domain material from the ,google ,print project7 ,a ,girl's ,student ,days and ,after ,by ,,jeannette ,,marks1 ,m4 ,a4 7,wellesley7 ,with an ,introduction by ,,mary ,,emma ,,woolley1 ,,ll4 ,d4 ,president of ,mt4 ,holyoke ,college ,new ,york ,chicago ,toronto ,fleming ,h4 ,revell ,company ,london and ,edinburgh ,copyright1 #aiaa1 by ,,fleming ,h4 ,,revell ,,company ,new ,york3 #aeh ,fifth ,avenue ,chicago3 #abe ,north ,wabash ,ave4 ,toronto3 #be ,richmond ,street1 ,w4 ,london3 #ba ,paternoster ,square ,edinburgh3 #ajj ,princes ,street ,inscribed to ,,mary ,,emma ,,woolley1 ,,ll4 ,d4 ,introduction ,the school and college girl is an important factor in our life to-day4 ,around her revolve all manner of educational schemes1 to her are open all kinds of educational opportunities4 ,there was never an age in which so much thought was expended upon her1 or so much interest felt in her development4 ,there are many articles written and many speeches delivered on the responsibility of parents and teachers--it may not be amiss occasionally to turn the shield and show that some of the responsibility rests upon the girl herself4 ,after all1 she is the determining factor1 for buildings and equipment1 courses and teachers accomplish little without her coperation4 ,it is difficult for the new girl1 whether in school or college1 to realize the extent to which the success of her school life depends upon herself4 ,in a new environment1 surrounded by what seem to her multitudes of new faces1 obliged to meet larger demands under strange and untried conditions1 she is quite likely to go to the other extreme and exaggerate her own insignificance4 ,sometimes she is fortunate enough to have an older sister or friend to help her steer her bark through these untried waters1 but generally she must find her own bearings4 ,to such a girl1 the wise hints in the chapters which follow this introduction are invaluable1 giving an insight into the meaning of fair-play in the classroom as well as on the athletic field2 the relation between physical well-being and academic success2 the difference between the social life that is re-creative and that which is nerves-creative2 the significance of loyalty to the school and to the home2 the way in which school days determine to a large degree the days that come after4 ,these1 and many other suggestions1 wise and forceful1 ,i commend not only to the new girl1 but also to the old girl who would make her school and college days count for more both while they last and as preparation for the work that is to follow4 ,,mary ,e4 ,,woolley4 ,mt4 ,holyoke ,college1 ,south ,hadley1 ,massachusetts4 ,,contents ,a ,,word ,,to ,,the ,,wise #ac ,i4 ,,the ,,ideal ,,freshman #ag ,,ii4 ,,the ,,girl ,,and ,,the ,,school #be ,,iii4 ,,friendships #cc ,,iv4 ,,the ,,student',s ,,room #da ,v4 ,,the ,,tools ,,of ,,study ,,and ,,their ,,use #ed ,,vi4 ,,the ,,joy ,,of ,,work #fa ,,vii4 ,,fair-,,play #gj ,,viii4 ,,the ,,right ,,sort ,,of ,,leisure #gh ,,ix4 ,,the ,,outdoor ,,runway #hh ,x4 ,a ,,girl',s ,,summer #ii ,,xi4 ,,from ,,the ,,school ,,to ,,the ,,girl #ajg ,,xii4 ,,the ,,work ,,to ,,be #aae ,a ,word to the ,wise ,we train for basket-ball1 golf1 tennis or for whatever sport we have the most liking4 ,is there any reason why we should not use the same intelligence in the approach to our general school life8 ,is there any reason why we should make an obstacle race1 however good and amusing exercise that may be1 out of all our school life8 ,we don't expect to win a game with a sprained wrist or ankle1 and there really is no reason why we should plan to sprain the back of school or college life by avoidable mistakes4 ,the writer believes in the girl who has the capacity for making mistakes1--that headlong1 energetic spirit which blunders all too easily4 ,but the writer knows how much those mistakes hurt and how much energy might be saved for a life that1 with just a pinch less of blunder1 might be none the less savoury4 ,school and college are no place for vocal soloists1 and after some of us have sung so sweetly and so long at home1 with every one saying1 ,just hear ,mary sing1 isn't it wonderful6 it is rather trying1 you know1 to go to a place where vocal solos are not popular4 ,and we wish some one--at least ,i did--had told us all about this fact as well as other facts of school life4 ,anyway it should be a comfort to have a book lying on the table in our school or college room1 or at home1 which will tell us why ,mary1 after having been a famous soloist at home made a failure or a great success in chorus work at school4 ,such a book is something like having a loaded gun in readiness for the robber4 ,we may never use the shotgun or the book but they are there1 with the reassuring sense of shot in the locker4 ,it is something1 is it not1 to have a little book which will tell you how to get into school and how to get out 7for at times there seem to be difficulties in both these directions7--in short1 to tell you something of many things3 your first year at school or college1 your part in the school life1 the friendships you will make1 your study and how to work in it1 the pleasure and right kind of spirit involved in work1 the quiet times1 as well as the jolly times1 out-of-doors1 your summers and how to spend them1 what the school has tried to do for you2 and1 as you go out into the world1 some of the aspects1 whether you are to be wife1 secretary or teacher1 of the work which you will do4 ,of one thing you may be certain2 that behind every sentence of this little book is experience1 that here are only those opinions of which experience has made a good1 wholesome zwieback4 ,i wish to take this opportunity to thank my friend1 ,mrs4 ,belle ,kellogg ,towne1 editor of ,the ,girls' ,companion and ,young ,people's ,weekly1 ,chicago1 for her coperation in allowing me to use half the material in this little book2 also ,dr4 ,c4 ,r4 ,blackall1 of ,philadelphia4 ,camp ,runway4 ,j4 ,m4 ,i ,,the ,,ideal ,,freshman ,freshman year1 the beginning year1 the year of new experiences1 new delights1 new work1 new friends1 new surroundings2 the year that may mean much to a girl1 that may answer some of the questions that have lain long in heart and mind1 that will surely reveal her more clearly to herself1 that may make her understand others better and help her to guess something of the riddle of the years to come6 ,what has the student done to get ready for this year8 ,if she were going camping she would know that certain things were necessary to make the expedition a success4 ,with what excitement and pleasure1 what thoughts of jolly camp-fires1 deep1 sweet-smelling forests1 and long days afoot1 she would prepare everything4 ,she would not let any one else do this for her1 for that would mean losing too much of the fun4 ,but the freshman year1 what about the thinking and planning for that1 also an expedition into a new world1 and a veritable adventure of a vast deal more importance than a few days or weeks of camping8 ,would she enter forests upon whose trees the camp-fires throw many shadows1 follow the stream that cleaves its way through the woods1 go along the runway of deer or caribou or moose1 with a mind to all intents and purposes a blank8 ,no1 her mind would be vivid with thoughts and interests4 ,with the same keen attention should she enter the new year at school or college1 and as she passes through it1 thinking about all that comes to her1 she will find it growing less and less difficult and more and more friendly4 ,she will consider what the freshman year is to be like1 think of what sorts of girls she is to meet and make friends with1 what the work will be1 what she may expect in good times from this new adventure1 and1 thoughtful about it all1 make the minimum of mistakes and get the maximum of benefit4 ,here come some of the girls who are entering school and college with her--bright-haired1 dark-haired1 rosy or pale1 tall and thin1 fat and short1 clever and average1 desirable and undesirable1--in fact1 all sorts and conditions of girls4 ,who is to be the leader of them all8 ,she is the ideal freshman1 a nice1 well-set-up girl who does not think too much of herself1 who is not self-conscious1 and who does not forget for what she is sent to school4 ,despite the temptations of school life she uses her days wisely and well4 ,she does not isolate herself1 for she sees the plan and value of the recreative side of school-days4 ,she is already laying the foundations for a successful1 useful1 normal existence1 establishing confidence at the outset and not handicapping herself through her whole course by making people lose their faith in her4 ,our ideal freshman may be the girl who is to do distinguished work2 she may be the student who does her best2 and because it is her best1 the work1 though not brilliant1 is distinguished by virtue of her effort4 ,she may be the girl who is to make a happy home life through her poise and earnestness and common sense4 ,whoever she is1 in any event in learning to do her best she is winning nine-tenths of the battle of a successful career4 ,it is she1 attractive1 able1 earnest1 with the fair-play or team-play spirit in all she does1 true to herself and to others1 whom every school wants1 whose unconscious influence is so great in building up the morale of any school4 ,mark this girl and follow her1 for she is worthy of your hero worship4 ,this is the girl who goes into school in much the same spirit that she would enter upon a larger life4 ,she is not a prig and she is not a dig1 but she knows there are responsibilities to be met and she meets them4 ,she expects to have to think about the new conditions in which she finds herself and to adjust herself to them1 and she does it4 ,she knows the meaning of the team-play spirit and she takes her place quietly on the team1 one among many1 and both works and plays with respect for the rights and positions of others4 ,it is in the temper of the words sometimes stamped upon the coins of our country--,e ,pluribus ,unum--that she makes a success of her school life4 ,she knows that not only is our country bigger than any one of its states1 but also that every school is bigger than any one of its members whether teacher or student4 ,in a small family at home conditions have been more or less made for her1 just as they are for other girls4 ,yet she knows that the school life is complicated and complex1 and it is impossible for her to feel neglected where a more self-centred or spoiled girl fails to see that in this new life she is called upon to play a minor part but nevertheless a part upon which the school must rely for its esprit de corps4 ,she goes with ease from the somewhat unmethodical life of the home to the highly organized routine of the school because she understands the meaning of the word team-play4 ,she has the coperative spirit4 ,yet there are other girls1 too1 in this school which the freshman is entering4 ,there is the student who errs on the side of leading too workaday a life1 and in so doing has lost something of the buoyancy and breadth and snap which would make her associations and her work fresher and more vigorous4 ,the ,grind1 she has been called1 and if she recognize herself in this sketch1 let her take care to reach out for a bigger and fuller life than she is leading4 ,and there is1 too1 the selfish student whose class-spirit is self-spirit2 and the girl who is not selfish but who uses herself up in too many interests1 dramatic1 athletic1 society1 philanthropic and in a dozen others4 ,she is probably over-conscientious1 a good girl in every way1 but in doing too much she loses sight of the real aim of her school life4 ,to these must be added another student1--the freshman who skims the surface1 and is1 when she gets out1 where she was when she entered--no1 not quite so far along1 for she has slipped back4 ,she is selfish1 relying upon the patience and burden-bearing capacity of her father and mother1 as well as the school4 ,no doubt every girl would meet her obligations squarely if she realized what was the underlying significance of the freshman year2 the school life would surely be approached with a conscientious purpose4 ,what a girl gets in school will much depend upon what she has to give4 ,no girl is there simply to have a good time or merely to learn things out of books4 ,nor is she there to fill in the interim between childhood and young womanhood1 when one will go into society1 another marry1 and a third take up some wage-earning career4 ,no1 she is there to carry life forward in the deepest1 truest sense2 and the longer she can have to get an education and to make the best of the opportunities of school and college life1 the richer and fuller her after-years will be4 ,both middle life and old age will be deeper and stronger4 ,let us think about these girls1 let us think about what it means to be a freshman1 and so lessen our difficulties and increase our pleasures2 let us have a big conception1--a large ideal always at heart--of what the first year should be1 and beginning well we shall be the more likely to end well4 ,,ii ,,the ,,girl ,,and ,,the ,,school ,inside school or college the girl is in several ways responsible for the atmosphere4 ,merely in her conversation she can be of service or dis-service4 ,it may be simply a good joke which she is telling1 but if the joke misrepresents the school she will1 perhaps1 do lasting harm4 ,if she is hypercritical--and there is nothing so contagious as criticism--she influences people in the direction of her thought2 she sets a current of criticism in motion4 ,a student frequently gives vent to an opinion that is only half-baked--it is well1 by the way1 to make zwieback of all our opinions before we pass them around as edible--about courses and instructors4 ,she does not realize that some opinions to be worth anything must be the result of a long process of baking1 that a nibble from the corner of a four months' or nine months' course will not1 however understandingly it may be ,fletcherized1 tell you whether the course is going to be fruit cake1 meringue or common soda crackers4 ,she may think that she herself is so unimportant that what she says can't matter1 or she may not mean what she says and be merely letting off steam4 ,nevertheless her influence is exerted4 ,some one showed an old lady1 who had never been known to say anything in the least critical of any human being1 the picture of a very fat man prominent in public life4 ,she looked at it a