,,sex ,the ,unknown ,quantity ,,the ,,spiritual ,,function ,,of ,,sex ,a ,new and ,startling ,interpretation of the ,meaning1 ,scope and ,function of ,sex as ,seen and ,interpreted ,from the ,inner or ,cosmic ,standpoint4 ,a ,work ,that ,should ,revolutionize the ,thought of ,today in its ,relation to the ,vital ,mystery of ,sex in ,all its ,aspects4 ,it ,presents a ,practical ,solution to the ,sex ,problems of ,everyday ,life4 ,by ,,ali ,,nomad ,,dr4 ,,alexander ,j4 ,mc,i,v,o,r-,,tyndall ,author of ,,cosmic ,,consciousness1 ,,or ,,the ,,man-,,god ,,whom ,,we ,,await1 ,,the ,,dead ,,speak ,,revelations ,,of ,,the ,,hand1 ,,ghosts1 ,,how ,,thought ,,can ,,kill ,,personal ,,magnetism1 ,,proofs ,,of ,,immortality1 ,,etc4 ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company #aiaf ,copyright1 #aiaf1 by ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company4 ,copyrighted and ,registered in ,stationers' ,hall1 ,london1 ,england4 7,all ,rights ,reserved7 ,,copyright ,,in ,,all ,,countries ,,signatories ,,to ,,the ,,berne ,,convention4 ,,the ,,sterling ,,press4 ,,dedicated ,,to ,,the ,,child ,,of ,,tomorrow ,,the ,,man-,,god ,,whom ,,we ,,await ,,publisher',s ,,foreword ,,to ,,our ,,readers3 ,we feel justified in claiming this work marks an epoch in the advanced thought of human evolution4 ,nothing has ever been written dealing with the problem of ,sex which is at once so illuminating1 convincing and satisfying4 ,to our knowledge this particular view of the sex-subject has never before been presented1 and1 perhaps it could not have been1 owing to the fact that it is only now in these days of higher thought1 that such a view could be understood4 ,the author1 ,ali ,nomad1 is already well known to progressive readers as the writer of ,cosmic ,consciousness1 or1 ,the ,man-,god ,whom ,we ,await2 a work that has made its author famous by the reprint of its many editions4 ,there are signs of a new order in the relation of the ,sexes already indicated upon the horizon of the ,world's consciousness as the result of the present world-conflict4 ,today people are as ignorant of the subject of ,sex as they are of ,god4 ,both of these must be understood if the race is to progress beyond its present stage4 ,otherwise we shall pass into the long sleep of oblivion like all civilizations in the past leaving future generations to grapple with the same world problems4 ,true or perfect marriage is the most important attainment in the life of the individual4 ,the author demonstrates that perfect marriage is a scientific possibility and that legal marriage and divorce simply conform to civil laws4 ,he very clearly outlines the reason why civilization makes little or no progress in dealing with the social evil and other sex problems4 ,the publishers place this book before an intelligent public1 believing1 that more real knowledge can be gained by its study1 than by any other known method1 because ,first4 ,the reader is brought face to face with himself1 and nature4 ,second4 ,the reader can demonstrate the truth of the propositions set forth4 ,third4 ,the methods1 rules1 and laws have been verified by intelligent men and women who have lived the life4 ,fourth4 ,sex1 ,the ,divine ,principle which all human beings should understand1 has been presented in plain simple terms1 and elucidated1 so that the reader cannot fail to understand the true path of moral progress4 ,this volume is not a romance1 a fairy tale nor a dream intended to entertain or amuse1 but a scientific instruction which will elevate the individual and the race1 develop self respect1 self control1 morality and love4 ,if the propositions presented by the author are correct--let the standards be changed2 if the propositions are incorrect1 they will not disturb the standards of today4 ,,the ,,publishers4 ,,sex--,,the ,,unknown ,,quantity ,the ,spiritual ,function of ,sex ,,contents ,,introduction ,,chapter ,i ,,sex ,,universal ,,and ,,eternal #ai ,sex the fundamental basis of the universe2 sex in organic life2 the law of attraction and repulsion in animal and plant life2 sex attraction and repulsion in human life2 how differentiated and why2 some secrets of modern chemistry2 the cosmic law of involution and evolution2 the symbol of the serpent in a new light2 what is the power of the gods referred to in ancient mythology2 some erroneous ideas in regard to the sex function2 the philosophy of restraint2 the inner sex-function and its outward expression compared2 the senses as avenues of inspiration2 the creation of form and sense-objects2 what constitutes a perfect and complete being8 the theory of counterparts and its spiritual significance2 is procreation the highest function of sex2 what constitutes the fundamental law of love8 the various expressions of the love-nature from inorganic to organic life4 ,,chapter ,,ii ,,from ,,sex ,,worship ,,to ,,sex ,,degradation #bi ,sex the origin of all religious ceremonies2 from nature-worship to sex-worship2 the history of ,ancient forms and ceremonies of worship2 how sex-worship has survived the ages2 how it thrives today in modern religion2 early stages of civilization in relation to ,sex2 the antiquity of the symbol of the virgin and child2 its occult significance in symbolism2 the reality of the bi-une ,god2 some secrets of the ,ancient ,egyptians in regard to the function of sex2 the esoteric cause of the ,egyptian talismanic and symbolical revival today2 the secret or esoteric meaning of the swastika-cross2 why ,aum is always typified by a circle2 ancient forms of oath-taking and why2 the source of sex-energy spiritual2 how and where the idea of blood-atonement and vicarious sacrifice originated2 the beginning of sex-degradation4 ,,chapter ,,iii ,,present-,,day ,,conditions3 ,,the ,,cosmic ,,cause #ec ,the consecutive order from ancient sex-worship to modern civilization2 the real causes of race-advancement in the cosmic tidal-wave1 and what it portends2 why conditions are as they are today in regard to sex-life2 the psychic forces in their relation to sex-life2 some fallacies in regard to ,eugenics2 why ,greek and ,roman civilization failed2 why and how modern civilization need not fail2 why women seek to avoid motherhood2 women of two types2 the awake and the asleep2 the cosmic office of the ,female ,principle2 its relation to ,creation2 how the superman and woman will differ from the undeveloped type2 what is meant by half-gods2 are women of today lacking in the love-nature2 will the race die out8 ,if so1 why1 and if not why not8 ,how did the ,holy ,family differ from other families8 ,,chapter ,,iv ,,the ,,history ,,of ,,marriage ,,and ,,mating #ge ,the relation of ancient marriage customs to religion2 why human evolution must necessarily be slow2 ancient marriage customs and their spiritual interpretation2 why marriage ceremonies have always prevailed2 customs of all races compared2 why the institution has a permanent place in ,social ,evolution2 the symbolism of the visible world2 why ,science and ,mysticism agree spiritually2 the origin of variation the fundamental cause of woman's subjugation2 when men defend outraged honor1 is it a primitive or a primordial instinct8 the history of monogamy2 the monogamic idea and the ideal monogamy2 the history and cause of polygamy2 the evolution of the old-maid idea and the psychic cause of this evolution2 the path of the virtuous woman in ancient days2 the elevating power in the dowry system2 the two great purposes which this custom has served4 ,,chapter ,v ,,the ,,symbolism ,,of ,,marriage ,,and ,,of ,,sex-,,union #ic ,why the monogamic ideal of marriage is right2 how1 when and where1 will marriage be lasting2 the basic principle of sex-union2 when the bonds of matrimony are truly holy2 attraction and cohesion two distinct phases of chemical laws2 ideas of a modern writer2 how all morality has come from the ideal of marriage2 some erroneous ideas of spirituality in relation to the sex-function2 when and why ,man becomes immortal2 the custom and the hidden meaning in the wedding ring2 the symbolism of ancient marriage customs2 the esoteric meaning of orange-blossoms2 the veil2 the ring2 the crown2 why these have endured throughout the ages2 the interior and hidden meaning of ,rosicrusian symbols in respect to the sex-function2 women admitted to the ,order and why2 the mystery and marvel of the symbolic dove2 why it plays so important a part in marriage customs and lover's phrases2 the symbolism of the ark2 the egg2 the drinking-cup and other persisting accompaniments to marriage customs4 ,,chapter ,,vi ,,continence2 ,,chastity2 ,,asceticism3 ,,their ,,spiritual ,,significance #ajc ,the ,ancient ,greek and ,roman idea of the sex-relation2 why the asceticism of the ,dark ,ages arose2 why the ,church instituted celibacy2 why the ,church retained the pagan idea of the virgin2 the effect this has had upon the growth and power of ,christianity2 lives of celebrated saints in the light of ,occult wisdom2 why and in what way the essentials of ,christianity are like other religious ideals2 who is the ,one ,true and ,only ,god8 the interior meaning of the word chastity2 the difference between chastity and asceticism2 the unbroken line connecting ancient ideas of sex1 with modern2 the attitude of religious systems toward women2 why women are supporters of the churches in modern days2 the mystic bride and the mystical meaning2 ,william ,james comments on the spiritual ecstacy of ,st4 ,teresa2 ,swedenborg on ,conjugal love2 trances2 ecstacies2 and visions of saints2 the term virgin1 and its origin2 the evolution of sex-love to spiritual love4 ,,chapter ,,vii ,,soul-,,union3 ,,where ,,will ,,it ,,lead8 #aai ,why we hear of affinities and soul-mates today more than formerly2 the great distinction between these two words2 the psychic forces behind woman's invasion of business fields2 the basis of the unwritten law2 why affinity marriages fail2 the hidden reason girls look for a rich husband2 the final outcome2 when and how women are ruined2 the mystery of the hermaphrodite2 what is the true significance of the term androgynous8 mistaken ideas of morality in dress and manners2 what sort of beings constitute the kingdom of ,god8 the secret of secrets of the ,hermetics2 the wisdom of the initiates2 the spiritual quality in folk-lore2 the time when temptation will be no more2 when naked and unashamed the race will re-enter the lost ,paradise4 ,,chapter ,,viii ,,the ,,hidden ,,wisdom ,,revealed #acg ,science and mysticism the same at root2 ,christian mysticism versus scientific postulates2 the interior meaning in fairy stories2 personalities and principles in mystic revelation2 the esoteric meaning in ,mythology2 are there gods and mortals8 the ark in religious symbology2 its interior meaning2 what were the tablets of stone8 the reality of the cherubim and the seraphim2 the inner meaning of the symbolical ark of the ,covenant2 is spiritual love devoid of sex82 what is the symbolical flaming sword82 why the ,jews claimed to be ,god's chosen people2 what makes for immortal godhood82 the symbolism of the life-token stories2 the symbolism of the sleeping princess2 a theory that solves all the problems of life2 the symbolical rites and ceremonies of secret orders2 the secrets of the ,ancient ,alchemists2 the ,rosicrucians2 the ,free ,masons2 the ,hermetics2 their initiation rites and ceremonies explained2 what is meant by the ,holy of ,holies8 by the secret chamber2 and the degree of mastership2 the sexual significance of the symbolism of the templars2 the red rose on the cross2 the star and the crescent2 what is the inner meaning of the radiant center2 why the ,catholic ,church opposed the order of ,free-masons2 did the ,alchemists discover the secret of metallic transmutation8 what is meant by the philosopher's stone2 why it was of such a rare purity2 why the early ,church opposed all reference to sex2 the distinction between discovering and finding2 their spiritual meaning2 what was the stone that was raised at ,babylon3 was it a phallic symbol8 why the average ,knight ,templar fails to attain the powers and privileges of esoteric ,free-masonry2 what is the gate of life8 the ,arcana of the ,hermetics and its sexual significance2 the symbolism of the double-headed eagle2 why the eagle was an ancient religious symbol2 the antithesis of the eagle and the dove explained2 the lamb and the goat symbolism2 the ,god-ideas of the ,ancients and their effects on modern life2 why riding the goat is the usual initiatory rite and ceremony in secret orders2 some secret plates of ,hermetic orders explained2 what is the magic solvent of the alchemists8 the relation of ,christian symbolism to the ,alchemical secrets2 the inner meaning of the sun and the moon in ancient literature2 transmutation3 exterior or interior8 what constitutes the abiding glory4 ,,chapter ,,ix ,,what ,,constitutes ,,sexual ,,immorality8 #aei ,can there be standards of morality in the sex-relation2 if so what are they8 is monogamy the ideal sex relationship8 is polygamy a future possibility8 why matriarchal polygamy is less degrading than patriarchal2 why polygamy is not the ideal sex relationship2 the fallacy of legal marriage as a test of sexual morality2 why we cannot wrong the universe2 the one commandment of the ,most ,high ,god2 what is it8 our modern standards the result of phallic worship2 why the ,roman ,church has survived the centuries2 the interior meaning in the ,holy ,virgin idea of the ,church2 the vital point in the ,roman marriage restrictions2 men inherently more faithful to marriage vows than women1 and why this is so2 the bi-sexual individual the most developed2 the counterpartal union and its relation to marriage customs2 why affinities are so numerous2 sexual infidelity an impossible premise2 what is to become of present-day ethical standards of sexual morality82 historic ideas of sexual immorality and their influence upon modern civilization2 modern effects of ancient ,hebraic customs2 why suppression of prostitution must fail2 why prostitution is moral degeneracy2 the ,oriental versus the ,occidental view of prostitution2 why modern ideas of sexual morality are fallacious and untenable2 can there be a universal standard of sexual morality8 why present-day ideas of marriage are degrading2 compulsion in marriage and prostitution compared2 how1 why1 and when1 the sex-relation may be exalted1 reverenced and deified2 mistakes of some ,civic ,leaguers2 why1 when1 and how1 unfaithfulness in marriage is wrong2 the single versus the double standard in sex4 ,,chapter ,x ,,the ,,pathway ,,of ,,love #ahi ,love the ,great ,reality2 ,love the ,alpha and ,omega of ,life2 ,sex-love the basis of all other loves2 ,sex-love the true spiritual love2 what is love of an abstract ,god8 ,love the perfect mathematician2 the moral code and ,nature2 why we cannot break the laws of ,god2 why ,love is depicted with bandaged eyes2 ,eros and ,cupid explained2 why the ,egyptians depicted ,horus with finger on lips2 some symbolic caricatures in modern civilization2 how it is true that love makes gods of men2 why ,religion has remained materialistic2 ,love1 the only vitalizing power in the universe2 the arch-enemy of ,love2 why ,love never leads to disaster2 why ,love is always pure2 erroneous ideas of success and failure2 what is real degradation8 the pathway of love from chemical attraction to spiritual union2 why spiritual mates must be the answer to ,life's puzzle2 what constitutes actual infidelity8 what is to be done with sex relations that are not spiritual unions8 ,are they immoral8 too much made of the marriage ceremony and too little of fitness2 is it better to be respectably bonded or spiritually mated8 what will happen when we rid ,society of a belief in impure love2 why marriage vows are inadequate2 puerile2 and futile2 when we find the pearl of great price2 why spiritual mates cannot be parted2 why bonds and vows must give place to mutual agreement2 does spiritual union come with love of ,god8 what is the bliss of ,nirvana8 why the libertine is a pauper in the realm of love2 when we imbibe the nectar of gods2 why the holy of ,holies cannot be defiled2 when the divine office of sex is prostituted2 why all sex relations may not be eternal yet moral2 the mistaken teaching of the church regarding sex1 and the result2 inane ideas of ,paradise2 an appalling prospect of heaven2 perfect sex-union the incentive to aspiration2 ,humanity progresses in spite of fear2 prophecy literally true2 the true business of business2 the final test2 the ,love that is merging1 melting2 satisfying and how to attain it4 ,,chapter ,,xi ,,the ,,law ,,of ,,transmutation #bji ,the spiritual cause of all physical activity2 two words that are of vital import today2 did ,jesus lie8 is the kingdom within an actual truth8 the interior qualities and their relationship to present day affairs2 the fundamental difference between mysticism and ,christianity2 the key to the kingdom2 the interior symbolism of wireless telegraphy2 the breeder of discord2 the interior meaning of certain important words2 the survival of the fittest in its interior meaning2 the finer and ever finer forces at work2 when the gods arrive the half gods go2 sex-force at the ,center of ,being2 when abnormalities and perversions of sex will be impossible2 the radiant center of the bi-une sex-life2 the primary function of sex-force vitalization1 not procreation2 the art of transmutation and the key to the gate of life2 the esoteric meaning of our second childhood2 the present necessity for physical old-age2 the spiritual message in the doctrine of sacrifice2 the mystical formula for transmutation2 the mystery of the ,holy ,grail elucidated2 the only method of attaining godhood4 ,,chapter ,,xii ,,selling ,,the ,,thrones ,,of ,,angels #bca ,the barriers between men and the bliss of ,heaven2 the difference between mortals and gods2 the character of a bi-une ,being2 erroneous ideas of masculinity and femininity2 the change of the present day toward these ideas2 ,god not a hermaphroditic ,personality1 but a pair2 some laws of ,god2 the ideal of union versus the idea of possession2 the highest manifestation of sex-love2 the solar-man and the mental man in sex2 qualities of sex-force2 is the divine man less sexual than the physical8 the divine fulcrum of ,sex2 how eternal youth and life are possible2 why you can not lose in the game of ,love2 we cannot sin against the ,eternal ,god2 why and when the eternal equasion is perfect2 no mistakes or flaws in the ,cosmic scheme2 how spiritual mates may find each other2 the true way of transmutation simple2 why we have painted dolls of women2 the hearts of men2 the highest wisdom2 some fallacies regarding the law of transmutation2 why the inner vision does not require a trip to the ,himalayas2 why brotherhoods cannot insure you the way2 all beauty and joy the result of the divinity of ,sex2 life mathematically just2 when we shall enter the kingdom4 ,,introduction ,no phase of civilization can rise to the highest possibilities as long as the average mental attitude toward the most vital1 the most important and the most sacred function of our being1 is one of shame1 sinfulness1 lust and uncleanness4 ,even among those who are conscientiously trying to establish better social conditions1 there is a deplorable lack of anything like the proper attitude toward the problems of ,sex1 albeit there are evidences that our social consciousness is alive to the seriousness of the sex problem4 ,many of our advanced thinkers and scientists are giving their attention to the subject1 but it is a theme which has been so long neglected1 so hedged about by false standards of morality2 so fettered by the system of tabu1 that a rational discussion of ,sex apart from materia medica1 or religion1 is difficult4 ,moreover1 the physiological side of the sex question robs it of all the delicacy1 and the intimacy and the beauty and romance which should by right1 surround the function of sex-mating and which does surround a union that is pure and perfect4 ,in this innate desire to share with the one and only possible mate1 the intimate secrets of love1 there is nothing of shame or apology--sentiments which alas1 actuate the so-called modest man or woman of today4 ,sex matters should1 indeed1 be held too sacred1 too intimate for public discussion1 whereas the present-day attitude holds that ,sex is too indecent to be spoken of4 ,when the subject is forced upon public attention as it so frequently is through tragic occurrences1 the opinions expressed are both petty and puerile4 ,they evade the truth and so avoid the issue4 ,they deal with effects only1 are satisfied with offering suggestions as to ways and means of suppressing these effects1 instead of going to the root of the matter and realizing that all the tragedies that spring out of ,sex are due to wrong teaching and thinking in regard to the sex-function4 ,that which we reverence1 and hold sacred1 we do not profane4 ,until ,sex is established in its rightful place1 as the holy and divine creative power of this universe1 we will be shocked and horrified with sex-tragedies4 ,it is a pity that the physiological and hygienic aspect of ,sex has to be discussed at all1 but it is necessary that all sides of the subject must be presented to meet the great variety of minds1 but it is our contention that if the spiritual quality of ,sex were recognized and understood1 there would be no need for any other view1 because if ,sex were recognized as the sacred1 and holy and spiritual function that it is1 disease and sinfulness would disappear as the mist before the sun4 ,in the meantime the subject must be discussed from all points of view4 ,it must be permitted to thrive in the light and thus it will flower into the perfection of the spiritual seed that generated it4 ,in the meantime1 the debasement of all things connected with sex must be aired1 discussed1 and weeded out1 until a sane and normal and reverential recognition of the universality and the eternality of ,sex1 is engendered in the minds of men and women and growing youths and transmitted to the children yet unborn4 ,sex contains all1 says ,walt ,whitman4 ,bodies1 souls1 meanings1 proofs1 purities1 delicacies1 results1 promulgations1 songs1 commands1 health1 pride1 the maternal mystery1 the seminal milk2 all hopes1 benefactions1 bestowals2 all the passions1 loves1 beauties1 delights of earth2 all the governments1 judges1 gods1 followed persons of the earth2 these are contained in sex as parts of itself and justification of itself4 ,without shame the man ,i like knows and avows the deliciousness of his sex2 without shame the woman ,i like knows and avows hers4 ,many well-meaning persons see in the words of the good grey poet1 only an immodest and brazen shamelessness4 ,but these are mental perverts and are to be pitied2 they see through a glass darkly and everything looks black with decay2 they are trying to build an eternal future upon a foundation of tissue paper2 they are seeking to encompass immortal life by denying the very beginning and source of all life--,sex2 they are attempting the impossible feat of foisting upon the world an ideal of ,heaven from which they have extracted the very essence of ,heaven itself1 although nothing on earth or from divine sources justifies such an idea4 ,possibly our civilization has proceeded on the plan of leaving until the last the most important thing in an ideal community and it may be that we shall do the necessary reform work in this department all the more thoroughly for having so long neglected it4 ,in the following chapters the physiological and hygienic side of the subject has been avoided as there is much sound advice already issued pertaining to this phase of the sex question1 and it is our contention that the world must be brought to recognize the spiritual1 and sacred function of ,sex1 as the basis of reformation or regeneration1 before the ,kingdom of ,love shall be established upon the earth as it is in celestial spaces4 ,,the ,,author4 ,,chapter ,i ,,sex ,,universal ,,and ,,eternal ,the fundamental basis of the universe is ,sex4 ,sex is the fulcrum upon which our life-activities turn4 ,it is the life of ,man and of planets1 and ignorance of the laws of ,sex is the cause of death of both4 ,it is the conjunction of the forces of attraction and repulsion2 the positive and negative2 the centripetal and centrifugal forces which hold stars and planets in their orbits--or rather1 it is the two expressions of the one power1 which is both male and female1 the eternal bi-une sex principle which is ,life4 ,the law of attraction everywhere1 from that of the sun and the earth1 to that of the iron and the magnet1 the affinity of the various gases and liquids1 is founded upon ,sex4 ,cohesion is but another name for copulation1 and repulsion is absence of the power of contact4 ,the law of attraction and cohesion everywhere is the law of sex-activity4 ,the law of conjugality is the basis of every force in nature1 says a scientist4 ,sex constitutes the eternal energy from which issue all the forms and differentiations which we see manifested in the visible universe1 and it is equally the foundation of the realms invisible4 ,sex is the algebracial ,x--the unknown quantity which defies analysis4 ,plato is said to have observed that the son of man is written all over the visible world in the form of an ,x2 and also that the second coming of ,christ is rightly symbolized by a cross4 ,the cross is but another form of the ,x--the eternal bi-une sex-principle in action4 ,the ,female ,principle attracts to a central union2 draws toward and within itself4 ,the home is established and maintained by the female element2 the nest is the special property of the female bird4 ,thus the ,female ,principle best expresses the highest love because the object of love is union4 ,hate scatters1 disintegrates1 destroys4 ,wherever the struggle between love and hate is seen1 there we will find a lack of union4 ,there may be marriage1 but there will not be mating4 ,true union must come from the ,center of ,life--from the spiritual ,reality1 which the physical only imperfectly shadows forth4 ,involution is best described as feminine1 and wherever we note the upward trend of the feminine element in ,society1 we may know that the earth is on its involutionary path2 the end of a cycle is at hand1 and social unrest and marital upheaval are inevitable1 because ,love is in the ascendant and love demands union--not merely matrimony4 ,the ,ancients sought to express the never-beginning and never-ending law of ,sex by the symbol of the serpent with its tail in its mouth1 forming a circle4 ,the resemblance of the male sperm to the spiral convolutions of the serpent in motion1 doubtless gave rise to the adoption of the serpent as a symbol of sex-worship4 ,the retention and transmutation of the sex-force is typified by the serpent forming a circle4 ,the circle represents the attainment of godhood--victory over death through regeneration4 ,it has been said that the most primal instinct is that of hunger1 but without ,sex there would not be even the urge toward physical sustenance4 ,sex is therefore both the urge and the answer to all instincts4 ,there is a very general idea that ,sex is a physical function only4 ,it is almost universally taught that when the life of the body ceases1 sex-life ceases with it4 ,even among metaphysicians1 who believe in the continuity of life after death1 the absurd doctrine is taught that ,sex has no place or part in spiritual life1 that there is no marriage nor giving in marriage after death4 ,this idea has been a powerful deterrent in keeping the race from seeking the higher areas of spiritual consciousness4 ,lack of mere physical vitality has erroneously been estimated as evidence of spirituality4 ,chastity has unfortunately been counterfeited by mere physical restraint1 resulting in a type of human being whom the healthy1 normal person instinctively refuses to emulate1 deferring as long as possible the attainment of that which has been presented to the mind as spirituality4 ,let it be understood at the outset of this presentation of the problem of ,sex that we state emphatically1 that ,sex is an eternal verity4 ,its spiritual function is not less but infinitely more than that which we glimpse on the physical plane of life-expression4 ,far from outgrowing what we know as human love1 we add thereunto a million fold1 refining1 purifying and intensifying the sex instinct until it bears a relationship to the average instance of sex-expression1 analogous to that which the single-celled organism bears to intellectual man4 ,if we will keep in mind the fact that ,life in all its degrees of manifestation is like the ascending notes of the musical scale1 we will be able to get a more comprehensive idea of the spiritual function of the sex-urge4 ,we will realize that we can not mark a too distinctive separation between the various phases of life-manifestation4 ,we imagine that the physical life is widely at variance with the mental1 the psychical1 or the spiritual1 when as a matter of fact each blends into the other1 when we rightly understand their place and purpose1 as harmoniously as the notes of the musical scale blend into the grand compositions of the ,masters4 ,as above so below1 and as below so above1 is a truism which we may safely take as our first maxim4 ,whatever we note as a fundamental principle of this external life which we cognize with our five senses 7senses which merge so into the psychical that we know not always where the line demarks7 has a permanent place in the ,cosmos4 ,therefore we must conclude that a fact so universal as that of sex1 and sex-attraction1 must be grounded in something more stable1 more permanent and enduring than the mere creation of physical forms4 ,protoplasm1 the only living substance1 is found everywhere in the visible world and its universality is symbolical of the invisible worlds as well4 ,transparent1 colorless1 it contains within itself the mystery of reproduction4 ,it forms the basis of the vegetable and the animal kingdoms4 ,it is seen in bone and muscle and fibrous tissue1 and protoplasm may be said to contain within its cells the principles of both sexes4 ,it is not sexless1 but bi-sexual2 not neuter but masculine-feminine4 ,every form of life has sex1 and in some rare instances both sexes are present in one form4 ,this does not mean that there is another phase of sex unclassified1 but rather it proves the union in one ,whole ,entity of the two distinct principles1 and by this fact of the twain made one we may know that ,sex is the very crux of the cosmic law2 that not only does it survive the mere physical expression of the law1 but that the object of the sex-function is the spiritual union of the two principles1 a male and a female entity1 forming one complete and perfect ,being--the true representative of the bi-une ,being whom we know as ,god4 ,absolute and perfect union is possible only at the center1 the crux1 of ,being4 ,this truth is represented by the algebraical ,x1 the symbol of spiritual sex-union4 ,therefore sex relationships which do not have for their crux spiritual as well as temperamental affinity1 are not final1 or eternal1 however beautiful they may be2 and there are many sex-relationships which are pure and sacred even though they do not fulfil this highest of all relationships1 that of spiritual counterparts4 ,let us consider for a moment the universality of ,sex as we see it expressed in all the variety of forms and throughout all the species1 and in so doing we may trace the ever upward trend of the law of sex-attraction1 and discover1 if we have the eyes to see1 the evident plan and purpose of the cosmic law as it tends toward completement and perfection in the type of the man-god whom the world has long looked for and who we believe is here4 ,if we look at the expression of ,sex from the viewpoint of the physical only1 instead of basing our observations from the interior1 the spiritual1 outward to the physical1 we might conclude that the function of sex was designed for no other purpose than that of procreation1 since care of the young increases with the upward trend of life-manifestation4 ,beginning at the lower forms of life1 such for example as the fish1 we find as a general thing an indifference to the fate of the eggs deposited by the female1 which is in keeping with the prolific and almost unconscious generation of these tiny evidences of the law of ,sex4 ,a fish laying more than a million eggs in a season is naturally rather careless about what becomes of them4 ,apparently no higher sentiment actuates this form of life than an unconscious and merely instinctive urge to perpetuate the species--the lowest expression of ,love--and yet the germ of ,love1 the ,creator and ,preserver is there1 and a well-defined law of attraction and repulsion is evident from the fact that as an almost general thing the male will not fertilize eggs other than those of his own species4 ,but even in these low forms1 we see the evidence of that higher expression of ,love which presages the god-like quality of self-sacrifice4 ,some species of fish1 notably the stickle-back and the bass1 make nests and mother their young4 ,in those forms of life which are supposed to be insensate1 we find the universal law of sex-attraction and repulsion4 ,the pollen from an oak tree1 for example1 may be blown about by the wind and may light upon a plant which is far removed in species from its own2 but if such be the case1 no fertilization takes place4 ,the fundamental law of ,love is to attract to itself its own2 that which belongs to it by right of ,cosmic law and order and justice4 ,all the inharmony of our social life comes from the attempt to appropriate and possess that which1 in the final analysis1 in the ,absolute1 is not ours4 ,when the majority of ,mankind shall have mastered this lesson1 the human race will enter upon its true spiritual life4 ,the psychic mind with which man alone of all earth's creatures is supposed to be endowed will have conquered the instinctive mind1 and the higher expression of love which would protect and preserve1 and leave free1 will have gained supremacy over selfishness and the desire for possession4 ,in bird-life we find this higher type of love almost universal4 ,parental love1 that exquisite and refined flower from the seed of sex-attraction1 characterizes the bird and we may readily agree that ,paradise would be incomplete without birds and flowers as well as babies4 ,considering the birds as an infinitely finer type of sex-expression than that offered by any other of the forms of life below man1 we note with satisfaction the all-important point1 namely1 that the sex-urge is more diffused and lasting1 and of a finer quality than that of the mammals4 ,the bird woos its mate with the beauty of its plumage and the harmonious notes of its love-call4 ,its desire finds so many esthetic ways of expressing itself2 in tender pleadings2 in cooing promises2 in continuous evidences of care and protection4 ,nor does its intense love1 vital as it is1 exhaust itself in concentrated expression1 but it softens and ripens into something that so closely resembles our ideals of spiritual love1 that we are not surprised to find the emblem of the dove employed throughout the history of the world1 as the spiritual symbol of pure and holy love4 ,well1 indeed1 may human beings learn from the birds the lesson of the higher type of sex-mating1 which finds fruition in their mutual love for and care of their progeny4 ,nor does the love-life of birds cease with sex-expression4 ,it permeates all their intercourse4 ,the trait which distinguishes the spiritual man from the animal man is analogous to that of the birds2 namely1 that of finding a deep and lasting joy in the presence of the loved one2 in sympathizing with each other's ideals2 listening with devoted attention to each other's words2 contacting1 as it were1 each other's inner nature1 rather than obeying the merely animal urge of procreation4 ,and above all1 in the common aim of altruistic thoughtfulness for the little lives which their love has brought forth4 ,thus nature serves the cosmic law1 which aims to raise the sex-instinct from the incomplete and unsatisfying plane of physical contact1 to that of spiritual union--a wide gulf seemingly2 but who would not strive to bridge it1 did he but realize what spiritual union with the ,beloved ,one means8 ,,chapter ,,ii ,,sex ,,worship ,,and ,,sex ,,degradation ,every form of religious worship1 from pre-historic time down to and inclusive of the present century1 and among all races1 savage and civilized1 has been founded upon ,sex--the inevitable1 the inviolable1 the unescapable1 and the unfathomable mystery of ,creation4 ,nor should this fact be distasteful to the most refined4 ,an intelligent review of the many evidences that prove this truth will not shock the sensibilities of the most devout worshipper of an unknown and unseen ,god4 ,what can be more beautiful and more holy1 more worthy of our highest reverence and adoration1 than the mystery of birth1 whether that birth be the growth of a flower from a tiny seed planted in the womb of ,mother ,earth1 or the birth of a tiny human life from the seed ,love sows in the womb of the human mother8 ,the only shocking thing about the matter is that there are persons who can be shocked at contemplation of this wonderful and beautiful mystery4 ,it is shocking and deplorable that so many are still so far away from spiritual consciousness1 that the beauty and the purity of the miracle of ,sex is unrecognized by them4 ,with all due respect to the highest types of religious creeds which survive today1 we are bound to concede that the very first form of worship which prevailed upon this earth was the purest as it was the simplest4 ,truth is simple4 ,deception introduces us into a maze of complexities4 ,nature worship prevailed we know not how many centuries previous to the dawn of historic records4 ,all allegorical literature makes constant allusion to ,the ,golden ,age1 evidently referring to a time before that which has come down to us in sacred literature1 as ,the ,fall of ,man4 ,the first conception of a supreme power1 something higher and more perfect than ,man himself1 originated in the mystery of ,sex2 not only in the sex-function as exercised by ,man1 but also in the evidences of sex seen in plants and animals4 ,it became evident to the earliest races that the human being was after all only a progenitor4 ,somewhere there must be a ,first ,cause4 ,the vital spark which gave to the seed its power to bring forth was seen to be beyond and above the control of physical man1 and the natural and inevitable inference was drawn that there was some power greater than that of human beings--a power manifesting itself in the act of procreation4 ,at this early stage in ,man's efforts to know ,god1 the ,female ,principle was deified1 because out of the womb of the woman issued the little life4 ,thus the symbol of the virgin with the child became the symbol of worship2 the word virgin then having a somewhat different meaning from that which we give it today1 although we may trace the analogy in our use of the term virgin soil1 signifying fecundity4 ,the virgin and child then1 popularly supposed by those whose prejudices prevail over their desire for ,truth1 to have originated with the birth of ,jesus of ,nazareth1 antedates history1 as an object of worship4 ,let us here again emphasize the fact that the very persistence of this symbol as a pronounced part of our ,twentieth ,century traditions1 and reverence1 offers proof of the fact that whatever is true is also enduring4 ,truth is eternal and defies extinction4 ,love1 although defiled and scorned1 will lift ,mankind out of ,hell4 ,the symbol of the mother with the child the very earliest of all symbolic worship is also the truest and most consistent with the ideals of spiritualized ,man when we realize its higher significance4 ,at first1 for the obvious reason that woman was the recipient and the nurse of the seed1 woman was regarded as a higher type than man2 she alone was supposed to possess the creative energy4 ,this was ultimately reversed and ,man was thought to be the sole custodian of the reproductive power4 ,thus the age-long warfare between the sexes began--a warfare which1 if it had any foundation in ,reality1 must have resulted long since in race-extinction4 ,but despite this degrading warfare men and women have continued to attract each other in varying degrees of love1 until now the future offers a golden promise of union4 ,as long as primitive man kept to nature worship1 deifying earth as the mother who brought forth the grains and fruits for her childrens' sustenance1 religious practices were devoid of sacrifice and strife4 ,the advent of springtime when the earth awakened from her long sleep and the period of gestation began when the seeds were planted1 or when from ,nature's own laws they were reproduced without the aid of man1 was the occasion of thanksgiving and rejoicing with general merry-making and general good-will4 ,again1 in harvest time there was feasting and rejoicing and music and dancing2 and we have no reason to believe that this very natural method of showing their gratitude and their happiness was accompanied by any suggestion of sacrifice or propitiation4 ,there is the best of evidence to support the claim that all the early ,deities were female and in all ,mythology the earth is adored as the ,divine ,mother4 ,the earliest ,venus1 worshipped as the goddess of ,universal ,womanhood1 was represented with a beard signifying her androgynous character4 ,venus worshipped as the soul of the world was said to be the parent of all things1 the primary progeny of ,time1 the most exalted of all the ,deities4 ,neith1 ,minerva1 ,athena1 ,ceres1 ,cybele1 all worshipped as the first of all the ,deities1 were represented as female1 and to this day we refer to the qualities of wisdom1 light1 truth1 and virtue as feminine4 ,even the sun is said to have been at one time worshipped as feminine1 as were all deities2 but later1 when it was shown that the sun apparently fertilized the fecund earth1 the gender was changed1 and in succeeding ages1 when the male principle had become dominant as a deific symbol1 the earth was said to be but the nurse which cradled and cared for the generic power resident in the male4 ,thus woman from her lofty height of the one and only deity gradually sank to the level of the nurse maid1 permitted to care for man's offspring4 ,while the ,female ,principle of ,sex was worshipped as the giver of life1 the heads of families were female and descent was traced from the mother only4 ,the male parent was scarcely more than an intruder and the necessity to please the entire family and1 above all1 the mother-in-law1 the generic head of the family has left its mark upon the masculine mind1 even unto this far-off day1 when by virtue of this ordeal of primitive man1 an idea seems to exist1 that a mother-in-law is to be both feared and dreaded1 if not propitiated4 ,when we contemplate the persistence of those