,the ,delights of ,wisdom ,pertaining ,to ,conjugial ,love ,to ,which is ,added ,the ,pleasures of ,insanity ,pertaining ,to ,scortatory ,love ,by ,emanuel ,swedenborg ,a ,swede ,being a translation of his work ,deliti ,sapienti de ,amore ,conjugiali2 post quas sequuntur ,voluptates ,insani de ,amore ,scortatorio 7,amstelodami #agfh7 #ahib ,published ,a4,d4 #ahej ,,preliminary ,,relations ,,respecting ,,the ,,joys ,,of ,,heaven ,,and ,,nuptials ,,there4 #a4 ,i am aware that many who read the following pages and the ,memorable ,relations annexed to the chapters1 will believe that they are fictions of the imagination2 but ,i solemnly declare they are not fictions1 but were truly done and seen2 and that ,i saw them1 not in any state of the mind asleep1 but in a state of perfect wakefulness3 for it has pleased the ,lord to manifest himself to me1 and to send me to teach the things relating to the ,new ,church1 which is meant by the ,new ,jerusalem in the ,revelation3 for which purpose he has opened the interiors of my mind and spirit2 by virtue of which privilege it has been granted me to be in the spiritual world with angels1 and at the same time in the natural world with men1 and this now 7#agfh7 for twenty-five years4 #b4 ,on a certain time there appeared to me an angel flying beneath the eastern heaven1 with a trumpet in his hand1 which he held to his mouth1 and sounded towards the north1 the west1 and the south4 ,he was clothed in a robe1 which waved behind him as he flew along1 and was girt about the waist with a band that shone like fire and glittered with carbuncles1 and sapphires3 he flew with his face downwards1 and alighted gently on the ground1 near where ,i was standing4 ,as soon as he touched the ground with his feet1 he stood erect1 and walked to and fro3 and on seeing me he directed his steps towards me4 ,i was in the spirit1 and was standing in that state on a little eminence in the southern quarter of the spiritual world4 ,when he came near1 ,i addressed him and asked him his errand1 telling him that ,i had heard the sound of his trumpet1 and had observed his descent through the air4 ,he replied1 ,my commission is to call together such of the inhabitants of this part of the spiritual world1 as have come hither from the various kingdoms of ,christendom1 and have been most distinguished for their learning1 their ingenuity1 and their wisdom1 to assemble on this little eminence where you are now standing1 and to declare their real sentiments1 as to what they had thought1 understood1 and inwardly perceived1 while in the natural world1 respecting ,heavenly ,joy and ,eternal ,happiness4 ,the occasion of my commission is this3 several who have lately come from the natural world1 and have been admitted into our heavenly society1 which is in the east1 have informed us1 that there is not a single person throughout the whole ,christian world that is acquainted with the true nature of heavenly joy and eternal happiness2 consequently that not a single person is acquainted with the nature of heaven4 ,this information greatly surprised my brethren and companions2 and they said to me1 ',go down1 call together and assemble those who are most eminent for wisdom in the world of spirits1 7where all men are first collected after their departure out of the natural world17 so that we may know of a certainty1 from the testimony of many1 whether it be true that such thick darkness1 or dense ignorance1 respecting a future life1 prevails among ,christians4' ,the angel then said to me1 ,wait awhile1 and you will see several companies of the wise ones flocking together to this place1 and the ,lord will prepare them a house of assembly4 ,i waited1 and lo6 in the space of half an hour1 ,i saw two companies from the north1 two from the west1 and two from the south2 and as they came near1 they were introduced by the angel that blew the trumpet into the house of assembly prepared for them1 where they took their places in the order of the quarters from which they came4 ,there were six groups or companies1 and a seventh from the east1 which1 from its superior light1 was not visible to the rest4 ,when they were all assembled1 the angel explained to them the reason of their meeting1 and desired that each company in order would declare their sentiments respecting ,heavenly ,joy and ,eternal ,happiness4 ,then each company formed themselves into a ring1 with their faces turned one towards another1 that they might recall the ideas they had entertained upon the subject in the natural world1 and after examination and deliberation might declare their sentiments4 #c4 ,after some deliberation1 the ,first ,company1 which was from the north1 declared their opinion1 that heavenly joy and eternal happiness constitute the very life of heaven2 so much so that whoever enters heaven1 enters1 in regard to his life1 into its festivities1 just as a person admitted to a marriage enters into all the festivities of a marriage4 ,is not heaven1 they argued1 before our eyes in a particular place above us8 and is there not there and nowhere else a constant succession of satisfactions and pleasures8 ,when a man therefore is admitted into heaven1 he is also admitted into the full enjoyment of all these satisfactions and pleasures1 both as to mental perception and bodily sensation4 ,of course heavenly happiness1 which is also eternal happiness1 consists solely in admission into heaven1 and that depends purely on the divine mercy and favor4 ,they having concluded1 the ,second ,company from the north1 according to the measure of the wisdom with which they were endowed1 next declared their sentiments as follows3 ,heavenly joy and eternal happiness consist solely in the enjoyment of the company of angels1 and in holding sweet communications with them1 so that the countenance is kept continually expanded with joy2 while the smiles of mirth and pleasure1 arising from cheerful and entertaining conversation1 continually enliven the faces of the company4 ,what else can constitute heavenly joys1 but the variations of such pleasures to eternity8 ,the ,third ,company1 which was the first of the wise ones from the western quarter1 next declared their sentiments according to the ideas which flowed from their affections3 ,in what else1 said they1 do heavenly joy and eternal happiness consist but in feasting with ,abraham1 ,isaac1 and ,jacob2 at whose tables there will be an abundance of rich and delicate food1 with the finest and most generous wines1 which will be succeeded by sports and dances of virgins and young men1 to the tunes of various musical instruments1 enlivened by the most melodious singing of sweet songs2 the evening to conclude with dramatic exhibitions1 and this again to be followed by feasting1 and so on to eternity8 ,when they had ended1 the ,fourth ,company1 which was the second from the western quarter1 declared their sentiments to the following purpose3 ,we have entertained1 said they1 many ideas respecting heavenly joy and eternal happiness2 and we have examined a variety of joys1 and compared them one with another1 and have at length come to the conclusion1 that heavenly joys are paradisiacal joys3 for what is heaven but a paradise extended from the east to the west1 and from the south to the north1 wherein are trees laden with fruit1 and all kinds of beautiful flowers1 and in the midst the magnificent tree of life1 around which the blessed will take their seats1 and feed on fruits most delicious to the taste1 being adorned with garlands of the sweetest smelling flowers8 ,in this paradise there will be a perpetual spring2 so that the fruits and flowers will be renewed every day with an infinite variety1 and by their continual growth and freshness1 added to the vernal temperature of the atmosphere1 the souls of the blessed will be daily fitted to receive and taste new joys1 till they shall be restored to the flower of their age1 and finally to their primitive state1 in which ,adam and his wife were created1 and thus recover their paradise1 which has been transplanted from earth to heaven4 ,the ,fifth ,company1 which was the first of the ingenious spirits from the southern quarter1 next delivered their opinion3 ,heavenly joys and eternal happiness1 said they1 consist solely in exalted power and dignity1 and in abundance of wealth1 joined with more than princely magnificence and splendor4 ,that the joys of heaven1 and their continual fruition1 which is eternal happiness1 consist in these things1 is plain to us from the examples of such persons as enjoyed them in the former world2 and also from this circumstance1 that the blessed in heaven are to reign with the ,lord1 and to become kings and princes2 for they are the sons of him who is ,king of kings and ,lord of lords1 and they are to sit on thrones and be ministered to by angels4 ,moreover1 the magnificence of heaven is plainly made known to us by the description given of the ,new ,jerusalem1 wherein is represented the glory of heaven2 that it is to have gates1 each of which shall consist of a single pearl1 and streets of pure gold1 and a wall with foundations of precious stones2 consequently1 every one that is received into heaven will have a palace of his own1 glittering with gold and other costly materials1 and will enjoy dignity and dominion1 each according to his quality and station3 and since we find by experience1 that the joys and happiness arising from such things are natural1 and as it were1 innate in us1 and since the promises of ,god cannot fail1 we therefore conclude that the most happy state of heavenly life can be derived from no other source than this4 ,after this1 the ,sixth ,company1 which was the second from the southern quarter1 with a loud voice spoke as follows3 ,the joy of heaven and its eternal happiness consist solely in the perpetual glorification of ,god1 in a never-ceasing festival of praise and thanksgiving1 and in the blessedness of divine worship1 heightened with singing and melody1 whereby the heart is kept in a constant state of elevation towards ,god1 under a full persuasion that he accepts such prayers and praises1 on account of the divine bounty in imparting blessedness4 ,some of the company added further1 that this glorification would be attended with magnificent illuminations1 with most fragrant incense1 and with stately processions1 preceded by the chief priest with a grand trumpet1 who would be followed by primates and officers of various orders1 by men carrying palms1 and by women with golden images in their hand4 #d4 ,the ,seventh ,company1 which1 from its superior light1 was invisible to the rest1 came from the east of heaven1 and consisted of angels of the same society as the angel that had sounded the trumpet4 ,when these heard in their heaven1 that not a single person throughout the ,christian world was acquainted with the true nature of heavenly joy and eternal happiness1 they said one to another1 ,surely this cannot be true2 it is impossible that such thick darkness and stupidity should prevail amongst ,christians3 let us even go down and hear whether it be true2 for if it be so1 it is indeed wonderful4 ,then those angels said to the one that had the trumpet1 ,you know that every one that has desired heaven1 and has formed any definite conception in his mind respecting its joys1 is introduced after death into those particular joys which he had imagined2 and after he experiences that such joys are only the offspring of the vain delusions of his own fancy1 he is led out of his error1 and instructed in the truth4 ,this is the case with most of those in the world of spirits1 who in their former life have thought about heaven1 and from their notions of its joys have desired to possess them4 ,on hearing this1 the angel that had the trumpet said to the six companies of the assembled wise ones1 ,follow me2 and ,i will introduce you into your respective joys1 and thereby into heaven4 #e4 ,when the angel had thus spoken1 he went before them2 and he was first attended by the company who were of opinion that the joys of heaven consisted solely in pleasant associations and entertaining conversation4 ,these the angel introduced to an assembly of spirits in the northern quarter1 who1 during their abode in the former world1 had entertained the same ideas of the joys of heaven4 ,there was in the place a large and spacious house1 wherein all these spirits were assembled4 ,in the house there were more than fifty different apartments1 allotted to different kinds and subjects of conversation3 in some of these apartments they conversed about such matters as they had seen or heard in the public places of resort and the streets of the city2 in others the conversation turned upon the various charms of the fair sex1 with a mixture of wit and humor1 producing cheerful smiles on the countenances of all present2 in others they talked about the news relating to courts1 to public ministers1 and state policy1 and to various matters which had transpired from privy councils1 interspersing many conjectures and reasonings of their own respecting the issues of such councils2 in others again they conversed about trade and merchandise2 in others upon subjects of literature2 in others upon points of civil prudence and morals2 and in others about affairs relating to the ,church1 its sects1 c4 ,permission was granted me to enter and look about the house2 and ,i saw people running from one apartment to another1 seeking such company as was most suited to their own tempers and inclinations2 and in the different parties ,i could distinguish three kinds of persons2 some as it were panting to converse1 some eager to ask questions1 and others greedily devouring what was said4 ,the house had four doors1 one towards each quarter2 and ,i observed several leaving their respective companies with a great desire to get out of the house4 ,i followed some of them to the east door1 where ,i saw several sitting with great marks of dejection on their faces2 and on my inquiring into the cause of their trouble1 they replied1 ,the doors of this house are kept shut against all persons who wish to go out2 and this is the third day since we entered1 to be entertained according to our desire with company and conversation2 and now we are grown so weary with continual discoursing1 that we can scarcely bear to hear the sound of a human voice2 wherefore1 from mere irksomeness1 we have betaken ourselves to this door2 but on our knocking to have it opened1 we were told1 that the doors of this house are never opened to let any persons out1 but only to let them in1 and that we must stay here and enjoy the delights of heaven2 from which information we conclude1 that we are to remain here to eternity2 and this is the cause of our sorrow and lowness of spirits2 now too we begin to feel an oppression in the breast1 and to be overwhelmed with anxiety4 ,the angel then addressing them said3 ,these things in which you imagined the true joys of heaven to consist1 prove1 you find1 the destruction of all happiness2 since they do not of themselves constitute true heavenly joys1 but only contribute thereto4 ,in what then1 said they to the angel1 does heavenly joy consist8 ,the angel replied briefly1 ,in the delight of doing something that is useful to ourselves and others2 which delight derives its essence from love and its existence from wisdom4 ,the delight of being useful1 originating in love1 and operating by wisdom1 is the very soul and life of all heavenly joys4 ,in the heavens there are frequent occasions of cheerful intercourse and conversation1 whereby the minds 7mentes7 of the angels are exhilarated1 their minds 7animi7 entertained1 their bosoms delighted1 and their bodies refreshed2 but such occasions do not occur1 till they have fulfilled their appointed uses in the discharge of their respective business and duties4 ,it is this fulfilling of uses that gives soul and life to all their delights and entertainments2 and if this soul and life be taken away1 the contributory joys gradually cease1 first exciting indifference1 then disgust1 and lastly sorrow and anxiety4 ,as the angel ended1 the door was thrown open1 and those who were sitting near it burst out in haste1 and went home to their respective labors and employments1 and so found relief and refreshment to their spirits4 #f4 ,after this the angel addressed those who fancied the joys of heaven and eternal happiness consisted of partaking of feasts with ,abraham1 ,isaac1 and ,jacob1 succeeded by sports and public exhibitions1 and these by other feasts1 and so on to eternity4 ,he said1 ,follow me2 and ,i will introduce you into the possession of your enjoyments3 and immediately he led them through a grove into a plain floored with planks1 on which were set tables1 fifteen on one side and fifteen on the other4 ,they then asked1 ,what is the meaning of so many tables8 and the angel replied1 ,the first table is for ,abraham1 the second for ,isaac1 the third for ,jacob1 and the rest in order for the twelve apostles3 on the other side are the same number of tables for their wives2 the first three are for ,sarah1 ,abraham's wife1 for ,rebecca1 the wife of ,isaac1 and for ,leah and ,rachel1 the wives of ,jacob2 and the other twelve are for the wives of the twelve apostles4 ,they had not waited long before the tables were covered with dishes2 between which1 at stated distances1 were ornaments of small pyramids holding sweetmeats4 ,the guests stood around the tables waiting to see their respective presidents3 these soon entered according to their order of precedency1 beginning with ,abraham1 and ending with the last of the apostles2 and then each president1 taking his place at the head of his own table1 reclined on a couch1 and invited the bystanders to take their places1 each on his couch3 accordingly the men reclined with the patriarchs and apostles1 and the women with their wives3 and they ate and drank with much festivity1 but with due decorum4 ,when the repast was ended1 the patriarchs and apostles retired2 and then were introduced various sports and dances of virgins and young men2 and these were succeeded by exhibitions4 ,at the conclusion of these entertainments1 they were again invited to feasting2 but with this particular restriction1 that on the first day they should eat with ,abraham1 on the second with ,isaac1 on the third with ,jacob1 on the fourth with ,peter1 on the fifth with ,james1 on the sixth with ,john1 on the seventh with ,paul1 and with the rest in order till the fifteenth day1 when their festivity should be renewed again in like order1 only changing their seats1 and so on to eternity4 ,after this the angel called together the company that had attended him1 and said to them1 ,all those whom you have observed at the several tables1 had entertained the same imaginary ideas as yourselves1 respecting the joys of heaven and eternal happiness2 and it is with the intent that they may see the vanity of such ideas1 and be withdrawn from them1 that those festive representations were appointed and permitted by the ,lord4 ,those who with so much dignity presided at the tables1 were merely old people and feigned characters1 many of them husbandmen and peasants1 who1 wearing long beards1 and from their wealth being exceedingly proud and arrogant1 were easily induced to imagine that they were those patriarchs and apostles4 ,but follow me to the ways that lead from this place of festivity4 ,they accordingly followed1 and observed groups of fifty or more1 here and there1 surfeited with the load of meat which lay on their stomachs1 and wishing above all things to return to their domestic employments1 their professions1 trades1 and handicraft works2 but many of them were detained by the keepers of the grove1 who questioned them concerning the days they had feasted1 and whether they had as yet taken their turns with ,peter and ,paul2 representing to them the shame and indecency of departing till they had paid equal respect to the apostles4 ,but the general reply was1 ,we are surfeited with our entertainment2 our food has become insipid to us1 we have lost all relish for it1 and the very sight of it is loathsome to us2 we have spent many days and nights in such repasts of luxury1 and can endure it no longer3 we therefore earnestly request leave to depart4 ,then the keepers dismissed them1 and they made all possible haste to their respective homes4 ,after this the angel called the company that attended him1 and as they went along he gave them the following information respecting heaven3--,there are in heaven1 says he1 as in the world1 both meats and drinks1 both feasts and repasts2 and at the tables of the great there is a variety of the most exquisite food1 and all kinds of rich dainties and delicacies1 wherewith their minds are exhilarated and refreshed4 ,there are likewise sports and exhibitions1 concerts of music1 vocal and instrumental1 and all these things in the highest perfection4 ,such things are a source of joy to them1 but not of happiness2 for happiness ought to be within external joys1 and to flow from them4 ,this inward happiness abiding in external joys1 is necessary to give them their proper relish1 and make them joys2 it enriches them1 and prevents their becoming loathsome and disgusting2 and this happiness is derived to every angel from the use he performs in his duty or employment4 ,there is a certain vein latent in the affection of the will of every angel1 which attracts his mind to the execution of some purpose or other1 wherein his mind finds itself in tranquillity1 and is satisfied4 ,this tranquillity and satisfaction form a state of mind capable of receiving from the ,lord the love of uses2 and from the reception of this love springs heavenly happiness1 which is the life of the above-mentioned joys4 ,heavenly food in its essence is nothing but love1 wisdom1 and use united together2 that is1 use effected by wisdom and derived from love2 wherefore food for the body is given to every one in heaven according to the use which he performs2 sumptuous food to those who perform eminent uses2 moderate1 but of an exquisite relish1 to those who perform less eminent uses2 and ordinary to such as live in the performance of ordinary uses2 but none at all to the slothful4 #g4 ,after this the angel called to him the company of the so-called wise ones1 who supposed heavenly joys1 and the eternal happiness thence derived1 to consist in exalted power and dominion1 with the possession of abundant treasures1 attended with more than princely splendor and magnificence1 and who had been betrayed into this supposition by what is written in the ,word1--that they should be kings and princes1 and should reign for ever with ,christ1 and should be ministered unto by angels2 with many other similar expressions4 ,follow me1 said the angel to them1 and ,i will introduce you to your joys4 ,so he led them into a portico constructed of pillars and pyramids3 in the front there was a low porch1 through which lay the entrance to the portico2 through this porch he introduced them1 and lo6 there appeared to be about twenty people assembled4 ,after waiting some time1 they were accosted by a certain person1 having the garb and appearance of an angel1 and who said to them1 ,the way to heaven is through this portico2 wait awhile and prepare yourselves2 for the elder among you are to be kings1 and the younger princes4 ,as he said this1 they saw near each pillar a throne1 and on each throne a silken robe1 and on each robe a sceptre and crown2 and near each pyramid a seat raised three feet from the ground1 and on each seat a massive gold chain1 and the ensigns of an order of knighthood1 fastened at each end with diamond clasps4 ,after this they heard a voice1 saying1 ,go now and put on your robes2 be seated1 and wait awhile3 and instantly the elder ones ran to the thrones1 and the younger to the seats2 and they put on their robes and seated themselves4 ,when lo6 there arose a mist from below1 which1 communicating its influence to those on the thrones and the seats1 caused them instantly to assume airs of authority1 and to swell with their new greatness1 and to be persuaded in good earnest that they were kings and princes4 ,that mist was an aura of phantasy or imagination with which their minds were possessed4 ,then on a sudden1 several young pages presented themselves1 as if they came on wings from heaven2 and two of them stood in waiting behind every throne1 and one behind every seat4 ,afterwards at intervals a herald proclaimed3--,ye kings and princes1 wait a little longer2 your palaces in heaven are making ready for you2 your courtiers and guards will soon attend to introduce you4 ,then they waited and waited in anxious expectation1 till their spirits were exhausted1 and they grew weary with desire4 ,after about three hours1 the heavens above them were seen to open1 and the angels looked down in pity upon them1 and said1 ,why sit ye in this state of infatuation1 assuming characters which do not belong to you8 ,they have made a mockery of you1 and have changed you from men into mere images1 because of the imagination which has possessed you1 that you should reign with ,christ as kings and princes1 and that angels should minister unto you4 ,have you forgotten the ,lord's words1 that whosoever would be the greatest in the kingdom of heaven must be the least of all1 and the servant of all8 ,learn then what is meant by kings and princes1 and by reigning with ,christ2 that it is to be wise and perform uses4 ,the kingdom of ,christ1 which is heaven1 is a kingdom of uses2 for the ,lord loves every one1 and is desirous to do good to every one2 and good is the same thing as use3 and as the ,lord promotes good or use by the mediation of angels in heaven1 and of men on earth1 therefore to such as faithfully perform uses1 he communicates the love thereof1 and its reward1 which is internal blessedness2 and this is true eternal happiness4 ,there are in the heavens1 as on earth1 distinctions of dignity and eminence1 with abundance of the richest treasures2 for there are governments and forms of government1 and consequently a variety of ranks and orders of power and authority4 ,those of the highest rank have courts and palaces to live in1 which for splendor and magnificence exceed every thing that the kings and princes of the earth can boast of2 and they derive honor and glory from the number and magnificence of their courtiers1 ministers1 and attendants2 but then these persons of high rank are chosen from those whose heartfelt delight consists in promoting the public good1 and who are only externally pleased with the distinctions of dignity for the sake of order and obedience2 and as the public good requires that every individual1 being a member of the common body1 should be an instrument of use in the society to which he belongs1 which use is from the ,lord and is effected by angels and men as of themselves1 it is plain that this is meant by reigning with the ,lord4 ,as soon as the angels had concluded1 the kings and princes descended from their thrones and seats1 and cast away their sceptres1 crowns1 and robes2 and the mist which contained the aura of phantasy was dispersed1 and a bright cloud1 containing the aura of wisdom encompassed them1 and thus they were presently restored to their sober senses4 #h4 ,after this the angel returned to the house of assembly1 and called to him those who had conceived the joys of heaven and eternal happiness to consist in paradisiacal delights2 to whom he said1 ,follow me1 and ,i will introduce you into your paradisiacal heaven1 that you may enter upon the beatitudes of your eternal happiness4 ,immediately he introduced them through a lofty portal1 formed of the boughs and shoots of the finest trees interwoven with each other4 ,after their admission1 he led them through a variety of winding paths in different directions4 ,the place was a real paradise1 on the confines of heaven1 intended for the reception of such as1 during their abode on earth1 had fancied the whole heaven to be a single paradise1 because it is so called1 and had been led to conceive that after death there would be a perfect rest from all kinds of labor2 which rest would consist in a continual feast of pleasures1 such as walking among roses1 being exhilarated with the most exquisite wines1 and participating in continual mirth and festivity2 and that this kind of life could only be enjoyed in a heavenly paradise4 ,as they followed the angel1 they saw a great number of old and young1 of both sexes1 sitting by threes and tens in a company on banks of roses2 some of whom were wreathing garlands to adorn the heads of the seniors1 the arms of the young1 and the bosoms of the children2 others were pressing the juice out of grapes1 cherries1 and mulberries1 which they collected in cups1 and then drank with much festivity2 some were delighting themselves with the fragrant smells that exhaled far and wide from the flowers1 fruits1 and odoriferous leaves of a variety of plants2 others were singing most melodious songs1 to the great entertainment of the hearers2 some were sitting by the sides of fountains1 and directing the bubbling streams into various forms and channels2 others were walking1 and amusing one another with cheerful and pleasant conversation2 others were retiring into shady arbors to repose on couches2 besides a variety of other paradisiacal entertainment4 ,after observing these things1 the angel led his companions through various winding paths1 till he brought them at length to a most beautiful grove of roses1 surrounded by olive1 orange1 and citron trees4 ,here they found many persons sitting in a disconsolate posture1 with their heads reclined on their hands1 and exhibiting all the signs of sorrow and discontent4 ,the companions of the angel accosted them1 and inquired into the cause of their grief4 ,they replied1 ,this is the seventh day since we came into this paradise3 on our first admission we seemed to ourselves to be elevated into heaven1 and introduced into a participation of its inmost joys2 but after three days our pleasures began to pall on the appetite1 and our relish was lost1 till at length we became insensible to their taste1 and found that they had lost the power of pleasing4 ,our imaginary joys being thus annihilated we were afraid of losing with them all the satisfaction of life1 and we began to doubt whether any such thing as eternal happiness exists4 ,we then wandered through a variety of paths and passages1 in search of the gate at which we were admitted2 but our wandering was in vain3 for on inquiring the way of some persons we met1 they informed us1 that it was impossible to find the gate1 as this paradisiacal garden is a spacious labyrinth of such a nature1 that whoever wishes to go out1 enters further and further into it2 'wherefore1' said they1 'you must of necessity remain here to eternity2 you are now in the middle of the garden1 where all delights are centred4' ,they further said to the angel's companions1 ,we have now been in this place for a day and a half1 and as we despair of ever finding our way out1 we have sat down to repose on this bank of roses1 where we view around us olive-trees1 vines1 orange and citron-trees1 in great abundance2 but the longer we look at them1 the more our eyes are wearied with seeing1 our noses with smelling1 and our palates with tasting3 and this is the cause of the sadness1 sorrow1 and weeping1 in which you now behold us4 ,on hearing this relation1 the attendant angel said to them1 ,this paradisiacal labyrinth is truly an entrance into heaven2 ,i know the way that leads out of it2 and if you will follow me1 ,i will shew it you4 ,no sooner had he uttered those words than they arose from the ground1 and1 embracing the angel1 attended him with his companions4 ,the angel as they went along1 instructed them in the true nature of heavenly joy and eternal happiness thence derived4 ,they do not1 said he1 consist in external paradisiacal delights1 unless they are also attended with internal4 ,external paradisiacal delights reach only the senses of the body2 but internal paradisiacal delights reach the affections of the soul2 and the former without the latter are devoid of all heavenly life1 because they are devoid of soul2 and every delight without its corresponding soul1 continually grows more and more languid and dull1 and fatigues the mind more than labor4 ,there are in every part of heaven paradisiacal gardens1 in which the angels find much joy2 and so far as it is attended with a delight of the soul1 the joy is real and true4 ,hereupon they all asked1 ,what is the delight of the soul1 and whence is it derived8 ,the angel replied1 ,the delight of the soul is derived from love and wisdom proceeding from the ,lord2 and as love is operative1 and that by means of wisdom1 therefore they are both fixed together in the effect of such operation2 which effect is use4 ,this delight enters into the soul by influx from the ,lord1 and descends through the superior and inferior regions of the mind into all the senses of the body1 and in them is full and complete2 becoming hereby a true joy1 and partaking of an eternal nature from the eternal fountain whence it proceeds4 ,you have just now seen a paradisiacal garden2 and ,i can assure you that there is not a single thing therein1 even the smallest leaf1 which does not exist from the marriage of love and wisdom in use3 wherefore if a man be in this marriage1 he is in a celestial paradise1 and therefore in heaven4 #i4 ,after this1 the conducting angel returned to the house of assembly1 and addressed those who had persuaded themselves that heavenly joy and eternal happiness consist in a perpetual glorification of ,god1 and a continued festival of prayer and praise to eternity2 in consequence of a belief they had entertained in the world that they should then see ,god1 and because the life of heaven1 originating in the worship of ,god1 is called a perpetual sabbath4 ,follow me1 said the angel to them1 and ,i will introduce you to your joy4 ,so he led them into a little city1 in the middle of which was a temple1 and where all the houses were said to be consecrated chapels4 ,in that city they observed a great concourse of people flocking together from all parts of the neighboring country2 and among them a number of priests1 who received and saluted them on their arrival1 and led them by the hand to the gates of the temple1 and from thence into some of the chapels around it1 where they initiated them into the perpetual worship of ,god2 telling them that the city was one of the courts leading to heaven1 and that the temple was an entrance to a most spacious and magnificent temple in heaven1 where the angels glorify ,god by prayers and praises to eternity4 ,it is ordained1 said they1 both here and in heaven1 that you are first to enter into the temple1 and remain there for three days and three nights and after this initiation you are to enter the houses of the city1 which are so many chapels consecrated by us to divine worship1 and in every house join the congregation in a communion of prayers1 praises1 and repetitions of holy things2 you are to take heed also that nothing but pious1 holy1 and religious subjects enter into your thoughts1 or make a part of your conversation4 ,after this the angel introduced his companions into the temple1 which they found filled and crowded with many persons1 who on earth had lived in exalted stations1 and also with many of an inferior class3 guards were stationed at the doors to prevent any one from departing until he had completed his stay of three days4 ,then said the angel1 ,this is the second day since the present congregation entered the temple3 examine them1 and you will see their manner of glorifying ,god4 ,on their examining them1 they observed that most of them were fast asleep1 and that those who were awake were listless and yawning2 many of them1 in consequence of the continual elevation of their thoughts to ,god1 without any attention to the inferior concerns of the body1 seemed to themselves1 and thence also to others1 as if their faces were unconnected with their bodies2 several again had a wild and raving look with their eyes1 because of their long abstraction from visible objects2 in short1 every one1 being quite tired out1 seemed to feel an oppression at the chest1 and great weariness of spirits1 which showed itself in a violent aversion to what they heard from the pulpit1 so that they cried out to the preacher to put an end to his discourse1 for their ears were stunned1 they could not understand a single word he said1 and the very sound of his voice was become painful to them4 ,they then all left their seats1 and1 crowding in a body to the doors1 broke them open1 and by mere violence made their way through the guards4 ,the priests hereupon followed1 and walked close beside them1 teaching1 praying1 sighing1 and encouraging them to celebrate the solemn festival1 and to glorify ,god1 and sanctify themselves2 and then1 said they1 we will initiate you into the eternal glorification of ,god in that most magnificent and spacious temple which is in heaven1 and so will introduce you to the enjoyment of eternal happiness4 ,these words1 however1 made but little impression upon them1 on account of the listlessness of their minds1 arising from the long elevation of their thoughts above their ordinary labors and employments4 ,but when they attempted to disengage themselves from them1 the priests caught hold of their hands and garments1 in order to force them back again into the temple to a repetition of their prayers and praises2 but in vain3 they insisted on being left to themselves to recruit their spirits2 we shall else die1 they said1 through mere faintness and weariness4 ,at that instant1 lo6 there appeared four men in white garments1 with mitres on their heads2 one of them while on earth had been an archbishop1 and the other three bishops1 all of whom had now become angels4 ,as they approached1 they addressed themselves to the priests1 and said1 ,we have observed from heaven how you feed these sheep4 ,your instruction tends to their infatuation4 ,do you not know that to glorify ,god means to bring forth the fruits of love2 that is1 to discharge all the duties of our callings with faithfulness1 sincerity1 and diligence8 for this is the nature of love towards ,god and our neighbor2 and this is the bond and blessing of society4 ,hereby ,god is glorified1 as well as by acts of worship at stated times after these duties4 ,have you never read these words of the ,lord1 ,herein is my ,father glorified1 that ye bring forth much fruit2 so shall ye be my disciples1 ,john xv4 #h4 ,ye priests indeed may glorify ,god by your attendance on his worship1 since this is your office1 and from the discharge of it you derive honor1 glory1 and recompense2 but it would be as impossible for you as for others thus to glorify ,god1 unless honor1 glory1 and recompense were annexed to your office4 ,having said this1 the bishops ordered the doorkeepers to give free ingress and egress to all1 there being so great a number of people1 who1 from their ignorance of the state and nature of heaven1 can form no other idea of heavenly joy than that it consists in the perpetual worship of ,god4 #aj4 ,after this the angel returned with his companions to the place of assembly1 where the several companions of the wise ones were still waiting2 and next he addressed those who fancied that heavenly joy and eternal happiness depend only on admittance into heaven1 which is obtained merely by divine grace and favor2 and that in such case the persons introduced would enter into the enjoyments of heaven1 just as those introduced to a court-festival or a marriage1 enter into the enjoyment of such scenes4 ,wait here awhile1 said the angel1 until ,i sound my trumpet1 and call together those who have been most distinguished for their wisdom in regard to the spiritual things of the ,church4 ,after some hours1 there appeared nine men1 each having a wreath of laurel on his head as a mark of distinction3 these the angel introduced into the house of assembly1 where all the companies before collected were still waiting2 and then in their presence he addressed the nine strangers1 and said1 ,i am informed1 that in compliance with your desire1 you have been permitted to ascend into heaven1 according to your ideas thereof1 and that you have returned to this inferior or sub-celestial earth1 perfectly well informed as to the nature and state of heaven3 tell us therefore what you have seen1 and how heaven appeared to you4 ,then they replied in order2 and the ,first thus began3 ,my idea of heaven from my earliest infancy to the end of my life on earth was1 that it was a place abounding with all sorts of blessings1 satisfactions1 enjoyments1 gratifications1 and delights2 and that if ,i were introduced there1 ,i should be encompassed as by an atmosphere of such felicities1 and should receive it with the highest relish1 like a bridegroom at the celebration of his nuptials1 and when he enters the chamber with his bride4 ,full of this idea1 ,i ascended into heaven1 and passed the first guard and also the second2 but when ,i came to the third1 the captain of the guard accosted me and said1 ',who are you1 friend8' ,i replied1 ',is not this heaven8 ,my longing desire to ascend into heaven has brought me hither2 ,i pray you therefore permit me to enter4' ,then he permitted me2 and ,i saw angels in white garments1 who came about me and examined me1 and whispered to each other1 ',what new guest is this1 who is not clothed in heavenly raiment8' ,i heard what they said1 and thought within myself1 ,this is a similar case to that which the ,lord describes1 of the person who came to the wedding1 and had not on a wedding garment3 and ,i said1 ',give me such garments2' at which they smiled3 and instantly one came from the judgment-hall with this command3 ',strip him naked1 cast him out1 and throw his clothes after him2' and so ,i was cast out4 ,the ,second in order then began as follows3 ,i also supposed that if ,i were but admitted into heaven1 which was over my head1 ,i should there be encompassed with joys1 which ,i should partake of to eternity4 ,i likewise wished to be there1 and my wish was granted2 but the angels on seeing me fled away1 and said one to another1 ',what prodigy is this6 how came this bird of night here8' ,on hearing which1 ,i really felt as if ,i had undergone some change1 and was no longer a man3 this however was merely imaginary1 and arose from my breathing the heavenly atmosphere4 ,presently1 however1 there came one running from the judgment-hall1 with an order that two servants should lead me out1 and conduct me back by the way ,i had ascended1 till ,i had reached my own home2 and when ,i arrived there1 ,i again appeared to others and also to myself as a man4 ,the ,third said1 ,i always conceived heaven to be some place of blessedness independent of the state of the affections2 wherefore as soon as ,i came into this world1 ,i felt a most ardent desire to go to heaven4 ,accordingly ,i followed some whom ,i saw ascending thither1 and was admitted along with them2 but ,i did not proceed far2 for when ,i was desirous to delight my mind 7animus7 according to my idea of heavenly blessedness1 a sudden stupor1 occasioned by the light of heaven1 which is as white as snow1 and whose essence is said to be wisdom1 seized my mind 7mens7 and darkness my eyes1 and ,i was reduced to a state of insanity3 and presently1 from the heat of heaven1 which corresponds with the brightness of its light1 and whose essence is said to be love1 there arose in my heart a violent palpitation1 a general uneasiness seized my whole frame1 and ,i was inwardly excruciated to such a degree that ,i threw myself flat on the ground4 ,while ,i was in this situation1 one of the attendants came from the judgment-hall with an order to carry me gently to my own light and heat2 and when ,i came there my spirit and my heart presently returned to me4 ,the ,fourth said that he also had conceived heaven to be some place of blessedness independent of the state of the affections4 ,as soon therefore1 said he1 as ,i came into the spiritual world1 ,i inquired of certain wise ones whether ,i might be permitted to ascend into heaven1 and was informed that this liberty was granted to all1 but that there was need of caution how they used it1 lest they should be cast down again4 ,i made light of this caution1 and ascended in full confidence that all were alike qualified for the reception of heavenly bliss in all its fulness3 but alas6 ,i was no sooner within the confines of heaven1 than my life seemed to be departing from me1 and from the violent pains and anguish which seized my head and body1 ,i threw myself prostrate on the ground1 where ,i writhed about like a snake when it is brought near the fire4 ,in this state ,i crawled to the brink of a precipice1 from which ,i threw myself down1 and being taken up by some people who were standing near the place where ,i fell1 by proper care ,i was soon brought to myself again4 ,the other ,five then gave a wonderful relation of what befell them in their ascents into heaven1 and compared the changes they experienced as to their states of life1 with the state of fish when raised out of water into air1 and with that of birds when raised out of air into ether2 and they declared that1 after having suffered so much pain1 they had no longer any desire to ascend into heaven1 and only wished to live a life agreeable to the state of their own affections1 among their like in any place whatever4 ,we are well informed1 they added1 that in the world of spirits1 where we now are1 all persons undergo a previous preparation1 the good for heaven1 and the wicked for hell2 and that after such preparation they discover ways open for them to societies of their like1 with whom they are to live eternally2 and that they enter such ways with the utmost delight1 because they are suitable to their love4 ,when those of the first assembly had heard these relations1 they all likewise acknowledged1 that they had never entertained any other notion of heaven than as of a place where they should enter upon the fruition of never-ceasing delights4 ,then the angel who had the trumpet thus addressed them3 ,you see now that the joys of heaven and eternal happiness arise not from the place1 but from the state of the man's life2 and a state of heavenly life is derived from love and wisdom2 and since it is use which contains love and wisdom1 and in which they are fixed and subsist1 therefore a state of heavenly life is derived from the conjunction of love and wisdom in use4 ,it amounts to the same if we call them charity1 faith1 and good works2 for charity is love1 faith is truth whence wisdom is derived1 and good works are uses4 ,moreover in our spiritual world there are places as in the natural world2 otherwise there could be no habitations and distinct abodes2 nevertheless place with us is not place1 but an appearance of place according to the state of love and wisdom1 or of charity and faith4 ,every one who becomes an angel1 carries his own heaven within himself1 because he carries in himself the love of his own heaven2 for a man from creation is the smallest effigy1 image1 and type of the great heaven1 and the human form is nothing else2 wherefore every one after death comes into that society of heaven of whose general form he is an individual effigy2 consequently1 when he enters into that society he enters into a form corresponding to his own2 thus he passes as it were from himself into that form as into another self1 and again from that other self into the same form in himself1 and enjoys his own life in that of the society1 and that of the society in his own2 for every society in heaven may be considered as one common body1 and the constituent angels as the similar parts thereof1 from which the common body exists4 ,hence it follows1 that those who are in evils1 and thence in falses1 have formed in themselves an effigy of hell1 which suffers torment in heaven from the influx and violent activity of one opposite upon another2 for infernal love is opposite to heavenly love1 and consequently the delights of those two loves are in a state of discord and enmity1 and whenever they meet they endeavor to destroy each other4 #aa4 ,after this a voice was heard from heaven1 saying to the angel that had the trumpet1 ,select ten out of the whole assembly1 and introduce them to us4 ,we have heard from the ,lord that ,he will prepare them so as to prevent the heat and light1 or the love and wisdom1 of our heaven1 from doing them any injury during the space of three days4 ,ten were then selected and followed the angel4 ,they ascended by a steep path up a certain hill1 and from thence up a mountain1 on the summit of which was situated the heaven of those angels1 which had before appeared to them at a distance like an expanse in the clouds4 ,the gates were opened for them2 and after they had passed the third gate1 the introducing angel hastened to the prince of the society1 or of that heaven1 and announced their arrival4 ,the prince said1 ,take some of my attendants1 and carry them word that their arrival is agreeable to me1 and introduce them into my reception-room1 and provide for each a separate apartment with a chamber1 and appoint some of my attendants and servants to wait upon them and attend to their wishes3 all which was done4 ,on being introduced by the angel1 they asked whether they might go and see the prince2 and the angel replied1 ,it is now morning1 and it is not allowable before noon2 till that time every one is engaged in his particular duty and employment3 but you are invited to dinner1 and then you will sit at table with our prince2 in the meantime ,i will introduce you into his palace1 and show you its splendid and magnificent contents4 #ab4 ,when they were come to the palace1 they first viewed it from without4 ,it was large and spacious1 built of porphyry1 with a foundation of jasper2 and before the gates were six lofty columns of lapis lazuli2 the roof was of plates of gold1 the lofty windows1 of the most transparent crystal1 had frames also of gold4 ,after viewing the outside they were introduced within1 and were conducted from one apartment to another2 in each of which they saw ornaments of inexpressible elegance and beauty2 and beneath the roof were sculptured decorations of inimitable workmanship4 ,near the walls were set silver tables overlaid with gold1 on which were placed various implements made of precious stones1 and of entire gems in heavenly forms1 with several other things1 such as no eye had ever seen on earth1 and consequently such as could never be supposed to exist in heaven4 ,while they were struck with astonishment at these magnificent sights1 the angel said1 ,be not surprised2 the things which you now behold are not the production and workmanship of any angelic hand1 but are framed by the ,builder of the universe1 and presented as a gift to our prince2 wherefore the architectonic art is here in its essential perfection1 and hence are derived all the rules of that art which are known and practised in the world4 ,the angel further said1 ,you may possibly conceive that such objects charm our eyes1 and infatuate us by their grandeur1 so that we consider them as constituting the joys of our heaven3 this however is not the case2 for our affections not being set on such things1 they are only contributory to the joys of our hearts2 and therefore1 so far as we contemplate them as such1 and as the workmanship of ,god1 so far we contemplate in them the divine omnipotence and mercy4 #ac4 ,after this the angel said to them1 ,it is not yet noon3 come with me into our prince's garden1 which is near the palace4 ,so they went with him2 and as they were entering1 he said1 ,behold here the most magnificent of all the gardens in our heavenly society6 ,but they replied1 ,how6 there is no garden here4 ,we see only one tree1 and on its branches and at its top as it were golden fruit and silver leaves1 with their edges adorned with emeralds1 and beneath the tree little children with their nurses4 ,hereupon the angel1 with an inspired voice said1 ,this tree is in the midst of the garden2 some of us call it the tree of our heaven1 and some1 the tree of life4 ,but advance nearer1 and your eyes will be opened1 and you will see the garden4 ,they did so1 and their eyes were opened1 and they saw numerous trees bearing an abundance of fine flavored fruit1 entwined about with young vines1 whose tops with their fruit inclined towards the tree of life in the midst4 ,these trees were planted in a continuous series1 which1 proceeding from a point1 and being continued into endless circles1 or gyrations1 as of a perpetual spiral1 formed a perfect spiral of trees1 wherein one species continually succeeded another1 according to the worth and excellence of their fruit4 ,the circumgyration began at a considerable distance from the tree in the midst1 and the intervening space was radiant with a beam of light1 which caused the trees in the circle to shine with a graduated splendor that was continued from the first to the last4 ,the first trees were the most excellent of all1 abounding with the choicest fruits1 and were called paradisiacal trees1 being such as are never seen in any country of the natural world1 because none such ever grew or could grow there4 ,these were succeeded by olive-trees1 the olives by vines1 these by sweet-scented shrubs1 and these again by timber trees1 whose wood was useful for building4 ,at stated intervals in this spiral or gyre of trees1 were interspersed seats1 formed of the young shoots of the trees behind1 brought forward and entwined in each other1 while the fruit of the trees hanging over at the same time enriched and adorned them4 ,at this perpetually winding circle of trees1 there were passages which opened into flower-gardens1 and from them into shrubberies1 laid out into areas and beds4 ,at the sight of all these things the companions of the angels exclaimed1 ,behold heaven in form6 wherever we turn our eyes we feel an influx of somewhat celestially-paradisiacal1 which is not to be expressed4 ,at this the angel rejoicing said1 ,all the gardens of our heaven are representative forms or types of heavenly beatitudes in their origins2 and because the influx of these beatitudes elevated your minds1 therefore you exclaimed1 ',behold heaven in form6' but those who do not receive that influx1 regard these paradisiacal gardens only as common woods or forests4 ,all those who are under the influence of the love of use receive the influx2 but those who are under the influence of the love of glory not originating in use1 do not receive it4 ,afterwards he explained to them what every particular thing in the garden represented and signified4 #ad4 ,while they were thus employed1 there came a messenger from the prince1 with an invitation to them to dine with him2 and at the same time two attendants brought garments of fine linen1 and said1 ,put on these2 for no one is admitted to the prince's table unless he be clothed in the garments of heaven4 ,so they put them on1 and accompanied their angel1 and were shewn into a drawing-room belonging to the palace1 where they waited for the prince2 and there the angel introduced them to the company and conversation of the grandees and nobles1 who were also waiting for the prince's appearing4 ,and lo6 in about an hour the doors were opened1 and through one larger than the rest1 on the western side1 he was seen to enter in stately procession4 ,his inferior counsellors went before him1 after them his privy-counsellors1 and next the chief officers belonging to the court2 in the middle of these was the prince2 after him followed courtiers of various ranks1 and lastly the guards2 in all they amounted to a hundred and twenty4 ,then the angel1 advancing before the ten strangers1 who by their dress now appeared like inmates of the place1 approached with them towards the prince1 and reverently introduced them to his notice2 and the prince1 without stopping the procession1 said to them1 ,come and dine with me4 ,so they followed him into the dining-hall1 where they saw a table magnificently set out1 having in the middle a tall golden pyramid with a hundred branches in three rows1 each branch having a small dish1 or basket1 containing a variety of sweetmeats and preserves1 with other delicacies made of bread and wine2 and through the middle of the pyramid there issued as it were a bubbling fountain of nectareous wine1 the stream of which1 falling from the summit of the pyramid separated into different channels and filled the cups4 ,at the sides of this pyramid were various heavenly golden forms1 on which were dishes and plates covered with all kinds of food4 ,the heavenly forms supporting the dishes and plates were forms of art1 derived from wisdom1 such as cannot be devised by any human art1 or expressed by any human words3 the dishes and plates were of silver1 on which were engraved forms similar to those that supported them2 the cups were transparent gems4 ,such was the splendid furniture of the table4 #ae4 ,as regards the dress of the prince and his ministers1 the prince wore a long purple robe1 set with silver stars wrought in needle-work2 under this robe he had a tunic of bright silk of a blue or hyacinthine color2 this was open about the breast1 where there appeared the forepart of a kind of zone or ribbon1 with the ensign of his society2 the badge was an eagle sitting on her young at the top of a tree2 this was wrought in polished gold set with diamonds4 ,the counsellors were dressed nearly after the same manner1 but without the badge2 instead of which they wore sapphires curiously cut1 hanging from their necks by a golden chain4 ,the courtiers wore brownish cloaks1 wrought with flowers encompassing young eagles2 their tunics were of an opal-colored silk1 so were also their lower garments2 thus were they dressed4 #af4 ,the privy-counsellors1 with those of inferior order1 and the grandees stood around the table1 and by command of the prince folded their hands1 and at the same time in a low voice said a prayer of thanksgiving to the ,lord2 and after this1 at a sign from the prince1 they reclined on couches at the table4 ,the prince then said to the ten strangers1 ,do ye also recline with me2 behold1 there are your couches3 so they reclined2 and the attendants1 who were before sent by the prince to wait upon them1 stood behind them4 ,then said the prince to them1 ,take each of you a plate from its supporting form1 and afterwards a dish from the pyramid2 and they did so2 and lo6 instantly new plates and dishes appeared in the place of those that were taken away2 and their cups were filled with wine that streamed from the fountain out of the tall pyramid3 and they ate and drank4 ,when dinner was about half ended1 the prince addressed the ten new guests1 and said1 ,i have been informed that you were convened in the country which is immediately under this heaven1 in order to declare your thoughts respecting the joys of heaven and eternal happiness thence derived1 and that you professed different opinions each according to his peculiar ideas of delight originating in the bodily senses4 ,but what are the delights of the bodily senses without those of the soul8 ,the former are animated by the latter4 ,the delights of the soul in themselves are imperceptible beatitudes2 but1 as they descend into the thoughts of the mind1 and thence into the sensations of the body1 they become more and more perceptible3 in the thoughts of the mind they are perceived as satisfactions1 in the sensations of the body as delights1 and in the body itself as pleasures4 ,eternal happiness is derived from the latter and the former taken together2 but from the latter alone there results a happiness not eternal but temporary1 which quickly comes to an end and passes away1 and in some cases becomes unhappiness4 ,you have now seen that all your joys are also joys of heaven1 and that these are far more excellent than you could have conceived2 yet such joys do not inwardly affect our minds4 ,there are three things which enter by influx from the ,lord as a one into our souls2 these three as a one1 or this trine1 are love1 wisdom1 and use4 ,love and wisdom of themselves exist only ideally1 being confined to the affections and thoughts of the mind2 but in use they exist really1 because they are together in act and bodily employment2 and where they exist really1 there they also subsist4 ,and as love and wisdom exist and subsist in use1 it is by use we are affected2 and use consists in a faithful1 sincere1 and diligent discharge of the duties of our calling4 ,the love of use1 and a consequent application to it1 preserve the powers of the mind1 and prevent their dispersion2 so that the mind is guarded against wandering and dissipation1 and the imbibing of false lusts1 which with their enchanting delusions flow in from the body and the world through the senses1 whereby the truths of religion and morality1 with all that is good in either1 become the sport of every wind2 but the application of the mind to use binds and unites those truths1 and disposes the mind to become a form receptible of the wisdom thence derived2 and in this case it extirpates the idle sports and pastimes of falsity and vanity1 banishing them from its centre towards the circumference4 ,but you will hear more on this subject from the wise ones of our society1 when ,i will send to you in the afternoon4 ,so saying1 the prince arose1 and the new guests along with him1 and bidding them farewell1 he charged the conducting angel to lead them back to their private apartments1 and there to show them every token of civility and respect1 and also to invite some courteous and agreeable company to entertain them with conversation respecting the various joys of this society4 #ag4 ,the angel executed the prince's charge2 and when they were turned to their private apartments1 the company1 invited from the city to inform them respecting the various joys of the society1 arrived1 and after the usual compliments entered into conversation with them as they walked along in a strain at once entertaining and elegant4 ,but the conducting angel said1 ,these ten men were invited into this heaven to see its joys1 and to receive thereby a new idea concerning eternal happiness4 ,acquaint us therefore with some of its joys which affect the bodily senses2 and afterwards1 some wise ones will arrive1 who will acquaint us with what renders those joys satisfactory and happy4 ,then the company who were invited from the city related the following particulars3--#a4 ,there are here days of festivity appointed by the prince1 that the mind1 by due relaxation1 may recover from the weariness which an emulative desire may occasion in particular cases4 ,on such days we have concerts of music and singing in the public places1 and out of the city are exhibited games and shows3 in the public places at such times are raised orchestras surrounded with balusters formed of vines wreathed together1 from which hang bunches of ripe grapes2 within these balusters in three rows1 one above another1 sit the musicians1 with their wind and stringed instruments of various tones1 both high and low1 loud and soft2 and near them are singers of both sexes who entertain the citizens with the sweetest music and singing1 both in concert and solo1 varied at times as to its particular kind3 these concerts continue on those days of festivity from morning till noon1 and afterwards till evening4 #b4 ,moreover1 every morning from the houses around the public places we hear the sweetest songs of virgins and young girls1 which resound though the whole city4 ,it is an affection of spiritual love1 which is sung every morning2 that is1 it is rendered sonorous by modifications of the voice in singing1 or by modulations4 ,the affection in the song is perceived as the real affection1 flowing into the minds of the hearers1 and exciting them to a correspondence with it3 such is the nature of heavenly singing4 ,the virgin-singers say1 that the sound of their song is as it were self-inspired and self-animated from within1 and exalted with delight according to the reception it meets with from the hearers4 ,when this is ended1 the windows of the houses around the public places1 and likewise of those in the streets1 are shut1 and so also are the doors2 and then the whole city is silent1 and no noise heard in any part of it1 nor is any person seen loitering in the streets1 but all are intent on their work and the duties of their calling4 #c4 ,at noon1 however1 the doors are opened1 and in the afternoon also the windows in some houses1 and boys and girls are seen playing in the streets1 while their masters and mistresses sit in the porches of their houses1 watching over them1 and keeping them in order4 #d4 ,at the extreme parts of the city there are various sports of boys and young men1 as running1 hand-ball1 tennis1 c42 there are besides trials of skill among the boys1 in order to discover the readiness of their wit in speaking1 acting1 and perceiving2 and such as excel receive some leaves of laurel as a reward2 not to mention other things of a like nature1 designed to call forth and exercise the latent talents of the young people4 #e4 ,moreover out of the city are exhibited stage-entertainments1 in which the actors represent the various graces and virtues of moral life1 among whom are inferior characters for the sake of relatives4 ,and one of the ten asked1 ,how for the sake of relatives8 ,and they replied1 ,no virtue with its graces and beauties1 can be suitably represented except by means of relatives1 in which are comprised and represented all its graces and beauties1 from the greatest to the least2 and the inferior characters represent the least1 even till they become extinct2 but it is provided by law1 that nothing of the opposite1 which is indecorous and dishonorable1 should be exhibited1 except figuratively1 and as it were remotely4 ,the reason of which provision is1 because nothing that is honorable and good in any virtue can by successive progressions pass over to what is dishonorable and evil3 it only proceeds to its least1 when it perishes2 and when that is the case1 the opposite commences2 wherefore heaven1 where all things are honorable and good1 has nothing in common with hell1 where all things are dishonorable and evil4 #ah4 ,during this conversation1 a servant came in and brought word1 that the eight wise ones1 invited by the prince's order1 were arrived1 and wished to be admitted2 whereupon the angel went out to receive and introduce them3 and presently the wise ones1 after the customary ceremonies of introduction1 began to converse with them on the beginnings and increments of wisdom1 with which they intermixed various remarks respecting its progression1 shewing1 that with the angels it never ceases or comes to a period1 but advances and increases to eternity4 ,hereupon the attendant angel said to them1 ,our prince at table while talking with these strangers respecting the seat or abode of wisdom1 showed that it consists in use3 if agreeable to you1 be pleased to acquaint them further on the same subject4 ,they therefore said1 ,man1 at his first creation1 was endued with wisdom and its love1 not for the sake of himself1 but that he might communicate it to others from himself4 ,hence it is a maxim inscribed on the wisdom of the wise1 that no one is wise for himself alone1 or lives for himself1 but for others at the same time3 this is the origin of society1 which otherwise could not exist4 ,to live for others is to perform uses4 ,uses are the bonds of society1 which are as many in number as there are good uses2 and the number of uses is infinite4 ,there are spiritual uses1 such as regard love to ,god and love towards our neighbour2 there are moral and civil uses1 such as regard the love of the society and state to which a man belongs1 and of his fellow-citizens among whom he lives2 there are natural uses1 which regard the love of the world and its necessities2 and there are corporeal uses1 such as regard the love of self-preservation with a view to superior uses4 ,all these uses are inscribed on man1 and follow in order one after another2 and when they are together1 one is in the other4 ,those who are in the first uses1 which are spiritual1 are in all the succeeding ones1 and such persons are wise2 but those who are not in the first1 and yet are in the second1 and thereby in the succeeding ones1 are not so highly principled in wisdom1 but only appear to be so by virtue of an external morality and civility2 those who are neither in the first nor second1 but only in the third and fourth1 have not the least pretensions to wisdom2 for they are satans1 loving only the world and themselves for the sake of the world2 but those who are only in the fourth1 are least wise of all2 for they are devils1 because they live to themselves alone1 and only to others for the sake of themselves4 ,moreover1 every love has its particular delight2 for it is by delight that love is kept alive2 and the delight of the love of uses is a heavenly delight1 which enters into succeeding delights in their order1 and according to the order of succession1 exalts them and makes them eternal4 ,after this they enumerated the heavenly delights proceeding from the love of uses1 and said1 that they are a thousand times ten thousand2 and that all who enter heaven enter into those delights4 ,with further wise conversation on the love of use1 they passed the day with them until evening4 #ai4 ,towards evening there came a messenger clothed in linen to the ten strangers who attended the angel1 and invited them to a marriage-ceremony which was to be celebrated the next day1 and the strangers were much rejoiced to think that they were also to be present at a marriage-ceremony in heaven4 ,after this they were conducted to the house of one of the counsellors1 and supped with him2 and after supper they returned to the palace1 and each retired to his own chamber1 where they slept till morning4 ,when they awoke1 they heard the singing of the virgins and young girls from the houses around the public places of resort1 which we mentioned above4 ,they sung that morning the affection of conjugial love2 the sweetness of which so affected and moved the hearers1 that they perceived sensibly a blessed serenity instilled into their joys1 which at the some time exalted and renewed them4 ,at the hour appointed the angel said1 ,make yourselves ready1 and put on the heavenly garments which our prince sent you2 and they did so1 and lo6 the garments were resplendent as with a flaming light2 and on their asking the angel1 ,whence is this8 he replied1 ,because you are going to a marriage-ceremony2 and when that is the case1 our garments always assume a shining appearance1 and become marriage garments4 #bj4 ,after this the angel conducted them to the house where the nuptials were to be celebrated1 and the porter opened the door2 and presently being admitted within the house1 they were received and welcomed by an angel sent from the bridegroom1 and were introduced and shewn to the seats intended for them3 and soon after they were invited into an ante-chamber1 in the middle of which they saw a table1 and on it a magnificent candlestick with seven branches and sconces of gold3 against the walls there were hung silver lamps1 which being lighted made the atmosphere appear of a golden hue3 and they observed on each side of the candlestick two tables1 on which were set loaves in three rows2 there were tables also at the four corners of the room1 on which were placed crystal cups4 ,while they were viewing these things1 lo6 a door opened from a closet near the marriage-chamber1 and six virgins came out1 and after them the bridegroom and the bride1 holding each other by the hand1 and advancing towards a seat placed opposite to the candlestick1 on which they seated themselves1 the bridegroom on the left hand1 and the bride on the right1 while the six virgins stood by the seat near the bride4 ,the bridegroom was dressed in a robe of bright purple1 and a tunic of fine shining linen1 with an ephod1 on which was a golden plate set round with diamonds1 and on the plate was engraved a young eagle1 the marriage-ensign of that heavenly society2 on his head he wore a mitre3 the bride was dressed in a scarlet mantle1 under which was a gown1 ornamented with fine needle-work1 that reached from her neck to her feet1 and beneath her bosom she wore a golden girdle1 and on her head a golden crown set with rubies4 ,when they were thus seated1 the bridegroom turning himself towards the bride1 put a golden ring on her finger2 he then took bracelets and a pearl necklace1 and clasped the bracelets about her wrists1 and the necklace about her neck1 and said1 ,accept these pledges2 and as she accepted them he kissed her1 and said1 ,now thou art mine2 and he called her his wife4 ,on this all the company cried out1 ,may the divine blessing be upon you6 ,these words were first pronounced by each separately1 and afterwards by all together4 ,they were pronounced also in turn by a certain person sent from the prince as his representative2 and at that instant the ante-chamber was filled with an aromatic smoke1 which was a token of blessing from heaven4 ,then the servants in waiting took loaves from the two tables near the candlestick1 and cups1 now filled with wine1 from the tables at the corners of the room1 and gave to each of the guests his own loaf and his own cup1 and they ate and drank4 ,after this the husband and his wife arose1 and the six virgins attended them with the silver lamps1 now lighted1 in their hands to the threshold2 and the married pair entered their chamber2 and the door was shut4 #ba4 ,afterwards the conducting angel talked with the guests about his ten companions1 acquainting them how he was commissioned to introduce them1 and shew them the magnificent things contained in the prince's palace1 and other wonderful sights2 and how they had dined at table with him1 and afterwards had conversed with the wise ones of the society2 and he said1 ,may ,i be permitted to introduce them also to you1 in order that they may enjoy the pleasure of your conversation8 ,so he introduced them1 and they entered into discourse together4 ,then a certain wise personage1 one of the marriage-guests1 said1 ,do you understand the meaning of what you have seen8 ,they replied1 ,but little2 and then they asked him1 ,why was the bridegroom1 who is now a husband1 dressed in that particular manner8 ,he answered1 ,because the bridegroom1 now a husband1 represented the ,lord1 and the bride1 who is now a wife1 represented the church2 for marriages in heaven represent the marriage of the ,lord with the church4 ,this is the reason why he wore a mitre on his head1 and was dressed in a robe1 a tunic1 and an ephod1 like ,aaron2 and why the bride had a crown on her head1 and wore a mantle like a queen2 but to-morrow they will be dressed differently1 because this representation lasts no longer than to-day4 ,they further asked1 ,since he represented the ,lord1 and she the church1 why did she sit at his right hand8 ,the wise one replied1 ,because there are two things which constitute the marriage of the ,lord with the church--love and wisdom2 the ,lord is love1 and the church is wisdom2 and wisdom is at the right hand of love2 for every member of the church is wise as of himself1 and in proportion as he is wise he receives love from the ,lord4 ,the right hand also signifies power2 and love has power by means of wisdom2 but1 as we have just observed1 after the marriage-ceremony the representation is changed2 for then the husband represents wisdom1 and the wife the love of his wisdom4 ,this love however is not primary1 but secondary love2 being derived from the ,lord to the wife through the wisdom of the husband3 the love of the ,lord1 which is the primary love1 is the husband's love of being wise2 therefore after marriage1 both together1 the husband and his wife1 represent the church4 ,they asked again1 ,why did not you men stand by the bridegroom1 now the husband1 as the six virgins stood by the bride1 now the wife8 ,the wise one answered1 ,because we to-day are numbered among the virgins2 and the number six signifies all and what is complete4 ,but they said1 ,explain your meaning4 ,he replied1 ,virgins signify the church2 and the church consists of both sexes3 therefore also we1 with respect to the church1 are virgins4 ,that this is the case1 is evident from these words in the ,revelation3 ',these are those who were not defiled with women2 for they are ,virgins3 and they follow the ,lamb whithersoever he goeth1' chap4 xiv4 #d4 ,and as virgins signify the church1 therefore the ,lord likened it to ten ,virgins invited to a marriage1 ,mat4 xxv4 ,and as ,israel1 ,zion1 and ,jerusalem1 signify the church1 therefore mention is so often made in the ,word1 of the ,virgin and ,daughter of ,israel1 of ,zion1 and of ,jerusalem4 ,the ,lord also describes his marriage with the church in these words3 'upon thy right hand did stand the ,queen in gold of ,ophir3 her clothing is of wrought gold3 she shall be brought unto the king in raiment of needlework3 the ,virgins her companions that follow her shall enter into the king's palace4' ,psalm xlv4 #i-af4 ,lastly they asked1 ,is it not expedient that a priest be present and minister at the marriage ceremony8 ,the wise one answered1 ,this is expedient on the earth1 but not in the heavens1 by reason of the representation of the ,lord himself and the church4 ,on the earth they are not aware of this2 but even with us a priest ministers in whatever relates to betrothings1 or marriage contracts1 and hears1 receives1 confirms1 and consecrates the consent of the parties4 ,consent is the essential of marriage2 all succeeding ceremonies are its formalities4 #bb4 ,after this the conducting angel went to the six virgins1 and gave them an account of his companions1 and requested that they would vouchsafe to join company with them4 ,accordingly they came2 but when they drew near1 they suddenly retired1 and went into the ladies' apartment to the virgins their companions4 ,on seeing this1 the conducting angel followed them1 and asked why they retired so suddenly without entering into conversation8 ,they replied4 ,we cannot approach3 and he said1 ,why not8 ,they answered1 ,we do not know2 but we perceived something which repelled us and drove us back again4 ,we hope they will excuse us4 ,the angel then returned to his companions1 and told them what the virgins had said1 and added1 ,i conjecture that your love of the sex is not chaste4 ,in heaven we love virgins for their beauty and the elegance of their manners2 and we love them intensely1 but chastely4 ,hereupon his companions smiled and said1 ,you conjecture right3 who can behold such beauties near and not feel some excitement8 #bc4 ,after much entertaining conversation the marriage-guests departed1 and also the ten strangers with their attendant angel2 and the evening being far advanced1 they retired to rest4 ,in the morning they heard a proclamation1 ,,to-,,day ,,is ,,the ,,sabbath4 ,they then arose and asked the angel what it meant3 he replied1 ,it is for the worship of ,god1 which returns at stated periods1 and is proclaimed by the priests4 ,the worship is performed in our temples and lasts about two hours2 wherefore if it please you1 come along with me1 and ,i will introduce you4 ,so they made themselves ready1 and attended the angel1 and entered the temple4 ,it was a large building capable of containing about three thousand persons1 of a semicircular form1 with benches or seats carried round in a continued sweep according to the figure of the temple2 the hinder ones being more elevated than those in front4 ,the pulpit in front of the seats was drawn a little from the centre2 the door was behind the pulpit on the left hand4 ,the ten strangers entered with their conducting angel1 who pointed out to them the places where they were to sit2 telling them1 ,every one that enters the temple knows his own place by a kind of innate perception2 nor can he sit in any place but his own3 in case he takes another place1 he neither hears nor perceives anything1 and he also disturbs the order2 the consequence of which is1 that the priest is not inspired4 #bd4 ,when the congregation had assembled1 the priest ascended the pulpit1 and preached a sermon full of the spirit of wisdom4 ,the discourse was concerning the sanctity of the ,holy ,scriptures1 and the conjunction of the ,lord with both worlds1 the spiritual and the natural1 by means thereof4 ,in the illustration in which he then was1 he fully proved1 that that holy book was dictated by ,jehovah the ,lord1 and that consequently ,he is in it1 so as to be the wisdom it contains2 but that the wisdom which is ,himself therein1 lies concealed under the sense of the letter1 and is opened only to those who are in the truths of doctrine1 and at the same time in goodness of life1 and thus who are in the ,lord1 and the ,lord in them4 ,to his discourse he added a votive prayer and descended4 ,as the audience were going out1 the angel requested the priest to speak a few words of peace with his ten companions2 so he came to them1 and they conversed together for about half an hour4 ,he discoursed concerning the divine trinity--that it is in ,jesus ,christ1 in whom all the fulness of the ,godhead dwells bodily1 according to the declaration of the apostle ,paul2 and afterwards concerning the union of charity and faith2 but he said1 the union of charity and truth2 because faith is truth4 #be4 ,after expressing their thanks they returned home2 and then the angel said to them1 ,this is the third day since you came into the society of this heaven1 and you were prepared by the ,lord to stay here three days2 it is time therefore that we separate2 put off therefore the garments sent you by the prince1 and put on your own4 ,when they had done so1 they were inspired with a desire to be gone2 so they departed and descended1 the angel attending them to the place of assembly2 and there they gave thanks to the ,lord for vouchsafing to bless them with knowledge1 and thereby with intelligence1 concerning heavenly joys and eternal happiness4 #bf4 ,i again solemnly declare1 that these things were done and said as they are related2 the former in the world of spirits1 which is intermediate between heaven and hell1 and the latter in the society of heaven to which the angel with the trumpet and the conductor belonged4 ,who in the ,christian world would have known anything concerning heaven1 and the joys and happiness there experienced1 the knowledge of which is the knowledge of salvation1 unless it had pleased the ,lord to open to some person the sight of his spirit1 in order to shew and teach them8 ,that similar things exist in the spiritual world is very manifest from what were seen and heard by the apostle ,john1 as described in the ,revelation2 as that he saw the ,son of ,man in the midst of seven candlesticks2 also a tabernacle1 temple1 ark1 and altar in heaven2 a book sealed with seven seals2 the book opened1 and horses going forth thence2 four animals around the throne2 twelve thousand chosen out of every tribe2 locusts ascending out of the bottomless pit2 a dragon1 and his combat with ,michael2 a woman bringing forth a male child1 and flying into a wilderness on account of the dragon2 two beasts1 one ascending out of the sea1 the other out of the earth2 a woman sitting upon a scarlet beast2 the dragon cast out into a lake of fire and brimstone2 a white horse and a great supper2 a new heaven and a new earth1 and the holy ,jerusalem descending described as to its gates1 wall1 and foundation2 also a river of the water of life1 and trees of life bearing fruits every month2 besides several other particulars2 all which things were seen by ,john1 while as to his spirit he was in the spiritual world and in heaven3 not to mention the things seen by the apostles after the ,lord's resurrection2 and what were afterwards seen and heard by ,peter1 ,acts xi42 also by ,paul2 moreover by the prophets2 as by ,ezekiel1 who saw four animals which were cherubs1 chap i4 and chap x42 a new temple and a new earth1 and an angel measuring them1 chap4 xl4-xlviii42 and was led away to ,jerusalem1 and saw there abominations3 and also into ,chaldea into captivity1 chap4 viii4 and chap4 xi4 ,the case was similar with ,zechariah1 who saw a man riding among myrtles2 also four horns1 chap4 i4 #h1 and following verses2 and afterwards a man with a measuring-line in his hand1 chap4 ii4 #a1 and following verses2 likewise a candlestick and two olive trees1 chap4 iv4 #b1 and following verses2 also a flying roll and an ephah1 chap4 v4 #a1 #f2 also four chariots going forth between two mountains1 and horses1 chap4 vi4 #a1 and following verses4 ,so likewise with ,daniel1 who saw four beasts coming up out of the sea1 chap4 vii4 #a1 and following verses2 also combats of a ram and he-goat1 chap4 viii4 #a1 and following verses2 who also saw the angel ,gabriel1 and had much discourse with him1 chap4 ix43 the youth of ,elisha saw chariots and horses of fire round about ,elisha1 and saw them when his eyes were opened1 #b ,kings vi4 #ae1 and following verses4 ,from these and several other instances in the ,word1 it is evident1 that the things which exist in the spiritual world1 appeared to many both before and after the ,lord's coming3 is it any wonder then1 that the same things should now also appear when the church is commencing1 or when the ,new ,jerusalem is coming down from the ,lord out of heaven8 ,,on ,,marriages ,,in ,,heaven4 #bg4 ,that there are marriages in heaven cannot be admitted as an article of faith by those who imagine that a man after death is a soul or spirit1 and who conceive of a soul or spirit as of a rarefied ether or vapor2 who imagine also1 that a man will not live as a man till after the day of the last judgment2 and in general who know nothing respecting the spiritual world1 in which angels and spirits dwell1 consequently in which there are heavens and hells3 and as that world has been heretofore unknown1 and mankind have been in total ignorance that the angels of heaven are men1 in a perfect form1 and in like manner infernal spirits1 but in an imperfect form1 therefore it was impossible for anything to be revealed concerning marriages in that world2 for if it had it would have been objected1 ,how can a soul be joined with a soul1 or a vapor with a vapor1 as one married partner with another here on earth8 not to mention other similar objections1 which1 the instant they were made1 would take away and dissipate all faith respecting marriages in another life4 ,but now1 since several particulars have been revealed concerning that world1 and a description has also been given of its nature and quality1 in the treatise on ,,heaven ,,and ,,hell1 and also in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 the assertion1 that marriages take place in that world1 may be so far confirmed as even to convince the reason by the following propositions3 ,i4 ,a man 7homo7 lives a man after death4 ,,ii4 ,in this case a male is a male1 and a female a female4 ,,iii4 ,every one's peculiar love remains with him after death4 ,,iv4 ,the love of the sex especially remains2 and with those who go to heaven1 which is the case with all who become spiritual here on earth1 conjugial love remains4 ,v4 ,these things fully confirmed by ocular demonstration4 ,,vi4 ,consequently that there are marriages in the heavens4 ,,vii4 ,spiritual nuptials are to be understood by the ,lord's words1 where he says1 that after the resurrection they are not given in marriage4 ,we will now give an explanation of these propositions in their order4 #bh4 ,i4 ,a ,,man ,,lives ,a ,,man ,,after ,,death4 ,that a man lives a man after death has been heretofore unknown in the world1 for the reasons just now mentioned2 and1 what is surprising1 it has been unknown even in the ,christian world1 where they have the ,word1 and illustration thence concerning eternal life1 and where the ,lord himself teaches1 ,that all the dead rise again2 and that ,god is not the ,god of the dead but of the living1 ,matt4 xxii4 #ca1 #cb4 ,luke xx4 #cg1 #ch4 ,moreover1 a man1 as to the affections and thoughts of his mind1 is in the midst of angels and spirits1 and is so consociated with them that were he to be separated from them he would instantly die4 ,it is still more surprising that this is unknown1 when yet every man that has departed this life since the beginning of creation1 after his decease has come and does still come to his own1 or1 as it is said in the ,word1 has been gathered and is gathered to his own3 besides every one has a common perception1 which is the same thing as the influx of heaven into the interiors of his mind1 by virtue of which he inwardly perceives truths1 and as it were sees them1 and especially this truth1 that he lives a man after death2 a happy man if he has lived well1 and an unhappy one if he has lived ill4 ,for who does not think thus1 while he elevates his mind in any degree above the body1 and above the thought which is nearest to the senses2 as is the case when he is interiorly engaged in divine worship1 and when he lies on his death-bed expecting his dissolution2 also when he hears of those who are deceased1 and their lot8 ,i have related a thousand particulars respecting departed spirits1 informing certain persons that are now alive concerning the state of their deceased brethren1 their married partners1 and their friends4 ,i have written also concerning the state of the ,english1 the ,dutch1 the ,papists1 the ,jews1 the ,gentiles1 and likewise concerning the state of ,luther1 ,calvin1 and ,melancthon2 and hitherto ,i never heard any one object1 ,how can such be their lot1 when they are not yet risen from their tombs1 the last judgement not being yet accomplished8 ,are they not in the meantime mere vaporous and unsubstantial souls residing1 in some place of confinement 7in quodam pu seu ubi78 ,such objections ,i have never yet heard from any quarter2 whence ,i have been led to conclude1 that every one perceives in himself that he lives a man after death4 ,who that has loved his married partner and his children when they are dying or are dead1 will not say within himself 7if his thought be elevated above the sensual principles of the body7 that they are in the hand of ,god1 and that he shall see them again after his own death1 and again be joined with them in a life of love and joy8 #bi4 ,who1 that is willing1 cannot see from reason1 that a man after death is not a mere vapor1 of which no idea can be formed but as of a breath of wind1 or of air and ether1 and that such vapor constitutes or contains in it the human soul1 which desires and expects conjunction with its body1 in order that it may enjoy the bodily senses and their delights1 as previously in the world8 ,we cannot see1 that if this were the case with a man after death1 his state would be more deplorable than that of fishes1 birds1 and terrestrial animals1 whose souls are not alive1 and consequently are not in such anxiety of desire and expectation8 ,supposing a man after death to be such a vapor1 and thus a breath of wind1 he would either fly about in the universe1 or according to certain traditions1 would be reserved in a place of confinement1 or in the limbo of the ancient fathers1 until the last judgement4 ,who cannot hence from reason conclude1 that those who have lived since the beginning of creation1 which is computed to be about six thousand years ago1 must be still in a similar anxious state1 and progressively more anxious1 because all expectation arising from desire produces anxiety1 and being continued from time to time increases it2 consequently1 that they must still be either floating about in the universe1 or be kept shut up in confinement1 and thereby in extreme misery2 and that must be the case with ,adam and his wife1 with ,abraham1 ,isaac1 and ,jacob1 and with all who have lived since that time8 ,all this being supposed true1 it must needs follow1 that nothing would be more deplorable than to be born a man4 ,but the reverse of this is provided by the ,lord1 who is ,jehovah from eternity and the ,creator of the universe2 for the state of the man that conjoins himself with him by a life according to his precepts1 becomes more blessed and happy after death than before it in the world2 and it is more blessed and happy from this circumstance1 that the man then is spiritual1 and a spiritual man is sensible of and perceives spiritual delight1 which is a thousand times superior to natural delight4 #cj4 ,that angels and spirits are men1 may plainly appear from those seen by ,abraham1 ,gideon1 ,daniel1 and the prophets1 and especially by ,john when he wrote the ,revelation1 and also by the women in the ,lord's sepulchre1 yea1 from the ,lord himself as seen by the disciples after his resurrection4 ,the reason of their being seen was1 because the eyes of the spirits of those who saw them were opened2 and when the eyes of the spirit are opened1 angels appear in their proper form1 which is the human2 but when the eyes of the spirit are closed1 that is1 when they are veiled by the vision of the bodily eyes1 which derive all their impressions from the material world1 then they do not appear4 #ca4 ,it is however to be observed1 that a man after death is not a natural1 but a spiritual man2 nevertheless he still appears in all respects like himself2 and so much so1 that he knows not but1 that he is still in the natural world3 for he has a similar body1 countenance1 speech1 and senses2 for he has a similar affection and thought1 or will and understanding4 ,he is indeed actually not similar1 because he is a spiritual1 and consequently an interior man2 but the difference does not appear to him1 because he cannot compare his spiritual state with his former natural state1 having put off the latter1 and being in the former2 therefore ,i have often heard such persons say1 that they know not but that they are in the former world1 with this difference1 however1 that they no longer see those whom they had left in that world2 but that they see those who had departed out of it1 or were deceased4 ,the reason why they now see the latter and not the former1 is1 because they are no longer natural men1 but spiritual or substantial2 and a spiritual or substantial man sees a spiritual or substantial man1 as a natural or material man sees a natural or material man1 but not vice versa1 on account of the difference between what is substantial and what is material1 which is like the difference between what is prior and what is posterior2 and what is prior1 being in itself purer1 cannot appear to what is posterior1 which in itself is grosser2 nor can what is posterior1 being grosser1 appear to what is prior1 which in itself is purer2 consequently an angel cannot appear to a man of this world1 nor a man of this world to an angel4 ,the reason why a man after death is a spiritual or substantial man1 is1 because this spiritual or substantial man lay inwardly concealed in the natural or material man2 which natural or material man was to it as a covering1 or as a skin about to be cast off2 and when the covering or skin is cast off1 the spiritual or substantial man comes forth1 a purer1 interior1 and more perfect man4 ,that the spiritual man is still a perfect man1 notwithstanding his being invisible to the natural man1 is evident from the ,lord's being seen by the apostles after his resurrection1 when he appeared1 and presently he did not appear2 and yet he was a man like to himself both when seen and when not seen3 it is also said1 that when they saw him1 their eyes were opened4 #cb4 ,,ii4 ,,in ,,this ,,case ,a ,,male ,,is ,a ,,male1 ,,and ,a ,,female ,a ,,female4 ,since a man 7homo7 lives a man after death1 and man is male and female1 and there is such a distinction between the male principle and the female principle1 that the one cannot be changed into the other1 it follows1 that after death the male lives a male1 and the female a female1 each being a spiritual man4 ,it is said that the male principle cannot be changed into the female principle1 nor the female into the male1 and that therefore after death the male is a male1 and the female a female2 but as it is not known in what the masculine principle essentially consists1 and in what the feminine1 it may be expedient briefly to explain it4 ,the essential distinction between the two is this3 in the masculine principle1 love is inmost1 and its covering is wisdom2 or1 what is the same1 the masculine principle is love covered 7or veiled7 by wisdom2 whereas in the feminine principle1 the wisdom of the male is inmost1 and its covering is love thence derived2 but this latter love is feminine1 and is given by the ,lord to the wife through the wisdom of the husband2 whereas the former love is masculine1 which is the love of growing wise1 and is given by the ,lord to the husband according to the reception of wisdom4 ,it is from this circumstance1 that the male is the wisdom of love1 and the female is the love of that wisdom2 therefore from creation there is implanted in each a love of conjunction so as to become a one2 but on this subject more will be said in the following pages4 ,that the female principle is derived from the male1 or that the woman was taken out of the man1 is evident from these words in ,genesis3 ,jehovah ,god took out one of the man's ribs1 and closed up the flesh in the place thereof2 and he builded the rib1 which he had taken out of the man1 into a woman2 and he brought her to the man2 and the man said1 ,this is bone of my bones1 and flesh of my flesh2 hence she shall be called ,eve1 because she was taken out of man1 chap4 ii4 #ba-bc3 the signification of a rib and of flesh will be shewn elsewhere4 #cc4 ,from this primitive formation it follows1 that by birth the character of the male is intellectual1 and that the female character partakes more of the will principle2 or1 what amounts to the same1 that the male is born into the affection of knowing1 understanding1 and growing wise1 and the female into the love of conjoining herself with that affection in the male4 ,and as the interiors form the exteriors to their own likeness1 and the masculine form is the form of intellect1 and the feminine is the form of the love of that intellect1 therefore the male and the female differ as to the features of the face1 the tone of the voice1 and the form of the body2 the male having harder features1 a harsher tone of voice1 a stronger body1 and also a bearded chin1 and in general a form less beautiful than that of the female2 they differ also in their gestures and manners2 in a word1 they are not exactly similar in a single respect2 but still1 in every particular of each1 there is a tendency to conjunction2 yea1 the male principle in the male1 is male in every part of his body1 even the most minute1 and also in every idea of his thought1 and every spark of his affection2 the same is true of the female principle in the female2 and since of consequence the one cannot be changed into the other1 it follows1 that after death a male is a male1 and a female a female4 #cd4 ,,iii4 ,,every ,,one',s ,,peculiar ,,love ,,remains ,,with ,,him ,,after ,,death4 ,man knows that there is such a thing as love2 but he does not know what love is4 ,he knows that there is such a thing from common discourse2 as when it is said1 that such a one loves me1 that a king loves his subjects1 and subjects love their king2 that a husband loves his wife1 and a mother her children1 and vice versa2 also when it is said1 that any one loves his country1 his fellow citizens1 and his neighbour2 in like manner of things abstracted from persons2 as when it is said that a man loves this or that4 ,but although the term love is thus universally applied in conversation1 still there is scarcely any one that knows what love is3 even while meditating on the subject1 as he is not then able to form any distinct idea concerning it1 and thus not to fix it as present in the light of the understanding1 because of its having relation not to light but to heat1 he either denies its reality1 or he calls it merely an influent effect arising from the sight1 the hearing1 and the conversation1 and thus accounts for the motions to which it gives birth2 not being at all aware1 that love is his very life1 not only the common life of his whole body and of all his thoughts1 but also the life of all their particulars4 ,a wise man may perceive this from the consideration1 that if the affection of love be removed1 he is incapable both of thinking and acting2 for in proportion as that affection grows cold1 do not thought1 speech1 and action grow cold also8 and in proportion as that affection grows warm1 do not they also grow warm in the same degree8 ,love therefore is the heat of the life of man 7hominis71 or his vital heat4 ,the heat of the blood1 and also its redness1 are from this source alone4 ,the fire of the angelic sun1 which is pure love1 produces this effect4 #ce4 ,that every one has his own peculiar love1 or a love distinct from that of another2 that is1 that no two men have exactly the same love1 may appear from the infinite variety of human countenances1 the countenance being a type of the love2 for it is well known that the countenance is changed and varied according to the affection of love2 a man's desires also1 which are of love1 and likewise his joys and sorrows1 are manifested in the countenance4 ,from this consideration it is evident1 that every man is his own peculiar love2 yea1 that he is the form of his love4 ,it is however to be observed1 that the interior man1 which is the same with his spirit which lives after death1 is the form of his love1 and not so the exterior man which lives in this world1 because the latter has learnt from infancy to conceal the desires of his love2 yea1 to make a pretence and show of desires which are different from his own4 #cf4 ,the reason why every one's peculiar love remains with him after death1 is1 because1 as was said just above1 n4 #cd1 love is a man's 7hominis7 life2 and hence it is the man himself4 ,a man also is his own peculiar thought1 thus his own peculiar intelligence and wisdom2 but these make a one with his love2 for a man thinks from this love and according to it2 yea1 if he be in freedom1 he speaks and acts in like manner2 from which it may appear1 that love is the esse or essence of a man's life1 and that thought is the existere or existence of his life thence derived2 therefore speech and action1 which are said to flow from the thought1 do not flow from the thought1 but from the love through the thought4 ,from much experience ,i have learned that a man after death is not his own peculiar thought1 but that he is his own peculiar affection and derivative thought2 or that he is his own peculiar love and derivative intelligence2 also that a man after death puts off everything which does not agree with his love2 yea1 that he successively puts on the countenance1 the tone of voice1 the speech1 the gestures1 and the manners of the love proper to his life3 hence it is1 that the whole heaven is arranged in order according to all the varieties of the affections of the love of good1 and the whole hell according to all the affections of the love of evil4 #cg4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,especially ,,remains2 ,,and ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,go ,,to ,,heaven1 ,,which ,,is ,,the ,,case ,,with ,,all ,,who ,,become ,,spiritual ,,here ,,on ,,earth1 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,remains4 ,the reason why the love of the sex remains with man 7homo7 after death1 is1 because after death a male is a male and a female a female2 and the male principle in the male is male 7or masculine7 in the whole and in every part thereof2 and so is the female principle in the female2 and there is a tendency to conjunction in all their parts1 even the most singular2 and as this conjunctive tendency was implanted from creation1 and thence perpetually influences1 it follows1 that the one desires and seeks conjunction with the other4 ,love1 considered itself1 is a desire and consequent tendency to conjunction2 and conjugial love to conjunction into a one2 for the male-man and the female-man were so created1 that from two they may become as it were one man1 or one flesh2 and when they become a one1 then1 taken together they are a man 7homo7 in his fulness2 but without such conjunction1 they are two1 and each is a divided or half-man4 ,now as the above conjunctive tendency lies concealed in the inmost of every part of the male1 and of every part of the female1 and the same is true of the faculty and desire to be conjoined together into a one1 it follows1 that the mutual and reciprocal love of the sex remains with men 7homines7 after death4 #ch4 ,we speak distinctively of the love of the sex and of conjugial love1 because the one differs from the other4 ,the love of the sex exists with the natural man2 conjugial love with the spiritual man4 ,the natural man loves and desires only external conjunctions1 and the bodily pleasures thence derived2 whereas the spiritual man loves and desires internal conjunctions and the spiritual satisfactions thence derived2 and these satisfactions he perceives are granted with one wife1 with whom he can perpetually be more and more joined together into a one3 and the more he enters into such conjunction the more he perceives his satisfactions ascending in a similar degree1 and enduring to eternity2 but respecting anything like this the natural man has no idea4 ,this then is the reason why it is said1 that after death conjugial love remains with those who go to heaven1 which is the case with all those who become spiritual here on earth4 #ci4 ,v4 ,,these ,,things ,,fully ,,confirmed ,,by ,,ocular ,,demonstration4 ,that a man 7homo7 lives as a man after death1 and that in this case a male is a male1 and a female a female2 and that every one's peculiar love remains with him after death1 especially the love of the sex and conjugial love1 are positions which ,i have wished hitherto to confirm by such arguments as respect the understanding1 and are called rational2 but since man 7homo7 from his infancy1 in consequence of what has been taught him by his parents and masters1 and afterwards by the learned and the clergy1 has been induced to believe1 that he shall not live a man after death until the day of the last judgement1 which has now been expected for six thousand years2 and several have regarded this article of faith as one which ought to be believed1 but not intellectually conceived1 it was therefore necessary that the above positions should be confirmed also by ocular proofs2 otherwise a man who believes only the evidence of his senses1 in consequence of the faith previously implanted1 would object thus3 ,if men lived men after death1 ,i should certainly see and hear them3 who has ever descended from heaven1 or ascended from hell1 and given such information8 ,in reply to such objections it is to be observed1 that it never was possible1 nor can it ever be1 that any angel of heaven should descend1 or any spirit of hell ascend1 and speak with any man1 except with those who have the interiors of the mind or spirit opened by the ,lord2 and this opening of the interiors cannot be fully effected except with those who have been prepared by the ,lord to receive the things which are of spiritual wisdom3 on which accounts it has pleased the ,lord thus to prepare me1 that the state of heaven and hell1 and of the life of men after death1 might not remain unknown1 and be laid asleep in ignorance1 and at length buried in denial4 ,nevertheless1 ocular proofs on the subjects above mentioned1 by reason of their copiousness1 cannot here be adduced2 but they have been already adduced in the treatise on ,,heaven and ,,hell1 and in the ,,continuation ,,respecting ,,the ,,spiritual ,,world1 and afterwards in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed2 but especially1 in regard to the present subject of marriages1 in the ,,memorable ,,relations which are annexed to the several paragraphs or chapters of this work4 #dj4 ,,vi4 ,,consequently ,,there ,,are ,,marriages ,,in ,,heaven4 ,this position having been confirmed by reason1 and at the same time by experience1 needs no further demonstration4 #da4 ,,vii4 ,,spiritual ,,nuptials ,,are ,,to ,,be ,,understood ,,by ,,the ,,lord',s ,,words1 ,,after ,,the ,,resurrection ,,they ,,are ,,not ,,given ,,in ,,marriage4 ,in the ,evangelists are these words1 ,certain of the ,sadducees1 who say that there is no resurrection1 asked ,jesus1 saying1 ,master1 ,moses wrote1 ,if a man die1 having no children1 his brother shall take his wife1 and raise up seed unto his brother4 ,now there were with us seven brethren and the first1 when he had married a wife1 deceased1 and having no issue1 left his wife unto his brother2 likewise the second also1 and the third unto the seventh2 last of all the woman died also2 therefore in the resurrection whose wife shall she be of the seven8 ,but ,jesus answering1 said unto them1 ,the sons of this generation marry1 and are given in marriage2 but those who shall be accounted worthy to attain to another generation1 and the resurrection from the dead1 shall neither marry nor be given in marriage1 neither can they die any more2 for they are like unto the angels1 and are the sons of ,god1 being sons of the resurrection4 ,but that the dead rise again1 even ,moses shewed at the bush1 when he called the ,lord the ,god of ,abraham1 and the ,god of ,isaac1 and the ,god of ,jacob2 for he is not the ,god of the dead1 but of the living2 for all live unto him1 ,luke xx4 #bg-ch1 ,matt4 xxii4 #bb-cb2 ,mark xii4 #ah-bg4 ,by these words the ,lord taught two things2 first1 that a man 7homo7 rises again after death2 and secondly1 that in heaven they are not given in marriage4 ,that a man rises again after death1 he taught by these words1 ,god is not the ,god of the dead1 but of the living1 and when he said that ,abraham1 ,isaac1 and ,jacob1 are alive3 he taught the same also in the parable concerning the rich man in hell1 and ,lazarus in heaven1 ,luke xvi4 #bb-ca4 ,secondly1 that in heaven they are not given in marriage1 he taught by these words1 ,those who shall be accounted worthy to attain to another generation1 neither marry nor are given in marriage4 ,that none other than spiritual nuptials are here meant1 is very evident from the words which immediately follow--neither can they die any more2 because they are like unto the angels1 and are the sons of ,god1 being sons of the resurrection4 ,spiritual nuptials mean conjunction with the ,lord1 which is effected on earth2 and when it is effected on earth1 it is also effected in the heavens2 therefore in the heavens there is no repetition of nuptials1 nor are they again given in marriage3 this is also meant by these words1 ,the sons of this generation marry and are given in marriage2 but those who are accounted worthy to attain to another generation1 neither marry nor are given in marriage4 ,the latter are also called by the ,lord sons of nuptials ,matt1 ix4 #ae2 ,mark ii4 #ai2 and in this place1 angels1 sons of ,god1 and sons of the resurrection4 ,that to celebrate nuptials1 signifies to be joined with the ,lord1 and that to enter into nuptials is to be received into heaven by the ,lord1 is manifest from the following passages3 ,the kingdom of heaven is like unto a man1 a king1 who made a marriage 7nuptials7 his son1 and sent out servants and invited to the marriage4 ,matt4 xxii4 #b-ad4 ,the kingdom of heaven is like unto ten virgins1 who went forth to meet the bridegroom3 of whom five being prepared entered into the marriage 7nuptials71 ,matt4 xxv4 #a1 and the following verses4 ,that the ,lord here meant himself1 is evident from verse #ac1 where it is said1 ,watch ye2 because ye know not the day and hour in which the ,son of ,man will come3 also from the ,revelation1 ,the time of the marriage of the ,lamb is come1 and his wife hath made herself ready2 blessed are those who are called to the marriage supper of the ,lamb1 xix4 #g1 #i4 ,that there is a spiritual meaning in everything which the ,lord spake1 has been fully shewn in the ,,doctrine ,,of ,,the ,,new ,,jerusalem ,,concerning ,,the ,,sacred ,,scripture1 published at ,amsterdam in the year #agfc4 99 99 99 99 99 #db4 ,to the above ,i shall add two ,,memorable ,,relations ,,respecting ,,the ,,spiritual ,,world4 ,the first is as follows3 ,one morning ,i was looking upwards into heaven and saw over me three expanses one above another2 ,i saw that the first expanse1 which was nearest1 opened1 and presently the second which was above it1 and lastly the third which was highest2 and by virtue of illustration thence1 ,i perceived1 that above the first expanse were the angels who compose the first or lowest heaven2 above the second expanse were the angels who compose the second or middle heaven2 and above the third expanse were the angels who compose the third or highest heaven4 ,i wondered at first what all this meant3 and presently ,i heard from heaven a voice as of a trumpet1 saying1 ,we have perceived1 and now see1 that you are meditating on ,,conjugial ,,love2 and we are aware that no one on earth as yet knows what true conjugial love is in its origin and in its essence2 and yet it is of importance that it should be known3 therefore it has pleased the ,lord to open the heavens to you in order that illustrating light and consequent perception may flow into the interiors of your mind4 ,with us in the heavens1 especially in the third heaven1 our heavenly delights are principally derived from conjugial love2 therefore1 in consequence of leave granted us1 we will send down to you a conjugial pair for your inspection and observation2 and lo6 instantly there appeared a chariot descending from the highest or third heaven1 in which ,i saw one angel2 but as it approached ,i saw therein two4 ,the chariot at a distance glittered before my eyes like a diamond1 and to it were harnessed young horses white as snow2 and those who sat in the chariot held in their hands two turtle-doves1 and called to me1 saying1 ,do you wish us to come nearer to you8 but in this case take heed1 lest the radiance1 which is from the heaven whence we have descended1 and is of a flaming quality1 penetrate too interiorly2 by its influence the superior ideas of your understanding1 which are in themselves heavenly1 may indeed be illustrated2 but these ideas are ineffable in the world in which you dwell3 therefore what you are about to hear1 receive rationally1 that you may explain it so that it may be understood4 ,i replied1 ,i will observe your caution2 come nearer3 so they came nearer2 and lo6 it was a husband and his wife2 who said1 ,we are a conjugial pair3 we have lived happy in heaven from the earliest period1 which you call the golden age1 and have continued during that time in the same bloom of youth in which you now see us4 ,i viewed each of them attentively1 because ,i perceived they represented conjugial love in its life and in its decoration2 in its life in their faces1 and in its decoration in their raiment2 for all the angels are affections of love in a human form4 ,the ruling affection itself shines forth from their faces2 and from the affection1 and according to it1 the kind and quality of their raiment is derived and determined3 therefore it is said in heaven1 that every one is clothed by his own affection4 ,the husband appeared of a middle age1 between manhood and youth3 from his eyes darted forth sparkling light derived from the wisdom of love2 by virtue of which light his face was radiant from its inmost ground2 and in consequence of such radiance the surface of his skin had a kind of refulgence1 whereby his whole face was one resplendent comeliness4 ,he was dressed in an upper robe which reached down to his feet and underneath it was a vesture of hyacinthine blue1 girded about with a golden band1 upon which were three precious stones1 two sapphires on the sides1 and a carbuncle in the middle2 his stockings were of bright shining linen1 with threads of silver interwoven1 and his shoes were of velvet3 such was the representative form of conjugial love with the husband4 ,with the wife it was this2 ,i saw her face1 and ,i did not see it2 ,i saw it as essential beauty1 and ,i did not see it because this beauty was inexpressible2 for in her face there was a splendor of flaming light1 such as the angels in the third heaven enjoy1 and this light made my sight dim2 so that ,i was lost in astonishment3 she observing this addressed me1 saying1 ,what do you see8 ,i replied1 ,i see nothing but conjugial love and the form thereof2 but ,i see1 and ,i do not see4 ,hereupon she turned herself sideways from her husband2 and then ,i was enabled to view her more attentively4 ,her eyes were bright and sparkling from the light of her own heaven1 which light1 as was said1 is of a flaming quality1 which it derives from the love of wisdom2 for in that heaven wives love their husbands from their wisdom1 and in it1 and husbands love their wives from that love of wisdom and in it1 as directed towards themselves2 and thus they are united4 ,this was the origin of her beauty2 which was such that it would be impossible for any painter to imitate and exhibit it in its form1 for he has no colors bright and vivid enough to express its lustre2 nor is it in the power of his art to depict such beauty3 her hair was arranged in becoming order so as to correspond with her beauty2 and in it were inserted diadems of flowers2 she had a necklace of carbuncles1 from which hung a rosary of chrysolites2 and she wore pearl bracelets3 her upper robe was scarlet1 and underneath it she had a purple stomacher1 fastened in front with clasps of rubies2 but what surprised me was1 that the colors varied according to her aspect in regard to her husband1 being sometimes more glittering1 sometimes less2 if she were looking towards him1 more1 if sideways1 less4 ,when ,i had made these observations1 they again talked with me2 and when the husband was speaking1 he spoke at the same time as from his wife2 and when the wife was speaking1 she spoke at the same time as from her husband2 such was the union of their minds from whence speech flows2 and on this occasion ,i also heard the tone of voice of conjugial love2 inwardly it was simultaneous1 and it proceeded from the delights of a state of peace and innocence4 ,at length they said1 ,we are recalled2 we must depart2 and instantly they again appeared to be conveyed in a chariot as before4 ,they went by a paved way through flowering shrubberies1 from the beds of which arose olive and orange-trees laden with fruit3 and when they approached their own heaven1 they were met by several virgins1 who welcomed and introduced them4 #dc4 ,after this ,i saw an angel from that heaven holding in his hand a roll of parchment1 which he unfolded1 saying1 ,i see that you are meditating on conjugial love2 in this parchment are contained arcana of wisdom respecting that love1 which have never yet been disclosed in the world4 ,they are now to be disclosed1 because it is of importance that they should be3 those arcana abound more in our heaven than in the rest1 because we are in the marriage of love and wisdom2 but ,i prophesy that none will appropriate to themselves that love1 but those who are received by the ,lord into the ,new ,church1 which is the ,new ,jerusalem4 ,having said this1 the angel let down the unfolded parchment1 which a certain angelic spirit received from him1 and laid on a table in a certain closet1 which he instantly locked1 and holding out the key to me1 said1 ,write4 #dd4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,i once saw three spirits recently deceased1 who were wandering about in the world of spirits1 examining whatever came in their way1 and inquiring concerning it4 ,they were all amazement to find that men lived altogether as before1 and that the objects they saw were similar to those they had seen before3 for they knew that they were departed out of the former or natural world1 and that in that world they believed that they should not live as men until after the day of the last judgement1 when they should be again clothed with the flesh and bones that had been laid in the tomb2 therefore1 in order to remove all doubt of their being really and truly men1 they by turns viewed and touched themselves and others1 and felt the surrounding objects and by a thousand proofs convinced themselves that they now were men as in the former world2 besides which they saw each other in a brighter light1 and the surrounding objects in superior splendor1 and thus their vision was more perfect4 ,at that instant two angelic spirits happening to meet them1 accosted them1 saying1 ,whence are you8 ,they replied1 ,we have departed out of a world1 and again we live in a world2 thus we have removed from one world to another2 and this surprises us4 ,hereupon the three novitiate spirits questioned the two angelic spirits concerning heaven2 and as two of the three novitiates were youths1 and there darted from their eyes as it were a sparkling fire of lust for the sex1 the angelic spirit said1 ,possibly you have seen some females2 and they replied in the affirmative2 and as they made inquiry respecting heaven1 the angelic spirits gave them the following information3 ,in heaven there is every variety of magnificent and splendid objects1 and such things as the eye had never seen2 there are also virgins and young men2 virgins of such beauty that they may be called personifications of beauty1 and young men of such morality that they may be called personifications of morality2 moreover the beauty of the virgins and the morality of the young men correspond to each other1 as forms mutually suited to each other4 ,hereupon the two novitiates asked1 ,are there in heaven human forms altogether similar to those in the natural world8 ,and it was replied1 ,they are altogether similar2 nothing is wanting in the male1 and nothing in the female2 in a word1 the male is a male1 and the female a female1 in all the perfection of form in which they were created3 retire1 if you please1 and examine if you are deficient in anything1 and whether you are not a complete man as before4 ,again1 the novitiates said1 ,we have been told in the world we have left1 that in heaven they are not given in marriage1 because they are angels3--is there then the love of the sex there8 ,and the angelic spirits replied1 ,in heaven your love of the sex does not exist2 but we have the angelic love of the sex1 which is chaste1 and devoid all libidinous allurement4 ,hereupon the novitiates observed1 ,if there be a love of the sex devoid of all allurement1 what in such cases is the love of the sex8 ,and while they were thinking about this love they sighed1 and said1 ,oh1 how dry and insipid is the joy of heaven6 ,what young man1 if this be the case1 can possibly wish for heaven8 ,is not such love barren and devoid of life8 ,to this the angelic spirits replied1 with a smile1 ,the angelic love of the sex1 such as exists in heaven1 is nevertheless full of the inmost delights3 it is the most agreeable expansion of all the principles of the mind1 and thence of all the parts of the breast1 existing inwardly in the breast1 and sporting therein as the heart sports with the lungs1 giving birth thereby to respiration1 tone of voice1 and speech2 so that the intercourse between the sexes1 or between youths and virgins1 is an intercourse of essential celestial sweets1 which are pure4 ,all novitiates1 on ascending into heaven1 are examined as to the quality of their chastity1 being let into the company of virgins1 the beauties of heaven1 who from their tone of voice1 their speech1 their face1 their eyes1 their gesture1 and their exhaling sphere1 perceive what is their quality in regard to the love of the sex2 and if their love be unchaste1 they instantly quit them1 and tell their fellow angels that they have seen satyrs or priapuses4 ,the new comers also undergo a change1 and in the eyes of the angels appear rough and hairy1 and with feet like calves' or leopards'1 and presently they are cast down again1 lest by their lust they should defile the heavenly atmosphere4 ,on receiving this information1 the two novitiates again said1 ,according to this1 there is no love of the sex in heaven2 for what is a chaste love of the sex1 but a love deprived of the essence of its life8 ,and must not all the intercourse of youths and virgins1 in such case1 consist of dry insipid joys8 ,we are not stocks and stones1 but perceptions and affections of life4 ,to this the angelic spirits indignantly replied1 ,you are altogether ignorant what a chaste love of the sex is2 because as yet you are not chaste4 ,this love is the very essential delight of the mind1 and thence of the heart2 and not at the same time of the flesh beneath the heart4 ,angelic chastity1 which is common to each sex1 prevents the passage of that love beyond the enclosure of the heart2 but within that and above it1 the morality of a youth is delighted with the beauty of a virgin in the delights of the chaste love of the sex3 which delights are of too interior a nature1 and too abundantly pleasant1 to admit of any description in words4 ,the angels have this love of the sex1 because they have conjugial love only2 which love cannot exist together with the unchaste love of the sex4 ,love truly conjugial is chaste1 and has nothing in common with unchaste love1 being confined to one of the sex1 and separate from all others2 for it is a love of the spirit and thence of the body1 and not a love of the body and thence of the spirit2 that is1 it is not a love infesting the spirit4 ,on hearing this1 the two young novitiates rejoiced1 and said1 ,there still exists in heaven a love of the sex2 what else is conjugial love8 ,but the angelic spirits replied1 ,think more profoundly1 weigh the matter well in your minds1 and you will perceive1 that your love of the sex is a love extra-conjugial1 and quite different from conjugial love2 the latter being as distinct from the former1 as wheat is from chaff1 or rather as the human principle is from the bestial4 ,if you should ask the females in heaven1 ',what is love extra-conjugial8' ,i take upon me to say1 their reply will be1 ',what do you mean8 ,what do you say8 ,how can you utter a question which so wounds our ears8 ,how can a love that is not created be implanted in any one8' ,if you should then ask them1 ',what is love truly conjugial8' ,i know they will reply1 ',it is not the love of the sex1 but the love of one of the sex2 and it has no other ground of existence than this1 that when a youth sees a virgin provided by the ,lord1 and a virgin sees a youth1 they are each made sensible of a conjugial principle kindling in their hearts1 and perceive that each is the other's1 he hers1 and she his2 for love meets love and causes them to know each other1 and instantly conjoins their souls1 and afterwards their minds1 and thence enters their bosoms1 and after the nuptials penetrates further1 and thus becomes love in its fulness1 which grows every day into conjunction1 till they are no longer two1 but as it were one4' ,i know also that they will be ready to affirm in the most solemn manner1 that they are not acquainted with any other love of the sex2 for they say1 ',how can there be a love of the sex1 unless it be tending mutually to meet1 and reciprocal1 so as to seek an eternal union1 which consists in two becoming one flesh8' ,to this the angelic spirits added1 ,in heaven they are in total ignorance what whoredom is2 nor do they know that it exists1 or that its existence is even possible4 ,the angels feel a chill all over the body at the idea of unchaste or extra-conjugial love2 and on the other hand1 they feel a genial warmth throughout the body arising from chaste or conjugial love4 ,with the males1 all the nerves lose their proper tension at the sight of a harlot1 and recover it again at the sight of a wife4 ,the three novitiates1 on hearing this1 asked1 ,does a similar love exist between married partners in the heavens as in the earths8 ,the two angelic spirits replied1 that it was altogether similar2 and as they perceived in the novitiates an inclination to know1 whether in heaven there were similar ultimate delights1 they said1 that they were exactly similar1 but much more blessed1 because angelic perception and sensation is much more exquisite than human3 and what1 added they1 is the life of that love unless derived from a flow of vigor8 ,when this vigor fails1 must not the love itself also fail and grow cold8 ,is not this vigor the very measure1 degree1 and basis of that love8 ,is it not its beginning1 its support1 and its fulfilment8 ,it is a universal law1 that things primary exist1 subsist1 and persist from things ultimate3 this is true also of that love2 therefore unless there were ultimate delights1 there would be no delights of conjugial love4 ,the novitiates then asked1 whether from the ultimate delights of that love in heaven any offspring were produced2 and if not1 to what use did those delights serve8 ,the angelic spirit answered1 that natural offspring were not produced1 but spiritual offspring3 and the novitiates said1 ,what are spiritual offspring8 ,they replied1 ,two conjugial partners by ultimate delights are more and more united in the marriage of good and truth1 which is the marriage of love and wisdom2 and love and wisdom are the offspring produced therefrom3 in heaven the husband is wisdom1 and the wife is the love thereof1 and both are spiritual2 therefore1 no other than spiritual offspring can be there conceived and born3 hence it is that the angels1 after such delights1 do not experience sadness1 as some do on earth1 but are cheerful2 and this in consequence of a continual influx of fresh powers succeeding the former1 which serve for their renovation1 and at the same time illustration3 for all who come into heaven1 return into their vernal youth1 and into the vigor of that age1 and thus continue to eternity4 ,the three novitiates1 on hearing this1 said1 ,is it not written in the ,word1 that in heaven they are not given in marriage1 because they are angels8 ,to which the angelic spirits replied1 ,look up into heaven and you will receive an answer3 and they asked1 ,why are we to look up into heaven8 ,they said1 ,because thence we receive all interpretations of the ,word4 ,the ,word is altogether spiritual and the angels being spiritual1 will teach the spiritual understanding of it4 ,they did not wait long before heaven was opened over their heads1 and two angels appeared in view1 and said1 ,there are nuptials in the heavens1 as on earth2 but only with those in the heavens who are in the marriage of good and truth2 nor are any other angels3 therefore it is spiritual nuptials1 which relate to the marriage of good and truth1 that are there understood4 ,these 7viz4 spiritual nuptials7 take place on earth1 but not after departure thence1 thus not in the heavens2 as it is said of the live foolish virgins1 who were also invited to the nuptials1 that they could not enter1 because they were not in the marriage of good and truth2 for they had no oil1 but only lamps4 ,oil signifies good1 and lamps truth2 and to be given in marriage denotes to enter heaven1 where the marriage of good and truth takes place4 ,the three novitiates were made glad by this intelligence2 and being filled with a desire of heaven1 and with the hope of heavenly nuptials1 they said1 ,we will apply ourselves with all diligence to the practice of morality and a becoming conduct of life1 that we may enjoy our wishes4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,married ,,partners ,,after ,,death4 #de4 ,that there are marriages in the heavens1 has been shewn just above2 it remains now to be considered1 whether the marriage-covenant ratified in the world will remain and be in force after death1 or not4 ,as this is a question not of judgement but of experience1 and as experience herein has been granted me by consociation with angels and spirits1 ,i will here adduce it2 but yet so that reason may assent thereto4 ,to have this question determined1 is also an object of the wishes and desires of all married persons2 for husbands who have loved their wives1 in case they die1 are desirous to know whether it be well with them1 and whether they shall ever meet again2 and the same is true of wives in regard to their husbands4 ,many married pairs also wish to know beforehand whether they are to be separated after death1 or to live together3 those who have disagreed in their tempers1 wish to know whether they are to be separated2 and those who have agreed1 whether they are to live together4 ,information on this subject then being much wished for1 we will now proceed to give it in the following order3 ,i4 ,the love of the sex remains with every man 7homo7 after death1 according to its interior quality2 that is1 such as it had been in his interior will and thought in the world4 ,,ii4 ,the same is true of conjugial love4 ,,iii4 ,married partners most commonly meet after death1 know each other1 again associate and for a time live together3 this is the case in the first state1 thus while they are in externals as in the world4 ,,iv4 ,but successively1 as they put off their externals1 and enter into their internals1 they perceive what had been the quality of their love and inclination for each other1 and consequently whether they can live together or not4 ,v4 ,if they can live together1 they remain married partners2 but if they cannot they separate2 sometimes the husband from the wife1 sometimes the wife from the husband1 and sometimes each from the other4 ,,vi4 ,in this case there is given to the man a suitable wife1 and to the woman a suitable husband4 ,,vii4 ,married partners enjoy similar communications with each other as in the world1 but more delightful and blessed1 yet without prolification2 in the place of which they experience spiritual prolification1 which is that of love and wisdom4 ,,viii4 ,this is the case with those who go to heaven2 but it is otherwise with those who go to hell4 ,we now proceed to an explanation of these propositions1 by which they may be illustrated and confirmed4 #df4 ,i4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,remains ,,with ,,every ,,man ,,after ,,death1 ,,according ,,to ,,its ,,interior ,,quality2 ,,that ,,is1 ,,such ,,as ,,it ,,had ,,been ,,in ,,his ,,interior ,,will ,,and ,,thereby ,,in ,,the ,,woman4 ,every love follows a man after death1 because it is the esse of his life2 and the ruling love1 which is the head of the rest1 remains with him to eternity1 and together with it the subordinate loves4 ,the reason why they remain1 is1 because love properly appertains to the spirit of man1 and to the body by derivation from the spirit2 and a man after death becomes a spirit and thereby carries his love along with him2 as love is the esse of a man's life1 it is evident1 that such as a man's life has been in the world1 such is his lot after death4 ,the love of the sex is the most universal of all loves1 being implanted from creation in the very soul of man1 from which the essence of the whole man is derived1 and this for the sake of the propagation of the human race4 ,the reason why this love chiefly remains is1 because after death a male is a male1 and a female a female1 and because there is nothing in the soul1 the mind1 and the body1 which is not male 7or masculine7 in the male1 and female 7or feminine7 in the female2 and these two 7the male and female7 are so created1 that they have a continual tendency to conjunction1 yea1 to such a conjunction as to become a one4 ,this tendency is the love of the sex1 which precedes conjugial love4 ,now1 since a conjunctive inclination is inscribed on every part and principle of the male and of the female1 it follows1 that this inclination cannot be destroyed and die with the body4 #dg4 ,the reason why the love of the sex remains such as it was interiorly in the world1 is1 because every man has an internal and an external1 which are also called the internal and external man2 and hence there is an internal and an external will and thought4 ,a man when he dies1 quits his external1 and retains his internal2 for externals properly belong to his body1 and internals to his spirit4 ,now since every man is his own love1 and love resides in the spirit1 it follows1 that the love of the sex remains with him after death1 such as it was interiorly with him2 as for example1 if the love interiorly had been conjugial and chaste1 it remains such after death2 but if it had been interiorly adulterous 7anti-conjugial71 it remains such also after death4 ,it is however to be observed that the love of the sex is not the same with one person as with another2 its differences are infinite3 nevertheless1 such as it is in any one's spirit1 such it remains4 #dh4 ,,ii4 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,in ,,like ,,manner ,,remains ,,such ,,as ,,it ,,had ,,been ,,interiorly2 ,,that ,,is1 ,,such ,,as ,,it ,,had ,,been ,,in ,,the ,,man',s ,,interior ,,will ,,and ,,thought ,,in ,,the ,,world4 ,as the love of the sex is one thing1 and conjugial love another1 therefore mention is made of each2 and it is said1 that the latter also remains after death such as it has been internally with a man1 during his abode in the world3 but as few know the distinction between the love of the sex and conjugial love1 therefore1 before we proceed further in the subject of this treatise1 it may be expedient briefly to point it out4 ,the love of the sex is directed to several1 and contracted with several of the sex2 but conjugial love is directed to only one1 and contracted with one of the sex2 moreover1 love directed to and contracted with several is a natural love2 for it is common to man with beasts and birds1 which are natural3 but conjugial love is a spiritual love1 and peculiar and proper to men2 because men were created1 and are therefore born to become spiritual2 therefore1 so far as a man becomes spiritual1 so far he puts off the love of the sex1 and puts on conjugial love4 ,in the beginning of marriage the love of the sex appears as if conjoined with conjugial love2 but in the progress of marriage they are separated2 and in this case1 with such as are spiritual1 the love of the sex is removed1 and conjugial love is imparted2 but with such as are natural1 the contrary happens4 ,from these observations it is evident1 that the love of the sex1 being directed to and contracted with several and being in itself natural1 yea1 animal1 is impure and unchaste1 and being vague and indeterminate in its object1 is adulterous2 but the case is altogether different with conjugial love4 ,that conjugial love is spiritual1 and truly human1 will manifestly appear from what follows4 ,transcriber's ,note3 ,the out-of-order section numbers which follow are in the original text1 as are the asterisks which do not seem to indicate footnotes4 ,there are several cases of this in the text1 apparently indicating insertions by the author4 #dg499 ,,iii4 ,,married ,,partners ,,most ,,commonly ,,meet ,,after ,,death1 ,,know ,,each ,,other1 ,,again ,,associate1 ,,and ,,for ,a ,,time ,,live ,,together3 ,,this ,,is ,,the ,,case ,,in ,,the ,,first ,,state1 ,,thus ,,while ,,they ,,are ,,in ,,externals ,,as ,,in ,,the ,,world4 ,there are two states in which a man 7homo7 enters after death1 an external and an internal state4 ,he comes first into his external state1 and afterwards into his internal2 and during the external state1 married partners meet each other1 7supposing they are both deceased17 know each other1 and if they have lived together in the world1 associate again1 and for some time live together2 and while they are in this state they do not know the inclination of each to the other1 this being concealed in the internals of each2 but afterwards1 when they come into their internal state1 the inclination manifests itself2 and if it be in mutual agreement and sympathy1 they continue to live together a conjugial life2 but if it be in disagreement and antipathy1 their marriage is dissolved4 ,in case a man had had several wives1 he successively joins himself with them1 while he is in his external state2 but when he enters into his internal state1 in which lie perceives the inclinations of his love1 and of what quality they are1 he then either adopts one or leaves them all2 for in the spiritual world1 as well as in the natural1 it is not allowable for any ,christian to have more than one wife1 as it infests and profanes religion4 ,the case is the same with a woman that had had several husbands3 nevertheless the women in this case do not join themselves to their husbands2 they only present themselves1 and the husbands join them to themselves4 ,it is to be observed that husbands rarely know their wives1 but that wives well know their husbands1 women having an interior perception of love1 and men only an exterior4 #dh499 ,,iv4 ,,but ,,successively1 ,,as ,,they ,,put ,,off ,,their ,,externals ,,and ,,enter ,,into ,,their ,,internals1 ,,they ,,perceive ,,what ,,had ,,been ,,the ,,quality ,,of ,,their ,,love ,,and ,,inclination ,,for ,,each ,,other1 ,,and ,,consequently ,,whether ,,they ,,can ,,live ,,together ,,or ,,not4 ,there is no occasion to explain this further1 as it follows from what is shewn in the previous section2 suffice it here to shew how a man 7homo7 after death puts off his externals and puts on his internals4 ,every one after death is first introduced into the world which is called the world of spirits1 and which is intermediate between heaven and hell2 and in that world he is prepared1 for heaven if he is good1 and for hell if he is evil4 ,the end or design of this preparation is1 that the internal and external may agree together and make a one1 and not disagree and make two3 in the natural world they frequently make two1 and only make a one with those who are sincere in heart4 ,that they make two is evident from the deceitful and the cunning2 especially from hypocrites1 flatterers1 dissemblers1 and liars3 but in the spiritual world it is not allowable thus to have a divided mind2 for whoever has been internally wicked must also be externally wicked2 in like manner1 whoever has been good1 must be good in each principle3 for every man after death becomes of such a quality as he had been interiorly1 and not such as he had been exteriorly4 ,for this end1 after his decease1 he is let alternately into his external and his internal2 and every one1 while he is in his external1 is wise1 that is1 he wishes to appear wise1 even though he be wicked2 but a wicked person internally is insane4 ,by those changes he is enabled to see his follies1 and to repent of them3 but if he had not repented in the world1 he cannot afterwards2 for he loves his follies1 and wishes to remain in them3 therefore he forces his external also to be equally insane3 thus his internal and his external become a one2 and when this is effected1 he is prepared for hell4 ,but it is otherwise with a good spirit3 such a one1 as in the world he had looked unto ,god and had repented1 was more wise in his internal than in his external3 in his external also1 through the allurements and vanities of the world1 he was sometimes led astray2 therefore his external is likewise reduced to agreement with his internal1 which1 as was said1 is wise2 and when this is effected he is prepared for heaven4 ,from these considerations it may plainly appear1 how the case is in regard to putting off the external and putting on the internal after death4 #di4 ,v4 ,,if ,,they ,,can ,,live ,,together1 ,,they ,,remain ,,married ,,partners2 ,,but ,,if ,,they ,,cannot1 ,,they ,,separate2 ,,sometimes ,,the ,,husband ,,from ,,the ,,wife1 ,,sometimes ,,the ,,wife ,,from ,,the ,,husband1 ,,and ,,sometimes ,,each ,,from ,,the ,,other4 ,the reason why separations take place after death is1 because the conjunctions which are made on earth are seldom made from any internal perception of love1 but from an external perception1 which hides the internal4 ,the external perception of love originates in such things as regard the love of the world and of the body4 ,wealth and large possessions are peculiarly the objects of worldly love1 while dignities and honors are those of the love of the body3 besides these objects1 there are also various enticing allurements1 such as beauty and an external polish of manners1 and sometimes even an unchasteness of character4 ,moreover1 matrimonial engagements are frequently contracted within the particular district1 city1 or village1 in which the parties were born1 and where they live2 in which case the choice is confined and limited to families that are known1 and to such as are in similar circumstances in life3 hence matrimonial connections made in the world are for the most part external1 and not at the same time internal2 when yet it is the internal conjunction1 or the conjunction of souls1 which constitutes a real marriage2 and this conjunction is not perceivable until the man puts off the external and puts on the internal2 as is the case after death4 ,this then is the reason why separations take place1 and afterwards new conjunctions are formed with such as are of a similar nature and disposition2 unless these conjunctions have been provided on earth1 as happens with those who from an early age have loved1 have desired1 and have asked of the ,lord an honorable and lovely connection with one of the sex1 shunning and abominating the impulses of a loose and wandering lust4 #ej4 ,,vi4 ,,in ,,this ,,case ,,there ,,is ,,given ,,to ,,the ,,man ,a ,,suitable ,,wife1 ,,and ,,to ,,the ,,woman ,a ,,suitable ,,husband4 ,the reason of this is1 because no married partners can be received into heaven1 so as to remain there1 but such as have been interiorly united1 or as are capable of being so united2 for in heaven two married partners are not called two1 but one angel2 this is understood by the ,lord's words ,they are no longer two1 but one flesh4 ,the reason why no other married partners are there received is1 because in heaven no others can live together in one house1 and in one chamber and bed2 for all in the heavens are associated according to the affinities and relationships of love1 and have their habitations accordingly4 ,in the spiritual world there are not spaces1 but the appearance of spaces2 and these appearances are according to the states of life of the inhabitants1 which are according to their states of love2 therefore in that world no one can dwell but in his own house1 which is provided for him and assigned to him according to the quality of his love3 if he dwells in any other1 he is straitened and pained in his breast and breathing2 and it is impossible for two to dwell together in the same house unless they are likenesses2 neither can married partners so dwell together1 unless they are mutual inclinations2 if they are external inclinations1 and not at the same time internal1 the very house or place itself separates1 and rejects and expels them4 ,this is the reason why for those who after preparation are introduced into heaven1 there is provided a marriage with a consort whose soul inclines to mutual union with the soul of another1 so that they no longer wish to be two lives1 but one4 ,this is the reason why after separation there is given to the man a suitable wife and to the woman in like manner a suitable husband4 #ea4 ,,vii4 ,,married ,,pairs ,,enjoy ,,similar ,,communications ,,with ,,each ,,other ,,as ,,in ,,the ,,world1 ,,but ,,more ,,delightful ,,and ,,blessed1 ,,yet ,,without ,,prolification2 ,,in ,,the ,,place ,,of ,,which ,,they ,,experience ,,spiritual ,,prolification1 ,,which ,,is ,,that ,,of ,,love ,,and ,,wisdom4 ,the reason why married pairs enjoy similar communications as in the world1 is1 because after death a male is a male1 and a female a female1 and there is implanted in each at creation an inclination to conjunction2 and this inclination with man is the inclination of his spirit and thence of his body2 therefore after death1 when a man becomes a spirit1 the same mutual inclination remains1 and this cannot exist without similar communications2 for after death a man is a man as before2 neither is there any thing wanting either in the male or in the female3 as to form they are like themselves1 and also as to affections and thoughts2 and what must be the necessary consequence1 but that they must enjoy like communications8 ,and as conjugial love is chaste1 pure1 and holy1 therefore their communications are ample and complete2 but on this subject see what was said in the ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #dd4 ,the reason why such communications are more delightful and blessed than in the world1 is1 because conjugial love1 as it is the love of the spirit1 becomes interior and purer1 and thereby more perceivable2 and every delight increases according to perception1 and to such a degree that its blessedness is discernible in its delight4 #eb4 ,the reason why marriages in the heavens are without prolification1 and that in place thereof there is experienced spiritual prolification1 which is that of love and wisdom1 is1 because with the inhabitants of the spiritual world1 the third principle--the natural1 is wanting2 and it is this which contains the spiritual principles2 and these without that which contains them have no consistence1 like the productions of the natural world3 moreover spiritual principles1 considered in themselves1 have relation to love and wisdom2 therefore love and wisdom are the births produced from marriages in the heavens4 ,these are called births1 because conjugial love perfects an angel1 uniting him with his consort1 in consequence whereof he becomes more and more a man 7homo7 for1 as was said above1 two married partners in heaven are not two but one angel2 wherefore by conjugial unition they fill themselves with the human principle1 which consists in desiring to grow wise1 and in loving whatever relates to wisdom4 #ec4 ,,viii4 ,,this ,,is ,,the ,,case ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,go ,,to ,,heaven2 ,,but ,,it ,,is ,,otherwise ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,go ,,to ,,hell4 ,that after death a suitable wife is given to a husband1 and a suitable husband to a wife1 and that they enjoy delightful and blessed communications1 but without prolification1 except of a spiritual kind1 is to be understood of those who are received into heaven and become angels2 because such are spiritual1 and marriages in themselves are spiritual and thence holy3 but with respect to those who go to hell1 they are all natural2 and marriages merely natural are not marriages1 but conjunctions which originate in unchaste lust4 ,the nature and quality of such conjunctions will be shewn in the following pages1 when we come to treat of the chaste and the unchaste principles1 and further when we come to treat of adulterous love4 #ed4 ,to what has been above related concerning the state of married partners after death1 it may be expedient to add the following circumstances4 ,i4 ,that all those married partners who are merely natural1 are separated after death2 because with them the love of marriage grows cold1 and the love of adultery grows warm3 nevertheless after separation1 they sometimes associate as married partners with others2 but after a short time they withdraw from each other3 and this in many cases is done repeatedly2 till at length the man is made over to some harlot1 and the woman to some adulterer2 which is effected in an infernal prison3 concerning which prison1 see the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #aec1 x41 where promiscuous whoredom is forbidden each party under certain pains and penalties4 ,,ii4 ,married partners1 of whom one is spiritual and the other natural1 are also separated after death2 and to the spiritual is given a suitable married partner3 whereas the natural one is sent to the resorts of the lascivious among his like4 ,,iii4 ,but those1 who in the world have lived a single life1 and have altogether alienated their minds from marriage1 in case they be spiritual1 remain single2 but if natural1 they become whoremongers4 ,it is otherwise with those1 who in their single state have desired marriage1 and especially if they have solicited it without success2 for such1 if they are spiritual1 blessed marriages are provided1 but not until they come into heaven4 ,,iv4 ,those who in the world have been shut up in monasteries1 both men and women1 at the conclusion of the monastic life1 which continues some time after death1 are let loose and discharged1 and enjoy the free indulgence of their desires1 whether they are disposed to live in a married state or not3 if they are disposed to live in a married state1 this is granted them2 but if otherwise1 they are conveyed to those who live in celibacy on the side of heaven2 such1 however1 as have indulged the fires of prohibited lust1 are cast down4 ,v4 ,the reason why those who live in celibacy are on the side of heaven1 is1 because the sphere of perpetual celibacy infests the sphere of conjugial love1 which is the very essential sphere of heaven2 and the reason why the sphere of conjugial love is the very essential sphere of heaven1 is1 because it descends from the heavenly marriage of the ,lord and the church4 99 99 99 99 99 #ee4 ,to the above1 ,i shall add two ,,memorable ,,relations3 the ,,first is this4 ,on a certain time ,i heard from heaven the sweetest melody1 arising from a song that was sung by wives and virgins in heaven4 ,the sweetness of their singing was like the affection of some kind of love flowing forth harmoniously4 ,heavenly songs are in reality sonorous affections1 or affections expressed and modified by sounds2 for as the thoughts are expressed by speech1 so the affections are expressed by songs2 and from the measure and flow of the modulation1 the angels perceive the object of the affection4 ,on this occasion there were many spirits about me2 and some of them informed me that they heard this delightful melody1 and that it was the melody of some lovely affection1 the object of which they did not know3 they therefore made various conjectures about it1 but in vain4 ,some conjectured that the singing expressed the affection of a bridegroom and bride when they sign the marriage-articles2 some that it expressed the affection of a bridegroom and a bride at the solemnizing of the nuptials2 and some that it expressed the primitive love of a husband and a wife4 ,but at that instant there appeared in the midst of them an angel from heaven1 who said1 that they were singing the chaste love of the sex4 ,hereupon some of the bystanders asked1 ,what is the chaste love of the sex8 ,and the angel answered1 ,it is the love which a man bears towards a beautiful and elegant virgin or wife1 free from every lascivious idea1 and the same love experienced by a virgin or a wife towards a man4 ,as he said this1 he disappeared4 ,the singing continued2 and as the bystanders then knew the subject of the affection which it expressed1 they heard it very variously1 every one according to the state of his love4 ,those who looked upon women chastely1 heard it as a song of symphony and sweetness2 those who looked upon them unchastely1 heard it as a discordant and mournful song2 and those who looked upon them disdainfully1 heard it as a song that was harsh and grating4 ,at that instant the place on which they stood was suddenly changed into a theatre1 and a voice was heard1 saying1 ,,investigate ,,this ,,love3 and immediately spirits from various societies presented themselves1 and in the midst of them some angels in white4 ,the latter then said1 ,we in this spiritual world have inquired into every species of love1 not only into the love which a man has for a man1 and a woman for a woman2 and into the reciprocal love of a husband and a wife2 but also into the love which a man has for woman1 and which a woman has for men2 and we have been permitted to pass through societies and examine them1 and we have never yet found the common love of the sex chaste1 except with those who from true conjugial love are in continual potency1 and these are in the highest heavens4 ,we have also been permitted to perceive the influx of this love into the affections of our hearts1 and have been made sensible that it surpasses in sweetness every other love1 except the love of two conjugial partners whose hearts are as one3 but we have besought you to investigate this love1 because it is new and unknown to you2 and since it is essential pleasantness1 we in heaven call it heavenly sweetness4 ,they then began the investigation2 and those spoke first who were unable to think chastely of marriages4 ,they said1 ,what man when he beholds a beautiful and lovely virgin or wife1 can so correct or purify the ideas of his thought from concupiscence1 as to love the beauty and yet have no inclination to taste it1 if it be allowable8 ,who can convert concupiscence1 which is innate in every man1 into such chastity1 thus into somewhat not itself1 and yet love8 ,can the love of the sex1 when it enters by the eyes into the thoughts1 stop at the face of a woman8 ,does it not descend instantly into the breast1 and beyond it8 ,the angels talk idly in saying that this love is chaste1 and yet is the sweetest of all loves1 and that it can only exist with husbands who are in true conjugial love1 and thence in an extreme degree of potency with their wives4 ,do such husbands possess any peculiar power more than other men1 when they see a beautiful woman1 of keeping the ideas of their thought in a state of elevation1 and as it were of suspending them1 so that they cannot descend and proceed to what constitutes that love8 ,the argument was next taken up by those who were in cold and in heat2 in cold towards their wives1 and in heat towards the sex2 and they said1 ,what is the chaste love of the sex8 ,is it not a contradiction in terms to talk of such a love8 ,if chastity be predicated of the love of the sex1 is not this destroying the very thing of which it is predicated8 ,how can the chaste love of the sex be the sweetest of all loves1 when chastity deprives it of its sweetness8 ,you all know where the sweetness of that love resides2 when therefore the idea connected therewith is banished from the mind1 where and whence is the sweetness8 ,at that instant certain spirits interrupted them1 and said1 ,we have been in company with the most beautiful females and have had no lust2 therefore we know what the chaste love of the sex is4 ,but their companions1 who were acquainted with their lasciviousness1 replied1 ,you were at those times in a state of loathing towards the sex1 arising from impotence2 and this is not the chaste love of the sex1 but the ultimate of unchaste love4 ,on hearing what had been said1 the angels were indignant and requested those who stood on the right1 or to the south1 to deliver their sentiments4 ,they said1 ,there is a love of one man to another1 and also of one woman to another2 and there is a love of a man to a woman1 and of a woman to a man2 and these three pairs of loves totally differ from each other4 ,the love of one man to another is as the love of understanding and understanding2 for the man was created and consequently born to become understanding2 the love of one woman to another is as the love of affection and affection of the understanding of men2 for the woman was created and born to become a love of the understanding of a man4 ,these loves1 viz41 of one man to another1 and of one woman to another1 do not enter deeply into the bosom1 but remain without1 and only touch each other2 thus they do not interiorly conjoin the two parties3 wherefore also two men1 by their mutual reasonings1 sometimes engage in combat together like two wrestlers2 and two women1 by their mutual concupiscences1 are at war with each other like two prize-fighters4 ,but the love of a man and a woman is the love of the understanding and of its affection2 and this love enters deeply and effects conjunction1 which is that love2 but the conjunction of minds1 and not at the same time of bodies1 or the endeavour towards that conjunction alone1 is spiritual love1 and consequently chaste love2 and this love exists only with those who are in true conjugial love1 and thence in an eminent degree of potency2 because such1 from their chastity1 do not admit an influx of love from the body of any other woman than of their own wives2 and as they are in an extreme degree of potency1 they cannot do otherwise than love the sex1 and at the same time hold in aversion whatever is unchaste4 ,hence they are principled in a chaste love of the sex1 which1 considered in itself1 is interior spiritual friendship1 deriving its sweetness from an eminent degree of potency1 but still being chaste4 ,this eminent degree of potency they possess in consequence of a total renunciation of whoredom2 and as each loves his own wife alone1 the potency is chaste4 ,now1 since this love with such partakes not of the flesh1 but only of the spirit1 therefore it is chaste2 and as the beauty of the woman1 from innate inclination1 enters at the same time into the mind1 therefore the love is sweet4 ,on hearing this1 many of the bystanders put their hands to their ears1 saying1 ,what has been said offends our ears2 and what you have spoken is of no account with us4 ,these spirits were unchaste4 ,then again was heard the singing from heaven1 and sweeter now than before2 but to the unchaste it was so grating and discordant that they hurried out of the theatre and fled1 leaving behind them only the few who from wisdom loved conjugial chastity4 #ef4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,as ,i was conversing with angels some time ago in the spiritual world1 ,i was inspired with a desire1 attended with a pleasing satisfaction1 to see the ,,temple ,,of ,,wisdom1 which ,i had seen once before2 and accordingly ,i asked them the way to it4 ,they said1 ,follow the light and you will find it4 ,i said1 ,what do you mean by following the light8 ,they replied1 ,our light grows brighter and brighter as we approach that temple2 wherefore1 follow the light according to the increase of its brightness2 for our light proceeds from the ,lord as a sun1 and thence considered in itself is wisdom4 ,i immediately directed my course1 in company with two angels1 according to the increase of the brightness of the light1 and ascending by a steep path to the summit of a hill in the southern quarter4 ,there we found a magnificent gate1 which the keeper1 on seeing the angels with me1 opened2 and lo6 we saw an avenue of palm-trees and laurels1 according to which we directed our course4 ,it was a winding avenue1 and terminated in a garden1 in the middle of which was the ,,temple ,,of ,,wisdom4 ,on arriving there1 and looking about me1 ,i saw several small sacred buildings1 resembling the temple1 inhabited by the ,,wise4 ,we went towards one of them1 and coming to the door accosted the person who dwelt there1 and told him the occasion and manner of our coming4 ,he said1 ,you are welcome2 enter and be seated1 and we will improve our acquaintance by discourses respecting wisdom4 ,i viewed the building within1 and observed that it was divided into two1 and still was but one2 it was divided into two by a transparent wall2 but it appeared as one from its translucence1 which was like that of the purest crystal4 ,i inquired the reason of this8 ,he said1 ,i am not alone2 my wife is with me1 and we are two2 yet still we are not two1 but one flesh4 ,but ,i replied1 ,i know that you are a wise one2 and what has a wise one or a wisdom to do with a woman8 ,hereupon our host1 becoming somewhat indignant1 changed countenance1 and beckoned his hand1 and lo6 instantly other wise ones presented themselves from the neighboring buildings1 to whom he said humorously1 ,our stranger here asks1 ',what has a wise one or a wisdom to do with a woman8' ,at this they smiled and said1 ,what is a wise one or a wisdom without a woman1 or without love1 a wife being the love of a wise man's wisdom8 ,our host then said1 ,let us now endeavor to improve our acquaintance by some discourse respecting wisdom2 and let it be concerning causes1 and at present concerning the cause of beauty in the female sex4 ,then they spoke in order2 and the first assigned as a cause1 that women were created by the ,lord's affections of the wisdom of men1 and the affection of wisdom is essential beauty4 ,a second said1 that the woman was created by the ,lord through the wisdom of the man1 because from the man2 and that hence she is a form of wisdom inspired with love-affection2 and since love-affection is essential life1 a female is the life of wisdom1 whereas a male is wisdom2 and the life of wisdom is essential beauty4 ,a third said1 that women have a perception of the delights of conjugial love2 and as their whole body is an organ of that perception1 it must needs be that the habitation of the delights of conjugial love1 with its perception1 be beauty4 ,a fourth assigned this cause2 that the ,lord took away from the man beauty and elegance of life1 and transferred it to the woman2 and that hence the man1 unless he be re-united with his beauty and elegance in the woman1 is stern1 austere1 joyless1 and unlovely2 so one man is wise only for himself1 and another is foolish2 whereas1 when a man is united with his beauty and elegance of life in a wife1 he becomes engaging1 pleasant1 active1 and lovely1 and thereby wise4 ,a fifth said1 that women were created beauties1 not for the sake of themselves1 but for the sake of the men2 that men1 who of themselves are hard1 might be made soft2 that their minds1 of themselves grave and severe1 might become gentle and cheerful2 and that their hearts1 of themselves cold1 might be made warm2 which effects take place when they become one flesh with their wives4 ,a sixth assigned as a cause1 that the universe was created by the ,lord a most perfect work2 but that nothing was created in it more perfect than a beautiful and elegant woman1 in order that man may give thanks to the ,lord for his bounty herein1 and may repay it by the reception of wisdom from him4 ,these and many other similar observations having been made1 the wife of our host appeared beyond the crystal wall1 and said to her husband1 ,speak if you please2 and then when he spoke1 the life of wisdom from the wife was perceived in his discourse2 for in the tone of his speech was her love3 thus experience testified to the truth4 ,after this we took a view of the temple of wisdom1 and also of the paradisiacal scenes which encompassed it1 and being thereby filled with joy1 we departed1 and passed through the avenue to the gate1 and descended by the way we had ascended4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial4 #eg4 ,there are infinite varieties of conjugial love1 it being in no two persons exactly similar4 ,it appears indeed as if it were similar with many2 but this appearance arises from corporeal judgement1 which1 being gross and dull1 is little qualified to discern aright respecting it4 ,by corporeal judgement we mean the judgement of the mind from the evidence of the external senses2 but to those whose eyes are opened to see from the judgment of the spirit1 the differences are manifest2 and more distinctly to those who are enabled to elevate the sight arising from such judgement to a higher degree1 which is effected by withdrawing it from the senses1 and exalting it into a superior light2 these can at length confirm themselves in their understanding1 and thereby see that conjugial love is never exactly similar in any two persons4 ,nevertheless no one can see the infinite varieties of this love in any light of the understanding however elevated1 unless he first know what is the nature and quality of that love in its very essence and integrity1 thus what was its nature and quality when1 together with life1 it was implanted in man from ,god4 ,unless this its state1 which was most perfect1 be known1 it is in vain to attempt the discovery of its differences by any investigation2 for there is no other fixed point1 from which as a first principle those differences may be deduced1 and to which as the focus of their direction they may be referred1 and thus may appear truly and without fallacy4 ,this is the reason why we here undertake to describe that love in its essence2 and as it was in this essence when1 together with life from ,god1 it was infused into man1 we undertake to describe it such as it was in its primeval state2 and as in this state it was truly conjugial1 therefore we have entitled this section1 ,,on ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial4 ,the description of it shall be given in the following order3 ,i4 ,there exists a love truly conjugial1 which at this day is so rare that it is not known what is its quality1 and scarcely that it exists4 ,,ii4 ,this love originates in the marriage of good and truth4 ,,iii4 ,there is a correspondence of this love with the marriage of the ,lord and the church4 ,,iv4 ,this love from its origin and correspondence1 is celestial1 spiritual1 holy1 pure1 and clean1 above every other love imparted by the ,lord to the angels of heaven and the men of the church4 ,v4 ,it is also the foundation love of all celestial and spiritual loves1 and thence of all natural loves4 ,,vi4 ,into this love are collected all joys and delights from first to last4 ,,vii4 ,none however come into this love1 and can be in it1 but those who approach the ,lord1 and love the truths of the church and practise its goods4 ,,viii4 ,this love was the love of loves with the ancients1 who lived in the golden1 silver1 and copper ages2 but afterwards it successively departed4 ,we now proceed to the explanation of each article4 #eh4 ,i4 ,,there ,,exists ,a ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,which ,,at ,,this ,,day ,,is ,,so ,,rare ,,that ,,is ,,not ,,known ,,what ,,is ,,its ,,quality1 ,,and ,,scarcely ,,that ,,it ,,exists4 ,that there exists such conjugial love as is described in the following pages1 may indeed be acknowledged from the first state of that love1 when it insinuates itself1 and enters into the hearts of a youth and a virgin2 thus from its influence on those who begin to love one alone of the sex1 and to desire to be joined therewith in marriage2 and still more at the time of courtship and the interval which precedes the marriage-ceremony2 and lastly during the marriage-ceremony and some days after it4 ,at such times who does not acknowledge and consent to the following positions2 that this love is the foundation of all loves1 and also that into it are collected all joys and delights from first to last8 ,and who does not know that1 after this season of pleasure1 the satisfactions thereof successively pass away and depart1 till at length they are scarcely sensible8 ,in the latter case1 if it be said as before1 that this love is the foundation of all loves1 and that into it are collected all joys and delights1 the positions are neither agreed to nor acknowledged1 and possibly it is asserted that they are nonsense or incomprehensible mysteries4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that primitive marriage love bears a resemblance to love truly conjugial1 and presents it to view in a certain image4 ,the reason of which is1 because then the love of the sex1 which is unchaste1 is put away1 and in its place the love of one of the sex1 which is truly conjugial and chaste1 remains implanted3 in this case1 who does not regard other women with indifference1 and the one to whom he is united with love and affection8 #ei4 ,the reason why love truly conjugial is notwithstanding so rare1 that its quality is not known1 and scarcely its existence1 is1 because the state of pleasurable gratifications before and at the time of marriage1 is afterwards changed into a state of indifference arising from an insensibility to such gratifications4 ,the causes of this change of state are too numerous to be here adduced2 but they shall be adduced in a future part of this work1 when we come to explain in their order the causes of coldnesses1 separations1 and divorces2 from which it will be seen1 that with the generality at this day this image of conjugial love is so far abolished1 and with the image the knowledge thereof1 that its quality and even its existence are scarcely known4 ,it is well known1 that every man by birth is merely corporeal1 and that from corporeal he becomes natural more and more interiorly1 and thus rational1 and at length spiritual4 ,the reason why this is effected progressively is1 because the corporeal principle is like ground1 wherein things natural1 rational1 and spiritual are implanted in their order2 thus a man becomes more and more a man4 ,the case is nearly similar when he enters into marriage2 on this occasion a man becomes a more complete man1 because he is joined with a consort1 with whom he acts as one man3 but this1 in the first state spoken of above1 is effected only in a sort of image3 in like manner he then commences from what is corporeal1 and proceeds to what is natural as to conjugial life1 and thereby to a conjunction into a one4 ,those who1 in this case1 love corporeal natural things1 and rational things only as grounded therein1 cannot be conjoined to a consort as into a one1 except as to those externals3 and when those externals fail1 cold takes possession of the internals2 in consequence whereof the delights of that love are dispersed and driven away1 as from the mind so from the body1 and afterwards as from the body so from the mind2 and this until there is nothing left of the remembrance of the primeval state of their marriage1 consequently no knowledge respecting it4 ,now since this is the case with the generality of persons at this day1 it is evident that love truly conjugial is not known as to its quality1 and scarcely as to its existence4 ,it is otherwise with those who are spiritual4 ,with them the first state is an initiation into lasting satisfactions1 which advance in degree1 in proportion as the spiritual rational principle of the mind1 and thence the natural sensual principle of the body1 in each party1 conjoin and unite themselves with the same principles in the other party2 but such instances are rare4 #fj4 ,,ii4 ,,this ,,love ,,originates ,,in ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth4 ,that all things in the universe have relation to good and truth1 is acknowledged by every intelligent man1 because it is a universal truth2 that likewise in every thing in the universe good is conjoined with truth1 and truth with good1 cannot but be acknowledged1 because this also is a universal truth1 which agrees with the former4 ,the reason why all things in the universe have relation to good and truth1 and why good is conjoined with truth1 and truth with good1 is1 because each proceeds from the ,lord1 and they proceed from him as a one4 ,the two things which proceed from the ,lord1 are love and wisdom1 because these are himself1 thus from himself2 and all things relating to love are called good1 or goods1 and all things relating to wisdom are called true1 or truths2 and as these two proceed from him as the creator1 it follows that they are in the things created4 ,this may be illustrated by heat and light which proceed from the sun3 from them all things appertaining to the earth are derived1 which germinate according to their presence and conjunction2 and natural heat corresponds to spiritual heat1 which is love1 as natural light corresponds to spiritual light1 which is wisdom4 #fa4 ,that conjugial love proceeds from the marriage of good and truth1 will be shewn in the following section or paragraph3 ,it is mentioned here only with a view of shewing that this love is celestial1 spiritual1 and holy1 because it is from a celestial1 spiritual1 and holy origin4 ,in order to see that the origin of conjugial love is from the marriage of good and truth1 it may be expedient in this place briefly to premise somewhat on the subject4 ,it was said just above1 that in every created thing there exists a conjunction of good and truth2 and there is no conjunction unless it be reciprocal2 for conjunction on one part1 and not on the other in its turn1 is dissolved of itself4 ,now as there is a conjunction of good and truth1 and this is reciprocal1 it follows that there is a truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 and that there is a good of truth1 or good grounded in truth2 that the truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 is in the male1 and that it is the very essential male 7or masculine7 principle1 and that the good of truth1 or good grounded in truth1 is in the female1 and that it is the very essential female 7or feminine7 principle2 also that there is a conjugial union between those two1 will be seen in the following section3 it is here only mentioned in order to give some preliminary idea on the subject4 #fb4 ,,iii4 ,,there ,,is ,a ,,correspondence ,,of ,,this ,,love ,,with ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,lord ,,and ,,the ,,church2 that is1 that as the ,lord loves the church1 and is desirous that the church should love him1 so a husband and a wife mutually love each other4 ,that there is a correspondence herein1 is well known in the ,christian world3 but the nature of that correspondence as yet is not known2 therefore we will explain it presently in a particular paragraph4 ,it is here mentioned in order to shew that conjugial love is celestial1 spiritual1 and holy1 because it corresponds to the celestial1 spiritual1 and holy marriage of the ,lord and the church4 ,this correspondence also follows as a consequence of conjugial love's originating in the marriage of good and truth1 spoken of in the preceding article2 because the marriage of good and truth constitutes the church with man3 for the marriage of good and truth is the same as the marriage of charity and faith2 since good relates to charity1 and truth to faith4 ,that this marriage constitutes the church must at once be acknowledged1 because it is a universal truth2 and every universal truth is acknowledged as soon as it is heard1 in consequence of the ,lord's influx and at the same time of the confirmation of heaven4 ,now since the church is the ,lord's1 because it is from him1 and since conjugial love corresponds to the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 it follows that this love is from the ,lord4 #fc4 ,but in what manner the church from the ,lord is formed with two married partners1 and how conjugial love is formed thereby1 shall be illustrated in the paragraph spoken of above3 we will at present only observe1 that the church from the ,lord is formed in the husband1 and through the husband in the wife2 and that when it is formed in each1 it is a full church2 for in this case is effected a full conjunction of good and truth2 and the conjunction of good and truth constitutes the church4 ,that the uniting inclination1 which is conjugial love1 is in a similar degree with the conjunction of good and truth1 which is the church1 will be proved by convincing arguments in what follows in the series4 #fd4 ,,iv4 ,,this ,,love1 ,,from ,,its ,,origin ,,and ,,correspondence1 ,,is ,,celestial1 ,,spiritual1 ,,holy1 ,,pure1 ,,and ,,clean1 ,,above ,,every ,,other ,,love ,,imparted ,,by ,,the ,,lord ,,to ,,the ,,angels ,,of ,,heaven ,,and ,,the ,,men ,,of ,,the ,,church4 ,that such is the nature and quality of conjugial love from its origin1 which is the marriage of good and truth1 was briefly shewn above2 but the subject was then barely touched upon3 in like manner that such is the nature and quality of that love1 from its correspondence with the marriage of the ,lord and the church4 ,these two marriages1 from which conjugial love1 as a slip or shoot1 descends1 are essentially holy1 therefore if it be received from its author1 the ,lord1 holiness from him follows of consequence1 which continually cleanses and purifies it3 in this case1 if there be in the man's will a desire and tendency to it1 this love becomes daily and continually cleaner and purer4 ,conjugial love is called celestial and spiritual because it is with the angels of heaven2 celestial1 as with the angels of the highest heaven1 these being called celestial angels2 and spiritual1 as with the angels beneath that heaven1 these being called spiritual angels4 ,those angels are so called1 because the celestial are loves1 and thence wisdoms1 and the spiritual are wisdoms and thence loves2 similar thereto is their conjugial principle4 ,now as conjugial love is with the angels of both the superior and the inferior heavens1 as was also shewn in the first paragraph concerning marriages in heaven1 it is manifest that it is holy and pure4 ,the reason why this love in its essence1 considered in regard to its origin1 is holy and pure above every other love with angels and men1 is1 because it is as it were the head of the other loves3 concerning its excellence something shall be said in the following article4 #fe4 ,v4 ,,it ,,is ,,also ,,the ,,foundation ,,love ,,of ,,all ,,celestial ,,and ,,spiritual ,,loves1 ,,and ,,thence ,,of ,,all ,,natural ,,loves4 ,the reason why conjugial love considered in its essence is the foundation love of all the loves of heaven and the church1 is1 because it originates in the marriage of good and truth1 and from this marriage proceed all the loves which constitute heaven and the church with man3 the good of this marriage constitutes love1 and its truth constitutes wisdom2 and when love draws near to wisdom1 or joins itself therewith1 then love becomes love2 and when wisdom in its turn draws near to love1 and joins itself therewith1 then wisdom becomes wisdom4 ,love truly conjugial is the conjunction of love and wisdom4 ,two married partners1 between or in whom this love subsists1 are an image and form of it3 all likewise in the heavens1 where faces are the genuine types of the affections of every one's love1 are likenesses of it2 for1 as was shewn above1 it pervades them in the whole and in every part4 ,now as two married partners are an image and form of this love1 it follows that every love which proceeds from the form of essential love itself1 is a resemblance thereof2 therefore if conjugial love be celestial and spiritual1 the loves proceeding from it are also celestial and spiritual4 ,conjugial love therefore is as a parent1 and all other loves are as the offspring4 ,hence it is1 that from the marriages of the angels in the heavens are produced spiritual offspring1 which are those of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth2 concerning which production1 see above1 n4 #ea1 #eb4 #ff4 ,the same is evident from man's having been created for this love1 and from his formation afterwards by means of it4 ,the male was created to become wisdom grounded in the love of growing wise1 and the female was created to become the love of the male grounded in his wisdom1 and consequently was formed according thereto2 from which consideration it is manifest1 that two married partners are the very forms and images of the marriage of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth4 ,it is well to be observed1 that there is not any good or truth which is not in a substance as in its subject3 there are no abstract goods and truths2 for1 having no abode or habitation1 they no where exist1 neither can they appear as airy unfixed principles2 therefore in such case they are mere entities1 concerning which reason seems to itself to think abstractedly2 but still it cannot conceive of them except as annexed to subjects3 for every human idea1 however elevated1 is substantial1 that is1 affixed to substances4 ,it is moreover to be observed1 that there is no substance without a form2 an unformed substance not being any thing1 because nothing can be predicated of it2 and a subject without predicates is also an entity which has no existence in reason4 ,these philosophical considerations are adduced in order to shew still more clearly1 that two married partners who are principled in love truly conjugial1 are actually forms of the marriage of good and truth1 or of love and wisdom4 #fg4 ,since natural loves flow from spiritual1 and spiritual from celestial1 therefore it is said that conjugial love is the foundation love of all celestial and spiritual loves1 and thence of all natural loves4 ,natural loves relate to the loves of self and of the world2 spiritual loves to love towards the neighbour2 and celestial loves to love to the ,lord2 and such as are the relations of the loves1 it is evident in what order they follow and are present with man4 ,when they are in this order1 then the natural loves live from the spiritual1 and the spiritual from the celestial1 and all in this order from the ,lord1 in whom they originate4 #fh4 ,,vi4 ,,into ,,this ,,love ,,are ,,collected ,,all ,,joys ,,and ,,delights ,,from ,,first ,,to ,,last4 ,all delights whatever1 of which a man 7homo7 has any perception1 are delights of his love2 the love manifesting itself1 yea1 existing and living thereby4 ,it is well known that the delights are exalted in proportion as the love is exalted1 and also in proportion as the incident affections touch the ruling love more nearly4 ,now as conjugial love is the foundation love of all good loves1 and as it is inscribed on all the parts and principles of man1 even the most particular1 as was shewn above1 it follows that its delights exceed the delights of all other loves1 and also that it gives delight to the other loves1 according to its presence and conjunction with them2 for it expands the inmost principles of the mind1 and at the same time the inmost principles of the body1 as the delicious current of its fountain flows through and opens them4 ,the reason why all delights from first to last are collected into this love1 is on account of the superior excellence of its use1 which is the propagation of the human race1 and thence of the angelic heaven2 and as this use was the chief end of creation1 it follows that all the beatitudes1 satisfactions1 delights1 pleasantnesses1 and pleasures1 which the ,lord the ,creator could possibly confer upon man1 are collected into this his love4 ,that delights follow use1 and are also communicated to man according to the love thereof1 is manifest from the delights of the five senses1 seeing1 hearing1 smelling1 taste1 and touch3 each of these has its delights with variations according to the specific uses of each2 what then must be the delight annexed to the sense of conjugial love1 the use of which comprehends all other uses8 #fi4 ,i am aware that few will acknowledge that all joys and delights from first to last are collected into conjugial love2 because love truly conjugial1 into which they are collected1 is at this day so rare that its quality is not known1 and scarcely its existence1 agreeably to what was explained and confirmed above1 n4 #eh1 #ei2 for such joys and delights exist only in genuine conjugial love2 and as this is so rare on earth1 it is impossible to describe