moment1 and then said sweetly3 ,my1 isn't he plump6 ,if only there were more old and young ladies like that dear soul6 ,there is another kind of conversation which may not be ill-natured and yet does harm4 ,idle gossiping1 talking about things that are not worth while or speculating about affairs which are not our business and of which we know little or nothing4 ,akin to this is fashionably slangy conversation concerning the latest thing in books1 magazine articles1 trivial plays4 ,for even the tone of school or college conversation a student is responsible4 ,she can make her school seem cheap or cultivated4 ,the remarks which visitors overhear as they go from room to room or from building to building are likely to indicate the tone of an institution4 ,a catalogue may say all it pleases about a school but in the end the school is judged by the women it educates and sends out1 even as a tree is known by its fruit4 ,cultivated1 strong women are worth more in advertisement than all the printed material in the world1 however laudatory4 ,when a girl has received everything her ,alma ,mater has to give1 she has no right to be untrue to its fundamental aims and ideals1 or to misrepresent it in any way1 either by what she says or by her own behaviour4 ,every student in a large institution is in a sense a pensioner4 ,no student can pay for what is given to her4 ,is it not a poor return for her to be reflecting dishonour rather than honour upon her school8 ,there is a certain social selfishness in the way some students take their opportunities for granted without realizing that there are thousands and hundreds of thousands of girls who would give all that they possess for a tithe of such riches4 ,also1 because of the sacrifice which is being made for them at home girls are selfish in taking their school or college life carelessly4 ,the school has to bear much of the responsibility for the individual failure4 ,but of this the student who is failing rarely thinks4 ,parents hold an institution to blame if it does not do for their child what they expect it to do1 when it may be the girl who is at fault4 ,in the use she makes of her portion of inheritance1 in the gift the school bestows on the student1 there is a large social question involved4 ,the school gives her of its wealth1 the result of the accumulation of years and of the civic or philanthropic spirit of many men and women4 ,this1 if the girl's sense of responsibility is what it should be1 she feels bound to increase and hand on4 ,it is the old noblesse oblige under new conditions of privilege4 ,while she is still in school the girl discharges part of this obligation by realizing what is best for her school as an institution4 ,a college or a big school is no place for vocal soloists4 ,its life is the life of an orchestra1 of many instruments playing together4 ,the student's sense of responsibility is shown by her attitude towards the corporate government and administration of the school4 ,instead of regarding the laws of her school as natural enemies1 chafing against them1 making fun of them or evading them if possible1 she has a duty in fulfilling them4 ,the consciousness of this responsibility is the very heart and soul of the student self-government movement1 for it recognizes not only the obligation placed upon its members by an institution1 but also the wide influence one girl may have on others4 ,student government knows that upper class girls can determine the spirit of the under classes4 ,even looking at the matter from the lightest point of view1 respectful and law-abiding ways are always well-bred ways4 ,when a student becomes an alumna she can discharge a large part of her great responsibility by realizing that it is not any longer so much a question of what her school can give her as of what she can give to her school4 ,one thing she can always give it--that is1 kindly judgment4 ,and she can acknowledge that her ideas of what her ,alma ,mater is after her own school-days may not be correct4 ,the school1 sad to say1 is sometimes placed in the position of the kindly old farmer who1 hearing others call a certain man a liar1 said3 ,waal now1 ,i wouldn't say he wuz a liar4 ,that's a bit harsh4 ,i'd say he handled the truth mighty careless-like4 ,schools find that some of their alumn handle the truth mighty careless-like4 ,while she is still a student a girl's service to her school lies largely in her daily work1 the mental muscle she puts into all that she does in the classroom and studies out of it4 ,if because of her and a multiple of many girls like her1 the college does not possess that sine qua non of all the higher mental life1 an intellectual atmosphere1 it is the student's and her multiple's fault4 ,you may lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink1 may be an old adage1 but it would be hard to improve upon it4 ,you may set before students a veritable ,thanksgiving feast of things intellectual1 but if they have no eagerness1 no appetite for them1 the feast remains untouched4 ,energy and hunger of the mind1 not the anxious hosts1 will in the end decide whether that feast is or is not to be eaten4 ,the school considers not only scholarship but also the sum of all that it is1 its culture1 its attainment1 its moral force1 as these elements are expressed in its living members1 its students and its teachers--in short1 its idealism4 ,idealism is having one's life governed by ideals1 and an ideal is a perfect conception of that which is good1 beautiful and true4 ,if the girl's life is not governed by ideals1 how1 then1 can the school hope to have its idealism live or grow8 ,frequently students think of the ideals of college or school as of something outside themselves1 more or less intangible1 with which they may or may not be concerned4 ,students cannot do their institution a greater injury than by harbouring such a thought1 for if their sense of responsibility will only make the idea of the school personal1 then indeed will the school be like that house upon which the rains descended and the winds blew but it fell not1 for it was founded upon a rock4 ,,iii ,,friendships ,homesickness and friendships1 how much and how vivid a part they play in the first year1 or years1 of school life6 ,an old coloured physician was asked about a certain patient who was very ill4 ,i'll tell you de truf1 was the reply4 ,widout any perception1 ,phoebe ,pamela may die and she may get well2 dere's considerable danger bofe ways4 ,i will tell you one truth about the first year of school life3 friends there will surely be1 and homesickness there is likely to be1--there is considerable danger both ways4 ,even if a girl has never been away from home before1 it is possible that she will not suffer from homesickness4 ,it is probable1 however1 that the new surroundings in which the girl finds herself1 and the separation from those who are the centre of her personal life1 will bring on an attack of this most painful malady4 ,it takes time to fit comfortably into the new surroundings1 and meanwhile everything is strange4 ,homesickness is not to be laughed at1 but it must be less deadly1 less fatal than some people think it1 or there would not be so many recoveries4 ,girls often weep when they enter school1 and then after the long dreary years are really over1 lived through1 and the poor forlorn freshman is metamorphosed into the senior1 they weep again4 ,is it not strange that these seniors who wept on entering school should weep also when leaving it8 ,it looks in the end as if ,phoebe ,pamela were sure to get well4 ,yet the effort to get well requires a fine effort at self-control1--an effort every girl is the better for making1 although it may take everything plucky in a girl to back up her intention to remain in school4 ,the earlier the student considers this question of homesickness the better4 ,let her face its possibilities before she goes away from home1 and make up her mind1 if she is attacked1 resolutely to overcome it4 ,if it comes1 let her never give up the struggle1 for1 by giving in1 she will only lose ground in every way1 morally1 socially1 intellectually4 ,by her cowardice she will part with what she can never recover later4 ,many temptations follow in the wake of homesickness1 and the most serious of all is to make friends too rapidly4 ,it may be laid down as a rule that a friendship formed on this stop-gap principle1 and too rapidly1 is not likely to endure4 ,such a friendship is not a sane or a wise relation1 for friendship is like scholarship3 if it is worth anything at all it comes slowly4 ,impulsive1 quickly forced friendships are not wise investments2 the very fact that they come so quickly implies an unbalanced state of idealizing1 or lack of self-control4 ,this does not mean that one is not to form pleasant acquaintances from the very beginning of the school life4 ,acquaintanceship always holds something in reserve and is the safest prelude to a deeper and more vital friendship4 ,there is no denying that there is great temptation to violent admirations and attractions in school4 ,in the first place1 in school or college the girl is brought into contact with a large circle of people who are immensely interesting to her4 ,the whole atmosphere is full of novelty1 of the unusual4 ,some of the students and teachers whom she meets for the first time represent a broader experience1 it may be1 than her own home life has given her4 ,they are often new types and new types are always interesting4 ,i shall say nothing of the idealism of friendship--it plays its part in other books4 ,it would seem sometimes as if almost too much emphasis had been placed upon the making of friendships in school1--friendship which is1 after all1 but a by-product1 the most valuable it is true1 nevertheless a by-product of the life4 ,wholly practical are the tests of friendship which ,i shall give4 ,in the first place a friend is too absorbing who takes all of one's interest to the exclusion of everything else3 there should be interest in other people1 other activities as well as in one's work4 ,such a friendship can only make a girl forget for what she has come to school4 ,the new relation which disposes one to look with less respect and affection upon one's own people and home--and they1 be it remembered1 have stood the most valuable test of all1 the test of time--cannot be a good influence4 ,it may be said in general that an association which is developing the less fine traits in one's character1 giving emphasis to the less worthy sides1 should be relinquished immediately1 even at the cost of much heartache4 ,the heartache will be only temporary2 the bad influence might become permanent4 ,on the other hand1 since friendship is giving as well as taking1 one does well to consider the fact that if one's own part in it does not tell for good1 there is just as much reason for stopping the friendship where it is4 ,some of these associations--and this is a hard saying1 ,i know--which seem everything at the time are nothing1 as the years will prove4 ,a girl idealizes1 and idealizes those who are not worthy4 ,inevitably the day comes when she laughs at herself1--if she does not do worse and pity herself for having been such a goose4 ,only a few of the friendships made in school are destined to endure4 ,one of the foremost of those that last is founded on similarity of interest4 ,perhaps it is the girl with whom one has worked side by side in the laboratory1--a relation formed slowly and on a permanent basis4 ,many of the best of friends have come together through community of interests1 and this is a type of friendship for which men have a greater gift than women4 ,there is still another type which develops because of some conspicuously noble or fine quality which proves attractive4 ,hero worship1 this1 which enlarges one's self through the admiration given to another4 ,then there is the friendship based on a purely personal attraction1 with mutual respect and self-respect as its dedicated corner-stone4 ,this does not mean that one cannot see any faults in the friend1 or know that one's own are seen1 without losing affection4 ,there is always something flimsy and insecure about a friendship that simply idealizes4 ,any relation should be all the stronger for a frank acknowledgment of its imperfections4 ,if a girl cares enough she will be willing to admit her own faults and wish to make herself more worthy to be a friend4 ,and1 finally1 there is what might be called the lend-a-hand friendship1--the relation that springs into existence because of the need which is seen in another4 ,it is not fair to make a packhorse of one's friend or to turn one's self into the leaning variety of plant1 but it is fair and wise and right1 if one is strong enough to accomplish the end in view1 to lend a hand to another girl who is not making the best of herself4 ,have a good time but do not swear eternal allegiance in this first year to anybody1 however wonderful she may seem4 ,hold yourself in reserve1 if for no other reason1 then on account of the old friends at home1 whether they be kin or no-kin1 for they have been true4 ,and remember1 as ,i have said before1 friendship is like scholarship and must by its nature come slowly4 ,,iv ,,the ,,student',s ,,room ,there has been a general improvement in student rooms1 yet many rooms to-day have altogether too much in them3 too many pictures1 too many banners1 too much furniture1 too many hangings4 ,the great fault of most rooms is this overcrowding4 ,if we were only heroic enough to make a bonfire of nine-tenths of all they contain we should see suddenly revealed possibilities for something like the ideal room4 ,one serious and obvious objection to the overcrowding of rooms is the hygienic4 ,i am tempted to say that this is the most important objection3 indeed1 since health is more important than wealth1 ,i will say so4 ,a girl has neither the time nor the ability to keep so many articles in a room clean3 and while she is busy attending to her studies1 some cherished ornaments are not only laying up dust for the future1 as a more regenerate life will lay up treasures1 but also breeding germs1 perhaps collecting the very germs which will take this girl away from school or college4 ,besides1 bric--brac not only gathers dust and breeds germs but also wearies the nerves4 ,it makes one tired to see so many things about1 and tired to be held responsible for them4 ,without realizing it1 we resist the amount of space they occupy and in