,ver4#ab4ab4jj99;,,end99 ,this etext was produced by ,amy ,e ,zelmer a4zelmercqu4edu4au ,col ,choat ,c,choatsanderson4net4au ,sue ,asscher asschersdingoblue4net4au ,a ,,vindication ,,of ,,the ,,rights ,,of ,,woman1 ,,with ,,strictures ,,on ,,political ,,and ,,moral ,,subjects1 ,,by ,,mary ,,wollstonecraft4 ,,with ,a ,,biographical ,,sketch ,,of ,,the ,,author4 ,,contents4 ,,introduction4 ,,chapter #a4 ,,the ,,rights ,,and ,,involved ,,duties ,,of ,,mankind ,,considered4 ,,chapter #b4 ,,the ,,prevailing ,,opinion ,,of ,a ,,sexual ,,character ,,discussed4 ,,chapter #c4 ,,the ,,same ,,subject ,,continued4 ,,chapter #d4 ,,observations ,,on ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,degradation ,,to ,,which ,,woman ,,is ,,reduced ,,by ,,various ,,causes4 ,,chapter #e4 ,,animadversions ,,on ,,some ,,of ,,the ,,writers ,,who ,,have ,,rendered ,,women ,,objects ,,of ,,pity1 ,,bordering ,,on ,,contempt4 ,,chapter #f4 ,,the ,,effect ,,which ,,an ,,early ,,association ,,of ,,ideas ,,has ,,upon ,,the ,,character4 ,,chapter #g4 ,,modesty4 ,,comprehensively ,,considered1 ,,and ,,not ,,as ,a ,,sexual ,,virtue4 ,,chapter #h4 ,,morality ,,undermined ,,by ,,sexual ,,notions ,,of ,,the ,,importance ,,of ,a ,,good ,,reputation ,,chapter #i4 ,,of ,,the ,,pernicious ,,effects ,,which ,,arise ,,from ,,the ,,unnatural ,,distinctions ,,established ,,in ,,society4 ,,chapter #aj4 ,,parental ,,affection4 ,,chapter #aa4 ,,duty ,,to ,,parents ,,chapter #ab4 ,,on ,,national ,,education ,,chapter #ac4 ,,some ,,instances ,,of ,,the ,,folly ,,which ,,the ,,ignorance ,,of ,,women ,,generates2 ,,with ,,concluding ,,reflections ,,on ,,the ,,moral ,,improvement ,,that ,a ,,revolution ,,in ,,female ,,manners ,,may ,,naturally ,,be ,,expected ,,to ,,produce4 #h ,april1 #bjja ,a ,,brief ,,sketch ,,of ,,the ,,life ,,of ,,mary ,,wollstonecraft4 ,m4 ,wollstonecraft was born in #agei4 ,her father was so great a wanderer1 that the place of her birth is uncertain2 she supposed1 however1 it was ,london1 or ,epping ,forest3 at the latter place she spent the first five years of her life4 ,in early youth she exhibited traces of exquisite sensibility1 soundness of understanding1 and decision of character2 but her father being a despot in his family1 and her mother one of his subjects1 ,mary1 derived little benefit from their parental training4 ,she received no literary instructions but such as were to be had in ordinary day schools4 ,before her sixteenth year she became acquainted with ,mr4 ,clare a clergyman1 and ,miss ,frances ,blood2 the latter1 two years older than herself2 who possessing good taste and some knowledge of the fine arts1 seems to have given the first impulse to the formation of her character4 ,at the age of nineteen1 she left her parents1 and resided with a ,mrs4 ,dawson for two years2 when she returned to the parental roof to give attention to her mother1 whose ill health made her presence necessary4 ,on the death of her mother1 ,mary bade a final adieu to her father's house1 and became the inmate of ,f4 ,blood2 thus situated1 their intimacy increased1 and a strong attachment was reciprocated4 ,in #aghc she commenced a day school at ,newington green1 in conjunction with her friend1 ,f4 ,blood4 ,at this place she became acquainted with ,dr4 ,price1 to whom she became strongly attached2 the regard was mutual4 ,it is said that she became a teacher from motives of benevolence1 or rather philanthropy1 and during the time she continued in the profession1 she gave proof of superior qualification for the performance of its arduous and important duties4 ,her friend and coadjutor married and removed to ,lisbon1 in ,portugal1 where she died of a pulmonary disease2 the symptoms of which were visible before her marriage4 ,so true was ,mary's attachment to her1 that she entrusted her school to the care of others1 for the purpose of attending ,frances in her closing scene4 ,she aided1 as did ,dr4 ,young1 in ,stealing ,narcissa a grave4 ,her mind was expanded by this residence in a foreign country1 and though clear of religious bigotry before1 she took some instructive lessons on the evils of superstition1 and intolerance4 ,on her return she found the school had suffered by her absence1 and having previously decided to apply herself to literature1 she now resolved to commence4 ,in #aghg she made1 or received1 proposals from ,johnson1 a publisher in ,london1 who was already acquainted with her talents as an author4 ,during the three subsequent years1 she was actively engaged1 more in translating1 condensing1 and compiling1 than in the production of original works4 ,at this time she laboured under much depression of spirits1 for the loss of her friend2 this rather increased1 perhaps1 by the publication of ,mary1 a novel1 which was mostly composed of incidents and reflections connected with their intimacy4 ,the pecuniary concerns of her father becoming embarrassed1 ,mary practised a rigid economy in her expenditures1 and with her savings was enabled to procure her sisters and brothers situations1 to which without her aid1 they could not have had access2 her father was sustained at length from her funds2 she even found means to take under her protection an orphan child4 ,she had acquired a facility in the arrangement and expression of thoughts1 in her avocation of translator1 and compiler1 which was no doubt of great use to her afterward4 ,it was not long until she had occasion for them4 ,the eminent ,burke produced his celebrated ,reflections on the ,revolution in ,france4 ,mary full of sentiments of liberty1 and indignant at what she thought subversive of it1 seized her pen and produced the first attack upon that famous work4 ,it succeeded well1 for though intemperate and contemptuous1 it was vehemently and impetuously eloquent2 and though ,burke was beloved by the enlightened friends of freedom1 they were dissatisfied and disgusted with what they deemed an outrage upon it4 ,it is said that ,mary1 had not wanted confidence in her own powers before1 but the reception this work met from the public1 gave her an opportunity of judging what those powers were1 in the estimation of others4 ,it was shortly after this1 that she commenced the work to which these remarks are prefixed4 ,what are its merits will be decided in the judgment of each reader2 suffice it to say she appears to have stept forth boldly1 and singly1 in defence of that half of the human race1 which by the usages of all society1 whether savage or civilized1 have been kept from attaining their proper dignity--their equal rank as rational beings4 ,it would appear that the disguise used in placing on woman the silken fetters which bribed her into endurance1 and even love of slavery1 but increased the opposition of our authoress3 she would have had more patience with rude1 brute coercion1 than with that imposing gallantry1 which1 while it affects to consider woman as the pride1 and ornament of creation1 degrades her to a toy--an appendage--a cypher4 ,the work was much reprehended1 and as might well be expected1 found its greatest enemies in the pretty soft creatures--the spoiled children of her own sex4 ,she accomplished it in six weeks4 ,in #agib she removed to ,paris1 where she became acquainted with ,gilbert ,imlay1 of the ,united ,states4 ,and from this acquaintance grew an attachment1 which brought the parties together1 without legal formalities1 to which she objected on account of some family embarrassments1 in which he would thereby become involved4 ,the engagement was however considered by her of the most sacred nature1 and they formed the plan of emigrating to ,america1 where they should be enabled to accomplish it4 ,these were the days of ,robespierrean cruelty1 and ,imlay left ,paris for ,havre1 whither after a time ,mary followed him4 ,they continued to reside there1 until he left ,havre for ,london1 under pretence of business1 and with a promise of rejoining her soon at ,paris1 which however he did not1 but in #agie sent for her to ,london4 ,in the mean time she had become the mother of a female child1 whom she called ,frances in commemoration of her early friendship4 ,before she went to ,england1 she had some gloomy forebodings that the affections of ,imlay1 had waned1 if they were not estranged from her2 on her arrival1 those forebodings were sorrowfully confirmed4 ,his attentions were too formal and constrained to pass unobserved by her penetration1 and though he ascribed his manner1 and his absence1 to business duties1 she saw his affection for her was only something to be remembered4 ,to use her own expression1 ,love1 dear delusion6 ,rigorous reason has forced me to resign2 and now my rational prospects are blasted1 just as ,i have learned to be contented with rational enjoyments4 ,to pretend to depict her misery at this time would be futile2 the best idea can be formed of it from the fact that she had planned her own destruction1 from which ,imlay prevented her4 ,she conceived the idea of suicide a second time1 and threw herself into the ,thames2 she remained in the water1 until consciousness forsook her1 but she was taken up and resuscitated4 ,after divers attempts to revive the affections of ,imlay1 with sundry explanations and professions on his part1 through the lapse of two years1 she resolved finally to forgo all hope of reclaiming him1 and endeavour to think of him no more in connexion with her future prospects4 ,in this she succeeded so well1 that she afterwards had a private interview with him1 which did not produce any painful emotions4 ,in #agif she revived or improved an acquaintance which commenced years before with ,wm4 ,godwin1 author of ,political ,justice1 and other works of great notoriety4 ,though they had not been favourably impressed with each other on their former acquaintance1 they now met under circumstances which permitted a mutual and just appreciation of character4 ,their intimacy increased by regular and almost imperceptible degrees4 ,the partiality they conceived for each other was1 according to her biographer1 ,in the most refined style of love4 ,it grew with equal advances in the mind of each4 ,it would have been impossible for the most minute observer to have said who was before1 or who after4 ,one sex did not take the priority which long established custom has awarded it1 nor the other overstep that delicacy which is so severely imposed4 ,neither party could assume to have been the agent or the patient1 the toil-spreader or the prey in the affair4 ,when in the course of things the disclosure came1 there was nothing in a manner for either to disclose to the other4 ,mary lived but a few months after her marriage1 and died in child-bed2 having given birth to a daughter who is now known to the literary world as ,mrs4 ,shelly1 the widow of ,percy ,bysche ,shelly4 ,we can scarcely avoid regret that one of such splendid talents1 and high toned feelings1 should1 after the former seemed to have been fully developed1 and the latter had found an object in whom they might repose1 after their eccentric and painful efforts to find a resting place--that such an one should at such a time1 be cut off from life is something which we cannot contemplate without feeling regret2 we can scarcely repress the murmur that she had not been removed ere clouds darkened her horizon1 or that she had remained to witness the brightness and serenity which might have succeeded4 ,but thus it is2 we may trace the cause to anti-social arrangements2 it is not individuals but society which must change it1 and that not by enactments1 but by a change in public opinion4 ,the authoress of the ,rights of ,woman1 was born ,april #agei1 died ,september #agig4 ,that there may be no doubt regarding the facts in this sketch1 they are taken from a memoir written by her afflicted husband4 ,in addition to many kind things he has said of her1 7he was not blinded to imperfections in her character7 is1 that she was ,lovely in her person1 and in the best and most engaging sense feminine in her manners4 ,,to ,m4 ,,talleyrand ,,perigord1 ,,late ,,bishop ,,of ,,autun4 ,sir3-- ,having read with great pleasure a pamphlet1 which you have lately published1 on ,national ,education1 ,i dedicate this volume to you1 the first dedication that ,i have ever written1 to induce you to read it with attention2 and1 because ,i think that you will understand me1 which ,i do not suppose many pert witlings will1 who may ridicule the arguments they are unable to answer4 ,but1 sir1 ,i carry my respect for your understanding still farther3 so far1 that ,i am confident you will not throw my work aside1 and hastily conclude that ,i am in the wrong because you did not view the subject in the same light yourself4 ,and pardon my frankness1 but ,i must observe1 that you treated it in too cursory a manner1 contented to consider it as it had been considered formerly1 when the rights of man1 not to advert to woman1 were trampled on as chimerical4 ,i call upon you1 therefore1 now to weigh what ,i have advanced respecting the rights of woman1 and national education2 and ,i call with the firm tone of humanity4 ,for my arguments1 sir1 are dictated by a disinterested spirit3 ,i plead for my sex1 not for myself4 ,independence ,i have long considered as the grand blessing of life1 the basis of every virtue2 and independence ,i will ever secure by contracting my wants1 though ,i were to live on a barren heath4 ,it is1 then1 an affection for the whole human race that makes my pen dart rapidly along to support what ,i believe to be the cause of virtue3 and the same motive leads me earnestly to wish to see woman placed in a station in which she would advance1 instead of retarding1 the progress of those glorious principles that give a substance to morality4 ,my opinion1 indeed1 respecting the rights and duties of woman1 seems to flow so naturally from these simple principles1 that ,i think it scarcely possible1 but that some of the enlarged minds who formed your admirable constitution1 will coincide with me4 ,in ,france1 there is undoubtedly a more general diffusion of knowledge than in any part of the ,european world1 and ,i attribute it1 in a great measure1 to the social intercourse which has long subsisted between the sexes4 ,it is true1 ,i utter my sentiments with freedom1 that in ,france the very essence of sensuality has been extracted to regale the voluptuary1 and a kind of sentimental lust has prevailed1 which1 together with the system of duplicity that the whole tenor of their political and civil government taught1 have given a sinister sort of sagacity to the ,french character1 properly termed finesse2 and a polish of manners that injures the substance1 by hunting sincerity out of society4 ,and1 modesty1 the fairest garb of virtue has been more grossly insulted in ,france than even in ,england1 till their women have treated as ,,prudish that attention to decency which brutes instinctively observe4 ,manners and morals are so nearly allied1 that they have often been confounded2 but1 though the former should only be the natural reflection of the latter1 yet1 when various causes have produced factitious and corrupt manners1 which are very early caught1 morality becomes an empty name4 ,the personal reserve1 and sacred respect for cleanliness and delicacy in domestic life1 which ,french women almost despise1 are the graceful pillars of modesty2 but1 far from despising them1 if the pure flame of patriotism have reached their bosoms1 they should labour to improve the morals of their fellow-citizens1 by teaching men1 not only to respect modesty in women1 but to acquire it themselves1 as the only way to merit their esteem4 ,contending for the rights of women1 my main argument is built on this simple principle1 that if she be not prepared by education to become the companion of man1 she will stop the progress of knowledge1 for truth must be common to all1 or it will be inefficacious with respect to its influence on general practice4 ,and how can woman be expected to co-operate1 unless she know why she ought to be virtuous8 ,unless freedom strengthen her reason till she comprehend her duty1 and see in what manner it is connected with her real good8 ,if children are to be educated to understand the true principle of patriotism1 their mother must be a patriot2 and the love of mankind1 from which an orderly train of virtues spring1 can only be produced by considering the moral and civil interest of mankind2 but the education and situation of woman1 at present1 shuts her out from such investigations4 ,in this work ,i have produced many arguments1 which to me were conclusive1 to prove1 that the prevailing notion respecting a sexual character was subversive of morality1 and ,i have contended1 that to render the human body and mind more perfect1 chastity must more universally prevail1 and that chastity will never be respected in the male world till the person of a woman is not1 as it were1 idolized when little virtue or sense embellish it with the grand traces of mental beauty1 or the interesting simplicity of affection4 ,consider1 ,sir1 dispassionately1 these observations1 for a glimpse of this truth seemed to open before you when you observed1 that to see one half of the human race excluded by the other from all participation of government1 was a political phenomenon that1 according to abstract principles1 it was impossible to explain4 ,if so1 on what does your constitution rest8 ,if the abstract rights of man will bear discussion and explanation1 those of woman1 by a parity of reasoning1 will not shrink from the same test3 though a different opinion prevails in this country1 built on the very arguments which you use to justify the oppression of woman1 prescription4 ,consider1 ,i address you as a legislator1 whether1 when men contend for their freedom1 and to be allowed to judge for themselves1 respecting their own happiness1 it be not inconsistent and unjust to subjugate women1 even though you firmly believe that you are acting in the manner best calculated to promote their happiness8 ,who made man the exclusive judge1 if woman partake with him the gift of reason8 ,in this style1 argue tyrants of every denomination from the weak king to the weak father of a family2 they are all eager to crush reason2 yet always assert that they usurp its throne only to be useful4 ,do you not act a similar part1 when you ,,force all women1 by denying them civil and political rights1 to remain immured in their families groping in the dark8 ,for surely1 sir1 you will not assert1 that a duty can be binding which is not founded on reason8 ,if1 indeed1 this be their destination1 arguments may be drawn from reason2 and thus augustly supported1 the more understanding women acquire1 the more they will be attached to their duty1 comprehending it1 for unless they comprehend it1 unless their morals be fixed on the same immutable principles as those of man1 no authority can make them discharge it in a virtuous manner4 ,they may be convenient slaves1 but slavery will have its constant effect1 degrading the master and the abject dependent4 ,but1 if women are to be excluded1 without having a voice1 from a participation of the natural rights of mankind1 prove first1 to ward off the charge of injustice and inconsistency1 that they want reason1 else this flaw in your ,,new ,,constitution1 the first constitution founded on reason1 will ever show that man must1 in some shape1 act like a tyrant1 and tyranny1 in whatever part of society it rears its brazen front1 will ever undermine morality4 ,i have repeatedly asserted1 and produced what appeared to me irrefragable arguments drawn from matters of fact1 to prove my assertion1 that women cannot1 by force1 be confined to domestic concerns2 for they will however ignorant1 intermeddle with more weighty affairs1 neglecting private duties only to disturb1 by cunning tricks1 the orderly plans of reason which rise above their comprehension4 ,besides1 whilst they are only made to acquire personal accomplishments1 men will seek for pleasure in variety1 and faithless husbands will make faithless wives2 such ignorant beings1 indeed1 will be very excusable when1 not taught to respect public good1 nor allowed any civil right1 they attempt to do themselves justice by retaliation4 ,the box of mischief thus opened in society1 what is to preserve private virtue1 the only security of public freedom and universal happiness8 ,let there be then no coercion ,,established in society1 and the common law of gravity prevailing1 the sexes will fall into their proper places4 ,and1 now that more equitable laws are forming your citizens1 marriage may become more sacred2 your young men may choose wives from motives of affection1 and your maidens allow love to root out vanity4 ,the father of a family will not then weaken his constitution and debase his sentiments1 by visiting the harlot1 nor forget1 in obeying the call of appetite1 the purpose for which it was implanted2 and the mother will not neglect her children to practise the arts of coquetry1 when sense and modesty secure her the friendship of her husband4 ,but1 till men become attentive to the duty of a father1 it is vain to expect women to spend that time in their nursery which they1 wise in their generation1 choose to spend at their glass2 for this exertion of cunning is only an instinct of nature to enable them to obtain indirectly a little of that power of which they are unjustly denied a share2 for1 if women are not permitted to enjoy legitimate rights1 they will render both men and themselves vicious1 to obtain illicit privileges4 ,i wish1 sir1 to set some investigations of this kind afloat in ,france2 and should they lead to a confirmation of my principles1 when your constitution is revised1 the rights of woman may be respected1 if it be fully proved that reason calls for this respect1 and loudly demands ,,justice for one half of the human race4 ,i am1 sir1 ,yours respectfully1 ,m4 ,w4 ,,introduction4 ,after considering the historic page1 and viewing the living world with anxious solicitude1 the most melancholy emotions of sorrowful indignation have depressed my spirits1 and ,i have sighed when obliged to confess1 that either nature has made a great difference between man and man1 or that the civilization1 which has hitherto taken place in the world1 has been very partial4 ,i have turned over various books written on the subject of education1 and patiently observed the conduct of parents and the management of schools2 but what has been the result8 a profound conviction1 that the neglected education of my fellow creatures is the grand source of the misery ,i deplore2 and that women in particular1 are rendered weak and wretched by a variety of concurring causes1 originating from one hasty conclusion4 ,the conduct and manners of women1 in fact1 evidently prove1 that their minds are not in a healthy state2 for1 like the flowers that are planted in too rich a soil1 strength and usefulness are sacrificed to beauty2 and the flaunting leaves1 after having pleased a fastidious eye1 fade1 disregarded on the stalk1 long before the season when they ought to have arrived at maturity4 ,one cause of this barren blooming ,i attribute to a false system of education1 gathered from the books written on this subject by men1 who1 considering females rather as women than human creatures1 have been more anxious to make them alluring mistresses than rational wives2 and the understanding of the sex has been so bubbled by this specious homage1 that the civilized women of the present century1 with a few exceptions1 are only anxious to inspire love1 when they ought to cherish a nobler ambition1 and by their abilities and virtues exact respect4 ,in a treatise1 therefore1 on female rights and manners1 the works which have been particularly written for their improvement must not be overlooked2 especially when it is asserted1 in direct terms1 that the minds of women are enfeebled by false refinement2 that the books of instruction1 written by men of genius1 have had the same tendency as more frivolous productions2 and that1 in the true style of ,mahometanism1 they are only considered as females1 and not as a part of the human species1 when improvable reason is allowed to be the dignified distinction1 which raises men above the brute creation1 and puts a natural sceptre in a feeble hand4 ,yet1 because ,i am a woman1 ,i would not lead my readers to suppose1 that ,i mean violently to agitate the contested question respecting the equality and inferiority of the sex2 but as the subject lies in my way1 and ,i cannot pass it over without subjecting the main tendency of my reasoning to misconstruction1 ,i shall stop a moment to deliver1 in a few words1 my opinion4 ,in the government of the physical world1 it is observable that the female1 in general1 is inferior to the male4 ,the male pursues1 the female yields--this is the law of nature2 and it does not appear to be suspended or abrogated in favour of woman4 ,this physical superiority cannot be denied--and it is a noble prerogative6 ,but not content with this natural pre-eminence1 men endeavour to sink us still lower1 merely to render us alluring objects for a moment2 and women1 intoxicated by the adoration which men1 under the influence of their senses1 pay them1 do not seek to obtain a durable interest in their hearts1 or to become the friends of the fellow creatures who find amusement in their society4 ,i am aware of an obvious inference3 from every quarter have ,i heard exclamations against masculine women2 but where are they to be found8 ,if1 by this appellation1 men mean to inveigh against their ardour in hunting1 shooting1 and gaming1 ,i shall most cordially join in the cry2 but if it be1 against the imitation of manly virtues1 or1 more properly speaking1 the attainment of those talents and virtues1 the exercise of which ennobles the human character1 and which raise females in the scale of animal being1 when they are comprehensively termed mankind--all those who view them with a philosophical eye must1 ,i should think1 wish with me1 that they may every day grow more and more masculine4 ,this discussion naturally divides the subject4 ,i shall first consider women in the grand light of human creatures1 who1 in common with men1 are placed on this earth to unfold their faculties2 and afterwards ,i shall more particularly point out their peculiar designation4 ,i wish also to steer clear of an error1 which many respectable writers have fallen into2 for the instruction which has hitherto been addressed to women1 has rather been applicable to ,,ladies1 if the little indirect advice1 that is scattered through ,sandford and ,merton1 be excepted2 but1 addressing my sex in a firmer tone1 ,i pay particular attention to those in the middle class1 because they appear to be in the most natural state4 ,perhaps the seeds of false refinement1 immorality1 and vanity have ever been shed by the great4 ,weak1 artificial beings raised above the common wants and affections of their race1 in a premature unnatural manner1 undermine the very foundation of virtue1 and spread corruption through the whole mass of society6 ,as a class of mankind they have the strongest claim to pity6 the education of the rich tends to render them vain and helpless1 and the unfolding mind is not strengthened by the practice of those duties which dignify the human character4 ,they only live to amuse themselves1 and by the same law which in nature invariably produces certain effects1 they soon only afford barren amusement4 ,but as ,i purpose taking a separate view of the different ranks of society1 and of the moral character of women1 in each1 this hint is1 for the present1 sufficient2 and ,i have only alluded to the subject1 because it appears to me to be the very essence of an introduction to give a cursory account of the contents of the work it introduces4 ,my own sex1 ,i hope1 will excuse me1 if ,i treat them like rational creatures1 instead of flattering their ,,fascinating graces1 and viewing them as if they were in a state of perpetual childhood1 unable to stand alone4 ,i earnestly wish to point out in what true dignity and human happiness consists--,i wish to persuade women to endeavour to acquire strength1 both of mind and body1 and to convince them1 that the soft phrases1 susceptibility of heart1 delicacy of sentiment1 and refinement of taste1 are almost synonymous with epithets of weakness1 and that those beings who are only the objects of pity and that kind of love1 which has been termed its sister1 will soon become objects of contempt4 ,dismissing then those pretty feminine phrases1 which the men condescendingly use to soften our slavish dependence1 and despising that weak elegancy of mind1 exquisite sensibility1 and sweet docility of manners1 supposed to be the sexual characteristics of the weaker vessel1 ,i wish to show that elegance is inferior to virtue1 that the first object of laudable ambition is to obtain a character as a human being1 regardless of the distinction of sex2 and that secondary views should be brought to this simple touchstone4 ,this is a rough sketch of my plan2 and should ,i express my conviction with the energetic emotions that ,i feel whenever ,i think of the subject1 the dictates of experience and reflection will be felt by some of my readers4 ,animated by this important object1 ,i shall disdain to cull my phrases or polish my style--,i aim at being useful1 and sincerity will render me unaffected2 for wishing rather to persuade by the force of my arguments1 than dazzle by the elegance of my language1 ,i shall not waste my time in rounding periods1 nor in fabricating the turgid bombast of artificial feelings1 which1 coming from the head1 never reach the heart4 ,i shall be employed about things1 not words6 and1 anxious to render my sex more respectable members of society1 ,i shall try to avoid that flowery diction which has slided from essays into novels1 and from novels into familiar letters and conversation4 ,these pretty nothings1 these caricatures of the real beauty of sensibility1 dropping glibly from the tongue1 vitiate the taste1 and create a kind of sickly delicacy that turns away from simple unadorned truth2 and a deluge of false sentiments and over-stretched feelings1 stifling the natural emotions of the heart1 render the domestic pleasures insipid1 that ought to sweeten the exercise of those severe duties1 which educate a rational and immortal being for a nobler field of action4 ,the education of women has1 of late1 been more attended to than formerly2 yet they are still reckoned a frivolous sex1 and ridiculed or pitied by the writers who endeavour by satire or instruction to improve them4 ,it is acknowledged that they spend many of the first years of their lives in acquiring a smattering of accomplishments3 meanwhile1 strength of body and mind are sacrificed to libertine notions of beauty1 to the desire of establishing themselves1 the only way women can rise in the world--by marriage4 ,and this desire making mere animals of them1 when they marry1 they act as such children may be expected to act3 they dress2 they paint1 and nickname ,god's creatures4 ,surely these weak beings are only fit for the seraglio6 ,can they govern a family1 or take care of the poor babes whom they bring into the world8 ,if then it can be fairly deduced from the present conduct of the sex1 from the prevalent fondness for pleasure1 which takes place of ambition and those nobler passions that open and enlarge the soul2 that the instruction which women have received has only tended1 with the constitution of civil society1 to render them insignificant objects of desire2 mere propagators of fools6 if it can be proved1 that in aiming to accomplish them1 without cultivating their understandings1 they are taken out of their sphere of duties1 and made ridiculous and useless when the short lived bloom of beauty is over991 ,i presume that ,,rational men will excuse me for endeavouring to persuade them to become more masculine and respectable4 799,footnote4 ,a lively writer1 ,i cannot recollect his name1 asks what business women turned of forty have to do in the world47 ,indeed the word masculine is only a bugbear3 there is little reason to fear that women will acquire too much courage or fortitude2 for their apparent inferiority with respect to bodily strength1 must render them1 in some degree1 dependent on men in the various relations of life2 but why should it be increased by prejudices that give a sex to virtue1 and confound simple truths with sensual reveries8 ,women are1 in fact1 so much degraded by mistaken notions of female excellence1 that ,i do not mean to add a paradox when ,i assert1 that this artificial weakness produces a propensity to tyrannize1 and gives birth to cunning1 the natural opponent of strength1 which leads them to play off those contemptible infantile airs that undermine esteem even whilst they excite desire4 ,do not foster these prejudices1 and they will naturally fall into their subordinate1 yet respectable station in life4 ,it seems scarcely necessary to say1 that ,i now speak of the sex in general4 ,many individuals have more sense than their male relatives2 and1 as nothing preponderates where there is a constant struggle for an equilibrium1 without it has naturally more gravity1 some women govern their husbands without degrading themselves1 because intellect will always govern4 ,,vindication ,,of ,,the ,,rights ,,of ,,woman4 ,,chapter #a4 ,,the ,,rights ,,and ,,involved ,,duties ,,of ,,mankind ,,considered4 ,in the present state of society1 it appears necessary to go back to first principles in search of the most simple truths1 and to dispute with some prevailing prejudice every inch of ground4 ,to clear my way1 ,i must be allowed to ask some plain questions1 and the answers will probably appear as unequivocal as the axioms on which reasoning is built2 though1 when entangled with various motives of action1 they are formally contradicted1 either by the words or conduct of men4 ,in what does man's pre-eminence over the brute creation consist8 ,the answer is as clear as that a half is less than the whole2 in ,reason4 ,what acquirement exalts one being above another8 ,virtue2 we spontaneously reply4 ,for what purpose were the passions implanted8 ,that man by struggling with them might attain a degree of knowledge denied to the brutes3 whispers ,experience4 ,consequently the perfection of our nature and capability of happiness1 must be estimated by the degree of reason1 virtue1 and knowledge1 that distinguish the individual1 and direct the laws which bind society3 and that from the exercise of reason1 knowledge and virtue naturally flow1 is equally undeniable1 if mankind be viewed collectively4 ,the rights and duties of man thus simplified1 it seems almost impertinent to attempt to illustrate truths that appear so incontrovertible3 yet such deeply rooted prejudices have clouded reason1 and such spurious qualities have assumed the name of virtues1 that it is necessary to pursue the course of reason as it has been perplexed and involved in error1 by various adventitious circumstances1 comparing the simple axiom with casual deviations4 ,men1 in general1 seem to employ their reason to justify prejudices1 which they have imbibed1 they cannot trace how1 rather than to root them out4 ,the mind must be strong that resolutely forms its own principles2 for a kind of intellectual cowardice prevails which makes many men shrink from the task1 or only do it by halves4 ,yet the imperfect conclusions thus drawn1 are frequently very plausible1 because they are built on partial experience1 on just1 though narrow1 views4 ,going back to first principles1 vice skulks1 with all its native deformity1 from close investigation2 but a set of shallow reasoners are always exclaiming that these arguments prove too much1 and that a measure rotten at the core may be expedient4 ,thus expediency is continually contrasted with simple principles1 till truth is lost in a mist of words1 virtue in forms1 and knowledge rendered a sounding nothing1 by the specious prejudices that assume its name4 ,that the society is formed in the wisest manner1 whose constitution is founded on the nature of man1 strikes1 in the abstract1 every thinking being so forcibly1 that it looks like presumption to endeavour to bring forward proofs2 though proof must be brought1 or the strong hold of prescription will never be forced by reason2 yet to urge prescription as an argument to justify the depriving men 7or women7 of their natural rights1 is one of the absurd sophisms which daily insult common sense4 ,the civilization of the bulk of the people of ,europe1 is very partial2 nay1 it may be made a question1 whether they have acquired any virtues in exchange for innocence1 equivalent to the misery produced by the vices that have been plastered over unsightly ignorance1 and the freedom which has been bartered for splendid slavery4 ,the desire of dazzling by riches1 the most certain pre-eminence that man can obtain1 the pleasure of commanding flattering sycophants1 and many other complicated low calculations of doting self-love1 have all contributed to overwhelm the mass of mankind1 and make liberty a convenient handle for mock patriotism4 ,for whilst rank and titles are held of the utmost importance1 before which ,genius must hide its diminished head1 it is1 with a few exceptions1 very unfortunate for a nation when a man of abilities1 without rank or property1 pushes himself forward to notice4 ,alas6 what unheard of misery have thousands suffered to purchase a cardinal's hat for an intriguing obscure adventurer1 who longed to be ranked with princes1 or lord it over them by seizing the triple crown6 ,such1 indeed1 has been the wretchedness that has flowed from hereditary honours1 riches1 and monarchy1 that men of lively sensibility have almost uttered blasphemy in order to justify the dispensations of providence4 ,man has been held out as independent of his power who made him1 or as a lawless planet darting from its orbit to steal the celestial fire of reason2 and the vengeance of heaven1 lurking in the subtile flame1 sufficiently punished his temerity1 by introducing evil into the world4 ,impressed by this view of the misery and disorder which pervaded society1 and fatigued with jostling against artificial fools1 ,rousseau became enamoured of solitude1 and1 being at the same time an optimist1 he labours with uncommon eloquence to prove that man was naturally a solitary animal4 ,misled by his respect for the goodness of ,god1 who certainly for what man of sense and feeling can doubt it6 gave life only to communicate happiness1 he considers evil as positive1 and the work of man2 not aware that he was exalting one attribute at the expense of another1 equally necessary to divine perfection4 ,reared on a false hypothesis1 his arguments in favour of a state of nature are plausible1 but unsound4 ,i say unsound2 for to assert that a state of nature is preferable to civilization in all its possible perfection1 is1 in other words1 to arraign supreme wisdom2 and the paradoxical exclamation1 that ,god has made all things right1 and that evil has been introduced by the creature whom he formed1 knowing what he formed1 is as unphilosophical as impious4 ,when that wise ,being1 who created us and placed us here1 saw the fair idea1 he willed1 by allowing it to be so1 that the passions should unfold our reason1 because he could see that present evil would produce future good4 ,could the helpless creature whom he called from nothing1 break loose from his providence1 and boldly learn to know good by practising evil without his permission8 ,no4 ,how could that energetic advocate for immortality argue so inconsistently8 ,had mankind remained for ever in the brutal state of nature1 which even his magic pen cannot paint as a state in which a single virtue took root1 it would have been clear1 though not to the sensitive unreflecting wanderer1 that man was born to run the circle of life and death1 and adorn ,god's garden for some purpose which could not easily be reconciled with his attributes4 ,but if1 to crown the whole1 there were to be rational creatures produced1 allowed to rise in excellency by the exercise of powers implanted for that purpose2 if benignity itself thought fit to call into existence a creature above the brutes1 who could think and improve himself1 why should that inestimable gift1 for a gift it was1 if a man was so created as to have a capacity to rise above the state in which sensation produced brutal ease1 be called1 in direct terms1 a curse8 ,a curse it might be reckoned1 if all our existence was bounded by our continuance in this world2 for why should the gracious fountain of life give us passions1 and the power of reflecting1 only to embitter our days1 and inspire us with mistaken notions of dignity8 ,why should he lead us from love of ourselves to the sublime emotions which the discovery of his wisdom and goodness excites1 if these feelings were not set in motion to improve our nature1 of which they make a part1 and render us capable of enjoying a more godlike portion of happiness8 ,firmly persuaded that no evil exists in the world that ,god did not design to take place1 ,i build my belief on the perfection of ,god4 ,rousseau exerts himself to prove1 that all ,,was right originally3 a crowd of authors that all ,,is now right3 and ,i1 that all ,,will ,,be right4 ,but1 true to his first position1 next to a state of nature1 ,rousseau celebrates barbarism1 and1 apostrophizing the shade of ,fabricius1 he forgets that1 in conquering the world1 the ,romans never dreamed of establishing their own liberty on a firm basis1 or of extending the reign of virtue4 ,eager to support his system1 he stigmatizes1 as vicious1 every effort of genius2 and uttering the apotheosis of savage virtues1 he exalts those to demigods1 who were scarcely human--the brutal ,spartans1 who in defiance of justice and gratitude1 sacrificed1 in cold blood1 the slaves that had shown themselves men to rescue their oppressors4 ,disgusted with artificial manners and virtues1 the citizen of ,geneva1 instead of properly sifting the subject1 threw away the wheat with the chaff1 without waiting to inquire whether the evils1 which his ardent soul turned from indignantly1 were the consequence of civilization1 or the vestiges of barbarism4 ,he saw vice trampling on virtue1 and the semblance of goodness taking place of the reality2 he saw talents bent by power to sinister purposes1 and never thought of tracing the gigantic mischief up to arbitrary power1 up to the hereditary distinctions that clash with the mental superiority that naturally raises a man above his fellows4 ,he did not perceive1 that the regal power1 in a few generations1 introduces idiotism into the noble stem1 and holds out baits to render thousands idle and vicious4 ,nothing can set the regal character in a more contemptible point of view1 than the various crimes that have elevated men to the supreme dignity4 ,vile intrigues1 unnatural crimes1 and every vice that degrades our nature1 have been the steps to this distinguished eminence2 yet millions of men have supinely allowed the nerveless limbs of the posterity of such rapacious prowlers1 to rest quietly on their ensanguined thrones4 ,what but a pestilential vapour can hover over society1 when its chief director is only instructed in the invention of crimes1 or the stupid routine of childish ceremonies8 ,will men never be wise8 will they never cease to expect corn from tares1 and figs from thistles8 ,it is impossible for any man1 when the most favourable circumstances concur1 to acquire sufficient knowledge and strength of mind to discharge the duties of a king1 entrusted with uncontrolled power2 how then must they be violated when his very elevation is an insuperable bar to the attainment of either wisdom or virtue2 when all the feelings of a man are stifled by flattery1 and reflection shut out by pleasure6 ,surely it is madness to make the fate of thousands depend on the caprice of a weak fellow creature1 whose very station sinks him ,,necessarily below the meanest of his subjects6 ,but one power should not be thrown down to exalt another--for all power intoxicates weak man2 and its abuse proves1 that the more equality there is established among men1 the more virtue and happiness will reign in society4 ,but this1 and any similar maxim deduced from simple reason1 raises an outcry--the church or the state is in danger1 if faith in the wisdom of antiquity is not implicit2 and they who1 roused by the sight of human calamity1 dare to attack human authority1 are reviled as despisers of ,god1 and enemies of man4 ,these are bitter calumnies1 yet they reached one of the best of men1 7,dr4 ,price47 whose ashes still preach peace1 and whose memory demands a respectful pause1 when subjects are discussed that lay so near his heart4 ,after attacking the sacred majesty of kings1 ,i shall scarcely excite surprise1 by adding my firm persuasion1 that every profession1 in which great subordination of rank constitutes its power1 is highly injurious to morality4 ,a standing army1 for instance1 is incompatible with freedom2 because subordination and rigour are the very sinews of military discipline2 and despotism is necessary to give vigour to enterprises that one will directs4 ,a spirit inspired by romantic notions of honour1 a kind of morality founded on the fashion of the age1 can only be felt by a few officers1 whilst the main body must be moved by command1 like the waves of the sea2 for the strong wind of authority pushes the crowd of subalterns forward1 they scarcely know or care why1 with headlong fury4 ,besides1 nothing can be so prejudicial to the morals of the inhabitants of country towns1 as the occasional residence of a set of idle superficial young men1 whose only occupation is gallantry1 and whose polished manners render vice more dangerous1 by concealing its deformity under gay ornamental drapery4 ,an air of fashion1 which is but a badge of slavery1 and proves that the soul has not a strong individual character1 awes simple country people into an imitation of the vices1 when they cannot catch the slippery graces of politeness4 ,every corps is a chain of despots1 who1 submitting and tyrannizing without exercising their reason1 become dead weights of vice and folly on the community4 ,a man of rank or fortune1 sure of rising by interest1 has nothing to do but to pursue some extravagant freak2 whilst the needy ,,gentleman1 who is to rise1 as the phrase turns1 by his merit1 becomes a servile parasite or vile pander4 ,sailors1 the naval gentlemen1 come under the same description1 only their vices assume a different and a grosser cast4 ,they are more positively indolent1 when not discharging the ceremonials of their station2 whilst the insignificant fluttering of soldiers may be termed active idleness4 ,more confined to the society of men1 the former acquire a fondness for humour and mischievous tricks2 whilst the latter1 mixing frequently with well-bred women1 catch a sentimental cant4 ,but mind is equally out of the question1 whether they indulge the horse-laugh or polite simper4 ,may ,i be allowed to extend the comparison to a profession where more mind is certainly to be found2 for the clergy have superior opportunities of improvement1 though subordination almost equally cramps their faculties8 ,the blind submission imposed at college to forms of belief1 serves as a noviciate to the curate who most obsequiously respects the opinion of his rector or patron1 if he means to rise in his profession4 ,perhaps there cannot be a more forcible contrast than between the servile1 dependent gait of a poor curate1 and the courtly mien of a bishop4 ,and the respect and contempt they inspire render the discharge of their separate functions equally useless4 ,it is of great importance to observe1 that the character of every man is1 in some degree1 formed by his profession4 ,a man of sense may only have a cast of countenance that wears off as you trace his individuality1 whilst the weak1 common man1 has scarcely ever any character1 but what belongs to the body2 at least1 all his opinions have been so steeped in the vat consecrated by authority1 that the faint spirit which the grape of his own vine yields cannot be distinguished4 ,society1 therefore1 as it becomes more enlightened1 should be very careful not to establish bodies of men who must necessarily be made foolish or vicious by the very constitution of their profession4 ,in the infancy of society1 when men were just emerging out of barbarism1 chiefs and priests1 touching the most powerful springs of savage conduct--hope and fear--must have had unbounded sway4 ,an aristocracy1 of course1 is naturally the first form of government4 ,but clashing interests soon losing their equipoise1 a monarchy and hierarchy break out of the confusion of ambitious struggles1 and the foundation of both is secured by feudal tenures4 ,this appears to be the origin of monarchial and priestly power1 and the dawn of civilization4 ,but such combustible materials cannot long be pent up2 and getting vent in foreign wars and intestine insurrections1 the people acquire some power in the tumult1 which obliges their rulers to gloss over their oppression with a show of right4 ,thus1 as wars1 agriculture1 commerce1 and literature1 expands the mind1 despots are compelled1 to make covert corruption hold fast the power which was formerly snatched by open force499 ,and this baneful lurking gangrene is most quickly spread by luxury and superstition1 the sure dregs of ambition4 ,the indolent puppet of a court first becomes a luxurious monster1 or fastidious sensualist1 and then makes the contagion which his unnatural state spreads1 the instrument of tyranny4 799,footnote4 ,men of abilities scatter seeds that grow up1 and have a great influence on the forming opinion2 and when once the public opinion preponderates1 through the exertion of reason1 the overthrow of arbitrary power is not very distant47 ,it is the pestiferous purple which renders the progress of civilization a curse1 and warps the understanding1 till men of sensibility doubt whether the expansion of intellect produces a greater portion of happiness or misery4 ,but the nature of the poison points out the antidote2 and had ,rousseau mounted one step higher in his investigation2 or could his eye have pierced through the foggy atmosphere1 which he almost disdained to breathe1 his active mind would have darted forward to contemplate the perfection of man in the establishment of true civilization1 instead of taking his ferocious flight back to the night of sensual ignorance4 ,,chapter #b4 ,,the ,,prevailing ,,opinion ,,of ,a ,,sexual ,,character ,,discussed4 ,to account for1 and excuse the tyranny of man1 many ingenious arguments have been brought forward to prove1 that the two sexes1 in the acquirement of virtue1 ought to aim at attaining a very different character3 or1 to speak explicitly1 women are not allowed to have sufficient strength of mind to acquire what really deserves the name of virtue4 ,yet it should seem1 allowing them to have souls1 that there is but one way appointed by providence to lead ,,mankind to either virtue or happiness4 ,if then women are not a swarm of ephemeron triflers1 why should they be kept in ignorance under the specious name of innocence8 ,men complain1 and with reason1 of the follies and caprices of our sex1 when they do not keenly satirize our headstrong passions and groveling vices4 ,behold1 ,i should answer1 the natural effect of ignorance6 ,the mind will ever be unstable that has only prejudices to rest on1 and the current will run with destructive fury when there are no barriers to break its force4 ,women are told from their infancy1 and taught by the example of their mothers1 that a little knowledge of human weakness1 justly termed cunning1 softness of temper1 ,,outward obedience1 and a scrupulous attention to a puerile kind of propriety1 will obtain for them the protection of man2 and should they be beautiful1 every thing else is needless1 for at least twenty years of their lives4 ,thus ,milton describes our first frail mother2 though when he tells us that women are formed for softness and sweet attractive grace1 ,i cannot comprehend his meaning1 unless1 in the true ,mahometan strain1 he meant to deprive us of souls1 and insinuate that we were beings only designed by sweet attractive grace1 and docile blind obedience1 to gratify the senses of man when he can no longer soar on the wing of contemplation4 ,how grossly do they insult us1 who thus advise us only to render ourselves gentle1 domestic brutes6 ,for instance1 the winning softness1 so warmly1 and frequently recommended1 that governs by obeying4 ,what childish expressions1 and how insignificant is the being--can it be an immortal one8 who will condescend to govern by such sinister methods6 ,certainly1 says ,lord ,bacon1 man is of kin to the beasts by his body3 and if he be not of kin to ,god by his spirit1 he is a base and ignoble creature6 ,men1 indeed1 appear to me to act in a very unphilosophical manner1 when they try to secure the good conduct of women by attempting to keep them always in a state of childhood4 ,rousseau was more consistent when he wished to stop the progress of reason in both sexes2 for if men eat of the tree of knowledge1 women will come in for a taste3 but1 from the imperfect cultivation which their understandings now receive1 they only attain a knowledge of evil4 ,children1 ,i grant1 should be innocent2 but when the epithet is applied to men1 or women1 it is but a civil term for weakness4 ,for if it be allowed that women were destined by ,providence to acquire human virtues1 and by the exercise of their understandings1 that stability of character which is the firmest ground to rest our future hopes upon1 they must be permitted to turn to the fountain of light1 and not forced to shape their course by the twinkling of a mere satellite4 ,milton1 ,i grant1 was of a very different opinion2 for he only bends to the indefeasible right of beauty1 though it would be difficult to render two passages1 which ,i now mean to contrast1 consistent3 but into similar inconsistencies are great men often led by their senses3-- ,to whom thus ,eve with perfect beauty adorned3 ,my author and disposer1 what thou bidst ,unargued ,i obey2 so ,god ordains2 ,god is thy law1 thou mine2 to know no more ,is woman's happiest knowledge and her praise4 ,these are exactly the arguments that ,i have used to children2 but ,i have added1 ,your reason is now gaining strength1 and1 till it arrives at some degree of maturity1 you must look up to me for advice3 then you ought to ,,think1 and only rely on ,god4 ,yet1 in the following lines1 ,milton seems to coincide with me1 when he makes ,adam thus expostulate with his ,maker3-- ,hast thou not made me here thy substitute1 ,and these inferior far beneath me set8 ,among unequals what society ,can sort1 what harmony or delight8 ,which must be mutual1 in proportion due ,given and received2 but in disparity ,the one intense1 the other still remiss ,cannot well suit with either1 but soon prove ,tedious alike3 of fellowship ,i speak ,such as ,i seek fit to participate ,all rational delight4 ,in treating1 therefore1 of the manners of women1 let us1 disregarding sensual arguments1 trace what we should endeavour to make them in order to co-operate1 if the expression be not too bold1 with the ,supreme ,being4 ,by individual education1 ,i mean--for the sense of the word is not precisely defined--such an attention to a child as will slowly sharpen the senses1 form the temper1 regulate the passions1 as they begin to ferment1 and set the understanding to work before the body arrives at maturity2 so that the man may only have to proceed1 not to begin1 the important task of learning to think and reason4 ,to prevent any misconstruction1 ,i must add1 that ,i do not believe that a private education can work the wonders which some sanguine writers have attributed to it4 ,men and women must be educated1 in a great degree1 by the opinions and manners of the society they live in4 ,in every age there has been a stream of popular opinion that has carried all before it1 and given a family character1 as it were1 to the century4 ,it may then fairly be inferred1 that1 till society be differently constituted1 much cannot be expected from education4 ,it is1 however1 sufficient for my present purpose to assert1 that1 whatever effect circumstances have on the abilities1 every being may become virtuous by the exercise of its own reason2 for if but one being was created with vicious inclinations--that is1 positively bad-- what can save us from atheism8 or if we worship a ,god1 is not that ,god a devil8 ,consequently1 the most perfect education1 in my opinion1 is such an exercise of the understanding as is best calculated to strengthen the body and form the heart2 or1 in other words1 to enable the individual to attain such habits of virtue as will render it independent4 ,in fact1 it is a farce to call any being virtuous whose virtues do not result from the exercise of its own reason4 ,this was ,rousseau's opinion respecting men3 ,i extend it to women1 and confidently assert that they have been drawn out of their sphere by false refinement1 and not by an endeavour to acquire masculine qualities4 ,still the regal homage which they receive is so intoxicating1 that1 till the manners of the times are changed1 and formed on more reasonable principles1 it may be impossible to convince them that the illegitimate power1 which they obtain by degrading themselves1 is a curse1 and that they must return to nature and equality1 if they wish to secure the placid satisfaction that unsophisticated affections impart4 ,but for this epoch we must wait--wait1 perhaps1 till kings and nobles1 enlightened by reason1 and1 preferring the real dignity of man to childish state1 throw off their gaudy hereditary trappings2 and if then women do not resign the arbitrary power of beauty1 they will prove that they have ,,less mind than man4 ,i may be accused of arrogance2 still ,i must declare1 what ,i firmly believe1 that all the writers who have written on the subject of female education and manners1 from ,rousseau to ,dr4 ,gregory1 have contributed to render women more artificial1 weaker characters1 than they would otherwise have been2 and1 consequently1 more useless members of society4 ,i might have expressed this conviction in a lower key2 but ,i am afraid it would have been the whine of affectation1 and not the faithful expression of my feelings1 of the clear result1 which experience and reflection have led me to draw4 ,when ,i come to that division of the subject1 ,i shall advert to the passages that ,i more particularly disapprove of1 in the works of the authors ,i have just alluded to2 but it is first necessary to observe1 that my objection extends to the whole purport of those books1 which tend1 in my opinion1 to degrade one half of the human species1 and render women pleasing at the expense of every solid virtue4 ,though to reason on ,rousseau's ground1 if man did attain a degree of perfection of mind when his body arrived at maturity1 it might be proper in order to make a man and his wife ,,one1 that she should rely entirely on his understanding2 and the graceful ivy1 clasping the oak that supported it1 would form a whole in which strength and beauty would be equally conspicuous4 ,but1 alas6 husbands1 as well as their helpmates1 are often only overgrown children2 nay1 thanks to early debauchery1 scarcely men in their outward form1 and if the blind lead the blind1 one need not come from heaven to tell us the consequence4 ,many are the causes that1 in the present corrupt state of society1 contribute to enslave women by cramping their understandings and sharpening their senses4 ,one1 perhaps1 that silently does more mischief than all the rest1 is their disregard of order4 ,to do every thing in an orderly manner1 is a most important precept1 which women1 who1 generally speaking1 receive only a disorderly kind of education1 seldom attend to with that degree of exactness that men1 who from their infancy are broken into method1 observe4 ,this negligent kind of guesswork1 for what other epithet can be used to point out the random exertions of a sort of instinctive common sense1 never brought to the test of reason8 prevents their generalizing matters of fact1 so they do to-day1 what they did yesterday1 merely because they did it yesterday4 ,this contempt of the understanding in early life has more baneful consequences than is commonly supposed2 for the little knowledge which women of strong minds attain1 is1 from various circumstances1 of a more desultory kind than the knowledge of men1 and it is acquired more by sheer observations on real life1 than from comparing what has been individually observed with the results of experience generalized by speculation4 ,led by their dependent situation and domestic employments more into society1 what they learn is rather by snatches2 and as learning is with them1 in general1 only a secondary thing1 they do not pursue any one branch with that persevering ardour necessary to give vigour to the faculties1 and clearness to the judgment4 ,in the present state of society1 a little learning is required to support the character of a gentleman2 and boys are obliged to submit to a few years of discipline4 ,but in the education of women the cultivation of the understanding is always subordinate to the acquirement of some corporeal accomplishment2 even while enervated by confinement and false notions of modesty1 the body is prevented from attaining that grace and beauty which relaxed half-formed limbs never exhibit4 ,besides1 in youth their faculties are not brought forward by emulation2 and having no serious scientific study1 if they have natural sagacity it is turned too soon on life and manners4 ,they dwell on effects1 and modifications1 without tracing them back to causes2 and complicated rules to adjust behaviour are a weak substitute for simple principles4 ,as a proof that education gives this appearance of weakness to females1 we may instance the example of military men1 who are1 like them1 sent into the world before their minds have been stored with knowledge or fortified by principles4 ,the consequences are similar2 soldiers acquire a little superficial knowledge1 snatched from the muddy current of conversation1 and1 from continually mixing with society1 they gain1 what is termed a knowledge of the world2 and this acquaintance with manners and customs has frequently been confounded with a knowledge of the human heart4 ,but can the crude fruit of casual observation1 never brought to the test of judgment1 formed by comparing speculation and experience1 deserve such a distinction8 ,soldiers1 as well as women1 practice the minor virtues with punctilious politeness4 ,where is then the sexual difference1 when the education has been the same2 all the difference that ,i can discern1 arises from the superior advantage of liberty which enables the former to see more of life4 ,it is wandering from my present subject1 perhaps1 to make a political remark2 but as it was produced naturally by the train of my reflections1 ,i shall not pass it silently over4 ,standing armies can never consist of resolute1 robust men2 they may be well disciplined machines1 but they will seldom contain men under the influence of strong passions or with very vigorous faculties4 ,and as for any depth of understanding1 ,i will venture to affirm1 that it is as rarely to be found in the army as amongst women2 and the cause1 ,i maintain1 is the same4 ,it may be further observed1 that officers are also particularly attentive to their persons1 fond of dancing1 crowded rooms1 adventures1 and ridicule4 ,like the ,,fair sex1 the business of their lives is gallantry4 ,they were taught to please1 and they only live to please4 ,yet they do not lose their rank in the distinction of sexes1 for they are still reckoned superior to women1 though in what their superiority consists1 beyond what ,i have just mentioned1 it is difficult to discover4 ,the great misfortune is this1 that they both acquire manners before morals1 and a knowledge of life before they have from reflection1 any acquaintance with the grand ideal outline of human nature4 ,the consequence is natural2 satisfied with common nature1 they become a prey to prejudices1 and taking all their opinions on credit1 they blindly submit to authority4 ,so that if they have any sense1 it is a kind of instinctive glance1 that catches proportions1 and decides with respect to manners2 but fails when arguments are to be pursued below the surface1 or opinions analyzed4 ,may not the same remark be applied to women8 ,nay1 the argument may be carried still further1 for they are both thrown out of a useful station by the unnatural distinctions established in civilized life4 ,riches and hereditary honours have made cyphers of women to give consequence to the numerical figure2 and idleness has produced a mixture of gallantry and despotism in society1 which leads the very men who are the slaves of their mistresses1 to tyrannize over their sisters1 wives1 and daughters4 ,this is only keeping them in rank and file1 it is true4 ,strengthen the female mind by enlarging it1 and there will be an end to blind obedience2 but1 as blind obedience is ever sought for by power1 tyrants and sensualists are in the right when they endeavour to keep women in the dark1 because the former only want slaves1 and the latter a play-thing4 ,the sensualist1 indeed1 has been the most dangerous of tyrants1 and women have been duped by their lovers1 as princes by their ministers1 whilst dreaming that they reigned over them4 ,i now principally allude to ,rousseau1 for his character of ,sophia is1 undoubtedly1 a captivating one1 though it appears to me grossly unnatural2 however1 it is not the superstructure1 but the foundation of her character1 the principles on which her education was built1 that ,i mean to attack2 nay1 warmly as ,i admire the genius of that able writer1 whose opinions ,i shall often have occasion to cite1 indignation always takes place of admiration1 and the rigid frown of insulted virtue effaces the smile of complacency1 which his eloquent periods are wont to raise1 when ,i read his voluptuous reveries4 ,is this the man1 who1 in his ardour for virtue1 would banish all the soft arts of peace1 and almost carry us back to ,spartan discipline8 ,is this the man who delights to paint the useful struggles of passion1 the triumphs of good dispositions1 and the heroic flights which carry the glowing soul out of itself8 ,how are these mighty sentiments lowered when he describes the prettyfoot and enticing airs of his little favourite6 ,but1 for the present1 ,i waive the subject1 and1 instead of severely reprehending the transient effusions of overweening sensibility1 ,i shall only observe1 that whoever has cast a benevolent eye on society1 must often have been gratified by the sight of humble mutual love1 not dignified by sentiment1 nor strengthened by a union in intellectual pursuits4 ,the domestic trifles of the day have afforded matter for cheerful converse1 and innocent caresses have softened toils which did not require great exercise of mind1 or stretch of thought3 yet1 has not the sight of this moderate felicity excited more tenderness than respect8 ,an emotion similar to what we feel when children are playing1 or animals sporting1 whilst the contemplation of the noble struggles of suffering merit has raised admiration1 and carried our thoughts to that world where sensation will give place to reason4 ,women are1 therefore1 to be considered either as moral beings1 or so weak that they must be entirely subjected to the superior faculties of men4 ,let us examine this question4 ,rousseau declares1 that a woman should never1 for a moment feel herself independent1 that she should be governed by fear to exercise her ,,natural cunning1 and made a coquetish slave in order to render her a more alluring object of desire1 a ,,sweeter companion to man1 whenever he chooses to relax himself4 ,he carries the arguments1 which he pretends to draw from the indications of nature1 still further1 and insinuates that truth and fortitude the corner stones of all human virtue1 shall be cultivated with certain restrictions1 because with respect to the female character1 obedience is the grand lesson which ought to be impressed with unrelenting rigour4 ,what nonsense6 ,when will a great man arise with sufficient strength of mind to puff away the fumes which pride and sensuality have thus spread over the subject6 ,if women are by nature inferior to men1 their virtues must be the same in quality1 if not in degree1 or virtue is a relative idea2 consequently1 their conduct should be founded on the same principles1 and have the same aim4 ,connected with man as daughters1 wives1 and mothers1 their moral character may be estimated by their manner of fulfilling those simple duties2 but the end1 the grand end of their exertions should be to unfold their own faculties1 and acquire the dignity of conscious virtue4 ,they may try to render their road pleasant2 but ought never to forget1 in common with man1 that life yields not the felicity which can satisfy an immortal soul4 ,i do not mean to insinuate1 that either sex should be so lost1 in abstract reflections or distant views1 as to forget the affections and duties that lie before them1 and are1 in truth1 the means appointed to produce the fruit of life2 on the contrary1 ,i would warmly recommend them1 even while ,i assert1 that they afford most satisfaction when they are considered in their true subordinate light4 ,probably the prevailing opinion1 that woman was created for man1 may have taken its rise from ,moses's poetical story2 yet1 as very few it is presumed1 who have bestowed any serious thought on the subject1 ever supposed that ,eve was1 literally speaking1 one of ,adam's ribs1 the deduction must be allowed to fall to the ground2 or1 only be so far admitted as it proves that man1 from the remotest antiquity1 found it convenient to exert his strength to subjugate his companion1 and his invention to show that she ought to have her neck bent under the yoke2 because she as well as the brute creation1 was created to do his pleasure4 ,let it not be concluded1 that ,i wish to invert the order of things2 ,i have already granted1 that1 from the constitution of their bodies1 men seem to be designed by ,providence to attain a greater degree of virtue4 ,i speak collectively of the whole sex2 but ,i see not the shadow of a reason to conclude that their virtues should differ in respect to their nature4 ,in fact1 how can they1 if virtue has only one eternal standard8 ,i must1 therefore1 if ,i reason consequentially1 as strenuously maintain1 that they have the same simple direction1 as that there is a ,god4 ,it follows then1 that cunning should not be opposed to wisdom1 little cares to great exertions1 nor insipid softness1 varnished over with the name of gentleness1 to that fortitude which grand views alone can inspire4 ,i shall be told1 that woman would then lose many of her peculiar graces1 and the opinion of a well known poet might be quoted to refute my unqualified assertions4 ,for ,pope has said1 in the name of the whole male sex1 ,yet ne'er so sure our passions to create1 ,as when she touch'd the brink of all we hate4 ,in what light this sally places men and women1 ,i shall leave to the judicious to determine2 meanwhile ,i shall content myself with observing1 that ,i cannot discover why1 unless they are mortal1 females should always be degraded by being made subservient to love or lust4 ,to speak disrespectfully of love is1 ,i know1 high treason against sentiment and fine feelings2 but ,i wish to speak the simple language of truth1 and rather to address the head than the heart4 ,to endeavour to reason love out of the world1 would be to out ,quixote ,cervantes1 and equally offend against common sense2 but an endeavour to restrain this tumultuous passion1 and to prove that it should not be allowed to dethrone superior powers1 or to usurp the sceptre which the understanding should ever coolly wield1 appears less wild4 ,youth is the season for love in both sexes2 but in those days of thoughtless enjoyment1 provision should be made for the more important years of life1 when reflection takes place of sensation4 ,but ,rousseau1 and most of the male writers who have followed his steps1 have warmly inculcated that the whole tendency of female education ought to be directed to one point to render them pleasing4 ,let me reason with the supporters of this opinion1 who have any knowledge of human nature1 do they imagine that marriage can eradicate the habitude of life8 ,the woman who has only been taught to please1 will soon find that her charms are oblique sun-beams1 and that they cannot have much effect on her husband's heart when they are seen every day1 when the summer is past and gone4 ,will she then have sufficient native energy to look into herself for comfort1 and cultivate her dormant faculties8 or1 is it not more rational to expect1 that she will try to please other men2 and1 in the emotions raised by the expectation of new conquests1 endeavour to forget the mortification her love or pride has received8 ,when the husband ceases to be a lover--and the time will inevitably come1 her desire of pleasing will then grow languid1 or become a spring of bitterness2 and love1 perhaps1 the most evanescent of all passions1 gives place to jealousy or vanity4 ,i now speak of women who are restrained by principle or prejudice2 such women though they would shrink from an intrigue with real abhorrence1 yet1 nevertheless1 wish to be convinced by the homage of gallantry1 that they are cruelly neglected by their husbands2 or1 days and weeks are spent in dreaming of the happiness enjoyed by congenial souls1 till the health is undermined and the spirits broken by discontent4 ,how then can the great art of pleasing be such a necessary study8 it is only useful to a mistress2 the chaste wife1 and serious mother1 should only consider her power to please as the polish of her virtues1 and the affection of her husband as one of the comforts that render her task less difficult1 and her life happier4 ,but1 whether she be loved or neglected1 her first wish should be to make herself respectable1 and not rely for all her happiness on a being subject to like infirmities with herself4 ,the amiable ,dr4 ,gregory fell into a similar error4 ,i respect his heart2 but entirely disapprove of his celebrated ,legacy to his ,daughters4 ,he advises them to cultivate a fondness for dress1 because a fondness for dress1 he asserts1 is natural to them4 ,i am unable to comprehend what either he or ,rousseau mean1 when they frequently use this indefinite term4 ,if they told us1 that in a pre-existent state the soul was fond of dress1 and brought this inclination with it into a new body1 ,i should listen to them with a half smile1 as ,i often do when ,i hear a rant about innate elegance4 ,but if he only meant to say that the exercise of the faculties will produce this fondness1 ,i deny it4 ,it is not natural2 but arises1 like false ambition in men1 from a love of power4 ,dr4 ,gregory goes much further2 he actually recommends dissimulation1 and advises an innocent girl to give the lie to her feelings1 and not dance with spirit1 when gaiety of heart would make her feet eloquent1 without making her gestures immodest4 ,in the name of truth and common sense1 why should not one woman acknowledge that she can take more exercise than another8 or1 in other words1 that she has a sound constitution2 and why to damp innocent vivacity1 is she darkly to be told1 that men will draw conclusions which she little thinks of8 ,let the libertine draw what inference he pleases2 but1 ,i hope1 that no sensible mother will restrain the natural frankness of youth1 by instilling such indecent cautions4 ,out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh2 and a wiser than ,solomon hath said1 that the heart should be made clean1 and not trivial ceremonies observed1 which it is not very difficult to fulfill with scrupulous exactness when vice reigns in the heart4 ,women ought to endeavour to purify their hearts2 but can they do so when their uncultivated understandings make them entirely dependent on their senses for employment and amusement1 when no noble pursuit sets them above the little vanities of the day1 or enables them to curb the wild emotions that agitate a reed over which every passing breeze has power8 ,to gain the affections of a virtuous man1 is affectation necessary8 ,nature has given woman a weaker frame than man2 but1 to ensure her husband's affections1 must a wife1 who1 by the exercise of her mind and body1 whilst she was discharging the duties of a daughter1 wife1 and mother1 has allowed her constitution to retain its natural strength1 and her nerves a healthy tone1 is she1 ,i say1 to condescend1 to use art1 and feign a sickly delicacy1 in order to secure her husband's affection8 ,weakness may excite tenderness1 and gratify the arrogant pride of man2 but the lordly caresses of a protector will not gratify a noble mind that pants for and deserves to be respected4 ,fondness is a poor substitute for friendship6 ,in a seraglio1 ,i grant1 that all these arts are necessary2 the epicure must have his palate tickled1 or he will sink into apathy2 but have women so little ambition as to be satisfied with such a condition8 ,can they supinely dream life away in the lap of pleasure1 or in the languor of weariness1 rather than assert their claim to pursue reasonable pleasures1 and render themselves conspicuous1 by practising the virtues which dignify mankind8 ,surely she has not an immortal soul who can loiter life away1 merely employed to adorn her person1 that she may amuse the languid hours1 and soften the cares of a fellow-creature who is willing to be enlivened by her smiles and tricks1 when the serious business of life is over4 ,besides1 the woman who strengthens her body and exercises her mind will1 by managing her family and practising various virtues1 become the friend1 and not the humble dependent of her husband2 and if she deserves his regard by possessing such substantial qualities1 she will not find it necessary to conceal her affection1 nor to pretend to an unnatural coldness of constitution to excite her husband's passions4 ,in fact1 if we revert to history1 we shall find that the women who have distinguished themselves have neither been the most beautiful nor the most gentle of their sex4 ,nature1 or to speak with strict propriety ,god1 has made all things right2 but man has sought him out many inventions to mar the work4 ,i now allude to that part of ,dr4 ,gregory's treatise1 where he advises a wife never to let her husband know the extent of her sensibility or affection4 ,voluptuous precaution2 and as ineffectual as absurd4 ,love1 from its very nature1 must be transitory4 ,to seek for a secret that would render it constant1 would be as wild a search as for the philosopher's stone1 or the grand panacea2 and the discovery would be equally useless1 or rather pernicious to mankind4 ,the most holy band of society is friendship4 ,it has been well said1 by a shrewd satirist1 that rare as true love is1 true friendship is still rarer4 ,this is an obvious truth1 and the cause not lying deep1 will not elude a slight glance of inquiry4 ,love1 the common passion1 in which chance and sensation take place of choice and reason1 is in some degree1 felt by the mass of mankind2 for it is not necessary to speak1 at present1 of the emotions that rise above or sink below love4 ,this passion1 naturally increased by suspense and difficulties1 draws the mind out of its accustomed state1 and exalts the affections2 but the security of marriage1 allowing the fever of love to subside1 a healthy temperature is thought insipid1 only by those who have not sufficient intellect to substitute the calm tenderness of friendship1 the confidence of respect1 instead of blind admiration1 and the sensual emotions of fondness4 ,this is1 must be1 the course of nature--friendship or indifference inevitably succeeds love4 ,and this constitution seems perfectly to harmonize with the system of government which prevails in the moral world4 ,passions are spurs to action1 and open the mind2 but they sink into mere appetites1 become a personal momentary gratification1 when the object is gained1 and the satisfied mind rests in enjoyment4 ,the man who had some virtue whilst he was struggling for a crown1 often becomes a voluptuous tyrant when it graces his brow2 and1 when the lover is not lost in the husband1 the dotard a prey to childish caprices1 and fond jealousies1 neglects the serious duties of life1 and the caresses which should excite confidence in his children are lavished on the overgrown child1 his wife4 ,in order to fulfil the duties of life1 and to be able to pursue with vigour the various employments which form the moral character1 a master and mistress of a family ought not to continue to love each other with passion4 ,i mean to say1 that they ought not to indulge those emotions which disturb the order of society1 and engross the thoughts that should be otherwise employed4 ,the mind that has never been engrossed by one object wants vigour--if it can long be so1 it is weak4 ,a mistaken education1 a narrow1 uncultivated mind1 and many sexual prejudices1 tend to make women more constant than men2 but1 for the present1 ,i shall not touch on this branch of the subject4 ,i will go still further1 and advance1 without dreaming of a paradox1 that an unhappy marriage is often very advantageous to a family1 and that the neglected wife is1 in general1 the best mother4 ,and this would almost always be the consequence1 if the female mind was more enlarged2 for1 it seems to be the common dispensation of ,providence1 that what we gain in present enjoyment should be deducted from the treasure of life1 experience2 and that when we are gathering the flowers of the day and revelling in pleasure1 the solid fruit of toil and wisdom should not be caught at the same time4 ,the way lies before us1 we must turn to the right or left2 and he who will pass life away in bounding from one pleasure to another1 must not complain if he neither acquires wisdom nor respectability of character4 ,supposing for a moment1 that the soul is not immortal1 and that man was only created for the present scene2 ,i think we should have reason to complain that love1 infantine fondness1 ever grew insipid and palled upon the sense4 ,let us eat1 drink1 and love1 for to-morrow we die1 would be in fact the language of reason1 the morality of life2 and who but a fool would part with a reality for a fleeting shadow8 ,but1 if awed by observing the improvable powers of the mind1 we disdain to confine our wishes or thoughts to such a comparatively mean field of action2 that only appears grand and important as it is connected with a boundless prospect and sublime hopes2 what necessity is there for falsehood in conduct1 and why must the sacred majesty of truth be violated to detain a deceitful good that saps the very foundation of virtue8 ,why must the female mind be tainted by coquetish arts to gratify the sensualist1 and prevent love from subsiding into friendship or compassionate tenderness1 when there are not qualities on which friendship can be built8 ,let the honest heart show itself1 and ,,reason teach passion to submit to necessity2 or1 let the dignified pursuit of virtue and knowledge raise the mind above those emotions which rather imbitter than sweeten the cup of life1 when they are not restrained within due bounds4 ,i do not mean to allude to the romantic passion1 which is the concomitant of genius4 ,who can clip its wings8 ,but that grand passion not proportioned to the puny enjoyments of life1 is only true to the sentiment1 and feeds on itself4 ,the passions which have been celebrated for their durability have always been unfortunate4 ,they have acquired strength by absence and constitutional melancholy4 ,the fancy has hovered round a form of beauty dimly seen--but familiarity might have turned admiration into disgust2 or1 at least1 into indifference1 and allowed the imagination leisure to start fresh game4 ,with perfect propriety1 according to this view of things1 does ,rousseau make the mistress of his soul1 ,eloisa1 love ,st4 ,preux1 when life was fading before her2 but this is no proof of the immortality of the passion4 ,of the same complexion is ,dr4 ,gregory's advice respecting delicacy of sentiment1 which he advises a woman not to acquire1 if she has determined to marry4 ,this determination1 however1 perfectly consistent with his former advice1 he calls ,,indelicate1 and earnestly persuades his daughters to conceal it1 though it may govern their conduct3 as if it were indelicate to have the common appetites of human nature4 ,noble morality6 and consistent with the cautious prudence of a little soul that cannot extend its views beyond the present minute division of existence4 ,if all the faculties of woman's mind are only to be cultivated as they respect her dependence on man2 if1 when she obtains a husband she has arrived at her goal1 and meanly proud1 is satisfied with such a paltry crown1 let her grovel contentedly1 scarcely raised by her employments above the animal kingdom2 but1 if she is struggling for the prize of her high calling1 let her cultivate her understanding without stopping to consider what character the husband may have whom she is destined to marry4 ,let her only determine1 without being too anxious about present happiness1 to acquire the qualities that ennoble a rational being1 and a rough1 inelegant husband may shock her taste without destroying her peace of mind4 ,she will not model her soul to suit the frailties of her companion1 but to bear with them3 his character may be a trial1 but not an impediment to virtue4 ,if ,dr4 ,gregory confined his remark to romantic expectations of constant love and congenial feelings1 he should have recollected1 that experience will banish what advice can never make us cease to wish for1 when the imagination is kept alive at the expence of reason4 ,i own it frequently happens1 that women who have fostered a romantic unnatural delicacy of feeling1 waste their lives in ,,imagining how happy they should have been with a husband who could love them with a fervid increasing affection every day1 and all day4 ,but they might as well pine married as single1 and would not be a jot more unhappy with a bad husband than longing for a good one4 ,that a proper education2 or1 to speak with more precision1 a well stored mind1 would enable a woman to support a single life with dignity1 ,i grant2 but that she should avoid cultivating her taste1 lest her husband should occasionally shock it1 is quitting a substance for a shadow4 ,to say the truth1 ,i do not know of what use is an improved taste1 if the individual be not rendered more independent of the casualties of life2 if new sources of enjoyment1 only dependent on the solitary operations of the mind1 are not opened4 ,people of taste1 married or single1 without distinction1 will ever be disgusted by various things that touch not less observing minds4 ,on this conclusion the argument must not be allowed to hinge2 but in the whole sum of enjoyment is taste to be denominated a blessing8 ,the question is1 whether it procures most pain or pleasure8 ,the answer will decide the propriety of ,dr4 ,gregory's advice1 and show how absurd and tyrannic it is thus to lay down a system of slavery2 or to attempt to educate moral beings by any other rules than those deduced from pure reason1 which apply to the whole species4 ,gentleness of manners1 forbearance1 and long suffering1 are such amiable godlike qualities1 that in sublime poetic strains the ,deity has been invested with them2 and1 perhaps1 no representation of his goodness so strongly fastens on the human affections as those that represent him abundant in mercy and willing to pardon4 ,gentleness1 considered in this point of view1 bears on its front all the characteristics of grandeur1 combined with the winning graces of condescension2 but what a different aspect it assumes when it is the submissive demeanour of dependence1 the support of weakness that loves1 because it wants protection2 and is forbearing1 because it must silently endure injuries2 smiling under the lash at which it dare not snarl4 ,abject as this picture appears1 it is the portrait of an accomplished woman1 according to the received opinion of female excellence1 separated by specious reasoners from human excellence4 ,or1 they 7,vide ,rousseau1 and ,swedenborg7 kindly restore the rib1 and make one moral being of a man and woman2 not forgetting to give her all the submissive charms4 ,how women are to exist in that state where there is to be neither marrying nor giving in marriage1 we are not told4 ,for though moralists have agreed1 that the tenor of life seems to prove that ,,man is prepared by various circumstances for a future state1 they constantly concur in advising ,,woman only to provide for the present4 ,gentleness1 docility1 and a spaniel-like affection are1 on this ground1 consistently recommended as the cardinal virtues of the sex2 and1 disregarding the arbitrary economy of nature1 one writer has declared that it is masculine for a woman to be melancholy4 ,she was created to be the toy of man1 his rattle1 and it must jingle in his ears1 whenever1 dismissing reason1 he chooses to be amused4 ,to recommend gentleness1 indeed1 on a broad basis is strictly philosophical4 ,a frail being should labour to be gentle4 ,but when forbearance confounds right and wrong1 it ceases to be a virtue2 and1 however convenient it may be found in a companion1 that companion will ever be considered as an inferior1 and only inspire a vapid tenderness1 which easily degenerates into contempt4 ,still1 if advice could really make a being gentle1 whose natural disposition admitted not of such a fine polish1 something toward the advancement of order would be attained2 but if1 as might quickly be demonstrated1 only affectation be produced by this indiscriminate counsel1 which throws a stumbling block in the way of gradual improvement1 and true melioration of temper1 the sex is not much benefited by sacrificing solid virtues to the attainment of superficial graces1 though for a few years they may procure the individual's regal sway4 ,as a philosopher1 ,i read with indignation the plausible epithets which men use to soften their insults2 and1 as a moralist1 ,i ask what is meant by such heterogeneous associations1 as fair defects1 amiable weaknesses1 etc48 ,if there is but one criterion of morals1 but one archetype for man1 women appear to be suspended by destiny1 according to the vulgar tale of ,mahomet's coffin2 they have neither the unerring instinct of brutes1 nor are allowed to fix the eye of reason on a perfect model4 ,they were made to be loved1 and must not aim at respect1 lest they should be hunted out of society as masculine4 ,but to view the subject in another point of view4 ,do passive indolent women make the best wives8 ,confining our discussion to the present moment of existence1 let us see how such weak creatures perform their part8 ,do the women who1 by the attainment of a few superficial accomplishments1 have strengthened the prevailing prejudice1 merely contribute to the happiness of their husbands8 ,do they display their charms merely to amuse them8 ,and have women1 who have early imbibed notions of passive obedience1 sufficient character to manage a family or educate children8 ,so far from it1 that1 after surveying the history of woman1 ,i cannot help agreeing with the severest satirist1 considering the sex as the weakest as well as the most oppressed half of the species4 ,what does history disclose but marks of inferiority1 and how few women have emancipated themselves from the galling yoke of sovereign man8 ,so few1 that the exceptions remind me of an ingenious conjecture respecting ,newton3 that he was probably a being of a superior order1 accidentally caged in a human body4 ,in the same style ,i have been led to imagine that the few extraordinary women who have rushed in eccentrical directions out of the orbit prescribed to their sex1 were ,,male spirits1 confined by mistake in a female frame4 ,but if it be not philosophical to think of sex when the soul is mentioned1 the inferiority must depend on the organs2 or the heavenly fire1 which is to ferment the clay1 is not given in equal portions4 ,but avoiding1 as ,i have hitherto done1 any direct comparison of the two sexes collectively1 or frankly acknowledging the inferiority of woman1 according to the present appearance of things1 ,i shall only insist1 that men have increased that inferiority till women are almost sunk below the standard of rational creatures4 ,let their faculties have room to unfold1 and their virtues to gain strength1 and then determine where the whole sex must stand in the intellectual scale4 ,yet1 let it be remembered1 that for a small number of distinguished women ,i do not ask a place4 ,it is difficult for us purblind mortals to say to what height human discoveries and improvements may arrive1 when the gloom of despotism subsides1 which makes us stumble at every step2 but1 when morality shall be settled on a more solid basis1 then1 without being gifted with a prophetic spirit1 ,i will venture to predict1 that woman will be either the friend or slave of man4 ,we shall not1 as at present1 doubt whether she is a moral agent1 or the link which unites man with brutes4 ,but1 should it then appear1 that like the brutes they were principally created for the use of man1 he will let them patiently bite the bridle1 and not mock them with empty praise2 or1 should their rationality be proved1 he will not impede their improvement merely to gratify his sensual appetites4 ,he will not with all the graces of rhetoric1 advise them to submit implicitly their understandings to the guidance of man4 ,he will not1 when he treats of the education of women1 assert1 that they ought never to have the free use of reason1 nor would he recommend cunning and dissimulation to beings who are acquiring1 in like manner as himself1 the virtues of humanity4 ,surely there can be but one rule of right1 if morality has an eternal foundation1 and whoever sacrifices virtue1 strictly so called1 to present convenience1 or whose ,,duty it is to act in such a manner1 lives only for the passing day1 and cannot be an accountable creature4 ,the poet then should have dropped his sneer when he says1 ,if weak women go astray1 ,the stars are more in fault than they4 ,for that they are bound by the adamantine chain of destiny is most certain1 if it be proved that they are never to exercise their own reason1 never to be independent1 never to rise above opinion1 or to feel the dignity of a rational will that only bows to ,god1 and often forgets that the universe contains any being but itself1 and the model of perfection to which its ardent gaze is turned1 to adore attributes that1 softened into virtues1 may be imitated in kind1 though the degree overwhelms the enraptured mind4 ,if1 ,i say1 for ,i would not impress by declamation when reason offers her sober light1 if they are really capable of acting like rational creatures1 let them not be treated like slaves2 or1 like the brutes who are dependent on the reason of man1 when they associate with him2 but cultivate their minds1 give them the salutary1 sublime curb of principle1 and let them attain conscious dignity by feeling themselves only dependent on ,god4 ,teach them1 in common with man1 to submit to necessity1 instead of giving1 to render them more pleasing1 a sex to morals4 ,further1 should experience prove that they cannot attain the same degree of strength of mind1 perseverance and fortitude1 let their virtues be the same in kind1 though they may vainly struggle for the same degree2 and the superiority of man will be equally clear1 if not clearer2 and truth1 as it is a simple principle1 which admits of no modification1 would be common to both4 ,nay1 the order of society1 as it is at present regulated1 would not be inverted1 for woman would then only have the rank that reason assigned her1 and arts could not be practised to bring the balance even1 much less to turn it4 ,these may be termed ,utopian dreams4 ,thanks to that ,being who impressed them on my soul1 and gave me sufficient strength of mind to dare to exert my own reason1 till becoming dependent only on him for the support of my virtue1 ,i view with indignation1 the mistaken notions that enslave my sex4 ,i love man as my fellow2 but his sceptre real or usurped1 extends not to me1 unless the reason of an individual demands my homage2 and even then the submission is to reason1 and not to man4 ,in fact1 the conduct of an accountable being must be regulated by the operations of its own reason2 or on what foundation rests the throne of ,god8 ,it appears to me necessary to dwell on these obvious truths1 because females have been insulted1 as it were2 and while they have been stripped of the virtues that should clothe humanity1 they have been decked with artificial graces1 that enable them to exercise a short lived tyranny4 ,love1 in their bosoms1 taking place of every nobler passion1 their sole ambition is to be fair1 to raise emotion instead of inspiring respect2 and this ignoble desire1 like the servility in absolute monarchies1 destroys all strength of character4 ,liberty is the mother of virtue1 and if women are1 by their very constitution1 slaves1 and not allowed to breathe the sharp invigorating air of freedom1 they must ever languish like exotics1 and be reckoned beautiful flaws in nature2 let it also be remembered1 that they are the only flaw4 ,as to the argument respecting the subjection in which the sex has ever been held1 it retorts on man4 ,the many have always been enthralled by the few2 and1 monsters who have scarcely shown any discernment of human excellence1 have tyrannized over thousands of their fellow creatures4 ,why have men of superior endowments submitted to such degradation8 ,for1 is it not universally acknowledged that kings1 viewed collectively1 have ever been inferior1 in abilities and virtue1 to the same number of men taken from the common mass of mankind--yet1 have they not1 and are they not still treated with a degree of reverence1 that is an insult to reason8 ,china is not the only country where a living man has been made a ,god4 ,,men have submitted to superior strength1 to enjoy with impunity the pleasure of the moment--,,women have only done the same1 and therefore till it is proved that the courtier1 who servilely resigns the birthright of a man1 is not a moral agent1 it cannot be demonstrated that woman is essentially inferior to man1 because she has always been subjugated4 ,brutal force has hitherto governed the world1 and that the science of politics is in its infancy1 is evident from philosophers scrupling to give the knowledge most useful to man that determinate distinction4 ,i shall not pursue this argument any further than to establish an obvious inference1 that as sound politics diffuse liberty1 mankind1 including woman1 will become more wise and virtuous4 ,,chapter #c4 ,,the ,,same ,,subject ,,continued4 ,bodily strength from being the distinction of heroes is now sunk into such unmerited contempt1 that men as well as women1 seem to think it unnecessary3 the latter1 as it takes from their feminine graces1 and from that lovely weakness1 the source of their undue power2 and the former1 because it appears inimical with the character of a gentleman4 ,that they have both by departing from one extreme run into another1 may easily be proved2 but it first may be proper to observe1 that a vulgar error has obtained a degree of credit1 which has given force to a false conclusion1 in which an effect has been mistaken for a cause4 ,people of genius have1 very frequently1 impaired their constitutions by study1 or careless inattention to their health1 and the violence of their passions bearing a proportion to the vigour of their intellects1 the sword's destroying the scabbard has become almost proverbial1 and superficial observers have inferred from thence1 that men of genius have commonly weak1 or to use a more fashionable phrase1 delicate constitutions4 ,yet the contrary1 ,i believe1 will appear to be the fact2 for1 on diligent inquiry1 ,i find that strength of mind has1 in most cases1 been accompanied by superior strength of body1 natural soundness of constitution1 not that robust tone of nerves and vigour of muscles1 which arise from bodily labour1 when the mind is quiescent1 or only directs the hands4 ,dr4 ,priestley has remarked1 in the preface to his biographical chart1 that the majority of great men have lived beyond forty-five4 ,and1 considering the thoughtless manner in which they lavished their strength1 when investigating a favourite science1 they have wasted the lamp of life1 forgetful of the midnight hour2 or1 when1 lost in poetic dreams1 fancy has peopled the scene1 and the soul has been disturbed1 till it shook the constitution1 by the passions that meditation had raised2 whose objects1 the baseless fabric of a vision1 faded before the exhausted eye1 they must have had iron frames4 ,shakespeare never grasped the airy dagger with a nerveless hand1 nor did ,milton tremble when he led ,satan far from the confines of his dreary prison4 ,these were not the ravings of imbecility1 the sickly effusions of distempered brains2 but the exuberance of fancy1 that in a fine phrenzy wandering1 was not continually reminded of its material shackles4 ,i am aware1 that this argument would carry me further than it may be supposed ,i wish to go2 but ,i follow truth1 and still adhering to my first position1 ,i will allow that bodily strength seems to give man a natural superiority over woman2 and this is the only solid basis on which the superiority of the sex can be built4 ,but ,i still insist1 that not only the virtue1 but the ,,knowledge of the two sexes should be the same in nature1 if not in degree1 and that women1 considered not only as moral1 but rational creatures1 ought to endeavour to acquire human virtues 7or perfections7 by the ,,same means as men1 instead of being educated like a fanciful kind of ,,half being1 one of ,rousseau's wild chimeras4 ,but1 if strength of body be1 with some show of reason1 the boast of men1 why are women so infatuated as to be proud of a defect8 ,rousseau has furnished them with a plausible excuse1 which could only have occurred to a man1 whose imagination had been allowed to run wild1 and refine on the impressions made by exquisite senses1 that they might1 forsooth have a pretext for yielding to a natural appetite without violating a romantic species of modesty1 which gratifies the pride and libertinism of man4 ,women deluded by these sentiments1 sometimes boast of their weakness1 cunningly obtaining power by playing on the ,,weakness of men2 and they may well glory in their illicit sway1 for1 like ,turkish bashaws1 they have more real power than their masters3 but virtue is sacrificed to temporary gratifications1 and the respectability of life to the triumph of an hour4 ,women1 as well as despots1 have now1 perhaps1 more power than they would have1 if the world1 divided and subdivided into kingdoms and families1 was governed by laws deduced from the exercise of reason2 but in obtaining it1 to carry on the comparison1 their character is degraded1 and licentiousness spread through the whole aggregate of society4 ,the many become pedestal to the few4 ,i1 therefore will venture to assert1 that till women are more rationally educated1 the progress of human virtue and improvement in knowledge must receive continual checks4 ,and if it be granted1 that woman was not created merely to gratify the appetite of man1 nor to be the upper servant1 who provides his meals and takes care of his linen1 it must follow1 that the first care of those mothers or fathers1 who really attend to the education of females1 should be1 if not to strengthen the body1 at least1 not to destroy the constitution by mistaken notions of beauty and female excellence2 nor should girls ever be allowed to imbibe the pernicious notion that a defect can1 by any chemical process of reasoning become an excellence4 ,in this respect1 ,i am happy to find1 that the author of one of the most instructive books1 that our country has produced for children1 coincides with me in opinion2 ,i shall quote his pertinent remarks to give the force of his respectable authority to reason499 799,footnote4 ,a respectable old man gives the following sensible account of the method he pursued when educating his daughter4 ,i endeavoured to give both to her mind and body a degree of vigour1 which is seldom found in the female sex4 ,as soon as she was sufficiently advanced in strength to be capable of the lighter labours of husbandry and gardening1 ,i employed her as my constant companion4 ,selene1 for that was her name1 soon acquired a dexterity in all these rustic employments which ,i considered with equal pleasure and admiration4 ,if women are in general feeble both in body and mind1 it arises less from nature than from education4 ,we encourage a vicious indolence and inactivity1 which we falsely call delicacy2 instead of hardening their minds by the severer principles of reason and philosophy1 we breed them to useless arts1 which terminate in vanity and sensuality4 ,in most of the countries which ,i had visited1 they are taught nothing of an higher nature than a few modulations of the voice1 or useless postures of the body2 their time is consumed in sloth or trifles1 and trifles become the only pursuits capable of interesting them4 ,we seem to forget1 that it is upon the qualities of the female sex1 that our own domestic comforts and the education of our children must depend4 ,and what are the comforts or the education which a race of beings corrupted from their infancy1 and unacquainted with all the duties of life1 are fitted to bestow8 ,to touch a musical instrument with useless skill1 to exhibit their natural or affected graces1 to the eyes of indolent and debauched young men1 who dissipate their husbands' patrimony in riotous and unnecessary expenses3 these are the only arts cultivated by women in most of the polished nations ,i had seen4 ,and the consequences are uniformly such as may be expected to proceed from such polluted sources1 private misery1 and public servitude4 ,but1 ,selene's education was regulated by different views1 and conducted upon severer principles2 if that can be called severity which opens the mind to a sense of moral and religious duties1 and most effectually arms it against the inevitable evils of life4--,mr4 ,day's ,sandford and ,merton1 ,volume #c47 ,but should it be proved that woman is naturally weaker than man1 from whence does it follow that it is natural for her to labour to become still weaker than nature intended her to be8 ,arguments of this cast are an insult to common sense1 and savour of passion4 ,the ,,divine ,,right of husbands1 like the divine right of kings1 may1 it is to be hoped1 in this enlightened age1 be contested without danger1 and though conviction may not silence many boisterous disputants1 yet1 when any prevailing prejudice is attacked1 the wise will consider1 and leave the narrow-minded to rail with thoughtless vehemence at innovation4 ,the mother1 who wishes to give true dignity of character to her daughter1 must1 regardless of the sneers of ignorance1 proceed on a plan diametrically opposite to that which ,rousseau has recommended with all the deluding charms of eloquence and philosophical sophistry3 for his eloquence renders absurdities plausible1 and his dogmatic conclusions puzzle1 without convincing those who have not ability to refute them4 ,throughout the whole animal kingdom every young creature requires almost continual exercise1 and the infancy of children1 conformable to this intimation1 should be passed in harmless gambols1 that exercise the feet and hands1 without requiring very minute direction from the head1 or the constant attention of a nurse4 ,in fact1 the care necessary for self-preservation is the first natural exercise of the understanding1 as little inventions to amuse the present moment unfold the imagination4 ,but these wise designs of nature are counteracted by mistaken fondness or blind zeal4 ,the child is not left a moment to its own direction1 particularly a girl1 and thus rendered dependent--dependence is called natural4 ,to preserve personal beauty1 woman's glory6 the limbs and faculties are cramped with worse than ,chinese bands1 and the sedentary life which they are condemned to live1 whilst boys frolic in the open air1 weakens the muscles and relaxes the nerves4 ,as for ,rousseau's remarks1 which have since been echoed by several writers1 that they have naturally1 that is from their birth1 independent of education1 a fondness for dolls1 dressing1 and talking1 they are so puerile as not to merit a serious refutation4 ,that a girl1 condemned to sit for hours together listening to the idle chat of weak nurses or to attend at her mother's toilet1 will endeavour to join the conversation1 is1 indeed very natural2 and that she will imitate her mother or aunts1 and amuse herself by adorning her lifeless doll1 as they do in dressing her1 poor innocent babe6 is undoubtedly a most natural consequence4 ,for men of the greatest abilities have seldom had sufficient strength to rise above the surrounding atmosphere2 and1 if the page of genius has always been blurred by the prejudices of the age1 some allowance should be made for a sex1 who1 like kings1 always see things through a false medium4 ,in this manner may the fondness for dress1 conspicuous in women1 be easily accounted for1 without supposing it the result of a desire to please the sex on which they are dependent4 ,the absurdity1 in short1 of supposing that a girl is naturally a coquette1 and that a desire connected with the impulse of nature to propagate the species1 should appear even before an improper education has1 by heating the imagination1 called it forth prematurely1 is so unphilosophical1 that such a sagacious observer as ,rousseau would not have adopted it1 if he had not been accustomed to make reason give way to his desire of singularity1 and truth to a favourite paradox4 ,yet thus to give a sex to mind was not very consistent with the principles of a man who argued so warmly1 and so well1 for the immortality of the soul4 ,but what a weak barrier is truth when it stands in the way of an hypothesis6 ,rousseau respected--almost adored virtue--and yet allowed himself to love with sensual fondness4 ,his imagination constantly prepared inflammable fuel for his inflammable senses2 but1 in order to reconcile his respect for self-denial1 fortitude and those heroic virtues1 which a mind like his could not coolly admire1 he labours to invert the law of nature1 and broaches a doctrine pregnant with mischief1 and derogatory to the character of supreme wisdom4 ,his ridiculous stories1 which tend to prove that girls are ,,naturally attentive to their persons1 without laying any stress on daily example1 are below contempt4 ,and that a little miss should have such a correct taste as to neglect the pleasing amusement of making ,o's1 merely because she perceived that it was an ungraceful attitude1 should be selected with the anecdotes of the learned pig499 799,footnote4 ,i once knew a young person who learned to write before she learned to read1 and began to write with her needle before she could use a pen4 ,at first indeed1 she took it into her head to make no other letter than the ,o3 this letter she was constantly making of all sizes1 and always the wrong way4 ,unluckily one day1 as she was intent on this employment1 she happened to see herself in the looking glass2 when1 taking a dislike to the constrained attitude in which she sat while writing1 she threw away her pen1 like another ,pallas1 and determined against making the ,o any more4 ,her brother was also equally averse to writing3 it was the confinement1 however1 and not the constrained attitude1 that most disgusted him4 ,rousseau's ,emilius47 ,i have1 probably1 had an opportunity of observing more girls in their infancy than ,j4 ,j4 ,rousseau4 ,i can recollect my own feelings1 and ,i have looked steadily around me2 yet1 so far from coinciding with him in opinion respecting the first dawn of the female character1 ,i will venture to affirm1 that a girl1 whose spirits have not been damped by inactivity1 or innocence tainted by false shame1 will always be a romp1 and the doll will never excite attention unless confinement allows her no alternative4 ,girls and boys1 in short1 would play harmless together1 if the distinction of sex was not inculcated long before nature makes any difference4 ,i will1 go further1 and affirm1 as an indisputable fact1 that most of the women1 in the circle of my observation1 who have acted like rational creatures1 or shown any vigour of intellect1 have accidentally been allowed to run wild1 as some of the elegant formers of the fair sex would insinuate4 ,the baneful consequences which flow from inattention to health during infancy1 and youth1 extend further than is supposed1 dependence of body naturally produces dependence of mind2 and how can she be a good wife or mother1 the greater part of whose time is employed to guard against or endure sickness2 nor can it be expected1 that a woman will resolutely endeavour to strengthen her constitution and abstain from enervating indulgences1 if artificial notions of beauty1 and false descriptions of sensibility1 have been early entangled with her motives of action4 ,most men are sometimes obliged to bear with bodily inconveniences1 and to endure1 occasionally1 the inclemency of the elements2 but genteel women are1 literally speaking1 slaves to their bodies1 and glory in their subjection4 ,i once knew a weak woman of fashion1 who was more than commonly proud of her delicacy and sensibility4 ,she thought a distinguishing taste and puny appetite the height of all human perfection1 and acted accordingly4 ,i have seen this weak sophisticated being neglect all the duties of life1 yet recline with self-complacency on a sofa1 and boast of her want of appetite as a proof of delicacy that extended to1 or1 perhaps1 arose from1 her exquisite sensibility3 for it is difficult to render intelligible such ridiculous jargon4 ,yet1 at the moment1 ,i have seen her insult a worthy old gentlewoman1 whom unexpected misfortunes had made dependent on her ostentatious bounty1 and who1 in better days1 had claims on her gratitude4 ,is it possible that a human creature should have become such a weak and depraved being1 if1 like the ,sybarites1 dissolved in luxury1 every thing like virtue had not been worn away1 or never impressed by precept1 a poor substitute it is true1 for cultivation of mind1 though it serves as a fence against vice8 ,such a woman is not a more irrational monster than some of the ,roman emperors1 who were depraved by lawless power4 ,yet1 since kings have been more under the restraint of law1 and the curb1 however weak1 of honour1 the records of history are not filled with such unnatural instances of folly and cruelty1 nor does the despotism that kills virtue and genius in the bud1 hover over ,europe with that destructive blast which desolates ,turkey1 and renders the men1 as well as the soil unfruitful4 ,women are every where in this deplorable state2 for1 in order to preserve their innocence1 as ignorance is courteously termed1 truth is hidden from them1 and they are made to assume an artificial character before their faculties have acquired any strength4 ,taught from their infancy1 that beauty is woman's sceptre1 the mind shapes itself to the body1 and1 roaming round its gilt cage1 only seeks to adorn its prison4 ,men have various employments and pursuits which engage their attention1 and give a character to the opening mind2 but women1 confined to one1 and having their thoughts constantly directed to the most insignificant part of themselves1 seldom extend their views beyond the triumph of the hour4 ,but was their understanding once emancipated from the slavery to which the pride and sensuality of man and their short sighted desire1 like that of dominion in tyrants1 of present sway1 has subjected them1 we should probably read of their weaknesses with surprise4 ,i must be allowed to pursue the argument a little farther4 ,perhaps1 if the existence of an evil being was allowed1 who1 in the allegorical language of scripture1 went about seeking whom he should devour1 he could not more effectually degrade the human character than by giving a man absolute power4 ,this argument branches into various ramifications4 ,birth1 riches1 and every intrinsic advantage that exalt a man above his fellows1 without any mental exertion1 sink him in reality below them4 ,in proportion to his weakness1 he is played upon by designing men1 till the bloated monster has lost all traces of humanity4 ,and that tribes of men1 like flocks of sheep1 should quietly follow such a leader1 is a solecism that only a desire of present enjoyment and narrowness of understanding can solve4 ,educated in slavish dependence1 and enervated by luxury and sloth1 where shall we find men who will stand forth to assert the rights of man2 or claim the privilege of moral beings1 who should have but one road to excellence8 ,slavery to monarchs and ministers1 which the world will be long in freeing itself from1 and whose deadly grasp stops the progress of the human mind1 is not yet abolished4 ,let not men then in the pride of power1 use the same arguments that tyrannic kings and venal ministers have used1 and fallaciously assert1 that woman ought to be subjected because she has always been so4 ,but1 when man1 governed by reasonable laws1 enjoys his natural freedom1 let him despise woman1 if she do not share it with him2 and1 till that glorious period arrives1 in descanting on the folly of the sex1 let him not overlook his own4 ,women1 it is true1 obtaining power by unjust means1 by practising or fostering vice1 evidently lose the rank which reason would assign them1 and they become either abject slaves or capricious tyrants4 ,they lose all simplicity1 all dignity of mind1 in acquiring power1 and act as men are observed to act when they have been exalted by the same means4 ,it is time to effect a revolution in female manners1 time to restore to them their lost dignity1 and make them1 as a part of the human species1 labour by reforming themselves to reform the world4 ,it is time to separate unchangeable morals from local manners4 ,if men be demi-gods1 why let us serve them6 ,and if the dignity of the female soul be as disputable as that of animals1 if their reason does not afford sufficient light to direct their conduct whilst unerring instinct is denied1 they are surely of all creatures the most miserable and1 bent beneath the iron hand of destiny1 must submit to be a ,,fair ,,defect in creation4 ,but to justify the ways of providence respecting them1 by pointing out some irrefragable reason for thus making such a large portion of mankind accountable and not accountable1 would puzzle the subtlest casuist4 ,the only solid foundation for morality appears to be the character of the ,supreme ,being2 the harmony of which arises from a balance of attributes2 and1 to speak with reverence1 one attribute seems to imply the ,,necessity of another4 ,he must be just1 because he is wise1 he must be good1 because he is omnipotent4 ,for1 to exalt one attribute at the expense of another equally noble and necessary1 bears the stamp of the warped reason of man1 the homage of passion4 ,man1 accustomed to bow down to power in his savage state1 can seldom divest himself of this barbarous prejudice even when civilization determines how much superior mental is to bodily strength2 and his reason is clouded by these crude opinions1 even when he thinks of the ,deity4 ,his omnipotence is made to swallow up1 or preside over his other attributes1 and those mortals are supposed to limit his power irreverently1 who think that it must be regulated by his wisdom4 ,i disclaim that species of humility which1 after investigating nature1 stops at the author4 ,the high and lofty ,one1 who inhabiteth eternity1 doubtless possesses many attributes of which we can form no conception2 but reason tells me that they cannot clash with those ,i adore1 and ,i am compelled to listen to her voice4 ,it seems natural for man to search for excellence1 and either to trace it in the object that he worships1 or blindly to invest it with perfection as a garment4 ,but what good effect can the latter mode of worship have on the moral conduct of a rational being8 ,he bends to power2 he adores a dark cloud1 which may open a bright prospect to him1 or burst in angry1 lawless fury on his devoted head1 he knows not why4 ,and1 supposing that the ,deity acts from the vague impulse of an undirected will1 man must also follow his own1 or act according to rules1 deduced from principles which he disclaims as irreverent4 ,into this dilemma have both enthusiasts and cooler thinkers fallen1 when they laboured to free men from the wholesome restraints which a just conception of the character of ,god imposes4 ,it is not impious thus to scan the attributes of the ,almighty3 in fact1 who can avoid it that exercises his faculties8 for to love ,god as the fountain of wisdom1 goodness1 and power1 appears to be the only worship useful to a being who wishes to acquire either virtue or knowledge4 ,a blind unsettled affection may1 like human passions1 occupy the mind and warm the heart1 whilst1 to do justice1 love mercy1 and walk humbly with our ,god1 is forgotten4 ,i shall pursue this subject still further1 when ,i consider religion in a light opposite to that recommended by ,dr4 ,gregory1 who treats it as a matter of sentiment or taste4 ,to return from this apparent digression4 ,it were to be wished1 that women would cherish an affection for their husbands1 founded on the same principle that devotion ought to rest upon4 ,no other firm base is there under heaven1 for let them beware of the fallacious light of sentiment2 too often used as a softer phrase for sensuality4 ,it follows then1 ,i think1 that from their infancy women should either be shut up like eastern princes1 or educated in such a manner as to be able to think and act for themselves4 ,why do men halt between two opinions1 and expect impossibilities8 ,why do they expect virtue from a slave1 or from a being whom the constitution of civil society has rendered weak1 if not vicious8 ,still ,i know that it will require a considerable length of time to eradicate the firmly rooted prejudices which sensualists have planted2 it will also require some time to convince women that they act contrary to their real interest on an enlarged scale1 when they cherish or affect weakness under the name of delicacy1 and to convince the world that the poisoned source of female vices and follies1 if it be necessary1 in compliance with custom1 to use synonymous terms in a lax sense1 has been the sensual homage paid to beauty3 to beauty of features2 for it has been shrewdly observed by a ,german writer1 that a pretty woman1 as an object of desire1 is generally allowed to be so by men of all descriptions2 whilst a fine woman1 who inspires more sublime emotions by displaying intellectual beauty1 may be overlooked or observed with indifference1 by those men who find their happiness in the gratification of their appetites4 ,i foresee an obvious retort2 whilst man remains such an imperfect being as he appears hitherto to have been1 he will1 more or less1 be the slave of his appetites2 and those women obtaining most power who gratify a predominant one1 the sex is degraded by a physical1 if not by a moral necessity4 ,this objection has1 ,i grant1 some force2 but while such a sublime precept exists1 as1 be pure as your heavenly father is pure2 it would seem that the virtues of man are not limited by the ,being who alone could limit them2 and that he may press forward without considering whether he steps out of his sphere by indulging such a noble ambition4 ,to the wild billows it has been said1 thus far shalt thou go1 and no further2 and here shall thy proud waves be stayed4 ,vainly then do they beat and foam1 restrained by the power that confines the struggling planets within their orbits1 matter yields to the great governing ,spirit4 ,but an immortal soul1 not restrained by mechanical laws1 and struggling to free itself from the shackles of matter1 contributes to1 instead of disturbing1 the order of creation1 when1 co-operating with the ,father of spirits1 it tries to govern itself by the invariable rule that1 in a degree1 before which our imagination faints1 the universe is regulated4 ,besides1 if women are educated for dependence1 that is1 to act according to the will of another fallible being1 and submit1 right or wrong1 to power1 where are we to stop8 ,are they to be considered as viceregents1 allowed to reign over a small domain1 and answerable for their conduct to a higher tribunal1 liable to error8 ,it will not be difficult to prove1 that such delegates will act like men subjected by fear1 and make their children and servants endure their tyrannical oppression4 ,as they submit without reason1 they will1 having no fixed rules to square their conduct by1 be kind or cruel1 just as the whim of the moment directs2 and we ought not to wonder if sometimes1 galled by their heavy yoke1 they take a malignant pleasure in resting it on weaker shoulders4 ,but1 supposing a woman1 trained up to obedience1 be married to a sensible man1 who directs her judgment1 without making her feel the servility of her subjection1 to act with as much propriety by this reflected light as can be expected when reason is taken at second hand1 yet she cannot ensure the life of her protector2 he may die and leave her with a large family4 ,a double duty devolves on her2 to educate them in the character of both father and mother2 to form their principles and secure their property4 ,but1 alas6 she has never thought1 much less acted for herself4 ,she has only learned to please men1 to depend gracefully on them2 yet1 encumbered with children1 how is she to obtain another protector2 a husband to supply the place of reason8 ,a rational man1 for we are not treading on romantic ground1 though he may think her a pleasing docile creature1 will not choose to marry a ,,family for love1 when the world contains many more pretty creatures4 ,what is then to become of her8 ,she either falls an easy prey to some mean fortune hunter1 who defrauds her children of their paternal inheritance1 and renders her miserable2 or becomes the victim of discontent and blind