,,love--,,m>riage-- ,,bir? ,,control ,be+ a ,spee* deliv]$ at ! ,*ur* ,congress at ,birm+ham1 ,octob]1 #aiba3 ,,) ,a ,,=eword ,,by ,,"l ,,dawson ,,( ,,p5n ,illu/ration3 logo ,london ,,nisbet ,,co4 ,,ltd4 #bb ,,b]n]s ,,/reet1 ,w4#a ,fir/ ,publi%$ ,janu>y1 #aibb ,repr9t$ ,janu>y1 #aibb ,repr9t$ ,febru>y1 #aibb ,repr9t$ ,april1 #aibb ,all rights res]v$ ,,=eword ,at ! ,*ur* ,congress held ?is autumn at ,birm+ham ,i 0 hon\r$ by an invitation to speak on ,sexual ,relation%ips4 ,! subject-matt] ( t spee* has ar\s$ widespread int]e/ & "s controv]sy4 ,x is be+ publi%$ 9 response to num]\s reque/s & because mo/ ( ! reports1 be+ ( necessity cond5s$1 inadequately & ev5 9 "s in/ances incorrectly set =? ! views ,i endeav\r$ to *ampion2 = any spee* on a subject s difficult to h&le ne$s to be read 9 its entirety if misappreh5sions are to be avoid$4 ,& fir/1 may ,i ?ank num]\s correspond5ts2 & ^? 9 disagreem5t equally ) ^? 9 agreem5t ) me4 ,"o & all !y be> te/imony1 if inde$ su* 7 ne$$1 to h[ widespread & responsible is ! int]e/ on ?is "q1 & !re=e to ! wisdom ( its full consid]ation4 ,among/ ! lett]s are intimate human docum5ts :i* pa!tically disclose1 z does pr(essional exp]i5ce1 h[ frequ5tly happ9ess is m>r$ by ignorance ( ei!r ! pr9ciples or ! me?ods :i* %\ld condition ! true conception ( sexual relation%ips4 ,i elect$ to deal ) ^! relation%ips 9 _! heal?y r ?an _! morbid aspects1 because ! /udy ( heal? is a sure way to less5 disease4 ,m]e d5unciations ( evil s]ve b small purpose4 ,! aim ( /atesman%ip is r to seek out causes & pond] ov] rem$ies1 & prom95t among rem$ies is surely ! /udy ( ! significance & purport ( sex love 9 a well-ord]$ & ,*ri/ian community & provision = its heal?y outlet4 ,to ?is ! fir/ "p ( my spee* 0 devot$4 ,! view !re upheld has br\ght =? a l>ge measure ( agreem5t & no reason$ disagreem5t4 ,! second "p ( my spee* deal+ ) bir? control 7or :at 9 /rict accuracy %\ld be call$ conception control7 has ar\s$ m controv]sy1 b ,i v5ture to ?9k t "s1 at lea/1 ( ! criticism direct$ aga9/ my argum5t w disappe> ) a p]usal ( ?is full text ( my spee*4 ,!re9 w be f\nd condemnation ( inf]tile m>riages & a /rong plea t *ildr5 are ess5tial to ! heal? & happ9ess ( man & woman1 are necess>y to ea* o!r & ( vital importance to ! nation4 ,! diff]5ce betwe5 my critics & myself is n z to ! vital necessity ( ! family foll[+ m>riage1 b r ?is--!y w\ld l to see ! l>ge families preval5t fifty ye>s ago re/or$ 7& :]e means & circum/ances are fav\rable1 su* l>ge families may be ! s\rce ( mu* happ9ess72 :]eas "u pres5t-day conditions ,i %\ld reg>d !m z seldom atta9able & desirable1 & w\ld fav\r small] families ( *ildr5 born at pr$et]m9$ int]vals4 ,a m>ri$ c\ple :o h produc$ f\r *ildr5 9 tw5ty ye>s _c be said to h ignor$ ! precept be fruitful & multiply & repl5i% ! e>? because !y h s select$ ! times = ! conceptions ( _! *ildr5 z to enable !m to give ^? *ildr5 a bett] upbr++ r ?an h selfi%ly left ! sequ5ce ( _! (fspr+ to bl9d *ance4 ,! argum5t t ! nation %\ld fo/] l>ge families 9 ord] m quickly to p ! unt5ant$ portions ( ! ,empire1 & s add to ! /r5g? & weal? ( ! ,briti% ,dom9ions1 requires s]i\s att5tion1 n 9 isolation1 b 9 conjunction ) o!r consid]ations1 & calls =? v>y+ op9ions f economi/s4 ,on ! o!r h&1 emigration into =eign l&s w\ld seem to be a s\rce ( weakness to a nation4 ,! fe$+1 clo?