,,lett]s ,,to ,a ,,daught] ,,& ,a ,,little ,,s]mon ,,to ,,s*ool-,,girls4 ,,by ,,hel5 ,,ek9 ,,/>rett1 ,au?or ( ,! ,future ( ,educat$ ,wom51 etc4 ,,*icago3 ,,jans51 ,mc,c,l,u,r,g1 ,,company4 #ahhf4 ,,copyright1 ,,by ,,jans51 ,,mcclurg1 ,,co4 ,a4,d4 #ahhe4 ,,cont5ts4 ,,lett] ,i4 ,,behavior ,,& ,,mann]s #e ,,lett] ,,ii4 ,,self-,,control ,,& ,,self-,,culture #af ,,lett] ,,iii4 ,,aims ,,9 ,,life #bg ,,lett] ,,iv4 ,,p]sonal ,,habits #ce ,,lett] ,v4 ,,society--,,conv]sation #df ,,lett] ,,vi4 ,,associates ,,& ,,fri5ds #ei ,,lett] ,,vii4 ,,tact--,,unobtrusiv5ess #ga ,,lett] ,,viii4 ,,:o ,,are ,,! ,,cultivat$8 #ha ,,lett] ,,ix4 ,,religi\s ,,culture ,,& ,,duty #hh ,a ,,little ,,s]mon ,,to ,,s*ool-,,girls #aja ,,lett]s ,,to ,a ,,daught]4 ,,lett] ,i4 ,,behavior ,,& ,,mann]s4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,"o ( ! greate/ bless+s ,i c\ld wi% = y1 z y pass out f ! gu>dian%ip ( home into life ) its duties & trials1 is t y %\ld possess ! p[] ( w9n+ love & fri5ds4 ,) ?is p[]1 ! poor girl is ri*2 )\t x1 ! ri*e/ girl is poor4 ,9 ! ma91 ?is p[] ( w9n+ fri5ds & love dep5ds ^u two ?+s3 behavior & mann]s4 ,betwe5 ^! !re is an important di/9ction1 b "o is ! outgr[? ( ! o!r4 ,! root ( good mann]s is good behavior4 ,consid] ) me = a little :at ea* implies4 ,behavior is a reveal] ( real "*4 ,x has especially to d ) ! m s]i\s duties & relations ( life4 ,its greate/ importance is 9 ! home4 ,h[ well d ,i rememb] a visit1 made 9 my y\?1 to a s*ool fri5d :om ,i _h le>n$ to admire greatly = h] sup]ior intellect1 quick wit1 p[] ( acquir+ k1 & ability to recite well 9 class4 ,9 h] home %e 0 rude & disrespectful & ev5 disob$i5t to h] p>5ts2 cross & s>ca/ic ) h] bro!rs & si/]s2 selfi% & indol5t 9 all matt]s p]ta9+ to ! "w ( ! h\sehold4 ,:at a dis5*antm5t 0 my exp]i5ce6 ,t great & good man1 :o has writt5 s _m noble precepts ab\t ! conduct ( life1 ,mr4 ,em]son1 9 speak+ ( & prais+ a noble citiz51 says3 ,nev] 0 su* =ce1 good mean+1 good s5se1 good action1 comb9$ ) su* lovely dome/ic behavior1 su* mode/y1 & p]si/5t pref]5ce = o!rs4 ,?is 0 :at 0 lack+ 9 my s*ool fri5d3 lovely dome/ic behavior4 ,no?+ c\ld comp5sate = ?is defici5cy4 ,:at 0 ne$$ 9 ?is "y girl 9 ord] t %e might h exhibit$ 9 h] daily life a lovely dome/ic behavior8 ,an almo/ total recon/ruction ( "*2 su* a cultivation ( ! moral s5se z w\ld h made x a matt] ( consci5ce ) h] to honor h] fa!r & "m1 to be respectful to !m & desir\s ( pleas+ & s]v+ !m4 ,selfi%ness 0 ! ma9 cause ( h] ill-treatm5t ( h] bro!rs & si/]s1 z x 0 ( h] indol5ce1 & h] indiff]5ce to ! p]=mance ( h] %>e ( ! h\sehold duties4 ,h] behavior 9 ! home 0 su* t %e repell$1 r ?an attract$1 affection4 ,h] own p]sonal pref]5ce1 mood1 feel+1 7 con/antly all[$ to control h] conduct2 & ! deep und]ly+ defici5cy 9 h] "* 0 lack ( a t5d] consci5ce & ( a s5se ( duty4 ,lovely dome/ic behavior is ! natural outgr[? & expression ( a beautiful1 h>moni\s1 & lovely "* ,9 ord] to behave beautifully1 we mu/ cultivate assidu\sly ! graces ( ! _s4 ,we mu/ p]si/5tly /rive aga9/ selfi%ness1 ill-temp] irritability1 indol5ce4 ,x is impossible = ! selfi% or ill-temp]$ girl to w9 love & fri5ds4 ,g5]osity1 k9dness1 self-d5ial1 indu/ry--^! are ! traits :i* inspire love & w9 fri5ds4 ,^! are ! graces t w make ! humble/ home beautiful & happy1 & )\t :i* ! co/lie/ mansion is a m]e empty %ell4 ,"o m po9t 9 reg>d to behavior ,i wi% to impress ^u y\r m9d z ( v great importance1 al?\gh x relates less to ! home & m to g5]al society4 ,i mean t ( mode/ behavior z di/+ui%$ f =w>dness & boldness4 ,"o ( ! greate/ *>ms ( "y girlhood is mode/y2 "o ( ! greate/ blemi%es 9 ! "* ( any "y p]son1 especially ( any "y girl or woman1 is =w>dness1 boldness1 p]tness4 ,! "y girl :o acts 9 su* a mann] z to attract att5tion 9 public2 :o speaks l\dly1 & jokes & laughs & tells /ories 9 ord] to be he>d by o!rs ?an h] imm$iate companions2 :o dresses conspicu\sly2 :o enjoys be+ ! object ( rem>k2 :o expresses op9ions on all subjects ) =w>d self-confid5ce1 is rightly reg>d$ by all ?\ghtful & cultivat$ p z "o ( ! mo/ disagreeable & obnoxi\s *>act]s to be met ) 9 society4 ,mode/y is "o ( ! lovelie/ ( graces1 & %\ld be con/antly cultivat$4 ,& n[ y w see :at ,i mean by say+ t ! root ( good mann]s is good behavior4 ,9 o!r words1 good mann]s h _! "t & liv+ root 9 moral qualities & ! ,*ri/ian graces4 ,!re is a c]ta9 surface display ( mann]s :i* may be acquir$ & :i* may deceive & pass ) ^? :o d n "k u intimately2 b !re is all ! diff]5ce betwe5 su* sup]ficial good mann]s & ^? :i* are real1 t !re is betwe5 ! cut b\quet ( fl[]s :i* delights = an h\r or two & !n )]s away1 & ! liv+1 gr[+ plant :i* con/antly delights u ) fre% beauty & bloom4 ,:at are ! *>act]i/ics ( ! agreeable & beautiful mann]s t are ! ornam5t & *>m ( ! well-behav$ girl8 ,fir/ we %\ld place g5tl5ess1 quietness1 & s]5ity or self-possession4 ,x has be5 well said by an obs]v+ social critic1 t ! p]son :o has no mann]s at all has good mann]s4 ,:at is meant by ?is1 & !re is a deep tru? 9 x1 is t g5tle & quiet mann]s d n attract att5tion at all4 ,_! greate/ *>m is _! unobtrusiv5ess1 j z ! *>m & di/+ui%+ m>k ( a well-dress$ p]son is t ! dress is n /rik+ or obtrusive4 ,y c inf] f ?is h[ inconsi/5t ) good mann]s is heat & exagg]ation 9 conv]sation4 ,x is a j compla9t among ref9$ & cultivat$ p t _m1 ev5 ( ! well-educat$ "y wom5 ( ! pres5t day1 talk too l\dly & vehem5tly2 are giv5 to exagg]ation ( /atem5t & slang expressions4 ,! greate/ blemi% ( ! conv]sation & mann]s ( ! "y p ( to-day is obtrusiv5ess & exagg]ation4 ,by obtrusiv5ess ,i mean a /yle ( spee* & mann]s t attracts att5tion & rem>k2 by exagg]ation ,i mean ! too con/ant use ( ! sup]lative 9 conv]sation1 & a c]ta9 incongruity & inappropriat5ess ( expression :i* is v (f5sive to ! cultivat$ ta/e4 ,su* expressions z p]fectly awful1 p]fectly beautiful1 too lovely = any?+1 hateful1 horrible1 may con/antly be he>d 9 conv]sation ^u trivial & unimportant subjects 9 companies ( "y p ^: educational opportunities & social advantages w\ld lead u to expect a v diff]5t /yle ( conv]sation4 ,s ( incongru\s & inappropriate expressions4 ,my gr&fa!r & gr&mo!r di$ on ! same day ( ! ye>8 wasn't x funny8 said a "y miss to a companion ,%e meant t x 0 a /range circum/ance or co9cid5ce4 ,x 0 ! wise rem>k ( a great man t culture kills exagg]ation4 ,true & c>eful culture %\ld also we$ out f our beautiful & expressive ,engli% language all su* incongruities & blemi%es ( spee* z ,i h indicat$4 ,ref]r+ once m to :at ,i h said ab\t obtrusiv5ess1 =w>dness1 or boldness1 be+ an unpleasant *>act]i/ic ( ! mann]s ( _m "y p ( ! pres5t day1 ,i want to impress ^u y t mu* ( ?is boldness arises f lack ( def]5ce or rev]5ce = p>5ts1 tea*]s1 & old] p4 ,?is lack ( def]5ce is a great defect ( "* 9 any "y p]son4 ,x is pa9fully noticeable 9 _m homes :]e *ildr5 nev] seem to ?9k ( pay+ any respect to ! pres5ce ( _! p>5ts or old] p2 :]e !y w monopolize conv]sation at table1 int]rupt _! p>5ts & gue/s to ask irrelevant que/ions or relate irrelevant incid5ts1 ent] a room abruptly1 &1 )\t wait+ to le>n :e!r any "o is speak+1 at once beg9 to speak ( some?+ p]ta9+ to _! own affairs4 ,all ?is is bad behavior & bad mann]s4 ,x is morally wrong z well4 ,god has comm&$ t we %all honor our fa!r & "m2 & "o beautiful precept ( scripture is1 ,?\ %alt rise up be=e ! ho>y head & honor ! face ( ! old man4 ,to sum up 9 ! %ort space ( "o lett] ! m important tru?s ,i w\ld impress ^u y\r m9d 9 reg>d to behavior & mann]s1 let me say ?is3 ,!re are good manuals ( etiquette & social =m :i* %\ld be read & /udi$ by all "y p4 ,!re are1 also1 con/ant opportunities = obs]vation ( ! conduct & mann]s ( polite p1 by :i* "y p may & %\ld pr(it & le>n to obs]ve ! outw>d =ms ( society4 ,^! are easily le>n$ & practic$2 b ! f9e/1 be/1 mo/ g5u9e good mann]s c nev] be acquir$ except z !y become ! natural expression ( g5tl5ess1 k9dness intellig5ce1 respect = p>5ts & eld]s1 & an e>ne/ desire to d good to our fell[ be+s4 ,/rive1 my de> *ild1 to *]i% ^! graces 9 y\r he>t1 & good behavior & good mann]s w naturally foll[4 ,,lett] ,,ii4 ,,self-,,control ,,& ,,self-,,culture4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,"o great & difficult lesson is giv5 to ea* ( u to le>n 9 ?is life1 :i* mu/ be le>n$ if we ev] hope to live happy or useful lives4 ,x is ! lesson ( self-control4 ,p>5ts & tea*]s & circum/ances may help or h9d] 9 ! le>n+ ( ?is lesson2 b x dep5ds ma9ly ^u y\rself1 ^u y\r own individual w1 :e!r y %all le>n x or n4 ,x is ! fir/ lesson :i* wise p>5ts & tea*]s /rive to tea* a *ild4 ,x is ! fundam5tal1 ! all-important lesson ( life4 ,x ext5ds to e dep>tm5t ( our nature & affects e act &-ev5t ( our lives4 ,take notice ) me h[ ! possession or non-possession ( ! p[] ( self-control affects ! lives ( "y p 9 a few p>ticul>s4 ,c]ta9 self-evid5t duties are impos$ ^u e rational be+4 ,"o ( ! fir/ ( ^! is ! duty ( be+ usefully employ$ a l>ge portion ( our "t4 ,x is probable t ne>ly all "y p h a c]ta9 dislike = "w1 & self-control mu/ come 9 to help !m d ! "w t belongs to !m to d4 ,x may help y 9 acquir+ ?is self-control to reflect (t5 :at a really great ?+ x is to be able to compel y\rself to d f a s5se ( duty :at y are naturally dis9cl9$ to d8 also :at an unwor?y &1 inde$1 contemptible ?