,,talks ,,on ,,talk+ by ,,gr5ville ,,kleis] ,=m]ly ,in/ructor 9 ,public ,speak+ at ,yale ,div9ity ,s*ool1 ,yale ,univ]sity2 au?or ( ,h[ to ,speak 9 ,public1 ,h[ to ,develop ,p[] & ,p]sonality 9 ,speak+1 ,h[ to ,develop ,self-,confid5ce 9 ,spee* & ,mann]1 ,h[ to ,argue & ,w91 ,h[ to ,read & ,declaim1 ,complete ,guide to ,public ,speak+12 etc4 ,copyright1 #aiaf1 by ,funk4 ,wagnalls ,company 7,pr9t$ 9 ! ,unit$ ,/ates ( ,am]ica7 ,publi%$1 ,septemb]1 #aiaf ,copyright "u ! articles ( ! ,copyright ,conv5tion ( ! ,pan-,am]ican ,republics & ! ,unit$ ,/ates1 ,augu/ #aa1 #aiaj ,,cont5ts ,,page ,,! ,,art ,,( ,,talk+ #a ,,types ,,( ,,talk]s #aa ,,talk]s ,,& ,,talk+ #ah ,,phrases ,,= ,,talk]s #be ,,! ,,speak+ ,,voice #cd ,,h[ ,,to ,,tell ,a ,,/ory #dd ,,talk+ ,,9 ,,salesman%ip #ef ,,m5 ,,& ,,mann]isms #fc ,,h[ ,,to ,,speak ,,9 ,,public #gj ,,practical ,,h9ts ,,= ,,speak]s #hd ,,! ,,dramatic ,,elem5t ,,9 ,,speak+ #hg ,,conv]sation ,,& ,,public ,,speak+ #id ,a ,,talk ,,to ,,prea*]s #ajj ,,c>e ,,( ,,! ,,speak]',s ,,?roat #ajh ,,don',,ts ,,= ,,public ,,speak]s #aaf ,,d',s ,,= ,,public ,,speak]s #aah ,,po9ts ,,= ,,speak]s #abj ,,! ,,bible ,,on ,,spee* #abb ,,?\ghts ,,on ,,talk+ #abc ,,preface ,good conv]sation implies naturalness1 spontaneity1 & s9c]ity ( utt]ance4 ,x is n advisable1 !re=e1 to lay d[n arbitr>y rules to gov]n talk+1 b x is believ$ t ! sugge/ions (f]$ "h w contribute to ! g5]al elevation & improvem5t ( daily spee*4 ,consid]+ ! l>ge numb] ( p]sons :o are oblig$ to talk 9 social1 bus9ess1 & public life1 ! subject ( correct spee* %\ld receive m s]i\s consid]ation ?an is usually giv5 to x4 ,x is e>ne/ly hop$ t ?is volume w be ( practical value to ^? :o are desir\s ( develop+ & improv+ _! conv]sational p[]s4 ,appreciative ?anks are express$ to ! ,editors ( ! ,homiletic ,review = p]mission to repr9t "s ( ! extracts4 ,,gr5ville ,,kleis]4 ,,new ,,york ,,city1 ,,may1 #aiaf4 ,boys fly+ kites haul 9 _! :ite-w+'d birds3 ,y c't d t way :5 y're fly+ words4 ,c>eful ) fire1 is good advice we "k2 ,c>eful ) words1 is t5 times d\bly s4 ,?\ghts unexpress'd may sometimes fall back dead1 ,b ,god ,himself c't kill !m once !y're said6 --,w ,c>leton4 ,! fir/ duty ( a man is to speak2 t is 8 *ief bus9ess 9 ?is _w2 & talk1 :i* is ! h>moni\s spee* ( two or m1 is by f> ! mo/ accessible ( pleasures4 ,x co/s no?+2 x is all pr(it2 x completes our education2 x f\nds & fo/]s our fri5d%ips2 & x is by talk alone t we le>n our p]iod & ourselves4 --,rob]t ,l\is ,/ev5son4 ,vocif]at$ logic kills me q2 ,a noisy man is always 9 ! "r-- ,i twirl my ?umbs1 fall back into my *air1 ,fix on ! wa9scot a di/ressful />e2 ,& :5 ,i hope 8 blund]s all are out1 ,reply discreetly1 ,to be sure--no d\bt6 --,anon4 ,,talks ,,on ,,talk+ ,,! ,,art ,,( ,,talk+ ,! *>m ( conv]sation *iefly dep5ds ^u ! adaptability ( ! p>ticipants4 ,x is a great accompli%m5t to be able to ent] g5tly & agreeably into ! moods ( o!rs1 & to give way to !m ) grace & read9ess4 ,! _s ( conv]sation is (t5times m important ?an ! ideas express$4 ,:at we are r ?an :at we say has ! mo/ p]man5t influ5ce ^u ^? ar\nd u4 ,h5ce x is t :]e a gr\p ( p]sons are met toge!r 9 conv]sation1 x is ! inn] life ( ea* :i* sil5tly ?\gh none ! less surely imp>ts tone & "* to ! occasion4 ,x requires vigor\s self-discipl9e s to cultivate ! feel+s ( k9dness & sympa?y t !y are always 9 read9ess = use4 ,^! qualities are ess5tial to agreeable & pr(itable int]c\rse1 ?\gh comp>atively few p possess !m4 ,burke consid]$ mann]s ( m importance ?an laws4 ,sidney ,smi? describ$ mann]s z ! %ad[s ( virtues4 ,dean ,swift def9$ mann]s z ! art ( putt+ at ease ! p ) :om we conv]se4 ,*e/]field said mann]s %\ld adorn k 9 ord] to smoo? its way ?r\gh ! _w4 ,em]son spoke ( mann]s z compos$ ( petty sacrifices4 ,we all recognize t a w9n+ mann] is made up ( seem+ly insignificant c\rtesies1 & ( con/ant little att5tions4 ,a p]son ( *>m+ mann] is usually free f res5tm5ts1 inquisitiv5ess1 & moods4 ,p]sonality plays a l>ge "p 9 int]e/+ conv]sation4 ,precisely ! same phraseology express$ by two diff]5t p]sons may make two :olly diff]5t impressions1 & all because ( ! diff]5ce 9 ! p]sonalities ( ! speak]s4 ,! daily m5tal life ( a man indelibly impresses itself ^u 8 face1 :]e x c be unmi/akably read by o!rs4 ,:at a p]son is1 innately & habitually1 unconsci\sly discloses itself 9 voice1 mann]1 & be>+4 ,! _w ultimately appraises a man at 8 true value4 ,! be/ type ( talk] is sl[ to express positive op9ions1 is sp>+ 9 criticism1 & /udi\sly avoids a tone or ^w ( f9ality4 ,x has be5 well said t ,a talk] :o monopolizes ! conv]sation is by common cons5t insuff]able1 & a man :o regulates 8 *oice ( topics by ref]5ce to :at int]e/s n 8 he>]s b himself has yet to le>n ! alphabet ( ! art4 ,conv]sation is l lawn-t5nis1 & requires alacrity 9 return at lea/ z mu* z vigor 9 s]vice4 ,a happy phrase1 an unexpect$ collocation ( words1 a habitual precision 9 ! *oice ( t]ms1 are r>e & %9+ ornam5ts ( conv]sation1 b !y d n = an in/ant supply ! place ( lively & int]e/+ matt]1 & an excessive c>e = !m is apt to tell unfavorably on ! sub/ance ( disc\rse4 ,:5 ,"l ,beaconsfield 0 talk+ 8 way into social fame1 someone said ( him1 ,i might z well attempt to ga!r up ! foam ( ! sea z to convey an idea ( ! extraord9>y language 9 :i* he clo!d 8 description4 ,!re 7 at lea/ five words 9 e s5t5ce t mu/ h be5 v mu* a/oni%$ at ! use !y 7 put to1 & yet no o!rs app>5tly c\ld s well h express$ 8 idea4 ,he talk$ l a racehorse approa*+ ! w9n+-po/--e muscle 9 action1 & ! utmo/ en]gy ( expression flung out into e bur/4 ,we are told t ,mat!w ,arnold comb9$ all ! *>act]i/ics ( good conv]sation--polit5ess1 vivacity1 sympa?y1 int]e/$ness1 g5iality1 a happy *oice ( words1 & a nev]-fail+ humor4 ,:5 he 0 once ask$ :at 0 8 favorite topic = conv]sation1 he in/antly answ]$1 ,t 9 :i* my companion is mo/ int]e/$4 ,c\rtesy1 x w be not$1 is ! fundam5tal basis ( good conv]sation4 ,we mu/ %[ habitual consid]ation & k9dl9ess t[>ds o!rs if we w\ld attract !m to u4 ,bluntness ( mann] is no long] excus$ on ! gr\nd t ! speak] is s9c]e & outspok54 ,we expect & dem& t our companion 9 conv]sation %\ld obs]ve ! recogniz$ c\rtesies ( spee*4 ,!re 0 a "t :5 m5 & wom5 indulg$ freely 9 satire1 irony1 & rep>tee4 ,!y spoke _! ?\ghts pla9ly & unequivocally4 ,!re 7 no re/ra9ts impos$ ^u !m by society1 h5ce x n[ appe>s to u t _m ?+s 7 said :i* might bett] h be5 left unsaid4 ,self-re/ra9t is n[adays "o ( ! c>d9al virtues ( good conv]sation4 ,! _s ( conv]sation is greatly *ang$4 ,we are enjo9$ to keep ! voice l[1 ?9k be=e we speak1 repress unseasonable allusions1 %un :atev] may cause a j> or jolt 9 ! m9ds ( o!rs1 be seldom prom95t 9 conv]sation1 & avoid all cla%+ ( op9ion & collision ( feel+4 ,macaulay 0 fond ( talk+1 b made ! mi/ake ( always *oos+ a subject to suit himself & monopoliz+ ! conv]sation4 ,he lectur$ r ?an talk$4 ,8 m>vel\s memory 0 p]haps 8 greate/ enemy1 = ?\gh x enabl$ him to p\r =? great masses ( facts1 p li/5$ to him helplessly r ?an admir+ly4 ,c>lyle 0 a great talk]1 & talk$ mu* 9 prote/ ( talk+4 ,no man broke sil5ce (t5] ?an he to tell ! _w h[ great a curse is talk+4 ,b he told x eloqu5tly & !re9 0 he ju/ifi$4 ,!re 0 9 him too mu* vehem5t /]nness1 ( h>d ,scot* granite1 to make him a pleasant talk] 9 ! popul> s5se4 ,he 0 ! evangeli/ ( gold5 sil5ce1 & ?\gh he did n app>5tly practice x himself1 8 g5ius w nev] dim9i%4 ,glad/one 0 unable to indulge 9 small talk4 ,8 m9d 0 s con/antly occupi$ ) great subjects t he spoke ev5 to "o p]son z if address+ a meet+4 ,x is said t 9 conv]sation ) ,que5 ,victoria he w\ld inv>iably *oose weighty subjects1 & ?\gh %e tri$ to make a digression1 he w\ld seize ! fir/ opportunity to resume 8 orig9al !me1 always re9=c$ 9 volume & onru% by ! delay4 ,"l ,morley is attractive ?\gh au/]e 9 conv]sation4 ,he nev] dogmatizes nor obtrudes 8 own op9ions4 ,he is a ma/] ( phrase-mak+4 ,b al?\gh he talks well he nev] talks mu*4 ,! /ory is told t at a rec5t d9n] 9 ,london t5 lead+ public m5 7 met toge!r1 :5 "o sugge/$ t ea* g5tleman pres5t %\ld write d[n on pap] ! "n ( ! man he w\ld specially *oose to be 8 companion on a walk+ t\r4 ,:5 ! t5 pap]s 7 subsequ5tly read al\d1 ea* bore ! "n ( ,"l ,morley4 ,"l ,roseb]y is consid]$ "o ( ! mo/ accompli%$ talk]s ( ! day4 ,def]5tial1 natural1 sympa!tic1 obs]vant1 well-in=m$1 he easily & unconsci\sly comm&s ! att5tion ( any gr\p ( m54 ,8 voice is said to recomm5d :at he utt]s1 & a s+ul>ly ref9$ acc5t gives di/9ction to any?+ he says4 ,he is a supreme example ( two great qualifications = effective talk+3 hav+ some?+ wor? :ile to say1 & kn[+ h[ to say x4 ,among di/+ui%$ ,canadians1 ,sir ,?omas ,:ite is "o ( ! mo/ int]e/+ speak]s4 ,8 v]satile m9d1 & broad & v>i$ exp]i5ce1 enable him to conv]se ) almo/ equal facility ^u politics1 m$ic9e1 f9ance1 law1 sci5ce1 art1 lit]ature1 or bus9ess4 ,dates1 details1 facts1 figures1 & illu/rations are at 8 ready comm&4 ,8 mann] is natural1 c\rte\s1 & g5ial1 b 9 argum5tation ! :ole man is s ?or\ghly ar\s$ to e>ne/ness & int5sity z almo/ to ov]:elm an oppon5t4 ,8 greate/ quality 9 speak+ is 8 manife/ s9c]ity1 & x is ?is p>ticul>ly :i* has +ratiat$ him 9 ! he>ts ( 8 c\ntrym54 ,! ,honorable ,joseph ,h4 ,*oate mu/ c]ta9ly be reckon$ among ! be/ conv]sationali/s ( our "t4 ,8 mann]1 bo? 9 conv]sation & 9 public speak+1 is s+ul>ly graci\s & w9n+4 ,he is unsurpass$ z a /ory-tell]4 ,8 f9e ta/e1 comb9$ ) long exp]i5ce z a public man1 makes him an ideal aft]-d9n] speak]4 ,"s em95t m5 try to mask _! greatness :5 engag$ 9 conv]sation4 ,!y d n we> _! feel+s nor _! greatness on _! sleeves4 ,"s h an utt] di/a/e = any?+ l p]sonal display4 ,x is said ( ! late ,h5ry ,james t a /rang] might talk to him = an entire ev5+ )\t discov]+ 8 id5tity4 ,!re is an int]e/+ acc\nt ( an ev5+'s conv]sation betwe5 ,em]son & ,?oreau4 ,:5 ,?oreau return$ home he wrote 9 8 ,j\rnal3 ,talk$1 or tri$ to talk1 ) ,r4,w4,e4 ,lo/ my "t1 nay1 almo/ my id5tity4 ,he1 assum+ a false opposition :]e !re 0 no diff]5ce ( op9ion1 talk$ to ! w9d4 ,em]son's v]sion ( ! conv]sation 0 ?is3 ,x seem$ z if ,?oreau's fir/ in/9ct on he>+ a proposition 0 to controv]t x4 ,t habit is *ill+ to ! social affections2 x m>s conv]sation4 ,conv]sation (f]s daily opportunity = intellectual ex]cise ( high ord]4 ,! read+ ( great books is desirable & indisp5sable to education1 b real culture comes ?r\gh ! additional tra9+ "o receives 9 conv]sation4 ,! contact ( m9d ) m9d t5ds to /imulate & develop ?\ghts :i* o!rwise w\ld probably rema9 dormant4 ,! culture ( conv]sation is to be recomm5d$ n only = its own sake1 b also z "o ( ! be/ means ( tra9+ 9 ! art ( public speak+4 ,s9ce ! be/ =m ( plat=m address today is simply conv]sation enl>g$ & elevat$1 x may almo/ be assum$ t to excel 9 "o is to be pr(ici5t 9 ! o!r4 ,good conv]sation requires1 among o!r ?+s1 m5tal al]tness1 accuracy ( /atem5t1 adequate vocabul>y1 facility ( expression1 & an agreeable voice1 & ^! qualities are mo/ ess5tial = effective public speak+4 ,ev]yone1 !re=e1 :o aspires to speak+ be=e an audi5ce ( hundr$s or ?\s&s1 w f9d 8 be/ opportunity = prelim9>y tra9+ 9 ev]yday spee*4 ,,types ,,( ,,talk]s ,!re is no great] affliction 9 mod]n life ?an ! tiresome talk]4 ,he talks incessantly4 ,presumably he talks 9 8 sleep4 ,talk+ is 8 con/ant ex]cise & recreation4 ,he ?rives on x4 ,he lives = talk+'s sake4 ,he w\ld langui% if he 7 depriv$ ( x = a s+le day4 ,8 cont9u\s practice 9 talk+ enables him easily to outdi/ance all ord9>y competitors4 ,!re is no?+ :i* s completely unn]ves him z long p]iods ( sil5ce4 ,he has ! talk+ habit 9 its mo/ virul5t =m4 ,! trifl+ talk] is equally objectionable4 ,he talks mu*1 b says little4 ,he skims ov] ! surface ( ?+s1 & is timid ( any?+ deep or philosophical4 ,he does n t>ry at "o subject4 ,he talks ( ! wea!r1 clo!s1 plays1 & sports4 ,he puts little mean+ into :at he says1 because !re is little mean+ 9 :at he ?9ks4 ,he _c look at any?+ s]i\sly4 ,no?+ is ( great significance to him4 ,he is 9 ! class ( fea!rweights4 ,! t$i\s talk] is "o )\t t]m9al facilities4 ,he talks "r on ) no idea ( objective or de/9ation4 ,he rises to g1 b he does n g4 ,he kn[s he ought to g1 b he simply _c4 ,he has some?+ m to say4 ,he keeps y /&+ half an h\r4 ,he talks a :ile long]4 ,he assures y he really mu/ g4 ,y tell him n to hurry4 ,he takes y at y\r ^w & sits d[n aga94 ,he talks "s m4 ,he rises aga94 ,he does n "k ev5 n[ h[ to conclude4 ,he has no m5tal compass4 ,he is a rudd]less talk]4 ,probably ! mo/ obnoxi\s type is ! tattl+ talk]4 ,he always has some?+ />tl+ly p]sonal to imp>t4 ,x is a sacr$ secret = y\r e>4 ,he is a :olesale deal] 9 gossip4 ,he fairly smacks 8 lips z he relates ! late/ sc&al4 ,he is an exp]t embelli%]4 ,he adroitly supplies miss+ details4 ,he has no?+ ( int]e/ 9 8 own life1 s9ce he lives :olly 9 ! lives ( o!rs4 ,he is a frightful bore1 b y _c (f5d him4 ,he is adamant4 ,!re is ! tautological talk]1 or ! human self-repeat]4 ,he goes ov] ! gr\nd aga9 & aga9 le/ y h miss$ some?+4 ,he is v fond ( himself4 ,he tells ! same /ory n twice1 b a doz5 times4 ,y may h he>d ?is be=e1 says he1 b x is s good t x w be> repetition4 ,he tries to disguise 8 pov]ty ( ?\ght 9 a masqu]ade ( ornate language4 ,if he mu/ repeat 8 words1 he adds a little emphasis1 a fl\ri%+ ge/ure1 or a _s ( non*alance4 ,aga91 !re is ! t5aci\s talk]1 :o refuses to release y ?\gh y conc$e 8 argum5ts4 ,:5 all o!rs tacitly drop a subject1 he eag]ly picks x up4 ,he is reluctant to leave x4 ,he w\ld put y 9 possession ( 8 special k4 ,y may successfully refute him1 b he holds firmly to 8 own ideas4 ,he is positive he is "r4 ,he w prove x1 too1 if y w only li/54 ,he kn[s t he kn[s4 ,y _c conv9ce him to ! contr>y1 no inde$4 ,he w talk y s bl9d t at la/ y are unable to see any viewpo9t cle>ly4 ,a recogniz$ type is ! tactless talk]4 ,he says ! wrong ?+ 9 ! "r way1 & ! "r ?+ 9 ! wrong way4 ,he is impulsive & ungu>d$4 ,he rea*es ha/y conclusions4 ,he confuses 8 tactlessness ) clev]ness4 ,he is awkw>d & blund]+4 ,8 indiff]5ce to ! rights & feel+s ( o!rs is 8 greate/ enemy4 ,he is a /rang] to discretion4 ,he speaks fir/1 & ?9ks aft]w>ds4 ,he may h regrets1 b n resolutions4 ,he is (t5 tol]at$1 b seldom e/eem$4 ,! temp]am5tal talk] is "o ( ! greate/ ( n]ve-de/roy]s4 ,he deals 9 sup]latives4 ,he views ev]y?+ emotionally4 ,he talks feel+ly ( trifles1 & ec/atically ( fri5ds4 ,he gu%es4 ,he flatt]s4 ,to him ev]y?+ is wond]ful1 prodigi\s1 sup]b1 gorge\s1 heav5ly1 amaz+1 indescribable1 ov]:elm+4 ,extravagance & exagg]ation p]meate 8 mo/ commonplace obs]vations4 ,he is an incurable en?usia/4 ,! tantaliz+ talk] is "o :o likes to contradict y4 ,he divides 8 att5tion betwe5 :at y are say+ & :at he c summon to oppose y4 ,he diss5ts f y\r mo/ ord9>y obs]vations4 ,8 favorite phrases are1 ,i don't ?9k s1 ,!re is :]e y are wrong1 ,i beg to diff]1 & ,n only t4 ,tell him x w be a f9e day1 & he w decl>e t ! signs indicate f\l wea!r4 ,say t ! day is unpromis+1 & he w assure y x does n look t way to him4 ,he cavils at trifles4 ,he disputes ev5 :5 !re is no antagoni/4 ,to li/5 to ! tortu\s talk] is a supreme te/ ( pati5ce4 ,he sl[ly w9ds 8 way 9 & out ( a subject4 ,he trav]ses by-pa?s1 all[+ no?+ to escape 8 unwe>i$ eye4 ,he goes a long way ab\t1 b nev] tires ( 8 circuit\s j\rney4 ,plodd+ly & p]sev]+ly he zigzags f "o po9t to ano!r4 ,he alt]s 8 c\rse z (t5 z ! crook$ way ( 8 subject *anges4 ,he twi/s1 turns1 & div]ges )\t ! slighte/ inconv5i5ce to himself4 ,he likes no?+ bett] ?an to trace out details4 ,8 talk+ disease is discursiv5ess4 ,! tranquil talk] nev] hurries4 ,he has all ! "t !re is4 ,if y are v busy he w wait4 ,he is uni=mly mod]ate & polite4 ,he is a r>e comb9ation ( oil1 milk1 & rose-wat]4 ,he w\ld n h>m a syllable ( ! ,engli% language4 ,8 talk+ has a soporific effect4 ,x acts z a lullaby4 ,8 spee* is l[ & g5tle4 ,he nev] speaks an ill-consid]$ ^w4 ,he *ooses 8 words ) measur$ caution4 ,he is :at is kn[n z a smoo? talk]4 ,! torp$o talk] is ( ! rapid fire explosive v>iety4 ,he bur/s into a conv]sation4 ,he scatt]s labials1 d5tals1 & gutturals 9 all directions4 ,he is a w>-"t talk]1--boom1 bur/1 bang1 ro>1 cra%1 ?ud6 ,he fills ! air ) vocal bullets & syllabic %rapnel4 ,he is trumpet-tongu$1 e>-splitt+1 deaf5+4 ,he fires promiscu\sly at all 8 he>]s4 ,he r5ds ! skies asund]4 ,he is no?+ if n vocif]\s1 /5torian1 lu/y4 ,he demoli%es e idea 9 8 way4 ,he is a ,napoleon ( words4 ,! tangl$ talk] nev] gets any?