file which includes the original illustrations4 ,see #bahbi-;h4htm or #bahbi-;h4zip3 7https3_/_/www4gutenberg4org_/dirs_/#b_/ a_/h_/b_/bahbi_/bahbi-;h_/#bahbi-;h4htm7 or 7https3_/_/www4gutenberg4org_/dirs_/#b_/ a_/h_/b_/bahbi_/bahbi-;h4zip7 ,transcriber's note3 ,page numbers #aj and #cgj were skipped in the original text2 they are not missing4 ,there were two pages #cee and #cef in the original2 the two between page #ced and the first page #cee have been renumbered #ced;a and #cde;b and references to them in the text changed accordingly4 ,printer errors were corrected silently and hyphenation was made consistent1 but variant spellings have been preserved4 ,a ,,treatise ,,on ,,domestic ,,economy1 ,for the ,use of ,young ,ladies at ,home1 and at ,school4 by ,,miss ,,catherine ,e4 ,,beecher4 ,revised ,edition1 ,with ,numerous ,additions and ,illustrative ,engravings4 ,new-,york3 ,harper ,brothers1 #hb ,cliff ,street4 #ahde4 ,entered1 according to ,act of ,congress1 in the year #ahdb1 by ,thomas ,h4 ,webb1 ,co41 in the ,clerk's ,office of the ,district ,court of ,massachusetts4 ,,to ,,american ,,mothers1 whose intelligence and virtues have inspired admiration and respect1 whose experience has furnished many valuable suggestions1 in this work1 whose approbation will be highly valued1 and whose influence1 in promoting the object aimed at1 is respectfully solicited1 this work is dedicated1 by their friend and countrywoman1 ,,the ,,author4 ,,preface ,,to ,,the ,,third ,,edition4 ,the author of this work was led to attempt it1 by discovering1 in her extensive travels1 the deplorable sufferings of multitudes of young wives and mothers1 from the combined influence of poor health1 poor domestics1 and a defective domestic education4 ,the number of young women whose health is crushed1 ere the first few years of married life are past1 would seem incredible to one who has not investigated this subject1 and it would be vain to attempt to depict the sorrow1 discouragement1 and distress experienced in most families where the wife and mother is a perpetual invalid4 ,the writer became early convinced that this evil results mainly from the fact1 that young girls1 especially in the more wealthy classes1 are not trained for their profession4 ,in early life1 they go through a course of school training which results in great debility of constitution1 while1 at the same time1 their physical and domestic education is almost wholly neglected4 ,thus they enter on their most arduous and sacred duties so inexperienced and uninformed1 and with so little muscular and nervous strength1 that probably there is not one chance in ten1 that young women of the present day1 will pass through the first years of married life without such prostration of health and spirits as makes life a burden to themselves1 and1 it is to be feared1 such as seriously interrupts the confidence and happiness of married life4 ,the measure which1 more than any other1 would tend to remedy this evil1 would be to place domestic economy on an equality with the other sciences in female schools4 ,this should be done because it can be properly and systematically taught 7not practically1 but as a science71 as much so as political economy or moral science1 or any other branch of study2 because it embraces knowledge1 which will be needed by young women at all times and in all places2 because this science can never be properly taught until it is made a branch of study2 and because this method will secure a dignity and importance in the estimation of young girls1 which can never be accorded while they perceive their teachers and parents practically attaching more value to every other department of science than this4 ,when young ladies are taught the construction of their own bodies1 and all the causes in domestic life which tend to weaken the constitution2 when they are taught rightly to appreciate and learn the most convenient and economical modes of performing all family duties1 and of employing time and money2 and when they perceive the true estimate accorded to these things by teachers and friends1 the grand cause of this evil will be removed4 ,women will be trained to secure1 as of first importance1 a strong and healthy constitution1 and all those rules of thrift and economy that will make domestic duty easy and pleasant4 ,to promote this object1 the writer prepared this volume as a text-book for female schools4 ,it has been examined by the ,massachusetts ,board of ,education1 and been deemed worthy by them to be admitted as a part of the ,massachusetts ,school ,library4 ,it has also been adopted as a text-book in some of our largest and most popular female schools1 both at the ,east and ,west4 ,the following1 from the pen of ,mr4 ,george ,b4 ,emmerson1 one of the most popular and successful teachers in our country1 who has introduced this work as a text-book in his own school1 will exhibit the opinion of one who has formed his judgment from experience in the use of the work3 ,it may be objected that such things cannot be taught by books4 ,why not8 ,why may not the structure of the human body1 and the laws of health deduced therefrom1 be as well taught as the laws of natural philosophy8 ,why are not the application of these laws to the management of infants and young children as important to a woman as the application of the rules of arithmetic to the extraction of the cube root8 ,why may not the properties of the atmosphere be explained1 in reference to the proper ventilation of rooms1 or exercise in the open air1 as properly as to the burning of steel or sodium8 ,why is not the human skeleton as curious and interesting as the air-pump2 and the action of the brain1 as the action of a steam-engine8 ,why may not the healthiness of different kinds of food and drink1 the proper modes of cooking1 and the rules in reference to the modes and times of taking them1 be discussed as properly as rules of grammar1 or facts in history8 ,are not the principles that should regulate clothing1 the rules of cleanliness1 the advantages of early rising and domestic exercise1 as readily communicated as the principles of mineralogy1 or rules of syntax8 ,are not the rules of ,jesus ,christ1 applied to refine domestic manners and preserve a good temper1 as important as the abstract principles of ethics1 as taught by ,paley1 ,wayland1 or ,jouffroy8 ,may not the advantages of neatness1 system1 and order1 be as well illustrated in showing how they contribute to the happiness of a family1 as by showing how they add beauty to a copy-book1 or a portfolio of drawings8 ,would not a teacher be as well employed in teaching the rules of economy1 in regard to time and expenses1 or in regard to dispensing charity1 as in teaching double1 or single entry in bookkeeping8 ,are not the principles that should guide in constructing a house1 and in warming and ventilating it properly1 as important to young girls as the principles of the ,athenian ,commonwealth1 or the rules of ,roman tactics8 ,is it not as important that children should be taught the dangers to the mental faculties1 when over-excited on the one hand1 or left unoccupied on the other1 as to teach them the conflicting theories of political economy1 or the speculations of metaphysicians8 ,for ourselves1 we have always found children1 especially girls1 peculiarly ready to listen to what they saw would prepare them for future duties4 ,the truth1 that education should be a preparation for actual1 real life1 has the greatest force with children4 ,the constantly-recurring inquiry1 ',what will be the use of this study8' is always satisfied by showing1 that it will prepare for any duty1 relation1 or office which1 in the natural course of things1 will be likely to come4 ,we think this book extremely well suited to be used as a text-book in schools for young ladies1 and many chapters are well adapted for a reading book for children of both sexes4 ,to this the writer would add the testimony of a lady who has used this work with several classes of young girls and young ladies4 ,she remarked that she had never known a school-book that awakened more interest1 and that some young girls would learn a lesson in this when they would study nothing else4 ,she remarked1 also1 that when reciting the chapter on the construction of houses1 they became greatly interested in inventing plans of their own1 which gave an opportunity to the teacher to point out difficulties and defects4 ,had this part of domestic economy been taught in schools1 our land would not be so defaced with awkward1 misshapen1 inconvenient1 and1 at the same time1 needlessly expensive houses1 as it now is4 ,although the writer was trained to the care of children1 and to perform all branches of domestic duty1 by some of the best of housekeepers1 much in these pages is offered1 not as the result of her own experience1 but as what has obtained the approbation of some of the most judicious mothers and housekeepers in the nation4 ,the articles on ,physiology and ,hygiene1 and those on horticulture1 were derived from standard works on these subjects1 and are sanctioned by the highest authorities4 ,the ,american ,housekeeper's ,receipt ,book is another work prepared by the author of the ,domestic ,economy1 in connexion with several experienced housekeepers1 and is designed for a supplement to this work4 ,on pages #ced;a and #ced;b will be found the ,preface and ,analysis of that work1 the two books being designed for a complete course of instructions on every department of ,domestic ,economy4 ,the copyright interest in these two works is held by a board of gentlemen appointed for the purpose1 who1 after paying a moderate compensation to the author for the time and labour spent in preparing these works1 will employ all the remainder paid over by the publishers1 to aid in educating and locating such female teachers as wish to be employed in those portions of our country1 which are most destitute of schools4 ,the contract with the publisher provides that the publisher shall guaranty the sales and thus secure against any losses for bad debts1 for which he shall receive five per cent4 ,he shall charge twenty per cent4 for commissions paid to retailers1 and also the expenses of printing1 paper1 and binding1 at the current market prices1 and make no other charges4 ,the net profits thus determined are then to be divided equally1 the publishers taking one half1 and paying the other half to the board above mentioned4 ,,contents4 ,,preface1 #g ,,chapter ,i4 ,,peculiar ,,responsibilities ,,of ,,american ,,women4 ,american ,women should feel a peculiar ,interest in ,democratic ,institutions4 ,the ,maxim of our ,civil ,institutions4 ,its ,identity with the main ,principle of ,christianity4 ,relations involving ,subordination2 why they are needful4 ,examples4 ,how these ,relations are decided in a ,democracy4 ,what decides the ,equity of any ,law or ,institution4 ,the ,principle of ,aristocracy4 ,the ,tendency of ,democracy in ,respect to the ,interests of ,women4 ,illustrated in the ,united ,states4 ,testimony of ,de ,tocqueville4 ,miss ,martineau's ,misrepresentations4 ,in what ,respects are ,women subordinate8 and why8 ,wherein are they equal or superior in ,influence8 and how are they placed by ,courtesy8 ,how can ,american ,women rectify any real ,disadvantages involved in our ,civil ,institutions8 ,opinion of ,de ,tocqueville as to the ,influence and ,example of ,american ,democracy4 ,responsibilities involved in this ,view1 especially those of ,american ,women1 #be ,,chapter ,,ii4 ,,difficulties ,,peculiar ,,to ,,american ,,women4 ,a ,law of ,moral ,action to be noted4 ,its ,application4 ,considerations to be borne in ,mind1 in appreciating peculiar ,trials4 ,application to ,american ,women4 ,difference between this and ,aristocratic ,countries4 ,how this affects the ,interests of ,american ,women4 ,effect of ,wealth1 in this ,country1 on ,domestic ,service4 ,effects on the ,domestic ,comfort of ,women4 ,second peculiar ,trial of ,american ,women4 ,extent of this ,evil4 ,the ,writer's ,observation on this ,point4 ,effects on the ,anticipations of ,mothers and ,daughters4 ,infrequency of ,healthful ,women in the ,wealthy ,classes4 ,causes which operate to undermine the ,female ,constitution4 ,excitement of ,mind4 ,course of ,intellectual ,training4 ,taxation1 in ,domestic ,life1 of ,american ,mothers and ,housekeepers4 ,exercise and ,fresh ,air needful to balance ,mental ,excitement4 ,defect in ,american1 compared with ,english1 ,customs1 in this ,respect4 ,difference in the ,health and ,youthfulness of ,appearance between ,english and ,american ,mothers4 ,liabilities of ,american ,women to the uncommon ,exposures of a ,new ,country4 ,remarks of ,de ,tocqueville and the ,writer on this ,point1 #ch ,,chapter ,,iii4 ,,remedies ,,for ,,the ,,preceding ,,difficulties4 ,first ,remedy suggested4 ,obligations of ,wealthy ,ladies on this ,point4 ,how a ,dearth of ,domestics may prove a ,blessing4 ,second ,remedy4 ,domestic ,economy should be taught in ,schools4 ,third ,remedy4 ,reasons for endowing ,colleges and ,professional ,schools4 ,similar ,reasons exist for endowing ,female ,institutions4 ,present ,evils in conducting ,female ,education4 ,a ,sketch of a ,model ,female ,institution4 ,accommodations provided4 ,mode of securing ,exercise to ,pupils4 ,objections to this answered4 ,calisthenics4 ,course of ,intellectual ,discipline adopted4 ,mode of ,division of ,labor adopted4 ,example of ,illinois in ,regard to ,female ,education4 ,economy of ,health and ,time secured by such ,institutions4 ,plan suggested for the ,early ,education of ,young ,girls4 ,last ,remedy suggested1 #dh ,,chapter ,,iv4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,economy ,,as ,a ,,branch ,,of ,,study4 ,impediment to making ,domestic ,economy a ,study at ,school4 ,first ,reason why it should be so made4 ,state of ,domestic ,service precarious4 ,second ,reason4 ,examples illustrating4 ,third ,reason4 ,questions asked4 ,first ,objection2 how answered4 ,next ,objection2 how answered4 ,next ,objection2 how answered4 ,last ,reason1 #fc ,,chapter ,v4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,health4 ,importance of a ,knowledge of the ,laws of ,health1 and of the ,human ,system1 to ,females4 ,construction of the ,human ,frame4 ,,bones2 their ,structure1 ,design1 and ,use4 ,engraving and ,description4 ,spinal ,column4 ,engravings of ,vertebr4 ,exercise of the ,bones4 ,,muscles2 their ,constitution1 ,use1 and ,connection with the ,bones4 ,engraving and ,description4 ,operation of ,muscles4 ,,nerves2 their ,use4 ,spinal ,column4 ,engravings and ,descriptions4 ,distortions of the ,spine4 ,engravings and ,descriptions4 ,,blood-,,vessels2 their ,object4 ,engravings and ,descriptions4 ,the ,heart1 and its ,connection with the ,system4 ,engravings and ,descriptions4 ,,organs ,,of ,,digestion ,,and ,,respiration4 ,engraving and ,description4 ,process of ,digestion4 ,circulation of the ,blood4 ,process of ,respiration4 ,necessity of ,pure ,air4 ,,the ,,skin4 ,process of ,perspiration4 ,insensible ,perspiration4 ,heat of the ,body4 ,absorbents4 ,importance of frequent ,ablutions and ,change of ,garments4 ,follicles of ,oily ,matter in the ,skin4 ,nerves of ,feeling1 #fh ,,chapter ,,vi4 ,,on ,,healthful ,,food4 ,responsibility of a ,housekeeper in ,regard to ,health and ,food4 ,the most fruitful ,cause of ,disease4 ,gastric ,juice2 how proportioned4 ,hunger the ,natural ,guide as to ,quantity of ,food4 ,a ,benevolent ,provision2 how perverted1 and its ,effects4 ,a ,morbid ,appetite1 how caused4 ,effects of too much ,food in the ,stomach4 ,duty of a ,housekeeper in ,reference to this4 ,proper ,time for taking ,food4 ,peristaltic ,motion4 ,need of ,rest to the ,muscles of the ,stomach4 ,time necessary between each ,meal4 ,exceptions of hard ,laborers and active ,children4 ,exercise2 its ,effect on all parts of the ,body4 ,how it produces ,hunger4 ,what is to be done by those who have lost the ,guidance of ,hunger in regulating the ,amount of ,food4 ,on ,quality of ,food4 ,difference as to ,risk from bad ,food1 between ,healthy ,persons who exercise1 and those of ,delicate and ,sedentary ,habits4 ,stimulating ,food2 its ,effects4 ,condiments needed only for ,medicine1 and to be avoided as ,food4 ,difference between ,animal and ,vegetable ,food4 ,opinion of some ,medical ,men4 ,medical ,men agree as to the ,excess of ,animal ,food in ,american ,diet4 ,extracts from ,medical ,writers on this ,point4 ,articles most easily digested4 ,the most ,unhealthful ,articles result from bad cooking4 ,caution as to ,mode of ,eating4 ,reason why ,mental and ,bodily ,exertions are injurious after a full ,meal4 ,changes in ,diet should be gradual2 and why4 ,drink most needed at ,breakfast2 and why4 ,dinner should be the heartiest ,meal2 and why4 ,little ,drink to be taken while eating2 and why4 ,extremes of ,heat or ,cold2 why injurious in ,food4 ,fluids immediately absorbed from the ,stomach4 ,why ,soups are hard of ,digestion4 ,case of ,alexis ,st4 ,martin4 ,why highly-concentrated ,nourishment is not good for ,health4 ,beneficial ,effects of using ,unbolted ,flour4 ,scarcity of ,wheat under ,william ,pitt's ,administration1 and its ,effects4 ,causes of a ,debilitated ,constitution from the ,misuse of ,food1 #id ,,chapter ,,vii4 ,,on ,,healthful ,,drinks4 ,responsibility of a ,housekeeper in this ,respect4 ,stimulating ,drinks not required for the ,perfection of the ,human ,system4 ,therefore they are needless4 ,first ,evil in using them4 ,second ,evil4 ,five ,kinds of ,stimulating ,articles in ,use in this ,country4 ,first ,argument in ,favor of ,stimulants1 and how answered4 ,second ,argument2 how answered4 ,the ,writer's ,view of the ,effects of ,tea and ,coffee on ,american ,females4 ,duty in ,reference to ,children4 ,black ,tea the most harmless ,stimulant4 ,warm ,drinks not needful4 ,hot ,drinks injurious4 ,effect of ,hot ,drinks on ,teeth4 ,mexican ,customs and their ,effects illustrating this4 ,opinion of ,dr4 ,combe on this subject4 ,difference between the ,stimulus of ,animal ,food and the ,stimulating ,drinks used4 ,common ,habit of ,drinking freely of ,cold ,water debilitating4 ,persons taking but little ,exercise require but little ,drink1 #ajf ,,chapter ,,viii4 ,,on ,,clothing4 ,calculations made from ,bills of ,mortality2 and ,inference from them4 ,causes of ,infant ,mortality4 ,of the ,circulation in ,infancy4 ,warm ,dress for ,infants2 and why4 ,investigations in ,france1 and ,results4 ,dangers from the opposite ,extreme4 ,effects of too much ,clothing4 ,rule of ,safety4 ,featherbeds2 why unhealthy in ,warm ,weather4 ,best ,nightgowns for ,young ,children4 ,clothing2 how to be proportioned4 ,irrational ,dress of ,women4 ,use of ,flannel next the ,skin4 ,evils of ,tight ,dresses to ,women4 ,false ,taste in our ,prints of ,fashions4 ,modes in which ,tight ,dresses operate to weaken the ,constitution4 ,rule of ,safety as to ,looseness of ,dress4 ,example of ,english ,ladies in ,appropriateness of ,dress1 #aab ,,chapter ,,ix4 ,,on ,,cleanliness4 ,importance of ,cleanliness not realized1 without a ,knowledge of the ,nature of the ,skin4 ,foundation of the ,maxim respecting the ,healthfulness of ,dirt4 ,office of the ,skin4 ,other ,organs which perform similar ,duties4 ,amount of ,matter daily exhaled by the ,skin4 ,effect of a ,chill upon the ,skin1 when perspiring4 ,illustration of this4 ,effect of closing the ,pores of the ,skin1 with ,dirt or other ,matter4 ,the ,skin absorbs ,matter into the ,blood4 ,reasons for a ,daily ,ablution of the whole ,body4 ,effects of ,fresh ,air on ,clothing worn next the ,skin4 ,americans compared with other ,nations as to ,care of the ,skin4 ,cautions in ,regard to a ,use of the ,bath4 ,how to decide when ,cold ,bathing is useful4 ,warm ,bath tends to prevent ,colds2 and why4 ,when a ,bath should be taken4 ,advantages of ,general ,ablutions to ,children4 ,care of the ,teeth1 #aah ,,chapter ,x4 ,,on ,,early ,,rising4 ,universal ,impression in ,respect to this ,practice4 ,why it should be regarded as ,american and ,democratic4 ,practice in ,aristocratic ,circles in ,england4 ,appeal to ,american ,women4 ,first ,consideration in ,favor of ,early ,rising4 ,another ,physiological ,reason in its ,favor4 ,another ,reason4 ,time necessary for ,sleep4 ,proper ,hours for ,rising and ,retiring4 ,evils of protracted ,sleep4 ,testimony of ,sir ,john ,sinclair4 ,another ,reason for ,early ,rising4 ,responsibility of ,parents for the ,health and ,industry of a ,family4 ,effects of ,early ,rising on ,general ,society1 #abb ,,chapter ,,xi4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,exercise4 ,causes which produce ,delicacy and ,decay of the ,female ,constitution4 ,want of ,exercise4 ,neglect of the ,laws of ,health4 ,want of ,pure ,air4 ,objectionable ,amusements4 ,sleeping by ,day4 ,want of ,exercise a greater ,cause of these ,evils1 than all the ,others combined4 ,importance of understanding the ,influence of the ,neglect or ,abuse of the ,muscular ,system4 ,nerves of ,sensation and of ,motion4 ,both need ,exercise4 ,rules for ,exercise4 ,importance of a ,feeling of ,interest in taking ,exercise4 ,walks merely for ,exercise4 ,exercise most proper for ,young ,girls4 ,exercise1 more than any ,thing else1 imparts fresh ,strength and ,vitality to all ,parts of the ,body4 ,mistakes of ,mothers and ,teachers on this ,subject4 ,effects of neglecting to use the ,muscles2 ,effects of excessive ,use of them4 ,effect of ,school ,confinement and ,seats4 ,extract from the ,young ,lady's ,friend4 ,lady ,montagu4 ,daughter of a ,french ,nobleman1 #abh ,,chapter ,,xii4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,manners4 ,what are ,good-manners4 ,defect in ,american ,manners4 ,coldness and ,reserve of the ,descendants of the ,puritans accounted for4 ,cause of the ,want of ,courtesy in ,american ,manners4 ,want of ,discrimination4 ,difference of ,principles regulating ,aristocratic and ,democratic ,manners4 ,rules for regulating the ,courtesies founded on ,precedence of ,age1 ,office1 and ,station1 in a ,democracy4 ,manners appropriate to ,superiors and ,subordinates4 ,miss ,martineau's ,remarks on the ,universal ,practice of ,americans to give ,precedence to ,woman4 ,peculiar ,defect of ,americans in this ,respect4 ,this to be remedied in the ,domestic ,circle1 alone4 ,rules of ,precedence to be enforced in the ,family4 ,manners and ,tones towards ,superiors to be regulated in the ,family4 ,treatment of grown ,brothers and ,sisters by ,young ,children4 ,acknowledgement of ,favors by ,children to be required4 ,children to ask leave or apologize in certain ,cases4 ,rules for avoiding ,remarks that wound the ,feelings of ,others4 ,rules of ,hospitality4 ,conventional ,rules4 ,rules for ,table ,manners4 ,caution as to teaching these ,rules to ,children4 ,caution as to ,allowances to be made for those deficient in ,good-manners4 ,comparison of ,english and ,american ,manners1 by ,de ,tocqueville4 ,america may hope to excel all ,nations in ,refinement1 ,taste1 and ,good-breeding2 and why4 ,effects of ,wealth and ,equalisation of ,labor4 ,allusion to the ,manners of ,courts in the past ,century1 #acf ,,chapter ,,xiii4 ,,on ,,the ,,preservation ,,of ,a ,,good ,,temper ,,in ,a ,,housekeeper4 ,influence of a ,housekeeper on ,domestic ,happiness4 ,contrasts to illustrate4 ,sympathy4 ,influence of ,tones4 ,allowances to be made for ,housekeepers4 ,considerations to aid in regulating ,temper and ,tones4 ,first2 ,her ,duties to be regarded as ,dignified1 ,important1 and ,difficult4 ,second2 ,she should feel that she really has ,great ,difficulties to meet and overcome4 ,third2 ,she should deliberately calculate upon having her ,plans interfered with1 and be prepared for the ,emergency4 ,fourth2 ,all her ,plans should be formed consistently with the ,means at ,command4 ,fifth2 ,system1 ,economy1 and ,neatness1 only valuable when they tend to promote the ,comfort and ,well-being of the ,family4 ,sixth2 ,government of ,tones of ,voice4 ,some ,persons think ,angry ,tones needful4 ,they mistake4 ,illustration4 ,scolding1 ,unlady-like1 and in ,bad ,taste4 ,a ,forgiving ,spirit necessary4 ,seventh and ,last ,consideration offered2 ,right ,view of a ,superintending ,providence4 ,fretfulness and ,complaining sinful1 #adh ,,chapter ,,xiv4 ,,on ,,habits ,,of ,,system ,,and ,,order4 ,question of the ,equality of the ,sexes1 frivolous and useless4 ,relative ,importance and ,difficulty of the ,duties a ,woman is called to perform4 ,her ,duties not trivial4 ,more difficult than those of the ,queen of a great ,nation4 ,a ,habit of ,system and ,order necessary4 ,right ,apportionment of ,time1 ,general ,principles4 ,christianity to be the ,foundation4 ,intellectual and ,social ,interests to be preferred to ,gratification of ,taste or ,appetite4 ,the ,latter to be last in our ,estimation4 ,no ,sacrifice of ,health allowable4 ,neglect of ,health a ,sin in the ,sight of ,god4 ,regular ,season of ,rest appointed by the ,creator4 ,divisions of ,time4 ,systematic ,arrangement of ,house ,articles and other ,conveniences4 ,regular ,employment for each ,member of a ,family4 ,children can be of great ,service4 ,boys should be taught ,family ,work4 ,advantage to them in ,afterlife4 ,older ,children to take ,care of ,infants of a ,family1 #aee ,,chapter ,,xv4 ,,on ,,giving ,,in ,,charity4 ,no ,point of ,duty more difficult to fix by ,rule1 than ,charity4 ,first ,consideration2--,object for which we are placed in this ,world4 ,how to be perfectly happy4 ,self-denying ,benevolence4 ,important ,distinction4 ,second ,consideration2--,natural ,principles not to be exterminated1 but regulated and controlled4 ,all ,constitutional ,propensities good1 and designed to be gratified4 ,their ,abuses to be guarded against4 ,third ,consideration2--,superfluities sometimes proper1 and sometimes not4 ,fourth ,consideration2--,no ,rule of ,duty right for ,one and not for ,all4 ,the ,opposite of this ,principle tested4 ,some ,use of ,superfluities necessary4 ,physical ,gratifications should always be subordinate to ,social1 ,intellectual1 and ,moral ,advantages4 ,difficulties in the ,way4 ,remarks upon them4 ,plan for ,keeping an ,account of ,necessaries and ,superfluities4 ,untoward ,results of our ,actions do not always prove that we deserve ,blame4 ,examples of ,conformity to the ,rules here laid down4 ,general ,principles to guide in deciding upon ,objects of ,charity4 ,parable of ,good ,samaritan4 ,who are our ,neighbors4 ,those most in ,need to be first relieved4 ,intellectual and ,moral ,wants more necessary to be supplied than ,physical4 ,not much ,need of ,charity in supplying ,physical ,wants in this ,country4 ,system of ,associated ,charities1 in which many small ,sums are combined4 ,indiscriminate ,charity--,very injurious to ,society1 as a ,general ,rule4 ,exceptions4 ,impropriety of judging of the ,charities of ,others1 #afg ,,chapter ,,xvi4 ,,on ,,economy ,,of ,,time ,,and ,,expenses4 ,economy of ,time4 ,value of ,time4 ,right ,apportionment of ,time4 ,laws appointed by ,god for the ,jews4 ,proportions of ,property and ,time the ,jews were required to devote to ,intellectual1 ,benevolent1 and ,religious ,purposes4 ,the ,levites4 ,the weekly ,sabbath4 ,the ,sabbatical ,year4 ,three sevenths of the ,time of the ,jews devoted to ,god's ,service4 ,christianity removes the ,restrictions laid on the ,jews1 but demands all our ,time to be devoted to our own best ,interests and the ,good of our ,fellow-men4 ,some ,practical ,good to be the ,ultimate ,end of all our ,pursuits4 ,enjoyment connected with the ,performance of every ,duty4 ,great ,mistake of ,mankind4 ,a ,final ,account to be given of the ,apportionment of our ,time4 ,various ,modes of economizing ,time4 ,system and ,order4 ,uniting several ,objects in one ,employment4 ,employment of ,odd ,intervals of ,time4 ,we are bound to aid ,others in economizing ,time4 ,economy in ,expenses4 ,necessity of ,information on this ,point4 ,contradictory ,notions4 ,general ,principles in which all agree4 ,knowledge of ,income and ,expenses4 ,every ,one bound to do as much as she can to secure ,system and ,order4 ,examples4 ,evils of ,want of ,system and ,forethought4 ,young ,ladies should early learn to be systematic and economical4 ,articles of ,dress and ,furniture should be in ,keeping with each other1 and with the ,circumstances of the ,family4 ,mistaken ,economy4 ,education of ,daughters away from ,home injudicious4 ,nice ,sewing should be done at ,home4 ,cheap ,articles not always most economical4 ,buying by wholesale economical only in special cases4 ,penurious ,savings made by getting the ,poor to work cheap4 ,relative ,obligations of the ,poor and the ,rich in ,regard to ,economy4 ,economy of ,providence in the ,unequal ,distribution of ,property4 ,carelessness of ,expense not a ,mark of ,gentility4 ,beating down ,prices improper in ,wealthy ,people4 ,inconsistency in ,american would-be ,fashionables1 #ahj ,,chapter ,,xvii4 ,,on ,,health ,,of ,,mind4 ,intimate ,connection between the ,body and ,mind4 ,brain excited by improper ,stimulants taken into the ,stomach4 ,mental ,faculties then affected4 ,example of a ,person having lost a ,portion of his ,skull4 ,causes of ,mental ,diseases4 ,want of ,oxygenized ,blood4 ,fresh ,air absolutely necessary4 ,excessive ,exercise of the ,intellect or ,feelings a ,cause of ,derangement4 ,such ,attention to ,religion1 as prevents the ,performance of other ,duties1 wrong4 ,teachers and ,parents should look to this4 ,unusual ,precocity in ,children usually the ,result of a ,diseased ,brain4 ,parents generally add ,fuel to this ,fever4 ,idiocy often the ,result1 or the ,precocious ,child sinks below the ,average of ,mankind4 ,this ,evil yet prevalent in ,colleges and other ,seminaries4 ,a ,medical ,man necessary in every ,seminary4 ,some ,pupils always needing ,restraint in ,regard to ,study4 ,a ,third ,cause of ,mental ,disease1 the ,want of ,appropriate ,exercise of the ,various ,faculties of the ,mind4 ,extract from ,dr4 ,combe4 ,examples of ,wealthy ,ladies4 ,beneficial ,results of active ,intellectual ,employments4 ,indications of a ,diseased ,mind1 #aie ,,chapter ,,xviii4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,domestics4 ,no ,subject on which ,american ,women need more ,wisdom1 ,patience1 ,principle1 and ,self-control4 ,its ,difficulties4 ,necessary ,evils4 ,miseries of ,aristocratic ,lands4 ,wisdom of ,conforming to ,actual ,circumstances4 ,how to judge correctly respecting ,domestics4 ,they should be treated as we would expect to be under similar ,circumstances4 ,when ,labor is scarce1 its ,value is increased4 ,instability of ,domestics2 how it may be remedied4 ,pride and ,insubordination2 how remedied4 ,abhorrence of ,servitude a ,national ,trait of ,character4 ,domestics easily convinced of the ,appropriateness of different ,degrees of ,subordination4 ,example4 ,domestics may be easily induced to be respectful in their ,deportment1 and appropriate in their ,dress4 ,deficiencies of ,qualifications for the ,performance of their ,duties2 how remedied4 ,forewarning1 better than ,chiding4 ,preventing1 better than finding ,fault4 ,faults should be pointed out in a ,kind ,manner4 ,some ,employers think it their ,office and ,duty to find ,fault4 ,domestics should be regarded with ,sympathy and ,forbearance1 #bjd ,,chapter ,,xix4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,infants4 ,necessity of a ,knowledge of this ,subject1 to every ,young ,lady4 ,examples4 ,extracts from ,doctors ,combe1 ,bell1 and ,eberle4 ,half the ,deaths of ,infants owing to ,mismanagement1 and ,errors in ,diet4 ,errors of ,parents and ,nurses4 ,error of administering ,medicines to ,children1 unnecessarily4 ,need of ,fresh ,air1 ,attention to ,food1 ,cleanliness1 ,dress1 and ,bathing4 ,cholera ,infantum not cured by ,nostrums4 ,formation of ,good ,habits in ,children1 #bac ,,chapter ,,xx4 ,,on ,,the ,,management ,,of ,,young ,,children4 ,physical ,education of ,children4 ,remark of ,dr4 ,clark1 and ,opinion of other ,medical ,men4 ,many ,popular ,notions relating to ,animal ,food for ,children1 erroneous4 ,the ,formation of the ,human ,teeth and ,stomach does not indicate that ,man was designed to live on ,flesh4 ,opinions of ,linnus and ,cuvier4 ,stimulus of ,animal ,food not necessary to ,full ,developement of the ,physical and ,intellectual ,powers4 ,examples4 ,of ,laplanders1 ,kamtschatkadales1 ,scotch ,highlanders1 ,siberian ,exiles1 ,africans1 ,arabs4 ,popular ,notion that ,animal ,food is more ,nourishing than ,vegetable4 ,different ,opinions on this ,subject4 ,experiments4 ,opinions of ,dr4 ,combe and others4 ,examples of ,men who lived to a great ,age4 ,dr4 ,franklin's ,testimony4 ,sir ,isaac ,newton and others4 ,albany ,orphan ,asylum4 ,deleterious ,practice of allowing ,children to eat at short ,intervals4 ,intellectual ,training4 ,schoolrooms4 ,moral ,character4 ,submission1 ,self-denial1 and ,benevolence1 the three most important ,habits to be formed in ,early ,life4 ,extremes to be guarded against4 ,medium ,course4 ,adults sometimes forget the ,value which ,children set on ,trifles4 ,example4 ,impossible to govern ,children1 properly1 without appreciating the ,value they attach to their ,pursuits and ,enjoyments4 ,those who govern ,children should join in their ,sports4 ,this the best way to gain their ,confidence and ,affection4 ,but ,older ,persons should never lose the ,attitude of ,superiors4 ,unsteadiness in ,government4 ,illustrations4 ,punishment from unsteady ,governors1 does little ,good4 ,over-,government4 ,want of ,patience and ,self-control in ,parents and ,governors4 ,example of ,parents more effectual than their ,precepts4 ,formation of ,habits of ,self-denial in ,early ,life4 ,denying ,ourselves to promote the ,happiness of ,others4 ,habits of ,honesty and ,veracity4 ,habits of ,modesty4 ,delicacy studiously to be cherished4 ,licentious and ,impure ,books to be banished4 ,bulwer a ,licentious ,writer1 and to be discountenanced1 #bbj ,,chapter ,,xxi4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,the ,,sick4 ,women frequently called upon to direct in ,cases of ,indisposition4 ,extremes to be avoided4 ,grand ,cause of most ,diseases1 ,excess in ,eating and ,drinking4 ,fasting useful4 ,extracts from ,doctors ,burne and ,combe4 ,necessity of a ,woman's ,understanding the ,nature and ,operation of ,common ,medicines4 ,simple ,electuary4 ,discretion required4 ,useful ,directions in ,regard to ,nursing the ,sick4 ,fresh ,air absolutely necessary4 ,frequent ,ablutions important4 ,dressing a ,blister4 ,arrangements to be made beforehand1 when practicable4 ,importance of ,cleanliness2 ,nothing more annoying to the ,sick1 than a want of it4 ,necessity of a proper ,preparation of ,food1 for the ,sick4 ,physicians' ,directions to be well understood and implicitly followed4 ,kindness1 ,patience1 and ,sympathy1 towards the ,sick1 important4 ,impositions of ,apothecaries4 ,drugs to be locked up from the ,access of ,children1 #bcd ,,chapter ,,xxii4 ,,on ,,accidents ,,and ,,antidotes4 ,medical ,aid should be promptly resorted to4 ,suffocation1 from ,substances in the ,throat4 ,common ,cuts4 ,wounds of ,arteries1 and other severe ,cuts4 ,bruises4 ,sprains4 ,broken ,limbs4 ,falls4 ,blows on the ,head4 ,burns4 ,drowning4 ,poisons3--,corrosive ,sublimate2 ,arsenic1 or ,cobalt2 ,opium2 ,acids2 ,alkalies4 ,stupefaction from ,fumes of ,charcoal1 or from entering a ,well1 ,limekiln1 or ,coalmine4 ,hemorrhage of the ,lungs1 ,stomach1 or ,throat4 ,bleeding of the ,nose4 ,dangers from ,lightning1 #bdj ,,chapter ,,xxiii4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,amusements ,,and ,,social ,,duties4 ,indefiniteness of ,opinion on this ,subject4 ,every ,person needs some ,recreation4 ,general ,rules4 ,how much ,time to be given4 ,what ,amusements proper4 ,those should always be avoided1 which cause ,pain1 or injure the ,health1 or endanger ,life1 or interfere with important ,duties1 or are pernicious in their ,tendency4 ,horse-racing1 ,circus-riding1 ,theatres1 and ,gambling4 ,dancing1 as now conducted1 does not conduce to ,health of ,body or ,mind1 but the contrary4 ,dancing in the ,open ,air beneficial4 ,social ,benefits of ,dancing considered4 ,ease and ,grace of ,manners better secured by a ,system of ,calisthenics4 ,the ,writer's ,experience4 ,balls going out of ,fashion1 among the more refined ,circles4 ,novel-reading4 ,necessity for ,discrimination4 ,young ,persons should be guarded from ,novels4 ,proper ,amusements for ,young ,persons4 ,cultivation of ,flowers and ,fruits4 ,benefits of the ,practice4 ,music4 ,children enjoy it4 ,collections of ,shells1 ,plants1 ,minerals1 c4 ,children's ,games and ,sports4 ,parents should join in them4 ,mechanical ,skill of ,children to be encouraged4 ,other ,enjoyments4 ,social ,enjoyments not always considered in the ,list of ,duties4 ,main ,object of ,life to form ,character4 ,family ,friendship should be preserved4 ,plan adopted by ,families of the ,writer's ,acquaintance4 ,kindness to ,strangers4 ,hospitality4 ,change of ,character of ,communities in ,relation to ,hospitality4 ,hospitality should be prompt4 ,strangers should be made to feel at their ,ease1 #bdd ,,chapter ,,xxiv4 ,,on ,,the ,,construction ,,of ,,houses4 ,importance to ,family ,comfort of well-constructed ,houses4 ,rules for constructing them4 ,economy of ,labor4 ,large ,houses4 ,arrangement of ,rooms4 ,wells and ,cisterns4 ,economy of ,money4 ,shape and ,arrangement of ,houses4 ,porticoes1 ,piazzas1 and other ,ornaments4 ,simplicity to be preferred4 ,fireplaces4 ,economy of ,health4 ,outdoor ,conveniences4 ,doors and ,windows4 ,ventilation4 ,economy of ,comfort4 ,domestics4 ,spare ,chambers4 ,good ,taste4 ,proportions4 ,color and ,ornaments4 ,plans of ,houses and ,domestic ,conveniences4 ,receipts for ,whitewash1 #beh ,,chapter ,,xxv4 ,,on ,,fires ,,and ,,lights4 ,wood ,fires4 ,construction of ,fireplaces4 ,firesets4 ,building a ,fire4 ,wood4 ,cautions4 ,stoves and ,grates4 ,cautions4 ,stovepipes4 ,anthracite ,coal4 ,bituminous ,coal4 ,proper ,grates4 ,coal ,stoves4 ,on ,lights4 ,lamps4 ,oil4 ,candles4 ,lard4 ,pearlash and ,water for cleansing ,lamps4 ,care of ,lamps4 ,difficulty4 ,articles needed in trimming ,lamps4 ,astral ,lamps4 ,wicks4 ,dipping ,wicks in ,vinegar4 ,shades4 ,weak ,eyes4 ,entry ,lamps4 ,night ,lamps4 ,tapers4 ,wax ,tapers for ,use in ,sealing ,letters4 ,to make ,candles4 ,moulds4 ,dipped ,candles4 ,rush ,lights1 #bhj ,,chapter ,,xxvi4 ,,on ,,washing4 ,all needful ,accommodations should be provided4 ,plenty of ,water1 easily accessible1 necessary4 ,articles to be provided for ,washing4 ,substitutes for ,soft ,water4 ,common ,mode of ,washing4 ,assorting ,clothes4 ,to ,wash ,bedding4 ,feathers4 ,calicoes4 ,bran-water4 ,potato-water4 ,soda ,washing4 ,soda ,soap4 ,mode of ,soda ,washing4 ,cautions in ,regard to ,colored ,clothes1 and ,flannels4 ,to ,wash ,brown ,linen1 ,muslins1 ,nankeen1 ,woollen ,table-,covers and ,shawls1 ,woollen ,yarn1 ,worsted and ,woollen ,hose4 ,to ,cleanse ,gentlemen's ,broadcloths4 ,to make ,ley1 ,soft ,soap1 ,hard ,soap1 ,white ,soap1 ,starch1 and other ,articles used in ,washing1 #bhd ,,chapter ,,xxvii4 ,,on ,,starching1 ,,ironing1 ,,and ,,cleansing4 ,to prepare ,starch4 ,glue and ,gum ,starch4 ,beef's or ,ox-,gall4 ,starching ,muslins and ,laces4 ,to ,cleanse or ,whiten ,silk ,lace1 or ,blond1 and ,white ,lace ,veils4 ,on ,ironing4 ,articles to be provided for ,ironing4 ,sprinkling1 ,folding1 and ,ironing1 #bib ,,chapter ,,xxviii4 ,,on ,,whitening1 ,,cleansing1 ,,and ,,dyeing4 ,to ,whiten ,articles and ,remove ,stains from them4 ,mixtures to ,remove ,stains and ,grease4 ,to ,cleanse ,silk ,handkerchiefs and ,ribands2 ,silk ,hose or ,gloves2 ,down and ,feathers2 ,straw and ,leghorn ,hats4 ,on ,coloring4 ,pink1 ,red1 ,yellow1 ,blue1 ,green1 ,salmon1 ,buff1 ,dove1 ,slate1 ,brown1 ,black1 and ,olive ,colors1 #bif ,,chapter ,,xxix4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,parlors4 ,proper ,arrangement of ,rooms4 ,shades and ,colors4 ,carpets1 ,curtains1 and other ,furniture1 should be selected with ,reference to each other4 ,laying down ,carpets4 ,blocks to prevent ,sofas and ,tables from rubbing against ,walls1 and to hold ,doors open4 ,footstools4 ,sweeping ,carpets4 ,tealeaves4 ,wet ,indian ,meal4 ,taking up and cleansing ,carpets4 ,washing ,carpets4 ,straw ,matting4 ,pictures and ,glasses4 ,curtains and ,sofas4 ,mahogany ,furniture4 ,unvarnished ,furniture2 ,mixtures for4 ,hearths and ,jambs4 ,sweeping and ,dusting ,parlors1 #cjb ,,chapter ,,xxx4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,breakfast ,,and ,,dining-,,rooms4 ,large ,closet necessary4 ,dumb ,waiter1 or ,sliding ,closet4 ,furniture for a ,table4 ,on ,setting a ,table4 ,rules for doing it properly2--for ,breakfast and ,tea2 for ,dinner4 ,on ,waiting at ,table4 ,on ,carving and ,helping at ,table1 #cjf ,,chapter ,,xxxi4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,chambers ,,and ,,bedrooms4 ,importance of well-ventilated ,sleeping-rooms4 ,debility and ,ill-health caused by a ,want of ,pure ,air4 ,chamber ,furniture4 ,cheap ,couch4 ,bedding4 ,feathers1 ,straw1 or ,hair1 ,mattresses4 ,to ,make a ,bed4 ,domestics should be provided with ,single ,beds1 and ,washing ,conveniences4 ,on ,packing and ,storing ,articles4 ,to ,fold a ,gentleman's ,coat and ,shirt1 and a ,frock4 ,packing ,trunks4 ,carpet ,bags4 ,bonnet ,covers4 ,packing ,household ,furniture for ,moving1 #caa ,,chapter ,,xxxii4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,the ,,kitchen1 ,,cellar1 ,,and ,,storeroom4 ,importance of a ,convenient ,kitchen4 ,floor should be painted4 ,sink and ,drain4 ,washing ,dishes4 ,conveniences needed4 ,rules4 ,kitchen ,furniture4 ,crockery4 ,iron ,ware4 ,tin ,ware4 ,wooden ,ware4 ,basket ,ware4 ,other ,articles4 ,on the ,care of the ,cellar4 ,storeroom4 ,modes of ,destroying ,insects and ,vermin1 #cag ,,chapter ,,xxxiii4 ,,on ,,sewing1 ,,cutting1 ,,and ,,mending4 ,importance of ,young ,girls being taught various ,kinds of ,stitching4 ,directions for doing various ,kinds of ,work4 ,work-,baskets1 and their ,contents4 ,on ,cutting and ,fitting ,garments4 ,silks4 ,cotton and ,linen4 ,old ,silk ,dresses quilted for ,skirts4 ,flannel2 ,white should be colored4 ,children's ,flannels4 ,nightgowns4 ,wrappers4 ,bedding4 ,mending1 #cbd ,,chapter ,,xxxiv4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,yards ,,and ,,gardens4 ,on the ,preparation of ,soil4 ,for ,pot-,plants4 ,on the ,preparation of a ,hot-,bed4 ,planting ,flower-,seeds4 ,to plant ,garden-,seeds4 ,transplanting4 ,to ,re-pot ,house-,plants4 ,on laying out ,yards4 ,gardens4 ,flower-,beds4 ,bulbs and ,tuberous ,roots4 ,list of ,various ,kinds of ,flowers1 in ,reference to ,color1 and ,height4 ,annuals4 ,climbing ,plants4 ,perennials4 ,herbaceous ,roots4 ,shrubs2 ,list of those most suitable for adorning a ,yard4 ,roses2 ,varieties of4 ,shade-,trees4 ,time for ,transplanting4 ,trees4 ,care of ,house ,plants1 #cca ,,chapter ,,xxxv4 ,,on ,,the ,,propagation ,,of ,,plants4 ,different ,modes of ,propagation2--,by ,offsets2 ,cuttings2 ,layers2 ,budding1 or ,inoculating2 ,ingrafting2--,whip-,grafting2 ,split-,grafting2 ,stock-,grafting4 ,pruning4 ,thinning1 #cda ,,chapter ,,xxxvi4 ,,on ,,the ,,cultivation ,,of ,,fruit4 ,value of ,attention to this ,subject4 ,preparation of ,soil4 ,planting of ,seeds4 ,budding1 ,grafting1 and ,transplanting4 ,training the ,limbs4 ,attention to the ,soil4 ,manuring4 ,filberts4 ,figs4 ,currants4 ,gooseberries4 ,raspberries4 ,strawberries4 ,grapes4 ,to ,preserve ,fruit2 ,modes of ,preserving ,fruit-,trees4 ,fire ,blight4 ,worms1 #cdg ,,chapter ,,xxxvii4 ,,miscellaneous ,,directions4 ,women should know how to take proper ,care of ,domestic ,animals4 ,care of a ,horse4 ,care of a ,cow4 ,poultry4 ,cautions for ,winter4 ,smoky ,chimneys4 ,house-,cleaning4 ,parties4 ,invitations4 ,comfort of ,guests4 ,flower-,baskets4 ,fire-,boards4 ,water-proof ,shoes4 ,earthen ,ware4 ,cements1 c4 c4 #cea ,,note4--,cooking1 #ced ,,glossary1 #cee ,,index1 #cga ,,list ,,of ,,engravings4 #a4 ,the ,human ,skeleton1 showing the ,connection of the ,bones of the ,system1 #gj #b1 #c1 #d4 ,the ,cervical1 ,dorsal1 and ,lumbar1 ,vertebr1 #gb #e4 ,muscles of the ,arm1 #gd #f4 ,vertical ,section of the ,skull and ,spinal ,column1 side view1 #gg #g4 ,view of the same as seen from behind1 #gg #h4 ,ramifications of the ,nerves1 #gi #i1 #aj1 #aa4 ,natural and ,distorted ,spines1 #ha #ab4 ,vascular ,system1 or ,blood-,vessels1 #hb #ac4 ,the ,two ,sides of the ,heart1 separated1 #he #ad4 ,the ,heart1 with its two ,sides united1 as in ,nature1 #hf #ae4 ,the ,heart1 with the great ,blood-,vessels1 on a larger scale1 #hg #af4 ,organs of ,digestion and ,respiration1 #hh #ag4 ,elevation of a ,cottage of ,fine ,proportions1 #bfb #ah4 ,ground-plan of the same1 #bfb #ai4 ,arrangement of one ,side of a ,room #bfc #bj4 ,fireplace and ,mantelpiece1 #bfe #ba4 ,elevation of a ,cottage on a different ,plan from the former1 #bfe #bb4 ,ground-plan of the same1 #bff #bc1 #bd4 ,ground-plan and ,second ,story of a two-story ,cottage1 #bfg #be4 ,front ,elevation of the latter ,cottage1 #bfh #bf4 ,front ,elevation1 on a different ,plan1 #bfh #bg1 #bh4 ,plans of ,first and ,second ,stories of the latter ,elevation1 #bfi #bi1 #cj4 ,plans of ,first and ,second ,stories of a larger ,house1 #bgj #ca4 ,front ,elevation of a very convenient ,cottage1 #bga #cb4 ,ground-plan of the same1 #bgb #cc4 ,cottage of ,daniel ,wadsworth1 ,esq41 near ,hartford1 ,conn41 #bgd #cd4 ,accommodations for securing ,water with the least ,labor1 #bge #ce4 ,back-door ,accommodations1 #bgf #cf4 ,latticed ,portico1 #bgg #cg4 ,sliding ,closet1 or ,dumb ,waiter1 #bgh #ch4 ,cheap ,couch1 #cab #ci4 ,plan of a ,flower-,bed1 #ccd #dj4 ,budding1 #cdc #da4 ,grafting1 #cdd #db4 ,stock-,grafting1 #cde ,,domestic ,,economy4 ,,chapter ,i4 ,,the ,,peculiar ,,responsibilities ,,of ,,american ,,women4 ,there are some reasons1 why ,american women should feel an interest in the support of the democratic institutions of their ,country1 which it is important that they should consider4 ,the great maxim1 which is the basis of all our civil and political institutions1 is1 that all men are created equal1 and that they are equally entitled to life1 liberty1 and the pursuit of happiness4 ,but it can readily be seen1 that this is only another mode of expressing the fundamental principle which the ,great ,ruler of the ,universe has established1 as the law of ,his eternal government4 ,thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself2 and ,whatsoever ye would that men should do to you1 do ye even so to them1 are the ,scripture forms1 by which the ,supreme ,lawgiver requires that each individual of our race shall regard the happiness of others1 as of the same value as his own2 and which forbid any institution1 in private or civil life1 which secures advantages to one class1 by sacrificing the interests of another4 ,the principles of democracy1 then1 are identical with the principles of ,christianity4 ,but1 in order that each individual may pursue and secure the highest degree of happiness within his reach1 unimpeded by the selfish interests of others1 a system of laws must be established1 which sustain certain relations and dependencies in social and civil life4 ,what these relations and their attending obligations shall be1 are to be determined1 not with reference to the wishes and interests of a few1 but solely with reference to the general good of all2 so that each individual shall have his own interest1 as well as the public benefit1 secured by them4 ,for this purpose1 it is needful that certain relations be sustained1 which involve the duties of subordination4 ,there must be the magistrate and the subject1 one of whom is the superior1 and the other the inferior4 ,there must be the relations of husband and wife1 parent and child1 teacher and pupil1 employer and employed1 each involving the relative duties of subordination4 ,the superior1 in certain particulars1 is to direct1 and the inferior is to yield obedience4 ,society could never go forward1 harmoniously1 nor could any craft or profession be successfully pursued1 unless these superior and subordinate relations be instituted and sustained4 ,but who shall take the higher1 and who the subordinate1 stations in social and civil life8 ,this matter1 in the case of parents and children1 is decided by the ,creator4 ,he has given children to the control of parents1 as their superiors1 and to them they remain subordinate1 to a certain age1 or so long as they are members of their household4 ,and parents can delegate such a portion of their authority to teachers and employers1 as the interests of their children require4 ,in most other cases1 in a truly democratic state1 each individual is allowed to choose for himself1 who shall take the position of his superior4 ,no woman is forced to obey any husband but the one she chooses for herself2 nor is she obliged to take a husband1 if she prefers to remain single4 ,so every domestic1 and every artisan or laborer1 after passing from parental control1 can choose the employer to whom he is to accord obedience1 or1 if he prefers to relinquish certain advantages1 he can remain without taking a subordinate place to any employer4 ,each subject1 also1 has equal power with every other1 to decide who shall be his superior as a ruler4 ,the weakest1 the poorest1 the most illiterate1 has the same opportunity to determine this question1 as the richest1 the most learned1 and the most exalted4 ,and the various privileges that wealth secures1 are equally open to all classes4 ,every man may aim at riches1 unimpeded by any law or institution which secures peculiar privileges to a favored class1 at the expense of another4 ,every law1 and every institution1 is tested by examining whether it secures equal advantages to all2 and1 if the people become convinced that any regulation sacrifices the good of the majority to the interests of the smaller number1 they have power to abolish it4 ,the institutions of monarchical and aristocratic nations are based on precisely opposite principles4 ,they secure1 to certain small and favored classes1 advantages1 which can be maintained1 only by sacrificing the interests of the great mass of the people4 ,thus1 the throne and aristocracy of ,england are supported by laws and customs1 which burden the lower classes with taxes1 so enormous1 as to deprive them of all the luxuries1 and of most of the comforts1 of life4 ,poor dwellings1 scanty food1 unhealthy employments1 excessive labor1 and entire destitution of the means and time for education1 are appointed for the lower classes1 that a few may live in palaces1 and riot in every indulgence4 ,the tendencies of democratic institutions1 in reference to the rights and interests of the female sex1 have been fully developed in the ,united ,states2 and it is in this aspect1 that the subject is one of peculiar interest to ,american women4 ,in this ,country1 it is established1 both by opinion and by practice1 that woman has an equal interest in all social and civil concerns2 and that no domestic1 civil1 or political1 institution1 is right1 which sacrifices her interest to promote that of the other sex4 ,but in order to secure her the more firmly in all these privileges1 it is decided1 that1 in the domestic relation1 she take a subordinate station1 and that1 in civil and political concerns1 her interests be intrusted to the other sex1 without her taking any part in voting1 or in making and administering laws4 ,the result of this order of things has been fairly tested1 and is thus portrayed by ,m4 ,de ,tocqueville1 a writer1 who1 for intelligence1 fidelity1 and ability1 ranks second to none4 ,there are people in ,europe1 who1 confounding together the different characteristics of the sexes1 would make of man and woman1 beings not only equal1 but alike4 ,they would give to both the same functions1 impose on both the same duties1 and grant to both the same rights4 ,they would mix them in all things1--their business1 their occupations1 their pleasures4 ,it may readily be conceived1 that1 by thus attempting to make one sex equal to the other1 both are degraded2 and1 from so preposterous a medley of the works of ,nature1 nothing could ever result1 but weak men and disorderly women4 ,it is not thus that the ,americans understand the species of democratic equality1 which may be established between the sexes4 ,they admit1 that1 as ,nature has appointed such wide differences between the physical and moral constitutions of man and woman1 her manifest design was1 to give a distinct employment to their various faculties2 and they hold1 that improvement does not consist in making beings so dissimilar do pretty nearly the same things1 but in getting each of them to fulfil their respective tasks1 in the best possible manner4 ,the ,americans have applied to the sexes the great principle of political economy1 which governs the manufactories of our age1 by carefully dividing the duties of man from those of woman1 in order that the great work of society may be the better carried on4 ,in no country has such constant care been taken1 as in ,america1 to trace two clearly distinct lines of action for the two sexes1 and to make them keep pace one with the other1 but in two pathways which are always different4 ,american women never manage the outward concerns of the family1 or conduct a business1 or take a part in political life2 nor are they1 on the other hand1 ever compelled to perform the rough labor of the fields1 or to make any of those laborious exertions1 which demand the exertion of physical strength4 ,no families are so poor1 as to form an exception to this rule4 ,if1 on the one hand1 an ,american woman cannot escape from the quiet circle of domestic employments1 on the other hand1 she is never forced to go beyond it4 ,hence it is1 that the women of ,america1 who often exhibit a masculine strength of understanding1 and a manly energy1 generally preserve great delicacy of personal appearance1 and always retain the manners of women1 although they sometimes show that they have the hearts and minds of men4 ,nor have the ,americans ever supposed1 that one consequence of democratic principles1 is1 the subversion of marital power1 or the confusion of the natural authorities in families4 ,they hold1 that every association must have a head1 in order to accomplish its object2 and that the natural head of the conjugal association is man4 ,they do not1 therefore1 deny him the right of directing his partner2 and they maintain1 that1 in the smaller association of husband and wife1 as well as in the great social community1 the object of democracy is1 to regulate and legalize the powers which are necessary1 not to subvert all power4 ,this opinion is not peculiar to one sex1 and contested by the other4 ,i never observed1 that the women of ,america considered conjugal authority as a fortunate usurpation of their rights1 nor that they thought themselves degraded by submitting to it4 ,it appears to me1 on the contrary1 that they attach a sort of pride to the voluntary surrender of their own will1 and make it their boast to bend themselves to the yoke1 not to shake it off4 ,such1 at least1 is the feeling expressed by the most virtuous of their sex2 the others are silent2 and in the ,united ,states it is not the practice for a guilty wife to clamor for the rights of woman1 while she is trampling on her holiest duties4 ,although the travellers1 who have visited ,north ,america1 differ on a great number of points1 they agree in remarking1 that morals are far more strict1 there1 than elsewhere4,a ,it is evident that1 on this point1 the ,americans are very superior to their progenitors1 the ,english4 ,in ,england1 as in all other ,countries of ,europe1 public malice is constantly attacking the frailties of women4 ,philosophers and statesmen are heard to deplore1 that morals are not sufficiently strict2 and the literary productions of the ,country constantly lead one to suppose so4 ,in ,america1 all books1 novels not excepted1 suppose women to be chaste2 and no one thinks of relating affairs of gallantry4 ,it has often been remarked1 that1 in ,europe1 a certain degree of contempt lurks1 even in the flattery which men lavish upon women4 ,although a ,european frequently affects to be the slave of woman1 it may be seen1 that he never sincerely thinks her his equal4 ,in the ,united ,states1 men seldom compliment women1 but they daily show how much they esteem them4 ,they constantly display an entire confidence in the understanding of a wife1 and a profound respect for her freedom4 ,they have decided that her mind is just as fitted as that of a man to discover the plain truth1 and her heart as firm to embrace it1 and they have never sought to place her virtue1 any more than his1 under the shelter of prejudice1 ignorance1 and fear4 ,it would seem1 that in ,europe1 where man so easily submits to the despotic sway of woman1 they are nevertheless curtailed of some of the greatest qualities of the human species1 and considered as seductive1 but imperfect beings1 and 7what may well provoke astonishment7 women ultimately look upon themselves in the same light1 and almost consider it as a privilege that they are entitled to show themselves futile1 feeble1 and timid4 ,the women of ,america claim no such privileges4 ,it is true1 that the ,americans rarely lavish upon women those eager attentions which are commonly paid them in ,europe4 ,but their conduct to women always implies1 that they suppose them to be virtuous and refined2 and such is the respect entertained for the moral freedom of the sex1 that1 in the presence of a woman1 the most guarded language is used1 lest her ear should be offended by an expression4 ,in ,america1 a young unmarried woman may1 alone1 and without fear1 undertake a long journey4 ,thus the ,americans do not think that man and woman have either the duty1 or the right1 to perform the same offices1 but they show an equal regard for both their respective parts2 and1 though their lot is different1 they consider both of them1 as beings of equal value4 ,they do not give to the courage of woman the same form1 or the same direction1 as to that of man2 but they never doubt her courage3 and if they hold that man and his partner ought not always to exercise their intellect and understanding in the same manner1 they at least believe the understanding of the one to be as sound as that of the other1 and her intellect to be as clear4 ,thus1 then1 while they have allowed the social inferiority of woman to subsist1 they have done all they could to raise her1 morally and intellectually1 to the level of man2 and1 in this respect1 they appear to me to have excellently understood the true principle of democratic improvement4 ,as for myself1 ,i do not hesitate to avow1 that1 although the women of the ,united ,states are confined within the narrow circle of domestic life1 and their situation is1 in some respects1 one of extreme dependence1 ,i have nowhere seen women occupying a loftier position2 and if ,i were asked1 now ,i am drawing to the close of this work1 in which ,i have spoken of so many important things done by the ,americans1 to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed1 ,i should reply1--to the superiority of their women4 ,this testimony of a foreigner1 who has had abundant opportunities of making a comparison1 is sanctioned by the assent of all candid and intelligent men1 who have enjoyed similar opportunities4 ,it appears1 then1 that it is in ,america1 alone1 that women are raised to an equality with the other sex2 and that1 both in theory and practice1 their interests are regarded as of equal value4 ,they are made subordinate in station1 only where a regard to their best interests demands it1 while1 as if in compensation for this1 by custom and courtesy1 they are always treated as superiors4 ,universally1 in this ,country1 through every class of society1 precedence is given to woman1 in all the comforts1 conveniences1 and courtesies1 of life4 ,in civil and political affairs1 ,american women take no interest or concern1 except so far as they sympathize with their family and personal friends2 but in all cases1 in which they do feel a concern1 their opinions and feelings have a consideration1 equal1 or even superior1 to that of the other sex4 ,in matters pertaining to the education of their children1 in the selection and support of a clergyman1 in all benevolent enterprises1 and in all questions relating to morals or manners1 they have a superior influence4 ,in such concerns1 it would be impossible to carry a point1 contrary to their judgement and feelings2 while an enterprise1 sustained by them1 will seldom fail of success4 ,if those who are bewailing themselves over the fancied wrongs and injuries of women in this ,nation1 could only see things as they are1 they would know1 that1 whatever remnants of a barbarous or aristocratic age may remain in our civil institutions1 in reference to the interests of women1 it is only because they are ignorant of them1 or do not use their influence to have them rectified2 for it is very certain that there is nothing reasonable1 which ,american women would unite in asking1 that would not readily be bestowed4 ,the preceding remarks1 then1 illustrate the position1 that the democratic institutions of this ,country are in reality no other than the principles of ,christianity carried into operation1 and that they tend to place woman in her true position in society1 as having equal rights with the other sex2 and that1 in fact1 they have secured to ,american women a lofty and fortunate position1 which1 as yet1 has been attained by the women of no other nation4 ,there is another topic1 presented in the work of the above author1 which demands the profound attention of ,american women4 ,the following is taken from that part of the ,introduction to the work1 illustrating the position1 that1 for ages1 there has been a constant progress1 in all civilized nations1 towards the democratic equality attained in this ,country4 ,the various occurrences of national existence have every where turned to the advantage of democracy2 all men have aided it by their exertions2 those who have intentionally labored in its cause1 and those who have served it unwittingly2 those who have fought for it1 and those who have declared themselves its opponents1 have all been driven along in the same track1 have all labored to one end2 all have been blind instruments in the hands of ,god4 ,the gradual developement of the equality of conditions1 is1 therefore1 a ,providential fact2 and it possesses all the characteristics of a ,divine decree3 it is universal1 it is durable1 it constantly eludes all human interference1 and all events1 as well as all men1 contribute to its progress4 ,the whole book1 which is here offered to the public1 has been written under the impression of a kind of religious dread1 produced in the author's mind1 by the contemplation of so irresistible a revolution1 which has advanced for centuries1 in spite of such amazing obstacles1 and which is still proceeding in the midst of the ruins it has made4 ,it is not necessary that ,god ,himself should speak1 in order to disclose to us the unquestionable signs of ,his will4 ,we can discern them in the habitual course of ,nature1 and in the invariable tendency of events4 ,if the men of our time were led1 by attentive observation1 and by sincere reflection1 to acknowledge that the gradual and progressive developement of social equality is at once the past and future of their history1 this solitary truth would confer the sacred character of a ,divine decree upon the change4 ,to attempt to check democracy1 would be1 in that case1 to resist the will of ,god2 and the nations would then be constrained to make the best of the social lot awarded to them by ,providence4 ,it is not1 then1 merely to satisfy a legitimate curiosity1 that ,i have examined ,america2 my wish has been to find instruction by which we may ourselves profit4 ,i have not even affected to discuss whether the social revolution1 which ,i believe to be irresistible1 is advantageous or prejudicial to mankind4 ,i have acknowledged this revolution1 as a fact already accomplished1 or on the eve of its accomplishment2 and ,i have selected the nation1 from among those which have undergone it1 in which its developement has been the most peaceful and the most complete1 in order to discern its natural consequences1 and1 if it be possible1 to distinguish the means by which it may be rendered profitable4 ,i confess1 that in ,america ,i saw more than ,america2 ,i sought the image of democracy itself1 with its inclinations1 its character1 its prejudices1 and its passions1 in order to learn what we have to fear1 or to hope1 from its progress4 ,it thus appears1 that the sublime and elevating anticipations which have filled the mind and heart of the religious world1 have become so far developed1 that philosophers and statesmen are perceiving the signs1 and are predicting the approach1 of the same grand consummation4 ,there is a day advancing1 by seers predicted1 and by poets sung1 when the curse of selfishness shall be removed2 when scenes surpassing fable1 and yet true1 shall be realized2 when all nations shall rejoice and be made blessed1 under those benevolent influences1 which the ,messiah came to establish on earth4 ,and this is the ,country1 which the ,disposer of events designs shall go forth as the cynosure of nations1 to guide them to the light and blessedness of that day4 ,to us is committed the grand1 the responsible privilege1 of exhibiting to the world1 the beneficent influences of ,christianity1 when carried into every social1 civil1 and political institution2 and1 though we have1 as yet1 made such imperfect advances1 already the light is streaming into the dark prison-house of despotic lands1 while startled kings and sages1 philosophers and statesmen1 are watching us with that interest1 which a career so illustrious1 and so involving their own destiny1 is calculated to excite4 ,they are studying our institutions1 scrutinizing our experience1 and watching for our mistakes1 that they may learn whether a social revolution1 so irresistible1 be advantageous or prejudicial to mankind4 ,there are persons1 who regard these interesting truths merely as food for national vanity2 but every reflecting and ,christian mind1 must consider it as an occasion for solemn and anxious reflection4 ,are we1 then1 a spectacle to the world8 ,has the ,eternal ,lawgiver appointed us to work out a problem1 involving the destiny of the whole earth8 ,are such momentous interests to be advanced or retarded1 just in proportion as we are faithful to our high trust8 ,what manner of persons1 then1 ought we to be1 in attempting to sustain so solemn1 so glorious a responsibility8 ,but the part to be enacted by ,american women1 in this great moral enterprise1 is the point to which special attention should here be directed4 ,the success of democratic institutions1 as is conceded by all1 depends upon the intellectual and moral character of the mass of the people4 ,if they are intelligent and virtuous1 democracy is a blessing2 but if they are ignorant and wicked1 it is only a curse1 and as much more dreadful than any other form of civil government1 as a thousand tyrants are more to be dreaded than one4 ,it is equally conceded1 that the formation of the moral and intellectual character of the young is committed mainly to the female hand4 ,the mother forms the character of the future man2 the sister bends the fibres that are hereafter to be the forest tree2 the wife sways the heart1 whose energies may turn for good or for evil the destinies of a nation4 ,let the women of a country be made virtuous and intelligent1 and the men will certainly be the same4 ,the proper education of a man decides the welfare of an individual2 but educate a woman1 and the interests of a whole family are secured4 ,if this be so1 as none will deny1 then to ,american women1 more than to any others on earth1 is committed the exalted privilege of extending over the world those blessed influences1 which are to renovate degraded man1 and clothe all climes with beauty4 ,no ,american woman1 then1 has any occasion for feeling that hers is an humble or insignificant lot4 ,the value of what an individual accomplishes1 is to be estimated by the importance of the enterprise achieved1 and not by the particular position of the laborer4 ,the drops of heaven which freshen the earth1 are each of equal value1 whether they fall in the lowland meadow1 or the princely parterre4 ,the builders of a temple are of equal importance1 whether they labor on the foundations1 or toil upon the dome4 ,thus1 also1 with those labors which are to be made effectual in the regeneration of the ,earth4 ,and it is by forming a habit of regarding the apparently insignificant efforts of each isolated laborer1 in a comprehensive manner1 as indispensable portions of a grand result1 that the minds of all1 however humble their sphere of service1 can be invigorated and cheered4 ,the woman1 who is rearing a family of children2 the woman1 who labors in the schoolroom2 the woman1 who1 in her retired chamber1 earns1 with her needle1 the mite1 which contributes to the intellectual and moral elevation of her ,country2 even the humble domestic1 whose example and influence may be moulding and forming young minds1 while her faithful services sustain a prosperous domestic state2--each and all may be animated by the consciousness1 that they are agents in accomplishing the greatest work that ever was committed to human responsibility4 ,it is the building of a glorious temple1 whose base shall be coextensive with the bounds of the earth1 whose summit shall pierce the skies1 whose splendor shall beam on all lands2 and those who hew the lowliest stone1 as much as those who carve the highest capital1 will be equally honored1 when its top-stone shall be laid1 with new rejoicings of the morning stars1 and shoutings of the sons of ,god4 ,,footnote3 ,a ,miss ,martineau is a singular exception to this remark4 ,after receiving unexampled hospitalities and kindnesses1 she gives the following picture of her entertainers4 ,having in other places spoken of the ,american woman as having her intellect confined1 and her morals crushed1 and as deficient in education1 because she has none of the objects in life for which an enlarged education is considered requisite1 she says1--,it is assumed1 in ,america1 particularly in ,new ,england1 that the morals of society there are peculiarly pure4 ,i am grieved to doubt the fact2 but ,i do doubt it4 ,the ,auld-,robin-,gray story is a frequently-enacted tragedy here2 and one of the worst symptoms that struck me1 was1 that there was usually a demand upon my sympathy in such cases4--,the unavoidable consequence of such a mode of marrying1 is1 that the sanctity of marriage is impaired1 and that vice succeeds4 ,there are sad tales in country villages1 here and there1 that attest this2 and yet more in towns1 in a rank of society where such things are seldom or never heard of in ,england4--,i unavoidably knew of more cases of lapse in highly respectable families in one ,state1 than ever came to my knowledge at home2 and they were got over with a disgrace far more temporary and superficial than they could have been visited with in ,england4--,the vacuity of mind of many women1 is1 ,i conclude1 the cause of a vice1 which it is painful to allude to1 but which cannot honestly be passed over4--,it is no secret on the spot1 that the habit of intemperance is not infrequent among women of station and education in the most enlightened parts of the ,country4 ,i witnessed some instances1 and heard of more4 ,it does not seem to me to be regarded with all the dismay which such a symptom ought to excite4 ,to the stranger1 a novelty so horrible1 a spectacle so fearful1 suggests wide and deep subjects of investigation4 ,it is not possible for language to give representations more false in every item4 ,in evidence of this1 the writer would mention1 that1 within the last few years1 she has travelled almost the entire route taken by ,miss ,martineau1 except the lower tier of the ,southern ,states2 and1 though not meeting the same individuals1 has mingled in the very same circles4 ,moreover1 she has resided from several months to several years in eight of the different ,northern and ,western ,states1 and spent several weeks at a time in five other ,states4 ,she has also had pupils from every ,state in the ,union1 but two1 and has visited extensively at their houses4 ,but in her whole life1 and in all these different positions1 the writer has never1 to her knowledge1 seen even one woman1 of the classes with which she has associated1 who had lapsed in the manner indicated by ,miss ,martineau2 nor does she believe that such a woman could find admission in such circles any where in the ,country4 ,as to intemperate women1 five cases are all of whom the writer has ever heard1 in such circles1 and two of these many believed to be unwarrantably suspected4 ,after following in ,miss ,martineau's track1 and discovering all the falsehood1 twaddle1 gossip1 old saws1 and almanac stories1 which have been strung together in her books1 no charitable mode of accounting for the medley remains1 but to suppose her the pitiable dupe of that love of hoaxing so often found in our ,country4 ,again1 ,miss ,martineau says1 ,we passed an unshaded meadow1 where the grass had caught fire1 every day1 at eleven o'clock1 the preceding ,summer4 ,this demonstrates the necessity of shade6 ,a woman1 with so little common sense1 as to swallow such an absurdity for truth1 and then tack to it such an astute deduction1 must be a tempting subject for the abovementioned mischievous propensity4 ,,chapter ,,ii4 ,,difficulties ,,peculiar ,,to ,,american ,,women4 ,in the preceding chapter1 were presented those views1 which are calculated to inspire ,american women with a sense of their high responsibilities to their ,country1 and to the world2 and of the excellence and grandeur of the object to which their energies may be consecrated4 ,but it will be found to be the law of moral action1 that whatever involves great results and great benefits1 is always attended with great hazards and difficulties4 ,and as it has been shown1 that ,american women have a loftier position1 and a more elevated object of enterprise1 than the females of any other nation1 so it will appear1 that they have greater trials and difficulties to overcome1 than any other women are called to encounter4 ,properly to appreciate the nature of these trials1 it must be borne in mind1 that the estimate of evils and privations depends1 not so much on their positive nature1 as on the character and habits of the person who meets them4 ,a woman1 educated in the savage state1 finds it no trial to be destitute of many conveniences1 which a woman1 even of the lowest condition1 in this ,country1 would deem indispensable to existence4 ,so a woman1 educated with the tastes and habits of the best ,new ,england or ,virginia housekeepers1 would encounter many deprivations and trials1 which would never occur to one reared in the log cabin of a new settlement4 ,so1 also1 a woman1 who has been accustomed to carry forward her arrangements with well-trained domestics1 would meet a thousand trials to her feelings and temper1 by the substitution of ignorant foreigners1 or shiftless slaves1 which would be of little account to one who had never enjoyed any better service4 ,now1 the larger portion of ,american women are the descendants of ,english progenitors1 who1 as a nation1 are distinguished for systematic housekeeping1 and for a great love of order1 cleanliness1 and comfort4 ,and ,american women1 to a greater or less extent1 have inherited similar tastes and habits4 ,but the prosperity and democratic tendencies of this ,country produce results1 materially affecting the comfort of housekeepers1 which the females of monarchical and aristocratic lands are not called to meet4 ,in such countries1 all ranks and classes are fixed in a given position1 and each person is educated for a particular sphere and style of living4 ,and the dwellings1 conveniences1 and customs of life1 remain very nearly the same1 from generation to generation4 ,this secures the preparation of all classes for their particular station1 and makes the lower orders more dependent1 and more subservient to employers4 ,but how different is the state of things in this ,country4 ,every thing is moving and changing4 ,persons in poverty1 are rising to opulence1 and persons of wealth1 are sinking to poverty4 ,the children of common laborers1 by their talents and enterprise1 are becoming nobles in intellect1 or wealth1 or office2 while the children of the wealthy1 enervated by indulgence1 are sinking to humbler stations4 ,the sons of the wealthy are leaving the rich mansions of their fathers1 to dwell in the log cabins of the forest1 where very soon they bear away the daughters of ease and refinement1 to share the privations of a new settlement4 ,meantime1 even in the more stationary portions of the community1 there is a mingling of all grades of wealth1 intellect1 and education4 ,there are no distinct classes1 as in aristocratic lands1 whose bounds are protected by distinct and impassable lines1 but all are thrown into promiscuous masses4 ,thus1 persons of humble means are brought into contact with those of vast wealth1 while all intervening grades are placed side by side4 ,thus1 too1 there is a constant comparison of conditions1 among equals1 and a constant temptation presented to imitate the customs1 and to strive for the enjoyments1 of those who possess larger means4 ,in addition to this1 the flow of wealth1 among all classes1 is constantly increasing the number of those who live in a style demanding much hired service1 while the number of those1 who are compelled to go to service1 is constantly diminishing4 ,our manufactories1 also1 are making increased demands for female labor1 and offering larger compensation4 ,in consequence of these things1 there is such a disproportion between those who wish to hire1 and those who are willing to go to domestic service1 that1 in the non-slaveholding ,states1 were it not for the supply of poverty-stricken foreigners1 there would not be a domestic for each family who demands one4 ,and this resort to foreigners1 poor as it is1 scarcely meets the demand2 while the disproportion must every year increase1 especially if our prosperity increases4 ,for1 just in proportion as wealth rolls in upon us1 the number of those1 who will give up their own independent homes to serve strangers1 will be diminished4 ,the difficulties and sufferings1 which have accrued to ,american women1 from this cause1 are almost incalculable4 ,there is nothing1 which so much demands system and regularity1 as the affairs of a housekeeper1 made up1 as they are1 of ten thousand desultory and minute items2 and yet1 this perpetually fluctuating state of society seems forever to bar any such system and regularity4 ,the anxieties1 vexations1 perplexities1 and even hard labor1 which come upon ,american women1 from this state of domestic service1 are endless2 and many a woman has1 in consequence1 been disheartened1 discouraged1 and ruined in health4 ,the only wonder is1 that1 amid so many real difficulties1 ,american women are still able to maintain such a character for energy1 fortitude1 and amiableness1 as is universally allowed to be their due4 ,but the second1 and still greater difficulty1 peculiar to ,american women1 is1 a delicacy of constitution1 which renders them early victims to disease and decay4 ,the fact that the women of this ,country are unusually subject to disease1 and that their beauty and youthfulness are of shorter continuance than those of the women of other nations1 is one which always attracts the attention of foreigners2 while medical men and philanthropists are constantly giving fearful monitions as to the extent and alarming increase of this evil4 ,investigations make it evident1 that a large proportion of young ladies1 from the wealthier classes1 have the incipient stages of curvature of the spine1 one of the most sure and fruitful causes of future disease and decay4 ,the writer has heard medical men1 who have made extensive inquiries1 say1 that a very large proportion of the young women at boarding schools1 are affected in this way1 while many other indications of disease and debility exist1 in cases where this particular evil cannot be detected4 ,in consequence of this enfeebled state of their constitutions1 induced by a neglect of their physical education1 as soon as they are called to the responsibilities and trials of domestic life1 their constitution fails1 and their whole existence is rendered a burden4 ,for no woman can enjoy existence1 when disease throws a dark cloud over the mind1 and incapacitates her for the proper discharge of every duty4 ,the writer1 who for some ten years has had the charge of an institution1 consisting of young ladies from almost every ,state in the ,union1 since relinquishing that charge1 has travelled and visited extensively in most of the non-slaveholding ,states4 ,in these circuits1 she has learned the domestic history1 not merely of her pupils1 but of many other young wives and mothers1 whose sorrowful experience has come to her knowledge4 ,and the impression1 produced by the dreadful extent of this evil1 has at times been almost overwhelming4 ,it would seem as if the primeval curse1 which has written the doom of pain and sorrow on one period of a young mother's life1 in this ,country had been extended over all2 so that the hour seldom arrives1 when she forgetteth her sorrow for joy that a man is born into the world4 ,many a mother will testify1 with shuddering1 that the most exquisite sufferings she ever endured1 were not those appointed by ,nature1 but those1 which1 for week after week1 have worn down health and spirits1 when nourishing her child4 ,and medical men teach us1 that this1 in most cases1 results from a debility of constitution1 consequent on the mismanagement of early life4 ,and so frequent and so mournful are these1 and the other distresses that result from the delicacy of the female constitution1 that the writer has repeatedly heard mothers say1 that they had wept tears of bitterness over their infant daughters1 at the thought of the sufferings which they were destined to undergo2 while they cherished the decided wish1 that these daughters should never marry4 ,at the same time1 many a reflecting young woman is looking to her future prospects1 with very different feelings and hopes from those which ,providence designed4 ,a perfectly healthy woman1 especially a perfectly healthy mother1 is so unfrequent1 in some of the wealthier classes1 that those1 who are so1 may be regarded as the exceptions1 and not as the general rule4 ,the writer has heard some of her friends declare1 that they would ride fifty miles1 to see a perfectly healthy and vigorous woman1 out of the laboring classes4 ,this1 although somewhat jocose1 was not an entirely unfair picture of the true state of female health in the wealthier classes4 ,there are many causes operating1 which serve to perpetuate and increase this evil4 ,it is a well-known fact1 that mental excitement tends to weaken the physical system1 unless it is counterbalanced by a corresponding increase of exercise and fresh air4 ,now1 the people of this ,country are under the influence of high commercial1 political1 and religious stimulus1 altogether greater than was ever known by any other nation2 and in all this1 women are made the sympathizing companions of the other sex4 ,at the same time1 young girls1 in pursuing an education1 have ten times greater an amount of intellectual taxation demanded1 than was ever before exacted4 ,let any daughter1 educated in our best schools at this day1 compare the course of her study with that pursued in her mother's early life1 and it will be seen that this estimate of the increase of mental taxation probably falls below the truth4 ,though1 in some countries1 there are small classes of females1 in the higher circles1 who pursue literature and science to a far greater extent than in any corresponding circles in this ,country1 yet1 in no nation in the world are the advantages of a good intellectual education enjoyed1 by so large a proportion of the females4 ,and this education has consisted far less of accomplishments1 and far more of those solid studies which demand the exercise of the various powers of mind1 than the education of the women of other lands4 ,and when ,american women are called to the responsibilities of domestic life1 the degree in which their minds and feelings are taxed1 is altogether greater than it is in any other nation4 ,no women on earth have a higher sense of their moral and religious responsibilities1 or better understand1 not only what is demanded of them1 as housekeepers1 but all the claims that rest upon them as wives1 mothers1 and members of a social community4 ,an ,american woman1 who is the mistress of a family1 feels her obligations1 in reference to her influence over her husband1 and a still greater responsibility in rearing and educating her children4 ,she feels1 too1 the claims which the moral interests of her domestics have on her watchful care4 ,in social life1 she recognises the claims of hospitality1 and the demands of friendly visiting4 ,her responsibility1 in reference to the institutions of benevolence and religion1 is deeply realized4 ,the regular worship of the ,lord's day1 and all the various religious meetings and benevolent societies which place so much dependence on female influence and example1 she feels obligated to sustain4 ,add to these multiplied responsibilities1 the perplexities and evils which have been pointed out1 resulting from the fluctuating state of society1 and the deficiency of domestic service1 and no one can deny that ,american women are exposed to a far greater amount of intellectual and moral excitement1 than those of any other land4 ,of course1 in order to escape the danger resulting from this1 a greater amount of exercise in the fresh air1 and all those methods which strengthen the constitution1 are imperiously required4 ,but1 instead of this1 it will be found1 that1 owing to the climate and customs of this ,nation1 there are no women who secure so little of this healthful and protecting regimen1 as ours4 ,walking and riding and gardening1 in the open air1 are practised by the women of other lands1 to a far greater extent1 than by ,american females4 ,most ,english women1 in the wealthier classes1 are able to walk six and eight miles1 without oppressive fatigue2 and when they visit this ,country1 always express their surprise at the inactive habits of ,american ladies4 ,in ,england1 regular exercise1 in the open air1 is very commonly required by the mother1 as a part of daily duty1 and is sought by young women1 as an enjoyment4 ,in consequence of a different physical training1 ,english women1 in those circles which enjoy competency1 present an appearance which always strikes ,american gentlemen as a contrast to what they see at home4 ,an ,english mother1 at thirty1 or thirty-five1 is in the full bloom of perfected womanhood2 as fresh and healthful as her daughters4 ,but where are the ,american mothers1 who can reach this period unfaded and unworn8 ,in ,america1 young ladies of the wealthier classes are sent to school from early childhood2 and neither parents nor teachers make it a definite object to secure a proper amount of fresh air and exercise1 to counterbalance this intellectual taxation4 ,as soon as their school days are over1 dressing1 visiting1 evening parties1 and stimulating amusements1 take the place of study1 while the most unhealthful modes of dress add to the physical exposures4 ,to make morning calls1 or do a little shopping1 is all that can be termed their exercise in the fresh air2 and this1 compared to what is needed1 is absolutely nothing1 and on some accounts is worse than nothing4,b ,in consequence of these1 and other evils1 which will be pointed out more at large in the following pages1 the young women of ,america grow up with such a delicacy of constitution1 that probably eight out of ten become subjects of disease1 either before or as soon as they are called to the responsibilities of domestic life4 ,but there is one peculiarity of situation1 in regard to ,american women1 which makes this delicacy of constitution still more disastrous4 ,it is the liability to the exposures and hardships of a newly-settled country4 ,one more extract from ,de ,tocqueville will give a view of this part of the subject1 which any one1 familiar with ,western life1 will admire for its verisimilitude4 ,the same strength of purpose which the young wives of ,america display in bending themselves1 at once1 and without repining1 to the austere duties of their new condition1 is no less manifest in all the great trials of their lives4 ,in no country in the world1 are private fortunes more precarious1 than in the ,united ,states4 ,it is not uncommon for the same man1 in the course of his life1 to rise and sink again through all the grades which lead from opulence to poverty4 ,american women support these vicissitudes with a calm and unquenchable energy4 ,it would seem that their desires contract1 as easily as they expand1 with their fortunes4 ,the greater part of the adventurers1 who migrate1 every year1 to people the ,western wilds1 belong to the old ,anglo-,american race of the ,northern ,states4 ,many of these men1 who rush so boldly onward in pursuit of wealth1 were already in the enjoyment of a competency in their own part of the ,country4 ,they take their wives along with them1 and make them share the