+ x is n to be able to make y\rself d :at y "k y ought to d4 ,y are p]haps dis9cl9$1 = in/ance1 to rise :5 y %\ld 9 ! morn+4 ,y feel dispos$ to indulge y\r ease & com=t1 & to lie 9 b$ :5 y "k y %\ld be awake & prep>+ = ! day4 ,"h is "o ( ! v in/ances 9 :i* if y w le>n to control & compel y\rself y w soon reap sub/antial rew>d4 ,! m y indulge y\rself1 ! h>d] does ! task ( ris+ & gett+ ready = ! day become4 ,b say to y\rself1 ,i w wak5 "r away1 rise & walk ar\nd a little1 & y w be surpris$ to f9d h[ soon ! habit ( prompt ris+ w become easy4 ,y h y\r morn+ duties to p]=m1 or y\r lessons to le>n4 ,if y say to y\rself1 :5 x is "t y %\ld beg91 ,i w n loit]1 b imm$iately set ab\t my "w or /udy1 y w f9d 9 ! v act & det]m9ation a help & /r5g?1 & pleasure ev51 :i* y c nev] imag9e be=e y h exp]i5c$ x4 ,god has s made u t 9 ! v p]=mance ( duty1 h[ev] trivial1 !re is a rew>d & /r5g? & a v high k9d ( pleasure4 ,b we ne$ firm self-control to compel ourselves ?us to d our duty4 ,i %all rejoice if any words ( m9e lead y to te/ = y\rself ! tru? ( :at ,i h said4 ,self-control %\ld ext5d to our spee*1 temp]1 & pleasures4 ,to be able to control ! tongue is rightly e/eem$ "o ( ! greate/ ( moral a*ievem5ts4 ,y rememb] :at ! apo/le ,james says1 t if any man (f5d n 9 ^w1 ! same is a p]fect man1 & able also to bridle control ! :ole body4 ,x is s easy to say cross or unk9d words2 s easy to make slight+ or gossip+ rem>ks ab\t companions or fri5ds2 s h>d to efface ! pa9ful effects ( su* ha/y or ill-consid]$ spee*4 ,x is s easy to make a petulant or disrespectful reply to p>5ts or tea*]s :5 !y reprove2 s mu* h>d]1 yet s mu* bett]1 to ackn[l$ge a fault & feel & express sorr[ = wrong-do+4 ,y\r own consci5ce & consci\sness tell y h[ mu* happi] y feel :5 y h done ! latt]4 ,yet y ne$1 ov] & ov] aga91 to =tify y\rself aga9/ temptation to ha/y or ill-natur$ or improp] spee* by det]m9+ be=eh& t y w n give way to ! temptation2 t y w control y\rself4 ,& :5ev] y h all[$ y\rself to be ov]come by su* temptation y %\ld make x ! occasion ( s]i\s reflection & e>ne/ resolve to be m gu>d$ 9 future4 ,y w h atta9$ a great deal 9 ! direction ( high & noble "* :5 y h le>n$ to control y\r spee*4 ,x is ! same 9 reg>d to controll+ y\r temp]4 ,b !re is "o tru? ( :i* ,i c assure y3 ,if y w le>n to be sil5t & n speak at all :5 y feel t y\r temp] is gett+ or has gott5 ! bett] ( y1 y w soon get ! bett] ( y\r temp]4 ,!re is no su* effici5t discipl9e = a ha/y temp] z det]m9$1 self-impos$ sil5ce4 ,!n1 too1 !re is a dignity ab\t sil5ce "u provocation t is impressive & effective4 ,! greate/ disadvantage at :i* any p]son c be plac$ 9 ! eyes ( companions & fri5ds is t ( los+ control ( "o's tongue z well z ( "o's temp]4 ,9 ne>ly e case :]e we receive provocation or affront1 spee* may be silv]1 b sil5ce is gold54 ,! p]son :o keeps control ( 8 temp] controls ev]yone4 ,self-control1 once acquir$1 w be ! mo/ important factor 9 help+ to %ape y\r life rightly 9 e direction ,x w keep y f hurtful indulg5ce 9 m]e pleasure2 f h>mful indulg5ce 9 ri* or improp] foods2 f too mu* dissipation ( "t & ?\ght 9 social enjoym5t ,x w help y to leave ! society ( companions & o!r pleasures 9 ord] to put y\r m9d ^u y\r /udies or y\r tasks2 help y1 :5 y f9d lessons h>d & long1 & t e>ne/ "w is requir$ to le>n !m1 to p]=m t long & e>ne/ "w2 help y1 :5 y feel dispos$ to give way to indisposition or indol5ce1 to hold /eadily on till y\r tasks1 no matt] :at !y are1 are accompli%$4 ,& z good behavior is ! root ( good mann]s1 s self-control is ! root ( all true self-culture4 ,we he> a great deal n[-a-days ab\t culture1 cultur$ p1 cultivat$ society1 etc41 & x is a good & natural wi% to possess culture & to be class$ among cultur$ p4 ,intellig5ce & good mann]s are ! only passport into ! *>m$ circle4 ,self-control w enable u to become possess$ ( bo?4 ,x w enable u to re/ra9 ourselves f all rude1 l\d1 ha/y1 ung5tle spee* & action1 help u to modulate our voices1 & ev5 cultivate our laught]4 ,x w also enable u1 ?r\gh m5tal application & ef=t1 to acquire k4 ,s abundant are ! intellectual treasures n[ br\ght )9 ! rea* ( ev]yone by ! *eapness ( /&>d educational works ( e k9d1 t ! "y p]son :o is n intellig5t ?r\gh read+ & /udy has only himself or h]self to blame4 ,self-control w help y to /udy & le>n fai?fully :5 y are 9 s*ool2 x w help y to decide ^u & c>ry out "s useful c\rse ( read+ & /udy if y are n 9 s*ool2 & ?is1 ev5 ?\gh y h _m o!r duties to p]=m4 ,9 e t[n & village may be f\nd p]sons compet5t to advise & direct c\rses ( /udy & read+ = ^? :o h ! en]gy to pursue !m4 ,y w h no excuse at any p]iod ( y\r life = failure to progress & improve intellectually1 except y\r own inability to compel y\rself to make use ( ! opportunities t lie all ar\nd y4 ,x is h>dly necess>y = me to rem9d y ( :at y "k s well1 t 9 read+ y %\ld *oose only ! be/ books4 ,we may )\t h>m div]t ! m9d = a little ea* day by light miscellane\s read+1 b "y p especially ne$ to be w>n$ aga9/ indiscrim9ate novel or /ory read+4 ,"h aga9 ! virtue ( self-control comes 9 to help d ! "r & avoid ! wrong4 ,if y discov] t y\r ta/e is m = ! improbable highly-wr\ght pages ( fiction ?an = su* works z are kn[n to ev]yone z /&>d & improv+1 let x be a sign to y t y %\ld summon y\r self-control & compel y\rself to a diff]5t sort ( read+4 ,if y f9d t y _c reli% or fix y\r m9d ^u /&>d works ( hi/ory biography1 travel1 or any ( ! _m excell5t books writt5 to br+ sci5tific k )9 ! compreh5sion ( ! g5]al read]1 !n y may conclude rightly t y\r m9d is 9 a v uncultivat$ /ate4 ,y\r own ef=ts & det]m9ation--9 o!r words1 y\r p[] ( self-control--alone c effect any?+ wor?y 9 self-culture4 ,to atta9 ! p[] ( self-control 9 a high degree is "o ( ! greate/ & mo/ important aims we c set be=e u 9 life4 ,i d n believe x c ev] be atta9$ 9 our own /r5g?4 ,to rightly control temp] & spee* & conduct requires help f ! div9e ,_s :i* is always ar\nd & ov] u1 & )9 u1 if we w b let our he>ts be receptive to its influ5ces4 ,! greate/ possible help to self-control is to le>n 9 ! mom5t ( temptation to lift ! he>t to ,god 9 e>ne/ aspiration = ,8 help & guidance4 ,a s5se ( ! pres5ce ( ,god is always a /r5g?1 & help :5 we are consci\s ( e>ne/ ef=t to d "r4 ,! ,bible says3 ,x is ,god t worke? 9 y bo? to w & to d ( 8 good pleasure4 ,x is "o ( ! great my/]ies & yet "o ( ! mo/ evid5t tru?s ( life1 t we mu/ "w ourselves1 & t ,god works 9 & ) u1 to accompli% any good ?+4 ,t y may "k & realize ?is tru?1 & le>n to f9d = y\rself ! com=t & support & /r5g? ( s\l t comes f seek+ aft] ,god1 is my mo/ e>ne/ hope & pray] = y4 ,,lett] ,,iii4 ,,aims ,,9 ,,life4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,!re is no disput+ ! fact t 9 mak+ plans = life v diff]5t motives & aims influ5ce "y girls f ^? :i* influ5ce "y m54 ,e "r-m9d$ & affectionate-natur$ "y girl looks =w>d to1 & hopes mo/ ( all to h1 a home ( h] own1 :i* x %all be h] life-"w to keep & guide4 ,to prep>e h]self rightly to fulfill all ! duties t belong to ! mi/ress ( a home1 %\ld be ! "o all-embrac+ aim ( any "y girl's life2 b ) ?is %\ld be o!r aims1 :i* may help to prep>e h] = vicissitudes1 em]g5cies1 or disa/]s1 & also give h] wor?y occupation & int]e/ 9 life %\ld %e nev] be call$ to ! duties ( a wife & "m4 ,to speak fir/ ( prep>ation to become ! mi/ress ( a home1 %\ld ,provid5ce h su* a future 9 /ore4 ,:at qualities are ne$$ to insure t a woman %all be a happy home-keep]8 ,c]ta9ly1 a good temp]1 a *e]ful disposition1 a will+ness to give "t & ?\ght to ! details ( home-keep+1 commonly call$ dome/ic c>es1 habits ( ord] & neatness1 & good heal?1 s t "o may bo? give & receive pleasure :ile dis*>g+ ! duties ( ! home4 ,?is ?\ght ( a possible future home1 ! abode ( love & happ9ess1 %\ld be ! greate/ safegu>d to e "y girl 9 h] acqua9tance & association ) "y m54 ,a high ideal ( ! exclusiv5ess ( t affection :i* mu/ be ! f\ndation ( e true & happy home1 %\ld con/ra9 e "y girl to ex]cise ! greate/ possible caution 9 reg>d to ! advances ( acqua9tances ( ! opposite sex4 ,n t !re %\ld be a prudi% self-consci\sness ( mann]1 or a disposition to suspect matrimonial int5tions 9 e "y g5tleman :o is fri5dly & polite to h]1 b t all "y m5 %\ld be firmly prev5t$ f com+ into any intimacy ( acqua9tance or relation%ip t might cause unhappy & mortify+ reflection 9 aft]-"t4 ,treat all "y m5 k9dly & respectfully1 if !y are polite & respectful to y4 ,scorn to enc\rage any to make advances :i* y "k y w "o day repel4 ,b 9 disc\rag+ su* advances1 be k9d & respectful4 ,nev] d or say any?+ wilfully to w\nd & give pa9 to ! feel+s4 ,rememb] t ! %>pe/ grief ( life1 z well z its greate/ happ9ess1 is connect$ ) ! love-mak+ p]iod 9 ! life ( all good "y p1 & nev] treat ) frivolity or rud5ess any e>ne/ feel+ on ! "p ( anyone4 ,! "y girl :o c rudely repulse ! s9c]e advance ( any honorable "y man has "s defect 9 h] moral & affectional nature ,& z = any advance by a g5tleman1 "y or old1 t is n respectful or s9c]e1 a "y girl is mu* to blame if x ev] happ5s m ?an once4 ,*aff+ & teas+ ab\t beaux & c\rt%ip & m>riage are v unbecom+1 & blur t delicacy ( feel+ :i* is ! greate/ *>m 9 ! relation betwe5 "y p ( opposite sexes4 ,*]i%+ z ! happie/ ideal ( life ! possible future home ( y\r own1 y %\ld /ill rememb] t x may nev] be y\rs1 & %\ld make su* o!r provision = liv+ y\r life z %all help y to ! next be/ ?+4 ,! fir/ & highe/ good1 next aft] a home ( y\r own1 is to be able to r5d] to ! _w "s s]vice = :i* x w pay y1 ?us mak+ y indep5d5t & enabl+ y to %ape y\r life z y wi%4 ,y & all "y girls ( ! pres5t g5]ation are happy 9 hav+ av5ues ( useful remun]ative occupation op5 to y on e h&1 & society smiles & approves if y "w at some?+ to w9 indep5d5ce & make money4 ,x is sc>cely necess>y to rem9d y t 9 ord] to d effective pay+ "w y mu/ *oose "s specialty & acquire skill 9 its ex]cise be=e y c hope to e>n any consid]able wages or sal>y4 ,:ile p]fect+ y\rself 9 ! specialty y w h abundant opportunity to obs]ve t x takes pati5ce1 p]sev]ance1 & det]m9ation1 to d any k9d ( "w well4 ,"o great reason :y s _m fail ( mak+ any success 9 life is t !y h n ! p[] ( /ick+ /eadily to _! "w4 ,!y get tir$1 & want to /op2 :]eas ! true work] works ?\gh he is tir$--works till x doesn't tire him to "w2 works on1 unhe$+ ! num]\s temptations to turn aside to ?is or t div]sion4 ,!re are n[ s _m fields ( honorable & pr(itable employm5t op5 to "y girls t x is only necess>y = y to *oose :at y w d4 ,b make a *oice to d some?+ useful & wor?y ( y\r p[]s4 ,y w be happi]1 & y w be a bett] & nobl] woman1 = s do+4 ,y w be sp>$ ! discont5t & re/lessness ( _s :i* *>act]ize ! girl ) no?+ 9 p>ticul> to d1 & :o (t5 becomes on ?is acc\nt a nuisance to all e>ne/ p ar\nd h]4 ,9 ord] to fulfill aright ! duties ( any relation ( life1 ! fir/ requirem5t ! greate/ necessity1 next to a firm resolution & w1 is good heal?4 ,)\t good heal? !re is no sub/antial f\ndation = any?+ e>?ly4 ,good heal? is ! f\nta9 ( human enjoym5t & ! greate/ ( e>?ly ri*es4 ,x is ! great beautifi]2 x is ! great pres]vative ( good looks4 ,h[ /range1 !n1 t s _m girls are s c>eless1 s provok+ly c>eless1 ( ?is priceless bless+6 ,h[ /range t !y w we> clo?+ t !y "k t5ds to break d[n _! heal?2 tight corsets t compress ! lungs & spoil ! natural %ape ( ! body2 tight %oes t int]f]e ) ! circulation ( blood1 & make _! noses & h&s r$1 & give !m pr$isposition to colds & c\ghs & n]v\s heada*es1 all ( :i* put to sev]e te/s ! pati5ce & affection ( ^? ar\nd !m4 ,good heal? is always attractive2 ill-heal?1 invalidism1 n]v\sness1 are v apt to be repellant4 ,bett] good heal? ?an beauty1 if "o 7 oblig$ to *oose--:i* "o is n1 = good heal? is "o ( ! *ief elem5ts ( beauty4 ,s1 if y aim fir/ to be good & k9d & intellig5t & indu/ri\s & skillful1 s t y may be fitt$ to guide & adorn a home %\ld y be bless$ ) "o1 or to be fitt$ to %ape y\r life to usefulness & indep5d5ce if y nev] h a home ( y\r own1 & if 9 connection ) ^! aims y seek to obta9 & pres]ve good heal?1 y w1 s f> z ?is life is conc]n$1 be ?or\ghly furni%$ unto all good works4 ,y w become a noble woman1 ^: adorn+ w be n alone ( ! outw>d appe>ance1 b ( ! inn] life & ( ! s\l--an adorn+ :i*1 accord+ to ,/4 ,paul1 is 9 ! sight ( ,god ( great price4 ,,lett] ,,iv4 ,,p]sonal ,,habits4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,! p[] ( w9n+ love & fri5ds1 :i* is su* a preci\s possession to all "y p especially to "y girls1 w1 9 connection ) good behavior & good mann]s1 dep5d v l>gely ^u c]ta9 p]sonal habits1 *ief among :i* are ord]1 neatness1 promptness1 & *e]fulness4 ,! girl or woman :o is p]sonally disord]ly & untidy 9 h] room & dress puts a great /ra9 ^u ! pati5ce & affection ( all ^? associat$ ) h] :o are possess$ ( ref9$ & cultivat$ ta/es4 ,9 fact1 ,i believe !re is no?