its super-eminent felicities any otherwise than from the mouth of angels1 because they are principled in it4 ,they have declared1 that the inmost delights of this love1 which are delights of the soul1 into which the conjugial principle of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth from the ,lord1 first flows1 are imperceptible and thence ineffable1 because they are the delights of peace and innocence conjointly2 but that in their descent they become more and more perceptible2 in the superior principles of the mind as beatitudes1 in the inferior as satisfactions1 in the breast as delights thence derived2 and that from the breast they diffuse themselves into every part of the body1 and at length unite themselves in ultimates and become the delight of delights4 ,moreover the angels have related wonderful things respecting these delights2 adding further1 that their varieties in the souls of conjugial pairs1 and from their souls in their minds1 and from their minds in their breasts1 are infinite and also eternal2 that they are exalted according to the prevalence of wisdom with the husband2 and this1 because they live to eternity in the bloom of their age1 and because they know no greater blessedness than to grow wiser and wiser4 ,but a fuller account of these delights1 as given by the angels1 may be seen in the ,,memorable ,,relations1 especially in those added to some of the following chapters4 #gj4 ,,vii4 ,,none ,,however ,,come ,,into ,,this ,,love1 ,,and ,,can ,,remain ,,in ,,it1 ,,but ,,those ,,who ,,approach ,,the ,,lord1 ,,and ,,love ,,the ,,truths ,,of ,,the ,,church ,,and ,,practise ,,its ,,goods4 ,the reason why none come into that love but those who approach the ,lord1 is1 because monogamical marriages1 which are of one husband with one wife1 correspond to the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 and because such marriages originate in the marriage of good and truth2 on which subject1 see above1 n4 #fj and #fb4 ,that from this origin and correspondence it follows1 that love truly conjugial is from the ,lord1 and exists only with those who come directly to him1 cannot be fully confirmed unless these two arcana be specifically treated of1 as shall be done in the chapters which immediately follow2 one of which will treat on the origin of conjugial love as derived from the marriage of good and truth1 and the other on the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 and on its correspondence4 ,that it hence follows1 that1 conjugial love with man 7homo7 is according to the state of the church with him1 will also be seen in those chapters4 #ga4 ,the reason why none can be principled in love truly conjugial but those who receive it from the ,lord1 that is1 who come directly to him1 and by derivation from him live the life of the church1 is1 because this love1 considered in its origin and correspondence1 is celestial1 spiritual1 holy1 pure1 and clean1 above every love implanted in the angels of heaven and the men of the church2 as was shewn above1 n4 #fd2 and these its distinguishing characters and qualities cannot possibly exist1 except with those who are conjoined to the ,lord1 and by him are consociated with the angels of heaven2 for these shun extra-conjugial loves1 which are conjunctions with others than their own conjugial partner1 as they would shun the loss of the soul and the lakes of hell2 and in proportion as married partners shun such conjunctions1 even as to the libidinous desires of the will and the intentions thence derived1 so far love truly conjugial is purified with them1 and becomes successively spiritual1 first during their abode on earth1 and afterwards in heaven4 ,it is not however possible that any love should become perfectly pure either with men or with angels2 consequently neither can this love3 nevertheless1 since the intention of the will is what the ,lord principally regards1 therefore so far as any one is in this intention1 and perseveres in it1 so far he is initiated into its purity and sanctity1 and successively advances therein4 ,the reason why none can be principled in spiritual conjugial love1 but those who are of the above description by virtue of conjunction with the ,lord1 is1 because heaven is in this love2 and the natural man1 whose conjugial love derives its pleasure only from the flesh1 cannot approach to heaven nor to any angel1 no1 nor to any man principled in this love1 it being the foundation of all celestial and spiritual loves2 which may be seen above1 n4 #fe-fg4 ,that this is the case1 has been confirmed to me by experience4 ,i have seen genii in the spiritual world1 who were in a state of preparation for hell1 approaching to an angel while he was being entertained by his consort2 and at a distance1 as they approached1 they became like furies1 and sought out caverns and ditches as asylums1 into which they cast themselves4 ,that wicked spirits love what is similar to their affection1 however unclean it is1 and hold in aversion the spirits of heaven1 as what is dissimilar1 because it is pure1 may be concluded from what was said in the ,,preliminary ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #aj4 #gb4 ,the reason why those who love the truths of the church and practise its goods1 come into this love and are capable of remaining in it1 is1 because no others are received by the ,lord2 for these are in conjunction with him1 and thereby are capable of being kept in that love by influence from him4 ,the two constituents of the church and heaven in man 7homo7 are the truth of faith and the good of life2 the truth of faith constitutes the ,lord's presence1 and the good of life according to the truths of faith constitutes conjunction with him1 and thereby the church and heaven4 ,the reason why the truth of faith constitutes the ,lord's presence1 is1 because it relates to light1 spiritual light being nothing else2 and the reason why the good of life constitutes conjunction1 is1 because it relates to heat2 and spiritual heat is nothing but the good of life1 for it is love2 and the good of life originates in love2 and it is well known1 that all light1 even that of winter1 causes presence1 and that heat united to light causes conjunction2 for gardens and shrubberies appear in all degrees of light1 but they do not bear flowers and fruits unless when heat joins itself to light4 ,from these considerations the conclusion is obvious1 that those are not gifted by the ,lord with love truly conjugial1 who merely know the truths of the church1 but those who know them and practise their good4 #gc4 ,,viii4 ,,this ,,love ,,was ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,loves ,,with ,,the ,,ancients1 ,,who ,,lived ,,in ,,the ,,golden1 ,,silver1 ,,and ,,copper ,,ages4 ,that conjugial love was the love of loves with the most ancient and the ancient people1 who lived in the ages thus named1 cannot be known from historical records1 because their writings are not extant2 and there is no account given of them except by writers in succeeding ages1 who mention them1 and describe the purity and integrity of their lives1 and also the successive decrease of such purity and integrity1 resembling the debasement of gold to iron3 but an account of the last or iron age1 which commenced from the time of those writers1 may in some measure be gathered from the historical records of the lives of some of their kings1 judges1 and wise men1 who were called sophi in ,greece and other countries4 ,that this age however should not endure1 as iron endures in itself1 but that it should be like iron mixed with clay1 which do not cohere1 is foretold by ,daniel1 chap4 ii4 #dc4 ,now as the golden1 silver1 and copper ages passed away before the time when writing came into use1 and thus it is impossible on earth to acquire any knowledge concerning their marriages1 it has pleased the ,lord to unfold to me such knowledge by a spiritual way1 by conducting me to the heavens inhabited by those most ancient people1 that ,i might learn from their own mouths the nature and quality of their marriages during their abode here on earth in their several ages3 for all1 who from the beginning of creation have departed by death out of the natural world1 are in the spiritual world1 and as to their loves resemble what they were when alive in the natural world1 and continue such to eternity4 ,as the particulars of this knowledge are worthy to be known and related1 and tend to confirm the sanctity of marriages1 ,i am desirous to make them public as they were shown me in the spirit when awake1 and were afterwards recalled to my remembrance by an angel1 and thus described4 ,and as they are from the spiritual world1 like the other accounts annexed to each chapter1 ,i am desirous to arrange them so as to form six ,,memorable ,,relations according to the progressions of the several periods of time4 99 99 99 99 99 #gd4 ,,these ,,six ,,memorable ,,relations from the spiritual world1 concerning conjugial love1 discover the nature and quality of that love in the earliest times and afterwards1 and also at the present day2 whence it appears that that love has successively fallen away from its sanctity and purity1 until it became adulterous2 but that nevertheless there is a hope of its being brought back again to its primeval or ancient sanctity4 #ge4 ,,the ,,first ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,on a time1 while ,i was meditating on conjugial love1 my mind was seized with a desire of knowing what had been the nature and quality of that love among those who lived in the ,,golden ,,age1 and afterwards among those who lived in the following ages1 which have their names from silver1 copper1 and iron3 and as ,i knew that all who lived well in those ages are in the heavens1 ,i prayed to the ,lord that ,i might be allowed to converse with them and be informed3 and lo6 an angel presented himself and said1 ,i am sent by the ,lord to be your guide and companion3 ,i will first lead and attend you to those who lived in the first age or period of time1 which is called golden3 and he said1 ,the way to them is difficult2 it lies through a shady forest1 which none can pass unless he receive a guide from the ,lord4 ,i was in the spirit1 and prepared myself for the journey2 and we turned our faces towards the east2 and as we advanced ,i saw a mountain1 whose height extended beyond the region of the clouds4 ,we passed a great wilderness1 and came to the forest planted with various kinds of trees and rendered shady by their thickness1 of which the angel had advertised me4 ,the forest was divided by several narrow paths2 and the angel said1 that according to the number of those paths are the windings and intricacies of error3 and that unless his eyes were opened by the ,lord1 so as to see olives entwined with vine tendrils1 and his steps were directed from olive to olive1 the traveller would miss his way1 and fall into the abodes of ,tartarus1 which are round about at the sides4 ,this forest is of such a nature1 to the end that the passage may be guarded2 for none but a primeval nation dwells upon that mountain4 ,after we had entered the forest1 our eyes were opened1 and we saw here and there olives entwined with vines1 from which hung bunches of grapes of a blue or azure color1 and the olives were ranged in continual wreaths2 we therefore made various circuits as they presented themselves to our view2 and at length we saw a grove of tall cedars and some eagles perched on their branches2 on seeing which the angel said1 ,we are now on the mountain not far from its summit3 so we went forward1 and lo6 behind the grove was a circular plain1 where there were feeding he and she-lambs1 which were representative forms of the state of innocence and peace of the inhabitants of the mountain4 ,we passed over this plain1 and lo6 we saw tabernacles1 to the number of several thousands in front on each side in every direction as far as the eye could reach4 ,and the angel said1 ,we are now in the camp1 where are the armies of the ,lord ,jehovah2 for so they call themselves and their habitations4 ,these most ancient people1 while they were in the world1 dwelt in tabernacles2 therefore now also they dwell in the same4 ,but let us bend our way to the south1 where the wiser of them live1 that we may meet some one to converse with4 ,in going along ,i saw at a distance three boys and three girls sitting at a door of a certain tent2 but as we approached1 the boys and girls appeared like men and women of a middle stature4 ,the angel then said1 ,all the inhabitants of this mountain appear at a distance like infants1 because they are in a state of innocence2 and infancy is the appearance of innocence4 ,the men on seeing us hastened towards us and said1 ,whence are you2 and how came you here8 ,your faces are not like those of our mountain4 ,but the angel in reply told them how1 by permission1 we had had access through the forest1 and what was the cause of our coming4 ,on hearing this1 one of the three men invited and introduced us into his tabernacle4 ,the man was dressed in a blue robe and a tunic of white wool3 and his wife had on a purple gown1 with a stomacher under it of fine linen wrought in needle-work4 ,and as my thought was influenced by a desire of knowing the state of marriages among the most ancient people1 ,i looked by turns on the husband and the wife1 and observed as it were a unity of their souls in their faces2 and ,i said1 ,you are one3 and the man answered1 ,we are one2 her life is in me1 and mine in her2 we are two bodies1 but one soul3 the union between us is like that of the two viscera in the breast1 which are called the heart and the lungs2 she is my heart and ,i am her lungs2 but as by the heart we here mean love1 and by the lungs wisdom1 she is the love of my wisdom1 and ,i am the wisdom of her love2 therefore her love from without veils my wisdom1 and my wisdom from within enters into her love3 hence1 as you said1 there is an appearance of the unity of our souls in our faces4 ,i then asked1 ,if such a union exists1 is it possible for you to look at any other woman than your own8 ,he replied1 ,it is possible but as my wife is united to my soul1 we both look together1 and in this case nothing of lust can enter2 for while ,i behold the wives of others1 ,i behold them by my own wife1 whom alone ,i love3 and as my own wife has a perception of all my inclinations1 she1 as an intermediate1 directs my thoughts and removes every thing discordant1 and therewith impresses cold and horror at every thing unchaste2 therefore it is as impossible for us to look unchastely at the wife of any other of our society1 as it is to look from the shades of ,tartarus to the light of our heaven therefore neither have we any idea of thought1 and still less any expression of speech1 to denote the allurements of libidinous love4 ,he could not pronounce the word whoredom1 because the chastity of their heaven forbade it4 ,hereupon my conducting angel said to me1 ,you hear now that the speech of the angels of this heaven is the speech of wisdom1 because they speak from causes4 ,after this1 as ,i looked around1 ,i saw their tabernacle as it were overlaid with gold2 and ,i asked1 ,whence is this8 ,he replied1 ,it is in consequence of a flaming light1 which1 like gold1 glitters1 irradiates1 and glances on the curtains of our tabernacle while we are conversing about conjugial love2 for the heat from our sun1 which in its essence is love1 on such occasions bares itself1 and tinges the light1 which in its essence is wisdom1 with its golden color2 and this happens because conjugial love in its origin is the sport of wisdom and love2 for the man was born to be wisdom1 and the woman to be the love of the man's wisdom3 hence spring the delights of that sport1 in and derived from conjugial love between us and our wives4 ,we have seen clearly for thousands of years in our heaven1 that those delights1 as to quantity1 degree1 and intensity1 are excellent and eminent according to our worship of the ,lord ,jehovah1 from whom flows that heavenly union or marriage1 which is the union and marriage of love and wisdom4 ,as he said this1 ,i saw a great light upon the hill in the middle of the tabernacles2 and ,i inquired1 ,whence is that light8 ,and he said1 ,it is from the sanctuary of the tabernacle of our worship4 ,i asked whether ,i might approach it2 to which he assented4 ,i approached therefore1 and saw the tabernacle without and within1 answering exactly to the description of the tabernacle which was built for the sons of ,israel in the wilderness2 the form of which was shewed to ,moses on ,mount ,sinai1 ,exod4 xxv4 #dj2 chap4 xxvi4 #cj4 ,i then asked1 ,what is within in that sanctuary1 from which so great a light proceeds8 ,he replied1 ,it is a tablet with this inscription1 ,,the ,,covenant ,,between ,,jehovah ,,and ,,the ,,heavens3 he said no more4 ,and as by this time we were ready to depart1 ,i asked1 ,did any of you1 during your abode in the natural world1 live with more than one wife8 ,he replied1 ,i know not one2 for we could not think of more4 ,we have been told by those who had thought of more1 that instantly the heavenly blessedness of their souls withdrew from their inmost principles to the extreme parts of their bodies1 even to the nails1 and together therewith the honorable badges of manhood2 when this was perceived they were banished the land4 ,on saying this1 the man ran to his tabernacle1 and returned with a pomegranate1 in which there was abundance of seeds of gold3 and he gave it me1 and ,i brought it away with me1 as a sign that we had been with those who had lived in the golden age4 ,and then1 after a salutation of peace1 we took our leave1 and returned home4 #gf4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,the next day the same angel came to me1 and said1 ,do you wish me to lead and attend you to the people who lived in the ,,silver ,,age ,,or ,,period1 that we may hear from them concerning the marriages of their time8 ,and he added1 ,access to these also can only be obtained by the ,lord's favor and protection4 ,i was in the spirit as before1 and accompanied my conductor4 ,we first came to a hill on the confines between the east and the south2 and while we were ascending it1 he shewed me a great extent of country3 we saw at a distance an eminence like a mountain1 between which and the hill on which we stood was a valley1 and behind the valley a plain1 and from the plain a rising ground of easy ascent4 ,we descended the hill intending to pass through the valley1 and we saw here and there on each side pieces of wood and stone1 carved into the figures of men1 and of various beasts1 birds1 and fishes2 and ,i asked the angel what they meant1 and whether they were idols8 ,he replied1 ,by no means3 they are representative forms of various moral virtues and spiritual truths4 ,the people of that age were acquainted with the science of correspondences2 and as every man1 beast1 bird1 and fish1 corresponds to some quality1 therefore each particular carved figure represents partially some virtue or truth1 and several together represent virtue itself1 or truth1 in a common extended form4 ,these are what in ,egypt were called hieroglyphics4 ,we proceeded through the valley1 and as we entered the plain1 lo6 we saw horses and chariots2 horses variously harnessed and caparisoned1 and chariots of different forms2 some carved in the shape of eagles1 some like whales1 and some like stags with horns1 and like unicorns2 and likewise beyond them some carts1 and stables round about at the sides2 and as we approached1 both horses and chariots disappeared1 and instead thereof we saw men 7homines71 in pairs1 walking1 talking1 and reasoning4 ,and the angel said to me1 ,the different species of horses1 chariots1 and stables1 seen at a distance1 are appearances of the rational intelligence of the men of that period2 for a horse1 by correspondence1 signifies the understanding of truth1 a chariot1 its doctrine1 and stables1 instructions3 you know that in this world all things appear according to correspondences4 ,but we passed by these things1 and ascended by a long acclivity1 and at length saw a city1 which we entered2 and in walking through the streets and places of public resort1 we viewed the houses3 they were so many palaces built of marble1 having steps of alabaster in front1 and at the sides of the steps pillars of jasper3 we saw also temples of precious stone of a sapphire and lazure color4 ,and the angel said to me1 ,their houses are of stone1 because stones signify natural truths1 and precious stones spiritual truths2 and all those who lived in the silver age had intelligence grounded in spiritual truths1 and thence in natural truths3 silver also has a similar signification4 ,in taking a view of the city1 we saw here and there consorts in pairs3 and as they were husbands and wives1 we expected that some of them would invite us to their houses2 and while we were in this expectation1 as we were passing by1 we were invited by two into their house1 and we ascended the steps and entered2 and the angel1 taking upon him the part of speaker1 explained to them the occasion of our coming to this heaven2 informing them that it was for the sake of instruction concerning marriages among the ancients1 of whom1 says he1 you in this heaven are a part4 ,they said1 ,we were from a people in ,asia2 and the chief pursuit of our age was the truths whereby we had intelligence4 ,this was the occupation of our souls and minds2 but our bodily senses were engaged in representations of truths in form2 and the science of correspondences conjoined the sensual things of our bodies with the perceptions of our minds1 and procured us intelligence4 ,on hearing this1 the angel asked them to give some account of their marriages3 and the husband said1 ,there is a correspondence between spiritual marriage1 which is that of truth with good1 and natural marriage1 which is that of a man with one wife2 and as we have studied correspondences1 we have seen that the church1 with its truths and goods1 cannot at all exist but with those who live in love truly conjugial with one wife3 for the marriage of good and truth constitutes the church with man3 therefore all we in this heaven say1 that the husband is truth1 and the wife the good thereof2 and that good cannot love any truth but its own1 neither can truth in return love any good but its own3 if any other were loved1 internal marriage1 which constitutes the church1 would perish1 and there would remain only external marriage1 to which idolatry1 and not the church1 corresponds2 therefore marriage with one wife we call sacrimony2 but if it should have place with more than one among us1 we should call it sacrilege4 ,as he said this1 we were introduced into an ante-chamber1 where there were several devices on the walls1 and little images as it were of molten silver2 and ,i inquired1 ,what are these8 ,they said1 ,they are pictures and forms representative of several qualities1 characters1 and delights1 relating to conjugial love4 ,these represent unity of souls1 these conjunction of minds1 these harmony of bosoms1 these the delights thence arising4 ,while we were viewing these things1 we saw as it were a rainbow on the wall1 consisting of three colors1 purple 7or red71 blue and white2 and we observed how the purple passed the blue1 and tinged the white with an azure color1 and that the latter color flowed back through the blue into the purple1 and elevated the purple into a kind of flaming lustre3 and the husband said to me1 ,do you understand all this8 ,i replied1 ,instruct me3 and he said1 ,the purple color1 from its correspondence1 signifies the conjugial love of the wife1 the white the intelligence of the husband1 the blue the beginning of conjugial love in the husband's perception from the wife1 and the azure1 with which the white was tinged1 signifies conjugial love in this case in the husband2 and this latter color flowing back through the blue into the purple1 and elevating the purple into a kind of flaming lustre1 signifies the conjugial love of the husband flowing back to the wife4 ,such things are represented on these walls1 while from meditating on conjugial love1 its mutual1 successive1 and simultaneous union1 we view with eager attention the rainbows which are there painted4 ,hereupon ,i observed1 ,these things are more than mystical at this day2 for they are appearances representative of the arcana of the conjugial love of one man with one wife4 ,he replied1 ,they are so2 yet to us in our heaven they are not arcana1 and consequently neither are they mystical4 ,as he said this1 there appeared at a distance a chariot drawn by small white horses2 on seeing which the angel said1 ,that chariot is a sign for us to take our leave2 and then1 as we were descending the steps1 our host gave us a bunch of white grapes hanging to the vine leaves3 and lo6 the leaves became silver2 and we brought them down with us for a sign that we had conversed with the people of the silver age4 #gg4 ,,the ,,third ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,the next day1 my conducting and attendant angel came to me and said1 ,make ready1 and let us go to the heavenly inhabitants in the west1 who are from the men that lived in the third period1 or in the copper age4 ,their dwellings are from the south by the west towards the north2 but they do not reach into the north4 ,having made myself ready1 ,i attended him1 and we entered their heaven on the southern quarter4 ,there was a magnificent grove of palm trees and laurels4 ,we passed through this1 and immediately on the confines of the west we saw giants1 double the size of ordinary men4 ,they asked us1 ,who let you in through the grove8 ,the angel said1 ,the ,god of heaven4 ,they replied1 ,we are guards to the ancient western heaven2 but pass on4 ,we passed on1 and from a rising ground we saw a mountain rising to the clouds1 and between us and the mountain a number of villages1 with gardens1 groves1 and plains intermixed4 ,we passed through the villages and came to the mountain1 which we ascended2 and lo6 its summit was not a point but a plain1 on which was a spacious and extensive city4 ,all the houses of the city were built of the wood of the pine-tree1 and their roofs consisted of joists or rafters2 and ,i asked1 ,why are the houses here built of wood8 ,the angel replied1 ,because wood signifies natural good2 and the men of the third age of the earth were principled in this good2 and as copper also signifies natural good1 therefore the age in which they lived the ancients named from copper4 ,here are also sacred buildings constructed of the wood of the olive1 and in the middle of them is the sanctuary1 where is deposited in an ark the ,word that was given to the inhabitants of ,asia before the ,israelitish ,word2 the historical books of which are called the ,,wars ,,of ,,jehovah1 and the prophetic books1 ,,enunciations2 both mentioned by ,moses1 ,numb4 xxi4 verses #ad1 #ae1 and #bg-cj4 ,this ,word at this day is lost in the kingdoms of ,asia1 and is only preserved in ,great ,tartary4 ,then the angel led me to one of the sacred buildings1 which we looked into1 and saw in the middle of it the sanctuary1 the whole in the brightest light2 and the angel said1 ,this light is from that ancient ,asiatic ,word3 for all divine truth in the heavens gives forth light4 ,as we were leaving the sacred building1 we were informed that it had been reported in the city that two strangers had arrived there2 and that they were to be examined as to whence they came1 and what was their business2 and immediately one of the public officers came running towards us1 and took us for examination before the judges3 and on being asked whence we came1 and what was our business1 we replied1 ,we have passed the grove of palm-trees1 and also the abodes of the giants1 the guards of your heaven1 and afterwards the region of villages2 from which circumstances you may conclude1 that we have not come here of ourselves1 but by direction of the ,god of heaven4 ,the business on which we are come is1 to be instructed concerning your marriages1 whether they are monogamical or polygamical4 and they said1 ,what are polygamical marriages8 ,are not they adulterous8 ,and immediately the bench of judges deputed an intelligent person to instruct us in his own house on this point3 and when we were come to his house1 he set his wife by his side1 and spoke as follows3 ,we are in possession of precepts concerning marriages1 which have been handed down to us from the primeval or most ancient people1 who were principled in love truly conjugial1 and thereby excelled all others in the virtue and potency of that love while they were in the world1 and who are now in a most blessed state in their heaven1 which is in the east4 ,we are their posterity1 and they1 as fathers1 have given us1 their sons1 rules of life1 among which is the following concerning marriages3 ',sons1 if you are desirous to love ,god and your neighbour1 and to become wise and happy to eternity1 we counsel you to live married to one wife2 if you depart from this precept1 all heavenly love will depart from you1 and therewith internal wisdom2 and you will be banished4' ,this precept of our ,fathers we have obeyed as sons1 and have perceived its truth1 which is1 that so far as any one loves his conjugial partner alone1 so far he becomes celestial and internal1 and that so far as any one does not love his married partner alone1 so far he becomes natural and external2 and in this case he loves only himself and the images of his own mind1 and is doating and foolish4 ,from these considerations1 all of us in this heaven live married to one wife2 and this being the case1 all the borders of our heaven are guarded against polygamists1 adulterers1 and whoremongers2 if polygamists invade us1 they are cast out into the darkness of the north2 if adulterers1 they are cast out into fires of the west2 and if whoremongers1 they are cast out into the delusive lights of the south4 ,on hearing this1 ,i asked1 ,what he meant by the darkness of the north1 the fires of the west1 and the delusive lights of the south8 ,he answered1 ,the darkness of the north is dulness of mind and ignorance of truths2 the fires of the west are the loves of evil2 and the delusive lights of the south are the falsifications of truth1 which are spiritual whoredoms4 ,after this1 he said1 ,follow me to our repository of curiosities3 so we followed him1 and he shewed us the writings of the most ancient people1 which were on the tables of wood and stone1 and afterwards on smooth blocks of wood2 the writings of the second age were on sheets of parchment2 of these he brought me a sheet1 on which were copied the rules of the people of the first age from their tables of stone1 among which also was the precept concerning marriages4 ,having seen these and other ancient curiosities1 the angel said1 ,it is now time for us to take our leave2 and immediately our host went into the garden1 and plucked some twigs off a tree1 and bound them into a little bunch1 and gave them to us1 saying1 ,these twigs are from a tree1 which is native of or peculiar to our heaven1 and whose juice has a balsamic fragrance4 ,we brought the bunch down with us1 and descended by the eastern way1 which was not guarded2 and lo6 the twigs were changed into shining brass1 and the upper ends of them into gold1 as a sign that we had been with the people of the third age1 which is named from copper or brass4 #gh4 ,,the ,,fourth ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,after two days the angel again addressed me1 saying1 ,let us complete the period of the ages2 the last still remains1 which is named from ,,iron4 ,the people of this age dwell in the north on the side of the west1 in the inner parts or breadth-ways3 they are all from the old inhabitants of ,asia1 who were in possession of the ancient ,word1 and thence derived their worship2 consequently they were before the time of our ,lord's coming into the world4 ,this is evident from the writings of the ancients1 in which those times are so named4 ,these same periods are meant by the statue seen by ,nebuchadnezzar1 whose head was of gold1 the breast and arms of silver1 the belly and thighs of brass1 the legs of iron1 and the feet of iron and of clay1 ,dan4 ii4 #cb1 #cc4 ,these particulars the angel related to me in the way1 which was contracted and anticipated by changes of state induced in our minds according to the genius or disposition of the inhabitants whom we passed2 for spaces and consequent distances in the spiritual world are appearances according to the state of their minds4 ,when we raised our eyes1 lo6 we were in a forest consisting of beeches1 chestnut-trees and oaks3 and on looking around us1 there appeared bears to the left1 and leopards to the right3 and when ,i wondered at this1 the angel said1 ,they are neither bears nor leopards1 but men1 who guard these inhabitants of the north2 by their nostrils they have a scent of the sphere of life of those who pass by1 and they rush violently on all who are spiritual1 because the inhabitants are natural4 ,those who only read the ,word1 and imbibe thence nothing of doctrine1 appear at a distance like bears2 and those who confirm false principles thence derived1 appear like leopards4 ,on seeing us1 they turned away1 and we proceeded4 ,beyond the forest there appeared thickets1 and afterwards fields of grass divided into areas1 bordered with box3 this was succeeded by a declivity which led to a valley1 wherein were several cities4 ,we passed some of them1 and entered into one of a considerable size3 its streets were irregular1 and so were the houses1 which were built of brick1 with beams between1 and plastered4 ,in the places of public resort were consecrated buildings of hewn lime-stone2 the under-structure of which was below the ground1 and the super-structure above4 ,we went down into one of them by three steps1 and saw on the walls idols of various forms1 and a crowd on their knees paying adoration to them3 in the middle of the building was a company1 above whom might be seen the head of the tutelary god of that city4 ,as we went out1 the angel said to me1 ,those idols1 with the ancients who lived in the silver age1 as above described1 were images representative of spiritual truths and moral virtues2 and when the science of correspondence was forgotten and extinct1 they first became objects of worship1 and afterwards were adored as deities3 hence came idolatry4 ,when we were come out of the consecrated building1 we made our observations on the men and their dress4 ,their faces were like steel1 of a grayish color1 and they were dressed like comedians1 with napkins about their loins hanging from a tunic buttoned close at the breast2 and on their heads they wore curled caps like sailors4 ,but the angel said1 ,enough of this2 let us seek some instruction concerning the marriages of the people of this age4 ,we then entered into the house of one of the grandees1 who wore on his head a high cap4 ,he received us kindly1 and said1 ,come in and let us converse together4 ,we entered into the vestibule1 and there seated ourselves2 and ,i asked him about the marriages of his city and country4 ,he said1 ,we do not here live with one wife1 but some with two or three1 and some with more1 because we are delighted with variety1 obedience1 and honor1 as marks of dignity2 and these we receive from our wives according to their number4 ,with one wife there would be no delight arising from variety2 but disgust from sameness3 neither would there be any flattering courteousness arising from obedience1 but a troublesome disquietude from equality2 neither would there be any satisfaction arising from dominion and the honor thence derived1 but vexation from wrangling about superiority4 ,and what is a woman8 ,is she not born subject to man's will2 to serve1 and not to domineer8 ,wherefore in this place every husband in his own house enjoys as it were royal dignity2 and as this is suited to our love1 it constitutes also the blessedness of our life4 ,but ,i asked1 ,in such case1 what becomes of conjugial love1 which from two souls makes one1 and joins minds together1 and renders a man 7homo7 blessed8 ,this love cannot be divided2 for if it be it becomes a heat which effervesces and passes away4 ,to this he replied1 ,i do not understand what you say2 what else renders a man 7homo7 blessed1 but the emulation of wives contending for the honor of the first place in the husband's favor8 ,as he said this1 a man entered into the women's apartment and opened the two doors2 whence there issued a libidinous effluvium1 which had a stench like mire2 this arose from polygamical love1 which is connubial1 and at the same time adulterous2 so ,i rose and shut the doors4 ,afterwards ,i said1 ,how can you subsist upon this earth1 when you are void of any love truly conjugial1 and also when you worship idols8 ,he replied1 ,as to connubial love1 we are so jealous of our wives1 that we do not suffer any one to enter further within our houses than the vestibule2 and where there is jealousy1 there must also be love4 ,in respect to idols1 we do not worship them2 but we are not able to think of the ,god of the universe1 except by means of such forms presented to our eyes2 for we cannot elevate our thoughts above the sensual things of the body1 nor think of ,god above the objects of bodily vision4 ,i then asked him again1 ,are not your idols of different forms8 ,how then can they excite the idea of one ,god8 ,he replied1 ,this is a mystery to us2 somewhat of the worship of ,god lies concealed in each form4 ,i then said1 ,you are merely sensual corporeal spirits2 you have neither the love of ,god nor the love of a married partner grounded in any spiritual principle2 and these loves together form a man 7homo7 and from sensual make him celestial4 ,as ,i said this1 there appeared through the gate as it were lightning3 and on my asking what it meant1 he said1 ,such lightning is a sign to us that there will come the ancient one from the east1 who teaches us concerning ,god1 that ,he is one1 the alone omnipotent1 who is the first and the last2 he also admonishes us not to worship idols1 but only to look at them as images representative of the virtues proceeding from the one ,god1 which also together form his worship4 ,this ancient one is our angel1 whom we revere and obey4 ,he comes to us1 and raises us1 when we are falling into obscure worship of ,god from mere fancies respecting images4 ,on hearing this1 we left the house and went out of the city2 and in the way1 from what we had seen in the heavens1 we drew some conclusions respecting the circuit and the progression of conjugial love2 of the circuit that it had passed from the east to the south1 from the south to the west1 and from the west to the north2 and of the progression1 that it had decreased according to its circulation1 namely1 that in the east it was celestial1 in the south spiritual1 in the west natural1 and in the north sensual2 and also that it had decreased in a similar degree with the love and the worship of ,god3 from which considerations we further concluded1 that this love in the first age was like gold1 in the second like silver1 in the third like brass1 and in the fourth like iron1 and that at length it ceased4 ,on this occasion the angel1 my guide and companion1 said1 ,nevertheless ,i entertain a hope that this love will be revived by the ,god of heaven1 who is the ,lord1 because it is capable of being so revived4 #gi4 ,,the ,,fifth ,,memorable ,,relation1 ,the angel that had been my guide and companion to the ancients who had lived in the four ages1 the golden1 the silver1 the copper1 and the iron1 again presented himself to me1 and said1 ,are you desirous of seeing the age which succeeded those ancient ones1 and to know what its quality formerly was1 and still is8 ,follow me1 and you shall see4 ,they are those concerning whom ,daniel thus prophesied3 ',a kingdom shall arise after those four in which iron shall be mixed with miry clay3 they shall mingle themselves together by the seed of man3 but they shall not cohere one with the other1 as iron is not mixed with clay1 ,dan4 ii4 #da-dc3' and he said1 ,by the seed of man1 whereby iron shall be mixed with clay1 and still they shall not cohere1 is meant the truth of the ,word falsified4 ,after he had said this1 ,i followed him1 and in the way1 he related to me these particulars4 ,they dwell in the borders between the south and the west1 but at a great distance beyond those who lived in the four former ages1 and also at a greater depth4 ,we then proceeded through the south to the region bordering on the west1 and passed though a formidable forest2 for in it there were lakes1 out of which crocodiles raised their heads1 and opened at us their wide jaws beset with teeth2 and between the lakes were terrible dogs1 some of which were three-headed like ,cerberus1 some two-headed1 all looking at us as we passed with a horrible hungry snarl and fierce eyes4 ,we entered the western tract of this region1 and saw dragons and leopards1 such as are described in the ,revelation1 chap4 xii4 #c2 chap4 xiii4 #b4 ,then the angel said to me1 ,all these wild beasts which you have seen1 are not wild beasts but correspondences1 and thereby representative forms of the lusts of the inhabitants whom we shall visit4 ,the lusts themselves are represented by those horrible dogs2 their deceit and cunning by crocodiles2 their falsities and depraved inclinations to the things which relate to worship1 by dragons and leopards3 nevertheless the inhabitants represented do not live close behind the forest1 but behind a great wilderness which lies intermediate1 that they may be fully withheld and separated from the inhabitants of the foregoing ages1 being of an entirely different genius and quality from them3 they have indeed heads above their breasts1 and breasts above their loins1 and loins above their feet1 like the primeval men2 but in their heads there is not any thing of gold1 nor in their breasts any thing of silver1 nor in their loins any thing of brass1 no1 nor in their feet any thing of pure iron2 but in their heads is iron mixed with clay1 in their breasts is each mixed with brass1 in their loins is also each mixed with silver1 and in their feet is each mixed with gold3 by this inversion they are changed from men 7homines7 into graven images of men1 in which inwardly nothing coheres2 for what was highest1 is made lowest1 thus what was the head is become the heel1 and vice versa4 ,they appear to us from heaven like stage-players1 who lie upon their elbows with the body inverted1 and put themselves in a walking motion2 or like beasts1 which lie on their backs1 and lift the feet upwards1 and from the head1 which they plunge in the earth1 look towards heaven4 ,we passed through the forest1 and entered the wilderness1 which was not less terrible3 it consisted of heaps of stones1 and ditches between them1 out of which crept hydras and vipers1 and there flew forth venomous flying serpents4 ,this whole wilderness was on a continual declivity3 we descended by a long steep descent1 and at length came into the valley inhabited by the people of that region and age4 ,there were here and there cottages1 which appeared at length to meet1 and to be joined together in the form of a city3 this we entered1 and lo6 the houses were built of the scorched branches of trees1 cemented together with mud and covered with black slates4 ,the streets were irregular2 all of them at the entrance narrow1 but wider as they extended1 and at the end spacious1 where there were places of public resort3 here there were as many places of public resort as there were streets4 ,as we entered the city1 it became dark1 because the sky did not appear2 we therefore looked up and light was given us1 and we saw3 and then ,i asked those we met1 ,are you able to see because the sky does not appear above you8 ,they replied ,what a question is this6 we see clearly2 we walk in full light4 ,on hearing this1 the angel said to me1 ,darkness to them is light1 and light darkness1 as is the case with birds of night2 as they look downwards and not upwards4 ,we entered into some of the cottages1 and saw in each a man with his woman1 and we asked them1 ,do all live here in their respective houses with one wife only8 ,and they replied with a hissing1 ,what do you mean by one wife only8 ,why do not you ask1 whether we live with one harlot8 ,what is a wife but a harlot8 ,by our laws it is not allowable to commit fornication with more than one woman2 but still we do not hold it dishonorable or unbecoming to do so with more2 yet out of our own houses we glory in the one among another3 thus we rejoice in the license we take1 and the pleasure attending it1 more than polygamists4 ,why is a plurality of wives denied us1 when yet it has been granted1 and at this day is granted in the whole world about us8 ,what is life with one woman only1 but captivity and imprisonment8 ,we however in this place have broken the bolt of this prison1 and have rescued ourselves from slavery1 and made ourselves free1 and who is angry with a prisoner for asserting his freedom when it is in his power8 to this we replied1 ,you speak1 friend1 as if without any sense of religion4 ,what rational person does not know that adulteries are profane and infernal1 and that marriages are holy and heavenly4 ,do not adulteries take place with devils in hell1 and marriages with angels in heaven8 ,did you never read the sixth commandment ,footnote3 ,according to the division of the commandments adopted by the ,church of ,england1 it is the seventh that is here referred to4 of the decalogue8 and in ,paul1 that adulterers can by no means enter heaven8 ,hereupon our host laughed heartily1 and regarded me as a simpleton1 and almost as out of my senses4 ,but just then there came running a messenger from the chief of the city1 and said1 ,bring the two strangers into the town-hall2 and if they refuse to come1 drag them there3 we have seen them in a shade of light2 they have entered privately2 they are spies4 ,hereupon the angel said to me1 ,the reason why we were seen in a shade1 is1 because the light of heaven in which we have been1 is to them a shade1 and the shade of hell is to them light2 and this is because they regard nothing as sin1 not even adultery3 hence they see what is false altogether as what is true2 and what is false is lucid in hell before satans1 and what is true darkens their eyes like the shade of night4 ,we said to the messenger1 ,we will not be pressed1 still less will we be dragged into the town-hall2 but we will go with you of our own accord4 ,so we went3 and lo6 there was a great crowd assembled1 out of which came some lawyers1 and whispered to us1 saying1 ,take heed to yourselves how you speak any thing against religion1 the form of our government1 and good manners3 and we replied1 ,we will not speak against them1 but for them and from them4 ,then we asked1 ,what are your religious notions respecting marriages8 ,at this the crowd murmured1 and said1 ,what have you to do here with marriages8 ,marriages are marriages4 ,again we asked1 ,what are your religious notions respecting whoredoms8 ,at this also they murmured1 saying1 ,what have you to do here with whoredoms8 ,whoredoms are whoredoms3 let him that is guiltless cast the first stone4 ,and we asked thirdly1 ,does your religion teach that marriages are holy and heavenly1 and that adulteries are profane and infernal8 ,hereupon several in the crowd laughed aloud1 jested1 and bantered1 saying1 ,inquire of our priests1 and not of us1 as to what concerns religion4 ,we acquiesce entirely in what they declare2 because no point of religion is an object of decision in the understanding4 ,have you never heard that the understanding is without any sense or discernment in mysteries1 which constitute the whole of religion8 ,and what have actions to do with religion8 ,is not the soul made blessed by the muttering of words from a devout heart concerning expiation1 satisfaction1 and imputation1 and not by works8 ,but at this instant there came some of the wise ones of the city1 so called1 and said1 ,retire hence2 the crowd grows angry2 a storm is gathering3 let us talk in private on this subject2 there is a retired walk behind the town-hall2 come with us there4 ,we followed them2 and they asked us whence we came1 and what was our business there8 ,and we said1 to be instructed concerning marriages1 whether they are holy with you1 as they were with the ancients who lived in the golden1 silver1 and copper ages2 or whether they are not holy4 ,and they replied1 ,what do you mean by holiness8 ,are not marriages works of the flesh and of the night8 ,and we answered1 ,are they not also works of the spirit8 and what the flesh does from the spirit1 is not that spiritual8 and all that the spirit does1 it does from the marriage of good and truth4 ,is not this marriage spiritual1 which enters the natural marriage of husband and wife8 ,to this the wise ones1 so called1 made answer1 ,there is too much subtlety and sublimity in what you say on this subject2 you ascend far above rational principles to spiritual3 and who1 beginning at such an elevation1 can descend thence1 and thus form any decision8 ,to this they added with a smile of ridicule1 ,perhaps you have the wings of an eagle1 and can fly in the highest region of heaven1 and make these discoveries3 this we cannot do4 ,we then asked them to tell us1 from the altitude or region in which the winged ideas of their minds fly1 whether they knew1 or were able to know1 that the love of one man with one wife is conjugial love1 into which are collected all the beatitudes1 satisfactions1 delights1 pleasantnesses1 and pleasures of heaven2 and that this love is from the ,lord according to the reception of good and truth from him2 thus according to the state of the church8 ,on hearing this1 they turned away1 and said1 ,these men are out of their senses2 they enter the ether with their judgement1 and scatter about vain conjectures like nuts and almonds4 ,after this they turned to us1 saying1 ,we will give a direct answer to your windy conjectures and dreams2 and they said1 ,what has conjugial love in common with religion and inspiration from ,god8 ,is not this love with every one according to the state of his potency8 ,is it not the same with those who are out of the church as with those who are in it1 with ,gentiles as with ,christians1 yea1 with the impious as with the pious8 ,has not every one the strength of this love either hereditarily1 or from bodily health1 or from temperance of life1 or from warmth of climate8 ,by medicines also it may be strengthened and stimulated4 ,is not the case similar with the brute creation1 especially with birds which unite in pairs8 ,moreover1 is not this love carnal8 and what has a carnal principle in common with the spiritual state of the church8 ,does this love1 as to its ultimate effect with a wife1 differ at all from love as to its effect with a harlot8 ,is not the lust similar1 and the delight similar8 ,wherefore it is injurious to deduce the origin of conjugial love from the holy things of the church4 ,on hearing this1 we said to them1 ,you reason from the stimulus of lasciviousness1 and not from conjugial love2 you are altogether ignorant what conjugial love is1 because it is cold with you2 from what you have said we are convinced that you are of the age which has its name from and consists of iron and clay1 which do not cohere1 according to the prophecy in ,daniel1 chap4 ii4 #dc2 for you make conjugial love and adulterous love the same thing2 and do these two cohere any more than iron and clay8 ,you are believed and called wise1 and yet you have not the smallest pretensions to that character4 ,on hearing this1 they were inflamed with rage and made a loud cry1 and called the crowd together to cast us out2 but at that instant1 by virtue of power given us by the ,lord1 we stretched out our hands1 and lo6 the flying serpents1 vipers1 and hydras1 and also the dragons from the wilderness1 presented themselves1 and entered and filled the city2 at which the inhabitants being terrified fled away4 ,the angel then said to me1 ,into this region new comers from the earth daily enter1 and the former inhabitants are by turns separated and cast down into the gulphs of the west1 which appear at a distance like lakes of fire and brimstone4 ,all in those gulphs are spiritual and natural adulterers4 #hj4 ,,the ,,sixth ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,as the angel said this1 ,i looked to the western boundary1 and lo6 there appeared as it were lakes of fire and brimstone2 and ,i asked him1 why the hells in that quarter had such an appearance8 ,he replied1 ,they appear as lakes in consequence of the falsifications of truth2 because water in the spiritual sense signifies truth2 and there is an appearance as it were of fire round about them1 and in them1 in consequence of the love of evil1 and as it were of brimstone in consequence of the love of what is false4 ,those three things1 the lake1 the fire1 and the brimstone1 are appearances1 because they are correspondences of the evil loves of the inhabitants4 ,all in that quarter are shut up in eternal work-houses1 where they labor for food1 for clothing1 and for a bed to lie on2 and when they do evil1 they are grievously and miserably punished4 ,i further asked the angel1 why he said that in that quarter are spiritual and natural adulterers1 and why he had not rather said1 that they were evil doers and impious8 ,he replied1 ,because all those who make light of adulteries1 that is1 who commit them from a confirmed persuasion that they are not sins1 and thus are in the purpose of committing them from a belief of their being harmless1 are in their hearts evil doers and impious2 for the conjugial human principle ever goes hand in hand with religion2 and every step and movement made under the influence of religion1 and leading to it1 is also a step and movement made under the influence of the conjugial principle1 and leading to it1 which is peculiar and proper to the ,christian4 ,on asking what that conjugial principle was1 he said1 ,it is the desire of living with one wife2 and every ,christian has this desire according to his religion4 ,i was afterwards grieved in spirit to think that marriages1 which in the most ancient times had been most holy1 were so wretchedly changed into adulteries4 ,the angel said1 ,the case is the same at this day with religion2 for the ,lord says ',in the consummation of the age there will be the abomination of desolation foretold by ,daniel4 ,and there will be great affliction1 such as there has not been from the beginning of the world1' ,matt4 xxiv4 #ae1 #ba4 ,the abomination of desolation signifies the falsification and deprivation of all truth2 affliction signifies the state of the church infested by evils and falses2 and the consummation of the age1 concerning which those things are spoken1 signifies the last time or end of the church4 ,the end is now1 because there does not remain a truth which is not falsified2 and the falsification of truth is spiritual whoredom1 which acts in unity with natural whoredom1 because they cohere4 #ha4 ,as we were conversing and lamenting together on this occasion1 there suddenly appeared a beam of light1 which1 darting powerfully upon my eyes1 caused me to look up3 and lo6 the whole heaven above us appeared luminous2 and from the east to the west in an extended series we heard a ,,glorification3 and the angel said to me1 ,that is a glorification of the ,lord on account of his coming1 and is made by the angels of the eastern and western heavens4 ,from the northern and southern heavens nothing was heard but a soft and pleasing murmur4 ,as the angel understood everything1 he told me first1 that glorifications and celebrations of the ,lord are made from the ,word1 because then they are made from the ,lord2 for the ,lord is the ,word1 that is1 the essential divine truth therein2 and he said1 ,now in particular they glorify and celebrate the ,lord by these words1 which were spoken by ,daniel the prophet1 ',thou sawest iron mixed with miry clay2 they shall mingle themselves together by the seed of man2 but they shall not cohere4 ,nevertheless in those days the ,god of the heavens shall cause a kingdom to arise1 which shall not perish for ages4 ,it shall bruise and consume those kingdoms2 but itself shall stand for ages4' ,dan4 ii4 #dc1 #dd4 ,after this1 ,i heard as it were the voice of singing1 and further in the east ,i saw a glittering of light more resplendent than the former2 and ,i asked the angel what was the subject of their glorification8 ,he said1 ,these words in ,daniel2 ',i saw in the visions of the night1 and lo6 with the clouds of heaven there came as it were the ,,son ,,of ,,man3 and to him was given dominion and a kingdom2 and all people and nations shall worship him4 ,his dominion is the dominion of an age1 which shall not pass away2 and his kingdom that which shall not perish1' ,dan4 vii4 #ac1 #ad4 ,they are further celebrating the ,lord from these words in the ,revelation3 ',to ,,jesus ,,christ be glory and strength3 behold he cometh with clouds4 ,he is alpha and omega1 the beginning and the end1 the first and the last2 who is1 who was1 and who is to come1 the almighty4 ,i1 ,john1 heard this from the ,,son ,,of ,,man1 out of the midst of the seven candlesticks1' ,rev4 i4 #e-g1 #aj-ac2 chap4 xxii4 #ac2 ,matt4 xxiv4 #cj1 #ca4 ,i looked again into the eastern heaven3 it was enlightened on the right side1 and the light entered the southern expanse4 ,i heard a sweet sound2 and ,i asked the angel1 what was the subject of their glorification in that quarter respecting the ,lord8 ,he said1 ,these words in the ,revelation3 ',i saw a new heaven and a new earth2 and ,i saw the holy city1 ,new ,jerusalem1 coming down from ,god out of heaven1 prepared as a ,,bride for her ,,husband3 and the angel spake with me1 and said1 ,come1 ,i will shew thee the ,,bride1 ,,the ,,lamb',s ,,wife3 and he carried me away in the spirit to a great and high mountain1 and shewed me the holy city1 ,jerusalem1' ,rev4 xxi4 #a1 #b1 #i1 #aj3 also these words1 ',i ,,jesus am the bright and morning star2 and the spirit and the bride say1 ,,come2 ,,and ,,he ,,said1 ,,even ,i ,,come ,,quickly2 ,amen3 even ,,come1 ,,lord ,,jesus1' ,rev4 xxii4 #af1 #ag1 #bj4 ,after these and several other subjects of glorification1 there was heard a common glorification from the east to the west of heaven1 and also from the south to the north2 and ,i asked the angel1 ,what now is the subject8 ,he said1 ,these words from the prophets2 ',let all flesh know that ,i1 ,,jehovah1 ,,am ,,thy ,,saviour ,,and ,,thy ,,redeemer1' ,isaiah xlix4 #bf4 ',thus saith ,,jehovah1 the ,king of ,israel1 and ,,his ,,redeemer1 ,,jehovah ,,zebaoth1 ,i am the first and the last1 and ,,beside ,,me ,,there ,,is ,,no ,,god1' ,isaiah xliv4 #f4 ',it shall be said in that day1 ,,lo6 ,,this ,,is ,,our ,,god1 whom we have expected to deliver us2 ,,this is ,,jehovah ,,whom ,,we ,,have ,,expected4' ,isaiah xxv4 #i4 ',the voice of him that crieth in the wilderness1 ,prepare a way for ,,jehovah4 ,behold the ,,lord ,,jehovah cometh in strength4 ,he shall feed his flock like a ,,shepherd1' ,isaiah xl4 #c1 #aj1 #aa4 ',unto us a child is born2 unto us a son is given2 whose name is ,wonderful ,counsellor1 ,,god1 ,hero1 ,,father ,,of ,,eternity1 ,prince of ,peace1' ,isaiah ix4 #f4 ',behold the days will come1 and ,i will raise up to ,david a righteous branch1 who shall reign a ,king3 and this is his name1 ,,jehovah ,,our ,,righteousness1' ,jeremiah xxiii4 #e1 #f2 chap1 xxxiii4 #ae1 #af4 ',,jehovah ,,zebaoth is his name1 and ,,thy ,,redeemer the holy one of ,israel3 ,,the ,,god ,,of ,,the ,,whole ,,earth ,,shall ,,he ,,be ,,called1' ,isaiah liv4 #e4 ',,in ,,that ,,day ,,there ,,shall ,,be ,,one ,,jehovah1 ,,and ,,his ,,name ,,one1' ,zech4 xiv4 #i4 ,on hearing and understanding these words1 my heart exulted1 and ,i went home with joy2 and there ,i returned out of a state of the spirit into a state of the body2 in which latter state ,i committed to writing what ,i had seen and heard3 to which ,i now add the following particular4 ,that conjugial love1 such as it was with the ancients1 will be revived again by the ,lord after his coming2 because this love is from the ,lord alone1 and is the portion of those who from him1 by means of the ,word1 are made spiritual4 #hb4 ,after this1 a man from the northern quarter came running in great haste1 and looked at me with a threatening countenance1 and addressing me in a passionate tone of voice1 said1 ,are you the man that wishes to seduce the world1 under the notion of re-establishing a new church1 which you understand by the ,new ,jerusalem coming down out of heaven from ,god2 and teaching1 that the ,lord will endow with love truly conjugial those who embrace the doctrines of that church2 the delights and felicity of which love you exalt to the very heaven8 ,is not this a mere fiction8 and do you not hold it forth as a bait and enticement to accede to your new opinions8 ,but tell me briefly1 what are the doctrinals of the ,new ,church1 and ,i will see whether they agree or disagree4 ,i replied1 ,the doctrines of the church1 which is meant by the ,new ,jerusalem1 are as follow3 ,i4 ,that there is one ,god1 in whom there is a divine trinity2 and that he is the ,,lord ,,jesus ,,christ4 ,,ii4 ,that a saving faith is to believe on him4 ,,iii4 ,that evils are to be shunned1 because they are of the devil and from the devil4 ,,iv4 ,that goods are to be done1 because they are of ,god and from ,god4 ,v4 ,that these are to be done by a man as from himself2 but that it ought to be believed1 that they are done from the ,lord with him and by him4 ,on hearing these doctrines1 his fury for some moments abated2 but after some deliberation he again looked at me sternly1 and said1 ,are these five precepts the doctrines of faith and charity of the ,new ,church8 ,i replied1 ,they are4 ,he then asked sharply1 ,how can you demonstrate the ,,first1 'that there is one ,god in whom there is a divine trinity2 and that he is the ,lord ,jesus ,christ8 ,i said1 ,i demonstrate it thus3 ,is not ,god one and individual8 ,is not there a trinity8 ,if ,god be one and individual1 is not he one person8 ,if he be one person1 is not the trinity in that person8 ,that this ,god is the ,,lord ,,jesus ,,christ1 is evident from these considerations1 that he was conceived from ,god the ,father1 ,luke i4 #cd1 #ce2 and thus that as to his soul he is ,god2 and hence1 as he himself saith1 that the ,father and himself are one1 ,john x4 #cj2 that he is in the ,father1 and the ,father in him1 ,john xix4 #aj1 #aa2 that he that seeth him and knoweth him1 seeth and knoweth the ,father1 ,john xiv4 #g1 #i2 that no one seeth and knoweth the ,father1 except he that is in the bosom of the ,father1 ,john i4 #ah2 that all things of the ,father are his1 ,john iii4 #ce2 chap4 xvi4 #ae2 that he is the ,way1 the ,truth1 and the ,life2 and that no one cometh to the ,father but by him1 ,john xiv4 #f2 thus of or from him1 because the ,father is in him2 and1 according to ,paul1 that all the fulness of the ,godhead dwelleth bodily in him1 ,coloss4 ii4 #i2 and moreover1 that he hath power over all flesh1 ,john xvii4 #b2 and that he hath all power in heaven and in earth1 ,matt1 xxviii4 #ah3 from which declarations it follows1 that he is ,god of heaven and earth4 ,he afterwards asked how ,i proved the ,,second1 that a saving faith is to believe on him8 ,i said1 ,by these words of the ,lord1 ',this is the will of the ,father1 that every one that ,,believeth ,,on ,,the ,,son should have eternal life1 ,john vi4 #dj4' ',god so loved the world1 that he gave his only-begotten ,son1 that every one that ,,believeth ,,on ,,him should not perish1 but should have eternal life1' ,john iii4 #ae1 #af4 ',,he ,,that ,,believeth ,,on ,,the ,,son1 hath eternal life2 but he that believeth not the ,son will not see life2 but the wrath of ,god abideth on him1' ,john iii4 #cf4 ,he afterwards said1 ,demonstrate also the ,,third1 and the next two doctrines3 ,i replied1 ,what need is there to demonstrate 'that evils ought to be shunned1 because they are of the devil and from the devil2 and that goods ought to be done1 because they are of ,god and from ,god2' also 'that the latter are to be done by a man as from himself2 but that he ought to believe that they are from the ,lord with him and by him8' ,that these three doctrines are true1 is confirmed by the whole ,sacred ,scripture from beginning to end2 for what else is therein principally insisted on1 but to shun evils and do goods1 and believe on the ,lord ,god8 ,moreover1 without these three doctrines there can be no religion3 for does not religion relate to life8 and what is life but to shun evils and do goods8 and how can a man do the latter and shun the former but as from himself8 ,therefore if you remove these doctrines from the church1 you remove from it the ,sacred ,scripture1 and also religion2 and these being removed1 the church is no longer a church4 ,the man on hearing this retired1 and mused on what he had heard2 but still he departed in indignation4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,origin ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,as ,,grounded ,,in ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth4 #hc4 ,there are both internal and external origins of conjugial love1 and several of each2 nevertheless there is but one inmost or universal origin of all4 ,that this origin is the marriage of good and truth1 shall be demonstrated in what now follows4 ,the reason why no one heretofore has deduced the origin of that love from this ground1 is1 because it has never yet been discovered that there is any union between good and truth2 and the reason why this discovery has not been made1 is1 because good does not appear in the light of the understanding1 as truth does1 and hence the knowledge of it conceals itself and evades every inquiry3 and as from this circumstance good is as it were unknown1 it was impossible for any one to conjecture that any marriage subsisted between it and truth3 yea1 before the rational natural sight1 good appears so different from truth1 that no conjunction between them can be supposed4 ,that this is the case1 may be seen from common discourse whenever they are mentioned2 as when it is said1 ,this is good1 truth is not at all thought of2 and when it is said1 ,this is true1 neither is good at all thought of2 therefore at this day it is believed by many1 that truth is one thing and good another2 and by many also1 that a man is intelligent and wise1 and thereby a man 7homo71 according to the truths which he thinks1 speaks1 writes1 and believes1 and not at the same time according to goods4 ,that nevertheless there is no good without truth1 nor any truth without good1 consequently that there is an eternal marriage between them2 also that this marriage is the origin of conjugial love1 shall now be shewn and explained in the following order3 ,i4 ,good and truth are the universals of creation1 and thence are in all created things2 but they are in created subjects according to the form of each4 ,,ii4 ,there is neither solitary good nor solitary truth1 but in all cases they are conjoined4 ,,iii4 ,there is the truth of good1 and from this the good of truth2 or truth grounded in good1 and good grounded in that truth3 and in those two principles is implanted from creation an inclination to join themselves together into a one4 ,,iv4 ,in the subjects of the animal kingdom1 the truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 is male 7or masculine72 and the good of that truth1 or good grounded in that truth1 is female 7or feminine74 ,v4 ,from the influx of the marriage of good and truth from the ,lord1 the love of the sex and conjugial love are derived4 ,,vi4 ,the love of the sex belongs to the external or natural man1 and hence it is common to every animal4 ,,vii4 ,but conjugial love belongs to the internal or spiritual man2 and hence this love is peculiar to man4 ,,viii4 ,with man conjugial love is in the love of the sex as a gem in its matrix4 ,,ix4 ,the love of the sex with man is not the origin of conjugial love1 but its first rudiment2 thus it is like an external natural principle1 in which an internal spiritual principle is implanted4 ,x4 ,during the implantation of conjugial love1 the love of the sex inverts itself and becomes the chaste love of the sex4 ,,xi4 ,the male and the female were created to be the essential form of the marriage of good and truth4 ,,xii4 ,they are that form in their inmost principles1 and thence in what is derived from those principles1 in proportion as the interiors of their minds are opened4 ,we will now proceed to the explanation4 #hd4 ,i4 ,,good ,,and ,,truth ,,are ,,the ,,universals ,,of ,,creation1 ,,and ,,thence ,,are ,,in ,,all ,,created ,,things2 ,,but ,,they ,,are ,,in ,,created ,,subjects ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,form ,,of ,,each4 ,the reason why good and truth are the universals of creation1 is1 because these two are in the ,lord ,god the ,creator2 yea1 they are himself2 for he is essential divine good and essential divine truth4 ,but this enters more clearly into the perception of the understanding1 and thereby into the ideas of thought1 if instead of good we say love1 and instead of truth we say wisdom3 consequently that in the ,lord ,god the ,creator there are divine love and divine wisdom1 and that they are himself2 that is1 that he is essential love and essential wisdom2 for those two are the same as good and truth4 ,the reason of this is1 because good has relation to love1 and truth to wisdom2 for love consists of goods1 and wisdom truths4 ,as the two latter and the two former are one and the same1 in the following pages we shall sometimes speak of the latter and sometimes of the former1 while by both the same is understood4 ,this preliminary observation is here made1 lest different meanings should be attached to the expressions when they occur in the following pages4 #he4 ,since therefore the ,lord ,god the ,creator is essential love and essential wisdom1 and from him was created the universe1 which thence is as a work proceeding from him1 it must needs be1 that in all created things there is somewhat of good and of truth from him2 for whatever is done and proceeds from any one1 derives from him a certain similarity to him4 ,that this is the case1 reason also may see from the order in which all things in the universe were created2 which order is1 that one exists for the sake of another1 and that thence one depends upon another1 like the links of a chain3 for all things are for the sake of the human race1 that from it the angelic heaven may exist1 through which creation returns to the ,creator himself1 in whom it originated3 hence there is a conjunction of the created universe with its ,creator1 and by conjunction everlasting conservation4 ,hence it is that good and truth are called the universals of creation4 ,that this is the case1 is manifested to every one who takes a rational view of the subject3 he sees in every created thing something which relates to good1 and something which relates to truth4 #hf4 ,the reason why good and truth in created subjects are according to the form of each1 is1 because every subject receives influx according to its form4 ,the conservation of the whole consists in the perpetual influx of divine good and divine truth into forms created from those principles2 for thereby subsistence or conservation is perpetual existence or creation4 ,that every subject receives influx according to its form1 may be illustrated variously2 as by the influx of heat and light from the sun into vegetables of every kind2 each of which receives influx according to its form2 thus every tree and shrub according to its form1 every herb and every blade of grass according to its form3 the influx is alike into all2 but the reception1 which is according to the form1 causes every species to continue a peculiar species4 ,the same thing may also be illustrated by the influx into animals of every kind according to the form of each4 ,that the influx is according to the form of every particular thing1 may also be seen by the most unlettered person1 if he attends to the various instruments of sound1 as pipes1 flutes1 trumpets1 horns1 and organs which give forth a sound from being blown alike1 or from a like influx of air1 according to their respective forms4 #hg4 ,,ii4 ,,there ,,is ,,neither ,,solitary ,,good ,,nor ,,solitary ,,truth4 ,,but ,,in ,,all ,,cases ,,they ,,are ,,conjoined4 ,whoever is desirous from any of the senses to acquire an idea respecting good1 cannot possibly find it without the addition of something which exhibits and manifests it3 good without this is a nameless entity2 and this something1 by which it is exhibited and manifested1 has relation to truth4 ,pronounce the term good only1 and say nothing at the same time of this or that thing with which it is conjoined2 or define it abstractedly1 or without the addition of anything connected with it2 and you will see that it is a mere nothing1 and that it becomes something with its addition2 and if you examine the subject with discernment1 you will perceive that good1 without some addition1 is a term of no predication1 and thence of no relation1 of no affection1 and of no state2 in a word1 of no quality4 ,the case is similar in regard to truth1 if it be pronounced and heard without what it is joined with3 that what it is joined with relates to good1 may be seen by refined reason4 ,but since goods are innumerable1 and each ascends to its greatest1 and descends to its least1 as by the steps of a ladder1 and also1 according to its progression and quality1 varies its name1 it is difficult for any but the wise to see the relation of good and truth to their objects1 and their conjunction in them4 ,that nevertheless there is not any good without truth1 nor any truth without good1 is manifest from common perception1 provided it be first acknowledged that every thing in the universe has relation to good and truth2 as was shewn in the foregoing article1 n4 #hd1 #he4 ,that there is neither solitary good nor solitary truth1 may be illustrated and at the same time confirmed by various considerations2 as by the following3 that there is no essence without a form1 nor any form without an essence2 for good is an essence or esse2 and truth is that by which the essence is formed and the esse exists4 ,again in a man 7homo7 there are the will and the understanding4 ,good is of the will1 and truth is of the understanding2 and the will alone does nothing but by the understanding2 nor does the understanding alone do anything but from the will4 ,again1 in a man there are two fountains of bodily life1 the heart and the lungs4 ,the heart cannot produce any sensitive and moving life without the respiring lungs2 neither can the lungs without the heart4 ,the heart has relation to good1 and the respiration of the lungs to truth3 there is also a correspondence between them4 ,the case is similar in all the things of the mind and of the body belonging to him2 but we have not leisure to produce further confirmations in this place2 therefore the reader is referred to the ,,angelic ,,wisdom ,,concerning ,,the ,,divine ,,providence1 n4 #c-af1 where this subject is more fully confirmed and explained in the following order3 ,i4 ,that the universe with all its created subjects1 is from the divine love by the divine wisdom2 or1 what is the same thing1 from the divine good by the divine truth4 ,,ii4 ,that the divine good and the divine truth proceed as a one from the ,lord4 ,,iii4 ,that this one1 in a certain image1 is in every created thing4 ,v4 ,that good is not good1 only so far as it is united with truth2 and that truth is not truth1 only so far as it is united with good4 ,,vii4 ,that the ,lord doesn't suffer that any thing should be divided2 wherefore a man must either be in good and at the same time in truth1 or in evil and at the same time in falsehood3 not to mention several other considerations4 #hh4 ,,iii4 ,,there ,,is ,,the ,,truth ,,of ,,good1 ,,and ,,from ,,this ,,the ,,good ,,of ,,truth2 ,,or ,,truth ,,grounded ,,in ,,good1 ,,and ,,good ,,grounded ,,in ,,that ,,truth2 ,,and ,,in ,,those ,,two ,,principles ,,is ,,implanted ,,from ,,creation ,,an ,,inclination ,,to ,,join ,,themselves ,,together ,,into ,a ,,one4 ,it is necessary that some distinct idea be acquired concerning these principles2 because on such idea depends all knowledge respecting the essential origin of conjugial love3 for1 as will be seen presently1 the truth of good1 or truth grounded on good1 is male 7or masculine71 and the good of truth1 or good grounded in that truth1 is female 7or feminine73 but this may be comprehended more distinctly1 if instead of good we speak of love1 and instead of truth we speak of wisdom2 which are one and the same1 as may be seen above1 n4 #hd4 ,wisdom cannot exist with a man but by means of the love of growing wise2 if this love be taken away1 it is altogether impossible for him to become wise4 ,wisdom derived from this love is meant by the truth of good1 or by truth grounded in good3 but when a man has procured to himself wisdom from that love1 and loves it in himself1 or himself for its sake1 he then forms a love which is the love of wisdom1 and is meant by the good of truth1 or by good grounded in that truth4 ,there are therefore two loves belonging to a man1 whereof one1 which is prior1 is the love of growing wise2 and the other1 which is posterior1 is the love of wisdom3 but this latter love if it remains with man1 is an evil love1 and is called self-conceit1 or the love of his own intelligence4 ,that it was provided from creation1 that this love should be taken out of the man1 lest it should destroy him1 and should be transferred to the woman1 for the effecting of conjugial love1 which restores man to integrity1 will be confirmed in the following pages4 ,something respecting those two loves1 and the transfer of the latter to the woman1 may be seen above1 n4 #cb1 #cc1 and in the preliminary ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #bj4 ,if therefore instead of love is understood good1 and instead of wisdom truth1 it is evident1 from what has been already said1 that there exists the truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 and from this the good of truth1 or good grounded in that truth4 #hi4 ,the reason why in these two principles there is implanted from creation an inclination to join themselves together into a one1 is because the one was formed from the other2 wisdom being formed from the love of growing wise1 or truth being formed from good2 and the love of wisdom being formed from that wisdom1 or the good of truth from that truth2 from which formation it may be seen1 that there is a mutual inclination to re-unite themselves1 and to join themselves together into a one4 ,this effect takes place with men who are in genuine wisdom1 and with women who are in the love of that wisdom in the husband2 thus with those who are in love truly conjugial4 ,but concerning the wisdom which ought to exist with the man1 and which should be loved by the wife1 more will be said in what follows4 #ij4 ,,iv4 ,,in ,,the ,,subject ,,of ,,the ,,animal ,,kingdom ,,the ,,truth ,,of ,,good1 ,,or ,,truth ,,grounded ,,in ,,good1 ,,is ,,male 7,,or ,,masculine72 ,,and ,,the ,,good ,,of ,,that ,,truth1 ,,or ,,good ,,grounded ,,in ,,that ,,truth1 ,,is ,,female 7,,or ,,feminine74 ,that from the ,lord1 the ,creator and ,supporter of the universe1 there flows a perpetual union of love and wisdom1 or a marriage of good and truth1 and that created subjects receive the influx1 each according to its form1 was shewn above1 n4 #hd-hf3 but that the male from this marriage1 or from that union1 receives the truth of wisdom1 and that the good of love from the ,lord is conjoined thereto according to reception1 and that this reception takes place in the intellect1 and that hence the male is born to become intellectual1 reason1 by its own light1 may discover from various particulars respecting him1 especially from his affection1 application1 manners1 and form4 ,it is discoverable from his ,,affection1 which is the affection of knowing1 of understanding1 and of growing wise2 the affection of knowing takes place in childhood1 the affection of understanding in youth and in the entrance upon manhood1 and the affection of growing wise takes place from the entrance upon manhood even to old age2 from which it is evident1 that his nature or peculiar temper is inclinable to form the intellect2 consequently that he is born to become intellectual3 but as this cannot be effected except by means of love1 therefore the ,lord adjoins love to him according to his reception2 that is1 according to his intention in desiring to grow wise4 ,the same is discoverable from his ,,application1 which is to such things as respect the intellect1 or in which the intellect is predominant2 several of which relate to public offices and regard the public good4 ,the same is discoverable too from his ,,manners1 which are all grounded in the intellect as a ruling principle2 in consequence whereof the actions of his life1 which are meant by manners1 are rational2 and if not1 still he is desirous they should appear so2 masculine rationality is also discernible in every one of his virtues4 ,lastly1 the same is discoverable from his ,,form1 which is different and totally distinct from the female form2 on which subject see also what was said above1 n4 #cc4 ,add to this1 that the principle of prolification is in him1 which is derived from the intellect alone2 for it is from truth grounded in good in the intellect3 that the principle of prolification is from this source may be seen in the following pages4 #ia4 ,but that the female is born to be a subject of the will 7ut sit voluntaria71 yet a subject of the will as grounded in the intellectual principle of the man1 or what is the same1 to be the love of the man's wisdom1 because she was formed through his wisdom1 7on which subject see above1 n4 #hh1 #hi17 may also appear from the female's affection1 application1 manners1 and form4 ,from her ,,affection1 which is the affection of loving knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom2 nevertheless not in herself but in the man2 and thus of loving the man3 for the man 7vir7 cannot be loved merely on account of his form1 in that he appears as a man 7homo71 but on account of the talent with which he is gifted1 which causes him to be a man4 ,from her ,,application2 in that it is to such manual works as knitting1 needlework1 and the like1 serving for ornament1 both to decorate herself and to exalt her beauty3 and moreover from her application to various domestic duties1 which connect themselves with the duties of men1 which1 as was said1 relate to public offices4 ,they are led to these duties from an inclination to marriage1 that they may become wives1 and thereby one with their husbands4 ,that the same is also discoverable from their ,,manners and ,,form1 needs no explanation4 #ib4 ,v4 ,,from ,,the ,,influx ,,of ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth ,,from ,,the ,,lord1 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,and ,,conjugial ,,love ,,are ,,derived4 ,that good and truth are the universals of creation1 and thence are in all created subjects2 and that they are in created subjects according to the form of each2 and that good and truth proceed from the ,lord not as two but as one1 was shewn above1 n4 #hd-hg3 from these considerations it follows1 that the ,,universal ,,conjugial ,,sphere proceeds from the ,lord1 and pervades the universe from its primaries to its ultimates2 thus from angels even to worms4 ,the reason why such a sphere of the marriage of good and truth proceeds from the ,lord1 is1 because it is also the sphere of propagation1 that is1 of prolification and fructification2 and this sphere is the same with the divine providence relating to the preservation of the universe by successive generations4 ,now since this universal sphere1 which is that of the marriage of good and truth1 flows into its subjects according to the form of each1 see n4 #hf1 it follows that the male receives it according to his form1 thus in the intellect1 because he is in an intellectual form2 and that the female receives it according to her form1 thus in the will1 because she is a form of the will grounded in the intellect of the man2 and since that sphere is also the sphere of prolification1 it follows that hence is the love of the sex4 #ic4 ,the reason why conjugial love also is from this same source1 is1 because that sphere flows into the form of wisdom with men1 and also with angels2 for a man may increase in wisdom to the end of his life in the world1 and afterwards to eternity in heaven2 and in proportion as he increases in wisdom1 his form is perfected2 and this form receives not the love of the sex1 but the love of one of the sex2 for with one of the sex it may be united to the inmost principles in which heaven with its felicities consists1 and this union is conjugial love4 #id4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,belongs ,,to ,,the ,,external ,,or ,,natural ,,man1 ,,and ,,hence ,,it ,,is ,,common ,,to ,,every ,,animal4 ,every man is born corporeal1 and becomes more and more interiorly natural1 and in proportion as he loves intelligence he becomes rational1 and afterwards1 if he loves wisdom1 he becomes spiritual4 ,what the wisdom is by which a man becomes spiritual1 will be shewn in the following pages1 n4 #acj4 ,now as a man advances from knowledge into intelligence1 and from intelligence into wisdom1 so also his mind changes its form2 for it is opened more and more1 and conjoins itself more nearly with heaven1 and by heaven with the ,lord2 hence it becomes more enamored of truth1 and more desirous of the good of life4 ,if therefore he halts at the threshold in the progression to wisdom1 the form of his natural mind remains2 and this receives the influx of the universal sphere1 which is that of the marriage of good and truth1 in the same manner as it is received by the inferior subjects of the animal kingdom--beasts and birds2 and as these are merely natural1 the man in such case becomes like them1 and thereby loves the sex just as they do4 ,this is what is meant by the assertion1--the love of the sex belongs to the external or natural man1 and hence it is common to every animal4 #ie4 ,,vii4 ,,but ,,conjugial ,,love ,,belongs ,,to ,,the ,,internal ,,or ,,spiritual ,,man2 ,,and ,,hence ,,this ,,love ,,is ,,peculiar ,,to ,,man4 ,the reason why conjugial love belongs to the internal or spiritual man is1 because in proportion as a man becomes more intelligent and wise1 in the same proportion he becomes more internal and spiritual1 and in the same proportion the form of his mind is more perfected2 and this form receives conjugial love3 for therein it perceives and is sensible of a spiritual delight1 which is inwardly blessed1 and a natural delight thence arising1 which derives its soul1 life1 and essence from the spiritual delight4 #if4 ,the reason why conjugial love is peculiar to man1 is because he only can become spiritual1 he being capable of elevating his intellect above his natural loves1 and from that state of elevation of seeing them beneath him1 and of judging of their quality1 and also of amending1 correcting1 and removing them4 ,no other animal can do this2 for the loves of other animals are altogether united with their inborn knowledge2 on which account this knowledge cannot be elevated into intelligence1 and still less into wisdom2 in consequence of which every other animal is led by the love implanted in his knowledge1 as a blind person is led through the streets by a dog4 ,this is the reason which conjugial love is peculiar to man2 it may also be called native and near akin to him2 because man has the faculty of growing wise1 with which faculty this love is united4 #ig4 ,,viii4 ,,with ,,man ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,in ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,as ,a ,,gem ,,in ,,its ,,matrix4 ,as this however is merely a comparison1 we will explain it in the article which immediately follows3 this comparison also illustrates what was shown just above1 n4 #id1 #ie1--that the love of the sex belongs to the external or natural man1 and conjugial love to the internal or spiritual man4 #ih4 ,,ix4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,with ,,man ,,is ,,not ,,the ,,origin ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,but ,,its ,,first ,,rudiment2 ,,thus ,,it ,,is ,,like ,,an ,,external ,,natural ,,principle1 ,,in ,,which ,,an ,,internal ,,spiritual ,,principle ,,is ,,implanted4 ,the subject here treated of is love truly conjugial1 and not ordinary love1 which also is called conjugial1 and which with some is merely the limited love of the sex4 ,love truly conjugial exists only with those who desire wisdom1 and who consequently advance more and more into wisdom4 ,these the ,lord foresees1 and provides for them conjugial love2 which love indeed commences with them from the love of the sex1 or rather by it2 but still it does not originate in it2 for it originates in proportion to the advancement in wisdom and the dawning of the light thereof in man2 for wisdom and that love are inseparable companions4 ,the reason why conjugial love commences by the love of the sex is1 because before a suitable consort is found1 the sex in general is loved and regarded with a fond eye1 and is treated with civility from a moral ground3 for a young man has to make his choice2 and while this is determining1 from an innate inclination to marriage with one1 which lies concealed in the interiors of his mind1 his external receives a gentle warmth4 ,a further reason is1 because determinations to marriage are delayed from various causes even to riper years1 and in the mean time the beginning of that love is as lust2 which with some actually goes astray into the love of the sex2 yet with them it is indulged no further than may be conducive to health4 ,this1 however1 is to be understood as spoken of the male sex1 because it has enticements which actually inflame it2 but not of the female sex4 ,from these considerations it is evident that the love of the sex is not the origin of love truly conjugial2 but that it is its first rudiment in respect to time1 yet not in respect to end2 for what is first in respect to end1 is first in the mind and its intention1 because it is regarded as primary2 but to this first there is no approaching unless successively through mediums1 and these are not first in themselves1 but only conducive to what is first in itself4 #ii4 ,x4 ,,during ,,the ,,implantation ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,inverts ,,itself ,,and ,,becomes ,,the ,,chaste ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex4 ,it is said that in this case the love of the sex inverts itself2 because while conjugial love is coming to its origin1 which is in the interiors of the mind1 it sees the love of the sex not before itself but behind1 or not above itself but beneath1 and thus as somewhat which it passes by and leaves4 ,the case herein is similar to that of a person climbing from one office to another through a great variety1 till he reaches one which exceeds the rest in dignity2 when he looks back upon the offices through which he had passed1 as behind or beneath him2 or as when a person intends a journey to the palace of some king1 after his arrival at his journey's end1 he inverts his view in regard to the objects which he had seen in the way4 ,that in this case the love of the sex remains and becomes chaste1 and yet1 to those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 is sweeter than it was before1 may be seen from the description given of it by those in the spiritual world1 in the two ,,memorable ,,relations1 n4 #dd1 and #ee4 #ajj4 ,,xi4 ,,the ,,male ,,and ,,the ,,female ,,were ,,created ,,to ,,be ,,the ,,essential ,,form ,,of ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth4 ,the reason for this is1 because the male was created to be the understanding of truth1 thus truth in form2 and the female was created to be the will of good1 thus good in form2 and there is implanted in each1 from their inmost principles1 an inclination to conjunction into a one1 as may be seen above1 n4 #hh2 thus the two make one form1 which emulates the conjugial form of good and truth4 ,it is said to emulate it1 because it is not the same1 but is like it2 for the good which joins itself with the truth belonging to the man1 is from the ,lord immediately2 whereas the good of the wife1 which joins itself with the truth belonging to the man1 is from the ,lord mediately through the wife2 therefore there are two goods1 the one internal1 the other external1 which join themselves with the truth belonging to the husband1 and cause him to be constantly in the understanding of truth1 and thence in wisdom1 by love truly conjugial3 but on this subject more will be said in the following pages4 #aja4 ,,xii4 ,,married ,,partners ,,are ,,that ,,form ,,in ,,their ,,inmost ,,principles1 ,,and ,,thence ,,in ,,what ,,is ,,derived ,,from ,,those ,,principles1 ,,in ,,proportion ,,as ,,the ,,interiors ,,of ,,their ,,minds ,,are ,,opened4 ,there are three things of which every man consists1 and which follow in an orderly connection1--the soul1 the mind1 and the body3 his inmost is the soul1 his middle is the mind1 and his ultimate is the body4 ,every thing which flows from the ,lord into a man1 flows into his inmost principle1 which is the soul1 and descends thence into his middle principle1 which is the mind1 and through this into his ultimate principle1 which is the body4 ,such is the nature of the influx of the marriage of good and truth from the ,lord with man3 it flows immediately into his soul1 and thence proceeds to the principles next succeeding1 and through these to the extreme or outermost3 and thus conjointly all the principles constitute conjugial love4 ,from an idea of this influx it is manifest1 that two married partners are the form of conjugial love in their inmost principles1 and thence in those derived from the inmost4 #ajb4 ,but the reason why married partners become that form in proportion as the interiors of their minds are opened1 is1 because the mind is successively opened from infancy even to extreme old age3 for a man is born corporeal3 and in proportion as the mind is opened proximately above the body1 he becomes rational2 and in proportion as his rational principle is purified1 and as it were drained of the fallacies which flow in from the bodily senses1 and of the concupiscences which flow in from the allurements of the flesh1 in the same proportion it is opened2 and this is affected solely by wisdom3 and when the interiors of the rational mind are open1 the man becomes a form of wisdom2 and this form is the receptacle of love truly conjugial4 ,the wisdom which constitutes this form1 and receives this love1 is rational1 and at the same time moral1 wisdom3 rational wisdom regards the truths and goods which appear inwardly in man1 not as its own1 but as flowing in from the ,lord2 and moral wisdom shuns evils and falses as leprosies1 especially the evils of lasciviousness1 which contaminate its conjugial love4 99 99 99 99 99 #ajc4 ,to the above ,i shall add two ,,memorable ,,relations3 the ,,first is this4 ,one morning before sun-rise ,i was looking towards the east in the spiritual world1 and ,i saw four horsemen as it were issuing from a cloud refulgent with the flame of the dawning day4 ,on their heads they had crested helmets1 on their arms as it were wings1 and around their bodies light orange-colored tunics2 thus clad as for expedition1 they rose in their seats1 and gave their horses the reins1 which thus ran as if they had had wings to their feet4 ,i kept my eye fixed on their course or flight1 desiring to know where they were going2 and lo6 three of the horsemen took their direction towards three different quarters1 the south1 the west1 and the north2 and the fourth in a short space of time halted in the east4 ,wondering at all this1 ,i looked up into heaven1 and inquired where those horsemen were going8 ,i received for answer1 ,to the wise men in the kingdoms of ,europe1 who with clear reasoning and acute discernment discuss the subjects of their investigation1 and are distinguished above the rest for their genius1 that they may assemble together and explain the secret ,,respecting ,,the ,,origin ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,and ,,respecting ,,its ,,virtue ,,or ,,potency4 ,it was then said from heaven1 ,wait awhile1 and you will see twenty-seven chariots2 three1 in which are ,spaniards2 three1 in which are ,frenchmen2 three1 in which are ,italians2 three1 in which are ,germans2 three1 in which are ,dutchmen or ,hollanders2 three1 in which are ,englishmen2 three1 in which are ,swedes2 three1 in which are ,danes2 and three1 in which are ,poles4 ,in about two hours ,i saw the chariots1 drawn by horses of a pale-red color1 with remarkable trappings3 they passed rapidly along towards a spacious house in the confines of the east and south1 around which all alighted from their several chariots1 and entered in with much confidence4 ,then it was said to me1 ,go1 and do you also enter1 and you will hear4 ,i went and entered3 and on examining the house within1 ,i saw that it was square1 the sides looking to the four quarters3 in each side there were three high windows of crystalline glass1 the frames of which were of olive-wood2 on each side of the frames were projections from the walls1 like chambers vaulted above1 in which there were tables4 ,the walls of these chambers were of cedar1 the roof of the noble almug wood1 and the floor of poplar boards4 ,near the eastern wall1 where no windows were seen1 there was set a table overlaid with gold1 on which was placed a ,,turban set with precious stones1 which was to be given as a prize or reward to him who should by investigation discover the secret about to be proposed4 ,while my attention was directed to the chamber projections like closets near the windows1 ,i saw five men in each from every kingdom of ,europe1 who were prepared and waiting to know the object for the exercise of their judgements4 ,an angel then presented himself in the middle of the palace1 and said1 ,the object for the exercise of your judgements shall be ,,respecting ,,the ,,origin ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,and ,,respecting ,,its ,,virtue ,,or ,,potency4 ,investigate this and decide upon it2 and write your decision on a piece of paper1 and put it into the silver urn which you see placed near the golden table1 and subscribe the initial letter of the kingdom from which you come2 as ,f for ,french1 ,b for ,batavians or ,hollanders1 ,i for ,italians1 ,e for ,english1 ,p for ,poles1 ,g for ,german1 ,h for ,spaniards 7,hispani71 ,d for ,danes1 ,s for ,swedes4 ,as he said this1 the angel departed1 saying1 ,i will return4 ,then the five men1 natives of the same country1 in each closet near the windows1 took into consideration the proposed subject1 examined it attentively1 and came to a decision according to their respective talents and powers of judgement1 which they wrote on a piece of paper1 and placed it in the silver urn1 having first subscribed the initial letter of their kingdom4 ,this business being accomplished in about three hours1 the angel returned and drew the papers in order from the urn1 and read them before the assembly4 #ajd4 ,from the ,,first ,,paper which he happened to lay hold of1 he read as follows2 ,we five1 natives of the same country1 in one closet have decreed that the origin of conjugial love is from the most ancient people in the golden age1 and that it was derived to them from the creation of ,adam and his wife2 hence is the origin of marriages1 and with marriages the origin of conjugial love4 ,the virtue or potency of conjugial love we derive from no other source than climate or situation in regard to the sun1 and the consequent heat of the country2 and we are confirmed in this sentiment1 not by vain conjectures of reason1 but by evident proofs of experience1 as by the case of the people who live under the line1 or the equinoctial1 where the heat of the day is intense1 and by the case of those who live nearer to the line1 or more distant from it2 and also from the co-operation of the sun's heat with the vital heat in the living creatures of the earth and the fowls of heaven1 in the time of spring during prolification4 ,moreover1 what is conjugial love but heat1 which becomes virtue or potency1 if the heat supplied from the sun be added to it8 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,h1 the initial of the kingdom from which they were4 #aje4 ,after this he put his hand into the urn a ,,second ,,time1 and took out a paper from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 in our lodge have agreed that the origin of conjugial love is the same with the origin of marriages1 which were sanctioned by laws in order to restrain man's innate concupiscences prompting him to adultery1 which ruins the soul1 defiles the reason1 pollutes the morals1 and infects the body with disease3 for adultery is not human but bestial1 not rational but brutish1 and thus not in any respect ,christian but barbarous3 with a view to the condemnation of such adultery1 marriages originated1 and at the same time conjugial love4 ,the case is the same with the virtue or potency of this love2 for it depends on chastity1 which consists in abstaining from the rovings of whoredom3 the reason is1 because virtue or potency1 with him who loves his married partner alone1 is confined to one1 and is thus collected and as it were concentrated2 and then it becomes refined like a quintessence from which all defilement is separated1 which would otherwise be dispersed and cast away in every direction4 ,one of us five1 who is a priest1 has also added predestination as a cause of that virtue or potency1 saying1 ',are not marriages predestinated8 and this being the case1 are not the progeny thence issuing and the means conducive thereto1 predestinated also8' ,he insisted on adding this cause because he had sworn to it4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,b4 ,on hearing it1 a certain spirit observed with a smile1 ,how fair an apology is predestination for weakness or impotence6 #ajf4 ,presently he drew from the urn a ,,third ,,paper1 from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 in our department have deliberated concerning the causes of the origin of conjugial love1 and have seen this to be the principal1 that it is the same with the origin of marriage1 because conjugial love had no existence before marriage2 and the ground of its existence is1 that when any one is desperately in love with a virgin1 he desires in heart and soul to possess her as being lovely above all things2 and as soon as she betroths herself to him he regards her as another self4 ,that this is the origin of conjugial love1 is clearly manifest from the fury of every man against his rivals1 and from the jealousy which takes place in case of violation4 ,we afterwards considered the origin of the virtue or potency of this love2 and the sentiments of three prevailed against the other two1 viz41 that virtue or potency with a married partner arises from some degree of licentiousness with the sex4 ,they affirmed that they knew from experience that the potency of the love of the sex is greater than the potency of conjugial love4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,i4 ,on hearing it1 there was a cry from the table1 ,remove this paper and take another out of the urn4 #ajg4 ,and instantly he drew out a ,,fourth1 from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 under our window have come to this conclusion1 that the origin of conjugial love and of the love of the sex is the same1 the former being derived from the latter2 only that the love of the sex is unlimited1 indeterminate1 loose1 promiscuous1 and roving2 whereas conjugial love is limited1 determinate1 fixed1 regular1 and constant2 and that this love therefore has been sanctioned and established by the prudence of human wisdom as necessary to the existence of every empire1 kingdom1 commonwealth1 and even society2 for without it men would wander like droves of cattle in fields and forests1 with harlots and ravished females1 and would fly from one habitation to another to avoid the bloody murders1 violations1 and depredations1 whereby the whole human race would be in danger of being extirpated4 ,this is our opinion concerning the origin of conjugial love4 ,but the virtue or potency of conjugial love we deduce from an uninterrupted state of bodily health continuing from infancy to old age2 for the man who always retains a sound constitution and enjoys a continual freedom from sickness1 feels his vigor unabated1 while his fibres1 nerves1 muscles1 and sinews1 are neither torpid1 relaxed1 nor feeble1 but retain the full strength of their powers3 farewell4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,e4 #ajh4 ,,fifthly1 he drew a paper out of the urn1 from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 at our table1 from the rationality of our minds1 have examined into the origin of conjugial love and of its virtue or potency2 and from all the considerations which have presented themselves1 we have seen and concluded upon no other origin of conjugial love than this3 that every man1 from incentives and consequent incitements which are concealed in the interiors of his mind and body1 after indulging in various desires of his eyes1 at length fixes his mind and inclination on one of the female sex1 until his passion is determined entirely to her3 from this moment his warmth is enkindled more and more1 until at length it becomes a flame2 in this state the inordinate love of the sex is banished1 and conjugial love takes its place4 ,a youthful bridegroom under the influence of this flame1 knows no other than that the virtue or potency of this love will never cease2 for he wants experience and therefore knowledge respecting a state of the failure of his powers1 and of the coldness of love which then succeeds to delights3 conjugial love therefore has its origin in this first ardor before the nuptial ceremony1 and from the same source it derives its virtue or potency2 but this virtue or potency changes its aspect after the nuptial ceremony1 and decreases and increases2 yet still it continues with regular changes1 or with decrease and increase1 even to old age1 by means of prudent moderation1 and by restraining the libidinous desires which burst forth from the lurking places of the mind not yet thoroughly purified3 for libidinous desire precedes wisdom4 ,this is our judgement concerning the origin and continuance of conjugial virtue or potency4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,p4 #aji4 ,,sixthly1 he drew out a paper1 from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 from the fellowship subsisting among us1 have attentively considered the causes of the origin of conjugial love1 and have agreed in assigning two2 one of which is the right education of children1 and the other the distinct possession of inheritances4 ,we have assigned these two1 because they aim at and regard the same end1 which is the public good3 and this end is obtained1 because infants conceived and born from conjugial love become proper and true children2 and these in consequence of the natural love of the parents1 exalted by the consideration of their offspring being legitimate1 are educated to be heirs of all their parents' possessions both spiritual and natural4 ,that the public good is founded on a right education of children and on a distinct possession of inheritances1 is obvious to reason4 ,of the love of the sex and conjugial love1 the latter appears as if it were one with the former1 but it is distinctly different2 neither is the one love near to the other1 but within it2 and what is within is more excellent than what is without3 and we have seen that conjugial love from creation is within1 and lies hid in the love of the sex1 just as an almond does in its shell2 therefore when conjugial love comes out of its shell1 which is the love of the sex1 it glitters before the angels like a gem1 a beryl1 and astroites4 ,the reason of this is1 because on conjugial love is inscribed the safety of the whole human race1 which we conceive to be understood by the public good4 ,this is our judgement respecting the origin of this love4 ,with respect to the origin of its virtue or potency1 from a consideration of its causes1 we have concluded it to be the development and separation of conjugial love from the love of the sex1 which is effected by wisdom on the man's part1 and by the love of the man's wisdom on the part of the wife3 for the love of the sex is common to man and beast2 whereas conjugial love is peculiar to men3 therefore so far as conjugial love is developed and separated from the love of the sex1 so far a man is a man and not a beast2 and a man acquires virtue or potency from his love1 as a beast does from his4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,g4 #aaj4 ,,seventhly1 he drew out a paper from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 in the chamber under the light of our window1 have found our thoughts and thence our judgements exhilarated by meditating on conjugial love2 for who is not exhilarated by this love1 which1 while it prevails in the mind1 prevails also through the whole body8 ,we judge of the origin of this love from its delights2 for who in any case knows or has known the trace of any love except from its delight and pleasurableness8 ,the delights of conjugial love in their origins are felt as beatitudes1 satisfactions1 and happinesses1 in their derivations as pleasantnesses and pleasures1 and in their ultimates as superlative delights4 ,the love of the sex therefore originates when the interiors of the mind1 and thence the interiors of the body1 are opened for the influx of those delights2 but conjugial love originated at the time when1 from entering into marriage engagements1 the primitive sphere of that love ideally promoted those delights4 ,the virtue or potency of this love arises from its passing1 with its inmost principles1 from the mind into the body2 for the mind1 by derivation from the head1 is in the body1 while it feels and acts1 especially when it is delighted from this love3 hence we judge of the degrees of its potency and the regularity of its alterations4 ,moreover we also deduce the virtue of potency from the stock whence a man is descended3 if this be noble on the father's side1 it becomes also by transmission noble with his offspring4 ,that such nobility is generated1 inherited and descends by transmission1 is agreeable to the dictates of reason supported by experience4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,f4 #aaa4 ,from the paper which came forth the ,,eighth in order1 he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 in our place of assembly have not discovered the real origin of conjugial love1 because it lies deeply concealed in the sacred repositories of the mind4 ,the most consummate vision cannot1 by any intellectual effort1 reach that love in its origin4 ,we have made many conjectures2 but after the vain exertion of subtle inquiry1 we have been in doubt whether our conjectures might not be called rather trifling than judicious2 therefore whoever is desirous to extract the origin of that love from the sacred repositories of his mind1 and to exhibit it clearly before his eyes1 let him go to ,delphos4 ,we have contemplated that love beneath its origin1 and have seen that in the mind it is spiritual1 and as a fountain from which a sweet stream flows1 whence it descends into the breast1 where it becomes delightful1 and is called bosom love1 which in itself is full of friendship and confidence1 from a full inclination to reciprocality2 and that when it has passed the breast1 it becomes genial love4 ,these and similar considerations1 which a young man revolves in his mind while he is determining his choice to one of the sex1 kindle in his heart the fire of conjugial love2 which fire1 as it is the primitive of that love is its origin4 ,in respect to the origin of its virtue or potency1 we acknowledge no other than that love itself1 they being inseparable companions1 yet still they are such that sometimes the one precedes and sometimes the other4 ,when the love precedes and the virtue or potency follows it1 each is noble because in this case potency is the virtue of conjugial love2 but if the potency precedes and the love follows1 each is then ignoble2 because in this case the love is subordinate to carnal potency2 we therefore judge of the quality of each from the order in which the love descends or ascends1 and thus proceeds from its origin to its proposed end4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,d4 #aab4 ,lastly1 or ,,ninthly1 he took up a paper1 from which he read as follows3 ,we1 natives of the same country1 in our council-chamber have exercised our judgement on the two points proposed1 viz41 the origin of conjugial love1 and the origin of its virtue or potency4 ,in the subtleties of inquiry respecting the origin of conjugial love1 in order to avoid obscurity in our reasonings1 we have distinguished between the love of the sex as being spiritual1 natural1 and carnal2 and by the spiritual love of the sex we have understood love truly conjugial1 because this is spiritual2 and by the natural love of the sex we have understood polygamical love1 because this is natural2 and by the merely carnal love of the sex we have understood adulterous love because this is merely carnal4 ,in exercising our judgements to examine into love truly conjugial1 we have clearly seen that this love exists only between one male and one female1 and that from creation it is celestial and inmost1 the soul and father of all good loves1 being inspired into the first parents1 and capable of being inspired into ,christians2 it is also of such a conjunctive nature that by it two minds may become one mind1 and two men 7homines7 as it were one man 7homo72 which is meant by becoming one flesh4 ,that this love was inspired at creation1 is plain from these words in the book of creation1 ',and a man shall leave father and mother1 and shall cleave to his wife2 and they shall be one flesh1' ,gen4 ii4 #bd4 ,that it can be inspired into ,christians1 is evident from these words1 ',jesus said1 ,have ye not read1 that he who made them from the beginning1 made them male and female1 and said1 ,for this cause shall a man leave father and mother1 and shall cleave to his wife2 and they two shall be one flesh8 ,wherefore they are no longer two but one flesh1' ,matt4 xix4 #d-f4 ,so far in regard to the origin of conjugial love3 but as to the origin of the virtue or potency of love truly conjugial1 we conceive it to proceed from a similitude of minds and unanimity2 for when two minds are conjugially united1 their thoughts spiritually kiss each other1 and these inspire into the body their virtue or potency4 ,to this decision was subscribed the letter ,s4 #aac4 ,there were standing behind an oblong stage in the palace1 erected before the doors1 some strangers from ,africa1 who cried out to the natives of ,europe1 ,permit one of us to deliver his sentiments respecting the origin of conjugial love1 and respecting its virtue or potency4 ,and immediately all the tables gave signs of assent with their hands4 ,then one of them entered and stood at the table on which the turban was placed1 and said1 ,you ,christians deduce the origin of conjugial love from love itself2 but we ,africans deduce it from the ,god of heaven and earth4 ,is not conjugial love a chaste1 pure1 and holy love8 ,are not the angels of heaven principled therein8 ,is not the whole human race1 and thence the whole angelic heaven1 the seed of that love8 ,and can such super-eminent principle derive its existence from any other source than from ,god himself1 the ,creator and ,preserver of the universe8 ,you ,christians deduce conjugial virtue or potency from various causes rational and natural2 but we ,africans deduce it from the state of man's conjunction with the ,god of the universe4 ,this state we call a state of religion2 but you call it a state of the church3 for when the love is derived from that state1 and is fixed and permanent1 it must needs produce its own virtue1 which resembles it1 and thus also is fixed and permanent4 ,love truly conjugial is known only to those few who live near to ,god2 consequently the potency of that love is known to none else4 ,this potency is described by the angels in the heavens as the delight of a perpetual spring4 #aad4 ,as he said these word1 the whole assembly arose1 and lo6 behind the golden table on which lay the turban1 there appeared a window that had not before been seen2 and through it was heard a voice1 saying1 ,,the ,,african ,,is ,,to ,,have ,,the ,,turban4 ,the angel then gave it into his hand1 but did not place it upon his head2 and he went home with it4 ,the inhabitants of the kingdoms of ,europe then left the assembly and entered their chariots1 in which they returned to their respective societies4 #aae4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,awaking from sleep at midnight1 ,i saw at some elevation towards the east an angel holding in his right hand a paper1 which appeared extremely bright1 being illuminated by the light flowing from the sun4 ,in the middle of the paper there was written in golden letters1 ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth4 ,from the writing there darted forth a splendor which formed a wide circle about the paper4 ,this circle or encompassing splendor appeared like the early dawn in spring4 ,after this ,i saw the angel descending with the paper in his hand2 and as he descended the paper became less and less lucid1 and the writing1 which was ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth1 changed from a golden into a silver color1 afterwards into a copper color1 next into an iron color1 and at length into the color of iron and copper rust3 finally1 ,i saw the angel enter an obscure mist1 and through the mist descend upon the ground2 and here ,i did not see the paper1 although he still held it in his hand4 ,this happened in the world of spirits1 in which all men first assemble after their decease4 ,the angel then said to me1 ,ask those who come hither whether they see me1 or anything in my hand4 ,there came a great number2 one company from the east1 another from the south1 another from the west1 and another from the north2 and ,i asked those who came from the east and from the south1 who in the world had applied themselves to literary pursuits1 ,do you see any one here with me1 and anything in his hand8 ,they all said1 ,no4 ,i then put the same question to those who came from the west and from the north1 who in the world had believed in the words of the learned2 and these gave the same answer3 nevertheless the last of them1 who in the world had been principled in simple faith grounded in charity1 or in some degree of truth grounded in good1 when the rest were gone away1 said1 that they saw a man with a paper1 the man in a graceful dress1 and the paper with letters written upon it3 and when they applied their eyes nearer to it1 they said that they could read these words1 ,the marriage of good and truth2 and they addressed the angel1 intreating him to explain to them the meaning of the writing4 ,he said1 ,all things in the whole heaven and in the whole world1 are a marriage of good and truth2 for all things whatever1 both those which live and communicate life and those which do not live and do not communicate life1 were created from and into the marriage of good and truth4 ,there does not exist anything which was created into truth alone1 or any thing which was created into good alone3 solitary good or solitary truth is not any thing2 but by marriage they exist and become something which derives its nature and quality from that of the marriage4 ,in the ,lord the ,creator are divine good and divine truth in their very substance3 the esse of his substance is divine good1 and its existere is divine truth3 in him also they are in their very essential union2 for in him they infinitely make a one3 and since these two in the ,creator himself are a one1 therefore also they are a one in all things created from him2 hereby also the ,creator is conjoined in an eternal covenant as of marriage with all things created from himself4 ,the angel further said1 that the ,sacred ,scripture1 which proceeded immediately from the ,lord1 is in general and in particular a marriage of good and truth2 and since the church1 which is formed by the truth of doctrine1 and religion1 which is formed by the good of life agreeable to the truth of doctrine1 are with ,christians derived solely from the ,sacred ,scripture1 therefore it may manifestly appear1 that the church in general and in particular is a marriage of good and truth2 7that this is the case1 may be seen in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #cgc1 #dhc47 ,what has just been said concerning the marriage of good and truth1 is applicable also to the ,,marriage ,,of ,,charity ,,and ,,faith2 for good relates to charity1 and truth to faith4 ,some of the spirits above-mentioned who did not see the angel and the writing1 being still near1 and hearing these things1 said in an under tone1 ,yes1 we also comprehend what has been spoken2 but the angel then said to them1 ,turn aside a little from me and speak in like manner4 ,they turned aside1 and then said aloud1 ,it is not so4 ,after this the angel spoke concerning the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth with married pairs1 saying1 that if their minds were in that marriage1 the husband being truth1 and the wife the good thereof1 they would both be in the delights of the blessedness and innocence1 and thence in the happiness which the angels of heaven enjoy2 and in this state the prolific principle of the husband would be in a continual spring1 and thereby in the endeavour and vigor of propagating its truth1 and the wife would be in a continual reception thereof from a principle of love4 ,the wisdom which husbands derive from the ,lord1 is sensible of no greater delight than to propagate its truths2 and the love of wisdom which wives have from the ,lord is sensible of no higher gratification than to receive those truths as it were in the womb1 and thus to conceive them1 to carry them in the womb1 and to bring them forth4 ,spiritual prolifications with the angels of heaven are of this sort2 and if you are disposed to believe it1 natural prolifications are also from the same origin4 ,the angel1 after a salutation of peace1 raised himself from the ground1 and passing through the mist ascended into heaven2 and then the paper shone as before according to the degrees of ascent2 and behold6 the circle1 which before appeared as the dawn of day1 descended and dispelled the mist which caused darkness on the ground1 and a bright sunshine succeeded4 ,,on ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,lord ,,and ,,the ,,church1 ,,and ,,its ,,correspondence4 #aaf4 ,the reason why the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 together with its correspondence1 is here also treated of1 is1 because without knowledge and intelligence on this subject1 scarcely any one can know1 that conjugial love in its origin is holy1 spiritual1 and celestial1 and that it is from the ,lord4 ,it is said indeed by some in the church1 that marriages have relation to the marriage of the ,lord with the church2 but the nature and quality of this relationship is unknown1 in order therefore that this relationship may be exhibited to the understanding so as to be seen in some degree of light1 it is necessary to treat particularly of that holy marriage which has place with and in those who are the ,lord's church4 ,these also1 and no others1 are principled in love truly conjugial4 ,but for the better elucidation of this arcanum1 it may be expedient to consider the subject distinctly1 as arranged under the following articles3 ,i4 ,the ,lord in the ,word is called the ,bridegroom and ,husband1 and the church the bride and wife2 and the conjunction of the ,lord with the church1 and the reciprocal conjunction of the church with the ,lord1 is called a marriage4 ,,ii4 ,the ,lord is also called a ,father1 and the church1 a mother4 ,,iii4 ,the offspring derived from the ,lord as a husband and father1 and from the church as a wife and mother1 are all spiritual2 and in the spiritual sense of the ,word are understood by sons and daughters1 brothers and sisters1 sons-in-law and daughters-in-law1 and by other names of relations4 ,,iv4 ,the spiritual offspring1 which are born from the ,lord's marriage with the church are truths and goods2 truths1 from which are derived understanding1 perception1 and all thought2 and goods1 from which are derived love1 charity1 and all affection4 ,v4 ,from the marriage of good and truth1 which proceeds from the ,lord in the way of influx1 man 7homo7 receives truth1 and the ,lord conjoins good thereto2 and thus the church is formed by the ,lord with man4 ,,vi4 ,the husband does not represent the ,lord and the wife the church2 because both together1 the husband and the wife1 constitute the church4 ,,vii4 ,therefore there is not a correspondence of the husband with the ,lord and of the wife with the church1 in the marriages of the angels in the heavens and of men on earth4 ,,viii4 ,but there is a correspondence with conjugial love1 semination1 prolification1 the love of infants1 and similar things which exist in marriages1 and are derived from them4 ,,ix4 ,the ,word is the medium of conjunction1 because it is from the ,lord1 and therefore is the ,lord4 ,x4 ,the church is from the ,lord1 and exists with those who come to him1 and live according to his precepts4 ,,xi4 ,conjugial love is according to the state of the church1 because it is according to the state of wisdom with man 7homo74 ,,xii4 ,and as the church is from the ,lord1 conjugial love is also from him4 ,we proceed to the explanation of each article4 #aag4 ,i4 ,,the ,,lord ,,in ,,the ,,word ,,is ,,called ,,the ,,bridegroom ,,and ,,husband1 ,,and ,,the ,,church ,,the ,,bride ,,and ,,wife2 ,,and ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,the ,,lord ,,with ,,the ,,church1 ,,and ,,the ,,reciprocal ,,conjunction ,,of ,,the ,,church ,,with ,,the ,,lord1 ,,is ,,called ,a ,,marriage4 ,that the ,lord in the ,word is called the ,bridegroom and ,husband1 and the church the bride and wife1 may appear from the following passages3 ,he that hath the ,,bride is the ,,bridegroom2 but the friend of the ,,bridegroom1 who standeth and heareth him1 rejoiceth with joy because of the ,,bridegroom',s voice1 ,john iii4 #bi3 this was spoken by ,john the ,baptist concerning the ,lord4 ,jesus said1 so long as the ,,bridegroom is with them1 the ,,sons ,,of ,,the ,,nuptials cannot fast3 the days will come when the ,,bridegroom will be taken away from them1 and then will they fast1 ,matt ix4 #ae2 ,mark ii4 #ai1 #bj2 ,luke v4 #cd1 #ce4 ,i saw the holy city1 ,new ,jerusalem1 prepared as a ,,bride adorned for ,,her ,,husband1 ,rev4 xxi4 #b4 ,the ,new ,jerusalem signifies the ,new ,church of the ,lord1 as may be seen in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #hhj1 #hha4 ,the angel said to ,john1 ,come1 and ,i will shew thee the ,,bride1 ,,the ,,lamb',s ,,wife3 and he shewed him the holy city1 ,new ,jerusalem1 ,rev4 xxi4 #i1 #aj4 ,the time of the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,lamb is come1 and ,,his ,,wife hath made herself ready4 ,blessed are those who are called to the supper of the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,lamb1 ,rev4 xix4 #g1 #i4 ,the ,,bridegroom1 whom the five prepared virgins went forth to meet1 and with ,,whom they entered in to the ,,marriage1 ,matt4 xxv4 #a-aj1 denotes the ,lord2 as is evident from verse #ac1 where it is said1 ,watch1 therefore2 because ye know neither the day nor the hour in which the ,,son ,,of ,,man will come3 not to mention many passages in the prophets4 #aah4 ,,ii4 ,,the ,,lord ,,is ,,also ,,called ,a ,,father1 ,,and ,,the ,,church1 ,a ,,mother4 ,the ,lord is called a ,father1 as appears from the following passages3 ,unto us a child is born2 unto us a son is given2 and his name shall be called1 ,wonderful1 ,counsellor1 ,,god1 ,,the ,,father ,,of ,,eternity1 the ,prince of ,peace1 ,isaiah ix4 #f4 ,thou1 ,,jehovah1 art ,,our ,,father1 our ,,redeemer2 thy name is from an age1 ,isaiah lxiii4 #af4 ,again1 ,jesus said1 ,he that seeth ,,me1 seeth the ,,father that sent ,,me1 ,john xii4 #de4 ,if ye have known ,,me1 ye have known my ,,father also2 and henceforth ye have known him1 and have seen him1 ,john xiv4 #g4 ,philip said1 ,shew us the ,,father3 ,jesus said unto him1 ,he that seeth me1 seeth the ,,father2 how sayest them then1 ,shew us the ,,father8 ,john xiv4 #h1 #i4 ,jesus said1 ,the ,,father and ,i are one1 ,john x4 #cj4 ,all things that the ,,father hath are ,,mine1 ,john xvi4 #ae2 chap4 xvii4 #aj4 ,the ,,father is in ,,me1 and ,i ,,in ,,the ,,father1 ,john x4 #ch2 chap1 xiv #aj1 #aa1 #bj4 ,that the ,lord and his ,father are one1 as the soul and the body are one1 and that ,god the ,father descended from heaven1 and assumed the human 7nature or principle71 to redeem and save men1 and that his human nature is what is called the ,son1 and is said to be sent into the world1 has been fully shewn in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed4 #aai4 ,the church is called a mother1 as appears from the following passages3 ,jehovah said1 ,contend with ,,your ,,mother3 she is not ,,my ,,wife1 and ,i am not her ,,husband4 ,hosea ii4 #b1 #e4 ,thou art thy ,,mother',s daughter1 that loatheth her ,,husband1 ,ezek4 xvi4 #de4 ,where is the hill of thy ,,mother',s divorcement1 whom ,i have put away8 ,isaiah l4 #a4 ,thy ,,mother was like a vine planted by the waters1 bearing fruit1 ,ezek4 xix4 #aj2 speaking of the ,jewish church4 ,jesus stretching out his hand to the disciples1 said1 ,,my ,,mother and my brethren are those who hear the ,word of ,god1 and do it1 ,luke viii4 #ba2 ,matt4 xii4 #di1 #ej2 ,mark iii4 #cc-ce3 the ,lord's disciples means the church4 ,there was standing at the cross of ,jesus his mother3 and ,jesus seeing his mother and the disciple whom he loved1 standing by1 he saith unto his mother1 ,woman1 behold thy son2 and he saith to the disciple1 ,behold thy mother3 wherefore from that hour the disciple took her unto his own1 ,john xix4 #be-bg4 ,this implies1 that the ,lord did not acknowledge ,mary as a mother1 but the church2 therefore he calls her ,woman1 and the disciple's mother4 ,the reason why the ,lord called her the mother of this disciple1 or of ,john1 was1 because ,john represented the church as to the goods of charity1 which are the church in real effect2 therefore it is said1 ,he took her unto his own4 ,peter represented truth and faith1 ,james charity1 and ,john the works of charity1 as may be seen in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #e1 #f1 #gij1 #gih1 #hgi2 and the twelve disciples together represented the church as to all its constituent principles1 as may be seen1 ,ibid1 n4 #bcc1 #gij1 #ijc1 #iae4 #abj4 ,,iii4 ,,the ,,offspring ,,derived ,,from ,,the ,,lord ,,as ,a ,,husband ,,and ,,father1 ,,and ,,from ,,the ,,church ,,as ,a ,,wife ,,and ,,mother1 ,,are ,,all ,,spiritual2 ,,and ,,in ,,the ,,spiritual ,,sense ,,of ,,the ,,word ,,are ,,understood ,,by ,,sons ,,and ,,daughters1 ,,brothers ,,and ,,sisters1 ,,sons-,,in-,,law1 ,,and ,,daughters-,,in-,,law1 ,,and ,,by ,,other ,,names ,,of ,,relations4 ,that no other than spiritual offspring are born of the ,lord by the church1 is a proposition which wants no demonstration1 because reason sees it to be self-evident2 for it is the ,lord from whom every good and truth proceeds1 and it is the church which receives them and brings them into effect2 and all the spiritual things of heaven and the church relate to good and truth4 ,hence it is that sons and daughters in the ,word1 in its spiritual sense1 signify truths and goods3 sons1 truths conceived in the spiritual man1 and born in1 the natural2 and daughters1 goods in like manner3 therefore those who are regenerated by the ,lord1 are called in the ,word sons of ,god1 sons of the kingdom1 born of him2 and the ,lord called the disciples sons3 the male child1 that the woman brought forth1 and that was caught up to ,god1 ,rev4 xii4 #e1 has a similar signification2 see ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #edc4 ,since daughters signify goods of the church1 therefore in the ,word mention is so frequently made of the daughter of ,zion1 the daughter of ,jerusalem1 the daughter of ,israel1 and the daughter of ,judah2 by whom is signified not any daughter1 but the affection of good1 which is an affection of the church2 see also ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #fab4 ,the ,lord also calls those who are of his church1 brethren and sisters2 see ,matt4 xii4 #di1 #ej2 chap4 xxv4 #dj2 chap1 xxviii4 #aj2 ,mark iii4 #ce2 ,luke viii4 #ba4 #aba4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,spiritual ,,offspring1 ,,which ,,are ,,born ,,from ,,the ,,lord',s ,,marriage ,,with ,,the ,,church1 ,,are ,,truths ,,and ,,goods2 ,,truths1 ,,from ,,which ,,are ,,derived ,,understanding1 ,,perception1 ,,and ,,all ,,thought2 ,,and ,,goods1 ,,from ,,which ,,are ,,derived ,,love1 ,,charity1 ,,and ,,all ,,affection4 ,the reason why truths and goods are the spiritual offspring1 which are born of the ,lord by the church1 is1 because the ,lord is essential good and essential truth1 and these in him are not two but one2 also1 because nothing can proceed from the ,lord but what is in him1 and what he is4 ,that the marriage of truth and good proceeds from the ,lord1 and flows in with men1 and is received according to the state of the mind and life of those who are of the church1 was shewn in the foregoing section on the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth4 ,the reason why by means of truths a man has understanding1 perception1 and all thought1 and by means of goods has love1 charity1 and all affection1 is1 because all things of man relate to truth and good2 and there are two constituents of man--the will and the understanding2 the will being the receptacle of good1 and the understanding of truth4 ,that love1 charity and affection1 belong to the will1 and that perception and thought belong to the understanding1 may appear without the aid of light arising from demonstration2 for there is a light derived from the understanding itself by which these propositions are seen to be self-evident4 #abb4 ,v4 ,,from ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth1 ,,which ,,proceeds ,,from ,,the ,,lord ,,in ,,the ,,way ,,of ,,influx1 ,,man 7homo7 ,,receives ,,truth1 ,,and ,,the ,,lord ,,conjoins ,,good ,,thereto2 ,,and ,,thus ,,the ,,church ,,is ,,formed ,,by ,,the ,,lord ,,with ,,man4 ,the reason why a man receives truth by virtue of the good and truth which proceed as a one from the ,lord1 is1 because he receives this as his own1 and appropriates it to himself as his own2 for he thinks what is true as from himself1 and in like manner speaks from what is true2 and this takes place because truth is in the light of the understanding1 and hence he sees it3 and whatever he sees in himself1 or in his mind1 he knows not whence it is2 for he does not see the influx1 as he sees those objects which strike upon the bodily vision2 hence he supposes that it is himself4 ,that it should appear thus1 is granted by the ,lord to him1 in order that he may be a man 7homo71 and that he may have a reciprocal principle of conjunction3 add to this1 that every man is born a faculty of knowing1 understanding1 and growing wise2 and this faculty receives truths1 whereby it has knowledges1 intelligence1 and wisdom4 ,and since the female was created through the truth of the male1 and is formed into the love thereof more and more after marriage1 it follows1 that she also receives the husband's truth in herself1 and conjoins it with her own good4 #abc4 ,the ,lord adjoins and conjoins good to the truths which a man receives1 because he cannot take good as of himself1 it being no object of his sight1 as it does not relate to light1 but to heat1 which is felt and not seen2 therefore when a man sees truth in his thought1 he seldom reflects upon the good which flows into it from the love of the will1 and which gives it life3 neither does a wife reflect upon the good belonging to her1 but upon the husband's inclination towards her1 which is according to the assent of his understanding to wisdom3 the good which belongs to her from the ,lord1 she applies1 without the husband's knowing any thing respecting such application4 ,from these considerations then it plainly appears1 that a man receives truth from the ,lord1 and that the ,lord adjoins good to that truth1 according to the application of truth to use2 consequently as the man is desirous to think1 and thence to live1 wisely4 #abd4 ,the church is thus formed with a man by the ,lord1 because in such case he is in conjunction with the ,lord1 in good from ,him1 and in truth as from himself2 thus he is in the ,lord1 and the ,lord in him1 according to the ,lord's words in ,john xv4 #d31 #e4 ,the case is the same1 if instead of good we say charity1 and instead of truth faith2 because good is of charity1 and truth is of faith4 #abe4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,husband ,,does ,,not ,,represent ,,the ,,lord1 ,,and ,,the ,,wife ,,the ,,church2 ,,because ,,both ,,together1 ,,the ,,husband ,,and ,,the ,,wife1 ,,constitute ,,the ,,church4 ,it is a ,common saying in the church1 that as the ,lord is the ,head of the church1 so the husband is the head of the wife2 whence it should follow1 that the husband represents the ,lord1 and the wife the church3 but the ,lord is the ,head of the church2 and man 7homo71 the man 7vir7 and the woman1 are the church2 and still more the husband and wife together4 ,with these the church is first implanted in the man1 and through him in the wife2 because the man with his understanding receives the truth of the church1 and the wife from the man2 but if it be vice versa1 it is not according to order3 sometimes1 however1 this is the case2 but then it is with men1 who either are not lovers of wisdom1 and consequently are not of the church1 or who are in a servile dependence on the will of their wives4 ,something on this subject may be seen in the preliminary ,,relations1 n4 #ba4 #abf4 ,,vii4 ,,therefore ,,there ,,is ,,not ,a ,,correspondence ,,of ,,the ,,husband ,,with ,,the ,,lord ,,and ,,of ,,the ,,wife ,,with ,,the ,,church1 ,,in ,,the ,,marriages ,,of ,,the ,,angels ,,in ,,the ,,heavens ,,and ,,of ,,men ,,on ,,earth4 ,this follows as a consequence from what has just been said2 to which1 nevertheless1 it may be expedient to add1 that it appears as if truth was the primary constituent of the church1 because it is first in respect to time3 from this appearance1 the prelates of the church have exalted faith1 which is of truth1 above charity1 which is of good2 in like manner the learned have exalted thought1 which is of the understanding1 above affection1 which is of the will2 therefore the knowledge of what the good of charity and the affection of the will are1 lies deeply buried as in a tomb1 while some even cast earth upon them1 as upon the dead1 to prevent their rising again4 ,that the good of charity1 notwithstanding1 is the primary constituent of the church1 may be plainly seen by those who have not closed the way from heaven to their understandings1 by confirmations in favor of faith1 as the sole constituent of the church1 and in favor of thought1 as the sole constituent of man4 ,now as the good of charity is from the ,lord1 and the truth of faith is with a man as from himself1 and these two principles cause conjunction of the ,lord with man1 and of man with the ,lord1 such as is understood by the ,lord's words1 that ,he is in them1 and they in ,him1 ,john xv4 #d1 #e1 it is evident that this conjunction constitutes the church4 #abg4 ,,viii4 ,,but ,,there ,,is ,a ,,correspondence ,,with ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,semination1 ,,prolification1 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants1 ,,and ,,similar ,,things ,,which ,,exist ,,in ,,marriages ,,and ,,are ,,derived ,,from ,,them4 ,these1 however1 are arcana of too deep a nature to enter the understanding with any degree of light1 unless preceded by knowledge concerning correspondence2 nor is it possible1 if this knowledge be wanting1 so to explain them as to make them comprehensible4 ,but what correspondence is1 and that it exists between natural things and spiritual1 is abundantly shown in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 also in the ,,arcana ,,coelestia1 and specifically in the ,,doctrine ,,of ,,the ,,new ,,jerusalem ,,concerning ,,the ,,sacred ,,scripture1 and particularly in a ,,memorable ,,relation respecting it in the following pages4 ,before some knowledge on this subject is acquired1 we will only present to the intellectual view1 as in a shade1 these few particulars3 conjugial love corresponds to the affection of genuine truth1 its chastity1 purity1 and sanctity2 semination corresponds to the potency of truth2 prolification corresponds to the propagation of truth2 and the love of infants corresponds to the defence of truth and good4 ,now as truth with a man 7homo7 appears as his own1 and good is adjoined thereto from the ,lord1 it is evident that these correspondences are those of the natural or external man with the spiritual or internal man3 but some degree of light will be reflected on this subject from the ,,memorable ,,relations which follow4 #abh4 ,,ix4 ,,the ,,word ,,is ,,the ,,medium ,,of ,,conjunction1 ,,because ,,it ,,is ,,from ,,the ,,lord1 ,,and ,,therefore ,,is ,,the ,,lord4 ,the ,word is the medium of conjunction of the ,lord with man 7homo71 and of man with the ,lord1 because in its essence it is divine truth united to divine good1 and divine good united to divine truth3 that this union exists in every part of the ,word in its celestial and spiritual sense1 may be seen in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #cgc1 #dhc1 #fhi1 #hha2 whence it follows1 that the ,word is the perfect marriage of good and truth2 and as it is from the ,lord1 and what is from him is also himself1 it follows1 that while a man reads the ,word1 and collects truths out of it1 the ,lord adjoins good4 ,for a man does not see the goods which affect him in reading2 because he reads the ,word from the understanding1 and the understanding acquires thence only such things as are of its own nature1 that is1 truths4 ,that good is adjoined thereto from the ,lord1 is made sensible to the understanding from the delight which flows in during a state of illustration2 but this takes place interiorly with those only who read the ,word to the end that they may become wise2 and such persons are desirous of learning the genuine truths contained in the ,word1 and thereby of forming the church in themselves2 whereas those who read the ,word only with a view to gain the reputation of learning1 and those also who read it from an opinion that the mere reading or hearing it inspires faith and conduces to salvation1 do not receive any good from the ,lord2 for the end proposed by the latter is to save themselves by the mere expressions contained in the ,word1 in which there is nothing of truth2 and the end proposed by the former is to be distinguished for their learning2 which end has no conjunction with any spiritual good1 but only with the natural delight arising from worldly glory4 ,as the ,word is the medium of conjunction1 it is therefore called the old and the new ,covenant3 a covenant signifies conjunction4 #abi4 ,x4 ,,the ,,church ,,is ,,from ,,the ,,lord1 ,,and ,,exists ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,come ,,to ,,him ,,and ,,live ,,according ,,to ,,his ,,precepts4 ,it is not denied at this day that the church is the ,lord's1 and consequently that it is from the ,lord4 ,the reason why it exists with those who come to him1 is1 because his church in that part of the globe which is called ,christian1 is derived from the ,word2 and the ,word is from him1 and in such a manner from him1 that it is himself1 the divine truth being therein united to the divine good1 and this also is the ,lord4 ,this is meant by the ,word1 which was with ,god1 and which was ,god1 from which men have life and light1 and which was made flesh1 ,john i4 #a-ad4 ,moreover1 the reason why the church exists with those who come to him1 is1 because it exists with those who believe in him2 and to believe that he is ,god the ,saviour and ,redeemer1 that he is ,jehovah our justice1 that he is the door by which we are to enter into the sheepfold1 that is1 into the church1 that he is the way1 the truth1 and the life1 and that no one comes to the ,father but by him1 that the ,father and he are one1 besides many other particulars which he himself teaches2 to believe these things1 ,i say1 is impossible for any one1 except by influence from him2 and the reason why this is impossible unless he be approached1 is1 because he is the ,god of heaven and earth1 as he also teaches4 ,who else is to be approached1 and who else can be8 ,the reason why the church exists with those who live according to his precepts1 is1 because there is conjunction with none else2 for he says1 ,he that hath my precepts1 and doeth them1 he it is that loveth me2 and ,i will love him1 and will make my abode with him3 but he that doth not love me1 doth not keep my precepts1 ,john ,,xiv4 #ba-bd4 ,love is conjunction2 and conjunction with the ,lord is the church4 #acj4 ,,xi4 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,the ,,church1 ,,because ,,it ,,is ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,wisdom ,,with ,,man 7homo74 ,that conjugial love is according to the state of wisdom with man1 has been often said above1 and will be often repeated in the following pages3 at present therefore we will show what wisdom is1 and that it makes one with the church4 ,there are belonging to man knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom4 ,knowledge relates to information2 intelligence1 to reason2 and wisdom to life4 ,wisdom considered in its fulness relates at the same time to information1 to reason1 and to life3 information precedes1 reason is formed by it1 and wisdom by both2 as is the case when a man lives rationally according to the truths which he knows4 ,wisdom therefore relates to both reason and life at once2 and it becomes 7or is making7 wisdom while it is a principle of reason and thence of life2 but it is wisdom when it is made a principle of life and thence of reason4 ,the most ancient people in this world acknowledged no other wisdom than the wisdom of life2 which was the wisdom of those who were formerly called ,,sophi3 but the ancient people1 who succeeded the most ancient1 acknowledged the wisdom of reason as wisdom2 and these were called ,,philosophers4 ,at this day1 however1 many call even knowledge1 wisdom2 for the learned1 the erudite1 and the mere sciolists1 are called wise2 thus wisdom has declined from its mountain-top to its valley4 ,but it may be expedient briefly to shew what wisdom is in its rise1 in its progress1 and thence in its full state4 ,the things relating to the church1 which are called spiritual1 reside in the inmost principles with man2 those relating to the public weal1 which are called things of a civil nature1 hold a place below these2 and those relating to science1 to experience1 and to art1 which are called natural things1 constitute their seat or basis4 ,the reason why the things relating to the church1 which are called spiritual1 reside in the inmost principles with man1 is1 because they conjoin themselves with heaven1 and by heaven with the ,lord2 for no other things enter from the ,lord through heaven with man4 ,the reason why the things relating to the public weal1 which are called things of a civil nature1 hold a place beneath spiritual things1 is1 because they have relation to the world1 and conjoin themselves with it2 for statutes1 laws1 and rules1 are what bind men1 so that a civil society and state may be composed of them in a well-connected order4 ,the reason why the things relating to science1 to experience1 and to art1 which are called natural1 constitute their seat or basis1 is1 because they conjoin themselves closely with the five bodily senses2 and these senses are the ultimates on which the interior principles of the mind and the inmost principles of the soul1 as it were sit or rest4 ,now as the things relating to the church1 which are called spiritual1 reside in the inmost principles1 and as the things residing in the inmost principles constitute the head1 and the succeeding things beneath them1 which are called things of a civil nature1 constitute the body1 and the ultimate things1 which are called natural1 constitute the feet2 it is evident1 that while these three kinds of things follow in their order1 a man is a perfect man2 for in such case there is an influx like that of the things of the head into those of the body1 and through the body into the feet2 thus spiritual things flow into things of a civil nature1 and through them into natural things4 ,now as spiritual things are in the light of heaven1 it is evident that by their light they illustrate the things which succeed in order1 and by their heat1 which is love1 animate them2 and when this is the case the man has wisdom4 ,as wisdom is a principle of life1 and thence of reason1 as was said above1 it may be asked1 ,what is wisdom as a principle of life8 ,in a summary view1 it is to shun evils1 because they are hurtful to the soul1 to the public weal1 and to the body2 and it is to do goods1 because they are profitable to the soul1 to the public weal1 and to the body4 ,this is the wisdom which is meant by the wisdom to which conjugial love binds itself2 for it binds itself thereto by shunning the evil of adultery as the pest of the soul1 of the public weal1 and of the body3 and as this wisdom originates in spiritual things relating to the church1 it follows1 that conjugial love is according to the state of the church2 because it is according to the state of wisdom with men4 ,hereby also is understood what has been frequently said above1 that so far as a man becomes spiritual1 so far he is principled in love truly conjugial2 for a man becomes spiritual by means of the spiritual things of the church4 ,more observations respecting the wisdom with which conjugial love conjoins itself1 may be seen below1 n4 #afc-afe4 #aca4 ,,xii4 ,,and ,,as ,,the ,,church ,,is ,,from ,,the ,,lord1 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,also ,,from ,,him4 ,as this follows as a consequence from what has been said above1 it is needless to dwell upon the confirmation of it4 ,moreover1 that love truly conjugial is from the ,lord1 all the angels of heaven testify2 and also that this love is according to their state of wisdom1 and that their state of wisdom is according to the state of the church with them4 ,that the angels of heaven thus testify1 is evident from the ,,memorable ,,relations annexed to the chapters1 containing an account of what was seen and heard in the spiritual world4 99 99 99 99 99 #acb4 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,i was conversing on a time with two angels1 one from the eastern heaven and the other from the southern2 who perceiving me engaged in meditation on the arcana of wisdom relating to conjugial love1 said1 ,are you at all acquainted with the ,,schools ,,of ,,wisdom in our world8 ,i replied1 ,not as yet4 ,and they said1 ,there are several2 and those who love truths from spiritual affection1 or because they are truths1 and because they are the means of attaining wisdom1 meet together on a given signal1 and investigate and decide upon such questions as require deeper consideration than common4 ,they then took me by the hand1 saying1 ,follow us2 and you shall see and hear3 to-day the signal for meeting is given4 ,i was led across a plain to a hill2 and lo6 at the foot of the hill was an avenue of palms continued even to its summit1 which we entered and ascended3 on the summit or top of the hill was a grove1 the trees of which1 on an elevated plot of ground1 formed as it were a theatre1 within which was a court paved with various colored stones3 around it in a square form were placed seats1 on which the lovers of wisdom were seated2 and in the middle of the theatre was a table1 on which was laid a sealed paper4 ,those who sat on the seats invited us to sit down where there was room3 and ,i replied1 ,i was led here by two angels to see and hear1 and not to sit down4 ,then those two angels went into the middle of the court to the table1 and broke the seal of the paper1 and read in the presence of those who were seated the arcana of wisdom written on the paper1 which were now to be investigated and explained4 ,they were written by angels of the third heaven1 and let down upon the table4 ,there were three arcana1 ,,first1 ,what is the image of ,god1 and what the likeness of ,god1 into which man 7homo7 was created8 ,,second1 ,why is not a man born into the knowledge of any love1 when yet beasts and birds1 from the highest to the lowest1 are born into the knowledge of all their loves8 ,,third1 ,what is signified by the tree of life1 and what by the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 and what by eating thereof8 ,underneath was written1 ,collect your opinions on these three questions into one decision1 and write it on a new piece of paper1 and lay it on this table1 and we shall see it3 if the decision1 on examination1 appear just and reasonable1 each of you shall receive a prize of wisdom4 ,having read the contents of the paper1 the two angels withdrew1 and were carried up into their respective heavens4 ,then those who sat on the seats began to investigate and explain the arcana proposed to them1 and delivered their sentiments in order2 first those who sat on the north1 next those on the west1 afterwards those on the south1 and lastly those on the east4 ,they began with the first subject of inquiry1 ,,what ,,is ,,the ,,image ,,of ,,god1 ,,and ,,what ,,the ,,likeness ,,of ,,god1 ,,into ,,which ,,man ,,was ,,created8 ,but before they proceeded1 these words were read in the presence of them all out of the book of creation1 ,god said1 ,let us make man into ,,our ,,image1 according to ,,our ,,likeness3 and ,god created man into ,,his ,,image2 into the ,,image ,,of ,,god created he him1 ,gen4 i4 #bf1 #bg4 ,in the day that ,god created man1 into the ,,likeness ,,of ,,god made he him1 ,gen4 v4 #a4 ,those who sat on the north spoke first1 saying1 ,the image of ,god and the likeness of ,god are the two lives breathed into man by ,god1 which are the life of the understanding2 for it is written1 ',jehovah ,god breathed into ,adam's nostril the soul of ,,lives2 and man became a living soul1' ,gen4 ii4 #g2 into the nostrils denotes into the perception1 that the will of good and the understanding of truth1 and thereby the soul of lives1 was in him2 and since life from ,god was breathed into him1 the image and likeness of ,god signify integrity derived from wisdom and love1 and from justice and judgment in him4 ,these sentiments were favored by those who sat to the west2 only they added1 that the state of integrity then breathed in from ,god is continually breathed into every man since2 but that it is a man as in a receptacle2 and a man1 as he is a receptacle1 is an image and likeness of ,god4 ,after this1 the third in order1 who were those who were seated on the south1 delivered their sentiments as follows3 ,an image of ,god and a likeness of ,god are two distinct things2 but in man they are united from creation2 and we see1 as from an interior light1 that the image of ,god maybe destroyed by man1 but not the likeness of ,god4 ,this appears as clear as the day from this consideration1 that ,adam retained the likeness of ,god after that he had lost the image of ,god2 for it is written after the curse1 ',behold the man is as one of us1 knowing good and evil1' ,gen4 iii4 #bb2 and afterwards he is called a likeness of ,god1 and not an image of ,god1 ,gen4 v4 #a4 ,but we will leave to our associates who sit on the east1 and are thence in superior light1 to say what is properly meant by an image of ,god1 and what by a likeness of ,god4 ,and then1 after silence was obtained1 those who sat on the east arose from their seats1 and looked up to the ,lord1 and afterwards sat down again1 and thus began3 ,an image of ,god is a receptacle of ,god2 and since ,god is love itself and wisdom itself1 an image of ,god is a receptacle of love and wisdom from ,god in it2 but a likeness of ,god is a perfect likeness and full appearance1 as if love and wisdom are in a man1 and thence altogether as his2 for a man has no other sensation than that he loves and is wise from himself1 or that he wills good and understands truth from himself2 when nevertheless nothing of all this is from himself1 but from ,god4 ,god alone loves from himself and is wise from himself2 because ,god is love itself and wisdom itself4 ,the likeness or appearance that love and wisdom1 or good and truth1 are in a man as his1 causes a man to be a man1 and makes him capable of being conjoined to ,god1 and thereby of living to eternity3 from which consideration it follows1 that a man is a man from this circumstance1 that he can will good and understand truth altogether as from himself1 and yet know and believe that it is from ,god2 for as he knows and believes this1 ,god places his image in him1 which could not be if he believed it was from himself and not from ,god4 ,as they said this1 being overpowered with zeal derived from the love of truth1 they thus continued3 ,how can a man receive any thing of love and wisdom1 and retain it1 and reproduce it1 unless he feel it as his own8 ,and how can there be conjunction with ,god by love and wisdom1 unless a man have some reciprocity of conjunction8 ,for without such a reciprocity conjunction is impossible2 and the reciprocity of conjunction is1 that a man should love ,god1 and enjoy the things which are of ,god1 as from himself1 and yet believe that it is from ,god4 ,also1 how can a man live eternally1 unless he be conjoined to an eternal ,god8 ,consequently how can a man be a man without such a likeness of ,god in him8 ,these words met with the approbation of the whole assembly2 and they said1 ,let this conclusive decision be made from them1 ,a man is a recipient of ,god1 and a recipient of ,god is an image of ,god2 and since ,god is love itself and wisdom itself1 a man is a recipient of those principles2 and a recipient becomes an image of ,god in proportion to reception2 and a man is a likeness of ,god from this circumstance1 that he feels in himself that the things which are of ,god are in him as his own2 but still from that likeness he is only so far an image of ,god1 as he acknowledges that love and wisdom1 or good and truth1 are not his own in him1 and consequently are not from him1 but are only in ,god1 and consequently from ,god4 #acc4 ,after this1 they entered upon the next subject of discussion1 ,,why ,,is ,,not ,a ,,man ,,born ,,into ,,the ,,knowledge ,,of ,,any ,,love1 ,,when ,,yet ,,beasts ,,and ,,birds1 ,,from ,,the ,,highest ,,to ,,the ,,lowest1 ,,are ,,born ,,into ,,the ,,knowledge ,,of ,,all ,,their ,,loves8 ,they first confirmed the truth of the proposition by various considerations2 as in regard to a man1 that he is born into no knowledge1 not even into the knowledge of conjugial love2 and they inquired1 and were informed by attentive examiners1 that an infant from connate knowledge cannot even move itself to the mother's breast1 but must be moved thereto by the mother or nurse2 and that it knows only how to suck1 and this in consequence of habit acquired by continual suction in the womb2 and that afterwards it does not know how to walk1 or to articulate any human expression2 no1 nor even to express by its tone of voice the affection of its love1 as the beasts do3 and further1 that it does not know what is salutary for it in the way of food1 as all the beasts do1 but catches at whatever falls in its way1 whether it be clean or unclean1 and puts it into its mouth4 ,the examiners further declared1 that a man without instruction is an utter stranger to every thing relating to the sexes and their connection2 and that neither virgins nor young men have any knowledge thereof without instruction from others1 notwithstanding their being educated in various sciences3 in a word1 a man is born corporeal as a worm2 and he remains such1 unless he learns to know1 to understand1 and to be wise1 from others4 ,after this1 they gave abundant proofs that beasts1 from the highest to the lowest1 as the animals of the earth1 the fowls of the air1 reptiles1 fishes1 the small creatures called insects1 are born into all the knowledges of the loves of their life1 as into the knowledge of all things relating to nourishment1 to habitation1 to the love of the sex and prolification1 and to the rearing of their young4 ,this they continued by many wonderful things which they recollected to have seen1 heard1 and read1 in the natural world1 7so they called our world1 in which they had formerly lived71 in which not representative but real beasts exist4 ,when the truth of the proposition was thus fully proved they applied all the powers of their minds to search out and discover the ends and causes which might serve to unfold and explain this arcanum2 and they all said1 that the divine wisdom must needs have ordained these things1 to the end that a man1 may be a man1 and a beast a beast2 and thus1 that the imperfection of a man at his birth becomes his perfection1 and the perfection of a beast at his birth is his imperfection4 #acd4 ,those on the ,,north then began to declare their sentiments1 and said1 ,a man is born without knowledges1 to the end that he may receive them all2 whereas supposing him to be born into knowledges1 he could not receive any but those into which he was born1 and in this case neither could he appropriate any to himself2 which they illustrated by this comparison3 a man at his first birth is like ground in which no seeds are implanted1 but which nevertheless is capable of receiving all seeds1 and of bringing them forth and fructifying them2 whereas a beast is like ground already sown1 and tilled with grasses and herbs1 which receives no other seeds than what are sown in it1 or if it received any it would choke them4 ,hence it is1 that a man requires many years to bring him to maturity of growth2 during which time he is capable of being cultivated like ground1 and of bringing forth as it were grain1 flowers1 and trees of every kind2 whereas a beast arrives at maturity in a few years1 during which no cultivation can produce any thing in him but what is born with him4 ,afterwards1 those on the ,,west delivered their sentiments1 and said1 ,a man is not born knowledge1 as a beast is2 but he is born faculty and inclination2 faculty to know1 and inclination to love2 and he is born faculty not only to know but also to understand and be wise2 he is likewise born the most perfect inclination to love not only the things relating to self and the world1 but also those relating to ,god and heaven2 consequently a man1 by birth from his parents1 is an organ which lives merely by the external senses1 and at first by no internal senses1 to the end that he may successively become a man1 first natural1 afterwards rational1 and lastly spiritual2 which could not be the case if he was born into knowledges and loves1 as the beasts are3 for connate knowledges and affections set bounds to that progression2 whereas connate faculty and inclination set no such bounds2 therefore a man is capable of being perfected1 in knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom to eternity4 ,those on the ,,south next took up the debate1 and expressed their sentiments as follows3 ,it is impossible for a man to take any knowledge from himself1 since he has no connate knowledge2 but he may take it from others2 and as he cannot take any knowledge from himself1 so neither can he take any love2 for where there is no knowledge there is no love2 knowledge and love being undivided companions1 and no more capable of separation than will and understanding1 or affection and thought2 yea1 no more than essence and form3 therefore in proportion as a man takes knowledge from others1 so love joins itself thereto as its companion4 ,the universal love which joins itself is the love of knowing1 of understanding1 and of growing wise2 this love is peculiar to man alone1 and not to any beast1 and flows in from ,god4 ,we agree with our companions from the west1 that a man is not born into any love1 and consequently not into any knowledge2 but that he is only born into an inclination to love1 and thence into a faculty to receive knowledges1 not from himself but from others1 that is1 by others3 we say1 by others1 because neither have these received any thing of knowledge from themselves1 but from ,god4 ,we agree also with our companions to the north1 that a man is first born as ground1 in which no seeds are sown1 but which is capable of receiving all seeds1 both useful and hurtful4 ,to these considerations we add1 that beasts are born into natural loves1 and thereby into knowledges corresponding to them2 and that still they do not know1 think1 understand1 and enjoy any knowledges1 but are led through them by their loves1 almost as blind persons are led through the streets by dogs1 for as to understanding they are blind2 or rather like people walking in their sleep1 who act from the impulse of blind knowledge1 the understanding being asleep4 ,lastly1 those on the ,,east declared their sentiments1 and said1 ,we agree with our brethren in the opinions they have delivered1 that a man knows nothing from himself1 but from and by others1 to the end that he may know and acknowledge that all knowledge1 understanding1 and wisdom1 is from ,god2 and that a man cannot otherwise be conceived1 born1 and generated of the ,lord1 and become an image and likeness of him2 for he becomes an image of the ,lord by acknowledging and believing1 that he has received and does receive from the ,lord all the good of love and charity1 and all the truth of wisdom and faith1 and not the least portion thereof from himself2 and he becomes a likeness of the ,lord by his being sensible of those principles in himself1 as if they were from himself4 ,this he is sensible of1 because he is not born into knowledges1 but receives them2 and what he receives1 appears to him as if it was from himself4 ,this sensation is given him by the ,lord1 to the end that he may be a man and not a beast2 since by willing1 thinking1 loving1 knowing1 understanding1 and growing wise1 as from himself1 he receives knowledges1 and exalts them into intelligence1 and by the use thereof into wisdom2 thus the ,lord conjoins man to himself1 and man conjoins himself to the ,lord4 ,this could not have been the case1 unless it had been provided by the ,lord1 that man should be born in total ignorance4 ,when they had finished speaking1 it was the desire of all present1 that a conclusion should be formed from the sentiments which had been expressed2 and they agreed upon the following3 ,that a man is born into no knowledge1 to the end that he may come into all knowledge1 and may advance into intelligence1 and thereby into wisdom1 and that he is born into no love1 to the intent that he may come into all love1 by application of the knowledges from intelligence1 and into love to the ,lord by love towards his neighbour1 and may thereby be conjoined to the ,lord1 and by such conjunction be made a man1 and live for ever4 #ace4 ,after this they took the paper1 and read the third subject of investigation1 which was1 ,,what ,,is ,,dignified ,,by ,,the ,,tree ,,of ,,life1 ,,what ,,by ,,the ,,tree ,,of ,,the ,,knowledge ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,evil1 ,,and ,,what ,,by ,,eating ,,thereof8 and all the others intreated as a favor1 that those who were from the east would unfold this arcanum1 because it required a more than ordinary depth of understanding1 and because those who were from the east are in flaming light1 that is1 in the wisdom of love1 this wisdom being understood by the garden of ,eden1 in which those two trees were placed4 ,they said1 ,we will declare our sentiments2 but as man does not take any thing from himself1 but from the ,lord1 therefore we will speak from him2 but yet from ourselves as of ourselves3 and then they continued1 ,a tree signifies a man1 and the fruit thereof the good of life2 hence the tree of life signifies a man living from ,god1 or ,god living in man2 and since love and wisdom1 and charity and faith1 or good and truth1 constitute the life of ,god in man1 therefore these are signified by the tree of life1 and hence man has eternal life3 the like is signified by the tree of life1 of which it will be given to eat1 ,rev4 ii4 #g2 chap xxii4 #b1 #ad4 ,the tree of the knowledge of good and evil signifies a man believing that he lives from himself and not from ,god2 thus that in man love and wisdom1 charity and faith1 that is1 good and truth1 are his and not ,god's2 believing this1 because he thinks and wills1 and speaks and acts to all appearance1 as from himself3 and as a man from this faith persuades himself1 that ,god has implanted himself1 or infused his divine into him1 therefore the serpent said1 ',god doth know1 in the day that ye eat of the fruit of that tree1 your eyes will be opened1 and ye will be as ,god1 knowing good and evil1' ,gen4 iii4 #e4 ,eating of those trees signifies reception and appropriation2 eating of the tree of life1 the reception of life eternal1 and eating of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 the reception of damnation2 therefore also both ,adam and his wife1 together with the serpent1 were cursed3 the serpent means the devil as to self-love and the conceit of his own intelligence4 ,this love is the possessor of that tree2 and the men who are in conceit1 grounded in that love1 are those trees4 ,those persons1 therefore1 are grievously mistaken who believe that ,adam was wise and did good from himself1 and that this was his state of integrity2 when yet ,adam himself was cursed by reason of that belief2 for this is signified by eating of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil2 therefore he then fell from the state of integrity in which he had been1 in consequence of believing that he was wise and did good from ,god and not at all from himself2 for this is meant by eating of the tree of life4 ,the ,lord alone1 when he was in the world1 was wise and did good from himself2 because the essential divine from birth was in him and was his2 therefore also from his own ability he was made the ,redeemer and ,saviour4 ,from all these considerations they came to this conclusion1 ,that by the tree of life1 and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 and eating thereof1 is signified that life for man is ,god in him1 and that in this case he has heaven and eternal life2 but that death for man is the persuasion and belief1 that life for him is not ,god but self2 whence he has hell and eternal death1 which is condemnation4 #acf4 ,after this they looked into the paper left by the angels upon the table1 and saw written underneath1 ,,collect ,,your ,,opinions ,,on ,,these ,,three ,,questions ,,into ,,one ,,decision4 ,then they collected them1 and saw that they cohered in one series1 and that the series or decision was this1 ,that man is created to receive love and wisdom from ,god1 and yet to all appearance as from himself2 and this for the sake of reception and conjunction3 and that therefore a man is not born into any love1 or into any knowledge1 and also not into any ability of loving and growing wise from himself2 therefore if he ascribes all the good of love and truth of wisdom to ,god1 he becomes a living man2 but if he ascribes them to himself1 he becomes a dead man4 ,these words they wrote on a new piece of paper1 and placed it on the table3 and lo6 on a sudden the angels appeared in bright light1 and carried the paper away into heaven2 and after it was read there1 those who sat on the seats heard these words from thence1 ,well1 well2 and instantly there appeared a single angel as it were flying from heaven1 with two wings about his feet1 and two about his temples1 having in his hand prizes1 consisting of robes1 caps1 and wreaths of laurel2 and he alighted on the ground1 and gave those who sat on the north robes of an opaline color2 those who sat on the west robes of scarlet color2 those who sat on the south caps whose borders were ornamented with bindings of gold and pearls1 and which on the left side upwards were set with diamonds cut in the form of flowers2 but to those who sat to the east he gave wreaths of laurel1 intermixed with rubies and sapphires4 ,then all of them1 adorned with their respective prizes1 went home from the school of wisdom2 and when they shewed themselves to their wives1 their wives came to meet them1 being distinguished also with ornaments presented to them from heaven2 at which the husbands wondered4 #acg4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,on a time when ,i was meditating on conjugial love1 lo6 there appeared at a distance two naked infants with baskets in their hands1 and turtledoves flying around them2 and on a nearer view1 they seemed as if they were naked1 handsomely ornamented with garlands2 chaplets of flowers decorated their heads1 and wreaths of lilies and roses of a hyacinthine blue1 hanging obliquely from the shoulders to the loins1 adorned their bosoms2 and round about both of them there was as it were a common band woven of small leaves interspersed with olives4 ,but when they came nearer1 they did not appear as infants1 or naked1 but as two persons in the prime of their age1 wearing cloaks and tunics of shining silk1 embroidered with the most beautiful flowers3 and when they were near me1 there breathed forth from heaven through them a vernal warmth1 attended with an odoriferous fragrance1 like what arises from gardens and fields in the time of spring4 ,they were two married partners from heaven1 and they accosted me2 and because ,i was musing on what ,i had just seen1 they inquired1 ,what did you see8 ,and when ,i told them that at first they appeared to me as naked infants1 afterwards as infants decorated with garlands1 and lastly as grown up persons in embroidered garments1 and that instantly ,i experienced a vernal warmth with its delights1 they smiled pleasantly1 and said1 ,in the way we did not seem to ourselves as infants1 or naked1 or adorned with garlands1 but constantly in the same appearance which we now have3 thus at a distance was represented our conjugial love2 its state of innocence by our seeming like naked infants1 its delights by garlands1 and the same delights now by our cloaks and tunics being embroidered with flowers2 and as you said that1 as we approached1 a vernal warmth breathed on you1 attended with its pleasant fragrance as from a garden1 we will explain to you the reason of all this4 ,they said1 ,we have now been married partners for ages1 and constantly in the prime of our age in which you now see us3 our first state was like the first state of a virgin and a youth1 when they enter into consociation by marriage2 and we then believed1 that this state was the very essential blessedness of our life2 but we were informed by others in our heaven1 and have since perceived ourselves1 that this was a state of heat not tempered by light2 and that it is successively tempered1 in proportion as the husband is perfected in wisdom1 and the wife loves that wisdom in the husband2 and that this is effected by and according to the uses which each1 by mutual aid1 affords to society2 also that delights succeed according to the temperature of heat and light2 or of wisdom and its love4 ,the reason why on our approach there breathed on you as it were a vernal warmth1 is1 because conjugial love and that warmth in our heaven act in unity2 for warmth with us is love2 and the light1 wherewith warmth is united1 is wisdom2 and use is as it were the atmosphere which contains each in its bosom4 ,what are heat and light without that which contains them8 ,in like manner1 what are love and wisdom without their use8 ,in such case there is nothing conjugial in them1 because the subject is wanting in which they should exist to produce it4 ,in heaven where there is vernal warmth1 there is love truly conjugial2 because the vernal principle exists only where warmth is equally united to light1 or where warmth and light are in equal proportions2 and it is our opinion1 that as warmth is delighted with light1 and vice versa1 so love is delighted with wisdom1 and wisdom in its turn with love4 ,he further added1 ,with us in heaven there is perpetual light1 and on no occasion do the shades of evening prevail1 still less is there darkness2 because our sun does not set and rise like yours1 but remains constantly in a middle altitude between the zenith and the horizon1 which1 as you express it1 is at an elevation of #de degrees4 ,hence1 the heat and light proceeding from our sun cause perpetual spring1 and a perpetual vernal warmth inspires those with whom love is united with wisdom in just proportion2 and our ,lord1 by the eternal union of heat and light1 breathes nothing but uses3 hence also come the germinations of your earth1 and the connubial associations of your birds and animals in the spring2 for the vernal warmth opens their interiors even to the inmost1 which are called their souls1 and affects them1 and communicates to them its conjugial principle1 and causes their principle of prolification to come into its delights1 in consequence of a continual tendency to produce fruits of use1 which use is the propagation of their kind4 ,but with men 7homines7 there is a perpetual influx of vernal warmth from the ,lord2 wherefore they are capable of enjoying marriage delights at all times1 even in the midst of winter2 for the males of the human race were created to be recipients of light1 that is1 of wisdom from the ,lord1 and the females to be recipients of heat1 that is1 of the love of the wisdom of the male from the ,lord4 ,hence then it is1 that1 as we approached1 there breathed on you a vernal warmth attended with an odoriferous fragrance1 like what arises from gardens and fields in the spring4 ,as he said this1 he gave me his right hand1 and conducted me to houses inhabited by married partners in a like prime of their age with himself and his partner2 and said1 ,these wives1 who now seem like young virgins1 were in the world infirm old women2 and their husbands1 who now seem in the spring of youth1 were in the world decrepit old men2 and all of them were restored by the ,lord to this prime of their age1 because they mutually loved each other1 and from religious motives shunned adulteries as enormous sins3 and he added1 ,no one knows the blessed delights of conjugial love1 unless he rejects the horrid delights of adultery2 and no one can reject these delights1 unless he is under the influence of wisdom from the ,lord2 and no one is under the influence of wisdom from the ,lord1 unless he performs uses from the love of uses4 ,i also saw on this occasion their house utensils1 which were all in celestial forms1 and glittered with gold1 which had a flaming appearance from the rubies with which it was studded4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,chaste ,,principle ,,and ,,the ,,non-,,chaste4 #ach4 ,as we are yet only at the entrance of our subject respecting conjugial love specifically considered1 and as conjugial love cannot be known specifically1 except in a very indistinct and obscure manner1 unless its opposite1 which is the unchaste principle1 also in some measure appear2 and as this unchaste principle appears in some measure1 or in a shade1 when the chaste principle is described together with the non-chaste1 non-chastity being only a removal of what is unchaste from what is chaste2 therefore we will now proceed to treat of the chaste principle and the non-chaste4 ,but the unchaste principle1 which is altogether opposite to the chaste1 is treated of in the latter part of this work1 entitled ,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,sinful ,,pleasures1 where it is fully described with all its varieties4 ,but what the unchaste principle is1 and what the non-chaste1 and with what persons each of them prevails1 shall be illustrated in the following order3 ,i4 ,the chaste principle and the non-chaste are predicated only of marriages and of such things as relate to marriages4 ,,ii4 ,the chaste principle is predicated only of monogamical marriages1 or of the marriage of one man with one wife4 ,,iii4 ,the ,christian conjugial principle alone is chaste4 ,,iv4 ,love truly conjugial is essential chastity4 ,v4 ,all the delights of love truly conjugial1 even the ultimate1 are chaste4 ,,vi4 ,with those who are made spiritual by the ,lord1 conjugial love is more and more purified and rendered chaste4 ,,vii4 ,the chastity of marriage exists by a total renunciation of whoredoms from a principle of religion4 ,,viii4 ,chastity cannot he predicated of infants1 or of boys and girls1 or of young men and virgins before they feel in themselves the love of the sex4 ,,ix4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of eunuchs so born1 or of eunuchs so made4 ,x4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who do not believe adulteries to be evils in regard to religion2 and still less of those who do not believe them to be hurtful to society4 ,,xi4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who abstain from adulteries only for various external reasons4 ,,xii4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who believe marriages to be unchaste4 ,,xiii4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who have renounced marriage by vows of perpetual celibacy1 unless there be and remain in them the love of a life truly conjugial4 ,,xiv4 ,a state of marriage is to be preferred to a state of celibacy4 ,we will now proceed to an explanation of each article4 #aci4 ,i4 ,,the ,,chaste ,,principle ,,and ,,the ,,non-,,chaste ,,are ,,predicated ,,only ,,of ,,marriages ,,and ,,of ,,such ,,things ,,as ,,relate ,,to ,,marriages4 ,the reason of this is1 because1 as will be shewn presently1 love truly conjugial is essential chastity2 and the love opposite to it1 which is called adulterous1 is essential unchastity2 so far therefore as any one is purified from the latter love1 so far he is chaste2 for so far the opposite1 which is destructive of chastity1 is taken away2 whence it is evident that the purity of conjugial love is what is called chastity4 ,nevertheless there is a conjugial love which is not chaste1 and yet it is not unchastity2 as is the case with married partners1 who1 for various external reasons1 abstain from the effects of lasciviousness so as not to think about them2 howbeit1 if that love is not purified in their spirits1 it is still not chaste2 its form is chaste1 but it has not in it a chaste essence4 #adj4 ,the reason why the chaste principle and the non-chaste are predicated of such things as relate to marriages1 is1 because the conjugial principle is inscribed on both sexes from inmost principles to ultimates2 and a man's quality as to his thoughts and affections1 and consequently as to his bodily actions and behaviour1 is according thereto4 ,that this is the case1 appears more evidently from such as are unchaste4 ,the unchaste principle abiding in their minds is heard from the tone of their voice in conversation1 and from their applying whatever is said1 even though it be chaste1 to wanton and loose ends2 7the tone of the voice in conversation is grounded in the will-affection1 and the conversation itself is grounded in the thought of the understanding27 which is a proof that the will and the understanding1 with everything belonging to them1 consequently the whole mind1 and thence everything belonging to the body1 from inmost principles to ultimates1 abound with what is unchaste4 ,i have been informed by the angels1 that1 with the greatest hypocrites1 the unchaste principle is perceivable from hearing their conversation1 however chastely they may talk1 and also is made sensible from the sphere that issues from them2 which is a further proof that unchastity resides in the inmost principles of their minds1 and thence in the inmost principles of their bodies1 and that the latter principles are exteriorly covered like a shell painted with figures of various colors4 ,that a sphere of lasciviousness issues forth from the unchaste1 is manifest from the statutes prescribed to the sons of ,israel1 ordaining that everything should be unclean that was touched even by the hand of those who were defiled by such unchaste persons4 ,from these considerations it may be concluded that the case is similar in regard to the chaste1 viz41 that with them everything is chaste from inmost principles to ultimates1 and that this is an effect of the chastity of conjugial love4 ,hence it is1 that in the world it is said1 ,to the pure all things are pure1 and to the defiled all things are defiled4 #ada4 ,,ii4 ,,the ,,chaste ,,principle ,,is ,,predicated ,,only ,,of ,,monogamical ,,marriages1 ,,or ,,of ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,one ,,man ,,with ,,one ,,wife4 ,the reason of this is1 because with them conjugial love does not reside in the natural man1 but enters into the spiritual man1 and successively opens to itself a way to the essential spiritual marriage1 or the marriage of good and truth1 which is its origin1 and conjoins itself therewith2 for that love enters according to the increase of wisdom1 which is according to the implantation of the church from the ,lord1 as has been abundantly shewn above4 ,this cannot be effected with polygamists2 for they divide conjugial love2 and this love when divided1 is not unlike the love of the sex1 which in itself is natural2 but on this subject something worthy of attention may be seen in the section on ,,polygamy4 #adb4 ,,iii4 ,,the ,,christian ,,conjugial ,,principle ,,alone ,,is ,,chaste4 ,this is1 because love truly conjugial keeps pace with the state of the church in man 7homo71 and because the state of the church is from the ,lord1 as has been shewn in the foregoing section1 n4 #acj1 #aca1 and elsewhere2 also because the church in its genuine truths is