traits of human nature that have prevailed among all races and throughout all ages1 we are easily persuaded that time is a delusion1 and that ,eternity is ,now4 ,as it was yesterday it is today and will be tomorrow in all that is really fundamental4 ,from the refined simplicity of nature worship there gradually evolved a phase of worship1 which in the beginning had for its basic principle an exalted ideal of the purpose and the powers of the female sex-function2 but this ideal sunk to the level of debauchery and sex-degradation1 in which the symbol of the female sex-organ of generation was worshipped1 literally1 although not reverently2 and yet from the fact that it is only upon the temples and in the groves dedicated to worship that are found the carvings of the generative organs of either and sometimes of both sexes1 it is evident that the most exalted motives first actuated the worshippers4 ,the sex organs1 representing the mystery of creative life1 or the ,deity1 would naturally be held in reverence by nature-children1 and it must be conceded that this attitude of mind toward the wonderful miracle of creative energy is worthy of our emulation4 ,as we look back over the pages of history1 we note the tendency of human nature to fall far short of ideals2 we mistake the letter for the spirit2 we get lost in the trap of the senses1 and we miss the higher and more exalted planes of our ideals4 ,from yoni worship 7worship of the female organ of generation71 with all the privileges and perquisites which such honor bestowed upon woman1 there came the inevitable revolt1 which comes in course of time1 from all tyranny and special privilege1 whether it be individual1 national1 racial1 sexual1 or supernatural4 ,thus there was established a new religion1 and this time it was the male organ which was deified as the symbol of eternal life1 of creative energy4 ,in many instances both symbols were represented1 but for the most part the same subtle struggle for supremacy1 the remnants of which we note today among the different religious creeds and sects1 waged1 and waxed stronger1 with time and opposition4 ,which was the more worthy of deification--the yoni1 or the phallus8 ,woman1 or man8 ,the ,ionians1 seeking religious freedom from the persecutions of the phallic worshippers in ,india persisted in their adherence to yoni worship1 and from them dates the ,eleusirian mysteries1 which were celebrated in ,athens down to a comparatively late date4 ,the ,eleusirian festivals represented the survival of the purest ideals of nature worship1 before the warfare between the yoni and the phallic worshippers had brought both ideals into degradation4 ,there is a point in this festival1 which the ,greeks called ,thesmophoria and which is derived from the more ancient festival of ,ceres 7the goddess of ,life and ,law71 which we are anxious to have noted here1 because it marks a golden thread which runs throughout the entire fabric of the sex-problem4 ,this point is the fact1 that the rites and ceremonies of this festival were performed by virgins distinguished for their purity of life4 ,very rarely were men admitted to the inner secrets of the ,eleusirians4 ,another important point is that this ceremony was performed in honor of the androgynous character of the goddess1 as it was declared that the power to bring forth a child without the co-operation of the male belonged exclusively to the exalted or perfected woman1 which is to say the goddess4 ,another translation and interpretation of this ceremony claims that it was prophecied in these festivals1 that a time would come in the history of the world when a woman would so conceive and bring forth a child and that when that time should come the question as to which sex was supreme would be forever settled and that purity and peace would reign upon earth4 ,this part of the record may easily have been either an interpolation to sustain the claim of the miraculous birth of ,jesus1 or it may have been simply the defiant fling of the vanquished to the victor1 because phallic worship was in the ascendant4 ,it is1 however1 recorded1 that not an instance can be cited in which the honor of initiation into the ,eleusirian mysteries was conferred upon a bad man2 nor of any man violating the secrets of the inner temples of the ,eleusirians4 ,this gives rise to the hope that the ideal of this spiritually exalted sect1 in the midst of almost universal degeneracy1 was not so much that of female supremacy1 as of purity2 that their ideal included the pure and perfect union of male and female--the only ideal that will1 or can1 redeem the world to a life of peace and love4 ,the festivals of ,carthage were said to be similar to those of ,eleusis4 ,for a period of several days during the time set apart for the festivities1 public feasts were prepared in honor of the deific nature of ,man1 which1 it was pointed out1 was his prerogative only by virtue of inward purity and strict adherence to high ideals of truth and honor4 ,crowning all the religious observances of the ,ancients1 whether expressed in the legends of the sun-myths or of star and serpent worship1 we find the universally recognized fact that only those qualities of mind and soul can be expected to endure1 or reach immortal godhood1 which are of an exalted character4 ,which is to say what the present day orthodox creed says1 that immortality belongs only to those who are pure in heart4 ,from the ,eleusirian festivals is derived our custom of taking holy communion1 the symbol of the ,lord's supper2 albeit the substitution of the male principle in the ,christian ceremony attests the fact that the phallic symbol ultimately supplanted the yoni1 as a deific symbol4 ,phallic worship reached its height during ,hebrew and ,assyrian supremacy1 and was perpetuated by ,greek and ,roman materialism4 ,superstition is nothing more than ,truth degenerated by men from a spiritual to a material application4 ,that which is held in awe and reverence by any race2 that which is embodied in the traditions of every tribe on the globe2 that which persists throughout all times will be found to have a fundamental basis of truth1 no matter how obscured it may be by the ignorance with which it is so frequently associated4 ,the sacredness of ,sex1 as exemplifying the ,supreme ,creative ,energy1 underlies all the traditional ideals of man1 from the fetishes of the ,central ,african savage to the cathedral spires which rise above the din of our modern commercial civilization4 ,the prejudiced and the superficial observer of so-called heathen rites and ceremonies records only the superstitions1 and sees only the evidences of depravity and savagery4 ,he overlooks the fact that the spirit of the idea conveyed may have been the highest ideal of an early race which has sunk1 as have all races during certain periods of the world's evolution into the depths of a materialism1 from which all races are today emerging4 ,all mystic truths are expressed in symbolism4 ,it has been said that these truths are veiled2 this is true only because the observer has not yet learned to speak the language4 ,the universal language is symbolism4 ,in the early ,egyptian1 the ,indian1 and the ,hebrew religions1 the fundamental idea was the two generating principles 7or we might say the two aspects of the ,one principle7 of generation4 ,the two in spiritual union represented the ,infinite--the ,deity4 ,the ,hebrew word ,elohim is plural1 and means male and female united1 forming the ,one ,perfect and ,complete ,being4 ,this union is the ,holy of ,holies of the ancient mystics and alchemists4 ,we see its reflection and its persistence today in the ,catholic service of the ,mass1 where the priest raises the ,eucharist as the ,holy of ,holies in which is generated the ,christ-man1 and before whom all human devotees bow the head that they may not look upon the perfection and beauty of its pure radiance4 ,neither is the priest supposed to touch the chalice with uncovered hands4 ,he prepares himself by fasting and prayer before he mounts the altar upon which this ,holy of ,holies is hidden from view4 ,the pattern of the ,eucharist with its golden circle and radiations is easily recognizable by any one who is familiar with the symbols of yoni worship4 ,nor should this fact be distasteful to any one1 although it is either concealed1 or flatly denied by the ,church1 since it is only through the elevation of the sex-function that the ,christ-man can be born into the physical realms4 ,the reason that this truth is either concealed or denied by the ,church is due to the influence of ,greek and ,roman civilization1 which subjugated woman to the control of man4 ,this debasement of woman reached its culmination under ,roman rule and is unquestionably the psychic cause of the fall of the ,greek and ,roman empires4 ,if we will but take home to ourselves the important lesson that neither sex is fundamentally1 or even relatively1 superior1 but only different2 that no race is permanently in advance of another1 but that each little group and class of humans has its particular contribution to the sum of knowledge1 we will have done much toward freeing the mind from the shackles of ignorance--that darkness which obscures our inner vision4 ,let this truth penetrate the egotism of so-called civilized races4 ,let it sink into the minds of the men and women of this century3 we are of service to the world in proportion as we are different and not identical4 ,in the direct ratio of our individuality is our contribution to the work of the cosmic law1 which is seeking to lift the planet earth out of its undeveloped state into celestial light4 ,the symbol of the ,eucharist1 occupying as it does an important place in a religious system which is otherwise essentially masculine1 is one of the many evidences of the persistence of ,truth4 ,for approximately four thousand years1 phallic worship has predominated over the earlier ideal1 which was embodied in the virgin of the spheres1 the emblem of the ,female ,principle as eternal motherhood2 and in the sacred character of androgynous plants and flowers1 which were characterized as feminine1 such1 for example1 as the lily1 the lotus1 and the fleur de lis4 ,these flowers are still regarded as more or less sacred1 and they are called feminine1 although really androgynous4 ,the lotus1 long held sacred because of its androgynous character1 has been regarded as typical of the ,one ,perfect ,one1 because it is supposed that the lotus reproduces itself without the male pollen4 ,but close examination of the flower will show that the little seed-vessel in the center of the flower is shaped like a pine cone1 in which are tiny cells too small to let out the seeds as occurs in most plant and seed life2 these tiny seeds having no outlet1 shoot when ripe into new plants1 the bulb of the plant being the matrix or womb of the new life4 ,thus it is evident1 that although the two sexes are not as pronounced in the lotus as in the lily1 yet the bulb and the cone are both present in the lotus1 making the plant bi-sexual1 and not feminine alone4 ,our modern ,easter festival1 in which the lily is recognized as the representative par excellence of the renewal of abundant life and energy1 the sacred flower1 is a tribute to the ,feminine ,principle in the ,deity1 as the lily like the lotus is called feminine1 although in reality bi-sexual4 ,the lily and the ,eucharist have survived the centuries in which the male principle has dominated1 as the one true and only ,god--the giver of life1 the energizing power of ,creation--and the lily and the ,eucharist are both representative of the ,female principle4 ,historians mark the beginning of the worship of the ,one ,true ,god1 defined philosophically as the ,monistic ,god-idea1 from the building of the tower of ,babel1 and we may here note in passing that in the earliest references to this tower1 there is no allusion to anything suggestive of confusion of tongues4 ,the name unquestionably came from babil meaning the gate of ,god4 ,thus only is its meaning obvious1 and consistent with the worship of the lingam and phallus which obtained at that time4 ,it is also evident that the phallic worshippers borrowed the simile of the gate of ,god from the worshippers of the yoni1 who based their claim to truth upon the indisputable fact1 that out of the womb comes the life of plant1 and animal1 and man4 ,the architecture of1 and the inscriptions on1 the tower of ,babel show conclusively that it was a monument to the victory of the phallic worshippers over the yoni1 proving that the one true and only ,god was male4 ,from that time also ,god has been alluded to as ,he1 although in the ,oriental countries1 and particularly among the ,hindus1 we find repeated allusions to the ,deity as ,the ,divine ,mother1 and all the higher qualities are spoken of as feminine4 ,it is because of this fact also1 that we note the spread of ,oriental religions and philosophies in this day of ,woman's uprising4 ,the ,orientals retained the divinity of the female principle in theory1 but not in fact4 ,sex-worship is contemptuously alluded to in modern literature as strange and erotic ideas1 or words equally condemnatory4 ,but this is an absurd stand1 since nothing could be more natural than that the mystery of ,creative ,life should arouse our interest and our wonder2 and it certainly ought to enlist our highest reverence4 ,it becomes erotic only when men fail to worship in spirit and in truth1 and when the letter of the ideal survives1 and the spirit is ignored4 ,it becomes not only erotic but destructive when it involves a fight for supremacy between the male and the female4 ,when the spirit of union shall prevail1 which it must in a perfected world1 no higher form of religious aspiration can be imagined than that in which the miracle of birth is reverenced and idealized4 ,then1 and not until then1 will the family be what it should be1 and ,love1 the one and only true ,god1 be worshipped4 ,the trinity in unity has been a widespread and persistent part of all religions1 from which fact we may logically infer that this ideal has a permanent place in the sum of human knowledge4 ,truth is often obscured1 but it can never be hidden from the eyes that are seeking the light4 ,the rightful interpretation of those ancient and obscured truths1 erroneously classified as myths and superstitions1 will reveal a universal truth1 and will also show their relation to modern concepts4 ,but while we note a vague recognition of the female element in all our modern religious systems1 the general acceptance of the ,god-idea as monistic and the gender of this monistic ,god as masculine betrays the domination of phallicism over yoni worship and also over that of the two principles in conjunction--the bi-une ,deity4 ,the tree is universally accepted as an emblem of life-energy4 ,the upright shape of the tree2 the sap which rises at certain periods from invisible sources2 and the fact that the germinal power of the seeds of the fruits and trees is not destroyed by eating2 all combined to make the tree symbolical of eternal life4 ,the tree is either male or female1 except in certain instances where it is1 like the lotus1 androgynous1 such for example as the ash1 which is the sacred tree of ,scandinavia4 ,wherever a plant or a tree is found to be bi-sexual1 it has been regarded as sacred4 ,the same idea is found throughout all myths1 and all religious symbolism1 namely3 the attainment of god-hood is reached when both sexes are united in one ,being4 ,the fuller meaning of this symbolical idea will be considered in a subsequent chapter2 but for the present we are concerned with the history of sex-degradation from the pure ideal of nature worship to that of a monistic ,god whose gender is masculine4 ,the pine tree1 held sacred in many countries as a symbol of generation1 and from which our own ,christmas-tree is descended1 is distinctively a male emblem1 and its perennial green typifies the hope of ,man that he too may manifest1 in some form of life1 the never-failing virility of the pine4 ,the ,latin name for the pine is pinus4 ,thus from nature worship to phallic worship was but a step1 but that step led to others4 ,the pine1 from the fact of its erect form2 its spiral convolutions2 its sap2 its fruit2 its renewal of activity2 its root and veins2 became a universally accepted emblem of the life-energy in man and in animals1 and the gradual substitution of the male principle alone1 for the androgynous idea as a symbol of ,deity contributed to the idea of the inferiority of woman1 until she finally became the slave and the plaything of man4 ,the virgin of the spheres1 from her exalted mission as the ,eternal ,mother of the race1 became at best but a secondary personality1 and finally was refused any part in the symbol of the ,holy ,trinity4 ,instead of father1 mother and child1 the ,holy ,trinity became ,father1 ,son and--,holy ,ghost4 ,the early ,romans must have been devoid of a sense of humor4 ,but what of our modern ,christian creeds1 and their idea of the ,holy ,trinity composed of three male beings8 ,it is in ,christian ,science alone of all the modern creeds that the female principle is given a place co-equal with the male4 ,christian ,science addresses the ,deity as ,father-,mother-,god1 and their reverence for the woman who established the creed1 as well as the ,ionian type of architecture employed in their church edifices1 are evidences of the re-establishment of the female principle in the ,god-idea4 ,christian ,science is one of the most important instruments of the cosmic law in the present-day dethronement of the male principle as the only true ,god4 ,so permeated with this male ,god-idea is every branch of our modern thought2 so enwrapped with the glamour of worship1 that we hardly notice the one-sidedness of the ideal4 ,tradition is a powerful hypnotist4 ,many members of the ,masonic fraternity fail utterly to understand the symbolical language of their mosques and the phallic and yoni emblems which constitute their decorations4 ,notable among these emblems are the pomegranate2 the lotus2 the circle2 the crescent2 the swastika4 ,the cone-shaped towers1 that rise above the mosques1 with their protruding heads1 vein-tipped2 the central symbol identical with the mound of ,venus2 denote the preservation of the ,egyptian ideal1 which venerated both sexes as co-equal4 ,it is easy to realize why the ,jews were driven out of ,egypt when we remember that they refused to worship the ,egyptian ideal of ,god as bi-sexual1 but persisted in rearing the phallic symbol alone1 denying the female principle a place in the ,god-head4 ,it is also significant that side by side with the present-day ,feminist ,movement we find the revival of ,egyptian fashions2 ,egyptian architecture2 ,egyptian philosophies and religions4 ,even ,cubist art1 which in itself could make no possible appeal to recognition on its artistic merits1 has been received with much publicity1 if not with acclaim4 ,cubist art is a lineal descendant of ,egyptian art1 and so closely resembles its far-off ancestry as to seem to have bridged the centuries and connected us as if by telephone with the days of ancient civilization4 ,our drama and our popular songs have responded to the ,egyptian thought-wave4 ,talismanic jewelry1 so essentially ,egyptian1 is in vogue1 and on every sign board advertising breakfast foods1 tobacco and what not 7so essentially an ,american custom7 we find the modernized use of ,egyptian symbols1 notably the swastika4 ,the swastika1 the earliest form of the cross1 found in every country and in every out-of-the-way corner of the globe1 is fundamentally1 originally and pre-eminently a bi-une sex symbol1 and although volumes have in recent years been written on its history and meaning1 the whole story may be summed up by examining its form and by realizing its antiquity and its universality4 ,the two sex principles1 joined in the center of the four arms or legs1 of the cross1 accomplish that which is said 7and truthfully if taken on the physical plane only7 to be impossible of accomplishment--they square the circle4 ,a circle is emblematical of completeness4 ,aum1 the ,absolute1 the ,omniscient1 is always typified by a circle4 ,to square the circle means esoterically to have reached godhood1 and this can be accomplished only by the male and female united in spirit4 ,the swastika is essentially a bi-une sex symbol although it has been sometimes called male and sometimes female1 according to its shape1 which varies with the various meanings ascribed to it4 ,primitive man was not prolific in language1 and one symbol expressed many ideas according to its varied form and position4 ,the original form of oath was to swear by the sacred power of the generative organs1 and we may readily conclude that this power was conceded to be vested in the male only1 from the fact that we still testify when under oath and although the ,bible has been substituted for the generative organs1 as an outward expression of our recognition of the ,creative ,principle1 we note that the ,bible is made up of testaments1 which stand for its sacredness4 ,evidently it was only after the advent of the male ,god that oaths and vows and pledges were necessary4 ,previous to that time1 a man's word was reliable4 ,it was inevitable that an ideal of the ,supreme ,creative power of the universe so one-sided1 and so lacking in the essential of union1 must degenerate into mere licentiousness and animalism2 and it is estimated that about six hundred years ,b4,c4 the level of debauchery and vileness reigned4 ,so-called religious rites and ceremonies were nothing more than orgies of sex-degradation4 ,the ideal of godhood as nothing higher than masculine virility and power evidenced by the number of his progeny1 naturally reduced woman to the lowest depths of slavery1 since she was nothing more than a receptacle for man's seed4 ,of course one wife was insufficient and a man's claim to divinity was best expressed by profligacy--an ideal which is rife even today among those1 whose consciousness is bounded by nothing higher than the conception of the animal nature of man4 ,whence came this wonderful thing manifested as generative power8 ,what did it feed upon8 ,these were natural queries4 ,in seeking the answer the idea originated that in the blood was to be found the secret of the generative fluid4 ,this idea arose from the evidence that as old age conquered man's physical strength1 his blood became weakened and the supply insufficient4 ,this was accompanied by a loss of generative activity1 and thus1 they argued1 the power that made man god-like 7the creative energy7 left him4 ,this was indeed a calamity greater than we in this generation realize1 although we know that old age with consequent cessation of physical vigor is the dread enemy of the undeveloped man4 ,even our supposedly advanced thinkers have the absurd idea that sexual-energy dies with the physical body4 ,the few who have risen to the place where they realize the truths made plain by soul-consciousness1 know that old age is but physical2 that it is the vacation time between the functions of physical activity and that of the soul-life4 ,old age is the wise provision of the ,cosmic ,law which compels those who will not do so of their own volition and wisdom1 to transmute the life-energy into higher channels4 ,if the race knew enough to consciously transmute the creative sex-energy into an interior function1 there would come to pass the time prophecied by ,st4 ,paul when ,man shall consciously lay down his body and take it up again4 ,there are spiritually advanced men and women today who can consciously leave the physical body as they do the house in which they live1 while they visit distant places1 annihilating space4 ,to these the body is no more than a garment4 ,thus death is overcome and the knowledge attained that we are souls using a physical body2 that death does not in itself confer upon any one either immortality or youth or love1 but that these may be acquired by acts of virtue and unselfish service--not as payment or reward for unwilling work1 but as the result of unfailing law1 which gives what we demand4 ,what we demand we naturally work for4 ,if we serve ,love1 we get the coin in which ,love pays as naturally as we get the checks signed by ,jones when we work for ,jones1 and by ,smith when we work for ,smith4 ,death merely discloses our interior nature4 ,if we have failed to transmute the life-energy into a love that is deeper than mere animal instinct2 if we have missed the beautiful and the pure and the lofty idealism of ,love1 we will find ourselves as age-worn after death as before the change4 ,but again we may note a wise provision of the ,cosmic ,law1 for it is almost impossible for a human being to live through many years of life without having loved some person or some thing with at least a spark of unselfish love4 ,fortunately almost every one is better interiorly than he appears to our limited vision4 ,the most depraved of mortals has his moments of the higher vision4 ,from this deduction of inquiring primitive man1 namely that the blood was the source of procreative virility1 it is easy to trace the logical result in the terrible practise of blood-sacrifice which reigned so long and which1 carried from one nation to another1 and engrafted into the ,god-idea1 has come down to us in the story of the sacrificial lamb1 at length personified in ,jesus1 the ,son of ,god1 as a final act of propitiation4 ,the blood-atonement idea is naturally repulsive to civilized beings1 and were it not that nearly every one who adheres to the old form of orthodox ,christianity swallows theologic interpretation of the ,bible as he would swallow a dose of castor-oil1 by closing his eyes and holding his nose1 the teaching as thus interpreted would be stopped by police authority4 ,and yet we may readily trace the gradual descent of the ,god-idea of the ancients until it reached the culmination in the idea of sacrifice of a son of ,god ,himself4 ,in their blind but eager groping for some means of escape from death1 even as we of this day and generation are groping1 the early races observed that birth was accompanied by blood2 that as age came on and the blood became thin1 and in the case of the female ceased to flow at certain reproductive periods1 the power of generation ceased4 ,what more natural to primitive man than that he should conceive the idea of sending back to this unknown and invisible power behind the veil of the sky the blood1 which he must need to supply his creative energies8 ,and when the sacrifice of animals was not sufficient for this ,god1 they concluded that it must be because he required the blood of man4 ,and so at first the old and the sick and the deformed were sacrificed2 but as it was seen that this did not answer the need1 they began to sacrifice the young1 and naturally the slaves were substituted for the aged1 as affording more blood2 and when this failed the idea came1 that the sacrifice must be that of one who was innocent of the world1 and so they selected a girl or a young man1 who had been secluded and trained to the thought of sacrifice1 and in whom the sex-function had been rigorously suppressed4 ,and still the old grew bloodless and death claimed his toll1 and so they conceived the idea of voluntary blood-sacrifice1 and we read of repeated occasions in which fanatical ones offered themselves freely on the sacrificial altars as atonement for the sins of their people4 ,at length this contagion of sacrifice consummated in the idea that the only ,son of ,god ,himself became a voluntary offering to pay the final debt of transgression and set men free from death1 that they might have eternal life1 which to them meant life in the physical body4 ,it is not at all possible that ,jesus had any such idea of his mission4 ,he was far too illumined for that1 even judging from the meager accounts which we have of his life and message4 ,but when the story of his mission on earth came to be told and retold the idea of blood-sacrifice as payment for the privilege of physical virility1 so implanted in the race-thought from centuries of such belief1 could not die immediately1 and thus it reaches us today adown the centuries and is re-told 7though we trust not believed7 in most of the ,christian churches in this civilized century4 ,and yet there is an esoteric truth underlying this universal idea of sacrifice1 and when we come to this in a subsequent chapter1 we will better understand how and why it has persisted throughout the centuries4 ,,chapter ,,iii ,,present-,,day ,,conditions3 ,,the ,,cosmic ,,cause ,from the study of ancient sex-worship to our twentieth century systems of religion2 our scientific discoveries2 our intellectual standards of philosophy and social ethics2 and above all1 perhaps1 our marvelous commercial order1 connecting1 as it does1 the entire globe1 seems a far cry2 but it is only another link in a chain and fits into the past as accurately and as inevitably as the morning follows the night4 ,there is an erroneous idea current that public institutions1 such as law-courts1 religious creeds1 educational systems1 reform movements1 et cetera1 are causes of race-advancement4 ,as a matter of fact they are not causes but results4 ,they do not determine progress2 they reflect it4 ,causes start from the ,center and radiate outward4 ,we may realize this more readily if we will remember that if we throw a pebble into a pool of water1 it starts innumerable little waves which traveling outward1 reach a point some distance from the central source1 and if we were to see the outermost wavelet only1 we might imagine that the disturbance begins and ends far from the place where the pebble was thrown4 ,this illustration explains the difference between the materialistic and the metaphysical points of view4 ,the former notes the result1 and the latter the cause of existing conditions4 ,the mystical viewpoint takes into account the fact that there is a cosmic law which acts like a tidal-wave4 ,materialists call the action of this law ,evolution1 assuming that its impetus comes from our physical activities4 ,it is1 in fact1 from the ,center or spiritual source of life that all power1 all evolution1 emanates4 ,the spiritual is the intensity of power2 the physical is the attenuated4 ,the term1 spiritual realms suggests to the average mind a vaporous space where nothing happens2 yet it requires only a little intelligent reflection to establish the fact that1 as ,paracelsus said long ago1 ,the mind is the workshop in which all visible life is formed4 ,our mental operations are silently1 invisibly1 carried on1 and yet we see the effect of these silent plans and ideas in our noisy methods of locomotion2 our architecture2 our commerce--in all the avenues of our active civilization4 ,we wish to emphasize the point that every so-called advancement2 every discovery2 every improvement in moral ideals as well as in mechanics1 and in those things that add to our physical comfort1 comes from the center of ,life4 ,the external but reflects the action of the ,cosmic ,law which uncovers the vast areas of consciousness and frees the human soul from the hypnotisms1 and the limitations of the animal-mind4 ,animal force is still strong in the world to-day1 but it is not as strong as it appears to be1 because much of the seeming indifference and cold-heartedness of the people1 taken en masse1 is due to the hurried1 feverish and insistent demands of our external life4 ,underneath the surface1 in the realm of the sub-conscious activities1 there is developing the spirit of unity2 of sympathy2 and a consciousness of our innate relationship4 ,this realization comes to the surface in times of great stress and peril4 ,the whole trend of modern life symbolizes or reflects the ideal of unity1 albeit the tooth and claw and growl of the animal in ,man may be seen and felt and heard in the vain effort to postpone the inevitable dethronement of the animal force1 which would dominate the weaker and appropriate for the personal self1 the creation of brain and hand1 much as the house-dog1 satiated with over-feeding1 buries the bone he cannot eat lest some hungry brother-dog shall get it4 ,nevertheless1 despite the animal greed that still shows in our modern life1 there is plenty of evidence that we are on the upward spiral that leads to unity--the effect of love4 ,the superficial observer1 dominated by that instinct of fear which seems to be so ingrained in our animal nature that we are all slaves to it in some form or degree1 sees in the present-day conditions a menace to what he believes to be the moral life of the race1 and particularly as these conditions apply to the modern woman4 ,he sees women coming out of the seclusion of their rightful sphere and meeting men on terms of equality4 ,he sees what he terms immodest dress2 defiance of traditional ideas of etiquette and conduct2 he notes what appears to be a disregard for the faith of our fathers2 and1 above all1 a distaste for that special function of woman--child-bearing4 ,the superficial observer1 both male and female1 feels great alarm4 ,but let us not be dismayed4 ,present day conditions1 particularly as they relate to the female principle of ,creation1 but reflect the inevitable reaction from a one-sided course4 ,the pendulum swings back again and ultimately we will strike a balance2 from domination to unity2 from struggle to harmony4 ,even ,american commercial life admits the value of a vacation time4 ,present day conditions1 then1 are not chaotic or lacking in a well-defined purpose1 even though they are unsettled4 ,anything that disturbs the seeming placidity of the surface always strikes alarm to the undeveloped mind4 ,particularly in those phases of our modern life which directly affect women1 or in which we may say1 the ,female ,principle is especially concerned1 we note a determined and united demand for freedom4 ,woman's demand for political equality is but a shadowgraph as it were of the real demand which is the demand of the ,divine ,feminine throughout all manifested life1 for recognition of equality1 in the plan of creation4 ,it is a symbol of the ideal of unity which finds expression in the commercial world in trusts and labor unions2 in the let us get together plea of the various advocates of reform2 of all those enterprises which are seen to most directly affect the entire human family4 ,that there are women who are blind to this fundamental idea of their demand for political equality is true2 and it is also true that there are perhaps as many men as there are women who recognize the need of woman's political and social equality1 but this only proves the fact which we have already emphasized1 namely that it is not women as personalities1 but the ,female ,principle throughout the universe that is at the root of the modern ,feminist ,movement4 ,the male principle is not confined to the form of man1 neither is the female principle always expressed in the form of woman4 ,many men exemplify more of the maternal instinct than do certain women2 neither must it be assumed that this type of man is effeminate2 or that the woman of ,amazonian physique is more masculine in thought and habit than is the little frou-frou specimen of womankind who looks appealingly into the eyes of her male escort1 beseeching protection from the rude stares which she has premeditatedly invited4 ,qualities are sexless and universal4 ,it is only in their specific combinations that they adequately represent the masculine or the feminine gender4 ,blessed are they who have learned the art of discrimination4 ,broadly speaking1 women are behaving in a manner which upsets all precedent and promises ultimate emancipation from restraint4 ,but is it not possible that women no longer need restraint if they ever needed it8 ,is it not possible that the world has grown up1 and that both men and women may safely be allowed the freedom of self-government1 with all possible mutual aid in the work of establishing an upright1 free1 and trustworthy science of right living8 ,that which is always in the future is never ours and if we are ever going to be free and happy and well-conditioned there is no reason why we should not make it soon4 ,woman's demand for political equality is sometimes used as an excuse to lessen her dignity and her place in society4 ,people who do this are of the same type as those before whom ,sex cannot be discussed intelligently because they do not realize the sacredness of ,sex4 ,they are a remnant of the ages which have passed and which have left their mark1 in the idea of a half-sexed ,god1 the ,he1 the spouseless ,father who brought forth the visible universe apparently without co-operation with the ,female ,principle4 ,this type of person prates much about the dangers of race-suicide1 meaning thereby the increasing tendency to childlessness and not as should be taken into account the death rate among children who are born of diseased and unfit parents and brought into existence without the necessary conditions of sanitation1 food and care4 ,our national ,eugenic societies are hampered by false ideas of what constitutes morality1 being bound to uphold the tradition that the child that is born of married parents1 no matter how diseased in body and deficient in mind1 is better-born than is the offspring of unmarried parents1 even though the latter may be a model of physical health and mental efficiency4 ,eugenics will remain limited in scope until such time as the entire world adopts in spirit and in truth the recent action of the ,european governments1 and recognizes the legitimacy of all children however born4 ,and although the action of the ,european governments was born of nothing more humane than a war expediency in order that more soldiers might be bred1 yet the effect of such a course will benefit the human race4 ,it has at least set a precedent1 and will in time be extended to all children born out of wedlock and will wipe out forever the cruel and unjust stigma that has attached to the child of unmarried parents4 ,thus it will be seen that even war has its good results1 and although it seems a terrible price to pay for even so badly a needed reform as this1 ,humanity has always paid dearly for its willful blindness4 ,it certainly should be evident to any sane mind that every child that is born into this world has a moral and a legal right to be here4 ,whatever may be said for or against parents1 it is wicked stupidity to brand an innocent child with the epithet illegitimate4 ,the lowest animal has a right to be born4 ,many a beautiful and innocent child is denied that right4 ,if it has taken one of the most bloody wars in history to establish the right of birth1 even so the struggle will not have been in vain1 because this right1 once established in the hearts of all ,humanity1 will forever do away with warfare4 ,no doubt this assertion will sound far-fetched to many1 but the future will see the vindication of this belief4 ,birth is actually the most important function in life4 ,if it is immoral to be born1 no matter what the conditions of such birth1 what possible chance have we to live morally8 ,we cannot discriminate in dealing with the great fundamentals of life4 ,this truism1 applies to all cosmic action4 ,nature's laws are inviolable4 ,nature says that the child of the king and the child of the beggar shall be born in the self-same way4 ,the child of the unmarried mother and the child of the married mother come into the world in accordance with the self-same law of reproduction4 ,nature may not be always polite1 but she is always truthful4 ,as long as there is any question of the legitimacy of any birth1 ,humanity as a whole cannot be otherwise than inferior1 because ,humanity cannot rise higher than the ideal of the average4 ,moreover we are so interdependent that the whole must be affected by the conditions of a part4 ,birth is right1 or it is wrong4 ,it cannot be right under some circumstances and wrong under others4 ,the primal laws do not take into account our ideas of respectability4 ,the question then arises3 ,are we to consider it moral and legitimate for women to have children before they have been married8 ,the obvious answer to this question is1 that the mother must be permitted to decide this for herself1 since no one has a right to do it for her4 ,our right of interference in so intimate a matter must begin only at the point where her conduct injures us4 ,if an unmarried woman chooses to give birth to a child1 neither you nor ,i1 nor ,society is injured1 not even if the child becomes a charge of the state1 because the cost of maintaining a child is far less than that of maintaining insane asylums and penitentiaries--both of which result from our mistaken attitude toward the sex-relation4 ,if we are permitted to answer the question of morality and legitimacy by generalities1 we will say that any child that comes into the world desired by the mother is born in accordance with the highest possible concept of the moral law4 ,whenever ,society1 ,church and ,governments shall unite to wipe out the stain upon mother and child because of failure to comply with our marriage laws1 a better race of men and women will people the earth1 because the race-thought will be one of welcome with all that word implies2 whereas at the present time1 under our undeveloped ideas of morality1 doubt1 suspicion1 and condemnation prevail1 with all that these words imply4 ,when all mothers are honored all women will be willing to be mothers4 ,as long as dishonor attaches to any instance of motherhood1 it is inevitable that motherhood will be avoided1 even to the point of child-murder4 ,not that this practice is confined to the women who would be dishonored by becoming mothers4 ,it obtains rather more perhaps among those women whose wealth and ease would seem to make motherhood desirable4 ,judging from surface conditions only1 one might not see the connection4 ,but that is the trouble with our modern life4 ,we do not look deeply enough to deal intelligently with causes4 ,we are always seeking to check effects4 ,the average human being is little more than a phonographic record of the dominant race-thought1 and race-thought ideas are contagious4 ,let us honor and provide for all mothers and all children and we will find that the birthrate will increase among the rich and respectable1 where now we note a determined desire to shirk the responsibilities of parenthood4 ,we need not fear that the number of unmarried mothers will be alarming4 ,the first aid to true morality is honesty4 ,monogamy is the ideal relationship between men and women4 ,but enforced relationships are neither ideal nor true4 ,ideal conditions can be established only between free human beings4 ,compulsion is death4 ,selection and choice mean life and health4 ,the man or the woman who is free1 and particularly free from self-condemnation1 is instinctively monogamous4 ,life in all its phases tends upward toward conscious and specific selection4 ,conscious selection must include love1 and we may safely trust love4 ,love is inseparable from truth and fidelity4 ,without love1 all the efforts of all the ,eugenic ,societies on earth will accomplish little1 however well-meant their efforts4 ,eugenists confine their work to the physical aspect of the subject and as a matter of expediency deal with the effects of marriage and race-propagation in their relation to disease and degeneracy1 ignoring the esoteric phase of the subject4 ,thus no real good can come of the ,eugenic movement per se4 ,its contribution to ,progress consists in its value as an announcer of a higher ideal1 rather than a higher order4 ,the higher order can come only by getting back to primal laws4 ,the fact should not be overlooked that the ancient ,greeks were competent ,eugenists4 ,they effected wonderful results1 too1 in two important points of the well-balanced individual4 ,they worked for beauty and intellect1 both desirable adjuncts to a perfect race1 but both also as cold as the marble statues which ,greece gave to the world4 ,greek and ,roman civilization toppled and fell because it was a civilization without foundation2 it was built from the outside2 it was like an old ruined house encased in a thin wall of beautiful marble1 and set upon a high hill4 ,it deceives the eye from a distance1 but freezes the blood and congeals the soul when intimately known4 ,greek and ,roman civilization1 based upon physical ,eugenics1 was unbalanced and could not endure1 because it was a civilization of force2 of dominance rather than of unity4 ,there was no ideal of sex-equality1 and therefore ,love was regarded as the least important requisite in ,eugenic marriage4 ,it should be obvious that without the element of love1 as the basis of selection1 human reproduction must take on the same status as stock-breeding1 which may for a time give the finest physical specimens of animal life1 but which1 if persisted in1 finally results in decadence4 ,we have an example of the tendency to decadence from in-breeding of those types of humans which have the best advantages at least of education and refinement1 whether or not those advantages are embraced4 ,we refer to ,royalty4 ,we need only mention the illustrious example of ,cleopatra to prove this4 ,cleopatra was the offspring of a marriage between a brother and sister--a custom which prevailed among ancient rulers to insure none but royal blood4 ,cleopatra we may well believe was both beautiful and intellectual1 but it is also certain that she was abnormally lacking in conscience1 in tenderness1 in love4 ,her passions were those of the animal1 and not of the soul4 ,in modern life1 ,spain and ,austria both furnish discouraging data to exponents of select breeding4 ,in fact it is thoroughly established that degeneracy is not the result of imperfect physical conditions only4 ,the greatest villians are not infrequently both handsome and intellectual4 ,bulwer ,lytton well illustrates this fact in his character of ,margrave in ,a ,strange ,story4 ,margrave was a perfect and beautiful physical specimen4 ,he possessed rare intelligence1 but he had no soul and was utterly incapable of the finer sensibilities1 which we instinctively classify as spiritual attributes4 ,returning to a consideration of what has been termed the unusual behavior of the feminine half of mankind1 we find that the chief end and aim of many women centers upon the problem of how to avoid maternity1 quite upsetting traditional ideas regarding woman's rightful sphere1 which began and ended in rearing a large family4 ,women in all walks of life1 rich and poor1 wise and frivolous1 selfish and unselfish--are refusing to bear children4 ,the superficial observer rails against this1 because he sees only the effect4 ,he sees women living in fashionable hotels1 if they are rich enough to afford it2 if they are poor they establish a cheap imitation of this phase of semi-communal life in what is paradoxically known as light housekeeping1 usually represented by one small dark room where the nearest delicatessen serves as a convenience1 the public laundry minimizes domestic labor1 and the department store supplies ready made1 the family clothing1 from undergarments to top coats4 ,under these conditions1 whether of fashionable hotel suites or dark light housekeeping1 it is plain that children are not welcome4 ,even those of the class found between these extremes are discouraged from rearing children1 since city life tends more and more to apartments as a substitute for the home2 and no well regulated apartment house is open to children4 ,the average observer1 as we say1 notes these conditions1 but fails to realize that there must be a cosmic cause for a condition so wide-spread4 ,there must be something back of it1 as we say of many things which we note in our every day life4 ,looked at from the surface only1 these conditions seem deplorable and ultimately race-suicidal4 ,but the cosmic law is always upward in tendency4 ,we may safely trust it1 if we will4 ,this does not mean that the conscious motive which actuates the average woman1 who is able physically and financially to bear children and yet will not1 is a high and noble one4 ,the law deals with the planet1 not directly with the individual2 it acts upon the developed and the undeveloped with equal impartiality1 even as the rain falls upon the just and the unjust alike4 ,spiritually conscious persons realize the necessity for a change in human ethics4 ,the world is in need of a more exalted ideal2 an ideal in which equality shall be more nearly represented and they give themselves consciously to the task of assisting in this regenerating work4 ,the difference is not in the law itself1 but in our comprehension of it4 ,the curriculum of the school of life is unchanged4 ,we graduate from it or we return for another term1 according as we have mastered the studies4 ,applying this truth to the conditions just stated1 and we see that this rebellion on the part of woman against child birth has two aspects4 ,one is from apparent selfishness and lack of the temperamental quality1 which has erroneously been attributed to women as an exclusive possession1 namely1 the maternal instinct4 ,the other aspect of woman's disinclination to maternity is due to a restless1 vague but nevertheless determined desire on the part of the ,feminine ,principle1 to wait until conditions are more equal4 ,sometimes we find women1 who are perfectly awake and consciously aware of the cause of their brazen sterility1 as a virile writer has caustically termed it2 but more often the conscious mental attitude is lacking and they merely obey blindly the dominant race-mind4 ,women know much more in the depths of their souls than they can put into words4 ,a part of this knowledge is the fact that child-bearing is not a function limited to the physical1 the mortal plane of life4 ,every woman who is anywhere near balanced in the struggle for completeness knows intuitively1 that even though she may never beget mortal children1 there are innumerable opportunities for the exercise of her maternal functions1 awaiting her just behind the veil1 which seemingly separates us from invisible areas4 ,moreover motherhood is qualitative4 ,it is not synonymous with maternity4 ,it is not made nor unmade by the birthrate4 ,two important considerations present themselves to the world today3 ,one is that woman--considered as the fecund receptive sex-principle--is refusing the sex relationship on the old basis1 however respectable and well-intentioned that basis was4 ,generally speaking1 it is evident that the old basis of intercourse between the sexes has been1 is being1 and will continue to be1 disrupted1 denied1 refused1 as the approved and fixed plan and purpose of ,destiny4 ,the other important observation is this3 there is a cosmic cause for this4 ,it is only those who are blinded by prejudice or by sense-conscious limitations who refuse to look below the surface for the cause of a condition so general as that of unhappy marriages2 of innumerable divorces2 of the refusal to bear children4 ,what is the cause8 ,why are women refusing to marry1 or when they do marry refusing to live with their husbands8 ,why do they shrink from child-birth8 ,are they less courageous than their progenitors8 ,or are women less capable of love--either love of children or love of the father who begets the children8 ,it will be agreed that we are establishing a higher standard of love than ever before in history4 ,we are beginning to realize for the first time in the history of many generations1 what we owe to the future4 ,formerly men built entirely for self1 and for the immediate present4 ,we can look back and trace the development of a race consciousness from the clan to the nation4 ,in this century we see the barriers between races and nations and sects and societies1 as also between the sexes1 slowly dissolving4 ,only a few years ago we could not imagine an ,oriental1 occupying a political1 or educational or religions platform with an ,occidental4 ,now it is a common thing4 ,we know the hostility which has existed between the ,jew and the ,gentile--now they exchange pulpits1 and all sects and all nations unite in matters of world interest4 ,women are elected to political and educational offices4 ,no matter that these evidences of unity are as yet incomplete4 ,they are promises of the birth of a larger concept of love than that which prevailed when a man's highest idea of honor and of love was to protect his immediate family only2 to care for his own legal wife and children even at the expense of and certainly with heartless indifference to the fate of any other women and children4 ,to be sure1 this protection has often been vouchsafed because of the self interest which is inseparable from the idea of possession and is not1 per se1 a grander or nobler impulse than that which actuated our hair-clothed antecedents1 who found that their own lives were best conserved by respecting those nearest to them4 ,but thus it is that ,love has been implanted in human hearts through no higher or more altruistic method than that of self-interest2 but the nature of love is to expand2 to grow2 to give of itself until unselfishness must come with the final aim of love1 which is unity and not possession4 ,we of this era are unquestionably manifesting a larger and more inclusive ideal of love1 and since the ,female ,principle conserves the higher aspects of love1 we are bound to concede that a higher ideal of love is possible to the woman of today than ever before4 ,we must take into consideration the average of the sex1 at the same time not forgetting that in the highest type of individual1 the qualities of both sexes are balanced1 uniting the spiritual1 self-sacrificing and unselfish love-element of the female principle1 with the wider scope1 the inclusive element of the male4 ,let us remember that we are dealing with principles and not merely with individuals4 ,admitting that it is not because of lack of love1 either maternal or conjugal1 that women are shirking marriage and maternity1 we may then ask3 ,what is the cause8 ,the answer may be found in the conclusion that women are done with mere instinctive procreation4 ,they demand conditions consistent with the birth of a higher type of human-kind4 ,they desire to make right the way for the coming of the perfect race--a race that will not snarl and bite and growl and tear and claw and choke and starve and freeze and otherwise kill each other over the possession of bones4 ,ever and ever we have been promised the coming of the perfect man--the man-god1 as ,emerson said4 ,this means the ,god in ,man consciously active1 and awake4 ,this ,god-nature of ,man's has been asleep1 submerged under the domination of the animal nature which subdues and appropriates4 ,a race of supermen can be born only of full and complete union4 ,animals reproduce their kind1 but man's perogative is to invite the gods to come to earth4 ,we may consciously beget souls1 not merely reproduce bodies4 ,women are demanding a union in which there shall be something more than mere physical contact resulting in reproduction4 ,this demand is working itself out more or less blindly according to the development of individual women1 but the ideal of soul union is coming to be more and more recognized not only as a desirable type of union1 but also as the initiative of the promised time when the kingdom of ,god should come on earth as it is in the heavens4 ,all races have uttered this prayer1 apparently with a firm belief in its efficacy4 ,if they have not faith in its appeal1 it were surely vain and foolish to voice it ,but we are assured that ,god always keeps his promises1 which is simply one way of saying that the law of the cosmos is reliable4 ,one calls it ,evolution and another calls it ,god1 but both must agree that whether ,god or ,evolution be the name1 ,love is the result4 ,there can be no higher or more spiritual phase of life than that in which ,love is an ever-present reality4 ,neither can we with any degree of logic assume that a function so universal1 so all-pervading1 and also so inspiring1 as that of ,sex1 has its beginning and its termination on the physical plane--a manifestation of life which even physicists are bound to concede is an infinitesimal part of cosmic activities4 ,we need not worry therefore lest the race shall die1 because of a decreasing birthrate as we see it on the physical plane4 ,there are many other places and planes of consciousness4 ,the stars and the planets are peopled4 ,the cosmos is very much alive1 because ,sex is the axis 7,x-is7 upon which it rotates in perfect harmony4 ,the fact which we here wish to emphasize is that the ,female ,principle is refusing maternity1 and above all the bondage of matrimony for the important reason that the time has come for the rearing of the ,man-god2 for the establishment of the spiritual function of sex1 superceding the mere instinctive animal urge of procreation and sense gratification4 ,evolution is apparent in all other phases of our life-activities4 ,why should it not manifest in this most important of all our systems of intercourse8 ,the mere act of bringing forth children is not in itself either sacred or holy4 ,far more often it has been a perfunctory duty or a punishment for indulgence in an act of which men and women have been more than half ashamed1 even while seeking it with the instinctive urge of a cosmic law which cannot be escaped1 although it may be co-operated with to advantage4 ,nor does the act of giving birth to children confer true motherhood4 ,maternity is not necessarily motherhood any more than matrimony is always marriage4 ,there are many mothers who have never borne children4 ,and there are many women with children who know not the first faint dawn of that wonderful1 beautiful and intense 7because spiritual7 love which comes most often in the guise of motherhood1 but which is always present when two souls who are truly mated contact each other's inner nature4 ,if the women of today will insist upon the sacredness and the rightfulness of birth the women of tomorrow will not seek to evade motherhood4 ,if the women of today will establish the sacredness of all life2 if they will not rest until every child that is born into this world is recognized as legitimate and more1 is welcomed2 is given every advantage of education1 of healthful body1 of right moral training1 rest assured that the women of the future will seek only to rival each other in the quality and the perfection of their motherhood4 ,the efforts of many radicals to enact legislation regulating the birthrate1 the struggle to disseminate knowledge of how to prevent conception1 may be well meant as these things are consistent with prevailing conditions4 ,but they are not the final answer to the problem4 ,love is the only answer4 ,where love is permitted to rule1 children are not only welcome but ecstatically desired and provided for4 ,motherhood is a hope and a joy to the normal woman4 ,comparatively every woman would be normal under proper social and economic conditions4 ,when women seek to evade maternity it is either because of lack of sufficient means to care for children1 or it is because of lack of sufficient love4 ,or it is because of fear of that modern mo-loch1 ,public ,opinion4 ,when a woman truly loves a man1 she longs to be the mother of his children4 ,a balanced world will make it possible for every woman to be free from the bondage of fear and poverty1 and ill-health1 leaving her free to be guided in the most vital and important function of her life1 by the call of the highest love of which she is capable4 ,love will establish motherhood as a divine privilege4 ,certainly no other power on earth or in the realms above can do so4 ,neither preachments nor platitudes1 nor punishments1 nor legislative blunderings4 ,love is the only saviour of mankind4 ,there is no other true ,god4 ,some day the symbol of ,deity which now depicts ,man crucified will be superseded upon all altars by the image of a winged babe1 and when this comes to pass1 ,humanity will rise to that ideal4 ,,chapter ,,iv ,,the ,,history ,,of ,,marriage ,,and ,,mating ,any attempt to discuss subjects pertaining to the sex-relation with intelligence and an optimistic outlook is handicapped by the fact that sex-problems are so intimately associated with religious prejudices1 reasons for which we have already mentioned in the chapter devoted to sex-worship and sex-degradation4 ,it is possible1 therefore1 that in seeking to define freedom and to make a plea for the freeing of women and men from the bonds of matrimony1 we may be accused of seeking to demolish with one blow1 so to speak1 the social institution of marriage4 ,such is not the intention of the present writer1 for reasons which are based upon something far more noteworthy than a concession to the prejudices and beliefs of the average4 ,luther ,burbank has said3 ,in pursuing any of the everlasting and fundamental laws of nature1 all previous bias and inherited prejudices must be laid aside1 if the student hopes to be taken into ,nature's confidence and be the sharer of her secrets4 ,the average person1 entrenched behind the bulwark of theological bias1 saturated with a belief in the finality of all previous discovery and knowledge1 teems with a fanatical desire to defend his ,god--as if the ,supreme ,power1 whatever name we give it--were not capable of self-defense4 ,it is due to this mistaken zeal on the part of the short-sighted ones1 that human evolution is slow1 albeit it is likewise inevitable4 ,they are like those who1 viewing the wrecking of a ruined habitation1 condemned by the ,board of ,public ,safety1 try to stop the process of the workers2 they do not know that when the ground shall have been cleared1 a finer1 more sightly1 and above all1 more habitable building will be put up on the same ground2 and anything from the old architecture that was worthy of preservation will be used in the new building4 ,the dug-outs of our antedeluvian ancestors were designed to protect them from the destructive forces of storm and wave and also from their brothers1 the enemy2 and although our ideas of what constitutes a desirable dwelling-place have evolved to our modern ideal of a home1 rather than a shelter1 yet the fundamental concept remains4 ,a study of history should be encouraging if only to prove that no radical changes in human ethics have ever been forced upon us4 ,verily1 the gods wait upon men and until there is something like a concerted demand for improved conditions1 they stand just outside the door waiting to be bidden1 ,enter1 ,friend4 ,as with mental ideas1 so it is with ethical ideals4 ,until there is a more general demand for a higher concept of marriage1 it is quite certain that the world will worry along with the one which now does duty for the majority1 although it must be admitted that the poor thing gives evidence of much decrepitude and suffers from as many complaints as a hypochondriac4 ,but1 the fact that marriage in some form has prevailed as one of the fundamental necessities of human ethics1 ever since the beginning of recorded history1 and doubtless before that1 is1 we believe1 very satisfactory evidence that marriage has a permanent place in social and individual evolution4 ,what that place is1 can be deduced from a study of the history of marriage4 ,there are two different viewpoints from which we may discuss all phases of ,life1 namely1 the mystical and the ethical4 ,the mystic sees all life from the inside1 as it were2 and the physicist studies the exterior1 the appearance4 ,to the mystic1 the visible1 or external1 world is a succession of symbols1 which he must interpret4 ,to him1 the everlasting and fundamental truths of the ,cosmos are told in a succession of moving pictures4 ,in fact1 the mystic has long anticipated the art which we now see manifested in our film-theatres and has realized that the scenes1 which appear to the eye as actual events1 are but the reflection of scenes enacted in a place far distant and long before the moment of projection upon the screen which meets his eye4 ,science examines1 dissects1 and classifies these symbols according to their relation to other symbols which the mind has previously noted and classified4 ,the same conclusion awaits both ,science and ,mysticism4 ,humanity is ever seeking the ,reality--the ,noumenon1 which we intuitively postulate as behind the phenomena of ,nature4 ,the institution of marriage1 coming down to us through all the ages1 side by side with the mystery of sex1 and incorporated with the sex-mystery into every form and system of religious rites and ceremonials among all peoples1 would seem to have a place in human ethics1 as substantial and as permanent as the germ of life itself4 ,indeed1 the institution of marriage1 in its first stages of evolution1 obtains in the animal kingdom1 where selection in a great variety of forms is common4 ,and it must be confessed that here we find the same tendency to change and variation1 both in regard to the individual and the family species1 as we have in the human family4 ,polyandry1 polygamy1 and monogamy1 have been general among some animals while among others only one form of mating has been the rule4 ,strange to say1 sex promiscuity is not at all general among the animals1 though polygamy is common4 ,the adoption of polygamy is obviously due to one of two things1 or possibly1 to be more specific1 to both4 ,first1 because the percentage of deaths among the males is greater than among the females2 this applies to animal life1 both wild and domestic4 ,in wild life1 because of frequent combats2 in domestic life1 because the females are kept for breeding while the males are slaughtered for food4 ,the second reason is because the female is seldom as virile as the male1 and to this is also added the debilitating effect of bearing and rearing the young1 the necessity for which must have manifested itself very early among the various families1 from motives of self-protection1 if from nothing higher1 since victory evidently favored the numerically strong4 ,in bird-life1 especially1 where love is so vital a part of their life1 and so beautifully expressed1 monogamy is the rule1 and in some species1 like that of the robin1 a certain aristocracy seems to exist1 preventing intercourse with any other family4 ,the robin will mate only with a robin1 and not infrequently mates for life2 which is to say that should one die1 the other refuses to mate again4 ,it is claimed that the bald-headed eagle never varies from monogamy4 ,a mate once chosen1 the union lasts until the death of either partner4 ,it does not follow from this1 however1 that the bald-headed eagle is a creature of a superior moral conscience4 ,it may be that he is guided in his selection of a conjugal mate by an intuitional power undeveloped by other types of life1 or1 which is far more probable1 it may be that his sexual nature is easily satisfied and that he has no temperamental affinities or repulsions1 in which event force of habit would be the strongest actuating power4 ,this explanation is in keeping with the eagle character4 ,the point is that marriage1 or what constitutes marriage1 exists among birds and animals1 and that it antedates history as a social institution among men4 ,another fact which we must concede1 if we are just1 is that marriage apparently knows no systematic and upward trend4 ,there is1 in fact1 no determined evolution toward a definite and conclusive practice of monogamy1 although the monogamic custom is recognized as the evolutionary type among the civilized races of today4 ,nevertheless1 it would be folly to imply that a strict monogamy obtains in the letter of the word1 or that social exigencies might not reinstate polygamy as a legalized custom4 ,passing over those forms of mating1 which may be classed as sex-promiscuity1 such1 for example1 as exist among the ,esquimaux1 and also among the ,dyaks1 of ,borneo1 where a contract is made for a night by the simple expediency of the man and the woman exchanging head-gear1 we come to one of the earliest and most general forms of marriage among primitive peoples1 where the parents arranged a marriage between their children for reasons of personal profit4 ,in these instances1 neither the youth nor the girl was consulted and generally did not meet until they met to consummate the marriage4 ,in fact1 they seemed not to have any preferences4 ,these marriages were easily broken1 unless children resulted therefrom1 when there seems to have developed a sense of obligation to the offspring to continue the family4 ,marriage by capture grew out of the matriarchal system and came as the very natural revolt of the male from the female rule1 in which he had no rights and no home with his spouse4 ,since the gens of the family was the first consideration and this was maintained by the female heads of a clan1 there was nothing left for the male to do1 if he would be a factor in the community1 but to steal his wife from her family1 and establish a family life of his own4 ,thus the female became the possession of the male1 by his right of capture and defense4 ,inspired by the thirst for further invasions1 the male gradually acquired not only one1 but many wives1 which constituted his possessions1 from the fact that he had earned them by right of conquest1 conquest being not only the savage but also the civilized idea of earning4 ,indeed1 our modern marriages reveal a degree of savagery in this respect1 which is not suspected by the casual observer4 ,the almost general observance of what has come to be known in legal jurisprudence as the unwritten law1 which permits a man to go unpunished when he kills another man whom he believes to have been on terms of intimacy with his wife1 is a tacit admission of a man's vested rights in his wife's person4 ,in innumerable instances1 which have been given world-wide publicity within very recent times1 the man who has been guilty of homicide under these circumstances has been exalted to the plane of a martyr-hero1 and one woman writer1 whose hysterical effusions are given considerable space in the public print1 defended a man who had taken advantage of this unwritten law to shoot his rival1 in the following words3 ,you1 ,mister1 would shoot a man whom you found prowling through your house with the intention of stealing your silver2 your jewelry2 your property of whatever kind or value4 ,how much more1 then1 should you guard the honor of your wife1 from these pestilential marauders8 ,of course we question the right of human beings to kill each other in defense of mere property2 but that is not the point here4 ,the inference here is obvious that this woman1 who represents at least the average degree of intelligence1 placed her sex in the category of man's possessions1 utterly ignoring the woman's right1 or power of free-will4 ,mention is here made of this incident to show how deeply rooted is the possessive idea of marriage1 which had its origin in nothing more ideal than the animal instinct of the dog with the bone4 ,nor would we give the impression that this one-sided idea of what constitutes a monogamous marriage is confined to the male4 ,the same idea of possession as of a piece of property1 representing so much investment of time and money1 and service of one kind or another1 actuates the female also although the rights of the woman in the male are not so generally defended and she seldom resorts to such violent methods of defense or of revenge for loss of her property4 ,perhaps she has a keener sense of values4 ,necessity has substituted support for outraged honor1 and modern woman avenges the loss of her possessions through the safer channels of the law-courts4 ,the feeling of possession1 so ingrained in human nature1 and so much a part of our modern marriage relation1 is not grounded upon a moral code1 which has for its basic principle fidelity to one's partner4 ,this is proven by the fact that men have for some time abrogated to themselves the right of promiscuity1 the main clause of their defense being that their conduct does not deprive their wife and family of satisfactory maintenance4 ,many a woman today1 irreproachably respectable and church-going1 will admit to herself if not to her neighbors1 that she closes her eyes to her husband's laxity in sexual matters1 as long as he provides well for me4 ,when we come1 as we will later1 to a consideration of what constitutes morality1 we will see that1 like all our evolving ideals1 it is governed by immediate conditions1 both individual and social4 ,it is easy to see why polygamy has been practiced1 as a necessary expedient1 and why women have been held so cheaply1 when we realize the centuries of devastating wars1 both of conquest and of defense1 which besmirch the path of ,evolution4 ,thus the tendency to sthetic selection1 always more pronounced in the female than in the male1 has been swallowed up in the false valuation put upon the male1 because of his relative scarcity4 ,in ,america1 in the early sixties1 fear of the epithet old maid drove many a woman to marriage with a man whom1 personally1 she did not like1 but as he represented a more or less rara avis and as her claim to attractiveness rested upon her success in trapping this rare bird1 she permitted herself to become a victim of conditions2 and we may safely conclude that no higher motive actuated the average woman of the last century than that of submission to conditions1 for the virtues of fidelity and devotion to the home and fireside which critics of present-day morals are fond of reminding us characterized our grandmothers4 ,briefly1 then1 we may review the history of marriage and of mating1 everywhere1 and at all times1 as variable1 controlled by expediency2 and always based on the egoistic idea of possession1 expressed by the right of the parents to dispose of their children2 the right by capture2 the right by purchase2 and the right by consent4 ,one or all of these customs have been tried in various parts of the world and at various times1 and seldom has the condition of woman approached even so enviable a place as that of the female animal1 except in the comparatively short periods when women have been the gens of the family4 ,these periods have become more and more infrequent1 until the legal status of women has been1 as it is now1 no more than what the evolving consciousness of the male permitted to her4 ,it is a question whether1 under our pretended monogamy1 which is1 per se1 a more ideal condition than polygamy1 all women have been either better conditioned or more moral4 ,the answer depends largely upon our idea of what constitutes morality4 ,certainly1 the condition of women in ,christian countries has been1 and is now1 far from ideal2 which would1 judging from surface appearances1 indicate that monogamy1 as it has been practiced in the past1 served only as an ideal1 and at best has been of first aid to the male1 primarily because of a question of personal health and cleanliness2 secondly1 as a means of developing in him the latent qualities of altruism1 manifested selfishly enough at first in protecting his possessions2 among which he egotistically conceded his children at least first place2 although the wife was hardly more than a convenience and an incubator4 ,of the conditions that have prevailed under the monogamous custom and among the so-called superior races1 ,letourneau1 in his ,evolution of the ,family1 says3 ,the ,hebrews seem to have been alone1 among the ,semites1 in adopting monogamy1 at least in general practice4 ,doubtless the subjection of the ,jewish woman was not extreme as it is in ,kabyle2 it was1 however1 very great4 ,her consent to marriage1 it is true1 was necessary when she had reached majority1 but she was all the same sold to her husband4 ,we find hardly more than the portrait of a laborious servant1 busy and grasping4 ,we shall see that the wife1 though she might gain much money1 which seems to have been the ideal of the ,hebrew1 according to the ,proverbs1 was repudiable at will1 with no other reason than the caprice of the master who had bought her4 ,finally1 and this is much more severe1 she was always obliged to be able to prove1 cloths in hand1 that she was a virgin at the moment of her marriage1 and this under pain of being stoned4 ,the same state of affairs or worse existed in ,india and in ,persia1 although in ,persia there seems to have been an attempt to enjoin the same fidelity upon the husband as upon the wife1 according to the ,zend-,avesta2 the only severe restriction to marriage being that neither should marry an infidel4 ,in ,india1 where there has been for centuries an alleged monogamy 7except among the privileged classes1 where concubinage held sway71 the ethical condition of the women has been1 and still is1 deplorable4 ,in ancient ,greece and ,rome the position of the woman was most inferior4 ,she was generally purchased1 or given for service4 ,her husband's word was law1 and mothers were compelled to obey their male children as uncomplainingly as though they were slaves4 ,the wife and mother was not permitted to attend festivities and neither was she allowed the selection of her friends1 her husband deciding this choice for her4 ,this1 of course1 applied to the respectable1 or so-called virtuous woman1 which constituted the average4 ,then1 as now1 two classes of women were to some extent exempt from this rigid custom4 ,one class was formed by those women whose wealth conferred upon them a degree of power1 because the possessors of great wealth have always been a law unto themselves4 ,the other class was formed by the women who practiced prostitution1 and who1 by reason of their mode of life1 met men on terms of at least temporary social equality4 ,thus it is evident that the path of the virtuous woman without the independence that accompanies the possession of her own money1 was in ancient days much more thorny than that of the concubine or the prostitute2 and it is because of this fact that parental love1 the most powerful of all levers employed by the ,cosmic ,law to lift love out of degradation1 instituted the custom of the dowry1 and although this1 too1 has at various times become a source of degradation1 inspiring impoverished aristocrats to loveless marriages with so-called inferiors1 yet it has after all been a factor in the evolution of women and the preservation of the races4 ,it has served two purposes4 ,it has made women1 in theory at least1 more independent2 and it has resulted in an admixture of blood which has saved the aristocratic class from extinction through decadence4 ,as might well be expected in those instances where women did enjoy a degree of liberty that was due to financial and social advantages1 they took a mean delight in ruling it over their male relatives1 and1 as we may note in our own time1 men who yielded to the seduction of wealth1 and married women to whom they were forced to accord the freedom and the deference which wealth confers1 complained bitterly of their lot2 as witness the following complaint of a ,roman husband3 ,i have married a witch with a dowry2 ,i took her to have her fields and houses1 and that1 ,o ,apollo1 is the worst of evils4 ,one dominant idea controlled the status of marriage in early ,greece and ,rome--an idea in full accord with the materialistic phase of their civilization2 this was the idea of procreation2 an idea that logically was inevitable1 since continuous warfare resulted in a population in which women predominated1 and we are told that in the interest of procreation both childlessness and celibacy were severely punished4 ,thus the situation of women was that best described by the phrase between the devil and the deep sea4 ,regarding the ideal of marital fidelity1 ,plutarch is authority for the story that ,cato loaned his wife to his friend ,hortensius and took her back on the death of the latter1 plus a rich inheritance from the transaction4 ,however1 should ,martha have yielded herself voluntarily to ,hortensius1 from motives of affection1 the chances are that she would have met death at the hands of her justly outraged spouse4 ,in ,europe1 similar conditions prevailed1 and although monogamy was the rule1 concubinage and prostitution in all its forms existed4 ,the wife was subject to the husband in every wish and whim1 and after him to the eldest son4 ,this is true today in ,germany and among the ,saxons in a degree whose modifications do not accord with other advances in our social ethics4 ,it is a mistake to claim that religious systems have had any direct influence in the emancipation of women during the nineteen hundred years of ,christian civilization among the white races4 ,religious systems have only reflected the race-thought2 they have not molded it4 ,this is true1 despite the fact that true religion1 when esoterically understood1 has always aimed at union1 and union means equality along all lines1 sex-equality2 social equality2 race equality4 ,we must here digress from the main point of this chapter long enough to explain that equality is not synonymous with identity1 as seems to be the impression among the many2 a misconception which we regret to say is shared by the judge on the bench with the workingman on the construction gang1 and the idiotic observation that if women expect to vote they must expect to stand up in the street-car1 is not1 alas6 confined to the lout1 but is quite often voiced by the professional man4 ,the same silly idea prevails with regard to race-equality4 ,it is judged by a similarity to our own in matters of dress2 or choice of foods2 by inconsequential differences1 rather than by an estimate of what a given race may contribute to the variety of human knowledge2 and yet it is evident that nature aims at variety2 at a multiplicity of ideas and customs and creations4 ,differentiation is the primal attempt4 ,woman's claim to equality should be based upon the fact that first of all she is different from1 rather than identical with1 men4 ,the woman who dons male attire and eschews all so-called feminine frivolity in her efforts to prove herself man's equal1 is confessing that in her natural environment she does not consider herself his equal1 and is masquerading as man1 in the vain hope that she may deceive herself and others into thinking she is4 ,an individual is important to ,society in proportion to his originality2 in proportion as he contributes some new idea2 some hitherto unfamiliar view4 ,returning to the point of what constitutes true religion1 namely1 a consciousness of our unity with all life1 we find that although religious ethics have included this ideal1 it has not been emphasized in the ratio of its importance4 ,the result is that where unity should have been established1 segregation has been the rule1 and it is without any desire to reflect discredit upon the ideal of the ,church that we point to the fact that woman's emancipation1 and her co-operation in all departments of life1 as a hope1 if not a consummated reality1 has but now made its initial bow to the world4 ,that this initial bow comes side by side with1 if not actually in the wake of1 disruption of the old theologic dogmas2 dissatisfaction with religious systems2 and a determined disregard for what has been presented as religion2 cannot be denied4 ,the fact is that religious creeds never save anyone2 never really elevate nations4 ,at best they have been but a consolation prize or a narcotic4 ,love of freedom is the great liberator4 ,the influence of ,rationalism1 as inaugurated by ,ingersoll in ,america and ,bradlaugh in ,england1 was the opening wedge4 ,christian ,science1 mothered by a woman1 incorporated the phrase ,father-,mother-,god into its literature1 and unity has been the avowed ideal of all the variety of new cults and philosophies presented under so great a variety of names that we cannot here enumerate them4 ,nevertheless1 we are still many leagues short of realizing this ideal1 despite the preachments in its favor4 ,politically1 the ideal of unity is presented1 more or less imperfectly1 of course1 as ,socialism1 and ,suffrage4 ,commercially1 still more imperfectly in the merchants' let us get together on this1 and in efforts at legislation that shall control corporation dividends and labor schedules1 and regulate hours of work4 ,in fact1 all along the line we see the shadow cast by the rising sun of unity4 ,we have thus briefly traced the history of marriage and of mating1 in order that we may discuss with sane impartiality the questions3 ,what does marriage symbolize8 ,what is its function in the life of the social body2 in the existence of the sphere itself2 of the entire ,cosmos8 ,has it any real place and purpose beyond that of procreation1 or any more spiritual function than the perpetuation of the human species8 ,,chapter ,v ,,the ,,symbolism ,,of ,,marriage ,,and ,,of ,,sex-,,union ,notwithstanding the patent fact that the institution of monogamous marriage has not resulted in an ideal condition1 it is also plain that any other ideal of sex-union is impossible to a highly developed race4 ,monogamy1 despite its present unsatisfactory condition1 is a promise of the highest ideal to which mortals can aspire2 it is the imperfect image of that ideal state which human nature has always striven for4 ,that we have striven for the most part blindly2 that we have fallen far short of the ideal aimed at1 should not deter us from realizing that the ideal is right4 ,monogamy1 as a type of the perfect marriage1 symbolizes the meeting and the consequent union of a man and a woman who are perfect complementaries4 ,in order to be a perfect and lasting union1 they must be spiritual counterparts4 ,without this counterpartal affinity as the base of union1 no power on earth can force them to unite1 although all the laws of men be employed to keep them tied to each other in the body4 ,if two persons belong to each other by the inviolable law of spiritual counterpart1 no multitudinous set of man-made laws can keep their souls apart1 although these codes may temporarily separate them in the flesh4 ,the bonds of true matrimony are holy--the word meaning whole2 entire2 complete2 but these bonds are of an interior nature2 they may be judged