countless perils and privations1 which always attend the commencement of these expeditions4 ,i have often met1 even on the verge of the wilderness1 with young women1 who1 after having been brought up amid all the comforts of the large towns of ,new ,england1 had passed1 almost without any intermediate stage1 from the wealthy abode of their parents1 to a comfortless hovel in a forest4 ,fever1 solitude1 and a tedious life1 had not broken the springs of their courage4 ,their features were impaired and faded1 but their looks were firm3 they appeared to be1 at once1 sad and resolute4 ,in another passage1 he gives this picturesque sketch3 ,by the side of the hearth1 sits a woman1 with a baby on her lap4 ,she nods to us1 without disturbing herself4 ,like the pioneer1 this woman is in the prime of life2 her appearance would seem superior to her condition3 and her apparel even betrays a lingering taste for dress4 ,but her delicate limbs appear shrunken2 her features are drawn in2 her eye is mild and melancholy2 her whole physiognomy bears marks of a degree of religious resignation1 a deep quiet of all passion1 and some sort of natural and tranquil firmness1 ready to meet all the ills of life1 without fearing and without braving them4 ,her children cluster about her1 full of health1 turbulence1 and energy2 they are true children of the wilderness3 their mother watches them1 from time to time1 with mingled melancholy and joy4 ,to look at their strength1 and her languor1 one might imagine that the life she had given them had exhausted her own2 and still she regrets not what they have cost her4 ,the house1 inhabited by these emigrants1 has no internal partition or loft4 ,in the one chamber of which it consists1 the whole family is gathered for the night4 ,the dwelling is itself a little world2 an ark of civilization amid an ocean of foliage4 ,a hundred steps beyond it1 the primeval forest spreads its shades1 and solitude resumes its sway4 ,such scenes1 and such women1 the writer has met1 and few persons realize how many refined and lovely women are scattered over the broad prairies and deep forests of the ,west2 and none1 but the ,father above1 appreciates the extent of those sacrifices and sufferings1 and the value of that firm faith and religious hope1 which live1 in perennial bloom1 amid those vast solitudes4 ,if the ,american women of the ,east merit the palm1 for their skill and success as accomplished housekeepers1 still more is due to the heroines of the ,west1 who1 with such unyielding fortitude and cheerful endurance1 attempt similar duties1 amid so many disadvantages and deprivations4 ,but1 though ,american women have those elevated principles and feelings1 which enable them to meet such trials in so exemplary a manner1 their physical energies are not equal to the exertions demanded4 ,though the mind may be bright and firm1 the casket is shivered2 though the spirit may be willing1 the flesh is weak4 ,a woman of firm health1 with the hope and elasticity of youth1 may be envied rather than pitied1 as she shares with her young husband the hopes and enterprises of pioneer life4 ,but1 when the body fails1 then the eye of hope grows dim1 the heart sickens1 the courage dies2 and1 in solitude1 weariness1 and suffering1 the wanderer pines for the dear voices and the tender sympathies of a far distant home4 ,then it is1 that the darkest shade is presented1 which marks the peculiar trials and liabilities of ,american women1 and which exhibits still more forcibly the disastrous results of that delicacy of constitution which has been pointed out4 ,for1 though all ,american women1 or even the greater part of them1 are not called to encounter such trials1 yet no mother1 who rears a family of daughters1 can say1 that such a lot will not fall to one of her flock2 nor can she know which will escape4 ,the reverses of fortune1 and the chances of matrimony1 expose every woman in the ,nation to such liabilities1 for which she needs to be prepared4 ,,footnote3 ,b ,so little idea have most ladies1 in the wealthier classes1 of what is a proper amount of exercise1 that1 if they should succeed in walking a mile or so1 at a moderate pace1 three or four times a week1 they would call it taking a great deal of exercise4 ,,chapter ,,iii4 ,,remedies ,,for ,,the ,,preceding ,,difficulties4 ,having pointed out the peculiar responsibilities of ,american women1 and the peculiar embarrassments which they are called to encounter1 the following suggestions are offered1 as remedies for such difficulties4 ,in the first place1 the physical and domestic education of daughters should occupy the principal attention of mothers1 in childhood2 and the stimulation of the intellect should be very much reduced4 ,as a general rule1 daughters should not be sent to school before they are six years old2 and1 when they are sent1 far more attention should be paid to their physical developement1 than is usually done4 ,they should never be confined1 at any employment1 more than an hour at a time2 and this confinement should be followed by sports in the open air4 ,such accommodations should be secured1 that1 at all seasons1 and in all weathers1 the teacher can every half hour send out a portion of her school1 for sports4 ,and still more care should be given to preserve pure air in the schoolroom4 ,the close stoves1 crowded condition1 and poisonous air1 of most schoolrooms1 act as constant drains on the health and strength of young children4 ,in addition to this1 much less time should be given to school1 and much more to domestic employments1 especially in the wealthier classes4 ,a little girl may begin1 at five or six years of age1 to assist her mother2 and1 if properly trained1 by the time she is ten1 she can render essential aid4 ,from this time1 until she is fourteen or fifteen1 it should be the principal object of her education to secure a strong and healthy constitution1 and a thorough practical knowledge of all kinds of domestic employments4 ,during this period1 though some attention ought to be paid to intellectual culture1 it ought to be made altogether secondary in importance2 and such a measure of study and intellectual excitement1 as is now demanded in our best female seminaries1 ought never to be allowed1 until a young lady has passed the most critical period of her youth1 and has a vigorous and healthful constitution fully established4 ,the plan might be adopted1 of having schools for young girls kept only in the afternoon2 that their mornings might be occupied in domestic exercise1 without interfering with school employments4 ,where a proper supply of domestic exercise cannot be afforded1 the cultivation of flowers and fruits might be resorted to1 as a delightful and unfailing promotive of pleasure and health4 ,and it is to that class of mothers1 who have the best means of securing hired service1 and who are the most tempted to allow their daughters to grow up with inactive habits1 that their ,country and the world must look for a reformation1 in this respect4 ,whatever ladies in the wealthier classes decide shall be fashionable1 will be followed by all the rest2 but1 while they persist in the aristocratic habits1 now so common1 and bring up their daughters to feel as if labor was degrading and unbecoming1 the evils pointed out will never find a remedy4 ,it is1 therefore1 the peculiar duty of ladies1 who have wealth1 to set a proper example1 in this particular1 and make it their first aim to secure a strong and healthful constitution for their daughters1 by active domestic employments4 ,all the sweeping1 dusting1 care of furniture and beds1 the clear starching1 and the nice cooking1 should be done by the daughters of a family1 and not by hired servants4 ,it may cost the mother more care1 and she may find it needful to hire a person for the express purpose of instructing and superintending her daughters1 in these employments2 but it should be regarded as indispensable to be secured1 either by the mother's agency1 or by a substitute4 ,it is in this point of view1 that the dearth of good domestics in this ,country may1 in its results1 prove a substantial blessing4 ,if all housekeepers1 who have the means1 could secure good servants1 there would be little hope that so important a revolution1 in the domestic customs of the wealthy classes1 could be effected4 ,and so great is the natural indolence of mankind1 that the amount of exercise1 needful for health1 will never be secured by those who are led to it through no necessity1 but merely from rational considerations4 ,yet the pressure of domestic troubles1 from the want of good domestics1 has already determined many a mother1 in the wealthy classes1 to train her daughters to aid her in domestic service2 and thus necessity is compelling mothers to do what abstract principles of expediency could never secure4 ,a second method of promoting the same object1 is1 to raise the science and practice of ,domestic ,economy to its appropriate place1 as a regular study in female seminaries4 ,the succeeding chapter will present the reasons for this1 more at large4 ,but it is to the mothers of our ,country1 that the community must look for this change4 ,it cannot be expected1 that teachers1 who have their attention chiefly absorbed by the intellectual and moral interests of their pupils1 should properly realize the importance of this department of education4 ,but if mothers generally become convinced of this1 their judgement and wishes will meet the respectful consideration they deserve1 and the object will be accomplished4 ,the third method of securing a remedy for the evils pointed out1 is1 the endowment of female institutions1 under the care of suitable trustees1 who shall secure a proper course of education4 ,the importance of this measure cannot be realized by those1 who have not turned their attention to this subject2 and for such1 the following considerations are presented4 ,the endowment of colleges1 and of law1 medical1 and divinity1 schools1 for the other sex1 is designed to secure a thorough and proper education1 for those who have the most important duties of society to perform4 ,the men who are to expound the laws1 the men who have the care of the public health1 and the men who are to communicate religious instruction1 should have well-disciplined and well-informed minds2 and it is mainly for this object that collegiate and professional institutions are established4 ,liberal and wealthy individuals contribute funds1 and the legislatures of the ,states also lend assistance1 so that every ,state in this ,nation has from one to twenty such endowed institutions1 supplied with buildings1 apparatus1 a library1 and a faculty of learned men to carry forward a superior course of instruction4 ,and the use of all these advantages is secured1 in many cases1 at an expense1 no greater than is required to send a boy to a common school and pay his board there4 ,no private school could offer these advantages1 without charging such a sum1 as would forbid all but the rich from securing its benefits4 ,by furnishing such superior advantages1 on low terms1 multitudes are properly educated1 who would otherwise remain in ignorance2 and thus the professions are supplied1 by men properly qualified for them4 ,were there no such institutions1 and no regular and appropriate course of study demanded for admission to the bar1 the pulpit1 and to medical practice1 the education of most professional men would be desultory1 imperfect1 and deficient4 ,parents and children would regulate the course of study according to their own crude notions2 and1 instead of having institutions which agree in carrying on a similar course of study1 each school would have its own peculiar system1 and compete and conflict with every other4 ,meantime1 the public would have no means of deciding which was best1 nor any opportunity for learning when a professional man was properly qualified for his duties4 ,but as it is1 the diploma of a college1 and the license of an appointed body of judges1 must both be secured1 before a young man feels that he has entered the most promising path to success in his profession4 ,our ,country1 then1 is most abundantly supplied with endowed institutions1 which secure a liberal education1 on such low terms as make them accessible to all classes1 and in which the interests of education are watched over1 sustained1 and made permanent1 by an appropriate board of trustees4 ,but are not the most responsible of all duties committed to the charge of woman8 ,is it not her profession to take care of mind1 body1 and soul8 and that1 too1 at the most critical of all periods of existence8 ,and is it not as much a matter of public concern1 that she should be properly qualified for her duties1 as that ministers1 lawyers1 and physicians1 should be prepared for theirs8 ,and is it not as important1 to endow institutions which shall make a superior education accessible to all classes1--for females1 as for the other sex8 ,and is it not equally important1 that institutions for females be under the supervision of intelligent and responsible trustees1 whose duty it shall be to secure a uniform and appropriate education for one sex as much as for the other8 ,it would seem as if every mind must accord an affirmative reply1 as soon as the matter is fairly considered4 ,as the education of females is now conducted1 any man or woman who pleases1 can establish a female seminary1 and secure recommendations which will attract pupils4 ,but whose business is it to see that these young females are not huddled into crowded rooms8 or that they do not sleep in ill-ventilated chambers8 or that they have healthful food8 or that they have the requisite amount of fresh air and exercise8 or that they pursue an appropriate and systematic course of study8 or that their manners1 principles1 and morals1 are properly regulated8 ,parents either have not the means1 or else are not qualified to judge2 or1 if they are furnished with means and capacity1 they are often restricted to a choice of the best school within reach1 even when it is known to be exceedingly objectionable4 ,if the writer were to disclose all that can truly be told of boarding-school life1 and its influence on health1 manners1 disposition1 intellect1 and morals1 the disclosure would both astonish and shock every rational mind4 ,and yet she believes that such institutions are far better managed in this ,country1 than in any other2 and that the number of those1 which are subject to imputations in these respects1 is much less than could reasonably be expected4 ,but it is most surely the case1 that much remains to be done1 in order to supply such institutions as are needed for the proper education of ,american women4 ,in attempting a sketch of the kind of institutions which are demanded1 it is very fortunate that there is no necessity for presenting a theory1 which may1 or may not1 be approved by experience4 ,it is the greatest honor of one of our newest ,western ,states1 that it can boast of such an ,institution1 endowed1 too1 wholly by the munificence of a single individual4 ,a slight sketch of this ,institution1 which the writer has examined in all its details1 will give an idea of what can be done1 by showing what has actually been accomplished4 ,this ,institution,c is under the supervision of a ,board of ,trustees1 who hold the property in trust for the object to which it is devoted1 and who have the power to fill their own vacancies4 ,it is furnished with a noble and tasteful building1 of stone1 so liberal in dimensions and arrangement1 that it can accommodate ninety pupils and teachers1 giving one room to every two pupils1 and all being so arranged1 as to admit of thorough ventilation4 ,this building is surrounded by extensive grounds1 enclosed with handsome fences1 where remains of the primeval forest still offer refreshing shade for juvenile sports4 ,to secure adequate exercise for the pupils1 two methods are adopted4 ,by the first1 each young lady is required to spend a certain portion of time in domestic employments1 either in sweeping1 dusting1 setting and clearing tables1 washing and ironing1 or other household concerns4 ,let not the aristocratic mother and daughter express their dislike of such an arrangement1 till they can learn how well it succeeds4 ,let them walk1 as the writer has done1 through the large airy halls1 kept clean and in order by their fair occupants1 to the washing and ironing-rooms4 ,there they will see a long hall1 conveniently fitted up with some thirty neatly-painted tubs1 with a clean floor1 and water conducted so as to save both labor and slopping4 ,let them see some thirty or forty merry girls1 superintended by a motherly lady1 chatting and singing1 washing and starching1 while every convenience is at hand1 and every thing around is clean and comfortable4 ,two hours1 thus employed1 enable each young lady to wash the articles she used during the previous week1 which is all that is demanded1 while thus they are all practically initiated into the arts and mysteries of the wash-tub4 ,the ,superintendent remarked to the writer1 that1 after a few weeks of probation1 most of her young washers succeeded quite as well as those whom she could hire1 and who made it their business4 ,adjacent to the washing-room1 is the ironing establishment2 where another class are arranged1 on the ironing-day1 around long1 extended tables1 with heating-furnaces1 clothes-frames1 and all needful appliances4 ,by a systematic arrangement of school and domestic duties1 a moderate portion of time1 usually not exceeding two hours a day1 from each of the pupils1 accomplished all the domestic labor of a family of ninety1 except the cooking1 which was done by two hired domestics4 ,this part of domestic labor it was deemed inexpedient to incorporate as a portion of the business of the pupils1 inasmuch as it could not be accommodated to the arrangements of the school1 and was in other respects objectionable4 ,is it asked1 how can young ladies paint1 play the piano1 and study1 when their hands and dresses must be unfitted by such drudgery8 ,the woman who asks this question1 has yet to learn that a pure and delicate skin is better secured by healthful exercise1 than by any other method2 and that a young lady1 who will spend two hours a day at the wash-tub1 or with a broom1 is far more likely to have rosy cheeks1 a finely-moulded form1 and a delicate skin1 than one who lolls all day in her parlor or chamber1 or only leaves it1 girt in tight dresses1 to make fashionable calls4 ,it is true1 that long-protracted daily labor hardens the hand1 and unfits it for delicate employments2 but the amount of labor needful for health produces no such effect4 ,as to dress1 and appearance1 if neat and convenient accommodations are furnished1 there is no occasion for the exposures which demand shabby dresses4 ,a dark calico1 genteelly made1 with an oiled-silk apron1 and wide cuffs of the same material1 secures both good looks and good service4 ,this plan of domestic employments for the pupils in this ,institution1 not only secures regular healthful exercise1 but also aids to reduce the expenses of education1 so that1 with the help of the endowments1 it is brought within the reach of many1 who otherwise could never gain such advantages4 ,in addition to this1 a system of ,calisthenic,d exercises is introduced1 which secures all the advantages which dancing is supposed to effect1 and which is free from the dangerous tendencies of that fascinating and fashionable amusement4 ,this system is so combined with music1 and constantly varying evolutions1 as to serve as an amusement1 and also as a mode of curing distortions1 particularly all tendencies to curvature of the spine2 while1 at the same time1 it tends to promote grace of movement1 and easy manners4 ,another advantage of this ,institution1 is1 an elevated and invigorating course of mental discipline4 ,many persons seem to suppose1 that the chief object of an intellectual education is the acquisition of knowledge4 ,but it will be found1 that this is only a secondary object4 ,the formation of habits of investigation1 of correct reasoning1 of persevering attention1 of regular system1 of accurate analysis1 and of vigorous mental action1 is the primary object to be sought in preparing ,american women for their arduous duties2 duties which will demand not only quickness of perception1 but steadiness of purpose1 regularity of system1 and perseverance in action4 ,it is for such purposes1 that the discipline of the ,mathematics is so important an element in female education2 and it is in this aspect1 that the mere acquisition of facts1 and the attainment of accomplishments1 should be made of altogether secondary account4 ,in the ,institution here described1 a systematic course of study is adopted1 as in our colleges2 designed to occupy three years4 ,the following slight outline of the course1 will exhibit the liberal plan adopted in this respect4 ,in ,mathematics1 the whole of ,arithmetic contained in the larger works used in schools1 the whole of ,euclid1 and such portions from ,day's ,mathematics as are requisite to enable the pupils to demonstrate the various problems in ,olmsted's larger work on ,natural ,philosophy4 ,in ,language1 besides ,english ,grammar1 a short course in ,latin is required1 sufficient to secure an understanding of the philosophy of the language1 and that kind of mental discipline which the exercise of translating affords4 ,in ,philosophy1 ,chemistry1 ,astronomy1 ,botany1 ,geology and ,mineralogy1 ,intellectual and ,moral ,philosophy1 ,political ,economy1 and the ,evidences of ,christianity1 the same textbooks are used as are required at our best colleges4 ,in ,geography1 the most thorough course is adopted2 and in ,history1 a more complete knowledge is secured1 by means of charts and textbooks1 than most of our colleges offer4 ,to these branches1 are added ,griscom's ,physiology1,e ,bigelow's ,technology1 and ,jahn's ,archology1 together with a course of instruction in polite literature1 for which ,chambers's ,english ,literature is employed as the text-book1 each recitation being attended with selections and criticisms1 from teacher or pupils1 on the various authors brought into notice4 ,vocal ,music1 on the plan of the ,boston ,academy1 is a part of the daily instructions4 ,linear drawing1 and pencilling1 are designed also to be a part of the course4 ,instrumental ,music is taught1 but not as a part of the regular course of study4 ,to secure the proper instruction in all these branches1 the division of labor1 adopted in colleges1 is pursued4 ,each teacher has distinct branches as her department1 for which she is responsible1 and in which she is independent4 ,one teacher performs the duties of a governess1 in maintaining rules1 and attending to the habits and manners of the pupils4 ,by this method1 the teachers have sufficient time1 both to prepare themselves1 and to impart instruction and illustration in the class-room4 ,in this ,institution it is made a direct object of effort to cure defects of character and habits4 ,at the frequent meetings of the ,principal and teachers1 the peculiarities of each pupil are made the subjects of inquiry2 and methods are devised for remedying defects through the personal influence of the several teachers4 ,this1 when thus made a direct object of combined effort1 often secures results most gratifying and encouraging4 ,one peculiarity of this ,institution demands consideration4 ,by the method adopted here1 the exclusive business of educating their own sex is1 as it ever ought to be1 confined to females4 ,the ,principal of the ,institution1 indeed1 is a gentleman2 but1 while he takes the position of a father of the family1 and responsible head of the whole concern1 the entire charge of instruction1 and most of the responsibilities in regard to health1 morals1 and manners1 rest upon the female teachers1 in their several departments4 ,the ,principal is the chaplain and religious teacher2 and is a member of the board of instructors1 so far as to have a right to advise1 and an equal vote1 in every question pertaining to the concerns of the ,school2 and thus he acts as a sort of regulator and mainspring in all the various departments4 ,but no one person in the ,institution is loaded with the excessive responsibilities1 which rest upon one1 where a large institution of this kind has a ,principal1 who employs and directs all the subordinate assistants4 ,the writer has never before seen the principle of the division of labor and responsibility so perfectly carried out in any female institution2 and she believes that experience will prove that this is the true model for combining1 in appropriate proportions1 the agency of both sexes in carrying forward such an institution4 ,there are cases where females are well qualified1 and feel willing to take the place occupied by the ,principal2 but such cases are rare4 ,one thing more should be noticed1 to the credit of the rising ,state where this ,institution is located4 ,a female association has been formed1 embracing a large portion of the ladies of standing and wealth1 the design of which1 is1 to educate1 gratuitously1 at this1 and other similar1 institutions1 such females as are anxious to obtain a good education1 and are destitute of the means4 ,if this enterprise is continued1 with the same energy and perseverance as has been manifested during the last few years1 that ,state will take the lead of her sister ,states in well-educated women2 and if the views in the preceding pages are correct1 this will give her precedence in every intellectual and moral advantage4 ,many1 who are not aware of the great economy secured by a proper division of labor1 will not understand how so extensive a course can be properly completed in three years4 ,but in this ,institution1 none are received under fourteen2 and a certain amount of previous acquisition is required1 in order to admission1 as is done in our colleges4 ,this secures a diminution of classes1 so that but few studies are pursued at one time2 while the number of well-qualified teachers is so adequate1 that full time is afforded for all needful instruction and illustration4 ,where teachers have so many classes1 that they merely have time to find out what the pupils learn from books1 without any aid from their teachers1 the acquisitions of the pupils are vague and imperfect1 and soon pass away2 so that an immense amount of expense1 time1 and labor1 is spent in acquiring or recalling what is lost about as fast as it is gained4 ,parents are little aware of the immense waste incurred by the present mode of conducting female education4 ,in the wealthy classes1 young girls are sent to school1 as a matter of course1 year after year1 confined1 for six hours a day1 to the schoolhouse1 and required to add some time out of school to learning their lessons4 ,thus1 during the most critical period of life1 they are for a long time immured in a room1 filled with an atmosphere vitiated by many breaths1 and are constantly kept under some sort of responsibility in regard to mental effort4 ,their studies are pursued at random1 often changed with changing schools1 while book after book 7heavily taxing the parent's purse7 is conned awhile1 and then supplanted by others4 ,teachers have usually so many pupils1 and such a variety of branches to teach1 that little time can be afforded to each pupil2 while scholars1 at this thoughtless period of life1 feeling sure of going to school as long as they please1 manifest little interest in their pursuits4 ,the writer believes that the actual amount of education1 permanently secured by most young ladies from the age of ten to fourteen1 could all be acquired in one year1 at the ,institution described1 by a young lady at the age of fifteen or sixteen4 ,instead of such a course as the common one1 if mothers would keep their daughters as their domestic assistants1 until they are fourteen1 requiring them to study one lesson1 and go out1 once a day1 to recite it to a teacher1 it would abundantly prepare them1 after their constitutions are firmly established1 to enter such an institution1 where1 in three years1 they could secure more1 than almost any young lady in the ,country now gains by giving the whole of her youth to school pursuits4 ,in the early years of female life1 reading1 writing1 needlework1 drawing1 and music1 should alternate with domestic duties2 and one hour a day1 devoted to some study1 in addition to the above pursuits1 would be all that is needful to prepare them for a thorough education after growth is attained1 and the constitution established4 ,this is the time when young women would feel the value of an education1 and pursue their studies with that maturity of mind1 and vividness of interest1 which would double the perpetuity and value of all their acquisitions4 ,the great difficulty1 which opposes such a plan1 is1 the want of institutions that would enable a young lady to complete1 in three years1 the liberal course of study1 here described4 ,but if ,american mothers become convinced of the importance of such advantages for their daughters1 and will use their influence appropriately and efficiently1 they will certainly be furnished4 ,there are other men of liberality and wealth1 besides the individual referred to1 who can be made to feel that a fortune1 expended in securing an appropriate education to ,american women1 is as wisely bestowed1 as in founding colleges for the other sex1 who are already so abundantly supplied4 ,we ought to have institutions1 similar to the one described1 in every part of this ,nation2 and funds should be provided1 for educating young women destitute of means3 and if ,american women think and feel1 that1 by such a method1 their own trials will be lightened1 and their daughters will secure a healthful constitution and a thorough domestic and intellectual education1 the appropriate expression of their wishes will secure the necessary funds4 ,the tide of charity1 which has been so long flowing from the female hand to provide a liberal education for young men1 will flow back with abundant remuneration4 ,the last method suggested for lessening the evils peculiar to ,american women1 is1 a decided effort to oppose the aristocratic feeling1 that labor is degrading2 and to bring about the impression1 that it is refined and lady-like to engage in domestic pursuits4 ,in past ages1 and in aristocratic countries1 leisure and indolence and frivolous pursuits have been deemed lady-like and refined1 because those classes1 which were most refined1 countenanced such an opinion4 ,but whenever ladies of refinement1 as a general custom1 patronise domestic pursuits1 then these employments will be deemed lady-like4 ,it may be urged1 however1 that it is impossible for a woman who cooks1 washes1 and sweeps1 to appear in the dress1 or acquire the habits and manners1 of a lady2 that the drudgery of the kitchen is dirty work1 and that no one can appear delicate and refined1 while engaged in it4 ,now all this depends on circumstances4 ,if a woman has a house1 destitute of neat and convenient facilities2 if she has no habits of order and system2 if she is remiss and careless in person and dress2--then all this may be true4 ,but1 if a woman will make some sacrifices of costly ornaments in her parlor1 in order to make her kitchen neat and tasteful2 if she will sacrifice expensive dishes1 in order to secure such conveniences for labor as protect from exposures2 if she will take pains to have the dresses1 in which she works1 made of suitable materials1 and in good taste2 if she will rise early1 and systematize and oversee the work of her family1 so as to have it done thoroughly1 neatly1 and in the early part of the day2 she will find no necessity for any such apprehensions4 ,it is because such work has generally been done by vulgar people1 and in a vulgar way1 that we have such associations2 and when ladies manage such things1 as ladies should1 then such associations will be removed4 ,there are pursuits1 deemed very refined and genteel1 which involve quite as much exposure as kitchen employments4 ,for example1 to draw a large landscape1 in colored crayons1 would be deemed very lady-like2 but the writer can testify1 from sad experience1 that no cooking1 washing1 sweeping1 or any other domestic duty1 ever left such deplorable traces on hands1 face1 and dress1 as this same lady-like pursuit4 ,such things depend entirely on custom and associations2 and every ,american woman1 who values the institutions of her ,country1 and wishes to lend her influence in extending and perpetuating such blessings1 may feel that she is doing this1 whenever1 by her example and influence1 she destroys the aristocratic association1 which would render domestic labor degrading4 ,,footnotes3 ,c ,the writer omits the name of this ,institution1 lest an inference should be drawn which would be unjust to other institutions4 ,there are others equally worthy of notice1 and the writer selects this only because her attention was especially directed to it as being in a new ,state1 and endowed wholly by an individual4 ,d ,from two ,greek words1--,greek3 kalos1 kalos1 beauty1 and ,greek3 sthenos1 sthenos1 strength1 being the union of both4 ,the writer is now preparing for the press1 an improved system1 of her own invention1 which1 in some of its parts1 has been successfully introduced into several female seminaries1 with advantage4 ,this plan combines singing with a great variety of amusing and graceful evolutions1 designed to promote both health and easy manners4 ,e ,this work1 which has gone through numerous editions1 and been received by the public with great favour1 forms ,no4 lxxxv4 of the ,family ,library1 and ,no4 lvii4 of the ,school ,district ,library1 issued by the publishers of this volume4 ,it is abundantly illustrated by engravings1 and has been extensively introduced as a school text-book4 ,,chapter ,,iv4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,economy ,,as ,a ,,branch ,,of ,,study4 ,the greatest impediment to making ,domestic ,economy a branch of study1 is1 the fact1 that neither parents nor teachers realize the importance1 or the practicability of constituting it a regular part of school education4 ,it is with reference to this1 that the first aim of the writer will be1 to point out some of the reasons for introducing ,domestic ,economy as a branch of female education1 to be studied at school4 ,the first reason1 is1 that there is no period1 in a young lady's life1 when she will not find such knowledge useful to herself and to others4 ,the state of domestic service1 in this ,country1 is so precarious1 that there is scarcely a family1 in the free ,states1 of whom it can be affirmed1 that neither sickness1 discontent1 nor love of change1 will deprive them of all their domestics1 so that every female member of the family will be required to lend some aid1 in providing food and the conveniences of living2 and the better she is qualified to render it1 the happier she will be1 and the more she will contribute to the enjoyment of others4 ,a second reason1 is1 that every young lady1 at the close of her schooldays1 and even before they are closed1 is liable to be placed in a situation1 in which she will need to do1 herself1 or to teach others to do1 all the various processes and duties detailed in this work4 ,that this may be more fully realized1 the writer will detail some instances1 which have come under her own observation4 ,the eldest daughter of a family returned from school1 on a visit1 at sixteen years of age4 ,before her vacation had closed1 her mother was laid in the grave2 and such were her father's circumstances1 that she was obliged to assume the cares and duties of her lost parent4 ,the care of an infant1 the management of young children1 the superintendence of domestics1 the charge of family expenses1 the responsibility of entertaining company1 and the many other cares of the family state1 all at once came upon this young and inexperienced schoolgirl4 ,again2 a young lady went to reside with a married sister1 in a distant ,state4 ,while on this visit1 the elder sister died1 and there was no one but this young lady to fill the vacant place1 and assume all the cares of the nursery1 parlor1 and kitchen4 ,again2 a pupil of the writer1 at the end of her schooldays1 married1 and removed to the ,west4 ,she was an entire novice in all domestic matters2 an utter stranger in the place to which she removed4 ,in a year1 she became a mother1 and her health failed2 while1 for most of the time1 she had no domestics1 at all1 or only ,irish or ,germans1 who scarcely knew even the names1 or the uses1 of many cooking utensils4 ,she was treated with politeness by her neighbors1 and wished to return their civilities2 but how could this young and delicate creature1 who had spent all her life at school1 or in visiting and amusement1 take care of her infant1 attend to her cooking1 washing1 ironing1 and baking1 the concerns of her parlor1 chambers1 kitchen1 and cellar1 and yet visit and receive company8 ,if there is any thing that would make a kindly heart ache1 with sorrow and sympathy1 it would be to see so young1 so amiable1 so helpless a martyr to the mistaken system of female education now prevalent4 ,i have the kindest of husbands1 said the young wife1 after her narrative of sufferings1 and ,i never regretted my marriage2 but1 since this babe was born1 ,i have never had a single waking hour of freedom from anxiety and care4 ,o6 how little young girls know what is before them1 when they enter married life6 ,let the mother or teacher1 whose eye may rest on these lines1 ask herself1 if there is no cause for fear that the young objects of her care may be thrown into similar emergencies1 where they may need a kind of preparation1 which as yet has been withheld4 ,another reason for introducing such a subject1 as a distinct branch of school education1 is1 that1 as a general fact1 young ladies will not be taught these things in any other way4 ,in reply to the thousand-times-repeated remark1 that girls must be taught their domestic duties by their mothers1 at home1 it may be inquired1 in the first place1 ,what proportion of mothers are qualified to teach a proper and complete system of ,domestic ,economy8 ,when this is answered1 it may be asked1 ,what proportion of those who are qualified1 have that sense of the importance of such instructions1 and that energy and perseverance which would enable them actually to teach their daughters1 in all the branches of ,domestic ,economy presented in this work8 ,it may then be asked1 ,how many mothers actually do give their daughters instruction in the various branches of ,domestic ,economy8 ,is it not the case1 that1 owing to ill health1 deficiency of domestics1 and multiplied cares and perplexities1 a large portion of the most intelligent mothers1 and those1 too1 who most realize the importance of this instruction1 actually cannot find the time1 and have not the energy1 necessary to properly perform the duty8 ,they are taxed to the full amount of both their mental and physical energies1 and cannot attempt any thing more4 ,almost every woman knows1 that it is easier to do the work1 herself1 than it is to teach an awkward and careless novice2 and the great majority of women1 in this ,country1 are obliged to do almost every thing in the shortest and easiest way4 ,this is one reason why the daughters of very energetic and accomplished housekeepers are often the most deficient in these respects2 while the daughters of ignorant or inefficient mothers1 driven to the exercise of their own energies1 often become the most systematic and expert4 ,it may be objected1 that such things cannot be taught by books4 ,this position may fairly be questioned4 ,do not young ladies learn1 from books1 how to make hydrogen and oxygen8 ,do they not have pictures of furnaces1 alembics1 and the various utensils employed in cooking the chemical agents8 ,do they not study the various processes of mechanics1 and learn to understand and to do many as difficult operations1 as any that belong to housekeeping8 ,all these things are explained1 studied1 and recited in classes1 when every one knows that little practical use can ever be made of this knowledge4 ,why1 then1 should not that science and art1 which a woman is to practise during her whole life1 be studied and recited8 ,it may be urged1 that1 even if it is studied1 it will soon be forgotten4 ,and so will much of every thing studied at school4 ,but why should that knowledge1 most needful for daily comfort1 most liable to be in demand1 be the only study omitted1 because it may be forgotten8 ,it may also be objected1 that young ladies can get such books1 and attend to them out of school4 ,and so they can get books on ,chemistry and ,philosophy1 and study them out of school2 but will they do it8 ,and why ought we not to make sure of the most necessary knowledge1 and let the less needful be omitted8 ,if young ladies study such a work as this1 in school1 they will remember a great part of it2 and1 when they forget1 in any emergency1 they will know where to resort for instruction4 ,but if such books are not put into schools1 probably not one in twenty will see or hear of them1 especially in those retired places where they are most needed4 ,and is it at all probable1 that a branch1 which is so lightly esteemed as to be deemed unworthy a place in the list of female studies1 will be sought for and learned by young girls1 who so seldom look into works of solid instruction after they leave school8 ,so deeply is the writer impressed with the importance of this1 as a branch of female education1 at school1 that she would deem it far safer and wiser to omit any other1 rather than this4 ,another reason1 for introducing such a branch of study into female schools1 is1 the influence it would exert1 in leading young ladies more correctly to estimate the importance and dignity of domestic knowledge4 ,it is now often the case1 that young ladies rather pride themselves on their ignorance of such subjects2 and seem to imagine that it is vulgar and ungenteel to know how to work4 ,this is one of the relics of an aristocratic state of society1 which is fast passing away4 ,here1 the tendency of every thing is to the equalisation of labor1 so that all classes are feeling1 more and more1 that indolence is disreputable4 ,and there are many mothers1 among the best educated and most wealthy classes1 who are bringing up their daughters1 not only to know how to do1 but actually to do1 all kinds of domestic work4 ,the writer knows young ladies1 who are daughters of men of wealth and standing1 and who are among the most accomplished in their sphere1 who have for months been sent to work with a mantuamaker1 to acquire a practical knowledge of her occupation1 and who have at home learned to perform all kinds of domestic labor4 ,and let the young women of this ,nation find1 that ,domestic ,economy is placed1 in schools1 on equal or superior ground to ,chemistry1 ,philosophy1 and ,mathematics1 and they will blush to be found ignorant of its first principles1 as much as they will to hesitate respecting the laws of gravity1 or the composition of the atmosphere4 ,but1 as matters are now conducted1 many young ladies know how to make oxygen and hydrogen1 and to discuss questions of ,philosophy or ,political ,economy1 far better than they know how to make a bed and sweep a room properly2 and they can construct a diagram in ,geometry1 with far more skill than they can make the simplest article of female dress4 ,it may be urged1 that the plan suggested by the writer1 in the previous pages1 would make such a book as this needless2 for young ladies would learn all these things at home1 before they go to school4 ,but it must be remembered1 that the plan suggested cannot fully be carried into effect1 till such endowed institutions1 as the one described1 are universally furnished4 ,this probably will not be done1 till at least one generation of young women are educated4 ,it is only on the supposition that a young lady can1 at fourteen or fifteen years of age1 enter such an institution1 and continue there three years1 that it would be easy to induce her to remain1 during all the previous period1 at home1 in the practice of ,domestic ,economy1 and the limited course of study pointed out4 ,in the present imperfect1 desultory1 varying1 mode of female education1 where studies are begun1 changed1 partially learned1 and forgotten1 it requires nearly all the years of a woman's youth1 to acquire the intellectual education now demanded4 ,while this state of things continues1 the only remedy is1 to introduce ,domestic ,economy as a study at school4 ,it is hoped that these considerations will have weight1 not only with parents and teachers1 but with young ladies themselves1 and that all will unite their influence to introduce this1 as a popular and universal branch of education1 into every female school4 ,,chapter ,v4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,health4 ,there is no point1 where a woman is more liable to suffer from a want of knowledge and experience1 than in reference to the health of a family committed to her care4 ,many a young lady1 who never had any charge of the sick2 who never took any care of an infant2 who never obtained information on these subjects from books1 or from the experience of others2 in short1 with little or no preparation2 has found herself the principal attendant in dangerous sickness1 the chief nurse of a feeble infant1 and the responsible guardian of the health of a whole family4 ,the care1 the fear1 the perplexity1 of a woman1 suddenly called to these unwonted duties1 none can realize1 till they themselves feel it1 or till they see some young and anxious novice first attempting to meet such responsibilities4 ,to a woman of age and experience1 these duties often involve a measure of trial and difficulty1 at times deemed almost insupportable2 how hard1 then1 must they press on the heart of the young and inexperienced6 ,there is no really efficacious mode of preparing a woman to take a rational care of the health of a family1 except by communicating that knowledge1 in regard to the construction of the body1 and the laws of health1 which is the basis of the medical profession4 ,not that a woman should undertake the minute and extensive investigation requisite for a physician2 but she should gain a general knowledge of first principles1 as a guide to her judgement in emergencies when she can rely on no other aid4 ,therefore1 before attempting to give any specific directions on the subject of this chapter1 a short sketch of the construction of the human frame will be given1 with a notice of some of the general principles1 on which specific rules in regard to health are based4 ,this description will be arranged under the general heads of ,,bones1 ,,muscles1 ,,nerves1 ,,blood-,,vessels1 ,,organs ,,of ,,digestion ,,and ,,respiration1 and ,,the ,,skin4 ,,bones4 ,the bones are the most solid parts of the body4 ,they are designed to protect and sustain it1 and also to secure voluntary motion4 ,they are about two hundred and fifty in number1 7there being sometimes a few more or less17 and are fastened together by cartilage1 or gristle1 a substance like the bones1 but softer1 and more elastic4 ,in order to convey a more clear and correct idea of the form1 relative position1 and connection1 of the bones constituting the human framework1 the engraving on page #gj1 7,fig4 #a17 is given4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #a4 ,by the preceding engraving1 it will be seen1 that the cranium1 or skull1 consists of several distinct pieces1 which are united by sutures1 7or seams17 as represented by the zigzag lines2 a1 being the frontal bone2 b1 the parietal bone2 c1 the temporal bone2 and d1 the place of the occipital bone1 which forms the back part of the head1 and therefore is not seen in the engraving4 ,the nasal bones1 or bones of the nose1 are shown at e2 f1 is the cheek bone2 g1 the upper1 and h1 the lower1 jaw bones2 i1 i1 the spinal column1 or back bone1 consisting of numerous small bones1 called vertebr2 j1 j1 the seven true ribs1 which are fastened to the spine1 behind1 and by the cartilages1 k1 k1 to the sternum1 or breast bone1 l1 in front2 m1 m1 are the first three false ribs1 which are so called1 because they are not united directly to the breast bone1 but by cartilages to the seventh true rib2 n1 n1 are the lower two false1 which are also called floating1 ribs1 because they are not connected with the breast bone1 nor the other ribs1 in front2 o1 o1 p1 q1 are the bones of the pelvis1 which is the foundation on which the spine rests2 r1 r1 are the collar bones2 s1 s1 the shoulder blades2 t1 t1 the bones of the upper arm2 u1 u1 the elbow joints1 where the bones of the upper arm and fore arm are united in such a way that they can move like a hinge2 v w1 v w1 are the bones of the fore arm2 x1 x1 those of the wrists2 y1 y1 those of the fingers2 z1 z1 are the round heads of the thigh bones1 where they are inserted into the sockets of the bones of the pelvis1 giving motion in every direction1 and forming the hip joint2 a b1 a b1 are the thigh bones2 c1 c1 the knee joints2 d e1 d e1 the leg bones2 f1 f1 the ankle joints2 g1 g1 the bones of the foot4 ,the bones are composed of two substances1--one animal1 and the other mineral4 ,the animal part is a very fine network1 called the cellular membrane4 ,in this1 are deposited the harder mineral substances1 which are composed principally of carbonate and phosphate of lime4 ,in very early life1 the bones consist chiefly of the animal part1 and are then soft and pliant4 ,as the child advances in age1 the bones grow harder1 by the gradual deposition of the phosphate of lime1 which is supplied by the food1 and carried to the bones by the blood4 ,in old age1 the hardest material preponderates2 making the bones more brittle than in earlier life4 ,as we shall soon have occasion to refer1 particularly1 to the spinal1 or vertebral column1 and the derangement to which it is liable1 we give1 on page #gb1 representations of the different classes of vertebr2 viz4 the cervical1 7from the ,latin1 cervix1 the neck17 the dorsal1 7from dorsum1 the back17 and lumbar1 7from lumbus1 the loins47 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #b4 ,fig4 #b1 represents one of the cervical vertebr4 ,seven of these1 placed one above another1 constitute that part of the spine which is in the neck4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #c4 ,fig4 #c1 is one of the dorsal vertebr1 twelve of which1 form the central part of the spine4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #d4 ,fig4 #d1 represents one of the lumbar vertebr1 7five in number17 which are immediately above the sacrum4 ,these vertebr are so fastened1 that the spine can bend1 in any direction2 and the muscles of the trunk are used in holding it erect1 or in varying its movements4 ,by the drawings here presented1 it will be seen1 that the vertebr of the neck1 back1 and loins1 differ somewhat in size and shape1 although they all possess the same constituent parts2 thus1 ,a1 in each1 represents the body of the vertebr2 ,b1 the articulating processes1 by which each is joined to its fellow1 above and below it2 ,c1 the spinous process1 or that part of the vertebr1 which forms the ridge to be felt1 on pressure1 the whole length of the centre of the back4 ,the back bone receives its name1 spine1 or spinal column1 from these spinous processes4 ,it is the universal law of the human frame1 that exercise is indispensable to the health of the several parts4 ,thus1 if a blood-vessel be tied up1 so as not to be used1 it shrinks1 and becomes a useless string2 if a muscle be condemned to inaction1 it shrinks in size1 and diminishes in power2 and thus it is also with the bones4 ,inactivity produces softness1 debility1 and unfitness for the functions they are designed to perform4 ,this is one of the causes of the curvature of the spine1 that common and pernicious defect in the females of ,america4 ,from inactivity1 the bones of the spine become soft and yielding2 and then1 if the person is often placed1 for a length of time1 in positions that throw the weight of the body unequally on certain portions of the spine1 they yield to this frequent compression1 and a distortion ensues4 ,the positions taken by young persons1 when learning to write or draw1 or to play on the guitar1 harp1 or piano1 and the position of the body when sleeping on one side1 on high pillows1 all tend to produce this effect1 by throwing the weight of the body unequally1 and for a length of time1 on particular parts of the spine4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #e4 ,,muscles4 ,the muscles are the chief organs of motion1 and consist of collections of fine fibres or strings1 united in casings of membrane or thin skin4 ,they possess an elastic power1 like ,india rubber1 which enables them to extend and contract4 ,the red meat in animals consists of muscles4 ,every muscle has connected with it nerves1 veins1 and arteries2 and those designed to move the bones1 are fastened to them by tendons at their extremities4 ,the muscles are laid over each other1 and are separated by means of membranes and layers of fat1 which enable them to move easily1 without interfering with each other4 ,the figure on page #gd1 represents the muscles of the arm1 as they appear when the skin and fat are removed4 ,the muscles a and b are attached1 at their upper ends1 to the bone of the arm1 and by their lower ends to the upper part of the fore arm1 near the elbow joint4 ,when the fibres of these muscles contract1 the middle part of them grows larger1 and the arm is bent at the elbow4 ,the muscle c1 is1 in like manner1 fastened1 by its upper end1 to the shoulder blade and the upper part of the arm1 and by its lower end to one of the bones of the fore arm1 near the elbow4 ,when the arm is bent1 and we wish to straighten it1 it is done by contracting this muscle4 ,the muscles d1 d1 are fastened at one end near the elbow joint1 and at the other near the ends of the fingers2 and on the back of the hand are reduced in size1 appearing like strong cords4 ,these cords are called tendons4 ,they are employed in straightening the fingers1 when the hand is shut4 ,these tendons are confined by the ligament or band1 e1 which binds them down1 around the wrist1 and thus enables them to act more efficiently1 and secures beauty of form to the limb4 ,the muscles at f1 are those which enable us to turn the hand and arm outward4 ,every different motion of the arm has one muscle to produce it1 and another to restore the limb to its natural position4 ,those muscles which bend the body are called flexors2 those which straighten it1 extensors4 ,when the arm is thrown up1 one set of muscles is used2 to pull it down1 another set3 when it is thrown forward1 a still different set is used2 when it is thrown back1 another1 different from the former2 when the arm turns in its socket1 still another set is used2 and thus every different motion of the body is made by a different set of muscles4 ,all these muscles are compactly and skilfully arranged1 so as to work with perfect ease4 ,among them1 run the arteries1 veins1 and nerves1 which supply each muscle with blood and nervous power1 as will be hereafter described4 ,the size and strength of the muscles depend greatly on their frequent exercise4 ,if left inactive1 they grow thin and weak1 instead of giving the plumpness to the figure1 designed by ,nature4 ,the delicate and feeble appearance of many ,american women1 is chiefly owing to the little use they make of their muscles4 ,many a pale1 puny1 shad-shaped girl1 would have become a plump1 rosy1 well-formed person1 if half the exercise1 afforded to her brothers in the open air1 had been secured to her1 during childhood and youth4 ,,nerves4 ,the nerves are the organs of sensation4 ,they enable us to see1 hear1 feel1 taste1 and smell2 and also combine with the bones and muscles in producing motion4 ,the first engraving1 on p4 #gg1 7,fig4 #f17 is a vertical section of the skull1 and of the spinal column1 or back bone1 which supports the head1 and through which runs the spinal cord1 whence most of the nerves originate4 ,it is a side view1 and represents the head and spine1 as they would appear1 if they were cut through the middle1 from front to back4 ,fig4 #g1 exhibits them as they would appear1 if viewed from behind4 ,in ,fig4 #f1 a1 represents the cerebrum1 or great brain2 b1 the cerebellum1 or little brain1 which is situated directly under the great brain1 at the back and lower part of the head2 c1 d1 e1 is the spinal marrow1 which is connected with the brain at c1 and runs through the whole length of the spinal column4 ,this column consists1 as has already been stated1 of a large number of small bones1 f1 f1 called vertebr1 laid one above another1 and fastened together by cartilage1 or gristle1 g1 between them4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #f4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #g4 ,between each two vertebr1 or spinal bones1 there issues from the spine1 on each side1 a pair of nerves4 ,the lower broad part of the spine1 7see p1 ,fig4 #a1 p4 #gj1 and ,fig4 #g1 p4 #gg17 is called the sacrum2 in this1 are eight holes1 through which the lower pairs of nerves pass off4 ,the nerves of the head and lungs run directly from the brain2 those of all other parts of the body proceed from the spine1 passing out in the manner already mentioned4 ,the nerves which thus proceed from the spine1 branch out1 like the limbs and twigs of a tree1 till they extend over the whole body2 and1 so minutely are they divided and arranged1 that a point1 destitute of a nerve1 cannot be found on the skin4 ,some idea of the ramifications of the nerves1 may be obtained by reference to the following engraving1 7,fig4 #h47 ,in this1 ,a1 ,a1 represents the cerebrum1 or great brain2 ,b1 ,b1 the cerebellum1 or little brain2 7see also a1 b1 in ,fig4 #f27 ,c1 ,c1 represents the union of the fibres of the cerebrum2 ,d1 ,d1 the union of the two sides of the cerebellum2 ,e1 ,e1 ,e1 the spinal marrow1 which passes through the centre of the spine1 7as seen at c1 d1 e1 in ,fig4 #f27 #a1 #b1 #c1 #d1 #e1 #f1 branches of the nerves going to different parts of the body4 ,as the nerves are the organs of sensation1 all pain is an affection of some portion of the nerves4 ,the health of the nerves depends very greatly on the exercise of the muscles1 with which they are so intimately connected4 ,this shows the reason why the headache1 tic douloureux1 diseases of the spine1 and other nervous affections1 are so common among ,american women4 ,their inactive habits1 engender a debility of the nervous system1 and these diseases follow1 as the consequence4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #h4 ,it can be seen1 by a reference to the side view1 represented on page #gg1 7,fig4 #f17 that the spine is naturally curved back and forward4 ,when1 from want of exercise1 its bones are softened1 and the muscles weakened1 the spine acquires an improper curve1 and the person becomes what is called crooked1 having the neck projected forward1 and1 in some cases1 having the back convex1 where it should be concave4 ,probably one half of the ,american women have the head thus projecting forward1 instead of carrying it in the natural1 erect position1 which is both graceful and dignified4 ,the curvature of the spine1 spoken of in this work as so common1 and as the cause of so many diseases among ,american women1 is what is denominated the lateral curvature1 and is much more dangerous than the other distortion4 ,the indications of this evil1 are1 the projection of one shoulder blade more than the other1 and1 in bad cases1 one shoulder being higher1 and the hip on the opposite side more projecting1 than the other4 ,in this case1 the spine1 when viewed from behind1 instead of running in a straight line1 7as in ,fig4 #g and #i17 is curved somewhat1 as may be seen in ,figures #aj and #aa4 ,this effect is occasioned by the softness of the bones1 induced by want of exercise1 together with tight dressing1 which tends to weaken the muscles that are thus thrown out of use4 ,improper and long continued positions in drawing1 writing1 and sleeping1 which throw the weight of the body on one part of the spine1 induce the same evil4 ,this distortion is usually accompanied with some consequent disease of the nervous system1 or some disarrangement of the internal organs4 ,by comparing ,figures #i and #aa1 the difference between a natural and distorted spine will be readily perceived4 ,in ,fig4 #aj1 the curved line shows the course of the spine1 occasioned by distortion2 the perpendicular line1 in this and ,fig4 #aa1 indicates the true direction of the spine2 the horizontal lines show that one shoulder and hip are forced from their proper level4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #i4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #aj4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #aa4 ,,blood-,,vessels4 ,the blood is the fluid into which our food is changed1 and which is employed to minister nourishment to the whole body4 ,for this purpose1 it is carried to every part of the body1 by the arteries2 and1 after it has given out its nourishment1 returns to the heart1 through the veins4 ,the subjoined engraving1 7,fig4 #ab17 which presents a rude outline of the vascular system1 will more clearly illustrate this operation1 as we shall presently show4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ab4 ,before entering the heart1 the blood receives a fresh supply of nourishment1 by a duct which leads from the stomach4 ,the arteries have their origin from the heart1 in a great trunk1 called the aorta1 which is the parent of all the arteries1 as the spinal marrow is the parent of the nerves which it sends out4 ,when the arteries have branched out into myriads of minute vessels1 the blood which is in them passes into as minute veins2 and these run into each other1 like the rills and branches of a river1 until they are all united in two great veins1 which run into the heart4 ,one of these large receivers1 called the vena cava superior1 or upper vena cava1 brings back the blood from the arms and head1 the other1 the vena cava inferior1 or lower vena cava1 brings back the blood from the body and lower limbs4 ,in the preceding figure1 ,h1 is the heart1 which is divided into four compartments2 two1 called auricles1 used for receiving the blood1 and two1 called ventricles1 used for sending out the blood4 ,a1 is the aorta1 or great artery1 which sends its branches to every part of the body4 ,in the upper part1 at a1 a1 a1 are the main branches of the aorta1 which go to the head and arms4 ,below1 at a1 a1 are the branches which go to the lower limbs4 ,the branches which set off at ,x1 ,x1 are those by which the intestines are supplied by vessels from the aorta4 ,every muscle in the whole body1 all the organs of the body1 and the skin1 are supplied by branches sent off from this great artery4 ,when the blood is thus dispersed through any organ1 in minute vessels1 it is received1 at their terminations1 by numerous minute veins1 which gradually unite1 forming larger branches1 till they all meet in either the upper or lower vena cava1 which returns the blood to the heart4 ,v ,i1 is the vena cava inferior1 which receives the blood from the veins of the lower parts of the body1 as seen at v1 v4 ,the blood1 sent into the lower limbs from the aorta1 is received by minute veins1 which finally unite at v1 v1 and thus it is emptied through the lower vena cava into the heart3 o1 o1 represent the points of entrance of those tributaries of the vena cava1 which receive that blood from the intestines1 which is sent out by the aorta at ,x1 ,x4 ,in the upper part1 ,v ,s1 is the vena cava superior1 which receives the blood from the head and arms2 v1 v1 v1 are the tributaries of the upper vena cava1 which bring the blood back from the head and arms2 d1 d1 represents the course of the thoracic duct1 a delicate tube by which the chyle is carried into the blood1 as mentioned on page #hi2 t1 shows the place where this duct empties into a branch of the vena cava4 ,it thus appears1 that wherever a branch of the aorta goes to carry blood1 there will be found a tributary of the upper or lower vena cava1 to bring it back4 ,the succeeding engravings1 will enable the reader to form a more definite idea of this important function of the system1--the circulation of the blood4 ,the heart1 in man1 and in all warm-blooded animals1 is double1 having two auricles and two ventricles4 ,in animals with cold blood1 7as fishes17 the heart is single1 having but one auricle and one ventricle4 ,fig4 #ac1 represents the double heart as it appears when the two sides are separated1 and also the great blood-vessels2 those on the left of the figure being on the right side of the body1 and vice versa4 ,the direction of the blood is represented by the arrows4 ,a1 represents the lower vena cava1 returning the blood from the lower parts of the body1 and ,l1 the upper vena cava1 returning the blood from the head and arms4 ,b1 is the right sinus1 or auricle1 into which the returned blood is poured4 ,from this cavity of the heart1 the blood is carried into the right ventricle1 ,c2 and from this ventricle1 the pulmonary arteries1 ,d1 convey into the lungs the blood which is returned from the body4 ,these five vessels1 ,a1 ,b1 ,c1 ,d1 and ,l1 belong to the right side of the heart1 and contain the venous or dark-colored blood1 which has been through the circulation1 and is now unfit for the uses of the system1 till it has passed through the lungs4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ac4 ,when the blood reaches the lungs1 and is exposed to the action of the air which we breathe1 it throws off its impurities1 becomes bright in color1 and is then called arterial blood4 ,it then returns to the left side of the heart1 7on the right of the engraving17 by the pulmonary veins ,e1 ,e1 7also seen at m1 m1 ,fig4 #ae17 into the left auricle ,f1 whence it is forced into the ventricle1 ,g4 ,from the left ventricle1 proceeds the aorta1 ,h1 ,h1 which is the great artery of the body1 and conveys the blood to every part of the system4 ,i1 ,j1 ,k1 are branches of the aorta1 going to the head and arms4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ad4 ,fig4 #ad1 represents the heart1 with its two sides united as in nature2 and will be understood from the description of ,fig4 #ac4 ,on the opposite page1 ,fig4 #ae1 represents the heart1 with the great blood-vessels1 on a still larger scale2 a1 being the left ventricle2 b1 the right ventricle2 c1 e1 f1 the aorta1 or great artery1 rising out of the left ventricle2 g1 h1 i1 the branches of the aorta1 going to the head and arms2 k1 l1 l1 the pulmonary artery1 and its branches2 m1 m1 veins of the lungs1 which bring the blood back from the lungs to the heart2 n1 right auricle2 o1 vena cava inferior2 p1 veins returning blood from the liver and bowels2 q1 the vena cava superior2 r1 the left auricle2 s1 the left coronary artery1 which distributes the blood exclusively to the substance of the heart4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ae4 ,,organs ,,of ,,digestion ,,and ,,respiration4 ,digestion and respiration are the processes1 by which the food is converted into blood for the nourishment of the body4 ,the engraving on the next page 7,fig4 #af7 shows the organs by which these operations are performed4 ,in the lower part of the engraving1 is the stomach1 marked ,s1 which receives the food through the gullet1 marked ,g4 ,the latter1 though in the engraving it is cut off at ,g1 in reality continues upwards to the throat4 ,the stomach is a bag composed of muscles1 nerves1 and blood-vessels1 united by a material similar to that which forms the skin4 ,as soon as food enters the stomach1 its nerves are excited to perform their proper function of stimulating the muscles4 ,a muscular 7called the peristaltic7 motion immediately commences1 by which the stomach propels its contents around the whole of its circumference1 once in every three minutes4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #af4 ,this movement of the muscles attracts the blood from other parts of the system2 for the blood always hastens to administer its supplies to any organ which is called to work4 ,the blood-vessels of the stomach are soon distended with blood1 from which the gastric juice is secreted by minute vessels in the coat of the stomach4 ,this mixes with the food1 and reduces it to a soft pulpy mass1 called chyme4 ,it then passes through the lower end of the stomach1 into the intestines1 which are folded up in the abdomen1 and the upper portion1 only1 of which1 is shown in the engraving1 at ,a1 ,a4 ,the organ marked ,l1 ,l1 is the liver1 which1 as the blood passes through its many vessels1 secretes a substance called bile1 which accumulates in the gall-bladder1 marked ,b4 ,after the food passes out of the stomach1 it receives from the liver a portion of bile1 and from the pancreas the pancreatic juice4 ,the pancreas does not appear in this drawing1 being concealed behind the stomach4 ,these two liquids separate the substance which has passed from the stomach1 into two different portions4 ,one is a light liquid1 very much like cream in appearance1 and called chyle1 of which the blood is formed2 the other is a more solid substance1 which contains the refuse and useless matter1 with a smaller portion of nourishment2 and this1 after being further separated from the nourishing matter which it contains1 is thrown out of the body4 ,there are multitudes of small vessels1 called lacteals1 which1 as these two mixed substances pass through the long and winding folds of the intestines in the abdomen1 absorb the chyle1 and convey it to the thoracic duct1 which runs up close by the spine1 and carries the chyle1 thus received1 into a branch of the vena cava superior1 at t1 whence it is mingled with the blood going into the heart4 ,in this engraving1 the lacteals and thoracic duct are not shown2 but their position is indicated by the dotted lines1 marked ,x1 ,y2 ,x1 being the lacteals1 and ,y1 the thoracic duct4 ,in the upper half of the engraving1 ,h represents the heart2 a1 the commencement of the aorta2 v c s1 the termination of the vena cava superior4 ,on each side of the heart1 are the lungs2 l l1 being the left lobe1 and r l1 the right lobe4 ,they are composed of a network of air-vessels1 blood-vessels1 and nerves4 ,w1 represents the trachea1 or windpipe1 through which1 the air we breathe is conducted to the lungs4 ,it branches out into myriads of minute vessels1 which are thus filled with air every time we breathe4 ,from the heart1 run the pulmonary arteries1 marked p a4 ,these enter the lungs and spread out along-side of the branches of the air-vessels1 so that every air-vessel has a small artery running side by side with it4 ,when the two vena cavas empty the blood into the heart1 the latter contracts1 and sends this blood1 through these pulmonary arteries1 into the lungs4 ,as the air and blood meander1 side by side1 through the lungs1 the superabundant carbon and hydrogen of the blood combine with the oxygen of the air1 forming carbonic acid gas1 and water1 which are thrown out of the lungs at every expiration4 ,this is the process by which the chyle is converted into arterial blood1 and the venous blood purified of its excess of carbon and hydrogen4 ,when the blood is thus prepared1 in the lungs1 for its duties1 it is received by the small pulmonary veins1 which gradually unite1 and bring the blood back to the heart1 through the large pulmonary veins1 marked p v1 p v4 ,on receiving this purified blood from the lungs1 the heart contracts1 and sends it out again1 through the aorta1 to all parts of the body4 ,it then makes another circuit through every part1 ministering to the wants of all1 and is afterwards again brought back by the veins to receive the fresh chyle from the stomach1 and to be purified by the lungs4 ,the throbbing of the heart is caused by its alternate expansion and contraction1 as it receives and expels the blood4 ,with one throb1 the blood is sent from the right ventricle into the lungs1 and from the left ventricle into the aorta4 ,every time we inspire air1 the process of purifying the blood is going on2 and every time we expire the air1 we throw out the redundant carbon and hydrogen1 taken from a portion of the blood4 ,if the waist is compressed by tight clothing1 a portion of the lungs be compressed1 so that the air-vessels cannot be filled4 ,this prevents the perfect purification and preparation of the blood1 so that a part returns back to the heart unfitted for its duties4 ,this is a slow1 but sure1 method1 by which the constitution of many a young lady is so undermined that she becomes an early victim to disease and to the decay of beauty and strength4 ,the want of pure air is another cause1 of the debility of the female constitution4 ,when air has been rendered impure1 by the breath of several persons1 or by close confinement1 it does not purify the blood properly4 ,sleeping in close chambers1 and sitting in crowded and unventilated schoolrooms1 are frequent causes of debility in the constitution of young persons4 ,,of ,,the ,,skin4 ,the skin is the covering of the body1 and has very important functions to perform4 ,it is more abundantly supplied with nerves and blood-vessels than any other part2 and there is no spot of the skin where the point of the finest needle would not pierce a nerve and blood-vessel4 ,indeed1 it may be considered as composed chiefly of an interlacing of minute nerves and blood-vessels1 so that it is supposed there is more nervous matter in the skin1 than in all the rest of the body united1 and that the greater portion of the blood flows through the skin4 ,the whole animal system is in a state of continual change and renovation4 ,food is constantly taken into the stomach1 only a portion of which is fitted for the supply of the blood4 ,all the rest has to be thrown out of the system1 by various organs designed for this purpose4 ,these organs are1--the lungs1 which throw off a portion of useless matter when the blood is purified2 the kidneys1 which secrete liquids that pass into the bladder1 and are thrown out from the body by that organ2 and the intestines1 which carry off the useless and more solid parts of the food1 after the lacteals have drawn off the chyle4 ,in addition to these organs1 the skin has a similar duty to perform2 and as it has so much larger a supply of blood1 it is the chief organ in relieving the body of the useless and noxious parts of the materials which are taken for food4 ,various experiments show1 that not less than a pound and four ounces of waste matter is thrown off by the skin every twenty-four hours4 ,this is according to the lowest calculation4 ,most of those1 who have made experiments to ascertain the quantity1 represent it as much greater2 and all agree1 that the skin throws off more redundant matter from the body1 than the whole of the other organs together4 ,in the ordinary state of the skin1 even when there is no apparent perspiration1 it is constantly exhaling waste matter1 in a form which is called insensible perspiration1 because it cannot be perceived by the senses4 ,a very cool mirror1 brought suddenly near to the skin1 will be covered1 in that part1 with a moisture1 which is this effluvium thus made visible4 ,when heat or exercise excites the skin1 this perspiration is increased1 so as to be apparent to the senses4 ,this shows the reason why it is so important frequently to wash the entire surface of the body4 ,if this be neglected1 the pores of the skin are closed by the waste matter thrown from the body1 and by small particles of the thin scarfskin1 so that it cannot properly perform its duties4 ,in this way1 the other organs are made to work harder1 in order to perform the labor the skin would otherwise accomplish1 and thus the lungs and bowels are often essentially weakened4 ,another office of the skin1 is1 to regulate the heat of the body4 ,the action of the internal organs is constantly generating heat2 and the faster the blood circulates1 the greater is the heat evolved4 ,the perspiration of the skin serves to reduce and regulate this heat4 ,for1 whenever any liquid changes to a vapor1 it absorbs heat from whatever is nearest to it4 ,the faster the blood flows1 the more perspiration is evolved4 ,this bedews the skin with a liquid1 which the heat of the body turns to a vapor2 and in this change1 that heat is absorbed4 ,when a fever takes place1 this perspiration ceases1 and the body is afflicted with heat4 ,insensible perspiration is most abundant during sleep1 after eating1 and when friction is applied to the skin4 ,perspiration is performed by the terminations of minute arteries in every part of the skin1 which exude the perspiration from the blood4 ,the skin also performs another function4 ,it is provided with a set of small vessels1 called absorbents1 which are exceedingly abundant and minute4 ,when particular substances are brought in contact with the skin1 these absorbents take up some portions and carry them into the blood4 ,it is owing to this1 that opium1 applied on the skin1 acts in a manner similar to its operation when taken into the stomach4 ,the power of absorption is increased by friction2 and this is the reason that liniments are employed1 with much rubbing1 to bruises and sprains4 ,the substance applied is thus introduced into the injured part1 through the absorbents4 ,this shows another reason for frequent washing of the skin1 and for the frequent changes of the garment next the skin4 ,otherwise portions of the noxious matter1 thrown out by the skin1 are reabsorbed into the blood1 and are slow but sure causes of a decay of the strength of the system4 ,the skin is also provided with small follicles1 or bags1 which are filled with an oily substance4 ,this1 by gradually exuding over the skin1 prevents water from penetrating and injuring its texture4 ,the skin is also the organ of touch4 ,this office is performed through the instrumentality of the nerves of feeling1 which are spread over all parts of the skin4 ,this general outline of the construction of the human frame is given1 with reference to the practical application of this knowledge in the various cases where a woman will be called upon to exercise her own unaided judgement4 ,the application will be further pointed out1 in the chapters on ,food1 ,dress1 ,cleanliness1 ,care of the ,sick1 and ,care of ,infants4 ,,chapter ,,vi4 ,,on ,,healthful ,,food4 ,the person who decides what shall be the food and drink of a family1 and the modes of preparation1 is the one who decides1 to a greater or less extent1 what shall be the health of that family4 ,it is the opinion of most medical men1 that intemperance in eating is the most fruitful of all causes of disease and death4 ,if this be so1 the woman who wisely adapts the food and cooking of her family to the laws of health1 removes the greatest risk which threatens the lives of those under her care4 ,to exhibit this subject clearly1 it will be needful to refer1 more minutely1 to the organization and operation of the digestive organs4 ,it is found1 by experiment1 that the supply of gastric juice1 furnished from the blood1 by the arteries of the stomach1 is proportioned1 not to the amount of food put into the stomach1 but to the wants of the body2 so that it is possible to put much more into the stomach than can be digested4 ,to guide and regulate in this matter1 the sensation called hunger is provided4 ,in a healthy state of the body1 as soon as the blood has lost its nutritive supplies1 the craving of hunger is felt1 and then1 if the food is suitable1 and is taken in the proper manner1 this sensation ceases1 as soon as the stomach has received enough to supply the wants of the system4 ,but our benevolent ,creator1 in this1 as in our other duties1 has connected enjoyment with the operation needful to sustain our bodies4 ,in addition to the allaying of hunger1 the gratification of the palate is secured1 by the immense variety of food1 some articles of which are far more agreeable than others4 ,this arrangement of ,providence1 designed for our happiness1 has become1 either through ignorance1 or want of self-control1 the chief cause of the various diseases and sufferings1 which afflict those classes who have the means of seeking a variety to gratify the palate4 ,if mankind had only one article of food1 and only water to drink1 though they would have less enjoyment in eating1 they would never be tempted to put any more into the stomach1 than the calls of hunger required4 ,but the customs of society1 which present an incessant change1 and a great variety of food1 with those various condiments which stimulate appetite1 lead almost every person very frequently to eat merely to gratify the palate1 after the stomach has been abundantly supplied1 so that hunger has ceased4 ,when too great a supply of food is put into the stomach1 the gastric juice dissolves only that portion which the wants of the system demand4 ,the remainder is ejected1 in an unprepared state2 the absorbents take portions of it into the system2 and all the various functions of the body1 which depend on the ministries of the blood1 are thus gradually and imperceptibly injured4 ,very often1 intemperance in eating produces immediate results1 such as colic1 headaches1 pains of indigestion1 and vertigo4 ,but the more general result1 is1 a gradual undermining of all parts of the human frame2 thus imperceptibly shortening life1 by so weakening the constitution1 that it is ready to yield1 at every point1 to any uncommon risk or exposure4 ,thousands and thousands are passing out of the world1 from diseases occasioned by exposures1 which a healthy constitution could meet without any danger4 ,it is owing to these considerations1 that it becomes the duty of every woman1 who has the responsibility of providing food for a family1 to avoid a variety of tempting dishes4 ,it is a much safer rule1 to have only one kind of healthy food1 for each meal1 than the abundant variety which is usually met at the tables of almost all classes in this ,country4 ,when there is to be any variety of dishes1 they ought not to be successive1 but so arranged1 as to give the opportunity of selection4 ,how often is it the case1 that persons1 by the appearance of a favorite article1 are tempted to eat1 merely to gratify the palate1 when the stomach is already adequately supplied4 ,all such intemperance wears on the constitution1 and shortens life4 ,it not unfrequently happens1 that excess in eating produces a morbid appetite1 which must constantly be denied4 ,but the organization of the digestive organs demands1 not only that food be taken in proper quantities1 but that it be taken at proper times4 ,it has before been shown1 that1 as soon as the food enters the stomach1 the muscles are excited by the nerves1 and the peristaltic motion commences4 ,this is a powerful and constant exercise of the muscles of the stomach1 which continues until the process of digestion is complete4 ,during this time1 the blood is withdrawn from other parts of the system1 to supply the demands of the stomach1 which is laboring hard with all its muscles4 ,when this motion ceases1 and the digested food has gradually passed out of the stomach1 ,nature requires that it should have a period of repose4 ,and if another meal be eaten1 immediately after one is digested1 the stomach is set to work again1 before it has had time to rest1 and before a sufficient supply of gastric juice is provided4 ,the general rule1 then1 is1 that three hours be given to the stomach for labor1 and two for rest2 and in obedience to this1 five hours1 at least1 ought to elapse between every two regular meals4 ,in cases where exercise produces a flow of perspiration1 more food is needed to supply the loss2 and strong laboring men may safely eat as often as they feel the want of food4 ,so1 young and healthy children1 who gambol and exercise much1 and whose bodies grow fast1 may have a more frequent supply of food4 ,but1 as a general rule1 meals should be five hours apart1 and eating between meals avoided4 ,there is nothing more unsafe1 and wearing to the constitution1 than a habit of eating at any time1 merely to gratify the palate4 ,when a tempting article is presented1 every person should exercise sufficient self-denial1 to wait till the proper time for eating arrives4 ,children1 as well as grown persons1 are often injured1 by eating between their regular meals1 thus weakening the stomach1 by not affording it any time for rest4 ,in deciding as to quantity of food1 there is one great difficulty to be met by a large portion of the community4 ,it has been shown1 that the exercise of every part of the body is indispensable to its health and perfection4 ,the bones1 the muscles1 the nerves1 the organs of digestion and respiration1 and the skin1 all demand exercise1 in order properly to perform their functions4 ,when the muscles of the body are called into action1 all the blood-vessels entwined among them are frequently compressed4 ,as the arteries are so contrived1 that the blood cannot run back1 this compression hastens it forward1 through the veins1 towards that organ4 ,the heart is immediately put in quicker motion1 to send it into the lungs2 and they1 also1 are thus stimulated to more rapid action1 which is the cause of that panting which active exercise always occasions4 ,the blood thus courses with greater celerity through the body1 and sooner loses its nourishing properties4 ,then the stomach issues its mandate of hunger1 and a new supply of food must be furnished4 ,thus it appears1 as a general rule1 that the quantity of food1 actually needed by the body1 depends on the amount of muscular exercise taken4 ,a laboring man1 in the open fields1 probably throws off from his skin ten times the amount of perspirable matter1 which is evolved from the skin of a person of sedentary pursuits4 ,in consequence of this1 he demands a far greater amount of food and drink4 ,those persons1 who keep their bodies in a state of health1 by sufficient exercise1 can always be guided by the calls of hunger4 ,they can eat when they feel hungry1 and stop when hunger ceases2 and then they will calculate exactly right4 ,but the difficulty is1 that a large part of the community1 especially women1 are so inactive in their habits1 that they seldom feel the calls of hunger4 ,they habitually eat1 merely to gratify the palate4 ,this produces such a state of the system1 that they have lost the guide which ,nature has provided4 ,they are not called to eat1 by hunger1 nor admonished1 by its cessation1 when to stop4 ,in consequence of this1 such persons eat what pleases the palate1 till they feel no more inclination for the article4 ,it is probable1 that three fourths of the women1 in the wealthier circles1 sit down to each meal without any feeling of hunger1 and eat merely on account of the gratification thus afforded them4 ,such persons find their appetite to depend almost solely upon the kind of food on the table4 ,this is not the case with those1 who take the exercise which ,nature demands4 ,they approach their meals in such a state that almost any kind of food is acceptable4 ,the question then arises1 how are persons1 who have lost the guide which ,nature has provided1 to determine as to the proper amount of food they shall take8 ,the only rules they can adopt1 are of a general nature2 founded on the principles already developed4 ,they should endeavor to proportion their food to the amount of the exercise they ordinarily take4 ,if they take but little exercise1 they should eat but little food in comparison with those who are much in the open air and take much exercise2 and their food should be chiefly vegetable1 and not animal4 ,but how often is it seen1 that a student1 or a man who sits all day in an office1 or a lady who spends the day in her parlor and chamber1 will sit down to a loaded table1 and1 by continuing to partake of the tempting varieties1 in the end load the stomach with a supply1 which a stout farmer could scarcely digest4 ,but the health of a family depends1 not merely on the quantity of food taken2 but very much1 also1 on the quality4 ,some kinds of food are very pernicious in their nature1 and some healthful articles are rendered very injurious by the mode of cooking4 ,persons who have a strong constitution1 and take much exercise1 may eat almost any thing1 with apparent impunity2 but young children1 who are forming their constitutions1 and persons who are delicate1 and who take but little exercise1 are very dependent for health1 on a proper selection of food4 ,there are some general principles1 which may aid in regulating the judgement on this subject4 ,it is found1 that there are some kinds of food which afford nutriment to the blood1 and do not produce any other effect on the system4 ,there are other kinds1 which are not only nourishing1 but stimulating1 so that they quicken the functions of the organs on which they operate4 ,the condiments used in cookery1 such as pepper1 mustard1 and spices1 are of this nature4 ,there are certain states of the system1 when these stimulants are beneficial2 but it is only in cases where there is some debility4 ,such cases can only be pointed out by medical men4 ,but persons in perfect health1 and especially young children1 never receive any benefit from such kind of food2 and just in proportion as condiments operate to quicken the labors of the internal organs1 they tend to wear down their powers4 ,a person who thus keeps the body working under an unnatural excitement1 lives faster than ,nature designed1 and the sooner the constitution is worn out4 ,a woman1 therefore1 