in the ,word1 and the ,lord is there present in those truths4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that the chaste conjugial principle exists nowhere but in the ,christian world1 and still that there is a possibility of its existing elsewhere4 ,by the ,christian conjugial principle we mean the marriage of one man with one wife4 ,that this conjugial principle is capable of being ingrafted into ,christians1 and of being transplanted hereditarily into the offspring from parents who are principled in love truly conjugial1 and that hence both the faculty and the inclination to grow wise in the things of the church and of heaven may become connate1 will be seen in its proper place4 ,christians1 if they marry more wives than one1 commit not only natural but also spiritual adultery3 this will be shewn in the section on ,,polygamy4 #adc4 ,,iv4 ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,is ,,essential ,,chastity4 ,the reasons for this are1 #a4 ,because it is from the ,lord1 and corresponds to the marriage of the ,lord and the church4 #b4 ,because it descends from the marriage of good and truth4 #c4 ,because it is spiritual1 in proportion as the church exists with man 7homo74 #d4 ,because it is the foundation and head of all celestial and spiritual loves4 #e4 ,because it is the orderly seminary of the human race1 and thereby of the angelic heaven4 #f4 ,because on this account it also exists with the angels of heaven1 and gives birth with them to spiritual offspring1 which are love and wisdom4 #g4 ,and because its uses are thus more excellent than the other uses of creation4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that love truly conjugial1 viewed from its origin and in its essence1 is pure and holy1 so that it may be called purity and holiness1 consequently essential chastity3 but that nevertheless it is not altogether pure1 either with men or angels1 may be seen below in article ,,vi1 n4 #adf4 #add4 ,v4 ,,all ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,even ,,the ,,ultimate1 ,,are ,,chaste4 ,this follows from what has been above explained1 that love truly conjugial is essential chastity1 and from the considerations that delights constitute its life4 ,that the delights of this love ascend and enter heaven1 and in the way pass through the delights of the heavenly loves1 in which the angels of heaven are principled2 also1 that they conjoin themselves with the delights of the conjugial love of the angels1 has been mentioned above4 ,moreover1 ,i have heard it declared by the angels1 that they perceive those delights with themselves to be exalted and filled1 while they ascend from chaste marriages on the earths3 and when some by-standers1 who were unchaste1 inquired concerning the ultimate delights whether they were chaste1 they assented and said1 ,how should it be otherwise8 ,are not these the delights of true conjugial love in their fulness8 ,the origin1 nature1 and quality of the delights of this love1 may be seen above1 n4 #fi3 and also in the ,,memorable ,,relations1 especially those which follow4 #ade4 ,,vi4 ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,made ,,spiritual ,,by ,,the ,,lord1 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,more ,,and ,,more ,,purified ,,and ,,rendered ,,chaste4 ,the reasons for this are1 #a4 ,because the first love1 by which is meant the love previous to the nuptials and immediately after them1 partakes somewhat of the love of the sex1 and thus of the ardor belonging to the body not as yet moderated by the love of the spirit4 #b4 ,because a man 7homo7 from natural is successively made spiritual2 for he becomes spiritual in proportion as his rational principle1 which is the medium between heaven and the world1 begins to drive a soul from influx out of heaven1 which is the case so far as it is affected and delighted with wisdom2 concerning which wisdom see above1 n4 #acj2 and in proportion as this is effected1 in the same proportion his mind is elevated into a superior aura1 which is the continent of celestial light and heat1 or1 what is the same1 of the wisdom and love in which the angels are principled2 for heavenly light acts in unity with wisdom1 and heavenly heat with love2 and in proportion as wisdom and the love thereof increase1 with married pairs1 in the same proportion conjugial love is purified with them2 and as this is effected successively1 it follows that conjugial love is rendered more and more chaste4 ,this spiritual purification may be compared with the purification of natural spirits1 which is effected by the chemists1 and is called defecation1 rectification1 castigation1 acution1 decantation1 and sublimation2 and wisdom purified may be compared with alcohol1 which is a highly rectified spirit4 #c4 ,now as spiritual wisdom in itself is of such a nature that it becomes more and more warmed with the love of growing wise1 and by virtue of this love increases to eternity2 and as this is effected in proportion as it is perfected by a kind of defecation1 castigation1 rectification1 acution1 decantation1 and sublimation1 and this by elevating and abstracting the intellect from the fallacies of the senses1 and the will from the allurements of the body2 it is evident that conjugial love1 whose parent is wisdom1 is in like manner rendered successively more and more pure1 and thereby chaste4 ,that the first state of love between married partners is a state of heat not yet tempered by light2 but that it is successively tempered in proportion as the husband is perfected in wisdom1 and the wife loves it in her husband1 may be seen in the ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #acg4 #adf4 ,it is however to be observed1 that there is no conjugial love altogether chaste or pure either with men 7homines7 or with angels2 there is still somewhat not chaste or not pure which adjoins or subjoins itself thereto2 but this has a different origin from that which gives birth to what is unchaste3 for with the angels the chaste principle is above and the non-chaste beneath1 and there is as it were a door with a hinge interposed by the ,lord1 which is opened by determination1 and is carefully prevented from standing open1 lest the one principle should pass into the other1 and they should mix together3 for the natural principle of man from his birth is defiled and fraught with evils2 whereas his spiritual principle is not so1 because its birth is from the ,lord1 for it is regeneration2 and regeneration is a successive separation from the evils to which a man is naturally inclined4 ,that no love with either men or angels is altogether pure1 or can be pure2 but that the end1 purpose1 or intention of the will1 is principally regarded by the ,lord3 and that therefore so far as a man is principled in a good end1 purpose1 or intention1 and perseveres therein1 so far he is initiated into purity1 and so far he advances and approaches towards purity1 may be seen above1 n4 #ga4 #adg4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,chastity ,,of ,,marriage ,,exists ,,by ,a ,,total ,,renunciation ,,of ,,whoredoms ,,from ,a ,,principle ,,of ,,religion4 ,the reason of this is1 because chastity is the removal of unchastity2 it being a universal law1 that so far as any one removes evil1 so far a capacity is given for good to succeed in its place2 and further1 so far as evil is hated1 so far good is loved2 and also vice versa2 consequently1 so far as whoredom is renounced1 so far the chastity of marriage enters4 ,that conjugial love is purified and rectified according to the renunciation of whoredoms1 every one sees from common perception as soon as it is mentioned and heard2 thus before confirmation2 but as all have not common perception1 it is of importance that the subject should also be illustrated in the way of proof by such considerations as may tend to confirm it4 ,these considerations are1 that conjugial love grows cold as soon as it is divided1 and this coldness causes it to perish2 for the heat of unchaste love extinguishes it1 as two opposite heats cannot exist together1 but one must needs reject the other and deprive it of its potency4 ,whenever therefore the heat of conjugial love begins to acquire a pleasant warmth1 and from a sensation of its delights to bud and flourish1 like an orchard and garden in spring2 the latter from the vernal temperament of light and heat from the sun of the natural world1 but the former from the vernal temperament of light and heat from the sun of the spiritual world4 #adh4 ,there is implanted in every man 7homo7 from creation1 and consequently from his birth1 an internal and an external conjugial principle2 the internal is spiritual1 and the external natural3 a man comes first into the latter1 and as he becomes spiritual1 he comes into the former4 ,if therefore he remains in the external or natural conjugial principle1 the internal or spiritual conjugial principle is veiled or covered1 until he knows nothing respecting it2 yea1 until he calls it an ideal shadow without a substance3 but if a man becomes spiritual1 he then begins to know something respecting it1 and afterwards to perceive something of its quality1 and successively to be made sensible of its pleasantness1 agreeableness1 and delights2 and in proportion as this is the case1 the veil or covering between the external and internal1 spoken of above1 begins to be attenuated1 and afterwards as it were to melt1 and lastly to be dissolved and dissipated4 ,when this effect takes place1 the external conjugial principle remains indeed2 but it is continually purged and purified from its dregs by the internal2 and this1 until the external becomes as it were the face of the internal1 and derives its delight from the blessedness which is in the internal1 and at the same time its life1 and the delights of its potency4 ,such is the renunciation of whoredoms1 by which the chastity of marriage exists4 ,it may be imagined1 that the external conjugial principle1 which remains after the internal has separated itself from it1 or it from itself1 resembles the external principle not separated3 but ,i have heard from the angels that they are altogether unlike2 for that the external principle in conjunction with the internal1 which they called the external of the internal1 was void of all lasciviousness1 because the internal cannot be lascivious1 but only be delighted chastely2 and that it imparts the same disposition to its external1 wherein it is made sensible of its own delights3 the case is altogether otherwise with the external separated from the internal2 this they said1 was lascivious in the whole and in every part4 ,they compared the external conjugial principle derived from the internal to excellent fruit1 whose pleasant taste and flavor insinuate themselves into its outward rind1 and form this into correspondence with themselves2 they compared it also to a granary1 whose store is never diminished1 but is continually recruited according to its consumption2 whereas they compared the external principle1 separate from the internal1 to wheat in a winnowing machine1 when it is put in motion about its axis2 in which case the chaff only remains1 which is dispersed by the wind2 so it is with the conjugial principle1 unless the adulterous principle be renounced4 #adi4 ,the reason why the chastity of marriage does not exist by the renunciation of whoredoms1 unless it be made from a principle of religion1 is1 because a man 7homo7 without religion is not spiritual1 but remains natural2 and if the natural man renounces whoredoms1 still his spirit does not renounce them2 and thus1 although it seems to himself that he is chaste by such renunciation1 yet nevertheless unchastity lies inwardly concealed like corrupt matter in a wound only outwardly healed4 ,that conjugial love is according to the state of the church with man1 may be seen above n4 #acj4 ,more on this subject may be seen in the exposition of article ,,xi4 #aej4 ,,viii4 ,,chastity ,,cannot ,,be ,,predicated ,,of ,,infants1 ,,or ,,of ,,boys ,,and ,,girls1 ,,or ,,of ,,young ,,men ,,and ,,virgins ,,before ,,they ,,feel ,,in ,,themselves ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex4 ,this is because the chaste principle and the unchaste are predicated only of marriages1 and of such things as relate to marriages1 as may be seen above1 n4 #aci2 and of those who know nothing of the things relating to marriage1 chastity is not predicable2 for it is as it were nothing relating to them2 and nothing cannot be an object either of affection or thought3 but after this nothing there arises something1 when the first motion towards marriage is felt1 which is the love of the sex4 ,that virgins and young men1 before they feel in themselves the love of the sex1 are commonly called chaste1 is owing to ignorance of what chastity is4 #aea4 ,,xi4 ,,chastity ,,cannot ,,be ,,predicated ,,of ,,eunuchs ,,so ,,born1 ,,or ,,of ,,eunuchs ,,so ,,made4 ,eunuchs so born are those more especially with whom the ultimate of love is wanting from birth3 and as in such case the first and middle principles are without a foundation on which to stand1 they have therefore no existence2 and if they exist1 the persons in whom they exist have no concern to distinguish between the chaste principle and the unchaste1 each being indifferent to them2 but of these persons there are several distinctions4 ,the case is nearly the same with eunuchs so made as with some eunuchs so born2 but eunuchs so made1 as they are both men and women1 cannot possibly regard conjugial love any otherwise than as a phantasy1 and the delights thereof as idle stories4 ,if they have any inclination1 it is rendered mute1 which is neither chaste nor unchaste3 and what is neither chaste nor unchaste1 derives no quality from either the one or the other4 #aeb4 ,x4 ,,chastity ,,cannot ,,be ,,predicated ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,do ,,not ,,believe ,,adulteries ,,to ,,be ,,evils ,,in ,,regard ,,to ,,religion2 ,,and ,,still ,,less ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,do ,,not ,,believe ,,them ,,to ,,be ,,hurtful ,,to ,,society4 ,the reason why chastity cannot be predicated of such is1 because they neither know what chastity is nor even that it exists2 for chastity relates to marriage1 as was shewn in the first article of this section4 ,those who do not believe adulteries be evil in regard to religion1 regard even marriages as unchaste2 whereas religion with married pairs constitutes their chastity2 thus such persons have nothing chaste in them1 and therefore it is in vain to talk to them of chastity2 these are confirmed adulterers3 but those who do not believe adulteries to be hurtful to society1 know still less than the others1 either what chastity is or even that it exists2 for they are adulterers from a determined purpose3 if they say that marriages are less unchaste than adulteries1 they say so merely with the mouth1 but not with the heart1 because marriages with them are cold1 and those who speak from such cold concerning chaste heat1 cannot have an idea of chaste heat in regard to conjugial love4 ,the nature and quality of such persons1 and of the ideas of their thought1 and hence of the interior principles of their conversation1 will be seen in the second part of this work1--,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,sinful ,,pleasures4 #aec4 ,,xi4 ,,chastity ,,cannot ,,be ,,predicated ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,abstain ,,from ,,adulteries ,,only ,,for ,,various ,,external ,,reasons4 ,many believe that the mere abstaining from adulteries in the body is chastity2 yet this is not chastity1 unless at the same time there is an abstaining in spirit4 ,the spirit of man 7homo71 by which is here meant his mind as to affections and thoughts1 constitutes the chaste principle and the unchaste1 for hence it flows into the body1 the body being in all cases such as the mind or spirit is4 ,hence it follows1 that those who abstain from adulteries in the body1 without being influenced from the spirit are not chaste2 neither are those chaste who abstain from them in spirit as influenced from the body4 ,there are many assignable causes which make a man desist from adulteries in the body1 and also in the spirit as influenced from the body2 but still1 he that does not desist from them in the body as influenced from the spirit1 is unchaste2 for the ,lord says1 ,that whosoever looketh upon another's woman1 so as to lust after her1 hath already committed adultery with her in his heart1 ,matt4 v4 #bh4 ,it is impossible to enumerate all the causes of abstinence from adulteries in the body only1 they being various according to states of marriage1 and also according to states of the body2 for there are some persons who abstain from them from fear of the civil law and its penalties2 some from fear of the loss of reputation and thereby of honor2 some from fear of diseases which may be thereby contracted2 some from fear of domestic quarrels on the part of the wife1 whereby the quiet of their lives may be disturbed2 some from fear of revenge on the part of the husband or relations2 some from fear of chastisement from the servants of the family2 some also abstain from motives of poverty1 avarice1 or imbecility1 arising either from disease1 from abuse1 from age1 or from impotence4 ,of these there are some also1 who1 because they cannot or dare not commit adultery in the body1 condemn adulteries in the spirit2 and thus they speak morally against adulteries1 and in favor of marriages2 but such person1 unless in spirit they call adulteries accursed1 and this from a religious principle in the spirit1 are still adulterers2 for although they do not commit them in the body1 yet they do in the spirit2 wherefore after death1 when they become spirits1 they speak openly in favor of them4 ,from these considerations it is manifest1 that even a wicked person may shun adulteries as hurtful2 but that none but a ,christian can shun them as sins4 ,hence then the truth of the proposition is evident1 that chastity cannot be predicated of those who abstain from adulteries merely for various external reasons4 #aed4 ,,xii4 ,,chastity ,,cannot ,,be ,,predicated ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,believe ,,marriages ,,to ,,be ,,unchaste4 ,these1 like the persons spoken of just above1 n4 #aeb1 do not know either what chastity is1 or even that it exists2 and in this respect they are like those who make chastity to consist merely in celibacy1 of whom we shall speak presently4 #aee4 ,,xiii4 ,,chastity ,,cannot ,,be ,,predicated ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,have ,,renounced ,,marriage ,,by ,,vows ,,of ,,perpetual ,,celibacy1 ,,unless ,,there ,,be ,,and ,,remain ,,in ,,them ,,the ,,love ,,of ,a ,,life ,,truly ,,conjugial4 ,the reason why chastity cannot be predicated of these1 is1 because after a vow of perpetual celibacy1 conjugial love is renounced2 and yet it is of this love alone that chastity can be predicated3 nevertheless there still remains an inclination to the sex implanted from creation1 and consequently innate by birth2 and when this inclination is restrained and subdued1 it must needs pass away into heat1 and in some cases into a violent burning1 which1 in rising from the body into the spirit1 infests it1 and with some persons defiles it2 and there may be instances where the spirit thus defiled may defile also the principles of religion1 casting them down from their internal abode1 where they are in holiness1 into things external1 where they become mere matters of talk and gesture2 therefore it was provided by the ,lord1 that celibacy should have place only with those who are in external worship1 as is the case with all who do not address themselves to the ,lord1 or read the ,word4 ,with such1 eternal life is not so much endangered by vows of celibacy attended with engagements to chastity1 as it is with those who are principled in internal worship3 moreover1 in many instances that state of life is not entered upon from any freedom of the will1 many being engaged therein before they attain to freedom grounded in reason1 and some in consequence of alluring worldly motives4 ,of those who adopt that state with a view to have their minds disengaged from the world1 that they may be more at leisure to apply themselves to divine things1 those only are chaste with whom the love of a life truly conjugial either preceded that state or followed it1 and with whom it remains2 for the love of a life truly conjugial is that alone of which chastity is predicated4 ,wherefore also1 after death1 all who have lived in monasteries are at length freed from their vows and set at liberty1 that1 according to the interior vows and desires of their love1 they may be led to choose a life either conjugial or extra-conjugial3 if in such case they enter into conjugial life1 those who have loved also the spiritual things of divine worship are given in marriage in heaven2 but those who enter into extra-conjugial life are sent to their like1 who dwell on the confines of heaven4 ,i have inquired of the angels1 whether those who have devoted themselves to works of piety1 and given themselves up entirely to divine worship1 and who thus have withdrawn themselves from the snares of the world and the concupiscences of the flesh1 and with this view have vowed perpetual virginity1 are received into heaven1 and there admitted among the blessed to enjoy an especial portion of happiness according to their faith4 ,to this the angels replied1 that such are indeed received into heaven2 but when they are made sensible of the sphere of conjugial love there1 they become sad and fretful1 and then1 some of their own accord1 some by asking leave1 and some from being commanded1 depart and are dismissed1 and when they are out of that heaven1 a way is opened for them to their consociates1 who had been in a similar state of life in the world2 and then from being fretful they become cheerful1 and rejoice together4 #aef4 ,,xiv4 ,a ,,state ,,of ,,marriage ,,is ,,to ,,be ,,preferred ,,to ,a ,,state ,,of ,,celibacy4 ,this is evident from what has been said above respecting marriage and celibacy4 ,a state of marriage is to be preferred because it is a state ordained from creation2 because it originates in the marriage of good and truth2 because it corresponds with the marriage of the ,lord and the church2 because the church and conjugial love are constant companions2 because its use is more excellent than all the other uses of the things of creation1 for thence according to order is derived the increase of the human race1 and also of the angelic heaven1 which is formed from the human race3 moreover1 marriage constitutes the completeness of a man 7homo72 for by it he becomes a complete man1 as will be shewn in the following chapter4 ,all these things are wanting in celibacy4 ,but if the proposition be taken for granted1 that a state of celibacy is preferable to a state of marriage1 and if this proposition be left to the mind's examination1 to be assented to and established by confirming proofs1 then the conclusion must be1 that marriages are not holy1 neither can they be chaste2 yea1 that chastity in the female sex belongs only to those1 who abstain from marriage and vow perpetual virginity3 and moreover1 that those who have vowed perpetual celibacy are understood by the eunuchs who make themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake1 ,matt4 xix4 #ab2 not to mention other conclusions of a like nature2 which1 being grounded in a proposition that is not true1 are also not true4 ,the eunuchs who make themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake1 are spiritual eunuchs1 who are such as in marriages abstain from the evils of whoredoms3 that ,italian eunuchs are not meant1 is evident4 99 99 99 99 99 ,transcriber's ,note3 ,the out-of-order section numbers which follow are in the original text1 as are the asterisks which do not seem to indicate footnotes4 #aea499 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,as ,i was going home from the school of wisdom 7concerning which1 see above1 n4 #acb71 ,i saw in the way an angel dressed in blue4 ,he joined me and walked by my side1 and said1 ,i see that you are come from the school of wisdom1 and are made glad by what you heard there2 and as ,i perceive that you are not a full inhabitant of this world1 because you are at the same time in the natural world1 and therefore know nothing of our ,olympic gymnasia1 where the ancient sophi meet together1 and by the information they collect from every new comer1 learn what changes and successions wisdom has undergone and is still undergoing in your world2 if you are willing ,i will conduct you to the place where several of those ancient sophi and their sons1 that is1 their disciples1 dwell4 ,so he led me to the confines between the north and east2 and while ,i was looking that way from a rising ground1 lo6 ,i saw a city1 and on one side of it two small hills2 that which was nearer to the city being lower than the other4 ,that city1 said he1 is called ,athens1 the lower hill ,parnassus1 and the higher ,helicon4 ,they are so called1 because in the city and around it dwell the wise men who formerly lived in ,greece1 as ,pythagoras1 ,socrates1 ,aristippus1 ,xenophon1 with their disciples and scholars4 ,on my asking him concerning ,plato and ,aristotle1 he said1 ,they and their followers dwell in another region1 because they taught principles of rationality which relate to the understanding2 whereas the former taught morality which relates to the life4 ,he further informed me1 that it was customary at times to depute from the city of ,athens some of the students to learn from the literati of the ,christians1 what sentiments they entertain at this day respecting ,god1 the creation of the universe1 the immortality of the soul1 the relative state of men and beasts1 and other subjects of interior wisdom3 and he added1 that a herald had that day announced an assembly1 which was a token that the emissaries had met with some strangers newly arrived from the earth1 who had communicated some curious information4 ,we then saw several persons going from the city and its suburbs1 some having their heads decked with wreaths of laurel1 some holding palms in their hands1 some with books under their arms1 and some with pens under the hair of the left temple4 ,we mixed with the company1 and ascended the hill with them2 and lo6 on the top was an octagonal palace1 which they called the ,palladium1 into which we entered2 within there were eight hexangular recesses1 in each of which was a book-case and a table3 at these recesses were seated the laureled sophi1 and in the ,palladium itself there were seats cut out of the rock1 on which the rest were seated4 ,a door on the left was then opened1 through which the two strangers newly arrived from the earth were introduced2 and after the compliments of salutation were paid1 one of the laureled sophi asked them1 ,,what ,,news ,,from ,,the ,,earth8 ,they replied1 ,this is news1 that in forests there have been found men like beasts1 or beasts like men3 from their face and body they were known to have been born men1 and to have been lost or left in the forests when they were two or three years old2 they were not able to give utterance to any thought1 nor could they learn to articulate the voice into any distinct expression2 neither did they know the food suitable for them as the beasts do1 but put greedily into their mouths whatever they found in the forest1 whether it was clean or unclean2 besides many other particulars of a like nature3 from which some of the learned among us have formed several conjectures and conclusions concerning the relative state of men and beasts4 ,on hearing this account1 some of the ancient sophi asked1 ,what were the conjectures and conclusions formed from the circumstances you have related8 ,the two strangers replied1 ,there were several3 but they may all be comprised under the following3 #a4 ,that a man by nature1 and also by birth1 is more stupid and consequently viler than any beast2 and that he remains so1 unless he is instructed4 #b4 ,that he is capable of being instructed1 because he has learnt to frame articulate sounds1 and thence to speak1 and thereby has begun to express his thoughts1 and this successively more and more perfectly until he has been able to express the laws of civil society2 several of which are nevertheless impressed on beasts from their birth4 #c4 ,that beasts have rationality like men4 #d4 ,therefore1 that if beasts could speak1 they would reason on any subject as acutely as men2 a proof of which is1 that they think from reason and prudence just as men do4 #e4 ,that the understanding is only a modification of light from the sun2 the heat co-operating by means of ether1 so that it is only an activity of interior nature2 and that this activity may be so exalted as to appear like wisdom4 #f4 ,that therefore it is ridiculous to believe that a man lives after death any more than a beast2 unless perchance1 for some days after his decease1 in consequence of an exhalation of the life of the body1 he may appear as a mist under the form of a spectre1 before he is dissipated into nature2 just as a shrub raised up from its ashes1 appears in the likeness of its own form4 #g4 ,consequently that religion1 which teaches a life after death1 is a mere device1 in order to keep the simple inwardly in bonds by its laws1 as they are kept outwardly in bonds by the laws of the state4 ,to this they added1 that people of mere ingenuity reason in this manner1 but not so the intelligent3 and they were asked1 ,how do the intelligent reason8 ,they said they had not been informed2 but they supposed that they must reason differently4 #aeb499 ,on hearing this relation1 all those who were sitting at the tables exclaimed1 ,alas6 what times are come on the earth6 ,what changes has wisdom undergone8 ,how is she transformed into a false and infatuated ingenuity6 ,the sun is set1 and in his station beneath the earth is in direct opposition to his meridian altitude4 ,from the case here adduced respecting such as have been left and found in forests1 who cannot see that an uninstructed man is such as here represented8 ,for is not the nature of his life determined by the nature of the instruction he receives8 ,is he not born in a state of greater ignorance than the beasts8 ,must he not learn to walk and to speak8 ,supposing he never learnt to walk1 would he ever stand upright8 ,and if he never learnt to speak1 would he ever be able to express his thoughts8 ,is not every man such as instruction makes him1--insane from false principles1 or wise from truths8 and is not he that is insane from false principles1 entirely possessed with an imagination that he is wiser than he that is wise from truths8 ,are there not instances of men who are so wild and foolish1 that they are no more like men than those who have been found in forests8 ,is not this the case with such as have been deprived of memory8 ,from all these considerations we conclude1 that a man without instruction is neither a man nor a beast2 but that he is a form1 which is capable of receiving in itself that which constitutes a man2 and thus that he is not born a man1 but that he is made a man2 and that a man is born such a form as to be an organ receptive of life from ,god1 to the end that he may be a subject into which ,god may introduce all good1 and1 by union with himself1 may make him eternally blessed4 ,we have perceived from your conversation1 that wisdom at this day is so far extinguished or infatuated1 that nothing at all is known concerning the relative state of the life of men and of beasts2 and hence it is that the state of the life of man after death is not known3 but those who are capable of knowing this1 and yet are not willing1 and in consequence deny it1 as many ,christians do1 may fitly be compared to such as are found in forests3 not that they are rendered so stupid from a want of instruction1 but that they have rendered themselves so by the fallacies of the senses1 which are the darkness of truths4 #aec499 ,at that instant a certain person standing in the middle of the ,palladium1 and holding in his hand a palm1 said1 ,explain1 ,i pray1 this arcanum1 ,how a man1 created a form of ,god1 could be changed into a form of the devil4 ,i know that the angels of heaven are forms of ,god and that the angels of hell are forms of the devil1 and that the two forms are opposite to each other1 the latter being insanities1 the former wisdoms4 ,tell me1 therefore1 how a man1 created a form of ,god1 could pass from day into such night1 as to be capable of denying ,god and life eternal4 ,to this the several teachers replied in order2 first the ,pythagoreans1 next the ,socratics1 and afterwards the rest3 but among them there was a certain ,platonist1 who spoke last2 and his opinion prevailed1 which was to this effect2 ,that the men of the saturnine or golden age knew and acknowledged that they were forms receptive of life from ,god2 and that on this account wisdom was inscribed on their souls and hearts1 and hence they saw truth from the light of truth1 and by truths perceived good from the delight of the love thereof3 but as mankind in the following ages receded from the acknowledgement that all the truth of wisdom and the consequent good of love belonging to them1 continually flowed in from ,god1 they ceased to be habitations of ,god2 and then also discourse with ,god1 and consociation with angels ceased3 for the interiors of their minds were bent from their direction1 which had been elevated upwards to ,god from ,god1 into a direction more and more oblique1 outwardly into the world1 and thereby to ,god from ,god through the world1 and at length inverted into an opposite direction1 which is downwards to self2 and as ,god cannot be looked at by a man interiorly inverted1 and thereby averted1 men separated themselves from ,god1 and were made forms of hell or devils4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that in the first ages they acknowledged in heart and soul1 that all the good of love and the consequent true wisdom1 were derived to them from ,god1 and also that they were ,god's in them3 and thus that they were mere recipients of life from ,god1 and hence were called images of ,god1 sons of ,god1 and born of ,god3 but that in succeeding ages they did not acknowledge this in heart and soul1 but by a certain persuasive faith1 next by an historical faith1 and lastly only with the mouth2 and this last kind of acknowledgement is no acknowledgement at all2 yea1 it is in fact a denial at heart4 ,from these considerations it may be seen what is the quality of the wisdom which prevails at this day on the earth among ,christians1 while they do not know the distinction between a man and a beast1 notwithstanding their being in possession of a written revelation1 whereby they may be inspired by ,god3 and hence many believe1 that in case a man lives after death1 a beast must live also2 or because a beast is not to live after death1 neither will a man4 ,is not our spiritual light1 which enlightens the sight of the mind1 become thick darkness with them8 and is not their natural light1 which only enlightens the bodily sight1 become brightness to them8 #aed499 ,after this they all turned towards the two strangers1 and thanked them for their visit1 and for the relation they had given1 and entreated them to go and communicate to their brethren what they had heard4 ,the strangers replied that they would endeavor to confirm their brethren in this truth1 that so far as they ascribe all the good of charity and the truth of faith to the ,lord1 and not to themselves1 so far they are men1 and so far they become angels of heaven4 #aee499 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,one morning ,i was awoke by some delightful singing which ,i heard at a height above me1 and in consequence1 during the first watch1 which is internal1 pacific1 and sweet1 more than the succeeding part of the day1 ,i was in a capacity of being kept for some time in the spirit as it were out of the body1 and of attending carefully to the affection which was sung4 ,the singing of heaven is an affection of the mind1 sent forth through the mouth as a tune3 for the tone of the voice in speaking1 separate from the discourse of the speaking1 and grounded in the affection of love1 is what gives life to the speech4 ,in that state ,i perceived that it was the affection of the delights of conjugial love1 which was made musical by wives in heaven3 that this was the case1 ,i observed from the sound of the song1 in which those delights were varied in a wonderful manner4 ,after this ,i arose1 and looked into the spiritual world2 and lo6 in the east1 beneath the sun1 there appeared as it were a ,,golden ,,shower4 ,it was the morning dew descending in great abundance1 which1 catching the sun's rays1 exhibited to my eyes the appearance of a golden shower4 ,in consequence of this ,i became fully awake1 and went forth in the spirit1 and asked an angel who then happened to meet me1 whether he saw a golden shower descending from the sun8 ,he replied1 that he saw one whenever he was meditating on conjugial love2 and at the same time turning his eyes towards the sun1 he added1 ,that shower falls over a hall1 in which are three husbands with their wives1 who dwell in the midst of an eastern paradise4 ,such a shower is seen falling from the sun over that hall1 because with those husbands and wives there resides wisdom respecting conjugial love and its delights2 with the husbands respecting conjugial love1 and with the wives respecting its delights4 ,but ,i perceive that you are engaged in meditating on the delights of conjugial love3 ,i will therefore conduct you there1 and introduce you to them4 ,he led me through paradisiacal scenery to houses built of olive wood1 having two cedar columns before the gate1 and introduced me to the husbands1 and asked their permission for me to converse with them in the presence of the wives4 ,they consented1 and called their wives4 ,these looked into my eyes most shrewdly2 upon which ,i asked them1 ,why do you do so8 ,they said1 ,we can thereby discover exquisitely what is your inclination and consequent affection1 and your thought grounded in affection1 respecting the love of the sex2 and we see that you are meditating intensely1 but still chastely1 concerning it4 ,and they added1 ,what do you wish us to tell you on the subject8 ,i replied1 ,tell me1 ,i pray1 something respecting the delights of conjugial love4 ,the husbands assented1 saying1 ,if you are so disposed1 give them some information in regard to those delights3 their ears are chaste4 ,they asked me1 ,who taught you to question us respecting the delights of that love8 ,why did you not question our husbands8 ,i replied1 ,this angel1 who accompanies me1 informed me1 that wives are the recipients and sensories of those delights1 because they are born loves2 and all delights are of love4 ,to this they replied with a smile1 ,be prudent1 and declare nothing of this sort except ambiguously2 because it is a wisdom deeply seated in the hearts of our sex1 and is not discovered to any husband1 unless he be principled in love truly conjugial4 ,there are several reasons for this1 which we keep entirely to ourselves4 ,then the husbands said1 ,our wives know all the states of our minds1 none of which are hid from them3 they see1 perceive1 and are sensible of whatever proceeds from our will4 ,we1 on the other hand1 know nothing of what passes with our wives4 ,this faculty is given to wives1 because they are most tender loves1 and as it were burning zeals for the preservation of friendship and conjugial confidence1 and thereby of all the happiness of life1 which they carefully attend to1 both in regard to their husbands and themselves1 by virtue of a wisdom implanted in their love1 which is so full of prudence1 that they are unwilling to say1 and consequently cannot say1 that they love1 but that they are loved4 ,i asked the wives1 ,why are you unwilling1 and consequently cannot say so8 ,they replied1 ,if the least hint of the kind were to escape from the mouth of a wife1 the husband would be seized with coolness1 which would entirely separate him from all communication with his wife1 so that he could not even bear to look upon her2 but this is the case only with those husbands who do not hold marriages to be holy1 and therefore do not love their wives from spiritual love3 it is otherwise with those who do4 ,in the minds of the latter this love is spiritual1 and by derivation thence in the body is natural4 ,we in this hall are principled in the latter love by derivation from the former2 therefore we trust our husbands with our secrets respecting our delights of conjugial love4 ,then ,i courteously asked them to disclose to me some of those secrets3 they then looked towards a window on the southern quarter1 and lo6 there appeared a white dove1 whose wings shone as if they were of silver1 and its head was crested with a crown as of gold3 it stood upon a bough1 from which there went forth an olive2 and while it was in the attempt to spread out its wings1 the wives said1 ,we will communicate something3 the appearing of that dove is a token that we may4 ,every man 7vir7 they continued1 has five senses1 seeing1 hearing1 smelling1 taste1 and touch2 but we have likewise a sixth1 which is the sense of all the delights of the conjugial love of the husband2 and this sense we have in the palms of our hands1 while we touch the breasts1 arms1 hands1 or cheeks1 of our husbands1 especially their breasts2 and also while we are touched by them4 ,all the gladness and pleasantness of the thoughts of their minds 7mentium71 all the joys and delights of their minds 7animarum7 and all the festive and cheerful principles of their bosoms1 pass from them to us1 and become perceptible1 sensible1 and tangible3 we discern them as exquisitely and distinctly as the ear does the tune of a song1 and the tongue the taste of dainties2 in a word1 the spiritual delights of our husbands put on with us a kind of natural embodiment2 therefore they call us the sensory organs of chaste conjugial love1 and thence its delights4 ,but this sixth sense of ours exists1 subsists1 persists1 and is exalted in the degree in which our husbands love us from wisdom and judgement1 and in which we in our turn love them from the same principles in them4 ,this sense in our sex is called in the heavens the sport of wisdom with its love1 and of love with its wisdom4 ,from this information ,i became desirous of asking further questions concerning the variety of their delights4 ,they said1 ,it is infinite2 but we are unwilling and therefore unable to say more2 for the dove at our window1 with the olive branch under his feet1 is flown away4 ,i waited for its return1 but in vain4 ,in the meantime ,i asked the husbands1 ,have you a like sense of conjugial love8 ,they replied1 ,we have a like sense in general1 but not in particular4 ,we enjoy a general blessedness1 delight1 and pleasantness1 arising from the particulars of our wives2 and this general principle1 which we derive from them1 is serenely peaceful4 ,as they said this1 lo6 through the window there appeared a swan standing on a branch of a fig-tree1 which spread out his wings and flew away4 ,on seeing this1 the husbands said1 ,this is a sign for us to be silent respecting conjugial love3 come again some other time1 and perhaps you may hear more4 ,they then withdrew1 and we took our leave4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,souls ,,and ,,minds ,,by ,,marriage1 ,,which ,,is ,,meant ,,by ,,the ,,lord',s ,,words1--,,they ,,are ,,no ,,longer ,,two1 ,,but ,,one ,,flesh4 #aef499 ,that at creation there was implanted in the man and the woman an inclination and also a faculty of conjunction as into a one1 and that this inclination and this faculty are still in man and woman1 is evident from the book of creation1 and at the same time from the ,lord's words4 ,in the book of creation1 called ,,genesis1 it is written1 ,jehovah ,god builded the rib1 which he had taken from the man1 into a woman1 and brought her to the man4 ,and the man said1 ,this now is bone of my bones1 and flesh of my flesh4 ,she shall be called ,woman1 because she was taken out of man2 for this cause shall a man leave his father and his mother1 and shall cleave to his wife3 and they shall be one flesh1 chap4 ii4 #bb-bd4 ,the ,lord also says in ,matthew1 ,have ye not read1 that he that made them from the beginning1 made them a male and a female1 and said1 ,for this cause shall a man leave father and mother1 and shall cleave to his wife2 and they ,,two ,,shall ,,become ,,one ,,flesh8 ,,wherefore ,,they ,,are ,,no ,,longer ,,two1 ,,but ,,one ,,flesh1 chap4 xix4 #d-f4 ,from this it is evident1 that the woman was created out of the man 7vir71 and that each has an inclination and faculty to reunite themselves into a one4 ,that such reunion means into one man 7homo71 is also evident from the book of creation1 where both together are called man 7homo72 for it is written1 ,in the day that ,god created man 7homo71 he created them a male and a female1 and called their name ,man 7homo71 chap4 v4 #b4 ,it is there written1 he called their name ,adam2 but ,adam and man are one expression in the ,hebrew tongue3 moreover1 both together are called man in the same book1 chap4 i4 #bg2 chap4 iii4 #bb-bd4 ,one flesh also signifies one man2 as is evident from the passages in the ,word where mention is made of all flesh1 which signifies every man1 as ,gen4 chap4 vi4 #ab1 #ac1 #ag1 #ai2 ,isaiah xl4 #e1 #f2 chap4 xlix4 #bf2 chap4 lxvi4 #af1 #bc1 #bd2 ,jer4 xxv4 #ca2 chap1 xxxii4 #bg2 chap4 xlv4 #e2 ,ezek4 xx4 #dh2 chap4 xxi4 #d1 #e2 and other passages4 ,but what is meant by the man's rib1 which was builded into a woman2 what by the flesh1 which was closed up in the place thereof1 and thus what by bone of my bones1 and flesh of my flesh2 and what by a father and a mother1 whom a man 7vir7 shall leave after marriage2 and what by cleaving to a wife1 has been shewn in the ,,arcana ,,coelestia2 in which work the two books1 ,genesis and ,exodus1 are explained as to the spiritual sense4 ,it is there proved that a rib does not mean a rib1--nor flesh1 flesh1--nor a bone1 a bone1--nor cleaving to1 cleaving to2 but that they signify spiritual things1 which correspond thereto1 and consequently are signified thereby4 ,that spiritual things are understood1 which from two make one man 7homo71 is evident from this consideration1 that conjugial love conjoins them1 and this love is spiritual4 ,that the love of the man's wisdom is transferred into the wife1 has been occasionally observed above1 and will be more fully proved in the following sections3 at this time it is not allowable to digress from the subject proposed1 which is concerning the conjunction of two married partners into one flesh by a union of souls and minds4 ,this union we will elucidate by treating of it in the following order4 ,i4 ,from creation there is implanted in each sex a faculty and inclination1 whereby they are able and willing to be conjoined together as it were into a one4 ,,ii4 ,conjugial love conjoins two souls1 and thence two minds into a one4 ,,iii4 ,the will of the wife conjoins itself with the understanding of the man1 and thence the understanding of the man conjoins itself with the will of the wife4 ,,iv4 ,the inclination to unite the man to herself is constant and perpetual with the wife2 but is inconstant and alternate with the man4 ,v4 ,conjunction is inspired into the man from the wife according to her love1 and is received by the man according to his wisdom4 ,,vi4 ,this conjunction is effected successively from the first days of marriage2 and with those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 is effected more and more thoroughly to eternity4 ,,vii4 ,the conjunction of the wife with the rational wisdom of the husband is effected from within1 but with this moral wisdom from without4 ,,viii4 ,for the sake of this conjunction as an end1 the wife has a perception of the affections of the husband1 and also the utmost prudence in moderating them4 ,,ix4 ,wives conceal this perception with themselves1 and hide it from their husbands1 for reasons of necessity1 in order that conjugial love1 friendship1 and confidence1 and thereby the blessedness of dwelling together1 and the happiness of life may he secured4 ,x4 ,this perception is the wisdom of the wife1 and is not communicable to the man2 neither is the rational wisdom of the man communicable to the wife4 ,,xi4 ,the wife1 from a principle of love1 is continually thinking about the man's inclination to her1 with the purpose of joining him to herself3 it is otherwise with the man4 ,,xii4 ,the wife conjoins herself to the man1 by applications to the desires of his will4 ,,xiii4 ,the wife is conjoined to her husband by the sphere of her life flowing from the love of him4 ,,xiv4 ,the wife is conjoined to the husband by the appropriation of the powers of his virtue2 which however is effected according to their mutual spiritual love4 ,,xv4 ,thus the wife receives in herself the image of her husband1 and thence perceives1 sees1 and is sensible of1 his affections4 ,,xvi4 ,there are duties proper to the husband1 and others proper to the wife2 and the wife cannot enter into the duties proper to the husband1 nor the husband into the duties proper to the wife1 so as to perform them aright4 ,,xvii4 ,these duties1 also1 according to mutual aid1 conjoin the two into a one1 and at the same time constitute one house4 ,,xviii4 ,married partners1 according to these conjunctions1 become one man 7homo7 more and more4 ,,xix4 ,those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 are sensible of their being a united man1 and as it were one flesh4 ,,xx4 ,love truly conjugial1 considered in itself1 is a union of souls1 a conjunction of minds1 and an endeavor towards conjunction in the bosoms and thence in the body4 ,,xxi4 ,the states of this love are innocence1 peace1 tranquillity1 inmost friendship1 full confidence1 and a mutual desire of mind and heart to do very good to each other2 and the states derived from these are blessedness1 satisfaction1 delight1 and pleasure2 and from the eternal enjoyment of these is derived heavenly felicity4 ,,xxii4 ,these things can only exist in the marriage of one man with one wife4 ,we proceed now to the explanation of these articles4 #aeg4 ,i4 ,,from ,,creation ,,there ,,is ,,implanted ,,in ,,each ,,sex ,a ,,faculty ,,and ,,inclination1 ,,whereby ,,they ,,are ,,able ,,and ,,willing ,,to ,,be ,,joined ,,together1 ,,as ,,it ,,were ,,into ,a ,,one4 ,that the woman was taken out of the man1 was shewn just above from the book of creation2 hence it follows1 that there is in each sex a faculty and inclination to join themselves together into a one2 for that which is taken out of anything1 derives and retains its constituent principle1 from the principle proper to the thing whence it was taken2 and as this derived principle is of a similar nature with that from which it was derived1 it seeks after a reunion2 and when it is reunited1 it is as in itself when it is in that from whence it came1 and vice versa4 ,that there is a faculty of conjunction of the one sex with the other1 or that they are capable of being united1 is universally allowed2 and also that there is an inclination to join themselves the one with the other2 for experience supplies sufficient confirmation in both cases4 #aeh4 ,,ii4 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,conjoins ,,two ,,souls1 ,,and ,,thence ,,two ,,minds1 ,,into ,a ,,one4 ,every man consists of a soul1 a mind1 and a body4 ,the soul is his inmost1 the mind his middle1 and the body his ultimate constituent4 ,as the soul is a man's inmost principle1 it is1 from its origin1 celestial2 as the mind is his middle principle1 it is1 from its origin1 spiritual2 and as the body is his ultimate principle1 it is1 from its origin1 natural4 ,those things1 which1 from their origin1 are celestial and spiritual1 are not in space1 but in the appearance of space4 ,this also is well known in the word2 therefore it is said1 that neither extension nor place can be predicated of spiritual things4 ,since therefore spaces are appearances1 distances also and presences are appearances4 ,that the appearances of distances and presences in the spiritual world are according to proximities1 relationships1 and affinities of love1 has been frequently pointed out and confirmed in small treatises respecting that world4 ,these observations are made1 in order that it may be known that the souls and minds of men are not in space like their bodies2 because the former1 as was said above1 from their origin1 are celestial and spiritual2 and as they are not in space1 they may be joined together as into a one1 although their bodies at the same time are not so joined4 ,this is the case especially with married partners1 who love each other intimately3 but as the woman is from the man1 and this conjunction is a species of reunion1 it may be seen from reason1 that it is not a conjunction into a one1 but an adjunction1 close and near according to the love1 and approaching to contact with those who are principled in love truly conjugial4 ,this adjunction may be called spiritual dwelling together2 which takes place with married partners who love each other tenderly1 however distant their bodies may be from each other4 ,many experimental proofs exist1 even in the natural world1 in confirmation of these observations4 ,hence it is evident1 that conjugial love conjoins two souls and minds into a one4 #aei4 ,,iii4 ,,the ,,will ,,of ,,the ,,wife ,,conjoins ,,itself ,,with ,,the ,,understanding ,,of ,,the ,,man1 ,,and ,,thence ,,the ,,understanding ,,of ,,the ,,man ,,with ,,the ,,will ,,of ,,the ,,wife4 ,the reason of this is1 because the male is born to become understanding1 and the female to become will1 loving the understanding of the male2 from which consideration it follows1 that conjugial conjunction is that of the will of the wife with the understanding of the man1 and the reciprocal conjunction of the understanding of the man with the will of the wife4 ,every one sees that the conjunction of the understanding and the will is of the most intimate kind2 and that it is such1 that the one faculty can enter into the other1 and be delighted from and in the conjunction4 #afj4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,inclination ,,to ,,unite ,,the ,,man ,,to ,,herself ,,is ,,constant ,,and ,,perpetual ,,with ,,the ,,wife1 ,,but ,,inconstant ,,and ,,alternate ,,with ,,the ,,man4 ,the reason of this is1 because love cannot do otherwise than love and unite itself1 in order that it may be loved in return1 this being its very essence and life2 and women are born loves2 whereas men1 with whom they unite themselves in order that they may be loved in return1 are receptions4 ,moreover love is continually efficient2 being like heat1 flame1 and fire1 which perish if their efficiency is checked4 ,hence the inclination to unite the man to herself is constant and perpetual with the wife3 but a similar inclination does not operate with the man towards the wife1 because the man is not love1 but only a recipient of love2 and as a state of reception is absent or present according to intruding cares1 and to the varying presence or absence of heat in the mind1 as derived from various causes1 and also according to the increase and decrease of the bodily powers1 which do not return regularly and at stated periods1 it follows1 that the inclination to conjunction is inconstant and alternate with men4 #afa4 ,v4 ,,conjunction ,,is ,,inspired ,,into ,,the ,,man ,,from ,,the ,,wife ,,according ,,to ,,her ,,love1 ,,and ,,is ,,received ,,by ,,the ,,man ,,according ,,to ,,his ,,wisdom4 ,that love and consequent conjunction is inspired into the man by the wife1 is at this day concealed from the men2 yea1 it is universally denied by them2 because wives insinuate that the men alone love1 and that they themselves receive2 or that the men are loves1 and themselves obediences3 they rejoice also in heart when the men believe it to be so4 ,there are several reasons why they endeavour to persuade the men of this1 which are all grounded in their prudence and circumspection2 respecting which1 something shall be said in a future part of this work1 particularly in the chapter ,,on ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,coldness1 ,,separations1 ,,and ,,divorces ,,between ,,married ,,partners4 ,the reason why men receive from their wives the inspiration or insinuation of love1 is1 because nothing of conjugial love1 or even of the love of the sex1 is with the men1 but only with wives and females4 ,that this is the case1 has been clearly shewn me in the spiritual world4 ,i was once engaged in conversation there on this subject2 and the men1 in consequence of a persuasion infused from their wives1 insisted that they loved and not the wives2 but that the wives received love from them4 ,in order to settle the dispute respecting this arcanum1 all the females1 married and unmarried1 were withdrawn from the men1 and at the same time the sphere of the love of the sex was removed with them4 ,on the removal of this sphere1 the men were reduced to a very unusual state1 such as they had never before perceived1 at which they greatly complained4 ,then1 while they were in this state1 the females were brought to them1 and the wives to the husbands2 and both the wives and the other females addressed them in the tenderest and most engaging manner2 but they were cold to their tenderness1 and turned away1 and said one to another1 ,what is all this8 what is a female8 ,and when some of the women said that they were their wives1 they replied1 ,what is a wife8 we do not know you4 ,but when the wives began to be grieved at this absolutely cold indifference of the men1 and some of them to shed tears1 the sphere of the love of the female sex1 and the conjugial sphere1 which had for a time been withdrawn from the men1 was restored2 and then the men instantly returned into their former state1 the lovers of marriage into their state1 and the lovers of the sex into theirs4 ,thus the men were convinced1 that nothing of conjugial love1 or even of the love of the sex1 resides with them1 but only with the wives and females4 ,nevertheless1 the wives afterwards from their prudence induced the men to believe1 that love resides with the men1 and that some small spark of it may pass from them into the wives4 ,this experimental evidence is here adduced1 in order that it may be known1 that wives are loves and men recipients4 ,that men are recipients according to their wisdom1 especially according to this wisdom grounded in religion1 that the wife only is to be loved1 is evident from this consideration1 that so long as the wife only is loved1 the love is concentrated2 and because it is also ennobled1 it remains in its strength1 and is fixed and permanent2 and that in any other case it would be as when wheat from the granary is cast to the dogs1 whereby there is scarcity at home4 #afb4 ,,vi4 ,,this ,,conjunction ,,is ,,effected ,,successively ,,from ,,the ,,first ,,days ,,of ,,marriage2 ,,and ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,principled ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,it ,,is ,,effected ,,more ,,and ,,more ,,thoroughly ,,to ,,eternity4 ,the first heat of marriage does not conjoin2 for it partakes of the love of the sex1 which is the love of the body and thence of the spirit2 and what is in the spirit1 as derived from the body1 does not long continue2 but the love which is in the body1 and is derived from the spirit1 does continue4 ,the love of the spirit1 and of the body from the spirit1 is insinuated into the souls and minds of married partners1 together with friendship and confidence4 ,when these two 7friendship and confidence7 conjoin themselves with the first love of marriage1 there is effected conjugial love1 which opens the bosoms1 and inspires the sweets of that love2 and this more and more thoroughly1 in proportion as those two principles adjoin themselves to the primitive love1 and that love enters into them1 and vice versa4 #afc4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,the ,,wife ,,with ,,the ,,rational ,,wisdom ,,of ,,the ,,husband ,,is ,,effected ,,from ,,within1 ,,but ,,with ,,his ,,moral ,,wisdom ,,from ,,without4 ,that wisdom with men is two-fold1 rational and moral1 and that their rational wisdom is of the understanding alone1 and their moral wisdom is of the understanding and the life together1 may be concluded and seen from mere intuition and examination4 ,but in order that it may be known what we mean by the rational wisdom of men1 and what by their moral wisdom1 we will enumerate some of the specific distinctions4 ,the principles constituent of their rational wisdom are called by various names2 in general they are called knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom2 but in particular they are called rationality1 judgement1 capacity1 erudition1 and sagacity2 but as every one has knowledge peculiar to his office1 therefore they are multifarious2 for the clergy1 magistrates1 public officers1 judges1 physicians and chemists1 soldiers and sailors1 artificers and laborers1 husbandmen1 c41 have each their peculiar knowledge4 ,to rational wisdom also appertain all the knowledge into which young men are initiated in the schools1 and by which they are afterwards initiated into intelligence1 which also are called by various names1 as philosophy1 physics1 geometry1 mechanics1 chemistry1 astronomy1 jurisprudence1 politics1 ethics1 history1 and several others1 by which1 as by doors1 an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom4 #afd4 ,but the constituents of moral wisdom with men are all the moral virtues1 which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 and also all the spiritual virtues1 which flow from love to ,god and love towards our neighbour1 and centre in those loves4 ,the virtues which appertain to the moral wisdom of men are also of various kinds1 and are called temperance1 sobriety1 probity1 benevolence1 friendship1 modesty1 sincerity1 courtesy1 civility1 also carefulness1 industry1 quickness of wit1 alacrity1 munificence1 liberality1 generosity1 activity1 intrepidity1 prudence and many others4 ,spiritual virtues with men are the love of religion1 charity1 truth1 conscience1 innocence1 and many more4 ,the latter virtues and also the former1 may in general be referred to love and zeal for religion1 for the public good1 for a man's country1 for his fellow-citizens1 for his parents1 for his married partner1 and for his children4 ,in all these1 justice and judgement have dominion2 justice having relation to moral1 and judgement to rational wisdom4 #afe4 ,the reason why the conjunction of the wife with the man's rational wisdom is from within1 is1 because this wisdom belongs to the man's understanding1 and ascends into the light in which women are not and this is the reason why women do not speak from that wisdom2 but1 when the conversation of the men turns on subjects proper thereto1 they remain silent and listen4 ,that nevertheless such subjects have place with the wives from within1 is evident from their listening thereto1 and from their inwardly recollecting what had been said1 and favoring those things which they had heard from their husbands4 ,but the reason why the conjunction of the wife with the moral wisdom of the man is from without1 is1 because the virtues of that wisdom for the most part are akin to similar virtues with the women1 and partake of the man's intellectual will1 with which the will of the wife unites and constitutes a marriage2 and since the wife knows those virtues appertaining to the man more than the man himself does1 it is said that the conjunction of the wife with those virtues is from without4 #aff4 ,,viii4 ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,this ,,conjunction ,,as ,,an ,,end1 ,,the ,,wife ,,has ,a ,,perception ,,of ,,the ,,affections ,,of ,,the ,,husband1 ,,and ,,also ,,the ,,utmost ,,prudence ,,in ,,moderating ,,them4 ,that wives know the affections of their husbands1 and prudently moderate them1 is among the arcana of conjugial love which lie concealed with wives4 ,they know those affections by three senses1 the sight1 the hearing1 and the touch1 and moderate them while their husbands are not at all aware of it4 ,now as the reasons of this are among the arcana of wives1 it does not become me to disclose them circumstantially2 but as it is becoming for the wives themselves to do so1 therefore four ,,memorable ,,relations are added to this chapter1 in which those reasons are disclosed by the wives3 two of the ,,relations are taken from the three wives that dwelt in the hall1 over which was seen falling as it were a golden shower2 and two from the seven wives that were sitting in the garden of roses4 ,a perusal of these ,,relations will unfold this arcanum4 #afg4 ,,ix4 ,,wives ,,conceal ,,this ,,perception ,,with ,,themselves ,,and ,,hide ,,it ,,from ,,their ,,husbands1 ,,for ,,reasons ,,of ,,necessity1 ,,in ,,order ,,that ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,friendship1 ,,and ,,confidence1 ,,and ,,thereby ,,the ,,blessedness ,,of ,,dwelling ,,together ,,and ,,the ,,happiness ,,of ,,life ,,may ,,be ,,secured4 ,the concealing and hiding of the perception of the affections of the husband by the wives1 are said to be of necessity2 because if they should reveal them1 they would cause a complete alienation of their husbands1 both in mind and body4 ,the reason of this is1 because there resides deep in the minds of many men a conjugial coldness1 originating in several causes1 which will be enumerated in the chapter ,,on ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,coldnesses1 ,,separation1 ,,and ,,divorces ,,between ,,married ,,partners4 ,this ,coldness1 in case the wives should discover the affections and inclinations of their husbands1 would burst forth from its hiding places1 and communicate its cold1 first to the interiors of the mind1 afterwards to the breast1 and thence to the ultimates of love which are appropriated to generation2 and these being affected with cold1 conjugial love would be banished to such a degree1 that there would not remain any hope of friendship1 of confidence1 of the blessedness of dwelling together1 and thence of the happiness of life2 when nevertheless wives are continually feeding on this hope4 ,to make this open declaration1 that they know their husbands' affections and inclinations of love1 carries with it a declaration and publication of their own love3 and it is well known1 that so far as wives make such a declaration1 so far the men grow cold and desire a separation4 ,from these considerations the truth of this proposition is manifest1 that the reasons why wives conceal their perception with themselves1 and hide it from their husbands1 are reasons of necessity4 #afh4 ,x4 ,,this ,,perception ,,is ,,the ,,wisdom ,,of ,,the ,,wife1 ,,and ,,is ,,not ,,communicable ,,to ,,the ,,man2 ,,neither ,,is ,,the ,,rational ,,wisdom ,,of ,,the ,,man ,,communicable ,,to ,,the ,,wife4 ,this follows from the distinction subsisting between the male principle and the female4 ,the male principle consists in perceiving from the understanding1 and the female in perceiving from love3 and the understanding perceives also those things which are above the body and are out of the world2 for the rational and spiritual sight reaches to such objects2 whereas love reaches no further than to what it feels2 when it reaches further1 it is in consequence of conjunction with the understanding of the man established from creation3 for the understanding has relation to light1 and love to heat2 and those things which have relation to light1 are seen1 and those which have relation to heat1 are felt4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that from the universal distinction subsisting between the male principle and the female1 the wisdom of the wife is not communicable to the man1 neither is the wisdom of the man communicable to the wife3 nor1 further1 is the moral wisdom of the man communicable to women1 so far as it partakes of his rational wisdom4 #afi4 ,,xi4 ,,the ,,wife ,,from ,a ,,principle ,,of ,,love ,,in ,,continually ,,thinking ,,about ,,the ,,man',s ,,inclination ,,to ,,her1 ,,with ,,the ,,purpose ,,of ,,joining ,,him ,,to ,,herself3 ,,it ,,is ,,otherwise ,,with ,,the ,,man4 ,this agrees with what was explained above2 namely1 that the inclination to unite the man to herself is constant and perpetual with the wife1 but inconstant and alternate with the man2 see n4 #afj3 hence it follows1 that the wife's thoughts are continually employed about her husband's inclination to her1 with the purpose of joining him to herself4 ,her thoughts concerning her husband are interrupted indeed by domestic concerns2 but still they remain in the affection of her love2 and this affection does not separate itself from the thoughts with women1 as it does with men3 these things1 however1 ,i relate from hearsay2 see the two ,,memorable ,,relations from the seven wives sitting in the rose-garden1 which are annexed to some of the following chapters4 #agj4 ,,xii4 ,,the ,,wife ,,conjoins ,,herself ,,to ,,the ,,man ,,by ,,applications ,,to ,,the ,,desires ,,of ,,his ,,will4 ,this being generally known and admitted1 it is needless to explain it4 #aga4 ,,xiii4 ,,the ,,wife ,,is ,,conjoined ,,to ,,her ,,husband ,,by ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,her ,,life ,,flowing ,,from ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,him4 ,there flows1 yea there overflows1 from every man 7homo7 a spiritual sphere1 derived from the affections of his love1 which encompasses him1 and infuses itself into the natural sphere derived from the body1 so that the two spheres are conjoined4 ,that a natural sphere is continually flowing1 not only from men1 but also from beasts1 yea from trees1 fruits1 flowers1 and also from metals1 is generally known4 ,the case is the same in the spiritual world2 but the spheres flowing from subjects in that world are spiritual1 and those which emanate from spirits and angels are altogether spiritual2 because there appertain thereto affections of love1 and thence interior perceptions and thoughts4 ,this is the origin of all sympathy and antipathy1 and likewise of all conjunction and disjunction1 and1 according thereto1 of presence and absence in the spiritual world3 for what is of a similar nature or concordant causes conjunction and presence1 and what is of a dissimilar nature and discordant causes disjunction and absence2 therefore those spheres cause distances in that world4 ,what effects those spiritual spheres produce in the natural world1 is also known to some4 ,the inclinations of married partners towards each other are from no other origin4 ,they are united by unanimous and concordant spheres1 and disunited by adverse and discordant spheres2 for concordant spheres are delightful and grateful1 whereas discordant spheres are undelightful and ungrateful4 ,i have been informed by the angels1 who are in a clear perception of those spheres1 that every part of a man1 both interior and exterior1 renews itself2 which is effected by solutions and reparations2 and that hence arises the sphere which continually issues forth4 ,i have also been informed that this sphere encompasses a man on the back and on the breast1 lightly on the back1 but more densely on the breast1 and that the sphere issuing from the breast conjoins itself with the respiration2 and that this is the reason why two married partners1 who are of different minds and discordant affections1 lie in bed back to back1 and1 on the other hand1 why those who agree in minds and affections1 mutually turn towards each other4 ,i have been further informed by the angels1 that these spheres1 because they flow from every part of a man 7homo71 and are abundantly continued around him1 conjoin and disjoin two married partners not only externally1 but also internally2 and that hence come all the differences and varieties of conjugial love4 ,lastly1 ,i have been informed1 that the sphere of love1 flowing from a wife who is tenderly loved1 is perceived in heaven as sweetly fragrant1 by far more pleasant than it is perceived in the world by a newly married man during the first days after marriage4 ,from these considerations is manifested the truth of the assertion1 that a wife is conjoined to a man by the sphere of her life flowing from the love of him4 #agb4 ,,xiv4 ,,the ,,wife ,,is ,,conjoined ,,to ,,the ,,husband ,,by ,,the ,,appropriation ,,of ,,the ,,powers ,,of ,,his ,,virtue2 ,,which ,,however ,,is ,,effected ,,according ,,to ,,their ,,mutual ,,spiritual ,,love4 ,that this is the case1 ,i have also gathered from the mouth of angels4 ,they have declared that the prolific principles imparted from the husbands are received universally by the wives and add themselves to their life2 and that thus the wives lead a life unanimous1 and successively more unanimous with their husbands2 and that hence is effectively produced a union of souls and a conjunction of minds4 ,they declared the reason of this was1 because in the prolific principle of the husband is his soul1 and also his mind as to its interiors1 which are conjoined to the soul4 ,they added1 that this was provided from creation1 in order that the wisdom of the man1 which constitutes his soul1 may be appropriated to the wife1 and that thus they may become1 according to the ,lord's words1 one flesh3 and further1 that this was provided1 lest the husband 7homovir7 from some caprice should leave the wife after conception4 ,but they added further1 that applications and appropriations of the life of the husband with the wife are effected according to conjugial love1 because love which is spiritual union1 conjoins2 and that this also is provided for several reasons4 #agc4 ,,xv4 ,,thus ,,the ,,wife ,,receives ,,in ,,herself ,,the ,,image ,,of ,,her ,,husband1 ,,and ,,thence ,,perceives1 ,,sees1 ,,and ,,is ,,sensible ,,of1 ,,his ,,affections4 ,from the reasons above adduced it follows as an established fact1 that wives receive in themselves those things which appertain to the wisdom of their husbands1 thus which are proper to the souls and minds of their husbands1 and thereby from virgins make themselves wives4 ,the reasons from which this follows1 are1 #a4 ,that the woman was created out of the man4 #b4 ,that hence she has an inclination to unite1 and as it were to reunite herself with the man4 #c4 ,that by virtue of this union with her partner1 and for the sake of it1 the woman is born the love of the man1 and becomes more and more the love of him by marriage2 because in this case the love is continually employing its thoughts to conjoin the man to itself4 #d4 ,that the woman is conjoined to her only one 7unico suo7 by application to the desires of his life4 #e4 ,that they are conjoined by the spheres which encompass them1 and which unite themselves universally and particularly according to the quality of the conjugial love with the wives1 and at the same time according to the quality of the wisdom recipient thereof with the husbands4 #f4 ,that they are also conjoined by appropriations of the powers of the husbands by the wives4 #g4 ,from which reasons it is evident1 that there is continually somewhat of the husband being transferred to the wife1 and inscribed on her as her own4 ,from all these considerations it follows1 that the image of the husband is formed in the wife2 by virtue of which image the wife perceives1 sees1 and is sensible of1 the things which are in her husband1 in herself1 and thence as it were herself in him4 ,she perceives from communication1 she sees from aspect1 and she is made sensible from the touch4 ,that she is made sensible of the reception of her love by the husband from the touch in the palms of the hands1 on the cheeks1 the shoulders1 the hands1 and the breasts1 ,i learnt from the three wives in the hall1 and the seven wives in the rose garden1 spoken of in the ,,memorable ,,relations which follow4 #agd4 ,,xvi4 ,,there ,,are ,,duties ,,proper ,,to ,,the ,,husband ,,and ,,others ,,proper ,,to ,,the ,,wife2 ,,and ,,the ,,wife ,,cannot ,,enter ,,into ,,the ,,duties ,,proper ,,to ,,the ,,husband1 ,,nor ,,the ,,husband ,,into ,,the ,,duties ,,proper ,,to ,,the ,,wife1 ,,so ,,as ,,to ,,perform ,,them ,,aright4 ,that there are duties proper to the husband1 and others proper to the wife1 needs not to be illustrated by an enumeration of them2 for they are many and various3 and every one that chooses to do so can arrange them numerically according to their genera and species4 ,the duties by which wives principally conjoin themselves with their husbands1 are those which relate to the education of the children of each sex1 and of the girls till they are marriageable4 #age4 ,the wife cannot enter into the duties proper to the husband1 nor on the other hand the husband into the duties proper to the wife1 because they differ like wisdom and the love thereof1 or like thought and the affection thereof1 or like understanding and the will thereof4 ,in the duties proper to husbands1 the primary agent is understanding1 thought1 and wisdom2 whereas in the duties proper to wives1 the primary agent is will1 affection1 and love2 and the wife from the latter performs her duties1 and the husband from the former performs his2 wherefore their duties are naturally different1 but still conjunctive in a successive series4 ,many believe that women can perform the duties of men1 if they are initiated therein at an early age1 as boys are4 ,they may indeed be initiated into the practice of such duties1 but not into the judgement on which the propriety of duties interiorly depends2 wherefore such women as have been initiated into the duties of men1 are bound in matters of judgement to consult men1 and then1 if they are left to their own disposal1 they select from the counsels of men that which suits their own inclination4 ,some also suppose that women are equally capable with men of elevating their intellectual vision1 and into the same sphere of light1 and of viewing things with the same depth2 and they have been led into this opinion by the writings of certain learned authoresses3 but these writings1 when examined in the spiritual world in the presence of the authoresses1 were found to be the productions1 not of judgement and wisdom1 but of ingenuity and wit2 and what proceeds from these on account of the elegance and neatness of the style in which it is written1 has the appearance of sublimity and erudition2 yet only in the eyes of those who dignify all ingenuity by the name of wisdom4 ,in like manner men cannot enter into the duties proper to women1 and perform them aright1 because they are not in the affections of women1 which are altogether distinct from the affections of men4 ,as the affections and perceptions of the male 7and of the female7 sex are thus distinct by creation and consequently by nature1 therefore among the statutes given to the sons of ,israel this also was ordained1 ,a woman shall not put on the garment of a man1 neither shall a man put on the garment of a woman2 because this is an abomination4 ,deut4 xxii4 #e4 ,this was1 because1 all in the spiritual world are clothed according to their affections2 and the two affections1 of the woman and of the man1 cannot be united except 7as subsisting7 between two1 and in no case 7as subsisting7 in one4 #agf4 ,,xvii4 ,,these ,,duties ,,also1 ,,according ,,to ,,mutual ,,aid1 ,,conjoin ,,the ,,two ,,into ,a ,,one1 ,,and ,,at ,,the ,,same ,,time ,,constitute ,,one ,,house4 ,it is well known in the world that the duties of the husband in some way conjoin themselves with the duties of the wife1 and that the duties of the wife adjoin themselves to the duties of the husband1 and that these conjunctions and adjunctions are a mutual aid1 and according thereto3 but the primary duties1 which confederate1 consociate1 and gather into one the souls and lives of two married partners1 relate to the common care of educating their children2 in relation to which care1 the duties of the husband and of the wife are distinct1 and yet join themselves together4 ,they are distinct2 for the care of suckling and nursing the infants of each sex1 and also the care of instructing the girls till they become marriageable1 is properly the duty of the wife2 whereas the care of instructing the boys1 from childhood to youth1 and from youth till they become capable of governing themselves1 is properly the duty of the husband3 nevertheless the duties1 of both the husband and the wife1 are blended by means of counsel and support1 and several other mutual aids4 ,that these duties1 both conjoined and distinct1 or both common and peculiar1 combine the minds of conjugial partners into one2 and that this is effected by the love called storge1 is well known4 ,it is also well known1 that these duties1 regarded in their distinction and conjunction1 constitute one house4 #agg4 ,,xviii4 ,,married ,,partners1 ,,according ,,to ,,these ,,conjunctions1 ,,become ,,one ,,man 7homo7 ,,more ,,and ,,more4 ,this coincides with what is contained in article ,,vi42 where it was observed1 that conjunction is effected successively from the first days of marriage and that with those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 it is effected more and more thoroughly to eternity2 see above4 ,they become one man in proportion as conjugial love increases2 and as this love in the heavens is genuine by virtue of the celestial and spiritual life of the angels1 therefore two married partners are there called two1 when they are regarded as husband and wife1 but one1 when they are regarded as angels4 #agh4 ,,xix4 ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,principled ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,are ,,sensible ,,of ,,their ,,being ,a ,,united ,,man1 ,,and ,,as ,,it ,,were ,,one ,,flesh4 ,that this is the case1 must be confirmed not from the testimony of any inhabitant of the earth1 but from the testimony of the inhabitants of heaven2 for there is no love truly conjugial at this day with men on earth2 and moreover1 men on earth are encompassed with a gross body1 which deadens and absorbs the sensation that two married partners are a united man1 and as it were one flesh2 and besides1 those in the world who love their married partners only exteriorly1 and not interiorly1 do not wish to hear of such a thing3 they think also on the subject lasciviously under the influence of the flesh4 ,it is otherwise with the angels of heaven1 who are principled in spiritual and celestial conjugial love1 and are not encompassed with so gross a body as men on earth4 ,from those among them who have lived for ages with their conjugial partners in heaven1 ,i have heard it testified1 that they are sensible of their being so united1 the husband with the wife1 and the wife with the husband1 and each in the other mutually and interchangeably1 as also in the flesh1 although they are separate4 ,the reason why this phenomenon is so rare on earth1 they have declared to be this2 because the union of the souls and minds of married partners on earth is made sensible in their flesh2 for the soul constitutes the inmost principles not only of the head1 but also of the body3 in like manner the mind1 which is intermediate between the soul and the body1 and which1 although it appears to be in the head1 is yet also actually in the whole body3 and they have declared1 that this is the reason why the acts1 which the soul and mind intend1 flow forth instantly from the body2 and that hence also it is1 that they themselves1 after the rejection of the body in the former world1 are perfect men4 ,now1 since the soul and the mind join themselves closely to the flesh of the body1 in order that they may operate and produce their effects1 it follows that the union of soul and mind with a married partner is made sensible also in the body as one flesh4 ,as the angels made these declarations1 ,i heard it asserted by the spirits who were present1 that such subjects belong to angelic wisdom1 being above ordinary apprehension2 but these spirits were rational-natural1 and not rational-spiritual4 #agi4 ,,xx4 ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,considered ,,in ,,itself1 ,,is ,a ,,union ,,of ,,souls1 ,a ,,conjunction ,,of ,,minds1 ,,and ,,an ,,endeavour ,,towards ,,conjunction ,,in ,,the ,,bosoms ,,and ,,thence ,,in ,,the ,,body4 ,that it is a union of souls and a conjunction of minds1 may be seen above1 n4 #aeh4 ,the reason why it is an endeavour towards conjunction in the bosoms is1 because the bosom 7or breast7 is as it were a place of public assembly1 and a royal council-chamber1 while the body is as a populous city around it4 ,the reason why the bosom is as it were a place of public assembly1 is1 because all things1 which by derivation from the soul and mind have their determination in the body1 first flow into the bosom2 and the reason why it is as it were a royal council chamber1 is1 because in the bosom there is dominion over all things of the body2 for in the bosom are contained the heart and lungs2 and the heart rules by the blood1 and the lungs by the respiration1 in every part4 ,that the body is as a populous city around it1 is evident4 ,when therefore the souls and minds of married partners are united1 and love truly conjugial unites them1 it follows that this lovely union flows into their bosoms1 and through their bosoms into their bodies1 and causes an endeavour towards conjunction2 and so much the more1 because conjugial love determines the endeavour to its ultimates1 in order to complete its satisfactions2 and as the bosom is intermediate between the body and the mind1 it is evident on what account conjugial love has fixed therein the seat of its delicate sensation4 #ahj4 ,,xxi4 ,,the ,,states ,,of ,,this ,,love ,,are ,,innocence1 ,,peace1 ,,tranquillity1 ,,inmost ,,friendship1 ,,full ,,confidence1 ,,and ,a ,,mutual ,,desire ,,of ,,mind ,,and ,,heart ,,to ,,do ,,every ,,good ,,to ,,each ,,other2 ,,and ,,the ,,states ,,derived ,,from ,,these ,,are ,,blessedness1 ,,satisfaction1 ,,delight ,,and ,,pleasure2 ,,and ,,from ,,the ,,eternal ,,enjoyment ,,of ,,these ,,is ,,derived ,,heavenly ,,felicity4 ,all these things are in conjugial love1 and thence are derived from it1 because its origin is from the marriage of good and truth1 and this marriage is from the ,lord2 and because love is of such a nature1 that it desires to communicate with another1 whom it loves from the heart1 yea1 confer joys upon him1 and thence to derive its own joys4 ,this therefore is the case in an infinitely high degree with the divine love1 which is in the ,lord1 in regard to man1 whom he created a receptacle of both love and wisdom proceeding from himself2 and as he created man 7homo7 for the reception of those principles1 the man 7vir7 for the reception of wisdom1 and the woman for the reception of the love of the man's wisdom1 therefore from inmost principles he infused into men 7homines7 conjugial love into which love he might insinuate all things blessed1 satisfactory1 delightful1 and pleasant1 which proceed solely from his divine love through his divine wisdom1 together with life1 and flow into their recipients2 consequently1 which flow into those who are principled in love truly conjugial2 for these alone are recipients4 ,mention is made of innocence1 peace1 tranquillity1 inmost friendship1 full confidence1 and the mutual desire of doing every good to each other2 for innocence and peace relate to the soul1 tranquillity to the mind1 inmost friendship to the breast1 full confidence to the heart1 and the mutual desire of doing every good to each other1 to the body as derived from the former principles4 #aha4 ,,xxii4 ,,these ,,things ,,can ,,only ,,exist ,,in ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,one ,,man ,,with ,,one ,,wife4 ,this is a conclusion from all that has been said above1 and also from all that remains to be said2 therefore there is no need of any particular comment for its confirmation4 99 99 99 99 99 #ahb4 ,to the above ,i will add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,after some weeks1 ,i heard a voice from heaven1 saying1 ,lo6 there is again an assembly on ,parnassus3 come hither1 and we will shew you the way4 ,i accordingly came2 and as ,i drew near1 ,i saw a certain person on ,helicon with a trumpet1 with which he announced and proclaimed the assembly4 ,and ,i saw the inhabitants of ,athens and its suburbs ascending as before2 and in the midst of them three novitiates from the world4 ,they were of a ,christian community2 one a priest1 another a politician1 and the third a philosopher4 ,these they entertained on the way with conversation on various subjects1 especially concerning the wise ancients1 whom they named4 ,they inquired whether they should see them1 and were answered in the affirmative1 and were told1 that if they were desirous1 they might pay their respects to them1 as they were courteous and affable4 ,the novitiates then inquired after ,demosthenes1 ,diogenes1 and ,epicurus2 and were answered1 ,demosthenes is not here1 but with ,plato2 ,diogenes1 with his scholars1 resides under ,helicon1 because of his little attention to worldly things1 and his being engaged in heavenly contemplations2 ,epicurus dwells in a border to the west1 and has no intercourse with us2 because we distinguish between good and evil affections1 and say1 that good affections are one with wisdom1 and evil affections are contrary to it4 ,when they had ascended the hill ,parnassus1 some guards there brought water in crystal cups from a fountain in the mount1 and said1 ,this is water from the fountain which1 according to ancient fable1 was broken open by the hoof of the horse ,pegasus1 and was afterwards consecrated to nine virgins3 but by the winged horse ,pegasus they meant the understanding of truth1 by which comes wisdom2 by the hoofs of his feet they understood experiences whereby comes natural intelligence2 and by the nine virgins they understood knowledges and sciences of every kind4 ,these things are now called fables2 but they were correspondences1 agreeable to the primeval method of speaking4 ,then those who attended the three strangers said1 ,be not surprised2 the guards are told thus to speak2 but we know that to drink water from the fountain1 means to be instructed concerning truths1 and by truths concerning goods1 and thereby to grow wise4 ,after this1 they entered the ,palladium1 and with them the three novitiates1 the priest1 the politician1 and the philosopher2 and immediately the laureled sophi who were seated at the tables1 asked1 ,,what ,,news ,,from ,,the ,,earth8 ,they replied1 ,this is news2 that a certain person declares that he converses with angels1 and has his sight opened into the spiritual world1 equally as into the natural world2 and he brings thence much new information1 and1 among other particulars1 asserts1 that a man lives a man after death1 as he lived before in the world2 that he sees1 hears1 speaks1 as before in the world2 that he is clothed and decked with ornaments1 as before in the world2 that he hungers and thirsts1 eats and drinks1 as before in the world2 that he enjoys conjugial delights1 as before in the world2 that he sleeps and wakes1 as before in the world2 that in the spiritual world there are land and water1 mountains and hills1 plains and valleys1 fountains and rivers1 paradises and groves2 also that there are palaces and houses1 cities and villages1 as in the natural world2 and further1 that there are writings and books1 employments and trades2 also precious stones1 gold and silver2 in a word1 that there are all such things there as there are on earth1 and that those things in the heavens are infinitely more perfect2 with this difference only1 that all things in the spiritual world are from a spiritual origin1 and therefore are spiritual1 because they are from the sun of that world1 which is pure love2 whereas all things in the natural world are from a natural origin1 and therefore are natural and material1 because they are from the sun of that world1 which is pure fire2 in short1 that a man after death is perfectly a man1 yea more perfectly than before in the world2 for before in the world he was in a material body1 but in the spiritual world he is in a spiritual body4 ,hereupon the ancient sages asked1 ,what do the people on the earth think of such information8 ,the three strangers replied1 ,we know that it is true1 because we are here1 and have viewed and examined everything2 wherefore we will tell you what has been said and reasoned about it on earth4 ,then the ,,priest said1 ,those of our order1 when they first heard such relations1 called them visions1 then fictions2 afterwards they insisted that the man had seen spectres1 and lastly they hesitated1 and said1 ',believe them who will2 we have hitherto taught that a man will not be in a body after death until the day of the last judgement4' ,then the sages asked1 ,are there no intelligent persons among those of your order1 who can prove and evince the truth1 that a man lives a man after death8 ,the priest said1 ,there are indeed some who prove it1 but not to the conviction of others4 ,those who prove it say1 that it is contrary to sound reason to believe1 that a man does not live a man till the day of the last judgement1 and that in the mean while he is a soul without a body4 ,what is the soul1 or where is it in the interim8 ,is it a vapor1 or some wind floating in the atmosphere1 or some thing hidden in the bowels of the earth8 ,have the souls of ,adam and ,eve1 and of all their posterity1 now for six thousand years1 or sixty ages1 been flying about in the universe1 or been shut up in the bowels of the earth1 waiting for the last judgement8 ,what can be more anxious and miserable than such an expectation8 ,may not their lot in such a case be compared with that of prisoners bound hand and foot1 and lying in a dungeon8 ,if such be a man's lot after death1 would it not be better to be born an ass than a man8 ,is it not also contrary to reason to believe1 that the soul can be re-clothed with its body8 ,is not the body eaten up by worms1 mice1 and fish8 ,and can a bony skeleton that has been parched in the sun1 or mouldered into dust1 be introduced into a new body8 ,and how could the cadaverous and putrid materials be collected1 and reunited to the souls8 ,when such questions as these are urged1 those of our order do not offer any answers grounded in reason1 but adhere to their creed1 saying1 ',we keep reason under obedience to faith4' ,with respect to collecting all the parts of the human body from the grave at the last day1 they say1 ',this is a work of omnipotence2' and when they name omnipotence and faith1 reason is banished2 and ,i am free to assert1 that in such case sound reason is not appreciated1 and by some is regarded as a spectre2 yea1 they can say to sound reason1 ',thou art unsound4' ,on hearing these things1 the ,grecian sages said1 ,surely such paradoxes vanish and disperse of themselves1 as being full of contradiction2 and yet in the world at this day they cannot be dispersed by sound reason4 ,what can be believed more paradoxical than what is told respecting the last judgement2 that the universe will then be destroyed1 and that the stars of heaven will then fall down upon the earth1 which is less than the stars2 and that then the bodies of men1 whether they be mouldering carcases1 or mummies eaten by men1 or reduced to mere dust1 will meet and be united again with their souls8 ,we1 during our abode in the world1 from the inductions of reason1 believed the immortality of the souls of men2 and we also assigned regions for the blessed1 which we call the elysian fields2 and we believed that the soul was a human image or appearance1 but of a fine and delicate nature1 because spiritual4 ,after this1 the assembly turned to the other stranger1 who in the world had been a ,,politician4 ,he confessed that he did not believe in a life after death1 and that respecting the new information which he had heard about it1 he thought it all fable and fiction4 ,in my meditations on the subject1 said he1 ,i used to say to myself1 ',how can souls be bodies8--does not the whole man lie dead in the grave8--is not the eye there2 how can he see8--is not the ear there1 how can he hear8--whence must he have a mouth wherewith to speak8 ,supposing anything of a man to live after death1 must it not resemble a spectre8 and how can a spectre eat and drink1 or how can it enjoy conjugial delights8 whence can it have clothes1 houses1 meats1 c48 ,besides1 spectres1 which are mere aerial images1 appear as if they really existed2 and yet they do not4 ,these and similar sentiments ,i used to entertain in the world concerning the life of men after death2 but now1 since ,i have seen all things1 and touched them with my hands1 ,i am convinced by my very senses that ,i am a man as ,i was in the world2 so that ,i know no other than that ,i live now as ,i lived formerly2 with only this difference1 that my reason now is sounder4 ,at times ,i have been ashamed of my former thoughts4 ,the ,,philosopher gave much the same account of himself as the politician had done2 only differing in this respect1 that he considered the new relations which he had heard concerning a life after death1 as having reference to opinions and hypotheses which he had collected from the ancients and moderns4 ,when the three strangers had done speaking1 the sophi were all in amazement2 and those who were of the ,socratic school1 said1 that from the news they had heard from the earth1 it was quite evident1 that the interiors of human minds had been successively closed2 and that in the world at this time a belief in what is false shines as truth1 and an infatuated ingenuity as wisdom2 and that the light of wisdom1 since their times1 has descended from the interiors of the brain into the mouth beneath the nose1 where it appears to the eyes as a shining of the lip1 while the speech of the mouth thence proceeding appears as wisdom4 ,hereupon one of the young scholars said1 ,how stupid are the minds of the inhabitants of the earth at this day6 ,i wish we had here the disciples of ,heraclitus1 who weep at every thing1 and of ,democritus1 who laugh at every thing2 for then we should hear much lamentation and much laughter4 ,when the assembly broke up1 they gave the three novitiates the insignia of their authority1 which were copper plates1 on which were engraved some hieroglyphic characters2 with which they took their leave and departed4 #ahc4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,i saw in the eastern quarter a grove of palm-trees and laurels1 set in winding rows1 which ,i approached and entered2 and walking in the winding paths ,i saw at the end a garden1 which formed the centre of the grove4 ,there was a little bridge dividing the grove from the garden1 and at the bridge two gates1 one on the side next the grove1 and the other on the side next the garden4 ,and as ,i drew near1 the keeper opened the gates1 and ,i asked him the name of the garden4 ,he said1 ,,adramandoni2 which is the delight of conjugial love4 ,i entered1 and lo6 there were olive-trees2 and among them ran pendulous vines1 and underneath and among them were shrubs in flower4 ,in the midst of the garden was a grassy circus1 on which were seated husbands and wives1 and youths and maidens1 in pairs2 and in the midst of the circus1 on an elevated piece of ground1 there was a little fountain1 which1 from the strength of its spring1 threw its water to a considerable height4 ,on approaching the circus ,i saw two angels clad in purple and scarlet1 in conversation with those who were seated on the grass4 ,they were conversing respecting the origin of conjugial love1 and respecting its delights2 and this being the object of their discourse1 the attention was eager1 and the reception full2 and hence there was an exaltation in the speech of the angels as from the fire of love4 ,i collected the following summary of what was said4 ,they began with the difficulty of investigating and perceiving the origin of conjugial love2 because its origin is divinely celestial1 it being divine love1 divine wisdom1 and divine use1 which three proceed as a one from the ,lord1 and hence flow as a one into the souls of men1 and through their souls into their minds1 and there into the interior affections and thoughts1 and through these into the desires next to the body1 and from these through the breast into the genital region1 where all principles derived from their first origin exist together1 and1 in union with successive principles1 constitute conjugial love4 ,after this the angels said1 ,let us communicate together by questions and answers2 since the perception of a thing1 imbibed by hearing only1 flows in indeed1 but does not remain unless the bearer also thinks of it from himself1 and asks questions concerning it4 ,then some of that conjugial assembly said to the angels1 ,we have heard that the origin of conjugial love is divinely celestial2 because it is by virtue of influx from the ,lord into the souls of men2 and1 as it is from the ,lord1 that it is love1 wisdom1 and use1 which are three essentials1 together constituting one divine essence1 and that nothing but what is of the divine essence can proceed from him1 and flow into the inmost principle of man 7homo71 which is called his soul2 and that these three essentials are changed into analogous and corresponding principles in their descent into the body4 ,we ask therefore now in the first place1 ,what is meant by the third proceeding divine essential1 which is called use8 ,the angels replied1 ,love and wisdom1 without use1 are only abstract ideas of thought2 which also after some continuance in the mind pass away like the winds2 but in use they are collected together1 and therein become one principle1 which is called real4 ,love cannot rest unless it is as work2 for love is the essential active principle of life2 neither can wisdom exist and subsist unless when it is at work from and with love2 and to work is use2 therefore we define use to be the doing good from love by wisdom2 use being essential good4 ,as these three essentials1 love1 wisdom1 and use1 flow into the souls of men1 it may appear from what ground it is said1 that all good is from ,god2 for every thing done from love by wisdom1 is called good2 and use also is something done4 ,what is love without wisdom but a mere infatuation8 and what is love with wisdom without use1 but a puff of the mind8 ,whereas love and wisdom with use not only constitute man 7homo71 but also are man2 yea1 what possibly you will be surprised at1 they propagate man2 for in the seed of a man 7vir7 is his soul in a perfect human form1 covered with substances from the purest principles of nature2 whereof a body is formed in the womb of the mother4 ,this is the supreme and ultimate use of the divine love by the divine wisdom4 ,finally the angels said1 ,we will hence come to this conclusion1 that all fructification1 propagation1 and prolification1 is originally derived from the influx of love1 wisdom1 and use from the ,lord1 from an immediate influx into the souls of men1 from a mediate influx into the souls of animals1 and from an influx still more mediate into the inmost principles of vegetables2 and all these effects are wrought in ultimates from first principles4 ,that fructifications1 propagations1 and prolifications1 are continuations of creation1 is evident2 for creation cannot be from any other source1 than from divine love by divine wisdom in divine use2 wherefore all things in the universe are procreated and formed from use1 in use1 and for use4 ,afterwards those who were seated on the grassy couches1 asked the angels ,whence are the innumerable and ineffable delights of conjugial love8 ,the angels replied1 ,they are from the uses of love and wisdom1 as may be plain from this consideration1 that so far as any one loves to grow wise1 for the sake of genuine use1 so far he is in the vein and potency of conjugial love2 and so far as he is in these two1 so far he is in the delights thereof4 ,use effects this2 because love and wisdom are delighted with each other1 and as it were sport together like little children2 and as they grow up1 they enter into genial conjunction1 which is effected by a kind of betrothing1 nuptial solemnity1 marriage1 and propagation1 and this with continual variety to eternity4 ,these operations take place between love and wisdom inwardly in use4 ,those delights in their first principles are imperceptible2 but they become more and more perceptible as they descend thence by degrees and enter the body4 ,they enter by degrees from the soul into the interiors of a man's mind1 from these into its exteriors1 from these into the bosom1 and from the bosom into the genital region4 ,those celestial nuptial sports in the soul are not at all perceived by man2 but they thence insinuate themselves into the interiors of the mind under a species of peace and innocence1 and into the exteriors of the mind under a species of blessedness1 satisfaction1 and delight2 in the bosom under a species of the delights of inmost friendship2 and in the genital region1 from continual influx even from the soul with the essential sense of conjugial love1 as the delight of delights4 ,these nuptial sports of love and wisdom in use in the soul1 in proceeding towards the bosom1 become permanent1 and present themselves sensible therein under an infinite variety of delights2 and from the wonderful communication of the bosom with the genital region1 the delights therein become the delights of conjugial love1 which are superior to all other delights in heaven and in the world2 because the use of conjugial love is the most excellent of all uses1 the procreation of the human race being thence derived1 and from the human race the angelic heaven4 ,to this the angels added1 that those who are not principled in the love of wisdom for the sake of use from the ,lord1 do not know anything concerning the variety of the innumerable delights of love truly conjugial2 for with those who do not love to grow wise from genuine truths1 but love to be insane from false principles1 and by this insanity perform evil uses from some particular love1 the way to the soul is closed3 hence the heavenly nuptial sports of love and wisdom in the soul1 being more and more intercepted1 cease1 and together with them conjugial love ceases with its vein1 its potency1 and its delights4 ,on hearing these statements the audience said1 ,we now perceive that conjugial love is according to the love of growing wise for the sake of uses from the ,lord4 ,the angels replied that it was so4 ,and instantly upon the heads of some of the audience there appeared wreaths of flowers2 and on their asking1 ,why is this8 the angels said1 ,because they have understood more profoundly3 and immediately they departed from the garden1 and the latter in the midst of them4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,change ,,of ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,life ,,which ,,takes ,,place ,,with ,,men ,,and ,,women ,,by ,,marriage4 #ahd4 ,what is meant by states of life1 and their changes1 is very well known to the learned and the wise1 but unknown to the unlearned and the simple2 wherefore it may be expedient to premise somewhat on the subject4 ,the state of a man's life is its quality2 and as there are in every man two faculties which constitute his life1 and which are called the understanding and the will1 the state of a man's life is its quality as to the understanding and the will4 ,hence it is evident1 that changes of the state of life mean changes of quality as to the things appertaining to the understanding and the will4 ,that every man is continually changing as to those two principles1 but with a distinction of variations before marriage and after it1 is the point proposed to be proved in this section2 which shall be done in the following propositions3--,i4 ,the state of a man's 7homo7 life from infancy even to the end of his life1 and afterwards to eternity1 is continually changing4 ,,ii4 ,in like manner a man's internal form which is that of his spirit1 is continually changing4 ,,iii4 ,these changes differ in the case of men and of women2 since men from creation are forms of knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom1 and women are forms of the love of those principles as existing with men4 ,,iv4 ,with men there is an elevation of the mind into superior light1 and with women an elevation of the mind into superior heat3 and that the woman is made sensible of the delights of her heat in the man's light4 ,v4 ,with both men and women1 the states of life before marriage are different from what they are afterwards4 ,,vi4 ,with married partners the states of life after marriage are changed and succeed each other according to the conjunctions of their minds by conjugial love4 ,,vii4 ,marriage also induces other forms in the souls and minds of married partners4 ,,viii4 ,the woman is actually formed into a wife according to the description in the book of creation4 ,,ix4 ,this formation is effected on the part of the wife by secret means2 and this is meant by the woman's being created while the man slept4 ,x4 ,this formation on the part of the wife is affected by the conjunction of her own will with the internal will of the man4 ,,xi4 ,the end herein is1 that the will of both became one1 and that thus both may become one man 7homo74 ,,xii4 ,this formation on the part of the wife is affected by an appropriation of the affections of the husband4 ,,xiii4 ,this formation on the part of the wife is effected by a reception of the propagations of the soul of the husband1 with the delight arising from her desire to be the love of her husband's wisdom4 ,,xiv4 ,thus a maiden is formed into a wife1 and a youth into a husband4 ,,xv4 ,in the marriage of one man with one wife1 between whom there exists love truly conjugial1 the wife becomes more and more a wife and the husband more and more a husband4 ,,xvi4 ,thus also their forms are successively perfected and ennobled from within4 ,,xvii4 ,children born of parents who are principled in love truly conjugial1 derive from them the conjugial principle of good and truth2 whence they have an inclination and faculty1 if sons1 to perceive the things relating to wisdom1 and if daughters1 to love those things which wisdom teaches4 ,,xviii4 ,the reason of this is because the soul of the offspring is from the father and its clothing from the mother4 ,we proceed to the explanation of each article4 #ahe4 ,i4 ,,the ,,state ,,of ,a ,,man',s 7homo7 ,,life1 ,,from ,,infancy ,,even ,,to ,,the ,,end ,,of ,,his ,,life1 ,,and ,,afterwards ,,to ,,eternity1 ,,is ,,continually ,,changing4 ,the common states of a man's life are called infancy1 childhood1 youth1 manhood1 and old age4 ,that every man1 whose life is continued in the world1 successively passes from one state into another1 thus from the first to the last1 is well known4 ,the transitions into those ages only become evident by the intervening spaces of time3 that nevertheless they are progressive from one moment to another1 thus continual1 is obvious to reason2 for the case is similar with a man as with a tree1 which grows and increases every instant of time1 even the most minute1 from the casting of the seed into the earth4 ,these momentaneous progressions are also changes of state2 for the subsequent adds something to the antecedent1 which perfects the state4 ,the changes which take place in a man's internals1 are more perfectly continuous than those which take place in his externals2 because a man's internals1 by which we mean the things appertaining to his mind or spirit1 are elevated into a superior degree above his externals2 and in those principles which are in a superior degree1 a thousand effects take place in the same instant in which one effect is wrought in externals4 ,the changes which take place in internals1 are changes of the state of the will as to affections1 and of the state of the understanding as to thoughts4 ,the successive changes of state of the latter and of the former are specifically meant in the proposition4 ,the changes of these two lives or faculties are perpetual with every man from infancy even to the end of his life1 and afterwards to eternity2 because there is no end to knowledge1 still less to intelligence1 and least of all to wisdom2 for there is infinity and eternity in the extent of these principles1 by virtue of the ,infinite and ,eternal ,one1 from whom they are derived4 ,hence comes the philosophical tenet of the ancients1 that everything is divisible in infinitum2 to which may be added1 that it is multiplicable in like manner4 ,the angels assert1 that by wisdom from the ,lord they are being perfected to eternity2 which also means to infinity2 because eternity is the infinity of time4 #ahf4 ,,ii4 ,,in ,,like ,,manner ,a ,,man',s 7homo7 ,,internal ,,form ,,which ,,is ,,that ,,of ,,his ,,spirit1 ,,is ,,continually ,,changing4 ,the reason why this form is continually changing as the state of the man's life is changed1 is1 because there is nothing that exists but in a form1 and state induces that form2 wherefore it is the same whether we say that the state of a man's life is changed1 or that its form is changed4 ,all a man's affections and thoughts are in forms1 and thence from forms2 for forms are their subjects4 ,if affections and thoughts were not in subjects1 which are formed1 they might exist also in skulls without a brain2 which would be the same thing as to suppose sight without an eye1 hearing without an ear1 and taste without a tongue4 ,it is well known that there are subjects of these senses1 and that these subjects are forms4 ,the state of life1 and thence the form1 with a man1 is continually changing2 because it is a truth which the wise have taught and still teach1 that there does not exist a sameness1 or absolute identity of two things1 still less of several2 as there are not two human faces the same1 and still less several3 the case is similar in things successive1 in that no subsequent state of life is the same as a preceding one2 whence it follows1 that there is a perpetual change of the state of life with every man1 consequently also a perpetual change of form1 especially of his internals4 ,but as these considerations do not teach anything respecting marriages1 but only prepare the way for knowledges concerning them1 and since also they are mere philosophical inquiries of the understanding1 which1 with some persons1 are difficult of apprehension1 we will pass them without further discussion4 #ahg4 ,,iii4 ,,these ,,changes ,,differ ,,in ,,the ,,case ,,of ,,men ,,and ,,of ,,women2 ,,since ,,men ,,from ,,creation ,,are ,,forms ,,of ,,knowledge1 ,,intelligence1 ,,and ,,wisdom2 ,,and ,,women ,,are ,,forms ,,of ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,those ,,principles ,,as ,,existing ,,with ,,men4 ,that men were created forms of the understanding1 and that women were created forms of the love of the understanding of men1 may be explained above1 n4 #ij4 ,that the changes of state1 which succeed both with men and women from infancy to mature age1 are for the perfecting of forms1 the intellectual form with men1 and the voluntary with women1 follows as a consequence3 hence it is clear1 that the changes with men differ from those with women2 nevertheless with both1 the external form which is of the body is perfected according to the perfecting of the internal form which is of the mind2 for the mind acts upon the body1 and not vice versa4 ,this is the reason why infants in heaven become men of stature and comeliness according as they increase in intelligence2 it is otherwise with infants on earth1 because they are encompassed with a material body like the animals2 nevertheless they agree in this1 that they first grow in inclination to such things as allure their bodily senses1 and afterwards by little and little to such things as affect the internal thinking sense1 and by degrees to such things as tincture the will with affection2 and when they arrive at an age which is midway between mature and immature1 the conjugial inclination begins1 which is that of a maiden to a youth1 and of a youth to a maiden2 and as maidens in the heavens1 like those on earth from an innate prudence conceal their inclination to marriage1 the youths there know no other than that they affect the maidens with love2 and this also appears to them in consequence of their masculine eagerness2 which they also derive from an influx of love from the fair sex2 concerning which influx we shall speak particularly elsewhere4 ,from these considerations the truth of the proposition is evident1 that the changes of state with men differ from those with women2 since men from creation are forms of knowledge1 intelligence and wisdom1 and women are forms of the love of those principles as existing with men4 #ahh4 ,,iv4 ,,with ,,men ,,there ,,is ,,an ,,elevation ,,of ,,the ,,mind ,,into ,,superior ,,light1 ,,and ,,with ,,women ,,an ,,elevation ,,of ,,the ,,mind ,,into ,,superior ,,heat2 ,,and ,,the ,,woman ,,is ,,made ,,sensible ,,of ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,her ,,heat ,,in ,,the ,,man',s ,,light4 ,by the light into which men are elevated1 we mean intelligence and wisdom2 because spiritual light1 which proceeds from the sun of the spiritual world1 which sun in its essence is love1 acts in equality or unity with those two principles2 and by the heat into which women are elevated1 we mean conjugial love because spiritual heat1 which proceeds from the sun of that world1 in its essence is love1 and with women it is love conjoining itself with intelligence and wisdom in men2 which love in its complex is called conjugial love1 and by determination becomes that love4 ,it is called elevation into superior light and heat1 because it is elevation into the light and heat which the angels of the superior heavens enjoy3 it is also an actual elevation1 as from a thick mist into pure air1 and from an inferior region of the air into a superior1 and from thence into ether2 therefore elevation into superior light with men is elevation into superior intelligence1 and thence into wisdom2 in which also there are ascending degrees of elevation2 but elevation into superior heat with women is an elevation into chaster and purer conjugial love1 and continually towards the conjugial principle1 which from creation lies concealed in their inmost principles4 ,these elevations1 considered in themselves1 are openings of the mind2 for the human mind is distinguished into regions1 as the world is distinguished into regions as to the atmosphere2 the lowest of which is the watery1 the next above is the aerial1 and still higher is the ethereal1 above which there is also the highest3 into similar regions the mind of man is elevated as it is opened1 with men by wisdom1 and with women by love truly conjugial4 #ahi4 ,we have said1 that the woman is made sensible of the delights of her heat in the man's light2 by which we mean that the woman is made sensible of the delights of her love in the man's wisdom1 because wisdom is the receptacle2 and wherever love finds such a receptacle corresponding to itself1 it is in the enjoyment of its delights3 but we do not mean1 that heat with its light is delighted out of forms1 but within them2 and spiritual heat is delighted with spiritual light in their forms to a greater degree1 because those forms by virtue of wisdom and love are vital1 and thereby susceptible4 ,this may be illustrated by what are called the sports of heat with light in the vegetable kingdom3 out of the vegetable there is only a simple conjunction of heat and light1 but within it there is a kind of sport of the one with the other2 because there they are in forms or receptacles2 for they pass through astonishing meandering ducts1 and in the inmost principles therein they tend to use in bearing fruit1 and also breathe forth their satisfactions far and wide into the atmosphere1 which they fill with fragrance4 ,the delight of spiritual heat with spiritual light is more vividly perceivable in human forms1 in which spiritual heat is conjugial love1 and spiritual light is wisdom4 #aij4 ,v4 ,,with ,,both ,,men ,,and ,,women1 ,,the ,,states ,,of ,,life ,,before ,,marriage ,,are ,,different ,,from ,,what ,,they ,,are ,,afterwards4 ,before marriage1 each sex passes through two states1 one previous and the other subsequent to the inclination for marriage4 ,the changes of both these states1 and the consequent formations of minds1 proceed in successive order according to their continual increase2 but we have not leisure now to describe these changes1 which are various and different in their several subjects4 ,the inclination to marriage1 previous to marriage1 are only imaginary in the mind1 and become more and more sensible in the body2 but the states thereof after marriage are states of conjunction and also of prolification1 which1 it is evident1 differ from the forgoing states as effects differ from intentions4 #aia4 ,,vi4 ,,with ,,married ,,partners ,,the ,,states ,,of ,,life ,,after ,,marriage ,,are ,,changed ,,and ,,succeed ,,each ,,other ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,conjunctions ,,of ,,their ,,minds ,,by ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,the reason why changes of the state and the successions thereof after marriage1 with both the man and the wife1 are according to conjugial love with each1 and thus are either conjunctive or disjunctive of their minds1 is1 because conjugial love is not only various but also different with conjugial pairs3 various1 with those who love each other interiorly2 for with such it has its intermissions1 notwithstanding its being inwardly in its heat regular and permanent2 but it is different with those who love each other only exteriorly2 for with such its intermissions do not proceed from similar causes1 but from alternate cold and heat4 ,the true ground of these differences is1 that with the latter the body is the principal agent1 the ardour of which spreads itself around1 and forcibly draws into communion with it the inferior principles of the mind2 whereas1 with the former1 who love each other interiorly1 the mind is the principal agent1 and brings the body into communion with it4 ,it appears as if love ascended from the body into the soul2 because as soon as the body catches the allurement1 it enters through the eyes1 as through doors1 into the mind1 and thus through the sight1 as through an outer court1 into the thoughts1 and instantly into the love3 nevertheless it descends from the mind1 and acts upon the inferior principles according to their orderly arrangement2 therefore the lascivious mind acts lasciviously1 and the chaste mind chastely2 and the latter arranges the body1 whereas the former is arranged by the body4 #aib4 ,,vii4 ,,marriage ,,also ,,induces ,,other ,,forms ,,in ,,the ,,souls ,,and ,,minds ,,of ,,married ,,partners4 ,that marriage has this effect cannot be observed in the natural world2 because in this world souls and minds are encompassed with a material body1 through which the mind rarely shines3 the men 7homines7 also of modern times1 more than the ancients1 are taught from their infancy to assume feigned countenances1 whereby they deeply conceal the affections of their minds2 and this is the reason why the forms of minds are not known and distinguished according to their different quality1 as existing before marriage and after it3 nevertheless that the forms of souls and minds differ after marriage from what they were before1 is very manifest from their appearance in the spiritual world2 for they are then spirits and angels1 who are minds and souls in a human form1 stripped of their outward coverings1 which had been composed of watery and earthy elements1 and of aerial vapors thence arising2 and when these are cast off1 the forms of the minds are plainly seen1 such as they had been inwardly in their bodies2 and then it is clearly perceived1 that there is a difference in regard to those forms with those who live in marriage1 and with those who do not4 ,in general1 married partners have an interior beauty of countenance1 the man deriving from the wife the ruddy bloom of her love1 and the wife from the man the fair splendor of his wisdom2 for two married partners in the spiritual world are united as to their souls2 and moreover there appears in each a human fulness4 ,this is the case in heaven1 because there are no marriages 7conjugia7 in any other place2 beneath heaven there are only nuptial connections 7connubia71 which are alternately tied and loosed4 #aic4 ,,viii4 ,,the ,,woman ,,is ,,actually ,,formed ,,into ,a ,,wife1 ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,description ,,in ,,the ,,book ,,of ,,creation4 ,in this book it is said1 that the woman was created out of the man's rib1 and that the man said1 when she was brought to him1 ,this is bone of my bones1 and flesh of my flesh2 and she shall be called ,eve 7,ischah71 because she was taken out of man 7,isch73 ,gen4 chap4 ii4 #ba-bc4 ,a rib of the breast1 in the ,word1 signifies1 in the spiritual sense1 natural truth4 ,this is signified by the ribs which the bear carried between his teeth1 ,dan4 vii4 #e2 for bears signify those who read the ,word in the natural sense1 and see truths therein without understanding3 the man's breast signifies that essential and peculiar principle1 which is distinguished from the breast of the woman3 that this is wisdom1 may be seen above1 n4 #ahg2 for truth supports wisdom as the ribs do the breast4 ,these things are signified1 because the breast is that part of a man in which all his principles are as in their centre4 ,from these considerations1 it is evident1 that the woman was created out of the man by a transfer of his peculiar wisdom1 which is the same thing as to be created out of natural truth2 and that the love thereof was transferred from the man into the woman1 to the end that conjugial love might exist2 and that this was done in order that the love of the wife and not self-love might be in the man3 for the wife1 in consequence of her innate disposition1 cannot do otherwise than convert self-love1 as existing with the man1 into his love to herself2 and ,i have been informed1 that this is effected by virtue of the wife's love itself1 neither the man nor the wife being conscious of it3 hence1 no man can possibly love his wife with true conjugial love1 who from a principle of self-love is vain and conceited of his own intelligence4 ,when this arcanum relating to the creation of the woman from the man1 is understood1 it may then be seen1 that the woman in like manner is as it were created or formed from the man in marriage2 and that this is effected by the wife1 or rather through her by the ,lord1 who imparts inclinations to women whereby they produce such an effect3 for the wife receives into herself the image of a man1 and thereby appropriates to herself his affections1 as may be seen above1 n4 #ahc2 and conjoins the man's internal will with her own1 of which we shall treat presently2 and also claims to herself the propagated forms 7propagines7 of his soul1 of which also we shall speak elsewhere4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that1 according to the description in the book of ,genesis1 interiorly understood1 a woman is formed into a wife by such things as she takes out of the husband and his breast1 and implants in herself4 #aid4 ,,ix4 ,,this ,,formation ,,is ,,effected ,,on ,,the ,,part ,,of ,,the ,,wife ,,by ,,secret ,,means2 ,,and ,,this ,,is ,,meant ,,by ,,the ,,woman',s ,,being ,,created ,,while ,,the ,,man ,,slept4 ,it is written in the book of ,genesis1 that ,jehovah ,god caused a deep sleep to fall upon ,adam1 so that he slept2 and that then he took one of his ribs1 and builded it into a woman3 chap4 ii4 #ba1 #bb4 ,that by the man's sleep and sleeping is signified his entire ignorance that the wife is formed and as it were created from him1 appears from what was shewn in the preceding chapter1 and also from the innate prudence and circumspection of wives1 not to divulge anything concerning their love1 or their assumption of the affections of the man's life1 and thereby of the transfer of his wisdom into themselves4 ,that this is effected on the part of the wife without the husband's knowledge1 and while he is as it were sleeping1 thus by secret means1 is evident from what was explained above1 n4 #aff-afh2 where also it is clearly shewn1 that the prudence with which women are influenced herein1 was implanted in them from creation1 and consequently from their birth1 for reasons of necessity1 so that conjugial love1 friendship1 and confidence1 and thereby the blessedness of dwelling together and a happy life1 may be secured3 wherefore for the right accomplishing of this1 the man is enjoined to leave his father and mother and to cleave to his wife1 ,gen4 ii4 #bd2 ,matt4 xix4 #d1 #e4 ,the father and mother1 whom the man is to leave1 in a spiritual sense signify his proprium of will and proprium of understanding2 and the proprium of a man's 7homo7 will is to love himself1 and the proprium of his understanding is to love his own wisdom2 and to cleave to his wife signifies to devote himself to the love of his wife4 ,those two propriums are deadly evils to man1 if they remain with him1 and the love of those two propriums is changed into conjugial love1 so far as a man cleaves to his wife1 that is1 so far as he receives her love2 see above1 n4 #aic1 and elsewhere4 ,to sleep signifies to be in ignorance and unconcern2 a father and a mother signify the two propriums of a man 7homo71 the one of the will and the other of the understanding2 and to cleave to1 signifies to devote one's self to the love of any one1 as might be abundantly confirmed from passages in other parts of the ,word2 but this would be foreign to our present subject4 #aie4 ,x4 ,,this ,,formation ,,on ,,the ,,part ,,of ,,the ,,wife ,,is ,,effected ,,by ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,her ,,own ,,will ,,with ,,the ,,internal ,,will ,,of ,,the ,,man4 ,that the man possesses rational and moral wisdom1 and that the wife conjoins herself with those things which relate to his moral wisdom1 may be seen above1 n4 #afc-afe4 ,the things which relate to rational wisdom constitute the man's understanding1 and those which relate to moral wisdom constitute his will4 ,the wife conjoins herself with those things which constitute the man's will4 ,it is the same1 whether we say that the wife conjoins herself1 or that she conjoins her will to the man's will2 because she is born under the influence of the will1 and consequently in all her actions acts from the will4 ,the reason why it is said with the man's internal will1 is1 because the man's will resides in his understanding1 and the man's intellectual principle is the inmost principle of the woman1 according to what was observed above concerning the formation of the woman from the man1 n4 #cb1 and in other places4 ,the man has also an external will2 but this frequently takes its tincture from simulation and dissimulation4 ,this will the wife notices2 but she does not conjoin herself with it1 except pretendedly or in the way of sport4 #aif4 ,,xi4 ,,the ,,end ,,herein ,,is1 ,,that ,,the ,,will ,,of ,,both ,,may ,,become ,,one1 ,,and ,,that ,,thus ,,both ,,may ,,become ,,one ,,man 7homo73 for whoever conjoins to himself the will of another1 also conjoins to himself his understanding2 for the understanding regarded in itself is merely the minister and servant of the will4 ,that this is the case1 appears evidently from the affection of love1 which moves the understanding to think as it directs4 ,every affection of love belongs to the will2 for what a man loves that he also wills4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that whoever conjoins to himself the will of a man conjoins to himself the whole man3 hence it is implanted as a principle in the wife's love to unite the will of her husband to her own will2 for hereby the wife becomes the husband's1 and the husband the wife's2 thus both become one man 7homo74 #aig4 ,,xii4 ,,this ,,formation 7,,on ,,the ,,part ,,of ,,the ,,wife7 ,,is ,,effected ,,by ,,an ,,appropriation ,,of ,,the ,,affections ,,of ,,the ,,husband4 ,this article agrees with the two preceding1 because affections are of the will2 for affections which are merely derivations of the love1 form the will1 and make and compose it2 but these affections with men are in the understanding1 whereas with women they are in the will4 #aih4 ,,xiii4 ,,this ,,formation 7,,on ,,the ,,part ,,of ,,the ,,wife7 ,,is ,,effected ,,by ,a ,,reception ,,of ,,the ,,propagations ,,of ,,the ,,soul ,,of ,,the ,,husband1 ,,with ,,the ,,delight ,,arising ,,from ,,her ,,desire ,,to ,,be ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,her ,,husband',s ,,wisdom4 ,this coincides with what was explained above1 n4 #agb1 #agc1 therefore any further explanation is needless4 ,conjugial delights with wives arise solely from their desire to be one with their husbands1 as good is one with truth in the spiritual marriage4 ,that conjugial love descends from this spiritual marriage1 has been proved above in the chapter which treats particularly on that subject2 hence it may be seen1 as in an image1 that the wife conjoins the man to herself1 as good conjoins truth to itself2 and that the man reciprocally conjoins himself to the wife1 according to the reception of her love in himself1 as truth reciprocally conjoins itself to good1 according to the reception of good in itself2 and that thus the love of the wife forms itself by the wisdom of the husband1 as good forms itself by truth2 for truth is the form of good4 ,from these considerations it is also evident1 that conjugial delights with the wife originate principally in her desiring to be one with the husband1 consequently to be the love of her husband's wisdom2 for in such case she is made sensible of the delights of her own heat in the man's light1 according to what was explained in ,article ,,iv41 n4 #ahh4 #aii4 ,,xiv4 ,,thus ,a ,,maiden ,,is ,,formed ,,into ,a ,,wife1 ,,and ,a ,,youth ,,into ,a ,,husband4 ,this flows as a consequence1 from what has been said above in this and the foregoing chapter respecting the conjunction of married partners into one flesh4 ,a maiden becomes or is made a wife1 because in a wife there are principles taken out of the husband1 and therefore supplemental1 which were not previously in her as a maiden3 a youth also becomes or is made a husband1 because in a husband there are principles taken out of the wife1 which exalt his receptibility of love and wisdom1 and which were not previously in him as a youth3 this is the case with those who are principled in love truly conjugial4 ,that it is these who feel themselves a united man 7homo71 and as it were one flesh1 may be seen in the preceding chapter1 n4 #agh4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that with females the maiden principle is changed into that of a wife1 and with men the youthful principle is changed into that of a husband4 ,that this is the case1 was experimentally confirmed to me in the spiritual world1 as follows3 ,some men asserted1 that conjunction with a female before marriage is like conjunction with a wife after marriage4--,on hearing this1 the wives were very indignant1 and said3 ,there is no likeness at all in the two cases4 ,the difference between them is like that between what is fancied and what is real4 ,hereupon the men rejoined1 ,are you not females as before8 ,to this the wives replied more sharply1 ,we are not females1 but wives2 you are in fancied and not in real love2 you therefore talk fancifully4 ,then the men said1 ,if you are not females 7feminae7 still you are women 7mulieres73 and they replied1 ,in the first states of marriage we were women 7mulieres72 but now we are wives4 #bjj4 ,,xv4 ,,in ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,one ,,man ,,with ,,one ,,wife1 ,,between ,,whom ,,there ,,exists ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,the ,,wife ,,becomes ,,more ,,and ,,more ,a ,,wife1 ,,and ,,the ,,husband ,,more ,,and ,,more ,a ,,husband4 ,that love truly conjugial more and more conjoins two into one man 7homo71 may be seen above n4 #agh1 #agi2 and as a wife becomes a wife from and according to conjunction with the husband1 and in like manner the husband with the wife2 and as love truly conjugial endures to eternity1 it follows1 that the wife becomes more and more a wife1 and the husband more and more a husband4 ,the true reason of this is1 because in the marriage of love truly conjugial1 each married partner becomes continually a more interior man2 for that love opens the interiors of their minds2 and as these are opened1 a man becomes more and more a man 7homo73 and to become more a man 7homo7 in the case of the wife is to become more a wife1 and in the case of the husband to become more a husband4 ,i have heard from the angels1 that the wife becomes more and more a wife as the husband becomes more and more a husband1 but not vice versa2 because it rarely1 if ever1 happens1 that a chaste wife is wanting in love to her husband1 but that the husband is wanting in a return of love to his wife2 and that this return of love is wanting because he has no elevation of wisdom1 which alone receives the love of the wife3 respecting this wisdom see above n4 #acj1 #afc-afe4 ,these things however they said in regard to marriages on earth4 #bja4 ,,xvi4 ,,thus ,,also ,,their ,,forms ,,are ,,successively ,,perfected ,,and ,,ennobled ,,from ,,within4 ,the most perfect and noble human form results from the conjunction of two forms by marriage so as to become one form2 thus from two fleshes becoming one flesh1 according to creation4 ,that in such case the man's mind is elevated into superior light1 and the wife's into superior heat1 and that then they germinate1 and bear flowers and fruits1 like trees in the spring1 may be seen above1 n4 #ahh1 #ahi4 ,that from the nobleness of this form are produced noble fruits1 which in the heavens are spiritual1 and on earth natural1 will be seen in the following article4 #bjb4 ,,xvii4 ,,children ,,born ,,of ,,parents ,,who ,,are ,,principled ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,derive ,,from ,,them ,,the ,,conjugial ,,principle ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth1 ,,whence ,,they ,,have ,,an ,,inclination ,,and ,,faculty1 ,,if ,,sons1 ,,to ,,perceive ,,the ,,things ,,relating ,,to ,,wisdom1 ,,and ,,if ,,daughters1 ,,to ,,love ,,those ,,things ,,which ,,wisdom ,,teaches4 ,that children derive from their parents inclination to such things as had been objects of the love and life of the parents1 is a truth most perfectly agreeable to the testimony of history in general1 and of experience in particular2 but that they do not derive or inherit from their parents the affections themselves1 and thence the lives of those affections1 but only inclinations and faculties thereto1 has been shewn me by the wise in the spiritual world2 concerning whom1 see the two ,,memorable ,,relations above adduced4 ,that children to the latest posterity1 from innate inclinations1 if they are not modified1 are led into affections1 thoughts1 speech1 and life1 similar to those of their parents1 is clearly manifest from the ,jews1 who at this day are like their fathers in ,egypt1 in the wilderness1 in the land of ,canaan1 and in the ,lord's time2 and this likeness is not confined to their minds only1 but extends to their countenances2 for who does not know a ,jew by his look8 ,the case is the same with the descendants of others3 from which considerations it may infallibly be concluded1 that children are born with inclinations to such things as their parents were inclined to4 ,but it is of the divine providence1 lest thought and act should follow inclination1 that perverse inclinations may be corrected2 and also that a faculty has been implanted for this purpose1 by virtue whereof parents and masters have the power of amending the morals of children1 and children may afterwards1 when they come to years of discretion1 amend their own morals4 #bjc4 ,we have said that children derive from their parents the conjugial principle of good and truth1 because this is implanted from creation in the soul of every one2 for it is that which flows into every man from the ,lord1 and constitutes his human life4 ,but this conjugial principle passes into derivatives from the soul even to the ultimates of the body4 ,in its passage through these ultimates and those derivatives1 it is changed by the man himself in various ways1 and sometimes into the opposite1 which is called the conjugial or connubial principle of what is evil and false4 ,when this is the case1 the mind is closed from beneath1 and is sometimes twisted as a spire into the contrary2 but with some that principle is not closed1 but remains half-open above1 and with some open4 ,the latter and the former conjugial principle is the source of those inclinations which children inherit from their parents1 a son after one manner1 and a daughter after another4 ,the reason why such inclinations are derived from the conjugial principle1 is1 because1 as was proved above1 n4 #fe1 conjugial love is the foundation of all loves4 #bjd4 ,the reason why children born of parents who are principled in love truly conjugial1 derive inclinations and faculties1 if a son1 to perceive the things relating to wisdom1 and if a daughter1 to love the things which wisdom teaches1 is1 because the conjugial principle of good and truth is implanted from creation in every soul1 and also in the principles derived from the soul2 for it was shewn above1 that this conjugial principle fills the universe from first principles to last1 and from a man even to a worm2 and also that the faculty to open the inferior principles of the mind even to conjunction with its superior principles1 which are in the light and heat of heaven1 is also implanted in every man from creation3 hence it is evident1 that a superior suitableness and facility to conjoin good to truth1 and truth to good1 and thus to grow wise1 is inherited by those who are born from such a marriage2 consequently they have a superior suitableness and facility also to embrace the things relating to the church and heaven2 for that conjugial love is conjoined with these things1 has been frequently shewn above4 ,from these considerations1 reason may clearly discover the end for which the ,lord the ,creator has provided1 and still provides1 marriages of love truly conjugial4 #bje4 ,i have been informed by the angels1 that those who lived in the most ancient times1 live at this day in the heavens1 in separate houses1 families1 and nations1 as they had lived on earth1 and that scarce any one of a house is wanting2 and this because they were principled in love truly conjugial2 and that hence their children inherited inclinations to the conjugial principle of good and truth1 and were easily initiated into it more and more interiorly by education received from their parents1 and afterwards as from themselves1 when they become capable of judging for themselves1 were introduced into it by the ,lord4 #bjf4 ,,xviii4 ,,the ,,reason ,,of ,,this ,,is ,,because ,,the ,,soul ,,of ,,the ,,offspring ,,is ,,from ,,the ,,father ,,and ,,its ,,clothing ,,from ,,the ,,mother4 ,no wise man entertains a doubt that the soul is from the father2 it is also manifestly conspicuous from minds1 and likewise from faces which are the types of minds1 in descendants from fathers of families in a regular series2 for the father returns as in an image1 if not in his sons1 yet in his grandsons and great grandsons2 and this because the soul constitutes a man's 7homo7 inmost principle1 which may be covered and concealed by the offspring nearest in descent1 but nevertheless it comes forth and manifests itself in the more remote issue4 ,that the soul is from the father1 and its clothing from the mother1 may be illustrated by analogies in the vegetable kingdom4 ,in this kingdom the earth or ground is the common mother1 which in itself1 as in a womb1 receives and clothes seeds2 yea1 as it were conceives1 bears1 brings forth1 and educates them1 as a mother her offspring from the father4 #bjg4 ,to the above ,i will add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,after some time ,i was looking towards the city ,athens1 of which mention was made in a former memorable relation1 and ,i heard thence an unusual clamor4 ,there was in it something of laughter1 and in the laughter something of indignation1 and in the indignation something of sadness3 still however the clamor was not thereby dissonant1 but consonant3 because one tone was not together with the other1 but one was within another4 ,in the spiritual world a variety and commixture of affections is distinctly perceived in sound4 ,i inquired from afar what was the matter4 ,they said1 ,a messenger is arrived from the place where the new comers from the ,christian world first appear1 bringing information of what he has heard there from three persons1 that in the world whence they came they had believed with the generality1 that the blessed and happy after death enjoy absolute rest from labor2 and since administrations1 offices1 and employments1 are labor1 they enjoy rest from these3 and as those three persons are now conducted hither by our emissary1 and are at the gate waiting for admission1 a clamor was made1 and it was deliberately resolved they should not be introduced into the ,palladium on ,parnassus1 as the former were1 but into the great auditory1 to communicate the news they brought from the ,christian world3 accordingly some deputies have been sent to introduce them in form4 ,being at that time myself in the spirit1 and distances with spirits being according to the states of their affections1 and having at that time a desire to see and hear them1 ,i seemed to myself to be present there1 and saw them introduced1 and heard what they said4 ,the seniors or wiser part of the audience sat at the sides of the auditory1 and the rest in the midst2 and before these was an elevated piece of ground4 ,hither the three strangers1 with the messenger1 were formally conducted by attendants1 through the middle of the auditory4 ,when silence was obtained1 they were addressed by a kind of president of the assembly1 and asked1 ,,what ,,news ,,from ,,the ,,earth8 ,they replied1 ,there is a variety of news3 but pray tell us what information you want4 ,the president answered1 ,,what ,,news ,,is ,,there ,,from ,,the ,,earth ,,concerning ,,our ,,world ,,and ,,heaven8 ,they replied1 ,when we first came into this world1 we were informed1 that here and in heaven there are administrations1 offices1 employments1 trades1 studies1 relating to all sciences and professions1 together with wonderful mechanical arts2 and yet we believed that after our removal or translation from the natural world into the spiritual1 we should enter upon an eternal rest from labor2 and what are employments but labor8 ,to this the president replied1 ,by eternal rest from labor did you understand eternal inactivity1 in which you should be continually sitting and laying down1 with your bosoms and mouths open1 attracting and inhaling delights and joys8 ,we conceived something of this sort1 said the three strangers smiling courteously4 ,then they were asked1 ,what connection have joys and delights and the happiness thence resulting1 with a state of inactivity8 ,by inactivity the mind is enfeebled and contracted1 instead of being strengthened and expanded2 or in other words1 the man is reduced to a state of death1 instead of being quickened into life4 ,suppose a person to sit still in the most complete inactivity1 with his hands hanging down1 his eyes fixed on the ground1 and withdrawn from all other objects1 and suppose him at the same time to be encompassed by an atmosphere of gladness1 would not a lethargy seize both his head and body1 and the vital expansion of his countenance would be contracted1 and at length with relaxed fibres he would nod and totter1 till he fell to the earth8 ,what is it that keeps the whole bodily system in its due expansion and tension1 but the tension of the mind8 and whence comes the tension of the mind but from administrations and employments1 while the discharge of them is attended with delight8 ,i will therefore tell you some news from heaven3 in that world there are administrations1 offices1 judicial proceedings both in greater and lesser cases1 also mechanical arts and employments4 ,the strangers on hearing of judicial proceedings in heaven1 said1 ,to what purpose are such proceedings8 are not all in heaven inspired and led by ,god1 and in consequence thereof taught what is just and right8 what need then is there of judges8 ,the president replied1 ,in this world we are instructed and learn what is good and true1 also what is just and equitable1 as in the natural world2 and these things we learn1 not immediately from ,god1 but mediately through others2 and every angel1 like every man1 thinks what is true1 and does what is good1 as from himself2 and this1 according to the state of the angel1 is mixed and not pure3 and moreover1 there are among the angels some of a simple and some of a wise character2 and it is the part of the wise to judge1 when the simple1 from their simplicity and ignorance1 are doubtful about what is just1 or through mistake wander from it4 ,but as you are as yet strangers in this world1 if it be agreeable to you to accompany me into our city1 we will shew you all that is contained therein4 ,then they quitted the auditory1 and some of the elders also accompanied them4 ,they were introduced into a large library1 which was divided into classes arranged according to the sciences4 ,the three strangers1 on seeing so many books1 were astonished1 and said1 ,there are books also in this world6 whence do you procure parchment and paper1 pens and ink8 ,the elders replied1 ,we perceive that in the former world you believed that this world is empty and void1 because it is spiritual2 and you believed so because you had conceived an idea of what is spiritual abstracted from what is material2 and that which is so abstracted appeared to you as nothingness1 thus as empty and void2 when nevertheless in this world there is a fulness of all things4 ,here all things are ,,substantial and not material3 and material things derive their origin from things substantial4 ,we who live here are spiritual men1 because we are substantial and not material2 hence in this world we have all things that are in the natural world1 in their perfection1 even books and writings1 and many other things which are not in the natural world4 ,the three strangers1 when they heard talk of things ,,substantial1 conceived that it must be so1 as well because they saw written books1 as because they heard it asserted that material things originate in substantial4 ,for their further confirmation in these particulars1 they were conducted to the houses of the scribes1 who were copying the writings of the wise ones of the city2 and they inspected the writings1 and wondered to see them so beautiful and elegant4 ,after this they were conducted to the museums1 schools1 and colleges1 and to the places where they had their literary sports4 ,some of these were called the sports of the ,heliconides1 some of the ,parnassides1 some of the ,athides1 and some the sports of the maidens of the fountain4 ,they were told that the latter were so called1 because maidens signify affections of the sciences1 and every one has intelligence according to his affection for the sciences3 the sports so called were spiritual exercises and trials of skill4 ,afterwards they were led about the city to see the rulers1 administrators1 and their officers1 by whom they were conducted to see several wonderful works executed in a spiritual manner by the artificers4 ,when they had taken a view of all these things1 the president again conversed with them about the eternal rest from labor1 into which the blessed and happy enter after death1 and said1 ,eternal rest is not inactivity2 for inactivity occasions a thorough languor1 dulness1 stupor1 and drowsiness of the mind and thence of the body2 and these things are death and not life1 still less eternal life which the angels of heaven enjoy2 therefore eternal rest is that which dispels such mischiefs1 and causes a man to live2 and it is this which elevates the mind2 consequently it is by some employment and work that the mind is excited1 vivified1 and delighted2 which is affected according to the use1 from which1 in which1 and to which the mind is actuated4 ,hence the universal heaven is regarded by the ,lord as containing uses2 and every angel is an angel according to use2 the delight of use carries him along1 as a prosperous gale a ship1 and causes him to be in eternal peace1 and the rest of peace4 ,this is the meaning of eternal rest from labor4 ,that an angel is alive according as his mind is directed to use1 is evident from the consideration1 that every one has conjugial love with its energy1 ability and delights1 according as he devotes himself to the genuine use in which he is4 ,when the three strangers were convinced that eternal rest is not inactivity1 but the delight of some useful employment1 there came some maidens with pieces of embroidery and net-work1 wrought with their own hands1 which they presented to them4 ,when the novitiate spirits were gone1 the maidens sang an ode1 wherein they expressed with angelic melody the affection of useful works with the pleasures attending it4 #bjh4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,while ,i was meditating on the arcana of conjugial love stored up with wives1 there again appeared the ,,golden ,,shower described above2 and ,i recollected that it fell over a hall in the east where there lived three conjugial loves1 that is1 three married pairs1 who loved each other tenderly4 ,on seeing it1 and as if invited by the sweetness of meditating on that love1 ,i hastened towards it1 and as ,i approached1 the shower from golden became purple1 afterwards scarlet1 and when ,i came near1 it was sparkling like dew4 ,i knocked at the door1 and when it was opened1 ,i said to the attendant1 ,tell the husbands that the person who before came with an angel1 is come again1 and begs the favor of being admitted into their company4 ,presently the attendant returned with a message of assent from the husbands1 and ,i entered4 ,the three husbands with their wives were together in an open gallery1 and as ,i paid my respects to them1 they returned the compliment4 ,i then asked the wives1 ,whether the white dove in the window afterwards appeared8 ,they said1 ,yes2 and to-day also2 and it likewise expanded its wings2 from which we concluded that you were near at hand1 and were desirous of information respecting one other arcanum concerning conjugial love4 ,i inquired1 ,why do you say one arcanum2 when ,i came here to learn several8 ,they replied1 ,they are arcana1 and some of them transcend your wisdom to such a degree1 that the understanding of your thought cannot comprehend them4 ,you glory over us on account of your wisdom2 but we do not glory over you on account of ours2 and yet ours is eminently distinguished above yours1 because it enters your inclinations and affections1 and sees1 perceives1 and is sensible of them4 ,you know nothing at all of the inclinations and affections of your own love2 and yet these are the principles from and according to which your understanding thinks1 consequently from and according to which you are wise2 and yet wives are so well acquainted with those principles in their husbands1 that they see them in their faces1 and hear them from the tone of their voices in conversation1 yea1 they feel them on their breasts1 arms1 and cheeks3 but we1 from the zeal of our love for your happiness1 and at the same time for our own1 pretend not to know them2 and yet we govern them so prudently1 that wherever the fancy1 good pleasure1 and will of our husbands lead1 we follow by permitting and suffering it2 only bending its direction when it is possible1 but in no case forcing it4 ,i asked1 ,whence have you this wisdom8 ,they replied1 ,it is implanted in us from creation and consequently from birth4 ,our husbands compare it to instinct2 but we say that it is of the divine providence1 in order that the men may be rendered happy by their wives4 ,we have heard from our husbands1 that the ,lord wills that the husband 7homo masculus7 should act freely according to reason2 and that on this account the ,lord himself from within governs his freedom1 so far as respects the inclinations and affections1 and governs it from without by means of his wife2 and that thus he forms a man with his wife into an angel of heaven2 and moreover love changes its essence1 and does not become conjugial love1 if it be compelled4 ,but we will be more explicit on this subject3 we are moved thereto1 that is1 to prudence in governing the inclinations and affections of our husbands1 so that they may seem to themselves to act freely according to their reason1 from this motive1 because we are delighted with their love2 and we love nothing more than that they should be delighted with our delights1 which1 in case of their being lightly esteemed by our husbands1 become insipid also to us4 ,having said this1 one of the wives entered her chamber1 and on her return said1 ,my dove still flutters its wings1 which is a sign that we may make further disclosures4 ,they then said1 ,we have observed various changes of the inclinations and affections of the men2 as that they grow cold towards their wives1 while the husbands entertain vain thoughts against the ,lord and the church2 that they grow cold while they are conceited of their own intelligence2 that they grow cold while they regard with desire the wives of others2 that they grow cold while their love is adverted to by their wives2 not to mention other occasions2 and that there are various degrees of their coldness3 this we discover from a withdrawal of the sense from their eyes1 ears1 and bodies1 on the presence of our senses4 ,from these few observations you may see1 that we know better than the men whether it be well or ill with them2 if they are cold towards their wives1 it is ill with them1 but if they are warm towards them1 it is well2 therefore wives are continually devising means whereby the men may become warm and not cold towards them2 and these means they devise with a sagacity inscrutable to the men4 ,as they said this1 the dove was heard to make a sort of moaning2 and immediately the wives said1 ,this is a token to us that we have a wish to communicate greater arcana1 but that it is not allowable3 probably you will reveal to the men what you have heard4 ,i replied1 ,i intend to do so3 what harm can come from it8 ,hereupon the wives talked together on the subject1 and then said1 ,reveal it1 if you like4 ,we are well aware of the power of persuasion which wives possess4 ,they will say to their husbands1 ',the man is not in earnest2 he tells idle tales3 he is but joking from appearances1 and from strange fancies usual with men4 ,do not believe him1 but believe us3 we know that you are loves1 and we obediences4' ,therefore you may reveal it if you like2 but still the husbands will place no dependence on what comes from your lips1 but on that which comes from the lips of their wives which they kiss4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,universals ,,respecting ,,marriages4 #bji4 ,there are so many things relating to marriages that1 if particularly treated of1 they would swell this little work into a large volume3 for we might treat particularly of the similitude and dissimilitude subsisting among married partners2 of the elevation of natural conjugial love into spiritual1 and of their conjunction2 of the increase of the one and the decrease of the other2 of the varieties and diversities of each2 of the intelligence of wives2 of the universal conjugial sphere proceeding from heaven1 and of its opposite from hell1 and of their influx and reception2 with many other particulars1 which1 if individually enlarged upon1 would render this work so bulky as to tire the reader4 ,for this reason1 and to avoid useless prolixity1 we will condense these particulars into ,,universal ,,respecting ,,marriages4 ,but these1 like the foregoing subjects1 must be considered distinctly as arranged under the following articles3 ,i4 ,the sense proper to conjugial love is the sense of touch4 ,,ii4 ,with those who are in love truly conjugial1 the faculty of growing wise gradually increases2 but with those who are not it decreases4 ,,iii4 ,with those who are in love truly conjugial the happiness of dwelling together increases2 but with those who are not it decreases4 ,,iv4 ,with those who are in love truly conjugial1 conjunction of minds increases1 and therewith friendship2 but with those who are not they both decrease4 ,v4 ,those who are in love truly conjugial continually desire to be one man 7homo72 but those who are not desire to be two4 ,,vi4 ,those who are in love truly conjugial1 in marriage have respect to what is eternal2 but with those who are not the case is reversed4 ,,vii4 ,conjugial love resides with chaste wives2 but still their love depends on the husbands4 ,,viii4 ,wives love the bonds of marriage if the men do4 ,,ix4 ,the intelligence of women is in itself modest1 elegant1 pacific1 yielding1 soft1 tender2 but the intelligence of men is in itself grave1 harsh1 hard1 daring1 fond of licentiousness4 ,x4 ,wives are in no excitation as men are2 but they have a state of preparation for reception4 ,,xi4 ,men have abundant store according to the love of propagating the truths of their wisdom1 and to the love of doing uses4 ,,xii4 ,determination is in the good pleasure of the husband4 ,,xiii4 ,the conjugial sphere flows from the ,lord through heaven into everything in the universe1 even to its ultimates4 ,,xiv4 ,this sphere is received by the female sex1 and through that is transferred into the male sex2 and not vice versa4 ,,xv4 ,where there is love truly conjugial1 this sphere is received by the wife1 and only through her by the husband4 ,,xvi4 ,where there is love not conjugial1 this sphere is received indeed by the wife1 but not by the husband through her4 ,,xvii4 ,love truly conjugial may exist with one of the married partners and not at the same time with the other4 ,,xviii4 ,there are various similitudes and dissimilitudes1 both internal and external1 with married partners4 ,,xix4 ,various similitudes can be conjoined1 but not with dissimilitudes4 ,,xx4 ,the ,lord provides similitudes for those who desire love truly conjugial2 and if not on earth1 he yet provides them in heaven4 ,,xxi4 ,a man 7homo7 according to the deficiency and loss of conjugial love1 approaches to the nature of a beast4 ,we proceed to the explanation of each article4 #baj4 ,i4 ,,the ,,sense ,,proper ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,the ,,sense ,,of ,,touch4 ,every love has its own proper sense4 ,the love of seeing1 grounded in the love of understanding1 has the sense of seeing2 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of symmetry and beauty4 ,the love of hearing grounded in the love of hearkening to and obeying1 has the sense of hearing2 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of harmony4 ,the love of knowing these things which float about in the air1 grounded in the love of perceiving1 is the sense of smelling2 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of fragrance4 ,the love of self-nourishment1 grounded in the love of imbibing goods1 is the sense of tasting2 and the delights proper to it are the various kinds of delicate foods4 ,the love of knowing objects1 grounded in the love of circumspection and self-preservation1 is the sense of touching1 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of titillation4 ,the reason why the love of conjunction with a partner1 grounded in the love of uniting good and truth1 has the sense of touch proper to it1 is1 because this sense is common to all the senses1 and hence borrows from them somewhat of support and nourishment4 ,that this love brings all the above-mentioned senses into communion with it1 and appropriates their gratification1 is well known4 ,that the sense of touch is devoted to conjugial love1 and is proper to it1 is evident from all its sports1 and from the exaltation of its subtleties to the highest degree of what is exquisite4 ,but the further consideration of this subject we leave to lovers4 #baa4 ,,ii4 ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,the ,,faculty ,,of ,,growing ,,wise ,,increases2 ,,but ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,not ,,it ,,decreases4 ,the faculty of growing wise increases with those who are in love truly conjugial1 because this love appertains to married partners on account of wisdom1 and according to it1 as has been fully proved in the preceding sections2 also1 because the sense of that love is the touch1 which is common to all the senses1 and also is full of delights2 in consequence of which it opens the interiors of the mind1 as it opens the interiors of the senses1 and therewith the organical principles of the whole body4 ,hence it follows1 that those who are principled in that love1 prefer nothing to growing wise2 for a man grows wise in proportion as the interiors of his mind are opened2 because by such opening1 the thoughts of the understanding are elevated into superior light1 and the affections of the will into superior heat2 and superior light is wisdom1 and superior heat is the love thereof4 ,spiritual delights conjoined to natural delights1 which are the portion of those who are in love truly conjugial1 constitute loveliness1 and thence the faculty of growing wise4 ,hence it is that the angels have conjugial love according to wisdom2 and the increase of that love and at the same time of its delights is according to the increase of wisdom2 and spiritual offspring1 which are produced from their marriages1 are such things as are of wisdom from the father1 and of love from the mother1 which they love from a spiritual storge2 which love unites with their conjugial love1 and continually elevates it1 and joins them together4 #bab4 ,the contrary happens with those who are not in any conjugial love1 from not having any love of wisdom4 ,these enter the marriage state with no other end in view than lasciviousness1 in which is also the love of growing insane2 for every end considered in itself is a love1 and lasciviousness in its spiritual origin is insanity4 ,by insanity we mean a delirium in the mind occasioned by false principles2 and an eminent degree of delirium is occasioned by truths which are falsified until they are believed to be wisdom4 ,that such persons are opposed to conjugial love1 is confirmed or evinced by manifest proof in the spiritual world2 where1 on perceiving the first scent of conjugial love1 they fly into caverns1 and shut the doors2 and if these are opened1 they rave like madmen in the world4 #bac4 ,,iii4 ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,the ,,happiness ,,of ,,dwelling ,,together ,,increases2 ,,but ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,not ,,it ,,decreases4 ,the happiness of dwelling together increases with those who are in love truly conjugial1 because they mutually love each other with every sense4 ,the wife sees nothing more lovely than the husband1 and the husband nothing more lovely than the wife2 neither do they hear1 smell1 or touch any thing more lovely2 hence the happiness they enjoy of living together in the same house1 chamber1 and bed4 ,that this is the case1 you that are husbands can assure yourselves from the first delights of marriage1 which are in their fulness2 because at that time the wife is the only one of the sex that is loved4 ,that the reverse is the case with those who are not in conjugial love1 is well known4 #bad4 ,,iv4 ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,conjunction ,,of ,,minds ,,increases1 ,,and ,,therewith ,,friendship2 ,,but ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,not1 ,,they ,,both ,,decrease4 ,that conjunction of minds increases with those who are in love truly conjugial1 was proved in the chapter ,,on ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,souls ,,and ,,minds ,,by ,,marriage1 ,,which ,,is ,,meant ,,by ,,the ,,lord',s ,,words1 ,,that ,,they ,,are ,,no ,,longer ,,two ,,but ,,one ,,flesh1 see n4 #aef99-aia4 ,but that conjunction increases as friendship unites with love2 because friendship is as it were the face and also the raiment of that love2 for it not only joins itself to love as raiment1 but also conjoins itself thereto as a face4 ,love preceding friendship is like the love of the sex1 which1 after the marriage vow1 takes its leave and departs2 whereas love conjoined to friendship after the marriage vow1 remains and is strengthened2 it likewise outers more interiorly into the breast1 friendship introducing it1 and making it truly conjugial4 ,in this case the love makes its friendship also conjugial1 which differs greatly from the friendship of every other love2 for it is full4 ,that the case is reversed with those who are not principled in conjugial love1 is well known4 ,with these1 the first friendship1 which was insinuated during the time of courtship1 and afterwards during the period immediately succeeding marriage1 recedes more and more from the interiors of the mind1 and thence successively at length retires to the cuticles2 and with those who think of separation it entirely departs2 but with those who do not think of separation1 love remains in the externals1 yet it is cold in the internals4 #bae4 ,v4 ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,continually ,,desire ,,to ,,be ,,one ,,man1 ,,but ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,not ,,in ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,desire ,,to ,,be ,,two4 ,conjugial love essentially consists in the desire of two to become one2 that is1 in their desire that two lives may become one life4 ,this desire is the perpetual conatus of that love1 from which flow all its effects4 ,that conatus is the very essence of motion1 and that desire is the living conatus appertaining to man1 is confirmed by the researches of philosophers1 and is also evident to such as take a view of the subject from refined reason4 ,hence it follows1 that those who are in love truly conjugial1 continually endeavour1 that is1 desire to be one man4 ,that the contrary is the case with those who are not in conjugial love1 they themselves very well know2 for as they continually think themselves two from the disunion of their souls and minds1 so they do not comprehend what is meant by the ,lord's words1 ,they are no longer two1 but one flesh2 ,matt4 xix4 #f4 #baf4 ,,vi4 ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,in ,,marriage ,,have ,,respect ,,to ,,what ,,is ,,eternal2 ,,but ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,not ,,the ,,case ,,is ,,reversed4 ,those who are in love truly conjugial have respect to what is eternal1 because in that love there is eternity2 and its eternity is grounded in this1 that love with the wife1 and wisdom with the husband1 increases to eternity2 and in the increase or progression the married partners enter more and more interiorly into the blessedness of heaven1 which their wisdom and its love have stored up together in themselves3 if therefore the idea of what is eternal were to be plucked away1 or by any casualty to escape from their minds1 it would be as if they were cast down from heaven4 ,what is the state of conjugial partners in heaven1 when the idea of what is eternal falls out of their minds1 and the idea of what is temporal takes its place1 was made evident to me from the following case4 ,on a certain time1 permission having been granted for the purpose1 two married partners were present with me from heaven3 and at that instant the idea of what is eternal respecting marriage was taken away from them by an idle disorderly spirit who was talking with craft and subtlety4 ,hereupon they began to bewail themselves1 saying1 that they could not live any longer1 and that they felt such misery as they had never felt before4 ,when this was perceived by their co-angels in heaven1 the disorderly spirit was removed and cast down2 whereupon the idea of what is eternal instantly returned to them1 and they were gladdened in heart1 and most tenderly embraced each other4 ,besides this1 ,i have heard two married partners1 who at one instant entertained an idea of what is eternal respecting their marriage1 and the next an idea of what is temporal4 ,this arose from their being internally dissimilar4 ,when they were in the idea of what is eternal1 they were mutually glad2 but when in the idea of what is temporal1 they said1 ,there is no longer any marriage between us2 and the wife1 ,i am no longer a wife1 but a concubine2 and the husband1 ,i am no longer a husband1 but an adulterer2 wherefore while their internal dissimilitude was open to them1 the man left the woman1 and the woman the man3 afterwards1 however1 as each had an idea of what is eternal respecting marriage1 they were consociated with suitable partners4 ,from these instances it may be clearly seen1 that those who are in love truly conjugial have respect to what is eternal2 and if this idea escapes from their inmost thoughts1 they are disunited as to conjugial love1 though not at the same time as to friendship2 for friendship dwells in externals1 but conjugial love in internals4 ,the case is similar with marriages on earth1 where married partners who tenderly love each other1 think of what is eternal respecting the marriage-covenant1 and not at all of its termination by death2 and if this should enter their thoughts1 they are grieved2 nevertheless they are cherished again by hope from the thought of its continuance after their decease4 ,transcriber's ,note3 ,the out-of-order section number which follows is in the original text1 as is the asterisk which does not seem to indicate a footnote4 #baf499 ,,vii4 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,resides ,,with ,,chaste ,,wives2 ,,but ,,still ,,their ,,love ,,depends ,,on ,,the ,,husbands4 ,the reason of this is1 because wives are born loves2 and hence it is innate to them to desire to be one with their husbands and from this thought of their will they continually feed their love2 wherefore to recede from the conatus of uniting themselves to their husbands1 would be to recede from themselves3 it is otherwise with the husbands1 who are not born loves1 but recipients of that love from their wives2 and on this account1 so far as they receive it1 so far the wives enter with their love2 but so far as they do not receive it1 so far the wives stand aloof with their love1 and wait in expectation4 ,this is the case with chaste wives2 but it is otherwise with the unchaste4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that conjugial love resides with the wives1 but that their love depends on the husbands4 #bag4 ,,viii4 ,,wives ,,love ,,the ,,bonds ,,of ,,marriage ,,if ,,the ,,men ,,do4 ,this follows from what was said in the foregoing article3 moreover1 wives naturally desire to be1 and to be called wives2 this being to them a name of respect and honor2 they therefore love the bonds of marriage4 ,and as chaste wives desire1 not in name only1 but in reality1 to be wives1 and this is effected by a closer and closer binding with their husbands1 therefore they love the bonds of marriage as establishing the marriage-covenant1 and this so much the more as they are loved again by their husbands1 or what is tantamount1 as the men love those bonds4 #bah4 ,,ix4 ,,the ,,intelligence ,,of ,,women ,,is ,,in ,,itself ,,modest1 ,,elegant1 ,,pacific1 ,,yielding1 ,,soft1 ,,tender2 ,,but ,,the ,,intelligence ,,of ,,men ,,in ,,itself ,,is ,,grave1 ,,harsh1 ,,hard1 ,,daring1 ,,fond ,,of ,,licentiousness4 ,that such is the characteristic distinction of the woman and the man1 is very evident from the body1 the face1 the tone of voice1 the conversation1 the gesture1 and the manners of each3 from the ,,body1 in that there is more hardness in the skin and flesh of men1 and more softness in that of women2 from the ,,face1 in that it is harder1 more fixed1 harsher1 of darker complexion1 also bearded1 thus less beautiful in men2 whereas in women it is softer1 more yielding1 more tender1 of fairer complexion1 and thence more beautiful2 from the ,,tone ,,of ,,voice1 in that it is deeper with men1 and sweeter with women2 from the ,,conversation in that with men it is given to licentiousness and daring1 but with women it is modest and pacific2 from the ,,gesture1 in that with men it is stronger and firmer1 whereas with women it is more weak and feeble2 from the ,,manners1 in that with men they are more unrestrained1 but with women more elegant4 ,how far from the very cradle the genius of men differs from that of women1 was discovered to me clearly from seeing a number of boys and girls met together4 ,i saw them at times through a window in the street of a great city1 where more than twenty assembled every day4 ,the boys1 agreeably to the disposition born with them1 in their pastimes were tumultuous1 vociferous1 apt to fight1 to strike1 and to throw stones at each other2 whereas the girls sat peaceably at the doors of the houses1 some playing with little children1 some dressing dolls or working on bits of linen1 some kissing each other2 and to my surprise1 they still looked with satisfaction at the boys whose pastimes were so different from their own4 ,hence ,i could see plainly1 that a man by birth is understanding1 and a woman1 love2 and also the quality of understanding and of love in their principles2 and thereby what would be the quality of a man's understanding without conjunction with female love1 and afterwards with conjugial love4 #bai4 ,x4 ,,wives ,,are ,,in ,,no ,,excitation ,,as ,,men ,,are2 ,,but ,,they ,,have ,a ,,state ,,of ,,preparation ,,for ,,reception4 ,that men have semination and consequent excitation1 and that women have not the latter because they have not the former1 is evident1 but that women have a state of preparation for reception1 and thus for conception1 ,i relate from what has been told me2 but what the nature and quality of this state with the women is1 ,i am not allowed to describe2 besides1 it is known to them alone3 but whether their love1 while they are in that state1 is in the enjoyment of its delight1 or in what is undelightful1 as some say1 they have not made known4 ,this only is generally known1 that it is not allowed the husband to say to the wife1 that he is able and not willing3 for thereby the state of reception is greatly hurt1 which is prepared according to the state of the husband's ability4 #bbj4 ,,xi4 ,,men ,,have ,,abundant ,,store ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,propagating ,,the ,,truths ,,of ,,wisdom1 ,,and ,,to ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,doing ,,uses4 ,this position is one of the arcana which were known to the ancients1 and which are now lost4 ,the ancients knew that everything which was done in the body is from a spiritual origin3 as that from the will1 which in itself is spiritual1 actions flow2 that from the thought1 which also is spiritual1 speech flows2 also that natural sight is grounded in spiritual sight1 which is that of the understanding2 natural hearing in spiritual hearing1 which is attention of the understanding and at the same time accommodation of the will2 and natural smelling in spiritual smelling1 which is perception2 and so forth3 in like manner they saw that semination with men is from a spiritual origin4 ,that it is from the truths of which the understanding consists1 they concluded from several deductions both of reason and of experience2 and they asserted1 that nothing is received by males from the spiritual marriage1 which is that of good and truth1 and which flows into everything in the universe1 but truth1 and whatever has relation to truth2 and that this in its progress into the body is formed into seed2 and that hence it is1 that seeds spiritually understood are truths4 ,as to formation1 they asserted1 that the masculine soul1 as being intellectual1 is thus truth2 for the intellectual principle is nothing else2 wherefore while the soul descends1 truth also descends3 that this is effected by this circumstance1 that the soul1 which is the inmost principle of every man 7homo7 and every animal1 and which in its essence is spiritual1 from an implanted tendency to self-propagation1 follows in the descent1 and is desirous to procreate itself2 and that when this is the case1 the entire soul forms itself1 and clothes itself1 and becomes seed3 and that this may be done thousands of times1 because the soul is a spiritual substance1 which is not a subject of extension but of impletion1 and from which no part can be taken away1 but the whole may be produced1 without any loss thereof3 hence it is1 that it is as fully present in the smallest receptacles1 which are seeds1 as in its greatest receptacle1 the body4 ,since therefore the principle of truth in the soul is the origin of seed1 it follows1 that men have abundant store according to their love of propagating the truths of their wisdom3 it is also according to their love of doing uses2 because uses are the goods which truths produce4 ,in the world also it is well known to some1 that the industrious have abundant store1 but not the idle4 ,i inquired1 ,how is a feminine principle produced from a male soul8 and ,i received for answer1 that it was from intellectual good2 because this in its essence is truth3 for the intellect can think that this is good1 thus that it is true that it is good4 ,it is otherwise with the will3 this does not think what is good and true1 but loves and does it4 ,therefore in the ,word sons signify truths1 and daughters goods1 as may be seen above1 n4 #abj2 and seed signifies truth1 as may be seen in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #efe4 #bba4 ,,xii4 ,,determination ,,is ,,in ,,the ,,good ,,pleasure ,,of ,,the ,,husband4 ,this is1 because with men there is the abundant store above mentioned2 and this varies with them according to the states of their minds and bodies3 for the understanding is not so constant in its thoughts as the will is in its affections2 since it is sometimes carried upwards1 sometimes downwards2 at one time it is in a serene and clear state in another in a turbulent and obscure one2 sometimes it is employed on agreeable objects1 sometimes on disagreeable2 and as the mind1 while it acts1 is also in the body1 it follows1 that the body has similar states3 hence the husband at times recedes from conjugial love1 and at times accedes to it1 and the abundant store is removed in the one state1 and restored in the other4 ,these are the reasons why determination at all times is to be left to the good pleasure of the husband3 hence also it is that wives1 from a wisdom implanted in them1 never offer any admonition on such subjects4 #bbb4 ,,xiii4 ,,the ,,conjugial ,,sphere ,,flows ,,from ,,the ,,lord ,,through ,,heaven ,,into ,,everything ,,in ,,the ,,universe1 ,,even ,,to ,,its ,,ultimates4 ,that love and wisdom1 or1 what is the same1 good and truth1 proceed from the ,lord1 was shewn above in a chapter on the subject4 ,those two principles in a marriage proceed continually from the ,lord1 because they are himself1 and from him are all things2 and the things which proceed from him fill the universe1 for unless this were the case1 nothing which exists would subsist4 ,there are several spheres which proceed from him2 the sphere of the conservation of the created universe2 the sphere of the defence of good and truth against evil and false1 the sphere of reformation and regeneration1 the sphere of innocence and peace1 the sphere of mercy and grace1 with several others2 but the universal of all is the conjugial sphere1 because this also is the sphere of propagation1 and thus the supereminent sphere of the conservation of the created universe by successive generations4 ,that this conjugial sphere fills the universe1 and pervades all things from first to last1 is evident from what has been shewn above1 that there are marriages in the heavens1 and the most perfect in the third or supreme heaven3 and that besides taking place with men it takes place also with all the subjects of the animal kingdom in the earth1 even down to worms2 and moreover with all the subjects of the vegetable kingdom1 from olives and palms even to the smallest grasses4 ,that this sphere is more universal than the sphere of heat and light1 which proceeds from the sun of our world1 may appear reasonable from this consideration1 that it operates also in the absence of the sun's heat1 as in winter1 and in the absence of its light1 as in the night1 especially with men 7homines74 ,the reason why it so operates is1 because it was from the sun of the angelic heaven1 and thence there is a constant equation of heat and light1 that is1 a conjunction of good and truth2 for it is in a continual spring4 ,the changes of good and truth1 or of its heat and light1 are not variations thereof1 like the variations on earth arising from changes of the heat and light proceeding from the natural sun2 but they arise from the recipient subjects4 #bbc4 ,,xiv4 ,,this ,,sphere ,,is ,,received ,,by ,,the ,,female ,,sex1 ,,and ,,through ,,that ,,is ,,transferred ,,to ,,the ,,male ,,sex4 ,there is not any conjugial love appertaining to the male sex1 but it appertains solely to the female sex1 and from this sex is transferred to the male3 this ,i have seen evidenced by experience2 concerning which see above1 n4 #afa4 ,a further proof of it is supplied from this consideration1 that the male form is the intellectual form1 and the female the voluntary2 and the intellectual form cannot grow warm with conjugial heat from itself1 but from the conjunctive heat of some one1 in whom it was implanted from creation2 consequently it cannot receive that love except by the voluntary form of the woman adjoined to itself2 because this also is a form of love4 ,this same position might be further confirmed by the marriage of good and truth2 and1 to the natural man1 by the marriage of the heart and lungs2 for the heart corresponds to love1 and the lungs to understanding2 but as the generality of mankind are deficient in the knowledge of these subjects1 confirmation thereby would tend rather to obscure than to illustrate4 ,it is in consequence of the transference of this sphere from the female sex into the male1 that the mind is also inflamed solely from thinking about the sex2 that hence also comes propagative formation and thereby excitation1 follows of course2 for unless heat is united to light on earth1 nothing flourishes