file :i* includes ! orig9al illu/rations4 ,see #bdaga-;h4htm or #bdaga-;h4zip3 7https3_/_/www4gut5b]g4org_/dirs_/#b_/d_ /a_/g_/bdaga_/bdaga-;h_/#bdaga-;h4htm7 or 7https3_/_/www4gut5b]g4org_/dirs_/#b_/d_ /a_/g_/bdaga_/bdaga-;h4zip7 ,transcrib]'s ,notes3 ,text t is h&writt5 9 ! orig9al is surr\nd$ by tildes 774 ,! second signature on ! ,witnesses page is too fa9t 9 ! orig9al to be readable4 ,,! ,,w$d+ ,,day4 ,! ,s]vice--,! ,m>riage ,c]tificate--,words ( ,c\nsel4 ,edit$ by ,,john ,f4 ,,hur/1 ,d4,d41 ,,ll4,d4 ,buffalo3 ,h4 ,h4 ,otis4 #ahhi4 ,copyright1 #ahhh1 by ,h4 ,h4 ,,otis ,buffalo1 ,n4 ,y4 ,,cont5ts ,page ,,=m ,,= ,,! ,,solemnization ,,( ,,matrimony1 #e ,,c]tificate1 #ac ,,witnesses1 #ad ,,! ,,new ,,home1 #ae ,,! ,,home ,,alt>1 #ba ,,! ,,home ,,beautiful1 #bh ,,good ,,read+ ,,at ,,home1 #cb ,,=be>ance1 #cg ,,! ,,ye/]days ,,( ,,home1 #dd ,,=m ,,= ,,! ,,solemnization ,,( ,,matrimony4 ,,! ,,p>ts ,,9 ,,brackets ,,?r\gh\t ,,may ,,be ,,us$ ,,or ,,n1 ,,at ,,discretion4 ,at ! day & "t appo9t$ = ! ,solemnization ( ,matrimony1 ! p]sons to be m>ri$--hav+ be5 qualifi$ accord+ to law--/&+ toge!r1 ! ,man on ! "r h& & ! ,woman on ! left1 ! ,m9i/] %all say3 ,de>ly belov$3 we are ga!r$ toge!r "h 9 ! sight ( ,god1 & 9 ! pres5ce ( ^! witnesses1 to jo9 toge!r ?is man & ?is woman 9 holy ,matrimony2 :i* is an honorable e/ate1 in/itut$ ( ,god 9 ! "t ( man's innoc5cy1 signify+ unto u ! my/ical union t exi/s betwe5 ,*ri/ & 8 ,*ur*2 :i* holy e/ate ,*ri/ adorn$ & beautifi$ ) 8 pres5ce1 & fir/ miracle t he wr\ght 9 ,cana ( ,galilee1 & is comm5d$ ( ,sa9t ,paul to be honorable among all m52 & !re=e is n by any to be ent]$ into unadvis$ly1 b rev]5tly1 discreetly1 & 9 ! fe> ( ,god4 ,into :i* holy e/ate ^! two p]sons pres5t come n[ to be jo9$4 ,!re=e1 if any c %[ j cause :y !y may n lawfully be jo9$ toge!r1 let him n[ speak1 or else h]eaft] =ev] hold 8 peace4 ,& also1 speak+ unto ! p]sons :o are to be m>ri$1 ! ,m9i/] %all say3 ,i require & *>ge y bo?1 t if ei!r ( y "k any imp$im5t :y y may n be lawfully jo9$ toge!r 9 ,matrimony1 y d n[ confess x2 = be ye well assur$1 t s _m z are c\pl$ toge!r o!rwise ?an ,god's ^w do? all[ are n jo9$ toge!r by ,god1 nei!r is _! ,matrimony lawful4 ,if no imp$im5t be alleg$1 !n %all ! ,m9i/] say unto ! ,man3 ,m4 ,wilt ?\ h ?is woman to be ?y w$d$ wife1 to live toge!r aft] ,god's ord9ance 9 ! holy e/ate ( ,matrimony8 ,wilt ?\ love h]1 com=t h]1 honor & keep h]1 9 sickness & 9 heal?3 &1 =sak+ all o!r1 keep !e only unto h] s long z ye bo? %all live8 ,! ,man %all answ]3 ,i w4 ,!n %all ! ,m9i/] say unto ! ,woman3 ,n4 ,wilt ?\ h ?is man to be ?y w$d$ husb&1 to live toge!r aft] ,god's ord9ance 9 ! holy e/ate ( ,matrimony8 ,wilt ?\ love1 honor1 & keep him1 9 sickness & 9 heal?3 &1 =sak+ all o!r1 keep !e only unto him s long z ye bo? %all live8 ,! ,woman %all answ]3 ,i w4 ,!n ! ,m9i/] %all cause ! ,man ) 8 "r h& to take ! ,woman by h] "r h&1 & to say aft] him z foll[e?3 ,i ,m4 take !e ,n4 to be my w$d$ wife1 to h & to hold1 f ?is day =w>d1 = bett]1 = worse1 = ri*]1 = poor]1 9 sickness & 9 heal?1 to love & to *]i%1 till dea? u d "p1 accord+ to ,god's holy ord9ance3 ,& !reto ,i plight !e my fai?4 ,!n %all !y loose _! h&s1 & ! ,woman ) h] "r h& tak+ ! ,man by 8 "r h& %all likewise say aft] ! ,m9i/]3 ,i ,n4 take !e ,m4 to be my w$d$ husb&1 to h & to hold1 f ?is day =w>d1 = bett]1 = worse1 = ri*]1 = poor]1 9 sickness & 9 heal?1 to love & to *]i%1 till dea? u d "p1 accord+ to ,god's holy ord9ance3 & !reto ,i plight !e my fai?4 ,!n %all ! ,m9i/] ,pray ?us3 ,o et]nal ,god1 ,creator & ,pres]v] ( all mank9d1 ,giv] ( all spiritual grace1 ! ,au?or ( ev]la/+ life3 s5d ?y bless+ ^u ^! ?y s]vants1 ?is man & ?is woman1 :om we bless 9 ?y "n2 t z ,isaac & ,rebecca liv$ fai?fully toge!r1 s ^! p]sons may surely p]=m & keep ! v[ & cov5ant betwe5 !m made1 & may ev] rema9 9 p]fect love & peace toge!r1 & live accord+ to ?y laws1 ?r\gh ,jesus ,*ri/ our ,"l4 ,am54 ,if ! p>ties desire x1 ! ,man %all "h h& a ,r+ to ! ,m9i/]1 :o %all return x to him1 & direct him to place x on ! ?ird f+] ( ! ,woman's left h&4 ,& ! ,man %all say to ! ,woman1 repeat+ aft] ! ,m9i/]3 ,) ?is r+ ,i !e w$1 & ) my worldly goods ,i !e end[1 9 ! "n ( ! ,fa!r1 & ( ! ,son1 & ( ! ,holy ,gho/4 ,am54 ,!n %all ! ,m9i/] jo9 _! "r h&s toge!r1 & say3 ,=asmu* z ,m4 & ,n4 h cons5t$ toge!r 9 holy w$lock1 & h witness$ ! same be=e ,god & ?is company1 & !reto h pl$g$ _! fai? ei!r to o!r1 & h decl>$ ! same by jo9+ ( h&s2 ,i pron\nce t !y are husb& & wife toge!r1 9 ! "n ( ! ,fa!r1 & ( ! ,son1 & ( ! ,holy ,gho/4 ,^? :om ,god ha? jo9$ toge!r1 let no man put asund]4 ,am54 ,& ! ,m9i/] %all add ?is bless+3 ,god ! ,fa!r1 ! ,son1 & ! ,holy ,gho/1 bless1 pres]ve1 & keep y2 ! ,"l m]cifully ) 8 favor look ^u y1 & s fill y ) all spiritual b5$iction & grace1 t ye may s live toge!r 9 ?is life1 t 9 ! _w to come ye may h life ev]la/+4 ,am54 ,!n %all ! ,m9i/] (f] ! foll[+ ,pray]3 ,o ,god ( ,abraham1 ,god ( ,isaac1 ,god ( ,jacob1 bless ?is man & ?is woman1 & s[ ! se$ ( et]nal life 9 _! he>ts1 t :atsoev] 9 ?y holy ^w !y %all pr(itably le>n1 !y may inde$ fulfill ! same4 ,look1 ,o ,"l1 m]cifully on !m f heav51 & bless !m3 z ?\ did/ s5d ?y bless+s ^u ,abraham & ,s>ah to _! great com=t1 s v\*safe to s5d ?y bless+s ^u ?is man & ?is woman1 t !y1 obey+ ?y w1 & always be+ 9 safety "u ?y protection1 may abide 9 ?y love unto _! lives' end1 ?r\gh ,jesus ,*ri/ our ,"l4 ,almighty ,god1 :o at ! beg9n+ did/ create our fir/ p>5ts1 ,adam & ,eve1 & did/ sanctify & jo9 !m toge!r 9 m>riage1 p\r ^u ^! p]sons ! ri*es ( ?y grace1 sanctify & bless !m1 t !y may please !e bo? 9 body & s\l1 & live toge!r 9 holy love unto _! lives' end4 ,am54 ,"h ! ,m9i/] may use extempor>y ,pray]4 ,!n ! ,m9i/] %all repeat ! ,"l's ,pray]3 ,our ,fa!r :o art 9 heav51 hall[$ be ?y "n4 ,?y k+dom come4 ,?y w be done 9 e>?1 z x is 9 heav54 ,give u ?is day our daily bread3 & =give u our trespasses1 z we =give !m t trespass aga9/ u3 & lead u n into temptation1 b deliv] u f evil3 = ?9e is ! k+dom1 & ! p[]1 & ! glory1 =ev]4 ,am54 ,illu/ration3 ,?is ,c]tifies ,t ,rob]t ,b4 ,lawr5ce ( ,olean ,/ate ( ,n4 ,y4 & ,maude ,l4 ,h>vey ( ,olean ,/ate ( ,n4 ,y4 ,,7 ,,by ,,me ,,unit$ ,,9 ,,holy ,,matrimony ,,accord+ ,,to ,,! ,,ord9ance ,,( ,,god ,,& ,,! ,,laws ,,( ,,! ,,/ate ,,( ,new ,york at ,home ( ! bride ,olean ,n4 ,y4 on ! ,elev5? day ( ,july-#aa-aijj 9 ! ye> ( our ,"l "o ?\s& n9e hundr$ #aijj ,g4 ,r4 ,h>vey ,m9i/] ( ! ,gospel4 ,illu/ration3 ,,witnesses3 ,ar?ur ,wright 444 ,john ,s4 ,seiv]t ,jessie ,seiv]t ,francis ,e4 ,selov]1 ,mr4 ,mrs4 ,a ,j ,lawr5ce ,,! ,,new ,,home4 ,! f\nd+ ( a new home m>ks an important era 9 a human life4 ,:e!r y be poor or weal?y1 wise or ignorant1 x is all ! same--y beg9 a new exi/5ce4 ,! associations ( *ildhood & y\? n[ und]go a total *ange4 ,! famili> sc5es disappe> sudd5ly4 ,longfell[1 9 8 ,hang+ ( ! ,crane1 writes ! foll[+ t\*+ words on ! ev5tful day3 ,o =tunate1 ,o happy day1 ,:5 a new h\sehold f9ds its place ,among ! myriad homes ( e>?1 ,l a new /> sprung to bir?1 ,& roll$ on its h>moni\s way ,into ! b\ndless realms ( space6 44444 ,= two alone1 !re 9 ! hall1 ,is spread ! table r\nd & small2 ,^u ! poli%$ silv] %9e ,! ev5+ lamps2 b1 m div9e1 ,! light ( love %9es ov] all2 ,( love t says n m9e & ?9e1 ,b ours1 = ours is ?9e & m9e4 44444 ,!y want no gue/s2 !y ne$s mu/ be ,ea* o!r's own be/ company4 ,:at sort ( a home %all ! new "o be8 ,%all x be ! abode ( happy he>ts & pure & noble lives1 or %all discont5t & mis]y prevail8 ,jane ,wel* ,c>lyle says truly3 ,if ev] "o is to pray--if ev] "o is to feel grave & anxi\s--if ev] "o is to %r9k f va9 %[ & va9 babble--surely x is j on ! occasion ( two human be+s b9d+ !mselves to "o ano!r1 = bett] & = worse1 till dea? "p !m4 ,great is ! diff]5ce 9 h\seholds4 ,z "o walks along a beautiful /reet 9 a city !re is no?+ 9 ! fronts ( ! h\ses to indicate ! k9d ( life :i* passes )9 doors4 ,b an intimate acqua9tance1 su* z a fai?ful pa/or ga9s 9 ! c\rse ( 8 labors1 (t5 reveals ! fact t 9 "s ( ! mo/ magnific5t h\ses !re is no peace or joy1 :ile 9 "s ( ! humble/ cottages !re is a calm & lov+ _s :i* cont9ues & gr[s f ye> to ye>4 ,! k9d ( a h\se1 ev5 ! adornm5ts :i* weal? & luxury br+1 d n det]m9e ! true home4 ,! two p :o e/abli% ! new h\sehold decide its quality4 ,t ! p :o occupy a home decide its quality is beautifully express$ by ,na?aniel ,cotton1 a poet ( ! la/ c5tury3 ,if solid happ9ess we prize1 ,)9 our brea/ ?is jewel lies2 ,& !y are fools :o roam3 ,! _w has no?+ to be/[2 ,f our own selves our joys mu/ fl[1 ,& t de> hut1 our home4 ,if ^? :o occupy ! home resolve to be happy & cont5t$1 to avoid envy+ p]sons ( l>g] means & high] social position1 to lead a life ( mutual confid5ce & e/eem1 & to s]ve ,god ) tru/ful love1 _! home w be to !m a sacr$ place4 ,i 0 once pa/or ( a *ur* 9 ,fulton ,/reet1 ,elizabe?1 ,n4 ,j41 :]e ! mo/ ( ! memb]s 7 me*anics & labor]s & on ! railroad4 ,_! circum/ances 7 limit$1 & !y _h b little p[] to adorn _! h\ses4 ,b 9 "s ( ^? homes !re reign$ su* beauty ( _s1 su* cont5tm5t ) ! condition 9 life1 su* k9dl9ess & sympa?y1 su* *e]fulness & pati5ce1 t x 0 a joy to cross ! ?re%old & commune ) ! memb]s ( ! pla9 & unambiti\s families4 ,! memories ( ^? visits are among ! mo/ delightful ( my pa/oral exp]i5ce4 ,suppose1 !n1 y\r new home is pla9 & homely4 ,rememb]1 t m>ble walls1 & broad & poli%$ halls1 & ma/]pieces 9 pa9t+ on ! walls1 & a daily f>e ( luxuries1 & table s]vice ( silv] & gold1 & a ret9ue ( liv]i$ s]vants d n con/itute a home4 ,?\gh ! new home consi/ ( only a few rooms1 if mutual love & admiration reign )9 ! n>r[ walls1 no hi/orical palace c be half s beautiful or attractive4 ,home's n m]ely f\r squ>e walls1 ,?\gh hung ) pictures nicely gild$2 ,home is :]e affection calls1 ,fill$ ) %r9es ! he>t ha? build$4 44444 ,home's n m]ely ro( & room2 ,home ne$s some?+ to ende> x2 ,home is :]e ! he>t c bloom1 ,:]e !re's "s k9d he>t to *e] x4 ,b = a home to be truly beautiful !re mu/ ne$s be1 always1 "o gue/--! ,savi\r4 ,!re 7 _m magnific5t build+s 9 ,j]usalem :5 ,he walk$ its /reets & p]=m$ 8 miracul\s works ( heal+4 ,b 9 all ! l&1 & 9 all ! ages1 !re 0 nev] "o m *>m+ ?an t little home 9 ,be?any1 :]e ,laz>us & 8 si/]s ,m>y & ,m>?a con/itut$ ! h\sehold4 ,& :y 0 t ! p]fect home8 ,because our ,"l 0 always ! welcome ,gue/4 ,,! ,,home ,,alt>4 ,e ?+ dep5ds on ! way y beg9 y\r new life 9 y\r own new home4 ,! h\sehold alt> is a supreme necessity4 ,no hesitation or timidity %\ld be all[$ to prev5t family wor%ip4 ,if bo? ( y are memb]s ( ! ,*ur*1 ! hold+ ( a brief family wor%ip ne$ n be a s]i\s trial4 ,! difficulty w be :5 only "o is a ,*ri/ian1 & /ill great] w x be if nei!r is a ,*ri/ian4 ,:at is to be done "u su* circum/ances8 ,mu/ ! hav+ family wor%ip be po/pon$ until ! religi\s life be comm5c$8 ,t is unc]ta91 & x may be ye>s be=e a h\sehold alt> is e/abli%$4 ,! only safe way is to beg9 at once by hold+ a %ort s]vice4 ,simple x may be4 ,x 0 ! daily cu/om ( ,presid5t ,hayes1 dur+ 8 presid5tial t]m ( (fice1 to conv5e 8 family = daily wor%ip4 ,! pray] consi/$ ( only ! ,"l's ,pray]4 ,b x 0 en\gh4 ,! m9ds ( ! h\sehold 7 direct$ t[>d spiritual ?