their place want the air and sunshine4 ,subconsciously1 most of us long to get rid of our bric--brac and then pull down the draperies that keep out the sunlight4 ,the simpler the window draperies in a room1 the more easily washed1 the better and more attractive4 ,for wholesome attractiveness there is no fabric that can excel a flood of warm sunshine4 ,any girl or woman who has curtains which she must protect from strong light by drawing down the shades is guilty of a household sin whose greatness she cannot know4 ,that same sunshine1 freely admitted1 will do more to cleanse a house than all the soap1 all the brooms1 and even all the vacuum cleaners ever invented4 ,the so-called beauty of a room should always give way before the hygiene of a room4 ,not only should the room be sensibly furnished so that it may have plenty of air and light1 but closets should not contain articles of furniture which belong where the air can reach them4 ,there is a difference between a room that is not orderly and one that is not clean4 ,a room that contains unclean articles in drawers or closets1 unclean floors1 unclean rugs and hangings and unclean walls1 should not be tolerated for an instant4 ,if a girl turns a combination bedroom and study in school or college into a kitchen1 if an ice-cream freezer occupies all the foreground of this place she calls home1 and chafing-dishes with cream bottles1 sardine tins1 cracker boxes1 paper bags full of stale biscuits1 fruit skins1 dish-cloths and grease-spotted walls1 all the background1 it is impossible to have a clean room to live in4 ,the ,golden ,rule applies to rooms as well as to human beings and should read1 ,do unto a room as you would it should do unto you4 ,and not only for the sake of health should this ,golden ,rule for ,rooms be observed but also for the sake of the college or school4 ,the room that belongs to us only for a time should be as thoughtfully cared for as if it were our own personal property4 ,there is something inconsistent1 isn't there1 in educating a girl in high thinking and fine ideals1 if she is willing to live in a room that for uncleanliness many a woman in some crowded quarter of a city would consider a disgrace8 ,such contradiction in mind and surrounding is out of harmony with all one's ideal for a gentlewoman4 ,not only beauty is restful1 peace-giving and peace-bringing1 but so1 also1 are neatness and order4 ,orderliness helps to fit one for work4 ,there is undoubtedly some connection between surroundings and one's mental state4 ,in themselves disorder and confusion are irritating4 ,the sight of a dirty child crying in the doorway of an untidy house suggests some connection between the wretchedness of the child and the squalor of the home4 ,i often think of ,william ,morris1 the great craftsman and charming poet1 who had much at heart the happiness of all people1 especially the poor1 and his exclamation1 ,my eye1 how ,i do love tidiness6 ,to him1 to the artist1 it was1 as it is1 beautiful4 ,george ,eliot had to put even the pins in her cushion into some neat arrangement before she could sit down to write4 ,disorder wastes not only one's feelings and health1 it also wastes one's time1 for a lot of this commodity may be lost in looking for books1 wraps1 gloves and other things which are not put away properly4 ,school ought to be a training for the life afterwards4 ,that is why we go to school1 isn't it8 ,why should a girl indulge herself in habits which will make against her usefulness in the life of the home or in whatever circumstance she may be8 ,there is a certain disciplinary value in order4 ,every great military school has recognized this4 ,laxness in the care of one's room may mean the habit of laxness in other and more important ways4 ,disorderliness indicates a certain tendency in character1 and if a girl allows that sort of thing to go on she is very likely to show it in other ways4 ,untidiness in any of one's personal habits--and what could be more personal than a room8--should be taken up and corrected even as one attempts to correct any weak point in one's character4 ,do you know what is always--that is1 if it is in it at all--the most beautiful thing in a room8 ,it is something which the ,creator meant all mankind should have1 rich and poor1 old and young alike2 it is something beyond the buying price of any wealth4 ,it is the sunshine1 more beautiful1 more valuable than expensive hangings that shut it out4 ,perhaps it is partly because it is inexpensive1 ,god-given to all people1 that housewives frequently draw their curtains against it4 ,if they had to pay more for it than for carpets and hangings1 you may be very sure that a great many husbands and fathers would be overworking in order that their families might buy a whole display of sunshine instead of tapestries4 ,do you know what is the most helpful thing you can have in your room1 the article without which you cannot live in it at all1 no matter how fine the rugs and bric--brac may be8 ,air6 ,air is the one thing which is almost instantly and absolutely indispensable to human life1 for we breathe it in not only through our noses but also all over our skin4 ,every hundredth fraction of an inch of our bodies is feeding upon air1 and the purer that air and the cooler the better and more invigorating food it provides for the skin surface as well as for the lungs4 ,the mind1 for it is housed in the body and its tenant1 must depend for its vigour or tone upon the fresh air in school or college study4 ,even a very good head cannot work well set upon an anmic body which is suffocating for want of good clean air4 ,if you wish to do your best work and keep well1 the first thing to do is not to open your books but to open your windows4 ,after that the books and a reasonable number of hours of continuous study4 ,american audience halls1 pullmans1 ordinary coaches and public buildings of all sorts1 especially libraries1 are notoriously overheated and unventilated4 ,it is the intelligent ,american girl and woman who1 beginning with the home1 will correct this evil4 ,the schools are1 on the whole1 in the forefront of the fresh air movement1 especially the public schools4 ,as every one knows1 the public schools are establishing open air rooms for their children who need them4 ,although there is much to be said about what a room should contain to make it attractive1 it should never be forgotten that sunshine and fresh air are more beautiful and more priceless than anything else which it can hold4 ,the first object in furnishing a bare room is to make it habitable1--that is useful4 ,take the kitchen1 for example1 and usefulness is practically the sole object in fitting it up4 ,and the curious thing about it all is that it cannot help being beautiful in a homely1 motherly way1 for it exemplifies one of the strongest elements of all beauty and that is service4 ,the kitchen may be a very humble place but if more women would make a study of their kitchens and then take thought1 it is likely that the rest of their houses would be in much better taste4 ,a thing that is useful1 even as with some well-worn homely old woman who has led a good and helpful life1 always acquires a beauty of its own4 ,it may be hard for girls to see this but it is there1 and in time it will be seen4 ,just as it is essentially more beautiful to have a clean1 strong body rather than a pretty face and a body that is not what it ought to be1 so is it more truly beautiful to have articles of furnishing in our rooms1 in study or kitchen1 that are of indispensable genuine use4 ,take the gaudy ambitious study one girl has made for herself4 ,it is defaced by the presence of articles of no value at all in the world of needs2 there is nothing in it that is genuinely beautiful and nothing that is substantially useful4 ,the furniture is almost too cheap to stand on its own legs1 and the colours would certainly never wash and not even wear4 ,this room is a junk-shop of new1 useless1 unattractive objects of no virtue1--in short1 a most unpleasant place in which to live4 ,have you ever considered what gives even the simplest clothes for distinctive occasions a beauty of their own8 ,it is fitness4 ,and it is this same fitness which tells so much in furnishing a room4 ,it might be said of certain dresses that they go together1 that is1 they are harmonious1 they belong together1 they have1 like some people1 the beauty of agreeing with themselves1 and a very desirable sort of beauty it is4 ,just as clothes are an expression of the people who wear them1 so are rooms an expression of the people who live in them4 ,no well-bred girl cares for tawdry1 cheap1 over-ornamented clothes4 ,she is made uncomfortable even at the very thought of having to wear such things4 ,she should suffer just as much discomfort on the score of a cheaply furnished 7and by cheap here ,i do not mean inexpensive--whitewash and deal intelligently used may create a beautiful room71 overcrowded and over-ornamented study4 ,what is the meaning of the room which is your school centre for the time being8 ,it is an intimate place where a girl may have her friends and good times2 it is a retreat and it is a workshop4 ,it is the girl's home centre away from home1 the place from which she will lead her life1 in its expression attractive or unattractive1 like her or unlike her4 ,to intend that this room in beauty1 in cleanliness1 in order1 shall be the best expression possible of the girl's best self is the ideal to set for the school study4 ,get good materials and good colours4 ,they need not be expensive4 ,remember that colours have to go together just as furniture has to do so4 ,to have styles of furniture that clash or colours that do not harmonize will negative any care which the student may have taken in the selection of individual pieces or materials4 ,to have too much with which to fill the room is a good deal worse than not to have enough4 ,much better it is to have a few things which are just what they should be than to have too many and those undesirable4 ,to get a desk1 if a girl can afford to do so1 that she will be glad to keep her life long is a good beginning1 and a comfortable chair that will be made doubly precious by all the school associations woven about it4 ,and let her be careful about pictures for her walls and not crowd them with cheap and fashionable trash4 ,above all1 let her remember that good taste1 simplicity1 careful selection1 will do more to assure her the possession of an attractive room than all the money in the world can do4 ,v ,,the ,,tools ,,of ,,study ,,and ,,their ,,use ,a girl ought to take up her study with the same sense of pleasure as that with which a strong workman enters his shop1 knowing his tools and able to use them4 ,having good tools and knowing them is certainly part of the joy of work4 ,and what are the tools the student must use8 ,well1 for the average student1 the one that is first and most important is ,good ,health4 ,the mind is not as clear if the body is not in good health1 clean within and without4 ,the second set of tools consists of a different sort of equipment and apparatus1 tools with which a girl must become familiar and which she must know how to use--,books1 ,library1 ,laboratory and ,classroom4 ,why shouldn't a student be just as able to use her books as a carpenter his plane or saw8 ,one couldn't expect a fumbling carpenter or a clumsy seamstress to accomplish much work or good work4 ,there are times when a girl need not claim to know anything but she must1 at least1 know where to find what she wants to know4 ,this is the first lesson in the use of books2 without knowledge of them or love for them1 the student can't get along at all4 ,and beyond this somewhat mechanical use of books there is a deeper and larger lesson to learn2 to know that a book is not merely a page of print where information may be sought but that it is a mirror in which one finds the world1 its wisdom1 its joy1 its sorrow1 its divine adventures4 ,robert ,southey1 the friend of the poet ,coleridge1 has written beautifully on the subject in a little poem called ,his ,books4 ,another tool in the student's workshop is ,previously ,acquired ,knowledge3 that is1 what one has in one's mind4 ,some people's minds are junk-shops4 ,but a junk-shop is better than an empty shop4 ,this previously acquired knowledge1 if used rightly1 becomes the tool of later courses1 the servant of later years4 ,our stored-up facts--many of them--have not been an end in themselves4 ,how could they be8 ,for example1 such things as paradigms and formul and long lists of names and dates1 are tools pure and simple2 but the student in the workshop must have them or she will be like a carpenter who had much to do but on coming to his bench found no tools there and so was idle all day4 ,a fourth tool for the girl in her study--one that cannot be deliberately acquired1 as information or apparatus or even health can be--is ,experience4 ,this is the most valuable tool of all--one's experience of travel1 with people1 in responsibility1 in love1 in joy1 in sorrow1 in any kind of work4 ,the girls who are the most interesting in the classroom are the girls who are not contenting themselves with apparatus alone but whose minds are flexible with experience1 who bring all of themselves1 their life1 to bear upon the work4 ,a certain well-known minister had prepared a sermon for his usual ,sunday engagement1 but half an hour before service another text came into his mind4 ,he could not forget it1 so he jotted down notes and preached the new sermon instead of the one that had been prepared4 ,this sermon made a great impression on all who heard it1 and the minister himself said of it that some people would declare that it had been thought out in half an hour1 but that really he had put fifty years of his life into it4 ,the sharper and better the tools1 the finer the character of the work4 ,if experience has been observed and retained1 and previously acquired knowledge is ready for service1 and hand and mind know how to use books1 and the student is in good condition physically1 then the excellence of that girl's work in the class and out can be guaranteed4 ,and now what are the uses of the work which these tools can accomplish for us8 ,coleridge wrote in his poem1 ,work ,without ,hope1 ,work without ,hope draws nectar in a sieve1 ,and ,hope without an object cannot live4 ,the only hope that can last is hope that is not wholly centred in ourselves1 but has some thought