should provide dishes for her family1 which are free from these stimulating condiments1 and as much as possible prevent their use4 ,it is also found1 by experience1 that animal food is more stimulating than vegetable4 ,this is the reason why1 in cases of fevers1 or inflammations1 medical men forbid the use of meat and butter4 ,animal food supplies chyle much more abundantly than vegetable food does2 and this chyle is more stimulating in its nature4 ,of course1 a person who lives chiefly on animal food1 is under a higher degree of stimulus than if his food was chiefly composed of vegetable substances4 ,his blood will flow faster1 and all the functions of his body will be quickened4 ,this makes it important to secure a proper proportion of animal and vegetable diet4 ,some medical men suppose1 that an exclusively vegetable diet is proved1 by the experience of many individuals1 to be fully sufficient to nourish the body2 and bring1 as evidence1 the fact1 that some of the strongest and most robust men in the world1 are those1 who are trained1 from infancy1 exclusively on vegetable food4 ,from this1 they infer1 that life will be shortened1 just in proportion as the diet is changed to more stimulating articles2 and that1 all other things being equal1 children will have a better chance of health and long life1 if they are brought up solely on vegetable food4 ,but1 though this is not the common opinion of medical men1 they all agree1 that1 in ,america1 far too large a portion of the diet consists of animal food4 ,as a nation1 the ,americans are proverbial for the gross and luxurious diet with which they load their tables2 and there can be no doubt that the general health of the ,nation would be increased1 by a change in our customs in this respect4 ,to take meat but once a day1 and this in small quantities1 compared with the common practice1 is a rule1 the observance of which would probably greatly reduce the amount of fevers1 eruptions1 headaches1 bilious attacks1 and the many other ailments which are produced or aggravated by too gross a diet4 ,the celebrated ,roman physician1 ,baglivi1 7who1 from practising extensively among ,roman ,catholics1 had ample opportunities to observe17 mentions1 that1 in ,italy1 an unusual number of people recover their health in the forty days of ,lent1 in consequence of the lower diet which is required as a religious duty4 ,an ,american physician remarks1 ,for every reeling drunkard that disgraces our ,country1 it contains one hundred gluttons2--persons1 ,i mean1 who eat to excess1 and suffer in consequence4 ,another distinguished physician says1 ,i believe that every stomach1 not actually impaired by organic disease1 will perform its functions1 if it receives reasonable attention2 and when we perceive the manner in which diet is generally conducted1 both in regard to quantity and variety of articles of food and drink1 which are mixed up in one heterogeneous mass1--instead of being astonished at the prevalence of indigestion1 our wonder must rather be1 that1 in such circumstances1 any stomach is capable of digesting at all4 ,in regard to articles which are the most easily digested1 only general rules can be given4 ,tender meats are digested more readily than those which are tough1 or than many kinds of vegetable food4 ,the farinaceous articles1 such as rice1 flour1 corn1 potatoes1 and the like1 are the most nutritious1 and most easily digested4 ,the popular notion1 that meat is more nourishing than bread1 is a great mistake4 ,good bread contains one third more nourishment than butcher's meat4 ,the meat is more stimulating1 and for this reason is more readily digested4 ,a perfectly healthy stomach can digest almost any healthful food2 but when the digestive powers are weak1 every stomach has its peculiarities1 and what is good for one1 is hurtful to another4 ,in such cases1 experiment1 alone1 can decide1 which are the most digestible articles of food4 ,a person1 whose food troubles him1 must deduct one article after another1 till he learns1 by experience1 which is the best for digestion4 ,much evil has been done1 by assuming that the powers of one stomach are to be made the rule in regulating every other4 ,the most unhealthful kinds of food1 are those1 which are made so by bad cooking2 such as sour and heavy bread1 cakes1 pie-crust1 and other dishes consisting of fat1 mixed and cooked with flour2 also rancid butter1 and high-seasoned food4 ,the fewer mixtures there are in cooking1 the more healthful is the food likely to be4 ,there is one caution1 as to the mode of eating1 which seems peculiarly needful to ,americans4 ,it is indispensable to good digestion1 that food be well chewed and taken slowly4 ,it needs to be thoroughly chewed1 in order to prepare it for the action of the gastric juice1 which1 by the peristaltic motion1 will be thus brought into universal contact with the minute portions4 ,it has been found1 that a solid lump of food requires much more time and labor of the stomach1 than divided substances4 ,it has also been found1 that1 as each bolus1 or mouthful1 enters the stomach1 the latter closes1 until the portion received has had some time to move around and combine with the gastric juice2 and that the orifice of the stomach resists the entrance of any more1 till this is accomplished4 ,but1 if the eater persists in swallowing fast1 the stomach yields2 the food is then poured in more rapidly than the organ can perform its duty of digestion2 and evil results are sooner or later developed4 ,this exhibits the folly of those hasty meals1 so common to travellers1 and to men of business1 and shows why children should be taught to eat slowly4 ,after taking a full meal1 it is very important to health1 that no great bodily or mental exertion be made1 till the labor of the stomach is over4 ,intense mental effort draws the blood to the head1 and muscular exertions draw it to the muscles2 and in consequence of this1 the stomach loses the supply which it requires when performing its office4 ,when the blood is thus withdrawn1 the adequate supply of gastric juice is not afforded1 and indigestion is the result4 ,the heaviness which follows a full meal1 is the indication which ,nature gives of the need of quiet4 ,when the meal is moderate1 a sufficient quantity of gastric juice is exuded in an hour1 or an hour and a half2 after which1 labor of body and mind may safely be resumed4 ,when undigested food remains in the stomach1 and is at last thrown out into the bowels1 it proves an irritating substance1 producing an inflamed state in the lining of the stomach and other organs4 ,the same effect is produced by alcoholic drinks4 ,it is found1 that the stomach has the power of gradually accommodating its digestive powers to the food it habitually receives4 ,thus1 animals1 which live on vegetables1 can gradually become accustomed to animal food2 and the reverse is equally true4 ,thus1 too1 the human stomach can eventually accomplish the digestion of some kinds of food1 which1 at first1 were indigestible4 ,but any changes of this sort should be gradual2 as those which are sudden1 are trying to the powers of the stomach1 by furnishing matter for which its gastric juice is not prepared4 ,in regard to the nature of the meals prepared1 the breakfast should furnish a supply of liquids1 because the body has been exhausted by the exhalations of the night1 and demands them more than at any other period4 ,it should not be the heartiest meal1 because the organs of digestion are weakened by long fasting1 and the exhalations4 ,dinner should be the heartiest meal1 because then the powers of digestion are strengthened1 by the supplies of the morning meal4 ,light and amusing employments should occupy mind and body for an hour or more after a full meal4 ,but little drink should be taken1 while eating1 as it dilutes the gastric juice which is apportioned to each quantity of food as it enters the stomach4 ,it is better to take drink after the meal is past4 ,extremes of heat or cold are injurious to the process of digestion4 ,taking hot food or drink1 habitually1 tends to debilitate all the organs thus needlessly excited4 ,in using cold substances1 it is found that a certain degree of warmth in the stomach is indispensable to their digestion2 so that1 when the gastric juice is cooled below this temperature1 it ceases to act4 ,indulging in large quantities of cold drinks1 or eating ice-creams1 after a meal1 tends to reduce the temperature of the stomach1 and thus to stop digestion4 ,this shows the folly of those refreshments1 in convivial meetings1 where the guests are tempted to load the stomach with a variety1 such as would require the stomach of a stout farmer to digest1 and then to wind up with ice-creams1 thus destroying whatever ability might otherwise have existed1 to digest the heavy load4 ,the fittest temperature for drinks1 if taken when the food is in the digesting process1 is blood heat4 ,cool drinks1 and even ice1 can be safely taken at other times1 if not in excessive quantity4 ,when the thirst is excessive1 or the body weakened by fatigue1 or when in a state of perspiration1 cold drinks are injurious4 ,when the body is perspiring freely1 taking a large quantity of cold drink has often produced instant death4 ,fluids taken into the stomach are not subject to the slow process of digestion1 but are immediately absorbed and carried into the blood4 ,this is the reason why drink1 more speedily than food1 restores from exhaustion4 ,the minute vessels of the stomach inhale or absorb its fluids1 which are carried into the blood1 just as the minute extremities of the arteries open upon the inner surface of the stomach1 and there exude the gastric juice from the blood4 ,when food is chiefly liquid1 7soup1 for example17 the fluid part is rapidly absorbed4 ,the solid parts remain1 to be acted on by the gastric juice4 ,in the case of ,st4 ,martin1,f in fifty minutes after taking soup1 the fluids were absorbed1 and the remainder was even thicker than is usual after eating solid food4 ,this is the reason why soups are deemed bad for weak stomachs2 as this residuum is more difficult of digestion than ordinary food4 ,in recovering from sickness1 beef-tea and broths are good1 because the system then demands fluids to supply its loss of blood4 ,highly-concentrated food1 having much nourishment in a small bulk1 is not favorable to digestion1 because it cannot be properly acted on by the muscular contractions of the stomach1 and is not so minutely divided1 as to enable the gastric juice to act properly4 ,this is the reason1 why a certain bulk of food is needful to good digestion2 and why those people1 who live on whale oil1 and other highly-nourishing food1 in cold climates1 mix vegetables and even sawdust with it1 to make it more acceptable and digestible4 ,so1 in civilized lands1 bread1 potatoes1 and vegetables1 are mixed with more highly-concentrated nourishment4 ,this explains why coarse bread1 of unbolted wheat1 so often proves beneficial4 ,where1 from inactive habits1 or other causes1 the bowels become constipated and sluggish1 this kind of food proves the appropriate remedy4 ,one fact on this subject is worthy of notice4 ,under the administration of ,william ,pitt1 for two years or more1 there was such a scarcity of wheat1 that1 to make it hold out longer1 ,parliament passed a law1 that the army should have all their bread made of unbolted flour4 ,the result was1 that the health of the soldiers improved so much1 as to be a subject of surprise to themselves1 the officers1 and the physicians4 ,these last came out publicly1 and declared1 that the soldiers never before were so robust and healthy2 and that disease had nearly disappeared from the army4 ,the civic physicians joined and pronounced it the healthiest bread2 and1 for a time1 schools1 families1 and public institutions1 used it almost exclusively4 ,even the nobility1 convinced by these facts1 adopted it for their common diet2 and the fashion continued a long time after the scarcity ceased1 until more luxurious habits resumed their sway4 ,for this reason1 also1 soups1 gellies1 and arrow-root1 should have bread or crackers mixed with them4 ,we thus see why children should not have cakes and candies allowed them between meals4 ,these are highly-concentrated nourishments1 and should be eaten with more bulky and less nourishing substances4 ,the most indigestible of all kinds of food1 are fatty and oily substances2 especially if heated4 ,it is on this account1 that pie-crust1 and articles boiled and fried in fat or butter1 are deemed not so healthful as other food4 ,the following1 then1 may be put down as the causes of a debilitated constitution1 from the misuse of food4 ,eating too much1 eating too often1 eating too fast1 eating food and condiments that are too stimulating1 eating food that is too warm or too cold1 eating food that is highly-concentrated1 without a proper admixture of less nourishing matter1 and eating food that is difficult of digestion4 ,,footnote3 ,f ,the individual here referred to1--,alexis ,st4 ,martin1--was a young ,canadian1 of eighteen years of age1 of a good constitution1 and robust health1 who1 in #ahbb1 was accidentally wounded by the discharge of a musket1 which carried away a part of the ribs1 lacerated one of the lobes of the lungs1 and perforated the stomach1 making a large aperture1 which never closed2 and which enabled ,dr4 ,beaumont1 7a surgeon of the ,american army1 stationed at ,michilimackinac1 under whose care the patient was placed17 to witness all the processes of digestion and other functions of the body1 for several years4 ,the published account of the experiments made by ,dr4 ,b41 is highly interesting and instructive4 ,,chapter ,,vii4 ,,on ,,healthful ,,drinks4 ,although intemperance in eating is probably the most prolific cause of the diseases of mankind1 intemperance in drink has produced more guilt1 misery1 and crime1 than any other one cause4 ,and the responsibilities of a woman1 in this particular1 are very great2 for the habits and liabilities of those under her care1 will very much depend on her opinions and practice4 ,it is a point fully established by experience1 that the full developement of the human body1 and the vigorous exercise of all its functions1 can be secured without the use of stimulating drinks4 ,it is1 therefore1 perfectly safe1 to bring up children never to use them2 no hazard being incurred1 by such a course4 ,it is also found1 by experience1 that there are two evils incurred1 by the use of stimulating drinks4 ,the first1 is1 their positive effect on the human system4 ,their peculiarity consists in so exciting the nervous system1 that all the functions of the body are accelerated1 and the fluids are caused to move quicker than at their natural speed4 ,this increased motion of the animal fluids1 always produces an agreeable effect on the mind4 ,the intellect is invigorated1 the imagination is excited1 the spirits are enlivened2 and these effects are so agreeable1 that all mankind1 after having once experienced them1 feel a great desire for their repetition4 ,but this temporary invigoration of the system1 is always followed by a diminution of the powers of the stimulated organs2 so that1 though in all cases this reaction may not be perceptible1 it is invariably the result4 ,it may be set down as the unchangeable rule of physiology1 that stimulating drinks 7except in cases of disease7 deduct from the powers of the constitution1 in exactly the proportion in which they operate to produce temporary invigoration4 ,the second evil1 is1 the temptation which always attends the use of stimulants4 ,their effect on the system is so agreeable1 and the evils resulting are so imperceptible and distant1 that there is a constant tendency to increase such excitement1 both in frequency and power4 ,and the more the system is thus reduced in strength1 the more craving is the desire for that which imparts a temporary invigoration4 ,this process of increasing debility and increasing craving for the stimulus that removes it1 often goes to such an extreme1 that the passion is perfectly uncontrollable1 and mind and body perish under this baleful habit4 ,in this ,country1 there are five forms in which the use of such stimulants is common2 namely1 alcoholic drinks1 tea1 coffee1 opium mixtures1 and tobacco4 ,these are all alike1 in the main peculiarity of imparting that extra stimulus to the system1 which tends to exhaust its powers4 ,multitudes in this ,nation are in the habitual use of some one of these stimulants2 and each person defends the indulgence by these arguments3 ,first1 that the desire for stimulants is a natural propensity1 implanted in man's nature1 as is manifest from the universal tendency to such indulgences1 in every nation4 ,from this1 it is inferred1 that it is an innocent desire1 which ought to be gratified1 to some extent1 and that the aim should be1 to keep it within the limits of temperance1 instead of attempting to exterminate a natural propensity4 ,this is an argument1 which1 if true1 makes it equally proper to use opium1 brandy1 tea1 or tobacco1 as stimulating principles1 provided they are used temperately4 ,but1 if it be granted that perfect health and strength can be gained and secured without these stimulants1 and that their peculiar effect is to diminish the power of the system1 in exactly the same proportion as they stimulate it1 then there is no such thing as a temperate use1 unless they are so diluted1 as to destroy any stimulating power2 and in this form1 they are seldom desired4 ,the other argument for their use1 is1 that they are among the good things provided by the ,creator1 for our gratification2 that1 like all other blessings1 they are exposed to abuse and excess2 and that we should rather seek to regulate their use1 than to banish them entirely4 ,this argument is based on the assumption1 that they are1 like healthful foods and drinks1 necessary to life and health1 and injurious only by excess4 ,but this is not true2 for1 whenever they are used in any such strength as to be a gratification1 they operate1 to a greater or less extent1 as stimulants2 and1 to just such extent1 they wear out the powers of the constitution2 and it is abundantly proved1 that they are not1 like food and drink1 necessary to health4 ,such articles are designed for medicine1 and not for common use4 ,there can be no argument framed to defend the use of one of them1 which will not equally defend all4 ,that men have a love for being stimulated1 after they have once felt the pleasurable excitement1 and that ,providence has provided the means for securing it1 are arguments as much in favor of alcohol1 opium1 and tobacco1 as of coffee and tea4 ,all that can be said in favor of the last-mentioned favorite beverages1 is1 that the danger in their use is not so great4 ,let any one1 who defends one kind of stimulating drink1 remember1 then1 that he uses an argument1 which1 if it be allowed that stimulants are not needed1 and are injurious1 will equally defend all kinds2 and that all which can be said in defence of tea and coffee1 is1 that they may be used1 so weak1 as to do no harm1 and that they actually have done less harm than some of the other stimulating narcotics4 ,the writer is of opinion1 that tea and coffee are a most extensive cause of much of the nervous debility and suffering endured by ,american women2 and that relinquishing such drinks would save an immense amount of such suffering4 ,but there is little probability that the present generation will make so decided a change in their habits1 as to give up these beverages2 and the subject is presented rather in reference to forming the habits of children4 ,it is a fact1 that tea and coffee are1 at first1 seldom or never agreeable to children4 ,it is the mixture of milk1 sugar1 and water1 that reconciles them to a taste1 which in this manner gradually becomes agreeable4 ,now1 suppose that those who provide for a family conclude that it is not their duty to give up entirely the use of stimulating drinks1 may not the case appear different1 in regard to teaching their children to love such drinks8 ,let the matter be regarded thus3--,the experiments of physiologists all prove1 that stimulants are not needful to health1 and that1 as the general rule1 they tend to debilitate the constitution4 ,is it right1 then1 for a parent to tempt a child to drink what is not needful1 when there is a probability that it will prove1 to some extent1 an undermining drain on the constitution8 ,some constitutions can bear much less excitement than others2 and1 in every family of children1 there is usually one1 or more1 of delicate organization1 and consequently peculiarly exposed to dangers from this source4 ,it is this child who ordinarily becomes the victim to stimulating drinks4 ,the tea and coffee which the parents and the healthier children can use without immediate injury1 gradually sap the energies of the feebler child1 who proves either an early victim1 or a living martyr to all the sufferings that debilitated nerves inflict4 ,can it be right1 to lead children1 where all allow that there is some danger1 and where1 in many cases1 disease and death are met1 when another path is known to be perfectly safe8 ,of the stimulating drinks in common use1 black tea is least injurious1 because its flavor is so strong1 in comparison with its narcotic principle1 that one who uses it1 is much less liable to excess4 ,children can be trained to love milk and water sweetened with sugar1 so that it will always be a pleasant beverage2 or1 if there are exceptions to the rule1 they will be few4 ,water is an unfailing resort4 ,every one loves it1 and it is perfectly healthful4 ,the impression1 common in this ,country1 that warm drinks1 especially in ,winter1 are more healthful than cold1 is not warranted by any experience1 nor by the laws of the physical system4 ,at dinner1 cold drinks are universal1 and no one deems them injurious4 ,it is only at the other two meals that they are supposed to be hurtful4 ,there is no doubt that warm drinks are healthful1 and more agreeable than cold1 at certain times and seasons2 but it is equally true1 that drinks above blood heat are not healthful4 ,if any person should hold a finger in hot water1 for a considerable time1 twice every day1 it would be found that the finger would gradually grow weaker4 ,the frequent application of the stimulus of heat1 like all other stimulants1 eventually causes debility4 ,if1 therefore1 a person is in the habit of drinking hot drinks1 twice a day1 the teeth1 throat1 and stomach are gradually debilitated4 ,this1 most probably1 is one of the causes of an early decay of the teeth1 which is observed to be much more common among ,american ladies1 than among those in ,european countries4 ,it has been stated to the writer1 by an intelligent traveller1 who had visited ,mexico1 that it was rare to meet an individual with even a tolerable set of teeth2 and that almost every grown person1 he met in the street1 had merely remnants of teeth4 ,on inquiry into the customs of the ,country1 it was found1 that it was the universal practice to take their usual beverage at almost the boiling point2 and this1 doubtless1 was the chief cause of the almost entire want of teeth in that ,country4 ,in the ,united ,states1 it cannot be doubted that much evil is done1 in this way1 by hot drinks4 ,most tea-drinkers consider tea as ruined1 if it stands until it reaches the healthful temperature for drink4 ,the following extract from ,dr4 ,andrew ,combe1 presents the opinion of most intelligent medical men on this subject4,g ,water is a safe drink for all constitutions1 provided it be resorted to in obedience to the dictates of natural thirst1 only1 and not of habit4 ,unless the desire for it is felt1 there is no occasion for its use during a meal4 ,the primary effect of all distilled and fermented liquors1 is1 to stimulate the nervous system and quicken the circulation4 ,in infancy and childhood1 the circulation is rapid1 and easily excited2 and the nervous system is strongly acted upon1 even by the slightest external impressions4 ,hence slight causes of irritation readily excite febrile and convulsive disorders4 ,in youth1 the natural tendency of the constitution is still to excitement2 and consequently1 as a general rule1 the stimulus of fermented liquors is injurious4 ,these remarks show1 that parents1 who find that stimulating drinks are not injurious to themselves1 may mistake in inferring1 from this1 that they will not be injurious to their children4 ,dr4 ,combe continues thus3 ,in mature age1 when digestion is good and the system in full vigor1 if the mode of life be not too exhausting1 the nervous functions and general circulation are in their best condition1 and require no stimulus for their support4 ,the bodily energy is then easily sustained1 by nutritious food and a regular regimen1 and consequently artificial excitement only increases the wasting of the natural strength4 ,in old age1 when the powers of life begin to fail1 moderate stimulus may be used with evident advantage4 ,it may be asked1 in this connection1 why the stimulus of animal food is not to be regarded in the same light1 as that of stimulating drinks4 ,in reply1 a very essential difference may be pointed out4 ,animal food furnishes nutriment to the organs which it stimulates1 but stimulating drinks excite the organs to quickened action1 without affording any nourishment4 ,it has been supposed1 by some1 that tea and coffee have1 at least1 a degree of nourishing power4 ,but it is proved1 that it is the milk and sugar1 and not the main portion of the drink1 which imparts the nourishment4 ,tea has not one particle of nourishing properties2 and what little exists in the coffee-berry1 is lost by roasting it in the usual mode4 ,all that these articles do1 is simply to stimulate1 without nourishing4 ,it is very common1 especially in schools1 for children to form a habit of drinking freely of cold water4 ,this is a debilitating habit1 and should be corrected4 ,very often1 chewing a bit of cracker will stop a craving for drink1 better than taking water2 and when teachers are troubled with very thirsty scholars1 they should direct them to this remedy4 ,a person who exercises but little1 requires no drink1 between meals1 for health2 and the craving for it is unhealthful4 ,spices1 wines1 fermented liquors1 and all stimulating condiments1 produce unhealthful thirst4 ,,footnote3 ,g ,the writer would here remark1 in reference to extracts made from various authors1 that1 for the sake of abridging1 she has often left out parts of a paragraph1 but never so as to modify the meaning of the author4 ,some ideas1 not connected with the subject in hand1 are omitted1 but none are altered4 ,,chapter ,,viii4 ,,on ,,clothing4 ,it appears1 by calculations made from bills of mortality1 that one quarter of the human race perishes in infancy4 ,this is a fact not in accordance with the analogy of ,nature4 ,no such mortality prevails among the young of animals2 it does not appear to be the design of the ,creator2 and it must be owing to causes which can be removed4 ,medical men agree in the opinion1 that a great portion of this mortality1 is owing to mismanagement1 in reference to fresh air1 food1 and clothing4 ,at birth1 the circulation is chiefly in the vessels of the skin2 for the liver and stomach1 being feeble in action1 demand less blood1 and it resorts to the surface4 ,if1 therefore1 an infant be exposed to cold1 the blood is driven inward1 by the contracting of the blood-vessels in the skin3 and1 the internal organs being thus over-stimulated1 bowel complaints1 croup1 convulsions1 or some other evil1 ensues4 ,this shows the sad mistake of parents1 who plunge infants in cold water to strengthen their constitution2 and teaches1 that infants should be washed in warm water1 and in a warm room4 ,some have constitutions strong enough to bear mismanagement in these respects2 but many fail in consequence of it4 ,hence we see the importance of dressing infants warmly1 and protecting them from exposure to a cold temperature4 ,it is for this purpose1 that mothers1 now1 very generally1 cover the arms and necks of infants1 especially in ,winter4 ,fathers and mothers1 if they were obliged to go with bare arms and necks1 even in moderate weather1 would often shiver with cold2 and yet they have a power of constitution which would subject them to far less hazard and discomfort1 than a delicate infant must experience from a similar exposure4 ,this mode of dressing infants1 with bare necks and arms1 has arisen from the common impression1 that they have a power of resisting cold superior to older persons4 ,this is a mistake2 for the experiments of medical men have established the fact1 that the power of producing heat is least in the period of infancy4 ,extensive investigations have been made in ,france1 in reference to this point4 ,it is there required1 in some districts1 that every infant1 at birth1 be carried to the office of the maire1 mayor1 to be registered4 ,it is found1 in these districts1 that the deaths of newly-born infants1 are much more numerous in the cold1 than in the warm1 months2 and that a much greater proportion of such deaths occurs among those who reside at a distance from the office of the maire1 than among those in its vicinity4 ,this proves1 that exposure to cold has much to do with the continuance of infant life4 ,but it is as dangerous to go to the other extreme1 and keep the body too warm4 ,the skin1 when kept at too high a temperature1 is relaxed and weakened by too profuse perspiration1 and becomes more sensitive1 and more readily affected by every change of temperature4 ,this increases the liabilities to sudden colds2 and it frequently happens1 that the children1 who are most carefully guarded from cold1 are the ones most liable to take sudden and dangerous chills4 ,the reason is1 that1 by the too great accumulation of clothing1 the skin is too much excited1 and the blood is withdrawn from the internal organs1 thus weakening them1 while the skin itself is debilitated by the same process4 ,the rule of safety1 is1 so to cover the body1 as to keep it entirely warm1 but not so as to induce perspiration in any part4 ,the perspiration induced by exercise is healthful1 because it increases the appetite2 but the perspiration produced by excess of clothing is debilitating4 ,this shows the importance of adjusting beds and their covering to the season4 ,featherbeds are unhealthful in warm weather1 because they induce perspiration2 and in all cases1 those1 who have the care of children1 should proportion their covering by night to the season of the year4 ,infants and children should never be so clothed1 as either to feel chilly1 or to induce perspiration4 ,the greatest trouble1 in this respect1 to those who have the care of children1 is owing to their throwing off their covering in the night4 ,the best guard1 against such exposures1 is a nightgown1 of the warmest and thickest flannel1 made like pantaloons at the lower part1 and the legs long1 so that they can be tied over the feet4 ,this makes less covering needful1 and saves the child from excessive cold when it is thrown off4 ,the clothing ought always to be proportioned to the constitution and habits4 ,a person of strong constitution1 who takes much exercise1 needs less clothing than one of delicate and sedentary habits4 ,according to this rule1 women need much thicker and warmer clothing1 when they go out1 than men4 ,but how different are our customs1 from what sound wisdom dictates6 ,women go out with thin stockings1 thin shoes1 and open necks1 when men are protected by thick woollen hose and boots1 and their whole body encased in many folds of flannel and broadcloth4 ,flannel1 worn next the skin1 is useful1 for several reasons4 ,it is a bad conductor of heat1 so that it protects the body from sudden chills when in a state of perspiration4 ,it also produces a kind of friction on the skin1 which aids it in its functions1 while its texture1 being loose1 enables it to receive and retain much matter1 thrown off from the body1 which would otherwise accumulate on its surface4 ,this is the reason1 why medical men direct1 that young children wear flannel next the body1 and woollen hose1 the first two years of life4 ,they are thus protected from sudden exposures4 ,for the same reason1 laboring men should thus wear flannels1 which are also considered as preservatives from infection1 in unhealthy atmospheres4 ,they give a healthy action to the skin1 and thus enable it to resist the operation of unhealthy miasms4 ,on this account1 persons residing in a new country should wear such clothing next the skin1 to guard them from the noxious miasms caused by extensive vegetable decompositions4 ,it is stated1 that the fatal influence of the malaria1 or noxious exhalations around ,rome1 has been much diminished by this practice4 ,but those who thus wear flannel1 through the day1 ought to take it off1 at night1 when it is not needed4 ,it should be hung so that it can be well aired1 during the night4 ,but the practice1 by which females probably suffer most1 is1 the use of tight dresses4 ,much has been said against the use of corsets by ladies4 ,but these may be worn with perfect safety1 and be left off1 and still injury1 such as they often produce1 be equally felt4 ,it is the constriction of dress1 that is to be feared1 and not any particular article that produces it4 ,a frock1 or a belt1 may be so tight1 as to be even worse than a corset1 which would more equally divide the compression4 ,so long as it is the fashion to admire1 as models of elegance1 the wasp-like figures which are presented at the rooms of mantuamakers and milliners1 there will be hundreds of foolish women1 who will risk their lives and health to secure some resemblance to these deformities of the human frame4 ,but it is believed1 that all sensible women1 when they fairly understand the evils which result from tight dressing1 and learn the real model of taste and beauty for a perfect female form1 will never risk their own health1 or the health of their daughters1 in efforts to secure one which is as much at variance with good taste1 as it is with good health4 ,such female figures as our print-shops present1 are made1 not by the hand of the ,author of all grace and beauty1 but by the murderous contrivances of the corset-shop2 and the more a woman learns the true rules of grace and beauty for the female form1 the more her taste will revolt from such ridiculous distortions4 ,the folly of the ,chinese belle1 who totters on two useless deformities1 is nothing1 compared to that of the ,american belle1 who impedes all the internal organs in the discharge of their functions1 that she may have a slender waist4 ,it was shown1 in the article on the bones and muscles1 that exercise was indispensable to their growth and strength4 ,if any muscles are left unemployed1 they diminish in size and strength4 ,the girding of tight dresses operates thus on the muscles of the body4 ,if an article1 like corsets1 is made to hold up the body1 then those muscles1 which are designed for this purpose1 are released from duty1 and grow weak2 so that1 after this has been continued for some time1 leaving off the unnatural support produces a feeling of weakness4 ,thus a person will complain of feeling so weak and unsupported1 without corsets1 as to be uncomfortable4 ,this is entirely owing to the disuse of those muscles1 which corsets throw out of employ4 ,another effect of tight dress1 is1 to stop or impede the office of the lungs4 ,unless the chest can expand1 fully1 and with perfect ease1 a portion of the lungs is not filled with air1 and thus the full purification of the blood is prevented4 ,this movement of the lungs1 when they are fully inflated1 increases the peristaltic movement of the stomach and bowels1 and promotes digestion2 any constriction of the waist tends to impede this important operation1 and indigestion1 with all its attendant evils1 is often the result4 ,the rule of safety1 in regard to the tightness of dress1 is this4 ,every person should be dressed so loosely1 that1 when sitting in the posture used in sewing1 reading1 or study ,,the ,,lungs can be as fully and as easily inflated1 as they are without clothing4 ,many a woman thinks she dresses loosely1 because1 when she stands up1 her clothing does not confine her chest4 ,this is not a fair test4 ,it is in the position most used when engaged in common employments1 that we are to judge of the constriction of dress4 ,let every woman1 then1 bear in mind1 that1 just so long as her dress and position oppose any resistance to the motion of her chest1 in just such proportion her blood is unpurified1 and her vital organs are debilitated4 ,the ,english ladies set our countrywomen a good example1 in accommodating their dress to times and seasons4 ,the richest and noblest among them wear warm cotton hose and thick shoes1 when they walk for exercise2 and would deem it vulgar to appear1 as many of our ladies do1 with thin hose and shoes1 in damp or cold weather4 ,any mode of dress1 not suited to the employment1 the age1 the season1 or the means of the wearer1 is in bad taste4 ,,chapter ,,ix4 ,,on ,,cleanliness4 ,the importance of cleanliness1 in person and dress1 can never be fully realized1 by persons who are ignorant of the construction of the skin1 and of the influence which its treatment has on the health of the body4 ,persons deficient in such knowledge1 frequently sneer at what they deem the foolish and fidgety particularity of others1 whose frequent ablutions and changes of clothing1 exceed their own measure of importance4 ,the popular maxim1 that dirt is healthy1 has probably arisen from the fact1 that playing in the open air is very beneficial to the health of children1 who thus get dirt on their persons and clothes4 ,but it is the fresh air and exercise1 and not the dirt1 which promotes the health4 ,in a previous article1 it was shown1 that the lungs1 bowels1 kidneys1 and skin1 were the organs employed in throwing off those waste and noxious parts of the food not employed in nourishing the body4 ,of this1 the skin has the largest duty to perform2 throwing off1 at least1 twenty ounces every twenty-four hours1 by means of insensible perspiration4 ,when exercise sets the blood in quicker motion1 it ministers its supplies faster1 and there is consequently a greater residuum to be thrown off by the skin2 and then the perspiration becomes so abundant as to be perceptible4 ,in this state1 if a sudden chill take place1 the blood-vessels of the skin contract1 the blood is driven from the surface1 and the internal organs are taxed with a double duty4 ,if the constitution be a strong one1 these organs march on and perform the labor exacted4 ,but if any of these organs be debilitated1 the weakest one generally gives way1 and some disease ensues4 ,one of the most frequent illustrations of this reciprocated action1 is afforded by a convivial meeting in cold weather4 ,the heat of the room1 the food1 and the excitement1 quicken the circulation1 and perspiration is evolved4 ,when the company passes into the cold air1 a sudden revulsion takes place4 ,the increased circulation continues1 for some time after2 but the skin being cooled1 the blood retreats1 and the internal organs are obliged to perform the duties of the skin as well as their own4 ,then1 in case the lungs are the weakest organ1 the mucous secretion becomes excessive2 so that it would fill up the cells1 and stop the breathing1 were it not for the spasmodic effort called coughing1 by which this substance is thrown out4 ,in case the nerves are the weakest part of the system1 such an exposure would result in pains in the head or teeth1 or in some other nervous ailment4 ,if the muscles be the weakest part1 rheumatic affections will ensue2 and if the bowels or kidneys be weakest1 some disorder in their functions will result4 ,but it is found1 that the closing of the pores of the skin with other substances1 tends to a similar result on the internal organs4 ,in this situation1 the skin is unable perfectly to perform its functions1 and either the blood remains to a certain extent unpurified1 or else the internal organs have an unnatural duty to perform4 ,either of these results tends to produce disease1 and the gradual decay of the vital powers4 ,moreover1 it has been shown1 that the skin has the power of absorbing into the blood particles retained on its surface4 ,in consequence of these peculiarities1 the skin of the whole body needs to be washed1 every day4 ,this process removes from the pores the matter exhaled from the blood1 and also that collected from the atmosphere and other bodies4 ,if this process be not often performed1 the pores of the skin fill up with the redundant matter expelled1 and being pressed1 by the clothing1 to the surface of the body1 the skin is both interrupted in its exhaling process1 and its absorbents take back into the system portions of the noxious matter4 ,thus the blood is not relieved to the extent designed1 while it receives back noxious particles1 which are thus carried to the lungs1 liver1 and every part of the system4 ,this is the reason why the articles worn next to the skin should often be changed2 and why it is recommended that persons should not sleep in the article they wear next the skin through the day4 ,the alternate change and airing of the articles worn next the body by day or night1 is a practice very favorable to the health of the skin4 ,the fresh air has the power of removing much of the noxious effluvia received from the body by the clothing4 ,it is with reference to this1 that on leaving a bed1 its covering should be thrown open and exposed to the fresh air4 ,the benefit arising from a proper care of the skin1 is the reason why bathing has been so extensively practised by civilized nations4 ,the ,greeks and ,romans considered bathing as indispensable to daily comfort1 as much so1 as their meals2 and public baths were provided for all classes4 ,in ,european countries1 this practice is very prevalent1 but there is no civilized nation which pays so little regard to the rules of health1 on this subject1 as our own4 ,to wash the face1 feet1 hands1 and neck1 is the extent of the ablutions practised by perhaps the majority of our people4 ,in regard to the use of the bath1 there is need of some information1 in order to prevent danger from its misuse4 ,persons in good health1 and with strong constitutions1 can use the cold bath1 and the shower-bath1 with entire safety and benefit4 ,but if the constitution be feeble1 cold bathing is injurious4 ,if it is useful1 it can be known by an invigorated feeling1 and a warm glow on the skin2 but if1 instead of this1 there be a feeling of debility1 and the hands and feet become cold1 it is a certain sign1 that this kind of bathing is injurious4 ,a bath at ninety-five degrees of ,fahrenheit1 is about the right temperature4 ,a bath1 blood warm1 or a little cooler than the skin1 is safe for all constitutions1 if not protracted over half an hour4 ,after bathing1 the body should be rubbed with a brush or coarse towel1 to remove the light scales of scarfskin1 which adhere to it1 and also to promote a healthful excitement4 ,a bath should never be taken1 till three hours after eating1 as it interrupts the process of digestion1 by withdrawing the blood from the stomach to the surface4 ,neither should it be taken1 when the body is weary with exercise1 nor be immediately followed by severe exercise4 ,many suppose that a warm bath exposes a person more readily to take cold2 and that it tends to debilitate the system4 ,this is not the case1 unless it be protracted too long4 ,if it be used so as to cleanse the skin1 and give it a gentle stimulus1 it is better able to resist cold than before the process4 ,this is the reason why the ,swedes and ,russians can rush1 reeking1 out of their steam baths1 and throw themselves into the snow1 and not only escape injury1 but feel invigorated4 ,it is for a similar reason1 that we suffer less in going into the cold1 from a warm room1 with our body entirely warm1 than when we go out somewhat chilled4 ,when the skin is warm1 the circulation is active on the surface1 and the cold does not so reduce its temperature1 but that increased exercise will keep up its warmth4 ,when families have no bathing establishment1 every member should wash the whole person1 on rising or going to bed1 either in cold or warm water1 according to the constitution4 ,it is especially important1 that children have the perspiration and other impurities1 which their exercise and sports have occasioned1 removed from their skin before going to bed4 ,the hours of sleep are those when the body most freely exhales the waste matter of the system1 and all the pores should be properly freed from impediments to this healthful operation4 ,for this purpose1 a large tin wash-pan should be kept for children1 just large enough1 at bottom1 for them to stand in1 and flaring outward1 so as to be very broad at top4 ,a child can then be placed in it1 standing1 and washed with a sponge1 without wetting the floor4 ,being small at bottom1 it is better than a tub2 it is not only smaller1 but lighter1 and requires less water4 ,these remarks indicate the wisdom of those parents1 who habitually wash their children1 all over1 before they go to bed4 ,the chance of life and health1 to such children1 is greatly increased by this practice2 and no doubt much of the suffering of childhood1 from cutaneous eruptions1 weak eyes1 earache1 colds1 and fevers1 is owing to a neglect of the skin4 ,the care of the teeth should be made habitual to children1 not merely as promoting an agreeable appearance1 but as a needful preservative4 ,the saliva contains tartar1 an earthy substance1 which is deposited on the teeth1 and destroys both their beauty and health4 ,this can be prevented1 by the use of the brush1 night and morning4 ,but1 if this be neglected1 the deposite becomes hard1 and can be removed only by the dentist4 ,if suffered to remain1 it tends to destroy the health of the gums2 they gradually decay1 and thus the roots of the teeth become bare1 and they often drop out4 ,when children are shedding their first set of teeth1 care should be taken1 to remove them as soon as they become loose2 otherwise the new teeth will grow awry4 ,when persons have defective teeth1 they can often be saved1 by having them filled by a dentist4 ,this also will frequently prevent the toothache4 ,children should be taught to take proper care of their nails4 ,long and dirty nails have a disagreeable appearance4 ,when children wash1 in the morning1 they should be supplied with an instrument to clean the nails1 and be required to use it4 ,,chapter ,x4 ,,on ,,early ,,rising4 ,there is no practice1 which has been more extensively eulogized1 in all ages1 than early rising2 and this universal impression1 is an indication that it is founded on true philosophy4 ,for1 it is rarely the case1 that the common sense of mankind fastens on a practice1 as really beneficial1 especially one that demands self-denial1 without some substantial reason4 ,this practice1 which may justly be called a domestic virtue1 is one1 which has a peculiar claim to be styled ,american and democratic4 ,the distinctive mark of aristocratic nations1 is1 a disregard of the great mass1 and a disproportionate regard for the interests of certain privileged orders4 ,all the customs and habits of such a nation1 are1 to a greater or less extent1 regulated by this principle4 ,now the mass of any nation must always consist of persons who labor at occupations which demand the light of day4 ,but in aristocratic countries1 especially in ,england1 labor is regarded as the mark of the lower classes1 and indolence is considered as one mark of a gentleman4 ,this impression has gradually and imperceptibly1 to a great extent1 regulated their customs1 so that1 even in their hours of meals and repose1 the higher orders aim at being different and distinct from those1 who1 by laborious pursuits1 are placed below them4 ,from this circumstance1 while the lower orders labor by day1 and sleep at night1 the rich1 the noble1 and the honored1 sleep by day1 and follow their pursuits and pleasures by night4 ,it will be found1 that the aristocracy of ,london breakfast near mid-day1 dine after dark1 visit and go to ,parliament between ten and twelve at night1 and retire to sleep towards morning4 ,in consequence of this1 the subordinate classes1 who aim at gentility1 gradually fall into the same practice4 ,the influence of this custom extends across the ocean1 and here1 in this democratic land1 we find many1 who measure their grade of gentility by the late hour at which they arrive at a party4 ,and this aristocratic tendency is growing upon us1 so that1 throughout the ,nation1 the hours for visiting and retiring are constantly becoming later1 while the hours for rising correspond in lateness4 ,the question1 then1 is one which appeals to ,american women1 as a matter of patriotism2 as having a bearing on those great principles of democracy1 which we conceive to be equally the principles of ,christianity4 ,shall we form our customs on the principle that labor is degrading1 and indolence genteel8 ,shall we assume1 by our practice1 that the interests of the great mass are to be sacrificed for the pleasures and honors of a privileged few8 ,shall we ape the customs of aristocratic lands1 in those very practices which result from principles and institutions that we condemn8 ,shall we not rather take the place to which we are entitled1 as the leaders1 rather than the followers1 in the customs of society1 turn back the tide of aristocratic inroads1 and carry through the whole1 not only of civil and political1 but of social and domestic1 life1 the true principles of democratic freedom and equality8 ,the following considerations may serve to strengthen an affirmative decision4 ,the first1 relates to the health of a family4 ,it is a universal law of physiology1 that all living things flourish best in the light4 ,vegetables1 in a dark cellar1 grow pale and spindling1,h and children1 brought up in mines1 are wan and stinted4 ,this universal law1 indicates the folly of turning day into night1 thus losing the genial influence1 which the light of day produces on all animated creation4 ,there is another phenomenon in the physiology of ,nature1 which equally condemns this practice4 ,it has been shown1 that the purification of the blood1 in the lungs1 is secured1 by the oxygen of the atmosphere absorbing its carbon and hydrogen4 ,this combination forms carbonic acid and water1 which are expired from our lungs into the atmosphere4 ,now all the vegetable world undergoes a similar process4 ,in the light of day1 all the leaves of vegetables absorb carbon and expire oxygen1 thus supplying the air with its vital principle1 and withdrawing the more deleterious element4 ,but1 when the light is withdrawn1 this process is reversed1 and all vegetables exhale carbonic acid1 and inspire the oxygen of the air4 ,thus it appears1 that the atmosphere of day is much more healthful than that of the night1 especially out of doors4 ,moreover1 when the body is fatigued1 it is much more liable to deleterious influences1 from noxious particles in the atmosphere1 which may be absorbed by the skin or the lungs4 ,in consequence of this1 the last hours of daily labor are more likely to be those of risk1 especially to delicate constitutions4 ,this is a proper reason for retiring to the house and to slumber1 at an early hour1 that the body may not be exposed to the most risk1 when1 after the exertions of the day1 it is least able to bear it4 ,the observations of medical men1 whose inquiries have been directed to this point1 have decided1 that from six to eight hours1 is the amount of sleep demanded by persons in health4 ,some constitutions require as much as eight1 and others no more than six1 hours of repose4 ,but eight hours is the maximum for all persons in ordinary health1 with ordinary occupations4 ,in cases of extra physical exertions1 or the debility of disease1 or a decayed constitution1 more than this is required4 ,let eight hours1 then1 be regarded as the ordinary period required for sleep1 by an industrious people1 like the ,americans4 ,according to this1 the practice of rising between four and five1 and retiring between nine and ten1 in ,summer1 would secure most of the sunlight1 and expose us the least to that period of the atmosphere1 when it is most noxious4 ,in ,winter1 the night air is less deleterious1 because the frost binds noxious exhalations1 and vegetation ceases its inspiring and expiring process2 and1 moreover1 as the constitution is more tried1 in cold1 than in warm1 weather1 and as in cold weather the body exhales less during the hours of sleep1 it is not so injurious to protract our slumbers beyond the proper period1 as it is in the warm months4 ,but in ,winter1 it is best for grown persons1 in health1 to rise as soon as they can see to dress1 and retire so as not to allow more than eight hours for sleep4 ,it thus appears1 that the laws of our political condition1 the laws of the natural world1 and the constitution of our bodies1 alike demand that we rise with the light of day to prosecute our employments1 and that we retire within doors1 when this light is withdrawn4 ,in regard to the effects of protracting the time spent in repose1 many extensive and satisfactory investigations have been made4 ,it has been shown1 that1 during sleep1 the body perspires most freely1 while yet neither food nor exercise are ministering to its wants4 ,of course1 if we continue our slumbers1 beyond the time required to restore the body to its usual vigor1 there is an unperceived undermining of the constitution1 by this protracted and debilitating exhalation4 ,this process1 in a course of years1 renders the body delicate1 and less able to withstand disease2 and in the result shortens life4 ,sir ,john ,sinclair1 who has written a large work on the ,causes of ,longevity1 states1 as one result of his extensive investigations1 that he has never yet heard or read of a single case of great longevity1 where the individual was not an early riser4 ,he says1 that he has found cases1 in which the individual has violated some one of all the other laws of health1 and yet lived to great age2 but never a single instance1 in which any constitution has withstood that undermining1 consequent on protracting the hours of repose beyond the demands of the system4 ,another reason for early rising1 is1 that it is indispensable to a systematic and well-regulated family4 ,at whatever hour the parents retire1 children and domestics1 wearied by play or labor1 must retire early4 ,children usually awake with the dawn of light1 and commence their play1 while domestics usually prefer the freshness of morning for their labors4 ,if1 then1 the parents rise at a late hour1 they either induce a habit of protracting sleep in their children and domestics1 or else the family is up1 and at their pursuits1 while their supervisors are in bed4 ,any woman1 who asserts that her children and domestics1 in the first hours of day1 when their spirits are freshest1 will be as well regulated without her presence1 as with it1 confesses that1 which surely is little for her credit4 ,it is believed1 that any candid woman1 whatever may be her excuse for late rising1 will concede1 that1 if she could rise early1 it would be for the advantage of her family4 ,a late breakfast puts back the work1 through the whole day1 for every member of a family2 and1 if the parents thus occasion the loss of an hour or two1 to each individual1 who1 but for their delay in the morning1 would be usefully employed1 they1 alone1 are responsible for all this waste of time4 ,is it said1 that those1 who wish to rise early1 can go to their employments before breakfast8 it may be replied1 that1 in most cases1 it is not safe to use the eyes or the muscles in the morning1 till the losses of the night have been repaired by food4 ,in addition to this1 it may be urged1 that1 where the parents set an example of the violation of the rules of health and industry1 their influence tends in the wrong direction2 so that whatever waste of time is induced1 by a practice which they thus uphold1 must be set down to their account4 ,but the practice of early rising has a relation to the general interests of the social community1 as well as to that of each distinct family4 ,all that great portion of the community1 who are employed in business and labor1 find it needful to rise early2 and all their hours of meals1 and their appointments for business or pleasure1 must be accommodated to these arrangements4 ,now1 if a small portion of the community establish very different hours1 it makes a kind of jostling1 in all the concerns and interests of society4 ,the various appointments for the public1 such as meetings1 schools1 and business hours1 must be accommodated to the mass1 and not to individuals4 ,the few1 then1 who establish domestic habits at variance with the majority1 are either constantly interrupted in their own arrangements1 or else are interfering with the rights and interests of others4 ,this is exemplified in the case of schools4 ,in families where late rising is practised1 either hurry1 irregularity1 and neglect1 are engendered in the family1 or else the interests of the school1 and thus of the community1 are sacrificed4 ,in this1 and many other concerns1 it can be shown1 that the wellbeing of the bulk of the people1 is1 to a greater or less extent1 impaired by this aristocratic practice4 ,let any teacher select the unpunctual scholars1--a class who most seriously interfere with the interests of the school2--and let men of business select those who cause them most waste of time and vexation1 by unpunctuality2 and it will be found1 that they are among the late risers1 and rarely among those who rise early4 ,thus1 it is manifest1 that late rising not only injures the person and family which practise it1 but interferes with the rights and convenience of the community4 ,,footnote3 ,h ,shooting into a long1 small1 stalk or root4 ,,chapter ,,xi4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,exercise4 ,in the preceding chapters1 we have noticed the various causes1 which1 one or all1 operate to produce that melancholy delicacy and decay of the female constitution1 which are the occasion of so much physical and mental suffering throughout this ,country4 ,these1 in a more condensed form1 may be enumerated thus3 ,a want of exercise1 inducing softness in the bones1 weakness in the muscles1 inactivity in the digestive organs1 and general debility in the nervous system3 ,a neglect of the care of the skin1 whereby the blood has not been properly purified1 and the internal organs have been weakened3 ,a violation of the laws of health1 in regard to food1 by eating too much1 too fast1 and too often2 by using stimulating food and drinks2 by using them too warm or too cold2 and by eating that which the power of the stomach is not sufficient to digest3 ,a neglect of the laws of health1 in regard to clothing1 by dressing too tight1 and by wearing too little covering1 in cold and damp weather1 and especially by not sufficiently protecting the feet3 ,a neglect to gain a proper supply of pure air1 in sleeping apartments and schoolrooms1 and too great a confinement to the house3 ,the pursuit of exciting amusements at unseasonable hours1 and the many exposures involved at such times3 ,and lastly1 sleeping by day1 instead of by night1 and protracting the hours of sleep1 beyond the period of repose demanded for rest2 thus exhausting1 instead of recruiting1 the energies of the system4 ,but all the other causes1 combined1 probably1 do not produce one half the evils1 which result from a want of proper exercise4 ,a person who keeps all the functions of the system in full play1 by the active and frequent use of every muscle1 especially if it be in the open air1 gains a power of constitution1 which can resist many evils that would follow from the other neglects and risks detailed4 ,this being the case1 there can be no subject1 more important for mothers and young ladies to understand1 than the influence on the health1 both of body and mind1 of the neglect or abuse of the muscular system4 ,it has been shown1 in the previous pages1 that all the muscles have nerves and blood-vessels1 running in larger trunks1 or minute branches1 to every portion of the body4 ,the experiments of ,sir ,charles ,bell and others1 have developed the curious fact1 that each apparently single nerve1 in reality consists of two distinct portions1 running together in the same covering4 ,one portion1 is the nerve of sensation or feeling1 the other1 the nerve of motion4 ,the nerves of sensation are those which are affected by the emotions and volitions of the mind2 and the nerves of motion are those which impart moving power to the muscles4 ,experiments show1 that1 where the nerves issue from the spine1 the nerve of sensation may be cut off without severing the nerve of motion1 and then the parts1 to which this nerve extends1 lose the power of feeling1 while the power of motion continues2 and so1 on the other hand1 the nerve of motion may be divided1 and1 the nerve of sensation remaining uninjured1 the power of feeling is retained1 and the power of motion is lost4 ,in certain nervous diseases1 sometimes a limb loses its power of feeling1 and yet retains the power of motion2 in other cases1 the power of motion is lost1 and the power of sensation is retained2 and in other cases1 still1 when a limb is paralysed1 both the power of motion and of sensation are lost4 ,now1 the nerves1 like all other parts of the body1 gain and lose strength1 according as they are exercised4 ,if they have too much1 or too little1 exercise1 they lose strength2 if they are exercised to a proper degree1 they gain strength4 ,when the mind is continuously excited1 by business1 study1 or the imagination1 the nerves of feeling are kept in constant action1 while the nerves of motion are unemployed4 ,if this is continued1 for a long time1 the nerves of sensation lose their strength1 from over action1 and the nerves of motion lose their power1 from inactivity4 ,in consequence1 there is a morbid excitability of the nervous1 and a debility of the muscular1 system1 which make all exertion irksome and wearisome4 ,the only mode of preserving the health of these systems1 is1 to keep up in them an equilibrium of action4 ,for this purpose1 occupations must be sought1 which exercise the muscles1 and interest the mind2 and thus the equal action of both kinds of nerves is secured4 ,this shows why exercise is so much more healthful and invigorating1 when the mind is interested1 than when it is not4 ,as an illustration1 let a person go a shopping1 with a friend1 and have nothing to do1 but look on2 how soon do the continuous walking and standing weary6 ,but suppose one1 thus wearied1 hears of the arrival of a very dear friend3 she can instantly walk off a mile or two1 to meet her1 without the least feeling of fatigue4 ,by this is shown the importance of furnishing1 for young persons1 exercise in which they will take an interest4 ,long and formal walks1 merely for exercise1 though they do some good1 in securing fresh air and some exercise of the muscles1 would be of triple benefit1 if changed to amusing sports1 or to the cultivation of fruits and flowers1 in which it is impossible to engage1 without acquiring a great interest4 ,it shows1 also1 why it is far better to trust to useful domestic exercise1 at home1 than to send a young person out to walk1 for the mere purpose of exercise4 ,young girls can seldom be made to realize the value of health1 and the need of exercise to secure it1 so as to feel much interest in walking abroad1 when they have no other object4 ,but1 if they are brought up to minister to the comfort and enjoyment of themselves and others1 by performing domestic duties1 they will constantly be interested and cheered in their exercise1 by the feeling of usefulness1 and the consciousness of having performed their duty4 ,there are few young persons1 it is hoped1 who are brought up with such miserable habits of selfishness and indolence1 that they cannot be made to feel happier1 by the consciousness of being usefully employed4 ,and those who have never been accustomed to think or care for any one but themselves1 and who seem to feel little pleasure in making themselves useful1 by wise and proper influences1 can often be gradually awakened to the new pleasure of benevolent exertion to promote the comfort and enjoyment of others4 ,and the more this sacred and elevating kind of enjoyment is tasted1 the greater is the relish induced4 ,other enjoyments1 often cloy2 but the heavenly pleasure1 secured by virtuous industry and benevolence1 while it satisfies1 at the time1 awakens fresh desires for so ennobling a good4 ,but1 besides the favorable influence on the nervous and muscular system1 thus gained1 it has been shown1 that exercise imparts fresh strength and vitality to all parts of the body4 ,the exertion of the muscles quickens the flow of the blood1 which thus ministers its supplies faster to every part of the body1 and1 of course1 loses a portion of its nourishing qualities4 ,when this is the case1 the stomach issues its mandate of hunger1 calling for new supplies4 ,when these are furnished1 the action of the muscles again hastens a full supply to every organ1 and thus the nerves1 the muscles1 the bones1 the skin1 and all the internal organs1 are invigorated1 and the whole body developes its powers1 in fair proportions1 fresh strength and full beauty4 ,all the cosmetics of trade1 all the labors of mantuamakers1 milliners1 makers of corsets1 shoemakers1 and hairdressers1 could never confer so clear and pure a skin1 so fresh a color1 so finely moulded a form1 and such cheerful health and spirits1 as would be secured by training a child to obey the laws of the benevolent ,creator1 in the appropriate employment of body and mind in useful domestic exercise4 ,and the present habits of the wealthy1 and even of those without wealth1 which condemn young girls so exclusively to books or sedentary pursuits1 are as destructive to beauty and grace1 as they are to health and happiness4 ,every allowance should be made for the mistakes of mothers and teachers1 to whom the knowledge which would have saved them from the evils of such a course has never been furnished2 but as information1 on these matters1 is every year becoming more abundant1 it is to be hoped1 that the next generation1 at least1 may be saved from the evils which afflict those now on the stage4 ,what a change would be made in the happiness of this ,country1 if all the pale and delicate young girls should become blooming1 healthful1 and active1 and all the enfeebled and care-worn mothers should be transformed into such fresh1 active1 healthful1 and energetic matrons1 as are so frequently found in our mother land6 ,it has been stated1 that the excessive use of the muscles1 as much as their inactivity1 tends to weaken them4 ,nothing is more painful1 than the keeping a muscle constantly on the stretch1 without any relaxation or change4 ,this can be realized1 by holding out an arm1 perpendicularly to the body1 for ten or fifteen minutes1 if any one can so long bear the pain4 ,of course1 confinement to one position1 for a great length of time1 tends to weaken the muscles thus strained4 ,this shows the evil of confining young children to their seats1 in the schoolroom1 so much and so long as is often done4 ,having no backs to their seats1 as is generally the case1 the muscles1 which are employed in holding up the body1 are kept in a state of constant tension1 till they grow feeble from overworking4 ,then1 the child begins to grow crooked1 and the parents1 to remedy the evil1 sometimes put on bracers or corsets4 ,these1 instead of doing any good1 serve to prevent the use of those muscles1 which1 if properly exercised1 would hold the body straight2 and thus they grow still weaker1 from entire inactivity4 ,if a parent perceives that a child is growing crooked1 the proper remedy is1 to withdraw it from all pursuits which tax one particular set of muscles1 and turn it out to exercise in sports1 or in gardening1 in the fresh air1 when all the muscles will be used1 and the whole system strengthened4 ,or1 if this cannot be done1 sweeping1 dusting1 running of errands1 and many household employments1 which involve lifting1 stooping1 bending1 and walking1 are quite as good1 and1 on some accounts1 better1 provided the house is properly supplied with fresh air4 ,where persons have formed habits of inactivity1 some caution is necessary1 in attempting a change2 this must be made gradually2 and the muscles must never be excessively fatigued at any time4 ,if this change be not thus gradually made1 the weakness1 at first caused by inactivity1 will be increased by excessive exertion4 ,a distinguished medical gentleman gives this rule1 to direct us in regard to the amount of fatigue1 which is safe and useful4 ,a person is never too much fatigued1 if one night of repose gives sufficient rest1 and restores the usual strength4 ,but1 if the sleep is disturbed1 and the person wakes with a feeling of weariness and languor1 it is a sure indication that the exercise has been excessive4 ,no more fatigue1 then1 should be allowed1 than one night's rest will remedy4 ,some persons object to sweeping1 on account of the dust inhaled4 ,but free ventilation1 frequent sweeping1 and the use of damp sand1 or damp ,indian meal1 or damp tea leaves1 for carpets1 will secure a more clear atmosphere than is often found in the streets of cities4 ,and the mother1 who will hire domestics1 to take away this and other domestic employments1 which would secure to her daughters1 health1 grace1 beauty1 and domestic virtues1 and the young ladies1 who consent to be deprived of these advantages1 will probably live to mourn over the languor1 discouragement1 pain1 and sorrow1 which will come with ill health1 as the almost inevitable result4 ,the following are extracts from ',the ,young ,ladies' ,friend1' on this subject3-- ,whether rich or poor1 young or old1 married or single1 a woman is always liable to be called to the performance of every kind of domestic duty1 as well as to be placed at the head of a family2 and nothing1 short of a practical knowledge of the details of housekeeping1 can ever make those duties easy1 or render her competent to direct others in the performance of them4 ,all moral writers on female character1 treat of ,domestic ,economy as an indispensable part of female education2 and this1 too1 in the old countries of ,europe1 where an abundant population1 and the institutions of society1 render it easy to secure the services of faithful domestics4 ,all female characters that are held up to admiration1 whether in fiction or biography1 will be found to possess these domestic accomplishments2 and1 if they are considered indispensable in the ,old ,world1 how much more are they needed1 in this land of independence1 where riches cannot exempt the mistress of a family from the difficulty of procuring efficient aid1 and where perpetual change of domestics1 renders perpetual instruction and superintendence necessary4 ,since1 then1 the details of good housekeeping must be included in a good female education1 it is very desirable that they should be acquired when young1 and so practised as to become easy1 and to be performed dexterously and expeditiously4 ,the elegant and accomplished ,lady ,mary ,wortley ,montagu1 who figured in the fashionable1 as well as the literary1 circles of her time1 has said1 that 'the most minute details of household economy become elegant and refined1 when they are ennobled by sentiment2' and they are truly ennobled1 when we do them either from a sense of duty1 or consideration for a parent1 or love to a husband4 ',to furnish a room1' continues this lady1 'is no longer a commonplace affair1 shared with upholsterers and cabinet-makers2 it is decorating the place where ,i am to meet a friend or lover4 ,to order dinner is not merely arranging a meal with my cook2 it is preparing refreshment for him whom ,i love4 ,these necessary occupations1 viewed in this light1 by a person capable of strong attachment1 are so many pleasures1 and afford her far more delight1 than the games and shows which constitute the amusements of the world4' ,such is the testimony of a titled lady of the last century1 to the sentiment that may be made to mingle in the most homely occupations4 ,i will now quote that of a modern female writer and traveller1 who1 in her pleasant book1 called ',six ,weeks on the ,loire1' has thus described the housewifery of the daughter of a ,french nobleman1 residing in a superb chateau on that river4 ,the travellers had just arrived1 and been introduced1 when the following scene took place4 ',the bill of fare for dinner was discussed in my presence1 and settled1 sans faon1,i with that delightful frankness and gayety1 which1 in the ,french character1 gives a charm to the most trifling occurrence4 ,mademoiselle ,louise then begged me to excuse her for half an hour1 as she was going to make some creams1 and some pastilles4,j ,i requested that ,i might accompany her1 and also render myself useful2 we accordingly went together to the dairy4 ,i made tarts l',anglaise1,k whilst she made confections and bonbons1,l and all manner of pretty things1 with as much ease as if she had never done any thing else1 and as much grace as she displayed in the saloon4 ,i could not help thinking1 as ,i looked at her1 with her servants about her1 all cheerful1 respectful1 and anxious to attend upon her1 how much better it would be for the young ladies in ,england1 if they would occasionally return to the habits of their grandmammas1 and mingle the animated and endearing occupations of domestic life1 and the modest manners and social amusements of home1 with the perpetual practising on harps and pianos1 and the incessant efforts at display1 and search after gayety1 which1 at the present day1 render them any thing but what an amiable man1 of a reflecting mind and delicate sentiments1 would desire in the woman he might wish to select as the companion of his life4' ,,footnotes3 ,i ,without formality1 or useless ceremony4 ,j ,rolls of paste1 or pastry1 or sugarplums4 ,k ,according to the ,english fashion4 ,l ,nice things or dainties1 such as sweetmeats4 ,,chapter ,,xii4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,manners4 ,good-manners are the expressions of benevolence in personal intercourse1 by which we endeavor to promote the comfort and enjoyment of others1 and to avoid all that gives needless uneasiness4 ,it is the exterior exhibition of the ,divine precept1 which requires us to do to others1 as we would that they should do to us4 ,it is saying1 by our deportment1 to all around1 that we consider their feelings1 tastes1 and convenience1 as equal in value to our own4 ,good-manners lead us to avoid all practices which offend the taste of others2 all violations of the conventional rules of propriety2 all rude and disrespectful language and deportment2 and all remarks1 which would tend to wound the feelings of another4 ,there is a serious defect1 in the manners of the ,american people1 especially in the free ,states1 which can never be efficiently remedied1 except in the domestic circle1 and during early life4 ,it is a deficiency in the free expression of kindly feelings and sympathetic emotions1 and a want of courtesy in deportment4 ,the causes1 which have led to this result1 may easily be traced4 ,the forefathers of this ,nation1 to a wide extent1 were men who were driven from their native land1 by laws and customs which they believed to be opposed both to civil and religious freedom4 ,the sufferings they were called to endure1 the subduing of those gentler feelings which bind us to country1 kindred1 and home1 and the constant subordination of the passions to stern principle1 induced characters of great firmness and self-control4 ,they gave up the comforts and refinements of a civilized country1 and came1 as pilgrims1 to a hard soil1 a cold clime1 and a heathen shore4 ,they were continually forced to encounter danger1 privations1 sickness1 loneliness1 and death2 and all these1 their religion taught them to meet with calmness1 fortitude1 and submission4 ,and thus it became the custom and habit of the whole mass1 to repress1 rather than to encourage1 the expression of feeling4 ,persons who are called to constant and protracted suffering and privation1 are forced to subdue and conceal emotion2 for the free expression of it would double their own suffering1 and increase the sufferings of others4 ,those1 only1 who are free from care and anxiety1 and whose minds are mainly occupied by cheerful emotions1 are at full liberty to unveil their feelings4 ,it was under such stern and rigorous discipline1 that the first children in ,new ,england were reared2 and the manners and habits of parents are usually1 to a great extent1 transmitted to children4 ,thus it comes to pass1 that the descendants of the ,puritans1 now scattered over every part of the ,nation1 are predisposed to conceal the gentler emotions1 while their manners are calm1 decided1 and cold1 rather than free and impulsive4 ,of course1 there are very many exceptions to these predominating results4 ,the causes1 to which we may attribute a general want of courtesy in manners1 are certain incidental results of our democratic institutions4 ,our ancestors1 and their descendants1 have constantly been combating the aristocratic principle1 which would exalt one class of men at the expense of another4 ,they have had to contend with this principle1 not only in civil1 but in social1 life4 ,almost every ,american1 in his own person1 as well as in behalf of his class1 has had to assume and defend the main principle of democracy1--that every man's feelings and interests are equal in value to those of every other man4 ,but1 in doing this1 there has been some want of clear discrimination4 ,because claims1 based on distinctions of mere birth1 fortune1 or position1 were found to be injurious1 many have gone to the extreme of inferring that all distinctions1 involving subordination1 are useless4 ,such1 would regard children as equals to parents1 pupils to teachers1 domestics to their employers1 and subjects to magistrates2 and that1 too1 in all respects4 ,the fact1 that certain grades of superiority and subordination are needful1 both for individual and public benefit1 has not been clearly discerned2 and there has been a gradual tendency to an extreme1 which has sensibly affected our manners4 ,all the proprieties and courtesies1 which depend on the recognition of the relative duties of superior and subordinate1 have been warred upon2 and thus we see1 to an increasing extent1 disrespectful treatment of parents1 from children2 of teachers1 from pupils2 of employers1 from domestics2 and of the aged1 from the young4 ,in all classes and circles1 there is a gradual decay in courtesy of address4 ,in cases1 too1 where kindness is rendered1 it is often accompanied with a cold1 unsympathizing manner1 which greatly lessens its value1 while kindness or politeness is received in a similar style of coolness1 as if it were but the payment of a just due4 ,it is owing to these causes1 that the ,american people1 especially the inhabitants of ,new ,england1 do not do themselves justice4 ,for1 while those1 who are near enough to learn their real character and feelings1 can discern the most generous impulses1 and the most kindly sympathies1 they are so veiled1 in a composed and indifferent demeanor1 as to be almost entirely concealed from strangers4 ,these defects in our national manners1 it especially falls to the care of mothers1 and all who have charge of the young1 to rectify2 and if they seriously undertake the matter1 and wisely adapt means to ends1 these defects will be remedied4 ,with reference to this object1 the following ideas are suggested4 ,the law of ,christianity and of democracy1 which teaches that all men are born equal1 and that their interests and feelings should be regarded as of equal value1 seems to be adopted in aristocratic circles1 with exclusive reference to the class in which the individual moves4 ,the courtly gentleman1 addresses all of his own class with politeness and respect2 and1 in all his actions1 seems to allow that the feelings and convenience of others are to be regarded1 the same as his own4 ,but his demeanor to those of inferior station1 is not based on the same rule4 ,among those1 who make up aristocratic circles1 such as are above them1 are deemed of superior1 and such as are below1 of inferior1 value4 ,thus1 if a young1 ignorant1 and vicious coxcomb1 happens to be born a lord1 the aged1 the virtuous1 the learned1 and the wellbred1 of another class1 must give his convenience the precedence1 and must address him in terms of respect4 ,so1 when a man of noble birth is thrown among the lower classes1 he demeans himself in a style1 which1 to persons of his own class1 would be deemed the height of assumption and rudeness4 ,now1 the principles of democracy require1 that the same courtesy1 which we accord to our own circle1 shall be extended to every class and condition2 and that distinctions1 of superiority and subordination1 shall depend1 not on accidents of birth1 fortune1 or occupation1 but solely on those relations1 which the good of all classes equally require4 ,the distinctions demanded1 in a democratic state1 are simply those1 which result from relations1 that are common to every class1 and are for the benefit of all4 ,it is for the benefit of every class1 that children be subordinate to parents1 pupils to teachers1 the employed to their employers1 and subjects to magistrates4 ,in addition to this1 it is for the general wellbeing1 that the comfort or convenience of the delicate and feeble1 should be preferred to that of the strong and healthy1 who would suffer less by any deprivation1 and that precedence should be given to their elders1 by the young1 and that reverence should be given to the hoary head4 ,the rules of good-breeding1 in a democratic state1 must be founded on these principles4 ,it is1 indeed1 assumed1 that the value of the happiness of each individual1 is the same as that of every other2 but1 as there must be occasions1 where there are advantages which all cannot enjoy1 there must be general rules for regulating a selection4 ,otherwise1 there would be constant scrambling1 among those of equal claims1 and brute force must be the final resort2 in which case the strongest would have the best of every thing4 ,the democratic rule1 then1 is1 that superiors1 in age1 station1 or office1 have precedence of subordinates2 age and feebleness1 of youth and strength2 and the feebler sex1 of more vigorous man4,m ,there is1 also1 a style of deportment and address1 which is appropriate to these different relations4 ,it is suitable for a superior to secure compliance with his wishes1 from those subordinate to him1 by commands2 but a subordinate must secure compliance with his wishes1 from a superior1 by requests4 ,it is suitable for a parent1 teacher1 or employer1 to admonish for neglect of duty2 but not for an inferior to adopt such a course towards a superior4 ,it is suitable for a superior to take precedence of a subordinate1 without any remark2 but not for an inferior1 without previously asking leave1 or offering an apology4 ,it is proper for a superior to use language and manners of freedom and familiarity1 which would be improper from a subordinate to a superior4 ,the want of due regard to these proprieties1 occasions the chief defect in ,american manners4 ,it is very common to hear children talk to their parents1 in a style proper only between companions and equals2 so1 also1 the young address their elders1 those employed1 their employers1 and domestics1 the members of the family and their visiters1 in a style1 which is inappropriate to their relative positions4 ,a respectful address is required not merely towards superiors2 every person desires to be treated with courtesy and respect1 and therefore1 the law of benevolence demands such demeanor1 towards all whom we meet in the social intercourse of life4 ,be ye courteous1 is the direction of the ,apostle in reference to our treatment of all4 ,good-manners can be successfully cultivated1 only in early life1 and in the domestic circle4 ,there is nothing which depends so much upon habit1 as the constantly recurring proprieties of good-breeding2 and1 if a child grows up without forming such habits1 it is very rarely the case that they can be formed at a later period4 ,the feeling1 that it is of little consequence how we behave at home1 if we conduct properly abroad1 is a very fallacious one4 ,persons1 who are careless and ill bred at home1 may imagine that they can assume good-manners abroad2 but they mistake4 ,fixed habits of tone1 manner1 language1 and movements1 cannot be suddenly altered2 and those who are illbred at home1 even when they try to hide their bad habits1 are sure to violate many of the obvious rules of propriety1 and yet be unconscious of it4 ,and there is nothing1 which would so effectually remove prejudice against our democratic institutions1 as the general cultivation of good-breeding in the domestic circle4 ,good-manners are the exterior of benevolence1 the minute and often recurring exhibitions of peace and good-will2 and the nation1 as well as the individual1 which most excels in the external1 as well as the internal1 principle1 will be most respected and beloved4 ,the following are the leading points1 which claim attention from those who have the care of the young4 ,in the first place1 in the family1 there should be required1 a strict attention to the rules of precedence1 and those modes of address appropriate to the various relations to be sustained4 ,children should always be required to offer their superiors1 in age or station1 the precedence in all comforts and conveniences1 and always address them in a respectful tone and manner4 ,the custom of adding ,sir1 or ,ma'am1 to ,yes1 or ,no1 is valuable1 as a perpetual indication of a respectful recognition of superiority4 ,it is now going out of fashion1 even among the most wellbred people2 probably from a want of consideration of its importance4 ,every remnant of courtesy of address1 in our customs1 should be carefully cherished1 by all who feel a value for the proprieties of good-breeding4 ,if parents allow their children to talk to them1 and to the grown persons in the family1 in the same style in which they address each other1 it will be vain to hope for the courtesy of manner and tone1 which good-breeding demands in the general intercourse of society4 ,in a large family1 where the elder children are grown up1 and the younger are small1 it is important to require the latter to treat the elder as superiors4 ,there are none1 so ready as young children to assume airs of equality2 and1 if they are allowed to treat one class of superiors in age and character disrespectfully1 they will soon use the privilege universally4 ,this is the reason1 why the youngest children of a family are most apt to be pert1 forward1 and unmannerly4 ,another point to be aimed at1 is1 to require children always to acknowledge every act of kindness and attention1 either by words or manner4 ,if they are so trained as always to make grateful acknowledgements1 when receiving favors1 one of the objectionable features in ,american manners will be avoided4 ,again1 children should be required to ask leave1 whenever they wish to gratify curiosity1 or use an article which belongs to another4 ,and if cases occur1 when they cannot comply with the rules of good-breeding1 as1 for instance1 when they must step between a person and the fire1 or take the chair of an older person1 they should be required either to ask leave1 or to offer an apology4 ,there is another point of good-breeding1 which cannot1 in all cases1 be understood and applied by children1 in its widest extent4 ,it is that1 which requires us to avoid all remarks which tend to embarrass1 vex1 mortify1 or in any way wound the feelings1 of another4 ,to notice personal defects2 to allude to others' faults1 or the faults of their friends2 to speak disparagingly of the sect or party to which a person belongs2 to be inattentive1 when addressed in conversation2 to contradict flatly2 to speak in contemptuous tones of opinions expressed by another2--all these1 are violations of the rules of good-breeding1 which children should be taught to regard4 ,under this head1 comes the practice of whispering1 and staring about1 when a teacher1 or lecturer1 or clergyman1 is addressing a class or audience4 ,such inattention1 is practically saying1 that what the person is uttering is not worth attending to2 and persons of real good-breeding always avoid it4 ,loud talking and laughing1 in a large assembly1 even when no exercises are going on2 yawning and gaping in company2 and not looking in the face a person who is addressing you1 are deemed marks of ill-breeding4 ,another branch of good-manners1 relates to the duties of hospitality4 ,politeness requires us to welcome visiters with cordiality2 to offer them the best accommodations2 to address conversation to them2 and to express1 by tone and manner1 kindness and respect4 ,offering the hand to all visiters1 at one's own house1 is a courteous and hospitable custom2 and a cordial shake of the hand1 when friends meet1 would abate much of the coldness of manner ascribed to ,americans4 ,the last point of good-breeding1 to be noticed1 refers to the conventional rules of propriety and good taste4 ,of these1 the first class relates to the avoidance of all disgusting or offensive personal