+ s dis5*ant+1 s contr>y to ideal "y womanhood z a lack ( neatness & tid9ess 9 p]son & dress4 ,?is wond]ful physical organism ) :i* we h be5 end[$ dep5ds = its p]fection & heal? & attractiv5ess ^u ! c>e we give x4 ,! tee?1 ! hair1 ! complexion1 are all dep5d5t = _! beauty--& x is q "r t we %\ld /rive to make !m beautiful--^u con/ant att5tion to ^? conditions :i* insure _! heal? & p]fection4 ,& ! mo/ important ( ^! conditions is cleanl9ess4 ,at ! pres5t "t1 no "y girl c hope = recognition or welcome 9 ref9$ & cultivat$ society1 ^u ^: tee? t>t> & o!r discolor+ deposits are all[$ to accumulate2 ^: brea? is n pure & sweet2 ^: hair is muggy & untidily kept2 ^: f+] nails are neglect$ & d>k at ! edges4 ,^! ?+s may seem trifles1 b !y are n1 = !y are ! outw>d expression ( an inw>d grace2 all ^! m>ks really reveal "*4 ,an untidy girl may be tal5t$ & good-temp]$1 b %e lacks "o ( ! mo/ ess5tial qualities = ga9+ & reta9+ respect & affection4 ,! room ( any "y girl is a great reveal] ( "* 9 respect to real ref9em5t & purity ( ta/e1 especially if "o comes ^u x some:at unaw>es4 ,n v long s9ce1 ,i 0 call$ by unexpect$ circum/ances to sp5d a day or two at ! h\se ( a fri5d1 :]e1 ow+ to ! sev]e illness ( two memb]s ( ! family1 ! sp>e rooms 7 n available & ,i 0 )\t delay or w>n+ %[n to ! private room ( a "y lady memb] ( ! family4 ,x 0 a l[ attic room ) a deep dorm] w9d[1 &1 se5 unfurni%$1 might be reg>d$ z unattractive 9 size & %ape4 ,b ! impression x made z ,i ent]$ & survey$ x 0 ( ref9em5t1 beauty1 repose1 & purity4 ,! furniture 0 pla91 b ! b$ 0 made up s beautifully1 & look$ s invit+ 9 its sn[y cov]+ t ,i did n notice :e!r ! b$/ead 0 f9e or pla94 ,! c>pet & pap]+ ( ! room 7 ( light neutral t9ts1 & ! broad slop+ walls :i* made ! sides ( ! dorm] w9d[ 7 ornam5t$1 ! "o ) a long bran* ( dogwood blossoms1 ! o!r ) graceful gr\p+s ( poppies & swamp grass1 pa9t$ !reon by ! occupant ( ! room h]self4 ,a wick] rock+-*air _h a cu%ion ( bright-color$ sat9e firmly ti$ 91 & mat*+ ! ribbons :i* 7 drawn ?r\gh ! bord]+ int]/ices ( ! *air4 ,a small table1 ano!r *air1 a foot/ool1 & two or ?ree simple pictures on ! walls1 along ) wa%-/& & bureau1 complet$ ! furni%+ ( a room t in/antly attract$ & delight$ ! behold]4 ,b ! impression above all o!rs t ! room gave 0 ( p]fect purity & sweetness & heal?2 & ?is 0 due to ! beautiful tid9ess & cleanl9ess ev]y:]e app>5t4 ,wa%-/& & bureau 7 9 p]fect ord]1 ) _! :ite mats1 clean t[els1 & e accessory ( a ref9$ lady's toilet4 ,! wide deep closet 0 fill$ ) ! appurt5ances ( a "y lady's w>drobe1 b 0 /rik+ly neat & attractive4 ,%oes & slipp]s 7 laid neatly 9 a c]ta9 place on ! %elves2 articles ( clo?+ t are usually difficult to dispose ( 9 an ord]ly mann]1 all _h an appropriate place1 & s neatly & tidily 0 ev]y?+ arrang$ t "o felt sure ! purity & ord] ext5d$ to ! mo/ secret recesses ( e place 9 ! room4 ,!re 0 no dang] 9 any direction ( com+ ^u any?+ t 0 n 9 keep+ ) ! room ( a ref9$ & delicate "y girl4 ,! draw]s ( bureau & wa%-/&1 z ,i happ5$ to h opportunity to obs]ve !m1 7 z sweet & clean & ord]ly z ! re/ ( ! room4 ,i felt bett] acqua9t$ ) ! "* ( t "y girl aft] two days occupation ( h] beautifully kept & appo9t$ room ?an a ye> ( ord9>y acqua9tance w\ld h giv5 me4 ,& :ile ,i am on ! subject ( an ord]ly & da9tily kept room1 let me tell y t ! mod]n bane ( ord] & neatness 9 a h\se is too _m trivial & useless ?+s1 int5d$ p]haps = ornam5t1 b confus+ to ! eye1 (f5sive to good ta/e1 & m effective = cat*+ du/ ?an = any?+ else4 ,! multiplication ( *eap picture-c>ds1 wall-pockets1 brackets1 & all sorts ( little useless knicknacks1 has help$ on ?is confusion1 till "o is almo/ tempt$ to reg>d !m z nuisances4 ,a few ( ^! ornam5tal trifles1 arrang$ ) an eye to a c]ta9 unity ( design1 may d v well2 b1 z ,william ,morris1 ! great apo/le ( true decorative art 9 ,engl&1 has said1 ,bett] pure empty space ?an unwor?y & confus+ ornam5t4 ,y may h he>d x relat$ ( ! great naturali/1 ,?oreau1 t he made a collection ( /ones dur+ 8 rambles1 & plac$ !m on 8 writ+-table2 b :5 he f\nd he _h to du/ !m e day1 he ?rew !m away4 ,?is same g5]al pr9ciple applies to dress4 ,too _m little trivial ornam5ts w de/roy ! "* & dignity ( any co/ume4 ,bett] "o or two ornam5ts ( good quality1 or bett] none at all1 ?an half a doz5 ( poor quality4 ,& 9 reg>d to a "y girl's w>drobe1 ! same fundam5tal rule prevails3 if e article ( app>el is n da9tily clean1 x is unbecom+ & unwor?y a ref9$ p]sonality4 ,soil$ laces & soil$ ribbons are to be %unn$2 b bett] untid9ess & soil ( ! outw>d app>el ?an ( t :i* we "k by ! g5]al "n ( und]we>1 :i* is f> m p]sonal & important ?an ! outw>d co/ume4 ,! m ref9$ ! "* & ta/e ( any "y girl1 ! m p>ticul> w %e be 9 ! matt] ( all articles ( app>el t are private to h]self1 t !y %all at lea/ be da9tily neat & clean4 ,i ne$ n say to y h[ dis5*ant+ x is to see a "y lady's foot ) a %oe half button$ because half ! buttons are gone2 or to see a slipp] slip (f & disclose neglect$ & untidy hose4 ,no "y girl ( prop] self-respect or ref9em5t w ev] tol]ate any su* blemi%es 9 h] w>drobe4 ,next 9 importance to habits ( ord] & p]sonal neatness comes ! habit ( promptness4 ,! girl :o loit]s & dawdles & keeps p wait+1 :o is beh9dh& ) h] "w z well z 9 keep+ h] appo9tm5ts1 :o is nev] ready at meal-"t1 b :o is always ready ) "s excuse = su* annoy+ conduct1 is a h\sehold nuisance1 a really pa9ful trial to all :o are br\ght into intimate relations ) h]4 ,h[ (t5 h ,i wi%$ x 7 possible to ar\se ! consci\sness ( daught]s 9 com=table homes to ! pa9 & inconv5i5ce !y give _! p>5ts & fri5ds by a habitual lack ( promptness6 ,= my own "p1 ,i rememb] h[ my consci5ce 0 fir/ ar\s$1 9 my y\?1 on ?is po9t4 ,i 0 read+ a book writt5 = "y girls by ,jane ,taylor--a writ] ,i wi% 7 9 pr9t n[--:5 ,i came across ?is in/ruction3 ,:5 y he> ! bell r+ = meals1 rise imm$iately1 leave :atev] y are do+1 & at once g to ! table4 ,j z ,i 0 read+ ?is s5t5ce ! bell rang1 & ,i imm$iately obey$ ! summons4 ,i notic$ t my "m ne$$ my help 9 seat+ ! y\ng] *ildr5 at ! table & att5d+ to _! wants1 & ,i gave h] my assi/ance4 ,someh[ ! meal seem$ to pass (f m pleasantly ?an usual1 & ,i felt my consci5ce prick me t ,i _h s (t5 giv5 my "m tr\ble by loit]+ & delay+ at meal-"t4 ,i resolv$ t h5ce=? ,i w\ld be promptly on h& to help h]4 ,f t "t !re 0 a m>k$ *ange = ! bett] 9 ! ease ) :i* our family meals 7 s]v$1 & all because ,i 0 always promptly on h& to help my "m4 ,i d n "k t %e or any ( ! family knew or notic$ ! reason1 b ,i 0 v well aw>e ( x4 ,x 0 really a k9d ( turn+-po9t 9 my habits ( life & usefulness at home4 ,to ?is day ,i nev] he> a bell r+ = meals1 )\t ! injunction ( ,jane ,taylor com+ into my m9d3 ,rise imm$iately1 leave :atev] y are do+1 & g at once to ! table4 ,i c assure y1 my *ild1 x w\ld add greatly to ! com=t & happ9ess ( _m h\ses1 & greatly relieve _m an ov]tax$ "m1 if ?is good old-fa%ion$ direction 7 he$$ n only by daught]s b by o!r memb]s ( ! family also4 ,& if n[1 9 addition to ^! good habits1 y cultivate ! habit ( *e]fulness & e>ne/ly gu>d aga9/ temptation to fretfulness1 moros5ess1 or impati5ce1 y w be well />t$ on ! way t[>ds a useful & lovely womanhood4 ,a good daught] 9 a home is a well-spr+ ( joy1 an ev]-fre% s\rce ( delight & consolation to h] p>5ts4 ,especially is %e ! /ay & support & /r5g? ( h] "m1 ! happ9ess ( ^: life dep5ds s l>gely ^u ! respectful & affectionate conduct & att5tions ( h] *ildr54 ,,lett] ,v4 ,,society--,,conv]sation4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,to give & receive pleasure 9 ^? pleasant assemblages & meet+s ( acqua9tances & fri5ds kn[n by ! g5]al "n ( society1 is "o ( ! wor?y m9or aims ( life4 ,x is "o ( ! m>ks ( an advanc+ /ate ( intellig5ce & culture1 :5 an assemblage ( g5tlem5 & ladies c pass delightful h\rs 9 ! m]e int]*ange ( ?\ght 9 conv]sation4 ,& :ile games & o!r amusem5ts may s]ve = a tempor>y v>iety 7always except+ games kn[n z kiss+-games1 :i* %\ld be promptly taboo$ & d5\nc$1 & ev] w be 9 truly ref9$ society71 yet animat$ & intellig5t conv]sation mu/ always hold ! fir/ place 9 ! li/ ( ! pleasures ( any ref9$ society circle4 ,h[ %all a "y girl fit h]self to enjoy & to af=d enjoym5t 9 g5]al society8 ,c]ta9ly ! fir/ requisites are intellig5ce1 a good k ( /&>d lit]ature1 a g5]al k ( ! m important ev5ts t are tak+ place 9 ! _w1 & su* a k ( ! be/ curr5t lit]ature z may be obta9$ f ! regul> read+ ( "o or two ( ! /&>d mon?ly magaz9es4 ,& "h x may help y if ,i p>ticul>ize a little 9 reg>d to a k ( important ev5ts ( ! day & also ( g5]al & curr5t lit]ature4 ,( c\rse ! ma9 s\rce ( k ( ! m important ev5ts t are go+ on 9 ! _w is ! daily or weekly newspap]2 & yet !re is sc>cely any read+ s utt]ly demoraliz+ to good m5tal habits z ! ord9>y daily pap]4 ,m ?an ?ree-f\r?s ( ! matt] pr9t$ 9 ! great city dailies is n only ( no use to anyone1 b x is a positive damage to habits ( m5tal application to read x4 ,x is a wa/e ( "t ev5 to und]take to sift ! important f ! unimportant4 ,! mo/ t any e>ne/ p]son %\ld attempt to d ) a daily pap] is to glance ov] ! headl9es :i* give ! gi/ ( ! news1 & !n to read su* editorial comm5ts z enable ! read] to und]/& ! m important ev5ts & affairs t are transpir+ 9 ! _w s t ref]5ce to !m 9 conv]sation w\ld be intellig5t & intelligible4 ,b if "o %\ld nev] see a daily pap]1 yet %\ld e week c>efully read a dige/ ( news prep>$ = a good weekly pap]1 "o w\ld be ?or\ghly furni%$ ) all necess>y k ( contemporane\s ev5ts1 & ! "t ?us sav$ f daily pap]s c\ld be pr(itably employ$ 9 o!r read+4 ,! field ( lit]ature is n[ s va/ t no "o c hope to be well acqua9t$ ) m ?an a small portion ( x4 ,yet e well-in=m$ "y p]son %\ld "k ! g5]al "* ( ! pr9cipal writ]s s9ce ! "t ( ,%akesp]e1 ev5 ?\gh "o %\ld nev] read _! works4 ,y may rememb] h[1 9 ! rec5tly f9i%$ novel ( ,! ,rise ( ,silas ,lapham1 ! noveli/1 ) a few s5t5ces1 %[s h[ ridicul\s a really beautiful & amiable girl ) a high-s*ool education may make h]self 9 conv]sation by h] lack ( k ( /&>d lit]ature4 ,%e 0 tell+ a "y g5tleman :]e ! book-%elves 7 to be 9 ! spl5did new h\se be+ built by h] fa!r1 & sugge/+ t ! %elves w\ld look nice if ! books _h nice b9d+s4 ',( c\rse1 ,i presume1' said ,ir5e1 ?