+ q /raight4 ,he inevitably spoils ! be/ /ory4 ,he always beg9s at ! wrong end4 ,despite y\r prote/s ( face & mann] he talks on4 ,he talks inopportunely4 ,he becomes inextricably confus$4 ,he is weak 9 /ati/ics4 ,he has no memory = names or places4 ,he lacks n flu5cy b accuracy4 ,he is a twi/$ talk]4 ,! triumphant talk] lays claim to ! /> "p 9 any conv]sation4 ,he likes no?+ bett] ?an to drive home 8 po9t & !n look ab\t exult+ly4 ,he says gleefully1 ,i told y s4 ,t he c ev] be wrong is inconceivable to him4 ,he kn[s ! facts s9ce he c readily manufacture !m himself4 ,he is self-satisfi$1 = 9 8 own op9ion he has nev] lo/ an argum5t4 ,he is a brave & bold talk]4 ,^!1 !n1 are "s types ( talk+ :i* we %\ld n emulate4 ,/udy ! li/ c>efully--! tiresome talk]1 ! trifl+ talk]1 ! t$i\s talk]1 ! tattl+ talk]1 ! tautological talk]1 ! t5aci\s talk]1 ! tactless talk]1 ! temp]am5tal talk]1 ! tantaliz+ talk]1 ! tangl$ talk]1 ! triumphant talk]--& gu>d y\rself dilig5tly aga9/ ! faults :i* !y repres5t4 ,talk+ %\ld always be a pleasure to ! speak] & li/5]1 nev] a bore4 ,,talk]s ,,& ,,talk+ ,conv]sation is n a v]bal nor vocal conte/1 b a mutual meet+ ( m9ds4 ,x is n a monologue1 b a reciprocal ex*ange ( ideas4 ,!re are c>d9al rules :i* ev]yone %\ld obs]ve 9 conv]sation4 ,! fir/ ( ^! is to be prep>$ always to give c\rte\s & consid]ate att5tion to ! ideas ( o!rs4 ,!re is no bett] way to cultivate y\r own conv]sational p[]s ?an to tra9 y\rself fir/ to be an int]e/+ & sympa!tic li/5]4 ,x is 9 bad ta/e to int]rupt a speak]4 ,?is is a common fault :i* %\ld be resolutely gu>d$ aga9/4 ,moreov]1 y\r own opportunity to speak w %ortly come if y h pati5ce1 :5 y may reasonably expect to receive ! same un9t]rupt$ att5tion :i* y h giv5 to o!rs4 ,nev] all[ y\rself to monopolize a conv]sation4 ,?is is a =m ( selfi%ness practic$ by _m p]sons app>5tly unaw>e ( be+ ill-mann]$4 ,x is inexcusably bad ta/e to tell unduly long /ories or l5g?y p]sonal exp]i5ces4 ,if y _c abridge a /ory to reasonable dim5sions1 x w\ld be bett] to omit x entirely4 ,! habitual long-/ory tell] may easily become a bore4 ,avoid ! habit ( eag]ly mat*+ ! o!r p]son's /ory or exp]i5ce ) "o ( y\r own4 ,!re is no?+ m disconc]t+ to a speak] ?an to obs]ve ! li/5] impati5tly wait+ to plunge headlong into ! conv]sation ) "s m>vell\s tale4 ,be p>ticul>ly c>eful n to outdo ano!r speak] 9 relat+ y\r own exp]i5ces4 ,if1 = in/ance1 he has j told h[ he caught fifty fi% ^u a rec5t trip1 d n succumb to ! temptation to tell ( ! "t y caught fifty-"o4 ,be c>eful n to give unsolicit$ advice4 ,x has be5 well said t advice :i* co/s no?+ is wor? :at x co/s4 ,if p desire y\r c\nsel !y w probably ask = x1 9 :i* case !y w be m likely to appreciate :at y h to tell !m4 ,d n volunt>ily recomm5d doctors1 d5ti/s1 o/eopa?s1 pills1 c(fee sub/itutes1 heal? foods1 heal? resorts1 or panaceas = ! ills ( mank9d4 ,if y c be ( s]vice to o!rs 9 ^! p>ticul> respects1 x w be :5 y are specifically ask$ = su* in=mation4 ,x is mo/ imprud5t to c>ry an argum5t to extremes4 ,if y obs]ve an unwill+ness 9 ! o!r p]son to be conv9c$ by :at y say1 y _h bett] turn to ano!r subject4 ,conv]sation %\ld nev] resolve itself into controv]sial debate4 ,x is well to avoid discursiv5ess1 ov]-use ( p>5!ses1 & positiv5ess ( /atem5t4 ,keep y\r desires & feel+s f ov]-color+ y\r views4 ,a flexible attitude ( m9d is m likely to w9 an oppon5t to y\r way ( ?9k+4 ,take special pa9s to ent] into ! m9ds & feel+s ( o!rs4 ,be int]e/$ 9 :at !y want to talk ab\t4 ,let y\r int]e/ be deep & s9c]e4 ,adopt ! "r tone1 temp]1 & retic5ce 9 y\r conv]sation4 ,y %\ld accu/om y\rself to look at ?+s f ! o!r p]son's /&po9t4 ,x is surpris+ h[ ?is habit enl>ges ! vision & gives a *>itabl5ess to spee* :i* might o!rwise be abs5t4 ,x is well to rememb] t no p]son c possibly h a monopoly ( k ^u any subject4 ,good conv]sation dem&s re/ra9t1 adaptability1 & reasonable brevity4 ,!re is an appall+ wa/e ( words on all sides1 h5ce y %\ld con/antly gu>d y\rself aga9/ ?is fault4 ,:5 !re is no?+ wor?-:ile to say1 ! be/ sub/itute is sil5ce4 ,practice self-discipl9e 9 talk+4 ,correct any fault 9 y\rself ! in/ant y recognize x4 ,if1 = example1 y realize t y are talk+ at too great l5g?1 /op x at once4 ,%\ld y feel t y are n giv+ int]e/$ att5tion to ! speak]1 *eck y\r m9d-w&]+ imm$iately & conc5trate ^u :at is be+ said4 ,d n be always sett+ o!r p "r4 ,?is is a ?ankless z well z useless task4 ,!y probably d n want y\r assi/ance1 or !y w\ld ask = x4 ,besides mo/ p are s5sitive ab\t _! %ortcom+s1 & pref] to get help & c\nsel 9 private4 ,!re is no m important sugge/ion ?an to rule y\r moods4 ,(ttimes ! feel+s run away ) ! judgm5t4 ,:at y ?9k & say today may be due to y\r pres5t mood1 r ?an to matur$ judgm5t4 ,let y\r common s5se pr$om9ate at all times4 ,x is n well to give too /rong expression to y\r likes & dislikes4 ,^!1 l all y\r feel+s1 %\ld be gov]n$ ) a firm h&4 ,op9ions advanc$ ) too mu* emphasis may easily fail to impress o!r m9ds4 ,rememb] always t y\r greate/ ally is tru?4 ,!re=e frankly & fai?fully exam9e y\r important op9ions be=e giv+ !m expression4 ,resi/ ! desire to be prom95t 9 conv]sation1 or to say clev] & surpris+ ?+s4 ,?is is sometimes difficult to d1 b x is ! only safe c\rse to foll[4 ,if y h some?+ brilliant or wor?-:ile to say1 x w be be/ said spontane\sly & ) due mode/y4 ,b if !re is no suitable opportunity to say x1 put x back 9 y\r m9d :]e x may improve ) age4 ,egotism is taboo 9 polite society4 ,! sugge/ion t no?+ %\ld be all[$ to pass ! lips t *>ity w\ld *eck is invaluable advice4 ,x is un=tunately all too common to give ha/y & h>% expression to p]sonal op9ions & criticisms4 ,retic5ce is "o ( ! mo/ ess5tial conditions ( long fri5d%ip4 ,judgm5t & tact are necess>y to good conv]sation4 ,x is n well to ask _m que/ions1 & !n only ^? ( a g5]al "*4 ,curiosity %\ld be curb$4 ,q prop]ly p res5t inquisitiv5ess4 ,! be/ way to cultivate ! r>e grace ( judgm5t is to be m9dful ( y\r own faults & to correct !m ) all spe$ & ?or\ghness4 ,! ^w talk is (t5 us$ 9 a d]ogatory s5se1 & we he> su* expressions z all talk1 empty talk1 & idle talk4 ,b z ev]yone talks1 we %\ld all d our utmo/ to set a high example to o!rs ( ! correct use ( spee*4 ,x is always bett] to talk too little ?an too mu*4 ,nev] talk = m]e talk+'s sake4 ,avoid be+ artificial or p$antic4 ,don't antagonize1 dogmatize1 moralize1 attitud9ize1 nor criticise4 ,talk 9 poise1--quietly1 delib]ately1 s9c]ely1 & y w nev] lack an att5tive audi5ce4 ,,phrases ,,= ,,talk]s ,x is said ( ,macaulay t he nev] all[$ a s5t5ce to pass mu/] until x 0 z good z he c\ld make x4 ,he w\ld write & rewrite1 & ev5 con/ruct a p>agraph or a :ole *apt]1 9 ord] to secure a m lucid & satisfactory arrangem5t4 ,he wrote j s mu* ea* day1 usually an av]age ( six pages1 & ?is manuscript 0 s eras$ & correct$ t x 0 f9ally compress$ into two pages ( pr9t4 ,! ma/]s ( ,engli% prose h be5 great work]s4 ,/ev5son & o!rs l him gave h\rs & days to ! /udy ( words1 phrases1 & s5t5ces4 ,?r\gh unwe>i$ application to ! art ( rhetorical composition !y ultimately won fame z writ]s4 ,! ambiti\s /ud5t ( spee* culture1 :e!r = use 9 conv]sation or 9 public1 w d well to emulate ! example ( su* great writ]s4 ,"o ( ! be/ ways to build a l>ge vocabul>y is to note useful & /rik+ phrases 9 "o's g5]al read+4 ,x is advisable to jot d[n su* phrases 9 a note-book1 & to read !m al\d f "t to "t4 ,su* phrases may be classifi$ accord+ to _! p>ticul> application1--to bus9ess1 politics1 music1 education1 lit]ature1 or ! drama4 ,x is n recomm5d$ t su* phrases %\ld be consci\sly dragg$ into conv]sation1 b ! practice ( c>efully obs]v+ felicit\s phrases1 & ( not+ !m 9 writ+1 cultivates ! ta/e = bett] words & a s5se ( discrim9ation 9 _! use4 ,_m phrases not$ & /udi$ 9 ?is way w unconsci\sly f9d _! way into "o's expression4 ,! li/ ( phrases :i* foll[s is (f]$ z m]ely sugge/ive4 ,9 read+ ! phrases al\d x is well to ?9k cle>ly :at ea* "o means1 & to fit x into a s5t5ce ( "o's own mak+4 ,?is simple ex]cise1 practic$ = a few weeks1 w produce surpris+ results by way ( increas$ facility & flexibility ( ,engli% /yle4 ,x is obvi\sly desirable ,i c well imag9e ,broadly speak+ ,an admirable idea ,9 a lit]al s5se ,by %e] =ce ( g5ius ,y c imag9e 8 *agr9 ,i haz>d a guess ,x *all5ges belief ,he has an inscrutable face ,v f]tile 9 res\rce ,i am loa? to believe ,x is ess5tially undignifi$ ,example is s contagi\s ,i am n 9 h] confid5ce ,tak5 9 ! aggregate ,x is a repro( to %all[ness ,!re is a misconception "h ,i /rongly suspect x s ,he 0 cov]$ ) confusion ,x 0 a j rebuke ,a pleas+ in/ance ( ?is ,x l5ds dignity to life ,%e has a desultory lik+ = music ,x seems incr$ible ,a k9d ( deta*$ ideal ,x blunts ! f9] s5sibilities ,beyond "q or cavil ,a well-f\nd$ suspicion ,x has elicit$ great praise ,!y are l&m>ks 9 memory ,sup]human vigor & activity ,a v5]able & int]e/+ figure ,x is curi\s & int]e/+ ,gives ! impression ( alo(ness ,p]fectly void ( (f5ce ,reg>d ) misgiv+ ,a /roke ( pr(essional luck ,an unscrupul\s adv5tur] ,he spoke ) extreme retic5ce ,robu/ common s5se ,defici5t 9 amiability ,done ) *>act]i/ic ?or\ghness ,a ve9 ( philan?ropic zeal ,def9ite1 tangible1 & practical ,too mu* effusive declamation ,a man ( ke5 ambition ,x gives inf9ite ze/ ,s+ul> qualifications = public life ,!y are bitt]ly ho/ile ,! despair ( ! (ficial wire-pull] ,bl9d & unreason+ oppon5t ,ignoble /rife = p[] ,surr\nd$ by a cohort ( admir+ fri5ds ,9 an imp]ative voice ,m>k$ by copi\sness & vivacity ,t\*$ ) sombre dignity ,a ridicul\s misconception ,habitual au/]ity ( demeanor ,o/5tation & lavi% exp5diture ,a p]son ( exquisite tact ,intol]ant ( bumpti\sness ,! obvi\s dang] ( dally+ ,?is 0 grossly ov]/at$ ,a mass ( calumny & exagg]ation ,inimical to religion ,fraught ) p]il ,i v5ture to ask ,attribut$ to m5tal decrepitude ,a /range ph5om5a ,x argues a bl9d fai? ,insatiable :irl ( excitem5t ,a sub/ratum ( tru? ,"u "s conceivable circum/ances ,bubbl+ ov] ) infecti\s joy ,frigid dignity & arrogant res]ve ,a pr(\nd contempt ,! f9e art ( hospitality ,grim morsels ( philosophy ,a t+e ( sorr[ness & jeal\sy ,due to ignorance & b>b>ism ,grave & mon/r\s sc&al ,a spl5did in/ance ( self-devotion ,amus+ly exemplifi$ 9 ?is case ,recogniz$ & p[]ful elem5t ,a symbol ( re/ra9t ,an utt]ly fallaci\s idea ,9 rapid & /rik+ succession ,we le>n f /]n exp]i5ce ,pictures ( an inspir$ imag9ation ,an a/oni%+ outbreak ,soo?+ words ( sympa?y ,a r bold ass]tion ,! mo/ en?usia/ic adh]5ts ,m]e tepid conviction ,em95tly qualifi$ = ! task ,almo/ sup]natural *>m ,9 gl[+ & exagg]at$ phrases ,some:at ri* & au/]e ,an inexhau/ible !me ,grave & und5iable faults ,p]fectly *os5 language ,all ! *>act]i/ics ( a mob ,giv5 to gr&iloqu5t phrase ,peculi> ve9 ( s>casm ,froze l ice & cut l /eel ,a g5]\s tribute to an em95t rival ,cold & /ately composure ,fi]y & passionate en?usiasm ,extraord9>y viol5ce ( nature ,a brilliant & delightful play ,r>e & /rik+ comb9ation ,preem95tly qualifi$ = ! "p ,mod]ate & cauti\s cons]vatism ,d>+ p]v]sions ( ju/ice ,devoid ( rhetorical device ,z a great ?9k] has obs]v$ ,almo/ morbid s5sitiv5ess ,discreetly /ifl$ yawn ,he 0 dumb ) wond] ,sc>cely less famili> ,delightfully *>act]i/ic ,x 0 a pr(\nd conviction ,greatly conceiv$ & express$ ,bl9d$ by its brightness ,i h cudgell$ my memory ,expos$ to imm95t p]il ,scre5+ a brea* ( etiquette ,by a natural transition ,spl5did anticipations ( success ,a v laudable attempt ,laps$ into complete oblivion ,) mo/ di/+ui%$ success ,l emb>k+ on a %oreless sea ,a really pretty imitation ,unless ,i greatly err ,undaunt$ by repeat$ failure ,became a t]m ( reproa* ,an epo*-mak+ a*ievem5t ,9 ! guise ( v]bal nons5se ,receiv$ ) cordial sympa?y ,) ! mo/ obvi\s s9c]ity ,held =? ) flu5cy & ze/ ,graci\s solicitude ,punctili\sly civil & polite ,an air ( sph9x-l my/]y ,consum$ by zeal ,await$ ) lively int]e/ ,sl$ge-hamm] bl[s aga9/ humbug ,?is recalls a happy retort ,preem95tly a case 9 po9t ,exquisite precision & f9i% ,incomp>ably bett] in=m$ ,a ke5 eye = incongruities ,polite to ! po9t ( def]5ce ,to ! la/ degree improbable ,p ) rampant prejudices ,a model ( *ivalr\s propriety ,by way ( digression ,a spl5did acquisition ,s+ul>ly attractive fa%ion ,a k9d ( unconsci\s conspiracy ,amid engross+ dem&s ,,! ,,speak+ ,,voice ,!re is a widespread ne$ = a m ?or\gh cultivation ( ! speak+ voice4 ,x is a/oni%+ h[ few p]sons give specific att5tion to ?is important subject4 ,on all sides we are subject$ to voices t are disagreeable & /rid5t4 ,x is ! exception to he> a voice t is musical & well-modulat$4 ,mo/ p make too mu* physical ef=t 9 speak+4 ,!y tight5 ! muscles ( ! ?roat & m\?1 in/ead ( lib]at+ ^! muscles & all[+ ! voice to fl[ naturally & h>moni\sly4 ,! rem$y = ?is common fault ( vocal t5sion is to relax all ! muscles us$ 9 spee*4 ,?is is easily accompli%$ by means ( a little daily practice4 ,! fir/ ?+ to keep 9 m9d is t we %\ld speak ?r\gh ! ?roat & n f x4 ,a musical quality ( voice dep5ds *iefly ^u direct+ ! tone t[>ds ! h>d palate1 or ! bony ar* above ! upp] tee?4 ,f ?is "p ( ! m\? ! voice acquires mu* ( its resonance4 ,an excell5t ex]cise = ?roat relaxation is yawn+4 ,x is n necess>y to wait until a real yawn pres5ts itself1 b frequ5t practice 9 imitat+ a yawn may be indulg$ 9 ) good results4 ,imm$iately aft] practic+ ! yawn1 x is advisable to te/ ! voice1 ei!r 9 speak+ or 9 read+1 to obs]ve improvem5t 9 fre$om ( tone4 ,x is n desirable to use ! voice :]e !re is l\d noise by way ( opposition4 ,_m a good voice has be5 ru9$ due to ! habit ( cont9u\s talk+ on ! /reet or else:]e amid clatt] & hubbub4 ,"u su* circum/ances x is bett] to re/ ! voice1 s9ce 9 any conte/ ( ! k9d ! voice w almo/ surely be vanqui%$4 ,:at we ne$ 9 our daily conv]sation is less emphasis1 & m quietness & non-resi/ance4 ,we ne$ less eag]ness & m vivacity & v>iety4 ,we ne$ a settl$ equanimity ( m9d t does n deprive u ( our animation1 b saves u f ! petty irritations ( ev]yday life4 ,we ne$1 9 %ort1 m poise & self-control 9 our way ( speak+4 ,x is well to rememb] t few ?+s we say are ( su* importance z to require emphasis4 ,! ?\ght %\ld be its own recomm5dation4 ,b if emphasis be necess>y1 let x be by ! intellectual means ( paus+ or inflection1 r ?an ) ! %\ld]s or ! cl5*$ fi/4 ,a v disagreeable & common fault is nasality1 or talk+ ?r\gh ! nose4 ,_m p]sons are guilty ( ?is :o lea/ suspect x4 ,?is habit is s easily & unconsci\sly acquir$ t ev]yone %\ld be on /rict gu>d aga9/ x4 ,almo/ equally disagreeable is ! fault ( ?roat9ess1 caus$ by hold+ ! muscles ( ! ?roat in/ead ( relax+ !m4 ,! be/ tones ( ! speak+ voice are ! middle & l[ keys4 ,^! %\ld be us$ exclusively 9 daily conv]sation4 ,! use ( high pit* is due to habit or temp]am5t1 b may be ov]come ?r\gh judici\s practice4 ,! objection to a high-key$ voice is n only t x is disagreeable to ! li/5]1 b puts ! speak] out ( tune ) 8 audi5ce4 ,a good speak+ voice %\ld possess ! qualities ( purity1 resonance1 flexibility1 r\ndness1 brilliancy1 & adequate p[]4 ,^! qualities c be rapidly develop$ by daily read+ al\d = t5 m9utes1 giv+ special att5tion to "o quality at a "t4 ,a few weeks1 assidu\s practice w produce mo/ gratify+ results4 ,! voice gr[s ?r\gh use1 & x gr[s precisely 9 ! way x is habitually us$4 ,di/9ct articulation & correct pronunciation are indications ( cultivat$ spee*4 ,p$antry %\ld be avoid$1 b e aspirant to correct spee* %\ld be a /ud5t ( ! diction>y4 ,a writ] has giv5 ?is good c\nsel3 ,resolve t y w nev] use an incorrect1 an inelegant1 or a vulg> phrase or ^w1 9 any society :atev]4 ,if y are gift$ ) wit1 y w soon f9d t x is easy to give x f> bett] po9t & =ce 9 pure ,engli% ?an ?r\gh any o!r m$ium1 & t brilliant ?\ghts make ! deepe/ impressions :5 well word$4 ,h[ev] great x may be1 ! labor is nev] lo/ :i* e>ns = y ! reputation ( "o :o habitually uses ! language ( a g5tleman1 or ( a lady4 ,x is difficult = ^? :o h n frequ5t opportunities = conv]sation ) well-educat$ p1 to avoid us+ expressions :i* are n curr5t 9 society1 al?\gh !y may be ( common occurr5ce 9 books4 ,z !y are (t5 le>n$ f novels1 x w be well = ! read] to rememb] t ev5 9 ! be/ ( su* works dialogues are seldom su/a9$ 9 a tone :i* w\ld n appe> affect$ 9 ord9>y life4 ,?is fault 9 conv]sation is ! mo/ difficult ( all to am5d1 & x is un=tunately ! "o to :i* ^? :o /rive to express !mselves correctly are peculi>ly liable4 ,its effect is bad1 = ?