,,intellig5ce are g5]ally ! answ] to lett]s ( enquiry1 or ! /atem5t ( c]ta9 incid5ts or facts1 int]e/+ bo? to ! writ] & read] ( ! lett]4 ,be c>eful 9 writ+ su* a lett] t y h all ! facts 9 exact accordance ) ! tru?4 ,rememb] t e ^w is set d[n aga9/ y1 if "o item ( y\r in=mation prove to be false2 & d n all[ p]sonal op9ion or prejudice to dictate a s+le s5t5ce4 ,nev] repeat any?+ ga!r$ f m]e he>say1 & be c>eful1 9 su* a lett]1 t y violate no confid5ce1 nor =ce y\rself ^u ! private affairs ( any "o4 ,d n let sc&al or a m]e love ( gossip dictate a lett] ( intellig5ce4 ,if y\r news is pa9ful1 /ate x z delicately z possible1 & add a few l9es expressive ( sympa?y4 ,if x is y\r pleasant task to communicate a joyful ev5t1 make y\r lett] *e]ful & gay4 ,if y h writt5 any su* lett]1 &1 aft] s5d+ x1 f9d y h made any error 9 a /atem5t1 write1 & correct ! mi/ake imm$iately4 ,x may be a trivial error1 yet !re is no false or mi/ak5 news s trifl+ z to make a correction unnecess>y4 ,,invitations are g5]ally writt5 9 ! ?ird p]son1 & ?is =m is us$ :]e ! acqua9tance is v slight1 = =mal notes1 & c>ds ( complim5t4 ,! =m is prop] ^u su* occasions1 b %\ld be us$ only 9 ! mo/ c]emoni\s correspond5ce4 ,if ?is /yle is adopt$ by a p]son :o has be5 accu/om$ to write 9 a m famili> "o to y1 take x z a h9t1 t ! correspond5ce has1 = "s reason1 become disagreeable1 & _h bett] cease4 ,,autograph ,,lett]s %\ld be v %ort2 m]ely ackn[l$g+ ! complim5t paid by ! reque/ = ! signature1 & a few words express+ ! pleasure y feel 9 grant+ ! favor4 ,if y write to ask = an autograph1 always inclose a po/age /amp = ! answ]4 ,date e lett] y write accurately1 & avoid po/scripts4 ,polit5ess1 k9dness1 bo? dem& t e lett] y receive mu/ be answ]$4 ,no?+ c give m pleasure 9 a correspond5ce1 ?an prompt replies4 ,matt]s ( mu* importance (t5 re/ ^u ! reply to a lett]1 & !re=e ?is duty %\ld nev] be delay$4 ,9 answ]+ fri5dly lett]s1 x w be f\nd mu* easi] to write :at is k9d & int]e/+1 if y sit d[n to ! task z soon z y read y\r fri5d's lett]4 ,always m5tion ! date ( ! lett] to :i* y\r own is a reply4 ,nev] write on a half %eet ( pap]4 ,pap] is *eap1 & a half %eet looks bo? mean & slov5ly4 ,if y d n write b ?ree l9es1 /ill s5d ! :ole %eet ( pap]4 ,p]fectly pla9 pap]1 ?ick1 smoo?1 & :ite1 is ! mo/ elegant4 ,:5 9 m\rn+1 use pap] & envelopes ) a black edge4 ,nev] use ! gilt edg$1 or fancy bord]$ pap]2 x looks vulg>1 & is 9 bad ta/e4 ,y may1 if y w1 h y\r initials /amp$ at ! top ( ! %eet1 & on ! seal ( ! envelope1 b d n h any fancy ornam5ts 9 ! corn]s1 or on ! back ( ! envelope4 ,y w be guilty ( a great brea* ( polit5ess1 if y answ] ei!r a note or lett] ^u ! half %eet ( ! pap] s5t by y\r correspond5t1 ev5 ?\gh x may be left blank4 ,nev] write1 ev5 ! %orte/ note1 9 p5cil4 ,x looks c>eless1 & is rude4 ,nev] write a lett] c>elessly4 ,x may be address$ to y\r mo/ intimate fri5d1 or y\r ne>e/ relative1 b y c nev] be sure t ! eye = :i* x is int5d$1 w be ! only "o t sees x4 ,i d n mean by ?is1 t ! epi/le %\ld be 9 a =mal1 /udi$ /yle1 b t x mu/ be correct 9 its grammatical con/ruction1 prop]ly punctuat$1 ) e ^w spelt accord+ to rule4 ,ev5 9 ! mo/ famili> epi/les1 obs]ve ! prop] rules = composition2 y w\ld n 9 conv]s+1 ev5 ) y\r own family1 use incorrect gramm>1 or imp]t95t language2 !re=e avoid say+ ^u pap] :at y w\ld n say ) y\r tongue4 ,notes writt5 9 ! ?ird p]son1 mu/ be cont9u$ ?r\gh\t 9 ! same p]son2 !y are frequ5tly v my/]i\s f ! confusion ( pron\ns1 yet x is a /yle ( correspond5ce mu* us$ & v prop] ^u _m occasions4 ,= complim5t1 inquiry :]e !re is no intimacy betwe5 ! p>ties1 f sup]iors to inf]iors1 ! =m is elegant & prop]4 ,if y receive a note writt5 9 ! ?ird p]son1 reply 9 ! same =m1 b d n reply ?us to a m famili> note or lett]1 z x is insult+1 & implies (f5ce tak54 ,if y wi% to repel undue famili>ity or imp]t95ce 9 y\r correspond5t1 !n reply to ! epi/le 9 ! mo/ =mal language1 & 9 ! ?ird p]son4 ,x is an extraord9>y fact1 t p]sons :o h receiv$ a good education1 & :o use _! p5s frequ5tly1 w (t51 9 writ+ notes1 comm5ce 9 ! ?ird p]son & !n use ! second or fir/ p]sonal pron\n1 & f9i% by a signature2 ?us-- ,miss ,claire's complim5ts to ,mr4 ,james1 & wi%es to "k :e!r y h f9i%$ read+ my copy ( ,jane ,eyre1 z if ,mr4 ,james _h f9i%$ x1 ,i w\ld l to l5d x to ano!r fri5d4 ,s9c]ely y\rs1 ,,ella ,,claire4 ,! errors 9 ! above are too gl>+ to ne$ comm5t1 yet1 ) only ! alt]ation ( names1 x is a copy1 v]batim1 ( a note writt5 by a well educat$ girl4 ,nev] sign a note writt5 9 ! ?ird p]son1 if y beg9 ! note ) y\r own "n4 ,x is admissible1 if ! note is word$ 9 ?is way3-- ,w ,mr4 ,james return by be>]1 ! copy ( ,jane ,eyre he borr[$1 if he has f9i%$ read+ x1 & oblige 8 s9c]e fri5d1 ,,ella ,,claire4 ,if y use a quotation1 nev] omit to put x 9 quotation m>ks1 o!rwise y\r correspond5t may1 h[ev] unju/ly1 accuse y ( a desire to pass (f ! idea & words ( ano!r1 = y\r own4 ,avoid po/scripts4 ,above all1 nev] s5d an inquiry or complim5t 9 a po/script4 ,to write a long lett]1 ^u v>i\s subjects1 & 9 ! po/script desire to be rememb]$ to y\r fri5d's family1 or inquire = _! welf>e1 in/ead ( a complim5t1 becomes insult+4 ,x is bett]1 if y h n "t to write aga9 & place su* inquiries above y\r signature1 to omit !m entirely4 ,nobody likes to see _! "n m5tion$ z an aft]?\ght4 ,punctuate y\r lett]s c>efully4 ,! want ( a m>k ( punctuation1 or ! incorrect plac+ ( x1 w make ! mo/ w(ul confusion4 ,i give an in/ance ( ! utt] absurdity produc$ by ! alt]ation ( punctuation m>ks1 turn+ a s5sible p>agraph to ! mo/ arrant nons5se3 ,caes> ent]$2 on 8 head 8 helmet2 on 8 feet arm$ s&als2 ^u 8 br[ !re 0 a cl\d2 9 8 "r h& 8 fai?ful sword2 9 8 eye an angry gl>e2 say+ no?+1 he sat d[n4 ,by us+ precisely ! same words1 m]ely alt]+ ! position ( ! punctuation m>ks1 we h-- ,caes> ent]$ on 8 head2 8 helmet on 8 feet2 arm$ s&als ^u 8 br[2 !re 0 a cl\d 9 8 "r h&2 8 fai?ful sword 9 8 eye2 an angry gl>e say+ no?+2 he sat d[n4 ,be c>eful1 !n1 to punctuate prop]ly1 t y may convey to ! read] ! exact s5se ( :at is 9 y\r m9d4 ,if y receive an imp]t95t lett]1 treat x ) contempt2 d n answ] x4 ,nev] answ] a lett] by proxy1 :5 y are able to write y\rself4 ,x is a m>k ( respect & love1 to answ]1 9 y\r own h&1 all lett]s address$ to y4 ,if y are oblig$ to write to a fri5d to refuse to grant a favor ask$1 y w less5 ! pa9 ( refusal by word+ y\r lett] delicately4 ,lov+ words1 if x is a ne> fri5d1 respectful1 k9d ones if a m]e acqua9tance1 w make ! disagreeable cont5ts ( ! lett] m be>able4 ,try to make ! mann] smoo? & s(t5 ! h>dness ( ! matt]4 ,e lett] mu/ embrace ! foll[+ p>ticul>s3 #a/4 ,! date4 #b;d4 ,! complim5t>y address4 #c;d4 ,! body ( ! lett]4 #d?4 ,! complim5t>y clos+4 #e?4 ,! signature4 #f?4 ,! address4 ,!re are two ways ( putt+ ! date1 & ! address4 ,! fir/ is to place !m at ! top ( ! %eet1 ! o!r is to place !m aft] ! signature4 ,:5 at ! top1 y write ! "n ( y\r resid5ce1 or t ( ! city 9 :i* y reside1 ) ! day ( ! mon? & ! ye>1 at ! "r h& ( ! fir/ l9e ( ! %eet4 ,!n1 at ! left h& ( ! next l9e1 write ! address1 !n ! complim5t>y address bel[ ! "n2 ?us-- ,,will[ ,,grove1 ,,new ,,york1 ,june #bg?1 #ahei4 ,,mrs4 ,e4 ,c4 ,,h[ell1 ,my de> ,madam1 ,i receiv$ y\r lett]1 etc4 ,at ! end ( ! lett]1 on ! "r h& ( ! %eet1 put ! complim5t>y clos+1 & !n ! signature2 ?us-- ,i rema91 my de> ,madam1 ,) mu* respect1 ,y\rs s9c]ely1 ,s4 ,e4 ,,law4 ,if y place ! date & address aft] ! signature1 put x at ! left ( ! %eet2 ?us-- ,i rema91 my de> ,madam1 ,) mu* respect1 ,y\rs s9c]ely1 ,s4 ,e4 ,,law4 ,,mrs4 ,e4 ,c4 ,,h[ell4 ,june #bg?1 #ahei4 ,= a long lett]1 x is bett] to put ! date & address at ! top ( ! page4 ,= a lett] ( only a few l9es1 :i* ends on ! fir/ page1 ! second =m is be/4 ,9 a lett] writt5 to a p]son 9 ! same city1 y ne$ n put ! address "u ! signature2 if n1 write x-- ,s4 ,e4 ,,law1 ,,will[ ,,grove1 ,,new ,,york4 ,9 writ+ to a de> fri5d or relative1 :]e !re is no =mality requir$1 y may omit ! "n at ! top ( ! lett]2 put ! date & address ?us-- ,,will[ ,,grove1 ,,new ,,york1 ,june #bg?1 #ahei4 ,,de> ,,anna3 ,i write1 etc4 ,x is be/1 h[ev]1 to put ! full "n at ! bottom ( ! la/ page1 9 case ! lett] is mislaid )\t ! envelope2 ?us-- ,e4 ,c4 ,,law4 ,,miss ,,anna ,,wright4 ,if y use an envelope1 & ?is cu/om is n[ univ]sal1 fold y\r lett] neatly to fit into x2 !n direct on ! envelope4 ,put fir/ ! "n1 !n ! "n ( ! p]son to ^: c>e ! lett] mu/ be direct$1 !n ! /reet1 ! city1 & ,/ate4 ,if ! t[n is small1 put also ! c\nty4 ,?is is ! =m3-- ,,miss ,,anna ,,wright1 ,c>e ( ,mr4 ,john ,c4 ,wright1 ,no4 #dj1 ,lex+ton /reet1 ,gre5sburg--,lee ,c\nty4 ,mass4 ,if ! city is a l>ge "o1 ,new ,york1 ,philadelphia1 ,baltimore1 or any ( ! pr9cipal cities ( ! ,union1 y may omit ! "n ( ! c\nty4 ,if y\r lett] is to g abroad1 add ! "n ( ! c\ntry3 z1 ,engl&1 or ,france1 9 full1 "u t ( ! city4 ,! "n ( ! /ate is usually abbreviat$1 & = ! use ( my read]s1 ,i give ! names ( ! ,unit$ ,/ates ) _! abbreviations3 ,ma9e1 ,me4 ,new ,hamp%ire1 ,n4 ,h4 ,v]mont1 ,vt4 ,massa*usetts1 ,mass4 ,rhode ,isl&1 ,r4 ,i4 ,connecticut1 ,conn4 ,new ,york1 ,n4 ,y4 ,new ,j]sey1 ,n4 ,j4 ,p5nsylvania1 ,pa41 or1 ,p5n4 ,delaw>e1 ,del4 ,m>yl&1 ,md4 ,virg9ia1 ,va4 ,nor? ,c>ol9a1 ,n4 ,c4 ,s\? ,c>ol9a1 ,s4 ,c4 ,georgia1 ,ga41 or1 ,geo4 ,alabama1 ,ala4 ,mississippi1 ,miss4 ,miss\ri1 ,mo4 ,l\isiana1 ,la4 ,t5nessee1 ,t5n4 ,k5tucky1 ,ky4 ,indiana1 ,ind4 ,ohio1 ,o4 ,mi*igan1 ,mi*4 ,ill9ois1 ,ill4 ,wiscons91 ,wis4 ,arkansas1 ,ark4 ,texas1 ,tex4 ,i[a1 ,io4 ,florida1 ,flo4 ,oregon1 ,o4 ,cali=nia1 ,cal4 ,m9nesota1 ,m9n4 ,di/rict ( ,columbia1 ,d4 ,c4 ,if y are writ+ f ano!r c\ntry to ,am]ica1 put ,unit$ ,/ates ( ,am]ica aft] ! "n ( ! /ate4 ,on ! upp] "r h& corn] ( y\r envelope1 put y\r po/age-/amp4 ,if y s5d a lett] by private h&1 write ! "n ( ! be>] 9 ! l[] left h& corn]1 ?us3 ,,mrs4 ,e4 ,a4 ,,h[ell1 ,cl9ton ,place1 ,bo/on4 ,mr4 ,g4 ,g4 ,lane4 ,9 direct+ to any "o :o c claim any prefix1 or addition1 to 8 prop] "n d n omit to put t republican title4 ,= a cl]gyman1 ,rev4 = ,rev]5d is put be=e ! "n1 ?us3-- ,,rev4 ,,james ,c4 ,,day4 ,= a bi%op3 ,,"r ,,rev]5d ,e4 ,,banks4 ,= a physician3 ,,dr4 ,,james ,,curtis4 or1 ,,james ,,curtis1 ,m4,d4 ,= a memb] ( ,congress3 ,,hon4 ,e4 ,c4 ,,delta4 ,= an (fic] 9 ! navy3 ,,capt4 ,,h5ry ,,lee1 ,u4 ,s4 ,n4 ,= an (fic] 9 ! army3 ,,col4 ,,edw>d ,,holmes1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,= a pr(essor3 ,,pr(4 ,e4 ,l4 ,,james4 ,if ! honor>y addition1 ,,ll4,d41 ,a4 ,m41 or any su* title belongs to y\r correspond5t1 add x to 8 "n on ! envelope1 ?us3-- ,j4 ,l4 ,,pet]s1 ,,ll4,d4 ,if y seal ) wax1 x is be/ to put a drop "u ! turn-ov]1 & fa/5 ?is d[n firmly be=e y drop ! wax t is to receive ! impression4 ,c>ds ( complim5t are usually writt5 9 ! ?ird p]son4 ,i give a few ( ! mo/ common & prop] =ms4 ,= a p>ty3 ,miss ,lee's complim5ts to ,mr4 ,bates1 = ,w$nesday ev5+1 ,nov4 #ah?1 at #h o'clock4 ,address$ to a lady3 ,miss ,lee reque/s ! pleasure ( ,miss ,h[>d's company on ,w$nesday ev5+1 ,nov4 #ah?1 at #h o'clock4 ,= a ball1 ! above =m1 ) ! ^w ,danc+1 9 ! left h& corn]4 ,invitations to d9n] or tea specify ! ent]ta9m5t ?us3 ,mrs4 ,g>ret's complim5ts to ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,h[>d1 & reque/s ! pleasure ( _! company to d9e 7or take tea7 on ,w$nesday1 ,nov4 #f?1 at #f o'clock4 ,! =m = answ]+1 is3-- ,miss ,h[>d accepts ) pleasure ,miss ,lee's polite invitation = ,w$nesday ev5+4 or1 ,miss ,h[>d regrets t a prior engagem5t w prev5t h] accept+ ,miss ,lee's polite invitation = ,w$nesday ev5+4 ,mr4 & ,mrs4 ,h[>d's complim5ts to ,mrs4 ,g>ret1 & accept ) pleasure h] k9d invitation = ,w$nesday4 or1 ,mrs4 ,h[>d regrets t ! sev]e illness ( ,mr4 ,h[>d w r5d] x impossible = ei!r h]self or ,mr4 ,h[>d to jo9 ,mrs4 ,g>ret's p>ty on ,w$nesday next4 ,^u visit+ c>ds1 left :5 ! call] is ab\t to leave ! city1 ! lett]s p4 p4 c4 are put 9 ! left h& corn]1 !y are ! abbreviation ( ! ,fr5* words1 p\r pr5dre conge1 or may1 ) equal propriety1 /& = pres5ts p>t+ complim5ts4 ,ano!r =m1 p4 d4 a41 p\r dire adieu1 may be us$4 ,no accompli%m5t )9 ! scope ( human k is s beautiful 9 all its features z t ( epi/ol>y correspond5ce4 ,?\gh di/ance1 abs5ce1 & circum/ances may sep>ate ! holie/ alliances ( fri5d%ip1 or ^? :o are b\nd toge!r by ! /ill /rong] ties ( affection1 yet ! p[] ( int]*ang+ ?\ghts1 words1 feel+s1 & s5tim5ts1 ?r\gh ! m$ium ( lett]s1 adds a sweetness to ! pa9 ( sep>ation1 r5ovat+ to life1 & add+ to happ9ess4 ,! wide ocean may roll betwe5 ^? :o h pass$ ! social ye>s ( y\? toge!r1 or ! sn[-capp$ ,alps may rise 9 sublime gr&eur1 sep>at+ e>ly associates2 /ill "y remembrances may be call$ up1 & ! p>adise ( memory made to bloom afre% ) un)]$ fl[]s ( holy recollection4 ,?\gh we see n eye to eye & face to face1 :]e ! s(t music ( a lov$ voice may fall ) its ri*ness ^u ! e>1 yet ! v s\l & emotions ( ! m9d may be p\r$ =? 9 su* melody z to t\* ! he>t t's f> away1 & melt d[n ! livelie/ eye into te>s ( ec/atic rapture4 ,)\t ! ability to practice ! ref9$ art ( epi/ol>y correspond5ce1 m5 w\ld become cold & discordant3 an isolat$ comp\nd ( misan?ropy4 ,!y w\ld fall (f 9 =sak5 fragm5ts f ! great bond ( union :i* n[ adorns & beautifies all society4 ,abs5ce1 di/ance1 & "t w\ld cut ! silk5 cords ( p>5tal1 bro!rly1 & ev5 connubial affection4 ,e>ly circum/ances w\ld be lo/ 9 =getfulness1 & ! virtues ( reciprocal fri5d%ip wa/e _! sweetness on ! des]t air4 ,s9ce1 !n1 ! art & practice ( lett]-writ+ is productive ( s mu* ref9$ & social happ9ess1 a laudable indulg5ce 9 x mu/ ev] be comm5dable4 ,:ile x elevates ! noble faculties ( ! m9d1 x also *a/5s ! disposition1 & improves ^? intellectual p[]s :i* w\ld o!rwise rema9 dormant & useless4 ,not)/&+ ! v>i\s beauties & pleasures att5dant ^u ! accompli%m5t1 yet !re are _m :o h giv5 x b a slight portion ( _! att5tion1 & h1 !re=e1 cause to blu% at _! own ignorance :5 necessity dem&s its practice4 ,!re is no bett] mode by :i* to te/ ! acquirem5ts ( ei!r a "y lady or g5tleman ?an f _! lett]s4 ,lett]s are among ! mo/ useful =ms ( composition4 ,!re are few p]sons1 :o c read or write at all1 :o d n frequ5tly h occasion to write !m2 & an elegant lett] is mu* m r>e ?an an elegant specim5 ( any o!r k9d ( writ+4 ,! m rational & elevat$ ! topics are1 on :i* y write1 ! less w y c>e = y\r lett]s be+ se51 or = p>agraphs be+ read out ( !m2 & :]e !re is no ne$ ( any secrecy1 x is be/ n to b9d y\r fri5d by promises1 b to leave x to h] discretion4 ,,*apt] ,,xvi4 ,,polite ,,deportm5t1 ,,& ,,good ,,habits4 ,"l ,*e/]field says1 ,good s5se & good nature sugge/ civility 9 g5]al2 b 9 good bre$+ !re are a ?\s& little delicacies :i* are e/abli%$ only by cu/om4 ,x is ! k & practice ( su* little delicacies :i* con/itutes ! greate/ *>m ( society4 ,mann] may be1 &1 9 mo/ cases1 probably is1 ! cloak ( ! he>t2 ?is cloak may be us$ to cov] defects1 b is x n bett] s to conceal ^! defects1 ?an to flaunt & p>ade !m 9 ! eyes ( all :om we may meet8 ,_m p]sons plead a love ( tru? z an apology = r\gh mann]s1 z if tru? 0 nev] g5tle & k9d1 b always h>%1 morose1 & =bidd+4 ,surely good mann]s & a good consci5ce are no m inconsi/5t ) ea* o!r ?an beauty & innoc5ce1 :i* are /rik+ly ak91 & always look ! bett] = companion%ip4 ,r\ghness & hone/y are inde$ sometimes f\nd toge!r 9 ! same p]son1 b he is a poor judge ( human nature :o takes ill-mann]s to be a gu>antee ( probity ( "*4 ,"s p]sons object to polit5ess1 t its language is unmean+ & false4 ,b ?is is easily answ]$4 ,a lie is n lock$ up 9 a phrase1 b mu/ exi/1 if at all1 9 ! m9d ( ! speak]4 ,9 ! ord9>y complim5ts ( civiliz$ life1 !re is no int5tion to deceive1 & consequ5tly no falsehood4 ,polite language is pleasant to ! e>1 & soo?+ to ! he>t1 :ile r\gh words are j ! rev]se2 & if n ! product ( ill temp]1 are v apt to produce x4 ,! pla9e/ ( tru?s1 let x be rememb]$1 c be convey$ 9 civil spee*1 :ile ! mo/ malignant lies may f9d utt]ance1 & (t5 d1 9 ! language ( ! fi%m>ket4 ,_m ladies say1 ,oh1 ,i am p]fectly frank & outspok52 ,i nev] /op to m9ce words1 or1 !re is no affectation ab\t me2 all my actions are p]fectly natural1 &1 ^u ! gr\nd ( frankness1 w insult & w\nd by rude language1 & def5d awkw>dness & ill-bre$+ by ! plea ( natural mann]s4 ,if nature has n inve/$ y ) all ! virtues :i* may be desirable 9 a lady1 d n make y\r faults m conspicu\s by ?ru/+ !m =w>d ^u all occasions1 & at all times4 ,assume a virtue if y h x n1 & y w1 9 "t1 by imitation1 acquire x4 ,by endeavor+ to appe> g5]\s1 dis9t]e/$1 self-sacrific+1 & amiable1 ! opposite passions w be br\ght into subjection1 fir/ 9 ! mann]1 aft]w>ds 9 ! he>t4 ,x is n ! desire to deceive1 b ! desire to please1 :i* w dictate su* a c\rse4 ,:5 y he> "o1 :o pret5ds to be a lady1 boa/ t %e is r\gh1 caprici\s1 & glutton\s1 y may feel sure t %e has nev] tri$ to conqu] ^! faults1 or %e w\ld be a%am$1 n pr\d1 ( !m4 ,! way to make y\rself pleas+ to o!rs1 is to %[ t y c>e = !m4 ,! :ole _w is l ! mill] at ,mansfield1 :o c>$ = nobody--no1 n he--because nobody c>$ = him4 ,& ! :ole _w w s]ve y s1 if y give !m ! same cause4 ,let e "o1 !re=e1 see t y d c>e = !m1 by %[+ !m1 :at ,/]ne s happily calls1 ! small1 sweet c\rtesies ( life1 ^? c\rtesies 9 :i* !re is no p>ade2 ^: voice is too /ill to tease1 & :i* manife/ !mselves by t5d] & affectionate looks1 & little1 k9d acts ( att5tion1 giv+ o!rs ! pref]5ce 9 e little enjoym5t at ! table1 9 ! field1 walk+1 sitt+1 or /&+4 ,?us ! fir/ rule = a graceful mann] is unselfi% consid]ation ( o!rs4 ,by endeavor+ to acquire ! habit ( polit5ess1 x w soon become famili>1 & sit on y ) ease1 if n ) elegance4 ,let x nev] be =gott51 t g5u9e polit5ess is a great fo/]] ( family love2 x allays accid5tal irritation1 by prev5t+ h>% retorts & rude contradictions2 x s(t5s ! boi/]\s1 /imulates ! indol5t1 suppresses selfi%ness1 & by =m+ a habit ( consid]ation = o!rs1 h>monizes ! :ole4 ,polit5ess begets polit5ess1 & bro!rs may be easily won by x1 to leave (f ! rude ways !y br+ home f s*ool or college4 ,si/]s ought nev] to receive any little att5tion )\t ?ank+ !m = x1 nev] to ask a favor ( !m b 9 c\rte\s t]ms1 nev] to reply to _! que/ions 9 monosyllables1 & !y w soon be a%am$ to d su* ?+s !mselves4 ,bo? precept & example ought to be laid "u contribution1 to conv9ce !m t no "o c h really good mann]s abroad1 :o is n habitually polite at home4 ,if y wi% to be a well-br$ lady1 y mu/ c>ry y\r good mann]s ev]y:]e ) y4 ,x is n a ?+ t c be laid aside & put on at pleasure4 ,true polit5ess is uni=m dis9t]e/$ness 9 trifles1 accompani$ by ! calm self-possession :i* belongs to a noble simplicity ( purpose2 & ?is mu/ be ! effect ( a ,*ri/ian _s runn+ ?r\gh all y d1 or say1 or ?9k2 &1 unless y cultivate x & ex]cise x1 ^u all occasions & t[>ds all p]sons1 x w nev] be a "p ( y\rself4 ,x is n an art to be p>ad$ ^u public occasions1 & neglect$ 9 e-day duties2 nor %\ld x1 l a ball-dress1 be c>efully laid aside at home1 trimm$1 ornam5t$1 & worn only :5 out4 ,let x come into e ?\ght1 & x w %[ =? 9 e action4 ,let x be ! rule 9 ! homelie/ duties1 & !n x w set easily :5 9 public1 n 9 a /iff mann]1 l a g>m5t seldom worn4 ,i wi% x 7 possible to conv9ce e woman t polit5ess is a mo/ excell5t good quality2 t x is a necess>y +r$i5t 9 social com=t1 & a capital assi/ant to actual prosp]ity4 ,l mo/ good ?+s1 h[ev]1 ! ^w polit5ess is (t5 misund]/ood & misappli$2 & be=e urg+ ! practical use ( t :i* x repres5ts1 x may be necess>y to say :at x means1 & :at x does n mean4 ,polit5ess is n hypocrisy3--cold-he>t$ness1 or unk9dness 9 disguise4 ,!re are p]sons :o c smile ^u a victim1 & talk smoo?ly1 :ile !y injure1 deceive1 or betray4 ,& !y w take cr$it to !mselves1 t all has be5 done ) ! utmo/ polit5ess2 t e tone1 look1 & action1 has be5 9 p]fect keep+ ) ! rules ( good bre$+4 ,! words ( _! m\? are smoo!r ?an butt]1 b w> is 9 _! he>t3 _! words are s(t] ?an oil1 yet are !y drawn swords4 ,p]i% = ev] & ev] su* spuri\s polit5ess z ?is6 ,polit5ess is n s]vility4 ,if x 7 s1 a ,russian s]f w\ld be a model ( polit5ess4 ,x is v possible = p]sons to be v cr++ & obsequi\s1 )\t a s+le atom ( polit5ess2 & x (t5 happ5s t m5 ( ! mo/ /urdy indep5d5ce ( "*1 are ess5tially polite 9 all _! words1 actions1 & feel+s4 ,x 7 well = ?is to be fully und]/ood1 = _m p w ab/a9 f acts ( real polit5ess1 & ev5 ( common civility1 = fe> ( damag+ _! fanci$ indep5d5ce4 ,true polit5ess1 z ,i und]/& x1 is k9dness & c\rtesy ( feel+ br\ght into e-day ex]cise4 ,x compreh5ds he>ty good w t[>ds ev]ybody1 ?or\gh & con/ant good-humor1 an easy deportm5t1 & oblig+ mann]s4 ,e p]son :o cultivates su* feel+s1 & takes no pa9s to conceal !m1 w necess>ily be polite1 ?\gh %e may n exactly "k x2 :ile1 on ! o!r h&1 a woman ess5tially morose & selfi%1 :atev] may be h] pret5sions1 mu/ be v f> f truly polite4 ,x is v true !re are ^? ^: position 9 society compels !m to obs]ve c]ta9 rules ( etiquette :i* pass = polit5ess4 ,!y b[ or c\rtesy ) a dec5t grace2 %ake h&s ) ! precise degree ( vigor :i* ! circum/ances ( ! case require2 speak j at ! "r "t1 & 9 ! requir$ mann]1 & smile ) elegant propriety4 ,n a tone1 look1 or ge/ure1 is out ( place2 n a habit indulg$ :i* etiquette =bids2 & yet1 !re w be want+1 aft] all1 ! secret *>m ( s9c]ity & he>t k9dness1 :i* ^? outw>d signs are int5d$ to repres5t2 &1 want+ :i*1 we h only ! =m1 )\t ! ess5ce1 ( polit5ess4 ,let me recomm5d1 !re=e1 f> beyond all ! rules ev] p5n$ by tea*]s ( etiquette1 ! cultivation ( k9d & lov+ feel+s4 ,?r[ y\r :ole s\l into ! lesson1 & y w advance rapidly t[>ds ! p]fection ( polit5ess1 = out ( ! abundance ( ! he>t ! m\? speake?1 & ! movem5ts ( y\r =m & ! words y utt] w foll[ fai?fully ! hidd5 spr+s ( action )94 ,!re _c be g5u9e good bre$+ to any happy degree1 :]e !re is n self-respect4 ,x is t :i* imp>ts ease & confid5ce to our mann]s1 & impels u1 = our own sake1 z well z = ! sake ( o!rs1 to behave becom+ly z intellig5t be+s4 ,x is a want ( true polit5ess t introduces ! discord & confusion :i* too (t5 make our homes unhappy4 ,a little consid]ation = ! feel+s ( ^? :om we are b\nd to love & *]i%1 & a little sacrifice ( our own wills1 w\ld1 9 multitudes ( in/ances1 make all ! diff]5ce betwe5 ali5ation & gr[+ affection4 ,! pr9ciple ( g5u9e polit5ess w\ld accompli% ?is2 & :at a pity x is t ^? ^: only spr+ ( rational enjoym5t is to be f\nd at home1 %\ld miss t enjoym5t by a disreg>d ( little ?+s1 :i*1 aft] all1 make up ! sum ( human exi/5ce6 ,:at a l>ge am\nt ( actual discom=t 9 dome/ic life w\ld be prev5t$1 if all *ildr5 7 tra9$1 bo? by precept & example1 to ! practice ( common polit5ess6 ,if !y 7 taught to speak respectfully to p>5ts1 & bro!rs1 & si/]s1 to fri5ds1 neighbors1 & /rang]s1 :at bawl+s1 & sn>l+s w\ld be /ill$6 ,if _! behavior )9 doors1 & especially at ! table1 7 regulat$ by a few ( ! common rules ( good bre$+1 h[ mu* natural & prop] disgu/ w\ld be sp>$6 ,if c\rtesy ( demeanor1 t[>ds all :om !y meet 9 field or highway1 7 in/ill$1 h[ mu* m pleasant w\ld be our t[n travels1 & our ru/ic rambles6 ,e p>5t has a p]sonal int]e/ 9 ?is matt]2 & if e p>5t w\ld b make ! ne$ful ef=t1 a great degree ( gross incivility1 & consequ5t annoyance1 w\ld soon be swept away f our he>?s & homes4 ,:il/ e>ne/ly endeavor+ to acquire true polit5ess1 avoid t spuri\s imitation1 affectation4 ,x is to g5u9e polit5ess & good bre$+1 :at ! %[y pa/e is to ! pure diamond4 ,x is ! (fspr+ ( a sickly ta/e1 a deceitful he>t1 & a sure pro( ( l[ bre$+4 ,! c]ta9 te/ ( affectation 9 any individual1 is ! look+1 speak+1 mov+1 or act+ 9 any way diff]5t :5 9 ! pres5ce ( o!rs1 especially ^? ^: op9ion we reg>d & ^: approbation we desire1 f :at we %\ld d 9 solitude1 or 9 ! pres5ce ( ^? only :om we disreg>d1 or :o we ?9k _c injure or b5efit u4 ,! motive = resi/+ affectation is1 t x is bo? unsuccessful & s9ful4 ,x always involves a degree ( hypocrisy1 :i* is exce$+ly (f5sive 9 ! sight ( ,god1 :i* is g5]ally detect$ ev5 by m51 & :i*1 :5 detect$1 exposes its subject to contempt :i* c\ld nev] h be5 excit$ by ! m]e abs5ce ( any quality or possession1 z x is by ! false assumption ( :at is n real4 ,! be/ cure = affectation is ! cultivation1 on pr9ciple1 ( e good1 virtu\s1 & amiable habit & feel+1 n = ! sake ( be+ approv$ or admir$1 b because x is "r 9 itself1 & )\t consid]+ :at p w ?9k ( x4 ,?us a real "* w be =m$ in/ead ( a "p be+ assum$1 & admiration & love w be spontane\sly be/[$ :]e !y are really des]v$4 ,artificial mann]s are easily se5 ?r\gh2 & ! result ( su* obs]vations1 h[ev] accompli%$ & beautiful ! object may be1 is contempt = su* littl5ess4 ,_m ladies1 mov+1 too1 9 good society1 w affect a =w>d1 bold mann]1 v disagreeable to p]sons ( s5se4 ,!y w tell ( _! wondr\s feats1 :5 engag$ 9 pursuits only suit$ = m52 !y w conv]se 9 a l\d1 boi/]\s tone2 laugh l\dly2 s+ comic songs1 or da%+ bravuras 9 a /yle only fit = ! /age or a g5tleman's aft]-d9n] p>ty2 !y w lay wag]s1 give broad h9ts & !n brag ( _! success 9 =c+ invitations or pres5ts2 int]l>d _! conv]sation ) slang words or phrases suit$ only to ! /able or b>-room1 & ?is !y ?9k is a da%+1 fasc9at+ mann]4 ,x may be enc\rag$1 admir$1 9 _! pres5ce1 by g5tlem51 & imitat$ by y\ng] ladies1 b1 be sure1 x is look$ ^u ) contempt1 & disapproval by e "o ( good s5se1 & t to p]sons ( real ref9em5t x is absolutely disgu/+4 ,o!r ladies1 tak+ q z mi/ak5 a view ( real ref9em5t1 w affect ! mo/ *ildi% timidity1 conv]se only 9 :isp]s1 move sl[ly z an invalid1 fa9t at ! %orte/ notice1 & on ! slighte/ provocation2 be easily mov$ to te>s1 & pr(ess nev] to eat1 dr9k1 or sleep4 ,?is c\rse is z absurd z ! o!r1 & mu* m tr\blesome1 z ev]ybody dreads ! sc5e :i* w foll[ any %ock to ! de> creature's n]ves1 & w be c>eful to avoid any dang]\s topics4 ,self-respect1 & a prop] def]5ce = our sup]iors 9 age or intellect1 w be ! be/ safegu>ds aga9/ ei!r a cr++ or insol5t mann]4 ,)\t self-respect y w be apt to be bo? awkw>d & ba%ful2 ei!r ( :i* faults are entirely inconsi/5t ) a graceful mann]4 ,be c>eful t :ile y h suffici5t self-respect to make y\r mann] easy1 x does n become arrogance & s eng5d] insol5ce4 ,avoid s>casm2 x w1 unconsci\sly to y\rself1 deg5]ate into p]tness1 & (t5 d[nright rud5ess4 ,d n be afraid to speak c&idly1 b temp] c&or ) c\rtesy1 & nev] let wit run into t satire t w w\nd deeply1 :il/ x amuses only slightly4 ,let y\r c>riage be at once dignifi$ & graceful4 ,!re are b few figures t w be> quick motion2 ) almo/ e "o its effect is t ( a j]k1 a mo/ awkw>d movem5t4 ,let ! feet1 9 walk+ or danc+1 be turn$ out slightly2 :5 y are seat$1 re/ !m bo? on ! floor or a foot/ool4 ,to sit ) ! knees or feet cross$ or d\bl$ up1 is awkw>d & unlady-l4 ,c>ry y\r arms1 9 walk+1 easily2 nev] cross+ !m /iffly or sw++ !m beside y4 ,:5 seat$1 if y are n sew+ or knitt+1 keep y\r h&s p]fectly quiet4 ,?is1 :il/ "o ( ! mo/ difficult accompli%m5ts to atta91 is ! sure/ m>k ( a lady4 ,d n fidget1 play+ ) y\r r+s1 broo*1 or any little article t may be ne> y2 let y\r h&s re/ 9 an easy1 natural position1 p]fectly quiet4 ,nev] ge/iculate :5 conv]s+2 x looks !atrical1 & is ill-br$2 s are all contortions ( ! features1 %rugg+ ( %\ld]s1 rais+ ( ! eyebr[s1 or h&s4 ,:5 y op5 a conv]sation1 d s ) a slight b[ & smile1 b be c>eful n to simp]1 & n to smile too (t51 if ! conv]sation becomes s]i\s4 ,nev] po9t4 ,x is excessively ill-br$4 ,avoid exclamations2 !y are 9 excessively bad ta/e1 & are apt to be vulg> words4 ,a lady may express z mu* polite surprise or conc]n by a few simple1 e>ne/ words1 or 9 h] mann]1 z %e c by exclaim+ ,good graci\s6 ,m]cy6 or ,de> me6 ,rememb] t e "p ( y\r p]son & dress %\ld be 9 p]fect ord] be=e y leave ! dress+-room1 & avoid all su* tricks z smoo?+ y\r hair ) y\r h&1 arrang+ y\r curls1 pull+ ! wai/ ( y\r dress d[n1 or settl+ y\r coll> or sleeves4 ,avoid l\ng+ attitudes1 !y are indelicate1 except 9 y\r own private ap>tm5t4 ,no?+ b ill heal? w excuse !m be=e company1 & a lady _h bett] keep h] room if %e is too feeble to sit up 9 ! draw+-room4 ,let y\r deportm5t suit y\r age & figure2 to see a t9y1 fairy-l "y girl1 m>*+ erect1 /iff1 & awkw>dly1 l a soldi] on p>ade1 is n m absurd ?an to see a middle-ag$1 portly woman1 ap+ ! romp+1 hoyd5i% mann]s ( a s*ool-girl4 ,let ! movem5ts be easy & flexible1 & accord ) ! /yle ( ! lady4 ,let y\r demeanor be always m>k$ by mode/y & simplicity2 z soon z y become =w>d or affect$1 y h lo/ y\r greate/ *>m ( mann]4 ,y %\ld be q z anxi\s to talk ) propriety z y are to ?9k1 "w1 s+1 pa9t1 or write1 accord+ to ! mo/ correct rules4 ,always select words calculat$ to convey an exact impression ( y\r mean+4 ,let y\r articulation be easy1 cle>1 correct 9 acc5t1 & suit$ 9 tone & emphasis to y\r disc\rse4 ,avoid a mutt]+1 m\?+1 /utt]+1 dron+1 guttural1 nasal1 or lisp+1 pronunciation4 ,let y\r spee* be nei!r too l\d nor too l[2 b adju/$ to ! e> ( y\r companion4 ,try to prev5t ! necessity ( any p]son cry+1 ,:at8 ,:at8 ,avoid a loquaci\s prop5sity2 y %\ld nev] occupy m ?an y\r %>e ( ! "t1 or m ?an is agreeable to o!rs4 ,bew>e ( su* vulg> int]polations z ,y "k1 ,y see1 ,i'll tell y :at4 ,pay a /rict reg>d to ! rules ( gramm>1 ev5 9 private conv]sation4 ,if y d n und]/& ^! rules1 le>n !m1 :atev] be y\r age or /ation4 ,?\gh y %\ld always speak pleasantly1 d n mix y\r conv]sation ) l\d bur/s ( laught]4 ,nev] indulge 9 uncommon words1 or 9 ,lat9 & ,fr5* phrases1 b *oose ! be/ und]/ood t]ms to express y\r mean+4 ,above all1 let y\r conv]sation be intellectual1 graceful1 *a/e1 discreet1 edify+1 & pr(itable4 ,,*apt] ,,xvii4 ,,conduct ,,9 ,,*ur*4 ,9 ent]+ a *ur* ( a diff]5t d5om9ation f ! "o y h be5 9 ! habit ( frequ5t+1 ask ! sexton to %[ y to a seat4 ,x is ! height ( rud5ess to ent] a pew )\t invitation1 z ! own] may desire1 if h] family d n require all ! seats1 to invite h] own p]sonal fri5ds to take ! vacant places4 ,if y are n p]fectly famili> ) ! mann] ( conduct+ ! wor%ip1 obs]ve ^? ar\nd y1 rise1 kneel1 & sit1 z y see !y d4 ,x is a m>k ( disrespect = ! pa/or z well z irrev]5ce = ! ,mo/ ,high1 to rema9 seat$ ?r\gh ! :ole s]vice1 unless y are ill1 or o!rwise incapacitat$ f /&+ & kneel+4 ,ent] ! sacr$ edifice sl[ly1 rev]5tially1 & take y\r seat quietly4 ,x is n requir$ ( y to b[ to any fri5d y may see 9 pass+ up ! aisle1 z y are suppos$ y\rself to be1 & suppose h] to be entirely absorb$ 9 ?