only from the interior nature of two persons2 and any attempt to decide this all-important question from the standpoint of exterior judgment must fail4 ,the perfect union of the one man and the one woman is the highest ideal of marriage of which we can conceive2 but shall we for that reason insist that marriage as a social institution is always complete and holy8 ,when two immature persons come together under the stimulus of no more complementary impulse than the blind force of chemical attraction and cohesion--an instinct1 which we share in common with every form of life1 from the lowest insect to man--shall they be compelled to abide by that act as long as they both shall live in the physical body8 ,we would say1 ,heaven forbid6 only that the appeal is unnecessary4 ,heaven does forbid1 and that is why we see so many attempts to disrupt these immature relationships4 ,the striving of sexual elements through affinities1 or passional attractions1 after congenial marriage unions1 is the cause of all the motions1 growths1 and activities in the physical and moral world1 says a writer1 and he adds3 ,the failure to attain the desired end1 and the warfare between uncongenial and repulsive elements is the cause of all the broken equilibriums1 discords1 and collisions in both spheres4 ,if the atomic marriage in nature were perfect1 there would be no storms or droughts1 or poisons or monstrosities1 or disease4 ,if the marriage between the individual will and understanding1 between the interior and exterior life1 were perfect1 we should have regenerated men upon earth1 worthy to be called sons of ,god4 ,if the marriage between the sexes were perfect1 we should have a ,social ,paradise4 ,marriage1 then1 in the sense of the conjugal union of two persons of opposite sex1 is the most important function of our lives2 every other activity is subsidiary to it4 ,commerce is carried on1 only because of this union2 all the laws of man are the outgrowth of marriage2 all morality comes from the ideal marriage--the union of ,wisdom and ,love4 ,to imagine that a function1 so vitally important to our exterior life1 should have no place in the phases of life which we know as higher1 is a manifest absurdity1 and comes from those attenuated concepts of what constitutes spirituality1 which ,theology has postulated2 concepts which1 entrenched behind the walls of thus saith the ,lord1 have temporarily defied modern progress4 ,there is no wide gulf between the spiritual and the material worlds1 although the material is but an imperfect reflection of the basic principle of life4 ,marriage1 then1 is eternally going on1 ,nature is a system of nuptials1 says a writer1 and nature is only the language of spirit or ,divine ,life4 ,how it came about that ,theology made the mistake of degrading sex-union and of limiting it to the ephemeral life of the body only1 we shall come to later4 ,for the present1 a brief resume of the types of marriage ceremony1 which have been universal1 will convince us that ,nature has always sought to convey to the human mind this great secret of eternal and never-ceasing union of complementaries4 ,take1 for example1 the symbol of the wedding-ring4 ,this custom1 varying only in unimportant details1 consistent with the prevailing social custom of the times1 has come down to us from prehistoric days4 ,the golden circle1 sometimes worn only by the bride1 but frequently by both bride and groom1 is emblematical of the completion of the circle of wisdom and the final attainment1 in the twain made one1 of the finding by each of the other half4 ,the circle is always used to express the ,absolute2 ,aum2 the ,supreme ,power that is without beginning and without end4 ,according to the old ,jewish law1 the wedding ring must be made of pure gold and must be earned and paid for by the bridegroom2 he might not acquire it by credit or gift4 ,there is in this custom something more than mere thrift2 or the assurance of the bridegroom's ability to sustain the needs and comforts of his wife and prospective family4 ,it symbolizes the truth that no one may hope to acquire this priceless blessing of perfect conjugal union1 other than by his own efforts4 ,immortality must be earned1 and perfect union1 counterpartal union--which means actually twain made one1 comes only by dint of strife and demand and proof of our fitness for the ,perfect ,life4 ,another custom1 which has been in almost universal vogue1 is that of drinking wine1 emblematical of the wine of life1 at the completion of a marriage ceremony4 ,sometimes this has been the prerogative of the bride and groom only2 and sometimes of the officiating priest2 but more generally the entire company has shared in this custom4 ,wine drinking thus symbolizes eternal youth and virility1 which can be enjoyed only by those who have attained to the complete life--the divine or spiritual sex-union4 ,this symbolism is obvious when we take into our consciousness the truth that only complementaries have the power to act and react1 without change1 or loss4 ,equilibrium is maintained by a perfect balance of two forces2 if one force be ever so small a fraction less than the other1 perfect balance is lacking4 ,another marriage custom in general use among the ancients was the donning of a crown on the wedding day4 ,this custom formerly included the bridegroom as well as the bride1 but later was confined to the bride alone1 as was also the custom of wearing a veil4 ,at early ,greek marriages crowns made of gold or silver were placed upon the heads of both bride and groom2 tapers were lighted2 and rings exchanged4 ,we have a similar custom today in all fashionable church weddings4 ,we have the lighted tapers1 signifying the quenchless fires of love2 and the circlet which symbolizes eternity4 ,the crown symbolizes the truth that a truly spiritual union bestows the crown of immortality2 the power of ,godhood in the ,kingdom of ,love2 which supersedes all earthly kingdoms in splendor4 ,this is a literal truth1 although it cannot be understood in its full significance until we are fit for the kingdom4 ,the veil which the bride lifts at the completion of the ceremony symbolizes the truth that when we shall have attained to the spiritual marriage1 the veil that separates the interior from the exterior life1 shall be lifted2 it is so thin that the illusion1 of which the wedding veil is made1 rightly symbolizes this apparent separation of the physical life from the spiritual4 ,when the veil is lifted1 we shall know our completement in the bliss of perfect union2 and when we have found that other half of our being1 which is the underlying urge of our every thought and act1 we shall find the veil lifted4 ,the entire panorama of the universe becomes an open book4 ,there is no visible and invisible2 it is all ,one1 with our own bi-une sex nature for the pivotal center4 ,so simple and so obvious are all these symbols of the natural man that we are astounded1 when we have found the key1 that we did not sooner penetrate their meaning4 ,she will have a crown in ,heaven1 we say of some self-sacrificing and loving soul1 and the phrase suggests to most of us the power of earthly kings and queens with all their splendor of jewels and retainers2 but there is an inner meaning which the splendor and the crowns of earth's kings and queens symbolizes4 ,spiritual union with the perfect complement of our interior nature is in itself the crown of regal power1 of which earthly rulers are symbolical4 ,the spiritual body through this union becomes radiant2 luminous2 and shines with such splendor that it dazzles the eyes of the beholder4 ,what constitutes the beauty and the value of gems--diamonds2 rubies2 sapphires2 emeralds2 topaz2 pearls8 ,it is the radiations of light which they throw off2 it is their luminosity--their transparency4 ,it is1 indeed1 true1 that the power which we see exemplified in the rulers of the earth has a corresponding meaning in a spiritual sense2 as1 in fact1 have all things which we cognize with our physical eyes4 ,the ,hindus tell us that all things are either the nita or the ita message4 ,either they tell us this is the way to the heights2 or this is not the way4 ,the crown of orange blossoms which has supplanted the ancient crown of gold and silver and tinsel1 worn with such unconsciousness of its esoteric message1 symbolizes one of the most beautiful truths relating to the spiritual marriage--counterpartal union4 ,even as this union confers a beautiful radiance upon the spiritual body1 the body also becomes sweet-scented like a flower4 ,weeds1 we remember1 have no scent or they may be obnoxious in their odor4 ,weeds are unregenerate flowers4 ,certain chemical combinations produce nauseous gases4 ,the human body is a laboratory in which chemical changes are constantly going on4 ,the changes produced by sex-functioning are greater than anything which the experimental chemist has ever discovered in nature4 ,it is a fact well known to the pathologist that an unwilling wife1 however faithful she may be1 if forced into the sexual act1 may present her husband with a well-defined case of genital disease2 nor is this at all strange when we consider the now well-recognized fact that anger1 fear1 revenge1 avarice1 and all the destructive thought-forces produce poisons in the secretions of the body4 ,in ,rosicrucian literature1 we have the story of the ,chymical ,marriage of ,christian ,rosy ,cross1 which is1 when read with the key to its esoteric meaning1 a story of the chemistry of marriage between the sexes4 ,indeed1 the whole story of the secret doctrines of the ,rosicrucians1 is the story of the sexes1 and the secret of secrets1 which was so zealously guarded by the ,hermetics and the ,rosicrucians and other secret societies1 is the secret of the spiritual union of the male and the female principles throughout nature and culminating in man and woman1 conferring upon them immortal life through the perfect balance of sex4 ,it has been said that women were not admitted to the ,brotherhood of the ,rosicrucians1 but this is not true1 as there is plenty of evidence to prove4 ,owing to the enmity of the established ,church toward any exaltation of the sex-relation1 and particularly toward the veneration of woman1 it became necessary for those who sought to keep alive the fires of ,esoteric ,wisdom to surround themselves with the most rigid secrecy2 in consequence of this1 the story of the sexes1 constituting the very heart and center of ,hermetic philosophy1 has been told in allegory1 unintelligible unless one has the inner sight or has been initiated into the secret code4 ,in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries1 the ,church had so far succeeded in undermining the work of the ,hermetics1 that women were excluded from the ,brotherhood1 and the apparent sole purpose of the secret order was the search for metallic transmutation4 ,side by side with this convincing evidence that the esoteric meaning of the symbols has been perverted1 we find their allegorical phraseology intermixed with frequent allusions to passages from the ,scripture and to the ,virgin ,mary1 proving conclusively that the ,church1 then in the zenith of its power1 had confiscated the archives of the secret order1 and1 either through fear of the influence of their work1 or possibly through lack of any adequate comprehension of their wisdom1 had employed their symbolism to the further glory of the temporal power of the ,church4 ,this subject will again be dealt with in a chapter devoted to ,the ,hidden ,wisdom1 and so we will leave it for the present4 ,one other great spiritual truth relating to marriage is found in the intimate and constantly recurring association of the turtle-dove with the ceremony of marriage4 ,the dove is1 par excellence1 an example of conjugal love4 ,the turtle-dove1 more than any other of the dove family1 is noted for the fervor of its sexual desires2 fidelity to its mate2 and for the devotion and diffusion of its love nature4 ,it is well known that if either of a pair of turtle-doves dies1 the mate will grieve itself to death4 ,like a pair of turtle-doves is said of a couple who are happily married1 and the domestic life of the dove has made the dove a symbol of peace4 ,doves have been held sacred in many parts of the world1 and figure prominently in religious symbolic architecture and utensils1 from ancient times down to the present day4 ,the symbol of the doves flying over the ark of the covenant typifies the spiritual origin of birth1 the ark being the primordial egg1 from which issued all the forms of life4 ,let us also remember that they issued in pairs4 ,,chapter ,,vi ,,continence2 ,,chastity ,,and ,,asceticism2 ,,their ,,spiritual ,,significance ,from the earliest forms of sex-worship1 in which the creative function was doubtless given its rightful place1 down through successive stages of sex-degeneracy1 we come to the sex-perversions and the almost general licentiousness of ,ancient ,greece and ,rome1 with whom the sex function became nothing more exalted than a method of procreation1 in common with the animals2 and a means of sense-gratification1 on a par with gluttony4 ,even among the intellectual ,greeks1 the highest type of a civilization that1 although epicurean and esthetic1 was yet essentially materialistic1 sexual intercourse had no more spiritual place than it occupies today in fine stock-breeding4 ,between ancient ,roman licentiousness and our own modern attitude toward the sex-relation1 there intervenes that terrible time in the history of ,human ,evolution1 known as the ,dark ,ages1 in which was evolved the unnatural view of the function of sex1 exemplified rather erotically1 in many instances1 by asceticism and celibacy4 ,although it sounds paradoxical1 yet there is a celibacy that is distinctly erotic4 ,in reading of some of the experiences in the lives of the saints1 the normal1 healthy person feels an aversion similar to that which he experiences in viewing the effects of physical disease2 and yet we must note in this abnormal attitude of the ,church toward the sex-relation1 the effect of nature's attempt at equilibrium2 a revulsion from the effect of the centuries preceding4 ,some of the contributing causes of this revulsion were3 celibacy1 except within the ,church1 forbidden by the ,roman ,senate2 the fact that women had no choice in marriage2 the devastating wars which took the best of physical manhood2 and the cheapness of women1 every man of wealth having as many slave women as he could house and feed2 the orgies where women1 both bound and free1 were openly debauched2 all these evidences of the utter degradation to which the pure and beautiful function of sex had sunk1 called for a revulsion2 and it came in the idea of asceticism--an instance where the remedy was worse than the disease4 ,the mental attitude that resulted in asceticism was not one in which the sex function was lifted from the mire of licentiousness in which it lay2 rather it was abandoned altogether as something vile and unclean2 and that too1 unhappily1 by those who should have known better4 ,the ,roman ,church1 in full accord with the type of ,roman mind which fostered it1 still harbored the perverted idea that women were inferior4 ,and it is from the ,roman ,church of today rather more than from any other of the phases of ,christian ,orthodoxy1 that we note a militant opposition to woman suffrage1 and all the other avenues of woman's claim to free expression4 ,while retaining all the old ,roman's disrespect for woman1 the ,church instituted and fostered celibacy1 as a way out of the old profiligacy1 but as though by a sort of spiritual irony1 the ,church has retained1 from its pagan ancestors1 the sex-worshippers1 the idol of the ,holy ,virgin4 ,and despite the bombardments of criticism from without and the inculcation of superstitious ignorance from within1 the pure-hearted children of the ,church have always gone to the ,holy ,mother for their comfort2 and thus the eternal fires of ,truth have smouldered beneath the ashes of perverted mysticism throughout the ,dark ,ages that are gone and the scarcely lighter ,dawn that is here4 ,those who have eyes to see1 realize that the one worth-while thing which the old1 nearly-blind ,church has been unwittingly doing all the time1 has been to hold to this central truth of all ,life--religious1 social1 national1 and domestic--the truth that it is only by exalting the maternal function of human life1 that we can hope to reach the saviour of mankind4 ,and1 lest there be still some misconception of what we consider to be the true saviour of mankind1 we will again state1 even as the ,church itself states it1 the babe of ,bethlehem--the pure ,love between one man and one woman2 the twain made one1 which is the only saviour that ever was or ever will be--the pure ,christ-child that is born of conterpartal union4 ,let those who would cling to the idea of an individual man1 born in a city called ,bethlehem as the saviour of the world1 remember that even so1 the city derived its name from the word1 bethel1 meaning a pure white stone1 rounded at the top1 in exact imitation of the omphalos of ,apollo1 in the temple of ,delphi4 ,and when the shock of his discovery has somewhat subsided1 and his prejudices have been swallowed up in a desire for the whole ,truth1 let him remember also that this central idea has been the foundation of all religious rites since time began2 and instead of feeling that the whole fabric of ,christianity has been rent by the light of scientific discovery1 he will see that it has merely been revealed1 and the revelation will prove to him that ,truth is the most beautiful1 the most spiritual and the most satisfying thing in life1 because the ,truth is that ,perfect ,love is the only passport to immortal bliss4 ,no one can withhold ,heaven from us1 if we have this perfect love4 ,thus the essentials of ,christianity are the essentials of every other religious system2 and the essentials are3 ,love is the ,one true and only ,god2 and ,sex is the form in which this ,bi-une ,god appears2 according to our individual and collective reverence for this bi-une ,god1 will be our spiritual development4 ,we do not reverence sex when we cheapen it by dissipation2 or when we abandon it as unclean and unworthy and unholy2 both attitudes are abnormal1 and unbalanced4 ,spiritual consciousness aims at equilibrium4 ,the perfectly balanced person is equally developed on all planes2 the perfectly balanced individual1 in sufficient numbers1 will produce a balanced and therefore a healthy social organization2 and a balanced and healthy-minded race of beings will result in a balanced sphere2 this fact is foreshadowed by the postulate which ,science is now considering1 to wit3 the earth's axis may be straightened1 and1 if so1 a uniform temperature will prevail on this globe4 ,returning to a consideration of the subjects which head this chapter1 we find it necessary to clear the ground a little1 in regard to a definition of words4 ,the word continence should apply to the act of self-restraint in the matter of the emotions1 desires1 and passions1 whether of the sex-passion or the passion of anger1 avarice1 or gluttony4 ,the word has come to mean1 in many cases1 the total abstinence from the sex-relation1 because of the general idea which has prevailed1 that any indulgence of sex-love was a confession of weakness4 ,in fact1 our modern ideas regarding this subject are so chaotic and so manifestly paradoxical that they are absurd4 ,on the one hand we have a tradition that motherhood is a beautiful and holy thing2 on the other1 we regard the sex-relation1 per se1 as an indecent thing1 or at best as a weakness of the flesh4 ,we have the obvious demonstration that creation is possible only because of the conjunction of the two sexes1 and yet we are taught that sex-love is something which is permitted to us in this lower state of our being1 and denied in heaven1 and at the same time we are told that ,god creates everything1 and ,god dwells in ,heaven1 where there is no such polluting sin as sex-love4 ,we certainly do need balance4 ,the word chastity conveys to the mind 7and this is not confined to the undeveloped person1 but is general7 the idea of a woman who is devoid of the sex-impulse4 ,chastity1 like the word virtue1 suggests to our minds no relationship to the character1 or inner nature of a person2 it has come to be applied to the physical anatomy1 and we are not surprised when we realize that the word is seldom used in connection with the male4 ,it is strictly a female attribute--nay1 we may almost say1 organ4 ,if a woman1 for any reason whatsoever1 whether through lack of opportunity2 through hereditary causes2 or through repression1 or--which occurs more frequently--as a commercial expediency1 believing that her person will thus bring more in the matrimonial market--if1 as we say1 for any reason1 however sordid1 a woman escapes bodily sex-contact1 she is called chaste and her virtue is extolled4 ,this is1 of course1 not a far cry from the ancient days when a bridegroom had the right to turn the bride away from his door1 should the evidence of her virginity be lacking2 whereupon the poor creature was stoned to death1 a sacrifice on the altar of ,egoism1 the arch-enemy of both sexes4 ,and although it seems a long1 long time from that day to this1 we may look back over the ,ages1 and see the thread unbroken1 connecting the ,past with the ,present2 uniting the women of those days with their sisters of today2 and we find the answer to this far-off outrage upon the spiritual function of sex1 in the horrors of our white slavery1 among which horrors1 the greatest is not alone the barter and sale of that which should be recognized as sacred1 but the perversions1 the deceptions and the subterfuges which it entails4 ,one instance1 related by a trained nurse who had been in attendance upon a girl sixteen years of age1 will suffice to illustrate this4 ,the girl1 encouraged by her mother1 related with amusement and satisfaction1 how the child had sold her virtue on seven different occasions1 procuring for the same1 proven by the requisite evidences1 sums which were considered quite exorbitant in view of the fact that the market was always over-crowded with similar sales4 ,thus1 the law of supply and demand is ever preserved2 and human beings keep right on selling their royal birthright for a mess of pottage2 inviting disease1 decay and death when they might have glorious1 blissful life4 ,mankind has failed to look for virtue in the interior nature2 failed to look for beauty of soul1 being ever ready to pay the highest price for the counterfeit1 and the result is that a practice of mutual deception has been the rule4 ,some years ago1 ,thomas ,hardy wrote a story about a girl in the wretched environment of middle-class ,england4 ,he called it the story of a pure woman1 and his appraisal of the heroine as a pure woman brought out a storm of reproach and horrified criticism1 particularly from the clergy1 because it chanced that this poor girl had given birth to a child out of wedlock2 and notwithstanding that the author made it quite clear that she had been the victim of circumstances and coercion1 the act itself condemned her to unchastity in the eyes of the clerical critics4 ,when we contemplate the attitude which religious systems have ever held toward women1 we are amazed that the ,church has been upheld almost wholly by the female sex4 ,the fact is accountable on one hypothesis only3 that of the spiritual insight1 which recognized in the story of the ,holy ,mother and the ,child the ,one primordial1 and indestructible key to salvation--the birth of the god-man through the recognition of the purity and joy of the perfect sex-union4 ,but1 notwithstanding the medieval trend of religious mysticism 7there is a religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism7 which seemed to regard all human love as a weakness1 when not actually sinful as in sex-love1 it is evident that sexual love1 in its emotional1 or psychic aspect1 was at the root of the ecstacies which are so ardently described in ecclesiastical history as evidences of saintliness4 ,if1 instead of indignantly denying this fact1 as though it were profane criticism of the saints1 defenders of the ,theological view of mysticism would calmly consider and accept the evidence1 they would be able to infuse into the creeds1 the vitality which they so lack4 ,the lives of the saints1 in so far as they relate to trance and ecstatic visions1 must1 sooner or later meet one of two fates4 ,either they will be analyzed and presented1 with the reverence that is due the subject1 as proofs of the spiritual function of sex-love2 or they must be relegated to the position to which the ,church assigns all sexual desire--that of eroticism and innate and ineradicable depravity4 ,viewed in the light in which ,theology has held the sex relation1 the paroxysms which are ascribed to ,st4 ,catherine of ,sienna1 and to the ,holy ,mechthild and other saints1 have in them something decidedly obnoxious2 while1 if we take the premise that these saints1 by virtue of prayer1 aspiration1 and intended sacrifice of the mortal self to an ideal1 transmuted their sex-nature from the physical to the spiritual1 then indeed1 we have an approach to a mighty truth1 which is at once both explanatory and satisfying4 ,st4 ,catherine is referred to as the mystic bride2 and ,jesus ,christ1 to whom she was espoused 7using the terminology which the ,church prefers1 as suggesting a less physical union than the word married7 was the bride-groom2 more than that2 she declared that she was married with a ring1 set with precious stones2 just like any other betrothal or wedding ring4 ,always in these recitals we find the phraseology which lovers employ when exalting the loved one above the world4 ,the term ,my ,beloved is singularly universal1 and seems to spring involuntarily to the lips of the lover when his love is of the quality that reverences2 adores2 and exalts its object4 ,and it is equally foreign to the lips of the dilettante lover4 ,to their credit be it said1 the love which the saints developed within themselves1 by dint of their attempts to exalt celibacy in an age of sexual profligacy1 is none the less human love2 it is human love spiritualized1 exalted1 and transmuted from the plane of the animal to that of the soul4 ,this transmutation is in fact responsible for the intensity1 the absorbing power of the love which thrilled them into such an ecstacy that in most instances they became lost in the bliss of the emotions excited by the inward flow of their sex nature1 and were totally unfitted to take part in the outer1 or so-called practical life4 ,such1 for example1 was ,saint ,teresa1 of whom ,william ,james1 in his ,varieties of ,religious ,experience1 says3 ,her idea of religion seems to have been that of an endless amatory flirtation--if one may say so without irreverence--between the devotee and the ,deity4 ,although this estimate of ,st4 ,theresa's saintliness will doubtless be shocking to the people who think they are pious1 we take an optimistic view of it1 and suggest that the saint's idea of religion is far more satisfying than that usually presented as saintliness4 ,st4 ,theresa1 like most of the female saints1 became the bride of ,christ--the man ,jesus1 the ,christ1 let it be remembered4 ,st4 ,gertrude1 a ,benedictine nun of the ,thirteenth ,century1 gave herself up so wholly to this inward contemplation2 to fasting1 prayer1 and withdrawal from the outer to the inner life1 that she lived as the bride of ,god1 in such daily contact with ,him as would fitly describe any love-mated honeymoon of today4 ,according to her testimony ,god indulged in such language and caresses1 and intimacies1 kisses and compliments as would satisfy any woman married to her ideal lover4 ,in the case of ,st4 ,louis of ,gonzaga1 it is significant that he selected the ,virgin ,mary as the object of his adoration and consecrated to her1 his own virginity2 and we read how burning with love1 he made his vow of perpetual chastity4 ,in consequence of this vow1 he was never tempted as was ,st4 ,anthony1 by visions of beautiful women4 ,here again we have the love of the male for the female4 ,if it were not so1 ,st4 ,louis may well have chosen ,jesus1 or ,joseph1 or ,john1 as the object of his devotional contemplation2 and ,st4 ,catherine1 and ,theresa1 and ,mechthild might have paid their homage to the ,virgin ,mary4 ,jeanne of the ,cross held constant converse with her guardian angel1 who by the way was a beautiful youth1 more brilliant than the sun and with a crown of glory on his head4 ,st4 ,frances was inseparable from her angel1 whom she loved with extravagant and blissful devotion1 and whom she also described as a young man of such radiant beauty and purity that he melted her soul4 ,the truth is that1 in seeking to escape from the sin of human love1 as seen in the world1 in the union of the sexes1 they touched the very main-spring of their sex-nature1 intensifying to a degree unknown to the merely sense-conscious person1 the ecstatic bliss of spiritual sex-union4 ,naturally the question will arise as to whether these saints really came into contact with their spiritual mates in these paroxysms of holy fervor1 and if so1 why did the vision of the ,christ so frequently appear to them and not alone the vision of some other being8 ,the answer is found in the fact that spiritual experiences must be interpreted through the channel of the outer mind1 which in these instances was obsessed by the thought implanted by ,medieval ,theology1 that human love is sinful4 ,it may be questioned whether1 even though the visions did relate to some person other than the members of the ,holy ,family1 the fact would have been admitted since it would have been attributed to unworthiness on the part of the saint4 ,they were practically compelled to include ,god and ,christ in their ecstacies to prove their respectability4 ,one phrase1 commonly employed to describe the kind of love which flooded the soul in these saintly ecstacies1 is particularly applicable to the effects of spiritual sex-union1 as described by those who have experienced counterpartal union1 and which ,swedenborg so constantly emphasizes in his recital of conjugal delights4 ,this phrase is melting love4 ,it is a feeling of melting or merging into the other's being1 until there seems to be but one person1 formed by the two souls4 ,in fact1 it is union2 whereas the lesser1 or we may say the lower1 phase1 of the sex-relation is at best but contact4 ,if this view of the trances and ecstacies described in the lives of the saints1 be repulsive to our readers1 we can only say that we are sorry for our readers4 ,they have imbibed the spirit of the ,dark ,ages1 which regarded human love as sinful1 overlooking the fact that all we may know of the love of ,god1 is by analogous comparison to what we know of human love4 ,if human love be sinful1 by logical deduction we would inevitably arrive at the conclusion that the universe is all sinful4 ,in which event1 the very word itself would have lost its significance4 ,the objectionable part of the orthodox view of the effects of saintliness lies in the realization that neither the saints themselves1 nor the ,church which perpetuates their recitals1 had any conception of the real situation1 so evident to the enlightened and unprejudiced reader4 ,and if this view of saintly ecstacies1 postulating the transmutation of sex-force into spiritual channels1 be objectionable1 what can be said of the only other view which is possible in the light of the evidence submitted8 ,our ideas of what constitutes chastity need revising1 else we must needs decide that chastity is more a vice than a virtue4 ,for example1 consider the character of a mother of the self-sacrificing1 noble type1 devoting her life to the welfare of the human family2 interesting herself in all the problems that affect the generations to come2 patient2 sweet and wise4 ,compare her with an unmarried girl whose body is immune from contact with one of the opposite sex1 but whose mind is bent upon self1 and self-adornment2 upon the necessity of capturing a wealthy husband1 as a means of this self-gratification1 without regard to any sentiment or even common affection4 ,who is the more chaste8 ,coventry ,patmore says3 ,virgins are they before the ,lord1 ,whose souls are pure4 ,the vestal fire ,is not1 as some mis-read the ,word1 ,by ,marriage quenched1 but burns the higher4 ,if purity of soul were synonymous with celibacy1 the entire constantly-copulating cosmos would have long since been demolished2 but despite the mistaken attitude of religious systems toward the divine function of sex1 ,humanity is reaching a higher and purer conception of love4 ,as we approach a higher type of civilization1 the broader1 deeper1 and more intense becomes our capacity to love4 ,the more spiritual we become1 the more vital is our love-nature1 and our love-nature is grounded in sex4 ,let us not imagine that spiritual love is less sexual than is physical love4 ,spiritual love is physical love1 plus all the other phases of love4 ,the real objection to sex love on the physical plane is not based upon its strength1 but upon its weakness4 ,if it be nothing deeper than an attraction of chemical affinities generated by physical activities1 it has no reservoir from which to draw its supply4 ,it is like the electrical wire that is short circuited1 it expends itself in one spasmodic combustion4 ,true spirituality is attained by a process of addition4 ,the common and erroneous idea of spiritual attainment involves a process of subtraction4 ,we need go no further than to review the processes in the external world of today to understand this fact of the inclusiveness of the spiritual life1 in contradistinction to the generally accepted idea of exclusiveness which is attached to a contemplation of the so-called spiritual4 ,all our activities are now carried on upon a gigantic scale4 ,where formerly a little stream supplied the water to the mill1 we now harness the invisible and apparently inexhaustible forces of electricity2 where formerly commerce was a system of bartering between two single individuals1 it is now a huge network involving millions of persons4 ,everything teaches us the lesson of inclusiveness1 as we approach a more spiritualized ideal of life4 ,we are uniting2 merging2 drawing within4 ,the ,centripetal force of the planet itself1 corresponding to the female pole of the magnet1 is today the active principle in external life4 ,the machinist knows this when he is compelled to avoid the suction currents of electrical power4 ,cosmic reaction has set in1 and union between complementaries is the result4 ,applying this truth to individual human life1 and we have what8 ,counterpartal ,sex-union4 ,,chapter ,,vii ,,soul-,,union3 ,,where ,,will ,,it ,,lead8 ,we have heard much in recent years of affinities1 and soul-mates1 and we are likely to hear much more in the future4 ,so much that is unsavory and sensational is associated with these two words1 that we almost hesitate to employ them2 but that is always the way with ,fear4 ,it builds a high wall between us and ,truth1 and dares us to scale it4 ,we accept the challenge4 ,to begin with1 the words are not synonymous1 although frequently used as such4 ,affinities are based upon mutual interests2 mutual tastes and appetites2 mutual stages of development2 but these stages of development may be sense-conscious only2 or they may be of a highly intellectual order4 ,whatever their basis of mutuality1 they tend to attract upon that plane4 ,whenever this affinity1 established by virtue of mutual tastes1 is on the sense-plane only--that is1 when it is because two persons both like their roast-beef rare2 or their whiskey diluted2 or their wine iced--we are apt to find the result in a mistaken idea of sexual affinity1 which wears itself out for the reasons already stated1 because there is no reservoir from which to draw4 ,the chemistry of the body changes with time and emotional experiences4 ,affinity of bodily contact only1 resulting from a congeniality of sense-appetites1 is therefore necessarily short lived4 ,affinity of intellect is much more lasting1 because it approaches a state higher in the ascent to the spiritual center of the cosmos4 ,thought is the parent of speech1 or of any external appeal to the senses4 ,back of all objectivity is the thought that molded it2 but back of thought is desire2 and back of desire is design--cosmic design we may say--expressing itself discretively2 in individuals4 ,affinities that are based upon intellectual similarities are of a finer nature and generally more lasting than those of sense-conscious attraction only2 and it is no uncommon thing to find two persons of the opposite sex enjoying a protracted friendship or preference for each others' society which deceives the average on-looker into thinking that there is also sexual affinity1 when as a matter of fact there may never have been any thought of such relationship4 ,a few brilliant women in former times1 notably ,madame de ,stael1 or ,margaret ,fuller1 have enjoyed the attentions and apparent devotion of men for many years without having entered into any more intimate relationship with them4 ,but these examples have been few in the past1 and have been much commented upon4 ,in the present1 such desirable companionship is becoming much more common and a woman may now be seen twice with the same man without having the neighbors speculating as to a suitable name for the baby4 ,more and more1 as women become freed from the necessity to settle themselves in marriage1 we find evidences of this intellectual affinity between the sexes2 and more and more1 as we get away from the old thought that a man has but one desire1 that of sexual intercourse1 and a woman but one motive1 that of enslaving man through his sexual appetite1 we will find that men and women will meet on the plane of intellectual affinity and not be driven by gossip of outsiders1 or by the force of the race-thought in their own minds1 into seeking to spoil such companionship by a matrimonial alliance1 when nature did not intend it to be so4 ,a number of years ago1 when even the little freedom which human beings now accord each other in this matter was denied the struggling sexes1 a certain man and woman1 who were intellectual companions1 married4 ,he was a writer2 she was a physician2 which is evidence in itself of a degree of intellectual power not so common at that time as now2 she was moreover an unusual woman in many ways4 ,they parted after a month of married life and to the horror and scandal of the entire community1 remained friends4 ,the scandal reached the climax of disapproval and shocked morality when the man1 married again1 continued his friendship with his former wife and later1 when a baby came to the couple1 the ex-wife and mutual friend was the attending physician4 ,the old idea of matrimony held that the husband and wife must be yoked together1 so that neither one could exercise any individual predilection or choice of friends1 or recreation1 or taste or desire4 ,and this is still the average idea of a successful marriage4 ,it is an idea that is not confined to the ignorant1 and the narrow-minded4 ,it is the attitude of society at large1 though upon what argument such an idea is based1 must be left to the perverted imagination4 ,presumably it is because of that colossal egotism which insists upon personal ownership4 ,one would expect this tendency to own each other to have died with the death of the institution of slavery1 but it still exists1 and as we have already observed1 among those who sit in the seats of the mighty as well as among the ignorant4 ,a couple who had married on the ground of intellectual affinity lived together most congenially for a period of twelve years1 although they agreed that sexual affinity was lacking in their relationship4 ,they agreed that there was another phase of mating1 and that should either come to the point where freedom was desirable1 it would be given without resentment or anger4 ,they both decided1 that perfect candor and honesty with each other on this score was a higher type of civilization than that which prevails where mutual deceit is the rule4 ,true to their compact1 when the wife met the one whom she believed to be the one man who answered the call of her soul1 the husband gave her up1 retaining her friendship1 and the memory of an intellectual companionship unmarred by the horrors of dispute and deceit and disruption4 ,but he incurred the severest criticism from ,society1 which is as yet composed of the animal-man1 rather than the man-god1 and the animal-man 7meaning woman as well7 knows no higher code of morality than that which he vaingloriously terms defense of his honor4 ,by exactly what process of reasoning a man can imagine his honor defended or appeased by shooting his rival1 is1 we admit1 beyond our power to fathom4 ,but such is the basis of the unwritten law1 in which civilized man vents his remaining savagery4 ,affinity-marriages1 then1 are not synonymous with soul-mating4 ,and while we contend that affinity marriages1 based upon at least some degree of mutuality1 are a step higher in social development than were the alliances of the old regime1 where a man's social or domestic exigencies required a wife or a housekeeper1 or both-in-one2 where woman must marry whomsoever asked her1 or be pitied and scorned as an old maid1 still affinity-marriages are not the final union1 and must go through an evolutionary phase4 ,affinity-marriages are eligible to disruption4 ,happily1 we trust1 these disruptions will in the course of time be devoid of hatred and mutual recriminations and abuse4 ,certainly they will be1 as they evolve from the plane of sense-consciousness to that of intellectual affinities4 ,moreover1 they stand a much better chance of permanency than has maintained during the past1 before the word affinity was heard so frequently as it is now4 ,the general impression is abroad in the land1 that it is only since women became economically independent that disruption of the marriage bonds has become so general4 ,it is true that divorces are much more frequent since women have become1 to a great extent1 economically independent2 but that only means that the parties to the marriage have been set free4 ,the disruptions are not more1 it is only the evidences4 ,and it is at the evidence of marital unhappiness that all the criticism is directed4 ,if the criticism were directed against the condition that divorce tells us of1 instead of against the divorce itself1 the first aid to the injured would be to establish a social order wherein an equal moral standard for both sexes should be the rule1 and where a mother is recognized1 and respected and honored in the name of motherhood1 whether she is a wife or not4 ,this suggestion will of course be met with a shocked gasp from many4 ,the cry that ,society will be disorganized and our moral code become chaotic will go up from the self-constituted keepers of public morality4 ,but is our morality