for others and our service to them4 ,work devoid of inspiration and ideals1 work done merely for one's self1 study pursued with only a degree as an end or for the sake of pay as a teacher1 turns school and college into a market-place1 a place of barter1 where in exchange for so much energy and so much money we may acquire a certain position and livelihood4 ,only that work in which one has the consciousness of being1 or becoming1 useful to others1 brings joy that will endure4 ,what do we think of the minister who is without a sense of consecration8 ,the responsibility of the student or the teacher is quite as large1 the opportunity for service quite as wonderful4 ,one of our greatest ,english poets1 ,william ,wordsworth1 exclaimed3 ,i wish to be considered as a teacher1 or as nothing6 ,the calling of the teacher1 of the student1 has through all time been thought a high one1--one that has drawn to itself fine and unselfish spirits4 ,the life of the student1 no matter how necessary to the world its market-places are1 never has been and never can be a life of barter1 of trade4 ,the wealth that comes to the student should not be an exclusive possession4 ,it may be bought at a large price but it can never be sold4 ,it must be given away1 or shared1 for it is wealth which carries with it a sense of social responsibility4 ,it is enjoyed for a double purpose1 not only for the sake of the happiness it brings to us but also for the sake of the joy or help it may bring to others4 ,millions of girls covet the opportunities that come to a few in school and college1 many of them who far more greatly deserve this privilege than we4 ,indeed1 what have most of us done to merit the right to all that we have8 ,the only way in which we can show our sense of justice is by taking our privileges as something to share with others4 ,the girl who has health1 pleasant surroundings and work worth doing1 has all a human being has a right to expect4 ,she ought always to be happy1 always rejoicing in her work and always eager to divide her wealth with others4 ,the redeeming feature of royalties has been their sense of responsibility for their subjects6 ,in great disasters1 or calamities1 their first thought has been to go to the relief of the people4 ,the ,king and ,queen of ,italy are noble examples of this courage and unselfishness4 ,in ,america the only privileged class is the highly educated4 ,it is they from whom noblesse oblige must be expected1 who will show in all emergencies their sense of responsibility1 who will share all that they have with others4 ,a girl will be happy1 she will grow1 she will be a leverage power for good with those among whom she lives1 only in so far as she uses her tools of knowledge in the service of others1 and shapes all that she does towards some humanly useful end4 ,,vi ,,the ,,joy ,,of ,,work ,if one is in good condition1 the exercise of any physical power is a pleasure4 ,it is a pleasure to run1 to sing1 to dance1 to climb mountains1 to row1 to swim2 it is a pleasure to shout for nothing else than for the pure joy of letting off surplus energy4 ,in the world of animals1 the horse and dog1 to take only two illustrations1 abound in this enjoyment of physical energy4 ,the horse paws the ground and snorts and whinnies and loves the fastest road pace you will let him take4 ,the dog leaps in the air1 jumps fences1 barks1 and races around madly1 sometimes after nothing at all4 ,but the highest power of which human beings are possessed is not the power of the body4 ,it is the power of the mind4 ,yet many of us throughout our school and college life not only do not wish to use this power but even rebel against it4 ,what1 some girls are saying to themselves1 enjoy the work of a classroom8 ,who ever heard of such a thing6 ,yes1 just that4 ,and if we don't enjoy the work of a classroom1 even an indifferently good one1 there is something the matter with us1 or the subject should not have a place on any curriculum4 ,every mental exercise should be full of the keenest pleasure1 of intellectual pleasure4 ,our schools and colleges to-day are very much richer in the joy of everything else--in beautiful surroundings1 in freer and fuller athletic and outdoor life1 in a more varied and delightful social life--than they were fifty or even twenty-five years ago4 ,but it is a question whether the joy of intellectual work has kept pace with this joy of life in its other aspects4 ,sometimes it almost seems as if intellectual eagerness were in inverse ratio to the ease and fullness of the opportunities we have4 ,at least many fair-minded girls have seen the predicament in which the teacher is placed4 ,the man who makes a vase for the use and pleasure of others may rejoice not only in his own workmanship but also in the thought of the service and delight he is giving to others4 ,that is1 his pleasure is twofold4 ,the teacher who is deprived of some response of joy in the work he is doing is a workman deprived of his rights4 ,to those girls who are thinking of becoming teachers this should be a sobering thought4 ,missionary teachers1 with their students eager to get anything they have to give1 are not to be pitied4 ,our schools and their groups of teachers in isolated and uncultivated parts of the ,west and ,south are not to be pitied4 ,even if education is with them shorn of much that gives it charm1 the opportunities that come are prized4 ,students and teachers have intellectual joy in the work they do1 and without that the greatest university in the world might as well1 or better1 be a district school1 for then the work done would be truly useful4 ,it is the teacher who has to put much of her time and energy into making a subject superficially attractive enough for a student to elect it1 who is to be pitied4 ,a classroom full of blas girls whose minds need to be tickled before there is the least expression of intellectual mirth upon their faces1 is an ordeal not lightly to be met except by the professional joker or academic tumbler4 ,girls often become impatient with themselves1 and that is one reason why there is so little joy in work for them4 ,think of ,helen ,keller as a famous example of this joy in work under the most adverse circumstances4 ,what could be greater than her handicap8 ,shut away from the world by deaf ears and blind eyes and1 for a while1 by inability to speak1 she has nevertheless shown a keenness of pleasure and intellectual acquisition that shames us who have all our senses in their fullness4 ,think of her patient1 unremitting delving1 of the digging up1 up1 up to get to the light which most human beings are privileged to enjoy with no effort at all6 ,the mind that accepts this wealth with no thought1 no sense of responsibility1 is a trifler with riches that are about us for ,god-given purposes4 ,think of the way in which ,stevenson and ,john ,richard ,green and ,george ,eliot rose above their ill-health and did their work in despite of it6 ,perhaps some of us have superb health and have never made any conscious effort to use that gift for a high end4 ,girls grow impatient with themselves when they wouldn't be impatient with a little child4 ,yet the mind has to be trained even as we train a child2 it has to be brought back and back1 again and again to the thing to be done4 ,after the asking of a simple question1 oftentimes a whole class will look confounded1 because they have some strange notion that thinking means getting hold of something very far away and difficult to grasp4 ,all that the first effort in thought denotes is taking a hold of that which is nearest and following it up4 ,it is the old story of ,theseus following his clue of thread1 the slender thing in his hand1 by which he was guided out of the labyrinth and to the broad sea of adventure4 ,there are difficulties in the doing of any work that is worth while4 ,it would be a poor adviser who painted the student's way as a path of roses4 ,first and foremost1 one's own inertia interferes with the joy of work4 ,some one has defined the lazy man as one who doesn't want to do anything at all1 and the indolent man as one who doesn't want to do anything that he doesn't want to do4 ,then1 too1 there are certain allurements and distractions in school life which are a hindrance to our joy in an intellectual task4 ,and there is the very natural disinclination to the drudgery involved in all hard labour4 ,no work that is worth while is without drudgery4 ,lack of encouragement from older people is one serious difficulty some girls have to meet4 ,there is a type of older person who is sure that using the mind will harm that precious article4 ,and1 finally1 there is our inexperience1 our own lack of comprehension1 our own purposeless and formless lives4 ,joy in work should not be altogether conditional upon one's sense of ease or upon what is called success4 ,seeming success is not always success4 ,often the most valuable lessons come from failures4 ,robert ,browning1 the poet1 speaks again and again of the noble uses of failure4 ,let me quote one stanza from one of his greatest poems1 ,rabbi ,ben ,ezra3 ,then1 welcome each rebuff ,that turns earth's smoothness rough1 ,each sting that bids nor sit nor stand1 but go6 ,be our joys three-parts pain6 ,strive and hold cheap the strain2 ,learn1 nor account the pang2 dare1 never grudge the throe6 ,you can't learn to walk if you haven't tumbled down a good deal in doing it4 ,it is often failure that means ultimate success4 ,of course if a girl keeps on saying3 ,oh1 what's the use8 about everything she does and all her failures1 there isn't any use4 ,in weak moments that sort of thing can be said of every great and worth-while experience1 of love1 of joy1 of sorrow1 of work4 ,but a girl who allows herself to take this attitude is a quitter1 and doesn't know the first principles of playing the game4 ,part of the joy of work consists in the mere delight of intellectual exercise1 delight in thinking a thing out4 ,that is the way we develop ourselves mentally1 just as we develop ourselves physically through sports4 ,the mind that thinks is capable of deeper and broader thinking4 ,thinking begets thought4 ,a muscle that is left without exercise softens and finally atrophies4 ,the same is true of mental muscle4 ,if this strength is left unused it is gradually lost and cannot be recovered4 ,mental concentration1 the thought that is so strenuous that everything else is shut out1 strengthens the mind4 ,in this wonderful old world no new land has been discovered without physical effort4 ,there is no country of the mind which can be entered without a similar effort4 ,and there is another and very important joy in work--the sense that one is being equipped for the work of the world1 for usefulness4 ,the mere feeling that one's powers are being developed brings joy with it4 ,there is still another joy which every one of us must covet--the sense of entering into the intellectual riches of the world1 its wonders of science and art and letters1 with the feeling that we have a part in a great treasure1 a treasure which1 unlike gold and precious stones1 men have never been able to gauge or to exhaust4 ,such gold and silver as we take from that adventure cannot be lost or stolen from us4 ,it remains with us to the very last1 and with it no life can ever become really poor1 or dull1 or old4 ,,vii ,,fair-,,play ,few students realize how closely a classroom resembles a commonwealth4 ,to most of us it seems a place into which we go to have a certain amount got out of us1 or put into us4 ,this conception of the classroom is unworthy the modern girl who has1 otherwise1 a fine understanding of the meaning of team-play1 of playing all together for a common end1 a game or a republic united by a tacit compact4 ,does the average student feel responsibility for the game of basket-ball or lawn hockey which she is playing8 ,the first thought of the girl in answering this is that it was a foolish question even to ask4 ,of course she does4 ,but for her classroom8 ,no1 that is a different sort of game1 in which the responsibility lies all on the shoulders of the instructor4 ,it is a one-woman or a one-man game1 and very often the students are but spectators1 cheering or indifferent1 approving or disapproving4 ,the pupil does not hold herself accountable for this game2 it is the teacher who makes the class go1 who extracts from each student the information bottled up in her1 together1 often1 with a good deal of carbon dioxide1--a process difficult and hard as drawing a swollen cork out of a soda-water bottle4 ,finally1 with a sort of noble rebound of effort1 the exhausted instructor is to put a vast deal of information back into the girl before the student claps her book together and rushes pell-mell to the next classroom1 there to be similarly uncorked1 if the teacher has learned the art and her mental muscle is sufficient4 ,such a conception of a classroom is not fair-play4 ,the teacher1 like the coxswain of a college crew1 may have rowed over the same course and she may know it well enough to cover it in the dark2 she may have won distinction upon it1 may be the fittest person in all the states of the ,union to cover it again1 but if she has not a good or a winning crew to coach1 she will never win any race1 even the shortest4 ,no instructor has shoulders equal to such a multiple burden as coaching1 steering and doing all the rowing1 too4 ,to play any classroom game in this spirit is to be dead weight for every one else embarked upon the same adventure4 ,it is not fair-play4 ,by such an attitude on the part of merely one student in the class1 every other student associated with her loses1 for the girl who will not lift her own weight the others must carry4 ,if that student were playing in that spirit on the basket-ball team1 do you suppose that the coach1 or the captain1 would let her stay on8 ,not for a moment2 off she would go and very much humiliated1 too4 ,if it is a discussion1 the touch and go of the whole recitation will depend upon the presence of the team-play1 or fair-play1 spirit in the course4 ,the instructor may do her best but if there is no play-the-game in that classroom1 she might just as well fold up her tent1 like the proverbial ,arab1 and silently steal away4 ,it is not that any recitation need be a brilliant affair--if most of them depended upon that for existence they would scarcely exist at all--but there must be an honest1 earnest1 responsible effort to make the best of the hour4 ,good