+s4 ,! help ( ,god 0 s\ght1 to be> :atev] burd5s ! day might br+4 ,h[ev] great ! emb>rassm5t 9 ! face ( ?is great duty1 let x n prev5t ! brief dome/ic wor%ip4 ,beg9--beg9 imm$iately4 ,a %ort ,scripture read+1 foll[$ by pray]1 ev5 only ! ,"l's ,pray]1 w be suffici5t4 ,!re are good =ms ( pray]1 "s ( :i* ,i h us$ to advantage4 ,flet*]'s ,family ,devotion2 ,/urm's ,family ,devotions2 ,morison's ,family ,pray]s2 ,cumm+'s ,daily ,family ,devotion2 ,family ,wor%ip1 by "o hundr$ & eighty cl]gym5 ( ! ,*ur* ( ,scotl&2 ,cassell's ,family ,devotion2 ,dale's ,dome/ic ,liturgy2 ,?ornton's ,family ,pray]s2 ,?ompson & ,spurgeon's ,home ,wor%ip & ! ,use ( ! ,bible 9 ! ,home2 & ,jay's ,morn+ & ,ev5+ ,ex]cises1 are good books = ?is purpose4 ,! works ( ,flet*]1 ,?ornton1 & ! ,home ,wor%ip ( ,?ompson & ,spurgeon are wor?y ( special comm5dation4 ,ev5 :5 "o is accu/om$ to extemporane\s pray]1 ! use ( "o ( ! above books w1 nev]!less1 be ( great s]vice 9 prev5t+ /]eotyp$ phrases & tra9s ( ?\ght4 ,i h (t5 f\nd t my own ne$s1 & ,i believe ^? ( my family1 h be5 bett] & m exactly describ$ by o!rs ?an by myself4 ,x is be/1 h[ev]1 to get into no fix$ =m4 ,let ! extemporane\s pray]1 or ! pr9t$ =m ( pray]1 be us$ judici\sly1 z circum/ances require4 ,c>e %\ld be tak5 t ! home wor%ip may n be made t$i\s1 & ?us become a burd54 ,i h always f\nd x be/ to use ! ,bible = ! ,scripture selection r ?an ! selections made 9 ! books conta9+ =ms ( pray]4 ,x is well to read ! ,bible 9 c\rse1 & to h ! same copy ( ! ,bible f :i* to read brief selections1 )\t be+ gov]n$ by ! divisions 9 *apt]s4 ,y\r "o & ! same ,bible1 be+ us$ e day 9 family wor%ip1 becomes v preci\s ) ! gr[+ ye>s4 ,x w be associat$ ) all ! t5d]e/ memories ( ! home life4 ,i h occasionally us$ a diff]5t copy ( ! ,bible 9 my own home = family wor%ip1 b none is half s de> z ! pla91 old1 & well-worn copy ) :i* ,i began1 :5 ,i e/abli%$ my own home alt>1 f> back 9 ! ye>s4 ,b1 besides wor%ip toge!r at ! family alt>1 !re %\ld be private pray]4 ,e "o %\ld h a place :]e he c wor%ip ,god alone4 ,our ,"l saw ! necessity t ea* ( 8 disciples %\ld be alone ) him4 ,h5ce he said3 ,:5 ?\ praye/1 ent] into ?y closet1 & :5 ?\ ha/ %ut ?y door1 pray to ?y ,fa!r :i* is 9 secret2 & ?y ,fa!r :i* see? 9 secret %all rew>d !e op5ly4 ,beg9 ! day by solit>y commun+ ) ,god4 ,end ! day 9 ! same way1 by ask+ ,god = 8 =giv5ess = ! pa/1 = 8 pres]vation = ! night1 & = 8 c>e 9 all ! "t to come4 ,b "s "o may say3 ,does n ?is att5tion to religi\s duties make ! new home gloomy8 ,n at all4 ,x is ! way to make x bright & *e]ful4 ,! w$d+ day soon passes by1 & 9 "t w come ! regul> dome/ic life1 ) its monotony & c>es4 ,leave ?is life to ,god's ord]+4 ,he alone c make u /rong = e h\r's dem&s4 ,! ,g]man poet ,s*irm] says a wise ^w1 :i* well applies to all :o beg9 life 9 ! new home3 ,left to ourselves we %all b /ray2 ,o1 lead u 9 ! n>r[ way3 ,) wise/ c\nsel guide u1 ,& give u /eadfa/ness1 t we ,may h5ce=? truly foll[ !e1 ,:atev] woes betide u4 44444 ,o mighty ,rock1 ,o ,s\rce ( life1 ,let ?y cle> ^w1 'mid d\bt & /rife1 ,be s )9 u burn+1 ,t we be fai?ful unto dea? ,9 ?y pure love & holy fai?1 ,f !e true wisdom le>n+4 ,"l1 ?y graces on u %[]2 ,by ?y