so tender that it needs protection8 ,are our social conditions so ideal that they cannot be improved8 ,if they are1 then nothing can besmirch them4 ,if they are not1 they must first be demolished1 before they are rebuilt4 ,the limited mortal mind is always terribly afraid of a change4 ,not one single improvement has ever been suggested1 from mechanics to morals1 that has not been met with that ever-ready fear-thought1 that the whole universe is going to the eternal bow-wows1 if the slightest change in established institutions is made4 ,and despite it all1 we go on year after year1 improving4 ,self-improvement is the watch-word of the ,century4 ,if self-improvement1 then social improvement4 ,mankind is still in the making1 as far as external conditions are concerned4 ,the complaint goes up from every side1 that women refuse motherhood4 ,girls who have been carefully reared1 brought up in the most orthodox movement1 are heard to openly1 unashamed1 announce their intention of finding a rich husband and not1 emphatically1 not having any children4 ,may this not be ,nature's revenge upon our inhuman treatment of girls who become mothers without first becoming wives8 ,we are wont to refer to unmarried mothers as unfortunates and ruined4 ,but in what does the misfortune consist1 and wherein are they ruined8 ,is a woman ever unfortunate if she gives birth to a child because she has loved1 and because she loves the child8 ,is she ruined in any way except that she becomes the target for our inhumanity2 our well-nigh unforgivable stupidity8 ,the world1 and especially women1 owe a debt of gratitude to a certain famous woman who1 by her force of character2 her defiant self-respect in the face of social criticism1 because she had a child and no husband1 has wrung from the unwilling public the highest place accorded any actress in this or any previous age4 ,this artist's well-known reply to an openly expressed criticism of her is worthy of perpetuation4 ,ah1 so6 she said1 true ,i have a son and no husband1 but you women have husbands and lovers1 and no children6 ,we would not have it understood that we commend this woman's example1 and criticise that of the woman to whom she referred4 ,we do not regard child-bearing as the end and aim of woman's mission4 ,it has been said that the first duty of ,man is to perpetuate the species1 but observation should convince us that in all too many instances the first duty of the individual would be to refrain from such a crime against posterity4 ,we neither criticise nor advise the adoption of the position of a husbandless mother2 nor that of the women who are childless wives4 ,we endorse any woman's insistence upon her right to self-respect2 and we insist that a better civilization cannot come without permitting the greatest degree of personal liberty in matters pertaining to the sex-relation1 and1 above and beyond all1 without conceding to the unmarried mother the same respect that we accord to the married one1 when she is otherwise worthy of our respect4 ,it certainly takes courage for a defenseless woman to bear a fatherless child1 in a hypocritical world4 ,the normal woman does not live who would not rather be safely and happily married to the man whom her soul tells her exists somewhere in the universe1 than to be battling with the problem of existence1 alone4 ,when she is so married1 we need not fear that the marriage will be disrupted4 ,until she is so married1 no power on earth can1 and no power in ,heaven will1 prevent the disruptions1 although man's laws may temporarily obstruct the evidence of such disruption4 ,what we have already said will make it clear1 that our contention is that affinities are not necessarily soul-mates2 that1 in fact1 we may have many and various kinds of affinities1 but no one can possibly have more than one soul-mate4 ,mates are two entities composing a pair4 ,they are the two halves that make a whole4 ,unlike what we know of affinities1 they are not merely similar2 nor yet opposite1 so that they attract each other because of curiosity or dissimiliarity4 ,they belong to each other because together they complete a perfect balance4 ,each supplies in the exact proportion required for balance the qualities lacking in the other4 ,in the event of such union1 instinctive procreation will cease1 and re-generation will begin4 ,they will consciously beget souls1 instead of merely providing bodies for souls to manifest upon this external plane of consciousness4 ,bodily contact is not essential to this phase of sex-union1 because the real conjunction is between the interior natures2 and the interior nature exists independently of the physical organism4 ,already the race-thought is beginning to realize interiorly4 ,this is manifest in the daily press2 in music and drama2 and in all the avenues of the senses4 ,that intangible1 elusive but potential thing called character forms the gist of editorial advice4 ,everywhere we note a tendency to look below the appearance of things1 and to fathom the depths of psychological analysis4 ,for the first time in centuries the race-thought seeks the underlying cause for specific effects1 instead of1 as heretofore1 being satisfied to deal with effects only1 suppressing those that are unpleasant and extolling those that seem agreeable4 ,the scientist expresses it thus3 ,nature is giving up her secrets to man4 ,the metaphysician puts it this way3 ,the soul of man is unveiling1 and soon we shall know each other in ,truth4 ,the religionist has long looked for a time when1 as prophesied by ,st4 ,paul1 who was above all things a spiritually-conscious person1 we shall see each other face to face2 not as now through a glass1 darkly4 ,this tendency to get behind the scenes as it were1 to penetrate the crust of mere outward semblance1 and to reveal the interior nature1 may be seen even in the fashions of our clothes4 ,despite thunders of denunciation from the self-constituted keepers of our morals1 who are not yet free from the bondage of traditional ideas of virtue and respectability1 women have insisted upon freedom of the body in dress until at last the uncorseted1 short-skirted1 thinly-clad woman excites little adverse comment4 ,the fact has at last established itself that the female form has legs4 ,this fact was only half suspected before2 men have always wanted to see exactly what was beneath those long flowing skirts2 and woman has always known that she possessed at least one trump card1 in the game of enslaving man to become what modern slang has so aptly labeled her meal-ticket4 ,she could always keep him guessing as to whether or not she had legs2 and the average man1 be it known1 possesses a fund of curiosity far in excess of that which is proverbially ascribed to woman4 ,men have been known to pay the highest price1 even to donning the matrimonial yoke1 to satisfy their curiosity4 ,women have always known this1 and the worldly wise mother has besought her marriageable daughter to keep her skirts well over her ankles if she hoped to secure a man as a permanent banker6 ,it does sound crude expressed thus1 but this is the basis upon which at least nine-tenths of the respectable marriages of society are consummated4 ,and this is the standard which the short-sighted keepers of public morals would have us retain4 ,they would force women to act as though their bodies are vile4 ,they would keep the mind encumbered with the corpse of an idea of modesty1 from which the spirit has long since fled4 ,the spirit has fled from it because it was a false idea of modesty2 because it was founded upon the idea that woman was an instrument of the devil himself1 and that to look upon her naked form was in itself wicked1 and only permitted to poor man as a concession to his own innate defilement4 ,the good ,church at one time1 not so far distant1 refused to admit women to the communion table in the holy sacrament4 ,a fine chance has any sacrament of being holy1 with one half of it missing6 ,the old idea of womanly modesty consisted of blushing with shame and embarrassment if by chance her ankles became exposed to the interested and curious gaze of a male4 ,notwithstanding this ideal of modesty1 the designing and beguiling female managed to arrange just such a contretemps every time there was an eligible male within sight2 if discovered1 she either assumed a look of infantile innocence1 or she took the opportunity to coax a becoming blush4 ,to be sure1 this does not accurately describe all women of the good old days4 ,there was the other type4 ,nature manifests in extremes4 ,there was the type1 fitting ancestors to those women of to-day who are outraged and shocked at the present-day fashions1 which actually disclose the fact that women are anatomatically endowed with legs and hips1 quite in defiance of man's inherited predilection for making this discovery under conditions that would pamper to his satiating sex-appetite4 ,they1 poor creatures1 were dreadfully ashamed of being women1 and they did all that was possible to conceal the fact4 ,they1 doubtless1 would gladly have amputated their legs1 if the ministers had so decreed1 and they apologized to the world every time an unforseen circumstance uncovered a portion of these offensive legs4 ,in fact1 they denied the existence of said members1 and alluded to them tentatively and with modest hesitation1 as limbs4 ,but1 some will exclaim1 we cannot see any possible connection between a regenerated race1 and a fashion which permits the display of the female figure upon the public streets1 where men who are as yet un-regenerated1 and licentious1 may leer and pass vile remarks1 and suggest lustful thoughts4 ,few can see any connection between our so-called practical1 everyday life1 and the spiritual life4 ,they look upon the spiritual life as something remote2 something in the dim and ever and ever distant future4 ,the spiritual life is supposed to be so negative that we postpone living it1 as long as we possibly can2 and whereas the human family has prayed and prayed1 for ,lo6 these many ages3 ,thy kingdom come upon earth1 they apparently have not had the slightest idea that ,god would take them at their word4 ,they are like the old darky who called upon de ,lawd to strike him dead if he was not telling the truth1 when as a matter of fact he was lying roundly4 ,at that moment a bricklayer on the building above where ,rastus was standing1 dropped a brick1 which struck the old darkey on the head1 and he exclaimed ,what's de matter1 good ,lawd1 caint you'all take a joke8 ,the ,kingdom of ,god1 from all records1 whether orthodox or heterodox1 has been described as the abode of angels2 and angels have been pictured as nearly nude as our silly morality would permit4 ,no one has as yet suggested that we compel the angels to wear hoopskirts1 although ,september ,morn has been compelled1 by police regulation1 to don a sweater4 ,the spiritual life awaits our cognizance1 just behind the transparent veil of our limited mortal consciousness4 ,this is the message of the unveiling of the female form4 ,this is the time of woman's revealment of true modesty2 true ideals4 ,the ,female ,principle1 representing the spiritual element in nature1 hitherto shut in2 covered up2 hidden--is coming out4 ,men must learn to be able to look upon the female form without spasms of either lustful desires2 or contemptuous indifference4 ,there was a time when the presence of a female office-force in the business section of a city was the signal for unwarranted familiarity on the part of some of the male members of a corporation4 ,there was a time1 when women first invaded the ranks of the down-town business centers1 that a woman's appointment to a responsible position rested upon her claims to feminine attractiveness4 ,now1 the only question asked is1 ,is she efficient8 ,that which she is1 in her interior nature1 is the final test of her power4 ,when men have become inured to the knowledge1 so long concealed1 that women have legs and that there is no more seductiveness in them than in their faces1 the love of man for woman will undergo the same evolution that his estimate of her business efficiency has undergone4 ,he will judge her by what she is in her interior nature2 and his sexual desires1 now manifested distractedly in mere love of the female1 will become concentrated in love of the one woman to whom his soul turns in irresistible sex-attraction1 as unerringly as the needle turns to the pole to which it is magnetized4 ,is this fact so unmanifest8 ,does not everything point to it8 ,a few years ago1 a man and a woman could not pass a day together in mutual conversation1 and interest1 without encroachment upon the one emotion which they were supposed to hold in common--sexual attraction4 ,that was indeed the whole sum and substance of communication between the two sexes1 if we may except the rare instances which history has made much of1 because of their rarity--women of the ,french salons1 who have become famous for their wit and beauty1 in neither of which attributes did they outstrip the average self-supporting woman of today4 ,but custom has slowly1 but perceptibly1 established the possibility of a frank and non-sentimental companionship between the male and the female1 and the result is that both are much more clear as to the true character of their sentiments toward each other4 ,neither is blinded by the force of undifferentiated sex-attraction4 ,there must be some specific basis of mutual love2 hence we have the vogue of the affinity1 and by the term is instantly recognized a special force of attraction1 independent of undifferentiated sex alone4 ,it is known that there is at least an assumption of an interior attraction1 and we insist that affinity marriages1 however incomplete as yet1 are still superior in motive to that of mere marriage1 where it is a case of a male and a female1 united by propinquity2 family considerations2 commercial interests2 class association2 or what not4 ,affinities at least have the grace to presuppose a special sex-attraction4 ,they argue for the ultimate goal of special and permanent selection1 even if they fail to reach it4 ,that there will be many failures during the journey from the sense-conscious life1 to the soul-conscious life1 is a foregone conclusion4 ,the pathway of ,love has always been a thorny one1 but those who are on the high ground may look across into the rose-strewn garden1 and know that the little god is aiming his arrows at the interior nature of those whom he would unite4 ,he is not blind4 ,his sight is illumined and he sees that the soul can unite only with its mate4 ,true it is that the course of true love never did run smooth1 but let us hope that the time is coming when it will be less thorny4 ,there are no mismates in soul-union4 ,this truth is the secret of secrets of the ,hermetics4 ,it is the hidden wisdom of the initiates2 the alchemical mysteries of the ,ancients4 ,it is told to us in the fairy story of the ,sleeping ,princess--a story which is found in the folk-lore of every country of the globe4 ,it is the philosopher's stone1 which when found1 opens the door to all wisdoms4 ,there can be no mismates in soul-union4 ,neither can there be any sexual temptation1 or desire outside of this union1 when once found4 ,but never shall he faint or fall ,who lists to hear1 o'er every fate1 ,the sweeter and the higher call ,of his true mate4 ,i hear it wheresoe'er ,i rove2 ,she holds me safe from shame or sin2 ,the holy temple of her love ,i worship in4 ,a time when the twain shall be virtually1 one flesh and the outside as the inside is not a chimerical dream4 ,when the physical body is as much reverenced as is the spiritual2 when in fact1 the soul is revealed 7unveiled7 to our mortal consciousness2 when the mind has been freed from its load of prejudices and fears and doubts and belief in sin2 then we shall1 indeed1 truly see each other4 ,we do not see each other now1 unless perhaps we have developed that spiritual insight which is not blinded by appearances1 but which contacts the interior nature4 ,but the revealing1 the uncovering process has begun4 ,we have come to the time so long anticipated2 so earnestly promised1 when naked and unashamed we should re-enter the lost ,paradise4 ,well1 the women1 ,god bless them1 are as naked as the tender morality of our police officials will permit and as unashamed as it is possible to be with the handicap of a puritanical ancestry1 which was so evil-minded as to suspect ,god himself of sin when ,he formed the wicked body4 ,prudists may howl2 and legislators may legislate2 but the course of the ,cosmic ,law which would free us and bestow upon us ,peace and ,love and ,happiness without stint1 has never been stopped1 although it has been obstructed4 ,let us examine some points of the ,hidden ,wisdom1 in the light of this postulate1 and see if the conclusion is not warranted4 ,,chapter ,,viii ,,the ,,hidden ,,wisdom ,,revealed ,as we have previously observed1 there is what may be termed a religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism4 ,when viewed from the standpoint of the unprejudiced seeker1 who finds the truth that is in everything1 these two phases of mysticism are but photographs of the same subject taken from different points of view4 ,so1 too1 mysticism itself is1 in the final analysis1 nothing more than a long-distance view of science4 ,like the proverbial pot and kettle1 which we are told made much noise over calling each other black1 we find the scientist frequently disdains the mystic1 and the mystic may retaliate with equal disapproval of the scientist's position4 ,both are right1 each from his point of view4 ,each is looking at life from an opposite end of the same pole4 ,the scientist looks at the effect and the mystic at the cause4 ,in their final calculations they arrive at the same conclusion1 although they call it by different names4 ,the scientist says that everything proceeds from the one eternal energy4 ,the mystic perceives the spiritual co-existent with the external4 ,religious mysticism calls it ,god's word made manifest4 ,in reference to this definition of religious mysticism1 perhaps the phraseology used by ,william ,ralph ,inge1 in his ,christian ,mysticism1 is the best possible exposition of the position of the religious mystic1 if we may separate the two phases4 ,inge says3 ,religious mysticism may be defined as the attempt to realize the presence of the living ,god in the soul and in nature1 or more generally as the attempt to realize in thought and in feeling the imminence of the temporal in the eternal1 and the eternal in the temporal4 ,which is to say exactly what the scientific mystic says1 using other terminology2 and likewise what the physicist says or will ultimately say1 as his researches lead him into the finer and finer realms of discovery4 ,the scientific mystic1 like ,archimedes1 believes that in order to measure the purpose of external creation1 he must base his fulcrum somewhere beyond4 ,the scientific mystic1 therefore1 starts from the center of the ,circle2 from the crux of creation2 and he finds the ,x1 which is the hypothetical base of algebraical science--the unknown quantity of which sex is the symbol4 ,reasoning from effect back to cause and from cause forward to effect the mystic finds the equation complete1 perfect1 and likewise simple2 but it is simple only after we have deciphered it4 ,like the prize puzzles which are designed to exercise the inductive faculties1 mysticism1 when we have not the key1 is a most tantalizing enigma4 ,most practical persons dismiss it with the same superficial idea that they entertain in regard to puzzles1 saying it is only a puzzle--utterly ignoring the value of exercising the inductive reasoning faculties4 ,fairy stories are popularly supposed to be for the entertainment and amusement of children4 ,in reality they are the universal language of symbolism4 ,there is not a single fairy story which has not been handed down from generation to generation1 and1 what is more suggestive1 each story is told with astonishing lack of variation1 in every tongue and throughout every nation on this earth4 ,the stories involving the turning of men into animals and their final restoration to human form1 as a reward for some service1 some sacrifice1 typifies the two-fold nature of ,man4 ,he may live in his animal1 or exterior nature2 or he may develop his spiritual1 or interior nature2 through service2 through unselfish love4 ,our limited mortal consciousness is responsible for the tendency to personify everything1 instead of to realize the principles underlying all expression4 ,god and the ,devil have been the personification of the two phases of the principles of ,evolution1 from animal man to spiritual man4 ,romulus and ,remus have been presented as an actual and specific instance of twins2 likewise ,castor and ,pollux4 ,almost every child instinctively alludes to himself or herself1 as either the good little me or the bad little me4 ,o1 ,i didn't do that2 it was the bad little ,dorothy1 or ,harold1 as the case may be1 is the child-like way of expressing the innate consciousness that there is an interior and an exterior nature to all of us4 ,the union of gods with mortals1 which forms the gist of ,mythological tales1 symbolizes the god-like and the mortal qualities inherent in human nature4 ,mortals raised to the abode of the gods2 and the gods descended into mortal life2 symbolize the interchangeability of what we term matter and spirit--the power of transmutation of the lower into the higher life4 ,volumes could be written upon the subject1 and we will therefore try to confine our reviews to the symbolical traditions which deal most directly with the relations of the sexes4 ,in religious symbology1 the story of the ark stands as the supreme type of creation1 through the conjunction of the sexes4 ,the cherubim are1 when all is said and done1 nothing more1 nor yet less1 than spiritual children--the result of spiritual sex-union4 ,and in this later synoptic mysticism of the ark of the ,covenant1 we are informed that every gift within the tabernacle is willingly offered4 ,if we will but contemplate the volumes of wisdom contained within that sentence1 we cannot fail to conclude that every infinitesimal particle of coercion in whatsoever shape and form1 individual1 economic1 ethical1 or religious1 must be excluded from the regenerated1 perfect1 ideal sex-relation2 otherwise we do not attain it4 ,if the ,ancients seemed to take some of these folk-lore stories too literally1 we of this practical age1 do not take them literally enough4 ,we have imagined that sex1 and the sex function1 began and ended in the physical4 ,this view is excusable in the case of the materialist1 if there really be such a person but it is obviously a stupid view for the theologian1 who regards this life as the door to spiritual life4 ,since sex is the cause and the result of what we know of creation2 since it is the foundation of all the qualities that we know as spiritual laws2 friendship2 unselfishness2 fidelity2 paternal solicitude--it is absolutely certain that the most beautiful things we know here must have a correspondence in the life hereafter4 ,of these beautiful things in life1 babies come first2 with birds and flowers and music as fitting accessories4 ,but to return to the ark of the covenant4 ,the perpetual flame on the altar 7the center7 is the undying ,flame of spiritual love--and by that we mean sex-love1 let it be understood4 ,if we seem to repeat this too frequently it is because of the almost general habit of the race to apologize for sex-love4 ,the erroneous idea obtains1 that spiritual love is sexless4 ,all too frequently we come across the phrase1 with a love that has in it nothing of human love1 the writer evidently anxious to convey the impression of tremendous spirituality and the consequent elimination of the sex function4 ,and so we emphasize once more1 and we may do so again1 the assurance that the symbol of the never-dying flame upon the altar is typical of the never-dying spirit of sex-love4 ,spirit is ever symbolized by flame1 as in the flaming sword of the archangel4 ,the ,deity upon the seat of the altar symbolizes the bi-une ,sex-principle of creation4 ,the reason that the ,jewish people have claimed that they were ,god's chosen people is because1 in their symbolism of the ark of the ,covenant1 all ,israel was grouped under the tabernacle4 ,the formation of the tabernacle proves that it typifies the mother's womb4 ,the tabernacle was guarded by the priests who were sworn to purity2 thus they symbolized the esoteric truth that the pure spiritual sex-union bestows immortal god-hood4 ,let us take another story1 that of the life-token4 ,this is best told in the story of the ,holy ,grail1 although it is found in all the fairy-books of all nations1 in the language and form befitting the race to which it belongs4 ,in the original1 that is in the earliest recitals of this life-token story1 we find that the thing left behind1 as a center 7which is always guarded and protected in various ways71 was a tree4 ,here1 we have the phallic symbol as the life-token4 ,but in the story of the ,holy ,grail1 the cup is the life token to be guarded2 it is the sacred symbol of the quest and it is of a design resembling the red rose of the ,templars4 ,this time it is the yoni--literally the chalice of the holy communion2 the centre of the radiant circle1 which is the answer to all the problems within the radius4 ,it is the search for1 and the finding of1 the balance in counterpartal union4 ,it is the ,x of ,being1 and only the purest and the noblest of the ,knights of the ,round ,table essay the difficult quest4 ,the mound of ,venus is another name for the ,round ,table4 ,again is emphasized the necessity for purity1 and this purity1 although including all the spiritual qualities3 fidelity2 bravery2 self-sacrifice2 humanity2 love of truth2 culminates in sexual purity4 ,blessed are the pure in heart 7the pulse of the soul7 for they shall see ,god4 ,we revise this latter part1 and we say for they shall be gods4 ,let us consider the story of the sleeping ,princess4 ,she is depicted as a princess1 first of all1 because she is the daughter of a king2 a king is an earthly ruler1 or exalted person4 ,esoterically1 she is the daughter of the exalted ,god1 and she is the soul4 ,sometimes this story is told in the male gender1 but everywhere the essential points are the same4 ,wagner1 who is known as a ,mystic1 has illustrated the story in ,brunhilde and ,siegfried4 ,brunhilde is an immortal--a goddess1 who renounces her immortality to become a woman4 ,she sleeps on the top of a high mountain and she is surrounded by a circle of flame2 and here she sleeps1 despite all efforts to arouse her1 until awakened by the touch of ,siegfried--the one human being in all the universe who could awaken the sleeping princess4 ,the high mountain symbolizes the highest love of which we are capable4 ,to reach the soul of the exalted woman1 typified in the fairy-story by the word princess1 and later1 by ,wagner1 as the goddess1 man must be her mate4 ,no other can enter the womb of her soul1 though many may effect an entrance to the outer court4 ,this truth1 as absolute as life itself1 solves all the problems of the mystery of love and its joys and sorrows4 ,no soul can wholly1 unreservedly love the wrong one4 ,though we may love and die of the pain of unrequited loving1 yet love is its own self-justification1 and its own reward4 ,the pathway of love leads up the mountain top1 but no one who reaches the summit shall fail to find that for which he seeks4 ,the soul of man1 and of woman1 has been playing a game of blind-man's bluff--a fitting name for the game it is1 too4 ,unable to see anything but the exterior nature1 and longing for success in the search1 we have frantically grabbed here and there1 and appropriated that which we grabbed1 with a self-complacency and an egotism of which little ,jack ,horner would be ashamed4 ,in the symbolical rites and ceremonies of secret orders1 such as the ,ancient ,alchemists2 the ,hermetics2 the ,rosicrusians2 and in modern times1 the ,free ,masons1 we have this story of the search for the ultimate balance of soul union1 told in language veiled unless we are fit to know2 but openly enough if we are fit4 ,and in all these orders 7alleged guardians of the hidden wisdom7 we have varying degrees of initiation2 and in each degree the initiate must undergo certain trials to prove his fearlessness2 his fidelity2 his fitness1 in other words1 for the final revealment of all1 which is the initiation into the holy of holies2 the secret chamber and the degree of mastership4 ,in the order of ,masonry1 the highest degree is that of the ,templar4 ,the symbol of the ,templars is the red rose on the cross1 together with the star and the crescent4 ,the star preserves the esotericism of its nomenclature1 in whatever sphere it is used1 namely1 the power of radiating light4 ,it stands for the radiant center4 ,the ,knights ,templar sought the radiant center to complete their half circle1 and when they should have found1 they were to become radiant with the light of spiritual power4 ,that they originally at least1 understood the way of this initiation1 is evident by the symbol of the rose and the cross--the combined phallus and yoni4 ,this fact is the underlying cause of the open and hereditary enmity of the ,church of ,rome for the modern order of ,freemasons4 ,the ,church sought to specialize in the persons of the ,virgin ,mary and her ,son the eternal principles of the way of the cross4 ,the temporal power of the ,church could be built up only by offering a complete system of salvation within the church itself4 ,at the same time1 the utter degradation of ,sex1 which had reached its depths under ,roman civilization1 called for as complete a reversion of the ideas of the ,ancient sex-worshippers1 as was consistent with the truth4 ,hence we find the extreme attitude of the ,church opposing all reference to sex as other than a part of the temptations of the ,evil ,one1 although they did retain the central truth typified by the ,holy ,virgin ,mother1 and the pure and perfect child4 ,the ,alchemists are supposed to have been imbued with the desire and1 to some extent1 at least1 were regarded as having the knowledge of how to make gold4 ,this gold-making was always accomplished by transmutation of the baser 7lower7 metals2 also1 the knowledge of how to accomplish this transmutation was possible only to one possessing the philosopher's stone4 ,if we will but remember that this philosopher's stone was of such a purity that it was almost impossible to find it2 that1 although several initiates claimed to possess the stone1 yet no visible proof of its existence1 or of gold resulting from lead or copper1 was ever offered2 and again if we will realize the fine distinction between the words found and discovered1 and take note that the word found is used almost invariably in connection with those who claimed to possess the stone1 we will arrive at the obvious conclusion that the secret of the ,alchemists was of an interior nature4 ,we discover outside of ourselves2 we find within4 ,above all1 the stone of great purity is the same that was raised at ,babylon1 supplanting the yoni1 which is to say1 the phallic symbol4 ,a philosopher is one who is wise in his interior nature2 his wisdom is of the esoteric quality2 we do not apply the term philosopher to either great educators1 or great financiers2 but to those whose activities are turned within4 ,the force which is manifested in the lower desires and passions1 when transmuted into spiritual channels1 opens the door to the golden light of illumination4 ,to become in reality a ,prince of the ,rosy ,cross bestows the exaltation and the power1 typified by that of an earthly prince--one who is exalted above the common man4 ,it is doubtful1 indeed1 if many of the ancient alchemists attained to this exalted degree in its true significance2 and we may readily believe that in an age in which wealth was so eagerly sought2 temporal power so much desired2 where deception was almost general2 that few lived the requisite purity of life to have accomplished the transmutation2 so today there is not one in a thousand of the many who have taken the degree of ,knight ,templar1 who recognizes its esoteric meaning4 ,but words have a trick of trapping us1 and we note that the word taken is invariably used in referring to modern ,masonic initiation4 ,verily they have taken the degree in its outward semblance4 ,they have not attained to its powers and privileges4 ,nor can they do so1 when they exclude the very gate of life from the order4 ,they may become masons 7builders of the temple71 but how can they become ,architects1 when they have not entered the tabernacle8 ,in a search for hidden meanings1 and for a secret tradition which is believed to be discoverable in ,kabalistic and ,hermetic literature1 we find1 if we possess true insight1 the one indubitable truth1 subordinating all the other symbols1 namely that of the supremacy1 the finality1 of the sublimated sex-union1 resulting in immortal mastership4 ,most modern interpreters of the archives of these ancient philosophers ignore the sexual significance of the arcana1 but a glimpse at the symbols will readily convince the initiated of their identity with sexual symbology4 ,for example in ,the ,history of ,transcendental ,magic1 by ,eliphas ,levi 7,abbe ,constant71 translated by ,arthur ,edward ,waite1 there is a plate used to illustrate the author's theory of ,alchemy1 which he concludes had two aspects1 one a physical and the other a moral one4 ,the sexual1 as well as the spiritual1 significance is ignored1 but this may be due to a disinclination to reveal the secret meaning of the alchemical symbols1 or it may be due to a materialistic tendency on the part of the compiler4 ,the plates1 however1 speak for themselves1 and in one1 ascribed to ,basil-,valentine1 an alchemist of the ,fifteenth century1 called ,the ,great ,hermetic ,arcanum1 the supreme and significant point of the illustration1 shows1 within the circle of ,experience1 through which the initiate travels in his search for the supreme god-head1 two doves1 holding in their beaks a crown4 ,the doves are perfectly matched4 ,the crown is balanced between them1 and the figure tops the circle1 under the heading regeneration4 ,in another plate1 which the author presents as the ,philosophic ,cross1 or ,plan of the ,third ,temple as prophesied by ,ezekiel1 we note again1 that the crown of the symbolical temple represents the red rose upon a cross1 within a radiant circle2 beneath this is a mother-eagle with outstretched wings1 shielding her little brood1 and on either side a tree and a flowering rosebush4 ,here is the symbol par excellence of generation4 ,the creative function of the male and the female in procreative conjunctivity4 ,the employment of the eagle as a religious symbol may be traced back to the civilization of the ,hittites4 ,only a few years ago1 two ,english archologists discovered a double-headed eagle in ,asia4 ,this was identical with those seen perpetuating religious rites and ceremonies of the sex-worshipers4 ,an eagle holding in its talons a serpent is an emblem well known today4 ,the origin of the adoption of the eagle as a religious1 though not necessarily a sacred1 symbol by prehistoric races1 may easily be imagined1 if we consider that the eagle is a bird of tremendous power2 and that it soars to unreachable heights2 and that it unquestionably was at some time seen to swoop down and carry off the serpent1 possibly even during their ceremonies of serpent-worship4 ,this idea becomes quite convincing when we also remember that the ceremonies of the serpent worshipers were carried on1 as far as feasible1 upon the mountain4 ,we allude to this stage of religious history as serpent worship1 but when we realize the points of analogy between the serpent and the phallus it is apparent that the serpent was only the nature-emblem of generation1 as manifested by the male principle4 ,the eagle and the dove is a phrase employed today to illustrate the law of antithesis1 and it is more than probable that the eagle represented the lower nature of the sex-relation1 in juxtaposition to the higher1 as the dove is emblematical of the spiritualized aspect of sex-love4 ,we have an analogy to that of the eagle and the dove in the ,biblical allusion to the last day2 when ,god will separate the 'sheep from the goats1' ,here again is a pertinent reference to the sex nature4 ,the goat is a symbol of sensuality and lust1 principally because he has perverted sexual proclivities1 notably that of coercion4 ,for this reason1 ,classical ,mythology employs the satyr1 a creature half man and half goat1 to typify the lowest form of the sex call in man4 ,on the other hand1 the lamb is the type of gentleness and affection1 and although in outward appearance the lamb and the goat are not dissimilar1 their natures are antithetical4 ,in estimating the ,god-idea of the ,ancients1 many mistakes have arisen by confounding religious symbols with the sacred symbols4 ,the race-mind was in its kindergarten stage1 and all ideals were instilled by means of pictures--a method which even the present hour finds most effective4 ,in modern theological symbolism we have ,god and the ,devil2 ,heaven and ,hell2 angels and demons1 to illustrate by antithesis4 ,they all belong to religious symbology1 but only those which teach spiritual ideals are denominated sacred4 ,riding the goat1 alleged to be the almost invariable initiatory prelude to fitness for membership in all secret orders1 means1 first of all1 that the would-be initiate must have control over his lower sexual desires4 ,if he cannot control the goat instincts within his nature1 he stands small chance of taking the higher degrees of spiritual regeneration1 through transmutation4 ,in another symbolic chart presenting the secrets of alchemical transmutation1 we find depicted ,the ,gate of ,eternal ,wisdom1 and we are further informed that this gate also brings knowledge of ,god4 ,the design of this cave-like aperture should betray its esoteric meaning4 ,it is situated under a mound1 upon which trees are planted4 ,the inscriptions on the corrugated walls of the cave1 are evidently designed to resemble seven lotus petals1 and are set forth as the seven mysteries4 ,inscriptions warning against profanation of this sacred gate1 and also promising eternal life and glory to the true initiate1 inspire the intrepid and deter the doubtful4 ,of these latter1 several are outside the entrance4 ,two are on the steps leading to the mouth of the cave but their attitude bespeaks doubt of their worthiness4 ,only one has penetrated to the radiant center of the aperture1 and there is room for but the one to enter the radiance of the solar gate1 which truly bestows a knowledge that is of ,god4 ,sex ,symbology is a subject that calls for a large volume devoted to this special side of it1 and we cannot hope to do more here than to touch a few of the almost universal proofs of the contention which is the purpose of this book1 namely1 that the supreme goal of life1 typified in every religion1 every philosophy1 and in the intuitional knowledge of the human mind1 is spiritual sex-union2 and that this can be accomplished only by counterparts2 the two halves of the bi-une god seed uniting in one immortal and complete pair--a man and a woman4 ,not1 we must again emphasize1 not in a hermaphroditic personality1 but in two perfect complementaries--mates2 not one but a pair4 ,in another exposition of ,hermetic secrets we discover the amazing statement that the alchemist is found working throughout1 in conjunction with a woman of the art2 they begin and they attain together4 ,this should be plain enough4 ,small chance1 indeed1 either would have of attaining alone4 ,but if this suggestion is not sufficient 7and either from design or from failure to comprehend the significance of it1 the translator seems to have missed the point71 we are introduced to a symbolical figure-study1 which shows a ,chalice in which the sun and the moon are personified 7the solar-man and the solar-woman71 with the god ,vulcan 7fire7 seated between them4 ,underneath this twain-one symbol a mortal man and a mortal woman are kneeling on either side of a cone-shaped and dome-tipped furnace1 which is lighted by a feeble candle4 ,but their attitude of prayer bespeaks the hope that this earthly flame will be transmuted by their prayers and aspirations2 by their reverential attitude toward the divine character of the function of mating1 into the immortal and unquenchable flame typified by the god of fire himself4 ,in another series of symbolical plates1 purporting to be the story of ,metallic transmutation1 but representing1 above all1 the story of manifestation from the ,divine to the human and again to the spiritualized and perfected ,adam and ,eve--7the solar man and the solar woman71 we again see that from generation to regeneration the work is accomplished by man and woman in conjunction4 ,these plates bear the hall-marks of ,christian appropriation of ,hermetic symbolism1 as peculiarly applicable to the ,church1 but the central doctrine of salvation through sex-regeneration1 is retained4 ,whether consciously or not1 is a question4 ,modern commentators and translators of alchemical literature insist that such documents are palpably related to the secret1 or secrets1 of metallic transmutation4 ,that they prove the search for1 if not the existence of1 a magic solvent that resolves the baser metals into gold2 but1 as far as known1 such a compound has not yet been discovered or1 if it ever was1 it has since been lost and evades all attempts at rediscovery4 ,but if we read these alchemical treatises as they relate to transmutation of sex-love from the pro-creative function to regeneration through spiritual or counterpartal union 7solar mates71 we have the key to every statement4 ,a writer tells of an instance which is recorded among alchemical archives1 where an unknown master testified to his possession of the mystery 7supposedly of metallic transmutation71 but it is added that he had not proceeded to the work because he had failed to meet an elect woman1 who was necessary thereto4 ,in other words1 applying this statement in its obviously logical sense1 the unknown master knew the esoteric meaning of the alchemical postulate1 but not having met his female complement1 he could not testify to the results of this transmutation4 ,an elect woman would hardly be necessary in the work of metallic transmutation4 ,small wonder that the alchemist abandoned the work of turning lead and copper into gold4 ,if he had found the key of keys1 he cared little whether lead were lead1 or whether gold remained gold1 or melted into thin air4 ,the golden light of illumination showed him all things in their purpose1 and gold as a metal meant no more to him than did the so-called baser metals4 ,commenting upon this statement1 the translator observes3 ,those ,hermetic texts which bear a spiritual interpretation and are as if a record of