will inevitably come from the clarifying effort to express thought1 and the leading from thought to thought as the work goes forward4 ,the basket-ball team cannot win1 or even play1 unless all the members are playing together4 ,each one is needed despite the fact that she may not be one of the chief or best players4 ,just so does the class need all its students4 ,if a girl is only average1 it is not fair-play for her to sit back and do nothing2 neither is it fair-play for her to monopolize the attention if she happens to be more than commonly able4 ,it is not fair-play to laugh at the girl who is at a disadvantage1 or to appear bored4 ,it is unfair to the individual1 to the classroom in general and to the instructor4 ,the least she can do in this class game is to give her whole and her courteous attention4 ,think of all the practice games in which the average athletic team takes part4 ,what can be said for the student who comes into the classroom unprepared to lift her own weight1 unprepared to help others8 ,when one comes to think about it from the fair-play point of view there is nothing to be said for her4 ,nor is it fair-play for a girl to allow herself to get into such a state physically that she is unable to study4 ,how often and often have fudge-heads--due to an application to too much sugar and not to books--sitting row after row killed a school or even a whole college6 ,before a class tempered by fudge and not by wholesome outdoor living and conscientious devotion to work1 the teacher might better put away her notes and close her book4 ,nothing can happen through or over that barricade of fudge-heads4 ,and it is not fair-play to cram because of time lost1 or for any other cause4 ,the only end of cramming is that the student soon forgets all that has been learned4 ,alone by normal1 slow acquisition and all the associations formed in such learning can information come to us to stay4 ,it may not be particularly wicked to cram if one has plenty of time to waste1 but it is foolish unless one has4 ,there is a kind of gossip in which a girl takes part1 made up of snap-shot judgments of the classroom1 idle carping about some little unimportant point1 expression of wounded vanity and unfair talk1 which may mean a tremendous loss of prestige for a really admirable course2 it may mean that girls1 who would naturally go into it because of their liking or gift for the work1 do not go or go in a critical and unsympathetic attitude4 ,if there is a complaint to be made about any course it should be made to the responsible person concerned1 and that is usually the teacher4 ,anything else is not fair-play4 ,in the classroom the instructor is the coach of the game and she is the person with whom to talk4 ,it is needless to say that if a girl is putting nothing into a course she cannot expect to get anything out of it1 or to complain because things do not go4 ,if she wants them to go why does she not help1 and have the profit of taking something away from the work as interest on her effort8 ,a girl gets dividends only from work into which she has put some brain-capital4 ,and the people at home8 ,is it fair-play to them1 when they are making sacrifices of money or of happiness to keep the daughter at school1 for her not to put good work into her study and play her part faithfully in the classroom game8 ,so many things have to be taken into consideration of which we are not likely to think4 ,there is the girl herself1 the other girls with whom she is working1 the instructor1 the people at home1 the institution that is providing an expensive equipment or plant through the philanthropic efforts of others or the taxation of the public4 ,if the girl does not play her part fairly1 there is a rather big reckoning against her1 is there not8 ,,viii ,,the ,,right ,,sort ,,of ,,leisure ,the right sort of leisure ought to help as much in the development of the girl as the right sort of work4 ,if it is leisure worthy the name1 it will bring refreshment2 it will not leave one physically and mentally jaded4 ,neither mind nor body should ever be exhausted because of the way in which freedom has been used4 ,leisure is as important to work as work is to leisure4 ,a person who has not worked cannot appreciate freedom1 while the one who has had no leisure is not best fitted for work4 ,all work and no play makes ,jack a dull boy2 it is just as true that it makes ,jill a dull girl4 ,the girl who works all the time1 not realizing the importance of free moments1 becomes fagged in body and mind4 ,she is a tool that is dull1 and would do well to remember that even a machine is better for an occasional rest4 ,some mistaken ideas about leisure have grown up1 making it difficult to say anything on this subject without being misunderstood4 ,stories--whole books of them--about spreads and more or less lawless escapades in school and college1 have given girls and other people1 too1 the impression that this is the sort of thing school leisure is4 ,nothing could be farther from the truth4 ,midnight feasts may occur in school1 and most of us1 unless we are too good to be average girls1 have taken part in them4 ,but such stories are vicious1 for they misrepresent the life by suggesting that eating inferior and unwholesome food is the real freedom most girls desire4 ,there is something repulsive in the very thought4 ,feasts that leave a girl with a coated tongue and a dull head and ,monday blues do not fairly represent school or college leisure4 ,good times that interfere with good work have no place in ideally free hours4 ,but1 indeed1 the odours from the chafing-dishes do suggest that some of the girls are trying to put into literal execution the wish of a great ,german professor in ,oxford4 ,the professor1 eager to try a dish he saw on the hotel bill of fare1 but with his ,english and ,german verbs not quite disentangled1 said to the waiter1 ,hereafter ,i vish to become a ,velsh ,rabbit4 ,perhaps becoming a ,welsh rarebit represents the height of some girls' ideals1 but this is hard to believe4 ,the possession of leisure depends to a great extent upon the will power4 ,the girl who has never learned to say ,no1 who has no power of selection1 cannot expect to have any hours for her own use4 ,she is quarry for every idle suggestion1 every social engagement1 every executive job which pursues her4 ,the girl who engages all her time socially cannot have a sense of leisure1 for she turns her playtime into but another schedule1 to be met as inexorably as her academic courses4 ,her days become a formidable array of dates1 often stretching ahead for weeks4 ,even if girls are not determined to have it for themselves1 they should give to others some opportunity for freedom1 and should respect their possible desire for solitude4 ,the girl who engages or annexes every particle of time1 her own or that of some one else with whom she comes in contact1 is making leisure an impossibility4 ,the girl who leaves no margin cannot hope for even the spirit of freedom4 ,many students excuse themselves for much executive work in school and college on the ground that it is done in their leisure4 ,that girl is a goose who allows herself through any sense of self-importance1 or irreplaceable usefulness1 to be so involved in executive work that all other aspects of her school life are slighted4 ,if she refuses to be swamped by such jobs she can have the happiness of reflecting that probably some girls who need the training far more than she does are doing the work4 ,to every girl will come the opportunity right along for managing2 club and social work will bring it1 and a good-sized family will bring it as nothing else can4 ,but school leisure she will not have again4 ,the whole aim of the school is to enrich the lives of its students1 and it knows all too well that that student who does not keep for herself the leisure upon which body and mind and soul must feed is indeed poor4 ,there is one way in which leisure is very generally misspent in school--and alas1 outside1 too6--not in managing one's own affairs1 but in managing and discussing the affairs of others4 ,at such times the remarks may be superlatively pleasant1 but they are more often superlatively disagreeable4 ,it may be said with truthfulness that they are almost never moderate or just4 ,everything is all black or all white1 with no gray4 ,it makes one think of the little girl with a curl in the middle of her forehead3 ,when she was good1 she was very1 very good1 ,and when she was bad1 she was horrid4 ,but1 alas6 the poor wretches discussed are not allowed even the natural and somewhat happy human alternation between badness and goodness4 ,no1 indeed1 they are monsters of a desperate character--they may at the moment be broken-heartedly conscious of their own faults--or they are shining six-winged angels4 ,and1 woe6 this sort of thing comes almost as hard upon the angels4 ,they can't endure it2 so much goodness breaks down their wing arches1 and the glorious ones crumple together like tissue-paper4 ,and upon the girls busily engaged in creating angels of loveliness and gargoyles of ugliness1 this sort of conversation works havoc4 ,it does not invigorate them1 it does not inspire them4 ,it belittles their minds--thank fortune1 that making kindling wood of the characters of other people does do this6--and stunts their finer feelings4 ,this sin1 that they do by two and two1 they pay for one by one4 ,gentle and considerate feelings are lost1 time is wasted1 a vicious habit1--almost no habit is more vicious1--is acquired4 ,such gossip can never become a pure enjoyment2 it remains at the best an ignoble1 discreditable excitement4 ,rolling these sweet morsels under their tongues1 a taste for ill-natured or exaggerated comment fixes itself in their mouths4 ,even if they have consciences that1 like good mothers1 will occasionally wash their mouths out with soap1 they retain the disturbing memory of unkind1 coarse1 or foolish words4 ,yet school should be the last place in which to indulge in idle talk4 ,such indulgence is against all the idealism of student life4 ,idle or meddlesome talk never helps any one1 either the one who talks or the one who is discussed4 ,if you have anything to say about other people1 and if going to them will help you1 the only friendly thing to do--it is not an easy thing--is to speak to the people concerned4 ,if we really knew how to put ourselves in other people's places1 no unkind1 unfriendly words would ever be spoken again4 ,there would be things hard to bear said--rebuke or reproof are never easy to receive--but nothing unfriendly4 ,think how idle1 ill-natured talk flows around the world1 and then think what a different world it would be if there were none of it6 ,it is to human life what the blights1 the scales1 the insect pests are to tree and flower4 ,fortunately1 as people grow older they come to think themselves less infallible1 and as they grow wiser they become more tender and more lenient in their judgments4 ,in companionship whose leisure interests are good there is a sense of freedom filled full and running over1 of minds and hearts doubly rich1 of good times doubly jolly4 ,but on the whole1 girls have too little absolute solitude2 there is scarcely a girl in twenty1 except the dig1 who is alone at all4 ,one trouble with dormitory school life is that it fosters leisure-wasting and time-wasting gang habits4 ,a girl so surrounded never wants to be alone a moment1 either indoors or out4 ,with such1 the blessing and blessedness of solitude should be learned1 for solitude rightly used makes strong men and women4 ,the woman who has leisure has a grasp upon time1 is master of it instead of being mastered by it4 ,it is the girl whirled around in a squirrel cage of pointless weekly and ,sunday engagements who is oppressed and mastered by her lack of freedom4 ,and then there is the hard-pressed future2 we must lay up some leisure for that4 ,the time when one is most hurried is the time when one most needs the sense of freedom4 ,the story of the old ,quaker lady who had so much to do she didn't know where to begin1 and so took a nap1 is profoundly full of wisdom4 ,when the old lady woke up she found she had plenty of time after all1 not because she had done anything but because she had come again into a leisurely frame of mind4 ,leisure means neither a blank mind nor an empty hand4 ,it means a holiday taken with an eager mind1 with eyes keen in their delight and knowledge1 with hands capable of some beauty or some use4 ,all of us have leisure to think1 but not all of us think4 ,some of us1 if friends come in unexpectedly1 will quickly pick up something and pretend to be busy4 ,when ,watt sat by the fire watching the steam from the teakettle lift the lid1 he was not precisely idle4 ,the powerful1 indispensable steam-engine was the result4 ,one reason1 aside from all religious considerations1 why we need a quiet ,sunday1 is that we may have that sense of freedom which feeds mind and body1 and even the crumbs of whose profitableness have made the world rich in great inventions1 in great pictures1 in wonderful books4 ,,ix ,,the ,,outdoor ,,runway ,after ,nebuchadnezzar came in from eating grass there had taken place in that potentate a great change for the good4 ,one of the factors in this betterment may have been the grass itself4 ,the grass-cure has always been popular and always will be1 for it is just as good for the tired mind as it is for the tired body4 ,nowadays every big school and every college provide a grass-cure for students who are out at elbows with their nerve sleeves1 or who have not sufficient muscle to make them fit1 or who are overworking or need toning up in any way4 ,there is more and more recognition of the fact that a school course which is taken at the expense of health is not worth having4 ,and side by side with this wholesome admission has come a great awakening in the last fifteen years to the curative value of the outdoor runway1 whether that runway be a field track1 energetic walking in a park or campus1 or a cross country run4 ,some girls--and there are more girls of this type than there are boys--put in their outdoor life as a stop-gap4 ,it is inconceivable that this should be true1 yet it is true4 ,apathetically the students have exercised sixty minutes1 considering this minimum quite sufficient4 ,not a particle of zest do they reveal in the exercise taken4 ,they do not seem to know or they do not care that the fields and woods should