\ght prop] = ! occasion4 ,to />e r\nd ! *ur*1 or if y are n alone1 to :isp] to y\r companion1 is irrev]5t1 indelicate1 & rude4 ,if y\r own feel+s w n prompt y to sil5ce & rev]5ce1 pay "s reg>d to ! feel+s ( o!rs4 ,be c>eful n to appe> to notice ^? ar\nd y4 ,if o!rs are s rude z to talk or conduct improp]ly1 fix y\r own m9d ^u ! wor%ip :i* y come to pay1 & let ! imp]t95ce pass unhe$$4 ,if !re is ano!r p]son 9 ! same pew ) y\rself1 :o1 m famili> ) ! s]vice1 h&s y ! book1 or po9ts out ! place1 ackn[l$ge ! civility by a sil5t b[2 x is n necess>y to speak4 ,9 y\r own pew1 ext5d ?is c\rtesy to a /rang] :o may come 9 beside y1 & ev5 if x is a g5tleman y may1 ) p]fect propriety1 h& him a book1 or1 if !re is b "o1 (f] him a %>e ( y\r own4 ,endeavor always to be 9 y\r seat be=e ! s]vice comm5ces1 & aft] x is ov] d n hurry away1 &1 above all1 d n beg9 y\r prep>ations = dep>ture1 by %utt+ up y\r book1 or putt+ on any article ( dress y h remov$1 be=e ! b5$iction4 ,if y are invit$ to accompany a fri5d to *ur*1 be sure y are ready 9 good season1 t y may n keep h] wait+ :5 %e calls1 or cause h] to lose any "p ( ! s]vice by deta9+ h] at y\r h\se4 ,if y invite a fri5d to take a seat 9 y\r pew1 call = h] e>ly1 give h] ! mo/ com=table place1 & be sure %e has a pray] & hymn-book4 ,if y are invit$ to /& z god-"m to a fri5d's *ild1 be at ! h\se ( ! p>5ts 9 season to accompany ! family to *ur*1 & s5d1 ! day be=e1 ! gift y design = ! babe4 ,a silv] cup is ! usual pres5t1 ) y\r little namesake's initials1 or full "n1 engrav$ ^u x4 ,9 assi/+ at a w$d+ at *ur*1 if y are "o ( ! bridesmaids1 we> :ite1 a :ite bonnet b no veil4 ,if y occupy ! fir/ place1 ! bride's1 x is 9 bett] ta/e to be m>ri$ 9 a simple dress & bonnet1 & don y\r full dress :5 y return home to receive y\r fri5ds4 ,9 su* c]emonies ! w$d+-p>ty all meet 9 ! ve/ry1 & g to ! alt> toge!r4,a ,a ,= fur!r p>ticul>s1 see *apt] on ,bridal ,etiquette4 ,at a fun]al1 ent] ! *ur* quietly1 &1 unless y belong to ! m\rn]s1 wait until !y leave ! *ur* be=e y rise f y\r seat4 ,nev] attempt to speak to any ( ! afflict$ family4 ,h[ev] he>tfelt y\r sympa?y1 x w n be welcome at t "t4 ,if1 :5 ent]+ a cr[d$ *ur*1 a g5tleman sees y & (f]s 8 seat1 ackn[l$ge 8 civility1 :e!r accept$ or decl9$1 by a b[1 & a :isp]$ ?ank y4 ,_m1 :o claim ! "n ( lady1 & ?9k !y are well-br$1 w accept su* an act ( polit5ess )\t mak+ ! slighte/ ackn[l$gem5t4 ,if ! s]vice has comm5c$1 d n speak2 a c\rte\s incl9ation ( ! head w convey y\r s5se ( obligation4 ,rememb]1 z an imp]ative1 g5]al rule1 9 :atev] *ur* y may be1 :e!r at home or abroad1 con=m to ! mode ( wor%ip :il/ y are 9 t *ur*4 ,if y f9d1 9 ^! modes1 =ms :i* are disagreeable to y1 or :i* %ock y\r own ideas ( religion1 avoid a second visit1 b d n insult ! congregation1 by %[+ y\r contempt or disapproval1 :il/ y are among !m4 ,sil5ce1 quiet att5tion1 & a grave1 rev]5tial demeanor1 m>k ! ,*ri/ian lady 9 *ur*4 ,,*apt] ,,xviii4 ,,ball ,,room ,,etiquette4 ,,= ,,! ,,ho/ess4 ,:5 y h decid$ ^u :at ev5+ y w give y\r ball1 s5d out y\r invitations1 a =tnight be=e ! ev5+ appo9t$4 ,to ladies1 ^w !m3-- ,mrs4 ,l---- reque/s ! pleasure ( ,miss ,g----'s company on ,w$nesday ev5+1 ,jan4 #ag?1 at #i o'clock4 ,danc+4 ,! favor ( an e>ly answ] is reque/$4 ,to g5tlem53-- ,mrs4 ,l----'s complim5ts to ,mr4 ,r---- = ,w$nesday ev5+1 ,jan4 #ag?1 at #i o'clock4 ,danc+4 ,! favor ( an e>ly answ] is reque/$4 ,if y are unm>ri$1 put y\r "m's "n ) y\r own ^u ! c>ds4 ,if y h a fa!r or gr[n-up bro!r1 let ! invitations to ! g5tlem5 g 9 8 "n4 ,9 mak+ y\r li/ = a ball1 d n set d[n all ( y\r de> five hundr$ fri5ds4 ,! middle-ag$1 7unless !y come z *ap]ons17 ! s]i\s1 & ! sob]-m9d$1 w n accept y\r invitation1 & ! two la/ nam$ may consid] x insult+ to be invit$ to s frivol\s an amusem5t4 ,by ! way1 ,i d n agree ) ! /raight-lac$ p1 :o condemn all su* amusem5ts4 ,i agree ) ,madame ,pilau4 ,:5 ! cure ( h] p>i% told h] he 0 writ+ a s]ies ( s]mons aga9/ danc+1 %e said to him3 ,y are talk+ ( :at y d n und]/&4 ,y h nev] be5 to a ball1 ,i h2 & ,i assure y !re is no s9 9 ! matt] wor?y ( m5tion or notice4 ,if y really wi% = danc+1 y w accommodate y\r gue/s to y\r rooms1 invit+ "o ?ird m ?an !y w hold1 z ab\t t numb] g5]ally disappo9t a ball-giv]4 ,if y wi% to h a ru% ( p1 & d n m9d heat1 cr[d+1 & discom=t1 to insure an imm5se assembly1 7a ball to be talk$ ab\t = its size only17 !n y may invite e body :o figures ^u y\r visit+ li/4 ,ov] "o hundr$ is a l>ge ball1 "u t a ball1 unless !re are less ?an fifty gue/s1 :5 x is m]ely a dance4 ,! directions giv5 9 *apt] #e? = ! arrangem5t ( ! dress+-rooms w apply "h1 b y\r p>lor1 or ball room1 requires "s att5tion4 ,h ! c>pets tak5 up two days be=e ! ev5+ ( ! ball1 & ! floor wax$4 ,a smoo?1 poli%$ floor is an absolute necessity = pleasant danc+4 ,at "o end ( y\r ball room1 h a space p>tition$ (f = ! musicians4 ,leave1 = _! use1 pl5ty ( room1 z sil5ce or discord w come f a cr[d$ or*e/ra4 ,if y\r h\se is d\ble1 & y use ! rooms on ea* side1 place ! musicians 9 ! hall4 ,f\r pieces ( music is en\gh = a private ball1 unless y\r rooms are v l>ge4 ,= "o room a piano1 viol91 & violoncello makes a good b&4 ,y mu/ h y\r rooms well v5tilat$ if y wi% to avoid fa9t+ & discom=t4 ,to secure a really brilliant ball1 pay consid]able att5tion to ! arrangem5t ( y\r ball room4 ,9 ,p>is ?is arrangem5t consi/s 9 turn+ ! room1 = ! ev5+1 into a p]fect g>d54 ,e corn] is fill$ ) fl[]s4 ,wrea?s1 b\quets1 baskets1 & fl[]+-plants 9 moss-cov]$ pots4 ,) brilliant light1 & ta/e 9 ! details ( arrang+ !m1 ?is pr(usion ( fl[]s produces an exquisitely beautiful effect1 & h>monizes p]fectly ) ! light dresses1 *e]ful faces1 & gay music4 ,! pleasure ( y\r gue/s1 z well z ! beauty ( ! rooms1 w be increas$ by ! elegance ( y\r arrangem5ts2 _! beauty w be height5$ by brilliant light1 & by judici\s managem5t a sc5e ( fairy-l illusion may be produc$4 ,n only 9 ! ball room itself1 b 9 ! hall1 supp]-room1 & dress+-rooms1 place fl[]s4 ,a f9e effect is produc$1 by plac+ a scre51 cov]$ ) gre5 & fl[]s1 be=e ! space set ap>t = ! musicians4 ,to he> ! music proce$+ f beh9d ?is floral embankm5t1 & yet h ! scrap+ & puff+ m5 invisible1 adds v mu* to ! illusion ( ! sc5e4 ,9 ! dress+-rooms h1 at lea/1 two s]vants = ea*4 ,let !m take ! cloaks & hoods1 & put a numb]$ ticket ^u ea* bundle1 h&+ ! duplicate numb] to ! lady or g5tleman own+ x4 ,x is be/ to h ! supp]-room ^u ! same floor z ! ball room4 ,! light dresses1 worn ^u su* occasions1 suff] sev]ely 9 pass+ up & d[n a cr[d$ /aircase4 ,h a numb] ( d\ble c>ds writt5 or pr9t$ ) a li/ ( ! dances1 arrang$ 9 ord]1 ^u "o side1 & a space = engagem5ts ^u ! o!r4 ,atta* a small p5cil to ea*4 ,let a wait] /& at ! entrance to ! ball room1 & h& a c>d to ea* gue/ z !y pass 94 ,! fir/ /ra9 ( music mu/ be a m>*2 !n foll[s a quadrille1 !n a waltz4 ,o!r dances foll[ 9 any ord] y pref] until ! f\rte5?1 :i* %\ld be ! m>* :i* ann\nces supp]4 ,if y ?r[ op5 ! supp]-room1 e>ly1 & ! gue/s g out :5 !y wi%1 ! m>* may be omitt$4 ,tw5ty-"o to tw5ty-f\r dances are suffici5t4 ,h an int]val ( t5 m9utes aft] ea* "o4 ,! supp]-room %\ld be ?r[n op5 at midnight1 & rema9 op5 until y\r la/ gue/ has dep>t$4 ,let x be brilliantly light$1 & h pl5ty ( wait]s 9 att5dance4 ,!re c be no rule laid d[n = ! supp]4 ,x may be hot or heavily ic$4 ,x may consi/ entirely ( confection>y1 or x may include ! bill ( f>e = a hotel table4 ,"o rule y mu/ obs]ve2 h abundance ( ev]y?+4 ,o!r ent]ta9m5ts may be giv5 ^u economical pr9ciples1 b a ball _c4 ,light1 att5dance1 supp]1 e detail mu/ be c>efully att5d$ to1 & a ball mu/ be an exp5sive luxury4 ,at a ball-supp] e "o /&s up4 ,! wait]s w h& refre%m5t f ! tables to ! g5tlem51 :o1 9 turn1 wait ^u ! ladies4 ,y mu/ br+ =? y\r :ole array ( smiles1 :5 y p]=m ! "p ( ho/ess 9 a ball room4 ,z y\r gue/s w come dropp+ 9 at all h\rs1 y mu/ hov] ne> ! door to greet ea* "o ent]+4 ,!re w be _m /rang]s among/ ! g5tlem54 ,miss ,g4 w br+ h] fiancee4 ,miss ,l41 h] bro!r1 j return$1 aft] t5 ye>s' abs5ce1 f ,india4 ,miss ,r4 introduces h] c\s91 9 ! city = a week4 ,miss ,m41 z a belle1 w1 p]haps1 take ! lib]ty ( tell+ "s t5 or twelve ( h] mo/ devot$ admir]s :]e %e may be se5 on ! ev5+ ( y\r ball1 &1 ?\gh /rang]s1 !y w1 "o aft] ano!r1 b[ ov] y\r h&4 ,to ea* & e "o y mu/ ext5d ! amiable greet+ due to an invit$ gue/4 ,if y are ! only lady ( ! h\se1 y\r duties w1 inde$1 be labori\s4 ,y mu/ be ev]y:]e at ! same mom5t4 ,n a gue/ mu/ pass unwelcom$4 ,y mu/ introduce p>tn]s to all ! wall-fl[]s4 ,y mu/ see t e set is made up be=e ! music comm5ces4 ,ea* gue/ mu/ be introduc$ to a prop] p>tn] = e dance1 & n "o fr[n1 "o petti% ^w1 "o look ( fatigue1 "o sigh ( utt] we>9ess mu/ di/urb y\r smil+ s]5ity4 ,y mu/ be ready to *at *e]fully ) e bore :o deta9s y1 :5 cross+ ! room1 to make up a set ( quadrilles 9 a m9ute's "t2 li/5 pati5tly to ! sigh+ lov]1 ^: fair "o is engag$ fifty times dur+ tw5ty dances2 secure a good danc] = ea* long+ belle2 d ! same = ! beaux2 yet y mu/ nev] be hurri$1 worri$1 or fatigu$4 ,if !re are sev]al ladies1 a "m & two or ?ree daught]s1 = in/ance1 divide ! duties4 ,let "o receive ! gue/s1 ano!r arrange ! sets1 a ?ird introduce c\ples1 & a f\r? pair (f ! talk]s4 ,a bro!r or fa!r w be a treasure 9 a ball room1 z ! /&+ ( sets c be bett] manag$ by a g5tleman ?an a lady4 ,none ( ! ladies :o give ! ball %\ld dance until e fair gue/ has a p>tn]4 ,"o ( y\r duties w be to see t no "y ladies lose _! supp] = want ( an escort to ask !m to g out4 ,y may give ! h9t to an intimate g5tleman fri5d1 if !re is no bro!r or fa!r to take ! duty1 introduce him to ! disconsolate damsel1 & s5d h] (f happy4 ,if all ! gue/s g to ! supp]-room :5 x is fir/ ?r[n op51 y mu/ be ! la/ to leave ! ball room4 ,= ! ho/ess to take ! lead to ! supp]-room1 leav+ h] gue/s to pair (f1 & foll[ z !y please1 is 9 v bad ta/e4 ,if y ann\nce supp] by a m>*1 _m ( y\r gue/s w rema9 9 ! ball room1 to prom5ade1 avoid ! cr[d at ! fir/ table1 & indulge 9 a tete-a-tete conv]sation4 ,^! w aft]w>ds g out1 9 pairs1 :5 ! fir/ cru% 9 ! refre%m5t-room is ov]4 ,if1 by accid5t or neglig5ce1 y miss an introduction to any ( y\r g5tlem5 gue/s1 y may /ill speak to !m if y wi%4 ,x is y\r privilege z ho/ess to introduce y\rself1 & invite any g5tleman to dance ) y1 or (f] to introduce him to a p>tn]4 ,9 ! latt] case he ought to m5tion 8 "n1 b if he omits to d s1 y may ask x4 ,!re has be5 a cu/om introduc$ 9 "s ( our l>ge cities lately1 :i* is an admirable "o = a private ball4 ,x is to hire1 = ! ev5+1 a public hall4 ,?is includes ! dress+-room1 supp]-room1 e com=t1 & saves y f ! ?\s& annoyances :i* are c]ta9 to foll[ a ball 9 a private h\se4 ,y hire ! hall & o!r rooms1 ! price includ+ light1 hire a b& ( music1 & ord] a supp] at a confection]s1 hir+ f 8 e/abli%m5t all ! *9a1 glass1 & silv] y w want4 ,9 ?is case y mu/ enclose 9 e invitation a ticket to admit y\r fri5d's p>ty1 to prev5t l\ng]s f ! /reet com+ 91 un9vit$4 ,y w1 p]haps1 f9d ! actual outlay ( money great]1 :5 y ?us hire y\r ball room1 b y w save m ?an ! diff]5ce 9 labor1 annoyance1 & ! injury to y\r h\se4 ,y secure a bett] room ?an any p>lor1 y h ! floor wax$ & poli%$ )\t ! tr\ble ( tak+ up y\r c>pets4 ,y save all ! dreadful labor ( clean+ up ! h\se ! next day1 z well z t ( prep>ation4 ,y c1 if y wi%1 invite a few fri5ds to a late d9n] ) y1 & all proce$ to ! ball room toge!r4 ,y mu/ be ! fir/ to ent] ! room1 ! la/ to leave x1 & e duty is ! same z if y 7 at home2 ! ball room is1 9 fact1 y\r own h\se1 = ! ev5+4 ,if y wi% y\r gue/s to come 9 co/ume = a fancy ball1 "n ! "* ( ! ent]ta9m5t 9 y\r invitation4 ,,*apt] ,,xix4 ,,ball ,,room ,,etiquette4 ,,= ,,! ,,gue/4 ,z 9 e o!r case :]e hospitality is ext5d$ to y by invitation1 y mu/ s5d y\r answ] z soon z possible1 accept+ or decl9+ ! civility4 ,9 prep>+ a co/ume = a ball1 *oose some?+ v light4 ,heavy1 d>k silks are out ( place 9 a ball room1 & black %\ld be worn 9 no mat]ial b lace4 ,= a m>ri$ lady1 ri* silk ( "s light color1 trimm$ ) fl[]s1 lace1 or tulle2 :ite silk pla91 or lace ov] sat91 make an exquisite toilette4 ,jewels are p]fectly appropriate2 also fea!rs 9 ! coiffure4 ,= ! "y lady1 pure :ite or light colors %\ld be worn1 & ! mo/ appropriate dress is ( "s ?9 mat]ial made ov] silk1 :ite1 or ! same color z ! out] dress4 ,sat9 or velvet are entirely out ( place on a "y lady4 ,let ! coiffure be ( fl[]s or ribbons1 nev] fea!rs1 & b v little jewelry is becom+ to an unm>ri$ lady4 ,all ladies mu/ we> boots or slipp]s ( sat91 :ite1 black1 or ! color ( ! dress4 ,:ite are ! mo/ appropriate2 black1 ! mo/ becom+ to ! foot4 ,:ite kid gloves1 full trimm$1 a f9e lace trimm$ h&k]*ief1 & a fan1 are indisp5sable4 ,be v c>eful1 :5 dress+ = a ball1 t ! hair is firmly fa/5$1 & ! coiffure prop]ly adju/$4 ,no?+ is m annoy+ ?an to h ! hair loos5 or ! head-dress fall (f 9 a cr[d$ ball room4 ,y\r fir/ duty1 ^u ent]+ ! room1 is to speak to y\r ho/ess4 ,aft] a few words ( greet+1 turn to ! o!r gue/s4 ,at a private ball1 no lady w refuse an introduction to a g5tleman4 ,x is an insult to h] ho/ess1 imply+ t h] gue/s are n g5tlem54 ,x is optional ) ! lady :e!r to cont9ue or drop ! acqua9tance aft] ! ball is ov]1 b = t ev5+1 h[ev] disagreeable1 etiquette requires h] to accept him = "o dance1 if %e is dis5gag$1 & h] ho/ess reque/s x4 ,at a public ball1 x is safe/ to decl9e all introductions made by ! ma/] ( c]emonies1 ?\gh1 z be=e1 su* acqua9tances are n b9d+ aft] ! ev5+ is ov]4 ,be v c>eful h[ y refuse to dance ) a g5tleman4 ,a prior engagem5t w1 ( c\rse1 excuse y1 b if y plead fatigue1 or really feel x1 d n dance ! set ) ano!r g5tleman2 x is mo/ insult+1 ?\gh sometimes done4 ,on ! o!r h&1 be c>eful t y d n engage y\rself twice = ! same quadrille4 ,9 a polka or valse1 y may d ?is1 say+1 ,i w dance ! second half ) y1 b h a prior engagem5t = ! fir/4 ,!n1 aft] a few r\nds ) y\r fir/ p>tn]1 say to him t y are engag$ = ! rema9d] ( ! dance1 resume y\r seat1 & y\r second p>tn] w seek y4 ,let y\r mann] 9 a ball room be quiet4 ,x looks v badly to see a lady endeavor+ to attract att5tion by h] boi/]\s mann]1 l\d talk+1 or ov]-active danc+4 ,d n drag ?r\gh dances z if y f\nd !m we>isome2 x is an insult to y\r p>tn]1 b :ile y are *e]ful & animat$1 be lady-l & dignifi$ 9 y\r deportm5t4 ,at ! end ( ea* dance1 y\r p>tn] w (f] 8 arm1 & conduct y to a seat2 !n b[1 & release him f fur!r att5dance1 z he may be engag$ = ! next dance4 ,:5 invit$ to dance1 h& y\r ball c>d to ! g5tleman1 :o w put 8 "n 9 "o ( ! vacant places4 ,if y wi% to g to ! supp]-room1 accept ! invitation t w be made1 aft] ! dances :il/ x is op51 b d n rema9 !re long4 ,y may be keep+ y\r escort f o!r engagem5ts4 ,if y are accompani$ by a g5tleman1 besides y\r fa!r or bro!r1 rememb] he has ! "r to ! fir/ dance1 & also w expect to take y 9 to supp]4 ,d n let any "o else int]f]e ) 8 privilege4 ,if y wi%1 dur+ ! ev5+1 to g to ! dress+-room to arrange any "p ( y\r dress1 reque/ ! g5tleman ) :om y are danc+ to escort y !re4 ,he w wait = y at ! door1 & take y back to ! ball-room4 ,d n deta9 him any long] ?an is necess>y4 ,nev] leave ! ball room1 = any su* purpose1 alone1 z !re are always g5tlem5 ne> & r\nd ! door1 & x looks v badly to see a lady1 unatt5d$1 go+ ?r\gh a cr[d ( g5tlem54 ,x is be/ at a ball1 to dance only e o!r dance1 z ov]-fatigue1 & probably a flu%$ face1 w foll[ too mu* danc+4 ,decl9e ! int]m$iate ones1 on ! plea ( fatigue1 or fe> ( fatigue4 ,nev] g into ! supp]-room ) ! same g5tleman twice4 ,y may g m ?an once1 if y wi% = an ice or glass ( wat]1 7surely no lady wants two or ?ree supp]s17 b d n tax ! same g5tleman m ?an once1 ev5 if he invites y aft] ea* dance4 ,no lady ( ta/e w c>ry on a flirtation 9 a ball room1 s z to attract rem>k4 ,be c>eful1 unless y wi% y\r "n c\pl$ ) 81 h[ y dance too (t5 ) ! same g5tleman4 ,if y are s un=tunate z1 =gett+ a prior engagem5t1 to engage y\rself to two g5tlem5 = ! same dance1 decl9e danc+ x altoge!r1 or y w surely (f5d "o ( !m4 ,nev] press =w>d to take ! lead 9 a quadrille1 & if o!rs1 n und]/&+ ! figures1 make confusion1 try to get ?r\gh )\t rem>k4 ,x is useless to attempt to tea* !m1 z ! music1 & o!r sets1 w f9i% ! figure long be=e y c tea* & dance x4 ,keep y\r temp]1 refra9 f all rem>k1 & endeavor to make y\r p>tn] =get1 9 y\r *e]ful conv]sation1 ! annoyances ( ! dance4 ,!re is mu* t is exhil>at+ 9 ! atmosph]e ( a ball room4 ,! light1 music1 company1 & ev5 danc+ itself1 are all conducive to high spirits2 be c>eful t ?is fl[ ( spirits does n lead y into hoyd5ism & rud5ess4 ,gu>d y\r actions & y\r tongue1 t y may leave ! room z quietly & gracefully z y ent] x4 ,avoid confid5tial conv]sation 9 a ball room4 ,x is out ( season1 & 9 excessively bad ta/e4 ,be mode/ & res]v$1 b avoid ba%fulness4 ,x looks l a s*ool-girl1 & is inv>iably awkw>d4 ,nev] all[ y\r p>tn]1 ?\gh he may be y\r mo/ intimate fri5d1 to conv]se 9 a l[ tone1 or 9 any way assume a confid5tial or lov]-l air at a ball4 ,x is 9 excessively bad ta/e1 & gives annoyance frequ5tly1 z o!rs suppose su* l[-ton$ rem>ks may ref] to !m4 ,dance z o!rs d4 ,x has a v absurd look to take e /ep ) danc+-s*ool accuracy1 & y\r p>tn] w be ! fir/ "o to notice x4 ,a quadrille takes no m /eps ?an a graceful walk4 ,nev] /& up to dance 9 a quadrille1 unless y are p]fectly famili> ) ! figures1 dep5d+ ^u y\r p>tn] to lead y ?r\gh4 ,y w probably cause utt] confusion 9 ! set1 annoy ! o!rs =m+ x1 & make y\rself appe> absurd4 ,no "y lady %\ld g to a ball1 )\t ! protection ( a m>ri$ lady1 or an eld]ly g5tleman4 ,nev] cross a ball room alone4 ,nev] rema9 9 a ball room until all ! company h left x1 or ev5 until ! la/ set4 ,x is ill-br$1 & looks z if y 7 unaccu/om$ to su* pleasures1 & s desir\s to prolong ea* "o4 ,leave :ile !re are /ill two or ?ree sets to be danc$4 ,d n accept any invitation = ^! late dances1 z ! g5tleman :o invites y may f9d out y\r abs5ce too late to take ano!r p>tn]1 & y w ?us deprive him ( ! pleasure ( danc+4 ,,*apt] ,,xx4 ,,places ,,( ,,amusem5t4 ,d n accept an invitation to visit any place ( public amusem5t1 ) a g5tleman ) :om y are b slightly acqua9t$1 unless !re is ano!r lady also invit$4 ,y may1 z a "y lady1 g ) a relative or y\r fiancee1 )\t a *ap]on1 b n o!rwise4 ,hav+ receiv$ an invitation :i* x is prop] = y to accept1 write an answ] imm$iately1 appo9t+ an h\r = y\r escort to call = y1 & be sure t y are ready 9 good season4 ,to arrive late is n only annoy+ to ^? ne> y\r seat1 :om y di/urb :5 y ent]1 b x is ill-br$2 y w be suppos$ to be "s "o :o is unable to come e>ly1 in/ead ( appe>+ z a lady :o is mi/ress ( h] own "t4 ,if ! ev5+ is cl\dy1 or x ra9s1 y\r escort w probably br+ a c>riage2 & let me say a few words "h ab\t ent]+ & leav+ a c>riage4 ,h[ to get 9 is difficult1 b ( less importance ?an gett+ out2 because if y /umble 91 no "o sees y1 b "s "o :o may happ5 to be 9 ! c>riage2 b h[ to get out is s important1 t ,i w illu/rate x by a %ort diplomatic anecdote3-- ,! ,pr9cess ( ,hesse-,d>m/adt1 says ,m4 ,m]cy d',arg5teau1 an ambassador ( ! la/ c5tury1 hav+ be5 desir$ by ! ,empress ( ,au/ria to br+ h] ?ree daught]s to c\rt1 9 ord] t h] ,imp]ial ,maje/y might *oose "o ( !m = a wife to "o ( h] sons1 drove up 9 h] coa* to ! palace gate4 ,sc>cely _h !y ent]$ ! pres5ce1 :51 be=e ev5 speak+ to !m1 ! empress w5t up to ! second daught]1 &1 tak+ h] by ! h&1 said1 ',i *oose ?is "y lady4' ,! "m1 a/oni%$ at ! sudd5ness ( h] *oice1 inquir$ :at _h actuat$ x4 ',i wat*$ ! "y ladies get out ( _! c>riage1' said ! empress4 ',y\r elde/ daught] /epp$ on h] dress1 & only sav$ h]self f fall+ by an awkw>d scramble2 ! y\nge/ jump$ f ! coa* to ! gr\nd1 )\t t\*+ ! /eps2 ! second1 j lift+ h] dress 9 front1 s z %e desc5d$ to %[ ! po9t ( h] %oe1 calmly /epp$ f ! c>riage to ! gr\nd1 nei!r hurri$ly nor /iffly1 b ) grace & dignity3 %e is fit to be an empress2 h] elde/ si/] is too awkw>d1 h] y\nge/ too wild4' ,,! ,,!atre--,"h y mu/ we> y\r bonnet1 ?\gh y may ?r[ aside y\r cloak or %awl1 if y desire x4 ,y\r escort w pass to y\r seats fir/1 & !n turn & (f] 8 h& to lead y to y\r own4 ,once seat$1 give y\r att5tion entirely to ! actors :il/ ! curta9 is up--to y\r companion :5 x is d[n4 ,d n look r\nd ! h\se ) y\r glass4 ,a lady's deportm5t %\ld be v mode/ 9 a !atre4 ,avoid c>efully e motion1 or ge/ure t w attract att5tion4 ,to flirt a fan1 conv]se 9 :isp]s1 indulge 9 extravagant ge/ures ( m]rim5t or admiration1 laugh l\dly or clap y\r h&s toge!r1 are all excessively vulg> & unlady-l4 ,nev] turn y\r head to look at ^? seat$ beh9d y1 or ne> y4 ,if y speak to y\r companion :ile ! curta9 is up1 l[] y\r voice1 t y may n di/urb o!rs int]e/$ 9 ! conv]sation on ! /age4 ,,! ,,op]a--,"h y %\ld we> full dress1 an op]a cloak1 & ei!r a head-dress1 or dressy bonnet ( "s ?9 mat]ial4 ,y\r gloves mu/ be ( kid1 :ite1 or "s v light t9t to suit y\r dress4 ,_m dress = ! op]a z !y w\ld = ! !atre2 b ! beauty ( ! h\se is mu* enhanc$ by ea* lady contribut+ h] full dress toilette to ! g5]al effect4 ,if y g to ! dress+-room1 leave y\r hood & %awl 9 ! c>e ( ! woman 9 wait+1 :om y mu/ fee :5 %e returns !m to y4 ,if y d n wi% to g to ! dress+-room1 all[ y\r escort to take (f y\r %awl or cloak1 & ?r[ x ov] ! back ( ! seat4 ,z y\r op]a cloak mu/ be light en\gh to keep on all ! ev5+1 ?\gh y may ?r[ x op51 y mu/ we> ov] x a heavi] cloak or a %awl4 ,?r[ ?is (f 9 ! lobby1 j be=e y ent] y\r box4 ,y\r gloves y mu/ keep on all ! ev5+4 ,avoid h&l+ ! play bills1 z ! pr9t+ ink w soil y\r gloves 9 a few m9utes1 mak+ y\r h&s appe> v badly = ! re/ ( ! ev5+4 ,y %\ld be 9 y\r seat at ! op]a be=e ! ov]ture comm5ces4 ,nev] conv]se dur+ ! p]=mance4 ,ev5 ! l[e/ ton$ rem>k w di/urb a real lov] ( music1 & ^! w be ne> y on all sides4 ,exclamations ( admiration1 ,exquisite6 ,beautiful6 or ,lovely6 are 9 ! wor/ ta/e4 ,%[ y\r appreciation by quiet att5tion to e note1 & avoid e exclamation or ge/ure4 ,9 our new op]a h\ses !re are rooms = prom5ade1 & betwe5 ! acts y\r escort may invite y to walk !re4 ,y may accept ! invitation ) p]fect propriety4 ,he w leave ! box fir/ & !n (f] 8 h& to y4 ,9 ! lobby take 8 arm1 & keep x until y return to ! box4 ,if y h tak5 y\r cloak or %awl to y\r seat1 leave !m !re dur+ y\r prom5ade4 ,return to y\r seat :5 ! gong s\nds ! recall1 t y may n di/urb o!rs aft] ! next act comm5ces4 ,9 walk+ up & d[n 9 ! prom5ad+ saloon1 y may pass & repass fri5ds4 ,b[ ! fir/ "t y meet !m1 b n aga94 ,if y meet y\r g5tlem5 fri5ds !re1 b[1 b d n /op to speak4 ,!y may jo9 y = once r\nd ! room1 !n all[ !m to leave y4 ,y\r escort w feel ju/ly (f5d$ if y all[ any o!r g5tlem5 to engross y\r att5tion entirely :5 he has invit$ y to ! ent]ta9m5t4 ,,conc]ts--,"h1 z at ! op]a1 y may we> a bonnet or n1 z y w4 ,g e>ly to ! hall1 unless y h secur$ a seat1 & !n1 be 9 "t = ! fir/ song4 ,if y are unavoidably late1 ent] quietly1 & take a seat ne> ! door4 ,x is v rude to pu% =w>d to ! front ( ! hall1 & ei!r cr[d ^? ^u ! b5*es1 or =ce "s g5tleman to (f] y 8 place4 ,if ! hall is s cr[d$ t ev5 ! back seats are full1 & a g5tleman (f]s y 8 place1 y %\ld ?ank him be=e accept+ x4 ,aga91 ,i repeat1 d n conv]se1 or di/urb ^? ar\nd y by exclamations or ge/iculations4 ,,lectures--,two ladies may att5d a lecture1 unaccompani$ by a g5tleman1 )\t attract+ att5tion4 ,! dress1 bonnet1 & cloak1 worn 9 ! /reet1 %\ld be worn 9 a lecture-room1 z ^! are1 by no means1 occasions = full dress4 ,if y return at an e>ly h\r f any place ( amusem5t1 invite y\r escort into ! h\se ^u y\r arrival !re1 & lay aside y\r bonnet & %awl4 ,if y keep !m on1 he w conclude t y expect him to %ort5 8 visit4 ,if x is late :5 y rea* home1 he w probably decl9e y\r invitation to ent]4 ,if1 h[ev]1 he accepts x1 d n lay aside y\r %awl1 & he w soon leave y4 ,if he asks p]mission to call 9 ! morn+1 y mu/1 unless prev5t$ by an imp]ative engagem5t1 rema9 at home to see him4 ,^u y\r way home f ! !atre1 conc]t1 or op]a1 speak w>mly ( ! pleasure ( ! ev5+1 &1 at p>t+1 ?ank him = t pleasure4 ,%[ by y\r mann] t y h he>tily enjoy$ ! ent]ta9m5t y owe to 8 civility4 ,if y are we>y1 d n all[ him to see x4 ,if disappo9t$1 conceal t also4 ,y w be able to f9d "s good po9ts 9 ! p]=mance2 speak ( ^! & ignore ! bad ones4 ,if at ! !atre1 op]a1 or 9 a conc]t-room1 y see an acqua9tance1 y are n expect$ to recognize h]1 unless ne> en\gh to speak4 ,a lady mu/ n b[ to any "o1 ev5 h] own si/]1 across a !atre or conc]t-room4 ,,*apt] ,,xxi4 ,,accompli%m5ts4 ,9 ! pres5t age1 :5 education is )9 ! rea* ( all1 bo? ri* & poor1 e lady w endeavor to become1 n only well educat$1 b accompli%$4 ,x is n1 z "s w ass]t1 a wa/e ( "t or money4 ,n only ! f+]s1 voice1 & figure are improv$1 b ! he>t & intellect w become ref9$1 & ! happ9ess greatly increas$4 ,take ! "y lady aft] a solid basis has be5 laid 9 h] m9d ( ! m important bran*es ( education1 & re> ^u t basis ! /ructure ( light] education--! accompli%m5ts4 ,to cultivate ^!1 disreg>d+ ! m solid in=mation1 is to build y\r ca/le )\t any f\ndation1 & make x1 n only absurd1 b un/eady4 ,! pleasure ( he>+ f a lady a cavat9a execut$ 9 ! mo/ f9i%$ mann]1 w be entirely de/roy$1 if h] fir/ spok5 words aft] ! p]=mance are vulg>1 or h] s5t5ce ungrammatical4 ,a lady )\t h] piano1 or h] p5cil1 h] libr>y ( ,fr5*1 ,g]man1 or ,italian au?ors1 h] fancy "w & ta/eful embroid]ies1 is n[ r>ely met )1 & x is "r t su* arts %\ld be univ]sal4 ,no woman is fitt$ = society until %e dances well2 = home1 unless %e is p]fect mi/ress ( ne$lework2 = h] own enjoym5t1 unless %e has at lea/ "o accompli%m5t to occupy ?\ghts & f+]s 9 h] h\rs ( leisure4 ,fir/ ^u ! li/ ( accompli%m5ts1 comes ! art ( conv]s+ well4 ,x is always ready4 ,circum/ances 9 society w con/antly ?r[ y into positions :]e y c use no o!r accompli%m5t4 ,y w n h a musical in/rum5t )9 rea*1 s++ w\ld be out ( place1 y\r fancy "w at home1 on _m occasions1 & !n y c ex]t y\r mo/ fasc9at+ z well z useful accompli%m5t1 ! art ( conv]s+ well4 ,little culture1 un=tunately1 is be/[$ ^u ?is accompli%m5t1 :i*1 beyond all o!rs1 promotes ! happ9ess ( home1 enliv5s society1 & improves ! m9ds ( bo? speak] & li/5]4 ,h[ _m excell5t wom5 are defici5t 9 ! p[] ( express+ !mselves well1 or1 inde$1 ( express+ !mselves at all6 ,h[ _m m9ds cream & mantle f ! want ( en]gy to p\r !mselves out 9 words6 ,on ! o!r h&1 h[ "s1 equally well-int5tion$1 dr[n ! v s5ses 9 _! torr5t ( rem>ks1 :i* da%es1 l a wat]-fall1 into a sombre pool ( ennui bel[6 ,"o lady w ent] society1 well-dress$1 well-look+1 polite2 %e does n int5d to *ill x by h] pres5ce2 yet h] abs5ce is f\nd a relief4 ,%e takes h] place z if %e consid]$ x suffici5t to dress & look well4 ,%e br+s no /ock to ! community ( ideas4 ,h] eyes return no response to ! disc\rse :i* is go+ on4 ,:5 y h once glanc$ at h]1 %e becomes a m]e expletive 9 ! company4 ,ano!r "o w be f\nd a talk]4 ,%e is l a can>y bird2 :5 o!rs beg9 to speak1 %e hurries 9 h] rem>ks1 9 an accompanim5t4 ,h] voice mu/ be upp]mo/2 conv]sation becomes a conte/ :o c speak ! mo/ rapidly4 ,! timid & mode/ retire f ! enc\nt]--%e has ! field to h]self4 ,%e goes on1 )\t m]cy2 ! voice ( a syr5 w\ld fatigue1 if he>d cont9ually4 ,o!rs revolt at ! inju/ice ( ! monopoly1 & ! words fall on e>s t w\ld be deaf if !y c\ld4 ,^! are extreme cases2 !re are _m o!r m9or errors4 ,! high] qualities ( conv]sation mu/ und\bt$ly be bas$ ^u ! high] qualities ( ! m9d2 !n x is1 inde$1 a privilege to commune ) o!rs4 ,to acquire ! p[] ( ?us imp>t+ ! highe/ pleasure by conv]sational p[]s1 att5tion mu/ be paid to lit]ature4 ,i am suppos+ ! solid f\ndation ( a good education already laid1 b by lit]ature1 ,i d n mean only t class ( x :i* is taught at s*ool4 ,read+1 at ! pres5t day1 is too mu* conf9$ to light lit]ature4 ,i w\ld n speak aga9/ ?is4 ,! mod]n novels1 & ! poets ( all ages1 are good read+1 b let !m be tak5 9 mod]ation1 & v>i$ by some?+ m solid4 ,let !m be ! dess]t to ! m sub/antial d9n] ( hi/ory1 travels1 & works ( a l nature4 ,indep5d5t ( ! /r5g? & poli% giv5 to ! m9d by a ?or\gh c\rse ( read+1 !re is ano!r reason :y a lady %\ld devote "s portion ( h] "t to x2 %e _c d )\t x4 ,%e may1 lack+ ?is1 pass ?r\gh life respectably1 ev5 elegantly2 b %e _c take h] "p 9 a commun+ ) sup]ior m9ds2 %e may enjoy1 9 wond]+1 ! radiance ( _! intellig5ce2 b ! wond]+ mu/ be compos$1 9 "p1 ( amazem5t at h] own folly1 9 n hav+ h]self s\ght out ! treasure conceal$ 9 ! fa?omless dep?s ( books4 ,%e _c truly enjoy society1 ) ?is art neglect$4 ,%e may1 = a few brief ye>s1 be ! ornam5t ( ! draw+-room2 b x mu/ be1 l _m o!r ornam5ts !re1 9 /ill life2 %e c nev] be ! companion ( ! intellectual2 & ! "t is gone by1 :5 wom51 ) all _! en]gies excit$1 w be cont5t$ to be ! m]e play?+ ( bro!r1 husb&1 or fa!r4 ,/ill x is n to ! erudite1 nor to ! imag9ative only1 t x is giv5 to please 9 conv]sation4 ,! art ( imp>t+ our ideas easily & elegantly to o!rs1 may be improv$ by ourselves1 if !re are opportunities ( m+l+ 9 good society1 ) little /udy4 ,! m9d mu/ fir/ be cultivat$2 b x %\ld n aba% ^? :o are consci\s ( mod]ate tal5ts1 or imp]fect cultivation1 f tak+ a due "p 9 conv]sation1 on acc\nt ( _! inf]iority4 ,x is a v diff]5t ?+ to %9e & to please2 to %9e 9 society is m frequ5tly attempt$ ?an compass$3 to please is 9 ! p[] ( all4 ,! ef=t to %9e1 :5 fruitless1 br+s a c]ta9 disgrace1 & eng5d]s mortification2 all good p are incl9$ to take ! w = ! de$1 :5 !y see a desire to please4 ,a g5tle1 def]5tial1 k9d mann]1 w dis>m ev5 ! mo/ disc]n+ f criticis+ too sev]ely ! defici5cies ( ! inexp]i5c$2 confid5ce1 disrespect ( o!rs1 volubility1 eag]ness to dispute1 mu/ irritate ! self-love ( o!rs1 & produce an av]s5ess to ackn[l$ge tal5t or in=mation1 :]e !y may ev5 happ5 to exi/4 ,x is wis] & saf] = a "y lady1 9 g5]al1 to obs]ve ! good1 old-fa%ion$ rule ( be+ address$ fir/2 b !n %e mu/ receive ! address readily1 meet+ x half way1 repay+ x by enl>g+ a little ^u ! topic ?us select$1 & n s9k+ into a dull sil5ce1 ! mom5t aft] a reply is giv54 ,"s "y ladies />t1 z if ?und]/ruck1 :5 spok5 to1 & />e z if ! p]son :o pays !m t att5tion1 _h no "r to awak5 !m f _! rev]ie4 ,o!rs look affront$1 possibly f %yness1 & beg9 a d]ogatory attack ^u ! beauty ( _! dress by twit*+ ! front bread?--or move f side to side1 9 evid5t di/ress & con/]nation4 ,"t rem$ies ^! defects2 b !re is "o less curable & less endurable--t ( p]tness & flippancy--! l\d rem>ks & exclamations--! look ( self-suffici5cy & confid5ce4 ,b ^! (f5sive manife/ations spr+ f "s previ\s & deep-seat$ defects ( "*1 & are only to be repell$ by :at1 ,i fe>1 !y w frequ5tly enc\nt]--! mortification ( inspir+ disgu/4 ,nei!r is ! l5g?y1 prosy1 didactic reply1 consi/5t ) ! submission & simplicity ( y\?2 egotism1 & egotism once remov$1 t is1 ! br++ into ! topic "o's own family & relations1 are also antidotes to ! true _s ( conv]sation4 ,9 g5]al1 x is wis]1 m 9 good ta/e1 saf]1 m becom+1 c]ta9ly m 9 accordance ) good bre$+1 to avoid talk+ ( p]sons4 ,!re are _m sn>es 9 su* topics2 n m]ely ! dang] ( calumniat+1 b t ( eng5d]+ a slipp]y consci5ce 9 matt]s ( fact4 ,a "y girl1 %y & inexp]t1 /ates a circum/ance2 %e feels h] defici5cy z a n>rator1 = ! p[] ( tell+ a /ory1 is a p[] to be acquir$ only by practice4 ,%e is sometimes tempt$ to height5 a little ! incid5ts1 9 ord] to get on a little bett]1 & to make m impression4 ,%e mu/ ( c\rse def5d h] positions1 & !n %e p]ils ! sanctity ( tru?4 ,besides1 few ?+s n>r[ ! intellect m ?an dwell+ on ! peculi>ities1 natural or incid5tal1 ( t small cot]ie ( p]sons :o con/itute our _w4 ,x is1 9 g5]al1 a wise rule1 & "o :i* w t5d mu* to insure y\r com=t ?r\gh life1 to avoid disclosures to o!rs ( family affairs4 ,i d n mean to recomm5d res]ve1 or art2 to fri5ds & relations1 too great frankness c h>dly be practis$2 b1 ) acqua9tance1 ! less our own circum/ances are discuss$1 ! happi]1 & ! m dignifi$ w our comm]ce ) !m cont9ue4 ,on ! same pr9ciple1 let ! conc]ns ( o!rs be t\*$ ^u ) delicacy1 or1 if possible1 pass$ ov] 9 sil5ce2 m especially ^? details :i* relate to /rictly p]sonal or family affairs4 ,public de$s are1 ( c\rse1 public prop]ty4 ,b p]sonal affairs are private2 & !re is a want ( true good bre$+1 a want ( consid]ation & def]5ce1 9 speak+ freely ( !m1 ev5 if y\r fri5d is unconsci\s ( ! lib]ty tak54 ,x seems p>adoxical to obs]ve t ! art ( li/5+ well =ms a "p ( ! duty ( conv]sation4 ,to give up ! :ole ( y\r att5tion to ! p]son :o addresses himself to y1 is sometimes a heavy tax1 b x is "o :i* we mu/ pay = ! privileges ( social life1 & an e>ly practice w r5d] x an almo/ involunt>y act ( good bre$+2 :il/ consid]ation = o!rs w give ?is little sacrifice a m]it & a *>m4 ,to li/5 well is to make an unconsci\s advance 9 ! p[] ( conv]s+4 ,9 li/5+ we p]ceive 9 :at ! int]e/1 9 :at ! failure ( o!rs consi/s2 we become1 too1 aw>e ( our own defici5cies1 )\t hav+ !m taught ?r\gh ! m$ium ( humiliation4 ,we f9d ourselves (t5 m ignorant ?an we c\ld h suppos$ possible4 ,we le>n1 by a v mod]ate att5tion to ! sort ( topics :i* please1 to =m a /yle ( our own4 ,! art ( conv]sation is an unpleasant phrase4 ,! p[] ( conv]s+ well is lea/ agreeable :5 x assumes ! "* ( an art4 ,9 li/5+1 a well-br$ lady w g5tly sympa?ize ) ! speak]2 or1 if ne$s mu/ be1 diff]1 z g5tly4 ,mu* "* is %[n 9 ! act ( li/5+4 ,"s p appe> to be 9 a viol5t hurry :il/ ano!r speaks2 !y ha/5 on ! p]son :o addresses !m1 z "o w\ld urge on a horse--) incessant ,yes1 yes1 v good--inde$-- proce$6 ,o!rs sit1 on ! full />e1 eyes fix$ z ^? ( an owl1 ^u ! speak]4 ,o!rs w receive e obs]vation ) a little hy/]ical giggle4 ,b all ^! vices ( mann] may be avoid$ by a g5tle att5tion & a c]ta9 calm dignity ( mann]1 bas$ ^u a reflective1 cultivat$ m9d4 ,obs]vation1 read+1 & /udy1 w =m ! gr\ndwork = good p[]s ( conv]sation1 & ! m y read1 /udy1 & see1 ! m v>i$ & int]e/+ w be y\r topics4 ,a "y lady %\ld consid] music z "o bran* ( h] education1 inf]ior1 9 importance1 to mo/ ( ^? /udies :i* are po9t$ out to h]1 b atta9able 9 a suffici5t degree by ! aid ( "t1 p]sev]ance1 & a mod]ate degree ( in/ruction4 ,begun e>ly1 & pursu$ /eadily1 !re is ample leisure 9 y\? = ! atta9m5t ( a sci5ce1 :i* conf]s m *e]fulness1 & br+s m pleasure ?an c readily be conceiv$4 ,a "y lady %\ld be able to play ) ta/e1 correctness1 & read9ess1 ^u ! g5]al pr9ciple t a well educat$ woman %\ld d all ?+s well4 ,?is1 ,i %\ld suppose1 is 9 ! p[] ( mo/ p]sons2 & x may be atta9$ )\t loss ( heal?1 ( "t1 or any sacrifice ( an important nature4 ,%e %\ld consid] x z an advantage1 a p[] to be employ$ = ! gratification ( o!rs1 & to be indulg$ ) mod]ation & good s5se = h] own res\rce1 z a *ange ( occupation4 ,consid] 9 ?is light1 music is :at ,provid5ce int5d$ x to be--a social bless+4 ,! :ole creation is replete ) music1--a b5ignant ,p[] has made ! language ( ! fea!r$ tribe h>mony2 let u n suppose t ,he condemns 8 o!r creatures to sil5ce 9 ! song4 ,music has an influ5ce peculi> to itself4 ,x c allay ! irritation ( ! m9d2 x cem5ts families1 & makes a home1 :i* might sometimes be monoton\s1 a sc5e ( pleasant excitem5t4 ,pursu$ z a recreation1 x is g5tle1 rational1 lady-l4 ,foll[$ z a sole object1 x loses its *>m1 because we p]ceive x is !n ov]-rat$4 ,! "y lady :o comes mode/ly =w>d1 :5 call$ ^u z a p]=m]1 w\ld cease to please1 7 %e1 = an in/ant1 to assume ! air & confid5ce ( a pr(essional musician4 ,!re is a c]ta9 /yle & mann]--conf9$ n[ to second-rate p]=m]s1 = ! highe/ & mo/ e/eem$ disp5se ) x--!re is an ef=t & a da%1 :i* disgu/ 9 ! lady :o has bad ta/e en\gh to assume !m4 ,&1 :il/ ,i am on ?is topic1 let me rem>k t !re is a great deal 9 ! *oice ( music1 9 ! selection ( its "*1 its suitability to y\r feel+s1 /yle1 & ta/e1 & ?is especially ) respect to vocal music4 ,!re is no d\bt t a good ,italian /yle is ! be/ = in/ruction1 & t x produces ! mo/ c>eful & accompli%$ s+]s4 ,suppose a case4 ,y\r p>5ts1 mo/ fair read]1 h paid a high price to "s excell5t pr(essor1 to in/ruct y--&1 ) a fair e>1 & a suffici5t voice1 y h be5 taught "s ( ^? elaborate songs :i* are mo/ popul> at ! op]a4 ,a p>ty is assembl$--music is "o ( ! div]sions4 ,=? y /ep1 &1 ) a j appreh5sion ( ! difficulties ( y\r task1 select "o ( ^? immortal compositions :i* ! mo/ em95t h made _! /udy2 y execute x wond]fully1 only j fall+ a little %ort ( all ! song %\ld be2 only j provok+ a comp>ison1 9 e m9d1 ) a high /&>d1 pres5t 9 ! memory ( e cultivat$ musician ne> y4 ,a cold approval1 or a good-natur$ bravo6 )1 believe me1 ?