+ & educat+ ( a "y ,briton co/ ! nation a def9ite sum ( money1 say1 ,l#djj2 if at ! age ( tw5ty1 :5 he is ready to produce1 t "y ,briton emigrates to a =eign /ate1 he is a def9ite loss to ! c\ntry ( 8 bir? & ! c\ntry ( 8 adoption is ! ga9]4 ,f ano!r /&po9t ! criticism is made t ,i h n urg$ ! p>am\nt necessity ( dim9i%+ ! population ( ^! isl&s4 ,) ! economic s\ndness ( ?is view o!rs are bett] fitt$ to deal1 b no economic consid]ations w\ld outweigh ! importance ( *ild life inspir+ ! homes ( ! l&1 & if ! numb] & sequ5ce ( *ildr5 c be regulat$ by ! p>5ts' circum/ances1 ^! homes w increase 9 numb]1 w />t :5 p>5ts are y\ng] & conf] great] b5efits alike on ! family & ! ,/ate4 ,if ne$ be1 ! ,/ate c\ld grant a progressive rebate ( taxation1 & educational facilities = ea* ( ?ree *ildr5 born aft] ! second & :]e ! fa!r is tw5ty-five ye>s ( age or upw>ds4 ,x is held by "s t artificial bir? control is contr>y to ,*ri/ian morals4 ,?is is ! view firmly held by ! ,roman ,ca?olic ,*ur*1 & s9ce ! gov]nance ( ! ,roman communion is bas$ on au?ority1 its decisions are b9d+ on its memb]s & comm& our respect4 ,b pron\ncem5ts ( ,prote/ant communions d n owe _! =ce to au?ority1 b to ! conviction !y c>ry 9 ! m9ds & consci5ces ( _! p1 & no cle> scriptural sanction = ! condemnation ( bir? control has be5 giv51 nor does ! report ( ! ,lambe? ,conf]5ce v\*safe any reasons :y x is physically & morally h>mful4 ,a di/+ui%$ prelate ( our ,*ur* has *>act]is$ ! views h]e9 set =? z v ungu>d$4#a ,if by t expression he means c>eless1 he _c h done me ! hon\r ( read+ my spee*1 :i*1 :atev] its dem]its1 be>s ample evid5ce ( c>efully consid]$ ?\ght & expression4 ,if by ungu>d$ he means outspok51 ,i w plead ju/ification4 ,= is x n "t t a "q :i* deeply conc]ns n only ! ?\ght1 b ! practice ( ! ?9k+ portions ( communities %\ld be fully consid]$ & its /r5g? & its weakness disclos$ by full discussion8 ,! _w looks to its lead]s = reason$ guidance1 n = ass]tion :i* may be b ! husk ( a ?\ght t has gone4 ,:at is want$ is reason$ consid]ation1 n unreason$ condemnation4 ,= *ur*m5 & /atesm5 alike1 opportunism helps 9 situations :i* are small1 b nev] 9 ^? :i* are l>ge2 !re cl>ity ( pr9ciple alone /&s =? z a beacon to light ! pa?4 ,footnote #a3 ,diocesan ,conf]5ce at ,york4 ,! fe> t discussion ( ?is vital problem w endang] morality surely loses sight ( ! fact ( k be+ s fundam5tal to our well-be+1 t incid5tal dang]s enc\nt]$ along its pa? mu/ n det] u f its cont9u$ pursuit4 ,moreov]1 x w be notic$ t ,i h discrim9at$ betwe5 ! pr9ciple ( bir? control & ! me?ods ( its application1 ! latt] be+ pref]ably det]m9$ by ! advice ( ! family doctor r ?an by ! p]usal ( books 9 g5]al circulation4 ,! attitude ( m9d ( ! ,*ur* t[>ds ! problems ( sexual relation%ips is "p ( a l>g] "q1 viz41 ! ev]-wid5+ gap betwe5 ! =mal tea*+ ( ! ,*ur* & ! actual belief ( ! pres5t g5]ation1 includ+ _m :o by baptism & e>ly tra9+ belong to h] fold4 ,?is gap betwe5 au?ority & actuality ( belief imposes a /ra9 on intellectual integrity & weak5s ! f\ndations ( a real allegiance4 ,= ^? ( u :o are ( mature ye>s ! gap is bridg$ by ! t5d] associations ( our *ildhood & ! memory ( p>5ts1 = :om no su* gap exi/$1 & ^: fai? & "* h left indelible impressions on our lives4 ,b = ! y\? ( to-day no su* bridge exi/s4 ,! ,w> has caus$ a hiatus & ?\ght has brok5 ) tradition4 ,?us1 y\? is no long] will+ to accept =ms & =mulae only on acc\nt ( _! age4 ,s x has set out on a voyage ( inquiry1 & f9d+ "s ?+s :i* are d\btful & o!rs :i* are insuffici5t1 is se>*+ = =ms ( expression m 9 h>mony ) ! realities ( life & k4 ,al?\gh becom+ e/rang$ 9 ?\ght f ! ,*ur*1 x is possess$ ( deep religi\s feel+ &1 firm on ! rock f\ndation ( fai?1 is try+ to build a sup]/ructure m 9 accord ) ! progress ( revelation1 n only 9 religion1 b 9 sci5ce1 & ! ne$s ( ! _w 9 :i* x moves & has its be+4 ,f> be x1 t ,i %\ld write !e s9 or blame1 ,or ?9k !e unbefitt+ holie/ place1 ,p]petual f\nta9 ( dome/ic sweets1 ,^: b$ is undefil$ & *a/e pron\nc$1 ,pres5t1 or pa/1 z sa9ts & patri>*s us$4 ,"h ,love 8 gold5 %afts employs1 "h lights ,8 con/ant lamp1 & waves 8 purple w+s1 ,reigns "h & revels2 n 9 ! b\ght smile ,( h>lots1 loveless1 joyless1 un5de>$1 ,casual fruition2 nor 9 c\rt-am\rs1 ,mix$ dance1 or wanton mask1 or midnight ball1 ,or s]5ate1 :i* ! />v$ lov] s+s ,to 8 pr\d fair1 be/ quitt$ ) disda94 ,^!1 lull$ by night+ales1 embrac+ slept1 ,& on _! nak$ limbs ! fl[]y ro( ,%[]$ roses1 :i* ! morn repair$4 ,p>adise ,lo/1 ,book ,,iv4 ,,love--,,m>riage--,,bir? ,,control ,may ,i make c]ta9 prelim9>y obs]vations8 ,pa9t]s & poets depict ,love to u 9 gold5 hues & ar\se 9 u happy & sympa!tic1 &1 ,i tru/1 rem9isc5t response1 help+ u to realise t life )\t ! love ( man & woman w\ld be l ! _w )\t sun%9e4 ,?\gh1 !re=e1 ! social /ud5t 9 8 approa* to ! subject is n help$ by ! beauties ( col\r & song1 x behoves him to avoid undue solemnity1 & /ill m an air ( port5t\s =ebod+4 ,9 ea* age cu/oms h be5 deplor$ z h]alds ( evil1 b ! evils h seldom mat]ialis$4 ,"o ( ! difficulties ( ?is subject is t ^? :o are call$ ^u to give c\nsel are apt to =get ! /r5g? ( ! =ces to be dealt )1 = x is dur+ y\? especially t sex attractions are s p[]ful1 &1 may ,i add1 s delightful4 ,middle-ag$ p may be divid$ into ?ree classes4 ,^? :o are /ill "y4 ,^? :o h =gott5 !y 7 "y4 ,^? :o 7 nev] "y4 ,& x is ) ! fir/ class be=e my eyes t ,i am privileg$ to address ?is audi5ce4 ,i w conf9e my att5tion to ! sexual relation%ips betwe5 unrelat$ adult p 9 y\? & prime4 ,x is common gr\nd t sex love betwe5 su* p %\ld be ! physical expression ( a la/+ affection1 & be s intimately bl5d$ ) ! feel+s ( helpfulness1 sympa?y1 & intimate fri5d%ip z to =m a union ( body1 m9d & _s4 ,x fur!r %\ld be associat$ ) ! love ( & desire = *ildr54 ,?is complex is be/ secur$ by ! in/itution ( m>riage4 ,all its con/itu5t features1 except two1 are vividly realis$ 9 intimate fri5d%ip1 & above all1 9 t unique bond betwe5 "m & son :i* ) "s ( u is ! mo/ wond]ful ?