p[] ,*ri/ confess+ ,let u w9 8 grace & bless+4 ,v9et "h lays d[n ! true pr9ciple ( a ?or\ghly good life at home3 ,:]ev] we advance 9 ! pa? ( m>riage & ( life1 ) eyes lift$ up t[>d a ,savi\r we love1 ) a salvation we hope =1 ) a _s ( pray] & supplication ?r\gh :i* ,jesus ,*ri/ con/antly int]v5es by 8 ,_s betwe5 ! husb& & wife--!re1 inde$1 a m>riage may be happy2 nay1 mu/ be infallibly s4 ,! union betwe5 two conv]t$ he>ts is necess>ily sweet & unutt]able2 )\t ?is !re is no security4 ,! new home consecrat$ by pray]--daily pray]--w become :at t beautiful home ( ,sir ,?omas ,m 0--a s*ool & ex]cise ( ! ,*ri/ian religion4 ,,! ,,home ,,beautiful4 ,great art is requir$ 9 mak+ beautiful ! new home4 ,! h\se ne$ n be l>ge & /ately 9 ord] to be attractive to ! eye4 ,m att5tion has be5 paid ( late 9 ?is c\ntry to ! adornm5t ( homes ?an 9 =m] ye>s4 ,we ,am]icans beg9 to see1 z nev] be=e1 t ! enjoym5t ( ! occupants ( a h\se is 9 "s way connect$ ) ! furni%+ & g5]al effect4 ,let e room be us$4 ,let ! inn] doors be kept wide op54 ,9 ?is way ! atmosph]e w be uni=m & ( free circulation2 ! int]ior ( ! h\se w appe> to its full size1 & ! g5]al effect w be m *e]ful4 ,ev5 ! humble/ means ne$ n prev5t "s simple hang+s & a few pr9ts on ! walls4 ,i w\ld let ! sunlight p\r into ! new home4 ,! old dread t ! c>pets w get fad$ & ! curta9s get spoil$ is an abom9ation4 ,my own habit is1 s soon z ,i get d[n /airs 9 ! morn+--& ,i am an e>ly ris]--to draw aside ! curta9s1 to let ! %ades fly up1 & to ?r[ ! sa%es wide op54 ,by & by1 if f ! /reet ?is airy appe>ance is consid]$ a little unfa%ionable1 & ^? )9 *oose to %ut out ! sunlight 9 a measure1 ,i rejoice t ,i h _h my unfa%ionable way1 & ! sun has _h 8 gold5 way1 = a :ile at lea/4 ,gladness comes into ! h\se ) ! blaze ( ! bless$ sun4 ,let all ! rooms %>e ! joy4 ,i suppose a c>pet some:at fad$ w we> z long z if ! colors 7 fre%4 ,b if ! p5alty = hav+ bright & sunny rooms is to be "s fad$ c>pets & w9d[ hang+s1 let ! full p5alty be paid1 & *e]fully1 too4 ,no price is too great = a bright & sunny home4 ,! sight ( a few fl[]s adds to ! beauty ( ev5 ! humble/ home4 ,ev5 a sprig ( arbutus or jessam9e1 or a lily ( ! valley1 on ! table1 w make e meal ! sweet]4 ,! ,g]mans ( ! poore/ class1 all ov] ! ,fa!rl&1 nev] =get to h fl[]s 9 _! l[ly homes4 ,if ! family occupy only a few rooms 9 a l(ty /ory1 !y w be sure to h beautiful plants on ! w9d[-l$ge1 & "h & !re )9 ! rooms4 ,^! are ( su* k9d t ! succession ( fl[]s is well kept up 9 all seasons4 ,?r\gh\t ! ye>1 :5 !re is no fro/1 ^! fl[]+ plants at ! ,g]man w9d[s c be se5 f ! /reet to ! highe/ flat4 ,! v>i$ fl[]s & ! hang+ v9es =m beautiful pictures 9 village & t[n4 ,away ) ! ?\ght t weal? is ne$$ to make ! home beautiful6 ,x is a "q ( ta/e1 tact1 & a desire to please ano!r4 ,on ! v /reet :]e ,i live !re is a quiet little h\se1 occupi$ by a newly-m>ri$ c\ple4 ,x is inexp5sive1 & ! furniture is n co/ly4 ,b !re is s mu* ta/e 9 ! furni%+ & ornam5tation1 & !re is s mu* brightness 9 all ! rooms1 t ! home is a *>m+ picture4 ,i seldom pass x )\t ?9k+ ( ! beautiful1 b n co/ly1 int]ior4 ,,good ,,read+ ,,at ,,home4 ,a home )\t books is a des]t4 ,9 ^! days all ! /&>d au?ors c be b\ght at small price1 & ev5 ! humble/ home %\ld be adorn$ ) ! companion%ip ( at lea/ "s ( !m4 ,y may n h a ta/e = read+2 at any rate1 y may ?9k y h n4 ,b possibly y h made a mi/ake 9 ! k9d ( books y h tri$ to enjoy1 & s imag9$ t y d n l any books4 ,try ano!r class1 & y w likely be surpris$ to f9d t y c enjoy !m4 ,suppose y h n ! exp]i5ce to select prop] books4 ,n[1 y w h a pa/or1 ( c\rse1 & a *ur* home4 ,make a fri5d ( t pa/or4 ,he ought to be a good advis] 9 ! matt] ( prop] books4 ,at any rate1 get "s judici\s fri5d to help y 9 ! *oice4 ,buy only a v few books at a "t1 & let y\r little home-libr>y gr[ gradually4 ,nev] buy a book t y h y\r d\bts ab\t4 ,em]son's advice to buy only a /&>d "w1 :i* has be5 out = ye>s1 has its good & safe quality4 ,avoid too mu* fiction & a sup]abundance ( p]iodical lit]ature4 ,"o popul> magaz9e is en\gh4 ,! money :i* y h = read+-matt] %\ld be conf9$ *iefly to books1 & !y ought to be ! _w's ma/]pieces4 ,i am satisfi$ t 9 ! av]age home !re is too little read+4 ,hi/ory1 biography1 travel1 ) a fair %>e ( religi\s books1 c be read 9 c\rse at home1 9 ! odd half h\rs1 & ! m9d become ri*ly /or$ ) facts4 ,is !re any ?+ 9 ! dome/ic life :i* ought to int]f]e ) ?is con/ant culture ( ! m9d8 ,n at all4 ,! dome/ic life is highly favorable to m5tal discipl9e4 ,! v beg9n+ ( real intellectual improvem5t 9 _m a m9d has be5 9 ! new home ( p]sons j m>ri$4 ,! read+ al\d ( an int]e/+ "w1 ! "o to ! o!r1 is a delightful ent]ta9m5t1 & gives a new *>m to life4 ,e ef=t mu/ be employ$ to keep ! m9d f becom+ sluggi% & b>r54 ,we ne$ in=mation1 ! ?\ghts ( ! good & great & ri*ly end[$1 to make our own lives ri*]4 ,x w\ld be a wise arrangem5t if e man & woman1 on e/abli%+ _! home1 w\ld set ap>t "s "t = intellectual improvem5t by ! read+ ( good books4 ,i am acqua9t$ ) a "y lady1 :o1 on ent]+ h] pla9 little h\se1 f\nd t h] husb& & h]self 7 s int]rupt$ by visits & o!r claims on _! "t 9 ! ev5+1 t !y resolv$ to rise an h\r e>li] 9 ! morn+1 & devote ! "t to read+ & /udy4 ,!y 7 ?us free f int]ruption1 & _h ample opportunity1 be=e ! regul> duties ( ! day began1 to /ore _! m9ds ) useful k4 ,i ?9k x probable t !y w c>ry ?is excell5t cu/om ) !m ?r\gh life4 ,mu* ( my "t is sp5t 9 high-ways1 & along ! n>r[ by-ways ( life4 ,my homes are _m4 ,b :5 my good =tune br+s me at night to occupy a room f> f my own home1 :]e a good book or two are to be f\nd1 ,i c say ) ,milton1 9 8 ,areopagitica3 ,a good book is ! preci\s life-blood ( a ma/]-_s embalm$ & treasur$ up on purpose to a life beyond2 & ) ,wordswor?1 9 8 ,p]sonal ,talk3 ,dreams1 books1 are ea* a _w2 & books1 we "k1 ,are a sub/antial _w1 bo? pure & good2 ,r\nd ^!1 ) t5drils /rong z fle% & blood1 ,our pa/ime & our happ9ess w gr[4 ,i l a home :]e y c see ! books4 ,a *oice book-case ) glass doors1 & ! doors lock$1 ought to be expell$ f ! home4 ,let ! books be :]e !y c be se5 & easily rea*$4 ,let !m n be conf9$ to "o room1 b s di/ribut$ t ne>ly e room %all h at lea/ a few 9 sight4 ,a few books "h & !re ab\t ! h\se1 & ev5 9 ! b$-rooms1 are wor? m ?an a co/ly piece ( furniture4 ,:5 we see books 9 our homes1 & !y are :]e we c h&le !m )\t ef=t1 we are apt to take !m up1 & get snat*es ( good read+4 ,,=be>ance4 ,! m>riage bond is sacr$4 ,x la/s = life3 ,until dea? d u "p4 ,b x is probable t qualities ( temp]am5t & m9d 9 ea* "o w develop :i* w surprise ! o!r4 ,"s ( ^! may produce an unfavorable impression4 ,o!rs may prove mo/ agreeable surprises4 ,ea* p]son has come f a diff]5t class ( associations1 & ea* has a diff]5t nature4 ,"h comes 9 ! great necessity ( accommodation & adaptation4 ,too e>ly & too mu* criticism spoils _m a home4 ,"o sil5t1 bo? happy1 is an old motto well wor? obs]v+4 ,b (t5 a s+le appreciative ^w w bright5 ! :ole sky4 ,"o ( ,frankl9's pla9 phrases has its wise lesson3 ,z we mu/ acc\nt = e idle ^w1 s we mu/ = e idle sil5ce4 ,fr$]ika ,brem] says3 ,m>riage has a morr[1 & aga9 a morr[4 ,y w ne$ to be> ) ea* o!r1 & to s act1 ea* to ! o!r1 t e day may be made beautiful & happy1 & ! :ole future "o ( mutual & respectful =be>ance4 ,fooli% to ?9k1 says ,dr4 ,a4 ,p4 ,peabody1 t ! :ole mutual life c fl[ on l ! e>ly /ream1 )\t a ripple or eddy4 ,home is a s*ool1 a discipl9e :]eby husb& & wife are to gr[ unto ea* o!r1 gett+ rid ( _! angul>ities1 h>moniz+ _! peculi> *>act]i/ics1 & m & m becom+ "o 9 ?