\gh y d n he> x1 a ?or\gh1 &1 (t51 express$ conviction t y _h bett] h left ! ?+ alone1 foll[s ! ef=t :i* has m]ely proclaim$ ! fact t1 spite ( "t & money sp5t ^u ! cultivation ( y\r voice1 y are b a second-rate s+]4 ,b1 *oose a wis]1 a less pret5d+1 a less conspicu\s pa?4 ,?r[ y\r k into compositions ( a less />tl+1 less aspir+ "*4 ,try only :at y c compass4 ,be wise en\gh n to proclaim y\r defici5cies1 & ! critics w g away dis>m$1 ev5 if !y are n *>m$4 ,b if !re be any voice1 any feel+1 any sci5ce1 ! t\*+ melody1 made vocal by y\? & ta/e1 w obta9 ev5 a f> high] degree ( encomium ?an1 p]haps1 x actually m]its4 ,y w please--y w be ask$ to r5ew y\r ef=ts4 ,p w n be afraid ( cad5zas five m9utes long1 or ( bravuras1 e note ( :i* makes "o hope x may be ! la/4 ,x is true t1 to a p]son :o loves music1 ! p]=mance ( "o ( ! incomp>able songs ( ,bell9i1 ,ros9i1 ,flot[1 or ,moz>t1 is an actual delight--b2 :5 attempt$ by a "y amateur1 x %\ld be1 l _m o!r delights1 conf9$ to ! private circle1 & n visit$ ^u society 9 g5]al4 ,d n suppose t ,i mean to recomm5d poor music1 or feeble1 ephem]al compositions4 ,:at is good ne$ n1 ( necessity1 be always difficult4 ,ballad music is ri* 9 songs adapt$ = ! private p]=m]--& !re are _m1 9 ,italian1 ( great beauty1 :i*1 ?\gh !y w\ld n be select$ = a conc]t-room1 or = brilliant display1 are adapt$ = ladies4 ,music is ! greate/1 be/ sub/itute = conv]sation4 ,x has _m m]its1 9 ?is light4 ,x c nev] provoke angry retort2 x c nev] make enemies2 x c injure no "o's "* by sl&]2 & 9 play+ & s++ "o c commit no indiscretion4 ,music is a mo/ excell5t amusem5t1 &1 9 society1 an indisp5sable "o4 ,x aids conv]sation by occasionally int]rupt+ x = a %ort p]iod1 to be r5ew$ ) a new impetus4 ,x makes ! mo/ delightful recreation = ! home circle1 v>y+ ! toil & tr\ble ( ! fa!r's or husb&'s work+ day1 by ! pleasures ( ! ev5+ made by music's p[] to glide smoo?ly & swiftly4 ,!re are b few p]sons :o are entirely )\t a love = music1 ev5 if !y d n und]/& x4 ,!y w be borne along ^u ! waves ( a sweet melody to high1 pure ?\ghts1 (t5 to delici\s memories4 ,! piano is1 at ! pres5t day1 ! mo/ popul> in/rum5t 9 society4 ,! h>p has ceas$ to be fa%ionable1 ?\gh x is sometimes he>d4 ,! latt] is a mo/ beautiful accompanim5t = ! voice1 b requires a l>ge room1 z1 9 a small "o1 x w s\nd /r+y & h>%4 ,! guit>1 :ile x makes a v pleasant accompanim5t = ! voice1 has also ! advantage ( be+ easily c>ri$ f place to place4 ,x requires z mu* judgm5t to select prop] in/rum5tal pieces = a p>lor p]=mance1 z y w\ld display 9 a *oice ( songs4 ,page aft] page ( black1 closely pr9t$ notes1 w drive ^? :o see !m f ! piano4 ,!y may be execut$ 9 ! mo/ f9i%$ /yle1 b !y are n suit$ to g5]al society4 ,9 _! place1 = practice1 or = a musical soiree1 :]e e "o puts =? h] be/ musical p[]s1 !y are appropriate1 & w give pleasure1 b !y are n suit$ = a mix$ p>ty4 ,:5 ask$ to play1 *oose1 if y w1 a brilliant1 %[y piece1 b let x be %ort4 ,x is bett] /ill to make no attempt at display1 b simply try to please1 select+ ! music y\r own judgm5t tells y is be/ suit$ to y\r audi5ce4 ,avoid ! l\d1 ?ump+ /yle1 & also ! ov]-solemn /yle4 ,be sure1 be=e y accept any invitation to play1 t y "k p]fectly ! piece y und]take4 ,x is bett] to play ! simple/ airs 9 a f9i%$1 faultless mann]1 ?an to play imp]fectly ! mo/ brilliant v>iations4 ,avoid movem5t at ! piano4 ,sw++ ! body to & fro1 mov+ ! head1 roll+ ! eyes1 rais+ ! h&s too mu*1 are all bad tricks1 & %\ld be c>efully ab/a9$ f4 ,) respect to draw+1 model+1 or any pursuits ( ! same nature1 s mu* dep5ds on ta/e & opportunity1 & !y are s little ! accompli%m5ts ( society t !y require b few ( ^? re/rictions :i* music1 9 its use & abuse1 dem&s4 ,draw+1 l music1 %\ld be cultivat$ e>ly4 ,its advantages are ! habits ( p]sev]ance & occupation1 :i* x induces2 & ! additional delight :i* x gives to ! works1 bo? ( nature & ( art4 ,l music1 x gives indep5d5ce--indep5d5ce ( society4 ,! true lov] ( ! arts has a sup]iority ov] ! indiff]5t1 &1 if %e be n bett] prep>$ = society1 is mu* bett] fitt$ = retirem5t ?an ^? :o are n s happily end[$ ) ta/es1 :5 9 mod]ation1 s innoc5t & b5eficial4 ,!re is no accompli%m5t m graceful1 pleas+1 heal?y1 & lady-l1 ?an t ( rid+ well4 ,avoid+1 at ! same "t1 timidity & ! fa/ /yle1 keep+ )9 ! b\nds ( elegant propriety1 gracefully yield+ to ! guidance ( y\r escort1 & keep+ y\r seat easily1 yet /eadily1 are all po9ts to be acquir$4 ,to ride well is und\bt$ly an admirable qualification = a lady1 z %e may be z fem99e 9 ! saddle z 9 ! ball room or home circle4 ,x is a mi/ak5 idea to suppose t to become an accompli%$ horse-woman a lady mu/ unsex h]self4 ,b %e mu/ h a res]ve 9 h] mann]1 t w prev5t contam9ation f ! int]c\rse :i* too mu* rid+ may lead to4 ,to hunt1 or foll[ ! field sports1 9 a pursuit :i* is ! track ( blood1 disgu/s ! true admir] ( g5tle bre$+4 ,& su* div]sions w c]ta9ly result 9 a co>s5ess ( mann] & expression1 gr[+ ^u ! fair eque/rian sl[ly b surely4 ,a h>% voice1 l\d tone1 expressions suit$ only to manly lips1 b unconsci\sly copi$1 w foll[ h] devotion to ! unfem99e pursuit4 ,no?+ is m revolt+ ?an a woman :o cat*es ! tone & expressions ( m54 ,to he> ! slang ( jockeyism f female lips1 is v (f5sive1 yet ladies :o mix 9 field sports are liable1 nay1 almo/ c]ta91 to fall into a /yle ( conv]sation :i* is t5 times worse ?an ! co>se/ t]ms f ! lips ( a man4 ,in/ances !re are1 ( ! faire/ ( our sex1 f a fondness = su* div]sions1 & a habitual p>ticipation 9 su* society1 becom+ h>d1 bold1 & disgu/+1 ev5 :il/ reta9+ all _! female lovel9ess ( p]son4 ,a lady1 unless %e lives 9 ! mo/ retir$ p>ts ( ! c\ntry1 %\ld nev] ride alone1 & ev5 !n %e w be awkw>dly plac$1 9 case ( accid5t1 )\t an escort4 ,9 ! cities1 n only is x unfem99e1 b positively dang]\s1 = a lady to ride unaccompani$ by a g5tleman1 or a man s]vant4 ,al?\gh x is impossible1 )9 ! limits ( ?is little volume1 to give _m h9ts ^u rid+1 a few may n be amiss4 ,l _m o!r accompli%m5ts1 a tea*] is necess>y1 if y wi% to atta9 p]fection1 & no writt5 directions c make y a f9i%$ horse-woman1 unless y h _h tuition & practice4 #a4 ,9 m\nt+ y are desir$1 g5tle ,amazon1 to spr+ gracefully into y\r saddle1 ) ! slight assi/ance ( a h& plac$ b5ea? ! sole ( ! %oe1 in/ead ( scrambl+ unc\?ly to y\r w&]+ ?rone1 z ,miss ,fan%awe wittily calls x1 f a high *air1 z is frequ5tly done by ^? :o h n be5 prop]ly in/ruct$4 ,to m\nt 9 ! or?odox mann]1 y %\ld /& ne>ly close to ! horse1 level ) ! front ( ! saddle1 & tak+ ! re9s slackly 9 y\r "r h&1 y %\ld place t h& on ! ne>e/ pommel1 to secure y\r balance 9 ris+1 & ) y\r left h& ga!r up ! front ( ! habit1 s z to leave ! feet cle>4 ,! g5tleman %\ld place himself firmly1 ne>1 b n s ne> to y z to imp$e y\r ris+1 & ) ! same view mu/ hold 8 head well back1 z %\ld he lose 8 hat f a :isk ( y\r habit ! effect produc$ is n good4 ,y %\ld !n pres5t y\r left foot1 & ! g5tleman plac+ "o h& b5ea? its sole1 & ! o!r above1 s z to possess a safe hold1 %\ld1 ) nice judgm5t1 give j su* assi/ance z w enable y easily1 ) a spr+1 to vault gracefully into ! saddle4 ,y w !n arrange y\r "r leg com=tably ov] ! pommel1 y\r cavali] w !n place y\r left foot 9 ! /irrup & arrange ! fl[ ( ! habit-skirt1 & all is complete4 ,all ?is1 ?\gh s seem+ly simple & easy1 requires "s little practice to effect neatly & gracefully4 #b4 ,secondly1 :5 rid+ ) a g5tleman1 rememb] t y are be/ plac$ on ! left side2 because 9 t position ! graceful fl[ ( y\r habit is se5 to ! greate/ advantage1 :ile x does n inconv5i5ce ! g5tleman by gett+ entangl$ ) 8 /irrup1 nor does x receive ! spla%es ( 8 horse4 #c4 ,b :5 y h a d\ble att5dance ( cavali]s1 if y be at all a timid rid]1 x may become discreet to pack y 7=give ! homely phrase7 betwe5 ! two1 s9ce1 9 ?is position1 y are ! mo/ ?or\ghly protect$ f y\r own horse's %y+1 or f o!r horses or vehicles approa*+ y too closely1 be+ ?us =c$ to take t "p ( ! road to :i* ! bett] judgm5t ( y\r companions inevitably guides y4 ,if y be an accompli%$ eque/rian1 y w pref] be+ outside1 & 7z has be5 said7 to ! left4 ,sit erect 9 ! middle ( y\r saddle1 turn+ y\r face full t[>ds ! head ( y\r horse4 ,cl+ z closely z possible to ! saddle1 b avoid /oop+ =w>d1 or us+ y\r h&s to keep y 9 y\r seat4 ,n]v\s motions on horseback are n only ungraceful1 b dang]\s1 z y\r horse w n make any all[ance = ! delicacy ( y\r n]ves1 & may prove 8 objections to a j]k+ h&1 or a twit*+ re91 9 a mo/ decid$ & disagreeable mann]4 ,! rid+-dress1 or habit1 is be/ made to fit ! figure tightly1 ) tight sleeves4 ,x may be op5 9 ! front1 ov] a neatly fitt+ *emisette1 or button$ close to ! ?roat1 ) a neat l95 coll> & cuffs4 ,! loose sacque is ungraceful1 b a basque is mo/ becom+ on horseback4 ,gauntlet gloves1 ( lea!r1 are ! mo/ suitable1 & mu/ be loose en\gh to give y\r h& p]fect fre$om1 yet n s loose z to int]f]e ) its motions4 ,d n we> ! skirt too long2 x w be dang]\s 9 case ( accid5t1 & x may prove annoy+ to y\r horse4 ,y\r habit mu/ be made ( a mat]ial suffici5tly heavy to hang gracefully1 & n move too mu* ) ! w9d4 ,= a w9t] habit1 a w>mly-l9$ basque1 trimm$ at ! ?roat & h&s ) fur1 is an elegant & appropriate dress1 & a r\nd cap ( ! same clo? z ! habit1 ) a b&1 & pieces to cov] ! e>s1 ( fur to mat* ! dress trimm+s1 makes a h&some & appropriate dress4 ,9 summ]1 y\r hat %\ld be ( f9e /raw1 & sl\*$ to %ade ! face2 9 w9t]1 ( felt1 or1 if y pref]1 a close cap ( clo?4 ,! hat may be trimm$ ) fea!rs or knots ( ribbon1 & ! %ape %\ld be "o to protect ! complexion1 at ! same "t graceful & becom+4 ,avoid any display 9 a rid+ dress4 ,*oose a mat]ial ( "s d>k or neutral t9t1 & nev] use %[y trimm+s4 ,curls1 or any fl[+ loose /yle ( we>+ ! hair1 w be f\nd exce$+ly tr\blesome on horseback4 ,arrange x neatly & compactly "u y\r hat1 = if a /ray curl or lock annoys y1 or is bl[n across y\r eyes by ! w9d1 y\r h&s w be too fully occupi$ to rem$y ! difficulty4 ,y\r :ip %\ld be light & small1 ta/eful if y w1 b n %[y4 ,at ! p]iod = :i* ^! h9ts are int5d$1 ! ,mod]n ,languages %\ld =m a portion ( acquirem5t4 ,z 9 music1 an intellig5t & assidu\s girl may1 ,i believe1 acquire an adequate degree ( pr(ici5cy 9 ,fr5*1 ,g]man1 & ,italian1 )\t hav+ be5 abroad1 ?\gh a =eign t\r w be ( ! greate/ use 9 ! acquisition ( ! acc5t & niceties ( ea* tongue4 ,) respect to ,fr5*1 x is no d\bt ess5tial to com=t to und]/& x2 x is "o ( ! attributes ( a lady to speak x well2 /ill1 x is n indisp5sable to speak x s well t ! ,am]ican lady is mi/ak5 = a ,p>isian4 ,?is1 :i* b seldom happ5s1 c only be acquir$1 9 mo/ cases1 by a resid5ce abroad4 ,b ,fr5* is ?or\ghly & grammatically taught 9 ,am]ica4 ,x is only ! habit ( speak+1 ! idioms & niceties1 :i* _c be acquir$ except by conv]se ) a native4 ,!re are hundr$s ( compet5t in/ructors 9 ?is c\ntry1 ,fr5* ladies & g5tlem5 among/ ! numb]1 :o =m classes = conv]sation & famili>iz+ _! pupils ) ^! v idioms4 ,aft] avail+ h]self ( su* advantages1 a "y lady w f9d t a v %ort resid5ce abroad w improve & facilitate h] ,fr5* conv]sation4 ,mu*1 h[ev]1 w dep5d ^u h[ y use ! opportunities )9 y\r rea*4 ,!re are _m opportunities ( practice 9 l>ge t[ns2 & =eign]s give all facilities1 by _! read9ess to conv]se1 _! good-nature 9 li/5+1 & 9 help+ ! beg9n] by k9d h9ts4 ,if a "y lady1 ) simplicity1 good bre$+1 & good ta/e1 endeavors to speak :5ev] %e has an opportunity1 words w come z if by intuition4 ,d n ?9k ( by-/&]s & look]s-on2 ?9k only ( ! individual to :om y are address+ y\rself4 ,if possible1 be n aba%$ by "o or two errors at ! fir/ plunge--swim on till y h confid5ce4 ,! ef=t1 ,i grant1 is great1 & x may be obviat$ by a =eign education2 b :]e ?is is impossible1 ! fre$om acquir$ w m ?an repay ! ex]tion4 ,9 =eign lit]ature1 walk c>efully1 & if y h an old]1 wis] head ?an y\r own to po9t out ! be/ pa?s1 improve ! advantage4 ,"o _c help deem+ x a great era 9 education t ,g]man is cultivat$ z well z ,italian & ,fr5*1 & t /ores ( lit]ature are op5$1 to v>y ! delights ( intellect1 & to give fre%ness & int]e/ to ! /udies ( y\?4 ,! rapture ) :i* ! works ( ,s*ill] are p]us$ 9 ! orig9al1 seems to repay ! h\rs devot$ to ,g]man2 & ,i am sure ! p]usal ( ,tasso1 or ( ! ,ari/odemo ( ,monti1 w\ld rew>d ! /udy ( ,italian1 7 n ! acquisition ( t exquisite language ( itself a s\rce ( poetic pleasure4 ,! mod]n ,fr5* writ]s h increas$ an ev]la/+ responsibility 9 corrupt+ ! s\rces ( amusem5t1 op5 to ! "y read]s1 & x is rem>kable t mo/ ( ! di/+ui%$ ,fr5* au?ors seem to h felt t !y _h err$1 & to h retriev$ 9 "s ( _! works ! t5d5cies ( _! o!r productions4 ,take = in/ance1 ,madame de ,/ael2 h] books _c be judg$ altoge!r2 ! effect ( "s ( h] eloqu5t & almo/ incomp>able writ+s v>ies 9 an extraord9>y degree4 ,:il/ ,delph9e is unfit = ! p]usal ( a mode/ woman1 h] ,l',allemagne is f9ely writt5 ?r\gh\t1 & h] criticisms & analyses ( ,g]man writ]s are full ( in/ruction z well z int]e/4 ,/ill ! works op5 to read]s ( ,fr5* are num]\s4 ,! trag$ies ( ,corneille & ,rac9e are =cible & f9i%$1 & %\ld be read because classical4 ,! ,alzire ( ,voltaire & 8 ,zaire ) ! dramas ( ,casimir de la ,vigne are also wor?y ( p]usal4 ,x is n an inspirit+ k9d ( read+1 b x is ri* 9 s5tim5t1 & p]fectly unexceptionable 9 moral tone4 ,al?\gh ! scepticism ( mo/ ,g]man writ]s r5d]s ?is lit]ature dang]\s to a "y m9d1 !re are fields ( pure1 noble writ+ op5 9 t language4 ,! works ( ,s*ill]1 = example4 ,8 m9d 0 orig9ally noble1 8 he>t good1 8 love to mank9d1 & 8 enquiry aft] tru? 7 s9c]e4 ,9 e>ly life1 he wav]$2 & ! besett+ scepticism ( ! ,g]mans dimm$1 = a "t1 8 p]ceptions ( all t is mo/ sublime1 z well z true1 9 our f9ite k4 ,he 0 *a/5$--he suff]$--he believ$4 ,he di$ an e>ly b a bright in/ance t great g5ius may exi/ ) true & humble piety1 & t ! m9d is nev] s p[]ful z :5 illum9$ by div9e light4 ,8 works are a magnific5t libr>y 9 !mselves--& ,i c\ld almo/ say1 be cont5t$ to le>n ,g]man & to read ,s*ill]4 ,"s ( 8 works are op5 to objection1 8 ,bride ( ,mess9a1 portions ( ,! ,robb]s1 are bett] omitt$ f y\r collection1 b ,wall5/e9 & ,m>ia ,/u>t are noble & admirable productions4 ,on ?is subject1 &1 inde$1 on ! :ole ( ,g]man lit]ature1 ,madame de ,/ael is an excell5t guide 9 h] ,l',allemagne1 to :i* ,i ref] ! "y ,g]man /ud5t1 :o is s9c]ely desir\s ( glean+ ! good1 & avoid+ ! evil 9 ,g]man compositions4 ,italian lit]ature furni%es a delightful !me = comm5t4 ,x is s+ul> t an enslav$1 &1 dur+ _m ages1 a deprav$ & degrad$ p1 %\ld h possess$ ! pure/ poetry1 ! lea/ exceptionable drama1 9 ,europe4 ,!re is little to exclude1 & mu* to recomm5d1 9 ?is beautiful language4 ,! works ( ,tasso ab\nd ) high s5tim5t2 ! ,inf]no ( ,dante is a sublime picture ( et]nal retribution1 s(t5$ ) mo/ t\*+ pictures ( human woe4 ,happy are ^? :o h leisure to pursue ext5sively ! acquisition ( ,italian lit]ature1 !y may read & commit to memory )\t fe> ( an insidi\s mean+ b5ea? ! poli%$ v]se1 or ! prose :i* has all ! *>m ( poetry4 ,spani% lit]ature w require ! same judici\s prun+ :i* is necess>y 9 ,fr5* & ,g]man1 b ( all languages1 x is ! mo/ musical = spee*1 & s++4 ,a lady 9 society mu/1 if %e w\ld n gr[ utt]ly we>y 9 company1 "k h[ to dance4 ,x has be5 ! practice among _m excell5t p to repres5t ! ball room z a pitfall cov]$ ) fl[]s2 a %eet ( break+ ice2 above1 all gayety & motion2 bel[1 all d>kness & dang]4 ,x may be t to "s m9ds ! ball room may be replete ) temptations2 b !re are m9ds :i* f9d temptations ev]y:]e4 ,! innoc5t may be innoc5t1 nay1 ! pi\s may feel dev\t1 ev5 9 a ball room4 ,!re is no?+ immoral or wrong 9 danc+2 x is ! t5d5cy ( y\? to dance--x is ! fir/ ef=t ( a *ild--! fir/ natural recreation4 ,x seems s natural t ,i confess ,i am always d\btful ( ! s9c]ity ( ^? "y ladies :o pr(ess to dislike ! ball room4 ,9 ! pres5t day1 y mu/ und]/& h[ to move gracefully ?r\gh quadrilles1 to dance polka1 ,s*ottis*e1 ,v>sovi5ne1 & waltz4 ,to ^! y may add great v>iety ( dances1 ea* season1 probably1 br++ a new "o4 ,danc+1 says ,mr4 ,%eldrake1 is "o ( ! mo/ heal?y1 z well z "o ( ! mo/ pleas+ amusem5ts t c be practis$ by ! "y4 ,if x is le>n$ f ^? :o are well qualifi$ to tea* x1 & practis$1 z x ought to be1 consi/5tly ) ! in/ructions giv51 x w contribute m to improve ! heal?1 z well z ! =m ( ! human frame1 ?an any o!r ex]cise4 ,= ! discov]y & promulgation ( ! true & correct pr9ciples accord+ to :i* danc+ %\ld be taught1 ! _w is indebt$ to ,france1 a c\ntry :i* has long tak5 ! lead 9 ! elegant arts4 ,9 ,france1 danc+ 0 fir/ rais$ to ! dignity ( a sci5ce1 a royal academy be+ f\nd$ = ! purpose ( tea*+ & p]fect+ x1 9 ! reign ( ,l\is ,quatorze4 ,9 ?is academy 7 tra9$ _m ( ! mo/ di/+ui%$ danc]s ( bo? sexes4 ,"o ( ! mo/ celebrat$1 ,madame ,simonet1 gave ! foll[+ acc\nt to ,mr4 ,%eldrake ( ! mode ( in/ruction pursu$ 9 ! academy3--,all ! pupils1 be=e !y 7 p]mitt$ to attempt to dance1 7 completely in/ruct$ 9 :at 7 call$ ! prep>atory ex]cises2 t is1 a sy/em ( ex]cises1 :i* endu$ all _! limbs ) /r5g?1 firmness1 ela/icity1 & activity2 :5 !y _h acquir$ ^! prop]ties1 !y began to dance4 ,9 ^! prep>atory ex]cises1 ! motions 7 ( ! mo/ simple k9d1 ! object be+ to tea* ! pupil1 gradually & sep>ately1 all ^? movem5ts :i*1 :5 comb9$1 & rapidly execut$1 con/itute danc+4 ,madame ,simonet ?us describ$ ^? elem5t>y in/ructions1 z gone ?r\gh by h]self3--,%e successively le>n$ to /& flat & firm ^u bo? h] feet1 ) h] limbs q /raight1 & ! :ole p]son p]fectly upright1 b n /iff2 !n to lift "o foot f ! gr\nd1 & to keep x s = "s "t )\t mov+ any "p ( h] body2 %e !n replac$ t foot on ! gr\nd1 & rais$ ! o!r 9 ! same mann]4 ,^! simple actions 7 repeat$ till ! pupils 7 q famili> ) !m2 !y 7 !n direct$ to keep ! body q erect1 b n /iff1 & be>+ firmly ^u "o leg1 to raise ! o!r f ! gr\nd1 gradually & sl[ly1 by b5d+ ! upp] jo9t ( ! limb1 at ! same "t mak+ ! knee /raight1 & putt+ ! toe to its prop] ext5t1 b no m4 ,! foot1 aft] x _h be5 kept 9 ?is /ate = "s "t1 0 return$ to ! gr\nd f :5ce x 0 tak51 & ! o!r foot treat$ 9 ! same mann]2 :5 q famili>iz$ to ^! actions1 !y 7 direct$ to walk 7m>*1 z "s p w call x7 sl[ly1 p]=m+ ! same motions ) ! feet alt]nately4 ,! ex]cises :i* foll[$ ^!1 7 ^u ! turn+ out ( ! feet1 ! balanc+ ( ! body1 & o!r attitudes1 :i* ne$ n be p>ticul>iz$4 ,mr4 ,%eldrake gives sev]al examples ( p]sons tra9$ ^u ^! initiatory pr9ciples to ! pr(ession ( danc+1 :o h liv$ 9 heal? to a great age4 ,?is1 says he1 is n ! *ance lot ( a few2 = ,i h1 ?r\gh life1 be5 accu/om$ to see _m p]sons ( ! same pr(ession2 ,i h communicat$ my own obs]vations to _m o!rs1 & all h agre$ 9 rem>k+1 t ^? :o foll[ ?is pr(ession h1 v g5]ally1 excell5t heal?1 :i* v _m ( !m c>ry into extreme old age4 ,?is indisputable fact c only be acc\nt$ = by suppos+ t ! prep>atory ex]cises :i* ^! p]sons g ?r\gh1 are a modification ( :at ,i h call$ regulat$ muscul> t5sion1 or action1 & ! e>ly & con/ant practice ( :i* lays a firm f\ndation = t high heal? :i* accompanies !m ?r\gh life4 ,x is ^u ! same pr9ciple t a soldi] is nev] se5 ) sp9al curvature1 or o!r p]sonal de=mity1 or a /age danc] ( ei!r sex ) a de=m$ p]son2 x is1 p]haps1 impossible t su* ?+s %\ld exi/1 = ! pla9 reason1 t ! ex]cises :i* !y beg9 to practice e>ly 9 life1 & cont9ue regul>ly ?r\gh its :ole c\rse1 r5d] x impossible = !m to become s4 ,! inf]5ce to be drawn f ^! incontrov]tible facts is1 t if we1 9 v e>ly life1 tea* "y *ildr5 to practice simil> ex]cises1 & foll[ !m /eadily aft]w>ds1 we %all confirm !m 9 excell5t heal?1 & prev5t ! accession ( ^? evils :i* s (t5 cause de=mity to ! figure1 & de/ruction to ! con/itution1 at lat] p]iods ( life4 ,i d n propose to make e boy a soldi]1 or e girl a danc] ^u ! /age1 b to adopt ! pr9ciples1 by ! application ( :i* ^? p]sons are tra9$ to ! successful practices ( _! sev]al occupations1 & s to modify !m1 t !y may qualify o!r classes ( society to foll[ _! diff]5t pursuits ) equal success2 & ,i am n )\t hopes t ?is und]tak+ w contribute some?+ t[>ds produc+ ?is desirable effect4 ,danc+ is an ex]cise :i* has be5 practic$ by mank9d f ! mo/ remote ages4 ,) ! ,egyptians1 ,assyrians1 & ,p]sians1 ! f\nd]s ( ! ?ree great empires ( ! anci5t _w1 danc+ 0 ! favorite ex]cise or accompli%m5t1 & ! practice 0 n less preval5t among _! successors 9 p[] & importance1 ! ,greeks & ,romans4 ,! ,jews1 also1 we le>n f ,scripture1 7 /rongly atta*$ to ! ex]cise at all p]iods ( _! hi/ory4 ,at ! pres5t day1 almo/ e p t exi/1 :e!r b>b>\s or civiliz$1 has its own =m ( danc+4 ,x is ?is univ]sality ( ! ex]cise t makes danc+ a subject ( importance4 ,be+ s ext5sively practic$1 x mu/ be ! in/rum5t ei!r ( good or evil to ! human race4 ,x is "o ( ! mo/ heal?ful & elegant amusem5ts1 & _c be too highly recomm5d$4 ,among a rude & dissolute p x may deg5]ate into some?+ wor?y ( condemnation2 b all ! bless+s we h are simil>ly liable to abuse1 & x w\ld be mo/ unju/ to condemn a *e]ful dome/ic amusem5t1 m]ely because x has1 at times1 be5 degrad$ by p ( l[1 vulg>1 immoral ta/es4 ,by all physicians1 danc+1 :5 pursu$ 9 mod]ation1 is recomm5d$ z highly conducive to bodily heal?2 & x may be truly said1 t1 alli$ ) music1 no?+ is m conducive to m5tal heal?1 m calculat$ to drive away melan*oly1 & put ! :ole temp] into good humor4 ,danc+ is ! poetry ( motion4 ,x mu/ be p]=m$ ) ease & grace1 & always ) a p]fect reg>d = propriety ( movem5t4 ,z an art x is taught by pr(ess$ ma/]s2 & "o ( ! lead+ rules giv5 to ! le>n] is to raise & l[] h]self gracefully on ! ela/ic "p ( h] feet1 & to keep p]fect "t to ! music4 ,danc+ is really a simple & elegant glid+ on ! toes1 :i* b5d m or less to accommodate ! /eps1 & prev5t h>%1 ungraceful motion4 ,! mo/ popul> dances ( ! pres5t day1 are1 fir/1 ! quadrille4 ,^! are ( ,fr5* orig91 comp>atively tranquil 9 _! "*1 & g5]ally danc$ once or m 9 e p>ty4 ,!y are danc$ by f\r c\ples1 "o /&+ on ea* side ( a squ>e4 ,!re are _m sets ( quadrilles1 ! figures 9 ea* v>y+ f ! o!rs4 ,b !re are five figures 9 ea* set4 ,! pla91 fancy1 ,lanc]s1 ,polka1 ,maz\rka1 & ,g]man1 are among ! mo/ popul>4 ,9 pla9 quadrilles1 a lady takes no /eps1 m]ely walk+ gracefully ?r\gh ! figures1 b h] feet mu/ keep p]fect "t to ! music1 & %e mu/ "k ! *anges ( position p]fectly4 ,a quadrille may be v prop]ly describ$ z a conv]sation dance1 z !re are long pauses betwe5 ! figures1 :5 ! danc]s mu/ h a fund ( small talk ready = _! p>tn]s4 ,:5 mov+ 9 ! figures1 hold out y\r skirt a little ) ! "r h&1 m]ely to cle> ! gr\nd1 & prev5t ! possibility ( tread+ ^u x4 ,next come ! r\nd dances1 ! ,valse1 ,polka1 ,s*ottis*e1 ,v>sovi5ne1 & ,r$[a4 ,! ,waltz is danc$ bo? a troi/emps & deuxtemps4 ,9 ! waltz1 ! position is a mo/ important po9t4 ,y may s lean ^u y\r p>tn]'s arm1 & s c>ry y\r figure1 t ! prudi% c f9d b little fault1 b y c also make ! dance a mo/ immode/ "o4 ,i _c1 )9 ! limits ( my book1 g into a long argum5t z to ! propriety ( ^! r\nd dances4 ,op9ions diff]1 & ,i am n writ+ a s]mon1 b giv+1 z f> z is 9 my p[]1 h9ts to ladies 9 society4 ,x is1 !re=e1 en\gh = me to "k t ^! dances are tol]at$1 & t1 ev5 7 ,i s incl9$1 ,i c\ld n exclude !m4 ,to return to ! position4 ,/& a little to ! "r ( y\r p>tn]1 t1 9 clasp+ y\r wai/1 he may draw y ^u 8 arm to 8 %\ld]1 n 8 brea/2 ! la/ position is awkw>d4 ,by obs]v+ ! fir/1 y h y\r head free2 turn x a little t[>ds ! left %\ld]2 ne$ ,i say1 nev] lay x ^u y\r p>tn]'s %\ld]8 ,?r[ ! head & %\ld]s a little back1 n too mu* to be consi/5t ) easy grace1 place "o h& ^u y\r p>tn]'s %\ld]1 & ! o!r 9 8 dis5gag$ h&4 ,s1 y are ready to />t4 ,! waltz may be danc$ to v fa/ "t1 or to sl[ music4 ,! la/ is ! mo/ graceful1 & !re is n s mu* dang] ( gidd9ess4 ,grace c only be ga9$ by a p]fect tim+ ( ! /eps to ! music1 & also ev5ness ( /ep4 ,x is1 :5 prop]ly tim$ ) p]fect /ep1 & easy1 glid+ motion1 ! mo/ graceful ( dances4 ,! ,g]mans1 :o dance = ! sake ( danc+1 w only all[ a c]ta9 numb] ( waltz]s on ! floor at "o "t1 & ^! waltz 9 /reams1 all go+ d[n "o side ( ! room & up ! o!r1 ?us r5d]+ collisions impossible4 ,an ,engli% writ]1 9 a rec5t "w publi%$ on etiquette1 speaks ( waltz+ ?us3-- ,x is p]haps useless to recomm5d flat-foot waltz+ 9 ?is c\ntry1 :]e ladies all[ !mselves to be almo/ hugg$ by _! p>tn]s1 & :]e m5 ?9k x necess>y to lift a lady almo/ (f ! gr\nd1 b ,i am p]suad$ t if x 7 introduc$1 ! outcry aga9/ ! impropriety ( waltz+ w\ld soon cease4 ,no?+ c be m delicate ?an ! way 9 :i* a ,g]man holds 8 p>tn]4 ,x is impossible to dance on ! flat foot unless ! lady & g5tleman are q free ( "o ano!r4 ,8 h&1 !re=e1 goes no fur!r r\nd h] wai/ ?an to ! hooks & eyes ( h] dress1 h]s1 no high] ?an to 8 elb[4 ,?us danc$1 ! waltz is smoo?1 graceful1 & delicate1 & we c\ld nev] 9 ,g]many compla9 ( our daught]'s langui%+ on a "y man's %\ld]4 ,on ! o!r h&1 no?+ is m graceless & absurd1 ?an to see a man waltz+ on ! tips ( 8 toes1 lift+ 8 p>tn] (f ! gr\nd1 or twirl+ r\nd & r\nd ) h] l ! figures on a /reet organ4 ,! te/ ( waltz+ 9 "t1 is to be able to /amp ! "t ) ! left foot4 ,! waltz is ( ,g]man orig91 b :]e x is /ill danc$ 9 ,g]many 9 ! orig9al mann]1 7z1 = in/ance1 among ! peasants ( ! ,tyrol17 x is a v diff]5t dance4 ,x is !re v sl[ & graceful2 ! feet are ?r[n out 9 a s+le long /ep1 :i* ,turveydrop1 ,i presume1 w\ld call a jete4 ,aft] a few turns1 ! p>tn]s waltz alone 9 ! same /ep1 ! man keep+ ! "t by /rik+ toge!r 8 iron-%od heels1 until ) a %\t & clapp+ ( h&s he aga9 clasps 8 p>tn] & cont9ues 9 ! same sl[ measure ) h]4 ,! position = ! polka1 r$[a1 & o!r r\nd dances1 %\ld be ! same z t = ! waltz1 & = ! /eps1 !y c only be acquir$ f a danc+ tea*]1 & are impossible to describe prop]ly4 ,"o ( ! mo/ delightful accompli%m5ts :i* a lady c possess1 & "o :i* is un=tunately b little cultivat$1 is ! art ( read+ al\d well2 read+ ) expression1 ta/e1 animation1 & correctness2 & ?is art once acquir$1 let h] also be able to recite well4 ,long lectures may be giv5 ^u elocution1 b ! advice c be cond5s$ into two directions4 ,fir/1 be sure y pron\nce1 acc5t1 & enunciate e ^w correctly2 !n1 ?r[ y\r :ole s\l into ! words4 ,/udy y\r au?or c>efully1 t y may "k precisely :at he means by ea* expression1 & !n try to bury y\r p]sonal id5tity1 to become1 = ! "t1 ! "* y repres5t4 ,"o ( ! mo/ delightful ways to sp5d a social ev5+1 is to devote x to dramatic lit]ature4 ,invite only gue/s :o read well1 or :o are really int]e/$ li/5]s1 & select a play1 or sc5es f sev]al plays1 & ca/ ! p>ts among y\r gue/s4 ,all jeal\sy mu/ be put aside1 & to-night's ,hamlet mu/ condesc5d to direct ,ri*>d to ,/& by1 my "l1 & let ! c(f9 pass1 to-morr[4 ,aft] a few meet+s1 ! peculi> tal5t ( ea* read] w be recogniz$1 & y c select y\r trag$y h]o1 com$y h]o1 que51 *amb]maid1 & o!r memb]s ( ! =ce1 ) a view to ! display ( ea* "o's be/ p[]s4 ,v>y ! ent]ta9m5t by recit+ monologues & dialogues4 ,a :ole play w (t5 be f\nd tiresome2 x is be/ to select sev]al sc5es1 keep+ up ! ?read ( ! plot1 & introduc+ ! be/ *>act]s1 & leave out :at is m]e int]lude1 & disp5se ) "s ( ! subord9ate *>act]s4 ,leave "o end ( ! room entirely vacant = ! read]s4 ,y w f9d x m int]e/+ to h ! read]s /&1 & use "s little motion2 ! words w fl[ m easily1 ! expressions come m =cibly if ! appropriate ge/ure is made4 ,love sc5es w1 ( c\rse1 require delicate h&l+1 & embrac+ c be easily omitt$2 nei!r w\ld ,i recomm5d ! action ( a duel+ sc5e1 or a murd]1 b m]ely to add ge/ure en\gh to give int]e/ to bo? read]s & audi5ce4 ,y w f9d "s little difficulty f ba%fulness1 & ! don't l to p at fir/1 b soon y w discov] ) delight h[ _m ( y\r fri5ds possess ! tal5t = read+ well1 & nev] knew x !mselves4 ,y w d well to take a few lessons 9 elocution1 b y ne$ n fe> to read if y h nev] made ! accompli%m5t a /udy4 ,) a correct k ( y\r own language1 & a love = f9e writ+1 y w soon read well4 ,give to e "p y und]take1 ! full effect int5d$ by ! writ]4 ,d n ?r[ all y\r en]gy1 y\r :ole s\l1 into a lead+ "p at "o "t1 & slight a subord9ate "* at ano!r4 ,if y h b five words to read1 read !m z !y w\ld be spok5 7 y ! "* y repres5t = ! "t4 ,to he> a spl5didly writt51 tragic bur/ ( passion read 9 a weak1 :9+ voice1 is no worse ?an to h a few simple words f a s]vant's lips deliv]$ ) ! ge/ure & emphasis suit$ to a ,m$ea or ,lady ,macbe?4 ,i %all be condemn$ by _m s]i\s & well-judg+ p]sons1 if ,i say "o ^w 9 favor ( private !atricals2 yet1 z x appe>s to me1 !re are 9 ^! div]sions "s advantages :i* are n to be f\nd to excuse ! waltz1 or ! polka1 or ! ballet1 or ! hunt+ field4 ,9 private !atricals !re is ! possibility ( "s b5efit4 ,! /udy ( ! f9e/ dramati/s1 especially ( ,%akespe>e1 is n likely to demoralize ! m9d1 or to cool ! en?usiasm = :at is good4 ,we c sc>cely "k too well ^? works :i* h t5d$ m to =m "* ?an any collection ( any k9d :atsoev]4 ,%akespe>e1 ,%]idan1 ,bulw]1--b ,i _c g ?r\gh ! li/ ( f9e dramatic writ]s ^: works elevate ! m9d & ta/e4 ,! plays ( ,%]idan1 ,kn[les1 & ,bulw]1 are1 9 mo/ in/ances1 well adapt$ = private repres5tations--! mo/ exquisite del9eations ( female "* may be f\nd 9 ! dramatic libr>y1 & high1 pure1 manly ?\ghts1 may be trac$1 l9e aft] l9e1 to ! same s\rce4 ,private !atricals %\ld1 h[ev]1 be regulat$ ) mu* judgm5t4 ,i see no reason to re/rict too sev]ely tal5t ( ?is k9d :]e x exi/s1 any m ?an to cru% a dawn+ ta/e = ! o!r f9e arts4 ,:at we h to d is to raise & direct x2 nev] to let x occupy too mu* "t1 nor to become ! bus9ess ( life2 nev] to let x infr+e ^u duties2 nev] to all[ x to lead u into an unreasonable1 &1 !re=e1 crim9al exp5se4 ,our ance/ors 7 cont5t to /rew _! /age at ! end ( _! halls ) ru%es1 & to hang up ! "n ( ! sc5e1 in/ead ( a sc5e1 be=e ea* act4 ,! be/ prep>ations1 :i* g5]ally r5d] private !atricals bo? labori\s & exp5sive1 add b little to ! pleasure ( ! behold]s1 ^: att5tion is fix$ ^u ! actors1 & :o c always see f> f9] sc5es at a m9or !atre ?an at any private !atricals4 ,7 we cont5t ) great] simplicity 9 our amusem5ts1 h[ mu* va9 o/5tation1 he>t-sick5+ exp5se1 self-recrim9ation1 & tr\ble1 might be avoid$6 ,z a valid objection to private !atricals1 x has be5 urg$ t !y are apt to enc\rage a ta/e = ! gre5-room ( ! public !atre 9 "y m5 & boys2 9 wom5 ! risk is less1 = few wom5 are ev] kn[n to g on ! /age except f necessity4 ,i own ?is objection to !atricals is ! greate/ t c be urg$4 ,x c only be answ]$ 9 mitigation t1 :]e !re exi/s a ta/e ( ! k9d1 x is bett] t x %\ld be indulg$ at home1 in/ead ( at ! !atre1 ) ! mode/ inmates ( a well-gov]n$ h\se1 in/ead ( ) pr(essional actors4 ,l all o!r amusem5ts1 ! abuse is probable1 b ! p[] ( re/ra9t re/s )9 ourselves4 ,"u ! same head z private !atricals may come dramatiz$ *>ades & prov]bs1 s mu* 9 fa%ion at ! pres5t "t4 ,^! la/ h "s great advantages ov] ! /&>d plays2 !y are bett] suit$ to a p>lor2 !y d n provoke comp>ison betwe5 ! "y actors1 & ! favorite public idols2 !y require b little sc5]y & arrangem5t2 !y are %ort2 & !y d n require s _m subord9ate *>act]s4 ,impromptu *>ades & prov]bs are delightful1 & are ! occasion = mu* m]rim5t2 ! mi/akes1 ! absurd contra/s betwe5 "* & co/ume1 ! sc5]y--a deep1 hang+ wood1 ! c\rt ( ,l\is ,quatorze or ! deck ( a man ( w>1 be+ improvis$ at a mom5t's notice1 only add to ! m]ry enjoym5t4 ,"o rule y mu/ obs]ve if y jo9 9 ^! amusem5ts3 nev] to c>ry y\r gayety into romp+4 ,m]ry & laugh+ y may be1 yet nev] =get y are a lady4 ,y may p]sonate a newly-caught ,iri% *amb]maid1 use ! broade/ brogue1 we> ! commone/ dress1 ?r[ y\rself he>tily & ?or\ghly into ! "p1 los+ y\r p]sonal id5tity almo/ entirely1 & yet y may reta9 t nameless *>m1 :i* w place y 9 ! m9d ( ea* ( ! audi5ce z a lady ( ref9em5t4 ,y mu/ also be p]fectly good-natur$ & self-sacrific+2 ready to play ! smalle/ p>ts ) ! same int]e/ y w\ld ?r[ into ! pr9cipal ones4 ,try to ?r[ out all ! good po9ts 9 ! p>ts tak5 by ! o!r memb]s ( ! company4 ,if y play an insignificant "p1 play x well1 ) all ! grace y c1 make ! mo/ ( x1 b d n try to raise x to ! fir/ place4 ,yield gracefully ! prom95t position to ^? :o claim x 9 ! plot ( ! play1 & nev] try by conspicu\s dress or by play1 to g beyond ! position set d[n = y4 ,ano!r delightful accompli%m5t1 & "o :i* w aid y if y are /udy+ draw+ & pa9t+1 is t ( arrang+ tableaux vivants4 ,mrs4 ,sev]n gives ! foll[+ h9ts ^u ?is subject3 ,p]haps !re is no intellectual amusem5t 9 fa%ionable life1 ! nature ( :i* is s little und]/ood1 z ! tableau vivant2 x be+ g5]ally consid]$ z only a vehicle = display1 :]eas its real purpose is to arrange sci5tifically a comb9ation ( natural objects1 s z to make a good picture accord+ to ! rules ( art4 ,a tableau vivant is lit]ally :at its "n imports--a liv+ picture compos$ ( liv+ p]sons2 &1 :5 skilfully arrang$ & se5 at a prop] di/ance1 x produces all ! effect ( a real picture4 ,x is said1 t ! fir/ liv+ picture 0 contriv$ by a pr(ligate "y ,g]man nobleman1 :o hav+1 dur+ ! abs5ce ( 8 fa!r1 sold "o ( ! celebrat$ pictures belong+ to ! old ca/le1 :i* 0 an heir-loom1 to conceal ! defici5cy1 plac$ "s ( 8 companions beh9d ! frame1 s z to imitate ! miss+ picture1 & to deceive 8 fa!r1 :o pass$ ?r\gh ! room )\t be+ consci\s ( 8 loss4 ,a tableau vivant may be =m$ 9 two ways3 x may consi/ ( a gr\p ( p]sons1 :o take "s well-kn[n subject 9 hi/ory or fiction to illu/rate1 & :o =m a gr\p to tell ! /ory accord+ to _! own ta/e2 or1 x may be a copy1 z exact z circum/ances w p]mit1 ( "s celebrat$ picture4 ,! fir/ plan1 x may be easily imag9$1 is v r>ely effective2 s9ce1 z we f9d t ev5 ! be/ ma/]s are (t5 mon?s1 or ev5 ye>s1 be=e !y c arrange a gr\p satisfactorily on canvas1 x is n probable t p]sons :o are n arti/s %\ld succe$ 9 mak+ good impromptu pictures4 ,inde$1 x has be5 obs]v$1 t arti/s !mselves1 :5 !y h to arrange a tableau vivant1 always pref] copy+ a picture to compos+ "o4 ,copy+ a real picture1 by plac+ liv+ p]sons 9 ! positions ( ! figures indicat$ 9 ! picture1 appe>s1 at fir/ sight1 an easy task en\gh2 & ! effect ought to be easily atta9$1 z !re c be no bad draw+1 & no confus$ light & %ade1 to de/roy ! effect ( ! gr\p+4 ,!re are1 h[ev]1 _m difficulties to conqu]1 :i* x requires "s k ( art to be aw>e (4 ,pa9t+ be+ on a flat surface1 e means are tak5 to give r\ndness & relief to ! figures1 :i* qualities ( c\rse are f\nd naturally 9 a tableau vivant4 ,9 a picture ! light is made effective by a d>k %ad[ plac$ ne> x2 dim9i%$ lights or demi-t9ts are introduc$ to prev5t ! pr9cipal light appe>+ a spot2 & ^! are l9k$ toge!r by artful %ades1 :i* %[ ! outl9e 9 "s places1 & hide x 9 o!rs4 ,! colors mu/ also be c>efully arrang$1 s z to bl5d or h>monize ) ea* o!r4 ,a want ( att5tion to ^! m9ute po9ts w be suffici5t to de/roy ! effect ( ! f9e/ picture1 ev5 to ^? :o are s unacqua9t$ ) art z to be incapable ( expla9+ :y !y are dissatisfi$1 except by an involunt>y lik+ or dislik+ ( :at !y see4 ,! be/ place = putt+ up a tableau vivant is 9 a door-way1 ) an equal space on ea* side2 or1 at lea/1 "s space on bo? sides is necess>y2 & if !re is a room or a passage betwe5 ! door select$ = ! picture & ! room ! company is to see x f1 s mu* ! bett]1 z !re %\ld be a di/ance ( at lea/ f\r y>ds betwe5 ! fir/ r[ ( ! spectators & ! picture4 ,x mu/ be rememb]$ t1 :ile ! tableau is be+ %[n1 ne>ly all ! lights mu/ be put out 9 ! room :]e ! company is assembl$2 &1 p]haps1 only "o s+le c&le1 prop]ly plac$1 9 ! int]v5+ space betwe5 ! company & ! tableau1 mu/ be left slightly to illum9ate ! frame4 ,9 ! above-m5tion$ door-way a frame1 some:at small] ?an ! orig9al picture1 mu/ be susp5d$1 ?ree1 f\r1 or ev5 five feet f ! floor1 z may suit ! height ( ! door2 or1 if ! door is n v high1 ! frame may be put "o or two feet beh9d1 to ga9 space2 b c>e mu/ be tak5 to fill up ! op5+ t w\ld1 9 t case1 %[ betwe5 ! door-way & ! frame2 also a piece ( d>k clo? ought to be put f ! bottom ( ! frame to ! gr\nd1 to give ! appe>ance ( ! picture hang+ on ! wall4 ,! mo/ important ?