\gh x is n l slang1 vulg> 9 itself1 x betrays an ef=t to conceal vulg>ity4 ,x may g5]ally be rem$i$ by avoid+ any ^w or phrase :i* y may suspect y\rself ( us+ = ! purpose ( creat+ an effect4 ,:5ev] y imag9e t ! employm5t ( any m]e ^w or s5t5ce w convey ! impression t y are well in=m$1 sub/itute = x "s simple expression4 ,if y are n positively c]ta9 z to ! pronunciation ( a ^w1 nev] use x4 ,if ! temptation be great1 resi/ x2 =1 rely ^u x1 if !re be 9 y\r m9d ! slighte/ d\bt on ! subject1 y w c]ta9ly make a mi/ake4 ,nev] use a =eign ^w :5 its mean+ c be giv5 9 ,engli%1 & rememb] t x is bo? rude & silly to say any?+ to any p]son :o possibly may n und]/& x4 ,b nev] attempt1 "u any circum/ances :atev]1 to utt] a =eign ^w1 unless y h le>n$ to pron\nce correctly ! language to :i* x belongs4 ,!re is ne$ = ! admonition to op5 ! m\? well4 ,_m p speak ) half-clos$ tee?1 ! result be+ t ! quality ( voice & correctness ( pronunciation are greatly impair$4 ,consonants & v[els %\ld be giv5 prop] significance4 ,muffl$ spee* is almo/ z objectionable z /amm]+4 ,x enhances ! pleasure & quality ( conv]sation to speak 9 delib]ate /yle4 ,rapidity ( utt]ance (t5 leads a speak] into su* faults z indi/9ctness1 monotony1 & incorrect brea?+4 ,delib]ate speak+ conf]s _m advantages1 n ! lea/ ( :i* is increas$ pleasure to ! li/5]4 ,_m voices are too ?9 9 quality4 ,!y fail to c>ry conviction ev5 :5 ! ?\ght is ( sup]ior "*4 ,! rem$y "h is to give special att5tion to ! developm5t ( deep tones4 ,"o ( ! be/ ex]cises = ?is purpose is to practice = a few m9utes daily ^u ! v[el s\nd ,o1 endeavor+ to make x full1 deep1 & melodi\s4 ,= all-r\nd vocal developm5t ?is practice %\ld be done ) v>i$ =ce & inflection1 & on high z well z l[ keys ( ! voice4 ,! be/ rem$y = a weak voice is to practice daily ^u explosives1 expell+ ! pr9cipal v[el s\nds1 on v>i\s keys1 us+ ! abdom9al muscles ?r\gh\t4 ,ano!r good ex]cise is to read al\d :ile walk+ up/airs or uphill4 ,z ^! ex]cises are some:at extreme1 ! /ud5t is recomm5d$ to practice !m prud5tly4 ,correct brea?+ is fundam5tal to correct & agreeable speak+4 ,! brea?+ app>atus %\ld be br\ght "u control by daily practice ^u ex]cises prescrib$ 9 any /&>d book on elocution4 ,pure tone ( voice dep5ds ^u ! ability to conv]t into tone e p>ticle ( brea? us$4 ,aspirat$ voice1 9 :i* "s ( ! brea? is all[$ to escape unvocaliz$1 is injuri\s to ! ?roat1 & unpleasant to ! li/5+ e>4 ,! speak]1 :e!r 9 conv]sation or 9 public1 %\ld try always to speak ) an adequate supply ( brea?4 ,delib]ate utt]ance w give ! necess>y opportunity to repl5i% ! lungs1 s t ! speak] w n suff] f unnecess>y fatigue4 ,ne$less to say1 ! habit %\ld be =m$ ( brea?+ ?r\gh ! nose :5 9 repose4 ,!re is a voice ( unusual r\ndness & fulness kn[n z ! orotund1 :i* is indisp5sable to ! public speak]4 ,x is simple1 pure tone1 r\nd$ out into great] fulness4 ,x is produc$ ma9ly by an increas$ resonance ( ! *e/ & m\? cavities1 & a m vigor\s action ( ! abdom9al muscles4 ,x has ! "* ( fulness1 b x is n necess>ily a l\d tone4 ,x is 9 no s5se artificial1 b simply an enl>gem5t ( ! natural conv]sational voice4 ,! use ( ! orotund voice v>ies accord+ to ! int5sity ( ! ?\ght & feel+ be+ express$4 ,x is us$ 9 language ( great dignity1 p[]1 gr&eur1 & sublimity4 ,x is appropriate 9 c]ta9 =ms ( public pray] & ,bible read+4 ,x enables ! public speak] to v>y f 8 conv]sational /yle4 ,x gives va/ly increas$ scope & p[]1 by enabl+ ! speak] to br+ into play all ! res\rces ( vocal =ce & int5sity4 ,:]e resonance ( voice is lack+1 x c be rapidly develop$ by means ( humm+ ! lett] m1 ) lips clos$1 & endeavor+ to make ! face vibrate4 ,! tone %\ld be kept well =w>d ?r\gh\t ! ex]cise1 press+ firmly aga9/ ! lips & h>d palate4 ,lat] ! ex]cise may beg9 ) ! humm+ m1 & be develop$1 :ile ! lips are op5$ gradually1 into ! tone ( ah1 /ill aim+ to ma9ta9 ! orig9al resonance4 ,! speak+ voice is capable ( mo/ wond]ful developm5t4 ,!re is a duty devolv+ ^u ev]yone to cultivate beauty ( vocal utt]ance & diction4 ,crudities ( spee* s commonly 9 evid5ce are ma9ly due to c>elessness & neglect4 ,x is a hopeful sign1 h[ev]1 t great] att5tion is n[ be+ giv5 to ?is important subject ?an h]et(ore4 ,surely !re is no?+ m important ?an ! developm5t ( ! pr9cipal in/rum5t by :i* m5 communicate ) "o ano!r4 ,z ,/ory says3 ,o1 h[ our organ c speak ) its _m & wond]ful voices6-- ,play on ! s(t lute ( love1 bl[ ! l\d trumpet ( w>1 ,s+ ) ! high sesquialt]1 or1 draw+ its full diapason1 ,%ake all ! air ) ! gr& /orm ( its p$als & /ops4 ,,h[ ,,to ,,tell ,a ,,/ory ,someone has wittily said t only ^? 9 _! anecdotage %\ld tell /ories4 ,de ,qu9cey want$ all /ory-tell]s to be subm]g$ 9 a horse-pond1 or treat$ 9 ! same mann] z mad dogs4 ,b /ory-tell+ has its legitimate & appropriate use1 & if c]ta9 rules are obs]v$ may give add$ *>m to conv]sation & public speak+4 ,x requires a f9e discrim9ation to "k :5 to tell a /ory1 & :5 n to tell "o ?\gh x is urg+ itself to be express$4 ,few m5 h ! r>e gift ( *oos+ ! "r /ory = ! p>ticul> occasion4 ,_m m5 h no difficulty 9 tell+ /ories t are insuff]ably long1 po9tless1 & un9t]e/+4 ,we h all be5 victims ( a c]ta9 type ( public speak] :o beg9s by say+1 ,n[ ,i don't want to bore y ) a long /ory1 b ?is is s good1 etc41 or ,an incid5t occurr$ at ! ,am]ican ,consulate 9 ,%anghai1 :i* rem9ds me ( an awfully good /ory1 etc4 ,:5 a speak] prefaces 8 rem>ks ) "s su* s5t5ces z ^!1 we "k we are 9 = an uncom=table "t4 ,z f> z possible a /ory %\ld be new1 clev]1 %ort1 simple1 in(f5sive1 & appropriate4 ,z su* /ories are sc>ce1 x is advisable to set !m d[n1 :5 f\nd1 9 a special note-book = conv5i5t ref]5ce4 ,x is said t ,*auncey ,m4 ,depew1 "o ( ! mo/ gift$ ( aft]-d9n] speak]s1 0 = _m ye>s 9 ! habit ( keep+ a set ( scrap-books 9 :i* 7 pres]v$ /ories & o!r int]e/+ data clipp$ f newspap]s & magaz9es4 ,^! 7 s classifi$ t he c\ld on %ort notice refre% 8 m9d ) ample mat]ial ^u almo/ any g5]al subject4 ,anyone :o essays to tell a /ory %\ld h x cle>ly 9 m9d4 ,x is fatal = a speak] to hesitate midway 9 a /ory1 apologize = n kn[+ x bett]1 av[ t x 0 mu* m humor\s :5 told to him1 & 9 o!r ways to ann\nce 8 %ortcom+s4 ,if he _c tell a /ory flu5tly & int]e/+ly1 he %\ld fir/ practice x on 8 own family--provid$ !y w tol]ate x4 ,"s /ories %\ld be committ$ to memory1 especially :]e ! po9t ( humor dep5ds ^u exact phraseology4 ,9 su* case1 x requires "s tra9+ & exp]i5ce to disguise ! memoriz$ ef=t4 ,a /ory l ! foll[+1 = obvi\s reasons1 %\ld be ?or\ghly memoriz$3 ,! longe/ s]mon on record occupi$ ?ree h\rs & a half4 ,b ! %orte/ s]mon 0 t ( a prea*] :o spoke = "o m9ute on ! text3 ,man is born unto tr\ble z ! sp>ks fly upw>d4 ,he said3 ,i %all divide my disc\rse into ?ree heads3 7#a7 ,man's +ress into ! _w2 7#b7 ,8 progress ?r\gh ! _w2 7#c7 ,8 egress out ( ! _w4 ,fir/ly1 ,8 +ress into ! _w is nak$ & b>e4 ,secondly1 ,8 progress ?r\gh ! _w is tr\ble & c>e4 ,?irdly1 ,8 egress out ( ! _w is nobody kn[s :]e4 ,to conclude3 ,if we live well "h1 we %all live well !re4 ,i c tell y no m if ,i prea* a :ole ye>4 ,! collection w n[ be tak5 up4 ,dialect /ories are usually r difficult1 & %\ld n z a g5]al ?+ be attempt$ by beg9n]s4 ,z a matt] ( fact1 few p]sons "k h[ to speak su* dialects z ,iri%1 ,scot*1 ,g]man1 ,cockney1 & negro )\t undue exagg]ation4 ,= mo/ occasions x is well to keep to simple /ories c\*$ 9 pla9 ,engli%4 ,a /ory %\ld be told 9 simple1 conv]sational /yle4 ,conc5tration ^u ! /ory1 & a s9c]e desire to give pleasure to ! he>]s1 w keep ! speak] free f self-consci\sness4 ,ne$less to say he %\ld n be ! fir/ to laugh at 8 own /ory4 ,sometimes 9 tell+ a humor\s anecdote to an audi5ce a speak] secures ! greate/ effect by ma9ta9+ an expression ( extreme gravity4 ,no matt] h[ successful "o may be 9 tell+ /ories1 he %\ld avoid tell+ too _m4 ,a man :o is acc\nt$ brilliant & ent]ta9+ may become an insuff]able bore by cont9u+ to tell /ories :5 ! he>]s h become satiat$4 ,( all speak]s1 ! /ory-tell] %\ld keep 8 eyes on 8 entire audi5ce & be al]t to detect ! slighte/ signs ( we>9ess4 ,x is sup]flu\s to say t a /ory %\ld nev] be told :i* 9 any way might give (f5ce4 ,! speak] may raise a laugh1 b lose a fri5d4 ,h5ce x is t /ories ab\t /amm]]s1 r$-head$ p1 mo!rs-9-law1 & ! l1 %\ld always be *os5 ) discrim9ation4 ,g5]ally ! mo/ effective /ory is "o 9 :i* ! po9t ( humor is n disclos$ until ! v la/ words1 z 9 ! foll[+3 ,an old color$ man 0 br\ght up be=e a c\ntry judge4 ,je?ro1 said ! judge1 y are accus$ ( /eal+ ,g5]al ,johnson's *ick5s4 ,h y any witnesses8 ,no1 sah1 old ,je?ro answ]$1 haughtily2 ,i hab n1 sah4 ,i nev] /eal *ick5s befo' witnesses4 ,?is is a simil> example1 told by ,prime ,m9i/] ,asqui?3 ,an ,engli% pr(essor wrote on ! blackbo>d 9 8 laboratory1 ,pr(essor ,blank in=ms 8 /ud5ts t he has ?is day be5 appo9t$ honor>y physician to 8 ,maje/y1 ,k+ ,george4 ,dur+ ! morn+ he _h "s occasion to leave ! room1 & f\nd on 8 return t "s /ud5t wag _h add$ ! words1 ,god save ! ,k+6 ,h5ry ,w4 ,grady 0 a facile /ory-tell]4 ,"o ( 8 be/ /ories 0 z foll[s3 ,!re 0 an old prea*] once :o told "s boys ( ! ,bible lesson he 0 go+ to read 9 ! morn+4 ,! boys1 f9d+ ! place1 glu$ toge!r ! connect+ pages4 ,! next morn+ he read on ! bottom ( "o page3 ',:5 ,noah 0 "o hundr$ & tw5ty ye>s old he took unto himself a wife1 :o 0'--!n turn+ ! page--'"o hundr$ & =ty cubits long1 =ty cubits wide1 built ( goph]wood1 & cov]$ ) pit* inside & out4' ,he 0 naturally puzzl$ at ?is4 ,he read x aga91 v]ifi$ x1 & !n said3 ',my fri5ds1 ?is is ! fir/ "t ,i ev] met ?is 9 ! ,bible1 b ,i accept x z an evid5ce ( ! ass]tion t we are fe>fully & wond]fully made4' ,p]sonalities bas$ ^u s>casm or invective are always att5d$ ) dang]1 b good-humor$ bant]+ may be us$ ^u occasion ) mo/ happy results4 ,z an in/ance ( ?is1 !re is a /ory ( an annual d9n] at :i* ,mr4 ,*oate 0 set d[n = ! toa/1 ,! ,navy1 & ,mr4 ,depew 0 to respond to ,! ,army4 ,mr4 ,depew began by say+1 ,x's well to h a speciali/3 t's :y ,*oate is "h to speak ab\t ! ,navy4 ,we met at ! :>f once & ,i did n see him aga9 till we rea*$ ,liv]pool4 ,:5 ,i ask$ h[ he felt he said he ?\ght he w\ld h enjoy$ ! trip ov] if he _h _h any ocean air4 ,yes1 y want to he> ,*oate on ! ,navy4 ,:5 x 0 ,mr4 ,*oate's turn to speak1 he said3 ,i've he>d ,depew hail$ z ! greate/ aft]-d9n] speak]4 ,if aft]-d9n] speak+1 z ,i h he>d x describ$ & z ,i believe x to be1 is ! art ( say+ no?+ at all1 !n ,mr4 ,depew is ! mo/ m>vel\s speak] 9 ! univ]se4 ,! m$ical pr(ession c be assail$ ) impunity1 s9ce !y h long s9ce gr[n accu/om$ to x4 ,!re is a /ory ( a "y labor] :o1 on 8 way to 8 day's "w1 call$ at ! regi/r>'s (fice to regi/] 8 fa!r's dea?4 ,:5 ! (ficial ask$ ! date ( ! ev5t1 ! son repli$1 ,he a9't dead yet1 b he'll be dead be=e night1 s ,i ?\ght x w\ld save me ano!r j\rney if y w\ld put x d[n n[4 ,oh1 t won't d at all1 said ! regi/r>2 p]haps y\r fa!r w live till tomorr[4 ,well1 ,i don't ?9k s1 sir2 ! doctor says z he won't1 & he kn[s :at he has giv5 him4 ,:ile /ories %\ld be us$ sp>+ly1 !re is probably no?+ m effective be=e a popul> audi5ce ?an ! tell+ ( a /ory 9 :i* ! joke is on ! speak] himself4 ,?us3 ,! la/ "t ,i made a spee*1 ,i w5t next day to ! editor ( our local newspap]1 & said1 ,i ?\ght y\r pap] 0 fri5dly to me8 ,! editor said1 ,s x is4 ,:at's ! matt]8 ,well1 ,i said1 ,i made a spee* la/ night1 & y didn't pr9t a s+le l9e ( x ?is morn+4 ,well1 said ! editor1 :at fur!r pro( d y want8 ,_m ( ! be/ & mo/ effective /ories are s]i\s 9 "*4 ,"o t has be5 us$ successfully is ?is3 ,"s g5tlem5 f ! ,we/ 7 excit$ & tr\bl$ ab\t ! commissions or omissions ( ! adm9i/ration4 ,presid5t ,l9coln he>d !m pati5tly1 & !n repli$3 ,g5tlem51 suppose all ! prop]ty y 7 wor? 0 9 gold1 & y _h put x 9 ! h&s ( ,blond9 to c>ry across ! ,niag>a ,riv] on a rope2 w\ld y %ake ! cable1 or keep %\t+ out to him--',blond91 /& up a little /raight]--,blond91 /oop a little m--g a little fa/]--lean a little m to ! nor?--lean a little m to ! s\?8' ,no1 y w\ld hold y\r brea? z well z y\r tongue1 & keep y\r h&s (f until he 0 safe ov]4 ,! ,gov]nm5t is c>ry+ an imm5se weight4 ,untold treasures are 9 our h&s4 ,we are do+ ! v be/ we c4 ,don't badg] u4 ,keep sil5ce1 & we'll get y safe across4 ,punn+ is ( c\rse out ( fa%ion4 ,! be/ pun 9 ! ,engli% language is ,tom ,hood's3 ,he w5t & told ! sexton1 ,& ! sexton toll$ ! bell4 ,dr4 ,johnson said t ! pun 0 ! l[e/ ord] ( wit4 ,newspap]s =m]ly indulg$ 9 x freely4 ,"o editor w\ld say3 ,we don't c>e a /raw :at ,%akespe>e said--a rose by any o!r "n w\ld n smell z :eat4 ,!n ano!r pap] w\ld answ]3 ,su* puns are b>ley tol]able1 !y amaize u1 !y ar\se our righte\s corn1 & !y turn ! public ta/e a-rye4 ,b punn+1 :5 x is unusually clev] & spontane\s1 may be ?or\ghly enjoyable1 z 9 ! foll[+3 ,*ief ,ju/ice ,/ory att5d$ a public d9n] 9 ,bo/on at :i* ,edw>d ,ev]ett 0 pres5t4 ,desir+ to pay a delicate complim5t to ! latt]1 ! le>n$ judge propos$ z a volunte] toa/3 ,fame foll[s m]it :]e ,ev]ett goes4 ,! brilliant s*ol> arose & respond$3 ,to :atev] heights judicial le>n+ may atta9 9 ?is c\ntry1 x w nev] get above "o ,/ory4 ,/ory-tell+ may atta9 ! "* ( a disease1 9 "o :o has a ret5tive memory & a voluble vocabul>y4 ,! =m ( humor kn[n z rep>tee1 h[ev]1 is "o t requires r>e discrim9ation4 ,x %\ld be us$ sp>+ly1 & n at all if x is likely to give (f5ce4 ,beau ,brummell 0 guilty 9 ?is respect1 :5 he 0 once ask$ by a lady if he w\ld take a cup ( tea4 ,?ank y1 said he1 ,i nev] take any?+ b physic4 ,i beg y\r p>don1 said ! ho/ess1 y also take lib]ties4 ,!re is a /ory t ,h5ry ,luttrell _h sat long 9 ! ,iri% ,p>liam5t1 b no "o knew 8 precise age4 ,lady ,holl&1 )\t reg>d to consid]ations ( c\rtesy1 "o day said to him po9t-blank1 ,n[1 we are all dy+ to "k h[ old y are4 ,j tell me4 ,luttrell answ]$ v gravely1 ,x is an odd "q1 b z y1 ,lady ,holl&1 ask x1 ,i don't m9d tell+ y4 ,if ,i live till next ye>1 ,i %all be--devili% old6 ,! art ( /ory-tell+ is n taught specifically1 h5ce !re are comp>atively few p :o c tell a /ory )\t violat+ "s ( ! rules :i* exp]i5ce recomm5ds4 ,b ! "r use ( /ory-tell+ %\ld be enc\rag$ z an ornam5t ( conv]sation1 & a valuable auxili>y to effective public address4 ,_m p might excel z /ory-tell]s if !y w\ld devote a little "t to sugge/ions su* z are (f]$ "h4 ,x is n a difficult art1 b l e o!r subject requires /udy & application4 ,! be/ c\nsel = public speak]s 9 ! matt] ( /ory-tell+ may be summ$ up z foll[s3 ,"k y\r /ory ?or\ghly2 te/ y\r /ory by tell+ x to "s "o 9 advance2 adapt y\r /ory to ! special circum/ances2 be concise1 omitt+ non-ess5tials2 h ready m /ories ?an y int5d to use1 because if y %\ld speak at ! end ( ! li/ y may f9d t y\r be/ /ory has be5 told by a previ\s speak]2 &1 f9ally1 always /op :5 y h made a hit4 ,,talk+ ,,9 ,,salesman%ip ,! salesman dep5ds = 8 success prim>ily ^u 8 talk+ ability4 ,obvi\sly1 :at he (f]s = sale mu/ h intr9sic m]it1 & he %\ld possess a ?or\gh k ( 8 w>es4 ,b 9 ord] to secure ! be/ results f 8 ef=ts1 he mu/ "k h[ to talk well4 ,all ! g5]al requirem5ts = good conv]sation apply equally to ! ne$s ( ! salesman4 ,he %\ld h a pleasant speak+ voice & an agreeable mann]1 a vocabul>y ( useful & appropriate words1 & ! ability to put ?+s cle>ly & conv9c+ly4 ,x %\ld be a gold5 rule ( ! salesman nev] to argue ) ! cu/om]4 ,he may expla9 & reason1 & use all ! p]suasive phraseology at 8 comm&1 b he mu/ n p]mit himself = a s+le in/ant to engage 9 controv]sy4 ,to argue is fatal to successful salesman%ip4 ,!re is no?+ t c be sub/itut$ = a w9n+ p]sonality 9 ! salesman4 ,:at con/itutes su* a p]sonality8 ,*iefly a good voice1 affability ( mann]1 /raight=w>d spee*1 manly be>+1 ! desire to s]ve & please1 prop] attire1 & cleanl9ess ( p]son4 ,^! qualifications come )9 ! rea* ( anyone :o aspires to success 9 salesman%ip4 ,e salesman has unexpect$ problems to solve4 ,a s5sitive or t\*y cu/om] may become unreasonably angry or (f5d$4 ,:at is ! salesman to d8 ,he %\ld "h be p>ticul>ly on 8 gu>d n to %[ ! slighte/ res5tm5t4 ,?