indulgence4 ,unable to educate her sons1 or impress them with respect2 for it is not a play on words to assert1 that people are never respected1 though filling an important station1 who are not respectable2 she pines under the anguish of unavailing impotent regret4 ,the serpent's tooth enters into her very soul1 and the vices of licentious youth bring her with sorrow1 if not with poverty also1 to the grave4 ,this is not an overcharged picture2 on the contrary1 it is a very possible case1 and something similar must have fallen under every attentive eye4 ,i have1 however1 taken it for granted1 that she was well disposed1 though experience shows1 that the blind may as easily be led into a ditch as along the beaten road4 ,but supposing1 no very improbable conjecture1 that a being only taught to please must still find her happiness in pleasing2 what an example of folly1 not to say vice1 will she be to her innocent daughters6 ,the mother will be lost in the coquette1 and1 instead of making friends of her daughters1 view them with eyes askance1 for they are rivals--rivals more cruel than any other1 because they invite a comparison1 and drive her from the throne of beauty1 who has never thought of a seat on the bench of reason4 ,it does not require a lively pencil1 or the discriminating outline of a caricature1 to sketch the domestic miseries and petty vices which such a mistress of a family diffuses4 ,still she only acts as a woman ought to act1 brought up according to ,rousseau's system4 ,she can never be reproached for being masculine1 or turning out of her sphere2 nay1 she may observe another of his grand rules1 and1 cautiously preserving her reputation free from spot1 be reckoned a good kind of woman4 ,yet in what respect can she be termed good8 ,she abstains1 it is true1 without any great struggle1 from committing gross crimes2 but how does she fulfil her duties8 ,duties6--in truth she has enough to think of to adorn her body and nurse a weak constitution4 ,with respect to religion1 she never presumed to judge for herself2 but conformed1 as a dependent creature should1 to the ceremonies of the church which she was brought up in1 piously believing1 that wiser heads than her own have settled that business3 and not to doubt is her point of perfection4 ,she therefore pays her tythe of mint and cummin1 and thanks her ,god that she is not as other women are4 ,these are the blessed effects of a good education6 these the virtues of man's helpmate4 ,i must relieve myself by drawing a different picture4 ,let fancy now present a woman with a tolerable understanding1 for ,i do not wish to leave the line of mediocrity1 whose constitution1 strengthened by exercise1 has allowed her body to acquire its full vigour2 her mind1 at the same time1 gradually expanding itself to comprehend the moral duties of life1 and in what human virtue and dignity consist4 ,formed thus by the relative duties of her station1 she marries from affection1 without losing sight of prudence1 and looking beyond matrimonial felicity1 she secures her husband's respect before it is necessary to exert mean arts to please him1 and feed a dying flame1 which nature doomed to expire when the object became familiar1 when friendship and forbearance take place of a more ardent affection4 ,this is the natural death of love1 and domestic peace is not destroyed by struggles to prevent its extinction4 ,i also suppose the husband to be virtuous2 or she is still more in want of independent principles4 ,fate1 however1 breaks this tie4 ,she is left a widow1 perhaps1 without a sufficient provision3 but she is not desolate6 ,the pang of nature is felt2 but after time has softened sorrow into melancholy resignation1 her heart turns to her children with redoubled fondness1 and anxious to provide for them1 affection gives a sacred heroic cast to her maternal duties4 ,she thinks that not only the eye sees her virtuous efforts1 from whom all her comfort now must flow1 and whose approbation is life2 but her imagination1 a little abstracted and exalted by grief1 dwells on the fond hope1 that the eyes which her trembling hand closed1 may still see how she subdues every wayward passion to fulfil the double duty of being the father as well as the mother of her children4 ,raised to heroism by misfortunes1 she represses the first faint dawning of a natural inclination1 before it ripens into love1 and in the bloom of life forgets her sex--forgets the pleasure of an awakening passion1 which might again have been inspired and returned4 ,she no longer thinks of pleasing1 and conscious dignity prevents her from priding herself on account of the praise which her conduct demands4 ,her children have her love1 and her brightest hopes are beyond the grave1 where her imagination often strays4 ,i think ,i see her surrounded by her children1 reaping the reward of her care4 ,the intelligent eye meets her's1 whilst health and innocence smile on their chubby cheeks1 and as they grow up the cares of life are lessened by their grateful attention4 ,she lives to see the virtues which she endeavoured to plant on principles1 fixed into habits1 to see her children attain a strength of character sufficient to enable them to endure adversity without forgetting their mother's example4 ,the task of life thus fulfilled1 she calmly waits for the sleep of death1 and rising from the grave may say1 behold1 thou gavest me a talent1 and here are five talents4 ,i wish to sum up what ,i have said in a few words1 for ,i here throw down my gauntlet1 and deny the existence of sexual virtues1 not excepting modesty4 ,for man and woman1 truth1 if ,i understand the meaning of the word1 must be the same2 yet the fanciful female character1 so prettily drawn by poets and novelists1 demanding the sacrifice of truth and sincerity1 virtue becomes a relative idea1 having no other foundation than utility1 and of that utility men pretend arbitrarily to judge1 shaping it to their own convenience4 ,women1 ,i allow1 may have different duties to fulfil2 but they are ,,human duties1 and the principles that should regulate the discharge of them1 ,i sturdily maintain1 must be the same4 ,to become respectable1 the exercise of their understanding is necessary1 there is no other foundation for independence of character2 ,i mean explicitly to say1 that they must only bow to the authority of reason1 instead of being the ,,modest slaves of opinion4 ,in the superior ranks of life how seldom do we meet with a man of superior abilities1 or even common acquirements8 ,the reason appears to me clear2 the state they are born in was an unnatural one4 ,the human character has ever been formed by the employments the individual1 or class pursues2 and if the faculties are not sharpened by necessity1 they must remain obtuse4 ,the argument may fairly be extended to women2 for seldom occupied by serious business1 the pursuit of pleasure gives that insignificancy to their character which renders the society of the ,,great so insipid4 ,the same want of firmness1 produced by a similar cause1 forces them both to fly from themselves to noisy pleasures1 and artificial passions1 till vanity takes place of every social affection1 and the characteristics of humanity can scarcely be discerned4 ,such are the blessings of civil governments1 as they are at present organized1 that wealth and female softness equally tend to debase mankind1 and are produced by the same cause2 but allowing women to be rational creatures they should be incited to acquire virtues which they may call their own1 for how can a rational being be ennobled by any thing that is not obtained by its ,,own exertions8 ,,chapter #d4 ,,observations ,,on ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,degradation ,,to ,,which ,,woman ,,is ,,reduced ,,by ,,various ,,causes4 ,that woman is naturally weak1 or degraded by a concurrence of circumstances is1 ,i think1 clear4 ,but this position ,i shall simply contrast with a conclusion1 which ,i have frequently heard fall from sensible men in favour of an aristocracy3 that the mass of mankind cannot be any thing1 or the obsequious slaves1 who patiently allow themselves to be penned up1 would feel their own consequence1 and spurn their chains4 ,men1 they further observe1 submit every where to oppression1 when they have only to lift up their heads to throw off the yoke2 yet1 instead of asserting their birthright1 they quietly lick the dust1 and say1 let us eat and drink1 for to-morrow we die4 ,women1 ,i argue from analogy1 are degraded by the same propensity to enjoy the present moment2 and1 at last1 despise the freedom which they have not sufficient virtue to struggle to attain4 ,but ,i must be more explicit4 ,with respect to the culture of the heart1 it is unanimously allowed that sex is out of the question2 but the line of subordination in the mental powers is never to be passed over4 ,only absolute in loveliness1 the portion of rationality granted to woman is1 indeed1 very scanty2 for1 denying her genius and judgment1 it is scarcely possible to divine what remains to characterize intellect4 ,the stamina of immortality1 if ,i may be allowed the phrase1 is the perfectibility of human reason2 for1 was man created perfect1 or did a flood of knowledge break in upon him1 when he arrived at maturity1 that precluded error1 ,i should doubt whether his existence would be continued after the dissolution of the body4 ,but in the present state of things1 every difficulty in morals1 that escapes from human discussion1 and equally baffles the investigation of profound thinking1 and the lightning glance of genius1 is an argument on which ,i build my belief of the immortality of the soul4 ,reason is1 consequentially1 the simple power of improvement2 or1 more properly speaking1 of discerning truth4 ,every individual is in this respect a world in itself4 ,more or less may be conspicuous in one being than other2 but the nature of reason must be the same in all1 if it be an emanation of divinity1 the tie that connects the creature with the ,creator2 for1 can that soul be stamped with the heavenly image1 that is not perfected by the exercise of its own reason8 ,yet outwardly ornamented with elaborate care1 and so adorned to delight man1 that with honour he may love1 7,vide ,milton7 the soul of woman is not allowed to have this distinction1 and man1 ever placed between her and reason1 she is always represented as only created to see through a gross medium1 and to take things on trust4 ,but1 dismissing these fanciful theories1 and considering woman as a whole1 let it be what it will1 instead of a part of man1 the inquiry is1 whether she has reason or not4 ,if she has1 which1 for a moment1 ,i will take for granted1 she was not created merely to be the solace of man1 and the sexual should not destroy the human character4 ,into this error men have1 probably1 been led by viewing education in a false light2 not considering it as the first step to form a being advancing gradually toward perfection2 7,this word is not strictly just1 but ,i cannot find a better47 but only as a preparation for life4 ,on this sensual error1 for ,i must call it so1 has the false system of female manners been reared1 which robs the whole sex of its dignity1 and classes the brown and fair with the smiling flowers that only adorn the land4 ,this has ever been the language of men1 and the fear of departing from a supposed sexual character1 has made even women of superior sense adopt the same sentiments4 ,thus understanding1 strictly speaking1 has been denied to woman2 and instinct1 sublimated into wit and cunning1 for the purposes of life1 has been substituted in its stead4 ,the power of generalizing ideas1 of drawing comprehensive conclusions from individual observations1 is the only acquirement for an immortal being1 that really deserves the name of knowledge4 ,merely to observe1 without endeavouring to account for any thing1 may1 7in a very incomplete manner7 serve as the common sense of life2 but where is the store laid up that is to clothe the soul when it leaves the body8 ,this power has not only been denied to women2 but writers have insisted that it is inconsistent1 with a few exceptions1 with their sexual character4 ,let men prove this1 and ,i shall grant that woman only exists for man4 ,i must1 however1 previously remark1 that the power of generalizing ideas1 to any great extent1 is not very common amongst men or women4 ,but this exercise is the true cultivation of the understanding2 and every thing conspires to render the cultivation of the understanding more difficult in the female than the male world4 ,i am naturally led by this assertion to the main subject of the present chapter1 and shall now attempt to point out some of the causes that degrade the sex1 and prevent women from generalizing their observations4 ,i shall not go back to the remote annals of antiquity to trace the history of woman2 it is sufficient to allow1 that she has always been either a slave or a despot1 and to remark1 that each of these situations equally retards the progress of reason4 ,the grand source of female folly and vice has ever appeared to me to arise from narrowness of mind2 and the very constitution of civil governments has put almost insuperable obstacles in the way to prevent the cultivation of the female understanding3 yet virtue can be built on no other foundation6 ,the same obstacles are thrown in the way of the rich1 and the same consequences ensue4 ,necessity has been proverbially termed the mother of invention2 the aphorism may be extended to virtue4 ,it is an acquirement1 and an acquirement to which pleasure must be sacrificed1 and who sacrifices pleasure when it is within the grasp1 whose mind has not been opened and strengthened by adversity1 or the pursuit of knowledge goaded on by necessity8 ,happy is it when people have the cares of life to struggle with2 for these struggles prevent their becoming a prey to enervating vices1 merely from idleness6 ,but1 if from their birth men and women are placed in a torrid zone1 with the meridian sun of pleasure darting directly upon them1 how can they sufficiently brace their minds to discharge the duties of life1 or even to relish the affections that carry them out of themselves8 ,pleasure is the business of a woman's life1 according to the present modification of society1 and while it continues to be so1 little can be expected from such weak beings4 ,inheriting1 in a lineal descent from the first fair defect in nature1 the sovereignty of beauty1 they have1 to maintain their power1 resigned their natural rights1 which the exercise of reason1 might have procured them1 and chosen rather to be short-lived queens than labour to attain the sober pleasures that arise from equality4 ,exalted by their inferiority 7this sounds like a contradiction7 they constantly demand homage as women1 though experience should teach them that the men who pride themselves upon paying this arbitrary insolent respect to the sex1 with the most scrupulous exactness1 are most inclined to tyrannize over1 and despise the very weakness they cherish4 ,often do they repeat ,mr4 ,hume's sentiments2 when comparing the ,french and ,athenian character1 he alludes to women4 ,but what is more singular in this whimsical nation1 say ,i to the ,athenians1 is1 that a frolic of yours during the ,saturnalia1 when the slaves are served by their masters1 is seriously continued by them through the whole year1 and through the whole course of their lives2 accompanied too with some circumstances1 which still further augment the absurdity and ridicule4 ,your sport only elevates for a few days1 those whom fortune has thrown down1 and whom she too1 in sport1 may really elevate forever above you4 ,but this nation gravely exalts those1 whom nature has subjected to them1 and whose inferiority and infirmities are absolutely incurable4 ,the women1 though without virtue1 are their masters and sovereigns4 ,ah6 why do women1 ,i write with affectionate solicitude1 condescend to receive a degree of attention and respect from strangers1 different from that reciprocation of civility which the dictates of humanity1 and the politeness of civilization authorise between man and man8 ,and why do they not discover1 when in the noon of beauty's power1 that they are treated like queens only to be deluded by hollow respect1 till they are led to resign1 or not assume1 their natural prerogatives8 ,confined then in cages1 like the feathered race1 they have nothing to do but to plume themselves1 and stalk with mock-majesty from perch to perch4 ,it is true1 they are provided with food and raiment1 for which they neither toil nor spin2 but health1 liberty1 and virtue are given in exchange4 ,but1 where1 amongst mankind has been found sufficient strength of mind to enable a being to resign these adventitious prerogatives2 one who rising with the calm dignity of reason above opinion1 dared to be proud of the privileges inherent in man8 and it is vain to expect it whilst hereditary power chokes the affections1 and nips reason in the bud4 ,the passions of men have thus placed women on thrones2 and1 till mankind become more reasonable1 it is to be feared that women will avail themselves of the power which they attain with the least exertion1 and which is the most indisputable4 ,they will smile1 yes1 they will smile1 though told that-- ,in beauty's empire is no mean1 ,and woman either slave or queen1 ,is quickly scorn'd when not ador'd4 ,but the adoration comes first1 and the scorn is not anticipated4 ,lewis the ,x,i,vth1 in particular1 spread factitious manners1 and caught in a specious way1 the whole nation in his toils2 for establishing an artful chain of despotism1 he made it the interest of the people at large1 individually to respect his station1 and support his power4 ,and women1 whom he flattered by a puerile attention to the whole sex1 obtained in his reign that prince-like distinction so fatal to reason and virtue4 ,a king is always a king1 and a woman always a woman3 7,and a wit1 always a wit1 might be added2 for the vain fooleries of wits and beauties to obtain attention1 and make conquests1 are much upon a par47 his authority and her sex1 ever stand between them and rational converse4 ,with a lover1 ,i grant she should be so1 and her sensibility will naturally lead her to endeavour to excite emotion1 not to gratify her vanity but her heart4 ,this ,i do not allow to be coquetry1 it is the artless impulse of nature1 ,i only exclaim against the sexual desire of conquest1 when the heart is out of the question4 ,this desire is not confined to women2 ,i have endeavoured1 says ,lord ,chesterfield1 to gain the hearts of twenty women1 whose persons ,i would not have given a fig for4 ,the libertine who in a gust of passion1 takes advantage of unsuspecting tenderness1 is a saint when compared with this cold-hearted rascal2 for ,i like to use significant words4 ,yet only taught to please1 women are always on the watch to please1 and with true heroic ardour endeavour to gain hearts merely to resign1 or spurn them1 when the victory is decided1 and conspicuous4 ,i must descend to the minutiae of the subject4 ,i lament that women are systematically degraded by receiving the trivial attentions1 which men think it manly to pay to the sex1 when1 in fact1 they are insultingly supporting their own superiority4 ,it is not condescension to bow to an inferior4 ,so ludicrous1 in fact1 do these ceremonies appear to me1 that ,i scarcely am able to govern my muscles1 when ,i see a man start with eager1 and serious solicitude to lift a handkerchief1 or shut a door1 when the ,,lady could have done it herself1 had she only moved a pace or two4 ,a wild wish has just flown from my heart to my head1 and ,i will not stifle it though it may excite a horse laugh4 ,i do earnestly wish to see the distinction of sex confounded in society1 unless where love animates the behaviour4 ,for this distinction is1 ,i am firmly persuaded1 the foundation of the weakness of character ascribed to woman2 is the cause why the understanding is neglected1 whilst accomplishments are acquired with sedulous care3 and the same cause accounts for their preferring the graceful before the heroic virtues4 ,mankind1 including every description1 wish to be loved and respected for ,,something2 and the common herd will always take the nearest road to the completion of their wishes4 ,the respect paid to wealth and beauty is the most certain and unequivocal2 and of course1 will always attract the vulgar eye of common minds4 ,abilities and virtues are absolutely necessary to raise men from the middle rank of life into notice2 and the natural consequence is notorious1 the middle rank contains most virtue and abilities4 ,men have thus1 in one station1 at least1 an opportunity of exerting themselves with dignity1 and of rising by the exertions which really improve a rational creature2 but the whole female sex are1 till their character is formed1 in the same condition as the rich3 for they are born1 ,i now speak of a state of civilization1 with certain sexual privileges1 and whilst they are gratuitously granted them1 few will ever think of works of supererogation1 to obtain the esteem of a small number of superior people4 ,when do we hear of women1 who starting out of obscurity1 boldly claim respect on account of their great abilities or daring virtues8 ,where are they to be found8 ,to be observed1 to be attended to1 to be taken notice of with sympathy1 complacency1 and approbation1 are all the advantages which they seek4 ,true6 my male readers will probably exclaim2 but let them1 before they draw any conclusion1 recollect1 that this was not written originally as descriptive of women1 but of the rich4 ,in ,dr4 ,smith's ,theory of ,moral ,sentiments1 ,i have found a general character of people of rank and fortune1 that in my opinion1 might with the greatest propriety be applied to the female sex4 ,i refer the sagacious reader to the whole comparison2 but must be allowed to quote a passage to enforce an argument that ,i mean to insist on1 as the one most conclusive against a sexual character4 ,for if1 excepting warriors1 no great men of any denomination1 have ever appeared amongst the nobility1 may it not be fairly inferred1 that their local situation swallowed up the man1 and produced a character similar to that of women1 who are ,,localized1 if ,i may be allowed the word1 by the rank they are placed in1 by ,,courtesy8 ,women1 commonly called ,ladies1 are not to be contradicted in company1 are not allowed to exert any manual strength2 and from them the negative virtues only are expected1 when any virtues are expected1 patience1 docility1 good-humour1 and flexibility2 virtues incompatible with any vigorous exertion of intellect4 ,besides by living more with each other1 and to being seldom absolutely alone1 they are more under the influence of sentiments than passions4 ,solitude and reflection are necessary to give to wishes the force of passions1 and enable the imagination to enlarge the object and make it the most desirable4 ,the same may be said of the rich2 they do not sufficiently deal in general ideas1 collected by impassionate thinking1 or calm investigation1 to acquire that strength of character1 on which great resolves are built4 ,but hear what an acute observer says of the great4 ,do the great seem insensible of the easy price at which they may acquire the public admiration8 or do they seem to imagine1 that to them1 as to other men1 it must be the purchase either of sweat or of blood8 ,by what important accomplishments is the young nobleman instructed to support the dignity of his rank1 and to render himself worthy of that superiority over his fellow citizens1 to which the virtue of his ancestors had raised them8 ,is it by knowledge1 by industry1 by patience1 by self-denial1 or by virtue of any kind8 ,as all his words1 as all his motions are attended to1 he learns an habitual regard for every circumstance of ordinary behaviour1 and studies to perform all those small duties with the most exact propriety4 ,as he is conscious how much he is observed1 and how much mankind are disposed to favour all his inclinations1 he acts1 upon the most indifferent occasions1 with that freedom and elevation which the thought of this naturally inspires4 ,his air1 his manner1 his deportment all mark that elegant and graceful sense of his own superiority1 which those who are born to an inferior station can hardly ever arrive at4 ,these are the arts by which he proposes to make mankind more easily submit to his authority1 and to govern their inclinations according to his own pleasure3 and in this he is seldom disappointed4 ,these arts1 supported by rank and pre-eminence1 are1 upon ordinary occasions1 sufficient to govern the world4 ,lewis ,,xiv4 during the greater part of his reign1 was regarded1 not only in ,france1 but over all ,europe1 as the most perfect model of a great prince4 ,but what were the talents and virtues1 by which he acquired this great reputation8 ,was it by the scrupulous and inflexible justice of all his undertakings1 by the immense dangers and difficulties with which they were attended1 or by the unwearied and unrelenting application with which he pursued them8 ,was it by his extensive knowledge1 by his exquisite judgment1 or by his heroic valour8 ,it was by none of these qualities4 ,but he was1 first of all1 the most powerful prince in ,europe1 and consequently held the highest rank among kings2 and then1 says his historian1 'he surpassed all his courtiers in the gracefulness of his shape1 and the majestic beauty of his features4 ,the sound of his voice noble and affecting1 gained those hearts which his presence intimidated4 ,he had a step and a deportment1 which could suit only him and his rank1 and which would have been ridiculous in any other person4 ,the embarrassment which he occasioned to those who spoke to him1 flattered that secret satisfaction with which he felt his own superiority4' ,these frivolous accomplishments1 supported by his rank1 and1 no doubt1 too1 by a degree of other talents and virtues1 which seems1 however1 not to have been much above mediocrity1 established this prince in the esteem of his own age1 and have drawn even from posterity1 a good deal of respect for his memory4 ,compared with these1 in his own times1 and in his own presence1 no other virtue1 it seems1 appeared to have any merit4 ,knowledge1 industry1 valour1 and beneficence1 trembling1 were abashed1 and lost all dignity before them4 ,woman1 also1 thus in herself complete1 by possessing all these ,,frivolous accomplishments1 so changes the nature of things1 --,that what she wills to do or say ,seems wisest1 virtuousest1 discreetest1 best2 ,all higher knowledge in ,,her ,,presence falls ,degraded4 ,wisdom in discourse with her ,loses discountenanc'd1 and like folly shows2 ,authority and reason on her wait4-- ,and all this is built on her loveliness6 ,in the middle rank of life1 to continue the comparison1 men1 in their youth1 are prepared for professions1 and marriage is not considered as the grand feature in their lives2 whilst women1 on the contrary1 have no other scheme to sharpen their faculties4 ,it is not business1 extensive plans1 or any of the excursive flights of ambition1 that engross their attention2 no1 their thoughts are not employed in rearing such noble structures4 ,to rise in the world1 and have the liberty of running from pleasure to pleasure1 they must marry advantageously1 and to this object their time is sacrificed1 and their persons often legally prostituted4 ,a man1 when he enters any profession1 has his eye steadily fixed on some future advantage 7and the mind gains great strength by having all its efforts directed to one point7 and1 full of his business1 pleasure is considered as mere relaxation2 whilst women seek for pleasure as the main purpose of existence4 ,in fact1 from the education which they receive from society1 the love of pleasure may be said to govern them all2 but does this prove that there is a sex in souls8 ,it would be just as rational to declare1 that the courtiers in ,france1 when a destructive system of despotism had formed their character1 were not men1 because liberty1 virtue1 and humanity1 were sacrificed to pleasure and vanity4 ,fatal passions1 which have ever domineered over the ,,whole race6 ,the same love of pleasure1 fostered by the whole tendency of their education1 gives a trifling turn to the conduct of women in most circumstances3 for instance1 they are ever anxious about secondary things2 and on the watch for adventures1 instead of being occupied by duties4 ,a man1 when he undertakes a journey1 has1 in general the end in view2 a woman thinks more of the incidental occurrences1 the strange things that may possibly occur on the road2 the impression that she may make on her fellow travellers2 and1 above all1 she is anxiously intent on the care of the finery that she carries with her1 which is more than ever a part of herself1 when going to figure on a new scene2 when1 to use an apt ,french turn of expression1 she is going to produce a sensation4 ,can dignity of mind exist with such trivial cares8 ,in short1 women1 in general1 as well as the rich of both sexes1 have acquired all the follies and vices of civilization1 and missed the useful fruit4 ,it is not necessary for me always to premise1 that ,i speak of the condition of the whole sex1 leaving exceptions out of the question4 ,their senses are inflamed1 and their understandings neglected2 consequently they become the prey of their senses1 delicately termed sensibility1 and are blown about by every momentary gust of feeling4 ,they are1 therefore1 in a much worse condition than they would be in1 were they in a state nearer to nature4 ,ever restless and anxious1 their over exercised sensibility not only renders them uncomfortable themselves1 but troublesome1 to use a soft phrase1 to others4 ,all their thoughts turn on things calculated to excite emotion2 and1 feeling1 when they should reason1 their conduct is unstable1 and their opinions are wavering1 not the wavering produced by deliberation or progressive views1 but by contradictory emotions4 ,by fits and starts they are warm in many pursuits2 yet this warmth1 never concentrated into perseverance1 soon exhausts itself2 exhaled by its own heat1 or meeting with some other fleeting passion1 to which reason has never given any specific gravity1 neutrality ensues4 ,miserable1 indeed1 must be that being whose cultivation of mind has only tended to inflame its passions6 ,a distinction should be made between inflaming and strengthening them4 ,the passions thus pampered1 whilst the judgment is left unformed1 what can be expected to ensue8 ,undoubtedly1 a mixture of madness and folly6 ,this observation should not be confined to the ,,fair sex2 however1 at present1 ,i only mean to apply it to them4 ,novels1 music1 poetry and gallantry1 all tend to make women the creatures of sensation1 and their character is thus formed during the time they are acquiring accomplishments1 the only improvement they are excited1 by their station in society1 to acquire4 ,this overstretched sensibility naturally relaxes the other powers of the mind1 and prevents intellect from attaining that sovereignty which it ought to attain1 to render a rational creature useful to others1 and content with its own station2 for the exercise of the understanding1 as life advances1 is the only method pointed out by nature to calm the passions4 ,satiety has a very different effect1 and ,i have often been forcibly struck by an emphatical description of damnation1 when the spirit is represented as continually hovering with abortive eagerness round the defiled body1 unable to enjoy any thing without the organs of sense4 ,yet1 to their senses1 are women made slaves1 because it is by their sensibility that they obtain present power4 ,and will moralists pretend to assert1 that this is the condition in which one half of the human race should be encouraged to remain with listless inactivity and stupid acquiescence8 ,kind instructors6 what were we created for8 ,to remain1 it may be said1 innocent2 they mean in a state of childhood4 ,we might as well never have been born1 unless it were necessary that we should be created to enable man to acquire the noble privilege of reason1 the power of discerning good from evil1 whilst we lie down in the dust from whence we were taken1 never to rise again4 ,it would be an endless task to trace the variety of meannesses1 cares1 and sorrows1 into which women are plunged by the prevailing opinion1 that they were created rather to feel than reason1 and that all the power they obtain1 must be obtained by their charms and weakness2 ,fine by defect1 and amiably weak6 ,and1 made by this amiable weakness entirely dependent1 excepting what they gain by illicit sway1 on man1 not only for protection1 but advice1 is it surprising that1 neglecting the duties that reason alone points out1 and shrinking from trials calculated to strengthen their minds1 they only exert themselves to give their defects a graceful covering1 which may serve to heighten their charms in the eye of the voluptuary1 though it sink them below the scale of moral excellence8 ,fragile in every sense of the word1 they are obliged to look up to man for every comfort4 ,in the most trifling dangers they cling to their support1 with parasitical tenacity1 piteously demanding succour2 and their ,,natural protector extends his arm1 or lifts up his voice1 to guard the lovely trembler--from what8 ,perhaps the frown of an old cow1 or the jump of a mouse2 a rat1 would be a serious danger4 ,in the name of reason1 and even common sense1 what can save such beings from contempt2 even though they be soft and fair8 ,these fears1 when not affected1 may be very pretty2 but they shew a degree of imbecility1 that degrades a rational creature in a way women are not aware of--for love and esteem are very distinct things4 ,i am fully persuaded1 that we should hear of none of these infantine airs1 if girls were allowed to take sufficient exercise and not confined in close rooms till their muscles are relaxed and their powers of digestion destroyed4 ,to carry the remark still further1 if fear in girls1 instead of being cherished1 perhaps1 created1 were treated in the same manner as cowardice in boys1 we should quickly see women with more dignified aspects4 ,it is true1 they could not then with equal propriety be termed the sweet flowers that smile in the walk of man2 but they would be more respectable members of society1 and discharge the important duties of life by the light of their own reason4 ,educate women like men1 says ,rousseau1 and the more they resemble our sex the less power will they have over us4 ,this is the very point ,i aim at4 ,i do not wish them to have power over men2 but over themselves4 ,in the same strain have ,i heard men argue against instructing the poor2 for many are the forms that aristocracy assumes4 ,teach them to read and write1 say they1 and you take them out of the station assigned them by nature4 ,an eloquent ,frenchman1 has answered them2 ,i will borrow his sentiments4 ,but they know not1 when they make man a brute1 that they may expect every instant to see him transformed into a ferocious beast4 ,without knowledge there can be no morality6 ,ignorance is a frail base for virtue6 ,yet1 that it is the condition for which woman was organized1 has been insisted upon by the writers who have most vehemently argued in favour of the superiority of man2 a superiority not in degree1 but essence2 though1 to soften the argument1 they have laboured to prove1 with chivalrous generosity1 that the sexes ought not to be compared2 man was made to reason1 woman to feel3 and that together1 flesh and spirit1 they make the most perfect whole1 by blending happily reason and sensibility into one character4 ,and what is sensibility8 ,quickness of sensation2 quickness of perception2 delicacy4 ,thus is it defined by ,dr4 ,johnson2 and the definition gives me no other idea than of the most exquisitely polished instinct4 ,i discern not a trace of the image of ,god in either sensation or matter4 ,refined seventy times seven1 they are still material2 intellect dwells not there2 nor will fire ever make lead gold6 ,i come round to my old argument2 if woman be allowed to have an immortal soul1 she must have as the employment of life1 an understanding to improve4 ,and when1 to render the present state more complete1 though every thing proves it to be but a fraction of a mighty sum1 she is incited by present gratification to forget her grand destination4 ,nature is counteracted1 or she was born only to procreate and rot4 ,or1 granting brutes1 of every description1 a soul1 though not a reasonable one1 the exercise of instinct and sensibility may be the step1 which they are to take1 in this life1 towards the attainment of reason in the next2 so that through all eternity they will lag behind man1 who1 why we cannot tell1 had the power given him of attaining reason in his first mode of existence4 ,when ,i treat of the peculiar duties of women1 as ,i should treat of the peculiar duties of a citizen or father1 it will be found that ,i do not mean to insinuate1 that they should be taken out of their families1 speaking of the majority4 ,he that hath wife and children1 says ,lord ,bacon1 hath given hostages to fortune2 for they are impediments to great enterprises1 either of virtue or mischief4 ,certainly the best works1 and of greatest merit for the public1 have proceeded from the unmarried or childless men4 ,i say the same of women4 ,but1 the welfare of society is not built on extraordinary exertions2 and were it more reasonably organized1 there would be still less need of great abilities1 or heroic virtues4 ,in the regulation of a family1 in the education of children1 understanding1 in an unsophisticated sense1 is particularly required3 strength both of body and mind2 yet the men who1 by their writings1 have most earnestly laboured to domesticate women1 have endeavoured by arguments dictated by a gross appetite1 that satiety had rendered fastidious1 to weaken their bodies and cramp their minds4 ,but1 if even by these sinister methods they really ,,persuaded women1 by working on their feelings1 to stay at home1 and fulfil the duties of a mother and mistress of a family1 ,i should cautiously oppose opinions that led women to right conduct1 by prevailing on them to make the discharge of a duty the business of life1 though reason were insulted4 ,yet1 and ,i appeal to experience1 if by neglecting the understanding they are as much1 nay1 more attached from these domestic duties1 than they could be by the most serious intellectual pursuit1 though it may be observed1 that the mass of mankind will never vigorously pursue an intellectual object1 ,i may be allowed to infer1 that reason is absolutely necessary to enable a woman to perform any duty properly1 and ,i must again repeat1 that sensibility is not reason4 ,the comparison with the rich still occurs to me2 for1 when men neglect the duties of humanity1 women will do the same2 a common stream hurries them both along with thoughtless celerity4 ,riches and honours prevent a man from enlarging his understanding1 and enervate all his powers1 by reversing the order of nature1 which has ever made true pleasure the reward of labour4 ,pleasure--enervating pleasure is1 likewise1 within woman's reach without earning it4 ,but1 till hereditary possessions are spread abroad1 how can we expect men to be proud of virtue8 ,and1 till they are1 women will govern them by the most direct means1 neglecting their dull domestic duties1 to catch the pleasure that is on the wing of time4 ,the power of women1 says some author1 is her sensibility2 and men not aware of the consequence1 do all they can to make this power swallow up every other4 ,those who constantly employ their sensibility will have most3 for example2 poets1 painters1 and composers4 ,yet1 when the sensibility is thus increased at the expense of reason1 and even the imagination1 why do philosophical men complain of their fickleness8 ,the sexual attention of man particularly acts on female sensibility1 and this sympathy has been exercised from their youth up4 ,a husband cannot long pay those attentions with the passion necessary to excite lively emotions1 and the heart1 accustomed to lively emotions1 turns to a new lover1 or pines in secret1 the prey of virtue or prudence4 ,i mean when the heart has really been rendered susceptible1 and the taste formed2 for ,i am apt to conclude1 from what ,i have seen in fashionable life1 that vanity is oftener fostered than sensibility by the mode of education1 and the intercourse between the sexes1 which ,i have reprobated2 and that coquetry more frequently proceeds from vanity than from that inconstancy1 which overstrained sensibility naturally produces4 ,another argument that has had a great weight with me1 must1 ,i think1 have some force with every considerate benevolent heart4 ,girls1 who have been thus weakly educated1 are often cruelly left by their parents without any provision2 and1 of course1 are dependent on1 not only the reason1 but the bounty of their brothers4 ,these brothers are1 to view the fairest side of the question1 good sort of men1 and give as a favour1 what children of the same parents had an equal right to4 ,in this equivocal humiliating situation1 a docile female may remain some time1 with a tolerable degree of comfort4 ,but1 when the brother marries1 a probable circumstance1 from being considered as the mistress of the family1 she is viewed with averted looks as an intruder1 an unnecessary burden on the benevolence of the master of the house1 and his new partner4 ,who can recount the misery1 which many unfortunate beings1 whose minds and bodies are equally weak1 suffer in such situations--unable to work and ashamed to beg8 ,the wife1 a cold-hearted1 narrow-minded woman1 and this is not an unfair supposition2 for the present mode of education does not tend to enlarge the heart any more than the understanding1 is jealous of the little kindness which her husband shows to his relations2 and her sensibility not rising to humanity1 she is displeased at seeing the property of ,,her children lavished on an helpless sister4 ,these are matters of fact1 which have come under my eye again and again4 ,the consequence is obvious1 the wife has recourse to cunning to undermine the habitual affection1 which she is afraid openly to oppose2 and neither tears nor caresses are spared till the spy is worked out of her home1 and thrown on the world1 unprepared for its difficulties2 or sent1 as a great effort of generosity1 or from some regard to propriety1 with a small stipend1 and an uncultivated mind into joyless solitude4 ,these two women may be much upon a par1 with respect to reason and humanity2 and changing situations1 might have acted just the same selfish part2 but had they been differently educated1 the case would also have been very different4 ,the wife would not have had that sensibility1 of which self is the centre1 and reason might have taught her not to expect1 and not even to be flattered by the affection of her husband1 if it led him to violate prior duties4 ,she would wish not to love him1 merely because he loved her1 but on account of his virtues2 and the sister might have been able to struggle for herself1 instead of eating the bitter bread of dependence4 ,i am1 indeed1 persuaded that the heart1 as well as the understanding1 is opened by cultivation2 and by1 which may not appear so clear1 strengthening the organs2 ,i am not now talking of momentary flashes of sensibility1 but of affections4 ,and1 perhaps1 in the education of both sexes1 the most difficult task is so to adjust instruction as not to narrow the understanding1 whilst the heart is warmed by the generous juices of spring1 just raised by the electric fermentation of the season2 nor to dry up the feelings by employing the mind in investigations remote from life4 ,with respect to women1 when they receive a careful education1 they are either made fine ladies1 brimful of sensibility1 and teeming with capricious fancies2 or mere notable women4 ,the latter are often friendly1 honest creatures1 and have a shrewd kind of good sense joined with worldly prudence1 that often render them more useful members of society than the fine sentimental lady1 though they possess neither greatness of mind nor taste4 ,the intellectual world is shut against them2 take them out of their family or neighbourhood1 and they stand still2 the mind finding no employment1 for literature affords a fund of amusement1 which they have never sought to relish1 but frequently to despise4 ,the sentiments and taste of more cultivated minds appear ridiculous1 even in those whom chance and family connexions have led them to love2 but in mere acquaintance they think it all affectation4 ,a man of sense can only love such a woman on account of her sex1 and respect her1 because she is a trusty servant4 ,he lets her1 to preserve his own peace1 scold the servants1 and go to church in clothes made of the very best materials4 ,a man of her own size of understanding would1 probably1 not agree so well with her2 for he might wish to encroach on her prerogative1 and manage some domestic concerns himself4 ,yet women1 whose minds are not enlarged by cultivation1 or the natural selfishness of sensibility expanded by reflection1 are very unfit to manage a family2 for by an undue stretch of power1 they are always tyrannizing to support a superiority that only rests on the arbitrary distinction of fortune4 ,the evil is sometimes more serious1 and domestics are deprived of innocent indulgences1 and made to work beyond their strength1 in order to enable the notable woman to keep a better table1 and outshine her neighbours in finery and parade4 ,if she attend to her children1 it is1 in general1 to dress them in a costly manner--and1 whether1 this attention arises from vanity or fondness1 it is equally pernicious4 ,besides1 how many women of this description pass their days1 or1 at least their evenings1 discontentedly4 ,their husbands acknowledge that they are good managers1 and chaste wives2 but leave home to seek for more agreeable1 may ,i be allowed to use a significant ,french word1 piquant society2 and the patient drudge1 who fulfils her task1 like a blind horse in a mill1 is defrauded of her just reward2 for the wages due to her are the caresses of her husband2 and women who have so few resources in themselves1 do not very patiently bear this privation of a natural right4 ,a fine lady1 on the contrary1 has been taught to look down with contempt on the vulgar employments of life2 though she has only been incited to acquire accomplishments that rise a degree above sense2 for even corporeal accomplishments cannot be acquired with any degree of precision1 unless the understanding has been strengthened by exercise4 ,without a foundation of principles taste is superficial2 and grace must arise from something deeper than imitation4 ,the imagination1 however1 is heated1 and the feelings rendered fastidious1 if not sophisticated2 or1 a counterpoise of judgment is not acquired1 when the heart still remains artless1 though it becomes too tender4 ,these women are often amiable2 and their hearts are really more sensible to general benevolence1 more alive to the sentiments that civilize life1 than the square elbowed family drudge2 but1 wanting a due proportion of reflection and self-government1 they only inspire love2 and are the mistresses of their husbands1 whilst they have any hold on their affections2 and the platonic friends of his male acquaintance4 ,these are the fair defects in nature2 the women who appear to be created not to enjoy the fellowship of man1 but to save him from sinking into absolute brutality1 by rubbing off the rough angles of his character2 and by playful dalliance to give some dignity to the appetite that draws him to them4 ,gracious ,creator of the whole human race6 hast thou created such a being as woman1 who can trace thy wisdom in thy works1 and feel that thou alone art by thy nature1 exalted above her--for no better purpose8 ,can she believe that she was only made to submit to man her equal2 a being1 who1 like her1 was sent into the world to acquire virtue8 ,can she consent to be occupied merely to please him2 merely to adorn the earth1 when her soul is capable of rising to thee8 ,and can she rest supinely dependent on man for reason1 when she ought to mount with him the arduous steeps of knowledge8 ,yet1 if love be the supreme good1 let women be only educated to inspire it1 and let every charm be polished to intoxicate the senses2 but1 if they are moral beings1 let them have a chance to become intelligent2 and let love to man be only a part of that glowing flame of universal love1 which1 after encircling humanity1 mounts in grateful incense to ,god4 ,to fulfil domestic duties much resolution is necessary1 and a serious kind of perseverance that requires a more firm support than emotions1 however lively and true to nature4 ,to give an example of order1 the soul of virtue1 some austerity of behaviour must be adopted1 scarcely to be expected from a being who1 from its infancy1 has been made the weathercock of its own sensations4 ,whoever rationally means to be useful1 must have a plan of conduct2 and1 in the discharge of the simplest duty1 we are often obliged to act contrary to the present impulse of tenderness or compassion4 ,severity is frequently the most certain1 as well as the most sublime proof of affection2 and the want of this power over the feelings1 and of that lofty1 dignified affection1 which makes a person prefer the future good of the beloved object to a present gratification1 is the reason why so many fond mothers spoil their children1 and has made it questionable1 whether negligence or indulgence is most hurtful3 but ,i am inclined to think1 that the latter has done most harm4 ,mankind seem to agree1 that children should be left under the management of women during their childhood4 ,now1 from all the observation that ,i have been able to make1 women of sensibility are the most unfit for this task1 because they will infallibly1 carried away by their feelings1 spoil a child's temper4 ,the management of the temper1 the first and most important branch of education1 requires the sober steady eye of reason2 a plan of conduct equally distant from tyranny and indulgence2 yet these are the extremes that people of sensibility alternately fall into2 always shooting beyond the mark4 ,i have followed this train of reasoning much further1 till ,i have concluded1 that a person of genius is the most improper person to be employed in education1 public or private4 ,minds of this rare species see things too much in masses1 and seldom1 if ever1 have a good temper4 ,that habitual cheerfulness1 termed good humour1 is1 perhaps1 as seldom united with great mental powers1 as with strong feelings4 ,and those people who follow1 with interest and admiration1 the flights of genius2 or1 with cooler approbation suck in the instruction1 which has been elaborately prepared for them by the profound thinker1 ought not to be disgusted1 if they find the former choleric1 and the latter morose2 because liveliness of fancy1 and a tenacious comprehension of mind1 are scarcely compatible with that pliant urbanity which leads a man1 at least to bend to the opinions and prejudices of others1 instead of roughly confronting them4 ,but1 treating of education or manners1 minds of a superior class are not to be considered1 they may be left to chance2 it is the multitude1 with moderate abilities1 who call for instruction1 and catch the colour of the atmosphere they breathe4 ,this respectable concourse1 ,i contend1 men and women1 should not have their sensations heightened in the hot-bed of luxurious indolence1 at the expence of their understanding2 for1 unless there be a ballast of understanding1 they will never become either virtuous or free3 an aristocracy1 founded on property1 or sterling talents1 will ever sweep before it1 the alternately timid and ferocious slaves of feeling4 ,numberless are the arguments1 to take another view of the subject1 brought forward with a show of reason2 because supposed to be deduced from nature1 that men have used morally and physically to degrade the sex4 ,i must notice a few4 ,the female understanding has often been spoken of with contempt1 as arriving sooner at maturity than the male4 ,i shall not answer this argument by alluding to the early proofs of reason1 as well as genius1 in ,cowley1 ,milton1 and ,pope1 7,many other names might be added47 but only appeal to experience to decide whether young men1 who are early introduced into company 7and examples now abound7 do not acquire the same precocity4 ,so notorious is this fact1 that the bare mentioning of it must bring before people1 who at all mix in the world1 the idea of a number of swaggering apes of men whose understandings are narrowed by being brought into the society of men when they ought to have been spinning a top or twirling a hoop4 ,it has also been asserted1 by some naturalists1 that men do not attain their full growth and strength till thirty2 but that women arrive at maturity by twenty4 ,i apprehend that they reason on false ground1 led astray by the male prejudice1 which deems beauty the perfection of woman--mere beauty of features and complexion1 the vulgar acceptation of the world1 whilst male beauty is allowed to have some connexion with the mind4 ,strength of body1 and that character of countenance1 which the ,french term a physionomie1 women do not acquire before thirty1 any more than men4 ,the little artless tricks of children1 it is true1 are particularly pleasing and attractive2 yet1 when the pretty freshness of youth is worn off1 these artless graces become studied airs1 and disgust every person of taste4 ,in the countenance of girls we only look for vivacity and bashful modesty2 but1 the springtide of life over1 we look for soberer sense in the face1 and for traces of passion1 instead of the dimples of animal spirits2 expecting to see individuality of character1 the only fastener of the affections4 ,we then wish to converse1 not to fondle2 to give scope to our imaginations1 as well as to the sensations of our hearts4 ,at twenty the beauty of both sexes is equal2 but the libertinism of man leads him to make the distinction1 and superannuated coquettes are commonly of the same opinion2 for when they can no longer inspire love1 they pay for the vigour and vivacity of youth4 ,the ,french who admit more of mind into their notions of beauty1 give the preference to women of thirty4 ,i mean to say1 that they allow women to be in their most perfect state1 when vivacity gives place to reason1 and to that majestic seriousness of character1 which marks maturity2 or1 the resting point4 ,in youth1 till twenty the body shoots out2 till thirty the solids are attaining a degree of density2 and the flexible muscles1 growing daily more rigid1 give character to the countenance2 that is1 they trace the operations of the mind with the iron pen of fate1 and tell us not only what powers are within1 but how they have been employed4 ,it is proper to observe1 that animals who arrive slowly at maturity1 are the longest lived1 and of the noblest species4 ,men cannot1 however1 claim any natural superiority from the grandeur of longevity2 for in this respect nature has not distinguished the male4 ,polygamy is another physical degradation2 and a plausible argument for a custom1 that blasts every domestic virtue1 is drawn from the well-attested fact1 that in the countries where it is established1 more females are born than males4 ,this appears to be an indication of nature1 and to nature apparently reasonable speculations must yield4 ,a further conclusion obviously presents itself2 if polygamy be necessary1 woman must be inferior to man1 and made for him4 ,with respect to the formation of the foetus in the womb1 we are very ignorant2 but it appears to me probable1 that an accidental physical cause may account for this phenomenon1 and prove it not to be a law of nature4 ,i have met with some pertinent observations on the subject in ,forster's ,account of the ,isles of the ,south ,sea1 that will explain my meaning4 ,after observing that of the two sexes amongst animals1 the most vigorous and hottest constitution always prevails1 and produces its kind2 he adds1--,if this be applied to the inhabitants of ,africa1 it is evident that the men there1 accustomed to polygamy1 are enervated by the use of so many women1 and therefore less vigorous2 the women on the contrary1 are of a hotter constitution1 not only on account of their more irritable nerves1 more sensitive organization1 and more lively fancy2 but likewise because they are deprived in their matrimony of that share of physical love which in a monogamous condition1 would all be theirs2 and thus for the above reasons1 the generality of children are born females4 ,in the greater part of ,europe it has been proved by the most accurate lists of mortality1 that the proportion of men to women is nearly equal1 or1 if any difference takes place1 the males born are more numerous1 in the proportion of #aje to #ajj4 ,the necessity of polygamy1 therefore1 does not appear2 yet when a man seduces a woman1 it should ,i think1 be termed a ,,left-,,handed marriage1 and the man should be ,,legally obliged to maintain the woman and her children1 unless adultery1 a natural divorcement1 abrogated the law4 ,and this law should remain in force as long as the weakness of women caused the word seduction to be used as an excuse for their frailty and want of principle2 nay1 while they depend on man for a subsistence1 instead of earning it by the exercise of their own hands or heads4 ,but these women should not in the full meaning of the relationship1 be termed wives1 or the very purpose of marriage would be subverted1 and all those endearing charities that flow from personal fidelity1 and give a sanctity to the tie1 when neither love nor friendship unites the hearts1 would melt into selfishness4 ,the woman who is faithful to the father of her children demands respect1 and should not be treated like a prostitute2 though ,i readily grant1 that if it be necessary for a man and woman to live together in order to bring up their offspring1 nature never intended that a man should have more than one wife4 ,still1 highly as ,i respect marriage1 as the foundation of almost every social virtue1 ,i cannot avoid feeling the most lively compassion for those unfortunate females who are broken off from society1 and by one error torn from all those affections and relationships that improve the heart and mind4 ,it does not frequently even deserve the name of error2 for many innocent girls become the dupes of a sincere affectionate heart1 and still more are1 as it may emphatically be termed1 ,,ruined before they know the difference between virtue and vice3 and thus prepared by their education for infamy1 they become infamous4 ,asylums and ,magdalens are not the proper remedies for these abuses4 ,it is justice1 not charity1 that is wanting in the world6 ,a woman who has lost her honour1 imagines that she cannot fall lower1 and as for recovering her former station1 it is impossible2 no exertion can wash this stain away4 ,losing thus every spur1 and having no other means of support1 prostitution becomes her only refuge1 and the character is quickly depraved by circumstances over which the poor wretch has little power1 unless she possesses an uncommon portion of sense and loftiness of spirit4 ,necessity never makes prostitution the business of men's lives2 though numberless are the women who are thus rendered systematically vicious4 ,this1 however1 arises1 in a great degree1 from the state of idleness in which women are educated1 who are always taught to look up to man for a maintenance1 and to consider their persons as the proper return for his exertions to support them4 ,meretricious airs1 and the whole science of wantonness1 has then a more powerful stimulus than either appetite or vanity2 and this remark gives force to the prevailing opinion1 that with chastity all is lost that is respectable in woman4 ,her character depends on the observance of one virtue1 though the only passion fostered in her heart--is love4 ,nay the honour of a woman is not made even to depend on her will4 ,when ,richardson makes ,clarissa tell ,lovelace that he had robbed her of her honour1 he must have had strange notions of honour and virtue4 ,for1 miserable beyond all names of misery is the condition of a being1 who could be degraded without its own consent6 ,this excess of strictness ,i have heard vindicated as a salutary error4 ,i shall answer in the words of ,leibnitz--,errors are often useful2 but it is commonly to remedy other errors4 ,most of the evils of life arise from a desire of present enjoyment that outruns itself4 ,the obedience required of women in the marriage state1 comes under this description2 the mind1 naturally weakened by depending on authority1 never exerts its own powers1 and the obedient wife is thus rendered a weak indolent mother4 ,or1 supposing that this is not always the consequence1 a future state of existence is scarcely taken into the reckoning when only negative virtues are cultivated4 ,for in treating of morals1 particularly when women are alluded to1 writers have too often considered virtue in a very limited sense1 and made the foundation of it ,,solely worldly utility2 nay1 a still more fragile base has been given to this stupendous fabric1 and the wayward fluctuating feelings of men have been made the standard of virtue4 ,yes1 virtue as well as religion1 has been subjected to the decisions of taste4 ,it would almost provoke a smile of contempt1 if the vain absurdities of man did not strike us on all sides1 to observe1 how eager men are to degrade the sex from whom they pretend to receive the chief pleasure of life2 and ,i have frequently1 with full conviction1 retorted ,pope's sarcasm on them2 or1 to speak explicitly1 it has appeared to me applicable to the whole human race4 ,a love of pleasure or sway seems to divide mankind1 and the husband who lords it in his little harem1 thinks only of his pleasure or his convenience4 ,to such lengths1 indeed1 does an intemperate love of pleasure carry some prudent men1 or worn out libertines1 who marry to have a safe companion1 that they seduce their own wives4 ,hymen banishes modesty1 and chaste love takes its flight4 ,love1 considered as an animal appetite1 cannot long feed on itself without expiring4 ,and this extinction1 in its own flame1 may be termed the violent death of love4 ,but the wife who has thus been rendered licentious1 will probably endeavour to fill the void left by the loss of her husband's attentions2 for she cannot contentedly become merely an upper servant after having been treated like a goddess4 ,she is still handsome1 and1 instead of transferring her fondness to her children1 she only dreams of enjoying the sunshine of life4 ,besides1 there are many husbands so devoid of sense and parental affection1 that during the first effervescence of voluptuous fondness1 they refuse to let their wives suckle their children4 ,they are only to dress and live to please them3 and love1 even innocent love1 soon sinks into lasciviousness when the exercise of a duty is sacrificed to its indulgence4 ,personal attachment is a very happy foundation