+ is1 t ! *airs or tables ought to be plac$ beh9d ! frame1 s t ! p]sons :o are to repres5t ! tableau may sit or /& z ne>ly 9 ! position1 ) reg>d to ! frame1 z ! figures appe> to d 9 ! real picture !y are try+ to imitate1 & at ab\t two feet f ! frame1 s t ! light :i* is atta*$ to ! back ( ! frame may fall prop]ly on ! figures4 ,9 ord] to accompli% ?is1 great /udy & contrivance are requir$1 s t ! %ades may fall 9 precisely ! same places z 9 ! orig9al picture2 & sometimes ! light is put on "o side1 sometimes on ! o!r1 & (t5 on ! top2 & sometimes %ades ( t9 or pap] are put betwe5 ! lights & ! tableaux1 to assi/ 9 ?r[+ a %ad[ ov] any p>ticul> "p4 ,! backgr\nd is "o ( ! mo/ important p>ts1 & %\ld be made to resemble t ( ! picture z ne>ly z possible2 if x is d>k1 co>se clo? absorbs ! light be/2 b :e!r x is to be black1 blue1 or br[n1 mu/ dep5d on ! t9t ( ! picture2 %\ld ! backgr\nd be a light "o1 color$ calico1 turn$ on ! wrong side1 is g5]ally us$4 ,if trees or fl[]s =m ! backgr\nd1 ( c\rse real bran*es or plants mu/ be introduc$ to imitate ^? 9 ! picture4 ,ev5 rocks h be5 imitat$2 & spun glass has (t5 successfully repres5t$ wat]4 ,a ?91 black gauze1 black musl91 or t>latan veil1 %\ld be fa/5$ to ! top ( ! frame1 on ! outside ( x1 ?r\gh :i* ! tableau is to be se54 ,c>e ought to be tak5 to conceal ! peculi>ities ( ! diff]5t mat]ials us$ 9 ! drap]ies1 & x is ev5 sometimes necess>y to cov] ! /uffs us$ = ! purpose ) a gauze ( a diff]5t color1 s z to imitate ! brok5 & transp>5t colors f\nd 9 mo/ good pictures4 ,?is1 c>efully att5d$ to1 w give a quietness & simplicity to ! :ole1 :i* w greatly add to ! illusion4 ,! next subject ^u ! li/ ( accompli%m5ts1 %\ld be fill$ by "s words ^u fancy sew+4 ,"u ?is head w come--,cro*et1 ,knitt+1 ,tape/ry "w1 ,embroid]y1 ,*5ille "w1 ,nett+1 ,canvas "w1 ,b]l9 wool "w1 ,frame "w1 ,braid+1 ,bead "w1 etc4 ,small social ga!r+s w be mu* m ent]ta9+1 ! "t w pass mu* m quickly1 & ! conv]sation fl[s m freely if ! f+]s are employ$ ) "s light "w4 ,pretty pres5ts--nay1 beautiful ones--may be made 9 ?is way1 :5 ! f+]s w\ld o!rwise be idle1 & ^! w h an additional value 9 be+ ! "w ( y\r own h&s4 ,f ! mo/ remote ages ne$lework has be51 n only a s\rce ( pecuni>y advantage = poor wom51 b also ( pleasant pa/ime = ! ri*4 ,x is "o ( ! mo/ elegant ( ! imitative art1 & f "t immemorial x has be5 an amusem5t = o!rwise idle f+]s1 f ! cottage to ! palace4 ,i h n space = a long disquisition ^u ! uses & pleasures ( fancy "w2 e woman has mom5ts :5 su* pretty playwork w be a valuable recreation4 ,! ta/e = fancy "w increases daily1 & c be made n only ornam5tal1 b useful4 ,a ladies' w>drobe consi/s ( s _m1 & su* v>i$ objects1 t ! ev5+s ( an entire w9t] may be sp5t 9 mak+ v>i\s useful g>m5ts1 :i* are1 at ! same "t1 suitable = company sew+4 ,op]a hoods1 wool %awls1 sleeves1 ,sontags1 & o!r ladies' articles1 may be v>i$ by embroid]+ smok+ caps1 slipp]s1 or h&k]*iefs = g5tlem54 ,embroid]+ on canvas1 or tape/ry "w1 op5s a l>ge field = ta/e & skill 9 execution4 ,beautiful articles = pres5ts1 *air cov]s1 s(a cu%ions1 slipp]s1 may be work$ 9 ! o!rwise idle mom5ts sp5t 9 famili> society1 & ! f+]s w soon acquire skill & a/oni%+ rapidity4 ,! ,g]man ladies h con/antly on h& a piece ( nett+ or o!r fancy "w1 :i* !y c>ry f place to place1 & take out :5 conv]s+2 & s f> f entirely engross+ _! ?\ghts1 !y *at m readily & freely ) _! f+]s ?us employ$4 ,am]ican ladies w f9d ! cu/om wor? imitat+4 ,_m t$i\s h\rs w be smoo?ly1 pleasantly pass$1 ) ! m9d free1 b ! f+]s pleasantly occupi$4 ,an ev5+ pass$ 9 sew+ or knitt+1 ) "o good read] to ent]ta9 ! indu/ri\s work]s1 w be f\nd v pleasant4 ,i h kn[n a circle ( "y p meet e week to "w 9 ?is way1 ! read] be+ *ang$ twice or ?ree times 9 ! c\rse ( ! ev5+1 & ^! meet+s h prov$ s pleasant1 t sc>cely any memb] fail$ to plead prior engagem5t if invit$ out ^u ! ev5+ appo9t$ to read & sew4 ,x 0 =m]ly object$ by ! adv]s>ies to m5tal cultivation 9 wom51 t ! acquirem5t ( book le>n+ w\ld make !m neglect ne$lework2 b s f> f ?is be+ ! case1 ! pres5t1 :i* is (t5 call$ ! age ( le>n+1 is preem95tly a work+ age4 ,nev] 7 f+]s m actively engag$ ?an ^? ( ! ris+ female g5]ation2 braid+1 embroid]y1 ,b]l9 "w1 knitt+1 nett+1 & cro*et1 are all 9 full play4 ,a long neglect$ "w has be5 rec5tly reviv$1 call$ by ! ,fr5* ,la ,frivolite4 ,x is v pretty ev5+ "w1 p>tly because x does n imp$e conv]sation1 = x may be c>ri$ on almo/ )\t look+ at x1 & p>tly because no o!r "w %[s to s mu* advantage ! grace & delicacy ( ! h&s4 ,! mo/ simple =m ( ?is "w 0 anci5tly kn[n "u ! "n ( ,tatt+1 b t only consi/$ ( a s]ies ( loops 9 a /raight l9e1 :i* 7 us$ = trimm+ l95 articles1 & :i* 0 n s pretty z ,la ,frivolite1 :i* has v>ieties :i* are a good imitation ( po9t1 & may be us$ = coll>s & sleeves4 ,i give a few specim5s ( pretty "w = ev5+ sew+1 & ref] ! read] to ,! ,ladies' ,h&book ( ,embroid]y1 publi%$ by ,g4 ,g4 ,evans1 = a full1 complete description ( e k9d ( fancy "w1 ) specim5s1 patt]ns1 & cle>1 pla9 directions4 ,,nett$ ,,cuffs--,^! cuffs are v pretty1 & easy to make4 ,!y are 9 pla9 nett+1 & w require :ite1 & five %ades ( sc>let wool4 ,set on ?irty-five /it*es ( ! :ite wool4 ,net five r[s1 !n take a me% a v little l>g]1 & wid5 by nett+ two /it*es 9 e /it*4 ,!n net ) ! smalle/ me% ! two lighte/ %ades1 "o r[ ( ea*1 & two r[s ( ! o!r ?ree %ades4 ,!n graduate ! %ades back aga9 to :ite1 n>r[+ ! fir/ r[ ( :ite ) ! l>g] me%4 ,net t5 r[s ) ! small] me%1 wid5 aga91 repeat ! %ades ( r$1 n>r[ aga91 & f9i% ) ! five r[s ( :ite4 ,,knitt$ ,,op]a ,,cap4 ,,mat]ials ,,requir$--,half an ounce ( :ite & half an ounce ( %ad$ ,b]l9 wool w be suffici5t4 ,ca/ on a hundr$ /it*es ) :ite wool1 & knit & pe>l alt]nately = f\r r[s4 ,%ad$ wool--,knit "o r[ pla92 next r[ br+ =w>d1 & take two toge!r to ! end4 ,:ite wool--,knit & pe>l alt]nately f\r r[s4 ,%ad$ wool--,knit pla9 six r[s4 ,:ite wool--,knit a r[1 decreas+ x by tak+ ! fir/ two /it*es toge!r1 & ! la/ two4 ,pe>l a r[4 ,knit a r[1 decreas+ x z be=e4 ,pe>l a r[4 ,%ad$ wool--,knit a r[1 decreas+ at ! beg9n+ & end4 ,next r[1 br+ =w>d & take two toge!r to ! end4 ,:ite wool--,knit a r[1 decreas+ at bo? ends4 ,pe>l a r[4 ,knit a r[1 decreas+ z be=e4 ,pe>l a r[4 ,,= ,,! ,,patt]n ,,9 ,,! ,,c5tre ,,( ,,! ,,cap4 ,,%ad$ ,,wool--#a/ r[--,slip "o4 ,knit two pla9 /it*es 7a47 ,wool =w>d4 ,knit "o4 ,wool =w>d4 ,knit two toge!r4 ,knit "o4 ,knit two toge!r4 ,repeat f 7a47 #bnd r[--,pe>l$4 #crd r[--,slip "o4 ,knit two pla9 /it*es 7b47 ,wool =w>d4 ,knit ?ree pla9 /it*es4 ,wool =w>d4 ,slip "o4 ,knit two toge!r4 ,pass ! slipp$ /it* ov] ! knitt$ ones4 ,repeat f 7b47 #d? r[--,pe>l$4 #e? r[--,slip "o4 ,knit two pla9 /it*es1 7c47 ,wool =w>d4 ,knit two toge!r4 ,knit "o4 ,knit two toge!r4 ,wool =w>d4 ,knit "o4 ,repeat f 7c47 #f? r[--,pe>l$4 #g? r[--,slip "o4 ,knit two pla9 /it*es 7d47 ,wool =w>d4 ,slip "o4 ,knit two toge!r4 ,pass ! slipp$ /it* ov] ! knitt$ ones4 ,wool =w>d4 ,knit ?ree pla9 /it*es4 ,repeat f 7d47 #h? r[--,pe>l$4 ,repeat ! la/ eight r[s4 ,:ite wool--,knit & pe>l alt]nately = f\r r[s2 decrease at ! beg9n+ & end+ ( ! two pla9 r[s4 ,%ad$ wool--,knit "o pla9 r[2 decrease at ! beg9n+ & end+4 ,next r[2 br+ ! wool =w>d1 knit two toge!r to ! end ( ! r[4 ,:ite wool--,knit & pe>l alt]nately = f\r r[s2 decrease at ! beg9n+ & end+ ( ! two pla9 r[s4 ,knit eighte5 pla9 /it*es1 run a piece ( cotton ?r\gh ! rema9+ sixty-two /it*es4 ,pe>l & knit alt]nately1 decreas+ at ! beg9n+ & end+ ( e pla9 r[1 until y h f\r /it*es rema9+2 ca/ !m (f2 !n take up eighte5 /it*es on ! opposite sides1 & "w a piece to correspond2 leav+ =ty-f\r c5tre /it*es on ! cotton4 ,take up ! c5tre /it*es on a ne$le po9t$ at bo? ends1 draw ! cotton out2 !n pick up f\rte5 /it*es at ea* end ( ! ne$le4 ,%ad$ wool--,knit two pla9 r[s4 ,:ite wool--,knit "o pla9 r[4 ,next r[2 wool =w>d1 knit two toge!r to ! end ( ! r[4 ,%ad$ wool--,knit two pla9 r[s & ca/ (f4 ,jo9 ! two po9ts toge!r at ! back ( ! cap4 ,fold ! front at ! fir/ patt]n r[1 & hem x to =m ! scallop at ! edge4 ,pick up eighty /it*es at ! back ( ! cap4 ,,an ,,economical ,,po9t ,,coll>4 ,x is well kn[n t work$ musl9 coll>s1 p>ticul>ly if ! "w is good1 v soon we> out2 z ! "w is too heavy = ! musl91 :i*1 :5 x has be5 wa%$ two or ?ree times1 becomes full ( slits & holes1 ?\gh ! "w is /ill z good z ev]4 ,:5 ?is is ! case1 cut ! musl9 (f ! "w ) a pair ( %>p scissors1 & lay ! "w on ! patt]n ( a coll> cut 9 pap]1 s z to fill ! :ole ( ! patt]n4 ,! "w may be tak5 f two or ?ree coll>s2 ! arrangem5t ( x mu/ dep5d ^u ta/e4 ,:5 ! cut-out "w is prop]ly arrang$1 x mu/ be tack$ or ba/$ to ! pap] patt]n2 & ?is is be/ done ) color$ ?read1 t no mi/ake may arise :5 ! ba/+ ?reads are to be drawn out4 ,f\r or six ?reads are !n drawn f "o piece ( "w to ano!r1 ) a ne$le & cotton1 s z to atta* !m toge!r1 & ! loose ?reads are !n ov]ca/ l button-holes1 s z to imitate ! unit+ ?reads ( po9t lace4 ,:5 well done1 ) a suffici5t quantity ( ! unit+ ?reads1 to make ! "w firm1 ^! coll>s are h&some1 & w wa% & we> well4 ,,knitt$ ,,veils4 ,x is n[ cu/om>y to knit :ite veils ( :at is call$ ,lady ,betty's wool1 = babies to put ov] _! faces :5 !y are c>ri$ out 9 cold wea!r1 in/ead ( pocket-h&k]*iefs1 :i* 7 =m]ly us$ = ! purpose1 ?\gh !y 7 v unfit = x4 ,knitt$ veils 9 black silk or wor/$ are also worn by gr[n-up p]sons4 ,! veils = babies are v simple 9 _! con/ruction2 !y consi/ ( oblong pieces ( knitt+ ( any wid? & dep? t may be requir$1 ) knitt$ lace at ! bottom & sides1 & a /r+ case at ! top4 ,! foll[+ patt]n is ! mo/ common3 ,knit & pe>l alt]nately f\r r[s1 s t !re may be two ( ea*2 !n br+ =w>d & take two toge!r an entire r[4 ,?is patt]n is repeat$ ?r\gh ! entire veil2 & x mu/ be obs]v$1 t z _m /it*es mu/ be ca/ on z w make x ( ! necess>y wid?4 ,! ne$les %\ld be ( ! smalle/ size1 ( bone4 ,any lace w d2 b ! foll[+ patt]n1 ?\gh n new1 is bo? pretty & suitable2 & has1 besides1 ! important recom5dation ( be+ v easy4 ,ca/ on elev5 /it*es & knit a r[ pla91 !n beg9 ! patt]n4 #a/ r[--,knit ?ree2 br+ =w>d & take two toge!r2 knit "o1 take two toge!r2 put ! ?read twice r\nd ! ne$le1 take two toge!r1 & knit "o4 #bnd r[--,knit two1 pe>l "o1 knit "o1 put ! ?read twice r\nd ! ne$le1 take two toge!r1 br+ =w>d1 & knit five4 #crd r[--,knit ?ree1 br+ =w>d1 take two toge!r1 knit "o1 br+ =w>d1 knit two1 pe>l "o1 br+ =w>d1 take two toge!r1 & knit two4 #d? r[--,knit two1 br+ =w>d1 knit five1 br+ =w>d1 take two toge!r1 knit five4 #e? r[--,knit ?ree1 br+ =w>d1 & take two toge!r1 knit ! re/ pla94 #f? r[--,ca/ (f f\r1 & knit ! re/ pla94 ,,h9ts ,,to ,,cro*et-,,work]s4 ,exam9e c>efully ! =m ( ! ne$le1 & try ! hook1 to asc]ta9 t x is p]fectly smoo?4 ,"s are s %>p & ill-made z to te> ! cotton4 ,select ^? :i* are n ( uni=m ?ickness up to ! hook2 ! be/ are ^? :i* are ?9n] !re ?an an in* f>!r up4 ,:]e ! ne$le is n proportionally f9e ne> ! hook1 x is almo/ impossible to keep ! "w ev54 ,*a9 /it* ought to be done r loosely1 z work+ on x aft]w>ds contracts x1 & is apt to give x a puck]$ appe>ance4 ,x is (t5 advisable to use a ne$le "o size l>g] = mak+ ! *a9 ?an = ! re/ ( ! "w1 especially 9 edg+s4 ,x w be f\nd mu* easi] to "w ! succe$+ r[s :5 ?is precaution is tak54 ,cro*et ne$les %\ld be kept 9 a h\sewife simil> to ^? us$ = ord9>y ne$les4 ,! slighte/ soil or ru/ %\ld be effac$ ) f9e s&pap]4 ,,ornam5tal ,,net ,,= ,,! ,,hair4 ,take two pieces ( f9e silk braid1 sc>let or royal blue1 & a ,no4 #c bone cro*et hook4 ,make a *a9 ( eight /it*es1 unite ! ends1 & !n ,d4 ,c4 ! fir/ r\nd1 putt+ two /it*es into ea* loop2 !re w n[ be sixte5 /it*es & 9 ! next r\nd "o long mu/ be work$ into e /it*1 & two *a9 betwe5 ea* long2 ! r\nd w n[ consi/ ( =ty-eight /it*es1 & we comm5ce ! patt]n1 or diamonds4 #crd r\nd--,?ree long1 two *a91 f\r long ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 & ^! long put into e second loop2 repeat4 #d? r\nd--,five long1 two *a91 five long ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 & ^! long put into e second loop ) ! exception ( ! fif? or la/ ( !m1 :i* mu/ skip two /it*es in/ead ( "o2 repeat4 #e? r\nd--,sev5 long1 two *a91 sev5 long ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 & ea* ( ^! long put into e second /it*2 repeat4 #f? r\nd--,five long1 two *a91 five long ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 & ea* ( ^! long put into e o!r /it*1 ?ree long1 two *a91 five long aga9 ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 & ea* put into e second /it*2 repeat f beg9n+4 #g? r\nd--,?ree long1 two *a91 five long ) two *a9 aft] ea* & work$ 9 e ?ird loop1 five long1 two *a91 five long aga9 ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 & ^! long work$ z a=esaid 9 e ?ird loop2 repeat f beg9n+4 #h? r\nd--,"o long1 two *a91 five long ) two *a9 aft] ea* & ^! long put into e ?ird /it*1 sev5 long1 two *a91 aga9 five long1 c4 c42 repeat f beg9n+4 #i? r\nd--,six long ) two *a9 aft] ea* & "w 9 e ?ird /it*1 7five long1 twelve long ) two *a9 aft] ea*1 ^! long put 9 e ?ird /it*72 repeat ! patt]n 9 brackets4 #aj? r\nd--,n9e long ) two *a9 aft] !m1 ^! long be+ work$ 9 e second loop1 7?ree long1 two *a91 n9ete5 long ) two *a9 aft] !m1 & ! long work$ 9 e second loop72 repeat ! patt]n 9 brackets4 #aa?1 #ab?1 & #ac? r\nds--,a long & two *a9 all r\nd1 & ! long be+ work$ alt]nately 9 e second & ?ird loop2 c>e be+ tak5 to br+ "o into ! position to complete ea* diamond z x is come to4 ,a cro*et edg+1 begun ) braid1 & ! la/ two or ?ree r[s work$ ) gold twi/ z ne>ly ! size ( ! braid z may be1 & a cord & tassels1 f9i% (f ?is elegant head-dress4 ,! cord %\ld be run 9 & out ?r\gh ! ?irte5? r\nd4 ,we1 h[ev]1 pref] a s+le-cro*et b& ( "s fifty /it*es long & six or eight wide1 work$ 9 ! same mat]ial z ! net1 to a cord1 & ?is b& may be f9i%$ (f ) a piece ( gold fr+e in/ead ( tassels at ! ends1 or ) a scallop ( edg+ cro*et$ 9 gold twi/4 ,,dress ,,glove ,,b&s2 ,,full ,,or ,,frill$ ,,%ape4 ,take ?ree pieces ( f9e embroid]y *5ille1 & a ,no4 #c bone cro*et hook4 ,make a *a9 ( ab\t =ty /it*es1 or "o long en\gh to g r\nd ! wri/2 ,dc "o r[4 #crd r[--,two long1 "o *a9 & miss a /it*--repeat ?is all along4 ,!n "o r[ ,dc4 #f? r[--,long cro*et work$ v loosely1 s mu* s z to leave ^! /it*es at lea/ half an in* high2 two /it*es to be put into e second or ?ird loop & "o 9 ea* ( ! o!rs all ! way along2 fa/5 (f4 ,jo9 ! *5ille n[ on to ! fir/ r[1 & "w a simil> r[ or frill to ! "o j direct$1 s t !re be "o on ea* side4 ,run a n>r[ velvet ?r\gh ! holes ( ! ?ird r[ & affix wid] velvet ends1 or *5ille tassels to ea* extremity4 ,f9i% (f ) a button & loop1 & flute ! frill on ea* side ov] ! f+] to make x set4 ,we ne$ sc>cely say t ! *5ille us$ %\ld be select$ to mat* or agree ) ! ev5+ dress1 & t ! velvet mu/ mat* ! *5ille4 ,^! b&s may be made to look v h&some by work+ a r[ ( ,dc loosely & ev5ly along ! edge ( ea* frill ) gold or silv] twi/1 & runn+ a b& ( gold or silv] braid or trimm+ ?r\gh ! holes 9 ! ?ird r[ in/ead ( velvet4 ,!n small bullion tassels to mat* ! twi/ w =m a suitable & elegant f9i%4 ,^! b&s may be work$ r\nd & slid ov] ! h& l muffatees1 or made op5 z we h direct$ & button$1 l ! glove4 ,! buttons %\ld be cov]$ ) cro*et1 & ! loops cro*et$4 ,,knitt$ ,,"u ,,habit ,,%irt4 ,?ree ounces ( ,?ree ?read ,:ite ,fleecy ,wool4 ,pair ( ,no4 #aj ,bone ,knitt+ ,p9s4 ,ca/ on =ty-five /it*es4 ,knit ?ree r[s4 #d? r[--,knit t52 ,x make two & knit two toge!r2 knit "o2 ,x knit ! la/ six /it*es4 #e? r[--,knit1 dropp+ ! second ( ea* ( ! two made /it*es all along4 ,knit eight r[s4 #ad? r[--,knit t52 ,x make "o & knit two toge!r ,x repeat until six rema92 knit ?ree2 make "o2 knit ?ree4 #ae? r[--,knit six2 ,x make "o & knit two toge!r ,x repeat until t5 rema91 :i* knit4 ,repeat ^! two r[s ?ree times m ea*1 only n enl>g+ "o 7z 9 ! end ( r[ f\rte571 e "t1 b only once 9 f\r r[s1 m]ely knitt+ ! six 9 ! int]v5+ r[s4 #bbnd r[--,knit4 ,knit ! next sev5 r[s4 #cj? r[--,same z #ad?4 #ca/ r[--,same z #ae?4 ,keep on alt]nately knitt+ eight op51 & !n eight knitt$ r[s1 & enl>g+ "o /it* at ! end 9 e f\r? r[ until !re are a hundr$ & tw5ty-f\r r[s4 ,!n decrease "o /it* at ! beg9n+ or front 9 e o!r r[ = ?irty-two r[s1 /ill cont9u+ ! patt]n z be=e1 & /ill enl>g+ "o /it* 9 e f\r? r[1 at ! end or back4 ,?is %apes "o side ( ! neck4 ,n[ knit =ty-eight r[s )\t increase or decrease at ei!r end1 cont9u+ ! patt]n or alt]nation ( eight op5 & eight pla9 knitt$ r[s4 ,?is =ms ! back ( ! neck & ! bottom ( ! back ( ! habit-%irt4 ,9 ! next ?irty-two r[s we dim9i% "o 9 e f\r? r[1 by knitt+ two toge!r at ! back1 :ile at ! same "t 9 e f\r? r[1 at ! back1 we knit two toge!r1 & make "o 9 ord] to =m a s]ies ( holes1 or patt]n p>allel to t on ! o!r side caus$ by enl>g+ 9 e f\r? r[4 ,we also ca/ on "o1 at ! opposite end1 9 e o!r r[1 to %ape ! second side ( ! neck4 ,we !n knit "o hundr$ & twelve r[s1 hav+ ea* t5 knitt$ /it*es 9 ! front ( ! habit-%irt1 z on ! opposite side1 & six at ! back1 & decreas+ "o 9 e f\r? r[1 at ! back1 & cont9u+ ! patt]n1 & also ! s]ies ( holes at ! back4 ,knit eight r[s4 ,knit t5 /it*es1 ,x make two & knit two toge!r2 ,x knit six at end4 ,knit all1 dropp+ ! second ( ea* ( ! two made /it*es4 ,knit two r[s2 ca/ (f4 ,n[1 ) same ne$les1 pick up ! /it*es all along ! "r front ( ! habit-%irt2 knit two r[s & ca/ (f4 ,d ! same on ! left front4 ,!n pick up ^? ( ! neck1 & d ! same1 %ap+ x1 if necess>y1 by knitt+ two toge!r occasionally4 ,^! f9i%+-(f r[s look pretty done 9 pale p9k or blue wool4 ,button-holes may be made ?us3--9 ! front or :]e ! t5 /it*es are1 & ab\t once 9 ?irty r[s1 knit ?ree2 ca/ (f f\r2 knit ?ree in/ead ( knitt+ ! t5 z usual4 ,next r[1 :5 we get back to ! t5 /it*es1 knit ?ree2 ca/ on f\r2 knit ?ree4 ,,infant',s ,,knitt$ ,,socks4 ,half an ounce ( ,:ite ,lamb's ,wool4 ,?ree ,no4 #ac ,knitt+ ,ne$les4 ,ca/ on ,?irty /it*es4 #a/ r[--,knit4 #bnd r[--,knit two2 make or enl>ge "o /it* by pick+ up "o f ! previ\s r[ & knitt+ x2 knit all ! re/4 #crd r[--,knit4 ,repeat second & ?ird r[s alt]nately f\r times m ea* ( !m4 #ab? r[--,knit two2 make a /it* accord+ to directions above giv52 knit re/ until f\r rema92 knit two toge!r2 knit two4 #ac? r[--,knit4 ,repeat ^! two r[s alt]nately ?ree times m ea*4 #bj? r[--,knit two2 enl>ge "o z be=e direct$2 knit re/ until two rema92 enl>ge "o2 knit two4 #ba/ r[--,knit4 ,repeat ^! two r[s alt]nately ?ree m times ea*4 #bh? r[--,knit4 #bi? r[--,knit f\rte5 /it*es1 & leave ! o!r ^u ! ne$le4 ,take up ! ?ird ne$le & knit tw5ty r[s m1 ( f\rte5 /it*es ea*4 #di? r[--,knit two toge!r2 knit twelve2 on same ne$le1 & ) same wool1 ca/ on tw5ty-sev5 /it*es4 #ej? r[--,knit4 #ea/ r[--,knit two2 knit two toge!r2 knit re/ until f\r rema92 knit two toge!r2 knit two4 #ebnd r[--,knit4 ,repeat ^! two r[s alt]nately twice m ea*4 #eg? r[--,knit two2 make "o 9 mann] direct$2 knit re/ until f\r rema92 knit two toge!r2 knit two4 #eh? r[--,knit4 ,repeat ^! two r[s alt]nately ?ree times m ea*4 #fe? r[--,knit all until f\r rema92 knit two toge!r2 knit two4 #ff? r[--,knit4 ,repeat ^! two r[s alt]nately f\r m times ea*4 #ge? r[--,knit4 #gf? r[--,ca/ (f4 ,?is completes ! slipp] portion ( ! sock4 ,we n[ beg9 ! in/ep-piece4 ,take ! wool & knit (f t5 /it*es f ! ne$le on :i* ! tw5ty-sev5 /it*es 7 left2 knit ^! t5 f ! toe-end1 or t :]e ! tw5ty r[s ( f\rte5 /it*es ea* has be5 made2 leave ! rema9+ sev5te5 /it*es /ill on ! same ne$le4 ,knit tw5ty r[s ( t5 /it*es1 & 9 e o!r "o pick up ! edge-/it* ( ! toe-piece & knit x ) ! t5? /it*1 s z to unite ^! two portions1 viz3 ! toe & ! in/ep4 ,) ea* /it* ( ! tw5tie? r[1 an edge-/it* ( ! side at ! toe-end ( ! slipp] mu/ be pick$ up1 knitt$ & ca/ (f1 & a neat & entire union ( ! toe ( ! slipp] & ! in/ep piece =m$4 ,?is in/ep piece is to be ribb$ 9 r[s ( f\r1 viz3 f\r r[s 9 :i* ! pla9 side is upp]mo/1 & f\r r[s 9 :i* ! pe>l$ side is upp]mo/4 ,we n[ comm5ce ! leg portion ( ! sock4 ,) ! ne$le :i* has be5 left 9 ! fir/ side ( ! slipp] c>efully pick up ! edge-/it*es all along ! in/ep-piece & side ( ! slipp]2 :5 ?is is done1 !re %\ld be ab\t fifty on ! ne$le4 ,take ! wool & knit all along1 includ+ ! pick$ up /it*es1 & ! sev5te5 orig9ally on ! ne$le4 ,knit two r[s4 #d? r[--,knit two2 ,x make two 7n by pick+ up1 b 9 ! ord9>y way1 by pass+ ! wool twice ov] ! ne$le71 & knit two toge!r2 knit "o2 ,x repeat4 #e? r[--,knit all2 ca/+ (f "o ( ea* ( ! d\ble made /it*es4 ,n[ knit tw5ty r[s ribb$ l ! in/ep-piece4 #bf? r[--,x ,knit "o2 make "o & knit two toge!r2 ,x repeat all r\nd4 #bg? r[--,knit4 #bh? r[--,knit two2 ,x make "o & knit two toge!r2 knit "o2 ,x repeat4 #bi?1 #cj?1 & #ca/ r[s--,knit4 #cbnd r[--,ca/ (f4 ,take a wool ne$le1 ?read x ) wool1 & sew up ! sock neatly1 /it* = /it*1 f ! top ( ! leg to ! po9t ( ! sole2 !n sew ! toe2 turn x2 put on a little rosette ( ravel$ wool2 run a ribbon 9 & out ?r\gh ! holes at r[s #d & #e1 ( ! leg portion1 & x is complet$4 ,z ?is is int5d$ = an ,infant's ,sock1 we h ord]$ :ite wool1 t be+ mo/ useful2 %\ld x1 h[ev]1 be wi%$ to knit socks = an old] baby1 ! slipp] may be made ( ,c]ise1 ,sc>let1 ,pale ,blue1 ,gre51 or ,/raw-color$ wool2 & ! #bf?1 #bg?1 & #bh? r[s1 ( ! leg portion1 & ! ca/+-(f done 9 ! color ( ! slipp]2 :ile ! in/ep-piece & ! re/ ( ! sock are made 9 :ite wool4 ,! sock may also be enl>g$ by ca/+ on extra /it*es 9 ! beg9n+1 & add+ a c\ple ( r[s to ea* ( ! divisions ( ! slipp] "p1 & en\gh to ! toe to pres]ve its =m & symmetry4 ,almo/ any ( ! op5 anti-maccass> patt]ns may be us$ = knitt+ ! sock & in/ep-piece1 if a light lace-l appe>ance is desir$4 ,! well-kn[n rose-leaf patt]n looks p>ticul>ly pretty4 ,,*apt] ,,xxii4 ,,s]vants4 ,an ,engli% writ]1 speak+ ( s]vants1 says3-- ,!re is no "q b t we %\ld seek to p]=m all our duties )\t hope ( recomp5se2 & yet1 z reg>ds our treatm5t ( s]vants1 we %\ld be especially c>eful t1 9 endeavor+ to make _! bodily com=t & m5tal improvem5t an object ( consid]ation1 we d n all[ ourselves to dwell on ! hope ( gratitude or affection f !m 9 return4 ,_m h done s1 & hav+1 ) t view1 be5 tempt$ to accord unwise indulg5ces & to ov]look s]i\s faults1 !y h f\nd t1 f> f ga9+ ! love ( _! s]vants1 !y h incurr$ _! contempt2 & :5 !y h p]ceiv$ t _! favors1 unappreciat$1 h l$ b to new encroa*m5ts1 !y h h>d5$ _! he>ts & ru%$ into an opposite extreme4 ,!n !y h consid]$ _! s]vants z m]e ma*9es1 f :i* labor mu/ be extort$ by all available means4 ,a man s]vant is r>ely grateful1 & seldom atta*$4 ,he is g5]ally incapable ( appreciat+ ^? advantages :i*1 ) y\r cultivat$ judgm5t1 y "k to be ! mo/ conducive to 8 welf>e4 ,d y accord to him regul> h\rs1 a /at$ all[ance ( "w2 d y refra9 f s5d+ him out because x is wet & he is unwell2 d y s]ve y\rself r ?an r+ = him at d9n] "t2 he w r>ely h ! grace to ?ank y 9 8 he>t = y\r con/ant consid]ation4 ,he> him6 ,he w ?us describe a com=table place3--',!re 7 v few 9 ! family2 :5 !y w5t out ( a night1 we made x up ( a morn+2 we _h nice hot supp]s1 & ! cook made a good ha% = breakfa/1 & we always got lun*eon betwe5 t & d9n]2 & we 7 all v com=table toge!r1 & _h a fri5d 9 :5 we lik$4 ,ma/] swore at u sometimes1 b (t5 made u a pres5t = x :5 he _h be5 v viol5t2 a good-he>t$ man z ev] liv$1 & mi/ress 0 q ! lady1 & nev] m$dl$ ) s]vants4 ,x 0 a capital place6' ,s]vants' sympa?ies are ) _! equals4 ,!y feel = a poor s]vant run (f 8 legs1 & mop$ to dea?2 !y h no feel+ = a pa9s-tak+ mi/ress1 economical bo? f pr9ciple & scanty means2 !y w\ld 7mo/ ( !m7 see h] prop]ty wa/$1 & h] confid5ce abus$ )\t compunction4 ,x is ! la/ ef=t ( a virtue 9 a s]vant if1 )\t any private reason1 he %\ld dis*>ge 8 duty by in=m+ y ( ! injury :i* y are endur+ at ! h&s ( 8 fell[ s]vant4 ,x is an ef=t ( virtue1 = x w br+ d[n _m a bitt] taunt & h>d ^w ^u 8 fai?ful head4 ',i nev] got a s]vant out ( a place by tell+ tales on him1' w be said to him4 ,directly a s]vant dep>ts1 we all "k1 tongues1 ti$ be=e1 are loos$1 to ga9 our favor by app>5t c&or4 ,:5 x c avail u no?+1 we are told4 ,we all "k ?is1 & h said1 ',be sil5t n[1 y %\ld h m5tion$ ?is at ! "t4' ,suppos+1 !n1 y h ! r>a avis1 ! s]vant t 'speaks at ! "t1' be *>y ( him1 or let me say h]1 7! be/ s]vants are wom547 ,oh6 z y value h]1 let h] n suppose y _c "p ) h]4 ,treat h] ) confid5ce1 b ) /rict imp>tiality2 reprove :5 necess>y1 mildly1 b decid$ly2 le/ %e %\ld presume 7p[] is s tempt+71 & compel y1 if y w\ld reta9 y\r fre$om1 to let h] g4 ,!re is "o ?+ a man s]vant values beyond all t y\r k9dness & y\r consid]ation c d = him--8 lib]ty2 lib]ty to eat1 dr9k1 & be m]ry1 ) y\r ?+s 9 ! company ( 8 own fri5ds2 lib]ty to get ! h\semaid to clean 8 c&le/icks1 & br+ up 8 coals2 & ! h\semaid wi%es = lib]ty to lie 9 b$ 9 ! morn+1 because %e 0 up s late talk+ to ,john 9 ! pantry2 lib]ty to we> fl\nces & fl[]s4 ,! cook desires lib]ty too4 ,= ?is lib]ty1 if y grant x1 !y w despise y2 if y d5y x1 !y w respect y4 ,aim at _! e/eem2 despair ( _! love or gratitude2 make y\r place :at ! be/ class ( s]vants w value1 &1 ?\gh 9 _! he>t1 !y may n ?ank y = x1 y w ga91 p]haps1 "o s]vant out ( tw5ty :o w keep gross imposition & gross immorality at bay4 ,^! rem>ks c nev] be int5d$ to d5y ! w>m atta*m5t ( female s]vants to ! *ildr5 ( _! employ]s4 ,deep love1 no d\bt1 is lavi%$ by _m a woman on ! babe %e has nurs$4 ,!re is a great deal to be said on ! *apt] ( nurses :i* w\ld require to be dealt ) by itself4 ,mu* wisdom is requir$ 9 ! adm9i/ration ( a nurs]y1 to :i* few g5]al rules w\ld apply4 ,cruel is ! tyranny ! nurse frequ5tly practises on ! p>5t1 :o (t5 refra9s f ent]+ h] nurs]y1 n f want ( love to h] *ildr51 b positive dread ( ! s\r looks :i* greet h]4 ,let h] be firm1 let no %r9k+ f griev+ h] d>l+1 :o w\ld 'break 8 he>t if 8 ,nanna w5t1' det] h] f dis*>g+ ! encroa*+ s]vant4 ,i "k a lady :o 0 quietly in=m$ by h] nurse t %e mu/ h a 'specifi$ h\r' = visit+ h] *ildr51 = t h] ent]+ )\t c]emony 0 mo/ inconv5i5t4 ,! poor "y lady1 :o 0 fully p]suad$ h] delicate infant w\ld die1 if remov$ to a /rang]'s h&s1 meekly obey$1 & ?\gh tortur$ by ! cries ( ! poor sickly baby1 nev] d>$ to intrude le/ ! nurse %\ld ab&on x4 ,?is is a true hi/ory1 & ! sequel may z well be giv53 t ! nurse rema9$ sev5 ye>s1 at ! end ( :i* "t1 hav+ become insupportable1 ?\gh really devot$ to ! *ildr51 %e gave w>n+1 &1 ?\gh x co/ h] mi/ress bitt] te>s & mu* resolution1 %e 0 suff]$ to dep>t1 & !n peace ent]$ t h\se4 ,on ! *oice ( s]vants mu* ( ! com=t ( ! "y h\sekeep] dep5ds4 ,x (t5 happ5s t h] *oice has be5 det]m9$ by appe>ance r ?an ! value ( "*4 ,if su* be ! case1 %e w h _m difficulties to enc\nt]4 ,x is1 9 ! pres5t day1 h>dly safe to take a s]vant if !re be a s+le objection to "*1 h[ev] x may be gloss$ ov] by ! p]son ref]r$ to on ?is po9t2 = !re is n[ an unheal?y disposition to pass ov] ! fail+s ( s]vants :o h left _! places1 & to make !m p]fect 9 ! eyes ( o!rs4 ,9 respect to sobriety1 _m p w n ackn[l$ge t a s]vant _h _h ! vice ( dr9k+1 b w cov] ! unpleasant tru? 9 su* g5tle & plausible t]ms t x becomes difficult to compreh5d h[ f> ! h9t is gr\nd$1 or n4 ,be assur$ :5 a lady or g5tleman hesitates on ?is po9t1 or on t ( hone/y1 x is wis] n to engage a s]vant4 ,nor are y deviat+ f ,*ri/ian *>ity 9 n ov]look+ a d]eliction ( s mat]ial a sort4 ,! k9de/ plan to ! va/ community ( dome/ic s]vants is to be rigid 9 all important po9ts1 & hav+1 aft] a due exp]i5ce1 a j confid5ce 9 !m1 to be some:at indulg5t to errors ( a m trivial nature4 ,if all "y h\sekeep]s 7 /rict ^u ! subject ( dress1 mu* mis]y to s]vants w\ld be sav$1 mu* temptation avoid$1 & self-reproa* prev5t$4 ,in/ead ( ?is k9d1 & wise1 & matronly p>ticul>ity1 a type ( ! good1 old-fa%ion$ common s5se ( our gr&mo!rs1 ladies n[ c\nt5ance _! ladies'-maids 9 discont9u+ caps1 or1 if !y h caps1 9 we>+ fl[]s & lace1 fl[]$ g[ns1 & o!r items ( little app>5t mom5t 9 detail1 b ( mu* importance to a community z s]viceable to ! public :5 well manag$ & respectable1 z !y are odi\s & noxi\s :5 immoral or insol5t4 ,aft] ^! cruel indulg5ces1 ladies m>vel :5 !y f9d s]vants rise above _! /ation & t !y w n be> ev5 a mild repro(2 !y wond] t a pla91 useful s]vant is n[h]e to be met )4 ,!re is n[ no m$ium betwe5 ! f9e lady ) mitt5s & fl[]s :o dresses y\r hair1 & ! dirty slov5 ( a lodg+-h\se4 ,all h\semaids mu/ n[ be upp] h\semaids2 cooks mu/ be cooks & h\sekeep]s4 ,! homely h\semaid--t invaluable "* 9 h] way--is inde$ difficult to be f\nd2 &1 at a "t :5 cleanl9ess is at its z5i?1 ! r>ity is to discov] any "o :o w clean4 ,all1 except ! raw c\ntry girl1 expect to h deputies2 &1 if we g on to p]fection 9 ?is unheal?y sy/em1 we %all soon h no work+ s]vants above tw5ty ye>s ( age4 ,! consequ5ce is1 t a great] numb] ( s]vants are kept 9 e h\sehold ?an =m]ly 9 simil> families2 _m ( ^! m5ials are corrupt$ by congregat+ toge!r & by idl5ess4 ,! l\d & cry+ compla9ts ( ! wor?lessness ( ?is class are b too ju/ly f\nd$4 ,t !y are m m]c5>y ?an ev]1 is ow+ to ! p]nici\s sy/em :i* lifts !m up above _! condition1 b fails to elevate !m 9 ! moral /&>d4 ,9 ! scale ( virtue !y s9k e day l[] & l[]2 9 ! outw>d attributes !y are1 z !y consid] x1 rais$ 9 "* & improv$ 9 appe>ance4 ,b is x s8 ,! beauty ( e ?