\gh he may be :olly guiltless1 he _c af=d to contradict ! cu/om]1 nor to *all5ge him to a vocal duel4 ,if he talks at all1 he %\ld talk quietly & reasonably1 & always ) ! object ( br++ ! cu/om] ar\nd to a favorable po9t ( view4 ,! successful salesman mu/ h tact & discrim9ation4 ,he mu/ "k :5 & h[ to *eck 9 himself ! ^w or phrase :i* is try+ to =ce its way out into expression1 b :i* w\ld 9 ! end prove inadvisable4 ,he mu/ tra9 himself to *oose quickly ! "r & be/ c\rse "u difficult circum/ances4 ,! salesman %\ld give 8 undivid$ att5tion to ! cu/om]4 ,if ! salesman is speak+1 he %\ld speak cle>ly1 directly1 concisely1 & und]/&+ly2 if he is li/5+1 he %\ld li/5 int]e/$ly & ?or\ghly1 ) all 8 p[]s alive & receptive4 ,! salesman %\ld "k :5 to speak & :5 to be sil5t4 ,"s cu/om]s wi% to be told mu*1 o!rs pref] to ?9k = !mselves4 ,he is a wise salesman :o kn[s :5 to be mute4 ,loquacity has (t5 kill$ :at o!rwise might h be5 a good sale4 ,!re is a c]ta9 tone ( voice :i* ! salesman %\ld aim to acquire4 ,x is nei!r high nor l[ 9 pit*4 ,x is agreeable to ! li/5+ e>1 & is almo/ suffici5t 9 itself to w9 ! favorable att5tion ( ! prospective buy]4 ,e salesman %\ld cultivate a musical & well-modulat$ voice z "o ( ! *ief assets 9 salesman%ip4 ,! salesman %\ld cultivate dignity ( spee* & mann]4 ,p g5]ally dislike famili>ity1 jok+1 & horse-play4 ,x is well to assume t ! cu/om] is s]i\s-m9d$1 t he means bus9ess & no?+ else4 ,ne$less to say1 ! tell+ ( long /ories1 or p]sonal exp]i5ces1 has no legitimate place 9 ! bus9ess ( salesman%ip4 ,!re is a prop] "t & place = %ort /ory-tell+4 ,l ev]y?+ else x is all "r 9 its appropriate sett+4 ,l9coln us$ x to advantage1 b once said3 ,i believe ,i h ! popul> reputation ( be+ a /ory-tell]1 b ,i d n des]ve ! "n 9 its g5]al s5se2 = x is n ! /ory itself1 b its purpose1 or effect1 t int]e/s me4 ,i (t5 avoid a long & useless discussion by o!rs1 or a labori\s explanation on my "p1 by a %ort /ory t illu/rates my po9t ( view4 ,! salesman %\ld resolve n to lose 8 poise & agreeabl5ess "u any circum/ances4 ,irritability nev] attracts bus9ess4 ,to say ! "r ?+ 9 ! "r place is desirable1 b x is q z important1 ?\gh m difficult1 to leave unsaid ! wrong ?+ at ! mom5t ( temptation4 ,x is n ! legitimate bus9ess ( ! salesman to =ce ^u a cu/om] :at is really n want$1 b _m times ! cu/om] does n "k :at he wants nor :at he might be able to use4 ,h5ce ! compet5t salesman %\ld "k h[ to influ5ce ! cu/om] t[>ds a favorable decision1 us+ all honorable & approv$ means to br+ ab\t su* a result4 ,! cu/om]'s unfavorable answ] is n to be accept$ always z f9al4 ,he may n cle>ly und]/& ! m]its or uses ( ! article (f]$4 ,he may ne$ ! explanations & sugge/ions ( ! salesman 9 ord] to rea* a "r conclusion4 ,"h x is t ! salesman may fulfill "o ( 8 mo/ important duties4 ,!re is a wide diff]5ce betwe5 self-reliance & obtrusiv5ess4 ,e man %\ld h a full degree ( self-confid5ce4 ,x is ne$$ 9 e walk 9 life4 ,b ! salesman1 m ?an mo/ m51 mu/ h an exceptional degree ( fai? 9 himself & 9 :at he has to sell4 ,?is self-confid5ce1 h[ev]1 is a v diff]5t ?+ f boldness or obtrusiv5ess4 ,c\rtesy & consid]at5ess are c>d9al qualities ( ! well-equipp$ salesman1 b boa/fulness1 glibness1 egotism1 l\dness1 & self-ass]tion1 are z di/a/eful z !y are undesirable4 ,! eloqu5ce & p]suasiv5ess ( sil5ce is n[h]e bett] exemplifi$ ?an 9 ! art ( salesman%ip4 ,"o man says mu*1 & sells little2 ano!r says little1 & sells mu*4 ,! reason = ! sup]ior success ( "o ov] ! o!r is ma9ly due to ! fact t he kn[s be/ h[ to pres5t ! m]its ( :at he (f]s = sale1 kn[s h[ to say x concisely & effectively1 kn[s h[ to +ratiate himself1 l>gely ?r\gh 8 p]sonality1 into ! good graces ( ! prospective buy]1 & kn[s :5 to /op talk+4 ,mod]n salesman%ip is bas$ prim>ily ^u common s5se4 ,a man ) bra9s1 ?\gh possibly lack+ 9 o!r desirable qualifications1 may easily outdi/ance ! m exp]i5c$ salesman4 ,x is a valuable ?+ 9 any man to be able to ?9k accurately1 reason deeply1 & size up a situation promptly4 ,! salesman %\ld at all times be on 8 be/ talk+ behavior4 ,x is n advisable = him to h two /&>ds ( spee*1 & to use an inf]ior "o except+ = special occasions4 ,he %\ld cultivate z a regul> daily habit discrim9ation 9 ! use ( voice1 enunciation1 expression1 & language4 ,?is %\ld be ! con/ant aim n only ( ! salesman1 b ( e man ambiti\s to a*ieve success & di/9ction 9 ! _w4 ,,m5 ,,& ,,mann]isms ,!re is a /ory ( a politician :o _h acquir$ a mann]ism ( f+]+ a button on 8 coat :ile talk+ to an audi5ce4 ,on "o occasion "s fri5ds surreptiti\sly cut ! p>ticul> button (f1 & ! result 0 t ! speak] :5 he /ood up to address ! audi5ce lo/ ! ?read ( 8 disc\rse4 ,glad/one _h a mann]ism ( /rik+ ! palm ( 8 left h& ) ! cl5*$ fi/ ( 8 o!r h&1 s t (t5 ! emphatic ^w 0 lo/ 9 ! noise ( p]cussion4 ,a common habit ( ! di/+ui%$ /atesman 0 to rea* out 8 "r h& at full arm's l5g?1 & !n to b5d x back at ! elb[ & lightly scrat* ! top ( 8 head ) 8 ?umb-nail4 ,balf\r1 :ile speak+1 us$ to take hold ( ! lapels ( 8 coat by bo? h&s z if he 7 9 mortal fe> ( runn+ away be=e he _h f9i%$4 ,go%51 at ! beg9n+ ( a spee*1 w\ld s\nd 8 *e/ & sides ) 8 h&s1 & app>5tly f9d+ t 8 ribs 7 9 good ord]1 w\ld proce$ to wa% 8 h&s ) invisible soap4 ,! /range ?+ ab\t mann]isms is t ! speak]s are usually unconsci\s ( !m1 & w\ld be ! fir/ to condemn !m 9 o!rs4 ,! rem$y = su* defects lies 9 ?or\gh & sev]e self-exam9ation & self-criticism4 ,h[ev] em95t a speak] may be ) objectionable mann]isms1 he w\ld be /ill great] )\t !m4 ,e public speak] has c]ta9 *>act]i/ics ( voice & mann] t di/+ui% him f o!r m54 ,9 s f> z ?is individuality gives increas$ p[] & effectiv5ess to ! speak+ /yle1 x is desirable & %\ld be enc\rag$4 ,:51 h[ev]1 x is c>ri$ to excess1 or 9 any s5se (f5ds good ta/e1 x is m]ely mann]ism1 & %\ld be disc\rag$4 ,!re is an objectionable mann]ism ( ! voice1 kn[n z pulpit tone1 t has come to be associat$ ) "s prea*]s4 ,x takes v>i\s =ms1 su* z an unduly elevat$ key1 a drawl+ monotone1 a sudd5 transition f "o extreme ( pit* to ano!r1 or a tone ( condesc5sion4 ,x is also he>d 9 a pla9tive m9or inflection1 imp>t+ a quality ( extreme sadness to a speak]'s /yle4 ,^! are all dep>tures f ! natural1 e>ne/1 s9c]e1 & direct deliv]y t belongs to ! high (fice ( prea*+4 ,/ill ano!r undesirable mann]ism ( ! voice is t ( giv+ a ris+ inflection at ! close ( successive s5t5ces t are obvi\sly complete4 ,"h ! speak]'s ?\ght is left susp5d$ 9 ! air1 ! he>] feels a s5se ( disappo9tm5t or d\bt1 & possibly ! entire mean+ is p]v]t$4 ,?\ghts deliv]$ 9 su* a mann]1 unless !y di/9ctly require a ris+ inflection1 lack ! emphasis & =ce ( p]suasive speak+4 ,artificiality1 affectation1 pomposity1 m\?+1 undue vehem5ce1 monotony1 inton+1 & ev]y?+ t detracts f ! simplicity & g5u9e f]vor ( ! spee* %\ld be avoid$4 ,too mu* emphasis may drive a ?\ght beyond ! m>k1 & a consci\s det]m9ation to make a great spee* may keep ! speak] 9 a /ate ( anxiety ?r\gh\t its entire deliv]y4 ,a cle> & correct enunciation is ess5tial1 b x %\ld n be p$antic1 nor %\ld x attract att5tion to itself4 ,:at y are prev5ts me f he>+ :at y say1 might also be appli$ to ! mann] ( ! speak]4 ,exagg]at$ op5+ ( ! m\?1 audible smack+ ( ! lips1 hold+ t5aci\sly to f9al consonants1 prolong$ hiss+ ( sibilants1 are all to be condemn$4 ,hesitation1 /umbl+ ov] difficult comb9ations1 obscur+ f9al syllables1 coalesc+ ! la/ s\nd ( "o ^w ) ! fir/ s\nd ( ! foll[+ ^w1 are inexcusable 9 a tra9$ speak]4 ,:5 ! same modulation ( ! voice is repeat$ too (t51 x becomes a mann]ism1 a k9d ( monotony ( v>iety4 ,x rem9ds "o ( a /reet-piano set to b "o tune1 & is q z di/ress+ to a s5sitive e>4 ,?is is n ! /yle t is expect$ f a public man4 ,:at %\ld ! speak] d ) 8 h&s8 ,d no?+ ) !m unless !y are specifically ne$$ = ! m complete expression ( a ?\ght4 ,let !m drop at ! sides 9 _! natural relax$ position1 ready = in/ant use4 ,to press ! fi/ 9 ! holl[ ( ! back 9 ord] to support ! speak]1 to clut* ! lapels ( ! coat1 to slap ! h&s audibly toge!r1 to place ! h&s on ! hips 9 ! attitude ( vulg> ease1 to put ! h&s into ! pockets1 to wr+ ! h&s z if wa%+ !m ) invisible soap1 or to viol5tly p\nd ! pulpit--^! belong to ! li/ ( undesirable mann]isms4 ,at ! beg9n+ ( a spee* x may give ! appe>ance ( ease to place ! h&s beh9d ! back1 b ?is position lacks =ce & action & %\ld n be long su/a9$4 ,to cross ! arms ^u ! desk is to put !m out ( commission = ! "t be+4 ,lean+ or l\ng+ ( any k9d1 b5d+ at ! knee1 or o!r evid5ce ( weakness or we>9ess1 may belong to ! repose ( ! easy *air1 b are h>dly appropriate 9 a wide-awake speak] seek+ to conv9ce m54 ,rock+ ! body to & fro1 ris+ on ! toes to emphasize1 cr\*+1 /amp+ ! foot1 spr++ f side to side1 ov]-act+ & imp]sonation1 & viol5ce & extravagance ( e description may well be omitt$ 9 public speak+4 ,bew>e ( extremes4 ,avoid a /atue-l attitude on ! "o h& & a con/ant re/lessness on ! o!r4 ,dignity is desirable1 b "o %\ld n =get ! words ( ! ,rev]5d ,sam ,jones1 ,!re is no?+ m dignifi$ ?an a corpse6 ,ge/ures t are too frequ5t & alike soon lose _! significance4 ,if !y are attempt$ at all !y %\ld be v>i$ & complete1 sugge/+ fre$om & spontaneity4 ,:5 only half made !y are likely to call att5tion to ! discrepancy1 & to ?is ext5t w obscure r ?an help ! ?\ght4 ,! cont9u\s use ( ge/ure is displeas+ to ! eye1 & gives ! impression ( lack ( poise4 ,! "y speak] p>ticul>ly %\ld be w>n$ n to imitate ! speak+ /yle ( o!rs4 ,:at is p]fectly natural to "o may appe> ridicul\s 9 ano!r4 ,c>d9al ,newman spoke ) extreme delib]at5ess1 enunciat+ e syllable ) c>e & precision2 ,phillips ,brooks s5t =? an avalan*e ( words at ! rate ( two hundr$ a m9ute2 b x w\ld be dang]\s = ! av]age speak] to emulate ei!r ( ^! examples4 ,!re is a peculi>ity 9 a c]ta9 type ( speak+1 :i*1 :ile n /rictly a mann]ism1 is detrim5tal to ! highe/ effect4 ,x manife/s itself 9 physical weakness4 ,! speak] is uni=mly tir$1 & 8 speak+ has a half-he>t$ tone4 ,! lifelessness 9 voice & mann] communicates itself to ! audi5ce1 & prev5ts all possibility ( deep & endur+ impression4 ,joseph ,p>k] said t :5 ,sunday came he felt l a racehorse1 & c\ld h>dly wait = ! "t to come = him to g into ! pulpit4 ,he long$ to speak4 ,! well-equipp$ speak] is "o :o has a sup]ior culture ( voice & body4 ,all ! in/rum5ts ( expression mu/ be made 8 ob$i5t s]vants1 b z ma/] ( !m he %\ld see to x t !y p]=m _! "w naturally & spontane\sly4 ,he %\ld be able :ile speak+ to ab&on himself :olly to 8 subject1 confid5t t z a result ( consci5ti\s tra9+ 8 deliv]y may be left l>gely to take c>e ( itself4 ,,h[ ,,to ,,speak ,,9 ,,public ,!re are two ess5tial qualifications = mak+ an effective public spee*4 ,fir/1 hav+ some?+ wor?-:ile to say4 ,second1 kn[+ h[ to say x4 ,! fir/ qualification implies a judici\s *oice ( subject & ! mo/ ?or\gh prep>ation4 ,x means t ! speak] has c>efully ga!r$ toge!r ! be/ available mat]ial1 & has s famili>iz$ himself ) 8 subject t he kn[s m ab\t x ?an anyone else 9 8 audi5ce4 ,x is 9 ?is requirem5t ( ?or\gh prep>ation t _m public speak]s are defici5t4 ,!y d n realize ! ne$ = ?is pa9/ak+ prelim9>y "w1 & h5ce !y frequ5tly /& be=e an audi5ce ) little in=mation ( value to imp>t to _! he>]s4 ,_! pov]ty ( ?\ght c n be long disguis$ 9 flamboyant rhetoric & sesquip$alian words1 & h5ce !y fail to c>ry conviction to s]i\s-m9d$ m54 ,i w\ld rem9d y t hav+ some?+ wor?-:ile to say involves m ?an ?or\gh prep>ation ( ! p>ticul> subject :i* ! speak] is to pres5t to an audi5ce4 ,! speak] %\ld h a well-furni%$ m9d4 ,y h _h ! exp]i5ce ( li/5+ to a public speak] :o comm&$ y\r close/ att5tion n only because ( :at he said1 b also because ( :at he 04 ,he inspir$ confid5ce 9 y because ( 8 p]sonality & res]ve p[]4 ,x is (t5 :at a man has )9 himself1 r ?an :at he actually expresses1 t c>ries greate/ conviction to y\r m9d4 ,z y li/5 to su* a man speak1 y feel t he is wor?y ( y\r confid5ce because he draws ^u broad exp]i5ce & k4 ,he speaks out ( ! fulness ( a well-furni%$ m9d4 ,x is important1 !re=e1 t !re %\ld be m5tal culture 9 a broad way1--s\nd judgm5t1 a s5se ( proportion & p]spective1 a fund ( useful ideas1 facts1 argum5ts1 & illu/rations1 & a l>ge /ock ( common s5se4 ,e man :o essays to speak 9 public %\ld cultivate a judicial m9d1 or ! habit ( weigh+ & e/imat+ facts & argum5ts4 ,su* a m9d is suppos$ly free f prejudice & seeks ! tru? at any co/4 ,su* a m9d does n want ?is or t to be necess>ily true1 b wants to recognize z true only t :i* is true4 ,9 ^! days ( multipli$ publications & books ( all k9ds1 :5 pr9t$ matt] ( e description is solicit+ our "t & att5tion1 x is p>ticul>ly desirable t we %\ld cultivate a discrim9at+ ta/e 9 our *oice ( books4 ,! highe/ purpose ( read+ is = ! acquisition ( useful k & p]sonal culture1 & we %\ld keep ^! two aims con/antly be=e u4 ,x is notewor?y t m5 :o h a*iev$ endur+ greatness 9 ! _w h always _h a good book at _! ready comm&4 ,if y are ev] 9 d\bt ab\t ! *oice ( books1 y w\ld d well to enli/ ! s]vices ( a lit]>y fri5d1 or ask ! advice ( a local libr>ian4 ,b 9 any case1 be on y\r gu>d aga9/ books & o!r publications ( commonplace type1 :i* c contribute no?+ to ! enri*m5t ( y\r m9d & life4 ,x is desirable t y %\ld own ! books y read4 ,! s5se ( p]sonal possession w give an int]e/ & pleasure to y\r read+ :i* x w\ld n o!rwise h1 & moreov] y c freely m>k su* books ) y\r p5cil = subsequ5t ref]5ce4 ,x is also well to h a note-book conv5i5tly ready 9 :i* to jot d[n useful ideas z !y occur to y4 ,"h we come to ! use ( ! p54 ,all ! great orators ( ! _w h be5 prolific writ]s 9 ! s5se ( writ+ out _! ?\ghts4 ,x is ! only c]ta9 way to cl>ify y\r ?\ght1 to te/ x 9 advance ( v]bal expression & to exam9e x critically4 ,! public speak] %\ld write mu* 9 ord] to =m a cle> & fl[+ ,engli% /yle4 ,x is surpris+ h[ _m ( our ?\ghts :i* appe> to u cle> & satisfactory1 assume a peculi> vagu5ess :5 we attempt to set !m d[n def9itely 9 writ+4 ,! use ( ! p5 t5ds to give cle>ness & concis5ess to ! speak]'s /yle4 ,x makes him c>eful & accurate4 ,x aids1 too1 9 fix+ ! ideas ( 8 spee* 9 8 m9d1 s t at ! mom5t ( address+ an audi5ce !y w respond mo/ readily to 8 ne$s4 ,a well-furni%$ m9d is l a well-furni%$ h\se4 ,9 furni%+ a h\se we d n fill x up ) miscellane\s furniture1 bric-a-brac & antiques1 ga!r$ promiscu\sly1 b we plan ev]y?+ ) a view to h>mony1 beauty1 & utility4 ,we furni% a p>ticul> room 9 a tone t w be re/ful & pleas+ to ! occupant4 ,we *oose e piece ( furniture1 rug1 picture1 & drap]y ) a di/9ct purpose 9 view ( :at ! total effect w be4 ,s ) a well-furni%$ m9d4 ,we mu/ *oose ! k9d ( mat]ial we int5d to keep !re4 ,x %\ld be *os5 ) a view to its beauty1 p[]1 & usefulness4 ,we want no rubbi% !re4 ,we want ! be/ mat]ial available4 ,h5ce ! vital importance ( go+ to ! "r s\rces = ! furniture ( our m9d1 to ! great books ( ! _w1 to liv+ au?orities1 to nature1 to music1 to art1 to ! be/ :]ev] x may be f\nd4 ,! second ess5tial ( an effective public spee* is kn[+ h[ to say x4 ,?is implies a ?or\gh tra9+ 9 ! te*nique ( spee*4 ,!re %\ld be a well-cultivat$ voice1 ( adequate volume1 brilliancy1 & c>ry+ quality4 ,!re %\ld be ample tra9+ 9 articulation1 pronunciation1 expression1 & ge/ure4 ,^! s-call$ me*anics %\ld be develop$ until !y become an unconsci\s "p ( ! speak]'s /yle4 ,y\r be/ opportunity = practice is 9 y\r ev]yday conv]sation4 ,!re y are con/antly mak+ spee*es on a small scale4 ,public speak+ ( ! be/ mod]n type is simply elevat$ conv]sation4 ,i d n mean elevat$ 9 pit*1 b 9 ! s5se ( be+ laun*$ ^u a high] level ( ?\ght & ) great] int5sity ?an is usually call$ = by ord9>y conv]sation4 ,9 conv]sation y h y\r be/ opportunity = develop+ y\r public speak+ /yle4 ,inde$1 y are !re1 despite y\rself1 =m+ habits :i* w disclose !mselves 9 y\r public speak+4 ,z y speak 9 y\r daily conv]sation y w l>gely speak :5 y /& be=e an audi5ce4 ,y w !re=e see ! importance ( c>e 9 y\r daily spee*4 ,!re %\ld be a fa/idi\s *oice ( words1 c>e 9 pronunciation & articulation1 & ! m\? well op5$ s t ! words may come out :olly ?r\gh ! m\? & n p>tly ?r\gh ! nose4 ,culture ( conv]sation is to be recomm5d$ = its own sake1 s9ce ev]yone mu/ speak 9 private if n 9 public4 ,"o ( ! be/ plans = self-culture 9 speak+ is to read al\d = a few m9utes e day f a book ( well-select$ spee*es4 ,!re are num]\s compilations ( ! k9d admirably suit$ to ?is purpose4 ,! important ?