\ghtfully1 'we %all h to h ,gibbon4' ',if y want to read him1' said ,corey1 ) a laugh ( sympa?y = an imag9able joke4 ',we _h a good deal ab\t him 9 s*ool4 ,i believe we _h "o ( 8 books4 ,m9e's lo/1 b ,p5 w rememb]4' ,! "y man look$ at h]1 & !n said s]i\sly1 ',y'll want ,gre51 ( c\rse1 & ,motley1 & ,p>kman4' ',yes4 ,:at k9d ( writ]s are !y8' ',!y're hi/orians1 too4' ',oh1 yes2 ,i rememb] n[4 ,t's :at ,gibbon 04 ,is x ,gibbon or ,gibbons8' ,! "y man decid$ ! po9t ) app>5tly sup]flu\s delicacy4 ',gibbon1 ,i ?9k4' ',!re us$ to be s _m ( !m1' said ,ir5e1 gaily4 ',i us$ to get !m mix$ up ) ea* o!r1 & ,i c\ldn't tell !m f ! poets4 ,%\ld y want to h poetry8' ',yes4 ,i suppose "s edition ( ! ,engli% poets4' ',we don't any ( u l poetry4 ,d y l x8' ',i'm afraid ,i don't1 v mu*1' ,corey own$4 ',b ( c\rse !re 0 a "t :5 ,t5nyson 0 a great deal m to me ?an he is n[4' ',we _h some?+ ab\t him at s*ool1 too4 ,i ?9k ,i rememb] ! "n4 ,i ?9k we ought to h all ! ,am]ican poets4' ',well1 n all4 ,five or six ( ! be/2 y want ,longfell[1 & ,bryant1 & ,:itti]1 & ,em]son1 & ,l[ell4' ',& ,%akesp]e1' %e add$4 ',don't y l ,%akesp]e's plays8444 ,we _h ev] s mu* ab\t ,%akesp]e4 ,w]5't y p]fectly a/oni%$ :5 y f\nd out h[ _m o!r plays !re 7 ( 88 ,i always ?\ght !re 0 no?+ b ,hamlet1 & ,romeo & ,juliet1 & ,macbe?1 & ,ri*>d ,,iii41 & ,k+ ,le>1 & t "o t ,robson & ,crane h--oh1 yes1 ,com$y ( ,errors6' ,s y see h[ ridicul\s ?is "y girl1 by ! betrayal ( su* ignorance1 made h]self 9 conv]sation ) a cultur$ "y g5tleman ^: good op9ion %e 0 mo/ anxi\s to w94 ,& yet1 to talk too mu* ab\t books is n well2 x (t5 m>ks ! p$antic & egoti/ic "*4 ,x is safe to say t unless "o happ5s to meet a v cong5ial m9d among conv]s]s 9 g5]al society1 to introduce ! subject ( books is liable to be miscon/ru$4 ,x is n v long s9ce ano!r popul> mod]n noveli/ held up to scorn & ridicule ! "y woman ^: p>ticul> ambition seem$ to be to let society "k :at an imm5se numb] ( books %e _h be5 read+4 ,nev]!less1 "o mu/ h a good gr\ndwork ( k ( books 9 ord] to avoid mi/akes su* z poor ,ir5e made 9 talk+ ) "y ,corey4 ,directions & sugge/ions = aid+ "y p to become agreeable & pleasant conv]s]s mu/ necess>ily be ma9ly negative4 ,tak5 = grant$ t a "y p]son possesses animation good s5se1 intellig5ce1 & a g5u9e int]e/ 9 h] companions & ! _w ar\nd h]2 is obs]v+1 & c speak grammatically )\t hesitat+2 kn[s ! diff]5ce betwe5 y & ,i & y & me 7:i* ,i am sorry to say a great _m "y girls ( my acqua9tance d n1 = ,i con/antly he> !m say+1 ,he br\ght y & ,i a b\quet1 or1 ,y & me are invit$ to tea ?is ev5+71 %e c almo/ c]ta9ly be a pleasant & ent]ta9+ conv]s] if %e avoids c]ta9 ?+s1 z1 = in/ance3 #a4 ,%e mu/ avoid talk+ ab\t h]self1 h] exploits1 h] acquirem5ts1 h] ent]ta9m5ts1 h] beaux1 etc4 ,especially %\ld %e avoid seek+ to make an impression by frequ5t m5tion ( advantage\s fri5ds or circum/ances4 ,! greate/ obs]v] & comm5tator ^u mann]s t ev] wrote 0 ,mr4 ,em]son4 ,9 "o ( 8 essays he says3 ,y %all n enum]ate y\r brilliant acqua9tances1 nor tell me by _! titles :at books y h read4 ,i am to inf] t y keep good company by y\r good mann]s & bett] in=mation2 & to inf] y\r read+ f ! weal?1 & accuracy ( y\r conv]sation4 #b4 ,%e mu/ avoid a l\d tone ( voice1 & also avoid laugh+ too mu* & too easily4 ,to laugh al\d is a dang]\s ?+1 unless all noise & h>%ness h be5 cultivat$ out ( ! voice1 z ought to be done 9 e good s*ool4 ,! culture ( ! voice is "o ( ! mo/ important elem5ts 9 mak+ a pleasant conv]s]4 ,am]ican girls & wom5 are accus$ by cultivat$ =eign]s ( hav+ l\d1 h>%1 /rid5t voices2 & !re is too mu* tru? 9 ! accusation4 ,nor is !re any excuse = unpleasant1 h>%1 r\gh1 nasal tones ( voice 9 ^! days :5 9 e good s*ool in/ruction is giv5 9 ! managem5t ( ! voice = read+ & conv]sation4 ,! cause ( h>%ness & l\dness is (t5 m]e c>elessness on ! "p ( "y p4 ,b talk+ 9 too l\d a tone is sc>cely less unpleasant to ! li/5]s ?an ! use ( too l[ a tone1 :i* is g5]ally an affectation4 #c4 ,%e mu/ avoid frequ5t attempts at wit2 avoid punn+1 :i* is ! *eape/ possible =m ( wit2 & avoid s>casm4 ,! tal5t = be+ s>ca/ic is a mo/ dang]\s "o4 ',no "o ev] knew a s>ca/ic woman :o c\ld keep fri5ds4 ,! temptation to be bright & int]e/+ & to attract att5tion by ! use ( s>casm is v /rong1 = ne>ly all w be int]e/$ 9 x & enjoy x = a little4 ,b 7 ,i oblig$ to *oose betwe5 s>casm & dullness 9 a "y girl1 ,i %\ld pref] dullness4 ,happily1 ?is is n a necess>y alt]native4 #d4 ,%e mu/ avoid a k9d ( jok+ & bad9age t %\ld nev] be he>d among well-br$ "y p 9 society--t ab\t c\rt%ip & m>riage4 ,mu* h>m1 mu* blunt+ ( f9e s5sibilities1 mu* de/ruction ( t delicate mode/y :i* is ! priceless d[] ( "y girlhood1 comes ( su* je/+ & jok+ :]e x is p]mitt$ )\t re/ra9t or repro(4 ,a "y girl may n be call$ ^u to reprove x1 b %e c]ta9ly c %un ! company ( ^? :o are giv5 to su* vulg>ity 7= no o!r t]m w rightly describe x71 & %e c c]ta9ly refra9 f jo9+ 9 any conv]sation ( ?is description4 ,always rememb] t to be a good conv]s] y mu/ be a good li/5]4 ,v (t5 p acquire a pleasant reputation & popul>ity 9 society by ! ex]cise ( ?is tal5t alone--t ( li/5+ ) att5tion & int]e/ to :at o!r p say4 ,be especially c>eful to avoid int]rupt+ "o :o is speak+4 ,_m a f9e & noble ?\ght1 _m an int]e/+ discussion1 is brok5 (f & lo/ by ! irrelevant int]ruption ( "s ?\ghtless p]son4 ,"o reason :y ! art ( conv]sation has s deg5]at$ 9 ^! days is t s few h a real int]e/ 9 he>+ ! f9e ?\ghts ( good ?9k] & talk]s4 ,s _m p want to talk ab\t !mselves1 or _! affairs1 t x is 9 _m circles almo/ an impossibility to ma9ta9 a high & elevat+ conv]sation4 ,until ye>s & exp]i5ce1 z well z wide read+ & in=mation1 h giv5 y ! "r to express freely y\r op9ions 9 society1 x w be well to li/5 a great deal m ?an y speak1 especially :5 9 ! company ( y\r eld]s4 ,avoid all s5tim5tality1 or ! discussion ( subjects t w\ld expose ! private & sacr$ feel+s ( ! he>t4 ,d n quote poetry2 d n ask p's op9ions on delicate & individual que/ions4 ,i h he>d a "y bo>d+-s*ool graduate emb>rass a :ole room-full ( excell5t & educat$ p by ask+ a "y g5tleman if he did n ?9k ,longfell[ v inf]ior to ,l[ell 9 8 love poems4 ,among ^? ( y\r own age let :at y h to say relate to ev]y?+ m ?an to ! do+s or say+s ( o!r p4 ,9 ?is way y w avoid t bane ( social conv]sation--gossip4 ,9 all social relations /rive to ?r[ y\r influ5ce = t :i* is fai?ful1 s9c]e1 k9d1 g5]\s1 & j4 ,h a special ?\ght & reg>d = ^? :o may labor "u disadvantages8 be especially k9d to ! %r9k+ & timid1 to ! poor & un=tunate4 ,/rive to be wor?y ( ! confid5ce & respect & love ( y\r associates1 & all y\r relations to society w be easily & naturally & happily adju/$4 ,,lett] ,,vi4 ,,associates ,,& ,,fri5ds4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,:5 ,i 0 a "y girl1 ,i well rememb] t my p>5ts judg$ :o 7 & :o 7 n desirable & prop] associates = _! *ildr51 *iefly by ref]5ce to ! p>5ts & family ( our "y companions4 ,x 0 tak5 = grant$ t ! *ildr5 ( good1 honorable1 ,*ri/ian p1 :o /rove to tra9 _! *ildr5 to ob$i5ce & a consci5ti\s life1 w\ld be suitable companions = u2 & ?is crit]ion 9 ne>ly e in/ance prov$ to be a true "o4 ,9 only "o in/ance1 inde$1 did x fail2 & ,i well rememb] ! %ock x gave a :ole circle ( "y p1 :5 a "y companion1 ! son ( an em95t cl]gyman1 0 s5t home on acc\nt ( 8 language & conduct aft] "o week's visit among fri5ds1 :5 x _h be5 expect$ by all t he w\ld /ay two or ?ree mon?s4 ,b 9 ^! days ?is crit]ion ( family & p>5tage is insuffici5t2 =1 sad z x may seem1 ! *ildr5 ( really excell5t p>5ts are (t5 s d]elict 9 duty1 s lack+ 9 consci5ti\sness1 s idle & aimless & frivol\s t _! companion%ip %\ld be dread$ = susceptible "y p especially = "y girls4 ,"o ?+ is v c]ta93 t 9 ^! days "y p1 :5 out ( sight ( _! p>5ts1 (t5 act & talk 9 a way :i* !y c]ta9ly w\ld n d 9 _! p>5ts' pres5ce4 ,& t is truly a di/ress+ fe> :i* (t5 comes to ! he>ts ( excell5t & fai?ful p>5ts1 t ! conduct ( _! *ildr5 :5 out ( _! sight & re/ra9t may be totally at v>iance ) all !y h be5 taught 9 reg>d to "r & prop] conduct4 ,n[ all p1 old or "y1 are influ5c$ 9 conduct some:at by _! associates & fri5ds2 b "y p especially are susceptible to ! influ5ce ( example4 ,& x is a pa9ful b well kn[n fact t "y p are mu* m easily & quickly influ5c$ by bad example ?an by good4 ,"o frivol\s1 va91 =w>d1 p]t "y girl1 com+ = a season into association ) a company ( "y p1 may 9 a few %ort weeks make h] impress on ! mann]s & conv]sation ( ! :ole ( !m4 ,h] slang expressions w be adopt$2 h] l\d mann]s & ecc5tricities ( dress w be imitat$2 h] frivolity & dislike = any ( ! s]i\s duties ( life w prove contagi\s4 ,= y1 & = any "y girl1 ,i w\ld consid] dang]\s & h>mful intimate association )3 #a4 ,! "y girl :o1 ei!r f circum/ances or natural disposition1 does n compel h]self1 or is n compell$ to d some?+--to /udy h] lessons & take "s useful %>e 9 e-day duties4 ,no?+ to d is worse ?an no?+ to eat1 said a great man1 ,?omas ,c>lyle2 & obs]v+ p>5ts or tea*]s "k ?is to be especially true ( "y p4 ,x makes no diff]5ce t !y don't want to d any?+ or to ex]t !mselves4 ,! v abs5ce ( ex]tion makes !m weak & indispos$ to ef=t4 ,x is a lam5table lack at ! pres5t "t among a l>ge proportion ( ! daught]s ( com=table & ref9$ homes1 t !y h small physical /r5g? & no qualities ( endurance at all4 ,!y are all tir$ out if !y sweep & du/ or d h\sework = an h\r or two1 or take a half-mile walk on an err&1 or sew cont9u\sly = an h\r4 ,v likely !y w want to lie d[n & re/ an h\r aft] su* ex]tion4 ,?is is all ! result ( unex]cis$ muscles & m5tal indol5ce4 ,t "m 0 q "r1 :o1 :5 h] bo>d+-s*ool daught] compla9$ t x made h] arms a*e to sweep1 repli$3 ,well1 y mu/ sweep till x doesn't make !m a*e4 ,m9d & body bo? gr[ /rong ?r\gh ex]cise4 ,unex]cis$ muscles1 ( c\rse1 w be weak & flabby & tire easily4 ,b ! "y girl :om x tires to "w is mo/ likely on ! qui vive ab\t "s folly or o!r ne>ly all ! "t4 ,lack ( heal?ful m5tal & bodily occupation & /imulus w almo/ c]ta9ly produce a crav+ = unheal?y excitem5t4 ,su* a girl is apt to be con/antly plann+ = m]e pleasure & to h a good "t4 ,&1 oh6 :at an unsatisfy+1 unwor?y aim 9 life is ?is1 & h[ p]nici\s 9 its effects6 ,pleasure & a good "t are all v well1 b unless !y are p>tak5 ( sp>+ly !y produce a m5tal effect simil> to t :i* ! con/ant use ( dess]ts & sweetmeats1 in/ead ( pla9 sub/antial food1 w\ld produce 9 ! physical sy/em4 ,association ) ! idle & ! m]e pleasure-seek] is !re=e to be gu>d$ aga9/1 = _! influ5ce _c b be h>mful4 #b4 ,al?\gh p]fection is n to be expect$ 9 any companion or associate1 yet !re are c]ta9 defects ( "* :i* are s grave t p>5ts _c af=d to enc\rage _! *ildr5 9 associat+ ) ^? :o exhibit ^! 9 a m>k$ degree4 ,untru?fulness2 ! habit ( gossip+ ab\t fri5ds or acqua9tances or divulg+ family privacies2 sull5ness & moros5ess "u repro(2 rebelli\s & disrespectful expressions & conduct t[>d p>5ts & tea*]s2 indiff]5ce to ! good op9ion ( s5sible p1 z %[n by unusual & />tl+ conduct 9 public places2 all su* ?