for friendship2 yet1 when even two virtuous young people marry1 it would1 perhaps1 be happy if some circumstance checked their passion2 if the recollection of some prior attachment1 or disappointed affection1 made it on one side1 at least1 rather a match founded on esteem4 ,in that case they would look beyond the present moment1 and try to render the whole of life respectable1 by forming a plan to regulate a friendship which only death ought to dissolve4 ,friendship is a serious affection2 the most sublime of all affections1 because it is founded on principle1 and cemented by time4 ,the very reverse may be said of love4 ,in a great degree1 love and friendship cannot subsist in the same bosom2 even when inspired by different objects they weaken or destroy each other1 and for the same object can only be felt in succession4 ,the vain fears and fond jealousies1 the winds which fan the flame of love1 when judiciously or artfully tempered1 are both incompatible with the tender confidence and sincere respect of friendship4 ,love1 such as the glowing pen of genius has traced1 exists not on earth1 or only resides in those exalted1 fervid imaginations that have sketched such dangerous pictures4 ,dangerous1 because they not only afford a plausible excuse to the voluptuary1 who disguises sheer sensuality under a sentimental veil2 but as they spread affectation1 and take from the dignity of virtue4 ,virtue1 as the very word imports1 should have an appearance of seriousness1 if not austerity2 and to endeavour to trick her out in the garb of pleasure1 because the epithet has been used as another name for beauty1 is to exalt her on a quicksand2 a most insidious attempt to hasten her fall by apparent respect4 ,virtue1 and pleasure are not1 in fact1 so nearly allied in this life as some eloquent writers have laboured to prove4 ,pleasure prepares the fading wreath1 and mixes the intoxicating cup2 but the fruit which virtue gives1 is the recompence of toil3 and1 gradually seen as it ripens1 only affords calm satisfaction2 nay1 appearing to be the result of the natural tendency of things1 it is scarcely observed4 ,bread1 the common food of life1 seldom thought of as a blessing1 supports the constitution1 and preserves health2 still feasts delight the heart of man1 though disease and even death lurk in the cup or dainty that elevates the spirits or tickles the palate4 ,the lively heated imagination in the same style1 draws the picture of love1 as it draws every other picture1 with those glowing colours1 which the daring hand will steal from the rainbow that is directed by a mind1 condemned1 in a world like this1 to prove its noble origin1 by panting after unattainable perfection2 ever pursuing what it acknowledges to be a fleeting dream4 ,an imagination of this vigorous cast can give existence to insubstantial forms1 and stability to the shadowy reveries which the mind naturally falls into when realities are found vapid4 ,it can then depict love with celestial charms1 and dote on the grand ideal object2 it can imagine a degree of mutual affection that shall refine the soul1 and not expire when it has served as a scale to heavenly2 and1 like devotion1 make it absorb every meaner affection and desire4 ,in each other's arms1 as in a temple1 with its summit lost in the clouds1 the world is to be shut out1 and every thought and wish1 that do not nurture pure affection and permanent virtue4 ,permanent virtue6 alas6 ,rousseau1 respectable visionary6 thy paradise would soon be violated by the entrance of some unexpected guest4 ,like ,milton's1 it would only contain angels1 or men sunk below the dignity of rational creatures4 ,happiness is not material1 it cannot be seen or felt6 ,yet the eager pursuit of the good which every one shapes to his own fancy1 proclaims man the lord of this lower world1 and to be an intelligential creature1 who is not to receive1 but acquire happiness4 ,they1 therefore1 who complain of the delusions of passion1 do not recollect that they are exclaiming against a strong proof of the immortality of the soul4 ,but1 leaving superior minds to correct themselves1 and pay dearly for their experience1 it is necessary to observe1 that it is not against strong1 persevering passions2 but romantic1 wavering feelings1 that ,i wish to guard the female heart by exercising the understanding2 for these paradisiacal reveries are oftener the effect of idleness than of a lively fancy4 ,women have seldom sufficient serious employment to silence their feelings2 a round of little cares1 or vain pursuits1 frittering away all strength of mind and organs1 they become naturally only objects of sense4 ,in short1 the whole tenor of female education 7the education of society7 tends to render the best disposed1 romantic and inconstant2 and the remainder vain and mean4 ,in the present state of society1 this evil can scarcely be remedied1 ,i am afraid1 in the slightest degree2 should a more laudable ambition ever gain ground1 they may be brought nearer to nature and reason1 and become more virtuous and useful as they grow more respectable4 ,but ,i will venture to assert1 that their reason will never acquire sufficient strength to enable it to regulate their conduct1 whilst the making an appearance in the world is the first wish of the majority of mankind4 ,to this weak wish the natural affections and the most useful virtues are sacrificed4 ,girls marry merely to ,,better ,,themselves1 to borrow a significant vulgar phrase1 and have such perfect power over their hearts as not to permit themselves to ,,fall ,,in ,,love till a man with a superior fortune offers4 ,on this subject ,i mean to enlarge in a future chapter2 it is only necessary to drop a hint at present1 because women are so often degraded by suffering the selfish prudence of age to chill the ardour of youth4 ,from the same source flows an opinion that young girls ought to dedicate great part of their time to needle work2 yet1 this employment contracts their faculties more than any other that could have been chosen for them1 by confining their thoughts to their persons4 ,men order their clothes to be made1 and have done with the subject2 women make their own clothes1 necessary or ornamental1 and are continually talking about them2 and their thoughts follow their hands4 ,it is not indeed the making of necessaries that weakens the mind2 but the frippery of dress4 ,for when a woman in the lower rank of life makes her husband's and children's clothes1 she does her duty1 this is part of her business2 but when women work only to dress better than they could otherwise afford1 it is worse than sheer loss of time4 ,to render the poor virtuous1 they must be employed1 and women in the middle rank of life did they not ape the fashions of the nobility1 without catching their ease1 might employ them1 whilst they themselves managed their families1 instructed their children1 and exercised their own minds4 ,gardening1 experimental philosophy1 and literature1 would afford them subjects to think of1 and matter for conversation1 that in some degree would exercise their understandings4 ,the conversation of ,french women1 who are not so rigidly nailed to their chairs1 to twist lappets1 and knot ribbands1 is frequently superficial2 but1 ,i contend1 that it is not half so insipid as that of those ,english women1 whose time is spent in making caps1 bonnets1 and the whole mischief of trimmings1 not to mention shopping1 bargain-hunting1 etc4 etc43 and it is the decent1 prudent women1 who are most degraded by these practices2 for their motive is simply vanity4 ,the wanton1 who exercises her taste to render her person alluring1 has something more in view4 ,these observations all branch out of a general one1 which ,i have before made1 and which cannot be too often insisted upon1 for1 speaking of men1 women1 or professions1 it will be found1 that the employment of the thoughts shapes the character both generally and individually4 ,the thoughts of women ever hover around their persons1 and is it surprising that their persons are reckoned most valuable8 ,yet some degree of liberty of mind is necessary even to form the person2 and this may be one reason why some gentle wives have so few attractions beside that of sex4 ,add to this1 sedentary employments render the majority of women sickly1 and false notions of female excellence make them proud of this delicacy1 though it be another fetter1 that by calling the attention continually to the body1 cramps the activity of the mind4 ,women of quality seldom do any of the manual part of their dress1 consequently only their taste is exercised1 and they acquire1 by thinking less of the finery1 when the business of their toilet is over1 that ease1 which seldom appears in the deportment of women1 who dress merely for the sake of dressing4 ,in fact1 the observation with respect to the middle rank1 the one in which talents thrive best1 extends not to women2 for those of the superior class1 by catching1 at least a smattering of literature1 and conversing more with men1 on general topics1 acquire more knowledge than the women who ape their fashions and faults without sharing their advantages4 ,with respect to virtue1 to use the word in a comprehensive sense1 ,i have seen most in low life4 ,many poor women maintain their children by the sweat of their brow1 and keep together families that the vices of the fathers would have scattered abroad2 but gentlewomen are too indolent to be actively virtuous1 and are softened rather than refined by civilization4 ,indeed the good sense which ,i have met with among the poor women who have had few advantages of education1 and yet have acted heroically1 strongly confirmed me in the opinion1 that trifling employments have rendered women a trifler4 ,men1 taking her 7',i take her body1' says ,ranger47 body1 the mind is left to rust2 so that while physical love enervates man1 as being his favourite recreation1 he will endeavour to enslave woman3 and who can tell how many generations may be necessary to give vigour to the virtue and talents of the freed posterity of abject slaves8 7',supposing that women are voluntary slaves--slavery of any kind is unfavourable to human happiness and improvement4'--',knox's ,essays'47 ,in tracing the causes that in my opinion1 have degraded woman1 ,i have confined my observations to such as universally act upon the morals and manners of the whole sex1 and to me it appears clear1 that they all spring from want of understanding4 ,whether this arises from a physical or accidental weakness of faculties1 time alone can determine2 for ,i shall not lay any great stress upon the example of a few women 7,sappho1 ,eloisa1 ,mrs4 ,macaulay1 the ,empress of ,russia1 ,madame d',eon1 etc4 ,these1 and many more1 may be reckoned exceptions2 and1 are not all heroes1 as well as heroines1 exceptions to general rules8 ,i wish to see women neither heroines nor brutes2 but reasonable creatures47 who1 from having received a masculine education1 have acquired courage and resolution2 ,i only contend that the men who have been placed in similar situations have acquired a similar character1 ,i speak of bodies of men1 and that men of genius and talents have started out of a class1 in which women have never yet been placed4 ,,chapter #e4 ,,animadversions ,,on ,,some ,,of ,,the ,,writers ,,who ,,have ,,rendered ,,women ,,objects ,,of ,,pity1 ,,bordering ,,on ,,contempt4 ,the opinions speciously supported1 in some modern publications on the female character1 and education1 which have given the tone to most of the observations made1 in a more cursory manner1 on the sex1 remain now to be examined4 ,,section #e4a4 ,i shall begin with ,rousseau1 and give a sketch of the character of women in his own words1 interspersing comments and reflections4 ,my comments1 it is true1 will all spring from a few simple principles1 and might have been deduced from what ,i have already said2 but the artificial structure has been raised with so much ingenuity1 that it seems necessary to attack it in a more circumstantial manner1 and make the application myself4 ,sophia1 says ,rousseau1 should be as perfect a woman as ,emilius is a man1 and to render her so1 it is necessary to examine the character which nature has given to the sex4 ,he then proceeds to prove1 that women ought to be weak and passive1 because she has less bodily strength than man2 and from hence infers1 that she was formed to please and to be subject to him2 and that it is her duty to render herself ,,agreeable to her master--this being the grand end of her existence4 ,supposing women to have been formed only to please1 and be subject to man1 the conclusion is just1 she ought to sacrifice every other consideration to render herself agreeable to him3 and let this brutal desire of self-preservation be the grand spring of all her actions1 when it is proved to be the iron bed of fate1 to fit which1 her character should be stretched or contracted1 regardless of all moral or physical distinctions4 ,but if1 as ,i think may be demonstrated1 the purposes of even this life1 viewing the whole1 are subverted by practical rules built upon this ignoble base1 ,i may be allowed to doubt whether woman was created for man3 and though the cry of irreligion1 or even atheism be raised against me1 ,i will simply declare1 that were an angel from heaven to tell me that ,moses's beautiful1 poetical cosmogony1 and the account of the fall of man1 were literally true1 ,i could not believe what my reason told me was derogatory to the character of the ,supreme ,being3 and1 having no fear of the devil before mine eyes1 ,i venture to call this a suggestion of reason1 instead of resting my weakness on the broad shoulders of the first seducer of my frail sex4 ,it being once demonstrated1 continues ,rousseau1 that man and woman are not1 nor ought to be1 constituted alike in temperament and character1 it follows of course1 that they should not be educated in the same manner4 ,in pursuing the directions of nature1 they ought indeed to act in concert1 but they should not be engaged in the same employments3 the end of their pursuits should be the same1 but the means they should take to accomplish them1 and1 of consequence1 their tastes and inclinations should be different4 7,rousseau's ',emilius'1 ,volume #c page #agf47 ,girls are from their earliest infancy fond of dress4 ,not content with being pretty1 they are desirous of being thought so2 we see1 by all their little airs1 that this thought engages their attention2 and they are hardly capable of understanding what is said to them1 before they are to be governed by talking to them of what people will think of their behaviour4 ,the same motive1 however1 indiscreetly made use of with boys1 has not the same effect3 provided they are let to pursue their amusements at pleasure1 they care very little what people think of them4 ,time and pains are necessary to subject boys to this motive4 ,whencesoever girls derive this first lesson it is a very good one4 ,as the body is born1 in a manner before the soul1 our first concern should be to cultivate the former2 this order is common to both sexes1 but the object of that cultivation is different4 ,in the one sex it is the developement of corporeal powers2 in the other1 that of personal charms3 not that either the quality of strength or beauty ought to be confined exclusively to one sex2 but only that the order of the cultivation of both is in that respect reversed4 ,women certainly require as much strength as to enable them to move and act gracefully1 and men as much address as to qualify them to act with ease4 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 ,children of both sexes have a great many amusements in common2 and so they ought2 have they not also many such when they are grown up8 ,each sex has also its peculiar taste to distinguish in this particular4 ,boys love sports of noise and activity2 to beat the drum1 to whip the top1 and to drag about their little carts3 girls1 on the other hand1 are fonder of things of show and ornament2 such as mirrors1 trinkets1 and dolls2 the doll is the peculiar amusement of the females2 from whence we see their taste plainly adapted to their destination4 ,the physical part of the art of pleasing lies in dress2 and this is all which children are capacitated to cultivate of that art4 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 99 ,here then we see a primary propensity firmly established1 which you need only to pursue and regulate4 ,the little creature will doubtless be very desirous to know how to dress up her doll1 to make its sleeve knots1 its flounces1 its head dress1 etc41 she is obliged to have so much recourse to the people about her1 for their assistance in these articles1 that it would be much more agreeable to her to owe them all to her own industry4 ,hence we have a good reason for the first lessons which are usually taught these young females3 in which we do not appear to be setting them a task1 but obliging them1 by instructing them in what is immediately useful to themselves4 ,and1 in fact1 almost all of them learn with reluctance to read and write2 but very readily apply themselves to the use of their needles4 ,they imagine themselves already grown up1 and think with pleasure that such qualifications will enable them to decorate themselves4 ,this is certainly only an education of the body2 but ,rousseau is not the only man who has indirectly said that merely the person of a young woman1 without any mind1 unless animal spirits come under that description1 is very pleasing4 ,to render it weak1 and what some may call beautiful1 the understanding is neglected1 and girls forced to sit still1 play with dolls1 and listen to foolish conversations2 the effect of habit is insisted upon as an undoubted indication of nature4 ,i know it was ,rousseau's opinion that the first years of youth should be employed to form the body1 though in educating ,emilius he deviates from this plan2 yet the difference between strengthening the body1 on which strength of mind in a great measure depends1 and only giving it an easy motion1 is very wide4 ,rousseau's observations1 it is proper to remark1 were made in a country where the art of pleasing was refined only to extract the grossness of vice4 ,he did not go back to nature1 or his ruling appetite disturbed the operations of reason1 else he would not have drawn these crude inferences4 ,in ,france1 boys and girls1 particularly the latter1 are only educated to please1 to manage their persons1 and regulate their exterior behaviour2 and their minds are corrupted at a very early age1 by the worldly and pious cautions they receive1 to guard them against immodesty4 ,i speak of past times4 ,the very confessions which mere children are obliged to make1 and the questions asked by the holy men ,i assert these facts on good authority1 were sufficient to impress a sexual character2 and the education of society was a school of coquetry and art4 ,at the age of ten or eleven2 nay1 often much sooner1 girls began to coquet1 and talked1 unreproved1 of establishing themselves in the world by marriage4 ,in short1 they were made women1 almost from their very birth1 and compliments were listened to instead of instruction4 ,these1 weakening the mind1 ,nature was supposed to have acted like a step-mother1 when she formed this after-thought of creation4 ,not allowing them understanding1 however1 it was but consistent to subject them to authority1 independent of reason2 and to prepare them for this subjection1 he gives the following advice3 ,girls ought to be active and diligent2 nor is that all2 they should also be early subjected to restraint4 ,this misfortune1 if it really be one1 is inseparable from their sex2 nor do they ever throw it off but to suffer more cruel evils4 ,they must be subject1 all their lives1 to the most constant and severe restraint1 which is that of decorum3 it is1 therefore1 necessary to accustom them early to such confinement1 that it may not afterward cost them too dear2 and to the suppression of their caprices1 that they may the more readily submit to the will of others4 ,if1 indeed1 they are fond of being always at work1 they should be sometimes compelled to lay it aside4 ,dissipation1 levity1 and inconstancy1 are faults that readily spring up from their first propensities1 when corrupted or perverted by too much indulgence4 ,to prevent this abuse1 we should learn them1 above all things1 to lay a due restraint on themselves4 ,the life of a modest woman is reduced1 by our absurd institutions1 to a perpetual conflict with herself3 not but it is just that this sex should partake of the sufferings which arise from those evils it hath caused us4 ,and why is the life of a modest woman a perpetual conflict8 ,i should answer1 that this very system of education makes it so4 ,modesty1 temperance1 and self-denial1 are the sober offspring of reason2 but when sensibility is nurtured at the expense of the understanding1 such weak beings must be restrained by arbitrary means1 and be subjected to continual conflicts2 but give their activity of mind a wider range1 and nobler passions and motives will govern their appetites and sentiments4 ,the common attachment and regard of a mother1 nay1 mere habit1 will make her beloved by her children1 if she does nothing to incur their hate4 ,even the restraint she lays them under1 if well directed1 will increase their affection1 instead of lessening it2 because a state of dependence being natural to the sex1 they perceive themselves formed for obedience4 ,this is begging the question2 for servitude not only debases the individual1 but its effects seem to be transmitted to posterity4 ,considering the length of time that women have been dependent1 is it surprising that some of them hug their chains1 and fawn like the spaniel8 ,these dogs1 observes a naturalist1 at first kept their ears erect2 but custom has superseded nature1 and a token of fear is become a beauty4 ,for the same reason1 adds ,rousseau1 women have or ought to have1 but little liberty2 they are apt to indulge themselves excessively in what is allowed them4 ,addicted in every thing to extremes1 they are even more transported at their diversions than boys4 ,the answer to this is very simple4 ,slaves and mobs have always indulged themselves in the same excesses1 when once they broke loose from authority4 ,the bent bow recoils with violence1 when the hand is suddenly relaxed that forcibly held it3 and sensibility1 the plaything of outward circumstances1 must be subjected to authority1 or moderated by reason4 ,there results1 he continues1 from this habitual restraint1 a tractableness which the women have occasion for during their whole lives1 as they constantly remain either under subjection to the men1 or to the opinions of mankind2 and are never permitted to set themselves above those opinions4 ,the first and most important qualification in a woman is good-nature or sweetness of temper2 formed to obey a being so imperfect as man1 often full of vices1 and always full of faults1 she ought to learn betimes even to suffer injustice1 and to bear the insults of a husband without complaint2 it is not for his sake1 but her own1 that she should be of a mild disposition4 ,the perverseness and ill-nature of the women only serve to aggravate their own misfortunes1 and the misconduct of their husbands2 they might plainly perceive that such are not the arms by which they gain the superiority4 ,formed to live with such an imperfect being as man1 they ought to learn from the exercise of their faculties the necessity of forbearance2 but all the sacred rights of humanity are violated by insisting on blind obedience2 or1 the most sacred rights belong ,,only to man4 ,the being who patiently endures injustice1 and silently bears insults1 will soon become unjust1 or unable to discern right from wrong4 ,besides1 ,i deny the fact1 this is not the true way to form or meliorate the temper2 for1 as a sex1 men have better tempers than women1 because they are occupied by pursuits that interest the head as well as the heart2 and the steadiness of the head gives a healthy temperature to the heart4 ,people of sensibility have seldom good tempers4 ,the formation of the temper is the cool work of reason1 when1 as life advances1 she mixes with happy art1 jarring elements4 ,i never knew a weak or ignorant person who had a good temper1 though that constitutional good humour1 and that docility1 which fear stamps on the behaviour1 often obtains the name4 ,i say behaviour1 for genuine meekness never reached the heart or mind1 unless as the effect of reflection2 and1 that simple restraint produces a number of peccant humours in domestic life1 many sensible men will allow1 who find some of these gentle irritable creatures1 very troublesome companions4 ,each sex1 he further argues1 should preserve its peculiar tone and manner3 a meek husband may make a wife impertinent2 but mildness of disposition on the woman's side will always bring a man back to reason1 at least if he be not absolutely a brute1 and will sooner or later triumph over him4 ,true1 the mildness of reason2 but abject fear always inspires contempt2 and tears are only eloquent when they flow down fair cheeks4 ,of what materials can that heart be composed1 which can melt when insulted1 and instead of revolting at injustice1 kiss the rod8 ,is it unfair to infer1 that her virtue is built on narrow views and selfishness1 who can caress a man1 with true feminine softness1 the very moment when he treats her tyrannically8 ,nature never dictated such insincerity2 and though prudence of this sort be termed a virtue1 morality becomes vague when any part is supposed to rest on falsehood4 ,these are mere expedients1 and expedients are only useful for the moment4 ,let the husband beware of trusting too implicitly to this servile obedience2 for if his wife can with winning sweetness caress him when angry1 and when she ought to be angry1 unless contempt had stifled a natural effervescence1 she may do the same after parting with a lover4 ,these are all preparations for adultery2 or1 should the fear of the world1 or of hell1 restrain her desire of pleasing other men1 when she can no longer please her husband1 what substitute can be found by a being who was only formed by nature and art to please man8 what can make her amends for this privation1 or where is she to seek for a fresh employment8 where find sufficient strength of mind to determine to begin the search1 when her habits are fixed1 and vanity has long ruled her chaotic mind8 ,but this partial moralist recommends cunning systematically and plausibly4 ,daughters should be always submissive2 their mothers1 however1 should not be inexorable4 ,to make a young person tractable1 she ought not to be made unhappy2 to make her modest she ought not to be rendered stupid4 ,on the contrary1 ,i should not be displeased at her being permitted to use some art1 not to elude punishment in case of disobedience1 but to exempt herself from the necessity of obeying4 ,it is not necessary to make her dependence burdensome1 but only to let her feel it4 ,subtilty is a talent natural to the sex2 and as ,i am persuaded1 all our natural inclinations are right and good in themselves1 ,i am of opinion this should be cultivated as well as the others3 it is requisite for us only to prevent its abuse4 ,whatever is1 is right1 he then proceeds triumphantly to infer4 ,granted2 yet1 perhaps1 no aphorism ever contained a more paradoxical assertion4 ,it is a solemn truth with respect to ,god4 ,he1 reverentially ,i speak1 sees the whole at once1 and saw its just proportions in the womb of time2 but man1 who can only inspect disjointed parts1 finds many things wrong2 and it is a part of the system1 and therefore right1 that he should endeavour to alter what appears to him to be so1 even while he bows to the wisdom of his ,creator1 and respects the darkness he labours to disperse4 ,the inference that follows is just1 supposing the principle to be sound3 ,the superiority of address1 peculiar to the female sex1 is a very equitable indemnification for their inferiority in point of strength3 without this1 woman would not be the companion of man2 but his slave3 it is by her superiour art and ingenuity that she preserves her equality1 and governs him while she affects to obey4 ,woman has every thing against her1 as well our faults as her own timidity and weakness3 she has nothing in her favour1 but her subtilty and her beauty4 ,is it not very reasonable1 therefore1 she should cultivate both8 ,greatness of mind can never dwell with cunning or address2 for ,i shall not boggle about words1 when their direct signification is insincerity and falsehood2 but content myself with observing1 that if any class of mankind be so created that it must necessarily be educated by rules1 not strictly deducible from truth1 virtue is an affair of convention4 ,how could ,rousseau dare to assert1 after giving this advice1 that in the grand end of existence1 the object of both sexes should be the same1 when he well knew1 that the mind formed by its pursuits1 is expanded by great views swallowing up little ones1 or that it becomes itself little8 ,men have superiour strength of body2 but were it not for mistaken notions of beauty1 women would acquire sufficient to enable them to earn their own subsistence1 the true definition of independence2 and to bear those bodily inconveniences and exertions that are requisite to strengthen the mind4 ,let us then1 by being allowed to take the same exercise as boys1 not only during infancy1 but youth1 arrive at perfection of body1 that we may know how far the natural superiority of man extends4 ,for what reason or virtue can be expected from a creature when the seed-time of life is neglected8 ,none--did not the winds of heaven casually scatter many useful seeds in the fallow ground4 ,beauty cannot be acquired by dress1 and coquetry is an art not so early and speedily attained4 ,while girls are yet young1 however1 they are in a capacity to study agreeable gesture1 a pleasing modulation of voice1 an easy carriage and behaviour2 as well as to take the advantage of gracefully adapting their looks and attitudes to time1 place1 and occasion4 ,their application1 therefore1 should not be solely confined to the arts of industry and the needle1 when they come to display other talents1 whose utility is already apparent4 ,for my part ,i would have a young ,englishwoman cultivate her agreeable talents1 in order to please her future husband1 with as much care and assiduity as a young ,circassian cultivates her's1 to fit her for the ,haram of an ,eastern bashaw4 ,to render women completely insignificant1 he adds1--,the tongues of women are very voluble2 they speak earlier1 more readily1 and more agreeably than the men2 they are accused also of speaking much more3 but so it ought to be1 and ,i should be very ready to convert this reproach into a compliment2 their lips and eyes have the same activity1 and for the same reason4 ,a man speaks of what he knows1 a woman of what pleases her2 the one requires knowledge1 the other taste2 the principal object of a man's discourse should be what is useful1 that of a woman's what is agreeable4 ,there ought to be nothing in common between their different conversation but truth4 ,we ought not1 therefore1 to restrain the prattle of girls1 in the same manner as we should that of boys1 with that severe question1 ',to what purpose are you talking8' but by another1 which is no less difficult to answer1 ',how will your discourse be received8' ,in infancy1 while they are as yet incapable to discern good from evil1 they ought to observe it as a law1 never to say any thing disagreeable to those whom they are speaking to3 what will render the practice of this rule also the more difficult1 is1 that it must ever be subordinate to the former1 of never speaking falsely or telling an untruth4 ,to govern the tongue in this manner must require great address indeed2 and it is too much practised both by men and women4 ,out of the abundance of the heart how few speak6 ,so few1 that ,i1 who love simplicity1 would gladly give up politeness for a quarter of the virtue that has been sacrificed to an equivocal quality1 which1 at best1 should only be the polish of virtue4 ,but to complete the sketch4 ,it is easy to be conceived1 that if male children be not in a capacity to form any true notions of religion1 those ideas must be greatly above the conception of the females3 it is for this very reason1 ,i would begin to speak to them the earlier on this subject2 for if we were to wait till they were in a capacity to discuss methodically such profound questions1 we should run a risk of never speaking to them on this subject as long as they lived4 ,reason in women is a practical reason1 capacitating them artfully to discover the means of attaining a known end1 but which would never enable them to discover that end itself4 ,the social relations of the sexes are indeed truly admirable3 from their union there results a moral person1 of which woman may be termed the eyes1 and man the hand1 with this dependence on each other1 that it is from the man that the woman is to learn what she is to see1 and it is of the woman that man is to learn what he ought to do4 ,if woman could recur to the first principles of things as well as man1 and man was capacitated to enter into their minutae as well as woman1 always independent of each other1 they would live in perpetual discord1 and their union could not subsist4 ,but in the present harmony which naturally subsists between them1 their different faculties tend to one common end2 it is difficult to say which of them conduces the most to it3 each follows the impulse of the other2 each is obedient1 and both are masters4 ,as the conduct of a woman is subservient to the public opinion1 her faith in matters of religion1 should for that very reason1 be subject to authority4 ',every daughter ought to be of the same religion as her mother1 and every wife to be of the same religion as her husband3 for1 though such religion should be false1 that docility which induces the mother and daughter to submit to the order of nature1 takes away1 in the sight of ,god1 the criminality of their error'499 ,as they are not in a capacity to judge for themselves1 they ought to abide by the decision of their fathers and husbands as confidently as by that of the church4 799,footnote4 ,what is to be the consequence1 if the mother's and husband's opinion should chance not to agree8 ,an ignorant person cannot be reasoned out of an error1 and when persuaded to give up one prejudice for another the mind is unsettled4 ,indeed1 the husband may not have any religion to teach her though in such a situation she will be in great want of a support to her virtue1 independent of worldly considerations47 ,as authority ought to regulate the religion of the women1 it is not so needful to explain to them the reasons for their belief1 as to lay down precisely the tenets they are to believe3 for the creed1 which presents only obscure ideas to the mind1 is the source of fanaticism2 and that which presents absurdities1 leads to infidelity4 ,absolute1 uncontroverted authority1 it seems1 must subsist somewhere3 but is not this a direct and exclusive appropriation of reason8 ,the ,,rights of humanity have been thus confined to the male line from ,adam downwards4 ,rousseau would carry his male aristocracy still further1 for he insinuates1 that he should not blame those1 who contend for leaving woman in a state of the most profound ignorance1 if it were not necessary1 in order to preserve her chastity1 and justify the man's choice in the eyes of the world1 to give her a little knowledge of men1 and the customs produced by human passions2 else she might propagate at home without being rendered less voluptuous and innocent by the exercise of her understanding3 excepting1 indeed1 during the first year of marriage1 when she might employ it to dress1 like ,sophia4 ,her dress is extremely modest in appearance1 and yet very coquettish in fact3 she does not make a display of her charms1 she conceals them2 but1 in concealing them1 she knows how to affect your imagination4 ,every one who sees her1 will say1 ,there is a modest and discreet girl2 but while you are near her1 your eyes and affections wander all over her person1 so that you cannot withdraw them2 and you would conclude that every part of her dress1 simple as it seems1 was only put in its proper order to be taken to pieces by the imagination4 ,is this modesty8 ,is this a preparation for immortality8 ,again4 ,what opinion are we to form of a system of education1 when the author says of his heroine1 that with her1 doing things well is but a ,,secondary concern2 her principal concern is to do them ,,neatly4 ,secondary1 in fact1 are all her virtues and qualities1 for1 respecting religion1 he makes her parents thus address her1 accustomed to submission--,your husband will instruct you in good time4 ,after thus cramping a woman's mind1 if1 in order to keep it fair1 he has not made it quite a blank1 he advises her to reflect1 that a reflecting man may not yawn in her company1 when he is tired of caressing her4 ,what has she to reflect about1 who must obey8 and would it not be a refinement on cruelty only to open her mind to make the darkness and misery of her fate ,,visible8 ,yet these are his sensible remarks2 how consistent with what ,i have already been obliged to quote1 to give a fair view of the subject1 the reader may determine4 ,they who pass their whole lives in working for their daily bread1 have no ideas beyond their business or their interest1 and all their understanding seems to lie in their fingers' ends4 ,this ignorance is neither prejudicial to their integrity nor their morals2 it is often of service to them4 ,sometimes1 by means of reflection1 we are led to compound with our duty1 and we conclude1 by substituting a jargon of words1 in the room of things4 ,our own conscience is the most enlightened philosopher4 ,there is no need of being acquainted with ,tully's offices1 to make a man of probity3 and perhaps the most virtuous woman in the world is the least acquainted with the definition of virtue4 ,but it is no less true1 than an improved understanding only can render society agreeable2 and it is a melancholy thing for a father of a family1 who is fond of home1 to be obliged to be always wrapped up in himself1 and to have nobody about him to whom he can impart his sentiments4 ,besides1 how should a woman void of reflection be capable of educating her children8 ,how should she discern what is proper for them8 ,how should she incline them to those virtues she is unacquainted with1 or to that merit of which she has no idea8 ,she can only sooth or chide them2 render them insolent or timid2 she will make them formal coxcombs1 or ignorant blockheads2 but will never make them sensible or amiable4 ,how indeed should she1 when her husband is not always at hand to lend her his reason --when they both together make but one moral being8 ,a blind will1 eyes without hands1 would go a very little way2 and perchance his abstract reason1 that should concentrate the scattered beams of her practical reason1 may be employed in judging of the flavour of wine1 discanting on the sauces most proper for turtle2 or1 more profoundly intent at a card-table1 he may be generalizing his ideas as he bets away his fortune1 leaving all the minutiae of education to his helpmate or chance4 ,but1 granting that woman ought to be beautiful1 innocent1 and silly1 to render her a more alluring and indulgent companion--what is her understanding sacrificed for8 ,and why is all this preparation necessary only1 according to ,rousseau's own account1 to make her the mistress of her husband1 a very short time8 ,for no man ever insisted more on the transient nature of love4 ,thus speaks the philosopher4 ,sensual pleasures are transient4 ,the habitual state of the affections always loses by their gratification4 ,the imagination1 which decks the object of our desires1 is lost in fruition4 ,excepting the ,supreme ,being1 who is self-existent1 there is nothing beautiful but what is ideal4 ,but he returns to his unintelligible paradoxes again1 when he thus addresses ,sophia4 ,emilius1 in becoming your husband1 is become your master1 and claims your obedience4 ,such is the order of nature4 ,when a man is married1 however1 to such a wife as ,sophia1 it is proper he should be directed by her3 this is also agreeable to the order of nature3 it is1 therefore1 to give you as much authority over his heart as his sex gives him over your person1 that ,i have made you the arbiter of his pleasures4 ,it may cost you1 perhaps1 some disagreeable self-denial2 but you will be certain of maintaining your empire over him1 if you can preserve it over yourself2 what ,i have already observed1 also shows me1 that this difficult attempt does not surpass your courage4 ,would you have your husband constantly at your feet8 keep him at some distance from your person4 ,you will long maintain the authority of love1 if you know but how to render your favours rare and valuable4 ,it is thus you may employ even the arts of coquetry in the service of virtue1 and those of love in that of reason4 ,i shall close my extracts with a just description of a comfortable couple4 ,and yet you must not imagine1 that even such management will always suffice4 ,whatever precaution be taken1 enjoyment will1 by degrees1 take off the edge of passion4 ,but when love hath lasted as long as possible1 a pleasing habitude supplies its place1 and the attachment of a mutual confidence succeeds to the transports of passion4 ,children often form a more agreeable and permanent connexion between married people than even love itself4 ,when you cease to be the mistress of ,emilius1 you will continue to be his wife and friend2 you will be the mother of his children4 7,rousseau's ,emilius47 ,children1 he truly observes1 form a much more permanent connexion between married people than love4 ,beauty he declares will not be valued1 or even seen1 after a couple have lived six months together2 artificial graces and coquetry will likewise pall on the senses3 why then does he say1 that a girl should be educated for her husband with the same care as for an eastern haram8 ,i now appeal from the reveries of fancy and refined licentiousness to the good sense of mankind1 whether1 if the object of education be to prepare women to become chaste wives and sensible mothers1 the method so plausibly recommended in the foregoing sketch1 be the one best calculated to produce those ends8 ,will it be allowed that the surest way to make a wife chaste1 is to teach her to practise the wanton arts of a mistress1 termed virtuous coquetry by the sensualist who can no longer relish the artless charms of sincerity1 or taste the pleasure arising from a tender intimacy1 when confidence is unchecked by suspicion1 and rendered interesting by sense8 ,the man who can be contented to live with a pretty useful companion without a mind1 has lost in voluptuous gratifications a taste for more refined enjoyments2 he has never felt the calm satisfaction that refreshes the parched heart1 like the silent dew of heaven--of being beloved by one who could understand him4 ,in the society of his wife he is still alone1 unless when the man is sunk in the brute4 ,the charm of life1 says a grave philosophical reasoner1 is sympathy2 nothing pleases us more than to observe in other men a fellow-feeling with all the emotions of our own breast4 ,but1 according to the tenor of reasoning by which women are kept from the tree of knowledge1 the important years of youth1 the usefulness of age1 and the rational hopes of futurity1 are all to be sacrificed1 to render woman an object of desire for a short time4 ,besides1 how could ,rousseau expect them to be virtuous and constant when reason is neither allowed to be the foundation of their virtue1 nor truth the object of their inquiries8 ,but all ,rousseau's errors in reasoning arose from sensibility1 and sensibility to their charms women are very ready to forgive6 ,when he should have reasoned he became impassioned1 and reflection inflamed his imagination1 instead of enlightening his understanding4 ,even his virtues also led him farther astray2 for1 born with a warm constitution and lively fancy1 nature carried him toward the other sex with such eager fondness1 that he soon became lascivious4 ,had he given way to these desires1 the fire would have extinguished itself in a natural manner1 but virtue1 and a romantic kind of delicacy1 made him practise self-denial2 yet1 when fear1 delicacy1 or virtue restrained him1 he debauched his imagination2 and reflecting on the sensations to which fancy gave force1 he traced them in the most glowing colours1 and sunk them deep into his soul4 ,he then sought for solitude1 not to sleep with the man of nature2 or calmly investigate the causes of things under the shade where ,sir ,isaac ,newton indulged contemplation1 but merely to indulge his feelings4 ,and so warmly has he painted what he forcibly felt1 that1 interesting the heart and inflaming the imagination of his readers2 in proportion to the strength of their fancy1 they imagine that their understanding is convinced1 when they only sympathize with a poetic writer1 who skilfully exhibits the objects of sense1 most voluptuously shadowed1 or gracefully veiled2 and thus making us feel1 whilst dreaming that we reason1 erroneous conclusions are left in the mind4 ,why was ,rousseau's life divided between ecstasy and misery8 ,can any other answer be given than this1 that the effervescence of his imagination produced both2 but1 had his fancy been allowed to cool1 it is possible that he might have acquired more strength of mind4 ,still1 if the purpose of life be to educate the intellectual part of man1 all with respect to him was right2 yet1 had not death led to a nobler scene of action1 it is probable that he would have enjoyed more equal happiness on earth1 and have felt the calm sensations of the man of nature1 instead of being prepared for another stage of existence by nourishing the passions which agitate the civilized man4 ,but peace to his manes6 ,i war not with his ashes1 but his opinions4 ,i war only with the sensibility that led him to degrade woman by making her the slave of love4 4444,curs'd vassalage1 ,first idoliz'd till love's hot fire be o'er1 ,then slaves to those who courted us before4 ,dryden4 ,the pernicious tendency of those books1 in which the writers insidiously degrade the sex1 whilst they are prostrate before their personal charms1 cannot be too often or too severely exposed4 ,let us1 my dear contemporaries1 arise above such narrow prejudices6 ,if wisdom is desirable on its own account1 if virtue1 to deserve the name1 must be founded on knowledge2 let us endeavour to strengthen our minds by reflection1 till our heads become a balance for our hearts2 let us not confine all our thoughts to the petty occurrences of the day1 nor our knowledge to an acquaintance with our lovers' or husbands' hearts2 but let the practice of every duty be subordinate to the grand one of improving our minds1 and preparing our affections for a more exalted state6 ,beware then1 my friends1 of suffering the heart to be moved by every trivial incident3 the reed is shaken by a breeze1 and annually dies1 but the oak stands firm1 and for ages braves the storm4 ,were we1 indeed1 only created to flutter our hour out and die--why let us then indulge sensibility1 and laugh at the severity of reason4 ,yet1 alas6 even then we should want strength of body and mind1 and life would be lost in feverish pleasures or wearisome languor4 ,but the system of education1 which ,i earnestly wish to see exploded1 seems to presuppose1 what ought never to be taken for granted1 that virtue shields us from the casualties of life2 and that fortune1 slipping off her bandage1 will smile on a well-educated female1 and bring in her hand an ,emilius or a ,telemachus4 ,whilst1 on the contrary1 the reward which virtue promises to her votaries is confined1 it is clear1 to their own bosoms2 and often must they contend with the most vexatious worldly cares1 and bear with the vices and humours of relations for whom they can never feel a friendship4 ,there have been many women in the world who1 instead of being supported by the reason and virtue of their fathers and brothers1 have strengthened their own minds by struggling with their vices and follies2 yet have never met with a hero1 in the shape of a husband2 who1 paying the debt that mankind owed them1 might chance to bring back their reason to its natural dependent state1 and restore the usurped prerogative1 of rising above opinion1 to man4 ,,section #e4b4 ,dr4 ,fordyce's sermons have long made a part of a young woman's library2 nay1 girls at school are allowed to read them2 but ,i should instantly dismiss them from my pupil's1 if ,i wished to strengthen her understanding1 by leading her to form sound principles on a broad basis2 or1 were ,i only anxious to cultivate her taste2 though they must be allowed to contain many sensible observations4 ,dr4 ,fordyce may have had a very laudable end in view2 but these discourses are written in such an affected style1 that were it only on that account1 and had ,i nothing to object against his ,,mellifluous precepts1 ,i should not allow girls to peruse them1 unless ,i designed to hunt every spark of nature out of their composition1 melting every human quality into female weakness and artificial grace4 ,i say artificial1 for true grace arises from some kind of independence of mind4 ,children1 careless of pleasing1 and only anxious to amuse themselves1 are often very graceful2 and the nobility who have mostly lived with inferiors1 and always had the command of money1 acquire a graceful ease of deportment1 which should rather be termed habitual grace of body1 than that superiour gracefulness which is truly the expression of the mind4 ,this mental grace1 not noticed by vulgar eyes1 often flashes across a rough countenance1 and irradiating every feature1 shows simplicity and independence of mind4 ,it is then we read characters of immortality in the eye1 and see the soul in every gesture1 though when at rest1 neither the face nor limbs may have much beauty to recommend them2 or the behaviour1 any thing peculiar to attract universal attention4 ,the mass of mankind1 however1 look for more ,,tangible beauty2 yet simplicity is1 in general1 admired1 when people do not consider what they admire2 and can there be simplicity without sincerity8 but1 to have done with remarks that are in some measure desultory1 though naturally excited by the subject4 ,in declamatory periods ,dr4 ,fordyce spins out ,rousseau's eloquence2 and in most sentimental rant1 details his opinions respecting the female character1 and the behaviour which woman ought to assume to render her lovely4 ,he shall speak for himself1 for thus he makes nature address man4 ,behold these smiling innocents1 whom ,i have graced with my fairest gifts1 and committed to your protection2 behold them with love and respect2 treat them with tenderness and honour4 ,they are timid and want to be defended4 ,they are frail2 ,o do not take advantage of their weakness6 ,let their fears and blushes endear them4 ,let their confidence in you never be abused4 ,but is it possible1 that any of you can be such barbarians1 so supremely wicked1 as to abuse it8 ,can you find in your hearts99 to despoil the gentle1 trusting creatures of their treasure1 or do any thing to strip them of their native robe of virtue8 ,curst be the impious hand that would dare to violate the unblemished form of ,chastity6 ,thou wretch6 thou ruffian6 forbear2 nor venture to provoke heaven's fiercest vengeance4 ,i know not any comment that can be made seriously on this curious passage1 and ,i could produce many similar ones2 and some1 so very sentimental1 that ,i have heard rational men use the word indecent1 when they mentioned them with disgust4 799,footnote4 ,can you8--,can you8 would be the most emphatical comment1 were it drawled out in a whining voice47 ,throughout there is a display of cold1 artificial feelings1 and that parade of sensibility which boys and girls should be taught to despise as the sure mark of a little vain mind4 ,florid appeals are made to heaven1 and to the ,,beauteous ,,innocents1 the fairest images of heaven here below1 whilst sober sense is left far behind4 ,this is not the language of the heart1 nor will it ever reach it1 though the ear may be tickled4 ,i shall be told1 perhaps1 that the public have been pleased with these volumes4 ,true--and ,hervey's ,meditations are still read1 though he equally sinned against sense and taste4 ,i particularly object to the lover-like phrases of pumped up passion1 which are every where interspersed4 ,if women be ever allowed to walk without leading-strings1 why must they be cajoled into virtue by artful flattery and sexual compliments8 ,speak to them the language of truth and soberness1 and away with the lullaby strains of condescending endearment6 ,let them be taught to respect themselves as rational creatures1 and not led to have a passion for their own insipid persons4 ,it moves my gall to hear a preacher descanting on dress and needle-work2 and still more1 to hear him address the ',british fair1 the fairest of the fair'1 as if they had only feelings4 ,even recommending piety he uses the following argument4 ,never1 perhaps1 does a fine woman strike more deeply1 than when1 composed into pious recollection1 and possessed with the noblest considerations1 she assumes1 without knowing it1 superiour dignity and new graces2 so that the beauties of holiness seem to radiate about her1 and the by-standers are almost induced to fancy her already worshipping amongst her kindred angels6 ,why are women to be thus bred up with a desire of conquest8 the very epithet1 used in this sense1 gives me a sickly qualm6 ,does religion and virtue offer no stronger motives1 no brighter reward8 ,must they always be debased by being made to consider the sex of their companions8 ,must they be taught always to be pleasing8 ,and when levelling their small artillery at the heart of man1 is it necessary to tell them that a little sense is sufficient to render their attention ,,incredibly ,,soothing8 ,as a small degree of knowledge entertains in a woman1 so from a woman1 though for a different reason1 a small expression of kindness delights1 particularly if she have beauty6 ,i should have supposed for the same reason4 ,why are girls to be told that they resemble angels2 but to sink them below women8 ,or1 that a gentle1 innocent female is an object that comes nearer to the idea which we have formed of angels than any other4 ,yet they are told1 at the same time1 that they are only like angels when they are young and beautiful2 consequently1 it is their persons1 not their virtues1 that procure them this homage4 ,idle empty words6 what can such delusive flattery lead to1 but vanity and folly8 ,the lover1 it is true1 has a poetic licence to exalt his mistress2 his reason is the bubble of his passion1 and he does not utter a falsehood when he borrows the language of adoration4 ,his imagination may raise the idol of his heart1 unblamed1 above humanity2 and happy would it be for women1 if they were only flattered by the men who loved them2 ,i mean1 who love the individual1 not the sex2 but should a grave preacher interlard his discourses with such fooleries8 ,in sermons or novels1 however1 voluptuousness is always true to its text4 ,men are allowed by moralists to cultivate1 as nature directs1 different qualities1 and assume the different characters1 that the same passions1 modified almost to infinity1 give to each individual4 ,a virtuous man may have a choleric or a sanguine constitution1 be gay or grave1 unreproved2 be firm till be is almost over-bearing1 or1 weakly submissive1 have no will or opinion of his own2 but all women are to be levelled1 by meekness and docility1 into one character of yielding softness and gentle compliance4 ,i will use the preacher's own words4 ,let it be observed1 that in your sex manly exercises are never graceful2 that in them a tone and figure1 as well as an air and deportment1 of the masculine kind1 are always forbidding2 and that men of sensibility desire in every woman soft features1 and a flowing voice1 a form not robust1 and demeanour delicate and gentle4 ,is not the following portrait--the portrait of a house slave8 ,i am astonished at the folly of many women1 who are still reproaching their husbands for leaving them alone1 for preferring this or that company to theirs1 for treating them with this and the other mark of disregard or indifference2 when1 to speak the truth1 they have themselves in a great measure to blame4 ,not that ,i would justify the men in any thing wrong on their part4 ,but had you behaved to them with more ,,respectful ,,observance1 and a more ,,equal ,,tenderness2 ,,studying ,,their ,,humours1 ,,overlooking ,,their ,,mistakes1 ,,submitting ,,to ,,their ,,opinions in matters indifferent1 passing by little instances of unevenness1 caprice1 or passion1 giving ,,soft answers to hasty words1 complaining as seldom as possible1 and making it your daily care to relieve their anxieties and prevent their wishes1 to enliven the hour of dulness1 and call up the ideas of felicity3 had you pursued this conduct1 ,i doubt not but you would have maintained and even increased their esteem1 so far as to have secured every degree of influence that could conduce to their virtue1 or your mutual satisfaction2 and your house might at this day have been the abode of domestic bliss4 ,such a woman ought to be an angel--or she is an ass--for ,i discern not a trace of the human character1 neither reason nor passion in this domestic drudge1 whose being is absorbed in that of a tyrant's4 ,still ,dr4 ,fordyce must have very little acquaintance with the human heart1 if he really supposed that such conduct would bring back wandering love1 instead of exciting contempt4 ,no1 beauty1 gentleness1 etc4 etc4 may gain a heart2 but esteem1 the only lasting affection1 can alone be obtained by virtue supported by reason4 ,it is respect for the understanding that keeps alive tenderness for the person4 ,as these volumes are so frequently put into the hands of young people1 ,i have taken more notice of them than strictly speaking1 they deserve2 but as they have contributed to vitiate the taste1 and enervate the understanding of many of my fellow-creatures1 ,i could not pass them silently over4 ,,section #e4c4 ,such paternal solicitude pervades ,dr4 ,gregory's ,legacy to his daughters1 that ,i enter on the task of criticism with affectionate respect2 but as this little volume has many attractions to recommend it to the notice of the most respectable part of my sex1 ,i cannot silently pass over arguments that so speciously support opinions which1 ,i think1 have had the most baneful effect on the morals and manners of the female world4 ,his easy familiar style is particularly suited to the tenor of his advice1 and the melancholy tenderness which his respect for the memory of a beloved wife diffuses through the whole work1 renders it very interesting2 yet there is a degree of concise elegance conspicuous in many passages1 that disturbs this sympathy2 and we pop on the author1 when we only expected to meet the--father4 ,besides1 having two objects in view1 he seldom adhered steadily to either2 for1 wishing to make his daughters amiable1 and fearing lest unhappiness should only be the consequence1 of instilling sentiments1 that might draw them out of the track of common life1 without enabling them to act with consonant independence and dignity1 he checks the natural flow of his thoughts1 and neither advises one thing nor the other4 ,in the preface he tells them a mournful truth1 that they will hear1 at least once in their lives1 the genuine sentiments of a man1 who has no interest in deceiving them4 ,hapless woman6 what can be expected from thee1 when the beings on whom thou art said naturally to depend for reason and support1 have all an interest in deceiving thee6 ,this is the root of the evil that has shed a corroding mildew on all thy virtues2 and blighting in the bud thy opening faculties1 has rendered thee the weak thing thou art6 ,it is this separate interest-- this insidious state of warfare1 that undermines morality1 and divides mankind6 ,if love has made some women wretched--how many more has the cold unmeaning intercourse of gallantry rendered vain and useless6 yet this heartless attention to the sex is reckoned so manly1 so polite1 that till society is very differently organized1 ,i fear1 this vestige of gothic manners will not be done away by a more reasonable and affectionate mode of conduct4 ,besides1 to strip it of its imaginary dignity1 ,i must observe1 that in the most civilized ,european states1 this lip-service prevails in a very great degree1 accompanied with extreme dissoluteness of morals4 ,in ,portugal1 the country that ,i particularly allude to1 it takes place of the most serious moral obligations2 for a man is seldom assassinated when in the company of a woman4 ,the savage hand of rapine is unnerved by this chivalrous spirit2 and1 if the stroke of vengeance cannot be stayed--the lady is entreated to pardon the rudeness and depart in peace1 though sprinkled1 perhaps1 with her husband's or brother's blood4 ,i shall pass over his strictures on religion1 because ,i mean to discuss that subject in a separate chapter4 ,the remarks relative to behaviour1 though many of them very sensible1 ,i entirely disapprove of1 because it appears to me to be beginning1 as it were at the wrong end4 ,a cultivated understanding1 and an affectionate heart1 will never want starched rules of decorum1 something more substantial than seemliness will be the result2 and1 without understanding1 the behaviour here recommended1 would be rank affectation4 ,decorum1 indeed1 is the one thing needful6 decorum is to supplant nature1 and banish all simplicity and variety of character out of the female world4 ,yet what good end can all this superficial counsel produce8 ,it is1 however1 much easier to point out this or that mode of behaviour1 than to set the reason to work2 but1 when the mind has been stored with useful knowledge1 and strengthened by being employed1 the regulation of the behaviour may safely be left to its guidance4 ,why1 for instance1 should the following caution be given1 when art of every kind must contaminate the mind2 and why entangle the grand motives of action1 which reason and religion equally combine to enforce1 with pitiful worldly shifts and slight of hand tricks to gain the applause of gaping tasteless fools8 ,be even cautious in displaying your good sense499 ,it will be thought you assume a superiority over the rest of the company-- ,but if you happen to have any learning keep it a profound secret1 especially from the men1 who generally look with a jealous and malignant eye on a woman of great parts1 and a cultivated understanding4 ,if men of real merit1 as he afterwards observes1 are superior to this meanness1 where is the necessity that the behaviour of the whole sex should be modulated to please fools1 or men1 who having little claim to respect as individuals1 choose to keep close in their phalanx4 ,men1 indeed1 who insist on their common superiority1 having only this sexual superiority1 are certainly very excusable4 