+ "h is to read 9 speak+ /yle1 n 9 :at is t]m$ read+ /yle z usually taught 9 s*ools4 ,:5 y practise 9 ?is way x w\ld be well to imag9e an audi5ce be=e y & to r5d] ! spee* z if emanat+ f y\r own m9d4 ,! /ud5t ( public speak+ w wisely gu>d himself aga9/ acquir+ an artificial /yle or o!r mann]ism4 ,ano!r good plan is to make %ort m5tal spee*es :ile walk+4 ,:5 possible x is well to *oose a c\ntry road = ?is purpose1 or a p>k1 or "s o!r place :]e "o's m9d is n likely to be (t5 div]t$ by pass]s-by4 ,"l ,duff]91 ! em95t ,briti% orator1 0 accu/om$ to prep>e mo/ ( 8 spee*es :ile rid+ on horseback4 ,! habit ( =m+ m5tal spee*es is a great aid to actual spee*-mak+1 z x t5ds to give ! m9d a p[] & an adaptability :i* x w\ld n o!rwise h4 ,! pa9t]1 ! musician1 ! sculptor1 ! ar*itect1 & o!r craftsm5 se>* out models = /udy & inspiration4 ,! public speak] %\ld d likewise1 & hi/ory %[s t ! great orators ( ! _w h foll[$ ?is practise4 ,y c n d bett] ?an take z y\r model ! greate/ %ort spee* 9 all hi/ory1 ! ,gettysburg ,address4 ,an au?ority on ,engli% /yle has critically exam9$ ?is spee* & ackn[l$ges t he _c sugge/ a s+le *ange 9 x :i* w\ld add to its p[] & p]fection4 ,y recall ! circum/ances "u :i* x 0 writt54 ,on ! morn+ ( ,novemb] #ah1 #ahfc1 ,abraham ,l9coln 0 travell+ f ,wa%+ton to take "p next day 9 ! consecration ( ! national cemet]y at ,gettysburg4 ,he wrote 8 spee* on a scrap ( wrapp+-pap]1 c>efully fitt+ ^w to ^w1 *ang+ & correct+ x 9 m9ute/ detail z be/ he c\ld until x 0 f9i%$4 ,! next day aft] ! spee* _h be5 deliv]$1 ,edw>d ,ev]ett1 ! tra9$ & poli%$ orator1 said t he w\ld h be5 cont5t to h made 9 8 oration ( two h\rs ! impression :i* ,l9coln _h made 9 t _m m9utes4 ,x w repay y to /udy ?is spee* closely & to wre/ f x its inn]mo/ secrets ( p[] & effectiv5ess4 ,! greate/ und]ly+ quality ( ?is spee* is its r>e simplicity--simplicity ( ?\ght1 simplicity ( language1 simplicity ( purpose1 & %9+ ?r\gh x all1 ! simplicity ( ! great emancipator himself4 ,?is simplicity is "o ( ! great di/+ui%+ qualities ( effective public speak+4 ,x is *>act]i/ic ( all true art4 ,x is subtle & difficult to def9e1 b ,f5elon gives a def9ition t w aid u :5 he says1 ,simplicity is an uprightness ( s\l t has no ref]5ce to self4 ,x is ano!r ^w = unselfi%ness4 ,9 ^! days ( self-exploitation & self-aggr&izem5t1 h[ refre%+ x is to meet a man ( true simplicity4 ,we are won by 8 unaffect$ mann]1 8 g5tl5ess ( argum5t1 8 +ratiat+ tones ( voice1 8 fre$om f prejudice & passion4 ,su* a man w9s u almo/ :olly by ! p[] ( 8 simplicity4 ,?is supreme quality is noticeable 9 m5 :o are said to h come to !mselves4 ,!y h ta/$ & te/$ life1 !y h le>n$ proportion & p]spective1 !y h apprais$ ?+s at _! real value1 & n[ !y c>ry !mselves 9 poise & p[] & confid5ce4 ,!y h f\nd !mselves 9 a high & true s5se1 & !y h come to be kn[n z m5 ( simplicity4 ,simplicity is n to be conf\nd$ ) weakness or ignorance4 ,x comes ?r\gh long education4 ,x does n mean ! trite1 or ! commonplace1 or ! obvi\s4 ,x is a /rong & /urdy quality1 is ?is simplicity ( :i* ,i am speak+1 & no?+ else w atone = lack ( x 9 ! public speak]4 ,longfell[ calls x ! supreme excell5ce1 s9ce x is ! quality :i* above all o!rs br+s s]5ity to ! s\l & makes life really wor? liv+4 ,e man %\ld e>ne/ly seek to cultivate ?is great quality z ess5tial to noble "*4 ,?is spee* is conspicu\s = ano!r indisp5sable quality = effective public speak+1--! quality ( s9c]ity4 ,x gr[s l>gely out ( simplicity & is ! product ( integrity ( m9d & he>t4 ,m5 recognize x quickly1 ?\gh !y _c easily tell :5ce x comes4 ,we f9d x highly develop$ 9 great lead]s 9 bus9ess & pr(essional life4 ,!re has nev] be5 a really great public speak] :o 0 n preem95tly a s9c]e man4 ,bee*] said1 ,let no man :o is a sneak try to be an orator4 ,su* a man c n be4 ,he w %ortly be f\nd out4 ,! _w's ultimate e/imate ( a man is n f> wrong4 ,a politician ( mu* promise 0 address+ a di/+ui%$ audi5ce 9 ,wa%+ton4 ,! ,op]a ,h\se 0 cr[d$ to ! doors to he> him & app>5tly he 0 mak+ a good impression ^u all 8 he>]s4 ,b sudd5ly1 at ! v climax ( 8 spee*1 :ile upw>ds ( two ?\s& eyes 7 rivett$ ^u him1 he 0 se5 to w9k at a p]sonal fri5d ( 8 sitt+ 9 a ne>by box1 & at t in/ant 8 future political prospects 7 %att]$ z a vase /ruck by lightn+4 ,9 t s+le in/ant ( ins9c]ity he 0 apprais$ by t discrim9at+ audi5ce & 8 doom 0 seal$4 ,/ill ano!r great quality 9 ! ,gettysburg spee* is its directness4 ,! speak] _h a cle>ly-def9$ purpose 9 view4 ,he knew :at he want$ to say1 & he proce$$ to say x--no m1 & no less4 ,!re 0 no /ray+ away into by-pa?s1 no padd+ ( words to make up = %ortage ( ideas1 no sup]flu\s & big-s\nd+ phrases1 no empty rhetoric or glitt]+ g5]alities4 ,h[ _m speak]s !re are :o aim at no?+ & hit x4 ,h[ _m speak]s !re are :o are on _! way b d n "k :i!r4 ,if ?is directness ( quality 7 appli$ to talk+ 9 bus9ess1 9 committee meet+s1 9 telephone conv]sations1 9 public speak+1 x w\ld save annually 9 ?is c\ntry millions ( words & incalculable "t & en]gy4 ,y w note t ?is spee* has ! r>e quality ( concis5ess4 ,we h an illu/ration "h ( h[ mu* a man c say 9 ab\t #bfe words & 9 ! %ort space ( two m9utes1 if he kn[s precisely :at he wants to say4 ,x is well to be> 9 m9d t al?\gh ?is spee* 0 scribbl$ (f ) seem+ ease1 ,l9coln ow$ 8 ability to d x to a long & pa9/ak+ /udy ( words & ,engli% /yle4 ,he 0 a pr(\nd /ud5t ( ! diction>y4 ,he /eep$ himself 9 words4 ,he scrut9iz$ words1 he /udi$ words1 he made himself a ma/] ( words4 ,?is is a valuable habit = e man to =m1--to /udy words regul>ly & e>ne/ly1 & to add consci\sly to 8 work+ vocabul>y a few words daily--s 9 ! c\rse ( a ye> su* a man w acquire a l>ge & v>i$ /ock ( words :i* w d 8 in/ant bidd+4 ,! conclusion is a vital "p ( a spee*4 ,x is a place ( p]il to _m a public speak]4 ,c\ntless spee*es h be5 ru9$ by a bad conclusion4 ,! mo/ important ?+ "h is t hav+ decid$ be=eh& ^u ! p>ticul> ideas or message ) :i* y int5d to conclude y\r spee*1 n to let any influ5ce lead y away f ?is preconceiv$ purpose4 ,"s speak]s are ab\t to conclude effectively b are unwill+ to omit any?+ :i* !y h plann$ to give 9 _! spee*1 & s cont9ue 9 an endeavor to recall e item4 ,at la/ su* a spee* has a loose & /raggl+ end+4 ,! words ( ! conclusion ne$ n be memoriz$1 b ! ideas %\ld be def9itely outl9$ 9 ! m9d & fix$ 9 ! memory1 n z words1 b z ideas4 ,! k t y c turn at w to ^! def9ite ideas1 & s br+ y\r spee* to a close1 w conf] ^u y a degree ( self-confid5ce :i* w be ( imm5se s]vice to y4 ,y %\ld ev] be> 9 m9d ?is gold5 rule = ! conclusion ( y\r spee*3 ,:5 y h f9i%$ :at y h ( importance to say1 d n be tempt$ to w&] (f into by-pa?s1 or to tell an additional /ory1 or to say & "o ^w m1 b hav+ f9i%$ y\r spee*1 /op on ! in/ant & sit d[n4 ,,practical ,,h9ts ,,= ,,speak]s ,cultivate z ! mo/ desirable ?\ghts ^? :i* are def9ite1 cle>1 deep1 logical1 pr(\nd1 /rong1 precise1 impressive1 orig9al1 significant1 explicit1 lum9\s1 positive1 sugge/ive1 compreh5sive1 & practical4 ,resolutely avoid all ?\ghts :i* are unc]ta91 recondite1 obscure1 immature1 unimportant1 %all[1 weak1 vision>y1 absurd1 vague1 extravagant1 indef9ite1 or impractical4 ,9 y\r *oice & use ( words give pref]5ce to ^? :i* are def9ite1 simple1 real1 significant1 =cible1 expressive1 adequate1 musical1 v>i$1 & copi\s4 ,avoid ^? :i* are =eign1 slangy1 obsolete1 unusual1 extravagant1 te*nical1 long1 colloquial1 or commonplace4 ,! mo/ desirable qualities 9 ! use ( ,engli% are ! simple1 pla91 exact1 lucid1 concise1 tr5*ant1 vigor\s1 impressive1 lively1 figurative1 poli%$1 graceful1 flu5t1 rhy?mical1 copi\s1 elevat$1 flexible1 smoo?1 dignifi$1 t]se1 epigrammatic1 felicit\s1 euphoni\s1 elegant1 & l(ty4 ,undesirable qualities are ! diffuse1 v]bose1 r$undant1 inflat$1 prolix1 ambigu\s1 feeble1 monoton\s1 loose1 slip-%od1 dry1 fl[]y1 p$antic1 pomp\s1 rhetorical1 gr&iloqu5t1 artificial1 =mal1 ornate1 halt+1 pond]\s1 ungrammatical1 vague1 & obscure4 ,! qualities y %\ld develop 9 y\r speak+ voice are ! pure1 deep1 r\nd1 flexible1 resonant1 musical1 cle>1 sympa!tic1 smoo?1 sonor\s1 p[]ful1 silv]y1 melodi\s1 full1 /rong1 natural1 mell[1 magnetic1 expressive1 c>ry+1 & responsive4 ,endeavor to keep y\r voice free f su* undesirable qualities z ! h>%1 brea?y1 %>p1 r\gh1 rigid1 ?roaty1 guttural1 ?91 %rill1 nasal1 unmusical1 discordant1 muffl$1 explosive1 /ra9$1 inaudible1 holl[1 /rid5t1 sepul*ral1 & tremul\s4 ,y\r articulation %\ld be cle>1 di/9ct1 & correct4 ,avoid c>elessness1 lifelessness1 mumbl+1 weakness1 & exagg]ation4 ,y\r pronunciation %\ld be cle>-cut & accurate4 ,avoid m\?+1 lisp+1 hesitation1 /amm]+1 p$antry1 omission ( syllables1 & suppression ( f9al consonants4 ,y\r deliv]y 9 public speak+ %\ld be simple1 s9c]e1 natural1 v>i$1 magnetic1 e>ne/1 =ceful1 attractive1 en]getic1 animat$1 sympa!tic1 au?oritative1 dignifi$1 direct1 impressive1 vivid1 conv9c+1 p]suasive1 zeal\s1 en?usia/ic1 & inspir+4 ,avoid t :i* is timid1 famili>1 viol5t1 cold1 indiff]5t1 unreal1 artificial1 dull1 s+-song1 hesitat+1 feeble1 unconv9c+1 apa!tic1 monoton\s1 pomp\s1 =mal1 arbitr>y1 flippant1 o/5tati\s1 drawl+1 or languid4 ,y\r ge/ure %\ld be graceful1 appropriate1 free1 =ceful1 & natural4 ,avoid all ge/ure :i* is unmean+1 angul>1 abrupt1 con/ra9$1 /ilt$1 or amateuri%4 ,y\r facial expression %\ld be v>i$1 appropriate1 pleas+1 & impassion$4 ,avoid ! unpleasant1 immobile1 & unv>i$4 ,let y\r /&+ position be manly1 erect1 easy1 =ceful1 & impressive4 ,avoid t :i* is weak1 %ift+1 /iff1 inactive1 & unga9ly4 ,,! ,,dramatic ,,elem5t ,,9 ,,speak+ ,!re is a well-def9$ prejudice aga9/ ! importation ( any?+ !atrical into ! pulpit4 ,! art ( ! actor is fundam5tally diff]5t f ! "w ( ! prea*]4 ,at be/ ! actor b repres5ts1 imitates1 pret5ds1 acts4 ,! actor seems2 ! prea*] is4 ,x is to be fe>$1 h[ev]1 t ?is prejudice has n>r[$ _m prea*]s d[n to a pulpit /yle almo/ devoid ( w>m? & action4 ,9 _! endeavor to avoid ! dramatic & s5sational1 !y h ref9$ & subdu$ _m ( _! mo/ natural & effective means ( expression4 ,! function ( prea*+ is n only to imp>t1 b to p]suade2 & p]suasion dem&s some?+ m ?an an easy conv]sational /yle1 an intellectual /atem5t ( facts1 or ! read+ ( a writt5 message4 ,! speak] mu/ %[ 9 face1 9 eye1 9 arm1 9 ! :ole animat$ man1 t he1 himself1 is mov$1 be=e he c hope successfully to p]suade & inspire o!rs4 ,! modifi$ movem5ts ( ord9>y conv]sation d n fulfil all ! requirem5ts ( ! prea*]4 ,^! are necess>y & adequate = ! gr\ndwork ( ! s]mon1 b = ! supreme heights ( passionate appeal1 :5 ! s\l ( ! prea*] w\ld1 z x 71 leap f its body 9 ! endeavor to rea* m51 !re mu/ be int5sifi$ life & action--dramatic action4 ,x is difficult to conceive ( a great] tribute to a public advocate ?an t paid to ,w5dell ,phillips by ,george ,william ,curtis3 ,! div9e en]gy ( 8 conviction utt]ly posse/ him1 & 8 ',pure & eloqu5t blood ,spoke 9 8 *eek1 & s di/9ctly wr\ght1 ,t "o might almo/ say 8 body ?\ght4' ,poise is p[]1 & res]ve & repression are p>ts ( ! dignifi$ (fice ( ! prea*]1 b c>ri$ too f> may deg5]ate into weak & unproductive ef=t4 ,p]fection ( ,engli% /yle1 rhetorical floridness1 & pr(undity ( ?\ght w nev] :olly make up = lack ( appropriate action 9 ! "w ( p]suad+ m54 ,! p[] ( action alone is vividly illu/rat$ 9 ! t\* ( ! f+] to ! lips to invoke sil5ce1 or ! po9t+ to ! door to comm& "o to leave ! room4 ,! prea*] might (t5 f9d x pr(itable to /& be=e a mirror & deliv] 8 s]mon exclusively 9 pantomime to te/ its p[] & efficacy4 ,! body mu/ be discipl9$ & cultivat$ z assidu\sly z ! o!r in/rum5ts ( ! speak]4 ,!re is eloqu5ce ( attitude & action no less ?an eloqu5ce ( voice & feel+4 ,a prea*] draw+ himself up to 8 full height1 ) a significant ge/ure ( ! head1 or ) fla%+ eye po9t+ ! f+] ( w>n+ at 8 he>]s1 may r\se !m f indiff]5ce :5 all o!r means fail4 ,sixty ye>s ago ! ,rev]5d ,william ,russell emphasiz$ ! importance ( visible expression4 ,he said ( ! prea*]3 ,8 outw>d mann]1 9 attitude & action1 w be z v>i\s z 8 voice3 he w ev9ce ! inspiration ( appropriate feel+ 9 ! v po/ure ( 8 frame2 9 utt]+ ! language ( adoration1 ! sl[-mov+1 uplift$ h& w bespeak ! awe & solemnity :i* p]vade 8 s\l2 9 address+ 8 fell[ m5 9 ! _s ( an ambassador ( ,*ri/1 ! g5tle yet e>ne/ _s ( p]suasive action w be ev9c$ 9 ! plead+ h& & aspect2 he w "k1 also1 h[ to pass to ! /]n & au?oritative mi5 ( ! reprov$ ( s92 he w1 on due occasions1 indicate1 9 8 k9dl+ look1 ! r\s+ ge/ure1 ! mood ( him :o is emp[]$ & comm&$ to summon =? all ! en]gies ( ! human s\l2 8 subdu$ & *a/5$ address w c>ry ! sympa?y ( 8 _s into ! bosom ( ! m\rn]2 8 moi/5+ eye & 8 g5tle action w manife/ 8 t5d]ness = ! suff]+3 8 :ole s\l w1 9 a ^w1 become legible 9 8 features1 9 8 attitude1 9 ! expressive eloqu5ce ( 8 h&2 8 :ole /yle w be felt to be t ( he>t commun+ ) he>t4 ,dramatic action gives picturesqu5ess to ! spok5 ^w4 ,x makes ?+s vivid to sl[ imag9ations1 & by contra/ inve/s ! speak]'s message ) new mean+ & vitality4 ,x discloses1 too1 ! speak]'s sympa?y & id5tification ) 8 subject4 ,8 ?\ght & feel+1 communicat+ !mselves to voice & face1 to h& & arm1 to po/ure & walk1 satisfy & impress ! he>] by a s5se ( adequacy & complet5ess4 ,h5ry ,w>d ,bee*]1 a conspicu\s example ( ! dramatic /yle 9 prea*+1 0 drill$ = ?ree ye>s1 :ile at college1 9 voice-culture1 ge/ure1 & action4 ,8 daily practise 9 ! woods1 dur+ :i* he explod$ all ! v[els f ! bottom to ! top ( 8 voice1 gave him n only a wond]fully responsive & flexible in/rum5t1 b a fre$om ( bodily movem5t t made him "o ( ! mo/ vigor\s & virile ( ,am]ican prea*]s4 ,he 0 9 ! highe/ s5se a p]suasive pulpit orator4 ,a s5sible prea*] w avoid ! grotesque & ! extremes ( m]e animal vivacity4 ,incessant ge/ure & action1 undue emphasiz+ ) h& & head1 & all sugge/ion ( self-suffici5cy 9 attitude or mann] %\ld be gu>d$ aga9/4 ,all ! v>i\s in/rum5ts ( expression %\ld be made ready & responsive = imm$iate use1 b are to be employ$ ) t ta/e & tact t *>act]ize ! well-balanc$ man4 ,too mu* action & long-cont9u$ emotional ef=t lose =ce1 & unless ! law ( action & reaction is appli$ to ! prea*+ ( ! s]mon ! att5tion ( ! congregation may snap & ! desir$ effect be utt]ly de/roy$4 ,! face z ! mirror ( ! emotions is an important "p ( expression4 ,! lips w betray det]m9ation1 grief1 sympa?y1 affection1 or o!r feel+ on ! "p ( ! speak]4 ,! eyes1 ! mo/ direct m$ium ( psy*ic p[]1 w fla% 9 indignation1 gli/5 9 joy1 or gr[ dim 9 sorr[4 ,! br[ w be elevat$ 9 surprise1 or l[]$ 9 det]m9ation & p]plexity4 ,! effectiv5ess ( ! :isp] 9 prea*+ %\ld n be ov]look$4 ,if discreetly us$ x may s]ve to impress ! he>] ) ! pr(undity & s]i\sness ( ! prea*]'s message1 or to arre/ & br+ back to ! po9t ( contact ! w&]+ m9ds ( a congregation4 ,to acquire emotional p[] & dramatic action ! prea*] %\ld /udy ! great dramati/s4 ,he %\ld read !m al\d ) appropriate voice & movem5t4 ,he %\ld /udy *ildr51 & m51 & nature4 ,he %\ld1 p]haps1 see ! be/ actors1 n to copy !m1 b 9 ord] t !y may /imulate 8 ta/e & imag9ation4 ,,conv]sation ,,& ,,public ,,speak+ ,! ideal /yle ( public speak+ is1 ) v little modification1 ! ideal ( good conv]sation4 ,! practical age 9 :i* we live dem&s a colloquial r ?an an oratorical /yle ( public speak+4 ,a man :o has some?+ to say 9 conv]sation usually has little difficulty 9 say+ x4 ,if he pres5ts ! facts he w speak conv9c+ly2 if he is deeply 9 e>ne/ he w speak p]suasively2 & if he be an educat$ man 8 spee* w h ! unmi/akable m>ks ( culture & ref9em5t4 ,9 ! conv]sation ( well-br$ *ildr5 we f9d ! mo/ int]e/+ & helpful illu/rations ( unaffect$ spee*4 ,! exquisite modulation ( ! voice1 ! un/udi$ correctness ( emphasis1 & ! s9c]ity & dep? ( feel+ might well s]ve z a model = old] speak]s4 ,?is /udy ( conv]sation1 bo? our own & t ( o!rs1 (f]s daily opportunity = improvem5t 9 accuracy & flu5cy ( spee*1 ( fitt+ words to ! m\? z well z to ! ?\ght1 & ( =m+ habits t w unconsci\sly disclose !mselves 9 ! l>g] "w ( public speak+4 ,c>e 9 conv]sation w gu>d ! public speak] f inflat$ & unnatural tones1 & re/ra9 him f transgress+ ! laws ( nature ev5 9 ^? p>ts ( 8 spee* dem&+ l(ty & int5sifi$ treatm5t4 ,"s easily rememb]$ sugge/ions reg>d+ conv]sation are ^!3 #a4 ,pron\nce y\r words di/9ctly & accurately1 l newly made co9s f ! m9t1 b )\t p$antry4 #b4 ,^u no occasion all[ y\rself to indulge 9 c>eless or incorrect spee*4 #c4 ,op5 ! m\? well 9 conv]sation4 ,mu* indi/9ct spee* is due to speak+ ?r\gh half-clos$ tee?4 #d4 ,closely obs]ve y\r conv]sation & t ( o!rs1 to detect faults & to improve y\r speak+-/yle4 #e4 ,v>y y\r voice to suit ! v>iety ( y\r ?