+s m>k ! undesirable associate = "y girls4 ,b !re are "y girls aga9/ :om none ( ^! compla9ts c\ld be made1 :o are undesirable companions because !y are :olly absorb$ 9 love ( dress & display & desire to be admir$ & notic$4 ,x is g5]ally among ?is class t we f9d "y girls :o pref] to an altoge!r unreasonable & unbecom+ ext5t1 ! society ( "y m5 to ! society ( _! own sex4 ,x is among ^! t we f9d ! "y lady :o does n "k h[ to prev5t undue famili>ity 9 ! conduct ( "y m52 :o w tol]ate )\t disapprobation or prote/1 rude conduct on ! "p ( "y m54 ,?is ov]-eag]ness = _! society1 & easy tol]ation ( too famili> conduct & conv]sation1 "y m51 :o are quick disc]n]s 9 su* matt]s1 are v apt to take advantage (4 ,only ! be/ & mo/ high-pr9cipl$ among !m w refra9 f do+ s4 ,i h spok5 ( ! influ5ce t a frivol\s1 va91 selfi% companion w be sure to ex]cise ov] ^? ) :om %e is intimately associat$4 ,= y1 z = any "y girl1 ,i w\ld seek to prev5t su* associations4 ,on ! o!r h&1 ,i %\ld rejoice to see y =m fri5d%ips ) good1 high-m9d$1 intellig5t1 g5tle-mann]$ girls ( y\r own age1 & %\ld hope t y w\ld mutually emulate & /imulate ea* o!r 9 all wor?y aims & ambitions4 ,su* fri5d%ips1 h[ev]1 are seldom ha/ily =m$4 ,! gu%+ & viol5t atta*m5ts t sometimes spr+ up betwe5 "y girls are sure to be ( mu%room gr[? & duration1 unless !re is g5u9e "* & m]it 9 bo?4 ,dur+ ! p]iod ( ! cont9uance ( su* fri5d%ips1 a great deal ( selfi%ness = two is (t5 develop$ & manife/$4 ,v (t5 :5 "y p are visit+ toge!r _! att5tions to ea* o!r seem to make !m =get _! duties & ! att5tions due to o!r p4 ,"h is "o ( ! be/ te/s ( ! true "* ( a "y girl3 h] conduct 9 ! h\se :]e %e is a visitor4 ,if %e is truly well-mann]$ & k9d-he>t$ %e w c]ta9ly be on h] gu>d to con=m to ! h\rs & habits ( ! h\sehold :]e %e is a gue/2 %e w avoid mak+ any dem&s ^u ! "t ( h] fri5d t w\ld cause t fri5d to neglect h] daily duties or put to inconv5i5ce ! o!r memb]s ( ! family4 ,%e w divide h] att5tions ) all ! memb]s ( ! family1 hav+ special reg>d = ! v "y or ! v old4 ,%e w1 above all ?+s1 be prompt & punctual at meal-"t4 ,h] own tact & judgm5t w enable h] to judge h[ mu* assi/ance %e %\ld (f]1 if any1 to ! fri5ds %e visits--a matt] :i* mu/ always be det]m9$ by circum/ances4 ,9 "s families & "u "s circum/ances x might be a brea* ( decorum & an act ( (fici\sness on ! "p ( a visitor to make any (f] ( assi/ance 9 ! matt] ( ! daily h\sehold arrangem5ts4 ,9 o!r families & "u o!r circum/ances x might be an act ( ! k9de/ & be/ polit5ess to und]take e day dur+ h] visit a portion ( ! daily home-duties4 ,t :i* a "y girl :o is a visitor 9 any family %\ld fir/ ( all obs]ve1 is ! wi%es & conv5i5ce ( ! old] p ( ! h\sehold4 ,if ! fri5d %e is visit+ %\ld %[ too mu* disposition to make ev]y?+ ab\t ! h\se b5d to ! occasion ( ! visit1 ! visitor %\ld deprecate ?is1 bo? by ^w & example4 ,e "m ( "y daught]s kn[s ! diff]5ce betwe5 visitors :o are ?\ghtful & def]5tial & helpful1 & ^? ^: ov]we5+ int]e/ 9 self & selfi% plans makes !m oblivi\s to ! conv5i5ce & wi%es & pref]5ces ( _! ho/ess & o!r memb]s ( ! family4 ,if "o wi%$ ?or\ghly to und]/& ! "* ( any "y girl1 no bett] te/ c\ld be appli$ ?an to invite h] to a ?ree weeks' family visit4 ,by daily obs]vation "o c\ld !n le>n h[ ne> 9 "* & disposition1 9 habits & mann]s1 %e approa*$ t beautiful ideal ( ! poet ,l[ell :i* ,i wi% e "y girl might con/antly /rive to imitate & atta9 to3 ,9 h]self %e dwelle? n1 ,al?\gh no home 7 half s fair2 ,no simple/ duty is =got1 ,life ha? no dim & l[ly spot ,t do? n 9 h] sun%9e %>e4 ,%e doe? little k9dnesses ,:i* mo/ leave undone or despise2 ,= naught t sets our he>t at ease1 ,& give? happ9ess or peace1 ,is l[ e/eem$ 9 h] eyes4 ,%e ha? no scorn ( common ?+s1 ,&1 ?\gh %e seem ( o!r bir?1 ,r\nd u h] he>t entw9es & cl+s1 ,& pati5tly %e folds h] w+s ,to tread ! humble pa?s ( e>?4 ,bless+ %e is2 ,god made h] s1 ,& de$s ( week-day hol9ess ,fall f h] noiseless z ! sn[1 ,nor ha? %e ev] *anc$ to "k ,t aught 7 easi] ?an to bless4 ,%e is mo/ fair1 & !reunto ,h] life do? brightly h>monize2 ,feel+ or ?\ght t 0 n true ,ne'er made less beautiful ! blue ,uncl\d$ heav5 ( h] eyes4 ,,lett] ,,vii4 ,,tact--,,unobtrusiv5ess4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,9 "o ( my lett]s to y1 ,i said t !re 7 c]ta9 excell5t manuals :i* conta9$ important g5]al & special directions conc]n+ ! =ms & mann]s or etiquette ( polite society1 & t all "y p %\ld /udy & pr(it by "s /&>d works ( ?is k9d4 ,b !re are a great _m ?+s p]ta9+ to ! conduct ( life1 t g to make up "* & affect ! impression we make ^u ^? ar\nd u1 :i* are n set d[n 9 books & _c be imp>t$ by set =ms & rules4 ,= in/ance1 "o ( ! mo/ desirable possessions = any p]son1 "y or old1 is tact--a p[] ( mov+ on ?r\gh life )\t con/antly com+ into collision ) p & ?+s & op9ions4 ,& yet no rules 7 ev] laid d[n by :i* anyone c le>n to acquire tact4 ,x is r ! natural result ( a disposition to make p ) :om we are associat$ com=table & happy1 s9ce 9 ord] to d ?is we mu/ con/antly gu>d aga9/ ar\s+ antagonisms or w\nd+ ! susceptibilities ( ^? ar\nd u4 ,n[1 to illu/rate by "s in/ances ( lack ( tact3 ,a lady gue/ at a table :]e broil$ ham 0 ! meat provid$1 decl9$ to take any1 & !n add$1 ,i don't ?9k pork is fit food = any human /oma*4 ,( c\rse an emb>rassm5t fell ^u ho/ & ho/ess & all ! company1 & ! re/ ( ! meal-"t 0 pass$ 9 an ineffectual endeavor to re/ore conv]sation to a h>moni\s basis4 ,:at caus$ ?is lady to make su* a rem>k8 ,simply lack ( tact1 :i* means t %e _h n ! f9e s5sitiv5ess t w\ld prev5t h] f w\nd+ ! feel+s ( h] fri5ds4 ,%e _h no delicacy ( p]ception z to ! reflection %e ca/ ^u h] ho/ & ho/ess by s brusquely condemn+ some?+ to :i* !y 7 habituat$4 ,?is is "o in/ance ( lack ( tact1 b "h is ano!r ( diff]5t "*3 ,a company ( educat$ p sat d[n at table toge!r1 & ! conv]sation happ5$ to turn on ! "q ( ! au?or%ip ( ,%akespe>e's plays4 ,"o lady1 :o 0 a rec5t college graduate & suppos$ to be possess$ ( an unusual degree ( culture1 said 9 a mo/ positive mann]3 ,i ?9k ! advocates ( ! !ory t "s "o o!r ?an ,%akespe>e wrote ! plays attribut$ to him1 simply %[ _! ignorance & %all[ness4 ,an uncom=table pause fell ^u1 ! company1 = two ( ! be/ in=m$ p pres5t 7 entirely conv9c$ t "s "o o!r ?an ,%akespe>e wrote ! plays4 ,x 0 simply lack ( tact t betray$ ?is lady into a positiv5ess & obtrusiv5ess ( /atem5t t made o!rs uncom=table & ar\s$ _! antagonism4 ,"h is /ill ano!r in/ance3 ,"o lady 0 introduc$ to ano!r lady :o 0 ! wife ( a g5tleman mu* old] ?an h]self4 ,aft] cat*+ ! "n ! lady said3 ,are y ! wife ( old ,mr4 ,c----8 ,( c\rse ev]ybody ar\nd :o _h any s5sibility 0 pa9$ & emb>rass$ by su* a blunt1 brusque "q4 ,yet ! lady :o display$ ?is want ( tact 0 a college graduate & ! pr9cipal tea*] 9 an important s*ool4 ,n[1 no rule or rules w ev] prev5t anyone f do+ & say+ ?+s :i* %[ lack ( tact4 ,no?+ w d x b ! cultivation ( a _s ( sympa?y :i* w enable "o to realize h[ o!r p feel :5 _! op9ions & peculi>ities or circum/ances are s bluntly antagoniz$ or allud$ to4 ,i "k an excell5t & high-m9d$ lady1 ( sup]ior intellectual culture1 :o (t5 compla9s t %e has few fri5ds4 ,%e says t %e longs = ! affection & e/eem ( h] fri5ds1 yet1 z %e expresses x1 %e has no p]sonal magnetism4 ,i 0 once pres5t 9 a lit]>y society ( :i* ?is lady1 ,mrs4 ,a41 0 a memb]4 ,ano!r memb]1 ,mrs4 ,b41 made a /atem5t ab\t a matt] "u discussion 9 ! society1 :5 ,mrs4 ,a4 arose & said1 bluntly3 ,t is n true4 ,ev]ybody 0 a/oni%$1 & li/5$ almo/ indignantly :ile ,mrs4 ,a4 w5t on to %[ t ,mrs4 ,b4 _h simply be5 mis9=m$ & 0 mi/ak54 ,x w\ld h be5 entirely easy & prop] = ,mrs4 ,a4 to ask p]mission to correct a misappreh5sion on ! "p ( ,mrs4 ,b41 & %e c\ld h done x 9 su* a way z w\ld h w\nd$ nobody's feel+s4 ,mrs4 ,a41 :ile %e compla9s t %e has few fri5ds1 frequ5tly ass]ts t %e believes 9 say+ j :at %e ?9ks4 ,?is is all well en\gh1 b %e says x ) s little tact z to con/antly w\nd ! feel+s & antagonize ! op9ions ( ev]yone ar\nd h]4 ,tact is z important 9 mann]s z 9 spee*4 ,! ^w is closely alli$ to ! ^w t\*1 & a p]son :o has good tact is really "o :o c t\* p g5tly1 c>efully1 k9dly1 9 all ! relations ( life4 ,9 ! animal creation no creature has m p]fect tact ?an a well-br$ k9dly-treat$ h\sehold cat4 ,y may h se5 "o ( ^! ent] a room :]e p]haps a circle ( p 7 seat$ ar\nd a /ove or op5 fire4 ,puss wants h] w>m place 9 front ( ! fire or /ove1 b %e does n brusquely & rudely pu% h] way !re4 ,no4 ,%e glides g5tly1 purr+ly ar\nd ! circle1 rubs c>ess+ly aga9/ ?is "o & t1 z ?\gh g5tly say+1 ,by y\r leave2 & :5 f9ally %e rea*es ! desir$ spot1 %e lays h]self d[n s gracefully & quietly & curls h]self up s deftly t to witness ! act really af=ds pleasure to ! obs]v]4 ,a creature ( less tact & grace w\ld only appe> obtrusive & (f5d & antagonize ! company1 & probably rightfully receive repro( & be eject$ f ! room4 ,& s ,i w\ld wi% to see y & all "y p cultivate tact2 /udy h[ to speak & act s z to t\* g5tly all ) :om y are associat$4 ,beh9d ! be/ tact lies ! wi% to be k9d & to make p com=table & happy1 to avoid w\nd+ & irritat+2 & s x is true t ! basis ( true tact is1 aft] all1 ! moral s5tim5t4 ,! "y p]son :o w\ld cultivate tact 9 spee* & mann]s w c>efully gu>d aga9/ obtrusiv5ess4 ,?is is a defect 9 ! mann]s ( s _m p1 bo? "y & old1 & includes su* a multitude ( ?+s1 t x is wor? :ile to p>ticul>ize a little ^u x4 ,quietness1 repose1 ord]1 are di/+ui%+ m>ks ( cultivat$ social life ev]y:]e1 & to p :o are habituat$ to ^! conditions ( life x is pa9ful to h incongru\s or inappropriate acts or s\nds ?ru/ ^u _! att5tion4 ,"h is a g5]alization t expla9s ! reason :y _m ?+s1 h>mless 9 !mselves are unpleasant to & (f5d ! ta/e ( cultivat$ p4 ,no really cultivat$ "y girl w1 = in/ance1 op5 & play ^u a piano 9 a hotel p>lor or any o!r p>lor at inappropriate times or :5 x is occupi$ by /rang]s4 ,%e w nev] p]=m 9 public any ( ! duties ( ! toilet1 su* z clean+ h] nails or us+ a too?-pick4 ,%e w n eat peanuts or fruit or c&y1 or *ew gum1 9 public places4 ,9 fact1 ,i _c imag9e a really ref9$ "y lady *ew+ gum ev5 9 ! privacy ( h] own room1 s (f5sive is x to good ta/e4 ,%e w n descant ^u bodily ailm5ts 9 ! draw+-room or at ! table4 ,%e w n ru% noisily up & d[n /airs or ?r\gh ! h\se1 cla%+ doors & />tl+ ev]yone ) unpleasant noises4 ,%e w n int]rupt p :o are conv]s+1 to ask an irrelevant "q or "o p]ta9+ to h] own affairs4 ,%e w n slap an acqua9tance famili>ly on ! %\ld]1 or make special displays ( affection or intimacy be=e p4 ,%e w if possible suppress ! sudd5 sneeze1 & use e ef=t to quiet a c\gh4 ,%e w n g un9vit$ into ! private room ( anyone1 nor into ! kit*5 ( h] ho/ess :]e %e is a visitor4 ,all su* ?