799,footnote4 ,let women once acquire good sense--and if it deserve the name1 it will teach them2 or1 of what use will it be how to employ it47 ,there would be no end to rules for behaviour1 if it be proper always to adopt the tone of the company2 for thus1 for ever varying the key1 a ,,flat would often pass for a ,,natural note4 ,surely it would have been wiser to have advised women to improve themselves till they rose above the fumes of vanity2 and then to let the public opinion come round--for where are rules of accommodation to stop8 ,the narrow path of truth and virtue inclines neither to the right nor left1 it is a straight-forward business1 and they who are earnestly pursuing their road1 may bound over many decorous prejudices1 without leaving modesty behind4 ,make the heart clean1 and give the head employment1 and ,i will venture to predict that there will be nothing offensive in the behaviour4 ,the air of fashion1 which many young people are so eager to attain1 always strikes me like the studied attitudes of some modern prints1 copied with tasteless servility after the antiques2 the soul is left out1 and none of the parts are tied together by what may properly be termed character4 ,this varnish of fashion1 which seldom sticks very close to sense1 may dazzle the weak2 but leave nature to itself1 and it will seldom disgust the wise4 ,besides1 when a woman has sufficient sense not to pretend to any thing which she does not understand in some degree1 there is no need of determining to hide her talents under a bushel4 ,let things take their natural course1 and all will be well4 ,it is this system of dissimulation1 throughout the volume1 that ,i despise4 ,women are always to ,,seem to be this and that--yet virtue might apostrophize them1 in the words of ,hamlet--,seems6 ,i know not seems6--,have that within that passeth show6-- ,still the same tone occurs2 for in another place1 after recommending1 7without sufficiently discriminating7 delicacy1 he adds1 ,the men will complain of your reserve4 ,they will assure you that a franker behaviour would make you more amiable4 ,but1 trust me1 they are not sincere when they tell you so4 ,i acknowledge that on some occasions it might render you more agreeable as companions1 but it would make you less amiable as women3 an important distinction1 which many of your sex are not aware of4 ,this desire of being always women1 is the very consciousness that degrades the sex4 ,excepting with a lover1 ,i must repeat with emphasis1 a former observation--it would be well if they were only agreeable or rational companions4 ,but in this respect his advice is even inconsistent with a passage which ,i mean to quote with the most marked approbation4 ,the sentiment1 that a woman may allow all innocent freedoms1 provided her virtue is secure1 is both grossly indelicate and dangerous1 and has proved fatal to many of your sex4 ,with this opinion ,i perfectly coincide4 ,a man1 or a woman1 of any feeling must always wish to convince a beloved object that it is the caresses of the individual1 not the sex1 that is received and returned with pleasure2 and1 that the heart1 rather than the senses1 is moved4 ,without this natural delicacy1 love becomes a selfish personal gratification that soon degrades the character4 ,i carry this sentiment still further4 ,affection1 when love is out of the question1 authorises many personal endearments1 that naturally flowing from an innocent heart give life to the behaviour2 but the personal intercourse of appetite1 gallantry1 or vanity1 is despicable4 ,when a man squeezes the hand of a pretty woman1 handing her to a carriage1 whom he has never seen before1 she will consider such an impertinent freedom in the light of an insult1 if she have any true delicacy1 instead of being flattered by this unmeaning homage to beauty4 ,these are the privileges of friendship1 or the momentary homage which the heart pays to virtue1 when it flashes suddenly on the notice--mere animal spirits have no claim to the kindnesses of affection4 ,wishing to feed the affections with what is now the food of vanity1 ,i would fain persuade my sex to act from simpler principles4 ,let them merit love1 and they will obtain it1 though they may never be told that3 ,the power of a fine woman over the hearts of men1 of men of the finest parts1 is even beyond what she conceives4 ,i have already noticed the narrow cautions with respect to duplicity1 female softness1 delicacy of constitution2 for these are the changes which he rings round without ceasing1 in a more decorous manner1 it is true1 than ,rousseau2 but it all comes home to the same point1 and whoever is at the trouble to analyze these sentiments1 will find the first principles not quite so delicate as the superstructure4 ,the subject of amusements is treated in too cursory a manner2 but with the same spirit4 ,when ,i treat of friendship1 love1 and marriage1 it will be found that we materially differ in opinion2 ,i shall not then forestall what ,i have to observe on these important subjects2 but confine my remarks to the general tenor of them1 to that cautious family prudence1 to those confined views of partial unenlightened affection1 which exclude pleasure and improvement1 by vainly wishing to ward off sorrow and error--and by thus guarding the heart and mind1 destroy also all their energy4 ,it is far better to be often deceived than never to trust2 to be disappointed in love1 than never to love2 to lose a husband's fondness1 than forfeit his esteem4 ,happy would it be for the world1 and for individuals1 of course1 if all this unavailing solicitude to attain worldly happiness1 on a confined plan1 were turned into an anxious desire to improve the understanding4 ,wisdom is the principal thing3 ,,therefore get wisdom2 and with all thy gettings get understanding4 ,how long ye simple ones1 will ye love simplicity1 and hate knowledge8 ,saith ,wisdom to the daughters of men6 ,,section #e4d4 ,i do not mean to allude to all the writers who have written on the subject of female manners--it would in fact be only beating over the old ground1 for they have1 in general1 written in the same strain2 but attacking the boasted prerogative of man--the prerogative that may emphatically be called the iron sceptre of tyranny1 the original sin of tyrants1 ,i declare against all power built on prejudices1 however hoary4 ,if the submission demanded be founded on justice--there is no appealing to a higher power--for ,god is justice itself4 ,let us then1 as children of the same parent1 if not bastardized by being the younger born1 reason together1 and learn to submit to the authority of reason when her voice is distinctly heard4 ,but1 if it be proved that this throne of prerogative only rests on a chaotic mass of prejudices1 that have no inherent principle of order to keep them together1 or on an elephant1 tortoise1 or even the mighty shoulders of a son of the earth1 they may escape1 who dare to brave the consequence without any breach of duty1 without sinning against the order of things4 ,whilst reason raises man above the brutal herd1 and death is big with promises1 they alone are subject to blind authority who have no reliance on their own strength4 ,they are free who will be free699 799,footnote4 ,he is the free man1 whom ,,truth makes free6 ,cowper47 ,the being who can govern itself1 has nothing to fear in life2 but if any thing is dearer than its own respect1 the price must be paid to the last farthing4 ,virtue1 like every thing valuable1 must be loved for herself alone2 or she will not take up her abode with us4 ,she will not impart that peace1 which passeth understanding1 when she is merely made the stilts of reputation and respected with pharisaical exactness1 because honesty is the best policy4 ,that the plan of life which enables us to carry some knowledge and virtue into another world1 is the one best calculated to ensure content in this1 cannot be denied2 yet few people act according to this principle1 though it be universally allowed that it admits not of dispute4 ,present pleasure1 or present power1 carry before it these sober convictions2 and it is for the day1 not for life1 that man bargains with happiness4 ,how few6 how very few6 have sufficient foresight or resolution1 to endure a small evil at the moment1 to avoid a greater hereafter4 ,woman in particular1 whose virtue99 is built on mutual prejudices1 seldom attains to this greatness of mind2 so that1 becoming the slave of her own feelings1 she is easily subjugated by those of others4 ,thus degraded1 her reason1 her misty reason6 is employed rather to burnish than to snap her chains4 799,footnote4 ,i mean to use a word that comprehends more than chastity1 the sexual virtue47 ,indignantly have ,i heard women argue in the same track as men1 and adopt the sentiments that brutalize them with all the pertinacity of ignorance4 ,i must illustrate my assertion by a few examples4 ,mrs4 ,piozzi1 who often repeated by rote1 what she did not understand1 comes forward with ,johnsonian periods4 ,seek not for happiness in singularity2 and dread a refinement of wisdom as a deviation into folly4 ,thus she dogmatically addresses a new married man2 and to elucidate this pompous exordium1 she adds1 ,i said that the person of your lady would not grow more pleasing to you1 but pray let her never suspect that it grows less so3 that a woman will pardon an affront to her understanding much sooner than one to her person1 is well known2 nor will any of us contradict the assertion4 ,all our attainments1 all our arts1 are employed to gain and keep the heart of man2 and what mortification can exceed the disappointment1 if the end be not obtained3 ,there is no reproof however pointed1 no punishment however severe1 that a woman of spirit will not prefer to neglect2 and if she can endure it without complaint1 it only proves that she means to make herself amends by the attention of others for the slights of her husband6 ,these are true masculine sentiments4 ,all our ,,arts are employed to gain and keep the heart of man3--and what is the inference8--if her person1 and was there ever a person1 though formed with ,medicisan symmetry1 that was not slighted8 be neglected1 she will make herself amends by endeavouring to please other men4 ,noble morality6 ,but thus is the understanding of the whole sex affronted1 and their virtue deprived of the common basis of virtue4 ,a woman must know1 that her person cannot be as pleasing to her husband as it was to her lover1 and if she be offended with him for being a human creature1 she may as well whine about the loss of his heart as about any other foolish thing4 ,and this very want of discernment or unreasonable anger1 proves that he could not change his fondness for her person into affection for her virtues or respect for her understanding4 ,whilst women avow1 and act up to such opinions1 their understandings1 at least1 deserve the contempt and obloquy that men1 ,,who ,,never insult their persons1 have pointedly levelled at the female mind4 ,and it is the sentiments of these polite men1 who do not wish to be encumbered with mind1 that vain women thoughtlessly adopt4 ,yet they should know1 that insulted reason alone can spread that ,,sacred reserve about the persons which renders human affections1 for human affections have always some base alloy1 as permanent as is consistent with the grand end of existence--the attainment of virtue4 ,the ,baroness de ,stael speaks the same language as the lady just cited1 with more enthusiasm4 ,her eulogium on ,rousseau was accidentally put into my hands1 and her sentiments1 the sentiments of too many of my sex1 may serve as the text for a few comments4 ,though ,rousseau1 she observes1 has endeavoured to prevent women from interfering in public affairs1 and acting a brilliant part in the theatre of politics2 yet1 in speaking of them1 how much has he done it to their satisfaction6 ,if he wished to deprive them of some rights1 foreign to their sex1 how has he for ever restored to them all those to which it has a claim6 ,and in attempting to diminish their influence over the deliberations of men1 how sacredly has he established the empire they have over their happiness6 ,in aiding them to descend from an usurped throne1 he has firmly seated them upon that to which they were destined by nature2 and though he be full of indignation against them when they endeavour to resemble men1 yet when they come before him with all ,,the ,,charms ,,weaknesses1 ,,virtues1 and ,,errors1 ,,of their sex1 his respect for their ,,persons amounts almost to adoration4 ,true6--,for never was there a sensualist who paid more fervent adoration at the shrine of beauty4 ,so devout1 indeed1 was his respect for the person1 that excepting the virtue of chastity1 for obvious reasons1 he only wished to see it embellished by charms1 weaknesses1 and errors4 ,he was afraid lest the austerity of reason should disturb the soft playfulness of love4 ,the master wished to have a meretricious slave to fondle1 entirely dependent on his reason and bounty2 he did not want a companion1 whom he should be compelled to esteem1 or a friend to whom he could confide the care of his children's education1 should death deprive them of their father1 before he had fulfilled the sacred task4 ,he denies woman reason1 shuts her out from knowledge1 and turns her aside from truth2 yet his pardon is granted1 because1 he admits the passion of love4 ,it would require some ingenuity to show why women were to be under such an obligation to him for thus admitting love2 when it is clear that he admits it only for the relaxation of men1 and to perpetuate the species2 but he talked with passion1 and that powerful spell worked on the sensibility of a young encomiast4 ,what signifies it1 pursues this rhapsodist1 to women1 that his reason disputes with them the empire1 when his heart is devotedly theirs4 ,it is not empire--but equality1 that they should contend for4 ,yet1 if they only wished to lengthen out their sway1 they should not entirely trust to their persons1 for though beauty may gain a heart1 it cannot keep it1 even while the beauty is in full bloom1 unless the mind lend1 at least1 some graces4 ,when women are once sufficiently enlightened to discover their real interest1 on a grand scale1 they will1 ,i am persuaded1 be very ready to resign all the prerogatives of love1 that are not mutual1 7speaking of them as lasting prerogatives17 for the calm satisfaction of friendship1 and the tender confidence of habitual esteem4 ,before marriage they will not assume any insolent airs1 nor afterward abjectly submit2 but1 endeavouring to act like reasonable creatures1 in both situations1 they will not be tumbled from a throne to a stool4 ,madame ,genlis has written several entertaining books for children2 and her letters on ,education afford many useful hints1 that sensible parents will certainly avail themselves of2 but her views are narrow1 and her prejudices as unreasonable as strong4 ,i shall pass over her vehement argument in favour of the eternity of future punishments1 because ,i blush to think that a human being should ever argue vehemently in such a cause1 and only make a few remarks on her absurd manner of making the parental authority supplant reason4 ,for every where does she inculcate not only ,,blind submission to parents2 but to the opinion of the world499 799,footnote4 ,a person is not to act in this or that way1 though convinced they are right in so doing1 because some equivocal circumstances may lead the world to ,,suspect that they acted from different motives4 ,this is sacrificing the substance for a shadow4 ,let people but watch their own hearts1 and act rightly as far as they can judge1 and they may patiently wait till the opinion of the world comes round4 ,it is best to be directed by a simple motive--for justice has too often been sacrificed to propriety2--another word for convenience47 ,she tells a story of a young man engaged by his father's express desire to a girl of fortune4 ,before the marriage could take place she is deprived of her fortune1 and thrown friendless on the world4 ,the father practises the most infamous arts to separate his son from her1 and when the son detects his villany1 and1 following the dictates of honour1 marries the girl1 nothing but misery ensues1 because forsooth he married ,,without his father's consent4 ,on what ground can religion or morality rest1 when justice is thus set at defiance8 ,in the same style she represents an accomplished young woman1 as ready to marry any body that her ,,mamma pleased to recommend2 and1 as actually marrying the young man of her own choice1 without feeling any emotions of passion1 because that a well educated girl had not time to be in love4 ,is it possible to have much respect for a system of education that thus insults reason and nature8 ,many similar opinions occur in her writings1 mixed with sentiments that do honour to her head and heart4 ,yet so much superstition is mixed with her religion1 and so much worldly wisdom with her morality1 that ,i should not let a young person read her works1 unless ,i could afterwards converse on the subjects1 and point out the contradictions4 ,mrs4 ,chapone's ,letters are written with such good sense1 and unaffected humility1 and contain so many useful observations1 that ,i only mention them to pay the worthy writer this tribute of respect4 ,i cannot1 it is true1 always coincide in opinion with her2 but ,i always respect her4 ,the very word respect brings ,mrs4 ,macaulay to my remembrance4 ,the woman of the greatest abilities1 undoubtedly1 that this country has ever produced4 ,and yet this woman has been suffered to die without sufficient respect being paid to her memory4 ,posterity1 however1 will be more just2 and remember that ,catharine ,macaulay was an example of intellectual acquirements supposed to be incompatible with the weakness of her sex4 ,in her style of writing1 indeed1 no sex appears1 for it is like the sense it conveys1 strong and clear4 ,i will not call her's a masculine understanding1 because ,i admit not of such an arrogant assumption of reason2 but ,i contend that it was a sound one1 and that her judgment1 the matured fruit of profound thinking1 was a proof that a woman can acquire judgment1 in the full extent of the word4 ,possessing more penetration than sagacity1 more understanding than fancy1 she writes with sober energy1 and argumentative closeness2 yet sympathy and benevolence give an interest to her sentiments1 and that vital heat to arguments1 which forces the reader to weigh them499 799,footnote4 ,coinciding in opinion with ,mrs4 ,macaulay relative to many branches of education1 ,i refer to her valuable work1 instead of quoting her sentiments to support my own47 ,when ,i first thought of writing these strictures ,i anticipated ,mrs4 ,macaulay's approbation with a little of that sanguine ardour which it has been the business of my life to depress2 but soon heard with the sickly qualm of disappointed hope1 and the still seriousness of regret--that she was no more6 ,,section #e4e4 ,taking a view of the different works which have been written on education1 ,lord ,chesterfield's ,letters must not be silently passed over4 ,not that ,i mean to analyze his unmanly1 immoral system1 or even to cull any of the useful shrewd remarks which occur in his frivolous correspondence--,no1 ,i only mean to make a few reflections on the avowed tendency of them--the art of acquiring an early knowledge of the world4 ,an art1 ,i will venture to assert1 that preys secretly1 like the worm in the bud1 on the expanding powers1 and turns to poison the generous juices which should mount with vigour in the youthful frame1 inspiring warm affections and great resolves4 ,for every thing1 saith the wise man1 there is reason2 and who would look for the fruits of autumn during the genial months of spring8 ,but this is mere declamation1 and ,i mean to reason with those worldly-wise instructors1 who1 instead of cultivating the judgment1 instil prejudices1 and render hard the heart that gradual experience would only have cooled4 ,an early acquaintance with human infirmities2 or1 what is termed knowledge of the world1 is the surest way1 in my opinion1 to contract the heart and damp the natural youthful ardour which produces not only great talents1 but great virtues4 ,for the vain attempt to bring forth the fruit of experience1 before the sapling has thrown out its leaves1 only exhausts its strength1 and prevents its assuming a natural form2 just as the form and strength of subsiding metals are injured when the attraction of cohesion is disturbed4 ,tell me1 ye who have studied the human mind1 is it not a strange way to fix principles by showing young people that they are seldom stable8 ,and how can they be fortified by habits when they are proved to be fallacious by example8 ,why is the ardour of youth thus to be damped1 and the luxuriancy of fancy cut to the quick8 ,this dry caution may1 it is true1 guard a character from worldly mischances2 but will infallibly preclude excellence in either virtue or knowledge4 ,the stumbling-block thrown across every path by suspicion1 will prevent any vigorous exertions of genius or benevolence1 and life will be stripped of its most alluring charm long before its calm evening1 when man should retire to contemplation for comfort and support4 ,a young man who has been bred up with domestic friends1 and led to store his mind with as much speculative knowledge as can be acquired by reading and the natural reflections which youthful ebullitions of animal spirits and instinctive feelings inspire1 will enter the world with warm and erroneous expectations4 ,but this appears to be the course of nature2 and in morals1 as well as in works of taste1 we should be observant of her sacred indications1 and not presume to lead when we ought obsequiously to follow4 ,in the world few people act from principle2 present feelings1 and early habits1 are the grand springs3 but how would the former be deadened1 and the latter rendered iron corroding fetters1 if the world were shown to young people just as it is2 when no knowledge of mankind or their own hearts1 slowly obtained by experience rendered them forbearing8 ,their fellow creatures would not then be viewed as frail beings2 like themselves1 condemned to struggle with human infirmities1 and sometimes displaying the light and sometimes the dark side of their character2 extorting alternate feelings of love and disgust2 but guarded against as beasts of prey1 till every enlarged social feeling1 in a word--humanity1 was eradicated4 ,in life1 on the contrary1 as we gradually discover the imperfections of our nature1 we discover virtues1 and various circumstances attach us to our fellow creatures1 when we mix with them1 and view the same objects1 that are never thought of in acquiring a hasty unnatural knowledge of the world4 ,we see a folly swell into a vice1 by almost imperceptible degrees1 and pity while we blame2 but1 if the hideous monster burst suddenly on our sight1 fear and disgust rendering us more severe than man ought to be1 might lead us with blind zeal to usurp the character of omnipotence1 and denounce damnation on our fellow mortals1 forgetting that we cannot read the heart1 and that we have seeds of the same vices lurking in our own4 ,i have already remarked1 that we expect more from instruction1 than mere instruction can produce3 for1 instead of preparing young people to encounter the evils of life with dignity1 and to acquire wisdom and virtue by the exercise of their own faculties1 precepts are heaped upon precepts1 and blind obedience required1 when conviction should be brought home to reason4 ,suppose1 for instance1 that a young person in the first ardour of friendship deifies the beloved object--what harm can arise from this mistaken enthusiastic attachment8 ,perhaps it is necessary for virtue first to appear in a human form to impress youthful hearts2 the ideal model1 which a more matured and exalted mind looks up to1 and shapes for itself1 would elude their sight4 ,he who loves not his brother whom he hath seen1 how can he love ,god8 asked the wisest of men4 ,it is natural for youth to adorn the first object of its affection with every good quality1 and the emulation produced by ignorance1 or1 to speak with more propriety1 by inexperience1 brings forward the mind capable of forming such an affection1 and when1 in the lapse of time1 perfection is found not to be within the reach of mortals1 virtue1 abstractly1 is thought beautiful1 and wisdom sublime4 ,admiration then gives place to friendship1 properly so called1 because it is cemented by esteem2 and the being walks alone only dependent on heaven for that emulous panting after perfection which ever glows in a noble mind4 ,but this knowledge a man must gain by the exertion of his own faculties2 and this is surely the blessed fruit of disappointed hope6 for ,he who delighteth to diffuse happiness and show mercy to the weak creatures1 who are learning to know him1 never implanted a good propensity to be a tormenting ignis fatuus4 ,our trees are now allowed to spread with wild luxuriance1 nor do we expect by force to combine the majestic marks of time with youthful graces2 but wait patiently till they have struck deep their root1 and braved many a storm4 ,is the mind then1 which1 in proportion to its dignity advances more slowly towards perfection1 to be treated with less respect8 ,to argue from analogy1 every thing around us is in a progressive state2 and when an unwelcome knowledge of life produces almost a satiety of life1 and we discover by the natural course of things that all that is done under the sun is vanity1 we are drawing near the awful close of the drama4 ,the days of activity and hope are over1 and the opportunities which the first stage of existence has afforded of advancing in the scale of intelligence1 must soon be summed up4 ,a knowledge at this period of the futility of life1 or earlier1 if obtained by experience1 is very useful1 because it is natural2 but when a frail being is shown the follies and vices of man1 that he may be taught prudently to guard against the common casualties of life by sacrificing his heart--surely it is not speaking harshly to call it the wisdom of this world1 contrasted with the nobler fruit of piety and experience4 ,i will venture a paradox1 and deliver my opinion without reserve2 if men were only born to form a circle of life and death1 it would be wise to take every step that foresight could suggest to render life happy4 ,moderation in every pursuit would then be supreme wisdom2 and the prudent voluptuary might enjoy a degree of content1 though he neither cultivated his understanding nor kept his heart pure4 ,prudence1 supposing we were mortal1 would be true wisdom1 or1 to be more explicit1 would procure the greatest portion of happiness1 considering the whole of life2 but knowledge beyond the conveniences of life would be a curse4 ,why should we injure our health by close study8 ,the exalted pleasure which intellectual pursuits afford would scarcely be equivalent to the hours of languor that follow2 especially1 if it be necessary to take into the reckoning the doubts and disappointments that cloud our researches4 ,vanity and vexation close every inquiry3 for the cause which we particularly wished to discover flies like the horizon before us as we advance4 ,the ignorant1 on the contrary1 resemble children1 and suppose1 that if they could walk straight forward they should at last arrive where the earth and clouds meet4 ,yet1 disappointed as we are in our researches1 the mind gains strength by the exercise1 sufficient1 perhaps1 to comprehend the answers which1 in another step of existence1 it may receive to the anxious questions it asked1 when the understanding with feeble wing was fluttering round the visible effects to dive into the hidden cause4 ,the passions also1 the winds of life1 would be useless1 if not injurious1 did the substance which composes our thinking being1 after we have thought in vain1 only become the support of vegetable life1 and invigorate a cabbage1 or blush in a rose4 ,the appetites would answer every earthly purpose1 and produce more moderate and permanent happiness4 ,but the powers of the soul that are of little use here1 and1 probably1 disturb our animal enjoyments1 even while conscious dignity makes us glory in possessing them1 prove that life is merely an education1 a state of infancy1 of which the only hopes worth cherishing should not be sacrificed4 ,i mean1 therefore to infer1 that we ought to have a precise idea of what we wish to attain by education1 for the immortality of the soul is contradicted by the actions of many people1 who firmly profess the belief4 ,if you mean to secure ease and prosperity on earth as the first consideration1 and leave futurity to provide for itself1 you act prudently in giving your child an early insight into the weaknesses of his nature4 ,you may not1 it is true1 make an ,inkle of him2 but do not imagine that he will stick to more than the letter of the law1 who has very early imbibed a mean opinion of human nature2 nor will he think it necessary to rise much above the common standard4 ,he may avoid gross vices1 because honesty is the best policy2 but he will never aim at attaining great virtues4 ,the example of writers and artists will illustrate this remark4 ,i must therefore venture to doubt1 whether what has been thought an axiom in morals1 may not have been a dogmatical assertion made by men who have coolly seen mankind through the medium of books1 and say1 in direct contradiction to them1 that the regulation of the passions is not always wisdom4 ,on the contrary1 it should seem1 that one reason why men have superiour judgment and more fortitude than women1 is undoubtedly this1 that they give a freer scope to the grand passions1 and by more frequently going astray1 enlarge their minds4 ,if then by the exercise of their own reason1 they fix on some stable principle1 they have probably to thank the force of their passions1 nourished by ,,false views of life1 and permitted to overleap the boundary that secures content4 ,but if1 in the dawn of life1 we could soberly survey the scenes before us as in perspective1 and see every thing in its true colours1 how could the passions gain sufficient strength to unfold the faculties8 ,let me now1 as from an eminence1 survey the world stripped of all its false delusive charms4 ,the clear atmosphere enables me to see each object in its true point of view1 while my heart is still4 ,i am calm as the prospect in a morning when the mists1 slowly dispersing1 silently unveil the beauties of nature1 refreshed by rest4 ,in what light will the world now appear8 ,i rub my eyes and think1 perchance1 that ,i am just awaking from a lively dream4 ,i see the sons and daughters of men pursuing shadows1 and anxiously wasting their powers to feed passions which have no adequate object--if the very excess of these blind impulses pampered by that lying1 yet constantly-trusted guide1 the imagination1 did not1 by preparing them for some other state1 render short sighted mortals wiser without their own concurrence2 or1 what comes to the same thing1 when they were pursuing some imaginary present good4 ,after viewing objects in this light1 it would not be very fanciful to imagine1 that this world was a stage on which a pantomime is daily performed for the amusement of superiour beings4 ,how would they be diverted to see the ambitious man consuming himself by running after a phantom1 and1 pursuing the bubble fame in the cannon's mouth that was to blow him to nothing3 for when consciousness is lost1 it matters not whether we mount in a whirlwind or descend in rain4 ,and should they compassionately invigorate his sight1 and show him the thorny path which led to eminence1 that like a quicksand sinks as he ascends1 disappointing his hopes when almost within his grasp1 would he not leave to others the honour of amusing them1 and labour to secure the present moment1 though from the constitution of his nature he would not find it very easy to catch the flying stream8 ,such slaves are we to hope and fear6 ,but1 vain as the ambitious man's pursuit would be1 he is often striving for something more substantial than fame--that indeed would be the veriest meteor1 the wildest fire that could lure a man to ruin4 ,what6 renounce the most trifling gratification to be applauded when he should be no more6 ,wherefore this struggle1 whether man is mortal or immortal1 if that noble passion did not really raise the being above his fellows8 ,and love6 ,what diverting scenes would it produce--,pantaloon's tricks must yield to more egregious folly4 ,to see a mortal adorn an object with imaginary charms1 and then fall down and worship the idol which he had himself set up--how ridiculous6 ,but what serious consequences ensue to rob man of that portion of happiness1 which the ,deity by calling him into existence has 7or1 on what can his attributes rest87 indubitably promised2 would not all the purposes of life have been much better fulfilled if he had only felt what has been termed physical love8 ,and1 would not the sight of the object1 not seen through the medium of the imagination1 soon reduce the passion to an appetite1 if reflection1 the noble distinction of man1 did not give it force1 and make it an instrument to raise him above this earthy dross1 by teaching him to love the centre of all perfection6 whose wisdom appears clearer and clearer in the works of nature1 in proportion as reason is illuminated and exalted by contemplation1 and by acquiring that love of order which the struggles of passion produce8 ,the habit of reflection1 and the knowledge attained by fostering any passion1 might be shown to be equally useful though the object be proved equally fallacious2 for they would all appear in the same light1 if they were not magnified by the governing passion implanted in us by the ,author of all good1 to call forth and strengthen the faculties of each individual1 and enable it to attain all the experience that an infant can obtain1 who does certain things1 it cannot tell why4 ,i descend from my height1 and mixing with my fellow creatures1 feel myself hurried along the common stream2 ambition1 love1 hope1 and fear1 exert their wonted power1 though we be convinced by reason that their present and most attractive promises are only lying dreams2 but had the cold hand of circumspection damped each generous feeling before it had left any permanent character1 or fixed some habit1 what could be expected1 but selfish prudence and reason just rising above instinct8 ,who that has read ,dean ,swift's disgusting description of the ,yahoos1 and insipid one of ,houyhnhnm with a philosophical eye1 can avoid seeing the futility of degrading the passions1 or making man rest in contentment8 ,the youth should ,,act2 for had he the experience of a grey head1 he would be fitter for death than life1 though his virtues1 rather residing in his head than his heart could produce nothing great1 and his understanding prepared for this world1 would not1 by its noble flights1 prove that it had a title to a better4 ,besides1 it is not possible to give a young person a just view of life2 he must have struggled with his own passions before he can estimate the force of the temptation which betrayed his brother into vice4 ,those who are entering life1 and those who are departing1 see the world from such very different points of view1 that they can seldom think alike1 unless the unfledged reason of the former never attempted a solitary flight4 ,when we hear of some daring crime--it comes full upon us in the deepest shade of turpitude1 and raises indignation2 but the eye that gradually saw the darkness thicken1 must observe it with more compassionate forbearance4 ,the world cannot be seen by an unmoved spectator1 we must mix in the throng1 and feel as men feel before we can judge of their feelings4 ,if we mean1 in short1 to live in the world to grow wiser and better1 and not merely to enjoy the good things of life1 we must attain a knowledge of others at the same time that we become acquainted with ourselves-- knowledge acquired any other way only hardens the heart and perplexes the understanding4 ,i may be told1 that the knowledge thus acquired1 is sometimes purchased at too dear a rate4 ,i can only answer1 that ,i very much doubt whether any knowledge can be attained without labour and sorrow2 and those who wish to spare their children both1 should not complain if they are neither wise nor virtuous4 ,they only aimed at making them prudent2 and prudence1 early in life1 is but the cautious craft of ignorant self-love4 ,i have observed1 that young people1 to whose education particular attention has been paid1 have1 in general1 been very superficial and conceited1 and far from pleasing in any respect1 because they had neither the unsuspecting warmth of youth1 nor the cool depth of age4 ,i cannot help imputing this unnatural appearance principally to that hasty premature instruction1 which leads them presumptuously to repeat all the crude notions they have taken upon trust1 so that the careful education which they received1 makes them all their lives the slaves of prejudices4 ,mental as well as bodily exertion is1 at first1 irksome2 so much so1 that the many would fain let others both work and think for them4 ,an observation which ,i have often made will illustrate my meaning4 ,when in a circle of strangers1 or acquaintances1 a person of moderate abilities1 asserts an opinion with heat1 ,i will venture to affirm1 for ,i have traced this fact home1 very often1 that it is a prejudice4 ,these echoes have a high respect for the understanding of some relation or friend1 and without fully comprehending the opinions1 which they are so eager to retail1 they maintain them with a degree of obstinacy1 that would surprise even the person who concocted them4 ,i know that a kind of fashion now prevails of respecting prejudices2 and when any one dares to face them1 though actuated by humanity and armed by reason1 he is superciliously asked1 whether his ancestors were fools4 ,no1 ,i should reply2 opinions1 at first1 of every description1 were all1 probably1 considered1 and therefore were founded on some reason2 yet not unfrequently1 of course1 it was rather a local expedient than a fundamental principle1 that would be reasonable at all times4 ,but1 moss-covered opinions assume the disproportioned form of prejudices1 when they are indolently adopted only because age has given them a venerable aspect1 though the reason on which they were built ceases to be a reason1 or cannot be traced4 ,why are we to love prejudices1 merely because they are prejudices8 ,a prejudice is a fond obstinate persuasion1 for which we can give no reason2 for the moment a reason can be given for an opinion1 it ceases to be a prejudice1 though it may be an error in judgment3 and are we then advised to cherish opinions only to set reason at defiance8 ,this mode of arguing1 if arguing it may be called1 reminds me of what is vulgarly termed a woman's reason4 ,for women sometimes declare that they love1 or believe certain things1 ,,because they love1 or believe them4 ,it is impossible to converse with people to any purpose1 who1 in this style1 only use affirmatives and negatives4 ,before you can bring them to a point1 to start fairly from1 you must go back to the simple principles that were antecedent to the prejudices broached by power2 and it is ten to one but you are stopped by the philosophical assertion1 that certain principles are as practically false as they are abstractly true4 ,nay1 it may be inferred1 that reason has whispered some doubts1 for it generally happens that people assert their opinions with the greatest heat when they begin to waver2 striving to drive out their own doubts by convincing their opponent1 they grow angry when those gnawing doubts are thrown back to prey on themselves4 ,the fact is1 that men expect from education1 what education cannot give4 ,a sagacious parent or tutor may strengthen the body and sharpen the instruments by which the child is to gather knowledge2 but the honey must be the reward of the individual's own industry4 ,it is almost as absurd to attempt to make a youth wise by the experience of another1 as to expect the body to grow strong by the exercise which is only talked of1 or seen4 ,many of those children whose conduct has been most narrowly watched1 become the weakest men1 because their instructors only instill certain notions into their minds1 that have no other foundation than their authority2 and if they are loved or respected1 the mind is cramped in its exertions and wavering in its advances4 ,the business of education in this case1 is only to conduct the shooting tendrils to a proper pole2 yet after laying precept upon precept1 without allowing a child to acquire judgment itself1 parents expect them to act in the same manner by this borrowed fallacious light1 as if they had illuminated it themselves2 and be1 when they enter life1 what their parents are at the close4 ,they do not consider that the tree1 and even the human body1 does not strengthen its fibres till it has reached its full growth4 ,there appears to be something analogous in the mind4 ,the senses and the imagination give a form to the character1 during childhood and youth2 and the understanding as life advances1 gives firmness to the first fair purposes of sensibility--till virtue1 arising rather from the clear conviction of reason than the impulse of the heart1 morality is made to rest on a rock against which the storms of passion vainly beat4 ,i hope ,i shall not be misunderstood when ,i say1 that religion will not have this condensing energy1 unless it be founded on reason4 ,if it be merely the refuge of weakness or wild fanaticism1 and not a governing principle of conduct1 drawn from self-knowledge1 and a rational opinion respecting the attributes of ,god1 what can it be expected to produce8 ,the religion which consists in warming the affections1 and exalting the imagination1 is only the poetical part1 and may afford the individual pleasure without rendering it a more moral being4 ,it may be a substitute for worldly pursuits2 yet narrow instead of enlarging the heart3 but virtue must be loved as in itself sublime and excellent1 and not for the advantages it procures or the evils it averts1 if any great degree of excellence be expected4 ,men will not become moral when they only build airy castles in a future world to compensate for the disappointments which they meet with in this2 if they turn their thoughts from relative duties to religious reveries4 ,most prospects in life are marred by the shuffling worldly wisdom of men1 who1 forgetting that they cannot serve ,god and mammon1 endeavour to blend contradictory things4 ,if you wish to make your son rich1 pursue one course --if you are only anxious to make him virtuous1 you must take another2 but do not imagine that you can bound from one road to the other without losing your way499 799,footnote4 ,see an excellent essay on this subject by ,mrs4 ,barbauld1 in ,miscellaneous pieces in ,prose47 ,,chapter #f4 ,,the ,,effect ,,which ,,an ,,early ,,association ,,of ,,ideas ,,has ,,upon ,,the ,,character4 ,educated in the enervating style recommended by the writers on whom ,i have been animadverting2 and not having a chance1 from their subordinate state in society1 to recover their lost ground1 is it surprising that women every where appear a defect in nature8 ,is it surprising1 when we consider what a determinate effect an early association of ideas has on the character1 that they neglect their understandings1 and turn all their attention to their persons8 ,the great advantages which naturally result from storing the mind with knowledge1 are obvious from the following considerations4 ,the association of our ideas is either habitual or instantaneous2 and the latter mode seems rather to depend on the original temperature of the mind than on the will4 ,when the ideas1 and matters of fact1 are once taken in1 they lie by for use1 till some fortuitous circumstance makes the information dart into the mind with illustrative force1 that has been received at very different periods of our lives4 ,like the lightning's flash are many recollections2 one idea assimilating and explaining another1 with astonishing rapidity4 ,i do not now allude to that quick perception of truth1 which is so intuitive that it baffles research1 and makes us at a loss to determine whether it is reminiscence or ratiocination1 lost sight of in its celerity1 that opens the dark cloud4 ,over those instantaneous associations we have little power2 for when the mind is once enlarged by excursive flights1 or profound reflection1 the raw materials1 will1 in some degree1 arrange themselves4 ,the understanding1 it is true1 may keep us from going out of drawing when we group our thoughts1 or transcribe from the imagination the warm sketches of fancy2 but the animal spirits1 the individual character give the colouring4 ,over this subtile electric fluid199 how little power do we possess1 and over it how little power can reason obtain6 ,these fine intractable spirits appear to be the essence of genius1 and beaming in its eagle eye1 produce in the most eminent degree the happy energy of associating thoughts that surprise1 delight1 and instruct4 ,these are the glowing minds that concentrate pictures for their fellow-creatures2 forcing them to view with interest the objects reflected from the impassioned imagination1 which they passed over in nature4 799,footnote4 ,i have sometimes1 when inclined to laugh at materialists1 asked whether1 as the most powerful effects in nature are apparently produced by fluids1 the magnetic1 etc4 the passions might not be fine volatile fluids that embraced humanity1 keeping the more refractory elementary parts together--or whether they were simply a liquid fire that pervaded the more sluggish materials giving them life and heat87 ,i must be allowed to explain myself4 ,the generality of people cannot see or feel poetically1 they want fancy1 and therefore fly from solitude in search of sensible objects2 but when an author lends them his eyes1 they can see as he saw1 and be amused by images they could not select1 though lying before them4 ,education thus only supplies the man of genius with knowledge to give variety and contrast to his associations2 but there is an habitual association of ideas1 that grows with our growth1 which has a great effect on the moral character of mankind2 and by which a turn is given to the mind1 that commonly remains throughout life4 ,so ductile is the understanding1 and yet so stubborn1 that the associations which depend on adventitious circumstances1 during the period that the body takes to arrive at maturity1 can seldom be disentangled by reason4 ,one idea calls up another1 its old associate1 and memory1 faithful to the first impressions1 particularly when the intellectual powers are not employed to cool our sensations1 retraces them with mechanical exactness4 ,this habitual slavery1 to first impressions1 has a more baneful effect on the female than the male character1 because business and other dry employments of the understanding1 tend to deaden the feelings and break associations that do violence to reason4 ,but females1 who are made women of when they are mere children1 and brought back to childhood when they ought to leave the go-cart forever1 have not sufficient strength of mind to efface the superinductions of art that have smothered nature4 ,every thing that they see or hear serves to fix impressions1 call forth emotions1 and associate ideas1 that give a sexual character to the mind4 ,false notions of beauty and delicacy stop the growth of their limbs and produce a sickly soreness1 rather than delicacy of organs2 and thus weakened by being employed in unfolding instead of examining the first associations1 forced on them by every surrounding object1 how can they attain the vigour necessary to enable them to throw off their factitious character8--where find strength to recur to reason and rise superior to a system of oppression1 that blasts the fair promises of spring8 ,this cruel association of ideas1 which every thing conspires to twist into all their habits of thinking1 or1 to speak with more precision1 of feeling1 receives new force when they begin to act a little for themselves2 for they then perceive1 that it is only through their address to excite emotions in men1 that pleasure and power are to be obtained4 ,besides1 all the books professedly written for their instruction1 which make the first impression on their minds1 all inculcate the same opinions4 ,educated in worse than ,egyptian bondage1 it is unreasonable1 as well as cruel1 to upbraid them with faults that can scarcely be avoided1 unless a degree of native vigour be supposed1 that falls to the lot of very few amongst mankind4 ,for instance1 the severest sarcasms have been levelled against the sex1 and they have been ridiculed for repeating a set of phrases learnt by rote1 when nothing could be more natural1 considering the education they receive1 and that their highest praise is to obey1 unargued--the will of man4 ,if they are not allowed to have reason sufficient to govern their own conduct--why1 all they learn--must be learned by rote6 ,and when all their ingenuity is called forth to adjust their dress1 a passion for a scarlet coat1 is so natural1 that it never surprised me2 and1 allowing ,pope's summary of their character to be just1 that every woman is at heart a rake1 why should they be bitterly censured for seeking a congenial mind1 and preferring a rake to a man of sense8 ,rakes know how to work on their sensibility1 whilst the modest merit of reasonable men has1 of course1 less effect on their feelings1 and they cannot reach the heart by the way of the understanding1 because they have few sentiments in common4 ,it seems a little absurd to expect women to be more reasonable than men in their ,,likings1 and still to deny them the uncontroled use of reason4 ,when do men ,,fall ,,in ,,love with sense8 ,when do they1 with their superior powers and advantages1 turn from the person to the mind8 ,and how can they then expect women1 who are only taught to observe behaviour1 and acquire manners rather than morals1 to despise what they have been all their lives labouring to attain8 ,where are they suddenly to find judgment enough to weigh patiently the sense of an awkward virtuous man1 when his manners1 of which they are made critical judges1 are rebuffing1 and his conversation cold and dull1 because it does not consist of pretty repartees1 or well-turned compliments8 ,in order to admire or esteem any thing for a continuance1 we must1 at least1 have our curiosity excited by knowing1 in some degree1 what we admire2 for we are unable to estimate the value of qualities and virtues above our comprehension4 ,such a respect1 when it is felt1 may be very sublime2 and the confused consciousness of humility may render the dependent creature an interesting object1 in some points of view2 but human love must have grosser ingredients2 and the person very naturally will come in for its share--and1 an ample share it mostly has6 ,love is1 in a great degree1 an arbitrary passion1 and will reign like some other stalking mischiefs1 by its own authority1 without deigning to reason2 and it may also be easily distinguished from esteem1 the foundation of friendship1 because it is often excited by evanescent beauties and graces1 though to give an energy to the sentiment something more solid must deepen their impression and set the imagination to work1 to make the most fair-- the first good4 ,common passions are excited by common qualities4 ,men look for beauty and the simper of good humoured docility3 women are captivated by easy manners3 a gentleman-like man seldom fails to please them1 and their thirsty ears eagerly drink the insinuating nothings of politeness1 whilst they turn from the unintelligible sounds of the charmer--reason1 charm he never so wisely4 ,with respect to superficial accomplishments1 the rake certainly has the advantage2 and of these1 females can form an opinion1 for it is their own ground4 ,rendered gay and giddy by the whole tenor of their lives1 the very aspect of wisdom1 or the severe graces of virtue must have a lugubrious appearance to them2 and produce a kind of restraint from which they and love1 sportive child1 naturally revolt4 ,without taste1 excepting of the lighter kind1 for taste is the offspring of judgment1 how can they discover1 that true beauty and grace must arise from the play of the mind8 and how can they be expected to relish in a lover what they do not1 or very imperfectly1 possess themselves8 ,the sympathy that unites hearts1 and invites to confidence1 in them is so very faint1 that it cannot take fire1 and thus mount to passion4 ,no1 ,i repeat it1 the love cherished by such minds1 must have grosser fuel6 ,the inference is obvious2 till women are led to exercise their understandings1 they should not be satirized for their attachment to rakes2 nor even for being rakes at heart1 when it appears to be the inevitable consequence of their education4 ,they who live to please must find their enjoyments1 their happiness1 in pleasure6 ,it is a trite1 yet true remark1 that we never do any thing well1 unless we love it for its own sake4 ,supposing1 however1 for a moment1 that women were1 in some future revolution of time1 to become1 what ,i sincerely wish them to be1 even love would acquire more serious dignity1 and be purified in its own fires2 and virtue giving true delicacy to their affections1 they would turn with disgust from a rake4 ,reasoning then1 as well as feeling1 the only province of woman1 at present1 they might easily guard against exterior graces1 and quickly learn to despise the sensibility that had been excited and hackneyed in the ways of women1 whose trade was vice2 and allurement's wanton airs4 ,they would recollect that the flame1 7one must use appropriate expressions17 which they wished to light up1 had been exhausted by lust1 and that the sated appetite1 losing all relish for pure and simple pleasures1 could only be roused by licentious arts of variety4 ,what satisfaction could a woman of delicacy promise herself in a union with such a man1 when the very artlessness of her affection might appear insipid8 ,thus does ,dryden describe the situation3 ,where love is duty on the female side1 ,on theirs mere sensual gust1 and sought with surly pride4 ,but one grand truth women have yet to learn1 though much it imports them to act accordingly4 ,in the choice of a husband they should not be led astray by the qualities of a lover--for a lover the husband1 even supposing him to be wise and virtuous1 cannot long remain4 ,were women more rationally educated1 could they take a more comprehensive view of things1 they would be contented to love but once in their lives2 and after marriage calmly let passion subside into friendship--into that tender intimacy1 which is the best refuge from care2 yet is built on such pure1 still affections1 that idle jealousies would not be allowed to disturb the discharge of the sober duties of life1 nor to engross the thoughts that ought to be otherwise employed4 ,this is a state in which many men live2 but few1 very few women4 ,and the difference may easily be accounted for1 without recurring to a sexual character4 ,men1 for whom we are told women are made1 have too much occupied the thoughts of women2 and this association has so entangled love1 with all their motives of action2 and1 to harp a little on an old string1 having been solely employed either to prepare themselves to excite love1 or actually putting their lessons in practice1 they cannot live without love4 ,but1 when a sense of duty1 or fear of shame1 obliges them to restrain this pampered desire of pleasing beyond certain lengths1 too far for delicacy1 it is true1 though far from criminality1 they obstinately determine to love1 ,i speak of their passion1 their husbands to the end of the chapter--and then acting the part which they foolishly exacted from their lovers1 they become abject wooers1 and fond slaves4 ,men of wit and fancy are often rakes2 and fancy is the food of love4 ,such men will inspire passion4 ,half the sex1 in its present infantine state1 would pine for a ,lovelace2 a man so witty1 so graceful1 and so valiant2 and can they ,,deserve blame for acting according to principles so constantly inculcated8 ,they want a lover and protector3 and behold him kneeling before them--bravery prostrate to beauty6 ,the virtues of a husband are thus thrown by love into the background1 and gay hopes1 or lively emotions1 banish reflection till the day of reckoning comes2 and come it surely will1 to turn the sprightly lover into a surly suspicious tyrant1 who contemptuously insults the very weakness he fostered4 ,or1 supposing the rake reformed1 he cannot quickly get rid of old habits4 ,when a man of abilities is first carried away by his passions1 it is necessary that sentiment and taste varnish the enormities of vice1 and give a zest to brutal indulgences3 but when the gloss of novelty is worn off1 and pleasure palls upon the sense1 lasciviousness becomes barefaced1 and enjoyment only the desperate effort of weakness flying from reflection as from a legion of devils4 ,oh6 virtue1 thou art not an empty name6 ,all that life can give-- thou givest6 ,if much comfort cannot be expected from the friendship of a reformed rake of superior abilities1 what is the consequence when he lacketh sense1 as well as principles8 ,verily misery in its most hideous shape4 ,when the habits of weak people are consolidated by time1 a reformation is barely possible2 and actually makes the beings miserable who have not sufficient mind to be amused by innocent pleasure2 like the tradesman who retires from the hurry of business1 nature presents to them only a universal blank2 and the restless thoughts prey on the damped spirits4 ,their reformation as well as his retirement actually makes them wretched1 because it deprives them of all employment1 by quenching the hopes and fears that set in motion their sluggish minds4 ,if such be the force of habit2 if such be the bondage of folly1 how carefully ought we to guard the mind from storing up vicious associations2 and equally careful should we be to cultivate the understanding1 to save the poor wight from the weak dependent state of even harmless ignorance4 ,for it is the right use of reason alone which makes us independent of every thing--excepting the unclouded ,reason--,whose service is perfect freedom4 ,,chapter #g4 ,,modesty ,,comprehensively ,,considered ,,and ,,not ,,as ,a ,,sexual ,,virtue4 ,modesty6 ,sacred offspring of sensibility and reason6 true delicacy of mind6 may ,i unblamed presume to investigate thy nature1 and trace to its covert the mild charm1 that mellowing each harsh feature of a character1 renders what would otherwise only inspire cold admiration--lovely6 ,thou that smoothest the wrinkles of wisdom1 and softenest the tone of the more sublime virtues till they all melt into humanity6 thou that spreadest the ethereal cloud that surrounding love heightens every beauty1 it half shades1 breathing those coy sweets that steal into the heart1 and charm the senses--modulate for me the language of persuasive reason1 till ,i rouse my sex from the flowery bed1 on which they supinely sleep life away6 ,in speaking of the association of our ideas1 ,i have noticed two distinct modes2 and in defining modesty1 it appears to me equally proper to discriminate that purity of mind1 which is the effect of chastity1 from a simplicity of character that leads us to form a just opinion of ourselves1 equally distant from vanity or presumption1 though by no means incompatible with a lofty consciousness of our own dignity4 ,modesty in the latter signification of the term1 is that soberness of mind which teaches a man not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think1 and should be distinguished from humility1 because humility is a kind of self-abasement4 ,a modest man often conceives a great plan1 and tenaciously adheres to it1 conscious of his own strength1 till success gives it a sanction that determines its character4 ,milton was not arrogant when he suffered a suggestion of judgment to escape him that proved a prophesy2 nor was ,general ,washington when he accepted of the command of the ,american forces4 ,the latter has always been characterized as a modest man2 but had he been merely humble1 he would probably have shrunk back irresolute1 afraid of trusting to himself the direction of an enterprise on which so much depended4 ,a modest man is steady1 an humble man timid1 and a vain one presumptuous2 this is the judgment1 which the observation of many characters1 has led me to form4 ,jesus ,christ was modest1 ,moses was humble1 and ,peter vain4 ,thus discriminating modesty from humility in one case1 ,i do not mean to confound it with bashfulness in the other4 ,bashfulness1 in fact1 is so distinct from modesty1 that the most bashful lass1 or raw country lout1 often becomes the most impudent2 for their bashfulness being merely the instinctive timidity of ignorance1 custom soon changes it into assurance499 799,footnote4 ,such is the country-maiden's fright1 ,when first a red-coat is in sight2 ,behind the door she hides her face1 ,next time at distance eyes the lace3 ,she now can all his terrors stand1 ,nor from his squeeze withdraws her hand1 ,she plays familiar in his arms1 ,and every soldier hath his charms2 ,from tent to tent she spreads her flame2 ,for custom conquers fear and shame47 ,the shameless behaviour of the prostitutes who infest the streets of ,london1 raising alternate emotions of pity and disgust1 may serve to illustrate this remark4 ,they trample on virgin bashfulness with a sort of bravado1 and glorying in their shame1 become more audaciously lewd than men1 however depraved1 to whom the sexual quality has not been gratuitously granted1 ever appear to be4 ,but these poor ignorant wretches never had any modesty to lose1 when they consigned themselves to infamy2 for modesty is a virtue not a quality4 ,no1 they were only bashful1 shame-faced innocents2 and losing their innocence1 their shame-facedness was rudely brushed off2 a virtue would have left some vestiges in the mind1 had it been sacrificed to passion1 to make us respect the grand ruin4 ,purity of mind1 or that genuine delicacy1 which is the only virtuous support of chastity1 is near a-kin to that refinement of humanity1 which never resides in any but cultivated minds4 ,it is something nobler than innocence2 it is the delicacy of reflection1 and not the coyness of ignorance4 ,the reserve of reason1 which like habitual cleanliness1 is seldom seen in any great degree1 unless the soul is active1 may easily be distinguished from rustic shyness or wanton skittishness2 and so far from being incompatible with knowledge1 it is its fairest fruit4 ,what a gross idea of modesty had the writer of the following remark6 ,the lady who asked the question whether women may be instructed in the modern system of botany1 consistently with female delicacy8 was accused of ridiculous prudery3 nevertheless1 if she had proposed the question to me1 ,i should certainly have answered--,they cannot4 ,thus is the fair book of knowledge to be shut with an everlasting seal6 ,on reading similar passages ,i