+ 9 our lives4 ,its two exclusively di/9ctive features are3 sex love & *ild love4 ,^! are ! real problems be=e u to-day1 p>ticul>ly ! =m]1 & if 9 ^! rem>ks ,i seem to conc5trate on ! problems ( sex love1 be x und]/ood ,i d s f a desire to save ! "t ( ! meet+ & n because ,i ?9k sex love %\ld reign alone 9 unbalanc$ supremacy4 ,& by sex love ,i mean t love :i* involves int]c\rse or ! desire = su*4 ,x is necess>y to my argum5t to emphasise t sex love is "o ( ! clamant dom9at+ =ces ( ! _w4 ,n only does hi/ory %[ ! de/9ies ( nations & dyna/ies det]m9$ by its sway--b "h 9 our e-day life we see its influ5ce1 direct or indirect1 =ceful & ubiquit\s beyond aught else4 ,,an ,,imp]i\s ,,in/9ct4 ,any /atesmanlike review1 !re=e1 w recognise t "h we h an in/9ct--s fundam5tal1 s imp]i\s--t its influ5ce is a fact :i* has to be accept$3 suppress x y _c4 ,y may guide x into heal?y *annels--b an outlet x w h1 & if t outlet is inadequate or unduly ob/ruct$1 irregul> *annels w be =c$4 ,we uphold ! control ( sex love outside m>riage by ! individual--& t we are "r 9 s do+ is inconte/able4 ,b let u realise t 9 practice self-control has a break+ po9t1 & t if 9 any community m>riage is difficult or late ( atta9m5t1 an increase ( irregul> unions w inevitably result4 ,t ! ,*ur* recognises ?is is %[n by ! /atem5t t m>riage 0 in/itut$ to prev5t s94 ,9 consid]+ ! problem ( illicit int]c\rse & its att5dant evils ! social conditions t make = a :olesome life are ( m effici5cy ?an ,acts ( ,p>liam5t to suppress vice4 ,my desire1 h[ev]1 on ?is occasion is r to consid] sex love 9 relation to m>riage4 ,! fir/ po9t ,i wi% to make is t p ne$ m k ( ! sci5tific be>+s ( sex relations & m cle>ly def9$ guidance ( _! rightful purport & practice4 ,!y are imp]fectly provid$ ) bo?4 ,we talk ab\t in/ruct+ ! "y :5 we are nei!r cle> nor agre$ among/ ourselves1 & ! "y are endang]$ z mu* by crudity z by abs5ce ( in/ruction4 ,all are agre$ t union ( body %\ld be 9 association ) union ( m9d & s\l2 all are agre$ t ! re>+ ( *ildr5 is a pre-em95t purpose4 ,b :at purport is !re beyond ^!8 ,"h !re is a lack ( precision4 ,,! ,,*ur* ,,& ,,m>riage4 ,:at does ! ,*ur* s]vice say8 ,x says ,m>riage 0 orda9$ = a rem$y aga9/ s91 & to avoid =nication2 t su* p]sons z h n ! gift ( cont95cy might m>ry & keep !mselves undefil$ memb]s ( ,*ri/'s body4 ,n[ ?is is a v negative bless+4 ,x implies t :]e un=tunately p _c be cont95t t m>riage gives ! be/ way out--enables !m to get relief )9 ! pale ( virtue4 ,?is attitude af=ds to sex love no positive purport or m]it ( its own1 & is 9 /rik+ conflict ) ! facts ( life ?r\gh ! ages--facts :i* c>ry social approval4 ,! rec5t pron\ncem5t ( ! ,*ur* z set =? 9 ,resolution #fh ( ! ,lambe? ,conf]5ce seems to imply condemnation ( sex love z su*1 & to imply sanction ( sex love only z a means to an end--namely1 procreation1 ?