spiritual experience1 present1 like the literature of physical alchemy1 the following aspects of symbolism3 the marriage of sun and moon2 of a mystical king and queen2 a union between natures which are one at the root1 but diverse in manifestation2 a transmutation which follows this union and an abiding glory therein4 ,if we will remember that the solar-man was personified by the ,ancients as the sun2 and the solar-woman by the moon1 we have the first and salient points of the original ,hermetic secrets1 however much they may have degenerated from their spiritual to their physical application4 ,the probabilities are that owing to the disapproval of the ,christian ,hierarchy1 only the most veiled terminology was permissible4 ,this view is more logical than is the one that the esoteric meaning was lost sight of4 ,the marriage of an hypothetical or mystical king and queen bespeaks exaltation of the two conjoining persons1 male and female1 but this exaltation is in consciousness1 and not in mere personality4 ,the terms king and queen are nothing more or less than symbols of an exalted 7spiritualized7 state4 ,and1 in passing1 we may here mention the fact that the language of lovers testifies to this intuitional realization4 ,my queen6 exclaims the enraptured lover1 although in social station his beloved one may be only a scullery maid2 and certainly1 neither the beauty nor the goodness nor the wisdom of earthly kings and queens would be sufficient to inspire the comparison4 ,it is ever the soul calling for the mate who1 when found1 will exalt the twain-one into the immortal powers and immortal wealth imperfectly symbolized by earthly rulers1 making right royal queens and kings of common clay4 ,the third aspect of the symbolism tells of an union between two natures which are one at the root1 but diverse in manifestation4 ,and the alchemist who sought the physical interpretation of this1 promised that1 as earth1 air1 and fire and water were the elements out of which all manifestation is composed1 it only remained for someone to discover the exact proportion of each of these elementary substances in a specific compound2 this accomplished1 copper for example1 could be dissolved into its constituent parts and re-solved again in the proportions which formed gold1 a thing which we are not prepared to say could not be accomplished1 but a thing which we do say1 would not even be attempted by one who had found the secret of the interior transmutation1 because having attained to the radiant center1 he would realize the glory of the worlds1 and gold1 as metal1 would be to him of far less value than the emerald of the grass2 the pearls of dew upon the rose2 the scent of the lotus2 the song of birds2 the laughter of children4 ,how vain and foolish to imagine that a philosopher would think it worth while to search for gold1 as a metal4 ,he would not even consider the ambition worthy the parchment used to preserve the record of his labors4 ,but to find the golden light from the radiant center of pure and unquenchable love--that were indeed worthy of ages of research4 ,for are we not promised1 the glory of the world if we will seek and find8 ,and he who truly seeks will absolutely find4 ,what is the glory of the world8 ,is it fame1 or wealth1 or lands1 or gems or kingdoms8 ,love is the only glory worthy of the name4 ,for ,life with all its yield of joy and woe ,and hope and fear--believe the aged friend-- ,is just our chance at the prize o' learning love4 ,when we realize the esoteric meaning of this aspect of the ancient alchemical symbol1 namely1 that the two halves of the one whole1 manifesting diversely as male and female1 are reunited1 we come to the fourth aspect of the symbol mentioned1 and the transmutation which follows this union and the abiding glory therein1 is the inevitable and logical sequential answer4 ,an abiding glory must be founded upon spiritual substantiability4 ,transmutation is not synonymous with1 extinction1 or elimination1 or abandonment4 ,we transmute the lower into the higher1 the exterior into the interior1 the physical into the spiritual4 ,this is the sum and substance of the ,ancient ,wisdom4 ,there is no eccentric change or transition from one phase or plane of life1 into another4 ,it is neither logical nor justifiable to assume that ,sex is limited to the physical1 or the astral or the psychic1 or any other specific planes of consciousness4 ,these planes are not distinctively separable anyway4 ,they are merely names which we use to distinguish degrees1 or limitations of consciousness4 ,the statement that the two halves are reunited is almost invariably misinterpreted to imply an annihilation1 or absorption of individuality1 into some sort of vaporous1 formless1 sexless ,thing2 but why this should be so misconstrued is a puzzle1 any more than that bringing together the two halves of an orange which had been divided1 would result in the destruction of that edible2 or any more than bringing together a glove fitting the right hand and its mate fitting the left hand1 would destroy the shape and usefulness of this article4 ,the comparison may be a homely one1 but it is understandable4 ,it takes two to make a pair4 ,mistake it not1 and further1 there is no abiding glory in this world or in the next or in any other sphere1 that is not founded upon the deep1 intense and eternal love of man and woman4 ,,chapter ,,ix ,,what ,,constitutes ,,sex ,,immorality8 ,the average mind1 nurtured in apprehensive awe of that race fetish called ,public ,opinion1 is inordinately afraid of words4 ,atheist1 infidel1 ungodly are epithets which have been used as mental clubs1 with temporary effect1 to beat back the wave of religious and scientific ,rationalism1 which punctuated the last century4 ,these words have now lost much of their terror1 even to the undeveloped consciousness of the average1 because it has been shown that the ,god-idea which rational thought fain would substitute for the old revengeful ,deity1 has not annihilated the world1 but quite to the contrary has resulted in a happier and higher ideal of godhood than that which the early ,church postulated4 ,epithets are the mental bulwarks of the powers of resistance against ,evolution4 ,ignorance is fearful of the unknown1 and the knights of ,enlightenment have ever had to fight their way through the ranks of abuse and criticism and misrepresentation4 ,free-love is a phrase with which even the most intrepid advocate of rational thought hesitates to claim affiliation2 and yet the goal of our highest endeavors must be a state of ,society where ,love1 the god1 is free from the mire of corruption1 and the bonds of slavery4 ,let us not be afraid of so harmless a thing as a word1 remembering the case of the little girl who ran to her mother crying with indignation because someone had alluded to her as an aristocrat4 ,she did not know what the word meant1 and so resented it as something undeserved4 ,when we examine into what the phrase free-love really means1 we will not be so fearful of its sound4 ,to whom is this epithet most frequently applied8 ,is it to the average man who is known to be a ,lothario in matters of sex8 ,not at all4 ,he is referred to as a gay bachelor or as one who is sowing his wild oats or some other phrase1 which in no way affects his social standing4 ,is it applied to women of the half-world1 to recognized1 and legalized prostitution8 ,never6 ,it is significant of the real meaning of free-love that the term is never used in connection with what modern reform has aptly designated the white slave traffic1 for the obvious reason that nowhere is ,love so un-free2 so enslaved and bound and murdered as in this phase of woman's degradation4 ,nor is the term applied to unfaithful wives1 because in this type of defiance of traditional sex-ethics there is always the spirit of self-accusation2 a tacit1 if not open1 admission of wrong-doing4 ,we never hear the awful accusation of free-lover hurled at the young woman who has1 what the world calls1 sinned1 because1 forsooth1 she pays the price of her deviation from social standards 7when discovered7 by ostracism1 and not infrequently by a broken heart1 or by sinking further into the depths of bondage2 and so here again it is evident that there is no freedom for whatever spirit of love actuates her conduct4 ,it must be admitted that the term free-love is applied only to those who openly claim the right to bestow their affections and indulge in the sex-relationship1 independent of the marriage ceremony4 ,it matters not whether this claim includes but one mate1 or several4 ,it is the demand that they shall not forfeit their right to respect and morality1 which is resented by the many who still conform to traditional customs1 and which general conformity results in investing the term free-love with an unpleasant odor4 ,public opinion puts a premium upon deceit4 ,such intimate matters as marriage and divorce are really no concern of any person other than the contracting or the distracted parties4 ,the public is too concerned with trivialities and too little with ,truth4 ,nothing short of national insanity permits the existence of divorce-courts1 and the necessity for married persons desiring to live apart1 to slander and abuse each other like pickpockets before they may act upon such a decision4 ,some time ago the public press was filled with the minutest details of the love story of a woman1 who had lived for fifteen years hidden from the world because she loved a man well enough to pay that price4 ,she might have insisted that the man obtain a divorce from his wife1 to whom he had been married seventeen or more years1 and thus win the approval of society4 ,but this woman placed love above all material things1 and she preferred to take nothing from the wife4 ,the love of her husband the wife did not possess and1 it would seem1 did not care for particularly4 ,when through the accident of the man's death the story came to light1 the press was flooded with letters from prominent club-women and from clergymen and others1 stating upon what terms1 if any1 this love-recluse should be forgiven4 ,most of them decided that she should not be forgiven2 a few seemed to think that if she repented and lived thereafter a pure life1 she might in time be worthy of their forgiveness4 ,such a spectacle6 ,america will yet share the reputation with ,england of being a nation without a sense of humor4 ,eagerly the representative members of society rush in where angels fear to tread upon any and all occasions to air their opinions upon other people's conduct and thus prove their own virtue4 ,the fact that this woman was not in any position to be forgiven or unforgiven2 that she was sublimely unconscious of and wholly indifferent to their opinions2 that she was unaware of any necessity for either shame or repentance2 seems not to have entered the silly brains of these keepers of the public morals4 ,she had loved one man with a fidelity1 a whole-heartedness1 and a loftiness of self-sacrifice which are as rare as they are great in these days of pretense and hypocritical virtue1 and she had paid the full price for her idealism4 ,she did not repine or regret4 ,she only suffered1 not alone because of her unenviable notoriety1 but because ,death had taken her loved one from her4 ,surely this was indeed an evidence of real love in an unreal civilization1 which should have brought out the fearless sympathy and approval of every good woman in the land4 ,it should have been food for sermons in every pulpit in ,christendom1 that a modern woman preferred solitary confinement with the man she loved to the usual method of procedure1 which insists upon the respectable position of wife1 no matter at what cost to another4 ,but this is ,society's estimate of ,love and ,truth and ,virtue1 and it is small wonder if real people become indifferent to ,society's feelings4 ,if the term free-love were really synonymous with sex-promiscuity1 we would hear it used in connection with those whose frequent divorces are the subject of press comment1 but we do not1 because by their outward concession to established ethics they subscribe to the demands of ,convention4 ,the term1 in its opprobrious sense1 is almost always applied to women1 because for many centuries the men have claimed their right to personal liberty in matters connected with the sex-relation1 and until women of the self-respecting and educated class began to openly emulate the example of the male1 there was no occasion to use the phrase4 ,men come under its lash only when they1 too1 concede to women the right to respectability notwithstanding defiance of tradition4 ,all of which goes to prove that the public mind is in reality sufficiently clear on the matter of distinction between sex promiscuity and free-love4 ,it is likewise obvious that the opprobrium that attaches to the phrase is not aimed at promiscuity but at the claim to personal liberty in matters of the sex-relation and defiance of ,public ,opinion which demands either ostensible concurrence in its standards1 or punishment for openly transgressing them4 ,the result of this unjust 7and unfit1 in the light of our other advanced ideas7 attitude toward the most important function of life1 has resulted in one of two lines of conduct as woman's only free choice4 ,either she must resort to deception1 hypocrisy and pretense1 shielding her secret excursions into forbidden paths1 by feigning a scorn and abhorrence for the doctrine of free-love1 the while she secretly indulges her sex-nature1 more or less promiscuously1 or else she is forced to repress all her natural instincts1 and not infrequently these instincts are abnormally strong because of pre-natal and inherited influences4 ,both of these courses1 the only two which are open to the average woman1 are disastrous to the sex1 and through them to the race1 because women are the mothers of men1 and any course which binds and fetters the free spirit of woman hampers race-improvement4 ,repression of the natural functions of her being results in physical disease1 and ultimately in mental weakness4 ,unnatural expression of the sex-function1 under the ban of compulsion1 whether through the compulsion of marriage or through the more flagrant type of commercial prostitution1 is death to the best development of the race4 ,women1 through the urge of economic necessity1 or through the religious ideal of wifely submission and fidelity to their ,lord and ,master have been compelled to develop a craftiness and an artificial modesty which1 in most cases1 passes for femininity1 and deceives1 as it is intended to do1 the average man4 ,for centuries1 a woman's only profession was matrimony4 ,her education for this profession consisted first of all of complete ignorance of all that relates to the most intimate and most vital part of her nature--the function of sex4 ,in the occasional instances where she had inherited a degree of mentality which could not be dwarfed1 she must at least feign ignorance2 and so1 while secretly aware of every emotion of the male1 and covertly playing upon his sex-nature in her task of catching a husband1 it is small wonder that women have developed the traits of the cat animal1 and are frequently both treacherous and cruel4 ,indeed1 it is only because the ,female ,principle is the attracting and conserving power of the bi-une sex-love1 that she has broken through these mental fetters1 and in a few rare instances has hurled defiance at the devils of convention and tradition and claims justification of her own sex-nature1 and her right to her own person1 despite the epithet of free-love4 ,woman's partial emancipation in some instances has1 no doubt1 gone to her head1 as it were1 and we see many women confounding license with liberty2 mistaking passion for ,love2 and exchanging restraint for debauchery4 ,the average woman is either almost entirely lacking in sex desire or she is abnormally active in that function4 ,in truth1 the same state of affairs prevails here1 as in so many other phases of our modern life1 namely1 there is no balance4 ,we are a civilization of extremes2 we are one-sided1 abnormal2 distorted4 ,we are seeking the pivotal point of our destiny1 which is the soul1 but few have reached that point4 ,those who have not1 are groping through the jungles of the mental plane of consciousness1 upheld on the one hand by the upward trend of their being1 which seeks the level of the soul-conscious state2 and held back on the other hand by the trammels of the sense-conscious type from which the race has developed to its present condition4 ,those instances where women indulge in excesses are comparatively rare in proportion to numbers1 and they loom large in perspective because of their very incongruity with our ideals of womanly conduct4 ,the vast majority of women may be safely trusted to use their sex-freedom1 when it shall have truly arrived1 for the purpose of finding that one and only mate which their souls instinctively know to be our rightful heritage--the proverbial pearl of great price which insures immortality in the bliss of union with our ,beloved4 ,love1 when freed from the illusions of sense2 from the shackles of commercialism2 from the bonds of error regarding the meaning and purpose of marriage2 freed from selfishness and licentiousness2 will solve the question of sex-promiscuity4 ,this for the obvious reason that ,love seeks its own4 ,if left free to seek1 it will find4 ,but1 if sex promiscuity is far from being free-love1 if the doctrine of sex freedom is fraught with many dangers under our present social system1 it must be conceded that no one method of social evolution1 thus far devised1 can be recommended as ideally perfect4 ,the best that we can hope to do is to emphasize the importance and the sacredness and the innate purity of the sex-relation1 while conceding to both sexes all the personal liberty possible4 ,and above all1 we should avoid condemnation of those who claim the right to freedom1 lest we cover up a condition which can but be the better for being open to the light4 ,particularly should we shield women from the charge of immorality1 and licentiousness1 when we see them straying down the by-paths of the senses1 in their quest for freedom1 remembering that the centuries of repression and submission and consequent deception have left their mark upon woman's temperament4 ,man has for ages boasted of his sex virility2 of his conquests in what he has termed love4 ,not infrequently a man's choice of a wife is the result of much seeking in the garden of ,life2 and much sipping of the honey from the various flowers that grow therein4 ,often1 indeed1 a man frankly tells the woman he would marry that he knows he loves her above all other women for the convincing reason that he has tried so many and none have held him4 ,should a woman make the same confession and draw the same conclusion1 he would be horrified4 ,it must be admitted1 then1 that the term free-lovers is applied only to those who defy ,public ,opinion and claim their right to respect and morality despite their defiance of ,society's false standards of morality4 ,these standards are false because they are based upon criticism and censure of results instead of upon motives4 ,society ignores1 if it does not actually encourage1 frivolous flirtations1 and frowns most harshly upon instances of real love4 ,it sets the seal of disapproval and ostracism upon those who1 because of circumstances or possibly because of indifference to man-made laws1 take their affairs into their own hands and refuse to exhibit either penitence or shame when the world discovers that they neglected the marriage ceremony4 ,if two persons truly love each other and there is nothing to interfere with their undergoing the publicity of a marriage ceremony1 well and good1 unless1 indeed1 it is a matter of principle with them that our social customs are a fetich4 ,but there are innumerable instances where there are obstacles to unions which to overcome would involve hardships and suffering to others1 or where absurd laws prevent marriage1 and where two persons loving each other1 prefer to pay the price of social ostracism to separation4 ,such as these lose nothing by ,society's disapproval1 but ,society does lose something by persecuting those who are independent enough and honest enough to act from motive1 rather than from custom1 and who insist upon maintaining their self-respect1 in the face of criticism4 ,self-respect is not related to braggadocio4 ,it must be admitted that as yet there are few persons who have the courage to endure martyrdom for their convictions1 which is1 perhaps1 just as well1 because the majority are unable to distinguish between brazen shamelessness and unashamedness4 ,the average woman will stick to the safe habit of dissembling4 ,women have learned the lesson of the cat too thoroughly to jump immediately from the back-yard of ,deception to the front porch of ,truth4 ,in this one respect at least1 however much she may indulge her desire for frankness in other directions1 a woman will lie valiantly1 self-protectingly1 and continually1 even though she follow in secret the example of the cat1 which 7seeing its master come home from the hunt with a string of birds1 and displaying1 with much pride and satisfaction1 the results of his prowess71 conceived the idea that it would also be a fine thing for her to go forth and kill the canary4 ,but to tabby's surprise1 her ability was rewarded with chastisement2 whereupon she pondered the question over and over3 ,how can it be1 that what is virtue in man is vice in a cat8 ,we are not told in the story what conclusion she arrived at1 but we can imagine that her conclusion was that which women have arrived at1 in a similar situation1 to wit3 man is unjust and unreasonable1 but he is also stronger than ,i am1 and therefore1 while ,i shall follow his example1 ,i shall take good care to hide the feathers4 ,in the meantime1 we are crossing the bridge that leads from the jungles of our animal nature1 where prowl the beasts of deceit2 greed2 selfishness2 sensuality2 vanity2 avarice2 and domination2 to the ,heights1 illumined by ,love set free4 ,let us not jostle and crowd each other too harshly1 while we are en route4 ,but1 of course1 we are confronted with the pertinent query as to what1 if any1 absolute standard of morality there can be in matters of the sex relation4 ,freedom is so easily misconstrued into implying sex-promiscuity2 and monogamy1 the final survival of the various systems of marriage1 has in its modern as well as in its ancient aspect so much of coercion2 and coercion is cited as the insuperable obstacle to attainment of the supreme state of spiritual sex-union1 that the would-be initiate becomes confused1 and is lost in a maze of paradoxes4 ,moral distinctions are too fine for the undeveloped man-animal1 and that is the reason why man-made laws have been necessary4 ,the objection to them is not in their original intention1 but in their failure to die after they have become senile4 ,moral standards are as unstable as the shifting sands of the sea4 ,our moral sentiments1 say ,letourneau1 are simply habits incarnate in our brain1 or instincts artificially created2 and thus an act reputed culpable at ,paris1 or at ,london1 may be1 and frequently is1 held innocent at ,calcutta or at ,pekin4 ,and ,emerson1 the intellectual ,seer1 says3 ,there is a soul at the centre of nature and over the will of every man1 so that none of us can wrong the universe4 ,it is a colossal piece of impudent presumption1 when we come to think about it1 for ,man to ask the ,supreme1 ,absolute1 ,infinite ,power to forgive him4 ,but1 if we cannot wrong the universe1 we can and we do wrong ourselves and each other as mortals4 ,that is the whole gist of the story4 ,we are constantly wronging ourselves and each other and calling upon ,god to support us in our strife when ,god cannot know aught save the call of ,love4 ,the growing1 evolving race1 has found it necessary to establish certain loosely defined codes of morals and of social ethics1 in the same way that man has bridled the horse that he may control him2 incidentally1 we may observe that where this bridle formerly included blinders1 it now permits the horse to see whither he is going4 ,perhaps a brief survey of the standards of sexual morality which have upheld 7or down-held1 just as we look at it7 the human race until now1 may be illuminating4 ,it has been disputed1 if1 under the matriarchal system of polygamy1 the moral condition of the people was higher than under the patriarchal system1 and probably no satisfactory conclusion can be reached upon this point1 save and except that any condition1 however primitive1 which permitted to the female freedom of choice1 must be better than that in which she is the object of coercion4 ,this is evident1 because the degree of coercion can never1 under any circumstances1 be as great with the male as with the female4 ,therefore1 matriarchal polygamy is comparatively more nearly moral than is patriarchal polygamy1 and when all is said and done1 historic morality is comparative4 ,but from the standpoint of modern idealism matriarchal polygamy seems to be a very low estimate of moral conduct2 and from the standpoint of sexual idealism it is a low standard2 a standard only a degree higher than that of patriarchal polygamy--a standard which is the lineal descendant of the ethics of the marriage-by-capture period of human evolution1 and from which we are today by no means free1 owing to economic1 religious1 and ethical conditions4 ,there is a tacit acknowledgement on the part of the unorganized brotherhood of the ,enlightened1 that laws are made for the guidance of the masses4 ,unbridled ignorance is a dangerous force2 as dangerous as an unbridled horse1 unless it be that the horse exhibits intelligence enough to know where it is headed for and how to avoid obstacles en route4 ,and even as the laws of a community are made for the intellectually undeveloped1 so the commandments were compiled for the spiritual guidance of the uninitiated4 ,we trust that it will not shock the sensibilities of the pious when we affirm and maintain and insist that the ten commandments are not from ,god in the letter of the statements1 as postulated by ,theology4 ,they bear all the earmarks of the ancient ,hebrew race-mind1 which placed a man's neighbor's wife in the same category with his ox and his ass and his house and his other property and possessions4 ,there is but one commandment of the ,most ,high ,god1 alias ,eros1 and that is so interwoven into the fabric of creation that we cannot break it if we would1 although we may and do break ourselves in trying to live in defiance of its immutability4 ,we cannot wrong the universe6 ,our moral standards1 in so far as they relate to the sexes1 are at present the logical descent of ,hebrew adherence to phallic worship1 engrafted into the ,roman outgrowth of the ,god-idea4 ,both the ,hebrew and the ,roman customs maintained the inferiority and the consequent subjugation of woman1 despite the fact that the ,roman ,church exalted the ,virgin as a personality2 but the postulate of the ,church that ,mary was so exalted by a miracle1 which never could be repeated1 killed any forlorn hope which might have lurked within the female breast regarding a possible emulation of her example4 ,no other woman might do more than cringe and crawl and beg and whine2 or cajole and wheedle and buy the ,holy ,mother's intercession1 which intercession1 even if successful1 could at best but secure her an eternal job in the ,heavenly hierarchy1 where1 sexless1 companionless1 mateless1 anmic1 she could look all day at a male ,god whom she could never presume to reach4 ,rather a lonesome outlook for eternity1 and it is small wonder that woman got discouraged at the prospect4 ,the miracle is rather that she endured it so long4 ,but the ,roman system had at least one virtue4 ,it instilled into the mortal mind of its people a sub-conscious realization of the ideal of monogamy2 not an ideal monogamy by a long way1 but a monogamic ideal4 ,they are quite different2 but inasmuch as it is an outward semblance of a more spiritual conception of marriage than that of polygamy1 it is the highest ideal yet realized for the many1 and does duty in our present day and age1 as consistent with our superior civilization4 ,monogamy at least pretends to be a marriage by mutual consent2 and even in the pretense there is the germ of a hope2 but it would be folly to deny that underneath this appearance of marriage by mutual consent we see the remnants of the traditional idea of the right by purchase1 and therefore we have the jealousy that arises by virtue of our property rights4 ,the right by purchase assuredly underlies our present-day marriage system1 although it is disguised as economic necessity2 as a religious sacrament2 and as a suitable or a brilliant catch--a type of marriage by capture which forms the ideal of our own upper-class women and which the housemaid copies in her limited way4 ,viewed from the surface evidence1 the average woman of today is1 as ,kipling says1 far more deadly than the male4 ,she is more unscrupulous in her methods2 more unreasonable in her demands2 more devoid of sentiment or sympathy2 more fickle in her desires and more nagging in her complaints4 ,but1 when all is said and done1 we must admit that woman is only expressing her inheritance4 ,when she becomes balanced1 the sexes will meet on common ground4 ,woman's demand for better physical environment2 for more comfort1 and more justice2 presages1 after all1 a higher and a more satisfactory idea of the marriage relationship4 ,underneath this materialistic demand1 there is the silent voice of the soul calling for a more ideal marriage relation4 ,it is the materialistic expression of a spiritual urge and will in time rise to higher ground4 ,it is a demand for a better state than that which our grandmothers enjoyed1 or endured4 ,we have seen in the history of marriage1 that the estimate of sexual immorality has been based1 all too frequently1 upon woman's disregard for the rights of her husband in her person4 ,for centuries the burden of sustaining a sexual moral standard has rested almost wholly upon the shoulders of the women2 and it is therefore natural that the present-day defiant attitude of many women toward the traditional standard should be viewed with alarm2 and there is more in this thought of alarm than the mere anxiety on the part of man to hold woman to her appointed task of guardian of marital morality4 ,although men may wander from the home and fireside1 it is a peculiar fact that they generally hold to a mental string by which they may find their way back again1 very frequently the more contented to be there for their wanderings4 ,but with a woman it is different4 ,once a woman has broken loose from the ties that have bound her to her inherited post of morality-preserver1 she seldom goes back again1 but keeps on her way until she finds that for which she seeks1 or gives up the search of her own volition4 ,is this1 then1 evidence that it is a woman's first duty to stay put when matrimonial exigencies have placed her in a specific pocket of the matrimonial billiard-table8 ,we believe not2 and this belief is founded upon the fact that the female principle1 which is1 we admit1 the centralizing1 centripetal force in the cosmos1 is not always manifested in the form of woman4 ,the balanced individual is bi-sexual1 even as the balanced twain-one is bi-sexual4 ,if man was all male principle1 and woman all female principle they would not be complementary1 but antithetical4 ,each must be balanced within himself and herself before they can merge into each other4 ,affinities are numerous1 but mates are found but once2 otherwise1 the problems that are being discussed here would never have arisen4 ,if1 then1 as has been shown in the fact that only counterpartal unions are real1 eternal and spiritually indissoluble2 and that only true mates can thus unite1 and when thus united have no desire to wander1 what becomes of our ideas of sexual infidelity8 ,since the very law of the ,cosmos has seen to it that we cannot be untrue to the only one who seemingly has a right to our fidelity in the sex relation and since this union can become general only by freeing love from bondage1 what becomes of the laboriously built up ethics of our social intercourse8 ,are they to be abandoned as of no value8 ,we can almost hear the storm of protest which the righteous reader may feel in duty bound to let loose at such a suggestion1 if for no other reason than that protest is the accepted way of proving one's own virtuous tendencies4 ,in the early seventies1 a woman named ,virginia ,woodhull brought down upon her defenseless head the un-,christian-like abuse of the ,christian public by announcing a doctrine which seems to have been nothing more dreadful than that of an equal standard of morality for men and women4 ,the poor woman died broken-hearted1 it is said2 and yet nothing that we can unearth regarding her personal life and habits would seem to have warranted the cruel gibes that were hurled at her4 ,the dear old lady lived a most continent1 even ascetic life4 ,but the world has made rapid strides since that time1 and we trust that the urgent need of something reasonable and feasible upon the sex question will inspire the reader to an unprejudiced review of this chapter4 ,we would that it were possible to supply a modicum of understanding with each copy of this volume2 but since it is not1 we must take our chance with the average4 ,let us reason together3 ,expediency is the mother of morality in social organizations1 which have1 of necessity1 unstable1 ever-changing standards4 ,these standards represent1 for some1 ideals yet to be attained2 while for others they become mere mileposts on the path of ,evolution4 ,the individual reaches1 and then passes1 an accepted ideal2 gradually when a sufficient number1 constituting a majority1 have reached this ideal1 it ceases to be a standard for the social organization1 and another ideal is substituted4 ,the laws of the cave-man called for self-restraint exercised toward his own immediate clan1 and this necessity for self-restraint was based upon nothing higher than the law of self-preservation2 but gradually the sphere widened2 from clan to nation4 ,so do our ethical and moral standards enlarge4 ,traditional concepts are not necessarily wrong1 but they are almost sure to be inadequate to evolving ,mankind4 ,formerly1 sexual morality consisted of the reservation of the person of a sister to the use of her brothers4 ,any infringement upon this moral code was punished by death to the woman and to her out-clannish lover4 ,and we have today an analogous example1 although we are glad to say1 it is not the highest standard2 still1 if one's husband or wife violates the marriage vows1 it is more condonable1 if the co-respondent be of the wealthy class2 and in monarchies it is accounted an honor to have been selected as the king's favorite4 ,the institution of prostitution which exists everywhere today has its standards in the different countries2 and the white races seem to think that their morality is superior to that of the ,orientals because the social standing of prostitutes in the ,orient is not irretrievably lost2 they are permitted1 in the event of marriage1 to resume social equality with other women4 ,among white people1 prostitutes have no other recourse than to sink lower and lower1 until utter degradation is reached4 ,we believe that the ,oriental view of the situation is a far higher standard of morality than is our ,occidental attitude4 ,if there can lawfully be such an organization as is now being proposed as desirable in large cities1 namely1 a morals police1 it certainly should be instigated by a more sane purpose than that which is at the root of our present police guardianship4 ,attempts at suppression of prostitution have hitherto been conducted on the principle that the women of that class are objectionable to the sight of our mothers and sisters and wives1 and the sinfulness of the hopelessly fallen ones has been the theme of press and pulpit4 ,and all the time the women of the half-world have resented this attitude as being unjust1 and unfair1 and hypocritical1 and untenable4 ,they have known that if the act of selling their bodies to men is a crime against the community1 then more than half the feminine world is criminal4 ,and they have contended that since the respectable women were neither contacted nor exploited by them1 they cannot see wherein they offend society1 provided the laws of sanitation and segregation are complied with4 ,in other words1 they have said that it is none of ,society's business whether they sell themselves to one man or to a number1 since they must pay the penalty4 ,and their attitude is relatively right4 ,it is none of ,society's business whether a woman is a prostitute or not1 considered as an offense against ,society4 ,that is the wrong attitude toward this condition of our social disorder4 ,no prostitute offends you or me4 ,she1 poor creature1 offends herself1 and we offend her and ourselves by permitting social conditions that make for such degradation4 ,we are conniving with her to barter her birthright of freedom and real love for food and shelter1 and taint and tinsel1 whenever we encourage marriage on any other ground than that of true love1 and when we regard virtue as a matter of physical contact4 ,if we judge from the many plays which we see on the boards2 if we are influenced by the press and the pulpit2 we must acknowledge that the general idea of sexual morality is an absurd one4 ,the inference is that one special organ of a woman's physical body is the sole custodian of all virtue and all morality4 ,the accepted idea seems to be that if a woman is married her body is then the property of her husband4 ,her emotions1 her mind1 her heart1 her happiness1 her preferences do not count for anything4 ,the one act is made all-important4 ,on the husband's side1 if he provides for his wife and family1 he is justified in exacting the sole right to the wife's body1 and although his own heart and caresses may be given to another1 he justifies himself1 and the wife not infrequently feels satisfied1 as long as he provides well for her4 ,what is this but prostitution8 ,the principle is the same as in the case of the recognized prostitute1 although the conditions are easier for the woman1 and less cheapening of her womanhood1 but the difference is only in degree4 ,now1 a singular idea of fidelity1 a direct antithesis to the one just mentioned1 prevails among prostitutes1 when married either by law or by selection4 ,they may surrender their physical body to another1 for money1 and according to their idea they may yet remain true to the husband or lover1 because the matter is a business transaction4 ,the other man has only what he has purchased1 namely1 the physical body4 ,but should the woman permit another man to arouse in her a sexual response2 should another invade her mind1 absorb her thoughts1 or engage her heart1 the husband is outraged and the woman realizes her unfaithfulness4 ,all of which goes to show that up to the present time sexual morality has in itself no absolute uniform standard by which it can be measured and satisfactorily and convincingly presented to all persons1 as have other phases of morality1 such as honesty1 justice1 mercy1 generosity1 friendship1 fidelity to country1 and self-sacrifice to the good of humanity4 ,and although all these moral qualities have their bearing upon sexual morality1 they do not establish a uniform ideal of sexual morality4 ,honesty is honesty whether in ,paris1 ,london1 ,calcutta1 or ,pekin1 but as has been previously observed1 sexual morality is determined by local conditions4 ,can there1 then1 be established a universal standard of sexual morality8 ,there can1 but its universal acceptance is a remote probability1 albeit it will arrive some day4 ,first of all1 the sex relation must be absolutely free from sale2 coercion2 or barter2 whether within the respectable sale of matrimony or of recognized prostitution4 ,it must be free from any erroneous idea of marital duty2 it must be exalted1 reverenced1 deified1 in all its aspects1 from the impregnation of a plant1 to the sexual embrace of human lovers4 ,an ,utopian dream it appears1 if we note but one side of the picture4 ,if we consider the lightness with which so many men look upon the physical form of women2 and if we realize the attitude of so many women toward men1 in their conflict with life1 using the age-old dowry from mother ,eve1 of sex1 as a weapon of defense and of offense2 if we listen to the ribald songs that offend our ears and nauseate our souls1 not only in music-halls and on the streets1 but in supposedly cultured homes2 and above all if we contemplate the uncleanness of mind displayed by those who are really in earnest in their endeavor to uplift the moral tone of the world4 ,these latter are1 by far1 the worst enemies to the ,regeneration of ,sex4 ,a wise man once said1 ,save me from my friends2 ,i can protect myself against my enemies--and so it is in this instance4 ,most ,civic-,leaguers and members of ,vice-,commissions 7why that name1 anyway87 are infected with the bacteria of sex-degradation4 ,they really require a lengthy process of mental disinfection1 before attempting to handle so delicate a problem as this one of sexual uplift4 ,a woman member of a ,young ,people's ,civic ,league of the second largest city in the ,united ,states recently declared in public print1 of the beautiful and chaste painting ,september ,morn1 that it was lewd1 filthy1 and suggestive of unclean things4 ,this type of woman is intrusted with the task of teaching youthful minds2 polluting them with the blasphemous affirmation that the ,creation of the ,father-,mother ,god of the universe is lewd and filthy6 ,let us get this truth implanted in our mentality1 as it is inrooted in our souls1 namely3 ,sex is always the purest1 the holiest1 and the most sacred thing in the universe--because ,god is ,him-,her-,self1 bi-sexual4 ,the righteousness of it cannot be determined by so fickle a thing as man's customs2 cannot be dependent upon mortal laws4 ,this statement1 indisputable as it is1 will nevertheless start a chain of thought which may lead to confusion2 and it is because of this tendency to confusion that the real issue is so frequently avoided4 ,but let us see if we may not dispel the confusion by a system of logical deduction4 ,one thing is certain4 ,the present condition of the ,sex-problem is sadly chaotic4 ,if we cannot hope to clarify it to the comprehension of the average1 we may at least do so for some4 ,one of the first objections to the acceptance of the statement that the sex relation is1 per se1 always right1 will be found in the conclusion to which the average mind immediately jumps3 ,ah1 then it is right for men and women who are depraved and licentious to live as they do2 it is right for husbands and wives to deceive each other1 and while pretending to be faithful to their