have reverentially lifted up my eyes and heart to ,him who liveth for ever and ever1 and said1 ,o my ,father1 hast ,thou by the very constitution of her nature forbid ,thy child to seek ,thee in the fair forms of truth8 ,and1 can her soul be sullied by the knowledge that awfully calls her to ,thee8 ,i have then philosophically pursued these reflections till ,i inferred1 that those women who have most improved their reason must have the most modesty --though a dignified sedateness of deportment may have succeeded the playful1 bewitching bashfulness of youth499 799,footnote4 ,modesty1 is the graceful calm virtue of maturity2 bashfulness1 the charm of vivacious youth47 ,and thus have ,i argued4 ,to render chastity the virtue from which unsophisticated modesty will naturally flow1 the attention should be called away from employments1 which only exercise the sensibility2 and the heart made to beat time to humanity1 rather than to throb with love4 ,the woman who has dedicated a considerable portion of her time to pursuits purely intellectual1 and whose affections have been exercised by humane plans of usefulness1 must have more purity of mind1 as a natural consequence1 than the ignorant beings whose time and thoughts have been occupied by gay pleasures or schemes to conquer hearts4 ,the regulation of the behaviour is not modesty1 though those who study rules of decorum1 are1 in general termed modest women4 ,make the heart clean1 let it expand and feel for all that is human1 instead of being narrowed by selfish passions2 and let the mind frequently contemplate subjects that exercise the understanding1 without heating the imagination1 and artless modesty will give the finishing touches to the picture4 ,she who can discern the dawn of immortality1 in the streaks that shoot athwart the misty night of ignorance1 promising a clearer day1 will respect1 as a sacred temple1 the body that enshrines such an improvable soul4 ,true love1 likewise1 spreads this kind of mysterious sanctity round the beloved object1 making the lover most modest when in her presence4 ,so reserved is affection1 that1 receiving or returning personal endearments1 it wishes1 not only to shun the human eye1 as a kind of profanation2 but to diffuse an encircling cloudy obscurity to shut out even the saucy sparkling sunbeams4 ,yet1 that affection does not deserve the epithet of chaste which does not receive a sublime gloom of tender melancholy1 that allows the mind for a moment to stand still and enjoy the present satisfaction1 when a consciousness of the ,divine presence is felt--for this must ever be the food of joy6 ,as ,i have always been fond of tracing to its source in nature any prevailing custom1 ,i have frequently thought that it was a sentiment of affection for whatever had touched the person of an absent or lost friend1 which gave birth to that respect for relics1 so much abused by selfish priests4 ,devotion1 or love1 may be allowed to hallow the garments as well as the person2 for the lover must want fancy1 who has not a sort of sacred respect for the glove or slipper of his mistress4 ,he could not confound them with vulgar things of the same kind4 ,this fine sentiment1 perhaps1 would not bear to be analyzed by the experimental philosopher--but of such stuff is human rapture made up6-- ,a shadowy phantom glides before us1 obscuring every other object2 yet when the soft cloud is grasped1 the form melts into common air1 leaving a solitary void1 or sweet perfume1 stolen from the violet1 that memory long holds dear4 ,but1 ,i have tripped unawares on fairy ground1 feeling the balmy gale of spring stealing on me1 though ,november frowns4 ,as a sex1 women are more chaste than men1 and as modesty is the effect of chastity1 they may deserve to have this virtue ascribed to them in rather an appropriated sense2 yet1 ,i must be allowed to add an hesitating if3-- for ,i doubt1 whether chastity will produce modesty1 though it may propriety of conduct1 when it is merely a respect for the opinion of the world1 and when coquetry and the lovelorn tales of novelists employ the thoughts4 ,nay1 from experience1 and reason1 ,i should be lead to expect to meet with more modesty amongst men than women1 simply because men exercise their understandings more than women4 ,but1 with respect to propriety of behaviour1 excepting one class of females1 women have evidently the advantage4 ,what can be more disgusting than that impudent dross of gallantry1 thought so manly1 which makes many men stare insultingly at every female they meet8 ,is this respect for the sex8 ,this loose behaviour shows such habitual depravity1 such weakness of mind1 that it is vain to expect much public or private virtue1 till both men and women grow more modest--till men1 curbing a sensual fondness for the sex1 or an affectation of manly assurance1 more properly speaking1 impudence1 treat each other with respect--unless appetite or passion gives the tone1 peculiar to it1 to their behaviour4 ,i mean even personal respect--the modest respect of humanity1 and fellow-feeling2 not the libidinous mockery of gallantry1 nor the insolent condescension of protectorship4 ,to carry the observation still further1 modesty must heartily disclaim1 and refuse to dwell with that debauchery of mind1 which leads a man coolly to bring forward1 without a blush1 indecent allusions1 or obscene witticisms1 in the presence of a fellow creature2 women are now out of the question1 for then it is brutality4 ,respect for man1 as man is the foundation of every noble sentiment4 ,how much more modest is the libertine who obeys the call of appetite or fancy1 than the lewd joker who sets the table in a roar4 ,this is one of the many instances in which the sexual distinction respecting modesty has proved fatal to virtue and happiness4 ,it is1 however1 carried still further1 and woman1 weak woman6 made by her education the slave of sensibility1 is required1 on the most trying occasions1 to resist that sensibility4 ,can any thing1 says ,knox1 be more absurd than keeping women in a state of ignorance1 and yet so vehemently to insist on their resisting temptation8 ,thus when virtue or honour make it proper to check a passion1 the burden is thrown on the weaker shoulders1 contrary to reason and true modesty1 which1 at least1 should render the self-denial mutual1 to say nothing of the generosity of bravery1 supposed to be a manly virtue4 ,in the same strain runs ,rousseau's and ,dr4 ,gregory's advice respecting modesty1 strangely miscalled6 for they both desire a wife to leave it in doubt1 whether sensibility or weakness led her to her husband's arms4 ,the woman is immodest who can let the shadow of such a doubt remain on her husband's mind a moment4 ,but to state the subject in a different light4 ,the want of modesty1 which ,i principally deplore as subversive of morality1 arises from the state of warfare so strenuously supported by voluptuous men as the very essence of modesty1 though1 in fact1 its bane2 because it is a refinement on sensual desire1 that men fall into who have not sufficient virtue to relish the innocent pleasures of love4 ,a man of delicacy carries his notions of modesty still further1 for neither weakness nor sensibility will gratify him--he looks for affection4 ,again2 men boast of their triumphs over women1 what do they boast of8 ,truly the creature of sensibility was surprised by her sensibility into folly--into vice299 and the dreadful reckoning falls heavily on her own weak head1 when reason wakes4 ,for where art thou to find comfort1 forlorn and disconsolate one8 ,he who ought to have directed thy reason1 and supported thy weakness1 has betrayed thee6 ,in a dream of passion thou consentedst to wander through flowery lawns1 and heedlessly stepping over the precipice to which thy guide1 instead of guarding1 lured thee1 thou startest from thy dream only to face a sneering1 frowning world1 and to find thyself alone in a waste1 for he that triumphed in thy weakness is now pursuing new conquests2 but for thee--there is no redemption on this side the grave6 ,and what resource hast thou in an enervated mind to raise a sinking heart8 799,footnote4 ,the poor moth fluttering round a candle1 burns its wings47 ,but1 if the sexes be really to live in a state of warfare1 if nature has pointed it out1 let men act nobly1 or let pride whisper to them1 that the victory is mean when they merely vanquish sensibility4 ,the real conquest is that over affection not taken by surprise--when1 like ,heloisa1 a woman gives up all the world1 deliberately1 for love4 ,i do not now consider the wisdom or virtue of such a sacrifice1 ,i only contend that it was a sacrifice to affection1 and not merely to sensibility1 though she had her share4 ,and ,i must be allowed to call her a modest woman1 before ,i dismiss this part of the subject1 by saying1 that till men are more chaste1 women will be immodest4 ,where1 indeed1 could modest women find husbands from whom they would not continually turn with disgust8 ,modesty must be equally cultivated by both sexes1 or it will ever remain a sickly hot-house plant1 whilst the affectation of it1 the fig leaf borrowed by wantonness1 may give a zest to voluptuous enjoyments47 ,men will probably still insist that woman ought to have more modesty than man2 but it is not dispassionate reasoners who will most earnestly oppose my opinion4 ,no1 they are the men of fancy1 the favourites of the sex1 who outwardly respect1 and inwardly despise the weak creatures whom they thus sport with4 ,they cannot submit to resign the highest sensual gratification1 nor even to relish the epicurism of virtue--self-denial4 ,to take another view of the subject1 confining my remarks to women4 ,the ridiculous falsities which are told to children1 from mistaken notions of modesty1 tend very early to inflame their imaginations and set their little minds to work1 respecting subjects1 which nature never intended they should think of1 till the body arrived at some degree of maturity2 then the passions naturally begin to take place of the senses1 as instruments to unfold the understanding1 and form the moral character4 ,in nurseries1 and boarding schools1 ,i fear1 girls are first spoiled2 particularly in the latter4 ,a number of girls sleep in the same room1 and wash together4 ,and1 though ,i should be sorry to contaminate an innocent creature's mind by instilling false delicacy1 or those indecent prudish notions1 which early cautions respecting the other sex naturally engender1 ,i should be very anxious to prevent their acquiring indelicate1 or immodest habits2 and as many girls have learned very indelicate tricks1 from ignorant servants1 the mixing them thus indiscriminately together1 is very improper4 ,to say the truth1 women are1 in general1 too familiar with each other1 which leads to that gross degree of familiarity that so frequently renders the marriage state unhappy4 ,why in the name of decency are sisters1 female intimates1 or ladies and their waiting women1 to be so grossly familiar as to forget the respect which one human creature owes to another8 ,that squeamish delicacy which shrinks from the most disgusting offices when affection or humanity lead us to watch at a sick pillow1 is despicable4 ,but1 why women in health should be more familiar with each other than men are1 when they boast of their superiour delicacy1 is a solecism in manners which ,i could never solve4 ,in order to preserve health and beauty1 ,i should earnestly recommend frequent ablutions1 to dignify my advice that it may not offend the fastidious ear2 and1 by example1 girls ought to be taught to wash and dress alone1 without any distinction of rank2 and if custom should make them require some little assistance1 let them not require it till that part of the business is over which ought never to be done before a fellow-creature2 because it is an insult to the majesty of human nature4 ,not on the score of modesty1 but decency2 for the care which some modest women take1 making at the same time a display of that care1 not to let their legs be seen1 is as childish as immodest499 799,footnote4 ,i remember to have met with a sentence1 in a book of education that made me smile4 ,it would be needless to caution you against putting your hand1 by chance1 under your neck-handkerchief2 for a modest woman never did so67 ,i could proceed still further1 till ,i animadverted on some still more indelicate customs1 which men never fall into4 ,secrets are told--where silence ought to reign2 and that regard to cleanliness1 which some religious sects have1 perhaps1 carried too far1 especially the ,essenes1 amongst the ,jews1 by making that an insult to ,god which is only an insult to humanity1 is violated in a brutal manner4 ,how can ,,delicate women obtrude on notice that part of the animal economy1 which is so very disgusting8 ,and is it not very rational to conclude1 that the women who have not been taught to respect the human nature of their own sex1 in these particulars1 will not long respect the mere difference of sex1 in their husbands8 ,after their maidenish bashfulness is once lost1 ,i1 in fact1 have generally observed1 that women fall into old habits2 and treat their husbands as they did their sisters or female acquaintance4 ,besides1 women from necessity1 because their minds are not cultivated1 have recourse very often1 to what ,i familiarly term bodily wit2 and their intimacies are of the same kind4 ,in short1 with respect to both mind and body1 they are too intimate4 ,that decent personal reserve1 which is the foundation of dignity of character1 must be kept up between women1 or their minds will never gain strength or modesty4 ,on this account also1 ,i object to many females being shut up together in nurseries1 schools1 or convents4 ,i cannot recollect without indignation1 the jokes and hoiden tricks1 which knots of young women indulged themselves in1 when in my youth accident threw me1 an awkward rustic1 in their way4 ,they were almost on a par with the double meanings1 which shake the convivial table when the glass has circulated freely4 ,but it is vain to attempt to keep the heart pure1 unless the head is furnished with ideas1 and set to work to compare them1 in order1 to acquire judgment1 by generalizing simple ones2 and modesty by making the understanding damp the sensibility4 ,it may be thought that ,i lay too great a stress on personal reserve2 but it is ever the hand-maid of modesty4 ,so that were ,i to name the graces that ought to adorn beauty1 ,i should instantly exclaim1 cleanliness1 neatness1 and personal reserve4 ,it is obvious1 ,i suppose1 that the reserve ,i mean1 has nothing sexual in it1 and that ,i think it ,,equally necessary in both sexes4 ,so necessary indeed1 is that reserve and cleanliness which indolent women too often neglect1 that ,i will venture to affirm1 that when two or three women live in the same house1 the one will be most respected by the male part of the family1 who reside with them1 leaving love entirely out of the question1 who pays this kind of habitual respect to her person4 ,when domestic friends meet in a morning1 there will naturally prevail an affectionate seriousness1 especially1 if each look forward to the discharge of daily duties2 and it may be reckoned fanciful1 but this sentiment has frequently risen spontaneously in my mind4 ,i have been pleased after breathing the sweet bracing morning air1 to see the same kind of freshness in the countenances ,i particularly loved2 ,i was glad to see them braced1 as it were1 for the day1 and ready to run their course with the sun4 ,the greetings of affection in the morning are by these means more respectful1 than the familiar tenderness which frequently prolongs the evening talk4 ,nay1 ,i have often felt hurt1 not to say disgusted1 when a friend has appeared1 whom ,i parted with full dressed the evening before1 with her clothes huddled on1 because she chose to indulge herself in bed till the last moment4 ,domestic affection can only be kept alive by these neglected attentions2 yet if men and women took half as much pains to dress habitually neat1 as they do to ornament1 or rather to disfigure their persons1 much would be done towards the attainment of purity of mind4 ,but women only dress to gratify men of gallantry2 for the lover is always best pleased with the simple garb that sits close to the shape4 ,there is an impertinence in ornaments that rebuffs affection2 because love always clings round the idea of home4 ,as a sex1 women are habitually indolent2 and every thing tends to make them so4 ,i do not forget the starts of activity which sensibility produces2 but as these flights of feeling only increase the evil1 they are not to be confounded with the slow1 orderly walk of reason4 ,so great1 in reality1 is their mental and bodily indolence1 that till their body be strengthened and their understanding enlarged by active exertions1 there is little reason to expect that modesty will take place of bashfulness4 ,they may find it prudent to assume its semblance2 but the fair veil will only be worn on gala days4 ,perhaps there is not a virtue that mixes so kindly with every other as modesty4 ,it is the pale moon-beam that renders more interesting every virtue it softens1 giving mild grandeur to the contracted horizon4 ,nothing can be more beautiful than the poetical fiction1 which makes ,diana with her silver crescent1 the goddess of chastity4 ,i have sometimes thought1 that wandering with sedate step in some lonely recess1 a modest dame of antiquity must have felt a glow of conscious dignity1 when1 after contemplating the soft shadowy landscape1 she has invited with placid fervour the mild reflection of her sister's beams to turn to her chaste bosom4 ,a ,christian has still nobler motives to incite her to preserve her chastity and acquire modesty1 for her body has been called the ,temple of the living ,god2 of that ,god who requires more than modesty of mien4 ,his eye searcheth the heart2 and let her remember1 that if she hopeth to find favour in the sight of purity itself1 her chastity must be founded on modesty1 and not on worldly prudence2 or verily a good reputation will be her only reward2 for that awful intercourse1 that sacred communion1 which virtue establishes between man and his ,maker1 must give rise to the wish of being pure as he is pure6 ,after the foregoing remarks1 it is almost superfluous to add1 that ,i consider all those feminine airs of maturity1 which succeed bashfulness1 to which truth is sacrificed1 to secure the heart of a husband1 or rather to force him to be still a lover when nature would1 had she not been interrupted in her operations1 have made love give place to friendship1 as immodest4 ,the tenderness which a man will feel for the mother of his children is an excellent substitute for the ardour of unsatisfied passion2 but to prolong that ardour it is indelicate1 not to say immodest1 for women to feign an unnatural coldness of constitution4 ,women as well as men ought to have the common appetites and passions of their nature1 they are only brutal when unchecked by reason3 but the obligation to check them is the duty of mankind1 not a sexual duty4 ,nature1 in these respects1 may safely be left to herself2 let women only acquire knowledge and humanity1 and love will teach them modesty4 ,there is no need of falsehoods1 disgusting as futile1 for studied rules of behaviour only impose on shallow observers2 a man of sense soon sees through1 and despises the affectation4 ,the behaviour of young people1 to each other1 as men and women1 is the last thing that should be thought of in education4 ,in fact1 behaviour in most circumstances is now so much thought of1 that simplicity of character is rarely to be seen2 yet1 if men were only anxious to cultivate each virtue1 and let it take root firmly in the mind1 the grace resulting from it1 its natural exteriour mark1 would soon strip affectation of its flaunting plumes2 because1 fallacious as unstable1 is the conduct that is not founded upon truth6 7,footnote4 ,the behaviour of many newly married women has often disgusted me4 ,they seem anxious never to let their husbands forget the privilege of marriage1 and to find no pleasure in his society unless he is acting the lover4 ,short1 indeed1 must be the reign of love1 when the flame is thus constantly blown up1 without its receiving any solid fuel47 ,would ye1 ,o my sisters1 really possess modesty1 ye must remember that the possession of virtue1 of any denomination1 is incompatible with ignorance and vanity6 ye must acquire that soberness of mind1 which the exercise of duties1 and the pursuit of knowledge1 alone inspire1 or ye will still remain in a doubtful dependent situation1 and only be loved whilst ye are fair6 the downcast eye1 the rosy blush1 the retiring grace1 are all proper in their season2 but modesty1 being the child of reason1 cannot long exist with the sensibility that is not tempered by reflection4 ,besides1 when love1 even innocent love1 is the whole employ of your lives1 your hearts will be too soft to afford modesty that tranquil retreat1 where she delights to dwell1 in close union with humanity4 ,,chapter #h4 ,,morality ,,undermined ,,by ,,sexual ,,notions ,,of ,,the ,,importance ,,of ,a ,,good ,,reputation4 ,it has long since occurred to me1 that advice respecting behaviour1 and all the various modes of preserving a good reputation1 which have been so strenuously inculcated on the female world1 were specious poisons1 that incrusting morality eat away the substance4 ,and1 that this measuring of shadows produced a false calculation1 because their length depends so much on the height of the sun1 and other adventitious circumstances4 ,from whence arises the easy fallacious behaviour of a courtier8 ,from this situation1 undoubtedly3 for standing in need of dependents1 he is obliged to learn the art of denying without giving offence1 and1 of evasively feeding hope with the chameleon's food2 thus does politeness sport with truth1 and eating away the sincerity and humanity natural to man1 produce the fine gentleman4 ,women in the same way acquire1 from a supposed necessity1 an equally artificial mode of behaviour4 ,yet truth is not with impunity to be sported with1 for the practised dissembler1 at last1 becomes the dupe of his own arts1 loses that sagacity which has been justly termed common sense2 namely1 a quick perception of common truths3 which are constantly received as such by the unsophisticated mind1 though it might not have had sufficient energy to discover them itself1 when obscured by local prejudices4 ,the greater number of people take their opinions on trust1 to avoid the trouble of exercising their own minds1 and these indolent beings naturally adhere to the letter1 rather than the spirit of a law1 divine or human4 ,women1 says some author1 ,i cannot recollect who1 mind not what only heaven sees4 ,why1 indeed should they8 it is the eye of man that they have been taught to dread--and if they can lull their ,argus to sleep1 they seldom think of heaven or themselves1 because their reputation is safe2 and it is reputation not chastity and all its fair train1 that they are employed to keep free from spot1 not as a virtue1 but to preserve their station in the world4 ,to prove the truth of this remark1 ,i need only advert to the intrigues of married women1 particularly in high life1 and in countries where women are suitably married1 according to their respective ranks by their parents4 ,if an innocent girl become a prey to love1 she is degraded forever1 though her mind was not polluted by the arts which married women1 under the convenient cloak of marriage1 practise2 nor has she violated any duty--but the duty of respecting herself4 ,the married woman1 on the contrary1 breaks a most sacred engagement1 and becomes a cruel mother when she is a false and faithless wife4 ,if her husband has still an affection for her1 the arts which she must practise to deceive him1 will render her the most contemptible of human beings2 and at any rate1 the contrivances necessary to preserve appearances1 will keep her mind in that childish or vicious tumult which destroys all its energy4 ,besides1 in time1 like those people who habitually take cordials to raise their spirits1 she will want an intrigue to give life to her thoughts1 having lost all relish for pleasures that are not highly seasoned by hope or fear4 ,sometimes married women act still more audaciously2 ,i will mention an instance4 ,a woman of quality1 notorious for her gallantries1 though as she still lived with her husband1 nobody chose to place her in the class where she ought to have been placed1 made a point of treating with the most insulting contempt a poor timid creature1 abashed by a sense of her former weakness1 whom a neighbouring gentleman had seduced and afterwards married4 ,this woman had actually confounded virtue with reputation2 and1 ,i do believe1 valued herself on the propriety of her behaviour before marriage1 though when once settled1 to the satisfaction of her family1 she and her lord were equally faithless--so that the half alive heir to an immense estate came from heaven knows where6 ,to view this subject in another light4 ,i have known a number of women who1 if they did not love their husbands1 loved nobody else1 giving themselves entirely up to vanity and dissipation1 neglecting every domestic duty2 nay1 even squandering away all the money which should have been saved for their helpless younger children1 yet have plumed themselves on their unsullied reputation1 as if the whole compass of their duty as wives and mothers was only to preserve it4 ,whilst other indolent women1 neglecting every personal duty1 have thought that they deserved their husband's affection1 because they acted in this respect with propriety4 ,weak minds are always fond of resting in the ceremonials of duty1 but morality offers much simpler motives2 and it were to be wished that superficial moralists had said less respecting behaviour1 and outward observances1 for unless virtue1 of any kind1 is built on knowledge1 it will only produce a kind of insipid decency4 ,respect for the opinion of the world1 has1 however1 been termed the principal duty of woman in the most express words1 for ,rousseau declares1 that reputation is no less indispensable than chastity4 ,a man1 adds he1 secure in his own good conduct1 depends only on himself1 and may brave the public opinion2 but a woman1 in behaving well1 performs but half her duty2 as what is thought of her1 is as important to her as what she really is4 ,it follows hence1 that the system of a woman's education should1 in this respect1 be directly contrary to that of ours4 ,opinion is the grave of virtue among the men2 but its throne among women4 ,it is strictly logical to infer1 that the virtue that rests on opinion is merely worldly1 and that it is the virtue of a being to whom reason has been denied4 ,but1 even with respect to the opinion of the world1 ,i am convinced1 that this class of reasoners are mistaken4 ,this regard for reputation1 independent of its being one of the natural rewards of virtue1 however1 took its rise from a cause that ,i have already deplored as the grand source of female depravity1 the impossibility of regaining respectability by a return to virtue1 though men preserve theirs during the indulgence of vice4 ,it was natural for women then to endeavour to preserve what once lost--was lost for ever1 till this care swallowing up every other care1 reputation for chastity1 became the one thing needful to the sex4 ,but vain is the scrupulosity of ignorance1 for neither religion nor virtue1 when they reside in the heart1 require such a puerile attention to mere ceremonies1 because the behaviour must1 upon the whole be proper1 when the motive is pure4 ,to support my opinion ,i can produce very respectable authority2 and the authority of a cool reasoner ought to have weight to enforce consideration1 though not to establish a sentiment4 ,speaking of the general laws of morality1 ,dr4 ,smith observes--,that by some very extraordinary and unlucky circumstance1 a good man may come to be suspected of a crime of which he was altogether incapable1 and upon that account be most unjustly exposed for the remaining part of his life to the horror and aversion of mankind4 ,by an accident of this kind he may be said to lose his all1 notwithstanding his integrity and justice1 in the same manner as a cautious man1 notwithstanding his utmost circumspection1 may be ruined by an earthquake or an inundation4 ,accidents of the first kind1 however1 are perhaps still more rare1 and still more contrary to the common course of things than those of the second2 and it still remains true1 that the practice of truth1 justice and humanity1 is a certain and almost infallible method of acquiring what those virtues chiefly aim at1 the confidence and love of those we live with4 ,a person may be easily misrepresented with regard to a particular action2 but it is scarcely possible that he should be so with regard to the general tenor of his conduct4 ,an innocent man may be believed to have done wrong3 this1 however1 will rarely happen4 ,on the contrary1 the established opinion of the innocence of his manners will often lead us to absolve him where he has really been in the fault1 notwithstanding very strong presumptions4 ,i perfectly coincide in opinion with this writer1 for ,i verily believe1 that few of either sex were ever despised for certain vices without deserving to be despised4 ,i speak not of the calumny of the moment1 which hangs over a character1 like one of the dense fogs of ,november over this metropolis1 till it gradually subsides before the common light of day1 ,i only contend1 that the daily conduct of the majority prevails to stamp their character with the impression of truth4 ,quietly does the clear light1 shining day after day1 refute the ignorant surmise1 or malicious tale1 which has thrown dirt on a pure character4 ,a false light distorted1 for a short time1 its shadow--reputation2 but it seldom fails to become just when the cloud is dispersed that produced the mistake in vision4 ,many people1 undoubtedly in several respects1 obtain a better reputation than1 strictly speaking1 they deserve1 for unremitting industry will mostly reach its goal in all races4 ,they who only strive for this paltry prize1 like the ,pharisees1 who prayed at the corners of streets1 to be seen of men1 verily obtain the reward they seek2 for the heart of man cannot be read by man6 ,still the fair fame that is naturally reflected by good actions1 when the man is only employed to direct his steps aright1 regardless of the lookers-on1 is in general1 not only more true but more sure4 ,there are1 it is true1 trials when the good man must appeal to ,god from the injustice of man2 and amidst the whining candour or hissing of envy1 erect a pavilion in his own mind to retire to1 till the rumour be overpast2 nay1 the darts of undeserved censure may pierce an innocent tender bosom through with many sorrows2 but these are all exceptions to general rules4 ,and it is according to these common laws that human behaviour ought to be regulated4 ,the eccentric orbit of the comet never influences astronomical calculations respecting the invariable order established in the motion of the principal bodies of the solar system4 ,i will then venture to affirm1 that after a man has arrived at maturity1 the general outline of his character in the world is just1 allowing for the before mentioned exceptions to the rule4 ,i do not say1 that a prudent1 worldly-wise man1 with only negative virtues and qualities1 may not sometimes obtain a smoother reputation than a wiser or a better man4 ,so far from it1 that ,i am apt to conclude from experience1 that where the virtue of two people is nearly equal1 the most negative character will be liked best by the world at large1 whilst the other may have more friends in private life4 ,but the hills and dales1 clouds and sunshine1 conspicuous in the virtues of great men1 set off each other2 and though they afford envious weakness a fairer mark to shoot at1 the real character will still work its way to light1 though bespattered by weak affection1 or ingenious malice499 799,footnote4 ,i allude to various biographical writings1 but particularly to ,boswell's ,life of ,johnson47 ,with respect to that anxiety to preserve a reputation hardly earned1 which leads sagacious people to analyze it1 ,i shall not make the obvious comment2 but ,i am afraid that morality is very insidiously undermined1 in the female world1 by the attention being turned to the show instead of the substance4 ,a simple thing is thus made strangely complicated2 nay1 sometimes virtue and its shadow are set at variance4 ,we should never1 perhaps1 have heard of ,lucretia1 had she died to preserve her chastity instead of her reputation4 ,if we really deserve our own good opinion1 we shall commonly be respected in the world2 but if we pant after higher improvement and higher attainments1 it is not sufficient to view ourselves as we suppose that we are viewed by others1 though this has been ingeniously argued as the foundation of our moral sentiments4 7,smith47 ,because each bystander may have his own prejudices1 besides the prejudices of his age or country4 ,we should rather endeavour to view ourselves1 as we suppose that ,being views us1 who seeth each thought ripen into action1 and whose judgment never swerves from the eternal rule of right4 ,righteous are all his judgments--just1 as merciful6 ,the humble mind that seeketh to find favour in ,his sight1 and calmly examines its conduct when only ,his presence is felt1 will seldom form a very erroneous opinion of its own virtues4 ,during the still hour of self-collection1 the angry brow of offended justice will be fearfully deprecated1 or the tie which draws man to the ,deity will be recognized in the pure sentiment of reverential adoration1 that swells the heart without exciting any tumultuous emotions4 ,in these solemn moments man discovers the germ of those vices1 which like the ,java tree shed a pestiferous vapour around--death is in the shade6 and he perceives them without abhorrence1 because he feels himself drawn by some cord of love to all his fellow creatures1 for whose follies he is anxious to find every extenuation in their nature--in himself4 ,if ,i1 he may thus argue1 who exercise my own mind1 and have been refined by tribulation1 find the serpent's egg in some fold of my heart1 and crush it with difficulty1 shall not ,i pity those who are stamped with less vigour1 or who have heedlessly nurtured the insidious reptile till it poisoned the vital stream it sucked8 ,can ,i1 conscious of my secret sins1 throw off my fellow creatures1 and calmly see them drop into the chasm of perdition1 that yawns to receive them4 ,no6 no6 ,the agonized heart will cry with suffocating impatience--,i too am a man6 and have vices1 hid1 perhaps1 from human eye1 that bend me to the dust before ,god1 and loudly tell me when all is mute1 that we are formed of the same earth1 and breathe the same element4 ,humanity thus rises naturally out of humility1 and twists the cords of love that in various convolutions entangle the heart4 ,this sympathy extends still further1 till a man well pleased observes force in arguments that do not carry conviction to his own bosom1 and he gladly places in the fairest light to himself1 the shows of reason that have led others astray1 rejoiced to find some reason in all the errors of man2 though before convinced that he who rules the day makes his sun to shine on all4 ,yet1 shaking hands thus1 as it were1 with corruption1 one foot on earth1 the other with bold strides mounts to heaven1 and claims kindred with superiour natures4 ,virtues1 unobserved by men1 drop their balmy fragrance at this cool hour1 and the thirsty land1 refreshed by the pure streams of comfort that suddenly gush out1 is crowned with smiling verdure2 this is the living green on which that eye may look with complacency that is too pure to behold iniquity6 ,but my spirits flag2 and ,i must silently indulge the reverie these reflections lead to1 unable to describe the sentiments that have calmed my soul1 when watching the rising sun1 a soft shower drizzling through the leaves of neighbouring trees1 seemed to fall on my languid1 yet tranquil spirits1 to cool the heart that had been heated by the passions which reason laboured to tame4 ,the leading principles which run through all my disquisitions1 would render it unnecessary to enlarge on this subject1 if a constant attention to keep the varnish of the character fresh1 and in good condition1 were not often inculcated as the sum total of female duty2 if rules to regulate the behaviour1 and to preserve the reputation1 did not too frequently supersede moral obligations4 ,but1 with respect to reputation1 the attention is confined to a single virtue--chastity4 ,if the honour of a woman1 as it is absurdly called1 is safe1 she may neglect every social duty2 nay1 ruin her family by gaming and extravagance2 yet still present a shameless front --for truly she is an honourable woman6 ,mrs4 ,macaulay has justly observed1 that there is but one fault which a woman of honour may not commit with impunity4 ,she then justly and humanely adds--,this has given rise to the trite and foolish observation1 that the first fault against chastity in woman has a radical power to deprave the character4 ,but no such frail beings come out of the hands of nature4 ,the human mind is built of nobler materials than to be so easily corrupted2 and with all their disadvantages of situation and education1 women seldom become entirely abandoned till they are thrown into a state of desperation1 by the venomous rancour of their own sex4 ,but1 in proportion as this regard for the reputation of chastity is prized by women1 it is despised by men3 and the two extremes are equally destructive to morality4 ,men are certainly more under the influence of their appetites than women2 and their appetites are more depraved by unbridled indulgence1 and the fastidious contrivances of satiety4 ,luxury has introduced a refinement in eating that destroys the constitution2 and1 a degree of gluttony which is so beastly1 that a perception of seemliness of behaviour must be worn out before one being could eat immoderately in the presence of another1 and afterwards complain of the oppression that his intemperance naturally produced4 ,some women1 particularly ,french women1 have also lost a sense of decency in this respect2 for they will talk very calmly of an indigestion4 ,it were to be wished1 that idleness was not allowed to generate1 on the rank soil of wealth1 those swarms of summer insects that feed on putrefaction2 we should not then be disgusted by the sight of such brutal excesses4 ,there is one rule relative to behaviour that1 ,i think1 ought to regulate every other2 and it is simply to cherish such an habitual respect for mankind1 as may prevent us from disgusting a fellow creature for the sake of a present indulgence4 ,the shameful indolence of many married women1 and others a little advanced in life1 frequently leads them to sin against delicacy4 ,for1 though convinced that the person is the band of union between the sexes1 yet1 how often do they from sheer indolence1 or to enjoy some trifling indulgence1 disgust8 ,the depravity of the appetite1 which brings the sexes together1 has had a still more fatal effect4 ,nature must ever be the standard of taste1 the guage of appetite--yet how grossly is nature insulted by the voluptuary4 ,leaving the refinements of love out of the question2 nature1 by making the gratification of an appetite1 in this respect1 as well as every other1 a natural and imperious law to preserve the species1 exalts the appetite1 and mixes a little mind and affection with a sensual gust4 ,the feelings of a parent mingling with an instinct merely animal1 give it dignity2 and the man and woman often meeting on account of the child1 a mutual interest and affection is excited by the exercise of a common sympathy4 ,women then having necessarily some duty to fulfil1 more noble than to adorn their persons1 would not contentedly be the slaves of casual appetite1 which is now the situation of a very considerable number who are1 literally speaking1 standing dishes to which every glutton may have access4 ,i may be told1 that great as this enormity is1 it only affects a devoted part of the sex--devoted for the salvation of the rest4 ,but1 false as every assertion might easily be proved1 that recommends the sanctioning a small evil to produce a greater good2 the mischief does not stop here1 for the moral character1 and peace of mind1 of the chaster part of the sex1 is undermined by the conduct of the very women to whom they allow no refuge from guilt3 whom they inexorably consign to the exercise of arts that lure their husbands from them1 debauch their sons and force them1 let not modest women start1 to assume1 in some degree1 the same character themselves4 ,for ,i will venture to assert1 that all the causes of female weakness1 as well as depravity1 which ,i have already enlarged on1 branch out of one grand cause--want of chastity in men4 ,this intemperance1 so prevalent1 depraves the appetite to such a degree1 that a wanton stimulus is necessary to rouse it2 but the parental design of nature is forgotten1 and the mere person1 and that1 for a moment1 alone engrosses the thoughts4 ,so voluptuous1 indeed1 often grows the lustful prowler1 that he refines on female softness4 ,to satisfy this genius of men1 women are made systematically voluptuous1 and though they may not all carry their libertinism to the same height1 yet this heartless intercourse with the sex1 which they allow themselves1 depraves both sexes1 because the taste of men is vitiated2 and women1 of all classes1 naturally square their behaviour to gratify the taste by which they obtain pleasure and power4 ,women becoming1 consequently weaker1 in mind and body1 than they ought to be1 were one of the grand ends of their being taken into the account1 that of bearing and nursing children1 have not sufficient strength to discharge the first duty of a mother2 and sacrificing to lasciviousness the parental affection1 that ennobles instinct1 either destroy the embryo in the womb1 or cast it off when born4 ,nature in every thing demands respect1 and those who violate her laws seldom violate them with impunity4 ,the weak enervated women who particularly catch the attention of libertines1 are unfit to be mothers1 though they may conceive2 so that the rich sensualist1 who has rioted among women1 spreading depravity and misery1 when he wishes to perpetuate his name1 receives from his wife only an half-formed being that inherits both its father's and mother's weakness4 ,contrasting the humanity of the present age with the barbarism of antiquity1 great stress has been laid on the savage custom of exposing the children whom their parents could not maintain2 whilst the man of sensibility1 who thus1 perhaps1 complains1 by his promiscuous amours produces a most destructive barrenness and contagious flagitiousness of manners4 ,surely nature never intended that women1 by satisfying an appetite1 should frustrate the very purpose for which it was implanted8 ,i have before observed1 that men ought to maintain the women whom they have seduced2 this would be one means of reforming female manners1 and stopping an abuse that has an equally fatal effect on population and morals4 ,another1 no less obvious1 would be to turn the attention of woman to the real virtue of chastity2 for to little respect has that woman a claim1 on the score of modesty1 though her reputation may be white as the driven snow1 who smiles on the libertine whilst she spurns the victims of his lawless appetites and their own folly4 ,besides1 she has a taint of the same folly1 pure as she esteems herself1 when she studiously adorns her person only to be seen by men1 to excite respectful sighs1 and all the idle homage of what is called innocent gallantry4 ,did women really respect virtue for its own sake1 they would not seek for a compensation in vanity1 for the self-denial which they are obliged to practise to preserve their reputation1 nor would they associate with men who set reputation at defiance4 ,the two sexes mutually corrupt and improve each other4 ,this ,i believe to be an indisputable truth1 extending it to every virtue4 ,chastity1 modesty1 public spirit1 and all the noble train of virtues1 on which social virtue and happiness are built1 should be understood and cultivated by all mankind1 or they will be cultivated to little effect4 ,and1 instead of furnishing the vicious or idle with a pretext for violating some sacred duty1 by terming it a sexual one1 it would be wiser to show1 that nature has not made any difference1 for that the unchaste man doubly defeats the purpose of nature by rendering women barren1 and destroying his own constitution1 though he avoids the shame that pursues the crime in the other sex4 ,these are the physical consequences1 the moral are still more alarming2 for virtue is only a nominal distinction when the duties of citizens1 husbands1 wives1 fathers1 mothers1 and directors of families1 become merely the selfish ties of convenience4 ,why then do philosophers look for public spirit8 ,public spirit must be nurtured by private virtue1 or it will resemble the factitious sentiment which makes women careful to preserve their reputation1 and men their honour4 ,a sentiment that often exists unsupported by virtue1 unsupported by that sublime morality which makes the habitual breach of one duty a breach of the whole moral law4 ,,chapter #i4 ,,of ,,the ,,pernicious ,,effects ,,which ,,arise ,,from ,,the ,,unnatural ,,distinctions ,,established ,,in ,,society4 ,from the respect paid to property flow1 as from a poisoned fountain1 most of the evils and vices which render this world such a dreary scene to the contemplative mind4 ,for it is in the most polished society that noisome reptiles and venomous serpents lurk under the rank herbage2 and there is voluptuousness pampered by the still sultry air1 which relaxes every good disposition before it ripens into virtue4 ,one class presses on another2 for all are aiming to procure respect on account of their property3 and property1 once gained1 will procure the respect due only to talents and virtue4 ,men neglect the duties incumbent on man1 yet are treated like demi-gods2 religion is also separated from morality by a ceremonial veil1 yet men wonder that the world is almost1 literally speaking1 a den of sharpers or oppressors4 ,there is a homely proverb1 which speaks a shrewd truth1 that whoever the devil finds idle he will employ4 ,and what but habitual idleness can hereditary wealth and titles produce8 ,for man is so constituted that he can only attain a proper use of his faculties by exercising them1 and will not exercise them unless necessity1 of some kind1 first set the wheels in motion4 ,virtue likewise can only be acquired by the discharge of relative duties2 but the importance of these sacred duties will scarcely be felt by the being who is cajoled out of his humanity by the flattery of sycophants4 ,there must be more equality established in society1 or morality will never gain ground1 and this virtuous equality will not rest firmly even when founded on a rock1 if one half of mankind are chained to its bottom by fate1 for they will be continually undermining it through ignorance or pride4 ,it is vain to expect virtue from women till they are1 in some degree1 independent of men2 nay1 it is vain to expect that strength of natural affection1 which would make them good wives and good mothers4 ,whilst they are absolutely dependent on their husbands1 they will be cunning1 mean1 and selfish1 and the men who can be gratified by the fawning fondness1 of spaniel-like affection1 have not much delicacy1 for love is not to be bought1 in any sense of the word1 its silken wings are instantly shrivelled up when any thing beside a return in kind is sought4 ,yet whilst wealth enervates men2 and women live1 as it were1 by their personal charms1 how1 can we expect them to discharge those ennobling duties which equally require exertion and self-denial4 ,hereditary property sophisticates the mind1 and the unfortunate victims to it1 if ,i may so express myself1 swathed from their birth1 seldom exert the locomotive faculty of body or mind2 and1 thus viewing every thing through one medium1 and that a false one1 they are unable to discern in what true merit and happiness consist4 ,false1 indeed1 must be the light when the drapery of situation hides the man1 and makes him stalk in masquerade1 dragging from one scene of dissipation to another the nerveless limbs that hang with stupid listlessness1 and rolling round the vacant eye which plainly tells us that there is no mind at home4 ,i mean1 therefore1 to infer1 that the society is not properly organized which does not compel men and women to discharge their respective duties1 by making it the only way to acquire that countenance from their fellow creatures1 which every human being wishes some way to attain4 ,the respect1 consequently1 which is paid to wealth and mere personal charms1 is a true north-east blast1 that blights the tender blossoms of affection and virtue4 ,nature has wisely attached affections to duties1 to sweeten toil1 and to give that vigour to the exertions of reason which only the heart can give4 ,but1 the affection which is put on merely because it is the appropriated insignia of a certain character1 when its duties are not fulfilled is one of the empty compliments which vice and folly are obliged to pay to virtue and the real nature of things4 ,to illustrate my opinion1 ,i need only observe1 that when a woman is admired for her beauty1 and suffers herself to be so far intoxicated by the admiration she receives1 as to neglect to discharge the indispensable duty of a mother1 she sins against herself by neglecting to cultivate an affection that would equally tend to make her useful and happy4 ,true happiness1 ,i mean all the contentment1 and virtuous satisfaction that can be snatched in this imperfect state1 must arise from well regulated affections2 and an affection includes a duty4 ,men are not aware of the misery they cause1 and the vicious weakness they cherish1 by only inciting women to render themselves pleasing2 they do not consider1 that they thus make natural and artificial duties clash1 by sacrificing the comfort and respectability of a woman's life to voluptuous notions of beauty1 when in nature they all harmonize4 ,cold would be the heart of a husband1 were he not rendered unnatural by early debauchery1 who did not feel more delight at seeing his child suckled by its mother1 than the most artful wanton tricks could ever raise2 yet this natural way of cementing the matrimonial tie1 and twisting esteem with fonder recollections1 wealth leads women to spurn4 ,to preserve their beauty1 and wear the flowery crown of the day1 that gives them a kind of right to reign for a short time over the sex1 they neglect to stamp impressions on their husbands' hearts1 that would be remembered with more tenderness when the snow on the head began to chill the bosom1 than even their virgin charms4 ,the maternal solicitude of a reasonable affectionate woman is very interesting1 and the chastened dignity with which a mother returns the caresses that she and her child receive from a father who has been fulfilling the serious duties of his station1 is not only a respectable1 but a beautiful sight4 ,so singular1 indeed1 are my feelings1 and ,i have endeavoured not to catch factitious ones1 that after having been fatigued with the sight of insipid grandeur and the slavish ceremonies that with cumberous pomp supplied the place of domestic affections1 ,i have turned to some other scene to relieve my eye1 by resting it on the refreshing green every where scattered by nature4 ,i have then viewed with pleasure a woman nursing her children1 and discharging the duties of her station with1 perhaps1 merely a servant made to take off her hands the servile part of the household business4 ,i have seen her prepare herself and children1 with only the luxury of cleanliness1 to receive her husband1 who returning weary home in the evening1 found smiling babes and a clean hearth4 ,my heart has loitered in the midst of the group1 and has even throbbed with sympathetic emotion1 when the scraping of the well known foot has raised a pleasing tumult4 ,whilst my benevolence has been gratified by contemplating this artless picture1 ,i have thought that a couple of this description1 equally necessary and independent of each other1 because each fulfilled the respective duties of their station1 possessed all that life could give4 ,raised sufficiently above abject poverty not to be obliged to weigh the consequence of every farthing they spend1 and having sufficient to prevent their attending to a frigid system of economy which narrows both heart and mind4 ,i declare1 so vulgar are my conceptions1 that ,i know not what is wanted to render this the happiest as well as the most respectable situation in the world1 but a taste for literature1 to throw a little variety and interest into social converse1 and some superfluous money to give to the needy1 and to buy books4 ,for it is not pleasant when the heart is opened by compassion1 and the head active in arranging plans of usefulness1 to have a prim urchin continually twitching back the elbow to prevent the hand from drawing out an almost empty purse1 whispering at the same time some prudential maxim about the priority of justice4 ,destructive1 however1 as riches and inherited honours are to the human character1 women are more debased and cramped1 if possible by them1 than men1 because men may still1 in some degree1 unfold their faculties by becoming soldiers and statesmen4 ,as soldiers1 ,i grant1 they can now only gather1 for the most part1 vainglorious laurels1 whilst they adjust to a hair the ,european balance1 taking especial care that no bleak northern nook or sound incline the beam4 ,but the days of true heroism are over1 when a citizen fought for his country like a ,fabricius or a ,washington1 and then returned to his farm to let his virtuous fervour run in a more placid1 but not a less salutary stream4 ,no1 our ,british heroes are oftener sent from the gaming table than from the plough2 and their passions have been rather inflamed by hanging with dumb suspense on the turn of a die1 than sublimated by panting after the adventurous march of virtue in the historic page4 ,the statesman1 it is true1 might with more propriety quit the ,faro ,bank1 or card-table1 to guide the helm1 for he has still but to shuffle and trick4 ,the whole system of ,british politics1 if system it may courteously be called1 consisting in multiplying dependents and contriving taxes which grind the poor to pamper the rich2 thus a war1 or any wild goose chace is1 as the vulgar use the phrase1 a lucky turn-up of patronage for the minister1 whose chief merit is the art of keeping himself in place4 ,it is not necessary then that he should have bowels for the poor1 so he can secure for his family the odd trick4 ,or should some show of respect1 for what is termed with ignorant ostentation an ,englishman's birth-right1 be expedient to bubble the gruff mastiff that he has to lead by the nose1 he can make an empty show1 very safely1 by giving his single voice1 and suffering his light squadron to file off to the other side4 ,and when a question of humanity is agitated1 he may dip a sop in the milk of human kindness1 to silence ,cerberus1 and talk of the interest which his heart takes in an attempt to make the earth no longer cry for vengeance as it sucks in its children's blood1 though his cold hand may at the very moment rivet their chains1 by sanctioning the abominable traffick4 ,a minister is no longer a minister than while he can carry a point1 which he is determined to carry4 ,yet it is not necessary that a minister should feel like a man1 when a bold push might shake his seat4 ,but1 to have done with these episodical observations1 let me return to the more specious slavery which chains the very soul of woman1 keeping her for ever under the bondage of ignorance4 ,the preposterous distinctions of rank1 which render civilization a curse1 by dividing the world between voluptuous tyrants1 and cunning envious dependents1 corrupt1 almost equally1 every class of people1 because respectability is not attached to the discharge of the relative duties of life1 but to the station1 and when the duties are not fulfilled1 the affections cannot gain sufficient strength to fortify the virtue of which they are the natural reward4 ,still there are some loop-holes out of which a man may creep1 and dare to think and act for himself2 but for a woman it is an herculean task1 because she has difficulties peculiar to her sex to overcome1 which require almost super-human powers4 ,a truly benevolent legislator always endeavours to make it the interest of each individual to be virtuous2 and thus private virtue becoming the cement of public happiness1 an orderly whole is consolidated by the tendency of all the parts towards a common centre4 ,but1 the private or public virtue of women is very problematical2 for ,rousseau1 and a numerous list of male writers1 insist that she should all her life1 be subjected to a severe restraint1 that of propriety4 ,why subject her to propriety--blind propriety1 if she be capable of acting from a nobler spring1 if she be an heir of immortality8 ,is sugar always to be produced by vital blood8 ,is one half of the human species1 like the poor ,african slaves1 to be subject to prejudices that brutalize them1 when principles would be a surer guard only to sweeten the cup of man8 ,is not this indirectly to deny women reason8 for a gift is a mockery1 if it be unfit for use4 ,women are in common with men1 rendered weak and luxurious by the relaxing pleasures which wealth procures2 but added to this1 they are made slaves to their persons1 and must render them alluring1 that man may lend them his reason to guide their tottering steps aright4 ,or should they be ambitious1 they must govern their tyrants by sinister tricks1 for without rights there cannot be any incumbent duties4 ,the laws respecting woman1 which ,i mean to discuss in a future part1 make an absurd unit of a man and his wife2 and then1 by the easy transition of only considering him as responsible1 she is reduced to a mere cypher4 ,the being who discharges the duties of its station1 is independent2 and1 speaking of women at large1 their first duty is to themselves as rational creatures1 and the next1 in point of importance1 as citizens1 is that1 which includes so many1 of a mother4 ,the rank in life which dispenses with their fulfilling this duty1 necessarily degrades them by making them mere dolls4 ,or1 should they turn to something more important than merely fitting drapery upon a smooth block1 their minds are only occupied by some soft platonic attachment2 or1 the actual management of an intrigue may keep their thoughts in motion2 for when they neglect domestic duties1 they have it not in their power to take the field and march and counter-march like soldiers1 or wrangle in the senate to keep their faculties from rusting4 ,i know1 that as a proof of the inferiority of the sex1 ,rousseau has exultingly exclaimed1 ,how can they leave the nursery for the camp6 ,and the camp has by some moralists been termed the school of the most heroic virtues2 though1 ,i think1 it would puzzle a keen casuist to prove the reasonableness of the greater number of wars1 that have dubbed heroes4 ,i do not mean to consider this question critically2 because1 having frequently viewed these freaks of ambition as the first natural mode of civilization1 when the ground must be torn up1 and the woods cleared by fire and sword1 ,i do not choose to call them pests2 but surely the present system of war1 has little connection with virtue of any denomination1 being rather the school of ,,finesse and effeminacy1 than of fortitude4 ,yet1 if defensive war1 the only justifiable war1 in the present advanced state of society1 where virtue can show its face and ripen amidst the rigours which purify the air on the mountain's top1 were alone to be adopted as just and glorious1 the true heroism of antiquity might again animate female bosoms4 ,but fair and softly1 gentle reader1 male or female1 do not alarm thyself1 for though ,i have contrasted the character of a modern soldier with that of a civilized woman1 ,i am not going to advise them to turn their distaff into a musket1 though ,i sincerely wish to see the bayonet converted into a pruning hook4 ,i only recreated an imagination1 fatigued by contemplating the vices and follies which all proceed from a feculent stream of wealth that has muddied the pure rills of natural affection1 by supposing that society will some time or other be so constituted1 that man must necessarily fulfil the duties of a citizen1 or be despised1 and that while he was employed in any of the departments of civil life1 his wife1 also an active citizen1 should be equally intent to manage her family1 educate her children1 and assist her neighbours4 ,but1 to render her really virtuous and useful1 she must not1 if she discharge her civil duties1 want1 individually1 the protection of civil laws2 she must not be dependent on her husband's bounty for her subsistence during his life1 or support after his death--for how can a being be generous who has nothing of its own8 or1 virtuous1 who is not free8 ,the wife1 in the present state of things1 who is faithful to her husband1 and neither suckles nor educates her children1 scarcely deserves the name of a wife1 and has no right to that of a citizen4 ,but take away natural rights1 and there is of course an end of duties4 ,women thus infallibly become only the wanton solace of men1 when they are so weak in mind and body1 that they cannot exert themselves1 unless to pursue some frothy pleasure1 or to invent some frivolous fashion4 ,what can be a more melancholy sight to a thinking mind1 than to look into the numerous carriages that drive helter-skelter about this metropolis in a morning1 full of pale-faced creatures who are flying from themselves4 ,i have often wished1 with ,dr4 ,johnson1 to place some of them in a little shop1 with half a dozen children looking up to their languid countenances for support4 ,i am much mistaken1 if some latent vigour would not soon give health and spirit to their eyes1 and some lines drawn by the exercise of reason on the blank cheeks1 which before were only undulated by dimples1 might restore lost dignity to the character1 or rather enable it to attain the true dignity of its nature4 ,virtue is not to be acquired even by speculation1 much less by the negative supineness that wealth naturally generates4 ,besides1 when poverty is more disgraceful than even vice1 is not morality cut to the quick8 ,still to avoid misconstruction1 though ,i consider that women in the common walks of life are called to fulfil the duties of wives and mothers1 by religion and reason1 ,i cannot help lamenting that women of a superiour cast have not a road open by which they can pursue more extensive plans of usefulness and independence4 ,i may excite laughter1 by dropping an hint1 which ,i mean to pursue1 some future time1 for ,i really think that women ought to have representatives1 