\gh x mu/ be admitt$ x lacks t cle>ness ( direction :i* 9 s vital a matt] "o w\ld h expect$4 ,x almo/ rem9ds me ( "o ( ^? diplomatic =mulae :i* is n int5d$ to be too cle>4 ,all[ me to quote f x3-- ,9 opposition to ! tea*+ :i* "u ! "n ( sci5ce & religion enc\rages m>ri$ p 9 ! delib]ate cultivation ( sexual union z an end 9 itself1 we /eadfa/ly uphold :at mu/ always be reg>d$ z ! gov]n+ consid]ation ( ,*ri/ian m>riage4 ,"o is ! prim>y purpose = :i* m>riage exi/s--namely1 ! cont9uation ( ! race ?r\gh ! gift & h]itage ( *ildr52 ! o!r is ! p>am\nt importance 9 m>ri$ life ( delib]ate & ?\ghtful self-control4 ,,! ,,facts ,,( ,,life4 ,n[ ! pla9 mean+ ( ?is /atem5t is t sexual union %\ld take place = ! sole purpose ( procreation1 t sexual union z an end 9 itself--n1 m9d y1 ! only end--7!re we %\ld all agree71 b sexual union z an end 9 itself is to be condemn$4 ,t means t sexual int]c\rse %\ld rightly take place only = ! purpose ( procreation4 ,n[ ! l>ge majority ( conceptions take place imm$iately aft] & be=e ! mon?ly p]iod4 ,q a l>ge family c\ld easily result f q a few sexual unions4 ,= ! re/ ! c\ple %\ld be celibate4 ,any int]c\rse n hav+ procreation z its int5tion is sexual union z an end 9 itself1 & !re=e by inf]5ce condemn$ by ! ,lambe? ,conf]5ce4 ,?9k ( ! facts ( life4 ,let u recall our own love--our m>riage1 our honeymoon4 ,has n sexual union ov] & ov] aga9 be5 ! physical expression ( our love )\t ?\ght or int5tion ( procreation8 ,h we all be5 wrong8 ,or is x t ! ,*ur* lacks t vital contact ) ! realities ( life :i* acc\nts = ! gulf betwe5 h] & ! p8 ,! love envisag$ by ! ,lambe? ,conf]5ce is an inv]tebrate joyless ?+--n wor? ! hav+4 ,=tunately x is 9 contra/ to ! real ?+ z practis$ by cl]gy & laity4 ,fancy an ard5t lov] 7& :at respect h y = a lov] :o is n ard5t7--! type y w\ld l y\r daught] to m>ry--virile1 ambiti\s1 *ivalr\s--a man :o means to "w h>d & love h>d4 ,fancy putt+ be=e ^! lov]s--eag] & expectant ( ! joys be=e !m--! ,lambe? picture ( m>riage4 ,d y expect to ga9 _! confid5ce8 ,!y ask = bread2 y give !m a /one4 ,,allegiance ,,( ,,! ,,"y4 ,au?ority1 & ,i include "u au?ority ! ,*ur*es1 w nev] ga9 ! allegiance ( ! "y unless _! attitude is m frank1 m c\rage\s1 & m 9 accordance ) realities4 ,& to tell y ! tru?1 ,i am n sure t too mu* prud5t self-re/ra9t suits love & its purport4 ,romance & delib]ate self-control d n1 to my m9d1 rhyme v well toge!r4 ,a t\* ( madness to beg9 ) does no h>m4 ,heav5 kn[s life sob]s x soon en\gh4 ,if y don't />t life ) a head ( /eam y won't get f>4 ,sex love has1 ap>t f p>5?ood1 a purport ( its own4 ,x is some?