and is excited to cause fructification there4 #bbd4 ,,xv4 ,,where ,,there ,,is ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,this ,,sphere ,,is ,,received ,,by ,,the ,,wife1 ,,and ,,only ,,through ,,her ,,by ,,the ,,husband4 ,that this sphere1 with those who are in love truly conjugial1 is received by the husband only through the wife1 is at this day an arcanum2 and yet in itself it is not an arcanum1 because the bridegroom and new-married husband may know this2 is he not affected conjugially by whatever proceeds from the bride and new-married wife1 but not at that time by what proceeds from others of the sex8 ,the case is the same with those who live together in love truly conjugial4 ,and since everyone1 both man and woman1 is encompassed by his own sphere of life1 densely on the breast1 and less densely on the back1 it is manifest whence it is that husbands who are very fond of their wives1 turn themselves to them1 and in the day-time regard them with complacency2 and on the other hand1 why those who do not love their wives1 turn themselves away from them1 and in the day-time regard them with aversion4 ,by the reception of the conjugial sphere by the husband only through the wife1 love truly conjugial is known and distinguished from that which is spurious1 false1 and cold4 #bbe4 ,,xvi4 ,,where ,,there ,,is ,,love ,,not ,,conjugial1 ,,this ,,sphere ,,is ,,received ,,indeed ,,by ,,the ,,wife1 ,,but ,,not ,,by ,,the ,,husband ,,through ,,her4 ,this conjugial sphere flowing into the universe is in its origin divine2 in its progress in heaven with the angels it is celestial and spiritual2 with men it is natural1 with beasts and birds animal1 with worms merely corporeal1 with vegetables it is void of life2 and moreover in all its subjects it is varied according to their forms4 ,now as this sphere is received immediately by the female sex1 and mediately by the male1 and as it is received according to forms1 it follows1 that this sphere1 which in its origin is holy1 may in the subjects be turned into what is not holy1 yea may be even inverted into what is opposite4 ,the sphere opposite to it is called meretricious with such women1 and adulterous with such men2 and as such men and women are in hell1 this sphere is from thence3 but of this sphere there is also much variety1 and hence there are several species of it2 and such a species is attracted and appropriated by a man 7vir7 as is agreeable to him1 and as is conformable and correspondent with his peculiar temper and disposition4 ,from these considerations it may appear1 that the man who does not love his wife1 receives that sphere from some other source than from his wife2 nevertheless it is a fact1 that it is also inspired by the wife1 but without the husband's knowing it1 and while he grows warm4 #bbf4 ,,xvii4 ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,may ,,exist ,,with ,,one ,,of ,,the ,,married ,,partners1 ,,and ,,not ,,at ,,the ,,same ,,time ,,with ,,the ,,other4 ,for one may from the heart devote himself to chaste marriage1 while the other knows not what chaste marriage is2 one may love the things which are of the church1 but the other those which are of the world alone3 as to their minds1 one may be in heaven1 the other in hell2 hence there may be conjugial love with the one1 and not with the other4 ,the minds of such1 since they are turned in a contrary direction1 are inwardly in collision with each other2 and if not outwardly1 still1 he that is not in conjugial love1 regards his lawful consort as a tiresome old woman2 and so in other cases4 #bbg4 ,,xviii4 ,,there ,,are ,,various ,,similitudes ,,and ,,dissimilitudes1 ,,both ,,internal ,,and ,,external1 ,,with ,,married ,,partners4 ,it is well known1 that between married partners there are similitudes and dissimilitudes1 and that the external appear1 but not the internal1 except after some time of living together1 to the married partners themselves1 and by indications to others2 but it would be useless to mention each so that they might be known1 since several pages might be filled with an account and description of their varieties4 ,similitudes may in part be deduced and concluded from the dissimilitudes on account of which conjugial love is changed into cold2 of which we shall speak in the following chapter4 ,similitudes and dissimilitudes in general originate from connate inclinations1 varied by education1 connections1 and persuasions that have been imbibed4 #bbh4 ,,xix4 ,,various ,,similitudes ,,can ,,be ,,conjoined1 ,,but ,,not ,,with ,,dissimilitudes4 ,the varieties of similitudes are very numerous1 and differ more or less from each other2 but still those which differ may in time be conjoined by various things1 especially by accommodations to desires1 by mutual offices and civilities1 by abstaining from what is unchaste1 by the common love of infants and the care of children1 but particularly by conformity in things relating to the church2 for things relating to the church effect a conjunction of similitudes differing interiorly1 other things only exteriorly4 ,but with dissimilitudes no conjunction can be effected1 because they are antipathetical4 #bbi4 ,,xx4 ,,the ,,lord ,,provides ,,similitudes ,,for ,,those ,,who ,,desire ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,and ,,if ,,not ,,on ,,earth1 ,,he ,,yet ,,provides ,,them ,,in ,,heaven4 ,the reason of this is1 because all marriages of love truly conjugial are provided by the ,lord4 ,that they are from him1 may be seen above1 n4 #acj1 #aca2 but in what manner they are provided in heaven1 ,i have heard thus described by the angels3 ,the divine providence of the ,lord extends to everything1 even to the minutest particulars1 concerning marriages and in marriages1 because all the delights of heaven spring from the delights of conjugial love1 as sweet waters from the fountain-head2 and on this account it is provided that conjugial pairs be born2 and that they be continually educated to their several marriages under the ,lord's auspices1 neither the boy nor the girl knowing anything of the matter2 and after a stated time1 when they both become marriageable1 they meet in some place as by chance1 and see each other1 and in this case they instantly know1 as by a kind of instinct1 that they are a pair1 and by a kind of inward dictate think within themselves1 the youth1 that she is mine1 and the maiden1 that he is mine2 and when this thought has existed some time in the mind of each1 they accost each other from a deliberate purpose1 and betroth themselves4 ,it is said1 as by chance1 by instinct1 and by dictate2 and the meaning is1 by divine providence2 since1 while the divine providence is unknown1 it has such an appearance2 for the ,lord opens internal similitudes1 so that they may see themselves4 #bcj4 ,,xxi4 ,a ,,man 7homo7 ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,deficiency ,,and ,,loss ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,approaches ,,to ,,the ,,nature ,,of ,a ,,beast4 ,the reason of this is1 because so far as a man 7homo7 is in conjugial love1 so far he is spiritual1 and so far as he is spiritual1 so far he is a man 7homo72 for a man is born to a life after death1 and attains the possession thereof in consequence of having in him a spiritual soul1 and is capable of being elevated thereto by the faculty of his understanding2 if in this case his will1 from the faculty also granted to it1 is elevated at the same time1 he lives after death the life of heaven4 ,the contrary comes to pass1 if he is in a love opposite to conjugial love2 for so far as he is in this opposite love1 so far he is natural2 and a merely natural man is like a beast as to lusts and appetites1 and to their delights2 with this difference only1 that he has the faculty of elevating his understanding into the light of wisdom1 and also of elevating his will into the heat of celestial love4 ,these faculties are never taken away from airy man 7homo72 therefore the merely natural man1 although as to concupiscences and appetites and their delights1 he is like a beast1 still lives after death1 but in a state corresponding to his past life4 ,from these considerations it may appear that a man1 according to the deficiency of conjugial love1 approaches to the nature of a beast4 ,this position may seem to be contradicted by the consideration1 that there are a deficiency and loss of conjugial love with some who yet are men 7homines72 but the position is meant to be confined to those who make light of conjugial love from a principle of adulterous love1 and who therefore are in such deficiency and loss4 99 99 99 99 99 #bca4 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,three ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,i once heard loud exclamations1 which issued from the hells1 with a noise as if they bubbled up through water3 one to the left hand1 in these words1 ,o ,,how ,,just6 another to the right1 ,o ,,how ,,learned6 and a third from behind1 ,o ,,how ,,wise6 and as ,i was in doubt whether there are also in hell persons of justice1 learning1 and wisdom1 ,i was impressed with a strong desire of seeing what was the real case2 and a voice from heaven said to me1 ,you shall see and hear4 ,i therefore in spirit went out of the house1 and saw before me an opening1 which ,i approached2 and looked down2 and lo6 there was a ladder1 by which ,i descended3 and when ,i was down1 ,i observed a level country set thick with shrubs1 intermixed with thorns and nettles2 and on my asking1 whether this was hell1 ,i was told it was the lower earth next above hell4 ,i then continued my course in a direction according to the exclamations in order2 first to those who exclaimed1 ,o ,,how ,,just6 where ,i saw a company consisting of such as in the world had been judges influenced by friendship and gifts2 then to the second exclamation1 ,o ,,how ,,learned6 where ,i saw a company of such as in the world had been reasoners2 and lastly to the third exclamation1 ,o ,,how ,,wise6 where ,i saw a company such as in the world had been confirmators4 ,from these ,i returned to the first1 where there were judges influenced by friendship and gifts1 and who were proclaimed ,just4 ,on one side ,i saw as it were an amphitheatre built of brick1 and covered with black slates2 and ,i was told that they called it a tribunal4 ,there were three entrances to it on the north1 and three on the west1 but none on the south and east2 a proof that their decisions were not those of justice1 but were arbitrary determinations4 ,in the middle of the amphitheatre there was a fire1 into which the servants who attended threw torches of sulphur and pitch2 the light whereof1 by its vibrations on the plastered walls1 presented pictured images of birds of the evening and night2 but both the fire and the vibrations of light thence issuing1 together with the forms of the images thereby produced1 were representations that in their decisions they could adorn the matter of any debate with colored dyes1 and give it a form according to their own interest4 ,in about half an hour ,i saw some old men and youths in robes and cloaks1 enter the amphitheatre1 who1 laying aside their caps1 took their seats at the tables1 in order to sit in judgement4 ,i heard and perceived with what cunning and ingenuity1 under the impulse of prejudice in favor of their friends1 they warped and inverted judgement so as to give it an appearance of justice1 and this to such a degree1 that they themselves saw what was unjust as just1 and on the other hand what was just as unjust4 ,such persuasions respecting the points to be decided upon1 appeared from their countenances1 and were heard from their manner of speaking4 ,i then received illustration from heaven1 from which ,i perceived how far each point was grounded in right or not2 and ,i saw how industriously they concealed what was unjust1 and gave it a semblance of what was just2 and how they selected some particular statute which favored their own side of the question1 and by cunning reasonings warped the rest to the same side4 ,after judgement was given1 the decrees were conveyed to their clients1 friends and favorers1 who1 to recompense them for their services1 continued to shout1 ,o ,,how ,,just1 ,o ,,how ,,just6 ,after this ,i conversed respecting them with the angels of heaven1 and related to them some of the things ,i had seen and heard4 ,the angels said to me1 ,such judges appear to others to be endowed with a most extraordinary acuteness of intellect2 when yet they do not at all see what is just and equitable4 ,if you remove the prejudices of friendship in favor of particular persons1 they sit mute in judgement like so many statues1 and only say1 ',i acquiesce1 and am entirely of your opinion on this point4' ,this happens because all their judgements are prejudices2 and prejudice with partiality influences the case in question from beginning to end4 ,hence they see nothing but what is connected with their friend's interest2 and whatever is contrary thereto1 they set aside2 or if they pay any attention to it1 they involve it in intricate reasonings1 as a spider wraps up its prey in a web1 and make an end of it2 hence1 unless they follow the web of their prejudice1 they see nothing of what is right4 ,they were examined whether they were able to see it1 and it was discovered that they were not4 ,that this is the case1 will seem wonderful to the inhabitants of your world2 but tell them it is a truth that has been investigated by the angels of heaven4 ,as they see nothing of what is just1 we in heaven regard them not as men but as monsters1 whose heads are constituted of things relating to friendship1 their breasts of those relating to injustice1 their feet of those which relate to confirmation1 and the soles of the feet of those things which relate to justice1 which they supplant and trample under foot1 in case they are unfavorable to the interests of their friend4 ,but of what quality they appear to us from heaven1 you shall presently see2 for their end is at hand4 ,and lo6 at that instant the ground was cleft asunder1 and the tables fell one upon another1 and they were swallowed up1 together with the whole amphitheatre1 and were cast into caverns1 and imprisoned4 ,it was then said to me1 ,do you wish to see them where they now are8 ,and lo6 their faces appeared as of polished steel1 their bodies from the neck to the loins as graven images of stone clothed with leopards' skins1 and their feet like snakes3 the law books too1 which they had arranged in order on the tables1 were changed into packs of cards3 and now1 instead of sitting in judgement1 the office appointed to them is to prepare vermilion and mix it up into a paint1 to bedaub the faces of harlots and thereby turn them into beauties4 ,after seeing these things1 ,i was desirous to visit the two other assemblies1 one of which consisted of mere reasoners1 and the other of mere confirmators2 and it was said to me1 ,stop awhile1 and you shall have attendant angels from the society next above them2 by these you will receive light from the ,lord and will see what will surprise you4 #bcb4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,after some time ,i heard again from the lower earth voices exclaiming as before1 ,o ,,how ,,learned6 ,o ,,how ,,wise6 ,i looked round to see what angels were present2 and lo6 they were from the heaven immediately above those who cried out1 ,o ,,how ,,learned6 and ,i conversed with them respecting the cry1 and they said1 ,those learned ones are such as only reason whether a thing be so or not1 and seldom think that it is so2 therefore1 they are like winds which blow and pass away1 like the bark about trees which are without sap1 or like shells about almonds without a kernel1 or like the outward rind about fruit without pulp2 for their minds are void of interior judgement1 and are united only with the bodily senses2 therefore unless the senses themselves decide1 they can conclude nothing2 in a word1 they are merely sensual1 and we call them ,,reasoners4 ,we give them this name1 because they never conclude anything1 and make whatever they hear a matter of argument1 and dispute whether it be so1 with perpetual contradiction4 ,they love nothing better than to attack essential truths1 and so to pull them in pieces as to make them a subject of dispute4 ,these are those who believe themselves learned above the rest of the world4 ,on hearing this account1 ,i entreated the angels to conduct me to them3 so they led me to a cave1 from which there was a flight of steps leading to the earth below4 ,we descended and followed the shout1 ,o ,,how ,,learned6 and lo6 there were some hundreds standing in one place1 beating the ground with their feet4 ,being at first surprised at this sight1 ,i inquired the reason of their standing in that manner and beating the ground with the soles of their feet1 and said1 ,they may thus by their feet make holes in the floor4 ,at this the angel smiled and said1 ,they appear to stand in this manner1 because they never think on any subject that it is so1 but only whether it is so1 and dispute about it2 and when the thinking principle proceeds no further than this1 they appear only to tread and trample on a single clod1 and not to advance4 ,upon this ,i approached the assembly1 and lo6 they appeared to me to be good-looking men and well dressed2 but the angels said1 ,this is their appearance when viewed in their own light2 but if light from heaven flows in1 their faces are changed1 and so is their dress2 and so it came to pass3 they then appeared with dark faces1 and dressed in black sackcloth2 but when this light was withdrawn1 they appeared as before4 ,i presently entered into conversation with some of them1 and said1 ,i heard the shout of a crowd about you1 ',o how learned6' may ,i be allowed therefore to have a little conversation with you on subjects of the highest learning8 they replied1 ,mention any subject1 and we will give you satisfaction4 ,i then asked1 ,what must be the nature of that religion by which a man is saved8 ,they said1 ,we will divide this subject into several parts2 and we cannot answer it until we have concluded on its subdivisions4 ,the first inquiry shall be1 ,whether religion be anything8 the second1 ,whether there be such a thing as salvation or not8 the third1 ,whether one religion be more efficacious than another8 the fourth1 ,whether there be a heaven and a hell8 the fifth1 ,whether there be eternal life after death8 besides many more inquiries4 ,then ,i desired to know their opinion concerning the first article of inquiry1 ,whether religion be anything8 ,they began to discuss the subject with abundance of arguments1 whether there be any such thing as religion1 and whether what is called religion be anything8 ,i requested them to refer it to the assembly1 and they did so2 and the general answer was1 that the proposition required so much investigation that it could not be finished within the evening4 ,i then asked4 ,can you finish it within the year8 and one of them said1 ,not within a hundred years3 so ,i observed1 ,in the mean while you are without religion2 and he replied1 ,shall it not be first demonstrated whether there be such a thing as religion1 and whether what is called religion be anything8 if there be such a thing1 it must be also for the wise2 if there be no such thing1 it must he only for the vulgar4 ,it is well known that religion is called a bond2 but it is asked1 for whom8 if it be only for the vulgar1 it is not anything in itself2 if it be likewise for the wise1 it is something4 ,on hearing these arguments1 ,i said to them1 ,there is no character you deserve less than that of being learned2 because all your thoughts are confined to the single inquiry1 whether a thing be1 and to canvass each side of the question4 ,who can become learned1 unless he know something for certain1 and progressively advance into it1 as a man in walking progressively advances from step to step1 and thereby successively arrives at wisdom6 ,if you follow any other rule1 you make no approach to truths1 but remove them more and more out of sight4 ,to reason only whether a thing be1 is it not like reasoning about a cap or a shoe1 whether they fit or not1 before they are put on8 and what must be the consequence of such reasoning1 but that you will not know whether anything exist1 yea1 whether there be any such thing as salvation1 or eternal life after death2 whether one religion be more efficacious than another1 and whether there be a heaven and a hell8 ,on these subjects you cannot possibly think at all1 so long as you halt at the first step1 and beat the sand at setting out1 instead of setting one foot before another and going forward4 ,take heed to yourselves1 lest your minds1 standing thus without in a state of indetermination1 should inwardly harden and become statues of salt1 and yourselves friends of ,lot's wife4 ,with these words ,i took my leave1 and they being indignant threw stones after me2 and then they appeared to me like graven images of stone1 without any human reason in them4 ,on my asking the angels concerning their lot1 they said1 ,their lot is1 that they are cast down into the deep1 into a wilderness1 where they are forced to carry burdens2 and in this case1 as they are no longer capable of rational conversation1 they give themselves up to idle prattle and talk1 and appear at a distance like asses that are heavily laden4 #bcc4 ,,the ,,third ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,after this one of the angels said1 ,follow me to the place where they exclaim1 ',o ,,how ,,wise6' and you shall see prodigies of men2 you shall see faces and bodies1 which are the faces and bodies of a man1 and yet they are not men4 ,i said1 ,are they beasts then8 he replied1 ,they are not beasts1 but beast-men2 for they are such as cannot at all see whether truth be truth or not1 and yet they can make whatever they will to be truth4 ,such persons with us are called ,,confirmators4 ,we followed the vociferation1 and came to the place2 and lo6 there was a company of men1 and around them a crowd1 and in the crowd some of noble blood1 who1 on hearing that they confirmed whatever they said1 and favored themselves with such manifest consent1 turned1 and said1 ,o ,,how ,,wise6 ,but the angel said to me1 ,let us not go to them1 but call one out of the company4 ,we called him and went aside with him1 and conversed on various subjects2 and he confirmed every one of them1 so that they appeared altogether as true2 and we asked him1 whether he could also confirm the contrary8 he said1 ,as well as the former4 ,then he spoke openly and from the heart1 and said1 ,what is truth8 ,is there anything true in the nature of things1 but what a man makes true8 ,advance any proposition you please1 and ,i will make it to be true4 ,hereupon ,i said1 ,make this true2 ,that faith is the all of the church4 ,this he did so dexterously and cunningly1 that the learned who were standing by admired and applauded him4 ,i afterwards requested him to make it true1 ,that charity is the all of the church2 and he did so3 and afterwards1 ,that charity is nothing of the church3 and he dressed up each side of the question1 and adorned it so with appearances1 that the bystanders looked at each other1 and said1 ,is not this a wise man8 ,but ,i said1 ,do not you know that to live well is charity1 and that to believe well is faith8 does not he that lives well also believe well8 and consequently1 is not faith of charity1 and charity of faith8 do you not see that this is true8 ,he replied1 ,i will make it true1 and will then see4 ,he did so1 and said1 ,now ,i see it2 but presently he made the contrary to be true1 and then said1 ,i also see that this is true4 ,at this we smiled and said1 ,are they not contraries8 how can two contraries appear true8 ,to this he replied with indignation1 ,you are mistaken2 each is true2 since truth is nothing but what a man makes true4 ,there was a certain person standing near1 who in the world had been a legate of the first rank4 ,he was surprised at this assertion1 and said1 ,i acknowledge that in the world something like this method of reasoning prevails2 but still you are out of your senses4 ,try if you can make it to be true1 that light is darkness1 and darkness light4 ,he replied1 ,i will easily do this4 ,what are light and darkness but a state of the eye8 ,is not light changed into shade when the eye comes out of sunshine1 and also when it is kept intensely fixed on the sun8 ,who does not know1 that the state of the eye in such a case is changed1 and that in consequence light appears as shade2 and on the other hand1 when the state of the eye is restored1 that shade appears as light8 ,does not an owl see the darkness of night as the light of day1 and the light of day as the darkness of night1 and also the sun itself as an opaque and dusky globe8 ,if any man had the eyes of an owl1 which would he call light and which darkness8 ,what then is light but the state of the eye8 and if it be a state of the eye1 is not light darkness1 and darkness light8 therefore each of the propositions is true4 ,afterwards the legate asked him to make this true1 ,that a raven is white and not black2 and he replied1 ,i will do this also with ease2 and he said1 ,take a needle or razor1 and lay open the feathers or quills of a raven2 are they not white within8 ,also remove the feathers and quills1 and look at its skin2 is it not white8 ,what is the blackness then which envelops it but a shade1 which ought not to determine the raven's color8 ,that blackness is merely a shade4 ,i appeal to the skilful in the science of optics1 who will tell you1 that if you pound a black stone or glass into fine powder1 you will see that the powder is white4 ,but the legate replied1 ,does not the raven appear black to the sight8 ,the confirmator answered1 ,will you1 who are a man1 think in any case from appearance8 you may indeed say from appearance1 that a crow is black1 but you cannot think so2 as for example1 you may speak from the appearance and say that the sun rises1 advances to its meridian altitude1 and sets2 but1 as you are a man1 you cannot think so2 because the sun stands unmoved and the earth only changes its position4 ,the case is the same with the raven2 appearance is appearance2 and say what you will1 a raven is altogether and entirely white2 it grows white also as it grows old2 and this ,i have seen4 ,we next requested him to tell us from his heart1 whether he was in joke1 or whether he really believed that nothing is true but what a man makes true8 and he replied1 ,i swear that ,i believe it4 ,afterwards the legate asked him1 whether he could make it true that he was out of his senses2 and he said1 ,i can2 but ,i do not choose3 who is not out of his senses8 ,when the conversation was thus ended1 this universal confirmator was sent to the angels1 to be examined as to his true quality2 and the report they afterwards made was1 that he did not possess even a single grain of understanding2 because all that is above the rational principle was closed in him1 and that alone which is below was open4 ,above the rational principle is heavenly light1 and below it is natural light2 and this light is such that it can confirm whatever it pleases2 but if heavenly light does not flow into natural light1 a man does not see whether any thing true is true1 and consequently neither does he see that any thing false is false4 ,to see in either case is by virtue of heavenly light in natural light2 and heavenly light is from the ,god of heaven1 who is the ,lord2 therefore this universal confirmator is not a man or a beast1 but a beast-man4 ,i questioned the angel concerning the lot of such persons1 and whether they can be together with those who are alive1 since every one has life from heavenly light1 and from this light has understanding4 ,he said1 that such persons when they are alone1 can neither think nor express their thoughts1 but stand mute like machines1 and as in a deep sleep2 but that they awake as soon as any sound strikes their ears3 and he added1 that those become such1 who are inmostly wicked2 into these no heavenly light can flow from above1 but only somewhat spiritual through the world1 whence they derive the faculty of confirming4 ,as he said this1 ,i heard a voice from the angels who had examined the confirmation1 saying to me1 ,from what you have now heard form a general conclusion4 ,i accordingly formed the following3 ,that intelligence does not consist in being able to confirm whatever a man pleases1 but in being able to see that what is true is true1 and what is false is false4 ,after this ,i looked towards the company where the confirmators stood1 and where the crowd about them shouted1 ,o how wise6 and lo6 a dusky cloud covered them1 and in the cloud were owls and bats on the wing2 and it was said to me1 ,the owls and bats flying in the dusky cloud1 are correspondences and consequent appearances of their thoughts2 because confirmations of falsities so as to make them appear like truths1 are represented in this world under the forms of birds of night1 whose eyes are inwardly illuminated by a false light1 from which they see objects in the dark as if in the light4 ,by such a false spiritual light are those influenced who confirm falses until they seem as truths1 and afterwards are said and believed to be truths3 all such see backwards1 and not forwards4 99 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,coldness1 ,,separation1 ,,and ,,divorce ,,in ,,marriages4 #bcd4 ,in treating here on the causes of coldness in marriages1 we shall treat also at the same time on the causes of separation1 and likewise of divorce1 because they are connected2 for separations come from no other source than from coldnesses1 which are successively inborn after marriage1 or from causes discovered after marriage1 from which also coldness springs2 but divorces come from adulteries2 for these are altogether opposite to marriages2 and opposites induce coldness1 if not in both parties1 at least in one4 ,this is the reason why the causes of coldness1 separations1 and divorces1 are brought together into one chapter4 ,but the coherence of the causes will be more clearly discerned from viewing them in the following series3--,i4 ,there are spiritual heat and spiritual cold2 and spiritual heat is love1 and spiritual cold the privation thereof4 ,,ii4 ,spiritual cold in marriages is a disunion of souls and a disjunction of minds1 whence come indifference1 discord1 contempt1 disdain1 and aversion2 from which1 in several cases1 at length comes separation as to bed1 chamber1 and house4 ,,iii4 ,there are several successive causes of cold1 some internal1 some external1 and some accidental4 ,,iv4 ,internal causes of cold are from religion4 ,v4 ,the first of these causes is the rejection of religion by each of the parties4 ,,vi4 ,the second is1 that one has religion and not the other4 ,,vii4 ,the third is1 that one is of one religion and the other of another4 ,,viii4 ,the fourth is the falsity of the religion imbibed4 ,,ix4 ,with many1 these are causes of internal cold1 but not at the same time of external4 ,x4 ,there are also several external causes of cold2 the first of which is dissimilitude of minds and manners4 ,,xi4 ,the second is1 that conjugial love is believed to be the same as adulterous love1 only that the latter is not allowed by law1 but the former is4 ,,xii4 ,the third is1 a striving for pre-eminence between married partners4 ,,xiii4 ,the fourth is1 a want of determination to any employment or business1 whence comes wandering passion4 ,,xiv4 ,the fifth is1 inequality of external rank and condition4 ,,xv4 ,there are also causes of separation4 ,,xvi4 ,the first of them is a vitiated state of mind4 ,,xvii4 ,the second is a vitiated state of body4 ,,xviii4 ,the third is impotence before marriage4 ,,xix4 ,adultery is the cause of divorce4 ,,xx4 ,there are also several accidental causes of cold2 the first of which is1 that enjoyment is common 7or cheap71 because continually allowed4 ,,xxi4 ,the second is that living with a married partner1 from a covenant and compact1 seems to be forced and not free4 ,,xxii4 ,the third is1 affirmation on the part of the wife1 and her talking incessantly about love4 ,,xxiii4 ,the fourth is1 the man's continually thinking that his wife is willing2 and on the other hand1 the wife's thinking that the man is not willing4 ,,xxiv4 ,as cold is in the mind it is also in the body2 and according to the increase of that cold1 the externals also of the body are closed4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #bce4 ,i4 ,,there ,,are ,,spiritual ,,heat ,,and ,,spiritual ,,cold2 ,,and ,,spiritual ,,heat ,,is ,,love1 ,,and ,,spiritual ,,cold ,,is ,,the ,,privation ,,thereof4 ,spiritual heat is from no other source than the sun of the spiritual world2 for there is in that world a sun proceeding from the ,lord1 who is in the midst of it2 and as it is from the ,lord1 it is in its essence pure love4 ,this sun appears fiery before the angels1 just as the sun of our world appears before men4 ,the reason of its appearing fiery is1 because love is spiritual fire4 ,from that sun proceed both heat and light2 but as that sun is pure love1 the heat thence derived in its essence is love1 and the light thence derived in its essence is wisdom2 hence it is manifest what is the source of spiritual heat1 and that spiritual heat is love4 ,but we will also briefly explain the source of spiritual cold4 ,it is from the sun of the natural world1 and its heat and light4 ,the sun of the natural world was created that its heat and light might receive in them spiritual heat and light1 and by means of the atmospheres might convey spiritual heat and light even to ultimates in the earth1 in order to produce effects of ends1 which are of the ,lord in his sun1 and also to clothe spiritual principles with suitable garments1 that is1 with materials1 to operate ultimate ends in nature4 ,these effects are produced when spiritual heat is joined to natural heat2 but the contrary comes to pass when natural heat is separated from spiritual heat1 as is the case with those who love natural things1 and reject spiritual3 with such1 spiritual heat becomes cold4 ,the reason why these two loves1 which from creation are in agreement1 become thus opposite1 is1 because in such case the dominant heat becomes the servant1 and vice versa2 and to prevent this effect1 spiritual heat1 which from its lineage is lord1 then recedes2 and in those subjects1 spiritual heat grows cold1 because it becomes opposite4 ,from these considerations it is manifest that spiritual cold is the privation of spiritual heat4 ,in what is here said1 by heat is meant love2 because that heat living in subjects is felt as love4 ,i have heard in the spiritual world1 that spirits merely natural grow intensely cold while they apply themselves to the side of some angel who is in a state of love2 and that the case is similar in regard to the infernal spirits1 while heat flows into them out of heaven2 and that nevertheless among themselves1 when the heat of heaven is removed from them1 they are inflamed with great heat4 #bcf4 ,,ii4 ,spiritual cold in marriages is a disunion of souls and a disjunction of minds1 whence come indifference1 discord1 contempt1 disdain1 and aversion2 from which1 in several cases1 at length comes separation as to bed1 chamber1 and house4 ,that these effects take place with married partners1 while their primitive love is on the decline1 and becomes cold1 is too well known to need any comment4 ,the reason is1 because conjugial cold above all others resides in human minds2 for the essential conjugial principle is inscribed on the soul1 to the end that a soul may be propagated from a soul1 and the soul of the father into the offspring4 ,hence it is that this cold originates there1 and successively goes downward into the principles thence derived1 and infects them2 and thus changes the joys and delights of the primitive love into what is sad and undelightful4 #bcg4 ,,iii4 ,,there ,,are ,,several ,,successive ,,causes ,,of ,,cold1 ,,some ,,internal1 ,,some ,,external1 ,,and ,,some ,,accidental4 ,that there are several causes of cold in marriages1 is known in the world2 also that they arise from many external causes2 but it is not known that the origins of the causes lie concealed in the inmost principles1 and that from these they descend into the principles thence derived1 until they appear in externals2 in order therefore that it may be known that external causes are not causes in themselves1 but derived from causes in themselves1 which1 as was said1 are in inmost principles1 we will first distribute the causes generally into internal and external1 and afterwards will particularly examine them4 #bch4 ,,iv4 ,,internal ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,are ,,from ,,religion4 ,that the very origin of conjugial love resides in the inmost principles of man1 that is1 in his soul1 is demonstrable to every one from the following considerations alone2 that the soul of the offspring is from the father1 which is known from the similitude of inclinations and affections1 and also from the general character of the countenance derived from the father and remaining with very remote posterity2 also from the propagative faculty implanted in souls from creation2 and moreover by what is analogous thereto in the subjects of the vegetable kingdom1 in that there lies hid in the inmost principles of germination the propagation of the seed itself1 and thence of the whole1 whether it be a tree1 a shrub1 or a plant4 ,this propagative or plastic force in seeds in the latter kingdom1 and in souls in the other1 is from no other source than the conjugial sphere1 which is that of good and truth1 and which perpetually emanates and flows in from the ,lord the ,creator and ,supporter of the universe2 concerning which sphere1 see above1 n4 #bbb-bbe2 and from the endeavour of those two principles1 good and truth1 therein1 to unite into a one4 ,this conjugial endeavour remains implanted in souls1 and conjugial love exists by derivation from it as its origin4 ,that this same marriage1 from which the above universal sphere is derived1 constitutes the church with man1 has been abundantly shewn above in the chapter ,,on ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth1 and frequently elsewhere4 ,hence there is all the evidence of rational demonstration1 that the origin of the church and of conjugial love are in one place of abode1 and in a continual embrace2 but on this subject see further particulars above1 n4 #acj1 where it was proved1 that conjugial love is according to the state of the church with man2 thus that it is grounded in religion1 because religion constitutes this state4 ,man also was created with a capacity of becoming more and more interior1 and thereby of being introduced or elevated nearer and nearer to that marriage1 and thus into love truly conjugial1 and this even so far as to perceive a state of its blessedness4 ,that religion is the only means of introduction and elevation1 appears clearly from what was said above1 namely1 that the origin of the church and of conjugial love are in the same place of abode1 and in mutual embrace there1 and that hence they must needs be conjoined4 #bci4 ,from what has been said above it follows1 that where there is no religion1 there is no conjugial love2 and that where there is no conjugial love1 there is cold4 ,that conjugial cold is the privation of that love1 maybe seen above1 n4 #bce2 consequently that conjugial cold is also a privation of a state of the church1 or of religion4 ,sufficient evidence of the truth of this may be deduced from the general ignorance that now prevails concerning love truly conjugial4 ,in these times1 who knows1 and who is willing to acknowledge1 and who will not be surprised to hear1 that the origin of conjugial love is deduced hence8 ,but the only cause and source of this ignorance is1 that1 notwithstanding there is religion1 still there are not the truths of religion2 and what is religion without truths8 ,that there is a want of the truths of religion1 is fully shown in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed2 see also the ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #eff of that work4 #bdj4 ,v4 ,,of ,,internal ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,first ,,is ,,the ,,rejection ,,of ,,religion ,,by ,,each ,,of ,,the ,,parties4 ,those who reject the holy things of the church from the face to the hinder part of the head1 or from the breast to the back1 have not any good love2 if any proceeds apparently from the body1 still there is not any in the spirit4 ,with such persons goods place themselves on the outside of evils1 and cover them1 as raiment glittering with gold covers a putrid body4 ,the evils which reside within1 and are covered1 are in general hatreds1 and thence intestine combats against everything spiritual2 for all things of the church which they reject1 are in themselves spiritual2 and as love truly conjugial is the fundamental love of all spiritual loves1 as was shewn above1 it is evident that interior hatred is contrary to it1 and that the interior or real love with such is in favor or the opposite1 which is the love of adultery2 therefore such persons1 more than others1 will be disposed to ridicule this truth1 that every one has conjugial love according to the state of the church2 yea1 they will possibly laugh at the very mention of love truly conjugial2 but be it so2 nevertheless they are to be pardoned1 because it is as impossible for them to distinguish in thought between the marriage embrace and the adulterous1 as it is for a camel to go through the eye of a needle4 ,such persons1 as to conjugial love1 are starved with cold more than others4 ,if they keep to their married partners1 it is only on account of some of the external causes mentioned above1 n4 #aec1 which withhold and bind them4 ,their interiors of the soul and thence of the mind are more and more closed1 and in the body are stopped up2 and in this case even the love of the sex is thought little of1 or becomes insanely lascivious in the interiors of the body1 and thence in the lowest principles of their thought4 ,it is these who are meant in the ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #gi1 which they may read if they please4 #bda4 ,,vi4 ,,of ,,internal ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,second ,,is1 ,,that ,,one ,,of ,,the ,,parties ,,has ,,religion ,,and ,,not ,,the ,,other4 ,the reason of this is1 because the souls must of course disagree2 for the soul of one is open to the reception of conjugial love1 while the soul of the other is closed to it4 ,it is closed with the party that has not religion1 and it is open with the one that has2 hence such persons cannot live together harmoniously2 and when once conjugial love is banished1 there ensues cold2 but this is with the party that has no religion4 ,this cold cannot be dissipated except by the reception of a religion agreeing with that of the other party1 if it be true2 otherwise1 with the party that has no religion1 there ensues cold1 which descends from the soul into the body1 even to the cuticles2 in consequence of which he can no longer look his married partner directly in the face1 or accost her in a communion of respirations1 or speak to her except in a subdued tone of voice1 or touch her with the hand1 and scarcely with the back2 not to mention the insanities which1 proceeding from that cold1 make their way into the thoughts1 which they do not make known2 and this is the reason why such marriages dissolve of themselves4 ,moreover1 it is well known1 that an impious man thinks meanly of a married partner2 and all who are without religion are impious4 #bdb4 ,,vii4 ,,of ,,internal ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,third ,,is1 ,,that ,,one ,,of ,,the ,,parties ,,is ,,of ,,one ,,religion ,,and ,,the ,,other ,,of ,,another4 ,the reason of this is1 because with such persons good cannot be conjoined with its corresponding truth2 for as was shewn above1 the wife is the good of the husband's truth1 and he is the truth of the wife's good4 ,hence of two souls there cannot be made one soul2 and hence the stream of that love is closed3 and consequently a conjugial principle is entered upon1 which has a lower place of abode1 and which is that of good with another truth1 or of truth with another good than its own1 between which there cannot be any harmonious love3 hence with the married partner that is in a false religion1 there commences a cold1 which grows more intense in proportion as he differs from the other party4 ,on a certain time1 as ,i was wandering through the streets of a great city inquiring for a lodging1 ,i entered a house inhabited by married partners of a different religion2 being ignorant of this circumstance1 the angels instantly accosted me1 and said1 ,we cannot remain with you in that house2 for the married partners who dwell there differ in religion4 ,this they perceived from the internal disunion of their souls4 #bdc4 ,,viii4 ,,of ,,internal ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,fourth ,,is1 ,,the ,,falsity ,,of ,,the ,,religion4 ,this is1 because falsity in spiritual things either takes away religion or defiles it4 ,it takes it from those with whom genuine truths are falsified2 it defiles it1 where there are indeed falsities1 but not genuine truths1 which therefore could not be falsified4 ,in the latter case there may be imputed goods with which those falses may be conjoined by applications from the ,lord2 for these falses are like various discordant tones1 which by artful arrangements and combinations are brought into harmony1 and communicate to harmony its agreeableness3 in this case some conjugial love is communicable2 but with those who have falsified with themselves the genuine truths of the church1 it is not communicable4 ,the prevailing ignorance concerning love truly conjugial1 or a negative doubting respecting the possibility of the existence of such love1 is from persons of the latter description2 and from the same source also comes the wild imagination1 in the minds of the generality1 that adulteries are not evils in a religious point of view4 #bdd4 ,,ix4 ,,with ,,many1 ,,the ,,above-,,mentioned ,,are ,,causes ,,of ,,internal ,,cold1 ,,but ,,not ,,at ,,the ,,same ,,time ,,of ,,external4 ,if the causes above pointed out and confirmed1 which are the causes of internal cold1 produced similar external cold1 as many separations would ensue as there are cases of internal cold1 which are as many as there are marriages of those who are in a false or a different religion1 or in no religion2 respecting whom we have already treated2 and yet it is well-known1 that many such live together as if they mutually loved and were friendly to each other3 but whence this originates1 with those who are in internal cold1 will be shewn in the following chapter ,,concerning ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,apparent ,,love1 ,,friendship1 ,,and ,,favor ,,in ,,marriages4 ,there are several causes which conjoin minds 7animos7 but still do not conjoin souls2 among these are some of those mentioned above1 n4 #ahc2 but still cold lies interiorly concealed1 and makes itself continually observed and felt4 ,with such married partners the affections depart from each other2 but the thoughts1 while they come forth into speech and behaviour1 for the sake of apparent friendship and favor1 are present2 therefore such persons know nothing of the pleasantness and delight1 and still less of the satisfaction and blessedness of love truly conjugial1 accounting them to be little else than fables4 ,these are of the number of those who deduce the origin of conjugial love from the same causes with the nine companies of wise ones assembled from the several kingdoms of ,europe2 concerning whom see the ,,memorable ,,relation above1 n4 #ajc-aad4 #bde4 ,it may be urged as an objection to what has been proved above1 that still the soul is propagated from the father although it is not conjoined to the soul of the mother1 yea1 although cold residing therein causes separation2 but the reason why souls or offspring are nevertheless propagated is1 because the understanding of the man is not closed1 but is capable of being elevated into the light into which the soul is2 but the love of his will is not elevated into the heat corresponding to the light there1 except by the life1 which makes him from natural become spiritual2 hence it is1 that the soul is still procreated1 but1 in the descent1 while it becomes seed1 it is veiled over by such things as belong to his natural love2 from this springs hereditary evil4 ,to these considerations ,i will add an arcanum from heaven1 namely1 that between the disjoined souls of two persons1 especially of married partners1 there is effected conjunction in a middle love2 otherwise there would be no conception with men 7homines74 ,besides what is here said of conjugial cold1 and its place of abode in the supreme region of the mind1 see the ,,last ,,memorable ,,relation of this chapter1 n4 #bgj4 #bdf4 ,x4 ,,there ,,are ,,also ,,several ,,external ,,causes ,,of ,,cold1 ,,the ,,first ,,of ,,which ,,is ,,dissimilitude ,,of ,,minds ,,and ,,manners4 ,there are both internal and external similitudes and dissimilitudes4 ,the internal arise from no other source than religion2 for religion is implanted in souls1 and by them is transmitted from parents to their offspring as the supreme inclination2 for the soul of every man derives life from the marriage of good and truth1 and from this marriage is the church2 and as the church is various and different in the several parts of the world1 therefore also the souls of all men are various and different2 wherefore internal similitudes and dissimilitudes are from this source1 and according to them the conjugial conjunctions of which we have been treating2 but external similitudes and dissimilitudes are not of the souls but of minds2 by minds 7animos7 we mean the affections and thence the external inclinations1 which are principally insinuated after birth by education1 social intercourse1 and consequent habits of life2 for it is usual to say1 ,i have a mind to do this or that2 which indicates an affection and inclination to it4 ,persuasions conceived respecting this or that kind of life also form those minds2 hence come inclinations to enter into marriage even with such as are unsuitable1 and likewise to refuse consent to marriage with such as are suitable2 but still these marriages1 after a certain time of living together1 vary according to the similitudes and dissimilitudes contracted hereditarily and also by education2 and dissimilitudes induce cold4 ,so likewise dissimilitudes of manners2 as for example1 an ill-mannered man or woman1 joined with a well-bred one2 a neat man or woman1 joined with a slovenly one2 a litigious man or woman1 joined with one that is peaceably disposed2 in a word1 an immoral man or woman1 joined with a moral one4 ,marriages of such dissimilitudes are not unlike the conjunctions of different species of animals with each other1 as of sheep and goats1 of stags and mules1 of turkeys and geese1 of sparrows and the nobler kind of birds1 yea1 as of dogs and cats1 which from their dissimilitudes do not consociate with each other1 but in the human kind these dissimilitudes are indicated not by faces1 but by habits of life2 wherefore external colds are from this source4 #bdg4 ,,xi4 ,,of ,,external ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,second ,,is1 ,,that ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,believed ,,to ,,be ,,the ,,same ,,as ,,adulterous ,,love1 ,,only ,,that ,,the ,,latter ,,is ,,not ,,allowed ,,by ,,law1 ,,but ,,the ,,former ,,is4 ,that this is a source of cold1 is obvious to reason1 while it is considered that adulterous love is diametrically opposite to conjugial love2 wherefore when it is believed that conjugial love is the same as adulterous1 they both become alike in idea2 and in such case a wife is regarded as a harlot1 and marriage as uncleanness2 the man himself also is an adulterer1 if not in body1 still in spirit4 ,that hence ensue contempt1 disdain1 and aversion1 between the man and his woman1 and thereby intense cold1 is an unavoidable consequence2 for nothing stores up in itself conjugial cold more than adulterous love2 and as adulterous love also passes into such cold1 it may not undeservedly be called essential conjugial cold4 #bdh4 ,,xii4 ,,of ,,external ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,third ,,is1 ,a ,,striving ,,for ,,pre-,,eminence ,,between ,,married ,,partners4 ,this is1 because conjugial love principally respects the union of wills1 and the freedom of decision thence arising2 both which are ejected from the married state by a striving for pre-eminence or superiority2 for this divides and tears wills into pieces1 and changes the freedom of decision into servitude4 ,during the influence of such striving1 the spirit of one of the parties meditates violence against the other2 if in such case their minds were laid open and viewed by spiritual sight1 they would appear like two boxers engaged in combat1 and regarding each other with hatred and favor alternately2 with hatred while in the vehemence of striving1 and with favor while in the hope of dominion1 and while under the influence of lust4 ,after one has obtained the victory over the other1 this contention is withdrawn from the externals1 and betakes itself into the internals of the mind1 and there abides with its restlessness stored up and concealed4 ,hence cold ensues both to the subdued party or servant1 and to the victor or dominant party4 ,the reason why the latter also suffers cold is1 because conjugial love no longer exists with them1 and the privation of this love is cold2 see n4 #bce4 ,in the place of conjugial love succeeds heat derived from pre-eminence2 but this heat is utterly discordant with conjugial heat1 yet it can exteriorly resemble it by means of lust4 ,after a tacit agreement between the parties1 it appears as if conjugial love was made friendship2 but the difference between conjugial and servile friendship in marriages1 is like that between light and shade1 between a living fire and an ignis fatuus1 yea1 like that between a well-conditioned man and one consisting only of bone and skin4 #bdi4 ,,xiii4 ,,of ,,external ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,fourth ,,is1 ,a ,,want ,,of ,,determination ,,to ,,any ,,employment ,,or ,,business1 ,,whence ,,comes ,,wandering ,,passion4 ,man 7homo7 was created for use1 because use is the continent of good and truth1 from the marriage of which proceeds creation1 and also conjugial love1 as was shewn above4 ,by employment and business we mean every application to uses2 while therefore a man is in any employment and business1 or in any use1 in such case his mind is limited and circumscribed as in a circle1 within which it is successively arranged into a form truly human1 from which as from a house he sees various concupiscences out of himself1 and by sound reason within exterminates them2 consequently also he exterminates the wild insanities of adulterous lust2 hence it is that conjugial heat remains better and longer with such than with others4 ,the reverse happens with those who give themselves up to sloth and ease2 in such case the mind is unlimited and undetermined1 and hence the man 7homo7 admits into the whole of it everything vain and ludicrous which flows in from the world and the body1 and leads to the love thereof2 that in this case conjugial love also is driven into banishment1 is evident2 for in consequence of sloth and ease the mind grows stupid and the body torpid1 and the whole man becomes insensible to every vital love1 especially to conjugial love1 from which as from a fountain issue the activities and alacrities of life4 ,conjugial cold with such is different from what it is with others2 it is indeed the privation of conjugial love1 but arising from defect4 #bej4 ,,xiv4 ,,of ,,external ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,fifth ,,is1 ,,inequality ,,of ,,external ,,rank ,,and ,,condition4 ,there are several inequalities of rank and condition1 which while parties are living together put an end to the conjugial love which commenced before marriage2 but they may all be referred to inequalities as to age1 station1 and wealth4 ,that unequal ages induce cold in marriage1 as in the case of a lad with an old woman1 and of a young girl with a decrepit old man1 needs no proof4 ,that inequality of station has a similar effect1 as in the marriage of a prince with a servant maid1 or of an illustrious matron with a servant man1 is also acknowledged without further proof4 ,that the case is the same in regard to wealth1 unless a similitude of minds and manners1 and an application of one party to the inclinations and native desires of the other1 consociate them1 is evident4 ,but in all such cases1 the compliance of one party on account of the pre-eminence of station and condition of the other1 effects only a servile and frigid conjunction2 for the conjugial principle is not of the spirit and heart1 but only nominal and of the countenance2 in consequence of which the inferior party is given to boasting1 and the superior blushes with shame4 ,but in the heavens there is no inequality of age1 station1 or wealth2 in regard to age1 all there are in the flower of their youth1 and continue so into eternity2 in regard to station1 they all respect others according to the uses which they perform4 ,the more eminent in condition respect inferiors as brethren1 neither do they prefer station to the excellence of use1 but the excellence of use to station2 also when maidens are given in marriage1 they do not know from what ancestors they are descended2 for no one in heaven knows his earthly father1 but the ,lord is the ,father of all4 ,the case is the same in regard to wealth1 which in heaven is the faculty of growing wise1 according to which a sufficiency of wealth is given4 ,how marriages are there entered into1 may be seen above1 n4 #bbi4 #bea4 ,,xv4 ,,there ,,are ,,also ,,causes ,,of ,,separation4 ,there are separations from the bed and also from the house4 ,there are several causes of such separations2 but we are here treating of legitimate causes4 ,as the causes of separation coincide with the causes of concubinage1 which are treated of in the latter part of this work in their own chapter1 the reader is referred thereto that he may see the causes in their order4 ,the legitimate causes of separation are the following4 #beb4 ,,xvi4 ,,the ,,first ,,cause ,,of ,,legitimate ,,separation ,,is ,a ,,vitiated ,,state ,,of ,,mind4 ,the reason of this is1 because conjugial love is a conjunction of minds2 if therefore the mind of one of the parties takes a direction different from that of the other1 such conjunction is dissolved1 and with the conjunction the love vanishes4 ,the states of vitiation of the mind which cause separation1 may appear from an enumeration of them2 they are for the most part1 the following3 madness1 frenzy1 furious wildness1 actual foolishness and idiocy1 loss of memory1 violent hysterics1 extreme silliness so as to admit of no perception of good and truth1 excessive stubbornness in refusing to obey what is just and equitable2 excessive pleasure in talkativeness and conversing only on insignificant and trifling subjects2 an unbridled desire to publish family secrets1 also to quarrel1 to strike1 to take revenge1 to do evil1 to steal1 to tell lies1 to deceive1 to blaspheme2 carelessness about the children1 intemperance1 luxury1 excessive prodigality1 drunkenness1 uncleanness1 immodesty1 application to magic and witchcraft1 impiety1 with several other causes4 ,by legitimate causes we do not here mean judicial causes1 but such as are legitimate in regard to the other married partner2 separation from the house also is seldom ordained in a court of justice4 #bec4 ,,xvii4 ,,the ,,second ,,cause ,,of ,,legitimate ,,separation ,,is ,a ,,vitiated ,,state ,,of ,,body4 ,by vitiated states of body we do not mean accidental diseases1 which happen to either of the married partners during their marriage1 and from which they recover2 but we mean inherent diseases1 which are permanent4 ,the science of pathology teaches what these are4 ,they are manifold1 such as diseases whereby the whole body is so far infected that the contagion may prove fatal2 of this nature are malignant and pestilential fevers1 leprosies1 the venereal disease1 gangrenes1 cancers1 and the like2 also diseases whereby the whole body is so far weighed down1 as to admit of no consociability1 and from which exhale dangerous effluvia and noxious vapors1 whether from the surface of the body1 or from its inward parts1 in particular from the stomach and lungs2 from the surface of the body proceed malignant pocks1 warts1 pustules1 scorbutic phthisic1 virulent scab1 especially if the face be defiled thereby3 from the stomach proceed foul1 stinking1 rank and crude eructations3 from the lungs1 filthy and putrid exhalations1 arising from imposthumes1 ulcers1 abcesses1 or from vitiated blood or lymph therein4 ,besides these there are also various other diseases1 as lipothamia1 which is a total faintness of body and defect of strength2 paralysis1 which is a loosing and relaxation of the membranes and ligaments which serve for motion2 certain chronic diseases1 arising from a loss of the sensibility and elasticity of the nerves1 or from too great a thickness2 tenacity1 and acrimony of the humors2 epilepsy2 fixed weakness arising from apoplexy2 certain phthisical complaints1 whereby the body is wasted2 the cholic1 cliac affection1 rupture1 and other like diseases4 #bed4 ,,xviii4 ,,the ,,third ,,cause ,,of ,,legitimate ,,separation ,,is ,,impotence ,,before ,,marriage4 ,the reason why this is a cause of separation is1 because the end of marriage is the procreation of children1 which cannot take place where this cause of separation operates2 and as this is foreknown by the parties1 they are deliberately deprived of the hope of it1 which hope nevertheless nourishes and strengthens their conjugial love4 #bee4 ,,xix4 ,,adultery ,,is ,,the ,,cause ,,of ,,divorce4 ,there are several reasons for this1 which are discernible in rational light1 and yet at this day they are concealed4 ,from rational light it may be seen that marriages are holy and adulteries profane2 and thus that marriages and adulteries are diametrically opposite to each other2 and that when opposites act upon each other1 one destroys the other even to the last spark of its life4 ,this is the case with conjugial love1 when a married person commits adultery from a confirmed principle1 and thus from a deliberate purpose4 ,with those who know anything of heaven and hell1 these things are more clearly discernible by the light of reason3 for they know that marriages are in and from heaven1 and that adulteries are in and from hell1 and that these two cannot be conjoined1 as heaven cannot be conjoined with hell1 and that instantly1 if they are conjoined with man 7homo71 heaven recedes1 and hell enters4 ,hence then it is1 that adultery is the cause of divorce2 wherefore the ,lord saith1 that whosoever shall put away his wife1 except for whoredom1 and shall marry another1 committeth adultery1 ,matt4 xix4 #i4 ,he saith1 if1 except for whoredom1 he shall put away his wife1 and marry another1 he committeth adultery2 because putting away for this cause is a plenary separation of minds1 which is called divorce2 whereas other kinds of putting away1 grounded in their particular causes are separations1 of which we have just treated2 after these1 if another wife is married1 adultery is committed2 but not so after a divorce4 #bef4 ,,xx4 ,,there ,,are ,,also ,,several ,,accidental ,,causes ,,of ,,cold2 ,,the ,,first ,,of ,,which ,,is1 ,,that ,,enjoyment ,,is ,,common 7,,or ,,cheap71 ,,because ,,continually ,,allowed4 ,the reason why this consideration is an accidental cause of cold is1 because it exists with those who think lasciviously respecting marriage and a wife1 but not with those who think holily respecting marriage1 and securely respecting a wife4 ,that from being common 7or cheap7 in consequence of being continually allowed1 even joys become indifferent1 and also tiresome1 is evident from the case of pastimes and public shows1 musical entertainments1 dancing1 feasting1 and the like1 which in themselves are agreeable1 because vivifying4 ,the case is the same with the intimacy and connection between married partners1 especially between those who have not removed the unchaste love of the sex from the love which they bear to each other2 and when they think of enjoyment's being common 7or cheap7 in consequence of being continually allowed1 they think vainly in the absence of the faculty of enjoyment4 ,that this consideration is to such persons a cause of cold is self-evident4 ,it is called accidental1 because it joins inward cold as a cause1 and ranks on its side as a reason4 ,to remove the cold arising from this circumstance1 it is usual with wives1 from the prudence implanted in them1 to offer resistance to what is allowable4 ,but the case is altogether otherwise with those who think chastely respecting wives2 wherefore with the angels the consideration of enjoyment's being common in consequence of being continually allowed1 is the very delight of their souls1 and contains their conjugial love2 for they are continually in the delight of that love1 and in its ultimates according to the presence of their minds uninterrupted by cares1 thus from the decisions of the judgement of the husbands4 #beg4 ,,xxi4 ,,of ,,accidental ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,second ,,is1 ,,that ,,living ,,with ,a ,,married ,,partner1 ,,from ,a ,,covenant ,,and ,,contract1 ,,seems ,,forced ,,and ,,not ,,free4 ,this cause operates only with those with whom conjugial love in the inmost principles is cold2 and since it unites with internal cold1 it becomes an additional or accidental cause4 ,with such persons1 extra-conjugial love1 arising from consent and the favor thereof1 is interiorly in heat2 for the cold of the one is the heat of the other2 which1 if it is not sensibly felt1 is still within1 yea1 in the midst of cold2 and unless it was thus also within1 there would be no reparation4 ,this heat is what constitutes the force or compulsion1 which is increased in proportion as1 by one of the parties1 the covenant grounded in agreement and the contract grounded in what is just1 are regarded as bonds not to be violated2 it is otherwise if those bonds are loosed by each of the parties4 ,the case is reversed with those who have rejected extra-conjugial love as detestable1 and think of conjugial love as of what is heavenly and heaven2 and the more so if they perceive it to be so3 with such that covenant with its articles of agreement1 and that contract with its sanctions1 are inscribed on their hearts1 and are continually being inscribed thereon more and more4 ,in this case the bond of that love is neither secured by a covenant agreed upon1 nor by a law enacted2 but both covenant and law are from creation implanted in the love itself1 which influences the parties2 from the latter 7namely1 the covenant and the law implanted from creation in the love itself7 are derived the former 7namely1 the covenant and law7 in the world1 but not vice versa4 ,hence1 whatever relates to that love is felt as free2 neither is there any freedom but what is of love3 and ,i have heard from the angels1 that love truly conjugial is most free1 because it is the love of loves4 #beh4 ,,xxii4 ,,of ,,accidental ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,third ,,is1 ,,affirmation ,,on ,,the ,,part ,,of ,,the ,,wife1 ,,and ,,her ,,talking ,,incessantly ,,about ,,love4 ,with the angels in heaven there is no refusal and repugnance on the part of the wives1 as there is with some wives on earth3 with the angels in heaven also the wives converse about love1 and are not silent as some wives on earth2 but the causes of these differences ,i am not allowed to declare1 because it would be unbecoming2 nevertheless they are declared in four ,,memorable ,,relations at the close of the chapters1 by the angels' wives1 who freely speak of them to their husbands1 by the three in the hall over which there was a golden shower1 and by the seven who were sitting in a rosary4 ,these memorable relations are adduced1 to the end that every thing may be explained that relates to conjugial love1 which is the subject here treated of both in general and in particular4 #bei4 ,,xxiii4 ,,of ,,accidental ,,causes ,,of ,,cold ,,the ,,fourth ,,is1 ,,the ,,man',s ,,continually ,,thinking ,,that ,,his ,,wife ,,is ,,willing2 ,,and ,,on ,,the ,,other ,,hand ,,the ,,wife',s ,,thinking ,,that ,,the ,,man ,,is ,,not ,,willing4 ,that the latter circumstance is a cause of love's ceasing with wives1 and the former a cause of cold with men1 is too obvious to need any comment4 ,for that the man who thinks that his wife1 when in his sight by day1 and when lying at his side by night1 is desirous or willing1 should grow cold to the extremities1 and on the other hand that the wife1 who thinks that the man is able and not willing1 should lose her love1 are circumstances among many others well known to husbands who have considered the arcana relating to conjugial love4 ,these circumstances are adduced also1 to the end that this work may be perfected1 and ,,the ,,conjugial ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,chaste ,,delights may be completed4 #bfj4 ,,xxiv4 ,,as ,,cold ,,is ,,in ,,the ,,mind ,,it ,,is ,,also ,,in ,,the ,,body2 ,,and ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,increase ,,of ,,that ,,cold1 ,,the ,,externals ,,also ,,of ,,the ,,body ,,are ,,closed4 ,it is believed at the present day that the mind of man 7homo7 is in the head1 and nothing of it in the body1 when yet the soul and the mind are both in the head and in the body2 for the soul and the mind are the man 7homo71 since both constitute the spirit which lives after death2 and that this spirit is in a perfect human form1 has been fully shewn in the treatises we have published4 ,hence1 as soon as a man thinks anything1 he can in an instant utter it by means of his bodily mouth1 and at the same time represent it by gesture2 and as soon as he wills anything1 he can in an instant bring it into act and effect by his bodily members3 which could not be the case unless the soul and the mind were together in the body1 and constituted his spiritual man4 ,from these considerations it may be seen1 that while conjugial love is in the mind1 it is similar to itself in the body2 and since love is heat1 that it opens the externals of the body from the interiors2 but on the other hand1 that the privation thereof1 which is cold1 closes the externals of the body from the interiors3 hence it is manifest what is the cause of the faculty 7of conjugial love7 with the angels enduring for ever1 and what is the cause of its failing with men who are cold4 99 99 99 99 99 #bfa4 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,three ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,in the superior northern quarter near the east in the spiritual world1 there are places of instruction for boys1 for youths1 for men1 and also for old men3 into these places all who die infants are sent and are educated in heaven2 so also all who arrive fresh from the world1 and desire information about heaven and hell1 are sent to the same places4 ,this tract is near the east1 that all may be instructed by influx from the ,lord2 for the ,lord is the east1 because he is in the sun there1 which from him is pure love2 hence the heat from that sun in its essence is love1 and the light from it in its essence is wisdom4 ,these are inspired into them from the ,lord out of that sun2 and they are inspired according to reception1 and reception is according to the love of growing wise4 ,after periods of instruction1 those who are made intelligent are sent forth thence1 and are called disciples of the ,lord4 ,they are sent forth first into the west1 and those who do not remain there1 into the south1 and some through the south into the east1 and are introduced into the societies where they are to reside4 ,on a time1 while ,i was meditating respecting heaven and hell1 ,i began to desire a universal knowledge of the state of each1 being aware1 that whoever knows universals1 may afterwards comprehend particulars1 because the latter are contained in the former1 as parts in a whole4 ,in this desire ,i looked to the above tract in the northern quarter near the east1 where were the places of instruction1 and went there by a way then open to me4 ,i entered one of the colleges1 where there were some young men1 and addressed the chief teachers there who gave instruction1 and asked them whether they were acquainted with the universals respecting heaven and hell4 ,they replied1 that they knew some little2 but if we look1 said they1 towards the east to the ,lord1 we shall receive illustration and knowledge4 ,they did so1 and said1 ,there are three universals of hell1 which are diametrically opposite to the universals of heaven4 ,the universals of hell are these three loves2 the love of dominion grounded in self-love1 the love of possessing the goods of others grounded in the love of the world1 and adulterous love4 ,the universals of heaven opposite to these are the three following loves2 the love of dominion grounded in the love of use1 the love of possessing worldly goods grounded in the love of performing uses therewith1 and love truly conjugial4 ,hereupon1 after expressing my good wishes towards them1 ,i took my leave1 and returned home4 ,when ,i was come home1 it was said to me from heaven1 ,examine those three universals above and beneath1 and afterwards we shall see them in your hand4 ,it was said in the hand1 because whatever a man examines intellectually1 appears to the angels as if inscribed on his hands4 #bfb4 ,after this ,i examined the first universal love of hell1 which is the love of dominion grounded in self-love1 and afterwards the universal love of heaven corresponding to it1 which is the love of dominion grounded in the love of uses2 for ,i was not allowed to examine one love without the other1 because1 being opposites1 the understanding does not perceive the one without the other2 wherefore that each may be perceived1 they must be set in opposition to each other2 for a beautiful and handsome face is rendered conspicuous by contrasting it with an ugly and deformed one4 ,while ,i was considering the love of dominion grounded in self-love1 ,i perceived that this love was in the highest degree infernal1 and consequently prevailed with those who are in the deepest hell2 and that the love of dominion grounded in the love of uses was in the highest degree heavenly1 and consequently prevailed with those who are in the highest heaven4 ,the love of dominion grounded in self-love is in the highest degree infernal1 because to exercise dominion from self-love1 is to exercise it from proprium1 and a man's proprium from his birth is essential evil1 which is diametrically opposite to the ,lord2 wherefore the more persons who are under the influence of such evil1 advance therein1 the more they deny ,god and the holy things of the church1 and worship themselves and nature4 ,let such persons1 ,i entreat them1 examine that evil in themselves1 and they will see this to be the case4 ,this love also is of such a nature1 that in proportion as it is left unrestrained1 which is the case so long as it is not checked by impossibilities1 in the same proportion it rushes impetuously from step to step1 even to the highest1 and there also finds no bounds1 but is sad and sorrowful because there is no higher step for it to ascend4 ,this love with statesmen is so intense that they wish to be kings and emperors1 and if it were possible1 to have dominion over all things of the world1 and to be called kings of kings and emperors of emperors2 while the same love with the clergy is so intense that they wish to be gods and1 as far as is possible1 to have dominion over all things of heaven1 and to be called gods of gods4 ,that neither of these acknowledge any ,god1 will be seen in what follows4 ,on the other hand1 those who desire to exercise dominion from the love of uses1 do not desire it from themselves1 but from the ,lord2 since the love of uses is from the ,lord1 and is the ,lord himself3 these regard dignities only as means to the performance of uses1 setting uses far above dignities2 whereas the former set dignities far above uses4 #bfc4 ,while ,i was meditating on these things1 an angel from the ,lord said to me1 ,you shall presently see1 and be convinced by ocular demonstration1 what is the nature and quality of that infernal love4 ,then suddenly the earth opened on the left1 and ,i saw a devil ascending from hell1 with a square cap on his head let down over his forehead even to his eyes3 his face was full of pimples as of a burning fever1 his eyes fierce and firy1 his breast swelling immensely2 from his mouth he belched smoke like a furnace1 his loins seemed all in a blaze1 instead of feet he had bony ankles without flesh1 and from his body exhaled a stinking and filthy heat4 ,on seeing him ,i was alarmed1 and cried out1 ,approach no nearer2 tell me1 whence are you8 ,he replied in a hoarse tone of voice1 ,i am from below1 where ,i am with two hundred in the most supereminent of all societies4 ,we are all emperors of emperors1 king of kings1 dukes of dukes1 and princes of princes2 no one in our society is barely an emperor1 a king1 a duke1 or a prince4 ,we sit there on thrones of thrones1 and despatch thence mandates through the whole world and beyond it4 ,i then said to him1 ,do you not see that you are insane from the phantasy of super-eminence8 and he replied1 ,how can you say so1 when we absolutely seem to ourselves1 and are also acknowledged by each other1 to have such distinction8 ,on hearing this1 ,i was unwilling to repeat my charge of insanity1 as he was insane from phantasy2 and ,i was informed that this devil1 during his abode in the world1 had been only a house-steward1 and at that time he was so lifted up in spirit1 that he despised all mankind in comparison with himself1 and indulged in the phantasy that he was more worthy than a king1 and even than an emperor2 in consequence of which proud conceit1 he had denied ,god1 and had regarded all the holy things of the church as of no concern to himself1 but of some to the stupid multitude4 ,at length ,i asked him1 ,how long do you two hundred thus glory among yourselves8 ,he replied to eternity2 but such of us as torture others for denying our super-eminence1 sink under ground2 for we are allowed to glory1 but not to do mischief to any one4 ,i asked him again1 ,do you know what befalls those who sink under ground8 ,he said1 ,they sink down into a certain prison1 where they are called viler than the vile1 or the vilest1 and are set to work4 ,i then said to him4 ,take heed therefore1 lest you also should sink down4 #bfd4 ,after this the earth again opened1 but now on the right2 and ,i saw another devil rising thence1 who had on his head a kind of turban1 wrapped about with spires as of a snake1 the head of which stood out from the crown2 his face was leprous from the forehead to the chin1 and so were his hands2 his loins were naked and as black as soot1 through which was discernible in dusky transparence the fire as of a furnace2 and the ankles of his feet were like two vipers4 ,the former devil1 on seeing him1 fell on his knees1 and adored him4 ,on my asking why he did so1 he said1 ,he is the ,god of heaven and earth1 and is omnipotent4 ,i then asked the other1 ,what do you say to this8 he replied1 ,what shall ,i say8 ,i have all power over heaven and hell2 the lot of all souls is in my hand4 ,again ,i enquired1 ,how can he1 who is emperor of emperors1 so submit himself1 and how can you receive adoration8 he answered1 ,he is still my servant2 what is an emperor before ,god8 the thunder of excommunication is in my right hand4 ,i then said to him1 ,how can you be so insane8 ,in the world you were only a canon2 and because you were infected with the phantasy that you also had the keys of heaven1 and thence the power of binding and loosing1 you have inflamed your spirit to such a degree of madness1 that you now believe yourself to be very ,god4 ,upon this he swore with indignation that it was so1 and said1 ,the ,lord has not any power in heaven1 because he has transferred it all to us4 ,we have only to give the word of command1 and heaven and hell reverently obey us4 ,if we send any one to hell1 the devils immediately receive him2 and so do the angels receive those whom we send to heaven4 ,i asked further1 ,how many are there in your society8 he said1 ,three hundred2 and we are all gods there2 but ,i am god of gods4 ,after this the earth opened beneath the feet of each1 and they sank down into their respective hells2 and ,i saw that beneath their hells were workhouses1 into which those who injure others would fall2 for every one in hell is left to his phantasy1 and is also permitted to glory in it2 but he is not allowed to injure another4 ,the reason why such are there1 is1 because a man is then in his spirit2 and the spirit1 after it is separated from the body1 comes into the full liberty of acting according to its affections and consequent thoughts4 ,i was afterwards permitted to look into their hells3 that which contained the emperors of emperors and kings of kings1 was full of all uncleanness2 and the inhabitants appeared like various kinds of wild beasts1 with fierce eyes2 and so it was in the other1 which contained the gods and the god of gods3 in it there appeared the direful birds of night1 which are called ochim and ijim1 flying about them4 ,the images of their phantasies were presented to me under this appearance4 ,from these circumstances it was manifest1 what is the nature and quality of political and ecclesiastical self-love2 that the latter would make its votaries desirous of being gods1 while the former would make them desirous of being emperors2 and that under the influence of such loves men wish and strive to attain the objects of their desires1 so far as they are left without restraint4 #bfe4 ,afterwards a hell was opened1 where ,i saw two men1 one sitting on a bench1 holding his feet in a basket full of serpents which seemed to be creeping upwards by his breast even to his neck2 and the other sitting on a blazing ass1 at whose sides red serpents were creeping1 raising their heads and necks1 and pursuing the rider4 ,i was told that they had been popes who had compelled emperors to resign their dominions1 and had ill-treated them both in word and deed at ,rome1 whither they went to supplicate and adore them2 and that the basket in which were the serpents1 and the blazing ass with snakes at his sides1 were representations of their love of dominion grounded on self-love1 and that such appearances are seen only by those who look at them from a distance4 ,there were some canons present1 whom ,i asked whether those had really been popes8 ,they said1 that they were acquainted with them1 and knew that they had been such4 #bff4 ,after beholding these sad and hideous spectacles1 ,i looked around1 and saw two angels in conversation standing near me4 ,one wore a woollen robe that shone bright with flaming purple1 and under it a vest of fine bright linen2 the other had on similar garments of scarlet1 together with a turban studded on the right side with carbuncles4 ,i approached them1 and1 greeting them with a salutation of peace1 respectfully asked them1 ,for what purpose are you here below8 ,they replied1 ,we have let ourselves down from heaven by the ,lord's command1 to speak with you respecting the blessed lot of those who are desirous to have dominion from the love of uses4 ,we are worshipers of the ,lord4 ,i am prince of a society2 my companion is chief priest of the same4 ,the prince moreover said1 ,i am the servant of my society1 because ,i serve it by doing uses3 the other said1 ,i am minister of the church there1 because in serving them ,i minister holy things to the uses of their souls4 ,we both are in perpetual joys grounded in the eternal happiness which is in them from the ,lord4 ,all things in our society are splendid and magnificent2 they are splendid from gold and precious stones1 and magnificent from palaces and paradises4 ,the reason of this is1 because our love of dominion is not grounded in self-love1 but in the love of uses3 and as the love of uses is from the ,lord1 therefore all good uses in the heavens are splendid and refulgent2 and as all in our society are in this love1 therefore the atmosphere appears golden from the light which partakes of the sun's flame-principle1 and the sun's flame-principle corresponds to that love4 ,as they said this1 they appeared to me to be encompassed with such a sphere1 from which an aromatic odor issued that was perceivable by the senses4 ,i mentioned this circumstance to them1 and intreated them to continue their discourse respecting the love of uses2 and they proceeded thus3 ,the dignities which we enjoy1 we indeed sought after and solicited for no other end than that we might be enabled more fully to perform uses1 and to extend them more widely4 ,we are also encompassed with honor1 and we accept it1 not for ourselves1 but for the good of the society2 for the brethren and consociates1 who form the commonalty of the society1 scarcely know but that the honors of our dignities are in ourselves1 and consequently that the uses which we perform are from ourselves2 but we feel otherwise1 being sensible that the honors of the dignities are out of ourselves1 and that they are as the garments with which we are clothed2 but that the uses which we perform1 from the love of them1 are within us from the ,lord3 and this love receives its blessedness from communication by uses with others2 and we know from experience1 that so far as we do uses from the love thereof1 so far that love increases1 and with it wisdom1 whereby communication is effected2 but so far as we retain uses in ourselves1 and do not communicate them1 so far blessedness perishes3 and in such case use becomes like food stored up in the stomach1 which1 not being dispersed1 affords no nourishment to the body and its parts1 but remains undigested1 and thereby causes loathing3 in a word1 the whole heaven is nothing but a continent of use1 from first principles to last4 ,what is use but the actual love of our neighbor8 and what holds the heavens together with this love8 ,on hearing this ,i asked1 ,how can any one know whether he performs uses from self-love1 or from the love of uses8 every man1 both good and bad1 performs uses1 and that from some love4 ,suppose that in the world there be a society composed of mere devils1 and another composed of mere angels2 ,i am of opinion that the devils in their society1 from the fire of self-love1 and the splendor of their own glory1 would do as many uses as the angels in their society2 who then can know from what love1 and from what origin uses flow8 ,to this the two angels replied1 ,devils do uses for the sake of themselves and of reputation1 that they may be raised to honors or may gain wealth2 but angels do not do uses from such motives1 but for the sake of uses from the love thereof4 ,a man cannot discern the true quality of those uses2 but the ,lord discerns it4 ,every one who believes in the ,lord1 and shuns evils as sins1 performs uses from the ,lord2 but every one who neither believes in the ,lord1 nor shuns evils as sins1 does uses from self and for the sake of self4 ,this is the difference between the uses done by devils and those done by angels4 ,having said this1 the two angels departed2 and ,i saw them from afar carried in a firy chariot like ,elias1 and conveyed into their respective heavens4 #bfg4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,not long after this interview with the angels1 ,i entered a certain grove1 and while ,i was walking there1 ,i meditated on those who are in the concupiscence and consequent phantasy of possessing the things of the world2 and then at some distance from me ,i saw two angels in conversation1 and by turns looking at me2 ,i therefore went nearer to them1 and as ,i approached they thus accosted me3 ,we have perceived in ourselves that you are meditating on what we are conversing about1 or that we are conversing on what you are meditating about1 which is a consequence of the reciprocal communication of affections4 ,i asked therefore what they were conversing about8 they replied1 ,about phantasy1 concupiscence1 and intelligence2 and just now about those who delight themselves in the vision and imagination of possessing whatever the world contains4 ,i then entreated them to favor me with their sentiments on those three subjects1--concupiscence1 phantasy1 and intelligence4 ,they began by saying1 ,every one is by birth interiorly in concupiscence1 but by education exteriorly in intelligence2 and no one is in intelligence1 still less in wisdom1 interiorly1 thus as to his spirit1 but from the ,lord3 for every one is withheld from the concupiscence of evil1 and held in intelligence1 according as he looks to the ,lord1 and is at the same time in conjunction with him2 without this1 a man is mere concupiscence2 yet still in externals1 or as to the body1 he is in intelligence arising from education2 for a man lusts after honors and wealth1 or eminence and opulence1 and in order to attain them1 it is necessary that he appear moral and spiritual1 thus intelligent and wise2 and he learns so to appear from infancy4 ,this the reason why1 as soon as he comes among men1 or into company1 he inverts his spirit1 and removes it from concupiscence1 and speaks and acts from the fair and honorable maxims which he has learnt from infancy1 and retains in the bodily memory3 and he is particularly cautious1 lest anything of the wild concupiscence prevalent in his spirit should discover itself4 ,hence every man who is not interiorly led by the ,lord1 is a pretender1 a sycophant1 a hypocrite1 and thereby an apparent man1 and yet not a man2 of whom it may be said1 that his shell or body is wise1 and his kernel or spirit insane2 also that his external is human1 and his internal bestial4 ,such persons1 with the hinder part of the head look upwards1 and with the fore part downwards2 thus they walk as if oppressed with heaviness1 with the head hanging down and the countenance prone to the earth2 and when they put off the body1 and become spirits1 and are thereby set at liberty from external restraints1 they become the madnesses of their respective concupiscences4 ,those who are in self-love desire to domineer over the universe1 yea1 to extend its limits in order to enlarge their dominion1 of which they see no end3 those who are in the love of the world desire to possess whatever the world contains1 and are full of grief and envy in case any of its treasures are hid and concealed from them by others3 therefore to prevent such persons from becoming mere concupiscences1 and thereby no longer men1 they are permitted in the spiritual world to think from a fear of the loss of reputation1 and thereby of honor and gain1 and also from a fear of the law and its penalties1 and also to give their mind to some study or work whereby they are kept in externals and thus in a state of intelligence1 however wild and insane they may be interiorly4 ,after this ,i asked them1 whether all who are in any concupiscence1 are also in the phantasy thereof2 they replied1 that those are in the phantasy of their respective concupiscences1 who think interiorly in themselves1 and too much indulge their imagination by talking with themselves2 for these almost separate their spirit from connection with the body1 and by vision overflow the understanding1 and take a foolish delight as if they were possessed of the universe and all that it contains3 into this delirium every man comes after death1 who has abstracted his spirit from the body1 and has not wished to recede from the delight of the delirium by thinking at all religiously respecting evils and falses1 and least of all respecting the inordinate love of self as being destructive of love to the ,lord1 and respecting the inordinate love of the world1 as being destructive of neighborly love4 #bfh4 ,after this the two angels and also myself were seized with a desire of seeing those who from worldly love are in the visionary concupiscence or phantasy of possessing all wealth2 and we perceived that we were inspired with this desire to the end that such visionaries might be known4 ,their dwellings were under the earth of our feet1 but above hell3 we therefore looked at each other and said1 ,let us go4 ,there was an opening1 and in it a ladder by which we descended2 and we were told that we must approach them from the east1 lest we should enter into the mist of their phantasy1 whereby our understanding and at the same time our sight would be obscured2 and lo6 there appeared a house built of reeds1 and consequently full of chinks1 standing in a mist1 which continually issued like smoke through the chinks of three of the walls4 ,we entered1 and saw perhaps fifty here and fifty there sitting on benches1 with their faces turned from the east and south1 and looking towards the west and north4 ,before each person there was a table1 on which were large purses1 and by the purses a great quantity of gold coin3 so we asked them1 ,is that the wealth of all the persons in the world8 they replied1 ,not of all in the world1 but of all in the kingdom4 ,the sound of their voice was hissing2 and they had round faces1 which glistened like the shell of a snail1 and the pupils of their eyes in a green plane as it were shot forth lightning1 which was an effect of the light of phantasy4 ,we stood in the midst of them1 and said1 ,you believe that you possess all the wealth of the kingdom2 they replied1 ,we do possess it4 ,we then asked1 ,which of you8 they said1 ,every one2 and we asked1 ,how every one8 there are many of you3 they said1 ,every one of us knows that all which another has is his own4 ,no one is allowed to think1 and still less to say1 ',mine are not thine2' but every one may think and say1 ',thine are mine4' ,the coin on the tables appeared1 even to us1 to be pure gold2 but when we let in light from the east1 we saw that they were little grains of gold1 which they had magnified to such a degree by a union of their common phantasy4 ,they said1 that every one that enters ought to bring with him some gold1 which they cut into small pieces1 and these again into little grains1 and by the unanimous force of their phantasy they increase them into larger coin4 ,we then said1 ,were you not born men of reason2 whence then have you this visionary infatuation8 they said1 ,we know that it is an imaginary vanity2 but as it delights the interiors of our minds1 we enter here and are delighted as with the possession of all things3 we continue in this place1 however1 only a few hours1 at the end of which we depart2 and as often as we do so we again become of sound mind2 yet still our visionary delight alternately succeeds and occasions our alternate entrance into and departure from these habitations3 thus we are alternately wise and foolish2 we also know that a hard lot awaits those who by cunning rob others of their goods4 ,we inquired1 ,what lot8 they said1 ,they are swallowed up and are thrust naked into some infernal prison1 where they are kept to hard labor for clothes and food1 and afterwards for some pieces of coin of trifling value1 which they collect1 and in which they place the joy of their hearts2 but if they do any harm to their companions1 they are fined a part of their coin4 #bfi4 ,afterwards we ascended from these hells to the south1 where we had been before1 and the angels related there several interesting particulars respecting concupiscence not visionary or phantastic1 in which all men are born2 namely1 that while they are in it1 they are like persons infatuated1 and yet seem to themselves to be most eminently wise2 and that from this infatuation they are alternately let into the rational principle which is in their externals2 in which state they see1 acknowledge1 and confess their insanity2 but still they are very desirous to quit their rational and enter their insane state2 and also do let themselves into it1 as into a free and delightful state succeeding a forced and undelightful one2 thus it is concupiscence and not intelligence that interiorly pleases them4 ,there are three universal loves which form the constituent principles of every man by creation3 neighbourly love1 which also is the love of doing uses2 the love of the world1 which also is the love of possessing wealth2 and the love of self1 which also is the love of bearing rule over others4 ,neighbourly love1 or the love of doing uses1 is a spiritual love2 but the love of the world1 or the love of possessing wealth1 is a material love2 whereas the love of self1 or the love of bearing rule over others1 is a corporeal love4 ,a man is a man while neighbourly love1 or the love of doing uses1 constitutes the head1 the love of the world the body1 and the love of self the feet2 whereas if the love of the world constitutes the head1 the man is as it were hunched-backed2 but when the love of self constitutes the head1 he is like a man standing not on his feet1 but on the palms of his hands with his head downwards and his haunches upwards4 ,when neighbourly love constitutes the head1 and the two other loves in order constitute the body and feet1 the man appears from heaven of an angelic countenance1 with a beautiful rainbow about his head2 whereas if the love of the world constitutes the head1 he appears from heaven of a pale countenance like a corpse1 with a yellow circle about his head2 but if the love of self constitutes the head1 he appears from heaven of a dusky countenance1 with a white circle about his head4 ,hereupon ,i asked1 ,what do the circles about the head represent8 they replied1 ,they represent intelligence2 the white circle about the head of the dusky countenance represents1 that his intelligence is in externals1 or about him1 but insanity is in his internals1 or in him4 ,a man also who is of such a quality and character1 is wise while in the body1 but insane while in the spirit2 and no man is wise in spirit but from the ,lord1 as is the case when he is regenerated and created again or anew by him4 ,as they said this1 the earth opened to the left1 and through the opening ,i saw a devil rising with a white lucid circle around his head1 and ,i asked him1 ,who he was8 ,he said1 ,i am ,lucifer1 the son of the morning3 and because ,i made myself like the ,most ,high1 ,i was cast down4 ,nevertheless he was not ,lucifer1 but believed himself to be so4 ,i then said1 ,since you were cast down1 how can you rise again out of hell8 he replied1 ,there ,i am a devil1 but here ,i am an angel of light3 do you not see that my head is surrounded by a lucid sphere8 you shall also see1 if you wish1 that ,i am super-moral among the moral1 super-rational among the rational1 yea1 super-spiritual among the spiritual3 ,i can also preach2 yea1 ,i have preached4 ,i asked him1 ,what have you preached8 he said1 ,against fraudulent dealers and adulterers1 and against all infernal loves2 on this occasion too ,i1 ,lucifer1 called myself a devil1 and denounced vengeance against myself as a devil2 and therefore ,i was extolled to the skies with praises4 ,hence it is that ,i am called the son of the morning2 and1 what ,i myself was surprised at1 while ,i was in the pulpit1 ,i thought no other than that ,i was speaking rightly and properly2 but ,i discovered that this arose from my being in externals1 which at that time were separated from my internals3 but although ,i discovered this1 still ,i could not change myself1 because through my haughtiness ,i did not look to ,god4 ,i next asked him1 ,how could you so speak1 when you are yourself a fraudulent dealer1 an adulterer1 and a devil8 ,he answered1 ,i am one character when ,i am in externals or in the body1 and another when in internals or in the spirit2 in the body ,i am an angel1 but in the spirit a devil2 for in the body ,i am in the understanding1 but in the spirit ,i am in the will2 and the understanding carries me upwards1 whereas the will carries me downwards4 ,when ,i am in the understanding my head is surrounded by a white belt1 but when the understanding submits itself entirely to the will1 and becomes subservient to it1 which is our last lot1 the belt grows black and disappears2 and when this is the case1 we cannot again ascend into this light4 ,afterwards he spoke of his twofold state1 the external and the internal1 more rationally than any other person2 but on a sudden when he saw the angels attendant on me1 his face and voice were inflamed1 and he became black1 even as to the belt round his head1 and he sunk down into hell through the opening from which he arose4 ,the bystanders1 from what they had seen1 came to this conclusion1 that a man is such as his love1 and not such as his understanding is2 since the love easily draws over the understanding to its side1 and enslaves it4 ,i then asked the angels1 ,whence have devils such rationality8 ,they said1 ,it is from the glory of self-love2 for self-love is surrounded by glory1 and glory elevates the understanding even into the light of heaven2 for with every man the understanding is capable of being elevated according to knowledges1 but the will only by a life according to the truths of the church and of reason3 hence even atheists1 who are in the glory of reputation arising from self-love1 and thence in a high conceit of their own intelligence1 enjoy a more sublime rationality than many others2 this1 however1 is only when they are in the thought of the understanding1 and not when they are in the affection of the will4 ,the affection of the will possesses a man's internal1 whereas the thought of the understanding possesses his external4 ,the angel further declared the reason why every man is constituted of the three loves above mentioned2 namely1 the love of use1 the love of the world1 and the love of self2 which is1 that he may think from ,god1 although as from himself4 ,he also said1 that the supreme principles in a man are turned upwards to ,god1 the middle outwards to the world1 and the lowest downwards to self2 and since the latter are turned downwards1 a man thinks as from himself1 when yet it is from ,god4 #bgj4 ,,the ,,third ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,one morning on awaking from sleep my thoughts were deeply engaged on some arcana of conjugial love1 and at length on this1 ,in what region of the human mind does love truly conjugial reside1 and thence in what region does conjugial cold reside8 ,i knew that there are three regions of the human mind1 one above the other1 and that in the lowest region dwells natural love2 in the superior1 spiritual love2 and in the supreme1 celestial love2 and that in each region there is a marriage of good and truth2 and good is of love1 and truth is of wisdom2 that in each region there is a marriage of love and wisdom2 and that this marriage is the same as the marriage of the will and the understanding1 since the will is the receptacle of love1 and the understanding the receptacle of wisdom4 ,while ,i was thus deeply engaged in thought1 lo6 ,i saw two swans flying towards the north1 and presently two birds of paradise flying towards the south1 and also two turtle doves flying in the east3 as ,i was watching their flight1 ,i saw that the two swans bent their course from the north to the east1 and the two birds of paradise from the south1 also that they united with the two doves in the east1 and flew together to a certain lofty palace there1 about which there were olives1 palms1 and beeches4 ,the palace had three rows of windows1 one above the other2 and while ,i was making my observations1 ,i saw the swans fly into the palace through open windows in the lowest row1 the birds of paradise through others in the middle row1 and the doves through others in the highest4 ,when ,i had observed this1 an angel presented himself1 and said1 ,do you understand what you have seen8 ,i replied1 ,in a small degree4 ,he said1 ,that palace represents the habitations of conjugial love1 such as are in human minds4 ,its highest part1 into which the doves flew1 represents the highest region of the mind1 where conjugial love dwells in the love of good with its wisdom2 the middle part1 into which the birds of paradise flew1 represents the middle region1 where conjugial love dwells in the love of truth with its intelligence3 and the lowest part1 into which the swans flew1 represents the lowest region of the mind1 where conjugial love dwells in the love of what is just and right with its knowledge4 ,the three pairs of birds also signify these things2 the pair of turtle doves signifies conjugial love of the highest region1 the pair of birds of paradise conjugial love of the middle region1 and the pair of swans conjugial love of the lowest region4 ,similar things are signified by the three kinds of trees about the palace1 the olives1 palms1 and beeches4 ,we in heaven call the highest region of the mind celestial1 the middle spiritual1 and the lowest natural2 and we perceive them as stories in a house1 one above another1 and an ascent from one to the other by steps as by stairs2 and in each part as it were two apartments1 one for love1 the other for wisdom1 and in front as it were a chamber1 where love with its wisdom1 or good with its truth1 or1 what is the same1 the will with its understanding1 consociate in bed4 ,in that palace are presented as in an image all the arcana of conjugial love4 ,on hearing this1 being inflamed with a desire of seeing it1 ,i asked whether anyone was permitted to enter and see it1 as it was a representative palace8 ,he replied1 ,none but those who are in the third heaven1 because to them every representative of love and wisdom becomes real3 from them ,i have heard what ,i have related to you1 and also this particular1 that love truly conjugial dwells in the highest region in the midst of mutual love1 in the marriage-chamber or apartment of the will1 and also in the midst of the perceptions of wisdom in the marriage-chamber or apartment of the understanding1 and that they consociate in bed in the chamber which is in front1 in the east4 ,i also asked1 ,why are there two marriage-chambers8 ,he said1 ,the husband is in the marriage-chamber of the understanding1 and the wife in that of the will4 ,i then asked1 ,since conjugial love dwells there1 where then does conjugial cold dwell8 ,he replied1 ,it dwells also in the supreme region1 but only in the marriage-chamber of the understanding1 that of the will being closed there3 for the understanding with its truths1 as often as it pleases1 can ascend by a winding staircase into the highest region into its marriage-chamber2 but if the will with the good of its love does not ascend at the same time into the consociate marriage-chamber1 the latter is closed1 and cold ensues in the other3 this is conjugial cold4 ,the understanding1 while such cold prevails towards the wife1 looks downwards to the lowest region1 and also1 if not prevented by fear1 descends to warm itself there at an illicit fire4 ,having thus spoken1 he was about to recount further particulars respecting conjugial love from its images in that palace2 but he said1 ,enough at this time2 inquire first whether what has been already said is above the level of ordinary understandings2 if it is1 what need of saying more8 but if not1 more will be discovered4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,apparent ,,love1 ,,friendship1 ,,and ,,favor ,,in ,,marriages4 #bga4 ,having treated of the causes of cold and separation1 it follows from order that the causes of apparent love1 friendship1 and favor in marriages1 should also be treated of2 for it is well known1 that although cold separates the minds 7animos7 of married partners at the present day1 still they live together1 and have children2 which would not be the case1 unless there were also apparent loves1 alternately similar to or emulous of the warmth of genuine love4 ,that these appearances are necessary and useful1 and that without them there would be no houses1 and consequently no societies1 will be seen in what follows4 ,moreover1 some conscientious persons may be distressed with the idea1 that the disagreement of mind subsisting between them and their married partners1 and the internal alienation thence arising1 may be their own fault1 and may be imputed to them as such1 and on this account they are grieved at the heart2 but as it is out of their power to prevent internal disagreements1 it is enough for them1 by apparent love and favor1 from conscientious motives to subdue the inconveniences which might arise3 hence also friendship may possibly return1 in which conjugial love lies concealed on the part of such1 although not on the part of the other4 ,but this subject1 like the foregoing1 from the great variety of its matter1 shall be treated of in the following distinct articles3 ,i4 ,in the natural world almost all are capable of being joined together as to external1 but not as to internal affections1 if these disagree and are apparent4 ,,ii4 ,in the spiritual world all are joined together according to internal1 but not according to external affections1 unless these act in unity with the internal4 ,,iii4 ,it is the external affections1 according to which matrimony is generally contracted in the world4 ,,iv4 ,but in case they are not influenced by internal affections1 which conjoin minds1 the bonds of matrimony are loosed in the house4 ,v4 ,nevertheless those bonds must continue in the world till the decease of one of the parties4 ,,vi4 ,in cases of matrimony1 in which the internal affections do not conjoin1 there are external affections1 which assume a semblance of the internal and tend to consociate4 ,,vii4 ,hence come apparent love1 friendship1 and favor between married partners4 ,,viii4 ,these appearances are assumed conjugial semblances1 and they are commendable1 because useful and necessary4 ,,ix4 ,these assumed conjugial semblances1 in the case of a spiritual man 7homo7 conjoined to a natural1 are founded in justice and judgement4 ,x4 ,for various reasons these assumed conjugial semblances with natural men are founded in prudence4 ,,xi4 ,they are for the sake of amendment and accommodation4 ,,xii4 ,they are for the sake of preserving order in domestic affairs1 and for the sake of mutual aid4 ,,xiii4 ,they are for the sake of unanimity in the care of infants and the education of children4 ,,xiv4 ,they are for the sake of peace in the house4 ,,xv4 ,they are for the sake of reputation out of the house4 ,,xvi4 ,they are for the sake of various favors expected from the married partner1 or from his or her relations2 and thus from the fear of losing such favors4 ,,xvii4 ,they are for the sake of having blemishes excused1 and thereby of avoiding disgrace4 ,,xviii4 ,they are for the sake of reconciliation4 ,,xix4 ,in case favor does not cease with the wife1 when faculty ceases with the man1 there may exist a friendship resembling conjugial friendship1 when the parties grow old4 ,,xx4 ,there are various kinds of apparent love and friendship between married partners1 one of whom is brought under the yoke1 and therefore is subject to the other4 ,,xxi4 ,in the world there are infernal marriages between persons who interiorly are the most inveterate enemies1 and exteriorly are as the closest friends4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #bgb4 ,i4 ,,in ,,the ,,natural ,,world ,,almost ,,all ,,are ,,capable ,,of ,,being ,,joined ,,together ,,as ,,to ,,external1 ,,but ,,not ,,as ,,to ,,internal ,,affections1 ,,if ,,these ,,disagree ,,and ,,are ,,apparent4 ,the reason of this is1 because in the world every one is clothed with a material body1 and this is overcharged with lusts1 which are in it as dregs that fall to the bottom1 when the must of the wine is clarified4 ,such are the constituent substances of which the bodies of men in the world are composed4 ,hence it is that the internal affections1 which are of the mind1 do not appear2 and in many cases1 scarce a grain of them transpires2 for the body either absorbs them1 and involves them in its dregs1 or by simulation which has been learned from infancy conceals them deeply from the sight of others2 and by these means the man puts himself into the state of every affection which he observes in another1 and allures his affection to himself1 and thus they unite4 ,the reason why they unite is1 because every affection has its delight1 and delights tie minds together4 ,but it would be otherwise if the internal affections1 like the external1 appeared visibly in the face and gesture1 and were made manifest to the hearing by the tone of the speech2 or if their delights were sensible to the nostrils or smell1 as they are in the spiritual world3 in such case1 if they disagreed so as to be discordant1 they would separate minds from each other1 and according to the perception of antipathy1 the minds would remove to a distance4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that in the natural world almost all are capable of being joined together as to external1 but not as to internal affections1 if these disagree and are apparent4 #bgc4 ,,ii4 ,,in ,,the ,,spiritual ,,world ,,all ,,are ,,conjoined ,,according ,,to ,,internal1 ,,but ,,not ,,according ,,to ,,external ,,affections1 ,,unless ,,these ,,act ,,in ,,unity ,,with ,,the ,,internal4 ,this is1 because in the spiritual world the material body is rejected1 which could receive and bring forth the forms of all affections1 as we have said just above2 and a man 7homo7 when stripped of that body is in his internal affections1 which his body had before concealed3 hence it is1 that in the spiritual world similarities and dissimilarities1 or sympathies and antipathies1 are not only felt1 but also appear in the face1 the speech1 and the gesture2 wherefore in that world similitudes are conjoined1 and dissimilitudes separated4 ,this is the reason why the universal heaven is arranged by the ,lord according to all the varieties of the affections of the love of good and truth1 and1 on the contrary1 hell according to all the varieties of the love of what is evil and false4 ,as angels and spirits1 like men in the world1 have internal and external affections1 and as1 in the spiritual world1 the internal affections cannot be concealed by the external1 they therefore transpire and manifest themselves3 hence with angels and spirits both the internal and external affections are reduced to similitude and correspondence2 after which their internal affections are1 by the external1 imaged in their faces1 and perceived in the tone of their speech2 they also appear in their behaviour and manners4 ,angels and spirits have internal and external affections1 because they have minds and bodies2 and affections with the thoughts thence derived belong to the mind1 and sensations with the pleasures thence derived to the body4 ,it frequently happens in the world of spirits1 that friends meet after death1 and recollect their friendships in the former world1 and on such occasions believe that they shall live on terms of friendship as formerly2 but when their consociation1 which is only of the external affections1 is perceived in heaven1 a separation ensues according to their internal2 and in this case some are removed from the place of their meeting into the north1 some into the west1 and each to such a distance from the other1 that they can no longer see or know each other2 for in the places appointed for them to remain at1 their faces are changed so as to become the image of their internal affections4 ,from these considerations it is manifest1 that in the spiritual world all are conjoined according to internal affections1 and not according to external1 unless these act in unity with the internal4 #bgd4 ,,iii4 ,,it ,,is ,,the ,,external ,,affections ,,according ,,to ,,which ,,matrimony ,,is ,,generally ,,contracted ,,in ,,the ,,world4 ,the reason of this is1 because the internal affections are seldom consulted2 and even if they are1 still their similitude is not seen in the woman2 for she1 by a peculiar property with which she is gifted from her birth1 withdraws the internal affections into the inner recesses of her mind4 ,there are various external affections which induce men to engage in matrimony4 ,the first affection of this age is an increase of property by wealth1 as well with a view to becoming rich as for a plentiful supply of the comforts of life2 the second is a thirst after honors1 with a view either of being held in high estimation or of an increase of fortune3 besides these1 there are various allurements and concupiscences which do not afford an opportunity of ascertaining the agreement of the internal affections4 ,from these few considerations it is manifest1 that matrimony is generally contracted in the world according to external affections4 #bge4 ,,iv4 ,,but ,,in ,,case ,,they ,,are ,,not ,,influenced ,,by ,,internal ,,affections1 ,,which ,,conjoin ,,minds1 ,,the ,,bonds ,,of ,,matrimony ,,are ,,loosed ,,in ,,the ,,house4 ,it is said in the house1 because it is done privately between the parties2 as is the case when the first warmth1 excited during courtship and breaking out into a flame as the nuptials approach1 successively abates from the discordance of the internal affections1 and at length passes off into cold4 ,it is well known that in this case the external affections1 which had induced and allured the parties to matrimony1 disappear1 so that they no longer effect conjunction4 ,that cold arises from various causes1 internal1 external1 and accidental1 all which originate in a dissimilitude of internal inclinations1 was proved in the foregoing chapter4 ,from these considerations the truth of what was asserted is manifest1 that unless the external affections are influenced by internal1 which conjoin minds1 the bonds of matrimony are loosed in the house4 #bgf4 ,v4 ,,nevertheless ,,those ,,bonds ,,must ,,continue ,,in ,,the ,,world ,,till ,,the ,,decease ,,of ,,one ,,of ,,the ,,parties4 ,this proposition is adduced to the intent that to the eye of reason it may more evidently appear how necessary1 useful1 and true it is1 that where there is not genuine conjugial love1 it ought still to be assumed1 that it may appear as if there were4 ,the case would be otherwise if the marriage contract was not to continue to the end of life1 but might be dissolved at pleasure as was the case with the ,israelitish nation1 who claimed to themselves the liberty of putting away their wives for every cause4 ,this is evident from the following passage in ,matthew3 ,the pharisees came1 and said unto ,jesus1 ,is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause8 ,and when ,jesus answered1 that it is not lawful to put away a wife and to marry another1 except on account of whoredom1 they replied that nevertheless ,moses commanded to give a bill of divorce and to put her away2 and the disciples said1 ,if the case of a man with his wife be so it is not expedient to marry1 xix4 #c-aj4 ,since therefore the covenant of marriage is for life1 it follows that the appearances of love and friendship between married partners are necessary4 ,that matrimony1 when contracted1 must continue till the decease of one of the parties1 is grounded in the divine law1 consequently also in rational law1 and thence in civil law3 in the divine law1 because1 as said above1 it is not lawful to put away a wife and marry another1 except for whoredom2 in rational law1 because it is founded upon spiritual1 for divine law and rational are one law2 from both these together1 or by the latter from the former1 it may be abundantly seen what enormities and destructions of societies would result from the dissolving of marriage1 or the putting away of wives1 at the good pleasure of the husbands1 before death4 ,those enormities and destructions of societies may in some measure be seen in the ,,memorable ,,relation respecting the origin of conjugial love1 discussed by the spirits assembled from the nine kingdoms1 n4 #ajc-aae2 to which there is no need of adding further reasons4 ,but these causes do not operate to prevent the permission of separations grounded in their proper causes1 respecting which see above1 n4 #beb-bed2 and also of concubinage1 respecting which see the second part of this work4 #bgg4 ,,vi4 ,,in ,,case ,,of ,,matrimony ,,in ,,which ,,the ,,internal ,,affections ,,do ,,not ,,conjoin1 ,,there ,,are ,,external ,,affections ,,which ,,assume ,a ,,semblance ,,of ,,the ,,internal ,,and ,,tend ,,to ,,consolidate4 ,by internal affections we mean the mutual inclinations which influence the mind of each of the parties from heaven2 whereas by external affections we mean the inclinations which influence the mind of each of the parties from the world4 ,the latter affections or inclinations indeed equally belong to the mind1 but they occupy its inferior regions1 whereas the former occupy the superior3 but since both have their allotted seat in the mind1 it may possibly be believed that they are alike and agree2 yet although they are not alike1 still they can appear so3 in some cases they exist as agreements1 and in some as insinuating semblances4 ,there is a certain communion implanted in each of the parties from the earliest time of the marriage-covenant1 which1 notwithstanding their disagreement in minds 7animis7 still remains implanted2 as a communion of possessions1 and in many cases a communion of uses1 and of the various necessities of the house1 and thence also a communion of thoughts and of certain secrets2 there is also a communion of bed1 and of the love of children3 not to mention several others1 which1 as they are inscribed on the conjugial covenant1 are also inscribed on their minds4 ,hence originate especially those external affections which resemble the internal2 whereas those which only counterfeit them are partly from the same origin and partly from another2 but on the subject of each more will be said in what follows4 #bgh4 ,,vii4 ,,hence ,,come ,,apparent ,,love1 ,,friendship1 ,,and ,,favor ,,between ,,married ,,partners4 ,apparent loves1 friendships1 and favors between married partners1 are a consequence of the conjugial covenant being ratified for the term of life1 and of the conjugial communion thence inscribed on those who ratify it2 whence spring external affections resembling the internal1 as was just now indicated3 they are moreover a consequence of their causes1 which are usefulness and necessity3 from which in part exist conjunctive external affections1 or their counterfeit1 whereby external love and friendship appear as internal4 #bgi4 ,,viii4 ,,these ,,appearances ,,are ,,assumed ,,conjugial ,,semblances2 ,,and ,,they ,,are ,,commendable1 ,,because ,,useful ,,and ,,necessary4 ,they are called assumed semblances1 because they exist with those who disagree in mind1 and who from such disagreement are interiorly in cold3 in this case1 when they still appear to live united1 as duty and decency require1 their kind offices to each other may be called assumed conjugial semblances2 which1 as being commendable for the sake of uses1 are altogether to be distinguished from hypocritical semblances2 for hereby all those good things are provided for1 which are commemorated in order below1 from article ,,xi-,,xx4 ,they are commendable for the sake of necessity1 because otherwise those good things would be unattained2 and yet the parties are enjoined by a covenant and compact to live together1 and hence it behoves each of them to consider it a duty to do so4 #bhj4 ,,ix4 ,,these ,,assumed ,,conjugial ,,semblances1 ,,in ,,the ,,case ,,of ,a ,,spiritual ,,man 7homo7 ,,conjoined ,,to ,a ,,natural1 ,,are ,,founded ,,in ,,justice ,,and ,,judgement4 ,the reason of this is1 because the spiritual man1 in all he does1 acts from justice and judgement2 wherefore he does not regard these assumed semblances as alienated from their internal affections1 but as connected with them2 for he is in earnest1 and respects amendment as an end2 and if he does not obtain this1 he respects accommodation for the sake of domestic order1 mutual aid1 the care of children1 and peace and tranquillity4 ,to these things he is led from a principle of justice2 and from a principle of judgement he gives them effect4 ,the reason why a spiritual man so lives with a natural one is1 because a spiritual man acts spiritually1 even with a natural man4 #bha4 ,x4 ,,for ,,various ,,reasons1 ,,these ,,assumed ,,conjugial ,,semblances ,,with ,,natural ,,men ,,are ,,founded ,,in ,,prudence4 ,in the case of two married partners of whom one is spiritual and the other natural1 7by the spiritual we mean the one that loves spiritual things1 and thereby is wise from the ,lord1 and by the natural1 the one that loves only natural things1 and thereby is wise from himself17 when they are united in marriage1 conjugial love with the spiritual partner is heat1 and with the natural is cold4 ,it is evident that heat and cold cannot remain together1 also that heat cannot inflame him that is in cold1 unless the cold be first dispersed1 and that cold cannot flow into him that is in heat1 unless the heat be first removed3 hence it is that inward love cannot exist between married partners1 one of whom is spiritual and the other natural2 but that a love resembling inward love may exist on the part of the spiritual partner1 as was said in the foregoing article2 whereas between two natural married partners no inward love can exist1 since each is cold2 and if they have any heat1 it is from something unchaste2 nevertheless such persons may live together in the same house1 with separate minds 7animis71 and also assume looks of love and friendship towards each other1 notwithstanding the disagreement of their minds 7mentes73 in such case1 the external affections1 which for the most part relate to wealth and possessions1 or to honor and dignities1 may as it were be kindled into a flame2 and as such enkindling induces fear for their loss1 therefore assumed conjugial semblances are in such cases necessities1 which are principally those adduced below in articles ,,xv4-,,xvii4 ,the rest of the causes adduced with these may have somewhat in common with those relating to the spiritual man2 concerning which see above1 n4 #bhj2 but only in case the prudence with the natural man is founded in intelligence4 #bhb4 ,,xi4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,amendment ,,and ,,accommodation4 ,the reason why assumed conjugial semblances1 which are appearances of love and friendship subsisting between married partners who disagree in mind1 are for the sake of amendment1 is because a spiritual man 7homo7 connected with a natural one by the matrimonial covenant1 intends nothing else but amendment of life2 which he effects by judicious and elegant conversation1 and by favors which soothe and flatter the temper of the other2 but in case these things prove ineffectual1 he intends accommodation1 for the preservation of order in domestic affairs1 for mutual aid1 and for the sake of the infants and children1 and other similar things2 for1 as was shown above1 n4 #bhj1 whatever is said and done by a spiritual man 7homo7 is founded in justice and judgement4 ,but with married partners1 neither of whom is spiritual1 but both natural1 similar conduct may exist1 but for other ends2 if for the sake of amendment and accommodation1 the end is1 either that the other party may be reduced to a similitude of manners1 and be made subordinate to his desires1 or that some service may be made subservient to his own1 or for the sake of peace within the house1 of reputation out of it1 or of favors hoped for by the married partner or his relations2 not to mention other ends3 but with some these ends are grounded in the prudence of their reason1 with some in natural civility1 with some in the delights of certain cupidities which have been familiar from the cradle1 the loss of which is dreaded2 besides several ends1 which render the assumed kindnesses as of conjugial love more or less counterfeit4 ,there may also be kindnesses as of conjugial love out of the house1 and none within2 those however respect as an end the reputation of both parties2 and if they do not respect this1 they are merely deceptive4 #bhc4 ,,xii4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,preserving ,,order ,,in ,,domestic ,,affairs1 ,,and ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,mutual ,,aid4 ,every house in which there are children1 their instructors1 and other domestics1 is a small society resembling a large one4 ,the latter also consists of the former1 as a whole consists of its parts1 and thereby it exists2 and further1 as the security of a large society depends on order1 so does the security of this small society2 wherefore as it behoves public magistrates to see and provide that order may exist and be preserved in a compound society1 so it concerns married partners in their single society4 ,but there cannot be this order if the husband and wife disagree in their minds 7animis72 for thereby mutual counsels and aids are drawn different ways1 and are divided like their minds1 and thus the form of the small society is rent asunder2 wherefore to preserve order1 and thereby to take care of themselves and at the same time of the house1 or of the house and at the same time of themselves1 lest they should come to hurt and fall to ruin1 necessity requires that the master and mistress agree1 and act in unity2 and if1 from the difference of their minds 7mentium7 this cannot be done so well as it might1 both duty and propriety require that it be done by representative conjugial friendship4 ,that hereby concord is established in houses for the sake of necessity and consequent utility1 is well known4 #bhd4 ,,xiii4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,unanimity ,,in ,,the ,,care ,,of ,,infants ,,and ,,the ,,education ,,of ,,children4 ,it is very well known that assumed conjugial semblances1 which are appearances of love and friendship resembling such as are truly conjugial1 exist with married partners for the sake of infants and children4 ,the common love of the latter causes each married partner to regard the other with kindness and favor4 ,the love of infants and children with the mother and the father unite as the heart and lungs in the breast4 ,the love of them with the mother is as the heart1 and the love towards them with the father is as the lungs4 ,the reason of this comparison is1 because the heart corresponds to love1 and the lungs to the understanding2 and love grounded in the will belongs to the mother1 and love grounded in the understanding to the father4 ,with spiritual men 7homines7 there is conjugial conjunction by means of that love grounded in justice and judgement2 in justice1 because the mother had carried them in her womb1 had brought them forth with pain1 and afterwards with unwearied care suckles1 nourishes1 washes1 dresses1 and educates them1 7and in judgement1 because the father provides for their instruction in knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom74 #bhe4 ,,xiv4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,peace ,,in ,,the ,,house4 ,assumed conjugial semblances1 or external friendships for the sake of domestic peace and tranquillity1 relate principally to the men1 who1 from their natural characteristic1 act from the understanding in whatever they do2 and the understanding1 being exercised in thought1 is engaged in a variety of objects which disquiet1 disturb1 and distract the mind2 wherefore if there were not tranquillity at home1 it would come to pass that the vital spirits of the parties would grow faint1 and their interior life would as it were expire1 and thereby the health of both mind and body would be destroyed4 ,the dreadful apprehension of these and several other dangers would possess the minds of the men1 unless they had an asylum with their wives at home for appeasing the disturbances arising in their understandings4 ,moreover peace and tranquillity give serenity to their minds1 and dispose them to receive agreeably the kind attentions of their wives1 who spare no pains to disperse the mental clouds which they are very quick-sighted to observe in their husbands3 moreover1 the same peace and tranquillity make the presence of their wives agreeable4 ,hence it is evident1 that an assumed semblance of love1 as if it was truly conjugial1 for the sake of peace and tranquillity at home1 is both necessary and useful4 ,it is further to be observed1 that with the wives such semblances are not assumed as with the men2 but if they appear to resemble them1 they are the effect of real love1 because wives are born loves of the understanding of the men2 wherefore they accept kindly the favors of their husbands1 and if they do not confess it with their lips1 still they acknowledge it in heart4 #bhf4 ,,xv4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,reputation ,,out ,,of ,,the ,,house4 ,the fortunes of men in general depend on their reputation for justice1 sincerity1 and uprightness2 and this reputation also depends on the wife1 who is acquainted with the most familiar circumstances of her husband's life2 therefore if the disagreements of their minds should break out into open enmity1 quarrels1 and threats of hatred1 and these should be noised abroad by the wife and her friends1 and by the domestics1 they would easily be turned into tales of scandal1 which would bring disgrace and infamy upon the husband's name4 ,to avoid such mischiefs1 he has no other alternative than either to counterfeit affection for his wife1 or that they be separated as to house4 #bhg4 ,,xvi4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,various ,,favors ,,expected ,,from ,,the ,,married ,,partner1 ,,or ,,from ,,his ,,or ,,her ,,relations1 ,,and ,,thus ,,from ,,the ,,fear ,,of ,,losing ,,such ,,favors4 ,this is the case more especially in marriages where the rank and condition of the parties are dissimilar1 concerning which1 see above1 n4 #bej2 as when a man marries a wealthy wife who stores up her money in purses1 or her treasures in coffers2 and the more so if she boldly insists that the husband is bound to support the house out of his own estate and income3 that hence come forced likenesses of conjugial love1 is generally known4 ,the case is similar where a man marries a wife1 whose parents1 relations1 and friends1 are in offices of dignity1 in lucrative business1 and in employments with large salaries1 who have it in their power to better her condition3 that this also is a ground of counterfeit love1 as if it were conjugial1 is generally known4 ,it is evident that in both cases it is the fear of the loss of the above favors that is operative4 #bhh4 ,,xvii4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,having ,,blemishes ,,excused1 ,,and ,,thereby ,,of ,,avoiding ,,disgrace4 ,there are several blemishes for which conjugial partners fear disgrace1 some criminal1 some not4 ,there are blemishes of the mind and of the body slighter than those mentioned in the foregoing chapter n4 #beb and #bec1 which are causes of separation2 wherefore those blemishes are here meant1 which1 to avoid disgrace1 are buried in silence by the other married partner4 ,besides these1 in some cases there are contingent crimes1 which1 if made public1 are subject to heavy penalties2 not to mention a deficiency of that ability which the men usually boast of4 ,that excuses of such blemishes1 in order to avoid disgrace1 are the causes of counterfeit love and friendship with a married partner1 is too evident to need farther confirmation4 #bhi4 ,,xviii4 ,,they ,,are ,,for ,,the ,,sake ,,of ,,reconciliation4 ,that between married partners who have mental disagreements from various causes1 there subsist alternate distrust and confidence1 alienation and conjunction1 yea1 dispute and compromise1 thus reconciliation2 and also that apparent friendships promote reconciliation1 is well known in the world4 ,there are also reconciliations which take place after partings1 which are not so alternate and transitory4 #bij4 ,,xix4 ,,in ,,case ,,favor ,,does ,,not ,,cease ,,with ,,the ,,wife1 ,,when ,,faculty ,,ceases ,,with ,,the ,,man1 ,,there ,,may ,,exist ,a ,,friendship ,,resembling ,,conjugial ,,friendship ,,when ,,the ,,parties ,,grow ,,old4 ,the primary cause of the separation of minds 7animorum7 between married partners is a falling off of favor on the wife's part in consequence of the cessation of ability on the husband's part1 and thence a falling off of love2 for just as heats communicate with each other1 so also do colds4 ,that from a falling off of love on the part of each1 there ensues a cessation of friendship1 and also of favor1 if not prevented by the fear of domestic ruin1 is evident both from reason and experience4 ,in case therefore the man tacitly imputes the causes to himself1 and still the wife perseveres in chaste favor towards him1 there may thence result a friendship1 which1 since it subsists between married partners1 appears to resemble conjugial love4 ,that a friendship resembling the friendship of that love1 may subsist between married partners1 when old1 experience testifies from the tranquillity1 security1 loveliness1 and abundant courtesy with which they live1 communicate1 and associate together4 #bia4 ,,xx4 ,,there ,,are ,,various ,,kinds ,,of ,,apparent ,,love ,,and ,,friendship ,,between ,,married ,,partners1 ,,one ,,of ,,whom ,,is ,,brought ,,under ,,the ,,yoke1 ,,and ,,therefore ,,is ,,subject ,,to ,,the ,,other4 ,it is no secret in the world at this day1 that as the first fervor of marriage begins to abate1 there arises a rivalship between the parties respecting right and power2 respecting right1 in that according to the statutes of the covenant entered into1 there is an equality1 and each has dignity in the offices of his or her function2 and respecting power1 in that it is insisted on by the men1 that in all things relating to the house1 superiority belongs to them1 because they are men1 and inferiority to the women because they are women4 ,such rivalships1 at this day familiar1 arise from no other source than a want of conscience respecting love truly conjugial1 and of sensible perception respecting the blessedness of that love2 in consequence of which want1 lust takes the place of that love1 and counterfeits it2 and1 on the removal of genuine love1 there flows from this lust a grasping for power1 in which some are influenced by the delight of the love of domineering1 which in some is implanted by artful women before marriage1 and which to some is unknown4 ,where such grasping prevails with the men1 and the various turns of rivalship terminate in the establishment of their sway1 they reduce their wives either to become their rightful property1 or to comply with their arbitrary will1 or into a state of slavery1 every one according to the degree and qualified state of that grasping implanted and concealed in himself2 but where such grasping prevails with the wives1 and the various turns of rivalship terminate in establishing their sway1 they reduce their husbands either into a state of equality of right with themselves1 or of compliance with their arbitrary will1 or into a state of slavery3 but as when the wives have obtained the sceptre of sway1 there remains with them a desire which is a counterfeit of conjugial love1 and is restrained both by law and by the fear of legitimate separation1 in case they extend their power beyond the rule of right into what is contrary thereto1 therefore they lead a life in consociation with their husbands4 ,but what is the nature and quality of the love and friendship between a ruling wife and a serving husband1 and also between a ruling husband and a serving wife1 cannot be briefly described2 indeed1 if their differences were to be specifically pointed out and enumerated1 it would occupy several pages2 for they are various and diverse--various according to the nature of the grasping for power prevalent with the men1 and in like manner with the wives2 and diverse in regard to the differences subsisting in the men and the women2 for such men have no friendship of love but what is infatuated1 and such wives are in the friendship of spurious love grounded in lust4 ,but by what arts wives procure to themselves power over the men1 will be shewn in the following article4 #bib4 ,,xxi4 ,,in ,,the ,,world ,,there ,,are ,,infernal ,,marriages ,,between ,,persons ,,who ,,interiorly ,,are ,,the ,,most ,,inveterate ,,enemies1 ,,and ,,exteriorly ,,are ,,as ,,the ,,closest ,,friends4 ,i am indeed forbidden by the wives of this sort1 in the spiritual world1 to present such marriages to public view2 for they are afraid lest their art of obtaining power over the men should at the same time be divulged1 which yet they are exceedingly desirous to have concealed3 but as ,i am urged by the men in that world to expose the causes of the intestine hatred and as it were fury excited in their hearts against their wives1 in consequence of their clandestine arts1 ,i shall be content with adducing the following particulars4 ,the men said1 that unwittingly they contracted a terrible dread of their wives1 in consequence of which they were constrained to obey their decisions in the most abject manner1 and be at their beck more than the vilest servants1 so that they lost all life and spirit2 and that this was the case not only with those who were in inferior stations of life1 but also with those who were advanced in high dignities1 yea with brave and famous generals3 they also said1 that after they had contracted this dread1 they could not help on every occasion expressing themselves to their wives in a friendly manner1 and doing what was agreeable to their humors1 although they cherished in their hearts a deadly hatred against them2 and further1 that their wives still behaved courteously to them both in word and deed1 and complaisantly attended to some of their requests4 ,now as the men themselves greatly wondered1 whence such an antipathy could arise in their internals1 and such an apparent sympathy in their externals1 they examined into the causes thereof from some women who were acquainted with the above secret art4 ,from this source of information they learned1 that women 7mulieres7 are skilled in a knowledge which they conceal deeply in their own minds1 whereby1 if they be so disposed1 they can subject the men to the yoke of their authority2 and that this is effected in the case of ignorant wives1 sometimes by alternate quarrel and kindness1 sometimes by harsh and unpleasant looks1 and sometimes by other means2 but in the case of polite wives1 by urgent and persevering petitions1 and by obstinate resistance to their husbands in case they suffer hardships from them1 insisting on their right of equality by law1 in consequence of which they are firm and resolute in their purpose2 yea1 insisting that if they should be turned out of the house1 they would return at their pleasure1 and would be urgent as before2 for they know that the men by their nature cannot resist the positive tempers of their wives but that after compliance they submit themselves to their disposal2 and that in this case the wives make a show of all kinds of civility and tenderness to their husbands subjected to their sway4 ,the genuine cause of the dominion which the wives obtain by this cunning is1 that the man acts from the understanding and the woman from the will1 and that the will can persist1 but not so the understanding4 ,i have been told1 that the worst of this sort of women1 who are altogether a prey to the desire of dominion1 can remain firm in their positive humors even to the last struggle for life4 ,i have also heard the excuses pleaded by such women 7mulieres7 for entering upon the exercise of this art2 in which they urged that they would not have done so unless they had foreseen supreme contempt and future rejection1 and consequent ruin on their part1 if they should be subdued by their husbands3 and that thus they had taken up these their arms from necessity4 ,to this excuse they add this admonition for the men2 to leave their wives their own rights1 and while they are in alternations of cold1 not to consider them as beneath their maid-servants3 they said also that several of their sex1 from their natural timidity1 are not in a state of exercising the above art2 but ,i added1 from their natural modesty4 ,from the above considerations it may now be known what is meant by infernal marriages in the world between persons who interiorly are the most inveterate enemies1 and exteriorly are like the most attached friends4 99 99 99 99 99 #bic4 ,to the above ,i will add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,some time ago as ,i was looking through a window to the east1 ,i saw seven women sitting in a garden of roses at a certain fountain1 and drinking the water4 ,i strained my eye-sight greatly to see what they were doing1 and this effort of mine affected them2 wherefore one of them beckoned me1 and ,i immediately quitted the house and came to them4 ,when ,i joined them1 ,i courteously inquired whence they were4 ,they said1 ,we are wives1 and are here conversing respecting the delights of conjugial love1 and from much consideration we conclude1 that they are also the delights of wisdom4 ,this answer so delighted my mind 7animum71 that ,i seemed to be in the spirit1 and thence in perception more interior and more enlightened than on any former occasion2 wherefore ,i said to them1 ,give me leave to propose a few questions respecting those satisfactions4 ,on their consenting1 ,i asked1 ,how do you wives know that the delights of conjugial love are the same as the delights of wisdom8 ,they replied1 ,we know it from the correspondence of our husbands' wisdom with our own delights of conjugial love2 for the delights of this love with ourselves are exalted and diminished and altogether qualified1 according to the wisdom of our husbands4 ,on hearing this1 ,i said1 ,i know that you are affected by the agreeable conversation of your husbands and their cheerfulness of mind1 and that you derive thence a bosom delight2 but ,i am surprised to hear you say1 that their wisdom produces this effect2 but tell me what is wisdom1 and what wisdom 7produces this effect78 ,to this the wives indignantly replied1 ,do you suppose that we do not know what wisdom is1 and what wisdom 7produces that effect71 when yet we are continually reflecting upon it as in our husbands1 and learn it daily from their mouths8 ,for we wives think of the state of our husbands from morning to evening2 there is scarcely an hour in the day1 in which our intuitive thought is altogether withdrawn from them1 or is absent2 on the other hand1 our husbands think very little in the day respecting our state2 hence we know what wisdom of theirs it is that gives us delight4 ,our husbands call that wisdom spiritual rational1 and spiritual moral4 ,spiritual rational wisdom1 they say1 is of the understanding and knowledges1 and spiritual moral wisdom of the will and life2 but these they join together and make a one1 and insist that the satisfactions of this wisdom are transferred from their minds into the delights in our bosoms1 and from our bosoms into theirs1 and thus return to wisdom their origin4 ,i then asked1 ,do you know anything more respecting the wisdom of your husbands which gives you delight8 ,they said1 ,we do4 ,there is spiritual wisdom1 and thence rational and moral wisdom4 ,spiritual wisdom is to acknowledge the ,lord the ,saviour as the ,god of heaven and earth1 and from ,him to procure the truths of the church1 which is effected by means of the ,word and of preachings derived therefrom1 whence comes spiritual rationality2 and from ,him to live according to those truths1 whence comes spiritual morality4 ,these two our husbands call the wisdom which in general operates to produce love truly conjugial4 ,we have heard from them also that the reason of this is1 because1 by means of that wisdom1 the interiors of their minds and thence of their bodies are opened1 whence there exists a free passage from first principles even to last for the stream of love2 on the flow1 sufficiency1 and virtue of which conjugial love depends and lives4 ,the spiritual rational and moral wisdom of our husbands1 specifically in regard to marriage1 has for its end and object to love the wife alone1 and to put away all concupiscence for other women2 and so far as this is effected1 so far that love is exalted as to degree1 and perfected as to quality2 and also so far we feel more distinctly and exquisitely the delights in ourselves corresponding to the delights of the affections and the satisfactions of the thoughts of our husbands4 ,i inquired afterwards1 whether they knew how communication is effected4 ,they said1 ,in all conjunction by love there must be action1 reception1 and reaction4 ,the delicious state of our love is acting or action1 the state of the wisdom of our husbands is recipient or reception1 and also is reacting or reaction according to perception2 and this reaction we perceive with delights in the breast according to the state continually expanded and prepared to receive those things which in any manner agree with the virtue belonging to our husbands1 thus also with the extreme state of love belonging to ourselves1 and which thence proceed4 ,they said further1 ,take heed lest by the delights which we have mentioned1 you understand the ultimated delights of that love3 of these we never speak1 but of our bosom delights1 which always correspond with the state of the wisdom of our husbands4 ,after this there appeared at a distance as it were a dove flying with the leaf of a tree in its mouth3 but as it approached1 instead of a dove ,i saw it was a little boy with a paper in his hand3 on coming to us he held it out to me1 and said1 ,read it before these ,maidens of the fountain4 ,i then read as follows1 ,tell the inhabitants of your earth1 that there is a love truly conjugial having myriads of delights1 scarce any of which are as yet known to the world2 but they will be known1 when the church betroths herself to her ,lord1 and is married4 ,i then asked1 ,why did the little boy call you ,maidens of the fountain8 ,they replied1 ,we are called maidens when we sit at this fountain2 because we are affections of the truths of the wisdom of our husbands1 and the affection of truth is called a maiden2 a fountain also signifies the true of wisdom1 and the bed of roses1 on which we sir1 the delights thereof4 ,then one of the seven wove a garland of roses1 and sprinkled it with water of the fountain1 and placed it on the boy's cap round his little head1 and said1 ,receive the delights of intelligence2 know that a cap signifies intelligence2 and a garland from this rose-bed delights4 ,the boy thus decorated then departed1 and again appeared a distance like a flying dove1 but now with a coronet on his head4 #bid4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,after some days ,i again saw the seven wives in a garden of roses1 but not in the same as before4 ,its magnificence was such as ,i had never before seen3 it was round1 and the roses in it formed as it were a rainbow4 ,the roses or flowers of a purple color formed its outermost circle1 others of a yellow golden color formed the next interior circle1 within this were others of a bright blue1 and the inmost of a shining green2 and within this rainbow rose-bed was a small lake of limpid water4 ,these seven wives1 who were called the ,maidens of the fountain1 as they were sitting there seeing me again at the window1 called me to them2 and when ,i was come they said1 ,did you ever see anything more beautiful upon the earth8 ,i replied1 ,never4 ,they then said1 ,such scenery is created instantaneously by the ,lord1 and represents something new on the earth2 for every thing created by the ,lord is representative3 but what is this8 tell1 if you can3 we say it is the delights of conjugial love4 ,on hearing this1 ,i said1 ,what6 the delights of conjugial love1 respecting which you before conversed with so much wisdom and eloquence6 ,after ,i had left you1 ,i related your conversation to some wives in our country1 and said1 ',i now know from instruction that you have bosom delights arising from your conjugial love1 which you can communicate to your husbands according to their wisdom1 and that on this account you look at your husbands with the eyes of your spirit from morning to evening1 and study to bend and draw their minds 7animos7 to become wise1 to the end that you may secure those delights4' ,i mentioned also that by wisdom you understand spiritual rational and moral wisdom1 and in regard to marriage1 the wisdom to love the wife alone1 and to put away all concupiscence for other women3 but to these things the wives of our country answered with laughter1 saying1 ',what is all this but mere idle talk8 ,we do not know what conjugial love is4 ,if our husbands possess any portion of it1 still we do not2 whence then come its delights to us8 yea1 in regard to what you call ultimate delights1 we at times refuse them with violence1 for they are unpleasant to us1 almost like violations3 and you will see1 if you attend to it1 no sign of such love in our faces3 wherefore you are trifling or jesting1 if you also assert1 with those seven wives1 that we think of our husbands from morning to evening1 and continually attend to their will and pleasure in order to catch from them such delights4' ,i have retained thus much of what they said1 that ,i might relate it to you2 since it is repugnant1 and also in manifest contradiction1 to what ,i heard from you near the fountain1 and which ,i so greedily imbibed and believed4 ,to this the wives sitting in the rose garden replied1 ,friend1 you know not the wisdom and prudence of wives2 for they totally hide it from the men1 and for no other end than that they may be loved3 for every man who is not spiritually but only naturally rational and moral1 is cold towards his wife2 and the cold lies concealed in his inmost principles4 ,this is exquisitely and acutely observed by a wise and prudent wife2 who so far conceals her conjugial love1 and withdraws it into her bosom1 and there hides it so deeply that it does not at all appear in her face1 in the tone of her voice1 or in her behaviour4 ,the reason of this is1 because so far as it appears1 so far the conjugial cold of the man diffuses itself from the inmost principles of his mind1 where it resides1 into its ultimates1 and occasions in the body a total coldness1 and a consequent endeavour to separate from bed and chamber4 ,i then asked1 ,whence arises that which you call conjugial cold8 ,they replied1 ,from the insanity of the men in regard to spiritual things2 and every one who is insane in regard to spiritual things2 in his inmost principles is cold towards his wife1 and warm towards harlots2 and since conjugial love and adulterous love are opposite to each other1 it follows that conjugial love becomes cold when illicit love is warm2 and when cold prevails with the man1 he cannot endure any sense of love1 and thus not any allusion thereto1 from his wife2 therefore the wife so wisely and prudently conceals that love2 and so far as she conceals it by denying and refusing it1 so far the man is cherished and recruited by the influent meretricious sphere4 ,hence it is1 that the wife of such a man has no bosom delights such as we have1 but only pleasures1 which1 on the part of the man1 ought to be called the pleasures of insanity1 because they are the pleasures of illicit love4 ,every chaste wife loves her husband1 even if he be unchaste2 but since wisdom is alone recipient of that love1 therefore she exerts all her endeavours to turn his insanity into wisdom1 that is1 to prevent his lusting after other women besides herself4 ,this she does by a thousand methods1 being particularly cautious lest any of them should be discovered by the man2 for she is well aware that love cannot be forced1 but that it is insinuated in freedom2 wherefore it is given to women to know from the sight1 the hearing1 and the touch1 every state of the mind of their husbands2 but on the other hand it is not given to the men to know any state of the mind of their wives4 ,a chaste wife can look at her husband with an austere countenance1 accost him with a harsh voice1 and also be angry and quarrel1 and yet in her heart cherish a soft and tender love towards him2 but such anger and dissimulation have for their end wisdom1 and thereby the reception of love with the husband3 as is manifest from the consideration1 that she can be reconciled in an instant4 ,besides1 wives use such means of concealing the love implanted in their inmost heart1 with a view to prevent conjugial cold bursting forth with the man1 and extinguishing the fire of his adulterous heat1 and thus converting him from green wood into a dry stick4 ,when the seven wives had expressed these and many more similar sentiments1 their husbands came with clusters of grapes in their hands1 some of which were of a delicate1 and some of a disagreeable flavor2 upon which the wives said1 ,why have you also brought bad or wild grapes8 ,the husbands replied1 ,because we perceived in our souls1 with which yours are united1 that you were conversing with that man respecting love truly conjugial1 that its delights are the delights of wisdom1 and also respecting adulterous love1 that its delights are the pleasures of insanity4 ,the latter are the disagreeable or wild grapes2 the former are those of delicate flavor4 ,they confirmed what their wives had said1 and added that1 in externals1 the pleasures of insanity appear like the delights of wisdom1 but not so in internals2 just like the good and bad grapes which we have brought2 for both the chaste and the unchaste have similar wisdom in externals1 but altogether dissimilar in internals4 ,after this the little boy came again with a piece of paper in his hand1 and held it out to me1 saying1 ,read this2 and ,i read as follows3 ,know that the delights of conjugial love ascend to the highest heaven1 and both in the way thither and also there1 unite with the delights of all heavenly loves1 and thereby enter into their happiness1 which endures for ever2 because the delights of that love are also the delights of wisdom3 and know also1 that the pleasures of illicit love descend even to the lowest hell1 and1 both in the way thither and also there1 unite with the pleasures of all infernal loves1 and thereby enter into their unhappiness1 which consists in the wretchedness of all heart-delights2 because the pleasures of that love are the pleasures of insanity4 ,after this the husbands departed with their wives1 and accompanied the little boy as far as to the way of his ascent into heaven2 and they knew that the society from which he was sent was a society of the new heaven1 with which the new church in the world will be conjoined4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,betrothings ,,and ,,nuptials4 #bie4 ,the subject of betrothings and nuptials1 and also of the rites and ceremonies attending them1 is here treated of principally from the reason of the understanding2 for the object of this book is that the reader may see truths rationally1 and thereby give his consent1 for thus his spirit is convinced2 and those things in which the spirit is convinced1 obtain a place above those which1 without consulting reason1 enter from authority and the faith of authority2 for the latter enter the head no further than into the memory1 and there mix themselves with fallacies and falses2 thus they are beneath the rational things of the understanding4 ,from these any one may seem to converse rationally1 but he will converse preposterously2 for in such case he thinks as a crab walks1 the sight following the tail3 it is otherwise if he thinks from the understanding2 for then the rational sight selects from the memory whatever is suitable1 whereby it confirms truth viewed in itself4 ,this is the reason why in this chapter several particulars are adduced which are established customs1 as that the right of choice belongs to the men1 that parents ought to be consulted1 that pledges are to be given1 that the conjugial covenant is to be settled previous to the nuptials1 that it ought to be performed by a priest1 also that the nuptials ought to be celebrated2 besides several other particulars1 which are here mentioned in order that every one may rationally see that such things are assigned to conjugial love1 as requisite to promote and complete it4 ,the articles into which this section is divided are the following2 ,i4 ,the right of choice belongs to the man1 and not to the woman4 ,,ii4 ,the man ought to court and intreat the woman respecting marriage with him1 and not the woman the man4 ,,iii4 ,the woman ought to consult her parents1 or those who are in the place of parents1 and then deliberate with herself1 before she consents4 ,,iv4 ,after a declaration of consent1 pledges are to be given4 ,v4 ,consent is to be secure and established by solemn betrothing4 ,,vi4 ,by betrothing1 each party is prepared for conjugial love4 ,,vii4 ,by betrothing1 the mind of the one is united to the mind of the other1 so as to effect a marriage of the spirit previous to a marriage of the body4 ,,viii4 ,this is the case with those who think chastely of marriages3 but it is otherwise with those who think unchastely of them4 ,,ix4 ,within the time of betrothing1 it is not allowable to be connected corporeally4 ,x4 ,when the time of betrothing is completed1 the nuptials ought to take place4 ,,xi4 ,previous to the celebration of the nuptials1 the conjugial covenant is to be ratified in the presence of witnesses4 ,,xii4 ,the marriage is to be consecrated by a priest4 ,,xiii4 ,the nuptials are to be celebrated with festivity4 ,,xiv4 ,after the nuptials1 the marriage of the spirit is made also the marriage of the body1 and thereby a full marriage4 ,,xv4 ,such is the order of conjugial love with its modes from its first heat to its first torch4 ,,xvi4 ,conjugial love precipitated without order and the modes thereof1 burns up the marrows and is consumed4 ,,xvii4 ,the states of the minds of each of the parties proceeding in successive order1 flow into the state of marriage2 nevertheless in one manner with the spiritual and in another with the natural4 ,,xviii4 ,there are successive and simultaneous orders1 and the latter is from the former and according to it4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #bif4 ,i4 ,,the ,,right ,,of ,,choice ,,belongs ,,to ,,the ,,man1 ,,and ,,not ,,to ,,the ,,woman4 ,this is because the man is born to be understanding1 but the woman to be love2 also because with the men there generally prevails a love of the sex1 but with the women a love of one of the sex2 and likewise because it is not unbecoming for men to speak openly about love1 as it is for women2 nevertheless women have the right of selecting one of their suitors4 ,in regard to the first reason1 that the right of choice belongs to the men1 because they are born to understanding1 it is grounded in the consideration that the understanding can examine agreements and disagreements1 and distinguish them1 and from judgement choose that which is suitable3 it is otherwise with the women1 because they are born to love1 and therefore have no such discrimination2 and consequently their determinations to marriage would proceed only from the inclinations of their love2 if they have the skill of distinguishing between men and men1 still their love is influenced by appearances4 ,in regard to the other reason1 that the right of choice belongs to the men1 and not to the women1 because with men there generally prevails a love of the sex1 and with women a love of one of the sex1 it is grounded in the consideration1 that those in whom a love of the sex prevails1 can freely look around and also determine3 it is otherwise with women1 in whom is implanted a love for one of the sex4 ,if you wish for a proof of this1 ask1 if you please1 the men you meet1 what their sentiments are respecting monogamical and polygamical unions2 and you will seldom meet one who will not reply in favor of the polygamical2 and this also is a love of the sex3 but ask the women their sentiments on the subject1 and almost all1 except the vilest of the sex1 will reject polygamical unions2 from which consideration it follows1 that with the women there prevails a love of one of the sex1 thus conjugial love4 ,in regard to the third reason1 that it is not unbecoming for men to speak openly about love1 whereas it is for women1 it is self-evident2 hence also it follows1 that declaration belongs to the men1 and therefore so does choice4 ,that women have the right of selecting in regard to their suitors1 is well known2 but this species of selection is confined and limited1 whereas that of the men is extended and unlimited4 #big4 ,,ii4 ,,the ,,man ,,ought ,,to ,,court ,,and ,,intreat ,,the ,,woman ,,respecting ,,marriage ,,with ,,him1 ,,and ,,not ,,the ,,woman ,,the ,,man4 ,this naturally follows the right of choice2 and besides1 to court and intreat women respecting marriage is in itself honorable and becoming for men1 but not for women4 ,if women were to court and entreat the men1 they would not only be blamed1 but1 after intreaty1 they would be reputed as vile1 or after marriage as libidinous1 with whom there would be no association but what was cold and fastidious2 wherefore marriages would thereby be converted into tragic scenes4 ,wives also take it as a compliment to have it said of them1 that being conquered as it were1 they yielded to the pressing intreaties of the men4 ,who does not foresee1 that if the women courted the men1 they would seldom be accepted8 ,they would either be indignantly rejected1 or be enticed to lasciviousness1 and also would dishonor their modesty4 ,moreover1 as was shewn above1 the men have not any innate love of the sex2 and without love there is no interior pleasantness of life3 wherefore to exalt their life by that love1 it is incumbent on the men to compliment the women2 courting and intreating them with civility1 courtesy1 and humility1 respecting this sweet addition to their life4 ,the superior comeliness of the female countenance1 person1 and manners1 above that of the men1 adds itself as a proper object of desire4 #bih4 ,,iii4 ,,the ,,woman ,,ought ,,to ,,consult ,,her ,,parents1 ,,or ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,the ,,place ,,of ,,parents1 ,,and ,,then ,,deliberate ,,with ,,herself1 ,,before ,,she ,,consents4 ,the reason why parents are to be consulted is1 because they deliberate from judgement1 knowledge1 and love2 from judgement1 because they are in an advanced age1 which excels in judgement1 and discerns what is suitable and unsuitable3 from knowledge1 in respect to both the suitor and their daughter2 in respect to the suitor they procure information1 and in respect to their daughter they already know2 wherefore they conclude respecting both with united discernment3 from love1 because to consult the good of their daughter1 and to provide for her establishment1 is also to consult and provide for their own and for themselves4 #bii4 ,the case would be altogether different1 if the daughter consents of herself to her urgent suitor1 without consulting her parents1 or those who are in their place2 for she cannot from judgement1 knowledge1 and love1 make a right estimate of the matter which so deeply concerns her future welfare3 she cannot from judgement1 because she is as yet in ignorance as to conjugial life1 and not in a state of comparing reasons1 and discovering the morals of men from their particular tempers2 nor from knowledge1 because she knows few things beyond the domestic concerns of her parents and of some of her companions2 and is unqualified to examine into such things as relate to the family and property of her suitor3 nor from love1 because with daughters in their first marriageable age1 and also afterwards1 this is led by the concupiscences originating in the senses1 and not as yet by the desires originating in a refined mind4 ,the daughter ought nevertheless to deliberate on the matter with herself1 before she consents1 lest she should be led against her will to form a connection with a man whom she does not love2 for by so doing1 consent on her part would be wanting2 and yet it is consent that constitutes marriage1 and initiates the spirit into conjugial love2 and consent against the will1 or extorted1 does not initiate the spirit1 although it may the body2 and thus it converts chastity1 which resides in the spirit1 into lust2 whereby conjugial love in its first warmth is vitiated4 #cjj4 ,,iv4 ,,after ,a ,,declaration ,,of ,,consent1 ,,pledges ,,are ,,to ,,be ,,given4 ,by pledges we mean presents1 which1 after consent1 are confirmations1 testifications1 first favors1 and gladnesses4 ,those presents are confirmations1 because they are certificates of consent on each side2 wherefore1 when two parties consent to anything1 it is customary to say1 ,give me a token2 and of two1 who have entered into a marriage engagement1 and have secured it by presents1 that they are pledged1 thus confirmed4 ,they are testifications1 because those pledges are continual visible witnesses of mutual love2 hence also they are memorials thereof2 especially if they be rings1 perfume-bottles or boxes1 and ribbons1 which are worn in sight4 ,in such things there is a sort of representative image of the minds 7animorum7 of the bridegroom and the bride4 ,those pledges are first favors1 because conjugial love engages for itself everlasting favor2 whereof those gifts are the first fruits4 ,that they are the gladnesses of love1 is well known1 for the mind is exhilarated at the sight of them2 and because love is in them1 those favors are dearer and more precious than any other gifts1 it being as if their hearts were in them4 ,as those pledges are securities of conjugial love1 therefore presents after consent were in use with the ancients2 and after accepting such presents the parties were declared to be bridegroom and bride4 ,but it is to be observed that it is at the pleasure of the parties to bestow those presents either before or after the act of betrothing2 if before1 they are confirmations and testifications of consent to betrothing2 if after it1 they are also confirmations and testifications of consent to the nuptial tie4 #cja4 ,v4 ,,consent ,,is ,,to ,,be ,,secured ,,and ,,established ,,by ,,solemn ,,betrothing4 ,the reasons for betrothings are these3 #a4 ,that after betrothing the souls of the two parties may mutually incline towards each other4 #b4 ,that the universal love for the sex may be determined to one of the sex4 #c4 ,that the interior affections may be mutually known1 and by applications in the internal cheerfulness of love1 may be conjoined4 #d4 ,that the spirits of both parties may enter into marriage1 and be more and more consociated4 #e4 ,that thereby conjugial love may advance regularly from its first warmth even to the nuptial flame4 ,consequently3 #f4 ,that conjugial love may advance and grow up in just order from its spiritual origin4 ,the state of betrothing may be compared to the state of spring before summer2 and the internal pleasantness of that state to the flowering of trees before fructification4 ,as the beginning and progressions of conjugial love proceed in order for the sake of their influx into the effective love1 which commences at the nuptials1 therefore1 there are also betrothings in the heavens4 #cjb4 ,,vi4 ,,by ,,betrothing ,,each ,,party ,,is ,,prepared ,,for ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,that the mind or spirit of one of the parties is by betrothing prepared for union with the mind or spirit of the other1 or what is the same1 that the love of the one is prepared for union with the love of the other1 appears from the arguments just adduced4 ,besides which it is to be noted1 that on love truly conjugial is inscribed this order1 that it ascends and descends2 it ascends from its first heat progressively upwards towards the souls of the parties1 with an endeavour to effect their conjunction1 and this by continual interior openings of their minds2 and there is no love which strives more intensely to effect such openings1 or which is more powerful and expert in opening the interiors of minds1 than conjugial love2 for the soul of each of the parties intends this3 but at the same moments in which that love ascends towards the soul1 it descends also towards the body1 and thereby clothes itself4 ,it is however to be observed1 that conjugial love is such in its descent as it is in the height to which it ascends3 if it ascends high1 it descends chaste2 but if not1 it descends unchaste3 the reason of this is1 because the lower principles of the mind are unchaste1 but its higher are chaste2 for the lower principles of the mind adhere to the body1 but the higher separate themselves from them3 but on this subject see further particulars below1 n4 #cje4 ,from these few considerations it may appear1 that1 by betrothing1 the mind of each of the parties is prepared for conjugial love1 although in a different manner according to the affections4 #cjc4 ,,vii4 ,,by ,,betrothing ,,the ,,mind ,,of ,,one ,,is ,,united ,,to ,,the ,,mind ,,of ,,the ,,other1 ,,so ,,as ,,to ,,effect ,a ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,spirit1 ,,previous ,,to ,a ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,body4 ,as this follows of consequence from what was said above1 n4 #cja1 #cjb1 we shall pass it by1 without adducing any further confirmations from reason4 #cjd4 ,,viii4 ,,this ,,is ,,the ,,case ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,think ,,chastely ,,of ,,marriages2 ,,but ,,it ,,is ,,otherwise ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,think ,,unchastely ,,of ,,them4 ,with the chaste1 that is1 with those who think religiously of marriages1 the marriage of the spirit precedes1 and that of the body is subsequent2 and these are those with whom love ascends towards the soul1 and from its height thence descends2 concerning whom see above1 n4 #cjb4 ,the souls of such separate themselves from the unlimited love for the sex1 and devote themselves to one1 with whom they look for an everlasting and eternal union and its increasing blessednesses1 as the cherishers of the hope which continually recreates their mind2 but it is quite otherwise with the unchaste1 that is1 with those who do not think religiously of marriages and their holiness4 ,with these there is a marriage of the body1 but not of the spirit3 if1 during the state of betrothment1 there be any appearance of a marriage of the spirit1 still1 if it ascends by an elevation of the thoughts concerning it1 it nevertheless falls back again to the concupiscences which arise from the flesh in the will2 and thus from the unchaste principles therein it precipitates itself into the body1 and defiles the ultimates of its love with an alluring ardor2 and as1 in consequence of this ardor1 it was in the beginning all on fire1 so its fire suddenly goes out1 and passes off into the cold of winter2 whence the failing 7of power7 is accelerated4 ,the state of betrothing with such scarcely answers any other purpose1 than that they may fill their concupiscences with lasciviousness1 and thereby contaminate the conjugial principle of love4 #cje4 ,,ix4 ,,within ,,the ,,time ,,of ,,betrothing ,,it ,,is ,,not ,,allowable ,,to ,,be ,,connected ,,corporeally4 ,for thus the order which is inscribed on conjugial love1 perishes4 ,for in human minds there are three regions1 of which the highest is called the celestial1 the middle the spiritual1 and the lowest the natural4 ,in this lowest man is born2 but he ascends into the next above it1 the spiritual1 by a life according to the truths of religion1 and into the highest by the marriage of love and wisdom4 ,in the lowest or natural region1 reside all the concupiscences of evil and lasciviousness2 but in the superior or spiritual region1 there are no concupiscences of evil and lasciviousness2 for man is introduced into this region by the ,lord1 when he is re-born2 but in the supreme or celestial region1 there is conjugial chastity in its love3 into this region a man is elevated by the love of uses2 and as the most excellent uses are from marriages1 he is elevated into it by love truly conjugial4 ,from these few considerations1 it may be seen that conjugial love1 from the first beginnings of its warmth1 is to be elevated out of the lowest region into a superior region1 that it may become chaste1 and that thereby from a chaste principle it may be let down through the middle and lowest regions into the body2 and when this is the case1 this lowest region is purified from all that is unchaste by this descending chaste principle3 hence the ultimate of that love becomes also chaste4 ,now if the successive order of this love is precipitated by connections of the body before their time1 it follows1 that the man acts from the lowest region1 which is by birth unchaste2 and it is well known1 that hence commences and arises cold in regard to marriage1 and disdainful neglect in regard to a married partner4 ,nevertheless events of various kinds take place in consequence of hasty connections2 also in consequence of too long a delay1 and too quick a hastening1 of the time of betrothing2 but these1 from their number and variety1 can hardly be adduced4 #cjf4 ,x4 ,,when ,,the ,,time ,,of ,,betrothing ,,is ,,completed1 ,,the ,,nuptials ,,ought ,,to ,,take ,,place4 ,there are some customary rites which are merely formal1 and others which at the same time are also essential3 among the latter are nuptials2 and that they are to be reckoned among essentials1 which are to be manifested in the customary way1 and to be formally celebrated1 is confirmed by the following reasons3 #a4 ,that nuptials constitute the end of the foregoing state1 into which the parties were introduced by betrothing1 which principally was a state of the spirit1 and the beginning of the following state1 into which they are to be introduced by marriage1 which is a state of the spirit and body together2 for the spirit then enters into the body1 and there becomes active3 wherefore on that day the parties put off the state and also the name of bridegroom and bride1 and put on the state and name of married partners and consorts4 #b4 ,that nuptials are an introduction and entrance into a new state1 which is that a maiden becomes a wife1 and a young man a husband1 and both one flesh2 and this is effected while love by ultimates unites them4 ,that marriage actually changes a maiden into a wife1 and a young man into a husband1 was proved in the former part of this work2 also that marriage unites two into one human form1 so that they are no longer two but one flesh4 #c4 ,that nuptials are the commencement of an entire separation of the love of the sex from conjugial love1 which is effected while1 by a full liberty of connection1 the knot is tied by which the love of the one is devoted to the love of the other4 #d4 ,it appears as if nuptials were merely an interval between those two states1 and thus that they are mere formalities which may be omitted3 but still there is also in them this essential1 that the new state above-mentioned is then to be entered upon from covenant1 and that the consent of the parties is to be declared in the presence of witnesses1 and also to be consecrated by a priest2 besides other particulars which establish it4 ,as nuptials contain in them essentials1 and as marriage is not legitimate till after their celebration1 therefore also nuptials are celebrated in the heavens2 see above1 n4 #ba1 and also1 n4 #bg-da4 #cjg4 ,,xi4 ,,previous ,,to ,,the ,,celebration ,,of ,,the ,,nuptials1 ,,the ,,conjugial ,,covenant ,,is ,,to ,,be ,,ratified ,,in ,,the ,,presence ,,of ,,witnesses4 ,it is expedient that the conjugial covenant be ratified before the nuptials are celebrated1 in order that the statutes and laws of love truly conjugial may be known1 and that they may be remembered after the nuptials2 also that the minds of the parties may be bound to just marriage3 for after some introductory circumstances of marriage1 the state which preceded betrothing returns at times1 in which state remembrance fails and forgetfulness of the ratified covenant ensues2 yea1 it may be altogether effaced by the allurements of the unchaste to criminality2 and if it is then recalled into the memory1 it is reviled3 but to prevent these transgressions1 society has taken upon itself the protection of that covenant1 and has denounced penalties on the breakers of it4 ,in a word1 the ante-nuptial covenant manifests and establishes the sacred decrees of love truly conjugial1 and binds libertines to the observance of them4 ,moreover1 by this covenant1 the right of propagating children1 and also the right of the children to inherit the goods of their parents1 become legitimate4 #cjh4 ,,xii4 ,,marriage ,,is ,,to ,,be ,,consecrated ,,by ,a ,,priest4 ,the reason of this is1 because marriages1 considered in themselves1 are spiritual1 and thence holy2 for they descend from the heavenly marriage of good and truth1 and things conjugial correspond to the divine marriage of the ,lord and the church2 and hence they are from the ,lord himself1 and according to the state of the church with the contracting parties4 ,now1 as the ecclesiastical order on the earth administer the things which relate to the ,lord's priestly character1 that is1 to his love1 and thus also those which relate to blessing1 it is expedient that marriages be consecrated by his ministers2 and as they are then the chief witnesses1 it is expedient that the consent of the parties to the covenant be also heard1 accepted1 confirmed1 and thereby established by them4 #cji4 ,,xiii4 ,,the ,,nuptials ,,are ,,to ,,be ,,celbrated ,,with ,,festivity4 ,the reasons are1 because ante-nuptial love1 which was that of the bridegroom and the bride1 on this occasion descends into their hearts1 and spreading itself thence in every direction into all parts of the body1 the delights of marriage are made sensible1 whereby the minds of the parties are led to festive thoughts and also let loose to festivities so far as is allowable and becoming2 to favor which1 it is expedient that the festivities of their minds be indulged in company1 and they themselves be thereby introduced into the joys of conjugial love4 #caj4 ,,xiv4 ,,after ,,the ,,nuptials1 ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,spirit ,,is ,,made ,,also ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,body1 ,,and ,,thereby ,a ,,full ,,marriage4 ,all things which a man does in the body1 flow in from his spirit2 for it is well known that the mouth does not speak of itself1 but that it is the thinking principle of the mind which speaks by it2 also that the hands do not act and the feet walk of themselves1 but that it is the will of the mind which performs those operations by them2 consequently1 that the mind speaks and acts by its organs in the body3 hence it is evident1 that such as the mind is1 such are the speech of the mouth and the actions of the body4 ,from these premises it follows as a conclusion that the mind1 by a continual influx1 arranges the body so that it may act similarly and simultaneously with itself2 wherefore the bodies of men viewed interiorly are merely forms of their minds exteriorly organized to effect the purposes of the soul4 ,these things are premised1 in order that it may be perceived why the minds or spirits are first to be united as by marriage1 before they are also further united in the body2 namely1 that while the marriages become of the body1 they may also be marriages of the spirit2 consequently1 that married partners may mutually love each other from the spirit1 and thence from the body4 ,from this ground let us now take a view of marriage4 ,when conjugial love unites the minds of two persons1 and forms them into a marriage1 in such case it also unites and forms their bodies into a marriage2 for1 as we have said1 the form of the mind is also interiorly the form of the body2 only with this difference1 that the latter form is outwardly organized to effect that to which the interior form of the body is determined by the mind4 ,but the mind formed from conjugial love is not only interiorly in the whole body1 round about in every part1 but moreover is interiorly in the organs appropriated to generation1 which in their region are situated beneath the other regions of the body1 and in which are terminated the forms of the mind with those who are united in conjugial love3 consequently the affections and thoughts of their minds are determined thither2 and the activities of such minds differ in this respect from the activities of minds arising from other loves1 that the latter loves do not reach thither4 ,the conclusion resulting from these considerations is1 that such as conjugial love is in the minds or spirits of two persons1 such is it interiorly in those its organs4 ,but it is self-evident that a marriage of the spirit after the nuptials becomes also a marriage of the body1 thus a full marriage1 consequently1 if a marriage in the spirit is chaste1 and partakes of the sanctity of marriage1 it is chaste also1 and partakes of its sanctity1 when it is in its fulness in the body2 and the case is reversed if a marriage in the spirit is unchaste4 #caa4 ,,xv4 ,,such ,,is ,,the ,,order ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,with ,,its ,,modes ,,from ,,its ,,first ,,heat ,,to ,,its ,,first ,,torch4 ,it is said from its first heat to its first torch1 because vital heat is love1 and conjugial heat or love successively increases1 and at length as it were into a flame or torch4 ,we have said to its first torch1 because we mean the first state after the nuptials1 when that love burns2 but what its quality becomes after this torch1 in the marriage itself1 has been described in the preceding chapters2 but in this part we are explaining its order from the beginning of its career to this its first goal4 ,that all order proceeds from first principles to last1 and that the last become the first of some following order1 also that all things of the middle order are the last of a prior and the first of a following order1 and that thus ends proceed continually through causes into effects1 may be sufficiently confirmed and illustrated to the eye of reason from what is known and visible in the world2 but as at present we are treating only of the order in which love proceeds from its first starting-place to its goal1 we shall pass by such confirmation and illustration1 and only observe on this subject1 that such as the order of this love is from its first heat to its first torch1 such