instead of being arbitrarily governed without having any direct share allowed them in the deliberations of government4 ,but1 as the whole system of representation is now1 in this country1 only a convenient handle for despotism1 they need not complain1 for they are as well represented as a numerous class of hard working mechanics1 who pay for the support of royality when they can scarcely stop their children's mouths with bread4 ,how are they represented1 whose very sweat supports the splendid stud of an heir apparent1 or varnishes the chariot of some female favourite who looks down on shame8 ,taxes on the very necessaries of life1 enable an endless tribe of idle princes and princesses to pass with stupid pomp before a gaping crowd1 who almost worship the very parade which costs them so dear4 ,this is mere gothic grandeur1 something like the barbarous1 useless parade of having sentinels on horseback at ,whitehall1 which ,i could never view without a mixture of contempt and indignation4 ,how strangely must the mind be sophisticated when this sort of state impresses it6 ,but till these monuments of folly are levelled by virtue1 similar follies will leaven the whole mass4 ,for the same character1 in some degree1 will prevail in the aggregate of society3 and the refinements of luxury1 or the vicious repinings of envious poverty1 will equally banish virtue from society1 considered as the characteristic of that society1 or only allow it to appear as one of the stripes of the harlequin coat1 worn by the civilized man4 ,in the superiour ranks of life1 every duty is done by deputies1 as if duties could ever be waved1 and the vain pleasures which consequent idleness forces the rich to pursue1 appear so enticing to the next rank1 that the numerous scramblers for wealth sacrifice every thing to tread on their heels4 ,the most sacred trusts are then considered as sinecures1 because they were procured by interest1 and only sought to enable a man to keep ,,good ,,company4 ,women1 in particular1 all want to be ladies4 ,which is simply to have nothing to do1 but listlessly to go they scarcely care where1 for they cannot tell what4 ,but what have women to do in society8 ,i may be asked1 but to loiter with easy grace2 surely you would not condemn them all to suckle fools1 and chronicle small beer6 ,no4 ,women might certainly study the art of healing1 and be physicians as well as nurses4 ,and midwifery1 decency seems to allot to them1 though ,i am afraid the word midwife1 in our dictionaries1 will soon give place to accoucheur1 and one proof of the former delicacy of the sex be effaced from the language4 ,they might1 also study politics1 and settle their benevolence on the broadest basis2 for the reading of history will scarcely be more useful than the perusal of romances1 if read as mere biography2 if the character of the times1 the political improvements1 arts1 etc4 be not observed4 ,in short1 if it be not considered as the history of man2 and not of particular men1 who filled a niche in the temple of fame1 and dropped into the black rolling stream of time1 that silently sweeps all before it1 into the shapeless void called eternity4 ,for shape can it be called1 that shape hath none8 ,business of various kinds1 they might likewise pursue1 if they were educated in a more orderly manner1 which might save many from common and legal prostitution4 ,women would not then marry for a support1 as men accept of places under government1 and neglect the implied duties2 nor would an attempt to earn their own subsistence1 a most laudable one6 sink them almost to the level of those poor abandoned creatures who live by prostitution4 ,for are not milliners and mantuamakers reckoned the next class8 ,the few employments open to women1 so far from being liberal1 are menial2 and when a superior education enables them to take charge of the education of children as governesses1 they are not treated like the tutors of sons1 though even clerical tutors are not always treated in a manner calculated to render them respectable in the eyes of their pupils1 to say nothing of the private comfort of the individual4 ,but as women educated like gentlewomen1 are never designed for the humiliating situation which necessity sometimes forces them to fill2 these situations are considered in the light of a degradation2 and they know little of the human heart1 who need to be told1 that nothing so painfully sharpens the sensibility as such a fall in life4 ,some of these women might be restrained from marrying by a proper spirit or delicacy1 and others may not have had it in their power to escape in this pitiful way from servitude2 is not that government then very defective1 and very unmindful of the happiness of one half of its members1 that does not provide for honest1 independent women1 by encouraging them to fill respectable stations8 ,but in order to render their private virtue a public benefit1 they must have a civil existence in the state1 married or single2 else we shall continually see some worthy woman1 whose sensibility has been rendered painfully acute by undeserved contempt1 droop like the lily broken down by a plough share4 ,it is a melancholy truth2 yet such is the blessed effects of civilization6 the most respectable women are the most oppressed2 and1 unless they have understandings far superiour to the common run of understandings1 taking in both sexes1 they must1 from being treated like contemptible beings1 become contemptible4 ,how many women thus waste life away1 the prey of discontent1 who might have practised as physicians1 regulated a farm1 managed a shop1 and stood erect1 supported by their own industry1 instead of hanging their heads surcharged with the dew of sensibility1 that consumes the beauty to which it at first gave lustre2 nay1 ,i doubt whether pity and love are so near a-kin as poets feign1 for ,i have seldom seen much compassion excited by the helplessness of females1 unless they were fair2 then1 perhaps1 pity was the soft handmaid of love1 or the harbinger of lust4 ,how much more respectable is the woman who earns her own bread by fulfilling any duty1 than the most accomplished beauty6 beauty did ,i say8 so sensible am ,i of the beauty of moral loveliness1 or the harmonious propriety that attunes the passions of a well-regulated mind1 that ,i blush at making the comparison2 yet ,i sigh to think how few women aim at attaining this respectability1 by withdrawing from the giddy whirl of pleasure1 or the indolent calm that stupifies the good sort of women it sucks in4 ,proud of their weakness1 however1 they must always be protected1 guarded from care1 and all the rough toils that dignify the mind4 ,if this be the fiat of fate1 if they will make themselves insignificant and contemptible1 sweetly to waste life away1 let them not expect to be valued when their beauty fades1 for it is the fate of the fairest flowers to be admired and pulled to pieces by the careless hand that plucked them4 ,in how many ways do ,i wish1 from the purest benevolence1 to impress this truth on my sex2 yet ,i fear that they will not listen to a truth1 that dear-bought experience has brought home to many an agitated bosom1 nor willingly resign the privileges of rank and sex for the privileges of humanity1 to which those have no claim who do not discharge its duties4 ,those writers are particularly useful1 in my opinion1 who make man feel for man1 independent of the station he fills1 or the drapery of factitious sentiments4 ,i then would fain convince reasonable men of the importance of some of my remarks and prevail on them to weigh dispassionately the whole tenor of my observations4 ,i appeal to their understandings2 and1 as a fellow-creature claim1 in the name of my sex1 some interest in their hearts4 ,i entreat them to assist to emancipate their companion to make her a help meet for them6 ,would men but generously snap our chains1 and be content with rational fellowship1 instead of slavish obedience1 they would find us more observant daughters1 more affectionate sisters1 more faithful wives1 more reasonable mothers--in a word1 better citizens4 ,we should then love them with true affection1 because we should learn to respect ourselves2 and the peace of mind of a worthy man would not be interrupted by the idle vanity of his wife1 nor his babes sent to nestle in a strange bosom1 having never found a home in their mother's4 ,,chapter #aj4 ,,parental ,,affection4 ,parental affection is1 perhaps1 the blindest modification of perverse self-love2 for we have not1 like the ,french two terms 7,l'amour propre1 ,l'amour de soi meme7 to distinguish the pursuit of a natural and reasonable desire1 from the ignorant calculations of weakness4 ,parents often love their children in the most brutal manner1 and sacrifice every relative duty to promote their advancement in the world4 ,to promote1 such is the perversity of unprincipled prejudices1 the future welfare of the very beings whose present existence they imbitter by the most despotic stretch of power4 ,power1 in fact1 is ever true to its vital principle1 for in every shape it would reign without controul or inquiry4 ,its throne is built across a dark abyss1 which no eye must dare to explore1 lest the baseless fabric should totter under investigation4 ,obedience1 unconditional obedience1 is the catch-word of tyrants of every description1 and to render assurance doubly sure1 one kind of despotism supports another4 ,tyrants would have cause to tremble if reason were to become the rule of duty in any of the relations of life1 for the light might spread till perfect day appeared4 ,and when it did appear1 how would men smile at the sight of the bugbears at which they started during the night of ignorance1 or the twilight of timid inquiry4 ,parental affection1 indeed1 in many minds1 is but a pretext to tyrannize where it can be done with impunity1 for only good and wise men are content with the respect that will bear discussion4 ,convinced that they have a right to what they insist on1 they do not fear reason1 or dread the sifting of subjects that recur to natural justice3 because they firmly believe1 that the more enlightened the human mind becomes1 the deeper root will just and simple principles take4 ,they do not rest in expedients1 or grant that what is metaphysically true can be practically false2 but disdaining the shifts of the moment they calmly wait till time1 sanctioning innovation1 silences the hiss of selfishness or envy4 ,if the power of reflecting on the past1 and darting the keen eye of contemplation into futurity1 be the grand privilege of man1 it must be granted that some people enjoy this prerogative in a very limited degree4 ,every thing now appears to them wrong2 and not able to distinguish the possible from the monstrous1 they fear where no fear should find a place1 running from the light of reason as if it were a firebrand2 yet the limits of the possible have never been defined to stop the sturdy innovator's hand4 ,woman1 however1 a slave in every situation to prejudice seldom exerts enlightened maternal affection2 for she either neglects her children1 or spoils them by improper indulgence4 ,besides1 the affection of some women for their children is1 as ,i have before termed it1 frequently very brutish2 for it eradicates every spark of humanity4 ,justice1 truth1 every thing is sacrificed by these ,rebekahs1 and for the sake of their own children they violate the most sacred duties1 forgetting the common relationship that binds the whole family on earth together4 ,yet1 reason seems to say1 that they who suffer one duty1 or affection to swallow up the rest1 have not sufficient heart or mind to fulfil that one conscientiously4 ,it then loses the venerable aspect of a duty1 and assumes the fantastic form of a whim4 ,as the care of children in their infancy is one of the grand duties annexed to the female character by nature1 this duty would afford many forcible arguments for strengthening the female understanding1 if it were properly considered4 ,the formation of the mind must be begun very early1 and the temper1 in particular1 requires the most judicious attention--an attention which women cannot pay who only love their children because they are their children1 and seek no further for the foundation of their duty1 than in the feelings of the moment4 ,it is this want of reason in their affections which makes women so often run into extremes1 and either be the most fond1 or most careless and unnatural mothers4 ,to be a good mother--a woman must have sense1 and that independence of mind which few women possess who are taught to depend entirely on their husbands4 ,meek wives are1 in general1 foolish mothers2 wanting their children to love them best1 and take their part1 in secret1 against the father1 who is held up as a scarecrow4 ,if they are to be punished1 though they have offended the mother1 the father must inflict the punishment2 he must be the judge in all disputes3 but ,i shall more fully discuss this subject when ,i treat of private education1 ,i now only mean to insist1 that unless the understanding of woman be enlarged1 and her character rendered more firm1 by being allowed to govern her own conduct1 she will never have sufficient sense or command of temper to manage her children properly4 ,her parental affection1 indeed1 scarcely deserves the name1 when it does not lead her to suckle her children1 because the discharge of this duty is equally calculated to inspire maternal and filial affection2 and it is the indispensable duty of men and women to fulfil the duties which give birth to affections that are the surest preservatives against vice4 ,natural affection1 as it is termed1 ,i believe to be a very weak tie1 affections must grow out of the habitual exercise of a mutual sympathy2 and what sympathy does a mother exercise who sends her babe to a nurse1 and only takes it from a nurse to send it to a school8 ,in the exercise of their natural feelings1 providence has furnished women with a natural substitute for love1 when the lover becomes only a friend and mutual confidence takes place of overstrained admiration--a child then gently twists the relaxing cord1 and a mutual care produces a new mutual sympathy4 ,but a child1 though a pledge of affection1 will not enliven it1 if both father and mother are content to transfer the charge to hirelings2 for they who do their duty by proxy should not murmur if they miss the reward of duty--parental affection produces filial duty4 ,,chapter #aa4 ,,duty ,,to ,,parents4 ,there seems to be an indolent propensity in man to make prescription always take place of reason1 and to place every duty on an arbitrary foundation4 ,the rights of kings are deduced in a direct line from the ,king of kings2 and that of parents from our first parent4 ,why do we thus go back for principles that should always rest on the same base1 and have the same weight to-day that they had a thousand years ago--and not a jot more8 ,if parents discharge their duty they have a strong hold and sacred claim on the gratitude of their children2 but few parents are willing to receive the respectful affection of their offspring on such terms4 ,they demand blind obedience1 because they do not merit a reasonable service3 and to render these demands of weakness and ignorance more binding1 a mysterious sanctity is spread round the most arbitrary principle2 for what other name can be given to the blind duty of obeying vicious or weak beings1 merely because they obeyed a powerful instinct8 ,the simple definition of the reciprocal duty1 which naturally subsists between parent and child1 may be given in a few words3 ,the parent who pays proper attention to helpless infancy has a right to require the same attention when the feebleness of age comes upon him4 ,but to subjugate a rational being to the mere will of another1 after he is of age to answer to society for his own conduct1 is a most cruel and undue stretch of power2 and perhaps as injurious to morality1 as those religious systems which do not allow right and wrong to have any existence1 but in the ,divine will4 ,i never knew a parent who had paid more than common attention to his children1 disregarded 7,dr4 ,johnson makes the same observation472 on the contrary1 the early habit of relying almost implicitly on the opinion of a respected parent is not easily shaken1 even when matured reason convinces the child that his father is not the wisest man in the world4 ,this weakness1 for a weakness it is1 though the epithet ,,amiable may be tacked to it1 a reasonable man must steel himself against2 for the absurd duty1 too often inculcated1 of obeying a parent only on account of his being a parent1 shackles the mind1 and prepares it for a slavish submission to any power but reason4 ,i distinguish between the natural and accidental duty due to parents4 ,the parent who sedulously endeavours to form the heart and enlarge the understanding of his child1 has given that dignity to the discharge of a duty1 common to the whole animal world1 that only reason can give4 ,this is the parental affection of humanity1 and leaves instinctive natural affection far behind4 ,such a parent acquires all the rights of the most sacred friendship1 and his advice1 even when his child is advanced in life1 demands serious consideration4 ,with respect to marriage1 though after one and twenty a parent seems to have no right to withhold his consent on any account2 yet twenty years of solicitude call for a return1 and the son ought1 at least1 to promise not to marry for two or three years1 should the object of his choice not entirely meet with the approbation of his first friend4 ,but1 respect for parents is1 generally speaking1 a much more debasing principle2 it is only a selfish respect for property4 ,the father who is blindly obeyed1 is obeyed from sheer weakness1 or from motives that degrade the human character4 ,a great proportion of the misery that wanders1 in hideous forms around the world1 is allowed to rise from the negligence of parents2 and still these are the people who are most tenacious of what they term a natural right1 though it be subversive of the birth right of man1 the right of acting according to the direction of his own reason4 ,i have already very frequently had occasion to observe1 that vicious or indolent people are always eager to profit by enforcing arbitrary privileges2 and generally in the same proportion as they neglect the discharge of the duties which alone render the privileges reasonable4 ,this is at the bottom1 a dictate of common sense1 or the instinct of self-defence1 peculiar to ignorant weakness2 resembling that instinct1 which makes a fish muddy the water it swims in to elude its enemy1 instead of boldly facing it in the clear stream4 ,from the clear stream of argument1 indeed1 the supporters of prescription1 of every denomination1 fly3 and taking refuge in the darkness1 which1 in the language of sublime poetry1 has been supposed to surround the throne of ,omnipotence1 they dare to demand that implicit respect which is only due to ,his unsearchable ways4 ,but1 let me not be thought presumptuous1 the darkness which hides our ,god from us1 only respects speculative truths-- it never obscures moral ones1 they shine clearly1 for ,god is light1 and never1 by the constitution of our nature1 requires the discharge of a duty1 the reasonableness of which does not beam on us when we open our eyes4 ,the indolent parent of high rank may1 it is true1 extort a show of respect from his child1 and females on the continent are particularly subject to the views of their families1 who never think of consulting their inclination1 or providing for the comfort of the poor victims of their pride4 ,the consequence is notorious2 these dutiful daughters become adulteresses1 and neglect the education of their children1 from whom they1 in their turn1 exact the same kind of obedience4 ,females1 it is true1 in all countries1 are too much under the dominion of their parents2 and few parents think of addressing their children in the following manner1 though it is in this reasonable way that ,heaven seems to command the whole human race4 ,it is your interest to obey me till you can judge for yourself2 and the ,almighty ,father of all has implanted an affection in me to serve as a guard to you whilst your reason is unfolding2 but when your mind arrives at maturity1 you must only obey me1 or rather respect my opinions1 so far as they coincide with the light that is breaking in on your own mind4 ,a slavish bondage to parents cramps every faculty of the mind2 and ,mr4 ,locke very judiciously observes1 that if the mind be curbed and humbled too much in children2 if their spirits be abased and broken much by too strict an hand over them2 they lose all their vigour and industry4 ,this strict hand may1 in some degree1 account for the weakness of women2 for girls1 from various causes1 are more kept down by their parents1 in every sense of the word1 than boys4 ,the duty expected from them is1 like all the duties arbitrarily imposed on women1 more from a sense of propriety1 more out of respect for decorum1 than reason2 and thus taught slavishly to submit to their parents1 they are prepared for the slavery of marriage4 ,i may be told that a number of women are not slaves in the marriage state4 ,true1 but they then become tyrants2 for it is not rational freedom1 but a lawless kind of power1 resembling the authority exercised by the favourites of absolute monarchs1 which they obtain by debasing means4 ,i do not1 likewise1 dream of insinuating that either boys or girls are always slaves1 ,i only insist1 that when they are obliged to submit to authority blindly1 their faculties are weakened1 and their tempers rendered imperious or abject4 ,i also lament1 that parents1 indolently availing themselves of a supposed privilege1 damp the first faint glimmering of reason rendering at the same time the duty1 which they are so anxious to enforce1 an empty name2 because they will not let it rest on the only basis on which a duty can rest securely3 for1 unless it be founded on knowledge1 it cannot gain sufficient strength to resist the squalls of passion1 or the silent sapping of self-love4 ,but it is not the parents who have given the surest proof of their affection for their children1 7or1 to speak more properly1 who by fulfilling their duty1 have allowed a natural parental affection to take root in their hearts1 the child of exercised sympathy and reason1 and not the over-weening offspring of selfish pride17 who most vehemently insist on their children submitting to their will1 merely because it is their will4 ,on the contrary1 the parent who sets a good example1 patiently lets that example work2 and it seldom fails to produce its natural effect--filial respect4 ,children cannot be taught too early to submit to reason1 the true definition of that necessity1 which ,rousseau insisted on1 without defining it2 for to submit to reason1 is to submit to the nature of things1 and to that ,god who formed them so1 to promote our real interest4 ,why should the minds of children be warped as they just begin to expand1 only to favour the indolence of parents1 who insist on a privilege without being willing to pay the price fixed by nature8 ,i have before had occasion to observe1 that a right always includes a duty1 and ,i think it may1 likewise fairly be inferred1 that they forfeit the right1 who do not fulfil the duty4 ,it is easier1 ,i grant1 to command than reason2 but it does not follow from hence1 that children cannot comprehend the reason why they are made to do certain things habitually2 for1 from a steady adherence to a few simple principles of conduct flows that salutary power1 which a judicious parent gradually gains over a child's mind4 ,and this power becomes strong indeed1 if tempered by an even display of affection brought home to the child's heart4 ,for1 ,i believe1 as a general rule1 it must be allowed1 that the affection which we inspire always resembles that we cultivate2 so that natural affections1 which have been supposed almost distinct from reason1 may be found more nearly connected with judgment than is commonly allowed4 ,nay1 as another proof of the necessity of cultivating the female understanding1 it is but just to observe1 that the affections seem to have a kind of animal capriciousness when they merely reside in the heart4 ,it is the irregular exercise of parental authority that first injures the mind1 and to these irregularities girls are more subject than boys4 ,the will of those who never allow their will to be disputed1 unless they happen to be in a good humour1 when they relax proportionally1 is almost always unreasonable4 ,to elude this arbitrary authority1 girls very early learn the lessons which they afterwards practise on their husbands2 for ,i have frequently seen a little sharp-faced miss rule a whole family1 excepting that now and then mamma's anger will burst out of some accidental cloud-- either her hair was ill-dressed199 or she had lost more money at cards1 the night before1 than she was willing to own to her husband2 or some such moral cause of anger4 799,footnote4 ,i myself heard a little girl once say to a servant1 ,my mamma has been scolding me finely this morning1 because her hair was not dressed to please her4 ,though this remark was pert1 it was just4 ,and what respect could a girl acquire for such a parent1 without doing violence to reason87 ,after observing sallies of this kind1 ,i have been led into a melancholy train of reflection respecting females1 concluding that when their first affection must lead them astray1 or make their duties clash till they rest on mere whims and customs1 little can be expected from them as they advance in life4 ,how1 indeed1 can an instructor remedy this evil8 for to teach them virtue on any solid principle is to teach them to despise their parents4 ,children cannot1 ought not to be taught to make allowance for the faults of their parents1 because every such allowance weakens the force of reason in their minds1 and makes them still more indulgent to their own4 ,it is one of the most sublime virtues of maturity that leads us to be severe with respect to ourselves1 and forbearing to others2 but children should only be taught the simple virtues1 for if they begin too early to make allowance for human passions and manners1 they wear off the fine edge of the criterion by which they should regulate their own1 and become unjust in the same proportion as they grow indulgent4 ,the affections of children1 and weak people1 are always selfish2 they love others1 because others love them1 and not on account of their virtues4 ,yet1 till esteem and love are blended together in the first affection1 and reason made the foundation of the first duty1 morality will stumble at the threshold4 ,but1 till society is very differently constituted1 parents1 ,i fear1 will still insist on being obeyed1 because they will be obeyed1 and constantly endeavour to settle that power on a ,divine right1 which will not bear the investigation of reason4 ,,chapter #ab4 ,,on ,,national ,,education4 ,the good effects resulting from attention to private education will ever be very confined1 and the parent who really puts his own hand to the plow1 will always1 in some degree be disappointed1 till education becomes a grand national concern4 ,a man cannot retire into a desert with his child1 and if he did1 he could not bring himself back to childhood1 and become the proper friend and play-fellow of an infant or youth4 ,and when children are confined to the society of men and women1 they very soon acquire that kind of premature manhood which stops the growth of every vigorous power of mind or body4 ,in order to open their faculties they should be excited to think for themselves2 and this can only be done by mixing a number of children together1 and making them jointly pursue the same objects4 ,a child very soon contracts a benumbing indolence of mind1 which he has seldom sufficient vigour to shake off1 when he only asks a question instead of seeking for information1 and then relies implicitly on the answer he receives4 ,with his equals in age this could never be the case1 and the subjects of inquiry1 though they might be influenced1 would not be entirely under the direction of men1 who frequently damp1 if not destroy abilities1 by bringing them forward too hastily3 and too hastily they will infallibly be brought forward1 if the child could be confined to the society of a man1 however sagacious that man may be4 ,besides1 in youth the seeds of every affection should be sown1 and the respectful regard1 which is felt for a parent1 is very different from the social affections that are to constitute the happiness of life as it advances4 ,of these1 equality is the basis1 and an intercourse of sentiments unclogged by that observant seriousness which prevents disputation1 though it may not inforce submission4 ,let a child have ever such an affection for his parent1 he will always languish to play and chat with children2 and the very respect he entertains1 for filial esteem always has a dash of fear mixed with it1 will1 if it do not teach him cunning1 at least prevent him from pouring out the little secrets which first open the heart to friendship and confidence1 gradually leading to more expansive benevolence4 ,added to this1 he will never acquire that frank ingenuousness of behaviour1 which young people can only attain by being frequently in society1 where they dare to speak what they think2 neither afraid of being reproved for their presumption1 nor laughed at for their folly4 ,forcibly impressed by the reflections which the sight of schools1 as they are at present conducted1 naturally suggested1 ,i have formerly delivered my opinion rather warmly in favour of a private education2 but further experience has led me to view the subject in a different light4 ,i still1 however1 think schools1 as they are now regulated1 the hot-beds of vice and folly1 and the knowledge of human nature1 supposed to be attained there1 merely cunning selfishness4 ,at school1 boys become gluttons and slovens1 and1 instead of cultivating domestic affections1 very early rush into the libertinism which destroys the constitution before it is formed2 hardening the heart as it weakens the understanding4 ,i should1 in fact1 be averse to boarding-schools1 if it were for no other reason than the unsettled state of mind which the expectation of the vacations produce4 ,on these the children's thoughts are fixed with eager anticipating hopes1 for1 at least1 to speak with moderation1 half of the time1 and when they arrive they are spent in total dissipation and beastly indulgence4 ,but1 on the contrary1 when they are brought up at home1 though they may pursue a plan of study in a more orderly manner than can be adopted1 when near a fourth part of the year is actually spent in idleness1 and as much more in regret and anticipation2 yet they there acquire too high an opinion of their own importance1 from being allowed to tyrannize over servants1 and from the anxiety expressed by most mothers1 on the score of manners1 who1 eager to teach the accomplishments of a gentleman1 stifle1 in their birth1 the virtues of a man4 ,thus brought into company when they ought to be seriously employed1 and treated like men when they are still boys1 they become vain and effeminate4 ,the only way to avoid two extremes equally injurious to morality1 would be to contrive some way of combining a public and private education4 ,thus to make men citizens1 two natural steps might be taken1 which seem directly to lead to the desired point2 for the domestic affections1 that first open the heart to the various modifications of humanity would be cultivated1 whilst the children were nevertheless allowed to spend great part of their time1 on terms of equality1 with other children4 ,i still recollect1 with pleasure1 the country day school2 where a boy trudged in the morning1 wet or dry1 carrying his books1 and his dinner1 if it were at a considerable distance2 a servant did not then lead master by the hand1 for1 when he had once put on coat and breeches1 he was allowed to shift for himself1 and return alone in the evening to recount the feats of the day close at the parental knee4 ,his father's house was his home1 and was ever after fondly remembered2 nay1 ,i appeal to some superior men who were educated in this manner1 whether the recollection of some shady lane where they conned their lesson2 or1 of some stile1 where they sat making a kite1 or mending a bat1 has not endeared their country to them8 ,but1 what boy ever recollected with pleasure the years he spent in close confinement1 at an academy near ,london8 unless indeed he should by chance remember the poor scare-crow of an usher whom he tormented2 or1 the tartman1 from whom he caught a cake1 to devour it with the cattish appetite of selfishness4 ,at boarding schools of every description1 the relaxation of the junior boys is mischief2 and of the senior1 vice4 ,besides1 in great schools what can be more prejudicial to the moral character1 than the system of tyranny and abject slavery which is established amongst the boys1 to say nothing of the slavery to forms1 which makes religion worse than a farce8 ,for what good can be expected from the youth who receives the sacrament of the ,lord's supper1 to avoid forfeiting half-a-guinea1 which he probably afterwards spends in some sensual manner8 ,half the employment of the youths is to elude the necessity of attending public worship2 and well they may1 for such a constant repetition of the same thing must be a very irksome restraint on their natural vivacity4 ,as these ceremonies have the most fatal effect on their morals1 and as a ritual performed by the lips1 when the heart and mind are far away1 is not now stored up by our church as a bank to draw on for the fees of the poor souls in purgatory1 why should they not be abolished8 ,but the fear of innovation1 in this country1 extends to every thing4 ,this is only a covert fear1 the apprehensive timidity of indolent slugs1 who guard1 by sliming it over1 the snug place1 which they consider in the light of an hereditary estate2 and eat1 drink1 and enjoy themselves1 instead of fulfilling the duties1 excepting a few empty forms1 for which it was endowed4 ,these are the people who most strenuously insist on the will of the founder being observed1 crying out against all reformation1 as if it were a violation of justice4 ,i am now alluding particularly to the relicks of popery retained in our colleges1 where the protestant members seem to be such sticklers for the established church2 but their zeal never makes them lose sight of the spoil of ignorance1 which rapacious priests of superstitious memory have scraped together4 ,no1 wise in their generation1 they venerate the prescriptive right of possession1 as a strong hold1 and still let the sluggish bell tingle to prayers1 as during the days1 when the elevation of the host was supposed to atone for the sins of the people1 lest one reformation should lead to another1 and the spirit kill the letter4 ,these ,romish customs have the most baneful effect on the morals of our clergy2 for the idle vermin who two or three times a day perform1 in the most slovenly manner a service which they think useless1 but call their duty1 soon lose a sense of duty4 ,at college1 forced to attend or evade public worship1 they acquire an habitual contempt for the very service1 the performance of which is to enable them to live in idleness4 ,it is mumbled over as an affair of business1 as a stupid boy repeats his task1 and frequently the college cant escapes from the preacher the moment after he has left the pulpit1 and even whilst he is eating the dinner which he earned in such a dishonest manner4 ,nothing1 indeed1 can be more irreverent than the cathedral service as it is now performed in this country1 neither does it contain a set of weaker men than those who are the slaves of this childish routine4 ,a disgusting skeleton of the former state is still exhibited2 but all the solemnity1 that interested the imagination1 if it did not purify the heart1 is stripped off4 ,the performance of high mass on the continent must impress every mind1 where a spark of fancy glows1 with that awful melancholy1 that sublime tenderness1 so near a-kin to devotion4 ,i do not say1 that these devotional feelings are of more use1 in a moral sense1 than any other emotion of taste2 but ,i contend1 that the theatrical pomp which gratifies our senses1 is to be preferred to the cold parade that insults the understanding without reaching the heart4 ,amongst remarks on national education1 such observations cannot be misplaced1 especially as the supporters of these establishments1 degenerated into puerilities1 affect to be the champions of religion4 ,religion1 pure source of comfort in this vale of tears6 how has thy clear stream been muddied by the dabblers1 who have presumptuously endeavoured to confine in one narrow channel1 the living waters that ever flow toward ,god-- the sublime ocean of existence6 ,what would life be without that peace which the love of ,god1 when built on humanity1 alone can impart8 ,every earthly affection turns back1 at intervals1 to prey upon the heart that feeds it2 and the purest effusions of benevolence1 often rudely damped by men1 must mount as a free-will offering to ,him who gave them birth1 whose bright image they faintly reflect4 ,in public schools1 however1 religion1 confounded with irksome ceremonies and unreasonable restraints1 assumes the most ungracious aspect3 not the sober austere one that commands respect whilst it inspires fear2 but a ludicrous cast1 that serves to point a pun4 ,for1 in fact1 most of the good stories and smart things which enliven the spirits that have been concentrated at whist1 are manufactured out of the incidents to which the very men labour to give a droll turn who countenance the abuse to live on the spoil4 ,there is not1 perhaps1 in the kingdom1 a more dogmatical or luxurious set of men1 than the pedantic tyrants who reside in colleges and preside at public schools4 ,the vacations are equally injurious to the morals of the masters and pupils1 and the intercourse1 which the former keep up with the nobility1 introduces the same vanity and extravagance into their families1 which banish domestic duties and comforts from the lordly mansion1 whose state is awkwardly aped on a smaller scale4 ,the boys1 who live at a great expence with the masters and assistants1 are never domesticated1 though placed there for that purpose2 for1 after a silent dinner1 they swallow a hasty glass of wine1 and retire to plan some mischievous trick1 or to ridicule the person or manners of the very people they have just been cringing to1 and whom they ought to consider as the representatives of their parents4 ,can it then be a matter of surprise1 that boys become selfish and vicious who are thus shut out from social converse8 or that a mitre often graces the brow of one of these diligent pastors8 ,the desire of living in the same style1 as the rank just above them1 infects each individual and every class of people1 and meanness is the concomitant of this ignoble ambition2 but those professions are most debasing whose ladder is patronage2 yet out of one of these professions the tutors of youth are in general chosen4 ,but1 can they be expected to inspire independent sentiments1 whose conduct must be regulated by the cautious prudence that is ever on the watch for preferment8 ,so far1 however1 from thinking of the morals of boys1 ,i have heard several masters of schools argue1 that they only undertook to teach ,latin and ,greek2 and that they had fulfilled their duty1 by sending some good scholars to college4 ,a few good scholars1 ,i grant1 may have been formed by emulation and discipline2 but1 to bring forward these clever boys1 the health and morals of a number have been sacrificed4 ,the sons of our gentry and wealthy commoners are mostly educated at these seminaries1 and will any one pretend to assert1 that the majority1 making every allowance1 come under the description of tolerable scholars8 ,it is not for the benefit of society that a few brilliant men should be brought forward at the expence of the multitude4 ,it is true1 that great men seem to start up1 as great revolutions occur1 at proper intervals1 to restore order1 and to blow aside the clouds that thicken over the face of truth2 but let more reason and virtue prevail in society1 and these strong winds would not be necessary4 ,public education1 of every denomination1 should be directed to form citizens2 but if you wish to make good citizens1 you must first exercise the affections of a son and a brother4 ,this is the only way to expand the heart2 for public affections1 as well as public virtues1 must ever grow out of the private character1 or they are merely meteors that shoot athwart a dark sky1 and disappear as they are gazed at and admired4 ,few1 ,i believe1 have had much affection for mankind1 who did not first love their parents1 their brothers1 sisters1 and even the domestic brutes1 whom they first played with4 ,the exercise of youthful sympathies forms the moral temperature2 and it is the recollection of these first affections and pursuits1 that gives life to those that are afterwards more under the direction of reason4 ,in youth1 the fondest friendships are formed1 the genial juices mounting at the same time1 kindly mix2 or1 rather the heart1 tempered for the reception of friendship1 is accustomed to seek for pleasure in something more noble than the churlish gratification of appetite4 ,in order then to inspire a love of home and domestic pleasures1 children ought to be educated at home1 for riotous holidays only make them fond of home for their own sakes4 ,yet1 the vacations1 which do not foster domestic affections1 continually disturb the course of study1 and render any plan of improvement abortive which includes temperance2 still1 were they abolished1 children would be entirely separated from their parents1 and ,i question whether they would become better citizens by sacrificing the preparatory affections1 by destroying the force of relationships that render the marriage state as necessary as respectable4 ,but1 if a private education produce self-importance1 or insulates a man in his family1 the evil is only shifted1 not remedied4 ,this train of reasoning brings me back to a subject1 on which ,i mean to dwell1 the necessity of establishing proper day-schools4 ,but these should be national establishments1 for whilst school-masters are dependent on the caprice of parents1 little exertion can be expected from them1 more than is necessary to please ignorant people4 ,indeed1 the necessity of a master's giving the parents some sample of the boy's abilities1 which during the vacation1 is shown to every visiter1 is productive of more mischief than would at first be supposed4 ,for they are seldom done entirely1 to speak with moderation1 by the child itself2 thus the master countenances falsehoods1 or winds the poor machine up to some extraordinary exertion1 that injures the wheels1 and stops the progress of gradual improvement4 ,the memory is loaded with unintelligible words1 to make a show of1 without the understanding's acquiring any distinct ideas3 but only that education deserves emphatically to be termed cultivation of mind1 which teaches young people how to begin to think4 ,the imagination should not be allowed to debauch the understanding before it gained strength1 or vanity will become the forerunner of vice3 for every way of exhibiting the acquirements of a child is injurious to its moral character4 ,how much time is lost in teaching them to recite what they do not understand6 whilst1 seated on benches1 all in their best array1 the mammas listen with astonishment to the parrot-like prattle1 uttered in solemn cadences1 with all the pomp of ignorance and folly4 ,such exhibitions only serve to strike the spreading fibres of vanity through the whole mind2 for they neither teach children to speak fluently1 nor behave gracefully4 ,so far from it1 that these frivolous pursuits might comprehensively be termed the study of affectation3 for we now rarely see a simple1 bashful boy1 though few people of taste were ever disgusted by that awkward sheepishness so natural to the age1 which schools and an early introduction into society1 have changed into impudence and apish grimace4 ,yet1 how can these things be remedied whilst schoolmasters depend entirely on parents for a subsistence2 and when so many rival schools hang out their lures to catch the attention of vain fathers and mothers1 whose parental affection only leads them to wish1 that their children should outshine those of their neighbours8 ,without great good luck1 a sensible1 conscientious man1 would starve before he could raise a school1 if he disdained to bubble weak parents1 by practising the secret tricks of the craft4 ,in the best regulated schools1 however1 where swarms are not crammed together many bad habits must be acquired2 but1 at common schools1 the body1 heart1 and understanding1 are equally stunted1 for parents are often only in quest of the cheapest school1 and the master could not live1 if he did not take a much greater number than he could manage himself2 nor will the scanty pittance1 allowed for each child1 permit him to hire ushers sufficient to assist in the discharge of the mechanical part of the business4 ,besides1 whatever appearance the house and garden may make1 the children do not enjoy the comforts of either1 for they are continually reminded1 by irksome restrictions1 that they are not at home1 and the state-rooms1 garden1 etc4 must be kept in order for the recreation of the parents2 who1 of a ,sunday1 visit the school1 and are impressed by the very parade that renders the situation of their children uncomfortable4 ,with what disgust have ,i heard sensible women1 for girls are more restrained and cowed than boys1 speak of the wearisome confinement which they endured at school4 ,not allowed1 perhaps1 to step out of one broad walk in a superb garden1 and obliged to pace with steady deportment stupidly backwards and forwards1 holding up their heads1 and turning out their toes1 with shoulders braced back1 instead of bounding1 as nature directs to complete her own design1 in the various attitudes so conducive to health4 ,the pure animal spirits1 which make both mind and body shoot out1 and unfold the tender blossoms of hope are turned sour1 and vented in vain wishes1 or pert repinings1 that contract the faculties and spoil the temper2 else they mount to the brain and sharpening the understanding before it gains proportionable strength1 produce that pitiful cunning which disgracefully characterizes the female mind--and ,i fear will ever characterize it whilst women remain the slaves of power6 ,the little respect which the male world pay to chastity is1 ,i am persuaded1 the grand source of many of the physical and moral evils that torment mankind1 as well as of the vices and follies that degrade and destroy women2 yet at school1 boys infallibly lose that decent bashfulness1 which might have ripened into modesty at home4 ,i have already animadverted on the bad habits which females acquire when they are shut up together2 and ,i think that the observation may fairly be extended to the other sex1 till the natural inference is drawn which ,i have had in view throughout--that to improve both sexes they ought1 not only in private families1 but in public schools1 to be educated together4 ,if marriage be the cement of society1 mankind should all be educated after the same model1 or the intercourse of the sexes will never deserve the name of fellowship1 nor will women ever fulfil the peculiar duties of their sex1 till they become enlightened citizens1 till they become free1 by being enabled to earn their own subsistence1 independent of men2 in the same manner1 ,i mean1 to prevent misconstruction1 as one man is independent of another4 ,nay1 marriage will never be held sacred till women by being brought up with men1 are prepared to be their companions1 rather than their mistresses2 for the mean doublings of cunning will ever render them contemptible1 whilst oppression renders them timid4 ,so convinced am ,i of this truth1 that ,i will venture to predict1 that virtue will never prevail in society till the virtues of both sexes are founded on reason2 and1 till the affection common to both are allowed to gain their due strength by the discharge of mutual duties4 ,were boys and girls permitted to pursue the same studies together1 those graceful decencies might early be inculcated which produce modesty1 without those sexual distinctions that taint the mind4 ,lessons of politeness1 and that formulary of decorum1 which treads on the heels of falsehood1 would be rendered useless by habitual propriety of behaviour4 ,not1 indeed put on for visiters like the courtly robe of politeness1 but the sober effect of cleanliness of mind4 ,would not this simple elegance of sincerity be a chaste homage paid to domestic affections1 far surpassing the meretricious compliments that shine with false lustre in the heartless intercourse of fashionable life8 ,but1 till more understanding preponderate in society1 there will ever be a want of heart and taste1 and the harlot's rouge will supply the place of that celestial suffusion which only virtuous affections can give to the face4 ,gallantry1 and what is called love1 may subsist without simplicity of character2 but the main pillars of friendship1 are respect and confidence--esteem is never founded on it cannot tell what4 ,a taste for the fine arts requires great cultivation2 but not more than a taste for the virtuous affections3 and both suppose that enlargement of mind which opens so many sources of mental pleasure4 ,why do people hurry to noisy scenes and crowded circles8 ,i should answer1 because they want activity of mind1 because they have not cherished the virtues of the heart4 ,they only1 therefore1 see and feel in the gross1 and continually pine after variety1 finding every thing that is simple1 insipid4 ,this argument may be carried further than philosophers are aware of1 for if nature destined woman1 in particular1 for the discharge of domestic duties1 she made her susceptible of the attached affections in a great degree4 ,now women are notoriously fond of pleasure2 and naturally must be so1 according to my definition1 because they cannot enter into the minutiae of domestic taste2 lacking judgment the foundation of all taste4 ,for the understanding1 in spite of sensual cavillers1 reserves to itself the privilege of conveying pure joy to the heart4 ,with what a languid yawn have ,i seen an admirable poem thrown down1 that a man of true taste returns to1 again and again with rapture2 and1 whilst melody has almost suspended respiration1 a lady has asked me where ,i bought my gown4 ,i have seen also an eye glanced coldly over a most exquisite picture1 rest1 sparkling with pleasure1 on a caricature rudely sketched2 and whilst some terrific feature in nature has spread a sublime stillness through my soul1 ,i have been desired to observe the pretty tricks of a lap-dog1 that my perverse fate forced me to travel with4 ,is it surprising1 that such a tasteless being should rather caress this dog than her children8 ,or1 that she should prefer the rant of flattery to the simple accents of sincerity8 ,to illustrate this remark ,i must be allowed to observe1 that men of the first genius1 and most cultivated minds1 have appeared to have the highest relish for the simple beauties of nature2 and they must have forcibly felt1 what they have so well described1 the charm1 which natural affections1 and unsophisticated feelings spread round the human character4 ,it is this power of looking into the heart1 and responsively vibrating with each emotion1 that enables the poet to personify each passion1 and the painter to sketch with a pencil of fire4 ,true taste is ever the work of the understanding employed in observing natural effects2 and till women have more understanding1 it is vain to expect them to possess domestic taste4 ,their lively senses will ever be at work to harden their hearts1 and the emotions struck out of them will continue to be vivid and transitory1 unless a proper education stores their minds with knowledge4 ,it is the want of domestic taste1 and not the acquirement of knowledge1 that takes women out of their families1 and tears the smiling babe from the breast that ought to afford it nourishment4 ,women have been allowed to remain in ignorance1 and slavish dependence1 many1 very many years1 and still we hear of nothing but their fondness of pleasure and sway1 their preference of rakes and soldiers1 their childish attachment to toys1 and the vanity that makes them value accomplishments more than virtues4 ,history brings forward a fearful catalogue of the crimes which their cunning has produced1 when the weak slaves have had sufficient address to over-reach their masters4 ,in ,france1 and in how many other countries have men been the luxurious despots1 and women the crafty ministers8 ,does this prove that ignorance and dependence domesticate them8 ,is not their folly the by-word of the libertines1 who relax in their society2 and do not men of sense continually lament1 that an immoderate fondness for dress and dissipation carries the mother of a family for ever from home8 ,their hearts have not been debauched by knowledge1 nor their minds led astray by scientific pursuits2 yet1 they do not fulfil the peculiar duties1 which as women they are called upon by nature to fulfil4 ,on the contrary1 the state of warfare which subsists between the sexes1 makes them employ those wiles1 that frustrate the more open designs of force4 ,when1 therefore1 ,i call women slaves1 ,i mean in a political and civil sense2 for1 indirectly they obtain too much power1 and are debased by their exertions to obtain illicit sway4 ,let an enlightened nation then try what effect reason would have to bring them back to nature1 and their duty2 and allowing them to share the advantages of education and government with man1 see whether they will become better1 as they grow wiser and become free4 ,they cannot be injured by the experiment2 for it is not in the power of man to render them more insignificant than they are at present4 ,to render this practicable1 day schools for particular ages should be established by government1 in which boys and girls might be educated together4 ,the school for the younger children1 from five to nine years of age1 ought to be absolutely free and open to all classes499 ,a sufficient number of masters should also be chosen by a select committee1 in each parish1 to whom any complaint of negligence1 etc4 might be made1 if signed by six of the children's parents4 799,footnote4 ,treating this part of the subject1 ,i have borrowed some hints from a very sensible pamphlet written by the late bishop of ,autun on public ,education47 ,ushers would then be unnecessary2 for1 ,i believe1 experience will ever prove1 that this kind of subordinate authority is particularly injurious to the morals of youth4 ,what1 indeed1 can tend to deprave the character more than outward submission and inward contempt8 ,yet1 how can boys be expected to treat an usher with respect when the master seems to consider him in the light of a servant1 and almost to countenance the ridicule which becomes the chief amusement of the boys during the play hours8 ,but nothing of this kind could occur in an elementary day-school1 where boys and girls1 the rich and poor1 should meet together4 ,and to prevent any of the distinctions of vanity1 they should be dressed alike1 and all obliged to submit to the same discipline1 or leave the school4 ,the school-room ought to be surrounded by a large piece of ground1 in which the children might be usefully exercised1 for at this age they should not be confined to any sedentary employment for more than an hour at a time4 ,but these relaxations might all be rendered a part of elementary education1 for many things improve and amuse the senses1 when introduced as a kind of show1 to the principles of which dryly laid down1 children would turn a deaf ear4 ,for instance1 botany1 mechanics1 and astronomy4 ,reading1 writing1 arithmetic1 natural history1 and some simple experiments in natural philosophy1 might fill up the day2 but these pursuits should never encroach on gymnastic plays in the open air4 ,the elements of religion1 history1 the history of man1 and politics1 might also be taught by conversations1 in the socratic form4 ,after the age of nine1 girls and boys1 intended for domestic employments1 or mechanical trades1 ought to be removed to other schools1 and receive instruction1 in some measure appropriated to the destination of each individual1 the two sexes being still together in the morning2 but in the afternoon1 the girls should attend a school1 where plain work1 mantua-making1 millinery1 etc4 would be their employment4 ,the young people of superior abilities1 or fortune1 might now be taught1 in another school1 the dead and living languages1 the elements of science1 and continue the study of history and politics1 on a more extensive scale1 which would not exclude polite literature4 ,girls and boys still together8 ,i hear some readers ask3 yes4 ,and ,i should not fear any other consequence1 than that some early attachment might take place2 which1 whilst it had the best effect on the moral character of the young people1 might not perfectly agree with the views of the parents1 for it will be a long time1 ,i fear1 before the world is so enlightened1 that parents1 only anxious to render their children virtuous1 will let them choose companions for life themselves4 ,besides1 this would be a sure way to promote early marriages1 and from early marriages the most salutary physical and moral effects naturally flow4 ,what a different character does a married citizen assume from the selfish coxcomb1 who lives but for himself1 and who is often afraid to marry lest he should not be able to live in a certain style4 ,great emergencies excepted1 which would rarely occur in a society of which equality was the basis1 a man could only be prepared to discharge the duties of public life1 by the habitual practice of those inferior ones which form the man4 ,in this plan of education1 the constitution of boys would not be ruined by the early debaucheries1 which now make men so selfish1 nor girls rendered weak and vain1 by indolence and frivolous pursuits4 ,but1 ,i presuppose1 that such a degree of equality should be established between the sexes as would shut out gallantry and coquetry1 yet allow friendship and love to temper the heart for the discharge of higher duties4 ,these would be schools of morality--and the happiness of man1 allowed to flow from the pure springs of duty and affection1 what advances might not the human mind make8 ,society can only be happy and free in proportion as it is virtuous2 but the present distinctions1 established in society1 corrode all private1 and blast all public virtue4 ,i have already inveighed against the custom of confining girls to their needle1 and shutting them out from all political and civil employments2 for by thus narrowing their minds they are rendered unfit to fulfil the peculiar duties which nature has assigned them4 ,only employed about the little incidents of the day1 they necessarily grow up cunning4 ,my very soul has often sickened at observing the sly tricks practised by women to gain some foolish thing on which their silly hearts were set4 ,not allowed to dispose of money1 or call any thing their own1 they learn to turn the market penny2 or1 should a husband offend1 by staying from home1 or give rise to some emotions of jealousy--a new gown1 or any pretty bauble1 smooths ,juno's angry brow4 ,but these ,,littlenesses would not degrade their character1 if women were led to respect themselves1 if political and moral subjects were opened to them2 and ,i will venture to affirm1 that this is the only way to make them properly attentive to their domestic duties4 ,an active mind embraces the whole circle of its duties1 and finds time enough for all4 ,it is not1 ,i assert1 a bold attempt to emulate masculine virtues2 it is not the enchantment of literary pursuits1 or the steady investigation of scientific subjects1 that lead women astray from duty4 ,no1 it is indolence and vanity --the love of pleasure and the love of sway1 that will reign paramount in an empty mind4 ,i say empty1 emphatically1 because the education which women now receive scarcely deserves the name4 ,for the little knowledge they are led to acquire during the important years of youth1 is merely relative to accomplishments2 and accomplishments without a bottom1 for unless the understanding be cultivated1 superficial and monotonous is every grace4 ,like the charms of a made-up face1 they only strike the senses in a crowd2 but at home1 wanting mind1 they want variety4 ,the consequence is obvious2 in gay scenes of dissipation we meet the artificial mind and face1 for those who fly from solitude dread next to solitude1 the domestic circle2 not having it in their power to amuse or interest1 they feel their own insignificance1 or find nothing to amuse or interest themselves4 ,besides1 what can be more indelicate than a girl's coming out in the fashionable world8 ,which1 in other words1 is to bring to market a marriageable miss1 whose person is taken from one public place to another1 richly caparisoned4 ,yet1 mixing in the giddy circle under restraint1 these butterflies long to flutter at large1 for the first affection of their souls is their own persons1 to which their attention has been called with the most sedulous care1 whilst they were preparing for the period that decides their fate for life4 ,instead of pursuing this idle routine1 sighing for tasteless show1 and heartless state1 with what dignity would the youths of both sexes form attachments in the schools that ,i have cursorily pointed out2 in which1 as life advanced1 dancing1 music1 and drawing1 might be admitted as relaxations1 for at these schools young people of fortune ought to remain1 more or less1 till they were of age4 ,those1 who were designed for particular professions1 might attend1 three or four mornings in the week1 the schools appropriated for their immediate instruction4 ,i only drop these observations at present1 as hints2 rather1 indeed as an outline of the plan ,i mean1 than a digested one2 but ,i must add1 that ,i highly approve of one regulation mentioned in the pamphlet already alluded to 7,the ,bishop of ,autun71 that of making the children and youths independent of the masters respecting punishments4 ,they should be tried by their peers1 which would be an admirable method of fixing sound principles of justice in the mind1 and might have the happiest effect on the temper1 which is very early soured or irritated by tyranny1 till it becomes peevishly cunning1 or ferociously overbearing4 ,my imagination darts forward with benevolent fervour to greet these amiable and respectable groups1 in spite of the sneering of cold hearts1 who are at liberty to utter1 with frigid self-importance1 the damning epithet-- romantic2 the force of which ,i shall endeavour to blunt by repeating the words of an eloquent moralist4 ,i know not whether the allusions of a truly humane heart1 whose zeal renders every thing easy1 is not preferable to that