+s really inflict pa9 ^u s5sitive p2 !y (f5d because !y obtrude2 & all simil> actions & obtrusiv5ess are to be c>efully avoid$ by ev]yone :o desires to acquire a true & g5u9e culture ( action1 spee*1 & mann]s4 ,x is well wor? y\r :ile to ?9k e>ne/ly & (t5 ^u ^! ?+s2 to le>n to und]/& :y s _m ?\ghtless actions on ! "p ( "y p are set d[n to a g5]al lack ( cultivation4 ,all su* obtrusiv5ess mu/ be done away ) be=e we %all be able to realize ! pray] ( ,david1 t our daught]s may be l corn]-/ones1 poli%$ aft] ! similitude ( a palace4 ,,lett] ,,viii4 ,,:o ,,are ,,! ,,cultivat$8 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,no words 9 ! ,engli% language are s mu* b&i$ ab\t 9 ef=ts to describe or classify society at ! pres5t day z are ! words culture1 cultur$1 cultivat$ & _! anti!ses4 ,^! are ! t]ms t intimidate ! va91 selfi%1 illit]ate ri*2 = to be describ$ z ri* b uncultivat$ is reg>d$ z a great] slur ^u ! social /&+ ( families ?an to be report$ z hav+ ga9$ weal? by di%one/y or trick]y4 ,& !n ! matt] is made all ! h>d] = ^? will+ to acquire a hypocritical poli% at any exp5se if !y c only be call$ cultivat$1 f ! fact t !y d n "k :at true culture is1 nor are !y able to recognize x :5 !y see x4 ,!y are l a p]son lack+ 9 all arti/ic s5se1 :o wi%es to buy pictures--at ! m]cy ( e impo/or4 ,:at1 !n1 is ! secret t lies beh9d ! demeanor & mann]s ( ! cultivat$ man or woman1 or ! cultivat$ family8 ,:at p[] or :at s5tim5t modulates ! voice to k9d & g5tle tones2 re/ra9s ! boi/]\s conv]sation or laught]2 gives su* a delicate p]ception ( ! rights ( o!rs z to make impossible ! dictatorial or arrogant =m ( address ! imp]t95t "q1 ! p]sonal famili>ity1 ! curiosity ab\t private affairs1 ! =w>dness 9 giv+ advice or express+ unask$ op9ions1 ! boa/ful /atem5t ( p]sonal possessions or qualities1 ! action t causes pa9 or inconv5i5ce or discom=t to associates or dep5d5ts1 all ( :i* are ! mo/ common =ms ( transgression among ! uncultivat$8 ,9 8 fam\s address on ,! ,progress ( ,culture1 deliv]$ be=e a celebrat$ college society 9 ,cambridge 9 #ahfg1 ,em]son summ$ up ! :ole matt] 9 "o s5t5ce3 ,! f\ndation ( culture1 z ( "*1 is at la/ ! moral s5tim5t4 ,"h is ! :ole secret 9 a s+le s5t5ce4 ,! re/ra9+ grace is at la/ ! moral s5tim5t4 ,x is a f9e g5u9e unselfi%ness t1 obs]v+ h[ all ^! ?+s may pa9 & w\nd1 refra9s f do+ any ( !m4 ,! man or woman or family :o c avoid transgress+ 9 ^! p>ticul>s c d s habitually only z ! result ( a f9e moral s5tim5t und]ly+ ! :ole nature4 ,& ^? :o possess or h cultivat$ 9 !mselves ?is f9e moral s5tim5t ( unselfi%ness1 ju/ice1 & consid]at5ess1 w be surr\nd$ by an atmosph]e ( culture ?\gh _! dwell+-place be an unc>pet$ cab91 :ile ^? :o lack ?is re/ra9+ grace w be uncultivat$ ?\gh _! surr\nd+s af=d e com=t1 beauty1 & luxury4 ,x %\ld be a ?\ght ( enc\ragem5t to u1 & an inspiration ( hope t we may possess ! true & imp]i%able ri*es ( a cultivat$ _s1 h[ev] poor & /ruggl+ our lives may be1 or h[ev] b>r5 ( ext]nal beauty our surr\nd+s4 ,culture dep5ds n on mat]ial possessions4 ,9 fact1 ! v abundance ( conv5i5ces & com=ts & elegances (t5 seems to h an injuri\s & det]iorat+ effect on individuals & families by produc+ 9 !m a selfi% love ( p]sonal ease & exclusiv5ess4 ,on ! o!r h&1 ! pa9ful & pati5t economiz+ ( humble toil]s (t5 produces an unselfi%ness & pati5ce & g5tl5ess ( demeanor :i* is 9 effect ! v f9e/ culture4 ,9 ^! days ( speciali/s & arti/s & ar*itects & uphol/]]s1 anyone :o has money c possess himself ( ! mat]ial surr\nd+s ( ta/e & culture4 ,8 h\se may be a poem 9 /one ext]iorly1 & a symphony 9 color 9 its int]ior adornm5ts4 ,?is mu* ( ! products ( g5u9e culture he may buy ) money4 ,b no money c buy ! pe>l ( great price1 ! cultur$ _s 9 ! individual or family1 )\t :i* ! mo/ palatial mansion is b a dead & lifeless %ell4 ,lack+ ?is moral s5tim5t & culture1 h[ _m a h&somely appo9t$ home is ! abode ( rud5ess1 unk9dness1 selfi%ness1 & mis]y6 ,! rude spee* or cutt+ retort or selfi% act are d\bly & trebly incongru\s :5 pictur$ walls & fresco$ ceil+s & luxuri\s surr\nd+s ( arti/ic beauty are ! sil5t witnesses ( ! vulg>ity4 ,on ! o!r h&1 !re is opportunity = ! display ( ! be/ & k9de/ & mo/ cultivat$ mann]s 9 ! humble home :]e lack ( suitable furni%+s & de>? ( conv5i5ces puts ev]yone's unselfi%ness to ! te/4 ,i h frequ5tly he>d wise p>5ts & tea*]s speak ( ! p]plexity ( _s :i* !y feel :5 !y see t 9 s _m in/ances ! acquirem5t ( accompli%m5ts1 z !y are t]m$1 fails to add any moral /r5g? or beauty to ! "* ( ! "y p 9 ^: welf>e & advancem5t _! he>ts are s entirely absorb$4 ,?is "y girl s+s & plays beautifully1 pa9ts & draws 9 a g5u9ely arti/ic mann]1 speaks ,fr5* & ,g]man l a native1 & yet %e is ill-temp]$ & %rewi% if circum/ances happ5 to cross h] incl9ation4 ,"h is a "y man :o is possess$ ( a f9e collegiate education1 & :o is also an excell5t musician4 ,yet he c be rude & disrespectful to 8 "m1 insol5t to 8 fa!r1 ov]be>+ & arrogant t[>ds s]vants & subord9ates1 & a p]fect boor to 8 y\ng] bro!rs & si/]s4 ,bo? ^! "y p]sons h uncultivat$ spirits4 ,s we see t ! cultivation ( ! intellectual nature1 ! acquirem5t ( accompli%m5ts1 ! practice ( any art1 ! advantages ( travel1 ! surr\nd+s ( elegance1 may or may n t5d to ! g5u9e culture ( ! _s2 & z wise & e>ne/ p>5ts & tea*]s p]ceive ?is tru?1 !y realize m & m t ! great problem ( culture1 alike = p>5t & tea*]1 is h[ to develop ! moral s5tim5t4 ,,lett] ,,ix4 ,,religi\s ,,culture ,,& ,,duty4 ,my ,de> ,daught]3--,i h endeavor$ 9 my previ\s lett]s to give y a k9d ( outl9e s]ies ( directions & in/ructions 9 matt]s t p]ta9 to ! ord9>y e day duties ( life4 ,i h spok5 ( ! motives t %\ld influ5ce y\r actions1 & h tri$ to %[ y t all truly lovely & beautiful conduct mu/ h a basis 9 ! moral s5tim5t4 ,i h res]v$ till ?is la/ lett] :at ,i h to say to y on ! mo/ important subject ( all3 ! inf9itely mom5t\s subject ( religi\s culture & duty4 ,9 ! fir/ place ,i mu/ expla9 t !re is a great diff]5ce betwe5 ! me?ods & circum/ances ( religi\s in/ruction n[ & ^? :i* surr\nd$ ! y\? ( ! matur] g5]ation4 ,:5 p ( ! age ( y\r p>5ts 7 "y1 ! habits ( family life 7 su* t religi\s obs]vances held a place ( fir/ importance4 ,all h\sehold affairs 7 arrang$ ) ref]5ce to morn+ & ev5+ wor%ip1 :i* consi/$ ( s++1 read+ ! ,bible1 & pray]4 ,no matt] h[ mu* "w 0 to be done1 ! family mu/ rise 9 "t to all[ = ! p]=mance ( ?is s]vice4 ,*ildr5 he>d s mu* ab\t ,god1 & heav51 & ! life beyond dea?1 t (t5 a morbid & unnatural frame ( m9d 0 induc$4 ,p>5ts & in/ructors (t5 =got to make all[ance = ! fact t y\? naturally & rightly loves & enjoys ?is life1 & rightly & naturally dreads dea?4 ,s mu* 0 said ab\t ! o!r _w t x seem$ almo/ a s9 to ?9k ab\t or plan mu* = ?is4 ,god & heav5 7 imag9$ z close above 9 ! sky8 ! judgm5t day 0 ev] held ?reat5+ly be=e u2 & pictures ( a lit]al lake ( fire & brim/one1 into :i* wick$ p w\ld be ca/1 7 pa9t$ = ! imag9ation ( *ildr51 till1 z ! exp]i5ce ( hundr$s te/ifies1 ev5 ! mo/ consci5ti\s ( !m fe>$ to close _! eyes 9 sleep at night le/ !y %\ld awake 9 t t]rible place ( torm5t4 ,f ?is d\btless too sev]e & h>% religi\s regime1 a reaction has tak5 place :i* has ?r[n ! cu/oms ( family life & ! religi\s education ( ! "y p ( to-day f> into ! opposite extreme4 ,! hurry & railroad ru% ( mod]n social & comm]cial life h %ort5$ or ev5 cut (f entirely ! h\rs = family wor%ip4 ,9 ! mod]n ef=t to emphasize ! fact t ,god is love1 ! o!r fact t s9 des]ves & receives puni%m5t has be5 ?r[n too f> into ! backgr\nd1 or is ignor$ altoge!r4 ,regul> read+ ( ! ,bible has become z r>e z x =m]ly 0 univ]sal4 ,irrev]5ce & skepticism 9 reg>d to its tru?s & tea*+s p]meate a l>ge portion ( society1 & ! g5]al influ5ce ( ! social life ( "y p is oppos$ to ! cultivation or expression ( ! religi\s _s or aspiration4 ,all ?is involves ! loss ( a mo/ valuable m5tal & spiritual discipl9e1 & e>ne/ p>5ts ( to-day are at a loss h[ to supply x4 ,i w press ^u y\r att5tion only "o argum5t = ! culture ( a religi\s _s1 & t is ! argum5t ( exp]i5ce4 ,:at is ! univ]sal te/imony ( ^? ^: lives are really gov]n$ by ! fe> & love ( a div9e ,creator8 ,x is t 9 ! consci\sness ( a desire to obey ,god & live 9 h>mony ) ,8 laws !y f9d _! highe/ happ9ess4 ,to ev]yone :o lives beyond ! e>lie/ p]iod ( *ildhood1 comes at "s "t or o!r sorr[1 disappo9tm5t1 sickness1 loss1 b]eavem5t4 ,! great fact ( dea? looms up at ! end ( e pa?way1 h[ev] bright & happy4 ,! univ]sal te/imony ( ! human race1 f ! e>lie/ records ( human exp]i5ce to ! pres5t "t1 is t only fai? & hope 9 a b5efic5t ,god rul+ ov] all ev5ts c su/a9 & com=t ! human he>t ?r\gh all ! *anges & vicissitudes ( life1 & reconcile to ! ?\ght ( dea?4 ,e>ly y\? is naturally happy1 gay1 c>e-free1 & indiff]5t to sorr[s & fe>s ( :i* x kn[s no?+4 ,b !re comes a "t to e s5sible & e>ne/ "y he>t :5 x realizes ! transitor9ess ( all e>?ly ?+s1 & longs = some?+ on :i* ! he>t c take hold & re/4 ,i d n believe any "y p]son fails ( ?is exp]i5ce soon] or lat]4 ,x is a hung] ( ! he>t :i* no?+ b ! love ( ,god c fill1 & if1 :5 x is fir/ felt1 ! he>t only humbly & e>ne/ly turns to ,god ) high & firm resolve to seek a k ( ,him & ,8 laws1 to br+ all actions & plans ( life into h>mony ) ,8 reveal$ w1 ! f\ndation ( an endur+ happ9ess is laid = ?is life1 & d\btless = ! life to come4 ,b ?is desire & ef=t aft] a k ( ,god & ob$i5ce to ,8 w d n come )\t a /ruggle4 ,we are /range & my/]i\s creatures1 hav+ )9 u a nature t is mo/ susceptible to temptations1 to d evil4 ,e "o ( u is consci\s ( a /ruggle con/antly go+ on 9 our he>ts & lives betwe5 evil & good4 ,! temptations to selfi%ness1 gre$1 unk9dness1 untru?fulness1 irrev]5ce1 indol5ce1 are con/ant & sev]e until we h by long conflict & repeat$ victory habituat$ our he>ts to *oos+ ! "r4 ,yet e victory ov] self & temptation helps u t[>d t spiritual atta9m5t :i* w 9 "t enable u to say1 ) ! sweet psalmi/ ( ,israel3 ,! ,"l is ! portion ( my s\l2 ! ,"l is ! /r5g? ( my he>t2 ! ,"l is my light & my salvation4 ,mo/ usually ! he>t fir/ turns t[>d ,god ) deep e>ne/ness ?r\gh sorr[4 ,!re are _m griefs & burd5s ( life :i* _c be alleviat$ or light5$ 9 any way except by spiritual com=t & help4 ,& ?is spiritual com=t & help are among ! deepe/ realities ( life4 ,!re is a /r5g?1 a happ9ess1 a peace & a support 9 sorr[ :i* ! _w c nei!r give nor take away4 ,h[ priceless a bless+ to possess6 ,! sadde/1 d>ke/1 mo/ suff]+ life c be irradiat$ & uplift$ & enri*$ by ?is spiritual bless+4 ,! mo/ =tunately circum/anc$ life may be made poor by its abs5ce4 ,dean ,/anley tells u ( a si/] :o = p]haps =ty ye>s 0 a con/ant suff]] f sp9al disease1 & dur+ t p]iod almo/ con/antly conf9$ to h] c\*4 ,yet h] c\nt5ance 0 irradiat$ ) *e]fulness1 & %e seem$ to inspire ev]yone :o came ne> h] ) com=t1 & ) ardor & en?usiasm = goodness4 ,su* examples are n r>e4 ,e community kn[s "s p]son or p]sons su/a9$ 9 deep affliction1 ?