+ is fitness4 ,is ! half-f9e1 unlady-l1 yet lady-l creature1 :o answ]s to y\r dress+-room bell1 half s respectable z ! old-fa%ion$1 pla9ly dress$1 c>eful1 homely maid5 ( y\r "y days8 ,is x n ) a feel+ ( disgu/ t y turn f ! attempt$ f9]y1 & sigh = pla9 coll>s1 & caps undeck$ by fl[]s1 aga98 ,i ?9k1 among ! be/-br$1 ! mo/ s5sible1 &1 inde$1 ! mo/ highly born p ( a sup]ior /amp1 ?is disgu/ is s /rong t1 9 "s families1 a grave & suitable co/ume is introduc$ = ! female s]vants1 & ! effect is satisfactory1 bo? on ! appe>ance & on ! mode ( ?9k+ ( ^! p]sons4 ,b ?is wise1 & !re=e k9d plan1 is f> f be+ g5]al2 & ,i h he>d t a lady's-maid compla9$ to h] mi/ress t %e f\nd h]self ! subject ( ridicule1 ow+ to h] n we>+ silks1 & inde$ sat9s1 z ! o!r ladies'-maids did4 ,x becomes ! duty ( ladies ( influ5ce to rise above ! silly vanity :i*1 ,i fe>1 affects "s ( !m1 ( see+ _! ladies'-maids z sm>t z ladies1 & to oppose innovations on ! dec5cies ( society1 s p]nici\s to ! class ^u :om mu* ( our com=t dep5ds4 ,9 sett+ out 9 life1 a "y m>ri$ lady ought to be m ?an ord9>ily /rict 9 ^! matt]s1 = h] inexp]i5ce w c]ta9ly be tak5 advantage ( to "s ext5t4 ,if %e be ri* en\gh to h a h\sekeep]1 let h] endeavor to select "o ( /rict religi\s fai?1 pla9 9 attire1 grave1 b k9d1 & ( good s5se1 & ev5 intellig5ce2 = cultivation ( m9d w nev]1 :atev] may be /at$1 detract f ! utility ( a s]vant4 ,x is absurd to attribute to ! diffusion ( k ! det]ioration ( s]vants2 x is r ow+ to ! scanty am\nt ( k among !m4 ,mo/ sup]ficial is ! education ab\t :i* s mu* is said & writt52 7 s]vants m ?or\ghly gr\nd$ 9 _m bran*es ( k1 !y w\ld be wis]1 less rapaci\s1 m sy/ematic1 & bett] cont5t$ ?an !y are4 ,!y are wret*$ reason]s1 g5]ally los+ sight ( _! own true int]e/1 & grasp+ at t :i* is unreal & vision>y4 ,if !y 7 bett] educat$1 ?is w\ld n be ! case2 !y w\ld be less va91 less cr$ul\s2 !y w\ld "k :at qualities to respect2 !y w\ld weigh bett] ! advantage ( _! lot2 & !y w\ld "w bett] z s]vants4 ,!y w\ld give m9d1 :]e n[ !y only give h&s2 & _! acquirem5ts1 tak5 f s*ool z !y are 9 v e>ly y\?1 are n ev] likely to be su* z to make ! r\t9e ( _! "w di/a/eful to !m1 f ov] ref9em5t or cultivation4 ,x is always desirable to h1 if possible1 s]vants ( "o fai?4 ,b if x s happ5s t y h a ,roman ,ca?olic s]vant & a ,prote/ant 9 y\r s]vice1 y are b\nd to all[ ea* ! free ex]cise ( h] religion1 & y ought n to respect !m if1 out ( int]e/1 !y w con=m to y\rs4 ,an ex]cise ( au?ority on ?is po9t am\nts1 9 my op9ion1 to an act ( tyranny1 & x c only t5d to promote ins9c]ity1 &1 p]haps1 eng5d] scepticism 9 its object4 ,no?+ is1 inde$1 s dang]\s z to unsettle ! fai? ( ! l[] classes1 :o h nei!r "t nor opportunity ( fairly consid]+ subjects ( religi\s controv]sy4 ,:ile on ! subject ( s]vants1 ,i mu/ deprecate ! ov]-indulg5ce ( ! pres5t sy/em t[>ds !m4 ,=m]ly !y 7 treat$ ) real k9dness1 b x 0 ! k9dness t exact$ duty 9 return1 & took a real int]e/ 9 ! welf>e ( ea* s]vant4 ,! reciprocal tie 9 =m] times betwe5 s]vant & ma/] 0 /rong1 n[ x is :olly gone4 ,! easy rule ( ma/]s & mi/resses proce$s f> m f indiff]5ce ?an f k9dness ( he>t2 = ! real *>ity is to keep s]vants /eadily to _! duties4 ,!y are a class ( p]sons to :om mu* leisure is de/ruction2 ! pursuits ( _! idle h\rs are seldom advantage\s to !m1 & !irs are n m9ds :i* c ?rive 9 repose4 ,idl5ess1 to !m1 is peculi>ly ! root ( all evil1 =1 if _! "t is n sp5t 9 vici\s amusem5ts1 x is (t5 pass$ 9 sl&]1 discont5t1 or vanity4 ,9 writ+ ?us1 ,i d n recomm5d a h>d or inconsid]ate sy/em to s]vants4 ,!y require1 & 9 _m in/ances !y m]it1 all t c be done to alleviate a situation ( s]vitude4 ,!y ought n to be ! slaves ( caprice or ! victims ( temp]4 ,_! "w %\ld be measur$ out ) a j h&2 b x %\ld be regul>ly exact$ 9 z mu* p]fection z c be expect$ 9 v>iable & err+ human nature4 ,ano!r po9t on :i* ,i w\ld recomm5d firmness is t ( e>ly h\rs4 ,9 ?is respect example is z important z precept2 b1 h[ev] unc]ta9 y may be y\rself1 ,i w\ld n relax a rule ( t k9d4 ,= e com=t dur+ ! day dep5ds ^u ! e>ly ris+ ( y\r s]vants4 ,)\t ?is1 all _! sev]al dep>tm5ts are hurri$ ?r\gh or neglect$ 9 "s important respect4 ,y\r mode ( address to s]vants mu/ be decisive1 yet mild4 ,! au?oritative tone ,i d n recomm5d4 ,x is v unbecom+ to any "y p]son1 & x r>ely atta9s ! end desir$2 b !re is a quiet dignity ( deportm5t :i* few s]vants ev] c resi/4 ,?is %\ld be temp]$ ) k9dness1 :5 circum/ances call x =?1 b %\ld nev] desc5d to famili>ity4 ,= no caution is m truly k9d ?an :i* conf9es s]vants /rictly to _! own sph]e4 ,mu* evil results f ! t5d5cy1 m especially ( v "y1 or ( v old mi/resses ( families1 to p>tiality4 ,commonly1 "o s]vant becomes ! almo/ av[$ favorite2 & x is difficult to say :e!r t display ( p>tiality is ! m p]nici\s to ! s]vant :o is ! object ( x1 or to ! rankl+ & jeal\s m9ds ( ! re/ ( ! h\sehold4 ,x is true t x is q impossible to avoid ent]ta9+ a great] degree ( confid5ce 9 "s s]vants ?an 9 o!rs2 b x %\ld be %[n ) a due reg>d to ! feel+s ( all4 ,x is1 ( c\rse1 all[able t[>ds ^? :o take a decid$ly responsible & confid5tial situation 9 a h\sehold4 ,/ill1 nev] let su* p]sons assume ! re9s ( gov]nm5t2 let !m act ! "p ( helmsman to ! vessel1 b n aspire to ! control ( ! capta94 ,x is g5]ally wise & "r1 aft] a due exp]i5ce ( ! pr9ciples & int5tions ( s]vants1 to place confid5ce 9 _! hone/y1 & to let !m h ! com=t ( kn[+ t y d s4 ,at ! same "t1 nev] cease to ex]cise a sy/em ( sup]vision4 ,! great pr9ciple ( h\sekeep+ is regul>ity2 & )\t ?is 7"o ( ! mo/ difficult ( ! m9or virtues to practice7 all ef=ts to promote ord] mu/ be ineffectual4 ,i h se5 en]getic wom51 clev] & well-int5tion$1 fail 9 atta9+ a good me?od1 ow+ to _! be+ unc]ta9 9 h\rs1 gov]n$ by impulse1 & caprici\s4 ,i h se5 wom51 inf]ior 9 capacity1 sl[1 & apa!tic1 make excell5t heads ( families1 z f> z _! h\sehold 0 conc]n$1 f _! /ead9ess & regul>ity4 ,_! v p[] ( endur+ monotony has be5 favorable to _! success 9 ?is way1 especially if !y are n call$ ^u to act 9 peculi> & difficult cases1 9 :i* _! actual inf]iority is traceable4 ,b ^! are n ! ord9>y circum/ances ( life4 ,9 clos+ ^! rem>ks on ! managem5t ( s]vants1 let me exhort y nev] to =get t !y are fell[-labor]s1 9 ! life ( probation1 ) ourselves2 let u n embitt] _! lives by h>%ness1 or pr(f] to !m temptation f c>elessness & ov]-indulg5ce4 ,s9ce all t is giv5 u ( ?is _w's goods is b 9 tru/1 let u reg>d our s]vants z be+s = ^: conduct1 :ile "u our control1 we are m or less responsible4 ,x is true t1 if !y come to u ) morals :olly deprav$1 x is n likely t ! mo/ /r5u\s ex]tions c am5d !m2 b _m wav] betwe5 good & evil4 ,let u endeavor to excite 9 _! m9ds a respect = virtue1 to give !m motives = indu/ry1 inducem5ts to save _! wages4 ,^? :o h l>ge h\seholds %\ld n deem ! morals ( ! meane/ ( _! s]vants b5ea? _! inve/igation1 or too obscure = _! influ5ce to rea*4 ,"s att5tion is absolutely necess>y1 9 ?is c\ntry1 to ! tra9+ ( s]vants1 z !y come "h f ! l[e/ ranks ( ,engli% & ,iri% peasantry1 ) z mu* idea ( polit5ess z ! pig dome/icat$ 9 ! cab9 ( ! latt]4 ,op5+ ! door seems a simple act1 yet few s]vants p]=m x 9 a prop]1 respectful mann]4 ,let y\r s]vant und]/& t ! door mu/ be op5$ imm$iately aft] ! bell r+s4 ,visitors1 f neglect ( ?is rule1 w (t5 r+ sev]al times1 & f9ally leave ! door4 ,i h kn[n an in/ance :5 9 a case ( sev]e illness ! pati5t lo/ ! visit ( ! doctor1 :o1 aft] r++ "s m9utes1 0 oblig$ to pay o!r visits1 & c\ld n return to ! suff]]'s h\se until sev]al h\rs lat]4 ,:5 op5+ ! door "s s]vants hold x aj> & hold a long p>ley ) ! p]son on ! /eps1 z if afraid !y wi%$ to ent] = ! purpose ( murd] or !ft4 ,tra9 !m to answ] ! door promptly1 speak politely to any "o :o may be !re1 excuse y1 if necess>y1 to visitors 9 c\rte\s t]ms1 or1 if y are 91 %[ ! call]s into ! p>lor1 take _! c>d1 & come back quickly ) y\r answ]4 ,,*apt] ,,xxiii4 ,,on ,a ,,"y ,,lady',s ,,conduct ,,:5 ,,contemplat+ ,,m>riage4 ,! foll[+ *apt]1 met ) 9 a rec5t p]usal ( an ,engli% "w = "y ladies1 /rikes me z s admirable1 & s appropriate 9 ?is place1 t ,i quote ! *apt] entire3 ,! difficulties & trials ( life h only j begun :5 a "y lady fancies h]self to be ( suffici5t importance to become ! !me ( animadv]sion4 ,%e kn[s little ( ! true importance ( self-control1 until %e exp]i5ces ! fir/ indications ( pref]5ce %[n h] by ! o!r sex4 ,su* indications are (t5 manife/$1 :il/ %e to :om !y are direct$1 is :olly unprep>$ to analyze h] own feel+s1 be=e h] op9ions ^u :at %e has se5 are by any means develop$2 be=e %e has ev5 consid]$ adequately1 on :at h] happ9ess dep5ds2 be=e %e has disc]nm5t to reject :at is frivol\s1 or wisdom to pref] :at is good4 ,?is is m especially ! case 9 ! highe/ & l[e/ classes1 9 :i*1 by a /range analogy1 !y ei!r ru% into ! m>riage /ate :il/ *ildr51 or wait until ! bloom & hopes ( y\? h =ev] pass$ away1 9 ord] to =m int]e/$ mat*es4 ,! matur$ p]iod ( five-&-tw5ty to ?irty1 is pass$ by ! l[] classes 9 ! s+le /ate 9 labor to ga9 subsi/5ce2 aft] ?irty1 or ev5 =ty1 we (t5 f9d !m m>ry+4 ,b ! majority h seal$ _! own fate be=e ! age ( tw5ty4 ,9 high life1 ! same ha/e to dispose ( daught]s prevails z among ! l[e/ classes4 ,at sev5te51 mo/ ( our belles ( fa%ion expect to receive proposals4 ,if !y d n m>ry )9 a few ye>s aft] _! introduction1 !y h a mortifi$ s5se ( hav+ lo/ "t--t ! expectations ( fri5ds & ( p>5ts h n be5 fulfill$2 t o!rs h 'gone (f' be=e !m4 ,! next t5 ye>s are (t5 a p]iod ( subdu$ vexation1 & ! sweetness & cont5tm5t ( ! orig9al "* is impair$4 ,ab\t sev5 or eight & tw5ty1 ! views ( life are sob]$--! expectations *a/5$--a r5ovation takes place--wom5 aga9 become agreeable2 _! m9ds mu/ 9 ! lapse ( "t1 ev5 ) a mis]able /ore ( obs]vation1 h improv$4 ,!y !n (t5 m>ry--&1 if ! union be n a m]e ef=t ( despair1 if x be bas$ on s\nd & holy pr9ciples1 & on good s5se1 !re is1 = bo? p>ties engag$1 a great likelihood ( happ9ess4 ,b1 x may be naturally cont5d$1 t !re come n to all "y ladies ! opportunities ( :i* ,i write2 t indications ( pref]5ce arrive n to all4 ,i am incl9$ to believe t1 ) good temp]1 pleas+ mann]s1 & respectable connections1 !re exi/s1 9 mod]n society1 v few "y ladies :o h n receiv$ "u v>i\s circum/ances1 "s m>ks ( pref]5ce1 m or less decid$4 ,beauty & pla9ness are arbitr>y1 n positive1 t]ms4 ,unless !re be any actual de=mity1 any great infirmity1 9 :i* case ,i ?9k x 7 cruel to pre-suppose ! likelihood ( su* indications1 !re is no "o1 t ,i h>dly ev] met )1 :o has n _h1 on "s gr\nds1 h] p>tizans & admir]s4 ,! pla9 are (t5 p>ticul>iz$ z elegant2 ta/es v>y3 ev5 a s\r look ,i h he>d admir$ z s5sible1 cold mann]s eulogiz$ z correct4 ,op9ion1 h[ev] x may g5]ally v]ge to ! correct1 spr+s f s _m s\rces1 x is s gov]n$ by association ( ideas1 su* trifles may guide x1 t ,i am nev] surpris$ at ! latitude giv5 to p]sonal encomium nor at ! endless v>iety & incongruity ( human judgm5t4 ,x is well t all h a *ance ( be+ approv$1 admir$1 belov$1 & x rema9s = !m to avail !mselves ( ^? possibilities :i* contribute s mu* to happ9ess4 ,= we are sympa?iz+ be+s1 & a law ( our nature makes u look = a return ( sympa?y4 ,we are s5t "h to =m ties1 & to love1 & to be lov$1 :e!r ! t]m applies to p>5tal1 or filial1 or frat]nal love--or :e!r x respects ! less sure & m fitful exp]i5ces ( love1 9 its ord9>y s5se4 ,i d n blame ! p>5ts :o in/il into _! *ildr5 ( bo? sexes a desire to be m>ri$4 ,i ?9k ^? :o tea* ! "y a diff]5t lesson deceive !m4 ,m>riage1 ) all its *ances1 its infelicities1 its sacrifices1 is seldom s infelicit\s1 s unc]ta91 s full ( sacrifice1 z ! s+le /ate4 ,life mu/ h "s objects1 & ^? objects mu/ be progressive4 ,! m9d is happi] & heal?i] ) su* int]e/s1 ev5 if sorr[ comes along ) !m1 ?an 9 its solitude1 its desolate fre$om f c>e1 :5 hav+1 z ! phrase is1 no tr\bles ( ! conjugal sort to di/urb its tranquillity4 ,i !re=e d n c5sure ^? :o desire to see _! daught]s happily & suitably e/abli%$ 9 life4 ,x is ! indiscreet & vulg> ha/e1 ! indelicacy1 ! l[ m]c5>y views1 & ! equally l[ ambition to compass a spl5did mat*1 :i* is blameable & revolt+ 9 ! p>5tal conduct4 ,_m are1 h[ev]1 bless$ ) guides & gu>dians ( v diff]5t *>act]s2 ) p>5ts1 ^: l(ty natures n only reject su* unwor?y notions1 b some:at incl9e to ! extreme ( repell+ all advances = _! daught]s4 ,9 ei!r case1 ! conduct ( a "y lady may be ! same4 ,x is %e :o mu/ =m h] own de/9y 9 po9ts on :i* none c effectually aid h]4 ,x is %e :o is to be ! happy wife1 or ! wret*$ victim2 & x is to h] t ^! obs]vations ( admonition & ( w>n+ are address$4 ,let u suppose h] "y1 ( c\rse1 attractive 9 appe>ance1 ( good bir?1 & "s =tune4 ,i "h except heiresses1 :o1 be+ anomalies1 des]ve a p>ticul> p>agraph = !mselves4 ,b let u suppose t no ob/acle ( family or connection int]f]es to *eck ! approa* ( a suitor4 ,! eyes ( h] family & ( h] "y fri5ds are ^u h]1 :5 a "y lady receives ! fir/ indications ( pref]5ce4 ,%e is g5]ally a%am$ ( x4 ,?is is ! fir/ s5tim5t ( a mode/ & +5u\s m9d1 & x is "o indication1 9 my op9ion1 ( ! impropriety ( e>ly m>riages4 ,nature seems /ill to wi% to keep ! "y & blu%+ girl ap>t f t connection :i* entails grave & ardu\s duties4 ,b ,nature's voice is f> less (t5 he>d ?an t ( h] adv]s>y1 exp$i5cy4 ,i mu/1 !re=e1 %ape my injunctions to t :i* exi/s1 n to t :i* we w\ld wi% to exi/4 ,almo/ s9k+ "u ?is pa9ful s5se ( %ame1 ?is novel di/urbance ( h] usual set ( feel+s1 a "y girl cat*es at ! fir/ re$ to save h]self f obs]vation & detection4 ,i mean detection ( h] p]ception ( t :i* o!rs may or may n see4 ,%e seizes ^u ridicule4 ,%e pret5ds to laugh at "o1 :om sometimes h] y\?ful romantic fancy dwells ^u 9 a v diff]5t s5se4 ,%e laughs at ! foibles1 suppos$ or real1 ( h] admir]3 %e plays a dang]\s game4 ,if any ( ^? to :om %e imp>ts h] witticisms are malevol5tly dispos$ or ?\ghtless1 %e runs a risk ei!r ( w\nd+ ! feel+s ( a man :om %e does n l1 or ( los+ ! reg>d ( "o :om %e might 9 "t n only e/eem1 b love4 ,ano!r effect ( su* att5tions z awak5 a consci\sness 9 a "y lady's m9d1 is ! gratification ( vanity1 p]haps until !n lat5t 9 h] he>t4 ,! fir/ pref]5ce is apt to upset ! reason ( its object z ( him :o %[s x4 ,! ^w vanity does n seem to imply dang]4 ,vanity is g5]ally consid]$ an innoc5t fail+2 b x is innoc5t only z "s k9ds ( food are to a heal?y subject4 ,on a weak1 or ev5 on an inexp]i5c$ m9d1 x acts1 sometimes1 fatally = ! va94 ,a girl is ei!r c>ri$ away by admiration s z to be flippant & fooli%1 or %e is bl9d$ by h] vanity to ! fail+s ( ! man :o fir/ admires h]4 ,%e is intoxicat$ ) ! notion ( an (f] ( m>riage2 %e imag9es1 9 h] simplicity1 eff]vesc$ z x is by ! infusion ( flatt]$ vanity1 t %e has inspir$ su* an atta*m5t z w nev] be recov]$1 %\ld %e prove adv]se to x4 ,_m an engagem5t has be5 =m$ "u ?is conviction1 & fulfill$ only to prove its fallacy1 = ! love :i* 0 suppos$ too /rong to survive disappo9tm5t1 has expir$ 9 ! fruition ( its hopes4 ,to gu>d aga9/ ei!r ( ^! risks to happ9ess1 a well-educat$ girl %\ld endeavor1 9 ?is1 to ex]cise h] judgm5t4 ,%e %\ld be s9c]e4 ,%e is blameable to ridicule ! att5tions :i* are meant z complim5t>y to h]4 ,!y ought to be at lea/ reg>d$ ) respect4 ,%\ld !y n be acceptable1 %e is inexcusable to requite !m ) levity & disda94 ,let h] reflect h[ %e w\ld l su* conduct h]self4 ,besides1 %e is (t5 mak+ a bitt] enemy2 p]haps %e is excit+ fi]ce & unamiable s5tim5ts 9 "o :o o!rwise might h be5 reg>d$ z a mild & wor?y individual4 ,let h] be undeceiv$ if %e supposes t 9 ?us do+ %e is c>ry+ h]self ) dignity1 or acquir+ any add$ admiration f o!rs4 ,%e ceases1 9 ?us act+1 to support ! *>act]i/ics ( a g5tlewoman1 :i* are mildness1 c\rtesy1 & res]ve4 ,if %e *]i%es1 9 spite ( h] pret5d$ disgu/1 a secret p>tiality = ! individual :o di/+ui%es h]1 if %e is l[]+ ! e/eem ( a man :om %e pref]s1 %e n only incurs ! haz>d ( los+ 8 reg>d1 b %e is scatt]+ ridicule on "o :om %e aft]w>ds av[s z h] *oice4 ,9 t case1 %e is l[]+ h]self1 or %e is s[+ ! se$s ( di/ru/ 9 ! m9ds ( ^? :o "k h]--%e is1 p]haps1 fru/rat+ & delay+ h] own happ9ess4 ,let h] act ) c&or1 ) consid]ation1 ) good s5se1 & all ?is web :i* h] folly w\ld weave ar\nd h] w n emb>rass h]4 ,let h] n madly & ob/9ately resi/ ! advice ( ^? on ^: affection to h]1 & on ^: good judgm5t1 exp]i5ce has taught h] to rely4 ,let h] be a *ild 9 no?+ except humility2 let h] li/5 to c\nsels2 yet h] own he>t mu/ decide = h]--none c "k s well z h]self its secret ?robs1 or ! impression ( dislike or ( reg>d :i* has be5 made ^u x4 ,i am1 ,i confess1 an enemy to try+ to l a p]son1 z ,i h r>ely se5 su* a m5tal process end 9 happ9ess to ei!r p>ty4 ,if an advantage\s proposal (f] itself1 x is wis] decid$ly to refuse x1 ?an to tru/ to ! sl[ gr[? ( affection1 ^u a f\ndation ( orig9al dislike4 ,& ! trials ( m>ri$ life are su*1--its temptations to irritability & cont5tion are s manifold1 its anxieties s un=se5 & s complicat$1 t few c /e] _! difficult c\rse safely & happily1 unless !re be a deep & true atta*m5t1 to cont5d ) all ! /orms :i* may arise 9 ! navigation4 ,deeply impress$ ) ?is conviction1 %\ld x be ! lot ( any "y lady 9 :om ,i 7 int]e/$ to =m a real1 well-gr\nd$ atta*m5t to a man ^: circum/ances 7 indiff]5t1 ,i %\ld c\nsel h]1 provid$ %e c dep5d on ! "* & ex]tions ( ! object s belov$1 to risk ! ev5t ( an engagem5t--to tru/ to "t & ,provid5ce1 & to m>ry :5ev] means 7 af=d$1--conv9c$ z ,i am1 t pati5ce1 & tru/1 & true affection1 raise ! "*1 & are acceptable 9 ! eyes ( our ,heav5ly ,fa!r4 ,b 9 su* a case1 %e mu/ s*ool h] m9d to meet ! anxieties :i* att5d limit$ means4 ,%e mu/ prep>e h]self1 by habits ( dilig5ce & economy1 to become a poor man's wife4 ,%e mu/ le>n ! difficult art ( do+ well ^u a little4 ,%e mu/ n1 be %e 9 any rank ( life1 ?9k to indulge ) impunity to h]self 9 e ref9em5t & luxury :5 %e is s+le2 &1 ^u h] m>riage1 imag9e t %e c atta9 ! practice ( economy by wi%+ x4 ,su* metamorphoses are out ( reason--out ( nature4 ,%e mu/ endeavor be=e ! bond :i* ties h] to pov]ty is fram$1 to und]/& ! duties ( h\sekeep+1 ! my/]ies ( ne$le-"w4 ,%e mu/ lay d[n to h]self rules ( exp5diture suitable1 9 "p1 to h] future condition 9 life4 ,_m a wife1 ?us comm5c+1 has laid ! f\ndations ( future =tune1 at lea/ indep5d5ce1 to h] husb&1 by keep+ 8 m9d at peace1 dur+ 8 progress up ! /eep asc5t to pr(essional1 or cl]ical1 or lit]>y fame4 ,_m a home has be5 *e]$ by dome/ic =be>ance1 & placid submission to circum/ances1 ev5 9 ! high] classes1 dur+ ! life-"t ( a fa!r1 or 9 ! c\rse ( ^? long expectancies1 9 :i* ! =titude & pr9ciple ( _m ( ! ari/ocracy are tri$ & prov$4 ,b ! self-d5ial1 ! *e]fulness1 ! good managem5t1 ! /rict pr9ciple1 are =m$ at an e>li] p]iod ?an t 9 :i* a "y lady gives h] h& to him :om %e has *os51 9 spite ( ! fr[n ( =tune1 z h] husb&4 ,( ?is let ! "y be assur$2 !re are few situations 9 life1 9 :i* a man1 "y1 & 9 heal?1 _c meliorate 8 circum/ances1 if he possess en]gy & if he be /imulat$ by a true affection4 ,! cl]gyman1 ) humble /ip5d1 (t5 hopeless f want ( int]e/1 has leisure--he has _h education4 ,he may1 if he desires to assi/ himself1 h rec\rse to lit]>y labor1 or to tuition4 ,if he make n su* ex]tion1 dur+ ! c\rse ( an engagem5t1 :at hope c !re be ( him 9 future life8 ,! "y lawy]1 h[ev] t$i\s 8 advancem5t1 h[ev] few 8 opportunities1 may also di/+ui% himself 9 a lit]>y c>e]4 ,innum]able are ! subjects op5 to "o ( su* a pr(ession4 ,h[ few avail !mselves ( ! *ance6 ,^u ?is rely1 ! man truly 9 love w make ! ef=t4 ,to ! milit>y man1 ?\gh p]haps he may be less qualifi$1 ! same c\rse is op51 9 a degree4 ,"s ( our be/ travels1 "s ( our mo/ amus+ lit]>y productions1 h be5 ! compositions ( milit>y m54 ,& ! advantage ( ?is mode ( aid+ a small =tune is1 t a man n only does n l[]1 b he raises 8 position by x1 if 8 works are moral1 writt5 9 a g5tlemanly _s1 & af=d+ in=mation4 ,h[ev] deep ! atta*m5t1 h[ev] agreeable ! object1 if a man be indispos$ to help himself to indep5d5ce & compet5ce1 ,i %\ld c\nsel no woman to cont9ue an engagem5t =m$ 9 ! expectation ( 'times m5d+4' ,:5 ,i advocate ! indulg5ce ( atta*m5t1 x is to wor?y1 n to unwor?y1 objects4 ,i n[ come to speak ( moral "*4 ,h>d is ! conte/ betwe5 affection & exp$i5cy1 :5 x is rais$ by ! "q ( circum/ances4 ,b h>d] /ill is x1 :5 its result is to be decid$ ^u an inquiry into moral conduct4 ,i "k n a m cruel situation ?an t :5 ! he>t is be/[$ on "o :om ! judgm5t c\ld n approve4 ,i "k n "o :i* %\ld be m /rictly gu>d$ aga9/1 n only by p>5ts & fri5ds1 b 7= ,i w\ld impress on e "y lady h[ mu* %e may prove ! be/ gu>dian ( h] own happ9ess7 by ! female he>t itself4 ,) e vigilance1 ) little to blame1 little to rep5t1 su* cases w occur 9 ?is _w4 ,! feel+s are int]e/$1 b ! judgm5t di/ru/s4 ,happy is x = ^? :o "k ! combat betwe5 affection & pr9ciple only 9 s+le life1 & h n ! mis]y ( enc\nt]+ s sev]e a de/9y :5 x c no long] be rem$i$--:o "k n h[ to fulfill ! v[ to honor :at is prov$ to be unwor?y--& yet /ill mu/ love1--= ! affections once giv51 are little 9 our own p[]4 ,9 su* a case occurr+ to ! "y1 91 p]haps1 a fir/ atta*m5t1 ,i ?9k !y mu/ be guid$ by fri5ds4 ,i am n an advocate = ! int]f]5ce ( fri5ds3 :]e x is mu* a "q ( a long & cont+5t engagem5t--a "q ( be+ m>ri$ at once1 or ( wait+1 9 "s unc]ta9ty--a "q ( ease or discom=t1 ( limit$ means or luxury--9 su* in/ances1 if ! moral "* be unexceptionable1 x is ! duty ( p>5ts to po9t out all ! risk1 all ! disadvantages1 b to leave ! he>t to =m its own decisions4 ,let !m n seek to wr5* ! affections f ! *annel 9 :i* !y fl[$1 :5 fre% f _! s\rce4 ,!y _c "k h[ deep ! *annel is--!y _c "k if ev] ^? pure & beautiful wat]s w fl[ 9 peace aga9 :5 once ha/ily turn$ aside4 ,b 9 cases ( moral "*1 ( "r or wrong1 ! affair is :olly diff]5t1 & ! /ricte/ p>5tal au?ority ought1 ^u due inquiry1 to be ex]cis$4 ,submission & self-control are !n ! duty ( ! "y suff]]--= a suff]] %e truly is2--no page ( h] aft]-hi/ory c\ld unfold a bitt]] pang4 ,b peace & hope come at la/--! /ruggle1 ?\gh viol5t1 leaves beh9d x none ( t corrod+ sorr[1 :i* w\ld h accompani$ ! acquiesc5ce ( p>5ts 9 a union unbless$ by a ,provid5ce1 ^: w is t all %\ld be pure1 ev5 z ,he above is pure4 ,_h y\r fond wi%es be5 grant$1 "y & tru/+ be+1 h[ fe>ful w\ld h be5 y\r condition6 ,= !re is no suspicion s revolt+ to an innoc5t m9d z t :i* unseats love f 8 ?rone 9 our affections1 & places ano!r 9 8 /ead4 ,be assur$ ( ?is--little c y "k ( ! moral conduct ( ! o!r sex2 little is x desirable t y %\ld "k4 ,b :5ev] improprieties are s flagrant z to be matt]s ( conv]sation2 :5 ! good %un1 & ! pity+ =be> to excuse2 be assur$ "s deep] cause ?an y c div9e exi/s = ! opprobrium4 ,?9k n t y\r empire ov] affections ?us wa/$ c be a real "o4 ,x is transi5t1 x w n la/--x w n br+ re=mation--x w nev] be adequately requit$4 ,?r[ y\rself on ! judgm5t ( ^? ^: int]e/ 9 y has be5 life-long1 or ( su* z y "k truly reg>d y\r happ9ess2 conqu] ! unhall[$ pref]5ce2 pray = support & guidance2 tru/ 9 ,him :o 'cat]e? = ! sp>r[4' ,b1 :5 ! comm5cem5t ( life is *ill$ by s cruel a sorr[--:5 ! blight has fall5 on ! bud--we mu/ n only look up to heav5ly aid1 we mu/ take e means ( c>e = an un=tunate1 &1 :5 once ! judgm5t is conv9c$ ( ! unwor?9ess ( ! object1 a blameable atta*m5t4 ,h[ (t51 9 ! ,psalms1 9 ! ,gospels1 ! ^w ',help' is reit]at$6 ,we are to help ourselves--we mu/ "w = our heav5ly peace on e>?--! m5tal discipl9e1 to prosp]1 mu/ be aid$ by div9e grace1 b its spr+s mu/ be f our own he>ts4 ,&1 to fulfill ! w ( ,god 9 ?is1 z 9 ! o!r ev5ts ( life1 let u take su* means z may aid u 9 ! "w ( self-gov]nm5t4 ,9 ! fir/ place1 let employm5t be resort$ to by ! sorr[+1 d n indulge 9 te>s2 d n sit alone3 ab/a91 = a "t1 f music2 ab/a9 f ! p]usal ( poetry1 or works ( imag9ation4 ,!y /ill m s(t5 ! feel+s & op5 up ! s\rces ( grief4 ,read works ( fact--endeavor to occupy y\rself ) ! pass+ ev5ts ( ! _w4 ,&1 :5 ! ov]burd5$ he>t _c be com=t$1 or its ?\ghts div]t$--= !re w be mom5ts too m\rnful to be resi/$--g =? into ! fields1 g to ! h\ses ( ! poor--see ! goodness & m]cy ( ,god--see too1 ! pati5ce & long-suff]+ ( ! poor1 :o may (t5 set ! ri* an example ( =titude4 ,occupy y\rself1 if y c1 ) *ildr52 _! fre%ness1 _! joyful unconsci\sness1 ! ela/icity ( _! spirits1 w su/a9 & draw y f y\rself1 or h rec\rse to ! soo?+ calmness ( ! ag$4 ,he> !m conv]se ^u ! affairs ( life2 h[ !y appreciate ! importance ( ea* pass+ ev5t1 z a travel] does ! ruts & inequalities ( ! road he has trav]s$4 ,h[ _! confid5ce 9 ! effect ( "t su/a9s y6 & y turn f !m1 reflect+ on all t ! happie/ ( !m mu/ necess>ily h endur$4 ,be assur$ ( y\r own recov]y1 "u an influ5ce s c]ta94 ,avoid "y p]sons ( y\r own age4 ,if possible1 except to a si/]1 ^: deep int]e/ 9 y w probably tea* h] a sup]ior lesson1 nev] confide 9 "y fri5ds1 a simil> trial z t to :i* ,i h ref]r$4 ,9 g5]al1 y\r resolution w be weak5$1 y\r feel+s re-excit$1 y\r confid5ce 9 y\r be/ advis]s w be %ak54 ,= ! "y usually take ! "p ( ! reject$ lov]--!y delight 9 t dang]\s species ( sympa?y :i* flatt]s ) hope4 ,!y are naturally incr$ul\s z to ! del9qu5cies ( a man :o is agreeable1 & 9 love2 !y incl9e to ! notion ( ! h>d-he>t$ness ( fa!rs1 uncles1 & eld] bro!rs2 & ev51 if !y happ5 to possess good s5se1 or to ex]cise ! r>e quality ( prud5ce 9 su* matt]s1 ! v communication ( any sorr[1 or ! recital ( any feel+s1 gives n only a m]ely tempor>y relief1 b dead5s t sorr[ & /r5g!ns ^? feel+s1 :i* gr[ e "t !y are imp>t$4 ,if y wi% to recov]--&1 if y h a s\nd & well-dispos$ m9d1 y w wi% to recov]--y mu/1 aft] ! fir/ bur/ ( grief is ov]1 speak b r>ely ( a !me too pa9ful & delicate to be> ! contact ( rude m9ds--too dang]\s to dwell ^u ) ^? ( a k9dli] & l(ti] nature4 ,to y\r female relations--to y\r "m1 m especially1 too great an op5ness _c be practic$ on ^! po9ts1 b op5ness does n imply a p]petual recurr5ce to a !me1 :i* mu/ we> out pati5ce & exhau/ all b mat]nal sympa?y1 9 "t4 ,= mat]nal sympa?y is exhau/less2 be g5]\s1 & re/ra91 f t v reflection1 ! cont9ual dem& ^u its fl[4 ,! fir/ p]son to consult1 ! la/ to afflict--a "m--%\ld n be ! victim ( h] daught]'s feel+s4 ,h] judgm5t %\ld n be weak5$ by ! incessant indulg5ce ( a daught]'s sorr[s4 ,i w\ld1 on _m gr\nds1 caution ! "y aga9/ ha/y engagem5ts4 ,x seems extraord9>y t ! welf>e ( a life %\ld (t5 be det]m9$ ^u ! acqua9tance ( a few weeks4 ,! pr9ciples1 x is true1 may be asc]ta9$ f ! k ( o!rs1 ! mann]s may please1 ! means & expectations may all be cle>ly und]/ood4 ,b ! temp]--t ^w ( unspeakable import--! daily habits1 ! p[] ( con/ancy--^! are n to be kn[n )\t a long & sev]e exam9ation ( ! motives1 & a daily obs]vation ( ! conduct1 ( o!rs4 ,v little suffices to m> ! happ9ess ( m>ri$ life1 if t little proce$ 9 ! "* ( a man1 f a root$ selfi%ness4 ,x is true1 9 reg>d to ?is defect1 t mu* may be done by a wife to meliorate a vice ( "* :i* is1 9 "s1 only ! result ( nev] hav+ _h _! feel+s develop$4 ,b if !re exi/ n ?is excuse--if1 9 spite ( ties1 :i* are de>] to an affectionate m9d ?an exi/5ce2 y f9d a man pref]r+ 8 own com=t to t ( ^? :om he pr(esses to love--if y f9d him imp]i\s to 8 s]vants1 dictatorial to si/]s1 on cool t]ms ) bro!rs1 !re is little hope t ! m5tal disease w ev] be root$ out1 s z to leave a heal?y "* ( m9d4 ,exam9e well into ?is po9t2 = a ha/y temp] may be rem$i$1 & ev5 endur$--b ! deep1 sl[1 sull5 c\rse ( a selfi% nature we>s away hope1 imp>ts a cank]+ c>e1 &1 ) x1 (t5 disgu/4 ,no defect is s little to be resi/$ z selfi%ness4 ,x creeps into e detail2 x infects ! m9ute/ affairs ( life z well z ! greate/ conc]ns4 ,x depresses ! humble suff]] f its baneful effects2 x irritates ! passions ( ! unamiable4 ,/udy well ! "* 9 trifles2 nor v5ture to risk y\r b>k on ! sea ( matrimony1 unless y "k well h[ f> ?is man1 :om y might pref]1 is free f ?is deadly infection4 ,view him1 if possible1 9 8 home1 be=e y pl$ge y\r fai? ) 8--or1 if t be n practicable1 reflect ^u ! g5]al c\rse ( 8 actions1 ( 8 s5tim5ts1 & endeavor dispassionately to judge !m1 z be/ y may4 ,,*apt] ,,xxiv4 ,,bridal ,,etiquette4 ,9 prep>+ a bridal outfit1 x is be/ to furni% ! w>drobe = at lea/ two ye>s1 9 "u-clo!s1 & "o ye> 9 dresses1 ?\gh ! bonnet & cloak1 suitable = ! com+ season1 are all t are necess>y1 z ! fa%ions 9 ^! articles *ange s rapidly4 ,if y are go+ to travel1 h a neat dress & cloak ( "s pla9 color1 & a close bonnet & veil4 ,avoid1 z int5sely vulg>1 any display ( y\r position z a bride1 :il/ travel+4 ,take1 fir/1 ! w$d+s at *ur*4 ,9 ?is case none are invit$ to ! c]emony except+ ! family1 & ! reception is at ! h\se ( ! bride's "m1 or ne>e/ relative1 ei!r on ! w$d+-day or ^u h] return f ! bridal t\r4 ,9 s5d+ out ! invitations1 let ! c>d ( ! bridegroom & t ( ! bride be ti$ toge!r ) a :ite ribbon1 & fold$ 9 ! note pap] ^u :i* is pr9t$ ! "n ( ! bride's "m1 ) ! date ( ! reception-day1 ?us3-- ,,mrs4 ,,john ,,saund]s4 ,at home1 ,?ursday1 ,oct4 #af?1 f #aa till #b4 ,no4 #bah1 ---- /4 ( c\rse ! h\rs & dates v>y1 b ! =m is ! same4 ,if !re is no bridal reception ^u ! w$d+ day1 ! c>ds are word$3-- ,,mr4 ,,& ,,mrs4 ,,james ,,smi?4 ,at home1 ,w$nesdays1 ,on1 & aft]1 ,june #f?4 ,no4 #ag1 ---- /4 ,tie ! c>d ) ! bride's maid5 "n ^u x to ?is "o4 ,enclose ! invitation 9 a :ite envelope1 & tie x ) :ite sat9 ribbon4 ,if y s5d cake1 h x put 9 a :ite box1 & place ! note outside ! cov]1 ty+ x fa/ ) :ite sat9 ribbon4 ,! bride's dress mu/ be ( :ite entirely4 ,if %e is m>ri$ 9 ! morn+1 a pla9 :ite silk1 :ite mantle1 & :ite bonnet1 full trimm$ ) orange fl[]s1 ) a pla9 veil1 is ! mo/ suitable dress1 & %e may we> a ri*] "o at h] reception1 :5 %e returns f h] bridal t\r4 ,z soon z ! c>riages come1 let ! bridesmaids1 & relatives set (f fir/4--,la/1 ! bride ) h] p>5ts4 ,! bride1 h] p>5ts1 & ! bridesmaids g imm$iately to ! ve/ry1 :]e !y meet ! bridegroom1 & ! groomsm54 ,! fa!r ( ! bride gives h] 8 arm & escorts h] to ! alt>1 ! bridegroom walk+ on ! o!r side4 ,!n foll[ ! bridesmaids & groomsm5 9 c\ples4 ,:5 !y rea* ! alt> ! bridegroom removes 8 "r h& glove1 b ! bride keeps h]s on until ! cl]gyman takes ! r+4 ,! fir/ bridesmaid !n removes ! left h& glove1 & x is n resum$4 ,! bridesmaids %\ld we> :ite dresses1 :ite mantles1 & bonnets1 b n veils or orange fl[]s4 ,! bride & groom leave ! *ur* fir/1 aft] ! c]emony is ov]1 & take ! c>riage ) ! p>5ts ( ! bride1 & ! o!rs foll[ 9 ! ord] 9 :i* !y came4 ,if !re is a breakfa/ or morn+ reception1 ! bride w n *ange h] dress until %e retires to put on h] travel+ attire4 ,if ! w$d+ takes place 9 ! ev5+ at *ur*1 to be foll[$ by a full dress reception at home1 ! bride %\ld we> a :ite lace dress ov] sat91 or any o!r mat]ial to suit h] own ta/e1 a veil1 fall+ f h] head to h] feet1 fa/5$ to ! hair by a coiffure ( orange fl[]s2 :ite kid gloves1 & :ite sat9 slipp]s4 ,a b\quet1 if c>ri$1 %\ld conta9 only :ite fl[]s4 ,! bridesmaids may we> :ite1 or "s ?91 light-color$ mat]ial ov] :ite1 a head-dress ( fl[]s1 & c>ry b\quets ( mix$ fl[]s4 ,:5 ! w$d+ takes place at home1 let ! company assemble 9 ! front draw+-room1 & close ! doors betwe5 t & ! back room4 ,9 ! back room1 let ! bride1 bridegroom1 bridesmaids1 & groomsm51 ! p>5ts ( ! bride1 & ! cl]gyman1 assemble4 ,! cl]gyman %\ld /& 9 ! c5tre ( ! room1 ! bride & groom be=e him1 ! bridesmaids rang$ beside ! bride1 ! groomsm5 beside ! bridegroom4 ,!n op5 ! doors & let ! c]emony beg94 ,?is arrangem5t saves t awkw>dness att5dant ^u ent]+ ! room & tak+ ! position be=e a l>ge company4 ,aft] ! c]emony is ov]1 ! p>5ts ( ! bride speak to h] fir/2 !n h] ne> relatives1 & n until !n ! o!r memb]s ( ! company4 ,x is n usual n[ to h danc+1 or ev5 music1 at a w$d+1 & ! h\r is nam$ ^u ! c>ds1 at :i* ! gue/s are expect$ to retire4 ,a v pretty effect is produc$ 9 ! w$d+ gr\p1 if ! bride we>s pure :ite1 & ! bridesmaids :ite1 ) fl[]s & trimm+s ( a diff]5t color4 ,?us1 "o 9 :ite1 ) a head-dress & trimm+ ( gre5 leaves2 ano!r1 :ite1 ) blue ribbons & =get-me-nots2 ano!r1 :ite1 ) p9k roses & ribbons4 ,if ! w$d+ is 9 ! morn+1 ! bride & family may we> full dress2 9 t case ! %utt]s %\ld be clos$ & ! rooms light$ z 9 ! ev5+s4 ,let ! supp] be laid e>ly1 & ready :5 ! c]emony is ov]1 t ! gue/s may pass into ! d9+-room1 if !y wi%1 z soon z !y h spok5 to ! bride4 ,if a morn+ w$d+1 let ! table be set z = an ev5+ w$d+4 ,if ! bride gives a reception at h] own h\se1 aft] h] return f h] bridal t\r1 %e %\ld n we> h] w$d+-dress4 ,if 9 ! ev5+1 a supp] %\ld be set4 ,if a morn+ reception1 let h] we> a h&some light silk1 coll> & sleeves ( lace4 ,w9e & cake are suffici5t to h& to ea* gue/ at a morn+ reception4 ,at an ev5+ reception let ! bride we> full dress1 b n h] w$d+-dress4 ,at p>ties giv5 to a newly m>ri$ c\ple1 ! bridesmaids & groomsm5 are always invit$1 & ! :ole p>ty are expect$ to we> ! same dresses z at ! w$d+4 ,,*apt] ,,xxv4 ,,h9ts ,,on ,,heal?4 ,! univ]sal rem>k ( travel]s visit+ ,am]ica1 z well z ! univ]sal compla9t ( ,am]icans !mselves1 relates to ! ill heal? ( ! fair] portion ( ! community4 ,look :]e y w1 g to any city 9 ! va/ ,union1 ! rem>k & compla9t w be made ev]y:]e4 ,) e natural advantage ( climate1 yet f ,nor? to ,s\?1 ,ea/ to ,we/ ! cry res\nds4 ,=eign]s1 admir+ ! d>k-ey$ girls ( ! s\!rn /ates or ! blondes ( ! nor!rn ones1 w rem>k1 ) comm5ts ^u beauty3-- ,b %e looks delicate1 poor ?+6--,n /rong8 ,ah6 ,i ?\ght n1 none ( ! ,am]ican wom5 are1 & h[ soon ^! "y beauties fade6 ,x seems to me1 among/ ! subjects treat$ ( 9 my pres5t "w1 t a few words on heal? w n come amiss4 ,light & sun%9e are ne$ful = y\r heal?4 ,get all y c2 keep y\r w9d[s clean4 ,d n block !m up ) curta9s1 plants1 or bun*es ( fl[]s2--^! la/ poison ! air1 9 small rooms4 ,fre% air is ne$ful = y\r heal?4 ,z (t5 z y c1 op5 all y\r w9d[s1 if only = a %ort "t 9 bad wea!r2 9 f9e wea!r1 keep !m op51 b nev] sit 9 draughts4 ,:5 y get up1 op5 ! w9d[s wide1 & ?r[ d[n ! b$-clo!s1 t !y may be expos$ to fre% air "s h\rs1 daily1 be=e !y are made up4 ,keep y\r b$-clo!s clean2 hang !m to ! fire :5 y c4 ,avoid we>+ at night :at y we> 9 ! day4 ,hang up y\r day-clo!s at night4 ,except 9 ! sev]e/ wea!r1 9 small1 cr[d$ sleep+-rooms1 a little op5+ at ! top ( ! w9d[-sa% is v important2 or y w f9d "o w9d[ pane ( p]=at$ z9c v useful4 ,y w n cat* cold half s easily by brea?