\ght1 sympa?y1 & life4 ,! true bless$ness ( w$d$ s\ls is n insur$ by a simple ex*ange ( plight$ fai?4 ,x comes ?r\gh & aft] _m a self-d5ial1 _m a crucifixion ( ! w1 _m a sc\rg+ ( ! res5tm5t1 ang]1 pride1 vanity1 & passions ( ! he>t4 ,x is true "h1 z 9 o!r relations1 t 'he :o save? 8 life %all lose x1 & he t lose? 8 life %all save x4' ,d n =get1 !n1 t ! life at home has its sev]e te/s4 ,if x is n an expect$ ?+1 x w be ! unexpect$ :i* w try y\r nature & make y\r burd5 heavy4 ,y %\ld rememb]1 if !re is fault1 t x is n all on "o side4 ,! unk9d ^w may come to ! lips1 b x %\ld nev] be spok54 ,words are mighty1 words are liv+2 ,s]p5ts ) _! v5om\s /+s1 ,or bright angels1 cr[d+ r\nd u1 ,) heav5's light ^u _! w+s3 ,e ^w has its own _s1 ,true or false1 t nev] dies2 ,e ^w man's lips h utt]$ ,e*oes 9 ,god's skies4 ,! graces ( pati5ce1 sublime calmness1 gold5 sil5ce1 %\ld be cultivat$ ) delightful zeal4 ,y may ea* h _h y\r way1 b n[ ! way ( ano!r mu/ be respect$4 ,besides1 x may be a mu* bett] & saf] way ?an y\rs4 ,john ,angell ,james says3 ,:]e bo? h infirmities1 & !y are s con/antly toge!r1 innum]able occasions w be furni%$1 if we are eag]1 or ev5 will+1 to avail ourselves ( ! opportunities = ^? cont5tions :i*1 if !y d n produce a p]man5t suppression ( love1 lead to its tempor>y int]ruption4 ,_m ?+s we %\ld connive at1 o!rs we %\ld pass by ) an unprovok$ m9d1 & 9 all ?+s mo/ c>efully avoid ev5 :at at fir/ may seem to be an innoc5t disputation4 ,! real basis ( adaptation is mutual respect & love4 ,nei!r ! husb& nor ! wife mu/ judge ea* o!r too critically4 ,! indiscreet ^w1 or error ( any k9d1 mu/ nev] be all[$ to cause a d\bt z to ! he>t's deep affection4 ,g5tl5ess1 pati5ce1 "t1 w give ample opportunity = ! full sunlight to break =?4 ,ea* he>t ne$s ! o!r = true happ9ess4 ,x mu/ be a unit$ life4 ,9 ,hiawa?a we read ! true relation3 ,z unto ! b[ ! cord is1 ,s unto ! man is woman1 ,?\gh %e b5ds him1 %e obeys him2 ,?\gh %e draws him1 yet %e foll[s1 ,useless ea* )\t ! o!r4 ,! m>ri$ life1 to be supremely happy1 mu/ be ?or\ghly unselfi%4 ,i 0 once on %ipbo>d ) a t\ri/ :o 0 accompani$ by 8 wife1 b = ^: op9ion he seem$1 ev5 to o!r travel]s1 to %[ b little respect4 ,! voyage 0 a long "o1 & :ile ! wife's be>+ 0 mo/ g5tle & k9dly1 8 mann] impress$ me z ?or\ghly selfi%4 ,i d n imag9e t he 0 aw>e ( ! abrupt & /rongly p]sonal quality ( 8 be>+ t[>d 8 ref9$ & cultur$ wife4 ,) all 8 weal? he lack$ t appe>ance ( t5d]ness :i* is m ?an gold or preci\s /ones4 ,no ef=t mu/ be sp>$ by ei!r husb& or wife to contribute to ! o!r's happ9ess & com=t4 ,x does n require a long "t1 especially :5 liv+ toge!r1 = "o to see :at w please ano!r4 ,?is desire to please1 /r5g!n+ ) ! days & ye>s1 reveal+ itself 9 a ?\s& k9dly ways1 w d m ?an any ?+ else to make ! home a p>adise on e>?4 ,c[p] gives ! true secret ( a beautiful & /r5g!n+ reciprocal adaptation3 ,! k9de/ & ! happie/ pair ,w h occasion to =be>2 ,& some?