\ght4 ,a well-modulat$ voice dem&s appropriate *anges ( pit*1 =ce1 p]spective1 & feel+4 #f4 ,avoid l\d talk+4 #g4 ,take c>e ( ! consonants & ! v[els w take c>e ( !mselves4 #h4 ,cultivate ! music ( ! conv]sational tones4 #i4 ,favor ! l[ pit*es ( y\r voice4 #aj4 ,rememb] t ! purpose ( consci\s practise & obs]vation 9 ! matt] ( conv]sation is to lead ultimately to unconsci\s p]=mance4 ,! value ( correct conv]sation z a means to effective public speak+ is realiz$ by few m54 ,bee*] said3 ,h[ mu* squ&]+ !re is ( ! voice6 mean+ t ?is gold5 opportunity = improvem5t 0 g5]ally disreg>d$4 ,x is n too mu* to say1 h[ev]1 t if ! sweet & g5tle expression ( ! "m1 ! /rong & affectionate tones ( ! fa!r1 & ! spontane\s musical notes ( ! *ildr51 z he>d 9 daily conv]sation1 c\ld be unit$ 9 ! voice ( ! m9i/] & br\ght to ! prea*+ ( 8 s]mon1 !re w\ld be little d\bt ( its magical & endur+ effect ^u ! he>ts ( m54 ,! woo+ tone ( ! lov] is :at ! prea*] ne$s 9 8 pulpit /yle r ?an ! voice ( declamation & d5unciation4 ,! /udy ( conv]sation s]ves to guide ! public speak] n only 9 ! free & natural use ( 8 voice1 enunciation1 & expression1 b also 9 8 use ( language4 ,he w "h le>n to *oose ! simple ^w in/ead ( ! complex1 ! %ort s5t5ce in/ead ( ! involv$1 ! concrete illu/ration in/ead ( ! ab/ract4 ,he w acquire ease1 spontaneity1 simplicity1 & directness1 & :5 he rises to speak to m5 he w employ tones & words be/ kn[n & und]/ood by !m4 ,a prea*] may sp5d too mu* "t 9 /udy & solitude4 ,if he does he w soon realize a di/9ct loss ?r\gh lack ( social int]c\rse ) 8 fell[ m54 ,! faculties mo/ ne$$ 9 pulpit prea*+ are ^? v p[]s t are s l>gely ex]cis$ 9 ord9>y conv]sation4 ,! ability to ?9k quickly1 to m>%al facts & argum5ts1 to introduce a vivid /ory or illu/ration1 to p>ry & ?ru/ z is sometimes ne$$ to hold "o's own gr\nd1 & ! g5]al m5tal activity ar\s$ 9 conv]sation1 all t5d to produce an int]e/+1 vivaci\s1 & =ceful /yle 9 public speak+4 ,we %\ld n und]e/imate ! value ( m$itation & sil5ce to ! public speak]4 ,^! are necess>y = orig9al & pr(\nd ?9k+1 = ! cultivation ( ! imag9ation1 & = ! accumulation ( ?\ght4 ,b conv]sation (f]s an imm$iate outlet = ?is /or$-up k1 te/+ x z a f9i%$ product 9 expression1 & project+ x into life & reality by all ! res\rces ( voice & feel+4 ,?is ex]cise is z necess>y to ! m9d z physical ex]cise is to ! body4 ,inde$1 a full m9d dem&s ?is relief 9 expression1 le/ ! /ra9 become too great4 ,! daily newspap] & ! magaz9es %\ld n be all[$ to usurp ! place ( conv]sation4 ,if ! art ( talk+ is rapidly dy+ out1 z "s ass]t1 we %\ld d our %>e to revive x4 ,we may n aga9 h ! wit & rep>tee1 ! brilliant intellectual combats ( ^? o!r days1 b we c at lea/ ea* h a cultivat$ speak+-voice1 an int]e/+ mann] ( express+ our ideas 9 conv]sation1 & a ref9$ pronunciation ( our "m tongue4 ,a ,,talk ,,to ,,prea*]s ,! aim ( "o :o w\ld int]pret lit]ature to o!rs1 by means ( ! speak+ voice1 %\ld be fir/ to assimilate its _s4 ,!re c be no wor?y or adequate r5d]+ ( a great poem or prose selection )\t a ke5 appreciation ( its inn] mean+ & cont5t4 ,?is is ! pr9cipal safegu>d aga9/ me*anical & mean+less declamation4 ,! ext5t ( ?is appreciation & grasp ( ! inh]5t _s ( ?\ght w l>gely det]m9e ! degree ( life1 reality1 & impressiv5ess imp>t$ to ! spok5 ^w4 ,! intimate relation%ip betwe5 ! voice & ! _s ( ! speak] sugge/s t "o is necess>y to ! fulle/ developm5t ( ! o!r4 ,! voice c int]pret only :at has be5 awak5$ & realiz$ )91 h5ce no?+ discloses a speak]'s grasp ( a subject s accurately & readily z 8 attempt to give x expression 9 8 own language4 ,x is ?is spiritual p[]1 develop$ pr9cipally ?r\gh ! intuitions & emotions1 t gives psy*ic =ce to speak+1 & :i* m ?an logic1 rhetoric1 or le>n+ itself enables ! speak] to influ5ce & p]suade m54 ,! m9i/] z an int]pret] ( ! highe/ spiritual tru? %\ld br+ to 8 "w a ?or\ghly tra9$ emotional nature & a cultivat$ speak+ voice4 ,x is n suffici5t t he /ate ! tru? ) cle>ness & =ce2 he mu/ proclaim x ) su* passionate en?usiasm z p[]fully to move 8 he>]s4 ,to express adequately ! inf9ite %ades ( spiritual tru?1 he mu/ h ! ability to play ^u 8 voice z ^u a great ca!dral organ1 f ! s(t lute ( love to ! l\d trumpet ( w>4 ,to assume t ! /udy ( ! art ( speak+ w necess>ily produce consci\sness ( its pr9ciples :ile 9 ! act ( speak+ 9 public1 is z unw>rant$ z to say t a k ( ! rules ( gramm>1 rhetoric1 or logic lead to artificiality & self-consci\sness 9 ! tea*]1 writ]1 & ?9k]4 ,!re is a me*anical exp]tness prec$+ all art1 z ,goe! says1 & ?is applies to ! orator no less ?an to ! musician1 ! arti/1 ! actor1 & ! litt]ateur4 ,let ! m9i/] /& up = ev5 five m9utes ea* day1 ) *e/ & abdom5 well exp&$1 & pron\nce al\d ! long v[el s\nds ( ! ,engli% language1 9 v>i\s %ades ( =ce & feel+1 & %ortly he w obs]ve 8 voice develop+ 9 flexibility1 resonance1 & p[]4 ,= x %\ld be rememb]$ t ! voice gr[s ?r\gh use4 ,let ! m9i/] cultivate1 too1 ! habit ( brea?+ exclusively ?r\gh 8 nose :ile 9 repose1 fully & deeply f ! abdom51 & he w f9d himself ga9+ 9 heal? & m5tal res\rcefulness4 ,= ! l>g] developm5t ( ! spiritual & emotional p[]s ( ! speak]1 a wide & v>i$ k ( m5 & life is necess>y4 ,! feel+s are tra9$ ?r\gh close contact ) human suff]+1 & 9 ! "w ( solv+ vital social problems4 ,! speak] w d well to explore fir/ 8 own he>t & endeavor to read its secret mean+s1 prelim9>y to int]pret+ ! he>ts ( o!r m54 ,p]sonal suff]+ w d m to op5 ! well-spr+s ( ! he>t ?an ! read+ ( _m books4 ,c>e mu/ be _h1 h[ev]1 t ?is cultivat+ ( ! feel+s be conduct$ along rational l9es1 le/ x run n to fai? b to fanaticism4 ,!re is a wide diff]5ce betwe5 emotion design$ = display or = mom5t>y effect1 & t :i* arises f /rong inn] conviction & sympa!tic int]e/ 9 o!rs4 ,spuri\s1 unnatural feel+ w inv>iably fail to conv9ce s]i\s-m9d$ m54 ,emotion wr\ght up ) no ult]ior object1 says ,dr4 ,k5n>d1 is bo? an abuse & an injury to ! moral nature4 ,:5 ! att5tion is ?or\ghly awak5$ & /eadily held1 ! he>] is l a well-tun$ h>p1 ea* cord a di/9ct emotion1 & ! skilful speak] may evoke a response f "o or m at 8 w4 ,?is lays him "u a great & s]i\s responsibility4 ,let him keep /eadily at su* a "t to 8 div9e purpose1 to produce a heal?ful action1 a life 9 h>mony ) ,god & a symphony ( s]vice4 ,! emotional & spiritual p[]s ( ! speak] w be develop$ by read+ al\d ea* day a vigor\s & passionate extract f ! ,bible1 or ,%akespe>e1 or f "s great s]mon by su* m5 z ,bu%nell1 ,newman1 ,bee*]1 ,macl>51 ,brooks1 or ,spurgeon4 ,! entire gamut ( human feel+ c be highly cultivat$ by ?us read+ al\d f ! great ma/]pieces ( lit]ature4 ,! speak] w "k t he c make 8 own words gl[ & vibrate1 aft] he has fir/ te/$ & tra9$ himself 9 "s su* mann] z ?is4 ,fur!rmore1 by ?us fitt+ words to 8 m\?1 & assimilat+ ! feel+s ( o!rs1 he w immeasurably ga9 9 facility & vocal responsiv5ess :5 he attempts to utt] 8 own ?\ghts4 ,music is a p[]ful elem5t 9 awak5+ emotion 9 ! speak] & br++ to consci\sness ! my/]i\s inn] voices ( ! s\l4 ,! m9i/] %\ld n only he> good music z (t5 z possible1 b he %\ld tra9 8 e> to recognize ! rhy?m & melody 9 spee*4 ,= ! fulle/ developm5t ( ?is spiritual p[] 9 ! public speak] !re %\ld be frequ5t p]iods ( /illness & sil5ce4 ,"o mu/ li/5 mu* 9 ord] to accumulate mu*4 ,?\ght & feel+ require "t 9 :i* to gr[4 ,9 ?is way ! myriad s\nds t arise f humanity & f nature c be caught up 9 ! s\l ( ! speak] & subsequ5tly voic$ by him to o!rs4 ,! habit ( m$itat+ mu*1 ( brood+ ov] ?\ght1 :e!r x be our own or t ( o!rs1 w t5d to disclose new & deep] mean+s1 & consequ5tly deep] %ades & dep?s ( feel+4 ,! speak] w dilig5tly se>* = unwritt5 mean+s 9 words2 he w /udy1 :5ev] possible1 ma/]pieces ( pa9t+ & sculpture2 he w closely obs]ve ! natural feel+ ( well-br$ *ildr51 z %[n 9 _! conv]sation2 & 9 _m o!r ways t w sugge/ !mselves1 he w daily develop 8 emotional & spiritual p[]s ( expression4 ,! sci5ce ( prea*+ is important1 b s1 too1 is ! art ( prea*+4 ,a p[]ful pulpit is "o ( ! ne$s ( ! times4 ,a congregation readily recognizes a prea*] ( /rong convictions1 broad sympa?ies1 & consecrat$ p]sonality4 ,an affectionate nature 9 a m9i/]1 manife/+ itself 9 voice1 face1 & mann]1 w attract & influ5ce m51 :ile a h>%1 rigid1 vehem5t mann] w z easily repel !m4 ,x is to be fe>$ t _m s]mons are writt5 ) too mu* reg>d = lit]>y deportm5t on pap]1 & too little ?\ght ( _! value z pulsat+ messages to m54 ,! prea*] %\ld tra9 himself to take tight hold ( 8 ?\ght1 to grip x ) m5tal firmness & f]vor1 t he may aft]w>d convey x to o!rs ) def9it5ess & vigor4 ,?\ghts vaguely conceiv$ & held trembl+ly 9 ! m9d w manife/ a l "* :5 utt]$4 ,into ! writ+ ( ! s]mon put vitality & int5sity1 & ^! qualities w f9d _! natural place 9 deliv]y4 ,?rill ( ! p5 %\ld prec$e ?rill ( ! voice4 ,! habit ( ,dick5s ( act+ out ! *>act]s he 0 depict+ on pap] c\ld be copi$ to advantage by ! prea*]1 & frequ5tly dur+ ! writ+ ( 8 s]mon he might /& & utt] 8 ?\ghts al\d to te/ _! p[] & effectiv5ess ^u an imag9>y congregation4 ,!re %\ld be ! mo/ ?or\gh cultivation ( ! inn] s\rces ( ! prea*]1 :]eby ! spiritual & emotional =ces are s ar\s$ & br\ght "u control z to respond promptly & accurately to all ! speak]'s requirem5ts4 ,!re %\ld be assidu\s tra9+ ( ! speak+ voice z ! in/rum5t ( expression & ! natural outlet = ?\ght & feel+4 ,9 ! comb9$ cultivation ( ^! two ess5tials ( expression--_s & voice--! m9i/] w f9d ! true secret ( effective pulpit prea*+4 ,,c>e ,,( ,,! ,,speak]',s ,,?roat ,! ?roat z a vital "p ( ! public speak]'s "w 9 speak+ is wor?y ( ! greate/ c>e & consid]ation4 ,x is surpris+ t s little att5tion is giv5 to vocal hygi5e1 :5 x is rememb]$ t a s]i\s weakness or affection ( ! ?roat may disqualify a speak] = important "w4 ,! delicate & intricate ma*9]y ( ! vocal app>atus r5d]s x peculi>ly susceptible to misuse or exposure4 ,! common defects ( nasality1 ?roat9ess1 & h>%ness1 are due to wrong & c>eless use ( ! speak+-in/rum5t4 ,9 ! tra9+ ( ! public speak] ! fir/ /ep is to br+ ! brea?+ app>atus "u prop] control4 ,t is to say1 ! speak] mu/ accu/om himself1 ?r\gh c>eful practise1 to use ! abdom9al me?od ( brea?+1 & to keep 8 ?roat free f ! /ra9 to :i* x is commonly subject$4 ,?is =m ( brea?+ is n difficult to acquire1 s9ce x simply means t dur+ inhalation ! abdom5 is exp&$1 & dur+ exhalation x is contract$4 ,x %\ld be no long] necess>y to w>n ! speak] to brea! exclusively ?r\gh ! nose :5 n actually us+ ! voice4 ,:ile speak+ he mu/ s completely control ! brea? t n a p>ticle ( x c escape )\t giv+ up its equival5t 9 s\nd4 ,cl]gyman's sore ?roat is ! result ( improp] use or ov]/ra9+ ( ! voice4 ,sometimes ! e>ne/ness ( ! prea*] causes him to clut* ea* ^w ) ! vocal muscles1 in/ead ( us+ ! ?roat z an op5 *annel ?r\gh :i* ! voice may fl[ ) ease & fre$om4 ,_m speak]s1 9 an endeavor to be he>d at a great di/ance1 employ too l\d a tone1 =gett+ t ! ess5tial ?+ is a cle> & di/9ct articulation4 ,to speak cont9u\sly 9 high pit*1 or ?r\gh half-clos$ tee?1 almo/ inv>iably causes di/ress ( ?roat4 ,mo/ ?roat tr\bles may be set d[n to a lack ( prop] elocution>y tra9+4 ,to keep ! voice & ?roat 9 ord] !re %\ld be regul> daily practise1 if only = t5 m9utes4 ,! example might pr(itably be foll[$ ( c]ta9 actors :o make a practise ( humm+ occasionally dur+ ! day :ile engag$ 9 o!r duties1 z a means ( keep+ ! voice musical & resonant4 ,:5 ! ?roat becomes husky or weak x is a timely w>n+ f nature t x ne$s re/ & relaxation4 ,to cont9ue to engage 9 public speak+ "u ^! circum/ances is (t5 att5d$ ) great dang]1 result+ sometimes 9 total loss ( voice4 ,x is economy 9 ! end to discont9ue ! use ( ! voice :5 !re is a s]i\s cold or ! ?roat is o!rwise affect$4 ,n]v\sness1 anxiety1 or unusual m5tal ex]tion may cause a vocal breakd[n4 ,= ?is condition re/ is recomm5d$1 toge!r ) g5tle massag+ ( ! ?roat ) cold wat] mix$ ) a little v9eg> or eau de ,cologne4 ,a public speak] %\ld n engage 9 protract$ conv]sation imm$iately aft] a spee*4 ,! sudd5 transition f an auditorium to ! out] air %\ld rem9d ! speak] to keep 8 m\? securely clos$4 ,! g5]al physical condition ( ! speak] has mu* to d ) ! vigor & cle>ness ( 8 voice4 ,a daily plunge into cold wat]1 or at lea/ a spong+ ( ! entire surface ( ! body1 besides be+ a tonic luxury1 greatly invigorates ! ?roat & abdom9al muscles4 ,aft] ! tub a vigor\s rubb+ ) t[el & h&s %\ld produce a gl[4 ,to ! frequ5t "q :e!r smok+ is injuri\s to ! ?roat1 x is safe to say t ! weight ( au?ority & exp]i5ce favors ab/95ce4 ,any "o :o has spok5 = half an h\r or m 9 a smoke-cl\d$ room1 kn[s ! di/ress+ effect x has _h ^u ! s5sitive l9+ ( ! ?roat4 ,x mu/ be obvi\s1 !re=e1 t ! con/ant inhal+ ( smoke mu/ ev5 m directly irritate ! muc\s membrane4 ,! diet ( ! public speak] %\ld be reasonably mod]ate1 & ! extremes ( hot & cold avoid$4 ,! use ( ice-wat] is to be disc\rag$4 ,_m drugs & loz5ges are positively injuri\s to ! ?roat4 ,= habitual dryness ( ?roat a glyc]9e or honey tablet w usually obviate ! tr\ble4 ,dr4 ,morell ,mack5zie1 ! em95t ,engli% ?roat speciali/1 condemns ! use ( alcohol z p]nici\s1 & affirms t ev5 9 a comp>atively mild =m x keeps ! delicate tissues 9 a /ate ( conge/ion :i* makes !m p>ticul>ly liable to inflammation f cold or o!r causes4 ,x mu/ n be assum$ t ! ?roat is to be pamp]$4 ,a reasonable am\nt ( exposure w h>d5 x & to ?is ext5t is desirable4 ,to muffle ! ?roat ) a sc>f1 unless dem&$ by special conditions1 may make x unduly s5sitive & increase ! dang] ( tak+ cold :5 ! head is turn$ f side to side4 ,a lead+ physician confirms ! op9ion t ! be/ g>gle = daily use is t ( w>m wat] & salt4 ,?is %\ld be us$ e night & morn+ to cleanse & invigorate ! ?roat4 ,:]e !re is a t5d5cy to cat>rh a solution made ( p]oxide ( hydrog51 wit*-hazel1 & wat]1 9 equal p>ts1 w prove efficaci\s4 ,no?+ %\ld be snuff$ up ! nose except "u ! direction ( a physician1 le/ x cause deafness4 ,_m speak]s & s+]s h a favorite no/rum = improv+ ! voice4 ,! long & amus+ li/ includes hot milk1 tea1 c(fee1 *ampagne1 raw eggs1 lemonade1 apples1 rais9s1--& s>d9es6 ,a good rule is to eat sp>+ly if ! meal is tak5 j be=e speak+4 ,x ne$ h>dly be said t s]i\s vocal defects1 su* z enl>g$ tonsils1 elongat$ uvula1 & abnormal gr[?s 9 ! ?roat & nose are subjects = ! speciali/4 ,:5ev] possible a speak] %\ld te/ be=eh& ! ac\/ic prop]ties ( ! auditorium 9 :i* he is to speak = ! fir/ "t4 ,a helpful plan is to h a fri5d seat himself at ! back ( ! hall or *ur*1 & give 8 op9ion ( ! quality & project+ p[] ( ! speak]'s voice4 ,x is difficult to judge "o's own voice because x is convey$ to him n only f ! outside b also ?r\gh ! ,eu/a*ian tube & modifi$ by ! vibratory p>ts ( ! ?roat & head4 ,a speak] nev] he>s 8 own voice z x is he>d by ano!r4 ,no?+1 p]haps1 is s tax+ to ! ?roat z long-cont9u$ speak+ 9 "o quality ( tone4 ,!re are two di/9ct regi/]s :i* %\ld be judici\sly alt]nat$ by ! speak]4 ,^! are ! *e/ regi/]1 9 :i* ! vocal cords vibrate _! :ole l5g?1 & ! quality ( tone d]ives mo/ ( its "* f ! *e/ cavity2 & ! head regi/]1 9 :i* ! vocal cords vibrate only 9 "p1 & ! quality ( tone is re5=c$ by ! resonators ( ! face1 m\?1 & head4 ,! fir/ ( ^! regi/]s is sometimes call$ ! orotund voice f its quality ( r\ndness1 & is employ$ pr9cipally 9 language ( rev]5ce1 sublimity1 & gr&eur4 ,! head tone is ! voice ( ord9>y conv]sation & %\ld =m ! basis ( ! public-speak+ /yle4 ,no "o :o has to speak 9 public %\ld be disc\rag$ because ( limit$ vocal res\rces4 ,_m ( ! =emo/ orators began ) m>k$ disadvantages 9 ?is respect1 b made ^! %ortcom+s an inc5tive to high] ef=t4 ,"o well-kn[n speak] makes up = lack ( vocal p[] by extreme di/9ctness ( enunciation1 :ile ano!r (fsets an unpleasantly heavy quality ( voice by skilful modulation4 ,a few easily rememb]$ sugge/ions are3 #a4 ,re/ ! voice = an h\r or two be=e speak+ 9 public4 #b4 ,g>gle ! ?roat night & morn+ ) salt & wat]4 #c4 ,nev] =ce ! voice4 #d4 ,avoid all occasions t /ra9 ! voice1 su* z prolong$ conv]sation1 speak+ aga9/ noise1 or 9 cold & damp air4 #e4 ,practise deep brea?+ until x becomes an unconsci\s habit4 #f4 ,favor an outdoor life4 #g4 ,hum or s+ a little e day4 #h4 ,discont9ue public speak+ :5 !re is a sev]e cold or o!r affection ( ! ?roat4 #i4 ,re/ ! voice & body imm$iately aft] speak+ 9 public4 ,,don',,ts ,,= ,,public ,,speak]s ,don't rant4 ,don't prate4 ,don't fidget4 ,don't flatt]4 ,don't declaim4 ,don't be glib4 ,don't hesitate4 ,don't be nasal4 ,don't apologize4 ,don't dogmatize4 ,don't be slangy4 ,don't antagonize4 ,don't be awkw>d4 ,don't be viol5t4 ,don't be p]sonal4 ,don't be funny4 ,don't attitud9ize4 ,don't be monoton\s4 ,don't speak rapidly4 ,don't sway y\r body4 ,don't be long-w9d$4 ,don't hem & haw4 ,don't praise y\rself4 ,don't ov]ge/iculate4 ,don't pace ! plat=m4 ,don't cle> y\r ?roat4 ,don't po9t ) pride4 ,don't tell a long /ory4 ,don't rise on y\r toes4 ,don't di/ort y\r words4 ,don't /& l a /atue4 ,don't address ! ceil+4 ,don't speak 9 a high key4 ,don't emphasize ev]y?