habits1 such as fingering the hair2 cleaning the teeth or nails2 picking the nose2 spitting on carpets2 snuffing1 instead of using a handkerchief1 or using the article in an offensive manner2 lifting up the boots or shoes1 as some men do1 to tend them on the knee1 or to finger them2--all these tricks1 either at home or in society1 children should be taught to avoid4 ,another branch1 under this head1 may be called table manners4 ,to persons of good-breeding1 nothing is more annoying1 than violating the conventional proprieties of the table4 ,reaching over another person's plate2 standing up1 to reach distant articles1 instead of asking to have them passed2 using one's own knife1 and spoon1 for butter1 salt1 or sugar1 when it is the custom of the family to provide separate utensils for the purpose2 setting cups1 with tea dripping from them1 on the tablecloth1 instead of the mats or small plates furnished2 using the tablecloth1 instead of the napkins2 eating fast1 and in a noisy manner2 putting large pieces in the mouth2 looking and eating as if very hungry1 or as if anxious to get at certain dishes2 sitting at too great a distance from the table1 and dropping food2 laying the knife and fork on the tablecloth1 instead of on the bread1 or the edge of the plate2--all these particulars1 children should be taught to avoid4 ,it is always desirable1 too1 to require children1 when at table with grown persons1 to be silent1 except when addressed by others2 or else their chattering will interrupt the conversation and comfort of their elders4 ,they should always be required1 too1 to wait1 in silence1 till all the older persons are helped4 ,all these things should be taught to children1 gradually1 and with great patience and gentleness4 ,some parents1 with whom good-manners is a great object1 are in danger of making their children perpetually uncomfortable1 by suddenly surrounding them with so many rules1 that they must inevitably violate some one or other1 a great part of the time4 ,it is much better to begin with a few rules1 and be steady and persevering with these1 till a habit is formed1 and then take a few more1 thus making the process easy and gradual4 ,otherwise1 the temper of children will be injured2 or1 hopeless of fulfilling so many requisitions1 they will become reckless and indifferent to all4 ,but1 in reference to those who have enjoyed advantages for the cultivation of good-manners1 and who duly estimate its importance1 one caution is necessary4 ,those1 who never have had such habits formed in youth1 are under disadvantages1 which no benevolence of temper can remedy4 ,they may often violate the tastes and feelings of others1 not from a want of proper regard for them1 but from ignorance of custom1 or want of habit1 or abstraction of mind1 or from other causes1 which demand forbearance and sympathy1 rather than displeasure4 ,an ability to bear patiently with defects in manners1 and to make candid and considerate allowance for a want of advantages1 or for peculiarities in mental habits1 is one mark of the benevolence of real good-breeding4 ,the advocates of monarchical and aristocratic institutions1 have always had great plausibility given to their views1 by the seeming tendencies to insubordination and bad-manners1 of our institutions4 ,and it has been too indiscriminately conceded1 by the defenders of the latter1 that such are these tendencies1 and that the offensive points1 in ,american manners1 are the necessary result of democratic principles4 ,but it is believed1 that both facts and reasoning are in opposition to this opinion4 ,the following extract from the work of ,de ,tocqueville1 exhibits the opinion of an impartial observer1 when comparing ,american manners with those of the ,english1 who are confessedly the most aristocratic of all people4 ,he previously remarks on the tendency of aristocracy to make men more sympathizing with persons of their own peculiar class1 and less so towards those of lower degree2 and he then contrasts ,american manners with the ,english1 claiming that the ,americans are much the most affable1 mild1 and social4 ,in ,america1 where the privileges of birth never existed1 and where riches confer no peculiar rights on their possessors1 men acquainted with each other are very ready to frequent the same places1 and find neither peril nor advantage in the free interchange of their thoughts4 ,if they meet1 by accident1 they neither seek nor avoid intercourse2 their manner is therefore natural1 frank1 and open4 ,if their demeanor is often cold and serious1 it is never haughty or constrained4 ,but an aristocratic pride is still extremely great among the ,english2 and1 as the limits of aristocracy are ill-defined1 every body lives in constant dread1 lest advantage should be taken of his familiarity4 ,unable to judge1 at once1 of the social position of those he meets1 an ,englishman prudently avoids all contact with them4 ,men are afraid1 lest some slight service rendered should draw them into an unsuitable acquaintance2 they dread civilities1 and they avoid the obtrusive gratitude of a stranger1 as much as his hatred4 ,thus1 facts seem to show that when the most aristocratic nation in the world is compared1 as to manners1 with the most democratic1 the judgement of strangers is in favor of the latter4 ,and if good-manners are the outward exhibition of the democratic principle of impartial benevolence and equal rights1 surely the nation which adopts this rule1 both in social and civil life1 is the most likely to secure the desirable exterior4 ,the aristocrat1 by his principles1 extends the exterior of impartial benevolence to his own class1 only2 the democratic principle1 requires it to be extended to all4 ,there is reason1 therefore1 to hope and expect more refined and polished manners in ,america1 than in any other land2 while all the developements of taste and refinement1 such as poetry1 music1 painting1 sculpture1 and architecture1 it may be expected1 will come to a higher state of perfection1 here1 than in any other nation4 ,if this ,country increases in virtue and intelligence1 as it may1 there is no end to the wealth which will pour in as the result of our resources of climate1 soil1 and navigation1 and the skill1 industry1 energy1 and enterprise1 of our countrymen4 ,this wealth1 if used as intelligence and virtue dictate1 will furnish the means for a superior education to all classes1 and every facility for the refinement of taste1 intellect1 and feeling4 ,moreover1 in this ,country1 labor is ceasing to be the badge of a lower class2 so that already it is disreputable for a man to be a lazy gentleman4 ,and this feeling must increase1 till there is such an equalisation of labor1 as will afford all the time needful for every class to improve the many advantages offered to them4 ,already1 in ,boston1 through the munificence of some of her citizens1 there are literary and scientific advantages1 offered to all classes1 rarely enjoyed elsewhere4 ,in ,cincinnati1 too1 the advantages of education1 now offered to the poorest classes1 without charge1 surpass what1 some years ago1 most wealthy men could purchase1 for any price4 ,and it is believed1 that a time will come1 when the poorest boy in ,america can secure advantages1 which will equal what the heir of the proudest peerage can now command4 ,the records of the courts of ,france and ,germany1 7as detailed by the ,duchess of ,orleans17 in and succeeding the brilliant reign of ,louis the ,fourteenth1--a period which was deemed the acme of elegance and refinement1--exhibit a grossness1 a vulgarity1 and a coarseness1 not to be found among the lowest of our respectable poor4 ,and the biography of ,beau ,nash1 who attempted to reform the manners of the gentry1 in the times of ,queen ,anne1 exhibits violations of the rules of decency among the aristocracy1 which the commonest yeoman of this ,land would feel disgraced in perpetrating4 ,this shows1 that our lowest classes1 at this period1 are more refined1 than were the highest in aristocratic lands1 a hundred years ago2 and another century may show the lowest classes1 in wealth1 in this ,country1 attaining as high a polish1 as adorns those who now are leaders of good-manners in the courts of kings4 ,,footnote3 ,m ,the universal practice of this ,nation1 in thus giving precedence to woman1 has been severely commented on by ,miss ,martineau and some others1 who would transfer all the business of the other sex to women1 and then have them treated like men4 ,may this evidence of our superior civilisation and ,christianity increase1 rather than diminish6 ,,chapter ,,xiii4 ,,on ,,the ,,preservation ,,of ,a ,,good ,,temper ,,in ,a ,,housekeeper4 ,there is nothing1 which has a more abiding influence on the happiness of a family1 than the preservation of equable and cheerful temper and tones in the housekeeper4 ,a woman1 who is habitually gentle1 sympathizing1 forbearing1 and cheerful1 carries an atmosphere about her1 which imparts a soothing and sustaining influence1 and renders it easier for all to do right1 under her administration1 than in any other situation4 ,the writer has known families1 where the mother's presence seemed the sunshine of the circle around her2 imparting a cheering and vivifying power1 scarcely realized1 till it was withdrawn4 ,every one1 without thinking of it1 or knowing why it was so1 experienced a peaceful and invigorating influence1 as soon as he entered the sphere illumined by her smile1 and sustained by her cheering kindness and sympathy4 ,on the contrary1 many a good housekeeper1 7good in every respect but this17 by wearing a countenance of anxiety and dissatisfaction1 and by indulging in the frequent use of sharp and reprehensive tones1 more than destroys all the comfort which otherwise would result from her system1 neatness1 and economy4 ,there is a secret1 social sympathy1 which every mind1 to a greater or less degree1 experiences with the feelings of those around1 as they are manifested by the countenance and voice4 ,a sorrowful1 a discontented1 or an angry1 countenance1 produces a silent1 sympathetic influence1 imparting a sombre shade to the mind1 while tones of anger or complaint still more effectually jar the spirits4 ,no person can maintain a quiet and cheerful frame of mind1 while tones of discontent and displeasure are sounding on the ear4 ,we may gradually accustom ourselves to the evil1 till it is partially diminished2 but it always is an evil1 which greatly interferes with the enjoyment of the family state4 ,there are sometimes cases1 where the entrance of the mistress of a family seems to awaken a slight apprehension1 in every mind around1 as if each felt in danger of a reproof1 for something either perpetrated or neglected4 ,a woman1 who should go around her house with a small stinging snapper1 which she habitually applied to those whom she met1 would be encountered with feelings very much like to those which are experienced by the inmates of a family1 where the mistress often uses her countenance and voice1 to inflict similar penalties for duties neglected4 ,yet1 there are many allowances to be made for housekeepers1 who sometimes imperceptibly and unconsciously fall into such habits4 ,a woman1 who attempts to carry out any plans of system1 order1 and economy1 and who has her feelings and habits conformed to certain rules1 is constantly liable to have her plans crossed1 and her taste violated1 by the inexperience or inattention of those about her4 ,and no housekeeper1 whatever may be her habits1 can escape the frequent recurrence of negligence or mistake1 which interferes with her plans4 ,it is probable1 that there is no class of persons1 in the world1 who have such incessant trials of temper1 and temptations to be fretful1 as ,american housekeepers4 ,for a housekeeper's business is not1 like that of the other sex1 limited to a particular department1 for which previous preparation is made4 ,it consists of ten thousand little disconnected items1 which can never be so systematically arranged1 that there is no daily jostling1 somewhere4 ,and in the best-regulated families1 it is not unfrequently the case1 that some act of forgetfulness or carelessness1 from some member1 will disarrange the business of the whole day1 so that every hour will bring renewed occasion for annoyance4 ,and the more strongly a woman realizes the value of time1 and the importance of system and order1 the more will she be tempted to irritability and complaint4 ,the following considerations1 may aid in preparing a woman to meet such daily crosses1 with even a cheerful temper and tones4 ,in the first place1 a woman1 who has charge of a large household1 should regard her duties as dignified1 important1 and difficult4 ,the mind is so made1 as to be elevated and cheered by a sense of far-reaching influence and usefulness4 ,a woman1 who feels that she is a cipher1 and that it makes little difference how she performs her duties1 has far less to sustain and invigorate her1 than one1 who truly estimates the importance of her station4 ,a man1 who feels that the destinies of a nation are turning on the judgement and skill with which he plans and executes1 has a pressure of motive1 and an elevation of feeling1 which are great safeguards from all that is low1 trivial1 and degrading4 ,so1 an ,american mother and housekeeper1 who looks at her position in the aspect presented in the previous pages1 and who rightly estimates the long train of influences which will pass down to thousands1 whose destinies1 from generation to generation1 will be modified by those decisions of her will1 which regulated the temper1 principles1 and habits1 of her family1 must be elevated above petty temptations1 which would otherwise assail her4 ,again1 a housekeeper should feel that she really has great difficulties to meet and overcome4 ,a person1 who wrongly thinks there is little danger1 can never maintain so faithful a guard1 as one who rightly estimates the temptations which beset her4 ,nor can one1 who thinks that they are trifling difficulties which she has to encounter1 and trivial temptations1 to which she must yield1 so much enjoy the just reward of conscious virtue and self-control1 as one who takes an opposite view of the subject4 ,a third method1 is1 for a woman deliberately to calculate on having her best-arranged plans interfered with1 very often2 and to be in such a state of preparation1 that the evil will not come unawares4 ,so complicated are the pursuits1 and so diverse the habits of the various members of a family1 that it is almost impossible for every one to avoid interfering with the plans and taste of a housekeeper1 in some one point or another4 ,it is1 therefore1 most wise1 for a woman to keep the loins of her mind ever girt1 to meet such collisions with a cheerful and quiet spirit4 ,another important rule1 is1 to form all plans and arrangements in consistency with the means at command1 and the character of those around4 ,a woman1 who has a heedless husband1 and young children1 and incompetent domestics1 ought not to make such plans1 as one may properly form1 who will not1 in so many directions1 meet embarrassment4 ,she must aim at just so much as she can probably secure1 and no more2 and thus she will usually escape much temptation1 and much of the irritation of disappointment4 ,the fifth1 and a very important1 consideration1 is1 that system1 economy1 and neatness1 are valuable1 only so far as they tend to promote the comfort and wellbeing of those affected4 ,some women seem to act under the impression1 that these advantages must be secured1 at all events1 even if the comfort of the family be the sacrifice4 ,true1 it is very important that children grow up in habits of system1 neatness1 and order2 and it is very desirable that the mother give them every incentive1 both by precept and example3 but it is still more important1 that they grow up with amiable tempers1 that they learn to meet the crosses of life with patience and cheerfulness2 and nothing has a greater influence to secure this1 than a mother's example4 ,whenever1 therefore1 a woman cannot accomplish her plans of neatness and order1 without injury to her own temper1 or to the temper of others1 she ought to modify and reduce them1 until she can4 ,the sixth method1 relates to the government of the tones of voice4 ,in many cases1 when a woman's domestic arrangements are suddenly and seriously crossed1 it is impossible not to feel some irritation4 ,but it is always possible to refrain from angry tones4 ,a woman can resolve1 that1 whatever happens1 she will not speak1 till she can do it in a calm and gentle manner4 ,perfect silence is a safe resort1 when such control cannot be attained1 as enables a person to speak calmly2 and this determination1 persevered in1 will eventually be crowned with success4 ,many persons seem to imagine1 that tones of anger are needful1 in order to secure prompt obedience4 ,but observation has convinced the writer that they are never necessary2 that in all cases1 reproof1 administered in calm tones1 would be better4 ,a case will be given in illustration4 ,a young girl had been repeatedly charged to avoid a certain arrangement in cooking4 ,on one day1 when company was invited to dine1 the direction was forgotten1 and the consequence was1 an accident1 which disarranged every thing1 seriously injured the principal dish1 and delayed dinner for an hour4 ,the mistress of the family entered the kitchen1 just as it occurred1 and1 at a glance1 saw the extent of the mischief4 ,for a moment1 her eyes flashed1 and her cheeks glowed2 but she held her peace4 ,after a minute or so1 she gave directions1 in a calm voice1 as to the best mode of retrieving the evil1 and then left1 without a word said to the offender4 ,after the company left1 she sent for the girl1 alone1 and in a calm and kind manner pointed out the aggravations of the case1 and described the trouble which had been caused to her husband1 her visiters1 and herself4 ,she then portrayed the future evils which would result from such habits of neglect and inattention1 and the modes of attempting to overcome them2 and then offered a reward for the future1 if1 in a given time1 she succeeded in improving in this respect4 ,not a tone of anger was uttered2 and yet the severest scolding of a practised ,xantippe could not have secured such contrition1 and determination to reform1 as was gained by this method4 ,but similar negligence is often visited by a continuous stream of complaint and reproof1 which1 in most cases1 is met1 either by sullen silence1 or impertinent retort1 while anger prevents any contrition1 or any resolution of future amendment4 ,it is very certain1 that some ladies do carry forward a most efficient government1 both of children and domestics1 without employing tones of anger2 and therefore they are not indispensable1 nor on any account desirable4 ,though some ladies1 of intelligence and refinement1 do fall unconsciously into such a practice1 it is certainly very unlady-like1 and in very bad taste1 to scold2 and the further a woman departs from all approach to it1 the more perfectly she sustains her character as a lady4 ,another method of securing equanimity1 amid the trials of domestic life1 is1 to cultivate a habit of making allowances for the difficulties1 ignorance1 or temptations1 of those who violate rule or neglect duty4 ,it is vain1 and most unreasonable1 to expect the consideration and care of a mature mind1 in childhood and youth2 or that persons1 of such limited advantages as most domestics have enjoyed1 should practise proper self-control1 and possess proper habits and principles4 ,every parent1 and every employer1 needs daily to cultivate the spirit expressed in the ,divine prayer1 forgive us our trespasses1 as we forgive those who trespass against us4 ,the same allowances and forbearance1 which we supplicate from our ,heavenly ,father1 and desire from our fellow-men1 in reference to our own deficiencies1 we should constantly aim to extend to all1 who cross our feelings and interfere with our plans4 ,the last1 and most important1 mode of securing a placid and cheerful temper and tones1 is1 by a right view of the doctrine of a superintending ,providence4 ,all persons are too much in the habit of regarding the more important events of life1 as exclusively under the control of ,perfect ,wisdom4 ,but the fall of a sparrow1 or the loss of a hair1 they do not feel to be equally the result of ,his directing agency4 ,in consequence of this1 ,christian persons1 who aim at perfect and cheerful submission to heavy afflictions1 and who succeed1 to the edification of all about them1 are sometimes sadly deficient under petty crosses4 ,if a beloved child be laid in the grave1 even if its death resulted from the carelessness of a domestic1 or of a physician1 the eye is turned from the subordinate agent1 to the ,supreme ,guardian of all1 and to ,him they bow1 without murmur or complaint4 ,but if a pudding be burnt1 or a room badly swept1 or an errand forgotten1 then vexation and complaint are allowed1 just as if these events were not appointed by ,perfect ,wisdom1 as much as the sorer chastisement4 ,a woman1 therefore1 needs to cultivate the habitual feeling1 that all the events of her nursery and kitchen1 are brought about by the permission of our ,heavenly ,father1 and that fretfulness or complaint1 in regard to these1 is1 in fact1 complaining and disputing at the appointments of ,god1 and is really as sinful1 as unsubmissive murmurs amid the sorer chastisements of ,his hand4 ,and a woman1 who cultivates this habit of referring all the minor trials of life to the wise and benevolent agency of a ,heavenly ,parent1 and daily seeks ,his sympathy and aid1 to enable her to meet them with a quiet and cheerful spirit1 will soon find it the perennial spring of abiding peace and content4 ,,chapter ,,xiv4 ,,on ,,habits ,,of ,,system ,,and ,,order4 ,the discussion of the question of the equality of the sexes1 in intellectual capacity1 seems frivolous and useless1 both because it can never be decided1 and because there would be no possible advantage in the decision4 ,but one topic1 which is often drawn into this discussion1 is of far more consequence2 and that is1 the relative importance and difficulty of the duties a woman is called to perform4 ,it is generally assumed1 and almost as generally conceded1 that woman's business and cares are contracted and trivial2 and that the proper discharge of her duties1 demands far less expansion of mind and vigor of intellect1 than the pursuits of the other sex4 ,this idea has prevailed1 because women1 as a mass1 have never been educated with reference to their most important duties2 while that portion of their employments1 which is of least value1 has been regarded as the chief1 if not the sole1 concern of a woman4 ,the covering of the body1 the conveniences of residences1 and the gratification of the appetite1 have been too much regarded as the sole objects1 on which her intellectual powers are to be exercised4 ,but1 as society gradually shakes off the remnants of barbarism1 and the intellectual and moral interests of man rise1 in estimation1 above the merely sensual1 a truer estimate is formed of woman's duties1 and of the measure of intellect requisite for the proper discharge of them4 ,let any man1 of sense and discernment1 become the member of a large household1 in which1 a well-educated and pious woman is endeavoring systematically to discharge her multiform duties2 let him fully comprehend all her cares1 difficulties1 and perplexities2 and it is probable he would coincide in the opinion1 that no statesman1 at the head of a nation's affairs1 had more frequent calls for wisdom1 firmness1 tact1 discrimination1 prudence1 and versatility of talent1 than such a woman4 ,she has a husband1 to whose peculiar tastes and habits she must accommodate herself2 she has children1 whose health she must guard1 whose physical constitutions she must study and develope1 whose temper and habits she must regulate1 whose principles she must form1 whose pursuits she must direct4 ,she has constantly changing domestics1 with all varieties of temper and habits1 whom she must govern1 instruct1 and direct2 she is required to regulate the finances of the domestic state1 and constantly to adapt expenditures to the means and to the relative claims of each department4 ,she has the direction of the kitchen1 where ignorance1 forgetfulness1 and awkwardness1 are to be so regulated1 that the various operations shall each start at the right time1 and all be in completeness at the same given hour4 ,she has the claims of society to meet1 calls to receive and return1 and the duties of hospitality to sustain4 ,she has the poor to relieve2 benevolent societies to aid2 the schools of her children to inquire and decide about2 the care of the sick2 the nursing of infancy2 and the endless miscellany of odd items1 constantly recurring in a large family4 ,surely1 it is a pernicious and mistaken idea1 that the duties1 which tax a woman's mind1 are petty1 trivial1 or unworthy of the highest grade of intellect and moral worth4 ,instead of allowing this feeling1 every woman should imbibe1 from early youth1 the impression1 that she is training for the discharge of the most important1 the most difficult1 and the most sacred and interesting duties that can possibly employ the highest intellect4 ,she ought to feel1 that her station and responsibilities1 in the great drama of life1 are second to none1 either as viewed by her ,maker1 or in the estimation of all minds whose judgement is most worthy of respect4 ,she1 who is the mother and housekeeper in a large family1 is the sovereign of an empire1 demanding more varied cares1 and involving more difficult duties1 than are really exacted of her1 who1 while she wears the crown1 and professedly regulates the interests of the greatest nation on earth1 finds abundant leisure for theatres1 balls1 horseraces1 and every gay pursuit4 ,there is no one thing1 more necessary to a housekeeper1 in performing her varied duties1 than a habit of system and order2 and yet1 the peculiarly desultory nature of women's pursuits1 and the embarrassments resulting from the state of domestic service in this ,country1 render it very difficult to form such a habit4 ,but it is sometimes the case1 that women1 who could and would carry forward a systematic plan of domestic economy1 do not attempt it1 simply from a want of knowledge of the various modes of introducing it4 ,it is with reference to such1 that various modes of securing system and order1 which the writer has seen adopted1 will be pointed out4 ,a wise economy is nowhere more conspicuous1 than in the right apportionment of time to different pursuits4 ,there are duties of a religious1 intellectual1 social1 and domestic1 nature1 each having different relative claims on attention4 ,unless a person has some general plan of apportioning these claims1 some will intrench on others1 and some1 it is probable1 will be entirely excluded4 ,thus1 some find religious1 social1 and domestic1 duties1 so numerous1 that no time is given to intellectual improvement4 ,others1 find either social1 or benevolent1 or religious1 interests1 excluded by the extent and variety of other engagements4 ,it is wise1 therefore1 for all persons to devise a general plan1 which they will at least keep in view1 and aim to accomplish1 and by which1 a proper proportion of time shall be secured1 for all the duties of life4 ,in forming such a plan1 every woman must accommodate herself to the peculiarities of her situation4 ,if she has a large family1 and a small income1 she must devote far more time to the simple duty of providing food and raiment1 than would be right were she in affluence1 and with a small family4 ,it is impossible1 therefore1 to draw out any general plan1 which all can adopt4 ,but there are some general principles1 which ought to be the guiding rules1 when a woman arranges her domestic employments4 ,these principles are to be based on ,christianity1 which teaches us to seek first the kingdom of ,god1 and to deem food1 raiment1 and the conveniences of life1 as of secondary account4 ,every woman1 then1 ought to start with the assumption1 that religion is of more consequence than any worldly concern1 and that1 whatever else may be sacrificed1 this1 shall be the leading object1 in all her arrangements1 in respect to time1 money1 and attention4 ,it is also one of the plainest requisitions of ,christianity1 that we devote some of our time and efforts1 to the comfort and improvement of others4 ,there is no duty1 so constantly enforced1 both in the ,old and ,new ,testament1 as the duty of charity1 in dispensing to those1 who are destitute of the blessings we enjoy4 ,in selecting objects of charity1 the same rule applies to others1 as to ourselves2 their moral and religious interests are of the highest moment1 and for them1 as well as for ourselves1 we are to seek first the kingdom of ,god4 ,another general principle1 is1 that our intellectual and social interests are to be preferred1 to the mere gratification of taste or appetite4 ,a portion of time1 therefore1 must be devoted to the cultivation of the intellect and the social affections4 ,another1 is1 that the mere gratification of appetite1 is to be placed last in our estimate2 so that1 when a question arises1 as to which shall be sacrificed1 some intellectual1 moral1 or social1 advantage1 or some gratification of sense1 we should invariably sacrifice the last4 ,another1 is1 that1 as health is indispensable to the discharge of every duty1 nothing1 which sacrifices that blessing1 is to be allowed1 in order to gain any other advantage or enjoyment4 ,there are emergencies1 when it is right to risk health and life1 to save ourselves and others from greater evils2 but these are exceptions1 which do not militate against the general rule4 ,many persons imagine1 that1 if they violate the laws of health1 in performing religious or domestic duties1 they are guiltless before ,god4 ,but such greatly mistake4 ,we as directly violate the law1 thou shalt not kill1 when we do what tends to risk or shorten our own life1 as if we should intentionally run a dagger into a neighbor4 ,true1 we may escape any fatal or permanently injurious effects1 and so may a dagger or bullet miss the mark1 or do only transient injury4 ,but this1 in either case1 makes the sin none the less4 ,the life and happiness of all ,his creatures are dear to our ,creator2 and ,he is as much displeased1 when we injure our own interests1 as when we injure those of others4 ,the idea1 therefore1 that we are excusable1 if we harm no one but ourselves1 is false and pernicious4 ,these1 then1 are the general principles1 to guide a woman in systematizing her duties and pursuits4 ,the ,creator of all things1 is a ,being of perfect system and order2 and1 to aid us in our duty1 in this respect1 ,he has divided our time1 by a regularly returning day of rest from worldly business4 ,in following this example1 the intervening six days may be subdivided to secure similar benefits4 ,in doing this1 a certain portion of time must be given to procure the means of livelihood1 and for preparing food1 raiment1 and dwellings4 ,to these objects1 some must devote more1 and others less1 attention4 ,the remainder of time not necessarily thus employed1 might be divided somewhat in this manner3 ,the leisure of two afternoons and evenings1 could be devoted to religious and benevolent objects1 such as religious meetings1 charitable associations1 school visiting1 and attention to the sick and poor4 ,the leisure of two other days1 might be devoted to intellectual improvement1 and the pursuits of taste4 ,the leisure of another day1 might be devoted to social enjoyments1 in making or receiving visits2 and that of another1 to miscellaneous domestic pursuits1 not included in the other particulars4 ,it is probable1 that few persons could carry out such an arrangement1 very strictly2 but every one can make a systematic apportionment of time1 and at least aim at accomplishing it2 and they can also compare the time which they actually devote to these different objects1 with such a general outline1 for the purpose of modifying any mistaken proportions4 ,without attempting any such systematic employment of time1 and carrying it out1 so far as they can control circumstances1 most women are rather driven along1 by the daily occurrences of life1 so that1 instead of being the intelligent regulators of their own time1 they are the mere sport of circumstances4 ,there is nothing1 which so distinctly marks the difference between weak and strong minds1 as the fact1 whether they control circumstances1 or circumstances control them4 ,it is very much to be feared1 that the apportionment of time1 actually made by most women1 exactly inverts the order1 required by reason and ,christianity4 ,thus1 the furnishing a needless variety of food1 the conveniences of dwellings1 and the adornments of dress1 often take a larger portion of time1 than is given to any other object4 ,next after this1 comes intellectual improvement2 and1 last of all1 benevolence and religion4 ,it may be urged1 that it is indispensable for most persons to give more time to earn a livelihood1 and to prepare food1 raiment1 and dwellings1 than to any other object4 ,but it may be asked1 how much of the time1 devoted to these objects1 is employed in preparing varieties of food1 not necessary1 but rather injurious1 and how much is spent for those parts of dress and furniture not indispensable1 and merely ornamental8 ,let a woman subtract from her domestic employments1 all the time1 given to pursuits which are of no use1 except as they gratify a taste for ornament1 or minister increased varieties1 to tempt the appetite1 and she will find1 that much1 which she calls domestic duties1 and which prevent her attention to intellectual1 benevolent1 and religious1 objects1 should be called by a very different name4 ,no woman has a right to give up attention to the higher interests of herself and others1 for the ornaments of taste1 or the gratification of the palate4 ,to a certain extent1 these lower objects are lawful and desirable2 but1 when they intrude on nobler interests1 they become selfish and degrading4 ,every woman1 then1 when employing her hands1 in ornamenting her person1 her children1 or her house1 ought to calculate1 whether she has devoted as much time1 to the intellectual and moral wants of herself and others4 ,if she has not1 she may know that she is doing wrong1 and that her system1 for apportioning her time and pursuits1 should be altered4 ,some persons1 endeavor to systematize their pursuits1 by apportioning them to particular hours of each day4 ,for example1 a certain period before breakfast1 is given to devotional duties2 after breakfast1 certain hours are devoted to exercise and domestic employments2 other hours1 to sewing1 or reading1 or visiting2 and others1 to benevolent duties4 ,but1 in most cases1 it is more difficult to systematize the hours of each day1 than it is to secure some regular division of the week4 ,in regard to the minuti of domestic arrangements1 the writer has known the following methods to be adopted4 ,monday1 with some of the best housekeepers1 is devoted to preparing for the labors of the week4 ,any extra cooking1 the purchasing of articles to be used during the week1 the assorting of clothes for the wash1 and mending such as would be injured without2--these1 and similar items1 belong to this day4 ,tuesday is devoted to washing1 and ,wednesday to ironing4 ,on ,thursday1 the ironing is finished off1 the clothes are folded and put away1 and all articles1 which need mending1 are put in the mending basket1 and attended to4 ,friday is devoted to sweeping and housecleaning4 ,on ,saturday1 and especially the last ,saturday of every month1 every department is put in order2 the castors and table furniture are regulated1 the pantry and cellar inspected1 the trunks1 drawers1 and closets arranged1 and every thing about the house1 put in order for ,sunday4 ,all the cooking1 needed for ,sunday1 is also prepared4 ,by this regular recurrence of a particular time1 for inspecting every thing1 nothing is forgotten till ruined by neglect4 ,another mode of systematizing1 relates to providing proper supplies of conveniences1 and proper places in which to keep them4 ,thus1 some ladies keep a large closet1 in which are placed the tubs1 pails1 dippers1 soap-dishes1 starch1 bluing1 clothes-line1 clothes-pins1 and every other article used in washing2 and in the same1 or another1 place1 are kept every convenience for ironing4 ,in the sewing department1 a trunk1 with suitable partitions1 is provided1 in which are placed1 each in its proper place1 white thread of all sizes1 colored thread1 yarns for mending1 colored and black sewing-silks and twist1 tapes and bobbins of all sizes1 white and colored welting-cords1 silk braids and cords1 needles of all sizes1 papers of pins1 remnants of linen and colored cambric1 a supply of all kinds of buttons used in the family1 black and white hooks and eyes1 a yard measure1 and all the patterns used in cutting and fitting4 ,these are done up in separate parcels1 and labelled4 ,in another trunk1 are kept all pieces used in mending1 arranged in order1 so that any article can be found1 without loss of time4 ,a trunk1 like the first mentioned1 will save many steps1 and often much time and perplexity2 while by purchasing articles thus by the quantity1 they come much cheaper1 than if bought in little portions as they are wanted4 ,such a trunk should be kept locked1 and a smaller supply1 for current use1 retained in a workbasket4 ,a full supply of all conveniences in the kitchen and cellar1 and a place appointed for each article1 very much facilitates domestic labor4 ,for want of this1 much vexation and loss of time is occasioned1 while seeking vessels in use1 or in cleansing those employed by different persons1 for various purposes4 ,it would be far better1 for a lady to give up some expensive article1 in the parlor1 and apply the money1 thus saved1 for kitchen conveniences1 than to have a stinted supply1 where the most labor is to be performed4 ,if our ,countrywomen would devote more to comfort and convenience1 and less to show1 it would be a great improvement4 ,expensive mirrors and pier-tables in the parlor1 and an unpainted1 gloomy1 ill-furnished kitchen1 not unfrequently are found under the same roof4 ,another important item1 in systematic economy1 is1 the apportioning of regular employment to the various members of a family4 ,if a housekeeper can secure the cooperation of all her family1 she will find1 that many hands make light work4 ,there is no greater mistake1 than in bringing up children to feel that they must be taken care of1 and waited on1 by others1 without any corresponding obligations on their part4 ,the extent1 to which young children can be made useful1 in a family1 would seem surprising1 to those who have never seen a systematic and regular plan for securing their services4 ,the writer has been in a family1 where a little girl1 of eight or nine years of age1 washed and dressed herself and young brother1 and made their small beds1 before breakfast1 set and cleared all the tables1 at meals1 with a little help from a grown person in moving tables and spreading cloths1 while all the dusting of parlors and chambers was also neatly performed by her4 ,a brother1 of ten years old1 brought in and piled all the wood1 used in the kitchen and parlor1 brushed the boots and shoes1 neatly1 went on errands1 and took all the care of the poultry4 ,they were children1 whose parents could afford to hire servants to do this1 but who chose to have their children grow up healthy and industrious1 while proper instruction1 system1 and encouragement1 made these services rather a pleasure1 than otherwise1 to the children4 ,some parents pay their children for such services2 but this is hazardous1 as tending to make them feel that they are not bound to be helpful without pay1 and also as tending to produce a hoarding1 money-making spirit4 ,but1 where children have no hoarding propensities1 and need to acquire a sense of the value of property1 it may be well to let them earn money1 for some extra services1 rather as a favor4 ,when this is done1 they should be taught to spend it for others1 as well as for themselves2 and in this way1 a generous and liberal spirit will be cultivated4 ,there are some mothers1 who take pains to teach their boys most of the domestic arts1 which their sisters learn4 ,the writer has seen boys1 mending their own garments1 and aiding their mother or sisters in the kitchen1 with great skill and adroitness2 and at an early age1 they usually very much relish joining in such occupations4 ,the sons of such mothers1 in their college life1 or in roaming about the world1 or in nursing a sick wife or infant1 find occasion to bless the forethought and kindness1 which prepared them for such emergencies4 ,few things are in worse taste1 than for a man needlessly to busy himself in women's work2 and yet a man never appears in a more interesting attitude1 than when1 by skill in such matters1 he can save a mother or wife from care and suffering4 ,the more a boy is taught to use his hands1 in every variety of domestic employment1 the more his faculties1 both of mind and body1 are developed2 for mechanical pursuits exercise the intellect1 as well as the hands4 ,the early training of ,new-,england boys1 in which they turn their hand to almost every thing1 is one great reason of the quick perceptions1 versatility of mind1 and mechanical skill1 for which that portion of our ,countrymen is distinguished4 ,the writer has known one mode of systematizing the aid of the older children in a family1 which1 in some cases of very large families1 it may be well to imitate4 ,in the case referred to1 when the oldest daughter was eight or nine years old1 an infant sister was given to her1 as her special charge4 ,she tended it1 made and mended its clothes1 taught it to read1 and was its nurse and guardian1 through all its childhood4 ,another infant was given to the next daughter1 and thus the children were all paired in this interesting relation4 ,in addition to the relief thus afforded to the mother1 the elder children were in this way qualified for their future domestic relations1 and both older and younger bound to each other by peculiar ties of tenderness and gratitude4 ,in offering these examples1 of various modes of systematizing1 one suggestion may be worthy of attention4 ,it is not unfrequently the case1 that ladies1 who find themselves cumbered with oppressive cares1 after reading remarks on the benefits of system1 immediately commence the task of arranging their pursuits1 with great vigor and hope4 ,they divide the day into regular periods1 and give each hour its duty2 they systematize their work1 and endeavor to bring every thing into a regular routine4 ,but1 in a short time1 they find themselves baffled1 discouraged1 and disheartened1 and finally relapse into their former desultory ways1 in a sort of resigned despair4 ,the difficulty1 in such cases1 is1 that they attempt too much at a time4 ,there is nothing1 which so much depends upon habit1 as a systematic mode of performing duty2 and1 where no such habit has been formed1 it is impossible for a novice to start1 at once1 into a universal mode of systematizing1 which none but an adept could carry through4 ,the only way for such persons1 is1 to begin with a little at a time4 ,let them select some three or four things1 and resolutely attempt to conquer at these points4 ,in time1 a habit will be formed1 of doing a few things at regular periods1 and in a systematic way4 ,then it will be easy to add a few more2 and thus1 by a gradual process1 the object can be secured1 which it would be vain to attempt1 by a more summary course4 ,early rising is almost an indispensable condition to success1 in such an effort2 but1 where a woman lacks either the health or the energy to secure a period for devotional duties before breakfast1 let her select that hour of the day1 in which she will be least liable to interruption1 and let her then seek strength and wisdom from the only true ,source4 ,at this time1 let her take a pen1 and make a list of all the things which she considers as duties4 ,then1 let a calculation be made1 whether there be time enough1 in the day or the week1 for all these duties4 ,if there be not1 let the least important be stricken from the list1 as not being duties1 and which must be omitted4 ,in doing this1 let a woman remember1 that1 though what we shall eat1 and what we shall drink1 and wherewithal we shall be clothed1 are matters requiring due attention1 they are very apt to obtain a wrong relative importance1 while social1 intellectual1 and moral1 interests1 receive too little regard4 ,in this ,country1 eating1 dressing1 and household furniture and ornaments1 take far too large a place in the estimate of relative importance2 and it is probable1 that most women could modify their views and practice1 so as to come nearer to the ,saviour's requirements4 ,no woman has a right to put a stitch of ornament on any article of dress or furniture1 or to provide one superfluity in food1 until she is sure she can secure time for all her social1 intellectual1 benevolent1 and religious1 duties4 ,if a woman will take the trouble to make such a calculation as this1 she will usually find that she has time enough1 to perform all her duties easily and well4 ,it is impossible1 for a conscientious woman to secure that peaceful mind1 and cheerful enjoyment of life1 which all should seek1 who is constantly finding her duties jarring with each other1 and much remaining undone1 which she feels that she ought to do4 ,in consequence of this1 there will be a secret uneasiness1 which will throw a shade over the whole current of life1 never to be removed1 till she so efficiently defines and regulates her duties1 that she can fulfil them all4 ,and here the writer would urge upon young ladies1 the importance of forming habits of system1 while unembarrassed with those multiplied cares1 which will make the task so much more difficult and hopeless4 ,every young lady can systematize her pursuits1 to a certain extent4 ,she can have a particular day for mending her wardrobe1 and for arranging her trunks1 closets1 and drawers4 ,she can keep her workbasket1 her desk at school1 and all her other conveniences1 in their proper places1 and in regular order4 ,she can have regular periods for reading1 walking1 visiting1 study1 and domestic pursuits4 ,and1 by following this method1 in youth1 she will form a taste for regularity1 and a habit of system1 which will prove a blessing to her1 through life4 ,,chapter ,,xv4 ,,on ,,giving ,,in ,,charity4 ,it is probable1 that there is no point of duty1 where conscientious persons differ more in opinion1 or where they find it more difficult to form discriminating and decided views1 than on the matter of charity4 ,that we are bound to give some of our time1 money1 and efforts1 to relieve the destitute1 all allow4 ,but1 as to how much we are to give1 and on whom our charities shall be bestowed1 many a reflecting mind has been at a loss4 ,yet it seems very desirable1 that1 in reference to a duty so constantly and so strenuously urged by the ,supreme ,ruler1 we should be able so to fix metes and bounds1 as to keep a conscience void of offence1 and to free the mind from disquieting fears of deficiency4 ,the writer has found no other topic of investigation so beset with difficulty1 and so absolutely without the range of definite rules1 which can apply to all1 in all circumstances4 ,but on this1 as on a previous topic1 there seem to be general principles1 by the aid of which1 any candid mind1 sincerely desirous of obeying the commands of ,christ1 however much self-denial may be involved1 can arrive at definite conclusions1 as to its own individual obligations1 so that1 when these are fulfilled1 the mind may be at peace4 ,but1 for a mind that is worldly1 living mainly to seek its own pleasures1 instead of living to please ,god1 no principles can be so fixed1 as not to leave a ready escape from all obligation4 ,such minds1 either by indolence 7and consequent ignorance7 or by sophistry1 will convince themselves1 that a life of engrossing self-indulgence1 with perhaps the gift of a few dollars1 and a few hours of time1 may suffice1 to fulfil the requisitions of the ,eternal ,judge4 ,for such minds1 no reasonings will avail1 till the heart is so changed1 that1 to learn the will and follow the example of ,jesus ,christ1 become the leading objects of interest and effort4 ,it is to aid those1 who profess to possess this temper of mind1 that the following suggestions are offered4 ,the first consideration1 which gives definiteness to this subject1 is1 a correct view of the object for which we are placed in this world4 ,a great many even of professed ,christians1 seem to be acting on the supposition1 that the object of life is to secure as much as possible of all the various enjoyments placed within reach4 ,not so1 teaches reason or revelation4 ,from these1 we learn1 that1 though the happiness of ,his creatures1 is the end for which ,god created and sustains them1 yet1 that this happiness depends1 not on the various modes of gratification put within our reach1 but mainly on character4 ,a man may possess all the resources for enjoyment which this world can afford1 and yet feel that all is vanity and vexation of spirit1 and that he is supremely wretched4 ,another1 may be in want of all things1 and yet possess that living spring of benevolence1 faith1 and hope1 which will make an ,eden of the darkest prison4 ,in order to be perfectly happy1 man must attain that character1 which ,christ exhibited2 and the nearer he approaches it1 the more will happiness reign in his breast4 ,but what was the grand peculiarity of the character of ,christ8 ,it was self-denying benevolence4 ,he came not to seek ,his own2 ,he went about doing good1 and this was ,his meat and drink2 that is1 it was this which sustained the health and life of ,his mind1 as food and drink sustain the health and life of the body4 ,now1 the mind of man is so made1 that it can gradually be transformed into the same likeness4 ,a selfish being1 who1 for a whole life1 has been nourishing habits of indolent self-indulgence1 can1 by taking ,christ as his example1 by communion with ,him1 and by daily striving to imitate ,his character and conduct1 form such a temper of mind1 that doing good will become the chief and highest source of enjoyment4 ,and this heavenly principle will grow stronger and stronger1 until self-denial loses the more painful part of its character1 and then1 living to make happiness1 will be so delightful and absorbing a pursuit1 that all exertions1 regarded as the means to this end1 will be like the joyous efforts of men1 when they strive for a prize or a crown1 with the full hope of success4 ,in this view of the subject1 efforts and self-denial1 for the good of others1 are to be regarded1 not merely as duties enjoined for the benefit of others1 but as the moral training indispensable to the formation of that character1 on which depends our own happiness4 ,this view1 exhibits the full meaning of the ,saviour's declaration1 how hardly shall they that have riches enter into the kingdom of ,god6 ,he had before taught1 that the kingdom of ,heaven consisted1 not in such enjoyments as the worldly seek1 but1 in the temper of self-denying benevolence1 like ,his own2 and1 as the rich have far greater temptations to indolent self-indulgence1 they are far less likely to acquire this temper1 than those1 who1 by limited means1 are inured to some degree of self-denial4 ,but1 on this point1 one important distinction needs to be made2 and that is1 between the self-denial1 which has no other aim than mere self-mortification1 and that1 which is exercised to secure greater good to ourselves and others4 ,the first is the foundation of monasticism1 penances1 and all other forms of asceticism2 the latter1 only1 is that which ,christianity requires4 ,a second consideration1 which may give definiteness to this subject1 is1 that the formation of a perfect character1 involves1 not the extermination of any principles of our nature1 but rather the regulating of them1 according to the rules of reason and religion2 so that the lower propensities shall always be kept subordinate to nobler principles4 ,thus1 we are not to aim at destroying our appetites1 or at needlessly denying them1 but rather so to regulate them1 that they shall best secure the objects for which they were implanted4 ,we are not to annihilate the love of praise and admiration2 but so to control it1 that the favor of ,god shall be regarded more than the estimation of men4 ,we are not to extirpate the principle of curiosity1 which leads us to acquire knowledge2 but so to direct it1 that all our acquisitions shall be useful and not frivolous or injurious4 ,and thus1 with all the principles of the mind1 ,god has implanted no desires in our constitution1 which are evil and pernicious4 ,on the contrary1 all our constitutional propensities1 either of mind or body1 ,he designed we should gratify1 whenever no evils would thence result1 either to ourselves or others4 ,such passions as envy1 ambition1 pride1 revenge1 and hatred1 are to be exterminated2 for they are either excesses or excrescences3 not created by ,god1 but rather the result of our own neglect to form habits of benevolence and self-control4 ,in deciding the rules of our conduct1 therefore1 we are ever to bear in mind1 that the developement of the nobler principles1 and the subjugation of inferior propensities to them1 is to be the main object of effort1 both for ourselves and for others4 ,and1 in conformity with this1 in all our plans1 we are to place religious and moral interests as first in estimation1 our social and intellectual interests1 next1 and our physical gratifications1 as subordinate to all4 ,a third consideration1 is1 that1 though the means for sustaining life and health are to be regarded as necessaries1 without which no other duties can be performed1 yet1 that a very large portion of the time1 spent by most persons1 in easy circumstances1 for food1 raiment1 and dwellings1 are for mere superfluities1 which are right1 when they do not involve the sacrifice of higher interests1 and wrong1 when they do4 ,life and health can be sustained in the humblest dwellings1 with the plainest dress1 and the simplest food2 and1 after taking from our means1 what is necessary for life and health1 the remainder is to be so divided1 that the larger portion shall be given to supply the moral and intellectual wants of ourselves and others1 and the smaller share to procure those additional gratifications1 of taste and appetite1 which are desirable1 but not indispensable4 ,mankind1 thus far1 have never made this apportionment of their means2 yet1 just as fast as they have risen from a savage state1 mere physical wants have been made1 to an increasing extent1 subordinate to higher objects4 ,another very important consideration1 is1 that1 in urging the duty of charity1 and the prior claims of moral and religious objects1 no rule of duty should be maintained1 which it would not be right and wise for all to follow4 ,and we are to test the wisdom of any general rule1 by inquiring what would be the result1 if all mankind should practise according to it4 ,in view of this1 we are enabled to judge of the correctness of those1 who maintain1 that1 to be consistent1 men believing in the eternal destruction of all those of our race who are not brought under the influence of the ,christian system1 should give up1 not merely the elegances1 but all the superfluities1 of life1 and devote the whole of their means1 not indispensable to life and health1 for the propagation of ,christianity4 ,but1 if this is the duty of any1 it is the duty of all2 and we are to inquire what would be the result1 if all conscientious persons gave up the use of all superfluities4 ,suppose1 that two millions of the people in the ,united ,states1 were conscientious persons1 and relinquished the use of every thing not absolutely necessary to life and health4 ,it would instantly throw out of employment one half of the whole community4 ,the manufacturers1 mechanics1 merchants1 agriculturists1 and all the agencies they employ1 would be beggared1 and one half of those not reduced to poverty1 would be obliged to spend all their extra means1 in simply supplying necessaries to the other half4 ,the use of superfluities1 therefore1 to a certain extent1 is as indispensable to promote industry1 virtue1 and religion1 as any direct giving of money or time2 and it is owing entirely to a want of reflection1 and of comprehensive views1 that any men ever make so great a mistake1 as is here exhibited4 ,instead1 then1 of urging a rule of duty which is at once irrational and impracticable1 there is another course1 which commends itself to the understandings of all4 ,for whatever may be the practice1 of intelligent men1 they universally concede the principle1 that our physical gratifications should always be made subordinate to social1 intellectual1 and moral1 advantages4 ,and all that is required1 for the advancement of our whole race to the most perfect state of society1 is1 simply1 that men should act in agreement with this principle4 ,and1 if only a very small portion1 of the most intelligent of our race1 should act according to this rule1 under the control of ,christian benevolence1 the immense supplies1 furnished1 for the general good1 would be far beyond what any would imagine1 who had never made any calculations on the subject4 ,in this ,nation1 alone1 suppose the one million and more1 of professed followers of ,christ1 should give a larger portion of their means1 for the social1 intellectual1 and moral1 wants of mankind1 than for the superfluities that minister to taste1 convenience1 and appetite2 it would be enough to furnish all the schools1 colleges1 ,bibles1 ministers1 and missionaries1 that the whole world could demand2 or1 at least1 it would be far more1 than properly qualified agents to administer it1 could employ4 ,but1 it may be objected1 that1 though this view is one1 which1 in the abstract1 looks plausible and rational1 not one in a thousand1 can practically adopt it4 ,how few keep any account1 at all1 of their current expenses6 ,how impossible it is1 to determine1 exactly1 what are necessaries1 and what are superfluities6 ,and in regard to women1 how few have the control of an income1 so as not to be bound by the wishes of a parent or a husband6 ,in reference to these difficulties1 the first remark is1 that we are never under obligations to do1 what is entirely out of our power1 so that those persons1 who have no power to regulate their expenses or their charities1 are under no sort of obligation to attempt it4 ,the second remark is1 that1 when a rule of duty is discovered1 we are bound to aim at it1 and to fulfil it1 just so far as we can4 ,we have no right to throw it aside1 because we shall find some difficult cases1 when we come to apply it4 ,the third remark is1 that no person can tell how much can be done1 till a faithful trial has been made4 ,if a woman has never kept any accounts1 nor attempted to regulate her expenditures by the right rule1 nor used her influence with those that control her plans1 to secure this object1 she has no right to say how much she can1 or cannot1 do1 till after a fair trial has been made4 ,in attempting such a trial1 the following method can be taken4 ,let a woman keep an account of all she spends1 for herself and her family1 for a year1 arranging the items under three general heads4 ,under the first1 put all articles for food1 raiment1 rent1 wages1 and all conveniences4 ,under the second1 place all sums paid in securing an education1 and books1 and other intellectual advantages4 ,under the third head1 place all that is spent for benevolence and religion4 ,at the end of the year1 the first and largest account will show the mixed items of necessaries and superfluities1 which can be arranged1 so as to gain some sort of idea how much has been spent for superfluities1 and how much for necessaries4 ,then1 by comparing what is spent for superfluities1 with what is spent for intellectual and moral advantages1 data will be gained1 for judging of the past1 and regulating the future4 ,does a woman say she cannot do this8 let her inquire1 whether the offer of a thousand dollars1 as a reward for attempting it one year1 would not make her undertake to do it2 and1 if so1 let her decide1 in her own mind1 which is most valuable1 a clear conscience1 and the approbation of ,god1 in this effort to do ,his will1 or one thousand dollars4 ,and let her do it1 with this warning of the ,saviour before her eyes1--,no man can serve two masters4 ,ye cannot serve ,god and ,mammon4 ,is it objected1 ,how can we decide between superfluities and necessaries1 in this list8 it is replied1 that we are not required to judge exactly1 in all cases4 ,our duty is1 to use the means in our power to assist us in forming a correct judgement2 to seek the ,divine aid in freeing our minds from indolence and selfishness2 and then to judge as well as we can1 in our endeavors rightly to apportion and regulate our expenses4 ,many persons seem to feel that they are bound to do better than they know how4 ,but ,god is not so hard a ,master2 and1 after we have used all proper means to learn the right way1 if we then follow it1 according to our ability1 we do wrong to feel misgivings1 or to blame ourselves1 if results come out differently from what seems desirable4 ,the results of our actions1 alone1 can never prove us deserving of blame4 ,for men are often so placed1 that1 owing to lack of intellect or means1 it is impossible for them to decide correctly4 ,to use all the means of knowledge within our reach1 and then to judge1 with a candid and conscientious spirit1 is all that ,god requires2 and1 when we have done this1 and the event seems to come out wrong1 we should never wish that we had decided otherwise4 ,for it is the same as wishing that we had not followed the dictates of judgement and conscience4 ,as this is a world designed for discipline and trial1 untoward events are never to be construed as indications of the obliquity of our past decisions4 ,but it is probable1 that a great portion of the women of this ,nation1 cannot secure any such systematic mode of regulating their expenses4 ,to such1 the writer would propose one inquiry2 cannot you calculate how much time and money you spend for what is merely ornamental1 and not necessary1 for yourself1 your children1 and your house8 ,cannot you compare this with the time and money you spend for intellectual and benevolent purposes8 and will not this show the need of some change8 ,in making this examination1 is not this brief rule1 deducible from the principles before laid down1 the one which should regulate you8 ,every person does right1 in spending some portion of time and means in securing the conveniences and adornments of taste2 but the amount should never exceed what is spent in securing our own moral and intellectual improvement1 nor exceed what is spent in benevolent efforts to supply the physical and moral wants of our fellow-men4 ,in making an examination on this subject1 it is sometimes the case1 that a woman will count among the necessaries of life1 all the various modes of adorning the person or house1 practised in the circle in which she moves2 and1 after enumerating the many duties which demand attention1 counting these as a part1 she will come to the conclusion1 that she has no time1 and but little money1 to devote to personal improvement1 or to benevolent enterprises4 ,this surely is not in agreement with the requirements of the ,saviour1 who calls on us to seek for others1 as well as ourselves1 first of all1 the kingdom of ,god1 and ,his righteousness4 ,in order to act in accordance with the rule here presented1 it is true1 that many would be obliged to give up the idea of conforming to the notions and customs of those1 with whom they associate1 and compelled to adopt the maxim1 be not conformed to this world4 ,in many cases1 it would involve an entire change in the style of living4 ,and the writer has the happiness of knowing more cases than one1 where persons1 who have come to similar views1 on this subject1 have given up large and expensive establishments1 disposed of their carriages1 dismissed a portion of their domestics1 and modified all their expenditures1 that they might keep a pure conscience1 and regulate their charities more according to the requirements of ,christianity4 ,and there are persons1 well known in the religious world1 who save themselves all labor of minute calculation1 by devoting so large a portion of their time and means to benevolent objects1 that they find no difficulty in knowing that they give more for religious1 benevolent1 and intellectual1 purposes1 than for superfluities4 ,in deciding what particular objects shall receive our benefactions1 there are also general principles to guide us4 ,the first1 is that presented by our ,saviour1 when1 after urging the great law of benevolence1 ,he was asked1 and who is my neighbor8 ,his reply1 in the parable of 'the ,good ,samaritan1' teaches us1 that any human being1 whose wants are brought to our knowledge1 is our neighbor4 ,the wounded man was not only a stranger1 but he belonged to a foreign nation1 peculiarly hated2 and he had no claim1 except that his wants were brought to the knowledge of the wayfaring man4 ,from this1 we learn1 that the destitute1 of all nations1 become our neighbors1 as soon as their wants are brought to our knowledge4 ,another general principle1 is this1 that those who are most in need1 must be relieved1 in preference to those who are less destitute4 ,on this principle1 it is1 that we think the followers of ,christ should give more to supply those who are suffering for want of the bread of eternal life1 than for those who are deprived of physical enjoyments4 ,and another reason for this preference1 is1 the fact1 that many1 who give in charity1 have made such imperfect advances in civilization and ,christianity1 that the intellectual and moral wants of our race make but a feeble impression on the mind4 ,relate a pitiful tale of a family1 reduced to live1 for weeks1 on potatoes1 only1 and many a mind would awake to deep sympathy1 and stretch forth the hand of charity4 ,but describe cases1 where the immortal mind is pining in stupidity and ignorance1 or racked with the fever of baleful passions1 and how small the number1 so elevated in sentiment1 and so enlarged in their views1 as to appreciate and sympathize in these far greater misfortunes6 ,the intellectual and moral wants of our fellow-men1 therefore1 should claim the first place in our attention1 both because they are most important1 and because they are most neglected4 ,another consideration1 to be borne in mind1 is1 that1 in this ,country1 there is much less real need of charity1 in supplying physical necessities1 than is generally supposed1 by those who have not learned the more excellent way4 ,this ,land is so abundant in supplies1 and labor is in such demand1 that every healthy person can earn a comfortable support4 ,and if all the poor were instantly made virtuous1 it is probable that there would be no physical wants1 which could not readily be supplied by the immediate friends of each sufferer4 ,the sick1 the aged1 and the orphan1 would be the only objects of charity4 ,in this view of the case1 the primary effort1 in relieving the poor1 should be1 to furnish them the means of earning their own support1 and to supply them with those moral influences1 which are most effectual in securing virtue and industry4 ,another point to be attended to1 is1 the importance of maintaining a system of associated charities4 ,there is no point1 in which the economy of charity has more improved1 than in the present mode of combining many small contributions1 for sustaining enlarged and systematic plans of charity4 ,if all the half-dollars1 which are now contributed to aid in organized systems of charity1 were returned to the donors1 to be applied by the agency and discretion of each1 thousands and thousands of the treasures1 now employed to promote the moral and intellectual wants of mankind1 would become entirely useless4 ,in a democracy1 like ours1 where few are very rich1 and the majority are in comfortable circumstances1 this collecting and dispensing of drops and rills1 is the mode1 by which1 in imitation of ,nature1 the dews and showers are to distil on parched and desert lands4 ,and every person1 while earning a pittance to unite with many more1 may be cheered with the consciousness of sustaining a grand system of operations1 which must have the most decided influence1 in raising all mankind to that perfect state of society1 which ,christianity is designed to secure4 ,another consideration1 relates to the indiscriminate bestowal of charity4 ,persons1 who have taken pains to inform themselves1 and who devote their whole time to dispensing charities1 unite in declaring1 that this is one of the most fruitful sources of indolence1 vice1 and poverty4 ,from several of these1 the writer has learned1 that1 by their own personal investigations1 they have ascertained1 that there are large establishments of idle and wicked persons1 in most of our cities1 who associate together1 to support themselves by every species of imposition4 ,they hire large houses1 and live in constant rioting1 on the means thus obtained4 ,among them1 are women who have1 or who hire the use of1 infant children2 others1 who are blind1 or maimed1 or deformed1 or who can adroitly feign such infirmities1 and1 by these means of exciting pity1 and by artful tales of wo1 they collect alms1 both in city and country1 to spend in all manner of gross and guilty indulgences4 ,meantime1 many persons1 finding themselves often duped by impostors1 refuse to give at all2 and thus many benefactions are withdrawn1 which a wise economy in charity would have secured4 ,for this1 and other reasons1 it is wise and merciful1 to adopt the general rule1 never to give alms1 till we have had some opportunity of knowing how they will be spent4 ,there are exceptions to this1 as to every general rule1 which a person of discretion can determine4 ,but the practice1 so common among benevolent persons1 of giving1 at least a trifle1 to all who ask1 lest1 perchance1 they may turn away some1 who are really sufferers1 is one1 which causes more sin and misery than it cures4 ,the writer has never known any system for dispensing charity1 so successful1 as the one which1 in many places1 has been adopted in connection with the distribution of tracts4 ,by this method1 a town or city is divided into districts2 and each district is committed to the care of two ladies1 whose duty it is1 to call on each family and leave a tract1 and make that the occasion for entering into conversation1 and learning the situation of all residents in the district4 ,by this method1 the ignorant1 the vicious1 and the poor1 are discovered1 and their physical1 intellectual1 and moral1 wants1 are investigated4 ,in some places1 where the writer has resided or visited1 each person retained the same district1 year after year1 so that every poor family in the place was under the watch and care of some intelligent and benevolent lady1 who used all her influence to secure a proper education for the children1 to furnish them with suitable reading1 to encourage habits of industry and economy1 and to secure regular attendance on public religious instruction4 ,thus1 the rich and the poor were brought in contact1 in a way advantageous to both parties2 and1 if such a system could be universally adopted1 more would be done for the prevention of poverty and vice1 than all the wealth of the ,nation could avail for their relief4 ,but this plan cannot be successfully carried out1 in this manner1 unless there is a large proportion of intelligent1 benevolent1 and self-denying1 persons2 and the mere distribution of tracts1 without the other parts of the plan1 is of very little avail4 ,but there is one species of charity1 which needs especial consideration4 ,it is that1 which induces us to refrain from judging of the means and the relative charities of other persons4 ,there have been such indistinct notions1 and so many different standards of duty1 on this subject1 that it is rare for two persons to think exactly alike1 in regard to the rule of duty4 ,each person is bound to inquire and judge for himself1 as to his own duty or deficiencies2 but as both the resources1 and the amount of the actual charities1 of other men are beyond our ken1 it is as indecorous1 as it is uncharitable1 to sit in judgement on their decisions4 ,,chapter ,,xvi4 ,,on ,,economy ,,of ,,time ,,and ,,expenses4 ,on ,economy of ,time4 ,the value of time1 and our obligation to spend every hour for some useful end1 are what few minds properly realize4 ,and those1 who have the highest sense of their obligations in this respect1 sometimes greatly misjudge in their estimate of what are useful and proper modes of employing time4 ,this arises from limited views of the importance of some pursuits1 which they would deem frivolous and useless1 but which are1 in reality1 necessary to preserve the health of body and mind1 and those social affections1 which it is very important to cherish4 ,christianity teaches1 that1 for all the time afforded us1 we must give account to ,god2 and that we have no right to waste a single hour4 ,but time1 which is spent in rest or amusement1 is often as usefully employed1 as if it were devoted to labor or devotion4 ,in employing our time1 we are to make suitable allowance for sleep1 for preparing and taking food1 for securing the means of a livelihood1 for intellectual improvement1 for exercise and amusement1 for social enjoyments1 and for benevolent and religious duties4 ,and it is the right apportionment of time1 to these various duties1 which constitutes its true economy4 ,in making this apportionment1 we are bound by the same rules1 as relate to the use of property4 ,we are to employ whatever portion is necessary to sustain life and health1 as the first duty2 and the remainder we are so to apportion1 that our highest interests1 shall receive the greatest allotment1 and our physical gratifications1 the least4 ,the laws of the ,supreme ,ruler1 when ,he became the civil as well as the religious ,head of the ,jewish theocracy1 furnish an example1 which it would be well for all attentively to consider1 when forming plans for the apportionment of time and property4 ,to properly estimate this example1 it must be borne in mind1 that the main object of ,god1 was1 to preserve ,his religion among the ,jewish nation2 and that they were not required to take any means to propagate it among other nations1 as ,christians are now required to extend ,christianity4 ,so low were they1 in the scale of civilization and mental developement1 that a system1 which confined them to one spot1 as an agricultural people1 and prevented their growing very rich1 or having extensive commerce with other nations1 was indispensable to prevent their relapsing into the low idolatries and vices of the nations around them4 ,the proportion of time and property1 which every ,jew was required to devote to intellectual1 benevolent1 and religious purposes1 was as follows3 ,in regard to property1 they were required to give one tenth of all their yearly income1 to support the ,levites1 the priests1 and the religious service4 ,next1 they were required to give the first fruits of all their corn1 wine1 oil1 and fruits1 and the first-born of all their cattle1 for the ,lord's treasury1 to be employed for the priests1 the widow1 the fatherless1 and the stranger4 ,the first-born1 also1 of their children1 were the ,lord's1 and were to be redeemed by a specified sum1 paid into the sacred treasury4 ,besides this1 they were required to bring a freewill offering to ,god1 every time they went up to the three great yearly festivals4 ,in addition to this1 regular yearly sacrifices1 of cattle and fowls1 were required of each family1 and occasional sacrifices for certain sins or ceremonial impurities4 ,in reaping their fields1 they were required to leave unreaped1 for the poor1 the corners2 not to glean their fields1 olive-yards1 or vineyards2 and1 if a sheaf was left1 by mistake1 they were not to return for it1 but leave it for the poor4 ,when a man sent away a servant1 he was thus charged3 ,furnish him liberally out of thy flock1 and out of thy floor1 and out of thy wine-press4 ,when a poor man came to borrow money1 they were forbidden to deny him1 or to take any interest2 and if1 at the sabbatical1 or seventh1 year1 he could not pay1 the debt was to be cancelled4 ,and to this command1 is added the significant caution1 ,beware that there be not a thought in thy wicked heart1 saying1 the seventh year1 the year of release1 is at hand2 and thine eye be evil against thy poor brother1 and thou givest him nought2 and he cry unto the ,lord against thee1 and it be sin unto thee4 ,thou shalt surely give him1 because that for this thing the ,lord thy ,god shall bless thee in all thy works1 and in all that thou puttest thine hand unto4 ,besides this1 the ,levites were distributed through the land1 with the intention that they should be instructors and priests in every part of the nation4 ,thus1 one twelfth of the people were set apart1 having no landed property1 to be priests and teachers2 and the other tribes were required to support them liberally4 ,in regard to the time taken from secular pursuits1 for the support of religion1 an equally liberal amount was demanded4 ,in the first place1 one seventh part of their time was taken for the weekly sabbath1 when no kind of work was to be done4 ,then the whole nation were required to meet1 at the appointed place1 three times a year1 which1 including their journeys1 and stay there1 occupied eight weeks1 or another seventh part of their time4 ,then the sabbatical year1 when no agricultural labor was to be done1 took another seventh of their time from their regular pursuits1 as they were an agricultural people4 ,this was the amount of time and property demanded by ,god1 simply to sustain religion and morality within the bounds of that nation4 ,christianity demands the spread of its blessings to all mankind1 and so the restrictions laid on the ,jews are withheld1 and all our wealth and time1 not needful for our own best interest1 is to be employed in improving the condition of our fellow-men4 ,in deciding respecting the rectitude of our pursuits1 we are bound to aim at some practical good1 as the ultimate object4 ,with every duty of this life1 our benevolent ,creator has connected some species of enjoyment1 to draw us to perform it4 ,thus1 the palate is gratified1 by performing the duty of nourishing our bodies2 the principle of curiosity is gratified1 in pursuing useful knowledge2 the desire of approbation is gratified1 when we perform benevolent and social duties2 and every other duty has an alluring enjoyment connected with it4 ,but the great mistake of mankind has consisted in seeking the pleasures1 connected with these duties1 as the sole aim1 without reference to the main end that should be held in view1 and to which the enjoyment should be made subservient4 ,thus1 men seek to gratify the palate1 without reference to the question whether the body is properly nourished2 and follow after knowledge1 without inquiring whether it ministers to good or evil4 ,but1 in gratifying the implanted desires of our nature1 we are bound so to restrain ourselves1 by reason and conscience1 as always to seek the main objects of existence--the highest good of ourselves and others2 and never to sacrifice this1 for the mere gratification of our sensual desires4 ,we are to gratify appetite1 just so far as is consistent with health and usefulness2 and the desire for knowledge1 just so far as will enable us to do most good by our influence and efforts2 and no farther4 ,we are to seek social intercourse1 to that extent1 which will best promote domestic enjoyment and kindly feelings among neighbors and friends2 and we are to pursue exercise and amusement1 only so far as will best sustain the vigor of body and mind4 ,for the right apportionment of time1 to these and various other duties1 we are to give an account to our ,creator and final ,judge4 ,instead of attempting to give any very specific rules on this subject1 some modes of economizing time will be suggested4 ,the most powerful of all agencies1 in this matter1 is1 that habit of system and order1 in all our pursuits1 which has been already pointed out4 ,it is probable1 that a regular and systematic employment of time1 will enable a person to accomplish thrice the amount of labor1 that could otherwise be performed4 ,another mode of economizing time1 is1 by uniting several objects in one employment4 ,thus1 exercise1 or charitable efforts1 can be united with social enjoyments1 as is done in associations for sewing1 or visiting the poor4 ,instruction and amusement can also be combined4 ,pursuits like music1 gardening1 drawing1 botany1 and the like1 unite intellectual improvement with amusement1 social enjoyment1 and exercise4 ,with housekeepers1 and others whose employments are various and desultory1 much time can be saved by preparing employments for little intervals of leisure4 ,thus1 some ladies make ready1 and keep in the parlor1 light work1 to take up when detained there2 some keep a book at hand1 in the nursery1 to read while holding or sitting by a sleeping infant4 ,one of the most popular female poets of our ,country very often shows her friends1 at their calls1 that the thread of the knitting1 never need interfere with the thread of agreeable discourse4 ,it would be astonishing1 to one who had never tried the experiment1 how much can be accomplished1 by a little planning and forethought1 in thus finding employment for odd intervals of time4 ,but1 besides economizing our own time1 we are bound to use our influence and example to promote the discharge of the same duty by others4 ,a woman is under obligations so to arrange the hours and pursuits of her family1 as to promote systematic and habitual industry2 and if1 by late breakfasts1 irregular hours for meals1 and other hinderances of this kind1 she interferes with1 or refrains from promoting regular industry in1 others1 she is accountable to ,god for all the waste of time consequent on her negligence4 ,the mere example of system and industry1 in a housekeeper1 has a wonderful influence in promoting the same virtuous habit in others4 ,on ,economy in ,expenses4 ,it is impossible for a woman to practise a wise economy in expenditures1 unless she is taught how to do it1 either by a course of experiments1 or by the instruction of those who have had experience4 ,it is amusing to notice the various1 and oftentimes contradictory1 notions of economy1 among judicious and experienced housekeepers2 for there is probably no economist1 who would not be deemed lavish or wasteful1 in some respects1 by another and equally experienced and judicious person1 who1 in some different points1 would herself be as much condemned by the other4 ,these diversities are occasioned by dissimilar early habits1 and by the different relative value assigned1 by each1 to the various modes of enjoyment1 for which money is expended4 ,but1 though there may be much disagreement in minor matters1 there are certain general principles1 which all unite in sanctioning4 ,the first1 is1 that care be taken to know the amount of income and of current expenses1 so that the proper relative proportion be preserved1 and the expenditures never exceed the means4 ,few women can do this1 thoroughly1 without keeping regular accounts4 ,the habits of this ,nation1 especially among business-men1 are so desultory1 and the current expenses of a family1 in many points1 are so much more under the control of the man than of the woman1 that many women1 who are disposed to be systematic in this matter1 cannot follow their wishes4 ,but there are often cases1 when much is left undone in this particular1 simply because no effort is made4 ,yet every woman is bound to do as much as is in her power1 to accomplish a systematic mode of expenditure1 and the regulation of it by ,christian principles4 ,the following are examples of different methods which have been adopted1 for securing a proper adjustment of expenses to the means4 ,the first1 is that of a lady1 who kept a large boarding-house1 in one of our cities4 ,every evening1 before retiring1 she took an account of the expenses of the day2 and this usually occupied her not more than fifteen minutes1 at a time4 ,on each ,saturday1 she made an inventory of the stores on hand1 and of the daily expenses1 and also of what was due to her2 and then made an exact estimate of her expenditures and profits4 ,this1 after the first two or three weeks1 never took more than an hour1 at the close of the week4 ,thus1 by a very little time1 regularly devoted to this object1 she knew1 accurately1 her income1 expenditures1 and profits4 ,another friend of the writer1 lives on a regular salary4 ,the method adopted1 in this case1 is to calculate to what the salary amounts1 each week4 ,then an account is kept1 of what is paid out1 each week1 for rent1 fuel1 wages1 and food4 ,this amount of each week is deducted from the weekly income4 ,the remainders of each week are added1 at the close of a month1 as the stock from which is to be taken1 the dress1 furniture1 books1 travelling expenses1 charities1 and all other expenditures4 ,another lady1 whose husband is a lawyer1 divides the year into four quarters1 and the income into four equal parts4 ,she then makes her plans1 so that the expenses of one quarter shall never infringe on the income of another4 ,so resolute is she1 in carrying out this determination1 that if1 by any mischance1 she is in want of articles before the close of a quarter1 which she has not the means for providing1 she will subject herself to temporary inconvenience1 by waiting1 rather than violate her rule4 ,another lady1 whose husband is engaged in a business1 which he thinks makes it impossible for him to know what his yearly income will be1 took this method3--,she kept an account of all her disbursements1 for one year4 ,this she submitted to her husband1 and obtained his consent1 that the same sum should be under her control1 the coming year1 for similar purposes1 with the understanding1 that she might modify future apportionments1 in any way her judgement and conscience might approve4 ,a great deal of uneasiness and discomfort is caused1 to both husband and wife1 in many cases1 by an entire want of system and forethought1 in arranging expenses4 ,both keep buying what they think they need1 without any calculation as to how matters are coming out1 and with a sort of dread of running in debt1 all the time harassing them4 ,such never know the comfort of independence4 ,but1 if a man or woman will only calculate what their income is1 and then plan so as to know that they are all the time living within it1 they secure one of the greatest comforts1 which wealth ever bestows1 and what many of the rich1 who live in a loose and careless way1 never enjoy4 ,it is not so much the amount of income1 as the regular and correct apportionment of expenses1 that makes a family truly comfortable4 ,a man1 with ten thousand a year1 is often more harassed1 for want of money1 than the systematic economist1 who supports a family on only six hundred a year4 ,and the inspired command1 ,owe no man any thing1 can never be conscientiously observed1 without a systematic adaptation of expenses to means4 ,as it is very important that young ladies should learn systematic economy1 in expenses1 it will be a great benefit1 for every young girl to begin1 at twelve or thirteen years of age1 to make her own purchases1 and keep her accounts1 under the guidance of her mother1 or some other friend4 ,and if parents would ascertain the actual expense of a daughter's clothing1 for a year1 and give the sum to her1 in quarterly payments1 requiring a regular account1 it would be of great benefit in preparing her for future duties4 ,how else are young ladies to learn to make purchases properly1 and to be systematic and economical8 ,the art of system and economy can no more come by intuition1 than the art of watchmaking or bookkeeping2 and how strange it appears1 that so many young ladies take charge of a husband's establishment1 without having had either instruction or experience in one of the most important duties of their station6 ,the second general principle of economy1 is1 that1 in apportioning an income1 among various objects1 the most important should receive the largest supply1 and that all retrenchments be made in matters of less importance4 ,in a previous chapter1 some general principles have been presented1 to guide in this duty4 ,some additional hints will here be added1 on the same topic4 ,in regard to dress and furniture1 much want of judgement and good taste is often seen1 in purchasing some expensive article1 which is not at all in keeping with the other articles connected with it4 ,thus1 a large sideboard1 or elegant mirror1 or sofa1 which would be suitable only for a large establishment1 with other rich furniture1 is crowded into too small a room1 with coarse and cheap articles around it4 ,so1 also1 sometimes a parlor1 and company-chamber1 will be furnished in a style suitable only for the wealthy1 while the table will be supplied with shabby linen1 and imperfect crockery1 and every other part of the house will look1 in comparison with these fine rooms1 mean and niggardly4 ,it is not