+ to prize & to *]i% = its own sake4 ,x is an ess5tial "p ( heal? & happ9ess 9 m>riage4 ,& n[1 if y w all[ me1 ,i w c>ry ?is argum5t a /ep fur!r4 ,if sexual union is a gift ( ,god x is wor? le>n+ h[ to use x4 ,)9 its own sph]e x %\ld be cultivat$ s z to br+ physical satisfaction to bo?1 n m]ely to "o4 ,! atta9m5t ( mutual & reciprocal joy 9 _! relations con/itutes a firm bond betwe5 two p & makes = durability ( _! m>riage tie4 ,reciprocity 9 sex love is ! physical c\nt]p>t ( sympa?y4 ,m m>riages fail f inadequate & clumsy sex love ?an f too mu* sex love4 ,,passion ,a ,,wor?y ,,possession4 ,! lack ( prop] und]/&+ is 9 no small measure responsible = ! unfulfilm5t ( 7connubial7 happ9ess1 & e degree ( discont5t & unhapp9ess may f ?is cause occur1 lead+ to rupture ( ! m>riage bond itself4 ,h[ (t5 d m$ical m5 h to deal ) ^! difficulties1 & h[ =tunate if su* difficulties are disclos$ e>ly en\gh 9 m>ri$ life to be rectifi$4 ,o!rwise h[ tragic may be _! consequ5ces1 & _m a case 9 ! ,divorce ,c\rt has ?us _h its orig94 ,to ! =ego+ cont5tions x might be object$ y are enc\rag+ passion4 ,my reply w\ld be1 passion is a wor?y possession2 mo/ m51 :o are any good1 are capable ( passion4 ,y all enjoy ard5t & passionate love 9 art & lit]ature4 ,:y n give x a place 9 real life8 ,:y "s p look askance at passion is because !y are confus+ x ) s5suality4 ,sex love )\t passion is a poor1 lifeless ?+4 ,s5suality1 on ! o!r h&1 is on a level ) gluttony--a physical excess--deta*$ f s5tim5t1 *ivalry1 or t5d]ness4 ,x is j z important to give sex love its place z to avoid its ov] emphasis4 ,its real & effective re/ra9ts are ^? impos$ by a lov+ & sympa!tic companion%ip1 by ! privileges ( p>5?ood1 ! exact+ claims ( c>e] & t civic s5se :i* prompts m5 to d social s]vice4 ,n[ t ! revision ( ! ,pray] ,book is receiv+ consid]ation1 ,i %\ld l to sugge/1 ) great respect1 t an addition be made to ! objects ( m>riage 9 ! ,m>riage ,s]vice1 9 ^! t]ms3 ,! complete realisation ( ! love ( ?is man & ?is woman1 ! "o = ! o!r4 ,,bir? ,,control4 ,& n[1 if y w p]mit me1 ,i w pass on to consid] ! all-important "q ( ,bir? ,control4 ,fir/1 ,i w put =w>d ) confid5ce ! view t bir? control is "h to /ay4 ,x is an e/abli%$ fact1 & = good or evil has to be accept$4 ,al?\gh ! ext5t ( its application c be & is be+ modifi$1 no d5unciations w aboli% x4 ,despite ! influ5ce & condemnations ( ! ,*ur*1 x has be5 practis$ 9 ,france = well ov] half a c5tury1 & 9 ,belgium & o!r ,ca?olic c\ntries is ext5d+4 ,& if ! ,roman ,ca?olic ,*ur*1 ) its compact organisation1 its p[] ( au?ority1 & its discipl9e1 _c *eck ?is proc$ure1 is x likely t ,prote/ant ,*ur*es w be able to d s8--= ,prote/ant religions dep5d = _! /r5g? on ! conviction & e/eem !y e/abli% 9 ! heads & he>ts ( _! p4 ,! reasons :i* lead p>5ts to limit _! (fspr+ are sometimes selfi%1 b m (t5 hon\rable & cog5t4 ,! desire to m>ry & to re> *ildr5 well equipp$ = life's /ruggle1 limit$ incomes1 ! co/ ( liv+1 burd5some taxation1 are =cible motives2 &1 fur!r1 among/ ! educat$ classes !re is ! desire ( wom5 to take a "p 9 life & _! husb&'s c>e]s1 :i* is incompatible ) (t-recurr+ pregnancies4 ,abs5ce ( bir? control means late m>riages1 & ^! c>ry ) !m irregul> unions & all ! baneful consequ5ces4 ,x is idle to decry illicit int]c\rse & int]pose ob/acles to m>riage at "o & ! same "t4 ,b1 say _m ^: op9ions are entitl$ to our respect3 ,yes--bir? control may be necess>y1 b ! only bir? control :i* is ju/ifiable is