+4 ,don't dr9k :ile speak+4 ,don't fatigue y\r audi5ce4 ,don't exce$ y\r "t limit4 ,don't talk = talk+'s sake4 ,don't w&] f y\r subject4 ,don't fumble ) y\r clo!s4 ,don't speak ?r\gh clos$ tee?4 ,don't put y\r h&s on y\r hips4 ,don't fail to /op :5 y h end$4 ,,d',s ,,= ,,public ,,speak]s ,be prep>$4 ,beg9 sl[ly4 ,be mode/4 ,speak di/9ctly4 ,address all y\r he>]s4 ,be uni=mly c\rte\s4 ,prune y\r s5t5ces4 ,cultivate m5tal al]tness4 ,conceal y\r me?od4 ,be scrupul\sly cle>4 ,feel sure ( y\rself4 ,look y\r audi5ce 9 ! eyes4 ,be direct4 ,favor y\r deep tones4 ,speak delib]ately4 ,get to y\r facts4 ,be e>ne/4 ,obs]ve y\r pauses4 ,suit ! action to ! ^w4 ,be y\rself at y\r be/4 ,speak flu5tly4 ,use y\r abdom9al muscles4 ,make y\rself int]e/+4 ,be conv]sational4 ,conciliate y\r oppon5t4 ,r\se y\rself4 ,be logical4 ,h y\r wits ab\t y4 ,be consid]ate4 ,op5 y\r m\?4 ,speak au?oritatively4 ,cultivate s9c]ity4 ,cultivate brevity4 ,cultivate tact4 ,end swiftly4 ,,po9ts ,,= ,,speak]s ,z f> z possible avoid ! foll[+ hackney$ phrases3 ,i rise ) diffid5ce ,unaccu/om$ z ,i am to public speak+ ,by a happy /roke ( fate ,x becomes my pa9ful duty ,9 ! la/ analysis ,i am enc\rag$ to g on ,i po9t ) pride ,on ! o!r h& 7) ge/ure7 ,i hold ,! vox populi ,be t z x may ,i %all n deta9 y ,z ! h\r is gr[+ late ,believe me ,we view ) al>m ,z ,i 0 ab\t to tell y ,! happie/ day ( my life ,x falls to my lot ,i c say no m ,9 ! fluff & bloom ,i c only h9t ,i c say no?+ ,i _c f9d words ,! fact is ,to my m9d ,i _c suffici5tly d ju/ice ,i fe> ,all ,i c say is ,i %all n inflict a spee* on y ,f> be x f me ,rise pho5ix-l f 8 a%es ,b alas6 ,:at m c ,i say8 ,at ?is late p]iod ( ! ev5+ ,x is h>dly necess>y to say ,i _c all[ ! opportunity to pass ,=1 m>k y ,i h already tak5 up too mu* "t ,i might talk to y = h\rs ,look+ back ^u my *ildhood ,we c imag9e ! sc5e ,i hav5't ! "t nor ability ,ah1 no1 de> fri5ds ,"o m ^w & ,i h done ,i w n[ conclude ,i really mu/ /op ,i h done4 ,,! ,,bible ,,on ,,spee* ,h[ =cible are "r words6 ,to e ?+ !re is a season1 a "t to keep sil5ce1 & a "t to speak4 ,set a wat*1 ,o ,"l1 be=e my m\?2 keep ! door ( my lips4 ,let no corrupt communication proce$ out ( y\r m\?1 b t :i* is good to ! use ( edify+4 ,be swift to he>1 sl[ to speak1 sl[ to wra?4 ,let y\r spee* be always ) grace1 season$ ) salt1 t ye may "k h[ ye ought to answ] e man4 ,be ye holy 9 all mann] ( conv]sation4 ,let all bitt]ness1 & wra?1 & ang]1 & clamor1 & evil speak+1 be put away f y4 ,"k h[ to speak a ^w 9 season to him t is we>y4 ,let ! words ( my m\?1 & ! m$itation ( my he>t1 be acceptable 9 ,?y sight1 ,o ,"l1 my /r5g?1 & my r$eem]4 ,,?\ghts ,,on ,,talk+ ,to make a good talk]1 g5ius & le>n+1 ev5 wit & eloqu5ce1 are insuffici5t2 to ^!1 9 all or 9 "p1 mu/ be add$ 9 "s degree ! tal5ts ( active life4 ,! "* has z mu* to d ) colloquial p[] z has ! intellect2 ! temp]am5t1 feel+s1 & animal spirits1 ev5 m1 p]haps1 ?an ! m5tal gifts4 ,napoleon said ?+s :i* tell 9 hi/ory l 8 battles4 ,lu!r's ,table-,talk gl[s ) ! fire t burnt ! ,pope's bull4 ,caes>1 ,cic]o1 ,!mi/ocles1 ,"l ,bacon1 ,seld51 ,talleyr&1 &1 9 our own c\ntry1 ,a>on ,burr1 ,jeff]son1 ,web/]1 & ,*oate1 7 all1 m or less1 m5 ( action4 ,sir ,walt] ,scott tells u t1 at a great d9n] p>ty1 he ?\ght ! lawy]s beat ! ,bi%ops z talk]s1 & ! ,bi%ops ! wits4 ,ne>ly all great orators h be5 f9e talk]s4 ,"l ,*a?am1 :o c\ld electrify ! ,h\se ( ,lords by pron\nc+ ! ^w ,sug>1 b :o 9 private 0 b commonplace1 0 an exception2 b ! conv]sation ( ,pitt & ,fox 0 brilliant & fasc9at+1--t ( ,burke1 rambl+1 b spl5did1 ri* & in/ructive1 beyond description4 ,! latt] 0 ! only man 9 ! fam\s ,lit]>y ,club :o c\ld cope ) ,johnson4 ,! ,doctor confess$ t 9 ,burke he _h a foeman wor?y ( 8 /eel4 ,on "o occasion1 :5 debilitat$ by sickness1 he said3 ,t fell[ calls =? all my p[]s4 ,7 ,i to see ,burke n[1 x w\ld kill me4 ,at ano!r "t he said3 ,burke1 sir1 is su* a man t1 if y met him = ! fir/ "t 9 ! /reet1 :]e y 7 /opp$ by a drove ( ox51 & y & he /epp$ aside to take %elt] b = five m9utes1 he'd talk to y 9 su* a mann]1 t :5 y p>t$ y'd say--',?is is an extraord9>y man4' ,c he w9d into a subject l a s]p5t1 z ,burke does8 ask$ ,goldsmi? ( a c]ta9 talk]4 ,fox said t he _h d]iv$ m political in=mation f ,burke's conv]sation alone ?an f books1 sci5ce1 & all 8 worldly exp]i5ce put toge!r4 ,moore f9ely says ( ! same conv]sation1 t x mu/ h be5 l ! procession ( a ,roman triumph1 exhibit+ p[] & ri*es at e /ep1 occasionally m+l+ ! l[ ,fesc5n9e je/ ) ! l(ty music ( ! m>*1 b glitt]+ all ov] ) ! spoils ( a ransack$ _w4 --,ma!ws4 99 99 99 99 99 ,! fault ( lit]>y conv]sation 9 g5]al is its too great t5aci\sness4 ,x fa/5s ^u a subject1 & w n let x g4 ,x resembles a battle r ?an a skirmi%1 & makes a toil ( a pleasure4 ,p]haps x does ?is f necessity1 f a consci\sness ( want+ ! m famili> graces1 ! p[] to sport & trifle1 to t\* lightly & adorn agreeably1 e view or turn ( a "q en passant1 z x arises4 ,^? :o h a reputation to lose are too ambiti\s ( %9+1 to please4 ,to excel 9 conv]sation1 said an +5i\s man1 "o mu/ n be always /riv+ to say good ?+s3 to say "o good ?+1 "o mu/ say _m bad1 & m indiff]5t ones4 ,?is desire to %9e )\t ! means at h&1 (t5 makes m5 sil5t3-- ,! fe> ( be+ sil5t /rikes u dumb4 ,a writ] :o has be5 accu/om$ to take a connect$ view ( a difficult "q & to "w x out gradually 9 all its be>+s1 may be v defici5t 9 t quickness & ease :i* m5 ( ! _w1 :o are 9 ! habit ( he>+ a v>iety ( op9ions1 :o pick up an obs]vation on "o subject1 & ano!r on ano!r1 & :o c>e ab\t none any fur!r ?an ! pass+ away ( an idle h\r1 usually acquire4 ,an au?or has /udi$ a p>ticul> po9t--he has read1 he has inquir$1 he has ?\ght a great deal ^u x3 he is n cont5t$ to take x up casually 9 common ) o!rs1 to ?r[ out a h9t1 to propose an objection3 he w ei!r rema9 sil5t1 uneasy1 & dissatisfi$1 or he w beg9 at ! beg9n+1 & g ?r\gh ) x to ! end4 ,he is = tak+ ! :ole responsibility ^u himself4 ,he w\ld be ?\ght to und]/& ! subject bett] ?an o!rs1 or inde$ w\ld %[ t nobody else kn[s any?+ ab\t x4 ,!re are always ?ree or f\r po9ts on :i* ! lit]>y novice at 8 fir/ outset 9 life fancies he c enlight5 e company1 & be> d[n all opposition3 b he is cur$ ( ?is quixotic & pugnaci\s _s1 z he goes m into ! _w1 :]e he f9ds t !re are o!r op9ions & o!r pret5sions to be adju/$ besides 8 own4 ,:5 ?is asp]ity we>s (f1 & a c]ta9 s*ola/ic precocity is mell[$ d[n1 ! conv]sation ( m5 ( lett]s becomes bo? int]e/+ & in/ructive4 ,m5 ( ! _w h no fix$ pr9ciples1 no gr\ndwork ( ?\ght3 m]e s*ol>s h too mu* an object1 a !ory always 9 view1 to :i* !y wre/ ev]y?+1 & n unfrequ5tly1 common s5se itself4 ,by mix+ ) society1 !y rub (f _! h>dness ( mann]1 & impracticable1 (f5sive s+ul>ity1 :ile !y reta9 a great] dep? & coh]5ce ( und]/&+4 ,!re is m to be le>nt f !m ?an f _! books4 --,hazlitt4 99 99 99 99 99 ,!re are "s p ^: good mann]s w n suff] !m to int]rupt y1 b1 :at is almo/ z bad1 w discov] abundance ( impati5ce1 & lie ^u ! wat* until y h done1 because !y h />t$ some?+ 9 _! own ?\ghts1 :i* !y long to be deliv]$ (4 ,meantime1 !y are s f> f reg>d+ :at passes1 t _! imag9ations are :olly turn$ ^u :at !y h 9 res]ve1 = fe> x %\ld slip out ( _! memory2 & ?us !y conf9e _! inv5tion1 :i* might o!rwise range ov] a hundr$ ?+s full z good1 & t might be mu* m naturally introduc$4 ,!re is a sort ( rude famili>ity1 :i* "s p1 by practis+ among _! intimates1 h introduc$ into _! g5]al conv]sation1 & w\ld h x pass = innoc5t fre$om or humor2 :i* is a dang]\s exp]im5t 9 our nor!rn climate1 :]e all ! little decorum & polit5ess we h are purely =c$ by art1 & are s ready to lapse into b>b>ity4 ,?is1 among ! ,romans1 0 ! raill]y ( slaves1 ( :i* we h _m in/ances 9 ,plautus4 ,x seems to h be5 introduc$ among u by ,cromwell1 :o1 by pref]r+ ! scum ( ! p1 made x a c\rt ent]ta9m5t1 ( :i* ,i h he>d _m p>ticul>s2 &1 consid]+ all ?+s 7 turn$ upside d[n1 x 0 reasonable & judici\s2 al?\gh x 0 a piece ( policy f\nd out to ridicule a po9t ( honor 9 ! o!r extreme1 :5 ! smalle/ ^w misplac$ among g5tlem5 end$ 9 a duel4 ,!re are "s m5 excell5t at tell+ a /ory1 & provid$ ) a pl5tiful /ock ( !m1 :i* !y c draw out ^u occasion 9 all companies1 &1 consid]+ h[ l[ conv]sation runs n[ among u1 x is n altoge!r a contemptible tal5t2 h[ev]1 x is subject to two unavoidable defects1 frequ5t repetition1 & be+ soon exhau/$2 s1 t1 :oev] values ?is gift 9 himself1 has ne$ ( a good memory1 & ought frequ5tly to %ift 8 company1 t he may n discov] ! weakness ( 8 fund2 = ^? :o are ?us endu$ h seldom any o!r rev5ue1 b live ^u ! ma9 /ock4 --,swift4 99 99 99 99 99 ,! highe/ & be/ ( all ! moral conditions = conv]sation is :at we call tact4 ,i say a condition1 = x is v d\btful :e!r x c be call$ a s+le & sep>ate quality2 m probably x is a comb9ation ( intellectual quickness ) lively sympa?y4 ,b s cle>ly is x an intellectual quality1 t ( all o!rs x c be greatly improv$1 if n actually acquir$1 by long exp]i5ce 9 society4 ,l all social excell5ces x is almo/ giv5 z a pres5t to "s p1 :ile o!rs ) all possible labor nev] acquire x4 ,z 9 billi>d-play+1 %oot+1 cricket1 & all ^! o!r facilities :i* are p>tly m5tal & p>tly physical1 _m nev] c pass a c]ta9 po9t ( m$iocrity2 b /ill ev5 ^? :o h ! tal5t mu/ practise x1 & only become really di/+ui%$ aft] h>d "w4 ,s x is 9 art4 ,music & pa9t+ are n to be atta9$ by ! cr[d4 ,n ev5 ! j criticism ( ^! arts is atta9able )\t c]ta9 natural gifts2 b a great deal ( practice 9 good gall]ies & at good conc]ts1 & ye>s sp5t among arti/s1 w d mu* to make ev5 mod]ately-end[$ p s\nd judges ( excell5ce4 ,tact1 :i* is ! sure & quick judgm5t ( :at is suitable & agreeable 9 society1 is likewise "o ( ^? delicate & subtle qualities or a comb9ation ( qualities :i* is n v easily def9$1 & !re=e n tea*able by fix$ precepts4 ,"s p atta9 x ?r\gh sympa?y2 o!rs ?r\gh natural intellig5ce2 o!rs ?r\gh a calm temp]2 o!rs aga9 by obs]v+ closely ! mi/akes ( _! neighbors4 ,z its "n implies1 x is a s5sitive t\* 9 social matt]s1 :i* feels small *anges ( temp]ature1 & s guesses at *anges ( temp]2 :i* sees ! pass+ cl\d on ! expression ( "o face1 or ! eag]ness ( ano!r t desires to br+ out some?+ p]sonal = o!rs to enjoy4 ,?is quality ( tact is ( c\rse applicable f> beyond m]e actual conv]sation4 ,9 no?+ is x m useful ?an 9 prep>+ ! "r conditions = a pleasant society1 9 *oos+ ! p :o w be 9 mutual sympa?y1 9 ?9k+ ov] pleasant subjects ( talk & sugge/+ !m1 9 see+ t all di/urb+ conditions are kept out1 & t ! memb]s :o are to conv]se %\ld be all )\t ^? small inconv5i5ces :i* damage society s va/ly out ( proportion to _! intr9sic importance4 --,mahaffy4 99 99 99 99 99 ,9 ! c\rse ( our life we h he>d mu* ( :at 0 reput$ to be ! select conv]sation ( ! day1 & we h he>d _m ( ^? :o figur$ at ! mom5t z effective talk]s2 yet1 9 m]e s9c]ity1 & )\t a ve/ige ( misan?ropic retrospect1 we mu/ say t nev] once has x happ5$ to u to come away f any display ( t nature )\t int5se disappo9tm5t2 & x always appe>$ to u t ?is failure 7:i* soon ceas$ to be a disappo9tm5t7 0 inevitable by a necessity ( ! case4 ,= "h lay ! /ress ( ! difficulty3 almo/ all dep5ds 9 mo/ trials ( skill ^u ! p>ity ( ^? :o are mat*$ aga9/ ea* o!r4 ,an ignorant p]son supposes t to an able disputant x mu/ be an advantage to h a feeble oppon5t2 :]eas1 on ! contr>y1 x is ru9 to him2 = he c n display 8 own p[]s b ?r\gh some?+ ( a correspond+ p[] 9 ! resi/ance ( 8 antagoni/4 ,a brilliant f5c] is lo/ & conf\nd$ 9 play+ ) a novice2 & ! same ?+ takes place 9 play+ at ball1 or battl$ore1 or 9 danc+1 :]e a p[]less p>tn] does n enable y to %9e ! m1 b r$uces y to m]e helplessness1 & takes ! w9d altoge!r out ( y\r sails4 ,n[1 if by "s r>e good luck ! great talk]1 ! protagoni/1 ( ! ev5+ has be5 provid$ ) a comm5surate second1 x is j possible t some?+ l a brilliant passage ( arms may be ! result1--?\gh mu* ev5 9 t case w dep5d on ! *ances ( ! mom5t = furni%+ a =tunate !me1 & ev5 !n1 among/ ! sup]ior "p ( ! company1 a feel+ ( deep vulg>ity & ( m\ntebank display is insep>able f su* an o/5tati\s duel ( wit4 ,on ! o!r h&1 suppos+ y\r great talk] to be receiv$ l any o!r visitor1 & turn$ loose ^u ! company1 !n he mu/ d "o ( two ?+s3 ei!r he w talk ^u outre subjects specially taboo$ to 8 own private use1--9 :i* case ! great man has ! air ( a quack-doctor address+ a mob f a /reet /age2 or else he w talk l ord9>y p ^u popul> topics1--9 :i* case ! company1 out ( natural polit5ess1 t !y may n seem to be />+ at him z a lion1 w ha/5 to meet him 9 ! same /yle1 ! conv]sation w become g5]al1 ! great man w seem reasonable & well-br$1 b at ! same "t1 we grieve to say x1 ! great man w h be5 ext+ui%$ by be+ drawn (f f 8 exclusive gr\nd4 ,! dilemma1 9 %ort1 is ?is3--,if ! great talk] attempts ! plan ( %[+ (f by fir+ cannon-%ot :5 ev]ybody else is cont5t ) musketry1 !n und\bt$ly he produces an impression1 b at ! exp5se ( insulat+ himself f ! sympa?ies ( ! company1 & /&+ alo( z a sort ( mon/] hir$ to play tricks ( funambulism = ! night4 ,yet1 aga91 if he cont5ts himself ) a musket l o!r p1 !n = u1 f :om he mode/ly hides 8 tal5ts "u a bu%el1 9 :at respect is he diff]5t f ! man :o has no su* tal5t8 --,de ,qu9cey4 99 99 99 99 99 ,"s1 9 _! disc\rse1 desire r comm5dation ( wit1 9 be+ able to hold all argum5ts1 ?an ( judgm5t1 9 disc]n+ :at is true2 z if x 7 a praise to "k :at might be said1 & n :at %\ld be ?\ght4 ,"s h c]ta9 commonplaces & !mes :]e9 !y are good1 & want v>iety2 :i* k9d ( pov]ty is = ! mo/ "p t$i\s1 &1 :5 x is once p]ceiv$1 ridicul\s4 ,! honorable/ "p ( talk is to give ! occasion2 & aga9 to mod]ate & pass to some:at else2 = !n a man leads ! dance4 ,x is good 9 disc\rse1 & spee* ( conv]sation1 to v>y1 & int]m+le spee* ( ! pres5t occasion ) argum5ts1 tales ) reasons1 ask+ ( que/ions ) tell+ ( op9ions1 & je/ ) e>ne/2 = x is a dull ?+ to tire1 &1 z we say n[1 to jade any ?+ too f>4 ,z = je/1 !re be c]ta9 ?+s :i* ought to be privileg$ f x1 namely1 religion1 matt]s ( ,/ate1 great p]sons1 any man's pres5t bus9ess ( importance1 & any case t des]ve? pity2 yet !re be "s t ?9k _! wits h be5 asleep1 except !y d>t out some:at t is piquant1 & to ! quick4 ,t is a ve9 :i* w\ld be bridl$2 ,p>ce1 pu]1 /imulis1 et =tius ut]e loris4 ,&1 g5]ally1 m5 ought to f9d ! diff]5ce betwe5 saltness & bitt]ness4 ,c]ta9ly1 he t ha? a satirical ve91 z he make? o!rs afraid ( 8 wit1 s he _h ne$ be afraid ( o!rs' memory4 ,he t que/ione? mu* %all le>n mu*1 & cont5t mu*1 b especially if he apply 8 que/ions to ! skill ( ! p]sons :om he aske?2 = he %all give !m occasion to please !mselves 9 speak+1 & himself %all cont9ually ga!r k3 b let 8 que/ions n be tr\blesome1 = t is fit = a pos]2 & let him be sure to leave o!r m5 _! turns to speak3 nay1 if !re be any t w\ld reign & take up all ! "t1 let him f9d means to take !m (f1 & to br+ o!rs on1 z musicians use to d ) ^? t dance too long galli>ds4 ,if y dissemble sometimes y\r k ( t y are ?\ght to "k1 y %all be ?\ght1 ano!r "t1 to "k t y "k n4 ,spee* ( a man's self ought to be seldom1 & well *os54 ,i knew "o 0 wont to say 9 scorn1 ,he mu/ ne$s be a wise man1 he speaks s mu* ( himself2 & !re is b "o case :]e9 a man may comm5d himself ) good grace1 & t is 9 comm5d+ virtue 9 ano!r1 especially if x be su* a virtue :]eunto himself pret5de?4 ,spee* ( t\* t[>ds o!rs %\ld be sp>+ly us$2 = disc\rse ought to be z a field1 )\t com+ home to any man4 ,i knew two noblem51 ( ! we/ "p ( ,engl&1 :]e( ! "o 0 giv5 to sc(f1 b kept ev] royal *e] 9 8 h\se2 ! o!r w\ld ask ( ^? t _h be5 at ! o!r's table1 ,tell truly1 0 !re nev] a fl\t or dry bl[ giv58 ,to :i* ! gue/ w\ld answ]1 ,su* & su* a ?+ pass$4 ,! "l w\ld say1 ,i ?\ght he w\ld m> a good d9n]4 ,discretion ( spee* is m ?an eloqu5ce2 & to speak agreeably to him ) :om we deal1 is m ?an to speak 9 good words1 or 9 good ord]4 ,a good cont9u$ spee*1 )\t a good spee* ( int]locution1 %[s sl[ness2 & a good reply1 or second spee*1 )\t a good settl$ spee*1 %[e? %all[ness & weakness4 ,z we see 9 bea/s1 t ^? t are weake/ 9 ! c\rse1 are yet nimble/ 9 ! turn2 z x is betwixt ! greyh\nd & ! h>e4 ,to use too _m circum/ances1 ere "o come to ! matt]1 is we>isome2 to use none at all1 is blunt4 --,bacon4 99 99 99 99 99 ,?9k z little z possible ab\t any good 9 y\rself2 turn y\r eyes resolutely f any view ( y\r acquirem5t1 y\r influ5ce1 y\r plan1 y\r success1 y\r foll[+3 above all1 speak z little z possible ab\t y\rself4 ,! inord9at5ess ( our self-love makes spee* ab\t ourselves l ! putt+ ( ! light$ tor* to ! dri$ wood :i* has be5 laid 9 ord] = ! burn+4 ,no?