+ e day !y live ,to pity1 & p]*ance =give4 ,! love t *e]s life's late/ /age1 ,pro( aga9/ sickness & old age1 ,is g5tle1 delicate & k9d3 ,to faults compassionate or bl9d1 ,& w ) sympa?y endure ,^? evils x w\ld gladly cure4 ,i believe ! ,g]mans excel all o!rs 9 lit]ature 9 _! w>m tributes to ! fai?ful love & devotion ( _! wives4 ,k]n]1 ! ,suabian au?or1 said ?is beautiful ^w 9 te/imony ( 8 wife aft] _! long ye>s ( happ9ess toge!r3 ,%e ha? borne ) me4 ,m>t9 ,lu!r said ( 8 wife1 ! devot$ ,ca!r9e3 ,i w\ld n ex*ange my pov]ty ) h] = all ! ri*es ( ,croesus )\t h]4 ,bism>ck1 ! man ( blood & iron1 says ( 8 wife3 ,%e x is :o made me :at ,i am4 ,,! ,,ye/]days ,,( ,,home4 ,e day becomes a ye/]day4 ,our conduct at home %\ld be su* t ! morr[ w br+ no regrets4 ,mrs4 ,sig\rney ?us describes ! *anges t mu/ come ov] ! brighte/ home3 ,n = ! summ]'s h\r alone1 ,:5 skies respl5d5t %9e ,& y\? & pleasure fill ! ?rone1 ,our he>ts & h&s we jo94 ,b = ^? /]n & w9try days ,( sorr[1 pa91 & fe>4 ,:5 ,heav5's wise discipl9e do? make ,our e>?ly j\rney dre>4 ,x is sad en\gh :5 ei!r a man or 8 wife le>ns fir/1 :5 "o or ! o!r is tak5 away by dea?1 t !re has be5 a life-long want ( consid]ate t5d]ness4 ,suppos+ ! late ,?omas ,c>lyle _h be5 a little m att5tive to 8 brilliant & devot$ wife dur+ _! long & lonely life 9 ! pla9 home 9 ,*eyne ,r[1 9 ,*elsea1 ,london1 su* words z ^!1 :i* escap$ h] 9 a lett] to a fri5d1 c\ld nev] h be5 said3 ,^? little att5tions :i* we wom5 atta* s mu* importance to he 0 nev] 9 ! habit ( r5d]+ to any "o2 8 upbr++1 & ! sev]e turn ( m9d he has f nature1 _h alike indispos$ him t[>d !m4 ,b ! grim old man saw 8 mi/ake at la/4 ,x 0 all too late1 h[ev]4 ,x 0 only aft] all h] sacrifices _h be5 made1 & he _h writt5 8 _m works1 & %e lay 9 h] grave1 t he awoke to a k ( 8 long neglect4 ,mr4 ,fr\de says t ,c>lyle (t5 said1 :5 !re 0 no m opportunity = a k9d ^w to rea* 8 wife3 ,o if ,i c\ld b see h] = five m9utes1 to assure h] t ,i really c>$ = h] ?r\gh\t all t2 b %e nev] knew x1 %e nev] knew x4 ,x is no wond] t ,mr4 ,fr\de 0 compell$ to write ( ,c>lyle ^! sad words3 ,= _m ye>s aft] %e _h left him1 :5 he pass$ ! spot :]e %e 0 la/ se5 alive he w\ld b>e 8 gray head 9 ! w9d & ra91 8 features wrung ) unavail+ sorr[4 ,we are prone to take too _m ?+s = grant$4 ,y %\ld n assume t y\r ?\ghtless ^w1 or h>% mann]1 or =getfulness ( little & delicate att5tions w h no effect1 & w be duly pass$ by z unmean+4 ,no su* ?+6 ,e ^w or look :i* is incompatible ) g5u9e love & respect weighs l a mill/one4 ,g5tle att5tions w be rememb]$1 n only ?r\gh ! day1 b ?r\gh all ! days4 ,rec5tly1 :ile on a visit 9 ,irv+ton-on-!-,hudson1 ! wid[ ( a celebrat$ publi%] l$ me to ! portrait ( h] lam5t$ husb&1 & /ood 9 admiration be=e ! magnific5t pa9t+4 ,%e !n said to me3 ,i e/eem x ! greate/ honor t c\ld be conf]r$ ^u me to h be5 ! wife ( su* a man4 ,c\ld !re be a gr&] tribute to an att5tive & devot$ husb&8 ,9 t exquisite "w1 ,memorials ( a ,quiet ,life1 ,mrs4 ,h>e pays ?is beautiful tribute to h] husb&3 ,i nev] saw any body s easy to live )1 by :om ! daily petty ?+s ( life 7 pass$ ov] s lightly2 & !n !re is a *>m 9 ! ref9em5t ( feel+ :i* is n to be told 9 its influ5ce ^u trifles4 ,mrs4 ,/[e1 9 describ+ ! good qualities ( ! ,du*ess ( ,su!rl& 9 h] own home 9 ,scotl&1 says t %e excell$ 9 consid]at5ess4 ,paul's advice is z beautiful z x is true1 & suits "y m>ri$ p p]fectly4 ,9 ! ,revis$ ,v]sion x reads ?us3 ,9 l[l9ess ( m9d ea* c\nt+ o!r bett] ?an himself2 n look+ ea* ( y to 8 own ?+s1 b ea* ( y also to ! ?+s ( o!rs4 ,ano!r piece ( ,paul9e advice is ( equally useful quality3 ,let u !re=e foll[ aft] ! ?+s :i* make = peace1 & ?+s :]e) "o may edify ano!r4 ,happy are !y :om dea? has n yet divid$1 & to :om x is /ill grant$ to say su* words & d su* k9dly acts z w prove delightful memories :5 ! ,happy ,to-,days become only ,ye/]days 9 ! ,home4