volunt>y ab/5tion f connubial relations4 ,su* ab/5tion w\ld be ei!r ineffective or1 if effective1 impracticable & h>mful to heal? & happ9ess4 ,to limit ! size ( a family to1 say1 f\r *ildr5 dur+ a *ild-be>+ p]iod ( #bj-be ye>s1 w\ld be to impose on a m>ri$ c\ple an am\nt ( ab/5tion :i* = long p]iods w\ld almo/ be equival5t to celibacy1 & :5 "o rememb]s t ow+ to economic reasons ! ab/5tion w\ld h to be mo/ /rict dur+ ! e>li] ye>s ( m>ri$ life :5 desires are /ronge/1 ,i ma9ta9 a dem& is be+ made :i* = ! mass ( p x is impossible to meet2 t ! endeav\rs to meet x w\ld impose a /ra9 ho/ile to heal? & happ9ess & c>ry ) !m grave dang]s to morals4 ,imag9e a "y m>ri$ c\ple 9 love ) ea* o!r--! p>5ts1 say1 ( "o *ild1 :o feel !y _c af=d ano!r *ild =1 say1 ?ree ye>s--be+ expect$ to occupy ! same room & to ab/a9 = two ye>s4 ,! ?+ is prepo/]\s4 ,y might z well put wat] by ! side ( a man suff]+ f ?ir/ & tell him n to dr9k x4 ,& fur!r ?an t1 if ! ef=ts to ab/a9 are s]i\sly made ! /ra9 involv$ is h>mful to ! heal? & temp]--if ! ef=ts d n succe$ ! m9ds ( husb& & wife are tr\bl$ by d\bts & anxieties :i* are damag+ to _! intimate relation%ips4 ,&1 moreov]1 if ?is h>mful re/ra9t succe$s 9 prev5t+ conception !re ev5tuates ! inevitable preval5ce ( sex excitem5t foll[$ by abortive & half-realis$ satisfaction1 & ! enhanc$ risk ( ! man or woman yield+ to outside sex temptations4 ,no--bir? control by ab/5tion is ei!r ineffective1 or1 if effective1 is p]nici\s4 ,,! ,,home',s ,,true ,,int]e/s4 ,i w next consid] ,artificial ,control4 ,! =ces 9 mod]n life :i* make = bir? control are s /rong t only conv9c+ reasons w make p desi/ f x4 ,x is said to be unnatural & intr9sically immoral4 ,?is ^w unnatural p]plexes me4 ,civilisation involves ! *a9+ ( natural =ces & _! conv]sion to man's w & uses4 ,mu* ( m$ic9e & surg]y consi/s ( means to ov]come nature4 ,:5 anae/hetics 7 fir/ us$ at *ildbir? !re 0 an outcry on ! "p ( _m wor?y & religi\s p t _! use "u su* circum/ances 0 unnatural & wick$1 because ,god meant woman to suff] ! /ruggles & pa9s ( *ildbir?4 ,n[ we all admit x is "r to control ! process ( *ildbir?1 & to save ! "m z mu* pa9 z possible4 ,x is no m unnatural to control conception by artificial means ?an to control *ildbir? by artificial means4 ,surely ! :ole "q turns on :e!r ^! artificial means are = ! good or h>m ( ! individual & ! community6 ,d all contraceptive measures damage ! individual8 ,! answ] to t dep5ds on ! purpose = :i* !y are us$4 ,if !y are us$ to r5d] unions *ildless or inadequately fruitful !y are h>mful4 ,!re are gr\nds = ?9k+ t unrealisation ( mat]nity fav\rs /]ility4 ,g5]ally speak+1 bir? control be=e ! fir/ *ild is inadvisable4 ,on ! o!r h&1 ! ju/ifiable use ( bir? control is to limit ! numb] ( *ildr51 & to spread out _! arrival 9 su* a way z to s]ve _! true int]e/s & ^? ( _! home4 ,t su* applications ( bir? control produce no h>m receives support f ! /udy ( ! numb]s & di/ribution ( ! *ildr5 ( ! pr(essional classes4 ,! advantage & disadvantage ( ?is or t contraceptive is a te*nical