+ pure air at night4 ,let n ! b$s be directly "u ! w9d[s4 ,sleep+ 9 exhau/$ air creates a desire = /imulants4 ,pure wat] is ne$ful = y\r heal?4 ,wa% y\r bodies z well z y\r faces1 rubb+ !m all ov] ) a co>se clo?4 ,if y _c wa% ?us e morn+1 pray d s once a week4 ,cry+ & cross *ildr5 are (t5 pacifi$ by a g5tle wa%+ ( _! little h&s & faces--x soo!s !m4 ,babies' heads %\ld be wa%$ c>efully1 e morn+ ) soap4 ,no scurf %\ld be suff]$ to rema9 ^u !m4 ,get rid ( all slops & dirty wat] at once4 ,disease1 & ev5 dea?1 is (t5 ! consequ5ce ( our own neglig5ce4 ,wa% y\r rooms & passages at lea/ once a week1 use pl5ty ( clean wat]2 b d n let y\r *ildr5 /ay 9 !m :ile !y are wet1 x may br+ on cr\p or inflammation ( ! *e/4 ,if y read y\r ,bibles1 :i* x is e>ne/ly hop$ y d1 y w f9d h[ cleanl9ess1 bo? z to ! p]son & habitation1 0 taught to ! ,jews by ,god himself2 & we read 9 ! #d? *apt] ( ,nehemiah t :5 !y 7 build+ _! second temple1 & def5d+ _! lives aga9/ _! foes1 hav+ no "t = re/1 !y contriv$ to put (f _! clo!s = wa%+4 ,x is a good old say+1 t cleanl9ess is next to godl9ess4 ,see ,heb4 x4 #bb4 ,:olesome food is ne$ful = y\r heal?4 ,buy ! mo/ /r5g!n+4 ,pieces ( fre% beef & mutton g ! f>!/4 ,eat pl5ty ( fre% salt ) food2 x prev5ts disease4 ,pray d n let y\r *ildr5 wa/e _! p5nies 9 t>ts1 cakes1 bull's eyes1 h>dbake1 s\r fruit1 c41 !y are v un:olesome1 & hurt ! dige/ion4 ,p w\ld (t51 at tw5ty ye>s ( age1 h a nice little sum ( money to help !m on 9 ! _w1 if !y _h put 9 ! sav+s' bank ! money s wa/$2 ,cocoa is *eap] & mu* m n\ri%+ ?an tea4 ,none ( ^! liquids %\ld be tak5 hot1 b lukew>m2 :5 hot !y inflame ! /oma*1 & produce indige/ion4 ,we are all made to brea! ! pure air ( heav51 & !re=e mu* illness is caus$ by be+ con/antly 9-doors4 ,let all p]sons make a po9t1 :5ev] x is possible1 ( tak+ ex]cise 9 ! op5 air = at lea/ an h\r & a half daily4 ,"t w\ld be sav$ 9 ! long run by ! increas$ en]gy & /r5g? ga9$1 & by ! w>d+ (f ( disease4 ,let x n be suppos$ t x is n ! duty ( e "y lady to take due c>e ( h] heal?1 & to pres]ve 9 all its p[] ( utility e portion ( vigor :i* has be5 be/[$ on h]4 ,) _m "y ladies1 x appe>s to be a maxim to d ev]y?+ 9 _! p[] to de/roy ! heal? :i* is s mu* want$ 9 ! real bus9ess ( life1 & :i* =ms s important a requisite to happ9ess4 ,9 ! fir/ place1 z to h\rs--!y nev] leave ! ball-room until utt]ly exhau/$1 & sc>cely fit to crawl to b$4 ,! noon-day sleep1 ! sc>cely t\*$ breakfa/1 t mo/ important meal1 are foll[$ by prep>ations = ! succe$+ night's pleasures1 or 9 head-a*+ morn+ calls1 driv+ ab\t 9 a close c>riage1 or l\ng+ on a s(a1 9 an ov]-heat$ room1 read+ novels4 ,dress+ foll[s2 ! w>m wrapp] or dress is ?r[n aside2 ov] ! tightly drawn corsets is fa/5$ a flimsy dress1 ) an in* ( sleeve2 ! neck laid b>e2 ?9 /ock+s drawn on1 9 place ( ?ick ones1 & ! consumption-seek] goes =? to ! ball-room aga94 ,at times1 y miss f ! gay assemblage "s =m] ornam5t--y inquire ab\t h]--%e has tak5 cold4 ,inflammation ( ! lungs1 caught x 9 an accid5tal draught ( air by "o ( ^! fair half-dress$ be+s1 c>ri$ (f1 n long s9ce1 "o ( ! gaye/ & faire/ ( ! belles ( ! season--aft] an illness ( ?ree days4 ,pres]vation ( ! heal? ought1 f an e>ly /age ( exi/5ce1 to be en=c$ z a duty ^u ! "y4 ,to walk daily2 to h daily rec\rse1 9 summ]1 ev5 twice a day1 to ! spong+ ) cold wat]1 or ! %[]-ba?2--to eat suffici5tly ( pla91 nutriti\s food2 to keep ! m9d calm--^! are duties2--!y %\ld be habitually ex]cis$4 ,c>e %\ld be tak5 n to come out heat$1 ) a %awl j p9n$ across ! %\ld]s1 f a heat$ room4 ,:]e !re is delicacy ( ! lungs or w9dpipe1 yet n suffici5t to r5d] a )drawal f ev5+ p>ties necess>y1 ! use ( a respirator at night is desirable4 ,x is usual to h rec\rse to ?is valuable inv5tion only :5 disease is actually exi/+--z a prev5tive1 x is neglect$4 ,yet1 pres]v+ ! temp]ature ( a w>m room1 x is an excell5t precaution1 & c easily be assum$ :5 ! %awl or cloak is put on4 ,! atmosph]e ( a city is de/ructive :]e !re is any pulmon>y delicacy1 & :o %all say1 :]e !re is n pulmon>y delicacy8 ,9 ?is climate1 !re is a t5d5cy to x1 m or less1 9 almo/ e family1--at all ev5ts1 x is too easily induc$ 9 our pr$ispos$ con/itutions1 by cold1 aid$ by ! debilitat+ effect ( heat$ rooms & an artificial mode ( exi/5ce1 & accel]at$ also1 mo/ decid$ly1 by b>$ %\ld]s4 ,=1 9 ?is climate1 x is sc>cely ev] safe to lay b>e t portion ( ! frame1 ! back & *e/ 9 :i* ! lungs are seat$2 &1 al?\gh cu/om may greatly lead to dim9i% ! injuri\s effects1 ! sudd5 *ill may /rike1 & may nev] be recov]$4 ,dur+ e season1 c]ta9 p h 'head colds1' c\ghs1 & 'fev]i% colds4' ,^! are produc$ by c]ta9 /ates ( climate act+ on c]ta9 /ates ( con/itution4 ,at p>ticul> seasons su* compla9ts ab\nd--at o!rs !y ab\nd /ill m2 & aga91 f "s s+ul>ity1 !y prevail s mu* t p say1 !re is an ,influ5za4 ,influ5za has be5 long kn[n 9 ! _w4 ,x has (t5 visit$ ,europe2 & made its appe>ance on our %ores ) great] sev]ity ?an at pres5t4 ,x has sometimes be5 v sev]e1 & left _m p]sons ill = a ye> or two4 ,! symptoms ( influ5za ne$ n be dwelt on1 z !y h be5 s g5]ally felt by our read]s or _! fri5ds4 ,x v>ies 9 diff]5t p1 to be sure1 bo? 9 k9d & 9 degree4 ,consid]+ ! numb] ( p x attacks1 x may be look$ on z an innoc5t disease2 b1 on ! o!r h&1 look+ at ! increase x has made 9 ! numb] ( dea?s1 x is an exce$+ly s]i\s "o aft] all4 ,9 simple cases--conf9em5t to a pure & temp]ate air1 w>m dr9ks1 & a w>m ba?1 or1 at lea/1 a w>m foot-ba?1 ) an extra blanket1 & a little m re/ ?an usual1 keep+ to mild food1 & toa/ & wat]1 & tak+1 if necess>y1 a dose ( ap]i5t m$ic9e1--is all t is requir$4 ,9 s]i\s cases1 ! dome/ic treatm5t mu/ become pr(essional4 ,mu/>d pla/]s to ! back relieve ! heada*e4 ,squills f9d o!r m$ic9es 'loos5' ! out/&+ c\gh4 ,b>k & w9e1 & ev5 cold ba?s are sometimes requisite = ! weakness left beh9d4 ,b ^! ?+s c only be us$ ) discrim9ation by a regul> pr(essional man4 ,suppos+ t ! se$s ( disease h n be5 laid 9 *ildhood1 & t !re is no p>ticul> pr$isposition to any malady 9 ! con/itution1 a "y woman ent]s life ) e fair prospect ( enjoy+ tol]able heal?2--yet1 h[ v>iable1 & delicate1 & compla9+1 d ! majority ( wom5 become6 ,:at a va/ exp5se is incurr$1 dur+ ! c\rse ( _! lives1 9 physicians1 m$ic9e1 *ange ( air1 ba?s abroad & at home1 & j\rneys6 ,h[ few wom5 c walk1--or c suppress n]v\s feel+s1--or c eat l reasonable be+s3 h[ _m suff]1 or say !y suff] f debility1 heada*es1 dyspepsia1 a t5d5cy to colds1 et]nal sore ?roats1 rheumatic attacks1 & ! :ole li/ ( polite compla9ts6 ,) all our mod]n wisdom1 ) all our books on heal?1 our smatt]+s ( physiological sci5ce1 our op5 c>riages1 spong+ ba?s1 & att5tion to diet1 wom5 n[ are a f> m feeble race ?an our gr&mo!rs1 or ev5 our mo!rs1 74 ,:at daught] c walk half z f> z h] "m c8 ,:at "y woman c take ! active "p t h] "m did8 ,9 mo/ families1 ! ord] ( ?+s is rev]s$4 ,x is n a *ild trembl+ = h] "m's heal?1 & fe>+1 le/ h] p>5t1 no long] "y1 %\ld be fatigu$2 b x is ! "m :o is always /riv+ to sp>e h] *ild ex]tions :i* %e c h]self p]fectly well und]go1 b :i* ! enfeebl$ *ild ( mod]n self-indulg5ce d>e n enc\nt]4 ,yes6 we are a self-indulg5t race1 ?is pres5t g5]ation4 ,witness our easily excit$ feel+s2 witness our late h\rs ( ris+1 our s(as & easy *airs1 our useless days & dissipat$ nights6 ,witness our pallid faces1 our =ms1 sometimes att5uat$ & repulsive :ile yet 9 e>ly life1 age m>*+1 n creep+1 on be=e 8 "t2 or witness our ov]-f$ & ov]-exp&$ =ms1 enfeebl$ by indol5ce1 & suff]+ ! wor/ species ( debility--! debility ( fat4 ,witness our do+ ^? ?+s by deputy :i* our gr&mo!rs did !mselves2 witness our ho/ ( sc5ts & p]fum$ wat]s on our dress+-tables2 our ov]-ref9em5t1 :i* am\nts to an en]vat+ pu]ility1 & our incapacity ( p>t+ ) "o accu/om$ indulg5ce1 ev5 at ! bidd+ ( ! le>n$ & dis9t]e/$ advis]8 ',9 ! education ( wom51' writes a mod]n physician1 'too little att5tion is giv5 to subdue ! imag9ative faculty1 & to mod]ate s5sibility2 on ! contr>y1 !y are g5]ally fo/]$2 &1 in/ead ( a vigor\s intellect & heal?y condition ( m9d1 we f9d imag9ation & s5tim5t pr$om9ant ov] ! reason+ faculties1 & lay+ ! f\ndation ( hy/]ical1 hypo*ondriacal1 & ev5 maniacal diseases4',b ,x is1 9 fact1 ?is want ( judgm5t 9 ! managem5t ( e>ly life t produces s mu* mis]y :5 wom5 are call$ ^u to p]=m an important "p 9 society1 & :5 all t ex]tion c d is requir$ at _! h&s4 ,b ,! ,sick-,room1 by ,dr4 ,a4 ,t4 ,?omson4 ,! duration ( sleep %\ld n1 9 ! adult1 exce$ six or eight h\rs2 wom5 injure _! heal? greatly by excess 9 ?is respect4 ,on ris+1 all wom5 %\ld use "s mode ( cold or tepid ba?2 &1 inde$1 9 ?is respect ! practice ( ! pres5t day is admirable2 !re is e facility = ! ba?4 ,to "s1 ! use ( ! %[]-ba? is delet]i\s1 & to all inconv5i5t1 & n likely to be resort$ to except :5 positively ord]$4 ,dr4 ,combe recomm5ds = g5]al use ! tepid or w>m ba?1 z be+ mu* m suitable ?an ! cold ba?1 'especially 9 ! w9t] = ^? :o are n robu/1 & full ( animal heat4' ,:5 ! con/itution is n suffici5tly vigor\s to ensure reaction aft] ! cold ba?1 by produc+ a w>m gl[ ov] ! surface1 'its use1' obs]ves ! same admirable writ]1 'inevitably does h>m4' ,b he en=ces1 t '9 ord] to promote a due exhalation f ! sk91 ! w>m1 ! tepid1 or ! %[]-ba?1 z a means ( pres]v+ heal?1 ought to be 9 z common use z a *ange ( app>el1 = x is equally a measure ( necess>y cleanl9ess4' ,he incl9es to ! use ( ! tepid ba?1 z likely to be ! mo/ g5]ally efficaci\s4 ,i h kn[n ! mo/ b5eficial effects f a modification ( ?is advice1 namely1 f us+ a spong+-ba?1 into :i* y p\r a jug ( w>m wat]1 & 9 :i* y /&1 :il/ y sponge ! body & limbs pr(usely ) cold wat]4 ,a /rong friction %\ld be employ$ aft] ?is process1 ei!r ) horsehair gloves or ) a l>ge co>se t[el1 & few p]sons w f9d ! use ( ! spong+-ba? disagree ) !m :5 ?us employ$4 ,x is1 inde$1 incr$ible1 :5 we consid] ! importance ( ! exhalation p]=m$ by ! sk91 to :at ext5t ablution is neglect$1 n only1 z ,dr4 ,combe specifies1 9 *>itable in/itutions & sem9>ies = ! "y1 b by ladies1 9 ord9>y circum/ances1 to :om ! use ( ! ba? c\ld be productive ( no inconv5i5ce4 ,9 n]v\s compla9ts1 :i* are m or less ! besett+ evil ( womank9d1 ! ba?1 9 its v>i\s =ms1 becomes an invaluable aid4 ,9 ! =mation ( ^? habits :i* are necess>y = ! pres]vation ( heal?1 ano!r circum/ance1 :i*1 f its importance to heal?1 _c be deem$ trifl+ %\ld be m5tion$4 ,x is a g5]al practice t b$s %\ld be made z soon z ! occupants h left _! rooms1 & be=e ! air has be5 freely admitt$ to play ^u ! rec5t deposit>y ( ! human frame2 b ?is %\ld be avoid$4 ,! b$-l95 & blankets %\ld be tak5 (f1 & ! w9d[s op5$1 s t1 = an h\r or m1 a ?or\gh v5tilation %\ld be procur$4 ,^u ano!r po9t1 ! inconsi/5cy & m5tal bl9dness ( wom5 are almo/ inconceivable--! insuffici5cy ( _! dress to resi/ ! attacks ( our v>iable climate4 ,h[ few wom5 clo! !mselves l rational be+s6 ,al?\gh1 9 latt] ye>s1 !y h wisely adopt$ ! use ( w>m dresses1 &1 m especially1 ( ! valuable ,scotti% plaid1 yet h[ commonly !y neglect ! aid ( flannel 9 pres]v+ !m n only f cold1 b 9 secur+ a necess>y circulation ( vitality 9 ! sk96 ',! necess>y effect ( defici5t circulation 9 ! sk91' rem>ks ,dr4 ,combe1 'is to ?r[ a disproportionate mass ( blood inw>ds2 & :5 ?is condition exi/s1 insuffici5t clo?+ p]petuates ! evil1 until int]nal disease is g5]at$1 & heal? is irrecov]ably lo/4' ,h[ common is ! compla9t among "y wom51 especially ^? ( s$5t>y habits1 ( *ill9ess1 cold feet1 & o!r symptoms ( defici5t circulation6 & yet h[ impossible w\ld x (t5 be--= wom5 are usually ob/9ate on ?is head--to induce !m to ex*ange ! ?9 silk /ock+ = a w>m m]9o "o1 or to sub/itute a prop] walk+ %oe = ! pap]-l articles :i* !y designate by t "n6 ,h5ce arise _m diseases1 :i* are1 by ins5sible degrees1 fo/]$ 9 ! sy/em by ! unequal di/ribution ( ! blood oppress+ ! int]nal organs4 ,! habitual t5d5cy to t *ill9ess :i* has be5 ref]r$ to %\ld nev] be disreg>d$1 'lay+1 z x does1' says ,dr4 ,combe1 '! f\ndation ( tub]cles 9 ! lungs1 & o!r maladies1 :i* %[ !mselves only :5 arriv$ at an incurable /age4' ',all ^? :o value heal?1 & h common s5se1 w !re=e take w>n+ f signs l ^!1 & nev] re/ until equilibrium ( action be re/or$4' ,w>m clo?+1 ex]cise 9 ! op5 air1 spong+ ) tepid wat] & v9eg>1 or ! w>m ba?1 ! use ( a fle%-bru% or hair-glove1 are adapt$ to rem$y ^! s]i\s & ?reat5+ evils4 ,b1 :il/ insuffici5cy ( clo?+ is to be deprecat$1 excessive wrapp+ up %\ld also be avoid$4 ,great diff]5ces exi/ betwe5 ! p[] ( g5]at+ heat & resi/+ cold 9 individuals1 & x is !re=e impossible to prescribe g5]al rules ^u ! subject ( clo?+4 ,! be/ maxim is1 n to dress 9 an inv>iable way 9 all cases1 b to put on clo?+ suffici5t 9 ! individual case1 to protect ! body effectively aga9/ ! s5sation ( cold4,c ,c ,dr4 ,combe4 ,! insuffici5cy ( w>m? 9 ! clo?+ ( females con/itutes only "o "p ( its injuri\s effects4 ,! tightness ( dress ob/ructs ! ins5sible p]spiration hurtfully1 & produces an irregul> circulation4 ,e "p & function ( ! human frame are l9k$ toge!r s closely1 t we _c act wrongly t[>ds "o organ )\t all suff]+1 nor act rightly )\t all %>+ ! b5efit ( our judgm5t & good s5se4 ,! mis*ief aris+ f cold or wet feet is admitt$ by all p]sons :o h giv5 ! subject ( heal? ev5 ! mo/ casual consid]ation4 ,9 conv]s+ ) v ag$ p1 y w g5]ally f9d a disreg>d ( diet1 & v diff]5t notions & practices ^u ! subject ( ex]cise & ablution2 b !y all agree 9 ! necessity ( keep+ ! feet dry4 ,i rememb] inquir+ ( a v5]able cl]gyman1 :o1 up to ! age ( n9ety-six1 _h enjoy$ a fair proportion ( heal?1 aft] a y\? ( delicacy4 ,i ask$ him :at sy/em he pursu$4 ',n[1' 0 8 reply1 ',i nev] took mu* c>e :at ,i ate2 ,i h always be5 temp]ate4 ,i nev] m9d$ ! wea!r2 b ,i always took c>e to keep my feet dry & well %od4' ,wet & damp are1 inde$1 m un:olsome :5 appli$ to ! feet ?an :5 !y affect o!r p>ts2 'because !y receive a great] supply ( blood to c>ry on a high degree ( p]spiration1 & because _! di/ance f ! he>t1 or c5tre ( circulation1 dim9i%es ! =ce ) :i* ?is is c>ri$ on1 & ?us leaves !m m susceptible f ext]nal causes4',d ,d ,dr4 ,combe4 ,god1 9 8 inf9ite b5evol5ce1 has giv5 to 8 creatures o!r means ( acquir+ a heal?y w>m? ?an by clo?+2 he has end[$ u ) ! p[] ( ex]cise--t bless+ :i* wom5 ( weak judgm5t & indol5t natures are s prone to neglect & disp>age4 ,mo/ ladies appe> to ?9k t ! privilege ( walk+ is only int5d$ = p]sons ( inf]ior condition4 ,!y busy !mselves1 9 _! 9-door occupations all ! morn+1 take a he>ty lun*eon1 & drive out 9 _! c>riages until d9n]-"t4 ,x is p>tly ow+ to su* cu/oms z ^! t a rapid det]ioration takes place 9 ! physical /ate ( our sex1 9 _! looks1 & 9 _! p[] ( utility1 & enjoym5t ( happ9ess4 ,god nev] int5d$ u to be inactive4 ,! *ief purpose ( ! muscles ) :i* we are end[$1 is to enable u to c>ry into effect ! volitions ( ! m9d2 &1 :il/ fulfill+ ?is gr& object1 ! active ex]cise ( ! muscles is conducive to ! well-be+ ( _m o!r important functions4 ,! processes ( dige/ion1 respiration1 secretion1 absorption1 & nutrition1 are promot$1 & ! heal?ful condition ( ! :ole body influ5c$4 ,! m9d also is depress$ or exhil>at$ by ! prop] or improp] use ( muscul> ex]cise2 = man is int5d$ = a life ( activity3 nor c 8 functions ev] g on s prop]ly z :5 he duly ex]cises ^? organs ) :i* ,nature has end[$ him4 ,! evils aris+ f want ( ex]cise are num]\s3--! circulation1 f ! abs5ce ( due /imulus1 becomes languid1 ! appetite & dige/ion are weak5$1 ! respiration is imp]fect1 & ! blood becomes s ill-condition$1 t :5 di/ribut$ ?r\gh ! body x is inadequate to communicate ! necess>y /imulus to heal?y & vigor\s action4 ,^! po9ts be+ e/abli%$1 x n[ becomes a consid]ation 9 :at mode1 or at :at p]iods1 ladies1 9 society1 c mo/ advantage\sly avail !mselves ( t privilege :i* is grant$ to s _m1 d5i$1 comp>atively1 to s few4 ,mu* is said on ! b5efits ( walk+ be=e breakfa/1 & to a p]son 9 full vigor x may1 !re is no d\bt1 be highly salut>y2 :il/1 to ! delicate1 x w prove m hurtful ?an b5eficial1 produc+ a s5se ( we>9ess :i* de/roys all ! future pleasures ( ! day4 ,i am dispos$ to ?9k1 h[ev]1 f obs]vation1 t walk+ be=e breakfa/ may be r5d]$ b5eficial almo/ to any "o by degrees4 ,mo/ p]sons walk too f> ! fir/ day2 !y are pr\d ( ! ef=t1 become1 nev]!less1 exhau/$1 & d>e n repeat x4 ,a fir/ walk be=e breakfa/ %\ld n exce$ a qu>t] ( a mile2 x %\ld be ext5d$1 v gradually1 &1 9 delicate wom51 ) great c>e1 le/ ov]-fatigue %\ld ensue4 ,x is1 h[ev]1 s valuable a habit1 su* a sav+ ( "t1 s refre%+1 s soo?+1 t _m sacrifices ( incl9ation %\ld be made to procure x2 9 a gay season ! fre%ness & seclusion ( a morn+'s walk is peculi>ly ne$$1 & :5 x becomes s difficult to take ex]cise 9 ! subsequ5t "p ( ! day1 ! aft]noon be+ too %ort1 & ! ev5+ too mu* occupi$4 ,& ! morn+'s walk1 /ol5 f ! h\r giv5 to a species ( repose :i* seldom re/s1 may be1 )\t ! reproa* ( indol5ce1 foll[$ by ! aft]noon's sie/a--a practice mu* to be comm5d$1 & greatly conducive to re/ ( n]ves & invigoration ( ! frame1 :5 us$ 9 mod]ation4 ,ex]cise may be tak51 by ! robu/1 at any "t1 ev5 aft] eat+ he>tily1 b ! delicate ought to avoid t risk2 !y %\ld resort to x only :5 ! frame is vigor\s en\gh to be> x1 & ?is is usually f "o to f\r or five h\rs aft] eat+4 ,! morn+ is1 !re=e1 ! be/ "t2 b ex]cise ought n to be delay$ until "s degree ( exhau/ion has tak5 place f want ( food1 z 9 t case x dissipates r ?an r5ovates ! rema9+ /r5g?1 & impairs dige/ion4 ,ex]cise imm$iately be=e meals is !re=e1 unless v g5tle1 injuri\s2 if x has be5 viol5t1 be=e eat+ re/ %\ld int]v5e4 ',appetite1' says ,dr4 ,combe1 'revives aft] repose4' ,( all modes ( ex]cise1 t :i* nature has be/[$ ^u u1 walk+1 is decid$ly ! mo/ salut>y2 & ! prevail+ sy/em ( sub/itut+ horse & c>riage ex]cise almo/ entirely = x1 is f> f be+ advantage\s to ! pres5t g5]ation4 ,walk+1 :i* has = its aim "s pleas+ pursuit1 &1 !re=e1 animates ! m9d1 is efficaci\s to ! majority4 ,g>d5+1 :i* is a modification ( walk+1 (f]s _m advantages bo? to ! delicate & ! /rong1 & x is a species ( ex]cise :i* we c adju/ to our p[]s4 ,9 a cont9u$ walk y mu/ g on--y mu/ return2 !re is no appeal1 ev5 if y h gone too f>1 & w\ld will+ly give up any fur!r ex]tion4 ,b1 :ile g>d5+1 y are /ill at home--y\r ex]tions are devot$ to objects ! mo/ int]e/+1 because progressive2 hope & fai? =m a "p ( y\r /imulus4 ,! happy future1 :5 fl[]s %all bloom ar\nd y1 sup]s$es 9 y\r ?\ghts ! vexati\s pres5t or ! m\rnful pa/4 ,ab\t y are ! budd+ treasures ( spr+1 or ! gorge\s productions ( summ]1 or ! ri* hues ( ^? beauties :i* autumn p\rs =? mo/ lavi%ly be=e x dep>ts1--& is succe$$ by w9t]4 ,above y are ! gay w>bl]s1 :o seem to hail y z y m+le 9 ! sylvan sc5es :i* are n all !irs1 b :i* y %>e & appropriate4 ,! ruffl$ temp]1 ! h>ass$ m9d1 may f9d a solace 9 ! occupation ( g>d5+1 :i* aids ! effect ( ex]cise & ! b5ign influ5ce ( fre% air4 ,/ores ( future & nev]-dy+ int]e/ are buri$ 9 ! e>? ) e se$1 only to spr+ up aga9 r$\bl$ 9 _! value4 ,a lady1 z a writ] 9 ! ',qu>t]ly ,review' obs]ves1 %\ld 'n only h b "k h] plants4' ,& h] enjoym5t ( ^? delights is truly enhanc$ by t p]sonal c>e1 )\t :i* few g>d5s1 h[ev] sup]9t5d$ by ! sci5tific g>d5]1 c prosp]1 & :i* bless z !y ?rive2 h] plants be/[ heal? on ! frame :i* is b[$ d[n to tra9 !m--!y give to h] ! bless+ ( a calm & rational pleasure--!y relieve h] f ! necessity ( excitem5t--!y promote alike1 9 ! weal?y & ! poor1 ^! g5tle ex]tions :i* are c\pl$ ) ! mo/ poetical & ! sweete/ ( associations4 ,ex]cise on horseback is n equally atta9able ) ! two modes :i* ,i h j specifi$2 :5 x is1 ! accel]at$ circulation1 ! *ange ( sc5e & ( ideas1 are highly b5eficial4 ,:]e ! lungs are weak1 x is ?\ght by ! le>n$ to possess a great advantage ov] walk+1 z x does n hurry ! brea?+4 ,! g5tl5ess ( ! ex]cise enables a delicate p]son to enjoy ! advantage ( op5 air & motion = a mu* long] p]iod ?an c\ld be endur$ 9 ! action ( walk+4 ,f ! t5d5cy ( horse ex]cise to equalize ! circulation & /imulate ! sk91 x is invaluable1 too1 = ! n]v\s & dyspeptic portion ( "y wom51 among :om1 unhappily1 su* compla9ts are b too preval5t4 ,danc+1 :i* is ! mo/ frequ5t mode ( ex]cise ) ladies 9 great cities1 practic$1 z x is1 9 heat$ rooms1 & exhau/+ f its viol5ce1 (t5 does m h>m ?an good1 f produc+ languor & ov]-fatigue4 ,unhappily !re are b few modes ( ex]cise 9-doors adapt$ = wom54 ,if1 f any circum/ances1 !y are conf9$ to _! homes1 & !y become fev]i% & languid f want ( ex]cise1 x nev] occurs to !m to ?r[ op5 ! w9d[s & to walk ab\t1 or to make use ( battl$ore & %uttlecock1 or any o!r mode ( ex]tion4 ,!y cont9ue sitt+1 read+1 or walk+1 or l\ng+1 or sleep+1 or gossip+1--:il/ ! bloom ( heal? is rapidly giv+ place to ! wanness & debility ( ! imprison$ frame4 ,x is (t5 ! cu/om ( "y wom5 to decl>e t !y _c walk1 sometimes f indol5ce1 no d\bt1 & want ( habit1 occasionally f real inability4 ,b if we inve/igate ! causes ( ?is real inability1 we %all (t5 f9d x to proce$ f an improp] *oice ( "t 9 tak+ ex]cise1 or f a defective judgm5t 9 ! mann] ( tak+ x4 ,_m wom5 exhau/ & fatigue !mselves ) ! duties ( _! h\se1 & by a ?\s& try+ occupations1 includ+ t :i* =ms a s]i\s item 9 ! day's "w1 namely1 runn+ up & d[n /airs1 & !n discov] t !y _c walk4 ,o!rs g to extremes1 & walk = a c]ta9 di/ance1 :e!r !y feel fatigu$ or n by su* ex]tions4 ',x is only1' obs]ves ,dr4 ,combe1 'by a diffusion ( ! laws ( ex]cise z a "p ( useful education1 t individuals c be enabl$ to avoid su* mi/akes1' ,to be b5eficial1 ex]cise %\ld always be proportion$ to ! /r5g? & to ! con/itution ( an individual4 ,:5 x causes extreme fatigue or exhau/ion1 x is hurtful2 x ought to be resum$ always aft] a p]iod ( re/1 & adopt$ regul>ly1 n1 z too _m p]sons are 9 ! habit ( do+1 once 9 f\r or five days4 ,! av]age walk :i* a "y woman 9 good heal? & 9 ord9>y circum/ances1 may take1 )\t undue & injuri\s fatigue1 is f f\r to five miles a-day4 ,f ?is rule ,i except ! v "y4 ,x has be5 f\nd by exp]i5ce t until tw5ty-two or ?ree ! /r5g? is n completely matur$4 ,! rate ( mortality1 z x has be5 prov$ by /ati/ical tables1 increases 9 all classes ( society f f\rte5 until ! age ( tw5ty-?ree1 :5 x beg9s to decrease4 ,ano!r precaution :i* ,i w\ld recomm5d to ^? :o h ! regulation ( families "u _! c>e1 relates to ! subject ( v5tilation4 ,! heat$ /ate ( our rooms 9 ord9>y occupation is "o great s\rce ( all ^? mis*iefs :i* arise f cat*+ cold1 a subject on :i* ,mr4 ,ab]ne?y 0 wont to decl>e1 t 'a v useful book might be writt54' ,!re are "s h\ses into :i* "o c nev] ent] ) impunity1 f ! want ( due v5tilation4 ,h\semaids1 m especially1 h an insupportable objection to op5+ w9d[s1 on acc\nt ( ! du/ :i* flies 9 & settles ^u ! furniture4 ,?is evil--= ! soil+ ( furniture c]ta9ly may be call$ an evil--may easily be obviat$ by fa/5+ a musl9 bl9d aga9/ ! op5 w9d[1 or by p9n+ a l>ge piece ( co>se musl9 aga9/ x1 s t ! du/y p>ticles w be exclud$4 ,g5]ally our ord9>y sitt+-rooms are tol]ably well v5tilat$ by ! op5+ & %utt+ ( doors1 ! size ( ! fire-place1 c41 b 9 our b$-rooms ! vitiation ( ! air is f> great]1 ow+ to ^! rooms be+ :olly clos$ dur+ ! sev5 or eight h\rs 9 :i* we sleep 9 !m1 &1 also1 ow+ to ! mass ( curta9s ) :i* we usually take c>e to surr\nd our b$s4 ,9 ?is respect we are1 inde$1 improv$1 by ! introduction ( ,fr5* b$/eads1 :i* are among ! mo/ valuable ( mod]n sugge/ions4 ,b1 not)/&+ ?is improvem5t1 & _m o!rs :i* reflection & sci5ce h contribut$ to introduce1 we incur mu* suff]+ f our ignorance & prejudice on ! subject ( v5tilation4 ,= g5]ations1 society has exp]i5c$ ! evil effects ( ! want ( v5tilation1 & has felt 9 t[ns its results 9 ! =m ( fev]s1 g5]al ill-heal?1 cutane\s & n]v\s diseases2 & yet ! mo/ direful ignorance cont9ues on ?is subject4 ,hospitals are among ! few well-v5tilat$ build+s :i* are erect$1 because an idea prevails t v5tilation is ess5tial = ! sick1 b x seems to h be5 =gott5 t :at is ess5tial = ! recov]y ( heal? is equally necess>y = its pres]vation4 ',71' says ,dr4 ,combe1 'a g5]al k ( ! /ructure ( man to con/itute a regul> "p ( a lib]al education1 su* inconsi/5cies z ?is w\ld soon disappe>1 & ! sci5tific ar*itect w\ld spe$ily devise ! be/ means = supply+ our h\ses ) pure air1 z he has already suppli$ !m ) pure wat]4' ,,*apt] ,,xxvi4 ,,miscellane\s4 ,!re are _m little pieces ( rud5ess1 only too common1 :i*1 :ile !y ev9ce ill-bre$+1 & are _m ( !m extremely annoy+1 yet !y are met ) e day1 & 9 p]sons o!rwise well-br$4 ,z !y come "u no p>ticul> head1 !y w m]ely be m5tion$ "h1 z habits c>efully to avoid4 ,x is rude to look ov] ! %\ld] ( a p]son :o is ei!r read+ or writ+1 yet x is done e day4 ,to /& ) ! arms a-kimbo1 ! h&s on ! hips1 or ) ! arms cross$1 :ile conv]s+1 is exce$+ly unlady-l4 ,avoid re/less movem5ts ei!r ) ! h&s1 or feet2 to sit p]fectly quiet1 )\t /iffness1 easily1 yet at ! same "t almo/ motionless1 is "o ( ! sure/ pro(s ( high-bre$+4 ,if y wi% to make y\rself agreeable to any "o1 talk z mu* z y please ab\t 8 or h] affairs1 & z little z possible ab\t y\r own4 ,avoid pass+ be=e p]sons seat$ 9 ! same room ) y\rself4 ,if y mu/ rise to move f place to place1 endeavor to pass beh9d ! *airs ( y\r companions4 ,above all1 nev] pass betwe5 two p]sons :o are conv]s+ toge!r4 ,avoid p]sonal rem>ks2 !y ev9ce a want ( judgm5t1 good ta/e1 k9dness1 & polit5ess4 ,to ex*ange glances or significant smiles ) a ?ird p]son1 :il/ engag$ 9 a conv]sation ) a second1 is a pro( ( l[-bre$+4 ,suppress$ laught]1 %rugg+ ( ! %\ld]s1 roll+ ( ! eyes1 & significant glances are all m>ks ( ill-bre$+4 ,if y meet a g5tleman at ! foot ( a flight ( /airs1 d n g up be=e him4 ,/op1 b[1 & motion to him to prec$e y4 ,he w return y\r b[1 & run up1 leav+ y to foll[ him4 ,nev] :isp]1 or make any confid5tial communication 9 company4 ,keep private rem>ks = private occasions4 ,accept+ pres5ts f g5tlem5 is a dang]\s ?+4 ,x is bett] to avoid any su* obligations1 &1 if y make x a rule nev] to accept su* pres5ts1 y w avoid hurt+ any "o's feel+s1 & save y\rself f all fur!r p]plexity4 ,9 meet+ y\r eld]ly fri5ds 9 ! /reet1 look at !m long en\gh to give !m an opportunity ( recogniz+ y2 & if !y d s1 return _! salutations respectfully1 n ) ! famili> nod y w\ld give to "o ( y\r own age4 ,nev] rema9 seat$1 :il/ a p]son old] ?an y\rself is /&+ be=e y1 talk+ to y4 ,nev] l\nge on a s(a1 :ile !re are ^? 9 ! room1 ^: ye>s give !m a bett] claim to ?is sort ( indulg5ce4 ,nev] tease a p]son to d :at %e has once decl9$4 ,nev] refuse a reque/ or invitation 9 ord] to be urg$1 & accept aft]w>ds4 ,comply at once4 ,if ! reque/ is s9c]e1 y w ?us af=d gratification2 if n1 ! individual mak+ x des]ves to be puni%$ = ins9c]ity1 by be+ tak5 at h] ^w4 ,x is n polite :5 ask$ :at "p ( a di% y w h1 to say1 ,any "p--x is q indiff]5t to me2 x is h>d en\gh to c>ve = "o's fri5ds1 )\t *oos+ = !m4 ,x is n polite to ent]ta9 a visitor ) y\r own family hi/ory1 or ! ev5ts ( y\r own h\sehold4 ,x is n polite = m>ri$ ladies to talk1 9 ! pres5ce ( g5tlem51 ( ! difficulty !y h 9 procur+ dome/ics1 & h[ good-=-no?+ !y are :5 procur$4 ,x is n polite to put food ^u ! plate ( a gue/ )\t ask+ leave1 or to press h] to eat m ?an %e wants4 ,x is n polite to />e "u ladies' bonnets1 z if y suspect$ !y _h /ol5 ! l9+s f y1 or wore some?+ t 0 n _! own4 ,nev] affect a fooli% res]ve 9 a mix$ company1 keep+ alo( f o!rs z if 9 a /ate ( m5tal ab/raction4 ,if y\r bra9 is s full & s busy t y _c att5d to ! little civilities1 *e]ful *it-*at1 & light amusem5ts ( society1 keep out ( x4 ,nev] read 9 company4 ,y may op5 a book to look ov] ! engrav+s1 if y w1 b d n att5d to ! lett]-press until y are alone4 ,nev] je/ ^u s]i\s subjects4 ,avoid sc&al4 ,if ano!r p]son attempts to op5 a conv]sation ^u sc&al\s matt]s1 *eck h]4 ,say gravely t x is pa9ful = y to he> ( ! faults or mis=tunes ( o!rs1 :]e y\r c\nsel & assi/ance c be ( no s]vice4 ,_m p]sons1 ^: tongues nev] utt] a sc&al\s ^w1 w1 by a significant glance1 a %rug ( ! %\ld]s1 a sne]1 or curl ( ! lip1 really make m mis*ief1 & sugge/ h>d] ?\ghts ?an if !y us$ ! sev]e/ language4 ,?is is utt]ly dete/able4 ,if y h y\r tongue "u p]fect control1 y c also control y\r looks1 & y are c[>dly1 contemptible1 & wick$1 :5 y enc\rage & c\nt5ance sl&] by a look or ge/ure4 ,nev] speak ( g5tlem5 by _! fir/ "n unless y are relat$ to !m4 ,x is v unlady-l to use ! surname1 )\t ! prefix1 ,mr4 ,to he> a lady speak ( ,smi?1 ,br[n1 ,&]son1 in/ead ( ,mr4 ,&]son or ,mr4 ,smi? s\nds extremely vulg>1 & is a m>k ( l[ bre$+4 ,avoid ecc5tricity ei!r 9 dress1 conv]sation1 or mann]4 ,x is a =m ( vanity1 z x w attract att5tion1 & is !re=e 9 bad ta/e4 ,nev] act z if 9 a hurry4 ,ease ( action ne$ n imply laz9ess1 b simply polite self-possession4 ,nev] laugh at y\r own wit4 ,t is ! "p ( ^? :o he> y1 & if y take _! duty f !m1 !y may omit to jo9 y 9 y\r laugh4 ,d n indulge 9 ridicule4 ,x is co>se & unlady-l z well z unfeel+4 ,l e o!r p]sonality1 x %\ld be c>efully avoid$4 ,nev] h&le any ornam5t or article ( furniture 9 ! room 9 :i* y are a visitor4 ,d n lean y\r head aga9/ ! wall4 ,y leave an indelible m>k ^u ! pap]1 or1 if ! wall is :itewa%$1 y give y\r hair a d+y1 du/y look1 by br++ x into contact ) ! lime4 ,nev] lean =w>d ^u a table4 ,let nei!r h&s nor arms re/ !re heavily4 ,to be/[ flatt]y ^u a p]son to 8 face1 betrays a want ( delicacy2 yet1 n less s1 rudely to rebuke 8 errors or m5tion 8 faults1 & n h a t5d] reg>d = 8 feel+s4 ,x is n improp]1 & may sometimes be v k9d to m5tion to an individual :at y\rself & o!rs ?9k ( 8 conduct or p]=mances1 :5 x is = 8 int]e/ or usefulness to "k x4 ,to express to a fri5d des]v$ approbation is g5]ally prop]4 ,no?+ b a quick p]ception ( ! feel+s ( o!rs1 & a ready sympa?y ) !m1 c regulate ! ?\s& little proprieties t belong to visits ( condol5ce & congratulation4 ,!re is "o h9t1 h[ev]1 z reg>ds ! =m]1 :i* may p]haps be useful1 & t is1 n to t\* ^u ! cause ( affliction1 unless ! m\rn] leads ! way to x2 & if a pa9ful ef=t is made to appe> *e]ful1 & to keep alo( f ! subject1 d n make ! slighte/ allusion t c\ld increase ?is feel+4 ,:5 at table to press y\r gue/s to take m ?an !y h incl9ation =1 is antiquat$ & rude4 ,?is does n1 h[ev]1 prev5t y\r recomm5d+ p>ticul> di%es to _! att5tion4 ,ev]y?+ l compulsion is q explod$4 ,x is a great mi/ake to suppose t ! be/ music is ! mo/ difficult ( execution4 ,! v rev]se1 g5]ally speak+1 is ! case4 ,music ( a high ord] c]ta9ly dem&s high gifts & atta9m5ts on ! "p ( ! p]=m]4 ,b ! gifts ( nature may be possess$ by ! amateur z well z by ! pr(essor2 & ! atta9m5ts ( art may be ! result ( mod]ate /udy & application4 ,a "y lady possess$ ( a sweet & tunable voice1 a good e>1 intellig5ce1 & feel+1 may cultivate music 9 its gr&e/ & mo/ beautiful =ms1 & may r5d] its practice a s\rce ( ! pure/ enjoym5t1 n only to h]self b to h] dome/ic & social circle4 ,! v>i\s c]emonies obs]v$ 9 ref9$ society are v useful 9 settl+ little po9ts1 on :i* !re might o!rwise be mu* d\bt & p]plexity2 b !y %\ld nev] be s /r5u\sly insi/$ ^u z to make an accid5tal omission ( !m a gr\nd ( res5tm5t1 & an apology %\ld always be accept$ 9 _! place4 ,y\r enjoym5t ( a p>ty dep5ds f> less on :at y f9d !re1 ?an on :at y c>ry ) y4 ,! va91 ! ambiti\s1 ! design+1 w be full ( anxiety :5 !y g1 & ( disappo9tm5t :5 !y return4 ,a %ort triumph w be foll[$ by a deep mortification1 & ! selfi%ness ( _! aims defeats itself4 ,if y g to see1 & to he>1 & to make ! be/ ( :atev] occurs1 ) a disposition to admire all t is beautiful1 & to sympa?ize 9 ! pleasures ( o!rs1 y c h>dly fail to sp5d ! "t pleasantly4 ,! less y ?9k ( y\rself & y\r claims to att5tion1 ! bett]4 ,if y are mu* att5d$ to1 receive x mode/ly1 & consid] x z a happy accid5t2 if y are little notic$1 use y\r leisure 9 obs]v+ o!rs4 ,x 7 unju/ & ungrateful to conceive t ! amusem5ts ( life are altoge!r =bidd5 by its b5efic5t ,au?or4 ,!y s]ve1 on ! contr>y1 important purposes 9 ! economy ( human life1 & are de/9$ to produce important effects bo? ^u our happ9ess & "*4 ,!y are1 9 ! fir/ place1 9 ! language ( ! ,psalmi/1 ! wells ( ! des]t2 ! k9d re/+-places 9 :i* toil may relax1 9 :i* ! we>y _s may recov] its tone1 & :]e ! despond+ m9d may resume its /r5g? & its hopes4 ,x is n1 !re=e1 ! use ( ! innoc5t amusem5ts ( life :i* is dang]\s1 b ! abuse ( !m2 x is n :5 !y are occasionally1 b :5 !y are con/antly pursu$2 & :51 f be+ an occasional indulg5ce1 x becomes an habitual desire4 ,wom5 9 ! middle rank are br\ght up ) ! idea t if !y engage 9 "s occupations1 !y %all lose _! position 9 society4 ,suppose x to be s2 surely x is wis] to quit a position we _c hone/ly ma9ta91 ?an to live dep5d5t ^u ! b\nty & caprice ( o!rs2 bett] to labor ) our h&s1 ?an eat ! bread ( idl5ess2 or submit to feel t we mu/ n give utt]ance to our real op9ions1 or express our hone/ indignation at be+ requir$ to act a base or unwor?y "p4 ,& 9 all cases1 h[ev] situat$1 e female ought to le>n h[ all h\sehold affairs are manag$1 7 x only = ! purpose ( be+ able to direct o!rs4 ,!re _c be any disgrace 9 le>n+ h[ to make ! bread we eat1 to cook our d9n]s1 to m5d our clo!s1 or ev5 to clean ! h\se4 ,bett] to be f\nd busily engag$ 9 remov+ ! du/ f ! furniture1 ?an to let x accumulate !re until a visitor leaves palpable traces :]e 8 hat or 8 arm h be5 laid ^u a table4 ,nev] put temptation 9 a s]vant's way2 nev] be sev]e = trifl+ (f5ces1 su* z accid5tally break+ any?