it is in general1 and such is its influence in its progression afterwards2 for in this progression it unfolds itself1 according to the quality of its first heat3 if this heat was chaste1 its chasteness is strengthened as it proceeds2 but if it was unchaste1 its unchasteness increases as it advances1 until it is deprived of all that chasteness which1 from the time of betrothing1 belonged to it from without1 but not from within4 #cab4 ,,xvi4 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,precipitated ,,without ,,order ,,and ,,the ,,modes ,,thereof1 ,,burns ,,up ,,the ,,marrows ,,and ,,is ,,consumed4 ,so it is said by some in the heavens2 and by the marrows they mean the interiors of the mind and body4 ,the reason why these are burnt up1 that is1 consumed1 by precipitated conjugial love is1 because that love in such case begins from a flame which eats up and corrupts those interiors1 in which as in its principles conjugial love should reside1 and from which it should commence4 ,this comes to pass if the man and woman without regard to order precipitate marriage1 and do not look to the ,lord1 and consult their reason1 but reject betrothing and comply merely with the flesh3 from the ardor of which1 if that love commences1 it becomes external and not internal1 thus not conjugial2 and such love may be said to partake of the shell1 not of the kernel2 or may be called fleshly1 lean1 and dry1 because emptied of its genuine essence4 ,see more on this subject above n4 #cje4 #cac4 ,,xvii4 ,,the ,,states ,,of ,,the ,,minds ,,of ,,each ,,of ,,the ,,parties ,,proceeding ,,in ,,successive ,,order1 ,,flow ,,into ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,marriage2 ,,nevertheless ,,in ,,one ,,manner ,,with ,,the ,,spiritual ,,and ,,in ,,another ,,with ,,the ,,natural4 ,that the last state is such as that of the successive order from which it is formed and exists1 is a rule1 which from its truth must be acknowledged by the learned2 for thereby we discover what influx is1 and what it effects4 ,by influx we mean all that which precedes1 and constitutes what follows1 and by things following in order constitutes what is last2 as all that which precedes with a man1 and constitutes his wisdom2 or all that which precedes with a statesman1 and constitutes his political skill2 or all that which precedes with a theologian1 and constitutes his erudition2 in like manner all that which proceeds from infancy1 and constitutes a man2 also what proceeds in order from a seed and a twig1 and makes a tree1 and afterwards what proceeds from a blossom1 and makes its fruit2 in like manner all that which precedes and proceeds with a bridegroom and bride1 and constitutes their marriage3 this is the meaning of influx4 ,that all those things which precede in minds form series1 which collect together1 one next to another1 and one after another1 and that these together compose a last or ultimate1 is as yet unknown in the world2 but as it is a truth from heaven1 it is here adduced for it explains what influx effects1 and what is the quality of the last or ultimate1 in which the above-mentioned series successively formed co-exist4 ,from these considerations it may be seen that the states of the minds of each of the parties proceeding in successive order flow into the state of marriage4 ,but married partners after marriage are altogether ignorant of the successive things which are insinuated into1 and exist in their minds 7animis7 from things antecedent2 nevertheless it is those things which give form to conjugial love1 and constitute the state of their minds2 from which state they act the one with the other4 ,the reason why one state is formed from one order with such as are spiritual1 and from another with such as are natural1 is1 because the spiritual proceed in a just order1 and the natural in an unjust order2 for the spiritual look to the ,lord1 and the ,lord provides and leads the order2 whereas the natural look to themselves1 and thence proceed in an inverted order2 wherefore with the latter the state of marriage is inwardly full of unchasteness2 and as that unchasteness abounds1 so does cold2 and as cold abounds so do the obstructions of the inmost life1 whereby its vein is closed and its fountain dried4 #cad4 ,,xviii4 ,,there ,,are ,,successive ,,and ,,simultaneous ,,order1 ,,and ,,the ,,latter ,,is ,,from ,,the ,,former ,,and ,,according ,,to ,,it4 ,this is adduced as a reason tending to confirm what goes before4 ,it is well known that there exist what is successive and what is simultaneous2 but it is unknown that simultaneous order is grounded in successive1 and is according to it2 yet how things successive enter into things simultaneous1 and what order they form therein1 it is very difficult to present to the perception1 since the learned are not in possession of any ideas that can elucidate the subject2 and as the first idea respecting this arcanum cannot be suggested in few words1 and to treat this subject at large would withdraw the mind from a more comprehensive view of the subject of conjugial love1 it may suffice for illustration to quote what we have adduced in a compendium respecting those two orders1 the successive and the simultaneous1 and respecting the influx of the former into the latter1 in ,,the ,,doctrine ,,of ,,the ,,new ,,jerusalem ,,respecting ,,the ,,sacred ,,scripture1 where are these words3 ,there are in heaven and in the world successive order and simultaneous order4 ,in successive order one thing follows after another from the highest to the lowest2 but in simultaneous order one thing is next to another from the inmost to the outermost4 ,successive order is like a column with steps from the highest to the lowest2 but simultaneous order is like a work cohering from the centre to the surface4 ,successive order becomes in the ultimate simultaneous in this manner2 the highest things of successive order become the inmost of simultaneous1 and the lowest things of successive order become the outermost of simultaneous2 comparatively as when a column of steps subsides1 it becomes a body cohering in a plane4 ,thus what is simultaneous is formed from what is successive2 and this in all things both of the spiritual and of the natural world4 ,see n4 #ch1 #fe1 of that work2 and several further observations on this subject in the ,,angelic ,,wisdom ,,respecting ,,the ,,divine ,,love ,,and ,,divine ,,wisdom1 n4 #bje-bbi4 ,the case is similar with successive order leading to marriage1 and with simultaneous order in marriage2 namely1 that the latter is from the former1 and according to it4 ,he that is acquainted with the influx of successive order into simultaneous1 may comprehend the reason why the angels can see in a man's hand all the thoughts and intentions of his mind1 and also why wives1 from their husbands' hands on their bosoms1 are made sensible of their affections2 which circumstance has been occasionally mentioned in the ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,the reason of this is1 because the hands are the ultimates of man1 wherein the deliberations and conclusions of his mind terminate1 and there constitute what is simultaneous3 therefore also in the ,word1 mention is made of a thing's being inscribed on the hands4 99 99 99 99 99 #cae4 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,on a certain time ,i saw not far from me a meteor--a cloud divided into smaller clouds1 some of which were of an azure color1 some opaque1 and as it were in collision together4 ,they were streaked with translucent irradiations of light1 which at one time appeared sharp like the points of swords1 at another1 blunt like broken swords4 ,the streaks sometimes darted out forwards1 at others they drew themselves in again1 exactly like combatants2 thus those different colored lesser clouds appeared to be at war together2 but it was only their manner of sporting with each other4 ,and as this meteor appeared at no great distance from me1 ,i raised my eyes1 and looking attentively1 ,i saw boys1 youths1 and old men1 entering a house which was built of marble1 on a foundation of porphyry2 and it was over this house that the phenomenon appeared4 ,then addressing myself to one that was entering1 ,i asked1 ,what house is this8 ,he answered1 ,it is a gymnasium1 where young persons are initiated into various things relating to wisdom4 ,on hearing this1 ,i went in with them1 being then in the spirit1 that is1 in a similar state with men of the spiritual world1 who are called spirits and angels2 and lo6 in the gymnasium there were in front a desk1 in the middle1 benches1 at the sides round about1 chairs1 and over the entrance1 an orchestra4 ,the desk was for the young men that were to give answers to the problem at that time to be proposed1 the benches were for the audience1 the chairs at the sides were for those who on former occasions had given wise answers1 and the orchestra was for the seniors1 who were arbitrators and judges3 in the middle of the orchestra was a pulpit1 where there sat a wise man1 whom they called the head master1 who proposed the problems to which the young men gave their answers from the desk4 ,when all were assembled1 this man arose from the pulpit and said1 ,give an answer now to this problem1 and solve it if you can1 ,,what ,,is ,,the ,,soul1 ,,and ,,what ,,is ,,its ,,quality8 ,on hearing this problem all were amazed1 and made a muttering noise2 and some of the company on the benches exclaimed1 ,what mortal man1 from the age of ,saturn to the present time1 has been able by any rational thought to see and ascertain what the soul is1 still less what is its quality8 ,is not this subject above the sphere of all human understanding8 ,but it was replied from the orchestra1 ,it is not above the understanding1 but within it and in its view2 only let the problem be answered4 ,then the young men1 who were chosen on that day to ascend the desk1 and give an answer to the problem1 arose4 ,they were five in number1 who had been examined by the seniors1 and found to excel in sagacity1 and were then sitting on couches at the sides of the desk4 ,they afterwards ascended in the order in which they were seated2 and every one1 when he ascended1 put on a silken tunic of an opaline color1 and over it a robe of soft wool interwoven with flowers1 and on his head a cap1 on the crown of which was a bunch of roses encircled with small sapphires4 ,the first youth thus clad ascended the desk1 and thus began3 ,what the soul is1 and what is its quality1 has never been revealed to any one since the day of creation1 being an arcanum in the treasuries of ,god alone2 but this has been discovered1 that the soul resides in a man as a queen2 yet where her palace is1 has been a matter of conjecture among the learned4 ,some have supposed it to be in a small tubercle between the cerebrum and the cerebellum1 which is called the pineal gland3 in this they have fixed the soul's habitation1 because the whole man is ruled from those two brains1 and they are regulated by that tubercle2 therefore whatever regulates the brains1 regulates also the whole man from the head to the heel4 ,he also added1 ,hence this conjecture appeared as true or probable to many in the world2 but in the succeeding age it was rejected as groundless4 ,when he had thus spoken1 he put off the robe1 the tunic1 and the cap1 which the second of the selected speakers put on1 and ascended the desk4 ,his sentiments concerning the soul are as follows3 ,in the whole heaven and the whole world it is unknown what the soul is1 and what is its quality2 it is however known that there is a soul1 and that it is in man2 but in what part of him is a matter of conjecture4 ,this is certain1 that it is in the head1 since the head is the seat where the understanding thinks1 and the will intends2 and in front in the face of the head are man's five sensories1 receiving life from the soul alone which resides in the head2 but in what particular part of the head the soul has its more immediate residence1 ,i dare not take upon me to say2 yet ,i agree with those who fix its abode in the three ventricles of the brain1 sometimes inclining to the opinion of those who fix it in the corpora striata therein1 sometimes to theirs who fix it in the medullary substance of each brain1 sometimes to theirs who fix it in the cortical substance1 and sometimes to theirs who fix it in the dura mater2 for arguments1 and those too of weight1 have not been wanting in the support of each of these opinions4 ,the arguments in favor of the three ventricles of the brain have been1 that those ventricles are the recipients of the animal spirits and of all the lymphs of the brain3 the arguments in favor of the corpora striata have been1 that these bodies constitute the marrow1 through which the nerves are emitted1 and by which each brain is continued into the spine2 and from the spine and the marrow there is an emanation of fibres serving for the contexture of the whole body3 the arguments in favor of the medullary substance of each brain have been1 that this substance is a collection and congeries of all the fibres1 which are the rudiments or beginnings of the whole man3 the arguments in favor of the cortical substance have been1 that in that substance are contained the prime and ultimate ends1 and consequently the principles of all the fibres1 and thereby of all the senses and motions3 the arguments in favor of the dura mater have been1 that it is the common covering of each brain1 and hence by some kind of continuous principle extends itself over the heart and the viscera of the body4 ,as to myself1 ,i am undetermined which of these opinions is the most probable1 and therefore ,i leave the matter to your determination and decision4 ,having thus concluded he descended from the desk1 and delivered the tunic1 the robe1 and the cap1 to the third1 who mounting into the desk began as follows3 ,how little qualified is a youth like myself for the investigation of so sublime a theorem6 ,i appeal to the learned who are here seated at the sides of the gymnasium2 ,i appeal to you wise ones in the orchestra2 yea1 ,i appeal to the angels of the highest heaven1 whether any person1 from his own rational light1 is able to form any idea concerning the soul2 nevertheless ,i1 like others1 can guess about the place of its abode in man2 and my conjecture is1 that it is in the heart and thence in the blood2 and ,i ground my conjecture on this circumstance1 that the heart by its blood rules both the body and the head2 for it sends forth a large vessel called the aorta into the whole body1 and vessels called the carotids into the whole head2 hence it is universally agreed1 that the soul from the heart by means of the blood supports1 nourishes1 and vivifies the universal organical system both of the body and the head4 ,as a further proof of this position it may be urged1 that in the ,sacred ,scripture frequent mention is made of the soul and the heart2 as where it is said1 ,thou shalt love ,god from the whole soul and the whole heart2 and that ,god creates in man a new soul and a new heart1 ,deut4 vi4 #e2 chap4 x4 #ab2 chap4 xi4 #ac2 chap4 xxvi4 #af2 ,jerem4 xxxii4 #da2 ,matt1 xxii4 #cg2 ,mark xii4 #cj1 #cc2 ,luke x4 #bg2 and in other places3 it is also expressly said1 that the blood is the soul of the flesh1 ,levit4 xvii4 #aa1 #ad4 ,at these words1 the cry of ,learned6 learned6 was heard in the assembly1 and was found to proceed from some of the canons4 ,after this a fourth1 clad in the garments of the former speaker1 ascended the desk1 and thus began3 ,i also am inclined to suspect that not a single person can be found of so subtle and refined a genius as to be able to discover what the soul is1 and what is its quality2 therefore ,i am of opinion1 that in attempting to make the discovery1 subtlety will be spent in fruitless labor2 nevertheless from my childhood ,i have continued firm in the opinion of the ancients1 that the soul of man is in the whole of him1 and in every part of the whole1 and thus that it is in the head and in all its parts1 as well as in the body and in all its parts2 and that it is an idle conceit of the moderns to fix its habitation in any particular part1 and not in the body throughout2 besides1 the soul is a spiritual substance1 of which there cannot be predicated either extension or place1 but habitation and impletion2 moreover1 when mention is made of the soul1 who does not conceive life to be meant8 and is not life in the whole and in every part8 ,these sentiments were favorably received by a great part of the audience4 ,after him the fifth rose1 and1 being adorned with the same insignia1 thus delivered himself from the desk3 ,i will not waste your time and my own in determining the place of the soul's residence1 whether it be in some particular part of the body1 or in the whole2 but from my mind's storehouse ,i will communicate to you my sentiments on the subject1 ,what is the soul1 and what is its quality8 ,no one conceives of the soul but as of a pure somewhat1 which may be likened to ether1 or air1 or wind1 containing a vital principle1 from the rationality which man enjoys above the beasts4 ,this opinion ,i conceive to be founded on the circumstance1 that when a man expires1 he is said to breathe forth or emit his soul or spirit2 hence also the soul which lives after death is believed to be such a breath or vapor animated by some principle of thinking life1 which is called the soul2 and what else can the soul be8 ,but as ,i heard it declared from the orchestra1 that this problem concerning the soul1 its nature and quality1 is not above the understanding1 but is within it and in its view1 ,i intreat and beseech you1 who have made this declaration1 to unfold this eternal arcanum yourselves4 ,then the elders in the orchestra turned their eyes towards the head master1 who had proposed the problem1 and who understood by their signs that they wished him to descend and teach the audience3 so he instantly quitted the pulpit1 passed through the auditory1 and entered the desk1 and there1 stretching out his hand1 he thus began3 ,let me bespeak your attention3 who does not believe the soul to be the inmost and most subtle essence of man8 and what is an essence without a form1 but an imaginary entity8 wherefore the soul is a form1 and a form whose qualities and properties ,i will now describe4 ,it is a form of all things relating to love1 and of all things relating to wisdom4 ,all things relating to love are called affections1 and those relating to wisdom are called perceptions4 ,the latter derived from the former and thereby united with them constitute one form1 in which are contained innumerable things in such an order1 series1 and coherence1 that they may be called a one2 and they may be called a one also for this reason1 because nothing can be taken away from it1 or added to it1 but the quality of the form is changed4 ,what is the human soul but such a form8 are not all things relating to love and all things relating to wisdom essentials of that form8 and are not these things appertaining to a man in his soul1 and by derivation from the soul in his head and body8 ,you are called spirits and angels2 and in the world you believed that spirits and angels are like mere wind or ether1 and thus mere mind and animation2 and now you see clearly that you are truly1 really1 and actually men1 who1 during your abode in the world1 lived and thought in a material body1 and knew that a material body does not live and think1 but a spiritual substance in that body2 and this substance you called the soul1 whose form you then were ignorant of1 but now have seen and continue to see4 ,you all are souls1 of whose immortality you have heard1 thought1 said1 and written so much2 and because you are forms of love and wisdom from ,god1 you can never die4 ,the soul therefore is a human form1 from which the smallest thing cannot be taken away1 and to which the smallest thing cannot be added2 and it is the inmost of all the forms of the whole body3 and since the forms which are without receive from the inmost both essence and form1 therefore you are souls1 as you appear to yourselves and to us3 in a word1 the soul is the very man himself1 because it is the inmost man2 therefore its form is fully and perfectly the human form3 nevertheless it is not life1 but the proximate receptacle of life from ,god1 and thereby the habitation of ,god4 ,when he had thus spoken1 many expressed their approbation2 but some said1 ,we will weigh the matter4 ,i immediately went home1 and lo6 over the gymnasium1 instead of the foregoing meteor1 there appeared a bright cloud1 without streaks or rays that seemed to combat with each other1 and which1 penetrating through the roof1 entered1 and illuminated the walls2 and ,i was informed1 that they saw some pieces of writing1 and among others this1 ,jehovah ,god breathed into the man's nostrils the ,,soul ,,of ,,lives1 and the man became a ,,living ,,soul1 ,gen4 ii4 #g4 #caf4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,some time ago1 as ,i was walking with my mind 7animus7 at rest1 and in a state of delightful mental peace1 ,i saw at a distance a grove1 in the midst of which was an avenue leading to a small palace1 into which maidens and youths1 husbands and wives were entering4 ,i also went thither in spirit1 and asked the keeper who was standing at the entrance1 whether ,i also might enter8 ,he looked at me2 upon which ,i said1 ,why do you look at me8 ,he replied1 ,i look at you that ,i may see whether the delight of peace1 which appears in your face1 partakes at all of the delight of conjugial love4 ,beyond this avenue there is a little garden1 and in the midst of it a house1 where there are two novitiate conjugial partners1 who to-day are visited by their friends of both sexes1 coming to pay their congratulations4 ,i do not know those whom ,i admit2 but ,i was told that ,i should know them by their faces3 those in whom ,i saw the delights of conjugial love1 ,i was to admit1 and none else4 ,all the angels can see from the faces of others the delights of their hearts2 and he saw the delight of that love in my face1 because ,i was then meditating on conjugial love4 ,this meditation beamed forth from my eyes1 and thence entered into the interiors of my face3 he therefore told me that ,i might enter4 ,the avenue through which ,i entered was formed of fruit trees connected together by their branches1 which made on each side a continued espalier4 ,through the avenue ,i entered the little garden1 which breathed a pleasant fragrance from its shrubs and flowers4 ,the shrubs and flowers were in pairs2 and ,i was informed that such little gardens appear about the houses where there are and have been nuptials1 and hence they are called nuptial gardens4 ,i afterwards entered the house1 where ,i saw the two conjugial partners holding each other by the hands1 and conversing together from love truly conjugial2 and as ,i looked1 it was given me to see from their faces the image of conjugial love1 and from their conversation the vital principle thereof4 ,after ,i1 with the rest of the company1 had paid them my respects1 and wished them all happiness1 ,i went into the nuptial garden1 and saw on the right side of it a company of youths1 to whom all who came out of the house resorted4 ,the reason of their resorting to them was1 because they were conversing respecting conjugial love1 and conversation on this subject attracts to it the minds 7animos7 of all by a certain occult power4 ,i then listened to a wise one who was speaking on the subject2 and the sum of what ,i heard is as follows3 ,that the divine providence of the ,lord is most particular and thence most universal in respect to marriages in the heavens3 because all the felicities of heaven issue from the delights of conjugial love1 like sweet waters from the sweet source of a fountain2 and that on this account it is provided by the ,lord that conjugial pairs be born1 and that these pairs be continually educated for marriage1 neither the maiden nor the youth knowing anything of the matter2 and after a stated time1 when they both become marriageable1 they meet as by chance1 and see each other2 and that in this case they instantly know1 as by a kind of instinct1 that they are pairs1 and by a kind of inward dictate think within themselves1 the youth1 that she is mine1 and the maiden1 that he is mine2 and when this thought has existed for some time in the mind of each1 they deliberately accost each other1 and betroth themselves4 ,it is said1 as by chance1 and as by instinct1 and the meaning is1 by the divine providence2 since1 while the divine providence is unknown1 it has such an appearance4 ,that conjugial pairs are born and educated to marriage1 while each party is ignorant of it1 he proved by the conjugial likeness visible in the faces of each2 also by the intimate and eternal union of minds 7animorum7 and minds 7mentium71 which could not possibly exist1 as it does in heaven1 without being foreseen and provided by the ,lord4 ,when the wise one had proceeded thus far with his discourse1 and had received the applauses of the company1 he further added1 that in the minutest things with man1 both male and female1 there is a conjugial principle2 but still the conjugial principle with the male is different from what it is with the female2 also that in the male conjugial principle there is what is conjunctive with the female conjugial principle1 and vice versa1 even in the minutest things4 ,this he confirmed by the marriage of the will and the understanding in every individual1 which two principles act together upon the minutest things of the mind and of the body2 from which considerations it may be seen1 that in every substance1 even the smallest1 there is a conjugial principle2 and that this is evident from the compound substances which are made up of simple substances2 as that there are two eyes1 two ears1 two nostrils1 two cheeks1 two lips1 two arms with hands1 two loins1 two feet1 and within in man two hemispheres of the brain1 two ventricles of the heart1 two lobes of the lungs1 two kidneys1 two testicles2 and where there are not two1 still they are divided into two4 ,the reason why there are two is1 because the one is of the will and the other of the understanding1 which act wonderfully in each other to present a one2 wherefore the two eyes make one sight1 the two ears one hearing1 the two nostrils one smell1 the two lips one speech1 the two hands one labor1 the two feet one pace1 the two hemispheres of the brain one habitation of the mind1 the two chambers of the heart one life of the body by the blood1 the two lobes of the lungs one respiration1 and so forth2 but the male and female principles1 united by love truly conjugial1 constitute one life fully human4 ,while he was saying these things1 there appeared red lightning on the right1 and white lightning on the left2 each was mild1 and they entered through the eyes into the mind1 and also enlightened it4 ,after the lightning it also thundered2 which was a gentle murmur from the angelic heaven flowing down and increasing4 ,on hearing and seeing these things1 the wise one said1 ,these are to remind me to add the following observations3 that of the above pairs1 the right one signifies their good1 and the left their truth2 and that this is from the marriage of good and truth1 which is inscribed on man in general and in every one of his principles2 and good has reference to the will1 and truth to the understanding1 and both together to a one4 ,hence1 in heaven the right eye is the good of vision1 and the left the truth thereof2 also the right ear is the good of hearing1 and the left the truth thereof2 and likewise the right hand is the good of a man's ability1 and the left the truth thereof2 and in like manner in the rest of the above pairs2 and since the right and left have such significations1 therefore the ,lord said1 ',if thy right eye scandalize thee1 pluck it out2 and if thy right hand scandalize thee1 cut it off2' whereby he meant1 if good becomes evil1 the evil must be cast out4 ,this is the reason also why he said to his disciples that they should cast the net on the right side of the ship2 and that when they did so1 they took a great multitude of fishes2 whereby he meant that they should teach the good of charity1 and that thus they would collect men4 ,when he had said these things1 the two lightnings again appeared1 but milder than before2 and then it was seen1 that the lightning on the left derived its whiteness from the red-shining fire of the lightning on the right2 on seeing which he said1 ,this is a sign from heaven tending to confirm what ,i have said2 because what is firy in heaven is good1 and what is white in heaven is truth2 and its being seen that the lightning on the left derived its whiteness from the red-shining fire of the lightning on the right1 is a demonstrative sign that the whiteness of light1 or light1 is merely the splendor of fire4 ,on hearing this all went home1 inflamed with the good and truth of gladness1 in consequence of the above lightnings1 and of the conversation respecting them4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,repeated ,,marriages4 #cag4 ,it may come to be a matter of question1 whether conjugial love1 which is that of one man with one wife1 after the death of one of the parties1 can be separated1 or transferred1 or superinduced2 also whether repeated marriages have any thing in common with polygamy1 and thereby whether they may be called successive polygamies2 with several other inquiries which often add scruples to scruples with men of a reasoning spirit4 ,in order therefore that those who are curious in such researches1 and who only grope in the shade respecting these marriages1 may see some light1 ,i have conceived it would be worth while to present for their consideration the following articles on the subject3 ,i4 ,after the death of a married partner1 again to contract wedlock1 depends on the preceding conjugial love4 ,,ii4 ,it depends also on the state of marriage1 in which the parties had lived4 ,,iii4 ,with those who have not been in love truly conjugial there is no obstacle or hindrance to their again contracting wedlock4 ,,iv4 ,those who had lived together in love truly conjugial are unwilling to marry again1 except for reasons separate from conjugial love4 ,v4 ,the state of the marriage of a youth with a maiden differs from that of a youth with a widow4 ,,vi4 ,the state of the marriage of a widower with a maiden differs also from that of a widower with a widow4 ,,vii4 ,the varieties and diversities of these marriages as to love and its attributes are innumerable4 ,,viii4 ,the state of a widow is more grievous than that of a widower4 ,we proceed to the explanation of each article4 #cah4 ,i4 ,,after ,,the ,,death ,,of ,a ,,married ,,partner1 ,,again ,,to ,,contract ,,wedlock1 ,,depends ,,on ,,the ,,preceding ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,love truly conjugial is like a balance1 in which the inclinations for repeated marriages are weighed3 so far as the preceding conjugial love had been genuine1 so far the inclination for another marriage is weak2 but so far as the preceding love had not been genuine1 so far the inclination to another marriage is usually strong4 ,the reason of this is obvious2 because conjugial love is in a similar degree a conjunction of minds1 which remains in the life of the body of the one party after the decease of the other2 and this holds the inclination as a scale in a balance1 and causes a preponderance according to the appropriation of true love4 ,but since the approach to this love is seldom made at this day except for a few paces1 therefore the scale of the preponderance of the inclination generally rises to a state of equilibrium1 and from thence inclines and tends to the other side1 that is1 to marriage4 ,the contrary is the case with those1 whose preceding-love in the former marriage has not been truly conjugial1 because in proportion as that love is not genuine1 there is in a like degree a disjunction of minds1 which also remains in the life of the body of the one party after the decease of the other2 and this enters the will disjoined from that of the other1 and causes an inclination for a new connection2 in favor of which the thought arising from the inclination of the will induces the hope of a more united1 and thereby a more delightful connection4 ,that inclinations to repeated marriages arise from the state of the preceding love1 is well known1 and is also obvious to reason3 for love truly conjugial is influenced by a fear of loss1 and loss is followed by grief2 and this grief and fear reside in the very inmost principles of the mind4 ,hence1 so far as that love prevails1 so far the soul inclines both in will and in thought1 that is1 in intention1 to be in the subject with and in which it was3 from these considerations it follows1 that the mind is kept balancing towards another marriage according to the degree of love in which it was in the former marriage4 ,hence it is that after death the same parties are re-united1 and mutually love each other as they did in the world3 but as we said above1 such love at this day is rare1 and there are few who make the slightest approach to it2 and those who do not approach it1 and still more those who keep at a distance from it1 as they were desirous of separation in the matrimonial life heretofore passed1 so after death they are desirous of being united to another4 ,but respecting both these sorts of persons more will be said in what follows4 #cai4 ,,ii4 ,,after ,,the ,,death ,,of ,a ,,married ,,partner1 ,,again ,,to ,,contract ,,wedlook1 ,,depends ,,also ,,on ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,marriage ,,in ,,which ,,the ,,parties ,,had ,,lived4 ,by the ,state of marriage here we do not mean the state of love treated of in the foregoing article1 because the latter causes an internal inclination to marriage or from it2 but we mean the state of marriage which causes an external inclination to it or from it2 and this state with its inclinations is manifold3 as1 #a4 ,if there are children in the house1 and a new mother is to be provided for them4 #b4 ,if there is a wish for a further increase of children4 #c4 ,if the house is large and full of servants of both sexes4 #d4 ,if the calls of business abroad divert the mind from domestic concerns1 and without a new mistress there is reason to fear misery and misfortune4 #e4 ,if mutual aids and offices require that married partners be engaged in various occupations and employments4 #f4 ,moreover it depends on the temper and disposition of the separated partner1 whether after the first marriage the other partner can or cannot live alone1 or without a consort4 #g4 ,the preceding marriage also disposes the mind either to be afraid of married life1 or in favor of it4 #h4 ,i have been informed that polygamical love and the love of the sex1 also the lust of deflowering and the lust of variety1 have induced the minds 7animos7 of some to desire repeated marriages2 and that the minds of some have also been induced thereto by a fear of the law and of the loss of reputation1 in case they commit whoredom3 besides several other circumstances which promote external inclinations to matrimony4 #cbj4 ,,iii4 ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,have ,,not ,,been ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,there ,,is ,,no ,,obstacle ,,or ,,hindrance ,,to ,,their ,,again ,,contracting ,,wedlock4 ,with those who have not been principled in conjugial love1 there is no spiritual or internal1 but only a natural or external bond2 and if an internal bond does not keep the external in its order and tenor1 the latter is but like a bundle when the bandage is removed1 which flows every way according as it is tossed or driven by the wind4 ,the reason of this is1 because what is natural derives its origin from what is spiritual1 and in its existence is merely a mass collected from spiritual principles2 wherefore if the natural be separated from the spiritual1 which produced and as it were begot it1 it is no longer kept together interiorly1 but only exteriorly by the spiritual1 which encompasses and binds it in general1 and does not tie it and keep it tied together in particular4 ,hence it is1 that the natural principle separated from the spiritual1 in the case of two married partners1 does not cause any conjunction of minds1 and consequently of wills1 but only a conjunction of some external affections1 which are connected with the bodily senses4 ,the reason why nothing opposes and hinders such persons from again contracting wedlock1 is1 because they have not been the essentials of marriage2 and hence those essentials do not at all influence them after separation by death3 therefore they are then absolutely at their own disposal1 whether they be widowers or widows1 to bind their sensual affections with whomsoever they please1 provided there be no legal impediment4 ,neither do they themselves think of marriages in any other than a natural view1 and from a regard to convenience in supplying various necessities and external advantages1 which after the death of one of the parties may again be supplied by another2 and possibly1 if their interior thoughts were viewed1 as in the spiritual world1 there would not be found in them any distinction between conjugial unions and extra-conjugial connections4 ,the reason why it is allowable for these to contract repeated marriages1 is1 as above-mentioned1 because merely natural connections are after death of themselves dissolved and fall asunder2 for by death the external affections follow the body1 and are entombed with it2 those only remaining which are connected with internal principles4 ,but it is to be observed1 that marriages interiorly conjunctive can scarcely be entered into in the world1 because elections of internal likenesses cannot there be provided by the ,lord as in the heavens2 for they are limited in many ways1 as to equals in rank and condition1 within the country1 city1 and village where they live2 and in the world for the most part married partners are held together merely by externals1 and thus not by internals1 which internals do not shew themselves till some time after marriage1 and are only known when they influence the externals4 #cba4 ,,iv4 ,,those ,,who ,,had ,,lived ,,together ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,are ,,unwilling ,,to ,,marry ,,again1 ,,except ,,for ,,reasons ,,separate ,,from ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,the reasons why those who had lived in love truly conjugial1 after the death of their married partners are unwilling to marry again1 are as follow4 #a4 ,because they were united as to their souls1 and thence as to their minds2 and this union1 being spiritual1 is an actual junction of the soul and mind of one of the parties to those of the other1 which cannot possibly be dissolved2 that such is the nature of spiritual conjunction1 has been constantly shewn above4 #b4 ,because they were also united as to their bodies by the receptions of the propagation of the soul of the husband by the wife1 and thus by the insertion of his life into hers1 whereby a maiden becomes a wife2 and on the other hand by the reception of the conjugial love of the wife by the husband1 which disposes the interiors of his mind1 and at the same time the interiors and exteriors of his body1 into a state receptible of love and perceptible of wisdom1 which makes him from a youth become a husband2 see above1 n4 #aih4 #c4 ,because a sphere of love from the wife1 and a sphere of understanding from the man1 is continually flowing forth1 and because it perfects conjunctions1 and encompasses them with its pleasant influence1 and unites them2 see also above1 n4 #bbc4 #d4 ,because married partners thus united think of1 and desire what is eternal1 and because on this idea their eternal happiness is founded2 see n4 #baf4 #e4 ,from these several considerations it is1 that they are no longer two1 but one man1 that is1 one flesh4 #f4 ,that such a union cannot be destroyed by the death of one of the parties1 is manifest to the sight of a spirit4 #g4 ,to the above considerations shall be added this new information1 that two such conjugial partners1 after the death of one1 are still not separated2 since the spirit of the deceased dwells continually with that of the survivor1 and this even to the death of the latter1 when they again meet and are reunited1 and love each other more tenderly than before1 because they are then in the spiritual world4 ,hence flows this undeniable consequence1 that those who had lived in love truly conjugial1 are unwilling to marry again4 ,but if they afterwards contract something like marriage1 it is for reasons separate from conjugial love1 which are all external2 as in case there are young children in the house1 and the care of them requires attention2 if the house is large and full of servants of both sexes2 if the calls of business abroad divert the mind from domestic concerns2 if mutual aids and offices are necessary2 with other cases of a like nature4 #cbb4 ,v4 ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,a ,,youth ,,with ,a ,,maiden ,,differs ,,from ,,that ,,of ,a ,,youth ,,with ,a ,,widow4 ,by states of marriage we mean the states of the life of each party1 the husband and the wife1 after the nuptials1 thus in the marriage1 as to the quality of the intercourse at that time1 whether it be internal1 that is of souls and minds1 which is intercourse in the principle idea1 or whether it be only external1 that is of minds 7animorum71 of the senses1 and of the body4 ,the state of marriage of a youth with a maiden is essentially itself initiatory to genuine marriage2 for between these conjugial love can proceed in its just order1 which is from its first heat to its first torch1 and afterwards from its first seed with the youth-husband1 and from its first flower with the maiden-wife1 and thus generate1 grow1 and fructify1 and introduce itself into those successive states with both parties mutually2 but if otherwise1 the youth or the maiden was not really such1 but only in external form4 ,but between a youth and a widow there is not such an initiation to marriage from first principles1 nor a like progression in marriage1 since a widow is more at her own disposal1 and under her own jurisdiction1 than a maiden2 wherefore a youth addresses himself differently to his wife if she were a widow1 from what he does if she were a maiden4 ,but herein there is much variety and diversity2 therefore the subject is here mentioned only in a general way4 #cbc4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,a ,,widower ,,with ,a ,,maiden ,,differs ,,also ,,from ,,that ,,of ,a ,,widower ,,with ,a ,,widow4 ,for a widower has already been initiated into married life which a maiden has to be2 and yet conjugial love perceives and is sensible of its pleasantness and delight in mutual initiation2 a youth-husband and a maiden-wife perceive and are sensible of things ever new in whatever occurs1 whereby they are in a kind of continual initiation and consequent amiable progression4 ,the case is otherwise in the state of the marriage of a widower with a maiden3 the maiden-wife has an internal inclination1 whereas with the man that inclination has passed away2 but herein there is much variety and diversity3 the case is similar in a marriage between a widower and a widow2 however1 except this general notion1 it is not allowable to add anything specifically4 #cbd4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,varieties ,,and ,,diversities ,,of ,,these ,,marriages ,,as ,,to ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,attributes ,,are ,,innumerable4 ,there is an infinite variety of all things1 and also an infinite diversity4 ,by varieties we here mean the varieties between those things which are of one genus or species1 also between the genera and species2 but by diversities we here mean the diversities between those things which are opposite4 ,our idea of the distinction of varieties and diversities may be illustrated as follows3 ,the angelic heaven1 which is connected as a one1 in an infinite variety1 no one there being absolutely like another1 either as to souls and minds1 or as to affections1 perceptions1 and consequent thoughts1 or as to inclinations and consequent intentions1 or as to tone of voice1 face1 body1 gesture1 and gait1 and several other particulars1 and yet1 notwithstanding there are myriads of myriads1 they have been and are arranged by the ,lord into one form1 in which there is full unanimity and concord2 and this could not possibly be1 unless they were all1 with their innumerable varieties1 universally and individually under the guidance of one3 these are what we here mean by varieties4 ,but by diversities we mean the opposites of those varieties1 which exist in hell2 for the inhabitants there are diametrically opposite to those in heaven2 and hell1 which consists of such1 is kept together as a one by varieties in themselves altogether contrary to the varieties in heaven1 thus by perpetual diversities4 ,from these considerations it is evident what is perceived by infinite variety and infinite diversity4 ,the case is the same in marriages1 namely1 that there are infinite varieties with those who are in conjugial love1 and infinite varieties with those who are in adulterous love2 and hence1 that there are infinite diversities between the latter and the former4 ,from these premises it follows1 that the varieties and diversities in marriages of every genus and species1 whether of a youth with a maiden1 or of a youth with a widow1 or of a widower with a maiden1 or of a widower with a widow exceed all number3 who can divide infinity into numbers8 #cbe4 ,,viii4 ,,the ,,state ,,of ,a ,,widow ,,is ,,more ,,grievous ,,than ,,that ,,of ,a ,,widower4 ,the reasons for this are both external and internal2 the external are such as all can comprehend2 as3 #a4 ,that a widow cannot provide for herself and her family the necessaries of life1 nor dispose of them when acquired1 as a man can and as she previously did by and with her husband4 #b4 ,that neither can she defend herself and her family as is expedient2 for1 while she was a wife1 her husband was her defence1 and as it were her arm2 and while she herself was her own 7defence and arm71 she still trusted to her husband4 #c4 ,that of herself she is deficient of counsel in such things as relate to interior wisdom and the prudence thence derived4 #d4 ,that a widow is without the reception of love1 in which as a woman she is principled2 thus she is in a state contrary to that which was innate and induced by marriage4 ,these external reasons1 which are natural1 have their origin from internal reasons also1 which are spiritual1 like all other things in the world and in the body2 respecting which see above1 n4 #bbj4 ,those external natural reasons are perceived from the internal spiritual reasons which proceed from the marriage of good and truth1 and principally from the following3 that good cannot provide or arrange anything but by truth2 that neither can good defend itself but by truth2 consequently that truth is the defence and as it were the arm of good2 that good without truth is deficient of counsel1 because it has counsel1 wisdom1 and prudence by means of truth4 ,now since by creation the husband is truth1 and the wife the good thereof2 or1 what is the same thing1 since by creation the husband is understanding1 and the wife the love thereof1 it is evident that the external or natural reasons1 which aggravate the widowhood of a woman1 have their origin from internal or spiritual reasons4 ,these spiritual reasons1 together with natural1 are meant by what is said of widows in several passages in the ,word2 as may be seen in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #gfd4 99 99 99 99 99 #cbf4 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,after the problem concerning the soul had been discussed and solved in the gymnasium1 ,i saw them coming out in order3 first came the chief teacher1 then the elders1 in the midst of whom were the five youths who had given the answers1 and after these the rest4 ,when they were come out they went apart to the environs of the house1 where there were piazzas surrounded by shrubs2 and being assembled1 they divided themselves into small companies1 which were so many groups of youths conversing together on subjects of wisdom1 in each of which was one of the wise persons from the orchestra4 ,as ,i saw these from my apartment1 ,i became in the spirit1 and in that state ,i went out to them1 and approached the chief teacher1 who had lately proposed the problem concerning the soul4 ,on seeing me1 he said4 ,who are you8 ,i was surprised as ,i saw you approaching in the way1 that at one instant you came into my sight1 and the next instant went out of it2 or that at one time ,i saw you1 and suddenly ,i did not see you3 assuredly you are not in the same state of life that we are4 ,to this ,i replied1 smiling1 ,i am neither a player nor a vertumnus2 but ,i am alternate1 at one time in your light1 and at another in your shade2 thus both a foreigner and a native4 ,hereupon the chief teacher looked at me1 and said1 ,you speak things strange and wonderful3 tell me who you are4 ,i said1 ,i am in the world in which you have been1 and from which you have departed1 and which is called the natural world2 and ,i am also in the world into which you have come1 and in which you are1 which is called the spiritual world4 ,hence ,i am in a natural state1 and at the same time in a spiritual state2 in a natural state with men of the earth and in a spiritual state with you2 and when ,i am in the natural state1 you do not see me1 but when ,i am in the spiritual state1 you do2 that such should be my condition1 has been granted me by the ,lord4 ,it is known to you1 illustrious sir1 that a man of the natural world does not see a man of the spiritual world1 nor vice versa2 therefore when ,i let my spirit into the body1 you did not see me2 but when ,i let it out of the body1 you did see me4 ,you have been teaching in the gymnasium1 that you are souls1 and that souls see souls1 because they are human forms2 and you know1 that when you were in the natural world1 you did not see yourself or your souls in your bodies2 and this is a consequence of the difference between what is spiritual and what is natural4 ,when he heard of the difference between what is spiritual and what is natural1 he said1 ,what do you mean by that difference8 is it not like the difference between what is more or less pure8 for what is spiritual but that which is natural in a higher state of purity8 ,i replied1 ,the difference is of another kind2 it is like that between prior and posterior1 which bear no determinate proportion to each other3 for the prior is in the posterior as the cause is in the effect2 and the posterior is derived from the prior as the effect from its cause3 hence1 the one does not appear to the other4 ,to this the chief teacher replied1 ,i have meditated and ruminated upon this difference1 but heretofore in vain2 ,i wish ,i could perceive it4 ,i said1 ,you shall not only perceive the difference between what is spiritual and what is natural1 but shall also see it4 ,i then proceeded as follows3 ,you yourself are in a spiritual state with your associate spirits1 but in a natural state with me2 for you converse with your associates in the spiritual language1 which is common to every spirit and angel1 but with me in my mother tongue2 for every spirit and angel1 when conversing with a man1 speaks his peculiar language2 thus ,french with a ,frenchman1 ,english with an ,englishman1 ,greek with a ,greek1 ,arabic with an ,arabian1 and so forth4 ,that you may know therefore the difference between what is spiritual and what is natural in respect to languages1 make this experiment2 withdraw to your associates1 and say something there3 then retain the expressions1 and return with them in your memory1 and utter them before me4 ,he did so1 and returned to me with those expressions in his mouth1 and uttered them2 and they were altogether strange and foreign1 such as do not occur in any language of the natural world4 ,by this experiment several times repeated1 it was made very evident that all the spiritual world have the spiritual language1 which has in it nothing that is common to any natural language1 and that every man comes of himself into the use of that language after his decease4 ,at the same time also he experienced1 that the sound of the spiritual language differs so far from the sound of natural language1 that a spiritual sound1 though loud1 could not at all be heard by a natural man1 nor a natural sound by a spirit4 ,afterwards ,i requested the chief teacher and the bystanders to withdraw to their associates1 and write some sentence or other on a piece of paper1 and then return with it to me1 and read it4 ,they did so1 and returned with the paper in their hand2 but when they read it1 they could not understand any part of it1 as the writing consisted only of some letters of the alphabet1 with turns over them1 each of which was significative of some particular sense and meaning3 because each letter of the alphabet is thus significative1 it is evident why the ,lord is called ,alpha and ,omega4 ,on their repeatedly withdrawing1 and writing in the same manner1 and returning to me1 they found that their writing involved and comprehended innumerable things which no natural writing could possibly express2 and they were given to understand1 that this was in consequence of the spiritual man's thoughts being incomprehensible and ineffable to the natural man1 and such as cannot flow and be brought into any other writing or language4 ,then as some present were unwilling to comprehend that spiritual thought so far exceeds natural thought1 as to be respectively ineffable1 ,i said to them1 ,make the experiment2 withdraw into your spiritual society1 and think on some subject1 and retain your thoughts1 and return1 and express them before me4 ,they did so2 but when they wanted to express the subject thought of1 they were unable2 for they did not find any idea of natural thought adequate to any idea of spiritual thought1 consequently no words expressive of it2 for ideas of thought are constituent of the words of language4 ,this experiment they repeated again and again2 whereby they were convinced that spiritual ideas are supernatural1 inexpressible1 ineffable1 and incomprehensible to the natural man2 and on account of this their super-eminence1 they said1 that spiritual ideas1 or thoughts1 as compared with natural1 were ideas of ideas1 and thoughts of thoughts2 and that therefore they were expressive of qualities of qualities1 and affections of affections2 consequently that spiritual thoughts were the beginnings and origins of natural thoughts3 hence also it was made evident that spiritual wisdom was the wisdom of wisdom1 consequently that it was imperceptible to any wise man in the natural world4 ,it was then told them from the third heaven1 that there is a wisdom still interior and superior1 which is called celestial1 bearing a proportion to spiritual wisdom like that which spiritual wisdom bears to natural1 and that these descend by an orderly influx according to the heavens from the divine wisdom of the ,lord1 which is infinite4 #cbg4 ,after this ,i said to the by-standers1 ,you have seen from these three experimental proofs what is the difference between spiritual and natural1 and also the reason why the natural man does not appear to the spiritual1 nor the spiritual to the natural1 although they are consociated as to affections and thoughts1 and thence as to presence4 ,hence it is that1 as ,i approached1 at one time you1 ,sir1 7addressing the chief teacher71 saw me1 and at another you did not4 ,after this1 a voice was heard from the superior heaven to the chief teacher1 saying1 ,come up hither2 and he went up3 and on his return1 he said1 that the angels1 as well as himself1 did not before know the differences between spiritual and natural1 because there had never before been an opportunity of comparing them together1 by any person's existing at the same time in both worlds2 and without such comparison and reference those differences were not ascertainable4 #cbh4 ,after this we retired1 and conversing again on this subject1 ,i said1 ,those differences originate solely in this circumstance of your existence in the spiritual world1 that you are in substantials and not in materials3 and substantials are the beginning of materials4 ,you are in principles and thereby in singulars2 but we are in principiates and composites2 you are in particulars1 but we are in generals2 and as generals cannot enter into particulars1 so neither can natural things1 which are material1 enter into spiritual things which are substantial1 any more than a ship's cable can enter into1 or be drawn though1 the eye of a fine needle2 or than a nerve can enter or be let into one of the fibres of which it is composed1 or a fibre into one of the fibrils of which it is composed3 this also is known in the world3 therefore herein the learned are agreed1 that there is no such thing as an influx of what is natural into what is spiritual1 but of what is spiritual into what is natural4 ,this now is the reason why the natural man cannot conceive that which the spiritual man conceives1 nor consequently express such conceptions2 wherefore ,paul calls what he heard from the third heaven ineffable4 ,moreover1 to think spiritually is to think abstractedly from space and time1 and to think naturally is to think in conjunction with space and time2 for in every idea of natural thought there is something derived from space and time1 which is not the case with any spiritual idea2 because the spiritual world is not in space and time1 like the natural world1 but in the appearances of space and time4 ,in this respect also spiritual thoughts and perceptions differ from natural2 therefore you can think of the essence and omnipresence of ,god from eternity1 that is1 of ,god before the creation of the world1 since you think of the essence of ,god from eternity abstracted from time1 and of his omnipresence abstracted from space1 and thus comprehend such things as transcend the ideas of the natural man4 ,i then related to them1 how ,i once thought of the essence and omnipresence of ,god from eternity1 that is of ,god before the creation of the world2 and that because ,i could not yet remove spaces and times from the ideas of my thought1 ,i was brought into anxiety2 for the idea of nature entered instead of ,god3 but it was said to me1 ,remove the ideas of space and time1 and you will see4 ,i did so and then ,i saw2 and from that time ,i was enabled to think of ,god from eternity1 and not of nature from eternity2 because ,god is in all time without time1 and in all space without space1 whereas nature in all time is in time1 and in all space in space2 and nature with her time and space1 must of necessity have a beginning and a birth1 but not ,god who is without time1 and space2 therefore nature is from ,god1 not from eternity1 but in time1 that is1 together with her time and space4 #cbi4 ,after the chief teacher and the rest of the assembly had left me1 some boys who were also engaged in the gymnasian exercise1 followed me home1 and stood near me for a little while as ,i was writing3 and lo6 at that instant they saw a moth running upon my paper1 and asked in surprise what was the name of that nimble little creature8 ,i said1 ,it is called a moth2 and ,i will tell you some wonderful things respecting it4 ,this little animal contains in itself as many members and viscera as there are in a camel1 such as brains1 hearts1 pulmonary pipes1 organs of sense1 motion1 and generation1 a stomach1 intestines1 and several others2 and each of these organs consists of fibres1 nerves1 blood-vessels1 muscles1 tendons1 membranes2 and each of these of still purer parts1 which escape the observation of the keenest eye4 ,they then said that this little animal appeared to them just like a simple substance2 upon which ,i said1 ,there are nevertheless innumerable things within it4 ,i mention these things that you may know1 that the case is similar in regard to every object which appears before you as one1 simple and least1 as well in your actions as in your affections and thoughts4 ,i can assure you that every grain of thought1 that every drop of your affection1 is divisible ad infinitum3 and that in proportion as your ideas are divisible1 so you are wise4 ,know then1 that every thing divided is more and more multiple1 and not more and more simple2 because what is continually divided approaches nearer and nearer to the infinite1 in which all things are infinitely4 ,what ,i am now observing to you is new and heretofore unheard of4 ,when ,i concluded1 the boys took their leave of me1 and went to the chief teacher1 and intreated him to take an opportunity to propose in the gymnasium somewhat new and unheard of as a problem4 ,he inquired1 ,what8 they said1 ,that every thing divided is more and more multiple1 and not more and more simple2 because it approaches nearer and nearer to the infinite1 in which all things are infinitely3 and he pledged himself to propose it1 and said1 ,i see this1 because ,i have perceived that one natural idea contains innumerable spiritual ideas2 yea1 that one spiritual idea contains innumerable celestial ideas4 ,herein is grounded the difference between the celestial wisdom of the angels of the third heaven1 and the spiritual wisdom of the angels of the second heaven1 and also the natural wisdom of the angels of the last heaven and likewise of men4 #ccj4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,i once heard a pleasant discussion between some men respecting the female sex1 whether it be possible for a woman to love her husband1 who constantly loves her own beauty1 that is1 who loves herself from her form4 ,they agreed among themselves first1 that women have two-fold beauty2 one natural1 which is that of the face and body1 and the other spiritual which is that of the love and manners2 they agreed also1 that these two kinds of beauty are often divided in the natural world1 and are always united in the spiritual world2 for in the latter world beauty is the form of the love and manners2 therefore after death it frequently happens that deformed women become beauties1 and beautiful women become deformities4 ,while the men were discussing this point1 there came some wives1 and said1 ,admit of our presence2 because what you are discussing1 you have learned by science1 but we are taught it by experience2 and you likewise know so little of the love of wives1 that it scarcely amounts to any knowledge4 ,do you know that the prudence of the wives' wisdom consists in hiding their love from their husbands in the inmost recess of their bosoms1 or in the midst of their hearts8 ,the discussion then proceeded2 and the ,,first ,,conclusion made by the men was1 ,that every woman is willing to appear beautiful as to face and manners1 because she is born an affection of love1 and the form of this affection is beauty2 therefore a woman that is not desirous to be beautiful1 is not desirous to love and to be loved1 and consequently is not truly a woman4 ,hereupon the wives observed1 ,the beauty of a woman resides in soft tenderness1 and consequently in exquisite sensibility2 hence comes the woman's love for the man1 and the man's for the woman4 ,this possibly you do not understand4 ,the ,,second ,,conclusion of the men was1 ,that a woman before marriage is desirous to be beautiful for the men1 but after marriage1 if she be chaste1 for one man only1 and not for the men4 ,hereupon the wives observed4 ,when the husband has sipped the natural beauty of the wife1 he sees it no longer1 but sees her spiritual beauty2 and from this he re-loves1 and recalls the natural beauty1 but under another aspect4 ,the ,,third ,,conclusion of their discussion was1 ,that if a woman after marriage is desirous to appear beautiful in like manner as before marriage1 she loves the men1 and not a man3 because a woman loving herself from her beauty is continually desirous that her beauty should be sipped2 and as this no longer appears to her husband1 as you observed1 she is desirous that it may be sipped by the men to whom it appears4 ,it is evident that such a one has a love of the sex1 and not a love of one of the sex4 ,hereupon the wives were silent2 yet they murmured1 ,what woman is so void of vanity1 as not to desire to seem beautiful to the men also1 at the same time that she seems beautiful to one man only8 ,these things were heard by some wives from heaven1 who were beautiful1 because they were heavenly affections4 ,they confirmed the conclusions of the men2 but they added1 ,let them only love their beauty and its ornaments for the sake of their husbands1 and from them4 #cca4 ,those three wives being indignant that the three conclusions of the men were confirmed by the wives from heaven1 said to the men1 ,you have inquired whether a woman that loves herself from her beauty1 loves her husband2 we in our turn will therefore inquire whether a man who loves himself from his intelligence1 can love his wife4 ,be present and hear4 ,this was their ,,first ,,conclusion2 ,no wife loves her husband on account of his face1 but on account of his intelligence in his business and manners3 know therefore1 that a wife unites herself with a man's intelligence and thereby with the man3 therefore if a man loves himself on account of his intelligence1 he withdraws it from the wife into himself1 whence comes disunion and not union3 moreover to love his own intelligence is to be wise from himself1 and this is to be insane2 therefore it is to love his own insanity4 ,hereupon the men observed1 ,possibly the wife unites herself with the man's strength or ability4 ,at this the wives smiled1 saying1 ,there is no deficiency of ability while the man loves the wife from intelligence2 but there is if he loves her from insanity4 ,intelligence consists in loving the wife only3 and in this love there is no deficiency of ability2 but insanity consists in not loving the wife but the sex1 and in this love there is a deficiency of ability4 ,you comprehend this4 ,the ,,second ,,conclusion was2 ,we women are born into the love of the men's intelligence2 therefore if the men love their own intelligence1 it cannot be united with its genuine love1 which belongs to the wife2 and if the man's intelligence is not united with its genuine love1 which belongs to the wife1 it becomes insanity grounded in haughtiness1 and conjugial love becomes cold4 ,what woman in such case can unite her love to what is cold2 and what man can unite the insanity of his haughtiness to the love of intelligence8 ,but the men said1 ,whence has a man honor from his wife but by her magnifying his intelligence8 ,the wives replied1 ,from love1 because love honors2 and honor cannot be separated from love1 but love maybe from honor4 ,afterwards they came to this ,,third ,,conclusion2 ,you seemed as if you loved your wives2 and you do not see that you are loved by them1 and thus that you re-love2 and that your intelligence is a receptacle3 if therefore you love your intelligence in yourselves1 it becomes the receptacle of your love2 and the love of proprium 7or self-hood71 since it cannot endure an equal1 never becomes conjugial love2 but so long as it prevails1 so long it remains adulterous4 ,hereupon the men were silent2 nevertheless they murmured1 ,what is conjugial love8 ,some husbands in heaven heard what passed1 and confirmed thence the three conclusions of the wives4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,polygamy4 #ccb4 ,the reason why polygamical marriages are absolutely condemned by the ,christian world cannot be clearly seen by any one1 whatever powers of acute and ingenious investigation he may possess1 unless he be previously instructed1 ,,that ,,there ,,exists ,a ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial2 ,,that ,,this ,,love ,,can ,,only ,,exist ,,between ,,two2 ,,nor ,,between ,,two1 ,,except ,,from ,,the ,,lord ,,alone2 ,,and ,,that ,,into ,,this ,,love ,,is ,,inserted ,,heaven ,,with ,,all ,,its ,,felicities4 ,unless these knowledges precede1 and as it were lay the first stone1 it is in vain for the mind to desire to draw from the understanding any reasons for the condemnation of polygamy by the ,christian world1 which should be satisfactory1 and on which it may firmly stand1 as a house upon its stone or foundation4 ,it is well known1 that the institution of monogamical marriage is founded on the ,word of the ,lord1 ,that whosoever putteth away his wife1 except on account of whoredom1 and marrieth another1 committeth adultery2 and that from the beginning1 or from the first establishment of marriages1 it was 7ordained71 that two should become one flesh2 and that man should not separate what ,god hath joined together1 ,matt4 xix4 #c-ab4 ,but although the ,lord spake these words from the divine law inscribed on marriages1 still if the understanding cannot support that law by some reason of its own1 it may so warp it by the turnings and windings to which it is accustomed1 and by sinister interpretations1 as to render its principle obscure and ambiguous1 and at length affirmative negative2--affirmative1 because it is also grounded in the civil law2 and negative1 because it is not grounded in a rational view of those words4 ,into this principle the human mind will fall1 unless it be previously instructed respecting the above-mentioned knowledges1 which may be serviceable to the understanding as introductory to its reasons3 these knowledges are1 that there exists a love truly conjugial2 that this love can only possibly exist between two2 nor between two1 except from the ,lord alone2 and that into this love is inserted heaven with all its felicities4 ,but these1 and several other particulars respecting the condemnation of polygamy by the ,christian world1 we will demonstrate in the following order3 ,i4 ,love truly conjugial can only exist with one wife1 consequently neither can friendship1 confidence1 ability truly conjugial1 and such conjunction of minds that two may be one flesh4 ,,ii4 ,thus celestial blessednesses1 spiritual satisfactions1 and natural delights1 which from the beginning were provided for those who are in love truly conjugial1 can only exist with one wife4 ,,iii4 ,all those things can only exist from the ,lord alone2 and they do not exist with any but those who come to him alone1 and at the same time live according to his commandments4 ,,iv4 ,consequently1 love truly conjugial1 with its felicities1 can only exist with those who are of the ,christian church4 ,v4 ,therefore a ,christian is not allowed to marry more than one wife4 ,,vi4 ,if a ,christian marries several wives1 he commits not only natural but also spiritual adultery4 ,,vii4 ,the ,israelitish nation was permitted to marry several wives1 because they had not the ,christian church1 and consequently love truly conjugial could not exist with them4 ,,viii4 ,at this day the ,mahometans are permitted to marry several wives1 because they do not acknowledge the ,lord ,jesus ,christ to be one with ,jehovah the ,father1 and thereby to be the ,god of heaven and earth2 and hence they cannot receive love truly conjugial4 ,,ix4 ,the ,mahometan heaven is out of the ,christian heaven and is divided into two heavens1 the inferior and the superior2 and only those are elevated into their superior heaven who renounce concubines and live with one wife1 and acknowledge our ,lord as equal to ,god the ,father1 to whom is given dominion over heaven and earth4 ,x4 ,polygamy is lasciviousness4 ,,xi4 ,conjugial chastity1 purity1 and sanctity1 cannot exist with polygamists4 ,,xii4 ,polygamists1 so long as they remain such1 cannot become spiritual4 ,,xiii4 ,polygamy is not sin with those who live in it from a religious notion4 ,,xiv4 ,that polygamy is not sin with those who are in ignorance respecting the ,lord4 ,,xv4 ,that of these1 although polygamists1 such are saved as acknowledge ,god1 and from a religious notion live according to the civil laws of justice4 ,,xvi4 ,but none either of the latter or of the former can be associated with the angels in the ,christian heavens4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #ccc4 ,i4 ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,can ,,only ,,exist ,,with ,,one ,,wife1 ,,consistently ,,neither ,,can ,,friendship1 ,,confidence1 ,,ability ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,and ,,such ,a ,,conjunction ,,of ,,minds ,,that ,,two ,,may ,,be ,,one ,,flesh4 ,that love truly conjugial is at this day so rare as to be generally unknown1 is a subject which has been occasionally inquired into above2 that nevertheless such love actually exists1 was demonstrated in its proper chapter1 and occasionally in following chapters4 ,but apart from such demonstration1 who does not know that there is such a love1 which1 for excellency and satisfaction1 is paramount to all other loves1 so that all other loves in respect to it are of little account8 ,that it exceeds self-love1 the love of the world1 and even the love of life1 experience testifies in a variety of cases4 ,have there not been1 and are there not still1 instances of men1 who for a woman1 the dear and desired object of their wishes1 prostrate themselves on their knees1 adore her as a goddess1 and submit themselves as the vilest slaves to her will and pleasure8 a plain proof that this love exceeds the love of self4 ,have there not been1 and are there not still instances of men1 who for such a woman1 make light of wealth1 yea of treasures presented in prospect1 and are also prodigal of those which they possess8 a plain proof that this love exceeds the love of the world4 ,have there not been1 and are there not still1 instances of men who for such a woman1 account life itself as worthless1 and desire to die rather than be disappointed in their wishes1 as is evidenced by the many fatal combats between rival lovers on such occasions8 a plain proof that this love exceeds the love of life4 ,lastly1 have there not been1 and are there not still1 instances of men1 who for such a woman1 have gone raving mad in consequence of being denied a place in her favor8 ,from such a commencement of this love in several cases1 who cannot rationally conclude1 that1 from its essence1 it holds supreme dominion over every other love2 and that the man's soul in such case is in it1 and promises itself eternal blessedness with the dear and desired object of its wishes8 ,and who can discover1 let him make what inquiry he pleases1 any other cause of this than that he has devoted his soul and heart to one woman8 for if the lover1 while he is in that state1 had the offer made him of choosing out of the whole sex the worthiest1 the richest1 and the most beautiful1 would he not despise the offer1 and adhere to her whom he had already chosen1 his heart being riveted to her alone8 ,these observations are made in order that you may acknowledge1 that conjugial love of such super-eminence exists1 while one of the sex alone is loved4 ,what understanding which with quick discernment attends to a chain of connected reasonings1 cannot hence conclude1 that if a lover from his inmost soul constantly persisted in love to that one1 he would attain those eternal blessednesses which he promised himself before consent1 and promises in consent8 ,that he also does attain them if he comes to the ,lord1 and from him lives a life of true religion1 was shewn above4 ,who but the ,lord enters the life of man from a superior principle1 and implants therein internal celestial joys1 and transfers them to the derivative principles which follow in order2 and the more so1 while at the same time he also bestows an enduring strength or ability8 ,it is no proof that such love does not exist1 or cannot exist1 to urge that it is not experienced in one's self1 and in this or that person4 #ccd4 ,since love truly conjugial unites the souls and hearts of two persons1 therefore also it is united with friendship1 and by friendship with confidence1 and makes each conjugial1 and so exalts them above other friendships and confidences1 that as that love is the chief love1 so also that friendship and that confidence are the chief3 that this is the case also with ability1 is plain from several reasons1 some of which are discovered in the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation that follows this chapter2 and from this ability follows the endurance of that love4 ,that by love truly conjugial two consorts become one flesh1 was shewn in a separate chapter1 from n4 #aef-ahc4 #cce4 ,,ii4 ,,thus ,,celestial ,,blessedness1 ,,spiritual ,,satisfactions1 ,,and ,,natural ,,delights1 ,,which ,,from ,,the ,,beginning ,,were ,,provided ,,for ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 ,,can ,,only ,,exist ,,with ,,one ,,wife4 ,they are called celestial blessednesses1 spiritual satisfactions1 and natural delights1 because the human mind is distinguished into three regions1 of which the highest is called celestial1 the second spiritual1 and the third natural2 and those three regions1 with such as are principled in love truly conjugial1 are open1 and influx follows in order according to the openings4 ,and as the pleasantnesses of that love are most eminent in the highest regions1 they are perceived as blessednesses1 and as in the middle region they are less eminent1 they are perceived as satisfactions1 and lastly1 in the lowest region1 as delights3 that there are such blessednesses1 satisfactions1 and delights1 and that they are perceived and felt1 appears from the ,,memorable ,,relations in which they are described4 ,the reason why all those happinesses were from the beginning provided for those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 is1 because there is an infinity of all blessednesses in the ,lord1 and he is divine love2 and it is the essence of love to desire to communicate all its goods to another whom it loves2 therefore together with man he created that love1 and inserted in it the faculty of receiving and perceiving those blessednesses4 ,who is of so dull and doting an apprehension as not to be able to see1 that there is some particular love into which the ,lord has collected all possible blessings1 satisfactions1 and delights8 #ccf4 ,,iii4 ,,all ,,those ,,things ,,can ,,only ,,exist ,,from ,,the ,,lord ,,alone2 ,,and ,,they ,,do ,,not ,,exist ,,with ,,any ,,but ,,those ,,who ,,come ,,to ,,him ,,alone1 ,,and ,,live ,,according ,,to ,,his ,,commandments4 ,this has been proved above in many places2 to which proofs it may be expedient to add1 that all those blessings1 satisfactions1 and delights can only be given by the ,lord1 and therefore no other is to be approached4 ,what other can be approached1 when by him all things were made which are made1 ,john i4 #c2 when he is the ,god of heaven and earth1 ,matt1 xxviii4 #ah3 when no appearance of ,god the father was ever seen1 or his voice heard1 except through him1 ,john i4 #ah2 chap4 v4 #cg2 chap4 xiv4 #f-aa8 ,from these and very many other passages in the ,word1 it is evident that the marriage of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth1 from which alone all marriages derive their origin1 proceeds from him alone4 ,hence it follows1 that the above love with its felicities exists with none but those who come to him2 and the reason why it exists with those who live according to his commandments1 is1 because he is conjoined with them by love1 ,john xiv4 #ba-bd4 #ccg4 ,,iv4 ,,consequently1 ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,with ,,its ,,felicities ,,can ,,only ,,exist ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,of ,,the ,,christian ,,church4 ,the reason why conjugial love1 such as was described in its proper chapter1 n4 #eg-gc1 and in the following chapters1 thus such as it is in its essence1 exists only with those who are of the ,christian church1 is1 because that love is from the ,lord alone1 and the ,lord is not so known elsewhere as that he can be approached as ,god2 also because that love is according to the state of the church with every one1 n4 #acj1 and the genuine state of the church is from no other source than from the ,lord1 and thus is with none but those who receive it from him4 ,that these two principles are the beginnings1 introductions1 and establishments of that love1 has been already confirmed by such abundance of evident and conclusive reasons1 that it is altogether needless to say any thing more on the subject4 ,the reason why conjugial love is nevertheless rare in the ,christian world1 n4 #eh-ei1 is1 because few in that world approach the ,lord1 and among those there are some who indeed believe the church1 but do not live accordingly2 besides other circumstances which are unfolded in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 where the present state of the ,christian church is fully described4 ,but nevertheless it is an established truth1 that love truly conjugial can only exist with those who are of the ,christian church2 therefore also from this ground polygamy is in that church altogether rejected and condemned3 that this also is of the divine providence of the ,lord1 appears very manifest to those who think justly concerning providence4 #cch4 ,v4 ,,therefore ,a ,,christian ,,is ,,not ,,allowed ,,to ,,marry ,,more ,,than ,,one ,,wife4 ,this follows as a conclusion from the confirmation of the preceding articles2 to which this is to be added1 that the genuine conjugial principle is more deeply inserted into the minds of ,christians1 than of the ,gentiles who have embraced polygamy2 and that hence the minds of ,christians are more susceptible of that love than the minds of polygamists2 for that conjugial principle is inserted in the interiors of the minds of ,christians1 because they acknowledge the ,lord and his divine principle1 and in the exteriors of their minds by civil laws4 #cci4 ,,vi4 ,,if ,a ,,christian ,,marries ,,several ,,wives1 ,,he ,,commits ,,not ,,only ,,natural ,,but ,,also ,,spiritual ,,adultery4 ,that a ,christian who marries several wives1 commits natural adultery1 is agreeable to the ,lord's words1 ,that it is not lawful to put away a wife1 because from the beginning they were created to be one flesh2 and that he who putteth away a wife without just cause1 and marrieth another1 committeth adultery4 ,matt4 xix4 #c-ab2 thus still more does he commit adultery who does not put away his wife1 but1 while retaining her1 connects himself with another4 ,this law enacted by the ,lord respecting marriages1 has its internal ground in spiritual marriage2 for whatever the ,lord spoke was in itself spiritual2 which is meant by this declaration1 ,the words that ,i speak unto you are spirit and are life1 ,john vi4 #fc4 ,the spiritual 7sense7 contained therein is this1 that by polygamical marriage in the ,christian world1 the marriage of the ,lord and the ,church is profaned2 in like manner the marriage of good and truth2 and still more the ,word1 and with the ,word the church2 and the profanation of those things is spiritual adultery4 ,that the profanation of the good and truth of the church derived from the ,word corresponds to adultery1 and hence is spiritual adultery2 and that the falsification of good and truth has alike correspondence1 but in a less degree1 may be seen confirmed in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #acd4 ,the reason why by polygamical marriages among ,christians the marriage of the ,lord and the church is profaned1 is1 because there is a correspondence between that divine marriage and the marriages of ,christians2 concerning which1 see above1 n4 #hc-ajb2 which correspondence entirely perishes1 if one wife is joined to another2 and when it perishes1 the married man is no longer a ,christian4 ,the reason why by polygamical marriages among ,christians the marriage of good and truth is profaned1 is because from this spiritual marriage are derived marriages in the world2 and the marriages of ,christians differ from those of other nations in this respect1 that as good loves truth1 and truth good1 and are a one1 so it is with a wife and a husband2 therefore if a ,christian should join one wife to another1 he would rend asunder in himself that spiritual marriage2 consequently he would profane the origin of his marriage1 and would thereby commit spiritual adultery4 ,that marriages in the world are derived from the marriage of good and truth1 may be seen above1 n4 #aaf-aca4 ,the reason why a ,christian by polygamical marriage would profane the ,word and the church1 is1 because the ,word considered in itself is the marriage of good and truth1 and the church in like manner1 so far as this is derived from the ,word2 see above1 n4 #abh-aca4 ,now since a ,christian is acquainted with the ,lord1 possesses the ,word1 and has also the church from the ,lord by the ,word1 it is evident that he1 much more than one who is not a ,christian1 has the faculty of being capable of being regenerated1 and thereby of becoming spiritual1 and also of attaining to love truly conjugial2 for these things are connected together4 ,since those ,christians who marry several wives1 commit not only natural but also at the same time spiritual adultery1 it follows that the condemnation of ,christian polygamists after death is more grievous than that of those who commit only natural adultery4 ,upon inquiring into their state after death1 ,i received for answer1 that heaven is altogether closed in respect to them2 that they appear in hell as lying in warm water in the recess of a bath1 and that they thus appear at a distance1 although they are standing on their feet1 and walking1 which is in consequence of their intestine frenzy2 and that some of them are thrown into whirlpools in the borders of the worlds4 #cdj4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,israelitish ,,nation ,,was ,,permitted ,,to ,,marry ,,several ,,wives1 ,,because ,,they ,,had ,,not ,,the ,,christian ,,church1 ,,and ,,consequently ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial ,,could ,,not ,,exist ,,with ,,them4 ,there are some at this day who are in doubt respecting the institution relative to monogamical marriages1 or those of one man with one wife1 and who are distracted by opposite reasonings on the subject2 being led to suppose that because polygamical marriages were openly permitted in the case of the ,israelitish nation and its kings1 and in the case of ,david and ,solomon1 they are also in themselves permissible to ,christians2 but such persons have no distinct knowledge respecting the ,israelitish nation and the ,christian1 or respecting the externals and internals of the church1 or respecting the change of the church from external to internal by the ,lord2 consequently they know nothing from interior judgment respecting marriages4 ,in general it is to be observed1 that a man is born natural in order that he may be made spiritual2 and that so long as he remains natural1 he is in the night1 and as it were asleep as to spiritual things2 and that in this case he does not even know the difference between the external natural man and the internal spiritual4 ,that the ,christian church was not with the ,israelitish nation1 is known from the ,word2 for they expected the ,messiah1 as they still expect him1 who was to exalt them above all other nations and people in the world3 if therefore they had been told1 and were still to be told1 that the ,messiah's kingdom is over the heavens1 and thence over all nations1 they would have accounted it an idle tale2 hence they not only did not acknowledge ,christ or the ,messiah1 our ,lord1 when he came into the world1 but also barbarously took him away out of the world4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that the ,christian church was not1 with that nation1 as neither is it at this day2 and those with whom the ,christian church is not1 are natural men both externally and internally3 to such persons polygamy is not hurtful1 since it is inherent in the natural man2 for1 in regard to love in marriages1 the natural man perceives nothing but what has relation to lust4 ,this is meant by these words of the ,lord1 ,that ,moses1 because of the ,,hardness ,,of ,,their ,,hearts1 suffered them to put away their wives3 but that from the beginning it was not so1 ,matt4 xix4 #h4 ,he says that ,moses permitted it1 in order that it may be known that it was not the ,lord 7who permitted it74 ,but that the ,lord taught the internal spiritual man1 is known from his precepts1 and from the abrogation of the rituals which served only for the use of the natural man2 from his precepts respecting washing1 as denoting the purification of the internal man1 ,matt4 xv4 #a1 #ag-bj2 chap4 xxiii4 #be1 #bf2 ,mark vii4 #ad-bc2 respecting adultery1 as denoting cupidity of the will1 ,matt4 v4 #bh2 respecting the putting away of wives1 as being unlawful1 and respecting polygamy1 as not being agreeable to the divine law1 ,matt4 xix4 #c-i4 ,these and several other things relating to the internal principle and the spiritual man1 the ,lord taught1 because he alone opens the internals of human minds1 and makes them spiritual1 and implants these spiritual principles in the natural1 that these also may partake of a spiritual essence3 and this effect takes place if he is approached1 and the life is formed according to his command merits1 which in a summary are1 to believe on him1 and to shun evils because they are of and from the devil2 also to do good works1 because they are of the ,lord and from the ,lord2 and in each case for the man to act as from himself1 and at the same time to believe that all is done by the ,lord through him4 ,the essential reason why the ,lord opens the internal spiritual man1 and implants this in the external natural man1 is1 because every man thinks and acts naturally1 and therefore could not perceive any thing spiritual1 and receives it in his natural principle1 unless the ,lord had assumed the human natural1 and had made this also divine4 ,from these considerations now it appears a truth that the ,israelitish nation was permitted to marry several wives1 because the ,christian church was not with them4 #cda4 ,,viii4 ,,at ,,this ,,day ,,the ,,mahometans ,,are ,,permitted ,,to ,,marry ,,several ,,wives1 ,,because ,,they ,,do ,,not ,,acknowledge ,,the ,,lord ,,jesus ,,christ ,,to ,,be ,,one ,,with ,,jehovah ,,the ,,father1 ,,and ,,thereby ,,to ,,be ,,the ,,god ,,of ,,heaven ,,and ,,earth1 ,,and ,,hence ,,cannot ,,receive ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial4 ,the ,mahometans1 in conformity to the religion which ,mahomet gave them1 acknowledge ,jesus ,christ to be the ,son of ,god and a grand prophet1 and that he was sent into the world by ,god the ,father to teach mankind2 but not that ,god the ,father and he are one1 and that his divine and human 7principle7 are one person1 united as soul and body1 agreeably to the faith of all ,christians as grounded in the ,athanasian ,creed2 therefore the followers of ,mahomet could not acknowledge our ,lord to be any ,god from eternity1 but only to be a perfect natural man2 and this being the opinion entertained by ,mahomet1 and thence by his disciples1 and they knowing that ,god is one1 and that that ,god is he who created the universe1 therefore they could do no other than pass by our ,lord in their worship2 and the more so1 because they declare ,mahomet also to be a grand prophet2 neither do they know what the ,lord taught4 ,it is owing to this cause1 that the interiors of their minds1 which in themselves are spiritual1 could not be opened3 that the interiors of the mind are opened by the ,lord alone1 may be seen just above1 n4 #cdj4 ,the genuine cause why they are opened by the ,lord1 when he is acknowledged to be the ,god of heaven and earth1 and is approached1 and with those who live according to his commandments1 is1 because otherwise there is no conjunction1 and without conjunction there is no reception4 ,man is receptible of the ,lord's presence and of conjunction with him4 ,to come to him causes presence1 and to live according to his commandments causes conjunction2 his presence alone is without reception1 but presence and conjunction together are with reception4 ,on this subject ,i will impart the following new information from the spiritual world4 ,every one in that world1 when he is thought of1 is brought into view as present2 but no one is conjoined to another except from the affection of love2 and this is insinuated by doing what he requires1 and what is pleasing to him4 ,this circumstance1 which is common in the spiritual world1 derives its origin from the ,lord1 who1 in this same manner1 is present and is conjoined4 ,the above observations are made in order to shew1 that the ,mahometans are permitted to marry several wives1 because love truly conjugial1 which subsists only between one man and one wife1 was not communicable to them2 since from their religious tenets they did not acknowledge the ,lord to be equal to ,god the ,father1 and so to be the ,god of heaven and earth4 ,that conjugial love with every one is according to the state of the church1 may be seen above1 at n4 #acj1 and in several other places4 #cdb4 ,,ix4 ,,the ,,mahometan ,,heaven ,,is ,,out ,,of ,,the ,,christian ,,heaven ,,and ,,is ,,divided ,,into ,,two ,,heavens1 ,,the ,,inferior ,,and ,,the ,,superior2 ,,and ,,only ,,those ,,are ,,elevated ,,into ,,their ,,superior ,,heaven ,,who ,,renounce ,,concubines ,,and ,,live ,,with ,,one ,,wife1 ,,and ,,acknowledge ,,our ,,lord ,,as ,,equal ,,to ,,god ,,the ,,father1 ,,to ,,whom ,,is ,,given ,,dominion ,,over ,,heaven ,,and ,,earth4 ,before we speak particularly to each of these points1 it may be expedient to premise somewhat concerning the divine providence of the ,lord in regard to the rise of ,mahometanism4 ,that this religion is received by more kingdoms than the ,christian religion1 may possibly be a stumbling-block to those who1 while thinking of the divine providence1 at the same time believe that no one can be saved that is not born a ,christian2 whereas the ,mahometan religion is no stumbling-block to those who believe that all things are of the divine providence4 ,these inquire in what respect the divine providence is manifested in the ,mahometan religion2 and they so discover in it this1 that the ,mahometan religion acknowledges our ,lord to be the ,son of ,god1 the wisest of men1 and a grand prophet1 who came into the world to instruct mankind2 but since the ,mahometans have made the ,koran the book of their religion1 and consequently think much of ,mahomet who wrote it1 and pay him a degree of worship1 therefore they think little respecting our ,lord4 ,in order to shew more fully that the ,mahometan religion was raised up by the ,lord's divine providence to destroy the idolatries of several nations1 we will give a detail of the subject1 beginning with the origin of idolatries4 ,previous to the ,mahometan religion idolatrous worship prevailed throughout the whole world2 because the churches before the ,lord's coming were all representative2 such also was the ,israelitish church1 in which the tabernacle1 the garments of ,aaron1 the sacrifices1 all things belonging to the temple at ,jerusalem1 and also the statutes1 were representative4 ,the ancients likewise had the science of correspondences1 which is also the science of representations1 the very essential science of the wise1 which was principally cultivated by the ,egyptians1 whence their hieroglyphics were derived4 ,from that science they knew what was signified by animals and trees of every kind1 likewise by mountains1 hills1 rivers1 fountains1 and also by the sun1 the moon1 and the stars3 by means of this science also they had a knowledge of spiritual things2 since things represented1 which were such as relate to the spiritual wisdom of the angels1 were the origins 7of those which represent74 ,now since all their worship was representative1 consisting of mere correspondences1 therefore they celebrated it on mountains and hills1 and also in groves and gardens2 and on this account they sanctified fountains1 and in their adorations turned their faces to the rising sun3 moreover they made graven horses1 oxen1 calves1 and lambs2 yea1 birds1 fishes1 and serpents2 and these they set in their houses and other places1 in order1 according to the spiritual things of the church to which they corresponded1 or which they represented4 ,they also set similar images in their temples1 as a means of recalling to their remembrance the holy things of worship which they signified4 ,in process of time1 when the science of correspondences was forgotten1 their posterity began to worship the very graven images as holy in themselves1 not knowing that the ancients1 their fathers1 did not see anything holy in them1 but only that according to correspondences they represented and thence signified holy things4 ,hence arose the idolatries which overspread the whole globe1 as well ,asia with its islands1 as ,africa and ,europe4 ,to the intent that all those idolatries might be eradicated1 it came to pass of the ,lord's divine providence1 that a new religion1 accommodated to the genius of the orientals1 took its rise2 in which something from each testament of the ,word was retained1 and which taught that the ,lord had come into the world1 and that he was a grand prophet1 the wisest of all1 and the ,son of ,god4 ,this was effected by means of ,mahomet1 from whom that religion took its name4 ,from these considerations it is manifest1 that this religion was raised up of the ,lord's divine providence1 and accommodated1 as we have observed1 to the genius of the orientals1 to the end that it might destroy the idolatries of so many nations1 and might give its professors some knowledge of the ,lord1 before they came into the spiritual world1 as is the case with every one after death4 ,this religion would not have been received by so many nations1 neither could it have eradicated their idolatries1 unless it had been made agreeable to their ideas2 especially unless polygamy had been permitted2 since without such permission1 the orientals would have burned with the fire of filthy adultery more than the ,europeans1 and would have perished4 #cdc4 ,the ,mahometans also have their heaven2 for all in the universe1 who acknowledge a ,god1 and from a religious notion shuns evils as sins against him1 are saved4 ,that the ,mahometan heaven is distinguished into two1 the inferior and the superior1 ,i have heard from themselves3 and that in the inferior heaven they live with several wives and concubines as in the world2 but that those who renounce concubines and live with one wife1 are elevated into the superior heaven4 ,i have heard also that it is impossible for them to think of our ,lord as one with the ,father2 but that it is possible for them to think of him as his equal1 and that he has dominion over heaven and earth1 because he is his ,son2 therefore such of them as are elevated by the ,lord into their superior heaven1 hold this belief4 #cdd4 ,on a certain time ,i was led to perceive the quality of the heat of conjugial love with polygamists4 ,i was conversing with one who personated ,mahomet4 ,mahomet himself is never present1 but some one is substituted in his place1 to the end that those who are lately deceased may as it were see him4 ,this substitute1 after ,i had been talking with him at a distance1 sent me an ebony spoon and other things1 which were proofs that they came from him2 at the same time a communication was opened for the heat of their conjugial love in that place1 which seemed to me like the warm stench of a bath2 whereupon ,i turned myself away1 and the communication was closed4 #cde4 ,x4 ,,polygamy ,,is ,,lasciviousness4 ,the reason of this is1 because its love is divided among several1 and is the love of the sex1 and the love of the external or natural man1 and thus is not conjugial love1 which alone is chaste4 ,it is well known that polygamical love is divided among several1 and divided love is not conjugial love1 which cannot be divided from one of the sex2 hence the former love is lascivious1 and polygamy is lasciviousness4 ,polygamical love is the love of the sex1 differing from it only in this respect1 that it is limited to a number1 which the polygamist may determine1 and that it is bound to the observance of certain laws enacted for the public good2 also that it is allowed to take concubines at the same time as wives2 and thus1 as it is the love of the sex1 it is the love of lasciviousness4 ,the reason why polygamical love is the love of the external or natural man is1 because it is inherent in that man2 and whatever the natural man does from himself is evil1 from which he cannot be released except by elevation into the internal spiritual man1 which is effected solely by the ,lord2 and evil respecting the sex1 by which the natural man is influenced1 is whoredom2 but since whoredom is destructive of society1 instead thereof was induced its likeness1 which is called polygamy4 ,every evil into which a man is born from his parents1 is implanted in his natural man1 but not any in his spiritual man2 because into this he is born from the ,lord4 ,from what has now been adduced1 and also from several other reasons1 it may evidently be seen1 that polygamy is lasciviousness4 #cdf4 ,,xi4 ,,conjugial ,,chastity1 ,,purity1 ,,and ,,sanctity ,,cannot ,,exist ,,with ,,polygamists4 ,this follows from what has been just now proved1 and evidently from what was demonstrated in the chapter ,,on ,,the ,,chaste ,,principle ,,and ,,the ,,non-,,chaste2 especially from these articles of that chapter1 namely1 that a chaste1 pure1 and holy principle is predicated only of monogamical marriages1 or of the marriage of one man with one wife1 n4 #ada2 also1 that love truly conjugial is essential chastity1 and that hence all the delights of that love1 even the ultimate1 are chaste1 n4 #adc1 #add2 and moreover from what was adduced in the chapter ,,on ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 namely1 that love truly conjugial1 which is that of one man with one wife1 from its origin and correspondence1 is celestial1 spiritual1 holy1 and clean above every other love1 n4 #fd4 ,now since chastity1 purity1 and sanctity exist only in love truly conjugial1 it follows1 that it neither does nor can exist in polygamical love4 #cdg4 ,,xii4 ,a ,,polygamist1 ,,so ,,long ,,as ,,he ,,remains ,,such1 ,,cannot ,,become ,,spiritual4 ,to become spiritual is to be elevated out of the natural1 that is1 out of the light and heat of the world1 into the light and heat of heaven4 ,respecting this elevation no one knows anything but he that is elevated2 nevertheless the natural man1 although not elevated1 perceives no other than that he is2 because he can elevate his understanding into the light of heaven1 and think and talk spiritually1 like the spiritual man2 but if the will does not at the same time follow the understanding to its altitude1 he is still not elevated2 for he does not remain in that elevation1 but in a short time lets himself down to his will1 and there fixes his station4 ,it is said the will1 but it is the love that is meant at the same time2 because the will is the receptacle of the love2 for what a man loves1 that he wills4 ,from these few considerations it may appear1 that a polygamist1 so long as he remains such1 or what is the same1 a natural man1 so long as he remains such1 cannot be made spiritual4 #cdh4 ,,xiii4 ,,polygamy ,,is ,,not ,,sin ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,live ,,in ,,it ,,from ,a ,,religious ,,notion4 ,all that which is contrary to religion is believed to be sin1 because it is contrary to ,god2 and on the other hand1 all that which agrees with religion1 is believed not to be sin1 because it agrees with ,god2 and as polygamy existed with the sons of ,israel from a principle of religion1 and exists at this day with the ,mahometans1 it could not1 and cannot1 be imputed to them as sin4 ,moreover1 to prevent its being sin to them1 they remain natural1 and do not become spiritual2 and the natural man cannot see that there is any sin in such things as belong to the received religion3 this is seen only by the spiritual man4 ,it is on this account1 that although the ,mahometans are taught by the ,koran to acknowledge our ,lord as the ,son of ,god1 still they do not come to him1 but to ,mahomet2 and so long they remain natural1 and consequently do not know that there is in polygamy any evil1 or indeed any lasciviousness4 ,the ,lord also saith1 ,if ye were blind ye would not have sin2 but now ye say1 ,we see1 therefore your sin remaineth1 ,john ix4 #da4 ,since polygamy cannot convict them of sin1 therefore after death they have their heavens1 n4 #cdb1 #cdc2 and their joys there according to life4 #cdi4 ,,xiv4 ,,polygamy ,,is ,,not ,,sin ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,are ,,in ,,ignorance ,,respecting ,,the ,,lord4 ,this is1 because love truly conjugial is from the ,lord alone1 and cannot be imparted by the ,lord to any but those who know him1 acknowledge him1 believe on him1 and live the life which is from him2 and those to whom that love cannot be imparted know no other than that the love of the sex and conjugial love are the same thing2 consequently also polygamy4 ,moreover1 polygamists1 who know nothing of the ,lord1 remain natural3 for a man 7homo7 is made spiritual only from the ,lord2 and that is not imputed to the natural man as sin1 which is according to the laws of religion and at the same time of society3 he also acts according to his reason2 and the reason of the natural man is in mere darkness respecting love truly conjugial2 and this love in excellence is spiritual4 ,nevertheless the reason of polygamists is taught from experience1 that both public and private peace require that promiscuous lust in general should be restrained1 and be left to every one within his own house3 hence comes polygamy4 #cej4 ,it is well known1 that a man 7homo7 by birth is viler than the beasts4 ,all the beasts are born into the knowledges corresponding to the love of their life2 for as soon as they are born1 or are hatched from the egg1 they see1 hear1 walk1 know their food1 their dam1 their friends and foes2 and soon after this they show attention to the sex1 and to the affairs of love1 and also to the rearing of their offspring4 ,man alone1 at his birth1 knows nothing of this sort2 for no knowledge is connate to him2 he has only the faculty and inclination of receiving those things which relate to knowledge and love2 and if he does not receive these from others1 he remains viler than a beast4 ,that man is born in this condition1 to the end that he may attribute nothing to himself1 but to others1 and at length every thing of wisdom and of the love thereof to ,god alone1 and may hence become an image of ,god1 see the ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #acb-acf4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that a man who does not learn from others that the ,lord has come into the world1 and that he is ,god1 and has only acquired some knowledge respecting religion and the laws of his country1 is not in fault if he thinks no more of conjugial love than of the love of the sex1 and if he believes polygamical love to be the only conjugial love4 ,the ,lord leads such persons in their ignorance2 and by his divine auspices providently withdraws from the imputation of guilt those who1 from a religious notion1 shun evils as sins1 to the end that they may be saved2 for every man is born for heaven1 and no one for hell2 and every one comes into heaven 7by influence7 from the ,lord1 and into hell 7by influence7 from himself4 #cea4 ,,xv4 ,,of ,,these1 ,,although ,,polygamists1 ,,such ,,are ,,saved ,,as ,,acknowledge ,a ,,god1 ,,and ,,from ,a ,,religious ,,notion ,,live ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,civil ,,laws ,,of ,,justice4 ,all throughout the world who acknowledge a ,god and live according to the civil laws of justice from a religious notion1 are saved4 ,by the civil laws of justice we mean such precepts as are contained in the ,decalogue1 which forbid murder1 theft1 adultery1 and false witness4 ,these precepts are the civil laws of justice in all the kingdoms of the earth2 for without them no kingdom could subsist4 ,but some are influenced in the practice of them by fear of the penalties of the law1 some by civil obedience1 and some also by religion2 these last are saved1 because in such case ,god is in them2 and every one1 in whom ,god is1 is saved4 ,who does not see1 that among the laws given to the sons of ,israel1 after they had left ,egypt1 were those which forbid murder1 adultery1 theft1 and false witness1 since without those laws their communion or society could not subsist8 and yet these laws were promulgated by ,jehovah ,god upon ,mount ,sinai with a stupendous miracle3 but the cause of their being so promulgated was1 that they might be also laws of religion1 and thus that the people might practise them not only for the sake of the good of society1 but also for the sake of ,god1 and that when they practised them from a religious notion for the sake of ,god1 they might be saved4 ,from these considerations it may appear1 that the pagans1 who acknowledge a ,god1 and live according to the civil laws of justice1 are saved2 since it is not their fault that they know nothing of the ,lord1 consequently nothing of the chastity of the marriage with one wife4 ,for it is contrary to the divine justice to condemn those who acknowledge a ,god1 and from their religion practise the laws of justice1 which consist in shunning evils because they are contrary to ,god1 and in doing what is good because it is agreeable to ,god4 #ceb4 ,,xvi4 ,,but ,,none ,,either ,,of ,,the ,,latter ,,or ,,of ,,the ,,former ,,can ,,be ,,associated ,,with ,,the ,,angels ,,in ,,the ,,christian ,,heavens4 ,the reason of this is1 because in the ,christian heavens there are celestial light1 which is divine truth1 and celestial heat1 which is divine love2 and these two discover the quality of goods and truths1 and also of evils and falses2 hence1 there is no communication between the ,christian and the ,mahometan heavens1 and in like manner between the heavens of the ,gentiles4 ,if there were a communication1 none could have been saved but those who were in celestial light and at the same time in celestial heat from the ,lord2 yea neither would these be saved if there was a conjunction of the heavens3 for in consequence of conjunction all the heavens would so far fall to decay that the angels would not be able to subsist2 for an unchaste and lascivious principle would flow from the ,mahometans into the ,christian heaven1 which in that heaven could not be endured2 and a chaste and pure principle would flow from the ,christians into the ,mahometan heaven1 which again could not be there endured4 ,in such case1 in consequence of communication and thence of conjunction1 the ,christian angels would become natural and thereby adulterers2 or if they remained spiritual1 they would be continually sensible of a lascivious principle about them1 which would intercept all the blessedness of their life4 ,the case would be somewhat similar with the ,mahometan heaven3 for the spiritual principles of the ,christian heaven would continually encompass and torment them1 and would take away all the delight of their life1 and would moreover insinuate that polygamy is sin1 whereby they would be continually eluded4 ,this is the reason why all the heavens are altogether distinct from each other1 so that there is no connection between them1 except by an influx of light and heat from the ,lord out of the sun1 in the midst of which he is3 and this influx enlightens and vivifies everyone according to his reception2 and reception is according to religion4 ,this communication is granted1 but not a communication of the heavens with each other4 99 99 99 99 99 #cec4 ,to the above ,i shall add ,,two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,,first4 ,i was once in the midst of the angels and heard their conversation4 ,it was respecting intelligence and wisdom2 that a man perceives no other than that each is in himself1 and thus that whatever he thinks from his understanding and intends from his will1 is from himself2 when nevertheless not the least portion thereof is from the man1 but only the faculty of receiving the things of the understanding and the will from ,god3 and as every man 7homo7 is by birth inclined to love himself1 it was provided from creation1 to prevent man's perishing by self-love and the conceit of his own intelligence1 that that love of the man 7vir7 should be transferred into the wife1 and that in her should be implanted from her birth a love for the intelligence and wisdom of her husband1 and thereby a love for him2 therefore the wife continually attracts to herself her husband's conceit of his own intelligence1 and extinguishes it in him1 and vivifies it in herself1 and thus changes it into conjugial love1 and fills it with unbounded pleasantnesses4 ,this is provided by the ,lord1 lest the conceit of his own intelligence should so far infatuate the man1 as to lead him to believe that he has understanding and wisdom from himself and not from the ,lord1 and thereby make him willing to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 and thence to believe himself like unto ,god1 and also a god1 as the serpent1 which was the love of his own intelligence1 said and persuaded him3 wherefore the man 7homo7 after eating was cast out of paradise1 and the way to the tree of life was guarded by a cherub4 ,paradise1 spiritually understood1 denotes intelligence2 to eat of the tree of life1 in a spiritual sense1 is to be intelligent and wise from the ,lord2 and to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 in a spiritual sense1 is to be intelligent and wise from self4 #ced4 ,the angels having finished this conversation departed2 and there came two priests1 together with a man who in the world had been an ambassador of a kingdom1 and to them ,i related what ,i had heard from the angels4 ,on hearing this they began to dispute with each other about intelligence and wisdom1 and the prudence thence derived1 whether they are from ,god or from man4 ,the dispute grew warm4 ,all three in heart believed that they are from man because they are in man1 and that the perception and sensation of its being so confirm it2 but the priests1 who on this occasion were influenced by theological zeal1 said that there is nothing of intelligence and wisdom1 and thus nothing of prudence from man2 and when the ambassador retorted1 that in such case there is nothing of thought from man1 they assented to it4 ,but as it was perceived in heaven1 that all the three were in a similar belief1 it was said to the ambassador1 ,put on the garments of a priest1 and believe that you are one1 and then speak4 ,he did so2 and instantly he declared aloud that nothing of intelligence and wisdom1 and consequently nothing of prudence1 can possibly exist but from ,god2 and he proved it with his usual eloquence full of rational arguments4 ,it is a peculiar circumstance in the spiritual world1 that a spirit thinks himself to be such as is denoted by the garment he wears2 because in that world the understanding clothes every one4 ,afterwards1 a voice from heaven said to the two priests1 ,put off your own garments1 and put on those of political ministers1 and believe yourselves to be such4 ,they did so2 and in this case they at the same time thought from their interior self1 and spoke from arguments which they had inwardly cherished in favor of man's own intelligence4 ,at that instant there appeared a tree near the path2 and it was said to them1 ,it is the tree of the knowledge of good and evil2 take heed to yourselves lest ye eat of it4 ,nevertheless all the three1 infatuated by their own intelligence1 burned with a desire to eat of it1 and said to each other1 ,why should not we8 ,is not the fruit good8 ,and they went to it and eat of it4 ,immediately all the three1 as they were in a like faith1 became bosom friends2 and they entered together into the way of self-intelligence1 which led into hell3 nevertheless ,i saw them return thence1 because they were not yet prepared4 #cee4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,on a time as ,i was looking into the spiritual world1 ,i saw in a certain green field some men1 whose garments were like those worn by men of this world2 from which circumstance ,i knew that they were lately deceased4 ,i approached them and stood near them1 that ,i might hear what they were conversing about4 ,their conversation was about heaven2 and one of them who knew something respecting it1 said1 ,in heaven there are wonderful things1 such as no one can believe unless he has seen them3 there are paradisiacal gardens1 magnificent palaces constructed according to the rules of architecture1 because the work of the art itself1 resplendent with gold2 in the front of which are columns of silver2 and on the columns heavenly forms made of precious stones2 also houses of jasper and sapphire1 in the front of which are stately porticos1 through which the angels enter2 and within the houses handsome furniture1 which no art or words can describe4 ,the angels themselves are of both sexes3 there are youths and husbands1 also maidens and wives3 maids so beautiful1 that nothing in the world bears any resemblance to their beauty2 and wives still more beautiful1 who are genuine images of celestial love1 and their husbands images of celestial wisdom2 and all these are ever approaching the full bloom of youth2 and what is more1 they know no other love of the sex than conjugial love2 and1 what you will be surprised to hear1 the husbands there have a perpetual faculty of enjoyment4 ,when the novitiate spirits heard that no other love of the sex prevailed in heaven than conjugial love1 and that they had a perpetual faculty of enjoyment1 they smiled at each other1 and said1 ,what you tell us is incredible2 there cannot be such a faculty3 possibly you are amusing us with idle tales4 ,but at that instant a certain angel from heaven unexpectedly stood in the midst of them1 and said1 ,hear me1 ,i beseech you2 ,i am an angel of heaven1 and have lived now a thousand years with my wife1 and during that time have been in the same flower of my age in which you here see me4 ,this is in consequence of the conjugial love in which ,i have lived with my wife2 and ,i can affirm1 that the above faculty has been and is perpetual with me2 and because ,i perceive that you believe this to be impossible1 ,i will talk with you on the subject from a ground of rational argument according to the light of your understanding4 ,you do not know anything of the primeval state of man1 which you call a state of integrity4 ,in that state all the interiors of the mind were open even to the ,lord2 and hence they were in the marriage of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth2 and as the good of love and the truth of wisdom perpetually love each other1 they also perpetually desire to be united2 and when the interiors of the mind are open1 the conjugial spiritual love flows down freely with its perpetual endeavour1 and presents the above faculty4 ,the very soul of a man 7homo71 being in the marriage of good and truth1 is not only in the perpetual endeavour of that union1 but also in the perpetual endeavour of the fructification and production of its own likeness2 and since the interiors of a man even from the soul are open by virtue of that marriage1 and the interiors continually regard as an end the effect in ultimates that they may exist1 therefore that perpetual endeavor for fructifying and producing its like1 which is the property of the soul1 becomes also of the body3 and since the ultimate of the operation of the soul in the body with two conjugial partners is into the ultimates of love therein1 and these depend on the state of the soul1 it is evident whence they derive this perpetuality4 ,fructification also is perpetual1 because the universal sphere of generating and propagating the celestial things which are of love1 and the spiritual things which are of wisdom1 and thence the natural things which are of offspring1 proceeds from the ,lord1 and fills all heaven and all the world2 and that celestial sphere fills the souls of all men1 and descends through their minds into the body even to its ultimates1 and gives the power of generating4 ,but this cannot be the case with any but those with whom a passage is open from the soul through the superior and inferior principles of the mind into the body to its ultimates1 as is the case with those who suffer themselves to be led back by the ,lord into the primeval state of creation4 ,i can confirm that now for a thousand years ,i have never wanted faculty1 strength1 or vigor1 and that ,i am altogether a stranger to any diminution of powers1 which are continually renewed by the influx of the above-mentioned sphere1 and in such case also cheer the mind 7animum71 and do not make it sad1 as is the case with those who suffer the loss of those powers4 ,moreover love truly conjugial is just like the vernal heat1 from the influx of which all things tend to germination and fructification2 nor is there any other heat in our heaven3 wherefore with conjugial partners in that heaven there is spring in its perpetual conatus1 and it is this perpetual conatus from which the above virtue is derived4 ,but fructifications with us in heaven are different from those with men on earth4 ,with us fructifications are spiritual1 which are the fructifications of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth3 the wife from the husband's wisdom receives into herself the love thereof2 and the husband from the love thereof in the wife receives into himself wisdom2 yea the wife is actually formed into the love of the husband's wisdom1 which is effected by her receiving the propagations of his soul with the delight arising therefrom1 in that she desires to be the love of her husband's wisdom3 thus from a maiden she becomes a wife and a likeness4 ,hence also love with its inmost friendship with the wife1 and wisdom with its happiness with the husband1 are continually increasing1 and this to eternity4 ,this is the state of the angels of heaven4 ,when the angel had thus spoken1 he looked at those who had lately come from the world1 and said to them1 ,you know that1 while you were in the vigor of love1 you loved your married partners2 but when your appetite was gratified1 you regarded them with aversion2 but you do not know that we in heaven do not love our married partners in consequence of that vigor1 but that we have vigor in consequence of love and derived from it2 and that as we perpetually love our married partners1 we have perpetual vigor3 if therefore you can invert the state1 you may be able to comprehend this4 ,does not he who perpetually loves a married partner1 love her with the whole mind and with the whole body8 for love turns every thing of the mind and of the body to that which it loves2 and as this is done reciprocally1 it conjoins the objects so that they become a one4 ,he further said1 ,i will not speak to you of the conjugial love implanted from the creation in males and females1 and of their inclination to legitimate conjunction1 or of the faculty of prolification in the males1 which makes one with the faculty of multiplying wisdom from the love of truth2 and that so far as a man loves wisdom from the love thereof1 or truth from good1 so far he is in love truly conjugial and in its attendant vigor4 #cef4 ,when he had spoken these words1 the angel was silent2 and from the spirit of his discourse the novitiates comprehended that a perpetual faculty of enjoyment is communicable2 and as this consideration rejoiced their minds1 they exclaimed1 ,o how happy is the state of angels6 ,we perceive that you in the heavens remain for ever in a state of youth1 and thence in the vigor of that age2 but tell us how we also may enjoy that vigor4 ,the angel replied1 ,shun adulteries as internal1 and approach the ,lord1 and you will possess it4 ,they said1 ,we will do so4 ,but the angel replied1 ,you cannot shun adulteries as infernal evils1 unless you in like manner shun all other evils1 because adulteries are the complex of all2 and unless you shun them1 you cannot approach the ,lord2 for the ,lord receives no others4 ,after this the angel took his leave1 and the novitiate spirits departed sorrowful4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,jealousy4 #ceg4 ,the subject of jealousy is here treated of1 because it also has relation to conjugial love4 ,there is a just jealousy and an unjust2--a just jealousy with married partners who mutually love each other1 with whom it is a just and prudent zeal lest their conjugial love should be violated1 and thence a just grief if it is violated2 and an unjust jealousy with those who are naturally suspicious1 and whose minds are sickly in consequence of viscous and bilious blood4 ,moreover1 all jealousy is by some accounted a vice2 which is particularly the case with whoremongers1 who censure even a just jealousy4 ,the term ,,jealousy 7zelotypia7 is derived from ,,zeli ,,typus 7the type of zeal71 and there is a type or image of just and also of unjust zeal2 but we will explain these distinctions in the following series of articles3 ,i4 ,zeal1 considered in itself1 is like the ardent fire1 of love4 ,,ii4 ,the burning or flame of that love1 which is zeal1 is a spiritual burning or flame1 arising from an infestation and assault of the love4 ,,iii4 ,the quality of a man's 7homo7 zeal is according to the quality of his love2 thus it differs according as the love is good or evil4 ,,iv4 ,the zeal of a good love and the zeal of an evil love are alike in externals1 but altogether unlike in internals4 ,v4 ,the zeal of a good love in its internals contains a hidden store of love and friendship2 but the zeal of an evil love in its internals contains a hidden store of hatred and revenge4 ,,vi4 ,the zeal of conjugial love is called jealousy4 ,,vii4 ,jealousy is like an ardent fire against those who infest love exercised towards a married partner1 and like a terrible fear for the loss of that love4 ,,viii4 ,there is spiritual jealousy with monogamists1 and natural with polygamists4 ,,ix4 ,jealousy with those married partners who tenderly love each other1 is a just grief grounded in sound reason lest conjugial love should be divided1 and should thereby perish4 ,x4 ,jealousy with married partners who do not love each other1 is grounded in several causes3 arising in some instances from various mental weaknesses4 ,,xi4 ,in some instances there is not any jealousy2 and this also from various causes4 ,,xii4 ,there is a jealousy also in regard to concubines1 but not such as in regard to wives4 ,,xiii4 ,jealousy likewise exists among beasts and birds4 ,,xiv4 ,the jealousy of men and husbands is different from that of women and wives4 ,we proceed to an explanation of the above articles4 #ceh4 ,i4 ,,zeal1 ,,considered ,,in ,,itself1 ,,is ,,like ,,the ,,ardent ,,fire ,,of ,,love1 ,what jealousy is cannot be known1 unless it be known what zeal is2 for jealousy is the zeal of conjugial love4 ,the reason why zeal is like the ardent fire of love is1 because zeal is of love1 which is spiritual heat1 and this in its origin is like fire4 ,in regard to the first position1 it is well known that zeal is of love3 nothing else is meant by being zealous1 and acting from zeal1 than acting from the force of love3 but since when it exists1 it appears not as love1 but as unfriendly and hostile1 offended at and fighting against him who hurts the love1 therefore it may also be called the defender and protector of love2 for all love is of such a nature that it bursts into indignation and anger1 yea into fury1 whenever it is disturbed in its delights3 therefore if a love1 especially the ruling love1 be touched1 there ensues an emotion of the mind2 and if it be hurt1 there ensues wrath4 ,from these considerations it may be seen1 that zeal is not the highest degree of the love1 but that it is ardent love4 ,the love of one1 and the correspondent love of another1 are like two confederates2 but when the love of one rises up against the love of another1 they become like enemies2 because love is the esse of a man's life2 therefore he that assaults the love1 assaults the life itself2 and in such case there ensues a state of wrath against the assailant1 like the state of every man whose life is attempted by another4 ,such wrath is attendant on every love1 even that which is most pacific1 as is very manifest in the case of hens1 geese1 and birds of every kind2 which1 without any fear1 rise against and fly at those who injure their young1 or rob them of their meat4 ,that some beasts are seized with anger1 and wild beasts with fury1 if their young are attacked1 or their prey taken from them1 is well known4 ,the reason why love is said to burn like fire is1 because love is spiritual heat1 originating in the fire of the angelic sun1 which is pure love4 ,that love is heat as it were from fire1 evidently appears from the heat of living bodies1 which is from no other source than from their love2 also from the circumstance that men grow warm and are inflamed according to the exaltation of their love4 ,from these considerations it is manifest1 that zeal is like the ardent fire of love4 #cei4 ,,ii4 ,,the ,,burning ,,or ,,flame ,,of ,,that ,,love1 ,,which ,,is ,,zeal1 ,,is ,a ,,spiritual ,,burning ,,or ,,flame1 ,,arising ,,from ,,an ,,infestation ,,and ,,assault ,,of ,,the ,,love4 ,that zeal is a spiritual burning or flame1 is evident from what has been said above4 ,as love in the spiritual world is heat arising from the sun of that world1 therefore also love at a distance appears there as flame3 it is thus that celestial love appears with the angels of heaven2 and thus also infernal love appears with the spirits of hell3 but it is to be observed1 that that flame does not burn like the flame of the natural world4 ,the reason why zeal arises from an assault of the love is1 because love is the heat of every one's life2 wherefore when the life's love is assaulted1 the life's heat kindles itself1 resists1 and bursts forth against the assailant1 and acts as an enemy by virtue of its own strength and ability1 which is like flame bursting from a fire upon him who stirs it3 that it is like fire1 appears from the sparkling of the eyes from the face being inflamed1 also from the tone of the voice and the gestures4 ,this is the effect of love1 as being the heat of life1 to prevent its extinction1 and with it the extinction of all cheerfulness1 vivacity1 and perceptibility of delight1 grounded in its own love4 #cfj4 ,it may be expedient here to show how the love by being assaulted is inflamed and kindled into zeal1 like fire into flame4 ,love resides in a man's will2 nevertheless it is not inflamed in the will itself1 but in the understanding2 for in the will it is like fire1 and in the understanding like flame4 ,love in the will knows nothing about itself1 because there it is not sensible of anything relating to itself1 neither does it there act from itself2 but this is done in the understanding and its thought3 when therefore the will is assaulted1 it provokes itself to anger in the understanding1 which is effected by various reasonings4 ,these reasonings are like pieces of wood1 which the fire inflames1 and which thence burn3 they are therefore like so much fuel1 or so many combustible matters which give occasion to that spiritual flame1 which is very variable4 #cfa4 ,we will here unfold the true reason why a man becomes inflamed in consequence of an assault of his love4 ,the human form in its inmost principles is from creation a form of love and wisdom4 ,in man there are all the affections of love1 and thence all the perceptions of wisdom1 compounded in the most perfect order1 so as to make together what is unanimous1 and thereby a one4 ,those affections and perceptions are rendered substantial2 for substances are their subjects4 ,since therefore the human form is compounded of these1 it is evident that1 if the love is assaulted1 this universal form also1 with everything therein1 is assaulted at the same instant1 or together with it4 ,and as the desire to continue in its form is implanted from creation in all living things1 therefore this principle operates in every general compound by derivation from the singulars of which it is compounded1 and in the singulars by derivation from the general compound3 hence when the love is assaulted1 it defends itself by its understanding1 and the understanding 7defends itself7 by rational and imaginative principles1 whereby it represents to itself the event2 especially by such as act in unity with the love which is assaulted3 and unless this was the case the above form would wholly fall to pieces1 in consequence of the privation of that love4 ,hence then it is that love1 in order to resist assaults1 hardens the substance of its form1 and sets them erect1 as it were in crests1 like so many sharp prickles1 that is1 crisps itself2 such is the provoking of love which is called zeal3 wherefore if there is no opportunity of resistance1 there arise anxiety and grief1 because it foresees the extinction of interior life with its delights4 ,but on the other hand1 if the love is favored and cherished1 the above form unbends1 softens1 and dilates itself2 and the substances of the form become gentle1 mild1 meek1 and alluring4 #cfb4 ,,iii4 ,,the ,,quality ,,of ,a ,,man',s ,,zeal ,,is ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,quality ,,of ,,his ,,love2 ,,thus ,,it ,,differs ,,according ,,as ,,the ,,love ,,is ,,good ,,or ,,evil4 ,since zeal is of love1 it follows that its quality is such as the quality of the love is2 and as there are in general two loves1 the love of what is good and thence of what is true1 and the love of what is evil and thence of what is false1 hence in general there is a zeal in favor of what is good and thence of what is true1 and in favor of what is evil and thence of what is false4 ,but it is to be noted1 that of each love there is an infinite variety4 ,this is very manifest from the angels of heaven and the spirits of hell2 both of whom in the spiritual world are the forms of their respective love2 and yet there is not one angel of heaven absolutely like another as to face1 speech1 gait1 gesture1 and manner2 nor any spirit of hell2 yea neither can there be to eternity1 howsoever they be multiplied into myriads of myriads4 ,hence it is evident1 that there is an infinite variety of loves1 because there is of their forms4 ,the case is the same with zeal1 as being of the love2 the zeal of one cannot be absolutely like or the same with the zeal of another4 ,in general there are the zeal of a good and the zeal of an evil love4 #cfc4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,zeal ,,of ,a ,,good ,,love ,,and ,,the ,,zeal ,,of ,,an ,,evil ,,love ,,are ,,alike ,,in ,,externals1 ,,but ,,altogether ,,different ,,in ,,internals4 ,zeal in externals1 with every one1 appears like anger and wrath2 for it is love enkindled and inflamed to defend itself against a violator1 and to remove him4 ,the reason why the zeal of a good love and the zeal of an evil love appear alike in externals is1 because in both cases love while it is in zeal1 burns2 but with a good man only in externals1 whereas with an evil man it burns in both externals and internals2 and when internals are not regarded1 the zeals appear alike in externals2 but that they are altogether different in internals will be seen in the next article4 ,that zeal appears in externals like anger and wrath1 may be seen and heard from all those who speak and act from zeal2 as for example1 from a priest while he is preaching from zeal1 the tone of whose voice is high1 vehement1 sharp1 and harsh2 his face is heated and perspires2 he exerts himself1 beats the pulpit1 and calls forth fire from hell against those who do evil3 and so in many other cases4 #cfd4 ,in order that a distinct idea may be formed of zeal as influencing the good1 and of zeal as influencing the wicked1 and of their dissimilitude1 it is necessary that some idea be previously formed of men's internals and externals4 ,for this purpose1 let us take a common idea on the subject1 as being adapted to general apprehension1 and let it be exhibited by the case of a nut or an almond1 and their kernels4 ,with the good1 the internals are like the kernels within as to their soundness and goodness1 encompassed with their usual and natural husk2 with the wicked1 the case is altogether different1 their internals are like kernels which are either not eatable from their bitterness1 or rotten1 or worm-eaten2 whereas their externals are like the shells or husks of those kernels1 either like the natural shells or husks1 or shining bright like shell-fish1 or speckled like the stones called irises1 ,such is the appearance of their externals1 within which the above-mentioned internals lie concealed4 ,the case is the same with their zeal4 #cfe4 ,v4 ,,the ,,zeal ,,of ,a ,,good ,,love ,,in ,,its ,,internals ,,contains ,a ,,hidden ,,store ,,of ,,love ,,and ,,friendship2 ,,but ,,this ,,zeal ,,of ,,an ,,evil ,,love ,,in ,,its ,,internals ,,contains ,a ,,hidden ,,store ,,of ,,hatred ,,and ,,revenge4 ,it was said just above1 that zeal in externals appears like anger and wrath1 as well with those who are in a good love1 as with those who are in an evil love3 but whereas the internals are different1 the anger and wrath in each case differs from that of the other1 and the difference is as follows3 #a4 ,the zeal of a good love is like a heavenly flame1 which in one case bursts out upon another1 but only defends itself1 and that against a wicked person1 as when he rushes into the fire and is burnt3 but the zeal of an evil love is like an infernal flame1 which of itself bursts forth and rushes on1 and is desirous to consume another4 #b4 ,the zeal of a good love instantly burns away and is allayed when the assailant ceases to assault2 but the zeal of an evil love continues and is not extinguished4 #c4 ,this is because the internal of him who is in the love of good is in itself mild1 soft1 friendly1 and benevolent2 wherefore when his external1 with a view of defending itself1 is fierce1 harsh1 and haughty1 and thereby acts with rigor1 still it is tempered by the good in which he is internally3 it is otherwise with the wicked2 with such the internal is unfriendly1 without pity1 harsh1 breathing hatred and revenge1 and feeding itself with their delights2 and although it is reconciled1 still those evils lie concealed as fires in wood underneath the embers2 and these fires burst forth after death1 if not in this world4 #cff4 ,since zeal in externals appears alike both in the good and the wicked1 and since the ultimate sense of the ,word consists of correspondence and appearances1 therefore in the ,word1 it is very often said of ,jehovah that he is angry and wrathful1 that he revenges1 punishes1 casts into hell1 with many other things which are appearances of zeal in externals2 hence also it is that he is called zealous3 whereas there is not the least of anger1 wrath1 and revenge in him2 for he is essential mercy1 grace and clemency1 thus essential good1 in whom it is impossible such evil passions can exist4 ,but on this subject see more particulars in the treatise on ,,heaven ,,and ,,hell1 n4 #ede-eej2 and in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #did1 #dih1 #ebe1 #gad1 #hjf4 #cfg4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,zeal ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,called ,,jealousy4 ,zeal in favor of truly conjugial love is the chief of zeals2 because that love is the chief of loves1 and its delights1 in favor of which also zeal operates1 are the chief delights2 for1 as was shewn above1 that love is the head of all loves4 ,the reason of this is1 because that love induces in a wife the form of love1 and in a husband the form of wisdom2 and from these forms united into one1 nothing can proceed but what savors of wisdom and at the same time of love4 ,as the zeal of conjugial love is the chief of zeals1 therefore it is called by a new name1 ,,jealousy1 which is the very type of zeal4 #cfh4 ,,vii4 ,,jealousy ,,is ,,like ,,an ,,ardent ,,fire ,,against ,,those ,,who ,,infest ,,love ,,exercised ,,towards ,a ,,married ,,partner1 ,,and ,,like ,a ,,terrible ,,fear ,,for ,,the ,,loss ,,of ,,that ,,love4 ,the subject here treated of is jealousy of those who are in spiritual love with a married partner2 in the following article we shall treat of the jealousy of those who are in natural love2 and afterwards of the jealousy of those who are in love truly conjugial4 ,with those who are in spiritual love the jealousy is various1 because their love is various2 for one love1 whether spiritual or natural1 is never altogether alike with two persons1 still less with several4 ,the reason why spiritual jealousy1 or jealousy with the spiritual1 is like an ardent fire raging against those who infest their conjugial love1 is1 because with them the first principle of love is in the internals of each party1 and their love from its first principle follows its principiates1 even to its ultimates1 by virtue of which ultimates and at the same time of first principles1 the intermediates which are of the mind and body1 are kept in lovely connection4 ,these1 being spiritual1 in their marriage regard union as an end1 and in union spiritual rest and the pleasantness thereof3 now1 as they have rejected disunion from their minds1 therefore their jealousy is like a fire stirred up and darting forth against those who infest them4 ,the reason why it is also like a terrible fear is1 because their spiritual love intends that they be one2 if therefore there exists a chance1 or happens an appearance of separation1 a fear ensues as terrible as when two united parts are torn asunder4 ,this description of jealousy was given me from heaven by those who are in spiritual conjugial love2 for there are a natural1 a spiritual1 and a celestial conjugial love2 concerning the natural and the celestial conjugial love1 and their jealousy1 we shall take occasion to speak in the two following articles4 #cfi4 ,,viii4 ,,there ,,is ,,spiritual ,,jealousy ,,with ,,monogamists1 ,,and ,,natural ,,with ,,polygamists4 ,the reason why spiritual jealousy exists with monogamists is1 because they alone can receive spiritual conjugial love1 as has been abundantly shewn above4 ,it is said that it exists2 but the meaning is that it is capable of existing4 ,that it exists only with a very few in the ,christian world1 where there are monogamical marriages1 but that still it is capable of existing there1 has also been confirmed above4 ,that with polygamists conjugial love is natural1 may be seen in the chapter on ,polygamy1 n4 #cde1 #cdg2 in like manner jealousy is natural in the same case1 because this follows love4 ,what the quality of jealousy is among polygamists1 we are taught from the relations of those who have been eyewitnesses of its effects among the orientals3 these effects are1 that wives and concubines are guarded as prisoners in work-houses1 and are withheld from and prohibited all communication with men2 that into the women's apartments1 or the closets of their confinement1 no man is allowed to enter unless attended by a eunuch2 and that the strictest watch it set to observe whether any of the women look with a lascivious eye or countenance at a man as he passes2 and that if this be observed1 the woman is sentenced to the whip2 and in case she indulges her lasciviousness with any man1 whether introduced secretly into her apartment1 or from home1 she is punished with death4 #cgj4 ,from these considerations it is plainly seen what is the quality of the fire of jealousy into which polygamical conjugial love enkindles itself1--that it is into anger and revenge2 into anger with the meek1 and into revenge with the fierce4 ,the reason of this effect is1 because their love is natural1 and does not partake of anything spiritual4 ,this is a consequence of what is demonstrated in the chapter on ,polygamy1--that polygamy is lasciviousness1 n4 #cde2 and that a polygamist1 so long as he remains such1 is natural1 and cannot become spiritual1 n4 #cdg4 ,but the fire of jealousy is different with natural monogamists1 whose love is inflamed not so much against the women as against those who do violence1 becoming anger against the latter1 and cold against the former3 it is otherwise with polygamists1 whose fire of jealousy burns also with the rage of revenge3 this likewise is one of the reasons why1 after the death of polygamists1 their concubines and wives are for the most part set free1 and are sent to seraglios not guarded1 to employ themselves in the various elegant arts proper to women4 #cga4 ,,ix4 ,,jealousy ,,with ,,those ,,married ,,partners ,,who ,,tenderly ,,love ,,each ,,other1 ,,is ,a ,,just ,,grief ,,grounded ,,in ,,sound ,,reason ,,lest ,,conjugial ,,love ,,should ,,be ,,divided1 ,,and ,,should ,,thereby ,,perish4 ,all love is attended with fear and grief2 fear lest it should perish1 and grief in case it perishes3 it is the same with conjugial love2 but the fear and grief attending this love is called zeal or jealousy4 ,the reason why this zeal1 with married partners who tenderly love each other1 is just and grounded in sound reason1 is1 because it is at the same time a fear for the loss of eternal happiness1 not only of its own but also of its married partner's1 and because also it is a defence against adultery4 ,in respect to the first consideration1--that it is a just fear for the loss of its own eternal happiness and of that of its married partner1 it follows from every thing which has been heretofore adduced concerning love truly conjugial2 and also from this consideration1 that married partners derive from that love the blessedness of their souls1 the satisfaction of their minds1 the delight of their bosoms1 and the pleasure of their bodies2 and since these remain with them to eternity1 each party has a fear for eternal happiness4 ,that the above zeal is a just defence against adulteries1 is evident3 hence it is like a fire raging against violation1 and defending itself against it4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that whoever loves a married partner tenderly1 is also jealous1 but is just and discreet according to the man's wisdom4 #cgb4 ,it was said1 that in conjugial love there is implanted a fear lest it should be divided1 and a grief lest it should perish1 and that its zeal is like a fire raging against violation4 ,some time ago1 when meditating on this subject1 ,i asked the zealous angels concerning the seat of jealousy8 ,they said1 that it is in the understanding of the man who receives the love of a married partner and returns it2 and that its quality there is according to his wisdom3 they said further1 that jealousy has in it somewhat in common with honor1 which also resides in conjugial love2 for he that loves his wife1 also honors her4 ,in regard to zeal's residing with a man in his understanding1 they assigned this reason2 because conjugial love defends itself by the understanding1 as good does by truth2 so the wife defends those things which are common with the man1 by her husband2 and that on this account zeal is implanted in the men1 and by them1 and for their sake1 in the women4 ,to the question as to the region of the mind in which jealousy resides with the men1 they replied1 in their souls1 because it is also a defence against adulteries2 and because adulteries principally destroy conjugial love1 that when there is danger of the violation of that love1 the man's understanding grows hard1 and becomes like a horn1 with which he strikes the adulterer4 #cgc4 ,x4 ,,jealousy ,,with ,,married ,,partners ,,who ,,do ,,not ,,love ,,each ,,other1 ,,is ,,grounded ,,in ,,several ,,causes2 ,,arising ,,in ,,some ,,instances ,,from ,,various ,,mental ,,weaknesses4 ,the causes why married partners who do not mutually love each other1 are yet jealous1 are principally the honor resulting from power1 the fear of defamation with respect both to the man himself and also to his wife1 and the dread lest domestic affairs should fall into confusion4 ,it is well known that the men have honor resulting from power1 that is1 that they are desirous of being respected in consequence thereof2 for so long as they have this honor1 they are as it were of an elevated mind1 and not dejected when in the company of men and women3 to this honor also is attached the name of bravery2 wherefore military officers have it more than others4 ,that the fear of defamation1 with respect both to the man himself and also to his wife1 is a cause of jealousy that agrees with the foregoing3 to which may be added1 that living with a harlot1 and debauched practices in a house1 are accounted infamous4 ,the reason why some are jealous through a dread lest their domestic affairs should fall into confusion1 is because1 so far as this is the case1 the husband is made light of1 and mutual services and aids are withdrawn2 but with some in process of time this jealousy ceases and is annihilated1 and with some it is changed into the mere semblance of love4 #cgd4 ,that jealousy in certain cases arises from various mental weaknesses1 is not unknown in the world2 for there are jealous persons1 who are continually thinking that their wives are unfaithful1 and believe them to be harlots1 merely because they hear or see them talk in a friendly manner with or about men4 ,there are several vitiated affections of the mind which induce this weakness2 the principal of which is a suspicious fancy1 which if it be long cherished1 introduces the mind into societies of similar spirits1 from whence it cannot without difficulty be rescued2 it also confirms itself in the body1 by rendering the serum1 and consequently the blood1 viscous1 tenacious1 thick1 slow1 and acrid1 a defect of strength also increases it2 for the consequence of such defect is1 that the mind cannot be elevated from its suspicious fancies2 for the presence of strength elevates1 and its absence depresses1 the latter causing the mind to sink1 give way1 and become feeble2 in which case it immerses itself more and more in the above fancy1 till it grows delirious1 and thence takes delight in quarrelling1 and1 so far as is allowable1 in abuse4 #cge4 ,there are also several countries1 which more than others labor under this weakness of jealousy3 in these the wives are imprisoned1 are tyrannically shut out from conversation with men1 are prevented from even looking at them through the windows1 by blinds drawn down1 and are terrified by threats of death if the cherished suspicion shall appear well grounded2 not to mention other hardships which the wives in those countries suffer from their jealous husbands4 ,there are two causes of this jealousy2 one is1 an imprisonment and suffocation of the thoughts in the spiritual things of the church2 the other is1 an inward desire of revenge4 ,as to the first cause1--the imprisonment and suffocation of the thoughts in the spiritual things of the church1 its operation and effect may be concluded from what has been proved above1--that everyone has conjugial love according to the state of the church with him1 and as the church is from the ,lord1 that that love is solely from the ,lord1 n4 #acj1 #aca2 when therefore1 instead of the ,lord1 living and deceased men are approached and invoked1 it follows1 that the state of the church is such that conjugial love cannot act in unity with it2 and the less so while the mind is terrified into that worship by the threats of a dreadful prison3 hence it comes to pass1 that the thoughts1 together with the expressions of them in conversation1 are violently seized and suffocated2 and when they are suffocated1 there is an influx of such things as are either contrary to the church1 or imaginary in favor of it2 the consequence of which is1 heat in favor of harlots and cold towards a married partner2 from which two principles prevailing together in one subject1 such an unconquerable fire of jealousy flows forth4 ,as to the second cause1--the inward desire of revenge1 this altogether checks the influx of conjugial love1 and swallows it up1 and changes the delight thereof1 which is celestial1 into the delight of revenge1 which is infernal2 and the proximate determination of this latter is to the wife4 ,there is also an appearance1 that the unhealthiness of the atmosphere1 which in those regions is impregnated with the poisonous exhalations of the surrounding country1 is an additional cause4 #cgf4 ,,xi4 ,,in ,,some ,,instances ,,there ,,is ,,not ,,any ,,jealousy2 ,,and ,,this ,,also ,,from ,,various ,,causes4 ,there are several causes of there being no jealousy1 and of its ceasing4 ,the absence of jealousy is principally with those who make no more account of conjugial than of adulterous love1 and at the same time are so void of honorable feeling as to slight the reputation of a name3 they are not unlike married pimps4 ,there is no jealousy likewise with those who have rejected it from a confirmed persuasion that it infests the mind1 and that it is useless to watch a wife1 and that to do so serves only to incite her1 and that therefore it is better to shut the eyes1 and not even to look through the key-hole1 lest any thing should be discovered4 ,some have rejected jealousy on account of the reproach attached to the name1 and under the idea that any one who is a real man1 is afraid of nothing3 some have been driven to reject it lest their domestic affairs should suffer1 and also lest they should incur public censure in case the wife was convicted of the disorderly passion of which she is accused4 ,moreover jealousy passes off into no jealousy with those who grant license to their wives1 either from a want of ability1 or with a view to the procreation of children for the sake of inheritance1 also in some cases with a view to gain1 and so forth4 ,there are also disorderly marriages1 in which1 by mutual consent1 the licence of unlimited amour is allowed to each party1 and yet they are civil and complaisant to each other when they meet4 #cgg4 ,,xii4 ,,there ,,is ,a ,,jealousy ,,also ,,in ,,regard ,,to ,,concubines1 ,,but ,,not ,,such ,,as ,,in ,,regard ,,to ,,wives4 ,jealousy in regard to wives originates in a man's inmost principles2 but jealousy in regard to concubines originates in external principles2 they therefore differ in kind4 ,the reason why jealousy in regard to wives originates in inmost principles is1 because conjugial love resides in them3 the reason why it resides there is1 because marriage from the eternity of its compact established by covenant1 and also from an equality of right1 the right of each party being transferred to the other1 unites souls1 and lays a superior obligation on minds3 this obligation and that union1 once impressed1 remain inseparable1 whatever be the quality of the love afterwards1 whether it be warm or cold4 ,hence it is that an invitation to love coming from a wife chills the whole man from the inmost principles to the outermost2 whereas an invitation to love coining from a concubine has not the same effect upon the object of her love4 ,to jealousy in regard to a wife is added the earnest desire of reputation with a view to honor2 and there is no such addition to jealousy in regard to a concubine4 ,nevertheless both kinds of jealousy vary according to the seat of the love received by the wife and by the concubine2 and at the same time according to the state of the judgment of the man receiving it4 #cgh4 ,,xiii4 ,,jealousy ,,likewise ,,exists ,,among ,,beasts ,,and ,,birds4 ,that it exists among wild beasts1 as lions1 tigers1 bears1 and several others1 while they have whelps1 is well known2 and also among bulls1 although they have not calves3 it is most conspicuous among dung-hill cocks1 who in favor of their hens fight with their rivals even to death3 the reason why the latter have such jealousy is1 because they are vain-glorious lovers1 and the glory of that love cannot endure an equal2 that they are vain-glorious lovers1 above every genus and species of birds1 is manifest from their gestures1 nods1 gait1 and tone of voice4 ,that the glory of honor with men1 whether lovers or not1 excites1 increases1 and sharpens jealousy1 has been confirmed above4 #cgi4 ,,xiv4 ,,the ,,jealousy ,,of ,,men ,,and ,,husbands ,,is ,,different ,,from ,,that ,,of ,,women ,,and ,,wives4 ,the differences cannot however be distinctly pointed out1 since the jealousy of married partners who love each other spiritually1 differs from that of married partners who love each other merely naturally1 and differs again with those who disagree in minds1 and also with those who have subjected their consorts to the yoke of obedience4 ,the jealousies of men and of women considered in themselves are different1 because from different origins3 the origin of the jealousies of men is in the understanding1 whereas of women it is in the will applied to the understanding of the husband3 the jealousy of a man therefore1 is like a flame of wrath and anger2 whereas that of a woman is like a fire variously restrained1 by fear1 by regard to the husband1 by respect to her own love1 and by her prudence in not revealing this love to her husband by jealousy3 they differ also because wives are loves1 and men recipients thereof2 and wives are unwilling to squander their love upon the men1 but the case is not so with the recipients towards the wives4 ,with the spiritual1 however1 it is otherwise2 with these the jealousy of the man is transferred into the wife1 as the love of the wife is transferred into the husband2 therefore with each party it appears like itself against the attempts of a violator2 but the jealousy of the wife is inspired into the husband against the attempts of the violating harlot1 which is like grief weeping1 and moving the conscience4 99 99 99 99 99 #chj4 ,to the above ,i shall add two ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,i was once in much amazement at the great multitude of men who ascribe creation1 and consequently whatever is under the sun and above it1 to nature2 expressing the real sentiments of their hearts as to the visible things of the world1 by this question1 ,what are these but the works of nature8 ,and when they are asked why they ascribe them to nature and not to ,god1 when nevertheless they occasionally join in the general confession1 that ,god has created nature1 and therefore they might as well ascribe creation to ,god as to nature1 they return for answer1 with an internal tone of voice1 which is scarcely audible1 ,what is ,god but nature8 ,from this persuasion concerning nature as the creator of the universe1 and from this folly which has to them the semblance of wisdom1 all such persons appear so full of their own importance1 that they regard all those who acknowledge the creation of the universe to be from ,god1 as so many ants which creep along the ground and tread in a beaten path1 and in some cases as butterflies which fly in the air2 ridiculing their opinions as dreams because they see what they do not see1 and deciding all by the question1 ,who has seen ,god1 and who has not seen nature8 ,while ,i was thus amazed at the great multitude of such persons1 there stood near me an angel1 who asked me1 ,what is the subject of your meditation8 ,i replied1 ,it is concerning the great multitude of such as believe that nature created the universe4 ,the angel then said to me1 ,all hell consists of such persons1 who are there called satans and devils2 satans1 if they have confirmed themselves in favor of nature to the denial of ,god1 and devils1 if they have lived wickedly1 and thereby rejected all acknowledgement of ,god from their hearts2 but ,i will lead you to the gymnasia1 which are in the south-west1 where such persons dwell1 having not yet departed to their infernal abodes4 ,he took me by the hand and led me there4 ,i saw some small houses1 in which were apartments for the studious1 and in the midst of them one which served as a principal hall to the rest4 ,it was constructed of a pitchy kind of stone1 covered with a sort of glazed plates1 that seemed to sparkle with gold and silver1 like the stones called ,glades ,mari2 and here and there were interspersed shells which glittered in like manner4 ,we approached and knocked at the door1 which was presently opened by one who bade us welcome4 ,he then went to the table1 and fetched four books1 and said1 ,these books are the wisdom which is at this day the admiration of many kingdoms3 this book or wisdom is the admiration of many in ,france1 this of many in ,germany1 this of some in ,holland1 and this of some in ,england3 ,he further said1 ,if you wish to see it1 ,i will cause these four books to shine brightly before your eyes3 he then poured forth and spread around them the glory of his own reputation1 and the books presently shone as with light2 but this light instantly vanished from our sight4 ,we then asked him what he was now writing8 ,he replied1 that he was now about to bring forth from his treasures1 and publish to the world1 things of inmost wisdom1 which would be comprised under these general heads3 ,i4 ,whether nature be derived from life1 or life from nature4 ,,ii4 ,whether the centre be derived from the expanse1 or the expanse from the centre4 ,,iii4 ,on the centre and the expanse of nature and of life4 ,having said this1 he reclined on a couch at the table2 but we walked about in his spacious study4 ,he had a candle on the table1 because the light of the sun never shone in that room1 but only the nocturnal light of the moon2 and what surprised me1 the candle seemed to be carried all round the room1 and to illuminate it2 but1 for want of being snuffed1 it gave but little light4 ,while he was writing1 we saw images in various forms flying from the table towards the walls1 which in that nocturnal moon-light appeared like beautiful ,indian birds2 but on opening the door1 lo6 in the light of the sun they appeared like birds of the evening1 with wings like network2 for they were semblances of truth made fallacies by being confirmed1 which he had ingeniously connected together into series4 ,after attending some time to this sight1 we approached the table1 and asked him what he was then writing8 ,he replied1 ,on the first general head1 ,,whether ,,nature ,,be ,,derived ,,from ,,life1 ,,or ,,life ,,from ,,nature2 and on this question he said1 that he could confirm either side1 and cause it to be true2 but as something lay concealed within which excited his fears1 therefore he durst only confirm this side1 that nature is of life1 that is1 from life1 but not that life is of nature1 that is1 from it4 ,we then civilly requested him to tell us1 what lay concealed within1 which excited his fears8 ,he replied1 he was afraid lest he should be called a naturalist1 and so an atheist1 by the clergy1 and a man of unsound reason by the laity2 as they both either believe from a blind credulity1 or see from the sight of those who confirm that credulity4 ,but just then1 being impelled by a kind of indignant zeal for the truth1 we addressed him in saying1 ,friend1 you are much deceived2 your wisdom1 which is only an ingenious talent for writing1 has seduced you1 and the glory of reputation has led you to confirm what you do not believe4 ,do you know that the human mind is capable of being elevated above sensual things1 which are derived into the thoughts from the bodily senses1 and that when it is so elevated1 it sees the things that are of life above1 and those that are of nature beneath8 ,what is life but love and wisdom8 and what is nature but their recipient1 whereby they may produce their effects or uses8 ,can these possibly be one in any other sense than as principal and instrumental are one8 ,can light be one with the eye1 or sound with the ear8 ,whence are the senses of these organs but from life1 and their forms but from nature8 ,what is the human body but an organ of life8 ,are not all things therein organically formed to produce the things which the love wills and the understanding thinks8 ,are not the organs of the body from nature1 and love and thought from life8 ,and are not those things entirely distinct from each other8 ,raise the penetration of your ingenuity a little1 and you will see that it is the property of life to be affected and to think1 and that to be affected is from love1 and to think is from wisdom1 and each is from life2 for1 as we have said1 love and wisdom are life3 if you elevate your faculty of understanding a little higher1 you will see that no love and wisdom exists1 unless its origin be somewhere or other1 and that its origin is wisdom itself1 and thence life itself1 and these are ,god from whom is nature4 ,afterwards we conversed with him about his second question1 ,,whether ,,the ,,centre ,,be ,,of ,,the ,,expanse1 ,,or ,,the ,,expanse ,,of ,,the ,,centre2 and asked him why he discussed this question8 ,he replied1 ,with a view to conclude concerning the centre and the expanse of nature and of life1 thus concerning the origin of each4 ,and when we asked him what were his sentiments on the subject1 he answered1 as in the former case1 that he could confirm either side1 but for fear of suffering in his reputation1 he would confirm that the expanse is of the centre1 that is1 from the centre2 although ,i know1 said he1 that something existed before the sun1 and this in the universe throughout1 and that these things flowed together of themselves into order1 thus into centres4 ,but here again we addressed him from the overflowing of an indignant zeal1 and said1 ,friend1 you are insane4 ,on hearing these words1 he drew his couch aside from the table1 and looked timidly at us1 and then listened to our conversation1 but with a smile upon his countenance1 while we thus proceeded3 ,what is a surer proof of insanity1 than to say that the centre is from the expanse8 ,by your centre we understand the sun1 and by your expanse the universe2 and thus1 according to you1 the universe existed without the sun3 but does not the sun make nature1 and all its properties1 which depend solely on the heat and light proceeding from the sun by the atmospheres8 ,where were those things previous to the sun's existence8 ,but whence they originated we will shew presently4 ,are not the atmospheres and all things which exist on the earth1 as surfaces1 and the sun their centre8 ,what are they all without the sun2 or how could they subsist a single moment in the sun's absence8 ,consequently what were they all before the sun1 or how could they subsist8 ,is not subsistence perpetual existence8 ,since therefore all the parts of nature derive their subsistence from the sun1 they must of consequence derive also their existence from the same origin3 every one sees and is convinced of this truth by the testimony of his own eyes4 ,does not that which is posterior subsist from what is prior1 as it exists from what is prior8 ,supposing the surface to be the prior and the centre the posterior1 would not the prior in such case subsist from the posterior1 which yet is contrary to the laws of order8 ,how can posterior things produce prior1 or exterior things produce interior1 or grosser things produce purer8 consequently1 how can surfaces1 which constitute the expanse1 produce centres8 ,who does not see that this is contrary to the laws of nature8 ,we have adduced these arguments from a rational analysis1 to prove that the expanse exists from the centre1 and not the centre from the expanse2 nevertheless every one who sees aright1 sees it to be so without the help of such arguments4 ,you have asserted1 that the expanse flowed together of itself into a centre2 did it thus flow by chance into so wonderful and stupendous an order1 where one thing exists for the sake of another1 and everything for the sake of man1 and with a view to his eternal life8 ,is it possible that nature from any principle of love1 by any principle of wisdom1 should provide such things8 ,and can nature make angels of men1 and heaven of angels8 ,ponder and consider these things3 and your idea of nature existing from nature will fall to the ground4 ,afterwards we questioned him as to his former and present sentiments concerning his third inquiry1 relating to the ,,centre ,,and ,,expanse ,,of ,,nature ,,and ,,of ,,like2 whether he was of opinion that the centre and expanse of life are the same with the centre and expanse of nature8 ,he replied1 that he was in doubt about it1 and that he formerly thought that the interior activity of nature is life2 and that love and wisdom1 which essentially constitute the life of man1 are thence derived2 and that the sun's fire1 by the instrumentality of heat and light1 through the mediums of the atmospheres1 produce those principles2 but that now1 from what he had heard concerning the eternal life of men1 he began to waver in his sentiments1 and that in consequence of such wavering1 his mind was sometimes carried upwards1 sometimes downwards2 and that when it was carried upwards1 he acknowledged a centre of which he had before no idea2 but when downwards1 he saw a centre which he believed to be the only one that existed2 and that life is from the centre which before was unknown to him2 and nature is from the centre which he before believed to be the only one existing2 and that each centre has an expanse around it4 ,to this we said1 ,well1 if he would only respect the centre and expanse of nature from the centre and expanse of life1 and not contrariwise2 and we informed him1 that above the angelic heaven there is a sun which is pure love1 in appearance very like the sun of the world2 and that from the heat which proceeds from that sun1 angels and men derive will and love1 and from its light they derive understanding and wisdom2 and that the things which are of life1 are called spiritual and that those which proceed from the sun of the world1 are what contain life1 and are called natural2 also that the expanse of the centre of life is called the ,,spiritual ,,world1 which subsists from its sun1 and that the expanse of nature is called the ,,natural ,,world1 which subsists from its sun4 ,now1 since of love and wisdom there cannot be predicated spaces and times1 but instead thereof states1 it follows1 that the expanse around the sun of the angelic heaven is not extended1 but still is in the extense of the natural sun1 and present with all living subjects therein according to their receptions1 which are according to forms4 ,but he then asked1 ,whence comes the fire of the sun of the world1 or of nature8 ,we replied1 that it is derived from the sun of the angelic heaven1 which is not fire1 but divine love proximately proceeding from ,god1 who is love itself4 ,as he was surprised at this1 we thus proved it3 ,love in its essence is spiritual fire2 hence fire in the ,word1 in its spiritual sense1 signifies love3 it is on this account that priests1 when officiating in the temple1 pray that heavenly fire may fill their hearts1 by which they mean heavenly love3 the fire of the altar and of the candlestick in the tabernacle amongst the ,israelites1 represented divine love3 the heat of the blood1 or the vital heat of men and animals in general is from no other source than love1 which constitutes their life3 hence it is that a man is enkindled1 grows warm1 and becomes on fire1 while his love is exalted into zeal1 anger1 and wrath2 wherefore from the circumstance1 that spiritual heat1 which is love1 produces natural heat with men1 even to the kindling and inflaming of their faces and limbs1 it may appear1 that the fire of the natural sun has existed from no other source than the fire of the spiritual sun1 which is divine love4 ,now1 since the expanse originates from the centre1 and not the centre from the expanse1 as we said above1 and the centre of life1 which is the sun of the angelic heaven1 is divine love proximately proceeding from ,god1 who is in the midst of that sun2 and since the expanse of that centre1 which is called the spiritual world1 is hence derived2 and since from that sun existed the sun of the world1 and from the latter its expanse1 which is called the natural world2 it is evident1 that the universe was created by one ,god4 ,with these words we took our leave1 and he attended us out of the court of his study1 and conversed with us respecting heaven and hell1 and the divine government1 from a new acuteness of genius4 #cha4 ,,the ,,second ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,on a time as ,i was looking around into the world of spirits1 ,i saw at a distance a palace surrounded and as it were besieged by a crowd2 ,i also saw many running towards it4 ,wondering what this could mean1 ,i speedily left the house1 and asked one of those who were running1 what was the matter at the palace8 ,he replied1 that three new comers from the world had been taken up into heaven1 and had there seen magnificent things1 also maidens and wives of astonishing beauty2 and that being let down from heaven they had entered into that palace1 and were relating what they had seen2 especially that they had beheld such beauties as their eyes had never before seen1 or can see1 unless illustrated by the light of heavenly aura4 ,respecting themselves they said1 that in the world they had been orators1 from the kingdom of ,france1 and had applied themselves to the study of eloquence1 and that now they were seized with a desire of making an oration on the origin of beauty4 ,when this was made known in the neighbourhood1 the multitude flocked together to hear them4 ,upon receiving this information1 ,i hastened also myself1 and entered the palace1 and saw the three men standing in the midst1 dressed in long robes of a sapphire color1 which1 having threads of gold in their texture at every change of posture shone as if they had been golden4 ,they stood ready to speak behind a kind of stage2 and presently one of them rose on a step behind the stage1 and delivered his sentiments concerning the origin of the beauty of the female sex1 in the following words4 #chb4 ,what is the origin of beauty but love1 which1 when it flows into the eyes of youths1 and sets them on becomes beauty8 therefore love and beauty are the same thing2 for love1 from an inmost principle1 tinges the face of a marriageable maiden with a kind of flame1 from the transparence of which is derived the dawn and bloom of her life4 ,who does not know that the flame emits rays into her eyes1 and spreads from these as centres into the countenance1 and also descends into the breast1 and sets the heart on fire1 and thereby affects 7a youth71 just as a fire with its heat and light affects a person standing near it8 ,that heat is love1 and that light is the beauty of love4 ,the whole world is agreed1 and firm in the opinion1 that every one is lovely and beautiful according to his love3 nevertheless the love of the male sex differs from that of the female4 ,male love is the love of growing wise1 and female love is that of loving the love of growing wise in the male2 so far therefore as a youth is the love of growing wise1 so far he is lovely and beautiful to a maiden2 and so far as a maiden is the love of a youth's wisdom1 so far she is lovely and beautiful to a youth2 wherefore as love meets and kisses the love of another1 so also do beauties4 ,i conclude therefore1 that love forms beauty into a resemblance of itself4 #chc4 ,after him arose a second1 with a view of discovering1 in a neat and elegant speech1 the origin of beauty4 ,he expressed himself thus3 ,i have heard that love is the origin of beauty2 but ,i cannot agree with this opinion4 ,what human being knows what love is8 ,who has ever contemplated it with any idea of thought8 ,who has ever seen it with the eye8 ,let such a one tell me where it is to be found4 ,but ,i assert that wisdom is the origin of beauty2 in women a wisdom which lies concealed and stored up in the inmost principles of the mind1 in men a wisdom which manifests itself1 and is apparent4 ,whence is a man 7homo7 a man but from wisdom8 ,were it not so1 a man would be a statue or a picture4 ,what does a maiden attend to in a youth1 but the quality of his wisdom2 and what does a youth attend to in a maiden1 but the quality of her affection of his wisdom8 ,by wisdom ,i mean genuine morality2 because this is the wisdom of life4 ,hence it is1 that when wisdom which lies concealed1 approaches and embraces wisdom which is manifest1 as is the case interiorly in the spirit of each1 they mutually kiss and unite1 and this is called love2 and in such case each of the parties appears beautiful to the other4 ,in a word1 wisdom is like the light or brightness of fire1 which impresses itself on the eyes1 and thereby forms beauty4 #chd4 ,after him the third arose1 and spoke to this effect3 ,it is neither love alone nor wisdom alone1 which is the origin of beauty2 but it is the union of love and wisdom2 the union of love with wisdom in a youth1 and the union of wisdom with its love in a maiden3 for a maiden does not love wisdom in herself but in a youth1 and hence sees him as beauty1 and when a youth sees this in a maiden1 he then sees her as beauty2 therefore love by wisdom forms beauty1 and wisdom grounded in love receives it4 ,that this is the case1 appears manifestly in ,heaven4 ,i have there seen maidens and wives1 and have attentively considered their beauties1 and have observed1 that beauty in maidens differs from beauty in wives2 in maidens being only the brightness1 but in wives the splendor of beauty4 ,the difference appeared like that of a diamond sparkling from light1 and of a ruby shining from fire together with light4 ,what is beauty but the delight of the sight8 and in what does this delight originate but in the sport of love and wisdom8 ,this sport gives brilliancy to the sight1 and this brilliancy vibrates from eye to eye1 and presents an exhibition of beauty4 ,what constitutes beauty of countenance1 but red and white1 and the lovely mixture thereof with each other8 and is not the red derived from love1 and the white from wisdom8 love being red from its fire1 and wisdom1 white from its light4 ,both these ,i have clearly seen in the faces of two married partners in heaven2 the redness of white in the wife1 and the whiteness of red in the husband2 and ,i observed that they shone in consequence of mutually looking at each other4 ,when the third had thus concluded1 the assembly applauded and cried out1 ,he has gained the victory4 ,then on a sudden1 a flaming light1 which is the light of conjugial love1 filled the house with its splendor1 and the hearts of the company with satisfaction4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,with ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants4 #che4 ,there are evident signs that conjugial love and the love of infants1 which is called storge1 are connected2 and there are also signs which may induce a belief that they are not connected2 for there is the love of infants with married partners who tenderly love each other1 and also with married partners who disagree entirely1 and likewise with those who are separated from each other1 and in some cases it is more tender and stronger with the latter than the former2 but that still the love of infants is always connected with conjugial love1 may appear from the origin from which it flows in2 for although this origin varies with the recipients1 still those loves remain inseparable1 just as the first end in the last1 which is the effect4 ,the first end of conjugial love is the procreation of offspring1 and the last1 or the effect1 is the offspring procreated4 ,that the first end enters into the effect1 and is therein as in its origin1 and does not withdraw from it1 may be seen from a rational view of the orderly progression of ends and causes to effects4 ,but as the reasonings of the generality commence merely from effects1 and from them proceed to some consequences thence resulting1 and do not commence from causes1 and from them proceed analytically to effects1 and so forth2 therefore the rational principles of light must needs become the obscure principles of cloud2 whence come derivations from truth1 arising from appearances and fallacies4 ,but that it may be seen that conjugial love and the love of infants are interiorly connected1 although exteriorly disjointed1 we will proceed to demonstrate it in the following order4 ,i4 ,two universal spheres proceed from the ,lord to preserve the universe in its created ,state2 of which the one is the sphere of procreating1 and the other the sphere of protecting the things procreated4 ,,ii4 ,these two universal spheres make a one with the sphere of conjugial love and the sphere of the love of infants4 ,,iii4 ,these two spheres universally and singularly flow into all things of heaven1 and all things of the world from first to last4 ,,iv4 ,the sphere of the love of infants is a sphere of protection and support of those who cannot protect and support themselves4 ,v4 ,this sphere affects both the evil and the good1 and disposes every one to love1 protect1 and support his offspring from his own love4 ,,vi4 ,this sphere principally affects the female sex1 thus mothers1 and the male sex1 or fathers1 by derivation from them4 ,,vii4 ,this sphere is also a sphere of innocence and peace from the ,lord4 ,,viii4 ,the sphere of innocence flows into infants1 and through them into the parents1 and affects them4 ,,ix1 ,it also flows into the souls of the parents1 and unites with the same sphere 7as operative7 with the infants2 and it is principally insinuated by means of the touch4 ,x4 ,in the degree in which innocence retires from infants1 affection and conjunction also abate1 and this successively even to separation4 ,,xi4 ,a state of rational innocence and peace with parents towards infants is grounded on the circumstance1 that they know nothing and can do nothing from themselves1 but from others1 especially from the father and mother2 and that this state also successively retires1 in proportion as they know and have ability from themselves1 and not from others4 ,,xii4 ,the above sphere advances in order from the end through causes into effects and makes periods2 whereby creation is preserved in the state foreseen and provided for4 ,,xiii4 ,the love of infants descends and does not ascend4 ,,xiv4 ,wives have one state of love before conception and another after1 even to the birth4 ,,xv4 ,with parents conjugial love is conjoined with the love of infants by spiritual causes1 and thence by natural4 ,,xvi4 ,the love of infants and children is different with spiritual married partners from what it is with natural4 ,,xvii4 ,with spiritual married partners that love is from what is interior or prior1 but with natural from what is exterior or posterior4 ,,xviii4 ,in consequence hereof that love prevails with married partners who mutually love each other1 and also with those who do not at all love each other4 ,,xix4 ,the love of infants remains after death1 especially with women4 ,,xx4 ,infants are educated under the ,lord's auspices by such women1 and grow in stature and intelligence as in the world4 ,,xxi4 ,it is there provided by the ,lord1 that with those infants the innocence of infancy becomes the innocence of wisdom1 and thus the infants become angels4 ,we now proceed to an explanation of each article4 #chf4 ,i4 ,,two ,,universal ,,spheres ,,proceed ,,from ,,the ,,lord ,,to ,,preserve ,,the ,,universe ,,in ,,its ,,created ,,state2 ,,of ,,which ,,the ,,one ,,is ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,procreating ,,and ,,the ,,other ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,protecting ,,the ,,things ,,procreated4 ,the divine which proceeds from the ,lord is called a sphere1 because it goes forth from him1 surrounds him1 fills both the spiritual and the natural world1 and produces the effects of the ends which the ,lord predestinated in creation1 and provides since creation4 ,all that which flows from a subject1 and surrounds and environs it1 is named a sphere2 as in the case of the sphere of light from the sun around it1 of the sphere of life from man around him1 of the sphere of odor from a plant around it1 of the sphere of attraction from the magnet around it1 and so forth3 but the universal spheres of which we are here treating1 are from the ,lord around him2 and they proceed from the sun of the spiritual world1 in the midst of which he is4 ,from the ,lord by means of that sun1 proceeds a sphere of heat and light1 or what is the same1 a sphere of love and wisdom1 to produce ends1 which are uses2 but that sphere according to uses1 is distinguished by various names3 the divine sphere which looks to the preservation of the universe in its created state by successive generations1 is called the sphere of procreating2 and the divine sphere which looks to the preservation of generations in their beginnings1 and afterwards in their progressions1 is called the sphere of protecting the things procreated3 besides these two1 there are several other divine spheres which are named according to their uses1 consequently variously1 as may be seen above1 n4 #bbb4 ,the operations of uses by these spheres are the divine providence4 #chg4 ,,ii4 ,,these ,,two ,,universal ,,spheres ,,make ,a ,,one ,,with ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,and ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants4 ,that the sphere of conjugial love makes a one with the sphere of procreating1 is evident2 for procreation is the end1 and conjugial love the mediate cause by which 7the end is promoted71 and the end and the cause in what is to be effected and in effects1 act in unity1 because they act together4 ,that the sphere of the love of infants makes a one with the sphere of protecting the things procreated1 is also evident1 because it is the end proceeding from the foregoing end1 which was procreation1 and the love of infants is its mediate cause by which it is promoted3 for ends advance in a series1 one after another1 and in their progress the last end becomes the first1 and thereby advances further1 even to the boundary1 in which they subsist or cease4 ,but on this subject more will be seen in the explanation of article ,,xii4 #chh4 ,,iii4 ,,these ,,two ,,spheres ,,universally ,,and ,,singularly ,,flow ,,into ,,all ,,things ,,of ,,heaven ,,and ,,all ,,things ,,of ,,the ,,world1 ,,from ,,first ,,to ,,last4 ,it is said universally and singularly1 because when mention is made of a universal1 the singulars of which it is composed are meant at the same time2 for a universal exists from and consists of singulars2 thus it takes its name from them1 as a whole exists from1 consists of1 and takes its name from its parts2 therefore1 if you take away singulars1 a universal is only a name1 and is like a mere surface which contains nothing3 consequently to attribute to ,god universal government1 and to