at all uncommon1 to find very showy and expensive articles in the part of the house visible to strangers1 when the children's rooms1 kitchen1 and other back portions1 are on an entirely different scale4 ,so in regard to dress1 a lady will sometimes purchase an elegant and expensive article1 which1 instead of attracting admiration from the eye of taste1 will merely serve as a decoy to the painful contrast of all other parts of the dress4 ,a woman of real good taste and discretion1 will strive to maintain a relative consistency between all departments1 and not1 in one quarter1 live on a scale fitted only to the rich1 and in another1 on one appropriate only to the poor4 ,another mistake in economy1 is often made1 by some of the best-educated and most intelligent of mothers4 ,such will often be found spending day after day at needlework1 when1 with a comparatively small sum1 this labor could be obtained of those who need the money1 which such work would procure for them4 ,meantime1 the daughters of the family1 whom the mother is qualified to educate1 or so nearly qualified1 that she could readily keep ahead of her children1 are sent to expensive boarding-schools1 where their delicate frames1 their pliant minds1 and their moral and religious interests1 are relinquished to the hands of strangers4 ,and the expense1 thus incurred1 would serve to pay the hire of every thing the mother can do in sewing1 four or five times over4 ,the same want of economy is shown in communities1 where1 instead of establishing a good female school in their vicinity1 the men of wealth send their daughters abroad1 at double the expense1 to be either educated or spoiled1 as the case may be4 ,another species of poor economy1 is manifested in neglecting to acquire and apply mechanical skill1 which1 in consequence1 has to be hired from others4 ,thus1 all the plain sewing will be done by the mother and daughters1 while all that requires skill will be hired4 ,instead of this1 others take pains to have their daughters instructed in mantuamaking1 and the simpler parts of millinery1 so that the plain work is given to the poor1 who need it1 and the more expensive and tasteful operations are performed in the family4 ,the writer knows ladies1 who not only make their own dresses1 but also their caps1 bonnets1 and artificial flowers4 ,some persons make miscalculations in economy1 by habitually looking up cheap articles1 while others go to the opposite extreme1 and always buy the best of every thing4 ,those ladies1 who are considered the best economists1 do not adopt either method4 ,in regard to cheap goods1 the fading colors1 the damages discovered in use1 the poorness of material1 and the extra sewing demanded to replace articles lost by such causes1 usually render them very dear1 in the end4 ,on the other hand1 though some articles1 of the most expensive kind1 wear longest and best1 yet1 as a general rule1 articles at medium prices do the best service4 ,this is true of table and bed linens1 broadcloths1 shirtings1 and the like2 though1 even in these cases1 it is often found1 that the coarsest and cheapest last the longest4 ,buying by wholesale1 and keeping a large supply on hand1 are economical only in large families1 where the mistress is careful2 but in other cases1 the hazards of accident1 and the temptation to a lavish use1 will make the loss outrun the profits4 ,there is one mode of economizing1 which1 it is hoped1 will every year grow more rare2 and that is1 making penurious savings1 by getting the poor to work as cheap as possible4 ,many amiable and benevolent women have done this1 on principle1 without reflecting on the want of ,christian charity thus displayed4 ,let every woman1 in making bargains with the poor1 conceive herself placed in the same circumstances1 toiling hour after hour1 and day after day1 for a small sum1 and then deal with others as she would be dealt by in such a situation4 ,liberal prices1 and prompt payment1 should be an invariable maxim1 in dealing with the poor4 ,the third general principle of economy1 is1 that all articles should be so used1 and taken care of1 as to secure the longest service1 with the least waste4 ,under this head1 come many particulars in regard to the use and preservation of articles1 which will be found more in detail in succeeding chapters4 ,it may be proper1 however1 here to refer to one very common impression1 as to the relative obligation of the poor and the rich in regard to economy4 ,many seem to suppose1 that those who are wealthy1 have a right to be lavish and negligent in the care of expenses4 ,but this surely is a great mistake4 ,property is a talent1 given by ,god1 to spend for the welfare of mankind2 and the needless waste of it1 is as wrong in the rich1 as it is in the poor4 ,the rich are under obligations to apportion their income1 to the various objects demanding attention1 by the same rule as all others2 and if this will allow them to spend more for superfluities than those of smaller means1 it never makes it right to misuse or waste any of the bounties of ,providence4 ,whatever is no longer wanted for their own enjoyment1 should be carefully saved1 to add to the enjoyment of others4 ,it is not always that men understand the economy of ,providence1 in that unequal distribution of property1 which1 even under the most perfect form of government1 will always exist4 ,many1 looking at the present state of things1 imagine that the rich1 if they acted in strict conformity to the law of benevolence1 would share all their property with their suffering fellow-men4 ,but such do not take into account1 the inspired declaration1 that a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth1 or1 in other words1 life is made valuable1 not by great possessions1 but by such a character as prepares a man to enjoy what he holds4 ,god perceives that human character can be most improved1 by that kind of discipline1 which exists1 when there is something valuable to be gained by industrious efforts4 ,this stimulus to industry could never exist1 in a community where all are just alike1 as it does in a state of society where every man sees1 possessed by others1 enjoyments1 which he desires1 and may secure by effort and industry4 ,so1 in a community where all are alike as to property1 there would be no chance to gain that noblest of all attainments1 a habit of self-denying benevolence1 which toils for the good of others1 and takes from one's own store1 to increase the enjoyments of another4 ,instead1 then1 of the stagnation1 both of industry and of benevolence1 which would follow the universal and equable distribution of property1 one class of men1 by superior advantages of birth1 or intellect1 or patronage1 come into possession of a great amount of capital4 ,with these means1 they are enabled1 by study1 reading1 and travel1 to secure expansion of mind1 and just views of the relative advantages of moral1 intellectual1 and physical enjoyments4 ,at the same time1 ,christianity imposes obligations1 corresponding with the increase of advantages and means4 ,the rich are not at liberty to spend their treasures for themselves1 alone4 ,their wealth is given1 by ,god1 to be employed for the best good of mankind2 and their intellectual advantages are designed1 primarily1 to enable them to judge correctly1 in employing their means most wisely for the general good4 ,now1 suppose a man of wealth inherits ten thousand acres of real estate3 it is not his duty to divide it among his poor neighbors and tenants4 ,if he took this course1 it is probable1 that most of them would spend all in thriftless waste and indolence1 or in mere physical enjoyments4 ,instead1 then1 of thus putting his capital out of his hands1 he is bound to retain1 and so to employ1 it1 as to raise his neighbors and tenants to such a state of virtue and intelligence1 that they can secure far more1 by their own efforts and industry1 than he1 by dividing his capital1 could bestow upon them4 ,in this view of the subject1 it is manifest1 that the unequal distribution of property is no evil4 ,the great difficulty is1 that so large a portion of those who hold much capital1 instead of using their various advantages for the greatest good of those around them1 employ the chief of them for mere selfish indulgences2 thus inflicting as much mischief on themselves1 as results to others from their culpable neglect4 ,a great portion of the rich seem to be acting on the principle1 that the more ,god bestows on them1 the less are they under obligation to practise any self-denial1 in fulfilling his benevolent plan of raising our race to intelligence and holiness4 ,there are not a few1 who seem to imagine that it is a mark of gentility to be careless of expenses4 ,but this notion1 is owing to a want of knowledge of the world4 ,as a general fact1 it will be found1 that persons of rank and wealth1 abroad1 are much more likely to be systematic and economical1 than persons of inferior standing in these respects4 ,even the most frivolous1 among the rich and great1 are often found practising a rigid economy1 in certain respects1 in order to secure gratifications in another direction4 ,and it will be found so common1 among persons of vulgar minds1 and little education1 and less sense1 to make a display of profusion and indifference to expense1 as a mark of their claims to gentility1 that the really genteel look upon it rather as a mark of low breeding4 ,so that the sort of feeling1 which some persons cherish1 as if it were a degradation to be careful of small sums1 and to be attentive to relative prices1 in making purchases1 is founded on mistaken notions of gentility and propriety4 ,but one caution is needful1 in regard to another extreme4 ,when a lady of wealth1 is seen roaming about in search of cheaper articles1 or trying to beat down a shopkeeper1 or making a close bargain with those she employs1 the impropriety is glaring to all minds4 ,a person of wealth has no occasion to spend time in looking for extra cheap articles2 her time could be more profitably employed in distributing to the wants of others4 ,and the practice of beating down tradespeople1 is vulgar and degrading1 in any one4 ,a woman1 after a little inquiry1 can ascertain what is the fair and common price of things2 and if she is charged an exorbitant sum1 she can decline taking the article4 ,if the price be a fair one1 it is not becoming in her to search for another article which is below the regular charge4 ,if a woman finds that she is in a store where they charge high prices1 expecting to be beat down1 she can mention1 that she wishes to know the lowest price1 as it is contrary to her principles to beat down charges4 ,there is one inconsistency1 worthy of notice1 which is found among that class1 who are ambitious of being ranked among the aristocracy of society4 ,it has been remarked1 that1 in the real aristocracy of other lands1 it is much more common1 than with us1 to practise systematic economy4 ,and such do not hesitate to say so1 when they cannot afford certain indulgences4 ,this practice descends to subordinate grades2 so that foreign ladies1 when they come to reside among us1 seldom hesitate in assigning the true reason1 when they cannot afford any gratification4 ,but in this ,country1 it will be found1 that many1 who are most fond of copying aristocratic examples1 are1 on this point1 rather with the vulgar4 ,not a few of those young persons1 who begin life with parlors and dresses in a style fitting only to established wealth1 go into expenses1 which they can ill afford2 and are ashamed even to allow1 that they are restrained from any expense1 by motives of economy4 ,such a confession is never extorted1 except by some call of benevolence2 and then1 they are very ready to declare that they cannot afford to bestow even a pittance4 ,in such cases1 it would seem as if the direct opposite of ,christianity had gained possession of their tastes and opinions4 ,they are ashamed to appear to deny themselves2 but are very far from having any shame in denying the calls of benevolence4 ,,chapter ,,xvii4 ,,on ,,health ,,of ,,mind4 ,there is such an intimate connection between the body and mind1 that the health of one1 cannot be preserved1 without a proper care of the other4 ,and it is from a neglect of this principle1 that some of the most exemplary and conscientious persons in the world1 suffer a thousand mental agonies1 from a diseased state of body1 while others ruin the health of the body1 by neglecting the proper care of the mind4 ,when the brain is excited1 by stimulating drinks taken into the stomach1 it produces a corresponding excitement of the mental faculties4 ,the reason1 the imagination1 and all the powers1 are stimulated to preternatural vigor and activity4 ,in like manner1 when the mind is excited by earnest intellectual effort1 or by strong passions1 the brain is equally excited1 and the blood rushes to the head4 ,sir ,astley ,cooper records1 that1 in examining the brain of a young man who had lost a portion of his skull1 whenever he was agitated1 by some opposition to his wishes1 the blood was sent1 with increased force1 to his brain1 and the pulsations became frequent and violent4 ,the same effect was produced by any intellectual effort2 and the flushed countenance1 which attends earnest study or strong emotions of fear1 shame1 or anger1 is an external indication of the suffused state of the brain from such causes4 ,in exhibiting the causes1 which injure the health of the mind1 they will be found to be partly physical1 partly intellectual1 and partly moral4 ,the first cause of mental disease and suffering1 is not unfrequently found in the want of a proper supply of duly oxygenized blood4 ,it has been shown1 that the blood1 in passing through the lungs1 is purified1 by the oxygen of the air combining with the superabundant hydrogen and carbon of the venous blood1 thus forming carbonic acid and water1 which are expired into the atmosphere4 ,every pair of lungs is constantly withdrawing from the surrounding atmosphere its healthful principle1 and returning one1 which is injurious to human life4 ,when1 by confinement1 and this process1 the atmosphere is deprived of its appropriate supply of oxygen1 the purification of the blood is interrupted1 and it passes1 without being properly prepared1 into the brain1 producing languor1 restlessness1 and inability to exercise the intellect and feelings4 ,whenever1 therefore1 persons sleep in a close apartment1 or remain1 for a length of time1 in a crowded or ill-ventilated room1 a most pernicious influence is exerted on the brain1 and1 through this1 on the mind4 ,a person1 who is often exposed to such influences1 can never enjoy that elasticity and vigor of mind1 which is one of the chief indications of its health4 ,this is the reason1 why all rooms for religious meetings1 and all schoolrooms1 and sleeping apartments1 should be so contrived1 as to secure a constant supply of fresh air from without4 ,the minister1 who preaches in a crowded and ill-ventilated apartment1 loses much of his power to feel and to speak1 while the audience are equally reduced1 in their capability of attending4 ,the teacher1 who confines children in a close apartment1 diminishes their ability to study1 or to attend to his instructions4 ,and the person1 who habitually sleeps in a close room1 impairs his mental energies1 in a similar degree4 ,it is not unfrequently the case1 that depression of spirits1 and stupor of intellect1 are occasioned solely by inattention to this subject4 ,another cause of mental disease1 is1 the excessive exercise of the intellect or feelings4 ,if the eye is taxed1 beyond its strength1 by protracted use1 its blood-vessels become gorged1 and the bloodshot appearance warns of the excess and the need of rest4 ,the brain is affected1 in a similar manner1 by excessive use1 though the suffering and inflamed organ cannot make its appeal to the eye4 ,but there are some indications1 which ought never to be misunderstood or disregarded4 ,in cases of pupils1 at school or at college1 a diseased state1 from over action1 is often manifested by increased clearness of mind1 and ease and vigor of mental action4 ,in one instance1 known to the writer1 a most exemplary and industrious pupil1 anxious to improve every hour1 and ignorant or unmindful of the laws of health1 first manifested the diseased state of her brain and mind1 by demands for more studies1 and a sudden and earnest activity in planning modes of improvement for herself and others4 ,when warned of her danger1 she protested that she never was better1 in her life2 that she took regular exercise1 in the open air1 went to bed in season1 slept soundly1 and felt perfectly well2 that her mind was never before so bright and clear1 and study never so easy and delightful4 ,and at this time1 she was on the verge of derangement1 from which she was saved only by an entire cessation of all her intellectual efforts4 ,a similar case occurred1 under the eye of the writer1 from over-excited feelings4 ,it was during a time of unusual religious interest in the community1 and the mental disease was first manifested1 by the pupil bringing her ,hymn-book or ,bible to the class-room1 and making it her constant resort1 in every interval of school duty4 ,it finally became impossible to convince her1 that it was her duty to attend to any thing else2 her conscience became morbidly sensitive1 her perceptions indistinct1 her deductions unreasonable1 and nothing1 but entire change of scene1 exercise1 and amusement1 saved her4 ,when the health of the brain was restored1 she found that she could attend to the one thing needful1 not only without interruption of duty1 or injury of health1 but rather so as to promote both4 ,clergymen and teachers need most carefully to notice and guard against the danger here alluded to4 ,any such attention to religion1 as prevents the performance of daily duties and needful relaxation1 is dangerous1 as tending to produce such a state of the brain1 as makes it impossible to feel or judge correctly4 ,and when any morbid and unreasonable pertinacity appears1 much exercise1 and engagement in other interesting pursuits1 should be urged1 as the only mode of securing the religious benefits aimed at4 ,and whenever any mind is oppressed with care1 anxiety1 or sorrow1 the amount of active exercise in the fresh air should be greatly increased1 that the action of the muscles may withdraw the blood1 which1 in such seasons1 is constantly tending too much to the brain4 ,there has been a most appalling amount of suffering1 derangement1 disease1 and death1 occasioned by a want of attention to this subject1 in teachers and parents4 ,uncommon precocity in children is usually the result of an unhealthy state of the brain2 and1 in such cases1 medical men would now direct1 that the wonderful child should be deprived of all books and study1 and turned to play or work in the fresh air4 ,instead of this1 parents frequently add fuel to the fever of the brain1 by supplying constant mental stimulus1 until the victim finds refuge in idiocy or an early grave4 ,where such fatal results do not occur1 the brain1 in many cases1 is so weakened1 that the prodigy of infancy sinks below the medium of intellectual powers in afterlife4 ,in our colleges1 too1 many of the most promising minds sink to an early grave1 or drag out a miserable existence1 from this same cause4 ,and it is an evil1 as yet little alleviated by the increase of physiological knowledge4 ,every college and professional school1 and every seminary for young ladies1 needs a medical man1 not only to lecture on physiology and the laws of health1 but empowered1 in his official capacity1 to investigate the case of every pupil1 and1 by authority1 to restrain him to such a course of study1 exercise1 and repose1 as his physical system requires4 ,the writer has found1 by experience1 that1 in a large institution1 there is one class of pupils who need to be restrained1 by penalties1 from late hours and excessive study1 as much as another class need stimulus to industry4 ,under the head of excessive mental action1 must be placed the indulgence of the imagination in novel reading and castle building4 ,this kind of stimulus1 unless counterbalanced by physical exercise1 not only wastes time and energies1 but undermines the vigor of the nervous system4 ,the imagination was designed1 by our kind ,creator1 as the charm and stimulus to animate to benevolent activity2 and its perverted exercise seldom fails to bring the appropriate penalty4 ,a third cause of mental disease1 is1 the want of the appropriate exercise of the various faculties of the mind4 ,on this point1 ,dr4 ,combe remarks1 ,we have seen1 that1 by disuse1 muscle becomes emaciated1 bone softens1 blood-vessels are obliterated1 and nerves lose their characteristic structure4 ,the brain is no exception to this general rule4 ,of it1 also1 the tone is impaired by permanent inactivity1 and it becomes less fit to manifest the mental powers with readiness and energy4 ,it is the withdrawal of the stimulus necessary for its healthy exercise1 which renders solitary confinement so severe a punishment1 even to the most daring minds4 ,it is a lower degree of the same cause1 which renders continuous seclusion from society so injurious1 to both mental and bodily health4 ,inactivity of intellect and of feeling is a very frequent predisposing cause of every form of nervous disease4 ,for demonstrative evidence of this position1 we have only to look at the numerous victims to be found1 among persons who have no call to exertion in gaining the means of subsistence1 and no objects of interest on which to exercise their mental faculties and who consequently sink into a state of mental sloth and nervous weakness4 ,if we look abroad upon society1 we shall find innumerable examples of mental and nervous debility from this cause4 ,when a person of some mental capacity is confined1 for a long time1 to an unvarying round of employment1 which affords neither scope nor stimulus for one half of his faculties1 and1 from want of education or society1 has no external resources2 his mental powers1 for want of exercise1 become blunted1 and his perceptions slow and dull4 ,the intellect and feelings1 not being provided with interests external to themselves1 must either become inactive and weak1 or work upon themselves and become diseased4 ,the most frequent victims of this kind of predisposition1 are females of the middle and higher ranks1 especially those of a nervous constitution and good natural abilities2 but who1 from an ill-directed education1 possess nothing more solid than mere accomplishments1 and have no materials of thought1 and no occupation to excite interest or demand attention4 ,the liability of such persons to melancholy1 hysteria1 hypochondriasis1 and other varieties of mental distress1 really depends on a state of irritability of brain1 induced by imperfect exercise4 ,these remarks1 of a medical man1 illustrate the principles before indicated2--namely1 that the demand of ,christianity1 that we live to promote the general happiness1 and not merely for selfish indulgence1 has for its aim1 not only the general good1 but the highest happiness1 of the individual of whom it is required4 ,a person possessed of wealth1 who has nothing more noble to engage his attention1 than seeking his own personal enjoyment1 subjects his mental powers and moral feelings to a degree of inactivity1 utterly at war with health of mind4 ,and the greater the capacities1 the greater are the sufferings which result from this cause4 ,any one1 who has read the misanthropic wailings of ,lord ,byron1 has seen the necessary result of great and noble powers bereft of their appropriate exercise1 and1 in consequence1 becoming sources of the keenest suffering4 ,it is this view of the subject1 which has often awakened feelings of sorrow and anxiety in the mind of the writer1 while aiding in the developement and education of superior female minds1 in the wealthier circles4 ,not because there are not noble objects for interest and effort1 abundant1 and within reach of such minds2 but because long-established custom has made it seem so ,quixotic1 to the majority1 even of the professed followers of ,christ1 for a woman of wealth to practise any great self-denial1 that few have independence of mind and ,christian principle sufficient to overcome such an influence4 ,the more a mind has its powers developed1 the more does it aspire and pine after some object worthy of its energies and affections2 and they are commonplace and phlegmatic characters1 who are most free from such deep-seated wants4 ,many a young woman1 of fine genius and elevated sentiment1 finds a charm in ,lord ,byron's writings1 because they present a glowing picture of what1 to a certain extent1 must be felt by every well-developed mind1 which has no nobler object in life1 than the pursuit of its own gratification4 ,if young ladies of wealth could pursue their education1 under the full conviction that the increase of their powers and advantages increased their obligations to use all for the good of society1 and with some plan of benevolent enterprise in view1 what new motives of interest would be added to their daily pursuits6 ,and what blessed results would follow1 to our beloved ,country1 if all well-educated females carried out the principles of ,christianity1 in the exercise of their developed powers6 ,it is cheering to know1 that there are women1 among the most intelligent and wealthy1 who can be presented as examples of what may be done1 when there is a heart to do4 ,a pupil of the writer is among this number1 who1 though a rich heiress1 immediately1 on the close of her school-life1 commenced a course of self-denying benevolence1 in the cause of education4 ,she determined to secure a superior female institution1 in her native place1 which should extend the benefits of the best education to all in that vicinity1 at a moderate charge4 ,finding no teacher on the ground1 prepared to take the lead1 and though herself a timid and retiring character1 she began1 with the aid of the governess in her mother's family1 a daily school1 superintending all1 and teaching six hours a day4 ,the liberal-minded and intelligent mother cooperated1 and the result is a flourishing female seminary1 with a large and beautiful and well-furnished building2 the greater part of the means being supplied by the mother1 and almost all by the members of that family connection4 ,and both these ladies will testify1 that no time or money1 spent for any other object1 has ever secured to them more real and abiding enjoyment1 than witnessing the results of this successful and benevolent enterprise1 which1 for years to come1 will pour forth blessings on society4 ,another lady could be pointed out1 who1 possessing some property1 went into a new western village1 built and furnished her schoolhouse1 and established herself there1 to aid in raising a community from ignorance and gross worldliness1 to intelligence and virtue4 ,and in repeated instances1 among the friends and pupils of the writer1 young ladies have left wealthy homes1 and affectionate friends1 to find nobler enjoyments1 in benevolent and active exertions to extend intelligence and virtue1 where such disinterested laborers were needed4 ,in other cases1 where it was not practicable to leave home1 well-educated young ladies have interested themselves in common schools in the vicinity1 aiding the teachers1 by their sympathy1 counsel1 and personal assistance4 ,other ladies1 of property and standing1 having families to educate1 and being well qualified for such duties1 have relinquished a large portion of domestic labor and superintendence1 which humbler minds could be hired to perform1 devoted themselves to the education of their children1 and received others1 less fortunate1 to share with their own these superior advantages4 ,but1 so long as the feeling widely exists1 that the increase of ,god's bounties diminishes the obligations of self-denying service for the good of mankind1 so long will well-educated women1 in easy circumstances1 shrink from such confinement and exertion4 ,it is believed1 however1 that there are many benevolent and intelligent women1 in this ,country1 who would gladly engage in such enterprises1 were there any appropriate way within their reach4 ,and it is a question1 well deserving consideration1 among those who guide the public mind in benevolent enterprises1 whether some organization is not demanded1 which shall bring the whole community to act systematically1 in voluntary associations1 to extend a proper education to every child in this ,nation1 and to bring into activity all the female enterprise and benevolence now lying dormant1 for want of proper facilities to exercise them4 ,there are hundreds of villages1 which need teachers1 and that would support them1 if they were on the spot1 but which never will send for them4 ,and there are hundreds of females1 now unemployed1 who would teach1 if a proper place1 and home1 and support1 and escort1 were provided for them4 ,and there needs to be some enlarged and systematic plan1 conducted by wise and efficient men1 to secure these objects4 ,could such a plan1 as the one suggested1 be carried out1 it is believed that many female minds1 now suffering1 from diseases occasioned by want of appropriate objects for their energies1 would be relieved4 ,the duties of a teacher exercise every intellectual faculty1 to its full extent2 while1 in this benevolent service1 all the social1 moral1 and benevolent1 emotions1 are kept in full play4 ,the happiest persons the writer has ever known1--those who could say that they were as happy as they wished to be1 in this world1 7and she has seen such17--were persons engaged in this employment4 ,the indications of a diseased mind1 owing to a want of the proper exercise of its powers1 are1 apathy1 discontent1 a restless longing for excitement1 a craving for unattainable good1 a diseased and morbid action of the imagination1 dissatisfaction with the world1 and factitious interest in trifles which the mind feels to be unworthy of its powers4 ,such minds sometimes seek alleviation in exciting amusements2 others resort to the grosser enjoyments of sense4 ,oppressed with the extremes of languor1 or over-excitement1 or apathy1 the body fails under the wearing process1 and adds new causes of suffering to the mind4 ,such1 the compassionate ,saviour calls to his service1 in these appropriate terms3 ,come unto ,me1 all ye that labor and are heavy laden1 and ,i will give you rest4 ,take ,my yoke upon you1 and learn of ,me1 and ye shall find rest unto your souls4 ,,chapter ,,xviii4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,domestics4 ,there is no point1 where the women of this ,country need more wisdom1 patience1 principle1 and self-control1 than in relation to those whom they employ in domestic service4 ,the subject is attended with many difficulties1 which powerfully influence the happiness of families2 and the following suggestions are offered1 to aid in securing right opinions and practice4 ,one consideration1 which it would be well to bear in mind1 on this subject1 is1 that a large portion of the peculiar trials1 which ,american women suffer from this source1 are the necessary evils connected with our most valuable civil blessings4 ,every blessing of this life involves some attendant liability to evil1 from the same source2 and1 in this case1 while we rejoice at a state of society1 which so much raises the condition and advantages of our sex1 the evils involved should be regarded as more than repaid1 by the compensating benefits4 ,if we cannot secure the cringing1 submissive1 well-trained1 servants of aristocratic lands1 let us be consoled that we thus escape from the untold miseries and oppression1 which always attend that state of society4 ,instead1 then1 of complaining that we cannot have our own peculiar advantages1 and those of other nations1 too1 or imagining how much better off we should be1 if things were different from what they are1 it is much wiser and more ,christianlike to strive cheerfully to conform to actual circumstances2 and1 after remedying all that we can control1 patiently to submit to what is beyond our power4 ,if domestics are found to be incompetent1 unstable1 and unconformed to their station1 it is ,perfect ,wisdom which appoints these trials1 to teach us patience1 fortitude1 and self-control2 and1 if the discipline is met1 in a proper spirit1 it will prove a blessing1 rather than an evil4 ,but1 to judge correctly in regard to some of the evils involved in the state of domestic service1 in this ,country1 we should endeavor to conceive ourselves placed in the situation of those1 of whom complaint is made1 that we may not expect1 from them1 any more than it would seem right should be exacted from us1 in similar circumstances4 ,it is sometimes urged1 against domestics1 that they exact exorbitant wages4 ,but what is the rule of rectitude1 on this subject8 ,is it not the universal law of labor and of trade1 that an article is to be valued1 according to its scarcity and the demand8 ,when wheat is scarce1 the farmer raises his price2 and when a mechanic offers services1 difficult to be obtained1 he makes a corresponding increase of price4 ,and why is it not right1 for domestics to act according to a rule1 allowed to be correct in reference to all other trades and professions8 ,it is a fact1 that really good domestic service must continue to increase in value1 just in proportion as this ,country waxes rich and prosperous2 thus making the proportion of those1 who wish to hire labor1 relatively greater1 and the number of those1 willing to go to service1 less4 ,money enables the rich to gain many advantages1 which those of more limited circumstances cannot secure4 ,one of these1 is1 securing good domestics1 by offering high wages2 and this1 as the scarcity of this class increases1 will serve constantly to raise the price of service4 ,it is right for domestics to charge the market value1 and this value is always decided by the scarcity of the article and the amount of demand4 ,right views of this subject1 will sometimes serve to diminish hard feelings towards those1 who would otherwise be wrongfully regarded as unreasonable and exacting4 ,another complaint against domestics1 is1 that of instability and discontent1 leading to perpetual change4 ,but in reference to this1 let a mother or daughter conceive of their own circumstances as so changed1 that the daughter must go out to service4 ,suppose a place is engaged1 and it is then found that she must sleep in a comfortless garret2 and that1 when a new domestic comes1 perhaps a coarse and dirty foreigner1 she must share her bed with her4 ,another place is offered1 where she can have a comfortable room1 and an agreeable room-mate2 in such a case1 would not both mother and daughter think it right to change8 ,or1 suppose1 on trial1 it was found that the lady of the house was fretful1 or exacting1 and hard to please2 or1 that her children were so ungoverned1 as to be perpetual vexations2 or1 that the work was so heavy1 that no time was allowed for relaxation and the care of a wardrobe2--and another place offers1 where these evils can be escaped3 would not mother and daughter here think it right to change8 ,and is it not right for domestics1 as well as their employers1 to seek places1 where they can be most comfortable8 ,in some cases1 this instability and love of change would be remedied1 if employers would take more pains to make a residence with them agreeable2 and to attach domestics to the family1 by feelings of gratitude and affection4 ,there are ladies1 even where well-qualified domestics are most rare1 who seldom find any trouble in keeping good and steady ones4 ,and the reason is1 that their domestics know they cannot better their condition1 by any change within reach4 ,it is not merely by giving them comfortable rooms1 and good food1 and presents1 and privileges1 that the attachment of domestics is secured2 it is by the manifestation of a friendly and benevolent interest in their comfort and improvement4 ,this is exhibited1 in bearing patiently with their faults2 in kindly teaching them how to improve2 in showing them how to make and take proper care of their clothes2 in guarding their health2 in teaching them to read1 if necessary1 and supplying them with proper books2 and1 in short1 by endeavoring1 so far as may be1 to supply the place of parents4 ,it is seldom that such a course would fail to secure steady service1 and such affection and gratitude1 that even higher wages would be ineffectual to tempt them away4 ,there would probably be some cases of ungrateful returns2 but there is no doubt that the course indicated1 if generally pursued1 would very much lessen the evil in question4 ,another subject of complaint1 in regard to domestics1 is1 their pride1 insubordination1 and spirit not conformed to their condition4 ,they are not willing to be called servants2 in some places1 they claim a seat1 at meals1 with the family2 they imitate a style of dress unbecoming their condition2 and their manners and address are rude and disrespectful4 ,that these evils are very common1 among this class of persons1 cannot be denied2 the only question is1 how can they best be met and remedied4 ,in regard to the common feeling among domestics1 which is pained and offended by being called servants1 there is need of some consideration and allowance4 ,it should be remembered1 that1 in this ,country1 children1 from their earliest years1 are trained to abhor slavery1 in reference to themselves1 as the greatest of all possible shame and degradation4 ,they are perpetually hearing orations1 songs1 and compositions of all sorts1 which set forth the honor and dignity of freemen1 and heap scorn and contempt on all who would be so mean as to be slaves4 ,now the term servant1 and the duties it involves1 are1 in the minds of many persons1 nearly the same as those of slave4 ,and there are few minds1 entirely free from associations which make servitude a degradation4 ,it is not always pride1 then1 which makes this term so offensive4 ,it is a consequence of that noble and generous spirit of freedom1 which every ,american draws from his mother's breast1 and which ought to be respected1 rather than despised4 ,in order to be respected1 by others1 we must respect ourselves2 and sometimes the ruder classes of society make claims1 deemed forward and offensive1 when1 with their views1 such a position seems indispensable to preserve a proper self-respect4 ,where an excessive sensibility on this subject exists1 and forward and disrespectful manners result from it1 the best remedy is1 a kind attempt to give correct views1 such as better-educated minds are best able to attain4 ,it should be shown to them1 that1 in this ,country1 labor has ceased to be degrading1 in any class2 that1 in all classes1 different grades of subordination must exist2 and that it is no more degrading1 for a domestic to regard the heads of a family as superiors in station1 and treat them with becoming respect1 than it is for children to do the same1 or for men to treat their rulers with respect and deference4 ,they should be taught1 that domestics use a different entrance to the house1 and sit at a distinct table1 not because they are inferior beings1 but because this is the best method of securing neatness1 order1 and convenience4 ,they can be shown1 if it is attempted in a proper spirit and manner1 that these very regulations really tend to their own ease and comfort1 as well as to that of the family4 ,the writer has known a case1 where the lady of the family1 for the sake of convincing her domestic of the truth of these views1 allowed her to follow her own notions1 for a short time1 and join the family at meals4 ,it was merely required1 as a condition1 that she should always dress her hair as the other ladies did1 and appear in a clean dress1 and abide by all the rules of propriety at table1 which the rest were required to practise1 and which were duly detailed4 ,the experiment was tried1 two or three times2 and1 although the domestic was treated with studious politeness and kindness1 she soon felt that she should be much more comfortable in the kitchen1 where she could talk1 eat1 and dress1 as she pleased4 ,a reasonable domestic can also be made to feel the propriety of allowing opportunity for the family to talk freely of their private affairs1 when they meet at meals1 as they never could do1 if restrained by the constant presence of a stranger4 ,such views1 presented in a kind and considerate manner1 will often entirely change the views of a domestic1 who is sensitive on such subjects4 ,when a domestic is forward and bold in manners1 and disrespectful in address1 a similar course can be pursued4 ,it can be shown1 that those1 who are among the best-bred and genteel1 have courteous and respectful manners and language to all they meet1 while many1 who have wealth1 are regarded as vulgar1 because they exhibit rude and disrespectful manners4 ,the very term1 gentleman1 indicates the refinement and delicacy of address1 which distinguishes the high-bred from the coarse and vulgar4 ,in regard to appropriate dress1 in most cases it is difficult for an employer to interfere1 directly1 with comments or advice4 ,the most successful mode1 is1 to offer some service in mending or making a wardrobe1 and when a confidence in the kindness of feeling is thus gained1 remarks and suggestions will generally be properly received1 and new views of propriety and economy can be imparted4 ,in some cases1 it may be well for an employer1--who1 from appearances1 anticipates difficulty of this kind1--in making the agreement1 to state that she wishes to have the room1 person1 and dress of her domestics kept neat1 and in order1 and that she expects to remind them of their duty1 in this particular1 if it is neglected4 ,domestics are very apt to neglect the care of their own chambers and clothing2 and such habits have a most pernicious influence on their wellbeing1 and on that of their children in future domestic life4 ,an employer1 then1 is bound to exercise a parental care over them1 in these respects4 ,in regard to the great deficiencies of domestics1 in qualifications for their duties1 much patience and benevolence are required4 ,multitudes have never been taught to do their work properly2 and1 in such cases1 how unreasonable it would be to expect it of them6 ,most persons1 of this class1 depend1 for their knowledge in domestic affairs1 not on their parents1 who are usually unqualified to instruct them1 but on their employers2 and if they live in a family where nothing is done neatly and properly1 they have no chance to learn how to perform their duties well4 ,when a lady finds that she must employ a domestic who is ignorant1 awkward1 and careless1 her first effort should be1 to make all proper allowance for past want of instruction1 and the next1 to remedy the evil1 by kind and patient teaching4 ,in doing this1 it should ever be borne in mind1 that nothing is more difficult1 than to change old habits1 and to learn to be thoughtful and considerate4 ,and a woman must make up her mind to tell the same thing over and over again1 and yet not lose her patience4 ,it will often save much vexation1 if1 on the arrival of a new domestic1 the mistress of the family1 or a daughter1 will1 for two or three days1 go round with the novice1 and show the exact manner in which it is expected the work will be done4 ,and this1 also1 it may be well to specify in the agreement1 as some domestics would otherwise resent such a supervision4 ,but it is often remarked1 that1 after a woman has taken all this pains to instruct a domestic1 and make her a good one1 some other person will offer higher wages1 and she will leave4 ,this1 doubtless1 is a sore trial2 but1 if such efforts were made in the true spirit of benevolence1 the lady will still have her reward1 in the consciousness that she has contributed to the welfare of society1 by making one more good domestic1 and one more comfortable family where that domestic is employed2 and if the latter becomes the mother of a family1 a whole circle of children will share in the benefit4 ,there is one great mistake1 not unfrequently made1 in the management both of domestics and of children2 and that is1 in supposing that the way to cure defects1 is by finding fault as each failing occurs4 ,but1 instead of this being true1 in many cases the directly opposite course is the best2 while1 in all instances1 much good judgement is required1 in order to decide when to notice faults1 and when to let them pass unnoticed4 ,there are some minds1 very sensitive1 easily discouraged1 and infirm of purpose4 ,such persons1 when they have formed habits of negligence1 haste1 and awkwardness1 often need expressions of sympathy and encouragement1 rather than reproof4 ,they have usually been found fault with1 so much1 that they have become either hardened or desponding2 and it is often the case1 that a few words of commendation will awaken fresh efforts and renewed hope4 ,in almost every case1 words of kindness1 confidence1 and encouragement1 should be mingled with the needful admonitions or reproof4 ,it is a good rule1 in reference to this point1 to forewarn1 instead of finding fault4 ,thus1 when a thing has been done wrong1 let it pass unnoticed1 till it is to be done again2 and then1 a simple request1 to have it done in the right way1 will secure quite as much1 and probably more1 willing effort1 than a reproof administered for neglect4 ,some persons seem to take it for granted1 that young and inexperienced minds are bound to have all the forethought and discretion of mature persons2 and freely express wonder and disgust1 when mishaps occur for want of these traits4 ,but it would be far better to save from mistake or forgetfulness1 by previous caution and care on the part of those who have gained experience and forethought2 and thus many occasions of complaint and ill-humor will be avoided4 ,those1 who fill the places of heads of families1 are not very apt to think how painful it is1 to be chided for neglect of duty1 or for faults of character4 ,if they would sometimes imagine themselves in the place of those whom they control1 with some person daily administering reproof to them1 in the same tone and style as they employ to those who are under them1 it might serve as a useful check to their chidings4 ,it is often the case1 that persons1 who are most strict and exacting1 and least able to make allowances and receive palliations1 are themselves peculiarly sensitive to any thing which implies that they are in fault4 ,by such1 the spirit implied in the ,divine petition1 forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us1 needs especially to be cherished4 ,one other consideration1 is very important4 ,there is no duty1 more binding on ,christians1 than that of patience and meekness under provocations and disappointment4 ,now1 the tendency of every sensitive mind1 when thwarted in its wishes1 is1 to complain and find fault1 and that often in tones of fretfulness or anger4 ,but there are few domestics1 who have not heard enough of the ,bible1 to know that angry or fretful fault-finding1 from the mistress of a family1 when her work is not done to suit her1 is not in agreement with the precepts of ,christ4 ,they notice and feel the inconsistency2 and every woman1 when she gives way to feelings of anger and impatience1 at the faults of those around her1 lowers herself in their respect1 while her own conscience1 unless very much blinded1 cannot but suffer a wound4 ,there are some women1 who1 in the main1 are amiable1 who seem impressed with the idea1 that it is their office and duty to find fault with their domestics1 whenever any thing is not exactly right1 and follow their fancied calling without the least appearance of tenderness or sympathy1 as if the objects of their discipline were stocks or stones4 ,the writer once heard a domestic1 describing her situation in a family which she had left1 make this remark of her past employer3 ,she was a very good housekeeper1 allowed good wages1 and gave us many privileges and presents2 but if we ever did any thing wrong1 she always talked to us just as if she thought we had no feelings1 and ,i never was so unhappy in my life1 as while living with her4 ,and this was said of a kind-hearted and conscientious woman1 by a very reasonable and amiable domestic4 ,every woman1 who has the care of domestics1 should cultivate a habit of regarding them with that sympathy and forbearance1 which she would wish for herself or her daughters1 if deprived of parents1 fortune1 and home4 ,the fewer advantages they have enjoyed1 and the greater difficulties of temper or of habit they have to contend with1 the more claims they have on compassionate forbearance4 ,they ought ever to be looked upon1 not as the mere ministers to our comfort and convenience1 but as the humbler and more neglected children of our ,heavenly ,father1 whom ,he has sent to claim our sympathy and aid4,n ,,footnote3 ,n ,the excellent little work of ,miss ,sedgwick1 entitled ',live1 and ,let ,live1' contains many valuable and useful hints1 conveyed in a most pleasing narrative form1 which every housekeeper would do well to read4 ,the writer also begs leave to mention a work of her own1 entitled1 ',letters to ,persons engaged in ,domestic ,service4' ,,chapter ,,xix4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,infants4 ,every young lady ought to learn how to take proper care of an infant2 for1 even if she is never to become the responsible guardian of a nursery1 she will often be in situations where she can render benevolent aid to others1 in this most fatiguing and anxious duty4 ,the writer has known instances1 in which young ladies1 who1 having been trained1 by their mothers1 properly to perform this duty1 were1 in some cases1 the means of saving the lives of infants1 and in others1 of relieving1 by their benevolent aid1 sick mothers1 from intolerable care and anguish4 ,on this point1 ,dr4 ,combe remarks1 ,all women are not destined1 in the course of ,nature1 to become mothers2 but how very small is the number of those1 who are unconnected1 by family ties1 friendship1 or sympathy1 with the children of others6 ,how very few are there1 who1 at some time or other of their lives1 would not find their usefulness and happiness increased1 by the possession of a kind of knowledge1 intimately allied to their best feelings and affections6 ,and how important is it1 to the mother herself1 that her efforts should be seconded by intelligent1 instead of ignorant1 assistants6 ,in order to be prepared for such benevolent ministries1 every young lady should improve the opportunity1 whenever it is afforded her1 for learning how to wash1 dress1 and tend1 a young infant2 and whenever she meets with such a work as ,dr4 ,combe's1 on the management of infants1 she ought to read it1 and remember its contents4 ,it was the design of the author1 to fill this chapter chiefly with extracts from various medical writers1 giving some of the most important directions on this subject2 but finding these extracts too prolix for a work of this kind1 she has condensed them into a shorter compass4 ,some are quoted verbatim1 and some are abridged1 chiefly from the writings of ,doctors ,combe1 ,bell1 and ,eberle1 who are among the most approved writers on this subject4 ,nearly one half of the deaths1 occurring during the first two years of existence1 are ascribable to mismanagement1 and to errors in diet4 ,at birth1 the stomach is feeble1 and as yet unaccustomed to food2 its cravings are consequently easily satisfied1 and frequently renewed4 ,at that early age1 there ought to be no fixed time for giving nourishment4 ,the stomach cannot be thus satisfied4 ,the active call of the infant1 is a sign1 which needs never be mistaken4 ,but care must be taken to determine between the crying of pain or uneasiness1 and the call for food2 and the practice of giving an infant food1 to stop its cries1 is often the means of increasing its sufferings4 ,after a child has satisfied its hunger1 from two to four hours should intervene1 before another supply is given4 ,at birth1 the stomach and bowels1 never having been used1 contain a quantity of mucous secretion1 which requires to be removed4 ,to effect this1 ,nature has rendered the first portions of the mother's milk purposely watery and laxative4 ,nurses1 however1 distrusting ,nature1 often hasten to administer some active purgative2 and the consequence often is1 irritation in the stomach and bowels1 not easily subdued4 ,it is only where the child is deprived of its mother's milk1 as the first food1 that some gentle laxative should be given4 ,it is a common mistake1 to suppose1 that1 because a woman is nursing1 she ought to live very fully1 and to add an allowance of wine1 porter1 or other fermented liquor1 to her usual diet4 ,the only result of this plan1 is1 to cause an unnatural fulness in the system1 which places the nurse on the brink of disease1 and retards1 rather than increases1 the food of the infant4 ,more will be gained by the observance of the ordinary laws of health1 than by any foolish deviation1 founded on ignorance4 ,there is no point1 on which medical men so emphatically lift the voice of warning1 as in reference to administering medicines to infants4 ,it is so difficult to discover what is the matter with an infant1 its frame is so delicate and so susceptible1 and slight causes have such a powerful influence1 that it requires the utmost skill and judgement to ascertain what would be proper medicines1 and the proper quantity to be given4 ,says ,dr4 ,combe1 ,that there are cases1 in which active means must be promptly used1 to save the child1 is perfectly true4 ,but it is not less certain1 that these are cases1 of which no mother or nurse ought to attempt the treatment4 ,as a general rule1 where the child is well managed1 medicine1 of any kind1 is very rarely required2 and if disease were more generally regarded in its true light1 not as something thrust into the system1 which requires to be expelled by force1 but as an aberration from a natural mode of action1 produced by some external cause1 we should be in less haste to attack it by medicine1 and more watchful in its prevention4 ,accordingly1 where a constant demand for medicine exists in a nursery1 the mother may rest assured1 that there is something essentially wrong in the treatment of her children4 ,much havoc is made among infants1 by the abuse of calomel and other medicines1 which procure momentary relief1 but end by producing incurable disease2 and it has often excited my astonishment1 to see how recklessly remedies of this kind are had recourse to1 on the most trifling occasions1 by mothers and nurses1 who would be horrified1 if they knew the nature of the power they are wielding1 and the extent of injury they are inflicting4 ,instead1 then1 of depending on medicine1 for the preservation of the health and life of an infant1 the following precautions and preventives should be adopted4 ,take particular care of the food of an infant4 ,if it is nourished by the mother1 her own diet should be simple1 nourishing1 and temperate4 ,if the child be brought up by hand1 the milk of a new-milch cow1 mixed with one third water1 and sweetened a little with white sugar1 should be the only food given1 until the teeth come4 ,this is more suitable1 than any preparations of flour or arrow-root1 the nourishment of which is too highly concentrated4 ,never give a child bread1 cake1 or meat1 before the teeth appear4 ,if the food appear to distress the child1 after eating1 first ascertain if the milk be really from a new-milch cow1 as it may otherwise be too old4 ,learn1 also1 whether the cow lives on proper food4 ,cows that are fed on still-slops1 as is often the case in cities1 furnish milk which is very unhealthful4 ,be sure and keep a good supply of pure and fresh air1 in the nursery4 ,on this point1 ,dr4 ,bell remarks1 respecting rooms constructed without fireplaces1 and without doors or windows to let in pure air1 from without1 ,the sufferings of children of feeble constitutions1 are increased1 beyond measure1 by such lodgings as these4 ,an action1 brought by the ,commonwealth1 ought to lie against those persons1 who build houses for sale or rent1 in which rooms are so constructed as not to allow of free ventilation2 and a writ of lunacy taken out against those1 who1 with the common-sense experience which all have on this head1 should spend any portion of their time1 still more1 should sleep1 in rooms thus nearly air-tight4 ,after it is a month or two old1 take an infant out to walk1 or ride1 in a little wagon1 every fair and warm day2 but be very careful that its feet1 and every part of its body1 are kept warm3 and be sure that its eyes are well protected from the light4 ,weak eyes1 and sometimes blindness1 are caused by neglecting this precaution4 ,keep the head of an infant cool1 never allowing too warm bonnets1 nor permitting it to sink into soft pillows1 when asleep4 ,keeping an infant's head too warm1 very much increases nervous irritability2 and this is the reason why medical men forbid the use of caps for infants4 ,but the head of an infant should1 especially while sleeping1 be protected from draughts of air1 and from getting cold4 ,be very careful of the skin of an infant1 as nothing tends so effectually to prevent disease4 ,for this end1 it should be washed all over1 every morning1 and then gentle friction should be applied1 with the hand1 to the back1 stomach1 bowels1 and limbs4 ,the head should be thoroughly washed1 every day1 and then brushed with a soft hair-brush1 or combed with a fine comb4 ,if1 by neglect1 dirt accumulates under the hair1 apply1 with the finger1 the yolk of an egg1 and then the fine comb will remove it all1 without any trouble4 ,dress the infant1 so that it will be always warm1 but not so as to cause perspiration4 ,be sure and keep its feet always warm2 and1 for this end1 often warm them at a fire1 and use long dresses4 ,keep the neck and arms covered4 ,for this purpose1 wrappers1 open in front1 made high in the neck1 with long sleeves1 to put on over the frock1 are now very fashionable4 ,it is better for both mother and child1 that it should not sleep on the mother's arm1 at night1 unless the weather be extremely cold4 ,this practice keeps the child too warm1 and leads it to seek food too frequently4 ,a child should ordinarily take nourishment but twice in the night4 ,a crib beside the mother1 with a plenty of warm and light covering1 is best for the child2 but the mother must be sure that it is always kept warm4 ,never cover a child's head1 so that it will inhale the air of its own lungs4 ,in very warm weather1 especially in cities1 great pains should be taken1 to find fresh and cool air1 by rides and sailing4 ,walks in a public square1 in the cool of the morning1 and frequent excursions in ferry or steam-boats1 would often save a long bill for medical attendance4 ,in hot nights1 the windows should be kept open1 and the infant laid on a mattress1 or on folded blankets4 ,a bit of straw matting1 laid over a featherbed1 and covered with the under sheet1 makes a very cool bed for an infant4 ,cool bathing1 in hot weather1 is very useful2 but the water should be very little cooler than the skin of the child4 ,when the constitution is delicate1 the water should be slightly warmed4 ,simply sponging the body1 freely1 in a tub1 answers the same purpose as a regular bath4 ,in very warm weather1 this should be done two or three times a day1 always waiting two or three hours after food has been given4 ,when the stomach is peculiarly irritable1 7from teething17 it is of paramount necessity to withhold all the nostrums which have been so falsely lauded as 'sovereign cures for cholera infantum4' ,the true restoratives1 to a child threatened with disease1 are1 cool air1 cool bathing1 and cool drinks of simple water1 in addition to proper food1 at stated intervals4 ,do not take the advice of mothers1 who tell of this1 that1 and the other thing1 which have proved excellent remedies in their experience4 ,children have different constitutions1 and there are multitudes of different causes for their sickness2 and what might cure one child1 might kill another1 which appeared to have the same complaint4 ,a mother should go on the general rule1 of giving an infant very little medicine1 and then only by the direction of a discreet and experienced physician4 ,and there are cases1 when1 according to the views of the most distinguished and competent practitioners1 physicians themselves are much too free in using medicines1 instead of adopting preventive measures4 ,do not allow a child to form such habits1 that it will not be quiet1 unless tended and amused4 ,a healthy child should be accustomed to lie or sit in its cradle1 much of the time2 but it should occasionally be taken up1 and tossed1 or carried about1 for exercise and amusement4 ,an infant should be encouraged to creep1 as an exercise very strengthening and useful4 ,if the mother fears the soiling of its nice dresses1 she can keep a long slip or apron1 which will entirely cover the dress1 and can be removed1 when the child is taken in the arms4 ,a child should not be allowed1 when quite young1 to bear its weight on its feet1 very long at a time1 as this tends to weaken and distort the limbs4 ,many mothers1 with a little painstaking1 succeed in putting their infants1 while awake1 into their cradle1 at regular hours1 for sleep1 and induce regularity in other habits1 which saves much trouble4 ,in doing this1 a child may cry1 at first1 a great deal2 but for a healthy child1 this use of the lungs does no harm1 and tends rather to strengthen1 than to injure1 them4 ,a child who is trained to lie or sit1 and amuse itself1 is happier than one who is carried and tended a great deal1 and thus rendered restless and uneasy when not so indulged4 ,,chapter ,,xx4 ,,on ,,the ,,management ,,of ,,young ,,children4 ,in regard to the physical education of children1 ,dr4 ,clarke1 ,physician in ,ordinary to the ,queen of ,england1 expresses views1 on one point1 in which most physicians would coincide4 ,he says1 ,there is no greater error in the management of children1 than that of giving them animal diet very early4 ,by persevering in the use of an overstimulating diet1 the digestive organs become irritated1 and the various secretions1 immediately connected with1 and necessary to1 digestion1 are diminished1 especially the biliary secretion4 ,children1 so fed1 become very liable to attacks of fever1 and of inflammation1 affecting1 particularly1 the mucous membranes2 and measles1 and the other diseases incident to childhood1 are generally severe in their attack4 ,there are some popular notions on the subject of the use of animal food1 which need to be corrected4 ,one mistake1 is1 in supposing that the formation of the human teeth and stomach indicate that man was designed to feed on flesh4 ,linnus says1 that the organization of man1 when compared with other animals1 shows1 that fruits and esculent vegetables constitute his most suitable food4 ,baron ,cuvier1 the highest authority on comparative anatomy1 says1 the natural food of man1 judging from his structure1 appears to consist of fruits1 roots1 and other succulent parts of vegetables4 ,another common mistake1 is1 that the stimulus of animal food is necessary for the full developement of the physical and intellectual powers4 ,this notion is disproved by facts4 ,the inhabitants of ,lapland and ,kamtschatka1 who live altogether on animal food1 are among the smallest1 weakest1 and most timid1 of races4 ,but the ,scotch ,highlanders1 who1 in a very cold climate1 live almost exclusively on milk and vegetable diet1 are among the bravest1 largest1 and most athletic1 of men4 ,the ,south-,sea ,islanders1 who live almost exclusively on fruits and vegetables1 are said to be altogether superior to ,english sailors1 in strength and agility4 ,an intelligent gentleman1 who spent many months in ,siberia1 testifies1 that no exiles endure the climate better than those1 who have all their lives been accustomed to a vegetable diet4 ,the stoutest and largest tribes in ,africa1 live solely on vegetable diet1 and the bright1 intelligent1 and active ,arabs1 live entirely on milk and vegetables4 ,the popular notion is1 that animal food is more nourishing than vegetable2 but on this point1 scientific men hold different opinions4 ,experiments1 repeatedly made by some chemists1 seem to prove the contrary4 ,tables have been prepared1 showing the amount of nutriment in each kind of food1 by which it would appear1 that1 while beef contains thirty-five per cent4 of nutritious matter1 wheat-bread and rice contain from eighty to ninety-five per cent4 ,the supposed mistake is attributed to the fact1 that1 on account of the stimulating nature of animal food1 it digests easier and more quickly than vegetables4 ,many physicians1 however1 among them1 ,dr4 ,combe1,o are of opinion1 that animal food contains a greater quantity of nutriment in a given bulk1 than either herbaceous or farinaceous food4 ,in some diseases1 too1 meat is better for the stomach than vegetables4 ,the largest proportion of those1 who have been remarkable for having lived to the greatest age1 were persons1 whose diet was almost exclusively vegetables2 and it is a well-known fact1 that the pulse of a hardy and robust man1 who lives on simple vegetable diet1 is from ten to twenty beats less in a minute1 than that of men who live on a mixed diet4 ,in regard to the intellect1 ,dr4 ,franklin asserted1 from experience1 that an exclusively vegetable diet promotes clearness of ideas and quickness of perception2 and is to be preferred1 by all who labor with the mind4 ,the mightiest efforts of ,sir ,isaac ,newton1 were performed1 while nourished only by bread and water4 ,many other men1 distinguished by intellectual vigor1 give similar testimony4 ,these facts show that animal food is not needful1 to secure the perfect developement of mind or body4,p ,the result of the treatment of the inmates of the ,orphan ,asylum1 at ,albany1 is one1 upon which all1 who have the care of young children1 should deeply ponder4 ,during the first six years of the existence of this ,institution1 its average number of children was eighty4 ,for the first three years1 their diet was meat once a day1 fine bread1 rice1 ,indian puddings1 vegetables1 fruit1 and milk4 ,considerable attention was given to clothing1 fresh air1 and exercise2 and they were bathed once in three weeks4 ,during these three years1 from four to six children1 and sometimes more1 were continually on the sick-list2 one or two assistant nurses were necessary2 a physician was called1 two or three times a week2 and1 in this time1 there were between thirty and forty deaths4 ,at the end of this period1 the management was changed1 in these respects3--daily ablutions of the whole body were practised2 bread of unbolted flour was substituted for that of fine wheat2 and all animal food was banished4 ,more attention also was paid to clothing1 bedding1 fresh air1 and exercise4 ,the result was1 that the nursery was vacated2 the nurse and physician were no longer needed2 and1 for two years1 not a single case of sickness or death occurred4 ,the third year1 also1 there were no deaths1 except those of two idiots and one other child1 all of whom were new inmates1 who had not been subjected to this treatment4 ,the teachers of the children also testified1 that there was a manifest increase of intellectual vigor and activity1 while there was much less irritability of temper4 ,let parents1 nurses1 and teachers1 reflect on the above statement1 and bear in mind1 that stupidity of intellect1 and irritability of temper1 as well as ill health1 are often caused by the mismanagement of the nursery1 in regard to the physical training of children4 ,there is probably no practice1 more deleterious1 than that of allowing children to eat at short intervals1 through the day4 ,as the stomach is thus kept constantly at work1 with no time for repose1 its functions are deranged1 and a weak or disordered stomach is the frequent result4 ,children should be required to keep cakes1 nuts1 and other good things which they may have to eat1 till just before a meal1 and then they will form a part of their regular supply4 ,this is better1 than to wait till after their hunger is satisfied by food1 when they will eat their niceties merely to gratify the palate1 and thus overload the stomach4 ,in regard to the intellectual training of young children1 some modification in the common practice is necessary1 with reference to their physical wellbeing4 ,more care is needful1 in providing well-ventilated schoolrooms1 and in securing more time for sports in the open air1 during school hours4 ,it is very important1 to most mothers1 that their young children should be removed from their care1 during the six school hours2 and it is very useful1 to quite young children1 to be subjected to the discipline of a school1 and to intercourse with other children of their own age4 ,and1 with a suitable teacher1 it is no matter how early children are sent to school1 provided their health is not endangered1 by impure air1 too much confinement1 and too great mental stimulus4 ,in regard to the formation of the moral character1 it has been too much the case1 that the discipline of the nursery has consisted of disconnected efforts to make children either do1 or refrain from doing1 certain particular acts4 ,do this1 and be rewarded2 do that1 and be punished2 is the ordinary routine of family government4 ,but children can be very early taught1 that their happiness1 both now and hereafter1 depends on the formation of habits of submission1 self-denial1 and benevolence4 ,and all the discipline of the nursery can be conducted by the parents1 not only with this general aim in their own minds1 but also with the same object daily set before the minds of the children4 ,whenever their wishes are crossed1 or their wills subdued1 they can be taught1 that all this is done1 not merely to please the parent1 or to secure some good to themselves or to others2 but as a part of that merciful training1 which is designed to form such a character1 and such habits1 that they can hereafter find their chief happiness in giving up their will to ,god1 and in living to do good to others1 instead of living merely to please themselves4 ,it can be pointed out to them1 that they must always submit their will to the will of ,god1 or else be continually miserable4 ,it can be shown1 how in the nursery1 and in the school1 and through all future days1 a child must practise the giving up of his will and wishes1 when they interfere with the rights and comfort of others2 and how important it is1 early to learn to do this1 so that it will1 by habit1 become easy and agreeable4 ,it can be shown1 how children1 who are indulged in all their wishes1 and who are never accustomed to any self-denial1 always find it hard to refrain from what injures themselves and others4 ,it can be shown1 also1 how important it is1 for every person1 to form such habits of benevolence1 towards others1 that self-denial1 in doing good1 will become easy4 ,parents have learned1 by experience1 that children can be constrained1 by authority and penalties1 to exercise self-denial1 for their own good1 till a habit is formed1 which makes the duty comparatively easy4 ,for example1 well-trained children can be accustomed to deny themselves tempting articles of food1 which are injurious1 until the practice ceases to be painful and difficult4 ,whereas1 an indulged child would be thrown into fits of anger or discontent1 when its wishes were crossed1 by restraints of this kind4 ,but it has not been so readily discerned1 that the same method is needful1 in order to form a habit of self-denial1 in doing good to others4 ,it has been supposed1 that1 while children must be forced1 by authority1 to be self-denying and prudent1 in regard to their own happiness1 it may properly be left to their own discretion1 whether they will practise any self-denial in doing good to others4 ,but the more difficult a duty is1 the greater is the need of parental authority1 in forming a habit1 which will make that duty easy4 ,in order to secure this1 some parents turn their earliest efforts to this object4 ,they require the young child always to offer to others a part of every thing which it receives2 always to comply with all reasonable requests of others for service2 and often to practise little acts of self-denial1 in order to secure some enjoyment for others4 ,if one child receives a present of some nicety1 he is required to share it with all his brothers and sisters4 ,if one asks his brother to help him in some sport1 and is met with a denial1 the parent requires the unwilling child to act benevolently1 and give up some of his time to increase his brother's enjoyment4 ,of course1 in such an effort as this1 discretion must be used1 as to the frequency and extent of the exercise of authority1 to induce a habit of benevolence4 ,but1 where parents deliberately aim at such an object1 and wisely conduct their instructions and discipline to secure it1 very much will be accomplished4 ,religious influence should be brought to bear directly upon this point4 ,in the very beginning of religious instruction1 ,jesus ,christ should be presented to the child1 as that great and good ,being1 who came into this world to teach children how to be happy1 both here and hereafter4 ,he1 who made it ,his meat and drink to do the will of ,his ,heavenly ,father2 who1 in the humblest station1 and most destitute condition1 denied ,himself1 daily1 and went about doing good2 should constantly be presented as the object of their imitation4 ,and as nothing so strongly influences the minds of children1 as the sympathy and example of a present friend1 all those1 who believe ,him to be an ever-present ,saviour1 should avail themselves of this powerful aid4 ,under such training1 ,jesus ,christ should be constantly presented to them1 as their ever-watchful1 tender1 and sympathizing friend4 ,if the abstract idea of an unembodied ,spirit with the majestic attributes of ,deity1 be difficult for the mind of infancy to grasp1 the simple1 the gentle1 the lovely1 character of ,christ1 is exactly adapted to the wants and comprehension of a child4 ,in this view1 how touching is the language of the ,saviour1 to ,his misjudging disciples1 ,suffer the little children to come unto me6 ,in regard to forming habits of obedience1 there have been two extremes1 both of which need to be shunned4 ,one is1 a stern and unsympathizing maintenance of parental authority1 demanding perfect and constant obedience1 without any attempt to convince a child of the propriety and benevolence of the requisitions1 and without any manifestation of sympathy and tenderness for the pain and difficulties which are to be met4 ,under such discipline1 children grow up to fear their parents1 rather than to love and trust them2 while some of the most valuable principles of character1 are chilled1 or forever blasted4 ,in shunning this danger1 other parents pass to the opposite extreme4 ,they put themselves too much on the footing of equals with their children1 as if little were due to superiority of relation1 age1 and experience4 ,nothing is exacted1 without the implied concession that the child is to be a judge of the propriety of the requisition2 and reason and persuasion are employed1 where simple command and obedience would be far better4 ,this system produces a most pernicious influence4 ,children soon perceive the position1 thus allowed them1 and take every advantage of it4 ,they soon learn to dispute parental requirements1 acquire habits of forwardness and conceit1 assume disrespectful manners and address1 maintain their views with pertinacity1 and yield to authority with ill-humor and resentment1 as if their rights were infringed4 ,the medium course1 is1 for the parent to take the attitude of a superior1 in age1 knowledge1 and relation1 who has a perfect right to control every action of the child1 and that1 too1 without giving any reason for the requisitions4 ,obey1 because your parent commands1 is always a proper and sufficient reason4 ,but care should be taken1 to convince the child that the parent is conducting a course of discipline1 designed to make him happy2 and in forming habits of implicit obedience1 self-denial1 and benevolence1 the child should have the reasons for most requisitions kindly stated2 never1 however1 on the demand of it1 from the child1 as a right1 but as an act of kindness from the parent4 ,it is impossible to govern children properly1 especially those of strong and sensitive feelings1 without a constant effort to appreciate the value which they attach to their enjoyments and pursuits4 ,a lady1 of great strength of mind and sensibility1 once told the writer1 that one of the most acute periods of suffering1 in her whole life1 was occasioned by the burning up of some milkweed-silk1 by her mother4 ,the child had found1 for the first time1 some of this shining and beautiful substance2 was filled with delight at her discovery2 was arranging it in parcels2 planning its future uses1 and her pleasure in showing it to her companions1--when her mother1 finding it strewed over the carpet1 hastily swept it into the fire1 and that1 too1 with so indifferent an air1 that the child fled away1 almost distracted with grief and disappointment4 ,the mother little realized the pain she had inflicted1 but the child felt the unkindness1 so severely1 that for several days her mother was an object almost of aversion4 ,while1 therefore1 the parent needs to carry on a steady course1 which will oblige the child always to give up its will1 whenever its own good1 or the greater claims of others1 require it1 this should be constantly connected with the expression of a tender sympathy1 for the trials and disappointments thus inflicted4 ,those1 who will join with children1 and help them along in their sports1 will learn1 by this mode1 to understand the feelings and interests of childhood2 while1 at the same time1 they secure a degree of confidence and affection1 which cannot be gained so easily1 in any other way4 ,and it is to be regretted1 that parents so often relinquish this most powerful mode of influence1 to domestics and playmates1 who often use it in the most pernicious manner4 ,in joining in such sports1 older persons should never relinquish the attitude of superiors1 or allow disrespectful manners or address4 ,and respectful deportment is never more cheerfully accorded1 than in seasons1 when young hearts are pleased1 and made grateful1 by having their tastes and enjoyments so efficiently promoted4 ,next to the want of all government1 the two most fruitful sources of evil to children1 are1 unsteadiness in government1 and over-government4 ,most of the cases1 in which the children of sensible and conscientious parents turn out badly1 result from one or the other of these causes4 ,in cases of unsteady government1 either one parent is very strict1 severe1 and unbending1 and the other excessively indulgent1 or else the parents are sometimes very strict and decided1 and at other times allow disobedience to go unpunished4 ,in such cases1 children1 never knowing exactly when they can escape with impunity1 are constantly tempted to make the trial4 ,the bad effects of this1 can be better appreciated1 by reference to one important principle of the mind4 ,it is found to be universally true1 that1 when any object of desire is put entirely beyond the reach of hope or expectation1 the mind very soon ceases to long for it1 and turns to other objects of pursuit4 ,but1 so long as the mind is hoping for some good1 and making efforts to obtain it1 any opposition excites irritable feelings4 ,let the object be put entirely beyond all hope1 and this irritation soon ceases4 ,in consequence of this principle1 those children1 who are under the care of persons of steady and decided government1 know1 that whenever a thing is forbidden or denied1 it is out of the reach of hope2 the desire1 therefore1 soon ceases1 and they turn to other objects4 ,but the children of undecided1 or of over-indulgent parents1 never enjoy this preserving aid4 ,when a thing is denied1 they never know but either coaxing may win it1 or disobedience secure it without any penalty1 and so they are kept in that state of hope and anxiety1 which produces irritation1 and tempts to insubordination4 ,the children of very indulgent parents1 and of those who are undecided and unsteady in government1 are very apt to become fretful1 irritable1 and fractious4 ,another class of persons1 in shunning this evil1 go to the other extreme1 and are very strict and pertinacious1 in regard to every requisition4 ,with them1 fault-finding and penalties abound1 until the children are either hardened into indifference of feeling1 and obtuseness of conscience1 or else become excessively irritable1 or misanthropic4 ,it demands great wisdom1 patience1 and self-control1 to escape these two extremes4 ,in aiming at this1 there are parents1 who have found the following maxims of very great value4 ,first1 ,avoid1 as much as possible1 the multiplication of rules and absolute commands4 ,instead of this1 take the attitude of advisers4 ,my child1 this is improper1 ,i wish you would remember not to do it4 ,this mode of address answers for all the little acts of heedlessness1 awkwardness1 or ill-manners1 so frequently occurring1 with children4 ,there are cases1 when direct and distinct commands are needful2 and1 in such cases1 a penalty for disobedience should be as steady and sure as the laws of ,nature4 ,where such steadiness1 and certainty of penalty1 attend disobedience1 children no more think of disobeying1 than they do of putting their fingers in a burning candle4 ,the next maxim1 is1 ,govern by rewards1 more than by penalties4 ,such faults as wilful disobedience1 lying1 dishonesty1 and indecent or profane language1 should be punished with severe penalties1 after a child has been fully instructed in the evil of such practices4 ,but all the constantly-recurring faults of the nursery1 such as ill-humor1 quarrelling1 carelessness1 and ill-manners1 may1 in a great many cases1 be regulated by gentle and kind remonstrances1 and by the offer of some reward for persevering efforts to form a good habit4 ,it is very injurious and degrading to any mind1 to be kept under the constant fear of penalties4 ,love and hope are the principles that should be mainly relied on1 in forming the habits of childhood4 ,another maxim1 and perhaps the most difficult1 is1 ,do not govern by the aid of severe and angry tones4 ,a single example will be given to illustrate this maxim4 ,a child is disposed to talk and amuse itself1 at table4 ,the mother requests it to be silent1 except when needing to ask for food1 or when spoken to by its older friends4 ,it constantly forgets4 ,the mother1 instead of rebuking1 in an impatient tone1 says1 ,my child1 you must remember not to talk4 ,i will remind you of it four times more1 and after that1 whenever you forget1 you must leave the table1 and wait till we are done4 ,if the mother is steady in her government1 it is not probable that she will have to apply this slight penalty more than once or twice4 ,this method is far more effectual1 than the use of sharp and severe tones1 to secure attention and recollection1 and often answers the purpose1 as well as offering some reward4 ,the writer has been in some families1 where the most efficient and steady government has been sustained1 without the use of a cross or angry tone2 and in others1 where a far less efficient discipline was kept up1 by frequent severe rebukes and angry remonstrances4 ,in the first case1 the children followed the example set them1 and seldom used severe tones to each other2 in the latter1 the method employed by the parents1 was imitated by the children2 and cross words and angry tones resounded from morning till night1 in every portion of the household4 ,another important maxim1 is1 ,try to keep children in a happy state of mind4 ,every one knows1 by experience1 that it is easier to do right1 and submit to rule1 when cheerful and happy1 than when irritated4 ,this is peculiarly true of children2 and a wise mother1 when she finds her child fretful and impatient1 and thus constantly doing wrong1 will often remedy the whole difficulty1 by telling some amusing story1 or by getting the child engaged in some amusing sport4 ,this strongly shows the importance of learning to govern children without the employment of angry tones1 which always produce irritation4 ,children of active1 heedless temperament1 or those who are odd1 awkward1 or unsuitable1 in their remarks and deportment1 are often essentially injured1 by a want of patience and self-control in those who govern them4 ,such children1 often possess a morbid sensibility1 which they strive to conceal1 or a desire of love and approbation1 which preys like a famine on the soul4 ,and yet1 they become objects of ridicule and rebuke1 to almost every member of the family1 until their sensibilities are tortured into obtuseness or misanthropy4 ,such children1 above all others1 need tenderness and sympathy4 ,a thousand instances of mistake or forgetfulness should be passed over1 in silence1 while opportunities for commendation and encouragement should be diligently sought4 ,in regard to the formation of habits of self-denial1 in childhood1 it is astonishing to see how parents1 who are very sensible1 often seem to regard this matter4 ,instead of inuring their children to this duty1 in early life1 so that by habit it may be made easy in after-days1 they seem to be studiously seeking to cut them off1 from every chance to secure such a preparation4 ,every wish of the child is studiously gratified2 and1 where a necessity exists1 of crossing its wishes1 some compensating pleasure is offered1 in return4 ,such parents1 often maintain that nothing shall be put on their table1 which their children may not join them in eating4 ,but where1 so easily and surely as at the daily meal1 can that habit of self-denial be formed1 which is so needful in governing the appetites1 and which children must acquire1 or be ruined8 ,the food which is proper for grown persons1 is often unsuitable for children2 and this is a sufficient reason for accustoming them to see others partake of delicacies1 which they must not share4 ,requiring children to wait till others are helped1 and to refrain from conversation at table1 except when addressed by their elders1 is another mode of forming habits of self-denial and self-control4 ,requiring them to help others1 first1 and to offer the best to others1 has a similar influence4 ,in forming the moral habits of children1 it is wise to take into account the peculiar temptations to which they are to be exposed4 ,the people of this ,nation are eminently a trafficking people2 and the present standard of honesty1 as to trade and debts1 is very low1 and every year seems sinking still lower4 ,it is1 therefore1 pre-eminently important1 that children should be trained to strict honesty1 both in word and deed4 ,it is not merely teaching children to avoid absolute lying1 which is needed4 ,all kinds of deceit should be guarded against2 and all kinds of little dishonest practices be strenuously opposed4 ,a child should be brought up with the determined principle1 never to run in debt1 but to be content to live in an humbler way1 in order to secure that true independence1 which should be the noblest distinction of an ,american citizen4 ,there is no more important duty1 devolving upon a mother1 than the cultivation of habits of modesty and propriety in young children4 ,all indecorous words or deportment1 should be carefully restrained2 and delicacy and reserve studiously cherished4 ,it is a common notion1 that it is important to secure these virtues to one sex1 more than to the other2 and1 by a strange inconsistency1 the sex most exposed to danger1 is the one selected as least needing care4 ,but a wise mother will be especially careful1 that her sons are trained to modesty and purity of mind4 ,but few mothers are sufficiently aware of the dreadful penalties which often result from indulged impurity of thought4 ,if children1 in future life1 can be preserved from licentious associates1 it is supposed that their safety is secured4 ,but the records of our insane retreats1 and the pages of medical writers1 teach1 that even in solitude1 and without being aware of the sin or the danger1 children may inflict evils on themselves1 which not unfrequently terminate in disease1 delirium1 and death4 ,every mother and every teacher1 therefore1 carefully avoiding all explanation of the mystery1 should teach the young1 that the indulgence of impure thoughts and actions1 is visited by the most awful and terrific penalties4 ,disclosing the details of vice1 in order to awaken dread of its penalties1 is a most dangerous experiment1 and often leads to the very evils feared4 ,the attempts made1 in late years1 to guard children from future dangers1 by circulating papers1 and books of warning and information1 have led to such frightful results1 that it is hoped the experiment will never again be pursued4 ,the safest course1 is1 to cultivate habits of modesty and delicacy1 and to teach1 that all impure thoughts1 words1 and actions1 are forbidden by ,god1 and are often visited by the most dreadful punishment4 ,at the same time1 it is important for mothers to protect the young mind from false notions of delicacy4 ,it should be shown1 that whatever is necessary1 to save from suffering or danger1 must be met1 without shame or aversion2 and that all1 which ,god has instituted1 is wise1 and right1 and