+ b duty %\ld op5 our lips ^u ?is dang]\s !me1 except x be 9 humble confession ( our s9fulness be=e our ,god4 ,aga91 be specially ^u ! wat* aga9/ ^? little tricks by :i* ! va9 man seeks to br+ r\nd ! conv]sation to himself1 & ga9 ! praise or notice :i* ! ?ir/y e>s dr9k 9 s gre$ily2 & ev5 if praise comes uns\ght1 x is well1 :il/ m5 are utt]+ x1 to gu>d y\rself by ?9k+ ( "s secret cause = humbl+ y\rself inw>dly to ,god2 ?9k+ into :at ^! pleasant acc5ts w\ld be *ang$ if all t is kn[n to ,god1 & ev5 to y\rself1 /ood sudd5ly reveal$ to man4 --,bi%op ,wilb]=ce4 99 99 99 99 99 ,9 speak+ ( ! duty ( pleas+ o!rs1 x w n be necess>y to dwell on ! ord9>y c\rtesies & less] k9dnesses ( our daily liv+1 any fur!r ?an to obs]ve t none ( ^! ?+s1 h[ev] trifl+1 is b5ea? ! notice ( a good man1 444 b ,i m5tion "o ?+1 because ,i ?9k t we are mo/ ( u apt to be r defici5t 9 x1 & t is 9 ! try+ to suit ourselves to ! ta/es & views ( p]sons ^: pr(essions or incl9ations1 or situation 9 life1 diff] widely f our own4444 ,z a g5]al rule1 no man c fall into conv]sation ) ano!r )\t be+ able to le>n some?+ valuable f him4 ,b 9 ord] to get at ?is b5efit !re mu/ be some?+ ( an accommodat+ _s on bo? sides2 ea* mu/ be ready to he> c&idly & to answ] fairly2 ea* mu/ try to please ! o!r4 ,we all suff] f ! want ( acqua9tance ) ! habits & op9ions & feel+s ( diff]5t classes ( society4 --,dr4 ,arnold4 99 99 99 99 99 ,if y w\ld be lov$ z a companion1 avoid unnecess>y criticism ^u ^? ) :om y live4 ,! numb] ( p :o h tak5 out judges' pat5ts = !mselves is v l>ge 9 any society4 ,n[ x w\ld be h>d = a man to live ) ano!r :o 0 always criticis+ 8 actions1 ev5 if x 7 k9dly & j criticism4 ,x w\ld be l liv+ betwe5 ! glasses ( a microscope4 ,b ^! self-elect$ judges1 l _! prototypes1 are v apt to h ! p]sons !y judge br\ght be=e !m 9 ! guise ( culprits4 ,let n famili>ity swall[ up old c\rtesy4 ,_m ( u h a habit ( say+ to ^? ) :om we live su* ?+s z we say ab\t /rang]s beh9d _! backs4 ,!re is no place1 h[ev]1 :]e real polit5ess is ( m value ?an :]e we mo/ly ?9k x w\ld be sup]flu\s4 ,y may say m tru?1 or r speak out m pla9ly to y\r associates1 b n less c\rte\sly ?an to /rang]s4 --,helps4 99 99 99 99 99 ,mu* ( ! sorr[ ( life spr+s f ! accumulation1 day by day & ye> by ye>1 ( little trials--a lett] writt5 9 less ?an c\rte\s t]ms1 a wrangle at ! breakfa/ table ov] "s arrangem5t ( ! day1 ! rud5ess ( an acqua9tance on ! way to ! city1 an unfri5dly act on ! "p ( ano!r firm1 a cruel criticism ne$lessly report$ by "s m$dl]1 a fel9e am5ity at aft]noon tea1 ! disob$i5ce ( "o ( y\r *ildr51 a social slight by "o ( y\r circle1 a controv]sy too hotly conduct$4 ,! trials )9 ?is class are innum]able1 & consid]1 n "o ( !m is inevitable1 n "o ( !m b might h be5 sp>$ if we or our bro!r man _h _h a gra9 ( k9dl9ess4 ,our social insol5ces1 our irritat+ mann]s1 our c5sori\s judgm5t1 our v5om\s lett]s1 our p9 pricks 9 conv]sation1 are all =ms ( delib]ate unk9dness1 & are all evid5ces ( an ill-condition$ nature4 --,john ,watson4 99 99 99 99 99 ,if ?is be "o ( our *ief duties--promot+ ! happ9ess ( our neighbors--mo/ c]ta9ly !re is no?+ :i* s entirely runs c\nt] to x1 & makes x impossible1 z an undiscipl9$ temp]4 ,= ( all ! ?+s t are to be met ) "h on e>?1 !re is no?+ :i* c give su* cont9ual1 su* cutt+1 su* useless pa94 ,! t\*y & s5sitive temp]1 :i* takes (f5ce at a ^w2 ! irritable temp]1 :i* f9ds (f5ce 9 ev]y?+ :e!r int5d$ or n2 ! viol5t temp]1 :i* breaks ?r\gh all b\nds ( reason :5 once r\s$2 ! jeal\s or sull5 temp]1 :i* we>s a cl\d on ! face all day1 & nev] utt]s a ^w ( compla9t2 ! discont5t$ temp]1 brood+ ov] its own wrongs2 ! sev]e temp]1 :i* always looks at ! wor/ side ( :atev] is done2 ! wilful temp]1 :i* ov]rides e scruple to gratify a :im1--:at an am\nt ( pa9 h ^! caus$ 9 ! he>ts ( m51 if we c\ld b sum up _! results6 ,h[ _m a s\l h !y /irr$ to evil impulses2 h[ _m a pray] h !y /ifl$2 h[ _m an emotion ( true affection h !y turn$ to bitt]ness6 ,h[ h>d !y sometimes make all duties6 ,h[ pa9ful !y make all daily life6 ,h[ !y kill ! sweete/ & w>me/ ( dome/ic *>ities6 ,! mis]y caus$ by o!r s9s is (t5 mu* deep] & mu* ke5]1 m disa/r\s1 m t]rible to ! sight2 b ! accumulat$ pa9 caus$ by ill-temp] mu/1 ,i v]ily believe1 if add$ toge!r1 outweigh all o!r pa9s t m5 h to be> f "o ano!r4 --,bi%op ,temple4 99 99 99 99 99 ,wick$ is ! sl&] :i* gossips away a "* 9 an aft]noon1 & runs lightly ov] a :ole s]ies ( acqua9tances1 leav+ a drop ( poison on !m all1 "s suspicion1 or "s om9\s sil5ce--,h y n he>d8--,no "o w\ld believe x1 b--6 & !n sil5ce2 :ile ! %ake ( ! head1 or ! %rug ( ! %\ld]s1 f9i%es ! s5t5ce ) a mute mean+ worse ?an words4 ,d y ev] ?9k ( ! irrevocable nature ( spee*8 ,! ?+s y say are (t5 said =ev]4 ,y may f9d1 ye>s aft] y\r light ^w 0 spok51 t x has made a :ole life unhappy1 or ru9$ ! peace ( a h\sehold4 ,x 0 well said by ,/4 ,james1 ,if any man among y seem to be religi\s1 & bridle? n 8 tongue1 t man's religion is va94 --,/op=d ,brooke4 99 99 99 99 99 ,!re are ?ree k9ds ( sil5ce4 ,sil5ce f words is good1 because inord9ate speak+ t5ds to evil4 ,sil5ce1 or re/ f desires & passions1 is /ill bett]1 because x promotes quietness ( _s4 ,b ! be/ ( all is sil5ce f unnecess>y & w&]+ ?\ghts1 because t is ess5tial to int]nal recollection1 & because x lays a f\ndation = a prop] regulation & sil5ce 9 o!r respects4 --,madame ,guyon4 99 99 99 99 99 ,! example ( our ,"l1 z ,he humbly & calmly takes ! rebuff1 & turns to g to ano!r village1 may help u 9 ! ord9>y ways ( ord9>y daily life4 ,! little ?+s t vex u 9 ! mann] or ! words ( ^? ) :om we h to d2 ! ?+s :i* seem to u s inconsid]ate1 or wilful1 or annoy+1 t we ?9k x impossible to get on ) ! p :o are capable ( !m2 ! mi/akes :i* no "o1 we say1 has any "r to make2 ! %all[ness1 or conv5tionality1 or n>r[ness1 or positiv5ess 9 talk :i* makes u w9ce & tempts u t[>ds ! cruelty & wick$ness ( scorn2--surely 9 all ^! ?+s1 & 9 _m o!rs l !m1 ( :i* consci5ce may be ready en\gh to speak to mo/ ( u1 !re are really opportunities = ?us foll[+ ! example ( our ,savi\r's great humility & pati5ce4 ,h[ _m fri5d%ips we might w9 or keep1 h[ _m *ances ( s]v+ o!rs we might f9d1 h[ _m lessons we might le>n1 h[ mu* ( unsuspect$ moral beauty might be disclos$ ar\nd u1 if only we 7 m c>eful to give p "t1 to /ay judgm5t1 to tru/ t !y w see ?+s m ju/ly1 speak ( !m m wisely1 aft] a :ile4 ,we are sure to g on clos+ doors ( sympa?y1 & n>r[+ 9 ! int]e/s & opportunities ( "w ar\nd u1 if we let ourselves imag9e t we c quickly measure ! capacities & sift ! *>act]s ( our fell[-m54 --,bi%op ,paget4 99 99 99 99 99 ,h[ mu* squ&]+ !re is ( ! voice6 ,h[ little is !re ( ! advantage t may come f conv]sational tones6 ,h[ seldom does a man d>e to acquit himself ) pa?os & f]vor6 ,& ! m5 are !mselves me*anical & me?odical 9 ! bad way1 :o are mo/ afraid ( ! artificial tra9+ t is giv5 9 ! s*ools1 & :o s (t5 %[ by ! fruit ( _! labor t ! want ( oratory is ! want ( education4 ,h[ rem>kable is sweetness ( voice 9 ! "m1 9 ! fa!r1 9 ! h\sehold6 ,! music ( no *ord$ in/rum5ts br\ght toge!r is1 = sweetness1 l ! music ( famili> affection :5 spok5 by bro!r & si/]1 or by fa!r & "m4 ,conv]sation itself belongs to oratory4 ,h[ _m m5 !re are :o are weighty 9 argum5t1 :o h abundant res\rces1 & :o are almo/ b\ndless 9 _! p[] at o!r times & 9 o!r places1 b :o1 :5 9 company among _! k9d1 are exce$+ly unapt 9 _! me?ods4 ,hav+ none ( ! secret in/rum5ts by :i* ! elem5ts ( nature may be t\*$1 hav+ no skill & no p[] 9 ?is direction1 !y /& z ma*9es be=e liv+1 s5sitive m54 ,a man may be z a ma/] be=e an in/rum5t2 only ! in/rum5t is dead2 & he has ! liv+ h&2 & out ( t dead in/rum5t :at wondr\s h>mony spr+s =? at 8 t\*6 ,& if y c electrify an audi5ce by ! p[] ( a liv+ man on dead ?+s1 h[ mu* m %\ld t audi5ce be electrifi$ :5 ! *ords are liv+ & ! man is alive1 & he kn[s h[ to t\* !m ) div9e inspiration6 --,bee*]4 99 99 99 99 99 ,e "o endeavors to make himself z agreeable to society z he c2 b x (t5 happ5s t ^? :o mo/ aim at %9+ 9 conv]sation1 ov]%oot _! m>k4 ,?o a man succe$s1 he %\ld n 7z is frequ5tly ! case7 engross ! :ole talk to himself2 = t de/roys ! v ess5ce ( conv]sation1 :i* is talk+ toge!r4 ,we %\ld try to keep up conv]sation l a ball b&i$ to & fro f "o to ! o!r1 r ?an seize x all to ourselves1 & drive x be=e u l a football4 ,we %\ld likewise be cauti\s to adapt ! matt] ( our disc\rse to our company1 & n talk ,greek be=e ladies1 or ( ! la/ new furbel[ to a meet+ ( c\ntry ju/ices4 ,b no?+ ?r[s a m ridicul\s air ov] our :ole conv]sation ?an c]ta9 peculi>ities easily acquir$1 b v difficultly conqu]$ & disc>d$4 ,9 ord] to display ^! absurdities 9 a tru] light1 x is my pres5t purpose to enum]ate su* ( !m z are mo/ commonly to be met )2 & fir/ to take notice ( ^? buffons 9 society1 ! ,attitud9>ians & ,face-mak]s4 ,^! accompany e ^w ) a peculi> grimace or ge/ure2 !y ass5t ) a %rug1 & contradict ) a twi/+ ( ! neck2 are angry by a wry m\?1 & pleas$ 9 a cap] or m9uet /ep4 ,!y may be consid]$ z speak+ h>lequ9s2 & _! rules ( eloqu5ce are tak5 f ! po/ure-ma/]4 ,^! %\ld be condemn$ to conv]se only 9 dumb %[ ) _! own p]sons 9 ! look+-glass1 z well z ! ,smirk]s & ,smil]s1 :o s prettily set (f _! faces1 toge!r ) _! words1 by a je-ne-sais-quoi betwe5 a gr9 & a dimple4 ,) ^! we may likewise rank ! affect$ tribe ( mimics1 :o are con/antly tak+ (f ! peculi> tone ( voice or ge/ure ( _! acqua9tance1 ?o !y are su* wret*$ imitators1 t 7l bad pa9t]s7 !y are frequ5tly =c$ to write ! "n "u ! picture be=e we c discov] any lik5ess4 ,next to ^! ^: elocution is absorb$ 9 action1 & :o conv]se *iefly ) _! arms & legs1 we may consid] ! ,pr(e/ ,speak]s4 ,& fir/1 ! ,emphatical1 :o squeeze1 & press1 & ram d[n e syllable ) excessive vehem5ce & en]gy4 ,^! orators are rem>kable = _! di/9ct elocution & =ce ( expression2 !y dwell on ! important p>ticul>s ( & !1 & ! significant conjunction &1 :i* !y seem to hawk up1 ) mu* difficulty1 out ( _! own ?roats1 & to cram !m1 ) no less pa91 into ! e>s ( _! auditors4 ,^! %\ld be suff]$ only to syr+e 7z x 77 ! e>s ( a deaf man1 ?r\gh a he>+-trumpet2 ?o ,i mu/ confess t ,i am equally (f5d$ ) ! ,:isp]]s or ,l[-speak]s1 :o seem to fancy all _! acqua9tance deaf1 & come up s close to y t !y may be said to measure noses ) y1 & frequ5tly ov]come y ) ! full exhalations ( a f\l brea?4 ,i w\ld h ^! oracul> g5try oblig$ to speak at a di/ance ?r\gh a speak+-trumpet1 or apply _! lips to ! walls ( a :isp]+-gall]y4 ,! ,wits :o w n condesc5d to utt] any?+ b a bon-mot1 & ! ,:i/l]s or ,tune-humm]s1 :o nev] articulate at all1 may be jo9$ v agreeably toge!r 9 conc]t2 & to ^! t9kl+ cymbals ,i w\ld also add ! s\nd+ brass1 ! ,bawl]1 :o inquires aft] y\r heal? ) ! bell[+ ( a t[n-cri]4 ,! ,tattl]s1 ^: pliable pipes are admirably adapt$ to ! s(t p>ts ( conv]sation1 & sweetly prattl+ out ( fa%ion1 make v pretty music f a beautiful face & a female tongue2 b f a r\gh manly voice & co>se features m]e nons5se is z h>% & dissonant z a jig f a hurdy-gurdy4 ,! ,swe>]s ,i h spok5 ( 9 a =m] pap]2 b ! ,half-,swe>]s1 :o split & m9ce1 & fritt] _! oa?s into gad's b1 ad's fi%1 & demme1 ! ,go?ic ,humbugg]s1 & ^? :o nickname ,god's creatures1 & call a man a cabbage1 a crab1 a que] cub1 an odd fi%1 & an unacc\ntable sk91 %\ld nev] come into company )\t an int]pret]4 ,b ,i w n tire my read]'s pati5ce by po9t+ out all ! pe/s ( conv]sation1 nor dwell p>ticul>ly on ! ,s5sibles1 :o pron\nce dogmatically on ! mo/ trivial po9ts1 & speak 9 s5t5ces2 ! ,wond]]s1 :o are always wond]+ :at o'clock x is1 or wond]+ :e!r x w ra9 or no1 or wond]+ :5 ! moon *anges2 ! ,phraseologi/s1 :o expla9 a ?+ by all t1 or ent] into p>ticul>s1 ) ?is & t & t'o!r2 & la/ly1 ! ,sil5t ,m51 :o seem afraid ( op5+ _! m\?s le/ !y %\ld cat* cold1 & lit]ally obs]ve ! precept ( ! ,gospel1 by lett+ _! conv]sation be only yea & nay4 ,! rational int]c\rse kept up by conv]sation is "o ( our pr9cipal di/9ctions f brutes4 ,we %\ld1 !re=e1 endeavor to turn ?is peculi> tal5t to our advantage1 & consid] ! organs ( spee* z ! in/rum5ts ( und]/&+2 we %\ld be v c>eful n to use !m z ! weapons ( vice1 or tools ( folly1 & d our utmo/ to unle>n any trivial or ridicul\s habits1 :i* t5d to less5 ! value ( su* an ine/imable pr]ogative4 ,x is1 inde$1 imag9$ by "s philosoph]s1 t ev5 birds & bea/s 7?o )\t ! p[] ( articulation7 p]fectly und]/& "o ano!r by ! s\nds !y utt]2 & t dogs1 cats1 etc41 h ea* a p>ticul> language to !mselves1 l diff]5t nations4 ,?us x may be suppos$ t ! night+ales ( ,italy h z f9e an e> = _! own native woodnotes z any signor or signora = an ,italian air2 t ! bo>s ( ,we/phalia gruntle z expressively ?r\gh ! nose z ! inhabitants 9 ,high ,g]man2 & t ! frogs 9 ! dykes ( ,holl& croak z intelligibly z ! natives jabb] _! ,l[ ,dut*4 ,h[ev] ?is may be1 we may consid] ^? ^: tongues h>dly seem to be "u ! influ5ce ( reason1 & d n keep up ! prop] conv]sation ( human creatures1 z imitat+ ! language ( diff]5t animals4 ,?us1 = in/ance1 ! aff9ity betwe5 ,*att]]s & ,monkeys1 & ,prat]s & ,p>rots1 is too obvi\s n to occur at once2 ,grunt]s & ,gr[l]s may be ju/ly comp>$ to ,hogs2 ,sn>l]s are ,curs t cont9ually %[ _! tee?1 b nev] bite2 & ! ,spitfire passionate are a sort ( wild cats t w n be> /rok+1 b w purr :5 !y are pleas$4 ,compla9]s are ,scree*-,owls2 & ,/ory-,tell]s1 always repeat+ ! same dull note1 are ,cuckoos4 ,poets t prick up _! e>s at _! own hide\s bray+ are no bett] ?an ,asses4 ,critics 9 g5]al are v5om\s ,s]p5ts t delight 9 hiss+1 & "s ( !m :o h got by he>t a few te*nical t]ms )\t kn[+ _! mean+ are no o!r ?an ,magpies4 ,i1 myself1 :o h cr[$ to ! :ole t[n = ne> ?ree ye>s pa/ may p]haps put my read]s 9 m9d ( a ,b>ny>d ,cock2 b z ,i mu/ acqua9t !m t !y w he> ! la/ ( me on ?is day =tnight1 ,i hope t !y w !n consid] me z a ,swan1 :o is suppos$ to s+ sweetly at 8 dy+ mom5ts4 --,c[p]4 99 99 99 99 99 ,x is almo/ a def9ition ( a g5tleman to say t he is "o :o nev] inflicts pa94 ,?is description is bo? ref9$1 &1 s f> z x goes1 accurate4 ,he is ma9ly occupi$ 9 m]ely remov+ ! ob/acles :i* h9d] ! free & unemb>rass$ action ( ^? ab\t him1 & he concurs ) _! movem5ts r ?an takes ! initiative himself4 ,8 b5efits may be consid]$ z p>allel to :at are call$ ! com=ts or conv5i5ces 9 arrangem5ts ( a p]sonal nature--l an easy *air or a good fire1 :i* d _! be/ 9 dispell+ cold & fatigue1 ?o nature provides bo? means ( re/ & animal heat )\t !m4 ,! true g5tleman 9 l mann] c>efully avoids :atev] may cause a j> or a jolt 9 ! m9d ( ^? ) :om he is ca/--all cla%+ ( op9ion or collision ( feel+1 all re/ra9t or suspicion or gloom or res5tm5t1 8 great conc]n be+ to make e "o at ease & at home4 ,he has 8 eyes on all 8 company1 he is t5d] t[>d ! ba%ful1 g5tle t[>d ! di/ant1 & m]ciful t[>d ! absurd4 ,he c recollect to :om he is speak+2 he gu>ds aga9/ unseasonable allusions or topics :i* may irritate2 he is seldom prom95t 9 conv]sation1 & nev] we>isome4 ,he makes light ( favors :5 he does !m1 & seems to be receiv+ :5 he is conf]r+4 ,he nev] speaks ( himself except :5 compell$1 nev] def5ds himself by a m]e retort2 he has no e>s = sl&] or gossip1 is scrupul\s 9 imput+ motive to ^? :o int]f]e ) him1 & int]prets ev]y?+ = ! be/4 ,he is nev] mean or little 9 8 disputes1 nev] takes unfair advantage1 nev] mi/akes p]sonalities or %>p say+s = argum5ts1 or ins9uates evil :i* he d>e n say out4 ,f a long-sight$ prud5ce1 he obs]ves ! maxim ( ! anci5t sage1 t we %\ld ev] conduct ourselves t[>d our enemy z if he 7 "o day to be our fri5d4 ,he has too mu* good s5se to be affront$ at insults4 ,he is too well employ$ to rememb] injuries & too indol5t to be> malice4 ,he is pati5t1 =be>+1 & resign$ on philosophical pr9ciple2 he submits to pa9 because x is inevitable1 to b]eavem5t1 because x is irrep>able1 & to dea? because x is 8 de/9y4 ,if he engages 9 controv]sy ( any k9d1 8 discipl9$ intellect pres]ves him f ! blund]+ disc\rtesy ( bett]1 p]haps1 b less educat$ m9ds1 :o1 l blunt weapons1 te> & hack in/ead ( cutt+ clean1 :o mi/ake ! po9t 9 argum5t1 wa/e _! /r5g? on trifles1 misconceive _! adv]s>y1 & leave ! 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