take away singulars1 is vain talk and empty preaching3 nor is it to the purpose1 in this case1 to urge a comparison with the universal government of the kings of the earth4 ,from this ground then it is said1 that those two spheres flow in universally and singularly4 #chi4 ,the reason why the spheres of procreating and of protecting the things procreated1 or the spheres of conjugial love and the love of infants1 flow into all thing of heaven and all things of the world1 from first 7principles7 to last1 is because all things which proceed from the ,lord1 or from the sun which is from him and in which he is1 pervade the created universe even to the last of all its principles3 the reason of this is1 because divine things1 which in progression are called celestial and spiritual1 have no relation to space and time4 ,that extension cannot be predicated of things spiritual1 in consequence of their not having any relation to space and time1 is well known3 hence whatever proceeds from the ,lord1 is in an instant from first 7principles7 in last4 ,that the sphere of conjugial love is thus universal may be seen above1 n4 #bbb-bbe4 ,that in like manner the sphere of the love of infants is universal1 is evident from that love's prevailing in heaven1 where there are infants from the earths2 and from that love's prevailing in the world with men1 beasts and birds1 serpents and insects4 ,something resembling this love prevails also in the vegetable and mineral kingdoms2 in the vegetable1 in that seeds are guarded by shells or husks as by swaddling clothes1 and moreover are in the fruit as in a house1 and are nourished with juice as with milk2 that there is something similar in minerals1 is plain from the matrixes and external covering1 in which noble gems and metals are concealed and guarded4 #cij4 ,the reason why the sphere of procreating1 and the sphere of protecting the things procreated1 make a one in a continual series1 is1 because the love of procreating is continued into the love of what is procreated4 ,the quality of the love of procreating is known from its delight1 which is supereminent and transcendent4 ,this love influences the state of procreating with men1 and in a remarkable manner the state of reception with women2 and this very exalted delight with its love continues even to the birth1 and there attains its fulness4 #cia4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants ,,is ,a ,,sphere ,,of ,,protection ,,and ,,support ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,cannot ,,protect ,,and ,,support ,,themselves4 ,that the operations of uses from the ,lord by spheres proceeding from him1 are the divine providence1 was said above1 n4 #chf2 this divine providence therefore is meant by the sphere of protection and support of those who cannot protect and support themselves3 for it is a law of creation that the things created are to be preserved1 guarded1 protected1 and supported2 otherwise the universe would fall to decay3 but as this cannot be done immediately from the ,lord with living creatures1 who are left to their own choice1 it is done mediately by his love implanted in fathers1 mothers1 and nurses4 ,that their love is from the ,lord influencing them1 is not known to themselves1 because they do not perceive the influx1 and still less the ,lord's omnipresence3 but who does not see1 that this principle is not of nature1 but of the divine providence operating in and by nature2 and that such a universal principle cannot exist except from ,god1 by a certain spiritual sun1 which is in the centre of the universe1 and whose operation1 being without space and time1 is instant and present from first principles in last8 ,but in what manner that divine operation1 which is the ,lord's divine providence1 is received by animate subjects1 will be shewn in what follows4 ,that mothers and fathers protect and support infants1 because they cannot protect and support themselves1 is not the cause of that love1 but is a rational cause derived from that love's falling into the understanding2 for a man1 from this cause alone1 without love inspired and inspiring it1 or without law and punishment compelling him1 would no more than a statue provide for infants4 #cib4 ,v4 ,,this ,,sphere ,,affects ,,both ,,the ,,evil ,,and ,,the ,,good1 ,,and ,,disposes ,,every ,,one ,,to ,,love1 ,,protect1 ,,and ,,support ,,his ,,offspring ,,from ,,his ,,own ,,love4 ,experience testifies that the love of infants prevails equally with the evil and the good1 and in like manner with tame and wild beasts2 yea1 that in some cases it is stronger and more ardent in its influence on evil men1 and also on wild beasts4 ,the reason of this is1 because all love proceeding from the ,lord and flowing into subjects1 is changed in the subject into the love of its life2 for every animate subject has no other sensation than that its love originates in itself1 as it does not perceive the influx2 and while also it actually loves itself1 it makes the love of infants proper to itself2 for it sees as it were itself in them1 and them in itself1 and itself thus united with them4 ,hence also this love is fiercer with wild beasts1 as with lions and lionesses1 he and she bears1 leopards and leopardesses1 he and she wolves1 and others of a like nature1 than with horses1 deer1 goats1 and sheep2 because those wild beasts have dominion over the tame1 and hence self-love is predominant1 and this loves itself in its offspring2 therefore as we said1 the influent love is turned into self-love4 ,such an inversion of the influent love into self-love1 and the consequent protection and support of the young offspring by evil parents1 is of the ,lord's divine providence2 for otherwise there would remain but few of the human race1 and none of the savage beasts1 which1 nevertheless1 are of use4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that every one is disposed to love1 protect1 and support his offspring1 from his own love4 #cic4 ,,vi4 ,,this ,,sphere ,,principally ,,affects ,,the ,,female ,,sex1 ,,thus ,,mothers ,,and ,,the ,,male ,,sex1 ,,or ,,fathers1 ,,by ,,derivation ,,from ,,them4 ,this follows from what was said above1 in regard to the origin of conjugial love1--that the sphere of conjugial love is received by the women1 and through them is transferred to the men3 because women are born loves of the understanding of the men1 and the understanding is a recipient4 ,the case is the same with the love of infants1 because this originates in conjugial love4 ,it is well known that mothers are influenced by a most tender love of infants1 and fathers by a love less tender4 ,that the love of infants is inherent in conjugial love1 into which women are born1 is evident from the amiable and endearing love of girls towards infants1 and towards their dolls1 which they carry1 dress1 kiss1 and press to their bosoms3 boys are not influenced by any such affection4 ,it appears as if mothers derived the love of infants from nourishing them in the womb out of their own blood1 and from the consequent appropriation of their life1 and thus from sympathetic union3 but still this is not the origin of that love2 for if another infant1 without the mother's knowledge1 were to be put after the birth in the place of the genuine infant1 the mother would love it with equal tenderness as if it were her own3 moreover infants are sometimes loved by their nurses more than by their mothers4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that this love is from no other source than from the conjugial love implanted in every woman1 to which is joined the love of conceiving2 from the delight of which the wife is prepared for reception4 ,this is the first of the above love1 which with its delight after the birth passes fully to the offspring4 #cid4 ,,vii4 ,,this ,,sphere ,,is ,,also ,a ,,sphere ,,of ,,innocence ,,and ,,peace 7,,from ,,the ,,lord74 ,innocence and peace are the two inmost principles of heaven2 they are called inmost principles1 because they proceed immediately from the ,lord3 for the ,lord is innocence itself and peace itself4 ,from innocence the ,lord is called a ,lamb1 and from peace he saith1 ,peace ,i leave you2 my peace ,i give you1 ,john xiv4 #bg2 and he is also meant by the peace with which the disciples were to salute a city or house which they entered2 and of which it is said1 that if it was worthy1 peace would come upon it1 and if not worthy1 peace would return1 ,matt4 x4 #aa-ae4 ,hence also the ,lord is called the ,prince of peace1 ,isaiah ix4 #e1 #f4 ,a further reason why innocence and peace are the inmost principles of heaven1 is1 because innocence is the esse of every good1 and peace is the blessed principle of every delight which is of good4 ,see the work on ,,heaven ,,and ,,hell1 as to the state of innocence of the angels of heaven1 n4 #bgf-bhc2 and as to peace in heaven1 n4 #bhd-bij4 #cie4 ,,viii4 ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,innocence ,,flows ,,into ,,infants1 ,,and ,,through ,,them ,,into ,,the ,,parents1 ,,and ,,affects ,,them4 ,it is well known that infants are innocences2 but it is not known that their innocence flows in from the ,lord4 ,it flows in from the ,lord1 because1 as was said just above1 he is innocence itself2 neither can any thing flow in1 since it cannot exist except from its first principle1 which is ,,it itself4 ,but we will briefly describe the nature and quality of the innocence of infants1 which affects parents3 it shines forth from their face1 from some of their gestures1 and from their first speech1 and affects them4 ,they have innocence1 because they do not think from any interior principle2 for they do not as yet know what is good and evil1 and what is true and false1 as the ground of their thoughts2 in consequence of which they have not a prudence originating in selfhood1 nor any deliberate purpose2 of course they do not regard any evil as an end4 ,they are free from selfhood acquired from self-love and the love of the world2 they do not attribute any thing to themselves2 they refer to their parents whatever they receive2 content with the trifles which are given them as presents1 they have no care about food and raiment1 or about the future2 they do not look to the world1 and immerse themselves thereby in the desire of many things2 they love their parents1 their nurses1 and their infant companions1 with whom they play in innocence2 they suffer themselves to be guided1 they harken and obey4 ,this is the innocence of infancy1 which is the cause of the love called storge4 #cif4 ,,ix4 ,,it ,,also ,,flows ,,in ,,to ,,the ,,souls ,,of ,,the ,,parents1 ,,and ,,unites ,,with ,,the ,,same ,,sphere 7,,as ,,operative7 ,,with ,,the ,,infants1 ,,and ,,it ,,is ,,principally ,,insinuated ,,by ,,means ,,of ,,the ,,touch4 ,the ,lord's innocence flows into the angels of the third heaven1 where all are in the innocence of wisdom1 and passes through the inferior heavens1 but only through the innocences of the angels therein1 and thus immediately and mediately flows into infants4 ,these differ but little from graven forms2 but still they are receptible of life from the ,lord through the heavens4 ,yet1 unless the parents also received that influx in their souls1 and in the inmost principles of their minds1 they would in vain be affected by the innocence of the infants4 ,there must be something adequate and similar in another1 whereby communication may be effected1 and which may cause reception1 affection1 and thence conjunction2 otherwise it would be like soft seed falling upon a stone1 or a lamb exposed to a wolf4 ,from this ground then it is1 that innocence flowing into the souls of the parents1 unites with the innocence of the infants4 ,experience may shew that1 with the parents1 this conjunction is effected by the mediation of the bodily senses1 but especially by the touch3 as that the sight is intimately delighted by seeing them1 the hearing by their speech1 the smelling by their odor4 ,that the communication and therefore the conjunction of innocence is principally effected by the touch1 is evident from the satisfaction of carrying them in the arms1 from fondling and kissing them1 especially in the case of mothers1 who are delighted in laying their mouth and face upon their bosoms1 and at the same time in touching the same with the palms of their hands1 in general1 in giving them milk by suckling them at the breasts1 moreover1 in stroking their naked body1 and the unwearied pains they take in washing and dressing them on their laps4 ,that the communications of love and its delights between married partners are effected by the sense of the touch has been occasionally proved above4 ,the reason why communications of the mind are also effected by the same sense is1 because the hands are a man's ultimates1 and his first principles are together in the ultimates1 whereby also all things of the body and of the mind are kept together in an inseparable connection4 ,hence it is1 that ,jesus touched infants1 ,matt1 xviii4 #b-f2 ,mark x4 #ac-af2 and that he healed the sick by the touch3 and that those who touched him were healed3 hence also it is1 that inaugurations into the priesthood are at this day effected by the laying on of hands4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that the innocence of parents and the innocence of infants meet each other by the touch1 especially of the hands1 and thereby join themselves together as by kisses4 #cig4 ,that innocence produces similar effects with beasts and birds as with men1 and that by contact1 is well known3 the reason of this is1 because all that proceeds from the ,lord1 in an instant pervades the universe1 as may be seen above1 n4 #chh-cij2 and as it proceeds by degrees1 and by continual mediations1 therefore it passes not only to animals1 but also to vegetables and minerals2 see n4 #chi2 it also passes into the earth itself1 which is the mother of all vegetables and minerals2 for the earth1 in the spring1 is in a prepared state for the reception of seeds1 as it were in the womb2 and when it receives them1 it1 as it were1 conceives1 cherishes them1 bears1 excludes1 suckles1 nourishes1 clothes1 educates1 guards1 and1 as it were1 loves the offspring derived from them1 and so forth4 ,since the sphere of procreation proceeds thus far1 how much more must it proceed to animals of every kind1 even to worms6 ,that as the earth is the common mother of vegetables1 so there is also a common mother of bees in every hive1 is a well known tact1 confirmed by observation4 #cih4 ,x4 ,,in ,,the ,,degree ,,in ,,which ,,innocence ,,retires ,,from ,,infants1 ,,affection ,,and ,,conjunction ,,also ,,abate1 ,,and ,,this ,,successively ,,even ,,to ,,separation4 ,it is well known that the love of infants1 or storge1 retires from parents according as innocence retires from them2 and that1 in the case of men1 it retires even to the separation of children from home1 and in the case of beasts and birds1 to a rejection from their presence1 and a total forgetfulness of relationship4 ,from this circumstance1 as an established fact1 it may further appear1 that innocence flowing in on each side produces the love called storge4 #cii4 ,,xi4 ,a ,,state ,,of ,,rational ,,innocence ,,and ,,peace ,,with ,,parents ,,towards ,,infants1 ,,is ,,grounded ,,in ,,the ,,circumstance1 ,,that ,,they ,,know ,,nothing ,,and ,,can ,,do ,,nothing ,,from ,,themselves1 ,,but ,,from ,,others1 ,,especially ,,from ,,the ,,father ,,and ,,mother2 ,,and ,,this ,,state ,,successively ,,retires1 ,,in ,,proportion ,,as ,,they ,,know ,,and ,,have ,,ability ,,from ,,themselves1 ,,and ,,not ,,from ,,others4 ,that the sphere of the love of infants is a sphere of protection and support of those who cannot protect and support themselves1 was shewn above in its proper article1 n4 #cia3 that this is only a rational cause with men1 but not the very essential cause of that love prevailing with them1 was also mentioned in the same article4 ,the real original cause of that love is innocence from the ,lord1 which flows in while the man is ignorant of it1 and produces the above rational cause2 therefore as the first cause produces a retiring from that love1 so also does the second cause at the same time2 or what is the same1 as the communication of innocence retires1 so also the persuading reason accompanies it2 but this is the case only with man to the intent that he may do what he does from freedom according to reason1 and from this1 as from a rational and at the same time a moral law1 may support his adult offspring according to the requirements of necessity and usefulness4 ,this second cause does not influence animals who are without reason1 they being affected only by the prior cause1 which to them is instinct4 #djj4 ,,xii4 ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,procreating ,,advances ,,in ,,order ,,from ,,the ,,end ,,through ,,causes ,,into ,,effects1 ,,and ,,makes ,,periods2 ,,whereby ,,creation ,,is ,,preserved ,,in ,,the ,,state ,,foreseen ,,and ,,provided ,,for4 ,all operations in the universe have a progression from ends through causes into effects4 ,these three are in themselves indivisible1 although in idea they appear divided2 but still the end1 unless the intended effect is seen together with it1 is not any thing2 nor does either become any thing1 unless the cause supports1 contrives1 and conjoins it4 ,such a progression is inherent in every man in general1 and in every particular1 altogether as will1 understanding1 and action3 every end in regard to man relates to the will1 every cause to the understanding1 and every effect to the action2 in like manner1 every end relates to love1 every efficient cause to wisdom1 and every effect thence derived to use4 ,the reason of this is1 because the receptacle of love is the will1 the receptacle of wisdom is the understanding1 and the receptacle of use is action3 since therefore operations in general and in particular with man advance from the will through the understanding into act1 so also do they advance from love through wisdom into use4 ,by wisdom here we mean all that which belongs to judgement and thought4 ,that these three are a one in the effect1 is evident4 ,that they also make a one in ideas before the effect1 is perceived from the consideration1 that determination only intervenes2 for in the mind an end goes forth from the will and produces for itself a cause in the understanding1 and presents to itself an intention2 and intention is as an act before determination2 hence it is1 that by a wise man1 and also by the ,lord1 intention is accepted as an act4 ,what rational person cannot see1 or1 when he hears1 acknowledge1 that those three principles flow from some first cause1 and that that cause is1 that from the ,lord1 the ,creator and ,conservator of the universe1 there continually proceed love1 wisdom1 and use1 and these three are one8 ,tell1 if you can1 in what other source they originate4 #dja4 ,a similar progression from end through cause into effect belongs also to the sphere of procreating and of protecting the things procreated4 ,the end in this case is the will or love of procreating2 the middle cause1 by which the end is effected and into which it infuses itself1 is conjugial love2 the progressive series of efficient causes is the loving1 conception1 gestation of the embryo or offspring to be procreated2 and the effect is the offspring itself procreated4 ,but although end1 cause1 and effect successively advance as three things1 still in the love of procreating1 and inwardly in all the causes1 and in the effect itself1 they make a one4 ,they are the efficient causes only1 which advance through times1 because in nature2 while the end or will1 or love1 remains continually the same3 for ends advance in nature through times without time2 but they cannot come forth and manifest themselves1 until the effect or use exists and becomes a subject2 before this1 the love could love only the advance1 but could not secure and fix itself4 ,that there are periods of such progressions1 and that creation is thereby preserved in the state foreseen and provided for1 is well known4 ,but the series of the love of infants from its greatest to its least1 thus to the boundary in which it subsists or ceases1 is retrograde2 since it is according to the decrease of innocence in the subject1 and also on account of the periods4 #djb4 ,,xiii4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants ,,descends1 ,,and ,,does ,,not ,,ascend4 ,that it descends from generation to generation1 or from sons and daughters to grandsons and granddaughters1 and does not ascend from these to fathers and mothers of families1 is well known4 ,the cause of its increase in descent is the love of fructifying1 or of producing uses1 and in respect to the human race1 it is the love of multiplying it2 but this derives its origin solely from the ,lord1 who1 in the multiplication of the human race1 regards the conservation of creation1 and as the ultimate end thereof1 the angelic heaven1 which is solely from the human race2 and since the angelic heaven is the end of ends1 and thence the love of loves with the ,lord1 therefore there is implanted in the souls of men1 not only the love of procreating1 but also of loving the things procreated in successions3 hence also this love exists only with man and not with any beast or bird4 ,that this love with man descends increasing1 is in consequence of the glory of honor1 which in like manner increases with him according to amplifications4 ,that the love of honor and glory receives into itself the love of infants flowing from the ,lord1 and makes it as it were its own1 will be seen in article ,,xvi4 #djc4 ,,xiv4 ,,wives ,,have ,,one ,,state ,,of ,,love ,,before ,,conception ,,and ,,another ,,after1 ,,even ,,to ,,the ,,birth4 ,this is adduced to the end that it may be known1 that the love of procreating1 and the consequent love of what is procreated1 is implanted in conjugial love with women1 and that with them those two loves are divided1 while the end1 which is the love of procreating1 begins its progression4 ,that the love called storge is then transferred from the wife to the husband2 and also that the love of procreating1 which1 as we said1 with a woman makes one with her conjugial love1 is then not alike1 is evident from several indications4 #djd4 ,,xv4 ,,with ,,parents ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,conjoined ,,with ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants ,,by ,,spiritual ,,causes1 ,,and ,,thence ,,by ,,natural4 ,the spiritual causes are1 that the human race may be multiplied1 and from this the angelic heaven enlarged1 and that thereby such may be born as will become angels1 serving the ,lord to promote uses in heaven1 and by consociation with men also in the earths3 for every man has angels associated with him from the ,lord2 and such is his conjunction with them1 that if they were taken away1 he would instantly die4 ,the natural causes of the conjunction of those two loves are1 to effect the birth of those who may promote uses in human societies1 and may be incorporated therein as members4 ,that the latter are the natural and the former the spiritual causes of the love of infants and of conjugial love1 even married partners themselves think and sometimes declare1 saying they have enriched heaven with as many angels as they have had descendants1 and have furnished society with as many servants as they have had children4 #dje4 ,,xvi4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,children ,,and ,,infants ,,is ,,different ,,with ,,spiritual ,,married ,,partners ,,from ,,what ,,it ,,is ,,with ,,natural4 ,with spiritual married partners the love of infants as to appearance1 is like the love of infants with natural married partners2 but it is more inward1 and thence more tender1 because that love exists from innocence1 and from a nearer reception of innocence1 and thereby a more present preception of it in man's self3 for the spiritual are such so far as they partake of innocence4 ,but spiritual fathers and mothers1 after they have sipped the sweet of innocence with their infants1 love their children very differently from what natural fathers and mothers do4 ,the spiritual love their children from their spiritual intelligence and moral life2 thus they love them from the fear of ,god and actual piety1 or the piety of life1 and at the same time from affection and application to uses serviceable to society1 consequently from the virtues and good morals which they possessed4 ,from the love of these things they are principally led to provide for1 and minister to1 the necessities of their children2 therefore if they do not observe such things in them1 they alienate their minds from them and do nothing for them but so far as they think themselves bound in duty4 ,with natural fathers and mothers the love of infants is indeed grounded also in innocence2 but when the innocence is received by them1 it is entwined around their own love1 and consequently the love of their infants from the latter1 and at the same time from the former1 kissing1 embracing1 and dangling them1 hugging them to their bosoms1 and fawning upon and flattering them beyond all bounds1 regarding them as one heart and soul with themselves2 and afterwards1 when they have passed the state of infancy even to boyhood and beyond it1 in which state innocence is no longer operative1 they love them not from any fear of ,god and actual piety1 or the piety of life1 nor from any rational and moral intelligence they may have2 neither do they regard1 or only very slightly1 if at all1 their internal affections1 and thence their virtues and good morals1 but only their externals1 which they favor and indulge4 ,to these externals their love is directed and determined3 hence also they close their eyes to their vices1 excusing1 and favoring them4 ,the reason of this is1 because with such parents the love of their offspring is also the love of themselves2 and this love adheres to the subject outwardly1 without entering into it1 as self does not enter into itself4 #djf4 ,the quality of the love of infants and of the love of children with the spiritual and with the natural1 is evidently discerned from them after death2 for most fathers1 when they come into another life1 recollect their children who have died before them2 they are also presented to and mutually acknowledge each other4 ,spiritual fathers only look at them1 and inquire as to their present state1 and rejoice if it is well with them1 and grieve if it is ill2 and after some conversation1 instruction1 and admonition respecting moral celestial life1 they separate from them1 telling them1 that they are no longer to be remembered as fathers because the ,lord is the only ,father to all in heaven1 according to his words1 ,matt4 xxiii4 #i3 and that they do not at all remember them as children4 ,but natural fathers1 when they first become conscious that they are living after death1 and recall to mind their children who have died before them1 and also when1 agreeably to their wishes1 they are presented to each other1 they instantly embrace1 and become united like bundles of rods2 and in this case the father is continually delighted with beholding and conversing with them4 ,if the father is told that some of his children are satans1 and that they have done injuries to the good1 he nevertheless keeps them in a group around him1 if he himself sees that they are the occasion of hurt and do mischief1 he still pays no attention to it1 nor does he separate any of them from association with himself2 in order1 therefore1 to prevent the continuance of such a mischievous company1 they are of necessity committed forthwith to hell2 and there the father1 before the children1 is shut up in confinement1 and the children are separated1 and each is removed to the place of his life4 #djg4 ,to the above ,i will add this wonderful relation3--in the spiritual world ,i have seen fathers who1 from hatred1 and as it were rage1 had looked at infants presented before their eyes1 with a mind so savage1 that1 if they could1 they would have murdered them2 but on its being hinted to them1 though without truth1 that they were their own infants1 their rage and savageness instantly subsided1 and they loved them to excess4 ,this love and hatred prevail together with those who in the world had been inwardly deceitful1 and had set their minds in enmity against the ,lord4 #djh4 ,,xvii4 ,,with ,,the ,,spiritual ,,that ,,love ,,is ,,from ,,what ,,is ,,interior ,,or ,,prior1 ,,but ,,with ,,the ,,natural ,,from ,,what ,,is ,,exterior ,,or ,,posterior4 ,to think and conclude from what is interior or prior1 is to think and conclude from ends and causes to effects2 but to think and conclude from what is exterior or posterior1 is to think and conclude from effects to causes and ends4 ,the latter progression is contrary to order1 but the former according to it2 for to think and conclude from ends and causes1 is to think and conclude from goods and truths1 viewed in a superior region of the mind1 to effects in an inferior region4 ,real human rationality from creation is of this quality4 ,but to think and conclude from effects1 is to think and conclude from an inferior region of the mind1 where the sensual things of the body reside with their appearances and fallacies1 to guess at causes and effects1 which in itself is merely to confirm falsities and concupiscences1 and afterwards to see and believe them to be truths of wisdom and goodnesses of the love of wisdom4 ,the case is similar in regard to the love of infants and children with the spiritual and the natural2 the spiritual love them from what is prior1 thus according to order3 but the natural love them from what is posterior1 thus contrary to order4 ,these observations are adduced only for the confirmation of the preceding article4 #dji4 ,,xviii4 ,,in ,,consequence ,,hereof ,,that ,,love ,,prevails ,,with ,,married ,,partners ,,who ,,mutually ,,love ,,each ,,other1 ,,and ,,also ,,with ,,those ,,who ,,do ,,not ,,at ,,all ,,love ,,each ,,other2 consequently it prevails with the natural as well as with the spiritual2 but the latter are influenced by conjugial love1 whereas the former are influenced by no such love but what is apparent and pretended4 ,the reason why the love of infants and conjugial love still act in unity1 is1 because1 as we have said1 conjugial love is implanted in every woman from creation1 and together with it the love of procreating1 which is determined to and flows into the procreated offspring1 and from the women is communicated to the men4 ,hence in houses1 in which there is no conjugial love between the man and his wife1 it nevertheless is with the wife1 and thereby some external conjunction is effected with the man4 ,from this same ground it is1 that even harlots love their offspring2 for that which from creation is implanted in souls1 and respects propagation1 is indelible1 and cannot be extirpated4 #daj4 ,,xix4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants ,,remains ,,after ,,death1 ,,especially ,,with ,,women4 ,infants1 as soon as they are raised up1 which happens immediately after their decease1 are elevated into heaven1 and delivered to angels of the female sex1 who in the life of the body in the world loved infants1 and at the same time feared ,god4 ,these1 having loved all infants with maternal tenderness1 receive them as their own2 and the infants in this case1 as from an innate feeling1 love them as their mothers3 as many infants are consigned to them1 as they desire from a spiritual storge4 ,the heaven in which infants are appears in front in the region of the forehead1 in the line in which the angels look directly at the ,lord4 ,that heaven is so situated1 because all infants are educated under the immediate auspices of the ,lord4 ,there is an influx also into this heaven from the heaven of innocence1 which is the third heaven4 ,when they have passed through this first period1 they are transferred to another heaven1 where they are instructed4 #daa4 ,,xx4 ,,infants ,,are ,,educated ,,under ,,the ,,lord',s ,,auspices ,,by ,,such ,,women1 ,,and ,,grow ,,in ,,stature ,,and ,,intelligence ,,as ,,in ,,the ,,world4 ,infants in heaven are educated in the following manner2 they learn to speak from the female angel who has the charge of their education2 their first speech is merely the sound of affection1 in which however there is some beginning of thought1 whereby what is human in the sound is distinguished from the sound of an animal2 this speech gradually becomes more distinct1 as ideas derived from affection enter the thought3 all their affections1 which also increase1 proceed from innocence4 ,at first1 such things are insinuated into them as appear before their eyes1 and are delightful2 and as these are from a spiritual origin1 heavenly things flow into them at the same time1 whereby the interiors of their minds are opened4 ,afterwards1 as the infants are perfected in intelligence1 so they grow in stature1 and viewed in this respect1 they appear also more adult1 because intelligence and wisdom are essential spiritual nourishment2 therefore those things which nourish their minds1 also nourish their bodies4 ,infants in heaven1 however1 do not grow up beyond their first age1 where they stop1 and remain in it to eternity4 ,and when they are in that age1 they are given in marriage1 which is provided by the ,lord1 and is celebrated in the heaven of the youth1 who presently follows the wife into her heaven1 or into her house1 if they are of the same society4 ,that ,i might know of a certainty1 that infants grow in stature1 and arrive at maturity as they grow in intelligence1 ,i was permitted to speak with some while they were infants1 and afterwards when they were grown up2 and they appeared as full-grown youths1 in a stature1 like that of young men full grown in the world4 #dab4 ,infants are instructed especially by representatives adequate and suitable to their genius2 the great beauty and interior wisdom of which can scarcely be credited in the world4 ,i am permitted to adduce here two representations1 from which a judgement may be formed in regard to the rest4 ,on a certain time they represented the ,lord ascending from the sepulchre1 and at the same time the unition of his human with the divine4 ,at first they presented the idea of a sepulchre1 but not at the same time the idea of the ,lord1 except so remotely1 that it was scarcely1 and as it were at a distance1 perceived that it was the ,lord2 because in the idea of a sepulchre there is somewhat funereal1 which they hereby removed4 ,afterwards they cautiously admitted into the sepulchre a sort of atmosphere1 appearing nevertheless as a thin vapor1 by which they signified1 and this with a suitable degree of remoteness1 spiritual life in baptism4 ,they afterwards represented the ,lord's descent to those who were bound1 and his ascent with them into heaven2 and in order to accommodate the representation to their infant minds1 they let down small cords that were scarcely discernible1 exceedingly soft and yielding1 to aid the ,lord in the ascent1 being always influenced by a holy fear lest any thing in the representation should affect something that was not under heavenly influence3 not to mention other representations1 whereby infants are introduced into the knowledges of truth and the affections of good1 as by games adapted to their capacities4 ,to these and similar things infants are led by the ,lord by means of innocence passing through the third heaven2 and thus spiritual things are insinuated into their affections1 and thence into their tender thoughts1 so that they know no other than that they do and think such things from themselves1 by which their understanding commences4 #dac4 ,,xxi4 ,,it ,,is ,,there ,,provided ,,by ,,the ,,lord1 ,,that ,,with ,,those ,,infants ,,the ,,innocence ,,of ,,infancy ,,becomes ,,the ,,innocence ,,of ,,wisdom 7,,and ,,thus ,,they ,,become ,,angels74 ,many may conjecture that infants remain infants1 and become angels immediately after death3 but it is intelligence and wisdom that make an angel3 therefore so long as infants are without intelligence and wisdom1 they are indeed associated with angels1 yet are not angels3 but they then first become so when they are made intelligent and wise4 ,infants therefore are led from the innocence of infancy to the innocence of wisdom1 that is1 from external innocence to internal3 the latter innocence is the end of all their instruction and progression3 therefore when they attain to the innocence of wisdom1 the innocence of infancy is adjoined to them1 which in the mean time had served them as a plane4 ,i saw a representation of the quality of the innocence of infancy2 it was of wood almost without life1 and was vivified in proportion as the knowledges of truth and the affections of good were imbibed3 and afterwards there was represented the quality of the innocence of wisdom1 by a living infant4 ,the angels of the third heaven1 who are in a state of innocence from the ,lord above other angels1 appear like naked infants before the eyes of spirits who are beneath the heavens2 and as they are wiser than all others1 so are they also more truly alive3 the reason of this is1 because innocence corresponds to infancy1 and also to nakedness1 therefore it is said of ,adam and his wife1 when they were in a state of innocence1 that they were naked and were not ashamed1 but that when they had lost their state of innocence1 they were ashamed of their nakedness1 and hid themselves1 ,gen4 ii4 #be2 chap4 iii4 #g1 #aj1 #aa4 ,in a word1 the wiser the angels are the more innocent they are4 ,the quality of the innocence of wisdom may in some measure be seen from the innocence of infancy above described1 n4 #cie1 if only instead of parents1 the ,lord be assumed as the ,father by whom they are led1 and to whom they ascribe what they have received4 #dad4 ,on the subject of innocence ,i have often conversed with the angels who have told me that innocence is the esse of every good1 and that good is only so far good as it has innocence in it3 and1 since wisdom is of life and thence of good1 that wisdom is only so far wisdom as it partakes of innocence3 the like is true of love1 charity1 and faith2 and hence it is that no one can enter heaven unless he has innocence2 which is meant by these words of the ,lord1 ,suffer infants to come to me1 and forbid them not2 for of such is the kingdom of the heavens2 verily ,i say unto you1 ,whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of the heavens as an infant1 he will not enter therein1 ,mark x4 #ad1 #ae2 ,luke xviii4 #af1 #ag4 ,in this passage1 as well as in other parts of the ,word1 infants denote those who are in innocence4 ,the reason why good is good1 so far as it has innocence in it1 is1 because all good is from the ,lord1 and innocence consists in being led by the ,lord4 99 99 99 99 99 #dae4 ,to the above ,i shall add this ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,one morning1 as ,i awoke out of sleep1 the light beginning to dawn and it being very serene1 while ,i was meditating and not yet quite awake1 ,i saw through the window as it were a flash of lightning1 and presently ,i heard as it were a clap of thunder2 and while ,i was wondering whence this could be1 ,i heard from heaven words to this effect1 ,there are some not far from you1 who are reasoning sharply about ,god and nature4 ,the vibration of light like lightning1 and the clapping of the air like thunder1 are correspondences and consequent appearances of the conflict and collision of arguments1 on one side in favor of ,god1 and on the other in favor of nature4 ,the cause of this spiritual combat was as follows3 there were some satans in hell who expressed a wish to be allowed to converse with the angels of heaven2 for1 said they1 we will clearly and fully demonstrate1 that what they call ,god1 the ,creator of all things1 is nothing but nature2 and thus that ,god is a mere unmeaning expression1 unless nature be meant by it4 ,and as those satans believed this with all their heart and soul1 and also were desirous to converse with the angels of heaven1 they were permitted to ascend out of the mire and darkness of hell1 and to converse with two angels at that time descending from heaven4 ,they were in the world of spirits1 which is intermediate between heaven and hell4 ,the satans on seeing the angels there1 hastily ran to them1 and cried out with a furious voice1 ,are you the angels of heaven with whom we are allowed to engage in debate1 respecting ,god and nature8 ,you are called wise because you acknowledge a ,god2 but1 alas6 how simple you are6 ,who sees ,god8 who understands what ,god is8 who conceives that ,god governs1 and can govern the universe1 with everything belonging thereto8 and who but the vulgar and common herd of mankind acknowledges what he does not see and understand8 ,what is more obvious than that nature is all in all8 ,is it not nature alone that we see with our eyes1 hear with our ears1 smell with our nostrils1 taste with our tongues1 and touch and feel with our hands and bodies8 ,and are not our bodily senses the only evidences of truth8 ,who would not swear from them that it is so8 ,are not your heads in nature1 and is there any influx into the thoughts of your heads but from nature8 ,take away nature1 and can you think at all8 ,not to mention several other considerations of a like kind4 ,on hearing these words the angels replied1 ,you speak in this manner because you are merely sensual4 ,all in the hells have the ideas of their thoughts immersed in the bodily senses1 neither are they able to elevate their minds above them2 therefore we excuse you4 ,the life of evil and the consequent belief of what is false have closed the interiors of your minds1 so that you are incapable of any elevation above the things of sense1 except in a state removed from evils of life1 and from false principles of faith3 for a satan1 as well as an angel1 can understand truth when he hears it2 but he does not retain it1 because evil obliterates truth and induces what is false3 but we perceive that you are now in a state of removal from evil1 and thus that you can understand the truth which we speak2 attend therefore to what we shall say3 and they proceeded thus3 ,you have been in the natural world1 and have departed thence1 and are now in the spiritual world4 ,have you known anything till now concerning a life after death8 ,have you not till now denied such a life1 and degraded yourselves to the beasts8 ,have you known any thing heretofore about heaven and hell1 or the light and heat of this world8 or of this circumstance1 that you are no longer within the sphere of nature1 but above it2 since this world and all things belonging to it are spiritual1 and spiritual things are above natural1 so that not the least of nature can flow into this world8 ,but1 in consequence of believing nature to be a ,god or a goddess1 you believe also the light and heat of this world to be the light and heat of the natural world1 when yet it is not at all so2 for natural light here is darkness1 and natural heat is cold4 ,have you known anything about the sun of this world from which our light and heat proceed8 ,have you known that this sun is pure love1 and the sun of the natural world pure fire2 and the sun of the world1 which is pure fire1 is that from which nature exists and subsists2 and that the sun of heaven1 which is pure love1 is that from which life itself1 which is love with wisdom exists and subsists2 and thus that nature1 which you make a god or a goddess1 is absolutely dead8 ,you can1 under the care of a proper guard1 ascend with us into heaven2 and we also1 under similar protection1 can descend with you into hell2 and in heaven you will see magnificent and splendid objects1 but in hell such as are filthy and unclean4 ,the ground of the difference is1 because all in the heavens worship ,god1 and all in the hells worship nature2 and the magnificent and splendid objects in the heavens are correspondences of the affections of good and truth1 and the filthy and unclean objects in the hells are correspondences of the lusts of what is evil and false4 ,judge now1 from these circumstances1 whether ,god or nature be all in all4 ,to this the satans replied1 ,in the state wherein we now are1 we can conclude1 from what we have heard1 that there is a ,god2 but when the delight of evil seizes our minds1 we see nothing but nature4 ,these two angels and two satans were standing to the right1 at no great distance from me2 therefore ,i saw and heard them2 and lo6 ,i saw near them many spirits who had been celebrated in the natural world for their erudition2 and ,i was surprised to observe that those great scholars at one time stood near the angels and at another near the satans1 and that they favored the sentiments of those near whom they stood2 and ,i was led to understand that the changes of their situation were changes of the state of their minds1 which sometimes favored one side and sometimes the other2 for they were vertumni4 ,moreover1 the angels said1 ,we will tell you a mystery2 on our looking down upon the earth1 and examining those who were celebrated for erudition1 and who have thought about ,god and nature from their own judgement1 we have found six hundred out of a thousand favorers of nature1 and the rest favorers of ,god2 and that these were in favor of ,god1 in consequence of having frequently maintained in their conversation1 not from any convictions of their understandings1 but only from hear-say1 that nature is from ,god2 for frequent conversation from the memory and recollection1 and not at the same time from thought and intelligence1 induces a species of faith4 ,after this1 the satans were entrusted to a guard and ascended with the two angels into heaven1 and saw the magnificent and splendid objects contained therein2 and being then an illustration from the light of heaven1 they acknowledged the being of a ,god1 and that nature was created to be subservient to the life which is in ,god and from ,god2 and that nature in itself is dead1 and consequently does nothing of itself1 but is acted upon by life4 ,having seen and perceived these things1 they descended3 and as they descended the love of evil returned and closed their understanding above and opened it beneath2 and then there appeared above it as it were a veil sending forth lightning from infernal fire2 and as soon as they touched the earth with their feet1 the ground cleaved asunder beneath them1 and they returned to their associates4 #daf4 ,after these things those two angels seeing me near1 said to the by-standers respecting me1 ,we know that this man has written about ,god and nature2 let us hear what he has written4 ,they therefore came to me1 and intreated that what ,i had written about ,god and nature might be read to them3 ,i therefore read as follows4 ,those who believe in a ,divine operation in everything of nature1 may confirm themselves in favor of the ,divine1 from many things which they see in nature1 equally1 yea more than those who confirm themselves in favor of nature3 for those who confirm themselves in favor of the ,divine1 attend to the wonderful things1 which are conspicuous in the productions of both vegetables and animals3--in the ,,production ,,of ,,vegetables1 that from a small seed sown in the earth there is sent forth a root1 by means of the root a stem1 and successively buds1 leaves1 flowers1 fruits1 even to new seeds2 altogether as if the seed was acquainted with the order of succession1 or the process by which it was to renew itself4 ,what rational person can conceive1 that the sun which is pure fire1 is acquainted with this1 or that it can endue its heat and light with a power to effect such things2 and further1 that it can form wonderful things therein1 and intend use8 ,when a man of elevated reason sees and considers such things1 he cannot think otherwise than that they are from him who has infinite wisdom1 consequently from ,god4 ,those who acknowledge the ,divine1 also see and think so2 but those who do not acknowledge it1 do not see and think so1 because they are unwilling2 and thereby they let down their rational principle into the sensual1 which derives all its ideas from the luminous principle in which the bodily senses are1 and confirms their fallacies urging1 ',do not you see the sun effecting these things by its heat and light8 ,what is that which you do not see8' ,is it anything8 ,those who confirm themselves in favor of the ,divine1 attend to the wonderful things which are conspicuous in the ,,productions ,,of ,,animals2 to mention only what is conspicuous in eggs1 that there lies concealed in them a chick in its seed1 or first principles of existence1 with everything requisite even to the hatching1 and likewise to every part of its progress after hatching1 until it becomes a bird1 or winged animal1 in the form of its parent stock4 ,a farther attention to the nature and quality of the form cannot fail to cause astonishment in the contemplative mind2 to observe in the least as well as in the largest kinds1 yea1 in the invisible as in the visible1 that is1 in small insects1 as in fowls or great beasts1 how they are all endowed with organs of sense1 such as seeing1 smelling1 tasting1 touching2 and also with organs of motion1 such as muscles1 for they fly and walk2 and likewise with viscera1 around the heart and lungs1 which are actuated by the brains3 that the commonest insects enjoy all these parts of organization is known from their anatomy1 as described by some writers1 especially ,,swammerdam in his ,books of ,nature4 ,those who ascribe all things to nature do indeed see such things2 but they think only that they are so1 and say that nature produces them3 and this they say in consequence of having averted their minds from thinking about the ,divine2 and those who have so averted their minds1 when they see the wonderful things in nature1 cannot think rationally1 and still less spiritually2 but they think sensually and materially1 and in this case they think in and from nature1 and not above it1 in like manner as those do who are in hell2 differing from beasts only in this respect1 that they have rational powers1 that is1 they are capable of understanding1 and thereby of thinking otherwise1 if only they are willing4 ,those who have averted themselves from thinking about the ,divine1 when they see the wonderful things in nature1 and thereby become sensual1 do not consider that the sight of the eye is so gross that it sees several small insects as one confused mass2 when yet each of them is organized to feel and to move itself1 consequently is endowed with fibres and vessels1 also with a little heart1 pulmonary pipes1 small viscera1 and brains2 and that the contexture of these parts consists of the purest principles in nature1 and corresponds to some life1 by virtue of which their minutest parts are distinctly acted upon4 ,since the sight of the eye is so gross that several of such insects1 with the innumerable things in each1 appear to it as a small confused mass1 and yet those who are sensual1 think and judge from that sight1 it is evident how gross their minds are1 and consequently in what thick darkness they are respecting spiritual things4 #dag4 ,every one that is willing to do so1 may confirm himself in favor of the ,divine from the visible things in nature2 and he also who thinks of ,god from the principle of life1 does so confirm himself2 while1 for instance1 he observes the fowls of heaven1 how each species of them knows its proper food and where it is to be found2 how they can distinguish those of their own kind by the sounds they utter and by their external appearance2 how also1 among other kinds1 they can tell which are their friends and which their foes2 how they pair together1 build their nests with great art1 lay therein their eggs1 hatch them1 know the time of hatching1 and at its accomplishment help their young out of the shell1 love them most tenderly1 cherish them under their wings1 feed and nourish them1 until they are able to provide for themselves and do the like1 and to procreate a family in order to perpetuate their kind4 ,every one that is willing to think of a divine influx through the spiritual world into the natural1 may discern it in these instances1 and may also1 if he will1 say in his heart1 ',such knowledges cannot flow into those animals from the sun by the rays of its light3' for the sun1 from which nature derives its birth and its essence1 its pure fire1 and consequently the rays of its light are altogether dead2 and thus they may conclude1 that such effects are derived from an influx of divine wisdom into the ultimates of nature4 #dah4 ,every one may confirm himself in favor of the ,divine from what is visible in nature1 while he observes worms1 which from the delight of a certain desire1 wish and long after a change of their earthly state into a state analogous to a heavenly one2 for this purpose they creep into holes1 and cast themselves as it were into a womb that they may be born again1 and there become chrysalises1 aurelias1 nymphs1 and at length butterflies2 and when they have undergone this change1 and according to their species are decked with beautiful wings1 they fly into the air as into their heaven1 and there indulge in all festive sports1 pair together1 lay their eggs1 and provide for themselves a posterity2 and then they are nourished with a sweet and pleasant food1 which they extract from flowers4 ,who that confirms himself in favor of the ,divine from what is visible in nature1 does not see some image of the earthly state of man in these animals while they are worms1 and of his heavenly state in the same when they become butterflies8 whereas those who confirm themselves in favor of nature1 see indeed such things2 but as they have rejected from their minds all thought of man's heavenly state1 they call them mere instincts of nature4 #dai4 ,again1 everyone may confirm himself in favor of the ,divine from what is visible in nature1 while he attends to the discoveries made respecting bees1--how they have the art to gather wax and suck honey from herbs and flowers1 and build cells like small houses1 and arrange them into the form of a city with streets1 through which they come in and go out2 and how they can smell flowers and herbs at a distance1 from which they may collect wax for their home and honey for their food2 and how1 when laden with these treasures1 they can trace their way back in a right direction to their hive2 thus they provide for themselves food and habitation against the approaching winter1 as if they were acquainted with and foresaw its coming4 ,they also set over themselves a mistress as a queen1 to be the parent of a future race1 and for her they build as it were a palace in an elevated situation1 and appoint guards about her2 and when the time comes for her to become a mother1 she goes from cell to cell and lays her eggs1 which her attendants cover with a sort of ointment to prevent their receiving injury from the air2 hence arises a new generation1 which1 when old enough to provide in like manner for itself1 is driven out from home2 and when driven out1 it flies forth to seek a new habitation1 not however till it has first collected itself into a swarm to prevent dissociation4 ,about autumn also the useless drones are brought forth and deprived of their wings1 lest they should return and consume the provision which they had taken no pains to collect2 not to mention many other circumstances2 from which it may appear evident1 that on account of the use which they afford to mankind1 they have by influx from the spiritual world a form of government1 such as prevails among men in the world1 yea1 among angels in the heavens4 ,what man of uncorrupted reason does not see that such instincts are not communicated to bees from the natural world8 ,what has the sun1 in which nature originates1 in common with a form of government which vies with and is similar to a heavenly one8 ,from these and similar circumstances respecting brute animals1 the confessor and worshiper of nature confirms himself in favor of nature1 while the confessor and worshiper of ,god1 from the same circumstances1 confirms himself in favor of the ,divine3 for the spiritual man sees spiritual things therein1 and the natural man natural2 thus every one according to his quality4 ,in regard to myself1 such circumstances have been to me testimonies of an influx of what is spiritual into what is natural1 or of an influx of the spiritual world into the natural world2 thus of an influx from the divine wisdom of the ,lord4 ,consider also1 whether you can think analytically of any form of government1 any civil law1 any moral virtue1 or any spiritual truth1 unless the ,divine flows in from his wisdom through the spiritual world3 for my own part1 ,i never did1 and still feel it to be impossible2 for ,i have perceptibly and sensibly observed such influx now 7#agfh7 for twenty-five years continually3 ,i therefore speak this from experience4 #dbj4 ,can nature1 let me ask1 regard use as an end1 and dispose uses into orders and forms8 ,this is in the power of none but a wise being2 and none but ,god1 who is infinitely wise1 can so order and form the universe4 ,who else can foresee and provide for mankind all the things necessary for their food and clothing1 producing them from the fruits of the earth and from animals8 ,it is surely a wonderful consideration among many others1 that those common insects1 called silk-worms1 should supply with splendid clothing all ranks of persons1 from kings and queens even to the lowest servants2 and that those common insects the bees1 should supply wax to enlighten both our temples and palaces4 ,these1 with several other similar considerations1 are standing proofs1 that the ,lord by an operation from himself through the spiritual world1 effects whatever is done in nature4 #dba4 ,it may be expedient here to add1 that ,i have seen in the spiritual world those who had confirmed themselves in favor of nature by what is visible in this world1 so as to become atheists1 and that their understanding in spiritual light appeared open beneath but closed above1 because with their thinking faculty they had looked downwards to the earth and not upwards to heaven4 ,the super-sensual principle1 which is the lowest principle of the understanding1 appeared as a veil1 in some cases sparkling from infernal fire1 in some black as soot1 and in some pale and livid as a corpse4 ,let every one therefore beware of confirmation in favor of nature1 and let him confirm himself in favor of the ,divine2 for which confirmation there is no want of materials4 #dbb4 ,some indeed are to be excused for ascribing certain visible effects to nature1 because they have had no knowledge respecting the sun of the spiritual world1 where the ,lord is1 and of influx thence2 neither have they known any thing about that world and its state1 nor yet of its presence with man2 and consequently they could think no other than that the spiritual principle was a purer natural principle2 and thus that angels were either in the ether or in the stars2 also that the devil was either man's evil1 or1 if he actually existed1 that he was either in the air or in the deep2 also that the souls of men after death were either in the inmost part of the earth1 or in some place of confinement till the day of judgement2 not to mention other like conceits1 which sprung from ignorance of the spiritual world and its sun4 ,this is the reason why those are to be excused1 who have believed that the visible productions of nature are the effect of some principle implanted in her from creation3 nevertheless those who have made themselves atheists by confirmations in favor of nature1 are not to be excused1 because they might have confirmed themselves in favor of the ,divine4 ,ignorance indeed excuses1 but does not take away the false principle which is confirmed2 for this false principle agrees with evil1 and evil with hell4 ,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,sinful ,,pleasures4 ,,on ,,the ,,opposition ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,,conjugial ,,love4 #dbc4 ,at the entrance upon our subject1 it may be expedient to declare what we mean in this chapter by adulterous love4 ,by adulterous love we do not mean fornicatory love1 which precedes marriage1 or which follows it after the death of a married partner2 neither do we mean concubinage1 which is engaged in from causes legitimate1 just1 and excusatory2 nor do we mean either the mild or the grievous kinds of adultery1 whereof a man actually repents2 for the latter become not opposite1 and the former are not opposite1 to conjugial love1 as will be seen in the following pages1 where each is treated of4 ,but by adulterous love1 opposite to conjugial love1 we here mean the love of adultery1 so long as it is such as not to be regarded as sin1 or as evil1 and dishonorable1 and contrary to reason1 but as allowable with reason4 ,this adulterous love not only makes conjugial love the same with itself1 but also overthrows1 destroys1 and at length nauseates it4 ,the opposition of this love to conjugial love is the subject treated of in this chapter4 ,that no other love is treated of 7as being in such opposition71 may be evident from what follows concerning fornication1 concubinage1 and the various kinds of adultery4 ,but in order that this opposition may be made manifest to the rational sight1 it may be expedient to demonstrate it in the following series3 ,i4 ,it is not known what adulterous love is1 unless it be known what conjugial love is4 ,,ii4 ,adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love4 ,,iii4 ,adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love1 as the natural man viewed in himself is opposed to the spiritual man4 ,,iv4 ,adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love1 as the connubial connection of what is evil and false is opposed to the marriage of good and truth4 ,v4 ,hence adulterous love in opposed to conjugial love1 as hell is opposed to heaven4 ,,vi4 ,the impurity of hell is from adulterous love1 and the purity of heaven from conjugial love4 ,,vii4 ,the impurity and the purity in the church are similarly circumstanced4 ,,viii4 ,adulterous love more and more makes a man not a man 7homo71 and not a man 7vir71 and conjugial love makes a man more and more a man 7homo71 and a man 7vir74 ,,ix4 ,there are a sphere of adulterous love and a sphere of conjugial love4 ,x4 ,the sphere of adulterous love ascends from hell1 and the sphere of conjugial love descends from heaven4 ,,xi4 ,those two spheres mutually meet each other in each world2 but they do not unite4 ,,xii4 ,between those two spheres there is an equilibrium1 and man is in it4 ,,xiii4 ,a man is able to turn himself to whichever he pleases2 but so far as he turns himself to the one1 so far he turns himself from the other4 ,,xiv4 ,each sphere brings with it delights4 ,,xv4 ,the delights of adulterous love commence from the flesh and are of the flesh even in the spirit2 but the delights of conjugial love commence in the spirit1 and are of the spirit even in the flesh4 ,,xvi4 ,the delights of adulterous love are the pleasures of insanity2 but the delights of conjugial love are the delights of wisdom4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #dbd4 ,i4 ,,it ,,is ,,not ,,known ,,what ,,adulterous ,,love ,,is1 ,,unless ,,it ,,be ,,known ,,what ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is4 ,by adulterous love we mean the love of adultery1 which destroys conjugial love1 as above1 n4 #dbc4 ,that it is not known what adulterous love is1 unless it be known what conjugial love is1 needs no demonstration1 but only illustration by similitudes3 as for example1 who can know what is evil and false1 unless he know what is good and true8 and who knows what is unchaste1 dishonorable1 unbecoming1 and ugly1 unless he knows what is chaste1 honorable1 becoming1 and beautiful8 and who can discern the various kinds of insanity1 but he that is wise1 or that knows what wisdom is8 also1 who can rightly perceive discordant and grating sounds1 but he that is well versed in the doctrine and study of harmonious numbers8 in like manner1 who can clearly discern what is the quality of adultery1 unless he has first clearly discerned what is the quality of marriage8 and who can make a just estimate of the filthiness of the pleasures of adulterous love1 but he that has first made a just estimate of the purity of conjugial love8 ,as ,i have now completed the treatise ,,on ,,conjugial ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,chaste ,,delights1 ,i am enabled1 from the intelligence ,i thence acquired1 to describe the pleasures respecting adulterous love4 #dbe4 ,,ii4 ,,adulterous ,,love ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,every thing in the universe has its opposite2 and opposites1 in regard to each other1 are not relatives1 but contraries4 ,relatives are what exist between the greatest and the least of the same thing2 whereas contraries arise from an opposite in contrariety thereto2 and the latter are relatives in regard to each other1 as the former are in their regard one to another2 wherefore also the relations themselves are opposites4 ,that all things have their opposites1 is evident from light1 heat1 the times of the world1 affections1 perceptions1 sensations1 and several other things4 ,the opposite of light is darkness2 the opposite of heat is cold2 of the times of the world the opposites are day and night1 summer and winter2 of affections the opposites are joys and mourning1 also gladnesses and sadnesses2 of perceptions the opposites are goods and evils1 also truths and falses2 and of sensations the opposites are things delightful and things undelightful4 ,hence it may be evidently concluded1 that conjugial love has its opposite2 this opposite is adultery1 as every one may see1 if he be so disposed1 from all the dictates of sound reason4 ,tell1 if you can1 what else is its opposite4 ,it is an additional evidence in favor of this position1 that as sound reason was enabled to see the truth of it by her own light1 therefore she has enacted laws1 which are called laws of civil justice1 in favor of marriages and against adulteries4 ,that the truth of this position may appear yet more manifest1 ,i may relate what ,i have very often seen in the spiritual world4 ,when those who in the natural world have been confirmed adulterers1 perceive a sphere of conjugial love flowing down from heaven1 they instantly either flee away into caverns and hide themselves1 or1 if they persist obstinately in contrariety to it1 they grow fierce with rage1 and become like furies4 ,the reason why they are so affected is1 because all things of the affections1 whether delightful or undelightful1 are perceived in that world1 and on some occasions as clearly as an odor is perceived by the sense of smelling2 for the inhabitants of that world have not a material body1 which absorbs such things4 ,the reason why the opposition of adulterous love and conjugial love is unknown to many in the world1 is owing to the delights of the flesh1 which1 in the extremes1 seem to imitate the delights of conjugial love2 and those who are in delights only1 do not know anything respecting that opposition2 and ,i can venture to say1 that should you assert1 that everything has its opposite1 and should conclude that conjugial love also has its opposite1 adulterers will reply1 that that love has not an opposite1 because adulterous love cannot be distinguished from it2 from which circumstance it is further manifest1 that he that does not know what conjugial love is1 does not know what adulterous love is2 and moreover1 that from adulterous love it is not known what conjugial love is1 but from conjugial love it is known what adulterous love is4 ,no one knows good from evil1 but evil from good2 for evil is in darkness1 whereas good is in light4 #dbf4 ,,iii4 ,,adulterous ,,love ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,as ,,the ,,natural ,,man ,,viewed ,,in ,,himself ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,the ,,spiritual ,,man4 ,that the natural man and the spiritual are opposed to each other1 so that the one does not will what the other wills1 yea1 that they are at strife together1 is well known in the church2 but still it has not heretofore been explained4 ,we will therefore shew what is the ground of discrimination between the spiritual man and the natural1 and what excites the latter against the former4 ,the natural man is that into which every one is first introduced as he grows up1 which is effected by sciences and knowledges1 and by rational principles of the understanding2 but the spiritual man is that into which he is introduced by the love of doing uses1 which love is also called charity3 wherefore so far as any one is in charity1 so far he is spiritual2 but so far as he is not in charity1 so far he is natural1 even supposing him to be ever so quick-sighted in genius1 and wise in judgement4 ,that the latter1 the natural man1 separate from the spiritual1 notwithstanding all his elevation into the light of reason1 still gives himself without restraint to the government of his lusts1 and is devoted to them1 is manifest from his genius alone1 in that he is void of charity2 and whoever is void of charity1 gives loose to all the lasciviousness of adulterous love3 wherefore1 when he is told1 that this wanton love is opposed to chaste conjugial love1 and is asked to consult his rational lumen1 he still does not consult it1 except in conjunction with the delight of evil implanted from birth in the natural man2 in consequence whereof he concludes1 that his reason does not see anything contrary to the pleasing sensual allurements of the body2 and when he has confirmed himself in those allurements1 his reason is in amazement at all those pleasures which are proclaimed respecting conjugial love2 yea1 as was said above1 he fights against them1 and conquers1 and1 like a conqueror after the enemy's overthrow1 he utterly destroys the camp of conjugial love in himself4 ,these things are done by the natural man from the impulse of his adulterous love4 ,we mention these circumstances1 in order that it may be known1 what is the true ground of the opposition of those two loves2 for1 as has been abundantly shewn above1 conjugial love viewed in itself is spiritual love1 and adulterous love viewed in itself is natural love4 #dbg4 ,,iv4 ,,adulterous ,,love ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,as ,,the ,,connubial ,,connection ,,of ,,what ,,is ,,evil ,,and ,,false ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth4 ,that the origin of conjugial love is from the marriage of good and truth1 was demonstrated above in its proper chapter1 from n4 #hc-ajb2 hence it follows1 that the origin of adulterous love is from the connubial connection of what is evil and false1 and that hence they are opposite loves1 as evil is opposed to good1 and the false of evil to the truth of good4 ,it is the delights of each love which are thus opposed2 for love without its delight is not anything4 ,that these delights are thus opposed to each other1 does not at all appear3 the reason why it does not appear is1 because the delight of the love of evil in externals assumes a semblance of the delight of the love of good2 but in internals the delight of the love of evil consists of mere concupiscences of evil1 evil itself being the conglobated mass 7or glome7 of those concupiscences3 whereas the delight of the love of good consists of innumerable affections of good1 good itself being the co-united bundle of those affections4 ,this bundle and that glome are felt by man only as one delight2 and as the delight of evil in externals assumes a semblance of the delight of good1 as we have said1 therefore also the delight of adultery assumes a semblance of the delight of marriage2 but after death1 when everyone lays aside externals1 and the internals are laid bare1 then it manifestly appears1 that the evil of adultery is a glome of the concupiscences of evil1 and the good of marriage is a bundle of the affections of good3 thus that they are entirely opposed to each other4 #dbh4 ,in reference to the connubial connection of what is evil and false1 it is to be observed1 that evil loves the false1 and desires that it may be a one with itself1 and they also unite2 in like manner as good loves truth1 and desires that it may be a one with itself1 and they also unite3 from which consideration it is evident1 that as the spiritual origin of marriage is the marriage of good and truth1 so the spiritual origin of adultery is the connubial connection of what is evil and false4 ,hence1 this connubial connection is meant by adulteries1 whoredoms1 and fornications1 in the spiritual sense of the ,word2 see the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #acd4 ,it is from this principle1 that he that is in evil1 and connects himself connubially with what is false1 and he that is in what is false1 and draws evil into a partnership of his chamber1 from the joint covenant confirms adultery1 and commits it so far as he dares and has the opportunity2 he confirms it from evil by what is false1 and he commits it from what is false by evil3 and also on the other hand1 that he that is in good1 and marries truth1 or he that is in truth1 and brings good into partnership of the chamber with himself1 confirms himself against adultery1 and in favor of marriage1 and attains to a happy conjugial life4 #dbi4 ,v4 ,,hence ,,adulterous ,,love ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love ,,as ,,hell ,,is ,,opposed ,,to ,,heaven4 ,all who are in hell are in the connubial connection of what is evil and false1 and all who are in heaven are in the marriage of good and truth2 and as the connubial connection of what is evil and false is also adultery1 as was shewn just above1 n4 #dbg1 #dbh1 hell is also that connubial connection4 ,hence all who are in hell are in the lust1 lasciviousness1 and immodesty of adulterous love1 and shun and dread the chastity and modesty of conjugial love2 see above1 n4 #dbh4 ,from these considerations it may be seen1 that those two loves1 adulterous and conjugial1 are opposed to each other1 as hell is to heaven1 and heaven to hell4 #dcj4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,impurity ,,of ,,hell ,,is ,,from ,,adulterous ,,love1 ,,and ,,the ,,purity ,,of ,,heaven ,,from ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,all hell abounds with impurities1 all of which originate in immodest and obscene adulterous love1 the delights of that love being changed into such impurities4 ,who can believe1 that in the spiritual world1 every delight of love is presented to the sight under various appearances1 to the sense under various odors1 and to the view under various forms of beasts and birds8 ,the appearances under which in hell the lascivious delights of adulterous love are presented to the sight1 are dunghills and mire2 the odors by which they are presented to the sense1 are stinks and stenches2 and the forms of beasts and birds under which they are presented to the view1 are hogs1 serpents1 and the birds called ochim and tziim4 ,the case is reversed in regard to the chaste delights of conjugial love in heaven4 ,the appearances under which those delights are presented to the sight1 are gardens and flowery fields2 the odors whereby they are presented to the sense1 are the perfumes arising from fruits and the fragrancies from flowers2 and the forms of animals under which they are presented to the view are lambs1 kids1 turtle-doves1 and birds of paradise4 ,the reason why the delights of love are changed into such and similar things is1 because all things which exist in the spiritual world are correspondences3 into these correspondences the internals of the minds of the inhabitants are changed1 while they pass away and become external before the senses4 ,but it is to be observed1 that there are innumerable varieties of impurities1 into which the lasciviousnesses of whoredoms are changed1 while they pass off into their correspondences3 these varieties are according to the genera and species of those lasciviousnesses1 as may be seen in the following pages1 where adulteries and their degrees are treated of3 such impurities however do not proceed from the delights of the love of those who have repented2 because they have been washed from them during their abode in the world4 #dca4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,impurity ,,and ,,the ,,purity ,,in ,,the ,,church ,,are ,,similarly ,,circumstanced4 ,the reason of this is1 because the church is the ,lord's kingdom in the world1 corresponding to his kingdom in the heavens2 and also the ,lord conjoins them together1 that they may make a one2 for he distinguishes those who are in the world1 as he distinguishes heaven and hell1 according to their loves4 ,those who are in the immodest and obscene delights of adulterous love1 associate to themselves similar spirits from hell3 whereas those who are in the modest and chaste delights of conjugial love1 are associated by the ,lord to similar angels from heaven4 ,while these their angels1 in their attendance on man1 are stationed near to confirmed and determined adulterers1 they are made sensible of the direful stenches mentioned above1 n4 #dcj1 and recede a little4 ,on account of the correspondence of filthy loves with dunghills and bogs1 it was commanded the sons of ,israel1 ,that they should carry with them a paddle with which to cover their excrement1 lest ,jehovah ,god walking in the midst of their camp should see the nakedness of the thing1 and should return1 ,deut1 xxiii4 #ac1 #ad4 ,this was commanded1 because the camp of the sons of ,israel represented the church1 and those unclean things corresponded to the lascivious principles of whoredoms1 and by ,jehovah ,god's walking in the midst of their camp was signified his presence with the angels4 ,the reason why they were to cover it was1 because all those places in hell1 where troops of such spirits have their abode1 were covered and closed up1 on which account also it is said1 lest he see the nakedness of the thing4 ,it has been granted me to see that all those places in hell are closed up1 and also that when they were opened1 as was the case when a new demon entered1 such a horrid stench issued from them1 that it infested my belly with its noisomeness2 and what is wonderful1 those stenches are to the inhabitants as delightful as dunghills are to swine4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 how it is to be understood1 that the impurity in the church is from adulterous love1 and its purity from conjugial love4 #dcb4 ,,viii4 ,,adulterous ,,love ,,more ,,and ,,more ,,makes ,a ,,man 7homo7 ,,not ,a ,,man 7homo71 ,,and ,a ,,man 7vir7 ,,not ,a ,,man 7vir71 ,,and ,,conjugial ,,love ,,makes ,a ,,man 7homo7 ,,more ,,and ,,more ,a ,,man 7homo71 ,,and ,a ,,man 7vir74 ,that conjugial love makes a man 7homo7 is illustrated and confirmed by all the considerations which were clearly and rationally demonstrated in the first part of this work1 concerning love and the delights of its wisdom2 as #a4 ,that he that is principled in love truly conjugial1 becomes more and more spiritual2 and in proportion as any one is more spiritual1 in the same proportion he is more a man 7homo74 #b4 ,that he becomes more and more wise2 and the wiser any one is1 so much the more is he a man 7homo74 #c4 ,that with such a one the interiors of the mind are more and more opened1 insomuch that he sees or intuitively acknowledges the ,lord2 and the more any one is in the sight or acknowledgement1 the more he is a man4 #d4 ,that he becomes more and more moral and civil1 inasmuch as a spiritual soul is in his morality and civility2 and the more any one is morally civil1 the more he is a man4 #e4 ,that also after death he becomes an angel of heaven2 and an angel is in essence and form a man2 and also the genuine human principle in his face shines forth from his conversation and manners3 from these considerations it is manifest1 that conjugial love makes a man 7homo7 more and more a man 7homo74 ,that the contrary is the case with adulterers1 follows as a consequence from the opposition of adultery and marriage1 which is the subject treated of in this chapter2 as1 #a4 ,that they are not spiritual but in the highest degree natural2 and the natural man separate from the spiritual man1 is a man only as to the understanding1 but not as to the will3 this he immerses in the body and the concupiscences of the flesh1 and at those times the understanding also accompanies it4 ,that such a one is but half a man 7homo71 he himself may see from the reason of his understanding1 in ease he elevates it4 #b4 ,that adulterers are not wise1 except in their conversation and behaviour1 when they are in the company of such as are in high station1 or as are distinguished for their learning or their morals2 but that when alone with themselves they are insane1 setting at nought the divine and holy things of the church1 and defiling the morals of life with immodest and unchaste principles1 will be shewn in the chapter concerning adulteries4 ,who does not see that such gesticulators are men only as to external figure1 and not as to internal form8 #c4 ,that adulterers become more and more not men1 has been abundantly confirmed to me by what ,i have myself been eye-witness to respecting them in hell3 for there they are demons1 and when seen in the light of heaven1 appear to have their faces full of pimples1 their bodies bunched out1 their voice rough1 and their gestures antic4 ,but it is to be observed1 that such are determined and confirmed adulterers1 but not non-deliberate adulterers3 for in the chapter concerning adulteries and their degrees1 four kinds are treated of4 ,determined adulterers are those who are so from the lust of the will2 confirmed adulterers are those who are so from the persuasion of the understanding2 deliberate adulterers are those who are so from the allurements of the senses2 and non deliberate adulterers are those who have not the faculty or the liberty of consulting the understanding4 ,the two former kinds of adulterers are those who become more and more not men2 whereas the two latter kinds become men as they recede from those errors1 and afterwards become wise4 #dcc4 ,that conjugial love makes a man 7homo7 more a man 7vir71 is also illustrated by what was adduced in the preceding part concerning conjugial love and its delights2 as1 #a4 ,that the virile faculty and power accompanies wisdom1 as this is animated from the spiritual things of the church1 and that hence it resides in conjugial love2 and that the wisdom of this love opens a vein from its fountain in the soul1 and thereby invigorates1 and also blesses with permanence1 to the intellectual life1 which is the very essential masculine life4 #b4 ,that hence it is1 that the angels of heaven are in this permanence to eternity1 according to their own declarations in the ,,memorable ,,relation1 n4 #cee1 #cef4 ,that the most ancient men in the golden and silver ages1 were in permanent efficacy1 because they loved the caresses of their wives1 and abhorred the caresses of harlots1 ,i have heard from their own mouths2 see the ,,memorable ,,relations1 n4 #ge1 #gf4 ,that that spiritual sufficiency is also in the natural principle1 and will not be wanting to those at this day1 who come to the ,lord1 and abominate adulteries as infernal1 has been told me from heaven4 ,but the contrary befalls determined and confirmed adulterers who are treated of above1 n4 #dcb4 ,that the virile faculty and power with such is weakened even till it ceases2 and that after this there commences cold towards the sex2 and that cold is succeeded by a kind of fastidiousness approaching to loathing1 is well known1 although but little talked of4 ,that this is the case with such adulterers in hell1 ,i have heard at a distance1 from the sirens1 who are obsolete venereal lusts1 and also from the harlots there4 ,from these considerations it follows1 that adulterous love makes a man 7homo7 more and more not a man 7homo7 and not a man 7vir7 and that conjugial love makes a man more and more a man 7homo7 and a man 7vir74 #dcd4 ,,ix4 ,,there ,,are ,a ,,sphere ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,a ,,sphere ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,what is meant by spheres1 and that they are various1 and that those which are of love and wisdom proceed from the ,lord1 and through the angelic heavens descend into the world1 and pervade it even to its ultimates1 was shewn above1 n4 #bbb-bbe2 and n4 #chf-cig4 ,that every thing in the universe has its opposites1 may be seen above1 n4 #dbe3 hence it follows1 that whereas there is a sphere of conjugial love1 there is also a sphere opposite to it1 which is called a sphere of adulterous love2 for those spheres are opposed to each other1 as the love of adultery is opposed the love of marriage4 ,this opposition has been treated of in the preceding parts of this chapter4 #dce4 ,x4 ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,ascends ,,from ,,hell1 ,,and ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,descends ,,from ,,heaven4 ,that the sphere of conjugial love descends from heaven1 was shewn in the places cited just above1 n4 #dcd2 but the reason why the sphere of adulterous love ascends from hell1 is1 because this love is from thence1 see n4 #dbi4 ,that sphere ascends thence from the impurities into which the delights of adultery are changed with those who are of each sex there2 concerning which delight see above1 n4 #dcj1 #dca4 #dcf4 ,,xi4 ,,those ,,two ,,spheres ,,meet ,,each ,,other ,,in ,,each ,,world2 ,,but ,,they ,,do ,,not ,,unite4 ,by each world is meant the spiritual world and the natural world4 ,in the spiritual world those spheres meet each other in the world of spirits1 because this is the medium between heaven and hell2 but in the natural world they meet each other in the rational plane appertaining to man1 which also is the medium between heaven and hell3 for the marriage of good and truth flows into it from above1 and the marriage of evil and the false flows into it from beneath4 ,the latter marriage flows in through the world1 but the former through heaven4 ,hence it is1 that the human rational principle can turn itself to either side as it pleases1 and receive influx4 ,if it turns to good1 it receives it from above2 and in this case the man's rational principle is formed more and more to the reception of heaven2 but if it turns itself to evil1 it receives that influx from beneath2 and in this case the man's rational principle is formed more and more to the reception of hell4 ,the reason why those two spheres do not unite1 is1 because they are opposites2 and an opposite acts upon an opposite like enemies1 one of whom1 burning with deadly hatred1 furiously assaults the other1 while the other is in no hatred1 but only endeavours to defend himself4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that those two spheres only meet each other1 but do not unite4 ,the middle interstice1 which they make1 is on the one part from the evil not of the false1 and from the false not of the evil1 and on the other part from good not of truth1 and from truth not of good3 which two may indeed touch each other1 but still they do not unite4 #dcg4 ,,xii4 ,,between ,,those ,,two ,,spheres ,,there ,,is ,,an ,,equilibrium1 ,,and ,,man ,,is ,,in ,,it4 ,the equilibrium between them is a spiritual equilibrium1 because it is between good and evil2 from this equilibrium a man has free will1 in and by which he thinks and wills1 and hence speaks and acts as from himself4 ,his rational principle consists in his having the option to receive either good or evil2 consequently1 whether he will freely and rationally dispose himself to conjugial love1 or to adulterous love2 if to the latter1 he turns the hinder part of the head1 and the back to the ,lord2 if to the former1 he turns the fore part of the head and the breast to the ,lord2 if to the ,lord1 his rationality and liberty are led by himself2 but if backwards from the ,lord1 his rationality and liberty are led by hell4 #dch4 ,,xiii4 ,a ,,man ,,can ,,turn ,,himself ,,to ,,whichever ,,sphere ,,he ,,pleases2 ,,but ,,so ,,far ,,as ,,he ,,turns ,,himself ,,to ,,the ,,one1 ,,so ,,far ,,he ,,turns ,,himself ,,from ,,the ,,other4 ,man was created so that he may do whatever he does freely1 according to reason1 and altogether as from himself3 without these two faculties he would not be a man but a beast2 for he would not receive any thing flowing from heaven1 and appropriate it to himself as his own1 and consequently it would not be possible for anything of eternal life to be inscribed on him2 for this must be inscribed on him as his1 in order that it may be his own2 and whereas there is no freedom on the one part1 unless there be also a like freedom on the other1 as it would be impossible to weigh a thing1 unless the scales from an equilibrium could incline to either side3 so1 unless a man had liberty from reason to draw near also to evil1 thus to turn from the right to the left1 and from the left to the right1 in like manner to the infernal sphere1 which is that of adultery1 as to the celestial sphere1 which is that of marriage1 7it would be impossible for him to receive any thing flowing from heaven1 and to appropriate it to himself47 #dci4 ,,xiv4 ,,each ,,sphere ,,brings ,,with ,,it ,,delights2 that is1 both the sphere of adulterous love which ascends from hell1 and the sphere of conjugial love which descends from heaven1 affects the recipient man 7homo7 with delights2 because the ultimate plane in which the delights of each love terminate1 and where they fill and complete themselves1 and which exhibits them in their own proper sensory1 is the same4 ,hence1 in the extremes1 adulterous caresses and conjugial caresses are perceived as similar1 although in internals they are altogether dissimilar2 that hence they are also dissimilar in the extremes1 is a point not decided from any sense of discrimination2 for dissimilitudes are not made sensible from their discriminations in the extremes1 to any others than those who are principled in love truly conjugial2 for evil is known from good1 but not good from evil2 so neither is a sweet scent perceived by the nose when a disagreeable one is present in it4 ,i have heard from the angels1 that they distinguish in the extremes what is lascivious from what is not1 as any one distinguishes the fire of a dunghill or of burnt horn by its bad smell1 from the fire of spices or of burnt cinnamon by its sweet smell2 and that this arises from their distinction of the internal delights which enter into the external and compose them4 #ddj4 ,,xv4 ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,commence ,,from ,,the ,,flesh ,,and ,,are ,,of ,,the ,,flesh ,,even ,,in ,,the ,,spirit2 ,,but ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,commence ,,in ,,the ,,spirit ,,and ,,are ,,of ,,the ,,spirit ,,even ,,in ,,the ,,flesh4 ,the reason why the delights of adulterous love commence from the flesh is1 because the stimulant heats of the flesh are their beginnings4 ,the reason why they infect the spirit and are of the flesh even in the spirit1 is1 because the spirit1 and not the flesh1 is sensible of those things which happen in the flesh4 ,the case is the same with this sense as with the rest3 as that the eye does not see and discern various particulars in objects1 but they are seen and discerned by the spirit2 neither does the ear hear and discern the harmonies of tunes in singing1 and the concordances of the articulation of sounds in speech1 but they are heard and discerned by the spirit2 moreover1 the spirit is sensible of every thing according to its elevation in wisdom4 ,the spirit that is not elevated above the sensual things of the body1 and thereby adheres to them1 is not sensible of any other delights than those which flow in from the flesh and the world through the senses of the body3 these delights it seizes upon1 is delighted with1 and makes its own4 ,now1 since the beginnings of adulterous love are only the stimulant fires and itchings of the flesh1 it is evident1 that these things in the spirit are filthy allurements1 which1 as they ascend and descend1 and reciprocate1 so they excite and inflame4 ,in general the cupidities of the flesh are nothing but the accumulated concupiscences of what is evil and false3 hence comes this truth in the church1 that the flesh lusts against the spirit1 that is1 against the spiritual man2 wherefore it follows1 that the delights of the flesh1 as to the delights of adulterous love1 are nothing but the effervescences of lusts1 which in the spirit become the ebullitions of immodesty4 #dda4 ,but the delights of conjugial love have nothing in common with the filthy delights of adulterous love3 the latter indeed are in the spirit of every man2 but they are separated and removed1 as the man's spirit is elevated above the sensual things of the body1 and from its elevation sees their appearances and fallacies beneath3 in this case it perceives fleshly delights1 first as apparent and fallacious1 afterwards as libidinous and lascivious1 which ought to be shunned1 and successively as damnable and hurtful to the soul1 and at length it has a sense of them as being undelightful1 disagreeable1 and nauseous2 and in the degree that it thus perceives and is sensible of these delights1 in the same degree also it perceives the delights of conjugial love as innocent and chaste1 and at length as delicious and blessed4 ,the reason why the delights of conjugial love become also delights of the spirit in the flesh1 is1 because after the delights of adulterous love are removed1 as was just said above1 the spirit being loosed from them enters chaste into the body1 and fills the breasts with the delights of its blessedness1 and from the breasts fills also the ultimates of that love in the body2 in consequence whereof1 the spirit with these ultimates1 and these ultimates with the spirits1 afterwards act in full communion4 #ddb4 ,,xvi4 ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,are ,,the ,,pleasures ,,of ,,insanity2 ,,but ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,are ,,the ,,delights ,,of ,,wisdom4 ,the reason why the delights of adulterous love are the pleasures of insanity is1 because none but natural men are in that love1 and the natural man is insane in spiritual things1 for he is contrary to them1 and therefore he embraces only natural1 sensual1 and corporeal delights4 ,it is said that he embraces natural1 sensual1 and corporeal delights1 because the natural principle is distinguished into three degrees3 in the supreme degree are those natural men who from rational sight see insanities1 and are still carried away by the delights thereof1 as boats by the stream of a river2 in a lower degree are the natural men who only see and judge from the senses of the body1 despising and rejecting1 as of no account1 the rational principles which are contrary to appearances and fallacies2 in the lowest degree are the natural men who without judgement are carried away by the alluring stimulant heats of the body4 ,these last are called natural-corporeal1 the former are called natural-sensual1 but the first natural4 ,with these men1 adulterous love and its insanities and pleasures are of similar degrees4 #ddc4 ,the reason why the delights of conjugial love are the delights of wisdom is1 because none but spiritual men are in that love1 and the spiritual man is in wisdom2 and hence he embraces no delights but such as agree with spiritual wisdom4 ,the respective qualities of the delights of adulterous and of conjugial love1 may be elucidated by a comparison with houses3 the delights of adulterous love by comparison with a house whose walls glitter outwardly like sea shells1 or like transparent stones1 called selenites1 of a gold color2 whereas in the apartments within the walls1 are all kinds of filth and nastiness3 but the delights of conjugial love may be compared to a house1 the walls of which are refulgent as with sterling gold1 and the apartments within are resplendent as with cabinets full of various precious stones4 99 99 99 99 99 #ddd4 ,to the above ,i shall add the following ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,after ,i had concluded the meditations on conjugial love1 and had begun those on adulterous love1 on a sudden two angels presented themselves1 and said1 ,we have perceived and understood what you have heretofore meditated upon2 but the things upon which you are now meditating pass away1 and we do not perceive them4 ,say nothing about them1 for they are of no value4 ,but ,i replied1 ,this love1 on which ,i am now meditating1 is not of no value2 because it exists4 ,but they said1 ,how can there be any love1 which is not from creation8 ,is not conjugial love from creation2 and does not this love exist between two who are capable of becoming one8 ,how can there be a love which divides and separates8 ,what youth can love any other maiden than the one who loves him in return8 ,must not the love of the one know and acknowledge the love of the other1 so that when they meet they may unite of themselves8 ,who can love what is not love8 ,is not conjugial love alone mutual and reciprocal8 ,if it be not reciprocal1 does it not rebound and become nothing8 ,on hearing this1 ,i asked the two angels from what society of heaven they were8 ,they said1 ,we are from the heaven of innocence2 we came infants into this heavenly world1 and were educated under the ,lord's auspices2 and when ,i became a young man1 and my wife1 who is here with me1 marriageable1 we were betrothed and entered into a contract1 and were joined under the first favorable impressions2 and as we were unacquainted with any other love than what is truly nuptial and conjugial1 therefore1 when we were made acquainted with the ideas of your thought concerning a strange love directly opposed to our love1 we could not at all comprehend it2 and we have descended in order to ask you1 why you meditate on things that cannot be understood8 ,tell us1 therefore1 how a love1 which not only is not from creation1 but is also contrary to creation1 could possibly exist8 ,we regard things opposite to creation as objects of no value4 ,as they said this1 ,i rejoiced in heart that ,i was permitted to converse with angels of such innocence1 as to be entirely ignorant of the nature and meaning of adultery3 wherefore ,i was free to converse with them1 and ,i instructed them as follows3 ,do you not know1 that there exist both good and evil1 and that good is from creation1 but not evil2 and still that evil viewed in itself is not nothing1 although it is nothing of good8 ,from creation there exists good1 and also good in the greatest degree and in the least2 and when this least becomes nothing1 there rises up on the other side evil3 wherefore there is no relation or progression of good to evil1 but a relation and progression of good to a greater and less good1 and of evil to a greater and less evil2 for in all things there are opposites4 ,and since good and evil are opposites1 there is an intermediate1 and in it an equilibrium1 in which evil acts against good2 but as it does not prevail1 it stops in a conatus4 ,every man is educated in this equilibrium1 which1 because it is between good and evil1 or1 what is the same1 between heaven and hell1 is a spiritual equilibrium1 which1 with those who are in it1 produces a state of freedom4 ,from this equilibrium1 the ,lord draws all to himself2 and if a man freely follows1 he leads him out of evil into good1 and thereby into heaven4 ,the case is the same with love1 especially with conjugial love and adultery3 the latter love is evil1 but the former good4 ,every man that hears the voice of the ,lord1 and freely follows1 is introduced by the ,lord into conjugial love and all its delights and satisfactions2 but he that does not hear and follow1 introduces himself into adulterous love1 first into its delights1 afterwards into what is undelightful1 and lastly into what is unsatisfactory4 ,when ,i had thus spoken1 the two angels asked me1 ,how could evil exist1 when nothing but good had existed from creation8 ,the existence of anything implies that it must have an origin4 ,good could not be the origin of evil1 because evil is nothing of good1 being privative and destructive of good2 nevertheless1 since it exists and is sensibly felt1 it is not nothing1 but something2 tell us therefore whence this something existed after nothing4 ,to this ,i replied1 ,this arcanum cannot be explained1 unless it be known that no one is good but ,god alone1 and that there is not anything good1 which in itself is good1 but from ,god2 wherefore he that looks to ,god1 and wishes to be led by ,god1 is in good2 but he that turns himself from ,god1 and wishes to be led by himself1 is not in good2 for the good which he does1 is for the sake either of himself or of the world2 thus it is either meritorious1 or pretended1 or hypocritical3 from which considerations it is evident1 that man himself is the origin of evil2 not that that origin was implanted in him by creation2 but that he1 by turning from ,god to himself1 implanted it in himself4 ,that origin of evil was not in ,adam and his wife2 but when the serpent said1 ',in the day that ye shall eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 ye shall be as ,god' 7,gen4 iii4 #e71 they then made in themselves the origin of evil1 because they turned themselves from ,god1 and turned to themselves1 as to ,god4 ,to eat of that tree1 signifies to believe that they knew good and evil1 and were wise1 from themselves1 and not from ,god4 ,but the two angels then asked1 ,how could man turn himself from ,god1 and turn to himself1 when yet he cannot will1 think1 and thence do anything but from ,god8 ,why did ,god permit this8 ,i replied1 ,man was so created1 that whatever he wills1 thinks1 and does1 appears to him as in himself1 and thereby from himself3 without this appearance a man would not be a man2 for he would be incapable of receiving1 retaining1 and as it were appropriating to himself anything of good and truth1 or of love and wisdom3 whence it follows1 that without such appearance1 as a living appearance1 a man would not have conjunction with ,god1 and consequently neither would he have eternal life4 ,but if from this appearance he induces in himself a belief that he wills1 thinks1 and thence does good from himself1 and not from the ,lord1 although in all appearance as from himself1 he turns good into evil with himself1 and thereby makes in himself the origin of evil4 ,this was the sin of ,adam4 ,but ,i will explain this matter somewhat more clearly4 ,the ,lord looks at every man in the forepart of his head1 and this inspection passes into the hinder part of his head4 ,beneath the forepart is the cerebrum1 and beneath the hinder part is the cerebellum2 the latter was designed for love and the goods thereof1 and the former for wisdom and the truths thereof2 wherefore he that looks with the face to the ,lord receives from him wisdom1 and by wisdom love2 but he that looks backward from the ,lord receives love and not wisdom2 and love without wisdom1 is love from man and not from the ,lord2 and this love1 since it conjoins itself with falses1 does not acknowledge ,god1 but acknowledges itself for ,god1 and confirms this tacitly by the faculty of understanding and growing wise implanted in it from creation as from itself2 wherefore this love is the origin of evil4 ,that this is the case1 will admit of ocular demonstration4 ,i will call hither some wicked spirit who turns himself from ,god1 and will speak to him from behind1 or into the hinder part of the head1 and you will see that the things which are said are turned into their contraries4 ,i called such a spirit and he presented himself1 and ,i spoke to him from behind and said1 ,do you know anything about hell1 damnation1 and torment in hell8 ,and presently1 when he was turned to me1 ,i asked him what he heard8 ,he said1 ,i heard1 ',do you know anything concerning heaven1 salvation1 and happiness in heaven8' and afterwards when the latter words were said to him from behind1 he said that he heard the former4 ,it was next said to him from behind1 ,do you know that those who are in hell are insane from falses8 and when ,i asked him concerning these words what he heard1 he said1 ,i heard1 ',do you know that those who are in heaven are wise from truths8' and when the latter words were spoken to him from behind1 he said that he heard1 ,do you know that those who are in hell1 are insane from falses8 and so in other instances3 from which it evidently appears1 that when the mind turns itself from the ,lord1 it turns to itself1 and then it perceives things contrary4 ,this1 as you know1 is the reason why1 in this spiritual world1 no one is allowed to stand behind another1 and to speak to him2 for thereby there is inspired into him a love1 which his own intelligence favors and obeys for the sake of its delight2 but since it is from man1 and not from ,god1 it is a love of evil1 or a love of the false4 ,in addition to the above1 ,i will relate to you another similar circumstance4 ,on certain occasions ,i have heard goods and truths let down from heaven into hell2 and in hell they were progressively turned into their opposites1 good into evil1 and truth into the false2 the cause of this1 the same as above1 because all in hell turn themselves from the ,lord4 ,on hearing these two things the two angels thanked me1 and said1 ,as you are now meditating and writing concerning a love opposite to our conjugial love1 and the opposite to that love makes our minds sad1 we will depart2 and when they said1 ,peace be unto you1 ,i besought them not to mention that love to their brethren and sisters in heaven1 because it would hurt their innocence4 ,i can positively assert that those who die infants1 grow up in heaven1 and when they attain the stature which is common to young men of eighteen years old in the world1 and to maidens of fifteen years1 they remain of that stature2 and further1 that both before marriage and after it1 they are entirely ignorant what adultery is1 and that such a thing can exist4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,fornication4 ,transcriber's ,note3 ,the out-of-order section number which follows is in the original text1 as is the asterisk which does not seem to indicate a footnote4 #ddd499 ,,fornication means the lust of a grown up man or youth with a woman1 a harlot1 before marriage2 but lust with a woman1 not a harlot1 that is1 with a maiden or with another's wife1 is not fornication2 with a maiden it is the act of deflowering1 and with another's wife it is adultery4 ,in what manner these two differ from fornication1 cannot be seen by any rational being unless he takes a clear view of the love of the sex in its degrees and diversities1 and of its chaste principles on the one part1 and of its unchaste principles on the other1 arranging each part into genera and species1 and thereby distinguishing them4 ,without such a view and arrangement1 it is impossible there should exist in any one's idea a discrimination between the chaste principle as to more and less1 and between the unchaste principle as to more and less2 and without these distinctions all relation perishes1 and therewith all perspicacity in matters of judgement1 and the understanding is involved in such a shade1 that it does not know how to distinguish fornication from adultery1 and still less the milder kinds of fornication from the more grievous1 and in like manner of adultery2 thus it mixes evils1 and of different evils makes one pottage1 and of different goods one paste4 ,in order therefore that the love of the sex may be distinctly known as to that part by which it inclines and makes advances to adulterous love altogether opposite to conjugial love1 it is expedient to examine its beginning1 which is fornication2 and this we will do in the following series3 ,i4 ,fornication is of the love of the sex4 ,,ii4 ,this love commences when a youth begins to think and act from his own understanding and his voice to be masculine4 ,,iii4 ,fornication is of the natural man4 ,,iv4 ,fornication is lust1 but not the lust of adultery4 ,v4 ,with some men the love of the sex cannot without hurt be totally checked from going forth into fornication4 ,,vi4 ,therefore in populous cities public stews are tolerated4 ,,vii4 ,the lust of fornication is light1 so far as it looks to conjugial love1 and gives this love the preference4 ,,viii4 ,the lust of fornication is grievous1 so far as it looks to adultery4 ,,ix4 ,the lust of fornication is more grievous1 as it verges to the desire of varieties and of defloration4 ,x4 ,the sphere of the lust of fornication1 such as it is in the beginning1 is a middle sphere between the sphere of adulterous love and the sphere of conjugial love1 and makes an equilibrium4 ,,xi4 ,care is to be taken1 lest1 by inordinate and immoderate fornications1 conjugial love be destroyed4 ,,xii4 ,inasmuch as the conjugial principle of one man with one wife is the jewel of human life and the reservoir of the ,christian religion4 ,,xiii4 ,with those who1 from various reasons1 cannot as yet enter into marriage1 and from their passion for the sex1 cannot restrain their lusts1 this conjugial principle may be preserved1 if the vague love of the sex be confined to one mistress4 ,,xiv4 ,keeping a mistress is preferable to vague amours1 if only one is kept1 and she be neither a maiden nor a married woman1 and the love of the mistress be kept separate from conjugial love4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #dde4 ,i4 ,,fornication ,,is ,,of ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex4 ,we say that fornication is of the love of the sex1 because it is not the love of the sex but is derived from it4 ,the love of the sex is like a fountain1 from which both conjugial and adulterous love may be derived2 they may also be derived by means of fornication1 and also without it3 for the love of the sex is in every man 7homo71 and either does or does not put itself forth3 if it puts itself forth before marriage with a harlot1 it is called fornication2 if not until with a wife1 it is called marriage2 if after marriage with another woman1 it is called adultery3 wherefore1 as we have said1 the love of the sex is like a fountain1 from which may flow both chaste and unchaste love3 but with what caution and prudence chaste conjugial love can proceed by fornication1 yet from what imprudence unchaste or adulterous love can proceed thereby1 we will explain in what follows4 ,who can draw the conclusion1 that he that has committed fornication cannot be more chaste in marriage8 #ddf4 ,,ii4 ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex1 ,,from ,,which ,,fornication ,,is ,,derived1 ,,commences ,,when ,a ,,youth ,,begins ,,to ,,think ,,and ,,act ,,from ,,his ,,own ,,understanding1 ,,and ,,his ,,voice ,,to ,,be ,,masculine4 ,this article is adduced to the intent1 that the birth of the love of the sex1 and thence of fornication1 may be known1 as taking place when the understanding begins of itself to become rational1 or from its own reason to discern and provide such things as are of emolument and use1 whereto in such case what has been implanted in the memory from parents and masters1 serves as a plane4 ,at that time a change takes place in the mind2 it before thought only from things introduced into the memory1 by meditating upon and obeying them2 it afterwards thinks from reason exercised upon them1 and then1 under the guidance of the love1 it arranges into a new order the things seated in the memory1 and in agreement with that order it disposes its own life1 and successively thinks more and more according to its own reason1 and wills from its own freedom4 ,it is well known that the love of the sex follows the commencement of a man's own understanding1 and advances according to its vigor2 and this is a proof that that love ascends and descends as the understanding ascends and descends3 by ascending we mean into wisdom1 and by descending1 into insanity2 and wisdom consists in restraining the love of the sex1 and insanity in allowing it a wide range3 if it be allowed to run into fornication1 which is the beginning of its activity1 it ought to be moderated from principles of honor and morality implanted in the memory and thence in the reason1 and afterwards to be implanted in the reason and in the memory4 ,the reason why the voice also begins to be masculine1 together with the commencement of a man's own understanding1 is1 because the understanding thinks1 and by thought speaks2 which is a proof that the understanding constitutes the man 7vir71 and also his male principle2 consequently1 that as his understanding is elevated1 so he becomes a man-man 7homo vir71 and also a male man 7masculus vir72 see above1 n4 #dcb1 #dcc4 #ddg4 ,,iii4 ,,fornication ,,is ,,of ,,the ,,natural ,,man1 in like manner as the love of the sex1 which1 if it becomes active before marriage1 is called fornication4 ,every man 7homo7 is born corporeal1 becomes sensual1 afterwards natural1 and successively rational2 and1 if in this case he does not stop in his progress1 he becomes spiritual4 ,the reason why he thus advances step by step1 is1 in order that planes may be formed1 on which superior principles may rest and find support1 as a palace on its foundations3 the ultimate plane1 with those that are formed upon it1 may also be compared to ground1 in which1 when prepared1 noble seeds are sown4 ,as to what specifically regards the love of the sex1 it also is first corporeal1 for it commences from the flesh3 next it becomes sensual1 for the five senses receive delight from its common principle2 afterwards it becomes natural like the same love with other animals1 because it is a vague love of the sex2 but as a man was born to become spiritual1 it becomes afterwards natural-rational1 and from natural-rational spiritual1 and lastly spiritual-natural2 and in this case1 that love made spiritual flows into and acts upon rational love1 and through this flows into and acts upon sensual love1 and lastly through this flows into and acts upon that love in the body and the flesh2 and as this is its ultimate plane1 it acts upon it spiritually1 and at the same time rationally and sensually2 and it flows in and acts thus successively while the man is meditating upon it1 but simultaneously while he is in its ultimate4 ,the reason why fornication is of the natural man1 is1 because it proceeds proximately from the natural love of the sex2 and it may become natural-rational1 but not spiritual1 because the love of the sex cannot become spiritual1 until it becomes conjugial2 and the love of the sex from natural becomes spiritual1 when a man recedes from vague lust1 and devotes himself to one of the sex1 to whose soul he unites his own4 #ddh4 ,,iv4 ,,fornication ,,is ,,lust1 ,,but ,,not ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,adultery4 ,the reasons why fornication is lust are1 #a4 ,because it proceeds from the natural man1 and in everything which proceeds from the natural man1 there is concupiscence and lust2 for the natural man is nothing but an abode and receptacle of concupiscences and lust1 since all the criminal propensities inherited from the parents reside therein4 #b4 ,because the fornicator has a vague and promiscuous regard to the sex1 and does not as yet confine his attention to one of the sex2 and so long as he is in this state1 he is prompted by lust to do what he does2 but in proportion as he confines his attention to one of the sex1 and loves to conjoin his life with hers1 concupiscence becomes a chaste affection1 and lust becomes human love4 #ddi4 ,that the lust of fornication is not the lust of adultery1 every one sees clearly from common perception4 ,what law and what judge imputes a like criminality to the fornicator as to the adulterer8 ,the reason why this is seen from common perception is1 because fornication is not opposed to conjugial love as adultery is4 ,in fornication conjugial love may lie stored up within1 as what is spiritual may lie stored up in what is natural2 yea1 what is spiritual is also actually disengaged from what is natural2 and when the spiritual is disengaged1 then the natural encompasses it1 as bark does its wood1 and a scabbard its sword1 and also serves the spiritual as a defence against violence4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that natural love1 which is love to the sex1 precedes spiritual love which is love to one of the sex2 but if fornication comes into effect from the natural love of the sex1 it may also be wiped away1 provided conjugial love be regarded1 desired1 and sought1 as the chief good4 ,it is altogether otherwise with the libidinous and obscene love of adultery1 which we have shewn to be opposite to conjugial love1 and destructive thereof1 in the foregoing chapter concerning the opposition of adulterous and conjugial love3 wherefore if a confirmed and determined adulterer for various reasons enters into a conjugial engagement1 the above case is inverted1 since a natural principle lies concealed within its lascivious and obscene things1 and a spiritual appearance covers it externally4 ,from these considerations reason may see1 that the lust of limited fornication is1 in respect to the lust of adultery1 as the first warmth is to the cold of mid-winter in northern countries4 #dej4 ,v4 ,,with ,,some ,,men ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,cannot ,,without ,,hurt ,,be ,,totally ,,checked ,,from ,,going ,,forth ,,into ,,fornication4 ,it is needless to recount the mischiefs which may be caused and produced by too great a check of the love of the sex1 with such persons as labor under a superabundant venereal heat2 from this source are to be traced the origins of certain diseases of the body and distempers of the mind1 not to mention unknown evils1 which are not to be named2 it is otherwise with those whose love of the sex is so scanty that they can resist the sallies of its lust2 also with those who are at liberty to introduce themselves into a legitimate partnership of the bed while they are young1 without doing injury to their worldly fortunes1 thus under the first favorable impressions4 ,as this is the case in heaven with infants1 when they have grown up to conjugial age1 therefore it is unknown there what fornication is3 but the case is different in the world where matrimonial engagements cannot be contracted till the season of youth is past1 and where1 during that season1 the generality live within forms of government1 where a length of time is required to perform duties1 and to acquire the property necessary to support a house and family1 and then first a suitable wife is to be courted4 ,footnote3 ,this1 like some other of the author's remarks1 is not so applicable to ,english laws and customs as to those of several of the continental states1 especially ,germany1 where men are not allowed to marry till they have attained a certain age1 or can show that they possess the means of supporting a wife and family4 #dea4 ,,vi4 ,,therefore ,,in ,,populous ,,cities ,,public ,,stews ,,are ,,tolerated4 ,this is adduced as a confirmation of the preceding article4 ,it is well known that they are tolerated by kings1 magistrates1 and thence by judges1 inquisitors1 and the people1 at ,london1 ,amsterdam1 ,paris1 ,vienna1 ,venice1 ,naples1 and even at ,rome1 besides many other places3 among the reasons of this toleration are those also above mentioned4 #deb4 ,,vii4 ,,fornication ,,is 7,,comparatively7 ,,light ,,so ,,far ,,as ,,it ,,looks ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love ,,and ,,gives ,,this ,,love ,,the ,,preference4 ,there are degrees of the qualities of evil1 as there are degrees of the qualities of good2 wherefore every evil is lighter and more grievous1 as every good is better and more excellent4 ,the case is the same with fornication2 which1 as being a lust1 and a lust of the natural man not yet purified1 is an evil2 but as every man 7homo7 is capable of being purified1 therefore so far as it approaches a purified state1 so far that evil becomes lighter1 for so far it is wiped away2 thus so far as fornication approaches conjugial love1 which is a purified state of the love of the sex1 7so far it becomes a lighter evil73 that the evil of fornication is more grievous1 so far as it approaches the love of adultery1 will be seen in the following article4 ,the reason why fornication is light so far as it looks to conjugial love1 is1 because it then looks from the unchaste state wherein it is1 to a chaste state2 and so far as it gives a preference to the latter1 so far also it is in it as to the understanding2 and so far as it not only prefers it1 but also pre-loves it1 so far also it is in it as to the will1 thus as to the internal man2 and in this case fornication1 if the man nevertheless persists in it1 is to him a necessity1 the causes whereof he well examines in himself4 ,there are two reasons which render fornication light with those who prefer and pre-love the conjugial state2 the first is1 that conjugial life is their purpose1 intention1 or end1 the other is1 that they separate good from evil with themselves4 ,in regard to the ,,first1--that conjugial life is their purpose1 intention1 or end1 it has the above effect1 inasmuch as every man is such as he is in his purpose1 intention1 or end1 and is also such before the ,lord and the angels2 yea1 he is likewise regarded as such by the wise in the world2 for intention is the soul of all actions1 and causes innocence and guilt in the world1 and after death imputation4 ,in regard to the ,,other reason1--that those who prefer conjugial love to the lust of fornication1 separate evil from good1 thus what is unchaste from what is chaste1 it has the above effect1 inasmuch as those who separate those two principles by perception and intention1 before they are in good or the chaste principle1 are also separated and purified from the evil of that lust1 when they come into the conjugial state4 ,that this is not the case with those who in fornication look to adultery1 will be seen in the next article4 #dec4 ,,viii4 ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,fornication ,,is ,,grievous1 ,,so ,,far ,,as ,,it ,,looks ,,to ,,adultery4 ,in the lust of fornication all those look to adultery who do not believe adulteries to be sins1 and who think similarly of marriage and of adulteries1 only with the distinction of what is allowed and what is not2 these also make one evil out of all evils1 and mix them together1 like dirt with eatable food in one dish1 and like things vile and refuse with wine in one cup1 and thus eat and drink3 in this manner they act with the love of the sex1 fornication and keeping a mistress1 with adultery of a milder sort1 of a grievous sort1 and of a more grievous sort1 yea with ravishing or defloration3 moreover1 they not only mingle all those things1 but also mix them in marriages1 and defile the latter with a like notion2 but where it is the case1 that the latter are not distinguished from the former1 such persons1 after their vague commerce with the sex1 are overtaken by colds1 loathings1 and nauseousness1 at first in regard to a married partner1 next in regard to women in other characters1 and lastly in regard to the sex4 ,it is self-evident that with such persons there is no purpose1 intention1 or end1 of what is good or chaste1 that they may be exculpated1 and no separation of evil from good1 or of what is unchaste from what is chaste1 that they may be purified1 as in the case of those who from fornication look to conjugial love1 and give the latter the preference1 7concerning whom1 see the foregoing article1 n4 #deb74 ,the above observations ,i am allowed to confirm by this new information from heaven3 ,i have met with several1 who in the world had lived outwardly like others1 wearing rich apparel1 feasting daintily1 trading like others with money1 borrowed upon interest1 frequenting stage exhibitions1 conversing jocosely on love affairs as from wantonness1 besides other similar things3 and yet the angels charged those things upon some as evils of sin1 and upon others as not evils1 and declared the latter guiltless1 but the former guilty2 and on being questioned why they did so1 when the deeds were alike1 they replied1 that they regard all from purpose1 intention1 or end1 and distinguish accordingly2 and that on this account they excuse and condemn those whom the end excuses and condemns1 since all in heaven are influenced by a good end1 and all in hell by an evil end2 and that this1 and nothing else1 is meant by the ,lord's words1 ,judge not1 that ye be not judged1 ,matt4 vii4 ,i4 #ded4 ,,ix4 ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,fornication ,,is ,,more ,,grievous ,,as ,,it ,,verges ,,to ,,the ,,desire ,,of ,,varieties ,,and ,,of ,,defloration4 ,the reason of this is1 because these two desires are accessories of adulteries1 and thus aggravations of it3 for there are mild adulteries1 grievous adulteries1 and most grievous2 and each kind is estimated according to its opposition to1 and consequent destruction of1 conjugial love4 ,that the desire of varieties and the desire of defloration1 strengthened by being brought into act1 destroy conjugial love1 and drown it as it were in the bottom of the sea1 will be seen presently1 when those subjects come to be treated of4 #dee4 ,x4 ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,fornication1 ,,such ,,as ,,it ,,is ,,in ,,the ,,beginning1 ,,is ,a ,,middle ,,sphere ,,between ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,,the ,,sphere ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love1 ,,and ,,makes ,,an ,,equilibrium4 ,the two spheres1 of adulterous love and conjugial love1 were treated of in the foregoing chapter1 where it was shewn that the sphere of adulterous love ascends from hell1 and the sphere of conjugial love descends from heaven1 n4 #dce2 that those two spheres meet each other in each world1 but do not unite1 n4 #dcf2 that between those two spheres there is an equilibrium1 and that man is in it1 n4 #dcg2 that a man can turn himself to whichever sphere he pleases2 but that so far as he turns himself to the one1 so far he turns himself from the other1 n4 #dch3 for the meaning of spheres1 see n4 #dcd1 and the passages there cited4 ,the reason why the sphere of the lust of fornication is a middle sphere between those two spheres1 and makes an equilibrium1 is1 because while any one is in it1 he can turn himself to the sphere of conjugial love1 that is1 to this love1 and also to the sphere of the love of adultery1 that is1 to the love of adultery2 but if he turns himself to conjugial love1 he turns himself to heaven2 if to the love of adultery1 he turns himself to hell3 each is in the man's free determination1 good pleasure1 and will1 to the intent that he may act freely according to reason1 and not from instinct3 consequently that he may be a man1 and appropriate to himself influx1 and not a beast1 which appropriates nothing thereof to itself4 ,it is said the lust of fornication such as it is in the beginning1 because at that time it is in a middle state4 ,who does not know that whatever a man does in the beginning1 is from concupiscence1 because from the natural man8 ,and who does not know that that concupiscence is not imputed1 while from natural he is becoming spiritual8 ,the case is similar in regard to the lust of fornication1 while a man's love is becoming conjugial4 #def4 ,,xi4 ,,care ,,is ,,to ,,be ,,taken ,,lest1 ,,by ,,immoderate ,,and ,,inordinate ,,fornications1 ,,conjugial ,,love ,,be ,,destroyed4 ,by immoderate and inordinate fornications1 whereby conjugial love is destroyed1 we mean fornications by which not only the strength is enervated1 but also all the delicacies of conjugial love are taken away2 for from unbridled indulgence in such fornications1 not only weakness and consequent wants1 but also impurities and immodesties are occasioned1 by reason of which conjugial love cannot be perceived and felt in its purity and chastity1 and thus neither in its sweetness and the delights of its prime2 not to mention the mischiefs occasioned to both the body and the mind1 and also the disavowed allurements1 which not only deprive conjugial love of its blessed delights1 but also take it away1 and change it into cold1 and thereby into loathing4 ,such fornications are the violent excesses whereby conjugial sports are changed into tragic scenes3 for immoderate and inordinate fornications are like burning flames which1 arising out of ultimates1 consume the body1 parch the fibres1 defile the blood1 and vitiate the rational principles of the mind2 for they burst forth like a fire from the foundation into the house1 which consumes the whole4 ,to prevent these mischiefs is the duty of parents2 for a grown up youth1 inflamed with lust1 cannot as yet from reason impose restraint upon himself4 #deg4 ,,xii4 ,,inasmuch ,,as ,,the ,,conjugial ,,principle ,,of ,,one ,,man ,,with ,,one ,,wife ,,is ,,the ,,jewel ,,of ,,human ,,life ,,and ,,the ,,reservoir ,,of ,,the ,,christian ,,religion4 ,these two points have been demonstrated universally and singularly in the whole preceding part of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,chaste ,,delights4 ,the reason why it is the jewel of human life is1 because the quality of a man's life is according to the quality of that love with him2 since that love constitutes the inmost of his life2 for it is the life of wisdom dwelling with its love1 and of love dwelling with its wisdom1 and hence it is the life of the delights of each2 in a word1 a man is a soul living by means of that love3 hence1 the conjugial tie of one man with one wife is called the jewel of human life4 ,this is confirmed from the following articles adduced above3 only with one wife there exists truly conjugial friendship1 confidence1 and potency1 because there is a union of minds1 n4 #ccc1 #ccd3 in and from a union with one wife there exist celestial blessednesses1 spiritual satisfactions1 and thence natural delights1 which from the beginning have been provided for those who are in love truly conjugial1 n4 #cce4 ,that it is the fundamental love of all celestial1 spiritual1 and derivative natural loves1 and that into that love are collected all joys and delights from first to last1 n4 #fe-fi3 and that viewed in its origin1 it is the sport of wisdom and love1 has been fully demonstrated in the ,,conjugial ,,love ,,and ,,its ,,chaste ,,delights1 which constitutes the first part of this work4 #deh4 ,the reason why that love is the reservoir of the ,christian religion is1 because this religion unites and dwells with that love2 for it was shewn1 that none come into that love1 and can be in it1 but those who approach the ,lord1 and do the truths of his church and its goods2 n4 #gj1 #ga3 that that love is from the only ,lord1 and that hence it exists with those who are of the ,christian religion2 n4 #aca1 #cce1 #ccf3 that that love is according to the state of the church1 because it is according to the state of wisdom with man2 n4 #acj4 ,that these things are so1 was fully confirmed in the chapter on the correspondence of that love with the marriage of the ,lord and the church2 n4 #aaf1 #aca2 and in the chapter on the origin of that love from the marriage of good and truth2 n4 #hc-ajb4 #dei4 ,,xiii4 ,,with ,,those ,,who1 ,,from ,,various ,,reasons1 ,,cannot ,,as ,,yet ,,enter ,,into ,,marriage1 ,,and ,,from ,,their ,,passion ,,for ,,the ,,sex1 ,,cannot ,,moderate ,,their ,,lusts1 ,,this ,,conjugial ,,principle ,,may ,,be ,,preserved1 ,,if ,,the ,,vague ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex ,,be ,,confined ,,to ,,one ,,mistress4 ,that immoderate and inordinate lust cannot be entirely checked by those who have a strong passion for the sex1 is what reason sees and experience proves3 with a view therefore that such lust may be restrained1 in the case of one whose passions are thus violent1 and who for several reasons cannot precipitately enter into marriage1 and that it may be rendered somewhat moderate and ordinate1 there seems to be no other refuge1 and as it were asylum1 than the keeping of a woman1 who in ,french is called maitresse4 ,it is well known that in kingdoms1 where certain forms and orders are to be observed1 matrimonial engagements cannot be contracted by many till the season of youth is past2 for duties are first to be performed1 and property to be acquired for the support of a house and family1 and then first a suitable wife is to be courted2 and yet in the previous season of youth few are able to keep the springing fountain of manliness closed1 and reserved for a wife3 it is better indeed that it should be reserved2 but if this cannot be done on account of the unbridled power of lust1 a question occurs1 whether there may not be an intermediate means1 by which conjugial love may be prevented from perishing in the mean time4 ,that keeping a mistress is such a means appears reasonable from the following considerations3 ,i4 ,that by this means promiscuous inordinate fornications are restrained and limited1 and thus a less disorderly state is induced1 which more resembles conjugial life4 ,,ii4 ,that the ardor of venereal propensities1 which in the beginning is boiling hot1 and as it were burning1 is appeased and mitigated2 and thereby the lascivious passion for the sex1 which is filthy1 is tempered by somewhat analogous to marriage4 ,,iii4 ,by this means too the strength is not cast away1 neither are weaknesses contracted1 as by vague and unlimited amours4 ,,iv4 ,by this means also disease of the body and insanity of mind are avoided4 ,v4 ,in like manner by this means adulteries1 which are whoredoms with wives1 and debaucheries1 which are violations of maidens1 are guarded against2 to say nothing of such criminal acts as are not to be named2 for a stripling does not think that adulteries and debaucheries are different from fornications2 thus he conceives that the one is the same with the other2 nor is he able from reason to resist the enticements of some of the sex1 who are proficients in meretricious arts3 but in keeping a mistress1 which is a more ordinate and safer fornication1 he can learn and see the above distinctions4 ,,vi4 ,by keeping a mistress1 also no entrance is afforded to the four kinds of lusts1 which are in the highest degree destructive of conjugial love1--the lust of defloration1 the lust of varieties1 the lust of violation1 and the lust of seducing innocences1 which are treated of in the following pages4 ,these observations1 however1 are not intended for those who can check the tide of lust2 nor for those who can enter into marriage during the season of youth1 and offer and impart to their wives the first fruits of their manliness4 #dfj4 ,,xiv4 ,,keeping ,a ,,mistress ,,is ,,preferable ,,to ,,vague ,,amours1 ,,provided ,,only ,,one ,,is ,,kept ,,and ,,she ,,be ,,neither ,a ,,maiden ,,nor ,a ,,married ,,woman1 ,,and ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,mistress ,,be ,,kept ,,separate ,,from ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,at what time and with what persons keeping a mistress is preferable to vague amours1 has been pointed out just above4 ,i4 ,the reason why only one mistress is to be kept1 is1 because if more than one be kept1 a polygamical principle gains influence1 which induces in a man a merely natural state1 and thrusts him down into a sensual state1 so much so that he cannot be elevated into a spiritual state1 in which conjugial love must be2 see n4 #cch1 #cci4 ,,ii4 ,the reason why this mistress must not be a maiden1 is because conjugial love with women acts in unity with their virginity1 and hence constitutes the chastity1 purity1 and sanctity of that love2 wherefore when a woman makes an engagement and allotment of her virginity to any man1 it is the same thing as giving him a certificate that she will love him to eternity3 on this account a maiden cannot1 from any rational consent1 barter away her virginity1 unless when entering into the conjugial covenant3 it is also the crown of her honor3 wherefore to seize it without a covenant of marriage1 and afterwards to discard her1 is to make a courtezan of a maiden1 who might have been a bride or a chaste wife1 or to defraud some man2 and each of these is hurtful4 ,therefore whoever takes a maiden and unites her to himself as a mistress1 may indeed dwell with her1 and thereby initiate her into the friendship of love1 but still with a constant intention1 if he does not play the whoremaster1 that she shall be or become his wife4 ,,iii4 ,that the kept mistress must not be a married woman1 because this is adultery1 is evident4 ,,iv4 ,the reason why the love of a mistress is to be kept separate from conjugial love1 is because those loves are distinct1 and therefore ought not to be mixed together3 for the love of a mistress is an unchaste1 natural1 and external love2 whereas the love of marriage is chaste1 spiritual1 and internal4 ,the love of a mistress keeps the souls of two persons distinct1 and unites only the sensual principles of the body2 but the love of marriage unites souls1 and from their union conjoins also the sensual principles of the body1 until from two they become as one1 which is one flesh4 ,v4 ,the love of a mistress enters only into the understanding and the things which depend on it2 but the love of marriage enters also into the will and the things which depend on it1 consequently into every thing appertaining to man 7homo72 wherefore if the love of a mistress becomes the love of marriage1 a man cannot retract from any principle of right1 and without violating the conjugial union2 and if he retracts and marries another woman1 conjugial love perishes in consequence of the breach thereof4 ,it is to be observed1 that the love of a mistress is kept separate from conjugial love by this condition1 that no engagement of marriage be made with the mistress1 and that she be not induced to form any such expectation4 ,nevertheless it is far better that the torch of the love of the sex be first lighted with a wife4 99 99 99 99 99 #dfa4 ,to the above ,i shall add the following ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,i was once conversing with a novitiate spirit who1 during his abode in the world1 had meditated much about heaven and hell4 7,novitiate spirits are men newly deceased1 who are called spirits1 because they are then spiritual men47 ,as soon as he entered into the spiritual world he began to meditate in like manner about heaven and hell1 and seemed to himself1 when meditating about heaven1 to be in joy1 and when about hell1 in sorrow4 ,when he observed that he was in the spiritual world1 he immediately asked where heaven and hell were1 and also their nature and quality8 ,and he was answered1 ,heaven is above your head1 and hell beneath your feet2 for you are now in the world of spirits1 which is immediate between heaven and hell2 but what are their nature and quality we cannot describe in a few words4 ,at that instant1 as he was very desirous of knowing1 he fell upon his knees1 and prayed devoutly to ,god that he might be instructed2 and lo6 an angel appeared at his right hand1 and having raised him1 said1 ,you have prayed to be instructed concerning heaven and hell2 ,,inquire ,,and ,,learn ,,what ,,delight ,,is1 ,,and ,,you ,,will ,,know2 and having said this1 the angel was taken up4 ,then the novitiate spirit said within himself1 ,what does this mean1 ,inquire and learn what delight is1 and you will know the nature and quality of heaven and hell8 ,and leaving that place1 he wandered about1 and accosting those he met1 said1 ,tell me1 if you please1 what delight is8 ,some said1 ,what a strange question6 ,who does not know what delight is8 ,is it not joy and gladness8 ,wherefore delight is delight2 one delight is like another2 we know no distinction4 ,others said1 that delight was the laughter of the mind2 for when the mind laughs1 the countenance is cheerful1 the discourse is jocular1 the behaviour sportive1 and the whole man is in delight4 ,but some said1 ,delight consists in nothing but feasting1 and delicate eating and drinking1 and in getting intoxicated with generous wine1 and then in conversing on various subjects1 especially on the sports of ,venus and ,cupid4 ,on hearing these relations1 the novitiate spirit being indignant1 said to himself2 ,these are the answers of clowns1 and not of well-bred men3 these delights are neither heaven nor hell2 ,i wish ,i could meet with the wise4 ,he then took his leave of them1 and inquired where he might find the wise8 ,at that instant he was seen by a certain angelic spirit1 who said1 ,i perceive that you have a strong desire to know what is the universal of heaven and of hell2 and since this is ,,delight1 ,i will conduct you up a hill1 where there is every day an assembly of those who scrutinize effects1 of those who investigate causes1 and of those who explore ends4 ,there are three companies2 those who scrutinize effects are called spirits of knowledges1 and abstractedly knowledges2 those who investigate causes are called spirits of intelligence1 and abstractedly intelligences2 and those who explore ends are called spirits of wisdom1 and abstractedly wisdoms4 ,directly above them in heaven are angels1 who from ends see causes1 and from causes effects2 from these angels those three companies are enlightened4 ,the angelic spirit then taking the novitiate spirit by the hand1 led him up the hill to the company which consisted of those who explore ends1 and are called wisdoms4 ,to these the novitiate spirit said1 ,pardon me for having ascended to you3 the reason is1 because from my childhood ,i have meditated about heaven and hell1 and lately came into this world1 where ,i was told by some who accompanied me1 that here heaven was above my head1 and hell beneath my feet2 but they did not tell me the nature and quality of either2 wherefore1 becoming anxious from my thoughts being constantly employed on the subject1 ,i prayed to ,god2 and instantly an angel presented itself1 and said1 ',inquire and learn what delight is1 and you will know4' ,i have inquired1 but hitherto in vain3 ,i request therefore that you will teach me1 if you please1 what delight is4 ,to this the wisdoms replied1 ,delight is the all of life to all in heaven and all in hell3 those in delight have the delight of good and truth1 but those in hell have the delight of what is evil and false2 for all delight is of love1 and love is the esse of a man's life2 therefore as a man is a man according to the quality of his love1 so also is he according to the quality of his delight4 ,the activity of love makes the sense of delight2 its activity in heaven is with wisdom1 and in hell with insanity2 each in its objects presents delight3 but the heavens and the hells are in opposite delights1 because in opposite loves2 the heavens in the love and thence in the delight of doing good1 but the hells in the love and thence in the delight of doing evil2 if therefore you know what delight is1 you will know the nature and quality of heaven and hell4 ,but inquire and learn further what delight is from those who investigate causes1 and are called intelligences3 they are to the right from hence4 ,he departed1 and came to them1 and told them the reason of his coming1 and requested that they would teach him what delight is8 ,and they1 rejoicing at the question1 said1 ,it is true that he that knows what delight is1 knows the nature and quality of heaven and hell4 ,the will-principle1 by virtue whereof a man is a man1 cannot be moved at all but by delight2 for the will-principle1 considered in itself1 is nothing but an affect and effect of some love1 thus of some delight2 for it is somewhat pleasing1 engaging1 and pleasurable1 which constitutes the principle of willing2 and since the will moves the understanding to think1 there does not exist the least idea of thought but from the influent delight of the will4 ,the reason of this is1 because the ,lord by influx from himself actuates all things of the soul and the mind with angels1 spirits1 and men2 which he does by an influx of love and wisdom2 and this influx is the essential activity from which comes all delight1 which in its origin is called blessed1 satisfactory1 and happy1 and in its derivation is called delightful1 pleasant1 and pleasurable1 and in a universal sense1 ,,good4 ,but the spirits of hell invert all things with themselves2 thus they turn good into evil1 and the true into the false1 their delights continually remaining3 for without the continuance of delight1 they would have neither will nor sensation1 thus no life4 ,from these considerations may be seen the nature and origin of the delight of hell1 and also the nature and origin of the delight of heaven4 ,having heard this1 he was conducted to the third company1 consisting of those who scrutinize effects1 and are called knowledges4 ,these said1 ,descend to the inferior earth1 and ascend to the superior earth3 in the latter you will perceive and be made sensible of the delights of the angels of heaven1 and in the former of the delights of the spirits of hell4 ,but lo6 at that instant1 at a distance from them1 the ground cleft asunder1 and through the cleft there ascended three devils1 who appeared on fire from the delight of their love2 and as those who accompanied the novitiate spirit perceived that the three ascended out of hell by proviso1 they said to them1 ,do not come nearer2 but from the place where you are1 give some account of your delights4 ,whereupon they said1 ,know1 then1 that every one1 whether he be good or evil1 is in his own delight2 the good in the delight of his good1 and the evil in the delight of his evil4 ,they were then asked1 ,what is your delight8 ,they said4 ,the delight of whoring1 stealing1 defrauding1 and blaspheming4 ,again they were asked1 ,what is the quality of those delights8 ,they said1 ,to the senses of others they are like the stinks arising from dunghills1 the stenches from dead bodies1 and the scents from stale urine4 ,and it was asked them1 ,are those things delightful to you8 ,they said1 ,most delightful4 ,and reply was made1 ,then you are like unclean beasts which wallow in such things4 ,to which they answered1 ,if we are1 we are3 but such things are the delights of our nostrils4 ,and on being asked1 ,what further account can you give8 they said1 ,every one is allowed to be in his delight1 even the most unclean1 as it is called1 provided he does not infest good spirits and angels2 but since1 from our delight1 we cannot do otherwise than infest them1 therefore we are cast together into workhouses1 where we suffer direfully4 ,the witholding and keeping back our delights in those houses is what is called hell-torments3 it is also interior pain4 ,it was then asked them1 ,why have you infested the good8 ,they replied1 that they could not do otherwise3 ,it is1 said they1 as if we were seized with rage when we see any angel1 and are made sensible of the divine sphere about him4 ,it was then said to them1 ,herein also you are like wild beasts4 ,and presently1 when they saw the novitiate spirit with the angel1 they were overpowered with rage1 which appeared like the fire of hatred2 wherefore1 in order to prevent their doing mischief1 they were sent back to hell4 ,after these things1 appeared the angels who from ends see causes1 and by causes effects1 who were in the heaven above those three companies4 ,they were seen in a bright cloud1 which rolling itself downwards by spiral flexures1 brought with it a circular garland of flowers1 and placed it on the head of the novitiate spirit2 and instantly a voice said to him from thence1 ,this wreath is given you because from your childhood you have meditated on heaven and hell4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,concubinage4 #dfb4 ,in the preceding chapter1 in treating on fornication1 we treated also on keeping a mistress2 by which was understood the connection of an unmarried man with a woman under stipulated conditions3 but by concubinage we here mean the connection of a married man with a woman in like manner under stipulated conditions4 ,those who do not distinguish genera1 use the two terms promiscuously1 as if they had one meaning1 and thence one signification3 but as they are two genera1 and the term keeping a mistress is suitable to the former1 because a kept mistress is a courtezan1 and the term concubinage to the latter1 because a concubine is a substituted partner of the bed1 therefore for the sake of distinction1 ante-nuptial stipulation with a woman is signified by keeping a mistress1 and post-nuptial by concubinage4 ,concubinage is here treated of for the sake of order2 for from order it is discovered what is the quality of marriage on the one part1 and of adultery on the other4 ,that marriage and adultery are opposites has already been shewn in the chapter concerning their opposition2 and the quantity and quality of their opposition cannot be learnt but from their intermediates1 of which concubinage is one2 but as there are two kinds of concubinage1 which are to be carefully distinguished1 therefore this section1 like the foregoing1 shall be arranged into its distinct parts as follows2 ,i4 ,there are two kinds of concubinage1 which differ exceedingly from each other1 the one conjointly with a wife1 the other apart from a wife4 ,,ii4 ,concubinage conjointly with a wife1 is altogether unlawful for ,christians1 and detestable4 ,,iii4 ,that it is polygamy which has been condemned1 and is to be condemned1 by the ,christian world4 ,,iv4 ,it is an adultery whereby the conjugial principle1 which is the most precious jewel of the ,christian life1 is destroyed4 ,v4 ,concubinage apart from a wife1 when it is engaged in from causes legitimate1 just1 and truly excusatory1 is not unlawful4 ,,vi4 ,the legitimate causes of this concubinage are the legitimate causes of divorce1 while the wife is nevertheless retained at home4 ,,vii4 ,the just causes of this concubinage are the just causes of reparation from the bed4 ,,viii4 ,of the excusatory causes of this concubinage some are real and some not4 ,,ix4 ,the really excusatory causes are such as are grounded in what is just4 ,x4 ,the excusatory causes which are not real are such as are not grounded in what is just1 although in the appearance of what is just4 ,,xi4 ,those who from causes legitimate1 just1 and really excusatory1 are engaged in this concubinage1 may at the same time be principled in conjugial love4 ,,xii4 ,while this concubinage continues1 actual connection with a wife is not allowable4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #dfc4 ,i4 ,,there ,,are ,,two ,,kinds ,,of ,,concubinage1 ,,which ,,differ ,,exceedingly ,,from ,,each ,,other1 ,,the ,,one ,,conjointly ,,with ,a ,,wife1 ,,the ,,other ,,apart ,,from ,a ,,wife4 ,that there are two kinds of concubinage1 which differ exceedingly from each other1 and that the one kind consists in taking a substituted partner to the bed and living conjointly and at the same time with her and with a wife2 and that the other kind is when1 after a legitimate and just separation from a wife1 a man engages a woman in her stead as a bed-fellow2 also that these two kinds of concubinage differ as much from each other as dirty linen from clean1 may be seen by those who take a clear and distinct view of things1 but not by those whose view of things is confused and indistinct3 yea1 it may be seen by those who are in conjugial love1 but not by those who are in the love of adultery4 ,the latter are in obscurity respecting all the derivations of the love of the sex1 whereas the former are enlightened respecting them3 nevertheless1 those who are in adultery1 can see those derivations and their distinctions1 not indeed in and from themselves1 but from others when they hear them3 for an adulterer has a similar faculty with a chaste husband of elevating his understanding2 but an adulterer1 after he has acknowledged the distinctions which he has heard from others1 nevertheless forgets them1 when he immerses his understanding in his filthy pleasure2 for the chaste and the unchaste principles1 and the sane and the insane1 cannot dwell together2 but1 when separated1 they may be distinguished by the understanding4 ,i once inquired of those in the spiritual world who did not regard adulteries as sins1 whether they knew a single distinction between fornication1 keeping a mistress1 the two kinds of concubinage1 and the several degrees of adultery8 ,they said they were all alike4 ,i then asked them whether marriage was distinguishable8 ,upon this they looked around to see whether any of the clergy were present1 and as there were not1 they said1 that in itself it is like the rest4 ,the case was otherwise with those who in the ideas of their thought regarded adulteries as sins3 these said1 that in their interior ideas1 which are of the perception1 they saw distinctions1 but had not yet studied to discern and know them asunder4 ,this ,i can assert as a fact1 that those distinctions are perceived by the angels in heaven as to their minutiae4 ,in order therefore that it may be seen1 that there are two kinds of concubinage opposite to each other1 one whereby conjugial love is destroyed1 the other whereby it is not1 we will first describe the kind which is condemnatory1 and afterwards that which is not4 #dfd4 ,,ii4 ,,concubinage ,,conjointly ,,with ,a ,,wife ,,is ,,altogether ,,unlawful ,,for ,,christians1 ,,and ,,detestable4 ,it is unlawful1 because it is contrary to the conjugial covenant2 and it is detestable1 because it is contrary to religion2 and what is contrary to religion1 and at the same time to the conjugial covenant1 is contrary to the ,lord3 wherefore1 as soon as any one1 without a really conscientious cause1 adjoins a concubine to a wife1 heaven is closed to him2 and by the angels he is no longer numbered among ,christians4 ,from that time also he despises the things of the church and of religion1 and afterwards does not lift his face above nature1 but turns himself to her as a deity1 who favors his lust1 from whose influx his spirit thenceforward receives animation4 ,the interior cause of this apostasy will be explained in what follows4 ,that this concubinage is detestable is not seen by the man himself who is guilty of it2 because after the closing of heaven he becomes a spiritual insanity3 but a chaste wife has a clear view of it1 because she is a conjugial love1 and this love nauseates such concubinage2 wherefore also many such wives refuse actual connection with their husbands afterwards1 as that which would defile their chastity by the contagion of lust adhering to the men from their courtezans4 #dfe4 ,,iii4 ,,it ,,is ,,polygamy ,,which ,,has ,,been ,,condemned1 ,,and ,,is ,,to ,,be ,,condemned1 ,,by ,,the ,,christian ,,world4 ,that simultaneous concubinage1 or concubinage conjoined with a wife1 is polygamy1 although not acknowledged to be such1 because it is not so declared1 and thus not so called by any law1 must be evident to every person of common discernment2 for a woman taken into keeping1 and made partaker of the conjugial bed is like a wife4 ,that polygamy has been condemned1 and is to be condemned by the ,christian world1 has been shewn in the chapter on polygamy1 especially from these articles therein3 ,a ,christian is not allowed to marry more than one wife2 n4 #cch3 ,if a ,christian marries several wives1 he commits not only natural1 but also spiritual adultery2 n4 #cci3 ,the ,israelitish nation was permitted to marry several wives1 because the ,christian church was not with them2 n4 #cdi4 ,from these considerations it is evident1 that to adjoin a concubine to a wife1 and to make each a partner of the bed1 is filthy polygamy4 #dff4 ,,iv4 ,,it ,,is ,,an ,,adultery ,,whereby ,,the ,,conjugial ,,principle1 ,,which ,,is ,,the ,,most ,,precious ,,jewel ,,of ,,the ,,christian ,,life ,,is ,,destroyed4 ,that it is more opposed to conjugial love than simple adultery2 and that it is a deprivation of every faculty and inclination to conjugial life1 which is implanted in ,christians from birth1 may be evinced by arguments which will have great weight with the reason of a wise man4 ,in regard to the ,,first ,,position1--that simultaneous concubinage1 or concubinage conjoined with a wife1 is more opposed to conjugial love than simple adultery1 it may be seen from these considerations3 that in simple adultery there is not a love analogous to conjugial love2 for it is only a heat of the flesh1 which presently cools1 and sometimes does not leave any trace of love behind it towards its object2 wherefore this effervescing lasciviousness1 if it is not from a purposed or confirmed principle1 and if the person guilty of it repents1 detracts but little from conjugial love4 ,it is otherwise in the case of polygamical adultery3 herein there is a love analogous to conjugial love2 for it does not cool and disperse1 or pass off into nothing after being excited1 like the foregoing2 but it remains1 renews and strengthens itself1 and so far takes away from love to the wife1 and in the place thereof induces cold towards her2 for in such case it regards the concubine courtezan as lovely from a freedom of the will1 in that it can retract if it pleases2 which freedom is begotten in the natural man3 and because this freedom is thence grateful1 it supports that love2 and moreover1 with a concubine the unition with allurements is nearer than with a wife2 but on the other hand it does not regard a wife as lovely1 by reason of the duty of living with her enjoined by the covenant of life1 which it then perceives as far more constrained in consequence of the freedom enjoyed with another woman4 ,it is plain that love for a wife grows cold1 and she herself grows vile1 in the same degree that love for a courtezan grows warm1 and she is held in estimation4 ,in regard to the ,,second ,,position--that simultaneous concubinage1 or concubinage conjoined with a wife1 deprives a man of all faculty and inclination to conjugial life1 which is implanted in ,christians from birth1 it may be seen from the following considerations3 that so far as love to a wife is changed into love to a concubine1 so far the former love is rent1 exhausted1 and emptied1 as has been shewn just above3 that this is effected by a closing of the interiors of the natural mind1 and an opening of its inferior principles1 may appear from the seat of the inclination with ,christians to love one of the sex1 as being in the inmost principles1 and that this seat may be closed1 but cannot be destroyed4 ,the reason why an inclination to love one of the sex1 and also a faculty to receive that love1 is implanted in ,christians from birth1 is1 because that love is from the ,lord alone1 and is esteemed religious1 and in ,christendom the ,lord's divine is acknowledged and worshipped1 and religion is from his ,word2 hence there is a grafting1 and also a transplanting thereof1 from generation to generation4 ,we have said1 that the above ,christian conjugial principle perishes by polygamical adultery3 we thereby mean1 that with the ,christian polygamist it is closed and intercepted2 but still it is capable of being revived in his posterity1 as is the case with the likeness of a grandfather or a great-grandfather returning in a grandson or a great-grandson4 ,hence1 that conjugial principle is called the most precious jewel of the ,christian life1 and 7see above1 n4 #deg1 #deh17 the storehouse of human life1 and the reservoir of the ,christian religion4 ,that that conjugial principle is destroyed with the ,christian who practises polygamical adultery1 is manifest from this consideration2 that he cannot like a ,mahometan polygamist1 love a concubine and a wife equally2 but so far as he loves a concubine1 or is warm towards her1 so far he does not love his wife1 but is cold towards her2 and1 what is yet more detestable1 so far he also in heart acknowledges the ,lord only as a natural man1 and the son of ,mary1 and not at the same time as the ,son of ,god1 and likewise so far he makes light of religion4 ,it is1 however1 well to be noted1 that this is the case with those who add a concubine to a wife1 and connect themselves actually with each2 but it is not at all the case with those1 who from legitimate1 just1 and truly excusatory causes1 separate themselves1 and keep apart from a wife as to actual love1 and have a woman in keeping4 ,we now proceed to treat of this kind of concubinage4 #dfg4 ,v4 ,,concubinage ,,apart ,,from ,a ,,wife1 ,,when ,,it ,,is ,,engaged ,,in ,,from ,,causes ,,legitimate1 ,,just1 ,,and ,,truly ,,excusatory1 ,,is ,,not ,,unlawful4 ,what causes we mean by legitimate1 what by just1 and what by truly excusatory1 shall be shewn in their order3 the bare mention of the causes is here premised1 that this concubinage1 which we are about to treat of1 may be distinguished from that which we have previously described4 7,see note to ,no4 #dej1 and the ,preliminary note47 #dfh4 ,,vi4 ,,the ,,legitimate ,,causes ,,of ,,this ,,concubinage ,,are ,,the ,,legitimate ,,causes ,,of ,,divorce1 ,,while ,,the ,,wife ,,is ,,nevertheless ,,retained ,,at ,,home4 ,by divorce is meant the annulling of the conjugial covenant1 and thence an entire separation1 and after this a full liberty to marry another wife4 ,the one only cause of this total separation or divorce1 is adultery1 according to the ,lord's precept1 ,matt4 xix4 #i4 ,to the same cause are to be referred manifest obscenities1 which bid defiance to the restraints of modesty1 and fill and infest the house with flagitious practices of lewdness1 giving birth to adulterous immodesty1 and rendering the whole mind abandoned4 ,to these things may be added malicious desertion1 which involves adultery1 and causes a wife to commit whoredom1 and thereby to be divorced1 ,matt4 v4 #cb4 ,these three causes1 being legitimate causes of divorce1--the first and third before a public judge1 and the middle one before the man himself1 as judge1 are also legitimate causes of concubinage1 when the adulterous wife is retained at home4 ,the reason why adultery is the one only cause of divorce is1 because it is diametrically opposite to the life of conjugial love1 and totally destroys and annihilates it2 see above1 n4 #bee4 #dfi4 ,the reasons why1 by the generality of men1 the adulterous wife is still retained at home1 are1 #a4 ,because the man is afraid to produce witnesses in a court of justice against his wife1 to accuse her of adultery1 and thereby to make the crime public2 for unless eye-witnesses1 or evidences to the same amount1 were produced to convict her1 he would be secretly reproached in companies of men1 and openly in companies of women4 #b4 ,he is afraid also lest his adulteress should have the cunning to clear her conduct1 and likewise lest the judges should show favor to her1 and thus his name suffer in the public esteem4 #c4 ,moreover1 there may be domestic reasons1 which may make separation from the house unadvisable3 as in case there are children1 towards whom also the adulteress has natural love2 in case they are bound together by mutual services which cannot be put an end to2 in case the wife is connected with and dependent upon her relatives1 whether on the father's or mother's side1 and there is a hope of receiving an increase of fortune from them2 in case he lived with her in the beginning in habits of agreeable intimacy2 and in case she1 after she became meretricious1 has the skill to soothe the man with engaging pleasantry and pretended civility1 to prevent blame being imputed to herself2 not to mention other cases1 which1 as in themselves they are legitimate causes of divorce1 are also legitimate causes of concubinage2 for the causes of retaining the wife at home do not take away the cause of divorce1 supposing her guilty of adultery4 ,who1 but a person of vile character1 can fulfil the duties of the conjugial bed1 and at the same time have commerce with a strumpet8 ,if instances of this sort are occasionally to be met with1 no favorable conclusions are to be drawn from them4 #dgj4 ,,vii4 ,,the ,,just ,,causes ,,of ,,this ,,concubinage ,,are ,,the ,,just ,,causes ,,of ,,separation ,,from ,,the ,,bed4 ,there are legitimate causes of separation1 and there are just causes3 legitimate causes are enforced by the decisions of judges1 and just causes by the decisions come to by the man alone4 ,the causes both legitimate and just of separation from the bed1 and also from the house1 were briefly enumerated above1 n4 #beb1 #bec2 among which are ,,vitiated ,,states ,,of ,,the ,,body1 including diseases whereby the whole body is so far infected1 that the contagion may prove fatal3 of this nature are malignant and pestilential fevers1 leprosies1 the venereal disease1 cancers2 also diseases whereby the whole body is so far weighed down1 as to admit of no sociability1 and from which exhale dangerous effluvia and noxious vapors1 whether from the surface of the body1 or from its inward parts1 in particular from the stomach and the lungs3 from the surface of the body proceed malignant pocks1 warts1 pustules1 scorbutic pthisis1 virulent scab1 especially if the face is disfigured by it2 from the stomach proceed foul1 stinking1 and rank eructations2 from the lungs1 filthy and putrid exhalations arising from imposthumes1 ulcers or abscesses1 or from vitiated blood or serum4 ,besides these there are also other various diseases2 as lipothamia1 which is a total faintness of body1 and defect of strength2 paralysis1 which is a loosening and relaxation of the membranes and ligaments which serve for motion2 epilepsy2 permanent infirmity arising from apoplexy2 certain chronical diseases2 the iliac passion2 rupture2 besides other diseases1 which the science of pathology teaches4 ,,vitiated ,,states ,,of ,,the ,,mind1 which are just causes of separation from the bed and the house1 are madness1 frenzy1 furious wildness1 actual foolishness and idiocy1 loss of memory1 and the like4 ,that these are just causes of concubinage1 since they are just causes of separation1 reason sees without the help of a judge4 #dga4 ,,viii4 ,,of ,,the ,,excusatory ,,causes ,,of ,,this ,,concubinage ,,some ,,are ,,real ,,and ,,some ,,are ,,not4 ,since besides the just causes which are just causes of separation1 and thence become just causes of concubinage1 there are also excusatory causes1 which depend on judgement and justice with the man1 therefore these also are to be mentioned3 but as the judgements of justice may be perverted and be converted by confirmations into the appearances of what is just1 therefore these excusatory causes are distinguished into real and not real1 and are separately described4 #dgb4 ,,ix4 ,,the ,,really ,,excusatory ,,causes ,,are ,,such ,,as ,,are ,,grounded ,,in ,,what ,,is ,,just4 ,to know these causes1 it may be sufficient to mention some of them2 such as having no natural affection towards the children1 and a consequent rejection of them1 intemperance1 drunkenness1 uncleanliness1 immodesty1 a desire of divulging family secrets1 of disputing1 of striking1 of taking revenge1 of doing evil1 of stealing1 of deceiving2 internal dissimilitude1 whence comes antipathy2 a froward requirement of the conjugial debt1 whence the man becomes as cold as a stone2 being addicted to magic and witchcraft2 an extreme degree of impiety2 and other similar evils4 #dgc4 ,there are also milder causes1 which are really excusatory and which separate from the bed1 and yet not from the house2 as a cessation of prolification on the part of the wife1 in consequence of advanced age1 and thence a reluctance and opposition to actual love1 while the ardor thereof still continues with the man2 besides similar cases in which rational judgement sees what is just1 and which do not hurt the conscience4 #dgd4 ,x4 ,,the ,,excusatory ,,causes ,,which ,,are ,,not ,,real ,,are ,,such ,,as ,,are ,,not ,,grounded ,,in ,,what ,,is ,,just1 ,,although ,,in ,,the ,,appearance ,,of ,,what ,,is ,,just4 ,these are known from the really excusatory causes above mentioned1 and1 if not rightly examined1 may appear to be just1 and yet are unjust2 as that times of abstinence are required after the bringing forth of children1 the transitory sicknesses of wives1 from these and other causes a check to prolification1 polygamy permitted to the ,israelites1 and other like causes of no weight as grounded in justice4 ,these are fabricated by the men after they have become cold1 when unchaste lusts have deprived them of conjugial love1 and have infatuated them with the idea of its likeness to adulterous love4 ,when such men engage in concubinage1 they1 in order to prevent defamation1 assign such spurious and fallacious causes as real and genuine1--and very frequently also falsely charge them against their wives1 their companions often favorably assenting and applauding them4 #dge4 ,,xi4 ,,those ,,who ,,from ,,causes ,,legitimate1 ,,just1 ,,and ,,really ,,excusatory1 ,,are ,,engaged ,,in ,,this ,,concubinage1 ,,may ,,at ,,the ,,same ,,time ,,be ,,principled ,,in ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,we say that such may at the same time be principled in conjugial love2 and we thereby mean1 that they may keep this love stored up in themselves2 for this love1 in the subject in which it is1 does not perish1 but is quiescent4 ,the reasons why conjugial love is preserved with those who prefer marriage to concubinage1 and enter into the latter from the causes above mentioned1 are these2 that this concubinage is not repugnant to conjugial love2 that it is not a separation from it2 that it is only a clothing encompassing it2 that this clothing is taken away from them after death4 #a4 ,that this concubinage is not repugnant to conjugial love1 follows from what was proved above2 that such concubinage1 when engaged in from causes legitimate1 just1 and really excusatory1 is not unlawful1 n4 #dfg-dgc4 #b4 ,that this concubinage is not a separation from conjugial love2 for when causes legitimate1 or just1 or really excusatory1 arise1 and persuade and compel a man1 then1 conjugial love with marriage is not separated1 but only interrupted2 and love interrupted1 and not separated1 remains in the subject4 ,the case in this respect is like that of a person1 who1 being engaged in a business which he likes1 is detained from it by company1 by public sights1 or by a journey2 still he does not cease to like his business3 it is also like that of a person who is fond of generous wine1 and who1 when he drinks wine of an inferior quality1 does not lose his taste and appetite for that which is generous4 #c4 ,the reason why the above concubinage is only a clothing of conjugial love encompassing it1 is1 because the love of concubinage is natural1 and the love of marriage spiritual2 and natural love is a veil or covering to spiritual1 when the latter is interrupted3 that this is the case1 is unknown to the lover2 because spiritual love is not made sensible of itself1 but by natural love1 and it is made sensible as delight1 in which there is blessedness from heaven3 but natural love by itself is made sensible only as delight4 #d4 ,the reason why this veil is taken away after death1 is1 because then a man from natural becomes spiritual1 and instead of a material body enjoys a substantial one1 wherein natural delight grounded in spiritual is made sensible in its perfection4 ,that this is the case1 ,i have heard from communication with some in the spiritual world1 even from kings there1 who in the natural world had engaged in concubinage from really excusatory causes4 #dgf4 ,,xii4 ,,while ,,this ,,concubinage ,,continues1 ,,actual ,,connection ,,with ,a ,,wife ,,is ,,not ,,allowable4 ,the reason of this is1 because in such case conjugial love1 which in itself is spiritual1 chaste1 pure1 and holy1 becomes natural1 is defiled and disregarded1 and thereby perishes2 wherefore in order that this love may be preserved1 it is expedient that concubinage grounded in really excusatory causes1 n4 #dgb1 #dgc1 be engaged in with one only1 and not with two at the same time4 99 99 99 99 99 #dgg4 ,to the above ,i will add the following ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,i heard a certain spirit1 a youth1 recently deceased1 boasting of his libertinism1 and eager to establish his reputation as a man of superior masculine powers2 and in the insolence of his boasting he thus expressed himself2 ,what is more dismal than for a man to imprison his love1 and to confine himself to one woman8 and what is more delightful than to set the love at liberty8 ,who does not grow tired of one8 and who is not revived by several8 ,what is sweeter than promiscuous liberty1 variety1 deflorations1 schemes to deceive husbands1 and plans of adulterous hypocrisy8 ,do not those things which are obtained by cunning1 deceit1 and theft1 delight the inmost principles of the mind6 ,on hearing these things1 the bystanders said1 ,speak not in such terms2 you know not where and with whom you are2 you are but lately come hither4 ,hell is beneath your feet1 and heaven over your head2 you are now in the world which is between those two1 and is called the world of spirits4 ,all who depart out of the world1 come here1 and being assembled are examined as to their quality2 and here they are prepared1 the wicked for hell1 and the good for heaven4 ,possibly you still retain what you have heard from priests in the world1 that whoremongers and adulterers are cast down into hell1 and that chaste married partners are raised to heaven4 ,at this the novitiate laughed1 saying1 ,what are heaven and hell8 ,is it not heaven where any one is free2 and is not he free who is allowed to love as many as he pleases8 and is not it hell where any one is a servant3 and is not he a servant who is obliged to keep to one8 ,but a certain angel1 looking down from heaven1 heard what he said1 and broke off the conversation1 lest it should proceed further and profane marriages2 and he said to him1 ,come up here1 and ,i will clearly shew you what heaven and hell are1 and what the quality of the latter is to continued adulterers4 ,he then shewed him the way1 and he ascended3 after he was admitted he was led first into the paradisiacal garden1 where were fruit-trees and flowers1 which from their beauty1 pleasantness and fragrance1 tilled the mind with the delights of life4 ,when he saw these things1 he admired them exceedingly2 but he was then in external vision1 such as he had enjoyed in the world when he saw similar objects1 and in this vision he was rational2 but in the internal vision1 in which adultery was the principal agent1 and occupied every point of thought1 he was not rational2 wherefore the external vision was closed1 and the internal opened2 and when the latter was opened1 he said1 ,what do ,i see now8 is it not straw and dry wood8 and what do ,i smell now8 is it not a stench8 ,what is become of those paradisiacal objects8 ,the angel said1 ,they are near at hand and are present2 but they do not appear before your internal sight1 which is adulterous1 for it turns celestial things into infernal1 and sees only opposites4 ,every man has an internal and an external mind1 thus an internal and an external sight3 with the wicked the internal mind is insane1 and the external wise2 but with the good the internal mind is wise1 and from this also the external2 and such as the mind is1 so a man in the spiritual world sees objects4 ,after this the angel1 from the power which was given him1 closed his internal sight1 and opened the external1 and led him away through gates towards the middle point of the habitations3 there he saw magnificent palaces of alabaster1 marble1 and various precious stones1 and near them porticos1 and round about pillars overlaid and encompassed with wonderful ornaments and decorations4 ,when he saw these things1 he was amazed1 and said1 ,what do ,i see8 ,i see magnificent objects in their own real magnificence1 and architectonic objects in their own real art4 ,at that instant the angel again closed his external sight1 and opened the internal1 which was evil because filthily adulterous3 hereupon he exclaimed1 ,what do ,i now see8 ,where am ,i8 ,what is become of those palaces and magnificent objects8 ,i see only confused heaps1 rubbish1 and places full of caverns4 ,but presently he was brought back again to his external sight1 and introduced into one of the palaces2 and he saw the decorations of the gates1 the windows1 the walls1 and the ceilings1 and especially of the utensils1 over and round about which were celestial forms of gold and precious stones1 which cannot be described by any language1 or delineated by any art2 for they surpassed the ideas of language and the notions of art4 ,on seeing these things he again exclaimed1 ,these are the very essence of whatever is wonderful1 such as no eye had ever seen4 ,but instantly1 as before1 his internal sight was opened1 the external being closed1 and he was asked what he then saw8 ,he replied1 ,nothing but decayed piles of bulrushes in this place1 of straw in that1 and of fire brands in a third4 ,once again he was brought into an external state of mind1 and some maidens were introduced1 who were extremely beautiful1 being images of celestial affection2 and they1 with the sweet voice of their affection1 addressed him2 and instantly1 on seeing and hearing them1 his countenance changed1 and he returned of himself into his internals1 which were adulterous2 and since such internals cannot endure any thing of celestial love1 and neither on the other hand can they be endured by celestial love1 therefore both parties vanished1--the maidens out of sight of the man1 and the man out of sight of the maidens4 ,after this1 the angel informed him concerning the ground and origin of the changes of the state of his sights2 saying1 ,i perceive that in the world1 from which you are come1 you have been two-fold1 in internals having been quite a different man from what you were in externals2 in externals you have been a civil1 moral1 and rational man2 whereas in internals1 you have been neither civil1 moral1 nor rational1 because a libertine and an adulterer3 and such men1 when they are allowed to ascend into heaven1 and are there kept in their externals1 can see the heavenly things contained therein2 but when their internals are opened1 instead of heavenly things they see infernal4 ,know1 however1 that with every one in this world1 externals are successively closed1 and internals are opened1 and thereby they are prepared for heaven or hell2 and as the evil of adultery defiles the internals of the mind above every other evil1 you must needs be conveyed down to the defiled principles of your love1 and these are in the hells1 where the caverns are full of stench arising from dunghills4 ,who cannot know from reason1 that an unchaste and lascivious principle in the world of spirits1 is impure and unclean1 and thus that nothing more pollutes and defiles a man1 and induces in him an infernal principle8 ,wherefore take heed how you boast any longer of your whoredoms1 as possessing masculine powers therein above other men4 ,i advertise you before hand1 that you will become feeble1 so that you will scarce know where your masculine power is4 ,such is the lot which awaits those who boast of their adulterous ability4 ,on hearing these words he descended1 and returned into the world of spirits1 to his former companions1 and converse with them modestly and chastely1 but not for any considerable length of time4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,adulteries ,,and ,,their ,,genera ,,and ,,degrees4 #dgh4 ,none can know that there is any evil in adultery1 who judge of it only from its externals2 for in these it resembles marriage4 ,such external judges1 when they hear of internals1 and are told that externals thence derive their good or their evil1 say with themselves1 ,what are internals8 ,who sees them8 ,is not this climbing above the sphere of every one's intelligence8 ,such persons are like those who accept all pretended good as genuine voluntary good1 and who decide upon a man's wisdom from the elegance of his conversation2 or who respect the man himself from the richness of his dress and the magnificence of his equipage1 and not from his internal habit1 which is that of judgement grounded in the affection of good4 ,this also is like judging of the fruit of a tree1 and of any other eatable thing1 from the sight and touch only1 and not of its goodness from a knowledge of its flavor3 such is the conduct of all those who are unwilling to perceive any thing respecting man's internal4 ,hence comes the wild infatuation of many at this day1 who see no evil in adulteries1 yea1 who unite marriages with them in the same chamber1 that is1 who make them altogether alike2 and this only on account of their apparent resemblance in externals4 ,that this is the case1 was shewn me by this experimental proof3 on a certain time1 the angels assembled from ,europe some hundreds of those who were distinguished for their genius1 their erudition1 and their wisdom1 and questioned them concerning the distinction between marriage and adultery1 and in treated them to consult the rational powers of their understandings3 and after consultation1 all1 except ten1 replied1 that the judicial law constitutes the only distinction1 for the sake of some advantage2 which distinction may indeed be known1 but still be accommodated by civil prudence4 ,they were next asked1 ,whether they saw any good in marriage1 and any evil in adultery8 ,they returned for answer1 that they did not see any rational evil and good4 ,being questioned whether they saw any sin in it8 they said1 ,where is the sin8 ,is not the act alike8 ,at these answers the angels were amazed1 and exclaimed1 ,oh1 the gross stupidity of the age6 ,who can measure its quality and quantity8 ,on hearing this exclamation1 the hundreds of the wise ones turned themselves1 and said one among another with loud laughter1 ,is this gross stupidity8 ,is there any wisdom that can bring conviction that to love another person's wife merits eternal damnation8 ,but that adultery is spiritual evil1 and thence moral and civil evil1 and diametrically contrary to the wisdom of reason2 also that the love of adultery is from hell and returns to hell1 and the love of marriage is from heaven and returns to heaven1 has been demonstrated in the first chapter of this part1 concerning the opposition of adulterous and conjugial love4 ,but since all evils1 like all goods1 partake of latitude and altitude1 and according to latitude have their genera1 and according to altitude their degrees1 therefore1 in order that adulteries may be known as to each dimension1 they shall first be arranged into their genera1 and afterwards into their degrees2 and this shall be done in the following series3 ,i4 ,there are three genera of adulteries1--simple1 duplicate1 and triplicate4 ,,ii4 ,simple adultery is that of an unmarried man with another's wife1 or of an unmarried woman with another's husband4 ,,iii4 ,duplicate adultery is that of a husband with another's wife1 or of a wife with another's husband4 ,,iv4 ,triplicate adultery is with relations by blood4 ,v4 ,there are four degrees of adulteries1 according to which they have their predications1 their charges of blame1 and after death their imputations4 ,,vi4 ,adulteries of the first degree are adulteries of ignorance1 which are committed by those who cannot as yet1 or cannot at all1 consult the understanding1 and thence check them4 ,,vii4 ,in such cases adulteries are mild4 ,,viii4 ,adulteries of the second degree are adulteries of lust1 which are committed by those who indeed are able to consult the understanding1 but from accidental causes at the moment are not able4 ,,ix4 ,adulteries committed by such persons are imputatory1 according as the understanding afterwards favors them or not4 ,x4 ,adulteries of the third degree are adulteries of the reason1 which are committed by those who with the understanding confirm themselves in the persuasion that they are not evils of sin4 ,,xi4 ,the adulteries committed by such persons are grievous1 and are imputed to them according to confirmations4 ,,xii4 ,adulteries of the fourth degree are adulteries of the will1 which are committed by those who make them lawful and pleasing1 and who do not think them of importance enough1 to consult the understanding respecting them4 ,,xiii4 ,the adulteries committed by these persons are exceedingly grievous1 and are imputed to them as evils of purpose1 and remain with them as guilt4 ,,xiv4 ,adulteries of the third and fourth degrees are evils of sin1 according to the quantity and quality of understanding and will in them1 whether they are actually committed or not4 ,,xv4 4,adulteries grounded in purpose of the will1 and adulteries grounded in confirmation of the understanding render men natural1 sensual1 and corporeal4 ,,xvi4 ,and this to such a degree1 that at length they reject from themselves all things of the church and of religion4 ,,xvii4 ,nevertheless they have the powers of human rationality like other men4 ,,xviii4 ,but they use that rationality while they are in externals1 but abuse it while in their internals4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #dgi4 ,i4 ,,there ,,are ,,three ,,genera ,,of ,,adulteries1--,,simple1 ,,duplicate1 ,,and ,,triplicate4 ,the ,creator of the universe has distinguished all the things which he has created into genera1 and each genus into species1 and has distinguished each species1 and each distinction in like manner1 and so forth1 to the end that an image of what is infinite may exist in a perpetual variety of qualities4 ,thus the ,creator of the universe has distinguished goods and their truths1 and in like manner evils and their falses1 after they arose4 ,that he has distinguished all things in the spiritual world into genera1 species1 and differences1 and has collected together into heaven all goods and truths1 and into hell all evils and falses1 and has arranged the latter in an order diametrically opposite to the former1 may appear from what is explained in a work concerning ,,heaven ,,and ,,hell1 published in ,london in the year #ageh4 ,that in the natural world he has also thus distinguished and does distinguish goods and truths1 and likewise evils and falses1 appertaining to men1 and thereby men themselves1 may be known from their lot after death1 in that the good enter into heaven1 and the evil into hell4 ,now1 since all things relating to good1 and all things relating to evil1 are distinguished into genera1 species1 and so forth1 therefore marriages are distinguished into the same1 and so are their opposites1 which are adulteries4 #dhj4 ,,ii4 ,,simple ,,adultery ,,is ,,that ,,of ,,an ,,unmarried ,,man ,,with ,,another',s ,,wife1 ,,or ,,an ,,unmarried ,,woman ,,with ,,another',s ,,husband4 ,by adultery here and in the following pages we mean the adultery which is opposite to marriage2 it is opposite because it violates the