\gh long cont9u$ trial & sorr[ & loss1 by ?is unse5 spiritual p[]4 ,on ! o!r h&1 exp]i5ce & obs]vation %[ u con/antly recurr+ examples ( discont5t1 peevi%ness1 unhapp9ess1 on ! "p ( ^? :o appe> to be specially favor$ 9 ! possession ( ! com=ts & ri*es ( ?is life4 ,"l ,*e/]field said t1 hav+ se5 & exp]i5c$ all ! pomps & pleasures ( life1 he 0 disgu/$ ) & hat$ !m all1 & only desir$1 l a we>y travel]1 to be all[$ to sleep 9 ! c>riage until ! end came4 ,b ,paul ! apo/le1 contemplat+ ! close ( 8 ev5tful life ( sorr[ & suff]+1 said3 ,i h f\ght ! good fight8 ,i h f9i%$ ! c\rse8 ,i h kept ! fai?3 h5ce=? !re is laid up = me ! cr[n ( righte\sness4 ,s x seems only a reasonable appeal to e "y he>t1 z soon z x is mature en\gh to und]/& & make *oice among ! realities & v]ities ( life1 to *oose ?is bett] "p2 to keep ! he>t receptive to & expectant ( ?is div9e com=t & help2 to seek to "k & obey ! w ( ?is ,god ( all consolation4 ,b ?is *oice is a purely individual matt]4 ,no "o c make ano!r p]son good any m ?an he c make him happy4 ,all t anyone1 all t ! wise/ & be/ tea*]s & p>5ts c d1 is to pres5t ! argum5ts = & urge ! *oice ( ! bett] "p4 ,b if x is *os51 or if !re is a desire to be enabl$ to *oose x1 :at a help & /imulus comes f ! read+ & /udy ( ! ,bible1 especially ( ! ,psalms & ! ,new ,te/am5t6 ,!re9 are record$ e phase ( ! spiritual exp]i5ces ( humanity 9 its aspiration aft] a k ( ,god4 ,!re9 are record$ ! words & precepts ( ! ,great ,tea*] s5t f ,god1 :o said t he & ! ,fa!r 7 "o1 & t he 0 s5t ( ,god to seek & save ! lo/4 ,"h are ! records ( ! compassionate expressions t fell f 8 lips z he proclaim$ 8 message z ! ,son ( ,god4 ,:atev] o!r op9ion m5 may h ( ,*ri/1 all mu/ confess t 9 8 words to & ab\t s9n+ & sorr[+ & suff]+ m5 & wom51 he display$ a love & sympa?y su* z e>? _h nev] kn[n be=e1 & su* z x has kn[n s9ce1 9 k9d1 only 9 ! devot$ foll[]s ( ,*ri/4 ,to h ! memory /or$ ) ^! expressions or tea*+s1 or ) ! pray]s & aspirations ( ! psalms & ! prophecies1 is to h a f\nta9 ( com=t & consolation = ! he>t1 t passes all und]/&+4 ,b ?is fact ( human exp]i5ce y mu/ accept on ! te/imony ( ^? :o h exp]i5c$ x1 until y h exp]i5c$ x = y\rself4 ,& ?us1 my daught]1 :ile ,i wi% = y ! possession ( all ! graces & adornm5ts ( p]son & "* t p]ta9 to & are possible = ! life t n[ is1 h[ inf9itely m d ,i desire = y t y may "k ,god & ! com=ts & consolations ( ,8 ^w & _s4 ,to "k t y _h s\ght & f\nd = y\rself ?is k1 t y knew & s\ght ! help ( ! div9e _s 9 resi/+ temptation to d wrong1 t 9 disappo9tm5t y\r he>t w\ld turn to ,god = com=t1 t 9 sorr[ y w\ld seek consolation 9 communion ) ,god1 w\ld be to feel t y\r future happ9ess 0 absolutely assur$4 ,9 ?is seek+ aft] ,god1 all ?+s w\ld be y\rs4 ,& ev5 ?\gh y _h made b a small & weak beg9n+ to foll[ on & "k ! ,"l1 ,i %\ld rejoice 9 ! assurance t ! good "w1 hav+ be5 begun1 w\ld be complet$ unto ! end4 ,& s ,i close ^! lett]s ) ! same summ+ up ( all advice1 all in/ruction1 :i* m ?an f\r ?\s& ye>s ago a prophet ( ,god gave to 8 reflections ^u ! vicissitudes ( human life3 ,let u he> ! conclusion ( ! :ole matt]3 ,fe> ,god & keep 8 comm&m5ts1 = ?is is ! :ole duty ( man4 ,a ,,little ,,s]mon ,,to ,,s*ool-,,girls4 ,be k9dly affection$ "o t[>d ano!r ) bro!rly love1 9 honor pref]r+ "o ano!r4 --,rom4 xii4 #aj4 ,^: adorn+ 444 let x be ! hidd5 man ( ! he>t1 9 t :i* is n corruptible1 ev5 ! ornam5t ( a meek & quiet _s :i* is 9 ! sight ( ,god ( great price4 --#a ,pet]1 iii4 #d4 ,:]ev] p are associat$ toge!r x w always be f\nd t "s are m popul> & belov$ ?an o!rs4 ,tak+ x = grant$ t all my "y read]s w\ld wi% to be lovely & belov$ by ^? ) :om !y are associat$1 ,i wi% to make a %ort /udy ( "s ( ^? *>act]i/ics :i* always di/+ui% a lovely or loveable p]son1 & also ( "s *>act]i/ics :i* t5d to make p unlovely & disagreeable4 ,b if anyone %\ld at ! outset say1 ,i d n c>e :e!r p l me or n1 ,i h no p>ticul> wi% to be lovely or belov$1 :at c\ld ,i answ]8 ,no?+4 ,i c\ld only express my sorr[ t ! bett] & high] nature ( su* an "o 0 s undevelop$1 & t ! greate/ s\rce ( true happ9ess 0 s unkn[n & unappreciat$4 ,i c\ld only hope t ! consci5ce & ! moral nature ( su* an "o might be ar\s$ & quick5$ by "s good & fai?ful admonition or ^w ( in/ruction4 ,& "r "h ,i wi% to call ! special att5tion ( my "y fri5ds to ?is fact3 ,y\? is a p]iod giv5 up l>gely to ! "w ( obta9+ an education2 b education is ( a two-fold nature4 ,we h an intellectual nature & we h a spiritual or moral nature4 ,! intellectual p[]s & faculties x is possible to educate almo/ 9 spite ( ev5 ! di/a/e or av]sion ( ! pupil to receiv+ t education4 ,we c1 9 a measure1 =ce a k ( ! sci5ces ^u ev5 reluctant pupils4 ,we c prove to !m t ?ree angles ( a triangle are equal to two "r angles1 or t an acid & an alkali w comb9e to =m a salt2 b we c nev] =ce an antagoni/ic nature to receive a spiritual tru?4 ,y\r p>5ts or tea*] may in/ruct y t x is wrong to be untru?ful or unk9d or deceitful1 b y\r own inn] natures alone c receive su* tru?s & assimilate !m4 ,no human be+ c compel ano!r human be+ to be good4 ,"h is :]e "o ( ! *ief anxieties & *ief sorr[s ( p>5ts & tea*]s arises4 ,!re is no anxiety s deep z ! anxiety ( ! good t ^? !y love may be good also2 no sorr[ s poignant z ! sorr[ ( ! he>t ov] ! willful wrong-do+ ( ^? ne> & de>4 ,if at ! close ( y\r prescrib$ s*ool c\rse y %\ld return to y\r homes1 skill$ 9 all ! sci5ces1 possess$ ( ext5sive k ( lit]ature1 f9e musicians1 f9e arti/s1 & yet selfi%1 ung5tle1 pr\d or haughty 9 demeanor1 want+ 9 ?\ghtfulness = ! rights & feel+s ( o!rs1 c>eless ( be+ unk9d1 ! "t sp5t 9 y\r education w\ld l>gely h be5 sp5t 9 va94 ,among ! fir/ *>act]i/ics ( a p]son :o is lovely & belov$1 we mu/ place a k9d & g5tle mann] t[>d all1 k9d words & k9d de$s1 & a re/ra9t ( ha/y spee* or action4 ,9 ord] to possess ^! qualities1 x is n necess>y ev] to be obtrusive ) our att5tions4 ,sometimes p pa9 u by ?ru/+ ^u u att5tions :i* we d n want4 ,!re is a k9d ( (fici\s att5tiv5ess :i* is really ! expression ( a species ( vanity4 ,x is true we ought to be obs]vant1 & if we see :]e we c really help o!rs by (f]+ k9d acts or s]vices1 we ought to be will+ to d x4 ,b to "y p associat$ toge!r z s*oolmates1 ! opportunity = ex]cis+ g5tl5ess & k9dness t[>ds "o ano!r comes mo/ly 9 ! l9e ( daily "w4 ,"s pupils are m advanc$ 9 _! /udies ?an o!rs3 "s h _h great] advantages 9 _! homes ?an o!rs3 & ^! diff]5ces af=d an opportunity = ex]cis+ t[>d ea* o!r a _s ( k9dness & g5tl5ess4 ,x is "o ( ! mo/ common occurr5ces 9 s*ools = pupils to come 9 :o h n _h ! advantages :i* enable !m to "k h[ to conduct !mselves gracefully 9 society2 h[ to dress !mselves2 h[ to use knife1 =k1 napk91 etc41 prop]ly at ! table2 & :ile x is ( c\rse ! duty ( tea*]s to in/ruct !m 9 all ^! ?+s1 x is also ! imp]ative duty ( _! companions to refra9 f unk9d criticism or laugh+ at & mak+ sport ( blund]s :i* may arise only f lack ( in=mation4 ,v (t5 ^! /ud5ts are jewels 9 ! r\gh1 ( ! r>e/ & f9e/ quality4 ,y may h he>d ! /ory ( ,daniel ,web/]1 :5 he came 9 f 8 fa!r's f>m to ent] ^u 8 collegiate c\rse1 & w5t to bo>d ) "o ( ! pr(essors :o _h sev]al /ud5ts bo>d+ 9 8 family4 ,daniel _h c]ta9ly nev] be5 taught good mann]s at ! table1 h[ev] _m o!r good ?+s he _h be5 taught 9 8 home1 = he imm$iately attract$ ! att5tion ( all ! o!r bo>d]s by sitt+ ) 8 knife & =k held upright 9 ea* h& & re/+ on ! table :ile he ma/icat$ 8 food4 ,! pr(essor quell$ ! ris+ laught] among 8 fell[-/ud5ts by a firm glance ( repro(1 b said no?+ to ,daniel4 ,he _h obs]v$ t ! boy 0 s5sitive1 & he n[ _h ! problem be=e him h[ he %\ld correct ?is awkw>dness 9 ,daniel )\t w\nd+ 8 feel+s2 & he took ! foll[+ me?od3 ,call+ "o ( ! s5ior bo>d]s to him be=e ! next meal1 he said3 ,we want to break our "y fri5d ( 8 awkw>d way ( hold+ 8 knife & =k1 & we don't want to hurt 8 feel+s4 ,n[ ,i want y1 at supp] to-night1 to hold y\r knife & =k ! same way1 & !n ,i w call y\r att5tion to x & tell y x is n ! "r & prop] way to d4 ,! /ud5t agre$1 & s betwe5 ! k9d int5tion ( ! pr(essor & ! k9d will+ness ( ! /ud5t ! embryo /atesman 0 taught an important lesson )\t be+ pa9$ & aba%$ by 8 ignorance4 ,9 m>k$ contra/ ) ?is incid5t is "o :i* p]sonally ,i knew to happ5 9 a s*ool4 ,a little c\ntry girl :o _h rec5tly become an inmate ( ! s*ool knock$ at ! room ( h] neighbor1 a "y lady :o _h be5 br\ght up amid all ! ref9em5ts ( life1 & ask$ h] if %e w\ld l5d h] h] hair-bru%4 ,two or ?ree o!r girls happ5$ to be 9 ! room1 & ?is "y lady repli$1 ,hadn't y bett] ask me = my too?-bru%8 ,9 ?is s*ool1 hair-bru%es are private prop]ty4 ,nev] did ! little c\ntry girl =get ?is rude rebuke1 al?\gh %e v %ortly le>n$ t among cultivat$ & ref9$ p hair-bru%es are consid]$ private prop]ty4 ,b h[ev] cultivat$ ext]nally ! "y lady 0 :o ?us rudely rebuff$ ev5 ! ignorance ( h] companion1 h] conduct %[$ a _s uncultivat$ 9 g5tl5ess & k9dness4 ,x (t5 happ5s 9 s*ools t "s become g5]al favorites because p]haps !y are bless$ ) good looks1 or are able to dress ) good ta/e & becom+ly1 or are possess$ ( a c]ta9 piquancy ( mann] & conv]sational p[]s :i* attract & ent]ta94 ,!re are o!rs equally good & tal5t$ :o are n bless$ ) comel9ess1 :o are n bright & w9n+ 9 conv]sation1 :o are awkw>d 9 dress & mann]4 ,:at k9dness & consid]at5ess is due f ! m favor$ to ! less favor$6 ,h[ c>eful %\ld s*ool-girls1 & n s*ool-girls only1 b ev]ybody be to ext5d c\rtesy & k9dness to ^? ( _! numb] :o are apt to be neglect$1 to be left lonely & =gott5 :ile m favor$ ones enjoy special pleasures6 ,i d n mean by ?is t we are to be equally intimate & equally fond ( all our daily associates1 b we ought to be equally k9d4 ,our especial ende>m5ts & k9dnesses & att5tions to our p>ticul> fri5ds ought to be 9 a measure kept = private expression1 s t we may n w\nd ! feel+s ( ^? less attractive1 or less end[$ ) bodily & m5tal graces1 by contra/ or comp>ison4 ,to aid u 9 cultivat+ ?is _s ( k9dness1 no maxim is m useful ?an t laid d[n by ,*ri/3 ,:atsoev] ye w\ld t o!rs %\ld d unto y1 d ye ev5 s unto !m4 ,"o ( ! be/ te/s we c apply to ourselves is to imag9e ourselves 9 ! place ( o!rs4 ,suppose we 7 consci\s ( homely features1 unga9ly =ms & awkw>d mann]s1 or ( lack ( in=mation or k2 suppose we 7 9 su* /rait5$ circum/ances t we 7 oblig$ to we> co>se1 *eap1 unsuitable or unbecom+ g>m5ts h[ w\ld we feel & h[ w\ld we wi% to be treat$8 ,& if we f9d )9 ourselves an unwill+ness to be judg$ by ?is /&>d1 or to con=m our conduct to x1 !n we %\ld realize t we d wrong1 t we are wrong 9 _s4 ,!n %\ld come ! consci\s ef=t to d "r1 to *ange our _s f selfi%ness to unselfi%ness1 f unk9dness to k9dness4 ,?is is ! "w t no human be+ c d = u4 ,e individual s\l mu/ pass ?r\gh t /ruggle alone4 ,:5ev] we are consci\s ( ! necessity ( a decision betwe5 do+ "r & do+ wrong1 ev5 ?