be full1 not only of health and all that goes with it1 including success1 but also of the best of friends who all have their good points worthy of notice and imitation1 in quick leap1 cheerful voice and blithe song4 ,what are sixty minutes in this great outdoor runway8 ,not a tithe of the twenty-four hours and at best only half of what the minimum should be4 ,exercise should be taken even if nothing else in the school life is4 ,and ,i say this advisedly1 for health is the basis on which not only the future of the woman's life must depend but also that of the race4 ,good health1 the inheritance of it1 its maintenance and increase1 neither the girl nor her parents can ever hold as too sacred a trust4 ,that it is a sacred trust the schools are recognizing more and more1 and provisions are being made1 especially in the public schools1 for the defective in health as well as for the strong4 ,the outdoor school1 at first an object that attracted universal attention1 is now being taken quite for granted4 ,foolish the girl who does not learn to take the outdoor runway for granted1 too1 and go out to it in high spirits to learn its wisdom1 to take part in its joys and to receive its health4 ,it may be accepted as a new axiom--the more exercise the less fool4 ,strong1 able muscles1 steady nerves 7and let us remember that nerves depend for their tone on the muscular condition71 a clean skin open at all its pores and doing its eliminative work thoroughly1 and clean strong vitals make up the kind of beauty within the reach of all womanhood1 and the physical beauty which she should most desire4 ,the day is coming when our ideal of what is physically perfect--not spiritually1 for ,christianity has carried us beyond anything that ,greece ever knew--will be more like the ,greek in its entirety1 its emphasis upon the harmony of the whole body4 ,the body is a mechanism to be exquisitely cared for--self-running1 it is true1 and yet in need of intelligent attention4 ,think of the care an engineer gives his engine1 and it is by no manner of means so wonderfully and so intricately fashioned as these bodies of ours on which our happiness1 our working ability1 even our very goodness depend4 ,health as a safeguard to one's whole moral being is coming into more and more recognition1 and not only as a safeguard but also as a cultivator of all that is best in us spiritually4 ,there are people very ill1 or permanent invalids1 whose great victory it is to be among the saints of the earth1 but that it is easier to be good when one is well no one will deny4 ,every big school has now its class or classes in corrective or medical gymnastics1 in which stooping shoulders1 ewe necks1 curved spines1 flat insteps1 small waists and narrow chests are rectified as far as possible in the limited hours of the school days4 ,the time is coming when parents will consider it a disgrace to allow their children to be physically undeveloped4 ,the physician1 always in advance of the community for which he cares1 sees how grave in moral or intellectual import physical defects may be4 ,the educational world1 alive to new messages for the reconstruction of its educational ideal1 begins also to place more and more emphasis upon the physical care and development of its students--and not by any manner of means for physical reasons only but because the whole girl or the whole boy is better spiritually and mentally for having a body that is strong and well4 ,the whole being keeps better time1 just as a watch does1 for having clean works4 ,no one has the right to shut out the fresh air or the sunshine2 no girl should remain undeveloped physically through lack of exercise when she could1 through exercise1 make herself strong4 ,even to abuse her feet1 the important centre of many important nerves1 by tight shoes1 is wrong2 so is it to rack her spine and upset or throw out of position all the delicate and wonderfully fashioned organs of the abdominal cavity by the wearing of high ,french heels4 ,undoubtedly1 however1 ,american motherhood and girlhood represent something more and more intelligent2 indeed1 in physical culture women are beginning to keep step with men1 and it is upon this fact that school and college depend in their splendid efforts to make the sum of feminine vitality1 despite the pressure of modern civilization1 plus rather than minus4 ,the more exercise the less fool2 and it is worth remembering that the daily exercise1 the plunge into cool or clean air1 as well as the plunge into water1 is a wit sharpener1 and will do more for a student in the long run than digging possibly can4 ,mens sana in corpore sano may be an old saying but it is still new enough to be repeated with vigour to certain people4 ,let us get out-of-doors and have our wits sharpened and see more1 and do more1 and be more6 ,no one can permanently starve her whole body for the want of fresh air and exercise1 which are the body's birthright1 and expect to have a clear head or do well-balanced and helpful work in the home1 or in school1 or in some wage-earning career4 ,if the girl attempt this impossibility she will be like the frog which jumped up one foot and fell back two4 ,she will get to the bottom soon enough1 the bottom of the class or the bottom of her health account1 but she will never get to the top of anything4 ,any success1 if by chance it should come to her1 resting on a basis of ill health or indifference to her physical fitness for living and working1 will be like the house built upon the sands4 ,before the girl is twenty1 before she is twenty-five--the earlier the better--she should recognize this fact and begin to establish her life on the bed rock of health4 ,it is true1 too1 ninety-nine times out of a hundred1 that the country boy and the country girl are more resourceful than their city cousins4 ,out-of-doors they have had to use their wits and have not been spoiled by all the appliances of city life4 ,out-of-doors1 too1 they have made invaluable friendships with bird and squirrel and rabbit and deer1 friendships whose intelligent wood-life has taught them much4 ,self-reliance is one of the lessons of the outdoor runway2 and wisdom and inspiration come from it when they are needed4 ,about this truth the work of the poet ,wordsworth is one long poem4 ,again and again he writes of the perfect woman shaped by the influences of nature4 ,of her he says3 ,three years she grew in sun and shower2 ,then ,nature said1 ',a lovelier flower ,on earth was never sown2 ,this child ,i to myself will take2 ,she shall be mine1 and ,i will make ,a lady of my own4 ',myself will to my darling be ,both law and impulse3 and with me ,the girl in rock and plain1 ,in earth and heaven1 in glade and bower1 ,shall feel an overseeing power ,to kindle and restrain4 ',she shall be sportive as the fawn ,that wild with glee across the lawn ,or up the mountain springs2 ,and hers shall be the breathing balm1 ,and hers the silence and the calm ,of mute1 insensate things4 ',the floating clouds their state shall lend ,to her2 for her the willow bend2 ,nor shall she fail to see ,even in the motions of the storm ,grace that shall mould the maiden's form ,by silent sympathy4 ',the stars of midnight shall be dear ,to her2 and she shall lean her ear ,in many a secret place ,where rivulets dance their wayward round1 ,and beauty born of murmuring sound ,shall pass into her face6' ,no one can afford to neglect all the spiritual influence of nature1 and the only way to receive it is to go to nature4 ,purity of mind1 a clean conception of ,god's creative plan1 a more active intellectual life are all there for the girl who will seek them4 ,she cannot afford not to go back to nature for these helps1 for every woman is in some sense a burden bearer1 and she must needs know all she can of what life means in order to bear these burdens well4 ,there are various kinds of outdoor life1 some one of which is within reach of every human being1 even if they are cripples4 ,probably most girls when the outdoor life of school and college is spoken of think that athletics is meant4 ,that is one part of the outdoor runway1 and since it is provided in every school1 and insisted upon1 but little about it need be said4 ,it is doing its work with more and more inspiration1 as the response to its ideals comes in4 ,and it does something more in every well-equipped school than merely make a girl use her legs and arms3 it gives her a large1 sane ideal of health and provides her with the means of keeping well4 ,there is no more useful profession for the woman seeking one that is useful as well as remunerative than physical culture4 ,there is another aspect of the outdoor runway of which less is said4 ,i mean gardening1 or the care of live stock of some kind1 or bee culture4 ,this is practical remunerative work which for the girl living at home and going to school should serve famously as a grass-cure2 it would keep her out-of-doors with profit to both her health and her purse4 ,and then there is another kind of grass-cure3 the outdoor life out-of-doors1 to be taken in long country walks1 in fishing expeditions1 in picnics1 in camping or wherever roads1 hills1 meadows and brooks lead4 ,finally1 there is the outdoor life indoors4 ,this life insists upon windows open to the air and open to the sunshine1 and this life every one of us may have all the time4 ,x ,a ,,girl',s ,,summer ,any girl who settles down to a summer with the idea of doing nothing1 or in an aimless1 not-knowing-what-to-do-next fashion1 lessens her opportunities for pleasure4 ,pleasure is not idleness1 although in the minds of a great many people who have not thought very much it is4 ,the right sort of leisure is full of opportunities for doing interesting things4 ,there are some girls who look upon their summers as an escape from the slavery of their school year4 ,there are others who think of their summers as something to be endured until they can go back to the more or less selfish freedom of the school4 ,neither is the right way4 ,the summer ought not to be an entirely frivolous season1 neither ought it to be too workaday4 ,if a girl has work to do1 everything should be so arranged as not to deprive the vacation of its recreative side4 ,on the other hand the summer should be all the happier because of a definite object to be accomplished4 ,something is wrong with a girl unless she finds both summer and winter full of opportunity and pleasure4 ,no one can possibly do all the delightful or useful things which may be done in a single summer4 ,in these months there is opportunity for growth just as in the winter--perhaps more opportunity physically4 ,and intellectually there is much to be seen and observed4 ,for the girl who can1 it is well to plan to be out-of-doors as much as possible4 ,for some1 there are opportunities for camping1 for long walks1 for gardening1 to learn how to do certain physically useful things1 to row1 swim and ride4 ,only an extraordinary emergency would deprive a girl of all the out-of-door exercise which she needs4 ,if she isn't able to be by the sea or in the mountains1 in almost all cities there is opportunity for exercise and games4 ,with a short car ride she can go to golf links1 to tennis courts1 into the country4 ,in many semi-citified homes there is space for a girl to do some gardening1 one of the most profitable of pleasures1 good for the girl and good for the home4 ,many homes would be much more attractive if there were more of the garden spirit in them4 ,but if there is no chance for this1 there can always be physical culture1 an opportunity to build one's self up in health1 to live sanely and wisely1 to get plenty of sleep1 and to take corrective exercise4 ,in physical culture a girl should find out what she most needs--almost any gymnastic instructor in school or college would be glad to outline work--and then in ten or fifteen minute exercises develop herself along those lines4 ,for the girl with means there is the chance for travel1 a splendid opportunity to cultivate many virtues of which the young traveller seldom thinks3 patience1 adaptability1 seeing the bright side of things4 ,travelling may be made a very important part of education4 ,it is too bad that some people of limited horizon take it simply as a chance to aggrandize themselves1 something to boast about and with which to bore their friends by repeated accounts of what they did abroad4 ,the great ,doctor ,samuel ,johnson1 the compiler of the famous dictionary and author of ,rasselas1 heartily disliked young travellers1 for1 he said1 ,they go too raw to make any great remarks4 ,travelling1 if it is what it should be1 is an educational opening4 ,in this way can be gained a background for history1 for literature1 for sociology1 and a vivid and living knowledge of geography4 ,merely running about with a guide-book will not achieve these ends1 although a guide-book is a very important asset3 sympathy1 trying to understand what one sees1 will4 ,travelling takes away provincialism because it broadens the outlook4 ,in a very real sense the world becomes one's home4 ,the girl who is not able to move about or actually travel may travel in books4 ,she should be ashamed to read what is harmful or merely cheap1 but further than that it may not much matter4 ,let her read the ,little ,books1 if she wishes1 and the ,great ,little ,books4 ,as surely as the magnet swings towards the pole will the ,great ,little ,books take her to the ,great ,big ,books4 ,she will be drawn on and up in her reading1 and will have cultivated a love for reading which is far more important than perfunctory knowledge of the classics4 ,just as any books that are good point towards books that are better1 so should the good work of a girl's school year be turning her mind towards the future and her work as a mature woman4 ,in the summer she has time to assimilate all she has done1 to get her bearings1 and to plan wisely for the year1 or years1 to come4 ,for a girl of strong physique the summer vacation gives an opportunity to add towards what she is going to do eventually2 to specialize in some line of work1 to take a library1 or scientific1 course4 ,many girls1 however1 who wish to spend their summer in this fashion ought not to consider it1 for they are not strong enough4 ,it is well for them to remember that it is the quality of work that counts rather than the quantity4 ,often the quality of a girl's work for an ensuing school year depends upon her freedom from study during the summer4 ,students should be very sure1 if they undertake work in the summer1 that it is not done simply from a nervous desire to go on regardless of the quality of the work done4 ,but for those in perfect health this is an opportunity to try their powers in different ways in order to discover what it is they really wish to do4 ,a summer so spent may keep many a girl from slipping into teaching just because it seems the only thing she can do4 ,such a salvation will be twofold1 for it will save not only the girl1 but also a profession overcrowded with loveless followers4 ,there are so many needs to be filled by a woman's work that it is her duty to look for some vocation for which she is truly adapted1 to get out of the ruts of those professions into which women flock because they have no initiative4 ,often a girl thinks only of what she will do with her own summer without thinking of what she will do with her mother's or her father's summer4 ,for nine or ten months they have been thinking of what they could do for her4 ,sometimes girls do not realize the actual need of help and of companionship which those at home feel1 and the older people are too unselfish to force this need upon their juniors4 ,between the unselfishness of those who are older and the self-centredness of those who are younger1 there is often sad havoc made in a home4 ,a girl who1 after a year's absence and all that has been done for her1 can't adjust herself to those who need her1 has still something to learn4 ,if older people cannot do without the buoyancy of the young1 the young cannot very well afford to forget the mother and father who have much1 although no word may be didactically spoken1 to teach them4 ,let the girl take her summer not only as an opportunity to grow closer to her family but also as a chance to learn home-making1 to train herself in the practical things of the home4 ,this practical training is often a very valuable supplement to the school work4 ,the time is passed when the learned woman who is unable to do anything for herself is the ideal--if she ever has been that4 ,the inability to make a home for herself1 to do all the necessary things daintily1 detracts from a woman's power4 ,in practical ways a woman should be both dainty and capable4 ,parents1 as well as girls1 sometimes forget or do not clearly recognize the fact that no school1 no college1 can take the place of the home1 that schools are not primarily schools in home-making1 but rather schools of general education4 ,the summer is a good time for the girl to find her place again in the home life1 and for both parents and children to rejoice in the pleasures of the home--pleasures and opportunities which no institutional life can give4 ,,xi ,,from ,,the ,,school ,,to ,,the ,,girl ,what the school is able to do for the girl depends very largely upon the girl herself4 ,the majority of people with whom she comes in contact do not take that into consideration1 and the school is held unfairly responsible for the girl4 ,all any school can do is to use the material it finds4 ,some one has said1 with harsh but true emphasis1 that a college does not make a fool1 it simply helps in the development of one4 ,as an illustration of its limitations1 a school sends out two girls from the same class2 one girl it is proud to have taken as a type1 the other it is sorry to have represent it4 ,yet both have been under exactly the same influence4 ,students do not realize how fearfully at their mercy a school is1 or that1 so far as reputation is concerned1 it is they who make or mar its credit4 ,if the school training is worth anything at all1 it makes the most of unpromising material4 ,its really discouraging experience is not with the girl of limited ability who gives her best and so in some sense gets the best1 but with the student who doesn't give her best and who1 because of her own indifference1 is always misrepresenting the training she is receiving4 ,no school ever wishes to have its ideals confused by a vulgar display of wealth or by loud or conspicuous behaviour4 ,yet many a school1 with ideals all that they should be1 is misjudged in public places because of some thoughtless or unreliable girls4 ,this doesn't seem like fair-play or team-play1 does it8 ,the fineness of life ought to be felt and expressed in student behaviour4 ,yet how often it is not6 ,another way in which the ideals of a school or college are misrepresented is by lack of intellectual integrity4 ,any school informed with a large spirit wishes to meet its students on a platform of absolute trust1--a platform which makes precautions against dishonesty unnecessary4 ,just so long as a school must be vigilant in order to keep a few students from unfair behaviour1 just so long is it prevented from meeting them all on a basis of absolute trust4 ,why should girls excuse themselves for classroom dishonesty8 ,what would they think of a girl who cheated in basket-ball8 ,would they condone that8 ,until student government has recognized absolute intellectual integrity as a part of its ideas1 it will not have achieved its end4 ,the rock on which all scholarship is founded is honour4 ,lack of honour is fatal to its ideal4 ,cribbing1 often excused by people who do not stop to think1 is the small beginning of a big evil4 ,many a large institution is like an anxious mother1 not always infallible in wisdom1 but personally interested in and eager for the success of the individual4 ,a successful girl brings credit to her school1 for she demonstrates1 as nothing else can1 the fact that the school is achieving its purpose in service to the community4 ,how much this encouragement is needed1 girls do not realize1 for they do not know all the difficulties which institutions1 especially technical and collegiate1 have to meet in sending their students out into the world4 ,in finding a position for a student1 the school has to consider the whole girl4 ,it may care greatly for an attractive personality and yet see that its possessor is lacking in qualities of faithfulness and accuracy1 and that with its utmost endeavour it has never been able to correct these faults4 ,on the other hand1 the school may have those students whose manners1 whose dress1 whose personality1 whose spelling1 whose awkwardly expressed notes1 whose lack of promptness1 make against success in any capacity4 ,another point for which the school looks in recommending its students is physical fitness1 which shows itself in many different ways3 in voice1 in carriage1 in attractiveness1 in staying power4 ,one teacher who had an excellent record as a student and was1 besides1 a fine girl1 had so unpleasant and absurd a voice that her students were in a continual state of amusement and would learn nothing from her4 ,a great many teachers have lost in power because of a poor voice1 strident1 or lifeless1 or husky1 or falsetto4 ,a poor enunciation1 or words that do not carry1 are ineffectual means by which to reach a class1 to hold a customer1 or to introduce one's self favourably to the interest of others4 ,for a girl who is going to have any part in public life--and most girls do nowadays--a good voice is an absolute essential4 ,and it is well for us to remember that the voice is not something superficial1 but that it is the expression of that which is within4 ,another way in which physical fitness shows itself is in the carriage4 ,a girl who carries herself with erectness and energy brings a certain conviction with her of fitness for many things1 of self-respect1 of ability1 and reveals in her bearing something of her mind as well as of her body4 ,we are always tempted to think a person who slumps physically may slump in other ways4 ,a good carriage1 good voice1 and strong1 clean1 digestive system are far more important than beauty of features4 ,there is another matter at which the school in placing its students must look4 ,to be a desirable candidate for a good position a girl need not be expensively gowned1 but she must be daintily and freshly dressed4 ,immaculate shirt waist1 a plain1 well-made skirt1 with good shoes1 stockings and gloves and a quiet1 pretty hat1 are all any woman needs in meeting her business obligations4 ,and that daintiness which she shows in her dress she must show in her person too1 in clean skin and finger-nails1 good teeth1 and smooth1 attractively arranged hair4 ,it is very important for the interests of a school1 as well as for the individual1 to place its students advantageously4 ,to have them succeed widens its sphere of usefulness and influence and opens new channels of service4 ,every college puts itself to considerable expense in looking out for the interests of its students1 for the glory of a great school lies not only in the people whom it collects into its midst1 but even more in those whom it sends out4 ,a girl has no right to go so lightly through her school life that she fails to see in it all the self-sacrifice and effort and ambitions that have gone into the building up of what is her privilege and opportunity4 ,in so far as she does this she fails in the team-play spirit4 ,why should a girl think that she can spend her father's money1 or the means of her school1 thoughtlessly8 ,what would happen to her if she did this with the funds of her basket-ball team8 ,yet girls waste the resources of their school by carelessness with its property1 a carelessness that collectively mounts up into thousands of dollars1 and never once stop to think how difficult every big school finds it to make ends meet4 ,before it is too late1 at least now that she is leaving school1 let her stop to realize that a great deal of the work for an institution is along the line of self-sacrifice1 in the gifts given1 in the work of its administrators and teachers4 ,this unselfishness means a financial loss1 for business ability might be invested in more lucrative ways2 it means a social sacrifice1 for there is a certain kind of impersonality which is demanded in work that deals with a continually changing community2 it means risk in the great strain put upon physical and nervous strength2 it means forgetting one's self2 for the true teacher is willing to be forgotten when she has served others4 ,what a school may accomplish for its students is its only compensation for all this self-sacrifice4 ,,xii ,,the ,,work ,,to ,,be ,one of the qualities a girl who has completed her school or college life needs to show for a few months more than anything else is the quality of adjustment1 for she will find that she must continually adjust herself to new conditions whether they be of the home or elsewhere4 ,all the time through school she has been in some sense a centre of interest4 ,her class has been an important factor in the academic life4 ,when she has gone home it has been as a school or college girl1 and she has been of interest because she brought that life into the home4 ,but now the attitude of others towards her is different4 ,she ceases to be the centre of attention1 and for her a day of serious readjustment is at hand4 ,perhaps in her own estimate she has seemed even more important than she really was4 ,she is likely now to swing from a sense of self-importance to an injured feeling of insignificance1 and to a conviction that people can get along quite as well without her4 ,up to this time when she has gone home she has been an honoured visitor4 ,but now that she is at home to stay1 instead of becoming the centre she is merely part of the family circle with its obligation of doing for others4 ,her presence in the household is no longer a novelty4 ,the swift change from a highly-organized1 methodical life to the life of the home where there is not so much method1 is hard for a girl4 ,one reason it is difficult is that while she may be accomplishing a great deal that is useful1 she seems to be doing nothing and to get nowhere4 ,she feels as if she were in the midst of a conflict of duties4 ,in school she has had implanted in her the idea that she must accomplish some definite thing1 and between this objective and the irregular demands of the home there appears to be more or less clashing4 ,she is confronted by a problem not easy for any one to solve3 how to keep her definiteness of aim and work1 and yet not be self-centred4 ,oftentimes when a girl fails to adjust herself to the home life1 her family and friends feel that she is rather selfish in her desire to carry out her own aims rather than to give them up for new demands4 ,frequently the family is as much to blame for not realizing that the girl needs to be helped back into the old life as the girl is for not being able to help herself4 ,in the home the spirit of team-play is much needed4 ,quite as much as the girl1 the family has a lesson to learn in the art of adjustment and in remembering that this grown-up child isn't just the same individual she was when she went away several years ago4 ,they need to realize that the girl may be able to give more to the home life than she ever did before1 but that it will be given in a somewhat different way4 ,while she is learning the difficult art of finding her place again1 a great deal depends upon the individual girl1 not only in the home but in the community at large4 ,sometimes she needs to be reminded that although she may have had more advantages than those left at home1 that doesn't necessarily make her a superior person4 ,a girl who is inclined either to pity or to admire herself too greatly should give herself a vigorous shaking4 ,in the long run she will find it easier to do that on her own account than to have others do it for her4 ,the friends at home1 or in the church1 or in the town1 with education of a different kind coming to them1 may have quite as much and more to give her than she to give them4 ,one indicator of a really cultivated woman is her power to adapt herself to the circumstances in which she is placed4 ,a gentlewoman never calls attention to the difference between herself and somebody else4 ,the woman of broad culture is the one who makes everybody feel at home with her4 ,if a girl's education has been worth anything at all1 it should give her not a superior1 set-aside feeling1 but a desire to be more friendly and useful wherever she may be1 and1 not placing too much stress on externals1 to look for essentials1 to get the full value from every person and from every experience with which she comes in contact4 ,girls go to so many different kinds of homes that it is unlikely that they will meet the same sorts of