covenant of life contracted between married partners3 it rends asunder their love1 and defiles it1 and closes the union which was begun at the time of betrothing1 and strengthened in the beginning of marriage3 for the conjugial love of one man with one wife1 after engagement and covenant1 unites their souls4 ,adultery does not dissolve this union1 because it cannot be dissolved2 but it closes it1 as he that stops up a fountain at its source1 and thence obstructs its stream1 and fills the cistern with filthy and stinking waters3 in like manner conjugial love1 the origin of which is a union of souls1 is daubed with mud and covered by adultery2 and when it is so daubed with mud there arises from beneath the love of adultery2 and as this love increases1 it becomes fleshly1 and rises in insurrection against conjugial love1 and destroys it4 ,hence comes the opposition of adultery and marriage4 #dha4 ,that it may be further known how gross is the stupidity of this age1 in that those who have the reputation of wisdom do not see any sin in adultery1 as was discovered by the angels 7see just above1 n4 #dgh71 ,i will here add the following ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,there were certain spirits who1 from a habit they had acquired in the life of the body1 infested me with peculiar cunning1 and this they did by a sottish and as it were waving influx1 such as is usual with well-disposed spirits2 but ,i perceived that they employed craftiness and similar means1 to the intent that they might engage attention and deceive4 ,at length ,i entered into conversation with one of them who1 it was told me1 had while he lived in the world been the general of an army3 and as ,i perceived that in the ideas of his thought there was a lascivious principle1 ,i conversed with him by representatives in the spiritual language which fully expresses what is intended to be said1 and even several things in a moment4 ,he said that1 in the life of the body in the former world1 he had made no account of adulteries3 but it was granted me to tell him1 that adulteries are wicked1 although from the delight attending them1 and from the persuasion thence resulting1 they appear to the adulterer as not wicked but allowable2 which also he might know from this consideration1 that marriages are the seminaries of the human race1 and thence also the seminaries of the heavenly kingdom1 and therefore that they ought not to be violated1 but to be accounted holy2 also from this consideration1 that he ought know1 as being in the spiritual world1 and in a state of perception1 that conjugial love descends from the ,lord through heaven1 and that from that love1 as a parent1 is derived mutual love1 which is the main support of heaven2 and further from this consideration1 that adulterers1 whenever they only approach the heavenly societies1 are made sensible of their own stench1 and throw themselves headlong thence towards hell3 at least he might know1 that to violate marriages is contrary to the divine laws1 to the civil laws of all kingdoms1 also to the genuine light of reason1 and thereby to the right of nations1 because contrary to order both divine and human2 not to mention other considerations4 ,but he replied1 that he entertained no such thoughts in the former life3 he wished to reason whether the case was so or not2 but he was told that truth does not admit of reasonings1 since they favor the delights of the flesh against those of the spirit1 the quality of which latter delights he was ignorant of2 and that he ought first to think about the things which ,i had told him1 because they are true2 or to think from the well-known maxim1 that no one should do to another what he is unwilling another should do to him2 and thus1 if any one had in such a manner violated his wife1 whom he had loved1 as is the case in the beginning of every marriage1 and he had then been in a state of wrath1 and had spoken from that state1 whether he himself also would not then have detested adulteries1 and being a man of strong parts1 would not have confirmed himself against them more than other men1 even to condemning them to hell2 and being the general of an army1 and having brave companions1 whether he would not1 in order to prevent disgrace1 either have put the adulterer to death1 or have driven the adulteress from his house4 #dhb4 ,,iii4 ,,duplicate ,,adultery ,,is ,,that ,,of ,a ,,husband ,,with ,,another',s ,,wife1 ,,or ,,of ,a ,,wife ,,with ,,another',s ,,husband4 ,this adultery is called duplicate1 because it is committed by two1 and on each side the marriage-covenant is violated2 wherefore also it is twofold more grievous than the former4 ,it was said above1 n4 #dhj1 that the conjugial love of one man with one wife1 after engagement and covenant1 unites their souls1 and that such union is that very love in its origin2 and that this origin is closed and stopped up by adultery1 as the source and stream of a fountain4 ,that the souls of two unite themselves together1 when love to the sex is confined to one of the sex1 which is the case when a maiden engages herself wholly to a youth1 and on the other hand a youth engages himself wholly to a maiden1 is clearly manifest from this consideration1 that the lives of both unite themselves1 consequently their souls1 because souls are the first principles of life4 ,this union of souls can only take place in monogamical marriages1 or those of one man with one wife1 but not in polygamical marriages1 or those of one man with several wives2 because in the latter case the love is divided1 in the former it is united4 ,the reason why conjugial love in its supreme abode is spiritual1 holy1 and pure1 is because the soul of every man from its origin is celestial2 wherefore it receives influx immediately from the ,lord1 for it receives from him the marriage of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth2 and this influx makes him a man1 and distinguishes him from the beasts4 ,from this union of souls1 conjugial love1 which is there in its spiritual sanctity and purity1 flows down into the life of the whole body1 and fills with blessed delights1 so long as its channel remains open2 which is the case with those who are made spiritual by the ,lord4 ,that nothing but adultery closes and stops up this abode of conjugial love1 thus its origin or fountain and its channel1 is evident from the ,lord's words1 that it is not lawful to put away a wife and marry another1 except on account of adultery3 ,matt4 xix4 #c-i2 and also from what is said in the same passage1 that he that marries her that is put away commits adultery1 verse #i4 ,when therefore1 as was said above1 that pure and holy fountain is stopped up1 it is clogged about with filthiness of sundry kinds1 as a jewel with ordure1 or bread with vomit2 which things are altogether opposite to the purity and sanctity of that fountain1 or of conjugial love3 from which opposition comes conjugial cold1 and according to this cold is the lascivious voluptuousness of adulterous love1 which consumes itself of its own accord4 ,the reason why this is an evil of sin is because the holy principle is covered and thereby its channel into the body is obstructed1 and in the place thereof a profane principle succeeds1 and its channel into the body is opened1 whence a man from celestial becomes infernal4 #dhc4 ,to the above ,i will add some particulars from the spiritual world1 which are worthy to be recorded4 ,i have been informed in that world1 that some married men are inflamed with the lust of committing whoredom with maidens or virgins2 some with those who are not maidens but harlots2 some with married women or wives2 some with women of the above description who are of noble descent2 and some with such as are not of noble descent3 that this is the case1 was confirmed to me by several instances from the various kingdoms in that world4 ,while ,i was meditating concerning the variety of such lusts1 ,i asked whether there are any who find all their delight with the wives of others1 and none with unmarried women8 ,wherefore to convince me that there are some such spirits1 several were brought to me from a certain kingdom1 who were obliged to speak according to their libidinous principles4 ,these declared that it was1 and still is their sole pleasure and delight to commit whoredom with the wives of others2 and that they look out for such as are beautiful1 and hire them for themselves at a great price according to their wealth1 and in general bargain about the price with the wife alone4 ,i asked1 why they do not hire for themselves unmarried women8 ,they said1 that they consider this would be cheap and worthless1 and therefore undelightful to them4 ,i asked also1 whether those wives afterwards return to their husbands and live with them8 ,they replied1 that they either do not return1 or they return cold1 having become courtezans4 ,afterwards ,i asked them seriously1 whether they ever thought1 or now think1 that this is twofold adultery1 because they commit this at the time they have wives of their own1 and that such adultery deprives a man of all spiritual good8 ,but at this several who were present laughed1 saying1 ,what is spiritual good8 ,nevertheless ,i was still urgent1 and said1 ,what is more detestable than for a man to mix his soul with the soul of a husband in his wife8 ,do you not know1 that the soul of a man is in his seed8 ,hereupon they turned themselves away and muttered1 ,what harm can this do her8 ,at length ,i said1 ,although you do not fear divine laws1 do you not fear civil laws8 ,they replied1 ,no1 we only fear certain of the ecclesiastical order2 but we conceal this in their presence2 and if we cannot conceal it1 we keep upon good terms with them4 ,i afterwards saw the former divided into companies1 and some of the latter cast into hell4 #dhd4 ,,iv4 ,,triplicate ,,adultery ,,is ,,with ,,relations ,,by ,,blood4 ,this adultery is called triplicate1 because it is threefold more grievous than the two former4 ,the relations1 or remains of the flesh1 which are not to be approached1 are mentioned in ,levit4 xviii4 #f-ah4 ,there are internal and external reasons why these adulteries are threefold more grievous than the two above-mentioned3 the internal reasons are grounded in the correspondence of those adulteries with the violation of spiritual marriage1 which is that of the ,lord and the church1 and thence of good and truth2 and the external reasons are for the sake of guards1 to prevent a man's becoming a beast4 ,we have no leisure1 however1 to proceed to the further disclosure of these reasons4 #dhe4 ,v4 ,,there ,,are ,,four ,,degrees ,,of ,,adulteries1 ,,according ,,to ,,which ,,they ,,have ,,their ,,predications1 ,,their ,,charges ,,of ,,blame1 ,,and ,,after ,,death ,,their ,,imputations4 ,these degrees are not genera1 but enter into each genus1 and cause its distinctions between more and less evil or good2 in the present case1 deciding whether adultery of every genus from the nature of the circumstances and contingencies1 is to be considered milder or more grievous4 ,that circumstances and contingencies vary every thing is well known4 ,nevertheless things are considered in one way by a man from his rational light1 in another by a judge from the law1 and in another by the ,lord from the state of a man's mind3 wherefore we mention predications1 charges of blame1 and after death imputations2 for predications are made by a man according to his rational light1 charges of blame are made by a judge according to the law1 and imputations are made by the ,lord according to the state of the man's mind4 ,that these three differ exceedingly from each other1 may be seen without explanation3 for a man1 from rational conviction according to circumstances and contingencies1 may acquit a person1 whom a judge1 when he sits in judgement1 cannot acquit from the law3 and also a judge may acquit a person1 who after death is condemned4 ,the reason of this is1 because a judge gives sentence according to the actions done1 whereas after death every one is judged according to the intentions of the will and thence of the understanding1 and according to the confirmations of the understanding and thence of the will4 ,these intentions and confirmations a judge does not see2 nevertheless each judgement is just2 the one for the sake of the good of civil society1 the other for the sake of the good of heavenly society4 #dhf4 ,,vi4 ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,first ,,degree ,,are ,,adulteries ,,of ,,ignorance1 ,,which ,,are ,,committed ,,by ,,those ,,who ,,cannot ,,as ,,yet1 ,,or ,,cannot ,,at ,,all1 ,,consult ,,the ,,understanding1 ,,and ,,thence ,,check ,,them4 ,all evils1 and thus also all adulteries1 viewed in themselves1 are at once of the internal and the external man2 the internal intends them1 and the external does them2 such therefore as the internal man is in the deeds done by the external1 such are the deeds viewed in themselves3 but since the internal man with his intention1 does not appear before man1 every one must be judged in a human court from deeds and words according to the law in force and its provisions3 the interior sense of the law is also to be regarded by the judge4 ,but to illustrate the case by example3 if adultery be committed by a youth1 who does not as yet know that adultery is a greater evil than fornication2 if the like be committed by a very simple man2 if it be committed by a person who is deprived by disease of the full powers of judgement2 or by a person1 as is sometimes the case1 who is delirious by fits1 and is at the time in a state of actual delirium2 yet further1 if it be committed in a fit of insane drunkenness1 and so forth1 it is evident1 that in such cases1 the internal man1 or mind1 is not present in the external1 scarcely any otherwise than in an irrational person4 ,adulteries in these instances are predicated by a rational man according to the above circumstances2 nevertheless the perpetrator is charged with blame by the same rational man as a judge1 and is punished by the law2 but after death those adulteries are imputed according to the presence1 quality1 and faculty of understanding in the will of the perpetrators4 #dhg4 ,,vii4 ,,in ,,such ,,cases ,,adulteries ,,are ,,mild4 ,this is manifest from what was said just above1 n4 #dhf1 without further confirmation2 for it is well known that the quality of every deed and in general the quality of every thing1 depends upon circumstances1 and which mitigate or aggravate it2 but adulteries of this degree are mild at the first times of their commission2 and also remain mild so far as the offending party of either sex1 in the future course of life1 abstains from them for these reasons2--because they are evils against ,god1 or against the neighbour1 or against the goods of the state1 and because1 in consequence of their being such evils1 they are evils against reason2 but on the other hand1 if they are not abstained from for one of the abovementioned reasons1 they are reckoned amongst grievous adulteries2 thus it is according to the divine law1 ,ezek4 xviii1 #ba1 #bb1 #bd1 and in other places3 but they cannot1 from the above circumstances1 be pronounced either blameless or culpable1 or be predicated and judged as mild or grievous1 because they do not appear before man1 neither are they within the province of his judgement2 wherefore it is meant1 that after death they are so accounted or imputed4 #dhh4 ,,viii4 ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,second ,,degree ,,are ,,adulteries ,,of ,,lust1 ,,which ,,are ,,committed ,,by ,,those ,,who ,,indeed ,,are ,,able ,,to ,,consult ,,the ,,understanding1 ,,but ,,from ,,accidental ,,causes ,,at ,,the ,,moment ,,are ,,not ,,able4 ,there are two things which1 in the beginning1 with every man who from natural is made spiritual1 are at strife together1 which are commonly called the spirit and the flesh2 and since the love of marriage is of the spirit1 and the love of adultery is of the flesh1 in such case there is also a combat between those loves4 ,if the love of marriage conquers1 it gains dominion over and subjugates the love of adultery1 which is effected by its removal2 but if it happens that the lust of the flesh is excited to a heat greater than what the spirit can control from reason1 it follows that the state is inverted1 and the heat of lust infuses allurements into the spirit1 to such a degree1 that it is no longer master of its reason1 and thence of itself3 this is meant by adulteries of the second degree1 which are committed by those who indeed are able to consult the understanding1 but by reason of accidental causes at the moment are not able4 ,but the matter may be illustrated by particular cases2 as in case a meretricious wife by her craftiness captivates a man's mind 7animum71 enticing him into her chamber1 and inflaming his passions to such a degree as to leave him no longer master of his judgement2 and especially if1 at the same time1 she also threatens to expose him if he does not consent3 in like manner1 in case any meretricious wife is skilled in deceitful allurements1 or by powerful stimulants inflames the man to such a degree1 that the raging lust of the flesh deprives the understanding of the free use of reason3 in like manner1 in case a man1 by powerful enticements1 so far works upon another's wife1 as to leave her no longer mistress of herself1 by reason of the fire kindled in her will2 besides other like cases4 ,that these and similar accidental circumstances lessen the grievousness of adultery1 and give a milder turn to the predications of the blame thereof in favor of the party seduced1 is agreeable to the dictates and conclusions of reason4 ,the imputation of this degree of adultery comes next to be treated of4 #dhi4 ,,ix4 ,,adulteries ,,committed ,,by ,,such ,,persons ,,are ,,imputatory1 ,,according ,,as ,,the ,,understanding ,,afterwards ,,favors ,,them ,,or ,,not4 ,so far as the understanding favors evils1 so far a man appropriates them to himself and makes them his own4 ,favor implies consent2 and consent induces in the mind a state of the love of them3 the case is the same with adulteries1 which in the beginning were committed without the consent of the understanding1 and are favored3 the contrary comes to pass if they are not favored4 ,the reason of this is1 because evils or adulteries1 which are committed in the blindness of the understanding1 are committed from the concupiscence of the body2 and such evils or adulteries have a near resemblance to the instincts of beasts3 with man 7homo7 indeed the understanding is present1 while they are committing1 but in a passive or dead potency and not in active and living potency4 ,from these considerations it follows of course1 that such things are not imputed1 except so far as they are afterwards favored or not4 ,by imputation we here mean accusation after death1 and hence judication1 which takes place according to the state of a man's spirit3 but we do not mean inculpation by a man before a judge2 for this does not take place according to the state of a man's spirit1 but of his body in the deed2 and unless there was a difference herein1 those would be acquitted after death who are acquitted in the world1 and those would be condemned who are condemned in the world2 and thus the latter would be without any hope of salvation4 #dij4 ,x4 ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,third ,,degree ,,are ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,reason1 ,,which ,,are ,,committed ,,by ,,those ,,who ,,with ,,the ,,understanding ,,confirm ,,themselves ,,in ,,the ,,persuasion ,,that ,,they ,,are ,,not ,,evils ,,of ,,sin4 ,every man knows that there exist such principles as the will and the understanding2 for in his common speaking he says1 ,this ,i will1 and this ,i understand2 but still he does not distinguish them1 but makes the one the same as the other2 because he only reflects upon the things which belong to the thought grounded in the understanding1 and not upon those which belong to the love grounded in the will2 for the latter do not appear in light as the former4 ,nevertheless1 he that does not distinguish between the will and the understanding1 cannot distinguish between evils and goods1 and consequently he must remain in entire ignorance concerning the blame of sin4 ,but who does not know that good and truth are two distinct principles1 like love and wisdom8 and who cannot hence conclude1 while he is in rational illumination1 that there are two faculties in man1 which distinctly receive and appropriate to themselves those principles1 and that the one is the will and the other the understanding1 by reason that what the will receives and reproduces is called good1 and what the understanding receives is called truth2 for what the will loves and does1 is called truth1 and what the understanding perceives and thinks1 is called truth8 ,now as the marriage of good and truth was treated of in the first part of this work1 and in the same place several considerations were adduced concerning the will and the understanding1 and the various attributes and predicates of each1 which1 as ,i imagine1 are also perceived by those who had not thought at all distinctly concerning the understanding and the will1 7for human reason is such1 that it understands truths from the light thereof1 although it has not heretofore distinguished them72 therefore1 in order that the distinctions of the understanding and the will may be more clearly perceived1 ,i will here mention some particulars on the subject1 that it may be known what is the quality of adulteries of the reason and the understanding1 and afterwards what is the quality of adulteries of the will4 ,the following points may serve to illustrate the subject3 #a4 ,that the will of itself does nothing2 but whatever it does1 it does by the understanding4 #b4 ,on the other hand also1 that the understanding alone of itself does nothing2 but whatever it does1 it does from the will4 #c4 ,that the will flows into the understanding but not the understanding into the will2 yet that the understanding teaches what is good and evil1 and consults with the will1 that out of those two principles it may choose and do what is pleasing to it4 #d4 ,that after this there is effected a twofold conjunction2 one1 in which the will acts from within1 and the understanding from without2 the other in which the understanding acts from within1 and the will from without3 thus are distinguished the adulteries of the reason1 which are here treated of1 from the adulteries of the will1 which are next to be treated of4 ,they are distinguished1 because one is more grievous than the other2 for the adultery of the reason is less grievous than that of the will2 because in adultery of the reason1 the understanding acts from within1 and the will from without2 whereas in adultery of the will1 the will acts from within1 and the understanding from without2 and the will is the man himself1 and the understanding is the man as grounded in the will2 and that which acts within has dominion over that which acts without4 #dia4 ,,xi4 ,,the ,,adulteries ,,committed ,,by ,,such ,,persons ,,are ,,grievous1 ,,and ,,are ,,imputed ,,to ,,them ,,according ,,to ,,confirmations4 ,it is the understanding alone that confirms1 and when it confirms1 it engages the will to its party1 and sets it about itself1 and thus compels it to compliance4 ,confirmations are affected by reasonings1 which the mind seizes for its use1 deriving them either from its superior region or from its inferior2 if from the superior region1 which communicates with heaven1 it confirms marriages and condemns adulteries2 but if from the inferior region1 which communicates with the world1 it confirms adulteries and makes light of marriages4 ,every one can confirm evil just as well as good2 in like manner what is false and what is true2 and the confirmation of evil is perceived with more delight than the confirmation of good1 and the confirmation of what is false appears with greater lucidity than the confirmation of what is true4 ,the reason of this is1 because the confirmation of what is evil and false derives its reasonings from the delights1 the pleasures1 the appearances1 and the fallacies of the bodily senses2 whereas the confirmation of what is good and true derives its reasons from the region above the sensual principles of the body4 ,now1 since evils and falses can be confirmed just as well as goods and truths1 and since the confirming understanding draws the will to its party1 and the will together with the understanding forms the mind1 it follows that the form of the human mind is according to confirmations1 being turned to heaven if its confirmations are in favor of marriage1 but to hell if they are in favor of adulteries2 and such as the form of a man's mind is such is his spirit2 consequently such is the man4 ,from these considerations then it is evident1 that adulteries of this degree after death are imputed according to confirmations4 #dib4 ,,xii4 ,,the ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,fourth ,,degree ,,are ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,will ,,which ,,are ,,committed ,,by ,,those ,,who ,,make ,,them ,,lawful ,,and ,,pleasing1 ,,and ,,who ,,do ,,not ,,think ,,them ,,of ,,importance ,,enough ,,to ,,consult ,,the ,,understanding ,,respecting ,,them4 ,these adulteries are distinguished from the foregoing from their origins4 ,the origin of these adulteries is from the depraved will connate to man1 or from hereditary evil1 which a man blindly obeys after he is capable of exercising his own judgement1 not at all considering whether they are evils or not2 wherefore it is said1 that he does not think them of importance enough to consult the understanding respecting them3 but the origin of the adulteries which are called adulteries of reason1 is from a perverse understanding2 and these adulteries are committed by those who confirm themselves in the persuasion that they are not evils of sin4 ,with the latter adulterers1 the understanding is the principal agent2 with the former the will4 ,the distinctions in these two cases do not appear to any man in the natural world2 but they appear plainly to the angels in the spiritual world4 ,in the latter world all are in general distinguished according to the evils which originate in the will and in the understanding1 and which are accepted and appropriated2 they are also separated in hell according to those evils3 those who are in evil from the understanding1 dwell there in front1 and are called satans2 but those who are in evil from the will1 dwell at the back1 and are called devils4 ,it is on account of this universal distinction that mention is made in the ,word of satan and the devil4 ,with those wicked ones1 and also those adulterers1 who are called satans1 the understanding is the principal agent2 but with those who are called devils1 the will is the principal agent4 ,it is not however possible to explain these distinctions1 so as to render them visible to the understanding1 unless the distinctions of the will and the understanding be first known2 and also unless a description be given of the formation of the mind from the will by the understanding1 and of its formation from the understanding by the will4 ,the knowledge of these subjects is necessary1 before the distinctions above-mentioned can be seen by reason2 but to express this knowledge on paper would require a volume4 #dic4 ,,xiii4 ,,the ,,adulteries ,,committed ,,by ,,these ,,persons ,,are ,,exceedingly ,,grievous1 ,,and ,,are ,,imputed ,,to ,,them ,,as ,,evils ,,of ,,purpose1 ,,and ,,remain ,,in ,,them ,,as ,,guilt4 ,the reason why they are exceedingly grievous1 and more grievous than the foregoing1 is1 because in them the will is the principal agent1 whereas in the foregoing the understanding is the principal agent1 and a man's life essentially is his will1 and formally is his understanding3 the reason of this is1 because the will acts in unity with the love1 and love is the essence of a man's life1 and forms itself in the understanding by such things as are in agreement with it3 wherefore the understanding viewed in itself is nothing but a form of the will2 and since love is of the will1 and wisdom of the understanding1 therefore wisdom is nothing but a form of love2 in like manner truth is nothing but a form of good4 ,that which flows from the very essence of a man's life1 thus which flows from his will or his love1 is principally called purpose2 but that which flows from the form of his life1 thus from the understanding and its thought is called intention4 ,guilt also is principally predicated of the will3 hence comes the common observation1 that everyone has the guilt of evil from inheritance1 but that the evil is from the man4 ,hence these adulteries of the fourth degree are imputed as evils of purpose1 and remain in as guilt4 #did4 ,,xiv4 ,,adulteries ,,of ,,the ,,third ,,and ,,fourth ,,degrees ,,are ,,evils ,,of ,,sin1 ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,quantity ,,and ,,quality ,,of ,,understanding ,,and ,,will ,,in ,,them1 ,,whether ,,they ,,are ,,actually ,,committed ,,or ,,not4 ,that adulteries of the reason or the understanding1 which are of the third degree1 and adulteries of the will1 which are of the fourth1 are grievous1 consequently evils of sin1 according to the quality of the understanding and of the will in them1 may be seen from the comment above concerning them1 n4 #dij-dic4 ,the reason of this is1 because a man 7homo7 is a man by virtue of the will and the understanding2 for from these two principles exist not only all the things which are done in the mind1 but also all those which are done in the body4 ,who does not know1 that the body does not act of itself1 but the will by the body8 also that the mouth does not speak of itself1 but the thought by the mouth8 ,wherefore if the will were to be taken away1 action would instantly be at a stand1 and if thought were to be taken away1 the speech of the mouth would instantly cease4 ,hence it is clearly manifest1 that adulteries which are actually committed1 are grievous according to the quantity and quality of the understanding of the will in them4 ,that they are in like manner grievous1 if the same are not actually committed1 appears from the ,lord's words3 ,it was said by them of old time1 ,thou shalt not commit adultery2 but ,i say unto you1 that if any one hath looked at another's woman1 to lust after her1 he hath already committed adultery with her in heart2 ,matt4 v4 #bg1 #bh3 to commit adultery in the heart is to commit it in the will4 ,there are many reasons which operate to prevent an adulterer's being an adulterer in act1 while he is still so in will and understanding3 for there are some who abstain from adulteries as to act through fear of the civil law and its penalties2 through fear of the loss of reputation and thence of honor2 through fear of disease thence arising2 through fear of quarrels at home on the part of a wife1 and the consequent loss of tranquillity2 through fear of revenge on the part of the husband and the next of kin2 thus also through fear of being beaten by the servants2 through poverty or avarice2 through imbecility arising from disease1 from abuse1 from age1 or from impotence1 and consequent shame3 if any one restrains himself from actual adulteries1 under the influence of these and like reasons1 and yet favors them in his will and understanding1 he is still an adulterer3 for he believes nevertheless that they are not sins1 and he does not make them unlawful before ,god in his spirit2 and thus he commits them in spirit1 although not in body before the world2 wherefore after death1 when he becomes a spirit1 he speaks openly in favor of them4 #die4 ,,xv4 ,,adulteries ,,grounded ,,in ,,purpose ,,of ,,the ,,will1 ,,and ,,adulteries ,,grounded ,,in ,,confirmation ,,of ,,the ,,understanding1 ,,render ,,men ,,natural1 ,,sensual1 ,,and ,,corporeal4 ,a man 7homo7 is a man1 and is distinguished from the beasts1 by this circumstance1 that his mind is distinguished into three regions1 as many as the heavens are distinguished into3 and that he is capable of being elevated out of the lowest region into the next above it1 and also from this into the highest1 and thus of becoming an angel of one heaven1 and even of the third3 for this end1 there has been given to man a faculty of elevating the understanding thitherto2 but if the love of his will is not elevated at the same time1 he does not become spiritual1 but remains natural3 nevertheless he retains the faculty of elevating the understanding4 ,the reason why he retains this faculty is1 that he may be reformed2 for he is reformed by the understanding3 and this is effected by the knowledges of good and truth1 and by a rational intuition grounded therein1 if he views those knowledges rationally1 and lives according to them1 then the love of the will is elevated at the same time1 and in that degree the human principle is perfected1 and the man becomes more and more a man4 ,it is otherwise if he does not live according to the knowledges of good and truth3 in this case the love of his will remains natural1 and his understanding by turns becomes spiritual3 for it raises itself upwards alternately1 like an eagle1 and looks down upon what is of its love beneath2 and when it sees this1 it flies down to it1 and conjoins itself with it3 if therefore it loves the concupiscences of the flesh1 it lets itself down to these from its height1 and in conjunction with them1 derives delight to itself from their delights2 and again in quest of reputation1 that it may be believed wise1 it lifts itself on high1 and thus rises and sinks by turns1 as was just now observed4 ,the reason why adulterers of the third and fourth degree1 who are such as from purpose of the will and continuation of the understanding have made themselves adulterers1 are absolutely natural1 and progressively become sensual and corporeal1 is1 because they have immersed the love of their will1 and together with it their understanding1 in the impurities of adulterous love1 and are delighted therewith1 as unclean birds and beasts are with stinking and dunghill filth as with dainties and delicacies3 for the effluvia arising from their flesh fill the recesses of the mind with their dregs1 and cause that the will1 perceives nothing more dainty and desirable4 ,it is these who after death become corporeal spirits1 and from whom flow the unclean things of hell and the church1 spoken of above n4 #dcj1 #dca4 #dif4 ,there are three degrees of the natural man2 in the first degree are those who love only the world1 placing their heart on wealth2 these are properly meant by the natural3 in the second degree are those who love only the delights of the senses1 placing their heart on every kind of luxury and pleasure2 these are properly meant by the sensual3 in the third degree are those who love only themselves1 placing their heart on the quest of honor2 these are properly meant by the corporeal1 because they immerse all things of the will1 and consequently of the understanding1 in the body1 and look backward at themselves from others1 and love only what belongs to themselves3 but the sensual immerse all things of the will and consequently of the understanding in the allurements and fallacies of the senses1 indulging in these alone2 whereas the natural pour forth into the world all things of the will and understanding1 covetously and fraudulently acquiring wealth1 and regarding no other use therein and thence but that of possession4 ,the above-mentioned adulteries change men in these degenerate degrees1 one into this1 another into that1 each according to his favorite taste for what is pleasurable1 in which taste his peculiar genius is grounded4 #dig4 ,,xvi4 ,,and ,,this ,,to ,,such ,a ,,degree ,,that ,,at ,,length ,,they ,,reject ,,from ,,themselves ,,all ,,things ,,of ,,the ,,church ,,and ,,of ,,religion4 ,the reason why determined and continued adulterers reject from themselves all things of the church and religion is1 because the love of marriage and the love of adultery are opposite1 n4 #dbe1 and the love of marriage acts in unity with the church and religion2 see n4 #acj1 and throughout the former part2 hence the love of adultery1 as being opposite1 acts in unity with those things which are contrary to the church4 ,a further reason why those adulterers reject from themselves all things of the church and of religion1 is1 because the love of marriage and the love of adultery are opposite1 as the marriage of good and truth is opposite to the connection of evil and the false3 see n4 #dbg1 #dbh2 and the marriage of good and truth constitutes the church1 whereas the connection of evil and the false constitutes the anti-church4 ,a further reason why those adulterers reject from themselves all things of the church and of religion1 is because the love of marriage and the love of adultery are as opposite as heaven and hell1 n4 #dbi2 and in heaven there is the love of all things of the church1 whereas in hell there is hatred against them4 ,a further reason why those adulterers reject from themselves all things of the church and of religion1 is1 because1 their delights commence from the flesh1 and are of the flesh also in the spirit1 n4 #ddj1 #dda2 and the flesh is contrary to the spirit1 that is1 contrary to the spiritual things of the church3 hence also the delights of adulterous love are called the pleasures of insanity4 ,if you desire demonstration in this case1 go1 ,i pray1 to those whom you know to be such adulterers1 and ask them privately1 what they think concerning ,god1 the church1 and eternal life1 and you will hear4 ,the genuine reason is1 because as conjugial love opens the interiors of the mind2 and thereby elevates them above the sensual principles of the body1 even into the light and heat of heaven1 so1 on the other hand1 the love of adultery closes the interiors of the mind1 and thrusts down the mind itself1 as to its will1 into the body1 even into all things which its flesh lusts after2 and the deeper it is so thrust down1 the further it is removed and set at a distance from heaven4 #dih4 ,,xvii4 ,,nevertheless ,,they ,,have ,,the ,,powers ,,of ,,human ,,rationality ,,like ,,other ,,men4 ,that the natural man1 the sensual1 and the corporeal1 is equally rational1 in regard to understanding1 as the spiritual man1 has been proved to me from satans and devils arising by leave out of hell1 and conversing with angelic spirits in the world of spirits2 concerning whom1 see the ,,memorable ,,relations throughout2 but as the love of the will makes the man1 and this love draws the understanding into consent1 therefore such are not rational except in a state removed from the love of the will2 when they return again into this love1 they are more dreadfully insane than wild beasts4 ,but a man1 without the faculty of elevating the understanding above the love of the will1 would not be a man but a beast2 for a beast does not enjoy that faculty2 consequently neither would he be able to choose any thing1 and from choice to do what is good and expedient1 and thus he would not be in a capacity to be reformed1 and to be led to heaven1 and to live for ever4 ,hence it is1 that determined and confirmed adulterers1 although they are merely natural1 sensual1 and corporeal1 still enjoy1 like other men1 the powers of understanding or rationality3 but when they are in the lust of adultery1 and think and speak from that lust concerning it1 they do not enjoy that rationality2 because then the flesh acts on the spirit1 and not the spirit on the flesh4 ,it is however to be observed1 that these at length after death become stupid2 not that the faculty of growing wise is taken away from them1 but that they are unwilling to grow wise1 because wisdom is undelightful to them4 #dii4 ,,xviii4 ,,but ,,they ,,use ,,that ,,rationality ,,while ,,they ,,are ,,in ,,externals1 ,,but ,,abuse ,,it ,,while ,,they ,,are ,,in ,,internals4 ,they are in externals when they converse abroad and in company1 but in their internals when at home or with themselves4 ,if you wish1 make the experiment2 bring some person of this character1 as1 for example1 one of the order called ,jesuits1 and cause him to speak in company1 or to teach in a temple1 concerning ,god1 the holy things of the church1 and heaven and hell1 and you will hear him a more rational zealot than any other2 perhaps also he will force you to sighs and tears for your salvation2 but take him into your house1 praise him excessively1 call him the father of wisdom1 and make yourself his friend1 until he opens his heart1 and you will hear what he will then preach concerning ,god1 the holy things of the church1 and heaven and hell1--that they are mere fancies and delusions1 and thus bonds invented for souls1 whereby great and small1 rich and poor1 may be caught and bound1 and kept under the yoke of their dominion4 ,let these observations suffice for illustration of what is meant by natural men1 even to corporeal1 enjoying the powers of human rationality like others1 and using it when they are in externals1 but abusing it when in their internals4 ,the conclusion to be hence deduced is1 that no one is to be judged of from the wisdom of his conversation1 but of his life in union therewith4 99 99 99 99 99 #ejj4 ,to the above ,i will add the following ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,on a certain time in the spiritual world ,i heard a great tumult3 there were some thousands of people gathered together1 who cried out1 ,,let ,,them ,,be ,,punished1 ,,let ,,them ,,be ,,punished3 ,i went nearer1 and asked what the cry meant8 ,a person that was separate from the crowd1 said to me1 ,they are enraged against three priests1 who go about and preach every where against adulterers1 saying1 that adulterers have no acknowledgement of ,god1 and that heaven is closed to them and hell open2 and that in hell they are filthy devils1 because they appear there at a distance like swine wallowing in mire1 and that the angels of heaven abominate them4 ,i inquired1 ,where are the priests8 and why is there such a vociferation on that account8 ,he replied1 ,the three priests are in the midst of them1 guarded by attendants2 and those who are gathered together are of those who believe adulteries not to be sins1 and who say1 that adulterers have an acknowledgement of ,god equally with those who keep to their wives4 ,they are all of them from the ,christian world2 and the angels have been to see how many there were there who believe adulteries to be sins2 and out of a thousand they did not find a hundred4 ,he then told me that the nine hundred say concerning adulteries1 ,who does not know that the delight of adultery is superior to the delight of marriage2 that adulterers are in continual heat1 and thence in alacrity1 industry1 and active life1 superior to those who live with only one woman2 and that on the other hand1 love with a married partner grows cold1 and sometimes to such a degree1 that at length scarce a single expression or act of fellowship with her is alive2 that it is otherwise with harlots2 that the mortification of life with a wife1 arising from defect of ability1 is recruited and vivified by adulteries2 and is not that which recruits and vivifies of more consequence than that which mortifies8 ,what is marriage but allowed adultery8 ,who knows any distinction between them8 ,can love be forced8 and yet love with a wife is forced by a covenant and laws4 ,is not love with a married partner the love of the sex1 which is so universal that it exists even among birds and beasts8 ,what is conjugial love but the love of the sex8 and the love of the sex is free with every woman4 ,the reason why civil laws are against adulteries is1 because lawgivers have believed that to prohibit adultery was connected with the public good2 and yet lawgivers and judges sometimes commit adultery1 and say among themselves1 ',let him that is without sin cast the first stone4' ,who does not know that the simple and religious alone believe adulteries to be sins1 and that the intelligent think otherwise1 who like us view them by the light of nature8 ,are not adulteries as prolific as marriages8 ,are not illegitimate children as alert and qualified for the discharge of offices and employments as the legitimate8 ,moreover families1 otherwise barren1 are provided with offspring2 and is not this an advantage and not a loss8 ,what harm can come to a wife from admitting several rivals8 ,and what harm can come to a man8 ,to say that it brings disgrace upon a man1 is a frivolous idea grounded in mere fancy4 ,the reason why adultery is against the laws and statutes of the church1 is owing to the ecclesiastic order for the sake of power2 but what have theological and spiritual things to do with a delight merely corporeal and carnal8 ,are not there instances of adulterous presbyters and monks8 and are they incapable on that account of acknowledging and worshipping ,god8 ,why therefore do those three priests preach that adulterers have no acknowledgement of ,god8 ,we cannot endure such blasphemies2 wherefore let them be judged and punished4 ,afterwards ,i saw that they called judges1 whom they requested to pass sentence of punishment upon them3 but the judges said1 ,this is no part of our jurisdiction2 for the point in question is concerning the acknowledgement of ,god1 and concerning sin1 and thus concerning salvation and damnation2 and sentence in these cases must come from heaven3 but we will suggest a method to you1 whereby you may know whether these three priests have preached truths4 ,there are three places which we judges know1 where such points are examined and revealed in a singular manner3 ,one place is1 where a way into heaven is open to all2 but when they come into heaven1 they themselves perceive their own quality as to the acknowledgement of ,god3 the second is1 where also a way is open into heaven2 but no one can enter into that way unless he has heaven in himself3 and the third is where there is a way to hell2 and those who love infernal things enter that way of their own accord1 because from delight4 ,we judges charge all to go to those places who require judgement from us concerning heaven and hell4 ,on hearing this1 those who were gathered together1 said1 ,let us go to those places2 and while they were going to the first1 where a way into heaven is open to all1 it suddenly became dark2 wherefore some of them lighted torches and carried them before4 ,the judges who were with them said1 ,this happens to all who go to the first place2 as they approach1 the fire of the torches becomes more dim1 and is extinguished in that place by the light of heaven flowing in1 which is a sign that they are there2 the reason of this is1 because at first heaven is closed to them1 and afterwards is opened4 ,they then came to that place1 and when the torches were extinguished of themselves1 they saw a way tending obliquely upwards into heaven3 this those entered who were enraged against the priests2 among the first1 these who were determined adulterers1 after them those who were confirmed adulterers2 and as they ascended1 the first cried out1 ,follow2 and those who followed cried out1 ,make haste2 and they pressed forward4 ,after near an hour1 when they were all within in the heavenly society1 there appeared a gulph between them and the angels2 and the light of heaven above the gulph flowing into their eyes1 opened the interiors of their minds1 whereby they were bound to speak as they interiorly thought2 and then they were asked by the angels1 whether they acknowledged that ,god is8 ,the first1 who were determined adulterers1 replied1 ,what is ,god8 ,and they looked at each other1 and said1 ,which of you has seen him8 ,the second1 who were confirmed adulterers1 said1 ,are not all things of nature8 ,what is there above nature but the sun8 ,and instantly the angels said to them1 ,depart from us2 now you yourselves perceive that you have no acknowledgement of ,god3 when you descend1 the interiors of your mind will be closed and its exteriors opened1 and then you can speak against the interiors1 and say that ,god is4 ,be assured that as soon as a man actually becomes an adulterer1 heaven is closed to him2 and when heaven is closed1 ,god is not acknowledged4 ,hear the reason2 every filthy principle of hell is from adulterers1 and it stinks in heaven like putrid mire of the streets4 ,on hearing these things they turned themselves and descended by three ways2 and when they were below1 the first and second groups conversing together said1 ,the priests have conquered there2 but we know that we can speak of ,god equally with them3 and when we say that he is1 do we not acknowledge him8 ,the interiors and exteriors of the mind1 of which the angels told us1 are devised fictions4 ,but let us go to the second place pointed out by the judges1 where a way is open into heaven to those who have heaven in themselves1 thus to those who are about to come into heaven4 ,when they were come thither1 a voice proceeded from that heaven1 saying1 ,shut the gates2 there are adulterers at hand4 ,then suddenly the gates were shut1 and the keepers with sticks in their hands drove them away2 and they delivered the three priests1 against whom they had been tumultuous1 from the hands of their keepers1 and introduced them into heaven3 and instantly1 when the gates were open for the priests1 there issued from heaven upon the rebels the delightful principle of marriage1 which1 from its being chaste and pure1 almost deprived them of animation2 wherefore1 for fear of fainting away through suffocation1 they hastened to the third place1 concerning which the judges said1 that thence there was a way to hell2 and instantly there issued from thence the delight of adultery1 whereby those who were either determined or confirmed adulterers1 were so vivified1 that they descended as it were dancing1 and there like swine immersed themselves in filth4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,defloration4 #eja4 ,the lusts treated of in the four following chapters1 are not only lusts of adultery1 but are more grievous than those since they exist only from adulteries1 being taken to after adulteries are become loathsome2 as the lust of defloration1 which is first treated of1 and which cannot previously exist with any one2 in like manner the lust of varieties1 the lust of violation1 and the lust of seducing innocencies1 which are afterwards treated of4 ,they are called lusts1 because according to the quantity and quality of the lust for those things1 such and so great is their appropriation4 ,in reference specifically to the lust of defloration1 its infamous villany shall be made manifest from the following considerations3 ,i4 ,the state of a maiden or undeflowered woman before and after marriage4 ,,ii4 ,virginity is the crown of chastity1 and the certificate of conjugial love4 ,,iii4 ,defloration1 without a view to marriage as an end1 is the villany of a robber4 ,,iv4 ,the lot of those who have confirmed themselves in the persuasion that the lust of defloration is not an evil of sin1 after death is grievous4 ,we proceed to explain them4 #ejb4 ,i4 ,,the ,,state ,,of ,a ,,maiden ,,or ,,undeflowered ,,woman ,,before ,,and ,,after ,,marriage4 ,what is the quality of the state of a maiden1 before she has been instructed concerning the various particulars of the conjugial torch1 has been made known to me by wives in the spiritual world1 who have departed out of the natural world in their infancy1 and have been educated in heaven4 ,they said1 that when they arrived at a marriageable state1 from seeing conjugial partners they began to love the conjugial life1 but only for the end that they might be called wives1 and might maintain friendly and confidential society with one man2 and also1 that being removed from the house of obedience1 they might become their own mistresses3 they also said1 that they thought of marriage only from the blessedness of mutual friendship and confidence with a husband1 and not at all from the delight of any flame2 but that their maiden state after marriage was changed into a new one1 of which they previously had not the least knowledge3 and they declared1 that this was a state of the expansion of all things of the life of their body from first principles to last1 to receive the gifts of their husband1 and to unite these gifts to their own life1 that thus they might become his love and his wife2 and that this state commenced from the moment of defloration1 and that after this the flame of love burned to the husband alone1 and that they were sensible of the heavenly delights of that expansion2 and further1 that as each wife was introduced into this state by her own husband1 and as it is from him1 and thereby his in herself1 it is altogether impossible for her to love any other than him alone4 ,from this account it was made manifest what is the quality of the state of maidens before and after marriage in heaven4 ,that the state of maidens and wives on earth1 whose first attachments prove successful1 is similar to this of the maidens in heaven1 is no secret4 ,what maiden can know that new state before she is in it8 ,inquire1 and you will hear4 ,the case is different with those who before marriage catch allurement from being taught4 #ejc4 ,,ii4 ,,virginity ,,is ,,the ,,crown ,,of ,,chastity ,,and ,,the ,,certificate ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love4 ,virginity is called the crown of chastity1 because it crowns the chastity of marriage3 it is also the badge of chastity2 wherefore the bride at the nuptials wears a crown on her head3 it is also a badge of the sanctity of marriage2 for the bride1 after the maiden flower1 gives and devotes herself wholly to the bridegroom1 at that time the husband1 and the husband in his turn gives and devotes himself wholly to the bride1 at that time the wife4 ,virginity is also called the certificate of conjugial love1 because a certificate has relation to a covenant2 and the covenant is1 that love may unite them into one man1 or into one flesh4 ,the men themselves also before marriage regard the virginity of the bride as a crown of her chastity1 and as a certificate of conjugial love1 and as the very dainty from which the delights of that love are about to commence and to be perpetuated4 ,from these and the foregoing considerations1 it is manifest1 that after the zone is taken away1 and the virginity is sipped1 a maiden becomes a wife1 and if not a wife1 she becomes a harlot2 for the new state into which she is then introduced1 is a state of love for her husband1 and if not for her husband1 it is a state of lust4 #ejd4 ,,iii4 ,,defloration1 ,,without ,a ,,view ,,to ,,marriage ,,as ,,an ,,end1 ,,is ,,the ,,villany ,,of ,a ,,robber4 ,some adulterers are impelled by the cupidity of deflowering maidens1 and thence also of deflowering young girls in their state of innocence3 the enticements offered are either persuasions suggested by pimps1 or presents made by the men1 or promises of marriage2 and those men after defloration leave them1 and continually seek for others3 moreover1 they are not delighted with the objects they have left1 but with a continual supply of new ones2 and this lust increases even till it becomes the chief of the delights of their flesh4 ,they add also to the above this abominable deed1 that by various cunning artifices they entice maidens about to be married or immediately after marriage1 to offer them the first-fruits of marriage1 which also they thus filthily defile4 ,i have heard also1 that when that heat with its potency has failed1 they glory in the number of virginities1 as in so many golden fleeces of ,jason4 ,this villany1 which is that of committing a rape1 since it was begun in an age of strength1 and afterwards confirmed by boastings1 remains rooted in1 and thereby infixed after death4 ,what the quality of this villany is1 appears from what was said above1 that virginity is the crown of chastity1 the certificate of future conjugial love1 and that a maiden devotes her soul and life to him to whom she devotes it2 conjugial friendship and the confidence thereof are also founded upon it4 ,a woman likewise1 deflowered by a man of the above description1 after this door of conjugial love is broken through1 loses all shame1 and becomes a harlot1 which is likewise to be imputed to the robber as the cause4 ,such robbers1 if1 after having run through a course of lewdness and profanation of chastity1 they apply their minds 7animus7 to marriage1 have no other object in their mind 7mens7 than the virginity of her who is to be their married partner2 and when they have attained this object1 they loathe both bed and chamber1 yea also the whole female sex1 except young girls3 and whereas such are violators of marriage1 and despisers of the female sex1 and thereby spiritual robbers1 it is evident that the divine ,nemesis pursues them4 #eje4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,lot ,,of ,,those ,,who ,,have ,,confirmed ,,themselves ,,in ,,the ,,persuasion ,,that ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,defloration ,,is ,,not ,,an ,,evil ,,of ,,sin1 ,,after ,,death ,,is ,,grievous4 ,their lot is this3 after they have passed the first time of their stay in the spiritual world1 which is a time of modesty and morality1 because spent in company with angelic spirits1 they are next1 from their externals1 led into their internals1 and in this case into the concupiscences with which they had been ensnared in the world1 and the angelic spirits into theirs1 to the intent that it may appear in what degree they had been ensnared2 and if a lesser degree1 that after they have been let into them1 they may be let out again1 and may be covered with shame4 ,but those who had been principled in this malignant lust to such a degree as to be made sensible of its eminent delight1 and to make a boast of those thefts as of the choicest spoils1 do not suffer themselves to be drawn away from it2 wherefore they are let into their freedom1 and then they instantly wander about1 and inquire after brothels1 and also enter them when they are pointed out2 7these brothels are on the sides of hell37 but when they meet with none but prostitutes there1 they go away1 and inquire where there are maidens2 and then they are carried to harlots1 who by phantasy can assume supereminent beauty1 and a florid girlish complexion1 and boast themselves of being maidens2 and on seeing these they burn with desire towards them as they did in the world3 wherefore they bargain with them2 but when they are about to enjoy the bargain1 the phantasy induced from heaven is taken away1 and then those pretended maidens appear in their own deformity1 monstrous and dark1 to whom nevertheless they are compelled to cleave for a time3 those harlots are called sirens4 ,but if by such fascinations they do not suffer themselves to be draw away from that wild lust1 they are cast down into the hell lying to the south and west1 beneath the hell of the crafty courtezans1 and there they are associated with their companions4 ,i have also been permitted to see them in that hell1 and have been told that many of noble descent1 and the more opulent1 are therein2 but as they had been such in the world1 all remembrance of their descent and of the dignity derived from their opulence is taken from them1 and a persuasion is induced on them that they have been vile slaves1 and thence were unworthy of all honor4 ,among themselves indeed they appear as men3 but when seen by others1 who are allowed to look in thither1 they appear as apes1 with a stern look instead of a courteous one1 and a horrid countenance instead of one of pleasantry4 ,they walk with their loins contracted1 and thereby bent1 the upper part of the body hanging forward in front1 as if they were ready to fall1 and they emit a disagreeable smell4 ,they loathe the sex1 and turn away from those they see2 for they have no desire towards them4 ,such they appear when seen near at hand2 but when viewed from afar1 they appear like dogs of indulgences1 or whelps of delight2 and there is also heard somewhat like barking in the tone of their speech4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,varieties4 #ejf4 ,the lust of varieties here treated of1 does not mean the lust of fornication1 which was treated of above in its proper chapter3 the latter lust1 notwithstanding its being usually promiscuous and vague1 still does not occasion the lust of varieties1 unless when it is immoderate1 and the fornicator looks to number1 and boasts thereof from a principle of cupidity4 ,this idea causes a beginning of this lust2 but what its quality is as it advances1 cannot be distinctly perceived1 unless in some such series as the following3 ,i4 ,by the lust of varieties is meant the entirely dissolute lust of adultery4 ,,ii4 ,that lust is love and at the same time loathing in regard to the sex4 ,,iii4 ,that lust altogether annihilates conjugial love appertaining to itself4 ,,iv4 ,the lot of those 7who have been addicted to that lust71 after death1 is miserable1 since they have not the inmost principle of life4 ,we proceed to an explanation of each article4 #ejg4 ,i4 ,,by ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,varieties ,,is ,,meant ,,the ,,entirely ,,dissolute ,,lust ,,of ,,adultery4 ,this lust insinuates itself with those who in youth have relaxed the bonds of modesty1 and have had opportunities of association with many loose women1 especially if they have not wanted the means of satisfying their pecuniary demands4 ,they implant and root this lust in themselves by immoderate and unlimited adulteries1 and by shameless thoughts concerning the love of the female sex1 and by confirming themselves in the idea that adulteries are not evils1 and not at all sins4 ,this lust increases with them as it advances1 so much so that they desire all the women in the world1 and wish for whole troops1 and a fresh one every day4 ,whereas this love separates itself from the common love of the sex implanted in every man1 and altogether from the love of one of the sex1 which is conjugial love1 and inserts itself into the exteriors of the heart as a delight of love separate from those loves1 and yet derived from them2 therefore it is so thoroughly rooted in the cuticles1 that it remains in the touch when the powers are decayed4 ,persons addicted to this lust make light of adulteries2 wherefore they think of the whole female sex as of a common harlot1 and of marriage as of a common harlotry1 and thereby mix immodesty in modesty1 and from the mixture grow insane4 ,from these considerations it is evident what is here meant by the lust of varieties1 that it is the lust of entirely dissolute adultery4 #ejh4 ,,ii4 ,,that ,,lust ,,is ,,love ,,and ,,at ,,the ,,same ,,time ,,loathing ,,in ,,regard ,,to ,,the ,,sex4 ,persons addicted to that lust have a love for the sex1 because they derive variety from the sex2 and they have a loathing for the sex1 because after enjoying a woman they reject her and lust after others4 ,this obscene lust burns towards a fresh woman1 and after burning1 it grows cold towards her2 and cold is loathing4 ,that this lust is love and at the same time loathing in regard to the sex1 may be illustrated as follows3 set on the left side a company of the women whom they have enjoyed1 and on the right side a company of those whom they have not2 would not they look at the latter company from love1 but at the former from loathing8 and yet each company is the sex4 #eji4 ,,iii4 ,,that ,,lust ,,altogether ,,annihilates ,,conjugial ,,love ,,appertaining ,,to ,,itself4 ,the reason of this is1 because that lust is altogether opposite to conjugial love1 and so opposite1 that it not only rends it asunder1 but as it were grinds it to powder1 and thereby annihilates it3 for conjugial love is confined to one of the sex2 whereas that lust does not stop at one1 but within an hour or a day is as intensely cold as it was before hot towards her2 and since cold is loathing1 the latter by forced cohabitation and dwelling together is so accumulated as to become nauseous1 and thus conjugial love is consumed to such a degree that nothing of it is left4 ,from these considerations it may be seen1 that this lust is fatal to conjugial love2 and as conjugial love constitutes the inmost principle of life with man1 that it is fatal to his life2 and that that lust1 by successive interceptions and closings of the interiors of the mind1 at length becomes cuticular1 and thus merely alluring2 while the faculty of understanding or rationality still remains4 #eaj4 ,,iv4 ,,the ,,lot ,,of ,,those 7,,who ,,have ,,been ,,addicted ,,to ,,that ,,lust7 ,,after ,,death ,,is ,,miserable1 ,,since ,,they ,,have ,,not ,,the ,,inmost ,,principle ,,of ,,life4 ,every one has excellence of life according to his conjugial love2 for that excellence conjoins itself with the life of the wife1 and by conjunction exalts itself2 but as with those of whom we are speaking there does not remain the least principle of conjugial love1 and consequently not anything of the inmost principle of life1 therefore their lot after death is miserable4 ,after passing a certain period of time in their externals1 in which they converse rationally and act civilly1 they are let into their internals1 and in this case into a similar lust and its delights1 in the same degree as in the world3 for every one after death is let into the same state of life which he had appropriated to himself1 to the intent that he may be withdrawn from it2 for no one can be withdrawn from this evil1 unless he has first been led into it2 if he were not to be led into it1 the evil would conceal itself1 and defile the interiors of the mind1 and spread itself as a plague1 and would next burst through all barriers and destroy the external principles of the body4 ,for this end there are opened to them brothels1 which are on the side of hell1 where there are harlots with whom they have an opportunity of varying their lusts2 but this is granted with the restriction to one harlot in a day1 and under a penalty in case of communication with more than one on the same day4 ,afterwards1 when from examination it appears that that lust is so inbred that they cannot be withdrawn from it1 they are conveyed to a certain place which is next above the hell assigned for them1 and then they appear to themselves as if they fall into a swoon1 and to others as if they fall down with the face upward2 and also the ground beneath their backs is actually opened1 and they are absorbed1 and sink down into hell among their like2 thus they are gathered to their own4 ,i have been permitted to see them there1 and likewise to converse with them4 ,among themselves they appear as men1 which is granted them lest they should be a terror to their companions2 but at a certain distance they seem to have white faces consisting only of skin1 and this because they have no spiritual life in them1 which every one has according to the conjugial principle sown in him4 ,their speech is dry1 parched1 and sorrowful3 when they are hungry1 they lament2 and their lamentations are heard as a peculiar clashing noise4 ,their garments are tattered1 and their lower garments are drawn above the belly round about the breast2 because they have no loins1 but their ankles commence from the region of the bottom of the belly3 the reason of this is1 because the loins with men 7homines7 correspond to conjugial love1 and they are void of this love4 ,they said that they loathe the sex on account of their having no potency4 ,nevertheless1 among themselves they can reason as from rationality2 but since they are cutaneous1 they reason from the fallacies of the senses4 ,this hell is in the western quarter towards the north4 ,these same persons1 when seen from afar1 appear not as men or as monsters1 but as frozen substances4 ,it is however to be observed1 that those become of this description who have indulged in the above lust to such a degree as to rend and annihilate in themselves the conjugial human principle4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,violation4 #eaa4 ,the lust of violation does not mean the lust of defloration1 which is the violation of virginities1 but not of maidens when it is effected from consent2 whereas the lust of violation1 which is here treated of1 retreats in consequence of consent1 and is sharpened in consequence of refusal2 and it is the passion of violating all women whatever1 who altogether refuse1 and violently resist1 whether they be maidens1 or widows1 or wives4 ,persons addicted to this lust are like robbers and pirates1 who are delighted with spoil and plunder1 and not with what is given and justly acquired2 and they are like malefactors1 who covet what is disallowed and forbidden1 and despise what is allowed and granted4 ,these violators are altogether averse to consent1 and are set on fire by resistance1 which if they observe to be not internal1 the ardor of their lust is instantly extinguished1 as fire is by water thrown upon it4 ,it is well known1 that wives do not spontaneously submit themselves to the disposal of their husbands as to the ultimate effects of love1 and that from prudence they resist as they would resist violation1 to the end that they may take away from their husbands the cold arising from the consideration of enjoyments being cheap in consequence of being continually allowed1 and also in consequence of an idea of lasciviousness on their part4 ,these repugnancies1 although they enkindle1 still are not the causes1 but only the beginnings of this lust3 its cause is1 that after conjugial love and also adulterous love have grown insipid by practice1 they are willing1 in order that those loves may be repaired1 to be set on fire by absolute repugnances4 ,this lust thus begun1 afterwards increases1 and as it increases it despises and breaks through all bounds of the love of the sex1 and exterminates itself1 and from a lascivious1 corporeal1 and fleshly love1 becomes cartilaginous and bony2 and then1 from the periosteurns1 which have an acute feeling1 it becomes acute4 ,nevertheless this lust is rare1 because it exists only with those who had entered into the married state1 and then had lived in the practice of adulteries until they became insipid4 ,besides this natural cause of this lust1 there is also a spiritual cause1 of which something will be said in what follows4 #eab4 ,the lot of persons of this character after death is as follows3 these violators then separate themselves from those who are in the limited love of the sex1 and altogether from those who are in conjugial love1 thus from heaven3 afterwards they are sent to the most cunning harlots1 who not only by persuasion1 but also by imitation perfectly like that of a stage-player1 can feign and represent as if they were chastity itself4 ,these harlots clearly discern those who are principled in the above lust3 in their presence they speak of chastity and its value2 and when the violator comes near and touches them1 they are full of wrath1 and fly away as through terror into a closet1 where there is a couch and a bed1 and slightly close the door after them1 and recline themselves2 and hence by their art they inspire the violator with an ungovernable desire of breaking down the door1 of rushing in1 and attacking them2 and when this is effected1 the harlot raising herself erect with the violator begins to fight with her hands and nails1 tearing his face1 rending his clothes1 and with a furious voice crying to the harlots her companions1 as to her female servants1 for assistance1 and opening the window with a loud outcry of thief1 robber1 and murderer2 and when the violator is at hand she bemoans herself and weeps3 and after violation she prostrates herself1 howls1 and calls out that she is undone1 and at the same time threatens in a serious tone1 that unless he expiates the violation by paying a considerable sum1 she will attempt his destruction4 ,while they are engaged in these venereal scenes1 they appear at a distance like cats1 which nearly in like manner before their conjunctions combat together1 run forward1 and make an outcry4 ,after some such brothel-contests1 they are taken away1 and conveyed into a cavern1 where they are forced to some work3 but as their smell is offensive1 in consequence of having rent asunder the conjugial principle1 which is the chief jewel of human life1 they are sent to the borders of the western quarters1 where at a certain distance they appear lean1 as if consisting of bones covered over with skin only2 but when seen at a distance they appear like panthers4 ,when ,i was permitted to see them nearer1 ,i was surprised that some of them held books in their hands1 and were reading2 and ,i was told that this is the case1 because in the world they said various things concerning the spiritual things of the church1 and yet defiled them by adulteries1 even to their extremities1 and that such was the correspondence of this lust with the violation of spiritual marriage4 ,but it is to be observed1 that the instances of those who are principled in this lust are rare3 certain it is1 that women1 because it is unbecoming for them to prostitute love1 are repugnant thereto1 and that repugnance enervates2 nevertheless this is not from any lust of violation4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,seducing ,,innocencies4 #eac4 ,the lust of seducing innocencies is neither the lust of defloration1 nor the lust of violation1 but is peculiar and singular by itself2 it prevails more especially with the deceitful4 ,the women1 who appear to them as innocencies1 are such as regard the evil of adultery as an enormous sin1 and who therefore highly prize chastity1 and at the same time piety3 these women are the objects which set them on fire4 ,in ,roman ,catholic countries there are maidens devoted to the monastic life2 and because they believe these maidens to be pious innocencies above the rest of their sex1 they view them as the dainties and delicacies of their lust4 ,with a view of seducing either the latter or the former because they are deceitful1 they first devise arts1 and next1 when they have well digested them1 without receiving any check from shame1 they practise them as from nature4 ,these arts are principally pretences of innocence1 love1 chastity1 and piety2 by these and other cunning stratagems1 they enter into the interior friendship of such women1 and thence into their love1 which they change from spiritual into natural by various persuasions and at the same time by insinuations1 and afterwards into corporeal-carnal by irritations1 and then they take possession of them at pleasure2 and when they have attained this end1 they rejoice in heart1 and make a mock of those whom they have violated4 #ead4 ,the lot of these seducers after death is sad1 since such seduction is not only impiety1 but also malignity4 ,after they have passed through their first period in the spiritual world1 which is in externals1 wherein they excel many others in the elegance of their manners and the courteousness of their speech1 they are reduced to another period of their life1 which is in internals1 wherein their lust is set at liberty1 and commences its sport2 and then they are first conveyed to women who had made vows of chastity1 and with these they are examined as to the quality of their malignant concupiscence1 to the intent that they may not be judged except on conviction3 when they are made sensible of the chastity of those women1 their deceit begins to act1 and to attempt its crafty arts2 but as this is to no purpose1 they depart from them4 ,they are afterwards introduced to women of genuine innocence2 and when they attempt to deceive these in like manner1 by virtue of a power given to those women1 they are heavily fined2 for they occasion in their hands and feet a grievous numbness2 likewise in their necks1 and at length make them feel as it were a swoon2 and when they have inflicted this punishment1 they run away and escape from the sufferers4 ,after this there is a way opened to them to a certain company of courtezans1 who have been versed in the art of cunningly feigning innocence3 and these first expose them to laughter among themselves1 and at length after various engagements suffer themselves to be violated4 ,after some such scenes1 a third period takes place1 which is that of judgement2 and in this case1 being convicted1 they sink down1 and are gathered to their like in the hell which is in the northern quarter1 and there they appear at a distance like weasels2 but if they have allured by deceit1 they are conveyed down from this hell to that of the deceitful1 which is in the western quarter at a depth to the back2 in this hell they appear at a distance like serpents of various kinds2 and the most deceitful like vipers3 but in the hell into which ,i was permitted to look1 they appeared to me as if they were ghastly pale1 with faces of chalk3 and as they are mere concupiscences1 they do not like to speak3 and if they do speak1 they only mutter and stammer various things1 which are understood by none but their companions who are near them2 but presently1 as they sit or stand1 they make themselves unseen1 and fly about in the cavern like phantoms2 for on this occasion they are in phantasy1 and phantasy appears to fly3 after flying they rest themselves1 and then1 what is wonderful1 one does not know another2 the cause of this is1 because they are principled in deceit1 and deceit does not believe another1 and thereby withdraws itself4 ,when they are made sensible of any thing proceeding from conjugial love1 they fly away into hiding places and conceal themselves4 ,they are also void of all love of the sex1 and are real impotencies1 and are called infernal genii4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,correspondence ,,of ,,adulteries ,,with ,,the ,,violation ,,of ,,spiritual ,,marriage4 #eae4 ,i should here say something1 in the way of preface1 concerning correspondence2 but the subject does not properly belong to the present work4 ,the nature and meaning of correspondence may be seen in a brief summary above1 n4 #gf1 and n4 #cdb2 and fully in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 from beginning to end1 that it is between the natural sense of the ,word and the spiritual sense4 ,that in the ,word there is a natural and a spiritual sense1 and a correspondence between them1 has been demonstrated in the ,,doctrine ,,of ,,the ,,new ,,jerusalem ,,concerning ,,the ,,sacred ,,scripture1 and especially1 n4 #e-bf4 #eaf4 ,the spiritual marriage means the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 spoken of above1 n4 #aaf-aca2 and hence also the marriage of good and truth1 likewise spoken of above1 n4 #hc-ajb2 and as this marriage of the ,lord and the church1 and the consequent marriage of good and truth1 is in everything of the ,word1 it is the violation of this which is here meant by the violation of the spiritual marriage2 for the church is from the ,word1 and the ,word is the ,lord3 the ,lord is the ,word1 because he is divine good and divine truth therein4 ,that the ,word is that marriage1 may be seen fully confirmed in the ,,doctrine ,,of ,,the ,,new ,,jerusalem ,,concerning ,,the ,,sacred ,,scripture1 n4 #hj-ij4 #eag4 ,since therefore the violation of the spiritual marriage is the violation of the ,word1 it is evident that this violation is the adulteration of good and the falsification of truth1 for the spiritual marriage is the marriage of good and truth2 whence it follows1 that when the good of the ,word is adulterated1 and its truth falsified1 the above marriage is violated4 ,how this violation is effected1 and by whom1 is in some measure evident from what follows4 #eah4 ,above1 in treating of the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 n4 #aaf1 and the following numbers1 and in treating of the marriage of good and truth1 n4 #hc1 and the following numbers1 it was shewn1 that that marriage corresponds to marriages in the world3 hence it follows1 that the violation of that marriage corresponds to whoredoms and adulteries4 ,that this is the case1 is very manifest from the ,word itself1 in that whoredoms and adulteries there signify the falsifications of truth and the adulterations of good1 as may be plainly seen from numerous passages adduced out of the ,word in the ,,apocalypse ,,revealed1 n4 #acd4 #eai4 ,the ,word is violated by those in the ,christian church who adulterate its goods and truths2 and those do this who separate truth from good and good from truth2 also1 who assume and confirm appearances of truth and fallacies for genuine truths2 and likewise1 who know truths of doctrine derived from the ,word1 and live evil lives1 not to mention other like cases4 ,these violations of the ,word and the church correspond to the prohibited degrees1 mentioned in ,levit1 chap4 xviii4 #ebj4 ,as the natural principle and the spiritual appertaining to every man 7homo71 cohere as soul and body1 7for a man without the spiritual principle which flows into and vivifies his natural principle1 is not a man71 it hence follows1 that whoever is in spiritual marriage is also in happy natural marriage2 and on the contrary1 that whoever is in spiritual adultery is also in natural adultery1 and whoever is in natural adultery is also in spiritual adultery4 ,now since all who are in hell are in the nuptial connection of evil and the false1 and this is essential spiritual adultery2 and all who are in heaven are in the marriage of good and truth1 and this is essential marriage2 therefore hell in the total is called adultery1 and heaven in the total is called marriage4 99 99 99 99 99 #eba4 ,to the above shall be added this ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,my sight being opened1 ,i saw a shady forest1 and therein a crowd of satyrs3 the satyrs as to their breasts were rough and hairy1 and as to their feet some were like calves1 some like panthers1 and some like wolves1 and they had beasts' claws instead of toes4 ,these were running to and fro like wild beasts1 crying out1 ,where are the women8 and instantly ,i saw some harlots who were expecting them1 and who in various ways were monstrous4 ,the satyrs ran towards them1 and laid hold of them1 dragging them into a cavern1 which was in the midst of the forest deep beneath the earth2 and upon the ground round about the cavern lay a great serpent in spiral foldings1 breathing poison into the cavern3 in the branches of the forest above the serpent dismal birds of night croaked and screeched4 ,but the satyrs and harlots did not see these things1 because they were the correspondences of their lasciviousnesses1 and therefore their usual appearances at a distance4 ,afterwards they came out of the cavern1 and entered a certain low cottage1 which was a brothel2 and then being separated from the harlots they talked together1 and ,i listened2 for conversation in the spiritual world may be heard by a distant person as if he was present1 the extent of space in that world being only an appearance4 ,they talked about marriages1 nature1 and religion4 ,those who as to the feet appeared like calves1 spoke concerning ,,marriages1 and said1 ,what are marriages but licit adulteries8 and what is sweeter than adulterous hypocrisies1 and the making fools of husbands8 ,at this the rest clapped their hands with a loud laugh4 ,the satyrs who as to the feet appeared as panthers1 spoke concerning ,,nature1 and said1 ,what is there but nature8 ,what distinction is there between a man and a beast1 except that a man can speak articulately and a beast sonorously8 ,does not each derive life from heat1 and understanding from light1 by the operation of nature8 ,hereupon the rest exclaimed1 ,admirable6 you speak from judgement4 ,those who as to the feet appeared like wolves1 spoke concerning ,,religion1 saying1 ,what is ,god or a divine principle1 but the inmost principles of nature in action8 ,what is religion but a device to catch and bind the vulgar8 ,hereupon the rest vociferated1 ,bravo6 ,after a few minutes they rushed forth1 and in so doing they saw me at a distance looking attentively at them4 ,being provoked at this1 they ran out from the forest1 and with a threatening countenance directed their course hastily towards me1 and said1 ,what are you doing here1 listening to our whispers8 ,i replied1 ,why should ,i not8 what is to hinder me8 you were only talking together3 and ,i related what ,i had heard from them4 ,hereupon their minds 7animi7 were appeased1 which was through fear lest their sentiments should be divulged2 and then they began to speak modestly and to act bashfully2 from which circumstance ,i knew that they were not of mean descent but of honorable birth2 and then ,i told them1 how ,i saw them in the forest as satyrs1 twenty as calf-satyrs1 six as panther-satyrs1 and four as wolf-satyrs2 they were thirty in number4 ,they were surprised at this1 because they saw themselves there as men1 and nothing else1 in like manner as they saw themselves here with me4 ,i then taught them1 that the reason of their so appearing was from their adulterous lust1 and that this satyr-like form was a form of dissolute adultery1 and not a form of a person4 ,this happened1 ,i said1 because every evil concupiscence presents a likeness of itself in some form1 which is not perceived by those who are in the concupiscence1 but by those who are at a distance3 ,i also said1 ,to convince you of it1 send some from among you into that forest1 and do you remain here1 and look at them4 ,they did so1 and sent away two2 and viewing them from near the above brothel-cottage1 they saw them altogether as satyrs2 and when they returned1 they saluted those satyrs1 and said1 ,oh what ridiculous figures6 ,while they were laughing1 ,i jested a good deal with them1 and told them that ,i had also seen adulterers as hogs2 and then ,i recollected the fable of ,ulysses and the ,circe1 how she sprinkled the companions and servants of ,ulysses with poisonous herbs1 and touched them with a magic wand1 and turned them into hogs1--perhaps into adulterers1 because she could not by any art turn any one into a hog4 ,after they had made themselves exceedingly merry on this and other like subjects1 ,i asked them whether they then knew to what kingdoms in the world they had belonged8 ,they said1 they had belonged to various kingdoms1 and they named ,italy1 ,poland1 ,germany1 ,england1 ,sweden2 and ,i enquired1 whether they had seen any one from ,holland of their party8 ,and they said1 ,not one4 ,after this ,i gave the conversation a serious turn1 and asked them1 whether they had ever thought that adultery is sin8 ,they replied1 ,what is sin8 we do not know what it means4 ,i then inquired1 whether they ever remembered that adultery was contrary to the sixth commandment of the ,decalogue4 ,footnote3 ,according to the division of the commandments adopted by the ,church of ,england1 it is the seventh that is here referred to4 ,they replied1 ,what is the ,decalogue8 ,is not it the catechism8 ,what have we men to do with that childish pamphlet8 ,i asked them1 whether they had ever thought at all about hell4 ,they replied1 ,who ever came up thence to give us information8 ,i asked1 whether they had ever thought at all in the world about a life after death4 ,they said1 ,just as much as about the future life of beasts1 and at times as about phantoms1 which exhale from dead bodies and float about4 ,i further asked them1 whether they had heard any thing from the priests on any of these subjects4 ,they replied1 that they had attended only to the sound of their voices1 and not to the matter2 and what is it8 ,being astonished at these answers1 ,i said to them1 ,turn your faces1 and direct your eyes to the midst of the forest1 where the cavern is in which you have been2 and they turned themselves1 and saw that great serpent around the cavern in spiral foldings1 breathing poison1 and also the doleful birds in the branches over the serpents4 ,i then asked them1 ,what do you see8 ,but being much terrified1 they did not answer2 and ,i said1 ,do you see the dreadful sight8 ,know then that this is a representative of adultery in the baseness of its lust4 ,suddenly at that instant an angel presented himself1 who was a priest1 and opened the hell in the western quarter into which such spirits are at length collected2 and he said1 ,look thither3 and they saw that firy lake1 and knew there some of their friends in the world1 who invited them to themselves4 ,having seen and heard these things1 they turned themselves away1 and rushed out of my sight1 and retired from the forest2 but ,i observed their steps1 that they only pretended to retire1 and that by winding ways they returned into the forest4 #ebb4 ,after this ,i returned home1 and the next day1 from a recollection of these sad scenes1 ,i looked to the same forest1 and saw that it had disappeared1 and in its place there was a sandy plain1 and in the midst thereof a lake1 in which were some red serpents4 ,but some weeks after when ,i was looking thither again1 ,i saw on its right side some fallow land1 and upon it some husbandmen2 and again1 after some weeks ,i saw springing out of that fallow land some tilled land surrounded with shrubs2 and ,i then heard a voice from heaven1 ,enter into your chamber1 and shut the door1 and apply to the work begun on the ,apocalypse1 and finish it within two years4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,on ,,the ,,imputation ,,of ,,each ,,love1 ,,adulterous ,,and ,,conjugial4 #ebc4 ,,the ,,lord ,,saith1 ,,judge ,,not1 ,,that ,,ye ,,be ,,not ,,condemned1 ,matt4 vii4 #a2 which cannot in any wise mean judgement respecting any one's moral and civil life in the world1 but respecting his spiritual and celestial life4 ,who does not see1 that unless a man was allowed to judge respecting the moral life of those who live with him in the world1 society would perish8 ,what would society be if there were no public judicature1 and if every one did not exercise his judgement respecting another8 ,but to judge what is the quality of the interior mind1 or soul1 thus what is the quality of any one's spiritual state1 and thence what his lot is after death1 is not allowed2 for that is known only to the ,lord3 neither does the ,lord reveal this till after the person's decease1 to the intent that every one may act freely in whatever he does1 and thereby that good or evil may be from him1 and thus be in him1 and that thence he may live to himself and live his own to eternity4 ,the reason why the interiors of the mind1 which are kept hid in the world1 are revealed after death is1 because this is of importance and advantage to the societies into which the man then comes2 for in them all are spiritual4 ,that those interiors are then revealed1 is plain from these words of the ,lord3 ,there is nothing concealed1 which shall not be revealed1 or hidden1 which shall not be known3 therefore whatsoever things ye have said in darkness1 shall be heard in light3 and that which ye have spoken into the ear in closets shall be preached on the house-tops1 ,luke xii4 #b1 #c4 ,a common judgement1 as this for instance1--,if you are such in internals as you appear to be in externals1 you will be saved or condemned1 is allowed2 but a particular judgement1 as this1 for instance1--,you are such in internals1 therefore you will be saved or condemned1 is not allowed4 ,judgement concerning the spiritual life of a man1 or the internal life of the soul1 is meant by the imputation which is here treated of4 ,can any human being know and decide who is in heart an adulterer1 and who a conjugial partner8 ,and yet the thoughts of the heart1 which are the purposes of the will1 judge every one4 ,but we will explain this subject in the following order3 ,i4 ,the evil in which every one is principled is imputed to him after death2 and so also the good4 ,,ii4 ,the transference of the good of one person into another is impossible4 ,,iii4 ,imputation1 if by it is meant such transference1 is a frivolous term4 ,,iv4 ,evil is imputed to every one according to the quality of his will and his understanding2 in like manner good4 ,v4 ,thus adulterous love is imputed to every one4 ,,vi4 ,in like manner conjugial love4 ,we proceed to the explanation of each article4 #ebd4 ,i4 ,,the ,,evil ,,in ,,which ,,every ,,one ,,is ,,principled1 ,,is ,,imputed ,,to ,,him ,,after ,,death2 ,,and ,,so ,,also ,,the ,,good4 ,to make this proposition in some degree evident1 it shall be considered according to the following arrangement3 #a4 ,that every one has a life peculiar to himself4 #b4 ,that every one's life remains with him after death4 #c4 ,that to an evil person is then imputed the evil of his life1 and to a good person the good of his life4 ,as to the first point1--that everyone has a life peculiar to himself1 thus distinct from that of another1 it is well known2 for there is a perpetual variety1 and there is not any thing the same as another1 consequently everyone has his own peculiar principle4 ,this is evident from men's faces1 the faces of no two persons being absolutely alike1 nor can there be two alike to eternity3 the reason of this is1 because there are no two minds 7animi7 alike1 and faces are derived from minds2 for the face1 as it is said1 is a type of the mind1 and the mind derives its origin and form from the life4 ,unless a man 7homo7 had a life peculiar to himself1 as he has a mind and a face peculiar to himself1 he would not have any life after death1 separate from that of another2 yea1 neither would there be a heaven1 for heaven consists of perpetual varieties2 its form is derived solely from the varieties of souls and minds arranged into such an order as to make a one2 and they make a one from the ,one1 whose life is in every thing therein as the soul is in a man3 unless this was the case1 heaven would be dispersed1 because form would be dissolved4 ,the ,one from whom all things have life1 and from whom form coheres1 is the ,lord4 ,in general every form consists of various things1 and is such as is their harmonic co-ordination and arrangement to a one3 such is the human form2 and hence it is that a man1 consisting of so many members1 viscera1 and organs1 is not sensible of any thing in himself and from himself but as of a one4 ,as to the ,,second point1--that every one's life remains with him after death1 it is known in the church from these passages of the ,word3 ,the ,son of ,man will come and will then render to every one according to his deeds1 ,matt4 xvi4 #bg4 ,i saw the books open2 and all were judged according to their works1 ,rev4 xx4 #ab4 ,in the day of judgement ,god will render to every one according to his works1 ,rom4 ii4 #f2 #b ,cor4 v4 #aj4 ,the works1 according to which it will be rendered to every one1 are the life1 because the life does the works1 and they are according to the life4 ,as ,i have been permitted for several years to be associated with angels1 and to converse with the deceased1 ,i can testify for certain1 that every one is then examined as to the quality of the life which he has led1 and that the life which he has contracted in the world abides with him to eternity4 ,i have conversed with those who lived ages ago1 whose life ,i have been acquainted with from history1 and ,i have known it to be like the description given of it2 and ,i have heard from the angels1 that no one's life after death can be changed1 because it is organized according to his love and consequent works2 and that if it were changed the organization would be rent asunder1 which cannot be done in any case2 also that a change of organization can only be effected in the material body1 and is utterly impossible in the spiritual body1 after the former has been laid aside4 ,in regard to the ,,third point--that to an evil person is then imputed the evil of his life1 and to a good person the good of his life1 it is to be observed1 that the imputation of evil is not accusation1 inculpation1 and judication1 as in the world1 but evil itself produces this effect2 for the evil freely separate themselves from the good1 since they cannot remain together4 ,the delights of the love of evil are different from those of the love of good2 and delights exhale from every one1 as odors do from every vegetable in the world2 for they are not absorbed and concealed by the material body as heretofore1 but flow freely from their loves into the spiritual aura2 and as evil is there made sensible as in its odor1 it is in this which accuses1 fixes blame1 and judges1--not before any judge1 but before every one who is principled in good2 and this is what is meant by imputation4 ,moreover1 an evil person chooses companions with whom he may live in his delights2 and because he is averse from the delight of good1 he spontaneously betakes himself to his own in hell4 ,the imputation of good is effected in like manner1 and takes place with those who in the world have acknowledged that all good in them is from the ,lord1 and nothing from themselves4 ,these1 after they have been prepared1 are let into the interior delights of good1 and then there is opened to them a way into heaven1 to the society where its homogeneous delights are3 this is effected by the ,lord4 #ebe4 ,,ii4 ,,the ,,transference ,,of ,,the ,,good ,,of ,,one ,,person ,,to ,,another ,,is ,,impossible4 ,the evidence of this proposition may also be seen from the following points3 #a4 ,that every man is born in evil4 #b4 ,that he is led into good by regeneration from the ,lord4 #c4 ,that this is effected by a life according to his precepts4 #d4 ,wherefore good1 when it is thus implanted1 cannot be transferred4 ,the ,,first point1--that every man is born in evil1 is well known in the church4 ,it is generally said that this evil is derived hereditarily from ,adam2 but it is from a man's parents4 ,every one derives from his parents his peculiar temper1 which is his inclination4 ,that this is the case1 is evinced both by reason and experience2 for the likenesses of parents as to face1 genius1 and manners1 appear extant in their immediate offspring and in their posterity2 hence families are known by many1 and a judgement is also formed concerning their minds 7animi72 wherefore the evils which parents themselves have contracted1 and which they have transmitted to their offspring1 are the evils in which men are born4 ,the reason why it is believed that the guilt of ,adam is inscribed on all the human race1 is1 because few reflect upon any evil with themselves1 and thence know it2 wherefore they suppose that it is so deeply hid as to appear only in the sight of ,god4 ,in regard to the ,,second point1--that a man is led into good by regeneration from the ,lord1 it is to be observed that there is such a thing as regeneration1 and that unless a person be regenerated1 he cannot enter into heaven1 as appears clearly from the ,lord's words in ,john iii4 #c1 #e4 ,the regeneration consists in purification from evils1 and thereby renovation of life1 cannot be unknown in the ,christian world2 for reason also sees this when it acknowledges that every one is born in evil1 and that evil cannot be washed and wiped away like filth by soap and water1 but by repentance4 ,as to the ,,third point1--that a man is led into good by the ,lord1 by a life according to his precepts1 it is plain from this consideration1 that there are live precepts of regeneration2 see above1 n4 #hb2 among which are these1--that evils are to be shunned1 because they are of and from the devil1 and that goods are to be done1 because they are of and from ,god2 and that men ought to go to the ,lord1 in order that he may lead them to do the latter4 ,let any one consult himself and consider1 whether a man derives good from any other source2 and if he has not good1 he has not salvation4 ,in regard to the ,,fourth point1--that good1 when it is thus implanted1 cannot be transferred1 7that is1 the good of one person into another17 it is evident from what has been already said2 for from that it follows1 that a man by regeneration is made altogether new as to his spirit1 which is effected by a life according to the ,lord's precepts4 ,who does not see that this renewing can only be effected from time to time1 in nearly the same manner as a tree successively takes root and grows from a seed1 and is perfected8 ,those who have other perceptions of regeneration1 do not know any thing about the state of man1 or about evil and good1 which two are altogether opposite1 and that good can only be implanted so far as evil is removed2 nor do they know1 that so long as any one is in evil1 he is averse from the good which in itself is good2 wherefore if the good of one should be transferred into any one who is in evil1 it would be as if a lamb should be cast before a wolf1 or as if a pearl should be tied to a swine's snout3 from which considerations it is evident1 that any such transfer is impossible4 #ebf4 ,,iii4 ,,imputation1 ,,if ,,by ,,it ,,is ,,meant ,,such ,,transference1 ,,is ,a ,,frivolous ,,term4 ,that the evil in which every one is principled1 is imputed to him after death1 and so also the good1 was proved above1 n4 #ebd2 hence it is evident what is meant by imputation3 but if by imputation is meant the tranference of good into any one that is in evil1 it is a frivolous term1 because any such transference is impossible1 as was also proved above1 in #ebe4 ,in the world1 merits may as it were be transferred by men2 that is1 good may be done to children for the sake of their parents1 or to the friends of any client out of favor2 but the good of merit cannot be inscribed on their souls1 but only be externally adjoined4 ,the like is not possible with men as to their spiritual life3 this1 as was shewn above1 must be implanted2 and if it is not implanted by a life according to the ,lord's precepts1 as above-mentioned1 a man remains in the evil in which he was born4 ,before such implantation1 it is impossible for any good to reach him1 or if it reaches him1 it is instantly struck back and rebounds like an elastic ball falling upon a rock1 or it is absorbed like a diamond thrown into a bog4 ,a man not reformed as to the ,spirit1 is like a panther or an owl1 and may be compared to a bramble and a nettle2 but a man regenerated is like a sheep or a dove1 and may be compared to an olive and a vine4 ,consider1 ,i pray1 if you are so disposed1 how can a man-panther be changed into a man-sheep1 or an owl into a dove1 or a bramble into an olive1 or a nettle into a vine1 by any imputation1 if by it is meant transference8 ,in order that such a change may be effected is it not necessary that the ferine principle of the panther and the owl1 or the noxious principle of the bramble and the nettle1 be first taken away1 and thereby the truly human and innocent principle be implanted8 ,how this is effected1 the ,lord also teaches in ,john1 chap4 xv4 #a-g4 #ebg4 ,,iv4 ,,evil ,,or ,,good ,,is ,,imputed ,,to ,,every ,,one ,,according ,,to ,,the ,,quality ,,of ,,his ,,will ,,and ,,his ,,understanding4 ,it is well known that there are two principles which make a man's life1 the will and the understanding2 and that all things which a man does1 are done from his will and his understanding2 and that without these acting principles he would have neither action nor speech other than as a machine2 hence it is evident1 that such as are a man's will and understanding1 such is the man2 and further1 that a man's action in itself is such as is the affection of his will which produces it1 and that a man's conversation in itself is such as is the thought of his understanding which produces it3 wherefore several men may act and speak alike1 and yet they act and speak differently3 one from a depraved will and thought1 the other from an upright will and thought4 ,from these considerations it is evident that by the deeds or works according to which every one will be judged1 are meant the will and the understanding2 consequently that evil works means the works of an evil will1 whatever has been their appearance in externals1 and that good works mean the works of a good will1 although in externals they have appeared like the works done by an evil man4 ,all things which are done from a man's interior will1 are done from purpose1 since that will proposes to itself what it acts by its intention2 and all things which are done from the understanding1 are done from confirmation1 since the understanding confirms4 ,from these considerations it may appear1 that evil or good is imputed to every one according to the quality of his will therein1 and of his understanding concerning them4 ,these observations ,i am allowed to confirm by the following relation3 ,in the spiritual world ,i have met several who in the natural world had lived like others1 being sumptuous in their dress1 giving costly entertainments1 frequenting the exhibitions of the stage1 jesting loosely on love topics1 with other similar practices2 and yet the angels accounted those things as evils of sin to some1 and not to others1 declaring the latter guiltless1 and the former guilty4 ,being questioned why they did so1 when all had done alike1 they replied that they regard all from their purpose1 intention1 or end1 and distinguish accordingly2 and that therefore they excuse or condemn those whom the end either excuses or condemns1 since an end of good influences all in heaven1 and an end of evil all in hell4 #ebh4 ,to the above ,i will add the following observation3 it is said in the church that no one can fulfil the law1 and the less so1 because he that offends against one precept of the decalogue1 offends against all3 but this form of speaking is not such as it sounds2 for it is to be understood thus1 that he who1 from purpose or confirmation1 acts against one precept1 acts against the rest2 since to act so from purpose or confirmation is to deny that it is a sin2 and he who denies that it is a sin1 makes nothing of acting against the rest of the precepts4 ,who does not know1 that he that is an adulterer is not on that account a murderer1 a thief1 and a false witness1 or wishes to be so8 ,but he that is a determined and confirmed adulterer makes no account of anything respecting religion1 thus neither does he make any account of murder1 theft1 and false witness2 and he abstains from these evils1 not because they are sins1 but because he is afraid of the law and of the loss of reputation4 ,that determined and confirmed adulterers make no account of the holy things of the church and religion1 may be seen above1 n4 #dij-dic1 and in the two ,,memorable ,,relations1 n4 #ejj1 #eba1 #ebb3 it is a similar case1 if any one1 from purpose or confirmation1 acts against any other precept of the decalogue2 he also acts against the rest because he does not regard anything as sin4 #ebi4 ,the case is similar with those who are principled in good from the ,lord3 if these from will and understanding1 or from purpose and confirmation1 abstain from any one evil because it is a sin1 they abstain from all evil1 and the more so still if they abstain from several2 for as soon as any one1 from purpose or confirmation1 abstains from any evil because it is a sin1 he is kept by the ,lord in the purpose of abstaining from the rest3 wherefore1 if unwittingly1 or from any prevailing bodily concupiscence1 he does evil1 still this is not imputed to him1 because he did not purpose it to himself1 and does not confirm it with himself4 ,a man comes into this purpose1 if once or twice in a year he examines himself1 and repents of the evils which he discovers in himself3 it is otherwise with him who never examines himself4 ,from these considerations it evidently appears to whom sin is not imputed1 and to whom it is4 #ecj4 ,v4 ,,thus ,,adulterous ,,love ,,is ,,imputed ,,to ,,every ,,one2--not according to his deeds1 such as they appear externally before men1 nor either such as they appear before a judge1 but such as they appear internally before the ,lord1 and from him before the angels1 which is according to the quality of a man's will and of his understanding therein4 ,various circumstances exist in the world which mitigate and excuse crimes1 also which aggravate and charge them upon the perpetrator3 nevertheless1 imputations after death take place1 not according to the external circumstances of the deed1 but according to the internal circumstances of the mind2 and these are viewed according to the state of the church with every one3 as for example1 a man impious in will and understanding1 that is1 who has no fear of ,god or love of his neighbour1 and consequently no reverence for any sanctity of the church1--he1 after death1 becomes guilty of all the crimes which he did in the body2 nor is there any remembrance of his good actions1 since his heart1 from whence as from a fountain those things flowed1 was averse from heaven1 and turned to hell2 and deeds flow from the place of the habitation of every one's heart4 ,in order that this may be understood1 ,i will mention an arcanum3 ,heaven is distinguished into innumerable societies1 and so is hell1 from an opposite principle2 and the mind of every man1 according to his will and consequent understanding1 actually dwells in one society1 and intends and thinks like those who compose the society4 ,if the mind be in any society of heaven1 it then intends and thinks like those who compose that society2 if it be in any society of hell1 it intends and thinks like those who are in the same society2 but so long as a man lives in the world1 so long he wanders from one society to another1 according to the changes of the affections of his will and of the consequent thoughts of his mind3 but after death his wanderings are collected into one1 and a place is accordingly allotted him1 in hell if he is evil1 in heaven if he is good4 ,now since all in hell are influenced by a will of evil1 all there are viewed from that will2 and since all in heaven are influenced by will of good1 all there are viewed from that will2 wherefore imputations after death take place according to the quality of every one's will and understanding4 ,the case is similar with adulteries1 whether they be fornications1 whoredoms1 concubinages1 or adulteries2 for those things are imputed to every one1 not according to the deeds themselves1 but according to the state of the mind in the deeds2 for deeds follow the body into the tomb1 whereas the mind rises again4 #eca4 ,,vi4 ,,thus ,,conjugial ,,love ,,is ,,imputed ,,to ,,every ,,one4 ,there are marriages in which conjugial love does not appear1 and yet is3 and there are marriages in which conjugial love appears and yet is not3 there are several causes in both cases1 which may be known in part from what was related concerning love truly conjugial1 n4 #eg-gc2 concerning the cause of colds and separations1 n4 #bcd-bfj2 and concerning the causes of apparent love and friendship in marriages1 n4 #bga-bib3 but external appearances decide nothing concerning imputation2 the only thing which decides is the conjugial principle1 which abides in every one's will1 and is guarded1 in whatever state of marriage a man is4 ,the conjugial principle is like a scale1 in which that love is weighed2 for the conjugial principle of one man with one wife is the storehouse of human life1 and the reservoir of the ,christian religion1 as was shewn above1 n4 #deg1 #deh2 and this being the case1 it is possible that that love may exist with one married partner1 and not at the same time with the other2 and that it may lie deeper hid than that the man 7homo7 himself can observe any thing concerning it2 and also it may be inscribed in a successive progress of the life4 ,the reason of this is1 because that love in its progress accompanies religion1 and religion1 as it is the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 is the beginning and inoculation of that love2 wherefore conjugial love is imputed to every one after death according to his spiritual rational life2 and for him to whom that love is imputed1 a marriage in heaven is provided after his decease1 whatever has been his marriage in the world4 ,from these considerations then results this short concluding observation1 that no inference is to be drawn concerning any one1 from appearances of marriages or of adulteries1 whereby to decide that he has conjugial love1 or not2 wherefore ,judge not1 lest ye be condemned4 ,matt4 vii4 #a4 99 99 99 99 99 #ecb4 ,to the above ,i will add the following ,,memorable ,,relation4 ,i was once raised1 as to my spirit1 into one of the societies of the angelic heaven2 and instantly some of the wise men of the society came to me1 and said1 ,what news from the earth8 ,i replied1 ,this is new2 the ,lord has revealed arcana which in point of excellence surpass all the arcana heretofore revealed since the beginning of the church4 ,they asked1 ,what are they8 ,i said1 ,the following3 #a4 ,that in every part of the ,word there is a spiritual sense corresponding to the natural sense2 and that by means of the former sense the men of the church have conjunction with the ,lord and consociation with angels2 and that the sanctity of the ,word resides therein4 #b4 ,that the correspondences are discovered of which the spiritual sense of the ,word consists4 ,the angels asked1 ,have the inhabitants of the earth had no previous knowledge respecting correspondences8 ,i said1 ,none at all2 and that the doctrine of correspondences had been concealed for some thousands of years1 ever since the time of ,job2 and that with those who lived at that time1 and before it1 the science of correspondences was their chief science1 whence they derived wisdom1 because they derived knowledge respecting the spiritual things of heaven and the church2 but that this science1 on account of its being made idolatrous1 was so extirpated and destroyed by the divine providence of the ,lord that no visible traces of it were left remaining2 that nevertheless at this time it has been again discovered by the ,lord1 in order that the men of the church may have conjunction with him1 and consociation with the angels2 which purposes are effected by the ,word1 in which all things are correspondences4 ,the angels rejoiced exceedingly to hear that it has pleased the ,lord to reveal this great arcanum1 which had lain so deeply hid for some thousands of years2 and they said it was done in order that the ,christian church1 which is founded on the ,word1 and is now at its end1 may again revive and draw breath through heaven from the ,lord4 ,they inquired whether by that science it is at this day discovered what are signified by baptism and the holy supper1 which have heretofore given birth to so many various conjectures about their true meaning4 ,i replied1 that it is4 #c4 ,i said further1 that a revelation has been made at this day by the ,lord concerning the life of man after death8 ,the angels said1 ,what concerning the life after death8 ,who does not know that a man lives after death8 ,i replied1 ,they know it1 and they do not know it3 they say that it is not the man that lives after death1 but his soul1 and that this lives a spirit2 and the idea they have of a spirit is as of wind or ether1 and that it does not live a man till after the day of the last judgement1 at which time the corporeal parts1 which had been left in the world1 will be recollected and again fitted together into a body1 notwithstanding their having been eaten by worms1 mice1 and fish2 and that thus men will rise again4 ,the angels said1 ,what a notion is this6 ,who does not know that a man lives a man after death1 with this difference alone1 that he then lives a spiritual man1 and that a spiritual man sees a spiritual man1 as a material man sees a material man1 and that they know no distinction1 except that they are in a more perfect state8 #d4 ,the angels inquired1 ,what do they know concerning our world1 and concerning heaven and hell8 ,i said1 ,nothing at all2 but at this day it has been revealed by the ,lord1 what is the nature and quality of the world in which angels and spirits live1 thus what is the quality of heaven and of hell2 and further1 that angels and spirits are in conjunction with men2 besides many wonderful things respecting them4 ,the angels were glad to hear that it has pleased the ,lord to reveal such things1 that men may no longer be in doubt through ignorance respecting their immortality4 #e4 ,i further said1 that at this day it has been revealed from the ,lord1 that in your world there is a sun1 different from that of our world1 and that the sun of your world is pure love1 and the sun of our world is pure fire2 and that on this account1 whatever proceeds from your sun1 since it is pure love1 partakes of life1 and whatever proceeds from our sun1 since it is pure fire1 does not partake of life2 and that hence is the difference between spiritual and natural1 which difference1 heretofore unknown1 has been also revealed3 hereby also is made known the source of the light which enlightens the human understanding with wisdom1 and the source of the heat which kindles the human will with heat4 #f4 ,it has been further discovered1 that there are three degrees of life1 and that hence there are three heavens2 and that the human mind is distinguished into those degrees1 and that hence man 7homo7 corresponds to the three heavens4 ,the angels said1 ,did not they know this heretofore8 ,i answered1 ,they were acquainted with a distinction of degrees in relation to greater and less1 but not in relation to prior and posterior4 #g4 ,the angels inquired whether any other things have been revealed8 ,i replied ,several2 namely1 concerning the last judgement3 concerning the ,lord1 that he is ,god of heaven and earth2 that ,god is one both in person and essence1 in whom there is a divine trinity2 and that he is the ,lord3 also concerning the new church to be established by him1 and concerning the doctrine of that church2 concerning the sanctity of the sacred scripture2 that the ,apocalypse also has been revealed1 which could not be revealed even as to a single verse except by the ,lord2 moreover concerning the inhabitants of the planets1 and the earths in the universe2 besides several memorable and wonderful relations from the spiritual world1 whereby several things relating to wisdom have been revealed from heaven4 #ecc4 ,the angels were exceedingly rejoiced at this information2 but they perceived that ,i was sorrowful1 and asked the cause of my sorrow4 ,i said1 because the above arcana1 at this day revealed by the ,lord1 although in excellence and worth exceeding all the knowledges heretofore published1 are yet considered on earth as of no value4 ,the angels wondered at this1 and besought the ,lord that they might be allowed to look down into the world3 they did so1 and lo6 mere darkness was therein3 and they were told1 that those arcana should be written on a paper1 which should be let down to the earth1 and they would see a prodigy3 and it was done so2 and lo6 the paper on which those arcana were written1 was let down from heaven1 and in its progress1 while it was in the world of spirits1 it shone as a bright star2 but when it descended into the natural world1 the light disappeared1 and it was darkened in the degree to which it fell3 and while it was let down by the angels in companies consisting of men of learning and erudition1 both clergy and laity1 there was heard a murmur from many1 in which were these expressions1 ,what have we here8 ,is it any thing or nothing8 ,what matters it whether we know these things or not8 ,are they not mere creatures of the brain8 ,and it appeared as if some of them took the paper and folded it1 rolling and unrolling it with their fingers1 that they might deface the writing2 and it appeared as if some tore it in pieces1 and some were desirous to trample it under their feet3 but they were prevented by the ,lord from proceeding to such enormity1 and charge was given to the angels to draw it back and secure it3 and as the angels were affected with sadness1 and thought with themselves how long this was to be the case1 it was said1 ,for a time1 and times1 and half a time1 ,rev4 xii4 #ad4 #ecd4 ,after this ,i conversed with the angels1 informing them that somewhat further is revealed in the world by the ,lord4 ,they asked1 ,what8 ,i said1 ,concerning love truly conjugial and its heavenly delights4 ,the angels said1 ,who does not know that the delights of conjugial love exceed those of all other loves8 and who cannot see1 that into some love are collected all the blessednesses1 satisfactions1 and delights1 which can possibly be conferred by the ,lord1 and that the receptacle thereof is love truly conjugial1 which is capable of receiving and perceiving them fully and sensibly8 ,i replied1 ,they do not know this1 because they have not come to the ,lord1 and lived according to his precepts1 by shunning evils as sins and doing goods2 and love truly conjugial with its delights is solely from the ,lord1 and is given to those who live according to his precepts2 thus it is given to those who are received into the ,lord's new church1 which is meant in the ,apocalypse by the ,new ,jerusalem4 ,to this ,i added1 ,i am in doubt whether in the world at this day they are willing to believe that this love in itself is a spiritual love1 and hence grounded in religion1 because they entertain only a corporeal idea respecting it4 ,then they said to me1 ,write respecting it1 and follow revelation2 and afterwards the book written respecting it shall be sent down from us out of heaven1 and we shall see whether the things contained in it are received2 and at the same time whether they are willing to acknowledge1 that that love is according to the state of religion with man1 spiritual with the spiritual1 natural with the natural1 and merely carnal with adulterers4 #ece4 ,after this ,i heard an outrageous murmur from below1 and at the same time these words1 ,do miracles2 and we will believe you4 ,and ,i asked1 ,are not the things above-mentioned miracles8 ,answer was made1 ,they are not4 ,i again asked1 ,what miracles then do you mean8 ,and it was said1 ,disclose and reveal things to come2 and we will have faith4 ,but ,i replied1 ,such disclosures and revelation are not granted from heaven2 since in proportion as a man knows things to come1 in the same proportion his reason and understanding1 together with his wisdom and prudence1 fall into an indolence of inexertion1 grow torpid1 and decay4 ,again ,i asked1 ,what other miracles shall ,i do8 ,and a cry was made1 ,do such miracles as ,moses did in ,egypt4 ,to this ,i answered1 ,possibly you may harden your hearts against them as ,pharaoh and the ,egyptians did4 ,and reply was made1 ,we will not4 ,but again ,i said1 ,assure me of a certainty1 that you will not dance about a golden calf and adore it1 as the posterity of ,jacob did within a month after they had seen the whole ,mount ,sinai on fire1 and heard ,jehovah himself speaking out of the fire1 thus after the greatest of all miracles2 7a golden calf in the spiritual sense denotes the pleasure of the flesh27 and reply was made from below1 ,we will not be like the posterity of ,jacob4 ,but at that instant ,i heard it said to them from heaven1 ,if ye believe not ,moses and the prophets1--that is1 the ,word of the ,lord1 ye will not believe from miracles1 any more than the sons of ,jacob did in the wilderness1 nor any more than they believed when they saw with their own eyes the miracles done by the ,lord himself1 while he was in the world4 ,,general ,,index4 ,,part ,,the ,,first4 ,,preliminary ,,relations ,,respecting ,,the ,,joys ,,of ,,heaven ,,and ,,nuptials ,,there1 n4 #a-bf4 ,,on ,,marriages ,,in ,,heaven1 n4 #bg-da4 ,a man lives a man after death1 n4 #bh-ca4 ,in this case a male is a male1 and a female a female1 n4 #cb1 #cc4 ,every one's peculiar love remains with him after death1 n4 #cd-cf4 ,the love of the sex especially remains2 and with those who go to heaven1 which is the case with all who become spiritual here on earth1 conjugial love remains1 n4 #cg1 #ch4 ,these things fully confirmed by ocular demonstration1 n4 #ci4 ,consequently there are marriages in heaven1 n4 #dj4 ,spiritual nuptials are to be understood by the ,lord's words1 ,after the resurrection they are not given in marriage1 n4 #da4 ,,on ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,married ,,partners ,,after ,,death1 n4 #de-ed4 ,the love of the sex remains with every man after death1 according to its interior quality2 that is1 such as it had been in his interior will and thought in the world1 n4 #df1 #dg4 ,conjugial love in like manner remains such as it has been anteriorly2 that is1 such as it had been in the man's interior will and thought in the world1 n4 #dh4 ,married partners most commonly meet after death1 know each other1 again associate1 and for a time live together3 this is the case in the first state1 thus while they are in externals as in the world1 n4 #dg994 ,but successively1 as they put off their externals and enter into their internals1 they perceive what had been the quality of their love and inclination for each other1 and consequently whether they can live together or not1 n4 #dh994 ,if they can live together1 they remain married partners2 but if they cannot1 they separate1 sometimes the husband from the wife1 sometimes the wife from the husband1 and sometimes each from the other1 n4 #di4 ,in this case there is given to the man a suitable wife1 and to the woman a suitable husband1 n4 #ej4 ,married pairs enjoy similar communications with each other as in the world1 but more delightful and blessed1 yet without prolification2 in the place of which they experience spiritual prolification1 which is that of love and wisdom1 n4 #ea1 #eb4 ,this is the case with those who go to heaven2 but it is otherwise with those who go to hell1 n4 #ec1 #ed4 ,,on ,,love ,,truly ,,conjugial1 n4 #eg-gc4 ,there exists a love truly conjugial1 which at this day is so rare1 that it is not known what is its quality1 and scarcely that it exists1 n4 #eh1 #ei4 ,this love originates in the marriage of good and truth1 n4 #fj1 #fa4 ,there is a correspondence of this love with the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 n4 #fb1 #fc4 ,this love1 from its origin and correspondence1 is celestial1 spiritual1 holy1 pure1 and clean1 above every other love imparted by the ,lord to the angels of heaven and the men of the church1 n4 #fd4 ,it is also the foundation love of all celestial and spiritual loves1 and thence of all natural loves1 n4 #fe-fg4 ,into this love are collected all joys and delights from first to last1 n4 #fh1 #fi4 ,none1 however1 come into this love1 and can remain in it1 but those who approach the ,lord1 and love the truths of the church1 and practise its goods1 n4 #gj-gb4 ,this love was the love of loves with the ancients1 who lived in the golden1 silver1 and copper ages1 n4 #gc4 ,,on ,,the ,,origin ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,as ,,grounded ,,in ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,good ,,and ,,truth n4 #hc-ajb4 ,good and truth are the universals of creation1 and thence are in all created things2 but they are in created subjects according to the form of each1 n4 #hd-hf4 ,there is neither solitary good nor solitary truth2 but in all cases they are conjoined1 n4 #hg4 ,there is the truth of good1 and from this the good of truth2 or truth grounded in good1 and good grounded in that truth2 and in those two principles is implanted from creation an inclination to join themselves together into a one1 n4 #hh1 #hi4 ,in the subjects of the animal kingdom1 the truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 is male 7or masculine72 and the good of that truth1 or good grounded in that truth1 is female 7or feminine71 n4 #ij1 #ia4 ,from the influx of the marriage of good and truth from the ,lord1 the love of the sex and conjugial love are derived1 n4 #ib1 #ic4 ,the love of the sex belongs to the external or natural man2 and hence it is common to every animal1 n4 #id4 ,but conjugial love belongs to the internal or spiritual man2 and hence this love is peculiar to man1 n4 #ie1 #if4 ,with man conjugial love is in the love of the sex as a gem in its matrix1 n4 #ig4 ,the love of the sex with man is not the origin of conjugial love1 but its first rudiment2 thus it is like an external natural principle1 in which an internal spiritual principle is implanted1 n4 #ih4 ,during the implantation of conjugial love1 the love of the sex inverts itself1 and becomes the chaste love of the sex1 n4 #ii4 ,the male and the female were created to be the essential form of the marriage of good and truth1 n4 #ajj4 ,married partners are that form in their inmost principles1 and thence in what is derived from those principles1 in proportion as the interiors of their minds are opened1 n4 #aja1 #ajb4 ,,on ,,the ,,marriage ,,of ,,the ,,lord ,,and ,,the ,,church1 ,,and ,,its ,,correspondence1 n4 #aaf-aca4 ,the ,lord in the ,word is called the ,bridegroom and ,husband1 and the church the bride and wife2 and the conjunction of the ,lord with the church1 and the reciprocal conjunction of the church with the ,lord1 is called a marriage1 n4 #aag4 ,the ,lord is also called a ,father1 and the church1 a mother1 n4 #aah1 #aai4 ,the offspring derived from the ,lord as a husband and father1 and from the church as a wife and mother1 are all spiritual2 and in the spiritual sense of the ,word are understood by sons and daughters1 brothers and sisters1 sons-in-law and daughters-in-law1 and by other names of relations1 n4 #abj4 ,the spiritual offspring which are born from the ,lord's marriage with the church1 are truths and goods2 truths1 from which are derived understanding1 perception1 and all thought2 and goods1 from which are derived love1 charity1 and all affection1 n4 #aba4 ,from the marriage of good and truth1 which proceeds from the ,lord in the way of influx1 man receives truth1 and the ,lord conjoins good thereto2 and thus the church is formed by the ,lord with man1 n4 #abb-abd4 ,the husband does not represent the ,lord1 and the wife the church2 because both together1 the husband and the wife1 constitute the church1 n4 #abe4 ,therefore there is not a correspondence of the husband with the ,lord1 and of the wife with the church1 in the marriages of the angels in the heavens1 and of men on earth1 n4 #abf4 ,but there is a correspondence with conjugial love1 semination1 prolification1 the love of infants1 and similar things which exist in marriages and are derived from them1 n4 #abg4 ,the ,word is the medium of conjunction1 because it is from the ,lord1 and thereby is the ,lord1 n4 #abh4 ,the church is from the ,lord1 and exists with those who come to him and live according to his precepts1 n4 #abi4 ,conjugial love is according to the state of the church1 because it is according to the state of wisdom with man1 n4 #acj4 ,and as the church is from the ,lord1 conjugial love is also from him1 n4 #aca4 ,,on ,,the ,,chaste ,,principle ,,and ,,the ,,non-,,chaste1 n4 #ach-aef4 ,the chaste principle and the non-chaste are predicated only of marriages and of such things as relate to marriages1 n4 #aci1 #adj4 ,the chaste principle is predicated only of monogamical marriages1 or of the marriage of one man with one wife1 n4 #ada4 ,the ,christian conjugial principle alone is chaste1 n4 #adb4 ,love truly conjugial is essential chastity1 n4 #adc4 ,all the delights of love truly conjugial1 even the ultimate1 are chaste1 n4 #add4 ,with those who are made spiritual by the ,lord1 conjugial love is more and more purified and rendered chaste1 n4 #ade1 #adf4 ,the chastity of marriage exists by a total renunciation of whoredoms from a principle of religion1 n4 #adg-adi4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of infants1 or of boys and girls1 or of young men and maidens before they feel in themselves a love of the sex1 n4 #aej4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of eunuchs so made1 n4 #aea4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who do not believe adulteries to be evils in regard to religion2 and still less of those who do not believe them to be hurtful to society1 n4 #aeb4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who abstain from adulteries only for various external reasons1 n4 #aec4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who believe marriages to be unchaste1 n4 #aed4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who have renounced marriage by vows of perpetual celibacy1 unless there be and remain in them the love of a life truly conjugial1 n4 #aee4 ,a state of marriage is to be preferred to a state of celibacy1 n4 #aef4 ,,on ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,souls ,,and ,,minds ,,by ,,marriage1 ,,which ,,is ,,meant ,,by ,,the ,,lord',s ,,words1--,,they ,,are ,,no ,,longer ,,two ,,but ,,one ,,flesh1 n4 #aef99-aha4 ,from creation there is implanted in each sex a faculty and inclination1 whereby they are able and willing to be joined together as it were into a one1 n4 #aeg4 ,conjugial love conjoins two souls1 and thence two minds1 into a one1 n4 #aeh4 ,the will of the wife conjoins itself with the understanding of the man1 and thence the understanding of the man with the will of the wife1 n4 #aei4 ,the inclination to unite the man to herself is constant and perpetual with the wife1 but inconstant and alternate with the man1 n4 #afj4 ,conjunction is inspired into the man from the wife according to her love1 and is received by the man according to his wisdom1 n4 #afa4 ,this conjunction is effected successively from the first days of marriage2 and with those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 it is effected more and more thoroughly to eternity1 n4 #afb4 ,the conjunction of the wife with the rational wisdom of the husband is effected from within1 but with his moral wisdom from without1 n4 #afc-afe4 ,for the sake of this conjunction as an end1 the wife has a perception of the affections of her husband1 and also the utmost prudence in moderating them1 n4 #aff4 ,wives conceal this perception with themselves1 and hide it from their husbands for reasons of necessity1 in order that conjugial love1 friendship1 and confidence1 and thereby the blessedness of dwelling together1 and the happiness of life may be secured1 n4 #afg4 ,this perception is the wisdom of the wife1 and is not communicable to the man2 neither is the rational wisdom of the man communicable to the wife1 n4 #afh4 ,the wife from a principle of love is continually thinking about the man's inclination to her1 with the purpose of joining him to herself2 it is otherwise with the man1 n4 #afi4 ,the wife conjoins herself to the man by applications to the desires of his will1 n4 #agj4 ,the wife is conjoined to her husband by the sphere of her life flowing from the love of him1 n4 #aga4 ,the wife is conjoined to the husband by the appropriation of the powers of his virtue2 which however is effected according to their mutual spiritual love1 n4 #agb4 ,thus the wife receives in herself the image of her husband1 and thence perceives1 sees1 and is sensible of his affections1 n4 #agc4 ,there are duties proper to the husband1 and others proper to the wife2 and the wife cannot enter into the duties proper to the husband1 nor the husband into the duties proper to the wife1 so as to perform them aright1 n4 #agd1 #age4 ,these duties also1 according to mutual aid1 conjoin the two into a one1 and at the same time constitute one house1 n4 #agf4 ,married partners1 according to these conjunctions1 become one man more and more1 n4 #agg4 ,those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 are sensible of their being a united man1 as it were one flesh1 n4 #agh4 ,love truly conjugial1 considered in itself1 is a union of souls1 a conjunction of minds1 and an endeavour towards conjunction in the bosoms1 and thence in the body1 n4 #agi4 ,the states of this love are innocence1 peace1 tranquillity1 inmost friendship1 full confidence1 and a mutual desire of mind and heart to do every good to each other2 and the states derived from these are blessedness1 satisfaction1 delight1 and pleasure2 and from the eternal enjoyment of these is derived heavenly felicity1 n4 #ahj4 ,these things can only exist in the marriage of one man with one wife1 n4 #aha4 ,,on ,,the ,,change ,,of ,,the ,,state ,,of ,,life ,,which ,,takes ,,place ,,with ,,men ,,and ,,women ,,by ,,marriage1 n4 #ahd-bjf ,the state of a man's life1 from infancy even to the end of his life1 and afterwards to eternity1 is continually changing1 n4 #ahe4 ,in like manner a man's internal form1 which is that of his spirit1 is continually changing n4 #ahf4 ,these changes differ in the case of men and of women2 since men from creation are forms of knowledge1 intelligence1 and wisdom1 and women are forms of the love of those principles as existing with men1 n4 #ahg4 ,with men there is an elevation of the mind into superior light1 and with women an elevation of the mind into superior heat2 and the woman is made sensible of the delights of her heat in the man's light1 n4 #ahh1 #ahi4 ,with both men and women1 the states of life before marriage are different from what they are afterwards1 n4 #aij4 ,with married partners the states of life after marriage are changed1 and succeed each other according to the conjunctions of their minds by conjugial love1 n4 #aia4 ,marriage also induces other forms in the souls and minds of married partners1 n4 #aib4 ,the woman is actually formed into a wife1 according to the description in the book of creation1 n4 #aic4 ,this formation is effected on the part of the wife by secret means3 and this is meant by the woman's being created while the man slept1 n4 #aid4 ,this formation on the part of the wife1 is effected by the conjunction of her own will with the internal will of the man1 n4 #aie4 ,the end herein is1 that the will of both may become one1 and that thus both may become one man1 n4 #aif4 ,this formation 7on the part of the wife7 is effected by an appropriation of the affections of the husband1 n4 #aig4 ,this formation 7on the part of the wife7 is effected by a reception of the propagations of the soul of the husband1 with the delight arising from her desire to be the love of her husband's wisdom1 n4 #aih4 ,thus a maiden is formed into a wife1 and a youth into a husband1 n4 #aii4 ,in the marriage of one man with one wife1 between whom there exists love truly conjugial1 the wife becomes more and more a wife1 and the husband more and more a husband1 n4 #bjj4 ,thus also their forms are successively perfected and ennobled from within1 n4 #bja4 ,children born of parents who are principled in love truly conjugial1 derive from them the conjugial principle of good and truth1 whence they have an inclination and faculty1 if sons1 to perceive the things relating to wisdom2 and if daughters1 to love those things which wisdom teaches1 n4 #bjb-bje4 ,the reason of this is1 because the soul of the offspring is from the father1 and its clothing from the mother1 n4 #bjf4 ,,universals ,,respecting ,,marriages1 n4 #bji-bcj4 ,the sense proper to conjugial love is the sense of touch1 n4 #baj4 ,with those who are in love truly conjugial1 the faculty of growing wise increases2 but with those who are not1 it decreases1 n4 #baa1 #bab4 ,with those who are in love truly conjugial1 the happiness of dwelling together increases2 but with those who are not1 it decreases1 n4 #bac4 ,with those who are in love truly conjugial1 conjunction of minds increases1 and therewith friendship2 but with those who are not1 they both decrease1 n4 #bad4 ,those who are in love truly conjugial1 continually desire to be one man2 but those who are not in conjugial love1 desire to be two1 n4 #bae4 ,those who are in love truly conjugial1 in marriage have respect to what is eternal2 but with those who are not1 the case is reversed1 n4 #baf4 ,conjugial love resides with chaste wives2 but still their love depends on the husbands1 n4 #baf994 ,wives love the bonds of marriage1 if the men do1 n4 #bag4 ,the intelligence of women is in itself modest1 elegant1 pacific1 yielding1 soft1 tender2 but the intelligence of men is in itself grave1 harsh1 hard1 daring1 fond of licentiousness1 n4 #bah4 ,wives are in no excitation as men are2 but they have a state of preparation for reception1 n4 #bai4 ,men have abundant store according to the love of propagating the truths of wisdom1 and to the love of doing uses1 n4 #bbj4 ,determination is in the good pleasure of the husband1 n4 #bba4 ,the conjugial sphere flows from the ,lord through heaven into everything in the universe1 even to its ultimates1 n4 #bbb4 ,this sphere is received by the female sex1 and through that is transferred to the male sex1 n4 #bbc4 ,where there is love truly conjugial1 this sphere is received by the wife1 and only through her by the husband1 n4 #bbd4 ,where there is love not conjugial1 this sphere is received indeed by the wife1 but not by the husband through her1 n4 #bbe4 ,love truly conjugial may exist with one of the married partners1 and not at the same time with the other1 n4 #bbf4 ,there are various similitudes and dissimilitudes1 both internal and external1 with married partners1 n4 #bbg4 ,various similitudes can be conjoined1 but not with dissimilitudes1 n4 #bbh4 ,the ,lord provides similitudes for those who desire love truly conjugial1 and if not on earth he yet provides them in heaven1 n4 #bbi4 ,a man1 according to the deficiency and loss of conjugial love1 approaches to the nature of a beast1 n4 #bcj4 ,,on ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,coldness1 ,,separation1 ,,and ,,divorce ,,in ,,marriages1 n4 #bcd-bfj4 ,there are spiritual heat and spiritual cold2 and spiritual heat is love1 and spiritual cold is the privation thereof1 n4 #bce4 ,spiritual cold in marriages is a disunion of souls and a disjunction of minds1 whence come indifference1 discord1 contempt1 disdain1 and aversion2 from which1 in several cases1 at length comes separation as to bed1 chamber1 and house1 n4 #bcf4 ,there are several successive causes of cold1 some internal1 some external1 and some accidental1 n4 #bcg4 ,internal causes of cold are from religion1 n4 #bch1 #bci4 ,of internal causes of cold the first is the rejection of religion by each of the parties1 n4 #bdj4 ,of internal causes of cold the second is that one of the parties has religion and not the other1 n4 #bda4 ,of internal causes of cold the third is1 that one of the parties is of one religion and the other of another1 n4 #bdb4 ,of internal causes of cold the fourth is1 the falsity of the religion1 n4 #bdc4 ,with many1 the above-mentioned are causes of internal cold1 but not at the same time of external1 n4 #bdd1 #bde4 ,there are also several external causes of cold1 the first of which is dissimilitude of minds and manner1 n4 #bdf4 ,of external causes of cold the second is1 that conjugial love is believed to be the same as adulterous love1 only that the latter is not allowed by law1 but the former is1 n4 #bdg4 ,of external causes of cold the third is1 a striving for preeminence between married partners1 n4 #bdh4 ,of external causes of cold the fourth is1 a want of determination to any employment or business1 whence comes wandering passion1 n4 #bdi4 ,of external causes of cold the fifth is1 inequality of external rank and condition1 n4 #bej4 ,there are also causes of separation1 n4 #bea4 ,the first cause of legitimate separation is a vitiated state of mind1 n4 #beb4 ,the second cause of legitimate separation is a vitiated state of body1 n4 #bec4 ,the third cause of legitimate separation is impotence before marriage1 n4 #bed4 ,adultery is the cause of divorce1 n4 #bee4 ,there are also several accidental causes of cold2 the first of which is1 that enjoyment is common 7or cheap71 because continually allowed1 n4 #bef4 ,of accidental causes of cold the second is1 that living with a married partner1 from a covenant and contract1 seems forced and not free1 n4 #beg4 ,of accidental causes of cold the third is1 affirmation on the part of the wife1 and her talking incessantly about love1 n4 #beh4 ,of accidental causes of cold the fourth is1 the man's continually thinking that his wife is willing1 and on the other hand1 the wife's thinking that the man is not willing1 n4 #bei4 ,as cold is in the mind1 it is also in the body2 and according to the increase of that cold1 the externals also of the body are closed1 n4 #bfj4 ,,on ,,the ,,causes ,,of ,,apparent ,,love1 ,,friendship1 ,,and ,,favor ,,in ,,marriages1 n4 #bga-bib4 ,in the natural world almost all are capable of being joined together as to external1 but not as to internal affections1 if these disagree and are apparent1 n4 #bgb4 ,in the spiritual world all are conjoined according to internal1 but not according to external affections1 unless these act in unity with the internal1 n4 #bgc4 ,it is the external affections1 according to which matrimony is generally contracted in the world1 n4 #bgd4 ,but in case they are not influenced by internal affections which conjoin minds1 the bonds of matrimony are loosed in the house1 n4 #bge4 ,nevertheless those bonds must continue in the world till the decease of one of the parties1 n4 #bgf4 ,in cases of matrimony1 in which the internal affections do not conjoin1 there are external affections1 which assume a semblance of the internal1 and tend to consociate1 n4 #bgg4 ,thence come apparent love1 friendship1 and favor between married partners1 n4 #bgh4 ,these appearances are assumed conjugial semblances1 and they are commendable1 because useful and necessary1 n4 #bgi4 ,these assumed conjugial semblances1 in the case of a spiritual man conjoined to a natural1 are founded in justice and judgement1 n4 #bhj4 ,for various reasons1 these assumed conjugial semblances with natural men are founded in prudence1 n4 #bha4 ,they are for the sake of amendment and accommodation1 n4 #bhb4 ,they are for the sake of preserving order in domestic affairs1 and for the sake of mutual aid1 n4 #bhc4 ,they are for the sake of unanimity in the care of infants and the education of children1 n4 #bhd4 ,they are for the sake of peace in the house1 n4 #bhe4 ,they are for the sake of reputation out of the house1 n4 #bhf4 ,they are for the sake of various favors expected from the married partner1 or from his or her relations1 and thus from the fear of losing such favors1 n4 #bhg4 ,they are for the sake of having blemishes excused1 and thereby of avoiding disgrace1 n4 #bhh4 ,they are for the sake of reconciliations1 n4 #bhi4 ,in case favor does not cease with the wife1 when faculty ceases with the man1 there may exist a friendship resembling conjugial friendship when the parties grow old1 n4 #bij4 ,there are various species of apparent love and friendship between married partners1 one of whom is brought under the yoke1 and therefore is subject to the other1 n4 #bia4 ,in the world there are infernal marriages between persons who interiorly are the most inveterate enemies1 and exteriorly are as the closest friends1 n4 #bib4 ,,on ,,betrothings ,,and ,,nuptials1 n4 #bie-cad4 ,the right of choice belongs to the man1 and not to the woman1 n4 #bif4 ,the man ought to court and intreat the woman respecting marriage with him1 and not the woman the man1 n4 #big4 ,the woman ought to consult her parents1 or those who are in the place of parents1 and then deliberate with herself before she consents1 n4 #bih1 #bii4 ,after a declaration of consent1 pledges are to be given1 n4 #cjj4 ,consent is to be secured and established by solemn betrothing1 n4 #cja4 ,by betrothing1 each party is prepared for conjugial love1 n4 #cjb4 ,by betrothing1 the mind of the one is united to the mind of the other1 so as to effect a marriage of the spirit previous to a marriage of the body1 n4 #cjc4 ,this is the case with those who think chastely of marriages2 but it is otherwise with those who think unchastely of them1 n4 #cjd4 ,within the time of betrothing it is not allowable to be connected corporeally1 n4 #cje4 ,when the time of betrothing is completed1 the nuptials ought to take place1 n4 #cjf4 ,previous to the celebration of the nuptials1 the conjugial covenant is to be ratified in the presence of witnesses1 n4 #cjg4 ,marriage is to be consecrated by a priest1 n4 #cjh4 ,the nuptials are to be celebrated with festivity1 n4 #cji4 ,after the nuptials1 the marriage of the spirit is made also the marriage of the body1 and thereby a full marriage1 n4 #caj4 ,such is the order of conjugial love with its modes1 from its first heat to its first torch1 n4 #caa4 ,conjugial love precipitated without order and the modes thereof1 burns up the marrows1 and is consumed1 n4 #cab4 ,the states of the minds of each of the parties proceeding in successive order1 flow into the state of marriage2 nevertheless in one manner with the spiritual and in another with the natural1 n4 #cac4 ,there are successive and simultaneous order1 and the latter is from the former and according to it1 n4 #cad4 ,,on ,,repeated ,,marriages1 n4 #cag-cee4 ,after the death of a married partner1 again to contract wedlock1 depends on the preceding conjugial love1 n4 #cah4 ,after the death of a married partner1 again to contract wedlock1 depends also on the state of marriage in which the parties had lived1 n4 #cai4 ,with those who have not been in love truly conjugial1 there is no obstacle or hindrance to their again contracting wedlock1 n4 #cbj4 ,those who had lived together in love truly conjugial1 are unwilling to marry again1 except for reasons separate from conjugial love1 n4 #cba4 ,the state of a marriage of a youth with a maiden differs from that of a youth with a widow1 n4 #cbb4 ,also the state of marriage of a widower with a maiden differs from that of a widower with a widow1 n4 #cbc4 ,the varieties and diversities of these marriages1 as to love and its attributes1 are innumerable1 n4 #cbd4 ,the state of a widow is more grievous that that of a widower n4 #cbe4 ,,on ,,polygamy1 n4 #ccb-ceb4 ,love truly conjugial can only exist with one wife1 consequently neither can friendship1 confidence1 ability truly conjugial1 and such a conjunction of minds that two may be one flesh1 n4 #ccc1 #ccd4 ,thus celestial blessedness1 spiritual satisfactions1 and natural delights1 which from the beginning were provided for those who are in love truly conjugial1 can only exist with one wife1 n4 #cce4 ,all those things can only exist from the ,lord alone2 and they do not exist with any but those who come to him alone1 and live according to his commandments1 n4 #ccf4 ,consequently love truly conjugial with its felicities can only exist with those who are of the ,christian church1 n4 #ccg4 ,therefore a ,christian is not allowed to marry more than one wife1 n4 #cch4 ,if a ,christian marries several wives1 he commits not only natural but also spiritual adultery1 n4 #cci4 ,the ,israelitish nation was permitted to marry several wives1 because they had not the ,christian church1 and consequently love truly conjugial could not exist with them1 n4 #cdj4 ,at this day the ,mahometans are permitted to marry several wives1 because they do not acknowledge the ,lord ,jesus ,christ to be one with ,jehovah the ,father1 and thereby to be the ,god of heaven and earth1 and hence cannot receive love truly conjugial1 n4 #cda4 ,the ,mahometan heaven is out of the ,christian heaven1 and is divided into two heavens1 the inferior and the superior2 and only those are elevated into their superior heaven1 who renounce concubines1 and live with one wife1 and acknowledge our ,lord as equal to ,god the ,father1 to whom is given dominion over heaven and earth1 n4 #cdb-cdd4 ,polygamy is lasciviousness1 n4 #cde4 ,conjugial chastity1 purity1 and sanctity1 cannot exist with polygamists1 n4 #cdf4 ,a polygamist1 so long as he remains such1 cannot become spiritual1 n4 #cdg4 ,polygamy is not sin with those who live in it from a religious notion1 n4 #cdh4 ,polygamy is not sin with those who are in ignorance respecting the ,lord1 n4 #cdi1 #cej4 ,of these1 although polygamists1 such are saved as acknowledge a ,god1 and from a religious notion live according to the civil laws of justice1 n4 #cea4 ,but none either of the latter or of the former can be associated with the angels in the ,christian heavens1 n4 #ceb4 ,,on ,,jealousy1 n4 #ceg-cgi4 ,zeal considered in itself is like the ardent fire of love1 n4 #ceh4 ,the burning or flame of that love1 which is zeal1 is a spiritual burning or flame1 arising from an infestation and assault of the love1 n4 #cef-cfa4 ,the quality of a man's zeal is according to the quality of his love2 thus it differs according as the love is good or evil1 n4 #cfb4 ,the zeal of a good love and the zeal of an evil love1 are alike in externals1 but altogether different in internals1 n4 #cfc1 #cfd4 ,the zeal of a good love in its internals contains a hidden store of love and friendship3 but the zeal of an evil love in its internals contains a hidden store of hatred and revenge1 n4 #cfe1 #cff4 ,the zeal of conjugial love is called jealousy1 n4 #cfg4 ,jealousy is like an ardent fire against those who infest love exercised towards a married partner1 and like a terrible fear for the loss of that love1 n4 #cfh4 ,there is spiritual jealousy with monogamists1 and natural with polygamists1 n4 #cfi1 #cgj4 ,jealousy with those married partners who tenderly love each other1 is a just grief grounded in sound reason1 lest conjugial love should be divided1 and should thereby perish1 n4 #cga1 #cgb4 ,jealousy1 with married partners who do not love each other1 is grounded in several causes2 arising in some instances from various mental weaknesses1 n4 #cgc-cge4 ,in some instances there is not any jealousy2 and this also from various causes1 n4 #cgf4 ,there is a jealousy also in regard to concubines1 but not such as in regard to wives1 n4 #cgg4 ,jealousy likewise exists among beasts and birds1 n4 #cgh4 ,the jealousy of men and husbands is different from that of women and wives1 n4 #cgi4 ,,on ,,the ,,conjunction ,,of ,,conjugial ,,love ,,with ,,the ,,love ,,of ,,infants1 n4 #che-dad4 ,two universal spheres proceed from the ,lord to preserve the universe in its created state2 of which the one is the sphere of procreating1 and the other the sphere of protecting the things procreated1 n4 #chf4 ,these two universal spheres make a one with the sphere of conjugial love and the sphere of the love of infants1 n4 #chg4 ,these two spheres universally and singularly flow into all things of heaven and all things of the world1 from first to last1 n4 #chh-cij4 ,the sphere of the love of infants is a sphere of protection and support of those who cannot protect and support themselves1 n4 #cia4 ,this sphere affects both the evil and the good1 and disposes every one to love1 protect1 and support his offspring from his own love1 n4 #cib4 ,this sphere principally affects the female sex1 thus mothers2 and the male sex1 or fathers1 by derivation from them1 n4 #cic4 ,this sphere is also a sphere of innocence and peace 7from the ,lord17 n4 #cid4 ,the sphere of innocence flows into infants1 and through them into the parents1 and affects them1 n4 #cie4 ,it also flows into the souls of the parents1 and unites with the same sphere with the infants2 and it is principally insinuated by means of the touch1 n4 #cif1 #cig4 ,in the degree in which innocence retires from infants1 affection and conjunction also abate1 and this successively1 even to separation1 n4 #cih4 ,a state of rational innocence and peace with parents towards infants1 is grounded in the circumstance1 that they know nothing and can do nothing from themselves1 but from others1 especially from the father and mother2 and this state successively retires1 in proportion as they know and have ability from themselves1 and not from others1 n4 #cii4 ,the sphere of the love of procreating advances in order from the end through causes into effects1 and makes periods2 whereby creation is preserved in the state foreseen and provided for1 n4 #djj1 #dja4 ,the love of infants descends1 and does not ascend1 n4 #djb4 ,wives have one state of love before conception1 and another state after1 even to the birth1 n4 #djc4 ,with parents conjugial love is conjoined with the love of infants by spiritual causes1 and thence by natural1 n4 #djd4 ,the love of infants and children is different with spiritual married partners from what it is with natural1 n4 #dje-djg4 ,with the spiritual1 that love is from what is interior or prior1 but with the natural1 from what is exterior or posterior1 n4 #djh4 ,in consequence hereof that love prevails with married partners who mutually love each other1 and also with those who do not at all love each other1 n4 #dji4 ,the love of infants remains after death1 especially with women1 n4 #daj4 ,infants are educated under the ,lord's auspices by such women1 and grow in stature and intelligence as in the world1 n4 #daa1 #dab4 ,it is there provided by the ,lord1 that with those infants the innocence of infancy becomes the innocence of wisdom1 7and thus they become angels7 n4 #dac1 #dad4 ,,part ,,the ,,second4 ,,preliminary ,,note ,,by ,,the ,,editor4 ,,on ,,the ,,opposition ,,of ,,adulterous ,,love ,,and ,,conjugial ,,love1 n4 #dbc-ddc4 ,it is not known what adulterous love is1 unless it be known what conjugial love is1 n4 #dbd4 ,adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love1 n4 #dbe4 ,adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love1 as the natural man viewed in himself is opposed to the spiritual man1 n4 #dbf4 ,adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love1 as the connubial connection of what is evil and false is opposed to the marriage of good and truth1 n4 #dbg1 #dbh4 ,hence adulterous love is opposed to conjugial love as hell is to heaven1 n4 #dbi4 ,the impurity of hell is from adulterous love1 and the purity of heaven from conjugial love1 n4 #dcj4 ,in the church1 the impurity and the purity are similarly circumstanced1 n4 #dca4 ,adulterous love more and more makes a man 7homo7 not a man 7homo71 and a man 7vir7 not a man 7vir72 and conjugial love makes a man 7homo7 more and more a man 7homo7 and a man 7vir71 n4 #dcb1 #dcc4 ,there are a sphere of adulterous love and a sphere of conjugial love1 n4 #dcd4 ,the sphere of adulterous love ascends from hell1 and the sphere of conjugial love descends from heaven1 n4 #dce4 ,in each world those two spheres meet1 but do not unite1 n4 #dcf4 ,between those two spheres there is an equilibrium1 and man is in it1 n4 #dcg4 ,a man can turn himself to whichever sphere he pleases2 but so far as he turns himself to the one1 so far he turns himself from the other1 n4 #dch4 ,each sphere brings with it delights1 n4 #dci4 ,the delights of adulterous love commence from the flesh1 and are of the flesh even in the spirit2 but the delights of conjugial love commence in the spirit1 and are of the spirit even in the flesh1 n4 #ddj1 #dda1 ,the delights of adulterous love are the pleasures of insanity2 but the delights of conjugial love are the delights of wisdom1 n4 #ddb1 #ddc4 ,,on ,,fornication1 n4 #ddd99-dfj4 ,fornication is of the love of the sex1 n4 #dde4 ,the love of the sex1 from which fornication is derived1 commences when a youth begins to think and act from his own understanding1 and his voice to be masculine1 n4 #ddf4 ,fornication is of the natural man1 n4 #ddg4 ,fornication is lust1 but not the lust of adultery1 n4 #ddh1 #ddi4 ,with some men1 the love of the sex cannot without hurt be totally checked from going forth into fornication1 n4 #dej4 ,therefore in populous cities public stews are tolerated1 n4 #dea4 ,fornication is light1 so far as it looks to conjugial love1 and gives this love the preference1 n4 #deb4 ,the lust of fornication is grievous1 so far as it looks to adultery1 n4 #dec4 ,the lust of fornication is more grievous as it verges to the desire of varieties and of defloration1 n4 #ded4 ,the sphere of the lust of fornication1 such as it is in the beginning1 is a middle sphere between the sphere of adulterous love and the sphere of conjugial love1 and makes an equilibrium1 n4 #dee4 ,care is to be taken1 lest by immoderate and inordinate fornications conjugial love be destroyed1 n4 #def4 ,inasmuch as the conjugial principle of one man with one wife is the jewel of human life1 and the reservoir of the ,christian religion1 n4 #deg1 #deh4 ,with those who1 from various reasons1 cannot as yet enter into marriage1 and from their passion for the sex1 cannot moderate their lusts1 this conjugial principle may be preserved1 if the vague love of the sex be confined to one mistress1 n4 #dei4 ,keeping a mistress is preferable to vague amours1 provided only one be kept1 and she be neither a maiden nor a married woman1 and the love of the mistress be kept separate from conjugial love1 n4 #dfj4 ,,on ,,concubinage1 n4 #dfb-dgf4 ,there are two kinds of concubinage1 which differ exceedingly from each other1 the one conjointly with a wife1 the other apart from a wife1 n4 #dfc4 ,concubinage conjointly with a wife1 is altogether unlawful for ,christians1 and detestable1 n4 #dfd4 ,it is polygamy1 which has been condemned1 and is to be condemned by the ,christian world1 n4 #dfe4 ,it is an adultery whereby the conjugial principle1 which is the most precious jewel of the ,christian life1 is destroyed1 n4 #dff4 ,concubinage apart from a wife1 when it is engaged in from causes legitimate1 just1 and truly excusatory1 is not unlawful1 n4 #dfg4 ,the legitimate causes of this concubinage are the legitimate causes of divorce1 while the wife is nevertheless retained at home1 n4 #dfh1 #dfi4 ,the just causes of this concubinage are the just causes of separation from the bed1 n4 #dgj4 ,of the excusatory causes of this concubinage some are real and some not1 n4 #dga4 ,the really excusatory causes are such as are grounded in what is just1 n4 #dgb1 #dgc4 ,the excusatory causes which are not real are such as are not grounded in what is just1 although in the appearance of what is just1 n4 #dgd4 ,those who1 from causes legitimate1 just1 and really excusatory1 are engaged in this concubinage1 may at the same time be principled in conjugial love1 n4 #dge4 ,while this concubinage continues1 actual connection with a wife is not allowable1 n4 #dgf4 ,,on ,,adulteries ,,and ,,their ,,genera ,,and ,,degrees1 n4 #dgh-dii4 ,there are three genera of adulteries1--simple1 duplicate1 and triplicate1 n4 #dgi4 ,simple adultery is that of an unmarried man with another's wife1 or of an unmarried woman with another's husband1 n4 #dhj1 #dha4 ,duplicate adultery is that of a husband with another's wife1 or of a wife with another's husband1 n4 #dhb1 #dhc4 ,triplicate adultery is with relations by blood1 n4 #dhd4 ,there are four degrees of adulteries1 according to which they have their predications1 their charges of blame1 and after death their imputation1 n4 #dhe4 ,adulteries of the first degree are adulteries of ignorance1 which are committed by those who cannot as yet1 or cannot at all1 consult the understanding1 and thence check them1 n4 #dhf4 ,in such cases adulteries are mild1 n4 #dhg4 ,adulteries of the second degree are adulteries of lust1 which are committed by those who indeed are able to consult the understanding1 but from accidental causes at the moment are not able1 n4 #dhh4 ,adulteries committed by such persons are imputatory1 according as the understanding afterwards favors them or not1 n4 #dhi4 ,adulteries of the third degree are adulteries of the reason1 which are committed by those who with the understanding confirm themselves in the persuasion that they are not evils of sin1 n4 #dij4 ,the adulteries committed by such persons are grievous1 and are imputed to them according to confirmations1 n4 #dia4 ,adulteries of the fourth degree are adulteries of the will1 which are committed by those who make them lawful and pleasing1 and who do not think them of importance enough to consult the understanding respecting them1 n4 #dib4 ,the adulteries committed by these persons are exceedingly grievous1 and are imputed to them as evils of purpose1 and remain in them as guilt1 n4 #dic4 ,adulteries of the third and fourth degree are evils of sin1 according to the quantity and quality of understanding and will in them1 whether they are actually committed or not1 n4 #did4 ,adulteries grounded in purpose of the will1 and adulteries grounded in confirmation of the understanding1 render men natural1 sensual1 and corporeal1 n4 #die1 #dif4 ,and this to such a degree1 that at length they reject from themselves all things of the church and of religion1 n4 #dig4 ,nevertheless they have the powers of human rationality like other men1 n4 #dih4 ,but they use that rationality while they are in externals1 but abuse it while they are in externals1 n4 #dii4 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,defloration1 n4 #eja-eje4 ,the state of a virgin or undeflowered woman before and after marriage1 n4 #ejb4 ,virginity is the crown of chastity and the certificate of conjugial love1 n4 #ejc4 ,defloration1 without a view to marriage as an end1 is the villany of a robber1 n4 #ejd4 ,the lot of those who have confirmed themselves in the persuasion that the lust of defloration is not an evil of sin1 after death is grievous1 n4 #eje4 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,varieties1 n4 #ejf-eaj4 ,by the lust of varieties is meant the entirely dissolute lust of adultery1 n4 #ejg4 ,that lust is love1 and at the same time loathing1 in regard to the sex1 n4 #ejh4 ,the lot of those 7who have been addicted to that lust7 after death is miserable1 since they have not the inmost principle of life1 n4 #eaj4 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,violation1 n4 #eaa1 #eab4 ,,on ,,the ,,lust ,,of ,,seducing ,,innocencies1 n4 #eac1 #ead4 ,,on ,,the ,,correspondence ,,of ,,adulteries ,,with ,,the ,,violation ,,of ,,spiritual ,,marriage1 n4 #eae-ebj4 ,,on ,,the ,,imputation ,,of ,,each ,,love1 ,,adulterous ,,and ,,conjugial1 n4 #ebc-eca4 ,the evil in which every one is principled1 is imputed to him after death2 and so also the good1 n4 #ebd4 ,the transference of the good of one person into another is impossible1 n4 #ebe4 ,imputation1 if by it is meant such transference1 is a frivolous term1 n4 #ebf4 ,evil or good is imputed to every one according to the quality of his will and of his understanding1 n4 #ebg-ebi4 ,thus adulterous love is imputed to every one1 n4 #ecj4 ,thus also conjugial love is imputed to every one1 n4 #eca4 ,,index ,,to ,,the ,,memorable ,,relations4 ,conjugial love seen in its form with two conjugial partners1 who were conveyed down from heaven in a chariot1 n4 #db1 #dc4 ,three novitiates from the world receive information respecting marriages in heaven1 n4 #dd4 ,on the chaste love of the sex1 n4 #ee4 ,on the temple of wisdom1 where the causes of beauty in the female sex are discussed by wise ones1 n4 #ef4 ,on conjugial love with those who lived in the golden age1 n4 #ge4 ,on conjugial love with those who lived in the silver age1 n4 #gf4 ,on conjugial love with those who lived in the copper age1 n4 #gg4 ,on conjugial love with those who lived in the iron age1 n4 #gh4 ,on conjugial love with those who lived after those ages1 n4 #gi1 #hj4 ,on the glorification of the ,lord by the angels in the heavens1 on account of his advent1 and of conjugial love1 which is to be restored at that time1 n4 #ha4 ,on the precepts of the ,new ,church1 n4 #hb4 ,on the origin of conjugial love1 and of its virtue or potency1 discussed by an assembly of the wise from ,europe1 n4 #ajc1 #ajd4 ,on a paper let down from heaven to the earth1 on which was written1 ,the marriage of good and truth1 n4 #aae4 ,what the image and likeness of ,god is1 and what the tree of life1 and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 n4 #acb-acf4 ,two angels out of the third heaven give information respecting conjugial love there1 n4 #acg4 ,on the ancients in ,greece1 who inquired of strangers1 ,what news from the earth8 ,also1 on men found in the woods1 n4 #aea99-aed994 ,on the golden shower and hall1 where the wives said various things respecting conjugial love1 n4 #aee994 ,the opinion of the ancient sophi in ,greece respecting the life of men after death1 n4 #ahb4 ,on the nuptial garden called ,adramandoni1 where there was a conversation respecting the influx of conjugial love1 n4 #ahc4 ,a declaration by the ancient sophi in ,greece respecting employments in heaven1 n4 #bjg4 ,on the golden shower and hall1 where the wives again conversed respecting conjugial love1 n4 #bjh4 ,on the judges who were influenced by friendship1 of whom it was exclaimed1 ,o how just6 n4 #bca4 ,on the reasoners1 of whom it was exclaimed1 ,o how learned6 n4 #bcb4 ,on the confirmatory1 of whom it was exclaimed1 ,o how wise6 n4 #bcc4 ,on those who are in the love of ruling from the love of self1 n4 #bfa-bff4 ,on those who are in the love of possessing all things of the world1 n4 #bfg1 #bfh4 ,on ,lucifer1 n4 #bfi4 ,on conjugial cold1 n4 #bgj4 ,on the seven wives sitting on a bed of roses1 who said various things respecting conjugial love1 n4 #bic4 ,observations by the same wives on the prudence of women1 n4 #bid4 ,a discussion what the soul is1 and what is its quality1 n4 #cae4 ,on the garden1 where there was a conversation respecting the divine providence in regard to marriages1 n4 #caf4 ,on the distinction between what is spiritual and what is natural1 n4 #cbf-cbi4 ,discussions1 whether a woman who loves herself for her beauty1 loves her husband2 and whether a man who loves himself for his intelligence1 loves his wife1 n4 #ccj1 #cca4 ,on self-prudence1 n4 #cec4 ,on the perpetual faculty of loving a wife in heaven1 n4 #cee1 #cef4 ,a discussion1 whether nature is of life1 or life of nature2 also respecting the centre and expanse of life and nature1 n4 #chj4 ,orators delivering their sentiments on the origin of beauty in the female sex1 n4 #cha-chd4 ,that all things which exist and take place in the natural world1 are from the ,lord through the spiritual world1 n4 #dae-dbb4 ,on the angels who were ignorant of the nature and meaning of adultery1 n4 #ddd4 ,on delight1 which is the universal of heaven and hell1 n4 #dfa4 ,on an adulterer who was taken up into heaven1 and there saw things inverted n4 #dgg4 ,on three priests who were accused by adulterers1 n4 #ejj4 ,that determined and confirmed adulterers do not acknowledge anything of heaven and the church1 n4 #eba1 #ebb4 ,on the new things revealed by the ,lord1 n4 #ecb4 ,,index ,,to ,,conjugial ,,love4 99 99 99 99 99 ,the ,numbers refer to the ,paragraphs1 and not to the ,pages4 99 99 99 99 99 ,,abomination ,,of ,,desolation4 ,matt4 xxiv4 #ae1 signifies the falsification and deprivation of all truth1 #hj4 ,,absence in the spiritual world1 its cause1 #aga4 ,,action4--,in all conjunction by love there must be action1 reception1 and reaction1 #bic4 ,from the will1 which in itself is spiritual1 actions flow1 #bbj4 ,,activity is one of the moral virtues which respect life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,the activity of love makes a sense of delight1 #dfa4 ,the influx of ,love and wisdom from the ,lord is the essential activity from which comes all delight1 #dfa4 ,from conjugial love1 as from a fountain1 issue the activities and alacrities of life1 #bdi4 ,,actors4--,in heaven1 out of the cities1 are exhibited stage entertainments1 wherein the actors represent the various virtues and graces of moral life1 #ag1 #gi4 ,,actually1 #ff1 #ih1 #agh1 c4 ,obs4--,this expression is used to distinguish ,actualiter from ,realiter1 of which the author also makes use2 thus between actually and really1 there is the same distinction as between actual taken in a philosophical sense1 and real4 ,,acution4--,the spiritual purification of conjugial love may be compared with the purification of natural spirits effected by chemists1 and called acution1 #ade4 ,,adam4--,in what his sin consisted1 #ddd4 ,error of those who believe that ,adam was wise and did good from himself1 and that this was his state of integrity1 #ace4 ,the evil in which each man is born1 is not derived hereditarily from ,adam1 but from his parents1 #ebe4 ,if it is believed that the guilt of ,adam is inscribed on all the human race1 it is because few reflect on any evil in themselves1 and thence know it1 #ebe4 ,adam and man are one expression in the ,hebrew tongue1 #aef994 ,,adjunction4--,the union of the soul and mind of one married partner to those of the other1 is an actual adjunction1 and cannot possibly be dissolved1 #cba4 ,this adjunction is close and near according to the love1 and approaching to contact with those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 #aeh4 ,it may be called spiritual cohabitation1 which takes place with married partners who love each other tenderly1 however remote their bodies may be from each other1 #aeh4 ,,administrations in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,the discharge of them is attended with delight1 #bjg4 ,,administrators4--,in the spiritual world there are administrators1 #bjg4 ,,adorations4--,why the ancients in their adorations turned their faces to the rising sun1 #cdb4 ,,adramandoni is the name of a garden in the spiritual world2 this word signifies the delight of conjugial love1 #ahc4 ,,adulterers4--,as soon as a man actually becomes an adulterer1 heaven is closed to him1 #ejj4 ,adulterers become more and more not men1 #dcb4 ,there are four kinds of adulterers3--#ast1 ,adulterers from a purposed principle are those who are so from the lust of the will2 #b;d1 adulterers from a confirmed principle are those who are so from the persuasion of the understanding2 #c;d1 adulterers from a deliberate principle are those who are so from the allurements of the senses2 #dth1 adulterers from a non-deliberate principle are those who are not in the faculty or not in the liberty of consulting the understanding1 #dcb4 ,those of the two former kinds become more and more not men1 but the two latter kinds become men as they recede from those errors1 #dcb4 ,reasonings of adulterers1 #ejj4 ,every unclean principle of hell is from adulterers1 #ejj1 #dgg4 ,whoever is in spiritual adultery is also in natural adultery1 #ebj4 ,,adulterers from a deliberate principle and from a non-deliberate principle1 #dcb4 ,,adultery1 by1 is meant scortation opposite to marriage1 #dhj4 ,the horrible nature of adultery1 #dhc4 ,spiritual adultery is the connection of evil and the false1 #ebj4 ,adulteries are the complex of all evils1 #cef4 ,why hell in the total is called adultery1 #ebj4 ,there are three genera of adulteries1 simple1 duplicate1 and triplicate1 #dgh1 #dhd4 ,there are four degrees of adulteries1 according to which they have their predications1 their charges of blame1 and after death1 their imputations1 #dhe-dii3--ast1 ,adulteries of ignorance1 c41 #dhf1 #dhg2 #b;d1 adulteries of lust1 #dhh1 #dhi2 #c;d1 adulteries of the reason or understanding1 e41 #dij1 #dia2 #dth1 adulteries of the will1 #dib1 #dic4 ,the distinction between adulteries of the will and those of the understanding1 #dij4 ,the adultery of the reason is less grievous than the adultery of the will1 #dij4--;,accessories of adultery and aggravations of it1 #ded4 ,adultery is the cause of divorce1 #bee4 ,representative of adultery in its business1 #eba4 ,,affect4 ,obs4--,this word signifies to impress with affection either good or bad4 ,,affections which are merely derivations of the love1 form the will1 and make and compose it1 #aig4 ,every affection of love belongs to the will1 for what a man loves1 that he also wills1 #aif4 ,every affection has its delight1 #bgb4 ,affections1 with the thoughts thence derived1 appertain to the mind1 and sensations1 with the pleasures thence derived1 appertain to the body1 #bgc4 ,in the natural world1 almost all are capable of being joined together as to external affections1 but not as to internal affections1 if these disagree and appear1 #bgb4 ,in the spiritual world all are conjoined as to internal affections1 but not according to external1 unless these act in unity with the internal1 #bgc4 ,the affections according to which wedlock is commonly contracted in the world1 are external1 #bgd2 but in that case they are not influenced by internal affections1 which conjoin minds1 the bonds of wedlock are loosed in the house1 #bge4 ,by internal affections are meant the mutual inclinations which influence the mind of each of the parties from heaven2 whereas by external affections are meant the inclinations which influence the mind of each of the parties from the world1 #bgg4 ,the external affections by death follow the body1 and are entombed with it1 those only remaining which cohere with internal principles1 #cbj4 ,women were created by the ,lord affections of the wisdom of men1 #ef4 ,their affection of wisdom is essential beauty1 #ef4 ,all the angels are affections of love in a human form1 #db3 the ruling affection itself shines forth from their faces2 and from their affection1 and according to it1 the kind and quality of their raiment is derived and determined1 #db4 ,,affliction1 great1 ,matt4 xxiv4 #ba1 signifies the state of the church infested by evils and falses1 #hj4 ,,afflux1 #bic4 ,obs4--,afflux is that which flows upon or towards1 and remains generally in the external1 without penetrating interiorly1 ,a4,c41 n4 #giee4 ,efflux is that which flows from1 and is generally predicated of that which proceeds from below upwards4 ,influx is that which flows into1 or which penetrates interiorly1 provided it meets with no obstacle2 it is generally used when speaking of that which comes from above1 thus from heaven1 that is1 from the ,lord through heaven4 ,,africans more intelligent than the learned of ,europe1 #aad4 ,,age4--,the common states of a man's life are called infancy1 childhood1 youth1 manhood1 and old age1 #ahe4 ,unequal ages induce coldness in marriage1 #bej4 ,in the heavens there is no inequality of age1 all there are in one flower of youth1 and continue therein to eternity1 #bej4 ,golden age1 #ge4 ,silver age or period1 #gf4 ,copper age1 #gg4 ,iron age1 #gh4 ,age of iron mixed with miry clay1 #gi4 ,age of gold1 #db1 #ge2 of silver1 #gf2 of copper1 #gg2 of iron1 #gh2 of iron mixed with clay1 #gi4 ,the ages of gold1 silver1 and copper are anterior to the time of which we have any historical records1 #gc4 ,men of the golden age knew and acknowledged that they were forms receptive of life from ,god1 and that on this account wisdom was inscribed on their souls and hearts1 and hence that they saw truth from the light of truth1 and by truths perceived good from the delight of the love thereof1 #aec994 ,all those who lived in the silver age had intelligence grounded in spiritual truths1 and thence in natural truths1 #gf4 ,,aid1 mutual1 of husband and wife1 #agf4 ,,alacrity is one of those moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,alcohol4--,wisdom purified may be compared with alcohol1 which is a spirit highly rectified1 #ade4 ,,alcoran1 #cdb4 ,,alpha1 the1 and the ,omega4--,why the ,lord is so called1 #cbf4 ,,alphabet in the spiritual world1 each letter of it is significative1 #cbf4 ,,ambassador in the spiritual world discussing with two priests on the subject of human prudence1 #ced4 ,,ancients4--,of marriages among the ancients1 and the most ancient1 #ge1 #gg4 ,the most ancient people in this world did not acknowledge any other wisdom than the wisdom of life2 but the ancient people acknowledged the wisdom of reason as wisdom1 #acj4 ,precepts concerning marriages left by the ancient people to their posterity1 #gg4 ,angels are men2 their form is the human form1 #cj4 ,they appear to man when the eyes of his spirit are opened1 #cj4 ,all the angels are affections of love in the human form1 #db4 ,angels who are loves1 and thence wisdoms1 are called celestial1 and with them conjugial love is celestial2 angels who are wisdoms1 and thence loves1 are called spiritual1 and similar thereto is their conjugial principle1 #fd4 ,there are among the angels some of a simple1 and some of a wise character1 and it is the part of the wise to judge1 when the simple1 from their simplicity and ignorance1 are doubtful about what is just1 or through mistake wander from it1 #bjg4 ,every angel has conjugial love with its virtue1 ability1 and delights1 according to his application to the genuine use in which he is1 #bjg4 ,every man has angels associated to him from the ,lord1 and such is his conjunction with them1 that if they were taken away1 he would instantly fall to pieces1 #djd4 ,,anger4--,why it is attributed to the ,lord1 #cff4 ,,animals4--,wonderful things conspicuous in the productions of animals1 #daf4 ,every animal is led by the love implanted in his science1 as a blind person is led through the streets by a dog1 #if4 ,see ,beasts4 ,,animus4--,by animus is meant the affections1 and thence the external inclinations1 which are principally insinuated after birth by education1 social intercourse1 and consequent habits of life1 #bdf4 ,obs4--,these affections and inclinations constitute a sort of inferior mind4 ,,antipathy4--,in the spiritual world1 antipathies are not only felt1 but also appear in the face1 the discourse1 and the gesture1 #bgc4 ,it is otherwise in the natural world1 where antipathies may be concealed1 #bgb4 ,among certain married partners in the natural world1 there is an antipathy in their internals1 and an apparent sympathy in their externals1 #bib4 ,antipathy derives its origin from the opposition of spiritual spheres which emanate from subjects1 #aga4 ,,antiquity4--,memorable things of antiquity seen in heaven amongst a nation that lived in the copper age1 #gg4 ,,aorta1 #cae4 ,,apes4--,of those in hell who appear like apes1 #eje4 ,,apocalypse4--,a voice from heaven commanded ,swedenborg to apply to the work begun in the ,apocalypse1 and finish it within two years1 #ebb1 #ecb4 ,,apoplexy4--,permanent infirmity1 arising from apoplexy1 a cause of separation1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,appearance4--,spaces in the spiritual world are appearances2 distances1 also1 and presences are appearances1 #aeh4 ,the appearances of distances and presences there1 are according to the proximities1 relationships1 and affinities of love1 #aeh4 ,those things which1 from their origin1 are celestial and spiritual1 are not in space1 but in the appearances of space1 #aeh4 ,obs4--,those things which in the spiritual world are present to the sight of spirits and angels are called appearances2 those things are called appearances1 because1 corresponding to the interiors of spirits and of angels1 they vary according to the states of those interiors4 ,there are real appearances and appearances unreal2 the unreal appearances are those which do not correspond to the interiors4 ,see ,heaven and ,hell4 ,,appropriation of evil how it is effected1 #dhi4 ,,arcana of wisdom respecting conjugial love2 it is important that they should be discovered1 #dc4 ,arcana of conjugial love concealed with wives1 #aff1 #aee991 #bic4 ,arcanum relative to conception1 which takes place though the souls of two married partners be disjoined1 #bde4 ,arcanum respecting the actual habitation of every man in some society1 either of heaven or hell1 #ecj4 ,arcana known to the ancients1 and at this day lost1 #bbj4 ,arcana revealed1 which exceed in excellence all the arcana heretofore revealed since the beginning of the church1 #ecb4 ,these arcana are yet reputed on earth as of no value1 #ecc4 ,,architectonic ,,art1 the1 is in its essential perfection in heaven1 and hence are derived all the rules of that art in the world1 #ab4 ,,aristippus1 #aea994 ,,aristotle1 #aea994 ,,armies of the ,lord ,jehovah4 ,thus the most ancient people called themselves1 #ge4 ,,artificers in the spiritual world1 #bjg3 wonderful works which they execute there1 #bjg4 ,,as ,,from ,,himself1 #acb1 #acd1 #bfi1 #cdj4 ,,assault4--,how love defends itself when assaulted1 #cfa4 ,,asses4--,of those who1 in the spiritual world1 appear at a distance like asses heavily laden1 #bcb4 ,blazing ass upon which a pope was seated in hell1 #bfe4 ,,associate1 to4--,all in the heavens are associated according to affinities and relationships of love1 and have habitations accordingly1 #ej4 ,,astronomy is one of those sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,atheists1 who are in the glory of reputation arising from self-love1 and thence in a high conceit of their own intelligence1 enjoy a more sublime rationality than many others2 the reason why1 #bfi4 ,why the understanding of atheists1 in spiritual light1 appeared open beneath but closed above1 #dba4 ,,athenaeum1 city of1 in the spiritual world1 #aea991 #ahb1 #bjg4 ,sports of the ,athenaeides1 #bjg4 ,these games were spiritual exercises1 #bjg4 ,,atmospheres4--,the world is distinguished into regions as to the atmospheres1 the lowest of which is the watery1 the next above is the aerial1 and still higher is the etherial1 above which there is also the highest1 #ahh1 ,the reason why the atmosphere appears of a golden color in the heaven in which the love of uses reigns1 #bff4 ,,aura4--,thus the superior atmosphere is named1 #ade4 ,the aura is the continent of celestial light and heat1 or of the wisdom and love in which the angels are principled1 #ade4 ,see ,atmospheres4 ,,authoresses1 learned4--,examination of their writings in the spiritual world in their presence1 #age4 ,,aversion between married partners arises from spiritual cold1 #bcf4 ,whence arises aversion on the part of the husband towards the wife1 #cje4 ,aversion between married partners arises from a disunion of souls and a disjunction of minds1 #bcf4 ,,back1 the4--,the sphere which issues forth from man encompasses him on the back and on the breast1 lightly on the back1 but more densely on the breast1 #aga1 #bbd4 ,the effect of this on married partners1 who are of different minds and discordant affections4 #aga4 ,,balance4--,love truly conjugal is like a balance in which the inclinations for iterated marriages are made1 #cah4 ,the mind is kept balancing to another marriage1 according to the degree of love in which it was principled in the former marriage1 #cah4 ,,bank of roses1 #h1 #bid4 ,,bats1 in the spiritual world1 are correspondences and consequent appearances of the thoughts of confirmators1 #bcc4 ,,bears signify those who read the ,word in the natural sense1 and see truths therein1 without understanding1 #aic4 ,those who only read the ,word1 and imbibe thence nothing of doctrine1 appear at a distance1 in the spiritual world1 like bears1 #gh4 ,,beasts are born into natural loves1 and thereby into sciences corresponding to them2 still they do not know1 think1 understand1 and relish any sciences1 but are led through them by their loves1 almost as blind persons are led through the streets by dogs1 #acd4 ,beasts are born into all the sciences of their loves1 thus into all that concerns their nourishment1 habitation1 love of the sex1 and the education of their young1 #acc4 ,difference between man and beasts1 #acc1 #acd4 ,every beast corresponds to some quality1 either good or evil1 #gf4 ,beasts in the spiritual world are representative1 but in the natural world they are real1 #acc4 ,wild beasts in the spiritual world are correspondences1 and thus representatives of the lusts in which the spirits are1 #gi4 ,the state of men compared with that of beasts1 #aea994 ,men like beasts1 found in the forests1 #aea994 ,beast-men1 #bcc4 ,,beauty4--,the affection of wisdom is essential beauty1 #ef4 ,cause of beauty in the female sex1 #ef4 ,women have a two-fold beauty1 one natural1 which is that of the face and the body1 and the other spiritual1 which is that of the love and manners1 #ccj4 ,beauty in the spiritual world is the form of the love and manners1 #ccj4 ,discussion on the beauty of woman1 #ccj4 ,origin of that beauty1 #chb-chd4 ,ineffable beauty of a wife in the third heaven1 #db4 ,,bees4--,their wonderful instinct1 #dai4 ,,behind4--,in the spiritual world1 it is not allowed any one to stand behind another1 and speak to him1 #ddd4 ,,beings4--,the desire to continue in its form is implanted by creation in all living beings1 #cfa4 ,,benevolence is one of those virtues which have respect to life and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,betrothings1 of1 #bie-cad4 ,reasons of betrothings1 #cja4 ,by betrothing each party is prepared for conjugial love1 #cjb4 ,by betrothing1 the mind of one is conjoined to the mind of the other1 so as to effect a marriage of the spirit1 previous to marriage1 #cjc1 #cje4 ,of betrothings in heaven1 #bj2 #ba4 ,,birds in the spiritual world are representative forms1 #gf4 ,every bird corresponds to some good or bad quality1 #gf4 ,,birds ,,of ,,paradise4--,in heaven the forms under which the chaste delights of conjugial love are presented to the view1 are birds of paradise1 c41 #dcj4 ,a pair of birds of paradise represent the middle region of conjugial love1 #bgj4 ,,blessedness1 #fi1 #ahj4 ,love receives its blessedness from communication by uses with others1 #bff4 ,the infinity of all blessedness is in the ,lord1 #cce4 ,,blessing of marriages by the priests1 #cjh ,,blue4--,what the color blue signifies1 #gf4 ,,body1 the material1 is composed of watery and earthy elements1 and of aerial vapors thence arising1 #aib4 ,the material body of man is overcharged with lusts1 which are in it as dregs that precipitate themselves to the bottom when the must of wine is clarified1 #bgb4 ,such are the constituent substances of which the bodies of men in the world are composed1 #bgb4 ,the bodies of men viewed interiorly are merely forms of their minds exteriorly organized to effect the purposes of the soul1 #caj4 ,see ,mind4 ,every thing which is done in the body is from a spiritual origin1 #bbj4 ,all things which are done in the body by man flow in from his spirit1 #caj4 ,man when stripped of his body is in his internal affections1 which his body had before concealed1 #bgc4 ,what is in the spirit as derived from the body does not long continue1 but the love which is in the spirit and is derived from the body does continue1 #afb1 #aia4 ,marriages of the spirit ought to precede marriages of the body1 #caj4 ,,bond4--,the internal or spiritual bond must keep the external or natural in its order and tenor1 #cbj4 ,wives love the bonds of marriage if the men do1 #bag4 ,unless the external affections are influenced by internal1 which conjoin minds1 the bonds of wedlock are loosed in the house1 #bge4 ,,books4--,in heaven1 as in the world1 there are books1 #bjg4 ,,born1 to be4--,man is born in total ignorance1 #acd4 ,every man by birth is merely corporeal1 and from corporeal he becomes natural more and more interiorly1 and thus rational1 and at length spiritual1 #ei1 #cje1 #ddg4 ,he becomes rational in proportion as he loves intelligence1 and spiritual if he loves wisdom1 #id1 #ajb4 ,man is not born into any knowledge1 and if he does not receive instruction from others1 is viler than a beast1 #cej4 ,man is born without sciences1 to the end that he may receive them all1 and he is born into no love1 to the intent that he may come into all love1 #acd4 ,every man is born for heaven and no one for hell1 and every one comes into heaven 7by influence7 from the ,lord1 and into hell 7by influence7 from self1 #cej4 ,,breast1 the1 of man signifies wisdom1 #aih4 ,all things which by derivation from the soul and mind have their determination in the body1 first flow into the bosom1 #agi4 ,the breast is as it were a place of public assembly1 and a royal council chamber1 and the body is as a populous city around it1 #agi4 ,the sphere of the man's life encompasses him more densely on the breast1 but lightly on the back1 #aga1 #bbd4 ,see ,back4 ,,brethren4--,the ,lord calls those brethren and sisters who are of his church1 #abj4 ,,bride4--,the church in the ,word is called the bride and wife1 #aag4 ,clothing of a bride in heaven1 #bj4 ,,bridegroom4--,the ,lord in the ,word is called the bridegroom and husband1 #aag4 ,clothing of a bridegroom in heaven1 #bj4 ,,brimstone signifies the love of what is false1 #hj4 ,lakes of fire and brimstone1 #gi1 #hj4 ,,cabinet of antiquities in the spiritual world1 #gg4 ,,calf1 a golden1 signifies the pleasure of the flesh1 #ece4 ,,cap1 a1 signifies intelligence1 #bic4 ,turreted cap1 #gh4 ,,carotid ,,arteries1 #cae4 ,,castigation4--,the spiritual purification of conjugial love may be compared with the purification of natural spirits effected by chemists1 and named castigation1 #ade4 ,,cats4--,comparison concerning them1 #eab4 ,,cause4--,see ,end4 ,to speak from causes is the speech of wisdom1 #ge4 ,causes of coldness1 separations1 and divorces in marriages1 #bcd-bfj4 ,causes of concubinage1 #dfg-dgd4 ,,causes1 the various1 of legitimate separation1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,celebration of the ,lord from the ,word1 #ha4 ,,celestial4--,in proportion as a man loves his wife he becomes celestial and internal1 #gg4 ,,celibacy ought not to be preferred to marriage1 #aef4 ,chastity cannot be predicated of those who have renounced marriage by vows of perpetual celibacy1 unless there be and remain in them the love of a life truly conjugial1 #aee4 ,the sphere of perpetual celibacy infests the sphere of conjugial love1 which is the very essential sphere of heaven1 #ed4 ,those who live in celibacy1 if they are spiritual1 are on the side of heaven1 #ed4 ,those who in the world have lived a single life1 and have altogether alienated their minds from marriage1 in case they be spiritual1 remain single2 but if natural1 they become whoremongers1 #ed4 ,for those who in their single state have desired marriage1 and have solicited it without success1 if they are spiritual1 blessed marriages are provided1 but not until the2 come into heaven1 #ed4 ,,centre of nature and of life1 #chj4 ,,cerberus1 #gi4 ,,cerebellum1 the1 is beneath the hinder part of the head1 and is designed for love and the goods thereof1 #ddd4 ,,cerebrum1 the1 is beneath the anterior and upper part of the head1 and is designed for wisdom and the truths thereof1 #ddd4 ,,change1 the1 of the state of life which takes place with men and with women by marriage1 #ahd-bjf4 ,by changes of the state of life are meant changes of quality as to the things appertaining to the understanding1 and as to those appertaining to the will1 #ahd4 ,the changes which take place in man's internal principles are more perfectly continuous than those which take place in his external principles1 #ahe4 ,the changes which take place in internal principles are changes of the state of the will as to affections1 and changes of the state of the understanding as to thoughts1 #ahe4 ,the changes of these two faculties are perpetual with man from infancy even to the end of his life1 and afterwards to eternity1 #ahe4 ,these changes differ in the case of men and in the case of women1 #ahg4 ,,charges of blame are made by a judge according to the law1 #dhe4 ,difference between predications1 charges of blame1 and imputations1 #dhe4 ,,chariot1 a1 signifies the doctrine of truth1 #gf4 ,,charity is love1 #aj4 ,,charity ,,and ,,faith4--,good has relation to charity1 and truth to faith1 #aae1 #abd4 ,to live well is charity1 and to believe well is faith1 #bcc4 ,charity and faith are the life of ,god in man1 #ace4 ,,chaste ,,principle1 concerning the1 and the non-chaste1 #ach-aef4 ,the chaste principle and the non-chaste are predicated solely of marriages1 and of such things as relate to marriages1 #aci4 ,the ,christian conjugial principle alone is chaste1 #adb4 ,see ,conjugial4 ,,chastity ,,of ,,marriage1 #ach1 and following4 ,see ,contents4 ,the chastity of marriage exists by a total abdication of what is opposed to it from a principle of religion1 #adg-adi4 ,the purity of conjugial love is what is called chastity1 #aci4 ,love truly conjugial is essential chastity1 #aci1 #adc4 ,non-chastity is a removal of what is unchaste from what is chaste1 #ach4 ,,chemistry is one of the sciences by which1 as by doors1 an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,chemists4--,spiritual purification compared to the natural purification of spirits effected by chemists1 #ade4 ,,children born of parents who are principled in love truly conjugial1 derive from their parents the conjugial principle of good and truth1 #bjb-bje4 ,infants in heaven become men of stature and comeliness1 according to the increments of intelligence with them2 it is otherwise with infants on earth1 #ahg4 ,when they have attained the stature of young men of eighteen1 and young girls of fifteen years of age1 in this world1 then marriages are provided by the ,lord for them1 #ddd4 ,the love of infants remains after death1 especially with women1 #daj4 ,infants are educated under the ,lord's auspices by such women1 #daa4 ,little children in the ,word signify those who are in innocence1 #dad4 ,the love of infants corresponds to the defence of good and truth1 #abg4 ,,christ4--,the kingdom of ,christ1 which is heaven1 is a kingdom of uses1 #g4 ,to reign with ,christ signifies to be wise1 and to perform uses1 #g4 ,,christian4--,love truly conjugial with its delights can only exist among those who are of the ,christian church1 #ccg4 ,not a single person throughout the ,christian world is acquainted with the true nature of heavenly joy and eternal happiness1 #d4 ,,chrysalises1 #dah4 ,,church1 the1 is from the ,lord1 and exists with those who come to ,him1 and live according to ,his precepts1 #abi4 ,the church is the ,lord's kingdom in the world1 corresponding to his kingdom in the heavens2 and also the ,lord conjoins them together1 that they may make a one1 #dca4 ,the church in general and in particular is a marriage of good and of truth1 #aae4 ,the church with man is formed by the ,lord by means of truths to which good is adjoined1 #abb-abd4 ,the church with its goods and truths can never exist but with those who live in love truly conjugial with one wife1 #gf4 ,the church is of both sexes1 #ba4 ,the husband and wife together are the church2 with these the church first implanted in the man and by the man in the wife1 #abe4 ,how the church is formed by the ,lord with two married partners1 and how conjugial love is formed thereby1 #fh4 ,the origin of the church and of conjugial love are in one place of abode1 #bch4 ,,circe1 #eba4 ,,circle4--,what circles round the head represent in the spiritual life1 #bfi4 ,circle and increasing progression of conjugial love1 #gh4 ,,circumstances and contingencies vary every thing1 #dhe4 ,the quality of every deed1 and in general the quality of every thing1 depends upon circumstances1 #dhg4 ,,civil things have relation to the world1 they are statutes1 laws1 and rules1 which bind men1 so that a civil society and state may be composed of them in a well-connected order1 #acj4 ,civil things with man reside beneath spiritual things1 and above natural things1 #acj4 ,,civility is one of the moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,in heaven they show each other every token of civility1 #af4 ,,clay mixed with iron1 #gi4 ,,cohabit1 to4--,when married partners have lived in love truly conjugial1 the spirit of the deceased cohabits continually with that of the survivor1 and this even to the death of the latter1 #cba4 ,,cohabitation1 spiritual1 takes place with married partners who love each other tenderly1 however remote their bodies may be from each other1 #aeh4 ,see ,adjunction4 ,internal and external cohabitation1 #cbb4 ,with those who are principled in love truly conjugial the happiness of cohabitation increases1 but it decreases with those who are not principled in conjugial love1 #bac4 ,,cohobation4--,the spiritual purification of conjugial love may be compared to the purification of natural spirits1 as effected by chemists1 and called cohobation1 #ade4 ,,cold4--,spirits merely natural grow intensely cold while they apply themselves to the side of some angel1 who is in a state of love1 #bce4 ,spiritual cold in marriages is a disunion of souls1 #bcf4 ,causes of cold in marriages1 #bcg-bej4 ,cold arises from various causes1 internal1 external1 and accidental1 all of which originate in a dissimilitude of internal inclinations1 #bge4 ,spiritual cold is the privation of spiritual heat1 #bhe4 ,whence it arises1 #bce4 ,whence conjugial cold arises1 #bid4 ,every one who is insane in spiritual things is cold towards his wife1 and warm towards harlots1 #bid4 ,,column4--,comparison of successive and simultaneous order to a column of steps1 which1 when it subsides1 becomes a body ushering in a plane1 #cad4 ,,communications4--,after death1 married pairs enjoy similar communications with each other as in the world1 #ea4 ,,conatus is the very essence of motion1 #bae4 ,from the endeavor of the two principles of good and truth to join themselves together into one1 conjugial love exists by derivation1 #bhh4 ,,conceptions4--,between the disjoined souls of married partners there is effected conjunction in a middle love1 otherwise there would be no conceptions1 #bde4 ,,concerts of music and singing in the heavens1 #ag4 ,,conclude1 to1 from an interior and prior principle1 is to conclude from ends and causes to effects1 which is according to order2 but to conclude from an exterior or posterior principle1 is to conclude from effects to causes and ends1 which is contrary to order1 #djh4 ,,concubinage1 #dfb-dgf4 ,difference between concubinage and pellicacy1 #dfb4 ,see ,pellicacy4 ,there are two kinds of concubinage which differ exceedingly from each other1 the one conjointly with a wife1 the other apart from a wife1 #dfc4 ,concubinage conjointly with a wife is illicit to ,christians and detestable1 #dfd4 ,see also #dfg1 #dgf4 ,,concubine1 #dfb4 ,,concupiscence1 concerning1 #bfg4 ,every one is by truth interiorly in concupiscence1 but by education exteriorly in intelligence1 #bfg4 ,interesting particulars concerning concupiscence not visionary or fantastic1 in which all men are born1 #bfi4 ,all the concupiscences of evil reside in the lowest region of the mind1 which is called the natural2 but in the region above1 which is called the spiritual1 there are not any concupiscences of evil1 #cje4 ,in every thing that proceeds from the natural man there is concupiscence1 #ddh4 ,imputation of concupiscence1 #dee4 ,in the spiritual world every evil concupiscence presents a likeness of itself in some form1 which is not perceived by those who are in the concupiscence1 but by those who are at a distance1 #eba4 ,,confidence1 full1 is in conjugial love1 and is derived from it1 #ahj4 ,full confidence relates to the heart1 #ahj4 ,,confines ,,of ,,heaven4--,those who enter into extra-conjugial life are sent to their like1 on the confines of heaven1 #aee4 ,,confirm1 to4--,the understanding alone confirms1 and when it confirms it engages the will to its party1 #dia4 ,every one can confirm evil equally as well as good1 in like manner what is false as well as what is true4 ,the reason why the confirmation of evil is perceived with more delight than the confirmation of good1 and the confirmation of what is false with greater lucidity than the confirmation of what is true1 #dia4 ,intelligence does not consist in being able to confirm whatever a man pleases1 but in being able to see that what is true is true1 and that what is false is false1 #bcc4 ,every one may confirm himself in favor of the divine principle or ,being1 by the visible things of nature1 #daf-dai4 ,those who confirm themselves in favor of a divine principle or ,being1 attend to the wonderful things which are conspicuous in the productions both of vegetables and animals1 #daf4 ,those who had confirmed themselves in favor of nature1 by what is visible in this world1 so as to become atheists1 appeared in spiritual light with the understanding open beneath1 but closed above1 #dba4 ,,confirmations are effected by reasonings1 which the mind seizes for its use1 deriving them either from its superior region or its inferior1 #dia4 ,the form of the human mind is according to confirmations turned towards heaven1 if its confirmations are in favor of marriages1 but turned to hell1 if they are in favor of adulteries1 #dia4 ,confirmations of falsities1 so as to make them appear like truths1 are represented in the spiritual world under the forms of birds of night1 #bcc4 ,see ,to ,confirm4 ,,confirmators4--,they are called such in the spiritual world who cannot at all see whether truth be truth1 but yet can make whatever they will to be truth1 #bcc4 ,their fate in the other life1 #bcc4 ,,conjugial ,,pairs4--,it is provided by the ,lord that conjugial pairs be born1 and that these pairs be continually educated for marriage1 neither the maiden nor the youth knowing any thing of the matter1 #caf4 ,,conjugial ,,principle1 the1 of good and truth is implanted from creation in every soul1 and also in the principles derived from the soul1 #bjd4 ,the conjugial principle fills the universe from first principles to last1 and from a man even to a worm1 #bjd4 ,it is inscribed on the soul1 to the end that soul may be propagated from soul1 #bcf4 ,it is inscribed on both sexes from inmost principles to ultimates1 and a man's quality as to his thoughts and affections1 and consequently as to his bodily actions and behavior1 is according to that principle1 #adj4 ,in every substance1 even the smallest1 there is a conjugial principle1 #caf4 ,in the minutest things with man1 both male and female1 there is a conjugial principle3 still the conjugial principle with the male is different from what it is with the female1 #caf4 ,there is implanted in every man from creation1 and consequently from his birth1 an internal conjugial principle1 and an external conjugial principle2 man comes first into the latter1 and as he becomes spiritual he comes into the former4 #adh1 #ahh4 ,children derive from their parents the conjugial principle of good and truth1 for it is that principle which flows into man from the ,lord1 and constitutes his human life1 #bjc4 ,the conjugial human principle ever goes hand in hand with religion1 #hj4 ,this conjugial principle is the desire of living with one wife1 and every ,christian has this desire according to his religion1 #hj4 ,the ,christian conjugial principle alone is chaste1 #adb4 ,by the ,christian conjugial principle is meant the marriage of one man with one wife1 #adb4 ,the conjugial principle of one man with one wife1 is the storehouse of human life1 and the reservoir of the ,christian religion1 #deg1 #deh4 ,the conjugial principle is like a scale in which conjugial love is weighed1 #eca4 ,,conjunction4--,in every part1 and even in every particular1 there is a principle tending to conjunction1 #cc1 #cg2 it was implanted from creation1 and thence remains perpetually1 #cg4 ,the conjunctive principle lies concealed in every part of the male1 and in every part of the female1 #cg1 #df4 ,in the male conjugial principle there is what is conjunctive with the female conjugial principle1 and vice versa1 even in the minutest things1 #caf4 ,,conjunction of souls and minds by marriage1 so that they are no longer two but one flesh1 #aef1 #aha4 ,spiritual conjunction cannot possibly be dissolved1 #cba4 ,how there is a conjunction of the created universe with its ,creator1 and by conjunction everlasting conservation1 #he4 ,there is conjunction with the ,lord by a life according to his commandments1 #cda4 ,there is no conjunction unless it be reciprocal1 for conjunction on one part1 and not on the other in its turn1 is dissolved of itself1 #fa4 ,,connection1 the connubial1 of what is evil and false is the spiritual origin of adultery1 #dbh1 #ebj4 ,it is the anti-church1 #dig4 ,in hell all are in this conmibium1 #ebj4 ,,connubial ,,principle1 the1 of what is evil and false1 is the opposite of the conjugial principle of good and truth1 #bjc4 ,beneath heaven there are only nuptial connections which are tied and loosed1 #aib4 ,,conscience is a spiritual virtue which flows from love towards ,god1 and love towards the neighbor1 #afd4 ,see ,to ,flow4 ,,conscientiousness in regard to marriage1 #bga4 ,,consecration of marriages1 #cjh4 ,,consent constitutes marriage and initiates the spirit into conjugial love1 #bii4 ,consent against the will1 or extorted1 does not initiate the spirit1 #bii4 ,,consociation1 #de1 #aec994 ,,consummation of the ,age1 signifies the last time or end of the church1 #hj4 ,,contempt between married partners springs from disunion of souls1 #bcf4 ,,contingencies and circumstances vary every thing1 #dhe1 #dhh4 ,,contraries arise from an opposite principle in contrariety thereto1 #dbe4 ,,conviction of the spirit of man1 how it is effected1 #bie4 ,those things in which the spirit is convinced1 obtain a place above those which1 without consulting reason1 enter from authority1 and from the faith of authority1 #bie4 ,,copper1 the1 signifies natural good1 #gg4 ,the age or period of copper1 #gg4 ,,corpora ,,striata1 #cae4 ,,corporeal ,,principle1 the1 is like ground wherein things natural1 rational1 and spiritual1 are implanted in their order1 #ei4 ,man is born corporeal as a worm1 and he remains corporeal1 unless he learns to know1 to understand1 and to be wise from others1 #acc4 ,every man by birth is merely corporeal1 and from corporeal he becomes natural more and more interiorly1 and thus rational1 and at length spiritual1 #ei1 #adh4 ,by corporeal men are properly meant those who love only themselves1 placing their heart in the quest of honor1 #dif2 they immerse all things of the will1 and consequently of the understanding in the body1 and look backward at themselves from others1 and love only what is proper to themselves1 #dif4 ,corporeal spirits1 #die4 ,,correspondences1 #gf1 #abg1 #cdb1 #ecb4 ,concerning the correspondence of the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 #aaf4 ,there is a correspondence of conjugial love with the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 #fb4 ,of the correspondence of the opposite with the violation of spiritual marriage1 #eae4 ,see ,science of ,correspondences4 ,,cortical substance of the brain1 #cae4 ,,courage is one of the moral virtues which have respect to life and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,covenant signifies conjunction1 #abh4 ,as the ,word is the medium of conjunction1 it is therefore called the old and the new covenant1 #abh4 ,the covenant between ,jehovah and the heavens1 #ge4 ,,crab1 the4--,what it is to think as a crab walks1 #bie4 ,,create1 to4--,why man was so created that whatever he wills1 thinks1 and does1 appears to him as in himself1 and thereby from himself1 #ddd4 ,how man1 created a form of ,god1 could be changed into a form of the devil1 #aec994 ,,creation cannot be from any other source than from divine love1 by divine wisdom in divine use1 #ahc4 ,all fructifications1 propagations1 and prolifications1 are continuations of creation1 #ahc4 ,the creation returns to the ,creator1 through the angelic heaven which is composed of the human race1 #he4 ,creation of man for conjugial love1 #ff4 ,,crocodiles1 in the spiritual world1 represent the deceit and cunning of the inhabitants1 #gi4 ,,crowns of flowers on the head1 #ahc4 ,the crown of chastity1 #ejc4 ,,cupidities1 the1 of the flesh are nothing but the conglomerated concupiscences of what is evil and false1 #ddj4 ,,customary ,,rites1 there are1 which are merely formal1 and there are others which at the same time are also essential2 among the latter are the nuptials1 #cjf4 ,nuptials are to be reckoned among essentials1 #cjf4 ,,danes1 the1 #ajc1 #aaa4 ,,darkness of the north signifies dulness of mind and ignorance of truth1 #gg4 ,,daughters-,,in-,,law4--,what daughters and sons-in-law signify in the ,word1 #abj4 ,,daughters1 in the ,word1 signifies the goods of the church1 #abj1 #bbj4 ,,death4--,man after death is perfectly a man1 yea1 more perfectly a man than before in the world1 #ahb4 ,,decalogue1 why the1 was promulgated by ,jehovah ,god upon ,mount ,sinai with a stupendous miracle1 #cea4 ,,decantation4--,the purification of conjugial love may be compared with the purification of natural spirits1 as effected by the chemists1 and called decantation1 #ade4 ,,deceased4--,when married partners have lived in love truly conjugial1 the spirit of the deceased cohabits continually with that of the survivor1 and this even to the death of the latter1 #cba4 ,,declaration1 the1 of love belongs to the men1 #bif4 ,,defecation4--,the purification of conjugial love may be compared with the purification of natural spirits1 as effected by the chemists1 and called defecation1 #ade4 ,,degrees4--,there are three degrees of life1 and hence there are three heavens1 and the human mind is distinguished into those degrees1 hence man corresponds to the three heavens1 #ecb4 ,heretofore the distinction of degrees in relation to greater and less has been known1 but not in relation to prior and posterior1 #ecb4 ,there are three degrees of the natural man2 the first degree is that properly meant by the natural1 the second the sensual1 and the third the corporeal1 #dif4 ,adulteries change men into these degenerate degrees1 #dif4 ,four degrees of adulteries1 #dhe-did4 ,violations of the ,word and the church correspond to the prohibited degrees enumerated in ,levit41 ch4 xviii41 #eai4 ,,delights1 all1 whatever1 of which man has any sensation1 are delights of his love1 #fh4 ,by delights love manifests itself1 yea1 exists and lives1 #fh4 ,delights follow use1 and are also communicated to man according to the love thereof1 #fh4 ,the love of use derives its essence from love1 and its existence from wisdom4 ,the love of use1 which derives its origin from love by wisdom1 is the love and life of all celestial joys1 #fc4 ,the activity of love makes the sense of delight3 its activity in heaven is with wisdom1 its activity in hell is with insanity3 each in its objects presents delights1 #dfa4 ,delight is the all of life to all in heaven1 and to all in hell1 #dfa4 ,delights are exalted in the same degree that love is exalted1 and also in the degree that the incident affections touch the ruling love more nearly1 #fh4 ,every delight of love1 in the spiritual world1 is presented to the sight under various appearances1 to the sense under various odors1 and to the view under various forms of beasts and birds1 #dcj4 ,delights of love truly conjugial1 #fh4 ,,delights1 external1 without internal have no soul1 #h4 ,every delight without its corresponding soul continually grows more and more languid and dull1 and fatigues the mind 7animus7 more than labor1 #h4 ,the delight of the soul is derived from love and wisdom proceeding from the ,lord1 #h4 ,this delight enters into the soul by influx from the ,lord1 and descends through the superior and inferior regions of the mind into all the senses of the body1 and in them is complete and full1 #h4 ,in conjugial love are collated all joys and delights from first to last1 #fh1 #fi4 ,the delights of conjugial love are the same with the delights of wisdom1 #bic1 #bid4 ,they proceed from the ,lord1 and now thence into the souls of men 7homines71 and through their souls into their minds1 and there into the interior affections and thoughts1 and thence into the body1 #ahc1 #fi1 #add1 #aee991 #aic4 ,as good is one with truth in spiritual marriage1 so wives desire to be one with their husband2 and hence arise conjugial delights with them1 #aih4 ,paradisiacal delights1 #h4 ,the delights of conjugial love ascend to the highest heaven1 and in the way thither1 and there1 join themselves with the delights of all heavenly loves1 and thereby enter into their happiness1 and endure forever1 #bid4 ,,delirium4--,an eminent degree of delirium is occasioned by truths which are falsified until they are believed to be wisdom1 #bab4 ,delirium in which those are1 in the spiritual world1 who have been in the unrestrained love of self and the world1 #bfg4 ,,democritus1 #ahb4 ,,demosthenes1 #ahb4 ,,devils4--,those are called devils who have lived wickedly1 and thereby rejected all acknowledgment of ,god from their hearts1 #chj4 ,see ,satans4 ,with adulterers who are called devils1 the will is the principal agent1 and with those who are called satans1 the understanding is the principal agent1 #dib4 ,devil of a frightful form1 #bfc4 ,,difference between the spiritual and the natural1 #cbf-cbi4 ,,dignities1 concerning1 in heaven1 #g1 #bff1 there they do not prefer dignity to use but the excellence of use to dignity1 #bej4 ,,diogenes1 #ahb4 ,,disciples1 the twelve1 together represented the church as to all its constituent principles1 #aai4 ,who they are who are called disciples of the ,lord in the spiritual world1 #bfa4 ,,discord between married partners arises from spiritual cold1 #bcf4 ,,discourse1 man's1 in itself is such as is the thought of his understanding which produces it1 #ebg4 ,discourse itself is grounded in the thought of the understanding1 and the tone of the voice is grounded in the will affection1 #adj4 ,speech which is said to flow from the thought1 flows not from the thought1 but from the affection through the thought1 #cf4 ,spiritual language with representatives fully expresses what is intended to be said1 and many things in a moment1 #dha4 ,conversation in the spiritual world may be heard by a distant person as if he were present1 #eba4 ,frequent discourse from the memory and from recollection1 and not at the same time from thought and intelligence1 induces a kind of faith1 #dae4 ,,disjunction1 all1 derives its origin from the opposition of spiritual spheres1 which emanate from their subjects1 #aga4 ,,dissimilitudes in the spiritual world are separated1 #bgc4 ,see ,likeness4 ,,distances4--,spheres cause distances in the spiritual world1 #aga4 ,distances in the spiritual world are appearances according to the states of mind1 #gh4 ,,distinction1 characteristic1 of the woman and the man1 #bag4 ,,diversities4--,distinction between varieties and diversities4 ,there are varieties between those things which are of one genus1 or of one species1 also between the genera and species2 but there is a diversity between those things which are in the opposite principle1 #cbd4 ,in heaven there is infinite variety1 and in hell infinite diversity1 #cbd4 ,,divided4--,every thing divided is more and more multiple1 and not more and more simple1 because what is continually divided approaches nearer and nearer to the ,infinite1 in which all things are infinitely1 #cbi4 ,,divine ,,good ,,and ,,truth4--,the divine good is the esse of the divine substance1 and the divine truth is the existere of the divine substance1 #aae4 ,the divine good and truth proceed as one from the ,lord1 #hg4 ,the ,lord ,god1 the ,creator1 is essential divine good1 and essential divine truth1 #hd4 ,the divine truth in the ,word is united to the divine good1 #abi4 ,all divine truth in the heavens gives forth light1 #gg4 ,,divine ,,essence1 the1 is composed of love1 wisdom1 and use1 #ahc4 ,nothing but what is of the divine essence can proceed from the ,lord1 and flow into the inmost principle of man1 #ahc4 ,there is not any essence without a form1 nor any form without an essence1 #hg4 ,,divine ,,love ,,and ,,wisdom4--,in the ,lord ,god1 the ,creator1 there are divine love and ,divine ,wisdom1 #hd4 ,,divisible4--,every grain of thought1 and every drop of affection1 is divisible ad infinitum3 in proportion as his ideas are divisible man is wise1 #cbi4 ,every thing is divisible in infinitum1 #ahe4 ,,divorce1 by1 is meant the abolition of the conjugial covenant1 and thence a plenary separation1 and after this an entire liberty to marry another wife1 #dfh4 ,the only cause of divorce is adultery1 according to the ,lord's precept4 ,matt4 xix4 #i1 #bee1 #dfh4 ,,doctrinals of the ,new ,church in five precepts1 #hb4 ,,dogs in the spiritual world represent the lusts in which the inhabitants are principled1 #gi4 ,who those are who appear like dogs of indulgences1 #eje4 ,,doves1 turtle4--,in heaven1 the appearances under which the chaste delights of conjugial love are presented to the view1 are turtle-doves1 c41 #dcj4 ,a pair of turtle-doves represents conjugial love of the highest region1 #bgj4 ,,dragons in the spiritual world represent the falsities and depraved inclinations of the inhabitants to those things which appertain to idolatrous worship1 #gi4 ,,dress of a bridegroom and bride during their marriage in heaven1 #bj1 #ba4 ,,drink1 to1 water from the fountain signifies to be instructed concerning truths1 and by truths concerning goods1 and thereby to grow wise1 #ahb4 ,,drinks4--,in the heaven as well as in the world there are drinks1 #f4 ,see ,food4 ,,drunkenness1 #beb1 #dgb4 ,,dura-,,mater1 #cae4 ,,duties4--,there are duties proper to the man1 and duties proper to the wife1 #agd4 ,in the duties proper to the men1 the primary agent is understanding1 thought1 and wisdom2 whereas in the duties proper to the wives1 the primary agent is will1 affection1 and love1 #age4 ,,ear1 the1 does not hear and discern the harmonies of tunes in singing1 and the concordances of the articulation of sounds in discourse1 but the spirit1 #ddj4 ,in heaven the right ear is the good of hearing1 and the left the truth thereof1 #caf4 ,,earth1 the1 or ground is the common mother of all vegetables1 #bjf1 #cig2 and of all minerals1 #cig4 ,,earth1 the lower1 in the spiritual world1 is next above hell1 #bca4 ,,earth1 or country1 #ac1 #bg1 #cg1 #di1 #fi1 #ga1 #add1 #cbj1 c4 ,,ease1 by1 and sloth the mind grows stupid and the body torpid1 and the whole man becomes insensible to every vital love1 especially to conjugial love1 #bdi4 ,,east1 the4--,the ,lord is the ,east1 because he is in the sun there1 #bfa4 ,,eat1 to1 of the tree of life1 in a spiritual sense1 is to be intelligent and wise from the ,lord2 and to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil1 signifies to be intelligent and wise from self1 #cec4 ,to eat of the tree of life1 is to receive eternal life2 to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil1 is to receive damnation1 #ace1 #ddd4 ,,ecclesiastical ,,order1 the1 on the earth minister those things which appertain to the ,lord's priestly character1 #cjh4 ,what is the nature of ecclesiastical self-love1 #bfd4 ,they aspire to be gods1 so far as that love is unrestrained4 #bfd4 ,,eden4--,see ,garden4 ,,education of children in the spiritual world1 #daa-dac4 ,,effect4--,see ,end4 ,,effigy4--,two married partners1 between or in whom conjugial love subsists1 are an effigy and form of it1 #fe4 ,in the spiritual world the faces of spirits become the effigies of their internal affections1 #bgc4 ,,election belongs to the man and not to the woman1 #bif4 ,the women have the right of election of one of their suitors1 #bif4 ,,elevation4--,with men there is an elevation of the mind into superior light1 and with women elevation of the mind into superior heat1 #ahh4 ,elevation into superior light with men is elevation into superior intelligence1 and thence into wisdom1 in which also there are ascending degrees of elevation1 #ahh4 ,the elevation into superior heat with women is an elevation into chaster and purer conjugial love1 and continually towards the conjugial principle1 which from creation lies concealed in their inmost principles1 #ahh4 ,these elevations considered in themselves are openings of the mind1 #ahh4 ,,elysian ,,fields1 #ahb4 ,,employments in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,,end of this ,work1 #bie4 ,,end1 the1 and the cause1 in what is to be effected and in effects1 act in unity because they act together1 #chg4 ,the end1 cause1 and effect successively progress as three things1 but in the effect itself they make one1 #dja4 ,every end considered in itself is a love1 #bab4 ,every end appertains to the will1 every cause to the understanding1 and every effect to action1 #djj4 ,the end1 unless the intended effect is seen together with it1 is not any thing1 neither does each become any thing1 unless the cause supports1 contrives1 and conjoins1 #djj4 ,all operations in the universe have a progression from ends1 through causes into effects1 #djj4 ,ends advance in a series1 one after the other1 and in their progress the last end becomes first1 #chg4 ,ends make progression in nature through times without time1 but they cannot come forth and manifest themselves1 until the effect or use exists and becomes a subject1 #dja4 ,the end of marriage is the procreation of children1 #bed4 ,all in heaven are influenced by an end of good2 and all in hell by an end of evil1 #dec1 #ebg4 ,,england1 #chj ,,english1 #ajc1 #ajg1 #cbf4 ,,enunciations1 the4--,the name of the prophetic books of the ,word that was given to the inhabitants of ,asia1 before the ,israelitish ,word1 #gg4 ,,epicurus1 #ahb4 ,,equilibrium1 there is an1 between the sphere of conjugial love1 and between the sphere of its opposite1 and man is kept in this equilibrium1 #dcg4 ,this equilibrium is a spiritual equilibrium1 #dcg4 ,spiritual equilibrium is that which exists between good and evil1 or between heaven and hell1 #ddd4 ,this equilibrium produces a free principle1 #ddd4 ,see ,freedom4 ,,erudite1 the pretended1 in the spiritual world1 #bcb4 ,,erudition appertains to rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,erudition is one of the principles constituent of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,esse and ,,existere4--,the esse of the substance of ,god is ,divine good1 and the existere of the substance of ,god is ,divine truth1 #aae4 ,,essentials4--,love1 wisdom1 and use1 are three essentials1 together constituting one divine essence1 #ahc4 ,these three essentials flow into the souls of men1 #ahc4 ,,eternity is the infinity of time1 #ahe4 ,,ethics is one of those sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,eunuchs4--,of those who are born eunuchs1 or of eunuchs so made1 #aea4 ,who are understood by the eunuchs who make themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake1 ,matt4 xix4 #ab1 #aef4 ,,evil is not from creation2 nothing but good exists from creation1 #ddd4 ,man himself is the origin of evil1 not that that origin was implanted in him by creation1 but that he1 by turning from ,god to himself1 implanted it in himself1 #ddd4 ,love without wisdom is love from man1 and this love is the origin of evil1 #ddd4 ,no one can be withdrawn from evil unless he has been first led into it1 #eaj4 ,so far as any one removes evil1 so far a capacity is given for good to succeed in its place1 #adg4 ,so far as evil is hated1 so far good is loved1 #adg4 ,evils and falses1 after they arose1 were distinguished into genera1 species1 and differences1 #dgi4 ,all evils are together of the external and internal man2 the internal intends them1 and the external does them1 #dhf4 ,so far as the understanding favors evils1 so far a man appropriates them to himself1 and makes them his own1 #dhi4 ,see ,hereditary4 ,,extension cannot be predicated of things spiritual1 #aeh4 ,the reason why1 #chi4 ,,externals derive from their internals their good or evil1 #dgh4 ,of the external derived from the internal1 and of the external separate from the internal1 #adh4 ,how man after death puts off externals1 and puts on internals1 #dh994 ,,eye1 the1 does not see and discern various particulars in objects1 but they are seen and discerned by the spirit1 #ddj4 ,in heaven the right eye is the good of vision1 and the left the truth thereof1 #caf4 ,,eyes1 when the1 of the spirit are opened1 angels appear in their proper form1 which is the human1 #cj4 ,,fables4--,things which are called fables at this day1 were correspondences agreeable to the primeval method of speaking1 #ahb4 ,,face1 the1 depends on the mind 7animus71 and is its type1 #ebd4 ,the countenance is a type of the love1 #ce4 ,the variety of countenances is infinite1 #ce4 ,there are not two human faces which arc exactly alike1 #ahf4 ,the faces of no two persons are absolutely alike1 nor can there be two faces alike to eternity1 #ebd4 ,,faculty4--,man is born faculty and inclination2 faculty to know1 and inclination to love1 #acd4 ,the faculty of understanding and growing wise as of himself1 was implanted in man by creation1 #ddd4 ,the faculty of knowing1 of understanding1 and of growing wise1 receives truths1 whereby it has science1 intelligence1 and wisdom1 #abb4 ,man has the faculty of elevating his understanding into the light of wisdom1 and his will into the heat of celestial love2 these two faculties are never taken away from any man1 #bcj4 ,the faculty of becoming wise increases with those who are in love truly conjugial1 #baa4 ,,faith is truth1 #aj1 #bd4 ,saving faith is to believe on the ,lord ,jesus ,christ1 #hb4 ,,fallacies of the senses are the darkness of truths1 #aeb994 ,,falses1 all1 have been collated into hell1 #dgi4 ,see ,evils4 ,,falsifications of truth are spiritual whoredoms1 #gg1 #hj4 ,,father4--,the ,lord in the ,word is called ,father1 #aah4 ,most fathers1 when they come into another life1 recollect their children who have died before them1 and they are also presented to1 and mutually acknowledge1 each other1 #djf4 ,in what manner spiritual and natural fathers act1 #djf4 ,by father and mother1 whom man is to leave1 ,matt4 xix4 #d1 #e1 in a spiritual sense1 is meant his proprium 7self-hood7 of will1 and proprium of understanding1 #aid4 ,see ,proprium4 ,,favor1 causes of1 between married partners1 #bgh1 #bhg1 #bij4 ,,fear4--,in love truly conjugial there is a fear of loss1 #cah4 ,this fear resides in the very inmost principles of the mind1 #cah4 ,,feasts4--,there are in heaven1 as in the world1 both feasts and repasts1 #f4 ,,female4--,see ,male and ,female4 ,the female principle is derived from the male1 or1 the woman was taken out of the man1 #cb4 ,the female principle cannot be changed into the male principle1 nor the male into the female1 #cb4 ,the difference between the essential feminine and masculine principle1 #cb1 #afh4 ,the good of truth1 or truth from good1 in the female principle1 #fa1 #hh1 #ij4 ,the female principle consists in perceiving from love1 #afh1 #bbj4 ,,fevers1 malignant and pestilential1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,fire in heaven represents good1 #cbf4 ,,fire in the spiritual sense signifies love1 #chj4 ,the fire of the angelic sun is divine love1 #cd4 ,the fire of the altar and of the candlestick in the tabernacle among the ,israelites1 represented divine love1 #chj4 ,the fire of the natural sun has existed from no other source than from the fire of the spiritual sun1 which is divine love1 #chj4 ,the fires of the west signify the delusive loves of evil1 #gg4 ,,fish4--,in the spiritual world fishes are representative forms1 #gf4 ,every fish corresponds to some quality1 #gf4 ,,flame4--,celestial love with the angels of heaven appears at a distance as flame2 and thus also infernal love appears with the spirits of hell1 #cei4 ,flame in the spiritual world does not burn like flame in the natural world1 #cei4 ,celestial flame in no case bursts out against another1 but only defends itself1 and defends itself against an evil person1 as when he rushes into the fire and is burnt1 #cfe4 ,,flesh1 the1 is contrary to the spirit1 that is1 contrary to the spiritual things of the church1 #dig4 ,combat between the flesh and the spirit1 #dhh4 ,the flesh is ignorant of the delights of the spirit1 #dha4 ,the flesh is not sensible of those things which happen in the flesh1 but the spirit perceives them1 #ddj4 ,what is signified by the words of our ,lord1 ,they are no more twain but one flesh1 #ej1 #aef991 #agh1 #cba4 ,by all flesh1 in the ,word1 is signified every man1 #aef994 ,,flow ,,from1 to4--,all that which flows from a subject1 and encompasses and environs it1 is named a sphere1 #chf4 ,,flow ,,in1 to4--,every thing which flows in from the ,lord into man1 flows into his inmost principle1 which is the soul1 and descends thence into his middle principle1 which is the mind1 and through this into his ultimate principle1 which is the body1 #aja4 ,the marriage of good and truth flows thus from the ,lord with man1 immediately into his soul1 and thence proceeds to the principles next succeeding1 and through these to the extreme or outermost1 #aja4 ,,flowers4--,the delights of conjugial love are represented in heaven by the flowers with which the cloaks and tunics of married partners are embroidered1 #acg4 ,,flowery ,,fields4--,in heaven there are flowery fields which are the appearances under which the chaste pleasures of conjugial love are presented to the sight1 #dcj4 ,,food1 heavenly1 in its essence is nothing but love1 wisdom1 and use1 united together2 that is1 use effected by wisdom1 and derived from love1 #f4 ,food for the body is given to every one in heaven1 according to the use which he performs1 #f4 ,,form4--,there is nothing that exists but in a form1 #ahf4 ,there is no substance without a form1 #ff4 ,every form consists of various things1 and is such as is the harmonic co-ordination thereof and arrangement to one1 #ebd4 ,all a man's affections and thoughts are in forms1 and thence from forms1 #ahf4 ,the form of heaven is derived solely from varieties of souls and minds arranged into such an order as to make a one1 #ebd4 ,truth is the form of good1 #aih4 ,the human form in its inmost principles is from creation a form of love and wisdom1 #cfa4 ,men from creation are forms of science1 intelligence1 and wisdom2 and women are forms of the love of those principles as existing with men1 #ahg4 ,form of the marriage of good and truth1 #ajj4 ,two married partners are that form in their inmost principles1 and thence in what is derived from those principles1 in proportion as the interiors of their mind are opened1 #aja1 #ajb4 ,two married partners are the very forms of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth1 #ff4 ,the internal form of man is that of his spirit1 #ahf4 ,the woman is a form of wisdom inspired with love-affection1 #ef4 ,the male form is the intellectual form1 and the female is the voluntary1 #bbh4 ,the most perfect and most noble human form results from the conjunction of two forms by marriage1 so as to become one form1 #bja4 ,how man1 created a form of ,god1 could be changed into a form of the devil1 #aec994 ,the desire to continue in its form is implanted from creation in all living things1 #cfa4 ,see ,substance4 ,,formation4--,as to formation1 the masculine soul1 as being intellectual1 is thus truth1 #bbj4 ,formation of the woman into a wife according to the description in the ,book of ,creation1 #aic-aih4 ,,fountain1 a1 signifies the truth of wisdom1 #bic4 ,fountain of ,parnassus1 #ahb4 ,see ,water4 ,,fowls4--,wonderful things conspicuous respecting fowls1 #dag4 ,,france1 #chj1 #cha4 ,,freedom originates in the spiritual equilibrium which exists between heaven and hell1 or between good and evil1 and in which man is educated1 #ddd4 ,the freedom of love truly conjugial is most free1 #beg4 ,the ,lord wills that the male man 7homo7 should act from principle according to reason1 #bjh1 #dch4 ,without freedom and reason man would not be a man1 but a beast1 #dch4 ,,french1 the1 #ajc1 #aaj1 #cbf4 ,,frensy1 or furious wildness1 a legitimate cause of separation1 #beb1 #dgj4 ,,friends meet after death1 and recollect their friendships in the former world2 but when their consociation is only from external affections1 a separation ensues1 and they no longer see or know each other1 #bgc4 ,,friendship is one of the moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,friendship increases with those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 #bad4 ,inmost friendship is in love truly conjugial1 and is derived from it1 #ahj4 ,inmost friendship is seated in the breast1 #ahj4 ,friendship from conjugial love differs greatly from the friendship of every other love1 #bad4 ,apparent friendship between married partners is a consequence of the conjugial covenant being ratified for the term of life1 #bgh4 ,there are various species of apparent friendship between married partners1 one of whom is brought under the yoke1 and therefore subject to the other1 #bia4 ,difference between conjugial friendship and servile friendship in marriages1 #bdh4 ,under what circumstances there may exist between married partners1 when old1 a friendship resembling that of conjugial love1 #bij4 ,,frozen ,,substances1 #eaj4 ,,fructification1 all1 is originally derived from the influx of love1 wisdom1 and use from the ,lord2 from an immediate influx into the souls of men2 from a mediate influx into the souls of animals2 and from an influx still more mediate into the inmost principles of vegetables1 #ahc4 ,fructifications are continuations of creation1 #ahc4 ,fructification in the heavens1 #dd1 #cee4 ,,future1 the4--,the ,lord does not permit any man to know the future1 because in proportion as he does so1 in the same degree his reason and understanding1 with his prudence and wisdom1 become inactive1 are swallowed up and destroyed1 #ece4 ,,gallery1 open1 #bjh4 ,,gangrenes1 #bec4 ,,gardens4--,in heaven the appearances under which the chaste delights of conjugial love are presented1 are gardens and flowery fields1 #dcj4 ,the garden of ,eden signifies the wisdom of love1 #ace4 ,nuptial gardens1 #caf4 ,paradisiacal gardens1 #h4 ,description of the garden of the prince of a heavenly society1 #ac4 ,,garland ,,of ,,roses1 a1 in heaven signifies the delights of intelligence1 #bic4 ,,garlands in heaven represent the delights of conjugial love1 #acg1 #bic4 ,,genera4--,distinction of all things into genera1 species1 and discriminations2 the reason why1 #dgi4 ,there are three genera of adulteries1 simple1 duplicate1 and triplicate1 #dgi1 #dhd4 ,,general of an army1 #dha4 ,,generals cannot enter into particulars1 #cbh4 ,,generosity is one of those moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,genii4--,who those are who1 in the spiritual world1 are called infernal genii1 #ead4 ,,genital region1 #ahc4 ,,gentiles4--,why there is no communication between the ,christian heaven1 and the heaven of the ,gentiles1 #ceb4 ,,geometry is one of the sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,germans1 #ajc1 #aji4 ,,germany1 #chj4 ,,gestures4--,in the spiritual world the internal affections appear even in the gestures1 #bgc4 ,,giants1 abode of1 #gg4 ,,gland1 pineal1 #cae4 ,,glorification of the ,lord by the angels of the heavens on account of his coming1 #ha4 ,,glorifying1 by1 ,god is meant the discharging of all the duties of our callings with faithfulness1 sincerity1 and diligence2 hereby ,god is glorified1 as well as by acts of worship at stated times1 succeeding these duties1 #i4 ,,glory1 the1 of the love of self1 elevates the understanding even into the light of heaven1 #bfi4 ,the glory of honor with men induces1 exalts1 and sharpens jealousy1 #cgh4 ,,god1 the1 of heaven is the ,lord1 #gh4 ,there is only one ,god1 in whom there is a divine trinity1 and ,he is the ,lord ,jesus ,christ1 #hb1 #ecb4 ,god is love itself1 and wisdom itself1 #acb4 ,the esse of the substance of ,god is divine good1 and the existere of ,his substance is divine truth1 #aae4 ,see ,lord1 obs4 ,,good and ,,truth4--,what the will loves and does is called good1 and what the understanding perceives and thinks is called true1 #dij4 ,all those things which pertain to the love are called good1 and all those things which pertain to wisdom are called truths1 #fj4 ,all things in the universe have relation to good and truth1 #fj4 ,good and truth are the universals of creation1 and thence are in all created things1 #hd4 ,good has relation to love1 and truth to wisdom1 #hd4 ,by truths1 man has understanding1 perception1 and all thought2 and by goods1 love1 charity1 and all affection1 #aba4 ,man receives truth as his own1 and appropriates it as his own1 for he thinks what is true as from himself1 #abb2 but he cannot take good as of himself1 it being no object of his sight1 #abc4 ,the truth of faith constitutes the ,lord's presence1 and the good of life according to the truths of faith constitutes conjunction with ,him1 #gb4 ,the truth of faith constitutes the ,lord's presence1 because it relates to light2 and the good of life constitutes conjunction1 because it relates to heat1 #gb4 ,in all things in the universe1 good is conjoined with truth1 and truth with good1 #fj4 ,there is not any truth without good1 nor good without truth1 #hg4 ,good is not good1 only so far as it is united with truth2 and truth is not truth1 only so far as it is united with good1 #hg4 ,relations of good and truth to their objects1 and their conjunction with them1 #hg4 ,the good which joins itself with the truth belonging to the man is from the ,lord immediately1 but the good of the wife1 which joins itself with the truth belonging to the man1 is from the ,lord mediately through the wife1 #ajj4 ,see ,marriage of ,good and ,truth4 ,,government4--,in heaven there are governments and forms of government1 #g4 ,,governments4--,there are in heaven1 as on the earths1 distinctions of dignity and governments1 #g4 ,,grapes1 good1 and bad grapes1 what they represent in the spiritual world1 #bid1 #gf4 ,,ground4--,man at his first birth is as a ground in which no seeds are implanted1 but which nevertheless is capable of receiving all seeds1 and of bringing them forth and fructifying them1 #acd4 ,,groves1 #gf1 #acb1 #ahc1 #caf4 ,,guilt1 ,reatus1 is principally predicated of the will1 #dic4 ,,gymnasia in the spiritual world1 #aea991 #bjg1 #cae1 #chj4 ,,gymnasia1 ,olympic1 in the spiritual world1 where the ancient sophi and many of their disciples met together1 #aea994 ,,habitations4--,how men have ceased to be habitations of ,god1 #aec994 ,,hand4--,in heaven the right hand is the good of man's ability1 and the left the truth thereof1 #caf4 ,if1 in the ,word1 mention is made of a thing's being inscribed on the hands1 it is because the hands are the ultimates of man1 wherein the deliberations and conclusions of his mind terminate1 and there constitute what is simultaneous1 #cad4 ,the angels can see in a man's hand all the thoughts and intentions of his mind1 #cad4 ,whatever a man examines intellectually1 appears to the angels as if inscribed on his hands1 #bfa4 ,,happiness1 concerning eternal1 #b and following4 ,happiness ought to be within external joys1 and to flow from them1 #f4 ,this happiness abiding in external joys1 makes them joys1 and to flow from them1 #f4 ,this happiness abiding in external joys1 makes them joys1 it enriches them1 and prevents their becoming loathsome and disgusting2 and this happiness is derived to every angel from the use he performs in his function1 #f4 ,from the reception of the love of uses1 springs heavenly happiness1 which is the life of joys1 #f4 ,heavenly happiness results from the eternal enjoyment of different states derived from conjugial love1 #ahj4 ,the delights of the soul1 with the thoughts of the mind and the sensations of the body1 constitute heavenly happiness1 #af4 ,the happiness which results from the sensations of the body alone1 is not eternal1 but soon passes away1 and in some cases becomes unhappiness1 #af4 ,eternal happiness does not arise from the place1 but from the state of the life of man 7homo7 #af4 ,,happiness1 the1 of cohabitation increases with those who are principled in love truly conjugial1 #bac4 ,,healing of the sick by the touch1 #cif4 ,,hearing1 natural1 is grounded in spiritual hearing1 which is attention of the understanding1 and at the same time accommodation of the will1 #bbj4 ,the love of hearing grounded in the love of hearkening to and obeying has the sense of hearing1 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of harmony1 #baj4 ,the perception of a thing imbibed by hearing only flows in indeed1 but does not remain unless the hearer also thinks of it from himself1 and asks questions concerning it1 #ahc4 ,,heart1 the1 signifies love1 #ge4 ,the heart has relation to good1 #hg4 ,the heart rules by the blood in every part of the body1 #agi4 ,,heat1 spiritual1 is love1 #bce4 ,this heat is from no other source than the sun of the spiritual world1 #bce4 ,heat is felt1 and not seen1 #abc4 ,when the heat of conjugial love removes and rejects the heat of adulterous love1 conjugial love begins to acquire a pleasant warmth1 #adg4 ,the quality of the heat of conjugial love with polygamists1 #cdd4 ,,heat and ,,light4--,in heaven heat is love1 and the light with which heat is united1 is wisdom1 #acg4 ,natural heat corresponds to spiritual heat1 which is love1 and natural light corresponds to spiritual light1 which is wisdom1 #ade4 ,heavenly light acts in unity with wisdom1 and heavenly heat with love1 #ade4 ,those things which have relation to light are seen1 and those which have relation to heat are felt1 #afh4 ,the delight of spiritual heat with spiritual light is perceivable in human forms1 in which this heat is conjugial love1 and this light is wisdom1 #ahi4 ,,heaven4--,the angelic heaven is formed from the human race1 #aef4 ,there are three heavens1 the first or ultimate heaven1 the second or middle heaven1 and the third or highest heaven1 #db4 ,the universal heaven is arranged in order according to the varieties of the affections of the love of good1 #cf4 ,in heaven human forms are altogether similar to those in the natural world4 ,nothing is wanting in the male1 and nothing in the female1 #dd4 ,the heaven of infants1 its situation1 #daj4 ,heaven of innocence1 #ddd4 ,heaven of ,mahometans1 #cdb-cdd4 ,,helicon1 #aea991 #ahb4 ,,heliconides1 sports of the1 in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,these sports were spiritual exercises and trials of skill1 #bjg4 ,,hell4--,the universal hell is arranged in order according to the affections of the love of evil1 #cf4 ,those who are in evil from the understanding dwell there in front and are called satans1 but those who are in evil from the will dwell to the back and are called devils1 #dib4 ,hell of the deceitful1 #ead4 ,,heraclitus1 #ahb4 ,,hereditary evil is not from ,adam1 but from a man's parents1 #ebe4 ,whence it springs1 #bde4 ,,heterogeneites in the spiritual world are not only felt1 but also appear in the face1 the discourse1 and the gesture1 #bgc4 ,,heterogeneous or ,,discordant1 what is1 causes disjunction and absence in the spiritual world1 #aga4 ,,hieroglyphics1 the1 of the ,egyptians derive their origin from the science of correspondences and representations1 #gf1 #cdb4 ,,history is one of the sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,hogs4--,in hell1 the forms of beasts under which the lascivious delights of adulterous love are presented to the view are hogs1 c41 #dcj4 ,companions of ,ulysses changed into hogs1 #eba4 ,,holland1 #chj4 ,,hollanders or ,dutchmen1 #ajc1 #aje4 ,,homogeneites1 in the spiritual world1 are not only felt1 but also appear in the face1 language1 and gesture1 #bgc4 ,,homogeneous or ,,concordant1 what is1 causes conjunction and presence1 #aga4 ,,honors4--,in heaven the angels feel that the honors of the dignities are out of themselves1 and are as the garments with which they are clothed1 #bff4 ,,hoof1 by the1 of the horse ,pegasus is understood experiences whereby comes natural intelligence1 #ahb4 ,,house1 the1 signifies the understanding of truths1 #gf4 ,see ,pegasus4 ,,house4--,in heaven no one can dwell but in his own house1 which is provided for him1 and assigned to him1 according to the quality of his love1 #ej4 ,,human ,,principle1 the1 consists in desiring to grow wise1 and in loving whatever appertains to wisdom1 #eb4 ,,hunch-,,backed4--,when the love of the world constitutes the head1 a man is not a man otherwise than as hunch-backed1 #bfi4 ,,husband4--,how with young men the youthful principle is changed into that of a husband1 #aii4 ,,husband1 the1 does not represent the ,lord1 and the wife the church1 because both together1 the husband and the wife1 constitute the church1 #abe4 ,the husband represents wisdom1 and the wife represents the love of the wisdom of the husband1 #ba4 ,the husband is truth1 and the wife the good thereof1 #gf4 ,a state receptible of love1 and perceptible of wisdom1 makes a youth into a husband1 #cba4 ,see ,wife4 ,,hypocrite4--,every man who is not interiorly led by the ,lord is a hypocrite1 and thereby an apparent man1 and yet not a man1 #bfg4 ,,idea1 every1 of man's1 however sublimated1 is substantial--that is1 affixed to substances1 #ff4 ,to every idea of natural thought there adheres something derived from space and time1 which is not the case with any spiritual idea1 #cbh4 ,spiritual ideas1 compared with natural1 are ideas of ideas1 #cbf4 ,there is not any idea of natural thought adequate to any idea of spiritual thought1 #cbf4 ,spiritual ideas are supernatural1 inexpressible1 ineffable1 and incomprehensible to the natural man1 #cbf4 ,one natural idea contains innumerable spiritual ideas1 and one spiritual idea contains innumerable celestial ideas1 #cbi4 ,,identity4--,no absolute identity of two things exist1 still less of several1 #ahf4 ,,idolaters1 ancient1 in the spiritual world1 #gh4 ,,idolatry4--,its origin1 #gh1 #cdb4 ,,ijim1 the1 in hell represent the images of the phantasies of the infernals1 #bfd4 ,see ,phantasy4 ,,illustrate1 to1 #db1 #dh991 #acj1 #acd1 c4 ,obs4--,in the writings of the ,author1 to illustrate is generally used in the sense of to enlighten4 ,,illustration4--,in the ,word there is illustration concerning eternal life1 #bh4 ,obs4--,illustration is an actual opening of the interiors which pertain to the mind1 and also an elevation into the light of heaven1 ,h4,d41 #bef4 ,,image4--,what are the image and likeness of ,god into which man was created1 #ahb1 #acd4 ,image of the husband in the wife1 #agc4 ,,imagination1 #d1 #g4 ,see ,phantasy4 ,,immodesty1 #beb1 #dgb4 ,all in hell are in the immodesty of adulterous love1 #dbi4 ,,immortality4--,man may no longer be in doubt through ignorance respecting his immortality1 after the discoveries which it has pleased the ,lord to make1 #ecb4 ,,implant1 to4--,that which is implanted in souls by creation1 and respects propagation1 is indelible1 and not to be extirpated1 #dji4 ,good cannot be implanted1 only so far as evil is removed1 #ebe4 ,,impletion4--,the soul is a spiritual substance1 which is not a subject of extension1 but of impletion1 #bbj4 ,,imposition ,,of ,,hands4--,whence it has originated1 #cif4 ,,impure4--,to the impure every thing is impure1 #adj4 ,,impurity1 the1 of hell is from adulterous love1 #dhj1 #die4 ,in like manner the impurity in the church1 #dca1 #die4 ,there are innumerable varieties of impurities2 all hell overflows with impurities1 #dcj4 ,,imputation1 the1 of evil in the other life is not accusation1 incusation1 inculpation1 and judication1 as in the world1 #ebd2 evil is there made sensible as in its odor2 it is this which accuses1 incuses1 fixes blame1 and judges1 not before any judge1 but before every one who is principled in good1 and this is what is meant by imputation1 #ebd4 ,imputation of adulterous love1 and imputation of conjugial love1 #ebc-eca4 ,imputation of adulteries after death1 how effected1 #dhe1 #dhi1 #dic2 these imputations take place after death1 not according to circumstances1 which are external of the deed1 but according to internal circumstances of the mind1 #ecj4 ,imputation of good1 how it is effected1 #ebd4 ,if by imputation is meant the transcription of good into any one who is in evil1 it is a frivolous term1 #ebf4 ,,impute1 to4--,the evil in which every one is1 is imputed to him after death2 in like manner the good1 #ebd1 #ecj1 #eca4 ,evil or good is imputed to every one after death1 according to the quality of his will and or his understanding1 #ebg4 ,who it is to whom sin is not imputed1 and who to whom it is imputed1 #ebi1 #ebg4 ,,inactivity or ,,sloth occasions a universal languor1 dulness1 stupor1 and drowsiness of the mind1 and thence of the body1 #bjg4 ,in consequence of sloth the mind grows stupid and the body torpid1 and the whole man becomes insensible to every vital love1 especially to conjugial love1 #bdi4 ,,inclination4--,in the truth of good1 and in the good of truth1 there is implanted from creation an inclination to join themselves together into one1 #hh1 #ajj2 the reason why1 #hi4 ,the conjunctive inclination1 which is conjugial love1 is in the same degree with the conjunction of good and truth1 which is the church1 #fc4 ,every one derives from his parents his peculiar temper1 which is his inclination1 #ebe4 ,children are born with inclinations to such things as their parents were inclined to1 #bjb2 but it is of the ,divine ,providence that perverse inclinations may be rectified1 #bjb4 ,inclinations of married partners towards each other1 #aga4 ,husbands know nothing at all of the inclinations and affections of their own love1 but wives are well acquainted with those principles in their husbands1 #bjh4 ,inclination of the wife towards the husband1 #afj4 ,dissimilitude of internal inclinations is the origin and cause of cold1 #bge4 ,external inclinations1 whence they arise1 #bdf4 ,,indifference with married partners comes from a disunion of souls and disjunction of minds1 #bcf1 #bef4 ,,industry is one of the moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,inequality of external rank and condition is one of the external causes of cold1 #bej4 ,there are many inequalities of rank and condition which put an end to the conjugial love commenced before marriage1 #bej4 ,,infancy is the appearance of innocence1 #ge4 ,,influx4--,what is meant by influx1 #cac4 ,there is an immediate influx from the ,lord into the souls of men1 a mediate influx into the souls of animals1 and an influx still more mediate into the inmost principles of vegetables1 #ahc4 ,every subject receives influx according to its form1 #hf4 ,the subject does not perceive the influx1 #cib4 ,the influx is alike into all2 but the reception1 which is according to the form1 causes every species to continue a particular species1 #hf4 ,the influx of love and wisdom from the ,lord is the essential activity from which comes all delight1 #dfa4 ,influx of conjugial love1 #ahc1 #bjh1 #cee4 ,,inherent1 #bc1 #bag1 #daj1 #dbb4 ,obs4--,that is called inherent which proceeds from a common influx1 ,a4,e41 #iee4 ,common influx is a continual effort proceeding from the ,lord through all heaven1 into each of the things which pertain to the life of man4 ,see ,a4,e41 #fbad4 ,what is inherent is as a graft4 ,,inherent1 to be1 #cb1 #ea1 #ih1 #bba1 #dbb1 #dbf4 ,,inmost principles of the mind1 and inmost principles of the body1 #fh4 ,the highest things of successive order become the inmost of simultaneous order1 #cad4 ,the inmost principle of man is his soul1 #ahc4 ,,innocence is the esse of every good2 good is only so far good as innocence is in it1 #cid1 #dad4 ,the ,lord is innocence itself1 #cid4 ,innocence is to be led by the ,lord1 #dad4 ,the innocence of infants flows in from the ,lord1 #cie4 ,the sphere of innocence flows into infants1 and through them into parents1 and affects them1 #cie1 #cif4 ,what is the innocence of infants which flows into parents1 #cie4 ,the innocence of infancy is the cause of the love called storge1 #cie4 ,innocence corresponds to infancy1 and also to nakedness1 #dac4 ,the innocence of childhood is external innocence1 and the innocence of wisdom internal innocence1 #dac4 ,the innocence of wisdom is the end of all instruction and progression with infants in the spiritual world1 #dac4 ,when they come to the innocence of wisdom1 the innocence of infancy is adjoined to them1 which in the mean time had served them as a plane1 #dac4 ,innocence is in conjugial love1 and pertains to the soul1 #ahj4 ,innocence is one of the spiritual virtues which flow from love to ,god and love towards the neighbor1 #afd4 ,,insanity1 #bab4--;,insanity1 a vitiated state of the mind1 is a legitimate cause of separation1 #beb1 #dgj4 ,,inscribed ,,on ,,the ,,hands4--,why this form of expression is used in the ,word1 #cad4 ,see ,hand4 ,,instruction of children in heaven1 #daa-dac4 ,places of instruction in the spiritual world1 #bfa4 ,,integrity1 state of1 #ace1 #aee4 ,,intellectual1 the1 principle is nothing but truth1 #bbj4 ,man's intellectual principle is the inmost principle of the woman1 #aie4 ,,intelligence is a principle of reason1 #acj4 ,there is no end to intelligence1 #ahe4 ,every one is in intelligence1 not by birth1 but exteriorly by education1 #bfg4 ,the intelligence of women is in itself modest1 elegant1 pacific1 yielding1 soft1 tender2 and the intelligence of men in itself is grave1 harsh1 hard1 daring1 fond of licentiousness1 #bah4 ,circles around the head represent intelligence1 #bfi4 ,,intemperance1 #beb1 #dgb4 ,,intention4--,that which flows forth from the form of a man's life1 thus from the understanding and its thought1 is called intention2 but that which flows forth from the essence of a man's life1 thus that which flows forth from his will or his love1 is principally called purpose1 #dic4 ,the intention which pertains to the will is principally regarded by the ,lord1 #ga1 #adf4 ,intention is as an act before determination2 hence it is that1 by a wise man and also by the ,lord1 intention is accepted as an act1 #djj1 #deb4 ,intention is the soul of all actions1 and causes blamableness and unblamableness in the world1 and after death imputation1 #deb4 ,,intercourse4--,in heaven there are frequent occasions of cheerful intercourse and conversation1 whereby the internal minds 7mentes7 of the angels are exhilarated1 their external minds 7animi7 entertained1 their bosoms delighted1 and their bodies refreshed1 but such occasions do not occur till they have fulfilled their appointed uses in the discharge of their respective business and functions1 #e4 ,,interiors1 the1 form the exteriors to their own likeness1 #cc4 ,the opening of the interiors cannot be fully effected except with those who have been prepared by the ,lord to receive the things which are of spiritual wisdom1 #ci4 ,these interiors1 which in themselves are spiritual1 are opened by the ,lord alone1 #cdj1 #cda4 ,,internal ,,principles1 man's1 by which are meant the things appertaining to his mind or spirit1 are elevated in a superior degree above his external principles1 #ahe4 ,,intrepidity is one of the moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,iron4--,age of iron1 #gh4 ,,israelitish ,,nation4--,why it was permitted to the ,israelitish nation to marry a plurality of wives1 #cdj4 ,,italians1 #ajc1 #ajf4 ,italian eunuchs1 #aef4 ,,james1 the ,apostle1 represented charity1 #aai4 ,,jealousy1 concerning1 #ceg-cgi4 ,the zeal of conjugial love is called jealousy1 #cfg4 ,jealousy is like a burning fire against those who infest love exercised towards a married partner1 and it is a horrid fear for the loss of that love1 #cfh4 ,there is a spiritual jealousy with monogamists1 and natural with polygamists1 #cfi1 #cgj4 ,jealousy with those married partners who tenderly love each other is a just grief grounded in sound reason lest conjugial love should be divided1 and should thereby perish1 #cga1 #cgb4 ,jealousy with married partners who do not love each other is grounded in several causes1 proceeding in some instances from various mental sickness1 #cgc1 #cge4 ,jealousy with men resides in the understanding1 #cgb4 ,in some instances there is not any jealousy1 and this also from various causes1 #cgf4 ,there is a jealousy also in regard to concubines1 but not such as in regard to wives1 #cgg4 ,jealousy likewise exists among beasts and birds1 #cgh4 ,the jealousy prevalent with men and husbands is different from what is prevalent with women and wives1 #cgi4 ,,jehovah4--,the ,lord is ,jehovah from eternity1 #bi4 ,why ,jehovah is said to be jealous1 #cff4 ,,jerusalem1 the ,new1 signifies the new church of the ,lord1 #dc1 #ecd4 ,,jesuit1 #dii4 ,,jesus ,,christ4--,the divine trinity is in ,jesus ,christ1 in whom ,dwells all the fulness of the ,godhead bodily1 #bd4 ,see ,god1 ,lord4 ,,jew1 a1 may be recognized by his look1 #bjb4 ,,job4--,the doctrine of correspondences1 of which the spiritual sense of the ,word is composed1 has been concealed now for some thousands of years1 namely1 since the time of ,job1 #ecb4 ,,john1 the ,apostle1 represented the works of charity1 #aai4 ,he represented the church as to the goods of charity1 ,john xix4 #bf1 #bg1 #aai4 ,,joy1 heavenly1 #b1 and following4 ,heavenly joy consists in the delight of doing something that is useful to ourselves and others1 which delight derives its essence from love1 and its existence from wisdom1 #e4 ,the delight of being useful1 originating in love and operating by wisdom1 is the very soul and life of all heavenly joys1 #e4 ,,judge1 a1 gives sentence according to actions done1 but every one after death is judged according to the intentions2 thus a judge may absolve a person1 who after death is condemned1 and vice versa1 #dhe1 #ebg4 ,unjust judges1 their fate in the other life1 #bca4 ,,judge1 to4--,it is permitted to every one to judge of the moral and civil life of another in the world1 but to judge what is the quality of his interior mind or soul1 thus what is the quality of any one's spiritual state1 and thence what is his lot after death1 is not allowed1 #ebc4 ,no one is to be judged of from the wisdom of his conversation1 but of his life in union therewith1 #dii4 ,after death every one is judged according to the intentions of the will1 and thence of the understanding2 and according to the confirmations of the understanding1 and thence of the will1 #dhe4 ,,judgment4--,difference between corporeal judgment1 and judgment of the mind1 #eg4 ,by corporeal judgment is meant the judgment of the mind according to the external senses1 which judgment is gross and dull1 #eg4 ,see ,justice and ,judgment4 ,,judicial ,,proceedings4--,in heaven there are judicial proceedings1 #bjg1 #bca4 ,,jurisprudence is one of the sciences by which1 as by doors1 an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afd4 ,,justice1 ,divine4--,it is contrary to ,divine justice to condemn those who acknowledge a ,god and from a principle of religion practise the laws of justice1 which consist in shunning evils because they are contrary to ,god1 and doing what is good because it is agreeable to ,god1 #cea4 ,,justice and ,,judgment4--,justice has relation to moral wisdom1 and judgment to rational wisdom1 #afd4 ,the spiritual man in all he does acts from justice and judgment1 #bhj4 ,,kids4--,in heaven1 the forms of animals under which the chaste delights of conjugial love are presented to view are kids c41 #dcj4 ,,kingdom1 the1 of ,christ1 which is heaven1 is a kingdom of uses1 #g4 ,,labyrinth1 paradisiacal1 #h4 ,,lakes signify falsifications of truth1 #hj4 ,lakes of fire and brimstone1 #gi1 #hj4 ,,lambs in the spiritual world are representative forms of the state of innocence and peace of the inhabitants1 #ge4 ,the forms of animals under which the chaste delights of conjugial love are there presented to the view1 are lambs1 c41 #dcj4 ,the ,lord from innocence is called a lamb1 #cid4 ,,lamps signify truth1 #dd4 ,,language4--,all in the spiritual world have the spiritual language1 which has in it nothing common to any natural language1 #cbf4 ,every man comes of himself into the use of that language after his decease1 #cbf4 ,every spirit and angel1 when conversing with a man1 speaks his proper language1 #cbf4 ,the sound of spiritual language differs so far from the sound of natural language1 that a spiritual sound1 though loud1 could not at all be heard by a natural man1 nor a natural sound by a spiritual man1 #cbf4 ,,lascivious4--,angels discern in the extremes what is lascivious from what is not lascivious1 #dci4 ,the external principle separated from the internal1 is lascivious in the whole and in every part1 #adh4 ,the lascivious mind acts lasciviously1 and the chaste mind chastely2 and the latter arranges the body1 whereas the former is arranged by the body1 #aia4 ,,lasciviousness1 in its spiritual origin1 is insanity1 #bab4 ,in the lowest region of the mind1 which is called the natural1 reside all the concupiscences of lasciviousness1 but in the superior region1 which is called the spiritual1 there are not any concupiscences1 #cje4 ,all in hell are in lasciviousness1 #dbi4 ,a sphere of lasciviousness issues forth from the unchaste1 #adj4 ,,latitude4--,all goods and evils partake of latitude and altitude1 and according to latitude have their genera1 and according to altitude their degrees1 #dgh4 ,,law4--,divine law and rational are one law1 #bgf4 ,how the declaration1 that no one can fulfil the law1 is to be understood1 #ebh4 ,,leave his father and mother1 to1 ,gen4 ii4 #d2 ,matt4 xix4 #de1 signifies to divest himself of the proprium of the will and of the understanding1 #aid4 ,,left1 the1 signifies truth1 #caf4 ,,leopards in the spiritual world represent the falsities and depraved inclinations of the inhabitants to those things which pertain to idolatrous worship1 #gi4 ,those who only read the ,word1 and imbibe thence nothing of doctrine1 but confirm false principles1 appear like leopards1 #gh4 ,,leprosy1 #beh1 #dgj4 ,,liberality is one of those virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,liberty4--,see ,rationality and ,liberty4 ,,libraries in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,,life4--,the life of man essentially is his will1 and formally is his understanding1 #dic4 ,every one has excellence of life according to his conjugial love1 #eaj4 ,,light4--,in heaven1 the light with which warmth is united is wisdom1 #acg4 ,in heaven there is perpetual light1 and on no occasion do the shades of evening prevail2 still less is there darkness1 because the sun does not set1 #acg4 ,heavenly light is above the rational principle with man1 and rational light is below it1 #bcc4 ,if heavenly light does not flow into natural light1 a man does not see whether any thing true is true1 and neither does he see that any thing false is false1 #bcc4 ,false and delusive lights1 #gg4 ,see ,heat and ,light4 ,,lightning4--,in the spiritual world1 the vibration of light1 like lightning1 is a correspondence and consequent appearance of the conflict of arguments1 #dae4 ,,like4--,there is not one angel of heaven absolutely like another1 nor any spirit of hell1 neither can there be to eternity1 #cfb4 ,there are not two human faces exactly alike1 #ahf4 ,,likeness or ,,similitude4--,the likeness of children to their parents1 #ebe4 ,man is a likeness of ,god from this circumstance1 that he feels in himself that the things which are of ,god are in him as his1 #acb1 #acd4 ,similitudes and dissimilitudes between married partners in general originate from connate inclinations1 varied by education1 connections1 and imbibed persuasions1 #bbg4 ,there are both internal and external similitudes and dissimilitudes2 the internal derive their origin from religion1 and the external from education1 #bdf4 ,the varieties of similitudes are very numerous1 and differ more or less from each other1 #bbh4 ,various similitudes can be conjoined1 but not with dissimilitudes1 #bbh4 ,the ,lord provides similitudes for those who desire love truly conjugial2 and if they are not given in the earths1 he provides them in the heavens1 #bbi4 ,in the spiritual world1 similitudes are joined1 and dissimilitudes separated1 #bgc4 ,,lipothamia1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,live1 to1 for others is to perform uses1 #ah4 ,,loins1 the1 with men correspond to conjugial love1 #eaj4 ,,look1 to4--,the ,lord looks at every man in the fore front of his head1 and this aspect passes into the hinder part of his head1 #ddd4 ,in heaven it is impossible to look at the wife of another from an unchaste principle1 #ge4 ,,lord1 the1 is the ,god of heaven and earth1 #abi4 ,the ,lord is essential good and essential truth2 and these in ,him are not two1 but one1 #aba4 ,the ,lord loves every one1 and desires to do good to every one1 #g4 ,he promotes good or use by the mediation of angels in heaven1 and of men on earth1 #g4 ,from the ,lord1 the creator and conservator of the universe1 there continually proceed love1 wisdom1 and use1 and these three as one1 #djj4 ,obs4--in all the writings of the ,author1 by the ,lord1 is signified the ,saviour of the world1 ,jesus ,christ1 who is the ,one only ,god1 because in ,him dwelleth the ,trinity of ,father1 ,son1 and ,holy ,spirit4 ,,lot4--,such as a man's life has been in the world1 such is his lot after death1 #df4 ,lot of those who have abandoned themselves to various lusts1 #eje1 #eaj1 #eab1 #ead4 ,happy lot of those who wished for dominion from the love of uses1 #bff4 ,,love1 to4--,whether it be possible for a woman to love her husband1 who constantly loves her own beauty1 #chj4 ,whether a man who loves himself from his intelligence can love a wife1 #cha4 ,,love is the esse or essence of a man's life1 #cf1 #df1 #ceh4 ,it is the man himself1 #cf4 ,it is the best of the life of man1 or his vital heat1 #cd1 #cei4 ,love is the essential active principle of life1 #ahc2 it is kept alive by delight1 #ah4 ,each love has its delight1 #ah4 ,all love is of such a nature that it bursts out into indignation and anger1 yea1 into fury1 whenever it is disturbed in its delights1 #ceh4 ,love1 without its delights1 is not any thing1 #dbg4 ,love is spiritual heat1 #bce4 ,love is spiritual heat originating in the fire of the angelic sun1 which is pure love1 #ceh4 ,spiritual heat living in subjects is felt as love1 #bce4 ,love resides in man's will2 in the will it is like fire1 and in the understanding like flame1 #cfj4 ,love cannot do otherwise than love1 and unite itself1 in order that it may be loved in return1 #afj4 ,it is such1 that it desires to communicate with another whom it loves from the heart1 yea1 to confer joys upon him1 and thence to derive its own joys1 #ahj4 ,the love of man is his very life1 not only the common life of his whole body1 and the common life of all his thoughts1 but also the life of all the particulars thereof1 #cd4 ,a man is such as his love is1 and not such as his understanding is1 since the love easily draws over the understanding to its side1 and enslaves it1 #bfi4 ,it is not possible that any love should become perfect either with men or with angels1 #ga1 #adf4 ,,love1 conjugial1 is the foundation love of all celestial and spiritual loves1 and thence of all natural loves1 #fe1 #adc1 #bdj4 ,it is as a parent1 and all other loves are as the offspring1 #fe4 ,conjugial love essentially consists in the desire of two to become one1 that is1 their desire that two lives may become one life1 #bae1 #cg4 ,it is the conjunction of love and wisdom1 #fe4 ,the very origin of this love resides in the inmost principles appertaining to man1 that is1 in is soul1 #bch1 #dff4 ,this origin springs from the marriage of good and truth1 #fj1 #hc-ajb1 #ajc1 #adc4 ,this love is celestial1 spiritual1 and holy1 because derived from a celestial1 spiritual1 and holy origin1 #fa4 ,the love of the sex with man is not the origin of conjugial love1 but is its first rudiment1 #ih4 ,conjugial love in its origin is the sport of wisdom and love1 #ge4 ,it is called celestial1 as appertaining to the angels of the highest heaven1 and spiritual1 as appertaining to the angels beneath that heaven1 #fd4 ,every angel has conjugial love with its virtue1 ability1 and delights1 according to his application to the genuine use in which he is1 #bjg4 ,into conjugial love are collated all joys and delights from first to last1 #fh4 ,whence arise the delights of conjugial love1 which are innumerable and ineffable1 #ahc4 ,this love belongs to the internal or spiritual man1 and hence is peculiar to man1 #ie1 #if4 ,conjugial love corresponds to the affection of truth1 its chastity1 purity1 and sanctity1 #abg4 ,it is according to the state of wisdom with man1 #acj4 ,it remains with man after death such as it had been interiorly1 that is1 in the interior will and thought1 #dh4 ,the purity of heaven is from conjugial love1 #dcj4 ,the delights of conjugial love commence in the spirit1 and are of the spirit even in the flesh1 #ddj4 ,these delights are the delights of wisdom1 #ddb4 ,what are the delights of conjugial love1 #fi4 ,how conjugial love is formed1 #afb4 ,it corresponds to the marriage of the ,lord with the church1 #fb1 #adc4 ,conjugial love is according to the state of the church1 because it is according to the state of wisdom with man1 #acj4 ,the states of this love are1 innocence1 peace1 tranquillity1 inmost friendship1 full confidence1 c41 #ahj4 ,conjugial love is of infinite variety1 #eg4 ,experience testifies that conjugial love exceeds self-love1 the love of the world1 and even the love of life1 #ccc4 ,conjugial love is so rare at this day1 that its quality is not known1 and scarcely its existence1 #fi4 ,conjugial love1 such as it was with the ancients1 will be raised again by the ,lord1 #gh1 #ha4 ,conjugial love is according to religion with man1 spiritual with the spiritual1 natural with the natural1 and merely carnal with adulterers1 #ecd4 ,of the conjunction of conjugial love with the love of infants1 #che-dad4 ,of the imputation of conjugial love1 #ebc-eca4 ,of love truly conjugial1 #eg-gh4 ,considered in itself1 love truly conjugial is a union of souls1 a conjunction of minds1 and an endeavor towards conjunction in the bosoms1 and thence in the body1 #agi4 ,it was the love of loves with the ancients who lived in the golden1 silver1 and copper ages1 #gc4 ,considered in its origin and correspondence1 it is celestial1 spiritual1 holy1 pure1 and clean1 #ga4 ,love truly conjugial is only with those who desire wisdom1 and who consequently advance more and more into wisdom1 #ih4 ,so far as a man loves wisdom from the love thereof1 or truth from good1 so far he is in love truly conjugial1 and in its attendant virtue1 #cee4 ,so far as man becomes spiritual1 so far he is in love truly conjugial1 #acj4 ,this love with its delights is solely from the ,lord1 and is given to those who live according to his precepts1 #ecd4 ,love truly conjugial may exist with one of the married partners1 and not at the same time with the other1 #bbf4 ,how love truly conjugial is distinguished from spurious1 false1 and cold conjugial love1 #bbd4 ,difference between love truly conjugial and vulgar love1 which is also called conjugial1 and which with some is merely the limited love of the sex1 #ih4 ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,body1 the4--,dignities and honors are peculiarly the objects of the love of the body2 besides these1 there are also various enticing allurements1 such as beauty and an external polish of manners1 sometimes even an unchasteness of character1 #di4 ,,love ,,of ,,children1 the1 with the mother and the father1 conjoin themselves as the heart and lungs in the breast1 #bhd4 ,the love of infants corresponds to the defence of truth and good1 #abg4 ,why the love of infants descends and does not ascend1 #djb4 ,the love of infants and of children is different with spiritual married partners from what it is with natural1 #dje4 ,the love of infants remains after death1 especially with women1 #daj4 ,of the conjunction of conjugial love with the love of infants1 #che-dad4 ,,love ,,of ,,dominion1 the1 grounded in the love of self1 and the love of dominion grounded in the love of uses1 #bfb4 ,the love of dominion grounded in the love of self1 is the first universal love of hell2 it is in the highest degree infernal1 #bfb4 ,the love of dominion grounded in the love of uses is the universal love of heaven2 it is in the highest degree celestial1 #bfb1 #bff4 ,when the ruling love is touched1 there ensues an emotion of the mind 7animus71 and if the touch hurts1 there ensues wrath1 #ceh4 ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,neighbor1 the1 is also the love of doing uses1 #bfi4 ,the love of the neighbor1 or of doing uses1 is a spiritual love1 #bfi4 ,,love1 polygamical1 is connubial1 and at the same time adulterous1 #gh4 ,it is the love of the sex1 limited to a number1 #cde4 ,it is the love of the external or natural man1 and thus is not conjugial love1 #cde4 ,it is inscribed on the natural man1 #cde4 ,,love ,,of ,,self1 the1 is also the love of bearing rule over others1 #bfi4 ,the love of self1 or the love of bearing rule over others1 is a corporeal love1 #bfi4 ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,sex1 the1 is a love directed to several1 and contracted with several of the sex1 #dh4 ,the love of the sex exists with the natural man1 but conjugial love with the spiritual man1 #ch4 ,the love of the sex with man is not the origin of conjugial love1 but is its first rudiment2 thus it is like an external natural principle1 in which an internal spiritual principle is implanted1 #ih4 ,it is the first in respect to time1 but not in respect to end1 #ih4 ,the love of the sex is the universal of all loves1 being implanted from creation in the heart of man1 and is for the sake of the propagation of the human race1 #df4 ,what the chaste love of the sex is1 and whence derived1 #ee1 #ii4 ,the love of the sex belongs to the external of natural man1 and hence is common to every animal1 #id4 ,it is in itself natural1 #ada4 ,origin of the love of the sex1 #ddf4 ,it is at first corporeal1 next it becomes sensual1 afterwards it becomes natural1 like the same love with other animals2 but afterwards it may become natural-rational1 and from natural-rational1 spiritual1 and lastly spiritual-natural1 #ddg4 ,the nature of the love of the sex if it becomes active before marriage1 #ddg4 ,the results of checking such love1 #dej4 ,the love of the sex remains with man after death1 #cg4 ,it remains such as it was in its interior quality1 that is1 such as it had been in his interior will and thought1 #df4 ,,love ,,of ,,uses1 the1 is from the ,lord1 #bfb1 #bff1 #cje4 ,so far as we do uses from the love thereof1 so far that love increases1 #bff4 ,the love of doing uses is also neighborly love1 #bfi4 ,,love ,,of ,,the ,,world1 the1 is also the love of possessing wealth1 #bfi4 ,the love of the world1 or the love of possessing wealth1 is a material love1 #bfi4 ,,love1 the ruling1 is the head of all the rest1 #df4 ,the reason why this love remains with man to eternity1 #df4 ,,loves4--,there are three universal loves which form the constituents of every man by creation1 neighborly love1 the love of the world1 and the love of self1 #bfi4 ,a man is a man if these loves are subordinate in that degree that the first constitutes the head1 the second the body1 and the third the feet1 #bfi4 ,natural1 spiritual1 and celestial loves2 natural loves relate to the loves of self and the world1 spiritual loves to love towards the neighbor1 and celestial loves to love towards the ,lord1 #fg4 ,when natural loves flow from spiritual loves1 and spiritual from celestial2 then the natural loves live from the spiritual1 and the spiritual from the celestial2 and all in this order live from the ,lord1 in whom they originate1 #fg4 ,apparent loves between married partners are a consequence of the conjugial covenant being ratified for the term of life1 #bgh4 ,the loves of animals are altogether united with their connate science1 #if4 ,see ,beasts4 ,,love1 adulterous4--,concerning the opposition of adulterous love to conjugial love1 #dbc-ddc4 ,by adulterous love opposite to conjugial love1 is meant the love of adultery1 so long as it is such as not to be reputed as sin1 nor as evil and dishonorable1 contrary to reason1 but as allowable with reason1 #dbc4 ,the quality of adulterous love is not known1 unless it be known what is the quality of conjugial love1 #dbd4 ,the impurity of hell is from adulterous love1 #dcj4 ,the delights of adulterous love commence from the flesh1 and are of the flesh even in the spirit1 #ddj4 ,the origin of adulterous love is from the connection 7connubium7 of what is evil and false1 #dbg4 ,of the imputation of adulterous love1 #ebc-eca4 ,,love and ,,wisdom constitute the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 #ba4 ,the ,lord is love1 and the church is wisdom1 #ba4 ,love and wisdom are the same thing as good and truth1 #hd4 ,love consists of goods1 and wisdom of truths1 #hd4 ,,lowest1 the1 things of successive order become the outermost of simultaneous order1 #cad4 ,,lucifer1 #bji4 ,,lungs1 the1 signify wisdom1 #ge4 ,the lungs rule by respiration in every part of the body1 #agi4 ,,lust4--,the natural man is nothing but an abode and receptacle of concupiscences and lust1 #ddh4 ,in all that proceeds from the natural man1 there is concupiscence and lust1 #ddj4 ,concerning the unchaste love of the sex with the young1 #ih4 ,with the married4 #def4 ,concerning various lusts1 #ddd-dfj1 #ddc2 #eja-eje1 #dfj1 #ejf-eaj1 #eaa1 #eab1 #eac1 #ead4 ,,luxury1 #beb4 ,,lymphs of the brain1 #cae4 ,,madness is a vitiated state of the mind1 and a legitimate cause of separation1 #beb4 ,,mahomet1 #cdb1 #cdd4 ,,mahometan ,,religion1 #cda4 ,how it originated1 #cdb4 ,it was raised up of the ,lord's divine providence1 to the end that it might destroy the idolatries of many nations1 #cdb4 ,,mahometans4--,why it is permitted the ,mahometans to marry a plurality of wives1 #cda4 ,the ,mahometan heaven is out of the ,christian heaven1 and is divided into two heavens1 the one inferior and the other superior1 #cdb4 ,,male and ,,female4--,man 7homo7 is male and female1 #cb1 #ajj4 ,the male and female were created to be the essential form of the marriage of good and truth1 #ajj and following4 ,the male was created to be the understanding of truth1 thus truth in form2 and the female was created to be the will of good1 thus good in form1 #ajj1 #bbj4 ,the male is born intellectual1 or in the affection of knowing1 of understanding1 and growing wise2 and the female partakes more of the will principle1 or is born into the love of conjoining herself with the affection in the male1 #cc4 ,therefore1 the male and female differ as to the face1 tone of the voice1 and form1 #cc1 #bah4 ,distinct affections1 applications1 manners1 and forms of the male and female1 #ij1 #ia4 ,the male is the wisdom of love1 and the female the love of that wisdom1 #cb4 ,after death the male lives a male1 and the female a female1 each being a spiritual man1 #cb1 #ajj2 neither is there any thing wanting1 #ea4 ,,male ,,principle1 the1 consists in perceiving from the understanding1 #afh4 ,the truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 is in the male principle1 #fa1 #hh1 #ij4 ,in what the male principle essentially consists1 #cb4 ,see ,female ,principle4 ,,man is born in a state of greater ignorance than the beasts1 #aeb994 ,without instruction he is neither a man nor a beast1 but he is a form which is capable of receiving in itself that which constitutes a man1 thus he is not born a man but he is made a man1 #aeb994 ,man is man by virtue of the will and the understanding1 #did4 ,he is a man from this circumstance1 that he can will good1 and understand truth1 altogether as from himself1 and yet know and believe that it is from ,god1 #acb4 ,a man is a man1 and is distinguished from the beasts by this circumstance1 that his mind is distinguished into three regions1 as many as the heavens are distinguished into1 and that he is capable of being elevated out of the lowest region into the next above it1 and also from this into the highest1 and thus of becoming an angel of heaven1 even of the third1 #die4 ,there are three things of which every man consists1 the soul1 the mind1 and the body2 his inmost principle is the soul1 his middle is the mind1 and his ultimate is the body1 #aja4 ,as the soul is man's inmost principle1 it is from its origin celestial2 as the mind is his middle principle1 it is from its origin spiritual2 and as the body is his ultimate principle1 it is from its origin natural1 #aeh4 ,the supreme principles in man are turned upwards to ,god1 the middle principles outwards to the world1 and the lowest principles downwards to self1 #bfi4 ,in man are all the affections of love1 and thence all the perceptions of wisdom1 compounded in the most perfect order1 so as to make together what is unanimous1 and thereby a one1 #cfa4 ,man1 as to the affections and thoughts of his mind1 is in the midst of angels and spirits1 and is so consociated with them1 that were he to be plucked asunder from them1 he would instantly die1 #bh4 ,man was created for uses1 #bdi4 ,man is male and female1 #cb4 ,the male man and the female man were so created1 that from two they may become as it were one man1 or one flesh2 and when they become one1 then1 taken together1 they are a man 7homo7 in his fulness2 but without such conjunctions they are two1 and each is a divided or half man1 #cg4 ,man was born to be wisdom1 and the woman to be the love of the man's wisdom1 #ge4 ,man is such as his love is1 and not such as his understanding is1 #bfi4 ,the natural man1 separate from the spiritual1 is only man as to the understanding1 and not as to the will2 such a one is only half man1 #dcb4 ,a spiritual man is sensible of1 and perceives spiritual delight1 which is a thousand times superior to natural delight1 #bi4 ,man lives a man after death1 #bh4 ,man after death is not a natural man1 but a spiritual or substantial man1 #ca4 ,a spiritual or substantial man sees a spiritual or substantial man1 as a natural or material man sees a natural or material man1 #ca4 ,man after death puts off every thing which does not agree with his love1 yea1 he successively puts on the countenance1 the tone of voice1 the speech1 the gestures1 and the manners of the love proper to his life1 #cf2 instead of a material body he enjoys a substantial one1 wherein natural delight grounded in spiritual is made sensible in its eminence1 #dge4 ,men left in the forests when they were about two or three years old1 #aea991 #aeb994 ,difference between men and beasts1 #acc1 #acd1 #dih4 ,,marriage-,,apartment of the will and understanding1 #bgj4 ,,marriage is the fulness of man 7homo71 for by it a man becomes a full man1 #aef2 thus a state of marriage is preferable to a state of celibacy1 #aef4 ,consent is the essential of marriage1 and all succeeding ceremonies are its formalities1 #ba4 ,the covenant of marriage is for life1 #bgf4 ,marriages in themselves are spiritual1 and thence holy1 #ec4 ,marriages are the seminaries of the human race1 and thence also the seminaries of the heavenly kingdom1 #dha4 ,marriages made in the world are for the most part external1 and not at the same time internal1 when yet it is the internal conjunction1 or conjunction of souls1 which constitutes a real marriage1 #di1 #bgd4 ,marriages interiorly conjunctive can hardly be entered into in the world1 the reason why1 #cbj1 #di4 ,of reiterated marriages1 #cag-cbe4 ,there are in the world infernal marriages between married partners1 who interiorly are the most inveterate enemies1 and exteriorly are as the closest friends1 #bib4 ,of marriages in heaven1 #bg-da4 ,how in heaven marriages from love truly conjugial are provided by the ,lord1 #bbi1 #caf4 ,spiritual prolification of love and wisdom from marriages in heaven1 #eb4 ,beneath heaven there are no marriages 7conjugia71 #aib4 ,concerning the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 and the correspondence thereof1 #aaf-aca4 ,,marriage1 the1 of ,god and truth1 #hc1 #aae4 ,the reason why it has been heretofore unknown1 #hc4 ,how it takes place with man1 #abb1 #abc4 ,it is the church with man1 and is the same thing as the marriage of charity and faith1 #fb4 ,the marriage of good and truth is in every thing of the ,word1 #eaf2 from this marriage proceed all the loves which constitute heaven and the church with man1 #fe4 ,the marriage of good and truth flows into every thing of the universe1 #bbj1 #hd4 ,to be given in marriage signifies to enter heaven1 where the marriage of good and truth takes place1 #dd4 ,,married ,,partners1 two1 who are principled in love truly conjugial1 are actually forms of the marriage of good and truth1 or of love and wisdom1 #ff1 #aja1 #ajb4 ,the will of the wife conjoins itself with the understanding of the man1 and thence the understanding of the man with the will of the wife1 #aei1 #afj4 ,love is inspired into the man by his wife1 #afa4 ,the conjunction of the wife with the man's rational principle is from within1 #afe4 ,the wife is conjoined to her husband by the sphere of her life flowing forth from the love of him1 #aga-agc4 ,there are duties proper to the man1 and duties proper to the wife2 the wife cannot enter into the duties proper to the man1 nor can the man enter into the duties proper to the wife1 so as to perform them aright1 #agd1 #age4 ,marriage induces other forms in the souls and minds of married partners1 #aib4 ,the woman is actually formed into a wife according to the description in the book of creation1 ,gen4 ii4 #ba1 #bb1 #bc1 #aic4 ,two married partners in heaven are called1 not two angels1 but one angel1 #ej4 ,two married partners most commonly meet after death1 know each other1 again associate1 c4 #di4 ,if they can live together1 they remain married partners1 but if they cannot1 they separate themselves1 #di1 #ea1 #eb4 ,,marrow1 spinal1 #cae4--,the marrows represent the interiors of the mind and of the body1 #cab4 ,,marry1 to4--,when a man marries he becomes a fuller man1 because he is joined with a consort1 with whom he acts as one man1 #ei4 ,see ,marriage4 ,,mary signifies the church1 #aai4 ,,materials4--,substantials are the beginnings of materials1 #cbh4 ,natural things1 which are material1 cannot enter into spiritual things1 which are substantial4 #cbh1 ,material things originate in substantial1 #bjg4 ,,material things derive their origin from things substantial1 #bjg4 ,,mechanics is one of the sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom4 #afc4 ,,meats1--,there are in heaven1 as in the world1 both meats and drinks1 #f4 ,see ,food4 ,,mediums are conducive to what is first in itself1 #ih4 ,,medium1 the1 of conjunction of the ,lord with man1 is the ,word1 #abh4 ,,medullary substance of the brain1 #cae4 ,,meteor in the spiritual world1 #cae4 ,,mind1 the1 is intermediate between the soul and the body1 #agh2 although it appears to be in the head1 it is actually in the whole body1 #agh1 #bfj4 ,the human mind is distinguished into regions1 as the world is distinguished into regions as to the atmospheres1 #ahh1 #bgj2 the supreme region of the mind is called celestial1 the middle region spiritual1 and the lowest region natural1 #bgj1 #cje4 ,the mind is successively opened from infancy even to extreme old age1 #ajb4 ,as a man advances from science into intelligence1 and from intelligence into wisdom1 so also his mind changes its form1 #id4 ,with some1 the mind is closed from beneath1 and is sometimes twisted as a spire into the adverse principle2 with others that principle is not closed1 but remains half open above1 and with some open1 #bjc4 ,with men there is an elevation of the mind into superior light1 and with women there is an elevation of the mind into superior heat1 #ahh4 ,the mind of every man1 according to his will and consequent understanding1 actually dwells in one society of the spiritual world1 and intends and thinks in like manner with those who compose the society1 #ecj4 ,the lower principles of the mind are unchaste1 but its higher principles chaste1 #cjb4 ,every man has an internal and an external mind1 with the wicked the internal mind is insane1 and the external is wise2 but with the good the internal mind is wise1 and from this also the external1 #dgg4 ,with the ancients1 the science of correspondences conjoined the sensual things of the body with the perceptions of the mind1 and procured intelligence1 #gf4 ,obs4--,the mind is composed of two faculties which make man to be man1 namely1 the will and the understanding4 ,the mind composed of the spiritual will and of the spiritual understanding1 is the internal man2 it incloses the inmost man or soul 7anima71 and it is inclosed by the natural mind or external man1 composed of the natural will and understanding4 ,this natural mind1 together with a sort of mind still more exterior1 called the animus1 which is formed by the external affections and inclinations resulting from education1 society1 and custom1 is the external mind4 ,the whole organized in a perfect human form1 is called spirit 7spiritus74 ,the spirit in our world is covered with a terrestrial body1 which renders it invisible2 but1 freed from this body by natural death1 it enters the spiritual world1 where its spiritual body is perfectly visible and tactile4 ,,miracles4--,why there are none in the present day1 #ece4 ,,mire4--,in hell lascivious delights are represented under the appearance of mire1 c41 #dhj4 ,,mistress1 #dei4 ,,modesty is one of those virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,monasteries4--,what becomes in the other life of those who have been shut up in monasteries1 #ed1 #aee4 ,virgins devoted to the monastic life1 #eac4 ,,monogamists4--,all in heaven live married to one wife1 #gg4 ,,monogamical marriages1 #gj1 #gg1 #ada4 ,they correspond to the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 and originate in the marriages of good and truth1 #gj4 ,,monogamy4--,why monogamy exists with ,christian nations1 #ccg-cci4 ,,mote4--,wonderful things respecting it1 #cbi4 ,,mother4--,the church in the world is called mother1 #aah1 #aai4 ,,morality1 genuine1 is the wisdom of life1 #chc4 ,spiritual morality is the result of a life from the ,lord according to the truths of the ,word1 #bic4 ,,multiplicable4--,every thing is multiplicable in infinitum1 #ahe4 ,,munificence is one of those virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,muses1 nine1 or virgins represent knowledges and sciences of every kind1 #ahb4 ,,nakedness signifies innocence1 #dac4 ,,natural1 the1 derives its origin from the spiritual1 #cbj4 ,difference between the natural and spiritual1 #cbf-cbi4 ,the natural principle is distinguished into three degrees2 the so-called natural1 the natural sensual1 and the natural-corporeal1 #ddb4 ,the natural man is nothing but an abode and receptacle of concupiscences and lusts1 #ddh4 ,there are three degrees of the natural man1 #dif4 ,those who love only the world1 placing their heart in wealth1 are properly meant by the natural1 #dif2 they pour forth into the world all things of the will and understanding1 covetously and fraudulently acquiring wealth1 and regarding no other use therein1 and thence but that of possession1 #dif4 ,,nature is the recipient whereby love and wisdom produce their effects or uses1 #chj2 thus nature is derived from life1 and not life from nature1 #chj4 ,all the parts of nature derive their subsistence and existence from the sun1 #chj4 ,nature is in all time1 in time1 and in all space1 in space1 #cbh4 ,nature1 with her time and space1 must of necessity have a beginning and a birth1 #cbh4 ,wherefore nature is from ,god1 not from eternity1 but in time1 that is1 together with her time and space1 #cbh4 ,,necessity for apparent love and friendship in marriages1 for the sake of order being preserved in houses1 #bga1 and following1 #bhc4 ,,nemesis1 #ejd4 ,,novitiates1 #ahb4--,novitiate spirit1 #dfa4 ,see ,spirits4 ,,nuptials celebrated in heaven1 #ai-be4 ,there are nuptials in the heavens as in the earths1 but only with those in the heavens who are in the marriage of good and truth2 nor are any others angels1 #dd4 ,by the words of the ,lord1 ,those who shall be accounted worthy to attain another age1 neither marry nor are given in marriage1 no other nuptials are meant than spiritual nuptials1 and by spiritual nuptials is meant conjunction with the ,lord1 #da4 ,these spiritual nuptials take place in the earths1 but not after departure thence1 thus not in the heavens1 #dd4 ,to celebrate nuptials signifies to be joined with the ,lord1 #da4 ,to enter into nuptials is to be received into heaven by the ,lord1 #da4 ,why nuptials in the world are essential solemnities1 #cjf4 ,,obstructions of inmost life1 whence they proceed1 #cac4 ,,occiput1 #bfg1 #ddd4 ,,ochim1 the1 in hell1 represent the images of the phantasies of the internals1 #bfd1 #dcj4 ,,ode sung by virgins in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,,odors1 the1 whereby the chaste pleasures of conjugial love are presented to the senses in the spiritual world1 are the perfumes arising from fruits1 and the fragrances from flowers1 #dcj4 ,,offensive appearances1 odors1 and forms1 under which unchaste delights are presented to the view in hell1 #dcj4 ,,offices and employments in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,,offsprings1 the1 derived from the ,lord as a husband and father1 and from the church as a wife and mother1 are all spiritual1 #abj4 ,the spiritual offsprings which are born from the ,lord's marriage with the church are truths and goods1 #aba4 ,from the marriages of the angels in the heavens are generated spiritual offsprings1 which are those of love and wisdom1 or of good and truth1 #fe4 ,spiritual offsprings1 which are produced from the marriages of the angels1 are such things as are of wisdom from the father1 and of love from the mother1 #baa4 ,see ,storge4 ,,oil signifies good1 #dd4 ,,old men1 decrepit1 and infirm old women are restored by the ,lord to the power of their age1 when from a religious principle they have shunned adulteries as enormous sins1 #acg4 ,,olive-,,trees in the spiritual world represent conjugial love in the highest region1 #bgj1 ,,one1 the1 from whom all things have life and from whom form coheres1 is the ,lord1 #ebd4 ,in heaven two married partners are called two when they are named husband and wife1 but one when they are named angels1 #agg4 ,when the will of two married partners become one1 they become one man 7homo71 #aif4 ,,operations1 all1 in the universe have a progression from ends through causes into effects1 #djj4 ,,opinions on celestial joys and eternal happiness1 #c4 ,,opposite4--,there is not any thing in the universe which has not its opposite1 #dbe4 ,opposites1 in regard to each other1 are not relatives1 but contraries1 #dbe4 ,when an opposite acts upon an opposite1 one destroys the other even to the last spark of its life1 #bee4 ,marriages and adulteries are diametrically opposite to each other1 #bee4 ,,opposition of adulterous love and conjugial love1 #dbc-ddc4 ,,opulence in heaven is the faculty of growing wise1 according to which faculty wealth is given in abundance1 #bej4 ,,orchestra1 #cae4 ,,order1 all1 proceeds from first principles to last1 and the last becomes the first of some following order1 #caa4 ,all things of a middle order are the last of a prior order1 #caa4 ,there is successive order and simultaneous order2 the latter is from the former and according to it1 #cad4 ,in successive order1 one thing follows after another from what is highest to what is lowest1 #cad4 ,in simultaneous order1 one thing is next to another from what is inmost to what is outermost1 #cad4 ,successive order is like a column with steps from the highest to the lowest1 #cad4 ,simultaneous order is like a work cohering from the centre to the superficies1 #cad4 ,successive order becomes simultaneous in the ultimate1 the highest things of successive order become the inmost of simultaneous order1 and the lowest things of successive order become the outermost of simultaneous order1 #cad4 ,successive order of conjugial love1 #cje1 #caa4 ,,organization1 the1 of the life of man according to his love1 cannot be changed after death1 #ebd4 ,a change of organization cannot possibly be effected1 except in the material body1 and is utterly impossible in the spiritual body after the former has been rejected1 #ebd4 ,,organs4--,such as conjugial love is in the minds or spirits of two persons1 such is it interiorly in its organs1 #caj4 ,in these organs are terminated the forms of the mind with those who are principled in conjugial love1 #caj4 ,,origin of evil1 #ddd4 ,origin of conjugial love1 #fj1 #fa1 #hc1 #ajc-aad1 #ahc1 #bch4 ,origin of the ,mahometan religion1 #cdb4 ,origin of the beauty of the female sex1 #cha-chd4 ,,outermost1 the1 lowest things of successive order become the outermost of simultaneous order1 #cad4 ,obs4--,the outermost is predicated of what is most exterior1 in opposition to the inmost1 or that which is most interior4 ,,owls in the spiritual world are correspondences and consequent appearances of the thoughts of confirmators1 #bcc4 ,,pagans1 the1 who acknowledge a ,god and live according to the civil laws of justice1 are saved1 #cea4 ,,palace representative of conjugial love1 #bgj4 ,small palace inhabited by two novitiate conjugial partners1 #caf4 ,description of the palace of a celestial society1 #ab4 ,,palladium1 #aea994 ,,palm-,,trees1 in the spiritual world1 represent conjugial love of the middle region1 #bgj4 ,,palms ,,of ,,the ,,hands1 in the1 resides with wives a sixth sense1 which is a sense of all the delights of the conjugial love of the husband1 #aea994 ,,paper on which was written arcana at this day revealed by the ,lord1 #ecc4 ,paper bearing this inscription1 ,the marriage of ,good and ,truth1 #aae4 ,,paradise1 spiritually understood1 is intelligence1 #cec4 ,paradise on the confines of heaven1 #h4 ,,paralysis1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,parchment ,,in ,,heaven4--,roll of parchment containing arcana of wisdom concerning conjugial love1 #dc4 ,sheet of parchment1 on which were the rules of the people of the first age1 #gg4 ,,parnassides1 sports of the1 in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,these sports were spiritual exercises and trials of skill1 #bjg4 ,,parnassus1 #aea991 #ahb1 #bjg4 ,,particulars are in universals as parts in a whole1 #bfa4 ,whoever knows universals1 may afterwards comprehend particulars1 #bfa4 ,obs4--,particulars taken together are called universals4 ,,partner4--,those who have lived in love truly conjugial1 after the death of their married partners1 are unwilling to enter into iterated marriages1 the reason why1 #cba4 ,see ,married ,partners4 ,,pathology1 #bec4 ,,peace is the blessed principle of every delight which is of good1 #cid4 ,peace1 because it proceeds immediately from the ,lord1 is one of the two inmost principles of heaven1 #cid4 ,peace in their homes gives serenity to the minds of husbands1 and disposes them to receive agreeably the kindnesses offered by their wives1 #bhe4 ,peace is in conjugial love1 and relates to the soul1 #ahj4 ,,pegasus4--,by the winged horse ,pegasus the ancients meant the understanding of truth1 by which comes wisdom2 by the hoofs of his feet they understood experiences1 whereby comes natural intelligence1 #ahb4 ,,pellicacy1 #dei1 #dfj1 #dfb4 ,,perception1 common1 is the same thing us influx from heaven into the interiors of the mind1 #bh4 ,by virtue of this perception1 man inwardly in himself perceives truths1 and as it were sees them1 #bh4 ,all have not common perception1 #adg4 ,there is an internal perception of love1 and an external perception1 which sometimes hides the internal1 #di4 ,the external perception of love originates in those things which regard the love of the world1 and of the body1 #di4 ,obs4--,perception is a sensation derived from the ,lord alone1 and has relation to the good and true1 ,a4,c4 #ajd4 ,perception consists in seeing that a truth is true1 and that a good is good2 also that an evil is evil1 and a false is false1 ,a4,c4 #gfhj4 ,its opposite is phantasy4 ,see ,phantasy1 obs4 ,,peregrinations of man in the societies of the spiritual world1 during his life in the natural world1 #ecj4 ,,periods whereby creation is preserved in the state foreseen and provided for1 #djj1 #dja4 ,,periosteums1 #eaa4 ,,peter1 the ,apostle1 represented truth and faith1 #aai4 ,,phantasy1 #bfg4--,those are in the phantasy of their respective concupiscences who think interiorly in themselves1 and too much indulge their imagination by discoursing with themselves2 for these separate their spirit almost from connection with the body1 and by vision overflow the understanding1 #bfg4 ,what is the fate of those after death who have given themselves up to their phantasy1 #bfh1 #ead4 ,errors which phantasy has introduced through ignorance of the spiritual world and of its sun1 #dbb4 ,obs4--,phantasy is an appearance of perception3 it consists in seeing what is true as false1 and what is good as evil and what is evil as good1 and what is false as true1 ,a4,c44 #gfhj4 ,,phantoms4--,who those are who in the other life appear as phantoms1 #ead4 ,,philosophers1 difference between1 and ,sophi1 #acj4 ,the ancient people1 who acknowledged the wisdom of reason as wisdom1 were called philosophers1 #ahj4 ,see ,sophi4 ,,philosophical considerations concerning the abstract substance1 form1 subject4 c41 #ff1 #ahf4 ,,philosophy is one of those sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the grounds of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,physics is one of the sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,place4--,in the spiritual world there are places as in the natural world1 otherwise there could be no habitations and distinct abodes1 #aj4 ,nevertheless place is not place1 but an appearance of place1 according to the state of love and wisdom4 #aj4 ,places of instruction in the spiritual world1 #bfa4 ,,places1 public1 in the spiritual world1 #ag1 #gi4 ,,planes successive1 formed in man1 on which superior principles may rest and find support1 #ddg4 ,the ultimate plane in which the sphere of conjugial love and its opposite terminate is the same1 #dci4 ,the rational plane1 with man1 is the medium between heaven and hell2 the marriage of good and truth flows into this plane from above1 and the marriage of evil and false flows into it from beneath1 #dcf4 ,,planets4--,revelations made at the present day concerning the inhabitants of the planets1 #ecb4 ,see ,treatise by the ,author on ,the ,earths in the ,universe4 ,,plastic force in animals and vegetables1 whence it proceeds1 #bch4 ,,plato1 #aea994 ,,platonist4--,arcana unfolded by a ,platonist1 #aec994 ,,pleasures4--,sensations1 with the pleasures thence derived1 appertain to the body1 #bgc4 ,the delights of adulterous love are the pleasures of insanity1 #ddb1 #dig4 ,,pledges4--,after a declaration of consent1 pledges are to be given1 #cjj4 ,these pledges are continual visible witnesses of mutual love1 hence also they are memorials thereof1 #cjj4 ,,poland1 #eba4 ,,poles1 #ajc1 #ajh4 ,,political ,,self-,,love1 its nature and quality1 #bfd4 ,it would make its votaries desirous of being emperors if left without restraint1 #bfd4 ,,politics is one of those sciences by which an entrance is made into things rational1 which are the ground of rational wisdom1 #afc4 ,,polygamical love is the love of the external1 or natural man1 #cde4 ,in this love there is neither chastity1 purity1 nor sanctify1 #cdf4 ,,polygamist1 no1 so long as he remain such1 is capable of being made spiritual1 #cdg4 ,conjugial chastity1 purity1 and sanctity cannot exist with polygamists1 #cdf4 ,,polygamy1 of1 #ccb-ceb4 ,whence it originates1 #cdi4 ,polygamy is lasciviousness1 #cde4 ,polygamy is not a sin with those who live in it from a religious principle1 as did the ,israelites1 #cdh4 ,why polygamy was permitted to the ,israelitish nation1 #cdj4 ,,popes4--,dreadful fate of two popes who had compelled emperors to resign their dominions1 and had behaved ill to them1 both in word and deed1 at ,rome1 whither they came to supplicate and adore them1 #bfe4 ,,portico of palm-trees and laurels1 #ef4 ,,posterior1 the1 is derived from the prior1 as the effect from its cause1 #cbf4 ,that which is posterior exists from what is prior1 as it exists from what is prior1 #ccj4 ,between prior and posterior there is no determinate proportion1 #cbf4 ,,power1 active or living1 and passive or dead1 #dhj4 ,whence proceeds the propagative1 or plastic force1 in seeds of the vegetable kingdom1 #bch4 ,,precept4--,he who from purpose or confirmation acts against one precept1 acts against the rest1 #ebh4 ,the precepts of regeneration are five1 see n4 #hb3 among which are these1 that evils ought to be shunned1 because they are of the devil1 and from the devil2 that goods are to be done1 because they are of ,god1 and from ,god2 and that men ought to go to the ,lord1 in order that ,he may lead them to do the latter1 #ebe4 ,,predicates4--,a subject without predicates is also an entity which has no existence in reason 7ens nullius rationis71 #ff4 ,,predications are made by a man according to his rational light1 #dhe4 ,predications of four degrees of adulteries1 #dhe and following4 ,difference between predications1 charges of blame1 and imputations1 #dhe4 ,,prelates1 why the1 of the church have given the pre-eminence to faith1 which is of truth1 above charity1 which is of good1 #abf4 ,,preparation for heaven or for hell1 in the world of spirits1 has for its end that the internal and external may agree together and make one1 and not disagree and make two1 #dh994 ,,presence4--,the origin or cause of presence in the spiritual world1 #aga4 ,man is receptible of the ,lord's presence1 and of conjunction with ,him4 ,to come to ,him1 causes presence1 and to live according to ,his commandments1 causes conjunction1 #cda4 ,his presence alone is without reception1 but presence and conjunction together are with reception1 #cda4 ,the truth of faith constitutes the ,lord's presence1 #gb4 ,,preservation is perpetual creation1 #hf4 ,whence arises perpetual preservation1 #he4 ,,pretender4--,every man who is not interiorly led by the ,lord is a pretender1 a sycophant1 a hypocrite1 and thereby an apparent man1 and yet not a man1 #bfg4 ,,priest1 chief1 of a society in heaven1 #bff4 ,,primary4--,what is first in respect to end1 is first in the mind and its intention1 because it is regarded as primary1 #ih4 ,things primary exist1 subsist1 and persist1 from things ultimate1 #dd4 ,,primeval4--,in the world1 at the present day1 nothing is known of the primeval state of man1 which is called a state of integrity1 #cee4 ,what the primeval state of creation was1 and how man is led back to it by the ,lord1 #cee4 ,,prince of a society in heaven1 #ad and following1 #bff4 ,,principle1 the primary1 of the church is the good of charity1 and not the truth of faith1 #abf4 ,,principles and ,,principiates1 #cbh4 ,obs4--,principiates derive their essence from principles1 ,t4,c4,r41 #agg4 ,all things of the body are principiates1 that is1 are compositions of fibres1 from principles which are receptacles of love and wisdom1 ,d4,l4 and ,w41 #cfi4 ,,probity is one of those virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,problem concerning the soul1 #cae4 ,,proceed1 to4--,all things which proceed from the ,lord1 are in an instant from first principles in last1 #chi4 ,,procreation1 sphere of the love of1 #djj4 ,,progression4--,there is no progression of good to evil1 but a progression of good to a greater and less good1 and evil to a greater and less evil1 #ddd4 ,a progression from ends through causes into effects is inscribed on every man in general1 and in every particular1 #djj1 #dja4 ,decreasing progression of conjugial love1 #gh4 ,,prolification corresponds to the propagation of truth1 #abg4 ,spiritual prolification is that of love and wisdom1 #ea1 #eb4 ,origin of natural prolifications1 #aae4 ,the sphere of prolification is the same as the universal sphere of the marriage of good and truth1 which proceeds from the ,lord1 #ib4 ,all prolification is originally derived from the influx of love1 wisdom1 and use from the ,lord1 from an immediate influx into the souls of men1 from a mediate influx into the souls of animals1 and from an influx still more mediate into the inmost principles of vegetables1 #ahc4 ,prolifications are continuations of creation1 #ahc4 ,the principle of prolification is derived from the intellect alone1 #ij4 ,in the principle of prolification of the husband is the soul1 and also his mind as to its interiors1 which are conjoined to the soul1 #agb4 ,its state with husbands1 if married pairs were in the marriage of good and truth1 #aae4 ,,promulgation1 cause of the1 of the decalogue by ,jehovah ,god upon ,mount ,sinai1 #cea4 ,,propagate1 to4--,love and wisdom1 with use1 not only constitute man 7homo71 but also are man1 and propagate man1 #ahc4 ,a feminine principle is propagated from intellectual good1 #bbj4 ,,propagation1 all1 is originally derived from the influx of love1 wisdom1 and use from the ,lord1 from an immediate influx into the souls of men1 from a mediate in flux into the souls of animals1 and from an influx still more mediate into the inmost principles of vegetables1 #ahc4 ,propagations are continuations of creation1 #ahc4 ,propagation of the soul1 #bbj1 #bcf1 #bch1 #bde1 #cba4 ,the propagation of the human race1 and thence of the angelic heaven1 was the chief end of creation4 #fh4 ,,propagate1 or plastic force of vegetables and animals1 whence it originated1 #ach4 ,,proprium1 man's1 from his birth is essentially evil1 #bfb4 ,the proprium of man's 7homo7 will1 is to love himself1 and the proprium of his understanding is to love his own wisdom1 #aid4 ,these two propriums are deadly evils to man1 if they remain with him1 #aid4 ,the love of these two propriums is changed into conjugial love1 so far as man cleaves to his wife1 that is1 receives her love1 #aid4 ,,providence1 the ,divine1 of the ,lord extends to every thing1 even to the minutest particulars concerning marriages1 and in marriages1 #bbi1 #caf4 ,the operations of uses1 by the ,lord1 by the spheres which proceed from ,him1 are the ,divine ,providence1 #chf1 #cia4 ,obs4--,the ,divine ,providence is the same as the mediate and immediate influx from the ,lord1 ,a4,c4 #fdhj4 ,see the ,treatise on the ,divine ,providence1 by the ,author4 ,,prudence is one of the moral virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,nothing of prudence can possibly exist but from ,god1 #ced4 ,prudence of wives in concealing their love1 #bid4 ,this prudence is innate1 #ahg4 ,it was implanted in women from creation1 and consequently by birth1 #aid4 ,of self-derived prudence1 #ced4 ,,pulpit in a temple in the spiritual world1 #bc4 ,,pu1 or ,,pau1 #bh1 #bi1 #ahb4 ,obs4--,this is the ,greek word ,greek3 pou1 written in ordinary characters2 the ,author gives the ,latin translation at n4 #bh4 7,in quodam pu seu ubi47 ,this word expresses the uncertainty in which philosophers and theologians are on the subject of the soul4 ,,pure4--,it is not possible that any love should become absolutely pure1 with men or with angels1 #ga1 #adf4 ,to the pure all things are pure1 but to them that are defiled1 nothing is pure1 #adj4 ,,purification the spiritual1 of conjugial love may be compared to the purification of natural spirits1 as effected by the chemists1 #ade4 ,wisdom purified may be compared with alcohol1 which is a spirit highly rectified1 #ade4 ,,purity1 the1 of heaven is from conjugial love1 #dcj4 ,in like manner the purity of the church1 #dca4 ,,purple1 the1 color from its correspondence signifies the conjugial love of the wife1 #gf4 ,,purpose4--,that which flows forth from the very essence of a man's life1 thus which flows forth from his will or his love1 is principally called purpose1 #dic4 ,as soon as any one from purpose or confirmation abstains from any evil because it is sin1 he is kept by the ,lord in the purpose of abstaining from the rest1 #ebi4 ,,pustules1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,put ,,away1 to4--,putting away on account of adultery is a plenary separation of minds1 which is called divorce1 #bee4 ,other kinds of putting away1 grounded in their particular causes1 are separations1 #bee4 ,,put ,,off1 to4--,man after death puts off every thing which does not agree with his love1 #cf4 ,how a man after death puts off externals and puts on informals1 #dh99 ,,pythagoras1 #aea994 ,,pythagoreans1 #aec994 ,,quality of the love of the sex in heaven1 #dd4 ,the quality of every deed1 and in general the quality of every thing depends upon the circumstances which mitigate or aggravate it1 #dhg4 ,,rainbow painted on a wall in the spiritual world1 #gf4 ,,rational principle1 the1 is the medium between heaven and the world1 #ade4 ,above the rational principle is heavenly light1 and below the rational principle is natural light1 #bcc4 ,the rational principle is formed more and more to the reception of heaven or of hell1 according as man turns himself towards good or evil1 #dcf4 ,obs4--,the rational principle of man partakes of the spiritual and natural1 or is a medium between them1 ,a4,c41 #bfh4 ,,rationality1 spiritual1 comes by means of the ,word1 and of preachings derived therefrom1 #bic4 ,natural1 sensual1 and corporeal men enjoy1 like other men1 the powers of rationality1 but they use it while they are in externals1 and abuse it while in their internals1 #dih1 #dii4 ,rationality1 with devils1 proceeds from the glory of the love of self1 #bfi1 and also with atheists1 who enjoy a more sublime rationality than many others1 #bfi4 ,,rationality and ,,liberty4--,when man turns himself to the ,lord1 his rationality and liberty are led by the ,lord2 but if backwards1 from the ,lord1 his rationality and liberty are led by hell1 #dcg4 ,,reaction4--,in all conjunction by love there must be action1 reception1 and reaction1 #bic4 ,,read1 to4--,while man reads the ,word1 and collects truths out of it1 the ,lord adjoins good1 #abh2 but this takes place interiorly with those only who read the ,word to the end that they may become wise1 #abh4 ,,real4--,love and wisdom are collected together in use1 and therein become one principle1 which is called real1 #ahc4 ,,reason1 human1 is such that it understands truths from the light thereof1 as though was not heretofore distinguished them1 #dij4 ,,reasoners4--,they are named such who never conclude any thing1 and make whatever they hear a matter of argument and dispute whether it be so1 with perpetual contradiction1 #bcb4 ,what their fate is in the other life1 #bcb4 ,,reasonings1 the1 of the generality commence merely from effects1 and from effects proceed to some consequences thence resulting1 and do not commence from causes1 and from causes proceed analytically to effects1 #che4 ,truth does not admit of reasonings1 #dha4 ,they favor the delights of the flesh against those of the spirit1 #dha4 ,,reception is according to religion1 #ceb4 ,without conjunction there is no reception1 #cda4 ,see ,reaction4 ,,recipient4--,man is a recipient of ,god1 and consequently a recipient of love and wisdom from ,him1 #acb4 ,a recipient becomes an image of ,god according to reception1 #acb4 ,,reciprocal principle1 the1 of conjunction with ,god1 is1 that a man should love ,god1 and relish the things which are of ,god1 as from himself1 and yet believe that they are of ,god1 #acb1 #abb4 ,without such a reciprocal principle conjunction is impossible1 #acb4 ,,rectification4--,the purification of conjugial love may be compared to the purification of natural spirits1 effected by chemists1 and called rectification1 #ade4 ,,reformed1 to be4--,man is reformed by the understanding1 and this is effected by the knowledges of good and truth1 and by a rational intuition grounded therein1 #die4 ,,regeneration is a successive separation from the evils to which man is naturally inclined1 #adf4 ,regeneration is purification from evils1 and thereby renovation of life1 #ebe4 ,the precepts of regeneration are five1 #ebe4 ,see ,precepts4 ,by regeneration a man is made altogether new as to his spirit1 and this is effected by a life according to the ,lord's precepts1 #ebe4 ,,regions of the mind4--,in human minds there are three regions1 of which the highest is called the celestial1 the middle the spiritual1 and the lowest the natural1 #cje4 ,in the lowest man is born2 he ascends into the next above it by a life according to the truths of religion1 and into the highest by the marriage of love and wisdom1 #cje4 ,in the lowest region dwells natural love1 in the superior spiritual love1 and in the supreme celestial love1 #bgj4 ,in each region there is a marriage of love and wisdom1 #bgj4 ,the pleasantnesses of conjugial love in the highest region are perceived as blessednesses1 in the middle region as satisfactions1 and in the lowest region as delights1 #cce4 ,in the lowest region reside all the concupiscences of evil and of lasciviousness2 in the superior region there are not any concupiscences of evil and of lasciviousness1 for man is introduced into this region by the ,lord when he is reborn2 in the supreme region is conjugial chastity in its love1 into this region man is elevated by the love of uses1 #cje4 ,,reign1 to1 with ,christ is to be wise1 and perform uses1 #g4 ,,relation1 there is no1 of good to evil1 but a relation of good to a greater and less good1 and of evil to a greater and less evil1 #ddd4 ,what is signified by the expression1 for the sake of relatives1 #ag4 ,,relatives subsist between the greatest and the least of the same thing1 #dbe1 #ag4 ,,religion constitutes the state of the church with man1 #bch4 ,religion is implanted in souls1 and by souls is transmitted from parents to their offspring1 as the supreme inclination1 #bdf4 ,with ,christians it is formed by the good of life1 agreeable to the truth of doctrine1 #aae4 ,conjugial love is grounded in religion1 #bch4 ,where there is not religion1 neither is there conjugial love1 #bci4 ,there is no religion without the truths of religion2 what is religion without truths1 #bci4 ,religion1 as it is the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 is the initiament and inoculation of conjugial love1 #eca4 ,that love in its progress accompanies religion1 #eca4 ,the first internal cause of cold in marriages is the rejection of religion by each of the parties1 #bdj4 ,the second cause is1 that one has religion and not the other1 #bda4 ,the third is1 that one of the parties is of one religion1 and the other of another1 #bdb4 ,the fourth is the falsity of religion1 #bdc4 ,obs4--,there is a difference which it is important to bear in mind1 between religion and the church2 the church of the ,lord1 it is true1 is universal1 and is with all those who acknowledge a ,divine ,being1 and live in charity whatever else may be their creed2 but the church is especially where the ,word is1 and where by means of the ,word the ,lord is known4 ,in the countries where the ,word does not exist1 or is withdrawn from the people and replaced by human decisions1 as among the ,roman ,catholics1 there is religion alone1 but there is1 to speak correctly1 no church4 ,among ,protestants1 there is both religion and a church1 but this church has come to an end1 because it has perverted the ,word4 ,,renew1 to4--,every part of man1 both interior and exterior1 renews itself1 and this is effected by solutions and reparations1 #aga4 ,,renunciation of whoredoms1 whence exists the chastity of marriage1 how it is effected1 #adh4 ,,repasts4--,in heaven1 as in the world1 there are repasts1 #f4 ,,representations4--,among the ancients the study of their bodily senses consisted in representations of truths in forms1 #gf4 ,,representative4--,to those who are in the third heaven1 every representative of love and wisdom becomes real1 #bgj4 ,,respiration ,,of ,,the ,,lungs1 the1 has relation to truth1 #hg4 ,,rest4--,what is the meaning of eternal rest1 #bjg4 ,,retain1 to--,in whatever state man is he retains the faculty of elevating the understanding1 #die4 ,,revelations made at the present day by the ,lord1 #ecb4 ,,rib1 by a1 of the breast is signified1 in the spiritual sense1 natural truth1 #aic4 ,,right1 the1 signifies good1 #caf4 ,it also signifies power1 #ba4 ,,rites1 customary4--,there are customary rites which are merely formal1 and there are others which1 at the same time1 are also essential1 #cjf4 ,,rivalship or emulation between married parties respecting right and power1 #bia4 ,emulation of prominence between married partners is one of the external causes of cold1 #bdh4 ,,rules of life concerning marriages1 #gg4 ,universal rule1 #adg1 #cac4 ,,sabbath1 the4--,the life of heaven from the worship of ,god1 is called a perpetual ,sabbath1 #i4 ,celebration of the ,sabbath in a heavenly society1 #bc1 #bd4 ,,sacrilege4--,see ,sacrimony4 ,,sacrimony4--,in heaven1 marriage with one wife is called sacrimony1 but if it took place with more than one it would be called sacrilege1 #gf4 ,,sagacity is one of the principles constituent of natural wisdom1 #afc4 ,,sanctities4--,the marriage of the ,lord and the church1 and the marriage of good and truth1 are essential sanctities1 #fd4 ,sanctity of the ,holy ,scriptures1 #bd4 ,,sanctuary of the tabernacle of worship amongst the most ancient in heaven1 #ge4 ,,satans4--,they are called satans who have confirmed themselves in favor of nature to the denial of ,god1 #chj4 ,those who are evil from the understanding dwell in the front in hell1 and are called satans1 but those who are in evil from the will1 dwell to the back and are called devils1 #dib4 ,see ,devils4 ,satan wishing to demonstrate that nature is ,god1 #dae4 ,obs4--,in the ,word1 by the devil is understood that hell which is to the back1 and in which are the most wicked1 called evil genii2 and by satan1 that hell in which dwell those who are not so wicked1 who are called evil spirits1 ,h4 and ,h41 #edd4 ,,satisfaction4--,in love truly conjugial exists a state of satisfaction1 #ahj4 ,,saturnine or golden age1 #aec994 ,,satyrs4--,in the spiritual world the satyr-like form is the form of dissolute adultery1 #eba4 ,,saved1 to be4--,all in the universe who acknowledge a ,god1 and1 from a religious principle1 shun evil as sins against ,him1 are saved1 #cdc4 ,,science is a principle of knowledges1 #acj4 ,there is no end to science1 #ahe4 ,man is not born into the science of any love1 but beasts and birds are born into the science of all their loves1 #acc4 ,man is born without sciences1 to the end that he may receive them all2 whereas1 supposing him to be born into sciences1 he could not receive any but those into which he was born1 #acd4 ,science and love are undivided companions1 #acd4 ,,science ,,of ,,correspondences1 the1 was among the ancients the science of sciences1 #ecb4 ,it was the knowledge concerning the spiritual things of heaven and the church1 and thence they derived wisdom1 #ecb4 ,it conjoined the sensual things of their bodies with the perceptions of their minds1 and procured to them intelligence1 #gf4 ,this science having been turned into idolatrous science1 was so obliterated and destroyed by the divine providence of the ,lord1 that no visible traces of it were left remaining1 #ecb4 ,nevertheless1 it has been again discovered by the ,lord1 in order that the men of the church may again have conjunction with ,him1 and consociation with the angels2 which purposes are effected by the ,word1 in which all things are correspondences1 #ecb4 ,see ,correspondences4 ,,scorbutic ,,phthisic1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,scripture1 the sacred1 which proceeded immediately from the ,lord1 is1 in general and in particular1 a marriage of good and truth1 #aae4 ,,seat1 the1 of jealousy is in the understanding of the husband1 #cgb4 ,,seducers4--,their sad lot after death1 #ead4 ,,see1 to1 that what is true is true1 and that what is false is false1 is to see from heavenly light in natural light1 #bcc4 ,,seeds spiritually understood are truths1 #bbj4 ,by the seed of man1 whereby iron shall be mixed with clay1 and still they shall not cohere1 is meant the truth of the ,word falsified1 #gi4 ,formation of seed1 #bbj1 #bde1 #ahc4 ,,self-,,conceit1 or ,,self-,,derived ,,intelligence4--,the love of wisdom1 if it remains with man1 and is not transcribed into the woman1 is an evil love1 and is called self-conceit1 or the love of his own intelligence1 #hh1 #cec4 ,the wife continually attracts to herself her husband's conceit of his own intelligence1 and extinguishes it in him1 and verifies it in herself1 #cec4 ,he who1 from a principle of self-love1 is vain of his own intelligence1 cannot possibly love his wife with true conjugial love1 #aic4 ,,semblances1 conjugial1 #bgi-bhi4 ,,semination corresponds to the potency of truth1 #abg4 ,it has a spiritual origin1 and proceeds from the truths of which the understanding consists1 #bbj4 ,,sensations with the pleasures thence derived appertain to the body1 and affections with the thoughts thence derived appertain to the mind1 #bgc4 ,,sense4--,every love has its own proper sense1 #baj4 ,spiritual origin of the natural senses1 #bbj4 ,see ,taste1 ,smell1 ,hearing1 ,touch1 ,sight4 ,each of these senses has its delights1 with variations according to the specific uses of each1 #fh4 ,the sense proper to conjugial love is the sense of touch1 #baj4 ,the use of this sense is the complex of all other uses1 #fh4 ,wives have a sixth sense1 and which is a sense of all the delights of the conjugial love of the husband1 and this sense they have in the palms of their hands1 #aee994 ,,sensual4--,natural men who love only the delights of the senses1 placing their heart in every kind of luxury and pleasure1 are properly meant by the sensual1 #dif4 ,the sensual immerse all things of the will1 and consequently of the understanding1 in the allurements and fallacies of the senses1 indulging in these alone1 #dif4 ,,separations of married partners4 ,legitimate causes thereof1 #bea-bed4 ,,serene1 principle of peace1 #aee994 ,,series4--,all those things which precede in minds form series1 which collect themselves together1 one near another1 and one after another1 and these together1 compose a last or ultimate1 in which they co-exist1 #cac4 ,the series of the love of infants1 from its greatest to its least1 thus to the boundary in which it subsists or ceases1 is retrograde1 the reason why1 #dja4 ,,serpent1 the1 signifies the love of self-intelligence1 #cec4 ,by the serpent1 ,gen4 iii4 is meant the devil1 as to the conceit of self-love and self-intelligence1 #ace4 ,in hell1 the forms of beasts1 under which the lascivious delights of adulterous love are presented to the sight1 are serpents1 c41 #dcj4 ,,sex4--,the love of the male sex differs from that of the female sex1 #chb4 ,origin of the beauty of the female sex1 #cha-chd4 ,cause of the beauty of the female sex1 #ef4 ,,sheep1 in the spiritual world1 are the representative forms of the state of innocence and peace of the inhabitants1 #ge4 ,,sheepfold signifies the church1 #abi4 ,,shower1 golden1 #aee991 #bjh4 ,,sight4--,there is in man an internal and an external sight1 #dgg4 ,natural sight is grounded in spiritual sight1 which is that of the understanding1 #bbj4 ,the love of seeing1 grounded in the love of understanding1 has the sense of seeing2 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of symmetry and beauty1 #baj4 ,how gross the sight of the eye is1 #daf4 ,,silver signifies intelligence in spiritual truths1 and thence in natural truths1 #gf4 ,the silver age1 #gf4 ,,simple4--,every thing divided is more and more multiple1 and not more and more simple1 #cbi4 ,,simultaneous4--,there is simultaneous order and successive order1 #cad4 ,that simultaneous order is grounded in successive1 and is according to it1 is not known1 #cad4 ,,sin4--,all that which is contrary to religion is believed to be sin1 because it is contrary to ,god2 and1 on the other hand1 all that which agrees with religion is believed not to be sin1 because it agrees with ,god1 #cdh4 ,,sincerity is one of those virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,singing in heaven1 #ee1 #aee994 ,,sirens1 fantastic beauty of1 in the spiritual world1 #eje4 ,,sisters4--,the ,lord calls those brethren and sisters who are of his church1 #abj4 ,,six4--,the number six signifies all and what is complete1 #ba4 ,,sleep1 the1 into which ,adam fell1 when the woman was created1 signifies man's entire ignorance that the wife is formed1 and1 as it were1 created from him1 #aid4 ,,sleep1 to1 ,gen4 ii4 #ba1 signifies to be in ignorance1 #aid4 ,sleep in heaven1 #ai4 ,,slothful1 to the1 in the spiritual world1 food is not given1 #f4 ,,small-,,pox1 #bec1 #dgj4 ,,smelling1 natural1 is grounded in spiritual smelling1 which is perception1 #bbj4 ,the love of knowing those things which float about in the air1 grounded in the love of perceiving1 is the sense of smelling2 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of fragrance1 #baj4 ,,sobriety is one of those virtues which have respect to life1 and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,society1 every1 in heaven may be considered as one common body1 and the constituent angels as the similar parts thereof1 from which the common body exists1 #aj4 ,,socrates1 #aea994 ,,socratics1 #aec994 ,,solitary1 there is neither good nor solitary truth1 but in all cases they are conjoined1 #hg4 ,,solutions and reparations by which every part of man1 both interior and exterior1 renews itself1 #aga4 ,,somnambulists act from the impulse of a blind science1 the understanding being asleep1 #acd4 ,,sons in the ,word signify truths conceived in the spiritual man1 and born in the natural1 #abj1 #bbj4 ,those who are regenerated by the ,lord are called in the ,word sons of ,god1 sons of the kingdom1 #abj4 ,,sons-,,in-,,law1 what1 and daughters-in-law signify in the ,word1 #abj4 ,,songs in heaven1 #ag1 #ai4 ,heavenly songs are in reality sonorous affections1 or affections expressed and modified by sounds1 #ee4 ,singing in heaven is an affection of the mind1 which is let forth through the mouth as a tune1 #aee994 ,affections are expressed by songs1 as thoughts are by discourse1 #ee4 ,,sophi4--,the most ancient people did not acknowledge any other wisdom than the wisdom of life1 and this was the wisdom of those who were formerly called sophi1 #acj4 ,,soul1 the1 is the inmost principle of man1 #aja1 #aeh1 #bjf4 ,it is not life1 but the proximate receptacle of life from ,god1 and thereby the habitation of ,god1 #cae4 ,it is a form of all things relating to love1 and of all things relating to wisdom1 #cae4 ,it is a form from which the smallest thing cannot be taken away1 and to which the smallest thing cannot be added1 and it is the inmost of all the forms of the whole body1 #cae4 ,propagation of the soul1 #bbj1 #bde4 ,the soul of the offspring is from the father1 and its clothing from the mother1 #bjf1 #bhh4 ,the principle of truth in the soul is the origin of seed1 in which is the soul of man1 #bbj1 #dhc4 ,it is in a perfect human form1 covered with substances from the purest principles of nature1 whereof a body is formed in the womb of the mother1 #ahc4 ,the soul of man1 and of every animal1 from an implanted tendency to self-propagation1 forms itself1 clothes itself1 and becomes seed1 #bbj2 because the soul is a spiritual substance1 which is not a subject of extension but of impletion1 and from which no part can be taken away1 but the whole may be produced without any loss thereof1 hence it is that it is as fully present in the smallest receptacles1 which are seeds1 as in its greatest receptacle1 the body1 #bbj4 ,the soul of every man1 by its origin1 is celestial1 wherefore it receives influx immediately from the ,lord1 #dhb4 ,the soul and the mind are the man1 since both constitute the spirit which lives after death1 and which is in a perfect human form1 #bfj4 ,the soul constitutes the inmost principles not only of the head1 but also of the body1 #agh4 ,the soul and mind adjoin themselves closely to the flesh of the body1 to operate and produce their effects1 #agh4 ,a masculine soul1 #bbj4 ,how a feminine principle is produced from a male soul1 #bbj4 ,how a union of the souls of married partners is effected1 #agb4 ,see ,mind1 obs4 ,,space4--,those things which1 from their origin1 are celestial and spiritual1 are not in space1 but in the appearances of space1 #aeh4 ,the soul of man being celestial1 and his mind spiritual1 are not in space1 #aeh4 ,,spaniards1 #ajc1 #ajd4 ,,species4--,why the ,creator has distinguished all things into genera1 species1 and discriminations1 #dgi4 ,,speech1 the1 of wisdom is to speak from causes1 #ge4 ,from the thought1 which also is spiritual1 speech flows1 #bbj4 ,,sphere4--,all that which flows from a subject1 and encompasses and surrounds it1 is named a sphere1 #chf4 ,from the ,lord1 by the spiritual sun1 proceeds a sphere of heat and light1 or of love and wisdom1 to operate ends which are uses1 #chf4 ,the universal sphere of generating and propagating the celestial things1 which are of love2 and the spiritual things1 which are of wisdom1 and thence the natural things1 which are of offspring1 proceeds from the ,lord1 and fills the universal heaven and the universal world1 #cee4 ,the divine sphere which looks to the preservation of the universe in its created state by successive generations1 is called the sphere of procreating1 #chf4 ,the divine sphere which looks to the preservation of generations in their beginnings1 and afterwards in their progressions1 is called the sphere of protecting the things created1 #chf4 ,there are several other divine spheres1 which are named according to uses1 as the sphere of defence of good and truth against evil and false1 the sphere of reformation and regeneration1 the sphere of innocence and peace1 the sphere of mercy and grace1 c41 #bbb1 #chf4 ,but the universal of all is the conjugial sphere1 because this is the supereminent sphere of conservation of the created universe1 #bbb4 ,this sphere fills the universe1 and pervades all things from first to last1 #bbb2 thus from angels even to worms1 #ib4 ,why it is more universal than the sphere of heat and light which proceed from the sun1 #bbb4 ,in its origin1 the conjugial sphere1 flowing into the universe1 is divine2 in its progress in heaven with the angels1 it is celestial and spiritual2 with men it is natural2 with beasts and birds1 animal2 with worms merely corporeal2 with vegetables1 it is void of life2 and1 moreover1 in all its subjects it is varied according to their forms1 #bbe4 ,this sphere is received immediately by the female sex1 and mediately by the male1 #bbe4 ,the sphere of conjugial love is the very essential sphere of heaven1 because it descends from the heavenly marriage of the ,lord and the church1 #ed4 ,whereas there is a sphere of conjugial love1 there is also a sphere opposite to it1 which is called a sphere of adulterous love1 #dcd4 ,this sphere ascends from hell1 and the sphere of conjugial love descends from heaven1 #dce1 #dee4 ,these spheres meet each other in each world1 but do not conjoin1 #dcf1 #dee4 ,between these two spheres there is equilibrium1 and man is in it1 #dcg1 #dee4 ,man can turn himself to whichever sphere he pleases2 but so far as he turns himself to the one1 so far he turns himself from the other1 #dch1 #dee4 ,a sphere of love from the wife1 and of understanding from the man1 is continually flowing forth1 and unites them1 #cba4 ,a natural sphere is continually flowing forth1 not only from man1 but also from beasts--yea1 from trees1 fruits1 flowers1 and also from metals1 #aga4 ,there flows forth--yea1 overflows from every man 7homo7--a spiritual sphere1 derived from the affections of his love1 which encompasses him1 and infuses itself into the natural sphere derived from the body1 so that these two spheres are conjoined1 #aga4 ,every one1 both man and woman1 is encompassed by his own sphere of life1 densely on the breast1 and less densely on the back1 #bbd4 ,,spire4--,with whom the mind is closed from beneath1 and sometimes twisted as a spire into the adverse principle1 #bjc4 ,,spirit1 the4--,there are two principles which1 in the beginning1 with every man who from natural is made spiritual1 are at strife together1 which are commonly called the spirit and the flesh1 #dhh4 ,the love of marriage is of the spirit1 and the love of adultery is of the flesh1 #dhh4 ,see ,flesh4 ,,spirits4--,see ,mind1 obs4 ,by novitiate spirits are meant men newly deceased1 who are called spirits because they are then spiritual men1 #dfa4 ,who those are1 who1 after death1 become corporeal spirits1 #die4 ,,spiritual--,the difference between what is spiritual and natural is like that between prior and posterior1 which bear no determinate proportion to each other1 #cbf4 ,spiritual principles without natural1 which are their constituent have no consistence1 #eb4 ,spiritual principles considered in themselves have relation to love and wisdom1 #eb4 ,the things relating to the church1 which are called spiritual things1 reside in the inmost principles with man1 #acj4 ,by the spiritual is meant he who loves spiritual things1 and thereby is wise from the ,lord1 #bha4 ,a man 7homo7 without religion is not spiritual1 but remains natural1 #adi4 ,to become spiritual is to be elevated out of the natural principle1 that is1 out of the light and heat of the world into the light and heat of heaven1 #cdg4 ,man becomes spiritual in proportion as his rational principle begins to derive a soul from influx out of heaven1 which is the case so far as it is affected and delighted with wisdom1 #ade4 ,,spiritually1 to think1 is to think abstractedly from space and time1 #cbh4 ,,sports of wisdom in the1 heavens1 #acb4 ,literary sports1 #bjg4 ,conjugial love in its origin is the sport of wisdom and love1 #ge1 #ahc4 ,games and shows in the heavens1 #ag4 ,the sixth sense in the female sex is called in the heavens the sport of wisdom with its love1 and of love with its wisdom1 #aee994 ,,spring4--,in heaven the heat and light proceeding from the sun cause perpetual spring1 #acg4 ,in heaven1 with conjugial partners1 there is spring in its perpetual conatus1 #cee4 ,all who come into heaven return into their vernal youth1 and into the powers appertaining to that age1 #dd4 ,,stables signify instructions1 #gf4 ,,stage entertainments4 ,see ,actors4 ,,states4--,the state of a man's life is his quality as to the understanding and the will1 #ahd4 ,the state of a man's life from infancy1 even to the end of life1 is continually changing1 #ahe4 ,the common states of a man's life are called infancy1 childhood1 youth1 manhood1 and old age1 #ahe4 ,no subsequent state of life is the same as a preceding one1 #ahf4 ,the last state is such as the successive order is1 from which it is formed and exists1 #cac4 ,what was the primeval state1 which is called a state of integrity1 #cee4 ,of the state of married partners after death1 #de-ed4 ,there are two states into which a man enters after death--an external and an internal state2 he comes first into his external state1 and afterwards into his internal1 #dg994 ,,statue1 the1 which ,nebuchadnezzar saw in a dream represented the ages of gold1 silver1 copper1 and iron1 #gh4 ,,stones signify natural truths1 and precious stones spiritual truths1 #gf4 ,,store1 abundant1 #bbj1 #bba4 ,,storehouse4--,the conjugial principle of one man with one wife is the storehouse of human life1 #deg4 ,,storge4--,the love called storge is the love of infants1 #cib4 ,this love prevails equally with the evil and the good1 and1 in like manner1 with tame and wild beasts2 it is even in some cases stronger and more ardent with evil men1 and also with wild beasts1 #cib4 ,the innocence of infancy is the cause of the love called storge1 #cie4 ,spiritual storge1 #baa4 ,,study1 what was the1 of the men who lived in the silver age1 #gf4 ,study of sciences in the spiritual world1 #bjg4 ,,stupidity of the age1 #dha4 ,,sublimation4--,the purification of conjugial love may be compared to the purification of natural spirits1 as effected by chemists1 and called sublimation1 #ade4 ,,subject1 every1 receives influx according to its form1 #hf4 ,all a man's affections and thoughts are in forms1 and thence from forms1 for forms are their subjects1 #ahf4 ,a subject without predicates is an entity which has no existence in reason1 #ff4 ,see ,substance4 ,,subsistence is perpetual existence1 #hf4 ,,substance4--,there is no substance without a form1 an unformed substance not being any thing1 #ff4 ,there is not any good or truth which is not in a substance as in its subject1 #ff4 ,every idea of man's1 however sublimated1 is substantial1 that is1 affixed to substance1 #ff4 ,material things derive their origin from things substantial1 #bjg4 ,in man1 all the affections of love1 and all the perceptions of wisdom1 are rendered substantial1 for substances are their subjects1 #cfa4 ,see ,form4 ,,substantial4--,the difference between what is substantial and what is material is like the difference between what is prior and what is posterior1 #ca4 ,spiritual things are substantial1 #cbh4 ,spirits and angels are in substantial and not in materials1 #cbh4 ,man after death is a substantial man1 because this substantial man lay inwardly concealed in the natural or material man1 #ca4 ,the substantial man sees the substantial man1 as the material man sees the material man1 #ca4 ,all things in the spiritual world are substantial and not material1 whence it is that there are in their perfection in that world1 all things which are in the natural world1 and many things besides1 #bjg4 ,every idea of man's1 however sublimated1 is substantial1 that is1 attached to substances1 #ff4 ,,successive4--,there is a successive order and a simultaneous order1 and there is an influx of successive order into simultaneous order1 #cad4 ,see ,order4 ,,summary of the ,lord's commandments1 #cdj1 #hb4 ,,sun4--,there is a sun of the spiritual world as there is a sun of the natural world1 #chj4 ,the sun of the spiritual world proceeds immediately from the ,lord1 who is in the midst of it1 #bce4 ,that sun is pure love #bce1 #chj1 #ecb4 ,it appears fiery before the angels1 altogether as the sun of our world appears before men1 #bce4 ,it does not set nor rise1 but stands constantly between the zenith and the horizon1 that is1 at the elevation of #de degrees1 #acg4 ,the spiritual sun is pure love1 and the natural sun is pure fire1 #ahb1 #ecb4 ,whatever proceeds from the spiritual sun partakes of life1 since it is pure love2 whatever proceeds from the natural sun partakes nothing of life1 since it is pure fire1 #ecb4 ,the spiritual sun is in the centre of the universe1 and its operation1 being without space and time1 is instant and present from first principles in last1 #cia4 ,for what end the sun of the natural world was created1 #bce4 ,the fire of the natural sun exists from no other source than from the fire of the spiritual sun1 which is divine love1 #chj4 ,,suppers4--,in heaven1 as in the world1 there are suppers1 #ai4 ,,survivor1 #cba4--,see ,deceased4 ,,swammerdam1 #daf4 ,,swans1 in the spiritual world1 signify conjugial love in the lowest region of the mind1 #bgj4 ,,swedenborg4--,he protests in truth that the memorable relations annexed to the chapters in this work are not fictions1 but were truly done and seen2 not seen in any state of the mind asleep1 but in a state of full wakefulness1 #a4 ,that it had pleased the ,lord to manifest ,himself unto him1 and send him to teach the things relating to the ,new ,church1 #a4 ,that the interiors of his mind and spirit were opened by the ,lord1 and that thence it was granted him to be in the spiritual world with angels1 and at the same time in the natural world with men1 #a1 #ci1 #cbf4 ,state of anxiety into which he fell when once he thought of the essence and omnipresence of ,god from eternity1 that is1 of ,god before the creation of the world1 #cbh4 ,the angels1 as well as himself1 did not know the differences between spiritual and natural1 because there had never before been an opportunity of comparing them together by any person's existing at the same time in both worlds2 and without such comparison and reference those differences were not ascertainable1 #cbg4 ,on a certain time1 as he was wandering through the streets of a great city inquiring for a lodging1 he entered a house inhabited by married partners of a different religion2 the angels instantly accosted him1 and told him they could not on that account remain with him there1 #bdb4 ,he had observed for twenty-five years continually1 from an influx perceptible and sensible1 that it is impossible to think analytically concerning any form of government1 civil law1 moral virtue1 or any spiritual truth1 unless the divine principle flows in from the ,lord's wisdom through the spiritual world1 #dai4 ,he declares1 that having related a thousand particulars respecting departed spirits1 he has never heard any one object1 how can such be their lot when they are not yet risen from their sepulchres1 the last judgment not being yet accomplished8 #bh4 ,,swedes1 #ajc1 #aab4 ,,sweetness4--,in heaven1 the chaste love of the sex is called heavenly sweetness1 #ee4 ,,sympathies4--,in the spiritual world sympathies are not only felt1 but also appear in the face1 the discourse1 and gesture1 #bgc4 ,with some married partners in the natural world1 there is antipathy in internals1 combined with apparent sympathy in their externals1 #bib4 ,sympathy derives its origin from the concordance of spiritual spheres1 which emanate from subjects1 #aga4 ,,tabernacle4--,in heaven1 the most ancient people dwell in tabernacles1 because1 whilst in the world1 they lived in tabernacles1 #ge4 ,tabernacle of their worship exactly similar to the tabernacle of which the form was showed to ,moses on ,mount ,sinai1 #ge4 ,,tables of wood and stone on which were the writings of the most ancient people1 #gg4 ,tablet with this inscription1 ,the covenant between ,jehovah and the ,heavens1 #ge4 ,,tartarus1 #ge4--,shades of ,tartarus1 #ge4 ,,tartary4--,the ante-,mosaic ,word1 at this day lost1 is reserved only in ,great ,tartary1 #gg4 ,,taste1 sense of4--,the love of self-nourishment1 grounded in the love of imbibing goods1 is the sense of tasting1 and the delights proper to it are the various kinds of delicate foods1 #baj4 ,,temperance is one of those moral virtues which have respect to life and enter into it1 #afd4 ,,temple1 description of a1 in heaven1 #bc4 ,temple of wisdom1 where the causes of the beauty of the female sex were discussed1 #ef4 ,,temporal4--,idea of what is temporal in regard to marriages1 effect that it produced on two married partners from heaven present with ,swedenborg1 #baf4 ,,theatres in the heavens1 #ag4--,see ,actors4 ,,thing1 every1 created by the ,lord is representative1 #bid4 ,,think1 to1 spiritually is to think abstractedly from space and time1 and to think naturally is to think in conjunction with space and time1 #cbh4 ,to think and conclude from an interior and prior principle is to think and conclude from ends and causes to effects1 but to think and conclude from an exterior or posterior principle1 is to think and conclude from effects to causes and ends1 #djh4 ,the spiritual man thinks of things incomprehensible and ineffable to the natural man1 #cbf4 ,,thought is the existere1 or existence of a man's life1 from the esse or essence1 which is love1 #cf4 ,spiritual thoughts1 compared with natural1 are thoughts of thoughts1 #cbf4 ,spiritual thoughts are the beginnings and origins of natural thoughts1 #cbj4 ,spiritual thought so far exceeds natural thought as to be respectively ineffable1 #cbf4 ,,thunder4--,clapping of the air like thunder is a correspondence and consequent appearance of the conflict and collision of arguments amongst spirits1 #dae4 ,,tones1 discordant1 brought into harmony1 #bdc4 ,,touch1 to4--,this sense is common to all the other senses1 and hence borrows somewhat from them1 #baj4 ,it is the sense proper to conjugial love1 #baj4 ,the love of knowing objects1 grounded on the love of circumspection and self-preservation1 is the sense of touching1 and the gratifications proper to it are the various kinds of titillation1 #baj4 ,the innocence of parents and the innocence of children meet each other by the touch1 especially of the hands1 #cif4 ,see ,sense4 ,,trades4--,in the spiritual world there are trades1 #bjg4 ,,tranquillity is in conjugial love1 and relates to the mind1 #ahj4 ,,transcribed1 to be4--,whereas every man 7homo7 by birth inclined to love himself1 it was provided from creation1 to prevent man's perishing by self-love1 and the conceit of his own intelligence1 that that love of the man 7vir7 should be transcribed into the wife1 #cec1 #hh1 #aic1 #bic4 ,,transcription1 the1 of the good of one person into another is impossible1 #ebe4 ,,tree1 a1 signifies man1 #ace4 ,the tree of life signifies man living from ,god1 or ,god living in man1 #ace4 ,to eat of this tree signifies to receive eternal life1 #ace4 ,the tree of the knowledge of good and evil1 signifies the belief that life for man is not ,god1 but self1 #ace4 ,by eating thereof signifies damnation1 #ace4 ,,trinity1 the ,divine1 is in ,jesus ,christ1 in whom dwells all the fulness of the ,godhead bodily1 #bd4 ,,truth4--,what the understanding perceives and thinks is called truth1 #dij4 ,truth is the form of good1 #aih1 #dic4 ,there is the truth of good1 and from this the good of truth1 or truth grounded in good1 and good grounded in that truth2 and in these two principles is implanted from creation an inclination to join themselves together into one1 #hh4 ,the truth of good1 or truth grounded in good1 is male 7or masculine71 and the good of truth1 or good grounded in truth1 is female 7or feminine71 #fa1 #hh4 ,see ,good and ,truth4 ,,truth does not admit of reasonings1 #dha4 ,,truths pertain to the understanding1 #abh4 ,,two4--,in every part of the body where there are not two1 they are divided into two1 #caf4 ,,tziim4--,in hell1 the forms of birds1 and under which the lascivious delights of adulterous love are presented to the view1 are birds called tziim1 #dcj4 ,,ulcers1 #bec4 ,,ultimate4--,it is a universal law that things primary exist1 subsist1 and persist from things ultimate1 #dd4 ,that the ultimate state is such as the successive order is1 from which it is formed and exists1 is a canon which1 from its truth1 must be acknowledged in the learned world1 #cac4 ,,ulysses1 companions of1 changed into hogs1 #eba4 ,,unchastity1 difference between1 and what is not chaste1 #aci4 ,unchastity is entirely opposed to chastity1 #aci4 ,there is a conjugial love which is not chaste1 and yet is not unchastity1 #aci4 ,the love opposite to conjugial love is essential unchastity1 #aci4 ,if the renunciations of whoredoms be not made from a principle of religion1 unchastity lies inwardly concealed like corrupt matter in a wound only outwardly healed1 #adi4 ,,unclean or ,,filthy1 every1 principle of hell is from adulterers1 #ejj4 ,,uncleanness1 #beb1 #dgb4 ,,understanding1 the4--,man has understanding from heavenly light1 #bcc4 ,the understanding considered in itself is merely the ministering and serving principle of the will1 #aif4 ,it is only the form of the will1 #dic4 ,man is capable of elevating his intellect above his natural loves1 #if4 ,see ,will and ,understanding4 ,,union4--,spiritual union of two married partners is the actual adjunction of the soul and mind of the one to the soul and mind of the other1 #cba4 ,conjugial love is the union of souls1 #agi1 #dhj1 #dhb4 ,union between two married partners in heaven is like that of the two tents in the breast1 which are called the heart and the lungs1 #ge4 ,,unity1 the1 of souls between two married partners in heaven is seen in their faces2 the life of the husband is in the wife1 and the life of the wife is in the husband--they are two bodies but one soul1 #ge4 ,,universals4--,whoever knows universals may afterwards comprehend particulars1 because the latter are in the former as parts in a whole1 #bfa4 ,good and truth are the universals of creation1 #hd1 #ib4 ,there are three universals of heaven and three universals of hell1 #bfa4 ,a universal principle exists from1 and consists of singulars1 #chh4 ,if we take away singulars1 a universal is a mere name1 and is like somewhat superficial1 which has no contents within1 #chh4 ,a universal truth is acknowledged by every intelligent man1 #fj4 ,every universal truth is acknowledged as soon as it is heard1 in consequence of the ,lord's influx and at the same time of the confirmation of heaven1 #fb4 ,,universe4--,the universe1 with all its created subjects1 is from the divine love1 by the divine wisdom1 or what is the same thing1 from the divine good1 by the divine truth1 #hg4 ,all things which proceed from the ,lord1 or from the sun1 which is from him1 and in which he is1 pervade the created universe1 even to the last of all its principles1 #chi4 ,all thing in the universe have relation to good and truth1 #fj4 ,in every thing in the universe good is conjoined with truth1 and truth with good1 #fj4 ,,use is essential good1 #ahc1 #gg4 ,use is doing good from love by wisdom1 #ahc4 ,creation can only be from divine love by divine wisdom1 in divine use1 #ahc4 ,all things in the universe are procreated and formed from use1 in use1 and for use1 #ahc4 ,all use is from the ,lord1 and is effected by angels and men1 as of themselves1 #g4 ,uses are the bonds of society2 there are as many bonds as there are uses1 and the number of uses is infinite1 #ah4 ,there are spiritual uses1 such as regard love towards ,god1 and love towards our neighbor1 #ah4 ,there are moral and civil uses1 such as regard the love of the society and state to which a man belongs1 and of his fellow-citizens among whom he lives1 #ah4 ,there are natural uses1 which regard the love of the world and its necessities1 #ah3 and there are corporeal uses1 such as regard the love of self-preservation with a view to superior uses1 #ah4 ,the delight of the love of uses is a heavenly delight1 which enters into succeeding delights in their order1 and according to the order of succession exalts them and makes them eternal1 #ah4 ,delights follow use1 and are also communicated to man according to the love thereof1 #fh4 ,the delight of being useful derives its essence from love1 and its existence from wisdom1 #e4 ,this delight1 originating in love and operating by wisdom1 is the very soul and life of all heavenly joys1 #e4 ,those who are only in natural and corporeal uses are satans1 loving only the world and themselves1 for the sake of the world2 and those who are only in corporeal uses are devils1 because they live to themselves alone1 and to others only for the sake of themselves1 #ah4 ,happiness is derived to every angel from the use he performs in his function1 #f4 ,the public good requires that every individual1 being a member of the common body1 should be an instrument of use in the society to which he belongs1 #g4 ,to such as faithfully perform uses1 the ,lord gives the love thereof1 #g4 ,so far as uses are done from the love thereof1 so far that love increases1 #bff4 ,the use of conjugial love is the most excellent of all uses1 #ahc1 #cje4 ,conjugial love is according to the love of growing wise1 for the sake of uses from the ,lord1 #ahc4 ,how can any one know whether he performs uses from self-love1 or from the love of uses8 #bff4 ,every one who believes in the ,lord1 and shuns evils as sins1 performs uses from the ,lord2 but every one who neither believes in the ,lord1 nor shuns evils as sins1 does uses from self1 and for the sake of self1 #bff4 ,all good uses in the heavens are splendid and refulgent1 #bff4 ,blessed lot of those who are desirous to have dominion from the love of uses1 #bff4 ,obs4--,use consists in fulfilling faithfully1 sincerely1 and carefully1 the duties of our functions1 ,t4,c4,r41 #gdd4 ,those things are called uses which1 proceeding from the ,lord1 are by creation in order1 ,d4,l4 and ,w41 #bih4 ,,uses of apparent love and friendship between married partners1 for the sake of preserving order in domestic affairs1 #bga1 and following1 #bhc4 ,,utility of apparent love and apparent friendship between married partners1 for the sake of preserving order in domestic affairs1 #bga1 and following1 #bhc4 ,,vapor4--,from reason it may be seen that the soul of man after death is not a mere vapor1 #bi4 ,,variety4--,there is a perpetual variety1 and there is not any thing the same with another thing1 #ebd4 ,heaven consists of perpetual varieties1 #ebd4 ,distinction between varieties and diversities1 #cbd4 ,see ,diversities4 ,,vegetables4--,wonders in the productions of vegetables1 #daf4 ,,vein4--,there is a certain vein latent in the affection of the will of every angel which attracts his mind to the execution of some purpose1 #f4 ,vein of conjugial love1 #dd1 #fh1 #ahc1 #bic1 #cac1 #dcc1 #dhb4 ,,ventricles of the brain1 #cae4 ,,vernal1 the1 principle exists only where warmth is equally united to light1 #acg4 ,with men 7homines7 there is a perpetual influx of vernal warmth from the ,lord1 it is otherwise with animals1 #acg4 ,in heaven1 where there is vernal warmth1 there is love truly conjugial1 #acg4 ,,violation of spiritual marriage1 #eae-ebj4 ,violation of spiritual marriage is violation of the ,word1 #eaf4 ,violation of the ,word is adulteration of good1 and falsification of truth1 #eag4 ,this violation of the ,word corresponds to scortations and adulteries1 #eah4 ,by whom1 in the ,christian church1 violation of the ,word is committed1 #eai4 ,,virginity4--,fate of those who have vowed perpetual virginity1 #aee1 #dfj1 #ejc4 ,,virgins1 #ba1 #bb1 #bic1 #cba1 #ejb1 #eaa4 ,the affection of truth is called a virgin1 #bic4 ,the virgins 7,matt4 xxv4 #a7 signify the church1 #ba4 ,quality of the state of virgins before and after marriage in heaven1 #ejb4 ,virgins of the fountain1 #bjg1 #bic4 ,the nine virgins1 or muses1 signify knowledge and science of every kind1 #ahb4 ,how a virgin is formed into a wife1 #aii4 ,,virtues1 moral1 and spiritual virtues1 #afd4 ,various graces and virtues of moral life represented in theatres in heaven1 #ag4 ,manly virtue1 #dcc1 #cee4 ,,visible4--,every one may confirm himself in favor of a divine principle or being1 from what is visible in nature1 #daf-dba4 ,,vision1 posterior1 #bcc4 ,,vitiated states of mind and body which are legitimate causes of separation1 #beb1 #bec4 ,,wars1 the1 of ,jehovah4 ,the name of the historical books of the ante-,mosaic ,word1 #gg4 ,,water ,,from ,,the ,,fountain1 to drink1 signifies to be instructed concerning truths1 and by truths concerning goods1 and thereby to grow wise1 #ahb4 ,,weasels4--,who they are who appear at a distance in the spiritual world like weasels1 #ead4 ,,whirlpools which are in the borders of the worlds1 #cci4 ,,white1 the color1 signifies intelligence1 #gf4 ,,white1 what is1 in heaven is truth1 #caf4 ,,whoredom1 spiritual1 is the falsification of truth1 which acts in unity with that which is natural1 because they cohere1 #hj4 ,whoredoms in the spiritual sense of the word signify the connubial connection of what is evil and false1 #dbh4 ,they signify the falsification of truth1 #eah4 ,whoredom is the destruction of society1 #cde4 ,they are imputed to every one after death1 not according to the deeds themselves1 but according to the state of the minds in the deeds1 #ecj4 ,,whoredoms in the spiritual sense signify the connection 7connubium7 of evil and false1 #dbh4 ,toleration of such evils in populous cities1 #dea4 ,,widow4--,why the state of a widow is more grievous than that of a widower1 #cbe4 ,,wife1 a1 is the love of a wise man's wisdom1 #ef4 ,she represents the love of her husband's wisdom1 #ba4 ,the wife signifies the good of truth1 #gf4 ,in heaven1 the wife is the love of her husband's wisdom1 and the husband is the wisdom of her love1 #ge4 ,the wife perceives1 sees1 and is sensible of the things which are in her husband1 in herself1 and thence as it were herself in him1 #agc4 ,there is with wives a sixth sense1 which is the sense of all the delights of the conjugial love of the husband1 and this sense is in the palms of the hands1 #aee994 ,conjugial love resides with chaste wives1 but still their love depends on the husband's1 #baf994 ,wives love the bonds of marriage if the men do1 #bag4 ,wives seated on a bed of roses1 #bic4 ,in a rosary1 #bid4 ,acts which certain wives employ to subject their husbands to their own authority1 #bib4 ,see ,woman1 ,married ,partners4 ,,will1 the1 is the receptacle of love1 for what a man loves that he wills1 #cdg4 ,will principle1 considered in itself1 is nothing but an affect and effect of some love1 #dfa4 ,whoever conjoins to himself the will of a man1 conjoins to himself the whole man1 #aif4 ,the will acts by the body1 wherefore1 if the will were to be taken away1 action would be instantly at a stand1 #did4 ,,will and ,,understanding4--,the will is the man himself1 and the understanding is the man as grounded in the will1 #dij4 ,the life of man essentially is his will1 and formally is his understanding1 #dic4 ,the will is the receptacle of good1 and the understanding is the receptacle of truth1 #aba4 ,love1 charity1 and affection1 belong to the will1 and perception and thought to the understanding1 #aba4 ,all things which are done by a man are done from his will and understanding1 and without these acting principles a man would not have either action or speech1 otherwise than as a machine1 #ebg4 ,whoever conjoins to himself the will of another1 conjoins also to himself his understanding1 #aif4 ,the understanding is not so constant in its thoughts as the will is in its affections1 #bba4 ,he that does not discriminate between will and understanding1 cannot discriminate between evils and goods4 #dij4 ,the will alone of itself acts nothing1 but whatever it acts1 it acts by the understanding1 and the understanding alone of itself acts nothing1 but whatever it acts1 it acts from the will1 #dij4 ,with every man the understanding is capable of being elevated according to knowledges1 but the will only by a life according to the truths of the church1 #bfi4 ,the natural man can elevate his understanding into the light of heaven1 and think and discourse spiritually1 but if the will at the same time does not follow the understanding1 he is still not elevated1 for he does not remain in that elevation1 but in a short time he lets himself down to his will1 and there fixes his station1 #cdg1 #die4 ,the will flows into the understanding1 but not the understanding into the will1 yet the understanding teaches what is good and evil1 and consults with the will1 that out of those two principles it may choose1 and do what is agreeable to it1 #dij4 ,the will of the wife conjoins itself with the understanding of the man1 and thence the understanding of the man with the will of the wife1 #aei4 ,in adultery of the reason1 the understanding acts from within1 and the will from without1 but in adultery of the will1 the will acts from within1 and the understanding from without1 #dij4 ,,wisdom is nothing but a form of love1 #dic4 ,it is a principle of life1 #acj4 ,wisdom1 considered in its fulness1 is a principle1 at the same time1 of knowledges1 of reason1 and of life1 #acj4 ,what wisdom is as a principle of life1 #acj1 #bic4 ,wisdom consists of truths1 #hd4 ,the understanding is the receptacle of wisdom1 #djj4 ,the abode of wisdom is in use1 #ah4 ,wisdom cannot exist with a man but by means of the love of growing wise1 #hh4 ,wisdom with men is twofold1 rational and moral2 their rational wisdom is of the understanding alone1 and their moral wisdom is of the understanding and life together1 #afc1 #bic4 ,rational wisdom regards the truths and goods which appear inwardly in man1 not as its own1 but as flowing in from the ,lord1 #ajb4 ,moral wisdom shuns evils and falses as leprosies1 especially the evils of lasciviousness1 which contaminate its conjugial love1 #ajb4 ,the things which relate to rational wisdom constitute man's understanding1 and those which relate to moral wisdom constitute his will1 #aie4 ,wisdom of wives1 #bjh4 ,the perception1 which is the wisdom of the wife1 is not communicable to the man1 neither is the rational wisdom of the man communicable to the wife1 #afh1 #bjh4 ,the moral wisdom of the man is not communicable to women1 so far as it partakes of rational wisdom1 #afh4 ,wisdom and conjugial love are inseparable companions1 #ih4 ,the ,lord provides conjugial love for those who desire wisdom1 and who consequently advance more and more into wisdom1 #ih4 ,there is no end to wisdom1 #ahe4 ,temple of wisdom1 #ef4 ,sports of wisdom1 #ahb1 #aea994 ,see ,love and ,wisdom4 ,,wise4--,a wise one is not a wise one without a woman1 or without love1 a wife being the love of a wise man's wisdom1 #ef4 ,,woman1 the1 was created and born to become the love of the understanding of a man1 #ee1 #ia4 ,woman was created out of the man1 hence she has an inclination to unite1 and1 as it were1 reunite herself with the man1 #agc4 ,conjugial love is implanted in every woman from creation1 #dji4 ,woman is actually formed into a wife1 according to the description in the book of creation1 #aic4 ,in the universe nothing was created more perfect than a woman of a beautiful countenance and becoming manners1 #ef4 ,the woman receives from the man the truth of the church1 #abe4 ,woman1 by a peculiar property with which she is gifted from her birth1 draws back the internal affections into the inner recesses of her mind1 #bgd4 ,affection1 application1 manners1 and form of woman1 #ia1 #bah4 ,women were created by the ,lord affections of the wisdom of men1 #ef4 ,they are created forms of the love of the understanding of men1 #ahg4 ,women have an interior perception of love1 and men only an exterior1 #dg994 ,in assemblies where the conversation of the men turns on subjects proper to rational wisdom1 women are silent1 and listen only1 the reason why1 #afe4 ,intelligence of wisdom1 #bah4 ,women cannot enter into the duties proper to men1 #age4 ,difference between females1 women1 and wives1 #aii4 ,see ,wife4 ,,wonders conspicuous in eggs1 #daf4 ,,wood signifies natural good1 #gg4 ,woods of palm-trees1 and of rose-trees1 #gg4 ,,word1 the ancient1 at this day is lost1 and is only reserved in ,great ,tartary1 #gg4 ,the historical books of this ,word are called the ,wars of ,jehovah1 and the prophetic books ,the ,enunciations1 #gg4 ,,word1 the1 with the most ancient1 and with the ancient people1 #gg4 ,,word1 the1 is the ,lord1 #eaf4 ,in every thing of the ,word there is the marriage of good and truth1 #eaf4 ,the ,word is the medium of conjunction of the ,lord with man1 and of man with the ,lord1 #abh4 ,in its essence it is divine truth united to divine good1 and divine good united to divine truth1 #abh4 ,it is the perfect marriage of good and truth1 #abh4 ,in every part of the ,word there is a spiritual sense corresponding to the natural sense1 and by means of the former sense the men of the church have conjunction with the ,lord1 and consociation with angels1 #ecb4 ,the sanctity of the ,word resides in this sense1 #e-cb4 ,while man reads the ,word1 and collects truths out of it1 the ,lord adjoins good1 #abh4 ,,workhouses1 infernal1 #bfd4 ,see also #ed1 #hj1 #dfa4 ,,works are good or bad1 according as they proceed from an upright will and thought1 or from a depraved will and thought1 whatever may be their appearance in externals1 #ebg4 ,good works are uses1 #aj4 ,,world ,,of ,,spirits1 the1 is intermediate between heaven and hell1 and there the good are prepared for heaven1 and the wicked for hell1 #dh991 #dcf1 #dfa1 #dgg4 ,it is in the world of spirits that all men are first collected after their departure out of the natural world1 #b1 #dgg4 ,the good are there prepared for heaven1 and the wicked for hell2 and after such preparation1 they discover ways open for them to societies of their like1 with whom they are to live eternally1 #aj1 #dgg4 ,,world1 the natural1 subsists from its sun1 which is pure fire1 #chj4 ,there is not anything in the natural world which is not also in the spiritual world1 #ahb1 #bjg4 ,in the natural world1 almost all are capable of being joined together as to external affections1 but not as to internal affections1 if these disagree and appear1 #bgb4 ,,world1 the spiritual1 subsists from its sun1 which is pure love1 as the natural world subsists from its sun1 #chj4 ,in the spiritual world there are not spaces1 but appearances of spaces1 and these appearances are according to the states of life of the inhabitants1 #ej4 ,all things there appear according to correspondences1 #gf4 ,all who1 from the beginning of creation have departed by death out of the natural world1 are in the spiritual world1 and as to their loves1 resemble what they were when alive in the natural world1 and continue such to eternity1 #gc4 ,in the spiritual world there are all such things there as there are on earth1 and those things in the heavens are infinitely more perfect1 #ahb4 ,obs4--,the spiritual world in general comprehends heaven1 the world of spirits1 and hell4 ,,worms4--,wonders concerning them1 #dah4 ,silk-worms1 #dbj4 ,,worship1 the1 of ,god in heaven returns at stated periods1 and lasts about two hours1 #bc4 ,,wrath4--,if love1 especially the ruling love1 be touched1 there ensues an emotion of the mind 7animus72 if the touch hurts1 there ensues wrath1 #ceh4 ,,writers4--,the most ancient writers1 whose works remain to us1 do not go back beyond the iron age1 #gc4 ,see ,writings4 ,,writings1 the1 of the most ancient and of the ancient people are not extant3 the writings which exist are those of authors who lived after the ages of gold1 silver1 and iron1 #gc4 ,writings of some learned authoresses1 examined in the spiritual world in the presence of those authoresses1 #age4 ,the writings1 which proceed from ingenuity and wit1 on account of the elegance and neatness of the style in which they are written1 have the appearance of sublimity and erudition1 but only in the eyes of those who call all ingenuity by the name of wisdom1 #age4 ,writing in the heavens1 #ahb1 #cbf4 ,,xenophon1 #aea994 ,,youth4--,in heaven1 all are in the flower of youth1 and continue therein to eternity1 #bej4 ,all who come into heaven return into their vernal youth1 and into the powers appertaining to that age1 and thus continue to eternity1 #dd4 ,infants in heaven do not grow up beyond their first age1 and there they stop1 and remain therein to eternity1 #daa1 #ddd2 and that when they attain the stature which is common to youths of eighteen years old in the world1 and to virgins of fifteen1 #ddd4 ,,youth4--,in heaven they remain forever in state of youth1 #cee4 ,see ,age4 ,,youth1 ,a4--,the state of marriage of a youth with a widow1 #cbb4 ,how a youth formed into a husband1 #aii4 ,,youthful4--,with men1 the youthful principle is changed into that of a husband1 #aii4 ,,zeal is of love1 #ceh4 ,zeal is a spiritual burning or flame1 #cei4 ,zeal is not the highest degree of love1 but it is burning love1 #ceh4 ,the quality of a man's zeal is according to the quality of his love1 #cfb4 ,there are the zeal of a good love and the zeal of an evil love1 #cfb4 ,these two zeals are alike in externals1 but altogether unlike in internals1 #cfc4 ,the zeal of a good love in its internals contains a hidden store of love and friendship2 but the zeal of an evil love in its internals contains a hidden store of hatred and revenge1 #cfe4 ,the zeal of conjugial love is called jealousy1 #cfg4 ,wives are1 as it were1 burning zeals for the preservation of friendship and conjugial confidence1 #aee994 ,,zealous 7,zelotes74--,why ,jehovah in the ,word is called zealous1 #cff4