pure4 ,it is in reference to these dangers1 that mothers and teachers should carefully guard the young from those highly-wrought fictions1 which lead the imagination astray2 and especially from that class of licentious works1 made interesting by genius and taste1 which have flooded this ,country1 and which are often found on the parlor table1 even of moral and ,christian people4 ,of this class1 the writings of ,bulwer stand conspicuous4 ,the only difference1 between some of his works and the obscene prints1 for vending which men suffer the penalties of the law1 is1 that the last are so gross1 as to revolt the taste and startle the mind to resistance1 while ,bulwer presents the same ideas1 so clothed in the fascinations of taste and genius1 as most insidiously to seduce the unwary4 ,it seems to be the chief aim of this licentious writer1 to make thieves1 murderers1 and adulterers1 appear beautiful1 refined1 and interesting4 ,it is time that all virtuous persons in the community should rise in indignation1 not only against the writers1 but the venders of such poison4 ,,footnotes3 ,o ,see his ',physiology of ,digestion considered with relation to the ,principles of ,dietetics1' issued by the ,publishers of this work4 ,p ,the writer is not an advocate for total abstinence from animal food4 ,she coincides with the best authorities1 in thinking that adults eat too much2 that children1 while growing1 should eat very little1 and quite young children1 none at all4 ,,chapter ,,xxi4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,the ,,sick4 ,every woman who has the care of young children1 or of a large family1 is frequently called upon1 to advise what shall be done1 for some one who is indisposed2 and often1 in circumstances where she must trust solely to her own judgement4 ,in such cases1 some err1 by neglecting to do any thing at all1 till the patient is quite sick2 but a still greater number err1 from excessive and injurious dosing4 ,the two great causes of the ordinary slight attacks of illness1 in a family1 are1 sudden chills1 which close the pores of the skin1 and thus affect the throat1 lungs1 or bowels2 and the excessive or improper use of food4 ,in most cases1 of illness from the first cause1 bathing the feet1 and some aperient drink to induce perspiration1 are suitable remedies4 ,a slight cathartic1 also1 is often serviceable4 ,in case of illness from improper food1 or excess in eating1 fasting1 for one or two meals1 to give the system time and chance to relieve itself1 is the safest remedy4 ,sometimes1 a gentle cathartic may be needful2 but it is best first to try fasting4 ,the following extract from a discourse of ,dr4 ,burne1 before the ,london ,medical ,society1 contains important information4 ,in civilized life1 the causes1 which are most generally and continually operating in the production of diseases1 are1 affections of the mind1 improper diet1 and retention of the intestinal excretions4 ,the undue retention of excrementitious matter1 allows of the absorption of its more liquid parts1 which is a cause of great impurity to the blood1 and the excretions1 thus rendered hard and knotty1 act more or less as extraneous substances1 and1 by their irritation1 produce a determination of blood to the intestines and to the neighboring viscera1 which ultimately ends in inflammation4 ,it also has a great effect on the whole system2 causes a determination of blood to the head1 which oppresses the brain and dejects the mind2 deranges the functions of the stomach2 causes flatulency2 and produces a general state of discomfort4 ,dr4 ,combe remarks1 on this subject1 ,in the natural and healthy state1 under a proper system of diet1 and with sufficient exercise1 the bowels are relieved regularly1 once every day4 ,habit is powerful in modifying the result1 and in sustaining healthy action when once fairly established4 ,hence the obvious advantage of observing as much regularity1 in relieving the system1 as in taking our meals4 ,it is often the case that soliciting ,nature at a regular period1 once a day1 will remedy constipation1 without medicine1 and induce a regular and healthy state of the bowels4 ,when1 however1 as most frequently happens1 the constipation arises from the absence of all assistance from the abdominal and respiratory muscles1 the first step to be taken1 is1 again to solicit their aid2 first1 by removing all impediments to free respiration1 such as stays1 waistbands and belts2 secondly1 by resorting to such active exercises1 as shall call the muscles into full and regular action2 and1 lastly1 by proportioning the quantity of food to the wants of the system1 and the condition of the digestive organs4 ,if we employ these means1 systematically and perseveringly1 we shall rarely fail in at last restoring the healthy action of the bowels1 with little aid from medicine4 ,but if we neglect these modes1 we may go on1 for years1 adding pill to pill1 and dose to dose1 without ever attaining the end at which we aim4 ,there is no point1 in which a woman needs more knowledge and discretion1 than in administering remedies for what seem slight attacks1 which are not supposed to require the attention of a physician4 ,it is little realized1 that purgative drugs are unnatural modes of stimulating the internal organs1 tending to exhaust them of their secretions1 and to debilitate and disturb the animal economy4 ,for this reason1 they should be used as little as possible2 and fasting1 and perspiration1 and the other methods pointed out1 should always be first resorted to4 ,when medicine must be given1 it should be borne in mind1 that there are various classes of purgatives1 which produce very diverse effects4 ,some1 like salts1 operate to thin the blood1 and reduce the system2 others are stimulating2 and others have a peculiar operation on certain organs4 ,of course1 great discrimination and knowledge is needed1 in order to select the kind1 which is suitable to the particular disease1 or to the particular constitution of the invalid4 ,this shows the folly of using the many kinds of pills1 and other quack medicines1 where no knowledge can be had of their composition4 ,pills which are good for one kind of disease1 might operate as poison in another state of the system4 ,it is wise to keep always on hand some simple cathartic1 for family use1 in slight attacks2 and always to resort to medical advice1 whenever powerful remedies seem to be demanded4,q ,it is very common1 in cases of colds which affect the lungs or throat1 to continue to try one dose after another1 for relief4 ,it will be well to bear in mind1 at such times1 that all which goes into the stomach1 must be first absorbed into the blood1 before it can reach the diseased part2 and that there is some danger of injuring the stomach1 or other parts of the system1 by such a variety of doses1 many of which1 it is probable1 will be directly contradictory in their nature1 and thus neutralize any supposed benefit they might separately impart4 ,it is very unwise1 to tempt the appetite of a person who is indisposed4 ,the cessation of appetite is the warning of ,nature1 that the system is in such a state1 that food cannot be digested4 ,the following suggestions may be found useful1 in regard to nursing the sick4 ,as nothing contributes more to the restoration of health1 than pure air1 it should be a primary object1 to keep a sick-room well ventilated4 ,at least twice in the twenty-four hours1 the patient should be well covered1 and fresh air freely admitted from out of doors4 ,after this1 if need be1 the room should be restored to a proper temperature1 by the aid of a fire4 ,bedding and clothing should also be well aired1 and frequently changed2 as the exhalations from the body1 in sickness1 are peculiarly deleterious4 ,frequent ablutions1 of the whole body1 if possible1 are very useful2 and for these1 warm water may be employed4 ,the following1 are useful directions for dressing a blister4 ,spread thinly1 on a linen cloth1 an ointment1 composed of one third of beeswax to two thirds of tallow2 lay this upon a linen cloth1 folded many times4 ,with a sharp pair of scissors1 make an aperture in the lower part of the bag of water1 with a little hole1 above1 to give it vent4 ,break the raised skin as little as possible4 ,lay on the cloth1 spread as directed4 ,the blister1 at first1 should be dressed as often as three times in a day1 and the dressing renewed each time4 ,a sick-room should always be kept very neat1 and in perfect order2 and all haste1 noise1 and bustle1 should be avoided4 ,in order to secure neatness1 order1 and quiet1 in case of long illness1 the following arrangements should be made4 ,keep a large box for fuel1 which will need to be filled only twice in twenty-four hours4 ,provide1 also1 and keep in the room1 or an adjacent closet1 a small teakettle1 a saucepan1 a pail of water1 for drinks and ablutions1 a pitcher1 a covered porringer1 two pint bowls1 two tumblers1 two cups and saucers1 two wine glasses1 two large and two small spoons2 also1 a dish in which to wash these articles2 a good supply of towels1 and a broom4 ,keep a slop-bucket1 near by1 to receive the wash of the room4 ,procuring all these articles at once1 will save much noise and confusion4 ,whenever medicine or food is given1 spread a clean towel over the person or bedclothing1 and get a clean handkerchief1 as nothing is more annoying to a weak stomach1 than the stickiness and soiling produced by medicine and food4 ,keep the fireplace neat1 and always wash all articles1 and put them in order1 as soon as they are out of use4 ,a sick person has nothing to do1 but look about the room2 and when every thing is neat and in order1 a feeling of comfort is induced1 while disorder1 filth1 and neglect1 are constant objects of annoyance1 which1 if not complained of1 are yet felt4 ,always prepare food for the sick1 in the neatest and most careful manner4 ,it is in sickness1 that the senses of smell and taste are most susceptible of annoyance2 and often1 little mistakes or negligences1 in preparing food1 will take away all appetite4 ,food for the sick1 should be cooked on coals1 that no smoke may have access to it2 and great care must be taken1 to prevent any adherence to the bottom1 as this always gives a disagreeable taste4 ,keeping clean handkerchiefs and towels at hand1 cooling the pillows1 sponging the hands with water1 swabbing the mouth with a clean linen rag1 on the end of a stick1 are modes of increasing the comfort of the sick4 ,always throw a shawl over a sick person1 when raised up4 ,be careful to understand a physician's directions1 and to obey them implicitly4 ,if it be supposed that any other person knows better about the case1 than the physician1 dismiss the physician1 and employ that person in his stead4 ,in nursing the sick1 always speak gently and cheeringly2 and1 while you express sympathy for their pain and trials1 stimulate them to bear all with fortitude1 and with resignation to ,him who has appointed the trial4 ,offer to read the ,bible1 or other devotional books1 whenever it is suitable1 and will not be deemed obtrusive4 ,it is always best to consult the physician1 as to where medicines shall be purchased1 and to show the articles to him before using them1 as great impositions are practised in selling old1 useless1 and adulterated drugs4 ,always put labels on vials of medicine1 and keep them out of the reach of children4 ,be careful to label all powders1 and particularly all white powders2 as many poisonous medicines1 in this form1 are easily mistaken for others which are harmless4 ,,footnote3 ,q ,the following electuary1 by a distinguished physician1 is used by many friends of the writer1 as a standing resort1 in cases of constipation1 or where a gentle cathartic is needed4 ,one recommendation of it1 is1 that children always love it1 and eat the pills as good plums4 ,two ounces of powdered ,senna2 one ounce of ,cream of ,tartar2 one ounce of ,sulphur2 mixed with sufficient ,confection of ,senna1 to form an electuary4 ,make this into pills1 of the size of peas1 and give a young child two or three1 as the case may be4 ,taking three pills1 every night1 will generally relieve constipation in an adult4 ,,chapter ,,xxii4 ,,on ,,accidents ,,and ,,antidotes4 ,when serious accidents occur1 medical aid should be immediately procured4 ,till that can be done1 the following directions may be useful4 ,when a child has any thing in its throat1 first try1 with the finger1 to get the article up4 ,if this cannot be done1 push it down into the stomach1 with a smooth elastic stick4 ,if the article be a pin1 sharp bone1 glass1 or other cutting substance1 give an emetic which will immediately operate4 ,in the case of a common cut1 bind the lips of the wound together1 with a rag1 and put nothing else on4 ,if the cut be large1 and so situated that rags will not bind it together1 use sticking plaster1 cut in strips and laid obliquely across the cut4 ,sometimes it is needful to take a stitch1 with a needle and thread1 on each lip of the wound1 and draw the two sides together4 ,if an artery be cut1 it must be immediately tied up1 or the person will bleed to death4 ,the blood from an artery is of a bright red color1 and spirts out1 in regular jets1 at each beat of the heart4 ,take up the bleeding end of the artery1 and hold it1 or tie it up1 till a surgeon comes4 ,when the artery cannot be found1 and in all cases of bad cuts on any of the limbs1 apply compression2 when it can be done1 tie a very tight bandage above the wound1 if it be below the heart1 and below if the wound be above the heart4 ,put a stick into the band1 and twist it as tight as can be borne1 till surgical aid be obtained4 ,bathe bad bruises in hot water1 or hot spirits1 or a decoction of bitter herbs4 ,entire rest1 is the remedy for sprains4 ,bathing in warm water1 or warm whiskey is very useful4 ,a sprained leg should be kept in a horizontal position1 on a bed or sofa4 ,when a leg is broken1 tie it to the other leg1 to keep it still2 and1 if possible1 get a surgeon1 before the limb swells4 ,bind a broken arm to a piece of shingle1 and keep it still1 till it is set4 ,in case of a blow on the head1 or a fall1 causing insensibility1 use a mustard paste on the back of the neck and pit of the stomach1 and rub the body with spirits4 ,after the circulation is restored1 bleeding is often necessary2 but it is very dangerous to attempt it before4 ,in cases of bad burns1 where the skin is taken off1 the great aim should be1 to keep the injured part from the air4 ,for this purpose1 sprinkle on flour1 or apply a liniment1 made of linseed oil and lime-water1 in equal quantities4 ,sweet-oil1 on cotton1 is good1 and with laudanum1 alleviates pain3 but many skins cannot bear the application of raw cotton1 which is sometimes very good4 ,when a dressing is put on1 do not remove it1 as it will be sure to protract the cure1 by admitting the air4 ,in case of drowning1 lay the person in a warm bed1 or on blankets1 on the right side1 with the head raised1 and a little inclined forward4 ,clear the mouth with the fingers1 and cautiously apply hartshorn to the nose4 ,raise the heat of the body1 by bottles of warm water1 applied to the pit of the stomach1 armpits1 groins1 and soles of the feet4 ,apply friction to the whole body1 with warm hands and cloths dipped in warm spirits of camphor4 ,endeavor to produce the natural action of the lungs1 by introducing the nose of a bellows into one nostril and closing the other1 at the same time pressing on the throat1 to close the gullet4 ,when the lungs are thus inflated1 press gently on the breast and belly1 and continue the process1 for a long time4 ,cases have been known1 where efforts have been protracted eight or ten hours1 without effect1 and then have proved successful4 ,rolling the body on a barrel1 suspending it by the heels1 giving injections of tobacco1 and many other practices1 which have been common1 are highly injurious4 ,after signs of life appear1 give small quantities of wine1 or spirits and water4 ,in cases of poisoning1 from corrosive sublimate1 beat up the whites of twelve eggs1 mix them in two quarts of water1 and give a tumbler full every three minutes1 till vomiting is produced4 ,this is the surest remedy4 ,when this is not at hand1 fill the stomach1 in like manner1 with any mucilaginous substance1 such as gum and water1 flaxseed1 or slippery-elm-bark tea4 ,flour and water1 or sugar and water1 in great quantities1 are next best2 and if none of these be at hand1 give copious draughts of water alone4 ,in case of poisoning from arsenic1 cobalt1 or any such mineral1 administer1 as soon as possible1 large quantities of lime-water and sugared-water1 of warm1 or even of cold water1 or of flaxseed tea1 or some other mucilaginous drink1 to distend the stomach and produce immediate vomiting1 and thereby eject the poison4 ,if opium1 or any of its preparations1 has been taken1 in dangerous quantities1 induce vomiting1 without a moment's unnecessary delay1 by giving1 immediately1 in a small quantity of water1 ten grains of ipecac1 and ten grains of sulphate of zinc1 7white vitriol1 which is the most prompt emetic known17 and repeat the dose every fifteen minutes1 till the stomach is entirely emptied4 ,where white vitriol is not at hand1 substitute three or four grains of blue vitriol1 7sulphate of copper47 ,when the stomach is emptied1 but not before1 give1 every ten minutes1 alternately1 a cup of acid drink1 and a cup of very strong coffee1 made by pouring a pint of boiling water on a quarter of a pound of ground burnt coffee1 and letting it stand ten minutes1 and then straining it4 ,continue these drinks1 till the danger is over4 ,dash cold water on the head1 apply friction to the body1 and keep the person in constant motion1 to prevent sleep4 ,if any kind of acid be taken1 in poisonous quantities1 give strong pearlash-water4 ,if ley1 or pearlash1 or any alkali be taken1 give sweet-oil2 or1 if this be wanting1 lamp-oil2 or1 if neither be at hand1 give vinegar1 freely4 ,in case of stupefaction1 from the fumes of charcoal1 or from entering a well1 limekiln1 or coal mine1 expose the person to cold air1 lying on his back1 dash cold water on the head and breast1 and rub the body with spirits of camphor1 vinegar1 or ,cologne water4 ,apply mustard paste to the pit of the stomach1 and use friction on the hands1 feet1 and whole length of the back bone4 ,give some acid drink1 and1 when the person revives1 place him in a warm bed1 in fresh air4 ,be prompt and persevering4 ,in case of bleeding at the lungs1 or stomach1 or throat1 give a teaspoonful of dry salt1 and repeat it often4 ,for bleeding at the nose1 pour cold water on the back of the neck1 keeping the head elevated4 ,if a person be struck with lightning1 throw pailfuls of cold water on the head and body1 and apply mustard poultices on the stomach1 with friction of the whole body1 and inflation of the lungs4 ,when no other emetic can be found1 pounded mustard seed1 taken a teaspoonful at a time1 will answer4 ,the ground mustard is not so effectual1 but will do4 ,in case of fire1 wrap a woollen blanket about you1 to protect from the fire4 ,if the staircases are on fire1 tie the corners of the sheets together1 very firmly1 fasten one end to the bedstead1 draw it to the window1 and let yourself down4 ,never read in bed1 lest you fall asleep1 and the bed be set on fire4 ,if your clothes get on fire1 never run1 but lie down1 and roll about till you can reach a bed or carpet to wrap yourself in1 and thus put out the fire4 ,keep young children in woollen dresses1 to save them from the risk of fire4 ,in thunderstorms1 shut the doors and windows4 ,the safest part of a room1 is its centre2 and where there is a featherbed in the apartment1 that will be found the most secure resting-place4 ,a lightning rod1 if it be well pointed1 and run deep into the earth1 is a certain protection to a circle around it1 whose diameter equals the height of the rod above the highest chimney4 ,but it protects no further than this extent4 ,,chapter ,,xxiii4 ,,on ,,domestic ,,amusements ,,and ,,social ,,duties4 ,whenever the laws of body and mind are properly understood1 it will be allowed1 that every person needs some kind of recreation2 and that1 by seeking it1 the body is strengthened1 the mind is invigorated1 and all our duties are more cheerfully and successfully performed4 ,children1 whose bodies are rapidly growing1 and whose nervous system is tender and excitable1 need much more amusement1 than persons of mature age4 ,persons1 also1 who are oppressed with great responsibilities and duties1 or who are taxed by great intellectual or moral excitement1 need recreations which secure physical exercise1 and draw off the mind from absorbing interests4 ,unfortunately1 such persons are those who least resort to amusements1 while the idle1 gay1 and thoughtless1 seek those which are needless1 and for which useful occupation would be a most beneficial substitute4 ,as the only legitimate object of amusements1 is1 to prepare mind and body for the proper discharge of duty1 any protracting of such as interfere with regular employments1 or induce excessive fatigue1 or weary the mind1 or invade the proper hours for repose1 must be sinful4 ,in deciding what should be selected1 and what avoided1 the following rules are binding4 ,in the first place1 no amusements1 which inflict needless pain1 should ever be allowed4 ,all tricks which cause fright1 or vexation1 and all sports1 which involve suffering to animals1 should be utterly forbidden4 ,hunting and fishing1 for mere sport1 can never be justified4 ,if a man can convince his children1 that he follows these pursuits to gain food or health1 and not for amusement1 his example may not be very injurious4 ,but1 when children see grown persons kill and frighten animals1 for sport1 habits of cruelty1 rather than feelings of tenderness and benevolence1 are induced4 ,in the next place1 we should seek no recreations1 which endanger life1 or interfere with important duties4 ,as the only legitimate object of amusements1 is to promote health1 and prepare for more serious duties1 selecting those which have a directly opposite tendency1 cannot be justified4 ,of course1 if a person feel that the previous day's diversions have shortened the hours of needful repose1 or induced a lassitude of mind or body1 instead of invigorating them1 it is certain that an evil has been done1 which should never be repeated4 ,a third rule1 is1 to avoid those amusements1 which experience has shown to be so exciting1 and connected with so many temptations1 as to be pernicious in tendency1 both to the individual and to the community4 ,it is on this ground1 that horse-racing and circus-riding are excluded4 ,not because there is any thing positively wrong1 in having men and horses run1 and perform feats of agility1 or in persons looking on for the diversion2 but because experience has shown so many evils connected with these recreations1 that they should be relinquished4 ,so with theatres4 ,the enacting of characters1 and the amusement thus afforded1 in itself may be harmless2 and possibly1 in certain cases1 might be useful3 but experience has shown so many evils to result from this source1 that it is deemed wrong to patronize it4 ,so1 also1 with those exciting games of chance1 which are employed in gambling4 ,under the same head1 comes dancing1 in the estimation of the great majority of the religious world4 ,still1 there are many intelligent1 excellent1 and conscientious persons1 who hold a contrary opinion4 ,such maintain1 that it is an innocent and healthful amusement1 tending to promote ease of manners1 cheerfulness1 social affection1 and health of mind and body2 that evils are involved only in its excess2 that1 like food1 study1 or religious excitement1 it is only wrong1 when not properly regulated2 and that1 if serious and intelligent people would strive to regulate1 rather than banish1 this amusement1 much more good would be secured4 ,on the other side1 it is objected1 not that dancing is a sin1 in itself considered1 for it was once a part of sacred worship2 not that it would be objectionable1 if it were properly regulated2 not that it does not tend1 when used in a proper manner1 to health of body and mind1 to grace of manners1 and to social enjoyment3 all these things are conceded4 ,but it is objected to1 on the same ground as horse-racing1 card-playing1 and theatrical entertainments2 that we are to look at amusements as they are1 and not as they might be4 ,horseraces might be so managed1 as not to involve cruelty1 gambling1 drunkenness1 and every other vice4 ,and so might theatres and cards4 ,and if serious and intelligent persons1 undertook to patronize these1 in order to regulate them1 perhaps they would be somewhat raised from the depths1 to which they are now sunk4 ,but such persons1 know1 that1 with the weak sense of moral obligation existing in the mass of society1 and the imperfect ideas mankind have of the proper use of amusements1 and the little self-control1 which men1 or women1 or children1 practise1 these will not1 in fact1 be thus-regulated4 ,and they believe dancing to be liable to the same objections4 ,as this recreation is actually conducted1 it does not tend to produce health of body or mind1 but directly the contrary4 ,if young and old went out to dance together1 in the open air1 as the ,french peasants do1 it would be a very different sort of amusement1 from that which is witnessed1 in a room1 furnished with many lights1 and filled with guests1 both expending the healthful part of the atmosphere1 where the young collect1 in their tightest dresses1 to protract1 for several hours1 a kind of physical exertion1 which is not habitual to them4 ,during this process1 the blood is made to circulate more swiftly than ordinary1 in circumstances where it is less perfectly oxygenized than health requires2 the pores of the skin are excited by heat and exercise2 the stomach is loaded with indigestible articles1 and the quiet1 needful to digestion1 withheld2 the diversion is protracted beyond the usual hour for repose2 and then1 when the skin is made the most highly susceptible to damps and miasms1 the company pass from a warm room to the cold night-air4 ,it is probable1 that no single amusement can be pointed out1 combining so many injurious particulars1 as this1 which is so often defended as a healthful one4 ,even if parents1 who train their children to dance1 can keep them from public balls1 7which is seldom the case17 dancing in private parlors is subject to nearly all the same mischievous influences4 ,as to the claim of social benefits1--when a dancing-party occupies the parlors1 and the music begins1 most of the conversation ceases2 while the young prepare themselves for future sickness1 and the old look smilingly on4 ,as to the claim for ease and grace of manners1--all that is gained1 by this practice1 can be better secured1 by ,calisthenics1 which1 in all its parts1 embraces a much more perfect system1 both of healthful exercise1 graceful movement1 and pleasing carriage4 ,the writer was once inclined to the common opinion1 that dancing was harmless1 and might be properly regulated2 and she allowed a fair trial to be made1 under her auspices1 by its advocates4 ,the result was1 a full conviction1 that it secured no good effect1 which could not be better gained another way2 that it involved the most pernicious evils to health1 character1 and happiness2 and that those parents were wise1 who brought up their children with the full understanding that they were neither to learn nor to practise the art4 ,in the fifteen years1 during which she has had the care of young ladies1 she has never known any case1 where learning this art1 and following the amusement1 did not have a bad effect1 either on the habits1 the intellect1 the feelings1 or the health4 ,those young ladies1 who are brought up with less exciting recreations1 are uniformly likely to be the most contented and most useful1 while those1 who enter the path to which this diversion leads1 acquire a relish and desire for high excitement1 which make the more steady and quiet pursuits and enjoyments of home1 comparatively tasteless4 ,this1 the writer believes to be generally the case1 though not invariably so2 for there are exceptions to all general rules4 ,in reference to these exciting amusements1 so liable to danger and excess1 parents are bound to regard the principle1 which is involved in the petition1 ,lead us not into temptation4 ,would it not be inconsistent1 to teach this prayer1 to the lisping tongue of childhood1 and then send it to the dancing-master1 to acquire a love for a diversion1 which leads to constant temptations that so few find strength to resist8 ,it is encouraging1 to those who take this view of the subject1 to find how fast the most serious and intelligent portion of the community is coming to a similar result4 ,twenty-five years ago1 dancing was universally practised by the young1 as a matter of course1 in every part of the ,nation4 ,now1 in those parts of the ,country1 where religion and intelligence are most extensively diffused1 it is almost impossible to get up a ball1 among the more refined classes of the community4 ,the amusement is fast leaving this rank in society1 to remain as a resource for those1 whose grade of intelligence and refinement does not relish more elevated recreations4 ,still1 as there is great diversity of opinion1 among persons of equal worth and intelligence1 a spirit of candor and courtesy should be practised1 on both sides4 ,the sneer at bigotry and narrowness of views1 on one side1 and the uncharitable implication of want of piety1 or sense1 on the other1 are equally illbred and unchristian4 ,truth1 on this subject1 is best promoted1 not by ill-natured crimination and rebuke1 but by calm reason1 generous candor1 forbearance1 and kindness4 ,there is another species of amusement1 which a large portion of the religious world have been accustomed to put under the same condemnation as the preceding4 ,this is novel-reading4 ,the confusion and difference of opinion on this subject1 have arisen from a want of clear and definite distinctions4 ,now1 as it is impossible to define what are novels and what are not1 so as to include one class of fictitious writings and exclude every other1 it is impossible to lay down any rule respecting them4 ,the discussion1 in fact1 turns on the use of those works of imagination1 which belong to the class of narratives4 ,that this species of reading1 is not only lawful1 but necessary and useful1 is settled by ,divine examples1 in the parables and allegories of ,scripture4 ,of course1 the question must be1 what kind of fabulous writings must be avoided1 and what allowed4 ,in deciding this1 no specific rules can be given2 but it must be a matter to be regulated by the nature and circumstances of each case4 ,no works of fiction1 which tend to throw the allurements of taste and genius around vice and crime1 should ever be tolerated2 and all that tend to give false views of life and duty1 should also be banished4 ,of those1 which are written for mere amusement1 presenting scenes and events that are interesting and exciting1 and having no bad moral influence1 much must depend on character and circumstances4 ,some minds are torpid and phlegmatic1 and need to have the imagination stimulated3 such would be benefitted by this kind of reading4 ,others have quick and active imaginations1 and would be as much injured4 ,some persons are often so engaged in absorbing interests1 that any thing innocent1 which will for a short time draw off the mind1 is of the nature of a medicine2 and1 in such cases1 this kind of reading is useful4 ,there is need1 also1 that some men should keep a supervision of the current literature of the day1 as guardians1 to warn others of danger4 ,for this purpose1 it is more suitable for editors1 clergymen1 and teachers1 to read indiscriminately1 than for any other class of persons2 for they are the guardians of the public weal1 in matters of literature1 and should be prepared to advise parents and young persons of the evils in one direction and the good in another4 ,in doing this1 however1 they are bound to go on the same principles which regulate physicians1 when they visit infected districts1--using every precaution to prevent injury to themselves2 having as little to do with pernicious exposures1 as a benevolent regard to others will allow2 and faithfully employing all the knowledge and opportunities1 thus gained1 for warning and preserving others4 ,there is much danger1 in taking this course1 that men will seek the excitement of the imagination1 for the mere pleasure it affords1 under the plea of preparing to serve the public1 when this is neither the aim nor the result4 ,in regard to the use of such works1 by the young1 as a general rule1 they ought not to be allowed to any1 except those of a dull and phlegmatic temperament1 until the solid parts of education are secured1 and a taste for more elevated reading is acquired4 ,if these stimulating condiments in literature be freely used1 in youth1 all relish for more solid reading1 will1 in a majority of cases1 be destroyed4 ,if parents succeed in securing habits of cheerful and implicit obedience1 it will be very easy to regulate this matter1 by prohibiting the reading of any story-book1 until the consent of the parent is obtained4 ,it is not unfrequently the case1 that advocates for dancing1 and the other more exciting amusements1 speak as if those1 who were more strict in these matters1 were aiming to deprive the young of all diversions2 just as if1 when cards1 theatres1 and dancing1 are cut off1 nothing remains but serious and severe duties4 ,perhaps there has been some just ground of objection to the course often pursued by parents1 in neglecting to provide agreeable and suitable substitutes1 for the amusements denied2 but1 there is a great abundance of safe1 healthful1 and delightful1 recreations1 which all parents may secure for their children4 ,some of these will here be pointed out4 ,one of the most useful and important1 is1 the cultivation of flowers and fruits4 ,this1 especially for the daughters of a family1 is greatly promotive of health and amusement4 ,it is with the hope1 that many young ladies1 whose habits are now so formed1 that they can never be induced to a course of active domestic exercise1 so long as their parents are able to hire domestics1 may yet be led to an employment1 which will tend to secure health and vigor of constitution1 that so much space is given1 in this work1 to directions for the cultivation of fruits and flowers4 ,it would be a most desirable improvement1 if all female schools could be furnished with suitable grounds1 and instruments1 for the cultivation of fruits and flowers1 and every inducement offered1 to engage the young ladies in this pursuit4 ,no father1 who wishes to have his daughters grow up to be healthful women1 can take a surer method to secure this end4 ,let him set apart a portion of his yard and garden1 for fruits and flowers1 and see that the soil is well prepared and dug over1 and all the rest may be committed to the care of the children4 ,these would need to be provided with a light hoe and rake1 a dibble1 or garden trowel1 a watering-pot1 and means and opportunities for securing seeds1 roots1 buds1 and grafts1 all which might be done at a trifling expense4 ,then1 with proper encouragement1 and by the aid of such directions as are contained in this work1 every man1 who has even half an acre1 could secure a small ,eden around his premises4 ,in pursuing this amusement1 children can also be led to acquire many useful habits4 ,early rising would1 in many cases1 be thus secured2 and if they were required to keep their walks and borders free from weeds and rubbish1 habits of order and neatness would be induced4 ,benevolent and social feelings could also be cultivated1 by influencing children to share their fruits and flowers with friends and neighbors1 as well as to distribute roots and seeds to those1 who have not the means of procuring them4 ,a woman or a child1 by giving seeds1 or slips1 or roots1 to a washerwoman1 or a farmer's boy1 thus exciting them to love and cultivate fruits and flowers1 awakens a new and refining source of enjoyment in minds1 which have few resources more elevated than mere physical enjoyments4 ,our ,saviour directs1 in making feasts1 to call1 not the rich1 who can recompense again1 but the poor1 who can make no returns4 ,so children should be taught to dispense their little treasures1 not alone to companions and friends1 who will probably return similar favors2 but to those who have no means of making any return4 ,if the rich1 who acquire a love for the enjoyments of taste1 and have the means to gratify it1 would aim to extend1 among the poor1 the cheap and simple enjoyment of fruits and flowers1 our ,country would soon literally blossom as the rose4 ,if the ladies of a neighborhood would unite small contributions1 and send a list of flower-seeds and roots to some respectable and honest florist1 who would not be likely to turn them off with trash1 they could divide these among themselves1 so as to secure an abundant variety1 at a very small expense4 ,a bag of flower-seeds1 which can be obtained1 at wholesale1 for four cents1 would abundantly supply a whole neighborhood2 and1 by the gathering of seeds1 in the ,autumn1 could be perpetuated4 ,another very elevating and delightful recreation1 for the young1 is found in music4 ,here1 the writer would protest against the common practice1 in many families1 of having the daughters learn to play on the piano1 whether they have a taste and an ear for music1 or not4 ,a young lady1 who cannot sing1 and has no great fondness for music1 does nothing but waste time1 money1 and patience1 in learning to play on the piano4 ,but all children can be taught to sing1 in early childhood1 if the scientific mode of teaching music1 in schools1 could be introduced1 as it is in ,prussia1 ,germany1 and ,switzerland4 ,then1 young children could read and sing music1 as easily as they can read language2 and might take any tune1 dividing themselves into bands1 and sing off1 at sight1 the endless variety of music which is prepared4 ,and if parents of wealth would take pains to have teachers qualified for the purpose1 as they may be at the ,boston ,academy1 and other similar institutions1 who should teach all the young children in the community1 much would be done for the happiness and elevation of the rising generation4 ,this is an amusement1 which children relish1 in the highest degree2 and which they can enjoy1 at home1 in the fields1 and in visits abroad4 ,another domestic amusement1 is1 the collecting of shells1 plants1 and specimens in geology and mineralogy1 for the formation of cabinets4 ,if intelligent parents would procure the simpler works which have been prepared for the young1 and study them1 with their children1 a taste for such recreations would soon be developed4 ,the writer has seen young boys1 of eight and ten years of age1 gathering and cleaning shells from rivers1 and collecting plants1 and mineralogical specimens1 with a delight1 bordering on ecstasy2 and there are few1 if any1 who1 by proper influences1 would not find this a source of ceaseless delight and improvement4 ,another resource1 for family diversion1 is to be found in the various games played by children1 and in which the joining of older members of the family is always a great advantage to both parties4 ,all medical men unite1 in declaring that nothing is more beneficial to health1 than hearty laughter2 and surely our benevolent ,creator would not have provided risibles1 and made it a source of health and enjoyment to use them1 if it were a sin so to do4 ,there has been a tendency to asceticism1 on this subject1 which needs to be removed4 ,such commands1 as forbid foolish laughing and jesting1 which are not convenient2 and which forbid all idle words1 and vain conversation1 cannot apply to any thing1 except what is foolish1 vain1 and useless4 ,but jokes1 laughter1 and sports1 when used in such a degree as tends only to promote health1 social feelings1 and happiness1 are neither vain1 foolish1 nor not convenient4 ,it is the excess of these things1 and not the moderate use of them1 which ,scripture forbids4 ,the prevailing temper of the mind1 should be cheerful1 yet serious2 but there are times1 when relaxation and laughter are proper for all4 ,there is nothing better for this end1 than that parents and older persons should join in the sports of childhood4 ,mature minds can always make such diversions more entertaining to children1 and can exert a healthful moral influence over their minds2 and1 at the same time1 can gain exercise and amusement for themselves4 ,how lamentable1 that so many fathers1 who could be thus useful and happy with their children1 throw away such opportunities1 and wear out soul and body1 in the pursuit of gain or fame6 ,another resource for children1 is in the exercise of mechanical skill4 ,fathers1 by providing tools for their boys1 and showing them how to make wheelbarrows1 carts1 sleds1 and various other articles1 contribute both to the physical1 moral1 and social1 improvement of their children4 ,and in regard to little daughters1 much more can be done1 in this way1 than many would imagine4 ,the writer1 blessed with the example of a most ingenious and industrious mother1 had not only learned1 before the age of twelve1 to make dolls1 of various sorts and sizes1 but to cut and fit and sew every article1 that belongs to a doll's wardrobe4 ,this1 which was done for mere amusement1 secured such a facility in mechanical pursuits1 that1 ever afterward1 the cutting and fitting of any article of dress1 for either sex1 was accomplished with entire ease4 ,when a little girl first begins to sew1 her mother can promise her a small bed and pillows1 as soon as she has sewed a patch quilt for them2 and then a bedstead1 as soon as she has sewed the sheets and cases for pillows2 and then a large doll to dress1 as soon as she has made the under garments2 and thus go on1 till the whole contents of the baby-house are earned by the needle and skill of its little owner4 ,thus1 the task of learning to sew1 will become a pleasure2 and every new toy will be earned by useful exertion4 ,a little girl can be taught1 by the aid of patterns prepared for the purpose1 to cut and fit all articles necessary for her doll4 ,she can also be provided with a little wash-tub1 and irons1 to wash and iron1 and thus keep in proper order a complete miniature domestic establishment4 ,besides these recreations1 there are the enjoyments secured in walking1 riding1 visiting1 and many others which need not be recounted4 ,children1 if trained to be healthful and industrious1 will never fail to discover resources of amusement2 while their guardians should lend their aid to guide and restrain them from excess4 ,there is need of a very great change of opinion and practice1 in this ,nation1 in regard to the subject of social and domestic duties4 ,many sensible and conscientious men1 spend all their time1 abroad1 in business1 except1 perhaps1 an hour or so at night1 when they are so fatigued1 as to be unfitted for any social or intellectual enjoyment4 ,and some of the most conscientious men in the ,country1 will add1 to their professional business1 public or benevolent enterprises1 which demand time1 effort1 and money2 and then excuse themselves for neglecting all care of their children1 and efforts for their own intellectual improvement1 or for the improvement of their families1 by the plea1 that they have no time for it4 ,all this1 arises from the want of correct notions of the binding obligation of our social and domestic duties4 ,the main object of life1 is not to secure the various gratifications of appetite or taste1 but to form such a character1 for ourselves and others1 as will secure the greatest amount of present and future happiness4 ,it is of far more consequence1 then1 that parents should be intelligent1 social1 affectionate1 and agreeable1 at home1 and to their friends1 than that they should earn money enough to live in a large house1 and have handsome furniture4 ,it is far more needful1 for children1 that a father should attend to the formation of their character and habits1 and aid in developing their social1 intellectual1 and moral nature1 than it is1 that he should earn money to furnish them with handsome clothes1 and a variety of tempting food4 ,it will be wise for those parents1 who find little time to attend to their children1 or to seek amusement and enjoyment in the domestic and social circle1 because their time is so much occupied with public cares or benevolent objects1 to inquire1 whether their first duty is not to train up their own families1 to be useful members of society4 ,a man1 who neglects the mind and morals of his children1 to take care of the public1 is in great danger of coming under a similar condemnation1 to that of him1 who1 neglecting to provide for his own household1 has denied the faith1 and is worse than an infidel4 ,there are husbands and fathers1 who conscientiously subtract time from their business1 to spend at home1 in reading with their wives and children1 and in domestic amusements which at once refresh and improve4 ,the children of such parents will grow up with a love of home and kindred1 which will be the greatest safeguard against future temptations1 as well as the purest source of earthly enjoyment4 ,there are families1 also1 who make it a definite object to keep up family attachments1 after the children are scattered abroad2 and1 in some cases1 secure the means for doing this1 by saving money1 which would otherwise have been spent for superfluities of food or dress4 ,some families have adopted1 for this end1 a practice1 which if widely imitated1 would be productive of extensive benefit4 ,the method is this4 ,on the first day of each month1 some member of the family1 at each extreme point of dispersion1 takes a folio sheet1 and fills a part of a page4 ,this is sealed and mailed to the next family1 who read it1 add another contribution1 and then mail it to the next4 ,thus the family circular1 once a month1 goes from each extreme1 to all the members of a widely-dispersed family1 and each member becomes a sharer in the joys1 sorrows1 plans1 and pursuits1 of all the rest4 ,at the same time1 frequent family meetings are sought2 and the expense1 thus incurred1 is cheerfully met by retrenchments in other directions4 ,the sacrifice of some unnecessary physical indulgence1 7such1 for instance1 as the use of tea and coffee17 will often purchase many social and domestic enjoyments1 a thousand times more elevating and delightful1 than the retrenched luxury4 ,there is no social duty1 which the ,supreme ,lawgiver more strenuously urges1 than hospitality and kindness to strangers1 who are classed with the widow and the fatherless1 as the special objects of ,divine tenderness4 ,there are some reasons1 why this duty peculiarly demands attention from the ,american people4 ,reverses of fortune1 in this land1 are so frequent and unexpected1 and the habits of the people are so migratory1 that there are very many in every part of the ,country1 who1 having seen all their temporal plans and hopes crushed1 are now pining among strangers1 bereft of wonted comforts1 without friends1 and without the sympathy and society1 so needful to wounded spirits4 ,such1 too frequently1 sojourn long and lonely1 with no comforter but ,him who knoweth the heart of a stranger4 ,whenever1 therefore1 new comers enter a community1 inquiry should immediately be made1 whether they have friends and associates1 to render sympathy and kind attentions2 and1 when there is any need for it1 the ministries of kind neighborhood should immediately be offered4 ,and it should be remembered1 that the first days of a stranger's sojourn1 are the most dreary1 and that civility and kindness are doubled in value1 by being offered at an early period4 ,in social gatherings1 the claims of the stranger are too apt to be forgotten2 especially1 in cases where there are no peculiar attractions of personal appearance1 or talents1 or high standing4 ,such a one should be treated with attention1 because he is a stranger2 and when communities learn to act more from principle1 and less from selfish impulse1 on this subject1 the sacred claims of the stranger will be less frequently forgotten4 ,the most agreeable hospitality1 to visiters1 who become inmates of a family1 is1 that which puts them entirely at ease4 ,this can never be the case1 where the guest perceives that the order of family arrangements is essentially altered1 and that time1 comfort1 and convenience are sacrificed1 for his accommodation4 ,offering the best to visiters1 showing a polite regard to every wish expressed1 and giving precedence to them1 in all matters of comfort and convenience1 can be easily combined with the easy freedom which makes the stranger feel at home2 and this is the perfection of hospitable entertainment4 ,,chapter ,,xxiv4 ,,on ,,the ,,construction ,,of ,,houses4 ,there is no point of domestic economy1 which more seriously involves the health and daily comfort of ,american women1 than the proper construction of houses4 ,there are five particulars1 to which attention should be given1 in building a house2 namely1 economy of labor1 economy of money1 economy of health1 economy of comfort1 and good taste4 ,some particulars will here be pointed out1 under each of these heads4 ,the first1 respects economy of labor4 ,in deciding upon the size and style of a house1 the health and capacity of the housekeeper1 and the probabilities of securing proper domestics1 ought to be the very first consideration4 ,if a man be uncertain as to his means for hiring service1 or if he have a feeble wife1 and be where properly-qualified domestics are scarce1 it is very poor economy to build a large house1 or to live in a style which demands much labor4 ,every room in a house adds to the expense involved in finishing and furnishing it1 and to the amount of labor spent in sweeping1 dusting1 cleaning floors1 paint1 and windows1 and taking care of1 and repairing1 its furniture4 ,double the size of a house1 and you double the labor of taking care of it1 and so1 vice versa4 ,there is1 in this ,country1 a very great want of calculation and economy1 in this matter4 ,the arrangement of rooms1 and the proper supply of conveniences1 are other points1 in which1 economy of labor and comfort is often disregarded4 ,for example1 a kitchen will be in one story1 a sitting-room in another1 and the nursery in a third4 ,nothing is more injurious1 to a feeble woman1 than going up and down stairs2 and yet1 in order to gain two large parlors1 to show to a few friends1 or to strangers1 immense sacrifices of health1 comfort1 and money1 are made4 ,if it be possible1 the nursery1 sitting-parlor1 and kitchen1 ought always to be on the same floor4 ,the position of wells and cisterns1 and the modes of raising and carrying water1 are other particulars1 in which1 economy of labor and comfort is sadly neglected4 ,with half the expense usually devoted to a sideboard or sofa1 the water used from a well or cistern can be so conducted1 as that1 by simply turning a cock1 it will flow to the place where it is to be used4 ,a want of economy1 in labor and in money1 is often seen in the shape and arrangement of houses1 and in the style of ornaments and furniture4 ,a perfect square1 encloses more rooms1 at less expense1 than any other shape2 while it has less surface exposed to external cold1 and can be most easily warmed and ventilated4 ,and the farther a house is removed from this shape1 the more the expense is increased4 ,wings and kitchens built out1 beyond a house1 very much increase expense1 both in building and warming them4 ,piazzas and porticoes are very expensive2 and their cost would secure far more comfort1 if devoted to additional nursery or kitchen conveniences4 ,many kinds of porticoes cost as much as one additional room in the house4 ,houses can be so constructed1 that one staircase will answer for both kitchen and parlour use1 as may be seen in the engraving on page #bfi1 7,fig4 #bg47 ,this saves the expense and labor usually devoted to a large hall and front staircase4 ,much money is often worse than wasted1 by finical ornaments1 which are fast going out of fashion4 ,one of the largest1 most beautiful1 and agreeable1 houses1 the writer was ever in1 was finished with doors1 windows1 and fireplaces1 in even a plainer style than any given in the subsequent drawings4 ,the position of fireplaces has much to do with economy of expense in warming a house4 ,where the fireplace is in an outer wall1 one third of the heat passes out of doors1 which would be retained in the house1 if the chimney were within the rooms4 ,a house1 contrived like the one represented in the engraving on page #bgb1 7,fig4 #cb17 which can be heated by a stove or chimney at ,x1 may be warmed with less fuel than one of any other construction4,r ,economy of health is often disregarded1 by placing wells1 cisterns1 and privies1 so that persons1 in the perspiration of labor1 or the debility of disease1 are obliged to go out of doors in all weathers4 ,figure #ce1 on page #bgf1 shows the proper arrangement of such conveniences4 ,the placing of an outside door1 for common use1 in a sitting-room1 as is frequent at the ,west and ,south1 is detrimental to health4 ,in such cases1 children1 in their sports1 or persons who labor1 are thrown into perspiration1 by exercise1 the door is thrown open1 a chill ensues1 and fever1 bowel complaints1 or bilious attacks1 are the result4 ,a long window1 extending down to the floor1 which can be used as a door1 in ,summer1 and be tightly closed1 at the bottom1 in ,winter1 secures all the benefits1 without the evils1 of an outside door4 ,constructing houses1 without open fireplaces in chambers1 or any other mode of ventilation1 is another sad violation of the economy of health4 ,feeble constitutions in children1 and ill health to domestics1 are often caused by this folly4 ,the economy of comfort is often violated1 by arrangements made for domestics4 ,many a woman has been left to endure much hard labor and perplexity1 because she chose to have money spent on handsome parlors and chambers1 for company1 which should have been devoted to providing a comfortable kitchen and chambers for domestics4 ,cramping the conveniences and comfort of a family1 in order to secure elegant rooms1 to show to company1 is a weakness and folly1 which it is hoped will every year become less common4 ,the construction of houses with reference to good taste1 is a desirable1 though less important1 item4 ,the beauty of a house depends very much upon propriety of proportions1 color1 and ornament4 ,and it is always as cheap1 and generally cheaper1 to build a house in agreement with the rules of good taste1 than to build an awkward and ill-proportioned one4 ,plans of ,houses and ,domestic ,conveniences4 ,the following plans are designed chiefly for persons in moderate circumstances1 and have especial reference to young housekeepers4 ,every year1 as the prosperity of this ,nation increases1 good domestics will decrease1 and young mothers are hereafter to be called to superintend and perform all branches of domestic business1 to nurse children1 direct ignorant domestics1 attend the sick1 entertain company1 and fulfil all other family duties2 and this1 too1 in a majority of cases1 with delicate constitutions1 or impaired health4 ,every man1 therefore1 in forming plans for a future residence1 and every woman who has any influence in deciding such matters1 ought to make these probabilities the chief basis of their calculations4,s ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ag4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ah4 ,ground-plan4 a1 ,porch4 b1 ,parlor1 #ae by #af feet4 c1 ,dining-room1 #ae by #af feet4 d1 d1 ,small ,bedrooms4 e1 ,stairs4 f1 f1 f1 ,closets4 g1 ,pantry4 h1 ,store-closet4 i1 i1 i1 ,fireplaces4 j1 ,kitchen4 k1 ,bedpress4 z1 ,cellar door4 ,scale of ,feet4 ,the plan1 exhibited in ,figures #ag1 and #ah1 is that of a cottage1 whose chief exterior beauty is its fine proportions4 ,it should be painted white4 ,fig4 #ag1 is the elevation1 or the front view of the exterior4 ,fig4 #ah1 is the ground-plan1 in which1 an entire break in the wall1 represents a door1 and a break with a line across it1 a window4 ,when a cross x is put by a door1 it indicates into which room the door swings1 and where the hinges should be put1 as the comfort of a fireside very much depends on the way in which the doors are hung4 ,a scale of measurement is given at the bottom of the drawings1 by which1 the size of all parts can be measured4 ,the ten small divisions1 are each one foot4 ,the longest divisions are ten feet each4 ,in the ground-plan1 7,fig4 #ah17 a1 is the porch1 which projects enough to afford an entrance to the two adjacent rooms1 and thus avoids the evil of an outside door to a sitting-room4 ,if a door be wanted in these rooms1 the front windows can be made to extend down to the floor1 so as to serve as doors in ,summer1 and be tightly closed in ,winter4 ,the parlor1 b1 has the bedpress1 k1 and the closet1 f1 adjoining it4 ,figure #ai is intended to represent this side of the room4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ai4 ,scale of ,feet for the ,doors4 ,the two large doors1 in the centre1 open into the bedpress1 and one of the smaller ones into the closet1 f4 ,the other1 can either be a false door1 in order to secure symmetry1 or else a real one1 opening into the kitchen1 j4 ,a room1 thus arranged1 can be made to serve as a genteel parlor1 for company1 during the day1 when all these doors can be closed4 ,at night1 the doors of the bedpress being opened1 it is changed to an airy bedroom1 while the closets1 f1 f1 serve to conceal all accommodations pertaining to a bedroom4 ,the bedpress is just large enough to receive a bed2 and under it1 if need be1 might be placed a trucklebed1 for young children4 ,the eating-room1 c1 has the small bedroom1 d1 adjoining it1 which1 by leaving the door open1 at night1 will be sufficiently airy for a sleeping-room4 ,the kitchen1 j1 has a smaller bedroom1 d1 attached to it1 which will hold a narrow single bed for a domestic2 and1 if need be1 a narrow trucklebed under it1 for a child4 ,the staircase to the garret1 can either be placed in the eating-room1 or in the small entry4 ,a plan for back accommodations is shown in ,fig4 #ce1 7page #bgf47 ,these should be placed in the rear of the kitchen1 so as not to cover the window4 ,a house like this1 will conveniently accommodate a family of six or eight persons2 but some economy and contrivance will be needed1 in storing away articles of dress and bedclothing4 ,for this end1 in the bedpress1 k1 of the parlor1 b1 7,fig4 #ah17 a wide shelf may be placed1 two feet from the ceiling1 where winter bedding1 or folded clothing1 can be stowed1 while a short curtain in front1 hung from the wall1 will give a tidy look1 and keep out dust4 ,under this shelf1 if need be1 pegs can be placed1 to hold other articles2 and a curtain be hung from the edge of the shelf1 to conceal and protect them4 ,both the closets1 f1 f1 should have shelves and drawers4 ,the garret can have a window inserted in the roof1 and thus be made serviceable for storage4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bj4 ,figure #bj represents a fireplace and mantelpiece1 in a style corresponding with the doors4 ,such a cottage as this1 could be built for from five hundred to nine hundred dollars1 according as the expense of labor in the place1 and the excellence of the materials and labor1 may vary4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ba4 ,figures #ba and #bb1 show the elevation and ground-plan of a cottage1 in which the rooms are rather more agreeably arranged1 than in the former plan4 ,the elevation1 7,fig4 #ba17 has a piazza1 running across the whole front4 ,this would cost nearly two hundred dollars2 and1 for this sum1 another story might be added4 ,an architect told the writer1 that he could build the two-story house1 7,fig4 #bc and #bd17 without a piazza1 for the same sum1 as this cottage1 with one4 ,this shows the poor economy of these appendages4 ,the ground-plan1 7,fig4 #bb17 will be understood1 from the explanation appended to it4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bb4 ,scale of ,feet4 a1 ,porch4 b1 ,entry4 c1 ,stairs4 d1 ,parlor1 #af by #bj feet4 e1 ,dining-room1 #af by #af feet4 f1 ,kitchen4 g1 g1 g1 ,bedpresses4 h1 h1 h1 h1 ,closets4 i1 ,store-closet4 j1 ,back entry and ,sink4 p1 ,cellar stairs4 o1 o1 o1 ,fireplaces4 ,the parlor1 d1 is designed to have the doors 7shown in ,fig4 #ai7 placed at the end1 where is the bedpress1 g4 ,this will make it a handsome parlor1 by day1 and yet allow it to be used as a bedroom1 at night4 ,the bedpresses1 in the other rooms1 can have less expensive doors4 ,a window is put in each bedpress1 to secure proper ventilation4 ,these should be opened1 to air the bed1 on leaving it4 ,these can be fitted up with shelves1 pegs1 and curtains1 as before described4 ,if the elevation of the first cottage be preferred to this1 as being less expensive1 it can be used1 by altering it a little2 thus1 instead of the projection for the entry1 make a slight projection1 of the width of one brick1 to preserve the same general outside appearance4 ,let the windows extend down to the floor1 and the beauty of symmetry will also be preserved4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bc4 ,ground-plan4 a1 ,entry4 b1 ,stairs4 c1 ,parlor1 #af by #bj feet4 d1 ,kitchen1 #ad by #ad feet4 e1 ,store-closet4 f1 ,pantry4 g1 ,sinkroom4 h1 ,closet4 i1 i1 ,fireplaces4 n1 ,cellar door4 o1 ,oven4 y1 ,furnace4 z1 ,sink4 ,scale of ,feet4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bd4 ,second ,story4 a1 ,stairs4 b1 ,passage4 c1 c1 c1 ,bedrooms4 d1 d1 d1 d1 ,closets4 e1 e1 ,fireplaces4 f1 ,nursery4 g1 ,room for young children4 ,the plans1 shown in ,fig4 #bc and #bd1 are designed for families1 where most domestic labor is to be done without the aid of domestics4 ,the parlor1 c1 is for a sitting-room1 and for company4 ,the room1 d1 is the eating-room2 where1 also1 the ironing and other nicer family work can be done4 ,in the small room1 g1 either an oven and boiler1 or a cooking-stove1 can be placed4 ,the elevation1 shown in ,fig4 #be1 is designed for the front of this house4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #be4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bf4 ,figures #bg and #bh1 are plans of a two-story house1 on a larger scale1 with a concealed staircase1 for front and back use4 ,the elevation1 ,fig4 #bf1 is designed for this plan4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bg4 ,ground-plan4 b1 b1 ,entry4 c1 ,stairs4 d1 ,parlor1 #af by #bj feet4 e1 ,dining-room1 #ae by #af feet4 f1 ,kitchen1 #ae by #af feet4 g1 g1 g1 ,closets4 h1 ,store-closet4 i1 ,back entry4 j1 ,pantry4 k1 k1 k1 ,fireplaces4 x1 ,cellar stairs4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bh4 ,second ,story4 a1 a1 a1 a1 ,bedrooms4 b1 ,stairs4 c1 c1 c1 ,closets4 d1 ,passage4 e1 e1 e1 ,fireplaces4 y1 ,garret stairs4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #bi4 ,ground-floor4 b1 ,entry4 c1 ,parlor1 #ag by #ag feet4 d1 ,dining-room1 #ac by #ae feet4 e1 ,parlor or ,bedroom1 #ag by #ag feet4 f1 ,kitchen1 #ai by #ag feet4 g1 ,stairs4 h1 ,store-closet4 i1 i1 i1 ,closets4 n1 n1 n1 n1 ,fireplaces4 o1 ,folding-doors4 p1 ,pegs for over-garments4 z1 ,cellar stairs4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #cj4 ,second ,story4 a1 a1 a1 a1 a1 ,bedrooms4 b1 ,stairs4 c1 ,passage4 d1 d1 d1 d1 ,closets4 e1 e1 e1 e1 ,fireplaces4 ,figures #bi and #cj1 are plans for a larger house1 which can have either of the elevations1 ,fig4 #be or #bf1 adapted to it4 ,these also have a concealed staircase1 for front and back use4 ,if a nursery1 or bedroom1 is wished1 on the ground-floor1 the back parlor1 e1 can be taken2 in which case1 the closets1 i1 i1 are very useful4 ,to prevent noise from reaching the front parlor1 two sets of folding-doors1 each side of the passage1 o1 could be placed4 ,with this arrangement1 these rooms could be used1 sometimes as two parlors1 opening into each other1 by folding doors1 and at other times1 as a nursery and parlor4 ,in this plan1 the storeroom1 h1 and china-closet1 i1 between the kitchen and eating-room1 are a great convenience4 ,figures #ca and #cb1 present the plan of a ,gothic cottage1 which secures the most economy of labor and expense1 with the greatest amount of convenience and comfort1 which the writer has ever seen4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ca4 ,the elevation1 7,fig4 #ca17 exhibits the front view4 ,it has a recess in the central part1 under which1 is the door1 with a window on each side of it4 ,this forms a piazza2 and into this1 and a similar one at the back of the house1 the two centre parlors open4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #cb4 ,in the centre of the house1 7see ,fig4 #cb17 are the two parlors1 b and c2 the back one to be used as an eating-room4 ,at ,x1 can be placed1 either a chimney1 with doors on each side of the fireplace1 or1 7which is the most agreeable17 folding-doors1 which can be thrown open in ,summer1 thus making a large saloon1 through the house1 from one piazza to the other4 ,in this case1 the parlors are warmed by a large stove1 set near the folding-doors1 which would easily warm both parlors and one or two adjacent rooms4 ,in ,winter1 the outside doors1 opening to the piazzas1 should be fastened and calked1 and the side entry1 at d1 be used4 ,at e1 is the nursery1 with the bedpress1 g1 which1 being closed by day1 makes a retired parlor for the mother4 ,at n1 is the children's playroom and sleeping-room1 adjoining the mother's room4 ,at k1 is the kitchen1 adjacent to the eating-room1 with the storeroom1 e1 and the closets1 m1 m1 one for the eating-room1 and one for the kitchen utensils4 ,at i1 is a parlor1 which can be used for a study or library1 by the master of the family2 while the adjacent bedpress1 j1 renders it a convenient lodging-room1 for guests4 ,another lodging-room1 is at h2 and in the attic1 is space enough for several comfortable lodging-rooms4 ,a window in the roof1 on the front and back1 like the one on ,wadsworth's ,cottage1 7,fig4 #cc17 could be placed over the front door1 to light the chambers in the attic4 ,a double roof in the attic1 with a current of air between1 secures cool chambers4 ,the closets are marked o1 and the fireplaces p4 ,the stairs to the attic are at q4 ,by this arrangement1 the housekeeper has her parlor1 sleeping-room1 nursery1 and kitchen1 on the same floor1 while the rooms with bedpresses1 enable her to increase either parlors or lodging-rooms1 at pleasure1 without involving the care of a very large and expensive house4 ,figure #cc1 is the representation of a cottage1 built by ,daniel ,wadsworth1 ,esq41 in the vicinity of ,hartford1 ,connecticut2 and is on a plan1 which1 though much smaller1 is very similar to the plan represented in ,fig4 #cb4 ,it serves to show the manner in which the roofs should be arranged1 in ,fig4 #ca1 which1 being seen exactly in front1 does not give any idea of the mode of this arrangement4 ,the elevation of ,wadsworth's cottage1 could be taken for the ground-plan shown in ,fig4 #cb1 if it be preferred to the other4 ,both this cottage1 and all the other plans1 require a woodhouse1 and the conveniences connected with it1 which are represented in ,fig4 #ce1 7page #bgf47 ,for these ,gothic cottages1 an appendage of this sort should be in keeping with the rest1 having windows1 like those in the little ,summer-house in the drawing1 and battlements1 as on the top of the wings of the barn4 ,the ornaments on the front of the cottage1 and the pillars of the portico1 made simply of the trunks of small trees1 give a beautiful rural finish1 and their expense is trifling4 ,in this picture1 the trees could not be placed as they are in reality1 because they would hide the buildings4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #cc4 ,in arranging yards and grounds1 the house should be set back1 as in the drawing of ,wadsworth's cottage2 and1 instead of planting shade-trees in straight lines1 or scattering them about1 as single trees1 they should be arranged in clusters1 with large openings for turf1 flowers1 and shrubbery1 which never flourish well under the shade and dropping of trees4 ,this also secures spots of dark and cool shade1 even when trees are young4 ,in arranging shade-trees tastefully around such a place1 a large cluster might be placed on each side of the gate2 another on the circular grass-plot1 at the side of the house2 another at a front corner2 and another at a back corner4 ,shrubbery1 along the walks1 and on the circular plot1 in front1 and flowers close to the house1 would look well4 ,the barn1 also1 should have clusters of trees near it2 and occasional single trees1 on the lawn1 would give the graceful ease and variety seen in nature4 ,figure #cd1 represents the accommodations for securing water with the least labor4 ,it is designed for a well or cistern under ground4 ,the reservoir1 ,r1 may be a half hogshead1 or something larger1 which may be filled once a day1 from the pump1 by a man1 or boy4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #cd4 ,p1 ,pump4 ,l1 ,steps to use when pumping4 ,r1 ,reservoir4 ,g1 ,brickwork to raise the ,reservoir4 ,b1 ,a large ,boiler4 ,f1 ,furnace1 beneath the ,boiler4 ,c1 ,conductor of cold water4 ,h1 ,conductor of hot water4 ,k1 ,cock for letting cold water into the ,boiler4 ,s1 ,pipe to conduct cold water to a cock over the kitchen sink4 ,t1 ,bathing-tub1 which receives cold water from the ,conductor1 ,c1 and hot water from the ,conductor1 ,h4 ,w1 ,partition separating the ,bathing-room from the ,wash-room4 ,y1 ,cock to draw off hot water4 ,z1 ,plug to let off the water from the ,bathing-tub into a drain4 ,the conductor1 ,c1 should be a lead pipe1 which1 instead of going over the boiler1 should be bent along behind it4 ,from ,s1 a branch sets off1 which conducts the cold water to the sink in the kitchen1 where it discharges with a cock4 ,h1 is a conductor from the lower part of the boiler1 made of copper1 or some metal not melted by great heat2 and at ,y1 a cock is placed1 to draw off hot water4 ,then the conductor passes to the bathing-tub1 where is another cock4 ,at ,z1 the water is let off from the bathing-tub4 ,by this arrangement1 great quantities of hot and cold water can be used1 with no labor in carrying1 and with very little labor in raising it4 ,in case a cistern is built above ground1 it can be placed as the reservoir is1 and then all the labor of pumping is saved4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ce4 ,a1 ,boiler and furnace4 ,b1 ,bathing-room4 ,c1 ,reservoir4 ,d1 ,pump4 ,e1 ,wash-form4 ,f1 ,sink4 ,g1 ,kitchen4 ,h1 ,woodpile4 ,i1 ,large doors4 i1i1 ,bins for coal and ashes4 ,o1 ,window4 ,p1 ,p1 ,privies4 ,t1 ,bathing-tub4 ,v1 ,door4 ,fig4 #ce1 is the plan of a building for back-door accommodations4 ,at ,a1 ,c1 ,d1 ,e1 are accommodations shown in ,fig4 #cd4 ,the bathing-room is adjacent to the boiler and reservoir1 to receive the water4 ,the privy1 ,p1 ,p1 should have two apartments1 as indispensable to healthful habits in a family4 ,a window should be placed at ,o1 and a door1 with springs or a weight to keep it shut1 should be at ,v4 ,keeping the window open1 and the door shut1 will prevent any disagreeable effects in the house4 ,at ,g1 is the kitchen1 and at ,f1 the sink1 which should have a conductor and cock from the reservoir4 ,h1 is the place for wood1 where it should in ,summer be stored for ,winter4 ,a bin1 for coal1 and also a brick receiver1 for ashes1 should be in this part4 ,every woman should use her influence to secure all these conveniences2 even if it involves the sacrifice of the piazza1 or the best parlor4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #cf4 ,front ,view4 ,side ,view4 ,fig4 #cf1 is a latticed portico1 which is cheap1 and answers all the purposes of a more expensive one4 ,it should be solid1 overhead1 to turn off the rain1 and creepers should be trained over it4 ,a simple latticed arch1 over a door1 covered with creepers1 is very cheap1 and serves instead of an expensive portico4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #cg4 ,c1 ,parlor ceiling4 ,k1 ,kitchen ceiling4 ,fig4 #cg1 represents a sliding closet1 or dumb waiter1 a convenience which saves much labor1 when the kitchen is in the basement4 ,the two closets should be made wide1 and broad enough to receive a common waiter4 ,the chain1 or rope1 which passes over the wheels1 should branch1 at ,x1 so as to keep the closet from rubbing in its movements1 when the dishes are not set exactly in the middle1 or are of unequal weights4 ,by this method1 almost every thing needed to pass between the kitchen and parlor can be sent up and down1 without any steps4 ,if the kitchen is not directly under the eating-room1 the sliding closet can be placed in the vicinity of one or both4 ,where the place is not wide enough for two closets like these1 they can be made wider than they are long1 say one foot and six inches long1 and three feet wide4 ,a strip of wood1 an inch broad1 should be fastened on the front and back of the shelves1 to prevent the dishes from being broken when they are set on carelessly4 ,there is nothing1 which so much improves the appearance of a house and the premises1 as painting or whitewashing the tenements and fences4 ,the following receipts for whitewashing1 answer the same purpose for wood1 brick1 and stone1 as oil-paint1 and are much cheaper4 ,the first1 is the receipt used for the ,president's house1 at ,washington1 improved by further experiments4 ,the second1 is a cheaper one1 which the writer has known to succeed1 in a variety of cases1 lasting as long1 and looking as well1 as white oil-paint4 ,receipt4 ,take half a bushel of unslacked lime1 and slack it with boiling water1 covering it1 during the process4 ,strain it1 and add a peck of salt1 dissolved in warm water2 three pounds of ground rice1 boiled to a thin paste1 put in boiling hot2 half a pound of powdered ,spanish whiting2 and a pound of clear glue1 dissolved in warm water4 ,mix1 and let it stand several days4 ,heat it in a kettle1 on a portable furnace1 and apply it as hot as possible1 with a painter's or whitewash-brush4 ,another4 ,make whitewash1 in the usual way1 except that the water used should be hot1 and nearly saturated with salt4 ,then stir in four handfuls of fine sand1 to make it thick like cream4 ,coloring matter can be added to both1 making a light stone-color1 a cream-color1 or a light buff1 which are most suitable for buildings4 ,,footnotes3 ,r ,many houses are now heated1 by a furnace in the cellar1 which receives pure air from out of doors1 heats it1 and sends it into several rooms1 while water is evaporated to prevent the air from becoming dry4 ,the most perfect one the writer has seen1 is constructed by ,mr4 ,fowler1 of ,hartford4 ,this method secures well-ventilated rooms1 and is very economical1 where several rooms are to be warmed4 ,s ,those1 who are amateurs in architecture1 in judging of these designs1 must take into consideration1 that this is a work on domestic economy1 and that matters of taste1 have necessarily been made subordinate to points1 involving economy of health1 comfort1 and expense4 ,still1 it is believed1 that good taste has been essentially preserved1 in most of these designs4 ,,chapter ,,xxv4 ,,on ,,fires ,,and ,,lights4 ,a shallow fireplace saves wood1 and gives out more heat than a deeper one4 ,a false back1 of brick1 may be put up in a deep fireplace4 ,hooks1 for holding up the shovel and tongs1 a hearth-brush and bellows1 and brass knobs to hang them on1 should be furnished to every fireplace4 ,an iron bar1 across the andirons1 aids in keeping the fire safe1 and in good order4 ,steel furniture is more genteel1 and more easily kept in order1 than that made of brass4 ,use green wood1 for logs1 and mix green and dry wood for the fire2 and then the woodpile will last much longer4 ,walnut1 maple1 hickory1 and oak1 wood1 are best1 chestnut or hemlock is bad1 because it snaps4 ,do not buy a load1 in which there are many crooked sticks4 ,learn how to measure and calculate the solid contents of a load1 so as not to be cheated4 ,have all your wood split1 and piled under cover1 for ,winter4 ,have the green wood logs in one pile1 dry wood in another1 oven-wood in another1 kindlings and chips in another1 and a supply of charcoal to use for broiling and ironing1 in another place4 ,have a brick bin1 for ashes1 and never allow them to be put in wood4 ,when quitting fires1 at night1 never leave a burning stick across the andirons1 nor on its end1 without quenching it4 ,see that no fire adheres to the broom or brush2 remove all articles from the fire1 and have two pails1 filled with water1 in the kitchen1 where they will not freeze4 ,stoves and ,grates4 ,rooms1 heated by stoves1 should always have some opening for the admission of fresh air1 or they will be injurious to health4 ,the dryness of the air1 which they occasion1 should be remedied1 either by placing a vessel1 filled with water1 on the stove1 or by hooking a long and narrow pan1 filled with water1 in front of the grate2 otherwise1 the lungs or eyes may be injured4 ,a large number of plants in a room1 prevents this dryness of the air4 ,openings for pipes1 through floors1 partitions1 or fireboards1 should be surrounded by tin1 to prevent their taking fire4 ,lengthening a pipe1 will increase its draught4 ,for those1 who use anthracite coal1 that which is broken or screened1 is best for grates1 and the nut-coal1 for small stoves4 ,three tons are sufficient1 in the ,middle ,states1 and four tons in the ,northern1 to keep one fire through the ,winter4 ,that which is bright1 hard1 and clean1 is best2 and that which is soft1 porous1 and covered with damp dust1 is poor4 ,it will be well to provide two barrels of charcoal1 for kindling1 to every ton of anthracite coal4 ,grates1 for bituminous coal1 should have a flue nearly as deep as the grate2 and the bars should be round1 and not close together4 ,the better draught there is1 the less coal-dust is made4 ,every grate should be furnished with a poker1 shovel1 tongs1 blower1 coal-scuttle1 and holder for the blower4 ,the latter may be made of woollen1 covered with old silk1 and hung near the fire4 ,coal-stoves should be carefully put up1 as cracks1 in the pipe1 especially in sleeping rooms1 are dangerous4 ,on ,lights4 ,lamps are better than candles1 as they give a steadier light1 and do not scatter grease1 like tallow candles4 ,the best oil1 is clear1 and nearly colorless4 ,winter-strained oil should be used in cold weather4 ,lard is a good substitute for oil1 for astral and other large lamps4 ,it is cheaper1 burns clearer1 and has a less disagreeable smell4 ,it will not burn so well in small lamps1 as in large ones4 ,melt it every morning1 in an old pitcher1 kept for the purpose4 ,oil1 long kept1 grows thick1 and does not burn well4 ,it is therefore best not to buy it in large quantities4 ,it should never be left standing in lamps1 for several days1 as this spoils it1 and often injures the lamps4 ,camphine is a kind of oil manufactured in ,new ,york1 which does not smell disagreeably1 nor make grease-spots1 and gives a brighter light than the best oil4 ,cleanse the insides of lamps and oil-cans1 with pearlash-water4 ,be careful to drain them well1 and not to let any gilding1 or bronze1 be injured by the pearlash-water coming in contact with it4 ,put one tablespoonful of pearlash to one quart of water4 ,the care of lamps requires so much attention and discretion1 that many ladies choose to do this work1 themselves1 rather than trust it with domestics4 ,to do it properly1 provide the following things3--,an old waiter1 to hold all the articles used2 a lamp-filler1 with a spout1 small at the end1 and turned up to prevent oil from dripping2 a ball of wickyarn1 and a basket to hold it2 a lamp-trimmer1 made for the purpose1 or a pair of sharp scissors2 a small soap-cup and soap2 some pearlash1 in a broad-mouthed bottle2 and several soft cloths1 to wash the articles1 and towels1 to wipe them4 ,if every thing1 after being used1 is cleansed from oil1 and then kept neatly1 it will not be so unpleasant a task1 as it usually is1 to take care of lamps4 ,wash the shade of an astral lamp1 once a week1 and the glass chimney oftener4 ,take the lamp to pieces1 and cleanse it1 once a month4 ,keep dry fingers1 in trimming lamps4 ,to raise the wick of an astral lamp1 turn it to the right2 to lower it1 turn it to the left4 ,trim it1 after it has been once used2 and1 in lighting it1 raise it to the proper height1 as soon as may be1 or it will either smoke1 or form a crust4 ,renew the wick1 when only an inch and a half long4 ,close-woven wicks are better than those which are loose4 ,dipping wicks in vinegar1 makes them burn clearer than they otherwise would4 ,plain shades do not injure the eyes1 like cut ones2 and prints and pictures appear better by them1 than by the others4 ,lamps should be lighted with a strip of folded or rolled paper1 kept on the mantelpiece4 ,weak eyes should always be shaded from the lights4 ,small screens1 made for the purpose1 should be kept at hand4 ,a person with weak eyes1 can use them1 safely1 much longer1 when they are shaded from the glare of the light1 than if they are not so4 ,fill the entry-lamp1 every day1 and cleanse and fill night-lanterns1 twice a week1 if used often4 ,provide small1 one-wicked lamps1 to carry about2 and broad-bottomed lamps1 for the kitchen1 as these are not easily upset4 ,a good night-lamp is made1 with a small one-wicked lamp and a roll of tin to set over it4 ,have some holes made in the bottom of this cover1 and it can then be used to heat articles4 ,very cheap floating tapers1 can be bought1 to burn in a teacup of oil through the night4 ,wickyarn1 drawn repeatedly through melted wax1 till stiff and smooth1 makes a good taper1 for use in sealing letters4 ,it can be twined in fanciful forms1 and kept on the writing-table4 ,to make ,candles4 ,the nicest candles1 are run in moulds4 ,for this purpose1 melt together one quarter of a pound of white wax1 one quarter of an ounce of camphor1 two ounces of alum1 and ten ounces of suet or mutton tallow4 ,soak the wicks1 in lime-water and saltpetre1 and1 when dry1 fix them in the moulds1 and pour in the melted tallow4 ,let them remain one night1 to cool1 then warm them1 a little1 to loosen them1 draw them out1 and1 when hard1 put them in a box1 in a dry and cool place4 ,to make dipped candles1 cut the wicks of the right length1 double them over rods1 and twist them4 ,they should first be dipped in lime-water1 or vinegar1 and dried4 ,melt the tallow in a large kettle1 filling it to the top with hot water1 when the tallow is melted4 ,put in wax1 and powdered alum1 to harden them4 ,keep the tallow hot1 over a portable furnace1 and fill up the kettle1 with hot water1 as fast as the tallow is used up4 ,lay two long strips of narrow board1 on which to hang the rods2 and set flat pans under1 on the floor1 to catch the grease4 ,take several rods at once1 and wet the wicks in the tallow2 and1 when cool1 straighten and smooth them4 ,then dip them1 as fast as they cool1 until they become of the proper size4 ,plunge them obliquely1 and not perpendicularly2 and when the bottoms are too large1 hold them in the hot grease1 till a part melts off4 ,let them remain one night1 to cool2 then cut off the bottoms1 and keep them in a dry1 cool place4 ,cheap lights are made1 by dipping rushes in tallow4 ,,chapter ,,xxvi4 ,,on ,,washing4 ,there is nothing1 which tends more effectually to secure good washing1 than a full supply of all conveniences2 and among these1 none is more important1 than an abundance of warm and cold water3 but1 if this be obtained1 and heated1 at a great expense of time and labor1 it will be used in stinted measure4 ,the accommodations described on page #bge1 7,fig4 #cd17 are very convenient in this respect4 ,articles to be provided for ,washing4 ,a plenty of soft water is a very important item4 ,when this cannot be had1 ley or soda can be put in hard water1 to soften it2 care being used not to put in so much1 as to injure the hands and clothes4 ,two wash-forms are needed2 one for the two tubs in which to put the suds1 and the other for blueing and starching-tubs4 ,four tubs1 of different sizes1 are necessary2 also1 a large wooden dipper1 7as metal is apt to rust27 two or three pails2 a grooved wash-board2 a clothes-line1 7sea-grass1 or horse-hair is best27 a wash-stick to move clothes1 when boiling1 and a wooden fork to take them out4 ,soap-dishes1 made to hook on the tubs1 save soap and time4 ,provide1 also1 a clothes-bag1 in which to boil clothes2 an indigo-bag1 of double flannel2 a starch-strainer1 of coarse linen2 a bottle of ox-gall for calicoes2 a supply of starch1 neither sour nor musty2 several dozens of clothes-pins1 which are cleft sticks1 used to fasten clothes on the line2 a bottle of dissolved gum ,arabic2 two clothes-baskets2 and a brass or copper kettle1 for boiling clothes1 as iron is apt to rust4 ,a closet1 for keeping all these things1 is a great convenience4 ,it may be made six feet high1 three feet deep1 and four feet wide4 ,the tubs and pails can be set on the bottom of this1 on their sides1 one within another4 ,four feet from the bottom1 have a shelf placed1 on which to put the basket of clothes-pins1 the line1 soap-dishes1 dipper1 and clothes-fork4 ,above this1 have another shelf1 for the bottles1 boxes1 c4 ,the shelves should reach out only half way from the back1 and nails should be put at the sides1 for hanging the wash-stick1 clothes-bag1 starch-bag1 and indigo-bag4 ,the ironing-conveniences might be kept in the same closet1 by having the lower shelf raised a little1 and putting a deep drawer under it1 to hold the ironing-sheets1 holders1 c4 ,a lock and key should be put on the closet4 ,if the mistress of the family requests the washerwoman to notify her1 when she is through1 and then ascertains if all these articles are put in their places1 it will prove useful4 ,tubs1 pails1 and all hooped wooden ware1 should be kept out of the sun1 and in a cool place1 or they will fall to pieces4 ,common ,mode of ,washing4 ,assort the clothes1 and put them in soak1 the night before4 ,never pour hot water on them1 as it sets the dirt4 ,in assorting clothes1 put the flannels in one lot1 the colored clothes in another1 the coarse white ones in a third1 and the fine clothes in a fourth lot4 ,wash the fine clothes in one tub of suds2 and throw them1 when wrung1 into another4 ,then wash them1 in the second suds1 turning them wrong side out4 ,put them in the boiling-bag1 and boil them in strong suds1 for half an hour1 and not much more4 ,move them1 while boiling1 with the clothes-stick4 ,take them out of the boiling-bag1 and put them into a tub of water1 and rub the dirtiest places1 again1 if need be4 ,throw them into the rinsing-water1 and then wring them out1 and put them into the blueing-water4 ,put the articles to be stiffened1 into a clothes-basket1 by themselves1 and1 just before hanging out1 dip them in starch1 clapping it in1 so as to have them equally stiff1 in all parts4 ,hang white clothes in the sun1 and colored ones1 7wrong side out17 in the shade4 ,fasten them with clothes-pins4 ,then wash the coarser white articles1 in the same manner4 ,then wash the colored clothes4 ,these must not be soaked1 nor have ley or soda put in the water1 and they ought not to lie wet long before hanging out1 as it injures their colors4 ,beef's-gall1 one spoonful to two pailfuls of suds1 improves calicoes4 ,lastly1 wash the flannels1 in suds as hot as the hand can bear4 ,never rub on soap1 as this shrinks them in spots4 ,wring them out of the first suds1 and throw them into another tub of hot suds1 turning them wrong side out4 ,then throw them into hot blueing-water4 ,do not put blueing into suds1 as it makes specks in the flannel4 ,never leave flannels long in water1 nor put them in cold or lukewarm water4 ,before hanging them out1 shake and stretch them4 ,some housekeepers have a close closet1 made with slats across the top4 ,on these slats1 they put their flannels1 when ready to hang out1 and then burn brimstone under them1 for ten minutes4 ,it is but little trouble1 and keeps the flannels as white as new4 ,wash the colored flannels1 and hose1 after the white1 adding more hot water4 ,some persons dry woollen hose on stocking-boards1 shaped like a foot and leg1 with strings to tie them on the line4 ,this keeps them from shrinking1 and makes them look better than if ironed4 ,it is also less work1 than to iron them properly4 ,bedding should be washed in long days1 and in hot weather4 ,pound blankets in two different tubs or barrels of hot suds1 first well mixing the soap and water4 ,rinse in hot suds2 and1 after wringing1 let two persons shake them thoroughly1 and then hang them out4 ,if not dry1 at night1 fold them1 and hang them out the next morning4 ,bedquilts should be pounded in warm suds2 and1 after rinsing1 be wrung as dry as possible4 ,bolsters and pillows can be pounded in hot suds1 without taking out the feathers1 rinsing them in fair water4 ,it is usually best1 however1 for nice feathers1 to take them out1 wash them1 and dry them on a garret floor4 ,cotton comforters should have the cases taken off and washed4 ,wash bedticks1 after the feathers are removed1 like other things4 ,empty straw beds once a year4 ,the following cautions1 in regard to calicoes1 are useful4 ,never wash them in very warm water2 and change