difficulties4 ,there is the girl who goes into the society home1 where it is impossible for her to carry out her ideals without conflict with its social standards4 ,on the other hand1 there is the girl who goes into the very simple home where all the stress is upon the domestic side of life4 ,and there is the girl who has to provide part of the family income4 ,very likely she has the hardest problem of all4 ,she enters upon some new work1 and nine times out of ten the way is not made easy for her2 she is a novice with all the hardships that come to the novice4 ,perhaps in the beginning she has met a very real perplexity in hardly knowing what line of work to take up4 ,she has no particular interest1 no especial talent1 no brilliant record1 no powerful friends1 no money with which to establish herself4 ,with her it must be as it is with thinking3 she must seize hold of the thing nearest her4 ,what seems to her a temporary and unsatisfactory expedient will in many cases open out a path leading to something much broader4 ,at least she may remember this as consolation3 that even that experience of uncertainty1 of indecision1 is a part of education1 and out of it1 rightly and bravely met1 will come some richness for her future life4 ,the beginning of a work1 teaching or anything else1 may have to be rather irksome1 indeed1 may be exceedingly difficult1--an experience that will perhaps test staying power to the utmost4 ,when it is too late to give due appreciation we realize that the work in school which was planned for us and arranged with our physical and mental well-being in view was1 after all1 not so hard as we thought it at the time4 ,we wish that we had enjoyed our leisure more and complained less4 ,from the point of view of fatigue1 as a secretary1 a clerk1 a trained nurse1 a teacher1 a social worker1 the burden may be so great that the girl is disheartened4 ,she is all the more disheartened because1 knowing that a useful life is a strong1 steady pull1 the way before her seems interminable4 ,if she carries her whip inside her--this counsel is not for those of us who are lazy--she does well to remember that there is a point beyond which fatigue should not be borne1 that is1 when it overdraws her capital of health and nervous energy4 ,raising pigs is preferable to a so-called high profession when pig-raising is happily joined with a reasonable amount of health and security4 ,the pigs and health together can always pay mortgages and buy necessities for those dependent upon us and for ourselves4 ,the high calling without health is like a wet paper-bag3 it will hold nothing4 ,the girl meets with another difficulty in finding out that in almost any line of work a great deal of time is needed for the mastery of what seem the simplest principles4 ,no one wants the girl who hasn't had experience1 and nobody seems disposed to take her and give her that experience4 ,however1 we all find some one who is hardy enough or kind enough to try us2 and as every year now there is more effort put into finding the work girls are most suited to do1 there is no excuse for slipping into teaching as a last resort4 ,not unnaturally we sometimes distrust ourselves1 especially in taking up an occupation to which we are not accustomed4 ,and in her new work the girl1 uncertain of her ability to master what she has undertaken1 is placed in a position in which she has the encouragement of neither the school nor the home4 ,before1 she has put much of the responsibility for her work and life upon parents and instructors4 ,now she has to be her own judge and pass judgment on herself and her work4 ,she has1 too1 not only to lift her own weight but the weight of others as well4 ,as she longs for coperation1 good will and encouragement the value of the team-play spirit has never seemed so great before4 99 99 99 99 99 ,we do not need to be told to remember the happy and easy experiences of life4 ,no girl forgets them4 ,what we do need is some one to tell us where the hard places will be1 to warn us1 to stiffen our courage and to point clearly to the uses of hard work and adversity4 ,and although this may seem like placing another straw on the poor camel's back1 it is now time to say that in her life-work1 whether it be in her home or outside1 a girl should be very clear in her mind what her aims and purposes are4 ,if she is working solely for the praise and commendation of others1 she will often be grievously disappointed4 ,not in recognition does real reward lie1 but in the work itself4 ,if she wins great popularity she is likely to find that there is nothing that shifts so quickly and is such a quicksand4 ,if material wealth is her sole object she will harden into the thing she seeks and add but another joyless barbarian to a modern world congratulating itself that barbarism is a thing of the past1 and yet presenting the spectacle of a mammon worship such as has never been seen before4 ,if gold is her end1 and not the means to a nobler end1 then she will find herself constantly sacrificing higher issues to that1 and lowering her one-time ideals4 ,truly the woman who marries solely for the comforts of a home1 the woman who teaches1 or nurses for pay alone1 has her reward1 and that is in self-destruction4 ,she is a carrier of barbarism1 not of culture2 of disease1 not of health2 of tribulation1 not of joy4 ,the only real reward there can be lies in the idealism1 the joy1 the strength of the work done and in a mind and heart conscious of having done their best4 ,,the ,,end ,,john ,t4 ,,faris ,author ,winning ,their ,way4 ,making ,good ,pointers for the ,man of ,to-morrow #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4be4 ,dr4 ,j4 ,r4 ,miller says3 ,sixty intimate messages to young men and boys on the things that make for success or failure4 ,bright and short and full of illustrations from actual life1 they are just the sort that will help young men in the home1 in school1 among associates and in business4 ,everywhere is the suggestion of the necessity for ,christ if men would build up fine character and make life worth while4 ,,jeanette ,,marks1 ,m4 ,a4 ,a ,girl's ,school ,days and ,after ,introduction by ,mary ,k4 ,woolley1 ,president of ,mt4 ,holyoke ,college4 #abmo1 cloth1 net #ge;c4 ,in twelve most readable and suggestive chapters ranging from ,the ,freshman ,year through ,school ,friendships1 ,the ,students ,room1 ,tools of ,study and ,their ,use1 ,the ,joy of ,work1 ,the ,right ,sort of leisure1 ,the ,girls ,outdoor ,life1 to ,the ,work to ,be1 the author writes in a practical yet interesting way of wellnigh every phase of the girl and her school4 ,,frederick ,,lynch ,director of ,n4 ,y4 ,peace ,society4 ,the ,peace ,problem ,the ,task of the ,twentieth ,century ,introduction by ,andrew ,carnegie4 ,cloth1 net #ge;c4 ,andrew ,carnegie commends this book in no stinted terms4 ,i have read this book from beginning to end with interest and profit4 ,i hope large editions will be circulated by our peace organizations among those we can interest in the noblest of all causes4 ,,james ,m4 ,,campbell1 ,d4 ,d4 ,grow ,old ,along ,with ,me #abmo1 cloth1 gilt top1 net #a4be4 ,shows in most helpful fashion things one should strive for and guard against1 things he should leave off doing1 as well as others he should put on4 ,it is a pleasant thing to read and it should be a potent factor in leading one to an appreciation of the real beauty and opportunity that lies 'west of fifty years4'--,chicago ,tribune4 ,,mrs4 ,,newell ,,dwight ,,hillis ,the ,american ,woman and ,her ,home #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4be4 ,the author shares with her gifted husband the power of both entertaining and influencing people with the pen4 ,the remarkable interest awakened lately by ,mrs4 ,hillis' articles in ,the ,outlook has inspired this helpful book4 ,,fiction ,,wilfred ,t4 ,,grenfell1 ,m4 ,d4 ,down ,north on ,the ,labrador ,illustrated1 #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4jj4 ,a new collection of ,labrador yarns by the man who has succeeded in making isolated ,labrador a part of the known world4 ,like its predecessor the new volume1 while confined exclusively to facts in ,dr4 ,grenfell's daily life1 is full of romance1 adventure and excitement4 ,the ,n4 ,y4 ,sun recently said3 ,admirable as is the work that ,dr4 ,grenfell is doing on the ,labrador coast1 the books he has written1 make his readers almost wish he would give up some of it to write more4 ,,clara ,e4 ,,laughlin ,the ,gleaners ,a ,novellette4 ,illustrated1 decorated boards1 net #ge;c4 ,again ,miss ,laughlin has given us a master-piece in this story of present day life4 ,millet's picture1 ,the ,gleaners1 is the moving spirit of this little romance and1 incidentally1 one catches the inspiration the artist portrays in his immortal canvas4 ,the ,gleaners is issued in similar style to ,everybody's ,lonesome1 of which the ,toronto ,globe said3 ,one of the successful writers of ',good ,cheer' stories for old and young is ,miss ,laughlin1 and whoever reads one of her cheery little volumes desires more4 ,,prof4 ,,edward ,a4 ,,steiner ,author of ,the ,immigrant ,tide1 etc4 ,the ,broken ,wall ,stories of the ,mingling ,folk4 ,illustrated1 net #a4jj4 ,professor ,steiner has the story-teller's knack and uses his art with consummate skill in this collection1 where will be found dramatic tragedy and profound pathos in strong contrast with keen humor and brilliant wit1 all permeated by an uncompromising optimism4 ,no man has probed the heart of the immigrant more deeply1 and his interpretation of these ,americans of tomorrow is at once a revelation and an inspiration3 a liberal education in brotherhood4 ,a4 ,d4 ,,stewart ,heather and ,peat #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4bj4 ,this is a very delightful story1 told in the broadest and most fascinating ,scotch language4 ,the author belongs of right to that class of modern ,scotch writers who bring out matters of vital human interest1 with religious and tender touches1 and this story is one that any writer might be proud of and any reader of feeling and vitality must delight in4--,journal and ,messenger4 ,,yang ,,ping ,,yu ,the ,love ,story of a ,maiden of ,cathay ,told in ,letters from ,yang ,ping ,yu4 ,finely decorated boards1 net #ej;c4 ,written in ,english picturesquely colored with ,chinese1 at once naive and yet full of worldly wisdom1 frank and yet discreetly reserved4 ,the story as told in the letters is real1 vivid1 convincing4 ,it is a human document that will compel the attention of the reader from beginning to end1 and verify again the saying that truth is stranger than fiction4 ,,marion ,,blythe ,an ,american ,bride in ,porto ,rico ,illustrated1 #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4jj4 ,the story is very pleasant and very human4 ,in her bravery and courage1 in her wit and merriment1 the bride reminds one somewhat of the ,lady of the ,decoration4 ,this similarity adds1 however1 rather than detracts from the charm of the book4 ,she is thoroughly good-natured and clever and companionable1 with a whimsical and ever-present sense of humor4--,chicago ,evening ,post4 ,,isla ,,may ,,mullins ,the ,boy from ,hollow ,hut ,illustrated1 #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4jj4 ,readers of ,john ,fox1 ,jr4's stories will recognize the location of this story at once4 ,the author and her husband1 ,president of the great ,theological ,seminary of ,louisville1 have taken a large interest in these descendants of some of the best ,american stock4 ,through the tender humanness of her narrative ,mrs4 ,mullins bids fair to gain a large audience for this intensely interesting work4 ,,dr4 ,,olivia ,a4 ,,baldwin ,sita1 ,a ,story of ,child-,marriage ,fetters4 #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4be4 ,a realistic story of native and mission life in ,india2 a story dealing with the stress of famine and the pathetic condition of ,india's child-widows4 ,,mrs4 ,,maud ,,johnson ,,elmore ,the ,revolt of ,sundaramma ,with an introduction by ,helen ,b4 ,montgomery4 ,illustrated by ,gertrude ,h4 ,b4 ,hooker4 ,net #a4jj4 ,sundaramma1 a ,hindu maiden1 is the heroine of this story which relates her revolt against child marriage and her flight from such slavery4 ,,norman ,,duncan ,author of ,dr4 ,luke1 etc4 ,the ,measure of a ,man ,a ,tale of the ,big ,woods4 ,illustrated1 net #a4be4 ,the ,measure of a ,man is ,mr4 ,duncan's first full-sized novel having a distinct motif and purpose since ,doctor ,luke of ,the ,labrador4 ,the tale of the big woods has for its hero1 ,john ,fairmeadow--every inch a man whom the ,lumber ,jacks of his parish in the pines looked up to as their ,sky ,pilot4 ,human nature in the rough is here portrayed with a faithfulness that is convincing4 ,,robert ,e4 ,,knowles ,author of ,st4 ,cuthberts1 etc4 ,the ,singer of the ,kootenay ,a ,tale of ,to-day4 #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4bj4 ,the scene of action for ,mr4 ,knowles' latest novel is in the ,crow's ,nest ,pass of the ,kootenay ,mountains of ,british ,columbia4 ,to this dramatic field he has gone for local color and has taken every advantage of his wide knowledge1 picturing life of every phase in his most artistic style4 ,,harold ,,begbie ,author of ,twice-,born ,men ,the ,shadow #abmo1 cloth1 net #a4be4 ,a new story by the novelist whose study of regeneration1 ,twice-,born ,men has made the religious world fairly gasp at its startling revelations of the almost overlooked proofs of the power of conversion to be found among the lowest humanity4 ,his latest work is a brilliant study of modern life which will maintain the author's reputation4 ,,rupert ,,hughes ,miss #cah ,a ,story in ,season and out of ,season4 ,illustrated1 #abmo1 cloth1 net #ge;c4 ,is there any excuse for one more ,christmas story8 ,surely nothing has been left unsaid4 ,the truth1 perhaps4 ,the truth8--about ,christmas6 ,would anybody care to read it8 ,perhaps4 ,but would anybody dare to publish it8 ,probably not4 ,that sounds interesting6 ,what nobody would care to read and nobody would dare to publish1 ought to be well worth writing4 ,j4 ,j4 ,,bell ,author of ,oh6 ,christina6 etc4 ,the ,indiscretions of ,maister ,redhorn ,illustrated1 #afmo1 cloth1 net #fj;c4 ,the thousands who have read ,wullie ,mc,wattie's ,master will need no introduction to this ,scottish penter and his pint o' view4 ,the same dry ,scottish humor1 winning philosophy and human nature fairly overflow these pages4