matt] = ! doctors to det]m9e4 ,aga91 x has be5 /at$ t artificial control is h>mful because x leads to excessive indulg5ce4 ,exp]i5ce & evid5ce are aga9/ ?is be+ a fact4 ,contraceptives by ! "t & circum/ance ( _! application involve prud5ce & control4 ,! prop] & effici5t re/ra9ts on undue sexual indulg5ce are to be f\nd 9 mutual consid]ation1 sympa?y1 & t5d]ness & ! press+ claims ( life's duties4 ,! s5suali/ :o is n det]r$ f excess by ^! consid]ations w be completely c>eless :e!r 8 indulg5ce results 9 *ildr5 or n--he is mov$ by 8 selfi% impulses alone4 ,,c>eful ,,di/9ction4 ,once m1 c>eful di/9ction ne$s to be made betwe5 ! use & ! bad effects ( ! abuse ( bir? control4 ,t its abuse produces h>m ,i fully agree--h>m to p>5ts1 to families1 & to ! nation4 ,b abuse is n a j condemnation ( legitimate use4 ,ov]-eat+1 ov]-dr9k+1 ov]-smok+1 ov]-sleep+1 ov]-"w d n c>ry condemnation ( eat+1 dr9k+1 smok+1 sleep+1 "w4 ,b ! evils ( excessive bir? control are v real4 ,!re is fir/ ! individual--e woman is bett] 9 body & m9d = *ild be>+--! p]iodic completion ( ! mat]nal cycle br+s out ! be/1 pres]ves y\? & ma9ta9s vital contact ) life4 ,mat]nity gives to woman h] mo/ beautiful attributes4 ,fancy be+ mad en\gh to suppress x6 ,if "o wat*es ! woman ) "o *ild & all mat]nity f9i%$ be=e ?irty1 & comp>e h] at =ty ) ! woman ( ! same age :o has _h1 say1 f\r *ildr5 at prop] int]vals1 :o usually has ! advantage 9 pres]vation ( y\? & beauty8 ,n ! =m]4 ,on ! o!r h&1 x mu/ be admitt$ t baby aft] baby e ye> or eighte5 mon?s we>s & (t5 exhau/s a woman's /r5g?4 ,! inf]5ce is t ! use ( bir? control is good1 its abuse bad4 ,next1 ! *ildr54 ,is x ev5 necess>y to ref] to ! failure ( ! s+le-*ild h\sehold8 ,poor little ?+6 ,surr\nd$ by ov]-anxi\s p>5ts1 spoilt1 no *ildr5 to play )1 bor$ /iff by adults4 ,& !n1 p]haps1 illness1 & x may be dea?--& :5 x is too late to produce ano!r4 ,( ! _m trag$ies ,i met 9 ! w> none exce$$ t atta*+ to ! loss ( only *ildr54 ,x (t5 means ! end ( all ?+s2 no?+ to live =--j blank despair4 ,,! ,,way ,,( ,,happ9ess4 ,! p>5ts & ! home bo? ne$ *ildr5 ( v>y+ ages4 ,t is ! way ( happ9ess & endur+ y\?4 ,& la/ly1 ! national aspect may be /at$ v briefly4 ,if ,engl& is n to lose h] place 9 ! _w h] population mu/ be ma9ta9$4 ,unless fa!rs & mo!rs produce an av]age ( ov] ?ree *ildr5 t population w n be ma9ta9$4 ,if y say to a "y husb& & wife ) _! "o or two *ildr51 ,d y l to contemplate t :5 y bo? leave life y\r c\ntry w1 ?r\gh y\r action1 be worse (f ?an :5 y ent]$ life8 t is an appeal to patriotism1 & likely to be a successful appeal4 ,!re are signs ( a public op9ion =m+ :i* w condemn ! selfi%ness ( m>riages )\t _! prop] h]itage ( *ildr51 b su* public op9ion w n be /r5g!n$ by an indiscrim9ate condemnation ( bir? control4 ,may ,i end my spee* ) an appeal t ! ,*ur* approa*es ?is "q1 9 common ) c]ta9 o!rs1 9 ! light ( mod]n k & ! ne$s ( a new _w1 & unhamp]$ by traditions :i* h outworn _! usefulness8 ,,pr9t$ ,,9 ,,great ,,brita9 ,,by ,,! ,,:itefri>s ,,press1 ,,ltd41 ,,london ,,& ,,tonbridge4