+1 b res]ve y\r sev]ity = ^? (f5ces :i* are moral evils1 su* z a want ( tru?1 g5]al laxity ( pr9ciple1 c4 ,! ord]s giv5 to s]vants %\ld be cle> & def9ite2 & !y %\ld be tra9$ z mu* z possible to p]=m _! duties regul>ly1 s t e morn+ !y may "k pretty ne>ly :at w be expect$ ( !m dur+ ! day4 ,x is a great po9t to live1 :5 y are alone1 z if y expect$ company2 t is to say1 to h ev]y?+ s neat & ord]ly t y ne$ n be a%am$ ( any "o see+ y\r table4 ,x is v little m tr\ble1 & c]ta9ly no m exp5se2 & ! advantages 9 po9t ( com=t are unspeakable4 ,if a fooli% girl1 by d9t ( squeez+ & brac+ ) busk & bones1 secures ! conv5tional beauty ( a wasp wai/1 %e is tol]ably c]ta9 to ga9 an addition %e by no means b>ga9$ =1 a r$ nose1 :i*1 9 numb]less in/ances1 is produc$ by no o!r cause ?an ! unnatural gir?1 ob/ruct+ circulation1 & caus+ /agnation ( ! blood1 9 t prom95t & important feature4 ,(t51 9 assemblages ( ! fair1 we h se5 noses faultless 9 =m1 b t+$ ) ! abhorr$ hue1 to :i* wa%es & cosmetics h be5 appli$ 9 wild despair2 b 9 va96 ,if ! lovely own]s _h kn[n ! cause1 h[ spe$ily ! effect w\ld h vani%$6 = surely ! mo/ p]v]se admir] ( a di/ort$ sp9e & compress$ lungs1 w\ld deem ! acquisition ( a dram-dr9k]'s nose1 too heavy a condition to be compli$ )4 ,a well-br$ woman w n dem& z a "r :at %e may h a claim to expect f ! polit5ess ( ! o!r sex1 nor %[ dissatisfaction & res5tm5t if %e fancies h]self neglect$4 ,= want ( good bre$+ "s females are exorbitant 9 _! expectations1 & appe> un?ankful ev5 :5 ev]y?+ is done :i* true polit5ess dem&s4 ,"y wom5 %\ld gu>d aga9/ ?is unamiable defect4 ,a well-br$ p]son w take c>e n to use slang words & expressions4 ,!re nev] has be5 a "t1 at lea/ 9 late ye>s1 :5 !re h n be5 "s two or ?ree cant vulg>isms 9 vogue among all ! blackgu>ds ( ! c\ntry4 ,sometimes ^! phrases h be5 caught up f "s popul> song or f>ce2 sometimes1 we believe1 !y h _h _! orig9 :]e assembles ! collective wisdom ( ! c\ntry4 ,a doz5 ( ^! t]se b mean+less say+s n[ dance be=e our recollection1 = :o has n he>d !m1 ev5 to loa?+8 ,b f :atev] s\rce !y may h be5 drawn1 or :atev] wit !re might be 9 _! orig9al position1 ! obtrusion ( !m into dec5t society is an unw>rantable piece ( imp]t95ce4 ,a habit ( ins]t+ into famili> conv]sation su* phrases z ,y "k1 ,y p]ceive1 ,y und]/&1 ,says he1 ,says %e1 is1 s f> z ^? matt]s ext5d1 a sign ( a want ( good bre$+4 ,) reg>d to any specific rules = dress+1 we d n pret5d to arbitrate 9 su* matt]s4 ,let a true s5se ( propriety1 ( ! fitness ( ?+s1 regulate all y\r habits ( liv+ & dress+1 & x w produce su* a beautiful h>mony & consi/5cy ( "* z w ?r[ a *>m ar\nd y t all w feel1 ?\gh few may compreh5d4 ,always consid] well :e!r ! articles ( dress1 :i* y wi% to pur*ase1 are suit$ to y\r age1 y\r condition1 y\r means2 to ! climate1 to ! p>ticul> use to :i* y mean to put !m2 & let ! pr9ciples ( good ta/e keep y f ! extremes ( ! fa%ion1 & regulate ! =m1 s z to comb9e utility & beauty1 :il/ ! kn[n rules ( h>mony 9 colors save y f %ock+ ! eye ( ! arti/ by incongru\s mixtures4 ,mann]s1 says ! eloqu5t ,edmund ,burke1 are ( m importance ?an laws4 ,^u !m1 9 a great measure1 ! laws dep5d4 ,! law c t\* u "h & !re1 n[ & !n4 ,mann]s are :at vex or soo?1 corrupt or purify1 exalt or debase1 b>b>ise or ref9e1 by a con/ant1 /eady1 uni=m1 ins5sible op]ation1 l t ( ! air we brea! 94 ,!y give _! :ole =m & colors to our lives4 ,accord+ to _! quality !y aid morals1 !y supply !m1 or !y totally de/roy !m4 ,,f\r ,,important ,,rules4 ,ord] is heav5's fir/ law4 #a4 ,a suitable place = ev]y?+1 & ev]y?+ 9 its place4 #b4 ,a prop] "t = ev]y?+1 & ev]y?+ done 9 its "t4 #c4 ,a di/9ct "n = ev]y?+1 & ev]y?+ call$ by its "n4 #d4 ,a c]ta9 use = ev]y?+1 & ev]y?+ put to its use4 ,mu* "t w\ld be sav$2 _m disputes avoid$2 num]\s articles kept f be+ lo/ or injur$1 & con/ant confusion & disord] prev5t$1 by ! /rict obs]vance ( ^! f\r important rules4 ,disp5se ) ornam5ts altoge!r r ?an we> mock jewelry4 ,dep5d ^u x1 silv]y hair is bett] adapt$ to ! fad$ *eeks ( middle age1 ?an are tresses ( nut-br[n or coal-black1 or any ( ! my/]i\s %ades produc$ by a dirty decoction call$ ,hair-dye4 ,! habitual use ( v ?9 %oes inv>iably makes ! feet t5d]1 & a ho/ ( o!r inconv5i5ces arise !refrom4 ,if y are tempt$ to pur*ase tight %oes1 don't1 = sev]al reasons2 b "o may suffice--y w n we> !m m ?an twice4 ,if y are n q c]ta9 ( ! l9e betwe5 neatness & ! rev]se1 be ov]-scrupul\s ab\t y\r "u g>m5ts4 ,! edge ( a soil$ petticoat1 or ! glimpse ( a r5t /ock+ is s+ul>ly dis5*ant+4 ,m5 ( s5se--,i speak n ( boys ( eighte5 to five & tw5ty1 dur+ _! age ( dete/ability--m5 :o are wor? ! tr\ble ( fall+ 9 love )1 & ! fuss & inconv5i5ce1 ( be+ m>ri$ to1 & to :om "o might1 aft] "s inw>d conflicts1 & a c\rse p]haps ( fa/+ & self-humiliation1 submit to fulfil ^? ill-contriv$ v[s ( ob$i5ce :i* are exact$ at ! alt>1 su* m5 want1 = _! wives1 companions1 n dolls2 & wom5 :o w\ld suit su* m5 are j z capable ( lov+ f]v5tly1 deeply1 z ! ,r+lett9a1 full ( song & s5tim5t1 :o _c walk1 _c rise 9 ! morn+1 _c tie h] bonnet-/r+s1 fa9ts if %e has to lace h] boots1 nev] 9 h] life bru%$ out h] beautiful hair1 w\ld n = ! _w prick h] delicate f+] ) pla9 sew+2 b :o c "w h>d] ?an a factory girl ^u a lamb's-wool %eph]dess1 dance l a d]vise at balls1 ride l a fox-hunt]1 &1 :il/ e brea? ( air gives h] cold 9 h] fa!r's h\se1 & %e _c ?9k h[ p c endure ?is climate1 %e c g out to p>ties 9 ,febru>y & ,m>*1 ) an in* ( sleeve & half-a-qu>t] ( boddice4 ,all circum/ances well exam9$1 !re c be no d\bt ,provid5ce has will$ t man %\ld be ! head ( ! human race1 ev5 z woman is its he>t2 t he %\ld be its /r5g?1 z %e is its solace2 t he %\ld be its wisdom1 z %e is its grace2 t he %\ld be its m9d1 its impetus1 & its c\rage1 z %e is its s5tim5t1 its *>m1 & its consolation4 ,too great an amelioration c\ld n be effect$1 9 our op9ion1 9 ! sy/em g5]ally adopt$1 :i*1 f> f correct+ or ev5 comp5sat+ ! presum$ intellectual inequality ( ! two sexes1 g5]ally s]ves only to increase x4 ,by plac+1 = example1 danc+ & ne$le-"w at ! extreme poles ( female /udy1 ! "o = its attraction & ! o!r = its utility1 & by n fill+ ! imm5se int]val ) any?+ m valuable ?an m]e monoton\s1 imp]fect1 sup]ficial1 & totally unphilosophical notions1 ?is sy/em has made ( ! great] numb] ( female sem9>ies1 e/abli%m5ts :i* may be comp>$ alike to nurs]y-gr\nds = coquettes & semp/resses4 ,x is nev] rememb]$ t 9 dome/ic life conv]sation is ( m importance ?an ! ne$le or *oregraphy2 t a husb& is nei!r a pa*a nor a lazz>one1 :o mu/ be p]petually intoxicat$ or unceas+ly pat*$2 t !re are ^u ! conjugal dial _m long h\rs ( calm intimacy1 ( cool contemplation1 ( cold t5d]ness2 & t ! husb& makes ano!r home else:]e if 8 own he>? (f]s him only sil5ce2 or :at is a hundr$ times worse1 m]ely frivol\s & monoton\s disc\rse4 ,let ! woman play ! gossip at a giv5 mom5t1 t is all v well2 let h] sup]9t5d ! laundry or ! kit*5 at ano!r1 t is also v well2 b ^! duties only comprise two-?irds ( h] mission4 ,ought c>e n to be tak5 t dur+ ! re/ ( h] "t %e c\ld also be capable ( becom+ to h] husb& a rational fri5d1 a *e]ful p>tn]1 an int]e/+ companion1 or1 at lea/1 an effici5t li/5]1 ^: natural intellig5ce1 ev5 if orig9ally inf]ior to 8 own1 %all1 by ! help ( education1 h be5 rais$ to ! same level6 ,pascal says3 ,k9d words d n co/ mu*4 ,!y nev] bli/] ! tongue or lips4 ,& we h nev] he>d ( any m5tal tr\ble aris+ f ?is qu>t]4 ,?\gh !y d n co/ mu*4 #a4 ,!y help "o's own good nature4 ,s(t words s(t5 our own s\l4 ,angry words are fuel to ! flame ( wra?1 & make x blaze m fi]cely4 #b4 ,k9d words make o!r p good natur$4 ,cold words freeze p1 & hot words scor* !m1 & bitt] words make !m bitt]1 & wra?ful words make !m wra?ful4 ,!re is su* a ru% ( all o!r k9ds ( words 9 our days1 t x seems desirable to give k9d words a *ange among !m4 ,!re are va9 words1 & idle words1 & ha/y words1 & spiteful words1 & silly words1 & empty words1 & pr(ane words1 & boi/]\s words1 & w>like words4 ,k9d words also produce _! own image on m5's s\ls4 ,& a beautiful image x is4 ,!y smoo?1 & quiet1 & com=t ! he>]4 ,!y %ame him out ( 8 s\r1 morose1 unk9d feel+s4 ,we h n yet begun to use k9d words 9 su* abundance z !y ought to be us$4 ,a writ] 9 ! ,new ,york ,obs]v]1 speak+ ( ! necessity ( gu>d+ ! tongue1 says3-- ,x is always well to avoid say+ ev]y?+ t is improp]2 b x is especially s be=e *ildr54 ,& "h p>5ts1 z well z o!rs1 are (t5 9 fault4 ,*ildr5 h z _m e>s z gr[n p]sons1 & !y are g5]ally m att5tive to :at is said be=e !m4 ,:at !y he>1 !y are v apt to repeat2 &1 z !y h no discretion1 & n suffici5t k ( ! _w to disguise any?+1 x is g5]ally f\nd t '*ildr5 & fools speak ! tru?4' ,see t boy's eyes gli/5 :ile y are speak+ ( a neighbor 9 a language y w\ld n wi% to h repeat$4 ,he does n fully und]/& :at y mean1 b he w rememb] e ^w2 & x w be /range if he does n cause y to blu% by ! repetition4 ,a g5tleman 0 9 ! habit ( call+ at a neighbor's h\se1 & ! lady _h always express$ to him great pleasure f 8 calls4 ,"o day1 j aft] %e _h rem>k$ to him1 z usual1 h] happ9ess f 8 visit1 h] little boy ent]$ ! room4 ,! g5tleman took him on 8 knee1 & ask$1 ',are y n glad to see me1 ,george8' ',no1 sir1' repli$ ! boy4 ',:y n1 my little man8' he cont9u$4 ',because "m don't want y to come1' said ,george4 ',inde$6 h[ d y "k t1 ,george8' ,"h ! "m became crimson1 & look$ dagg]s at h] little son4 ,b he saw no?+1 & !re=e repli$1 ',because1 %e said ye/]day1 %e wi%$ t old bore w\ld n call "h aga94' ,t 0 en\gh4 ,! g5tleman's hat 0 soon 9 requisition1 & he left ) ! impression t 'great is ! tru?1 & x w prevail4' ,ano!r little *ild look$ %>ply 9 ! face ( a visitor1 & be+ ask$ :at %e meant by x1 repli$1 ',i want$ to see if y _h a drop 9 y\r eye2 ,i he>d "m say y _h frequ5tly4' ,a boy once ask$ "o ( 8 fa!r's gue/s :o x 0 t liv$ next door to him1 & :5 he he>d 8 "n1 inquir$ if he 0 n a fool4 ',no1 my little fri5d1' repli$ ! gue/1 'he is n a fool1 b a v s5sible man4 ,b :y did y ask t "q8' ',because1' repli$ ! boy1 '"m said ! o!r day1 t y 7 next door to a fool2 & ,i want$ to "k :o liv$ next door to y4' ,! be/ way to ov]come ! selfi%ness & rud5ess y sometimes meet ) on public occasions1 is1 by great polit5ess & dis9t]e/$ness on y\r "p2 ov]come evil ) good1 & y w satisfy y\r own consci5ce1 &1 p]haps1 t\* !irs4 ,cont5d+ = y\r rights /irs up ! selfi% feel+s 9 o!rs2 b a read9ess to yield !m awak5s g5]\s s5tim5ts1 & leads to mutual accommodation4 ,! m ref9$ y are1 & ! great] h be5 y\r advantages1 ! m polite & consid]ate y %\ld be t[>d o!rs1 ! m ready to give place to "s poor1 un$ucat$ girl1 :o kn[s no bett] ?an to pu% h]self directly 9 y\r way4 ,polit5ess is z necess>y to a happy int]c\rse ) ! inhabitants ( ! kit*51 z ) ^? ( ! p>lor2 x less5s ! pa9s ( s]vice1 promotes k9d feel+s on bo? sides1 & *ecks unbecom+ famili>ity2 always ?ank !m = :at !y d = y1 & always ask r ?an comm& _! s]vices4 ,( late ye>s1 ! we>+ ( jewelry1 9 season & out ( season1 bo? by matrons & unm>ri$ females1 has increas$ va/ly4 ,x is an indication t ! gr[+ weal? ( ! p is n accompani$ by a correspond+ ref9em5t2 b t ! love ( vulg> %[1 ! l[ pride ( o/5tation1 takes ! place ( a pure & elevat$ ta/e4 ,! emulation ) fa%ionable dames1 n[-a-days1 s f> f be+1 z ) ! ,sp>tan wom51 to excel ea* o!r 9 h\sehold virtues1 is to we> ! l>ge/ diamonds4 ,&1 9 ?is ambition1 !y =get fitness1 beauty1 ta/e1 ev]y?+ b ! m]e vulg> desire to %9e4 ,to be gracefully & elegantly attir$1 9 %ort1 is second>y to ! desire to be a sort ( jewel]'s walk+ %[-c>d4 ,we d n oppose ! use ( diamonds & pe>ls altoge!r1 z "s p]sons might imag9e f ^! rem>ks4 ,a few diamonds1 judici\sly worn1 look well1 on prop] occasions1 on m>ri$ wom54 ,b "y girls r>ely1 or nev]1 improve _! appe>ance by ! use ( ^! dazzl+ jewels2 &1 z a g5]al rule1 ! simpl] ! co/ume ( a woman 9 h] te5s1 ! bett]4 ,wom5 are usually pretty1 up to ! age ( tw5ty1 at lea/4 ,consequ5tly1 at ?is p]iod ( life1 !re are few :om an elaborate attire does n injure2 a simple dress1 or a rose-bud 9 ! hair1 is frequ5tly all t is requir$2 & m only spoils t comb9ation ( y\?fulness1 grace1 & mode/y1 :i* x %\ld be ! highe/ ambition ( ! girl to atta92 because1 if %e did b "k x1 x is h] highe/ *>m4 ,in/ead ( ?is1 h[ev]1 we see gay females1 sc>cely fre$ f ! nurs]y1 we>+ enorm\s jewel$ e>-drops1 or sport+ on ! f+]1 a diamond r+ z l>ge z a sixp5ce4 ,sometimes1 too1 ladies pret5d+ to be well-br$1 desc5d to receive a morn+ visitor ( _! own sex1 glitt]+ l a jewel]'s case1 ) co/ly gems4 ,9 all ?is1 we repeat1 !re is nei!r ref9em5t nor elegance1 b simply vulg> o/5tation4 ,female dress has ceas$ to be a means ( beautify+ ! p]son or display+ ! we>]'s ta/e1 & has become in/ead1 a m]e brag ( ! husb&'s or fa!r's weal?4 ,a k ( dome/ic duties is beyond all price to a woman4 ,e "o ( ! sex ought to "k h[ to sew1 & knit1 & m5d1 & cook1 & sup]9t5d a h\sehold4 ,9 e situation ( life1 high or l[1 ?is sort ( k is ( great advantage4 ,!re is no necessity t ! ga9+ ( su* in=mation %\ld int]f]e ) intellectual acquirem5t or ev5 elegant accompli%m5t4 ,a well-regulat$ m9d c f9d "t to att5d to all4 ,:5 a girl is n9e or t5 ye>s old1 %e %\ld be accu/om$ to take "s regul> %>e 9 h\sehold duties1 & to feel responsible = ! mann] 9 :i* h] "p is p]=m$--su* z h] own m5d+1 wa%+ ! cups & putt+ !m 9 place1 clean+ silv]1 or du/+ & arrang+ ! p>lor4 ,?is %\ld n be done occasionally1 & neglect$ :5ev] %e f9ds x conv5i5t--%e %\ld consid] x h] dep>tm5t4 ,:5 old] ?an twelve1 girls %\ld beg9 to take turns 9 sup]9t5d+ ! h\sehold--mak+ pudd+s1 pies1 cakes1 c4 ,to le>n effectually1 !y %\ld actually d ^! !mselves1 & n /& by & see o!rs d !m4 ,_m a husb& has be5 ru9$ = want ( ^! dome/ic qualities 9 a wife--& _m a husb& has be5 sav$ f ru9 by 8 wife be+ able to manage well ! h\sehold conc]ns4 ,x is a m>k1 n only ( ill-bre$+1 b ( positive want ( feel+ & judgm5t1 to speak disp>ag+ly ( a physician to "o ( 8 pati5ts4 ,_m p]sons1 visit+ an invalid fri5d1 w exclaim l\dly aga9/ ! treatm5t pursu$1 recomm5d a diff]5t doctor1 & add to ! suff]+s ( ! pati5t by _! injudici\s rem>ks ^u ! m$ic9es or practice us$4 ,x is too mu* ! fa%ion1 9 conv]sation1 to use exagg]at$ expressions :i* are oppos$ to tru?1 )\t ! p]son employ+ !m be+ aw>e ( x1 f ! m]e =ce ( habit4 ,:y ne$ we say spl5did = pretty1 magnific5t = h&some1 horrid = unpleasant1 imm5se = l>ge1 ?\s&s1 or myriads1 = any numb] m ?an two8 ,?is practice is p]nici\s1 = ! effect is to deprive ! p]son :o is guilty ( x1 f be+ believ$1 :5 %e is 9 e>ne/4 ,no "o c tru/ ! te/imony ( an individual :o1 9 common conv]sation1 is indiff]5t to ! import1 & reg>dless ( ! value ( words4 ,polit5ess is v ess5tial to ! "r transaction ( t great bus9ess ( woman's life1 %opp+4 ,! v>iety af=d$ by ! %ops ( a city r5d]s p difficult to please2 & ! latitude !y take 9 exam9+ & ask+ ! price ( goods1 :i* !y h no ?\ght ( buy+1 is s try+ to ! pati5ce ( ^? :o att5d ^u !m1 t no?+ b ! mo/ p]fect c\rtesy ( demeanor c reconcile !m to x4 ,"s p]sons behave1 9 %opp+1 z if no "o _h any rights1 or any feel+s1 b ! pur*as]s2 z if ! sell]s ( goods 7 m]e automatons1 put beh9d ! c\nt] to d _! bidd+2 !y keep !m wait+1 :il/ !y talk ( o!r ?+s1 ) a fri5d2 !y call = v>i\s goods1 ask ! price1 & try to *eap5 !m1 )\t any real int5tion ( buy+4 ,a lady :o wants decision ( "*1 aft] hesitat+ & debat+1 till ! poor trad]'s pati5ce is almo/ exhau/$1 w beg him to s5d ! article to h] h\se1 = h] to exam9e x !re2 &1 aft] giv+ him all ?is tr\ble1 %e w refuse to pur*ase x1 )\t any scruple or apology4 ,"s ?9k !y h a "r to ex*ange articles at ! place :]e !y 7 b\ght2 :]eas t privilege %\ld be ask$ z a favor1 only by a good cu/om]1--& !n b r>ely4 ,,receipts4 ,,= ,,! ,,complexion4 ,,cold ,,cream1 #a4--,take #b-a_/b ounces ( sweet oil ( almonds1 #c dra*ms ( :ite wax1 & ! same ( sp]maceti1 #b-a_/b ounces ( rose-wat]1 #a dra*m ( oil ( b]gamot1 & #ae drops ea* ( oil ( lav5d]1 & otto ( roses4 ,melt ! wax & sp]maceti 9 ! oil ( almonds1 by plac+ !m toge!r 9 a j>1 :i* %\ld be plung$ into boil+ wat]4 ,heat a mort> 7:i* %\ld1 if possible1 be m>ble7 by p\r+ boil+ wat] into x1 & lett+ x rema9 !re until ! mort> is uni=mly heat$2 ! wat] is to be p\r$ away1 & ! mort> dri$ well4 ,p\r ! melt$ wax & sp]maceti into ! w>m mort>1 & add rose-wat] gradually1 :ile ! mixture is con/antly /irr$ or :isk$ ) an egg-:isp1 until ! :ole is cold1 &1 :5 ne>ly f9i%$1 add ! oils & otto ( roses4 ,9 ! abs5ce ( a mort>1 a bas9 plung$ into ano!r conta9+ boil+ wat] w answ] ! purpose4 ,,cold ,,cream1 #b4--,take #aj dra*ms ( sp]maceti1 #d dra*ms ( :ite wax1 half a p\nd ( prep>$ l>d1 #ae gra9s ( subc>bonate ( pota%1 #d ounces ( rose-wat]1 #b ounces ( spirits ( w9e1 & t5 drops ( otto ( roses4 ,proce$ z above4 ,"s p]sons pref] orange-fl[]-wat] in/ead ( rose-wat]1 9 :i* case use ! same proportions4 ,cold cream is a useful local application to h>d & dry p>ts ( ! sk91 to abrasions & cracks4 ,:5 spread ?ickly ^u rag1 x is an excell5t application to bli/]$ surfaces or burns1 or may be us$ to protect expos$ p>ts f ! influ5ce ( ! sun4 ,,granulat$ ,,cold ,,cream4--,take :ite wax & sp]maceti1 ( ea* "o ounce2 almond oil #c ounces1 otto ( rose1 z mu* z y please4 ,dissolve ! wax & sp]maceti 9 ! almond oil1 by means ( heat1 & :5 a little cool1 p\r ! mixture into a l>ge w$gwood mort> previ\sly w>m$1 & conta9+ ab\t a p9t ( w>m wat]4 ,/ir briskly until ! cream is well divid$1 add ! otto1 & sudd5ly p\r ! :ole into a clean vessel conta9+ #h or #ab p9ts ( cold wat]4 ,sep>ate ! cream by /ra9+ ?r\gh musl91 & %ake out z mu* wat] z possible4 ,,:ite ,,camphorat$ ,,o9tm5t1 #a4--,take #c ounces #b dra*ms ( p[d]$ c>bonate ( lead 7c]ussa71 #de gra9s ( p[d]$ camphor4 ,mix1 & !n /ir into #e ounces ( melt$ l>d4 ,?is is appli$ to burns & contusions ) v good effect1 & is mu* us$ 9 ,au/ria4 ,! surface mu/ n be abrad$ :5 x is appli$4 ,,:ite ,,camphorat$ ,,o9tm5t1 #b4--,take #d ounces ( olive oil1 #a ounce ( :ite wax1 #bb gra9s ( camphor1 & #f dra*ms ( sp]maceti4 ,melt ! wax & sp]maceti ) ! oil1 & :5 !y h cool$ rub ! o9tm5t ) ! camphor1 dissolv$ 9 a little oil4 ,sometimes ! :ite wax is omitt$1 & l>d sub/itut$ = x4 ,x is useful 9 *aps1 fissures1 abrasions1 & r\ghness ( ! sk94 ,,pit* ,,pomade1 #a4--,take #a dra*m ( pit*1 & #a ounce ( l>d4 ,mix well1 & apply twice a day to ! affect$ p>ts4 ,?is is us$ = r+worm1 & scald head4 ,,to ,,s(t5 ,,! ,,sk91 ,,& ,,improve ,,! ,,complexion4--,if fl[]s ( sulphur be mix$ 9 a little milk1 &1 aft] /&+ an h\r or two1 ! milk 7)\t di/urb+ ! sulphur7 be rubb$ into ! sk91 x w keep x s(t1 & make ! complexion cle>4 ,x is to be us$ be=e wa%+4 ,,to ,,remove ,,black ,,/a9s ,,f ,,! ,,sk94--,ladies t we> m\rn+ 9 w>m wea!r are mu* incommod$ by ! blackness x leaves on ! arms & neck1 & :i* _c easily be remov$1 ev5 by soap & w>m wat]4 ,to h a rem$y always at h&1 keep1 9 ! draw] ( y\r wa%-/&1 a box1 conta9+ a mixture 9 equal portions ( cream ( t>t>1 & oxalic acid 7,,poison74 ,get1 at a druggi/'s1 half an ounce ( ea* ( ^! articles1 & h !m mix$ & p\nd$ toge!r 9 a mort>4 ,put "s ( ?is mixture into a cup t has a cov]1 & if1 aft]w>ds1 x becomes h>d1 y may keep x slightly moi/5$ ) wat]4 ,see t x is always closely cov]$4 ,to use x1 wet ! black /a9s on y\r sk9 ) ! corn] ( a t[el1 dipp$ 9 wat] 7w>m wat] is be/1 b is n always at h&74 ,!n1 ) y\r f+]1 rub on a little ( ! mixture4 ,!n imm$iately wa% x (f ) wat]1 & aft]w>ds ) soap & wat]1 & ! black /a9s w be visible no long]4 ,?is mixture w also remove ink1 & all o!r /a9s f ! f+]s1 & f :ite clo!s4 ,x is m spe$y 9 its effects if appli$ ) w>m wat]4 ,no family %\ld be )\t x1 b c>e mu/ be tak5 to keep x out ( ! way ( "y *ildr51 z1 if swall[$1 x is poison\s4 ,,pa/es4 ,,almond4--,take #a ounce ( bitt] almonds1 blan* & p\nd !m to a f9e p[d]1 !n add #a ounce ( b>ley fl\r1 & make x into a smoo? pa/e by ! addition ( a little honey4 ,:5 ?is pa/e is laid ov] ! sk91 p>ticul>ly :]e !re are freckles1 x makes x smoo? & s(t4 ,,palat9e4--,take #h ounces ( s(t-soap1 ( olive oil1 & spirits ( w9e1 ea* #d ounces1 #a-a_/b ounce ( lemon-juice1 suffici5t silv]-s& to =m into a ?ick pa/e1 & any p]fume t is grateful to ! p]son4 ,boil ! oil & soap toge!r 9 a pipk91 & !n gradually /ir 9 ! s& & lemon-juice4 ,:5 ne>ly cool add ! _s ( w9e1 & la/ly ! p]fume4 ,make into a pa/e ) ! h&s1 & place 9 j>s or pots = use4 ,?is pa/e is us$ in/ead ( soap1 & is a valuable addition to ! toilette1 z x pres]ves ! sk9 f *app+1 & r5d]s x smoo? & s(t4 ,,am]ican ,,cosmetic ,,p[d]4--,calc9$ magnesia appli$ ! same z ord9>y toilette p[d]s1 by means ( a swan's-d[n ball1 usually call$ a puff4 ,,malo9e4--,take #d ounces ( p[d]$ m>%-mall[ roots1 #b ounces ( p[d]$ :ite />*1 #c dra*ms ( p[d]$ orris-root1 & #bj drops ( ess5ce ( jasm9e4 ,mix well1 & sift ?r\gh f9e musl94 ,?is is "o ( ! mo/ agreeable & elegant cosmetics yet kn[n = s(t5+ & :it5+ ! sk91 pres]v+ x f *app+1 & be+ s simple t x may be appli$ to ! mo/ delicate or irritable sk94 ,?is receipt has nev] be=e be5 publi%$1 & we "k t only six bottles ( x h be5 made4 ,,oxide ,,( ,,z9c is spr9kl$ into *aps & fissures to promote _! cure4 ,,ya\lta4--,take #a ounce ( :ite />*1 p[d]$ & sift$1 #a_/b a dra*m ( rose p9k1 #aj drops ( ess5ce ( jasm9e1 & #b drops ( otto ( roses4 ,mix & keep 9 a f9e musl9 bag4 ,?is exquisite p[d] is to be du/$ ov] ! face1 &1 be+ p]fectly h>mless1 may be us$ z (t5 z necessity requires4 ,x also imp>ts a delicate rosy t+e to ! sk9 pref]able to r\ge4 ,,creme ,,de ,l',,enclos4--,take #d ounces ( milk1 #a ounce ( lemon-juice1 & #b dra*ms ( _s ( w9e4 ,simm] ov] a sl[ fire1 & !n br+ x to ! boil1 skim (f ! scum1 & :5 cold apply x to ! sk94 ,x is mu* us$ by "s p]sons to remove freckles & sun-burn+s4 ,,wa%es ,,& ,,lotions4 ,,milk ,,( ,,roses1 #a4--,take #b ounces ( blan*$ almonds2 #ab ounces ( rose-wat]2 :ite s(t-soap1 or ,w9dsor soap2 :ite wax2 & oil ( almonds1 ( ea* #b dra*ms2 rectifi$ _s1 #c ounces2 oil ( b]gamot1 #a dra*m2 oil ( lav5d]1 #ae drops2 otto ( roses1 #h drops4 ,beat ! almonds well1 & !n add ! rose-wat] gradually s z to =m an emulsion1 mix ! soap1 :ite wax1 & oil toge!r1 by plac+ !m 9 a cov]$ j> ^u ! edge ( ! fire-place1 !n rub ?is mixture 9 a mort> ) ! emulsion4 ,/ra9 ! :ole ?r\gh v f9e musl91 & add ! ess5tial oils1 previ\sly mix$ ) ! _s4 ,?is is an excell5t wa% = sunburns1 freckles1 or = cool+ ! face & neck1 or any "p ( ! sk9 to :i* x is appli$4 ,,milk ,,( ,,roses1 #b4--,?is is n q s exp5sive a receipt z ! la/2 &1 at ! same "t is n s good4 ,take #a ounce ( ,jordan almonds2 #e ounces ( di/ill$ rose-wat]2 #a ounce ( _s ( w9e2 #a_/b a dra*m ( ,v5etian soap1 & #b drops ( otto ( roses4 ,beat ! almonds 7previ\sly blan*$ & well dri$ ) a clo?7 9 a mort>1 until !y become a complete pa/e1 !n beat ! soap & mix ) ! almonds1 & aft]w>ds add ! rose-wat] & _s4 ,/ra9 ?r\gh a v f9e musl9 or l951 & add ! otto ( roses4 ,! common milk ( roses sold 9 ! %ops1 frequ5tly conta9s salt ( t>t>1 or pe>la%1 comb9$ ) olive oil & rose-wat]1 & !re=e x is bett] to make x y\rself to ensure x be+ good4 ,,fr5* ,,milk ,,( ,,roses4--,mix #b-a_/b p9ts ( rose-wat] ) #a_/b a p9t ( rosem>y-wat]1 !n add t9cture ( /orax & t9cture ( b5zo91 ( ea* #b ounces2 & esprit de rose1 #a_/b an ounce4 ,?is is a useful wa% = freckles4 ,,g]man ,,milk ,,( ,,roses4--,take ( rose-wat] & milk ( almonds1 ea* #c ounces2 wat] #h ounces2 rosem>y-wat] #b ounces2 & _s ( lav5d] #a_/b an ounce4 ,mix well1 & !n add #a_/b an ounce ( sug> ( lead4 ,?is is a dang]\s =m to leave ab\t :]e !re are *ildr51 & %\ld nev] be appli$ :5 !re are any abrasions1 or *aps on ! surface4 ,,milk ,,( ,,almonds4--,blan* #d ounces ( ,jordan almonds1 dry !m ) a t[el1 & !n p\nd !m 9 a mort>2 add #b dra*ms ( :ite or curd soap1 & rub x up ) ! almonds = ab\t t5 m9utes or r m1 gradually add+ "o qu>t ( rose-wat]1 until ! :ole is well mix$1 !n /ra9 ?r\gh a f9e piece ( musl91 & bottle = use4 ,?is is an excell5t rem$y = freckles & sunburns1 & may be us$ z a g5]al cosmetic1 be+ appli$ to ! sk9 aft] wa%+ by means ( ! corn] ( a s(t t[el4 ,,anti-,,freckle ,,lotion1 #a4--,take t9cture ( b5zo91 #b ounces2 t9cture ( tolu1 #a ounce2 oil ( rosem>y1 #a_/b a dra*m4 ,mix well & bottle4 ,:5 requir$ to be us$1 add a teaspoonful ( ! mixture to ab\t a w9e-glassful ( wat]1 & apply ! lotion to ! face or h&s1 c41 night & morn+1 c>efully rubb+ x 9 ) a s(t t[el4 ,,anti-,,freckle ,,lotion1 #b4--,take #a ounce ( rectifi$ _s ( w9e2 #a dra*m ( hydro*loric acid 7_s ( salt72 & #g ounces ( wat]4 ,mix ! acid gradually ) ! wat]1 & !n add ! _s ( w9e2 apply by means ( a camel's-hair bru%1 or a piece ( flannel4 ,,g[l&',s ,,lotion4--,take #a-a_/b gra9s ( bi*loride ( m]cury1 & #a ounce ( emulsion ( bitt] almonds2 mix well4 ,be c>eful ( ! bi*loride ( m]cury1 because x is a poison4 ,?is is "o ( ! be/ cosmetics = imp>t+ a delicate appe>ance & s(tness to ! sk91 & is a useful lotion 9 acne1 r+worm1 h>d & dry sk91 & sun-bli/]+s4 ,,cold ,,cream4--,sweet almond oil1 #g lbs4 by weight1 :ite wax1 #c_/d lb41 sp]maceti1 #c_/d lb41 cl>ifi$ mutton suet1 #a lb41 rose-wat]1 #g p9ts1 spirits ( w9e1 #a p9t4 ,directions to mix ! above3--,place ! oil1 wax1 sp]maceti1 & suet 9 a l>ge j>2 cov] x ov] tightly1 !n place x 9 a saucepan ( boil+ wat]1 7hav+ previ\sly plac$ two or m pieces ( fire-wood at ! bottom ( ! saucepan1 to all[ ! wat] to get und]nea? ! j>1 & to prev5t its break+7 keep ! wat] boil+ r\nd ! j> till all ! +r$i5ts are dissolv$2 take x out ( ! wat]1 & p\r x into a l>ge pan previ\sly w>m$ & capable ( hold+ #ba p9ts2 !n1 ) a wood5 spatula1 /ir 9 ! rose-wat]1 cold1 z quickly z possible1 7divid+ x into ?ree or f\r p>ts1 at mo/17 ! /irr+ 9 ( :i* %\ld n occupy above five m9utes1 z aft] a c]ta9 heat ! wat] w n mix4 ,:5 all ! wat] is 91 /ir unremitt+ly = ?irty m9utes long]1 to prev5t its sep>at+1 !n add ! spirits ( w9e1 & ! sc5t1 & x is f9i%$4 ,keep x 9 a cold place1 9 a :ite glaz$ j>1 & d n cut x ) a /eel knife1 z x causes blackness at ! p>ts ( contact4 ,sc5t ) otto ( roses & ess5tial oil ( b]gamot to fancy4 ,= small] quantities1 make ounces in/ead ( p\nds4 ,,palm ,,soap4--,i make x 9 ! foll[+ mann]3--,cut ?9 two p\nds ( yell[ soap into a d\ble saucepan1 occasionally /irr+ x till x is melt$1 :i* w be 9 a few m9utes if ! wat] is kept boil+ ar\nd x2 !n add qu>t] ( a p\nd ( palm oil1 qu>t] ( a p\nd ( honey1 ?ree p5nywor? ( true oil ( c9namon2 let all boil toge!r ano!r six or eight m9utes2 p\r out & /& x by till next day2 x is !n fit = imm$iate use4 ,if made z ^! directions x w be f\nd to be a v sup]ior soap4 ,,cure ,,= ,,*app$ ,,h&s4--,take #c dra*ms ( gum camphor1 #c dra*ms ( :ite beeswax1 #c dra*ms ( sp]maceti1 #b ounces ( olive oil1--put !m toge!r 9 a cup ^u ! /ove1 :]e !y w melt sl[ly & =m a :ite o9tm5t 9 a few m9utes4 ,if ! h&s be affect$1 ano9t !m on go+ to b$1 & put on a pair ( gloves4 ,a day or two w suffice to heal !m4 ,,to ,,:it5 ,,! ,,nails4--,dilut$ sulphuric acid1 #b dra*ms2 t9cture ( myrrh1 #a dra*m2 spr+ wat]1 #d ounces4 ,mix4 ,fir/ cleanse ) :ite soap1 & !n dip ! f+]s into ! mixture4 ,,to ,,:it5 ,,! ,,h&s4--,take a w9e-glassful ( eau de ,cologne1 & ano!r ( lemon-juice2 !n scrape two cakes ( br[n ,w9dsor soap to a p[d]1 & mix well 9 a m\ld4 ,:5 h>d1 x w be an excell5t soap = :it5+ ! h&s4 ,,= ,,! ,,tee?4 ,,to ,,remove ,,t>t> ,,f ,,! ,,tee?4--#a/4 ,! use ( ! too?-bru% night & morn+1 &1 at lea/1 r9s+ ! m\? aft] e meal at :i* animal food is tak54 #bnd4 ,once daily run ! bru% lightly two or ?ree times ov] soap1 !n dip x 9 salt1 & ) x clean ! tee?1 work+ ! bru% up & d[n r ?an--or z well z--backw>ds & =w>ds4 ,?is is a *eap1 safe1 & effectual d5trifice4 #crd4 ,eat freely ( common cress1 ! sort us$ ) mu/>d1 "u ! "n ( small salad2 x mu/ be eat5 ) salt only4 ,if ?us us$ two or ?ree days 9 succession x w effectually loos5 t>t>1 ev5 ( long /&+4 ,! same effect is produc$1 ?\gh p]haps n 9 an equal degree1 by eat+ /rawb]ries & raspb]ries1 especially ! =m]4 ,a leaf ( common gre5 sage rubb$ on ! tee? is useful bo? 9 cleans+ & poli%+1 & probably _m o!r common vegetable productions also4 ,,c>e ,,( ,,! ,,tee?4--,! wat] ) :i* ! tee? are cleans$ %\ld be :at is call$ lukew>m4 ,!y %\ld be well b g5tly bru%$ bo? night & morn+2 ! bru% %\ld be nei!r too h>d nor too s(t4 ,! be/ too?-p[d]s are made f cuttle-fi%1 prep>$ *alk1 & orris-root comm+l$ toge!r 9 equal quantities4 ,,simple ,,means ,,( ,,remov+ ,,t>t> ,,f ,,! ,,tee?4--,9 ^! summ] mon?s1 t>t> may be effectually remov$ f ! tee?1 by p>tak+ daily ( /rawb]ries4 ,,too? ,,p[d]4--,p[d]$ orris-root1 #a_/b an ounce2 p[d]$ *>coal1 #b ounces1 p[d]$ ,p]uvian b>k1 #a ounce2 prep>$ *alk1 #a_/b an ounce2 oil ( b]gamot1 or lav5d]1 #bj drops4 ,^! +r$i5ts mu/ be well work$ up 9 a mort>1 until ?or\ghly incorporat$4 ,?is celebrat$ too?-p[d] possesses ?ree ess5tial virtues1 giv+ an odor\s brea?1 cleans+ & purify+ ! gums1 & pres]v+ ! enamel2 ! la/ r>ely f\nd 9 popul> too?-p[d]s4 ,,too?-,,p[d]4--,"o ( ! be/ too?-p[d]s t c be us$ may be made by mix+ toge!r #a-a_/b ounces prep>$ *alk1 #a_/b ounce p[d] ( b>k1 & #a_/d ounce ( camphor4 ,a ,,*eap ,,b ,,good ,,too?-,,p[d]4--,cut a slice ( bread z ?ick z may be1 into squ>es1 & burn 9 ! fire until x becomes *>coal1 aft] :i* p\nd 9 a mort>1 & sift ?r\gh a f9e musl92 x is !n ready = use4 ,,*eap ,,& ,,invaluable ,,d5tifrice4--,dissolve #b ounces ( borax 9 ?ree p9ts ( wat]2 be=e q cold1 add !reto "o tea-spoonful ( t9cture ( myrh1 & "o table-spoonful ( spirits ( camphor2 bottle ! mixture = use4 ,"o w9e-glass ( ! solution1 add$ to half a p9t ( tepid wat]1 is suffici5t = ea* application4 ,?is solution1 appli$ daily1 pres]ves & beautifies ! tee?1 extirpates all t>t>\s adhesion1 produces a pe>l-l :it5ess1 arre/s decay1 & induces a heal?y action 9 ! gums4 ,,invaluable ,,d5tifrice4--,dissolve two ounces ( borax 9 ?ree p9ts ( boil+ wat]2 be=e q cold1 add "o tea-spoonful ( t9cture ( myrrh1 & "o table-spoonful ( spirits ( camphor2 bottle ! mixture = use4 ,"o w9e-glassful ( ?is solution1 add$ to half a p9t ( tepid wat]1 is suffici5t = ea* application4 ,,= ,,! ,,hair4 ,,loss ,,( ,,hair4--,! mo/ simple rem$y = loss ( hair1 is friction to ! scalp ( ! head1 us+ = ! purpose an old too?-bru%1 or "o ( :i* ! bri/les h be5 s(t5$ by soak+ 9 boil+ wat]4 ,! %ape ( ! in/rum5t adapts x to be ins]t$ readily & effectually betwe5 ! hair1 :]e x %\ld be rubb$ backw>ds & =w>ds ov] ! space ( an in* or s at a "t4 ,9 addition to ! friction1 :i* %\ld be us$ once or twice a day1 ! head may be %[]$ once a day ) cold wat]1 c>efully dry+ x ) s(t1 spongy t[els4 ,,pomatum4--,take ( :ite mutton suet #d p\nds1 well boil$ 9 hot wat]1 7#c qu>ts17 & wa%$ to free x f salt4 ,melt ! suet1 :5 dri$1 ) #a-a_/b p\nds ( fre% l>d1 & #b p\nds ( yell[ wax4 ,p\r into an e>!n vessel1 & /ir till x is cold2 !n beat into x #cj drops ( oil ( cloves1 or any o!r ess5tial oil ^: sc5t y pref]4 ,if ?is k9d ( pomatum is too h>d1 use less wax4 ,at times numb]s ( loose hairs come away 9 ! bru%+ or comb+4 ,su* cases z ^! w g5]ally be f\nd rem$ial4 ,wilson recomm5ds wom5 ) %ort hair to dip _! heads into cold wat] e morn+1 & aft]w>ds apply ! bru% until a gl[ ( w>m? is felt all ov] ! scalp4 ,^? :o h long hair are to bru% x till ! sk9 b5ea? becomes r$1 :5 a lotion is to be appli$1 z "h specifi$4 ,eau de ,cologne #b oz4 ,t9cture ( ,can?>ides #a_/b oz4 ,oil ( ,nutmegs #a_/b dra*m4 ,oil ( ,lav5d] #aj drops4 ,to be well mix$ toge!r4 ,ano!r is compos$ (3-- ,mez]eon b>k 9 small pieces #a oz4 ,horse-,radi% root 9 small pieces #a oz4 ,boil+ di/ill$ ,v9eg> #a_/b p9t4 ,let ?is infusion /& = a week1 & !n /ra9 ?r\gh musl9 = use4 ,if irritat+ to ! sk91 ^! lotions c be made weak]1 or less frequ5tly appli$ ?an might o!rwise be necess>y4 ,ei!r ( !m1 or di/ill$ v9eg> alone1 may be rubb$ into a bald pat* ) a too?