the water1 when it appears dingy1 or the light parts will look dirty4 ,never rub on soap2 but remove grease with ,french chalk1 starch1 magnesia1 or ,wilmington clay4 ,make starch for them1 with coffee-water1 to prevent any whitish appearance4 ,glue is good for stiffening calicoes4 ,when laid aside1 not to be used1 all stiffening should be washed out1 or they will often be injured4 ,never let calicoes freeze1 in drying4 ,some persons use bran-water1 7four quarts of wheat-bran to two pails of water17 and no soap1 for calicoes2 washing and rinsing in the bran-water4 ,potato-water is equally good4 ,take eight peeled and grated potatoes to one gallon of water4 ,soda-,washing4 ,a very great saving in labor is secured1 by soda-washing4 ,there have been mistakes made in receipts1 and in modes of doing it1 which have caused a prejudice against it2 but if the soap be rightly made1 and rightly used1 it certainly saves one half the labor and time of ordinary washing4 ,receipt for ,soda-,soap4 ,take eight pounds of bar-soap1 eight pounds of coarse soda1 7the sub-carbonate17 ten gallons of soft water1 boiled two hours1 stirring it often4 ,this is to be cooled1 and set away for use4 ,in washing1 take a pound of this soap1 to the largest pail of water1 and heat till it boils4 ,having previously soaked the white clothes1 in warm1 not hot1 water1 put them in this boiling mixture1 and let them boil one hour and no more4 ,take them out1 draining them well1 and put them in a tub1 half full of soft water4 ,turn them wrong side out2 rub the soiled places1 till they look clean2 then put them into blue rinsing-water1 and wring them out4 ,they are then ready to hang out4 ,some persons use another rinsing-water4 ,the colored clothes and flannels must not be washed in this way4 ,the fine clothes may be first boiled in this water2 it may then be used for coarser clothes2 and afterward1 the brown towels1 and other articles of that nature1 may be boiled in the same water4 ,after this1 the water which remains1 is still useful1 for washing floors2 and then1 the suds is a good manure to put around plants4 ,it is best to prepare1 at once1 the whole quantity of water to be used4 ,take out about one third1 and set it by2 and every time a fresh supply of clothes is put in1 use a portion of this1 to supply the waste of a former boiling4 ,modes of ,washing ,various ,articles4 ,brown ,linens1 or ,muslins1 of tea1 drab1 or olive1 colors1 look best1 washed in hay-water4 ,put in hay enough1 to color the water like new brown linen4 ,wash them first in lukewarm1 fair water1 without soap1 7removing grease with ,french chalk17 then wash and rinse them in the hay-water4 ,nankeens look best1 washed in suds1 with a teacup of ley added for each pailful4 ,iron on the wrong side4 ,soak new nankeens in ley1 for one night1 and it sets the color perfectly4 ,woollen ,table-,covers and ,woollen ,shawls1 may be washed thus3 ,remove grease as before directed4 ,if there be stains in the articles1 take them out with spirits of hartshorn4 ,wash the things in two portions of hot suds1 made of white soap4 ,do not wring them1 but fold them and press the water out1 catching it in a tub1 under a table4 ,shake1 stretch1 and dry1 neither by the sun nor a fire1 and do not let them freeze1 in drying4 ,sprinkle them three hours before ironing1 and fold and roll them tight4 ,iron them heavily on the wrong side4 ,woollen yarn1 should be washed in very hot water1 putting in a teacupful of ley1 and no soap1 to half a pailful of water4 ,rinse till the water comes off clear4 ,new ,black ,worsted and ,woollen ,hose1 should be soaked all night1 and washed in hot suds1 with beef's-gall1 a tablespoonful to half a pail of water4 ,rinse till no color comes out4 ,iron on the wrong side4 ,to ,cleanse ,gentlemen's ,broadcloths4 ,the common mode1 is1 to shake1 and brush the articles1 and rip out linings and pockets2 then to wash them in strong suds1 adding a teacupful of ley1 using white soap for light cloth2 rolling and then pressing1 instead of wringing1 them2 when dry1 sprinkling them1 and letting them lie all night2 and ironing on the wrong side1 or with a thin dark cloth over the article1 until perfectly dry4 ,but a far better way1 which the writer has repeatedly tried1 with unfailing success1 is the following3 ,take one beef's-gall1 half a pound of salratus1 and four gallons of warm water4 ,lay the article on a table1 and scour it thoroughly1 in every part1 with a clothes-brush1 dipped in this mixture4 ,the collar of a coat1 and the grease-spots1 7previously marked by stitches of white thread17 must be repeatedly brushed4 ,then1 take the article1 and rinse it up and down in the mixture4 ,then1 rinse it up and down in a tub of soft cold water4 ,then1 without wringing or pressing1 hang it to drain and dry4 ,fasten a coat up by the collar4 ,when perfectly dry1 it is sometimes the case1 with coats1 that nothing more is needed4 ,in other cases1 it is necessary to dampen the parts1 which look wrinkled1 with a sponge1 and either pull them smooth1 with the fingers1 or press them with an iron1 having a piece of bombazine1 or thin woollen cloth1 between the iron and the article4 ,to manufacture ,ley1 ,soap1 ,starch1 and other ,articles used in ,washing4 ,to make ,ley4 ,provide a large tub1 made of pine or ash1 and set it on a form1 so high1 that a tub can stand under it4 ,make a hole1 an inch in diameter1 near the bottom1 on one side4 ,lay bricks1 inside1 about this hole1 and straw over them4 ,to every seven bushels of ashes1 add two gallons of unslacked lime1 and throw in the ashes and lime in alternate layers4 ,while putting in the ashes and lime1 pour on boiling water1 using three or four pailfuls4 ,after this1 add a pailful of cold soft water1 once an hour1 till all the ashes appear to be well soaked4 ,catch the drippings1 in a tub1 and try its strength with an egg4 ,if the egg rise so as to show a circle as large as a ten cent piece1 the strength is right2 if it rise higher1 the ley must be weakened by water2 if not so high1 the ashes are not good1 and the whole process must be repeated1 putting in fresh ashes1 and running the weak ley through the new ashes1 with some additional water4 ,quick-ley is made by pouring one gallon of boiling soft water on three quarts of ashes1 and straining it4 ,oak ashes are best4 ,to make ,soft-,soap4 ,save all drippings and fat1 melt them1 and set them away1 in cakes4 ,some persons keep1 for soap-grease1 a half barrel1 with weak ley in it1 and a cover over it4 ,to make soft-soap1 take the proportion of one pailful of ley to three pounds of fat4 ,melt the fat1 and pour in the ley1 by degrees4 ,boil it steadily1 through the day1 till it is ropy4 ,if not boiled enough1 on cooling1 it will turn to ley and sediment4 ,while boiling1 there should always be a little oil on the surface4 ,if this does not appear1 add more grease4 ,if there is too much grease1 on cooling1 it will rise1 and can be skimmed off4 ,try it1 by cooling a small quantity4 ,when it appears like gelly1 on becoming cold1 it is done4 ,it must then be put in a cool place and often stirred4 ,to make cold ,soft-,soap1 melt thirty pounds of grease1 put it in a barrel1 add four pailfuls of strong ley1 and stir it up thoroughly4 ,then gradually add more ley1 till the barrel is nearly full1 and the soap looks about right4 ,to make ,potash-,soap1 melt thirty-nine pounds of grease1 and put it in a barrel4 ,take twenty-nine pounds of light ash-colored potash1 7the reddish-colored will spoil the soap17 and pour hot water on it2 then pour it off into the grease1 stirring it well4 ,continue thus1 till all the potash is melted4 ,add one pailful of cold water1 stirring it a great deal1 every day1 till the barrel be full1 and then it is done4 ,this is the cheapest and best kind of soap4 ,it is best to sell ashes and buy potash4 ,the soap is better1 if it stand a year before it is used2 therefore make two barrels at once4 ,to make ,hard ,white ,soap1 take fifteen pounds of lard1 or suet2 and1 when boiling1 add1 slowly1 five gallons of ley1 mixed with one gallon of water4 ,cool a small portion2 and1 if no grease rise1 it is done3 if grease do rise1 add ley1 and boil till no grease rises4 ,then add three quarts of fine salt1 and boil it2 if this do not harden well1 on cooling1 add more salt4 ,cool it1 and if it is to be perfumed1 melt it next day1 put in the perfume1 and then run it in moulds1 or cut it in cakes4 ,common ,hard ,soap1 is made in the same way1 by using common fat4 ,to manufacture ,starch1 cleanse a peck of unground wheat1 and soak it1 for several days1 in soft water4 ,when quite soft1 remove the husks1 with the hand1 and the soft parts will settle4 ,pour off the water1 and replace it1 every day1 with that which is fresh1 stirring it well4 ,when1 after stirring and settling1 the water is clear1 it is done4 ,then strain off the water1 and dry the starch1 for several days1 in the sun4 ,if the water be permitted to remain too long1 it sours1 and the starch is poor4 ,if the starch be not well dried1 it grows musty4 ,,chapter ,,xxvii4 ,,on ,,starching1 ,,ironing1 ,,and ,,cleansing4 ,to prepare ,starch4 ,take four tablespoonfuls of starch2 put in as much water2 and rub it1 till all lumps are removed4 ,then1 add half a cup of cold water4 ,pour this into a quart of boiling water1 and boil it for half an hour1 adding a piece of spermaceti1 or a lump of salt1 or sugar1 as large as a hazelnut4 ,strain it1 and put in a very little blueing4 ,thin it with hot water4 ,glue and ,gum-,starch4 ,put a piece of glue1 four inches square1 into three quarts of water1 boil it1 and keep it in a bottle1 corked up4 ,dissolve four ounces of gum ,arabic1 in a quart of hot water1 and set it away1 in a bottle1 corked4 ,use the glue for calicoes1 and the gum for silks and muslins1 both to be mixed with water1 at discretion4 ,beef's-,gall4 ,send a junk-bottle to the butcher1 and have several gall-bladders emptied into it4 ,keep it salted1 and in a cool place4 ,some persons perfume it2 but fresh air removes the unpleasant smell which it gives1 when used for clothes4 ,directions for ,starching ,muslins and ,laces4 ,many ladies clap muslins1 then dry them1 and afterwards sprinkle them4 ,this saves time4 ,others clap them1 till nearly dry1 then fold and cover1 and then iron them4 ,iron wrought muslins on soft flannel1 and on the wrong side4 ,to do up ,laces1 nicely1 sew a clean piece of muslin around a long bottle1 and roll the lace on it2 pulling out the edge1 and rolling it so that the edge will turn in1 and be covered1 as you roll4 ,fill the bottle with water1 and then boil it1 for an hour1 in a suds made with white soap4 ,rinse it in fair water1 a little blued2 dry it in the sun2 and1 if any stiffening is wished1 use thin starch1 or gum ,arabic4 ,when dry1 fold and press it1 between white papers1 in a large book4 ,it improves the lace1 to wet it with sweet-oil1 after it is rolled on the bottle1 and before boiling in the suds4 ,blond laces can be whitened1 by rolling them on a bottle1 in this way1 and then setting the bottle in the sun1 in a dish of cold suds made with white soap1 wetting it thoroughly1 and changing the suds1 every day4 ,do this1 for a week or more2 then rinse1 in fair water2 dry it on the bottle1 in the sun2 and stiffen it with white gum ,arabic4 ,lay it away in loose folds4 ,lace veils can be whitened1 by laying them in flat dishes1 in suds made with white soap2 then rinsing1 and stiffening them with gum ,arabic1 stretching them1 and pinning them on a sheet1 to dry4 ,,on ,,ironing4 ,articles to be provided for ,ironing4 ,a settee1 or settle1 made so that it can be used for an ironing-table1 is a great convenience4 ,it may be made of pine1 and of the following dimensions3 length1 five feet and six inches2 width of the seat1 one foot and nine inches2 height of the seat1 one foot and three inches2 height of the sides1 7or arms of the seat17 two feet and four inches2 height of the back1 five feet and three inches4 ,the back should be made with hinges1 of the height of the sides or arms1 so that it can be turned down1 and rest on them1 and thus become an ironing-table4 ,the back is to be fastened up1 behind1 with long iron hooks and staples4 ,the seat should be made with two lids1 opening into two boxes1 or partitions1 in one of which1 can be kept the ironing-sheets and holders1 and in the other1 the other articles used in ironing4 ,it can be stained of a cherry-color2 put on casters1 so as to move easily2 and be provided with two cushions1 stuffed with hay and covered with dark woollen4 ,it thus serves as a comfortable seat1 for ,winter1 protecting the back from cold4 ,where a settee1 of this description1 is not provided1 a large ironing-board1 made so as not to warp1 should be kept1 and used only for this purpose1 to be laid1 when used1 on a table4 ,provide1 also1 the following articles3 ,a woollen ironing-blanket1 and a linen or cotton sheet1 to spread over it2 a large fire1 of charcoal and hard wood1 7unless furnaces or stoves are used27 a hearth1 free from cinders and ashes1 a piece of sheet-iron1 in front of the fire1 on which to set the irons1 while heating2 7this last saves many black spots from careless ironers27 three or four holders1 made of woollen1 and covered with old silk1 as these do not easily take fire2 two iron rings1 or iron-stands1 on which to set the irons1 and small pieces of board to put under them1 to prevent scorching the sheet2 linen or cotton wipers2 and a piece of beeswax1 to rub on the irons when they are smoked4 ,there should be1 at least1 three irons for each person ironing1 and a small and large clothes-frame1 on which to air the fine and coarse clothes4 ,a bosom-board1 on which to iron shirt-bosoms1 should be made1 one foot and a half long1 and nine inches wide1 and covered with white flannel4 ,a skirt-board on which to iron frock-skirts1 should be made1 five feet long1 and two feet wide at one end1 tapering to one foot and three inches wide1 at the other end4 ,this should be covered with flannel2 and will save much trouble1 in ironing nice dresses4 ,the large end may be put on the table1 and the other1 on the back of a chair4 ,both these boards should have cotton covers1 made to fit them2 and these should be changed and washed1 when dirty4 ,these boards are often useful1 when articles are to be ironed or pressed1 in a chamber or parlor4 ,provide1 also1 a press-board1 for broadcloth1 two feet long1 and four inches wide at one end1 tapering to three inches wide1 at the other4 ,a fluting-iron1 called1 also1 a patent ,italian iron1 saves much labor1 in ironing ruffles neatly4 ,a crimping-iron1 will crimp ruffles beautifully1 with very little time or trouble4 ,care must be used1 with the latter1 or it will cut the ruffles4 ,a trial should be made1 with old muslins2 and1 when the iron is screwed in the right place1 it must be so kept1 and not altered without leave from the housekeeper4 ,if the lady of the house will provide all these articles1 see that the fires are properly made1 the ironing-sheets evenly put on and properly pinned1 the clothes-frames dusted1 and all articles kept in their places1 she will do much towards securing good ironing4 ,on ,sprinkling1 ,folding1 and ,ironing4 ,wipe the dust from the ironing-board1 and lay it down1 to receive the clothes1 which should be sprinkled with clear water1 and laid in separate piles1 one of colored1 one of common1 and one of fine articles1 and one of flannels4 ,fold the fine things1 and roll them in a towel1 and then fold the rest1 turning them all right side outward4 ,the colored clothes should be laid separate from the rest1 and ought not to lie long damp1 as it injures the colors4 ,the sheets and table linen should be shaken1 stretched1 and folded1 by two persons4 ,iron lace and needlework on the wrong side1 and carry them away1 as soon as dry4 ,iron calicoes with irons which are not very hot1 and generally on the right side1 as they thus keep clean for a longer time4 ,in ironing a frock1 first do the waist1 then the sleeves1 then the skirt4 ,keep the skirt rolled1 while ironing the other parts1 and set a chair1 to hold the sleeves1 while ironing the skirt1 unless a skirt-board be used4 ,in ironing a shirt1 first do the back1 then the sleeves1 then the collar and bosom1 and then the front4 ,iron silk on the wrong side1 when quite damp1 with an iron which is not very hot4 ,light colors are apt to change and fade4 ,iron velvet1 by turning up the face of the iron1 and after dampening the wrong side of the velvet1 draw it over the face of the iron1 holding it straight1 and not biased4 ,,chapter ,,xxviii4 ,,on ,,whitening1 ,,cleansing1 ,,and ,,dyeing4 ,to ,whiten ,articles1 and ,remove ,stains from them4 ,wet white clothes in suds1 and lay them on the grass1 in the sun4 ,lay muslins in suds made with white soap1 in a flat dish2 set this in the sun1 changing the suds1 every day4 ,whiten tow-cloth1 or brown linen1 by keeping it in ley1 through the night1 laying it out in the sun1 and wetting it with fair water1 as fast as it dries4 ,scorched articles can often be whitened again1 by laying them in the sun1 wet with suds4 ,where this does not answer1 put a pound of white soap in a gallon of milk1 and boil the article in it4 ,another method1 is1 to chop and extract the juice from two onions1 and boil this with half a pint of vinegar1 an ounce of white soap1 and two ounces of fuller's earth4 ,spread this1 when cool1 on the scorched part1 and1 when dry1 wash it off1 in fair water4 ,mildew may be removed1 by dipping the article in sour buttermilk1 laying it in the sun1 and1 after it is white1 rinsing it in fair water4 ,soap and chalk are also good2 also1 soap and starch1 adding half as much salt as there is starch1 together with the juice of a lemon4 ,stains in linen can often be removed1 by rubbing on soft soap1 then putting on a starch paste1 and drying in the sun1 renewing it several times4 ,wash off all the soap and starch1 in cold1 fair water4 ,mixtures for ,removing ,stains and ,grease4 ,stain-,mixture4 ,half an ounce of oxalic acid1 in a pint of soft water4 ,this can be kept in a corked bottle1 and is infallible in removing iron-rust1 and ink-stains4 ,it is very poisonous4 ,the article must be spread with this mixture over the steam of hot water1 and wet several times4 ,this will also remove indelible ink4 ,the article must be washed1 or the mixture will injure it4 ,another ,stain-,mixture is made1 by mixing one ounce of sal ammoniac1 one ounce of salt of tartar1 and one pint of soft water4 ,to remove ,grease4 ,mix four ounces of fuller's earth1 half an ounce of pearlash1 and lemon-juice enough to make a stiff paste1 which can be dried in balls1 and kept for use4 ,wet the greased spot with cold water1 rub it with the ball1 dry it1 and then rinse it with fair cold water4 ,this is for white articles4 ,for silks1 and worsteds1 use ,french chalk1 which can be procured of the apothecaries4 ,that which is soft and white1 is best4 ,scrape it on the greased spot1 and let it lie for a day and night4 ,then renew it1 till the spot disappears4 ,wilmington clay-balls1 are equally good4 ,ink-spots can often be removed from white clothes1 by rubbing on common tallow1 leaving it for a day or two1 and then washing1 as usual4 ,grease can be taken out of wall-paper1 by making a paste of potter's clay1 water and ox-gall1 and spreading it on the paper4 ,when dry1 renew it1 till the spot disappears4 ,stains on floors1 from soot1 or stove-pipes1 can be removed1 by washing the spot in sulphuric acid and water4 ,stains1 in colored silk dresses1 can often be removed1 by pure water4 ,those made by acids1 tea1 wine1 and fruits1 can often be removed1 by spirits of hartshorn1 diluted with an equal quantity of water4 ,sometimes1 it must be repeated1 several times4 ,tar1 ,pitch1 and ,turpentine1 can be removed1 by putting the spot in sweet-oil1 or by spreading tallow on it1 and letting it remain for twenty-four hours4 ,then1 if the article be linen or cotton1 wash it1 as usual2 if it be silk or worsted1 rub it with ether1 or spirits of wine4 ,lamp-,oil can be removed1 from floors1 carpets1 and other articles1 by spreading upon the stain a paste1 made of fuller's earth or potter's clay1 and renewing it1 when dry1 till the stain is removed4 ,if gall be put into the paste1 it will preserve the colors from injury4 ,when the stain has been removed1 carefully brush off the paste1 with a soft brush4 ,oil-,paint can be removed1 by rubbing it with very pure spirits of turpentine4 ,the impure spirit leaves a grease-spot4 ,wax can be removed1 by scraping it off1 and then holding a red-hot poker near the spot4 ,spermaceti may be removed by scraping it off1 then putting a paper over the spot1 and applying a warm iron4 ,if this does not answer1 rub on spirits of wine4 ,ink-,stains1 in carpets and woollen table-covers1 can be removed1 by washing the spot in a liquid1 composed of one teaspoonful of oxalic acid dissolved in a teacupful of warm 7not hot7 water1 and then rinsing in cold water4 ,stains on ,varnished ,articles1 which are caused by cups of hot water1 can be removed1 by rubbing them with lamp-oil1 and then with alcohol4 ,ink-stains can be taken out of mahogany1 by one teaspoonful of oil of vitriol mixed with one tablespoonful of water1 or by oxalic acid and water4 ,these must be brushed over quickly1 and then washed off with milk4 ,modes of ,cleansing ,various ,articles4 ,silk ,handkerchiefs and ,ribands can be cleansed1 by using ,french chalk to take out the grease1 and then sponging them1 on both sides1 with lukewarm fair water4 ,stiffen them with gum ,arabic1 and press them between white paper1 with an iron not very hot4 ,a tablespoonful of spirits of wine to three quarts of water1 improves it4 ,silk ,hose1 or ,silk ,gloves1 should be washed in warm suds made with white soap1 and rinsed in cold water2 they should then be stretched and rubbed1 with a hard-rolled flannel1 till they are quite dry4 ,ironing them1 very much injures their looks4 ,washleather articles should have the grease removed from them1 by ,french chalk1 or magnesia2 they should then be washed in warm suds1 and rinsed in cold water4 ,white ,kid ,gloves should have the grease removed from them1 as above directed4 ,they should then be brushed1 with a soft brush1 and a mixture of fuller's earth and magnesia4 ,in an hour after1 rub them with flannel1 dipped in bran and powdered whiting4 ,colored or ,hoskin's gloves can be cleansed1 very nicely1 by pure spirits of turpentine1 put on with a woollen cloth1 and rubbed from wrist to fingers4 ,hang them for several days in the air1 and all the unpleasant smell will be removed4 ,gentlemen's white gloves should be washed with a sponge1 in white-soapsuds2 then wiped1 and dried on the hands4 ,swan's-down tippets1 and capes1 should be washed in white-soapsuds1 squeezing1 and not rubbing them2 then rinse them in two waters1 and shake and stretch them while drying4 ,ostrich feathers can also be thus washed4 ,stiffen them1 with starch1 wet in cold water and not boiled4 ,shake them in the air1 till nearly dry1 then hold them before the fire1 and curl them with dull scissors1 giving each fibre a twitch1 turning it inward1 and holding it so for a moment4 ,straw and ,leghorn ,hats1 can be cleansed1 by simply washing them in white-soapsuds4 ,remove grease1 by ,french chalk1 and stains1 by diluted oxalic acid1 or cream of tartar4 ,the oxalic acid is best1 but must be instantly washed off4 ,to whiten them1 drive nails in a barrel1 near its bottom1 so that cords can be stretched across4 ,on these cords1 tie the bonnet1 wet with suds1 7having first removed the grease1 stains1 and dirt47 ,then invert the barrel1 over a dish of coals1 on which roll brimstone is slowly burning4 ,put a chip under one side of the barrel1 to admit the air4 ,continue this1 till the bonnet is white2 then hang it in the air1 7when the weather is not damp17 till the smell is removed4 ,then stiffen it with a solution of isinglass or gum ,arabic1 put on the inside1 with a sponge4 ,press the crown1 on a block1 and the rest on a board1 on the right side1 putting muslin between the iron and straw1 and pressing hard4 ,be careful not to make it too stiff4 ,first1 stiffen a small piece1 for trial4 ,,on ,,coloring4 ,precautions and ,preparations4 ,all the articles must be entirely free from grease or oil1 and also1 in most cases1 from soapsuds4 ,make light dyes in brass1 and dark ones in iron1 vessels4 ,always wet the articles1 in fair water1 before dyeing4 ,always carefully strain the dye4 ,if the color be too light1 dry and then dip the article again4 ,stir the article well in the dye1 lifting it up often4 ,remove any previous color1 by boiling in suds1 or1 what is better1 in the soda mixture used for washing4 ,pink ,dye4 ,buy a saucer of carmine1 at an apothecary's4 ,with it1 you will find directions for its use4 ,this is cheap1 easy to use1 and beautiful4 ,balm blossoms and ,bergamot blossoms1 with a little cream of tartar in the water1 make a pretty pink4 ,red ,dye4 ,take half a pound of wheat bran1 three ounces of powdered alum1 and two gallons of soft water4 ,boil these in a brass vessel1 and add an ounce of cream of tartar1 and an ounce of cochineal1 tied up together in a bag4 ,boil the mixture for fifteen minutes1 then strain it1 and dip the articles4 ,brazil wood1 set with alum1 makes another red dye4 ,yellow ,dye4 ,fustic1 turmeric powder1 saffron1 barberry-bush1 peach-leaves1 or marigold flowers1 make a yellow dye4 ,set the dye with alum1 putting a piece the size of a large hazelnut to each quart of water4 ,light ,blue ,dye1 for silks and woollens1 is made with the 'blue composition1' to be procured of the hat-makers2 fifteen drops to a quart of water4 ,articles dipped in this1 must be thoroughly rinsed4 ,for a dark blue1 boil four ounces of copperas in two gallons of water4 ,dip the articles in this1 and then in a strong decoction of logwood1 boiled and strained4 ,then wash them thoroughly in soapsuds4 ,green ,dye4 ,first color the article yellow2 and then1 if it be silk or woollen1 dip it in 'blue composition4' ,instead of ironing1 rub it with flannel1 while drying4 ,salmon ,color is made by boiling arnotto or anotta in soapsuds4 ,buff ,color is made by putting one teacupful of potash1 tied in a bag1 in two gallons of hot 7not boiling7 water1 and adding an ounce of arnotto1 also in a bag1 keeping it in for half an hour4 ,first1 wet the article in strong potash-water4 ,dry and then rinse in soapsuds4 ,birch bark and alum also make a buff4 ,black alder1 set with ley1 makes an orange color4 ,dove and ,slate ,colors1 of all shades1 are made by boiling1 in an iron vessel1 a teacupful of black tea1 with a teaspoonful of copperas4 ,dilute this1 till you get the shade wanted4 ,purple sugar-paper1 boiled1 and set with alum1 makes a similar color4 ,brown ,dye4 ,boil half a pound of camwood 7in a bag7 in two gallons of water1 for fifteen minutes4 ,wet the articles1 and boil them for a few minutes in the dye4 ,white-walnut bark1 the bark of sour sumach1 or of white maple1 set with alum1 make a brown color4 ,black ,dye4 ,let one pound of chopped logwood remain all night in one gallon of vinegar4 ,then boil them1 and put in a piece of copperas1 as large as a hen's egg4 ,wet the articles in warm water1 and put them in the dye1 boiling and stirring them for fifteen minutes4 ,dry them1 then wet them in warm water1 and dip them again4 ,repeat the process1 till the articles are black enough4 ,wash them in suds1 and rinse them till the water comes off clear4 ,iron nails1 boiled in vinegar1 make a black dye1 which is good for restoring rusty black silks4 ,olive ,color4 ,boil fustic and yellow-oak bark together4 ,the more fustic1 the brighter the olive2 the more oak bark1 the darker the shade4 ,set the light shade with a few drops of oil of vitriol1 and the dark shade with copperas4 ,,chapter ,,xxix4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,parlors4 ,in selecting the furniture of parlors1 some reference should be had to correspondence of shades and colors4 ,curtains should be darker than the walls2 and1 if the walls and carpets be light1 the chairs should be dark1 and vice versa4 ,pictures always look best on light walls4 ,in selecting carpets1 for rooms much used1 it is poor economy to buy cheap ones4 ,ingrain carpets1 of close texture1 and the three-ply carpets1 are best for common use4 ,brussels carpets do not wear so long as the three-ply ones1 because they cannot be turned4 ,wilton carpets wear badly1 and ,venetians are good only for halls and stairs4 ,in selecting colors1 avoid those in which there are any black threads2 as they are always rotten4 ,the most tasteful carpets1 are those1 which are made of various shades of the same color1 or of all shades of only two colors2 such as brown and yellow1 or blue and buff1 or salmon and green1 or all shades of green1 or of brown4 ,all very dark shades should be brown or green1 but not black4 ,in laying down carpets1 it is a bad practice to put straw under them1 as this makes them wear out in spots4 ,straw matting1 laid under carpets1 makes them last much longer1 as it is smooth and even1 and the dust sifts through it4 ,in buying carpets1 always get a few yards over1 to allow for waste in matching figures4 ,in cutting carpets1 make them three or four inches shorter than the room1 to allow for stretching4 ,begin to cut in the middle of a figure1 and it will usually match better4 ,many carpets match in two different ways1 and care must be taken to get the right one4 ,sew a carpet on the wrong side1 with double waxed thread1 and with the ball-stitch4 ,this is done by taking a stitch on the breadth next you1 pointing the needle towards you2 and then taking a stitch on the other breadth1 pointing the needle from you4 ,draw the thread tightly1 but not so as to pucker4 ,in fitting a breadth to the hearth1 cut slits in the right place1 and turn the piece under4 ,bind the whole of the carpet1 with carpet-binding1 nail it with tacks1 having bits of leather under the heads4 ,to stretch the carpet1 use a carpet-fork1 which is a long stick1 ending with notched tin1 like saw-teeth4 ,this is put in the edge of the carpet1 and pushed by one person1 while the nail is driven by another4 ,cover blocks1 or bricks1 with carpeting1 like that of the room1 and put them behind tables1 doors1 sofas1 c41 to preserve the walls from injury1 by knocking1 or by the dusting-cloth4 ,cheap footstools1 made of a square plank1 covered with tow-cloth1 stuffed1 and then covered with carpeting1 with worsted handles1 look very well4 ,sweep carpets as seldom as possible1 as it wears them out4 ,to shake them often1 is good economy4 ,in cleaning carpets1 use damp tea leaves1 or wet ,indian meal1 throwing it about1 and rubbing it over with the broom4 ,the latter1 is very good for cleansing carpets made dingy by coal-dust4 ,in brushing carpets in ordinary use1 it will be found very convenient to use a large flat dust-pan1 with a perpendicular handle a yard high1 put on so that the pan will stand alone4 ,this can be carried about1 and used without stooping1 brushing dust into it with a common broom4 ,the pan must be very large1 or it will be upset4 ,when carpets are taken up1 they should be hung on a line1 or laid on long grass1 and whipped1 first on one side1 and then on the other1 with pliant whips4 ,if laid aside1 they should be sewed up tight1 in linen1 having snuff or tobacco put along all the crevices where moths could enter4 ,shaking pepper1 from a pepper-box1 round the edge of the floor1 under a carpet1 prevents the access of moths4 ,carpets can be best washed on the floor1 thus3 ,first shake them2 and then1 after cleaning the floor1 stretch and nail them upon it4 ,then scrub them in cold soapsuds1 having half a teacupful of ox-gall to a bucket of water4 ,then wash off the suds1 with a cloth1 in fair water4 ,set open the doors and windows1 for two days or more4 ,imperial ,brussels1 ,venetian1 ingrain1 and three-ply1 carpets1 can be washed thus2 but ,wilton1 and other plush-carpets1 cannot4 ,before washing them1 take out grease1 with a paste1 made of potter's clay1 ox-gall1 and water4 ,straw matting is best for chambers and ,summer parlors4 ,the checked1 of two colors1 is not so good to wear4 ,the best1 is the cheapest in the end4 ,when washed1 it should be done with salt water1 wiping it dry2 but frequent washing injures it4 ,bind matting with cotton binding4 ,sew breadths together like carpeting4 ,in joining the ends of pieces1 ravel out a part1 and tie the threads together1 turning under a little of each piece1 and then1 laying the ends close1 nail them down1 with nails having kid under their heads4 ,in hanging pictures1 put them so that the lower part shall be opposite the eye4 ,cleanse the glass of pictures with whiting1 as water endangers the pictures4 ,gilt frames can be much better preserved by putting on a coat of copal varnish1 which1 with proper brushes1 can be bought of carriage or cabinet-makers4 ,when dry1 it can be washed with fair water4 ,wash the brush in spirits of turpentine4 ,curtains1 ottomans1 and sofas covered with worsted1 can be cleansed1 by wheat-bran1 rubbed on with flannel4 ,dust ,venetian blinds with feather brushes4 ,buy light-colored ones1 as the green are going out of fashion4 ,strips of linen or cotton1 on rollers and pulleys1 are much in use1 to shut out the sun from curtains and carpets4 ,paper curtains1 pasted on old cotton1 are good for chambers4 ,put them on rollers1 having cords nailed to them1 so that when the curtain falls1 the cord will be wound up4 ,then1 by pulling the cord1 the curtain will be rolled up4 ,mahogany furniture should be made in the ,spring1 and stand some months before it is used1 or it will shrink and warp4 ,varnished furniture should be rubbed only with silk1 except occasionally1 when a little sweet-oil should be rubbed over1 and wiped off carefully4 ,for unvarnished furniture1 use beeswax1 a little softened with sweet-oil2 rub it in with a hard brush1 and polish with woollen and silk rags4 ,some persons rub in linseed-oil2 others mix beeswax with a little spirits of turpentine and rosin1 making it so that it can be put on with a sponge1 and wiped off with a soft rag4 ,others1 keep in a bottle the following mixture2 two ounces of spirits of turpentine1 four tablespoonfuls of sweet-oil1 and one quart of milk4 ,this is applied with a sponge1 and wiped off with a linen rag4 ,hearths and jambs1 of brick1 look best painted over with blacklead1 mixed with soft-soap4 ,wash the bricks which are nearest the fire with redding and milk1 using a painter's brush4 ,a sheet of zinc1 covering the whole hearth1 is cheap1 saves work1 and looks very well4 ,a tinman can fit it properly4 ,stone hearths should be rubbed with a paste of powdered stone1 7to be procured of the stonecutters17 and then brushed with a stiff brush4 ,kitchen-hearths1 of stone1 are improved by rubbing in lamp-oil4 ,stains can be removed from marble1 by oxalic acid and water1 or oil of vitriol and water1 left on fifteen minutes1 and then rubbed dry4 ,gray marble is improved by linseed-oil4 ,grease can be taken from marble1 by ox-gall and potter's clay wet with soapsuds1 7a gill of each47 ,it is better to add1 also1 a gill of spirits of turpentine4 ,it improves the looks of marble1 to cover it with this mixture1 leaving it two days1 and then rubbing it off4 ,unless a parlor is in constant use1 it is best to sweep it only once a week1 and at other times use a whisk-broom and dust-pan4 ,when a parlor with handsome furniture is to be swept1 cover the sofas1 centre table1 piano1 books1 and mantelpiece1 with old cottons1 kept for the purpose4 ,remove the rugs1 and shake them1 and clean the jambs1 hearth1 and fire-furniture4 ,then sweep the room1 moving every article4 ,dust the furniture1 with a dust-brush and a piece of old silk4 ,a painter's brush should be kept1 to remove dust from ledges and crevices4 ,the dust-cloths should be often shaken and washed1 or else they will soil the walls and furniture when they are used4 ,dust ornaments1 and fine books1 with feather brushes1 kept for the purpose4 ,,chapter ,,xxx4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,breakfast ,,and ,,dining-,,rooms4 ,an eating-room should have in it a large closet1 with drawers and shelves1 in which should be kept all the articles used at meals4 ,this1 if possible1 should communicate with the kitchen1 by a sliding window1 or by a door1 and have in it a window1 and also a small sink1 made of marble or lined with zinc1 which will be a great convenience for washing nice articles4 ,if there be a dumb-waiter1 it is best to have it connected with such a closet4 ,it may be so contrived1 that1 when it is down1 it shall form part of the closet floor4 ,a table-rug1 or crumb-cloth1 is useful to save carpets from injury4 ,bocking1 or baize1 is best4 ,always spread the same side up1 or the carpet will be soiled by the rug4 ,table-mats are needful1 to prevent injury to the table from the warm dishes4 ,teacup-mats1 or small plates1 are useful to save the table-cloths from dripping tea or coffee4 ,butter-knives1 for the butter-plate1 and salt-spoons1 for salt-dishes1 are designed to prevent those disgusting marks which are made1 when persons use their own knives1 to take salt or butter4 ,a sugar-spoon should be kept in or by the sugar-dish1 for the same purpose4 ,table-napkins1 of diaper1 are often laid by each person's plate1 for use during the meal1 to save the tablecloth and pocket-handkerchief4 ,to preserve the same napkin for the same person1 each member of the family has a given number1 and the napkins are numbered to correspond1 or else are slipped into ivory rings1 which are numbered4 ,a stranger has a clean one1 at each meal4 ,tablecloths should be well starched1 and ironed on the right side1 and always1 when taken off1 folded in the ironed creases4 ,doilies are colored napkins1 which1 when fruit is offered1 should always be furnished1 to prevent a person from staining a nice handkerchief1 or permitting the fruit-juice to dry on the fingers4 ,casters and salt-stands should be put in order1 every morning1 when washing the breakfast things4 ,always1 if possible1 provide fine and dry table-salt1 as many persons are much disgusted with that which is dark1 damp1 and coarse4 ,be careful to keep salad-oil closely corked1 or it will grow rancid4 ,never leave the salt-spoons in the salt1 nor the mustard-spoon in the mustard1 as they are thereby injured4 ,wipe them1 immediately after the meal4 ,for table-furniture1 ,french china is deemed the nicest1 but it is liable to the objection of having plates1 so made1 that salt1 butter1 and similar articles1 will not lodge on the edge1 but slip into the centre4 ,select knives and forks1 which have weights in the handles1 so that1 when laid down1 they will not touch the table4 ,those with rivetted handles last longer than any others4 ,horn handles 7except buckhorn7 are very poor4 ,the best are cheapest in the end4 ,knives should be sharpened once a month1 unless they are kept sharp by the mode of scouring4 ,on ,setting ,tables4 ,neat housekeepers observe the manner in which a table is set more than any thing else2 and to a person of good taste1 few things are more annoying1 than to see the table placed askew2 the tablecloth soiled1 rumpled1 and put on awry2 the plates1 knives1 and dishes thrown about1 without any order2 the pitchers soiled on the outside1 and sometimes within2 the tumblers dim2 the caster out of order2 the butter pitched on the plate1 without any symmetry2 the salt coarse1 damp1 and dark2 the bread cut in a mixture of junks and slices2 the dishes of food set on at random1 and without mats2 the knives dark or rusty1 and their handles greasy2 the tea-furniture all out of order1 and every thing in similar style4 ,and yet1 many of these negligences will be met with1 at the tables of persons who call themselves well bred1 and who have wealth enough to make much outside show4 ,one reason for this1 is1 the great difficulty of finding domestics1 who will attend to these things in a proper manner1 and who1 after they have been repeatedly instructed1 will not neglect nor forget what has been said to them4 ,the writer has known cases1 where much has been gained by placing the following rules in plain sight1 in the place where the articles for setting tables are kept4 ,rules for setting a ,table4 #a4 ,lay the rug square with the room1 and also smooth and even2 then set the table also square with the room1 and see that the legs are in the right position to support the leaves4 #b4 ,lay the tablecloth square with the table1 right side up1 smooth1 and even4 #c4 ,put on the teatray 7for breakfast or tea7 square with the table2 set the cups and saucers at the front side of the teatray1 and the sugar1 slop-bowls1 and cream-cup1 at the back side4 ,lay the sugar-spoon or tongs on the sugar-bowl4 #d4 ,lay the plates around the table1 at equal intervals1 and the knives and forks at regular distances1 each in the same particular manner1 with a cup-mat1 or cup-plate1 to each1 and a napkin at the right side of each person4 #e4 ,if meat be used1 set the caster and salt-cellars in the centre of the table2 then lay mats for the dishes1 and place the carving-knife and fork and steel by the master of the house4 ,set the butter on two plates1 one on either side1 with a butter-knife by each4 #f4 ,set the tea or coffee-pot on a mat1 at the right hand of the teatray1 7if there be not room upon it47 ,then place the chairs around the table1 and call the family4 ,for ,dinner4 #a4 ,place the rug1 table1 tablecloth1 plates1 knives and forks1 and napkins1 as before directed1 with a tumbler by each plate4 ,in cold weather1 set the plates where they will be warmed4 #b4 ,put the caster in the centre1 and the salt-stands at two oblique corners1 of the table1 the latter between two large spoons crossed4 ,if more spoons be needed1 lay them on each side of the caster1 crossed4 ,set the pitcher on a mat1 either at a side-table1 or1 when there is no waiter1 on the dining-table4 ,water looks best in glass decanters4 #c4 ,set the bread on the table1 when there is no waiter4 ,some take a fork1 and lay a piece on the napkin or tumbler by each plate4 ,others keep it in a tray1 covered with a white napkin to keep off flies4 ,bread for dinner is often cut in small junks1 and not in slices4 #d4 ,set the principal dish before the master of the house1 and the other dishes in a regular manner4 ,put the carving-knife1 fork1 and steel1 by the principal dish1 and also a knife-rest1 if one be used4 #e4 ,put a small knife and fork by the pickles1 and also by any other dishes which need them4 ,then place the chairs4 ,on ,waiting at ,table4 ,a domestic1 who waits on the table1 should be required to keep the hair and hands in neat order1 and have on a clean apron4 ,a small teatray should be used to carry cups and plates4 ,the waiter should announce the meal 7when ready7 to the mistress of the family1 then stand by the eating-room door1 till all are in1 then close the door1 and step to the left side of the lady of the house4 ,when all are seated1 the waiter should remove the covers1 taking care first to invert them1 so as not to drop the steam on the tablecloth or guests4 ,in presenting articles1 go to the left side of the person4 ,in pouring water never entirely fill the tumbler4 ,the waiter should notice when bread or water is wanting1 and hand it without being called4 ,when plates are changed1 be careful not to drop knives or forks4 ,brush off crumbs1 with a crumb-brush1 into a small waiter4 ,when there is no domestic waiter1 a light table should be set at the left side of the mistress of the house1 on which the bread1 water1 and other articles not in immediate use1 can be placed4 ,on ,carving and ,helping at ,table4 ,it is considered an accomplishment for a lady to know how to carve well1 at her own table4 ,it is not proper to stand in carving4 ,the carving-knife should be sharp and thin4 ,to carve fowls1 7which should always be laid with the breast uppermost17 place the fork in the breast1 and take off the wings and legs without turning the fowl2 then cut out the merry thought1 cut slices from the breast1 take out the collar bone1 cut off the side pieces1 and then cut the carcass in two4 ,divide the joints in the leg of a turkey4 ,in helping the guests1 when no choice is expressed1 give a piece of both the white and dark meat1 with some of the stuffing4 ,inquire whether the guest will be helped to each kind of vegetable1 and put the gravy on the plate1 and not on any article of food4 ,in carving a sirloin1 cut thin slices from the side next to you1 7it must be put on the dish with the tenderloin underneath27 then turn it1 and cut from the tenderloin ,help the guest to both kinds4 ,in carving a leg of mutton1 or a ham1 begin by cutting across the middle1 to the bone4 ,cut a tongue across1 and not lengthwise1 and help from the middle part4 ,carve a forequarter of lamb1 by separating the shoulder from the ribs1 and then dividing the ribs4 ,to carve a loin of veal1 begin at the smaller end and separate the ribs4 ,help each one to a piece of the kidney and its fat4 ,carve pork and mutton in the same way4 ,to carve a fillet of veal1 begin at the top1 and help to the stuffing with each slice4 ,in a breast of veal1 separate the breast and brisket1 and then cut them up1 asking which part is preferred4 ,in carving a pig1 it is customary to divide it1 and take off the head1 before it comes to the table2 as1 to many persons1 the head is very revolting4 ,cut off the limbs1 and divide the ribs4 ,in carving venison1 make a deep incision down to the bone1 to let out the juices2 then turn the broad end of the haunch towards you1 cutting deep1 in thin slices4 ,for a saddle of venison1 cut from the tail towards the other end1 on each side1 in thin slices4 ,warm plates are very necessary1 with venison and mutton1 and in ,winter1 are desirable for all meats4 ,,chapter ,,xxxi4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,chambers ,,and ,,bedrooms4 ,every mistress of a family should see1 not only that all sleeping-rooms in her house can be well ventilated at night1 but that they actually are so4 ,where there is no open fireplace to admit the pure air from the exterior1 a door should be left open into an entry1 or room where fresh air is admitted2 or else a small opening should be made in a window1 taking care not to allow a draught of air to cross the bed4 ,the debility of childhood1 the lassitude of domestics1 and the ill-health of families1 are often caused by neglecting to provide a supply of pure air4 ,straw matting is best for a chamber carpet1 and strips of woollen carpeting may be laid by the side of the bed4 ,where chambers have no closets1 a wardrobe is indispensable4 ,this is a moveable closet1 with doors1 divided1 by a perpendicular partition1 into two apartments4 ,in one division1 rows of hooks are placed1 on which to hang dresses4 ,the other division is fitted up with shelves1 for other uses4 ,some are made with drawers at the bottom for shoes1 and such like articles4 ,a low square box1 set on casters1 with a cushion on the top1 and a drawer on one side to put shoes in1 is a great convenience in dressing the feet4 ,an old champaigne basket1 fitted up with a cushion on the lid1 and a valance fastened to it to cover the sides1 can be used for the same purpose4 ,a comfortable couch1 for chambers and sitting-rooms1 can be made by a common carpenter1 at a small expense4 ,have a frame made 7like the annexed engraving1 ,fig4 #ch17 of common stuff1 six feet long1 twenty-eight inches wide1 and twelve inches high4 ,it must be made thus low1 because the casters and cushions will raise it several inches4 ,have the sloping side-piece1 a1 and head-piece1 b1 sawed out of a board2 nail brown linen on them1 and stuff them with soft hay or hair4 ,let these be screwed to the frame1 and covered with furniture patch4 ,then let slats be nailed across the bottom1 as at c1 c1 four inches apart4 ,this will cost two or three dollars4 ,then make a thick cushion1 of hay or straw1 with side strips1 like a mattress1 and lay this for the under-cushion4 ,to put over this1 make a thinner cushion1 of hair1 cover it with furniture-calico1 and fasten to it a valance reaching to the floor4 ,then make two square pillows1 and cover them with calico1 like the rest4 ,both the cushions should be stitched through like mattresses4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ch4 ,the writer has seen a couch of this kind1 in a common parlor1 which cost less than eight dollars1 was much admired1 and was a constant comfort to the feeble mother1 as well as many other members of the family4 ,another convenience1 for a room where sewing is done in ,summer1 is a fancy-jar1 set in one corner1 to receive clippings1 and any other rubbish4 ,it can be covered with prints1 or paintings1 and varnished2 and then looks very prettily4 ,the trunks in a chamber can be improved in looks and comfort1 by making cushions of the same size and shape1 stuffed with hay and covered with chintz1 with a frill reaching nearly to the floor4 ,every bedchamber should have a washstand1 bowl1 pitcher1 and tumbler1 with a washbucket under the stand1 to receive slops4 ,a light screen1 made like a clothes-frame1 and covered with paper or chintz1 should be furnished for bedrooms occupied by two persons1 so that ablutions can be performed in privacy4 ,it can be ornamented1 so as to look well anywhere4 ,a little frame1 or towel-horse1 by the washstand1 on which to dry towels1 is a convenience4 ,a washstand should be furnished with a sponge or washcloth1 and a small towel1 for wiping the basin after using it4 ,this should be hung on the washstand or towel-horse1 for constant use4 ,a soap-dish1 and a dish for toothbrushes1 are neat and convenient1 and each person should be furnished with two towels2 one for the feet1 and one for other purposes4 ,it is in good taste to have the curtains1 bedquilt1 valance1 and window-curtains1 of similar materials4 ,in making featherbeds1 side-pieces should be put in1 like those of mattresses1 and the bed should be well filled1 so that a person will not be buried in a hollow1 which is not healthful1 save in extremely cold weather4 ,featherbeds should never be used1 except in cold weather4 ,at other times1 a thin mattress of hair1 cotton and moss1 or straw1 should be put over them4 ,a simple strip of broad straw matting1 spread over a featherbed1 answers the same purpose4 ,nothing is more debilitating1 than1 in warm weather1 to sleep with a featherbed pressing round the greater part of the body4 ,pillows stuffed with papers an inch square1 are good for ,summer1 especially for young children1 whose heads should be kept cool4 ,the cheapest and best covering of a bed1 for ,winter1 is a cotton comforter1 made to contain three or four pounds of cotton1 laid in batts or sheets1 between covers tacked together at regular intervals4 ,they should be three yards square1 and less cotton should be put at the sides that are tucked in4 ,it is better to have two thin comforters1 to each bed1 than one thick one2 as then the covering can be regulated according to the weather4 ,few domestics will make a bed properly1 without much attention from the mistress of the family4 ,the following directions should be given to those who do this work4 ,open the windows1 and lay off the bed-covering1 on two chairs1 at the foot of the bed4 ,after the bed is well aired1 shake the feathers1 from each corner to the middle2 then take up the middle1 and shake it well1 and turn the bed over4 ,then push the feathers in place1 making the head higher than the foot1 and the sides even1 and as high as the middle part4 ,then put on the bolster and the under sheet1 so that the wrong side of the sheet shall go next the bed1 and the marking come at the head1 tucking in all around4 ,then put on the pillows1 even1 so that the open ends shall come to the sides of the bed1 and then spread on the upper sheet1 so that the wrong side shall be next the blankets1 and the marked end at the head4 ,this arrangement of sheets is to prevent the part where the feet lie from being reversed1 so as to come to the face1 and also to prevent the parts soiled by the body from coming to the bedtick and blankets4 ,then put on the other covering1 except the outer one1 tucking in all around1 and then turn over the upper sheet1 at the head1 so as to show a part of the pillows4 ,when the pillow-cases are clean and smooth1 they look best outside of the cover1 but not otherwise4 ,then draw the hand along the side of the pillows1 to make an even indentation1 and then smooth and shape the whole outside4 ,a nice housekeeper always notices the manner in which a bed is made2 and in some parts of the ,country1 it is rare to see this work properly performed4 ,the writer would here urge every mistress of a family1 who keeps more than one domestic1 to provide them with single beds1 that they may not be obliged to sleep with all the changing domestics1 who come and go so often4 ,where the room is too small for two beds1 a narrow trucklebed under another1 will answer4 ,domestics should be furnished with washing conveniences in their chambers1 and be encouraged to keep their persons and rooms neat and in order4 ,on ,packing and ,storing ,articles4 ,fold a gentleman's coat1 thus3--,lay it on a table or bed1 the inside downward1 and unroll the collar4 ,double each sleeve once1 making the crease at the elbow1 and laying them so as to make the fewest wrinkles1 and parallel with the skirts4 ,turn the fronts over the back and sleeves1 and then turn up the skirts1 making all as smooth as possible4 ,fold a shirt1 thus3--,one that has a bosom-piece inserted1 lay on a bed1 bosom downward4 ,fold each sleeve twice1 and lay it parallel with the sides of the shirt4 ,turn the two sides1 with the sleeves1 over the middle part1 and then turn up the bottom1 with two folds4 ,this makes the collar and bosom lie1 unpressed1 on the outside4 ,fold a frock thus3--,lay its front downward1 so as to make the first creases in folding come in the side breadths4 ,to do this1 find the middle of the side breadths by first putting the middle of the front and back breadths together4 ,next1 fold over the side creases so as just to meet the slit behind4 ,then fold the skirt again1 so as to make the backs lie together within and the fronts without4 ,then arrange the waist and sleeves1 and fold the skirt around them4 ,in packing trunks1 for travelling1 put all heavy articles at the bottom1 covered with paper1 which should not be printed1 as the ink rubs off4 ,put coats and pantaloons into linen cases1 made for the purpose1 and furnished with strings4 ,fill all crevices with small articles2 as1 if a trunk is not full1 nor tightly packed1 its contents will be shaken about1 and get injured4 ,a thin box1 the exact size of the trunk1 with a lid1 and covered with brown linen1 is a great convenience1 to set inside1 on the top of the trunk1 to contain light articles which would be injured by tight packing4 ,have straps1 with buckles1 fastened to the inside1 near the bottom1 long enough to come up and buckle over this box4 ,by this means1 when a trunk is not quite full1 this box can be strapped over so tight1 as to keep the articles from rubbing4 ,under-clothing packs closer1 by being rolled tightly1 instead of being folded4 ,bonnet-boxes1 made of light wood1 with a lock and key1 are better than the paper bandboxes so annoying to travellers4 ,carpet bags are very useful1 to carry the articles to be used on a journey4 ,the best ones have sides inserted1 iron rims1 and a lock and key4 ,a large silk travelling-bag1 with a double linen lining1 in which are stitched receptacles for toothbrush1 combs1 and other small articles1 is a very convenient article for use when travelling4 ,a bonnet-cover1 made of some thin material1 like a large hood with a cape1 is useful to draw over the bonnet and neck1 to keep off dust1 sun1 and sparks from a steam engine4 ,green veils are very apt to stain bonnets1 when damp4 ,in packing household furniture1 for moving1 have each box numbered1 and then have a book1 in which1 as each box is packed1 note down the number of the box1 and the order in which its contents are packed1 as this will save much labor and perplexity when unpacking4 ,in packing china and glass1 wrap each article1 separately1 in paper1 and put soft hay or straw at bottom and all around each4 ,put the heaviest articles at the bottom2 and on the top of the box1 write1 ,this side up4 ,,chapter ,,xxxii4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,the ,,kitchen1 ,,cellar1 ,,and ,,storeroom4 ,if parents wish their daughters to grow up with good domestic habits1 they should have1 as one means of securing this result1 a neat and cheerful kitchen4 ,a kitchen should always1 if possible1 be entirely above ground1 and well lighted4 ,it should have a large sink1 with a drain running under ground1 so that all the premises may be kept sweet and clean4 ,if flowers and shrubs be cultivated1 around the doors and windows1 and the yard near them be kept well turfed1 it will add very much to their agreeable appearance4 ,the walls should often be cleaned and whitewashed1 to promote a neat look and pure air4 ,the floor of a kitchen should be painted1 or1 which is better1 covered with an oilcloth4 ,to procure a kitchen oilcloth as cheaply as possible1 buy cheap tow cloth1 and fit it to the size and shape of the kitchen4 ,then have it stretched1 and nailed to the south side of the barn1 and1 with a brush1 cover it with a coat of thin rye paste4 ,when this is dry1 put on a coat of yellow paint1 and let it dry for a fortnight4 ,it is safest to first try the paint1 and see if it dries well1 as some paint never will dry4 ,then put on a second coat1 and at the end of another fortnight1 a third coat4 ,then let it hang two months1 and it will last1 uninjured1 for many years4 ,the longer the paint is left to dry1 the better4 ,if varnished1 it will last much longer4 ,a sink should be scalded out every day1 and occasionally with hot ley4 ,on nails1 over the sink1 should be hung three good dish-cloths1 hemmed1 and furnished with loops2 one for dishes not greasy1 one for greasy dishes1 and one for washing pots and kettles4 ,these should be put in the wash every week4 ,the lady who insists upon this1 will not be annoyed by having her dishes washed with dark1 musty1 and greasy1 rags1 as is too frequently the case4 ,under the sink should be kept a slop-pail2 and1 on a shelf by it1 a soap-dish and two water-pails4 ,a large boiler1 of warm soft water1 should always be kept over the fire1 well covered1 and a hearth-broom and bellows be hung near the fire4 ,a clock is a very important article in the kitchen1 in order to secure regularity at meals4 ,on ,washing ,dishes4 ,no item of domestic labor is so frequently done in a negligent manner1 by domestics1 as this4 ,a full supply of conveniences1 will do much toward a remedy of this evil4 ,a swab1 made of strips of linen1 tied to a stick1 is useful to wash nice dishes1 especially small1 deep articles4 ,two or three towels1 and three dish-cloths1 should be used4 ,two large tin tubs1 painted on the outside1 should be provided2 one for washing1 and one for rinsing2 also1 a large old waiter1 on which to drain the dishes4 ,a soap-dish1 with hard soap1 and a fork1 with which to use it1 a slop-pail1 and two pails for water1 should also be furnished4 ,then1 if there be danger of neglect1 the following rules for washing dishes1 legibly written1 may be hung up by the sink1 and it will aid in promoting the desired care and neatness4 ,rules for ,washing ,dishes4 #a4 ,scrape the dishes1 putting away any food which may remain on them1 and which it may be proper to save for future use4 ,put grease into the grease-pot1 and whatever else may be on the plates1 into the slop-pail4 ,save tea-leaves1 for sweeping4 ,set all the dishes1 when scraped1 in regular piles2 the smallest at the top4 #b4 ,put the nicest articles in the wash-dish1 and wash them in hot suds1 with the swab or nicest dish-cloth4 ,wipe all metal articles1 as soon as they are washed4 ,put all the rest into the rinsing-dish1 which should be filled with hot water4 ,when they are taken out1 lay them to drain on the waiter4 ,then rinse the dish-cloth1 and hang it up1 wipe the articles washed1 and put them in their places4 #c4 ,pour in more hot water1 wash the greasy dishes with the dish-cloth made for them2 rinse them1 and set them to drain4 ,wipe them1 and set them away4 ,wash the knives and forks1 being careful that the handles are never put in water2 wipe them1 and then lay them in a knife-dish1 to be scoured4 #d4 ,take a fresh supply of clean suds1 in which1 wash the milk-pans1 buckets1 and tins4 ,then rinse and hang up this dish-cloth1 and take the other2 with which1 wash the roaster1 gridiron1 pots1 and kettles4 ,then wash and rinse the dish-cloth1 and hang it up4 ,empty the slop-bucket and scald it4 ,dry metal teapots and tins before the fire4 ,then put the fireplace in order1 and sweep and dust the kitchen4 ,some persons keep a deep and narrow vessel1 in which to wash knives with a swab1 so that a careless domestic cannot lay them in the water while washing them4 ,this article can be carried into the eating-room1 to receive the knives and forks1 when they are taken from the table4 ,kitchen ,furniture4 ,crockery4 ,brown earthen pans are said to be best1 for milk and for cooking4 ,tin pans are lighter1 and more convenient1 but are too cold for many purposes4 ,tall earthen jars1 with covers1 are good to hold butter1 salt1 lard1 c4 ,acids should never be put into the red earthen ware1 as there is a poisonous ingredient in the glazing1 which the acid takes off4 ,stone ware is better1 and stronger1 and safer1 every way1 than any other kind4 ,iron ,ware4 ,many kitchens are very imperfectly supplied with the requisite conveniences for cooking4 ,when a person has sufficient means1 the following articles are all desirable4 ,a nest of iron pots1 of different sizes1 7they should be slowly heated1 when new27 a long iron fork1 to take out articles from boiling water2 an iron hook1 with a handle1 to lift pots from the crane2 a large and small gridiron1 with grooved bars1 and a trench to catch the grease2 a ,dutch oven1 called1 also1 a bakepan2 two skillets1 of different sizes1 and a spider1 or flat skillet1 for frying2 a griddle1 a waffle-iron1 tin and iron bake and bread-pans2 two ladles1 of different sizes2 a skimmer2 iron skewers2 a toasting-iron2 two teakettles1 one small and one large one2 two brass kettles1 of different sizes1 for soap-boiling1 c4 ,iron kettles1 lined with porcelain1 are better for preserves4 ,the ,german are the best4 ,too hot a fire will crack them1 but with care in this respect1 they will last for many years4 ,portable furnaces1 of iron or clay1 are very useful1 in ,summer1 in washing1 ironing1 and stewing1 or making preserves4 ,if used in the house1 a strong draught must be made1 to prevent the deleterious effects of the charcoal4 ,a box and mill1 for spice1 pepper1 and coffee1 are needful to those who use these articles4 ,strong knives and forks1 a sharp carving-knife1 an iron cleaver and board1 a fine saw1 steelyards1 chopping-tray and knife1 an apple-parer1 steel for sharpening knives1 sugar-nippers1 a dozen iron spoons1 also a large iron one with a long handle1 six or eight flatirons1 one of them very small1 two iron-stands1 a ruffle-iron1 a crimping-iron1 are also desirable4 ,tin ,ware4 ,bread-pans1 large and small pattypans1 cake-pans1 with a centre tube to insure their baking well1 pie-dishes1 7of block-tin17 a covered butter-kettle1 covered kettles to hold berries1 two sauce-pans1 a large oil-can1 7with a cock17 a lamp-filler1 a lantern1 broad-bottomed candlesticks for the kitchen1 a candle-box1 a funnel or tunnel1 a reflector1 for baking warm cakes1 an oven or tin-kitchen1 an apple-corer1 an apple-roaster1 an egg-boiler1 two sugar-scoops1 and flour and meal-scoop1 a set of mugs1 three dippers1 a pint1 quart1 and gallon measure1 a set of scales and weights1 three or four pails1 painted on the outside1 a slop-bucket1 with a tight cover1 painted on the outside1 a milk-strainer1 a gravy-strainer1 a colander1 a dredging-box1 a pepper-box1 a large and small grater1 a box1 in which to keep cheese1 also a large one for cake1 and a still larger one for bread1 with tight covers4 ,bread1 cake1 and cheese1 shut up in this way1 will not grow dry as in the open air4 ,wooden ,ware4 ,a nest of tubs1 a set of pails and bowls1 a large and small sieve1 a beetle for mashing potatoes1 a spad or stick for stirring butter and sugar1 a bread-board1 for moulding bread and making pie-crust1 a coffee-stick1 a clothes-stick1 a mush-stick1 a meat-beetle to pound tough meat1 an egg-beater1 a ladle for working butter1 a bread-trough1 7for a large family17 flour-buckets1 with lids to hold sifted flour and ,indian meal1 salt-boxes1 sugar-boxes1 starch and indigo-boxes1 spice-boxes1 a bosom-board1 a skirt-board1 a large ironing-board1 two or three clothes-frames1 and six dozen clothes-pins4 ,basket ,ware4 ,baskets1 of all sizes1 for eggs1 fruit1 marketing1 clothes1 c42 also chip-baskets4 ,when often used1 they should be washed in hot suds4 ,other ,articles4 ,every kitchen needs a box containing balls of brown thread and twine1 a large and small darning needle1 rolls of waste-paper and old linen and cotton1 and a supply of common holders4 ,there should also be another box1 containing a hammer1 carpet-tacks1 and nails of all sizes1 a carpet-claw1 screws and a screw-driver1 pincers1 gimlets of several sizes1 a bed-screw1 a small saw1 two chisels1 7one to use for buttonholes in broadcloth17 two awls1 and two files4 ,in a drawer1 or cupboard1 should be placed1 cotton table-cloths1 for kitchen use1 nice crash towels1 for tumblers1 marked1 ,t ,t2 coarser towels1 for dishes1 marked1 ,t2 six large roller-towels2 a dozen hand-towels1 marked1 ,h ,t2 and a dozen hemmed dish-cloths1 with loops4 ,also1 two thick linen pudding or dumpling-cloths1 a gelly-bag1 made of white flannel1 to strain gelly1 a starch-strainer1 and a bag for boiling clothes4 ,in a closet1 should be kept1 arranged in order1 the following articles3 the dust-pan1 dust-brush1 and dusting-cloths1 old flannel and cotton for scouring and rubbing1 sponges for washing windows and looking-glasses1 a long brush for cobwebs1 and another for washing the outside of windows1 whisk-brooms1 common brooms1 a coat-broom or brush1 a whitewash-brush1 a stove-brush1 shoebrushes and blacking1 articles for cleaning tin and silver1 leather for cleaning metals1 bottles containing stain-mixtures1 and other articles used in cleansing4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,the ,,cellar4 ,a cellar should often be whitewashed1 to keep it sweet4 ,it should have a drain1 to keep it perfectly dry1 as standing water1 in a cellar1 is a sure cause of disease in a family4 ,it is very dangerous to leave decayed vegetables in a cellar4 ,many a fever has been caused1 by the poisonous miasm thus generated4 ,the following articles are desirable in a cellar3 a safe1 or moveable closet1 with sides of wire or perforated tin1 in which cold meats1 cream1 and other articles should be kept2 7if ants be troublesome1 set the legs in tin cups of water27 a refrigerator1 or large wooden box1 on feet1 with a lining of tin or zinc1 and a space between the tin and wood filled with powdered charcoal1 having at the bottom1 a place for ice1 a drain to carry off the water1 and also moveable shelves and partitions4 ,in this1 articles are kept cool4 ,it should be cleaned1 once a week4 ,filtering jars1 to purify water1 should also be kept in the cellar4 ,fish and cabbages1 in a cellar1 are apt to scent a house1 and give a bad taste to other articles4 ,,storeroom4 ,every house needs a storeroom1 in which to keep tea1 coffee1 sugar1 rice1 candles1 c4 ,it should be furnished with jars1 having labels1 a large spoon1 a fork1 sugar and flour-scoops1 a towel1 and a dish-cloth4 ,modes of destroying ,insects and ,vermin4 ,bed-bugs should be kept away1 by filling every chink in the bedstead with putty1 and1 if it be old1 painting it over4 ,of all the mixtures for killing them1 corrosive sublimate and alcohol is the surest4 ,this is a strong poison4 ,cockroaches may be destroyed1 by pouring boiling water into their haunts1 or setting a mixture of arsenic1 mixed with ,indian meal and molasses1 where they are found4 ,chloride of lime and sweetened water will also poison them4 ,fleas4 ,if a dog be infested with these insects1 put him in a tub of warm soapsuds1 and they will rise to the surface4 ,take them off1 and burn them4 ,strong perfumes1 about the person1 diminish their attacks4 ,when caught between the fingers1 plunge them in water1 or they will escape4 ,crickets4 ,scalding1 and sprinkling ,scotch snuff about the haunts of these insects1 are remedies for the annoyance caused by them4 ,flies can be killed1 in great quantities1 by placing about the house vessels1 filled with sweetened water and cobalt4 ,six cents worth of cobalt is enough for a pint of water4 ,it is very poisonous4 ,musquitoes4 ,close nets around a bed1 are the only sure protection at night1 against these insects4 ,spirit of hartshorn is the best antidote for their bite4 ,salt and water is good4 ,red or ,black ,ants may be driven away1 by scalding their haunts1 and putting ,scotch snuff wherever they go for food4 ,set the legs of closets and safes in pans of water1 and they cannot get at them4 ,moths4 ,airing clothes does not destroy moths1 but laying them in a hot sun does4 ,if articles be tightly sewed up in linen1 and fine tobacco be put about them1 it is a sure protection4 ,this should be done in ,april4 ,rats and ,mice4 ,a good cat is the best remedy for these annoyances4 ,equal quantities of hemlock1 7or cicuta17 and old cheese1 will poison them1 but this renders the house liable to the inconvenience of a bad smell4 ,this evil1 however1 may be lessened1 by placing a dish1 containing oil of vitriol poured on saltpetre1 where the smell is most annoying4 ,chloride of lime and water is also good4 ,,chapter ,,xxxiii4 ,,on ,,sewing1 ,,cutting1 ,,and ,,mending4 ,every young girl should be taught to do the following kinds of stitch1 with propriety4 ,over-stitch1 hemming1 running1 felling1 stitching1 back-stitch and run1 buttonhole-stitch1 chain-stitch1 whipping1 darning1 gathering1 and cross-stitch4 ,in doing over-stitch1 the edges should always be first fitted1 either with pins or basting1 to prevent puckering4 ,in turning wide hems1 a paper measure should be used1 to make them even4 ,tucks1 also1 should be regulated by a paper measure4 ,a fell should be turned1 before the edges are put together1 and the seam should be over-sewed1 before felling4 ,all biased or goring seams should be felled4 ,for stitching1 draw a thread1 and take up two or three threads at a stitch4 ,in making buttonholes1 it is best to have a pair of scissors1 made for the purpose1 which cut very neatly4 ,for broadcloth1 a chisel and board are better4 ,the best stitch is made by putting in the needle1 and then turning the thread around it1 near the eye4 ,this is better than to draw the needle through1 and then take up a loop4 ,a thread should first be put across each side of the buttonhole1 and also a stay-thread1 or bar1 at each end1 before working it4 ,in working the buttonhole1 keep the stay-thread as far from the edge as possible4 ,a small bar should be worked at each end4 ,whipping is done better by sewing over1 and not under4 ,the roll should be as fine as possible1 the stitches short1 the thread strong1 and in sewing1 every gather should be taken up4 ,the rule for gathering1 in shirts1 is1 to draw a thread1 and then take up two threads and skip four4 ,in darning1 after the perpendicular threads are run1 the crossing threads should interlace1 exactly1 taking one thread and leaving one1 like woven threads4 ,the neatest sewers always fit and baste their work1 before sewing2 and they say they always save time in the end1 by so doing1 as they never have to pick out work1 on account of mistakes4 ,it is wise to sew closely and tightly all new garments1 which will never be altered in shape2 but some are more nice than wise1 in sewing frocks1 and old garments1 in the same style4 ,however1 this is the least common extreme4 ,it is much more frequently the case1 that articles1 which ought to be strongly and neatly made1 are sewed so that a nice sewer would rather pick out the threads and sew over again1 than to be annoyed with the sight of grinning stitches1 and vexed with constant rips4 ,workbaskets4 ,it is very important to neatness1 comfort1 and success in sewing1 that a lady's workbasket should be properly fitted up4 ,the following articles are needful to the mistress of a family3 a large basket1 to hold work2 having in it1 fastened1 a smaller basket1 or box1 containing a needle-book1 in which are needles of every size1 both blunts and sharps1 with a larger number of those sizes most used2 also1 small and large darning-needles1 for woollen1 cotton1 and silk2 two tape-needles1 large and small2 nice scissors1 for fine work2 buttonhole scissors2 an emery-bag2 two balls of white and yellow wax2 and two thimbles1 in case one should be mislaid4 ,when a person is troubled with damp fingers1 a lump of soft chalk1 in a paper1 is useful1 to rub on the ends of the fingers4 ,besides this box1 keep in the basket1 common scissors2 small shears2 a bag containing tapes1 of all colors and sizes1 done up in rolls2 bags1 one1 containing spools of white1 and another of colored1 cotton thread1 and another for silks1 wound on spools or papers2 a box or bag for nice buttons1 and another for more common ones2 a bag containing silk braid1 welting cords1 and galloon binding4 ,small rolls of pieces of white and brown linen and cotton1 are also often needed4 ,a brick pincushion is a great convenience1 in sewing1 and better than screw-cushions4 ,it is made by covering half a brick with cloth1 putting a cushion on the top1 and covering it tastefully4 ,it is very useful to hold pins and needles1 while sewing1 and to fasten long seams when basting and sewing4 ,to make a ,frock4 ,the best way for a novice1 is1 to get a dress fitted 7not sewed7 at the best mantuamaker's4 ,then take out a sleeve1 rip it to pieces1 and cut out a pattern4 ,then take out half of the waist1 7it must have a seam in front17 and cut out a pattern of the back and fore-body1 both lining and outer part4 ,in cutting the patterns1 iron the pieces1 smooth1 let the paper be stiff1 and1 with a pin1 prick holes in the paper1 to show the gore in front1 and the depth of the seams4 ,with a pen and ink1 draw lines from each pinhole1 to preserve this mark4 ,then baste the parts together again1 in doing which1 the unbasted half will serve as a pattern4 ,when this is done1 a lady of common ingenuity can cut and fit a dress1 by these patterns4 ,if the waist of a dress be too tight1 the seam under the arm must be let out2 and in cutting a dress1 an allowance should be made1 for letting it out1 if needful1 at this seam4 ,the lining of the fore-body must be biased4 ,the linings for the waists of dresses should be stiffened cotton or linen4 ,in cutting bias-pieces1 for trimming1 they will not set well1 unless they are exact4 ,in cutting them1 use a long rule1 and a lead pencil or piece of chalk4 ,welting-cords should be covered with bias-pieces2 and it saves time1 in many cases1 to baste on the welting-cord1 at the same time that you cover it4 ,the best way to put on hooks and eyes1 is to sew them on double broad tape1 and then sew this on the frock-lining4 ,they can then be moved easily1 and do not show where they are sewed on4 ,in cutting a sleeve1 double it biased4 ,the skirts of dresses look badly1 if not full2 and in putting on lining1 at the bottom1 be careful to have it a very little fuller than the dress1 or it will shrink1 and look badly4 ,all thin silks look much better with lining1 and last much longer1 as do aprons1 also4 ,in putting a lining to a dress1 baste it on each separate breadth1 and sew it in at the seams1 and it looks much better than to have it fastened only at the bottom4 ,make notches in selvedge1 to prevent it from drawing up the breadth4 ,dresses1 which are to be washed1 should not be lined4 ,figured silks do not generally wear well1 if the figure be large and satin-like4 ,black and plain-colored silks can be tested1 by procuring samples1 and making creases in them2 fold the creases in a bunch1 and rub them against a rough surface1 of moreen or carpeting4 ,those which are poor1 will soon wear off1 at the creases4 ,plaids look becoming1 for tall women1 as they shorten the appearance of the figure4 ,stripes look becoming1 on a large person1 as they reduce the apparent size4 ,pale persons should not wear blue or green1 and brunettes should not wear light delicate colors1 except shades of buff1 fawn1 or straw color4 ,pearl white is not good for any complexion4 ,dead white and black look becoming on almost all persons4 ,it is best to try colors1 by candle-light1 for evening dresses2 as some colors1 which look very handsome in the daylight1 are very homely when seen by candle-light4 ,never cut a dress low in the neck1 as this shows that a woman is not properly instructed in the rules of modesty and decorum1 or that she has not sense enough to regard them4 ,never be in haste to be first in a fashion1 and never go to the extremes4 ,in buying linen1 seek for that which has a round close thread1 and is perfectly white2 for1 if it be not white1 at first1 it will never afterwards become so4 ,much that is called linen1 at the shops1 is half cotton1 and does not wear so well as cotton alone4 ,cheap linens are usually of this kind4 ,it is difficult to discover which are all linen2 but the best way1 is1 to find a lot1 presumed to be good1 take a sample1 wash it1 and ravel it4 ,if this be good1 the rest of the same lot will probably be so4 ,if you cannot do this1 draw a thread1 each way1 and if both appear equally strong1 it is probably all linen4 ,linen and cotton must be put in clean water1 and boiled1 to get out the starch1 and then ironed4 ,a long piece of linen1 a yard wide1 will1 with care and calculation1 make eight shirts4 ,in cutting it1 take a shirt of the right size1 as a guide1 in fitting and basting4 ,bosom-pieces1 false collars1 c4 must be cut and fitted1 by a pattern which suits the person for whom the articles are designed4 ,gentlemen's night-shirts are made like other shirts1 except that they are longer4 ,in cutting chemises1 if the cotton or linen is a yard wide1 cut off small half gores1 at the top of the breadths1 and set them on the bottom4 ,use a long rule and a pencil1 in cutting gores4 ,in cutting cotton1 which is quite wide1 a seam can be saved1 by cutting out two at once1 in this manner3--cut off three breadths1 and1 with a long rule and a pencil1 mark and cut off the gores1 thus3 from one breadth1 cut off two gores1 the whole length1 each gore one fourth of the breadth1 at the bottom1 and tapering off to a point1 at the top4 ,the other two breadths are to have a gore cut off from each1 which is one fourth wide at top1 and two fourths at bottom4 ,arrange these pieces right1 and they will make two chemises1 one having four seams1 and the other three4 ,this is a much easier way of cutting1 than sewing the three breadths together1 in bag-fashion1 as is often done4 ,the biased1 or goring seams1 must always be felled4 ,the sleeves and neck can be cut according to the taste of the wearer1 by another chemise for a pattern4 ,there should be a lining around the armholes1 and stays at all corners4 ,six yards1 of yard width1 will make two chemises4 ,old silk dresses1 quilted for skirts1 are very serviceable4 ,white flannel is soiled so easily1 and shrinks so much in washing1 that it is a good plan to color it a light dove-color1 according to the receipt given on page #cja4 ,cotton flannel1 dyed thus1 is also good for common skirts4 ,in making up flannel1 back-stitch and run the seams1 and then cross-stitch them open4 ,nice flannel1 for infants1 can be ornamented1 with very little expense of time1 by turning up the hem1 on the right side1 and making a little vine at the edge1 with saddler's silk4 ,the stitch of the vine is a modification of buttonhole-stitch4 ,long night gowns are best1 cut a little goring4 ,it requires five yards1 for a long nightgown1 and two and a half for a short one4 ,linen nightcaps wear longer than cotton ones1 and do not1 like them1 turn yellow4 ,they should be ruffled with linen1 as cotton borders will not last so long as the cap4 ,a double-quilted wrapper is a great comfort1 in case of sickness4 ,it may be made of two old dresses4 ,it should not be cut full1 but rather like a gentleman's study-gown1 having no gathers or plaits1 but large enough to slip off and on with ease4 ,a double gown1 of calico1 is also very useful4 ,most articles of dress1 for grown persons or children1 require patterns4 ,bedding4 ,the best beds1 are thick hair mattresses1 which1 for persons in health1 are good for ,winter as well as ,summer use4 ,mattresses may also be made of husks1 dried and drawn into shreds2 also1 of alternate layers of cotton and moss4 ,the most profitable sheeting1 is the ,russian1 which will last three times as long as any other4 ,it is never perfectly white4 ,unbleached cotton is good for ,winter4 ,it is poor economy to make narrow and short sheets1 as children and domestics will always slip them off1 and soil the bedtick and bolster4 ,they should be three yards long1 and two and a half wide1 so that they can be tucked in all around4 ,all bed-linen should be marked and numbered1 so that a bed can always be made properly1 and all missing articles be known4 ,mending4 ,silk dresses will last much longer1 by ripping out the sleeves1 when thin1 and changing the arms1 and also the breadths of the skirt4 ,tumbled black silk1 which is old and rusty1 should be dipped in water1 then be drained for a few minutes1 without squeezing or pressing1 and then ironed4 ,cold tea is better than water4 ,sheets1 when worn thin in the middle1 should be ripped1 and the other edges sewed together4 ,window-curtains last much longer1 if lined1 as the sun fades and rots them4 ,broadcloth should be cut with reference to the way the nap runs4 ,when pantaloons are thin1 it is best to newly seat them1 cutting the piece inserted in a curve1 as corners are difficult to fit4 ,when the knees are thin1 it is a case of domestic surgery1 which demands amputation4 ,this is performed1 by cutting off both legs1 some distance above the knees1 and then changing the legs4 ,take care to cut them off exactly of the same length1 or in the exchange they will not fit4 ,this method brings the worn spot under the knees1 and the seam looks much better than a patch and darn4 ,hose can be cut down1 when the feet are worn4 ,take an old stocking1 and cut it up for a pattern4 ,make the heel short4 ,in sewing1 turn each edge1 and run it down1 and then sew over the edges4 ,this is better than to stitch and then cross-stitch4 ,run thin places in stockings1 and it will save darning a hole4 ,if shoes are worn through on the sides1 in the upper-leather1 slip pieces of broadcloth under1 and sew them around the holes4 ,if1 in sewing1 the thread kinks1 break it off and begin at the other end4 ,in using spool-cotton1 thread the needle with the end which comes off first1 and not the end where you break it off4 ,this often prevents kinks4 ,,chapter ,,xxxiv4 ,,on ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,yards ,,and ,,gardens4 ,the authorities consulted in the preparation of this and kindred chapters1 are1 ,loudon's ,encyclopdia of ,gardening1 ,bridgeman's ,young ,gardener1 ,hovey's ,magazine of ,horticulture1 the writings of ,judge ,buel1,t and ,downing's ,landscape ,gardening4 ,on the ,preparation of ,soil4 ,if the garden soil be clayey1 and adhesive1 put on a covering of sand1 three inches thick1 and the same depth of well-rotted manure4 ,spade it in1 as deep as possible1 and mix it well4 ,if the soil be sandy and loose1 spade in clay and ashes4 ,ashes are good for all kinds of soil1 as they loosen those which are close1 hold moisture in those which are sandy1 and destroy insects4 ,the best kind of soil1 is that1 which will hold water the longest1 without becoming hard1 when dry4 ,to prepare ,soil for ,pot-plants1 take one fourth part of common soil1 one fourth part of well-decayed manure1 and one half of vegetable mould1 from the woods1 or from a chip-yard4 ,break up the manure1 fine1 and sift it through a lime-screen1 7or coarse wire sieve47 ,these materials must be thoroughly mixed4 ,when the common soil which is used1 is adhesive1 and1 indeed1 in most other cases1 it is necessary to add sand1 the proportion of which1 must depend on the nature of the soil4 ,on the ,preparation of a ,hot ,bed4 ,dig a pit1 six feet long1 five feet wide1 and thirty inches deep4 ,make a frame1 of the same size1 with the back two feet high1 the front fifteen inches1 and the sides sloped from the back to the front4 ,make two sashes1 each three feet by five1 with the panes of glass lapping like shingles1 instead of having cross bars4 ,set the frame over the pit1 which should then be filled with fresh horse-dung1 which has not lain long1 nor been sodden by water4 ,tread it down1 hard1 then put into the frame1 light1 and very rich soil1 ten or twelve inches deep1 and cover it with the sashes1 for two or three days4 ,then stir the soil1 and sow the seeds in shallow drills1 placing sticks by them1 to mark the different kinds4 ,keep the frame covered with the glass1 whenever it is cold enough to chill the plants2 but at all other times1 admit fresh air1 which is indispensable to their health4 ,when the sun is quite warm1 raise the glasses1 enough to admit air1 and cover them with matting or blankets1 or else the sun may kill the young plants4 ,water the bed at evening1 with water which has stood all day1 or1 if it be fresh drawn1 add a little warm water4 ,if there be too much heat in the bed1 so as to scorch or wither the plants1 make deep holes1 with stakes1 and fill them up when the heat is reduced4 ,in very cold nights1 cover the box with straw4 ,on ,planting ,flower ,seeds4 ,break up the soil1 till it is very soft1 and free from lumps4 ,rub that nearest the surface1 between the hands1 to make it fine4 ,make a circular drill1 a foot in diameter4 ,for seeds as large as sweet peas1 it should be half an inch deep4 ,the smallest seeds must be planted very near the surface1 and a very little fine earth be sifted over them4 ,seeds are to be planted either deeper or nearer the surface1 according to their size4 ,after covering them with soil1 beat them down with a trowel1 so as to make the earth as compact as it is after a heavy shower4 ,set up a stick1 in the middle of the circle1 with the name of the plant heavily written upon it1 with a dark lead pencil4 ,this remains more permanent1 if white lead be first rubbed over the surface4 ,never plant1 when the soil is very wet4 ,in very dry times1 water the seeds at night4 ,never use very cold water4 ,when the seeds are small1 many should be planted together1 that they may assist each other in breaking the soil4 ,when the plants are an inch high1 thin them out1 leaving only one or two1 if the plant be a large one1 like the ,balsam2 five or six1 when it is of a medium size2 and eighteen or twenty of the smaller size4 ,transplanting1 retards the growth of a plant about a fortnight4 ,it is best to plant at two different times1 lest the first planting should fail1 owing to wet or cold weather4 ,to ,plant ,garden ,seeds4 ,make the beds a yard wide2 lay across them a board1 a yard long and a foot wide1 and1 with a stick1 make a furrow1 on each side of it1 one inch deep4 ,scatter the seeds in this furrow1 and cover them4 ,then lay the board over them and step on it1 to press down the earth4 ,when the plants are an inch high1 thin them out1 leaving spaces proportioned to their sizes4 ,seeds of a similar species1 such as melons and squashes1 should not be planted very near to each other1 as this causes them to degenerate4 ,the same kinds of vegetables should not be planted in the same place1 for two years in succession4 ,on ,transplanting4 ,transplant at evening1 or1 which is better1 just before a shower4 ,take a round stick1 sharpened at the point1 and make openings to receive the plants4 ,set them a very little deeper than they were before1 and press the soil firmly round them4 ,then water them1 and cover them for three or four days1 taking care that sufficient air be admitted4 ,if the plant can be removed1 without disturbing the soil around the root1 it will not be at all retarded1 by transplanting4 ,never remove leaves and branches1 unless a part of the roots be lost4 ,to ,re-pot ,house-,plants4 ,renew the soil1 every year1 soon after the time of blossoming4 ,prepare soil1 as previously directed4 ,loosen the earth from the pot1 by passing a knife around the sides4 ,turn the plant upside down1 and remove the pot4 ,then remove all the matted fibres at the bottom1 and all the earth1 except that which adheres to the roots4 ,from woody plants1 like roses1 shake off all the earth4 ,take the new pot1 and put a piece of broken earthen-ware over the hole at the bottom2 and then1 holding the plant in the proper position1 shake in the earth1 around it4 ,then pour in water1 to settle the earth1 and heap on fresh soil1 till the pot is even full4 ,small pots are considered better than large ones1 as the roots are not so likely to rot1 from excess of moisture4 ,on the ,laying out of ,yards and ,gardens4 ,in planting trees1 in a yard1 they should be arranged in groups1 and never planted in straight lines1 nor sprinkled about1 as solitary trees4 ,the object of this arrangement1 is1 to imitate ,nature1 and secure some