marriage vows1 to secretly carry on flirtations and intrigues with other men and other women6 ,ask one hundred men or one hundred women this question3 ,is the sex-relation right or wrong8 ,the men will declare that it is right sometimes and wrong sometimes4 ,the women1 almost as a unit1 will do the same4 ,occasionally a woman will be found sufficiently illumined to give a sane answer4 ,following up the thoughtless answer with the request to illustrate1 and the reply will be something like this3 ,well1 if people are married it is right1 but if they are not married it is wrong2 and even as this silly answer is given1 the person answering knows that it is puerile2 but since the ,public ,mind prefers hypocrisy to ,truth1 few have the temerity1 and fewer yet have the capability1 to utter ,truth4 ,it would be as sensible to say that it is right for the sun to shine sometimes and wrong for it to shine some other times4 ,it is right for the sun to shine4 ,this is all the answer that there is1 and all that is needed4 ,whether the sunshine bestows life and health1 or decay and death1 is entirely up to us4 ,the sun does its part4 ,it is fulfilling the inexorable law of ,nature1 and is therefore right4 ,but of even greater importance in the universe is this law of sex4 ,the law is forever and always right4 ,our concept of it may be right or it may be diseased4 ,as a matter of fact it is1 in all too many cases1 diseased4 ,if it were not1 there would be no disease in the world4 ,how is it possible to have a perfect flower--a healthy1 normal and wholesome sprout from a diseased root8 ,the root of all life is sex4 ,we have thought disease into it1 and the only remedy is to change our thought toward the function4 ,this may be done by realizing that the sex-relation is always pure1 holy1 sacred--the bi-une ,god of the universe4 ,this statement is quite different from saying that people are always right or sacred in their sex-relations4 ,to say that the sex-relation is always right under the institution of marriage and always wrong outside of it1 is a lie4 ,a lie cannot bring back health to either a person or a principle4 ,truth is the only thing that can make us whole--and the first office of ,truth1 as everyone knows1 is to make us free4 ,we cannot be whole until we are free1 and the essential thought to be free from1 is an attempt to keep alive the lie that the righteousness of ,sex1 per se1 depends upon marriage4 ,does the libertine believe in the sacredness of sex8 ,never4 ,does the prostitute claim for herself spotless purity8 ,if she did1 she would not sell herself for money4 ,do men and women who are living in secret unfaithfulness hold exalted ideals of sex8 ,if they did1 they would not maintain a life of deceit4 ,these people live as they do1 because they have divorced sex from love4 ,they agree absolutely with the blind moralists who regard ,sex as a human plaything--something which may be called bad one day and good the next1 according to whether it is viewed from afar or near4 ,does anyone imagine that when ,society shall have established the one standard of morality replacing the double standard which now persecutes the woman only1 for infringement upon ,society's one demand1 that of concealment1 that the answer to sex-degradation will have been found8 ,a single standard is an improvement upon the old habit of stoning the woman only and letting the man go free4 ,but why stone anybody8 ,history fails to record a single instance where ,society has succeeded in improving either itself or its victims by the procedure4 ,the best that can be said of the stoning habit is that it distracts attention from ourselves4 ,persons who hold exalted ideas of the function of sex1 realizing that a force so eternal and universal must be disassociated from man-made regulations1 are not in danger4 ,such as these will not foster deceit nor profligacy1 any more than they will cringe and crawl under the lash of ,society's disapproval1 should they encounter it4 ,they know that if they would find the highest good1 they must serve ,truth first of all1 no matter how high the price of such devotion4 ,,chapter ,x ,,the ,,pathway ,,of ,,love ,love is the ,great ,reality4 ,everything else in this world of ,experience is either tributary to love or it is an unsatisfying substitute for love2 or a counterfeit of love4 ,love is the one cohesive1 unifying1 constructive force1 and it is at the same time the only liberating force4 ,hatred1 as exemplified in warfare1 may sometimes appear to free a people from the rule of a tyrant1 but unless love be at the root of the casus belli1 other and more direful disasters will follow in the wake of seeming victory4 ,there is an erroneous idea1 quite general among ,christian people1 that ,death frees the spirit from the bonds that hold it to the mortal and the incomplete4 ,death only drops off the garment of the flesh2 there are innumeral sheathings yet to be shed1 before the soul grows the wings with which to soar to the celestial realms1 where ,love reigns supreme4 ,love is the only power on earth or in the spheres1 that can liberate us either from our own prejudices and hatreds and fears2 or from the limitations and attractions of the animal-man4 ,love is1 indeed1 the ,alpha and ,omega of ,life4 ,there is no other ,god but ,thee1 has been the cry of every race on this globe1 apostrophizing the unrecognized little baby-,god1 personified and presented to the race-mind as ,horus2 or as ,krishna1 or as ,christ2 but always it is ,love1 the ,invisible1 the ,beautiful ,one1 who is adored4 ,ingersoll with his wonderful gift of word-painting1 and inspired by that great love of humanity which characterized him1 has said3 ,love is the only bow on life's dark cloud4 ,it is the morning and evening star4 ,it shines on the babe and sheds its radiance on the tomb4 ,it is the mother of art2 inspirer of poet1 patriot and philosopher4 ,it is the air and light of every heart2 builder of every home2 kindler of every fire on the hearth2 it was the first dress of immortality4 ,it fills the world with melody1 for music is the voice of love4 ,love is the magician1 the enchanter that changes worthless things to joy and makes right royal queens and kings of common clay4 ,it is the perfume of that wonderful flower1 the heart1 and without that sacred passion that divine swoon1 we are less than beasts1 but with it--earth is ,heaven and we are gods4 ,it would be superfluous to state here1 that ,love has ever been recognized as the supreme prize1 lacking which all other gifts of life are worthless4 ,it is admitted that ,love is almost the only thing in this age of commercial supremacy which can not be bought4 ,though it may be bartered for4 ,although it be unreservedly admitted that ,love is the all-powerful and magic solvent which transmutes all baser emotions into the higher1 the general inference will be drawn that this type of love is not sexual4 ,it will be termed parental2 humanitarian1 self-sacrificing1 or altruistic love1 and the point may be taken that if humanity had developed nothing higher than the love which is manifested in the sex instinct1 the world would be a sorry one indeed1 since sexual love1 as we have witnessed its ascent from protoplasm to man1 has been1 in most instances1 a blind urge toward personal gratification1 not more lofty than the need of supplying the craving for food4 ,this is quite true of animals1 and of the lower types of animal-man2 not necessarily the earliest types of men1 but the lowest types1 which we still have with us but happily in decreasing numbers4 ,but even among animals we find evidences of something vague1 indefinite1 but insistent which leads the animal to exhibit what we term a tendency toward selection2 and in the animal also1 through the exigencies of sexual love1 we find parental love1 and here again we note a peculiarity which ascends also into the family life of humans1 namely1 that in some instances what we have called the maternal love1 the gentle1 care-taking1 guarding and protecting love1 is demonstrated by the male4 ,this is less common with the animals than with ,man1 but it is sometimes found and proves the existence of the evolutionary trend toward balance in the individual1 as well as in the family4 ,if maternal love were confined strictly to the female parent1 and the procreative instinct were the legitimate inheritance of the male only1 we could never hope for a perfect sexual union1 for the very cogent reason that the love of the male would never equal that of the female1 since our capacity grows by becoming diffused4 ,as the world stands today1 parental love takes a higher place in the life of the family1 and of the nation and of the race 7the family on a larger scale71 than does love of husband or wife2 and over and above even parental love we have been accustomed to place the love of ,god4 ,now we know that there are many who claim that their love of this abstract ,god supercedes that of love for their family1 but we may tacitly agree to take this statement as either an admission of fear of the ,unknown or the realization that there are heights and depths of the love-principle which they have not yet penetrated1 something to which the spirit soars4 ,they intuitively recognize that there is some perfected state to which we aspire1 else human love would never flower into its full possibilities4 ,and so when we declare that we love ,god above all other loves2 more than wife or husband2 children or parents2 we are but admitting that we realize in our interior nature that we have not yet loved any human being with as great a love as we are capable of4 ,if any one holds the mistaken idea--and it is one that is very generally held--that the perfect sex union can be attained by no finer phase of emotion than that expressed in procreation2 and that in order to develop the highest quality of sex-love1 he must eschew all other phases of manifestation1 and concentrate the forces of his being in the direction of sexual expression1 he will meet with dire defeat4 ,the laws of the cosmos cannot be broken4 ,we are constantly confronted with the admonition1 the child of ,fear1 to be careful not to break the laws of ,god4 ,we need not worry at all about the laws of ,god1 whether we call these ,cosmic ,law1 or ,nature1 or ,divine ,providence or something else4 ,our concern is with ourselves4 ,neither need we worry whether our neighbor obeys the moral code as we see it4 ,so long as he does not refuse to us our right to follow our own ideals1 we may permit him the same liberty4 ,god1 as manifested in the cosmic law of transmutation1 will take care of ,him-,her-,self4 ,morality can not be extinguished4 ,love cannot be killed by men4 ,we can only hurt ourselves in trying4 ,love is neither fickle1 capricious nor sly1 notwithstanding tomes of seeming evidence to the contrary4 ,love is the most perfect mathematician in the universe4 ,with whatsoever measure a man or a woman metes out love1 with that same measure it is returned4 ,neither is ,love blind4 ,love is depicted thus1 because he is not concerned with appearances1 but with realities4 ,he is not gazing without1 but within4 ,he is doing his best1 the poor little neglected ,love-god1 with the material at hand since he must fulfill the law of his being4 ,he seeks to unite lovers in their interior nature1 but as each of the would-be happy pair is bent on gazing without1 instead of within1 he is handicapped4 ,and when unhappiness follows1 they blame the blindness of ,love1 instead of realizing that ,he is depicted with a bandage over ,his eyes1 to indicate that ,love is an interior quality4 ,so too1 the ,egyptian ,god ,horus1 the ,god of ,love1 was depicted with his finger on his lips1 to typify the truth that true love is not noisy1 blustering1 jealous1 burning1 ranting1 protesting4 ,he is silent2 soft2 melting2 blissful2 magnetic2 uniting4 ,our noisy civilization1 seeking happiness in ,things1 mistakes protestations and appearances for realities1 and so modern marriages are consummated on this basis1 and the caricaturists have depicted ,cupid as having exchanged his love-darts for dollars1 but this is a slander on the little god who wouldn't know a dollar if he could see one4 ,it is not true that one knows what one sees2 one sees what one knows1 declared a clever ,frenchman1 and as the average modern bride and bridegroom are forced1 or think they are1 by modern standards of living1 to know dollars better than they know ,love1 their perverted vision sees ,cupid's arrows tipped with the dollar mark4 ,but even the dollar mark spells ,,us1 united1 and if they are indeed truly united in love1 wealth untold is theirs1 and if they are not thus united then indeed are they poor in happiness1 which is the only real poverty4 ,but even in the very failure to attain happiness in things1 married couples have learned or they are learning1 that there is an interior nature which must be considered if marital happiness is expected4 ,in all too many instances it may take many experiences and the road to the heights may for a time be lost but let us remember that ,love never faileth4 ,it has been said that love makes gods of men1 and we have taken this phrase as a charming bit of hyperbole1 whereas it is a literal truth1 because when two individual souls have rounded and balanced their natures by means of love1 they come together in an eternal union1 and are immortal2 in their flesh they have seen ,god1 and the pilgrimage is ended4 ,there is a phrase current at the present day1 belonging to slang1 that universal language of the masses1 the ,volapuk of the melting-pot4 ,it comes to us simultaneously with the affinity-wave and the soul-mate quest2 and it is both pertinent and timely1 although by no means always wisely applied4 ,it is the expression ,i have found my seek-no-farther2 he 7or she7 is the ,real ,thing4 ,life is a succession of experiences in the quest of immortality4 ,immortality would be a curse instead of a blessing if attained alone4 ,even the attainment of so unworthy an ambition as riches is a mockery if unshared by others4 ,fame is like a ruined and deserted castle to the one who has achieved it1 unless there be the one other to share it4 ,even the philosopher1 the philanthropist1 the humanitarian1 he whose love nature is supposed to find satisfaction in making others happy--can not realize the completeness and fullness of joy1 unless there is the one mate with whom he may share his altruistic work2 or lacking this1 he looks to the ,life ,beyond for the completeness which he does not find here4 ,renan says3 ,one reason why religion remains on such a material plane for many is because they have never known a great and vitalizing love2 a love where intellect1 spirit and sex finds its perfect mate4 ,verily1 love is the only vitalizing power in the universe2 and when denied the interior union which should exist between a conjoining pair1 ,love does the best ,he can1 and infuses into the relationship as much of the divine nectar as they will accept4 ,there is no impure love4 ,i repeat3 ,there is no impure love4 ,the impurity is in the mortal mind of man1 obstructing his vision until he fails to see the purity of that which fain would lift him from the ,slough of ,despond to the ,heights of ,bliss4 ,if love be always pure1 if it be always the uplifting1 unifying1 constructive power of the universe1 what becomes of the apparent fact that men have sinned for love of woman2 that for love of man1 women have lost their self-respect1 their hope of ,heaven2 and have sunk to depths below that of the brute creation8 ,what becomes of the all too many instances where human nature appears to love vice2 to be under the spell1 as it were of a passionate love for all that is ignoble and defiling8 ,how1 then1 can we say that love is always pure when it leads to such disaster8 ,love never leads to disaster1 though love may follow wheresoever the erring mind of man leads1 and thus ,love is all too frequently dragged from his true place of exaltation1 and brought into the arena of human conflict4 ,love is no fighter2 ,he never opposes2 ,he only concurs2 ,he unites if there is anything with which he can establish an affinity of union4 ,egoism is the arch-enemy of love1 selfishness is the manifestation of egoism4 ,selfishness seeks to possess2 it is selfishness that causes a man to commit crime1 in order that he may bedeck the woman he loves with jewels and fine raiment4 ,he is buying her bodily presence with the baubles which he vainly believes will bind her to him2 and he must be taught the lesson of the ,yoga sutras not this way2 not this way2 and the more worthy he is of redemption1 the more certainly will he be caught in the trap of his own making1 lest he really perish2 whereas by seeming defeat1 outward defeat1 he may learn the true path of inwardness4 ,certainly ,love is the only guide to whom he may safely trust his redemption4 ,if a woman really sinks into the depths of degradation through what appears to be love1 it is because selfishness and vanity have temporarily supplanted ,love4 ,but there is another side to the question4 ,society has very erroneous ideas of success and failure2 and in looking at these opposite ends of the same pole1 ,society may be standing on it's head4 ,a story illustrative of this inverted view of success is worth repeating4 ,a young ,englishman of aristocratic family1 tired of the inanities of social life1 and denied the privilege of entering the commercial world1 emigrated to the ,south ,seas4 ,it was reported at home that he had married a native ,samoan woman and was living the simple life of the ,islanders4 ,english society1 when his name was mentioned at all1 spoke of him with hushed voices and with a what a pity y' know manner as of one who had sunk below the depths of ordinary failure4 ,subsequently a friend visited ,samoa and found the young man enjoying life and evidently supremely content4 ,in the course of conversation the visitor chanced to speak of a mutual friend who had been rather wild in the days when they both knew him1 and thinking to impart agreeable news to the exile1 the visitor eagerly assured him that ,sir ,arthur is respectably married and settled down now whereupon the self-constituted exile commiseratingly responded with3 what a pity2 and he was such a decent sort1 too4 ,so we may see that there is much in the point of view4 ,happiness is the final test of success or failure2 and we may trust this test1 because no one can be happy in any other than the progressive1 upward-trending life4 ,dissipation has never been a satisfactory substitute for happiness4 ,wealth is valueless to the possessor if it shuts out love2 and if love be present1 wealth holds but an inconsequential place4 ,however it be1 the pathway of ,love is long2 and between the force of attraction which unites two atoms in chemical affinity1 and the union of two perfected human beings1 in whom ,love and ,wisdom are balanced1 there are many degrees of the manifestation of ,love1 and the question inevitably arises what shall we do with those marriages that are not yet perfect8 ,if1 as here premised1 there is in the entire universe but one mate for each man and each woman2 and if the union of perfect mates is the only truly spiritual union2 if this union precludes the possibility of temptation in any other direction1 what is to be done with all the marriages which we know to be imperfect2 wherein it is evident that soul-union is not present8 ,are they immoral1 and are they to be abandoned8 ,and is marital infidelity in such instances immoral8 ,it is4 ,infidelity is always immoral1 because all deceit and deception and dishonesty are immoral4 ,let us see what constitutes infidelity1 irrespective of marriage4 ,infidelity is to be unfaithful to a trust imposed2 to betray a confidence2 to break a promise4 ,this is the abstract definition and it is the only definition that will withstand analysis1 whether applied to the marriage vows or to other promises and pledges4 ,obviously the answer to this question1 then1 is to either not impose upon oneself or upon another vows2 or1 if we do so impose1 not to break them2 but if vows are not to be broken1 they may1 thank ,heaven1 be dissolved4 ,and surely the marriage ceremony of the future will not impose vows or promises1 because intelligent men and women must rise superior to the necessity for bonds and promises4 ,a marriage ceremony is1 even at its very highest1 when the contracting persons are spiritually mated1 nothing more than announcement to the society of which they are members1 of the fact of their mutual agreement to live outwardly1 as well as inwardly1 in sexual union4 ,we make too much of the marriage ceremony and too little of the fitness for marriage4 ,the business of the clergyman is altogether too much confined to seeing whether a couple is respectably bonded1 and altogether too little as to whether they are spiritually united4 ,possession6 that is the word that spells unhappiness1 in married life2 each wants to possess the other2 neither one tries for the spirit of union4 ,possession cannot be divorced from deceit4 ,vows and promises challenge us to keep them1 and because our pathway leads upward to freedom1 we constantly find these vows and promises staring us in the face and daring us to advance4 ,we must substitute mutual confidence for vows4 ,vows are childish and puerile4 ,if we cannot keep faith without vows then are we sadly lacking in faith and should cultivate it by offering to others the freedom of action we would have ourselves4 ,when the time comes1 as it will1 that a husband and wife can talk it over in a friendly1 mutually helpful frame of mind1 when either one is attracted by another1 there will be no further opportunity for infidelity2 and the sooner we rid the world of a belief in sin and immorality1 the sooner will ,love reign4 ,it is said of the sages of ,india that they can live in the jungles and the ferocious tigers will not harm them2 how do they accomplish this8 ,they have disassociated themselves from ferocity4 ,they do not desire to crush or kill the tiger4 ,their minds are so filled with love and compassion that there is no point of connection between them and the destructive instinct in the beast4 ,when we get away from the fear of impure love2 when we get away from the tremendous load of belief in evil which keeps the back bent and the eyes lowered to the dust1 we will be ready to meet the pure and perfect love when it comes2 and when we are fit for it we will meet it and when we have found this pearl of great price1 all doubt and fear1 all jealousy2 all dissatisfaction will vanish4 ,there will be no fear of losing each other4 ,the union is an interior one1 and even though seas divide and mountains vast1 rear their proud crests 'tween thee and me1 the call of soul to soul will be felt and answered4 ,byron says3 ,there are two souls of equal flow1 ,whose gentle streams so calmly run1 ,that when they part--they part8 ,oh no1 ,they cannot part1 those souls are one4 ,with a sentiment such as this between two beings1 what need for vows and promises1 and bonds8 ,it is customary for writers on the sex question to emphatically1 even feverishly1 emphasize the fact that they have no intention of implying that they would do away with the bonds of matrimony2 and although this conclusion is inevitable where one's intellect is active and the faculty of deduction brought into play1 yet the false modesty that prevails and the prejudices that blind the eyes of the multitude1 and above all1 the tendency of the undeveloped race-mind to impute personal motives to such as would1 if permitted1 lead them to a freer1 and consequently a purer life1 impel the writer to deny that which is1 finally1 the very point at issue4 ,in the interest of ,truth1 we are compelled to state that we would do away with bonds4 ,we would substitute therefor mutual agreements1 subject to renewal or repudiation within certain defined and mutually helpful conditions4 ,vows and bonds and oaths are the crutches of the crippled human race4 ,we need not always walk lame4 ,it may be argued that man is still largely animal2 yes1 but the surest way to keep him so is to treat him like an animal4 ,if we remind him that he is also a man and that he may be a god2 and if we point out to him the way in which he may accomplish this transmutation1 no man has so little intelligence that he will not attempt to follow1 when assured that ,god-hood means a bliss so great that he can hardly imagine it2 that it means cessation of the endless round of births and deaths from which ,gautama1 the ,buddha1 sought to free himself4 ,mankind has always been promised immortality through spiritual union--with what8 ,an abstract principle called ,god1 or ,aum or any other impersonal formless all-inclusive ,being8 ,no1 but with his mate4 ,on this point we trust that there will not remain any obscurity4 ,there is no higher ,god than ,love4 ,there is no higher love than sexual-love in its highest manifestation4 ,the more we truly love1 the more love flows into and through our consciousness1 until from a tiny little pearly drop of the wine of life we ascend to the ,olympian ,heights and imbibe floods of the nectar of the ,gods4 ,even the libertine1 that pauper in the realm of ,love1 wants the perfect life4 ,his soul is forever hungry for that which he gropingly tries to catch and chain and possess2 and which by virtue of these same desires will evade him until he ceases thus to seek1 and instead of demanding possession of the object of his desires1 he asks for union4 ,union is interior2 possession is always and ever limited to exterior contact4 ,they who would enter the sanctuary and defile the ,holy of ,holies are saved from such a load of self-inflicted sin2 they cannot if they would4 ,there is but one key which will open the golden gate to heaven4 ,the way chosen by the libertine is in exactly the opposite direction4 ,are all marriages that are not soul-mate unions immoral8 ,most certainly not4 ,are all unions that are not married immoral4 ,most certainly not4 ,we have made an attempt to define sexual immorality and we have concluded that as yet there is no absolute standard in civilized or uncivilized ethics1 since1 as ,letourneau points out1 what is immoral in ,pekin or ,calcutta may be moral in ,paris or ,london4 ,truth is adherence to facts in whatever section of the world4 ,tolerance2 sympathy2 charity2 may be clearly defined wherever we roam4 ,sexual immorality has no stable standards4 ,we here suggest one and submit that it is the only one possible of universal concurrence4 ,it is based upon personal freedom4 ,wherever the sexual relation is made a convenience2 or where either one marries in the face of his or her own realization that there is no love bestowed1 that relationship is immoral4 ,thus1 it will be seen that sexual immorality is independent of marriage1 and cannot be estimated by law4 ,marriage for money2 for position2 for convenience2 for anything other than a desire for mutual helpfulness1 is immoral4 ,indulgence in the sexual act for selfish gratification without regard to the welfare of each other2 for money2 or pastime2 or for any motive other than a reverential expression of an unselfish love1 is immoral and is a prostitution of the divine office of sex4 ,but1 though not all sex relationships can be perfect and eternal1 yet all may1 if we desire1 be moral4 ,and all moral and sexual relationships must1 and will1 lead to perfect sex-union1 whenever the time comes that either one is ready for the completement4 ,this truth need not1 and will not1 disrupt any happy marriages4 ,if the ,church had not made the mistake of teaching the fallacy that sex-love is a strictly earthly or mortal function1 divorcing ,sex from pure love2 and if the ,theology had not tried to substitute the love of1 and union with1 an abstract ,creator for love of mates in soul-union1 perhaps there would be exhibited less impatience of the restraints of marriage4 ,but with a cat-and-dog married life on the one hand and the prospect of an inane1 blank1 and sexless union with an abstract ,god-idea on the other1 it is small wonder that mortal consciousness has rebelled1 and has decided to take its chances with ,hell1 rather than to forego the happiness which is intuitively sensed as being the direct prerogative of perfect mating4 ,if this ,god-idea had not been presented as an eternal1 unescapable finality1 there might have been hope2 but to fly about a throne endlessly1 night and day1 singing1 ,i want to be nothing2 nothing2 only to lie at ,his feet--the prospect appalls6 ,small wonder that the conclusion has been deduced that life is too short for anything like domestic misery1 when domestic happiness is the only happiness we know1 and that is to cease at death6 ,but1 if we take the truthful view of marriage and of heaven2 if we realize that mortal life is ,experience2 that as we learn by experience1 we acquire knowledge2 as we accumulate knowledge1 we begin to glimpse wisdom2 and that when we have sufficient ,wisdom and sufficient ,love1 we graduate into the classification of ,god-hood1 immortality2 and that immortality means union with our mate2 sex-union1 in all that constitutes its highest and most satisfying aspect as we know it1 with infinitely more of beauty and love and bliss1 there is an incentive to aspire4 ,love is the only way that immortality can be attained4 ,it cannot be taken1 like degrees of secret societies4 ,it cannot be purloined1 or feigned4 ,fear has never made people good4 ,the doctrine of punishment has never deterred the sinner4 ,even in his apparent acceptance of the doctrine of sin and of consequent punishment1 the poor sinner has known better4 ,humanity has progressed in spite of the fear that has dwarfed our stature4 ,in the new day1 with hope ahead and fear transmuted into a wise patience1 this earth may yet be a fit dwelling-place for the gods4 ,leigh ,hunt says3 ,love is a personal proof that something good and earnest and eternal is meant us2 such a bribe and foretaste of bliss being given us to keep us in the lists of time and progression2 and when the world has realized what love urges it to obtain1 perhaps death will cease and all the souls which love has created crowd back at its summons to inhabit their perfected world4 ,we are prone to consider such statements as only so many beautiful words--elusive1 ethereal1 and descriptive of something that is always in the future2 but if it be always in the future it will never be ours2 we cannot catch up with it2 and thus it becomes a mockery4 ,these prophetic utterances are literal truths4 ,let us confide to you a little secret3 ,we are as much spirit now as we will be when death has unloosed the bindings of our disguise--the body4 ,the real of each of us is what we are now1 in our interior nature4 ,while we are building the business which sustains our physical body2 while we are studying law or medicine or philosophy or religion or whatsoever1 we are at the same time developing the interior nature which we are now1 and which we will be when the life of the body ceases4 ,not all business men are alike1 and yet1 if business were their only reality1 they must needs be all the same for employing the same methods4 ,not all doctors are alike although they graduate from the same school of medicine4 ,the inner entity that we are1 stands or falls in the final test1 by the motives2 the desires2 the sentiments2 the sympathies2 the generosities2 the forgiveness2 the kind impulses2 the pities2 the charities2 the tolerances2 we feel while we are apparently engrossed in the outer life4 ,together1 these little impulses1 perhaps forgotten in the rush of the day's seemingly important business affairs1 come finally to be the ladder by which we climb to the spiritual heights where the bliss of true and perfect1 melting1 merging1 liquid-love1 of the one and only mate awaits us4 ,one thing more4 ,this also is a secret4 ,perhaps you will not even believe it1 but it is true3 ,poets are the practical members of our crazy civilization4 ,business men are practical only when they are also1 and above all1 idealists4 ,,chapter ,,xi ,,the ,,law ,,of ,,transmutation ,external life is a succession of picture blocks with which we have builded our thoughts into shapes and forms manifest to the mortal senses4 ,but back of every act there is the invisible ideal which prompted it1 so that to the one who has the interior vision2 one who looks at life from the citadel of his own interior nature instead of merely sensing it by external contact1 every material thing tells its interior story2 everything has an esoteric or occult meaning4 ,it is said that mystic truths have been veiled in symbolical language2 but to those who know the language of symbolism1 there is no veil2 what seems so is due to the refractory character of the mind which is limited to sense consciousness4 ,there are two words much used in this day of the ,dawn which give the key to the trend of the cosmic cycle upon which the earth has entered4 ,the word union1 or its equivalent1 enters into almost every phase of our busy life as well as into ethical and philosophical thought4 ,this word1 with much that it stands for1 has superseded the word agreement1 or combination or partnership1 formerly used4 ,union means something more interior1 than do these other words1 even when applied to commercial issues4 ,the business man says to his partners let us unite on this question4 ,they are already partners1 but unless there is a unity of thought and ideals1 their partnership is an unsatisfactory and unfruitful one4 ,we have labor unions which are intended to suggest a solidarity of effort2 a merging of interests2 a welding together into one thought-force1 of those who enter the organization4 ,the fullness of meaning of this word union is not adequately expressed in the words lodge1 or club1 or any of the terms used to designate an organization of men in social or commercial combination4 ,in union there is strength2 but in partnership1 or in clubs1 there may be no quality of union1 although there is the outward bond of fellowship4 ,i shall look into this we say when we want to know more of a subject than appears on the surface4 ,we want to know the within4 ,we want to fathom the interior meaning2 to get below the surface1 or the appearance of it4 ,this is the other word of vital import--the word within4 ,we see it everywhere like a signpost directing our footsteps toward home4 ,the ,master ,jesus said that the immortal kingdom was within1 but the ,christian world evidently has not believed ,him4 ,he also told those who would listen to ,him1 that there was but one commandment that was truly spiritual1 but as he did not come to destroy anything that existed1 but only to transmute it1 ,he paid no attention to the commandments already in vogue1 but contented ,himself with a repetition of the one and only commandment of the ,father-,mother ,god ,principle which begat him3 ,that ye love one another4 ,now we are being told from the housetops and from the streets and through all the channels of the physical senses to look within4 ,that which you are--not what you appear to be to the eyes of the sense-conscious--but that which you are in your interior nature1 is what counts to you4 ,the writer who writes because he is paid to write salable stuff1 harps upon the necessity for efficiency in the commercial game2 but when the word is impartially considered efficiency consists in the long run in reliability1 and reliability is measured by one's honesty2 integrity2 square-dealing2 wise judgment--interior qualities all4 ,it matters not whether the skin be white or black or brown or yellow or green2 whether you are of imposing stature or but four feet tall2 it is what you are within that constitutes true efficiency4 ,so the kingdom whatever it may be whether of heaven or hell2 of love2 or of power2 or of ambition2 the kingdom is within4 ,the source of your power is in the interior of your nature4 ,if we go to slang1 which offers the line of least resistance to the ,cosmic ,law1 we find that the cue has been given over and over again to those who are interiorly awake to receive it4 ,you are not in on this1 has been said to one who was left out of some supposedly desirable thing2 or you are not in it1 meaning that you are not up to the required standard4 ,even as the walls of a building only imperfectly indicate the nature of that which is within1 that which the building stands for2 that which it symbolizes1 so physical appearances are symbolical hieroglyphs of the inner nature4 ,learn to look into the hearts of men admonishes the spiritual teacher4 ,as a man thinketh in his heart so is he4 ,the character of the heart is the test1 and though a man's lips utter words that are at variance with his inner nature1 yet if we have learned to look within1 we are not deceived4 ,this then is the key to the kingdom--interior vision4 ,words are like buildings2 like personalities2 they have their exterior and their interior message4 ,knowledge may be accumulated2 piled up like a mountain of possessions4 ,but knowledge may not bestow one grain of true wisdom4 ,it is only as we extract the interior message from knowledge that we attain wisdom4 ,we possess knowledge and we find wisdom1 when we have transmuted that knowledge into its interior meaning4 ,the fundamental difference between mysticism and theology is a difference founded upon this axiom4 ,the true mystic penetrates to the interior nature of manifestation and gets the message of ,experience4 ,mysticism excludes nothing4 ,it includes the manifest with the interior2 it penetrates the outer and seeks the interior2 but never does the true mystic confound the spirit with the letter2 never does he mistake the external for the ,reality2 the symbol for the message4 ,suppose that what is generally called the practical side of life were the only reality4 ,what would be the inevitable conclusion of the thinker if he were to consider only the outer1 the manifest1 the visible results of a given achievement8 ,he would conclude that civilization is insane4 ,if we did not know with an intuitional grasp of truth that all this which we call marvels of achievement is symbolical of what ,man is in his interior nature1 it would be the veriest folly4 ,what1 for example1 is there in a modern sky-scraper indicative of man's advanced civilization8 ,with millions of acres of unused land1 it would be inconceivable folly to project into the inoffensive atmosphere twenty-eight stories of wood and iron merely to buy and sell the products of man's brain and hands4 ,but while our ,twentieth ,century feverish activities are ostensibly engaged in the external world1 they are symbolizing1 embodying1 teaching if we will but learn1 the fact of the evolution of man's interior nature4 ,sky-scrapers are indicative of the heights to which we are aspiring2 to which we are climbing2 air-ships only tell us that man in his interior nature--in his reality--is not a creeping1 crawling ,thing1 chained to the earth4 ,he may1 if he will1 soar into ethereal realms4 ,he has wings1 and if he so desires1 he may use them4 ,wireless telegraphy would be a much less consequential discovery1 did it not foreshadow the coming time when mind will speak to mind regardless of desert wastes and imponderable mountains that seemingly intervene4 ,wireless messages are the result of vibrations set in motion by means of a dynamo and received by an instrument attuned to a corresponding rate of motion4 ,but no dynamo ever invented has the power that is centered in the dynamic will of a human being4 ,brute strength is paralyzed into inactivity by the comparatively puny strength of a man4 ,the fierceness of the lion1 the tremendous force of the elephant1 give way before the potent power of ,man's desire--an interior quality4 ,do skyscrapers1 or air ships1 or wireless telegraph systems make us happier8 ,if they do1 is it not because of their ethical rather than their so-called practical value8 ,is it not because they prove to man his power to use the plastic material of the planet and control it to do his bidding8 ,rapid transit adds to convenience2 but above and beyond all the so-called practical valuation which can be put upon modern inventions and accomplishment is the message which these mechanical marvels present to the mind4 ,the message that man is not a machine2 that he is not a creature but a creator2 that he is not a miserable worm of the dust1 but a winged god4 ,greater than all the other benefits bestowed by modern mechanical marvels is the knowledge of each other which has resulted from intercommunication between nation and nation4 ,the great breeder of discord and the waste of hatred is the idea of segregation4 ,the man of the cave and the club feared his next door neighbor1 because he did not know him1 and the animal-man fears that which he does not know2 his imagination pictures the unknown one as something monstrous and dangerous4 ,intimacy will teach us that people of a distant country are like ourselves1 even though they may dress differently2 even though they may wear their hair an inch longer or shorter2 may eat a diet of nuts instead of meat2 may pray standing up rather than kneeling down4 ,upon such trifling and absurd differences as these are based our ideas of alien races and foreign nations4 ,annihilation of space and time accomplished by modern mechanical inventions has made us familiar with the interior life of other human beings and has compelled us to the knowledge that they have feelings1 emotions1 desires1 hopes1 aspirations1 and faults1 exactly like our own1 and thus will be established a bond of unity1 which will reach the heart of our neighbor4 ,if this bond of unity has not as yet been established1 it is because the majority of ,mankind are still only sense-conscious4 ,they have not yet assimilated the knowledge which the past few years has precipitated in such an avalanche that the slow-moving mind cannot keep pace with it4 ,but out of all this knowledge must come in due time the quality of wisdom4 ,wisdom seeks love as the only eternal reality4 ,not because ,god has commanded that we shall do so2 not because of a sentimental ideal1 but because any other course is futile1 foolish1 silly and does not get us anywhere as the slangologists rightly express it4 ,thus everything in the busy commercial world1 seemingly bent upon perpetuating external forms and systems1 is in reality a symbolic language of which unity and within are the pivotal centers4 ,these two words are really complementary1 because it is only with the interior nature that unity can be established4 ,we may conjoin2 combine2 contact2 cohere4 ,we may form partnerships1 corporations1 combinations from the outside4 ,these are external expressions of the interior desire for unity1 but union is of the interior nature only4 ,with the more intimate knowledge of each other which intercommunication between nations makes general1 each little segregated mass of human beings must sooner or later arrive at the conclusion that we are very much alike and that to get together on any proposition involving the welfare of all