-bru%4 ,! same lotions may also be us$ if ! hair is dispos$ to become gray too e>ly2 z !y invigorate ! app>atus situat$ b5ea? ! sk91 & enable x to take up color+ matt]4 ,dye+ ( ! hair is a practice :i* ought nev] to be resort$ to4 ,^? :o are unwill+ or unable to discont9ue ! practice ( apply+ "s k9d ( dress+ to ! hair1 %\ld1 at lea/1 cont5t !mselves ) a simple1 yet good mat]ial4 ,! be/ olive oil is mo/ suitable = ! purpose1 sc5t$ ) otto ( roses or b]gamot2 ! latt]1 z _m p]sons "k1 is ! ess5ce ( a species ( m9t4 ,! same sc5ts may also be us$ = pomatum1 :i* %\ld be made ( p]fectly pure l>d1 or m>r[4 ,,hair ,,oils1 c4--,:5 us$ mod]ately1 oils1 o9tm5ts1 c41 t5d to /r5g!n ! hair1 especially :5 x is naturally dry4 ,:5 us$ 9 excess1 h[ev]1 !y clog ! pores1 prev5t ! escape ( ! natural secretions1 & cause ! hair to )] & fall (f4 ,! v>ieties ( oils1 ,greases1 o9tm5ts1 rival+ ea*-o!r 9 _! high s\nd+ pret5sions1 :i* are daily impos$ ^u public cr$ulity1 are int]m9able4 ,we add "o or two ( ! mo/ simple4 ,,= ,,?ick5+ ,,! ,,hair4--,to "o ounce ( ,palma ,*ri/i oil1 add a suffici5t quantity ( b]gamot or lav5d] to sc5t x4 ,apply x to ! p>ts :]e x is mo/ ne$$1 bru%+ x well into ! hair4 ,,an ,,o9tm5t ,,= ,,! ,,hair4--,mix two ounces ( be>'s grease1 half an ounce ( honey1 "o dra*m ( laudanum1 ?ree dra*ms ( ! p[d] ( s\!rnwood1 ?ree dra*ms ( ! balsam ( ,p]u1 "o & a half dra*ms ( ! a%es ( ! roots ( bulru%es1 & a small quantity ( ! oil ( sweet almonds4 ,,macass> ,,oil4--,x is said to be comp\nd$ ( ! foll[+ +r$i5ts3--,to ?ree qu>ts ( common oil1 add half-a-p9t ( spirits ( w9e1 ?ree ounces ( c9namon p[d]1 & two ounces ( b]gamot2 heat ! :ole 9 a l>ge pipk94 ,on remov+ f ! fire1 add ?ree or f\r small pieces ( alkanet root1 & keep ! vessel closely cov]$ = sev]al h\rs4 ,:5 cool1 x may be filt]$ ?r\gh a funnel l9$ ) filt]+ pap]4 ,:e!r oils are us$ or n1 ! hair ought night & morn+ to be c>efully & elaborately bru%$4 ,?is is "o ( ! be/ pres]vatives ( its beauty4 ,! foll[+ is recomm5d$ z an excell5t ,hair ,oil3--,boil toge!r half-a-p9t ( port w9e1 "o p9t & a-half ( sweet oil1 & half-a-p\nd ( gre5 s\!rnwood4 ,/ra9 ! mixture ?r\gh a l95 rag sev]al times2 add+1 at ! la/ op]ation1 two ounces ( be>'s grease4 ,if fre% s\!rnwood is add$ ea* "t x passes ?r\gh ! l951 ! composition w be improv$4 ,,pomade ,,victoria4--,?is highly-prais$ & excell5t pomade is made 9 ! foll[+ way--& if s made1 w be f\nd to give a beautiful gloss & s(tness to ! hair3--,qu>t] ( a-p\nd ( honey & half-an-ounce ( bees' wax simm]$ toge!r = a few m9utes & !n /ra94 ,add ( oil ( almonds1 lav5d]1 & ?yme1 half-a-dra*m ea*4 ,be sure to cont9ue /irr+ till q cold1 or ! honey & wax w sep>ate4 ,,lemon ,,pomatum4--,be/ l>d1 two p\nds2 suet1 half-a-p\nd2 dissolve ) a g5tle heat1 & mix !m well toge!r4 ,!n add f\r ounces ( orange-fl[] wat]1 & f\r ounces ( rose-wat]1 & mix !m well toge!r be=e add+1 or !y w sep>ate4 ,hav+ done ?is1 add a qu>t] ( an ounce ( ess5ce ( lemon2 half-a-dra*m ( musk1 & half-a-dra*m ( oil ( ?yme4 ,,to ,,color ,,pomatum4--,yell[1 by palm oil or annatto2 r$1 by alkanet root2 & gre51 by guaiacum1 or ! gre5 leaves ( p>sley4 ,,b&ol9e ,,= ,,! ,,hair1 7,a ,,fr5* ,,receipt74--,to "o qu>t ( wat] put #a_/b ounce ( qu9ce pips1 boil x ne>ly an h\r1 /irr+ x well1 /ra9 x ?r\gh a f9e musl91 let x /& tw5ty-f\r h\rs1 & !n add f\rte5 drops ( ! ess5tial oil ( almonds4 ,a dess]t-spoonful ( br&y may be add$1 if requir$ to keep a long "t4 ,,b&ol9e ,,= ,,! ,,hair4--,take ( ca/or oil1 two ounces2 sp]maceti1 "o dra*m2 oil ( b]gamot1 "o dra*m2 mix ) heat & /ra92 !n beat 9 six drops otto ( roses4 ,if wi%$ color$1 add half-a-dra*m ( annatto4 ,,ano!r4--,i furni% y ) an excell5t =m ( ,b&ol9e1 mu* m quickly made ?an o!rs4 ,h a small packet ( p[d]$ gum dragon by y1 & :5 y require any fre% b&ol9e1 take a tea-spoonful ( ! p[d]1 & p\r en\gh ( boil+ wat] on x to make a small bottle full4 ,sc5t ) otto ( roses4 ,,curl+ ,,fluid4--,place two p\nds ( common soap1 cut small1 into ?ree p9ts ( spirits ( w9e1 ) eight ounces ( pota%1 & melt ! :ole1 /irr+ x ) a clean piece ( wood4 ,add1 on cool+1 ess5ce ( amb]1 vanilla1 & n]oli1 ( ea* qu>t] ( an ounce4 ,! be/ me?od ( keep+ r+lets 9 curl1 is ! occasional application ( ! yolk ( an egg1 & ! hair1 aft]w>ds1 well wa%$ 9 lukew>m wat]4 ,apply ! egg ) a too? or hair-bru%4 ,,= ,,! ,,lips4 ,,v ,,excell5t ,,lip-,,salve4--,take f\r ounces ( butt]1 fre% f ! *urn1 cut x small1 put x into a j>1 cov] x ) good rose-wat]1 & let x rema9 = f\r or five days2 !n dra9 x well1 & put x into a small & v clean saucepan1 ) "o ounce ( sp]maceti1 & "o ( yell[ beeswax slic$ ?91 a qu>t] ( an ounce ( bruis$ alkanet root1 two dra*ms ( gum b5zo91 & "o ( /orax1 beat5 to p[d]1 half an ounce ( loaf sug>1 & ! /ra9$ juice ( a mod]ate siz$ lemon4 ,simm] ^! g5tly1 keep+ !m /irr$ all ! "t1 until ! mixture looks v cle>1 & s5ds =? a f9e aromatic od\r2 !n /ra9 x ?r\gh a ?9 d\bl$ musl91 & /ir to x f twelve to tw5ty drops ( ess5tial oil ( roses1 & p\r x into small gallipots1 f :i* x c easily be turn$ out :5 cold1 & !n be rubb$ aga9/ ! lips1 :i* is ! mo/ pleasant way ( us+ x1 z x is mu* firm] ?an common lip-salve1 & w be f\nd m heal+ & inf9itely m agreeable4 ,:5 butt] _c be _h direct f ! *urn1 any :i* is q fre% may be sub/itut$ = x1 aft] ! salt has be5 well wa%$ & soak$ out ( x1 by work+ x ) a /rong spoon 9 cold wat]1 9 :i* x %\ld rema9 = a c\ple ( days or m1 ! wat] be+ frequ5tly *ang$ dur+ ! "t4 ,,rose ,,lip-,,salve4--#h ounces sweet almond oil1 #d ounces prep>$ mutton suet1 #a-a_/b ounces :ite wax1 #b ounces sp]maceti1 #bj drops otto2 /eep a small quantity ( alkanet root 9 ! oil1 & /ra9 be=e us+4 ,melt ! suet1 wax1 & sp]maceti toge!r1 !n add ! coloric oil & otto4 ,,lip-,,salves4--,a good lip-salve may be made z foll[s3--,take an ounce ( ! oil ( sweet almonds1 cold drawn2 a dra*m ( fre% mutton suet2 & a little bruis$ alkanet root3 & simm] ! :ole toge!r 9 an e>!n pipk94 ,in/ead ( ! oil ( sweet almonds y may use oil ( ,jasm91 or oil ( any o!r fl[]1 if y int5d ! lip-salve to h a fragrant od\r4--#b4 ,take a p\nd ( fre% butt]2 a qu>t] ( a p\nd ( beeswax2 f\r or five ounces ( cleans$ black grapes1 & ab\t an ounce ( bruis$ alkanet root4 ,simm] !m toge!r ov] a sl[ fire till ! wax is :olly dissolv$1 & ! mixture becomes ( a bright r$ color2 /ra91 & put x by = use4 #c4 ,oil ( almonds1 sp]maceti1 :ite wax1 & :ite sug>-c&y1 equal p>ts1 =m a good :ite lip-salve4 ,,sup]ior ,,lip-,,salve4--,:ite wax1 two & a half ounces2 sp]maceti1 ?ree qu>t]s ( an ounce2 oil ( almonds1 f\r ounces4 ,mix well toge!r1 & apply a little to ! lips at night4 ,,ano!r4--,a des]t spoonful ( salad oil 9 a sauc]1 hold x ov] a c&le1 & drop melt$ wax ov] x till ! oil is ?9ly cov]$1 :5 !y are incorporat$1 p\r x into boxes4--7,wax tap] w d47 ,,= ,,corns4 ,,cure ,,= ,,corns4--,place ! feet = half an h\r1 two or ?ree nights successively1 9 a pretty /rong solution ( common soda4 ,! alkali dissolves ! indurat$ cuticle1 & ! corn falls out spontane\sly1 leav+ a small excavation1 :i* soon fills up4 ,,to ,,remove ,,corns4--,get f\r ounces ( :ite dia*ylon pla/]1 f\r ounces ( %oemak]'s wax1 & sixty drops ( muriatic acid or spirits ( salt4 ,boil !m = a few m9utes 9 an e>!n pipk91 & :5 cold1 roll ! mass betwe5 ! h&s & apply a little on a piece ( :ite lea!r4 ,a ,,c]ta9 ,,cure ,,= ,,s(t ,,corns4--,dip a piece ( s(t l95 rag 9 turp5t9e1 & wrap x r\nd ! toe on :i* ! s(t corn is1 night & morn+2 9 a few days ! corn w disappe>2 b ! relief is in/antane\s4 ,,p]fumes4 ,,to ,,make ,,eau ,,de ,,cologne4--,rectifi$ spirits ( w9e1 f\r p9ts2 oil ( b]gamot1 "o ounce2 oil ( lemon1 half an ounce2 oil ( rosem>y1 half a dra*m2 oil ( ,n]oli1 ?ree qu>t]s ( a dra*m2 oil ( ,engli% lav5d]1 "o dra*m2 oil ( oranges1 "o dra*m4 ,mix well & !n filt]4 ,if ^! proportions are too l>ge1 small] ones may be us$4 ,,eau ,,de ,,cologne4--,oil ( n]oli1 citron1 b]gamot1 orange1 & rosem>y1 ( ea* twelve drops2 c>damom se$s1 "o dra*m2 spirits ( w9e1 "o p9t4 ,let x /& = a week4 ,,lav5d] ,,wat]4--,oil ( lav5d]1 #b dra*ms2 oil ( b]gamot1 #a_/b dra*m2 ess5ce ( musk1 #a dra*m2 spirits ( w9e1 #ac ounces2 wat]1 #e ounces4 ,let x /& = a week4 ,,= ,,keep+ ,,! ,,w>drobe ,,9 ,,ord]4 ,,to ,,clean ,,kid ,,gloves4--,make a /rong la!r ) curd soap & w>m wat]1 9 :i* /eep a small piece ( new flannel4 ,place ! glove on a flat1 clean1 & unyield+ surface--su* z ! bottom ( a di%1 & hav+ ?or\ghly soap$ ! flannel 7:5 squeez$ f ! la!r71 rub ! kid till all dirt be remov$1 clean+ & resoap+ ! flannel f "t to "t4 ,c>e mu/ be tak5 to omit no "p ( ! glove1 by turn+ ! f+]s1 c4 ,! gloves mu/ be dri$ 9 ! sun1 or be=e a mod]ate fire1 & w pres5t ! appe>ance ( old p>*m5t4 ,:5 q dry1 !y mu/ be gradually pull$ out1 & w look new4 ,,ano!r4--,fir/ see t y\r h&s are clean1 !n put on ! gloves & wa% !m1 z ?\gh y 7 wa%+ y\r h&s1 9 a bas9 ( spirits ( turp5t9e1 until q clean2 !n hang !m up 9 a w>m place1 or :]e !re is a good curr5t ( air1 :i* w c>ry (f all smell ( ! turp5t9e4 ,?is me?od 0 br\ght f ,p>is1 & ?\s&s ( doll>s h be5 made by x4 ,,to ,,clean ,,color$ ,,kid ,,gloves4--,h ready on a table a clean t[el1 fold$ ?ree or f\r times1 a sauc] ( new milk1 & ano!r sauc] ) a piece ( br[n soap4 ,take "o glove at a "t1 & spread x smoo?ly on ! fold$ t[el4 ,!n dip 9 ! milk a piece ( clean flannel1 rub x on ! soap till y get (f a tol]able quantity1 & !n1 ) ! wet flannel1 comm5ce rubb+ ! glove4 ,beg9 at ! wri/1 & rub l5g?ways t[>ds ! end ( ! f+]s1 hold+ ! glove firmly 9 y\r "r-h&4 ,cont9ue ?is process until ! glove is well clean$ all ov] ) ! milk & soap4 ,:5 done1 spread !m out1 & p9 !m on a l9e to dry gradually4 ,:5 ne>ly dry1 pull !m out ev5ly1 ! crossway ( ! lea!r4 ,:5 q dry1 /ret* !m on y\r h&s4 ,:ite kid gloves may also be wa%$ 9 ?is mann]1 provid$ !y h nev] be5 clean$ ) ,india-rubb]4 ,,to ,,clean ,,:ite ,,or ,,color$ ,,kid ,,gloves4--,put ! glove on y\r h&1 !n take a small piece ( flannel1 dip x 9 camph5e1 & well1 b g5tly1 rub x ov] ! glove1 tak+ c>e n to make x too wet1 :5 ! dirt is remov$1 dip ! flannel 7or ano!r piece if t is become too dirty7 into pipe-clay & rub x ov] ! glove2 take x (f1 & hang x up 9 a room to dry1 & 9 a day or two v little smell w rema92 & if done c>efully !y w be almo/ z good z new4 ,9 color$ ones1 if yell[1 use gamboge aft] ! pipe-clay1 & = o!r colors mat* x 9 dry pa9t4 ,,to ,,clean ,,:ite ,,kid ,,gloves4--,/ret* ! gloves on a clean bo>d1 & rub all ! soil$ or grease-spots ) cream ( t>t> or magnesia4 ,let !m re/ an h\r4 ,!n h ready a mixture ( alum & ,full]'s e>? 7bo? p[d]$71 & rub x all ov] ! gloves ) a bru% 7a clean too?-bru% or some?+ simil>71 & let !m re/ = an h\r or two4 ,!n sweep x all (f1 & g ov] !m ) a flannel dipp$ 9 a mixture ( bran & f9ely p[d]$ :it+4 ,let !m re/ ano!r h\r2 !n bru% (f ! p[d]1 & y w f9d !m clean4 ,,to ,,clean ,,light ,,kid ,,gloves4--,put on "o glove1 & hav+ made a /rong la!r ) common br[n soap1 apply x ) a %av+ bru%1 wip+ x (f imm$iately ) a clean t[el1 !n bl[ into ! glove1 & leave x to dry4 ,,an ,,excell5t ,,pa/e ,,= ,,gloves4--,liquor ( ammonia half an ounce1 *loride ( pota% t5 ounces1 curd soap "o p\nd1 wat] half a p9t2 dissolve ! soap 9 ! wat]1 ) a g5tle heat1 !n z ! mixture cools1 /ir 9 ! o!r +r$i5ts4 ,use x1 by rubb+ x ov] ! gloves until ! dirt is remov$4 ,,to ,,wa% ,,?read ,,lace4--,rip (f ! lace1 c>efully pick out ! loose bits ( ?read1 & roll ! lace v smoo?ly & securely r\nd a clean black bottle1 previ\sly cov]$ ) old :ite l951 sew$ tightly on4 ,tack ea* end ( ! lace ) a ne$le & ?read1 to keep x smoo?2 & be c>eful 9 wrapp+ n to crumple or fold 9 any ( ! scallops or pe>l+s4 ,aft] x is on ! bottle1 take "s ( ! be/ sweet oil & ) a clean sponge wet ! lace ?or\ghly to ! inmo/ folds4 ,h ready 9 a wa%-kettle1 a /rong cold la!r ( cle> wat] & :ite ,ca/ile soap4 ,fill ! bottle ) cold wat]1 to prev5t its bur/+1 cork x well1 & /& x upright 9 ! suds1 ) a /r+ r\nd ! neck secur$ to ! e>s or h&le ( ! kettle1 to prev5t its knock+ ab\t & break+ :ile ov] ! fire4 ,let x boil 9 ! suds = an h\r or m1 till ! lace is clean & :ite all ?r\gh4 ,dra9 (f ! suds1 & dry x on ! bottle 9 ! sun4 ,:5 dry1 remove ! lace f ! bottle & roll x r\nd a wide ribbon-block2 or lay x 9 long folds1 place x )9 a %eet ( smoo?1 :ite1 pap]1 & press x 9 a l>ge book = a few days4 ,,to ,,wa% ,a ,,:ite ,,lace ,,veil4--,put ! veil into a /rong la!r ( :ite soap & v cle> wat]1 & let x simm] sl[ly = a qu>t] ( an h\r4 ,take x out & squeeze x well1 b be sure n to rub x4 ,r9se x 9 two cold wat]s1 ) a drop or two ( liquid blue 9 ! la/4 ,h ready "s v cle> & weak gum-arabic wat]1 or "s ?9 />*1 or rice-wat]4 ,pass ! veil ?r\gh x1 & cle> x by clapp+4 ,!n /ret* x out ev51 & p9 x to dry on a l95 clo?1 mak+ ! edge z /raight z possible1 op5+ out all ! scallops1 & fa/5+ ea* ) p9s4 ,:5 dry1 lay a piece ( ?9 musl9 smoo?ly ov] x1 & iron x on ! wrong side4 ,,to ,,wa% ,a ,,black ,,lace ,,veil4--,mix bullock's gall ) suffici5t hot wat] to make x z w>m z y c be> y\r h& 94 ,!n pass ! veil ?r\gh x4 ,x mu/ be squeez$1 & n rubb$4 ,x w be well to p]fume ! gall ) a little musk4 ,next r9se ! veil ?r\gh two cold wat]s1 t++ ! la/ ) indigo4 ,!n dry x4 ,h ready 9 a pan "s /iff5+ made by p\r+ boil+ wat] on a v small piece ( glue4 ,pat ! veil into x1 squeeze x out1 /ret* x1 & clap x4 ,aft]w>ds p9 x out to dry on a l95 clo?1 mak+ x v /raight & ev51 & tak+ c>e to op5 & p9 ! edge v nicely4 ,:5 dry1 iron x on ! wrong side1 hav+ laid a l95 clo? ov] ! iron+-blanket4 ,any article ( black lace may be wa%$ 9 ?is mann]4 ,,to ,,clean ,,:ite ,,sat9 ,,& ,,fl[]$ ,,silks4--#a4 ,mix sift$ /ale bread crumbs ) p[d] blue1 & rub x ?or\ghly all ov]1 !n %ake x well1 & du/ x ) clean1 s(t clo?s4 ,aft]w>ds1 :]e !re are any gold or silv] fl[]s1 take a piece ( crimson +ra9 velvet1 rub ! fl[]s ) x1 :i* w re/ore !m to _! orig9al lu/re4 #b4 ,pass !m ?r\gh a solution ( f9e h>d soap1 at a h& heat1 draw+ !m ?r\gh ! h&4 ,r9se 9 lukew>m wat]1 dry & f9i% by p9n+ out4 ,bru% ! flossy or bright side ) a clean clo!s-bru%1 ! way ( ! nap4 ,f9i% !m by dipp+ a sponge into a size1 made by boil+ is+lass 9 wat]1 & rub ! wrong side4 ,r9se out a second "t1 & bru%1 & dry ne> a fire1 or 9 a w>m room4 ,silks may be treat$ 9 ! same way1 b n bru%$4 ,,to ,,clean ,,:ite ,,silk4--,dissolve "s ( ! be/ curd soap 9 boil+ wat]1 & :5 ! solution is z hot z ! h& c be>1 pass ! silk ?r\gh x ?or\ghly1 h&l+ x g5tly1 n to injure ! texture4 ,if !re are any spots1 ^! may be rubb$ c>efully until !y disappe>4 ,! article mu/ !n be r9s$ 9 lukew>m wat]4 ,,to ,,iron ,,silk4--,silk _c be iron$ smoo?ly1 s z to press out all ! creases1 )\t fir/ spr9kl+ x ) wat]1 & roll+ x up tightly 9 a t[el1 lett+ x re/ = an h\r or two4 ,if ! iron is 9 ! lea/ too hot1 x w injure ! color1 & x %\ld fir/ be tri$ on an old piece ( ! same silk4 ,,to ,,wa% ,,silk4--,half a p9t ( g91 f\r ounces ( s(t soap1 & two ounces ( honey1 well %ak52 !n rub ! silk1 ) a sponge 7wett$ ) ! above mixture71 ^u a table1 & wa% ?r\gh two wat]s1 9 :i* fir/ put two or ?ree spoonfuls ( ox gall1 :i* w bright5 ! colors1 & prev5t _! runn+4 ,! silks %\ld n be wrung1 b well %ak5 & hung up smoo?ly to dry1 & mangl$ :ile damp4 ,! writ] has _h gre5 silk dresses wa%$ by ?is receipt1 & !y h look$ z well z new4 ,,to ,,r5ovate ,,black ,,silk4--,slice "s uncook$ potatoes1 p\r boil+ wat] on !m2 :5 cold sponge ! "r side ( ! silk ) x1 & iron on ! wrong4 ,,to ,,keep ,,silk4--,silk articles %\ld n be kept fold$ 9 :ite pap]1 z ! *loride ( lime us$ 9 blea*+ ! pap] w probably impair ! color ( ! silk4 ,br[n or blue pap] is bett]--! yell[i% smoo? ,india pap] is be/ ( all4 ,silk int5d$ = a dress %\ld n be kept 9 ! h\se long be=e x is made up1 z ly+ 9 ! folds w h a t5d5cy to impair its durability by caus+ x to cut or split1 p>ticul>ly if ! silk has be5 ?ick5$ by gum4 ,we knew an in/ance ( a v elegant & co/ly ?read-lace veil be+ f\nd1 on its arrival f ,france1 cut into squ>es 7& !re=e de/roy$7 by be+ fold$ ov] a pa/ebo>d c>d4 ,a :ite sat9 dress %\ld be p9n$ up 9 blue pap]1 ) co>se br[n pap] outside1 sew$ toge!r at ! edges4 ,,to ,,re/ore ,,velvet4--,:5 velvet gets plu%$ f pressure1 hold+ ! rev]se side ov] a bas9 ( boil+ wat] w raise ! pile1 & p]haps x may also succe$ 9 ! case ( wet f ra94 ,,to ,,iron ,,velvet4--,hav+ ripp$ ! velvet ap>t1 damp ea* piece sep>ately1 & hold+ x tightly 9 bo? h&s1 /ret* x be=e ! fire1 ! wrong side ( ! velvet be+ t[>ds ! fire4 ,?is w remove ! creases1 & give ! surface ( ! mat]ial a fre% & new appe>ance4 ,velvet _c be iron$ on a table1 =1 :5 spread out on a h>d sub/ance1 ! iron w n g smoo?ly ov] ! pile4 ,,to ,,clean ,,erm9e ,,& ,,m9iv> ,,fur4--,take a piece ( s(t flannel1 & rub ! fur well ) x 7b rememb] t ! rubb+ mu/ be always aga9/ ! gra972 !n rub ! fur ) common fl\r until clean4 ,%ake x well1 & rub aga9 ) ! flannel till all ! fl\r is out ( x4 ,i h _h a ,m9iv> boa = f\r ye>s4 ,x has nev] be5 clean$ ) any?+ b fl\r1 & is n 9 ! lea/ injur$ by ! rubb+4 ,x 0 a s*ool companion :o told me t h] aunt 7a ,russian lady7 always clean$ h] :ite furs ) fl\r1 & t !y look$ q beautiful4 ,x has "o advantage--! l9+ does n require to be tak5 out1 & x only requires a little tr\ble4 ,erm9e takes long] ?an ,m9iv>4 ,! latt] is v easily done4 ,,to ,,p]fume ,,l954--,rose-leaves dri$ 9 ! %ade1 or at ab\t f\r feet f a /ove1 "o p\nd2 cloves1 c>raway-se$s1 & allspice1 ( ea* "o ounce2 p\nd 9 a mort>1 or gr9d 9 a mill2 dri$ salt1 a qu>t] ( a p\nd2 mix all ^! toge!r1 & put ! comp\nd into little bags4 ,,to ,,re/ore ,,scor*$ ,,l954--,take two onions1 peel & slice !m1 & extract ! juice by squeez+ or p\nd+4 ,!n cut up half an ounce ( :ite soap1 & two ounces ( full]'s e>?2 mix ) !m ! onion juice1 & half a p9t ( v9eg>4 ,boil ?is composition well1 & spread x1 :5 cool1 ov] ! scor*$ "p ( ! l951 leav+ x to dry !reon4 ,aft]w>ds wa% out ! l954 ,,to ,,:it5 ,,l95 ,,t ,,has ,,turn$ ,,yell[4--,cut up a p\nd ( f9e :ite soap into a gallon ( milk1 & hang x ov] ! fire 9 a wa%-kettle4 ,:5 ! soap has entirely melt$1 put 9 ! l951 & boil x half an h\r4 ,!n take x out2 h ready a la!r ( soap & w>m wat]2 wa% ! l95 9 x1 & !n r9se x ?r\gh two cold wat]s1 ) a v little blue 9 ! la/4 ,,to ,,wa% ,,*9a ,,crape ,,sc>fs1 c4--,if ! fabric be good1 ^! articles ( dress c be wa%$ z frequ5tly z may be requir$1 & no dim9ution ( _! beauty w be discov]able1 ev5 :5 ! v>i\s %ades ( gre5 h be5 employ$ among o!r colors 9 ! patt]ns4 ,9 clean+ !m1 make a /rong la!r ( boil+ wat]--suff] x to cool2 :5 cold1 or ne>ly s1 wa% ! sc>f quickly & ?or\ghly1 dip x imm$iately 9 cold h>d wat]1 9 :i* a little salt has be5 ?r[n 7to pres]ve ! colors71 r9se1 squeeze1 & hang x out to dry 9 ! op5 air2 p9 x at its extreme edge to ! l9e1 s t x may n 9 any "p be fold$ toge!r2 ! m rapidly x dries1 ! cle>] x w be4 ,,to ,,clean ,,embroid]y ,,& ,,gold ,,lace4--,= ?is purpose no alkal9e liquors are to be us$2 = :ile !y clean ! gold1 !y corrode ! silk1 & *ange its color4 ,soap also alt]s ! %ade1 & ev5 ! species ( c]ta9 colors4 ,b _s ( w9e may be us$ )\t any dang] ( its injur+ ei!r color or quality2 &1 9 _m cases1 proves z effectual = re/or+ ! lu/re ( ! gold z ! corrosive det]g5ts4 ,b1 ?\gh spirits ( w9e is ! mo/ innoc5t mat]ial employ$ = ?is purpose1 x is n 9 all cases prop]4 ,! gold5 cov]+ may be 9 "s p>ts worn (f2 or ! base metal ) :i* x has be5 alloy$ may be corrod$ by ! air1 s z to leave ! p>ticles ( ! gold disunit$2 :ile ! silv] und]nea?1 t>ni%$ to a yell[ hue1 may cont9ue a tol]able color to ! :ole1 s x is app>5t t ! removal ( ! t>ni% w\ld be prejudicial1 & make ! lace or embroid]y less l gold ?an x 0 be=e4 ,x is necess>y t c>e %\ld be tak54 ,,to ,,remove ,,/a9s ,,( ,,w9e ,,or ,,fruit ,,f ,,table ,,l954--,a w9e /a9 may sometimes be remov$ by rubb+ x1 :ile wet1 ) common salt4 ,x is said1 also1 t %]ry w9e p\r$ imm$iately on a place :]e port w9e has be5 spill$1 w prev5t its leav+ a /a94 ,a c]ta9 way ( extract+ fruit or w9e /a9s f table-l95 is to tie up "s cream ( t>t> 9 ! /a9$ "p 7s z to =m a sort ( bag71 & !n to put ! l95 into a la!r ( soap & cold wat]1 & boil x a:ile4 ,!n transf] x wet to a lukew>m suds1 wa% & r9se x well1 & dry & iron x4 ,! /a9s w disappe> dur+ ! process4 ,ano!r way1 is to mix1 9 equal quantities1 s(t soap1 slack5$ lime1 & pe>l-a%4 ,rub ! /a9 ) ?is prep>ation1 & expose ! l95 to ! sun ) ! mixture pla/]$ on x4 ,if necess>y1 repeat ! application4 ,z soon z ! /a9 has disappe>$1 wa% out ! l95 imm$iately1 z x w be injur$ if ! mixture is left 9 x4 ,,/a9 ,,mixture4--,take an ounce ( sal-ammoniac 7or h>t%orn7 & an ounce ( salt ( t>t>--mix !m well1 put !m into a p9t ( s(t wat]1 & bottle x = use1 keep+ x v tightly cork$4 ,p\r a little ( ?is liquid into a sauc]1 & wa% 9 x ^? p>ts ( a :ite article t h be5 /a9$ ) ink1 mildew1 fruit1 or r$ w9e4 ,:5 ! /a9s h1 by ?is process1 be5 remov$1 wa% ! article 9 ! usual mann]4 ,,*emical ,,r5ovat+ ,,balls--= tak+ out grease1 pa9t1 pit*1 t>1 f silks1 /uffs1 l951 wool51 c>pets1 hats1 coats1 c41 )\t fad+ ! color or injur+ ! clo?3--#a_/d ounce ( full]'s e>?1 #a_/d ounce ( pipe-clay1 #a ounce salt ( t>t>1 #a ounce beef gall1 #a ounce spirits ( w9e4 ,p\nd ! h>d p>ts & mix ! +r$i5ts well toge!r4 ,wet ! /a9 ) cold wat]1 rub x well ) ?is ball1 !n sponge x ) a wet sponge & ! /a9 w disappe>4 ,,to ,,prev5t ,,color$ ,,?+s ,,f ,,runn+4--,boil #a_/d p\nd ( soap till ne>ly dissolv$1 !n add a small piece ( alum & boil ) x4 ,wa% ! ?+s 9 ?is la!r1 b d n soap !m4 ,if !y require a second wat] put alum to t also z well z to ! r9s+ & blue wat]4 ,?is w pres]ve !m4 ,,to ,,remove ,,/a9s ,,f ,,m\rn+ ,,dresses4--,take a good h&ful ( fig-leaves1 & boil !m 9 two qu>ts ( wat] until r$uc$ to a p9t4 ,squeeze ! leaves & put ! liquor into a bottle = use4 ,! articles1 :e!r ( bombas91 crape1 clo?1 c41 ne$ only be rubb$ ) a sponge dipp$ 9 ! liquor1 :5 ! effect w be in/antly produc$4 ,if any reason exi/s to prev5t ! sub/ance f be+ wett$1 !n apply ,fr5* *alk1 :i* w absorb ! grease f ! f9e/ texture )\t injury4 ,,to ,,%r9k ,,new ,,flannel4--,new flannel %\ld always be %runk or wa%$ be=e x is made up1 t x may be cut out m accurately1 & t ! grease :i* is us$ 9 manufactur+ x may be extract$4 ,fir/1 cut (f ! li/ along ! selvage edges ( ! :ole piece4 ,!n put x into w>m 7n boil+7 wat]1 )\t soap4 ,beg9 at "o end ( ! piece1 & rub x ) bo? h&s till y come to ! o!r end2 ?is is to get out ! grease & ! blue ) :i* new :ite flannel is always t+$4 ,!n d ! same ?r\gh ano!r wat]4 ,r9se x ?r\gh a clean1 lukew>m wat]2 wr+ x l5g?ways1 & /ret* x well4 ,9 hang+ x out on a l9e d n susp5d x 9 fe/oons1 b spread x along ! l9e /raight & l5g?ways4 ,if dri$ 9 fe/oons1 ! edges w be 9 great scollops1 mak+ x v difficult to cut out4 ,x mu/ be dri$ 9 ! sun4 ,:5 dry let x be /ret*$ ev51 clapp$ ) ! h&s1 & roll$ up tight & smoo?ly1 till want$4 ,,gum ,,arabic ,,/>*4--,get two ounces ( f9e1 :ite gum arabic1 & p\nd x to p[d]4 ,next put x into a pit*]1 & p\r on x a p9t or m ( boil+ wat] 7accord+ to ! degree ( /r5g? y desire71 & !n1 hav+ cov]$ x1 let x set all night4 ,9 ! morn+1 p\r x c>efully f ! dregs into a clean bottle1 cork x1 & keep x = use4 ,a table-spoonful ( gum wat] /irr$ into a p9t ( />* t has be5 made 9 ! usual mann]1 w give to lawns 7ei!r :ite or pr9t$7 a look ( newness to :i* no?+ else c re/ore !m aft] wa%+4 ,x is also good 7mu* dilut$7 = ?9 :ite musl9 & bob9et4 ,,to ,,wa% ,,:ite ,,?read ,,gloves ,,& ,,/ock+s4--,^! articles are s delicate z to require great c>e 9 wa%+1 & !y mu/ n on any acc\nt be rubb$4 ,make a la!r ( :ite soap & cold wat]1 & put x into a saucepan4 ,soap ! gloves or /ock+s well1 put !m 91 & set ! saucepan ov] ! fire4 ,:5 !y h come to a h>d boil1 take !m (f1 & :5 cool en\gh = y\r h&1 squeeze !m 9 ! wat]4 ,hav+ prep>$ a fre% cold la!r1 boil !m aga9 9 t4 ,!n take ! pan (f ! fire1 & squeeze !m well aga91 aft] :i* !y c be /ret*$1 dri$1 & !n iron$ on ! wrong side4 ,,to ,,clean ,,silk ,,/ock+s4--,fir/ wa% ! /ock+s 9 ! usual mann]1 to take out ! r\gh dirt4 ,aft] r9s+ !m 9 clean wat]1 wa% !m well 9 a fre% soap liquor4 ,!n make a ?ird soap liquor1 :i* color ) a little /one-blue2 !n wa% ! /ock+s once m1 take !m out1 wr+ !m1 & p>ticul>ly dry !m4 ,n[ /ove !m ) brim/one1 & draw on a wood5 leg two /ock+s1 "o ^u ! o!r1 obs]v+ t ! two fronts or outsides are face to face4 ,poli% ) a glass bottle4 ,! two fir/ liquors %\ld be only lukew>m1 b ! ?ird z hot z y c be> y\r h& 94 ,blondes & gauzes may be :it5$ 9 ! same mann]1 b !re %\ld be a little gum put 9 ! la/ liquor be=e !y are /ov$4 ,,to ,,take ,,out ,,mildew ,,f ,,clo!s4--,mix "s s(t soap ) p[d]$ />*1 half z mu* salt1 & ! juice ( a lemon1 lay x on ! "p ) a bru%1 let x be expos$ 9 ! air day & night1 until ! /a9 disappe>s4 ,iron-m\lds may be remov$ by ! salt ( lemons4 ,_m /a9s 9 l95 may be tak5 out by dipp+ l95 9 s\r butt]milk1 & !n dry+ x 9 ! sun2 aft]w>ds wa% x 9 cold wat] sev]al times4 ,/a9s caus$ by acids may be remov$ by ty+ "s pe>la% up 9 ! /a9$ "p2 scrape "s soap 9 cold1 s(t wat]1 & boil ! l95 till ! /a9 is out4 ,,blea*+ ,,/raw4--,/raw is blea*$1 & /raw bonnets clean$1 by putt+ !m into a cask into :i* a few brim/one mat*es are plac$ light$4 ,! fumes ( ! sulphur h ! effect ( de/roy+ ! color1 or :it5+ ! /raw4 ,! same effect may be produc$ by dipp+ ! /raw into ! *loride ( lime dissolv$ 9 wat]4 ,,to ,,wa% ,,m\sel9e-,,de-,,la9e4--,boil a p\nd ( rice 9 five qu>ts ( wat]1 &1 :5 cool en\gh1 wa% 9 ?is1 us+ ! rice = soap4 ,h ano!r quantity ready1 b /ra9 ! rice f ?is & use x ) w>m wat]1 keep+ ! rice /ra9$ (f = a ?ird wa%+ :i*1 at ! same "t1 /iff5s & also bright5s ! colors4 ,,to ,,blea* ,a ,,fad$ ,,dress4--,wa% ! dress 9 hot suds1 & boil x until ! color appe>s to be gone2 !n r9se x & dry x 9 ! sun4 ,%\ld x n be r5d]$ :ite by ^! means1 lay ! dress 9 ! op5 air1 & blea* x = sev]al days4 ,if /ill n q :ite1 repeat ! boil+4 ,,indelible ,,m>k+ ,,ink1 ,,)\t ,,prep>ation4--#a-a_/b dra*ms nitrate ( silv] 7lun> cau/ic71 #a ounce di/ill$ wat]1 #a_/b ounce /rong mucilage ( gum arabic1 #c_/d dra*m liquid ammonia2 mix ! above 9 a clean glass bottle1 cork tightly1 & keep 9 a d>k place till dissolv$1 & ev] aft]w>ds4 ,directions = use3--,%ake ! bottle1 !n dip a clean quill p5 9 ! ink1 & write or draw :at y require on ! article2 imm$iately hold x close to ! fire1 7)\t scor*+7 or pass a hot iron ov] x1 & x w become a deep & indelible black1 inde/ructible by ei!r "t or acids ( any description4 ,,mixture ,,= ,,remov+ ,,ink ,,/a9s ,,& ,,iron-,,m\lds4--,cream ( t>t> & salts ( sorrel1 "o ounce ea*2 mix well1 & keep 9 a /opp]$ bottle4 ,,to ,,wa% ,,hair-,,bru%es4--,nev] use soap4 ,take a piece ( soda1 dissolve x 9 w>m wat]1 /& ! bru% 9 x1 tak+ c>e t ! wat] only cov]s ! bri/les2 x w almo/ imm$iately become :ite & clean2 /& x to dry 9 ! op5 air ) ! bri/les d[nw>ds1 & x w be f\nd to be z firm z a new bru%4 ,,to ,,clean ,,head ,,& ,,clo!s-,,bru%es4--,put a table-spoonful ( pe>l-a% into a p9t ( boil+ wat]4 ,hav+ fa/5$ a bit ( sponge to ! end ( a /ick1 dip x into ! solution1 & wa% ! bru% ) x2 c>efully go+ 9 among ! bri/les4 ,next p\r ov] x "s clean hot wat]1 & let x lie a little :ile4 ,!n dra9 x1 wipe x ) a clo?1 & dry x be=e ! fire4 ,lola ,montez 9 h] ,arts ( ,beauty gives ! foll[+ receipts = complexion1 hair1 c3-- ,,= ,,! ,,complexion4--,infuse :eat-bran1 well sift$1 = f\r h\rs 9 :ite w9e v9eg>1 add to x five yolks ( eggs & two gra9s ( amb]gris1 & di/ill ! :ole4 ,x %\ld be c>efully cork$ = twelve or fifte5 days1 :5 x w be fit = use4 ,di/ill two h&fuls ( jessam9e fl[]s 9 a qu>t ( rose-wat] & a qu>t ( orange-wat]4 ,/ra9 ?r\gh por\s pap]1 & add a scruple ( musk & a scruple ( amb]gris4 ,,to ,,give ,,ela/icity ,,( ,,=m4-- ,fat ( ! /ag or de] #h oz4 ,flor5ce oil 7or olive oil7 #f oz4 ,virg9 wax #c oz4 ,musk #a gra94 ,:ite br&y #a_/b p9t4 ,rose-wat] #d oz4 ,put ! fat1 oil1 & wax into a well glaz$ e>!n vessel1 & let !m simm] ov] a sl[ fire until !y are assimilat$2 !n p\r 9 ! o!r +r$i5ts1 & let ! :ole gradually cool1 :5 x w be fit = use4 ,!re is no d\bt b t ?is mixture1 frequ5tly & ?or\ghly rubb$ ^u ! body on go+ to b$1 w imp>t a rem>kable degree ( ela/icity to ! muscles4 ,9 ! morn+1 aft] ?is prep>ation has be5 us$1 ! body %\ld be ?or\ghly wip$ ) a sponge1 damp5$ ) cold wat]4 ,,= ,,! ,,complexion4--,take equal p>ts ( ! se$s ( ! melon1 pumpk91 g\rd1 & cucumb]1 p\nd$ till !y are r$uc$ to p[d]2 add to x suffici5t fre% cream to dilute ! fl\r1 & !n add milk en\gh to r$uce ! :ole to a ?9 pa/e4 ,add a gra9 ( musk1 & a few drops ( ! oil ( lemon4 ,ano9t ! face ) ?is1 leave x on tw5ty or ?irty m9utes1 or ov]night if conv5i5t1 & wa% (f ) w>m wat]4 ,x gives a rem>kable purity & brightness to ! complexion4 ,infuse a h&ful ( well sift$ :eat bran = f\r h\rs 9 :ite w9e v9eg>2 add to x five yolks ( eggs & two gra9s ( musk1 & di/ill ! :ole4 ,bottle x1 keep c>efully cork$ fifte5 days1 :5 x w be fit = use4 ,apply x ov] night1 & wa% 9 ! morn+ ) tepid wat]4 ,,too?-,,p[d]4-- ,prep>$ *alk #f oz4 ,cassia p[d] #a_/b oz4 ,orris-root #a oz4 ,^! %\ld be ?or\ghly mix$ & us$ once a day ) a firm bru%4 ,a simple mixture ( *>coal & cream ( t>t> is an excell5t too?-p[d]4 ,,to ,,:it5 ,,! ,,h&4--,bo? ,spani% & ,fr5* wom5--^?1 at lea/1 :o are v p>ticul> to make ! mo/ ( ^! *>ms--are 9 ! habit ( sleep+ 9 gloves :i* are l9$ or pla/]$ ov] ) a k9d ( pomade to improve ! delicacy & complexion ( _! h&s4 ,?is pa/e is g5]ally made ( ! foll[+ +r$i5ts3-- ,take half a p\nd ( s(t soap1 a gill ( salad oil1 an ounce ( mutton tall[1 & boil !m till !y are ?or\ghly mix$4 ,aft] ! boil+ has ceas$1 b be=e x is cold1 add "o gill ( spirits ( w9e1 & a gra9 ( musk4 ,if any lady wi%es to try ?is1 %e c buy a pair ( gloves ?ree or f\r sizes l>g] ?an ! h&1 rip !m op5 & spread on a ?9 lay] ( ! pa/e1 & !n sew ! gloves up aga94 ,!re is no d\bt t by we>+ !m e night !y w give smoo?ness & a f9e complexion to ! h&s4 ,^? :o h ! means1 c s5d to ,p>is & pur*ase !m ready made4 ,if ! h&s are incl9$ to be r\gh & to *ap1 ! foll[+ wa% w rem$y ! evil4 ,lemon-juice #c oz4 ,:ite w9e v9eg> #c oz4 ,:ite br&y #a_/b p9t4 ,,= ,,! ,,hair4--,beat up ! :ite ( f\r eggs into a fro?1 & rub t ?or\ghly 9 close to ! roots ( ! hair4 ,leave x to dry on4 ,!n wa% ! head & hair clean ) a mixture ( equal p>ts ( rum & rose-wat]4 ,,honey-,,wat]4-- ,ess5ce ( amb]gris #a dr4 ,ess5ce ( musk #a dr4 ,ess5ce ( b]gamot #b drs4 ,oil ( cloves #ae drops4 ,orange-fl[] wat] #d oz4 ,spirits ( w9e #e oz4 ,di/ill$ wat] #d oz4 ,all ^! +r$i5ts %\ld be mix$ toge!r1 & left ab\t f\rte5 days1 !n ! :ole to be filt]$ ?r\gh por\s pap]1 & bottl$ = use4 ,?is is a good hair-wa% & an excell5t p]fume4 ,,to ,,remove ,,pimples4--,!re are _m k9ds ( pimples1 "s ( :i* p>take almo/ ( ! nature ( ulc]s1 :i* require m$ical treatm5t2 b ! small r$ pimple1 :i* is mo/ common1 may be remov$ by apply+ ! foll[+ twice a-day3-- ,sulphur wat] #a oz4 ,acetat$ liquor ( ammonia #a_/d oz4 ,liquor ( potassa #a gr4 ,:ite w9e v9eg> #b oz4 ,di/ill$ wat] #b oz4 ,,to ,,remove ,,black ,,specks ,,or ',,fle%worms4'--,sometimes little black specks appe> ab\t ! base ( ! nose1 or on ! =ehead1 or 9 ! holl[ ( ! *9 :i* are call$ 'fle%worms1' & are occasion$ by coagulat$ lymph t ob/ructs ! pores ( ! sk94 ,!y may be squeez$ out by press+ ! sk91 & ignorant p]sons suppose !m to be little worms4 ,!y are p]man5tly remov$ by wa%+ ) w>m wat]1 & sev]e friction ) a t[el1 & !n apply+ a little ( ! foll[+ prep>ation3-- ,liquor ( potassa #a oz4 ,cologne #b oz4 ,:ite br&y4 #d oz4 ,! w>m wat] & friction alone are sometimes suffici5t4 ,,to ,,remove ,,freckles4--,! mo/ celebrat$ comp\nd ev] us$ = ! removal ( freckles 0 call$ ,unction de ,ma9t5on1 aft] ! celebrat$ ,madame de ,ma9t5on1 mi/ress & wife ( ,l\is ,,xiv4 ,x is made z foll[s3-- ,v5ice soap #a oz4 ,lemon-juice #a_/b oz4 ,oil ( bitt] almonds #a_/d oz4 ,deliquidat$ oil ( t>t> #a_/d oz4 ,oil ( rhodium #c drops ,fir/ dissolve ! soap 9 ! lemon-juice1 !n add ! two oils1 & place ! :ole 9 ! sun till x acquires ! consi/5ce ( o9tm5t1 & !n add ! oil ( rhodium4 ,ano9t ! freckly face at night ) ?is unction1 & wa% 9 ! morn+ ) pure wat]1 or1 if conv5i5t1 ) a mixture ( eld]-fl[] & rose-wat]4 ,,to ,,remove ,,tan4--,an excell5t wa% to remove tan is call$ ,creme de l',enclos1 & is made ?us3 ,new milk #a_/b p9t4 ,lemon-juice #a_/d oz4 ,:ite br&y #a_/b oz4 ,boil ! :ole1 & skim x cle> f all scum4 ,use x night & morn+4 ,a fam\s prep>ation ) ! ,spani% ladies = remov+ ! effects ( ! sun & mak+ ! complexion bright1 is compos$ simply ( equal p>ts ( lemon-juice & ! :ite ( eggs4 ,! :ole is beat toge!r 9 a v>ni%$ e>!n pot1 & set ov] a sl[ fire1 & /irr$ ) a wood5 spoon till x acquires ! consi/5ce ( s(t pomatum4 ,?is comp\nd is call$ ,pommade de ,seville4 ,if ! face is well wa%$ ) rice-wat] be=e x is appli$1 x w remove freckles1 & give a f9e lu/re to ! complexion4 ---------------------------------------- -------------------------------- ,transcrib]'s ,note3 ,m9or punctuation errors 7e4g4 miss+1 mispr9t$ or misplac$ punctuation7 h be5 correct$ )\t note4 ,inconsi/5t hyph5ation 7e4g4 ball room1 ball-room2 bon-bons1 bonbons71 spell+ 7e4g4 visit]s1 visitors7 & capitalization 7e4g4 n]oli1 ,n]oli7 h n be5 correct$4 ,_m ( ! ,receipts are ne>ly id5tical4 ,?is has n be5 *ang$4 ,! foll[+ *anges 7 made to ! text3 p4 #ca3 admissable to admissible 7black lace mitt5s are admissible7 p4 #de3 oclock to o'clock 7,?ursday ev5+ next1 at #h o'clock7 p4 #acg3 left to "r 7,on ! upp] "r h& corn] ( y\r envelope7 p4 #afj3 viol9cello to violoncello 7a piano1 viol91 & violoncello7 p4 #bjd3 miss+ ( add$ 7! mo/ graceful ( dances7 p4 #bad3 guaze to gauze 7) a gauze ( a diff]5t color7 p4 #bba3 kne$les to ne$les 7ne$les %\ld be ( ! smalle/ size7 p4 #bce3 extra close quote remov$ 7ent]$ t h\se47 p4 #bdd3 extra ! remov$ 79 ! highe/ & l[e/ classes7 p4 #bfj3 returnes to returns 7%e returns f h] bridal t\r7 p4 #bgh3 d\ble quotes to s+le quotes 7',appetite1' says ,dr4 ,combe1 'revives aft] repose4'7 p4 #cje3 extra a remov$ 7conta9+ a mixture 9 equal portions7 p4 #cah3 extra ( remov$ 7f\r ounces ( butt]7 p4 #cbf3 inpair to impair 7impair ! color7 p4 #cdj3 acquir$ to acquires 7till x acquires7 ---------------------------------------- --------------------------------