spots of dense shade and some of cleared turf4 ,in yards which are covered with turf1 beds can be cut out of it1 and raised for flowers4 ,a trench should be made around1 to prevent the grass from running on them4 ,these beds can be made in the shape of crescents1 ovals1 or other fanciful forms1 of which1 the figure below is one specimen4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #ci4 ,in laying out beds1 in gardens and yards1 a very pretty bordering can be made1 by planting them with common flax seed1 in a line about three inches from the edge4 ,this can be trimmed1 with shears1 when it grows too high4 ,on the ,cultivation of ,bulbs1 and ,tuberous ,roots4 ,for planting the ,amaryllis1 take one third part of leaf mould1 half as much sand1 and the remainder1 earth from under fresh grass sods4 ,plant them in ,may4 ,the bulb should not be set more than half its depth in the ground4 ,the ,anemone and ,ranunculus are medium1 or half-hardy1 roots4 ,they should be planted in soil which is enriched with cowdung1 and the beds should be raised only an inch from the walk4 ,they must be planted in ,october1 in drills1 two inches deep1 the claws of the roots downward1 and be shaded when they begin to bud4 ,the ,crocus must be planted in ,october1 two inches deep1 and four inches apart4 ,in measuring the depth1 always calculate from the top of the bulb4 ,crown ,imperial4 ,this must be planted in ,september1 three or four inches deep2 and need not be taken up but once in three years4 ,gladiolus4 ,those who have greenhouses1 or pits1 plant the ,gladiolus in ,october1 and preserve it in pots through the ,winter4 ,those who have not these conveniences1 may plant these bulbs late in ,april4 ,the earth must be composed of one half common soil1 one fourth leaf mould1 and one fourth sand4 ,plant them about an inch deep4 ,hyacinths should be planted in ,october1 eight inches apart1 and three or four inches deep1 in a rich soil4 ,jonquilles should be planted in ,october1 two inches deep1 in a rich soil1 and should not be taken up oftener than once in three years4 ,narcissus4 ,this should be planted in ,october1 four inches deep2 covered1 through the ,winter1 with straw and leaves1 six inches thick2 and uncovered in the middle of ,march4 ,oxalis4 ,plant this in ,september1 in a soil1 composed of two thirds common earth1 and one third leaf mould4 ,the old bulb dies after blossoming1 and is succeeded by a new one4 ,plant ,tulips1 in rich soil1 in ,october1 three inches deep4 ,plant ,tuberoses late in ,april1 in a rich1 sandy soil4 ,they are delicate plants1 and should be covered1 in case of frosts4 ,daffodils should be planted two inches deep4 ,when bulbs have done flowering1 and their leaves begin to decay1 they should be taken up and dried1 and kept in a dry place1 till ,october1 when they are to be replanted1 taking off the offsets1 and putting them in a bed by themselves4 ,bulbs which blossom in water1 or are in any other way forced to bloom out of season1 are so much exhausted by it1 that it takes them two or three years to recover their beauty4 ,dahlias4 ,dig a hole1 a foot and a half deep2 fill it with very light1 loose1 and rich1 soil2 and drive in a stake1 a yard and a half high1 to which1 to tie the future plants4 ,then set in the root1 so that it shall be an inch below the soil1 where the sprout starts4 ,when the plants are two feet high1 tie them to the stakes1 and take off some of the lower side-shoots4 ,continue to tie them1 as their growth advances4 ,if the roots are planted in the open borders1 without any previous growth1 it should be done as early as the first of ,may1 and they should be covered from the frosts4 ,when they are brought forward1 in pots or hot-beds1 they should be put out1 in the middle of ,june4 ,it is said1 by gardeners1 that late planting1 is better than early1 for producing perfect flowers4 ,in the ,autumn1 after the frosts have destroyed the tops1 let the roots remain awhile in the ground1 to ripen2 then dig them up1 and pack them away1 in some place where they will neither mould1 from dampness1 nor freeze4 ,in the ,spring1 these roots will throw out sprouts1 and must then be divided1 so as to leave a good shoot1 attached to a piece of the tuber or old stem1 and each shoot will make a new plant4 ,it is stated1 that if the shoots themselves1 without any root1 be planted in light soil1 covered with a bell-glass1 or large tumbler1 and carefully watered1 they will produce plants superior to those with roots4 ,annuals ,these are flowers which last only one season4 ,they should be so planted1 that the tallest may be in the middle of a bed1 and the shortest at the edges2 and flowers of a similar color should not be planted adjacent to each other4 ,the following is a list of some of the handsomest ,annuals1 arranged with reference to their color and height4 ,those with a star before them1 do best when sowed in the ,autumn4 ,those with tr4 after them1 are trailing plants4 ,,six ,,inches ,,to ,,one ,,foot ,,high4 ,white4 ,ice ,plant1 ,sweet ,alyssum1 ,white ,leptosiphon1 ,walker's ,schizopetalon1 ,blumenbachia insignis1 99,candytuft4 ,yellow4 99,yellow ,chryseis or ,eschscholtzia1 ,sanvitalia procumbens1 tr41 ,musk-flowered ,mimulus4 ,rose4 ,many-flowered ,catchfly1 ,rose-colored ,verbena1 tr4 ,red4 99,chinese ,annual ,pink1 ,virginian ,stock1 ,calandrinia ,speciosa4 ,blue4 ,graceful ,lobelia1 ,nemophila insignis1 ,clintonia pulchella1 ,clintonia elegans1 ,nolana atriplicifolia1 tr41 ,anagallis indica1 ,commelina coelestis1 ,grove ,love1 ,pimpernel 7blue47 ,varying ,colors4 99,heart's ,ease1 or ,pansy1 ,dwarf ,love in a ,mist1 99,rose ,campion4 ,,one ,,foot ,,to ,,eighteen ,,inches ,,high4 ,white4 ,venus's ,looking ,glass1 ,priest's ,schizanthus1 ,sweet-scented ,stevia1 ,white ,evening ,primrose4 ,yellow4 ,drummond's ,coreopsis1 99,new ,dark ,coreopsis1 ,golden ,hawkweed1 ,dracopis amplexicaulis1 ,drummond's ,primrose1 ,cladanthus arabicus1 ,peroffsky's ,erysimum4 ,rose4 ,drummond's ,phlox1 ,rodanthe1 ,rose-colored ,nonea1 ,clarkia rosea1 ,silene ,tenorei1 ,silene armeria4 ,red4 ,crimson ,coxcomb1 ,silene pendula1 ,crimson ,dew ,plant1 tr4 ,scarlet4 ,cacalia coccinea1 ,flos ,adonis1 ,scarlet ,zinnia1 ,mexican ,cuphea4 ,lilac and ,purple4 ,clarkia elegans1 ,clarkia pulchella1 99,purple ,candytuft1 99,purple ,petunia1 tr41 99,crimson ,candytuft1 ,double ,purple ,jacoba1 ,leptosiphon androsaceus1 all the varieties of ,schizanthus1 ,veined ,verbena1 tr41 99,purple eternal ,flower4 ,blue4 ,ageratum ,mexicanum1 99,gilia capitata1 ,spanish ,nigella1 ,blue ,eutoca1 ,dwarf ,convolvulus1 ,didiscus coeruleus4 ,lilac1 ,purple1 or ,blue and ,white4 ,collinsia bicolor1 ,gilia tricolor4 ,very ,dark4 ,lotus ,jacobus1 ,salpiglossis1 ,scabious4 ,colors varying4 ,german ,aster1 ,balsam1 ,rocket ,larkspur1 ,ten-week ,stock1 ,poppy4 ,,eighteen ,,inches ,,to ,,two ,,feet4 ,white4 99,white ,petunia1 tr41 ,white ,clarkia1 ,double ,white ,jacoba1 ,love in a ,mist4 ,red4 99,lavatera trimestris1 ,red ,zinnia1 ,malva miniata4 ,lilac and ,purple4 ,globe ,amaranthus1 ,purple ,sweet ,sultan1 ,sweet ,scabious1 ,purple ,zinnia1 ,prince's ,feather1 ,large ,blue ,lupine1 99,catchfly4 ,,two ,,feet ,,and ,,upwards4 ,white4 ,winged ,ammobium1 99,white ,lavatera1 ,white ,sweet ,sultan1 99,new ,white ,eternal ,flower1 ,white ,helicrysum1 99,white ,larkspur4 ,yellow4 ,golden ,bartonia1 99,golden ,coreopsis1 ,yellow ,sweet ,sultan1 ,african ,marigold1 ,yellow ,argemone1 ,french ,marigold1 ,yellow ,coxcomb1 ,yellow ,hibiscus4 ,the ,malope grandiflora and the ,cleome are fine tall annuals4 ,climbing ,plants4 ,the following are the most beautiful annual climbers3 ,crimson1 and ,white1 ,cypress ,vine2 ,white1 and ,buff1 ,thunbergia2 ,scarlet ,flowering ,bean2 ,hyacinth ,bean ,loasa2 ,morning ,glory2 ,crimson1 and ,spotted1 ,nasturtium2 ,balloon ,vine2 ,sweet ,pea2 ,tangier ,pea2 ,lord ,anson's ,pea2 ,climbing ,coba2 ,pink1 and ,white1 ,maurandia4 ,the following are the most valuable perennial climbers3 ,sweet-scented ,monthly ,honeysuckle2 ,yellow1 ,white1 and ,coral1 ,honeysuckles2 ,purple ,glycine2 ,clematis2 ,bitter ,sweet2 ,trumpet ,creeper4 ,the ,everlasting ,pea is a beautiful perennial climber4 ,the ,climbing ,coba1 and ,passion ,flower1 are also beautiful perennials1 but must be protected in ,winter4 ,perennials4 ,those who cannot afford every year to devote the time necessary to the raising of annuals1 will do well to supply their borders with perennials4 ,the following is a list of some of those generally preferred4 ,adonis1 yellow2 ,columbine1 all colors2 ,alyssum1 yellow2 ,asclepias1 orange and purple2 ,bee ,larkspur1 blue2 ,perennial ,larkspur1 all colors2 ,cardinal ,flower1 scarlet2 ,chinese ,pink1 various colors2 ,clove ,pink2 ,foxglove1 purple and white2 ,gentian1 purple and yellow2 ,hollyhock1 various colors2 99,lily of the ,valley2 ,american ,phlox1 various colors2 ,scarlet ,lychnis2 ,monkshood1 white and blue2 99,spirea1 white1 and pink2 99,ragged ,robin1 pink2 ,rudbeckia1 yellow1 and purple2 ,sweet ,william1 in variety4 ,those marked with a star cannot be obtained from seed1 but must be propagated by roots1 layers1 c4 ,herbaceous ,roots4 ,these are such as die to the root1 in the ,fall1 and come up again in the ,spring1 such as ,ponies1 crimson1 white1 sweet-scented1 and straw-colored2 ,artemisia1 of many colors2 ,white and ,purple ,fleur-de-lis2 ,white1 ,tiger1 ,fire1 and other ,lilies2 ,little ,blue ,iris2 ,chrysanthemums1 c4 ,these are propagated by dividing the roots4 ,shrubs4 ,the following are the finest ,shrubs for yards3 ,lilacs1 7which1 by budding1 can have white and purple on the same tree17 ,double ,syringas1 ,double ,althas1 ,corchorus ,japonicus1 ,snow-berry1 ,double-flowering ,almond1 ,pyrus ,japonica1 ,common ,barberry1 ,burning ,bush1 ,rose ,acacia1 ,yellow ,laburnum4 ,the following are the finest ,roses3 ,moss ,rose1 ,white1 and ,red2 ,double and ,single ,yellow ,rose1 7the last needs a gravelly soil and northern exposure27 ,yellow ,multiflora2 ,la ,belle ,africana2 ,small ,eglantine1 for borders2 ,champney's ,blush ,rose2 ,noisette2 ,greville1 7very fine27 ,damask2 ,blush1 ,white1 and ,cabbage ,roses4 ,moss ,roses1 when budded on other rose bushes1 last only three years4 ,shade ,trees4 ,the following are among the finest3 ,mountain ,ash2 ,ailanthus1 or ,tree of ,heaven1 7grows very fast27 ,tulip ,tree2 ,linden2 ,elm2 ,locust2 ,maple2 ,dog ,wood2 ,horse ,chestnut2 ,catalpa2 ,hemlock2 ,silver ,fir2 and ,cedar4 ,these should be grouped1 in such a manner that trees of different shades of green1 and of different heights1 should stand in the same group4 ,the ,autumn is the best time for transplanting trees4 ,take as much of the root1 as possible1 especially the little fibres1 which should never become dry4 ,if kept long1 before they are set out1 put wet moss around them1 and water them4 ,dig holes1 larger than the extent of the roots2 let one person hold the tree in its former position1 and another place the roots1 carefully1 as they were before1 cutting off any broken or wounded root4 ,be careful not to let the tree be more than an inch deeper than it was before4 ,let the soil be soft1 and well manured2 shake the tree1 as the soil is shaken in1 that it may mix well among the small fibres4 ,do not tread the earth down1 while filling the hole2 but1 when it is full1 raise a slight mound1 of1 say1 four inches1 and then tread it down4 ,make a little basin1 two inches deep1 around the stem1 to hold water1 and fill it4 ,never cut off leaves nor branches1 unless some of the roots are lost4 ,tie the trees to a stake1 and they will be more likely to live4 ,water them often4 ,on the ,care of ,house-,plants4 ,the soil of house-plants should be renewed every year1 as previously directed4 ,in ,winter1 they should be kept as dry as they can be without wilting4 ,many house-plants are injured by giving them too much water1 when they have little light and fresh air4 ,this makes them grow spindling4 ,the more fresh air1 warmth1 and light1 they have1 the more water is needed4 ,they ought not to be kept very warm in ,winter1 nor exposed to great changes of atmosphere4 ,forty degrees is a proper temperature for plants in ,winter1 when they have little sun and air4 ,when plants have become spindling1 cut off their heads1 entirely1 and cover the pot in the earth1 where it has the morning sun1 only4 ,a new and flourishing head will spring out4 ,few house-plants can bear the sun at noon4 ,when insects infest plants1 set them in a closet1 or under a barrel1 and burn tobacco4 ,the smoke kills any insect enveloped in it4 ,when plants are frozen1 cold water1 and a gradual restoration of warmth1 are the best remedies4 ,never use very cold water for plants1 at any season4 ,,footnote3 ,t ,his ',farmers' ,companion' was written expressly for the larger series of ',,the ,,school ,,library1' issued by the publishers of this volume4 ,,chapter ,,xxxv4 ,,on ,,the ,,propagation ,,of ,,plants4 ,bulbous roots are propagated by offsets2 some growing on the top1 others around the sides4 ,many plants are propagated by cutting off twigs1 and setting them in earth1 so that two or three eyes are covered4 ,to do this1 select a side shoot1 ten inches long1 two inches of it1 being of the preceding year's growth1 and the rest1 the growth of the season when it is set out4 ,do this1 when the sap is running1 and put a piece of crockery at the bottom of the shoot1 when it is buried4 ,one eye1 at least1 must be under the soil4 ,water it1 and shade it in hot weather4 ,plants are also propagated by layers4 ,to do this1 take a shoot1 which comes up near the root1 bend it down1 so as to bring several eyes under the soil1 leaving the top above ground4 ,if the shoot be cut half through1 in a slanting direction1 at one of these eyes1 before burying it1 the result is more certain4 ,roses1 honeysuckles1 and many other shrubs1 are readily propagated thus4 ,they will generally take root1 by being simply buried2 but cutting them1 as here directed1 is the best method4 ,layers are more certain than cuttings4 ,for all woody plants1 budding and grafting are favorite methods of propagation4 ,in all such plants1 there is an outer and inner bark2 the latter containing the sap vessels1 in which the nourishment of the tree ascends4 ,the success of grafting1 or inoculating1 consists in so placing the bud or graft1 that the sap vessels of the inner bark shall exactly join those of the plant into which they are grafted1 so that the sap may pass from one into the other4 ,the following are directions for budding1 which may be performed at any time from ,july to ,september4 ,select a smooth place1 on the stock into which you are to insert the bud4 ,make a horizontal cut1 across the rind1 through to the firm wood2 and from the middle of this1 make a slit downward1 perpendicularly1 an inch or more long1 through to the wood4 ,raise the bark of the stock1 on each side of the perpendicular cut1 for the admission of the bud1 as is shown in the annexed engraving1 7,fig4 #dj47 ,then take a shoot of this year's growth1 and slice from it a bud1 taking an inch below and an inch above it1 and some portion of the wood under it4 ,then carefully slip off the woody part1 under the bud4 ,examine whether the eye or gem of the bud be perfect4 ,if a little hole appears in that part1 the bud has lost its root1 and another must be selected4 ,insert the bud1 so that a1 of the bud1 shall pass to a1 of the stock2 then b1 of the bud1 must be cut off1 to match the cut1 b1 in the stock1 and fitted exactly to it1 as it is this alone which insures success4 ,bind the parts1 with fresh bass1 or woollen yarn1 beginning a little below the bottom of the perpendicular slit1 and winding it closely round every part1 except just over the eye of the bud1 until you arrive above the horizontal cut4 ,do not bind it too tightly1 but just sufficient to exclude air1 sun1 and wet4 ,this is to be removed1 after the bud is firmly fixed1 and begins to grow4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #dj4 ,seed-fruit can be budded into any other seed-fruit1 and stone-fruit into any other stone-fruit2 but stone and seed-fruits1 cannot be thus mingled4 ,rose bushes can have a variety of kinds budded into the same stock4 ,hardy roots are the best stocks4 ,the branch above the bud1 must be cut off1 the next ,march or ,april after the bud is put in4 ,apples and pears1 are more easily propagated by ingrafting1 than by budding4 ,ingrafting is a similar process to budding1 with this advantage2 that it can be performed on large trees1 whereas budding can be applied only on small ones4 ,the two common kinds of ingrafting1 are whip-grafting1 and split-grafting4 ,the first kind is for young trees1 and the other for large ones4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #da4 ,the time for ingrafting1 is from ,may to ,october4 ,the cuttings must be taken from horizontal shoots1 between ,christmas and ,march1 and kept in a damp cellar4 ,in performing the operation1 cut off1 in a sloping direction1 7as seen in ,fig4 #da17 the tree or limb to be grafted4 ,then cut off1 in a corresponding slant1 the slip to be grafted on4 ,then put them together1 so that the inner bark of each shall match1 exactly1 on one side1 and tie them firmly together1 with woollen yarn4 ,it is not essential that both be of equal size2 if the bark of each meet together exactly on one side1 it answers the purpose4 ,but the two must not differ much1 in size4 ,the slope should be an inch and a half1 or more1 in length4 ,after they are tied together1 the place should be covered with a salve or composition of beeswax and rosin4 ,a mixture of clay and cowdung will answer the same purpose4 ,this last must be tied on with a cloth4 ,grafting is more convenient than budding1 as grafts can be sent from a great distance2 whereas buds must be taken in ,july or ,august1 from a shoot of the present year's growth1 and cannot be sent to any great distance4 ,illustration3 ,fig4 #db4 ,this engraving1 7,fig4 #db17 exhibits the mode called stock-grafting2 a1 being the limb of a large tree which is sawed off and split1 and is to be held open by a small wedge1 till the grafts are put in4 ,a graft1 inserted in the limb1 is shown at b1 and at c1 is one not inserted1 but designed to be put in at d1 as two grafts can be put into a large stock4 ,in inserting the graft1 be careful to make the edge of the inner bark of the graft meet exactly the edge of the inner bark of the stock2 for on this1 success depends4 ,after the grafts are put in1 the wedge must be withdrawn1 and the whole of the stock be covered with the thick salve or composition before mentioned1 reaching from where the grafts are inserted1 to the bottom of the slit4 ,be careful not to knock or move the grafts1 after they are put in4 ,pruning4 ,the following rules for pruning1 are from a distinguished horticulturist4 ,prune off all dead wood1 and all the little twigs on the main limbs4 ,retrench branches1 so as to give light and ventilation to the interior of the tree4 ,select the straight and perpendicular shoots1 which give little or no fruit1 while those which are most nearly horizontal1 and somewhat curving1 give fruit abundantly1 and of good quality4 ,superfluous and ill-placed buds may be rubbed off1 at any time2 and no buds1 pushing out after ,midsummer1 should be spared4 ,in choosing between shoots to be retained1 preserve the lowest placed2 and1 on lateral shoots1 those which are nearest the origin4 ,when branches cross each other1 so as to rub1 remove one or the other4 ,remove all suckers from the roots of trees or shrubs4 ,prune after the sap is in full circulation1 7except in the case of grapes17 as the wounds then heal best4 ,some think it best to prune before the sap begins to run4 ,pruning-shears1 and a pruning-pole1 with a chisel at the end1 can be procured of those who deal in agricultural utensils4 ,thinning4 ,as it is the office of the leaves to absorb nourishment from the atmosphere1 they should never be removed1 except to mature the wood or fruit4 ,in doing this1 remove such leaves as shade the fruit1 as soon as it is ready to ripen4 ,to do it earlier1 impairs the growth4 ,do it gradually1 at two different times4 ,thinning the fruit is important1 as tending to increase its size and flavor1 and also to promote the longevity of the tree4 ,if the fruit be thickly set1 take off one half1 at the time of setting4 ,revise in ,june1 and then in ,july1 taking off all that may be spared4 ,one very large apple to every square foot1 is a rule that may be a sort of guide1 in other cases4 ,according to this1 two hundred large apples would be allowed to a tree1 whose extent is fifteen feet by twelve4 ,if any person think this thinning excessive1 let him try two similar trees1 and thin one as directed1 and leave the other unthinned4 ,it will be found that the thinned tree will produce an equal weight1 and fruit of much finer flavor4 ,,chapter ,,xxxvi4 ,,on ,,the ,,cultivation ,,of ,,fruit4 ,by a little attention to this matter1 a lady1 with the help of her children1 can obtain a rich abundance of all kinds of fruit4 ,the writer has resided in families1 where little boys1 of eight1 ten1 and twelve years old1 amused themselves1 under the direction of their mother1 in planting walnuts1 chestnuts1 and hazelnuts1 for future time2 as well as in planting and inoculating young fruit-trees1 of all descriptions4 ,a mother1 who will take pains to inspire a love for such pursuits1 in her children1 and who will aid and superintend them1 will save them from many temptations2 and1 at a trifling expense1 secure to them and herself a rich reward1 in the choicest fruits4 ,the information given in this work1 on this subject1 may be relied on1 as sanctioned by the most experienced nursery-men4 ,the soil1 for a nursery1 should be rich1 well dug1 dressed with well-decayed manure1 free from weeds1 and protected from cold winds4 ,fruit seeds should be planted in the ,autumn1 an inch and a half or two inches deep1 in ridges four or five feet apart1 pressing the earth firmly over the seeds4 ,while growing1 they should be thinned out1 leaving the best ones a foot and a half apart4 ,the soil should be kept loose1 soft1 and free from weeds4 ,they should be inoculated or ingrafted1 when of the size of a pipe stem2 and in a year after this1 may be transplanted to their permanent stand4 ,peach trees sometimes bear in two years from budding1 and in four years from planting1 if well kept4 ,in a year after transplanting1 take pains to train the head aright4 ,straight1 upright branches1 produce gourmands1 or twigs bearing only leaves4 ,the side branches1 which are angular or curved1 yield the most fruit4 ,for this reason1 the limbs should be trained in curves1 and perpendicular twigs should be cut off1 if there be need of pruning4 ,the last of ,june is the time for this4 ,grass should never be allowed to grow within four feet of a large tree1 and the soil should be kept loose1 to admit air to the roots4 ,trees in orchards should be twenty-five feet apart4 ,the soil under the top soil1 has much to do with the health of trees4 ,if it be what is called hard-pan1 the trees will deteriorate4 ,trees need to be manured1 and to have the soil kept open and free from weeds4 ,filberts can be raised in any part of this ,country4 ,figs can be raised in the ,middle ,states4 ,for this purpose1 in the ,autumn1 loosen the roots1 on one side1 and bend the tree down to the earth1 on the other2 then cover it with a mound of straw1 earth1 and boards2 and early in the ,spring raise it up1 and cover the roots4 ,currants grow well in any but a wet soil4 ,they are propagated by cuttings4 ,the old wood should be thinned in the ,fall1 and manure be put on4 ,they can be trained into small trees4 ,gooseberries are propagated by layers and cuttings4 ,they are best1 when kept from suckers and trained like trees4 ,one third of the old wood should be removed every ,autumn4 ,raspberries do best1 when shaded during a part of the day4 ,they are propagated by layers1 slips1 and suckers4 ,there is one kind1 which bears monthly4 ,strawberries require a light soil and vegetable manure4 ,they should be transplanted in ,april or ,september1 and be set eight inches apart1 in rows nine inches asunder1 and in beds which are two feet wide1 with narrow alleys between them4 ,a part of these plants are non-bearers4 ,these have large flowers1 with showy stamens and high black anthers4 ,the bearers have short stamens1 a great number of pistils1 and the flowers are every way less showy4 ,in blossom-time1 pull out all the non-bearers4 ,some think it best to leave one non-bearer to every twelve bearers2 but others pull them all out4 ,many beds never produce any fruit1 because all the plants in them are non-bearers4 ,weeds should be kept from the vines4 ,when the vines are matted with young plants1 the best way is to dig over the beds1 in cross lines1 so as to leave some of the plants standing in little squares1 while the rest are turned under the soil4 ,this should be done over a second time in the same year4 ,grapes4 ,to raise this fruit1 manure the soil1 and keep it soft1 and free from weeds4 ,a gravelly or sandy soil1 and a south exposure1 are best4 ,transplant the vines in the early ,spring1 or1 better1 in the ,fall4 ,prune them1 the first year1 so as to have only two main branches1 taking off all other shoots1 as fast as they come4 ,in ,november1 cut off all of these two branches1 except four eyes4 ,the second year1 in the ,spring1 loosen the earth around the roots1 and allow only two branches to grow1 and every month1 take off all side shoots4 ,when they are very strong1 preserve only a part1 and cut off the rest in the ,fall4 ,in ,november1 cut off all the two main stems1 except eight eyes4 ,after the second year no more pruning is needed1 except to reduce the side shoots1 for the purpose of increasing the fruit4 ,all the pruning of grapes1 7except nipping side shoots17 must be done when the sap is not running1 or they will bleed to death4 ,train them on poles1 or lattices1 to expose them to the air and sun4 ,cover tender vines in the ,autumn4 ,grapes are propagated by cuttings1 layers1 and seeds4 ,for cuttings1 select1 in the ,autumn1 well-ripened wood1 of the former year1 and take five joints for each4 ,bury them1 till ,april2 then soak them1 for some hours1 and set them out1 aslant1 so that all the eyes but one shall be covered4 ,to ,preserve ,fruit4 ,raspberries and ,strawberries can be preserved1 in perfect flavor1 in the following manner4 ,take a pound of nice sifted sugar for each pound of fruit4 ,put them in alternate layers1 of fruit and sugar1 till the jar is entirely full1 then cork it1 and seal it air tight4 ,currants and ,gooseberries may be perfectly preserved thus4 ,gather them1 when dry1 selecting only the solid ones4 ,take off the stalks1 and put them in dry junk-bottles4 ,set them1 uncorked1 in a kettle of water1 and slowly raise it to boiling heat1 in order to drive the air out of the bottles4 ,then take out the bottles1 cork them1 and seal them air tight4 ,keep them in a dry place1 where they will not freeze4 ,the success of this method depends on excluding air and water4 ,apples1 ,grapes1 and such like fruit can be preserved1 by packing them1 when dry and solid1 in dry sand or sawdust1 putting alternate layers of fruit and sawdust or sand4 ,some sawdust gives a bad flavor to the fruit4 ,modes of ,preserving ,fruit ,trees4 ,heaps of ashes1 or tanner's bark1 around peach trees1 prevent the attack of the worm4 ,the yellows1 is a disease of peach trees1 which is spread by the pollen of the blossom4 ,when a tree begins to turn yellow1 take it away1 with all its roots1 before it blossoms again1 or it will infect other trees4 ,planting tansy around the roots of fruit trees1 is a sure protection against worms1 as it prevents the moth from depositing her egg4 ,equal quantities of salt and saltpetre1 put around the trunk of a peach tree1 half a pound to a tree1 improves the size and flavor of the fruit4 ,apply this about the first of ,april1 and if any trees have worms already in them1 put on half the quantity1 in addition1 in ,june4 ,to young trees1 just set out1 apply one ounce1 in ,april1 and another in ,june1 close to the stem4 ,sandy soil is best for peaches4 ,apple trees are preserved from insects1 by a wash of strong ley to the body and limbs1 which1 if old1 should be first scraped4 ,caterpillars should be removed1 by cutting down their nests in a damp day4 ,boring a hole1 in a tree infested with worms1 and filling it with sulphur1 will often drive them off immediately4 ,the fire-blight1 or brlure1 in pear trees1 can be stopped1 by cutting off all the blighted branches4 ,it is supposed1 by some1 to be owing to an excess of sap1 which is remedied by diminishing the roots4 ,the curculio1 which destroys plums1 and other stone fruit1 can be checked only by gathering up all the fruit that falls1 7which contains their eggs17 and destroying it4 ,the canker-worm can be checked1 by applying a bandage around the body of the tree1 and every evening smearing it with fresh tar4 ,,chapter ,,xxxvii4 ,,miscellaneous ,,directions4 ,every woman should know how to direct in regard to the proper care of domestic animals1 as they often suffer from the negligence of domestics4 ,the following information1 in reference to the care of a horse and cow1 may be useful4 ,a stable should not be very light nor very dark2 its floor should be either plank or soil1 as brick or stone pavements injure the feet4 ,it should be well cleaned1 every morning4 ,a horse1 kept in a stable1 should be rubbed and brushed every day4 ,a stable-horse needs as much daily exercise as trotting three miles will give him4 ,food or drink should never be given1 when a horse is very warm with exercise1 as it causes disease4 ,a horse should be fed1 three times a day4 ,hay1 sheaf-oats1 shorts1 corn-meal1 and bran1 are the best food for horses4 ,when a horse is travelling1 order six quarts of oats in the morning1 four at noon1 and six at night1 and direct that neither food nor water be given till he is cool4 ,keep a horse's legs free from mud1 or disease will often result from the neglect4 ,a horse1 much used1 should be shod as often as once in two months4 ,fish-oil and strong perfumes1 on the skin1 keep flies from annoying a horse4 ,some horses are made fractious by having the check-rein so tight as to weary the muscles4 ,a cow should be watered three times a day1 and fed with hay1 potatoes1 carrots1 and boiled corn4 ,turnips and cabbages give a bad taste to the milk4 ,give a handful of salt to a cow1 twice a week1 and occasionally give the same quantity to a horse4 ,let them drink pure water4 ,a well-fed cow gives double the milk that she will if not fed well4 ,a cow should go unmilked1 for two months before calving1 and her milk should not be used till four days after4 ,the calf must run with the cow for four days1 and then be shut from her1 except thrice a day1 when it should take as much food as it wants1 and then the cow should be milked clean4 ,hens sit twenty days1 and should be well fed and watered1 during this time4 ,the first food for chickens should be coarse dry meal4 ,cold and damp weather is bad for all young fowls1 and they should be well protected from it4 ,pepper-berries are good for fowls which have diseases caused by damp and cold weather4 ,in ,winter1 much fuel may be saved1 and comfort secured1 by stuffing cotton into all cracks about the windows and the surbases of rooms1 and by listing the doors4 ,cover strips of wood with baize1 and nail them tight against a door1 on the casing4 ,the following are the causes of smoky chimneys4 ,short and broad flues1 running up straight1 as a narrow flue1 with a bend in it1 draws best4 ,large openings1 at the top1 draw the wind down1 and should be remedied1 by having the summits made tapering4 ,a house higher than a chimney near it1 sometimes makes the chimney smoke1 and the evil should be remedied1 by raising the chimney4 ,too large a throat to the fireplace1 sometimes causes a chimney to smoke1 and can be remedied1 by a false back1 or by lowering the front1 with sheet iron4 ,shallow fireplaces give out more heat1 and draw as well1 as deep ones4 ,house-cleaning should be done in dry warm weather4 ,several friends of the writer maintain1 that cleaning paint1 and windows1 and floors1 in hard1 cold water1 without any soap1 using a flannel washcloth1 is much better than using warm suds4 ,it is worth trying4 ,in cleaning in the common way1 sponges are best for windows1 and clean water only should be used4 ,they should be first wiped with linen1 and then with old silk4 ,the outside of windows should be washed with a long brush1 made for the purpose2 and they should be rinsed1 by throwing upon them water1 containing a little saltpetre4 ,when inviting company1 mention1 in the note1 the day of the month and week1 and the hour for coming4 ,provide a place for ladies to dress their hair1 with a glass1 pins1 and combs4 ,a pitcher of cold water1 and a tumbler1 should be added4 ,when the company is small1 it is becoming a common method for the table to be set at one end of the room1 the lady of the house to pour out tea1 and the gentlemen of the party to wait on the ladies and themselves4 ,when tea is sent round1 always send a teapot of hot water to weaken it1 and a slop-bowl1 or else many persons will drink their tea much stronger than they wish4 ,let it ever be remembered1 that the burning of lights and the breath of guests1 are constantly exhausting the air of its healthful principle2 therefore avoid crowding many guests into one room4 ,do not tempt the palate by a great variety of unhealthful dainties4 ,have a warm room for departing guests1 that they may not become chilled before they go out4 ,a parlor should be furnished with candle and fire screens1 for those who have weak eyes2 and if1 at table1 a person sits with the back near the fire1 a screen should be hung on the back of the chair1 as it is very injurious to the whole system to have the back heated4 ,pretty baskets1 for flowers or fruits1 on centre tables1 can be made thus4 ,knit1 with coarse needles1 all the various shades of green and brown1 into a square piece4 ,press it with a hot iron1 and then ravel it out4 ,buy a pretty shaped wicker basket1 or make one of stiff millinet1 or thin pasteboard1 cut the worsted into bunches1 and sew them on1 to resemble moss4 ,then line the basket1 and set a cup or dish of water in it1 to hold flowers1 or use it for a fruit-basket4 ,handsome fireboards are made1 by nailing black foundation-muslin to a frame the size of the fireplace2 and then cutting out flowers1 from wall-paper1 and pasting them on the muslin1 according to the fancy4 ,india rubber1 melted in lamp-oil1 and brushed over common shoes1 keeps water out1 perfectly4 ,keep small whisk brooms1 wherever gentlemen hang their clothes1 both up stairs and down1 and get them to use them if you can4 ,boil new earthen in bran-water1 putting the articles in1 when cold4 ,do the same with porcelain kettles4 ,never leave wooden vessels out of doors1 as they fall to pieces4 ,in ,winter1 lift the handle of a pump1 and cover it with blankets1 to keep it from freezing4 ,broken earthen and china1 can often be mended1 by tying it up1 and boiling it in milk4 ,diamond cement1 when genuine1 is very effectual for the same purpose4 ,old putty can be softened by muriatic acid4 ,nail slats across nursery windows4 ,scatter ashes on slippery ice1 at the door2 or rather1 remove it4 ,clarify impure water with powdered alum1 a teaspoonful to a barrel4 ,,note4 ,a volume1 entitled the ,american ,housekeeper's ,receipt ,book1 prepared by the author of this work1 under the supervision of several experienced housekeepers1 is designed as a ,supplement to this treatise on ,domestic ,economy4 ,the following ,preface and ,analysis of the ,contents will indicate its design more fully3 ,preface 7for the ,american ,housekeeper's ,receipt ,book47 ,the following objects are aimed at in this work3 ,first1 to furnish an original collection of receipts1 which shall embrace a great variety of simple and well-cooked dishes1 designed for every-day comfort and enjoyment4 ,second1 to include in the collection only such receipts as have been tested by superior housekeepers1 and warranted to be the best4 ,it is not a book made up in any department by copying from other books1 but entirely from the experience of the best practical housekeepers4 ,third1 to express every receipt in language which is short1 simple1 and perspicuous1 and yet to give all directions so minutely as that the book can be kept in the kitchen1 and be used by any domestic who can read1 as a guide in every one of her employments in the kitchen4 ,fourth1 to furnish such directions in regard to small dinner-parties and evening company as will enable any young housekeeper to perform her part1 on such occasions1 with ease1 comfort1 and success4 ,fifth1 to present a good supply of the rich and elegant dishes demanded at such entertainments1 and yet to set forth so large and tempting a variety of what is safe1 healthful1 and good1 in connexion with such warnings and suggestions as it is hoped may avail to promote a more healthful fashion in regard both to entertainments and to daily table supplies4 ,no book of this kind will sell without an adequate supply of the rich articles which custom requires1 and in furnishing them1 the writer has aimed to follow the example of ,providence1 which scatters profusely both good and ill1 and combines therewith the caution alike of experience1 revelation1 and conscience1 choose ye that which is good1 that ye and your seed may live4 ,sixth1 in the work on ,domestic ,economy1 together with this1 to which it is a ,supplement1 the writer has attempted to secure1 in a cheap and popular form1 for ,american housekeepers1 a work similar to an ,english work which she has examined1 entitled the ,encyclopdia of ,domestic ,economy1 by ,thomas ,webster and ,mrs4 ,parkes1 containing over twelve hundred octavo pages of closely-printed matter1 treating on every department of ,domestic ,economy2 a work which will be found much more useful to ,english women1 who have a plenty of money and well-trained servants1 than to ,american housekeepers4 ,it is believed that most in that work which would be of any practical use to ,american housekeepers1 will be found in this work and the ,domestic ,economy4 ,lastly1 the writer has aimed to avoid the defects complained of by most housekeepers in regard to works of this description issued in this country1 or sent from ,england1 such as that1 in some cases1 the receipts are so rich as to be both expensive and unhealthful2 in others1 that they are so vaguely expressed as to be very imperfect guides2 in others1 that the processes are so elaborate and fussing as to make double the work that is needful2 and in others1 that the topics are so limited that some departments are entirely omitted1 and all are incomplete4 ,in accomplishing these objects1 the writer has received contributions of the pen1 and verbal communications from some of the most judicious and practical housekeepers1 in almost every section of this country1 so that the work is fairly entitled to the name it bears of the ,american ,housekeeper's ,receipt ,book4 ,the following embraces most of the topics contained in this work4 ,suggestions to young housekeepers in regard to style1 furniture1 and domestic arrangements4 ,suggestions in regard to different modes to be pursued both with foreign and ,american domestics4 ,on providing a proper supply of family stores1 on the economical care and use of them1 and on the furniture and arrangement of a store-closet4 ,on providing a proper supply of utensils to be used in cooking1 with drawings to illustrate4 ,on the proper construction of ovens1 and directions for heating and managing them4 ,directions for securing good yeast and good bread4 ,advice in regard to marketing1 the purchase of wood1 c4 ,receipts for breakfast dishes1 biscuits1 warm cakes1 tea cakes1 c4 ,receipts for puddings1 cakes1 pies1 preserves1 pickles1 sauces1 catsups1 and also for cooking all the various kinds of meats1 soups1 and vegetables4 ,the above receipts are arranged so that the more healthful and simple ones are put in one portion1 and the richer ones in another4 ,healthful and favourite articles of food for young children4 ,receipts for a variety of temperance drinks4 ,directions for making tea1 coffee1 chocolate1 and other warm drinks4 ,directions for cutting up meats1 and for salting down1 corning1 curing1 and smoking4 ,directions for making butter and cheese1 as furnished by a practical and scientific manufacturer of the same1 of ,goshen1 ,conn41 that land of rich butter and cheese4 ,a guide to a selection of a regular course of family dishes1 which will embrace a successive variety1 and unite convenience with good taste and comfortable living4 ,receipts for articles for the sick1 and drawings of conveniences for their comfort and relief4 ,receipts for articles for evening parties and dinner parties1 with drawings to show the proper manner of setting tables1 and of supplying and arranging dishes1 both on these1 and on ordinary occasions4 ,an outline of arrangements for a family in moderate circumstances1 embracing the systematic details of work for each domestic1 and the proper mode of doing it1 as furnished by an accomplished housekeeper4 ,remarks on the different nature of food and drinks1 and their relation to the laws of health4 ,suggestions to the domestics of a family1 designed to promote a proper appreciation of the dignity and importance of their station1 and a cheerful and faithful performance of their duties4 ,miscellaneous suggestions and receipts4 ,a ,,glossary ,,of ,,such ,,words ,,and ,,phrases ,,as ,,may ,,not ,,easily ,,be ,,understood ,,by ,,the ,,young ,,reader4 ,many words1 not contained in this ,,glossary1 will be found explained in the body of the ,work1 in the places where they first occur4 ,for these1 see ,,index4 ,academy1 the ,boston1 an association in ,boston1 established for the purpose of promoting the study and culture of the art of music4 ,action brought by the ,commonwealth1 a prosecution conducted in the name of the public1 or by the authority of the ,state4 ,alcoholic1 made of1 or containing1 alcohol1 an inflammable liquid1 which is the basis of ardent spirits4 ,alkali1 7plural alkalies17 a chemical substance1 which has the property of combining with1 and neutralizing the properties of1 acids1 producing salts by the combination4 ,alkalies change most of the vegetable blues and purples to green1 red to purple1 and yellow to brown4 ,caustic alkali1 an alkali deprived of all impurities1 being thereby rendered more caustic and violent in its operation4 ,this term is usually applied to pure potash4 ,fixed alkali1 an alkali that emits no characteristic smell1 and cannot be volatilized or evaporated without great difficulty4 ,potash and soda are called the fixed alkalies4 ,soda is also called a fossil1 or mineral1 alkali1 and potash1 the vegetable alkali4 ,volatile alkali1 an elastic1 transparent1 colorless1 and consequently invisible gas1 known by the name of ammonia1 or ammoniacal gas4 ,the odor of spirits of hartshorn is caused by this gas4 ,anglo-,american1 ,english-,american1 relating to ,americans descended from ,english ancestors4 ,anne1 ,queen1 a ,queen of ,england1 who reigned from ,a4 ,d4 #agjb1 to #agad4 ,she was the daughter of ,james ,,ii41 and succeeded to the throne on the death of ,william ,,iii4 ,she died1 ,august #a1 #agad1 in the fiftieth year of her age4 ,she was not a woman of very great intellect2 but was deservedly popular1 throughout her reign1 being a model of conjugal and maternal duty1 and always intending to do good4 ,she was honored with the title of ',good ,queen ,anne'1 which showed the opinion entertained of her virtues by the people4 ,anotta1 ,annotto1 ,arnotta1 or ,rocou1 a soft1 brownish-red substance1 prepared from the reddish pulp surrounding the seeds of a tree1 which grows in the ,west ,indies1 ,guiana1 and other parts of ,south ,america1 called the ,bixa orellana4 ,it is used as a dye4 ,anther1 that part of the stamen of a flower which contains the pollen or farina1 a sort of mealy powder or dust1 which is necessary to the production of the flower4 ,anthracite1 one of the most valuable kinds of mineral coal1 containing no bitumen4 ,it is very abundant in the ,united ,states4 ,aperient1 opening4 ,apple-corer1 an instrument lately invented for the purpose of divesting apples of their cores4 ,arabic1 gum1 see ,gum ,arabic4 ,archology1 a discourse or treatise on antiquities4 ,arnotto1 see ,anotta4 ,arrow-root1 a white powder1 obtained from the fecula or starch of several species of tuberous plants in the ,east and ,west ,indies1 ,bermuda1 and other places4 ,that from ,bermuda is most highly esteemed4 ,it is used as an article for the table1 in the form of puddings2 and also as a highly-nutritive1 easily-digested1 and agreeable1 food1 for invalids4 ,it derives its name from having been originally used by the ,indians1 as a remedy for the poison of their arrows1 by mashing and applying it to the wound4 ,articulating process1 the protuberance1 or projecting part of a bone1 by which it is so joined to another bone1 as to enable the two to move upon each other4 ,asceticism1 the state of an ascetic1 or hermit1 who flies from society and lives in retirement1 or who practises a greater degree of mortification and austerity than others do1 or who inflicts extraordinary severities upon himself4 ,astral lamp1 a lamp1 the principle of which was invented by ,benjamin ,thompson1 7a native of ,massachusetts1 and afterwards ,count ,rumford17 in which the oil is contained in a large horizontal ring1 having1 at the centre1 a burner1 which communicates with the ring by tubes4 ,the ring is placed a little below the level of the flame1 and1 from its large surface1 affords a supply of oil for many hours4 ,astute1 shrewd4 ,auld ,robin ,gray1 a celebrated ,scotch song1 in which a young woman laments her having married an old rich man1 whom she did not love1 for the sake of providing for her poor parents4 ,auricles1 7from a ,latin word1 signifying the ear17 the name given to two appendages of the heart1 from their fancied resemblance to the ear4 ,baglivi1 7,george17 an eminent physician1 who was born at ,ragusa1 in #affh1 and was educated at ,naples and ,paris4 ,pope ,clement ,,xiv41 on the ground of his great merit1 appointed him1 while a very young man1 ,professor of ,anatomy and ,surgery in the ,college of ,sapienza1 at ,rome4 ,he wrote several works1 and did much to promote the cause of medical science4 ,he died1 ,a4 ,d4 #agjf4 ,bass1 or bass wood1 a large forest tree of ,america1 sometimes called the lime-tree4 ,the wood is white and soft1 and the bark is sometimes used for bandages1 as mentioned in page #cdc4 ,beau ,nash1 see ,nash4 ,bell1 ,sir ,charles1 a celebrated surgeon1 who was born in ,edinburgh1 in the year #aggh4 ,he commenced his career in ,london1 in #ahjf1 as a lecturer on ,anatomy and ,surgery4 ,in #ahcj1 he received the honors of knighthood1 and in #ahcf was appointed ,professor of ,surgery in the ,college of ,edinburgh4 ,he died near ,worcester1 in ,england1 ,april #bi1 #ahdb4 ,his writings are very numerous1 and have been much celebrated4 ,among the most important of these1 to general readers1 are1 his ,illustrations of ,paley's ,natural ,theology1 7which work forms the second and third volumes of the larger series of ',,the ,,school ,,library1' issued by the ,publishers of this volume17 and his treatise on ',the ,hand1 its ,mechanism1 and ,vital ,endowments1 as evincing ,design4' ,bergamot1 a fruit1 which was originally produced by ingrafting a branch of a citron or lemon tree1 upon the stock of a peculiar kind of pear1 called the bergamot pear4 ,biased1 cut diagonally from one corner to another of a square or rectangular piece of cloth4 ,bias pieces1 triangular pieces cut as above mentioned4 ,bituminous1 containing bitumen1 which is an inflammable mineral substance1 resembling tar or pitch in its properties and uses4 ,among different bituminous substances1 the names naphtha and petroleum have been given to those which are fluid2 maltha1 to that which has the consistence of pitch2 and asphaltum1 to that which is solid4 ,blight1 a disease in plants1 by which they are blasted1 or prevented from producing fruit4 ,blond lace1 lace made of silk4 ,blood heat1 the temperature which the blood is always found to maintain1 or ninety-eight degrees of ,fahrenheit's thermometer4 ,blue vitriol1 sulphate of copper4 ,see ,sulphate4 ,blunts1 needles of a short and thick shape1 distinguished from ,sharps1 which are long and slender4 ,bocking1 a kind of thin carpeting1 or coarse baize4 ,boston ,academy1 see ,academy4 ,botany1 7from a ,greek word1 signifying an herb17 a knowledge of plants2 the science which treats of plants4 ,brazil wood1 the central part1 or heart1 of a large tree which grows in ,brazil1 called the ,csalpinia echinata4 ,it produces very lively and beautiful red tints1 but they are not permanent4 ,bronze1 a metallic composition1 consisting of copper and tin4 ,brlure1 a ,french term1 denoting a burning or scalding2 a blasting of plants4 ,brussels1 7carpet17 a kind of carpeting1 so called from the city of ,brussels1 in ,europe4 ,its basis is composed of a warp and woof of strong linen threads1 with the warp of which are intermixed about five times the quantity of woollen threads1 of different colors4 ,bulb1 a root with a round body1 like the onion1 turnip1 or hyacinth4 ,bulbous1 having a bulb4 ,byron1 7,george ,gordon17 ,lord1 a celebrated ,poet1 who was born in ,london1 ,january #bb1 #aghh1 and died in ,missolonghi1 in ,greece1 ,april #ah1 #ahbd4 ,calisthenics1 see page #ef1 note4 ,camwood1 a dyewood1 procured from a leguminous 7or pod-bearing7 tree1 growing on the ,western ,coast of ,africa1 and called ,baphia nitida4 ,cankerworm1 a worm which is very destructive to trees and plants4 ,it springs from an egg deposited by a miller that issues from the ground1 and in some years destroys the leaves and fruit of apple and other trees4 ,carbon1 a simple inflammable body1 forming the principal part of wood and coal1 and the whole of the diamond4 ,carbonic acid1 a compound gas1 consisting of carbon and oxygen4 ,it has lately been obtained in a solid form4 ,carmine1 a crimson color1 the most beautiful of all the reds4 ,it is prepared from a decoction of the powdered cochineal insect1 to which alum and other substances are added4 ,caster1 a small phial or vessel for the table1 in which to put vinegar1 mustard1 pepper1 c4 ,chancellor of the ,exchequer1 the highest judge of the law2 the principal financial minister of a government1 and the one who manages its revenue4 ,chateau1 a castle1 a mansion4 ,chemistry1 the science which treats of the elementary constituents of bodies4 ,chinese belle1 deformities of4 ,in ,china1 it is the fashion to compress the feet of female infants1 to prevent their growth2 in consequence of which1 the feet of all the females of ,china are distorted1 and so small1 that the individuals cannot walk with ease4 ,chloride1 a compound of chlorine and some other substance4 ,chlorine is a simple substance1 formerly called oxymuriatic acid4 ,in its pure state1 it is a gas1 of green color1 7hence its name1 from a ,greek word1 signifying green47 ,like oxygen1 it supports the combustion of some inflammable substances4 ,chloride of lime is a compound of chlorine and lime4 ,cholera infantum1 a bowel complaint1 to which infants are subject4 ,chyle1 a white juice1 formed from the chyme1 and consisting of the finer and more nutritious parts of the food4 ,it is afterwards converted into blood4 ,chyme1 the result of the first process which food undergoes in the stomach1 previously to its being converted into chyle4 ,cicuta1 the common ,american ,hemlock1 an annual plant of four or five feet in height1 and found commonly along walls and fences1 and about old ruins and buildings4 ,it is a virulent poison1 as well as one of the most important and valuable medicinal vegetables4 ,it is a very different plant from the ,hemlock tree1 or ,pinus ,canadensis4 ,clarke1 7,sir ,charles ,mansfield17 ,dr41 a distinguished ,english physician and surgeon1 who was born in ,london1 ,may #bh1 #aghb4 ,he was appointed ,physician to ,queen ,adelaide1 wife of ,king ,william ,,iv41 in #ahcj1 and in #ahca1 he was created a baronet4 ,he is the author of several valuable medical works4 ,cobalt1 a brittle metal1 of a reddish-gray color and weak metallic lustre1 used in coloring glass4 ,it is not easily melted nor oxidized in the air4 ,cochineal1 a color procured from the cochineal insect1 7or ,coccus cacti17 which feeds upon the leaves of several species of the plant called cactus1 and which is supposed to derive its coloring matter from its food4 ,its natural color is crimson2 but by the addition of a preparation of potash1 it yields a rich scarlet dye4 ,cologne water1 a fragrant perfume1 which derives its name from having been originally made in the city of ,cologne1 which is situated on the ,river ,rhine1 in ,germany4 ,the best kind is still procured from that city4 ,comparative anatomy1 the science which has for its object a comparison of the anatomy1 structure1 and functions1 of the various organs of animals1 plants1 c41 with those of the human body4 ,confection1 a sweetmeat2 a preparation of fruit with sugar2 also a preparation of medicine with honey1 sirup1 or similar saccharine substance1 for the purpose of disguising the unpleasant taste of the medicine4 ,cooper1 ,sir ,astley ,paston1 a celebrated ,english surgeon1 who was born at ,brooke1 in ,norfolk county1 ,england1 ,august #bc1 #agfh1 and commenced the practice of ,surgery in ,london1 in #agib4 ,he was appointed ,surgeon to ,king ,george ,,iv41 in #ahbg1 was created a baronet in #ahba1 and died ,february #ab1 #ahda4 ,he was the author of many valuable works4 ,copal1 a hard1 shining1 transparent resin1 of a light citron color1 brought1 originally1 from ,spanish ,america1 and now almost wholly from the ,east ,indies4 ,it is principally employed in the preparation of copal varnish4 ,copper1 sulphate of1 see ,sulphate of copper4 ,copperas1 7sulphate of iron1 or green vitriol17 a bright green mineral substance1 formed by the decomposition of a peculiar ore of iron1 called pyrites1 which is a sulphuret of iron4 ,it is first in the form of a greenish-white powder1 or crust1 which is dissolved in water1 and beautiful green crystals of copperas are obtained by evaporation4 ,it is principally used in dyeing1 and in making black ink4 ,its solution1 mixed with a decoction of oak bark1 produces a black color4 ,coronary1 relating to a crown or garland4 ,in anatomy1 it is applied to arteries which encompass the heart1 in the manner1 as it is fancied1 of a garland4 ,corrosive sublimate1 a poisonous substance1 composed of chlorine and quicksilver4 ,cosmetics1 preparations which some people foolishly think will preserve and beautify the skin4 ,cream of tartar1 see ,tartar4 ,crimping-iron1 an instrument for crimping or curling ruffles1 c4 ,curculio1 a weevil or worm1 which affects the fruit of the plum tree1 and sometimes that of the apple tree1 causing the unripe fruit to fall to the ground4 ,curvature of the spine1 see pages #hj1 #ha4 ,cuvier1 ,baron1 the most eminent naturalist of the present age1 was born1 ,a4 ,d4 #agfi1 and died1 ,a4 ,d4 #ahcb4 ,he was ,professor of ,natural ,history in the ,college of ,france1 and held various important posts under the ,french ,government1 at different times4 ,his works on ,natural ,history are of the greatest value4 ,cynosure1 the star near the ,north ,pole1 by which sailors steer4 ,it is used1 in a figurative sense1 as synonymous with pole-star1 or guide4 ,de ,tocqueville1 see ,tocqueville4 ,diamond cement1 a cement sold in the shops1 and used for mending broken glass1 and similar articles4 ,drab1 a thick woollen cloth1 of a light brown or dun color4 ,the name is sometimes used for the color itself4 ,dredging-box1 a box with holes in the top1 used to sift or scatter flour on meat1 when roasting4 ,drill1 7in husbandry17 to sow grain in rows1 drills1 or channels2 the row of grain so sowed4 ,duchess of ,orleans1 see ,orleans4 ,the ,east1 and the ,eastern ,states1 those of the ,united ,states situated in the north-east part of the ,country1 including ,maine1 ,new ,hampshire1 ,massachusetts1 ,rhode ,island1 ,connecticut1 and ,vermont4 ,electuary1 a mixture1 consisting of medicinal substances1 especially dry powders1 combined with honey or sirup1 in order to render them less unpleasant to the taste1 and more convenient for internal use4 ,elevation1 7of a house17 a plan1 representing the upright view of a house1 as a ground-plan shows its appearance on the ground4 ,euclid1 a celebrated mathematician1 who was born in ,alexandria1 in ,egypt1 about two hundred and eighty years before ,christ4 ,he distinguished himself by his writings on music and geometry4 ,the most celebrated of his works1 is his ',elements of ,geometry1' which is in use at the present day4 ,he established a school at ,alexandria1 which became so famous1 that1 from his time to the conquest of ,alexandria by the ,saracens1 7,a4 ,d4 #fdf17 no mathematician was found1 who had not studied at ,alexandria4 ,ptolemy1 ,king of ,egypt1 was one of his pupils2 and it was to a question of this ,king1 whether there were not a shorter way of coming at ,geometry1 than by the study of his ,elements1 that ,euclid made the celebrated answer1 ,there is no royal way1 or path1 to ,geometry4 ,equator1 or equinoctial line1 an imaginary line passing round the earth1 from east to west1 and directly under the sun1 which always shines nearly perpendicularly down upon all countries situated near the equator4 ,evolve1 to throw off1 to discharge4 ,exchequer1 a court in ,england1 in which the ,chancellor presides1 and where the revenues of1 and debts due to1 the ,king are recovered4 ,this court was originally established by ,king ,william1 7called 'the ,conqueror1'7 who died ,a4 ,d4 #ajhg2 and its name is derived from a checkered cloth1 7,french echiquier1 a chess-board1 checker-work17 on the table4 ,excretion1 something discharged from the body1 a separation of animal matters4 ,excrementitious1 consisting of matter excreted from the body2 containing excrements4 ,fahrenheit1 7,gabriel ,daniel17 a celebrated natural philosopher1 who was born at ,dantzic1 ,a4 ,d4 #afhf4 ,he made great improvements in the thermometer2 and his name is sometimes used for that instrument4 ,farinaceous1 mealy1 tasting like meal4 ,to ,fell1 to turn down1 on the wrong side1 the raw edges of a seam1 after it has been stitched1 run1 or sewed1 and then to hem or sew it to the cloth4 ,festivals1 of the ,jews1 the three great annual4 ,these were1 the ,feast of the ,passover1 that of ,pentecost1 and that of ,tabernacles2 on occasion of which1 all the males of the ,nation were required to visit the ,temple at ,jerusalem1 in whatever part of the ,country they might reside4 ,see ,exodus xxiii4 #ad1 #ag1 xxxiv4 #bc1 ,leviticus xxiii4 #d1 ,deuteronomy xvi4 #af4 ,the ,passover was kept in commemoration of the deliverance of the ,israelites from ,egypt1 and was so named1 because1 the night before their departure1 the destroying angel1 who slew all the first-born of the ,egyptians1 passed over the houses of the ,israelites1 without entering them4 ,see ,exodus xii4 ,the ,feast of ,pentecost was so called1 from a word meaning the fiftieth1 because it was celebrated on the fiftieth day after the ,passover1 and was instituted in commemoration of the giving of the ,law from ,mount ,sinai1 on the fiftieth day from the departure out of ,egypt4 ,it is also called the ,feast of ,weeks1 because it was kept seven weeks after the ,passover4 ,see ,exodus xxxiv4 #bb1 ,leviticus xxiii4 #ae-ba1 ,deuteronomy xvi4 #i1 #aj4 ,the ,feast of ,tabernacles1 or ,feast of ,tents1 was so called1 because it was celebrated under tents or tabernacles of green boughs2 and was designed to commemorate their dwelling in tents1 during their passage through the wilderness4 ,at this ,feast1 they also returned thanks to ,god1 for the fruits of the earth1 after they had been gathered4 ,see ,exodus xxiii4 #af1 ,leviticus xxiii4 #cd-dd1 ,deuteronomy xvi4 #ac1 and also ,st4 ,john vii4 #b4 ,fire blight1 a disease in the pear1 and some other fruit trees1 in which they appear burnt1 as if by fire4 ,it is supposed1 by some1 to be caused by an insect1 others suppose it to be caused by an overabundance of sap4 ,fluting-iron1 an instrument for making flutes1 channels1 furrows1 or hollows1 in ruffles1 c4 ,foundation muslin1 a nice kind of buckram1 stiff and white1 used for the foundation or basis of bonnets1 c4 ,free ,states1 those ,states in which slavery is not allowed1 as distinguished from ,slave ,states1 in which slavery does exist4 ,french chalk1 a variety of the mineral called talc1 unctuous to the touch1 of a greenish color1 glossy1 soft1 and easily scratched1 and leaving a silvery line1 when drawn on paper4 ,it is used for marking on cloth1 and extracting grease-spots4 ,fuller's earth1 a species of clay1 remarkable for its property of absorbing oil2 for which reason it is valuable for extracting grease from cloth1 c4 ,it is used by fullers1 in scouring and cleansing cloth1 whence its name4 ,fustic1 the wood of a tree which grows in the ,west ,indies1 called ,morus tinctoria4 ,it affords a durable1 but not very brilliant1 yellow dye1 and is also used in producing some greens and drab colors4 ,gastric1 7from the ,greek ,greek3 gastir1 gaster1 the belly17 belonging or relating to the belly1 or stomach4 ,gastric juice1 the fluid which dissolves the food in the stomach4 ,it is limpid1 like water1 of a saltish taste1 and without odor4 ,geology1 the science which treats of the earth1 as composed of rocks and stones4 ,gore1 a triangular piece of cloth4 ,goring1 cut in a triangular shape4 ,gothic1 a peculiar and strongly-marked style of architecture1 sometimes called the ecclesiastical style1 because it is most frequently used in cathedrals1 churches1 abbeys1 and other religious edifices4 ,its principle seems to have originated in the imitation of groves and bowers1 under which the ancients performed their sacred rites2 its clustered pillars and pointed arches very well representing the trunks of trees and their interlocking branches4 ,gourmand1 or ,gormand1 a glutton1 a greedy eater4 ,in agriculture1 it is applied to twigs which take up the sap1 but bear only leaves4 ,green vitriol1 see ,copperas4 ,griddle1 an iron pan1 of a peculiarly broad and shallow construction1 used for baking cakes4 ,ground-plan1 the map or plan of the lower floor of any building1 in which the various apartments1 windows1 doors1 fireplaces1 and other things1 are represented1 like the rivers1 towns1 mountains1 roads1 c41 on a map4 ,gum ,arabic1 a vegetable juice which exudes through the bark of the ,acacia1 ,mimosa nilotica1 and some other similar trees1 growing in ,arabia1 ,egypt1 ,senegal1 and ,central ,africa4 ,it is the purest of all gums4 ,hardpan1 the hard1 unbroken layer of earth1 below the mould or cultivated soil4 ,hartshorn1 7spirits of17 a volatile alkali1 originally prepared from the horns of the stag or hart1 but now procured from various other substances4 ,it is known by the name of ammonia1 or spirits of ammonia4 ,hemlock1 see ,cicuta4 ,horticulturist1 one skilled in horticulture1 or the art of cultivating gardens2 horticulture being to the garden1 what agriculture is to the farm1 the application of labor and science to a limited spot1 for convenience1 for profit1 or for ornament1--though implying a higher state of cultivation1 than is common in agriculture4 ,it includes the cultivation of culinary vegetables and of fruits1 and forcing or exotic gardening1 as far as respects useful products4 ,hoskin's gloves1 gloves made by a person named ,hoskin1 whose manufacture was formerly much celebrated4 ,hydrogen1 a very light1 inflammable gas1 of which water is1 in part1 composed4 ,it is used to inflate balloons4 ,hypochondriasis1 melancholy1 dejection1 a disorder of the imagination1 in which the person supposes he is afflicted with various diseases4 ,hysteria1 or hysterics1 a spasmodic1 convulsive affection of the nerves1 to which women are subject4 ,it is somewhat similar to hypochondriasis in men4 ,ingrain1 a kind of carpeting1 in which the threads are dyed in the grain1 or raw material1 before manufacture4 ,ipecac1 7an abbreviation of ipecacuanha17 an ,indian medicinal plant1 acting as an emetic4 ,isinglass1 a fine kind of gelatin1 or glue1 prepared from the swimming-bladders of fishes1 used as a cement1 and also as an ingredient in food and medicine4 ,the name is sometimes applied to a transparent mineral substance called mica4 ,kamtschadales1 inhabitants of ,kamtschatka1 a large peninsula situated on the northeastern coast of ,asia1 having the ,north ,pacific ,ocean on the east4 ,it is remarkable for its extreme cold1 which is heightened by a range of very lofty mountains1 extending the whole length of the peninsula1 several of which are volcanic4 ,it is very deficient in vegetable productions1 but produces a great variety of animals1 from which the richest and most valuable furs are procured4 ,the inhabitants are in general below the common height1 but have broad shoulders and large heads4 ,it is under the dominion of ,russia4 ,kink1 a knotty twist in a thread or rope4 ,lapland1 a country at the extreme north part of ,europe1 where it is very cold4 ,it contains lofty mountains1 some of which are covered with perpetual snow and ice4 ,latin1 the language of the ,latins1 or inhabitants of ,latium1 the principal country of ancient ,italy4 ,after the building of ,rome1 that city became the capital of the whole country4 ,leguminous1 pod-bearing4 ,lent1 a fast of the ,christian ,church1 7lasting forty days1 from ,ash ,wednesday to ,easter17 in commemoration of our ,saviour's miraculous fast of forty days and forty nights1 in the wilderness4 ,the word ,lent means spring2 this fast always occurring at that season of the year4 ,levite1 one of the tribe of ,levi1 the son of ,jacob1 which tribe was set apart from the others1 to minister in the services of the ,tabernacle1 and the ,temple at ,jerusalem4 ,the ,priests were taken from this tribe4 ,see ,numbers i4 #dg-ec4 ,ley1 water which has percolated through ashes1 earth1 or other substances1 dissolving and imbibing a part of their contents4 ,it is generally spelled lie1 or lye4 ,linnus1 7,charles17 a native of ,sweden1 and the most celebrated naturalist of his age4 ,he was born ,may #ac1 #agjg1 and died ,january #aa1 #aggh4 ,his life was devoted to the study of natural history4 ,the science of botany1 in particular1 is greatly indebted to his labors4 ,his ',amoenitates ,academic' 7,academical ,recreations7 is a collection of the dissertations of his pupils1 edited by himself2 a work rich in matters relating to the history and habits of plants4 ,he was the first who arranged ,natural ,history into a regular system1 which has been generally called by his name4 ,his proper name was ,linn4 ,lobe1 a division1 a distinct part2 generally applied to the two divisions of the lungs4 ,log ,cabin1 a cabin or house built of logs1 as is generally the case in newly-settled countries4 ,loire1 the largest river of ,france1 being about five hundred and fifty miles in length4 ,it rises in the mountains of ,cevennes1 and empties into the ,atlantic ,ocean1 about forty miles below the city of ,nantes4 ,it divides ,france into two almost equal parts4 ,london ,medical ,society1 a distinguished association1 formed in #aggc4 ,it has published some valuable volumes of its ,transactions4 ,it has a library1 of about #dj1jjj volumes1 which is kept in a house presented to the ,society1 in #aghh1 by the celebrated ,dr4 ,lettsom1 who was one of its first members4 ,louis ,,xiv41 a celebrated ,king of ,france and ,navarre1 who was born ,sept4 #e1 #afch1 and died ,sept4 #a1 #agae4 ,his mother having before had no children1 though she had been married twenty-two years1 his birth was considered as a particular favor from heaven1 and he was called the ',gift of ,god4' ,he is sometimes styled ',louis the ,great1' and his reign is celebrated as an era of magnificence and learning1 and is notorious as a period of licentiousness4 ,he left behind him monuments of unprecedented splendor and expense1 consisting of palaces1 gardens1 and other like works4 ,lumbar1 7from the ,latin lumbus1 the loin17 relating or pertaining to the loins4 ,lunacy1 writ of1 a judicial proceeding1 to ascertain whether a person be a lunatic4 ,mademoiselle1 the ,french word for ,miss1 a young girl4 ,magnesia1 a light and white alkaline earth1 which enters into the composition of many rocks1 communicating to them a greasy or soapy feeling1 and a striped texture1 with sometimes a greenish color4 ,malaria1 7,italian1 mal'aria1 bad air17 a noxious vapor or exhalation2 a state of the atmosphere or soil1 or both1 which1 in certain regions1 and in warm weather1 produces fever1 sometimes of great violence4 ,mammon1 riches1 the ,syrian god of riches4 ,see ,st4 ,luke1 xvi4 #aa1 #ac1 ,st4 ,matthew1 vi4 #bd4 ,martineau1 7,harriet17 a woman who has become somewhat celebrated by her book of travels in the ,united ,states1 and by other works4 ,mexico1 a country situated southwest of the ,united ,states1 and extending to the ,pacific ,ocean4 ,miasms1 such particles or atoms1 as are supposed to arise from distempered1 putrefying1 or poisonous bodies4 ,michilimackinac1 or ,mackinac1 7now frequently corrupted into ,mackinaw1 which is the usual pronunciation of the name17 a military post in the ,state of ,michigan1 situated upon an island about nine miles in circuit1 in the strait which connects ,lakes ,michigan and ,huron4 ,it is much resorted to by ,indians and fur traders4 ,the highest summit of the island is about three hundred feet above the lakes1 and commands an extensive view of them4 ,midsummer1 with us1 the time when the sun arrives at his greatest distance from the equator1 or about the twenty-first of ,june1 called1 also1 the summer solstice1 7from the ,latin sol1 the sun1 and sto1 to stop or stand still17 because1 when the sun reaches this point1 he seems to stand still for some time1 and then appears to retrace his steps4 ,the days are then longer than at any other time4 ,migrate1 to remove from one place to another2 to change residence4 ,mildew1 a disease of plants2 a mould1 spot1 or stain1 in paper1 cloths1 c41 caused by moisture4 ,militate1 to oppose1 to operate against4 ,millinet1 a coarse kind of stiff muslin1 formerly used for the foundation or basis of bonnets1 c4 ,mineralogy1 a science which treats of the inorganic natural substances found upon or in the earth1 such as earths1 salts1 metals1 c41 and which are called by the general name of minerals4 ,minuti1 the smallest particulars4 ,monasticism1 monastic life2 religiously recluse life1 in a monastery1 or house of religious retirement4 ,montagu1 ,lady ,mary ,wortley1 one of the most celebrated among the female literary characters of ,england4 ,she was daughter of ,evelyn1 ,duke of ,kingston1 and was born about #afij1 at ,thoresby1 in ,england4 ,she displayed uncommon abilities1 at a very early age1 and was educated by the best masters in the ,english1 ,latin1 ,greek1 and ,french1 languages4 ,she accompanied her husband 7,edward ,wortley ,montagu7 on an embassy to ,constantinople1 and her correspondence with her friends was published and much admired4 ,she introduced the practice of inoculation for the smallpox into ,england1 which proved of great benefit to millions4 ,she died at the age of seventy-two1 ,a4 ,d4 #agfb4 ,moral ,philosophy1 the science which treats of the motives and rules of human actions1 and of the ends to which they ought to be directed4 ,moreen1 a kind of woollen stuff used for curtains1 covers of cushions1 bed hangings1 c4 ,mucous1 having the nature of mucus1 a glutinous1 sticky1 thready1 transparent fluid1 of a salt savor1 produced by different membranes of the body1 and serving to protect the membranes and other internal parts against the action of the air1 food1 c4 ,the fluid of the mouth and nose is mucus4 ,mucous membrane1 that membrane which lines the mouth1 nose1 intestines1 and other open cavities of the body4 ,muriatic acid1 an acid1 composed of chlorine and hydrogen1 called1 also1 hydrochloric acid1 and spirit of salt4 ,mush-stick1 a stick to use in stirring mush1 which is corn meal boiled in water4 ,nankeen1 or ,nankin1 a light cotton cloth1 originally brought from ,nankin1 in ,china1 whence its name4 ,nash1 7,richard17 commonly called ,beau ,nash1 or ,king of ,bath1 a celebrated leader of the fashions in ,england4 ,he was born at ,swansea1 in ,south ,wales1 ,october #h1 #afgd1 and died in the city of ,bath1 7,england17 ,february #c1 #agfa4 ,natural ,history1 the history of animals1 plants1 and minerals4 ,natural ,philosophy1 the science which treats of the powers of ,nature1 the properties of natural bodies1 and their action one upon another4 ,it is sometimes called physics4 ,new-milch cow1 a cow which has recently calved4 ,newton1 7,sir ,isaac17 an eminent ,english philosopher and mathematician1 who was born on ,christmas day1 #afdb1 and died ,march #bj1 #agbg4 ,he was much distinguished for his very important discoveries in ,optics and other branches of ,natural ,philosophy4 ,see the first volume of ',pursuit of ,knowledge under ,difficulties1' forming the fourteenth volume of ',,the ,,school ,,library1' ,larger ,series4 ,non-bearers1 plants which bear no flowers nor fruit4 ,northern ,states1 those of the ,united ,states situated in the ,northern and ,eastern part of the ,country4 ,ordinary1 see ,physician in ,ordinary4 ,oil of ,vitriol1 7sulphuric acid1 or vitriolic acid17 an acid composed of oxygen and sulphur4 ,orleans1 7,elizabeth ,charlotte de ,bavire17 ,duchess of1 second wife of ,philippe1 the brother of ,louis ,,xiv41 was born at ,heidelberg1 ,may #bf1 #afeb1 and died at the palace of ,st4 ,cloud1 in ,paris1 ,december #h1 #agbb4 ,she was author of several works2 among which were1 ,memoirs1 and ,anecdotes1 of the ,court of ,louis ,,xiv4 ,ottoman1 a kind of hassock1 or thick mat1 for kneeling upon2 so called1 from being used by the ,ottomans or ,turks4 ,oxalic acid1 a vegetable acid1 which exists in sorrel4 ,oxide1 a compound 7which is not acid7 of a substance with oxygen2 for example1 oxide of iron1 or rust of metals4 ,oxidize1 to combine oxygen with a body without producing acidity4 ,oxygen1 vital air1 a simple and very important substance1 which exists in the atmosphere1 and supports the breathing of animals and the burning of combustibles4 ,it was called oxygen1 from two ,greek words1 signifying to produce acid1 from its power of giving acidity to many compounds in which it predominates4 ,oxygenized1 combined with oxygen4 ,pancreas1 a gland within the abdomen1 just below and behind the stomach1 and providing a fluid to assist digestion4 ,in animals1 it is called the sweet-bread4 ,pancreatic1 belonging to the pancreas4 ,parterre1 a level division of ground1 a flower garden4 ,pearlash1 the common name for impure carbonate of potash1 which1 in a purer form1 is called ,sal ratus4 ,peristaltic1 worm-like4 ,philosophy1 see ,intellectual1 ,moral1 and ,natural4 ,physician in ,ordinary to the ,queen1 the ,physician who attends the ,queen in ordinary cases of illness4 ,pistil1 that part of a flower1 generally in the centre1 composed of the germ1 style1 and stigma1 which receives the pollen or fertilizing dust of the stamens4 ,pitt1 ,william1 a celebrated ,english statesman1 son of the ,earl of ,chatham4 ,he was born1 ,may #bh1 #agei1 and at the age of twenty-three1 was made ,chancellor of the ,exchequer1 and soon afterward1 ,prime ,minister4 ,he died1 ,january #bc1 #ahjf4 ,political ,economy1 the science which treats of the general causes affecting the production1 distribution1 and consumption1 of articles of exchangeable value1 in reference to their effects upon national wealth and welfare4 ,pollen1 the fertilizing dust of flowers1 produced by the stamens1 and falling upon the pistils1 in order to render a flower capable of producing fruit or seed4 ,potter's clay1 the clay used in making articles of pottery4 ,prairie1 a ,french word1 signifying meadow4 ,in the ,united ,states1 it is applied to the remarkable natural meadows1 or plains1 which are found in the ,western ,states4 ,in some of these vast and nearly level plains1 the traveller may wander for days1 without meeting with wood or water1 and see no object rising above the plane of the horizon4 ,they are very fertile4 ,prime ,minister1 the person appointed by the ruler of a nation to have the chief direction and management of the public affairs4 ,process1 a protuberance1 or projecting part of a bone4 ,pulmonary1 belonging to1 or affecting1 the lungs4 ,pulmonary artery1 an artery which passes through the lungs1 being divided into several branches1 which form a beautiful network over the air-vessels1 and finally empty themselves into the left auricle of the heart4 ,puritans1 a sect1 which professed to follow the pure word of ,god1 in opposition to traditions1 human constitutions1 and other authorities4 ,in the reign of ,queen ,elizabeth1 part of the ,protestants were desirous of introducing a simpler1 and1 as they considered it1 a purer1 form of church government and worship1 than that established by law2 from which circumstance1 they were called ,puritans4 ,in process of time1 this party increased in numbers1 and openly broke off from the ,church1 laying aside the ,english liturgy1 and adopting a service-book published at ,geneva1 by the disciples of ,calvin4 ,they were treated with great rigor by the ,government1 and many of them left the kingdom and settled in ,holland4 ,finding themselves not so eligibly situated in that ,country1 as they had expected to be1 a portion of them embarked for ,america1 and were the first settlers of ,new ,england4 ,quixotic1 absurd1 romantic1 ridiculous2 from ,don ,quixote1 the hero of a celebrated fictitious work1 written by ,cervantes1 a distinguished ,spanish writer1 and intended to reform the tastes and opinions of his countrymen4 ,reeking1 smoking1 emitting vapor4 ,residuum1 the remainder1 or part which remains4 ,routine1 a round1 or course of engagements1 business1 pleasure1 c4 ,to ,run a seam1 to lay the two edges of a seam together1 and pass the threaded needle out and in1 with small stitches1 a few threads below the edge1 and on a line with it4 ,to ,run a stocking1 to pass a thread of yarn1 with a needle1 straight along each row of the stocking1 as far as is desired1 taking up one loop and missing two or three1 until the row is completed1 so as to double the thickness at the part which is run4 ,sabbatical year1 every seventh year1 among the ,jews1 which was a year of rest for the land1 when it was to be left without culture4 ,in this year1 all debts were to be remitted1 and slaves set at liberty4 ,see ,exodus xxi4 #b1 xxiii4 #aj1 ,leviticus xxv4 #b1 #c1 c41 ,deuteronomy xv4 #ab1 and other similar passages4 ,sal ratus1 see ,pearlash4 ,sal ammoniac1 a salt1 called also muriate of ammonia1 which derives its name from a district in ,libya1 ,egypt1 where there was a temple of ,jupiter ,ammon1 and where this salt was found4 ,scotch ,highlanders1 inhabitants of the ,highlands of ,scotland4 ,selvedge1 the edge of cloth1 a border4 ,improperly written selvage4 ,service-book1 a book prescribing the order of public services in a church or congregation4 ,sharps1 see ,blunts4 ,shorts1 the coarser part of wheat bran4 ,shrubbery1 a plantation of shrubs4 ,siberia1 a large country in the extreme northern part of ,asia1 having the ,frozen ,ocean on the north1 and the ,pacific ,ocean on the east1 and forming a part of the ,russian empire4 ,the northern part is extremely cold1 almost uncultivated1 and contains but few inhabitants4 ,it furnishes fine skins1 and some of the most valuable furs in the world4 ,it also contains rich mines of iron and copper1 and several kinds of precious stones4 ,sinclair1 ,sir ,john1 of whom it was said1 ,there is no greater name in the annals of agriculture1 than his1 was born in ,caithness1 ,scotland1 ,may #aj1 #aged1 and became a member of the ,british ,parliament in #aghj4 ,he was strongly opposed to the measures of the ,british ,government towards ,america1 which produced the ,american ,revolution4 ,he was author of many valuable publications1 on various subjects4 ,he died ,december #ba1 #ahce4 ,sirloin1 the loin of beef4 ,the appellation ',sir' is the title of a knight1 or baronet2 and has been added to the word 'loin1' when applied to beef1 because a ,king of ,england1 in a freak of good humor1 once conferred the honor of knighthood upon a loin of beef4 ,slack1 to loosen1 to relax1 to deprive of cohesion4 ,soda1 an alkali1 usually obtained from the ashes of marine plants4 ,to ,spade1 to throw out earth with a spade4 ,spermaceti1 an oily substance1 found in the head of a species of whale1 called the spermaceti whale4 ,spindling1 see page #abd4 ,spinous process1 a process or bony protuberance1 resembling a spine or thorn1 whence it derives its name4 ,spool1 a piece of cane or reed1 or a hollow cylinder of wood1 with a ridge at each end1 used to wind yarn and thread upon4 ,stamen1 7plural stamens and stamina17 in weaving1 the warp1 the thread1 any thing made of threads4 ,in botany1 that part of a flower1 on which the artificial classification is founded1 consisting of the filament or stalk1 and the anther1 which contains the pollen1 or fructifying powder4 ,stigma1 7plural stigmas and stigmata17 the summit or top of the pistil of a flower4 ,style1 or ,stile1 the part of the pistil between the germ and the stigma4 ,sub-carbonate1 an imperfect carbonate4 ,sulphates1 ,sulphats1 ,sulphites1 salts formed by the combination of some base with sulphuric acid1 as ,sulphate of copper1 7blue vitriol1 or blue stone17 a combination of sulphuric acid with copper4 ,sulphate of iron1 copperas1 or green vitriol4 ,sulphate of lime1 gypsum1 or plaster of ,paris4 ,sulphate of magnesia1 ,epsom salts4 ,sulphate of potash1 a chemical salt1 composed of sulphuric acid and potash4 ,sulphate of soda1 ,glauber's salts4 ,sulphate of zinc1 white vitriol4 ,sulphuret1 a combination of an alkaline earth or metal with sulphur as1 ,sulphuret of iron1 a combination of iron and sulphur4 ,sulphuric acid1 oil of vitriol1 vitriolic acid4 ,suture1 a sewing2 the uniting of parts by stitching2 the seam or joint which unites the flat bones of the skull1 which are notched like the teeth of a saw1 and the notches1 being united together1 present the appearance of a seam4 ,tartar1 a substance1 deposited on the inside of wine casks1 consisting chiefly of tartaric acid and potash4 ,cream of tartar1 the crude tartar separated from all its impurities1 by being dissolved in water and then crystallized1 when it becomes a perfectly white powder4 ,tartaric acid1 a vegetable acid which exists in the grape4 ,technology1 a description of the arts1 considered generally1 in their theory and practice1 as connected with moral1 political1 and physical science4 ,three great ,jewish yearly festivals1 see ,festivals4 ,three-ply1 or triple ingrain1 a kind of carpeting1 in which the threads are woven in such a manner as to make three thicknesses of the cloth4 ,tic douloureux1 a painful affection of the nerves1 mostly those of the face4 ,tocqueville1 7,alexis de17 a celebrated living statesman and writer of ,france1 and author of volumes on the ,political ,condition1 and the ,penitentiaries1 of the ,united ,states1 and other works4 ,trachea1 the windpipe1 so named 7from a ,greek word signifying rough7 from the roughness1 or inequalities1 of the cartilages of which it is formed4 ,truckle-bed1 or trundle-bed1 a bed that runs on wheels4 ,tuber1 a solid1 fleshy1 roundish root1 like the potato4 ,tuberous1 thick and fleshy2 composed of1 or having1 tubers4 ,tucks1 7improperly tacks17 folds in garments4 ,turmeric1 the root of a plant called ,curcuma longa1 a native of the ,east ,indies1 used as a yellow dye4 ,twaddle1 idle1 foolish talk1 or conversation4 ,unbolted1 unsifted4 ,unslacked1 not loosened1 or deprived of cohesion4 ,lime1 when it has been slacked1 crumbles to powder1 from being deprived of cohesion4 ,valance1 the drapery or fringe hanging round the cover of a bed1 couch1 or other similar article4 ,vascular1 relating to1 or full of1 vessels4 ,venetian1 a kind of carpeting1 composed of a striped woollen warp on a thick woof of linen thread4 ,verisimilitude1 probability1 resemblance to truth4 ,verbatim1 word for word4 ,vice versa1 the side being changed1 or the question reversed1 or the terms being exchanged4 ,viscera1 7plural of viscus17 organs contained in the abdomen and in the chest4 ,vitriol1 a compound mineral salt1 of a very caustic taste4 ,blue vitriol1 sulphate of copper4 ,green vitriol1 see ,copperas4 ,oil of vitriol1 sulphuric acid4 ,white vitriol1 sulphate of zinc4 ,waffle-iron1 an iron utensil for the purpose of baking waffles1 which are thin and soft cakes indented by the iron in which they are baked4 ,washleather1 a soft1 pliable leather1 dressed with oil1 and in such a way1 that it may be washed1 without shrinking4 ,it is used for various articles of dress1 as under-shirts1 drawers1 c41 and also for rubbing silver1 and other articles having a high polish4 ,the article known1 in commerce1 as chamois1 or shammy1 leather1 is also called wash-leather4 ,welting cord1 a cord sewed into the welt or border of a garment4 ,the ,west1 or ,western ,world4 ,when used in ,europe1 or in distinction from the ,eastern ,world1 it means ,america4 ,when used in this ,country1 the ,west refers to the ,western ,states of the ,union4 ,western ,wilds1 the wild1 thinly-settled lands of the ,western ,states4 ,white vitriol1 see ,zinc4 ,wilton carpet1 a kind of carpets1 made in ,england1 and so called from the place which is the chief seat of their manufacture4 ,they are woollen velvets1 with variegated colors4 ,writ of lunacy1 see ,lunacy4 ,xantippe1 the wife of ,socrates1 noted for her violent temper and scolding propensities4 ,the name is frequently applied to a shrew1 or peevish1 turbulent1 scolding woman4 ,zinc1 a blueish-white metal1 which is used as a constituent of brass1 and some other alloys4 ,sulphate of zinc1 or ,white vitriol1 a combination of zinc with sulphuric acid4 ,,index4 ,a4 ,absorbents of the skin1 #ic1 #aai4 ,accidents and antidotes1 #bdj4 ,accounts1 #agd1 #ahf4 ,by girls1 #ahh4 ,acids1 #cai4 ,africans1 diet of1 #bba4 ,air1 evils of the want of pure1 #ia1 #abi1 #aif1 #caa4 ,exercise in the1 #abi1 #acc4 ,for infants1 #bag1 #bah4 ,of sick-rooms1 #bcg4 ,dancing in the1 #bdf4 ,see ,ventilation4 ,albany ,orphan ,asylum1 #bbb4 ,alcoholic drinks1 #ajg4 ,see ,stimulating4 ,alton1 account of the ,monticello ,female ,seminary at1 #ed4 ,amaryllis1 #cce4 ,america1 anticipations as to1 #cf4 ,conspicuous station of1 #cf4 ,changeableness in the conditions in1 #dj1 #df1 #dh1 #beg4 ,labor in1 #adg4 ,american women1 peculiar responsibilities of1 #be4 ,rights and privileges of1 #bg4 ,their distinct line of duty1 #bh1 #cb1 #cc4 ,influence of1 on ,america1 #cb1 #cc4 ,their equality1 #cc4 ,fancied wrongs of1 #cc4 ,part to be acted by1 #cf4 ,influence of1 in the world1 #cg1 #ch4 ,difficulties peculiar to1 #ch2 as housekeepers1 #ci1 #aea1 #bjd2 from delicacy of constitution1 #da1 #de1 #dg1 #abh4 ,few perfectly healthy1 #dc4 ,causes of unhealthy1 #dc1 #abh2 mental excitement1 #dc2 their sense of their responsibilities1 #dd2 too little outdoor exercise1 #dd4 ,bad early training of1 #de4 ,exposures of1 in newly-settled countries1 #df4 ,de ,tocqueville describes1 in the ,west1 #df4 ,in the ,east and in the ,west1 compared1 #dg4 ,should oppose the feeling that labor is degrading1 #fa4 ,precedence given to1 by the other sex1 #ada4 ,housekeeping by1 #aea4 ,time and money spent by1 for the ornamental1 #age4 ,see ,daughters1 ,females1 ,mothers1 and ,women4 ,amusements1 #bdd1 #bej4 ,anemone1 #cce4 ,anger1 on silence in1 #aeb4 ,see ,temper1 and ,tones4 ,animal food1 #ii1 #ajj4 ,for young children1 #bbj4 ,nourishment of1 #bba4 ,see ,food4 ,animals1 cruelty to1 in sport1 #bdd1 #bdf4 ,annual flowers1 #ccg4 ,anthracite coal1 #bha4 ,ants1 red and black1 #cbc4 ,anxiety1 a countenance of1 #adi4 ,appetites1 gratification of the1 #aei1 #aga1 #agb4 ,rule as to1 #ahd4 ,apple trees1 preserving from insects1 #cej4 ,apportionment of time1 #aeg1 #afj1 #aha4 ,by regular division of work1 #afb4 ,jewish1 #aha4 ,aristocracy1 ,english1 #bg1 #abc4 ,the prejudice of1 as to labor1 #fa1 #abc4 ,distinguishing mark of1 #abc4 ,on aping the1 #abd4 ,courtesy of1 limited1 #aci4 ,manners of democracy and1 #adf4 ,on economy among the1 #aid4 ,domestics of1 #bje4 ,arm1 muscles of the1 #gd1 #ge4 ,arsenic1 poisoning from1 #bdb4 ,arteries1 tying up1 #bdj4 ,associated charities1 #agh4 ,association1 in ,illinois1 for educating poor females1 #ei4 ,for education at large1 #bjc4 ,astral lamps1 #bhb4 ,b4 ,back-door accommodations1 #bgf4 ,baglivi1 on health during ,lent1 #ajj4 ,balls1 #bdg1 #bdh4 ,bargains1 on making1 #aij1 #aid4 ,baskets1 #cba4 ,for centre tables1 #ced4 ,bath1 on using the1 #abj4 ,bathing infants1 #bag4 ,see ,washing4 ,bathing-rooms1 #bgf4 ,beating down prices1 #aij1 #aid4 ,beaumont1 ,dr41 experiments by1 on the digestibility of food1 #ajd1 note4 ,beauty1 effect of exercise on1 #acb4 ,bed-bugs1 #cbc4 ,bedrooms1 care of1 #caa4 ,beds and bedding1 #aad1 #cac1 #cbi4 ,washing1 #bhg4 ,on making1 #cad4 ,beef's-gall1 uses of1 #bhf1 #bhi4 ,to prepare1 #bib4 ,bell1 ,sir ,charles1 on nerves1 #abi4 ,benevolence1 happiness of1 #aca4 ,see ,charity4 ,bile1 #hi4 ,bituminous coal1 #bha4 ,black ants1 #cbc4 ,black tea1 #aaj4 ,bleeding at the lungs1 #bdc4 ,blindness1 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