humanity is a much less costly and a far more satisfactory way of settling matters than by going to war over it4 ,not that this idea is yet fixed in the brains of the majority1 but there is creeping into man's cranium a faint thought that perhaps the survival of the fittest will be best maintained by peaceful methods2 an idea that honor can neither be maintained nor appeased by shedding blood4 ,this knowledge will bring us to the wise observation that fundamentally1 cosmically there is no place for enmity between nations and races and classes and the sexes2 that the whole conglomerated mass of hatreds and inherited enmities and segregated interests2 the absurd idea that one part of the world can permanently prosper by the enslavement of any part2 the undeveloped and savage ideas that underlie our civilization2 all these thought-concepts have no more reality in the cosmic scheme of things1 than have the picture-blocks of the child in the adult life4 ,the world has been living through a nightmare4 ,the warfare which belongs to the animal plane of ,man's evolving consciousness has been carried into the mental world as well4 ,not only do men fight like tigers in the jungles1 but they fight with tongue and pen as well1 using food products1 textile fabrics1 inventions1 mechanical devices and the creations of brains of men1 for their weapons4 ,but this type of warfare will not much longer survive4 ,mankind must choose between transmutation or annihilation4 ,hatred is self-destructive4 ,blind indeed must be those who can expect to escape this law4 ,they who use the sword shall perish by the sword4 ,how else can it be8 ,there is but one force4 ,if we use it to construct1 we are constructed4 ,if we use it to destroy we are destroyed1 since it is by the very nature of law that we become involved in that which we employ4 ,it is a simple sum in arithmetic4 ,we may either add or subtract4 ,if we add1 there is no limit4 ,if we subtract we ultimately wipe off the slate4 ,the fact is dawning upon an increasing number of thinkers1 that even as brain is superseding brawn in the marts of the world1 so there is still a finer and higher and better force1 so potential in its power that nothing can withstand its melting1 merging1 unifying motive4 ,that power is love1 without which though we have all else we are but as sounding brass and a tinkling cymbal4 ,even as the ferocious man-eating animals have disappeared from the earth2 even as the giant gladiators1 the mailed knights1 the erotic pomp and regalia of ,imperialism1 with their captives chained to their chariot-wheels2 the cruel despots1 the tyrannical masters and scourged slaves2 the bloody sacrifices1 the horrible games of the amphitheatres1 even as these one-time evidences of alleged civilization have passed away1 so too will time see the dissolution of our own false gods4 ,transmuted into pure and perfect love and peace and equality1 the power now misapplied in the work of hate and destruction1 will increase a thousand fold and be directed toward the maintenance of a balanced world--a world in which ,love and ,wisdom are united4 ,we are always fearful of changes4 ,the bat-like eyes of the multitude are blinded by the light of the sun4 ,why cannot we trust the ,cosmic ,law which has always given us a better ideal in the place of the decadent one8 ,if we prefer to use the word ,god1 then let us say why cannot we trust ,god8 ,in the external world1 then1 the idea that a part of this sphere is inherently antagonistic to another2 that men are born enemies2 that the female and the male must forever struggle for supremacy--all these ideas are disappearing4 ,unity is the password to the coming civilization4 ,if then we will accept this conclusion and apply it to our individual selves1 we will conclude that no function of the human organism should merit disapproval2 or be regarded as an enemy4 ,before we can arrive at a balanced and sane world without1 we must come to a balanced and sane state within our own organism4 ,we must know that the sex function1 the most vital of all the various expressions of life in the individual body as well as in the social body and the racial body1 is not an enemy with whom we must maintain unceasing warfare1 but a wise and trustworthy friend with whom we may safely co-operate1 neither repressing this vital force until we have conquered it and dragged it like a bleeding captive behind our chariot-wheels1 nor should we like the drug-slave become lost in the clutches of an abnormal appetite4 ,indeed1 as the forces of life become transmuted from the physical appetites to the finer1 and interior desires of the soul1 abnormalities and perversions of sex-force will be impossible4 ,sex-force is1 at the ,center of ,being1 unpolluted4 ,it is pure1 perfect and harmonious4 ,it is divine4 ,why8 ,because it is bi-une2 it is balanced4 ,in our present-day lopsided civilization1 we find that nearly every one is lop-sided1 and unbalanced4 ,alienists declare that almost every man and woman has some hobby or mania4 ,doubtless this is true4 ,an age of specialization would incline the race toward lopsidedness4 ,but the source of ,life is balanced2 if we come to the place where we consciously unite with that interior source we will no longer be unbalanced1 because the central source of life is ,sex1 and ,sex is1 at the center of the radius1 bi-une1 which is to say balanced4 ,there is no chance for sex supremacy1 for domination1 or dispute1 or jealousy4 ,there is equilibrium4 ,it is probable that to those who cannot compass the consciousness that equality does not mean identicalness this sort of balanced life will appear tame and tasteless4 ,few women perhaps and certainly fewer men can imagine a sex-union in which love is so great1 so over-powering and at the same time so perfect1 that there is no room for jealousy4 ,the average person believes that jealousy is inseparable from sex-love4 ,but even as our antediluvian ancestors could not imagine the mechanical miracles of the telephone and the telegraph1 so we fail to comprehend the infinite depth and intensity of our interior being until we come to the place where we awake from the sleep of the mortal and glimpse the heights of the immortal life4 ,no one can give to another this interior wisdom--this philosopher's stone1 by means of which all baser instincts are transmuted into the pure golden-tinted light of illumination4 ,he can but point the way and promise that the results are mathematically proportionate to effort1 and effort will be backed by individual desire4 ,we do not hold1 as do many writers dealing with the physiological side of the subject of ,sex1 that the sex function is primarily designed for purposes of procreation and that any other expression of sex is contrary to nature4 ,the essential function of sex is to vitalize4 ,procreation is one of the uses of sex-love1 but it is not its primary function4 ,until men and women have absolute control over their sex impulses they are still on the plane of sense-consciousness2 and as long as they remain only sense-conscious they miss the very thing that they seek4 ,all that is pleasureable in sex-contact that reaches any man or woman who is only sense-conscious is no more than a faint echo of the ecstacy of divine and perfect love which is known to the spiritual alchemist1 who has discovered the art of transmutation and thus found the key to the gate of eternal life4 ,as long as we remain limited to the plane of sense-consciousness1 old age is a blessing4 ,it compels transmutation of the love-nature into interior channels4 ,by the failure of the physical organism to express the sex-desires1 this force is given an opportunity to become transmuted into higher1 finer and more intense and beautiful thoughts4 ,it takes on whatever quality of soul we have acquired and it fosters that quality--be it much or little--so that we may not go into the interior realms a spiritual pauper4 ,even as our physical childhood is a prelude to mental adultship1 so old age1 our second childhood1 is a prelude to our soul adultship1 and the character of our old age period is prophetic of our state in the soul life4 ,there are some extremely aged persons whom we cannot1 if we have any degree of interior vision1 classify as old2 the youth and beauty and love-radiance of their interior nature is so potent that it shines through the worn and wrinkled garment that covers it2 and we know that when that garment shall have been removed by the hands of ,death1 that the soul will be clothed in radiant youth and beauty1 and light4 ,this is indeed the esoteric cause of the widespread repudiation of a mental recognition of age4 ,i am seventy years young says the man who hopes for eternal youth and life2 and if he says it from the standpoint of wisdom--the wisdom that knows himself an immortal soul fired by pure and holy spiritual love1 then indeed his words are truly symbolical4 ,but if he utters them merely in desperate defiance of organic decay1 they are empty and he will enter the after-life1 even as he leaves this one1 without having attained that which he craves4 ,this truth is an integral part of the cosmos1 from which there is no appeal2 no reprieve2 no immunity1 no respecter of persons4 ,the law is absolute and it is also just4 ,pure and perfect love is the price of immortal life4 ,there is no other coin of the realm4 ,but1 questions the initiate1 why cannot those who know1 if there be such in the world today1 give us this mystical formula8 ,why do they not tell us how we may reach this desirable state of spiritual sex-love1 which affords such divine happiness to those who find it8 ,the query is pertinent and the desire is natural2 the doubt of its reality is consistent1 yet we are constrained to say that in the very nature of such inquiry the disciple of the ,hidden ,wisdom voices his unreadiness for ,illumination4 ,the desire for self-gratification1 though right and natural to the sense-conscious plane1 is yet inimical to attainment of spiritual consciousness4 ,there is a spiritual message in the persistently inculcated doctrine of sacrifice4 ,it is not that a ,supreme ,being desires sacrifice1 or gifts1 or adulation1 or homage1 or worship1 or that any power glories in our unhappiness4 ,it is not that we may purchase any spiritual thing by giving up something which we prize1 but it is because our spirit becomes attuned to the central source of ,life by means of our willingness to perform what to the sense-conscious plane of existence seems a sacrifice4 ,he sought for others the good he desired for himself2 let him pass on is the ,egyptian phrasing of the ,golden ,rule1 and this states it as clearly as it can be stated4 ,yet should any one take this truism as an unfailing formula and expect to enter the golden gate of eternal life because of obedience to the letter of the pass-word1 he would fail4 ,altruism is2 it is not mere recognition of a word4 ,we may presuppose another natural and instinctive query3 ,if then only by union with one's true mate one can enter the bliss of eternal life and love1 should not we drop every other responsibility1 sever all ties of relationship1 give up wife or husband or family or work1 and search for the one perfect complementary1 finding which1 is found the answer to all life's problems8 ,again we can only say that the seeker would be disappointed4 ,we should remember the story of ,sir ,launfall4 ,returning from the unfruitful quest of long years for the ,holy ,grail 7the golden chalice71 he learned the lesson of ,truth from the beggar at his own door to whom he gave the cup of cold water without any consciousness of doing a good deed2 without hope of thereby finding the grail4 ,he who seeks with the selfish thought of securing for self any good will not find it though he should give away every farthing to the poor2 though he should never permit one unkind word to pass his lips2 though he should fast and scourge and deny the flesh2 kneel all day and all night in prayer4 ,as long as he holds to the thought of self and of obtaining something so long will he miss the attainment4 ,spiritual insight establishes two facts beyond cavil or dispute or reversion4 ,one is that ,god's laws cannot be broken4 ,we are not trying to say that they should not be broken2 or that they cannot be broken with impunity2 or that if broken we shall be punished4 ,they simply cannot be broken--they are unbreakable4 ,we cannot buy or sell or beg or steal or borrow or take as a gift1 or in any wise acquire immortal godhood1 except by attaining it any more than we can come to physical manhood or womanhood except by growing to it2 and by the same law no one can keep it from us2 neither priest nor scribe2 neither prophet nor inventor4 ,we are a law unto ourselves4 ,no one can break the law of your being any more than you can break that of another4 ,no power on earth or in the celestial spheres or in the intervening spaces can keep that which is our own from us4 ,wherefore then1 should we tear ourselves and each other with strife and jealousy and wounded honor and outraged marriage vows1 when either partner to a marriage contract sees fit to sever that relationship8 ,if you lose out in what you believed to be love1 be sure that the object of your desires was not yours to lose2 in all the spheres there is only one who is yours by divine right and no one can by any possibility usurp your place in the final issue2 and that place once found no one can oust you from it4 ,but remember what we have said in previous chapters of the word found2 it is from within4 ,how vain and how foolish it is to think that a power so stupendous1 so magnificent and so beneficent as to project this immense panorama of life2 to establish such marvelous diversity within such simple unity2 to bestow the bliss of love1 could make a mistake4 ,how puerile has been the teaching that we can sin against the ,eternal ,god4 ,we need not worry about the ,supreme and ,eternal ,power4 ,the dice of ,god are loaded4 ,our concern is with ourselves1 lest we imagine that we may cheat in the game of life4 ,we are self-centered1 free-willed2 immune from any possibility of offending the universe4 ,the whole problem of life and death1 in so far as it relates to our individual selves1 is up to us4 ,we can delay arrival at the goal of our desires2 we can dally by the wayside if we will4 ,only our own loss1 our own suffering1 our own unsatisfied longing shall punish us4 ,but who is so stupid that he would remain wandering in the bleak and barren desert1 when he might by a turn of his hand enter fields ,elysian and merge his soul into the boundless areas of infinite bliss and wisdom8 ,we should not imagine that death will do this for us4 ,death is nothing more phenomenal than withdrawing from one room to another4 ,the soul may strive on for ages through many incarnations4 ,only one thing can free it2 and that is love2 love for others than the personal self4 ,the broader and deeper the love nature1 the wider it reaches out to enfold in its tender protection all living things1 the more nearly divine we become1 and the sooner will we touch the area of the spiritual and attract our own4 ,it is evident that self-seeking even for so worthy a possession as one's own counterpart defeats the very effort4 ,we are not to seek2 we are only to prepare ourselves to be ready and worthy2 when we shall have done this1 nothing can withhold our own from us2 not though the two halves of the ,one ,being are separated by all the barriers which the sense-conscious race of men have erected between themselves and the bliss of ,heaven4 ,says ,emerson3 ,what is thine1 will gravitate to thee4 ,we need not therefore go about apprehensively fearful lest we lose that which belongs to us2 in so doing we are apt to keep our eyes glued to the earth1 thus forgetting that it is from the higher realms of vibration whence cometh our light4 ,says ,emerson3 ,o1 believe as thou livest1 that every sound that is spoken over the round world which thou oughtest to hear will vibrate on thine ear4 ,every proverb1 every book1 every by-word that belongs to thee for aid or comfort1 shall surely come home through open or winding passages4 ,every friend whom not thy fantastic will1 but the great and tender heart in thee craveth1 shall lock thee in his embrace4 ,and this because the great and tender heart in thee is the heart of all2 not a valve1 not a wall1 not an intersection is there anywhere in nature1 but one blood rolls uninterruptedly1 an endless circulation through all men as the water of the globe is all one sea1 and truly seen its tide is one4 ,here then are specific and trustworthy statements for the further enlightenment of the student of the problems of ,sex4 ,like algebraical propositions they prove themselves when correctly solved4 ,immortal godhood is attained by counterpartal union1 because the ,central ,source of ,life is bi-une4 ,immortality is our spiritual birthright1 but we must claim it if we would consciously realize this truth4 ,god is the bi-une creative principle1 and we are literally and in truth the image and likeness of this bi-une ,being4 ,not one hermaphroditic personality but a pair4 ,a pair is one whole1 even though each of the pair is distinct in form and diverse in temperament and qualities4 ,we are especially emphatic upon this point because there has been so much vague and speculative theorizing upon this definition of a bi-une ,being4 ,your perfect mate is distinctively masculine or distinctively feminine in sex as the case may be2 and he or she is your mate because of this perfection of distinctiveness4 ,our former ideas of femininity and of masculinity were faulty4 ,woman is not less but much more womanly1 if she has exchanged fear for courage2 deceit for truthfulness2 ill-health for vitality2 helplessness for helpfulness4 ,even as a man is more manly when he spares the nesting birds where formerly he ruthlessly destroyed2 when he unites protection with bravery2 when he knows sympathy from weakness2 when he combines sentiment with principle2 and gentleness with vigor4 ,no mortal can by any possibility break the laws of ,god4 ,therefore you are not to try to enforce your ideas of morality upon others4 ,who has constituted you book-keeper for the universe8 ,you are to concern yourself with establishing happiness upon this earth4 ,you are to see to it that your love is big and broad enough2 all-inclusive enough to wish to see every one happy from your immediate family to your far-off neighbor in ,central ,africa4 ,you need not worry about whether they break the moral code as you see it4 ,you are to render love and service to this world with all your heart and all your power2 if you do this1 you will reach the goal of your desires4 ,no mortal can by any other method than love and the service that is rendered through love seek and find the ,holy ,grail1 which is to say the bliss of spiritual union with his ,beloved4 ,therefore to fly from the responsibilities and the environment in which you are1 without regard to the welfare of others1 is to defeat your own quest2 neither do we claim that you should under all circumstances remain chained to a post like an unwilling captive1 poisoning your mind with resentment and hatred4 ,there is no one formula which fits all cases--other than that given in love and service4 ,the ,golden ,rule which tells us to do unto others as we would have them do unto us1 has another side to its shield1 and it may read ,do not permit others to do unto you what you would not do to them4 ,if you seek freedom from a specific environment from no other motive than personal selfishness1 you may be doing yourself an injury2 but if you are also doing an injury to others by remaining1 then you are doubly mistaken in your course4 ,the way of attainment is not easy1 although the formula is simple2 it may be briefly but concisely summed up in the vital and important word unselfishness4 ,not mine but thine also1 is the watchword of the wise in love4 ,not possession of the ,beloved ,one1 but union with him or her4 ,there is just one big world of difference between these two points of view4 ,more than that1 there is the difference of ,heaven and ,hell4 ,,chapter ,,xii ,,selling ,,the ,,thrones ,,of ,,angels ,great as may seem to the sense-conscious person the pleasure and satisfaction of owning some one1 or some thing2 of possessing and feeling a proprietorship in the one desired2 greater by a million-fold is the pleasure of union which is possible only to those who are themselves free1 and who in consequence desire freedom for all others4 ,this is a truth which the unwise cannot comprehend or concur in1 and which they will not believe or trust4 ,emerson says3 ,every personal consideration that we allow costs us heavenly state4 ,we sell the thrones of angels for a short and turbulent pleasure4 ,and finally1 as regards the sex-function1 we would like to impress upon every one1 though only those who are fit for the kingdom will understand the truth1 namely that the highest manifestation of sex-love is not localized in the organs of procreation4 ,the love that is of the soul fills the breast first of all1 and is only felt in the region popularly1 but erroneously1 supposed to circumscribe the sex-function1 as a secondary and by no means compulsory consideration4 ,when the sex force has become diffused throughout the entire being1 radiating from the solar man1 and permeating the mind and thus entering into the mortal body which is only a covering of the mind physical copulation becomes a well-trained servant of the will1 and is found to be a natural1 but yet secondary complement4 ,sex is not confined to the specialized sex-organs4 ,it permeates the entire being4 ,the person who has no conception of his reality other than as a physical entity has not so much as touched the area of spiritual ecstacy which has been alluded to as the nectar of the gods2 and so infinitely fine and perfect is the plan of ,creation that he can not do so until he is fit2 and never can he be fit as long as he remains upon the sense-conscious plane and seeks by sexual perversity and debauchery and sexual insanities to touch that exquisite perfection of joy which he intuitively knows evades him4 ,thus the sensual man is caught is a beneficent trap2 a wise and just and merciful ,power has so placed the ,holy of ,holies1 that it cannot be defiled2 it cannot be reached2 it cannot be desecrated4 ,it is forever removed from the touch of the unworthy4 ,no man can hope to express the creative power1 the sexual realization of a god1 through the functions which are not higher in consciousness than those of the animal4 ,would you attain to the status of the divine man8 ,if so1 do not imagine for a moment that the divine man is less vital than your puny physical powers would suggest4 ,neither should you imagine that the sex-function1 even in its lowest state 7lowest because most lacking in love-consciousness71 is anything but pure and clean and right and normal in itself2 the attitude of the average man and woman invests it with all its uncleanness4 ,but with all the vile thought which the undeveloped mind has indulged in respecting the sex-relation2 with all the man-made laws arrayed against it as though it were criminal1 and the teachings of the ,church denying its spiritual origin and perpetuation2 with women selling it in the public markets for their physical maintenance1 nothing less than the fact of the eternality and universality of ,sex1 as the divine fulcrum of manifestation1 can account for the fact that the poor little bi-une ,love-god is after all coming to be recognized as the hope and savior of ,mankind4 ,if you would have eternal youth and eternal life and love and wisdom1 accept this truth1 because nothing else can1 or will1 save you from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune4 ,another vague query presents itself to the would-be initiate1 and we would like to leave this chapter with no misunderstandings2 no misconceptions2 no misleading statements1 because that which we are here stating is not theory4 ,it is the one eternal1 undying1 simple and unescapable truth which has withstood the onslaughts of time and ignorance4 ,the query comes and although it has been answered in previous chapters we will again state it1 so that there may be no mistake3 ,if the balance is found in counterpartal sex-union--the one man and the one woman uniting on the solar plane--would not this balance be maintained if only one of the two reached the higher planes of consciousness2 in other words1 would not the balance be struck by extreme purity on the one hand and extreme impurity on the other8 ,again we are reminded that the law of the cosmos is wise2 that there are no mistakes nor flaws in the cosmic scheme4 ,the answer is that the union is one of complementaries1 and not of antitheses4 ,each one must be balanced1 the nature rounded1 the soul awake before union is possible4 ,thus we are saved from ourselves4 ,we cannot1 if we would1 really gain at the expense of another1 although in temporary things we may appear to do so1 because the rich grow richer at the expense of the poor2 the tyrant ruler maintains his power at the expense of serfs2 but doubt not that eternal equation is perfect4 ,there is still another query3 ,if true sex-union is of the soul1 what is to prevent soul-mates from finding each other at the moment of death1 regardless of their fitness for godhood1 and thus circumventing1 as it were1 the plan of ,creation1 which would compel each one to earn the prize of eternal life8 ,the same law governs the interior planes as the exterior4 ,the realization of consciousness is not a capricious matter any more than is the law of physical growth4 ,a man might be in the presence of untold wealth1 but if he had not the consciousness to know and realize values1 he would remain poor1 even though by a wave of his hand he might command millions4 ,one might give a blind man a check for a million dollars1 and if he had no others means of knowing what it was1 he might easily imagine it to be worthless4 ,death does not bestow wisdom4 ,wisdom is acquired4 ,love is a self-generator4 ,if you would follow the law of transmutation and acquire the throne of angelhood1 get busy within the laboratory of your own mind4 ,take the crucible of ,thought and begin to work interiorly upon the common1 everyday things that present themselves in your environment4 ,this is the only way of transmutation4 ,love grows by feeding upon itself1 and the sacrifices and the kindnesses that are bestowed in love without thought of personal benefit grow into the flood of golden light and love of the spiritual realms4 ,the chief virtue in any one's pursuit of philosophy1 or of esoteric wisdom1 and in methods of attainment1 is found in the fact that such effort is proof of earnest desire to attain4 ,emerson says that the principal benefit of a college education is to teach the student that he does not need a college education4 ,this estimate of the value of years of study seems at first glance a sarcastic one1 but it is not4 ,if this wisdom can be acquired in no other way1 then even so it were well worth the price4 ,if the student can learn that much love is the price of transmutation only after exhausting every other method1 what does it matter1 so that he finally learns it8 ,learn to look into the hearts of men4 ,at first sight1 everything on the busy city street is a part of a moving panorama2 but an intimate view1 when you get in touch with segregated parts of the panorama1 discloses the interior nature2 the hopes and the fears2 the aspirations and the longings and the heartaches and the joys of the entities composing the whole moving picture4 ,you notice a little female figure2 her cheeks are pinked to a hue rivalling the ,american beauty rose2 her lips are carmined like a clowns and her eyebrows penciled too obviously4 ,her cheap little dress is amateurishly cut in imitation of the latest4 ,your first impulse1 perhaps1 is to scorn her as a brazen creature of the streets2 but if you will suspend judgment and look a little closer1 you may see that her eyes are1 in their depths1 those of a child1 for all her seeming experience4 ,her brazenness is perhaps only the armor which she has donned to hide a turbulent heart--the dowry of centuries of grandmothers who longed for one glimpse of freedom2 of the right to comb their hair as they liked2 to powder their faces if they wanted to2 to run and jump and laugh and dance and be innocently free and happy without the fear of shocking that bugbear ,respectability1 and the tyrant ,decorum1 which insisted that a woman's legs must be carefully concealed on penalty of being adjudged immodest4 ,those poor reviled1 execrated and vigilantly-concealed legs of our fore-mothers6 ,they are crying aloud for vindication1 and they will be heard wherever the line of least resistance affords a channel for their freedom4 ,and so1 instead of blaming the poor little painted doll of a woman1 look into her heart4 ,you will discover that she is bent on having two things long denied womankind--freedom and happiness4 ,if she is foredoomed to failure on the route she has chosen1 that is all the more reason why you should withhold censure and give freely of your help and sympathy4 ,learn to look into the hearts of men4 ,learn to see beneath the appearance4 ,the old ,italian organ-grinder doing his best to please you with his wheezy hurdy-gurdy is not just an old organ-grinder4 ,he is also a man with emotions and feelings and longings and hopes identical in substance with your own2 no matter if the organ is out of tune4 ,learn to hear the spirit of the aria or the intermezzo4 ,and behold6 ,there is a bunch of noisy1 dirty1 slangy and bold street-arabs--at least that is what they look like from the outside4 ,but learn to look within4 ,there you will find the cause of their appearance1 and when you have found the cause you will sympathize with them4 ,if you can get back to the underlying cause of the manifestations of life1 you will never fail to sympathize with the condition you may find1 even though you find the cause rooted in crime4 ,you do not have to agree with the criminal in order to sympathize with his misery4 ,if you have the inner vision1 which you must have if you would transmute the baser metals into pure gold and find the key to immortal life and love1 you will never fail to understand and to sympathize with every point of view4 ,whoever walks a furlong without sympathy walks to his own funeral4 ,don't imagine for one moment that you have to go to the ,himalayas to find the inner vision2 or that you will obtain the key to the ,hidden ,mysteries by shutting yourself in a monastery4 ,wherever you are1 you must lose sight of yourself4 ,not the higher ,self of ,reality1 but the lesser self of the carnal1 or sense-conscious plane--the personality that conceals you4 ,and above all1 you are not to regard this personality as an enemy to be scourged and beaten and reviled4 ,it is1 or it should be1 a willing1 and helpful servant of your soul even as we say the hand is the servant of the brain4 ,if your hand becomes unruly and does not obey your brain1 train it to do so1 don't cut it off1 even though the ,bible does appear to tell you to--why should the men who wrote in that far-off time know more of ,truth than we of a later century8 ,you may imagine that you need to belong to some ,brotherhood1 in order to learn the secrets of alchemical transmutation4 ,there is nothing of the ,great ,wisdom which can be taught you1 which you cannot learn of yourself if you will look within and unite with the heart of the world4 ,there is no wisdom higher than love2 and there is no power greater than love2 and there is no heaven happier than love and there is no ,god holier than love4 ,if you will take this for your creed you will readily see that it is for you to think love into those things that appear to lack it2 think purity into those things that appear impure2 think unity into those things that appear separated2 and taking the lesson home to your own intimate conduct of life1 invest the expression of your sex with the pure and lofty and holy power ,god gave to it1 or refrain from the thought of sex until you can learn to do so4 ,says a modern writer3 ,if you are still so out of tune with the ,infinite as to harbor any thought of evil or shame in connection with the specialized organs and functions of sex1 let this illumination from on high cast that devil out of your cosmos forever4 ,and if you turn away with soul offended from even 'the slimy gendering of the toad1' you dishonor ,god who once knew no higher creative formula and still blesses it with ,his fruitful presence4 ,and finally do not make the too common mistake of confounding brazenness with freedom from shame and self-condemnation4 ,whatever of beauty and purity and joy has come to you in this life has come because of the divinity of ,sex4 ,if you have been wise enough to know this1 and have reverenced it and purified your mind in respect to that function of your being1 you will not cheapen it by parading the subject before those who have no idealism1 any more than you would cast pearls before swine2 you will not countenance jokes and ribald songs2 you will not indulge in promiscuousness2 but instead you will fold it within the sacred intimacy of your heart's divine altar1 as something too beautiful1 too holy for the garish light of the un-tender day4 ,if you have taken into your consciousness the divinity of ,sex1 you will desire unity and disdain possession1 knowing that whatever of ,heaven is vouchsafed ,mankind here is but a shadow of the reality of spiritual realization of the function of ,sex4 ,you will respect the physical body as the handiwork of the ,creative ,principle of the universe1 respecting the sacredness of human life and liberty4 ,you will teach the truth that the law of ,life is mathematically just2 that nothing will unlock the gates of ,eternal ,life and ,love1 except inward honesty2 fidelity2 unselfishness2 spiritual desire4 ,if we possess these qualities1 we are fit for the kingdom of ,love and we shall surely enter therein4 ,verily ,love transforms mere men into immortal gods4 ,,finis ,,the ,,swastika ,,series ,,have ,,you ,,read ,,how ,,thought ,,can ,,kill ,the ,scientific ,use of ,mental ,electricity4 ,by ,dr4 ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,the ,enlargement of ,consciousness4 ,the ,doctrine of ,free-,will4 ,thought ,is the ,building ,material4 ,the ,creative ,power of ,conscious ,thought4 ,experiments ,proving ,that ,thought ,can ,kill4 ,confessions of a ,trained ,nurse4 ,people ,who ,think ,god ,hangs ,out the ,sun4 ,action ,essential to ,creative ,principle4 ,the ,science of ,god's ,anger4 ,thought ,is of the ,universal ,supply4 ,why the ,number ,thirteen ,is ,unlucky4 ,how ,poison ,may ,be ,generated in the ,system4 ,thought and the ,cell-,structure of the ,brain4 ,why ,we ,fail in ,our ,efforts4 ,the ,spectrums of ,love and ,hate4 ,the ,power of ,imagination4 ,fear ,is the ,king of ,thoughts ,that ,kill4 ,parents ,make ,cringing ,weaklings of ,children4 ,how ,whole ,cities ,may ,be ,poisoned by ,thought4 ,case of a ,well-,known ,man ,killed by ,thought4 ,there ,is ,neither ,reward nor ,punishment4 ,the ,survival of ,that ,which ,is ,creative4 ,price #be ,cents ,send ,your ,order ,today ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,,the ,,swastika ,,series ,,have ,,you ,,read ,,personal ,,magnetism ,the ,power of ,persuasion ,by ,dr4 ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,,contents ,the ,philosophy of ,the ,survival of the ,fittest4 ,the ,power of ,persuasion4 ,effects of ,force ,law4 ,magnetism in ,professional ,life4 ,opinion of a ,noted ,actor4 ,what ,is ,personal ,magnetism8 ,different ,kinds of ,magnetism4 ,the ,human ,body an ,electrical ,machine4 ,will ,power the ,dynamo4 ,magnetism ,not ,necessarily ,good4 ,the ,law ,governing ,invisible ,force4 ,love the ,generator of ,soul ,magnetism4 ,necessity for ,understanding ,use of ,powers4 ,the ,body the ,medium of the ,soul's ,expression4 ,what ,constitutes ,success8 ,rules for ,acquiring ,personal ,magnetism4 ,spirit ,manifests ,only ,through ,matter4 ,fasting ,not ,wise4 ,psychic ,science ,teaches the ,study of ,,all ,,things4 ,the ,yogi of ,india4 ,individuality the ,one ,essential4 ,character ,indestructible4 ,price #be ,cents ,send ,your ,order ,today ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,,if ,,you ,,cannot ,,read ,,character ,,then--,,read ,,revelations ,,of ,,the ,,hand ,how to ,know ,human ,nature ,a ,scientific ,study of the ,shape and ,markings of the ,hand1 as an ,index to ,character1 ,disease and ,tendencies ,with ,explanatory ,illustrations4 ,by ,dr4 ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,the ,most ,practical ,,science ,,of ,,palmistry ,ever ,published6 ,,partial ,,contents ,,part ,i--,,cheirognomy4 ,chapter4 #a--,the ,seven ,types of ,hands #b--,the ,primitive or ,elementary ,hand4 #c--,the ,square ,type of ,hand4 #d--,the ,spatulate ,type of ,hand4 #e--,the ,conic ,type of ,hand4 #f--,the ,philosophic ,type of ,hand4 #g--,the ,psychic ,type of ,hand4 #h--,the ,mixed ,type of ,hand4 #i--,the ,fingers4 #aj--,the ,thumb4 #aa--,the ,nails4 #ab--,large and ,small1 ,hard and ,soft ,hands4 #ac--,the ,colour of the ,palms4 #ad--,the ,mounts4 #ae--,right and ,left ,hands4 #af--,resume of ,cheirognomy4 ,,part #b--;,,cheiromancy4 ,chapter4 #a--,the ,lines of the ,hand4 #b--,the ,line of ,life4 #c--,the ,line of ,mentality or ,head4 #d--,the ,line of ,heart4 #e--,the ,line of ,fate4 #f--,the ,line of ,apollo1 or ,sun4 #g--,the ,line of ,health or ,liver4 #h--,the ,girdle of ,venus4 #i--,the ,via ,lascivia1 ,the ,line of ,mars and the ,line of ,intuition4 #aj--,the ,line of ,marriage2 ,children4 #aa--,the ,rascette and ,minor ,lines4 #ab--,lines of ,influence and ,travel ,lines4 #ac--;,character of the ,lines4 #ad--,signs ,found on the ,palm4 #ae--,the ,great ,triangle and the ,quadrangle4 #af--;,how to ,reckon ,time4 ,systems of ,seven and ,ten4 #ag--;,abnormal ,tendencies4 ,,send ,,your ,,order ,,today ,,second ,,edition ,crown #hvo1 #bae pages1 profusely illustrated with full-page plates and numerous engravings1 silk cloth bound1 gold stamped1 #b4jj postpaid4 ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,,the ,,dead ,,speak6 ,,little ,,journeys ,,to ,,the ,,land ,,of ,,the ,,living ,,dead ,by ,dr4 ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,author of ,sex--,the ,unknown ,quantity1 ,the ,dead ,speak6 ,the ,swastika ,series1 ,etc4 ,we are living in an age of earnest inquiry and enhanced knowledge in respect to ourselves as spiritual beings1 and that great and wonderful ,universe of ,spirit to which we are inseparably allied4 ,the author is devoting his life to establishing better conditions on earth1 by bringing the two worlds into closer association4 ,no one can read this book with an unprejudiced mind1 without absorbing some of its grand and inspiring truth and be uplifted and made better by it4 ,chapter #a4 ,the ,advent of ,psychic ,research4 ,chapter #b4 ,the ,dangers in ,psychic ,research and ,how to ,avoid ,them4 ,chapter #c4 ,physical ,manifestations3 ,table-,rapping1 ,levitation1 ,etc4 ,chapter #d4 ,automatism4 ,chapter #e4 ,haunted ,houses4 ,chapter #f4 ,spirit ,interlopers4 ,chapter #g4 ,vampirism and ,astral ,hypnosis4 ,chapter #h4 ,prevision4 ,chapter #i4 ,the ,mystery of ,trance4 ,chapter #aj4 ,the ,mystery of ,dreams4 ,chapter #aa4 ,phantasms of the ,living4 ,chapter #ab4 ,the ,last ,enemy--,death ,overcome6 ,if you desire to acquire a knowledge of the ,,great ,,spiritual ,,awakening that has dawned upon mankind with the birth of the twentieth century--with a mind and heart open to those scientific and spiritual truths that are daily being proven by scientists and thinkers of world-repute--we take the liberty of reminding you there is no book more enlightening1 no work more appreciated1 no effort more powerful1 than this book4 ,there is a difference between this book and others upon the subject--it is not an ordinary chronicle of unconnected notations but a romantic story of extraordinary interest and value for the spiritual and scientific truths which set forth the most advanced knowledge of the deeper things of the ,soul so simply that any reader of ordinary intelligence can grasp1 comprehend and apply those laws whose values extend the usefulness of every ,truth seeker who is seeking light upon the ,,mysteries ,,of ,,life1 both ,here and ,here-after4 ,send ,your ,order ,today #abmo41 #bjj pages1 silk cloth-bound1 gold stamped1 with ,frontispiece1 #a4ej 7net7 postpaid4 ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,just ,published ,,cosmic ,,consciousness or ,,the ,,man-,,god ,,whom ,,we ,,await6 ,by ,ali ,nomad ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,author of ,sex--,the ,unknown ,quantity1 ,the ,dead ,speak1 ,the ,swastika ,series1 ,etc4 ,,read ,an ,exposition of the ,peculiar ,phenomenon ,which ,is ,puzzling ,science3 ,its ,analogy to the ,mystical ,phenomena of the ,brahm1 ,zen and ,other ,oriental ,sects2 ,its ,meaning and ,its ,future4 ,with ,simple1 ,concise and ,thoroughly ,practical ,methods of ,inducing the ,phenomenon4 ,presenting a new and startling theory of the meaning and scope of the prophecy current among the ancients and revived at the present time1 of the coming of a new ,christ2 the prophecy elucidated and explained in the light of ,to-day2 what it means and what it will lead to4 ,,second ,,edition #abmo41 #cga pages1 cloth1 gold stamped1 #a4ab postpaid ,,send ,,your ,,order ,,today ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,,the ,,swastika ,,series ,,have ,,you ,,read ,,proofs ,,of ,,immortality ,the ,scientific ,revelation of ,natural ,laws ,prove the ,continuity of ,life ,by ,dr4 ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,,contents ,,proofs ,,of ,,immortality ,if ,man ,die ,shall ,he ,live ,again8 ,the ,invisible ,something ,that ,survives ,death4 ,a ,case ,that ,will ,bear ,quoting4 ,seeing ,through ,opaque ,substances4 ,faith ,is ,not ,fact--,evidence ,not ,proof4 ,proof ,must ,rest ,upon ,individual ,experience4 ,the ,psychic ,body ,basis of ,organism4 ,all ,life ,is ,manifested in ,form4 ,science ,stands for ,axioms ,that ,may ,be ,proved4 ,price #be ,cents ,send ,your ,order ,today ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,,the ,,swastika ,,series ,,have ,,you ,,read ,,ghosts ,the ,message of the ,illuminati4 ,by ,dr4 ,alexander ,j4 ,mc,ivor-,tyndall ,founded ,upon ,henrik ,ibsen's ,psychological ,masterpiece ,,the ,,ghosts ,,we ,,meet ,,every ,,day ,the ghosts we meet on the street2 in commercial and social life4 ,ghosts of dead ideas2 ,ghosts of fear2 ,ghosts of false standards of morality2 false ideals of living4 ,price #be ,cents ,send ,your ,order ,today ,,chicago1 ,u4 ,s4 ,a4 ,,sterling ,,publishing ,,company ,,transcriber',s ,,notes #a4 ,passages in italics are indicated by underscore4 #b4 ,the following misprints have been corrected3 attaing corrected to attaining 7page #ab7 ,morever corrected to ,moreover 7page #fg7 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