\gh we may feel indispos$ to d ! "r & dispos$ to d ! wrong1 yet if we c w to d ! "r we h tak5 a /ep t[>d ,god & heav52 we h begun ! unfold+ ( ! moral & spiritual nature4 ,n[ ,i h be=e said t an intellectual culture may be1 s to speak1 v5e]$ ^u u1 b a spiritual culture mu/ come f )9 outw>d4 ,9 botany y le>n ( two k9ds ( plants--^? :i* gr[ by ext]nal accretions1 z bulbs1 :i*1 are call$ exog5\s8 & plants :i* gr[ )9 outw>d1 :i* are call$ endog5\s ,a great philosoph] has said t man is t noble endog5\s plant :i* gr[s1 l ! palm1 f )9 outw>d4 ,! culture ( ! he>t & ! gr[? ( ! spiritual nature is :olly individual2 x dep5ds on ourselves alone4 ,p>5ts & tea*]s c furni% ! surr\nd+s & ! accessories :i* !y hope w mo/ help to n\ri% ?is spiritual gr[?1 b !y c d no m4 ,& (t5 h[ bitt]ly are !y disappo9t$ :5 !y see t1 9 spite ( admonition & in/ruction & entreaty & example1 & e ext]nal help & inc5tive1 ! inn] nature1 ! he>t1 ! s\l ( *ild or pupil is n assimilat+ spiritual tru?1 is n gr[+ 9 grace & 9 ! nurture & admonition ( ! ,"l4 ,& n[ ,i pass f ! consid]ation ( t exp]i5ce :i* is ! f\ndation ( a lovely "* to consid] "s ( ! =ms ( outw>d expression ( ?is inw>d "*4 ,i h said t we may feel indispos$ to d "r2 we may really pref] & l be/ ! wrong2 nev]!less if we w to d :at is "r we h ga9$ a victory4 ,s x may be a great help to u 9 ga9+ ?is inw>d victory to famili>ize ourselves ) rules = conduct or expression4 ,suppose1 = in/ance we "k we are liable to give way to bad temp]s & to speak ha/ily & h>%ly4 ,we may ev5 feel t x is a relief to speak ?us ha/ily or h>%ly1 b if we w to control our temp]s we may f9d a great help 9 resolv+ nev] to speak 9 a l\d or h>% tone ( voice4 ,y all "k t ! scold+ or qu>rel+ tone ( voice is l\d & h>%4 ,if we resolve nev] to all[ ourselves to use ?is tone1 x w help u to control our temp]s1 & x w also be an ob$i5ce to "o ( ! rules ( good mann]s4 ,we call a well-mann]$ p]son a cultivat$ p]son2 & ?is culture consi/s ma9ly 9 k9dness & g5tl5ess ( mann]1 9 self-re/ra9t1 & 9 unobtrusiv5ess ,! real reason = e true rule ( good mann]s is "s moral reason4 ,! true reason :y we are =bidd5 by good mann]s to d c]ta9 ?+s is t ! do+ ( su* ?+s gives pa9 or causes inconv5i5ce to "s "o4 ,:y d ! rules ( good mann]s =bid ! slamm+ ( doors1 or noisy runn+ along halls or up & d[n /airs1 or l\d talk+ or boi/]\s laught]8 ,because su* noises inflict pa9 on ^? :o he> !m1 if !y are ( ref9$ s5sibilities4 ,= ! same reason x is bad mann]s to drum on a piano1 or to drum on table or desk or *air1 or to %uffle ! feet1 or to make any noise t di/racts or obtrudes4 ,:y is x bad mann]s to come late to meals1 to be unpunctual1 to keep p wait+8 ,because we inflict pa9 & inconv5i5ce ^u ^? :o are 9 a c]ta9 measure dep5d5t = _! com=t on our promptness & punctuality4 ,:y is x bad mann]s to sprawl 9 "o's seat1 to assume unga9ly attitudes1 to make grimaces1 or to mun* peanuts or apples 9 ! c>s or 9 public places8 ,= ! same reason4 ,we make ^? :o witness su* conduct uncom=table1 & inflict pa9 ^u !m4 ,"o v common cause ( discom=t & pa9 caus$ by "y p to _! p>5ts & tea*]s is want ( ?\ghtfulness & consid]ation4 ,= "o-half ! faults = :i* "y p ne$ to be reprov$ ! reply is1 ,i didn't ?9k4 ,n[1 :ile we _c expect "y folks to ex]cise ! ?\ghtfulness & judgm5t ( matur] p1 we c]ta9ly h a "r to expect t !y w endeavor to acquire a habit ( ?\ghtfulness 9 reg>d to ! conv5i5ce & int]e/s ( o!rs4 ,x is ?is want ( ?\ghtfulness t (t5 betrays "y p into do+ v improp] & injuri\s ?+s4 ,p>5ts & tea*]s are con/antly tr\bl$ by f9d+ t _! *ildr5 & pupils d ?+s :i* !y nev] ?\ght ( =bidd+ !m to d4 ,t :i* all good & fai?ful tea*]s /rive to d is to develop 9 _! pupils su* a s5se ( propriety & ?\ghtfulness & su* a high moral s5se z w make !m a law = "r unto !mselves4 ,!y want to cultivate & to see !m cultivat+ 9 !mselves a /rong practical common-s5se & a wise s5se ( propriety4 ,)\t su* common-s5se & innate s5se ( propriety1 ! longe/ set ( rules w\ld be useless4 ,= in/ance1 if y\r tea*]s 7 to set ab\t mak+ a set ( rules d y suppose any "o ( !m w\ld h ?\ght ( mak+ su* rules z3 ,"y ladies are n p]mitt$ to g to ! ro( ( ! h\se & sit ) _! feet dangl+ ov] ! rail+s ( ! balcony2 or ,"y ladies mu/ n g into p's pa/ures & cat* _! ponies to g rid+2 or ,:5 "y ladies are out rid+ 9 a buggy x is n all[able = "o ( ! "y ladies to ride on ! horse :i* ! o!rs are driv+4 ,a hundr$ rules might be gott5 up =bidd+ ! do+ ( a hundr$ ?+s1 ! only evil ( :i* is t !y are outl&i% & unbecom+2 n mode/1 or ill-mann]$1 & beh9d :i* !re is no evil int5t--only ?\ghtlessness4 ,! same end[m5t ( common s5se ought to tea* "y p to d ^? ?+s :i* w promote _! heal?1 & n to d ^? ?+s :i* w\ld injure x4 ,! greate/ bless+ to a "y p]son1 especially to a "y woman1 is good heal?2 b unless %e w take c>e ( x h]self1 x is an almo/ hopeless task to attempt to take c>e ( x = h]4 ,y may h he>d ! some:at slangy expression sometimes made ab\t /upid & conceit$ "y m51 t !y don't "k en\gh to come 9 :5 x ra9s4 ,x is1 h[ev]1 an almo/ j compla9t ( _m a pretty & o!rwise s5sible "y woman t %e app>5tly doesn't "k en\gh to put on ov]%oes :5 x ra9s1 or to *ange ?9 clo?+ = ?ick :5 x gr[s cold4 ,!re is ne$$ among "y girls ev]y:]e su* a developm5t ( common-s5se z w prev5t ?is s5seless & ?\ghtless conduct4 ,& n[ let u consid] "s ( ! rew>ds t w come to ^? :o give att5tion to ! culture ( ! _s4 ,em]son says t x is our mann]s t associate u1 & ?is is "o ( 8 true/ obs]vations4 ,we all wi%1 or we all %\ld wi%1 to become fitt$ = association ) ! good1 ! ref9$1 ! intellig5t1 ! cultivat$1 ) ^? :o h a noble purpose 9 life4 ,into su* society !re is b "o passport--intellig5ce1 & g5tle1 quiet1 cultivat$ mann]s1 c\pl$ ) a l noble & e>ne/ purpose4 ,possess$ ( ^!1 any p]son may be sure ( a welcome 9 ! be/ society1 h[ev] pla9 9 appe>ance or dress4 ,want+ 9 ^!1 good looks & f9e dress are ( no avail to secure ! covet$ association4 ,rememb] ,i am n[ speak+ ( ! society ( intellectual1 ref9$1 & cultivat$ p1 & n ( m]e fa%ionable society4 ,b to ga9 fri5dly & equal access to ?is be/ society1 ! culture ( he>t & m9d mu/ be g5u9e2 x mu/ be ?or\gh1 deep1 s9c]e4 ,! "y p]son ^: education ( m9d & he>t is %all[ & sup]ficial1 :o has no def9ite aim 9 life1 may well fe> to submit to ! critical te/s sure to be appli$ by su* society4 ,i _c bett] illu/rate my mean+ ?an by relat+ to y two incid5ts t h come "u my own p]sonal obs]vation4 ,y all "k t 9 our old ,ea/]n cities1 :i* h s long be5 ! homes ( weal? & le>n+1 is to be f\nd a society almo/ unequall$ = its high /&>d ( intellectual culture & ref9$ mann]s z well z = b5efic5t actions4 ,two "y ,we/]n wom5 :om ,i h kn[n1 aspir$ to ga9 access to & meet ) recognition 9 a c]ta9 fam\s circle ( su* p 9 "o ( ^! ,ea/]n cities4 ,bo? "y wom5 7 graduates ( ,we/]n univ]sities1 & _h _h really exceptional advantages = acquir+ a ?or\gh collegiate education4 ,"o _h be5 surr\nd$ by e possible helpful condition4 ,fond p>5ts1 possess$ ( abundance ( ?is _w's goods1 & admir+ fri5ds1 _h done ev]y?+ 9 _! p[] to secure = h] fre$om f all o!r c>es :ile %e 0 pursu+ h] /udies4 ,be+ ?us help$ & pett$ & prais$ & enc\rag$ %e seem$ to feel t all circum/ances & ev]ybody's conv5i5ce & com=t mu/ give way = h] plans & int]e/s4 ,! o!r "y girl 0 ! elde/ daught] ( a poor wid[4 ,%e /ruggl$ ?r\gh ! univ]sity by tea*+ 9 vacation2 r5t+ a poor little room 9 ! t[n :]e ! univ]sity 0 situat$1 & cook+ h] own food1 do+ h] own wa%+ & iron+1 liv+ 9 ! pla9e/ way1 we>+ *eap clo?+1 & eat+ ! pla9e/ food1 :ile %e 0 pursu+ h] /udies4 ,h] /ruggles ) pov]ty & bitt] circum/ances taught h] sympa?y & k9dness & helpfulness2 & ?\gh %e 0 pla91 v pla91 9 face & figure1 ! g5tle k9dness ( h] _s 0 app>5t to all4 ,z "t pass$ on aft] _! graduation1 bo? ( ^! "y wom5 ga9$ ! goal ( _! hopes & ambitions3 an introduction to ?is brilliant & cultivat$ circle ( p ?r\gh c]ta9 lit]>y clubs4 ,& fur!rmore1 bo? secur$ an invitation to read a pap] be=e ! same lit]>y society dur+ ! same w9t]4 ,! fir/-nam$ "y lady 0 visit+ fri5ds1 :ile ! second _h secur$ a position z tea*]4 ,:5 ! fir/ "y lady appe>$ be=e ! society1 h] dress ( velvet1 po9t lace1 & diamonds1 0 s /rik+ z to be obtrusive4 ,h] pap] 0 fairly good1 b conta9$ no?+ ( any p]man5t value4 ,h] self-consci\sness & evid5t desire to be conspicu\s _h ! effect ( repell+ ! e>ne/ & ?\ghtful m5 & wom5 :o compos$ ! society4 ,h] essay & h]self 7 alike quietly dropp$2 & to ?is day %e _c und]/& :y4 ,%e calls ! memb]s ( ! society pr\d1 haughty1 & exclusive1 & d5\nces ! city :]e ^! p live z p$antic1 disagreeable1 & unsocial4 ,be=e ?is same club came our quiet1 uno/5tati\s1 pla9 "y fri5d ( ! toilsome life4 ,h] dress 0 z pla9 z h] face1 b h] pap] 0 ri* 9 in=mation & fill$ ) ! results ( a deep & e>ne/ obs]vation4 ,ar\nd h] ga!r$ ! good m5 & wom5 :o knew h[ to appreciate su* a _s1 & f !nce=w>d %e 0 "o ( !m4 ,e w9t] s9ce ! read+ ( h] fir/ essay ,i h f\nd h] "n among ! li/ ( ^? :o are lead]s 9 ! _w ( ?\ght & ( b5evol5t action4 ,) pride 9 ! success1 ( a g5u9e ,we/]n girl1 ,i h (t5 obs]v$ h] "n among ! invit$ gue/s pres5t at receptions giv5 to di/+ui%$ au?ors & philan?ropi/s bo? ( our own c\ntry & ( ,europe4 ,:y did %e succe$ aga9/ su* odds1 :5 ! o!r fail$ ) all h] advantages8 ,simply because %e 0 possess$ ( ! true1 deep1 ?or\gh g5u9e culture1 bo? ( m9d & he>t1 :i* alone associates1 ! be/ p toge!r4 ,to h]1 pla9 liv+ & high ?9k+ 0 a life-long practice1 & %e 0 at home & happy ) ! good & ! le>n$4 ,w\ld y be prep>$ to atta9 a l rew>d8 ,cultivate h] _s2 imitate h] example4 ,,we ,,two ,,alone ,,9 ,,europe4 ,by ,,m>y ,l4 ,,n9de4 ,illu/rat$ f ,orig9al ,designs4 #ab,,mo41 #cdh ,,pages4 ,,price #a4ej4 ,! =eign travels :i* gave rise to ?is volume 7 ( a novel & p]haps unprec$5t$ k9d4 ,two "y ,am]ican girls />t$ = ! gr& t\r ) ! fa!r ( "o ( !m1 &1 he be+ compell$ to return home f ,london1 !y 7 c\rage\s en\gh to cont9ue _! j\rney+s alone4 ,!y sp5t two ye>s 9 travel--go+ z f> nor? z ! ,nor? ,cape & s\? to ! ,nile1 & includ+ 9 _! it9]>y ,/4 ,pet]sburgh & ,mosc[4 ,miss ,n9de's n>rative is writt5 9 a fre% & sprightly b uns5sational /yle1 :i*1 ) ! unusual exp]i5ces portray$1 r5d]s ! "w q unlike ! ord9>y books ( travel4 ,9 ^! days :5 lett]s & books ab\t travels 9 ,europe h become g5]ally monoton\s1 to say ! lea/1 x is absolutely refre%+ to get hold ( a bright1 orig9al book l ',we ,two ,alone 9 ,europe4' 444 ,! book is especially int]e/+ = its fre%1 bright obs]vations on mann]s1 cu/oms1 & objects ( int]e/ z view$ ?r\gh ^! "y girls' eyes1 & ! *>m+ spice ( adv5ture runn+ ?r\gh x4 --,home ,j\rnal1 ,bo/on4 ,x is fill$ ) s _m int]e/+ glimpses ( sights & sc5es 9 _m l&s z to r5d] x ?or\ghly ent]ta9+4 --,congregationalism ,bo/on4 ,z ! 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