rough and repulsing reason1 which always finds in indifference for the public good1 the first obstacle to whatever would promote it4 ,i know that libertines will also exclaim1 that woman would be unsexed by acquiring strength of body and mind1 and that beauty1 soft bewitching beauty6 would no longer adorn the daughters of men4 ,i am of a very different opinion1 for ,i think1 that1 on the contrary1 we should then see dignified beauty1 and true grace2 to produce which1 many powerful physical and moral causes would concur4 ,not relaxed beauty1 it is true1 nor the graces of helplessness2 but such as appears to make us respect the human body as a majestic pile1 fit to receive a noble inhabitant1 in the relics of antiquity4 ,i do not forget the popular opinion1 that the ,grecian statues were not modelled after nature4 ,i mean1 not according to the proportions of a particular man2 but that beautiful limbs and features were selected from various bodies to form an harmonious whole4 ,this might1 in some degree1 be true4 ,the fine ideal picture of an exalted imagination might be superior to the materials which the painter found in nature1 and thus it might with propriety be termed rather the model of mankind than of a man4 ,it was not1 however1 the mechanical selection of limbs and features1 but the ebullition of an heated fancy that burst forth2 and the fine senses and enlarged understanding of the artist selected the solid matter1 which he drew into this glowing focus4 ,i observed that it was not mechanical1 because a whole was produced--a model of that grand simplicity1 of those concurring energies1 which arrest our attention and command our reverence4 ,for only insipid lifeless beauty is produced by a servile copy of even beautiful nature4 ,yet1 independent of these observations1 ,i believe1 that the human form must have been far more beautiful than it is at present1 because extreme indolence1 barbarous ligatures1 and many causes1 which forcibly act on it1 in our luxurious state of society1 did not retard its expansion1 or render it deformed4 ,exercise and cleanliness appear to be not only the surest means of preserving health1 but of promoting beauty1 the physical causes only considered2 yet1 this is not sufficient1 moral ones must concur1 or beauty will be merely of that rustic kind which blooms on the innocent1 wholesome countenances of some country people1 whose minds have not been exercised4 ,to render the person perfect1 physical and moral beauty ought to be attained at the same time2 each lending and receiving force by the combination4 ,judgment must reside on the brow1 affection and fancy beam in the eye1 and humanity curve the cheek1 or vain is the sparkling of the finest eye or the elegantly turned finish of the fairest features2 whilst in every motion that displays the active limbs and well-knit joints1 grace and modesty should appear4 ,but this fair assemblage is not to be brought together by chance2 it is the reward of exertions met to support each other2 for judgment can only be acquired by reflection1 affection1 by the discharge of duties1 and humanity by the exercise of compassion to every living creature4 ,humanity to animals should be particularly inculcated as a part of national education1 for it is not at present one of our national virtues4 ,tenderness for their humble dumb domestics1 amongst the lower class1 is oftener to be found in a savage than a civilized state4 ,for civilization prevents that intercourse which creates affection in the rude hut1 or mud cabin1 and leads uncultivated minds who are only depraved by the refinements which prevail in the society1 where they are trodden under foot by the rich1 to domineer over them to revenge the insults that they are obliged to bear from their superiours4 ,this habitual cruelty is first caught at school1 where it is one of the rare sports of the boys to torment the miserable brutes that fall in their way4 ,the transition1 as they grow up1 from barbarity to brutes to domestic tyranny over wives1 children1 and servants1 is very easy4 ,justice1 or even benevolence1 will not be a powerful spring of action1 unless it extend to the whole creation2 nay1 ,i believe that it may be delivered as an axiom1 that those who can see pain1 unmoved1 will soon learn to inflict it4 ,the vulgar are swayed by present feelings1 and the habits which they have accidentally acquired2 but on partial feelings much dependence cannot be placed1 though they be just2 for1 when they are not invigorated by reflection1 custom weakens them1 till they are scarcely felt4 ,the sympathies of our nature are strengthened by pondering cogitations1 and deadened by thoughtless use4 ,macbeth's heart smote him more for one murder1 the first1 than for a hundred subsequent ones1 which were necessary to back it4 ,but1 when ,i used the epithet vulgar1 ,i did not mean to confine my remark to the poor1 for partial humanity1 founded on present sensations or whim1 is quite as conspicuous1 if not more so1 amongst the rich4 ,the lady who sheds tears for the bird starved in a snare1 and execrates the devils in the shape of men1 who goad to madness the poor ox1 or whip the patient ass1 tottering under a burden above its strength1 will1 nevertheless1 keep her coachman and horses whole hours waiting for her1 when the sharp frost bites1 or the rain beats against the well-closed windows which do not admit a breath of air to tell her how roughly the wind blows without4 ,and she who takes her dogs to bed1 and nurses them with a parade of sensibility1 when sick1 will suffer her babes to grow up crooked in a nursery4 ,this illustration of my argument is drawn from a matter of fact4 ,the woman whom ,i allude to was handsome1 reckoned very handsome1 by those who do not miss the mind when the face is plump and fair2 but her understanding had not been led from female duties by literature1 nor her innocence debauched by knowledge4 ,no1 she was quite feminine1 according to the masculine acceptation of the word2 and1 so far from loving these spoiled brutes that filled the place which her children ought to have occupied1 she only lisped out a pretty mixture of ,french and ,english nonsense1 to please the men who flocked round her4 ,the wife1 mother1 and human creature1 were all swallowed up by the factitious character1 which an improper education1 and the selfish vanity of beauty1 had produced4 ,i do not like to make a distinction without a difference1 and ,i own that ,i have been as much disgusted by the fine lady who took her lap-dog to her bosom1 instead of her child2 as by the ferocity of a man1 who1 beating his horse1 declared1 that he knew as well when he did wrong as a ,christian4 ,this brood of folly shows how mistaken they are who1 if they allow women to leave their harams1 do not cultivate their understanding1 in order to plant virtues in their hearts4 ,for had they sense1 they might acquire that domestic taste which would lead them to love with reasonable subordination their whole family1 from the husband to the house-dog2 nor would they ever insult humanity in the person of the most menial servant1 by paying more attention to the comfort of a brute1 than to that of a fellow-creature4 ,my observations on national education are obviously hints2 but ,i principally wish to enforce the necessity of educating the sexes together to perfect both1 and of making children sleep at home1 that they may learn to love home2 yet to make private support instead of smothering public affections1 they should be sent to school to mix with a number of equals1 for only by the jostlings of equality can we form a just opinion of ourselves4 ,to render mankind more virtuous1 and happier of course1 both sexes must act from the same principle2 but how can that be expected when only one is allowed to see the reasonableness of it8 ,to render also the social compact truly equitable1 and in order to spread those enlightening principles1 which alone can meliorate the fate of man1 women must be allowed to found their virtue on knowledge1 which is scarcely possible unless they be educated by the same pursuits as men4 ,for they are now made so inferiour by ignorance and low desires1 as not to deserve to be ranked with them2 or1 by the serpentine wrigglings of cunning they mount the tree of knowledge and only acquire sufficient to lead men astray4 ,it is plain from the history of all nations1 that women cannot be confined to merely domestic pursuits1 for they will not fulfil family duties1 unless their minds take a wider range1 and whilst they are kept in ignorance1 they become in the same proportion1 the slaves of pleasure as they are the slaves of man4 ,nor can they be shut out of great enterprises1 though the narrowness of their minds often make them mar what they are unable to comprehend4 ,the libertinism1 and even the virtues of superior men1 will always give women1 of some description1 great power over them2 and these weak women1 under the influence of childish passions and selfish vanity1 will throw a false light over the objects which the very men view with their eyes1 who ought to enlighten their judgment4 ,men of fancy1 and those sanguine characters who mostly hold the helm of human affairs1 in general1 relax in the society of women2 and surely ,i need not cite to the most superficial reader of history1 the numerous examples of vice and oppression which the private intrigues of female favourites have produced2 not to dwell on the mischief that naturally arises from the blundering interposition of well-meaning folly4 ,for in the transactions of business it is much better to have to deal with a knave than a fool1 because a knave adheres to some plan2 and any plan of reason may be seen through much sooner than a sudden flight of folly4 ,the power which vile and foolish women have had over wise men1 who possessed sensibility1 is notorious2 ,i shall only mention one instance4 ,whoever drew a more exalted female character than ,rousseau8 though in the lump he constantly endeavoured to degrade the sex4 ,and why was he thus anxious8 ,truly to justify to himself the affection which weakness and virtue had made him cherish for that fool ,theresa4 ,he could not raise her to the common level of her sex2 and therefore he laboured to bring woman down to her's4 ,he found her a convenient humble companion1 and pride made him determine to find some superior virtues in the being whom he chose to live with2 but did not her conduct during his life1 and after his death1 clearly show how grossly he was mistaken who called her a celestial innocent4 ,nay1 in the bitterness of his heart1 he himself laments1 that when his bodily infirmities made him no longer treat her like a woman1 she ceased to have an affection for him4 ,and it was very natural that she should1 for having so few sentiments in common1 when the sexual tie was broken1 what was to hold her8 ,to hold her affection whose sensibility was confined to one sex1 nay1 to one man1 it requires sense to turn sensibility into the broad channel of humanity3 many women have not mind enough to have an affection for a woman1 or a friendship for a man4 ,but the sexual weakness that makes woman depend on man for a subsistence1 produces a kind of cattish affection1 which leads a wife to purr about her husband1 as she would about any man who fed and caressed her4 ,men1 are however1 often gratified by this kind of fondness which is confined in a beastly manner to themselves1 but should they ever become more virtuous1 they will wish to converse at their fire-side with a friend1 after they cease to play with a mistress4 ,besides1 understanding is necessary to give variety and interest to sensual enjoyments1 for low1 indeed1 in the intellectual scale1 is the mind that can continue to love when neither virtue nor sense give a human appearance to an animal appetite4 ,but sense will always preponderate2 and if women are not1 in general1 brought more on a level with men1 some superior women1 like the ,greek courtezans will assemble the men of abilities around them1 and draw from their families many citizens1 who would have stayed at home1 had their wives had more sense1 or the graces which result from the exercise of the understanding and fancy1 the legitimate parents of taste4 ,a woman of talents1 if she be not absolutely ugly1 will always obtain great power1 raised by the weakness of her sex2 and in proportion as men acquire virtue and delicacy3 by the exertion of reason1 they will look for both in women1 but they can only acquire them in the same way that men do4 ,in ,france or ,italy have the women confined themselves to domestic life8 though they have not hitherto had a political existence1 yet1 have they not illicitly had great sway8 corrupting themselves and the men with whose passions they played8 ,in short1 in whatever light ,i view the subject1 reason and experience convince me1 that the only method of leading women to fulfil their peculiar duties1 is to free them from all restraint by allowing them to participate the inherent rights of mankind4 ,make them free1 and they will quickly become wise and virtuous1 as men become more so2 for the improvement must be mutual1 or the justice which one half of the human race are obliged to submit to1 retorting on their oppressors1 the virtue of man will be worm-eaten by the insect whom he keeps under his feet4 ,let men take their choice1 man and woman were made for each other1 though not to become one being2 and if they will not improve women1 they will deprave them6 ,i speak of the improvement and emancipation of the whole sex1 for ,i know that the behaviour of a few women1 who by accident1 or following a strong bent of nature1 have acquired a portion of knowledge superior to that of the rest of their sex1 has often been over-bearing2 but there have been instances of women who1 attaining knowledge1 have not discarded modesty1 nor have they always pedantically appeared to despise the ignorance which they laboured to disperse in their own minds4 ,the exclamations then which any advice respecting female learning1 commonly produces1 especially from pretty women1 often arise from envy4 ,when they chance to see that even the lustre of their eyes1 and the flippant sportiveness of refined coquetry will not always secure them attention1 during a whole evening1 should a woman of a more cultivated understanding endeavour to give a rational turn to the conversation1 the common source of consolation is1 that such women seldom get husbands4 ,what arts have ,i not seen silly women use to interrupt by ,,flirtation1 7a very significant word to describe such a manoeuvre7 a rational conversation1 which made the men forget that they were pretty women4 ,but1 allowing what is very natural to man--that the possession of rare abilities is really calculated to excite over-weening pride1 disgusting in both men and women--in what a state of inferiority must the female faculties have rusted when such a small portion of knowledge as those women attained1 who have sneeringly been termed learned women1 could be singular8 ,sufficiently so to puff up the possessor1 and excite envy in her contemporaries1 and some of the other sex4 ,nay1 has not a little rationality exposed many women to the severest censure8 ,i advert to well known-facts1 for ,i have frequently heard women ridiculed1 and every little weakness exposed1 only because they adopted the advice of some medical men1 and deviated from the beaten track in their mode of treating their infants4 ,i have actually heard this barbarous aversion to innovation carried still further1 and a sensible woman stigmatized as an unnatural mother1 who has thus been wisely solicitous to preserve the health of her children1 when in the midst of her care she has lost one by some of the casualties of infancy which no prudence can ward off4 ,her acquaintance have observed1 that this was the consequence of new-fangled notions--the new-fangled notions of ease and cleanliness4 ,and those who1 pretending to experience1 though they have long adhered to prejudices that have1 according to the opinion of the most sagacious physicians1 thinned the human race1 almost rejoiced at the disaster that gave a kind of sanction to prescription4 ,indeed1 if it were only on this account1 the national education of women is of the utmost consequence2 for what a number of human sacrifices are made to that moloch1 prejudice6 ,and in how many ways are children destroyed by the lasciviousness of man8 ,the want of natural affection in many women1 who are drawn from their duty by the admiration of men1 and the ignorance of others1 render the infancy of man a much more perilous state than that of brutes2 yet men are unwilling to place women in situations proper to enable them to acquire sufficient understanding to know how even to nurse their babes4 ,so forcibly does this truth strike me1 that ,i would rest the whole tendency of my reasoning upon it2 for whatever tends to incapacitate the maternal character1 takes woman out of her sphere4 ,but it is vain to expect the present race of weak mothers either to take that reasonable care of a child's body1 which is necessary to lay the foundation of a good constitution1 supposing that it do not suffer for the sins of its fathers2 or to manage its temper so judiciously that the child will not have1 as it grows up1 to throw off all that its mother1 its first instructor1 directly or indirectly taught1 and unless the mind have uncommon vigour1 womanish follies will stick to the character throughout life4 ,the weakness of the mother will be visited on the children6 ,and whilst women are educated to rely on their husbands for judgment1 this must ever be the consequence1 for there is no improving an understanding by halves1 nor can any being act wisely from imitation1 because in every circumstance of life there is a kind of individuality1 which requires an exertion of judgment to modify general rules4 ,the being who can think justly in one track1 will soon extend its intellectual empire2 and she who has sufficient judgment to manage her children1 will not submit right or wrong1 to her husband1 or patiently to the social laws which makes a nonentity of a wife4 ,in public schools women1 to guard against the errors of ignorance1 should be taught the elements of anatomy and medicine1 not only to enable them to take proper care of their own health1 but to make them rational nurses of their infants1 parents1 and husbands2 for the bills of mortality are swelled by the blunders of self-willed old women1 who give nostrums of their own1 without knowing any thing of the human frame4 ,it is likewise proper1 only in a domestic view1 to make women1 acquainted with the anatomy of the mind1 by allowing the sexes to associate together in every pursuit2 and by leading them to observe the progress of the human understanding in the improvement of the sciences and arts2 never forgetting the science of morality1 nor the study of the political history of mankind4 ,a man has been termed a microcosm2 and every family might also be called a state4 ,states1 it is true1 have mostly been governed by arts that disgrace the character of man2 and the want of a just constitution1 and equal laws1 have so perplexed the notions of the worldly wise1 that they more than question the reasonableness of contending for the rights of humanity4 ,thus morality1 polluted in the national reservoir1 sends off streams of vice to corrupt the constituent parts of the body politic2 but should more noble1 or rather more just principles regulate the laws1 which ought to be the government of society1 and not those who execute them1 duty might become the rule of private conduct4 ,besides1 by the exercise of their bodies and minds1 women would acquire that mental activity so necessary in the maternal character1 united with the fortitude that distinguishes steadiness of conduct from the obstinate perverseness of weakness4 ,for it is dangerous to advise the indolent to be steady1 because they instantly become rigorous1 and to save themselves trouble1 punish with severity faults that the patient fortitude of reason might have prevented4 ,but fortitude presupposes strength of mind1 and is strength of mind to be acquired by indolent acquiescence8 ,by asking advice instead of exerting the judgment8 ,by obeying through fear1 instead of practising the forbearance1 which we all stand in need of ourselves8 ,the conclusion which ,i wish to draw is obvious2 make women rational creatures and free citizens1 and they will quickly become good wives1 and mothers2 that is--if men do not neglect the duties of husbands and fathers4 ,discussing the advantages which a public and private education combined1 as ,i have sketched1 might rationally be expected to produce1 ,i have dwelt most on such as are particularly relative to the female world1 because ,i think the female world oppressed2 yet the gangrene which the vices1 engendered by oppression have produced1 is not confined to the morbid part1 but pervades society at large2 so that when ,i wish to see my sex become more like moral agents1 my heart bounds with the anticipation of the general diffusion of that sublime contentment which only morality can diffuse4 ,,chapter #ac4 ,,some ,,instances ,,of ,,the ,,folly ,,which ,,the ,,ignorance ,,of ,,women ,,generates2 ,,with ,,concluding ,,reflections ,,on ,,the ,,moral ,,improvement ,,that ,a ,,revolution ,,in ,,female ,,manners ,,might ,,naturally ,,be ,,expected ,,to ,,produce4 ,there are many follies1 in some degree1 peculiar to women3 sins against reason1 of commission1 as well as of omission2 but all flowing from ignorance or prejudice1 ,i shall only point out such as appear to be injurious to their moral character4 ,and in animadverting on them1 ,i wish especially to prove1 that the weakness of mind and body1 which men have endeavoured by various motives to perpetuate1 prevents their discharging the peculiar duty of their sex3 for when weakness of body will not permit them to suckle their children1 and weakness of mind makes them spoil their tempers--is woman in a natural state8 ,,section #ac4a4 ,one glaring instance of the weakness which proceeds from ignorance1 first claims attention1 and calls for severe reproof4 ,in this metropolis a number of lurking leeches infamously gain a subsistence by practising on the credulity of women1 pretending to cast nativities1 to use the technical phrase2 and many females who1 proud of their rank and fortune1 look down on the vulgar with sovereign contempt1 show by this credulity1 that the distinction is arbitrary1 and that they have not sufficiently cultivated their minds to rise above vulgar prejudices4 ,women1 because they have not been led to consider the knowledge of their duty as the one thing necessary to know1 or1 to live in the present moment by the discharge of it1 are very anxious to peep into futurity1 to learn what they have to expect to render life interesting1 and to break the vacuum of ignorance4 ,i must be allowed to expostulate seriously with the ladies1 who follow these idle inventions2 for ladies1 mistresses of families1 are not ashamed to drive in their own carriages to the door of the cunning man4 ,and if any of them should peruse this work1 ,i entreat them to answer to their own hearts the following questions1 not forgetting that they are in the presence of ,god4 ,do you believe that there is but one ,god1 and that he is powerful1 wise1 and good8 ,do you believe that all things were created by him1 and that all beings are dependent on him8 ,do you rely on his wisdom1 so conspicuous in his works1 and in your own frame1 and are you convinced1 that he has ordered all things which do not come under the cognizance of your senses1 in the same perfect harmony1 to fulfil his designs8 ,do you acknowledge that the power of looking into futurity and seeing things that are not1 as if they were1 is an attribute of the ,creator8 ,and should he1 by an impression on the minds of his creatures1 think fit to impart to them some event hid in the shades of time1 yet unborn1 to whom would the secret be revealed by immediate inspiration8 ,the opinion of ages will answer this question--to reverend old men1 to people distinguished for eminent piety4 ,the oracles of old were thus delivered by priests dedicated to the service of the ,god1 who was supposed to inspire them4 ,the glare of worldly pomp which surrounded these impostors1 and the respect paid to them by artful politicians1 who knew how to avail themselves of this useful engine to bend the necks of the strong under the dominion of the cunning1 spread a sacred mysterious veil of sanctity over their lies and abominations4 ,impressed by such solemn devotional parade1 a ,greek or ,roman lady might be excused1 if she inquired of the oracle1 when she was anxious to pry into futurity1 or inquire about some dubious event3 and her inquiries1 however contrary to reason1 could not be reckoned impious4 ,but1 can the professors of ,christianity ward off that imputation8 ,can a ,christian suppose1 that the favourites of the most ,high1 the highly favoured would be obliged to lurk in disguise1 and practise the most dishonest tricks to cheat silly women out of the money1 which the poor cry for in vain8 ,say not that such questions are an insult to common sense for it is your own conduct1 ,o ye foolish women6 which throws an odium on your sex6 ,and these reflections should make you shudder at your thoughtlessness1 and irrational devotion1 for ,i do not suppose that all of you laid aside your religion1 such as it is1 when you entered those mysterious dwellings4 ,yet1 as ,i have throughout supposed myself talking to ignorant women1 for ignorant ye are in the most emphatical sense of the word1 it would be absurd to reason with you on the egregious folly of desiring to know what the ,supreme ,wisdom has concealed4 ,probably you would not understand me1 were ,i to attempt to show you that it would be absolutely inconsistent with the grand purpose of life1 that of rendering human creatures wise and virtuous3 and that1 were it sanctioned by ,god1 it would disturb the order established in creation2 and if it be not sanctioned by ,god1 do you expect to hear truth8 ,can events be foretold1 events which have not yet assumed a body to become subject to mortal inspection1 can they be foreseen by a vicious worldling1 who pampers his appetites by preying on the foolish ones8 ,perhaps1 however1 you devoutly believe in the devil1 and imagine1 to shift the question1 that he may assist his votaries8 but if really respecting the power of such a being1 an enemy to goodness and to ,god1 can you go to church after having been under such an obligation to him4 ,from these delusions to those still more fashionable deceptions1 practised by the whole tribe of magnetisers1 the transition is very natural4 ,with respect to them1 it is equally proper to ask women a few questions4 ,do you know any thing of the construction of the human frame8 ,if not1 it is proper that you should be told1 what every child ought to know1 that when its admirable economy has been disturbed by intemperance or indolence1 ,i speak not of violent disorders1 but of chronical diseases1 it must be brought into a healthy state again by slow degrees1 and if the functions of life have not been materially injured1 regimen1 another word for temperance1 air1 exercise1 and a few medicines prescribed by persons who have studied the human body1 are the only human means1 yet discovered1 of recovering that inestimable blessing health1 that will bear investigation4 ,do you then believe1 that these magnetisers1 who1 by hocus pocus tricks1 pretend1 to work a miracle1 are delegated by ,god1 or assisted by the solver of all these kind of difficulties--the devil4 ,do they1 when they put to flight1 as it is said1 disorders that have baffled the powers of medicine1 work in conformity to the light of reason8 ,or do they effect these wonderful cures by supernatural aid8 ,by a communication1 an adept may answer1 with the world of spirits4 ,a noble privilege1 it must be allowed4 ,some of the ancients mention familiar demons1 who guarded them from danger1 by kindly intimating 7we cannot guess in what manner17 when any danger was nigh2 or pointed out what they ought to undertake4 ,yet the men who laid claim to this privilege1 out of the order of nature1 insisted1 that it was the reward or consequence of superior temperance and piety4 ,but the present workers of wonders are not raised above their fellows by superior temperance or sanctity4 ,they do not cure for the love of ,god1 but money4 ,these are the priests of quackery1 though it be true they have not the convenient expedient of selling masses for souls in purgatory1 nor churches1 where they can display crutches1 and models of limbs made sound by a touch or a word4 ,i am not conversant with the technical terms1 nor initiated into the arcana1 therefore ,i may speak improperly2 but it is clear1 that men who will not conform to the law of reason1 and earn a subsistence in an honest way1 by degrees1 are very fortunate in becoming acquainted with such obliging spirits4 ,we cannot1 indeed1 give them credit for either great sagacity or goodness1 else they would have chosen more noble instruments1 when they wished to show themselves the benevolent friends of man4 ,it is1 however1 little short of blasphemy to pretend to such power4 ,from the whole tenor of the dispensations of ,providence1 it appears evident to sober reason1 that certain vices produce certain effects3 and can any one so grossly insult the wisdom of ,god1 as to suppose1 that a miracle will be allowed to disturb his general laws1 to restore to health the intemperate and vicious1 merely to enable them to pursue the same course with impunity8 ,be whole1 and sin no more1 said ,jesus4 ,and are greater miracles to be performed by those who do not follow his footsteps1 who healed the body to reach the mind8 ,the mentioning of the name of ,christ1 after such vile impostors may displease some of my readers--,i respect their warmth2 but let them not forget1 that the followers of these delusions bear his name1 and profess to be the disciples of him1 who said1 by their works we should know who were the children of ,god or the servants of sin4 ,i allow that it is easier to touch the body of a saint1 or to be magnetised1 than to restrain our appetites or govern our passions2 but health of body or mind can only be recovered by these means1 or we make the ,supreme ,judge partial and revengeful4 ,is he a man1 that he should change1 or punish out of resentment8 ,he--the common father1 wounds but to heal1 says reason1 and our irregularities producing certain consequences1 we are forcibly shown the nature of vice2 that thus learning to know good from evil1 by experience1 we may hate one and love the other1 in proportion to the wisdom which we attain4 ,the poison contains the antidote2 and we either reform our evil habits1 and cease to sin against our own bodies1 to use the forcible language of scripture1 or a premature death1 the punishment of sin1 snaps the thread of life4 ,here an awful stop is put to our inquiries4 ,but1 why should ,i conceal my sentiments8 ,considering the attributes of ,god1 ,i believe1 that whatever punishment may follow1 will tend1 like the anguish of disease1 to show the malignity of vice1 for the purpose of reformation4 ,positive punishment appears so contrary to the nature of ,god1 discoverable in all his works1 and in our own reason1 that ,i could sooner believe that the ,deity paid no attention to the conduct of men1 than that he punished without the benevolent design of reforming4 ,to suppose only1 that an all-wise and powerful ,being1 as good as he is great1 should create a being1 foreseeing1 that after fifty or sixty years of feverish existence1 it would be plunged into never ending woe--is blasphemy4 ,on what will the worm feed that is never to die8 ,on folly1 on ignorance1 say ye--,i should blush indignantly at drawing the natural conclusion1 could ,i insert it1 and wish to withdraw myself from the wing of my ,god6 ,on such a supposition1 ,i speak with reverence1 he would be a consuming fire4 ,we should wish1 though vainly1 to fly from his presence when fear absorbed love1 and darkness involved all his counsels4 ,i know that many devout people boast of submitting to the ,will of ,god blindly1 as to an arbitrary sceptre or rod1 on the same principle as the ,indians worship the devil4 ,in other words1 like people in the common concerns of life1 they do homage to power1 and cringe under the foot that can crush them4 ,rational religion1 on the contrary1 is a submission to the will of a being so perfectly wise1 that all he wills must be directed by the proper motive--must be reasonable4 ,and1 if thus we respect ,god1 can we give credit to the mysterious insinuations which insult his laws8 ,can we believe1 though it should stare us in the face1 that he would work a miracle to authorize confusion by sanctioning an error8 ,yet we must either allow these impious conclusions1 or treat with contempt every promise to restore health to a diseased body by supernatural means1 or to foretell1 the incidents that can only be foreseen by ,god4 ,,section #ac4b4 ,another instance of that feminine weakness of character1 often produced by a confined education1 is a romantic twist of the mind1 which has been very properly termed ,,sentimental4 ,women1 subjected by ignorance to their sensations1 and only taught to look for happiness in love1 refine on sensual feelings1 and adopt metaphysical notions respecting that passion1 which lead them shamefully to neglect the duties of life1 and frequently in the midst of these sublime refinements they plunge into actual vice4 ,these are the women who are amused by the reveries of the stupid novelists1 who1 knowing little of human nature1 work up stale tales1 and describe meretricious scenes1 all retailed in a sentimental jargon1 which equally tend to corrupt the taste1 and draw the heart aside from its daily duties4 ,i do not mention the understanding1 because never having been exercised1 its slumbering energies rest inactive1 like the lurking particles of fire which are supposed universally to pervade matter4 ,females1 in fact1 denied all political privileges1 and not allowed1 as married women1 excepting in criminal cases1 a civil existence1 have their attention naturally drawn from the interest of the whole community to that of the minute parts1 though the private duty of any member of society must be very imperfectly performed1 when not connected with the general good4 ,the mighty business of female life is to please1 and1 restrained from entering into more important concerns by political and civil oppression1 sentiments become events1 and reflection deepens what it should1 and would have effaced1 if the understanding had been allowed to take a wider range4 ,but1 confined to trifling employments1 they naturally imbibe opinions which the only kind of reading calculated to interest an innocent frivolous mind1 inspires4 ,unable to grasp any thing great1 is it surprising that they find the reading of history a very dry task1 and disquisitions addressed to the understanding1 intolerably tedious1 and almost unintelligible8 ,thus are they necessarily dependent on the novelist for amusement4 ,yet1 when ,i exclaim against novels1 ,i mean when contrasted with those works which exercise the understanding and regulate the imagination4 ,for any kind of reading ,i think better than leaving a blank still a blank1 because the mind must receive a degree of enlargement1 and obtain a little strength by a slight exertion of its thinking powers2 besides1 even the productions that are only addressed to the imagination1 raise the reader a little above the gross gratification of appetites1 to which the mind has not given a shade of delicacy4 ,this observation is the result of experience2 for ,i have known several notable women1 and one in particular1 who was a very good woman--as good as such a narrow mind would allow her to be1 who took care that her daughters 7three in number7 should never see a novel4 ,as she was a woman of fortune and fashion1 they had various masters to attend them1 and a sort of menial governess to watch their footsteps4 ,from their masters they learned how tables1 chairs1 etc4 were called in ,french and ,italian2 but as the few books thrown in their way were far above their capacities1 or devotional1 they neither acquired ideas nor sentiments1 and passed their time1 when not compelled to repeat ,,words1 in dressing1 quarrelling with each other1 or conversing with their maids by stealth1 till they were brought into company as marriageable4 ,their mother1 a widow1 was busy in the mean time in keeping up her connexions1 as she termed a numerous acquaintance lest her girls should want a proper introduction into the great world4 ,and these young ladies1 with minds vulgar in every sense of the word1 and spoiled tempers1 entered life puffed up with notions of their own consequence1 and looking down with contempt on those who could not vie with them in dress and parade4 ,with respect to love1 nature1 or their nurses1 had taken care to teach them the physical meaning of the word2 and1 as they had few topics of conversation1 and fewer refinements of sentiment1 they expressed their gross wishes not in very delicate phrases1 when they spoke freely1 talking of matrimony4 ,could these girls have been injured by the perusal of novels8 ,i almost forgot a shade in the character of one of them2 she affected a simplicity bordering on folly1 and with a simper would utter the most immodest remarks and questions1 the full meaning of which she had learned whilst secluded from the world1 and afraid to speak in her mother's presence1 who governed with a high hand2 they were all educated1 as she prided herself1 in a most exemplary manner2 and read their chapters and psalms before breakfast1 never touching a silly novel4 ,this is only one instance2 but ,i recollect many other women who1 not led by degrees to proper studies1 and not permitted to choose for themselves1 have indeed been overgrown children2 or have obtained1 by mixing in the world1 a little of what is termed common sense2 that is1 a distinct manner of seeing common occurrences1 as they stand detached3 but what deserves the name of intellect1 the power of gaining general or abstract ideas1 or even intermediate ones1 was out of the question4 ,their minds were quiescent1 and when they were not roused by sensible objects and employments of that kind1 they were low-spirited1 would cry1 or go to sleep4 ,when1 therefore1 ,i advise my sex not to read such flimsy works1 it is to induce them to read something superior2 for ,i coincide in opinion with a sagacious man1 who1 having a daughter and niece under his care1 pursued a very different plan with each4 ,the niece1 who had considerable abilities1 had1 before she was left to his guardianship1 been indulged in desultory reading4 ,her he endeavoured to lead1 and did lead1 to history and moral essays2 but his daughter whom a fond weak mother had indulged1 and who consequently was averse to every thing like application1 he allowed to read novels2 and used to justify his conduct by saying1 that if she ever attained a relish for reading them1 he should have some foundation to work upon2 and that erroneous opinions were better than none at all4 ,in fact1 the female mind has been so totally neglected1 that knowledge was only to be acquired from this muddy source1 till from reading novels some women of superior talents learned to despise them4 ,the best method1 ,i believe1 that can be adopted to correct a fondness for novels is to ridicule them2 not indiscriminately1 for then it would have little effect2 but1 if a judicious person1 with some turn for humour1 would read several to a young girl1 and point out1 both by tones and apt comparisons with pathetic incidents and heroic characters in history1 how foolishly and ridiculously they caricatured human nature1 just opinions might be substituted instead of romantic sentiments4 ,in one respect1 however1 the majority of both sexes resemble1 and equally show a want of taste and modesty4 ,ignorant women1 forced to be chaste to preserve their reputation1 allow their imagination to revel in the unnatural and meretricious scenes sketched by the novel writers of the day1 slighting as insipid the sober dignity and matronly grace of history199 whilst men carry the same vitiated taste into life1 and fly for amusement to the wanton1 from the unsophisticated charms of virtue1 and the grave respectability of sense4 799,footnote4 ,i am not now alluding to that superiority of mind which leads to the creation of ideal beauty1 when life surveyed with a penetrating eye1 appears a tragi-comedy1 in which little can be seen to satisfy the heart without the help of fancy47 ,besides1 the reading of novels makes women1 and particularly ladies of fashion1 very fond of using strong expressions and superlatives in conversation2 and1 though the dissipated artificial life which they lead prevents their cherishing any strong legitimate passion1 the language of passion in affected tones slips for ever from their glib tongues1 and every trifle produces those phosphoric bursts which only mimick in the dark the flame of passion4 ,,section #ac4c4 ,ignorance and the mistaken cunning that nature sharpens in weak heads1 as a principle of self-preservation1 render women very fond of dress1 and produce all the vanity which such a fondness may naturally be expected to generate1 to the exclusion of emulation and magnanimity4 ,i agree with ,rousseau1 that the physical part of the art of pleasing consists in ornaments1 and for that very reason ,i should guard girls against the contagious fondness for dress so common to weak women1 that they may not rest in the physical part4 ,yet1 weak are the women who imagine that they can long please without the aid of the mind2 or1 in other words1 without the moral art of pleasing4 ,but the moral art1 if it be not a profanation to use the word art1 when alluding to the grace which is an effect of virtue1 and not the motive of action1 is never to be found with ignorance2 the sportiveness of innocence1 so pleasing to refined libertines of both sexes1 is widely different in its essence from this superior gracefulness4 ,a strong inclination for external ornaments ever appears in barbarous states1 only the men not the women adorn themselves2 for where women are allowed to be so far on a level with men1 society has advanced at least one step in civilization4 ,the attention to dress1 therefore1 which has been thought a sexual propensity1 ,i think natural to mankind4 ,but ,i ought to express myself with more precision4 ,when the mind is not sufficiently opened to take pleasure in reflection1 the body will be adorned with sedulous care2 and ambition will appear in tattooing or painting it4 ,so far is the first inclination carried1 that even the hellish yoke of slavery cannot stifle the savage desire of admiration which the black heroes inherit from both their parents1 for all the hardly-earned savings of a slave are commonly expended in a little tawdry finery4 ,and ,i have seldom known a good male or female servant that was not particularly fond of dress4 ,their clothes were their riches2 and ,i argue from analogy1 that the fondness for dress1 so extravagant in females1 arises from the same cause--want of cultivation of mind4 ,when men meet they converse about business1 politics1 or literature2 but1 says ,swift1 how naturally do women apply their hands to each others lappets and ruffles4 ,and very natural it is--for they have not any business to interest them1 have not a taste for literature1 and they find politics dry1 because they have not acquired a love for mankind by turning their thoughts to the grand pursuits that exalt the human race and promote general happiness4 ,besides1 various are the paths to power and fame1 which by accident or choice men pursue1 and though they jostle against each other1 for men of the same profession are seldom friends1 yet there is a much greater number of their fellow-creatures with whom they never clash4 ,but women are very differently situated with respect to each other--for they are all rivals4 ,before marriage it is their business to please men2 and after1 with a few exceptions1 they follow the same scent1 with all the persevering pertinacity of instinct4 ,even virtuous women never forget their sex in company1 for they are for ever trying to make themselves ,,agreeable4 ,a female beauty and a male wit1 appear to be equally anxious to draw the attention of the company to themselves2 and the animosity of contemporary wits is proverbial4 ,is it then surprising1 that when the sole ambition of woman centres in beauty1 and interest gives vanity additional force1 perpetual rivalships should ensue8 ,they are all running the same race1 and would rise above the virtue of mortals if they did not view each other with a suspicious and even envious eye4 ,an immoderate fondness for dress1 for pleasure and for sway1 are the passions of savages2 the passions that occupy those uncivilized beings who have not yet extended the dominion of the mind1 or even learned to think with the energy necessary to concatenate that abstract train of thought which produces principles4 ,and that women1 from their education and the present state of civilized life1 are in the same condition1 cannot1 ,i think1 be controverted4 ,to laugh at them then1 or satirize the follies of a being who is never to be allowed to act freely from the light of her own reason1 is as absurd as cruel2 for that they who are taught blindly to obey authority1 will endeavour cunningly to elude it1 is most natural and certain4 ,yet let it be proved1 that they ought to obey man implicitly1 and ,i shall immediately agree that it is woman's duty to cultivate a fondness for dress1 in order to please1 and a propensity to cunning for her own preservation4 ,the virtues1 however1 which are supported by ignorance1 must ever be wavering--the house built on sand could not endure a storm4 ,it is almost unnecessary to draw the inference4 ,if women are to be made virtuous by authority1 which is a contradiction in terms1 let them be immured in seraglios and watched with a jealous eye4 ,fear not that the iron will enter into their souls--for the souls that can bear such treatment are made of yielding materials1 just animated enough to give life to the body4 ,matter too soft a lasting mark to bear1 ,and best distinguish'd by black1 brown1 or fair4 ,the most cruel wounds will of course soon heal1 and they may still people the world1 and dress to please man--all the purposes which certain celebrated writers have allowed that they were created to fill4 ,,section #ac4d4 ,women are supposed to possess more sensibility1 and even humanity1 than men1 and their strong attachments and instantaneous emotions of compassion are given as proofs2 but the clinging affection of ignorance has seldom any thing noble in it1 and may mostly be resolved into selfishness1 as well as the affection of children and brutes4 ,i have known many weak women whose sensibility was entirely engrossed by their husbands2 and as for their humanity1 it was very faint indeed1 or rather it was only a transient emotion of compassion1 ,humanity does not consist in a squeamish ear1 says an eminent orator4 ,it belongs to the mind as well as the nerves4 ,but this kind of exclusive affection1 though it degrade the individual1 should not be brought forward as a proof of the inferiority of the sex1 because it is the natural consequence of confined views3 for even women of superior sense1 having their attention turned to little employments1 and private plans1 rarely rise to heroism1 unless when spurred on by love2 and love as an heroic passion1 like genius1 appears but once in an age4 ,i therefore agree with the moralist who asserts1 that women have seldom so much generosity as men2 and that their narrow affections1 to which justice and humanity are often sacrificed1 render the sex apparently inferior1 especially as they are commonly inspired by men2 but ,i contend1 that the heart would expand as the understanding gained strength1 if women were not depressed from their cradles4 ,i know that a little sensibility and great weakness will produce a strong sexual attachment1 and that reason must cement friendship2 consequently ,i allow1 that more friendship is to be found in the male than the female world1 and that men have a higher sense of justice4 ,the exclusive affections of women seem indeed to resemble ,cato's most unjust love for his country4 ,he wished to crush ,carthage1 not to save ,rome1 but to promote its vain glory2 and in general1 it is to similar principles that humanity is sacrificed1 for genuine duties support each other4 ,besides1 how can women be just or generous1 when they are the slaves of injustice4 ,,section #ac4e4 ,as the rearing of children1 that is1 the laying a foundation of sound health both of body and mind in the rising generation1 has justly been insisted on as the peculiar destination of woman1 the ignorance that incapacitates them must be contrary to the order of things4 ,and ,i contend1 that their minds can take in much more1 and ought to do so1 or they will never become sensible mothers4 ,many men attend to the breeding of horses1 and overlook the management of the stable1 who would1 strange want of sense and feeling6 think themselves degraded by paying any attention to the nursery2 yet1 how many children are absolutely murdered by the ignorance of women6 ,but when they escape1 and are neither destroyed by unnatural negligence nor blind fondness1 how few are managed properly with respect to the infant mind6 ,so that to break the spirit1 allowed to become vicious at home1 a child is sent to school2 and the methods taken there1 which must be taken to keep a number of children in order1 scatter the seeds of almost every vice in the soil thus forcibly torn up4 ,i have sometimes compared the struggles of these poor children who ought never to have felt restraint1 nor would1 had they been always held in with an even hand1 to the despairing plunges of a spirited filly1 which ,i have seen breaking on a strand2 its feet sinking deeper and deeper in the sand every time it endeavoured to throw its rider1 till at last it sullenly submitted4 ,i have always found horses1 an animal ,i am attached to1 very tractable when treated with humanity and steadiness1 so that ,i doubt whether the violent methods taken to break them1 do not essentially injure them2 ,i am1 however1 certain that a child should never be thus forcibly tamed after it has injudiciously been allowed to run wild2 for every violation of justice and reason1 in the treatment of children1 weakens their reason4 ,and1 so early do they catch a character1 that the base of the moral character1 experience leads me to infer1 is fixed before their seventh year1 the period during which women are allowed the sole management of children4 ,afterwards it too often happens that half the business of education is to correct1 and very imperfectly is it done1 if done hastily1 the faults1 which they would never have acquired if their mothers had had more understanding4 ,one striking instance of the folly of women must not be omitted4 ,the manner in which they treat servants in the presence of children1 permitting them to suppose1 that they ought to wait on them1 and bear their humours4 ,a child should always be made to receive assistance from a man or woman as a favour2 and1 as the first lesson of independence1 they should practically be taught1 by the example of their mother1 not to require that personal attendance which it is an insult to humanity to require1 when in health2 and instead of being led to assume airs of consequence1 a sense of their own weakness should first make them feel the natural equality of man4 ,yet1 how frequently have ,i indignantly heard servants imperiously called to put children to bed1 and sent away again and again1 because master or miss hung about mamma1 to stay a little longer4 ,thus made slavishly to attend the little idol1 all those most disgusting humours were exhibited which characterize a spoiled child4 ,in short1 speaking of the majority of mothers1 they leave their children entirely to the care of servants3 or1 because they are their children1 treat them as if they were little demi-gods1 though ,i have always observed1 that the women who thus idolize their children1 seldom show common humanity to servants1 or feel the least tenderness for any children but their own4 ,it is1 however1 these exclusive affections1 and an individual manner of seeing things1 produced by ignorance1 which keep women for ever at a stand1 with respect to improvement1 and make many of them dedicate their lives to their children only to weaken their bodies and spoil their tempers1 frustrating also any plan of education that a more rational father may adopt2 for unless a mother concurs1 the father who restrains will ever be considered as a tyrant4 ,but1 fulfilling the duties of a mother1 a woman with a sound constitution1 may still keep her person scrupulously neat1 and assist to maintain her family1 if necessary1 or by reading and conversations with both sexes1 indiscriminately1 improve her mind4 ,for nature has so wisely ordered things1 that did women suckle their children1 they would preserve their own health1 and there would be such an interval between the birth of each child1 that we should seldom see a house full of babes4 ,and did they pursue a plan of conduct1 and not waste their time in following the fashionable vagaries of dress1 the management of their household and children need not shut them out from literature1 nor prevent their attaching themselves to a science1 with that steady eye which strengthens the mind1 or practising one of the fine arts that cultivate the taste4 ,but1 visiting to display finery1 card playing1 and balls1 not to mention the idle bustle of morning trifling1 draw women from their duty1 to render them insignificant1 to render them pleasing1 according to the present acceptation of the word1 to every man1 but their husband4 ,for a round of pleasures in which the affections are not exercised1 cannot be said to improve the understanding1 though it be erroneously called seeing the world2 yet the heart is rendered cold and averse to duty1 by such a senseless intercourse1 which becomes necessary from habit1 even when it has ceased to amuse4 ,but1 till more equality be established in society1 till ranks are confounded and women freed1 we shall not see that dignified domestic happiness1 the simple grandeur of which cannot be relished by ignorant or vitiated minds2 nor will the important task of education ever be properly begun till the person of a woman is no longer preferred to her mind4 ,for it would be as wise to expect corn from tares1 or figs from thistles1 as that a foolish ignorant woman should be a good mother4 ,,section #ac4f4 ,it is not necessary to inform the sagacious reader1 now ,i enter on my concluding reflections1 that the discussion of this subject merely consists in opening a few simple principles1 and clearing away the rubbish which obscured them4 ,but1 as all readers are not sagacious1 ,i must be allowed to add some explanatory remarks to bring the subject home to reason--to that sluggish reason1 which supinely takes opinions on trust1 and obstinately supports them to spare itself the labour of thinking4 ,moralists have unanimously agreed1 that unless virtue be nursed by liberty1 it will never attain due strength--and what they say of man ,i extend to mankind1 insisting1 that in all cases morals must be fixed on immutable principles2 and that the being cannot be termed rational or virtuous1 who obeys any authority but that of reason4 ,to render women truly useful members of society1 ,i argue1 that they should be led1 by having their understandings cultivated on a large scale1 to acquire a rational affection for their country1 founded on knowledge1 because it is obvious1 that we are little interested about what we do not understand4 ,and to render this general knowledge of due importance1 ,i have endeavoured to show that private duties are never properly fulfilled1 unless the understanding enlarges the heart2 and that public virtue is only an aggregate of private4 ,but1 the distinctions established in society undermine both1 by beating out the solid gold of virtue1 till it becomes only the tinsel-covering of vice2 for1 whilst wealth renders a man more respectable than virtue1 wealth will be sought before virtue2 and1 whilst women's persons are caressed1 when a childish simper shows an absence of mind--the mind will lie fallow4 ,yet1 true voluptuousness must proceed from the mind--for what can equal the sensations produced by mutual affection1 supported by mutual respect8 ,what are the cold or feverish caresses of appetite1 but sin embracing death1 compared with the modest overflowings of a pure heart and exalted imagination8 ,yes1 let me tell the libertine of fancy when he despises understanding in woman--that the mind1 which he disregards1 gives life to the enthusiastic affection from which rapture1 short-lived as it is1 alone can flow6 ,and1 that1 without virtue1 a sexual attachment must expire1 like a tallow candle in the socket1 creating intolerable disgust4 ,to prove this1 ,i need only observe1 that men who have wasted great part of their lives with women1 and with whom they have sought for pleasure with eager thirst1 entertain the meanest opinion of the sex4 ,virtue1 true refiner of joy6 if foolish men were to fright thee from earth1 in order to give loose to all their appetites without a check--some sensual wight of taste would scale the heavens to invite thee back1 to give a zest to pleasure6 ,that women at present are by ignorance rendered foolish or vicious1 is1 ,i think1 not to be disputed2 and1 that the most salutary effects tending to improve mankind1 might be expected from a ,,revolution in female manners1 appears at least1 with a face of probability1 to rise out of the observation4 ,for as marriage has been termed the parent of those endearing charities1 which draw man from the brutal herd1 the corrupting intercourse that wealth1 idleness1 and folly produce between the sexes1 is more universally injurious to morality1 than all the other vices of mankind collectively considered4 ,to adulterous lust the most sacred duties are sacrificed1 because1 before marriage1 men1 by a promiscuous intimacy with women1 learned to consider love as a selfish gratification--learned to separate it not only from esteem1 but from the affection merely built on habit1 which mixes a little humanity with it4 ,justice and friendship are also set at defiance1 and that purity of taste is vitiated1 which would naturally lead a man to relish an artless display of affection1 rather than affected airs4 ,but that noble simplicity of affection1 which dares to appear unadorned1 has few attractions for the libertine1 though it be the charm1 which1 by cementing the matrimonial tie1 secures to the pledges of a warmer passion the necessary parental attention2 for children will never be properly educated till friendship subsists between parents4 ,virtue flies from a house divided against itself--and a whole legion of devils take up their residence there4 ,the affection of husbands and wives cannot be pure when they have so few sentiments in common1 and when so little confidence is established at home1 as must be the case when their pursuits are so different4 ,that intimacy from which tenderness should flow1 will not1 cannot subsist between the vicious4 ,contending1 therefore1 that the sexual distinction1 which men have so warmly insisted upon1 is arbitrary1 ,i have dwelt on an observation1 that several sensible men1 with whom ,i have conversed on the subject1 allowed to be well founded2 and it is simply this1 that the little chastity to be found amongst men1 and consequent disregard of modesty1 tend to degrade both sexes2 and further1 that the modesty of women1 characterized as such1 will often be only the artful veil of wantonness1 instead of being the natural reflection of purity1 till modesty be universally respected4 ,from the tyranny of man1 ,i firmly believe1 the greater number of female follies proceed2 and the cunning1 which ,i allow1 makes at present a part of their character1 ,i likewise have repeatedly endeavoured to prove1 is produced by oppression4 ,were not dissenters1 for instance1 a class of people1 with strict truth characterized as cunning8 ,and may ,i not lay some stress on this fact to prove1 that when any power but reason curbs the free spirit of man1 dissimulation is practised1 and the various shifts of art are naturally called forth8 ,great attention to decorum1 which was carried to a degree of scrupulosity1 and all that puerile bustle about trifles and consequential solemnity1 which ,butler's caricature of a dissenter brings before the imagination1 shaped their persons as well as their minds in the mould of prim littleness4 ,i speak collectively1 for ,i know how many ornaments to human nature have been enrolled amongst sectaries2 yet1 ,i assert1 that the same narrow prejudice for their sect1 which women have for their families1 prevailed in the dissenting part of the community1 however worthy in other respects2 and also that the same timid prudence1 or headstrong efforts1 often disgraced the exertions of both4 ,oppression thus formed many of the features of their character perfectly to coincide with that of the oppressed half of mankind2 for is it not notorious1 that dissenters were like women1 fond of deliberating together1 and asking advice of each other1 till by a complication of little contrivances1 some little end was brought about8 ,a similar attention to preserve their reputation was conspicuous in the dissenting and female world1 and was produced by a similar cause4 ,asserting the rights which women in common with men ought to contend for1 ,i have not attempted to extenuate their faults2 but to prove them to be the natural consequence of their education and station in society4 ,if so1 it is reasonable to suppose1 that they will change their character1 and correct their vices and follies1 when they are allowed to be free in a physical1 moral1 and civil sense4 ,let woman share the rights1 and she will emulate the virtues of man2 for she must grow more perfect when emancipated1 or justify the authority that chains such a weak being to her duty4 ,if the latter1 it will be expedient to open a fresh trade with ,russia for whips2 a present which a father should always make to his son-in-law on his wedding day1 that a husband may keep his whole family in order by the same means2 and without any violation of justice reign1 wielding this sceptre1 sole master of his house1 because he is the only being in it who has reason2 the divine1 indefeasible1 earthly sovereignty breathed into man by the ,master of the universe4 ,allowing this position1 women have not any inherent rights to claim2 and1 by the same rule their duties vanish1 for rights and duties are inseparable4 ,be just then1 ,o ye men of understanding6 and mark not more severely what women do amiss1 than the vicious tricks of the horse or the ass for whom ye provide provender1 and allow her the privileges of ignorance1 to whom ye deny the rights of reason1 or ye will be worse than ,egyptian task-masters1 expecting virtue where nature has not given understanding6